Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #23

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00:02:38.520 all labia matter in the chat okay if you want to be on the show or help with the show dm at whatever

00:02:44.440 on instagram and also i don't know if you guys noticed we have a vigil here

00:02:51.160 can we get some uh candle and skull emojis for our boy mike davis

00:02:58.060 i also got him the bbc the big black clock he hasn't been in chat much lately so we need to

00:03:06.380 summon him chat we need to summon the great mike davis we need to do a rain dance or some shit

00:03:12.040 can we get some rain emojis also in the chat rain emojis like a little rain rain dance what's up

00:03:18.040 like crying emojis no like uh like a rain dance or actually not yeah just rain anyways um last thing

00:03:26.540 as you guys know i'm a philanthropist so if you go to santa barbara city college or ucsb and you

00:03:31.440 received any petty alcohol or party related fines like open container of alcohol under 21 in

00:03:36.720 possession of alcohol maybe you were throwing a party got a noise citation dm at whatever on

00:03:42.000 on instagram a photo of your citation and story and you may be selected to have your fine paid for in

00:03:47.560 full by me anyways we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name

00:03:54.200 age occupation and or school major go ahead uh my name is jubilee i'm 19 not in school but i have my

00:04:02.560 own business doing nails you do nails yes i do okay cool i'm i'm may i'm 19 i'm a sophomore and i'm a

00:04:11.840 so sorry sociology major sophomore at ucsb uh sbcc oh okay cool um i'm vivi and i'm also a sophomore

00:04:21.840 at cc but i am a political science major age oh 19 pull the microphone towards you just closer

00:04:30.300 towards you a bit perfect go ahead um i'm maddie i am 19 i'm a sophomore at ucsb and what are you

00:04:39.560 studying oh i'm undeclared right now okay i'm yazzy i'm 18 i'm a second year ucsb and i'm a psych

00:04:47.360 major hi i'm susan um i'm 25 and i go to ucsb i study econ hi my name is luke um i'm 19 i go to

00:05:00.400 santa barbara city college and i'm majoring in film and media production rock and roll so everyone's

00:05:07.340 instagrams in the description show them some love give them a follow so i want to go around the

00:05:14.180 table once more so current relationship status longest relationship and are you on any dating

00:05:20.420 apps that includes seeking arrangements go ahead um i'm single my longest relationship was a little

00:05:27.340 over a year and i'm banned off tinder and hinge

00:05:30.720 so i'm on bumble seeking arrangements

00:05:35.580 wait you're banned off both tinder and hinge what what did you do i didn't do anything

00:05:42.580 come on i swear didn't do anything they just banned me off both like are you at the same time

00:05:47.800 are you sure i think so i know that i can't do anything about it

00:05:53.180 i don't think i did anything

00:05:57.000 i don't think so

00:05:59.620 you know i mean i don't know i could have said something or i don't know someone could report

00:06:06.640 me i don't know i don't really respond okay okay you so you have no idea what you did i have no idea

00:06:13.040 what i did they won't tell me i emailed them both they don't well maybe they didn't communicate to

00:06:17.560 you what you did but you know what i don't think i know what i did were you were you posting were

00:06:22.840 you nude in any photos i don't think so did you did you get it before you were 18 no no

00:06:28.120 were you were you trolling on there no i literally was on it and they they did at the same time because

00:06:34.440 they're like they're kind of connected in a way they said i have to get approval from tinder

00:06:38.700 to be approved from hinge and i didn't get either huh that's peculiar yeah what so on hinge you know

00:06:47.640 the prompts right how recently were you banned like two weeks ago okay do you remember what your

00:06:52.160 prompts were like what you wrote for your prompts i don't remember i changed them all was it like

00:06:55.980 venmo me no cash app no because that'll get you banned really yeah i'm pretty sure so anyways um i'm

00:07:03.580 single the longest relationship i've had is like three months and i'm currently on tinder

00:07:11.100 any any other dating apps uh that's literally it okay

00:07:16.300 um i'm single right now and my longest relationship was like two and a half years and i have hinge and

00:07:25.900 tinder i'm single i've never been in a relationship and i'm on tinder um i'm also very single um

00:07:39.340 my longest relationship was like a year and i have tinder because i'm too scared to get anything else

00:07:45.180 you're too scared to get anything else what do you mean by that like okay bumble you like choose 0.52

00:07:50.060 like i don't i'm too indecisive for that it's like not you're too what indecisive no i get what you

00:07:54.300 mean how did you see your life so you know yes i know you can yeah yeah but then like you have to

00:08:01.020 like if you like if you're indecisive like i am and i'm like i don't know if i want to like swipe

00:08:05.420 right or left you know yeah um you can't look at anyone else you can only like you have to choose

00:08:11.900 you can't look at anyone else until you choose you know what i mean that's what i hate

00:08:16.700 i wish i could like go forward go back yeah i mean even if you got on bumble like yeah you do have

00:08:22.380 to send the first message but honestly like most of the women on bumble they just send hey 0.99

00:08:29.020 i'm gonna forget it because after 24 hours so i match i say hi and that's it

00:08:32.860 yeah by the way like i i've heard this from women and i've seen them write it on their profiles on 1.00

00:08:38.300 other dating apps they say try to come up with something more creative than just hey or how's it

00:08:43.420 going but then you've got the soul dating app where women have the power 1.00

00:08:51.500 90 of them y'all just saying hey so okay so i mean i'd reckon i mean you you can get away with

00:08:58.060 you really don't have to so you're saying i should just get it and i should just say hey

00:09:01.340 it wouldn't be that uncommon if you want to be lazy with it you'll still have success on bumble even

00:09:06.060 even if you're just like hi so i'll look into it hinge is pretty good too hinge is good wait so

00:09:12.700 you've also just going back to you you've never had a long-term relationship i've never been in a

00:09:17.180 relationship what is the longest concur or period of time that you've seen someone maybe you haven't

00:09:22.620 had a boyfriend talking stage like two two weeks a fortnight maybe like two months two months yeah okay

00:09:33.500 two months too long and okay so you know the guy yeah okay all right well so then um and did you

00:09:43.100 so for that longest situation or whatever situation however you would categorize it who ended that was

00:09:50.300 it you or just mutual ghost or it was mutual like it was just like a summer fling i guess so just you

00:10:00.220 know like once school starts again it's like oh kind of knew of that going in so sure by the way

00:10:06.220 i want to give a shout out to verx in the chat he must have became a member while we weren't live so

00:10:11.660 verx thank you for uh your membership on the channel go ahead your turn uh i'm single and the longest

00:10:17.500 relationship i've been in it's two years and i'm on hinge rock and roll luke um i'm still single um and

00:10:26.940 the longest relationship that i've been in is six months and i'm not on any dating site

00:10:33.340 okay good times good times have did any uh so luke is back i think you're here was it

00:10:39.340 last thursday yeah last thursday so a week ago yeah so in that period of time

00:10:44.300 you get any dms from any ladies i can't lie yeah really and so they said hey i watched that i watched 1.00

00:10:50.940 the show yeah okay and what happened with erica

00:11:00.140 um did y'all link up or not no not really we were gonna go out to ivy but we it was just too packed

00:11:05.340 and she wasn't going down so we were like no okay wait so you got what's up i knew erica yeah yeah i

00:11:13.180 guess they were like chat was shipping um chat was shipping luke and erica during the whole show so

00:11:22.700 um well so you got some dms from girls what like can you share the thirst how i mean

00:11:32.460 it was pretty dry it was pretty dry yeah again don't be talking about me

00:11:42.380 yeah i don't know it was it was there were like probably three or four that hit me up or i was

00:11:48.060 like in iv and they were saying oh my god wait you were on you were on that podcast and i was like yeah

00:11:53.260 i didn't know that you would watch the podcast because it would be the weirdest thing and they 0.94

00:11:57.260 would be drunk off their ass and i was like okay i really don't want to talk to you right now you're just 0.99

00:12:01.100 spewing shit out of your mouth so you know if you want to talk to me then you know here's my 1.00

00:12:05.660 information talk to me but if not and this is just going to be some weird little ivy shit ciao 1.00

00:12:13.980 by the way guys does that does the girl's angle look a little bit overexposed it might be slightly

00:12:21.660 you could just be pale it looks it might just be our monitor too it might one in the chat if it looks

00:12:28.300 a bit overexposed chase if you can professional photographer does it look a little overexposed

00:12:33.580 anyways um so really quick last thing to kind of go around the table on this uh because i do think

00:12:40.220 that these this can sort of have a impact a bit on your how you approach dating and how you approach

00:12:47.420 men uh would you say that you identify as a feminist just just a yes or no yes yes yes 1.00

00:12:54.620 i would like to say yes but honestly sometimes i question it

00:13:02.060 why um well it's just like like i do support women like 100 but it's just like sometimes like i don't

00:13:12.140 really like do as much as other people i guess so i'm like oh like yeah i'll just like let them like

00:13:18.460 i support it but i don't really like actively do anything about it so sure i don't think that

00:13:25.020 makes you any less like that like yeah i guess that's true like it doesn't but it doesn't make

00:13:30.380 me like an active feminist i guess yeah yeah yeah i support it but i think there are some things that

00:13:39.500 i don't agree with in in it okay interesting so as the soul as the soul egalitarian at the table

00:13:47.820 this should be interesting okay so we're gonna move on to our very first question so yeah

00:13:55.500 so before we're gonna do some video reactions and then i have some questions of my own to kind of get

00:14:02.380 into but i'd like to start off the show by asking is there anything dating related that you want to get

00:14:08.700 off your chest so just to give you a couple prompts maybe you recently had a bad date 0.96

00:14:14.060 experience a bad relationship experience men are pissing you off in some way dating apps suck

00:14:22.860 whatever it may be something that just comes to mind that you want to get off your chest related to

00:14:27.580 dating go ahead um i have a story but it wasn't really i met a guy on hinge and we talked for a month 0.87

00:14:37.020 and he was from australia and i met up with him and he ended up being a dick and then he went to 0.84

00:14:45.260 the gym and i left i was in la and i traveled i went to la to go see him yeah she doesn't drive either

00:14:51.020 so she i took the train and for like two and a half hours met up with him stayed the night and i left

00:14:56.540 the next day while he's at the gym while he was at the gym and he didn't know i left i just left and

00:15:02.220 yeah but was he was he anticipating that you were gonna spend more time yeah i was supposed to stay

00:15:07.980 till wednesday okay so why why did you leave he just got mad when like if i didn't do anything with

00:15:16.780 him as in like sexual things he got mad he got mad so you didn't want to hook up yeah but you took a

00:15:24.380 train two hours to so you were obviously into him yeah i was you didn't want to talk for like

00:15:31.500 over a month before i actually met him like facetime or just yeah we facetime texted everything 0.98

00:15:37.260 for like that's like seven dates sort of but okay and met up with him he ended up being a dick 0.79

00:15:44.220 and also okay i see yeah like he was overall just a shitty person okay so everything you were like 0.99

00:15:50.220 you would have had he not been a dick you probably would have been down to hook up 1.00

00:15:54.540 but when you show up you arrive yeah he said he was sarcastic but it came off as really really rude 0.98

00:16:01.180 yeah so you yeah your whole view of him shifted and then you're you lost interest yeah so what was

00:16:07.580 he doing that was he he said he was sarcastic but then every single time i would talk he would tell

00:16:13.340 me to shut the up and then say he was kidding yeah like literally yeah and then he would shush me 0.54

00:16:21.100 every single time i was talking because he thought i was yelling and then shut the up

00:16:26.620 kind of like that and then laugh and say he was kidding

00:16:30.220 what so

00:16:34.700 kind of like that yeah wow okay he was yeah he had like a really strong accent and it he was australian

00:16:41.420 british and australian to a kind of combination of accents were you hanging out with him and his

00:16:45.740 boys like his friends he was his first time in america he came to la wait not for me how did you

00:16:52.540 meet him hinge hinge yeah wait what i met him on hinge and because he was so when you met him he was

00:17:01.420 in australia he put his location in la okay so he was like preemptively trying to get some yeah okay

00:17:07.020 yeah yeah and when i got there that's always kind of weird i think the vibes were off i wasn't

00:17:11.500 feeling well just anxiety wise and he got mad and so i texted someone else to pick me up and i left

00:17:17.660 while he was at the gym and never talked to him after that but so you did you spend the night yeah

00:17:21.500 i spent one night and then i just didn't like did y'all cuddle no he didn't really do anything

00:17:25.900 he tried he i just kept moving away oh man that's he dm me on tiktok because i blocked him on

00:17:31.740 everything else i forgot so he dm me on tiktok did you steal his stuff no oh and you said that kind

00:17:37.980 of like you should you thought maybe i should have maybe i should have he got really mad so i left

00:17:44.460 damn that's uh yeah he so you were super down but yeah he i was down but just vibes were off when i met

00:17:52.460 him and yeah two and a half hour train right yeah yeah i think yeah you know the key to relationships 0.98

00:18:00.460 guys some people say it's trust loyalty love

00:18:07.660 commonalities being attractive no convenience is the most important thing yeah if you got to drive

00:18:16.220 more than 20 minutes to see your person i'm i'm being a bit facetious but uh i think uh going that

00:18:22.860 far out of your way for uh there's plenty of eligible bachelors in in santa barbara so not really

00:18:28.860 i get ghosted every single time i meet someone you think they're better in uh in la if you can

00:18:37.500 find i'm i'm i can't even think like australians or british like people the same i can't can you just

00:18:42.940 pull the cord like so it's uh there you go perfect um wow yeah so okay wait you guys think that you

00:18:49.420 guys don't like the men in santa barbara oh i have a story for you yeah we could we could talk a little

00:18:56.060 bit about that okay so this is a frat boy so you you get the gist of it which one uh signu um what

00:19:03.820 was this gonna be the yeah this is gonna be the next yeah so basically coming back from a party um

00:19:09.900 i separated with my friends and he's like hey do you want to go back to the frat house and i was like

00:19:13.500 sure like why not and so he gave me a tour of the frat house met some of his brothers they were chill

00:19:20.380 we were just sitting on the couch in his room we weren't doing anything this was like just like

00:19:24.460 talking chilling like the night was dying down like we didn't really like each other in that way it's

00:19:28.860 kind of more of a friendship he gets a call and he puts it on speakerphone so i'm like okay like this

00:19:34.540 is weird and i just hear this dude say bro what are you doing right now you want to go smoke some weed

00:19:39.740 and he's like oh like this is my friend next door ato is right next to signu right so this is his ato boy

00:19:46.940 and he was like oh like i'm sorry like not right now like i'm kind of like with a girl like we're

00:19:51.580 just hanging out and he was like oh just bang her and leave and keep in mind this is on speakerphone

00:19:57.580 you guys i'm sitting two inches away from this man i heard everything homeboy looks down in his phone

00:20:04.940 looks at me and goes i'll call you back and he hangs up and then he's like um are you like getting

00:20:11.580 tired and he was like and he was like are you anytime i'm like yeah i'm gonna go back to my

00:20:17.340 place and he's like okay cool cool cool so we both leave the frat house at the same time i walk back

00:20:22.380 to my place and i see him just walk over to ato knock on the door i see the brother open it and i'm like

00:20:29.180 all right so that's my story so basically you're hanging out with the frat guy yep you were had you

00:20:37.740 hung out with him before yes i i've hung out with him before we're friends um like just like he invites

00:20:43.900 us to parties no we have not hooked up like this but you wanted to you were down until this whole no

00:20:51.100 honestly not at all i wait but you were hanging out with him alone uh yeah you were interested in him

00:20:56.700 come on oh no not really he was kind of oh it's his friend i can second that i've also met this

00:21:02.700 frat guy like he's like the like he was more of the type of guy you go out to party with have a bit 0.91

00:21:09.340 of fun he gets you into the parties and then you separate she was with me that night she separated

00:21:15.420 so we were the four of us were together and then we went back to the frat house she went somewhere else 0.62

00:21:19.660 so obviously that's why it was just the two of us there and he was like do you want to tour and i was 0.58

00:21:22.860 like fuck it why not and that's wow like we ended up in his room he's like this is my room like super 0.85

00:21:27.820 chill and we're just sitting on his couch right and the phone call happened i just felt like are 0.99

00:21:32.700 you fucking kidding me like the fact that he had it on speaker too and i heard everything like homeboy 0.93

00:21:38.860 just paused he like looked at me and he's like blinked and he's like i'll call you back bro and then just 0.97

00:21:43.740 hangs up and i'm like okay do you think that there i mean initially it was the guy on the phone that

00:21:50.700 yes said some offensive things so it's you know yeah i'm wondering could the guy in person could

00:21:57.580 he have still well you weren't interested allegedly yeah anyways yeah so i mean

00:22:06.300 i don't know i just kind of seemed like it worked out i know yeah that's true he went to smoke some

00:22:10.860 weed it's true i i think it's just like a funny story that this man was just like just banger and 0.98

00:22:15.260 leave bro like come on like do you want to smoke some weed like just fuck her and leave and i was like okay 0.99

00:22:20.700 it was just funny wow i know damn yeah he might do you think he was interested in you 1.00

00:22:29.500 oh you were there no no she was there i'm guessing i don't think i don't know though just like we were

00:22:38.460 sitting on the couch just the two of us and like one of his frat bros like hey bro what's up and he's

00:22:43.180 like oh nothing much and you he kind of like oh saw us together so he probably thought like oh they're

00:22:48.380 gonna do something or like you know so he left like right away so maybe he's a little interested

00:22:55.020 yeah maybe i don't know yeah good times yeah good times luke what do you think about that i mean i

00:23:02.300 was just gonna say i don't think that the that's like the dude who was getting the calls fall i

00:23:07.500 think that's no it's not no yeah that's not at all fully on his like no bro yeah his bro why do you

00:23:12.140 have it like that dude come on did the guy know like that you were in the room yes he said oh i'm

00:23:21.100 hanging out with a girl like right now and he was like just banger and leave and you can hear when

00:23:25.260 someone's on speaker and yeah yeah i was gonna say when whenever i get a call on him with a girl if i put

00:23:30.860 it on speaker it's it's to show her like hey it's just one of my guys calling it's not another girl like

00:23:36.140 don't get all upset about yeah yeah but yeah but i would always say like hey i'm with you know

00:23:43.260 whoever say what up and then they'll say they'll be like oh shit okay i'm not gonna say any like 0.94

00:23:48.460 weird shit so right right yeah he she should have said some shit before definitely but that's that's 0.96

00:23:54.780 not on him in any way that's on his bro yeah i agree i agree ato boys guys oh 0.99

00:24:01.100 shit shots fired they were both in ato oh one was signu one was ato so the guy that i was with 0.78

00:24:09.740 on the phone guy on the phone was ato okay the guy i was with signu all right so maybe it's just all 0.96

