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00:02:13.360 please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead my name is grace i'm 29 years old my occupation

00:02:22.940 i'm a content creator i'm a comedian i do stand-up comedy um and i'm all around silly goose what kind

00:02:32.100 of uh content creation do you do i do social media content i also do spicy content okay of f i do of yes

00:02:42.560 do you do any traditional uh adult content let's say um i would say like soft soft core

00:02:52.020 thank you ftg for the uh i do traditional and non-traditional adult content okay cool what about

00:02:59.740 you rawr can ups i'm 24 and i am a corn star i think you're a little too far can i have you scoot

00:03:06.820 into the table please rawr can ups 24 corn star okay uh and you do uh mainstream like traditional

00:03:17.480 adult content okay um what uh what kind of like companies have you worked with all the vixen

00:03:24.680 team ski blacked slade deeper oh team ski any bang bus in there no bang bus no bang bus yeah they're

00:03:35.320 in florida aren't they yeah they're in florida they're miami okay it's in the works though right

00:03:39.500 maybe in the future maybe in the future okay i'll get you set up i guess i have no idea i have no

00:03:44.300 connections with them okay um what about you i am gianna dior i am actress model corn star i have been

00:03:53.180 on bang bus browsers vixen all of them every single one she's 26 up 26 thank you

00:04:03.400 i'm alexa i'm 30 and i'm a general manager at a gym any adult content no can i have you tilt your

00:04:14.660 mic so it's kind of straight on more like that yeah perfect uh okay um my name is madison i'm 18

00:04:23.680 years old i work for the whatever podcast i am also a host at a bar as well as a student at

00:04:31.300 santa river city college studying business and accounting i am micah i'm a model and a content

00:04:38.980 creator and i am 23 years old what kind of content do you make um i do social media so like tick tock

00:04:45.880 but i also am an of model as well so i do make that content what do you do on of it's more traditional

00:04:52.980 so spicy content i mean so solo content boy girl girl girl uh all all of the above yeah okay

00:05:03.120 i'm olivia i'm 23 and i model and i'm also a creator what hold on okay what kind of what do you

00:05:14.460 create just like on instagram and tick tock

00:05:16.920 of f or no no no no fans leave patreon no what i'll know what the other ones are not yet nothing

00:05:26.040 oh not yet so it's in the works or what um maybe

00:05:30.360 hurrah okay

00:05:33.420 hi i'm caitlin i am 23 years old i'm a university student and i bartend

00:05:41.080 what do you uh study in university um it was kinesiology and then i'm making a dramatic change

00:05:48.160 of major in the works to business okay got it uh just a couple questions so you do like

00:05:55.620 boy girl content but i'm only fans you guys work with like actual production companies do you do

00:06:02.000 that too or you're just of um no i'm not in the industry officially i just do of okay do you do bg

00:06:10.540 content on of or solo what do you do on there um i do solo content i have a little bit of bg content i

00:06:17.940 do a lot of girl girl content okay you know i love the ladies gotcha did i ask like which production

00:06:25.520 companies you've shot with too vixen browsers the same ones as bang buys blacked was blacked in

00:06:32.100 there blacked are there she was one avian performer of the year multiple years in a row yeah avian

00:06:37.440 performer of the year yeah i won that 20 i don't know 20 what she did two years in a row you don't

00:06:42.280 remember i won a lot of i won a lot of awards i don't really remember the years 2019 2020

00:06:48.020 after that i think it was 21 after covid it was last year okay no wait it was 2022 that was last

00:06:52.960 year yeah do you do you uh what's the the trophy that you get do you get trophy yeah i have like

00:06:58.620 fucking 15 of them you got 15 avian trophies do you have any avian trophies where they at

00:07:03.100 where they at they're coming they're leaving you out they're leaving you out it's in the works okay

00:07:07.580 uh what did what do the trophies look like are they just penises or how does that work no actually

00:07:12.340 it's like two people and they're kind of like intertwined so it's like intertwined it's gold

00:07:17.840 fdg thank you for the 50 gifted memberships it's a gold it's a really heavy gold trophy and like

00:07:25.240 two people intertwined it's cool have you tried to sell one on ebay no i'm keeping those forever

00:07:31.760 forever yeah okay you're gonna put them in your do you have like it because you have so many are you

00:07:36.060 gonna have like a a uh what do they call them like a trophy a showcase like a shelf thing you've got

00:07:42.160 a shelf yeah okay they're getting heavy though okay there you go yeah all right oh nice do you

00:07:48.580 also if you win an avn do you do the do you also is there like a prize money or not it's just the

00:07:53.500 bragging rights the accolades okay okay there you go uh well we're gonna go around the table once more

00:08:00.140 so what is your current relationship status are you single talking stage situationship friends with

00:08:05.400 benefits relationship married polycule sex cult um if you're single how long have you been single

00:08:10.280 and what's your longest relationship go ahead um i'm currently single i've been single for about

00:08:19.240 two years my longest relationship was around four years okay i am in a couple situationships

00:08:29.460 um my longest relationship was six years thought i was gonna marry the guy his parents bought us a house

00:08:35.020 and everything and then i broke up with him and moved to la and i don't know if i believe in monogamy

00:08:42.240 though your longest relationship is six years six years and you're 24 now so did this end recently or

00:08:47.940 was this like a somewhat high school 2020 okay so it was like 16 to 22 ish okay so it started in high

00:08:56.320 school and then yeah but he was older so i was 16 he was 21 but then i dated him that's probably illegal

00:09:02.740 that's it yeah his parents bought us a house and i i don't think that that i gotta live a really good

00:09:08.680 life for a while but i got well it's not it's not so much on you but it doesn't he was a really good

00:09:14.420 guy but i gotta live like that housewife lifestyle for like a really long time and i had like an itching

00:09:21.060 of like wanting to do something else with my life i think you're you're a little too far from the

00:09:24.940 microphone i had an itching to wanting to do something else with my life you had an itch

00:09:28.400 an itch i was just like physical itch like something was okay not that kind of itch i wanted to like

00:09:34.300 experience more life is she too far from the mic okay go ahead and then i broke up with him and moved to

00:09:41.040 a lie where uh were you in california during this relationship in vegas in vegas

00:09:46.680 and you were with him for six years and you were engaged but you didn't get married not engaged

00:09:51.660 fiance ish ish our family he bought you he bought you a house his parents did the parents bought you

00:09:58.320 a house the house was or is in your name or you were just it was their house but you were living in

00:10:03.260 it well they bought it for us to live in oh so i wasn't in my name you didn't have equity in the

00:10:08.820 no yeah you were living in the house with your then boyfriend yeah okay uh i heard about this

00:10:16.120 thing recently called palimony so in some states if you've cohabitated and it's separate years right

00:10:23.160 yeah but you didn't go for palimony did you okay okay but so you moved to la to la matt adam 22 he

00:10:31.240 became my manager and oh adam 20 is he still your manager yeah or yeah yeah you're you do uh you do

00:10:38.400 the uh management for plug talk is that it both of you or just just just you okay and so do you book

00:10:45.300 are you like booking guests or just kind of what do you mean booking guests well you the you're

00:10:51.600 managing the plug talk right they manage me oh they oh okay okay yeah i got confused adam and

00:10:57.620 lennar are my managers okay i thought okay okay i get it okay and how long have they been managing

00:11:03.520 you for since march of last year so like a year and a half okay and so you moved to la and immediately

00:11:11.580 got linked up with well i moved here like end of covid so like august of 2020 and then i met them

00:11:18.040 no yeah yeah yeah 2021 march yeah it's been a year and a half yeah okay huh has anyone ever told you

00:11:29.260 like you could have you seen game of thrones or house of the dragon no you could play oh what's her name

00:11:37.260 yeah yeah yeah i have gotten that oh you okay yeah i have gotten that but i've never watched it

00:11:41.920 yeah um you said you're in a couple situationships i am how many are we talking here i love my little

00:11:48.880 booze i think can you try to just i love my booze just scoot into the table just a tad we just want

00:11:53.460 to get you a little closer to i know it's a little tight there i love my booze i love having a lot of

00:11:58.080 guys that i have for like different phases of my life um but i also don't after my like

00:12:05.720 long-term relationships i just can't get into something like full-blown serious because it just

00:12:11.600 i just can't do it i just can't do it at this age 24 like i just can't do it you said you had a couple

00:12:17.740 guys for your different phases so do you mean like you have one guy who's really good in bed

00:12:22.680 another guy who takes you out on romantic dates and different personalities for different things or

00:12:27.180 like different moods that i'm in like different moods different moods how many are we talking

00:12:33.140 split personalities here what are we talking about like

00:12:35.380 bipolar is there a little bipolar going on no just is there such a thing as tripolar

00:12:43.460 can you be tripolar probably there's like multiple personality disorders is that what you have

00:12:50.560 what do you think no i'm just asking made up disorder i'm just asking well okay there's

00:12:56.820 an argument for multiple personality disorder there's debate as if if it's real or not

00:13:02.580 okay some people think it is so is that what you got diagnosed with and then um you know no i have

00:13:11.740 not been diagnosed with that i have been diagnosed with um it's like something with authority

00:13:19.460 authority yeah i like i got diagnosed with like i don't like authority but i think that you get

00:13:27.240 over it when you're older okay real i'm trying to do you know what the actual term is it's um

00:13:33.820 oh yes opposition to authority disorder i've never heard of that one yeah i think that's just not

00:13:40.700 being tolerant i i mean exactly i'm like not even sure that it's real either but that's the only

00:13:46.500 thing a doctor ever told me that i have interesting okay have you ever so like if you were in a

00:13:52.300 situation where you the police were trying to arrest you would you like fight back um it depends if i was

00:14:01.860 if it was like wrongful i would probably try and convey that it comes out at like amusement parks

00:14:09.160 and like movie theaters and stuff i really don't like like i see it when like an employee is like

00:14:15.160 taking their job too seriously that like actually really upsets me but could you argue that's a

00:14:22.700 disability like if you were to go to court and you could say no if i if it made me get out of

00:14:28.580 something then yes okay well i don't think that if you commit a crime if you have a something

00:14:34.940 necessary i don't think maybe i didn't know better that's a good excuse um but so going back to you

00:14:41.620 you said you we were talking about you have a couple different situationships different so different

00:14:45.680 phases like i have like one of the guys is 22 so it's like he's like younger oh wow cougar over here

00:14:51.360 guys like 40 it's like different wait sorry so one guy's 22 one guy's 30 another one is like 39

00:14:58.000 39 so it's like they're all in different places of their life so they bring different benefits to

00:15:04.320 my life can you expand like what what are the differences that each one is bringing the guy

00:15:08.920 that's almost 40 he's very like caretaker very like wants to settle down with me but i'm just like

00:15:14.680 not in that place so he brings like very safety net vibes the 30 year old he's still a little bit of a

00:15:21.220 cracky like he still likes to get down crack head what cracky what's cracky like like he's like a

00:15:26.840 cracky like he's just like he still is in his era where he likes to have a good time but like he has

00:15:31.960 a lot of money so he's able to crack so what is what is crack are you being dumb no i i don't move

00:15:39.780 in the same circles as you do so i don't know like you can't like figure out what that means

00:15:43.540 cracky like he cracks on him has a good time yeah he does drugs yeah okay well not like a bad way not

00:15:51.640 like meth but like he just some casual heroin no heroin no heroin addiction well okay um and then

00:15:58.400 there's a the 22 year old yeah he's for fucking just for funsies i love him okay um well is there

00:16:07.300 more than that though there's a couple others right no those are like the three main the three main well

00:16:12.680 that i'm like really comfortable with like those are the ones that i'm like really comfortable with

00:16:16.300 that i'll call them and like they're your three main are there any side hose you got any side hose

00:16:22.700 side pieces yeah occasionally okay occasionally what do we give us some details on that once a month

00:16:32.180 yeah with with like a regular guy but he's a side piece or like just a new a new guy will circle in

00:16:38.240 circle out okay both yeah okay um do they know the three main guys do they know about each other

00:16:44.660 no dude are they you think they're watching the podcast right now kind of snitching on yourself here

00:16:51.160 they definitely have seen me on podcasts before okay well are they is there i mean are they loyal to

00:16:58.760 you or they're probably seeing other women right yeah well not the old guy no the old guy wants to

00:17:05.500 marry me i love him if he's watching okay um he he's amazing he's a good guy but the younger ones

00:17:11.320 they they're living their truth and i support them okay uh what's the so right now it's three has

00:17:21.200 there ever been a period of time where you had even more main pieces like five dudes no but my

00:17:28.140 ex-boyfriend of six years love him really good guy i the last year of our relationship i started

00:17:34.260 cheating on him with a guy in la and that guy was the one who told me break with your boyfriend

00:17:38.120 moved to la and that's how i went to la wait so your six-year relationship was he it was monogamous

00:17:45.040 up until the five-year mark when you started cheating was he cheating on you too or he's a good

00:17:50.440 boy and you were you were in vegas sort of at the time a stripper okay you were stripping uh in vegas

00:17:58.080 at the rhino oh at the rhino okay we got one of those here um why did you cheat on your six-year

00:18:06.620 relationship i was so bored and so young and just like when you're that young it's like you don't

00:18:11.800 know what you want in life and like in the moment it seems like a good setup and you think you're

00:18:16.520 happy and content and then you reach like 2021 and you're like oh fuck like i have a lot of life to

00:18:22.080 live and like i didn't want to stay in nevada and then i met this guy who was like my dream guy who

00:18:28.440 was like so fucking hot and like my ex-boyfriend of six years we stopped having sex like i wasn't

00:18:32.840 sexually attracted to him it was just like we were so comfortable and like family and like roommates at

00:18:38.180 that point um but like just there was no sexual romantic aspect to it so then i met that guy and

00:18:47.380 i was like oh fuck there's a lot of life out there for me why didn't you just like break up with him

00:18:54.520 instead of cheat on him well then i did break up with him after well after you cheated well it takes

00:18:59.800 a when you're with someone for six years and you have so many entanglements of like life like real

00:19:07.320 life aspects like bank accounts like all that shit family you can't just break up with them when you're

00:19:13.960 six years deep you guys were sharing a bank account or there was a lot of shit entangled

00:19:18.660 when you're with someone for six years take a week or two to untangle no it just takes longer than

00:19:24.420 that what what's your longest relationship five years okay are you still with there was no tank no

00:19:29.680 there was no there was no tanglement there was no entanglements we weren't living together no

00:19:34.080 shared bank accounts you guys were together for five years you don't live together no never lived

00:19:39.360 together i think that's an l yeah i don't like that together yeah yeah yeah that doesn't count

00:19:45.360 what do you mean it was five years you guys didn't live together unless you live together then it i've

00:19:52.900 lived i've lived together with other exes like with other relationships but but not the five-year

00:19:58.360 girl not the five-year girl that's insane but you live with girls and there's circumstances

00:20:03.100 circumstances exact entanglements there's different situations for different parts of your life okay

00:20:08.360 do you uh do you still strip or not anymore no i don't need to don't need to okay what uh when

00:20:15.380 did you start stripping 18 19 19 okay uh wait okay and the guy but the guy was older okay but he was

00:20:24.800 like he was like my biggest supporter he let me do whatever i wanted he was really supportive

00:20:28.040 okay he was fine with it i i've just always been like a free bird just wanted to do yeah at the

00:20:32.980 what was that the only time you cheated on then yeah that guy yeah come on oh no it took you a

00:20:41.200 little while to answer that one no i've actually talked about this on podcast before so i know he's

00:20:45.480 seen it so yeah that was the only one no but i mean like with the with the six-year relationship you

00:20:50.700 said at the end you cheated but last year yeah at any other point in the relationship like two years

00:20:54.940 three years in three years in okay all right uh what about you relationship situation yeah what

00:21:00.300 was the question um so uh just current relationship status i'm single single um i keep rosters that's

00:21:07.960 my thing you got a roster okay so three okay what's your roster looking like here and how many

00:21:14.620 professional athletes are on it i have one oh you have one one of my situations oh is it the young

00:21:20.960 is it the young guy the 30 he's older 30 nba nfl what are we talking here nfl i don't know if i could

00:21:27.240 say chargers is it the chargers wait the rams no is it the la way no yeah for you who we talking

00:21:36.080 tell us the team don't tell us here how about how about offense or defense i'm not talented on this

00:21:42.420 i think it'd be offense offense it's offense oh for you i was asking no for her yeah yeah what for

00:21:47.620 you for her it's often i'm not saying anything okay that's fine uh so okay you've you've got a

00:21:54.040 roster tell us about the roster there's probably like around 10 on the roster right now i've kept

00:21:59.520 this roster for a while but i my last relationship ended like probably three months ago i don't really

00:22:06.840 know if i counted that one we only dated for like six months so i don't really count that one

00:22:12.920 roster of 10 yeah how frequently but they're not like full situationships they're more just like

00:22:18.960 hookups yeah like we're friends we just like hook up okay nothing more than that good guys but

00:22:27.080 it's a regular thing yeah yeah okay like different guys for different days

00:22:31.780 whatever the mood is i know exactly who to hit up okay um so in the past month have you seen all 10

00:22:42.320 of them i would say like seven yeah seven or eight of them in the past okay so in the past month you've

00:22:49.920 seen seven to eight of the men on your roster yeah okay i'm assuming you have sex with all of them

00:22:56.100 of course but how do you is like uh you both do like porn so uh in addition to your three

00:23:05.320 situationships your roster of 10 you're also like shooting scenes right with are any of the men on

00:23:11.340 your roster they also work in the industry or they're like civilians or whatever civilians yeah okay

00:23:16.120 yeah um you guys are good at balancing a lot of uh okay showbiz uh there you have it so in the past

00:23:24.840 month you you've seen seven or eight do they know about each other i think they have an idea but

00:23:31.060 it's like not of each other but that you're saying that i'm seeing other people yeah and like that's

00:23:35.060 just kind of understood is there one that stands out where you're like i really want to lock this guy

00:23:39.980 down and just be with him and want him to just be with me no okay there's not like not not even like

00:23:47.840 a little in that direction like i mean there's some that i like hanging out with more than just

00:23:53.220 fucking but nothing more than that okay i wouldn't want to like date any of these people i don't think

00:23:57.980 sure and so uh okay so there's seven eight well there's 10 uh do you and you're you're 26 correct

00:24:06.820 26 do you think like maybe you're looking at it like well right now i'm young i just want to have

00:24:14.340 fun whatever but like in the future do you think you want to get married maybe have kids or are you

00:24:18.140 thinking no i just kind of this is how i just want my lifestyle to be like i know i definitely

00:24:22.640 want to have kids i don't know if i want to get married that's the thing okay maybe not marriage but

00:24:27.460 what about like a singular lifelong partner i don't think i'm built for like full-on monogamy

00:24:33.080 okay at least not at this point in my life i don't know if that's going to change but right now

00:24:37.700 definitely not and what about for you since you got the three situationships yeah i want to get

00:24:42.540 married and i definitely want like a lifelong partner but i think it's going to be a situation

00:24:46.860 kind of like adam and lena so it's not poly or like open it's like an understanding like like

00:24:53.560 you're gonna be sexually attracted to other people like i would never make my partner not have sex with

00:24:59.160 any other women i think it's like an insecurity thing it's like we're humans like we're gonna be

00:25:03.580 sexually attracted to other people and it's not natural yeah but like sexual cheating like just

00:25:10.540 having sex i don't think that's cheating like i think emotional cheating where you like would

00:25:14.040 carry on an outside relationship beyond just having sex then that would be cheating to me

00:25:18.300 just like if adam was ever talking to another girl that they had slept with then lena would not be okay

00:25:24.520 with that wait just just a point of clarification you said sexual cheating is not like but you mean

00:25:30.380 how people consider cheating is like people consider cheating in society like having sex i don't

00:25:35.860 consider that well let me just clarify one thing so let's say you are in a exclusive monogamous

00:25:42.440 relationship with somebody and your partner has sex with someone else even though the understanding

00:25:47.580 between you two was that you would not do that do you yeah then that's cheating but okay that's cheating

00:25:53.100 but yeah i just would not be so you're saying yeah okay so so long as the uh prior to getting into

00:26:02.300 a relationship with someone the boundaries were laid out and yeah it was communicated between the

00:26:07.620 two partners that we are going to sleep with other people then you don't consider that cheating yeah

00:26:13.200 as long as i would agree with you there if both parties if both parties were are aware yeah then i don't

00:26:19.620 think it's cheating yeah so yeah i will get married and have a part like lifelong partnership like i love

00:26:25.720 having a partner like i think it makes life the enjoyments of life better when you have a partner by your

00:26:31.240 side i just got confused because you said having sex with somebody somebody else who's not your

00:26:36.180 partner you don't consider that cheating so that's where i got confused there yeah but you meant

00:26:41.300 so long as the there was a disclosure in the relationship that it's open basically yeah like

00:26:47.720 adam and lena yeah uh so roster of 10 okay so any famous people you don't have to name names but

00:26:53.000 yeah okay musicians athletes what do we models rodeo stars any rodeo stars in there rodeo rodeo

00:27:02.540 like a bull fighter not that i know of i feel like you'd really like a spaniard you seem like you'd like

00:27:10.080 a spaniard my type is like tall white boy who looks like he's about to die that you're kind of

00:27:16.140 describing me a little bit a little bit but okay um pasty and okay um wait so okay tall so mgk is he

00:27:25.680 kind of basically yeah he's not one of them but i would love him to be have you slid into his dms

00:27:30.360 no actually okay has you should maybe maybe you should maybe well is he still dating what's what's

00:27:37.120 megan fox yeah you think you could one up you're young i would rather fuck megan fox than mtk

00:27:44.020 oh question um is anybody on your roster a woman you got any chicks on the roster um there was like

00:27:52.460 a month ago she kind of fell off she has a boyfriend so it was like yeah yeah okay um so

00:27:58.940 wait let's let's categorize this so how many pro athletes are on the roster of 10 men that you're

00:28:03.560 what's categorized athletes i don't know if like athletes are really on my there's no athletes on

00:28:08.300 your roster i don't think there was one i thought there was a football oh that was you okay i don't

00:28:12.480 think there's any musician musician yeah music people models um who else i feel like we're missing

00:28:20.840 one we're missing like a genre of men old men 50s oh yeah yeah anyone who's 40 plus should be on

00:28:31.140 the roster i used to have one but okay college students i feel like i'm forgetting like half of

00:28:37.740 the people that are on my roster right now vibes are insane wait it's okay there's 10 on your roster

00:28:43.540 do you think you could just tell me like not actually say it but if we were talking privately

00:28:49.820 would you be able to just list their first names really quick without having to think about it maybe

00:28:53.840 like five of them you'd have to double check i'd have to yeah i'd have to like go look at my phone

00:28:58.340 so so there are men you're currently sleeping with and you don't know their names i know their

00:29:03.200 names that just not have to double check okay you'd have to just double check i need a refresher

00:29:07.560 you'd have to look in your contacts oh right right yeah it's a lot of people so it's like hard to keep

00:29:11.440 up okay wow good times yeah i feel like you're like entering this information into like an excel

00:29:16.200 spreadsheet right now yeah this is the inquisition i am i am interrogating all of you okay um what about you

00:29:23.260 this diary i'm currently single i've been single for about two years i did just get out of a

00:29:28.000 situationship recently um and my longest relationship was six years wait okay so single for two years

00:29:34.100 recently got out of a situationship yes how long was the situationship for it was only like six months

00:29:39.720 six months okay and recently got out of it so what like yesterday no um about a month ago a month

00:29:47.400 ago yeah during the situationship were you seeing other guys or was it kind of um no i wasn't i'm

00:29:53.500 pretty loyal when it comes to things like that i just i'm a scorpio so i'm super like possessive

00:29:57.300 if i have one person you're you're a scorpio i am a scorpio what does that have to do with i'm just

00:30:02.600 they're known to be possessive from what they say i don't know i'm pretty from what they say from

00:30:06.340 what they say okay so you are you jealous or possessive yes i'm both like i don't i just don't like

00:30:12.100 to share have you ever slashed a dude's tires before no you have no about you anybody else

00:30:19.840 anyone here someone's car you've keyed a key to car key to car i've keyed a car slash tires that

00:30:27.180 was my crazy era i just made really crazy i'm a lot more control anybody over here slash tire

00:30:32.940 slashers i've taken a car back from him when he was pretending like it was his um i've wrecked a car

00:30:39.180 before actually i just forgot about that for a guy intentionally yeah i was like also in my

00:30:44.940 crazy era there's a lot of felonies i gave a guy two black guys once wait you what i i did give a

00:30:51.040 guy two black guys once oh but that you know like that was before i matured as a person and i'm like

00:30:57.340 very anti-violence now and also you could argue he deserved it destruction of property versus like

00:31:05.320 actual what wait he deserved why did he why did he deserve it

00:31:09.160 um hot topic i came home one night and i heard him cheating on me through the door

00:31:18.560 okay so i was pretty fired up um so you what about the girl did you beat her too

00:31:24.780 um well okay at first i was like seeing red i guess so i kind of like grabbed her by the neck

00:31:31.160 but then i like saw the look of fear in her eyes and i was like you know what this isn't really about

00:31:36.540 you so then i kind of just like mature yeah i was like i was like and then i was like no and i let her

00:31:44.640 go and then i started like breaking all the stuff i bought him i was like 19 at the time um hormones are

00:31:53.320 high yeah and he knew my family and the next day i went to my mom's house and my my mom was

00:32:01.060 like grace is it true um you gave blank two black eyes and i was like yeah mom

00:32:07.580 i was i was fired up did you continue seeing him after the violent incident we actually had plans to

00:32:19.040 move together and he had me wait for him and we were supposed to like move somewhat soon so no

00:32:24.800 i didn't continue seeing him however over the years we have actually he lives in ohio

00:32:31.120 over the years we've actually become like good friends you know i we were both young i put that

00:32:37.080 behind me okay and i guess he put me giving him two black eyes behind him okay um anybody else

00:32:47.080 here committed any felonies while we're destruction of property it might be i can't speak on it i have

00:32:53.760 another one i did a car chase that was it you car you chased someone yeah my boyfriend because he

00:33:00.620 was cheating on me at the time so like the chick was in the car no no no no no i found out we were in

00:33:07.260 bed together and i found out and then he was like i'm gonna go and i'm like no no no you're not gonna

00:33:11.960 go and i was kind of a crazy bitch back then or whatever so like a month ago this was no this was

00:33:16.840 a high school this is high school we've all grown from our teenage years sure so how fast were you

00:33:24.100 guys going we were not fast it was just quick quick quick so it was like going like 50 going like it's

00:33:31.820 not even a mile road this is in alaska so there's not a lot of you're from alaska not born there but i was

00:33:37.680 raised there what you okay you grew up there when did you move you're in part of alaska uh southeast

00:33:42.280 so this part right here that makes sense um i know yeah that of course the that part of alaska

00:33:49.220 so this is this is the whole state of alaska itself and then this is the southeast i mean i'm

00:33:55.800 intimately you and i was in southeast it's gonna be right there so yeah so like this is juno this is

00:34:03.400 where i'm from this is anchorage it's gonna be mainland so what what is the finger it's the

00:34:09.360 that's the illusion chains oh the illusion chains yeah those are the native islands but those are

00:34:13.860 pretty much gone now they're gone climate change that's okay there you have it folks um so you

00:34:20.880 chased him in a lot was it snowy no no no this is summertime in the last yeah it was like working

00:34:26.020 season summertime okay there wasn't any snow on the ground all right it wasn't it wasn't exciting

00:34:31.700 it was like two minutes and then we went back together got it wait how did we get here you i

