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00:01:06.360 guests introduce themselves one more time so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead

00:01:10.980 my name is azalea i'm 31 and i'm a flight attendant and content creator

00:01:14.720 what kind of uh content do you twitch streaming only fans and yeah all right what about you

00:01:22.080 my name is lexi i am 22 years old and i'm a full-time sex worker okay and when you say sex

00:01:28.200 worker what do you what do you mean um i do content creating like on only fans as well as stripping

00:01:34.260 at strip clubs and i work as a legal courtesan in nevada a courtesan a legal prostitute okay so

00:01:43.280 is there have you ever been to a court like not not like uh for criminal reasons but like uh

00:01:50.700 have you ever you know what i meant no no but like courtesan you know i mean there's there's

00:01:57.260 still kings out there that have a court so you could like the philippines do they have a king

00:02:03.240 do you know i don't think no there's some kings out there there's the king of sweden king of

00:02:09.340 so like an actual you know court courtesan okay all right she's a courtesan folks okay uh what about

00:02:18.180 illegal prostitute that's the term for it okay hi my name is pixie i'm 24 years old and i stream

00:02:26.980 politics on twitch all right welcome back um i'm sc i'm 24 i have two jobs my passion is social media

00:02:35.300 management and then i do only fans as well hey there i'm olivia bentley and i am an intimacy coach

00:02:42.740 i am a legal sex worker and i am an only fans content creator did you say age 46 46 okay got it

00:02:52.980 hi i'm tara i'm 22 years old and i'm an eeg technician and research assistant in the field

00:02:59.540 of clinical neuroscience

00:03:03.460 i'm lily i'm 23 years old and i'm a couple things i'm a student at belmont i'm graduating soon and

00:03:09.540 i'm a personal trainer and my goal is to be a worship artist gotta make money though i am candace

00:03:16.740 owens i'm a wife i'm a mother first and i also obviously have a political podcast documentary

00:03:23.940 filmmaker and just create a ton of content regarding what's going on in the media landscape sweet and you

00:03:30.660 have tomorrow uh a documentary yeah coming soon yes convicting a murderer um what what time does it

00:03:38.260 drop um you can watch it live on x tomorrow night so we're super excited about that it also will be

00:03:43.540 available on daily wire plus the first two episodes will be free and yeah it's jumping into kind of

00:03:49.140 building on netflix made making a murderer made it seem as if steven avery was guilty i don't know if

00:03:53.620 you guys watched that um it was very everyone was obsessed with this idea that the justice system

00:03:59.460 got it wrong we kind of went in re-examined the case and created convicting a murderer which is

00:04:05.060 a 10-part series first docu-series i think we've ever done at the daily wire um extremely proud of

00:04:10.260 it it's apolitical first and foremost and um it's you know it's been a labor of love so i'm super

00:04:16.740 excited to bring it to everybody and to change people's minds about what they thought they originally

00:04:20.820 knew about the case so yeah and you went if i you went boots on the ground in was it manitowoc

00:04:28.420 county i went to steven avery's uh the junkyard junkyard yep and yeah just i like to get my hands

00:04:35.860 dirty in terms of really understanding what's going on and talking to people in the town seeing how they

00:04:40.260 are impacted because for us we scroll through our cell phones aimlessly and we comment on these cases

00:04:46.100 but real lives are impacted when something goes viral and especially when something goes viral and

00:04:49.940 produces the wrong answer lives can be destroyed and in this particular circumstance you have a man

00:04:55.140 and his nephew that are in prison and they get love letters and they've got fiancés and adoring fans

00:04:59.780 and people writing songs about them and that's all because netflix was able to produce a docu-series and

00:05:05.380 people believe that everything they watch is real and so i'm really interested in dissecting

00:05:11.140 the deceptive media narrative in a bunch of different circumstances just you know what they're feeding

00:05:16.820 people what people think is the norm what people think will bring them happiness what people think

00:05:20.660 is true and so that's kind of been my shtick so to speak for the last yeah i i remember uh seeing

00:05:27.700 making a murder when it came out i think it was 2015 correct and then they came out with like a part two

00:05:33.060 a couple years later and basically my understanding is your documentary is saying

00:05:38.340 nah he did that about and that's the most eloquent way to put it i mean there's obviously you go you

00:05:45.220 you would go into some details and you've reanalyzed the court footage and the documents and um

00:05:51.780 yeah just showing people what they didn't want you to see essentially because when when people decide

00:05:56.180 in a narrative the media gets fully behind it it's a full court effort it's supported by the usual

00:06:02.100 pundits and suspects alec baldwin got behind the steven avery innocent train nobody thought about the

00:06:06.900 woman who actually was killed and murdered trevor noah got behind it you know i i kind of say anything

00:06:11.380 that goes from netflix to alec baldwin to trevor noah you should immediately have your radar up and

00:06:16.340 just go am i hearing the truth or am i listening to propaganda and i'm fascinated by the impact of

00:06:21.540 propaganda i've been impacted by propaganda you know i'm obviously a person that started with liberal

00:06:26.740 tendencies i think everyone knows that part of my story i was uh left-leaning so to speak and now i'm

00:06:33.060 super conservative so it's right on par with everything that i do and everything that i've learned in my

00:06:38.100 life about you know not just accepting what the media is trying to spoon feed you what one question

00:06:44.820 so and i don't know if you want to save some of this for what's in the actual documentary but uh

00:06:50.180 what would you say is like the most egregious thing making a murderer did that they just either something

00:06:56.500 that was deceptive or something that was omitted if there's one thing that was just the biggest

00:07:01.220 smoking gun or yeah well i think i can definitely tell you this because this will be within the next 24

00:07:05.460 hours people will be able to see this um but just skipping over who he was before he they believed

00:07:12.020 was wrongly convicted of this murder people tend to tell you who they are early on and a person that's

00:07:16.980 torturing animals and cats and dogs and you know in a relationship that is you know with a minor who's

00:07:25.860 crying and talking about that you know he just had a very long thick packet of crimes that they decided

00:07:30.660 not to mention or to entirely diminish and make it seem like oh that was nothing yeah so what he

00:07:36.260 threw a cat in the fire and doused it in gasoline the family pet not normal behavior not something

00:07:41.700 that we do when we have a couple of drinks um and they i think that was kind of the most egregious

00:07:46.740 thing really unpacking everything that they chose to leave out about who he was can i make a pitch to

00:07:51.780 you and to the daily wire yes the next document documentary can you guys look into the tiger king

00:07:59.540 could you guys maybe matt put matt walsh and michael knolls on it my god matt walsh and the tiger king

00:08:04.660 needs to happen i'm fully behind you on this pitch yes i will bring this to the right people who can

00:08:09.540 make the right decisions yeah please can i get like a little special thanks in the uh

00:08:14.260 matt walsh and the tiger king is irresistible yeah is that do you think that would be matt walsh would

00:08:19.780 be the best yes the daily wire to tackle the yes okay there's just something about the fact that

00:08:24.740 matt's a cat and he always kind of gives you the impression that he doesn't want to be there and he

00:08:28.340 just has to kind of lecture us all like he's like the classic dad right and i just find him to be so

00:08:33.460 funny even when he's not trying to be funny okay yeah nice cool well we're we'll go around the table

00:08:39.780 once more so what is your everybody's current relationship status so are you single are you in

00:08:48.260 the talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule are you

00:08:54.980 in whatever maybe uh so if you're single how long have you been single and what's your longest

00:09:00.420 relationship starting with you go ahead um i'm in a relationship i have been for about a year and a

00:09:05.140 half and my longest relationship is two years okay

00:09:09.540 i am single and my longest relationship was probably about four years how long have you been

00:09:18.580 single um i've been single for about i want to say a year now okay i'm single um my longest

00:09:29.220 relationship was like around three to four years and i've been single since like february around there

00:09:35.140 okay um single um i've been single for six years almost now so since you're pretty much 18 you've

00:09:45.140 been single right okay gotcha has did you have like a high school boyfriend or anything like that or

00:09:51.300 yeah i think i dated two guys in high school but it was very at the same time no separately okay okay

00:09:57.300 gotcha what about you so i just got out of a relationship of six months with a federal agent

00:10:03.060 and i am single ready to mingle federal agents yeah cia fbi oh coast guard oh wait that's not a

00:10:11.380 never mind federal agent um down in texas so yeah got it um and what's your longest relationship

00:10:19.300 you've ever had um i would say seven years seven years were you married or i was okay gotcha

00:10:27.300 all right i'm currently single my longest relationship was a little over a year and i've

00:10:35.380 been single for about one year um i just started talking to somebody a couple weeks ago but i guess

00:10:43.540 i'm single and my longest relationship was about three years wait sorry you you just started talking to

00:10:50.980 somebody but you're i'm i've been single since february 2022 and so this is it's really fresh

00:10:58.340 okay i would still consider myself it's early on okay uh candace i'm married i'm married third child

00:11:04.500 on the way third child will be here in 10 weeks oh you're pregnant right now yes are you kidding me

00:11:08.980 very pregnant right now okay uh but it's good of you not to assume right yeah i don't want to

00:11:13.460 yeah i don't want to get into any trouble um you're how far along 30 weeks 30 oh wow okay yeah

00:11:22.180 any thoughts on is it a boy thoughts on whether it's a boy no i have a biological understanding

00:11:28.580 that it's a boy okay um no i didn't mean it that way let's keep the thoughts out of it yeah yeah it's

00:11:34.340 definitely a boy and uh i have one boy already at home who's two and i have a little girl that's one

00:11:41.380 so we're on the back to i've basically been pregnant for three years so this is kind of

00:11:45.300 my permanent state at the moment yeah well i mean it's yeah congrats and uh it's certainly

00:11:50.100 impressive that you still uh are you're working like crazy and uh yeah well otherwise you'll just

00:11:55.940 drive yourself crazy yeah sweet um and how long have you been married for four years four years

00:12:02.500 gotcha okay and you you said um earlier on that you used to be kind of left-leaning or

00:12:12.820 definitely left-leaning okay yeah which i think is free no no there's no there's no old photos that

00:12:18.980 are going to surface of me in a pussy hat screaming about aborting my children i'm safe in that regard

00:12:24.420 but um i mean i would say i was definitely on the left held liberal perspectives which i think is

00:12:31.380 actually really normal when you're young i think when you're young you kind of associate liberalism

00:12:36.180 with freedom and you're like well i mean even the word sounds better to be a liberal than to be a

00:12:40.420 conservative um so i i think that that's why they have that quote that if you're not a liberal when

00:12:45.940 you're young you don't have a heart if you're not a conservative when you're older you don't have a

00:12:48.820 brain so it turns out i had a heart and i do have a brain uh so now i'm a conservative and um but i'm

00:12:55.940 actually happy that i used to be a liberal because i i think i understand why people gravitate toward

00:13:01.700 it and it helps me better able to communicate to people because i can understand where they're at

00:13:07.460 got it and since uh we i feel like politics is sort of related to dating because obviously you want i

00:13:16.180 assume most people want to date and partner with someone who has shared values so let's go around the

00:13:22.020 table what's everybody's politics would you consider yourself let's say liberal moderate conservative

00:13:28.660 apolitical i mean i guess i would have liberal stances or what people would call liberal stances

00:13:34.580 i don't like to call myself a liberal but that would be where i guess progressive put me progressive

00:13:40.580 would be a good word for it yeah okay i guess liberal okay i consider myself a progressive

00:13:55.540 okay i would say i'm as an independent where it's like in between but kind of more so leading

00:14:04.260 right just based off of how i was raised how were you raised super conservative

00:14:10.420 super uh religious okay so so maybe moderate politically maybe are there some things you're

00:14:18.100 a bit more uh progressive on other things are a bit more conservative on yeah okay what about you so

00:14:24.740 when i started out um in my early 20s i can relate to candace i was a little bit more um on the left

00:14:31.220 and then as time has gone on and i've i've worked real jobs and i've been out in the real world i'm more

00:14:36.260 to the right i am independent and i don't like our two-party system i think it's failed um but i would

00:14:43.460 say i lean more to the right okay i was raised very liberal but i found myself becoming more conservative

00:14:52.500 especially over the past three years but i wouldn't fully call myself a conservative yet i would just say

00:14:56.020 i'm still centrist good place to be um same i used to be pretty liberal but i am very very conservative

00:15:06.260 oh you already answered okay okay cool all right uh so i have a first question here so

00:15:19.700 i'm trying to hold on i'm seeing where i want to start here actually wait we had we had one chat

00:15:23.060 come in i'll just read it while we have a goodest boy thank you for being on the show candace but the

00:15:26.580 world is effed can already tell from the panel that your views will not change their outlook never say

00:15:31.300 never brian you could be an amazing psyoper just saying i've had a couple accusations that this show

00:15:38.420 is a psyop by the cia believe it or not i've had a couple you have any show that is an accusation that

00:15:44.980 you get have you had oh my god yeah it's just it's candace owens shows a psyop by who though who's

00:15:51.860 who is psyoping okay uh but uh goodest boy thank you very much for that and then we had a uh we had a

00:15:58.980 couple uh we had this one seven deadly simps donated 200 can you boost the audio dear candace

00:16:05.380 what are your thoughts on proverbs 21 19 better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging

00:16:12.180 wife so 777 decillion 777 no million seven hundred and seventy seven seven octillion seven hundred and

00:16:22.100 seventy uh he's just kind of joke he's kind of meaning because seven hundred and seventy seven the tts voice

00:16:29.700 will read anything quadrillion um but so uh thank you seven deadly since seven billion it's almost i think it's

00:16:37.620 i think it's almost seven hundred and seventy seven thousand seven hundred and seventy seven

00:16:42.660 welcome to the whatever podcast uh uh so your thoughts on proverbs 21 19. i like that we just

00:16:49.460 jumped right into the bible that's awesome yeah there you go um i would say yeah you should aspire to marry

00:16:54.820 the right person definitely okay without question you should aspire to marry the right person and and

00:17:01.620 part of that is making sure that when you're dating you're dating somebody of value and that also when

00:17:07.780 you're considering looking for someone of value you also take a second to measure yourself and see if

00:17:12.900 you are a person of value that's worthy of marrying because i think people forget that part um and i

00:17:17.780 that's almost the most important part got it so recently uh a video went pretty viral on the internet

00:17:24.180 and candace you actually tweeted about it something about shashuka i don't know if i'm saying that right

00:17:29.380 um so nick if you can pull a video we're going to just have the panel react to it and then before

00:17:33.220 you go full screen on that so matt walsh posted it and i saw this everywhere i saw it yesterday

00:17:38.660 uh her life doesn't revolve around her family and kids so instead it revolves around tv shows and pop

00:17:43.860 stars worst of all she's too stupid to realize how depressing this is and then candace uh quote

00:17:50.900 exed it quote tweeted i don't know anymore he okay quote exed it this is what this is what was

00:17:58.100 future wait this is what was okay this is what a future sorry uh future depression xanax and wine

00:18:05.860 combo nights alone looks like but hey the shashuka amazing um so let's play the video nick if you can

00:18:14.100 go full screen on it and then we'll get the panel's reaction xanax wine nights it's 10 45 am on a saturday

00:18:20.660 i'm 29 and single and i don't have kids yet here's what your saturday morning looks like when you're

00:18:26.100 single at 29 and you don't have a kid running around the house i didn't rise from my bed until

00:18:31.540 10 15. every time i thought i should probably get up and do something i thought why nobody's making me

00:18:36.900 i'm not missing out on anything i went to beyonce last night and i didn't get home until 1 a.m and i

00:18:41.460 danced and drank my little heart out and i didn't pay a babysitter to watch my kids as i did that and i

00:18:46.100 woke up a tad hungover this morning just probably why i was in bed for so long and i was just scrolling

00:18:50.740 on my phone and i saw a picture of shakshuka and i thought you know it sounds really good maybe i'm

00:18:55.460 gonna learn how to make shakshuka today because i have no plans and i don't have kids and i don't

00:18:59.860 have a husband and i don't have errands to run i can go to the grocery store and learn how to make

00:19:04.580 shakshuka so that's on my agenda today also on my agenda probably a rewatch of some real house

00:19:09.060 lives of new york i'm also doing a rewatch of normal people on hulu which is really spicy and i

00:19:13.460 highly recommend weirdly i'm into this documentary on netflix about blue zone countries so i've got a pretty

00:19:18.660 stack day anyway i say all this to say whenever i'm hard on myself about why i'm not married and

00:19:24.420 i don't have kids and i should be further along at 29 almost 30 i wouldn't want to do anything else

00:19:30.180 this saturday i know that you can do all these things when you have kids and you're married

00:19:35.140 and i understand but the effortlessness and ease of my life just kind of focusing on myself and the

00:19:41.860 shakshuka i want to make or the beyonce concert i want to go to really pays off when i'm hard on

00:19:47.940 myself for not being where society tells me i should be in life i thought i thought it was

00:19:52.980 going to be really her going so um what why do you guys think that this video went kind of crazy

00:20:02.660 viral and what what's the analysis here i mean it went crazy viral because matt walsh tweeted it

00:20:08.740 let's be real that would have just gone into the ethosphere on tick tock and no one would have

00:20:13.380 talked about it had he not picked that up and tweeted it well was matt i don't know if matt

00:20:17.380 walsh was like the first he was oh was he really okay i didn't i didn't know that but i guess my

00:20:24.820 what's interesting to me is that this woman has actually even said you know she gives herself a

00:20:29.780 hard time she wants to be married she wants to have children so i don't think that it's right to

00:20:34.020 demonize her and act like she's going to have a depressing life when she just hasn't found the right

00:20:37.780 person because clearly she wants those things and she's trying to make herself feel better and other

00:20:42.100 people in that community feel better about not being that far along because like you said you

00:20:46.420 wanted people to settle down with the right person take their time figure out if that's the right

00:20:50.900 person so just because she's 29 you're saying that it's like too late for her and she's going to be

00:20:55.140 doing xanax and drinking wine at night because she hasn't reached that point i didn't say that

00:20:58.740 that's not what my tweet said you said the future yeah right because she's obviously a narcissist

00:21:04.980 right so like why would you first and foremost let's not let's not pretend this is one video that she

00:21:09.460 made it's her brand on tick tock it's her brand on social media she talks about these these are this

00:21:14.180 community known as dinks we're happy and we're childless she talks about how great it is to be

00:21:18.180 childless so she has developed she's a social media influencer that talks about childlessness so let's

00:21:22.740 not pretend this is one woman making a video who just said oh i had a great saturday there's absolutely

00:21:27.300 no reason if you had a great saturday at 29 years old and you learned to make shashuka and you slept in

00:21:32.340 at 11 until 11 15 or 10 15 whatever she said that you need to bring up children there's absolutely no

00:21:37.780 reason you just say here's what i did today i laid in all day i did this i did that the fact that she

00:21:43.300 has to correlate it to saying and this somehow makes me better than people that have children

00:21:47.460 is the problem she started she she literally goes on to talk about not having children it wasn't

00:21:52.900 necessary in this video so it's not like people are just shaming single women on the internet you

00:21:56.260 could go on right now and talk about what you've done all day and there's no reason to bring up but you

00:22:01.300 know having a having a child or not she's actually doing the shaming and now we're trying to pretend that

00:22:05.620 she's the victim she's not she has a brand where she talks about childlessness and she talks about

00:22:10.180 leaning into selfishness and all the things that are amazing about not having children again this is

00:22:14.180 not the first video that she's produced so the reason why and if you're a man watching this don't

00:22:19.300 marry this woman she's basically telling you she's selfish she's telling you she's a narcissist everything

00:22:23.860 she says is about me me me me even if you're single you don't have to make your whole day revolve around

00:22:27.940 you you don't have to you can get up in the morning you can go help others you can do other things

00:22:32.660 you can say now that i have free time as a single woman i can go dedicate time to the church i can

00:22:38.100 sing i can do this i can help people find god that particular woman that you just looked at is a

00:22:43.060 selfish bitch and men shouldn't should mention not marry her that's my personal opinion you wanted to

00:22:47.220 come in really quick yes i wanted to answer your question real quick as to you said why it went viral

00:22:52.900 i think it went viral because it's like nowadays it's like it's relatable in our day and age you

00:23:02.980 know what i mean like 22 23 years old i don't know how old this girl is but like 29 29 or whatever but

00:23:10.340 in my day and age like it's relatable to be like haha we don't got kids like

00:23:15.380 you're 22 them kids you know what i mean it's like i'm glad you're admitting that it's like that

00:23:19.540 i'm glad you're admitting that it's like a term that people use you know what i mean and it's like

00:23:24.820 it's just relatable like that's why it gets so many views is what to answer your question i think

00:23:30.500 that's really honest of you to say that you wanted to come and go yeah kids yeah no i said i'm just

00:23:35.780 gonna i was gonna what they say yeah but you're admitting that that so that she's starting the fight

00:23:40.100 you're looking at it's a trend that are trending when i'm with my kids right i don't post videos and

00:23:45.860 say f them single chicks with no kids right she did the baiting okay and we responded that's it

00:23:51.620 i don't know the first thing i was gonna say hold on let's just let essie go ahead the first thing i

00:23:55.700 noticed about the video was that she was putting people with kids down it'd be fine if she was

00:24:00.660 talking about how her day was and sporting it differently but it seemed like almost immediately

00:24:04.180 from the beginning of the video that she was belittling people with kids which i think is like

00:24:08.020 the part of the problem pixie go ahead yeah no i think this is like up to interpretation because

00:24:13.300 personally when i saw that video my interpretation was like oh she's putting herself down because

00:24:18.100 she's saying like oh you know when i tell myself why am i not further along in life you know it's

00:24:23.060 okay because at least i'm enjoying these things so i could definitely see like depending on how you're

00:24:27.540 looking at it or if you have further context why you would think she's putting kids down but when i

00:24:31.860 saw that video by itself i was thinking like people are kind of going a little bit overboard in the sense

00:24:36.740 that she says she's being harsh on herself she doesn't have children and these are just the things

00:24:41.620 that have made her happy today and i don't think that by itself without additional context is

00:24:46.740 inherently wrong anybody yeah tara did you yeah did i say it right this time yeah okay okay i mean i

00:24:53.540 don't know the background of what other types of content and messaging she puts out but just from

00:24:58.580 that video alone i don't think i it she ever to me i never got the impression she was shaming people

00:25:04.100 that did that women that were married kids it felt like she felt bad that she wasn't already there and

00:25:08.740 she was just trying to be optimistic about it and so i think it sounded more like her content was

00:25:14.100 about making women who are childless and not married yet and are approaching the end of their

00:25:19.380 reproductive years to like look on the bright side but i really and i'm i'm the i all my friends know i'm

00:25:25.620 like so eager and ready for like marriage and kids but um i i really honestly just didn't get that

00:25:31.860 impression from that video alone that it was she was in any way so when she was talking about i got to go to

00:25:36.420 a beyonce concert and i didn't have to pay for a babysitter you don't think that was a little

00:25:39.700 yeah it's so yeah that was selfish of her to say that yeah she sounds selfish and she was being

00:25:44.500 rude and if it was flipped and a conservative woman with children said the opposite of that to single

00:25:49.780 women it would blow up it would blow up and they would say how rude of you to why are you even

00:25:53.140 mentioning single women just say your hat you had a good day with your kids that's fine if i said i

00:25:56.500 woke up once the apartments my kids did that okay chill why are you correlating it to children it

00:26:02.100 doesn't you know it doesn't make any sense so and like i said she's produced more content so that the

00:26:06.020 context is important she's leaned into this as a brand and as an influencer so you know then you're

00:26:11.300 going to expect people that influence people to have families to respond matt walsh being among them

00:26:15.460 me being among them and i do would like to again warn men against marrying a woman who holds those

00:26:21.060 sorts of perspectives because she's ultimately just selfish like i said you can have a day and you can be

00:26:26.100 single you don't have to dedicate your whole it's me me me me narcissist me here's what i did for me

00:26:31.060 it's just not a woman that you want to marry full stop for leaving apart leave leaving the kids

00:26:35.700 totally separate from it i wouldn't marry a woman like that go ahead and all i'm saying is like

00:26:39.780 it is it's sad but it's crazy that like it's a trend you know what i mean like that's why

00:26:45.220 they're getting so many views on tick tock or instagram or whatever they're posting these things

00:26:50.180 on it's like it's a trend and yeah you know it's crazy just a show of hands who here wants to have

00:26:57.940 kids one day more yeah it's my third but besides candace does anyone here have kids you got kids how

00:27:07.380 many i have um a son he's 21 okay gotcha he's perfect and i'm good okay but one thing i notice um a trend

00:27:16.100 like i agree that it's a trend and and she's doing that to brand herself and and go viral and

00:27:21.940 get a lot of attention and maybe monetize that um when i talk with other girls and they're younger

00:27:27.540 and i'll say are you married are you are you planning on having children sometimes that's a hot button

00:27:33.140 for them and it's maybe perhaps a you know these kind of trends are like the it's a rebellious thing

00:27:40.340 because sometimes it's expected for for people to to get married out of the gate and have children

00:27:46.580 and that kind of traditional lifestyle if it's an expectation that parents have that they put on

00:27:51.860 on their children and younger generations aren't having it especially these days when it's so hard

00:27:57.700 to i mean it's so expensive people are having to work a lot you know i mean that's just one

00:28:02.420 thing i've noticed a little pushback on that question even when i ask it and and i love children

00:28:08.180 gotcha and did i don't recall if you had a response to candace or i mean i was just going

00:28:14.740 to say the opposite content does exist and i would say that it's more prevalent and

00:28:19.540 usually there's more of it than there is the opposite and whatever community she wants to

00:28:23.540 represent i think that somebody that is single and obviously like i said she closed out the video

00:28:27.860 saying i know that women that are married and have children can do all of these things as well but

00:28:32.100 this is what makes me feel better because i'm not that far along and i think if she's giving comfort

00:28:36.260 and solace to women that want to be in that position and aren't quite there yet whether you

00:28:40.020 took it that way or not i think that that's okay i don't think anything that she did in there was

00:28:44.420 meant to be charitable it was all about her so i mean just a different different interpretation but

00:28:49.620 i'm just happy that you were honest admitted that it is becoming trendy to put down women like yeah

00:28:53.780 yeah and but by the way speaking to what you were saying about it being an act of rebellion

00:28:58.260 i used to be a feminist if you had found me you're 22 right found me at 22 i would have probably had

00:29:03.140 the same perspectives as you about family it is something different and you will realize that when

00:29:08.420 it's someone that's 29 years old and saying that it's not the same intention it's not i'm young i'm

00:29:12.580 free i'm wild and i think i'm gonna live forever um what she's doing is something different and also

00:29:18.020 just recently today actually uh emily emma emma robertschkowski came out with a quote about

00:29:22.820 i think getting divorced before you're 30 is chic that's something else and that a woman at 22

00:29:28.820 everyone at 29 saying something that is appropriate when you're at 21 or 22 it's a little different and

00:29:33.940 she knew what she was doing it was intentional and like i said if you look into our content this is not

00:29:38.260 some innocent woman that was posting just to boost herself up on the internet she's trying to get

00:29:42.260 clicks she's trying to get views and she got them for better or worse i want to uh come back a little bit

00:29:49.140 now to people's uh relationship status so uh or not even so much relationship status but perhaps

00:29:57.540 it's related um so both of you do uh court courtships sex court courtesan courtesan that's um an old

00:30:10.260 fashion historical term okay back in the day courtesans were able to um own property whereas the little miss

00:30:18.900 didn't have that ability the way the laws were written back in the day of ancient years um like

00:30:25.700 the wife was toddlerized and and then the courtesans were able to go and attend the meetings

00:30:32.420 with the politicians and the business owners and actually state their case and be influential but

00:30:39.140 okay so i'm just trying to differentiate here because courtesan that's when i think of it i think of

00:30:45.460 people who are in the court typically there's a kingdom yeah there's a kingdom there's a monarch

00:30:53.940 and there's you know maybe some of them are are dukes maybe it's from that era but viceroys

00:31:00.660 there's some viceroys in there there's a couple of uh what i don't know some other terms uh lords ladies

00:31:09.300 um but okay so uh you guys work in nevada is that correct in uh what's it what's the place that you

00:31:15.540 guys work at uh um there's different brothels the bunny ranch um i've been at the bunny ranch we've

00:31:20.820 both been there uh we both worked at the world famous mustang okay um those are more normal so you

00:31:26.900 guys both don't work there or you don't work there anymore do you still work at the what is it called

00:31:30.980 the bunny ranch or so hold on we're independent contractors so take your time so like when when

00:31:37.540 we're on tour we contract ourselves out you know with with whomever okay so that might change sure

00:31:44.980 so i a couple questions here so um i don't know maybe it's changed throughout the course of your life

00:31:51.780 but how many maybe you see men maybe you see women how many per day or per week uh do you call them

00:31:59.540 clients what do you call them tricks clients friends no not true marks no no okay i don't know

00:32:05.780 i don't know the terminology i'm not i mean some some providers may but they're not maybe the the

00:32:10.500 most respectful i like to deem them friends as soon as i get to know them and um and we are like

00:32:16.740 friends sometimes we're like married couples but um it can be um it depends anywhere from like

00:32:23.380 two just three a day that's a lot um but maybe five a week okay uh what about you um so anywhere

00:32:34.100 between two to three oh sorry it's anywhere between two to three okay um and sometimes four or five

00:32:43.540 depending on sure per day yes do you know what the most is in one day uh like was there one day it

00:32:51.220 always fluctuates okay is there ever like a ten a dozen i don't yes i mean baker's dozen it can

00:32:59.140 it okay can happen sure i don't personally when coming off the heels of um dennis hoff's cat house