00:24:15.900 fratmen so you guys are by the way you guys are invited on the show to clear your name okay so you're

00:24:22.300 share your side of the story um so we were talking a bit about you guys said guys in santa barbara suck

00:24:32.060 why why do you say that it's it's just hookup culture here like no one's here to date no one's

00:24:37.020 here to be like they're just who whose fault is that hookup culture it's not mine okay so i'll really

00:24:46.300 quick whose fault is hookup culture a lot of men a lot of men i think a lot of men who controls

00:24:55.900 access to sex men or women i think it's like a two percent i think yeah i mean you need two people

00:25:03.660 but i mean even not every time who decides when sex happens men or women i get what you mean now it

00:25:10.860 is kind of mutual in a way but like i think on average more guys are invested in hookup culture

00:25:16.540 than girls are yeah more guys are what invested in hookup culture yeah but i will say it's a mutual

00:25:21.820 thing i agree with what you said but i think more guys are into it wait you're are you sure you're

00:25:26.780 agreeing on the right thing am i well okay so there's a few things here so i actually think

00:25:35.100 more women have access to hookup culture than do men yeah more access but i don't think they played 1.00

00:25:40.300 into it as much as guys do that's a fair point but so the top 20 of men i would say they have

00:25:49.500 access to hookup culture but average dudes they can't like very easily hook up it's quite difficult

00:25:57.580 for men to get laid i know what you mean like an average dude whereas like an average chick like 0.82

00:26:02.780 she could just download tinder boom boom boom super easy get laid yeah but like i don't think that

00:26:07.980 they like guys love hookup culture i feel like they love saying that they have hoes they love 0.99

00:26:12.940 like you know iv guys are dirty like well it comes down to so men and women's sexual strategy is 1.00

00:26:20.460 different and it comes down to evolutionary reasons like men evolutionary we just want to spread the seed 0.95

00:26:26.780 because we can just we can impregnate if three women a day but a woman like if you get pregnant that's 1.00

00:26:35.580 nine months time yeah um obviously i realize most people when they're engaging in sex it's not for

00:26:42.700 procreation necessarily but that's still ingrained in us it's hardwired in our evolutionary in our

00:26:49.340 evolution in our biology so for men it's just spread the seed and then for women it's let me lock down the 0.62

00:26:54.940 best man i can get so but going back to what i initially said like so women control access to sex 1.00

00:27:05.420 so like i could ask like how long has has a guy ever made you wait for sex

00:27:13.740 i don't think so no i don't think so no men have have you guys ever made a guy wait for sex oh yeah yes

00:27:19.660 i like okay so you guys control access to sex i think men need to be more clear on what they want

00:27:25.820 men need to be what more clear on what they want men can't be more clear on what they need to be more

00:27:30.860 clear it wouldn't work well if guys okay so if guys were i'll actually i'll let you go bet and i'll

00:27:37.020 respond go ahead because some guys they just want to hook up but then they treat a girl like they want

00:27:41.260 more i was gonna say the same thing like men need to act accordingly yeah i had i once had a guy take

00:27:48.540 me on dates i met his co-workers he treated me like he wanted to be with me and then when he

00:27:52.780 said he didn't want anything more than just hooking up can you scoot the microphone a bit to your that

00:27:56.780 way thanks so after like weeks so i mean there's two things there one yes nobody's not watching

00:28:05.580 there's definitely guys that they're gonna play like they want something serious to get laid

00:28:12.140 because i mean the thing is those most men can't be honest about their true intentions because then 0.91

00:28:19.420 you wouldn't want to fuck with them i mean but i think like the whole point like you should be 0.83

00:28:24.940 honest like they like i agree with that there's no i can't like that is sneaky links don't go out in 0.98

00:28:30.620 public and go out to eat and that's just yeah i feel like you don't have to be honest like with your

00:28:37.260 words just be honest with your actions like don't be like taking girls out on dates like if you don't

00:28:43.500 want to date her like if you just want to hook up with her like do that sometimes like maybe it's

00:28:48.860 like a mutual thing and like if they're fine with it that's fine but like if you don't want to date

00:28:53.980 her but you're taking her on dates like that's being dishonest yeah that's what pisses me off most

00:28:59.180 do you think girls do that too though because i feel like a lot of times there's like a guy will take 0.99

00:29:03.820 a girl out you know wanting something and she won't like let's say it's just for hookup but 1.00

00:29:08.380 she's just friendzoning him and he's she's just you know kind of using him to either be get into

00:29:13.820 clubs or get food or have him buy you clothes or stuff like that i think there's a lot of that too

00:29:20.140 like i'm always straight up there's there are and again there's exceptions right you know i think

00:29:26.060 being straight up with someone is way better but there are people that you know are going to use

00:29:31.420 people with money and a lot of times it's going to be a girl using a his a guy for his money yeah 1.00

00:29:36.780 yeah that's way more common foodie calls foodie calls is the thing like girls will just go go out 1.00

00:29:42.940 with the guy for free food i actually very recently there's some girl i saw on hinge and she in her bio

00:29:55.100 she said something about i want someone to take me out to dinner and she was like i matched with her to

00:29:59.900 actually invite her on the show and so i was kind of doing the finesse too i guess but she was like

00:30:05.500 really pushing oh i'll come on the show but first can you take me for dinner really pushing for a

00:30:09.420 dinner i'm like are you that pressed for a dinner like but there are definitely um they're definitely

00:30:15.500 uh i think on the guy's side you're going to encounter women that they are not genuinely

00:30:22.860 themselves pursuing something serious uh if they even meet up with you maybe they just want a free

00:30:31.100 dinner some chicks will just they're bored okay they're hungry i guess i'll go out on a date with 0.93

00:30:37.340 this dude um and then there i mean there's also a lot of women on hinge that or on dating apps that 1.00

00:30:44.300 they're like just they have no intention of even meeting up with the guy ever they just want some

00:30:49.020 validation they're promoting their instagram cash app whatever it is like so i think on both sides

00:30:55.980 there's definitely some that last one's like kind of me yeah you have hold on i felt that but not

00:31:01.740 like intentionally you have your cash app in your no no no i just like i've never met up with anyone

00:31:07.740 on tinder or hinge like how long have you me neither how long have you had dating okay it's not just you

00:31:13.580 it's not just you it's been like a month or two so you the first ever dating app you had was two

00:31:23.980 months ago yeah okay yeah wait so who so reminder just who's been on a dating app okay who's been on a

00:31:33.420 date met someone in person from a dating app okay so yeah i wouldn't say a date but okay fair enough

00:31:41.820 fair enough wait so i i'm trying to remember where we were going with all that um we're talking

00:31:48.300 about like people like people yeah yeah it's okay yeah you were talking about the hookup culture and

00:31:54.700 how yeah it's because mostly on there like everyone just wants to hook up anyways so like why i that's

00:32:01.180 not what i want so you got so what was your original point that you dislike hookup culture yeah i'm

00:32:07.820 trying to remember yeah no i don't like have you ever hooked up with anyone

00:32:11.820 um like from like just in person from an app whatever maybe like fully hooking up i guess

00:32:21.500 one person and like my body count is two so i've hooked up with one person and then the other person

00:32:29.740 was my long-term boyfriend so i don't hook up okay that's fair i met up with someone last week

00:32:36.700 but yeah i mean so as far as uh the whole hookup culture i mean if that i would say that

00:32:49.820 for hookup culture to stop being a thing

00:32:54.380 you might not like this but i think women are gonna have to say i'm not gonna have sex with 1.00

00:32:58.220 anyone until i'm in a long-term relationship with or sorry not long term but that's a serious

00:33:02.700 relationship because i think i mean if you well i i would also say that there are definitely guys out

00:33:08.780 there if you make them wait they'll wait they'll hook up with you once and then probably ghost you 0.85

00:33:14.700 so it's like girls are i i will admit girls are kind of in a damned if you do damned if you don't 0.71

00:33:19.660 situation like okay hook up too soon then maybe a guy might judge you for that but then if you wait too

00:33:25.420 long then you're gonna start maybe you're gonna catch feelings for a guy then you hook up and then

00:33:30.700 he got what he wanted and then he's gonna dip too so it's like it's tough for girls i'm not really sure

00:33:36.140 actually kind of what the solution is but i like hung out with people like within the past few weeks

00:33:40.780 like a guy like at night and we're saying we don't do anything they don't try anything and then they

00:33:45.020 ghost me so i'm like they didn't get what they wanted or it's just me yeah i mean i would also say

00:33:51.340 that the other thing too is if you once you hook up with a guy so i think credit to uh credit to uh

00:34:02.700 myron from fresh and fit so i think it's something like as far as each gender's metric for success

00:34:10.780 so a man's job is attaining women obtaining women women's job is to retain 0.90

00:34:19.820 so if we can just get laid that's kind of like we've succeeded but for women your your sort of 1.00

00:34:26.060 metric of success is retaining the guys that you sleep with so in order to do that like how can you

00:34:31.660 do that if all you're bringing to the table is sex you got to think about okay how can i add value to

00:34:37.180 this guy's life that's where i think a lot of women get in trouble where they get stuck in hookup 1.00

00:34:40.860 culture if you're not adding value in some other way besides sex then guys are not gonna take you

00:34:46.620 seriously i want it's why it's hard though because like you've or like so many people like even what

00:34:52.700 you said back before no matter who starts it everyone's still kind of like invested in it now

00:34:56.380 like even taking back how like who perpetrates it so when you actually kind of do want to take a

00:35:00.860 step back and try to find someone who you maybe want to have something long term with it's usually

00:35:05.100 really hard or they have misconceptions going in that it's not going to be long term which i think

00:35:10.780 is what makes it difficult in ivy especially i know what you mean yeah like i feel like everyone

00:35:16.620 says like oh you're dating an ivy guy like no it's the same yeah i also feel like when you're saying

00:35:23.180 that like sometimes it's like retaining a guy like beyond just sex sometimes like the guy does not

00:35:31.420 get like make any effort to get to know like the girl at all like

00:35:40.140 like they're going into it like just for sex and they are like yeah like i said they're not making

00:35:48.940 like any effort beyond that like they're not trying to like talk to you like maybe they'll like text you

00:35:54.380 but it's just to hook up and then like when you actually try and talk about stuff they'll just

00:35:58.940 like change the topic i actually have something like i mean i'm a little disagree on that but

00:36:06.380 because like i've been listening to like what you guys said and i also feel like when it comes to

00:36:10.540 dating app there's a really straightforward solution which is just ask for like what are you looking for

00:36:16.060 you know and like yeah uh you guys also mentioned that if you if guys just want sex they can just

00:36:21.740 like you know we can just go straight into the doom but also like i feel like guys and girls are pretty

00:36:26.460 much the same like our girls who wanted to be treated nicely just like for example like in my personal 1.00

00:36:33.580 experience like i will message guy and say like oh what uh what's your what are you looking for and if

00:36:39.340 they're just looking for sex like we will still go on days you know go to a nice dinner and like have a

00:36:44.140 great day and like we will just split the bills and at the end of the day like we will have a great

00:36:48.140 sex so i feel like that's also a plus so one solution i think it will be just just straightforward

00:36:53.820 and ask what they want guys are still gonna lie though if you ask them if you ask like what they're

00:36:58.380 looking for they're still probably because i think most guys if if guys that's the thing if guys say

00:37:03.900 you know what i'm just looking for something really casual i just maybe hook up a couple times

00:37:09.260 i think a lot of women are not if if you're just straight up like that hey do you want to just 1.00

00:37:18.220 hook up most women are probably gonna say no some will i think it's very rare some will but 1.00

00:37:28.700 i think i mean we could we could ask the table like if a guy just straight up came up to you

00:37:32.540 oh i mean i got a bumble tax as a dtf as long as i got yeah and so what was your response to that

00:37:40.140 i was like down okay i mean it never responded after that i never oh but you never you didn't

00:37:46.620 actually okay but so you said down did he respond to that he said you got a place and then i just

00:37:53.100 never responded what if he was like come over to mine would you it depends on the day depends on the

00:37:59.500 day okay fair enough did you want to continue on your point a bit i don't know okay you okay

00:38:05.660 cool are we all supposed to answer that question what was the question if they text you like dtf or

00:38:12.300 whatever like sure yeah probably yeah i'll say yeah really yeah i wouldn't say first message on a

00:38:20.940 dating app or in person a guy just walks up to you hey do you want to have sex with me okay no never

00:38:26.780 mind hold up i wasn't thinking no a few weeks ago i had a guy walk up to me i don't know him i was

00:38:33.500 i was drunk and he's like want to make out i was like sure i mean i walked away never talked to him

00:38:37.180 after that okay so guy walks up to you at a party and he's just like hey what's up i think you're cute

00:38:44.140 like do you want to hook up tonight i would say no i always say no no i like have a huge fear of

00:38:51.100 rejection so like no i'd feel like it was a joke you you'd have a huge fear of rejection yeah i feel

00:38:56.380 like i just walk away i do that anyway but i'd walk away from that especially fast honestly like

00:39:01.340 if a guy did that it kind of sounds like it was either like a prank or a day no i would think that

00:39:05.820 one of them put it up like they like asked what if he stepped to you and he was

00:39:12.540 he didn't come off like he was joking like it seemed authentic 0.97

00:39:21.180 he authentically wants to have sex with you i don't like what's the setting what's the like 0.94

00:39:27.420 i authentically think he's joking because i don't know i feel like i just walk away that's my response 0.96

00:39:32.620 okay i'm really just depending on my mood yeah right all right luke what would you do a dude no i'm

00:39:39.020 kidding a girl walks up to you and she's like hey do you want to have sex at a party or something 1.00

00:39:46.460 are you down it depends it honestly depends genuinely i don't know i i tell all my friends

00:39:52.860 this i'm like if i'm going to ivy i i'm not going there to like find someone to hook up with 0.99

00:39:57.980 fuck that i'm there to party i'm there to like like jump around do some stupid shit i don't know 0.99

00:40:04.700 have fun out there it doesn't it doesn't have to be like sex all the time so yeah i do think it's 1.00

00:40:10.620 i do think it's it's all situational yeah plus i mean where are you going to do it in iv

00:40:16.220 i mean their place your their place yeah their loft

00:40:20.140 they're one twin size bed twin size with like two roommates

00:40:28.860 we're going to do uh we're going to do some soup chats and then we're going to react to a video

00:40:31.820 that is related to this uh topic here so hold on let me pull these up we have uh big chase with the uh

00:40:40.860 11 11 thank you man much appreciate looking forward to hearing some more bass takes from young

00:40:45.260 luke skywalker tonight the bros need him to bring the balance to the force also shout out to brian

00:40:50.380 the goat hey chase thank you for the uh super chat man appreciate the support good to see you

00:40:55.420 in chat man let's get you back on the show chase we got to make it happen man jordan um okay

00:41:07.980 okay i mean yeah just remind you guys ten dollars enough um virgo with the ten dollars

00:41:13.420 super chat there are plenty of good guys in santa barbara the girls are just fighting over the 1.00

00:41:16.380 same top ten percent of catches media is to blame because everyone now expects perfection

00:41:22.060 dating was better before socials um do you guys have a response i think it was

00:41:28.380 yeah 100 i mean the best relations i've not say best but like the ones that have gone ish good um

00:41:36.060 um they've been in person so yeah i don't even it's i feel like it's beyond even socials it's just

00:41:43.500 kind of like celebrities in general like you see like all these like edited photos of people who are

00:41:47.900 like stunning and i think whenever you see anybody in real life like if you're too caught up in it

00:41:52.140 you're just not yeah it's just not going to be the same because like you're exposed to like so many

00:41:57.500 people in a day and like i don't know like it's weird on tiktok you can see like stunning people like

00:42:03.340 one after the other and i don't know it's like overwhelming i think also about like dating with

00:42:08.300 socials like for me whenever i'm like texting someone like it just feels so ingenuine like i

00:42:15.020 could be having the exact same conversation to their face and it would be a hundred times different

00:42:21.420 than if i'm just reading it off of my phone like in a snap or in a dm agree with that yeah definitely i

00:42:27.660 mean i think also i my kind of rule for texting is i don't i think texting should be limited to

00:42:35.740 making plans yeah like i don't think you should be having long no first of all i don't have time for

00:42:42.300 having a cop proper conversation over text i mean there could be a little banter here and there

00:42:47.660 like a little bit's okay but having a full because a conversation that would otherwise take an hour to

00:42:53.260 play play out over text message could be accomplished in five minutes in person so just

00:42:58.540 from like a time management person i don't have time to be like constantly texting with somebody

00:43:04.140 so that's a that's a good point also like i'm not trying to get to know you like through text like

00:43:10.700 what are you supposed to like then it just feels like you're writing like some bio or like like or

00:43:16.860 like a resume like oh i do this i do this it's like well you could just talk to them in person and

00:43:21.660 then it'd be like so much more like he'd be able to like talk back or like just jump in and it's just

00:43:27.660 i don't know text like getting to know someone over text is honestly i hate it it's the worst some 0.82

00:43:32.620 people are just like shit texters and like actually get out talking like i know so many more people who 0.75

00:43:36.860 like cannot talk through text like it's like i refuse to can you give us an example i don't know if you 0.99

00:43:43.340 can like recite the conversation but like how would that look to you when someone's a shitty texter is it

00:43:50.060 just slow responses is it just uh basically like super monotone like if you like ask like hey how

00:43:56.380 was your day i don't even want to talk for that long but if you're just going to be like okay oh

00:43:59.820 like one word yeah or like w-y-d-t-n like i can't w-y-d-r-n yeah i don't know i'm just not a big texter

00:44:09.020 anymore i think you can just be so easily misconstrued over text like it's like if i say one one thing i

00:44:15.900 i don't know a prophetic example for this but i'll i'll say something and i'll i'll be meaning

00:44:19.980 to have like a playful or like like happy tone they'll take it as like some weird shit i'm like 0.74

00:44:24.060 yeah that's not what i meant whereas if you're actually talking to them face to face you have

00:44:28.140 that physical connection where there's like oh i know what you're saying i can see what you're

00:44:32.060 conveying here i hate snapchat snap is

00:44:36.220 they send a picture don't say anything yeah yeah i hate that no i'm trying to have a conversation

00:44:42.220 and you don't let me i like snapchat because like i just i always send videos to people like

00:44:47.660 so that our conversations are all videos yeah yeah because i'm like oh this is what i'm doing right

00:44:52.380 now like you know like it's more it's just a lot more many blogs texting yeah i'll use the the voice

00:44:57.660 audio thing sometimes i feel like that's a little bit better but yeah i'm trying to get into that like

00:45:02.780 you can't be funny through text either like sarcasm doesn't work very well for real it can

00:45:07.180 like if you know each other like that yeah yeah if you know each other's humor yeah yeah exactly