00:34:37.180 think you were finishing up on your yes how did we get to the uh you asked me if i slashed any tires

00:34:43.080 oh yeah i don't know i haven't slashed any tires but um my six-year relationship he cheated on me

00:34:47.580 with a 17 year old he was 26 and we lived together what are these guys doing it was it was a lot

00:34:53.680 there was a lot going on um it was my in my hometown too so everybody like knew about it where's your

00:34:57.840 home from i'm from the jersey shore love that so i'm from tom's river if anybody knows where that

00:35:03.160 is you're from jersey i'm from jersey born and raised born and raised yeah definitely like give

00:35:08.760 off jersey vibes for sure i don't really hear it it'll come out when i get mad or drunk when i get

00:35:14.140 mad drunk hyped up um it'll come out madison what about you oh i've been in a relationship for about

00:35:21.720 a year cutie what was the question on the beach where is santa barbara yeah literally like right

00:35:30.100 here yeah are you from santa barbara no i'm from san diego cutie is he your age he's 22 i love that

00:35:37.900 you guys live together yes i love that she loves it 21 17 i was 16 so you said illegal well i think

00:35:46.100 you were 18 when you met him right she just had a year i have a 17 when i met him thank you wait

00:35:50.040 frankie oh frankie oh let's talk about that frankie okay you guys it's your own people

00:36:01.120 is it is that still is that romeo and juliet is that like because there's what they don't have that

00:36:10.220 in california what the romeo i think you've okay so it's like a three to four year difference

00:36:16.600 my dad's like 15 years older than my mom yeah i don't really think they care it's more so when

00:36:24.220 like one person is underage when you met that's yeah um okay what about you um i'm single relationship

00:36:32.300 status i'm single i've been single for a couple months a couple months and no situationships or

00:36:37.080 anything i do have an ex that hits me up every now and then but that's boring how long have you

00:36:41.020 been single you said a couple months like two or three two or three okay uh and you sorry longest

00:36:46.060 relationship is two years off and on two years off and on yeah okay how how many times did you guys

00:36:51.760 break up uh like three times oh three okay that for often i mean there's people that do that shit

00:36:56.800 every week oh yeah oh yeah that's super toxic super toxic okay oh here we go

00:37:02.420 bender the offended hey bender good to see you man thank you slo-mo is back unfortunately i cannot

00:37:09.200 change the playback speed of the stream she would have a sentence out before she turned 50 years old

00:37:15.100 if i could change it i think this is is that about me i think your your nickname is slo-mo oh my god i'm

00:37:22.580 so glad you remembered me we have a little thing going bender likes you i know all right he wants you to go

00:37:29.580 faster in your speech not in other ways i can talk faster but i know that you're still gonna find

00:37:36.740 something to say about how i talk but i can talk really fast if you want what's up bender hey

00:37:40.960 by the way we miss last time when you were on the show did you have your like the red and blue uh i

00:37:49.040 probably had my right eyebrow dyed yeah um and i probably have blue hair i'm kind of like natural

00:37:54.780 right now is it gonna come back you think or yes of course i bring it back in the winter no just like

00:38:01.480 every couple months when i feel like i need some flair actually i'm kind of inspired right now i might

00:38:07.300 go diet when i get home oh there you go uh so okay longest is two years you been single for two three

00:38:15.260 months why did he dump you oh no i dumped him twice oh okay he was cheating on me the entire time

00:38:22.480 so yeah the second time he wanted to get back together and then i found i caught him like sexting

00:38:28.920 on in my shower and so in the shower yeah like not in the shower like he was sexting in the shower then

00:38:34.600 he comes to my bed and then his phone's blowing up and then he opens it and it's the snapchat of the

00:38:39.580 way but sexting was cheating or like he actually slept with a girl no he had like five other girls

00:38:45.540 on the roster he was sleeping with during that time they were like coming over to his house using

00:38:49.420 all my stuff oh and he was saying he was using it were you guys living together you shouldn't know

00:38:53.840 i basically we have our own places but i spent so much time over at his place okay i see i see okay

00:39:00.080 uh what about you um i have a boyfriend right now and my longest relationship was three years

00:39:05.860 three years how long is your current relationship uh nine months nine months okay

00:39:11.260 i am in a relationship and my longest um relationship was one year how long is your

00:39:19.040 current one six months six months okay rock and roll rock and roll let me get a couple chats in here

00:39:25.520 uh we have x5 i recognize the blonde from planet of the gapes yeah yeah is it was that a

00:39:32.780 scene no i don't know what he's talking about but i love you x5 podcast yo x5 thank you very much

00:39:37.800 for your very nice uh super chat there appreciate it guys get your super chats in if you want and let

00:39:43.440 me just check we have okay cool we're all caught up okay so i had a couple questions here for you guys

00:39:49.340 uh let's see uh who here maybe just by show of hands wants to get married and or have like a

00:39:57.580 long-term life partner oh no mary i think that's everybody but you her dad's been married five

00:40:05.040 times though so she has a different view on marriage yeah my dad's on his fifth wife right now

00:40:09.880 so it's a different view of marriage yeah that's great that's great wait uh he didn't like do you

00:40:15.520 think maybe by the fourth he would have like you know yeah i think with my biological mom he should

00:40:20.680 have stopped she was only the second which your mom her mom was the second wife my mom was the

00:40:26.820 third wife wait can we have you tilt your microphone a little bit more straight towards you

00:40:31.220 there yeah that's perfect um wait your your bio mom was his third wife his third wife now he's on

00:40:38.800 its fifth what what do you think is going wrong in his marriages is it him is it the wives i think

00:40:43.800 it's the wives i really don't think it's his problem fdg thank you for the uh i don't think

00:40:49.160 my dad is the problem he has married the most insane people i've ever met in my life and one of

00:40:56.780 them is my biological mom one of them is like the woman i call my mom and she used to be crazy she's

00:41:02.060 not crazy anymore but like he just has a bad he looks toxic yeah he loves toxic i think okay so your

00:41:10.460 mom bio mom is crazy psycho psycho not even just psycho like evil person really somehow it

00:41:18.680 is who she calls her mom yeah okay your stepmom yeah yeah well technically she's not anymore so

00:41:26.020 okay i guess now she's just some lady she's just a lady okay and so okay hold on so there's five

00:41:35.020 five he's on his fifth wife marriage okay uh is this one okay or still pretty crazy she's actually

00:41:42.880 not crazy she's more of just like kind of snooty and like not the nicest person so i'm like i feel

00:41:49.000 like this one might stick for a while just because she's different from the rest is your dad rich like

00:41:54.180 what's your dad do my dad's a pilot and he just like commercial like airline yeah he used to fly for

00:41:59.880 united and now he like manages a helicopter company so yeah like he has money but like

00:42:04.460 i don't know he just do you feel like he has a type crazy bitches yeah his type is crazy bitches yeah

00:42:12.640 okay which which of the wait the third one did you meet the first two i met the one right before

00:42:21.120 i didn't never know the first one's your favorite of your four kind of moms probably my stepmom stepmom

00:42:28.300 yeah well she used to be fucking crazy but now she's not anymore so now we're best friends but

00:42:32.480 do you still talk to your bio mom no cut her out of my life what's she up to i don't care if she

00:42:39.800 lives or dies i literally like evil person so i have no idea where she is what she's doing

00:42:45.060 fuck she's dead to me holy shit yeah thanks what happened the last time i saw her was my 21st

00:42:52.840 birthday and i had just started corn corn that week and i was like testing the waters trying to

00:43:00.640 see if like okay maybe people just say bad things about her let me like test her out again because i

00:43:04.860 hadn't seen her in years that bitch was crazy like physically tried to fight me i like had to get

00:43:09.540 security to escort me out of the hotel like it was a whole thing i was like i'm blocking you on

00:43:14.000 everything don't ever reach out to me again holy shit yeah was she kind of physically abusive to

00:43:19.920 your dad too or maybe to my dad i don't know but she was kind of like to you she wanted to fight you

00:43:26.420 yeah at least then when i was a kid she didn't at least i don't remember i blocked all of that out

00:43:31.200 of my memory but at what age did uh your bio mom get divorced with your dad i was less than one year

00:43:37.620 old and then what age did your dad remarry when i was like two two and then at what age did he

00:43:44.180 remarry again not until i was like 18 or 19 so that was like my mom basically during that time

00:43:50.000 so at two so from two to like 18 you you did have yeah it wasn't too turbulent or was it still kind

00:43:57.100 of turbulent totally normal from like two to like eight my bio mom still had like custody of us so

00:44:01.980 like it was a little rocky it was like some really sketchy shit but then she lost custody disappeared

00:44:07.200 and then i had like a healthy life for a little while until i got divorced you got divorced no they got

00:44:12.920 okay okay do you think that the the framework with the parents you know your dad divorcing so

00:44:22.300 many women do you think that that kind of left an imprint on how you view relationships definitely

00:44:26.800 yeah yeah i'm more of just like okay like i actually love my dad and like believe it or not

00:44:33.040 he loves me like i know it's like a stigma where like porn girls don't have dads or whatever but like

00:44:37.440 we have a good relationship but i never see him as like the problem like i don't think he's really

00:44:42.320 the problem it's always the people he's picking it's like okay okay you just maybe you're just

00:44:48.400 not meant for like one person interesting yeah okay huh uh just going kind of around the table on this

00:44:54.580 uh who here's parents are still together that's crazy yeah i'll raise my hand there too uh your

00:45:02.880 parents still together okay uh turbulent childhood or otherwise pretty tame no very normal like my parents

00:45:09.120 are religious like they're very i grew up very normal i'm from pismo beach san luis obispo area

00:45:13.920 oh slow okay yeah yeah they're still there is that 805 yeah it's 805 yeah okay my dad's like my biggest

00:45:20.660 supporter like we have a all wait your dad's your biggest yeah like always even when i was a stripper

00:45:25.620 like my family i've always been like the oddball of my family so when i became a stripper it was like

00:45:30.620 that's just rochelle that's my real name and i just always took a different route in life

00:45:36.480 can you just straighten the microphone a little bit so it's kind of more perfect um yeah you said

00:45:42.340 yeah i'm very open with my family i have two older sisters two older sisters are they also in doing

00:45:46.820 this kind of content or they have like no they're like almost 40 oh they're oh okay they're almost so

00:45:52.820 there's quite a gap there and my dad had me at 53 so i think that's also why like

00:45:58.320 he my dad had my sisters when he was like 30 ish era and so by yeah so then by 53 my dad was just

00:46:08.360 like been around the block with raising girls like he had three daughters and i just i also like was a

00:46:14.440 good kid like i just always wanted to do take different routes in life of having life experiences

00:46:22.320 did you ever get detention um i did a lot were you a troublemaker in high school yeah but i also

00:46:27.300 was in all ap classes and i also did competitive sports so then i also was able to have a lenience

00:46:33.400 with my parents where they would turn a blind eye of oh so you were like fucking around you were

00:46:38.140 taking advanced courses in high school yeah were you bored in high school bored bored was it boring

00:46:43.120 to you um yeah for sure okay but i also like was a really smart kid and really athletic did you get

00:46:49.240 in trouble yeah like what are we talking here um like smoking a little weed in the bleachers i was

00:46:57.340 never a weed girl i was a molly ecstasy girl um what mad no no no molly and ecstasy girl oh ecstasy

00:47:04.840 sorry i i actually you know my boyfriend of six years i met him in santa barbara at the earl warren

00:47:09.060 showgrounds oh this the six-year guy six-year guy earl warren showground was it like a concert or

00:47:13.940 something it was a concert okay are you not from here no i'm from santa barbara okay i just sometimes

00:47:18.740 they do quite a variety of different things there it's like fairs i love fairs yeah so okay a lot

00:47:24.380 of molly at fairs when i was a teenager there you go congratulations i was working at the fair when

00:47:30.340 i was a teenager thank you for letting us anyone else a fair worker any other any other carnies any

00:47:36.740 other carnies any other carnies yeah i think brian's giving carny vibes i'm a little carny you

00:47:42.340 want to give carny vibes you look like you would be a carny i look like i'd be a carny talk

00:47:46.020 i look like i'm like kind of uh you give carny we're like finance bro the guy at the sledgehammer

00:47:51.520 trying to get people no i i think i'm more like the guy who it from like 18 to 22

00:47:59.740 like stuck to his music taste for the rest of his life what's your music taste cold play like

00:48:06.860 no no no oh excuse me that was a really good guess i love cold play 90s grunge music pearl jam

00:48:15.360 uh stone temple pilots etc etc um a little bit of tool i don't know i don't think they're grunge but

00:48:22.180 i guess tools okay um in any case uh okay so i think besides you was there anyone else who

00:48:29.500 parents oh you're still together yeah okay your parents are still together okay um who here wants

00:48:36.980 to have kids is that ever not you two no no no children probably not no why um i would probably

00:48:47.040 have to get a c-section for me to have a child and that's not something i really particularly want

00:48:51.800 to do why why is that yeah i have such small birthing hips so like i wouldn't be able to so i

00:48:57.800 don't want to do a c-section and end up having to go under the table and for all of that small

00:49:02.180 birthing how old are you that you had a small birthing that might change as you get a bit older

00:49:07.480 is that a medical diagnosis i've never heard of my mom had to get like a c-section for because of

00:49:13.340 the small she's like basically the same size as me she's petite yeah yeah a lot of smaller women

00:49:20.140 though like don't have to get c-sections for that yeah oh is that my mom did so she's my mom's she's

00:49:26.400 super tiny too but she didn't have that issue with having to get a c-section yeah my best friend

00:49:31.840 is 4 11 and just had twins oh she could do it she pushed him out so yeah also good news you don't

00:49:37.940 have to decide that right now yeah i know if anything i could just freeze an egg and like get

00:49:42.600 a surrogate if anything like that yeah that's an option that's an option uh i got a question for you

00:49:47.380 guys so uh okay what's the most amount of money a guy has ever spent on you early on so you know

00:49:58.440 guys in like one day or just in total over time it could be one day uh it could be for like a specific

00:50:04.600 maybe got you a gift maybe took you on the and i'm talking early on so it could be even

00:50:10.700 before you guys have even hooked up so can this be like hard cold cash or can this be just like

00:50:17.800 gifts i mean if they just here's the thousand bucks yeah that counts too okay um so let's go

00:50:23.180 around the table let's start with you and then we'll go around go ahead well when i was a stripper

00:50:28.660 um i had some guy give me like 17 grand wait 17 yeah roughly within like 45 minutes oh okay

00:50:42.020 but that's like stripping but that's yeah i don't know if that is what you're talking about

00:50:47.100 he gave you 17 for what he was just like here you go honestly i think he had just like won a lot

00:50:54.420 of money or something it was burning a hole in his pocket okay so it was a good day was it at the

00:51:01.640 club yes okay so he went to the club and he just gave you he's just i mean it was like kind of like

00:51:08.620 handfuls in total it was like throughout the night i think she means like two hours just like okay

00:51:17.300 sure what about like a fair amount and pretty quickly well what about uh like maybe a more

00:51:24.280 normal situation ah more normal okay uh i would say um i had a guy who i ended up dating for quite a

00:51:33.880 long time who lives in another country like fly to see me and like take me out over a couple like a

00:51:43.360 week so that was probably a the most like someone's ever spent on me right away including like a flight

00:51:50.420 to see me and stuff like that he flew where he flew oh he flew to see you yeah okay we had met

00:51:57.540 briefly and then he went back to his country and then we talked for like two weeks and then he came

00:52:04.460 back to see me okay what about like i'm thinking more in terms of like they're giving you something

00:52:11.980 i mean when i'm like like a gift like when i first start dating guys like i don't know if they normally

00:52:18.740 just like hand me cash but like taking you to dinner and stuff yeah like maybe i don't know if a guy ever

00:52:25.480 brought you a gift and it doesn't have to necessarily be first date maybe the second date a couple thousand

00:52:30.040 dollars wait what like i would say like something worth like a couple thousand dollars so like just

00:52:37.680 cash no like if you like took me out to like what time period are you talking about what like a month

00:52:44.220 like over a month what time period i mean you said the most amount of money a guy spent on you in a

00:52:52.300 short period of time the renaissance it was a great time period um no like uh within the let's say

00:52:59.920 within the first five dates oh i don't know like a thousand dollars but on what like on dinners and

00:53:08.160 like yeah like yeah okay sure sure dinner can get expensive you know have you ever been flown out by

00:53:14.400 a guy um i have for like work stuff like um no like a guy who's a guy that i'm seeing no like a guy

00:53:23.400 who's romantically interested in you for yeah for example slid into your dms and he's like hey let me fly

00:53:28.520 you to miami or vegas or wherever i have not but i was in a long distance relationship in another

00:53:34.620 country so they did pay for some of my flights back and forth what country was it it was uh england

00:53:40.460 okay all right what uh what about you such a broad question it's a broad question just like how much

00:53:49.160 money has someone spent on me broad in what sense because you're saying how much experiences with men

00:53:53.520 yeah it's just like when you're saying what's the most someone spent on you it's just like a broad

00:53:57.660 question so a guy who's romantically interested in you who within the first five dates i've gotten a

00:54:06.940 cartier bracelet bags cartier bracelet how much how much is that i don't know they're like 5k

00:54:13.380 bags louis baton those are like 2,500 and they're they're giving this to you on the first date second

00:54:19.620 date third date if you remember for those two examples dates what dates they i don't know which

00:54:26.460 day i can't remember it's such a broad question i've lived a lot of lives first time meeting second

00:54:30.700 time meeting third time meeting no does it matter you don't recall well i'm just curious how early on

00:54:35.160 what do you mean why does it matter which day if it was the first second or third well i'm just

00:54:39.440 curious how how early on they are spending like an insane amount of money it's i think also

00:54:46.440 men go into situations with me and gianna they know who we are so they know that they that's what i was

00:54:51.440 gonna say they know who we are and they're willing to pay like weird amounts like i wouldn't yeah for

00:54:57.140 what uh because we're raw rockin' ups and gianna d'or and just men have a weird what do you mean

00:55:03.460 what do you mean no but like are you common sense we well are you saying you guys escort too

00:55:09.360 no we're saying that people men slide into us differently as opposed to because we are corn

00:55:16.260 girls if we were like normal people yeah so they wouldn't be offering this to like a normal girl

00:55:21.100 is that what you're saying correct i don't know other people's experiences but i would imagine they're

00:55:25.580 not offering me offering a cartier bracelet racks to fly to fucking wherever oh have you had that

00:55:31.780 offer yeah and i'm going in like a couple weeks wait okay we'll we'll get into that but okay so a

00:55:36.700 couple a bracelet you got some bags well those are like outside of relationships yeah yeah and then

00:55:43.440 in relationships just like normal amounts of money like that you would oh they'll just give you money

00:55:49.660 no not give me money but i'm saying like a normal relationship yeah you take them on dates you do

00:55:54.380 shit you live together just normal you said you had a five-year relationship so you know how much

00:55:58.800 you spent on your girlfriend right i think i bought her dinner once help them i'm i'm dead serious

00:56:06.240 that's really trying to think yeah maybe a couple times i took her out to dinner maybe five years by

00:56:11.100 the way that's crazy i'm a gentleman okay you didn't live with her either i am a gentleman um was she ugly

00:56:16.480 and fat was no why would no she's actually uh she's actually like that nick's giving yes no she's

00:56:28.180 implying yes no i don't think can i see a picture right i could show you a picture i'm not gonna show

00:56:32.720 you a picture now right now i'm not showing you a picture now you're interrogating us let me interrogate

00:56:36.580 you yeah but i'm not gonna go pull up her fucking instagram right now she's fatty no she was not

00:56:42.900 yeah it's kind of weird it was that's the weird question i'll tell you this i mean she was thinner

00:56:50.480 than you it's just a funny question she was thinner than you are you calling me fat i that's is that

00:56:56.160 what i said saying she's thinner than you was crazy what's that saying that she was thinner than

00:57:01.780 her is crazy she was thinner than her so why was she with you what do you mean why was she with

00:57:07.680 she have low self-esteem why why is that you didn't buy her dinner or anything you didn't live with her

00:57:11.920 for five years is that is that the only thing i was with a man for five years and he didn't want to

00:57:15.640 move in with me and didn't offer to buy me dinner every single time and like take me out and take me

00:57:20.180 on trips why was she with you is that the only value that you see in men no but they can provide for

00:57:26.100 you no was it a very low maintenance relationship yo fdg thank you for the gifted 50 memberships

00:57:33.840 um that was me clearly it was you well i mean i i suppose that's the only value that you see in

00:57:41.600 men i never said that did i say that well it seems you seem a little defensive about it but you seem

00:57:46.920 defensive i'm not defensive at all are you sure i'm not i'm never got her flowers you're getting red

00:57:52.100 no never got her flowers it just seems like a low maintenance relationship yeah you guys were

00:57:57.640 friends you guys i don't know you're there's too much fucking for us to just be friends but

00:58:03.100 but it's like why why is the expectation on men to be just always why are you men are providers

00:58:11.340 and protectors that's the number one thing and what are women uh they cook and clean

00:58:16.600 you don't come on you don't cook and clean i do cook and clean actually for your 10 the 10 men

00:58:23.680 on the roster not for the guys on the roster but if i'm dating someone of course you have 10 men on

00:58:28.580 your roster for funsies yeah because if i'm not dating them they don't get the men the 10 men on

00:58:32.820 your roster they're providing and protecting for you oh no no no they're not that's why they're not

00:58:37.300 my boyfriends that's why no they're not my boyfriends they're on the roster if any of the

00:58:41.480 they got hold on so do you like go out to dinner go out to like events parties clubs bars with any

00:58:46.620 of the men on your roster yeah and if if a guy like made a sly comment to you wouldn't you want

00:58:51.600 your guy to confront no i don't expect that okay would you would you expect them to protect you in

00:58:56.560 some sort of self-defense not unless we're dating or something more than on the roster there's no

00:59:02.640 way there's no way hold on hold on hold on i'm not i'm just having a conversation you're getting heavy

00:59:07.540 right now no we're just having a relax okay mick loves me by the way i don't think he loves you

00:59:12.300 okay you're telling me if you were out with one of your men one of the 10 men on your roster on the

00:59:19.940 roster and they didn't defend you in some sort of situation where you needed physical defense

00:59:26.280 you wouldn't end things with them i wouldn't need he was just like can i say something you

00:59:31.600 wouldn't have we ever been in a situation like that though i've never like been yeah that just

00:59:35.420 wouldn't happen to me but also no i wouldn't expect them unless we're like dating i don't

00:59:39.320 expect them to do anything for me so in some situation i i'm i'm blanking on a hypothetical

00:59:45.120 i could paint here but let's just say there was some situation where you wanted him to defend you

00:59:51.800 but he didn't that just wouldn't happen i wouldn't want them to defend me so if you just walked away

00:59:57.360 hold on if you just walked away you'd be cool with it real situation people get in that i've never

01:00:02.500 been in that you've never been in a situation you never fuck a guy up brian be dead ass what do

01:00:07.280 you mean if a guy came at you right now you think you could fuck him up i think i could take you

01:00:12.540 you think no we're saying if a guy you're being no no no hold on that's what i'm saying yeah yeah

01:00:17.160 hold on you're being fucking goofy right now relax okay no you're being disrespectful you're being

01:00:23.620 very disrespectful you need to check it check yourself oh i'll leave then because i'll i'm just no

01:00:29.160 you're being rude i'm not being rude you literally said oh you think you think if a guy stepped to

01:00:33.080 you you wouldn't be able to take him i mean if it was a serious question yeah but what do you mean

01:00:38.140 it was a serious question you're being it's what you're asking her a little bit how was it similar

01:00:41.820 it wasn't similar no it is it is different it's well we're asking for a different perspective you're

01:00:48.620 asking for her perspective but we're flipping the script and asking for your perspective if a guy

01:00:53.440 went up to your girl that's not that's not an equal perspective well that's the same question

01:00:57.480 you're asking her if her if a guy went up to her and disrespected her would she expect her

01:01:02.300 roster to defend her she doesn't expect that they don't have that emotional connection so it's it's a

01:01:08.540 no the two scenarios you're describing are totally different okay if you want that to be that's your

01:01:13.940 opinion for sure no we'll respect it the the reverse would be if like um there's not even a mirror image

01:01:21.680 reverse yeah i don't think there is like a the reverse would be a girl me expecting my girlfriend

01:01:30.180 to physically defend me if a girl was fucking with me in some way but like that's not really

01:01:37.300 yeah but we're asking would you defend your girl if she was not your girl defend you you defend your

01:01:41.600 woman i feel like if a man came at you in most relationships even friend relationships like

01:01:48.100 uh it's normal to have someone's back like if someone was messing with my friend who was like

01:01:53.880 a girlfriend or just even someone i knew a family member like i think i feel like it's just natural

01:01:59.100 if you know someone to stick up to them for to some extent

01:02:02.720 my man needs to be able to fight because i'm gonna fight and then we both got to fight if i'm

01:02:10.560 fighting and you're standing there you're gone but back to like i wouldn't expect a guy on the

01:02:15.480 roster to do that just because like we're friends and like whatever like i don't really have

01:02:19.560 expectations for them i don't really like need them to do anything for me but if i'm dating someone

01:02:24.280 then i would see where like if someone was fucking with me i would expect them to say something or do

01:02:28.580 something okay so that is one component of the conversation we're having we're talking about

01:02:32.940 protecting and providing so you don't expect the any of the 10 men on your roster to protect you

01:02:38.200 however do you expect them to provide for you no when i say protectors and providers i mean if i'm in a

01:02:44.080 marriage or if i'm in like a serious relationship then they should be protectors and providers so

01:02:47.920 then on like a first date you split the bill yeah really i would yeah i would pay the entire bill

01:02:53.280 too do you though i have many times so you okay of the men on your roster you have absolutely no

01:02:59.200 expectation that they pay for dates or anything not really but we don't really go on dates it's more

01:03:04.360 of like hang out and fuck yeah okay that's what a roster is like they're not like we're not like

01:03:09.140 dating in any sort of way we don't even go on dates okay we hang out or like maybe we'll go to

01:03:14.280 a party or something so it's like if i'm not like cooking and cleaning for them basically then i don't

01:03:20.340 expect them to be providers protectors i think it's like if i'm not giving you anything you shouldn't

01:03:26.640 give me anything sounds fair yeah i'm just equal okay so i'm trying to recall how we arrived at that

01:03:33.720 conversation i think you asked me spending money yeah yeah you're like how much money in a certain

01:03:39.680 amount of time how much money we received in a small amount of time i was like what a guy's like

01:03:44.260 within five dates or whatnot go ahead um my six-year relationship was a drug dealer so i can't even

01:03:52.300 count the amount of money that he spent um jewelry bags i would go in the drawer and just steal money

01:03:56.880 every day um a lot he would buy my family stuff he was great guy um you know until he went off to

01:04:03.460 deep end but yeah i can't put like a certain amount in but he spent a lot of money every day

01:04:08.860 early on i feel the men that i've been with don't spend that much money on me i feel like i'm

01:04:16.160 more the one to spend on them yeah um i've probably gone on dinner like dinner dates that's about it but

01:04:23.120 i've spent more money on my men than they've ever spent on me okay yeah i agree i haven't really

01:04:30.080 had like a boyfriend really spend like a lot on me just mainly gifts on anniversaries and stuff

01:04:35.780 yeah i could i could say the same

01:04:38.720 all right let's see here we have hold on i'm gonna check if we have any chats here

01:04:46.500 oh we're good on that all right so okay um have any of you ever had a sugar daddy

01:04:55.320 let's start with you i have not but i would like one she's taking applications dm's open