00:33:06.020 there were there were i mean

00:33:08.340 okay cool okay we're fine we're fine okay all right good all right welcome to the whatever podcast

00:33:26.500 uh always something um where were we i was mentioning um after dennis hoff did his famous show

00:33:36.660 um cat house on hbo he drummed up a ton of uh mainstream media he got one of the girls on on oprah

00:33:43.140 and whatnot there were so many people coming in those were the days where maybe you'd be seeing like

00:33:48.340 10 clients 12 clients in a day okay that was that was a lot gotcha and for for you two has being

00:33:57.060 involved in prostitution has it had any impact when it comes to your uh romantic prospects

00:34:06.500 yeah they've i've got to be able to be i've got to be able to be myself and fully disclose and i need

00:34:12.180 that person to accept me for who i am bottom line um i have had no issues doing uh being a legal

00:34:23.140 prostitute um i've had no issues being a legal prostitute just because i haven't been dating anybody

00:34:29.300 um within this time for that year as for everything else um it's hard dating um i've ran into a lot of

00:34:39.940 insecure men typically those are the ones that can't handle me doing what i do for work and um

00:34:47.860 just a point of clarification so you've run into a lot of insecure men and are they insecure because

00:34:53.700 they don't want to date you because you are currently active as a prostitute no i'm saying

00:35:00.180 i've never dated a guy while working at the brothels at the bunny ranch or the mustang ranch but i've been

00:35:07.620 dating guys like between me doing camming and dancing so that's what i'm talking about but you

00:35:14.020 you mentioned insecure men what what make what specifically are they doing that makes them

00:35:19.780 insecure is it because they're insecure about your work yes like uh i've had exes in the past that would

00:35:25.780 cry about me going to work to dance at the strip club um i've had guys try to control like what i wear

00:35:32.340 and uh say that i can't work at strip clubs or do only fans or whatever um oh sorry was there more

00:35:40.580 no and that's okay is it because they're insecure is that just them having boundaries and standards i

00:35:46.260 feel like that's i mean you knew what i was doing before you met me right so all of them knew exactly

00:35:55.620 what i was doing before they met me which brings it to yeah if you have a problem with what i do before

00:36:01.140 you meet me maybe don't get involved with me sure i'm very open i'm very honest person um you knew

00:36:08.100 what i was doing before you met me if you don't like it there's the door nobody's making you stay

00:36:14.980 i think too um gentlemen love the idea of dating us and then once we go to do it then it's not really

00:36:23.060 realistic right it's almost like fetish a fetish like right it's like oh it's so hot i have a

00:36:30.900 girlfriend that does this that and the other and then when they're really at home and i'm like on

00:36:36.100 only fans or on a client on a call with a client or whatever they're like no this is weird this is

00:36:41.780 weird you know what i mean and that i think it's an insecurity yes because you knew where i was coming

00:36:49.780 from you knew what i was doing and you weren't okay with it then you should have made that a point

00:36:57.540 i mean i suppose you have a point that i mean if they knew going in that you this is what you do

00:37:02.980 for work you're a stripper or you're doing only fans or you're doing sex work then

00:37:09.860 i think it's a a little bit of a stretch that all of a sudden a couple weeks or months into a

00:37:15.220 relationship then they start changing up but i think to differentiate the conversation a little

00:37:20.420 bit for example like let's say and i don't know if you mentioned this when it comes to like posting

00:37:24.980 perhaps revealing photos online not intended for commercial like the they're just on instagram

00:37:30.980 they're but they're not monetizing it they're not content creators or like for example if they

00:37:36.820 go to the bar club party a lot um would you consider it insecure if a guy

00:37:42.500 maybe three months into a relationship at that point he started having issues with

00:37:48.980 some with uh with you or with another girl hey he started saying hey i don't i don't want you to go

00:37:54.500 in the clubs and bars anymore and he already knew you're saying he already knew this well like i assume

00:38:00.660 he knew yeah so if he already knew then well i guess my framing is prior to dating he had no problem

00:38:12.340 with you or with another girl engaging in what he considered to be single behavior at the time but

00:38:18.500 once you or whoever it is started dating he wanted his partner to act in a way that he thought was more

00:38:24.980 consistent with being in a relationship so perhaps it's okay to go out to me personally even if i'm

00:38:31.300 single i'm not really interested in going to bars clubs and i don't post revealing photos online but

00:38:35.780 uh i don't know i feel like that men don't do that too much i mean there's certainly men that post

00:38:40.980 like whatever anyways um but once you get into the relationship there's expectations that certain

00:38:47.300 things change well with the sex worker well yeah i mean i'm just differentiating when it comes to like

00:38:54.980 posting revealing photos if it's not for your work uh then yeah like i can i can separate my work

00:39:01.300 identity from my personal life go ahead you want to come in i think i mean if we're talking somebody

00:39:06.660 that's not a sex worker and is posting revealing photos i think that that's something that you talk

00:39:10.420 about before getting to into a relationship with somebody because then if you're talking you know

00:39:16.100 and a guy is like you know my expectations for my girlfriend are xyz i don't like these kind of

00:39:21.540 revealing photos for my girlfriend i don't like her like you going out all the time and then i think

00:39:25.860 from then on that's when you decide whether to make a relationship serious or not because if she doesn't

00:39:29.860 want to restrict where she's going or what she's doing or the type of photo she's posting for him

00:39:34.420 then that's her decision but i don't think that it's wrong for a partner to ask her you know hey if

00:39:40.420 we're in a relationship this is what i expect and then you know she makes the decision yes i will do

00:39:44.420 those things or no but do you do you think that so early on like say on the first date or second date

00:39:50.260 that there's enough of a relationship established for a guy to have enough i don't know if leverage is the

00:39:58.900 right word but like enough pull or influence to be like hey listen i don't want you doing this

00:40:05.860 anymore absolutely not absolutely but that's i mean she just said that you should early on you should

00:40:12.180 say not date number one date number one not date number two that is why i think there's two things

00:40:21.060 going on here i think um you can date someone and then as a relationship evolves and changes some

00:40:26.900 things that you thought you were comfortable with you're like hey i'm not really comfortable with

00:40:30.580 this anymore i think that's reasonable um but i think that's very distinct than going into a

00:40:36.100 relationship thinking oh i don't like the fact that she posts this types of photos i'm gonna make

00:40:40.180 her stop you know i'm gonna change her basically because you're setting up i think everyone for

00:40:44.580 disappointment you're setting up yourself her there's a difference between going into something

00:40:49.220 having feelings change talking from there and intentionally trying to change before you even date really i have

00:40:54.820 a question if you ever fell in love with somebody would you be willing to delete all of your stuff

00:40:59.860 if they asked you would i be yes if you as a sex worker and everything that you do if you fell in love

00:41:06.660 and you found someone and they asked you to stop so with that being said i am currently single because

00:41:13.540 of what i do for work i am very much so busy doing my work and i'm full throttle like wanting to make money

00:41:21.300 and capitalize off of this industry to the best of my ability and make it to the point where i can

00:41:27.220 retire and then it's like also making this much money and doing what i do for work it puts me in a

00:41:33.140 position to be able to meet the type of guys that i want to meet right um the higher end type of guys

00:41:39.540 and maybe later on down the line not any time yet uh i would be open to it if i find everything

00:41:47.460 happens for a reason you know you never say never but like if i found prince charming or something one

00:41:55.540 day and he didn't want me doing this anymore like that or i wouldn't be doing this anyways i want to

00:42:02.740 retire from it at one point and then yeah eventually maybe and when you say high end men what do you

00:42:09.700 mean by that like like high value men yes or men with a lot of money high value okay i have a question

00:42:19.300 for you two here uh so both of you do only fans having done only fans continuing to do only fans has it

00:42:28.100 had any negative impacts on your dating prospects does it make it harder to date has it been maybe

00:42:34.900 non-issue at all some guys like it i've never had an issue with it dating wise no one has ever

00:42:42.580 because i'm very upfront to you know first date if this is what i do if you don't like it this is how

00:42:47.860 i make my money unless you're going to pay me the same amount of money i'm making then i'm not going

00:42:52.340 to stop supporting myself um but yeah i never really ran into issues but again i don't do full

00:42:58.820 pornographic content or anything like that so it probably is a little bit different for somebody on

00:43:03.140 only fans that does do that type of content um but i personally have never ran into an issue my

00:43:08.900 boyfriend at first was you know i told him and he was like okay well if i'm gonna date you i have to

00:43:13.620 be okay with this and that was that and it's never been an issue sorry um sorry i was asking a

00:43:18.820 question what kind of content do you do on only fans uh mainly topless content okay so you currently

00:43:23.540 have a boyfriend yes i do okay just that's the extent of it yes okay what about you essie um i've

00:43:31.220 also never had an issue um in my dating life i don't date that often though but right because you've

00:43:36.260 been single for six years yeah but but it might not necessarily be related to that you're now doing

00:43:42.580 only fans yeah i also don't do um nudes on only fans so it's just like lingerie content okay so i

00:43:48.980 think that also maybe helps because i i so yeah okay um question here for candace so um what are your

00:43:57.540 thoughts on only fans sex work and do you believe that uh a woman doing only fans or porn might have an

00:44:07.300 impact on her future romantic prospects uh and if so how and why i can repeat that was a lot so let

00:44:13.140 me know if you need me to repeat anything um i i've talked about this extensively on my show i mean

00:44:17.620 the truth is that if you are going to engage in sex work you are going to probably make a lot of

00:44:22.580 money especially if you're young um you're on a very tight rope as you get older your value goes down

00:44:28.420 and men are going to want women that are younger and available to them um i'm talking about in terms of

00:44:32.900 just making the person who will subscribe to your only fans page you know obviously women it's you're

00:44:37.700 declining as you age as and um the truth is is that high value men don't want to date women that are

00:44:43.060 sex workers or even women that aren't sex workers and lean into the whole talking about how sexy and

00:44:49.540 are really are freely available on the internet for other men to see what we're talking about is

00:44:54.020 biological proclivity um what men are doing when they first say uh it sounds amazing to date a

00:44:59.860 stripper or date a prostitute or date a sex worker is there there's this instinct to have sex it's

00:45:04.900 going to be amazing but have sex all the time but then when they realize that actually a form of

00:45:09.460 wanting to be in a relationship is feeling that there's a mystery to a woman that there's something

00:45:14.260 that's yours there's something that's sacred there's something that's powerful and beautiful

00:45:17.540 that just you share and when they realize that they have to share that with other men it completely

00:45:21.780 diminishes the man um a recent cultural example of that obviously is what's happening with nina agdahl

00:45:27.540 she's not a sex worker by any means so she just kind of said some sexy things on the internet

00:45:32.260 um about wanting cock and look at what was not expecting that from kansas i'm just i'm quoting

00:45:39.220 her directly so this is purely academic purely academic and look at what happened you know now

00:45:46.500 logan has become the laughing stock of other men as they piece together everything that she's ever

00:45:52.020 said that's overtly sexual and again she's not a sex worker but what happened is her value just

00:45:56.020 completely plummeted because you know they're this thing that men need to feel um and i don't want

00:46:03.940 to say possession in a way that sounds bad because it's not bad it's actually really beautiful um and

00:46:09.140 i'm lucky and fortunate that i get to experience that in my marriage you know and and it's it's

00:46:15.540 something that women should strive toward women that make those exchanges in their youth i think

00:46:19.300 that's sad and i do feel bad for me to agdahl is because she said a lot of those statements when she was

00:46:23.380 really young she's probably your age um and she had a camera and she said it and it lives forever

00:46:28.660 and now every man that she dates is going to say dylan danis has made her available to everyone and

00:46:35.620 it's it's i i hope things work out between her and logan but if you don't think that that's going to

00:46:40.180 impact logan or that's not actively impacting him as a man it is um so with women it's a trade-off

00:46:47.540 first thing you said was i make money this is about money it's about money but when it comes down to

00:46:52.420 marrying these women men men just don't want it and that's exactly why i said that in this industry

00:46:57.140 i'm single until i retire i don't but it will still matter i don't plan on doing this or getting

00:47:05.380 married or finding the love of my life until i retire like truthfully and then after that you see

00:47:10.100 what happens in the agdahl no no and then after that i will be honest and truthful with the person

00:47:15.540 that i will be getting married to or whatever and it'll be up to him to accept that right so and i

00:47:21.220 i said i'm just saying that men's natural proclivity is to not accept that because it brings them

00:47:26.340 shame um men are biologically proud creatures i understand but not everybody can be like no i know

00:47:31.860 i'm not i'm just telling you what is happening and why people are talking about cultural events and

00:47:37.460 the agdol thing and if you look at people like emily rojkowski she's obviously hot um but this is

00:47:42.980 a woman who's now trying to make divorce chic and i think that the understanding is in hollywood is you

00:47:48.100 know sleep with her and move on she's not marriage material um her husband when he had her cheated on

00:47:53.140 her because they didn't have that thing she was i feel like i've i've slept with the girl i've seen

00:47:58.500 her naked so many times right so there's nothing special about sebastian bear marrying her because

00:48:02.660 we've all seen her naked there's nothing sacred in that relationship and i'm just speaking on telling

00:48:08.740 you you know this is why women struggle to get married when they've made themselves available on

00:48:14.740 only fans because other men don't want to share they don't want to share their wife they maybe

00:48:19.060 will share their girlfriend they might think it's fun to date a stripper for a little bit they might

00:48:22.260 think oh this means i'm gonna have sex 12 times a day but then when it gets down to just their

00:48:26.900 biological instinct it's it's actually quite embarrassing for them as a man because they can

00:48:31.700 look up your girl and here she is you know so that's what i think is happening yeah i'm um i'm just

00:48:38.180 curious about your opinion on this because i've seen like a couple of people and like red spill spaces like

00:48:42.820 tates or people similar to that talking about how they should marry a young woman would you agree or

00:48:49.860 disagree that that might not be the most like rational course of action to marry a young woman

00:48:54.500 what do you mean by that that i hear a lot of men talk about how a woman inherently loses value as she

00:49:00.020 gets older and that's why that they should seek out young women um well i live in the south and a lot

00:49:05.940 of people get married young and i think it's really beautiful and wonderful they preserve this sort of

00:49:09.460 innocence i have people that work for me that want to get married at 22 they drop out of school so

00:49:14.340 i don't think there's anything wrong with marrying when you're young um i'd have to see the full

00:49:19.060 context of what they're talking about because i do think obviously the longer you wait and especially

00:49:24.820 in this society that's creating the simulation that sexuality equates to freedom when it doesn't

00:49:30.260 um that what he might be suggesting is that the longer a woman runs free the more partners that she's

00:49:35.780 gathering and her her worth is being diminished and i think that there is some veracity to that

00:49:40.900 um but you know if it's said in a way that sounds a little crass like seek out younger women because

00:49:45.140 they're not as used and i can see why people would be offended by it but they're that might be underpinned

00:49:49.860 by a little bit of logic so i'd have to see the clip in its entirety yeah the reason why i'm asking is

00:49:54.660 because in general i think um men do have a biological proclivity i can't pronounce that

00:49:59.780 proclivity um you know to seek out like youth and beauty but i also think when it comes to like

00:50:05.380 settle down um you want a mother who's going to be responsible and good towards her children

00:50:11.060 so i think the idea that like men seek out beauty is true i also think men seek out a level of like

00:50:16.900 responsibility and maturity that only comes with age so i was just curious because of the other stuff

00:50:21.700 i've heard from people and also it's like they sex is just sex like it's just sex huh and just when

00:50:32.340 you have a partner you have an emotional connection with them and so like the guy on your last podcast

00:50:39.860 the he was on here a few days ago he was saying how like men for men sex is just sex but like spending

00:50:47.860 time with a woman and like buying her things and like going on trips with her is like different

00:50:53.140 than having sex with just random people and that's why they were like in an open uh relationship or

00:51:00.660 whatever can i just have you scoot your mic that way a little bit yeah perfect i mean i definitely

00:51:04.900 wouldn't say that like swapping dna is like just sex i mean a man leaves a piece of himself inside of

00:51:10.340 you but man that's the way they think and like for women we get attached to them emotionally right

00:51:16.980 having sex with them which is why it's more of a when women have a lot of partners it's it is

00:51:23.140 different it's it's it is worse in a way and people don't want to admit that but because we are more

00:51:29.220 emotional there is an attachment it isn't just sex for women um you know i think women are damaged by

00:51:35.700 those relationships um women like to think because of the social simulation that it can just be sex it's

00:51:41.940 whatever non-committal the only people that benefit from that lie are men you know it it is not great

00:51:48.820 to have sex and have a man not call you back it doesn't feel good it doesn't matter if a buzzfeed

00:51:52.980 article says it does i had a wonderful weekend and this is why i had sex and didn't worry about it

00:51:58.340 you feel used and especially i would say if you're not a sex worker and you're you just a man does that

00:52:04.420 never calls you back and you don't even have money to show for it i think it diminishes your your

00:52:09.620 self-worth even more than your worth to a man the reason why i say sex is just sex is because

00:52:15.460 in our line of work we see it as transactional right especially when we're working and then at

00:52:21.300 the end of the day they go home to their wives or whatever right and it's like emotionally you're

00:52:27.300 emotionally being there for them and taking care of them and doing all this out of the other so then

00:52:32.900 sex clearly isn't just sex it's also emotional it can be yeah it can be yes but i was saying

00:52:39.460 according to the guy that he had on the last podcast he said that for men um sex is just sex

00:52:46.180 and that i kind of sorry i i disagree with the idea that sex doesn't harm or casual sex wouldn't

00:52:52.340 harm a man or does harm women or that sex is just sex i think a lot of people tell themselves that

00:52:57.140 but i think it can like lead to a lifestyle of just like pure hedonism whether you're like a man

00:53:01.940 or a woman and that can be like dangerous because then you're losing you know sight of other things

00:53:06.740 that you value or other aspects of life so i don't really think like for i think for some people

00:53:11.460 that can be true but i think for the majority of people like there's a reason why a lot of people

00:53:15.300 are only into monogamy or why that's been like the norm for a lot of cultures and i think most people

00:53:20.420 are a little bit hardwired to kind of seek out those intimate relationships i'm not saying it's

00:53:24.820 impossible i'm like i'm just saying i think that's how most people are where casual sex can't be yeah and

00:53:29.540 i think it can definitely be harmful for men i want to be clear i i'm saying that it's different for men and

00:53:34.180 it's different for women but i don't agree with the statement sex is just sex at all and it's

00:53:39.140 natural to be like attracted to a lot of different people you know what i mean so it's like but that

00:53:47.060 comes with self-control i think yeah action is one thing and acting on those needs or once by sleeping

00:53:53.780 with multiple people to i just i don't understand that did you want to come in on i guess i don't

00:54:01.300 what do you mean like i don't understand not in response to her but okay just the in general yeah

00:54:06.020 i mean i don't necessarily agree with the idea that sex is just sex when i was younger i definitely

00:54:11.140 had a lot more you know like casual sexual relationships not one night stands or anything

00:54:15.460 by that measure more like situationship um and as i got older you know my views on it kind of changed

00:54:21.860 and you know you do feel differently when like you were saying it doesn't feel good to hook up with

00:54:25.620 somebody and not have them call you back so i actually was celibate for about two years before

00:54:29.620 i met my partner um doing only fans and everything else your current partner yes okay um i wasn't

00:54:34.500 sleeping with anybody i like stuck to it very hard because i just didn't really like the feeling of

00:54:39.460 sleeping with somebody and then getting an emotional attachment to them so i i think that certain people

00:54:45.620 because everybody is different i don't think that it's that black and white um but i think to some

00:54:50.740 people and to some women and to some men casual sex really is just sex whether they're leaving dna or

00:54:55.540 not i think that there are people that do actually feel that way because i've met women that are like

00:54:59.700 that but for me it is not that simple and i don't think that it's that simple for most women can i raise

00:55:06.660 a possibility just because it's something that i've sort of seen um so i do think it's possible that

00:55:14.740 for some people sex may be detached from romantic emotions with that person but i do think

00:55:22.900 there may always still be an underlining part an underlining psychological part there of at least

00:55:29.220 an ego boost at least some sort of like grab for validation some sort of grab for emotional intimacy

00:55:38.180 even if you're telling yourself i'm just doing this because having casual sex

00:55:42.180 empowering and sex is just sex i think even in most the cases where that's where people genuinely

00:55:48.740 believe they're just having sex because it's sex if they ask themselves a little further why am i

00:55:54.500 really doing this is it just for is it perhaps just you know to placate my ego or for some sort of

00:56:00.580 male validation or for some sort of like intimacy or connection because i maybe i'm not getting it

00:56:05.220 romantically otherwise um and more in a more like serious relationship i am um i would also

00:56:13.620 press for that as a possibility even in those cases of people who genuinely do think for themselves that

00:56:18.740 it is sex is just sex well i mean i guess we can look to the people that do it professionally i mean

00:56:23.380 do you feel that there's some underlying male validation in your work or no i find it very meaningful

00:56:28.660 i find it meaningful when couples come in and they want to work on something they're working on a goal

00:56:33.700 maybe he's got a mental block and we're working on that um the gentleman that comes in that's

00:56:39.860 having issues with erectile dysfunction and he's trying to troubleshoot that and we and we actually

00:56:44.740 create success for him um it's it's meaningful to me wait just one point of clarification so you're a

00:56:51.700 sex therapist as as sex workers we're basically i mean i i don't have a counseling degree i have a

00:56:59.380 master's degree in education we have an article you recently kind of went viral uh nick can you pull

00:57:04.660 up the article like i new york post um yeah yeah uh new york post i'm a sex therapist i sleep with

00:57:15.060 clients to save marriages oh my gosh they went crazy this person i did see did you you reacted to

00:57:22.020 this or you saw i almost did but i'm here you're here now perfect can you can you pull up the article

00:57:27.460 really quick yeah one more uh sex therapist olivia bentley wait wait takes a hands-on approach with her

00:57:36.340 clients by sleeping with them i've saved marriages the boise idaho native told kennedy news calling her life

00:57:42.660 her work life-changing i get physically involved with the majority of the people i see i think

00:57:46.740 that's part of the appeal the veteran sex worker who spent 15 years in the industry claims that women

00:57:50.740 have asked her to demonstrate sex acts on their husbands while some wives grant their eager hubbies

00:57:55.780 a hall pass to pay bentley a visit um good times yeah is that pretty accurate i mean so you so you save

00:58:05.460 marriages by having sex with the husband i think the the tabloids went a little crazy you know but

00:58:13.780 new york post is known to uh yeah okay uh they really you know went wild with it but um i do help

00:58:20.420 a lot of couples that come in um one right now is asking me to to lend a hand and he's more of a beta

00:58:28.580 and she'd like him to be more of an alpha and she wants me to work with him on on being

00:58:34.020 more just outwardly in control and aggressive in the bedroom things like that um there's there's a

00:58:39.780 lot of different psychological needs and reasons why people would want to come and work with

00:58:44.660 professional sex worker sure uh candace it sounded like seemed like maybe you had something i think

00:58:50.660 it's the most outrageous thing i've ever heard it it it's so in the realm of like dragons and

00:58:59.380 mystical mythical creatures that it's mythological creatures that it's hard to respond to the idea

00:59:04.500 that she's saving marriages um it's just there you're in disbelief i'm actually there's another

00:59:12.340 utter disbelief that she is saving marriages here's another example sure so like and this has been

00:59:18.900 there's multiple um clients that do this where the wife will not have sex anymore she went and said

00:59:26.100 look i um you know during the when they were courting each other she was down for sex she was

00:59:31.300 a sexual person she was all about it then let's fast forward they're married we're married now

00:59:37.460 contract solidified i don't want to have sex anymore ew oral sex is gross oh that's demeaning if

00:59:44.020 you're asking me to do that so you're not saving marriages you're helping people to keep up a farce

00:59:49.220 that they are in a marriage because at the very moment that you let someone else into your marriage

00:59:52.500 it's no longer a marriage no yeah and these women have turned around and said i will allow you to

00:59:58.900 see a professional so they are not in a marriage that's well they're married or some of their wives

01:00:04.180 are like dying from cancer and this that and the other and if i'm dying from cancer and my husband

01:00:14.260 hold on just one at a time please go um candace were you i just would like to make the point that

01:00:20.020 at the very moment that you loan your spouse out especially if you're dying of cancer so they

01:00:24.660 can get you know get off you're no longer in a marriage so it's just a farce it's like when you

01:00:29.380 it's a comical you're pretending for people that you're in a marriage that you're in a loving

01:00:32.660 relationship that's not what a marriage is so to say that i help marriages no you help destroy

01:00:37.860 marriages and they can go out and say that we're still married because what we've done is we've

01:00:42.500 essentially said you take care of this aspect of the marriage it's like saying you raise the kids you

01:00:47.620 have sex with him this isn't a marriage it's the whole thing is fake right what do you think that

01:00:51.380 they should what do you think that they they should work on their marriage together the union between

01:00:57.620 a husband and a wife should work on their marriage together to fix it you don't bring out an outside

01:01:01.620 person to sleep with your husband or your wife saying i'm not down for sex and she might be down

01:01:05.940 for a divorce i want to outsource the sex i want to die from cancer and she wanted him and she allowed

01:01:12.500 him to do that because he needed to get off some way or while he was while she was dying of cancer

01:01:18.100 one of the last things on her mind was this is a real life this is a real life um this is a real

01:01:23.700 life uh yeah this was a real i'm asking you is that what he told you this yeah so his wife that's dying

01:01:28.740 of cancer wanted him to come have sex with you not with me one of like this is from what i've heard

01:01:34.420 yes somebody told you that that is that as a dying wish my yes so how would you want to have sex

01:01:39.860 with a prostitute i saw it on tiktok i'm just gonna call bullshit on that all together no because

01:01:44.740 it does dying of cancer it happens going through leukemia literally bring their guys here please

01:01:50.420 bring them on the podcast i just want to say that okay i've never heard in my life there's a lot of

01:01:56.340 crazy there's marriage counseling where they can take you through sex therapy where you don't have

01:02:01.380 to sleep with somebody else if it's about a woman not wanting to have sex anymore what's the underlying

01:02:05.780 reason are hormones messed up so she's not wanting to be sexually active is there not enough foreplay

01:02:11.140 when they're having sex like there's other avenues you can take for sex therapy normal couples

01:02:15.460 counselors yeah real couples counseling regular where you try to solve the problem when you release it

01:02:19.620 and you don't just source it out to a prostitute go ahead the cancer thing is crazy

01:02:24.500 the cancer thing is crazy but outside of that i don't think that it's up to any of us what

01:02:32.260 constitutes a marriage because every relationship is different the bible if a husband okay but his

01:02:37.140 words have meaning not everyone is religious well wait hold on is that a cross necklace it doesn't

01:02:41.780 constitute like what do you yeah i'm okay really quick not everybody's talking about religion really

01:02:46.340 quick okay you have a cross necklace but then your shirt says made in hell yes i'm a little confused can

01:02:53.140 you i mean i'm a little confused the stone is red so it matched you know why are you wearing a cross

01:03:00.180 on your neck are you color coordinating with your neck because i don't see a cross as religious so

01:03:04.100 okay i feel like you don't see a marriage as religious i don't think that a marriage

01:03:07.860 meaning this is why it's like people are out of stage people are like what is a woman because they

01:03:10.820 just go well we're going to call it a marriage but we're going to sleep with other people we're

01:03:13.860 going to bring in prostitutes we're going to outsource raising the kids or we're never going to have

01:03:17.300 kids you're calling it a family it's not a family and this is what it is they just the words have no

01:03:21.140 meaning right i'm wearing the cross why i don't know i don't i don't think of it as religious okay

01:03:24.820 well jesus christ died on the cross you think that that's what it's been proven so why are you wearing

01:03:30.500 the cross because i think it's cute i don't think that the design is cute yeah better wait wait i grew

01:03:34.980 up like i was religious and i'm not anymore i don't have to believe in what you believe and i can say

01:03:39.940 that if i didn't say you had to leave i asked you a question why are you wearing the cross okay and

01:03:43.460 you're saying that the religion the religious aspect of marriage is the only thing that matters it's not

01:03:47.700 because people don't follow what you believe okay i asked you why you're wearing the cross and you

01:03:51.700 said because you thought it was cute yeah i'm glad we got an answer she's wearing the cross around her

01:03:55.700 neck because she thinks it's cute i do would you also wear like a star of david it's cute like if it

01:04:02.180 was cute would you wear it well okay well i don't know where we're going i'm actually not because i wonder

01:04:06.500 like my guess is that you would think that maybe you wouldn't wear a star of david because you're like oh this

01:04:11.140 is maybe like disrespectful to people who are are you making the argument maybe i mean no i'm i'm

01:04:16.180 i'm just the second it's a very good question i'm just devil's advocate here secular argument you someone

01:04:21.220 might just say that the cross is just maybe it maybe it's more aesthetically pleasing even for an

01:04:28.340 atheist i don't know sure but i don't know they're all about like having respect so i'm just like

01:04:33.220 wondering if you i'm asking if you wear a yarmulke i think those are very oh are you talking like

01:04:37.540 why is the cross different from the yarmulke i'm just i mean i was raised catholic and i

01:04:41.780 that's just would you wear a yarmulke if you thought it was cute no i wouldn't i mean a

01:04:44.980 yarmulke is completely different than a cross that's been adapted you can buy a cross necklace

01:04:49.620 anywhere there is there's symbols of the argument the argument of why it's different basically

01:04:53.940 would come down to like how catholicism has been practiced versus judaism in the sense that like

01:04:58.180 catholics did use the cross symbol try to place like an indigenous populations try to spread it as much