00:45:11.740 that's why dating apps i think are so hard too because like i can't tell if you're funny or not

00:45:15.420 through text either it just doesn't come off right good times wait so i do want to go back to the whole

00:45:20.940 like hookup thing for a little bit here so um you guys said it's like really hard to find guys

00:45:27.100 that want something serious is that yeah so do you you guys talked a little bit about

00:45:32.460 asking guys what they're looking for so what are you guys looking for currently

00:45:41.500 honestly i don't even think i'm really like looking anymore if it happens it happens yeah yeah

00:45:46.140 i'm here 100 like i'm not actively like being like oh i need to find a boyfriend but it's just

00:45:51.740 like oh like whatever happens happens i don't trust men 0.89

00:45:59.100 from my last relationship yeah it was it's still it's still trash now

00:46:06.780 wait so okay but you so you guys are saying you you don't know what you're looking for i think it's

00:46:12.940 more like we've given up you've given up whatever happens happens mentality it usually happens without

00:46:21.260 me looking for and it goes decent can i get i want to ask you guys would you guys say that you're jaded

00:46:26.060 with dating or men men i don't think so not for me though but i don't know well i mean you said that

00:46:34.540 you've had enough what what was the what did you say you've given up so are you jaded like i

00:46:40.460 i don't know it's okay if you are that's fine i'm just i'm asking i don't know pull the mic closer

00:46:45.340 towards you sorry you're fine adjusting yeah you can scoot in by the way i don't think i have an

00:46:49.500 answer i can't really oh it's okay all good no you're you're good you're good okay i just been

00:46:55.020 from like past relationships i've been turned off from men and dating okay yeah it was a rough one

00:47:03.980 australia guy okay yeah like my last relationship i got cheated on so obviously oh twins um obviously

00:47:13.340 like that kind of like that put me off for like a little bit but yeah i'm not really looking like

00:47:19.980 if it happens it happens yeah okay yeah anybody else want to come in on this i don't know i feel

00:47:26.940 like i'm kind of mentally unstable and i kind of don't want to put someone else for that yeah i'm

00:47:30.940 gonna own up to it i'm like i've like decided this so i would yeah i feel like i you're met hold on

00:47:40.140 you're mentally unstable like so what bipolar bpd what do you got no do you have diagnosis what

00:47:47.100 i have diagnoses yeah actually let's just go around the table what do you what are your diagnosed 0.99

00:47:53.420 mental illnesses i'll go first you go first i i have ghosted about five therapists and and a

00:48:04.060 psychiatrist um i have i've only ever gotten diagnosed with depression and anxiety but like

00:48:10.780 i don't really go enough to get more diagnosis okay um for you um depression anxiety panic attacks eds

00:48:22.940 pretty open about it ed eating disorder yeah anybody else any bpd self-diagnosis bipolar okay

00:48:32.780 uh wow okay well thank you guys for the uh honesty there wait so but i i'm an open book about yeah yeah

00:48:41.500 so i mean i guess my question is because you guys were saying well you're tired of hookup culture

00:48:46.780 you but you don't know what you're looking for a lot of trauma a lot of a lot of trauma

00:48:54.780 wait really quick who's jaded i don't know if we really had anyone would anyone consider themselves

00:49:03.180 themselves jaded with dating no okay fine fair enough but so okay as far as going back to what

00:49:11.420 you guys are looking for um i think what you guys are gonna have to do if you want to date a guy that's

00:49:18.460 not gonna just want something super casual if you do want something serious um you're probably gonna

00:49:24.940 have to avoid guys who party yeah oh yeah yeah so if they're going out to ivy if they're partying

00:49:33.180 every weekend yeah i don't know it's not so much uh i think people should be free to party i don't

00:49:39.900 know if it's a red flag it's just they're probably not in a state to they're probably not gonna be

00:49:44.380 a great potential prospect for long-term commitment um yeah so but correspondingly also

00:49:53.340 are you guys willing to stop partying yourself yeah i mean like when i have a guy yeah but i'm not like

00:50:04.620 i'm not like looking for a guy so i'm not gonna like make yeah like when i party like i'm with my

00:50:10.140 friends yeah yeah that's my girlfriends like you know we're having a great time so yeah yeah when

00:50:15.580 i'm going out with parties like i'm just going out with my friends trying to have a good time

00:50:19.660 like with my friends honestly sometimes like guys bring the mood down and i'm like hey like do you

00:50:25.580 want to dip and go somewhere else guys bring the mood down what do you mean like oh well it's just

00:50:30.620 like like if you're trying to have a girl yeah go out with the girls you're pre-gaming pre-gaming

00:50:35.500 with the girls like getting ready with the girls and you're just there for like good music and each

00:50:40.460 other and you're like you're not even like looking to like talk to anyone else like you just want

00:50:46.140 maybe some like good music the environment yeah i've had a guy tell me to get back into the kitchen 0.99

00:50:51.660 once that was funny yeah do you guys want to respond to this by the way ssri pussy is best though not 0.98

00:50:57.900 gonna lie yeah i think this is tanner he's been on the show sorry go ahead sorry who's speaking i 0.96

00:51:05.420 didn't mean to cut you off there what does it say i can't see oh ssri selective serotonin reuptake 0.98

00:51:10.860 inhibitor the antidepressant drugs ssri pussy is best though not gonna lie um yeah obviously 0.97

00:51:17.580 the singular hookup i had the he was my friend we're still friends but but yeah he told me i was 0.96

00:51:24.780 the best so okay baby i mean i don't know wait so okay but so you were saying like going out to the

00:51:31.660 parties and stuff okay so would you uh if you were starting to talk to a guy and you were interested in

00:51:38.540 him and you were angling for a serious committed relationship with him and he said i'm willing to be

00:51:45.500 being monogamous with you but you cannot party anymore would you like what do you pick the guy

00:51:52.060 or do you pick the party you go with them you go with them to the party what if he doesn't want to

00:51:57.100 party then you don't go to the parties yeah if like for you okay yeah yeah like i feel like sorry

00:52:05.660 yeah you go ahead and we'll get to you like honestly like you should just like let me do my own thing but

00:52:10.780 also like know like i'm not going to hook up with other people like there's that level of trust that

00:52:16.460 they should have with you and each other let me ask you a question though so you said in your

00:52:21.740 last relationship you were cheated on correct yes do you know the context of how you were cheated on

00:52:25.900 did it was did he cheat on you at a party yes he met the girl at the party yeah what do you think

00:52:34.300 alcohol was involved yes in his infidelity yeah okay so is it okay so is it fair to say that

00:52:42.540 when you're put in situations where there's alcohol and a bunch of people and drugs and partying that

00:52:50.140 the likelihood of infidelity infidelity is increased honestly yes okay but as like me like i could be 0.96

00:52:58.940 drunk off my ass but i'm not like oh my god i'm gonna go hook up with that guy like if when i was 0.94

00:53:04.300 in a relationship like obviously i'm not looking to do that but i mean would you do you think that 1.00

00:53:09.500 most cheating occurs in situations where there's alcohol involved yes or drugs or drugs yeah go ahead

00:53:15.500 i think yeah but at the end of the day cheaters are gonna cheat like they wanted their if they want

00:53:21.020 to cheat they're gonna do it anyways and that's why when i like actually start talking to someone

00:53:25.260 i like say like i don't care what the you do like you can go out and party or whatever like

00:53:31.100 if you want to cheat though like just break up with me like break up and go with whoever you want

00:53:36.700 like there's just no point in yeah there's no point in me like parenting you policing you

00:53:43.020 yeah like drunk sayings drunk actions are just sober thoughts unless you're blocked out oh yeah

00:53:49.180 yeah so wait i i was going around the table on something did everyone get an opportunity to

00:53:57.820 um i don't remember what it was yeah no so the question was you're starting to see this guy

00:54:06.060 would you stop he's gotta like do that on purpose he's on the stream yeah he's watching

00:54:14.380 the stream so the the question just was you're talking to a guy you're interested in him he's

00:54:22.380 interested in you you you bring up hey i want to take it to the next step i want us to be monogamous

00:54:28.780 i want it to be boyfriend girlfriend whatever and he says yes i'm down but i don't want you to go into

00:54:33.420 bars or bars clubs or parties anymore honestly do you say do you say yes i want to be with you or

00:54:38.940 sorry you're not going to control me i'm going to keep partying i oh did you go no sorry well one

00:54:44.380 i work at a bar so i can't really like stop being at the place i work oh sorry sorry um but also

00:54:52.380 i think i do that like subconsciously like without even like them asking me to like when i was in my

00:54:58.220 long-term relationship like i didn't really go out much like i spent most of my time with him

00:55:03.180 um so yeah i would i would not go with the guy i see um i mean i've seen it mainly in like long

00:55:15.900 distance relationships where like it's the guy like telling the girl like she cannot go out and

00:55:21.900 she is miserable like she like miserable well i wouldn't say miserable that was a little bit of a

00:55:28.780 exaggeration i do exaggerate quite a bit but like like all like all her friends are getting ready

00:55:36.140 going out going out like in ivy just like having fun and she'll just be like sitting at home like by

00:55:45.500 herself and like yeah she has her like boyfriend to talk to i guess but at the same time it's like

00:55:52.540 like she can go out with her girlfriends yeah like her roommates like you need to trust her like

00:55:58.460 i think i think that honestly if a guy says like you cannot go out then it's a little bit

00:56:06.540 of a red flag because it's kind of like he has some trust issues like he doesn't trust me that's a good

00:56:12.300 point yeah i agree with that in my last relationship that i was in it was it was really controlling to

00:56:18.860 the point where she didn't want me to do anything and i would tell her like listen you know i've been

00:56:24.460 cheated on before i know it's fucked up it's kind of the same gig too right not good and if you think 0.94

00:56:31.260 i'm gonna cheat on you then this is already not gonna work because there's there's no there's no 0.96

00:56:35.980 trust if i was going to do something which i already have proven that i never would like this would

00:56:42.460 already be over there's no and and vice versa that's what i'm expecting as well and one of my i

00:56:48.220 actually want to get your guys's opinions on this so one of my friends um is dating this girl and

00:56:53.660 they love each other very much they just moved away to college one's in colorado and i think the

00:56:58.300 other one is in texas or southern california forget their their like agreement is that they're allowed

00:57:07.100 if they they can go out and they can sleep with someone else but but i know i know i know but but 0.92

00:57:14.300 if they sleep with the same person twice or it gets excessive it's immediately over wait so who who

00:57:20.460 propositioned this the guy or the girl the guy oh i think actually i'm actually not 100 100 sure it

00:57:27.180 could have been the guy my again my friend i don't see why he would do that because that's not like him 0.64

00:57:34.540 but i also don't really know the girl so it could have gone either way cheating in general sucks no i

00:57:40.220 know i know but their their whole thing is like they want to keep their relationship but they also

00:57:45.020 don't want to be controlled by the other person when they're like 200 miles away or more and i have

00:57:51.340 the last strings of that like you're just trying to hold it together yeah right okay you just want

00:57:56.060 to go other people like you just want to validate that like the guy whatever whoever brought up

00:58:00.380 like i want to do this i'm going to allow you to do it too i mean i respect that you want to go do

00:58:04.140 that but i don't think you should be together yeah i mean personally i think the extent that that

00:58:08.620 that should go to is like you can go to a party you can talk to other people that's what it was

00:58:13.500 yeah hooking the whole thing is like if i get drunk and i accidentally fuck up and and sleep with 0.72

00:58:18.940 someone are you really going to be that mad and and i asked him i'm like dude how would you really 0.52

00:58:23.900 feel about that like your girl getting dog and it's some like accident he was like well i think it's

00:58:29.500 fine i'm like okay bro you're losing on that one that's a yikes yeah everything it is it really

00:58:36.860 hurts someone from experience yeah yeah so just back to the original thing so i don't know if you

00:58:44.780 had an opportunity to answer it the whole like if your uh potential future boyfriend's like hey i

00:58:49.100 don't want you to go out anymore do you say yes or sorry i'm oh hell no like don't don't restrict 0.65

00:58:54.700 my freedom i won't restrict yours i'll never ask to go through your phone i don't want anything i don't

00:58:58.140 even need your location but you have what i do is what i do okay same i think it really just

00:59:03.660 depending on like how further you're in in this relationship and what's the reason that like

00:59:09.660 potential boyfriend doesn't want me to go out okay so would you guys be okay with uh your boyfriend

00:59:17.900 going to the strip club i i almost went with my last boyfriend he wanted to go and i said sure

00:59:23.660 you want to go to he went he went he went by himself or with his friends no oh i got invited

00:59:30.060 okay we're gonna go around the table on the question would you have an issue with it

00:59:36.140 my ex-boyfriend actually did go to the strip club your last boyfriend yes

00:59:41.180 yes the one

00:59:46.140 and and he was

00:59:52.140 okay you he like it's like hey me and the boys are gonna go to the strip club but like and i was

01:00:00.780 like okay why and they're like they just want to check it out like real quick

01:00:05.500 and like he sent me like i'm holding like a bunch of ones and i was like okay have fun

01:00:14.860 throw some ones for me and honestly like okay this was like a school not a school trip but this was

01:00:20.780 like um no this was like a senior trip of high school you know like the summer after senior ended

01:00:28.220 everyone goes like on a trip like your class goes on yeah grad yeah something like that so like a lot

01:00:34.460 of people are there but i wasn't there so yeah so wait this was like a foreign strip club that they

01:00:40.780 went to no no this is hawaii they're like the grad me kawaii yeah yeah okay yeah yeah yeah dude

01:00:47.180 what are you what are you guys opinions on that like i was just like oh that's we have a chat here

01:00:51.900 for you by the way oh let me see pta you'd be a good soccer mom thank you so much i actually really

01:00:59.180 like that i'll ship my kids off wait so thank you but you so you would not have an issue with your 0.79

01:01:04.060 boyfriend going to the strip okay to be honest i was an idiot i thought he was joking and then 0.72

01:01:10.300 after that i was like oh he actually went but i like i know he didn't do anything because i'm like 0.97

01:01:14.860 i know his friends and like you know they they're too weird to do they're too weird they they dead

01:01:20.700 ass were in there for like two minutes i think they said that they were in there for like five 1.00

01:01:25.420 minutes and left because it was too hot yeah like that's literally it so like i knew like nothing

01:01:30.540 like happened but okay like let's say so and that's that is a scenario that happened but yeah

01:01:35.740 would you have an issue with your boyfriend going to the strip club yes okay oh sorry um i feel like

01:01:45.820 i guess it kind of depends but like i don't think i'd like encourage it you know like it wouldn't be

01:01:52.940 something i'm like yeah for sure but i don't know i don't know i don't think i'd like that you would

01:02:00.860 not like it if your boyfriend went to the strip club yeah okay you go ahead i think no but like

01:02:07.500 there are some cases where i'd say like if it was okay like maybe if he like let me i mean kind of i

01:02:15.740 want to revise the question a little bit let me just ask how often do you guys go out every weekend

01:02:19.340 to party about yeah yeah thursday friday saturday friday saturday friday saturday okay

01:02:27.100 so your boyfriend goes to the strip club two times a week no no no no is this like a ritual thing

01:02:35.100 go ahead he's like a regular i mean if he wants to go he can but like sure i don't know why you'd

01:02:39.100 want like like what do you get you got a girl you got a girl already i mean if you want to go see

01:02:43.020 like go have fun go throw well like i don't go i don't think i would mind i mean you wouldn't mind okay

01:02:48.300 yeah i think it's because where i come from like i just never experienced it like i personally wanted

01:02:52.300 to go and just see what's good yeah sure i want to see magic mike here's another question um would you

01:02:58.860 have an issue with a guy paying for another girl's only fans while dating you yeah yes if he was paying

01:03:05.260 for a girl's only fans yes okay unless it's like i mean again extreme circumstances like maybe he's just

01:03:14.300 like really trying to like support her like he was like supporting her like before we were together

01:03:20.620 and he's just trying to be a good guy get her through college but so you guys all have an issue with that

01:03:31.180 but you would still you yourself you want to go out to party and club so but and you guys were kind

01:03:38.700 of talking about i wouldn't want someone to limit me in that way or to control me in that way but i suspect

01:03:43.900 you'd want to prevent your boyfriend from doing those things he's paying for it then he's really

01:03:49.020 trying to get it but also like a strip club like you're going for the girls yeah yeah i mean i don't

01:03:55.740 see why else you'd go to a strip club the drinks like a bachelor party yeah i'd be like okay yeah

01:04:02.380 have fun like it was like a group thing and he just got dragged along yeah i mean i would say that

01:04:08.460 the likelihood of a guy going to a strip club and being able to sleep with one of the strippers

01:04:14.060 is lower than a guy coming up to you at a party like part like hooking up with people

01:04:24.220 hooking up with people at bars clubs or parties is fairly common but most customers cannot sleep

01:04:30.860 with the strippers yeah but i had a a friend they'll pay for it maybe my ex's friend um was 0.99

01:04:37.820 staying with us i lived with max he was staying with us with his girlfriend and while his girlfriend 0.56

01:04:42.780 was asleep he snuck off went to a strip club paid a stripper they had sex in her car and he went back

01:04:47.420 to her and acted like nothing yeah a lot of the strippers escort but she he paid yeah right like 400 1.00

01:04:52.060 bucks but it's never gonna be another girl that wasn't his girlfriend that they were she was asleep and

01:04:56.940 he just snuck off at my house and just went to yeah definitely a lot of uh dancers a lot of strippers 0.90

01:05:03.580 they uh they're not allowed to there they'll they won't sleep with a customer for love but they'll do 0.74

01:05:09.180 for money yeah yeah but it's still just go ahead i think the point is well like the point is like

01:05:15.340 guys go to strip clubs to look at women and like you don't go to parties for male attention i don't go 0.81

01:05:22.540 like i go with my friends like the whole point is like me going with my friends if couldn't you just

01:05:26.380 hang out at someone's house and just drink and watch the bachelor it's not the same though like

01:05:31.100 yeah we do that too but sometimes like going out to the club but so i guess the point i'm trying to

01:05:35.980 make is is that when you guys go out do you guys approach you and hit on you but even when i'm not

01:05:42.700 going out like i'll be walking to freaking the corner store like sure yeah so but but i would say that

01:05:48.620 that whereas you you could go to trader joe's or go about your day there's like maybe a guy will come

01:05:58.060 and talk to you but it's probably less likely than you getting approached at a bar or club or a party

01:06:04.620 like it's a foregone conclusion if a girl goes to a party like probably some dude's gonna hit on her 1.00

01:06:10.460 try to dance with her or something like that like it's gonna happen

01:06:14.060 and it's it's a very whereas if you're going to trader joe's like the intention there is

01:06:21.180 to go get groceries but if you go to a party the intention there like you're intentionally going

01:06:26.060 to a social gathering you go to bar club it's a social gathering people meet each other yeah the