01:05:06.840 me yeah no never had a sugar daddy no

01:05:13.460 okay what about you i had a few like when i was in college before i was like making money

01:05:21.240 i'm like they were chill i haven't really had one since then

01:05:23.940 no

01:05:26.800 i had one for like one day and then i felt bad so i was just like no i'm sorry no

01:05:34.080 how much money did he give you like literally like a hundred bucks i was like i felt so bad

01:05:39.560 i just felt bad so i sent it back and i was like i'm sorry i was like i'm sorry i can't do this

01:05:47.560 oh yes how much uh how much do you spend on you uh 1500 okay what and what like was it in-person

01:05:59.260 dates that you had with him no no dates he would just like send you money no no no nothing like

01:06:04.640 that you just hit me up if you don't wanted to hook up i mean hook up oh okay you were just that

01:06:09.540 that you were hooking up with him okay yeah what about you i've had a sugar friend because i didn't

01:06:14.320 have to like do anything he lived in texas so he would just virtually send me money

01:06:18.380 a splendid daddy yes he has a splendid daddy yeah i have not

01:06:25.320 did you say you had one long time ago in long time ago okay um and what kind of arrangement was

01:06:34.420 it like would you guys meet up hook up he'd pay you money or yeah it was almost like hooking

01:06:40.960 basically but i didn't know at the time escorting basically but i did see them multiple times so like

01:06:47.540 it was an ongoing thing but yeah like we would just meet up they would pay me a little bit and

01:06:52.980 then fuck and like maybe we would hang out a little bit and then that was it but it was like ongoing

01:06:58.920 arrangements so it wasn't like a one-time hooking that's why i don't think it was hooking maybe it

01:07:04.940 is but maybe it is allegedly and you said you had one right i did not say but i said i mean i

01:07:14.700 wouldn't mind having one you don't get offers though um i kind of i just feel like it's like

01:07:22.300 a lot of work and i don't know if i'm prepared to give out the amount of sugar that i think

01:07:27.640 they might expect yeah true and it's a lot of work yeah okay and like um like physically and

01:07:36.240 emotionally you know i just don't feel like i have the capacity for that but if a man just wanted

01:07:43.300 to send me a bunch of money to like have me text him a couple times a week i would absolutely accept

01:07:49.620 that there are people like that i think that's just only kind of like mine yeah right only fans

01:07:54.740 right which is i already do that

01:07:57.720 all right we have uh let me see here one sec guys can i ask you something yeah um if a lady wanted to

01:08:07.240 like send you money for you to like talk to her would you accept it how would you feel about having

01:08:12.960 a sugar mama situation um depends how much money like what she just wants to fucking talk i'd

01:08:20.720 doesn't seem like a bad deal does it i'm pretty busy so i don't know if i'd have to be a decent

01:08:26.320 amount of money from it for it to be worth it for me you know what you're doing i i guess but i feel

01:08:32.480 like most there's definitely certainly there's more sugar daddies than there are sugar mamas like

01:08:38.860 i feel most women don't really move that way most women don't want to spend money in that way yeah

01:08:44.040 yeah i feel like it's probably something you'd have to seek out if you're looking for a sugar there are

01:08:49.440 there's there definitely are sugar mamas out there but it's gotta be i don't know what the ratio must

01:08:55.400 be but it's for sure dwarfed by the insane amount of and well insane it's insanely more amount of

01:09:03.560 sugar daddies that there are so let's see question for the panel so hold on i lost it so have you ever

01:09:15.160 made a guy wait for sex who you saw long-term potential in while you had a fuck buddy or friends

01:09:22.900 with benefits or casual um not while i've had someone else no so there's never like i've definitely

01:09:33.380 like took time before having sex with someone that i'm talking to but not while i'm seeing someone else

01:09:42.020 so not while i have a friends with benefits or anything like that here's here's the scenario right

01:09:49.460 so let's say you have a friends with benefits you don't really see like a long-term thing but

01:09:54.020 you're continuing to hook up with your friends with benefits fuck buddy whatever all the while since

01:09:59.060 there you don't really see long-term potential with this person you are out there dating and you are

01:10:04.740 dating a guy and maybe you like him but you're making him wait for sex all the while you're hooking

01:10:10.900 up with something with your fuck buddy or friends with benefits the answer to that is no

01:10:17.780 nothing no that's a little bit okay i used to like wait to have sex with guys to try and like

01:10:26.020 have some sort of preservation that i probably like shouldn't be because like i thought it somehow

01:10:31.300 like affected my value so i'd like want to wait to sleep with them but i that was when i was younger

01:10:39.380 and i wouldn't say move like that anymore can you repeat the question i didn't get it it was like

01:10:44.900 a two-parter okay you have a fuck buddy that you're sleeping with

01:10:51.940 and then you're also dating have you ever been sleeping with somebody and then been dating somebody

01:10:59.540 but you're making that person wait for sex no okay

01:11:06.500 so like first night the guy i dated for six years we fucked on the first night okay

01:11:12.020 what about you yeah i typically never you don't wait for sex just because i think it's like an

01:11:17.220 important thing where it's like if you suck at sex great i just wasted however many dates i'm like

01:11:22.580 i'm not going to see you again yeah i feel the same way i'm like we're all grown you know you don't

01:11:27.380 have to wait i mean if you want to that's totally fine but i feel like you need to know what you're

01:11:31.220 dealing with because if you wait and you can't put it down exactly yeah you gotta go exactly

01:11:37.460 so first first night uh it doesn't it depends it's just if it feels right but i don't like i said i

01:11:42.660 think we're all grown here so first night i don't think that's a big deal if you really feel like you

01:11:45.940 want to do it yeah but so the the question is though like have you ever made a guy wait

01:11:51.780 while you were hooking up with another guy no okay what about you no nothing okay no that's a very

01:11:58.660 like yeah yeah i guess it happens people do that i guess this can't really like a very written out

01:12:05.460 question like who asked that yeah i guess i've always just stated um one person but um yeah i agree

01:12:11.940 with you you're grown like if you're seriously interested in someone you don't need to make them wait for

01:12:15.780 sex like yeah it just doesn't make sense yeah you you should you should know right away if that's

01:12:21.300 someone you want to pursue or if they're they're keeping you in the hookup only right then that's

01:12:27.300 your choice if you want to hook up with them and caitlin before the show you provided some uh pre-show

01:12:31.540 notes to us and you so you said your current relationship uh your boyfriend is 37 so he's what 14 years

01:12:39.460 you're senior correct okay and uh we were kind of talking a little bit about age gap relationships

01:12:46.420 but since your boyfriend he's 37 you're 23 um what does everybody here think about age gap relationships

01:12:54.500 cool with it not maybe an issue with it if it's too much of a gap what do you guys think so

01:12:59.860 why don't we we'll come back we'll leave you to the end and we'll start with you

01:13:02.580 um i think once like people mature to a certain age um an age gap becomes less important so if you're

01:13:14.180 27 and you're dating someone 37 just for example um there's not as much room for like taking advantage

01:13:22.820 of someone who's like vulnerable and might not have as much life experience as if someone's like 17 and 37.

01:13:30.900 so i think past a certain age it becomes less less relevant but obviously if it's someone who's

01:13:37.060 still a child and they're they haven't developed properly then it there's it can be inappropriate

01:13:43.620 because it's an unfair power like dynamic yeah the age of consent is yeah and of course like there's

01:13:51.060 laws and stuff like that which should people should take seriously as long as you're over 18 i don't

01:13:59.540 think it matters yeah i don't really see an issue unless you're a minor and you're dating older

01:14:07.860 yeah i feel the same way honestly i yeah as long as it's not weird as long it's not weird but also

01:14:14.500 like if you're dating to actually settle down with the guy make sure you're in the right maturity level

01:14:19.940 as him in the same headspace as him but i'm not opposed to that um i'm more of like i feel like

01:14:27.220 it's like life stages at that point like i feel like if people are over 25 it's like they're in a

01:14:32.900 different life stage but people under 25 that's still college it's still like all that like young

01:14:37.780 stuff so i just feel like different life stages calls for different situations and different interests

01:14:42.660 and whatnot so i just feel like it's it's kind of important to notice that oh i'm in college i just

01:14:48.180 graduated high school and you've been in college about to graduate college so you're moving on to

01:14:52.340 a different stage of your life i'm just entering this one so i just think it's important to acknowledge

01:14:57.140 the different stages of everyone's life um yeah so my parents have a oh wait did we did you get to

01:15:05.220 get to um i would say it doesn't matter as long as you're not a minor either because that's really

01:15:10.900 gross my ex cheated on me with a minor so i agree that it's gross she was a high schooler by the way

01:15:17.060 i know we've had a lot of talk about okay yeah girls yeah in the world that is yes absolutely a

01:15:24.340 problem not even um debatable but um yeah i have great parents they're 10 years apart um yeah i wouldn't

01:15:30.740 say that my man and i have a lot in common but like we have similar interests but like that's the

01:15:36.020 whole point is that um he's gonna hang out with his boys like that's who he has a lot in common

01:15:42.340 they don't offer him the same thing that i do so um yeah how did you all meet like a dating app or

01:15:49.300 um i would credit instagram because we have mutual followers um close friends so i would have no idea who

01:15:57.780 he was if i didn't uh get a follow from him and see his instagram okay we have a chat here from doc

01:16:03.380 vanablis rara so your totally normal household let you date a 21 year old when you were 16 do you

01:16:08.100 really expect us to believe that was a normal situation enabling statutory grape is still illegal

01:16:13.300 you owe yourself intellectual honesty do you have a response to doc vanablis he was a really good

01:16:20.020 guy he took really good care of me i don't think it was creepy at all um i graduated high school

01:16:26.020 at 17 i moved out at 17 what's one year difference if i'm gonna be honest okay we have bender the

01:16:32.900 offender ladies whose needs and wants should be prioritized first when in a relationship

01:16:38.340 the man's or the women women's women's well if the man is broke then i think equal i don't think that

01:16:46.100 anyone should be prioritized um i think if you want to have a healthy relationship it's give and take

01:16:54.180 both people should be sacrificing equally um i don't know my grandma told me you always have to

01:17:04.980 date a man that loves you a little more than you love him that's the only way that it works out and

01:17:08.420 i truly believe that i feel like only a man would ask that question it's i i think it has to be the

01:17:15.060 reverse i think it has to be the reverse for you no in general i think the girl has to like the

01:17:21.540 guy more that never works out for them but you're not in charge of everybody it doesn't really work

01:17:26.340 out that way that's how they cheat disagree they get so comfortable in the relationship it becomes

01:17:31.700 boring stagnant they i would say oh go ahead live um i would agree just both of them i'd agree both

01:17:45.780 but in reality it's the woman's like that's the only way it's really gonna the woman's what needs

01:17:52.500 wants and needs wants and needs should be prioritized i'm not saying it should be prioritized i'm just

01:17:57.460 saying like generally in relationships that women have more wants and needs exactly they have more wants

01:18:04.020 and needs so it's only going to be successful if you please them so it's ladies whose needs and wants

01:18:09.620 should be prioritized first when in a relationship the man's or the women's i'm gonna go ahead and say

01:18:17.780 the man's just because i guess my life is fairly easy i guess i'm very well taken care of um i'm not

01:18:24.980 talking like financially like i get a lot of money like i work um i go to school but um yeah he's working

01:18:31.860 a lot of hours every single day um and i kind of just go to school and bartend on the weekends have

01:18:37.620 my money i live rent-free at home so i guess it's my job to like really with your parents yeah yeah i

01:18:43.380 do live at home um so i guess it's my job to like make him happy because i'm not really stressed out

01:18:49.860 i don't have anything to worry about okay your job wait but how his needs should be met like you don't

01:18:56.180 you don't live with your boyfriend no okay okay okay got it got it what what what you guys

01:19:02.980 talking about here nothing go ahead nothing i don't know there's been a little whispering

01:19:08.980 back and forth between you two can i say something or am i gonna yell that i feel like when you're

01:19:14.100 having a debate with someone i've been on a lot of podcasts in my life even debates with friends you

01:19:18.740 start making jokes you start fucking with the other person and you took it and then you came at me

01:19:25.300 so crazy that it like ruins the dynamic of like having like a funny you guys speak into the mic

01:19:31.940 they can hear me by the way i've seen a bunch of your podcasts on my for you page when people are

01:19:35.060 far away you can hear it okay that's just we're just go ahead i know okay so what i'm just saying

01:19:40.500 when you're like going back and forth and like debating you're like fucking with one another you're

01:19:43.780 like saying your shit back and forth and then you take it one way and then you like make it all

01:19:48.020 serious it just like kills the vibe of like everyone having like a fun good time and like joking

01:19:53.140 around making debates when you like spin it in like a way you like spun it to make it like weird

01:19:58.100 and it wasn't weird it was like when you i've been on so many podcasts even just debates with friends

01:20:03.380 and then you start taking it personally that's when it's just i just gave an example of podcasts and

01:20:08.340 then i also gave the example of friends and then you start taking it personally and then make it weird

01:20:12.660 and all serious it was like nothing serious like why did you make it into something where you had to

01:20:16.500 like kill the vibe like it was like having kill the vibe okay you did and it was fun and we were

01:20:20.500 joking around and i was just like it's not fun anymore it was fun going into it are you gonna let

01:20:25.460 me respond okay so this is precisely what zero accountability looks like first off we don't have

01:20:31.940 the level of rapport for the jokes that you made to be appropriate in my view perhaps you have a

01:20:39.780 different sense of what you can say to somebody that you've never met before and you don't know

01:20:44.820 the two things you said were i was talking about the relationship with my ex-girlfriend and you know

01:20:52.020 i was kind of i revealed a couple details we hadn't lived together i you know i wasn't like

01:20:58.660 bought her dinner once or twice a couple times and and you said oh she must be ugly i said she must be

01:21:05.860 fat was she oh well that's kind of okay so i don't i don't see can i say something no hold on

01:21:11.780 so you're that's kind of a semantic thing there you essentially said she must be ugly i said was

01:21:20.500 she ugly that you was she fat you said i said fatty was she a fatty okay and i stand by that

01:21:26.740 that's kind of rude it was a joke by the way let's all was it what was the joke if you're a dating girl

01:21:32.660 for five years and you only buy her dinner twice in five years wouldn't she i mean wouldn't the funny

01:21:38.100 joke be that she's actually thin because she's emaciated because i'm not buying her food i think

01:21:42.580 that's funny also that that could be another joke there you have it i like that joke yeah

01:21:46.820 in any case i don't see how it to me it seems a little vulgar to to call oh your ex must be ugly

01:21:54.340 and fat i'm a very where's the joke but explain the the joke to me i just explained it it was funny

01:22:00.980 like good fellas here okay you think i'm funny or what the fuck okay okay look um and then the

01:22:08.660 other thing you said was we were talking about a scenario with her where if there's some disrespect

01:22:14.980 or something you wouldn't expect your guy to protect you in some sort of scenario and then you're like

01:22:19.700 no i what i started off with was i've never been in a situation like that have you you said no everyone

01:22:25.780 else here said no and i was like when is this even like a real situation that we get put in and then i

01:22:30.100 said none have you been in a situation like that what do you mean what did i stutter what do you

01:22:36.980 mean what did like did you guys like what she's saying is have you ever been in a situation where

01:22:41.620 someone's stuttering none of you have been witness to a violent situation i have i have but i've never

01:22:47.620 been in a situation like that with my partner also can i speak now is it related to yes no it's not

01:22:56.100 yeah um well you said you guys don't have the rapport for her to be saying those things to you

01:23:01.060 but just from my perspective you were like being accusatory and making presumptions about them as

01:23:07.460 well give me an example you were saying you probably don't cook and clean huh real and when i said i don't

01:23:15.380 have a sugar daddy you looked at me like come on you don't so from my perspective and i would actually be

01:23:22.740 curious to hear what everyone else thinks it seems like this the same thing it's actually it's kind

01:23:28.820 of not i feel like the first with the mental jokes was a little bit i mean i don't i don't know if

01:23:34.340 there's a real conversation happening there but it's also another thing if you're being like rude and

01:23:38.260 interruptive and my contract i'll i'm not saying what go ahead were you saying it's rude when people

01:23:47.700 interrupt yeah are you talking to him are you talking to us because i i'm talking to basically

01:23:55.140 okay perfect so we're okay i mean i was just told i wasn't allowed to speak as well so it's because

01:24:02.020 they were having a conversation though are we now having you did ask so it was a yes or no question and

01:24:07.700 then he let you talk after okay well my bad then okay so are we good what do you mean

01:24:20.420 i don't know you're the one who do we have a rapport look can we just in my view in my view you

01:24:29.620 were being rude and i told you to stop and i i respect that and i apologize if you think i was rude

01:24:35.940 it's not that i think you were rude you were rude that's your opinion it's not an opinion that's

01:24:41.700 an opinion was the cooking i think i think if i think if you were real hot take i think questioning

01:24:49.460 whether she doesn't she doesn't cook or clean for her roster of 10 men and that's what your

01:24:55.380 accountability looks like your girl it's just like it's it's all opinions let's all be chill let's

01:25:00.420 all have nice debates without getting but what is what okay so let's we can go into the whole like

01:25:05.300 oh brian i and then you said i could probably take you brian because it's a joke get the joke

01:25:09.700 get the bit but what what are you what are what's the underlying communication that you're trying to

01:25:14.660 say there what are you trying to say when you're implying that we can't cook and clean you don't

01:25:18.820 know us it's all jokes we're all just making jokes here for content let's all move on let's like make

01:25:23.780 our content and have a good time and without getting so serious and there's but okay there's obviously

01:25:28.340 scales can you stop interrupting there's obviously scales to it right so me questioning whether she

01:25:33.780 cooks or cleans for her roster of 10 men is a little different than you ad hominem attacking my

01:25:40.180 ex-girlfriend for uh calling i didn't attack her i attacked you by you not buying you bought her two

01:25:46.980 dinners in five years no no no no i'm not we're not talking about that we're talking about you saying

01:25:52.020 that she must be ugly she must be a fatty roll the clip back i never said must i said was it doesn't

01:25:57.700 matter that that's you you're shifting the goalposts here did you did you say ugly and fatty that's

01:26:04.100 the set forget the i did and i stand by that don't you think that's rude to say about somebody i think

01:26:11.620 it's a funny joke and you said the thing about her being would you say that to someone's face

01:26:16.660 what do you mean would you say it to a girl's face i'm saying that to your face was your girlfriend

01:26:20.740 an ugly or a fatty why you only bought her two meals in five years what i don't i don't see the

01:26:25.540 connection between the the frequency with which i buy a woman meals and her physical attractiveness

01:26:31.380 and her one thing about me i make a lot of jokes so why am i here if i can't crack my jokes it's

01:26:37.940 because i'll leave like it's just like i'm trying to have a good time and you're making it so serious

01:26:42.420 i like to crack jokes i want to make jokes it was a joke it wasn't meant to be that serious what's but

01:26:47.300 okay i'm not going to explain why it was a joke to me it's a joke but you can't just defend

01:26:52.100 sayings hold on yo yo i don't even care enough can you stop interrupting can you stop interrupting

01:26:57.540 you've you've asked to have a conversation about it i know but you keep dragging on can

01:27:01.860 you stop but stop interrupting you keep dragging on the same question i'm not dragging on the same

01:27:06.260 question it was a joke to me i'm asking you to stop interrupting okay allow me to finish my point

01:27:11.700 i let you speak let me finish my point and then you can come in okay so i failed to see how just

01:27:18.340 attacking someone i failed to see the joke okay how many times did i say i would like to open it

01:27:25.060 up to the table to me it's an opinion that's my opinion okay but here's the thing here's the thing

01:27:32.900 i'll get to you in a sec i'll get to you in a sec here's the thing i want to talk over it i said

01:27:37.940 it's a joke to me that's my opinion we all have opinions here it's america i'm allowed to make an

01:27:42.500 opinion and make a joke sure thanks sure can we move on no i'm gonna let me you can't just

01:27:49.620 initiate an argument and then just be like okay now we're moving on yeah it's my show i'll finish

01:27:55.780 my point and then we can move on but you're being really rude now i'm not being rude yes you're you're

01:28:03.460 trying to dictate the flow of the show on my show we're gonna continue talking about it i'm gonna make

01:28:08.100 my point and then i will take the flow yo you need to stop fucking interrupting why do you keep

01:28:13.540 interrupting chill out okay jesus christ look i don't like this whole thing of like people saying

01:28:21.140 really mean things about other people and just being like oh it's a joke if that's mean to you

01:28:26.100 then you got to get tougher skin because i we're on the internet we we get ripped apart to shreds you

01:28:31.860 gotta have let me ask the girls here at the table if someone to your face i said it about your

01:28:35.700 girlfriend stop interrupting don't yell at me you keep interrupting it's very rude you think it's

01:28:41.140 rude that i'm yelling you keep interrupting stop oh my god you've just you you do not have the social

01:28:46.580 grace to just stop interrupting what a crazy assumption are you not interrupting me i i'd like

01:28:53.220 to ask the girls here at the table if someone to your face called you ugly is that a joke i would

01:28:59.540 probably just laugh because i know i'm not but is it a joke yeah i'm not going to take anyone's

01:29:06.260 opinion seriously i mean why would i take anyone's opinions of my appearance seriously like why would

01:29:14.580 i and i think that if you do take it if you do it look for to me it sounds like that you're expecting

01:29:20.500 us to get hurt over people's opinions of us and that's just not us if someone's calling us ugly

01:29:26.180 i guess we're ugly to them that's their opinion it's valid example of why women get treated like

01:29:31.380 children i don't think women get treated like children if someone called you ugly

01:29:38.820 would you would you view it as a joke i get told that every day yeah on the internet

01:29:44.340 it doesn't mean that roll back the chat roll back the chat

01:29:48.820 either way it's offensive especially when you're talking about someone that you don't even know

01:29:56.180 i don't know i don't really see it's offensive martin donated 100 like street blonde you are

01:30:03.300 curt confrontational and you carry your life trauma heavier than your makeup you're unattractive inside

01:30:10.100 and out brian has a podcast to run you don't recognize masculinity because your father is weak

01:30:16.660 and a failure is that just a joke that's kind of a joke because her dad is a very nice man and not

01:30:22.500 weak or a failure i think that's a joke but would it would it perhaps be appropriate for someone to

01:30:28.420 be upset at what he said about your father can i be honest that went in one ear out the other i'm

01:30:34.580 gonna sleep great at night so that shit like that one really bother me that doesn't bother me because

01:30:39.940 i know who i am i know who my dad is that shit doesn't bother me i'm a very secure person thank you

01:30:45.140 and i like wearing makeup so i feel like since we're all subjecting ourselves to this and criticism

01:30:53.380 we should have like the wherewithal to not like take it offensively or to heart and also a question

01:31:03.140 you're getting really defensive over this so was she ugly or a fatty because was that just wondering i

01:31:09.860 think you already specified no i've i've repeated i've repeatedly said she wasn't go ahead i tried

01:31:17.220 to move on from this let's get a picture five minutes ago can we get a picture i tried to move

01:31:22.260 on from this topic i said let this topic go five minutes it's not your podcast but i i'm talking

01:31:30.980 there's no point in being mad about it no i said meta we've already discussed it i there's you think

01:31:37.700 it's a joke i don't end of that's the end of story agree to disagree so we can move on

01:31:47.300 that's what i think is best in any case though i fail to see how it's a joke and i'll leave it at

01:31:52.420 that you think it's perfectly within the normal social graces to just call people fat and ugly if

01:32:01.140 that's your standard of conduct then i suppose that's your standard of conduct but it's not mine

01:32:07.140 and perhaps it seems like the other girls at the table here who want to defend her also think it's

01:32:12.980 a normal standard of conduct to just call people who you don't know ugly and fatties i i think you're

01:32:19.140 really just desiring to defend her because she's on your team i actually don't think that that's your

01:32:24.100 standard i think that's bullshit anyways we're gonna move on that's what zero accountability looks

01:32:28.740 like what do you mean zero accountability like you can't see in any type of way like even a sliver

01:32:36.260 of her perspective what do you mean i'm sorry like you are choosing to think that she's just doing that

01:32:47.460 and saying that because it fits your narrative instead of actually listening to her and taking

01:32:52.180 what she says as what she says because she's not agreeing with i find it incredibly difficult to

01:32:59.540 believe that you or most women would think that it's just a joke to call a woman ugly or a fatty i'm

01:33:10.500 sorry if i'm a bit uh skeptical of the assertion that that's just like within the the normal social

01:33:17.780 well do you think we're operating right now in a normal social like way this isn't i think it's

01:33:23.780 we're not all at a bar where we are called ugly and fat on the internet every single day so you

01:33:28.580 kind of just have to get over it if you really took that as being dead serious then i'm gonna

01:33:32.260 leave if you don't understand that that was a fucking joke if we can play the clip back that

01:33:35.620 that was a joke i said that was one of the things so i'm saying it's like if you literally and you

01:33:40.980 don't understand that when i said that it was a fucking joke and if you don't get that then i'm out like

01:33:46.180 if you like this is like i can't have this conversation anymore it's so fucking stupid

01:33:50.740 i think we're just like a little desensitized because it's like people call some crazy

01:33:55.780 shit on the internet like every single day like people have said some really mean things and like

01:33:59.700 at first yes it bothers you yes the internet is toxic we're right now though we're face to face

01:34:04.500 shit that people will say anonymously on the internet would never fucking fly in person and you know

01:34:10.420 that i mean if we were like in a full-on argument and like you called me ugly or fat yeah but if you just

01:34:15.460 like joking we're like yeah you're ugly and fat i wouldn't even like think twice about it just

01:34:19.780 because it's like i don't know i don't really i fail to see what the joke is though that's that's

01:34:24.260 where i'm still stuck i fail to see like usually there's in a joke there's a punch line there's

01:34:28.900 some like i'm failing to see the joke like there's different perspectives of like like i can't for

01:34:34.740 example if i just walked up to a random if i walked up to a random woman in the street and i just said

01:34:39.780 you're ugly and a fatty just joking just joking can i explain your joke because i think i understand

01:34:48.020 it and that's your problem you no one's explaining this joke to you in the way you can't clarify it

01:34:53.140 different people have different senses of humor but that's not my sense of humor what i made that's

01:34:57.140 i wouldn't go up to a random woman and call her ugly or fat that's not funny to me that wasn't a

01:35:01.140 joke that wasn't the bit so calling a woman who you don't know i never said that in my opinion i never

01:35:06.900 said that never said someone came up to me and said you're fat and ugly and said i was just joking

01:35:11.060 i would think that was funny just because like what are you talking about even if they weren't

01:35:15.220 joking i would think that was kind of funny but most people wouldn't but most people wouldn't most

01:35:20.260 people wouldn't okay did you want to explain yeah i'll explain it to you so your guys's whole

01:35:25.220 conversation literally was like how you took her out to eat like twice or whatever like whatever and

01:35:30.260 then she said that that was the joke so when you connect it and you want to go deeper into it

01:35:34.740 you're placing like typically in our society men who are proud like men who have women they're going

01:35:40.180 out spending lunch like going out to dinner all the time so if you're only going like like once or

01:35:45.220 twice not a lot then of course it's going to be like so why isn't whoa you're interrupting intentionally

01:35:52.020 or not a healthy mature person would have apologized joke or not

01:35:56.820 i apologize that you thought i was being rude so did i not yeah but when you say that you're

01:36:05.860 apologizing for his actions not your own what i'm sorry it's like i'm sorry that you feel that way

01:36:13.860 it's not really an apology i don't look i don't need an apology but the the subsequent comment was

01:36:18.900 like oh brian i'd you you think you'd be able to take a guard i'd probably you up it's just like okay