01:05:03.380 as possible and that's why in modern day a lot of people think that's like more okay

01:05:07.300 because it was meant to be popularized it was meant to be a symbol that the masses should look

01:05:13.140 up to and should see in general versus jewish symbols okay i would argue didn't go through that

01:05:18.420 i think we're kind of derailing a little bit yeah you wanted to okay yes so back to the interesting

01:05:23.220 brothel stories i wanted to say uh we do actually have men coming in with their parents yeah this

01:05:30.660 actually happens wait so i had a time where a guy came in with both his parents all the way from

01:05:41.220 england to come to the mustang ranch because he wanted to lose his virginity wait is this really

01:05:47.940 where we left parents i'm not i'm just not following and his parents paid for him to have

01:05:54.420 sex with legal prostitutes i want your stance on that because what's your stance on that

01:06:01.620 and if i may and wait now can i just say like that for me i enjoyed the experience sex workers not

01:06:08.340 prostitutes yeah wait i'm sorry she said prostitute yeah it's because they keep but did i because they

01:06:13.060 keep yeah yeah you said prostitutes a little bit more question is it like a well she said that

01:06:20.100 she said legal prostitute yes is prop i don't want to offend anybody as prostituted like a it's old

01:06:25.380 school it's still on the books like on nevada's books but like the the hipper the hipper way to say

01:06:31.940 it is sex worker but here's the thing with sex workers personally that can me you can call me a legal

01:06:37.620 prostitute yeah i got you um but the the thing with the term sex worker is that is such a broad

01:06:45.780 it includes strippers it includes women who take uh lingerie photos who aren't naked um wait question

01:06:52.900 steward is stewardess okay because you're a flight attendant so i'm just curious it's not the term that

01:06:58.180 would you be offended if someone referred to you as a stewardess you get any older older people do all

01:07:02.500 the time doesn't doesn't bother you no okay all right just curious just want to make sure since

01:07:07.380 we're yeah okay it's not a big deal earlier it was like talked about like how you know sleeping or

01:07:13.140 letting your husband or wife sleep with someone else is like irresponsible or it's not a marriage

01:07:17.060 anymore like i'd be kind of curious of what you believe a responsible marriage is like or i understand

01:07:22.660 that you have a religious view on marriage but when i think about marriage i think like i could see

01:07:27.460 somebody saying they're married if it's like completely romantic like you're not allowed to

01:07:30.820 do romance with anyone else like basically what does responsible marriage mean to you marriage is

01:07:35.940 not just a contract like it wasn't just like the government came up with the contract people to

01:07:40.020 get married you know the history of marriage you can't separate that from the church the problem is

01:07:44.420 people are trying to make things cool and trying to update and make them modern and now people are

01:07:48.500 saying you can have a polygamous marriage and you can bring in other people on the outside of a marriage

01:07:52.500 what's the point of getting married literally i'd like to ask the question if you think that you

01:07:57.300 can if you want to marry somebody and then outsource the sex you know outsource the responsibility

01:08:03.940 outsource what the labor of love is actually supposed to be about why not just stay single

01:08:09.540 so you wouldn't do a threesome with your husband absolutely not because he's my husband

01:08:14.100 did you have to ask that to get the answer i mean there's married couples that want to have

01:08:19.060 threesomes and some of these ladies are vicarious jump into those reddit threads because every

01:08:24.180 single time that marriage ends in divorce there's so many reddit threads no they don't and a lot of

01:08:28.820 them i have regulars over five years okay there's some that do not divorce do you believe atheists can

01:08:34.500 get married i think atheists get married because they want a tax break i don't see the point in an

01:08:39.220 atheist getting married why don't you just live with your partner okay whatever it is that you're dating

01:08:43.540 you're at the stage you said i don't know if you live with your boyfriend or whatever it is

01:08:46.660 why take the next leap if you're wearing crosses for fun and you know i mean if you're actually

01:08:52.180 asking the question i mean because then i would just be pledging the fact that i would want to be

01:08:56.500 with them forever i don't really you can just be with them forever so why what is it that you crave

01:09:00.740 that when you when you want to get married what's that next step for you what does it mean what's

01:09:03.780 difference between dating and marriage because it's a commitment it's dating not a commitment it's a

01:09:08.020 commitment but it's saying it's solidifying it okay solidifying what because if you're

01:09:12.740 a bond between two people that love each other okay but what is solidified if you can then jump

01:09:17.460 into that next commitment which is the exact same as dating and you can sleep with other people and

01:09:22.100 you can put topless photos on the internet what are you getting married for pictures on instagrams to

01:09:26.500 say you did it i mean i'm not sleeping with other people what's the difference for you between dating

01:09:30.980 and marriage i just told you it's a bond between two people you're solidifying that by law you're

01:09:34.820 literally making it known i want to be with this person forever it isn't just a simple breakup oh i can go

01:09:39.140 and do whatever the fuck i want and leave it's a partnership it's a bond it's forever but there's

01:09:43.300 no difference between dating and marriage other than the idea in your head that it's a bond because

01:09:47.140 you're saying also it's not an idea in my head it's on paper okay it's the paper that's and that was

01:09:51.700 but it's not a tape but i'm saying it's not a tax break it's a legal thing i'm connecting to somebody

01:09:56.420 for the rest of my life yeah well i think for people that are that think about marriage and don't

01:10:00.740 think about a cross as something funsy to wear it's not a piece of paper um you know it is a union

01:10:07.300 between a man and a woman a sacred union that should be protected from external forces um

01:10:12.500 definitely not something that you open up you did how i would feel disgusting if my husband ever came

01:10:17.060 to me and said i want you to sleep with another man or sleep with another woman so that i can fill

01:10:22.340 my sexual fetish i mean it's it's it's it's an utter perversion of what it means to be married

01:10:27.380 and it will lead to divorces people that have this perspective will and i'm not saying that if you

01:10:33.220 don't do it you won't get divorced 100 but i do want to say that there is probably a reason that

01:10:40.900 a lot of sex workers struggle to find people that want to marry them well can i say a lot of the

01:10:46.980 perversion that comes if you are not going to be acceptant with your partner if he comes to you and

01:10:52.420 is like hey uh i really like getting pegged i want you to peg me and you're like ew that's so disgusting

01:10:59.620 like i would never do that you want me to eat your ass i would never do that well then okay what are

01:11:06.020 you going to do divorce him or what are you going to do realistically i'm asking you and i'm asking

01:11:10.820 hold on i really want to i want to know what are you going to do that's your husband he's like hey

01:11:14.900 babe i think one of the things about marriage that's really beautiful is i know what my husband

01:11:19.700 before we got married i think i i know who but things change and maybe he wants to start exploring

01:11:25.140 he wants to start doing what uh so say so he wants to start exploring and he's like oh my gosh maybe

01:11:29.940 i do want you to like eat eat my ass and i kind of and i kind of want you to peg me like i'm kind of

01:11:36.340 i kind of want anal penetration from you because you're my wife and you're so beautiful and hot

01:11:41.140 and we're married and we have kids together and i'm and i'm feeling a little bit kinky and i with you

01:11:45.780 since we have this special marriage and bond how would you feel if we could just try this out just this

01:11:50.820 one time babe please i think it would probably indicate to me that my husband was involved in

01:11:55.380 some perverse world whether it was through pornography that something else was happening

01:11:59.540 on the side because these aren't normal things that people just think of when they wake up so

01:12:03.300 what's your next move really like a strap-on dildo okay right so what's your next move what's the

01:12:07.140 ultimatum he's gonna divorce me if i don't peg him uh i would think that that individual would

01:12:13.780 probably need therapy and not the kind that you give okay and but but you're gonna stay with you

01:12:19.940 you don't immediately divorce okay marriage is about working through issues and working

01:12:23.940 through problems you don't immediately divorce them and this gets back to what she was saying

01:12:26.900 about because your husband if suddenly a woman doesn't want to have sex which would be another

01:12:30.740 huge issue in a relationship i would hope that my husband wouldn't instantly divorce me but i would

01:12:34.900 hope that they would some guys are terrified of that and some guys don't even feel like they can open

01:12:39.460 up to their wives about that about that sounds like they need therapy yeah you gotta work on

01:12:45.460 your marriage but the thing is is that they'll come to us talking to us about that you know what

01:12:50.660 i mean so it's just like and i i don't know that's unhealthy and i think that you know the fact that

01:12:55.780 sex workers exist as this what you believe to be a solution when in fact that's a detriment because

01:13:02.100 you're getting in the way of the wife and the husband being able to communicate um and so i would

01:13:06.660 much rather my husband go if there was an issue and your wife's not having sex i'd rather him go talk to

01:13:12.500 a priest i'd rather him go talk to another male when males sit down and talk about hey man you

01:13:16.420 should talk to her about this i'd rather him no let me finish my statement i'd rather him what do

01:13:20.900 you mean bros talking to each other about things that's a normal i'd rather if i have an issue of

01:13:25.460 my it's pretty normal i'd rather go talk to my sisters about things that are going on in my marriage

01:13:29.940 there's a lot of steps you can take before you talk to a prostitute about your marriage i just

01:13:34.340 maybe i'm crazy maybe i live in such a crazy i'm saying what man is i don't know i turn on a

01:13:38.660 taylor swift song probably a little bit in my room i don't know there's a lot i would turn to

01:13:43.380 taylor swift before i would go to a prostitute about my marriage i know but you're not a male

01:13:47.860 so i'm just saying like men can talk to other what are you talking about there's all of these

01:13:52.260 podcasts of men talking you know talking to men and being inspirational and talking about

01:13:56.740 porn addiction and talking about the things that are are corrupting men's minds that's out there okay

01:14:01.700 and those are those are i would much rather my husband listen to those men right and look for

01:14:06.100 guidance whether it's in the church whether it's on a podcast whether it's a spiritual leader

01:14:09.940 then to turn to a prostitute in a brothel i hear you so there's a lot of steps that you can take

01:14:14.660 from we're having an issue in our marriage to my husband's at a brothel laying next to a prostitute

01:14:19.060 talking about issues actually let me let me just step in really quick i do think though i i would like

01:14:25.140 to redirect the conversation because i do think it's probably a very small portion of people who are

01:14:30.740 married are seeking to bring in a prostitute to for the husband it just seems like such a small

01:14:40.980 kind of i don't know what's up really quick uh statistically married men are actually the

01:14:45.300 highest number of clientele for prostitutes yes and that's why i'm saying please listen for me i'm

01:14:50.900 literally telling you guys males come to us and say all this stuff which is like they're first scared

01:14:56.100 of you guys because how you might react to they feel like they can't be honest and open with you

01:15:01.620 guys that's why they result in coming to places just you guys know that statistic doesn't mean

01:15:05.860 that the majority of married men go to prostitutes so you didn't say that no i know i'm just letting

01:15:09.060 her know because she said like yes like it was if it was a debunk and i think what he's saying is

01:15:12.420 that the majority of married men i'm just saying like to prostitutes so they might get a law contingent

01:15:17.540 and they might be majority married that's what i'm saying yeah i get that okay i think that's a good

01:15:21.620 reason to have um i guess to on the point of like something was brought up earlier about like

01:15:27.700 what is like a responsible marriage to you so part of being a good partner as like a wife or girlfriend

01:15:34.420 to whoever you're with is making them feel comfortable telling you anything especially

01:15:39.220 if it's something that they think is serious enough to consider leaving like their relationship

01:15:44.980 with you for like if it's serious enough that they would consider divorcing you if they can't

01:15:48.740 explore the sexual fantasy or anything like that i think that's just a part of being good on the um i

01:15:54.660 i i agree with what you're saying here that they um that these men don't feel comfortable that they

01:16:00.980 could tell their wives and i guess that's just a part of being not that it's justifiable that you as a

01:16:06.580 wife you should give in to any sexual fetish your partner brings to you it's whatever you're comfortable

01:16:11.700 with and wherever your boundaries are but um i guess that's a part of that continuous conversation with

01:16:17.060 them so that they always feel comfortable bringing up anything to you as a friend as like a confidant

01:16:21.700 and knowing they're not going to be judged right they'll be a partner with you and i do have to i

01:16:25.860 do have to move on so we have a couple chats here i want to try to get through we have beaten cheeks

01:16:30.260 candace owens do not hold back on these libs wipe the floor with your intelligence congrats on being

01:16:35.220 prego again be easy with my sc though she's about to get retired out soon okay first of all we i have

01:16:41.220 beef with beaten cheeks because he asked me on a date and then posted a photo with another girl on twitter

01:16:45.620 oh so are you guys are you guys loyal i mean he asked you on a date and you guys are committed

01:16:52.500 you're committed to beaten cheeks with his ridiculous together so he's posting photos

01:16:57.860 with another woman right after asking me out wow beaten cheeks he's literally breaking my heart he's

01:17:01.780 breaking commit this act of infidelity on essie over here who you've never met yet okay we have frankie

01:17:06.580 k um hey thank you man you know what's funny about beyonce she encourages single ladies to have fun

01:17:11.220 supports promiscuous behavior in her music and perpetuates the i don't need a man mentality and

01:17:16.020 when she's done recording she goes home to her husband and her children who by the way i did her

01:17:21.540 jay-z cheated right yes all right all right good good point frankie thank you man we have canada j

01:17:28.900 candace the honey badger queen is that your nickname i don't know or did you just get bestowed with

01:17:34.100 uh thank you for your voice and being on this wacky space is a cultural battlefield that somehow

01:17:39.540 pushes beyond ideological bubbles when are jeremy and ben going to make brian an offer seriously

01:17:46.020 think about it i'll bring it to them i've got a lot to bring in them yes the tiger king yeah tiger

01:17:52.340 king and matt walsh yeah all right we have uh travel trades here oh wait i'll just read hi brian long

01:17:59.220 time no see hopefully i can come on once i'm back from kuwait hi candace thanks for being a voice

01:18:03.700 when i felt odd having conversation i felt on having conservative behaviors excuse me your bravery has

01:18:09.860 helped countless people become comfortable with being conservative thank you that's so sweet thank you

01:18:15.780 we have travel trades people in this day and time are exceedingly haughty and refuse to pursue the

01:18:20.260 abolition or even suppression of ego in their everyday lives people appeal to uh people appeal their own

01:18:26.420 wants needs opinions ideas etc above all else instead of appealing to something greater from

01:18:31.940 travel trades hey thank you appreciate it and then lastly we have society i that's probably not i don't

01:18:39.060 know panel please listen to everything that candace says you have a rare opportunity to see what a high

01:18:44.980 value woman is and learn from her as she's intelligent respected and accomplished you can't justify and make

01:18:51.940 excuses for your lifestyles anybody got a response to that one thank you oh okay there you go all right

01:19:00.820 i like my lifestyle i love my lifestyle i could change it at any time these being in this industry

01:19:09.060 you don't run out of opportunities men are coming all the time if i wanted to settle down with one of them

01:19:16.660 i think i think that could have happened yeah wait when you say men are coming to you all the time as

01:19:21.460 clients right yeah and you said if you wanted to settle down with any of them you could but do you

01:19:28.820 find the men who come to you attractive because i mean i've heard from a lot of women who do only fans

01:19:34.900 or even women who uh are exotic dancers strippers whatever um and women who do porn or even adult content that

01:19:42.500 the men that typically like are the fans or consume the content or come and see you your clients a lot of these

01:19:49.460 women don't view these men like just by virtue of them coming to you or by virtue of them subscribing

01:19:56.100 to your of like that in and of itself makes them not a prospect for any like long-term relationship these

01:20:02.820 are normal guys and some of them are hot so i'm a fitness competitor all right i'm 46 years old i figured

01:20:08.740 i was going to age out of the industry what has happened milfs are all all the all the thing they're

01:20:14.660 the cats pajamas right now so i'm getting a ton i'm getting a lot of youngins you're coming the

01:20:24.900 youngins young gentlemen tons of them and and then you know fitness competitors judges that that judge

01:20:33.300 in the circuits and then they'll say hey you know you're looking good or tighten this up so there's a

01:20:39.700 lot of opportunities to meet a lot of individuals now to meet them though but i mean and date them

01:20:45.620 and when it comes to long-term commitment i mean i think they want well they i i agree what i what i

01:20:51.780 encounter um in something what candace said is these guys they are prideful so once they start dating you

01:20:58.820 they do in my experience they do want you to maybe consider settling down now i've done real estate i was

01:21:05.780 vice president of business growth at an active um wealth management company during covet i have

01:21:11.620 a master's degree i can do different things what do you have a master's in education i got straight a's

01:21:17.700 yeah so and i taught for a while so i i come in and out i'll go into white colored work and then i'll go

01:21:22.980 back into the industry because it's fun for me i enjoy it and and it is good money and it's an adventure

01:21:29.300 i enjoy going out with these guys being a travel companion and getting to go on vacations okay no i just

01:21:35.140 wanted to ask you as a the man sitting at this table are you attracted to their lifestyles do you

01:21:43.620 think men are attracted to their lifestyles uh i'm just curious about your opinion just to hear a

01:21:50.020 male i don't care well that's so rude no i mean he has asked you your opinion about everything like

01:21:55.620 good thing i don't care for what an other male has to say about my industry though but he's been

01:22:00.500 asking you questions about what you think about men no i'm gonna he's been asking you questions

01:22:04.100 about your life and the first thing when i ask one question you say i don't care i feel like

01:22:08.820 personally i'm very hurt i want to know yeah i just yeah but why interrupt that like when he

01:22:13.700 asked you a question what if someone said i don't care what she says you know i think that's just a

01:22:16.980 little rude i'm saying like because everybody's always out here i see your faces that you're giving

01:22:22.100 her and stuff like that no i just i'm saying like i'm letting her talk but i just wanted to hear his

01:22:26.340 opinion on it so i just was that like a little bit of insecurity to just jump and say i don't

01:22:30.100 care because can i poach candace from the daily wire it was just a little rude i need to talk so

01:22:36.580 much we've all been letting people talk with different perspectives so i just thought it was

01:22:39.700 like suddenly he hasn't even said anything and you've already diminished okay well yes so in any

01:22:46.980 case it's okay i just want to hear like we've been all talking about i'm trying to let brian continue

01:22:52.500 and you're still talking okay a little bit of insecurity coming out over there i'm not sure

01:22:57.380 where it's coming from but go on go ahead brian oh do i have your permission is it okay okay okay

01:23:04.820 cool cool um so sorry can you just repeat the question one more yeah i was just saying like

01:23:09.460 it's interesting because we're all women and we're giving different perspectives and the female

01:23:12.900 perspective on this topic when you hear what she just said about sex work and how she feels about

01:23:20.740 sex work or you hear what she's saying or you hear what she's saying what is your honest opinion

01:23:26.340 as a man because what we're trying to get to i think the nucleus of is you know high value women

01:23:33.300 high value men what creates that how men respond to that and we have the opportunity to hear a man

01:23:39.060 i mean i personally would not date a woman who is involved in sex work in any of its various

01:23:45.380 manifestations um just i mean it's kind of there's i i'm not really like a hater if people want to

01:23:55.860 do that sort of thing when on a societal level i don't know if it's uh you know the best thing but

01:24:02.500 uh i'm kind of like hey whatever go do your thing but as far as my own personal preferences standards

01:24:09.060 and boundaries when it comes to a relationship uh i don't foresee myself wanting to uh get involved

01:24:15.540 with someone who does sex work and why do you think that is i think most men would agree with you

01:24:21.460 uh i think and i i think that makes sense to me but why is that because i think it's just interesting

01:24:26.820 to hear a male perspective that's all sure i mean well it's kind of going back to there being different

01:24:33.220 levels to it so i mean if she's a prostitute or was a prostitute i mean it's kind of i feel

01:24:40.980 like that's just common sense like i wouldn't no offense i just wouldn't date a woman who's a

01:24:47.620 prostitute like i said and probably they wouldn't want to date me i don't know it's fine it's cool but

01:24:52.660 yeah i wouldn't i uh no if you're because i would want uh monogamy i'd want loyalty and even though

01:25:00.420 it's for for work and they're just doing it for money um my view of sex is not i don't think you

01:25:06.660 can well people do but i don't think you ought to detach intimacy from sex and people who engage

01:25:13.380 in a lot of casual sex or people who do it for work you've essentially just detached intimacy from

01:25:19.220 sex so um definitely not a prostitute um i mean not a stripper not a only fans no i feel like that

01:25:29.060 was just like an unnecessarily long way to answer like no no it's gonna want to date a hooker i don't

01:25:34.180 know it's like i don't think it's like that yeah and i said i don't care because it's like and you're

01:25:39.620 like no don't take offense like i'm not going to take offense to something i don't care about that's

01:25:43.300 why i'm like no just the preempt and you stated you were like and you looked at me and you said and

01:25:47.780 don't take offense like baby i'm not offended by any means you know what i mean okay okay i'm not looking

01:25:54.820 for we i'm not i'm not i'm not trying to offend you she was just asking me yeah i literally was

01:25:59.140 just asking a question no i know yeah yeah yeah yeah earlier it was like talked about like

01:26:03.060 promiscuity like i'm assuming you guys believe like promiscuity is like bad or shouldn't be

01:26:07.220 encouraged in society i was wondering if what specific factors do you think encourage it most

01:26:12.180 do you believe it's like media do you think like birth control has anything to do with it do you believe

01:26:16.340 like i want to know what your top factors of promiscuity are what you believe it is yeah so i would

01:26:22.500 say number one contributor is is culture and the education system so i remember when i was left

01:26:27.380 leaning a lot of my ideas came from the school system and just what you're talking about planned

01:26:31.860 parenthood in the classroom that effort began in the 70s the majority of high schoolers were graduating

01:26:36.260 with their virginity intact in the 70s before they started um teaching health class which was teaching

01:26:42.420 people that everybody's doing it and actually they weren't and within one decade it completely flipped

01:26:47.460 and the majority of teens were now graduating having lost their virginity um so we ceded a lot

01:26:52.980 of that to the education system which when parents had more control over their children what was

01:26:58.420 happening in the classroom was based on arithmetic and not cultural issues and focusing on engineering

01:27:03.460 children to think that sex is this positive um it you know it's you just do it everybody's doing

01:27:08.340 it doesn't matter if you have multiple partners you combine that with feminism in the classroom i

01:27:12.260 was forced in college to take a feminism 101 course and they kind of made you think that yeah beaten

01:27:18.900 cheeks donated two hundred dollars candace please tell these women their past promiscuous matters to

01:27:25.540 be with a decent guy that will not be beta males sc that was just a friend we still on relax just answer

01:27:33.380 my text and we good i promise equals d all right thank you cheese um was there a question here for

01:27:39.860 candidates or wait can i do you mind if i push back a little bit on the education system comment

01:27:46.980 sure okay because at least from the things that i've read and i've studied it seems like that is

01:27:52.340 true but in a very particular context and that very particular context was like basically abstinence

01:27:58.180 only education which i don't know about you guys but makes complete sense to me because if you tell

01:28:02.580 teenagers like don't do this thing this thing is like super you know like don't do it um it feels super

01:28:08.180 good but you're not supposed to do it or whatever if you phrase it that way then teenagers are going

01:28:12.260 to go out and do it because like at least everything that i've seen recently has been

01:28:15.540 talking about how um if you talk about proper sex ed and people who have more access to contraceptives

01:28:21.300 as well as well as better sex ed tend to have like a lower body count than people who are like

01:28:25.780 in like lower education less sex ed less access to contraception so i was just wondering like your

01:28:30.980 thoughts on that i'm i'm telling you it's not true factually in the 70s before they got planned

01:28:35.620 parenthood went in the classroom and started funding initiatives um and they started teaching

01:28:39.700 sex education they used to know they used to not be sex education in school and the way that they got

01:28:44.420 it into the classroom in the 70s was by saying you know it's better to teach them which is what you're

01:28:48.740 saying because then they'll be more responsible it actually within one decade it flipped the majority of

01:28:53.540 high schoolers were graduating with their virginity before there was sex education and then when they put

01:28:57.620 sex education in the classroom the majority of them within 10 years were not graduating with their virginity

01:29:02.740 so it actually sexualized children my understanding but the reason why was because the first

01:29:08.420 manifestations of sex education was abstinence only and it was working is what i'm saying to you oh

01:29:13.620 yeah it was working so they abstinence it used to be you know considered and i'm not at all trying

01:29:18.660 to i'm just telling you what the facts are here um like when people when abstinence was the cultural

01:29:24.340 simulation when everyone said you should be abstinent you should not get you should not have sex before

01:29:28.100 marriage that idea was permeated throughout culture it was reflected in culture there were

01:29:32.740 no sex ads there weren't people naked on the internet and people lived their lives it was

01:29:36.900 considered a big thing you know to lose your virginity you were actually considered someone

01:29:41.380 that maybe a guy wouldn't want to marry because you lost your virginity that was that was the cultural

01:29:45.300 understanding like you know in the 50s and the 60s and then in the 70s you had this fourth wave

01:29:50.260 of feminism that reared its ugly head and started associating sexual promiscuity to freedom and things

01:29:56.020 completely flipped again i'm just giving you a historical analysis of what happened in the

01:29:59.940 classroom yeah without commentary yeah it's okay if you sorry i'll just finish make it quick if you

01:30:05.300 yeah i i'd be interested to see like where exactly you're getting that from if like later you can tell

01:30:09.940 me or whatever thomas soul inside the education system and he has all of the sources listed in the

01:30:14.180 back of the book okay because at least in modern day do you think that any of that has flipped or no

01:30:19.620 no i think we've become you know there was to use a term i was i was actually talking about

01:30:23.540 this yesterday on a podcast i thought it was pretty brilliant paul joseph watson i love his youtube

01:30:27.380 stuff and he started talking about hoflation which is like that is that's a thing actually

01:30:32.980 hilarious which he's saying that men used to have to do a lot less and get a very high value

01:30:38.180 women he's like so think about your grandparents and your grandmother she was a high value woman

01:30:42.660 she you know she raised the kids she was conservative she was beautiful all these things and and

01:30:48.260 now we live in this moment where everyone's kind of a hoe and you have to work harder to get a

01:30:52.180 woman that doesn't have any self-respect or any value and i just thought it was really interesting

01:30:56.020 video it was obviously funny um but he was saying something and we live in we live in hoflation now

01:31:00.980 where everybody in their own capacity is selling their selling their bodies and unfortunately this

01:31:06.580 these are the options that men have no i'm not saying it's stunning to me that women talk about what

01:31:11.460 men need to be and what men need to be but i think just kind of the complete disintegration of when i look

01:31:16.660 at you know what my grandfather my grandmother looked like in pictures she passed in 2013 and

01:31:21.700 just how classy and how beautiful and how much i wanted to be like her and now i look at you know

01:31:25.860 women today and i just think man i feel bad for guys like you know that the pool is getting smaller but

01:31:31.380 also it's really positive for women that are conservative and you know who uh it means that

01:31:36.900 you're a part of you know maybe a smaller pool of individuals i see it a lot more in the south and

01:31:41.540 that men should aspire to pursue those women absolutely um to raise their families and you

01:31:46.020 know to raise their kids do you do you co-sign on the the hoflation oh yeah i believe yeah the

01:31:51.300 women i today are very low value and so it's funny because the simulation is like men ain't

01:31:56.500 shit is kind of the thing everybody's saying don't need a man and it's funny that someone brought up

01:32:00.980 beyonce because she's living the exact opposite of what she's singing she's just making money because

01:32:05.220 she's making knows how to make money in a hoflationary environment you know smart woman she's like i'm

01:32:09.780 just gonna pretend to be a hoe but then actually privately i'm gonna be like super hold on um

01:32:14.980 you wanted to come in then you please if you can try to keep it brief because i need to get

01:32:20.580 to chat i was just gonna say that my version of sex educator my sex education was literally them

01:32:25.620 showing us a birthing photo or a video sorry yeah in fourth grade that terrified me and i was like

01:32:30.340 actually i don't think i'm gonna have sex for a long time i think i'm good go ahead and like

01:32:34.900 speaking of hoflation i mean we're common we're always trending apparently right because

01:32:41.540 hose because without us hose you wouldn't have like that many views to be watching right you have

01:32:48.900 hose come on the podcast to talk about i'm not knocking hose i'm saying i don't want to be i'm

01:32:54.660 saying you have hose and when i say you have hose coming onto the podcast you you know you're a hoe

01:32:59.700 if you're a literal hoe or like more of the colloquial that's brian's dream you know what i

01:33:03.700 mean you have hose brian so you sit here and you want to bash sex workers but you know we come on

01:33:08.900 here bash anybody anybody i don't think anybody's bashing he's bringing you on here and giving you a

01:33:13.780 platform to speak so i think that if he was going to be bashing you he wouldn't even allow but making

01:33:17.860 us the hero of hose wait what do you mean making making making what making a scene i'm not making

01:33:24.660 anybody seem any sort of like no i'm just talking about a video we're a trending topic so it's

01:33:29.700 relevant to speak because it's interesting it's fascinating i am fascinated by hose i'll say it

01:33:34.820 i'm absolutely fascinated by the way the whole mind works the way the whole hive works i'm

01:33:39.860 fascinated i cover it on my show you are correct it is it is trending and that's when emma gets up

01:33:45.060 and does a video and says something like you know i'm it's chic to be divorced before you're 30 it is

01:33:49.620 absolutely fascinating to see how someone's mind can be so warped you know in the same way that i

01:33:55.060 think it's it's fascinating when anybody does anything crazy or says anything crazy and i cover

01:33:58.660 it on my podcast you know i am not knocking it at all i just tell people what the facts are you can

01:34:03.780 choose this lifestyle and here is where you are 99.9 likely to lead into in your life right you are