01:06:34.940 attention is to party not to like i mean some people do go to like find someone but the intention is to 0.99

01:06:40.060 party with the you're going to see a stripper like your intention is to see like fucking some titties 1.00

01:06:49.180 all i want well i guess i'll i'll sort of try to we're going to move on from this soon but what i 1.00

01:06:54.700 would say is that part of being in the long-term relationship is closing off your options yeah you

01:07:02.940 can't keep your options open when you're in a relationship no so my my position is is that if

01:07:11.260 you're going to in the same way that you should probably get off of dating apps if you're in a

01:07:15.820 relationship that would be keeping your options open i think that going to parties bars and clubs

01:07:22.460 is whether whether you have you could be super loyal have no intention of it to some degree it's

01:07:27.820 still sort of like you are keeping your options open if you go to these i disagree i disagree because

01:07:35.900 you will but you're you're going to be hit on part part sorry go ahead disagree i have a i mean me and

01:07:42.540 vivi have a friend and she once in a while will come up come out with us she'll come with her boyfriend

01:07:47.580 yeah there recently was a party i don't know if you guys went it was you wear a certain color depending

01:07:52.140 on if you're single yeah the red light yeah yeah stop my me me and vivi were green and my friend

01:07:57.420 wore red and that was definitely i mean that that was a different situation of like you're indicating

01:08:01.500 that you're taken or whatever but her personally that's just the one person that comes out with us

01:08:06.620 who's in a relationship she ignores everyone no one ever really comes up to her she's very much in

01:08:11.980 her girl group she doesn't go off to talk to anyone yeah and you reject them like yeah like i have a 0.99

01:08:16.780 boyfriend she backs up every time someone tried to talk to come up to us and talk she would back away and 1.00

01:08:21.180 kind of hide yeah no i literally would stand in front of her and be like no you would tell people

01:08:25.500 like yo back the fuck off like you're not getting anything and should i chat should i do the dream 0.95

01:08:30.700 world hypothetical scenario here oh shit verx thank you for uh all the gifted memberships unfortunately 0.99

01:08:36.540 in stream yard i'm not sure it doesn't i don't think it um allows us to pull it up unfortunately but 0.86

01:08:41.660 verx let me just acknowledge you and give you a big shout out jesus my hair is 0.97

01:08:45.500 fucking scuffed hold on guys i have to get a fucking hat 0.99

01:08:53.580 uh oh guys do i do the pickle haba one one for the pickle haba world war one guys not world war 0.99

01:09:00.940 two um or the just the u.s flag hat two for the u.s flag hat um but verx thank you for the uh

01:09:09.260 uh gifted memberships man much appreciated you're a legend um where was i okay so i i don't even

01:09:15.980 remember what the ones and twos were the one was the one was the other one luke you're wearing the

01:09:22.780 pickle haba all right can you put it on us eric oh god oh mike davis is in the chat

01:09:33.340 we've got this uh this vigil here for you i don't know if you notice the candles man also we have

01:09:51.260 the bbc the big black clock um if you can just hide that just for a second eric while i just show

01:09:56.940 him the bbc we'll we'll pull it back up um yeah that's uh and it by the way if you note the time

01:10:02.620 it's at uh well okay so mike davis good to see you man yeah dude you've been we haven't seen you as

01:10:10.380 frequently in the show so i wanted to do a little vigil for you um can we get some uh he's alive can

01:10:16.780 we get some scandal some scandals some some candles uh for mr mike davis but mike davis thank you

01:10:23.100 for the uh soup chat let me just let me do some soup chats right now while i have it ready

01:10:31.260 what's that you feel honored yeah yeah yeah since he's been gone uh mike davis what's good fam just

01:10:36.060 tuning in and don't have time to stick around tonight's lineup looks like a pack of degenerates

01:10:40.060 someone please do community service and handle them from i don't know if he even saw the mike davis

01:10:44.300 you're not even acknowledging the i'm not sure brian please donate this money so she can get laser

01:10:51.180 tattoo uh my gangsterism with the ten dollar soup chat thank you for the ten dollars covered ones

01:10:57.820 uh do you want to uh fire back yet uh if you want to pay for it go ahead

01:11:06.140 exactly i was tattoo over them yeah there's someone in the chat that was asking for you to do a do a

01:11:11.740 tattoo check yeah tattoo tour i don't know how how many did we say there was like 50 there's like

01:11:17.980 i counted there's almost 50 i counted the other day reading the one i was reading the one on your

01:11:22.300 arm i think that's what's really cool at some point you just let go and move on because no matter 0.99

01:11:26.860 how painful it is it's the only way we grow damn wow i fuck with that one i fuck with that one does 0.99

01:11:31.980 anyone else have tattoos wow just me i have one too all right four guys can can we just acknowledge how 1.00

01:11:40.540 handsome luke looks in the pickle haba it's a good look man thank you i think tilt it down slightly there we go

01:11:48.220 okay anyway super chat super chat no i'm kidding yeah let me just get a little flash going

01:11:55.420 every total i have the gnarliest tramp stamp it says boner garage jesus okay nice uh luke tron with

01:12:01.500 the ten dollar soup chat is leonardo dicaprio an f-boy we can ask the panel real quick yes or no

01:12:06.780 i don't know much about well i know he gets with younger girls that's all yeah yeah he's like 44 and i think

01:12:13.740 he only uh 25 women yeah i don't know much what a chad okay um so do you guys would you guys date

01:12:23.900 leonardo caprio let me reframe the question when he if he was younger like when he was young leo

01:12:29.900 he's still kind of a babe i think he's not a little out of my age range

01:12:33.340 yeah and like i mean the status is obviously insane is a little high for me but come on leo even

01:12:40.940 the money maybe i don't think so i don't think i would other other guys the same age maybe young leo

01:12:48.540 he's like the age of my dad so no yeah no would you lose oh no you know what i might be

01:12:56.220 gay for pain just saying okay um no i'm kidding uh let's see uh we've got and i think uh okay 0.92

01:13:06.700 so oh yeah dream world hypothetical scenario okay okay so that we're going back to the like clubbing 0.98

01:13:13.180 thing a little bit here okay so okay i'm gonna create a dream world since let's be honest unless

01:13:22.780 like as a guy you're super famous girls really don't be hitting up guys like this in the example

01:13:27.500 i'm about to provide in the real world like the vast majority of men if they go out to parties clubs

01:13:32.380 or bars get ignored um so this is a hypothetical scenario so would you be okay

01:13:43.100 with your long-term monogamous partner going to a nightclub bar ooh nice voice crack nightclub bar

01:13:49.500 or party type environment where throughout the course of the night he's going to get approached

01:13:53.500 flirted with and sexually pursued by numerous attractive women some of which are more attractive

01:13:58.780 than you and could potentially be a better partner than you these women are buying him drinks getting 1.00

01:14:03.980 him drunk and enthusiastically want to sleep with him that night and steal him away from you

01:14:10.220 he's also out with his single male friends his manhole friends who are rallying being a bad influence by

01:14:19.580 the way you guys just had an argument earlier on in the day um and yeah so would you be okay with that

01:14:28.780 scenario um i mean i actually would honestly yeah if he didn't take like the free drinks and kept on

01:14:39.580 like pushing it you can get approached like like you can't really stop that yeah i don't know so i

01:14:45.500 guess yes yeah i guess it'd be fine as long as he doesn't pursue anything yeah yeah as long as there's

01:14:51.340 there's no actions being taken then yeah so maybe he should drop his friends but yeah

01:14:56.780 i say that's yeah you guys wouldn't mind that if nothing actually happens i don't see that level

01:15:01.420 of trust yeah yeah well you we don't know if anything's happening but i mean those those

01:15:07.740 things are occurring as long as the guy isn't taking the action to actually pursue anything that

01:15:11.980 this girl is like either offering or like trying to as long as nothing happens then it's fine yeah but

01:15:18.060 you know you guys don't have any instinct to want to mate guard i mean yeah every girl you're gonna

01:15:24.620 want him to not like be out there like getting approached but like at the end of the day it's

01:15:30.860 gonna happen i believe i have a hot boyfriend some people i mean for me like my first instinct is to

01:15:36.780 be like wait what like what's going on but then like i like take a step back and i'm like oh that's a

01:15:43.500 little much like if i really like the guy like i trust him to not do things even when i'm not there

01:15:51.180 and even when like all this is going on and even if he's drunk like like that shouldn't be an excuse

01:15:59.660 like even when you're drunk like you should still be coherent you should still know what's going on

01:16:05.180 have control over your actions like i'm not that much like i can admit that i'm not really like a

01:16:10.140 hypocrite here i think we've all gotten hit on before yeah and none of us have reciprocated it

01:16:14.220 like if you're if you don't want to yeah i literally i was at the bar the other day and 0.94

01:16:19.340 this guy like bought me drinks and i obviously knew that he like wanted to like hook up or something but

01:16:23.900 i just walked away yeah you get your free drink and you walk away yeah i didn't promise him anything

01:16:28.860 but when the top g steps to you you gotta hold back when the top g see that's the thing is that

01:16:36.860 you're putting yourself in because i mean if he doesn't hold back then you break up with him

01:16:42.140 yeah and honestly like at the end of the day like if he's gonna i yeah and i always think like glass

01:16:50.140 half full if there's someone better than me for him like yeah damn i think every man is gonna cheat 0.91

01:16:59.100 and oh not sorry you could do everything for a fucking guy and they're gonna cheat from personal 0.99

01:17:09.980 experience sorry my nails from personal experience i tell a little personal thing i paid for everything 0.99

01:17:17.660 for a guy for an entire year of our relationship and he still cheated multiple times oh my sweet so much

01:17:22.940 yeah you wait you paid for everything yeah everything he ever needed everything and he 0.99

01:17:30.780 lived with me and he still cheated multiple times damn you were sent were you simping for him 0.88

01:17:37.020 i felt bad for him it was like a pity he moved in after a month because he was homeless 0.95

01:17:43.020 and i paid for everything for over a year was he he was homeless when you met practically yeah

01:17:49.740 so you go for homeless men guys in the chat you guys have a chance

01:17:55.660 is this the same one my last ex yeah yeah the one that likes you still no no wait

01:18:03.900 she's breaking out the tea he lives with my mom in colorado wait oh you're right what that's like

01:18:09.260 oh my god what i hope he never sees this but your mother yeah

01:18:15.100 yeah how was she okay with that we broke up on good terms okay we broke up got back together but

01:18:22.620 i mean there's like the main detail that i i don't think i should say but it would make a lot more

01:18:28.540 sense jaws drop every single time i say it i think you should just say it you should say it you should 0.99

01:18:35.100 say it oh fuck if he ever find this he's literally gonna fucking kill me um or kill himself i don't 1.00

01:18:42.220 know uh he told me he was gay but then cheated on me with multiple women oh i forgot that was the same 1.00

01:18:48.700 one wow sounds like a catch eh yeah what a stud yeah that's the reason why she can't go home to see 1.00

01:18:56.460 i can't go to i can't go visit my mom because he lives there oh wait you're letting a guy not let

01:19:02.780 you visit your mom bro bro that's your mom that's not his mom yeah she doesn't know the full story

01:19:11.020 because oh man what a dog yeah good times i got money now so i'm chilling

01:19:19.500 i don't worry about that he's broke you're up wait really quick i'm totally changing the subject

01:19:26.060 here have any of you ever had a sugar daddy i'm gonna sugar mom no no no okay i think i have one

01:19:33.020 like in my dms or like they're like the scammers no no no like my friend's sugar daddy like has been

01:19:40.220 texting me but like i i haven't gotten any money from him so it doesn't count i have it yeah got it

01:19:47.020 people make so much money from that sometimes though i get it i don't know i saw a tick tock

01:19:52.460 where this uh guy's like recording his girl's like phone like when they're in bed she's like i'm

01:19:56.300 working she got like six grand from this guy and he's like okay like he's like he's like fine with

01:20:00.700 it i'm just working honey like i've heard of people who get like 500 from like a 30 minute facetime

01:20:07.740 call less than that i had okay there's no one i'm gonna point out here i don't even they're not

01:20:12.620 they're not gonna watch this but like i was with a friend once a couple years ago and like

01:20:17.420 she randomly one night decided to like sell her feet pics oh like randomly and she made like 200

01:20:24.140 bucks in like two seconds just by finding someone randomly and i was like wow i have something to say

01:20:29.100 too i was i was going out to dinner with some friends and one of the girls had just gotten fired 0.82

01:20:35.180 from her job so she barely had any money she's like hold on whips out her phone texts like two dudes 1.00

01:20:40.940 and asks them hey can you send me like 200 bucks for dinner oh yeah it's crazy i mean there's

01:20:57.740 definitely oh sorry did you want to go ahead you had oh i was gonna say something funny i think my

01:21:02.300 mom might kill me if she watches this say it she's not watching she's watching uh my mom i okay i don't

01:21:09.340 she she's like you should start an only fans for your fee and i'll be your momager i was like

01:21:16.540 like chris jenner yeah chris jenner i was like iconic so every now and then i'll be like mom i'm

01:21:22.860 ready to start my only fans and she's like only feet though oh yeah looking at smarter that way though 1.00

01:21:29.020 no connection yeah i was like she's like just keep it like anonymous and i was like how

01:21:33.740 do you want me to promote this your profile picture is just your feet yeah yeah oh i know

01:21:38.300 a girl who sells feet pics in town and i saw a picture of her like sucking her own toe 1.00

01:21:45.420 oh and she sells them like that oh i mean she's making money like good for her 1.00

01:21:51.260 i'm like yeah but also she has us like fake instagram followers oh oh yeah she needs that 0.95

01:21:57.580 money then i know y'all y'all are hilarious in the chat by the way yeah they're funny so

01:22:05.020 they say my ex is banging my mom oh my god 0.91

01:22:13.580 oh gosh shout out to josh really quick you got it yeah

01:22:16.060 so i want to go actually we didn't really have a chance for everyone to finish their whole uh

01:22:24.860 if you have a what is it something you want to get off your i think we ended on you i think you

01:22:31.100 did give your like get something you wanted to get off your chest about dating i think you did

01:22:35.980 give something right no something you wanted to get off your chest about dating we'll come back to

01:22:41.100 that i just have a question for the panel so okay what does it take for a guy to get you

01:22:47.180 as in dating or like hookup wise both

01:22:53.260 i don't know i'm very much like turned off by a lot of men now

01:22:57.900 like hooking up is not fun for me unless i'm like borderline blackout but um unless you're what

01:23:03.500 what wait say that we're gonna get canceled again again if i'm borderline blacked out then maybe

01:23:12.780 oh not a good thing okay that's a case right there

01:23:17.820 but sober things are scary for me i can't do a lot of things sober i feel like

01:23:23.820 i don't know but okay i guess to answer your question what can i do um

01:23:32.700 that's a hard question what do you let me reframe the question what are your standards

01:23:38.700 very low but like do you think that's do you think that's a factor in your pick of men being

01:23:45.660 not oh yeah 100 okay yeah that definitely okay it's probably why i get ghosted all the time um very low

01:23:52.140 standards oh a guy could literally i guess just being really respectful that's like a big thing

01:24:00.220 for me it's really low like that's a really low thing but a lot of guys aren't so i guess i don't

01:24:06.140 really have a clear answer to answer that sure but yeah i don't know like take me out on dates like

01:24:13.100 buy me flowers that's like really low yes but like also um just like act interested like you want

01:24:18.940 to get to know me like i don't know like this is a pretty hard question like come back to me on this

01:24:24.460 sounds like a lot of work take you on dates okay come back to me has a guy ever gotten you flowers

01:24:32.220 before yes was it like a first date or in a relationship um in a relationship okay yeah did

01:24:38.140 you like that he got you flowers okay yeah yeah small but big gesture yeah like flowers okay come

01:24:46.220 back to me come back i gotta think um i don't even know the bars in hell and they still can't reach it

01:24:54.060 they still can't reach it like you just have to be like a genuine person like it has to i feel like

01:25:00.460 more so it has to do with like the vibes like if you don't vibe with them like like if i don't vibe with

01:25:06.140 the person if i don't like being around them like i'm not like no matter what they do i don't really

01:25:10.620 think i'm gonna date them so i think that's more what matters the vibe what is the vibe

01:25:18.780 like sometimes you hang out with the person you're like oh like there's i don't like you like there's

01:25:24.060 something about you i don't like or whatever so can you i want you to try to elaborate on the vibe okay

01:25:33.020 because i don't know because like i guess with some people like you've met like sometimes you'll

01:25:39.180 meet up with a person you'll be like oh my gosh it's like i've known you forever like i like to be

01:25:43.340 around you like i don't like my energy doesn't get like drained being around you you know okay so

01:25:50.940 it's like somebody could be around at all times sure by the way as far as the standards go you can

01:25:55.580 list something physical you can list physical traits you can list personality character traits too so

01:26:02.460 if there's a height component if you guys want to date some women have like nine is a good one 1.00

01:26:07.580 right now six nine i met a guy who's six nine like recently my co-workers yeah her yeah and he yeah

01:26:15.900 that's a good height yeah being taller is like a guy who's even taller than that he's pushing like seven

01:26:21.660 foot wait okay i want to continue on with that but here's a question is there any either character

01:26:28.540 trait or physical looks related thing that will get you to ignore red flags tattoos and piercings

01:26:40.140 so if the guy's tatted yeah yeah you will disregard the red flags will turn like yellow

01:26:45.020 yeah yeah yeah it's definitely like height i'm also a sucker for height yeah yeah how tall how tall

01:26:52.620 when you say height how what's your height and how tall are you talking i'm five eight and

01:26:59.100 i'm talking maybe like six two or above six foot's not cutting it anymore six two and above yeah okay i

01:27:10.700 don't know i don't really i can't like imagine how tall guys are like not great with those numbers so

01:27:16.540 i'm like i don't know i feel like i mean like i'm six no i'm not six i'm five eight six foot's only

01:27:25.020 like this much taller than me i'm wait hold on so six foot is not enough it's not well like it's not

01:27:31.740 enough to for me to ignore red flags that was the question sure okay yeah i guess i did frame it in

01:27:38.460 that way but even just not taking into consideration the whole red flag thing okay is six feet still kind

01:27:45.100 of too short for you no okay fair enough i'm fine with someone like even a little shorter than me

01:27:51.340 i honestly unpopular opinion but and so what about you your height and then i am five one

01:27:59.660 anyone that's taller than me but honestly like okay she's my best friend she's five eight i don't 0.62

01:28:05.340 want to be i'm with a guy that she can look down at she doesn't want a guy that i don't could beat 0.96

01:28:11.980 up that she i don't want a guy that she can beat up i see okay yes it's a good baseline

01:28:18.780 i'm i'm the standard men out there i'm the standard when they come up to you they have to like i'd be