01:36:24.500 bro it's again i don't think we have that level of rapport okay that's it anyways the tts interrupted

01:36:32.740 you no i'm all good i'm all good she was saying if you have only taken the woman out like two times

01:36:38.740 and you don't want to show her off she was asking like maybe is she ugly or fat like to you like maybe

01:36:43.460 she wasn't maybe you she was asking like she is she ugly or fat because you haven't taken her out i

01:36:48.420 guess because i think that's what you were i've had this conversation with multiple men before and they go

01:36:52.260 up to the other guys and they're like well have you taken her out to dinner like oh once or twice

01:36:55.940 and they're like well is she ugly like why aren't you taking her out more like this is a normal

01:37:00.500 conversation that men have like and that i've been a part of yeah so like it's like a common stereotype

01:37:05.780 yeah exactly like i think that's where you get to the joke yeah that's where you get to the joke

01:37:10.580 so if you're not understanding that part then of course you're you're gonna get offended you know so

01:37:14.180 so the joke is that because she she could be unattractive that i don't want to be seen in

01:37:22.340 public with her is that i think so the joke is that like bingo kind of men say that and like

01:37:27.460 men have that kind of yeah i've heard men talking about it too i know what you're saying i've been

01:37:32.180 in those conversations where men it's like oh she must be fat or ugly and i've been in like position of

01:37:36.180 like what why what that doesn't make sense to me and they're like well we like to like show off our

01:37:40.900 girls whatever yeah like the more if they're pretty or whatever they'll spend more money on

01:37:44.740 them they'll take them out more they want to show them off they want to make sure all the other men

01:37:47.700 know who they're tapping and all that stuff so if you're like not going out in public you're not

01:37:51.860 showering with her all this stuff there's gonna be a little like so what's going on like is he not

01:37:57.060 like you know is she not that attracted is he not that attracted like it's gonna be something

01:38:02.180 there's gonna be a little thing to think about okay so that's one component of it truthfully

01:38:06.980 though the big blow up that occurred happened after the comment about the fighting yeah i think

01:38:13.780 that was just so i mean honestly i kind of glanced to some degree over the ugly and fatty comment

01:38:23.700 all right we have some chats here we have uh let's see i'm a 49

01:38:29.540 puffy vegas i'm a 49 and i'm gonna tell you women in their 20s don't care about age p.s i never bought a

01:38:35.700 woman anything okay there you have it uh see see this is what this guy knows what he's doing he's

01:38:41.860 he's 49 never bought a woman anything he knows married or in a relationship he's on a chat he's

01:38:49.380 49 and he's watching a live do you want a cookie what's up if you know who puffy vegas was he is

01:38:58.020 one of the preeminent giga chads in las vegas okay we have hard body first two chicks aren't adding

01:39:05.780 anything of value and dumb as fuck kick them them too whole chat wants at least blonde gone personal

01:39:12.580 for the first chick uh and we'll try to move on we'll see okay puffy vegas i'm 100 on brian's side

01:39:18.500 blondie was mean and you're protecting her and are all my protect you are protecting her

01:39:24.820 are all are full of bs because if you saw a hot guy and he called you ugly all of you would cry

01:39:30.580 p.s blondie's mid okay we have sloan fidelli have a roster of super hot young women in but he just

01:39:37.780 called you but he just called her mid okay isn't that like it's just a joke though right right i'm

01:39:43.940 just saying exactly that's what i'm saying like you didn't you didn't you didn't bat a eyelash at that

01:39:51.780 you didn't you didn't even bat an eyelash at that she can defend herself if if you want to say

01:39:57.700 it's a joke i just feel like this was a perfect opportunity and an example of exactly what you

01:40:03.140 were talking about if you want to say something to puffy vegas if you want to uh puffy vegas we don't

01:40:08.660 care okay that's fine it just doesn't people have different standards but is doing the same thing

01:40:14.260 it's kind of like i'm not i'm not co-signing on his statement no i'm i'm not saying that you are i'm

01:40:19.860 just saying he is agreeing with you that it that he thinks it's rude and inappropriate for her to

01:40:25.940 say she's found ugly and then called her mid so isn't that and then called her mid so he's doing

01:40:32.100 the same thing that he agreed with you that he doesn't think is appropriate so it's just kind of

01:40:36.580 hypocritical okay so would you not agree would you not agree is it could it be hypocritical it's a bit

01:40:43.140 too coco to quote what's that i feel like it's pretty cut and dry uh fallacy okay in any case

01:40:50.980 so you wouldn't you wouldn't agree or you would agree mid is not nearly as insulting as ugly and

01:40:56.660 fatty that's your opinion though to you what it's different what mid means you're like a five

01:41:03.860 a five or a six it's still like it's still something that could be this girl this girl

01:41:08.180 argues to argue that's what we're saying this girl argues you can find things as an intense insult

01:41:12.660 so just don't say them okay yeah but literally mid hold on hold on you think mid is worse than

01:41:19.220 ugly i don't know i'm not i'm really so you're putting words into my mouth is what's happening i'm

01:41:24.420 literally saying that some people like other people not me could find mid to be insulting

01:41:28.580 of course i don't know what you're of course it's like someone it's like comparing ugly and

01:41:35.220 hideous you know like both are a derogatory comment on someone being less attractive off the rails

01:41:41.220 today okay so i just don't think i don't think mid is as i'm not saying it's a nice thing to say to

01:41:46.580 somebody but it's not as bad as ugly it's a derogatory comment on someone's appearance it could

01:41:54.180 be a little insulting yeah right it could be a little insulting but if they're actually mid hey

01:41:58.260 fuck it man it's cool when you do it it's a problem when i do it it's okay i've whatever

01:42:04.660 okay sloan i have a roster of super hot young women in i assume the dominican republic for 20 years

01:42:10.820 they are mature i'm 61 i don't know your thumbnail doesn't you know okay whatever uh fit and wealthy

01:42:19.300 i would never deal with usa 25 year olds uh they can't even make my morning coffee without drama

01:42:24.660 never get married based never get married gentlemen never get married take it from her father with

01:42:31.220 the five well he likes my father was that like in support of my father in support okay in support i

01:42:39.860 mean you even said marriage is a no it's cool yeah well you didn't literally say yeah i don't think

01:42:45.300 that i just in my opinion i wouldn't probably get married we have puffy vegas i grew up with nothing

01:42:50.180 but chads and tyron why is puffy everywhere because he's tipping to talk we have never had

01:42:57.380 a conversation like that is insane men don't talk like that we talked about did you hit it or not

01:43:02.260 i've been dating since i was 12 you have no idea what you're talking about damn he's 12 and dating

01:43:07.380 people i think you know he's not i think he has the trauma i think you're at the issue you're the

01:43:12.900 problem i think you're the problem you're speaking through trauma puffy puffy vegas is one of the biggest

01:43:17.540 giga chads in las vegas so i mean what does that mean good for him i don't really care he is a

01:43:23.540 fucking giga chad okay let's see we're all caught up on the chats here i don't know where we left off

01:43:28.020 in the conversation we'll move on um total derailment but uh okay we have caitlin here uh

01:43:36.820 you know what i'll let me reel you back in here i'll no no no no no we're not we're not gonna talk

01:43:42.100 we're not gonna we're not we're moving on from the thing uh in your pre-show information here i'm

01:43:46.900 trying to reel you into back into the convo you said a traditional mindset that women

01:43:53.620 i was a little semi-confused exactly what you meant but you said uh women shouldn't be working

01:43:58.580 and shouldn't have equal rights so i was just confused are you in favor are you in favor or are

01:44:05.460 you against no i'm just trying to i'm trying it's not what i meant i think it kind of goes oh was that

01:44:13.220 you sorry sorry was that you we both were when we put in saying we want to do this it was both

01:44:17.700 like us wanting to do it should we shake hands should we shake hands are you thinking hey i think you guys

01:44:23.300 should hug they made up i was never mad all right i think it goes back to just like our mindset of

01:44:30.500 thinking men are providers and protectors i think we have a very like traditional mindset where it's

01:44:35.220 like modern society has ruined i don't know if women shouldn't have rights like if you took away

01:44:40.980 my right to work have a job and you took away my voting rights whatever that's kind of like what i

01:44:46.100 stand for i don't know like my family is very traditional and like that's kind of how i grew up

01:44:52.660 yeah like my family's very conservative like old school yeah so i think that's just like ingrained in

01:44:57.540 my brain where like men are providers and protectors and men women don't work and like

01:45:03.060 wait so repeal the 19th yeah take away our rights like i don't care mika what do you think of that

01:45:10.020 that's her name right is it no it's not it's micah oh it's like the rock or you know micah the

01:45:15.140 character in the bible what what do you think about that what sorry i was taking away a woman's

01:45:20.500 right i mean i i wouldn't but you know that's her opinion i guess i'm i respect it but that doesn't

01:45:28.020 apply i see both sides like yeah yeah you're like devil's advocate for sure like i get it too

01:45:33.540 yeah i just don't think women deserve right women don't deserve so real like if you took away my rights

01:45:42.660 it's fine like i i don't think it would really affect my life that much to where like

01:45:47.140 i don't know it might it's a hot take i'm aware that that's a very hot take it's okay you you want

01:45:55.620 to repeal the 19th now you got him on your side yeah i mean now you got him back on your side for

01:46:02.260 myself yes i would agree that most women don't think that way but i personally think that way i don't

01:46:08.900 think i deserve rights me personally just you just me why why is that why don't you or other women

01:46:17.620 deserve rights wow you're such a misogynist wow i will say i'm more on like a misogynistic mindset

01:46:24.900 than a feminist mindset where like i think the woman's job is to cook and clean that's why when

01:46:29.860 you asked me that i was like yeah okay i apologize i hurt you i was being so i'm sorry i'm very sorry

01:46:35.860 yeah i apologize so i think men are providers protectors women stay at home take care of kids

01:46:41.140 cook clean that's like kind of how life was for a long time yeah and so i stick by that okay

01:46:51.220 i'm aware it's so who here just like show of hands who here and i'm not co-signing on this because

01:46:57.460 reasons who here wants thinks we should repeal the 19th amendment like show of hands

01:47:02.100 nobody raise it yo raise it higher don't be come on i don't completely disagree with her yeah i

01:47:08.740 would i wouldn't go that extreme as to repealing it but she's got good

01:47:14.820 you cooked

01:47:20.260 i don't know i'm aware that like most women would probably not agree with that and like

01:47:25.460 like i don't know would it be on my side i mean like i feel like i already do have so

01:47:32.100 many responsibilities if you want to take away one like it wouldn't be so mad like what are other

01:47:37.940 rights also like also like it's just so hard to want to vote with the government anyway it's like

01:47:45.140 what's going on there you know i feel like we're missing one like what's another right that women

01:47:49.060 didn't used to have any the right to work we already got that one working voting what are

01:47:55.300 other ones very little work like nothing that really affects me i don't know so just get rid

01:48:02.500 of them what you do right now what do you what do you two here in the corner think about think about

01:48:08.900 that um let's get us out of the hot seat i would yeah i would not say like take away our rights but i

01:48:15.380 mean i see i'm not gonna diss you for thinking that but i i do like being independent i like

01:48:20.180 being able to do my thing she wants to take away your right to vote not hers i mean i mean right now

01:48:28.260 both the options are pretty bad so i would never say like hey take away her right like i would never

01:48:33.940 like sign on something that said take away women's rights i just think personally i don't deserve right

01:48:39.700 um i would argue that i mean i've never done anything crazy but if someone has to make a decision

01:48:45.300 for me i'd probably leave it up to my dad or my husband like a man i'd be fine i wouldn't go

01:48:51.540 extreme that's only gonna work out though if you already have a man that's willing to protect if

01:48:55.940 you're a single woman i don't know i trust my dad yeah if he tells me to do anything i'm just like

01:49:00.820 all right but like i'm saying that as like someone who like i make my own money so it's like if i'm

01:49:06.660 saying that it's like i really would you go to war would i go to war yeah no no i don't think women

01:49:13.620 should be in the military i don't think i go to war every day of my life but i also don't believe

01:49:18.500 in war so it's like i don't think anyone should be going to war but wait you go to war i go to war

01:49:22.900 every single day of my life how what do you what do you mean just taking like

01:49:28.740 pussy pics or what are we talking about um i was just kind of joking you know because life is hard and

01:49:36.100 sometimes it can feel like a bad ongoing battle i wasn't being serious i'm not getting shipped out

01:49:43.860 and mentally fighting in camel with the ak but i'm just joking so it's like sometimes you know

01:49:51.380 sometimes the game of life can feel like a war

01:49:55.620 you get me you understand i think i kind of get it so you're saying like your your war is having to

01:50:05.940 like constantly be uploading nude photographs to only fans i get it like it's hard to click the

01:50:12.260 buttons on the computer that's me 24 7. that was a very backhanded thing to say i get what you're

01:50:20.100 saying i thought we were joking here i thought we were all good i think that's a joke because

01:50:26.260 yeah like we click button yeah i'm i think that's a joke i'm good we kissed we made we made up it's

01:50:32.660 all good we're like that was a joke yeah like i i promise she still probably hates me but we're good

01:50:38.100 we're homies again right anyone it takes a lot to get me you could pretty much say anything to me

01:50:43.700 and i promise you i can take it yeah i can take it wait you sure about that i can yeah challenge

01:50:49.220 acceptance i can let me say it one more time i'm just kidding baby i can take it

01:50:58.100 wait wait back to diana yeah oh yeah can we escape i would never be like hey take away all women's

01:51:05.860 rights just like for me i'm like i don't like i agree that other women don't think that way so i

01:51:11.300 would never be like hey take away all women's rights because i would say most women don't think that way

01:51:15.380 that would be like i don't for me just take away her i think i'm totally fine i mean they're already

01:51:22.100 taking away some right right now she just did you should tell us how you really feel though

01:51:26.820 well no i know you're saying like take away your rights but i feel like you really mean

01:51:30.740 like deep down you really want to just take away no right no because i think most women have like a

01:51:37.540 like i don't know they have a mindset where it's like okay we have the right to work and to vote

01:51:42.100 whatever and like i feel like women protect so that me i don't really care but i'm aware that

01:51:48.180 most women do enjoy those rights so i would never be like hey take away their rights i'm just saying

01:51:54.660 i don't really just you want yours you could just relinquish your american citizenship and then i

01:52:01.220 suppose that'd be one way to lose your you can do that that's a good point yeah you can move to north

01:52:05.380 korea wait you can do that yeah you can uh where do they put you i forgot what it's called well you'd

01:52:10.900 have to find another place to live uh what's the what's the term called for emancipation

01:52:18.820 no there's a term for oh that's when you're a kid completely different how do you guys what's the

01:52:24.340 term for like abandoning your citizenship in the chat no not sovereign renouncing citizenship i think

01:52:30.500 oh to renounce citizenship okay we have some chats here we have oops hold on conan 19 has

01:52:39.060 society improved since women entered the workforce and started voting no wow okay she's just going

01:52:47.780 full no society has improved i don't really know like when but i wasn't around workforce and starting

01:52:53.940 voting i think it has to do with just society becoming more modern and technology which way

01:53:00.500 a little more bender the offender donated 99 her brain cells go to war against the xanax is she

01:53:07.620 popping who's that word to you that's to you oh of course it is um i didn't take any xanax gang i don't know

01:53:20.980 anything every time you know it's so funny me every single time i go on something people always think

01:53:27.060 that i'm like drunk or i'm high or something this is just how you are i'm yeah this is you like they

01:53:33.220 think this cup is full like straight booze or something but i'm kind of just like this however

01:53:39.220 i did consider taking an edible before i came on here but i did not get around to that ah okay yeah what

01:53:46.260 do you should i next time you think maybe yes we'd like we'd like to see you all right i can do

01:53:52.500 that on edibles we have oh wait we did this one okay uh do you two want to weigh on and weigh on in

01:54:00.420 this one the one that you just has society i think society has improved in ways of just like modern

01:54:07.300 technology and that aspect but i think women dating has gone backwards i mean i would say like all of the

01:54:14.500 the content websites like we run that yeah so in that way but in that way yeah really i mean we

01:54:20.740 run it but it wouldn't exist if there wasn't people buying it i'm not saying like society yeah i'm not

01:54:27.140 not like we are the like main source of on yeah i would say society not what better i don't just like

01:54:33.780 society in general the top five richest people in the world are men so yeah yeah it's like i guess

01:54:39.300 like women really need to be feminism coming up and sexual liberation after that um i don't think

01:54:46.580 women don't bring anything to the table but yeah it's like i would say as a society with um like no

01:54:52.180 offense but like how much money like you do make on only fans there's no way that's right for society

01:54:57.460 yeah no i totally agree no one should be making the amount of money

01:55:04.260 i'm joking by the way i'm joking back to the jokes but no i agree i don't think any woman i like think

01:55:11.300 of that for myself i'm like i shouldn't be making the amount of money that i am for like selling

01:55:15.700 pussy on the internet on the internet oh yeah i'm actually the total opposite i think we need to

01:55:22.820 i think we should switch things up for a little bit maybe you know with like the draft i think we

01:55:27.460 actually switch it so like only women can be drafted and then we just populate the entire military with

01:55:33.540 women because we would burn wouldn't the birth rate go significantly down in the us yeah and all the

01:55:39.460 women over just the birthing rate and like the birthing rate already is already going down because

01:55:44.820 no one's wanting to give birth so wait the birthing rate i'm saying if you send all the women over to war

01:55:50.500 then your there's your birthing rate for the us the population goes down it's already going down

01:55:56.340 actually that shit might go up because i think the case is if you're in the military and you're a

01:56:00.580 woman and you get pregnant but you don't women can't impregnate other women if you're only sending

01:56:05.460 women start committing war crimes there's gonna be some there's gonna be some dick just maneuvering

01:56:12.740 in the army you know not not let's say 90 let's say 90 women in the military okay okay i think that's

01:56:19.460 that's that's pretty feminist of me right run it never let that is that pretty feminist of me

01:56:26.100 is that wait is it more feminist or more misogynist to say i want to send more women i

01:56:32.100 think it's misogynist i don't i don't i don't know it's kind of both it's kind of like feminist but

01:56:36.260 also like woman hating it yeah it's kind of you know like you want women to die but like you want

01:56:40.980 them to die but it's also like kind of like you want them to have the same opportunities as men

01:56:46.100 yeah yeah i see what you're saying yeah i'm a feminist i don't know that's a joke

01:56:53.060 okay we have jackson taylor here how the fuck was brian supposed to laugh at someone he just met

01:56:57.700 saying your girl you dated for five years we're over it was fatty ugly and you can fight like

01:57:04.420 gee not every guy simp you can talk to however you want what not every guy simp you can't you

01:57:10.980 i need you to talk like a normal way jackson you're punk uh your grammar here's a little

01:57:16.980 he's just drunk and he can't talk at all then his opinion is not do you have a response miss rah

01:57:21.860 raw to no i don't even know what he said all right we well she jackson taylor she doesn't have a

01:57:27.940 response uh i'm a captain you lieutenant if i took a photo of the flags of albania china east

01:57:34.980 timor montenegro morocco vietnam switzerland tennessee tonga tunisia turkey and the isle of man

01:57:40.980 there would still be fewer red flags in that photo than on the right side of this panel

01:57:45.460 do you guys have a response to that i think it's a funny joke i think that's funny that's funny

01:57:49.860 i wonder if you had to google like the flags to like compose that yeah which ones are those

01:57:54.500 i just imagine that they're all i just imagine him like frivolously googling the flags to like

01:58:00.980 you're an incel if you know that all but overall i i get it it's funny but you're an incel if you

01:58:06.420 know what these he knew all of the flags were red he just named them off like he knew every

01:58:11.060 flag had red in it he looked that up for sure exactly that time to do that can't that just be like

01:58:18.660 someone who's like kind of interested in geography or some it's kind of weird to know that off the top

01:58:22.820 of your head if you like didn't have to search it plus he like really listed so many what's the

01:58:27.700 term for like someone who's really into flags there's like flag flag for that there's a term

01:58:35.300 interest there's there's a spin uh oh vexiology it's uh one who is a hobbyist or general admirer

01:58:43.460 of flags is a vexillophile so mr he's a vexillophile mr i'm a captain you left

01:58:52.660 tenant lieutenant lieutenant is a vexillophile there you have it folks let's not assume that

01:58:58.420 he's an incel he might be he could be both i just said it's intel behavior right i think it's

01:59:05.460 a vexillophile behavior okay presuming that he just knew that off the top of his head yeah do you not

01:59:11.300 like incels i love incels we love it i've been i've been an incel before yeah okay they pay for

01:59:19.620 my pussy packs jesus okay i want to like them so much that they're happier you want to i want to like

01:59:26.820 like them so much that they're not so like stressed out you know interesting okay like maybe find some

01:59:32.820 common ground find some common ground good nick can you pull up the twitch we got a shout out to

01:59:37.300 twitch people guys twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you have one

01:59:42.980 all right we have yo hoggafart oh my god that name thank you for the prime thank you for the five

01:59:49.220 uh community gifts thank you grickleck thank you for the prime these are some like

01:59:54.580 fucking mmorpg names here draven wait draven knight thank you for the prime brian goon thank

02:00:01.300 for the tier one sammy boy thank you for the prime pivers thank you for the prime use uh jennifer

02:00:05.060 thank you for the tier one thank you for five months thank you for a lot of all those guys

02:00:08.500 really appreciate it okay so do we have puffy vegas here no we don't have puffy vegas we're all cut

02:00:13.780 up on track what he's a fan of yours what if puffy vegas he is acting like a fan actually

02:00:19.700 what was he saying i don't remember i just remember he was confusing me he was okay got it

02:00:26.340 and then one of you was talking about uh let's see wait where was it in the pre-show no it's just the

02:00:32.980 is it is it you who's anti-feminist or the both of you uh both okay yeah we've already been there

02:00:39.700 well yeah yeah why do we keep saying that well no because these are the pre-show notes so uh who

02:00:46.340 here's a feminist show of hands considers themselves a feminist it's okay if you are i

02:00:51.140 don't think anyone wants to consider themselves i mean it's just i'm just equality for all just

02:00:55.860 whatever equality for if if feminism means it means like your definition of feminism means like

02:01:01.380 equality for both genders then i would say yes i'm not sure well live feminist not feminist no i'm

02:01:09.380 more in the middle what like egalitarian what do you mean in the middle just like kind of feminist

02:01:15.540 but not really like equality like what micah was saying okay what about you no not feminist not at

02:01:22.660 all why um i believe it's going towards a direction of like i don't want to say hatred but i guess like

02:01:30.500 putting down men in a sense where um we don't need them to do this we don't need them to do that we just

02:01:36.500 talked about yeah you know yeah all this right now like i don't want to go to work yeah like if you if

02:01:42.820 you took away you know a bunch of my rights right now wouldn't really affect me personally yeah i

02:01:48.260 guess um maybe if i was in a different situation it'd be a little bit different but i guess i can

02:01:54.820 acknowledge my privilege that life is really easy for me yeah and oh yeah a privilege acknowledgement

02:02:04.820 i think life is easier as a girl it is yeah i would definitely i don't want to be equal pretty

02:02:09.940 privilege is a thing it's like i know my privilege well it's not necessarily pretty privilege just

02:02:15.300 like being a girl in general yeah you had a lot of things just handed to you yeah you don't have to

02:02:20.420 work for it as a feminist what do you think about that agree disagree she said she wasn't a feminist

02:02:25.620 yeah oh i said no i didn't and i said i'm equal it's just like oh okay she said equality oh equality

02:02:33.300 okay so you're not a feminist no like it's okay if you are it's okay no i'm just i'm saying i'm just

02:02:39.220 equal like i like i do agree that like there are some points that venomous have that just seem

02:02:45.060 like exactly like a lot like it just seems it comes to a toxic point but i do recognize that like

02:02:51.140 equality is important to me like that's important to me but i think that i do agree that something

02:02:56.980 you have a plan life thank you for the 20 gifted members sorry continue no that's it i'm just i'm

02:03:03.540 equal like i'm i'm neither okay so you believe in equality gender equality but you don't necessarily

02:03:09.780 identify as a feminist no okay uh question who should pay on the first date what who should pay

02:03:15.620 on the first date whoever asked i literally if it's split with split i prefer to split it on the first

02:03:21.140 date because at that point it makes me feel like they're expecting something from me yeah okay i feel

02:03:27.140 like if they pay for my date they're expecting me to do something for them so i'm like split split

02:03:32.420 if the man asks i won't like i won't be like okay you can pay but usually i'm like do you want me to

02:03:37.060 pay or can we split this okay all right that's that's equality that is equality live did you have

02:03:43.780 something on this i was just saying like if a man asks you on this date and he wants he wants to go to a

02:03:49.460 very nice restaurant and like have you dress up all nice and everything i feel like he should buy

02:03:54.420 since he asked you but if you ask somebody else on a date then like maybe you could pay like i'm just

02:03:59.060 saying whoever asked who should probably be ready to pay okay i would agree um with whoever asked too

02:04:07.220 that makes sense i'd say i'm like kind of weird about money in a sense where it's like

02:04:11.620 if you were to like hand me money i wouldn't really want to accept it or you know i wouldn't want

02:04:15.940 you to spend um a lot of money on me on a first date especially that would kind of make me feel

02:04:21.380 awkward too because i wouldn't want anyone leaving the date either thinking oh she just wanted expensive

02:04:27.300 food expensive cocktails um right yeah it's more in my more in my character i want to go around the

02:04:35.060 table on this uh what's something toxic if if anything is there anything toxic that you like

02:04:43.140 yes in respect to like romantic relationships all of it let's start with you go ahead i would say

02:04:52.820 probably not consciously but i feel like some toxic behavior oh i would say probably not like consciously

02:05:00.980 but i feel like some toxic behavior can like get in in your head and like make you want something

02:05:07.300 more so like what's that like i like i don't want to like i probably wouldn't like purposely seek that out

02:05:15.620 but like if someone is hard for me to read or they're like making me experience a lot of different

02:05:24.900 emotions i feel like it would make me feel like i need to conquer that somehow so

02:05:32.980 yes wait this wasn't a guess or no question no just like is there what's one example of something

02:05:39.140 toxic that you like maybe maybe there's nothing right but i don't know maybe you like a guy that

02:05:44.180 can you give me some options to pick from some toxic can we do like a b c uh how about let's have

02:05:54.820 some of the other girls answer and maybe that'll be like fire i'll be like ding ding ding yeah uh go

02:05:59.140 ahead i like a little aspect of like jealousy because it shows that he really like wants you

02:06:06.660 if the guy's jealous he shows a little aspect of like he doesn't want other men or it's like maybe

02:06:11.780 like protective or like yeah jealousy i would say like possessiveness for sure like for like mental

02:06:20.180 toxicity you like possessive guys i like possessive guys but then like physically toxic like as long

02:06:26.100 as you're not like beating the out of me but like you can like hit me you can like in the bedroom yeah

02:06:32.500 i don't know if like people will see that as like toxic like you want to be punched in the face type of

02:06:36.820 shit yeah really that's fine with me yeah come on like straight up punch maybe like a black eye

02:06:42.420 or something i've had a black eye before from yeah okay good times yeah but i don't know if like

02:06:49.700 people see that as toxic i guess some people could because it's like it's a little abusive but like i

02:06:53.860 want it so i wouldn't i guess you're asking for it it's bdsm kind of yeah yeah yeah you could argue

02:07:00.420 that okay you said you like possessive men yeah but you have a you currently have a roster of uh

02:07:07.780 like 10 guys so like and they know right or do they know i don't know if they know they know i'm