01:34:10.820 probably not destined for marriage you're not probably not destined for a stable relationship

01:34:15.140 men are going to not want this long term you can say it a thousand times you can have a thousand

01:34:18.340 cultural examples and women's still got to go out there and be hoes you know because they're about

01:34:23.060 they money and about a cardi b song or whatever it is so yes i think it is fascinating um and it is why

01:34:29.460 i wanted to you know this is why i talk about on my podcast and why i'm very interested to talk to you

01:34:34.020 guys i hope you guys feel that i've been respectful and listening to you know your lifestyles even though

01:34:38.340 it's so different from mine and so i appreciate brian for hosting well thank you for coming candace uh let's

01:34:43.220 see i have a couple chats here and then i have one more question and then i think candace

01:34:47.700 we'll have to leave here in a moment we have uh yvonne okay modern life dating donated 199

01:34:56.500 hey candace thank you for being a voice of common sense and a good representation of being a decent

01:35:02.580 woman in today's modern perverse time what are your thoughts on the passport bro movement of men

01:35:08.420 leaving america for better wives abroad hey john thank you very much for the uh tts um maybe a brief

01:35:14.980 little snippet on this if you yes yeah i i think that you can find higher quality women in other

01:35:21.060 places like i married an englishman i'm i think america passport not a bro but like a sis a passport

01:35:28.420 sis there you go uh yeah i think that america has really lowered the cultural standards for women more

01:35:35.460 than any you don't see this kind of even the way women dress in america compared to england fascinates me

01:35:40.740 and so yeah i i think find a wife do what you gotta do but also don't discount the south because there

01:35:45.780 are so many good women in the south in america come to tennessee they're wonderful i have heard

01:35:52.580 something kind of interesting on this is that uh you have a lot of men in the west a lot of men in the

01:35:58.580 u.s going overseas to try to find perhaps a wife who's a bit more feminine or you know whatever

01:36:05.220 they're not finding here in the in the west but you don't hear of men from other countries

01:36:11.860 in droves coming to the u.s to find a wife here you don't really hear that so um all right we have

01:36:19.300 yavante yavante saint simonis kansas i know you're listening to these women with the realization that

01:36:26.740 this country is doomed how will you help your son navigate the swamp before you right now and if we

01:36:33.300 can just try to be i moved to the south as soon as i got pregnant the first time i moved where my

01:36:37.780 values aligned and my son will be just fine perfect we have a goodest boy one of them is too young to

01:36:43.780 remember the movie pretty woman imagine a guy just wanting a better life for the both of you and maybe

01:36:48.180 even a family again the world is effed hey goodest boy thank you uh yavon candace do you think lyndon b

01:36:54.260 johnson has anything to do with the fact that these women that have an only fans are actually able to find

01:36:59.460 a relationship with a man i don't know how we correlated lyndon b johnson yeah lbj yeah are you

01:37:06.020 familiar with anything with lbj okay um yavante saint simonis can candace what specific steps will

01:37:15.460 you take to ensure that your daughter does not become one of the women sitting at the panel right

01:37:20.180 now it would just be impossible in my household we keep her away from this kind of secular living

01:37:25.940 keeping them away from tablets not letting them not letting them be raised on instagram

01:37:29.940 and social media and tiktok making sure that they have family values instilled in them that they

01:37:34.420 know what the cross represents um and that you know they're church-going children and it's all about

01:37:40.180 who you hang out with you but you will become the average of the people you spend your most time with

01:37:44.420 and i you know i appreciate the time here but i would definitely would say that you know i want my

01:37:50.020 kids to be in a different climate all right we have the castman 777 marriage must be a closed and

01:37:55.060 permanent relationship between two people for the purpose of raising children without this

01:37:59.860 definition marriage just becomes dating with a contract sending your husband to a sex therapist

01:38:05.300 for sex is just prostitution with a loophole hey the castman 777 thank you very much for your comment

01:38:12.100 there uh final question here before uh candace has to take off uh so um would any of you date a trans person

01:38:22.180 yes yes yes yeah i feel like if i say no i'm gonna get a lot of backlash well i think my personal

01:38:31.460 preference i would say no okay that's fine no no no well you're married um me me personally i i i would

01:38:40.580 not um my question to you guys is would any of you object to a man not wanting to date a transgender woman

01:38:48.980 i think everybody has their own personal preferences and if there's one thing you're allowed to be super

01:38:54.820 picky on it's who you date like you know i think that's the only thing that you can 100 have free

01:39:00.420 reign on you can date who you decide any i would completely agree with her like we talked about

01:39:06.660 before i think that everyone should have boundaries you know and as long as that person's upfront and

01:39:11.540 honest and they can have like a adult conversation that isn't rooted in hatred i don't think there's

01:39:16.020 anything wrong with preferring somebody that isn't trans okay i have a question so and we this has been

01:39:21.780 like a thing that's gone viral on this podcast before um and it always seems to spark quite a debate so

01:39:29.860 would you consider it to be gay for a man to date a trans woman yes for a man to date no personally

01:39:39.540 would he would you categorize him as straight um probably yeah because what is it i'm sorry this

01:39:48.500 is here i mean like i just if you don't want to answer that's fine go ahead if you don't answer

01:39:54.340 that's fine go ahead i'm with pixie i don't think that that makes me gay at all se

01:40:01.860 okay um question i mean does your answer change based on the stage of transition like what if this is

01:40:07.860 before any transition has occurred at all but the person has come to the realization that they are

01:40:14.980 transgender well i would assume that you have some level of like homosexual inclination if you're a man

01:40:21.620 attracted to a person who looks and represents as a man you know like if you're saying pre-transition

01:40:27.460 i would say like you're if you're attracted to those components of that person but pre-transition

01:40:32.180 if you are transgender are you a woman pre-transition you're a woman who hasn't transitioned yet so

01:40:39.300 you're presenting as a male what what if there hasn't what if there hasn't been any bottom surgery

01:40:46.020 what do you mean like there's still an appendage so you're saying they transitioned everything but

01:40:51.780 their bottom i there maybe they're in the process of transitioning let's say that fine everything but

01:40:59.220 the okay i feel like i'm kind of confused here so i'll just leave it in the it seems really

01:41:04.020 two people that have penises i don't care how you feel on your inside i don't care if you dress and

01:41:08.660 you wear a dress you wear a wig if you come together and you have sex you're gay and i think that is

01:41:14.820 homosexual right so i know that people are trying it's it is convoluted so i understand why you're like

01:41:20.260 they're trying to make it something else and it's in your head and well what if you feel like a woman

01:41:24.820 it's very simple if you are a man and you are having sex with a man irrespective of how you feel

01:41:29.940 or whether or not you've mutilated your body or you've chopped something off it doesn't make you

01:41:34.340 not a man you are your man and two men coming together to have sex with their appendages intact

01:41:41.140 obviously is homosexual sex so yeah i think um you know it's different if you're presenting completely

01:41:47.140 different because at that point like you know you have men who say that they've been trapped or

01:41:51.620 whatever and i'm like that person is straight they literally slept with someone who was like

01:41:55.700 presenting as a woman looked like a woman they couldn't tell like i wouldn't consider that gay

01:42:00.580 um but at the end of the day like honestly i don't really care about people's sexual orientation that

01:42:04.980 much i feel like this is like kind of a culture war issue and for some people culture war issues

01:42:09.140 are important but i'd rather talk like policy about something i don't know if that makes me boring here

01:42:13.460 but well i'm not sure i'm totally following but i guess so what is a woman i've answered this

01:42:25.860 question before on the podcast here i can start with azalia did i say your name i'm sorry no you

01:42:30.100 never do but it's okay okay go ahead so what is a woman i mean i think that gender is a spectrum i

01:42:36.820 obviously know that you do not agree with me and a lot of the conservative people here won't agree with

01:42:40.180 me but i guess it's just how you present and how you feel i mean i don't really again i don't like

01:42:44.900 to structure things that way and like make it so black and white i think that people should

01:42:48.740 represent themselves and be what they want to be and it's nobody else's business to be honest

01:42:52.980 a female is somebody that has a vagina that's what it says in the book right okay

01:43:00.260 the health ed book okay gender and sex are two different things so okay you answered the

01:43:07.060 question correctly so i don't want you to feel like you didn't even treat it wrong what what is

01:43:10.260 a woman a woman is like this is so complex it doesn't need to be a woman is somebody who presents

01:43:15.700 or acts as the social construct of women and the reason why i don't say biology is because whenever

01:43:21.060 we look at biology the truth is before coming to this room i did not look at anybody's genitalia here

01:43:26.500 i did not look at any of your chromosomes i just assumed you guys were women because of

01:43:30.340 how you dress and act so i think that maps on more to our reality of how we use the word woman

01:43:37.060 i see this is so controversial um i'm very like a man and a woman man has a penis woman has a vagina

01:43:46.420 biologically man and a woman i agree i think that it's like whatever biologically and i know yeah

01:43:52.660 anatomically what you've got going on um i feel like what brings out my feminine qualities the most is

01:44:01.940 the thought of being a mother in the future so i guess i associate um being a woman with being a

01:44:07.940 mother in all aspects of that um okay uh your gender is decided before you're born when you're

01:44:16.580 born and for the rest of your life i'm having a little boy the doctor knows that i know that because

01:44:22.100 he's got a penis that is growing inside of my stomach right now which is kind of tricky to think about

01:44:26.500 um if i get onto this table and i start meowing like a cat i don't suddenly become a biological

01:44:31.940 cat because i present like a cat and wear a tail and say meow meow that is probably means that i need

01:44:37.940 to talk to a therapist not you not you um but yeah it's not that difficult it doesn't need to be

01:44:45.140 convoluted it doesn't need to be controversial um a woman to answer your question is an adult female

01:44:51.460 adult human female it is an adult human female and that is the answer to something that it's just

01:44:58.900 shocking to me that every person knew every child every and then within just a couple of cultural

01:45:04.900 years everyone is so confused about you know water being a liquid it's very again i'm fascinated by it so

01:45:12.740 i love to talk to people that are confused by that but if you were born with a vagina you are a female

01:45:19.700 and if you were born with a penis you are a male and if you had some rare thing happen which hardly

01:45:26.180 ever happens but people always talk about it where you're born with both parts you might be intersex

01:45:32.500 hermaphrodite but generally speaking i think we know that that means that something genetically went

01:45:36.980 wrong and we are born either male or female pixie do you object to her definition yeah because i think

01:45:43.540 um i understand where you're coming from but i think when it comes to day-to-day use of words they have

01:45:48.660 to map onto our reality somewhat and the truth is like as i didn't check anyone's like biology or

01:45:54.100 chromosomes before coming here you can say it's an act but the truth is that's it's an act that

01:45:58.580 everybody plays into everybody looks at how a person looks like and says oh they're a woman or male based

01:46:04.020 off of that and you can say oh that person is putting on a disguise that doesn't change their real

01:46:08.900 gender or anything but everybody acts that way so to me it's like no like the word that maps or the

01:46:15.700 definition that maps most onto reality onto our day-to-day usage is appearance based uh candace

01:46:21.700 does have to uh take off here do you have a final response to her yeah i just if you grow an afro and

01:46:28.100 wear a wig and put you know a lot of black makeup on you're not a black woman you know so your appearance

01:46:33.060 doesn't actually mean anything you are you're you're not black um and the same way that i'm not white so

01:46:39.300 how we uh if we can trick someone you might be able to trick me i think right richard dollars all did a

01:46:43.860 really good job tricking people into believing that she's black for a long time uh by darkening

01:46:48.340 her skin getting super tan and wearing fake wigs but she wasn't actually a black woman so how you

01:46:52.820 feel on the inside and how you present you might be able to trick people but that makes you a liar not

01:46:57.460 a woman so um yeah that's what i would say in closing yeah if you want you could direct your

01:47:03.460 further comments to me what happened afterwards but um guys please be sure to check out candace owens

01:47:09.460 documentary yes convicting a murderer you guys will love it tomorrow it's not political yeah

01:47:13.940 i'm gonna watch it tomorrow it'll be live on x live on x yeah dailywire.com okay yeah cool um yeah be

01:47:20.980 sure to check that out guys well candace thank you so much for coming thank you guys for having

01:47:24.180 it honestly i really did appreciate talking to you guys thought it was fascinating and i think

01:47:26.660 everyone was super respectful so i really appreciate it and you because you're so young i'm just gonna

01:47:32.180 say a prayer for you because i i do think i really do believe that in there there's just a different

01:47:37.940 life for you and i'm just gonna say a prayer for you tonight and i just wanted to say that because

01:47:41.220 i felt for me tonight i mean because i don't know what that prayer entails well i'm gonna say it

01:47:46.100 anyways yeah someday you're are you you're rejecting the prayer prayer is rejected okay

01:47:53.380 the show goes on but candace's is leaving guys give me just a sec to say goodbye

01:47:58.500 yo guys w's in the chat for candace w's in the chat for candace oh seven's in the chat for

01:48:03.060 candace sorry let me i'll scoot over a little bit yeah if i want to be at home i'll be uh guys give

01:48:07.940 me just a sec while i say goodbye and then uh we'll continue with the stream oh wait oh madison

01:48:13.220 one person day in and day out i'm sorry oh madison's gonna sit here

01:48:19.460 i know it was condescending

01:48:22.100 yes thank you for saying it

01:48:27.220 i know the eyes

01:48:29.940 shout out to air force amy

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01:49:08.020 drop us a follow drop us a prime sub uh big thank you to candace owens for coming and being on the show

01:49:13.940 yeah she had a hard out at uh 8 30 guys so uh madison will take over this seat uh okay so

01:49:21.780 where were we we're talking about race and gender you guys has good with candace right

01:49:28.500 you guys she is a little uh a little back and forth it was good

01:49:34.100 it was pretty good i disagreed on some things but yeah i get very respectful

01:49:38.580 wait just just a reminder just when you speak if you can in the mic thank you very super smart lady

01:49:43.220 um very very awesome i disagree on some things but it's just it's a matter of lifestyle right it's

01:49:50.500 good it's good um let me see if i can get a couple chats in here we have question for the s workers

01:49:57.700 from travel trades if the entirety of mankind adopted your ideologies on s marriage do you think

01:50:03.620 your ideologies would be a net positive or net negative to the world uh we'll go around the table

01:50:08.020 on that and guys uh actually go ahead i i guess i don't understand yeah like the question yeah i don't

01:50:15.380 either like like would it be generally positive if everybody was sex positive i i guess is that

01:50:22.100 the question yeah because i don't think we're advocate i don't think we're saying like our ideology is

01:50:26.740 that everybody should be a sex worker and have lifestyles like us right if that's what is implied

01:50:31.620 because i don't think i think that would be a net negative obviously i think it's for a specific

01:50:35.140 type of person to be into into sex work or perform sex work i don't think that that's for everybody

01:50:41.300 that would definitely be a net negative if everyone wanted to be a sex worker okay

01:50:47.460 i see i mean yeah i would i would agree with azalea

01:50:52.900 pixie yeah i mean i kind of i kind of am stuck from the last thing that was said i kind of want

01:50:57.780 to respond back to it but oh to the kansas thing yeah okay just pretend i'm a pregnant black woman

01:51:02.980 well yeah remember you're not what you feel inside brian oh i mean the reason why the argument for

01:51:14.260 like gender and race is so different is because like our conceptions of what we're didn't where a

01:51:19.460 proper claim on gender and race is like radically different right so we treat race or culture as like

01:51:26.740 a group identity right so to be black you have to be part like of a black parents have some sort of like

01:51:32.260 black history um be part of like a black community it's more of a thing that gets put onto you based

01:51:38.660 on like what your general history is and how much validity you have to claim wait women everybody has

01:51:44.020 a claim to women because everybody has a fucking mom and everybody has been affected by gender roles

01:51:49.220 wait hold on but if you're black that manifests itself in your skin color like your yeah but there's

01:51:57.700 like there's people have you ever heard this term white passing no like albino but no like black

01:52:04.260 people oh okay yeah yeah no no i understand yeah but they don't know no white passing is not trying

01:52:10.420 to make yourself look black or make yourself look white it's you you are white because you're black

01:52:14.580 you have a light skin right you just are extremely light well are you a hundred percent like one of your

01:52:19.860 parents must be white all right maybe you just have what is it like one ancestor a long time ago

01:52:25.380 that was white and then it just came out in your dreams that's happened before so are you suddenly

01:52:30.100 not black because you're white passing no but you were arguing that it like it that the appearance is

01:52:36.020 what makes you something well i'm what i was yeah i'm arguing i'm saying that there's a difference

01:52:40.740 between race and sex for the or like yeah there is a difference but yeah and for this reason the

01:52:46.020 reason why it's seen as like so outlandish if you just suddenly claim to be a black person is because

01:52:50.980 we consider cultural identities group identities based on like historical claims while gender everybody

01:52:57.060 has a claim to gender because everybody's been affected to gender roles everyone has a claim to

01:53:02.020 gender because everybody's been affected by it oh you have to be more masculine you have to be more

01:53:06.500 feminine this is what a man means this is what a woman means everybody's been affected by it

01:53:10.580 not everybody has been you know a descendant from slavery wait are you saying no you're not blowing

01:53:20.100 my mind because you just said descended from slavery are you think i don't think all black people are

01:53:26.020 descendant of us slaves because there's black people in i never said in various regions around

01:53:31.300 the world of course yeah absolutely but the point is that they have a what is it historical claim that oh

01:53:37.220 you know these people were viewed as black here this is the history of this place etc etc not like

01:53:43.060 oh you know i have no cultural background connected to it now i'm going to claim to be black well that's

01:53:48.740 what i'm saying there has to be some there's a historical claim there at least in our society that treats

01:53:52.980 it that way okay so that's the difference we can talk about something else yeah well i'm that was

01:53:58.820 candace owens argument because she was making the race comparison i like i wasn't really prepared to

01:54:06.820 make that argument but what i just have one more comment and it's not about the race versus

01:54:10.900 gender because those are two very very yeah what you got mine is for you in particular because you

01:54:15.940 said that your view of a woman is motherhood and there are a lot of women that would take offense

01:54:19.700 to that because it's really really painful for women that can't have kids or can't be mothers for

01:54:24.580 that reason so i think that that's not a good way to identify a woman i'm just saying that yeah no

01:54:29.620 that's a great point honestly that's a great point i just meant for me how i feel like um

01:54:37.300 what makes me feel most woman out of like anything else and but but also i don't have kids it's just

01:54:43.620 the thought that i want them it's it's so maybe even it's just that maybe it's like the mothering

01:54:47.380 instinct i i don't have kids and i may be someone who isn't able to i mean hopefully that is absolutely

01:54:52.580 not the case but it's just the desire to have kids the desire to be nurturing that's where and i don't

01:54:58.580 have them yet but that is still what makes me feel most woman than any like yeah and that's very

01:55:05.620 fair i just think those are two like the way you said it the first time and saying that those are

01:55:09.380 two very very different things so that clarification yeah but i mean i don't particularly in the first

01:55:15.460 place have a strong opinion on the transgender issue i mean in in terms of like words of it all

01:55:22.180 and like the wording of it all the definitions of it all like i don't really have like much commentary

01:55:26.500 on that because again it's just words it doesn't really have like much well okay so the typical

01:55:30.340 recommended go-to for what is a woman if you you say you lean more conservative right pretty center

01:55:36.660 but yeah i mean i think she does she does make a good point like your ability to get pregnant doesn't

01:55:42.420 like if a woman had like a hysterectomy she's still a woman just because she can't have children

01:55:48.100 i mean i what i would recommend probably your star strongest definition for what is a woman is just

01:55:53.060 an adult human female i just think in general everyone should worry less about other people's

01:55:58.820 genitals period thank you because what does it matter it's not on your body it's on there like

01:56:04.500 if you're not sleeping with them and well it's like it's just not your business well i mean like

01:56:10.020 if you're having like an intellectual conversation about it like truth no it's kind of a big deal i

01:56:15.220 mean we can have the conversation but i think like the worrying of it of like oh are they trans are

01:56:19.940 they this are they that what are they are they woman are they a man i like i don't think that we

01:56:23.700 need to be having even in-depth conversations about somebody else's body and somebody else's

01:56:29.220 decision and how they feel because i don't think any of us can dictate how anyone else feels i think

01:56:35.060 it's more of a constructive conversation or debate if what you want to talk about is something like

01:56:40.260 policy related like if you want to ask like a have a debate about like a question that um i don't

01:56:44.820 think it's a stupid question like what is a woman to you you're asking you know for someone's like

01:56:48.500 ideological take on it i just think it's more fruitful to have a conversation about like

01:56:54.100 how should the law define it or how should it like apply in society i just think that's a bit more of

01:56:58.580 like interesting and constructive of a debate to have because it could have real consequences versus

01:57:02.900 like i mean i was a philosophy major in college all you know half of philosophy philosophy gets hated on

01:57:07.140 because like you know half of it is just arguing about a definition of something that's completely

01:57:11.460 abstract in the first place it doesn't have a physical reality you know what i'm saying i mean

01:57:17.220 biological reality like that's different whatever i'm not even trying to get into that i'm just

01:57:20.900 saying it's a philosophical argument we are trying to ask when you ask people like what is the what

01:57:25.460 is definition of woman to you it's not a philosophical argument it's very relevant it's not a philosophical

01:57:31.140 i think it's very simple it's very simple an adult human female okay but i think what everyone's

01:57:37.380 trying to say did you check if i had a dick before i came in here so here's what does that no did you

01:57:43.700 did you check my chromosomes this is yeah no but like but you still call me a woman did i i don't

01:57:50.420 did i i would call you a woman but i would call i didn't i don't know if i called you a woman okay

01:57:54.660 but i okay in any case did you check but that's oh brian if you line okay here's the thing though if

01:58:00.900 you lined up a hundred women and a hundred men with pretty accurate certainty you would be able

01:58:09.140 like very easily be able to be like and excuse me females and males let me clarify you'd be pretty

01:58:16.420 easily able to assess that's a woman that's a man yeah until they start changing their appearance and

01:58:23.060 now not necessarily i there's a lot of passing people like the point is the fact that somebody

01:58:29.700 even just one person passes already throws a wrench into the argument because if it's supposed to be this

01:58:34.580 pure biological thing then passing wouldn't be a question so just be when i was getting my master's

01:58:41.220 degree in education i had to take life span right i need to come back and this lifespan development and

01:58:49.940 when we were studying lifespan development we were um studying transgender and transgender people just

01:58:58.500 in case the there's this minuscule um statistical possibility that a child might reach out to us

01:59:07.620 as educators i was an actual teacher for children so we studied that and there's a tiny tiny tiny tiny tiny

01:59:16.180 minuscule percentage of legitimate transgendered individuals in our society but now due to all of

01:59:24.580 this this trendy stuff now everybody's jumping on the bandwagon now you've got kids in school when

01:59:30.900 they're supposed to be studying saying oh i identify as a unicorn you have to call me a unicorn today

01:59:36.660 and if you don't you've got a principal breathing down your neck saying that you have to that's happened

01:59:42.980 to my son so that's where to me i'm starting to see mental illness happen i'm starting to see

01:59:50.420 a trend of let's just jump on this whether it's true or not and let's put push buttons and let's

01:59:57.620 get attention but i mean being transgender is actually already studied in psychology it's gender dysphoria

02:00:03.700 and it's a real thing where they legitimately feel like the opposite sex and i'm not saying that you're

02:00:08.180 wrong with people maybe jumping on the bandwagon but in the united states i believe i could be i don't

02:00:12.740 know the exact statistic but i believe it's 0.04 percent of people in the united states are

02:00:17.700 transgender so legit yes and that's that's a very very very minuscule amount of people so and i don't

02:00:25.700 believe in transition i think it should be up to the parents what they want to do and having them you

02:00:30.500 know go to therapy and go do those things in order to figure out whether it is just like a bandwagon

02:00:36.020 thing and they're just hopping onto it or if they legitimately are and that it is something that

02:00:40.420 they need to process and go through and talk to someone and maybe they are somebody that needs to

02:00:43.940 transition later in life and that should be their choice the bandwagon stuff is scary especially when

02:00:49.140 you've got california trying to create laws where if your five-year-old comes to you and says i feel

02:00:54.900 like a boy today but that but biologically it's your little girl that the lawmakers would actually

02:01:01.780 start making you put into motion biological changes and changing their hormones okay but i think that

02:01:07.460 there's like a huge misconception with that because there's so many steps before it comes to

02:01:11.380 hormone blockers or anything like that like they have to see a psychologist they have to go through

02:01:14.820 therapy to determine if they actually are transgender so i think that's like that's like a huge

02:01:20.660 misconception in the media and like propaganda of them putting that out there you are 100 right

02:01:24.980 because it is they are blowing this out of proportion and scaring parents into believing that that's what's

02:01:30.500 actually happening that they are like the second that your child says that they're the opposite gender that

02:01:34.900 they feel that way that they're immediately being sent to doctors in order to completely change

02:01:38.740 their sex and that's just not happening i hope that that's like the case that it's like not actually

02:01:45.140 that you know you have to you're legally required to go straight to hormone blockers but even if it's

02:01:50.340 the case that the first thing is oh put them into therapy even if that's like the first tiny step

02:01:55.700 it does i don't i'm pretty sure there's no law if your six-year-old 12-year-old five-year-old comes

02:02:00.420 to you and says i want to kill myself today no parents are legally required to put their kids in

02:02:04.820 therapy so i'm kind of confused i know it's fine are we really curious about the kids best interest

02:02:11.700 because i feel like there should be there should have been tens of if that's if that's how radical

02:02:15.460 we want to go with it why are there not like hundreds of other laws already in there about

02:02:18.340 like if your kid comes to you and says i want to kill myself you're legally required to put them in

02:02:21.300 therapy i feel like i feel like it's because they're grooming moving on all right guys i gotta get a

02:02:26.420 couple chats out of the way we have mr lamavi slavic the full moon controls the tides just as the water

02:02:35.780 in our bodies ebbs and flows with the lunar cycle and just as the sun gives birth to creation

02:02:42.260 each day so too does it give birth to potential for growth and transformation within us

02:02:47.140 thank you man appreciate it no idea what the that any of that beautiful words

02:02:50.500 uh doc vanablis question to the sex workers do you really think that the men you attract outside

02:02:55.860 of your work are going to be mentally healthy and don't confuse mentally unhealthy with insecure

02:03:01.380 candace you are the bomb sorry man yeah she left but uh yeah go ahead um as somebody that's been

02:03:08.180 in a relationship with a very very normal person for the last year and a half he is very mentally

02:03:14.340 healthy he is probably the most kind patient um honestly just one of the most amazing men i've ever

02:03:21.860 met he is you know it it almost feels like he's gone to therapy for years i don't know he just

02:03:28.260 knows how to handle situations he knows how to handle conversations or difficult conversations

02:03:34.260 he's just an absolutely wonderful human being i don't have anything bad to say if anything

02:03:38.420 i don't deserve him for sure but yeah i have a very mentally healthy boyfriend and i think it's

02:03:44.340 very possible for sex workers to find those people and i have friends that have as well i

02:03:48.180 literally wouldn't be anywhere without him i love him he's great and he's a great person just because

02:03:53.540 i'm a sex worker doesn't mean that i'm not deserving of that any response to the question um we are just

02:03:59.940 as deserving as having a healthy relationship with somebody that we love i'm trying to think what would

02:04:06.260 be the mirror opposite if i were to rephrase what would a what's the equivalent

02:04:17.300 would the girls date a sex worker i that's not a fair hold on that's not a fair equivalent like a

02:04:23.460 dude who doesn't have a job i don't know that's because then they're not making money that's completely

02:04:29.460 different yeah but what is the mirror opposite like let's say among men who would view someone who does

02:04:35.860 sex work as among the men who would view someone who does sex work as not desirable for a partner

02:04:43.860 what would be the mirror opposite like what profession or career would women like why isn't it

02:04:51.380 the same i was about to say yeah i preempted it i knew y'all were gonna come for me i knew you were

02:04:56.660 coming for me these toxic podcasts i don't know i feel like these all these white men with their

02:05:03.860 it's the same equivalent just flipped why why do we why is it yeah why is it not the same would it be

02:05:09.140 the same way yeah yeah why would it not be i don't know if it's a total like

02:05:14.260 mirror opposite though you know so men can be sex workers and everything's good and fine and

02:05:21.620 they're cool right no no no that's not that's not what i'm really getting at i guess i'm more so

02:05:26.340 getting at no in the same way that i think men care more about women's promiscuity than the reverse

02:05:32.900 not to say that there's definitely women out there that don't want to date a guy who's promiscuous or who

02:05:37.540 has a high body count but i do think generally speaking women tend to care a bit less or a bit

02:05:43.780 less than men do when it comes to body count promiscuity maybe i'm just different because

02:05:48.740 i do care i don't think i you wouldn't say the sex worker bro you do sex work yeah but i have

02:05:52.820 restrictions i do i post lingerie i wouldn't date a man who posts his nudes on the internet but if he

02:05:58.100 did what if he did lingerie it'd be okay if he was doing the same things i would that's why i don't

02:06:03.460 want to be a hypocrite so i'm doing the things that i would allow my partner to do as well

02:06:07.780 what if it was like nude but not not sex just doesn't matter just peeing no no no pp swinging

02:06:15.220 in the air no god no okay okay so then you wouldn't date a okay all right i feel like this is a men uh

02:06:22.340 this is a lie a lot of men tell each other the idea that like oh men can like sleep around a bunch or

02:06:27.540 like have a bunch of like you know girlfriends and women won't care maybe you'll find a woman who doesn't

02:06:32.500 care but i think most women like don't want that well that's not really what i said oh no i i'm not