01:28:25.660 like maddie come here yeah you uh when when you're meeting you actually meet guys at an mma cage and

01:28:33.020 you have them fight her yeah yeah i have to casually walk by yeah in the distance wait what

01:28:39.980 you can see how tall they are i've done this before i have to casually walk by just so she could make 0.99

01:28:45.020 sure i didn't i'm sure they gotta meet each other and if she's looking down you're cut off are you

01:28:52.460 wearing heels in this situation no she's wearing flats so okay i'm going barefoot

01:28:58.540 i'm trying to help him out can we get some skulls in the chat for all the short kings okay

01:29:04.220 how tall are you don't lie i'm five seven

01:29:11.820 that's like right over me i mean

01:29:14.140 okay so i i don't i'm i'm i'm someone who was insecure about their height and then realized

01:29:23.260 in the long run it doesn't really matter plus yeah i'm gonna be honest 0.98

01:29:28.300 i'm gonna be straight up i could kick almost anyone's ass like yeah i'm not worried about 0.99

01:29:33.660 losing in a fight to some fucker especially if he's a little taller than me no dude just 1.00

01:29:37.740 fucking go for the ankles it's not that hard go for the dick you just that's off limits uh anything 1.00

01:29:45.580 any character traits or physical traits that would have you ignoring red flags i don't know i think 1.00

01:29:51.980 all i'd ever really want from a guy is just kind of like because i consider myself kind of ambitious

01:29:55.580 so if you got goals too i mean if you're like set if you have like a path i with that yeah

01:30:01.100 i agree tattoo on the height tattoo yeah okay you said tattoo and height yeah how tall are you i'm

01:30:10.940 five six so six three and above six three and above by the way six three and above that's only one

01:30:18.700 percent of men just letting you guys know i'm fine being single just letting you guys know yeah but i

01:30:23.740 know that was what's yours with girls what's gonna ignore all the red flags so baggage thank you for

01:30:30.300 that ignore all the red flags i don't say all but like some that are so okay again i don't have a

01:30:37.020 height preference i really don't like if if she's like four eight i'm like okay that's like that's 0.96

01:30:43.100 like a person yeah i don't know so i guess like five foot is a minimum height but like i don't care if

01:30:51.740 if she's like if she's tall if if she's like six four i don't care okay i will climb a tall tree

01:30:58.460 like i don't know i up there i will climb a tall tree i feel like i'm a tall girl i'm five eight

01:31:04.300 and i sometimes feel like it's sometimes like a hindrance being this tall i feel like especially

01:31:07.980 guys guys don't really want to be around girls they're height it's not just like a girl thing

01:31:11.580 i don't think they get intimidated yeah yeah guys get intimidated by tall women yeah i think so 0.90

01:31:19.500 maybe because they think that women have an issue with height i don't i come from like a really tall 0.98

01:31:25.420 family so like i think it's just like a preference thing sorry i didn't mean to press that um you

01:31:31.980 know i i think for most guys most guys do not care about height at all no like they'll date a woman

01:31:40.380 who's i'm six feet i'll date a girl who's six five i'll date a woman who's well and i'll i'm about to

01:31:48.300 get into the things that'll make me ignore red flag honestly if her height doesn't start with four 0.99

01:31:54.460 she ain't the one four eleven four ten i'm just what i have a cute height legally a dwarf 0.87

01:32:05.420 hook it up i know i like seeing i'm sorry you're too tall for me i like i like seeing like six foot

01:32:11.420 five guys with like really short girls for some reason i don't know yeah i think actually the

01:32:16.220 like a mate and maddie type situation oh see there's definitely like some short women so the 1.00

01:32:22.140 average female heights five four women who are like five feet no offense um they seem to actually 1.00

01:32:28.460 have a hot more of a preference for a guy who's like say six feet no that's true yeah then does

01:32:33.500 then does a woman who's like average height five four five six five eight so uh but yeah as far as 1.00

01:32:39.900 red flags that would make me or that things in a woman that would make me ignore six five and homeless 1.00

01:32:46.700 is her time yeah six five homeless i'll take it yeah pretty much i would say uh short the short

01:32:54.780 shorter the better she can be a midget i guess a dwarf hey there's sorry maybe that i don't think 0.98

01:33:00.700 that's the politically correct term and large labia okay all labia matter guys can get some all

01:33:09.020 all labia matter in the chat guys thank you so um let's see here uh okay stifler ask the ladies 1.00

01:33:14.460 to rate themselves on a scale of one to ten okay we can do that go ahead i think seven dude i was

01:33:20.540 gonna say seven too i'd say myself seven so seven rate ourselves yeah yeah your physical appearance

01:33:27.820 we're all tens here but like i don't care okay so you're a ten we're all tens maybe like six point

01:33:43.660 eight nah like a four oh no that's why i said we all have to say we're tens yeah i think i'm a four too

01:33:53.020 like seven oh it was only supposed to be for the ladies no yeah right yourself he's gonna jump

01:34:01.420 in i i give myself like six six point nine on a good day trying to kick out

01:34:07.020 and then okay we got logan paul i want to get pegged by andrew tate

01:34:11.020 unpopular opinion i think logan paul's hot how dare you

01:34:15.260 the silence that is unpopular when he doesn't have that like homeless looking yeah yeah when

01:34:23.020 that's off i get your point yeah yeah i mean logan paul i met him before oh you met him yeah like a

01:34:30.140 long time ago you met him a long time ago y'all smashed no no no okay it was like a meet and greet

01:34:38.700 type of oh like vidcon or something no but like in that type of sure sure sure okay i was like 13

01:34:46.780 so i wanted to come back to you because you said come back to me for the standards thing so what are

01:34:51.100 your oh my god i didn't even think of it i was just like agreeing with what they're saying they

01:34:54.380 basically got like everything like that did everyone get to give their standards for a guy

01:34:59.340 yeah because i switched over to the red flag right i do want to bring it back

01:35:03.340 i think it ended off with yazzy right yeah yeah yeah you got yours yeah you got yours i think so

01:35:10.620 did you get to go your standards for is it like for for dating or yeah like what what does it take

01:35:17.820 for a guy to get you your standards it could be physical it could be personality um i feel like i'm

01:35:24.060 just looking for guys that's not going to lower my standard of living so you mean you want a guy who

01:35:30.220 matches you your earnings yeah or like financial wise okay you know because you can be more on the

01:35:37.500 same page and not going to be an issue because i was in your shoes before i got cheated on yeah i pay

01:35:42.780 for a lot of things and you know he still owe me money oh yeah yeah 100 yeah so like i learned from

01:35:48.860 my mistakes i was like i'm not about to do that no more a guy's paying for me all the way next time

01:35:53.900 where can you find women who are simps you know right here 1.00

01:36:00.220 it'd be nice right i mean have you it would be nice have you had a proper sim for you

01:36:05.020 like people call me like sugar mom the same way that guys sim for women no no definitely not

01:36:11.900 i i have a friend would you like it though oh i would love it oh my god

01:36:16.540 yeah i i think it'd be fun okay i have a friend that someone asked her like are you friends with

01:36:22.060 jubilee because she gives you stuff oh yeah our friend it's our best friend someone really genuinely

01:36:27.340 went up to her like are you only friends with her because she'll like get you stuff sometimes 0.62

01:36:31.180 just because she's my best friend i would get her shit sometimes i would pay for food sometimes 0.99

01:36:35.420 i don't know i was nice i'm just a nice person honestly i feel like if a girl just brought like 0.98

01:36:41.180 on our second time hanging out just brought me like a three dollar trinket or some bullshit i'd be 0.77

01:36:46.940 like holy shit i'd be like super i pulled a tech deck out of my purse i'm like here's your tech deck 0.96

01:36:51.980 here just play with it a tech deck yeah i keep a tech deck in my purse wait can we bust no i'm 0.77

01:36:56.460 kidding i don't i don't have it here bummer bummer bummer okay so i was on a date with a guy and i

01:37:01.580 gave him a tech deck and he goes on his instagram story just pulling tricks he was real hyped about

01:37:04.940 it he had a great time so we were talking a bit earlier about um sort of hookup culture and you guys

01:37:13.820 wanting guys to be you would you say you wish guys were more up front with you yeah about their

01:37:19.580 intentions yes okay and we sort of went into that eric we're going to pull up a video here if you

01:37:24.860 can go to the videos tab for us all right play the uh let's play the uh scroll up just a bit play

01:37:35.260 the brian asking video did you speak english uh i just thought you were really cute and i want to know

01:37:47.100 if you wanted to have sex no no okay that's quite rude i just thought you're cute and i want to know 0.76

01:37:55.180 if you wanted to have sex no no i thought you're really cute and i want to know if you want to have 0.98

01:38:02.460 sex with me and i want to know if you want to have sex did you guys speak english yeah are you where you 0.99

01:38:11.420 from australia australia australia cool you guys are really cute okay and i want to know if you 0.99

01:38:16.700 guys want to have sex do you want to have sex no no no no no i just thought you're cute and i just 0.98

01:38:28.540 want to know if you want to have sex i'm just kind of fine my friend no thank you thank you all right 1.00

01:38:34.220 night have sex with me are you stupid or i'm a little stupid well you wanna lie on the ground or not 1.00

01:38:40.940 right now yes what do you mean lie on the ground then we're gonna slap you very hard yes when i'm on 1.00

01:38:48.140 the ground that's not what you're gonna ask a lady no oh i'm not i'm not from around here so i don't know the

01:38:54.780 custom okay uh your guys's reaction to that video by the way that was me oh really yeah

01:39:04.620 your reaction very upfront um

01:39:10.540 i feel like if a guy did that to me personally it would depend on my mood maybe but i would think

01:39:16.780 you're joking like you came up in like a certain tone and you said that to me i'd be like oh you're

01:39:21.660 just joking so okay maybe yes maybe yes maybe in the center of amsterdam like that just maybe yes

01:39:30.780 okay maybe okay go ahead yeah i'd probably say no

01:39:35.820 what are we saying just your reaction your reaction to the video the reaction what would you do in that

01:39:41.260 situation oh if someone did oh i'd say no okay okay or your reaction to the video okay yeah i didn't know

01:39:46.460 what i didn't know um i would say no i mean one reaction i had to that was like there's like a

01:39:53.580 time and place for everything and even if the guy's being extremely nice and just being like hi i thought

01:40:00.300 you were really nice and i'd really like to get to know you like if i'm just like walking around like

01:40:07.100 sometimes i do i don't want to be hit on so like having someone come up to you and be like

01:40:12.460 fuck me right now like i'd be like whoa like no that was in amsterdam you said yeah that was in 0.98

01:40:20.540 amsterdam no that's it's like if someone from like europe came over here and they started like asking 1.00

01:40:24.620 if i wanted to have sex i'd like think i was getting trafficked or something oh my god

01:40:30.540 i mean probably a lot of people i went up to were they were tourists themselves oh pro i mean i can't

01:40:36.300 did anyone say yes actually one woman i asked 200 women one woman said yes that's a lot wow yeah

01:40:43.900 one wow well you know your ratio yeah i'm telling you it's rough for men okay go ahead no no okay so

01:40:53.740 now you gotta ask him what if a girl went up to you like well we're gonna we're gonna get to that eric if 0.99

01:40:59.100 you can play the uh one yep you guys are easy i already know oh i see would you have sex with me 1.00

01:41:11.580 oh my god 1.00

01:41:16.140 yes no pretty please

01:41:19.660 this is an idol person by the way you can just kind of lay there and i'll just do my thing

01:41:25.660 why not okay let's go 0.99

01:41:29.340 i just want to ask you guys if you would be down to have sex with me 1.00

01:41:33.500 i will definitely have sex with you like right like literally right now 1.00

01:41:36.300 where do you want to go 1.00

01:41:37.340 your house is like right over there i'll go with it right now 1.00

01:41:39.340 right now are you down yeah why not let me know if this is too forward um if you would have sex with me 1.00

01:41:44.220 hold on i'm on the mom can i call you back maybe you'd want to have sex with me 1.00

01:41:52.220 yes yeah like right now like literally my house like right over there 1.00

01:41:56.700 sure you want to have sex with me are you out of your mind 1.00

01:42:00.860 maybe a little bit you've been drinking kind of the best way oh no i'm completely sober 1.00

01:42:06.380 you out of your mind in the best kind of way come to my house you want okay you want to have sex with me 1.00

01:42:14.220 okay all right ready to go yeah let's go okay i better not be getting robbed right now 1.00

01:42:44.940 okay i knew it your guys's reaction to that video

01:42:51.820 i called it i mean every guy's gonna be like yeah i'm down yeah and she's also like really hot 1.00

01:42:56.380 yeah so any guy i mean i think any guy anytime like yeah we're gonna right now and i don't

01:43:01.100 care like you put a young leo dicaprio asking us that question yeah i mean so that is a fair point

01:43:07.900 and some comments are saying that to be fair andrea is very attractive she's probably 1.00

01:43:12.220 i'd say at least two points above me in terms of our looks equivalent but um i did do it with uh

01:43:19.660 cody meddler we did a version with him i i think he's fairly attractive guy and he asked 100 women

01:43:28.060 zero he got zero and he's a pretty good looking dude really fit so but all right uh so did you get to

01:43:34.940 give your take or your take men are easy yeah that's what i've noticed from that video yeah 0.99

01:43:43.340 yeah i mean if she came up to me and asked if i want to have sex with her 1.00

01:43:47.660 uh i'd say no but i think i'd like get her like instagram or something so

01:43:55.100 honestly i don't really know what to say i'm just surprised it was like a hundred percent you know

01:43:59.900 yeah yeah so that's what surprised me i mean she she did that that was a sort of a compilation clip

01:44:05.020 she did get some no's but like when we went out and filmed that um i had her because i wanted to 0.94

01:44:11.100 get at least some no's she was going up to people like with their girlfriend like couples she went 0.62

01:44:17.580 up to a dad so dad a dad yeah did he say yeah no oh did you give your oh i think it's pretty fair

01:44:26.940 like she's hot okay and uh what would you do if andrea uh came up to you and asked you if you wanted 0.99

01:44:36.620 that sex what would you do in that situation i think that would be lovely i would just i think 0.99

01:44:40.700 i would respectfully say let's go let's do it take her hand lead the way and then you get your organs 1.00

01:44:49.500 harvested okay yeah seriously yeah it's i mean i think that's that one guy at the end he was like i

01:44:54.540 better not be getting robbed right now so yeah i mean that's kind of the to bring it back to the

01:45:02.060 conversation about um you know uh what was it so i started i started that sentence guys being up

01:45:10.540 front and yeah so guys being up front so like i mean you've seen the video i would say i was pretty

01:45:17.100 diplomatic and polite about about it you know so if guys were up front like that it's just it's not

01:45:23.980 you need women want a little bit more before so guys are going to play the game and uh 1.00

01:45:32.620 so i mean i think it's also like circumstances like it's like like you guys said like when they

01:45:40.300 are like dtf they're like asking you on tinder and stuff like that's different like

01:45:46.700 you could you could do that same scenario like on text like on tinder and you'd probably get

01:45:50.380 like a lot more like we we actually did also do that same experiment on tinder there's so many

01:45:54.860 experiments a lot of experiments also it's a lot easier over text like just like talking over the phone

01:46:01.740 is a lot less intimidating than in person you can also scope out someone's profile like people got

01:46:06.300 years and stuff backed up there actually we luke are we gonna have you do that in the updated version

01:46:14.220 of that yeah yeah guys we're gonna have one in the chat if you want to see luke doing that social

01:46:20.780 experiment and then two in the chat if you want jubilee to do it also okay i'll do it yeah so um

01:46:30.780 okay so i wanna we didn't really get to finish off with the if you have any sort of uh gripe with uh

01:46:39.340 dating anything dating related you want to get off your chest did you got an opportunity to answer

01:46:43.660 that right no i don't like what do you mean so at the very beginning of the show i asked and i wanted

01:46:50.140 to give everyone that on the panel an opportunity to answer this um is there anything dating related you

01:46:55.180 want to get off your chest off your chest recent bad date experience just something general about

01:47:02.060 men general about dating anything i don't think so i don't really like go on dates or like do any of

01:47:09.500 that i'm just you don't go on dates no i just do you just hook up oh well yeah you've only had been

01:47:16.060 with two guys so i feel like i've been like slowly putting in my input in like different places so there's

01:47:23.180 nothing really like major that i feel like i need to put out nothing that bothers you nothing that

01:47:28.540 comes to mind oh ah okay we've discussed with hookup culture um from what i've heard men if they are

01:47:43.900 going to participate in hookup culture need to understand the rules of hookup culture and major issue

01:47:52.860 is condoms guys who are hooking up with like other girls they will try and hit it without a condom and

01:48:03.020 then the girl has to be like can you put one on and sometimes they have to like go make their friend get 0.67

01:48:12.140 one and like wait so can you can you clarify a little bit clarify what well so okay you're saying

01:48:23.180 is this a situation that you found yourself in no so you're speaking on behalf of a friend that's

01:48:29.900 told you about this yes i've like heard some stuff okay well i mean it's not surprising to me that men

01:48:35.740 prefer having sex without a condom but so what what what's my issue with that what yeah what is your 0.55

01:48:43.260 my issue with that is that with hookup culture like guys are probably hooking up with multiple people at

01:48:49.660 once maybe just like i don't even know but like sorry go ahead continue yeah like they might be hooking

01:48:56.300 up with like multiple people and like like you just need to be safe with that and so like getting

01:49:05.340 tested condoms like like i'm like as a girl like i would want to be safe like i would hope that he

01:49:14.940 would want to be safe as well like i just don't understand like why they would be so reckless about it

01:49:22.620 and it's honestly kind of disgusting yeah

01:49:31.820 just so just so i understand you've heard from female friends of yours that because i mean 0.61

01:49:39.820 i'm just trying to understand what's going on so they start they are having sex

01:49:45.900 but they're they're not using a condom and then midway through sex the girl's like can you 1.00

01:49:51.340 put a condom on now i'm just like before it's like before and okay so before the sex starts yeah 0.76

01:49:56.940 and he'll like try to do it without and then when you say try you mean he'll be like uh let's just

01:50:02.700 not yeah like he'll say try to convince her to not yeah okay sure that that's my issue okay

01:50:11.740 that guys don't want to use condoms back or that they're not like guys who are hooking up with

01:50:17.820 multiple like i'm not one to judge people for hooking up like you do whatever you want to each

01:50:23.980 their own but it's like you gotta protection you gotta protect yourself sure practice safe sex yes

01:50:33.020 if nothing else yeah yeah i mean i definitely would say that if as i mean as a guy yes it feels better to

01:50:41.500 have sex without a condom but if you're hooking up with a lot of women probably for your own safety