02:07:13.380 not they know i'm single they know that i'm like fucking other people do they get possessive

02:07:18.900 any of the 10 dudes on your roster nope that's why they're on the roster so in order for a guy

02:07:23.380 she wants her man man in order for you yeah so one if one of these dudes stepped up and was like yo

02:07:30.020 fuck these other nine dudes fuck them not like actually but like yeah i don't want you to see

02:07:35.380 them anymore i only want you to see me yeah i think that'd be hot yeah that's hot that's hot but but

02:07:42.340 would you though like it might be hot to you but you'd still you'd still keep your roster i wouldn't

02:07:46.740 keep the roster oh if i started really dating someone on the roster yeah i would nix the rest of the

02:07:51.940 the roster so one of the roster guys could just be like you know cut these other guys are a wrap

02:07:57.140 yeah i just want to see you like yeah it's done yeah really yeah like that like not one more dick

02:08:02.980 appointment no not even one like it's just rap so any one of these 10 dudes on the roster if they

02:08:09.540 wanted to they could be in a relationship with you yeah they just haven't i mean i guess it depends

02:08:13.380 on the guy i wouldn't say all of them are like boyfriend material but like a few of them yeah

02:08:18.100 so some of them have the qualities that they could lock you down right yeah and if they told

02:08:23.540 me hey we're dating now quit the roster 100 what's stopping you from like getting with them good

02:08:29.700 question i'm kind of just vibing right now like having fun i just got out of a relationship like

02:08:36.180 a couple months ago and like wasn't really my vibe i don't know so like i'm just having fun right now

02:08:40.980 how quickly did you amass so you got out of a was it a monogamous relationship the one that ended two

02:08:46.020 months ago yeah i mean i was like shooting porn during it so it's like i don't know if you call

02:08:50.500 that monogamy like i let him whoever i don't know okay i don't know if you call that monogamy

02:08:57.140 probably not yeah i mean it's my job but it's also like i can't say you're not allowed to

02:09:02.420 other people if i'm other people well yeah well actually that's kind of interesting so he would

02:09:08.580 other women but not within the confines of like he's not a porn star i don't think he did actually was

02:09:15.140 the thing but i gave him i told him i was like it's not fair for me to fuck other people and you

02:09:19.620 can't oh that's that's kind that's nice of you i guess that's fair equality would you have but it

02:09:24.740 sounded like from what she said that there weren't guys or the excuse me the guy you were in a

02:09:29.460 relationship wasn't seeing other women uh yeah i don't think he was we don't think he was he

02:09:34.980 couldn't really like pull game like that like we had a whole year yeah okay i don't think it was

02:09:39.780 girls i don't think he yeah we just don't think he did i just don't think he was but he had the

02:09:44.340 opportunity to do it would you have been upset if he did not at all okay okay all right well there

02:09:50.900 you go don't care there you go yeah how quickly did you amass the roster of 10 within like a week

02:09:57.940 of the breakup some of them were like guys i knew before oh no not during the relationship but like

02:10:04.020 before yeah i'd like known a few of them for a while yeah this is why i don't think if you're

02:10:09.300 in a relationship with a girl i don't think that she should have social media women don't deserve

02:10:17.140 it's not about rights it's just about it's about the different levels of optionality because men and

02:10:22.260 women i think we can all agree are not the same so a woman on instagram is much different than the

02:10:28.260 guy on instagram right like because it's totally different so i think but i also don't think men

02:10:34.660 should even have instagram i agree you think men shouldn't have instagram why do you as a man

02:10:40.260 have instagram when you're posting pictures of yourself on instagram like that's a little

02:10:45.060 yeah i mean fish picture is like whatever that's kind of manly but like if you're posting

02:10:48.420 selfies well the one girl who likes fish pictures i don't mind i don't mind a fish pic a lot of girls

02:10:52.740 don't like it yeah i'm very into aquatics i have a fish tank at home yeah give my input

02:10:59.700 i love pictures of fish like you love pictures of men holding fish or just you like to look at

02:11:06.180 like a salmon any she has a fish i follow like a lot of um i follow like a lot of like aquatics

02:11:13.700 influencers and i just eat that shit up like yeah goldfish breeders and stuff i

02:11:19.060 i uh it's one of my hobbies yes i do do you have what kind of you got how many fish you got

02:11:25.060 you got koi pond you're not a legit aquatics person if you don't have a coat i have a salt

02:11:30.180 well i live well i don't want to say where i live but i i don't have like your street address

02:11:35.860 just kidding um i live in an apartment that doesn't really have like a yard space for a koi pond i do

02:11:41.780 have a tank though you got a tank okay all right okay that's that's rookie status you got to step it

02:11:48.740 up you need to get a koi pond are you into aquatics not at all well then how do you know i just i'm i'm

02:11:56.420 move in various circles i'm in the aquatics circle a little bit you know when i go back to visit my

02:12:02.580 family um there's a koi pond i check on there you check on the koi pond yeah your family has a koi pond

02:12:09.620 or a close family friend close family friends have you ever stolen a fish uh no that's that's a

02:12:18.260 normal question it would be you know i would be worried about the the welfare of the fish

02:12:24.580 live you stole a fish she was joking you said that's a normal question i said yes

02:12:28.820 it's super normal it comes up in conversation every day what are you talking about okay fish probably

02:12:33.140 wouldn't do well in a heist situation because they fish their environments are sensitive so i

02:12:39.380 wouldn't want the fish to like come into any harm you know what though i think there's definitely some

02:12:43.220 fish that are expensive oh yeah there is some fish yeah exotic exotic fish uh someone some of them

02:12:50.900 that are hard to find they can go for a lot are pet fish edible i would hope not like you know some

02:12:58.340 fish don't taste good like are like the the fishes that are typically kept as pets can you they taste

02:13:03.940 good you think can you even get anything out of them they're like literally that small yeah some fish

02:13:09.460 are poisonous that would be hard to get the meat out of um sorry uh make my input on social media you

02:13:15.540 don't want to eat up you don't want to eat a puffer fish i'll leave you with that wait i don't know if

02:13:20.420 we totally went we didn't totally go around the top on the toxic thing yeah i forgot the topic yeah we'll

02:13:25.700 come back to the toxic we'll come back to that but i did make the i did say that yeah

02:13:30.420 in a relationship i do think that the girl should either like severely private archive her

02:13:37.940 shit or just not have social media i agree so i have all right look at that there you go really

02:13:44.580 i don't think women should have social media it's not that i don't think women shouldn't have social

02:13:49.940 media i just think it's the reality of like instagram and like a lot of people

02:13:52.980 meet yeah instagram can be a dating app so dudes are in your dms well i think are you worried to

02:13:59.380 lose anyone off of instagram what do you mean what do you i want to hear your talk yeah so i have

02:14:06.500 wait wait just let her come in and then we'll have you coming i was just asking like what your reason

02:14:10.500 is why you don't think women should have that or like post anything like do you not trust your woman

02:14:15.380 or because i like my my man right now he's confident like he doesn't mind anything i share

02:14:20.900 other men it's just like i give you the attention yeah like i mean i ignore them so it all comes down

02:14:26.420 to what the girl's doing if you're if you're gonna cheat on there then you are but right if you're

02:14:29.780 gonna be loyal then i think it's more the amount of men who come into dms and who like your pictures

02:14:34.660 comment whatever well i think it's this right so when you okay when you're in a relationship with

02:14:40.580 somebody typically there's like and it's a monogamous relationship you both either overtly

02:14:46.260 or covert like covertly there's sometimes there's not always an overt conversation about by the way

02:14:53.140 we're not going to be seeing each other anymore but sorry i'm my my tongue is getting twisted we're

02:14:58.420 not going to be taught flirting with other people we're not going to be talking to the other people

02:15:02.660 you are loyal to that person you are monogamous to that person so how do men typically initiate

02:15:08.420 well they have to approach the way women initiate which is sort of this more covert sense of

02:15:16.260 initiation women just put themselves out there yeah like you want attention you'll post an instagram

02:15:21.460 photo right you'll go to the club you're not like if you go to the club as a woman you're not going to

02:15:25.380 like go like approach like 10 guys in a row the same way that a guy might go approach 10 women in a

02:15:30.260 row first time i talked to my man swiped up on my story but so women run this passive game they

02:15:35.460 don't approach men they put themselves in positions where they could be approached by men they won't

02:15:40.900 dm a guy they'll post a picture to lure him into dming them so if we ignore it sure that's fine but

02:15:47.860 men are salesmen women are marketers and in a committed relationship a man should stop pitching and a woman

02:15:56.660 should stop advertising yeah that seems like a fair proposition to me i agree so so the man shouldn't

02:16:02.500 have social media either because that's all men do on instagram yeah yeah well he's the one that

02:16:07.540 has to do the action yeah but i think both neither should have instagram then if you're in like a

02:16:12.340 really serious relationship but honestly i think it's kind of childish if you're gonna cheat you're

02:16:16.100 gonna cheat off and like even if you're not instagram i know some cheaters that have zero social

02:16:21.300 media and that not don't even have a smartphone and they're getting around but would it be cheating

02:16:24.980 for me in a monogamous relationship to just approach without the intention of sleeping with her

02:16:29.140 to just approach a girl and like get her number but not absolutely in my eyes yes yeah what are you

02:16:33.700 doing yeah like like where are you going what's your end goal yeah well i i don't think you should

02:16:38.580 do that in a monogamous relationship but women will keep their optionality open by going to the club

02:16:43.940 going to the bar i don't do it if i'm in a relationship i don't do all that yeah same having

02:16:47.860 social media yeah i like disappear most but most most men aren't getting like bombarded with dms from

02:16:55.860 women who are like i want to take you out i want to hook up with like they're not getting that

02:17:00.100 attention if he's famous we can we're three blocks away from a college over here you can pull like a

02:17:06.820 regular college girl who has a thousand followers on instagram and she's getting dms by like if you're

02:17:13.460 just yeah it doesn't matter but she's keeping her optionality open because as as soon as the

02:17:20.340 relationship ends or things are rocky she could be like maneuvering to potentially you can keep it

02:17:25.300 open in person in real life there's really so many ways to do it i don't think instagram is the only

02:17:31.380 way to do it i think if you're grown and you don't want to do it then you're just not gonna do it

02:17:35.620 also like a lot of women post pictures and use social media for like a sense of community and other

02:17:42.260 things too it's not just trying to like attract men and have options i would say personally like i

02:17:50.340 would if i was like in a serious relationship and a man asked me to like deactivate my instagram i

02:17:54.740 would do it just because i i post bloody what about this like i get that side what if instead of me

02:18:02.900 saying i'll delete my instagram i said i'll give you my password and so you can look at it and see

02:18:07.540 everything i'm doing i would be fine with that yeah i'd be okay with that too i feel like that

02:18:11.780 would be a good compromise normal in relationships yeah like that way that you can have like a sense

02:18:18.740 of security but if i want to like use social media aside from being my job of course but like to look

02:18:25.220 at stuff i like or look at like post pictures of fish or look at fashion or i would like have

02:18:31.060 friendships and a sense of community or something like that like i have a meme page i have a whole meme

02:18:35.620 page i run i will never give that up for anyone yes i do mean i'm a ding dong it's fabulous wait so

02:18:42.340 you're saying like if you're in a relationship you would just but but i feel like because like maybe

02:18:48.020 uh a woman who isn't really involved in social media she might be more inclined to give up her

02:18:52.340 instagram but you're your content creator like you're out there in the space so your instagram is

02:18:56.340 kind of tied to your right i was gonna make that argument yes like i do make money from my instagram

02:19:01.300 so again it would have to go back to that situation where like if you're paying for my lifestyle

02:19:06.260 whatever then of course i would deactivate okay like have you ever done that for an ex no okay what

02:19:13.460 about the well no okay no uh you say paying for your lifestyle what would it take for a guy to

02:19:20.900 cover your lifestyle i mean bare minimum paying for my rent okay paying for like trips and like trips

02:19:28.180 okay anything nad anything nad do you know what nad is the iv treatment and they oh like the something

02:19:37.060 we love yeah yeah i spent a lot of money on that we spent a lot of money yeah just like anything i

02:19:43.300 want or need personal trainer wait like the concierge doctors that come to you and they have like yeah

02:19:49.060 have you heard of nad look into it after this i'll check it out tightening huh like never mind i'm

02:19:56.100 probably thinking something completely different i don't know but yeah like if a man was like

02:20:01.540 supporting every single thing in my life and he asked me to deactivate my instagram i would do it

02:20:07.220 okay you had something on this yeah so i have two instagrams actually um i have my private instagram

02:20:13.700 which is just friends and family only like if i wouldn't say hi to you at the grocery store you can't

02:20:17.860 follow that yeah you know so um and then i have my public instagram which and i mean to be fair i'm not

02:20:24.420 very good at posting anyways um anybody can follow that i follow back my friends but um i don't post

02:20:30.820 like thirst traps or like i i wouldn't post anything that i would prefer anyone like swiping up trying to

02:20:37.300 hit on me um and in regards to snapchat i actually only have my female friends on snapchat

02:20:43.300 um with exception of like a few people and those are people that i would invite to my wedding if it came

02:20:49.140 down to that so it's like if you need me just text me um yeah i don't want dudes on my snapchat i don't

02:20:55.460 even want the bubble popping up in my recents like those texts disappear um just sketchy to me i wouldn't

02:21:02.900 okay i don't prefer that let's go back to the toxic thing i think you got to go let's did you go

02:21:09.700 what's something toxic that you like um i would have to agree with them i do like my man to be possessive

02:21:15.220 like i need you to chase me if i stop talking to you you better come back if you just stop talking

02:21:19.780 to me then we'll never speak again yeah did you nick did you bring it all the way down to zero yeah just

02:21:26.020 yeah personally i'm only happy if i'm in a healthy relationship like i don't really like the whole

02:21:33.140 toxicity but i feel like being possessive and like what is jealous being jealous like i feel like those

02:21:39.460 things can be healthy in a relationship you know like i don't think it's always talking it's nice

02:21:44.100 to feel wanted yeah on both parts yeah exactly like if you're not jealous about a man hitting on your

02:21:48.740 girl then you're doing something or you just don't like her that much yeah exactly it's just the truth

02:21:53.060 yeah yeah okay well that's why guys do you care about what you post on instagram um

02:22:00.660 for that reason yeah um i think for me it's like possession too but mine is sort of like

02:22:05.860 the emotional like detachment that they have like it's basically like we're in a relationship but

02:22:10.500 they it's completely like they don't treat me like it and i think it goes back to my childhood my

02:22:15.460 parents were very turbulent so i never seen a healthy relationship so that's the toxic and not

02:22:20.900 wanting you makes him yeah it makes you want him more yeah that's what you mean okay yeah yeah and then

02:22:25.060 him not treating me like that and whatnot then we get into the arguments and then that's when like

02:22:29.140 the passion is there and i'm like oh that's what i want because like that's my parents

02:22:32.820 relationship very turbulent never had you like arguments yeah yeah so like i've had a very

02:22:38.260 turbulent uh view of marriage and relationship nick do you hear that beeping see like i cannot do

02:22:45.540 that i hate arguing oh no i'm very emotionally like turned off now like i it completely just killed

02:22:52.100 me on the inside and it's just it just it's just like it's how i grew up i've never seen a healthy

02:22:57.220 relationship and it's just i'm an independent part of my life a question yeah because i know you

02:23:03.860 talked about um how you felt after you've been cheated on you as well i mean you gave a dude

02:23:09.780 both black guys one black guy you both of those eyes were black yes i went back to my guy i went

02:23:15.700 back to my guy multiple times feel a certain type of way yeah however given that like you know your job

02:23:22.500 do you see value in sex like if you devalued it okay so i don't see any value in sex well so your

02:23:29.780 man would be allowed to cheat and that's okay no no so here's how so i operate my thing completely

02:23:36.900 different than everyone else my content is based on whether i have a trusting full 100 relationship

02:23:43.380 with someone that i trust and care about and know that they have only the purest intentions of me

02:23:48.180 and whatnot and i will only make content with people like that i i'm i don't go so you you only

02:23:54.100 make um content with your partner at the time yes yes yeah okay and then like um same question to you

02:24:00.980 what was the question so i'm sorry go ahead oh yeah um to reiterate my question um like do you see a

02:24:08.740 value in sex because you did feel a certain type of way after being cheated on um yeah i feel like there's

02:24:15.460 value in sex um i'm actually the same way i've only made boy girl content when i've been in very

02:24:22.500 serious relationships um i guess the same thing for like hookup culture like if you hook up with

02:24:31.060 anybody and it's just i mean meaningless but i i've never been seeking meaningless like i've just like

02:24:38.420 never been inclined to like have sex without like some sort of like emotional connection so like so i

02:24:46.900 think there is value in it um i'm yeah like also i feel like because i'm over sexualized and i do so much

02:24:53.140 sex work um i like to separate in a way like that life from like uh like a real me and like a personal

02:25:02.340 life in a way so yeah like i i was a dancer for many years but also during that time i was celibate

02:25:12.180 as well so like i'm i in my regular life i'm not very promiscuous it has to be like something um yeah like

02:25:20.820 i have to see some type of value in it in order for me to like get there with someone okay i have

02:25:27.540 a uh a question for you you said so you like kind of arguing is it is it like a uh a sexual turn on

02:25:36.260 to like argue with your partner or is it or is it more like it's more of like it's more of it's not

02:25:42.100 sexual it's more of like we get into the argument and then we make up and i'm like okay so now we're

02:25:46.820 better like he loves me more now because we got through this like feeling passion i understand

02:25:51.060 that like you're seeing emotion yeah yeah and like a demonstration is that how you feel or how you

02:25:57.220 think he feels that's that's how i feel in that perspective i dead ass know that the man wants to

02:26:02.820 get out of that relationship is just too freaking scared to say anything about it yeah i was about to

02:26:07.540 say man's perspective is that of that is like he doesn't it's like pushing you away or he wants to

02:26:13.620 push you away more and more yeah the more and more you do that the more and more you pick arguments

02:26:17.460 and stuff like that like it just pushes him away because he's annoying yeah um so what since you kind

02:26:25.380 of like that conflict with your partners do you find that conflict or arguments organically manifest

02:26:33.940 or will you intentionally like like you'll almost plan it the whole day all right i'm gonna we're

02:26:43.940 gonna get into an argument tonight it's like it's like 50 50 because like i'm so in tuned with my

02:26:49.460 emotions and stuff and like i have a lot of baggage or whatnot if i see something that feels familiar if

02:26:54.820 my body reacts something that feels familiar in a traumatic way or whatnot my brain won't shut up about

02:26:59.620 it and so i have to communicate and be like hey i don't want to get an argument but if we get into

02:27:03.060 an argument like can we talk about this this is how i'm feeling this is what i'm seeing that you're

02:27:07.300 doing i'm not saying you're doing anything but i would just like some clarification because i need

02:27:11.540 to figure out why i'm feeling like this because i don't want to feel like this and so that's basically

02:27:15.700 what it is but it always ends up in an argument how frequently you're currently single right yeah

02:27:23.460 wait hold on single yes

02:27:25.300 i thought okay maybe but you were in a relationship for was it nine months no no no no no no that would

02:27:34.580 be her oh sorry i got okay okay my bad i got these two mixed up okay uh you've been single for about

02:27:39.220 two or three months correct okay and how long was that relationship oh it was quick it was like four

02:27:44.740 five months you said your longest was two years is this a pattern that you repeat with pretty much all

02:27:48.660 yeah i'm pretty much self very self-aware i attract the same man they're literally the same

02:27:53.780 same uh same sentence different font is what i say what kind of what's your what's your just like

02:28:00.740 narcissistic uh emotionally unattached men yeah that's my that's literally my parents relationships

02:28:09.060 that's what i grew up with i that's i've seen the violence from it like that's literally what i grew up

02:28:14.260 with so as an adult it's hard for me to get into a healthy relationship because that feels foreign

02:28:20.100 that feels scary so i go into these toxic ones because that's familiar that's what i grew up

02:28:24.660 with that's what i've seen i know how to navigate that and that feels familiar to me that feels

02:28:29.140 safety is there also do you feel like sometimes if you're like also at the same time like if you're

02:28:34.820 able to like conquer that then you're like validating yourself that like you can like improve from

02:28:40.020 that also yeah yeah i relate i like relate to what you're saying yeah yeah so like that's why i spent

02:28:44.740 a lot of time alone too because once i get out of those relationships i start to see the pattern

02:28:48.900 starts to see the observations start to see how it makes me feel and i'm like okay i know that's bad i

02:28:53.620 don't want to do that anymore so i know i need to figure out what what i what i'm chasing in people

02:28:58.740 because there's something wrong because i know not a majority of men are like this i know not a majority

02:29:02.660 of people are like this it's just i'm chasing something that needs to be fixed i feel like you being aware

02:29:08.420 of that is like good like that's the first step and like yeah overcoming that pattern and like

02:29:13.860 doing like work to be able to like move like yeah grow from that yeah so is there a comfort in the

02:29:20.100 chaos kind of yeah there is okay what what would uh i'm sure you've encountered men that don't fall into

02:29:28.100 that behavior pattern and they do kind of give you like they you say you like it when the guy's kind

02:29:34.980 of like emotionally detached maybe he doesn't like at first it's like a complete love bomb situation

02:29:39.780 and then as soon as you start dating they completely detached they would pull away yeah okay and what

02:29:45.780 would happen if a guy didn't do that and he was not detached or whatever if he was like it was a

02:29:52.340 healthy relationship yeah would you like i i yeah like i've had like i've had i have one of my guy

02:29:58.820 friends like he's super like he's so nice to me super sweet and stuff and like he's he's a genuine gem

02:30:04.420 and everything but i've pushed him away because like something emotionally with me wasn't able to

02:30:09.380 connect at all because like even though he was so healthy in the back of my brain i was like there's

02:30:14.180 something wrong like there's an intention behind there though he's lying blah blah blah so like i

02:30:18.660 cannot believe that it's truly healthy for myself so it's more of me setting myself back

02:30:25.540 than anything else and when you say friend was this initially was he romantically interested and then

02:30:30.340 you friend zoned him or like it was we started off as friends from like tick tock and whatnot

02:30:35.460 and then like i got into like a relationship but he was still my friend and then we got i got out of

02:30:41.300 it and then he confessed his love to me and i was like i just got out of this relationship i don't feel

02:30:45.700 that way about you like let's just not talk about that right now and he respects it and we're still

02:30:50.420 friends to this day but it's just it's one of those things that like the healthy relationships for me

02:30:54.740 they fizzle out so do you not want a healthy relationship i do want one but i know at this

02:30:59.620 point in time i'm not capable until i like figure my shit out you know what i'm saying okay because i

02:31:04.900 feel like a lot of people that come out i'm i'm not in the business of sleeping with someone because

02:31:09.940 i'm lonely or like starting a relationship with someone because i'm lonely i would rather stay

02:31:14.900 isolated by myself than like do anything else than that like it's just a lot of me time essentially

02:31:23.060 i was just gonna say like for some minute i know a lot of people that have come from like

02:31:27.220 broken households and like broken parents like that and in a way it like strays them away from

02:31:32.740 the toxicity and it makes them seek healthy relationships instead of sorry madison what

02:31:41.540 i'm not saying i had like it's just the way you start talking it's not it was getting like a little

02:31:45.460 depressing just saying oh really it was a little bring the spirit oh the bring my spirits up but it

02:31:51.540 actually like makes them seek healthy relationships more rather than like i need to keep this toxicity

02:31:56.180 in my life because it's normal to me yeah exactly like once you go through it enough then you're

02:32:00.020 like no like this needs to change like uh liv what about you um i could agree with like some of the

02:32:06.500 possessiveness like just being a little bit jealous like if somebody hits on me when we're out like

02:32:10.980 don't do nothing about it because then you'll look like a fucking pussy but wait so wait if so if a guy

02:32:16.500 you're with your boyfriend and you're out and another guy hits on you you want your boyfriend

02:32:22.500 to confront if he like slaps my ass or is like very like i guess okay i would expect him to do

02:32:31.300 something or like get a little bit like hey don't disrespect my woman like that i mean i don't

02:32:37.620 kind of be defensive that kind of i feel like that's just like you want him to be protective

02:32:42.900 yeah so i don't know i would say like toxicness though i've tried to avoid that because all of

02:32:48.740 my years of dating have been so bad and i feel like i like being healthy now okay what about you

02:32:54.580 anything toxic that you like yeah i mean the possessiveness is i think you can go a toxic way

02:33:00.900 about it um when if you're like confronting me about something you're not okay with but i don't think

02:33:06.260 being possessive is a toxic trait i think it's the action that's what i was kind of saying

02:33:11.780 earlier i think those things are pretty healthy in a relationship like you should be possessive

02:33:16.980 over your partner if you're not then you're not in a serious monogamous relationship all right we

02:33:25.380 have some chats here we have dry zala to the single ladies do i stand a chance with one of you i'm five

02:33:31.620 two early 30s norse pagan heathen and very much into monotonous traditional life also i got no kids

02:33:37.700 so ladies we're gonna go around the table he's five two early 30s

02:33:43.060 that sounds like the man for me

02:33:44.740 oh but i'm also a heathen stop the cow okay what's a heathen heathen

02:33:54.180 heathen like uh out of control here i'll get you the definition here

02:33:59.700 like out of control a person who does not belong to a widely held religion

02:34:04.420 as regarded by those who do so i guess i mean i i feel like i feel like that's not that's not what i

02:34:12.420 like like like that's not how i think of it in my head but okay i didn't realize it was directly

02:34:19.780 related to religion sure he's five two early 30s is he capping about the five two five two that's gotta

02:34:27.220 be a cab right i think it's i mean you could be five he could be five two i could never i don't

02:34:33.540 mind be with a guy who's shorter than me what was his name and i'm five four so that's like you gotta

02:34:37.460 be pretty short i don't think he provided a name but his name is oh hold on oh there he is look at

02:34:43.460 hey cheeks good to see you in the chat man can't be friends guys orbiting women with boyfriends or simps

02:34:49.540 waiting for their chance due to psycho mental issues they have even when that woman is single with that

02:34:55.540 simp around you should report him to the police because of his stalking wait uh i like his i like

02:35:03.140 his username beaten cheeks he's beaten cheeks that's that's his name he's the good to see you back

02:35:09.780 man it's been a while haven't seen you in a minute uh you missed the the uh earlier show uh but uh

02:35:16.820 and i think this actually was directed at the micah micah micah yeah she's in she's in the bathroom

02:35:23.780 right now uh mr mr cheeks but uh yeah uh wait guys orbiting women with boyfriends or simps waiting

02:35:32.180 for their chance yeah honestly like that's the thing like a lot of male friends are just kind of

02:35:36.980 biding their time waiting for their you they want to fuck like 95 of them just want to fuck so all right

02:35:46.180 we have greek greek leck hi brian long time viewer i've been in the army for six years in the military

02:35:53.780 a women okay a woman a woman that gets around with other members are called a barracks bunnies

02:36:00.660 yeah i've heard that term should women be put into combat roles or just be put in supporting roles

02:36:05.380 greek leck hey thank you for the uh the uh super chat man appreciate it um should women be put into

02:36:11.300 combat roles or just be put in supporting roles well if you ask me just 90 roles 90 the military

02:36:18.500 is 90 percent women it's been men for way too much men for way too long and we send them to the front

02:36:24.980 lines women should have no roles just put them in the meat grinder of war yeah i don't think women

02:36:29.700 could run it we would die immediately yeah the us would like it wouldn't even be like a war it'd be

02:36:34.580 like everyone kills us i'm a fighter you guys would be fine i think the real fight would be