02:06:39.780 saying specifically i'm saying that like this is a sentiment i've heard from other people yeah sure

02:06:44.740 yeah okay yo uh i feel like maybe the reverse could just be guys who use like who like subscribe to like

02:06:52.500 sex workers do you know i feel like that's the opposite like in my head could be which i would

02:06:58.100 like not be okay with i but i don't know if that's technically the opposite yeah because you're like

02:07:02.980 seeking like those both are like both are like types of boundaries though that like if the guy

02:07:08.420 doesn't want his woman being shown to a bunch of dudes for money i don't want my partner being like

02:07:14.820 paying to be shown a bunch of women for like his money again i think the difference is that men are that

02:07:19.220 that are subscribing to only fans are like going to seek out a sex worker they're like actively

02:07:23.860 seeking that out and that connection with somebody else whereas somebody that's doing it as a job

02:07:27.620 like we're not seeking out the men that are coming but they're still like selling out their sexuality

02:07:33.220 i feel like that's like here let's uh let's uh yeah let's just move on uh rare i don't know how to

02:07:39.780 pronounce your name in but hey thank you uh you always talk about world of warcraft why not raise the

02:07:43.940 topic of the illidan illidan funeral raid oh on the realm illidan i they would not it's just it

02:07:56.420 i will say though would any of you guys date a uh

02:08:02.900 world of warcraft gamer like 10 hours a day i did you did anybody here show of hands show of hands

02:08:09.620 ladies no i did is he doing it professionally yeah is it his job is he getting paid no he's just a

02:08:14.100 oh that's then no i dated someone doing it he's a he's an amateur he does it for the love of the game

02:08:20.900 he doesn't care about the money or the accolades he wants the glory he wants the epic lutes

02:08:28.260 he wants the purples huh does he have a different job if he's working 10 hours for this game does he

02:08:33.620 have time for another job all right and wait not jack donated a hundred thank you man much

02:08:45.540 appreciated only toes thank you for all the uh gifted subs on uh twitch and also thank you to

02:08:52.180 erudite not so what's her oh not so yeah she raided us on twitch i i missed it earlier you should have

02:08:57.940 her on she's really i'll shout out the twitch people really quick yo devosh thank you for the oh i

02:09:01.860 i already read some of these uh big fella thank you for the prime not so air died think for the

02:09:06.740 raid bay leaf think for the prime only toes thank you for the 10 community subs appreciate it guys

02:09:11.140 follow us twitch.tv slash whatever drop us the prime sub if you have one we have this guy hold on

02:09:18.660 she literally doesn't know what she's talking about my best friends are black i don't act black

02:09:24.020 whoa oh my god are you a racist i literally said you need a historical claim like hello that

02:09:31.620 goes that he's proving my point pixie wow you guys caught me you know what if you were like

02:09:37.460 adopted by a by a black family that's you're still missing the historical claim right what wait what

02:09:44.340 historical claim no i know that you're like ancestry what do you mean that your ancestry you know like

02:09:50.580 slavery is that what you're like oh my god like your ancestry she's the one who said

02:09:54.900 that your ancestry belonged to whatever culture you're claiming to be a part of oh okay i thought

02:09:58.820 you were bringing the slavery thing back no no okay all right we have a couple more chats we have

02:10:04.900 wait hold on uh we have goodest boy

02:10:10.660 if pixie is confused on jow how to define trans men men slash women then how the hell are the rest of us

02:10:18.500 supposed to figure it out without offending or catching a charge i'm not offended am i how did

02:10:24.660 i come off as offended like i i know your lips quivering a little bit i'm just kidding i'm kidding

02:10:30.900 without offending i think they're fending it like a transgender person like misgendering them or

02:10:38.500 something yeah no i think um from my personal experience it's completely anecdotal most of the

02:10:44.980 trans people i've met like if i've misgendered them or whatever they never like really get upset

02:10:49.300 at me they're like oh i prefer if you call me this and then if you keep if you're kind of an

02:10:53.380 asshole and you're like no i'm gonna call you whatever i want deal with their whatever then

02:10:56.500 they're like okay you i'm going bye go ahead i heard that there's like a state where you can get

02:11:02.820 fine ten thousand dollars for misgendering somebody like michigan or something like that

02:11:09.620 because i've never heard that is true in the u.s yes that sounds maybe can i look it up on my phone

02:11:16.500 sure sure sure yeah all right we have yavon uh just save it oh thanks chris thank you thank you chris

02:11:23.300 you're the homie i think that was a bill they were trying to use yavon how yo can you please tell me

02:11:27.300 how to pronounce your name because i i don't like to i i don't like to fuck it up oh wait let me read

02:11:31.540 this one again she is lost haven't lived with my parents since 16 i don't know how that's related pixie

02:11:38.020 wait he has not lived with his parents since he was 16 who this guy cool yeah i yeah cool awesome

02:11:48.580 good for you sweet okay uh how do you found the article what is it really quick do you want to

02:11:55.060 oh i'll yeah sure we need to fix your screen it's fixed it's just the screen protector i know we got

02:12:02.340 to get you a new one no i don't want none you like it all busted like this okay mix

02:12:07.700 michigan house passes a bill that could make unless you want to give me wrong pronouns i'm

02:12:12.420 not sure about that uh wrong pronouns of felony finable up to 10 000 but did it get signed into

02:12:18.180 law was it this is fox news yeah it says passes bill i would have to read it the house passes the

02:12:23.460 bill but then it has to go yeah so it has to yeah it has to get and then by the governor i think yeah

02:12:30.580 so but they did pass i mean it is yeah making i wonder wrong pronouns of felony but it could be

02:12:39.780 there's also like i've heard stories about this and sometimes it's within the confines of like if

02:12:46.900 you're working for it might not be like to every citizen it might just be like if you're in a health

02:12:53.140 care setting in any case i still think in a health care setting that's ridiculous but i've read about um

02:12:59.620 the fuck was that did is nick googling something done uh the fox news article yeah uh we'll pull it

02:13:07.940 up really quick why not oh it's fine it's fine okay we have wait did that wait no no no no i think

02:13:17.380 he sent it twice the madman yeah he sent it twice the madman okay no can you tell me okay sorry a dude

02:13:25.220 sorry we weren't able to get to it unfortunately she did have to uh get out of here but um the

02:13:30.340 correlation of lyndon b johnson with men being in relationships with only fans women is the fact

02:13:35.140 that these men did not have an everyday father figure to steer them away from such women true or

02:13:40.500 false what did it have to do with lyndon b johnson i'm so confused george washington would not have

02:13:47.780 approved of your lifestyles okay the motherfucking cherry tree male answer the

02:13:52.820 cherry tree was a disgrace i don't know what the okay uh anyway you've can you please just send

02:14:00.020 another chat though i really want to know how to pronounce your name because it's confusing to me okay

02:14:04.820 uh the cast man thank you man you don't thank you very much guys uh you don't need to check someone's

02:14:10.740 biology to know if someone is a man or woman i can tell based on body shape like all other sane people

02:14:16.100 also if sex and gender are not the same why do men cut their d's off to become women it's gender

02:14:24.180 not sex affirming care it looks like you have the second half i i like honestly i was so clocked

02:14:30.740 into the first part but the first part i know for a fact is not true because there are plenty

02:14:36.660 of situations that have already happened where somebody thought that they could clock somebody

02:14:41.140 that was trans and they were completely incorrect there are women that have masculine features and

02:14:46.420 they look more masculine and they are still women and same with the opposite people can be androgynous

02:14:51.940 just because your body shape doesn't look particularly feminine doesn't mean you're not a woman and are

02:14:57.060 a trans person that's just a load of bs yeah i mean it is yeah period she ate that i feel like i'd be

02:15:08.340 very skilled at identifying you would think that but there would be there wouldn't be people that

02:15:14.740 are including breasts that could be a youtube video i mean i thought of body shape though because i

02:15:18.660 feel like you a woman you only wouldn't be able to tell was a woman if she like was completely flat

02:15:23.060 well there are women that have broad shoulders there are women that are have a more masculine

02:15:27.220 build i mean like every we come in all shapes and sizes i mean this has already happened

02:15:32.020 that people have not been able to tell there have been women that have gotten arrested for using the

02:15:35.940 women's restroom because someone thought they were trans and they were actually just a masculine

02:15:39.700 presenting woman so i'm gonna like you you can't tell men wouldn't be crying about being tricked or

02:15:45.300 whatever if they were clocking them 100 of the time it's just not accurate they tricked them how do you

02:15:50.180 pronounce this guy's name to to let her is that how you pronounce your name can you please clarify

02:15:56.500 okay thank you man uh okay i got a couple questions here for the panel so

02:16:04.340 olivia muscle worship huh what the what is that you in your pre-show notes to us you said something about

02:16:12.500 muscle worship i was recently asked to go to to go do a muscle worship dom session where i beat him

02:16:20.100 up and i licked his veins yeah what happened there this is wild guys do you have are you a muscle

02:16:25.860 so i do i do fitness competitions can we see them oh the tris okay yeah we got oh the lats pretty good

02:16:32.340 too don't don't don't sleep on her lats can we see a bicep yeah all right okay um so you beat the dude up

02:16:46.500 how much does that cost extra to beat a dude up or is it almost it's a specialty it's okay so yeah um

02:16:54.100 it's interesting and then after i did that um it got some fanfare on um twitter and then these

02:17:02.020 dominatrix had me on their uh spotify podcast but this gentleman got a hold of me and said it's due to

02:17:10.260 your physique but i i like women who are really ripped it'd be even better if you were even more

02:17:16.500 ripped on like steroids which i thought was fascinating leave it oh okay never mind okay

02:17:22.660 and yeah and so he wanted to lick my veins and he wanted me to choke him um i did brazilian jujitsu for

02:17:31.700 a while so i would kind of initiate the rear naked choke on him and he was fully erect just loving it and

02:17:38.500 so i mean it just kind of went like that and he totally got off on it i i got it nick hold on

02:17:46.180 i got it start again um okay we can start however you want no i i heard it

02:17:54.580 so it's it's a fetish thing and it's fascinating there's a whole world of guys that yeah that want

02:18:01.700 that want this so it's it's psychologically interesting for me because here he is getting erect and he's

02:18:08.020 enjoying this so i'm having to gauge and then i'll go kind of like really central

02:18:15.780 i have a question for the both of you so disclaimer for the viewers for the ladies here

02:18:22.100 i would never do this let me paint a scenario and i want you to tell me how much it would cost to

02:18:27.460 hire one of you um courtesans to fulfill my hypothetical fantasy what if i wanted to play

02:18:39.620 chess with you while watching the lion king and then afterwards i wanted to engage in a joust

02:18:48.740 fully clothed what is the cost for that or are you just down to do for free because that

02:18:53.540 shit sounds kind of fun is that like a whole night or how long like a solid i think that'd take

02:19:01.380 about 70 minutes maybe 90 minutes well legally technically we can't disclose pricing hold on

02:19:10.500 it's not there's no sex okay i just want to play lexi right i would love to spend a night with you

02:19:17.860 play some chess watch the lion king and then joust you son what i'd have to take a 10 percent

02:19:26.180 it's in the four figure range and i'd have to take a 10 deposit to book that appointment

02:19:32.020 four figures yes what if i provide the horses around that there's yeah it's a joust do i have to pay

02:19:40.340 for like uh health insurance because you get up in the joust or during chess you never know i have my

02:19:48.100 own but i have been known to violently throw chess pieces what how much would it cost it's it we're

02:19:55.860 looking at um a four figure four figure yeah like a thousand smackaroos thousand bucks for the amount

02:20:02.980 of time that you're talking yeah go up 70 but like oh wow okay you guys we're high-end yeah legal okay

02:20:12.260 i would do it for a two dollar bill and like a 12 pack of pizza rolls we can uh talk after the show

02:20:19.380 you should stream it that would be good that would be good okay um i don't know i go into the most

02:20:24.820 ridiculous places okay so um i had it oh chats right i think are we caught up on the chats here's

02:20:32.180 spooter guy yo thank you man appreciate it rav805 says cringe i don't know if that i don't think

02:20:38.420 that's in response to my ridiculous scenario but okay we have uh she's saying she's an idiot

02:20:48.020 i don't know who i don't know who he's talking about

02:20:53.460 i don't know how to i still don't know how to pronounce your name dude please tell me how to

02:20:56.340 pronounce your name uh and then we have not jack coming up here in just a sec sec sec excuse me

02:21:04.580 not jack says since the dawn of time female promiscuity has been abhorred even to the point

02:21:10.100 where women were killed for it get the stones it's still frowned upon in most of the world today

02:21:16.580 so why in the west are we going to pretend that it's now okay also lose the cross which do you have

02:21:23.860 anything to say to him he just insulted you or complimented you i take that as a compliment

02:21:29.540 it's also by the way it's not a cross i was just a sword it's a sword okay you were just

02:21:34.340 you were trying to get under your skin it's so totally a sword girl it's not even a cross oh okay

02:21:39.620 i know content i guess the profession empowering so i'm really glad that it's not the opposite

02:21:46.900 where we're getting no i mean yeah i find our profession empowering oh okay uh azalia you were

02:21:56.660 on the show before had lots of disagreements there uh what was the big thing that i oh my god we are

02:22:04.100 not doing this tonight we're not doing this tonight i love it what were we because i would take it back

02:22:10.020 anyways i like looped myself into something and i couldn't go back on it so i was just doubling down

02:22:14.740 no but i honestly i don't we were we were talking about who has a harder time in like getting not

02:22:21.940 getting laid was it specifically sex or getting or dating i thought it was getting in general i think

02:22:26.660 it was it could have been both we might have been talking about who's is dating harder for men or

02:22:31.780 women right and then uh getting laid who has it yeah yeah that's what it was wait so hold on you're

02:22:37.460 backing you're walking i'm walking back no come on but okay but but you have done you have to hear me

02:22:42.740 out i i don't disagree with everything i said i do think that women do go up to men in bars and

02:22:47.060 they actually like do talk to them and ask men out i would say okay you're correct in your

02:22:54.180 i'm agreeing with you no no but like that but what i'm walking back is my point in saying that was i

02:23:01.860 think that dating is more difficult for men and they have less options because of the way that they

02:23:06.020 treat women in these boxes that they place women in and that was my point i disavow just wait what

02:23:14.340 i was gonna say i think um dating is also it's harder for women in the sense in the sense context

02:23:19.620 right a little posture check just so we can get you closer to the mic yeah it's all good um i think

02:23:23.780 dating is harder for a woman in the sense that it's like oh women are socially conditioned to like fear

02:23:28.660 and be wary of men so you know every single time a guy comes up and does the courage to ask the girl out

02:23:34.580 she has to go through like a million possibilities of like can i trust him is he safe is he gonna put

02:23:38.900 something in my drink if i don't reject him in the right way is he gonna get aggressive is he gonna

02:23:42.100 call me a bitch blah blah so i think like that makes dating really difficult for women but i think

02:23:47.460 ultimately affects both negatively because now everyone's paranoid and worried about each other

02:23:52.980 i mean like we literally just saw that on twitter yeah yeah like this week the brick hurt her on the

02:23:57.860 the world a woman a woman rejected a guy and he hit her in the face yeah wait do we see the video

02:24:04.340 like do you actually see the video of her getting hit there's like she takes the video immediately

02:24:08.420 after there's it's in the hospital but she definitely got caught there's another video of her right after

02:24:14.180 it happened yeah i i saw the photo of the injury and then i think i saw the video where she was blaming

02:24:21.460 men for having not protected her in the situation but then i saw a video she had released either

02:24:28.820 right before she went out where she was basically talking shit about men and then and then she was

02:24:37.380 like but i also saw wait no no no no no hold on there was another video that came out where

02:24:43.620 fuck what did she do she like she slapped a guy it was a skit though what it was a skit all of her

02:24:52.900 content prior to that they were skits it even said in her bio like all work is consensual blah blah blah

02:24:58.500 well she could say that as like a plausible denied likes but it looked like a skit

02:25:06.020 like it looks like she hit him pretty fucking hard if i recall i mean it could be a kink thing who

02:25:11.140 knows i don't know like but again when she's in the situation the people that are him to like

02:25:15.860 throw a woman a brick at her you know but do you think that's obviously it's not i'm just saying

02:25:21.140 i'm just making the point of like wow like i don't even know anything about it i'm not trying to defend

02:25:26.100 this guy for like throwing a brick at her but i'm just like if maybe it's a kink like i don't know

02:25:31.460 if it's consensual and she's hitting him in the face and that's what he wants that's completely

02:25:34.900 different than her saying no i don't want your number and somebody picking up a brick and smashing

02:25:38.980 her in the face those are two completely different scenarios right yeah like they're not even

02:25:42.980 comparable if it is a kink but you were just like throwing it out there because it could be if it's

02:25:46.740 consensual we don't but it's a skit so obviously the slap was consensual whether it was a kink or

02:25:52.340 not the way she was acting in the video she seemed pretty fucking loose not in a sexual sense but like

02:25:59.780 loose in her behavior like i mean if you're acting like i don't know i'm not saying it

02:26:07.940 it justifies anybody being physically assaulted but if you're acting like a fucking lunatic

02:26:14.340 like there's other crazy people out there that don't have the like that that don't abide by the

02:26:25.220 social contract contract and if you tread on them in any way they're going to be like

02:26:29.700 fuck this person i'm gonna smash them in the face of the brick what's that do you believe it wait

02:26:35.380 do you believe in not that nazis should get punched out of curiosity do i believe

02:26:41.620 uh this this is an interesting question um well i don't think that

02:26:47.860 i object to nazis certainly um do i think we'd have to define specifically what you mean by nazi and then

02:26:57.060 what are they saying but across the board i'm against physical violence okay so you agree with

02:27:05.620 the brick scenario it's like you're against it right i'm against it but like is it shocking to me if

02:27:12.500 you go out in public and you're like talking shit to people i don't know what this woman did

02:27:19.220 so i i'm only speculating i saw one video where she was really act it seemed like she was acting

02:27:24.820 very very wild if you go out in public i don't know if she was in some like bar environment where

02:27:30.500 alcohol is involved like if you're acting like a fucking moron in an environment where people are

02:27:36.420 drinking heavily and you're like antagonizing people not everybody has their head screwed on

02:27:41.940 straight so you gotta like like there's a lot of i mean there's a lot of violence when you're out at

02:27:48.580 bars and clubs people constantly get into fights if it wasn't the case they wouldn't need bouncers

02:27:53.300 they wouldn't need securities in nightclub environments so she was out a night on the town

02:27:58.500 um again i don't know the full details i don't know the full context of what happened i didn't see

02:28:02.820 all the videos i did see a video she was acting like pretty out of pocket with some of her so

02:28:10.500 should she have been physically assaulted no but like if it's not surprising does that make sense

02:28:16.660 yeah i guess yeah sure does it i i see where you're coming from i agree with you like if i if

02:28:24.820 i go to a dangerous neighborhood and i'm antagonizing the people in the neighborhood

02:28:30.980 like you're asking for it i'm asked like it's uh no i agree with you i'm just curious we can't really

02:28:36.020 say anything without the full context right that's a problem yeah i i only i didn't see the full video

02:28:41.380 so anyways because because of what she's saying is accurate obviously again we don't know but if

02:28:45.780 what she's saying is accurate and a man asked her for her phone number and she rejected him and

02:28:49.700 his response was to pick up a brick and hit her in the face i think that there is no justification

02:28:54.900 whether her prior content pictured her slapping men consensually or whatever the case may be

02:29:00.500 it doesn't justify it obviously those men don't know that she has these skits online and that that's

02:29:05.060 the type of person she is when she got hit in the face so there is no justification of it

02:29:09.060 right if the if the details are guy approached her she reject she rejected him he picks up a brick

02:29:16.660 and smashes her in the face absolutely wrong right if if a girl rejects you oh hey nice to meet you

02:29:23.780 have a good night like that's it it's just move on you know all right i mean i guess let's let's move

02:29:28.500 on from that it's kind of irrelevant well but what i was unrelated let me just yeah yeah sorry i just

02:29:32.740 have i have one more thing to say because related to related to the brick well it's tying back into

02:29:37.220 what we were talking about before just that's why um what she was saying about women when we get

02:29:41.700 approached in bars or whatever because we do have to have that process and that analysis of like the

02:29:46.260 potential things that could possibly happen when a man asks to take us out or get our phone number

02:29:51.620 or whatever the case may be so that's the only thing i wanted to say and that's why your point

02:29:55.540 made sense and why we brought it up in the first place but we just have to think about let me ask you

02:29:59.220 a question pixie so if i went out to like a a bar and i walked up to a guy with not threatening

02:30:08.100 physical violence but i just started calling him a pussy over and over you might say that it would

02:30:13.940 be wrong for him to physically attack me but should i be surprised if he does no like that's yeah yeah

02:30:21.700 yeah yeah so um you know um okay so like i wouldn't be surprised like if i just walked up to a big

02:30:29.540 dude and i was like dude you're a fucking pussy like i'm like there's a pretty good chance like i might

02:30:36.260 get hit should i get hit no but i shouldn't be surprised when i do um so let's see we have a couple

02:30:43.780 chats here we have tele here sorry uh it's german first initial last name oh leher leher leher t

02:30:54.260 leher uh last name is pronounced like dragon's lair to layer to layer last name literally means teacher

02:31:03.380 specifically a male cheat teacher well uh danke shine for the uh donation man much appreciated let's see

02:31:10.740 here we have wait hold on trying to pull up my notes here wait what was it did you have something

02:31:22.020 you had something i know you had something to you or yeah oh my gosh it was so long ago i have a

02:31:28.020 question for you yes go ahead i know previously on the show you've really like been adamant about the

02:31:34.020 fact that you don't want to be married yeah right but did you see um i was watching the andrew tate

02:31:40.340 interview with candace owens and in it she asked him would you ever consider getting married and he

02:31:45.700 says if you asked me like 10 years ago i would say no but now i'm not opposed to it so i was wondering

02:31:52.180 what your thoughts on that were okay it's interesting it's so when it comes to andrew tate first off

02:31:57.620 he says 10 years ago but he did an interview on your mom's house podcast where and this must have been

02:32:04.660 it was within the past two years he did this interview i think um and he was very as recently

02:32:12.100 as two years ago very much against marriage for some of the same reasons that i've articulated

02:32:17.860 on this show um but so your question to me is what why am i against marriage or yeah i guess are you

02:32:24.900 like persuaded at all by he seems to have been persuaded away because when he was giving his answers i was

02:32:30.580 like oh my god that sounds exactly like what brian says for all of the reasons that you give yeah for

02:32:36.820 why you're against marriage sure but then he says to candace that he has changed his mind and now would

02:32:43.220 be open to it so i'm i'm wondering if maybe you've found your thoughts changing at all sure well i mean

02:32:48.740 i think i can say this about andrew tate is he uh he was an atheist and then he became christian

02:32:56.500 and then he converted or i think they they call it reversion are you familiar with that well in any

02:33:01.140 case he reverted to islam and he became a muslim uh and i think him getting very much involved with

02:33:08.980 religion has reshaped his view on marriage um but i don't think it does i don't think that dismisses

02:33:18.660 some of the concerns he previously raised or some concerns that i've raised in the past um so you

02:33:26.340 know i actually it's it's not so much that i have a problem with marriage it's that i have a problem

02:33:31.380 with divorce so marriage is wonderful it's just it's a divorce but obviously make a good choice but

02:33:39.140 obviously if you get married one of the potential negative outcomes from that would be uh divorce

02:33:47.220 now from a religious perspective i don't object to divorce at all but when it comes to you know

02:33:54.980 most marriages you go the courthouse you go the state you get a marriage license that gives you

02:34:02.500 certain benefits but um i'm very much against it because in divorce you have alimony uh if there's

02:34:09.700 a divorce not let's say the whoever's the breadwinner you got to pay for your own lawyer you got to pay for

02:34:16.580 their lawyer it's just very financially risky it's very expensive and alimony comes in we have kevin

02:34:24.660 costner who we're in santa barbara uh they're in the santa barbara courthouse because the divorce is

02:34:30.100 being overseen by uh the county of santa barbara uh they just awarded his wife like 100 i don't know

02:34:37.780 the exact number 150 000 it's this isn't exact guys don't quote me but around 150 000 a month

02:34:44.180 in uh child support and you hear all these stories of these you know celebrities obviously i know

02:34:50.980 celebrities aren't perfect examples but you hear or just even wealthy people and they get destroyed

02:34:57.300 in marriage the alimony the contentious divorce you got to pay for both the lawyers it's it's absurd

02:35:04.820 do you think if you fell in love with a girl who was who really wanted to get married maybe because

02:35:09.540 she was religious maybe she's not religious and marriage is just important to her do you think

02:35:13.460 you would consider it or do you think still you know it's still a hard no no matter what there's

02:35:18.580 no open door there's more there's no open to it no matter who the partner because i'm assuming you're

02:35:23.780 not you know you're not foolish you're not gonna marry any just any woman if you were to get married

02:35:28.580 it would be with someone you're very certain about i think would be a good choice but basically are you

02:35:33.060 open to it at all especially if it was important to a woman you cared about i mean it would or is it

02:35:38.660 just you think me well me it's a deal breaker well me carrying a carrying about a woman does nothing to

02:35:46.100 remedy my concerns when it comes to divorce um i wouldn't i i don't want to 100 rule out marriage

02:35:55.860 but this woman would have to be so compelling like i would have to be so sure the largest lady i was

02:36:04.180 about to say the same thing is that what you were no it's i have something else to say but i was about

02:36:08.740 to say that too um i guess my question would be i'll answer your question but go ahead sorry i was just

02:36:14.260 about to say what about if you got a prenup because then okay yep that could take away some of the

02:36:20.980 financial aspect of the divorce and kind of keep you in the clear if that happened how what if you

02:36:25.620 fell in love with a woman and she was okay with doing that would that be something then that you

02:36:28.820 might be more inclined to consider okay so as far as the prenup goes no prenup is gonna save you if the

02:36:36.260 woman is motivated enough because all she has to say is well i was coerced into it and um you know i i um

02:36:45.540 i thought he would you know not want to you know stay with you know whatever so you can make up a

02:36:50.980 whole bunch of stuff they're gonna here's the thing uh kevin costner um who had a prenup

02:36:57.700 ironclad prenup had lawyers review it it wasn't just some oh let's download a prenup from internet

02:37:04.420 no he kevin costner had prenups drafted up by probably the most competent lawyers in california

02:37:11.300 um maybe i don't know if they were in santa barbara and it doesn't really matter um and his

02:37:16.500 wife is challenging the prenup in court so even if there is a prenup and even even if the prenup is

02:37:25.300 rock solid there's still an opening for a woman to challenge the prenup and that opens up okay cool

02:37:32.180 let's litigate it i still have to pay for your attorney so now i'm paying for my attorney to defend

02:37:37.140 the prenup which we agreed to and i have to pay for your attorney who's litigating this um basically

02:37:43.140 with kevin costner uh very wealthy actor um he's got like a i don't know 10 million 15 million dollar

02:37:51.060 property in montecito just outside of santa barbara um the prenup said that if she initiated the divorce

02:37:58.340 she'd have to move out of the family house she would get 1.5 million uh dollars just immediately

02:38:04.420 uh but that would be the extent of any sort of alimony payments i think so right now she's just

02:38:10.100 going after child support uh so the kids can keep up their lives to the tune of 150

02:38:15.620 thousand dollars a month um so prenups constantly get challenged uh and sometimes even thrown out we

02:38:22.420 had this happen with dr dre he had a prenup uh pre not prenups are not ironclad and like i said

02:38:28.020 if you are motivated enough as as a woman you can just

02:38:34.180 it's not a prenup is not going to save you financially if she's motivated enough

02:38:38.820 or he's motivated sure let's let's well sure but you're either way sure but you're asking

02:38:43.380 you're asking about my specific and i wouldn't marry a man so um but i mean i would just also say

02:38:50.340 you just never sign a contract with someone who is rewarded for breaking it so uh marriage is a

02:38:55.620 contract again i don't object to it from a religious perspective like getting married cool that's

02:39:01.700 that's wonderful however uh and i i kind of always say this but if your wife decides to divorce you

02:39:10.820 she's not going to turn to her religion to to help preside over the divorce she's going to go to the

02:39:19.620 state and the state presides ultimately over the financial components of your marriage so

02:39:28.820 this idea that okay we'll just marry a really religious woman well okay when you get a divorce

02:39:34.340 she's not going to god she's she's not going to her pastor she's not going to her priest she's not

02:39:38.660 going to the church she's going to the state you're saying when though so i personally i think if you

02:39:45.860 are open to the possibility of divorce you shouldn't get married in the first place so i guess my

02:39:51.780 assumption here is you're going into i wouldn't it's a hard no on marriage because there's a possibility

02:39:58.420 of divorce she could divorce me and then the risk is too much i just personally i honestly just don't

02:40:04.020 think like if you are open to the idea of divorce i don't think you should be getting married i think

02:40:08.020 you should be doing the coupling can i ask you a question and i'll try to reel you guys in here in a

02:40:12.740 sec um would you want your doctor to disclose to you let's say you're about to undergo a procedure

02:40:20.020 a surgery would you want your doctor to disclose to you the uh potential complications of undertaking

02:40:27.860 the procedure in fact they're legally compelled to disclose but i assume you'd want your doctor to

02:40:34.740 tell you well uh there's a 10 chance of this you're going to have xyz yeah there's a chance of it

02:40:40.980 it depends on the fucking procedure you know you could have whatever i get where you're going it

02:40:46.020 just comes down to picking a good partner so if you're thinking of i'm assuming here you you would