01:50:49.820 for a few i mean stds and also pregnancy risk probably a smart idea to wear a condom yeah um but 1.00

01:51:01.580 i i think both people should be responsible for protection i think like bring a condom to i mean if

01:51:10.780 if like a female condom no well i mean actually you have one wait that's like oh i've never seen 0.98

01:51:17.820 one in person this is a uh female condom you know it'd be funny as fuck guys and i've mentioned this 0.99

01:51:24.380 in another podcast you're hooking up with the girl right you're hooking up with a girl and she's like 0.99

01:51:30.300 do you have a condom and you're like of course babe i got you i'm a i'm a uh responsible individual

01:51:38.140 here you go here you go put it on and then the chick's gonna be like uh what 1.00

01:51:52.300 all you babe throw this in really quick yeah get strapped

01:51:55.660 um i actually wanted to comment on that really quick so personally i i'm not a i'm not big on

01:52:10.780 hookup culture again if i'm going to ivy i'm going to ivy to have fun um but you know if one thing leads

01:52:17.020 to another and i'm enjoying myself i'm not going to deny it and there have been people that i want to

01:52:21.340 get with and so i always stay strapped fellas it just it just stays strapped who gives a 0.98

01:52:29.100 fuck either you don't use it and great you don't use it or you use it and guess what you still 0.99

01:52:34.060 fucking scored bro like it's not that big of a deal relax i'm gonna come in with a hot take here 1.00

01:52:40.460 i would i would honestly if i for one night stand i would honestly rather just not even have sex 0.99

01:52:51.260 if i have to use a condom oh wow so i'll like say hey i just don't we can do other stuff but i'm

01:52:58.140 probably just gonna be like i don't even wanna well i mean that's like your choice yeah that is your

01:53:01.660 choice yeah yeah i'm not gonna i wouldn't like pressure the girl but it would just be like you

01:53:06.700 know i just don't yeah do you think it's safe to get tested regularly though yes what's that

01:53:11.580 yeah do you get tested regularly like after you whoa i can't even say those words after each partner

01:53:18.540 like do you go get tested again huh what like after each sexual partner like do you go get tested again

01:53:27.580 uh yeah like if it's the end of the relationship i guess if i'm gonna be it's more so if i'm like maybe

01:53:34.220 the relationships ended or there's someone new like if i'm gonna start dating someone new we broke

01:53:41.180 up whatever maybe then then yeah okay but uh yeah i mean like god be even i've tried the thin ones

01:53:48.700 and it's just like there's no going back there's no going back i yeah i can admit that one it's not

01:53:56.700 the same it's better but not safe wait yeah but it's like as safe okay i've heard this like a while

01:54:02.700 ago i feel like like you would give me an honest answer does like an erection feel like if your arm

01:54:07.260 is like fully like like do that like just put your arm out like just like fully extend it

01:54:15.020 we're getting very close to doing a roman salute 0.95

01:54:17.740 yeah um show me again it's just like i heard this like when i was younger got some german relatives or

01:54:31.500 something it's like if you fully extend your arm like fully like clench it like all your muscles

01:54:35.660 it feels like it feels like an erection wait can you um do you know that thing where you can you

01:54:40.220 put your elbows no together no guys guys we're trying to protect the girls i appreciate you 0.91

01:54:52.060 it was the chat asking they forced me to do it chat you forced me to do it okay um so i don't know how

01:54:58.940 we're we were okay so we're talking about condoms um but yeah i mean definitely i think i think both

01:55:05.340 people should try to be prepped on that but definitely um it's gonna take that for later

01:55:12.780 like yo i don't got one but like hey excuse me i have a condom actually oh really yeah here you go 0.83

01:55:20.540 it's on you it's on you tonight you have to like fling it towards them like it's hard

01:55:24.220 yeah the two figures too yeah the two figures just throw it out yeah it's uh yeah imagine though

01:55:31.340 the first the first time with a new girl yes do you have a condom of course babe it's like so 0.53

01:55:38.140 aerodynamic too yeah perfect you should get some of the pesticide that they it's really like the

01:55:43.180 one pesticide pesticide there's like you squirt it you mean spermicide oh that's for me

01:55:49.580 pesticides for plants oh god that'll do that that'll yeah that'll be terrible

01:55:55.580 that'll mess double um so just moving along so uh anything dating related you want to get off your

01:56:03.420 chest oh i don't know i think first of all like i'll fully admit it i'm like not very mature so like i

01:56:11.340 think a lot of people aren't and i feel like a lot of the issues that kind of come around with college

01:56:14.700 is because no one's really mature and half the people i know want a relationship and half of them

01:56:19.180 don't and it's always kind of like this in between thing i don't know i just don't really want a

01:56:23.820 relationship right now

01:56:28.460 well i don't think i can think of anything on top of my loop anything for you um i'm i'm in a weird

01:56:34.700 place i think because you know again i just got out of a relationship so i don't know if i want to

01:56:39.820 jump into anything serious super quick but at the same time like being in a in a fun loving relationship

01:56:48.060 is so amazing and so i'm like i'm torn i don't know it's it's hard and yeah i i don't know i'm just

01:56:57.900 spewing nonsense now but i'm i'm so in between but like what do you look for isn't that the question

01:57:05.500 or no i don't know what pisses you off about girls or women oh yeah oh okay um red flags women red 1.00

01:57:12.460 flags anything that just like you just want to get off your chest yeah i mean i've had a pretty

01:57:18.460 good experience with women so no not really must be nice uh-huh yeah i think you guys again all i

01:57:25.260 think everyone says their standards way too high and like you were saying about so was you though

01:57:29.980 saying something about social media okay yeah so i i agree with that 100 i think the fact that we can

01:57:36.780 see these like gorgeous people and compare everyone else to them it's like that's like a one in a

01:57:41.900 hunt like one in a thousand chance that you're gonna actually see someone like that and you know

01:57:47.660 they're probably who knows but because they're so gorgeous they're probably taking advantage of and 0.98

01:57:53.260 they can be assholes so and it doesn't matter how gorgeous they are if you're paired with someone 1.00

01:58:00.060 every day who's an asshole who's gonna mistreat you it's gonna suck like you can look at them and be 1.00

01:58:05.180 like wow she's gorgeous or he's super hot but at the end if he treats you like shit it's like well 1.00

01:58:10.620 now i feel shitty you start seeing them as like ugly at one at like some point yeah exactly i feel 0.99

01:58:16.060 like three months in is when you really see it i've heard that a lot with like all over social media

01:58:21.260 is the three-month rule the three-month yeah even with friends too like in general that works with

01:58:26.620 people yeah yeah do you know this is brian the three-month rule have you heard of this yeah yeah i'm

01:58:32.380 trying to think i don't know if there's a chris rock joke about this or something but when you're

01:58:35.420 first meeting somebody you're not meeting them you're meeting their representative so people are

01:58:41.900 like gonna be on their best behavior putting their best self forward but then as time goes on i mean

01:58:49.020 some people there's a continuity and they're just fantastic people through and through but then there

01:58:54.300 are definitely people that uh it takes a while to sort of see the madness or they just that's just up

01:59:01.980 front too sometimes so definitely so got a couple more questions for you guys uh

01:59:09.900 when it comes to dating and relationships what do you bring to the table

01:59:17.340 and i want to start over here just since we've been starting over there or at least we can start with

01:59:21.740 you and then move around what do i bring um i think i bring a sense of like security respect and

01:59:29.100 maturity i don't think i'm a lot like people who are just gonna use you know their partner or they're

01:59:37.740 just in it for sex um and i've been with you know immature people and i just it's and i don't know how 0.68

01:59:46.700 to like describe immature like they're not forward with how they feel or if they get in if you get in a

01:59:52.140 fight they're so quick to like blame you for it instead of working through it i find it way more

01:59:57.100 comforting to like if there's a problem fix it don't don't let it just linger there and fade away

02:00:03.020 you need to like jump on that and fix it especially if you want to be with that person um and yeah i mean

02:00:10.140 i feel like i'm a responsible person i have a stable income and i'm good looking so i bring all that 0.99

02:00:19.100 that and i'm not gonna i don't find myself as one of these fuck boys that are just gonna treat you 0.99

02:00:24.540 like shit and then leave you know if i'm if i'm talking to you it's probably gonna be in it for the 1.00

02:00:29.820 long run unless like you said i don't get the vibe or i don't fit the vibe with you in which case i'll 0.99

02:00:36.060 let you know respectfully like hey i don't think this is gonna work out i just i think you are paired

02:00:40.620 with someone else better than you are with me so i don't think it's gonna work out between us

02:00:46.060 condoms and you're always strapped with uh and i'm always strapped i always email condoms yeah

02:00:52.940 you should sponsor those yes uh passante whatever can can we get the sponsorship guys we've been 0.86

02:01:00.860 plugging this shit like a couple shows so yeah and we even if you just want to send us like a thousand 0.85

02:01:06.540 of these that'll be cool hand them out yeah we'll hand them out around atlevis goody bags 0.98

02:01:10.780 goody the women need it okay uh go ahead um i think like i'm pretty mature so like what i bring

02:01:19.180 is like maturity and in the relationship i feel like it's really important to um you know motivate

02:01:25.740 each other and then to become better and also it is really important to think into different

02:01:31.500 perspectives because at the end of the day you and your partner might be coming from a different

02:01:36.860 background different story think differently so i think being respectful and um think in different

02:01:43.420 perspectives so you can understand what each other are thinking are pretty important as well that is

02:01:48.060 what i think um i don't know i'd like to think i bring like honesty and loyalty and just trust in

02:01:55.660 general and like be a good person but i think some i'm just still working on everything i think i'm

02:02:01.020 like a work in progress so i'm kind of every day i kind of just try to be a better version of myself

02:02:05.100 i think that's what i bring um as i've mentioned before i've never been in a relationship so i don't

02:02:12.300 actually have experience with this

02:02:17.740 never been in a relationship oh yeah your longest one was two years or sorry two months

02:02:22.940 yeah just like talking stages so and are you a sophomore ucsb i am okay yeah so i mean but i feel

02:02:30.380 like if i were to i feel like i'm pretty like mature about things i feel like i can be

02:02:39.260 like i mean one big thing i have is like communication so it's like i feel like in a

02:02:45.900 relationship like i'd be pretty easy to talk to like pretty reasonable yeah i think that's something i

02:02:52.540 could bring i feel like i feel like i'm kind of like the textbook girlfriend when i like become a

02:03:01.420 girlfriend you know what i mean i don't know if that makes sense but like how so but like if i'm

02:03:07.740 like really obvious like if i'm actually dating you like we're fully together and official or whatever

02:03:14.060 um like i will i'll go like above and beyond like i'll if you are having a bad day like to bring you

02:03:22.300 shit that makes you feel better like something like to hang out with your family and like actually 0.60

02:03:26.860 connect with like not just you but like the whole family yeah yeah like my my ex's family invited me to 0.96

02:03:35.420 like family gatherings like even like months after we started dating because because i was just close with them

02:03:42.060 um yeah honestly like like everyone said trust like loyalty communication and like definitely

02:03:51.100 like supportive like i will support you in like school or your job or whatever you know i can agree

02:03:57.660 with vivi i if i'm single i'm single i'm gonna do my own thing but in a relationship i will do anything

02:04:03.420 as i mean to an extent i mean i broke that in the past but i i will i will cook you food i will kind

02:04:10.940 of do anything if you're like i said she's like she said like if you're having a bad day like

02:04:14.780 i would cheer you up i will go out and go get your favorite snacks you could just chill and just do

02:04:20.060 everything but um for me like i started my own business in high school and i've been growing that

02:04:26.860 and i am on that kind of point in my life where if you're not doing something that you're working

02:04:34.780 towards or anything like maturity type um yeah i just i don't know i definitely in that maturity level

02:04:46.220 right now i mean i mean i'm not that old i'm still really young but um i guess that's what i kind of

02:04:52.460 bring a lot of maturity in a lot of ways a lot of security trust um and a lot of loyalty

02:05:00.140 i'd like to add one more thing too by the way i think in a relationship and this is just this is

02:05:07.500 for me i think it should be for a lot of other people i get it if you like the whole clingy you're

02:05:12.140 my person for like forever and always that's great i think in a relationship you are your own person and

02:05:18.540 you're in that relationship to better yourself with that person's like contact and their presence

02:05:25.740 it's not like i'm controlling you all the way if if and like like you guys all said if if if

02:05:33.020 cheaters are gonna cheat like if if you're gonna cheat just let them off the hook that's just just

02:05:38.140 break up with them right there and then um i fully agree with that and i find myself a super loyal person

02:05:45.100 i would never ever do that especially knowing how it feels and so you know you should be your own

02:05:51.740 person and trust that they're gonna support you in whatever you do and as soon as that goes out the

02:05:56.540 window i think the relationship starts to diminish i i can agree if someone doesn't support me

02:06:02.780 it makes me feel really bad i've worked my fucking ass off to get to where i am and if they don't 0.95

02:06:07.580 i'm like you don't care about me you're not gonna support my dreams and my career and everything but 0.89

02:06:11.820 i'm gonna support you with everything you do yeah but if i don't get the same back i'm not gonna 0.97

02:06:15.100 fuck with you anymore like you just it goes down and down like with my feelings towards you 0.99

02:06:19.660 if you don't what's your business i do nails nails okay i've been doing it for like a little 1.00

02:06:24.700 over two and a half years okay nice got my clientele all that so you would be upset if uh your partner

02:06:31.100 didn't uh support you in terms of your business yeah okay what if i told when you say support what

02:06:38.860 do you mean um if they don't like if i show you my work and you're like oh it's like it's cool or if

02:06:47.580 they don't like you had a really good day of work and you're really excited about it and like you're

02:06:52.140 proud of yourself if they're not proud of you then i don't think that's a good thing can i uh yeah i

02:06:59.020 also so it's like not my business it's my sister's she does like events in town i was talking about it

02:07:05.180 i think before we started the podcast they're like flea markets in town and i feel like

02:07:11.100 i i usually like invite my my close friends and stuff and if i was in a relationship and i invited the

02:07:17.020 person and they didn't come i feel like i say like too much i already know but i would

02:07:25.820 i probably wouldn't like them as much if they like didn't come and support me

02:07:32.940 wait so and you just going back to you so you said that you'd want to tell your partner about

02:07:37.180 like a good day at work so i mean what is a no offense or anything but what is a good day at work

02:07:43.020 doing nails if i i personally like the work that i did i okay like because is there an artistic

02:07:48.780 component oh 100 okay the designs could be really pretty or i had a really good conversation with

02:07:53.820 someone because i built a lot of bonds with my clients and i become friends with them a lot of

02:07:58.140 my really close friends now are because i met them by working and they just make an appointment with me

02:08:03.020 and then i a lot of times i become their friend because of the connection you grow sure but like a lot

02:08:08.460 i've like shown guys like my work and they're like they just either ignore that i like i'll show them

02:08:12.300 a picture or they kind of ignore it just like over text um and they just don't really say anything or

02:08:16.220 like oh my god i'm so proud of you like you're doing really well um especially like i'm 19 and i

02:08:21.260 have my own business and it's going really well nice and it's thank you and if they're not supportive

02:08:26.220 of that and it just doesn't think they're supportive of my career a lot of guys think it's either

02:08:30.940 really cool or really stupid yeah i mean this i think when you're in a relationship with someone

02:08:39.260 you should certainly be supportive of them i think part of that might be related to what it might be 0.95

02:08:45.660 related to though is that men don't really care about a woman's career in just let me clarify a bit

02:08:58.940 it doesn't make you more attractive to us if you have a career or you're successful or you're

02:09:04.060 ambitious did you say why no i was just saying okay oh okay yeah yeah so i think for for most men

02:09:10.780 like we like because you might be an outlier but most women don't share their their resources with 1.00

02:09:19.100 men the same way that men share their resources with women i know a lot of you are in college so it's 0.95

02:09:23.420 like what the fuck you talking about brian but like you're probably finances to you guys probably 0.91

02:09:28.700 are not really high on the totem pole yet because most of the guys you're probably interacting with 0.98

02:09:34.940 are in college they're not in a career yet but as you do start to get a bit older um you know you

02:09:42.380 hear a lot about women like men with high status so if that could be through a job if they're an athlete

02:09:49.500 musician actor something like that whereas men we do not care it we really care nothing at all about a

02:09:56.940 woman's status whereas women care if a man has status that is can be very attractive it's also 1.00

02:10:06.620 kind of hated upon though like i know a lot of women who end up with men who i guess would be

02:10:12.620 considered like lower status or not paid as much it gets more disrespected than if it was actually

02:10:18.220 just a man of a higher status with a woman of a lower status i feel like that's more unusual i feel like

02:10:22.060 a lot of people yeah like trophy wife yeah yeah like the trophy wife trope is seen as super common

02:10:26.780 but you don't really see the other way i feel like it's kind of stigmatized you think it's stigmatized

02:10:31.500 for a woman to be with be with a man who's yeah like if learning less than her or if you even go on

02:10:41.180 like the internet and just see like these really famous influencers with their husbands who just 0.99

02:10:45.180 are in the background it's like constantly in the comments it's like why is she with him what is she doing

02:10:49.980 like he's like just doing this and that it's but if you see like a very like ronaldo or something

02:10:55.500 you wouldn't question why he had a girlfriend he's back he's back he's watching round uh sorry go

02:11:03.740 ahead oh like first like a famous celebrity or something like that if it was a male you wouldn't

02:11:07.980 you wouldn't bat an eye if they had like a really attractive younger person who wasn't even a celebrity 1.00

02:11:11.900 okay yeah i would say though overwhelmingly like a lot of did you want to come in on this it looked

02:11:20.220 like you were okay it looked like it seems like for women who are high status there are definitely 0.86

02:11:27.100 women that will date down but the thing is is as a woman as you start increasing your status and as you

02:11:33.420 start making more money your pool of potential partners tends to shrink because most women 1.00

02:11:40.140 don't want to date a guy who's lower status than them or whose uh earning potential is lower than

02:11:47.580 them now again i know you guys are in college so like you haven't probably played too much or wrestled

02:11:53.900 too much with these sort of dynamics but and i know you're an outlier apparently but um i'd say so

02:12:00.860 yeah most most women and if you i think they've done polls on this like most women and you can also do 1.00

02:12:05.820 it with uh education attainment most women would want to date a man who is at least as or more

02:12:12.220 educated than she is i think as might be i don't know so if she has a bachelor she wants a guy who has 1.00

02:12:20.780 a bachelor's she has a master's i don't know if they they did it for uh grad student like people who 0.86

02:12:28.460 have uh graduate level degrees but um post-grad whatever it's called uh so yeah i i feel like

02:12:38.780 with that it's just like finding a partner like you're finding an equal like you want to have someone

02:12:47.100 who has kind of the same like when you were saying with education like you want someone with the same