02:36:41.220 before them going to war asking them we would just feel like nails are our little outfits no eyelashes

02:36:48.100 you'd be fine the taliban women would be really useless yeah we're completely useless in war

02:36:55.380 like i said the fight would be before that all right it would make war sexier yeah like we would

02:37:03.460 look cute doing it yeah like that's what you have to offer the enemy us preparing for war would be

02:37:08.580 like doing our hair together and like i'm just saying it would make war sexier i don't i don't know

02:37:15.140 about a bunch of women all fighting each other but like who's the opposing team they're all men right

02:37:19.780 we're for equality in the u.s so it's it's like all the other countries it's men yeah and then

02:37:31.620 we're just like an all-female military maybe our fighting tactics you know just like it captured

02:37:36.820 by like al-qaeda it's all good like i'm sure we'd be destroyed before the war even started

02:37:42.340 wow all right we have dingus snorkel butt seven jesus uh for the two adult actresses how do you

02:37:54.100 feel that anyone can look you up on google and know what you look like without clothes on google

02:37:58.260 incognito page is literally your worst enemy i think that's really hot yeah i like well not just

02:38:04.500 oh sorry sorry go ahead it's really hot i think it's hot i don't know what's hot i think it for me

02:38:10.340 it's empowering and like part of the reason i do porn is because like i think it's hot that other

02:38:15.860 people can see me naked yeah like it's just a mental thing it's empowering yeah i know it sounds

02:38:21.380 feminist of me but it's not super like i have this i want to repeal the 19th amendment

02:38:28.340 i think i have like the sexual mindset of like a man any man like i think i have a stronger yeah

02:38:35.460 i definitely have a man mindset of like sex wait question when you when you come are you just like

02:38:41.780 all right i'm done yeah you're just like come over it you're done so the guy has to come before you

02:38:47.380 well no i'd prefer to come first and then they can come right after oh okay okay okay yeah i don't

02:38:52.340 know because there's some girls once they come they're just like all right they're like dudes you

02:38:56.500 know yeah i'm just like once i come like sometimes i want to come like more than once but like even once

02:39:01.780 i'm like okay you know your turn you know like when a guy comes though it's just like i can't get

02:39:06.260 away from me yeah right you're familiar with that right what you know when the guy climaxes he's just

02:39:11.940 like okay go away micah that's your name right yeah yeah yeah you like that right well we cuddle it's

02:39:18.580 not like that it's not that bad it's not that bad it's not that bad as soon as he comes he goes in

02:39:24.660 the shower like has to cleanse himself yeah no no usually we just fall asleep or something like

02:39:30.180 oh okay you know it's all right so you're not that like not that crazy i'm not that traumatized

02:39:36.020 well maybe i am we'll find out you wouldn't you wouldn't find that appealing for like you just have

02:39:40.420 sex with a guy he immediately just gets up goes in showers and then like you need to be like six

02:39:45.780 inches apart from him in the bed and he's just like on his phone that's not romantic to you no it's not

02:39:51.300 that's one of those things i would sit in my mind and i would be like but that sounds like him being

02:39:56.340 like distant i thought you were into the yeah well it's a it's a she said emotionally pull oh emotion

02:40:02.260 okay all right fair enough fair enough uh let's see we have oh wait hold on let me read we have puffy

02:40:10.100 vegas oh hold on thank you man i was in california with proper non-hook as in traditional females

02:40:19.140 you know how women need to be not ones that are showing their buttholes on the net nothing

02:40:24.980 empowering about females wanted to have gang bangs more embarrassing for their future family do you

02:40:31.220 have a response to beaten cheeks i think he thinks that he has a point but like that does that just

02:40:36.180 doesn't affect me like i make money from doing it and i think it's hot so like me personally i'm

02:40:41.860 gonna keep doing it just because some random man on the internet named beaten cheeks thinks otherwise

02:40:46.740 i promise it doesn't affect me beaten cheeks okay um question for both of you uh how many do you

02:40:53.460 guys keep count of how many scenes you've done do you know how many like it's 50 plus it's somewhere

02:40:58.820 on the internet somewhere but i've done hundreds hundreds of scenes hundreds of scenes i think i

02:41:05.060 started last year when i signed with adam so like year and a half in so i've probably done what 30 to 40 yeah

02:41:11.300 does he manage both of you or just okay do you have a manager i used to have an agent like a point

02:41:18.900 agent and then now i'm just kind of on my own i guess you don't like with of do you really need

02:41:23.060 it yeah and like once you make the connections within the industry you don't really need yeah

02:41:27.140 an agent okay i think he was great but i just didn't really need him how many points would he get

02:41:30.900 five percent ten percent um i think right ten ten percent i don't know what does adam get

02:41:38.500 i don't know if you want if you're if you don't want to share that i think a lot five points ten no

02:41:42.340 no no how much not how much he makes but how many as since he's your management is it ten percent

02:41:47.780 twenty percent huh he's the fifth she pleads the fifth okay uh wait so should we repeal the fifth amendment

02:41:56.100 good solid so uh hundreds of scenes what's the most amount is there like a limit how many scenes

02:42:10.100 you can do in a week or is it just like as many as you can book pretty much or typically it's one a

02:42:14.580 day i have done two scenes in a day but i would say in the beginning of the of my career i was working

02:42:21.540 i think the most i worked a month was 27 days that's like every single day so i was doing like

02:42:28.580 a scene a day basically was it always with a different guy i would say the same 10 to 15 guys

02:42:36.180 there's not that many guys in porn like you would think there would be a lot more but there's not

02:42:40.980 so it's like same people over and over you know what i'm a feminist i think men should be paid just

02:42:46.020 as much as the women i agree it is it is a tragedy that male porn stars there's there we need equal

02:42:53.620 pay on only fans and in the adult entertainment industry for men i agree that's just not how it

02:43:00.020 works because men are watching porn for the women not for the men unless you're gay i know but just

02:43:04.420 as a matter of equality i think what should be done on only fans is there should be a tax on

02:43:10.900 on on the women women and it should be redistributed among the men i mean if they're working for it

02:43:17.220 i think that's yeah that's kind of fair you know we should do that with i feel like you're trolling

02:43:21.140 right now equality you know but okay all right all right i do agree in porn men should be paid

02:43:27.780 at least the same as women if not more they do way more work i'm like for us a normal scene how much

02:43:33.780 would you get paid like is it a thousand two thousand tweeting the fifth but i need a lot do you know how much

02:43:38.820 the men make it was like a couple hundred i heard it's like a couple hundred bucks or something not

02:43:42.500 a couple hundred more like yeah okay more okay okay all right we have dry zola here confirming oh wait

02:43:50.900 let me oh i skipped a few my bad all right puffy vegas brian if bonnie wants to respond pull up my g

02:43:56.020 fair's fair what who's bonnie is that english who's bonnie that's not english there's no bonnie here

02:44:03.700 okay what's close to bond he's dyslexic oh none of us try to type blondie and just oh yeah did he

02:44:11.620 try to type blondie yeah blondie but we have two blondes here okay mr puffy puffy vegas you gotta hit

02:44:23.300 the threshold for that yo eric beck what i have learned from today's today's panel women's jokes are like

02:44:29.220 comedy sans the funny most of these broads want to be a possession instead of a partner

02:44:35.620 and proof the pre oh geez the don't shoot the messenger guys proof the prefrontal cortex development

02:44:41.940 is not as rapid as we once thought probably 30 to 35 i don't know if that checks out with the

02:44:47.700 scientific literature eric but uh anyone have a response not the right word for it first of all

02:44:52.900 that's the wrong word which word prefrontal prefrontal cortex development is not what you

02:45:00.580 call it you're talking about like your frontal cortex is that what he's trying to say i do think

02:45:05.060 there is a prefrontal prefrontal but that's when you're like a kid that's like before you have your

02:45:09.940 frontal cortex developed let me just let me just google that really quick let me just prefrontal

02:45:16.180 cortex development is younger but anyway prefrontal 30 to 35 is also not correct

02:45:23.860 one of the last places in the brain to mature the prefrontal cortex is thought of as the

02:45:27.940 personality center so when you're a kid doesn't it develop in men i'm pretty sure it sticks around

02:45:33.220 yeah it develops later in men than women does it i believe so are you saying that men are

02:45:38.100 are slurred look it up no i'm just saying like that's what that's what the studies they have done

02:45:44.180 have showed yeah i i believe we have we have drys all here yes i'm really five two my name is ryan

02:45:50.580 and i'm putting a strong emphasis on my height because the modern preferences excuse me the modern

02:45:56.900 preference puts guys like me on the back burner if not off the stove completely he's not even on the

02:46:03.540 stove not even the slow burner he's still taller than me you have a bunch of

02:46:06.900 i'll tell you barely five one they have okay height lengthening surgeries i know i want that

02:46:12.740 let's not let's not encourage man to what's that you said it's like the modern preference but i would

02:46:19.540 i feel like it's like since like the beginning of time yeah just like based on like when people were

02:46:27.060 cave people and stuff yes definitely you would go for someone who like has stronger genes to be able

02:46:33.620 to perform better like hunting definitely during the cave periods of cave living okay all right

02:46:41.380 the average height of men is a lot taller than it is than it was like years ago i think the average

02:46:48.980 height was like the height difference i'm gonna wingman here a little bit dryzala here i still like

02:46:54.340 him you being five one could i set you guys up no you said i don't know him and i i'm not five two

02:47:00.660 yeah i don't i don't care he could still be mean to you kind of i don't care enough i'm really i'm

02:47:06.260 just not i'm tired of it i'm tired of men i'm tired of searching right now it's me time should we

02:47:13.460 why are you tired of men it's just she explained that yeah i did actually yeah yeah you did yeah

02:47:20.180 yes was it the whole during the part where we were going into you you're the thing that you like that's

02:47:25.540 toxic going into my parents relationship and how i'm operating in my relationships at to this point

02:47:31.300 now which is i'm focusing on myself because i understand that i'm attracting the wrong people

02:47:37.140 so i'm tired and i'm taking a break i'm gonna focus on me for a bit and i'm not gonna put pressure

02:47:43.380 and with an intention of one guy being like yeah i'll go on a date with you like i'm not gonna put

02:47:48.580 that intention not gonna put that pressure i'm just gonna make friendships and like if it happens

02:47:53.140 it happens but i gotta focus on me my priority is me right now what if he

02:48:01.780 has a giant penis i'm just throwing it out there does that help no huge no huge my whole career

02:48:08.340 think of this microphone just giant giant that would hurt what were we what were you talking

02:48:15.140 about the breathing hips all right okay all right praxis uh brian the draft is a dumb thing to whine

02:48:22.740 about trump trauma and hardship are good for men bad for okay if more men served in the military

02:48:29.380 of would go bankrupt and women would behave better also women who serve tend to get ran through no

02:48:34.500 thanks uh well okay let me challenge a couple of the premises here of would go bankrupt if more

02:48:40.260 men were in the military let me ask the girls here who have of are there any military men that are

02:48:46.340 in your of yeah quite a few men just because they're in the military doesn't mean that they

02:48:51.540 no longer have access to of so and actually i feel like they're probably like more inclined and

02:48:58.260 actually i've heard like uh military men a lot of them when they're overseas or whatever

02:49:02.420 uh like they well they'll like with each other no they'll procure they do hook up with each other

02:49:08.500 they'll procure the services of prostitutes like so i mean i don't know if like by virtue of you

02:49:15.860 being in the military that immediately translates to you not consuming porn and what so uh the draft

02:49:25.780 is a dumb thing to whine about this of that disagree on that trauma and hardship are good for men

02:49:29.860 bad for women that doesn't make sense i think isn't it bad for everyone yeah

02:49:37.940 well i think i i think what he's trying to say but and i've heard this before like trauma and hardship

02:49:43.700 being good for men bad for women so so what i think what it does to men like if you go through hardships

02:49:50.500 it'll make men more masculine it can maybe not necessarily but but it makes both men and women

02:49:59.860 more masculine when you go through like traumatic yeah trauma hardships so women who have had a

02:50:04.820 lot of trauma and hardships can't not necessarily but could can be more masculine so that could have

02:50:11.860 an impact romantically where a lot most men probably aren't super attracted to masculine women yeah so i

02:50:18.820 think that's kind of where he's getting at are you telling me i'm masculine no no not at all i'm

02:50:24.180 saying i don't know just look i was looking at you because in other ways so you're saying i have trauma but

02:50:31.620 i like i don't think all trauma and hardship are good for men like if you have go through something that breaks you then

02:50:40.100 oh uh i'm gonna have to re-trigger that because

02:50:43.140 here i'll read puffy puffy vegas i meant blondie have have but have all panel rape me puffy vegas you

02:50:52.820 got to send one tts i'm tough puffy i tell you every show you got to do it through stream labs because

02:50:57.780 youtube it's the woke megacorp we can't be we can't be directing the uh the rev to uh youtube because

02:51:06.580 woke megacorp um b in cheeks i'm gonna re-trigger this really quick let's see if it reads it doesn't

02:51:13.060 read yo men in chat avoid the puffy vegas syndrome oh be nice come on you guys are homies don't be

02:51:17.300 mean to puffy vegas he is proof of the blank oh okay addicted idiocy running through most of the incels

02:51:23.620 in the west avoid his behavior as women are on their way to get stalking orders on him weirdo hey come

02:51:29.620 up be uh but be in cheeks be nice be nice to puffy getting stalking that that is defamation

02:51:37.220 beat and cheeks puffy i encourage you to hire a lawyer and sue beat and cheeks for defamatory

02:51:43.860 statements um he's a stalker rate is okay uh puffy send through tts and we'll we'll react to your

02:51:51.780 instagram okay well how about that uh we have non-stop munchies every time slow-mo speaks i can see the

02:52:00.100 hamsters inside her head working overtime trying to form a coherent sentence

02:52:08.180 i couldn't i couldn't sit in a room with her for free she's very pleasant okay my iq you're you're

02:52:13.700 right you could not sit in a room with me for freezer oh it's gonna cost shots non-stop munchies

02:52:22.980 shots fired shots fired are you saying you just you wouldn't i think i was pretty quick-witted with that

02:52:28.180 one oh non-stop munchies step it up man bring it on okay there you have it boom puffy vegas you know

02:52:36.980 what to do um all right where were we were talking about toxicity i think we got around the table fully

02:52:43.060 yeah on that is there something toxic that i like no any toxic behavior is abhorrent do not display any

02:52:52.020 toxic behaviors stochastic decay donated 99 dollars bryant breen bryon okay sorry i'm late

02:53:01.140 long day hey good to see you man clicking here welcome typing there stealing goldfish getting botox

02:53:08.180 functioning on xanux every day of my life is war anyway one in the chat if you want the dipsomaniac

02:53:15.780 known as puffy vegas on the show yo one in the chat if you want puffy vegas on the show we're

02:53:20.100 gonna make it yo i dm'd him and he never responded so he's i was heartbroken then he left me on red

02:53:25.620 um what is a dipsomaniac anybody google it anybody bueller okay nobody knows wow i don't know what do

02:53:35.620 you want to know tell us what you want to know i want to know what a dipsomaniac is okay i'm googling it

02:53:40.180 for you dipsomaniac all right we have uh okay all right we have uh oh alcoholism specifically in a

02:53:49.300 form characterized by intermittent bouts of craving for alcohol um so it's like going on benders

02:53:58.660 wait can you read it again it's just alcoholism specifically in a form characterized by oh okay

02:54:06.500 intermittent bouts bouts excuse me of craving for alcohol so i guess so yeah it's like it's like

02:54:13.060 going on benders and then being regular and yeah probably yeah drinking bender instead of just like

02:54:18.340 drinking like 10 beers every day you know something like that it's 10 beer that's are you an alcoholic

02:54:23.300 if you have 10 beers if you have more than two drinks a day i believe it might even be a week it's

02:54:29.060 very low okay all right there you have it folks there you have it okay we have let's see we're caught

02:54:35.620 up on all our chats we have what's it called wait shit where'd my nose go oh i want to go around the

02:54:44.260 table on this and this kind of uh stemmed from what a little bit what you were saying so have you ever

02:54:51.700 tested a guy so you did something intentional maybe even planned in advance to see how he would react

02:54:58.740 you tested him in some way yo ab check very good to see you in the chat man thank you very much for

02:55:04.820 the 20 gifted memberships really appreciate your support thank you man uh we're going to start with

02:55:08.340 you on this side and we're going to go around the table like this so have you ever tested a guy

02:55:14.980 i don't believe so maybe i'll need to hear some examples but live have you ever tested um in high

02:55:23.620 school i did me and my friends all like shared an account of a really pretty model that we actually

02:55:28.900 got permission from to use her photos by the way um and we tested my boyfriend first and he failed

02:55:35.220 and then we did not go to prom together how did you had like what so what did you do you dm'd him

02:55:40.980 and you're like hey cutie or yeah my friend mainly did the dming um she just kind of sent me

02:55:46.420 the screenshots but yeah she was flirting with him and actually got him to send nudes to the account

02:55:51.780 okay so you're testing yes of his small dick it could be testing for cheating it could be testing

02:55:58.100 just to like see how he would react in a situation i'm trying to yo chad would be the

02:56:06.660 anyone have some good examples that was a high school moment i mean i could give you one

02:56:11.940 this is somewhat related to i can understand what what you're saying yeah any type of behavior that

02:56:16.740 you're trying to find a reaction yeah i think in some other ways some women might test a guy by

02:56:26.100 like challenging him in some way not related to cheating but like uh like almost starting

02:56:33.860 either starting an argument or almost maybe insulting him even and seeing how you like seeing how much you

02:56:38.180 can get away with yeah it could be that it could be that what he says when he's mad yeah like testing

02:56:44.260 yeah uh oh okay yeah let me read a couple those uh should test to see if he would stand up for you

02:56:52.180 uh let's see disrespecting him and looking how he handles it from ww when she asks you if this makes

02:56:58.980 me look fat tell the blonde dude that he's wrong who's the blonde dude is it like when you have like

02:57:05.620 a specific reaction in mind that you want and if they don't do it then they like fail what's that

02:57:14.020 like if if you like set something up and there's like one specific reaction in mind that you're like

02:57:19.220 looking for yeah or like a good maybe it's not one specific but it's like a good you want to get a good

02:57:24.980 reaction and maybe he he does what's up we have a two-hour drive back do you know how much longer

02:57:31.940 not to be rude swear to god uh we we have we have an hour left and we are we are actually kidnapping

02:57:40.820 you so you are yeah you're kidnapped we are keeping you here uh i got snacks hi yes it's me

02:57:48.180 gum dio yeah we're gonna try to wrap at nine can you guys yeah yeah you're good can i get my fruit

02:57:55.300 snacks can i have some yeah what you got can i get my chips too like gummy bears you guys you guys can't

02:58:01.460 hold out for an hour you just asked for some of my coffee hold on one second one second gotta put a

02:58:08.420 stop to the sympademic slash simpocalypse uh we can get you water andrew wilson on your show to instill order

02:58:14.900 on these women i'd pay for you to have kiko and bangs versus andrew wilson on your show also brian

02:58:22.180 keep up your good work don't ever move to oahu yo being cheeks thank you man um yeah i don't think it

02:58:29.140 would make sense i considered moving the podcast to hawaii i don't think it would make sense to do that

02:58:33.300 it'd be a nice place to live but i don't think i'd be able to get the requisite number of guests

02:58:37.460 uh in hawaii it's pretty isolated um but uh cheeks thank you very much for your uh patronage tonight

02:58:43.700 man really good to see you back in the chat i have not heard of andrew wilson but uh kiko bangs

02:58:51.140 andrew wilson i'll try my best um i'll see what i can do thank you man appreciate it uh wait okay we

02:58:57.060 were going around on the testing thing hey josh josh thank you for the uh membership man appreciate it

02:59:02.980 uh going around the table on this so you you did the whole thing where you set up the dude like the

02:59:09.540 instagram account and it was a high school thing i probably wouldn't do that now i would just dump

02:59:13.540 him if i thought he was cheating what about you any tests i mean yeah i've done multiple like tests like

02:59:18.420 cheating tests and stuff like a lot of the tests that i do is like what's good intentions though

02:59:22.980 like surprising him with like redoing his whole room or whatnot or like is that a test it's like

02:59:29.140 like a good intention test or whatnot like to see if he's gonna get pissed off that i did it like if he

02:59:34.500 thinks i'm gonna be his mom if i like would you like it if he got pissed off no oh okay i'm just

02:59:40.420 trying to go because you said okay so that would be a fail of a test if he got upset at you for

02:59:45.140 rearranging his room yeah because then i wouldn't want to piss him off so what if but what if he liked

02:59:49.540 his room a certain way and you maybe it was nice of you to wait when you say rearrange his room like

02:59:57.700 you're moving his furniture and yeah so i'd be like i'd be like oh i'd be pissed off what the

03:00:02.020 fuck leave my shit where it is like more like moving furniture it's more like buying lights

03:00:07.940 buying like you know he like my ex wanted to be like an astronaut when he was a kid he wanted to

03:00:12.660 learn how to play guitar so i was like oh so what would happen if you like did get that stuff and

03:00:17.380 he'd be like i'd be really excited so i bought no i didn't i bought him i bought him a nebula

03:00:23.220 projector astronaut man playing a guitar because i was like you wanted to be an astronaut when you're a

03:00:27.220 kid you want to play guitar as a kid so i bought you ukulele and i bought you this and so like

03:00:32.500 i'd tell him beforehand be like what happens if i would have got you this and then he'd be like

03:00:37.620 oh you know i don't want you to get me that like it just makes me feel weird and i'd be like okay

03:00:41.300 that's a tame reaction i'm gonna get him it because maybe it'll make him feel better and so just like

03:00:45.700 i've done a bunch of tests like that so okay madison what about you i've tested like my ways of

03:00:51.860 communication with the guy but like like you said with good intentions kind of like if he were to

03:00:58.100 lie or do something wrong i would test oh yeah i would test the way of communication that i was

03:01:05.940 being like supportive and like nice about it or just like giving the cold shoulder about it like

03:01:10.580 seeing the reaction but give us an example like a concrete example like you would say something or

03:01:14.980 do something that was a test how would you test a guy i would test uh it's just like hard i like

03:01:21.620 can't say the like reason i might have one i like a most recent i don't know if this is like what

03:01:28.660 you're asking for or whatnot but like most recent was i felt this guy was like not telling the truth

03:01:34.580 like he was talking to me as if we want to be exclusive he said to be exclusive but like the feelings i got

03:01:39.460 and his actions didn't really match what he was saying and whatnot so what i did as a test i said

03:01:44.820 hey my friend and her man are having this situation and i basically explained it everything i was

03:01:50.180 feeling in the relationship and everything i saw him doing and how it made me feel and i was like in

03:01:55.060 your opinion as a man because i don't want to assume because i don't know him like that do you think

03:02:00.340 this and this is happening and most of the time they're like oh hell yeah oh hell yeah he's cheating

03:02:04.580 on her or something like that you know and then i'm like okay so you failed that test because

03:02:08.820 this is about you this is about us and you're basically agreeing and so i'm like okay well i'm

03:02:14.660 done so i've done like something like that i think i thought of one i'll test to see if you'll tell the

03:02:20.020 truth about something like if i already know what happened if i already know what happened and i

03:02:25.460 already know the truth one sec one sec look up the crucible on yeah thank you cheeks he's the best

03:02:31.380 debater that is not a politician i had him on my i think i've heard of him was amazing but i had to

03:02:36.740 censor myself due to him being on youtube so i choked until then great content and have him on

03:02:43.940 he won't disappoint i've heard of his channel i don't know if i've really seen much of his comment

03:02:48.740 but the name sounds familiar thank you for the recommendation cheeks nice oh can you just push

03:02:52.820 that madison there goes our thingamabob um what about you um yeah i'll do like a mini test if i feel

03:03:10.660 like something's not right oh i'll walk out of the bathroom and i'll be like oh so what's up with the

03:03:15.460 eyelashes in the in the garbage can and see how they react because if there's nothing going on they'll be

03:03:20.260 like what are you talking about there's no eyelashes but sometimes men you could just tell right off the

03:03:23.700 bat from their face would be like what are you what what there's no eyelashes and then you know

03:03:27.460 there was a potential for there to be i wait so you hid no i didn't hide anything but i'll just because

03:03:32.420 a lot of men don't throw their trash out it's known fact they especially in their bathroom i have found

03:03:36.740 so many things like just laying on the top of the garbage i'm not even looking through it so i'll just

03:03:40.740 come out and be like oh what's up with the makeup wipe in your in your garbage can it's only if i think

03:03:45.060 something's going on like really seriously think something is going on just to see the reaction

03:03:49.940 you could tell a lot by a person's damn yeah okay i had a girl do something like that actually did it

03:03:56.260 work um no well okay so i once had a girl i've been dating for what i think six months um she hit a pair

03:04:05.060 of panties near my bed in my bedroom and then like a little bit later on in the night she found them and

03:04:13.460 proceeds to confront me and acts like whose are these i've done that exact same thing it does work

03:04:20.580 it was clever but super fucking toxic and i was like bitch they're yours what the fuck yeah i didn't

03:04:26.820 call her a bitch and then and then i was like yo did you fucking plant those and she's she's like no

03:04:34.100 what the you're fucking cheating i'm like no what the like because i i think i had i'm very aware

03:04:41.300 of my bedroom like i i clean and shit i'm i clean my shit it's clean in my bedroom it's really good

03:04:47.700 kind of a german book um huh no but then uh i think i broke up with her like a week after because

03:04:53.940 i was like yeah this is this is the end i saw something like that it was like put a water bottle

03:04:59.860 i saw this online it was like put a water bottle in his car and then ask where it came from and like

03:05:05.780 if he's doing something or lying he'll like make up a story for it but if he's not he'll just like

03:05:11.220 be like i don't know donated 99 dollars yeah a guy has to make a year for you to be monogamous

03:05:17.460 okay it now seems a guy isn't if he doesn't make one mill a year hope blonde megan fox doesn't find

03:05:24.180 herself at 50 alone no kids married to a husband sleeping with all the 20 year old versions of her

03:05:30.020 who is blonde megan fox because we have two blonde women we have two blonde women here so

03:05:36.260 that's a compliment oh yeah uh gp we're gonna finish up on the test question then i'll i'll get to this

03:05:42.900 one uh how have you ever tested the guy all the time all the time many many occasions okay if if we

03:05:50.660 were date like i know how would you test me actually i don't know i never mind i want i don't i want

03:05:57.700 i don't know the panties thing is a good one like that's a classic you've done it before i've done

03:06:02.340 i've done that exact same thing before where i'll like put my panties somewhere and then be like

03:06:06.660 who the fuck are these you know what would be one step up from that if you got one of your girlfriends

03:06:12.660 like her panties and then you did it and if he questioned you like come on that's yours you're

03:06:16.820 like smell this shit motherfucker does that smell like me i don't think you know the difference between

03:06:23.380 my pussy and someone else's there's different sense okay there are different in a lot of

03:06:28.260 pussy in our line of work yeah i don't think come on there's differences there's differences i don't

03:06:34.180 know if like a man would be able to wait to know the difference though maybe you can but i don't

03:06:37.460 think other men we can tell men can tell there's different there's differences right yo let's ask

03:06:42.740 chat can you pull up the chat chat chat do some are there differences one in the chat if there's

03:06:50.420 differences you can tell that like there's different sense when it comes to pussy chat what

03:06:54.820 are they are there different sense can you describe them can i describe them yeah i'm a i'm a man of

03:07:02.260 god i'm not going to describe the the scent of a woman but i can tell you there's different sense

03:07:08.340 there's different sense ladies and gentlemen okay but yes i test them you test men what about you