02:40:50.580 only ever get married if you genuinely this isn't just because like you're like oh i got no other

02:40:56.420 like i'm bored like i don't want to be lonely i'm going to do this because i'm just like afraid to

02:41:00.580 like i don't want to be not married i mean like i'm assuming you would only marry someone if you were

02:41:06.340 if you knew for certain their values you knew them very well you knew they themselves were not

02:41:10.420 open to the possibility of divorce sure but let me ask you a question um how many people who do get

02:41:15.860 married think that exact same way about their partner um how many people who get married think

02:41:22.820 i'm going to spend the rest of my life with this person how many people think when they are getting

02:41:26.900 married yeah we're probably going to be divorced like most people i assume going into marriage i think

02:41:32.020 i think the possibility of divorce is very present to the majority of people nowadays who are getting

02:41:37.060 married think of like emrata who candace mentioned she's you know the idea of making it trendy to be

02:41:43.060 divorced by 30. if divorce is normalized what i'm saying is open to the possibility of divorce clearly the

02:41:49.060 majority of people are very open to the possibility of divorce if it's a trendy thing or super normalized to

02:41:54.980 get divorced is what i mean is what i mean are you sorry are you planning to have children or no

02:41:59.780 i'd like i'd like to have children do you think that being in a two-parent household that's like

02:42:07.460 married is better than like a non-married household um i suppose there are certain uh like tax benefits

02:42:17.860 i guess if you're married that are in my view fairly minimal um i guess because you could file your taxes

02:42:25.540 a little differently the only other benefit that i see is when it comes to your estate if you die and

02:42:34.820 you're married i don't but i'm not i'm not an estate attorney so i i don't know but it's not clear to me

02:42:43.460 let me paint a scenario for everybody i know i'll get you in and i'll get you in here in just a sec

02:42:47.220 let me paint the scenario right so you got two couples uh

02:42:55.700 one gets married one doesn't they stay together for their entire lives they both have three children

02:43:01.940 there's no infidelity they're monogamous what's the difference

02:43:08.660 yeah no i don't think um what is anybody what's the like i i don't see the difference in term like

02:43:14.500 if we're speaking on yeah no the benefits but there's there's often this argument of well

02:43:19.220 marriage is beneficial to society but it's not clear like if you have you could basically replicate

02:43:28.180 exactly what you have in the marriage stay together for the rest of your life have kids you don't need

02:43:34.020 to be married to have kids you don't need to be married to stay together for the rest of your life

02:43:37.860 and be monogamous and love each other so it's not clear to me like what what is the benefit

02:43:44.260 for marriage besides tradition and for religious reasons i agree based are you wanting to have

02:43:52.500 like a wedding like not saying like to get married and waste of money but yeah you think this guy's

02:43:56.980 spending his own party i don't know you're gonna actually get married because i feel like the only

02:44:04.260 kind of woman that you're gonna be interested in brian is gonna be i feel like the only type of woman

02:44:09.780 you would feel happy settling for not just settling for but being with is a woman who takes things like

02:44:16.420 marriage like i just don't see you with a woman who's like atheist and wouldn't want to get married

02:44:20.340 or like something like that unless you see that for yourself i could be religious and not want to get

02:44:23.860 married yeah we're just religious and not want to get married but okay so this kind of like if i can

02:44:29.140 almost tie this into um promiscuity virginity low body count a little bit but so you're saying that the

02:44:36.340 the type of woman that i would be attracted to is likely to be religious yeah i just feel like i

02:44:41.860 disagree because okay well let's say if one let's say one of my standards or preferences or i mean maybe

02:44:46.980 i just don't know you that well but maybe you don't but uh well i think this idea that like

02:44:51.780 conservative women or religious women have some like exclusive claim to um virginity or

02:45:01.940 non-promiscuity is kind of fallacious and wait salacious no i i think it's i think i uh well i think

02:45:11.540 it's erroneous because i think like i think you can be a liberal or moderate or apolitical woman or

02:45:20.500 even an atheist and have desirable uh traits and values what at least when it comes to like

02:45:28.660 non-promiscuity not uh having a low body count or even being a virgin now do i think it's maybe the

02:45:34.820 case that liberal women compared to conservative women they're more likely to engage like i would

02:45:42.420 just say it's more likely probably but then there's a lot of there are a fair amount of conservative women

02:45:48.020 who they be too so um but i would say generally probably conservative women are probably lean more

02:45:58.180 towards like promise or not excuse me non-promiscuity virginity low body count etc so i don't think like

02:46:07.060 just bringing back to what you said i don't think that in order for me to find the type of girl that

02:46:12.420 i want she necessarily has to be yeah conservative or it's just more likely it's just honestly especially

02:46:20.660 today i just genuinely think it's just more likely that she'll probably end up being religious and then

02:46:25.620 probably care to get married it's just like my guess i mean a lot of religious women though

02:46:31.460 they got the past i'm not saying all really i'm not saying all girls who are religious or conservative

02:46:37.140 are not promiscuous i'm not saying all girls that are liberal or atheist are sluts i'm not saying that

02:46:43.620 i'm just saying that it's more i mean i've just found this personally in my own life like the closer i've

02:46:48.500 gotten in my the more religious i've become over time the more like obvious and clear it is that

02:46:55.780 promiscuity is bad and doesn't serve me in the ways that maybe i felt like i was taught growing up yeah

02:47:01.060 it might be easier for me to find uh a partner that that matches or meets my criteria or whatever

02:47:09.460 who's religious she a religious woman might be more likely to fall within my criteria actually

02:47:16.180 speaking of which lily um last time you were on the show i already know what you're about to ask me

02:47:22.660 yes last time you were on the show so okay you're you're a you're christian conservative correct yes

02:47:29.300 um you and last time on the show you said you're waiting until marriage is that correct yes okay but you

02:47:36.100 said that this i think you're on the show a month ago yeah that i had a miss up you had a miss up

02:47:42.660 yes i did it's a mess up like i i made a promise to myself in the lord months ago that i was gonna

02:47:49.380 save myself for marriage and start over and look for the man that i'm gonna spend the rest of my

02:47:53.380 life with and then there was a mistake and i mean admitting that is i don't find shame in it either

02:48:00.180 to also be so you made a mistake i slept with somebody in the time period that i

02:48:04.580 promised that i wouldn't and i made a mistake and i'm sinful and you know i regret it and of

02:48:10.020 course i regret it because i made a promise to myself i made a promise to the lord any updates

02:48:14.820 we asked because i told you you need to come back on in a month or two and give us an update

02:48:18.980 if you've stayed true i have stayed true you've stayed true okay why do you think that happened

02:48:23.460 what do you think influenced that for you it was the next boyfriend right oh yes and a lot of things

02:48:28.820 just throughout my life i feel like i've been seen as an object being a woman being somewhat

02:48:35.940 attractive and any relationship that i've ever been in or dated men even on the internet like

02:48:42.820 getting direct messages and comments and stuff i don't know i just i feel like an object and i don't

02:48:47.700 want the person that i'm gonna be with to see me like that and if they are wanting to be with me as a

02:48:54.820 soul and take care of who i am as a person they are going to be willing to wait wait i'm a little

02:48:59.380 confused you what what is the object thing that you're talking about i'm a little confused like

02:49:05.460 a sexual object like you view yourself no men know me as a sexual object and how they object they

02:49:11.620 objectify me how so they they view me as a body in a meat bag and not as a person who has a soul wait

02:49:18.020 are you talking about the men you've had relationships with yes even the men the men you've had sex with

02:49:22.820 and who you've had relationships with they view you as a meat bag absolutely i've been in relationships

02:49:29.460 with men who were narcissists and sociopaths and they might not say that directly to you but when

02:49:35.380 you're in a relationship with somebody for three years and they're a sociopath they say it in as

02:49:38.580 many ways as they possibly can without saying it straight up i had a little guy that was like that

02:49:43.140 a little it was like a little guy well a little guy it was like a little thing you know what i mean

02:49:48.580 yeah like a situationship a situation that's a good one shitty shit situation yeah okay and when

02:49:57.620 you and i've been there within situations you're just dating somebody and you find this trust with

02:50:02.340 them and you're sleeping with them and you think that there's a commitment and all of a sudden

02:50:06.180 there's not because there's a lot of men are using you and they're tempted so you lost with other

02:50:12.020 things sorry i don't know it's okay um so you had been a virgin up until a few months ago when you

02:50:16.980 know i was born again they people say like in christian terms like when again when when did you

02:50:21.860 lose your virginity at what age i'm not sure i don't want to disclose that okay that's fine that's

02:50:27.220 personal i mean i totally relate to what you're saying as far as men viewing you as an object that's

02:50:33.300 why i was celibate pretty much for years before i met my boyfriend but you found somebody that loves

02:50:38.500 you and wants to cherish you yeah well and that's why like obviously it changed and he's wonderful

02:50:42.820 so i i didn't want to wait till marriage it wasn't like that for me but i wanted to find somebody that

02:50:47.060 respected me and would wait and would hold out and wanted and liked me and you trust him exactly

02:50:52.500 wanted me as a person because like you can't tell a lot of the time and then when you do withhold it

02:50:57.380 you see like over those two years the amount of men i would date yeah they're like what do you mean

02:51:03.300 what do you mean you i don't get to sleep what do you mean and i feel like entitled to your body

02:51:08.260 yes because yeah wait wait can you just the the entitled to your body thing are you saying

02:51:16.820 within a relationship yeah yes in a relationship or even when you're just starting to date somebody

02:51:22.500 i've been on dates with men only like a couple weeks in and they are assuming that it is they're

02:51:28.340 they're getting something out of me i'm like dude and the amount of pressure that some of the men

02:51:33.140 will put on you it's so like it was actually insane when i did like when i went celibate

02:51:38.740 how much pressure was put on you you don't realize until you are celibate yeah because then you like

02:51:42.820 make it clear and they're like what again what do you set a boundary and they get angry with you

02:51:46.660 yeah setting boundaries one point of clarification for the two of you sure when you both opted to

02:51:51.620 become celibate were you in the middle of a relationship no no no i've been single for a while okay

02:51:58.180 because like i mean if if you were previously like got into a relationship and i was sleeping

02:52:04.980 with the person expectation yeah no not that i mean personally i've been dating as a pathway to

02:52:12.500 marriage and so i mean you kind of when you take something that you was already in the relationship

02:52:17.060 away that's different yeah it was more so after a relationship had ended and then i kind of like

02:52:24.180 looked back on my relationships and my past experiences and i was like i really don't like

02:52:28.820 the way that certain situationships have made me feel and i don't feel the need to go and sleep with

02:52:34.420 people like especially to get some kind of validation so right so i was like i'm just going to make this

02:52:39.860 decision to really start actually dating somebody and see if they actually want to get to know me and

02:52:45.140 then if not fuck off yeah do you think that when you were in your like early especially the early

02:52:51.860 stages of your like relationships with men where you were feeling objectified do you think like

02:52:58.260 the the guys that you were seeing might have been more likely to objectify you because they knew what

02:53:03.620 you were doing for work um no because i so i was in a relationship prior to my only fans and then i started

02:53:12.900 only fans i maybe had dated one person from that point on until i went celibate because i've only done

02:53:19.300 only fans for three years and i was celibate for two so and i like even when i was sleeping with

02:53:25.380 people it wasn't like a nightly thing or something i was going out and seeking it was very much so like

02:53:31.540 situationships i've i've very very very rarely in my life have had like one night stands or slept with

02:53:37.620 people that i wasn't in some sort of like talking stage relationship pursuing stage for me so

02:53:45.220 i would say no because i wasn't really like i dated men i guess when i was celibate and they

02:53:52.820 kind of just treated me the same as the men that i had dated prior to me starting only fans i think

02:53:57.540 that they were just objectifying me to begin with well before i started anything like that yeah uh quick

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02:54:30.260 go ahead you wanted to come in yeah so i went on a hinge date one time with this guy

02:54:33.780 and that is so rude that you're just texting right now oh my god super rude stop you know i love you

02:54:44.180 guys i'm not being rude go ahead but anyway you're like she's in the middle of talking and you're just

02:54:49.380 not going to give her your full present attention essie i think you owe her a pot an apology i'll give

02:54:55.380 you a kiss so what happened was um the guy ended up wanting to take me on like a little cruise and on

02:55:03.140 like a date and so when we got to his house or when we got to the restaurant and we had our food

02:55:07.940 we went to go pick up the car that was valet parked and it was like a lamborghini and i was

02:55:12.100 like okay cool or whatever you know what i mean so we get in the car we go for a little joy ride and

02:55:16.100 we had plans to go out to the shooting range to shoot some guns and stuff like that and i think he

02:55:21.780 thought that just because he had a lamborghini and we went on a little joy ride or whatever that he

02:55:25.700 was like gonna get laid so we pulled up to his house and i was like sitting there like okay like

02:55:30.420 waiting to go gun shooting and stuff like that and then he like busts out the wine and he's like

02:55:34.820 let's netflix and chill and i'm like i'm not netflix and chilling with you and then he's like let's get

02:55:38.260 in the hot tub in the jacuzzi and i'm like oh my god okay cool so we get in the hot tub and in the

02:55:43.140 jacuzzi and then he's like oh like let's shower so that we can go to the gun range so we go to the

02:55:49.700 shower and he's like butt naked and mind you like i'm wearing my bathing suit and i'm looking at him like

02:55:54.340 oh my god what the heck and he's like staring at me like this and he's like give me a hug and i was

02:56:00.580 like i'm not giving you a hug and he was like he i knew that he thought that that was really weird but

02:56:06.180 i was really weirded out and grossed out and i was like what the fuck so he showered and i just like

02:56:11.220 showered in another room and put my clothes on or whatever and then he took me home from the date

02:56:15.300 and then so you didn't go shoot guns we didn't go shoot guns no so he he wanted to have set like his

02:56:21.380 entire plan was like i'm gonna pick her up in a lamborghini and i'm gonna give her a little joy

02:56:24.820 ride and by the time she gets to my house she's gonna be so like oh my god lamborghini her panties

02:56:28.740 are gonna be on the floor and and it was like okay well i didn't want that to happen so we were driving

02:56:34.180 back home and he dropped me off at my house and i was like oh i had a really good time with you like

02:56:39.940 i can't wait to hang out with you again or whatever and he was like uh i'm gonna let my personal

02:56:46.020 assistant know to ship back your bathing suit and i was like what wow i was like what do you mean

02:56:51.220 i i can't just go get my bathing suit he was like i'm gonna have my personal assistant ship

02:56:54.500 you your bathing suit back wait what so just one point of clarification was this before you started

02:57:00.020 prostituting uh he didn't know about my occupation this this was a hinge date wait hold on wait hold

02:57:06.420 on you're you're currently on hinge or you were on hand no i i was on hinge this was like six months

02:57:13.220 ago or something like that in arizona you don't say on your hinge profile hey by the way guys

02:57:18.580 guys no and that's irrelevant to be honest yeah and that's irrelevant from the story completely

02:57:24.260 um like do you put your social media so then wait wait wait one second wait wait wait no no no now

02:57:30.260 you're interrupting me now you're interrupting me miss candace now you're interrupting me i just

02:57:34.340 now you're interrupting me okay i have stop stop stop i have a further point of clarification so okay

02:57:41.460 fine you didn't put it on your hinge profile but like before going on the date did you thought about

02:57:46.660 telling him by the way i'm a so i was going on a date with this guy to see if he was fun

02:57:52.580 that doesn't matter my occupation was not the matter of the topic the point of the conversation

02:57:57.940 anyway back on track was the point that when he dropped me off he wanted to have his personal

02:58:02.820 assistant freaking send me my bathing suit and i was like wait why what the heck and he was like

02:58:06.980 because we stood there i was stood in front of you butt naked after the jacuzzi thinking you were

02:58:12.260 gonna have sex with me and you were the only girl that's ever seen me butt naked and didn't

02:58:16.900 want to have sex with me that is so weird well this is a man that didn't know i mean it's a pretty

02:58:22.340 weird story and this is and this was a man that did not know my profession and that's my point is

02:58:27.140 men are freaking weird and why did i even have to disclose before a date what i did was weird or why

02:58:33.380 do i have to disclose my occupation before a date when men are over here acting like this

02:58:36.580 i don't really i i don't really follow the logic on there because his behavior doesn't really

02:58:44.500 have anything to do with a what i would imagine is an important disclosure prior to meeting somebody

02:58:49.780 but um i mean let me ask let's say you did like the guy he didn't do this weird goofy

02:58:55.140 shit would you have disclosed prior to having sex that you're a prostitute i was never going to

02:59:01.060 have sex with the hinge date but but like if eventually you i'm saying if you liked the guy

02:59:06.020 and you at some point you wanted to have sex with him would you have disclosed to him that you're a

02:59:10.340 prostitute in my dating life if i'm out here at a bar whatever and i meet up with a guy it is up to

02:59:18.660 me to disclose my occupation i don't have to tell somebody that i am a legal sex worker and you don't

02:59:24.260 you're not legally compelled to do it but it seems like it if i'm going to pursue a relationship

02:59:29.460 with this man and uh be in a relationship with this guy and he's going to be my husband or whatever

02:59:34.660 yeah i can disclose whatever i i want to but i don't you what do you mean you you want to no i

02:59:40.580 said if i ever would want to be in a relationship with a man yeah or be married or whatever i have

02:59:45.540 no problem with disclosing at what point would you disclose but i will not be disclosing my occupation

02:59:52.260 with just strangers but at what at what point would you disclose to a guy

02:59:58.660 if i was ready for a serious relationship or a marriage don't worry

03:00:06.740 don't don't worry it don't worry it's just some people yelling outside but you know what i mean

03:00:11.300 though it's like i can you close are you using protection when you're yes of course so i work at

03:00:16.420 the bunny ranch brothel um at the bordello uh it's the bunny ranch brothel and all the light or ladies

03:00:23.940 on site are std checked once a week for stds and for hiv and aids once a month by blood so all the

03:00:31.220 ladies there are tested and we are super clean get tested regularly weekly i mean i would rather have

03:00:37.940 sex with her knowing that she is a working girl out of brothel and i would not have sex with you

03:00:43.940 knowing that you are just a regular person you know what i mean i feel more safe working and

03:00:48.820 having sex kind of throwing sc under the bus no i think it's valid i think it's valid but yeah like

03:00:54.260 i'm sorry i'm very conscious and and as a brothel worker this isn't i'm not no hooker off the street

03:01:00.420 we we are very high end our prices are very high end most guys come into our establishments with

03:01:07.460 chump money you know what i mean like you can't get anything like with that price right but okay so

03:01:13.540 hold on so the question is though at what point would you disclose to i just answered that five

03:01:19.300 times i said i would disclose my career to my husband or to my boyfriend i do not need to disclose

03:01:25.860 my career how long do you how long if the girls had to wager how long from first date first meeting

03:01:31.300 a guy to becoming boyfriend does it usually take a couple months i'm not looking for a serious

03:01:37.140 relationship but you just said well hypothetically if i hypothetically was looking for a serious

03:01:42.820 relationship i would tell them straight up off the bat like first like first date yeah yeah but going

03:01:50.340 into a date knowing that i'm not going to be dating this person and we're just going to be

03:01:54.260 fucking for a night or two why do i have to disclose that information i don't do you feel like part of it

03:01:59.780 as a safety reason like do you feel like if they know they'll be it's my business it's my life it's

03:02:05.220 my job if i don't want to disclose my job to anybody i don't have to also if you're being safe

03:02:09.540 then i don't see a problem with the sex aspect exactly to say i mean if this is not somebody you're

03:02:14.260 looking at is like a somebody that you're looking at as a future serious partner and it's a one night

03:02:19.700 stand situation or like they're not asking you who you're sleeping with and as long as you're being

03:02:24.740 safe because i think safety is the biggest aspect and let's be real most people out there in the

03:02:30.100 dating world are not getting tested as regularly and please get tested after every partner it's so

03:02:36.660 important to wear condoms and get tested here's a really good question here's a really good question

03:02:40.820 for all the viewers out there if okay if you were on a like a first date with a guy and you were maybe

03:02:47.540 thinking and this is going to be more casual and he um you have no idea how he knew he was just like

03:02:54.180 randomly asking do you work at a carnival do you work at the zoo are you a prostitute if he asked

03:03:01.300 you i can't imagine any dude on the first date asking a girl this question okay um by the way

03:03:08.660 becky um and he asked you straight up are you a prostitute would you say yes yes i'm a very

03:03:16.020 truthful honest person no because you're not i'm not very easily offended profession and like i am a

03:03:23.620 illegal prostitute i and that's my term that i like to use i know you don't like to use that term

03:03:28.660 but for me i mean i am what i am and i'm a legal prostitute a legal hooker whatever the

03:03:33.620 you want to call it you know what i mean and i have no problem with being honest if so the question

03:03:39.140 arises but so you said you say you're on dating apps you're on hinge right you're meeting up with

03:03:42.420 these guys and not you don't put it on your hinge you don't really tell them beforehand um

03:03:46.580 um if they ask what you do for work what do you tell them because that's a typically on a date

03:03:52.500 that's a very honestly a lot of the guys that i talk to on hinge when i just want to hang out with

03:03:58.420 somebody like in town if i'm in a new town or whatever usually they don't really ask me

03:04:04.660 um like what i do for work so really it doesn't i mean i feel like on a date that's pretty

03:04:10.500 pretty common like just hey what do you do for work i think i i honestly think it depends on the

03:04:17.540 type of date because i've been on dates with men who don't ask me that because they're seeking

03:04:21.540 something else they don't actually care about me but if a man is looking for a relationship and i'm

03:04:26.340 looking for a relationship the first thing i'm asking them is do you have a job what do you do

03:04:29.780 how much money do you make and not the money part but i mean eventually you get to that point

03:04:33.940 because you want to find out yeah because i want to know what what job what job do you have

03:04:40.580 and if they tell me that they have a certain job i'm gonna assume so i am in school and so i mean um

03:04:47.940 if they ask me like what job i have i am open to telling them that i dance and stuff like that

03:04:53.620 like okay i look i tell them move however you want my own personal perspective and we're gonna ask

03:05:00.980 the chat here in just a sec um if i was on hinge and i was about to go on a date with a girl

03:05:08.580 i would honestly want to know straight up before even the date either through text

03:05:15.220 you don't have to have it on your profile but pretty early on i would want a disclosure on if

03:05:20.660 she was a prostitute oh yeah let's ask the chat chat would you want the girl to disclose before you

03:05:28.660 meet in person if she does prostitution can you scroll that down one in the chat one in the chat

03:05:34.340 if you'd want disclosure two in the chat if you don't care and this is and we're talking about

03:05:40.500 like serious most guys care you know because i'm i'm going i'm always serious i'm going on hinge i'm

03:05:47.460 not looking for a serious relationship you know what i mean i feel like most people

03:05:51.300 and i and i put that in my thing looking for a long term or a short term thing because i'm not

03:05:58.100 looking to you know and when i do hook up with guys for fun that's what i'm saying like i don't

03:06:02.180 feel the need to say nothing about it because i don't want a relationship right now so yeah if i'm

03:06:06.580 looking for a partner i don't think i necessarily would be okay with that but if we're just having

03:06:11.620 sex then what's the expectation and when i am looking for a partner or whatever i will 100 disclose

03:06:18.500 that information right off the bat you know what i mean so it's like

03:06:24.500 yeah i would i would just consider disclosing even for short term think about it no it's none of

03:06:34.180 their business do you think a man who sleeps around probably equally as much should disclose to me that

03:06:38.420 he's a whore but they don't should you i want you to disclose to me how many girls are in your snapchat

03:06:43.700 right before we start talking then a little different i here's here's the mirror image if i

03:06:47.780 was a male prostitute that were that was sleeping with five new women a day for money yes i think in

03:06:54.580 that same situation i think he should disclose to the women he's going to date by the way i am a male

03:06:59.460 prostitute i sleep with women for money i i'm not i don't have a double standard on this one the

03:07:04.420 argument essentially boils down to should you tell a person something that's going to risk them sleeping

03:07:10.340 with you right if you think oh i'm going are they going to say no once they find out this information

03:07:15.380 should you disclose it ahead of time let me also let me add one other layer to this so let's remove

03:07:20.900 the relationship component me as a guy and i'm not particularly i'm very much not interested in short-term

03:07:28.900 casual sex sleeping with a girl one time is i have very little interest in that if i sleep with a girl i

03:07:35.940 want there to be a continuity but let's assume that i was interested in a one-night stand or a

03:07:42.820 fuck buddy casual sex no value man i would still want disclosure under those circumstances i owe you

03:07:48.340 nothing i owe you nothing i literally owe you nothing but healthy protected sex no you don't

03:07:54.340 oh i don't oh i don't think that i need to tell you anything really besides us having safe sex i think

03:08:02.100 morally i think you it would it's my job yeah i i kind of agree with you brian but then it comes

03:08:09.380 down to the fact that that's also a risk that you're undertaking when you're having casual sex

03:08:13.140 right you don't you're not really forming a relationship with this person you don't really

03:08:16.580 know them so yeah you're risking the fact that like they're not gonna care about exactly 100 what

03:08:22.500 you care about so that's where i kind of like diverge that's a fair point in terms of hey if you're

03:08:28.980 engaging in casual sex one night stands you are taking risks because you haven't had an opportunity

03:08:34.260 to properly vet the person for a variety of different things but that's in my in my my stance

03:08:40.260 i still think even within uh a casual sex scenario stand i think disclosure would be warranted uh la

03:08:49.380 surfer for life no hate but men can sense put uh oh probably uh wait hold on i got something for that

03:08:58.980 uh hey it doesn't protect you from hiv or parasites so that's why you wear protection

03:09:05.380 hooker vibes uh he probably just sensed thought you were down to smash i mean if he played his

03:09:09.700 cards right would he have been able to get down with you also those std tests don't protect you

03:09:13.620 from hpv and parasites that's why you get the hpv shot that's why you use a condom that's why you use

03:09:18.580 protection do they i don't think they test for her and that's why we do dc's at every brothel we give

03:09:25.220 dc switcher dicks checks we make sure there's no uh lesions warts any of that stuff what if it's

03:09:32.580 like pre-lesions wait hold on like pre like he could be uh he could be shedding or whatever but

03:09:39.860 there would be no way for you to that's why you're same with the girl that's why you wear wait question

03:09:44.900 if you if you're a girl and you have herpes can you still work i don't believe no no because they

03:09:51.860 but they don't really test i don't think they test for herpes but if i don't know what the

03:09:56.020 test i'm pretty sure they test yeah they're testing for i know in the porn industry i think they don't

03:10:01.220 test for hpv and herpes because it's well they can't they test for hiv and aids by blood once a

03:10:06.580 month yeah but i mean herpes here that's for life son nobody it's never been reported that anybody had

03:10:14.820 that have um had sex at the brothels have had std we haven't had any any issues any legal

03:10:23.140 nobody has have had an std none of the working girls state of nevada picks the doctors so there's

03:10:30.660 no corruption so if a girl tests dirty she doesn't work all look all i'm saying is if i'm about to have

03:10:38.580 a one-night stand with a girl which i i don't do one night stands at least tell me if you're a

03:10:42.580 fucking prostitute that's all i'm asking tell me if you're a prostitute that's it you know i i can

03:10:47.300 give you that i fucked five dudes yesterday for money you know at least because i feel like but

03:10:52.100 what but why is it gonna focus on long-term relationships what is it gonna what is your

03:10:57.140 mind what if she just like what i do for you i was gonna ask that she was just straight just

03:11:01.140 fucking all the time is it like the four money right admit that well that's bad too it's not just

03:11:07.220 that it's for money but would you want her to be like hey do you think that women should

03:11:11.060 just disclose who they're sleeping with you should just ask her it's a one-night stand it's like if

03:11:15.620 you don't care that she i mean five dudes before you well then why do you care about my prostitution

03:11:20.660 i feel like if you want to know she no i do care before you though i do care but she

03:11:24.500 fucked five dudes before you and now it's a one-night stand wait what do you mean the hypothetically

03:11:28.580 speaking this girl from hinge that you're about to go see yeah this one-night stand girl she

03:11:33.620 fucked five dudes on a one-night stand with hinge okay and now she's coming to you and now she's like

03:11:38.580 hey dude i fucked five dudes from this hinge dude one night stand ha ha disgusting hell no but

03:11:44.660 but you wouldn't know but you wouldn't know that's the same that was what i'm saying here's

03:11:50.020 the thing like she might not vocalize it but i feel like no you can you can tell no you can't

03:11:59.460 listen there are some girls that are very unassuming you would never think that they're

03:12:03.540 promiscuous that they sleep with a lot of men maybe they're a bit demure they're a bit shy

03:12:08.500 they're a bit reserved and they be fucking that's that's fair however there's definitely some women

03:12:15.380 there are certain behavioral traits that you can kind of be able to make an assessment of like

03:12:23.940 this chick's a hoe you know what i mean you know what i mean well but i know girls who are dressed

03:12:28.500 like super sexy who look super sexual and they don't they don't talk i was about to say like

03:12:33.940 i feel like people would have made those assumptions about me when i was celibate like i mean you can

03:12:38.500 you can assume whatever you want but that doesn't make it true sure right but but even

03:12:44.660 even okay so you're saying that well as a guy you might actually by using these sort of metrics with

03:12:50.980 which men might disqualify women you might actually lose out on like a good girl

03:12:57.700 you absolutely could you all the more reason to adhere to a more modest outward facing appearance

03:13:04.420 yeah if you want if you want to if you want to disqualify people that you don't know

03:13:08.740 based off of their appearance and their assumptions sure but i'm not going to let somebody else's