02:12:54.460 education as you it's more of just seem seeing someone as like an equal instead of like maybe

02:13:03.340 having to like try and explain things to him that he wouldn't understand and that's not saying like

02:13:08.780 you both have to have like engineering degrees in order for that to happen like it can definitely be

02:13:14.780 where maybe like she is some like boss businesswoman but he's out like doing like

02:13:25.660 i don't know maybe he's just like doing something like a little bit less like i don't really i can't

02:13:30.700 think of any examples but it doesn't mean like i feel like it's not it's not so much as something

02:13:38.300 that needs to be put down on paper it's kind of like an everyday kind of thing like she wants to

02:13:42.780 be able to talk to him and not feel like she's talking to someone that isn't matching her

02:13:50.700 like mentally if that makes sense i think men also kind of feel like from what i've talked to

02:13:56.460 i feel like i've met more men who like are more comfortable or prefer taking that like breadwinner

02:14:00.780 position like a lot of guys i've talked to like actually want to engage in that i think for a woman

02:14:06.460 it's more because only recently like in the past hundred years when i've kind of gotten the rights to

02:14:12.140 do whatever so it's kind of always trying to work up on an even playing field versus i think a lot

02:14:15.980 of men still kind of just want to not all of them but a lot too what if yeah do you find a lot of

02:14:22.140 women want to fall into the role of like you know housewife i've actually met quite a few who like 1.00

02:14:28.860 actually want to do that especially more like religious people but it's still pretty common i'd say

02:14:34.540 yeah did anybody else want to come in on this oh sorry did did you have more i was just saying

02:14:40.700 in university it's kind of biased because all the girls here are pursuing like a higher education so 1.00

02:14:44.380 you wouldn't really find that yeah and obviously like sometimes like girls joke about it like oh it 0.98

02:14:51.260 would be so nice to just marry rich and then you don't have to worry about anything but that would be

02:14:56.620 nice it would be nice it's it's the dream but obviously like every time like i say it personally like

02:15:03.260 i mean as a joke like i have my own aspirations what are your aspirations well i mean what are you

02:15:10.540 what are you studying again i'm undeclared okay like i don't have any at the moment but like i do

02:15:15.900 want to have something of my own like if i were to get into a relationship like i personally would not

02:15:23.820 want to just like live off of everything that he's doing and just have like if i want to go grocery

02:15:32.060 shopping hey can i get some money to go grocery shopping like that's not what i mean i just want

02:15:37.500 to come in on this really quick so it's kind of interesting because like you have so traditionally you

02:15:44.620 would have the man providing and it was more traditional so he'd be the head of the household

02:15:50.140 he'd be the lead the leader so to speak and it's interesting to me that

02:15:55.260 women so you could say that women were submissive to their husbands wives were submissive to their 1.00

02:16:03.340 husbands but you've traded that by being submissive to an employer you now instead of being submissive

02:16:12.220 to your husband you are now submissive to an employer and your employer is going to ask i would 0.76

02:16:17.500 say much more of you than would a husband well i mean wouldn't you also be like submissive to an

02:16:24.860 employer yeah i mean we're all submissive to something no but i'm saying like traditionally if

02:16:29.820 the man if if you were say a stay-at-home you didn't have to go out and labor you didn't have to go out

02:16:35.740 and work you would you would only be submissive to a husband and the kids and the cleaning and the 0.97

02:16:44.380 cooking and yeah well i don't think i don't think women should be submissive to their children

02:16:50.060 well they do have to like do everything for them okay fair well you're i i think as a as a mother you

02:16:57.900 have a thought you're in a position of authority over your children yeah yeah hopefully yeah hopefully

02:17:03.580 but uh but no i mean i think it's uh i just want to clarify something i do think it's

02:17:07.820 really i i think it's great that we've have women in the labor pool um i don't want to come off like

02:17:16.300 i'm trying to roll that back or anything um but it does well i don't want to get too far into it but

02:17:24.540 okay oh my dust damn rip um i don't even know where we were going with that but uh yeah i guess to bring 0.57

02:17:32.140 it back um men are not so it's not attractive 0.98

02:17:40.300 okay for me i've dated women who are doctors i've dated attorneys i've dated pharmacists i've dated

02:17:46.700 professors cancer research like just the whole slew right more nurses than i can count 0.99

02:17:51.580 um women's careers to me don't make them more attractive like i'm not more attracted to a girl 1.00

02:17:56.860 oh you're a doctor whereas i think a lot of women who are maybe a bit older you guys probably are not

02:18:01.500 quite yet in the age maybe hey maybe you're down to date a doctor i don't know but most women like 1.00

02:18:07.340 who are probably in their mid to late 20s early 30s a doctor would be a catch i don't give a

02:18:15.340 if a woman's a doctor i'll date a barista i'll date a girl that works at chick-fil-a because men 1.00

02:18:20.780 and women are looking for different things what we're attracted to there's not there's not always 1.00

02:18:25.900 symmetry and what we find attractive in the opposite sex so um it's great i think it's great 0.93

02:18:33.820 make your money like have a career do something do something great um i actually i'm in favor of more

02:18:40.060 women getting into stem i think it'd be wonderful if we had more people researching uh you know

02:18:46.220 illnesses cancers alzheimer's i mean these things are awful and the more manpower

02:18:50.620 woman power i guess in this case we can throw towards these uh uh illnesses and diseases i think 1.00

02:18:58.620 would be fantastic but uh from a from a dating point of view it i'm not more attracted to a girl 0.98

02:19:05.980 because of her career or because of her status or because of her earning potential i just think it's

02:19:11.900 like hella interesting though at the end it's like i feel like a lot of women i do know probably they 1.00

02:19:17.260 would value that just maybe someone who would provide as well i don't think i think they'd mind

02:19:21.340 more or at least i would if like i was dating like a mcdonald's worker not to be mean of mcdonald's 0.56

02:19:26.780 workers but like in 20 years i don't know if that's the move but i think men also put i think a lot more

02:19:33.820 value on like attractiveness than women do and i think women place a lot more value on like hard work 0.99

02:19:39.100 and kind of personality yeah yeah and like ethics morals yeah i think it's just like it's interesting how

02:19:45.100 it's such kind of different in a way in some aspects i personally if i wasn't working it would

02:19:50.140 drive me crazy yeah like i have to be something once i started like making my own business it is

02:19:55.660 i love working it's actually like a lot of people don't like working but since i'm my own boss i make

02:20:00.620 my own schedule i do everything my own it's really fun i make i like i like working with like the girls

02:20:06.220 like meeting new people so if like i like i like to be treated but like if i didn't work and the guy was

02:20:12.380 only making the money i would piss me off yeah because i like what i do yeah by the way i just 0.54

02:20:17.260 want to clarify like it's not that i'll date a woman with a career it's not a problem at all it's just

02:20:22.540 to me it's not like if the woman's a doctor versus if she's a phlebotomist making 17 an hour like or 0.96

02:20:31.420 she works fast food job i do not like it i don't care if she's got if she's coming into the relationship 1.00

02:20:37.900 with a lot of debt then finance is kind of our factor but i mean it's been my experience actually

02:20:43.100 what's really interesting like i've encountered women who i remember once this was years ago i was

02:20:49.580 speaking to a litigation attorney very successful attorney here in santa barbara she was probably

02:20:55.980 making 250 000 a year and one of i don't know why she was so upfront about it but she's like yeah i

02:21:02.220 really want a guy who's going to take me out pay for my stuff i'm like hey

02:21:08.620 you make 250 000 a year like yeah the traditional gender roles are out the window when you're making 1.00

02:21:14.460 250 like what you're probably out earning most of the the men who would potentially date you and you

02:21:21.020 you still have this expectation that men i mean i mean everyone wants to be spoiled you know like but

02:21:28.140 but but do men want to be spoiled men can't be spoiled oh yeah yeah no guys would love it men

02:21:33.980 can be spoiled yeah yeah no like they would love like to just get stuff right they would love it but

02:21:39.420 women don't do it yeah we do have you ever bought a guy flowers yeah yeah i used to bring him drinks 1.00

02:21:45.020 in the morning starbucks okay well you're your wifey material yeah like like i'm probably i'll i'll pay for

02:21:52.940 first date well we know you're a simp but no but overall i i think if you ask most men like they're

02:22:02.380 they're going to uh feel like they have to always be paying for stuff

02:22:12.540 do you like paying for stuff do either of you guys are not willing

02:22:15.660 which do men like i'll let luke go and then i'll answer yeah it does because it it it does reassure

02:22:23.020 you of your whole like i don't want to say superior or anything because it's not superior already but

02:22:27.820 it's like you know like i'm the i'm the man like i'm the alpha beta beta yeah it's like you're you're

02:22:37.260 you are the one taking care of it you're the one like stepping up really like exceeding expectations

02:22:43.580 even though it's like already expected right before going into it like if you take a girl out

02:22:49.420 the guy is expected to pay that's just a societal standard and you know i'm fine with it i don't 0.97

02:22:56.220 really give a shit if a girl pays for my food fucking great just like you guys said again if if 1.00

02:23:02.700 if a girl spoils me that's that's fantastic you know i'm all for it but you know 90 of the time i'm 0.99

02:23:09.260 the one that's asking a girl out and i said this last time too if you ask someone out you should be

02:23:15.420 the one paying for the i agree if a girl asks a guy out she she should pay yeah if i ask a girl out 1.00

02:23:23.580 because you are you are taking her out yeah whereas if and again a lot of girls don't take guys out yeah 1.00

02:23:29.660 let's go around the table i'll let you continue though have you ever asked well i'm gonna start

02:23:34.140 over here have you ever asked a guy out on the date yeah okay no i don't think so no but i also

02:23:41.100 like don't go on dates so no i don't think so i think i have you were blacked out this was one of

02:23:49.500 your blacked out moments that okay yeah so i mean the thing is though like the whole thing with that

02:23:55.340 is just women aren't really asking guys out yeah exactly it's scary i don't know isn't it scary for men

02:24:02.300 too yes yes it's scary both parts and here's here's the interesting thing on that as a woman 0.99

02:24:08.780 if you do ask a guy out actually your chances compared to men your chances of getting a positive

02:24:15.980 response are actually very high compared to when a man a guy asks a woman out you you have a much higher

02:24:25.100 likelihood of it being a uh a good reception from the guy if you ask him out whereas like a lot of 0.84

02:24:33.740 dudes play number like dudes have to play the number game we get fucking rejected oh i'll say 0.98

02:24:39.660 i'll say this like and i brought this up i think on our podcast um when it comes to dating apps for 0.91

02:24:45.020 example uh for most men on dating apps i'd say that 80 of men the bottom 80 maybe bottom 70 of

02:24:54.940 men being on the dating app is like playing russian roulette with your self-esteem and every every

02:25:04.700 chamber of the cylinder is loaded so it's a foregone conclusion as a foregone conclusion as a guy

02:25:11.980 here's motorcycle guy again foregone conclusion that uh you're gonna get destroyed on the dating app as

02:25:21.500 a as as a guy from that's most men's experience so um but anyway sorry i didn't mean to cut you off

02:25:27.980 there if you want to continue with your uh oh oh um paying i think it was like and you're you're saying

02:25:36.140 oh paying men whoever asked should pay and then you kind of you went into saying if you get asked

02:25:41.900 out but women aren't no yeah yeah um again i'm i'm fine with paying again if it's if if i see there's

02:25:48.380 something going forward with it then i'll be like hey i'll pay but if if yeah it's such a gray area

02:25:56.620 because i want to say you know it should be 50 50 on a date but at the same time i don't know there's

02:26:04.620 something fulfilling about paying for like an expensive dish but then looking back at your bank

02:26:08.540 and being like i always fight for the check i always fight for it but do you always do you win

02:26:14.380 ever she i have or is it like a gesture is it like a she she dates homeless guys

02:26:22.220 she's winning she's winning there you go i will say i don't mind sorry i didn't mean to cut you

02:26:30.220 off by the way if you want to continue if you want to continue i don't i like wouldn't mind 50 50

02:26:34.780 because i i get that it's fair but also it is nice having the guy pay yeah like if like i do offer

02:26:42.060 like are you sure and i would 100 be okay with that i'm not going to say it if i'm not okay with

02:26:47.420 it and if he's like yeah and i'll be like okay but if he's like no no like don't worry about it like

02:26:53.580 it's it's nice yeah yeah everyone agree with that so you'd prefer to have the guy pay on the date let

02:27:00.780 me ask so he asks you on the date but the check comes and he says hey let's get separate checks are

02:27:06.540 you going to feel a certain type of way about that uh yeah um i don't think so wait i thought

02:27:13.420 you said you fight for the check though yeah i i guess i mean i rather pay i guess i rather pay for

02:27:19.020 it all and not oh and you'd rather okay i'd rather pay for it all but you're you'll still be interested

02:27:24.460 in the guy yeah even if you pay for it okay i think i said i think you said no wait wait what was

02:27:31.580 the question um yeah sorry guy asks you out yeah you get dinner whatever maybe uh you get dinner and

02:27:38.620 then um he says hey let's uh get separate checks yeah are you gonna feel a certain type of way about

02:27:45.180 that i don't think so you win the mind okay i mean like if he asked me out and asked for separate

02:27:50.700 checks like at the end of the day i mean i'd pay like i don't care but it would just kind of be like

02:27:55.740 um like that's not really what you expected i like wouldn't say no like again i'd be okay with

02:28:04.460 that but then i feel like it is something to consider like it's not an immediate like i'm never

02:28:10.620 gonna hang out with this guy again but it is just something like to consider the fact that he asked

02:28:14.940 you out and then he brought up separate checks yeah yeah especially if you're like going somewhere like

02:28:19.500 chick-fil-a i'm not splitting half it with you if it's somewhere nice maybe yeah wait so if it's

02:28:27.180 cheap you you want him to pay but if it's expensive then you're gonna pay no no no like i'd understand

02:28:34.380 if you if it was cheap and he asked to split it and it was like a 25 meal i'd be like why did you ask

02:28:39.500 me out then if you couldn't afford that but if it's somewhere like very nice and you're having like

02:28:43.500 issues that's fine but i don't know i think you should be aware of your circumstances sometimes

02:28:47.340 because like what if the other person can't afford it i don't know yeah i agree with what you're

02:28:51.980 saying it's really just depending on where we're going and at the same time like i don't mind because

02:28:56.540 i don't really go on dates with the intention of the guy has to pay

02:29:02.460 i've gone to chick-fil-a and just paid i think it's a flex i think it's a flex i you know i i agree

02:29:09.900 with you but as an egalitarian by the way y'all said you were feminists but 1.00

02:29:16.700 the definition yeah but when it comes to who should pay on the first date

02:29:23.420 how do you reckon whoever asks who if i asked a guy on a date i would pay for that yes like dead 0.97

02:29:29.340 ass why would you ask someone can you go to dinner with me if i'm saying hey do you want to oh you 0.99

02:29:33.820 go there you go you started you go okay but okay if you're with a friend 0.96

02:29:39.180 if you're with a friend and you're just like hey do you want to grab dinner are you gonna pay

02:29:47.420 for your friend's dinner if you well the friend is different if it's a friend when you're going

02:29:52.540 and knowing it's you pay for yourself or even like you split it or 50 50 if you're splitting what we

02:29:57.580 even do sometimes now is just like i'll take this when you get the next one yeah yeah yeah that's my

02:30:01.900 favorite thing to do i agree with that does this fit with your egalitarian mindset

02:30:10.700 okay i mean so i have a take that pisses both men men and women off on this because here's what

02:30:17.980 you do make a good point luke and yes it is it's not gonna hurt you to pay for the date

02:30:25.820 um it it might have some little benefit um i mean it does put you in a bit more of a leadership

02:30:34.140 position to pay for it and you're demonstrating that you know kind of the provisioning thing

02:30:39.900 providing but oh man i can't do it guys i can't there's a few scenarios where i am willing to pay

02:30:47.820 um but i think i think you should each pay your own bill uh because one foodie calls people are just

02:31:00.460 not people are not going in and i've had these experiences people are not genuinely going on dates

02:31:11.580 with sometimes not all the time but sometimes they're not going in with like a genuine interest

02:31:17.340 sometimes a girl will just be like i guess i'll go i'm kind of bored

02:31:22.780 there will be girls that just want a free meal um that's happened to a lot a lot of dudes like

02:31:28.780 they just want a free meal um to me i don't really to me that doesn't make sense to do that time-wise

02:31:34.940 but i i guess it happens especially if you're i don't do dinner dates by the way but even if it's

02:31:39.740 just for a drink we each get two drinks a glass of wine that's a lot yeah you wait that's expensive

02:31:47.260 yeah drinks are expensive it's like ten dollars a drink i mean but still yeah you can pay you can

02:31:52.620 you can pay your you'll pay for yours i'll pay for mine there was um i mean

02:31:57.740 the the only exception i'll do it and by the way so i'm so if i'm dating women within my

02:32:03.980 age cohort older like say older professional women then yes i'm gonna say hey we're gonna split 0.99

02:32:12.940 um but if i'm dating someone younger 18 19 20 21 then i'll pay and if like if i'm in a relationship

02:32:24.220 with her and i say hey i want to go to hawaii let's go i'm gonna pay for the whole thing yes

02:32:29.420 but if i'm dating a litigation attorney we're gonna split that vacation like we're gonna split 0.68

02:32:35.340 that up you know but uh if she wants to pay for me though okay yeah there's no i'm waiting for the

02:32:41.500 female simps out there though there's i was i was gonna say something on the first date thing and

02:32:48.460 like i i don't think i've ever taken a girl out to a restaurant on a first date it's always been

02:32:54.540 something fun and interactive like yeah it's so basic yeah it's not even that it's just kind of

02:33:01.020 playing it's awkward yeah it's awkward yeah dinner dates are bad and then you can do dinner you can

02:33:06.540 also kind of see like like if you go to the beach or go on a hike sunset walk exactly it's it's much

02:33:12.780 more interactive number one and intimate and intimate yeah and it's free so you can actually see them

02:33:18.540 without like being like am i just paying for some like foodie thing and then if you like them you can

02:33:23.420 say hey do you want to get something to eat after yeah yeah we'll get ice cream yeah whatever

02:33:30.620 yeah i'd much rather to go like to the beach with someone i'm like a horror movie is it

02:33:35.660 i'm on the first date we got tattoos movies are the worst first date you can't talk to them

02:33:43.260 no no no you're just staring at the screen you're not and you can't talk

02:33:47.340 you're facing you can't get to know him you can't do anything it's yeah i think

02:33:51.340 not for a first day but in general like for yeah yeah yeah yeah but not on the first date

02:33:56.380 not getting to know each other yeah definitely facts okay we got a couple super chats here and

02:34:00.460 then we're going to react to a video and then we'll probably wrap up in that maybe 20 minutes or so