03:07:14.580 oh uh just like have you ever tested the guy if so how honestly i don't think i have you know

03:07:21.060 like i've only had three boyfriends and the guy first one was six years and he was super super loyal

03:07:26.980 and then the next guy was six months next guy was six months and can you turn the mic and nothing

03:07:34.740 stands out to me that i remember off the top of my head what about you um i don't like to intentionally

03:07:41.620 set up tests the only thing i can really think of is like if i know someone is lying about

03:07:47.460 something i would probably like give them the opportunity um to either tell the truth or see

03:07:54.420 if the they lie okay all right she's done that i actually did the thing that you're talking about

03:08:02.420 where you have a fake girl dm them hell yeah my guy passed though and i was like damn that's

03:08:07.860 that's probably i was not expecting that there's no women watching this getting these terrible ideas

03:08:13.060 of things that you should do ladies do not don't don't don't do this oh yeah you're not a fan of

03:08:18.980 color daddy are you no do you have anything to say on that topic well i think it just relates to like

03:08:26.020 the toxic behaviors like they're not necessarily nice things okay all right not to say you weren't smart

03:08:33.380 for doing those tests but um but then again i think color daddy has like more extreme examples

03:08:40.260 yeah they have a shirt that says cheat on him for their merch a little toxic in my view

03:08:47.620 little you say that i've seen it oh you've seen them okay well gp in his chat before he was asking

03:08:54.660 minimum a guy has to make a year for you to be monogamous to me to everybody excuse me the whole panel

03:09:01.860 uh why don't we start with you and then we'll go around this way go ahead

03:09:07.700 um i feel like well i live in la so just like the standard of life i would probably say like

03:09:16.740 at least a hundred thousand to be able to support yourself you know i don't want to be supporting

03:09:22.820 anyone you think a hundred thousand is enough to live definitely not definitely not but to give you

03:09:27.380 monogamous i mean yeah i make money too so like to for me to consider it like that wouldn't be ideal

03:09:33.780 wait hold on and this is the question that he does ask it is minimum a guy has to make a year for you to be

03:09:40.980 monogamous to him so it's not clear to me right yesterday's price is not today's price i'm gonna say

03:09:47.940 like 250 000 but why why do you need to i feel like that's like enough to be able to like support

03:09:56.100 yourself to be able to do like i like to do activities like i like to take trips and go to

03:10:02.660 amusement parks and go to dinner and stuff and like i feel like those are like things that help build a

03:10:07.380 relationship too so i don't want to be having to support someone else i like want you to be able to

03:10:14.500 support yourself and be able to do nice things for me on occasion i'm just a little confused by the

03:10:20.260 question because shouldn't the question be minimal excuse me minimum a guy has to make a year for you

03:10:25.780 to be in a relationship with him i'm curious why the monogamous component i would say no it is

03:10:37.380 because i'm thinking like would so would is he are you trying to suggest

03:10:41.220 that it's less a guy has to make less or more if it's poly versus not monogamy i think it's just

03:10:50.340 if the woman is into poly relationships like how much would he have to make for for her not to be

03:10:56.020 in poly relationships and just be monogamous with him it's not clear to me for for women who are

03:11:00.660 polyamorous if the amount of money if the amount of money the guy makes is going to be the defining

03:11:07.300 factor and whether she wants to be yeah in a monogamous relationship more targeted towards

03:11:12.340 like women who make their own yeah yeah like if you want to come back to somebody that was my first

03:11:16.180 thought i wasn't like i my first thought was like that's not like a defining factor and i also don't

03:11:21.460 have like a number written down in my journal and in my head that i like have to check off but

03:11:26.500 i was just answering his question to the best of my ability no that's fine i i wasn't questioning you i

03:11:31.300 was more so just trying to parse the question a little better but since he asked it uh minimum

03:11:36.660 excuse me minimum a guy has to make a year for you to be monogamous like so that i like quit my job

03:11:44.420 or what do you mean just to be monogamous yeah because yeah they do adult content um

03:11:51.700 but i can still be monogamous and do oh i feel like you can still be monogamous and do certain types of

03:11:59.860 adult content i don't know if it's technically you might not well as far as like physically

03:12:05.780 interacting with other like or like physically hooking up with other people and having sex

03:12:10.100 like doing solo content or content yeah doing solo content doing content just with them like even when

03:12:14.980 i was a dancer i was in a miraculous monogamous relation monogamous got it you know i can't you know

03:12:22.500 i don't always talk that should be a new thing monogamous monobulus let's make it a word

03:12:28.100 monogamous but metropolis monogamous in the metropolis let's go

03:12:36.900 i'm not sure i think i have a warped view on money living in la yeah how much things cost in la it's

03:12:45.060 just way different the way of life there so i feel like to live super comfortably in la

03:12:51.540 you have to make around like 500 to 600 a day yeah what at least i'm gonna go ahead and lock that

03:12:59.700 comfortably to like be supporting a woman probably yeah 500 to 600k two people if you're supporting two

03:13:07.300 people yeah it's like two incomes but i said i have a warped view on reality living i mean i grew up in

03:13:13.380 san luis obispo and even in california everything's like way more expensive so i just have a different view

03:13:18.100 it's a high number but it's like the bare minimum would be like two or three hundred thousand and

03:13:24.020 that's to live in la for two people what about if you're in the valley puffy underscore vegas

03:13:29.300 donated 99 i think it's a little have all the girls all right so you have it 600 i not donating penny

03:13:35.700 more um okay so we have to be careful with his instagram because he posts okay um thank you puffy vegas

03:13:42.180 appreciate it puffy my brother just from the start though just do through stream labs because youtube

03:13:47.380 is uh is uh woke megacorp let's well okay whatever uh let's check out his instagram here so let's find

03:13:53.620 a good photo of him scroll down nick he mostly just hangouts with uh women in vegas oh yeah well the

03:13:59.620 kissing one let's look at the kissing one right there oh look at this giga chat hold on x out of there

03:14:06.740 wait wait nick nick wait wait wait click it click it click it again uh i want you to write a comment

03:14:12.340 and chat go to his instagram and you're going to write a comment on this post too

03:14:15.620 i want you to write this is what peak performance looks like you might not want to admit it but this

03:14:23.220 is what peak performance looks like we need to work on nick's words permit oh my the typo no i'm

03:14:30.260 i'm messing with you nick you're good this is what peak performance looks like

03:14:37.540 there yeah all right hard truth yeah post it all right all right there you go puffy vegas um let's

03:14:44.580 x out of that let's see scroll down a little bit uh scroll down uh pull up the one with the the woman

03:14:52.100 in the center there where he's kind of yeah that one oh uh can you move it over to the other side

03:15:00.260 who are i would be so mad if someone posted a picture of me like he's like android that's not

03:15:05.300 a good all right that okay uh x out of that one let's let's find a good uh up a little bit up a

03:15:13.700 little bit yeah that one no that one's got a good oh but why does she look were these taken on like

03:15:19.780 an android yeah like what were these taken on like a nokia yo can you uh x out of that one

03:15:26.100 is holding me at gunpoint to take this photo yes uh scroll down a little bit scroll down a little

03:15:29.620 bit okay uh can everyone else scroll down scroll down scroll down i'm so sorry okay the kissy one

03:15:41.700 the kissy one up up up up up up up oh that's a nice dress though it's pretty i wonder if you link

03:15:47.460 okay this is puffy vegas ladies this is puffy vegas on a scale of one to ten what do you rate him

03:15:56.820 here we'll start with you we'll go around the table

03:16:02.260 well first of all let's remember rating is subjective not objective but i'm gonna have

03:16:11.860 to give him like a 4.6 i plead the fifth she pleads the fifth i think i'm gonna plead the fifth on

03:16:23.540 this one just because they don't want to be rude i didn't even know we could do that

03:16:28.580 well i'm gonna not gonna rate him off of his appearance i'm gonna rate him off of how he's

03:16:31.700 been acting and i'm gonna give him a one because he spent six hundred dollars to do all this but said

03:16:36.740 he wouldn't spend any money on a woman so that's insane that's kind of bad that's that's like

03:16:41.860 insane he's like anti-simp okay well there's no reason why you can't spend money on a woman you

03:16:46.820 like doesn't mean you're but you're simping for you yeah he's like simping for you yeah

03:16:53.300 i'm not anti-simp by the way i don't think that's a straight man if you're spending

03:16:56.580 six hundred dollars on this but you won't spend it on a woman he's gay for you smart yeah he's

03:17:00.420 smart he's he's a patron you can be a sim he is supporting the creative arts he's homosexual he

03:17:06.100 is i don't think i don't think that's the case yes he's a patron all my fans are also supporting

03:17:11.060 the creative arts thank you i love you okay madison what about you solid four oh my man okay two

03:17:21.540 i also give a one on behavior because you just paid so much money to insult us when we don't

03:17:26.420 give a literally you're still real for that you have a uh two you asked for puffy vegas they gave

03:17:36.100 you the rating there you have it speaking of ratings we have stifler here ask everyone to rate

03:17:40.580 their looks on a scale of one to ten that's a crazy question it's the golden question the golden

03:17:47.700 question so we'll go around the table on that starting with you go ahead i'm always first huh

03:17:54.260 in order um you know what if i like like got a blowout and a spray tan and i'm like styled i would

03:18:05.300 say i'm like i could push into nine plus territory plus i have a really good personality i'm a nice girl

03:18:12.660 okay nine plus um i would say like eight for me

03:18:20.340 i'm gonna say in la seven i'm from alabama i'm gonna say in alabama 12. real that's real

03:18:28.500 it depends where you're at yeah i would say la i'm definitely seven at best what are you in mobile mobile

03:18:34.740 mobile mobile mobile alabama i did not live there now i lived in a way tinier town what are you in

03:18:41.780 you wouldn't even know okay well in the tiny town you're 12 but like come on mobile alabama let's

03:18:45.540 talk mobile i've only been there one time let's talk mobile though what are you what are you in

03:18:49.540 mobile i don't remember the girls there i'm probably i would still probably be like an eight

03:18:53.460 okay nine there maybe what's the other city you know montgomery montgomery there's montgomery

03:18:58.820 montgomery definitely i'd be a 12s i was about to say savannah but that's georgia that's georgia

03:19:07.460 auburn yeah where i'm from 12 out of 10 tuscaloosa tuscaloosa alabama a couple times

03:19:14.260 so that's a sublime that's part of it i would say like a nine there maybe a nine in tuscaloosa

03:19:19.460 wordy girl vibes there so i don't know okay all right my dad flies choppers

03:19:28.820 um i would say an eight okay i saw an eight uh with my glasses a five without my glasses a six

03:19:39.620 i would say like eight and a half i just wanted to do a 0.5 for no reason

03:19:48.100 okay um i'm a super average person i believe so six however i did get a boob job two weeks ago so

03:19:55.460 i think i deserve to go up half a point yeah or come on no no i'm half a point i might i might go

03:20:02.500 down depending on depends on the guy i guess well who's a fan of plastic surgery that might deduct me

03:20:06.900 even two points who knows okay oh ask everyone uh six i give myself six all right cool thank you

03:20:14.180 thank you uh puffy vegas for that we have oh i think we're good on there we are caught up on that

03:20:22.100 oh we have brandon mills donated 99 dollars rate me him down like 100 grand at this point

03:20:29.700 also see you chads in november our hashtag brandon is back yeah what's up brandon hey good to see you

03:20:34.820 in the chat man um you gotta hit the threshold um but uh hey good to see you in the chat man

03:20:39.620 you're a legend thank you appreciate it uh i had a question related to this wait okay we were gonna

03:20:44.980 mr puffy vegas i forgot what it was it was uh it slipped my mind um for those of you who do adult

03:20:53.620 content i guess youtube primarily um do you know what your uh work body count is oh hold on stochastic

03:21:02.900 decay donated 99 dollars stochastic decay doesn't think these women have ever met a real man

03:21:10.020 puffy owns his masculinity these women are intimidated by his apex testosterone levels

03:21:16.740 w in the chat for puppy that's called delusion that's him on another account

03:21:20.500 the lulu that's called delusion simping for puffy i love it yo stochastic thank you very much for the

03:21:26.100 tts man much appreciated uh we answered that remember she said over 100 and i said around

03:21:32.580 30. oh well i was asking scenes work wise i would say less than that um are we kind of girls too

03:21:38.820 girls too or only guys uh maybe can you differentiate so this is how many guys this is how many women

03:21:44.740 for guys i would say it's the same people over and over honestly i would say like 30

03:21:49.460 at most girls i think it's more just because there's so many girls it's like oversaturated but

03:21:56.660 probably like 50 girls and like 30 at max guys okay um 30 wait so more women than men yeah 50 girls

03:22:09.300 about 30 yeah because you said you shoot with a lot of like the same guys right yeah okay like there's

03:22:16.340 threesomes and stuff where like girls are in the scene too so then like that counts too okay what

03:22:21.540 about you um how many guys would you say for me 20 i'd say 15 to 20 guys okay and then double yeah

03:22:31.540 double that for girls yeah for those of you both of you and then the other girls who do adult content

03:22:37.540 do you think having done only fans or porn adult whatever whatever adult content do you think it's

03:22:47.060 had a negative or a positive impact on your romantic prospects positive positive

03:22:56.820 positive

03:22:59.460 not even sure i feel like it's positive it's never an issue in my relationship is the thing for the men

03:23:04.820 yeah it's never an issue remind you did say that you are um or you are not attracted to or you

03:23:11.860 attract the wrong men yeah yeah they're they have no issue with my career and you said that you

03:23:17.700 based on your like childhood and things you've gone through not wait am i not understanding the

03:23:23.700 question i would say what is the question positively i'm way more confident sexually like before i ever did

03:23:31.060 porn i was definitely way more nervous and now i'm just like really really comfortable with my body

03:23:35.540 and i know what i'm doing so in my real life guys love that so i'm able to have like a hold on guys

03:23:42.580 yeah over girls that aren't as secure and sex yeah do you think that when it comes to like having

03:23:52.260 long-term relationships though that that's a primary focus for men oh no i just think that's just a

03:23:59.860 positive thing that's coming from it okay but i mean like in terms of your romantic prospects

03:24:05.300 like you've never encountered a guy who had qualms with the fact that you do or did porn i think doing

03:24:12.260 porn opened up like within the past like year and a half of my life like has opened up so many doors

03:24:18.100 for me and i've gotten to travel career right well no just even in just like making memories and life

03:24:23.940 experiences of just like meeting people that like i used to like on the internet when i was like 15

03:24:29.380 like watching like youtubers and stuff like i've gotten to like be introduced into like a social

03:24:34.660 media world of like meeting all these people that i used to watch growing up and without doing porn i

03:24:39.700 would have never gotten to like have these experiences well i'm not you might have opportunities you might

03:24:48.340 have made a lot of good money but the question is when it comes to your romantic prospects

03:24:52.820 is it positive or negative that you're involved in honestly i've never had a guy have an issue with

03:25:00.420 it and i've only been definitely like the people that i've only been in it for a year and a half

03:25:04.740 i definitely i would say most men that i've at least dated like had an issue with it but it helps

03:25:11.060 weed out the insecure guys and the guys who like aren't able to handle it and so guys are insecure if

03:25:16.420 they don't want to be to date someone who has done i wouldn't say you're insecure maybe insecure was

03:25:22.740 the wrong word but like if you're not open-minded enough to like understand that that's how i make

03:25:29.140 money and like i already had a career like i've already like been doing this for a while then it's

03:25:35.060 like i'm weeding out the ones who just can't handle it who aren't like uh i don't know if you finished up

03:25:40.260 everything on yeah yeah live that's oh she doesn't she doesn't do that i feel like oh you don't

03:25:45.700 people okay okay right all right but you're thinking about us you're thinking about starting

03:25:51.300 is that correct yeah i wouldn't be i probably wouldn't do porn personally but like i would just

03:25:56.340 do you know yeah the the reason i bring it up and i don't know if you guys saw this um recently this

03:26:01.940 went pretty viral on i mean i definitely on twitter maybe it reached uh spread out elsewhere uh i don't

03:26:09.460 know if you guys are familiar with trace cyrus yes miley cyrus is yeah yeah i thought it was so

03:26:14.980 funny miley cyrus is uh older brother i think older older brother uh he went from metro station of

03:26:24.100 yes from metro station he went super viral nick if you could pull up the yeah uh could you click on

03:26:29.540 that so it's a little bigger i didn't even read all of it but i got the gist and i replied

03:26:33.620 nick can you control mouse wheel to make it a little

03:26:39.700 dude brandon melz donated 999 dollars thank you brother what a fucking giga chat look at this

03:26:47.300 giga chat also real question for the girls what got you guys into it in the first place and do you have

03:26:54.660 a backup plan if it doesn't work out in the long run yo dude brandon melz thank you very much for your

03:27:00.260 very generous patronage show after show reigns the world i have a good answer all right we got

03:27:04.980 i don't know if the girls are going to want to happen 21 you're more than welcome uh do you guys

03:27:11.540 want to answer brandon melz's question while i get this opened my thing is that i didn't get into only

03:27:16.660 fans i was doing porn before only fans so that was just already kind of like a obvious decision to like

03:27:22.980 do only fans and i don't know what you mean by like a backup plan like my life isn't ruined because i

03:27:31.060 put my pussy on there yeah my life i just bought a house like i'm good like what got you into porn

03:27:37.380 that's a long story but tinder tinder got me tinder long did you have a pimp or something no i had i

03:27:43.860 matched with a guy who was a performer in miami and i lived in alabama at the time going to college

03:27:49.380 and he just like got me into porn he wasn't really like a pimp but he was just like a performer

03:27:53.860 in miami and then i just started doing porn from that long story but that's how i got in

03:28:00.660 but yeah i wouldn't say i need like a backup plan like i don't know i save money like i'm not

03:28:05.540 stupid with money that's what they were trying to ask like even if i stopped working right now i'd

03:28:10.340 be fine i think for the rest of my life did i forget how to open the bottle they're honestly

03:28:15.620 really hard to personally i take it i would not point it at the camera or any other yeah you

03:28:20.980 shouldn't oh don't point the camera can you show the cat i think the other guy should open it

03:28:26.420 the one that you pop it doesn't want to open did everybody else uh oh my god sorry it's not

03:28:33.220 opening bro can i eat this popcorn if you want did everyone get to answer the question no no what

03:28:45.060 what got you into any fans bro it's not opening

03:28:48.580 it's gonna like explode though oh goodness please set it a little more upright i would not open it

03:28:56.980 right there oh yeah that's sketch no i've done everything right i've opened these without an issue

03:29:03.540 before live's gonna end because he ruins a lot of electronics oh god oh no this is scary here

03:29:09.780 don't point it don't point it at me just keep it pointed all right i don't know wait wait don't

03:29:16.180 oh okay okay bro i swear okay i swear i was doing everything right i don't know why does anybody

03:29:24.980 want champagne oh no no thanks all right i'm gonna get fucking sloshed then all right do you want

03:29:33.620 i'm not gonna leave you hanging all right thank you i only have a sip though i just had surgery sure

03:29:37.380 i'll pour you a cup yo brandon melz thank you thank you appreciate it um no well i mean you could it's

03:29:43.380 probably just not the best idea i'm not taking any he's asking what so what got you guys into

03:29:47.460 if in the first place i don't know if you answered i said porn got me into only fans i didn't i don't

03:29:53.540 just like do only fans like i did porn oh what got me into only fans was my back and forth ex finally

03:30:00.340 said that if i got into only fans that he would never date me so i was like bet perfect so i got onto

03:30:05.460 it and if i'm using only fans as a way to invest into my career into other things so yeah wait you

03:30:14.500 you started only fans so he wouldn't date you yeah so he wouldn't come back to me and he still came

03:30:19.460 back but at that point it was been so long that i was like dude i couldn't just like say no i think

03:30:25.620 no it was back and forth like i kept saying now but we get back together and so it was one of those

03:30:29.780 things that i like solidified it it was like you make this this is where you're going then he wouldn't

03:30:34.820 come back yeah but he still came back and he was like hey and i was like nope spicy sprite all right

03:30:42.420 the smell of alcohol is in ptsd sorry it's all right you wanted one right i'll take one thank you

03:30:48.740 i just wanted to be a part of the cheers yeah celebration mr brandon melz was very generous so

03:30:58.340 uh for those of you who are participating uh cheers to mr brandon melz thank you very much for your

03:31:05.780 very generous patronage salut they're checked out okay we have

03:31:16.580 we have flan life here i'm gonna hop on the insecurity train as well rate me on the scale

03:31:22.900 of one to ten i'm around six foot five but i'm a ginger and he's not said anything nasty or mean

03:31:30.100 i can work with this show so um how does it work that's a recessive trait right so if i'm

03:31:37.460 i don't thinking a little bit no no like like i don't have any gingers and on my side of family so

03:31:44.260 i mean my kids won't be ginger not that there's anything wrong with that but what's wrong with

03:31:49.060 being ginger i don't know well some people yeah they don't like is he have a soul well there we go

03:31:57.060 he's implying that that might i'm not saying that i'm just saying i've heard it less on the scale

03:32:03.700 oh we were doing the trace thing that's what we were doing before the the uh pop do you guys

03:32:07.940 want to rate here want to rate flan life he's six five but he's a gender just throw out a rating if you

03:32:13.060 want six five ginger i'm giving you eight without knowing what you look like yeah like starting six

03:32:20.420 seven seven okay uh let's pull up the trace thing and i'll continue reading that oh yeah

03:32:32.260 are you able to um i don't think here just go go back to normal and i'll just

03:32:36.420 i'll read it i'll squint oh there we go that's better yeah so this is from chase cyrus mali cyrus's

03:32:41.940 brother there's so many girls that do only fans that have lost their chance of ever settling down

03:32:45.940 with a good guy with morals they will try and call those men insecure for having standards they get a

03:32:51.460 lot of attention from guys on of so they think they have options but any guy who is so desperate to

03:32:56.580 see sexual content they are willing to pay for it is a desperate loser a lot of successful guys will

03:33:02.260 sleep with those girls but they don't want to wife them i see a lot of these girls speaking out on

03:33:07.220 this now saying they can't get a serious relationship it's because men see the value in

03:33:11.140 those girls strictly for sex they don't look at those women and equate their value as a future wife

03:33:16.420 mother or loyal partner i know some amazing girls that are genuinely good people that do of

03:33:21.940 i just think this independent mindset of needing a man is extremely toxic and leads to a very lonely

03:33:28.180 future i hope more girls continue to speak up about this so other girls know the risk of getting into it

03:33:34.180 having a good man in the family will bring you more happiness in old age than of ever could scroll

03:33:40.100 down just a little more so this got like 14 million views uh on twitter it got a bunch of a lot of

03:33:45.860 people responding to it um kind of went a little viral um and he also did a little video too why don't

03:33:52.820 we just watch the video and then i'll have the girls react to uh just the general statement in the video

03:33:57.700 it's just the next tab over it's always the little dick oh yapping away it's the what it's always the

03:34:04.660 little dick men that are yapping away what do you what what's how do you what's the thing with the

03:34:12.340 little dick that is a crazy thing to just be so mad about like i don't think he's mad but if you're

03:34:18.580 thinking about it that much to make a twitter post like you're like i mean you're insecure or you're

03:34:24.420 jealous do you have twitter though yeah i have twitter i mean what do you mean if you make a

03:34:28.820 tweet about like that was a long ass paragraph novel of like let me tell you what i think about

03:34:34.660 people who don't affect me like how are we affecting you in any way whatsoever probably took

03:34:38.900 him like two minutes to write that i mean it's just the energy that went into that is like that's

03:34:44.340 like why are you even speaking yeah like why like what is the point of that it's like you either

03:34:48.900 wanted attention for that or like you are really fired up so yeah like i don't even know who that

03:34:53.940 is other than miley yeah like i've never heard of him other than that so he's got a band he should

03:34:59.300 have just left us never shake shake it that song because that was a banger but it's like if we're

03:35:03.780 not that's him yeah that's trace exactly can you sing it exactly it's like sure i'll play ball

03:35:11.380 you know it's like shake shake shake shake shake i don't think that was once you get copyright on

03:35:16.900 that that was that was beautiful that was that was thank you that was great i'm multi-talented

03:35:22.900 very multi-talented i just think it's so weird to like care about something that much about people

03:35:27.460 who aren't affecting you yeah in any way whatsoever like it's just kind of weird it's weird behavior

03:35:33.140 like what i think that's kind of like i think it affects like society right dating in society

03:35:39.300 that's why he probably but so many shared his opinion you know and he like and it's completely

03:35:45.060 okay to talk about it i mean i don't think there's anything wrong i think he's trying to imply that

03:35:48.900 modern dating is so skewed now and he could have just said that yeah and he basically is dating

03:35:55.060 anyone what's his relationship and you know and you were talking about it that um

03:35:58.660 um of is so oversaturated now like yeah with so much and um so many girls are thinking like it's

03:36:06.260 okay for them because everyone else is doing it they can make money right yeah and and guys i think

03:36:11.140 are seeing it um they're evolving in a bad way as well where it's just like normal now yeah which i

03:36:16.900 don't think it was always meant to be normal but like going into saying that like you can't be a mother

03:36:21.460 or a wife is like yeah i just really just inaccurate some things might be okay for some people while other

03:36:28.500 people they aren't like okay for so it's just taking such like a broad stance on something that's

03:36:34.340 like much more complicated my stance behind it is um if you want to be like monogamous then i obviously

03:36:41.860 i don't think that you can find that in someone that's done sex work um just because of like i was

03:36:47.140 talking about earlier like the devalue of it i believe like if you want to wife a sex worker if you

03:36:53.860 want to wife a sex worker um they should be okay with you cheating or whatever you're like you don't

03:37:00.500 want a um monogamous relationship correct yeah like you're okay with but you're saying like even

03:37:06.100 after you're like not working yeah they don't deserve a monogamous relationship like there are

03:37:11.860 i'm not saying you don't deserve a monogamous relationship that's a conversation people don't

03:37:15.540 expect it yeah i don't think you should expect monogamy when you from like an ex sex worker or like a

03:37:21.060 current sex worker just sex work in in general i think she's saying both but yeah like if i quit

03:37:26.500 porn right now i should expect a man to cheat on me because i've done porn not to expect that he would

03:37:32.420 cheat on you i just i don't see how you could see a problem with it like you should be able to

03:37:38.100 i don't know if i don't know if i agree with that people can move past their porn and only these days

03:37:43.060 yeah especially in this day and age like it's not like it's nothing and your man's having sex with

03:37:48.100 someone else i don't i don't think if a girl like previously did sex work that and she quits and then

03:37:54.580 she gets into a monogamous relationship with the guy i don't think that gives the guy carte blanche

03:38:00.020 permission to no i'm not saying like that's on the terms of your relationship but i do i mean i think

03:38:06.340 what he's trying to get at is like your future husband and children are not going to appreciate that

03:38:11.460 there's naked photos of you on the internet don't get over i feel like it's fair and important to

03:38:16.100 have an understanding of like because you have that career path like certain people are not going

03:38:22.500 to be able to deal with that or like people are going to handle it differently and it's unfair to

03:38:26.740 expect that they don't but i don't think that it makes you know having a monogamous relationship

03:38:32.420 impossible for someone i mean there's there's there's so there's like so many people that

03:38:37.620 are together are married maybe they do only fans with their partner that are monogamous like there's

03:38:45.300 so many examples of that not being the case to just like act like that's so it's so broad like

03:38:51.460 to act like that's a hundred percent the truth is just false well in the porn industry i would say

03:38:56.580 probably 70 percent of the performers are married with children so like it's not like oh my god you did

03:39:02.820 porn like you're never gonna have a family whatever like i would say most of the people in porn have a

03:39:07.140 family and like also i feel like the people that do work in the sex industry aren't attracting the

03:39:12.180 people that care about it you know what i mean yeah you'll find the partner that's meant for you

03:39:17.300 well no they're not like dating they're not like married to people in the industry like they're

03:39:21.380 married to like normal people yeah i mean some of them are but i'm just saying like they wouldn't

03:39:25.140 care about it which is why they're fine and have a happy family and everything like that right

03:39:30.420 wait okay okay i mean i guess the ramification would be is like there is you can at least acknowledge

03:39:36.900 that there's a risk for example with bullying if i mean you know young kids are brutal oh your mom

03:39:44.980 they find the mom's photos videos whatever there's also a risk for bullying if you're a ginger too you

03:39:52.180 know like there's a risk for bullying if you're poor or if you have braces like yeah sure especially like

03:40:00.100 like but like it's gonna be super brutal to like a public inner city school like i don't know i mean

03:40:07.860 kids brains are like cement whatever falls on them will make an impression kids will find something to

03:40:12.580 bully someone about no matter what like of course you would try and protect your child right from that

03:40:18.260 that's fine that's fine that's fine you've made your decisions but that with with any sort of decision

03:40:24.980 whether it's related to sex work or not there's going to be there can be consequences to those

03:40:30.340 sorts of decisions of course so but then it's like the money goes into it where it's like okay

03:40:35.860 and it's like the intelligence that you have to like be able to raise a child hold on just a sec

03:40:42.180 oh it's not going to trigger i can am i the bama girl oh right because she said the little dick thing

03:40:47.300 okay loose loose energy from bama girl she's projecting hard ps i'm not puffy does puffy's vernacular

03:40:53.380 include words like dipsomaniac in his repertoire puffy is such a chad that he doesn't even spell

03:40:59.540 check um l in the chat for the incest states roll eagle roll eagle is incorrect it's war eagle or roll

03:41:06.740 tide so yeah i've heard of one thing is that the first thing i should acknowledge i don't know is there

03:41:12.260 is it roll eagle even a thing it's maybe war eagle or roll tide so first of all okay there you have

03:41:18.660 it there you have it remember anything you said i don't care what do you guys think about the term

03:41:23.060 like big dick energy small dick energy i don't know what that means i don't use it yeah i don't

03:41:29.140 really use it yeah i am i am very much against the terms big dick energy and small dick energy

03:41:37.380 because because i think the reverse would be upsetting like if i was just like talking about

03:41:41.540 loose energy and i think i use it i use it for both men and women i just use it doesn't matter if

03:41:47.220 like if they're acting like like like childish or immature in some sort of way you say they have

03:41:53.700 what what do they have energy if they're being a child like and they're in like immature or whatever

03:41:59.220 i'll say that but it's not something i go for because to me that it doesn't really make sense

03:42:04.420 the okay wording of it yeah the wording of it yeah like big dick energy small big energy i'm like

03:42:11.220 okay like i don't get an insult from that i'm just like okay like saying loose energy like doesn't

03:42:17.460 yeah i'm just like like i'm pretty sure though like a lot of people who would find loose pet

03:42:22.980 pussy energy offensive yeah i just are fine like you're only gonna be bothered by that if it like

03:42:29.380 applies to you and that's something that you are worried about already no not necessarily you can just

03:42:36.100 in the same like i'm six foot one but i don't like it when women make fun of short men it doesn't

03:42:41.860 mean i'm short oh you said you don't like it or you do i don't i don't like it when women make fun of

03:42:47.220 short men so it's like a solidarity thing but i'm six foot one i don't really have right stake in the

03:42:53.700 short guy yeah but if someone was like oh you're short it wouldn't affect you at all because you know

03:42:58.580 you should at least stay for the trays thing by the way it's been very rude that you've been checking

03:43:03.140 your phone this entire show i didn't realize that it was so long i'm sorry well you did i mean i

03:43:08.500 know i wanted to go on but we didn't know it was gonna be four hours i'm so sorry you requested to

03:43:12.820 be on the show i know and didn't you say it was only at eight you said one more hour at 8 48.