03:13:12.580 assumptions about me dictate how i dress or what i wear or what i do that's fine but the the way you

03:13:18.900 conduct yourself does have an impact on the people that you you tracked into your life i think that's

03:13:25.140 a fair assessment yeah but i mean like i wear flannels bitches ain't fucking no i'm kidding

03:13:30.180 like bro every every girl on the show is like brian what the fuck is up with these flannels son get

03:13:33.780 some new clothes but but no look the way you're wearing the same flannel i have i have five set

03:13:39.300 different flannels but look they're all like he's like a cartoon character like a cartoon character

03:13:43.860 that has like the monday tuesday wednesday thursday fit it's all the same wait wait are they different

03:13:48.580 colors or i have blue green a different red and this and then i have one other one oh i have black

03:13:55.380 and yeah i don't i haven't worn that one uh i have a black and a gray look there's a lot of women that

03:14:01.300 don't want to fuck with me because of the podcast because how i dress i got a fucking dad i don't know

03:14:06.180 you and bangs were this close to making out on the last podcast that was cap you guys were gonna go

03:14:11.220 on a date no that was that was for show that was she was um but uh i don't know where are we going

03:14:19.300 with this well we're just saying that like you're disqualifying women based on their appearance because

03:14:24.580 xyz and the fact that you think that women should disclose who they're sleeping with before

03:14:28.020 you go on a date with them i think a woman before she sleeps with me should have been celibate for

03:14:33.540 at least a year that's my that's my desire that is my desire now am i gonna get it that's

03:14:40.340 another question but uh yeah it's definitely i would much prefer like hey don't fuck a dude

03:14:46.260 before you're hanging out with me you know but how would you know that's like that's what we're

03:14:50.100 saying because i mean you're saying that she should disclose it because it's her profession

03:14:53.140 but there could be a woman she could be again the most like meek demure like shy woman you've ever

03:14:59.300 seen in your life i've known right but so so that woman that woman you're assuming like hasn't

03:15:04.020 been sleeping with people what if she slept with the same amount of people like but it's not

03:15:08.340 her profession so she does she have to text you back and be like hey by the way i fucked five

03:15:14.340 dudes yesterday like that's like bizarre to think that someone would do that he expects the only

03:15:20.820 difference is the money yeah because if a guy i mean does a guy okay one night stand man uh you need

03:15:27.780 to disclose what's your credit card statement yo lindonated two hundred dollars thank you lynn your

03:15:34.340 fucking chat thank you dude watch all the lives so dropping a donno dude thank you so much lynn uh

03:15:39.140 you're that's very generous uh donno man really appreciate it lynn you're a fucking legend thank you

03:15:44.100 sir go ahead with so yeah it's like okay well what's your credit score before we go on a date before you

03:15:48.980 can enter this uh what's your what's your credit score enter the yeah what's what's the what's the

03:15:54.500 what's what's your credit score uh how much money in your bank account you know what i mean it's like

03:16:00.180 girls ask men what they do for work yeah but you said yourself that's a standard question yeah i i think

03:16:06.660 it is a stand i think what you do for work whether it's romantic or not i think it's a pretty normal

03:16:12.180 question to ask somebody yeah but if the guy if the guy lies about it and it's like a one it goes

03:16:17.460 back to like what responsibility does that person have to you so if a guy's like oh i'm actually like

03:16:21.540 i don't know a stockbroker or whatever and it's a straight-up lie then it's like okay what did you

03:16:27.060 expect from a one-night stand like that you're gonna truly know this person like you're not

03:16:33.620 yeah i don't know yeah yeah i'm not sure i'm not sure no oh yeah people lie

03:16:38.980 i we had a girl on the show i'm not going to say her name but we had a girl come on the show

03:16:43.380 she was 19 um very quiet very shy very you wouldn't like soft-spoken you wouldn't really think that

03:16:53.620 she at 19 had slept with 33 men and she had caught herpes

03:16:59.940 oh my god so she wasn't using protection probably not probably not so uh pretty sad pretty sad yeah

03:17:11.220 and she's very she's actually a very sweet girl uh and you would never would have thought

03:17:16.980 never would have thought i think that's like the stigma with stis right and why people are so afraid

03:17:20.980 to go get tested or be honest about their status because we have this idea in society that somebody

03:17:25.860 that has an st sti does have to be promiscuous or does have to be like a whore or whatever the

03:17:32.340 case may be when anybody can realistically get an sti you could have sex the first time ever and

03:17:37.620 somebody could be dishonest with you and then you have herpes for the rest of your life i knew a girl

03:17:42.340 yeah and that's obviously that person's not being promiscuous that person's not participating in risky

03:17:48.020 behavior so i think that just boils down to stigma because she probably was a very sweet girl and nobody

03:17:53.540 deserves that because generally if you're getting an sti it's from somebody that was dishonest with

03:17:57.700 with you or wasn't getting tested in some cases husbands i've heard of husbands giving their wives and

03:18:03.300 that's how they found out yeah and chlamydia is like like common in housewives chlamydia is

03:18:08.980 common in housewives can you just tilt the microphone down perfect perfect pixie what you got for us

03:18:15.780 oh i was gonna say a real black pill at least when it comes to herpes is um not genital but like

03:18:20.900 the other types of herpes like oral or whatever apparently over like 80 of the population has it

03:18:26.020 because it's spread through sharing food and drink as well so that's really depressing i don't know 90

03:18:31.780 percent of adults test for hsv1 which is oral yeah and then that you can get oral just from drinking

03:18:39.780 on your cup wait hold on just one sec prostitutes got my utmost respect imagine how many no game

03:18:47.940 hobos would be shooting the place up essential services saving lives if mike davis were president

03:18:55.140 he'd invite a pack of hoes to the oval office and give them the presidential medal of freedom that's

03:19:00.100 right thank you this is mike davis by the way hold on oh there you go there's the photo uh that's mike

03:19:10.660 davis he owns like 300 plus burger king restaurants across the east coast um i have not seen this

03:19:17.540 motherfucker in so long mike davis i i still hold your picture frame uh dear to me where you been mike

03:19:26.500 davis we had candace owens on you just miss candace this is uh so uh good to see you back in the chat

03:19:42.740 mr mike davis thank you very much uh were you saying something pixie oh well this is completely random

03:19:50.740 this has nothing to do with what we're talking about i kind of wanted to talk about birth control

03:19:54.340 but we don't have to talk about that if you don't want to i think that's fun um let me yeah we can

03:19:59.140 come to it in just a sec i just need to get through a couple chats here um here we have the real slider

03:20:05.220 brixton do you strictly bring these women on your show for content reasons this perverse hypersexualized

03:20:10.900 generation of women is running this country into the ground how could you ladies possibly rationalize

03:20:18.020 sex work as being moral hashtag christ is lord hashtag 304 hashtag 304 i feel like if you

03:20:27.700 if men didn't buy our only fans and if men hated us so much for what we do because it's easy money

03:20:36.180 maybe don't watch it because if as a male if you guys come to a unity and say hey boys let's stop

03:20:44.180 watching porn so that these dumb pretty girls can stop getting paid for sitting on their little

03:20:48.820 fucking asses and doing absolutely fucking nothing and and and they're they're doing nothing and they

03:20:54.420 look so pretty and yet they're getting paid more than 40 400 000 a year that's more than oh yeah

03:21:00.980 exactly wait yeah it's not by doing nothing there's a lot of work yeah i make more than a doctor and i

03:21:08.100 capitalize off of men you guys are my biggest fans even if you're haters i made over four hundred

03:21:14.180 thousand dollars last year and it is all because of you so you guys want to keep clowning on sex work

03:21:20.740 keep it up because if you guys just came together as a whole as men you guys we wouldn't be in business

03:21:27.380 we are profiting off of you thank you keep subscribing to our only fans keep talking about sex workers because

03:21:34.260 we are making so much more money and i'm about to be out fucking a million this year so keep it up

03:21:41.540 kind of on that topic i am friends with a man who said something about how oh i could never date an

03:21:48.740 only fans chick and i said why he's like oh well i can't be with somebody who's with with other men

03:21:56.180 like other men are looking at her blah blah blah all this stuff and that's an insecurity yeah and i said

03:21:59.700 okay it's not uh it's not insecure but i said to him do you use only fans and he said yes oh my god

03:22:07.460 misogynistic insecure and he is so hypocritical yep nope it's it's actually not it's not that's not

03:22:15.380 hypocritical actually brian what are you about to say no i will address this argument i'll adjust this

03:22:19.860 argument hold on one sec i've been on the islands enjoying some african queens i'm not gonna get into

03:22:25.540 again but i've already told you bona fide scrubs to follow suit and give up on these bonehead western

03:22:31.220 women just glad i'm reading abt less mass shootings thanks to these hoes what the fuck mike davis

03:22:38.500 because we are therapists sex workers are um wait okay so your your argument is is that the guy said

03:22:46.740 well i wouldn't date a girl who does only fans yes and then i said and then he and i said but do you

03:22:51.540 watch only fans and he said yes and i and i said okay well do you understand why women in

03:22:56.100 relationships let me answer don't want men watching porn and watch going on only fans and he said okay

03:23:02.340 i can see what you mean it's hypocritical for a man to not want a woman who's selling her body or

03:23:07.780 showing off her body not but also yes it is he's subscribing to the content just finish your point

03:23:12.900 and i'll respond you can respond no but okay so your position is that if a guy watches only fans it

03:23:20.580 would be hypocritical of him to not date a woman who does only fans is that no it would be hypocritical

03:23:27.380 for him to not expect me to not want him to be looking at other women wait that's not you're

03:23:32.980 you're walking back what you said but i'm pretty sure unless i totally misread what you said you said

03:23:39.700 that it would be hypocritical for a guy to not want to date a girl who does only fans if he himself

03:23:45.940 watches only fans that's what i heard yes that's is that so did i accurately

03:23:52.740 well reiterate what you said because because i continued no but you were interrupting when i was

03:23:57.460 continuing donated 100 i'm a lynn also my dream would to be on the pod but i'm a norcal girl

03:24:04.500 uh well hey lynn uh shoot us a dm on uh on instagram at whatever we have girls come from all over

03:24:11.700 the state all over the country you're from nashville right you're from big uh are you

03:24:16.980 big arizona vegas oh idaho oh shit okay amy was from florida yeah we we have people coming from

03:24:23.940 europe we have people coming from out country so lynn shoot us a dm uh thank you so much for your uh

03:24:28.180 patronage tonight really means the world uh so just to bring it back to this uh so okay there were two

03:24:32.740 parts right but the first part was it would be hypocritical for a guy to not want to date a girl who

03:24:37.860 does only fans if he himself consumed and watched and paid for only fans no correct no i said there

03:24:42.980 was just open she said that though right she did say that and i was continuing what i was saying but

03:24:48.500 you went ahead and started asking me a question before i continued my point you so are you walking

03:24:53.460 back what you said no i just no i never said that it's hypocritical for a man to you quite literally

03:24:58.340 no you just interrupted me before i don't know why you're not allowing me to continue my sentence okay

03:25:03.220 well finish your sentence i said that clarifying i a man told me that he would not date a woman

03:25:09.700 who was on only fans and then i asked him okay well do you use only fans and he said yes and then i said

03:25:15.540 okay well do you see why women in relationships or women in general don't want men looking at porn

03:25:21.860 and watch it's all going off to the point of whoever said okay the last comment but i then i must have

03:25:28.260 misunderstood but i what i thought i heard was again just if a guy watches only fans but he's not

03:25:34.180 down to date a girl who does only fans that's hypocritical now maybe that's not what you said

03:25:38.580 but do you do you believe that it would be hypocritical for a guy who consumes only fans

03:25:44.260 to not want to date a girl who does only fans i think it's different i don't know if it's hypocritical

03:25:49.300 but i think that like as a as a person if i'm looking for a man who's looking for a man for the rest

03:25:55.780 of my life i wouldn't want them looking at only fans i think that's i don't object i don't think

03:26:00.980 men should be like it was just going off at the point of the person that commented i don't think

03:26:04.500 that men i think men should collectively if they're going to attack women constantly for being only

03:26:10.020 fans then maybe they should join up together and not watch porn because it's up to you and

03:26:15.140 the male race to stop me from making so much money only you can stop me from making so much money

03:26:21.060 like i kind of i kind of understand your point but so you're saying you would object to i don't

03:26:29.140 i don't think that men should be consuming porn and going to sex workers and all those things did

03:26:34.980 anyone else hear the i could have sworn i could have sworn hold on i could have sworn the way it was

03:26:41.540 framed was again if you're a guy and you are watching only fans watching porn and you don't

03:26:51.460 you wouldn't want to date a girl who does only fans or who does porn that makes you a hypocrite

03:26:58.740 that's what i heard i was ready to rebuttal that might have been what you heard that might have been

03:27:03.220 what you heard but i would don't i didn't say that and that's not what i believe in and not and i don't

03:27:06.900 agree with that i mean okay so but i can see where you sure let's just let's just throw it out there

03:27:11.620 let's you didn't say it but just as a for the sake of argument my rebuttal to that would be someone

03:27:16.900 could enjoy watching professional sports and not want to participate participate in the nfl absolutely

03:27:22.980 like you can enjoy watching the nfl and also not want to play in the nfl or even have their son play

03:27:31.220 in it because of ct concussion injury risk etc so just because you participate as a spectator

03:27:37.940 does not mean you need to necessarily endorse it i guess the question is like it goes back to the

03:27:45.700 reasoning behind why they wouldn't want to date somebody who does only fans right if their reasoning

03:27:50.100 is like i'm just not comfortable being romantic with someone who's being sexual with other people

03:27:54.820 that's one thing but if their reasoning is like oh no it's like disgusting or something

03:27:59.460 then it would be like the equivalent would be enjoying watching sports but then thinking it's

03:28:03.460 like wrong to participate in them so that it would be disgusting to date her yeah if he's saying if

03:28:09.540 that's a reasoning then they are being hypocritical i don't think so because it's to take your sports

03:28:15.380 analogy it's like somebody can you participate in something that you well how can you how can you

03:28:20.580 look at a picture of a woman that you think is disgusting and get off of that yeah yeah that's the

03:28:25.140 point is like i don't know people be jerking into some weird ass shit jerking it yeah maybe um

03:28:33.460 that's kind of like madonna whore complexy yeah one thing that men have said though is um they've said

03:28:40.580 that have spoken to me their reservations of going with a girl that's in the industry who is getting

03:28:46.740 constant attention for themselves will she be satisfied just hanging out with me

03:28:52.180 um you know when she's not doing that persona when she's not in character or does she constantly

03:28:59.460 need attention and validation from other men and that's something that has been a concern that men

03:29:05.140 have described to me and that and that's reasonable i think that is valid because i mean i think

03:29:10.100 if one of the things that a man can do in terms of what he brings to the relationship is giving her

03:29:16.100 his attention perhaps his sexual attention uh but if she's kind of fulfilling that in other ways

03:29:23.220 getting attention validation from other men then the validation and attention that a romantic partner

03:29:29.860 would would provide is not quite is to some degree diminished it's not as it's not as uh valuable

03:29:39.940 right because she's getting it from all these other sources yeah so um i feel like that's how girls

03:29:46.900 feel about guys that watch a lot of only fans or like a lot of porn that it's like oh i don't feel

03:29:51.780 special anymore i am so with you though we need and i agree we need a male solidarity movement because

03:29:58.420 it's a supply and demand thing it's supply and demand there's a demand for porn for only fans so are you

03:30:05.860 advocating that we as men need to step up and not be these gluttons of consumption consumption and paying

03:30:13.940 for porn and if we do watch porn just watch the free shit is that what you're saying my dress is orange

03:30:20.020 not red you idiot you idiot good job you're colorblind okay so just just one thing right okay so uh

03:30:30.180 uh wait i lost my train well we were going off the point that men create the market and they do

03:30:36.100 yeah they do they're literally why i'm thriving so yeah i mean it would take men to actually band

03:30:42.580 together and decide that they were no longer going to consume that kind of content in order for it to

03:30:48.500 stop and you guys aren't strong enough to do that you guys are not strong enough to come together as

03:30:53.860 a whole to stop paying us i mean come okay this idea of men coming together as a whole there's a couple

03:30:58.100 problems there first off uh the male population is like what 3.54 billion you're not a hive mind

03:31:06.020 that's pretty tough well if we're talking about male solidarity and then when it comes to male

03:31:09.860 solidarity the the thing is is that men have an out group bias for women so it's that's and uh women

03:31:17.940 have an in-group bias for other women it's very hard for men to have solidarity in the same way that

03:31:25.460 women have solidarity yeah but you guys are males the and and you guys we us females profit off you

03:31:31.860 guys of males i mean it's like the disdain i don't i don't pay for porn right it's like the disdain for

03:31:37.620 sex workers i mean even if you're watching free porn you're still contributing to what you guys consider

03:31:42.420 the problem i mean 100 free porn is still actresses still getting paid yeah no they're still making money

03:31:48.580 the the websites are still making money however if it was i want to say if you're just because like

03:31:54.900 what's these these memes about like why would i pay five bucks to see your boobs when i can type into

03:32:00.580 google and get eight million boobs i think well i think a lot of the appeal for only fans and the

03:32:06.100 reason that it is so successful partially is because of like the parasocial aspect i mean if you see a hot

03:32:11.220 girl on instagram or somebody that you follow their story and you kind of see into their personal life

03:32:15.220 like and you want to talk to them that's a very easy route to go especially if you're like interested

03:32:20.180 in them sexually and you're like that piques your interest that's exactly what men i've asked about

03:32:25.220 stuff like this have said yeah it's like some kind of yeah they think they actually feel like they

03:32:31.780 could get you i mean they you are attainable you are realistically attainable for some of them

03:32:38.660 um compared to a girl in mainstream porn yeah and they can converse with you directly so i guess

03:32:45.540 directly there's more of an emotional or personal some kind of intimacy rather than just searching up

03:32:51.140 a random video they're more attainable right some sort of way right i think that's more kind of not

03:32:55.860 but right but i mean like that's the appeal to a lot of especially only fans in particular i mean i think

03:33:03.060 that's why it's thrived so much i mean you have these girls like bella thorne and karina copp that

03:33:07.380 are cashing out because these men see them online and they're like oh i want to see your name like i

03:33:13.140 could pay this and i could i could talk to her i mean obviously they're especially with those accounts

03:33:17.060 and how large they are you'd be absolutely delusional to think that you're actually talking to them

03:33:21.220 but if they want to play into the fantasy and pay the money then more power to them but again that

03:33:26.100 stuff is never going to stop donated 100 hey lynn thank you whatever hashtag get line on the pod okay

03:33:32.340 back to watching yo lynn thank you so much for your patronage appreciate it uh hashtag get lynn on the

03:33:37.780 pod in the chat thank you guys continue um but again you're never going to get rid of only fans

03:33:42.500 you're never going to get rid of pornography or prostitution or anything like that if men don't

03:33:46.580 stop objectifying women to the level that they objectify women it's not clear to me if it's because

03:33:51.940 of objectification though it is it is it is it is it's sexualization and objectification question

03:33:58.020 if women watch uh porn are they also objectifying the men or the women involved yeah absolutely is

03:34:04.980 it i'm it's not clear to me you're watching them as like you're an object rather than a person yeah

03:34:10.180 like i'm not watching porn going oh i'm thinking about their soul so are we objectifying actors

03:34:15.460 domestic decay donated sometimes we do yeah a lot of times ryan ryan i mean look at twitter sorry

03:34:21.540 i'm late yeah busy day dealing drugs i make four hundred thousand dollars per year doing it congrats

03:34:28.340 i like to tell myself i don't contribute to the deterioration of society these addicts should really

03:34:34.420 band together and stop buying drugs lol not my problem exactly that is or what if everyone just

03:34:40.980 stopped selling drugs there we go i could like what if all women just stopped doing sex work

03:34:47.860 then the men would have nothing to pay for but it's our bodies we're gonna be objectified that's

03:34:52.740 never gonna happen it's our body getting dvds from the 90s you can't stop us no i'm kidding you can't

03:34:59.780 men need to have better self-control control yourself better and don't pay us maybe we won't profit off the

03:35:04.980 other thing too to like to look at is also um and this is kind of i don't know if people are going

03:35:10.500 to agree with this but i believe that if there were were no options for pornography or prostitution

03:35:16.420 that there would be way more violence against women and and children wait if there wasn't if there was

03:35:24.500 no porn available there would be way more violence against women why do you think i think that's

03:35:30.580 sexually repressed countries are countries that are more like strict when it comes to that stuff

03:35:34.660 like their rates of violence against women are very high and like part of that reason is probably

03:35:39.700 like part of the repression right like if they feel like they can't express themselves sexually or have

03:35:43.780 no outlet then they just that sounds like psycho babble no but i would have to see the study on that

03:35:49.300 violence in the united states where there is there is an abundance of pornography i mean the u.s is one of

03:35:55.220 the most violent countries in the world strong disagree i think one more has to do i mean i don't know

03:36:01.300 i don't know exactly which like well are we talking about countries with like ongoing military

03:36:07.300 sexual violence no we're talking about sexual violence i think i think they're saying that like

03:36:11.780 access to pornography and sex work decreases in some ways like decreases you're saying

03:36:19.140 sexual violence against women i think i would agree there's no way i'll i'll let you come in just a

03:36:24.180 second i there's no way that if men didn't have access to porn that they would just become these

03:36:31.460 like rape like uh uh they're not going to like they would just start no but there's actually red

03:36:38.740 wholesale start assaulting women there's actual statistics too about during natural disasters that

03:36:44.420 sexual violence and violence against women actually skyrockets because they don't have access to those

03:36:48.740 things and i mean whoa this is an actual statistic crazy that is an actual that's true i'm from houston

03:36:54.420 and when the floods happen every time those floods happen women and children go missing they are shown

03:36:59.540 to be where's the connection though because it's not clear to me that that these instances of assault

03:37:07.380 are happening because they don't have access to porn well i don't see the here essie you wanted to come in

03:37:15.220 oh i was i was gonna say i agree with um what she said because if i would not have porn for like

03:37:21.620 a year i would be feral i'd be foaming at the mouth i'd be but you can still you can still

03:37:26.660 i can't use my imagination i can't use that i have to have a visual men are visual creatures

03:37:32.100 all right let's uh here i gotta get a couple chats in here we have unwoke thoughts the seven on brian's

03:37:37.620 collar is his body count uh you're uh welcome unwoke thoughts thank you is that true

03:37:45.220 negative negative i want to make a point in favor of only fans too compared to mainstream porn have

03:37:51.380 you guys noticed trends in mainstream porn so like i was asked to do some mainstream porn

03:37:56.900 i've been asked all throughout the years and have you like have you guys seen the trend of when

03:38:02.340 guys will grab on to this okay now we're gonna smack the girl in the face that crap you know what

03:38:06.580 i'm saying like they'll just do this formulaic crap whereas in only fans we're creators that are

03:38:13.380 getting it on with whom we choose so if i'm wanting to get on get it on with this good-looking

03:38:17.860 guy that makes me coo and moan versus you know you know like screaming my yeah i'm not gonna get

03:38:27.300 slapped sorry you're not gonna slap me on camera but i see it all the time i see these trends that that

03:38:33.380 could be potentially damaging yes because it's been proven that it changes people's brain chemistry to

03:38:39.060 actually be more violent to watch mainstream porn because most of it is violent yeah and

03:38:43.140 objectifying look i'll know about about you guys but of my sexual encounters

03:38:50.180 it's the chicks that are like yo i want to be fucking choked i'm not i think that has a direct

03:38:54.260 correlation to the porn that they're watching as well because women are also i mean the same

03:38:58.260 porn that men are watching is the same porn available to women so i think it's it's affecting

03:39:02.340 both don't men watch more porn like yeah i mean i'm not sure but it's the same type of porn and i

03:39:09.140 think it still affects women in a way i mean couldn't it also be the case though that like one guy

03:39:16.900 comes in and he's like into some bdsm stuff and then the chick's super into it and then she's just

03:39:24.660 tainted for all her future partners i guess so i'm not look i mean that's not that is possible

03:39:29.700 maybe not tainted she's just like it's the start of something and someone else is into it i mean

03:39:36.340 i'd say whatever you know but it's like okay but if you that's what you're into if you introduce it

03:39:42.260 and then like bro i'm not trying to catch a case to like for a woman's sexual gratification like

03:39:48.180 i'll do other i'll do as much as i can but bro i'm not trying to slap a chick around in the bedroom

03:39:53.300 no offense but some that's some men want to do that and that's actually healthy that you feel that way

03:39:58.180 because so many men like will just do it because they see it in porno and they think that's normal

03:40:03.700 i think it is a normal healthy reaction for you as a man to be like i don't want to hit you like

03:40:08.500 and you said you don't pay for porn you don't really watch it you should feel that way because

03:40:12.260 you're not watching every single day women getting hit i mean i've seen porn but i'm like it's pretty

03:40:17.460 rare yeah you know it's rare what for women to be hit no for him to watch porn for him to watch

03:40:22.980 i was like i don't know but look i mean look you could have like you know when it comes to sex you

03:40:29.140 can it doesn't mean you have to be like a fucking passive wuss if you don't want to hit a girl but

03:40:37.140 like yeah i just don't really feel inclined to like smack a girl around in the bedroom or be like

03:40:41.220 excessively rough but like a little fucking spanking her hair pulling whatever that's fine but like

03:40:46.180 yeah getting rowdy but like leaving marks and shit i'm not not really my thing okay we have diesel

03:40:51.700 daddy three three foe in the red you literally sell your body for money how is it possible for

03:40:57.780 you to have any less self-esteem i don't financially support your perverse satanic content satanic how

03:41:03.860 so how is it hypocritical for me to comment that down with the who's like i said diesel daddy um

03:41:11.780 you're colorblind as fuck my dress is orange for starters second i am absolutely confident in who

03:41:18.260 i am uh and yeah just because i am a legal prostitute doesn't make me less of a human

03:41:25.540 so yeah she's still making 400 000 a year whether or not you're supporting and i'm still making way

03:41:30.820 more money than you mr uh diesel daddy diesel and and probably a lot of you viewers that are on here so

03:41:36.420 do not bash me for being a sex worker what does diesel daddy feel about like mary magdalene who the

03:41:42.900 mary magdalene like from the bible guys

03:41:46.980 she was homies with jesus oh yeah and me being a sex worker has made me even more confident

03:41:53.460 more confident yes being in this industry okay all right wait oh a quick question i i you seemed open to

03:42:01.300 answering it uh i do want to ask the other girls here uh so you said you're a really high earner when

03:42:06.260 it comes to the industry that you're in um are you able to break so you you do do you still dance or

03:42:12.740 mostly just of and like so i'm a stripper okay i do only fans i stream on stream mates and right now i'm

03:42:19.620 currently at the bunny ranch okay sorry can you just scoot your mic a little closer towards you

03:42:23.700 you hate me don't you okay no but is this good enough uh if you could just tilt it down ever so

03:42:29.860 slightly uh are you down to like six yeah perfect you make six figures a month or mid high figures

03:42:39.140 mid five figures a month i make sometimes so monthly it depends um on a bad month i can make anywhere

03:42:49.620 like 10 grand on a good month i can make like 90 000 what's the most you've made in the year

03:42:57.220 would be the 400 000 year is that the most recent yes okay nice do you wanna i mean i don't want to

03:43:04.580 disclose like the exact but range is monthly mid five figures se i don't think it's appropriate to

03:43:13.140 talk about how much your income sure totally fine um pixie looks like she's considering a

03:43:19.300 career change i'm pulling some decent cheddar i'm pulling some pretty good cheddar some cheddar yes

03:43:25.860 what about some parmesan okay i have um i have two houses paid for i have um a house in costa rica

03:43:38.820 i have a portfolio that's doing well like pretty much everything that i have are of our assets at this

03:43:45.060 point okay all right you uh i put my son through private school let's go you did a lot of travel

03:43:53.380 have you ever been a sugar mama to any young bucks any young studs out there i think there's some that

03:44:00.180 are feeling me out for that but i've been having fun 22 yeah sugar mama yes what what would you do for

03:44:08.420 your sugar baby are you asking me or her uh both of you have a lot of sex with them

03:44:15.860 but yeah was he bill clinton what the fuck no i have a lot of youngins that want to do only fans

03:44:22.820 which is like perfect because they're young and their bodies are great and they have huge cocks and

03:44:27.460 they've got the stamina to go and come a lot so like for me like i give them the trade-off if they

03:44:35.300 want to work with me and film because i usually charge quite a bit to film people will come out

03:44:39.860 of the gate and that happens to us all the time they'll be like oh you do only fans okay well we can

03:44:44.020 just negate that the entertainment feeds like no no you're gonna pay to film the last year really

03:44:51.860 hot um like sugar baby guy that i had i helped him pay for his cdl license actually so trucker yeah

03:44:58.740 okay oh that's that was uh that's so sweet wait brian how much do you make i'm very generous so

03:45:05.780 i am a i am a starving college student uh it's tough out there guys speaking of which

03:45:15.460 read answer for the you know tts one just saying guys okay thank you guys uh oh twitch pull it let's

03:45:21.140 pull up the twitch really quick guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub yo uh

03:45:26.420 uh ellie think for the prime steve stevie prime think for the prime zirker think for the prime

03:45:31.780 cody think for the tier one appreciate it guys drop us a follow on the prime sub on twitch if you have

03:45:36.100 one twitch.tv slash whatever i'm so sorry i try to stay for as long as i can but i have to work in the

03:45:41.140 morning so i have to go oh no are you cool to stay for another like 10 15 minutes yeah that's fine for

03:45:45.220 us to wrap up okay 20 20 minutes you think i could i could do max like like 20 minutes do you think like

03:45:53.140 25 or guys like yeah we'll we'll try to wrap we'll wrap up thank you i'm sorry no it's it's all

03:46:00.340 good i was planning to wrap up uh pretty soon here anyways let me just check on some chats we've had

03:46:05.140 we have um you better call them out right now we have well i was going to anyways oh here oh i missed

03:46:12.660 it i'll pull it back up in just a sec joe hall hey thank you i don't think the sf giants will make

03:46:17.780 the playoffs thoughts is that like a cricket team or something i i don't know anything about

03:46:24.900 is that baseball it's baseball is that it's a baseball team baseball whoo giants okay yeah

03:46:34.340 all right uh we have joe we have joe hall the bunny ranch sarah connor i don't know because of the

03:46:40.980 the muscles it might be i don't know sarah connor i think she's from the terminator yeah the movies

03:46:48.340 uh tyler 30 foe equals to three four guy with lambo trying to smash a hoe not being a hoe is

03:46:57.780 confusing there's an expectation equal sign to blind girl who wants to marry meets dude on tinder says he's

03:47:06.900 six five but he actually wears stilts and only makes four figures now she doesn't want to marry

03:47:13.380 bro i have no idea what you just said i was so confused tyler excuse me uh tyler wait let me just try

03:47:21.860 to parse this i'm gonna this this is uh okay tyler blind i think he's saying he's asking if the lambo

03:47:31.860 dude was three four and blind i i'm sorry dude i cannot i tried to read it over i can't understand

03:47:38.980 porn there's uh ducks 2009 outlaw porn there's not one positive thing that porn and no f brings

03:47:44.260 to society brian let me come on the podcast with my norcal girl lynn how am i gonna have an orgasm

03:47:50.260 also just yeah the porn don't get rid of porn we're also just saying if you guys we're gonna be

03:47:54.660 we're gonna be freaking how do you orgasm brian we'll know how does brian orgasm like with a partner

03:48:01.220 i'm not watching porn while i'm my girl like what so you don't what is it you only

03:48:06.020 you don't watch porn if honestly if i'm like in a proper relationship and i got a girl

03:48:13.460 i don't need porn what if you're not in a proper huh not proper what do you mean not

03:48:17.380 proper not proper relationship now what are you doing like if i'm single yes if i've been

03:48:20.900 single for an extended period of time maybe i'll use it as an aid for once a week like a visual aid

03:48:27.700 or just your hand and imagination no i look i'm not gonna cap here like yes if i'm choking the

03:48:34.900 chihuahua what the is it called what are the terms choking choking choking if i'm choking the chicken

03:48:39.780 but i'm not like a compulsive like every single day multiple times a day it's just a visual aid how

03:48:45.860 often do you masturbate bro what the no do you want to know now it's on you sure sure i'll answer

03:48:50.820 why not since we're talking about porn me when i'm single if i'm in a relationship like almost never

03:48:57.940 like unless she's gone for two weeks or so you know like that okay maybe once but uh once a week maybe

03:49:05.220 and do you like do you usually use porn or no do you yeah yeah i use porn okay but i'm not like a

03:49:12.900 compulsive porn consumer like daily buying not if it's just once a week yeah once a week 20 30 minutes

03:49:20.420 yeah maybe i should bump that i should bump that up tell him on yourself 90 minutes let's go

03:49:29.300 on one hand i'm like yeah i'm trying to like sell it like i don't watch that much porn but also

03:49:34.660 kind of okay whatever i just think too if you actually were like to be serious about outlawing

03:49:38.980 porn that porn is still going to exist and it's going to be very very expensive yeah and way more

03:49:44.100 and prostitutes and sex workers will be making even more money true oh that is not gonna go away

03:49:49.860 because she's right yeah word word okay do we have any more oh we have the real slider

03:49:58.180 oh and i have to reply to that comment this one no the one that was up there oh yeah yeah do you

03:50:02.980 want to read it sure the of content creator on the far right hey you do sex work for a living and

03:50:08.580 still have the audacity to wear the christ cross of our savior on your neck that is nothing but

03:50:12.420 disrespect for the man who died for our sins for you to live a faithful life first of all i would

03:50:15.940 have to actually believe in religion for that to matter to me secondly i already stated it's not

03:50:19.860 a cross that's actually a sword and thirdly um jesus would actually like me more than you

03:50:25.860 considering he hung out with mary magdalene and prostitutes and these instead of the people that

03:50:31.860 were actually harassing them you guys would have killed jesus christ all over again she ate no

03:50:36.020 crumbs true she ate and left no fucking crumbs i agree i don't know thank you joe i don't know if

03:50:43.620 that's any of that shit is historically accurate but it is god loves hoes yeah wait you're i know

03:50:50.340 that this is a very sorry it is god loves hoes okay biblically he it's known he spent time with people

03:50:58.260 that weren't necessarily holy in the eyes of the law in that time period so yes he was spending time with

03:51:04.900 it's okay he's spending time with prostitutes he's spending time with time with tax workers

03:51:08.580 and all those things like that so did he get it on with mary i don't think that no he was never

03:51:13.540 promiscuous with mary he was never with her but i know that there was times that he was romantic

03:51:18.100 with her and he he loved her oh he also but it's not in the bible it's in the like removed pieces of

03:51:23.700 the bible when someone asked him like oh like what should you do with a woman who makes guys eyes

03:51:28.900 wonder he also said like pluck thine own eyes like get your like basically it's your fault get your eyes out

03:51:33.620 right like don't blame it on the woman so jesus fell in love with a low quality woman yes yeah

03:51:39.060 jesus fell in love with where's candace now where is she candace jesus fell in love with a

03:51:44.100 low quality woman i was raised catholic so i'm actually not capping like i know this stuff to be

03:51:48.740 factual in the bible i would have to do a little research please do because there's some

03:51:53.780 different accounts of uh jesus was a person who wanted to spread okay and love but you get my

03:52:00.980 right yeah it's all about forgiveness and loving everybody thank you for being honest

03:52:05.620 about your knowledge about it because you're religious and you're conservative

03:52:10.260 good times um let's see here okay uh what what are the things that oh uh

03:52:17.620 i'm curious do you guys i don't know if you guys like keep a record of this but do you keep track or do

03:52:24.340 you know how many men that you've slept with when it comes to the work you do i do i kind of have a

03:52:33.940 guesstimation uh you go first and then we'll have i actually have a book with all like i'm there i'm a

03:52:40.260 virgo my birthday's on saturday and i just love being organized so if i meet a guy at the bunny ranch i

03:52:47.620 will um write his name down uh a girl actually from the bunny ranch taught me this her name is nico

03:52:54.420 but i'll actually write his name down where i met him from was it a call in did he place a deposit

03:52:59.220 down like did i meet him did he email me or did he walk in did i see him sitting at the bar or

03:53:04.660 whatever and if we party together and he paid me i do keep track of how much he paid me for how long

03:53:08.980 and how i met him bookkeeping yeah because when a client when when a client comes back to me i want

03:53:13.620 to be able to remember like what we did last kind of like little notes about our session like what we

03:53:18.900 did last what he really liked like stuff about him so it kind of like gives me a refresher

03:53:26.820 i am i consider so what what's the total number

03:53:32.660 i'm not going to give you my oh i don't i don't have uh i don't have like a total number

03:53:37.620 what's the like my one year i don't know my one year mark is coming around september 15th of me

03:53:43.620 being doing this for a year so i'll be able to like total it up then but i really don't know right

03:53:49.060 now i can't yeah they're like guesstimate i really don't know 100 plus okay well okay she said she had

03:53:55.220 a number sure well okay so well i keep an excel spreadsheet and i every time i make a sell i go in

03:54:01.540 and put it down and then in my contacts i i keep notes on on individuals as well um so i know how

03:54:08.020 to to help them if they when they come back um i would i have to say like because i've been doing

03:54:15.380 this since the hbo special so that was i mean i'm like a 15 year vet in the industry so i'm gonna rival

03:54:24.740 i'm gonna say i could probably rival gene simmons numbers what was the new special i want to watch it

03:54:29.860 i loved i loved cat house when it was on they asked me to get on it wasn't that funny i loved

03:54:35.380 it i thought it was so fun um and very interesting because obviously i'd never like seen anything like

03:54:40.660 that so i really liked that when you were mentioning um amy i was like oh i loved amy

03:54:45.460 amy she's supposed to she's so cute she's always i just have a question if you don't sure okay how

03:54:51.780 do you guys sleep with somebody if you're not attracted to them or like are there other i guess

03:54:56.340 should i should are there ever people that you guys get as a client that you're just not

03:55:00.580 like you you're just like oh god okay so like i feel like that's very shallow to be like oh you

03:55:05.220 look ugly and i'm not gonna have sex with you you know what i mean i feel like at the end of the

03:55:08.020 day it's all about personality and how they treat me so when my customers come in smelling great

03:55:13.460 and they are their hygiene is on point that's all that really matters to me is there a hose how is

03:55:18.500 your back we have bathrooms it's like a little facility i have a bedroom we have a bathroom

03:55:25.060 it's mandatory that all of our clients take a shower before even if they come in clean even if

03:55:29.620 they come in clean it doesn't matter you sweat you we're sitting right now and we're still sweating

03:55:34.660 you know what i mean so it's absolutely a must that they shower there ever used to be a hose

03:55:39.300 never was just spray them but for um for this festival what was it called burning man we were

03:55:47.220 all joking around at the bunny ranch we were like ha ha all these guys are gonna come in after

03:55:51.380 burning man we should probably just hose them down before they come in because usually a lot of guys

03:55:55.620 from burning man will come in and they'll have like oh dirt yeah yeah so they're yuppies wait so did

03:56:01.140 you answer though uh what what's the total number oh it's it's you don't have to be like one thousand

03:56:08.980 two hundred thirty two just like uh i'm thinking it's probably in the thousands at this point you

03:56:14.260 know yeah of sexual yeah because there were times like there were times when it was really busy at

03:56:20.100 the bunny ranch where if i was going they called me the energizer bunny because i i've never really

03:56:26.340 done a lot of alcohol and drugs but i've always worked out so athletically speaking like i could get

03:56:31.220 it on all day long so if i'm doing 10 guys in a day right but then there's other times where

03:56:37.540 maybe i do two people in one week it's very it's appointment based yeah um and it's it's how much

03:56:43.780 you want to work and also there you know during this time like for the most part i would just just

03:56:50.180 work for two weeks and have the rest of the month off right yeah i have a question um what would you

03:56:55.940 say the percentages of like return clients to non-return clients just out of curiosity i get uh quite a lot

03:57:02.900 of of regulars i have 10 year regulars that i've seen for 10 years and they're it's almost like

03:57:10.340 we're kind of like a married couple in ways i get a fair amount if you're a good provider

03:57:15.380 um and you're really respectful um and you're clean and you know you'll get repeat regulars and you'll

03:57:21.940 relationship build with them yeah like we're good we're friends yeah we support each other in the

03:57:26.340 community yeah i was curious because i would assume that if you if somebody had a good experience and

03:57:30.740 you know they enjoyed it that they would probably come back but i wasn't sure like what the ratio

03:57:34.820 would be yeah and like it depends on the provider we call them kind of like brothel boyfriends

03:57:41.220 at that point a little bit because they're like our boyfriends you know they come to see us they

03:57:44.420 bring us flowers and stuff right so it's like they come back pretty regularly yeah and they bring us

03:57:49.860 gifts too right oh yeah they'll like take yeah it's take us out take us on trips the amount of money

03:57:56.100 um one guy i mean he kept seeing me i mean he spent over a hundred thousand dollars alone on me in one

03:58:02.500 year and that was just me there's some other gals that you know i know he likes to see so

03:58:08.820 okay kind of related to this body count

03:58:14.820 well so because there's the men that you slept with for your work but then there's like men obviously that

03:58:20.580 are not for your work i assume that you've had encounters or relationships um

03:58:28.660 what do you think yeah for sure is that up there too or um or do you encompass them all in the same

03:58:35.540 number mm-hmm no i mean definitely track after a thousand for pay because i'm very when when it's for

03:58:43.780 personal i get very selective yeah i get very picky yes yes and because we are

03:58:50.500 very clean like i know that i get tested every week on the dot i know for a fact that i do not have

03:58:57.140 anything you know what i mean it's like am i really gonna have sex with this hinge dude for a one night

03:59:01.780 stand and risk losing your losing my career that makes me 400 500 thousand dollars a year hell no

03:59:09.860 you know what i mean so i'm very selective and picky as to who i'm gonna be spending my time with

03:59:14.820 now that i can make so much money and you know what i mean it's like and also it's like yeah it's just

03:59:22.180 like that basically okay uh let we can go around the table on body count really quick maddie why don't

03:59:28.740 me start with you eight i'd prefer not to say wait is it are your parents did you come with your

03:59:37.780 parents this time no but they're watching is it because they're is it because they're watching

03:59:42.100 no i just think that's a piece of information that's for myself sure uh yeah i was gonna say

03:59:47.220 my parents i are very we're very excited about this episode because candace owens was gonna be on

03:59:52.660 it so i will not be answering that but i've answered in previous episodes guys if you want to

03:59:56.660 you can go you gotta go back it's been a while since you've been on i think it's been uh

04:00:03.300 trying to think when you were last on when were you who was it with kiko

04:00:09.140 not not the big panel but i think this might be my sixth sixth time on and i think my last time was

04:00:15.780 like before spring before the last quarter of my senior year of college started it's been a while

04:00:20.820 yeah essie i already said this before but mine's six i do not want to answer that question pixie love

04:00:28.900 okay uh can you give us a range no less than 10 more than 10 no i will because any information is

04:00:35.780 bad information no i'm not gonna tell you okay that's fine

04:00:38.580 like your civilian body count my civilian body wait can you pull the mic closer towards you

04:00:51.460 like this close that's great okay that's perfect um civilian body count

04:01:02.100 i want to say less than 10. you want to say less than 10. yes

04:01:09.060 i want to say that i'm a billionaire not everything that i want civilian so i actually

04:01:15.780 started sex work when i turned 18 and in high school and middle school i knew a lot of girls that

04:01:21.860 were not even selling sending out new photos and videos and talk about that no i know and so um i never

04:01:30.900 did that and so the day i turned 18 i profited off of selling my nudes okay the legal way and the only

04:01:37.300 way you know what i mean so and i lost my virginity at 17 years old i never really like

04:01:44.420 was sleeping with multiple dudes and like hanging out with multiple guys and stuff like that so my

04:01:48.500 civilian body count is extremely low and then my working body count is very high and yeah

04:01:57.620 i stopped counting after like five so i really don't know to be honest wait you stopped counting

04:02:03.700 after five yeah i just like didn't really care anymore it wasn't a metric that mattered to me

04:02:08.020 like let's say it's 10 right i feel like you'd remember you'd still remember even if you stopped

04:02:12.500 counting you'd be like okay well there was jace and i mean you have to keep in mind i'm 31 so like i

04:02:20.100 lost my virginity when i was 16 that's 15 years ago like that i don't should we do some a little math

04:02:26.020 here sure go for it like all right so three dicks a year times that is a lot because that's like one

04:02:34.660 so that's 15 three times 15 that's 45 45 dicks i would say that's not accurate not accurate because

04:02:42.980 you have to consider that i've had relationships for several years and i had situationships too i

04:02:46.740 wouldn't even say that there was three a year a lot of times and i was celibate for two years

04:02:52.180 so but maybe there was one year where you know like why are you just assuming why are you assuming

04:03:00.500 look we have okay so we're we're a couple we're close to uh ucsb university of california santa

04:03:06.980 barbara yes which is ranked as one of the number one party schools in the nation and let me let me tell

04:03:13.380 you as a spectator we got girls freshman year in their first court not even their first year their

04:03:21.860 first quarter or semester 20 30 40. dang i was so i didn't go to traditional like college i went to

04:03:30.580 school in new york city so we didn't have like on-campus housing and stuff like that you went to

04:03:34.180 ventriloquist school in new york no okay i went to like a like an accredited university but it wasn't

04:03:41.460 like for ventriloquism no okay where are you getting that from i'll know you said you didn't

04:03:46.420 go to a traditional school so i was just filling in the blanks i went to an accredited university

04:03:50.660 for an actual degree but it wasn't like a place that had a full-on campus with dorms and frats and

04:03:56.180 stuff like that so in college i actually was celibate for the entirety of my college career until i was in a

04:04:01.780 relationship my last year of college so and that's not sad it's not sad at all it was great it was

04:04:08.180 totally fine um so r.i.p is in the chat for azalea did i say it right this time no you said it that way

04:04:15.220 every time say it i want to know what's your body count yeah yeah yeah since you always ask us that

04:04:21.860 as a man of god i do not disclose my body count come on i'm a man of god pixie what do you think my

04:04:28.980 body count is why me why do i have to get like you have a good radar for for body account body count

04:04:39.220 what do you think it is pixie um do you think i'm i i'm a i was a man whore a man slut were you no i'm

04:04:47.460 asking if you think i was um you think so you said was maybe you still are yeah sure don't discount the

04:04:56.660 fact that i could still be a man hoe um how about you tell us have you ever had no no no no okay

04:05:05.140 fuck um what did you want me to tell you if you ever had a phase where you're particularly promiscuous

04:05:11.460 that'd be me answering the question with which i asked you to guess but i mean i would still guess

04:05:17.700 you're just telling me if the number is gonna be higher or lower i'm already confused pixie okay

04:05:23.860 you gotta bring it down this is it huh eight eight eight was eight eight i can either confirm

04:05:31.620 or deny if this is the case i say higher or lower nope i say 20 20. i say more than 20 actually

04:05:40.260 okay anybody else i think i think brian wishes it was 20 i don't think it's that high oh that's kind of

04:05:46.260 insulting oh no offense but i'm just being like you don't think i pull i think you took that as a

04:05:51.540 compliment that's what i'm saying i feel like it's six to eight yes yeah six eight is a good range it's

04:05:57.380 a little for sure or five yeah you said your amount of god maybe like truthful honest answer

04:06:04.420 yeah sure damn brian i think you pull four you think you think i pull it's 20 i'm just gonna i'm

04:06:10.260 gonna i feel like though that's 20 is not even that much is it am i right four how many girlfriends

04:06:16.660 have you had well if you got game like as a dude you you can you don't got game who said you have

04:06:21.460 game why i didn't say i have game i maybe i don't have your kind of game i feel i feel like the type of

04:06:29.460 guy that like will have to lock you down like you need a fucking hyper masculine because i'm kind of the

04:06:36.820 class clown type guy i'm not like the i'm not the jock dude i'm not like the hyper masculine no chad

04:06:43.540 here wait so what kind of guy do i need to lock me down clown dude you know what kind of guy do i need

04:06:50.820 to lock me i feel like you would go for an mma fighter my ex was an mma fighter oh my ex actually

04:06:58.900 was an mma fighter oh boom more than he was and he was 45 years old was there more than one

04:07:05.780 more than one mma fighter no just one any boxers he was 45 45 how old are you professional ufc um

04:07:12.980 any cops what's his name any cops wait what's his name and the cops what do you ask me

04:07:21.460 i made a joke he asked me what his name was wait she asked what i mean i made a joke because he was

04:07:27.460 like ex ex ufc fighter i was like oh andrew tate no not andrew tate it's so no such a good joke

04:07:37.700 that's a great joke that is so funny that you say that though i say what that he was yeah because

04:07:43.620 he yeah that's what he does um it's funny your current wait past ex yeah okay i dated him for

04:07:50.180 like a couple months i think i want to say

04:07:57.940 but you were right i was right well yeah because right because i did it yeah making some other

04:08:03.700 guesses but oh for some reason i thought you'd be into like a nerdy guy or something i don't know why

04:08:10.340 that's so funny i don't have the type of game to get you no no chance i i'm just not that guy i'm

04:08:19.220 not that guy you need like a you basically need a guy who could be a pimp but isn't i love brian

04:08:26.420 maybe maybe i do yeah you're great you know what i mean yeah like cool like he's not a pimp but he

04:08:32.340 could be are you guys listening to him like take notes wait is this am i are you just joking

04:08:37.220 no i like take notes like are you joking or is that kind of like spot on spot on

04:08:43.460 do you think you could look at everybody and like this guy who's like big

04:08:48.900 like a beard and he was really good looking that's all our time but he was really manipulative

04:08:52.900 really manipulative yeah the ufc mr ufc do you go for really toxic guys no okay mr ufc is what my

04:08:59.940 friends like to call him mr ufc well because everybody's like what's his name about your ex that's

04:09:03.780 kind of a no no you're so funny okay uh okay you

04:09:11.300 oh you're tough i don't know uh muscular guys absolutely not really absolutely not okay um bears

04:09:21.540 like hairy dudes no absolutely not you're really good at this game brian

04:09:26.180 well he got one for two you're one for two and it was spot on with me you like how about you like

04:09:32.420 fucking like artsy dudes that are emotionally unavailable no i could just tell you i think she

04:09:38.900 likes sweet gentle men that's her boyfriend i like like gamer oh gentle giants yeah well not even giants

04:09:45.860 like okay yeah gentle gnomes yeah i like gamer dudes like i like nerdy dudes but i do like a little

04:09:52.820 sensitivity on them for sure i think pixie likes i think she's super into men that

04:10:02.020 that would make artisan bread like kind of hipstery you kind of like a little hipster dude

04:10:17.460 if he's an if he's a bit older he had an emo phase in high school

04:10:23.060 he listens to my chemical romance right he listens to my chemical romance i'm laughing because literally

04:10:28.820 like earlier we were talking about one type and i was like yeah i think emo dudes are kind of cute

04:10:34.420 like i still have a soft spot for them even though i'm not in high school anymore like there's something

04:10:38.660 about there maybe a guy who plays an instrument probably like a guitar maybe a even even a um

04:10:47.780 a ukulele i could see you going for a ukulele guy um probably super liberal dude

04:10:55.620 um but i mean you're liberal so that yeah tracks uh actually you know but on the flip side i think

04:11:04.260 you are deeply attracted to the most like super conservative dude like i bet you you go crazy around

04:11:13.140 super conservative guys no but yeah i like guys i know for the conservative guys but i do like um

04:11:21.300 people who can argue with me people who can argue yeah like i like going back and forth on a debate

04:11:26.740 like you gotta challenge me intellectually okay i gotta challenge you intellectually okay well

04:11:32.580 all right i'm out of the picture then and we got sc here i feel like sc based off what you said

04:11:40.580 last time because you said you like toxic dudes if i recall yeah i used to that was my oh just a little

04:11:46.020 closer to me um you like a heavily tatted dude i think you'd like you you would date uh like someone

04:11:52.820 in a band probably like someone i'm trying to think what kind of band though like it would have to be

04:12:06.100 you'd probably like i don't know if you would date long term but you would definitely

04:12:09.860 fuck somebody from afi i'm just throwing it out i don't even know what that is you don't know if i

04:12:14.740 don't know if i no oh my god i admit i okay i misread that um you uh

04:12:25.060 mma fighters no no um afi was on track i think what about a guy who drives a truck

04:12:33.940 a truck no not a truck no okay what about the prius i could work with a prius i could work with

04:12:41.700 that nice okay uh i don't know uh you like men who are emotionally unavailable you can't we're talking

04:12:54.340 about now we're not talking about the men i used to oh my bad we're talking about now okay you still

04:13:00.020 like them though but you're trying to correct your i'm getting cooked right now you're trying to

04:13:04.820 correct you um do you like guys with dad bods yeah yeah you're on the right path like tattoos

04:13:12.740 dad dad bods maybe the gauges no no no no not a fan that's pixie yes i don't is there too i don't like

04:13:21.780 the big thingies it's that that scares me i feel like i don't know it gets scary when it's like

04:13:28.020 wait chat is this getting boring chat one in the chat is this boring that i'm

04:13:32.020 this section right now um here i'll go really quick um black men um uh reformed frat boys

04:13:44.340 wow oh that was actually so spot on it's truly mind-blowing for me reformed

04:13:50.740 frat boys yes my jaw actually got this um they they wear what is it sperries and

04:13:57.780 what were the shoes that frat boys wear the moccasins they were like the new balances

04:14:04.500 new balance and chubbies lily is really attracted to um she likes a project okay she likes a guy who's

04:14:14.420 recently been released from prison um actually even she wants a guy who is currently in prison

04:14:22.180 she she likes that oh because it's safe i thought it was gonna be like a church goer there's um you

04:14:29.460 you're actually my understanding is you're actually pen pals right now with three uh life sentence

04:14:35.220 inmates absolutely definitely spot on and madison's type is

04:14:51.460 i mean hopefully her boyfriend right before your boyfriend before your boyfriend your type

04:14:57.700 i've had the same type my whole entire life your boyfriend and it's literally my boyfriend

04:15:01.940 oh besides like my ex-boyfriend was like the complete opposite wait what's your boyfriend

04:15:07.620 what like is he nerdy is he mma fighter no i'm just really like physical wise i'm into like white

04:15:14.500 guys like and who have like brown curly curly hair nice and i don't know i like nice guys also cowboys

04:15:24.980 though shout out to cowboys i was gonna say cowboys i love cowboys like a cowboy until he asks you to help

04:15:31.300 with the cows and i would no i grew up on a ranch i would be so down to a farm yeah me too that's the

04:15:38.020 plan does anybody want to guess what my type is yes okay you like women who wear low-rise jeans um and

04:15:47.380 she she she has natural hair she's never dyed her hair ever in her life super conservative she wears

04:15:58.180 like you know what's crazy turtlenecks turtlenecks and like the jean pencil skirts you know what i mean

04:16:04.740 you know what's actually crazy i i actually like like aesthetically women who have color in their

04:16:11.220 hair like and it could be either like red green green's kind of weird but like red pink or blue i

04:16:18.820 actually i like it but it's usually tied to a chick that's like bonkers but it used to be like

04:16:28.900 okay so i'm i'm 34 right so before like politics got fucking crazy it used to just be a girl with daddy

04:16:36.900 issues if she had color in her hair now it usually is also an indicator of your politics and typically

04:16:42.660 you're like hardcore sj like social justice warrior like probably really liberal really progressive

04:16:48.820 really feminist but just it's just the aesthetically i actually do think color hair looks good so he's

04:16:56.900 got his dream girl right there that's actually his wife that's his girlfriend the girl with the blue hair in the back

04:17:06.660 like an alternative girl yeah you like alternative girls with tattoos he wants a conservative alt girl

04:17:13.220 five six a conservative alt girl that hides all of her tattoos with the pencil skirt and the

04:17:18.980 fucking turtleneck i do i like cut off points for tattoos that can only show you her tattoos sure why not

04:17:27.060 wait anybody else want to wager guess what do you know what is it what's my type you like really

04:17:35.700 short girls yep preferably lighter eyes just slight preference yes like you're into asian chicks

04:17:45.380 i feel like i knew that somebody else on there said that you have someone said brian likes asian

04:17:50.420 girls but it's not like oh i'm but if i can fix it like i date i'll date white chick like it's black

04:17:55.940 girl whatever latina you like her to just need nothing need nothing don't not bother you

04:18:04.740 not argue with you not argue with you the perfect woman yes and she's submissive nice submissive and

04:18:12.420 she's like she doesn't bother anybody she's independent blue hair

04:18:16.420 you're forgetting one thing large labia yes key a large labia has to have no okay it doesn't have to

04:18:26.420 i don't give a fuck i'm just it's kind of a name it's the only way to go what's this it's been 20

04:18:33.060 minutes yes you're right um it's been 30 minutes you guys didn't drive together to you yeah we're gonna

04:18:37.700 wrap yeah oh yeah oh shit okay we're gonna wrap tomorrow was there one last thing um

04:18:45.380 final thoughts from anybody here before we wrap

04:18:50.660 you got something do you want to argue some more well we don't have to argue right now we can argue

04:18:54.980 next time i'm oh yeah oh you're gonna be oh yes pixie you're gonna be on sunday so okay we can

04:18:59.780 pick it up okay we should talk about birth control like i would like you guys think it's a good topic

04:19:04.900 right and candace i'm sad that she had some like interesting things it will it will be a good

04:19:09.780 conversation that's all i want to say okay uh really quick just show of hands who's on birth control

04:19:14.980 right now based okay cool what does based mean i feel like i hear that so much in reality okay it's

04:19:23.700 sometimes i just say it as a meme like i'll say something i don't even mean it to just i don't know

04:19:28.820 like it's if someone were to say oh yeah i like to i don't know collect collect pokemon cards and

04:19:37.300 okay based cool all right uh can you pull up the twitch really quick guys go to twitch.tv

04:19:42.900 slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub yo trad thing for the prime snorkeler thing for

04:19:47.700 the prime clipped think for the prime uh zirker i think i already at thank you guys twitch.tv

04:19:52.500 slash whatever drops a follow drop us a prime sub uh let me just make sure we have get through the

04:19:56.740 chats this is the last one i think rippy when jesus met mary magdalene she stopped being a sinner

04:20:02.180 and followed him she did not continue to prostitute rippy thank you very much for your patronage yeah

04:20:07.620 she uh started walking the appropriate path and then we have who do we have oh that's it okay cool

04:20:14.660 guys um so guys this was a special show nor we normally we don't do shows on thursdays but you know

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04:20:45.700 guys are awesome um big thank you to the wonderful panel tonight thank you for sticking around appreciate

04:20:50.100 it i think it was a pretty good i like the panel it was good it was good uh be sure to uh oh kansas

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Candace Owens DESTROYS Whatever Podcast？! ｜ Dating Talk #98

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