03:43:18.660 well i mean as a con not a concession but we were going to try to wrap up around nine

03:43:26.340 but we go typically the shows we go for four and you guys were 30 minutes late too so we delayed our

03:43:31.140 started a little bit but yeah i mean i have no excuse i have no excuse for that if you go to the

03:43:37.140 channel that episode adam was on was five hours so if you gotta go like you gotta go but i'm sorry

03:43:46.100 it's not even so it's not so upsetting that you have to leave it's just like you've been checked

03:43:49.780 out for the past hour you've been on your phone like pissy about the fact that we're going late

03:43:53.460 even though you requested to be on the show not pissy i just have like a social battery

03:43:57.700 and my social battery gets fried or i like i need food if you gotta talk you gotta i mean

03:44:04.020 my social battery gets like fried where it's like at the beginning i'm like checked in and i'm able

03:44:08.260 to like take part in the debates but like i reach a point where my social battery where it's like i just

03:44:13.780 can't even okay we also did a shoot today just it's still it's still rude to be checking your phone

03:44:18.580 but like that that's that's fine life goes on yep good meeting you guys all right take off

03:44:24.900 later thank you for your time thanks for having us bye nice to meet you drive safe thank you

03:44:34.180 uh let's uh well we we can't have you guys linger in the back of the studio if you're leaving midway

03:44:39.060 through so i mean we need you to just like we need you out you can't just be lingering we need

03:44:43.460 you out of the studio guys now i have so much space i guess we could yeah can we scoot down because

03:44:51.460 there's corners so yeah we'll we'll scoot people around okay alexa wait what's the place

03:44:57.460 screaming if we only have 10 minutes left i can be like here and all the way over here and i can be

03:45:02.580 like what's up what's up choose a different chair every time yeah i can really kick that

03:45:16.180 sorry yeah they were they were uh they were saying a little kind of whispering under their breath as

03:45:22.900 they were leaving but i honestly i should call out sooner they were she was fucking checking her phone

03:45:27.300 i should have called it out sooner but i thought you were gonna i was like okay i'll let her oh fuck i'll

03:45:32.100 let her let it slide one more time whatever and then i just was in no conversation i should have

03:45:36.580 checked it sooner uh she was super rude like well here let's take her fucking shit out of instagram i

03:45:42.340 mean uh out of the fucking show i mean they're talking as they're leaving they're fucking

03:45:48.020 she's checked out the entire show she's rude at the beginning i try to make things cool but

03:45:52.500 and they were 30 minutes late what's up can i be here now yeah that's fine i think maybe we

03:45:57.140 try to readjust something um yo can you scroll down yeah i mean look they it's crazy because they

03:46:04.900 requested to be on the show they uh i'm pretty sure they probably got linked up with adam uh because

03:46:12.100 adam is her management i guess adam's been on the show we do like the shows are three four five hours

03:46:18.420 long they should they were 30 minutes late so i i think we started the show a little bit on i don't

03:46:25.540 know whatever and then she was rude during there and she's checking her phone when we specifically

03:46:29.940 instructed her not to do it i was just trying to let it slide because i didn't want to get in a

03:46:33.060 fucking another argument with her especially normally i would check that shit if a girl's checking

03:46:38.100 the phone that much but we already i don't know if some of you guys are just tuning in major

03:46:42.020 fucking argument before so i was like it i'm gonna just let it slide whatever i'm just gonna

03:46:45.700 bite my tongue but all right out the description you guys fucking go like i'm not if you're just

03:46:51.300 gonna fucking be rude about it so it's funny too i was actually gonna try to wrap energy what's that

03:46:58.660 i just felt the energy when they walked in what do you mean like they were being a little rude while

03:47:03.460 i was doing pre-show too were they a little bit they just like weren't listening like oh they were on

03:47:09.300 their phone okay so one thing i'd tell you madison so i'm like when you're doing the pre-show

03:47:14.420 instructions i'm like handling the cameras i'm not paying attention to so like you have the

03:47:19.940 authority here yeah but then i and then i just stopped until they like put their head up and then

03:47:24.340 yeah yeah no feel free madison like you have the authority to be like yo yo shut the up pay attention

03:47:29.620 get off your fucking phone no i'm giving you that like you can you can tell them to like get in

03:47:34.100 fucking line don't like if you're i specifically said hey madison has to go over some pre-show

03:47:38.820 information please give her your attention yeah and then so hello super rude okay um puffy underscore

03:47:47.700 vegas donated 99 dollars every girl i met gives me a 10 out of 10. i will pay for a girl cause if

03:47:55.220 she like you don't have two it's funny that you didn't notice the thousands of girls on my page

03:48:01.060 many of them are creators every girl you meet is like drunk a toughie and just like yeah i know i

03:48:09.380 just what is he talking about i just wanted to be able to talk to my friend okay um i'll try to wrap

03:48:14.500 through i don't know i'll try to wrap through should i move to that seat no what we're gonna

03:48:20.660 there's a lot of room over here now it's fine i was trying to wrap up anyways i know we're a little

03:48:23.940 jam-packed on this side i have run it i'll i'll maybe i'll do the i want to see it it's okay i'll

03:48:33.220 okay i mean i can look it up on my own time but i might forget let me ask here let's ask chat chat

03:48:38.900 do you want to watch the video it's like a 45 second video from trace cyrus he's just talking about

03:48:43.380 the only fans thing that he read up

03:48:45.300 chat one in the chat if you want to see the trace cyrus video it's 45 seconds okay

03:48:57.300 yeah let's let's watch it actually we might try to have trace on the show we'll see um

03:49:03.940 really mm-hmm you can play it and then you can have him sing this shake exactly exactly go ahead

03:49:11.060 i can do backup shake shake all right can you so i basically broke the internet by saying the

03:49:15.620 most logical statement ever i have tmz e-news all these blog sites over 10 million views on my

03:49:23.460 fucking twitter post which i really don't even use twitter anymore i didn't post this to cause people

03:49:29.460 to freak out or anything i thought what i said was pretty much common sense and everyone knew this

03:49:33.860 i said no fucking good-hearted man with morals wants to wife a girl who's posting her naked body

03:49:39.860 online for the entire world to see doing sexual acts on the internet like this shit's vile it's

03:49:46.020 gross it's disgusting like how is this controversial in any way at no other time in human history with

03:49:52.100 what i said would anyone be offended by nobody would give a fuck like up until three years ago until the

03:49:58.980 pandemic and everybody just resorted to doing only fans as a career nobody would have cared that i said

03:50:04.420 this at all i stand by everything i said i don't care what anybody thinks uh so okay that was the

03:50:10.980 video that was in response to his viral tweet uh opening up to the panel your thoughts on actually

03:50:18.340 yeah let's start with you go ahead you got you got scooted into the table a little more though

03:50:23.860 um you know like he's entitled to his opinion i feel like there's obviously a lot of people that agree

03:50:31.860 with that and that's okay um i think you know he's stating a lot of those things like they're fact

03:50:37.700 when it's like super debatable um aside from that i i this is the first time i've i've saw it i didn't

03:50:45.620 know it broke the internet um i guess thank you for sharing travis trace what's his name trace trace

03:50:52.900 thank you for sharing and also i love that metro station song man next time bring it back i want

03:51:00.660 to see you perform that that would make me happy yeah any reaction to the video agree disagree um

03:51:11.380 i mean everybody has their opinion i feel like there's people that probably agree with him i just

03:51:15.140 think it's corny when people take it to the internet because then it just feels like you just want clout

03:51:18.420 because i feel like you can talk about that with whoever you want to talk about it with and you

03:51:22.820 can feel that way but why are you doing the most on the internet like why are you posting something

03:51:26.740 on twitter it's kind of just corny like it's like why do you think every do you think women should not

03:51:31.940 post on the internet about abortion it's kind of extra don't you think i just think the whole thing is

03:51:36.420 extra i mean i mean abortion applies to them you know like he seems to be more fired up and passionate

03:51:44.260 about this subject than me and it directly applies to me you know i mean like i'm not trying to

03:51:49.060 force or like my opinions on other people i don't need other people to like agree with me or have some

03:51:54.260 type of like stance that you know like i i'm not trying to convince anybody like i know how i feel

03:52:00.020 and like that's okay with me here let's let the other girls weigh in on this do you have anything

03:52:05.060 i was just gonna like respond to what she said like he's just doing it for clout but don't you think

03:52:10.340 every girl who does only fans is posting pictures for clout and for money no it's it's a monetary

03:52:16.820 thing you know like promote doesn't pay the bills but why is that's an i'm gonna be i love you madison

03:52:23.060 that's an l take what if someone has a position on something they're just doing it for clout

03:52:30.660 no i wasn't saying i'm not saying that you think the girls but you said he's doing it for clout

03:52:36.100 i know i didn't say that if he was oh i didn't say that okay so i misunderstood my bad what she

03:52:41.860 said that she she was just saying that he's posting these things on the internet just for

03:52:46.100 clout i'm i'm just saying don't you think only friends girls who post their bodies on the internet

03:52:50.420 are doing it for clout too but so do you i agree with what he says okay okay end of discussion okay

03:53:00.340 i mean i respect his opinion and whatnot i don't think it's i i don't yeah i mean i can respect

03:53:05.540 his opinion and share a different one at the same time two truths could be universal um but

03:53:10.180 at the same time i don't think he's speaking fact it's his own opinion and he has every right to say

03:53:15.300 anything about it but you know it's it's whatever it doesn't affect me it's not any big deal for me

03:53:21.380 it's just not my type then move on down the line live um i would say i kind of agree and disagree

03:53:30.500 a little bit because he said multiple things but i don't think that if somebody had an only

03:53:36.180 fans or porn that they are just ruined and they're just never going to find a good man i think that

03:53:40.980 there are men out there that are like i don't care about your past like i want to be with you

03:53:45.540 um a lot more men are like not okay with the current only fans and porn and i understand that too

03:53:51.540 so i see both sides but i do not think that somebody is just never going to find a man because

03:53:57.460 she current like had only fans before like that's kind of just a shitty way of thinking he said it

03:54:03.300 himself in a statement he knows only fans girls that are really good girls like really exactly yeah

03:54:07.860 so like you know at that point it's just how the men are and taking that information and what they're

03:54:13.940 going to pass their judgments on and i think it's right that he says like in the future it will affect

03:54:19.060 your kids and things like that i think that depends on your situation for sure

03:54:22.980 there's a lot of things that are sure but i'm not like you know like screaming online like

03:54:29.940 everything that's going to affect children i mean there's so many things that can affect kids

03:54:37.540 i guess in retrospect men really do care about your past and that's just i guess he's more trying

03:54:43.860 to empower the men should we care about some men yeah yes women do care about men's past

03:54:49.460 i said should be and then so women just have zero preferences standards and boundaries for men

03:54:55.380 like let's not kid ourselves women are incredible hold on women are incredibly selective over the

03:55:00.500 kinds of men that they're going to date that they're going to fuck and that they're going to marry

03:55:04.020 he needs to be this tall he needs to make this much money it's only upsetting when men have standards

03:55:09.460 preferences and boundaries i just hold on the moment a guy has any sort of preferences preference

03:55:14.340 standard or boundary it's oh my god that's that's that's unacceptable that's that's discriminatory

03:55:20.980 that's not what any of us just any of us said though we said that is acceptable i respect your

03:55:26.340 opinion that's okay with me and i accept that like we didn't say that's unacceptable we all said that's

03:55:32.660 that's perfectly fine for you to feel that way but didn't you say why why should men care about the

03:55:36.980 woman's past no i said so we should care about the men's past too then like because there's a lot

03:55:42.180 of men that do really dirty stuff and then they want to be in a relationship that's totally fine

03:55:45.780 if you don't want to date a guy who's for whatever reason i think everybody's different yeah if you

03:55:50.500 care about that and you value it then that's fine but there's everybody's different there are people

03:55:54.340 who won't care about that and they can still find a good relationship also if you're boxing people

03:55:58.260 into one box and everybody's different there's a lot of different crazy personalities just just one

03:56:03.060 point of clarification when you say you're boxing people into one box are you talking about the men

03:56:08.020 who their preference and standard is they don't want to date a woman who's do who's done porn or

03:56:13.620 only fans is that the box that we're talking about i'm saying he's boxing that all into one box saying

03:56:17.940 that they'll never find anything and everybody's different so there's a chance that someone might

03:56:21.540 not care a lot of people do and that's okay and they can care but i think i think it's hyperbole to

03:56:27.300 say that women who do only fans or who do porn it's going to be impossible for them to find

03:56:32.740 that's what he said yeah right he might be exaggerating there i ultimately though i i'd

03:56:38.020 have to pull it back up it's just speaking in absolutes but about a subject that is way more

03:56:43.140 complicated the more defensible be gonna absolute about that the more defensible position is if you

03:56:49.940 engage in porn or only fans or sex work it's going to be harder for you to secure a long-term relationship

03:57:00.180 it's going to be harder on your children it's going to be potentially harder on your marriage

03:57:05.860 yeah but not impossible of course the same thing could be the same thing could be said about a lot

03:57:11.940 of other things that make it more difficult to find someone as well you know but the focus is

03:57:17.700 specifically on on this i think it's a bit of hyperbole on his part to say it will be impossible

03:57:23.860 i think he's just exaggerating to make a point i'm sure if you were to ask him to clarify he would if you

03:57:29.140 were to say no no no stop stop if you were to ask trace hey is it pot do you think it would be

03:57:38.660 possible for one woman who does only fans or porn to find a loving husband and have a happy family

03:57:45.300 he'd probably say yes but he's speaking i i think what he's trying to get out he's using hyperbole to

03:57:50.820 make a point generally speaking i would say if you do sex work if you do only fans if you do adult content

03:57:58.340 it's going to be harder for you you're going to shrink your pool of potential partners because

03:58:03.300 there's just a subset of men that don't want to be involved with women that do porn and only fans and

03:58:08.580 sex work and they don't want to have kids with women that do porn and only fans and sex work

03:58:14.020 there's some men who are not going to have a problem with that the question then becomes

03:58:17.380 are you going to be attracted to those men

03:58:18.900 i think there's enough people in the world that it's going to be okay and that's fine i would want

03:58:28.500 a man that would not be bothered so i mean if you're finding a guy too but that's the thing you're only

03:58:33.780 going to be like you're only going to attract the men that aren't going to be bothered bothered and some

03:58:38.900 of them are great yeah also like you know if i met a really great guy and he ticked all these boxes for

03:58:47.700 me and i felt like a spark and love and connection with him and there was something we'll like use the

03:58:54.420 example you like to give like he was shorter or something i would be able to put put that aside

03:58:59.860 or there was something in his past maybe they like you know and and i saw that they were a different

03:59:05.060 person and we had all these great things together like i would be able to put put that aside and not

03:59:09.940 judge their entire character based on that and maybe not everybody can do that and that's totally okay

03:59:15.700 like doing only fans like i for sure am not sitting here blind like it doesn't affect my life like i

03:59:22.900 understand that and i respect that and i actually really try and understand that more like what other

03:59:28.820 people's perspective is because like i care about it but like it doesn't like to speak in such

03:59:34.900 absolutely like that like i'm never gonna find a man is i just think it's like aggressive and like

03:59:41.060 kind of not correct well i think he said a good man yeah well a good man but he's saying most good

03:59:48.340 men who have like say traditional values i know what he's saying values like i saw it a lot of men with

03:59:54.500 those sorts of values are not going to want to date a woman who's been involved in sex work only fans

04:00:00.580 etc trust me i'm i'm so aware it's my life oh so you have encountered difficulties finding a

04:00:08.660 relationship because i actually haven't um okay i haven't personally encountered that but i definitely

04:00:15.060 understand that it's important for me anyone that i'm like interested or isn't see it or i'm interested

04:00:22.740 in or seeing me that i like check in with them how they feel about that and if someone isn't

04:00:29.060 like okay with that then obviously they're not the person for me sure all right we have we're moving

04:00:34.980 on all right conan 19 oh you had something really quick um yeah just really quick um i guess this

04:00:40.740 kind of relates to who should like who more and i think the woman should like the man more just

04:00:45.860 personally i wouldn't want to attract a simp i don't think men should simp over women and but that

04:00:52.340 goes back to what do you have to offer besides like your looks like if they really care about your past

04:00:58.260 and that's something that bothers them but but you're hot and and that's the only reason why

04:01:03.700 they want to date you is because you're hot i but that's not your value you know you probably do have

04:01:08.660 other things to offer probably yeah yeah yeah yeah of course and like i i'm i know that like i have

04:01:16.740 i do not identify as solely an only fun only fans person i identify as a person like based on so many

04:01:25.940 other things that's why some that's why so much of this doesn't make me feel bad you know like i like

04:01:32.340 i don't feel bad about myself and i know my my value and people can argue with me about it all day

04:01:38.820 conan 19 thank you man gun range for the first date w or l go ahead

04:01:42.580 oh w w w i think that'd be really fun that's fire w but i prefer throwing knives okay

04:02:00.260 oh yeah sorry i was nodding my head okay okay all right uh nick can you pull up the twitch really

04:02:05.460 quick yo guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a follow drop us a prime sub um let's see let me

04:02:12.740 shout these people out yo uh sammy think for the prime pibbers oh no can you move it over pibbers

04:02:18.180 think for the prime jennifer think for the tier one i might have already read these uh suro think for

04:02:22.180 the prime viking mech think for the prime jean nen oh that's neon genesis it's like you gave me dyslexia

04:02:30.500 there yeah thank you for the prime man much appreciated um let's see here i think we're

04:02:34.340 caught up fully on chats uh after show maddie i'm kind of i don't know maybe how long i kind of have

04:02:44.260 a headache but yeah i think i just i want to wrap up um no after show tonight guys um let me just double

04:02:50.180 check one last thing here i'm gonna go those of you who are watching on twitch guys i'm gonna host

04:02:56.740 somebody um one sec let me pull up the outro here

04:03:06.100 sorry guys just wanna i wanna try to host somebody on uh on twitch uh so guys thank you for tuning in

04:03:12.020 tonight um just one kind of commentary on tonight's show uh you know we have a lot of girls reach out

04:03:19.300 wanting to be on the show i'd say hey if you want to be on the show dm out whatever on instagram

04:03:22.900 um ladies please do a modicum of research before messaging us it amazes me like how many people come

04:03:31.140 on the show and they're like oh i thought this was an hour pod it's like we've done almost a hundred of

04:03:35.940 these shows they're between three four five hours if that's too long for you don't come on the show

04:03:42.260 don't have an issue with it but don't come on the show and then show up late we've had we've had times

04:03:48.660 where where the girls show up late necessitating us to start late and then they get all i'll start

04:03:58.020 rolling their eyes oh the show's going long even though they requested to be on the show they're on

04:04:03.460 their phones they're being rude look you want the show to end on time don't show up late it's very

04:04:09.060 simple it's very simple they said oh i'll be five minutes late they're 30 minutes late okay um so if

04:04:15.700 you're hungry we we in the pre-show instructions we say eat a hearty meal before the show my last meal

04:04:22.500 was right before was at 2 p.m it's 9 p.m now um so look do a modicum of research ladies if four hours

04:04:34.020 is too long for you then just don't come on the show whatever it's not a big deal it's funny because if

04:04:38.820 they stayed an extra 20 minutes like we were wrapping up soon anyways in any case uh and actually you know

04:04:45.220 what if they were kind of more polite about it if they just said hey we got i'm sorry we gotta get

04:04:50.340 home to la but like she was on her phone checked out of the conversation so you were you request to

04:04:58.020 be on the show you want to be on the show we ask you before the show don't check your phone we shouldn't

04:05:02.740 even have to ask that it's just rude in the midst of in the middle of a conversation to be checking your

04:05:07.620 phone in any case if they had just sat there politely continued with the conversation my social battery

04:05:14.500 blah okay whatever bro um maybe you shouldn't have booked a porn shoot before a two-hour drive

04:05:23.380 and then a four-hour podcast gig i don't know what to tell you guys um okay guys last call hit the like

04:05:28.980 button please on your way out thanks for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world

04:05:32.740 but you're here with me i appreciate that last thing okay last thing last thing look we've had people

04:05:37.780 that need to leave and they'll politely excuse themselves or they'll stay for a little bit don't just

04:05:42.420 don't be rude and be on your phone and having have a sourpuss on your face and be rolling your eyes

04:05:48.100 i i let it slide because we already had an argument earlier on the show i was like whatever i'm just

04:05:54.500 gonna let let it go but then she just okay whatever anyways whatever thank you to the panel that made it

04:06:01.380 to the end here thank you to everyone who soup chats donates and supports the show normally the

04:06:04.900 shows are not this compatible combative but it is what it is uh good content though isn't it i don't

04:06:11.620 i don't know if it's good content but well come on you know how the internet works

04:06:18.100 i think i'm waiting for the tiktok memes now nick can you scroll down or actually just show more

04:06:23.540 the chat um it's fine to like i like having debates with people but when it gets nasty and

04:06:29.780 like i don't know sorry i think you can have good debates with people and yeah so

04:06:37.460 an activity detected oh weird uh it's fine yeah yeah okay all right guys um thank you to brit who's

04:06:44.500 helping with time stamps uh any women who want to be on the show and who can stay for the entire show

04:06:49.860 uh dm us on instagram at whatever uh we will be live again let's see tuesday wait no today's tuesday

04:06:58.100 excuse me we're going to be doing a thursday show guys it's going to be a little later it's going to

04:07:02.260 be 7 p.m we have a very very a pretty big guest coming on thursday it's going to be a good show

04:07:06.660 guys um so be sure to tune into that guys we'll see you next time um have a good night nick before

04:07:12.260 you end it let me just uh any final thought okay before i end i'm going to uh do a twitch raid uh

04:07:18.820 i want to give anyone here an opportunity final thought is there anything dating related you want

04:07:22.500 to get off your chest before we wrap up here live i feel like you didn't get to speak much so if

04:07:29.220 there's anything i actually had kind of like a question for live okay um you said you were thinking

04:07:34.740 about doing only fans what's stopping you from it um i feel like i'm doing well right now like on income

04:07:41.700 pretty much so i just it could be like an extra one that i add on to in the future but

04:07:46.900 is that the only reason that you were uh yeah for right now yeah okay any final thoughts live

04:07:58.660 no i'm tired all right uh okay chat do we raid so this is on twitch mitch jones world of warcraft

04:08:06.020 player or bobca world of warcraft player mitch jones world of warcraft or bobca world of warcraft

04:08:12.980 let's see is bobca a rogue hold on bobca i think we do bobca whoops hold on one sec one sec guys one

04:08:21.940 sec uh yeah we're gonna raid bobca yeah i was gonna say there's there's non-nudity mormon moms are in

04:08:31.220 bikinis yeah what if i just did only fans and just made pancakes i'm rating bobca see you guys oh

04:08:38.340 rating intent just like the title i'm having like only fans whatever i can just do my hobbies on

04:08:43.060 only fans oh seven's in the chat oh seven's in the chat guys i respect that because there's a lot

04:08:50.180 of people that are just like not yet not yet yeah what if i just made an only fans to like read bible

04:08:56.260 verses yeah okay yo we're rating bobca all right oh seven's in the chat boys oh seven's in the chat

04:09:09.140 thursday this thursday we're doing i know we don't do short shows normally on thursday we're doing a

04:09:13.380 show on thursday be sure to tune in uh see you on thursday guys uh 7 p.m good night guys bye

04:09:20.100 wait uh right now did i read it shit

Whatever Podcast - September 06, 2023

RUDE Girl INSULTS Brian？! She Is DATING 10 Men？! ｜ Dating Talk #97

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