02:34:05.660 okay so i think um this one okay um

02:34:12.940 um mike dust with the ten dollar soup chat rating for the ladies left to right three six five six 0.77

02:34:19.500 five four okay um do you guys want to shoot any shots back at mike dust for his rating or i don't

02:34:25.980 even know which way left is right right from there from the ladies left to right i think it's from

02:34:32.860 here yeah left wait let's take it okay mike dust with the official ten dollar super chat rating thank

02:34:42.780 you man uh okay so i want us to actually before we pull up a video i've got a question for all of us

02:34:51.260 us or i guess you guys okay so would you say this one's a little spicy would you say you're good in

02:34:59.180 bed i've been told okay why i just say specific um i mean there's just one i guess one thing i've been

02:35:15.260 told what i don't know what is it my head game okay i thought i guess that's the one thing i've been

02:35:34.540 called look what is the thing from caller daddy okay um i don't know i don't know you don't know

02:35:49.740 okay maybe you do know yeah yes yes you're like questioning that as you say i don't want to get

02:36:01.260 into details okay a yes is fine yeah i've been told yes so yeah i would say yes based off of what

02:36:10.460 i've been told yeah yeah i don't know like honestly um i mean i think like average i'd say average

02:36:20.300 i think yes piss off the reviews the reviews the yelp reviews you get you get five stars at the end

02:36:29.500 yeah just give them your phone and make them write down like like an in-depth have you guys seen those

02:36:33.420 like google quizzes that you like send them out like like like rate me yeah and they rate they rate

02:36:40.540 it wait you said that you said google forms like google forms it's like i've seen a few like like

02:36:45.580 one out of ten like rate how good i was at kissing or something yeah like how good was i

02:36:49.660 kissing how good was i in bed would you ever would you hook up with me again yes yeah they give you rate

02:36:54.700 like they yeah it's a google form you get a link sent to you guys you guys have received those no

02:37:01.260 like we've seen people do it on the internet yeah like like very people we don't know have done

02:37:06.060 and that's probably like the best reviews because if you're asking your ex they'll probably be like

02:37:09.100 brutally honest yeah something like that i mean the only thing i've ever had a girl fill out is 0.88

02:37:14.620 a bdsm questionnaire maybe the rice purity test bdsm test.org are you you know yeah okay have you

02:37:27.100 what can you do you guys want to share your rice purity yeah i don't know so so for those who don't

02:37:32.780 know you can look up rice purity tests and there's i think a hundred questions yeah it's a hundred

02:37:37.500 questions and it ranges from like held hands been seen nude all this to like beast yeah yeah like

02:37:44.300 incest yeah and for every one of them you mark off your your score goes down so yeah depending

02:37:51.580 on what you want a lower score means you've done more but it also means you're more wild i think

02:37:57.020 mine was in like the 30s yeah i think mine was i don't remember like the last time i don't i think

02:38:02.380 mine's like in the 60s or 70s is that high or low so it's like the more you check off if you've done

02:38:10.540 nothing it's a hundred and then each thing you do it loads it so like so like zero is like

02:38:16.380 that's a red flag you've done some shit yeah yeah um i would say just somewhere below 50s won't 0.57

02:38:24.700 specify how much i think when mine was like 38 to 45. okay okay i haven't taken you should take it 0.99

02:38:37.820 right take it right now it's interesting start the next show with that everyone has to take the

02:38:43.100 recipe it would take a minute but you have to be really honest yeah you cannot lie one thing i've

02:38:49.420 wanted to do is like before the show have the girls take screenshots of their dating profiles 0.99

02:38:55.100 and then we do a review oh that would be funny that's a good and then we all go left or right

02:39:03.340 we could do that that could be fun but unfortunately yeah we'd have to set that up uh before the show

02:39:07.900 but uh so related to my last question who do you think that the quality of sex is more important to

02:39:14.300 men or women women women women 100 yeah i feel like both i feel like it's a mutual effort that you

02:39:23.900 gotta put in luke what are you saying it's more important to women yeah okay all right i'm a pillow

02:39:31.500 princess is that just you just lay there hey but she's getting in bed so it's working 1.00

02:39:41.740 okay so i guess this is sort of me trying to uh verx thank you very much we'll get to that

02:39:48.700 in a sec but thank you for the ten dollar super chat verx and thank you for the um for some reason

02:39:53.180 super chat or sorry stream yard does not show when people gift um memberships so unfortunately like i'm

02:39:59.500 if i missed any of them i'm sorry guys but uh verx thank you for the ten dollar super chat we'll get

02:40:03.740 to that momentarily um so what shit i sorry i lost my train of thought um 0.93

02:40:12.300 is it is it harder is it harder to be good in bed as a man or a woman i think it's harder for a man 0.99

02:40:19.740 yeah i think it's harder for men yeah pillow princess

02:40:24.380 um i am i think men yeah yeah girls are always dissatisfied and with sex like women are 0.99

02:40:35.180 dissatisfied with sex yeah like yeah all the time like you'll always hear that yes and like guys can 0.57

02:40:40.140 never even make them come so it's also like most women can't get off their penetration like it's like 1.00

02:40:44.780 scientifically proven yeah like they definitely have to put in more words yeah right or get a toy they

02:40:51.740 they satisfy themselves and then that's kind of it they don't do anything yes wait so

02:40:59.740 i don't know where i want to go with this but okay so do you guys

02:41:09.420 are you guys able to come with no with a partner no no or have you ever because last show we had a

02:41:16.060 girl come on and she was like yep never a guy's never been able to get me off yes but not 1.00

02:41:22.460 like it's very rare really yeah like once wow yeah no and you've had you said you'd had like a

02:41:31.980 long-term relationship right okay yeah but no we have the same kind of thing can we wait we'll go

02:41:41.020 around go ahead no you've never orgasmed from a partner no and by the way i just to make something

02:41:48.060 clear it could be even foreplay like uh if he goes down on you fingers nothing nothing nothing wow okay

02:41:56.380 never yes you have yeah okay so you for never and then you rarely yeah wow that blows my mind

02:42:07.260 time okay you guys got to find some better guys yeah a lot of guys they a lot of guys they finish and

02:42:18.220 then they kind of just you're then you're done or they think it takes like three minutes for you

02:42:22.300 yeah yeah it takes a minute it takes a minute i mean some women can come very quick yeah 1.00

02:42:33.020 it's not anyone like they actually yeah yeah how do you know yeah like what i mean they could lie

02:42:38.460 why some women a lot of women a lot of women someone you faked it actually i think at least

02:42:45.100 everyone when i've talked to us faked it at least once that's bad you guys shouldn't fake should not

02:42:49.500 fake well i mean like i can tell can they i think they can the guy that's actually made someone

02:42:56.860 yeah yeah if they don't wait but so i just question this is a now a sex therapy show

02:43:03.180 so have you guys but can you guys bring yourself to climax yeah yeah yeah okay no yes no wait no

02:43:13.260 no i don't have you ever no climaxed really ever but have you tried like a self no okay not my thing

02:43:23.580 huh because i would say that you know something that does come up yes like a lot of guys are not

02:43:31.740 doing their job in bed not getting girls to climax but if you can't even get yourself to climax i don't

02:43:38.620 blame them for it like i'm not i don't know but i i would say it would lend itself to a more

02:43:45.900 satisfying sex life and a more satisfying relationship if you could i've thought about

02:43:51.420 it climax wait but and by the way if this is too prodding or too invasive mom if you're watching this

02:44:01.340 do you um have you tried no that's you well what do you like by myself 0.99

02:44:08.460 masturbating yeah no really no wait wait oh 0.99

02:44:14.860 and is it is it just you don't have the the drive or the want or the desire i just like

02:44:21.100 don't really feel better than any man actually i don't know about if you've ever like actually

02:44:26.140 experienced that i don't like there would be you don't know what like exactly what that urge

02:44:29.740 or like whatever yeah yeah maybe yeah just avoid it for the rest of your life and then you'll

02:44:35.740 you'll you'll uh yeah but um yeah that's that's pretty uh i mean that's pretty surprising to me

02:44:43.580 though that wow rip yeah oh yeah guys in the chat for the for the women who have never climaxed with 0.64

02:44:51.660 the partner can we get some candle vigil some skulls in the chat can you blow it out it smells

02:44:59.260 uh you don't like the smell i don't know um yeah actually you know what mike davis he he dips so no

02:45:05.260 we can just just blow it out thank you thank you come back mike davis come back yes but um wow that's

02:45:15.180 that blows my mind damn rip okay so 0.96

02:45:25.020 so next to the video by the way guys going back to the condom thing 0.99

02:45:30.540 you know if it'll make you last longer just stay strapped

02:45:34.780 yeah this is like a condom ad better safe than sorry yeah i actually find that condoms

02:45:46.780 never mind never want to finish that sentence but uh yeah i guess uh well also the thing with that i 0.97

02:45:54.700 think most women it's very difficult for them to orgasm just just from penetration yeah so 1.00

02:46:05.340 uh yeah anyways um okay moving on moving on i thought someone say it was a mental block and i 0.81

02:46:10.860 could agree with that a mental block yeah i think it's easier for women when they're more as they 1.00

02:46:16.700 become more comfortable with a guy yeah i don't know i have a big old mental block at all so good times

02:46:23.900 those are the best the mental blocks um okay eric can you go ahead and actually hold on just a sec let

02:46:29.820 me highlight a couple of these boom thank you guys for all the interaction in the chat guys much

02:46:36.540 appreciated so uh we're going to react to a video

02:46:41.420 i'm not sure which one i want to oh which one actually sorry eric bring it back we're back

02:46:58.140 really quick i wanted to ask okay yes before yeah i want to get the super chat really quick that came

02:47:04.460 in sorry about that verx okay so verx body count he's asking for body count so we'll go around the

02:47:10.780 table we're asking for body count uh we'll start with you i don't know and i don't want to

02:47:17.020 you wait you don't know i don't know it because you're blacked out for all of them or what

02:47:26.780 not blacked out before before the it's borderline here pull the microphone sorry um i don't know it

02:47:33.900 and i don't really want to share what i thought it might be i will not disclose that information

02:47:42.620 i already said my you said two right okay above zero above yeah is it above zero

02:47:55.260 one or higher

02:47:58.220 i'm not a virgin i'm just gonna stay silent

02:48:05.500 seven you know what i should have asked first to have maybe gotten a few more people sorry

02:48:12.220 verx they did not want to answer this question i should have asked does body count matter and then

02:48:18.220 we should have done this so i'll do this in a reverse order should body count matter

02:48:24.700 to an extent okay yeah i'm gonna agree with that yeah you you to an extent yeah to an extent to an

02:48:32.140 extent yeah as long as it's not like if it's not like triple digits yeah as long as it's not triple

02:48:38.140 okay okay like i don't clean yeah as long as you're like safe about it like you don't know what

02:48:45.180 someone did in their past so like i'd say like body count doesn't really matter if they don't like

02:48:55.100 let's say there's a guy with like a really high body count like if he doesn't like make it like a flex

02:49:00.140 like yeah a personality trait like i feel like it really shouldn't matter yeah that's weird if a

02:49:06.940 guy's like oh this is my yeah body count congrats it'd be weird to tell a girl like oh i have a high

02:49:14.620 body count i think that'd be not that not a good move it's like a turn off yeah yeah i honestly don't

02:49:21.100 care i don't care either i think there is some matter to it yes it is an issue yeah that's it look

02:49:34.380 no i think i think if you have a really you have if if you have a high body count what's high for you

02:49:40.060 okay like anything this is i think anything over 10 is like okay relax and then anything over 15 is like

02:49:49.020 okay you're just a borderline a hoe at that point like you can't hold down a guy for more than like 0.99

02:49:53.660 two months even if it's just casual sex if it's just casual sex like like revisit hooking up with 0.99

02:50:00.380 them if you enjoyed it why do you have to go and seek out a like a hundred different partners

02:50:06.380 yeah i mean that goes back to the whole so for men our sexual strategy is to obtain and i think women's

02:50:13.420 metric of success when it comes to men is retaining the man but yeah and as far as the

02:50:22.220 girl's body counts which they omitted that answer to and they did not want to answer hey

02:50:27.820 that's the real number did did everyone i think everyone missed it here i'll do it again that's my

02:50:33.180 fault multiply it by three and that's the real number okay if a girl like lies about it i mean 0.99

02:50:38.940 you guys want to give us ranges i can give a range okay i think yeah yeah go for it

02:50:46.860 what i don't know yeah i want to hear it too let's hear the range one through four

02:50:54.860 somewhere in there that's not bad at all somewhere in there i mean i could say like one to 50

02:51:01.740 is like y'all would never know is it more than 10 no more than 10. yeah okay i appreciate the honesty

02:51:14.540 respect all right and you more than 10. no no more than 10. more than five no whoa whoa

02:51:31.340 no oh my god i can't do this

02:51:35.900 you can't pry it out of me okay okay okay all right um so we're gonna pull up the video uh can

02:51:48.700 you pull up the body count video mr angita is it the uh the 19 years i totally just fit that

02:51:54.700 so you know what's so attractive about younger women because we a lot of these dudes talk about 0.89

02:51:58.700 fertility and yeah looks and stuff i don't actually think it's that i think that in the modern era can

02:52:03.740 you boost the on the days of old right you'd meet a woman you get married you'd be together whatever 0.98

02:52:07.260 in the modern world if i meet a girl who's 33 and single i know the amount of dick that's been 0.99

02:52:11.740 through her before me it's just simply unattractive i don't care how nice you are yeah but you're 33 0.97

02:52:16.780 years old how many men have fun if i get a 19 year old girl i might be your second or third man 1.00

02:52:20.780 right i'm gonna be dude number 29 and all the trauma and heartbreak and 0.98

02:52:25.420 bullshit they put you through you're gonna try and bring to my door like well my last man cheat 0.98

02:52:29.740 i don't give a yeah like i don't care like why is that my problem so if you pick up older women 1.00

02:52:34.700 you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer they've had more fucking rides more spins 0.98

02:52:39.980 i don't want that when i see a beautiful young woman i know that she has a very low body count 1.00

02:52:44.380 and that and and also no no but the truth is women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex if 0.62

02:52:50.460 a woman sleeps with a bunch of men it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall 1.00

02:52:54.220 it is unattractive too and it's unattractive but if she's like if she's had 30 dudes inside of her 1.00

02:52:58.860 she really gonna think you know what this guy's so so so special or she gonna think you know what

02:53:02.140 he talked to me real let's go get a new guy whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys she's much 1.00

02:53:05.340 more likely to fall in love with you be a better partner except the likelihood of her falling

02:53:08.540 completely in love with you and staying loyal to you and and really believing you're the only man

02:53:12.140 for her after being through so much trauma and so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having

02:53:16.460 her heart broken and having those memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through

02:53:20.060 is far less likely than meeting a nice young beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men and she goes

02:53:23.820 you know what this is the guy i like him every woman who knows this and every man who watches

02:53:27.580 just can be honest women fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or their second 0.99

02:53:30.300 or third guy they really remember them they really love them that any woman who slept with 50 dudes 1.00

02:53:33.740 she doesn't even remember who most of them are she doesn't care if a woman slept with a bunch of 1.00

02:53:36.380 men before you she's less likely to stick it out through a difficult period in a relationship 0.99

02:53:39.260 she's more likely to just say you know what new answers new dick that's a pretty good answer 1.00

02:53:42.380 and that's the truth let me make something clear if i meet a beautiful 30 year old woman i'm not saying 0.99

02:53:45.980 i won't sleep with her that's pretty fucking old yeah 30 i know what are you crazy i there's been times i was drunk 0.98

02:53:52.380 your guys's reaction to the video i just don't like andrew tate at all yeah he really pisses me 0.99

02:53:59.740 off yeah he really pisses me off maybe he says it's like he needs to be on a watch list your body

02:54:06.700 count is high that means you can't be in a good relationship that's basically like what he's saying

02:54:11.420 and like you can't be lower in a relationship you can't have a good connection with someone

02:54:14.620 just because your body count is high and then like i feel like like some guys are like oh like she has to

02:54:19.660 be really good in bed but her body count can't be like two it can't be more than two yeah they're

02:54:23.980 like very hypocritical about it because like your body count is very high based on the way you're 0.99

02:54:29.660 saying it because he's like yeah i'll fuck her anyways but like yeah andrew tate does have a high 0.99

02:54:34.140 body yeah yeah it's like it doesn't make sense but but it's okay to address that thing i mean i and we 0.99

02:54:40.540 sort of already talked about it but i mean it's most men it's pretty hard as a woman to be

02:54:48.620 actively bad in bed like you have to up pretty bad to be bad in bed as a woman like most women 0.58

02:54:57.740 like most guys even if you're like a pillow princess it's still like it's still gonna feel good for you

02:55:07.420 as a guy i mean as a guy or a girl for the guy oh okay yeah um so and and if the guy knows what he's

02:55:15.500 doing he's gonna be able to make it work if he knows how to lead in the bedroom he's he knows how

02:55:20.780 to make it work if they could flip you around they could do go for it but yeah if the guy's dominant 0.84

02:55:27.260 like he knows he knows what he's doing like a guy can take a woman who's a virgin and have great sex 0.56

02:55:33.500 with her i'm not so sure if the opposite is true if a woman can take a guy who's a virgin and have 0.78

02:55:40.860 mind-blowing sex the first time they have sex very true so 0.99

02:55:44.300 what's your reaction to your reaction um honestly it just sounds like he's not into

02:55:53.100 girls who knows what she wants like he was like oh like it just seems like he wants

02:56:01.340 a younger girl who's still like exploring relationships and like obviously when you're

02:56:06.780 younger he said like 30 maturity you're mature you you'd probably know what you want in a

02:56:12.220 relationship at that point and i think he's just butthurt that that's not him i know disregarding 0.98

02:56:19.580 everything andrew tate is like a cunt i'm glad i got to use that word yeah he's actually a bad person 0.98

02:56:25.420 no but that's what i focus on is he literally beat a woman and yeah that's what i was gonna say 0.99

02:56:29.580 and then he went to romania and was like erroneous erroneous fake news i've seen the video like

02:56:37.420 you saw the video the way he was talking to the woman like you don't the way he views cheating pisses

02:56:43.020 me off so much hold on i'll get to that i just want to address the alleged women beating thing so it 0.93

02:56:50.300 was reported in the media that there's a video that came out where he was i think whipping a girl's 0.92

02:56:55.900 ass with a belt or something like that talk yelling saying some stuff uh so that women that woman came 1.00

02:57:03.180 out and said hey we're into kinky stuff it was all consensual it was bdsm but okay but so the media i 0.99

02:57:10.380 mean there was a there was a concerted effort by the media to they were trying to do rapid reputation

02:57:18.380 destruction so there's the whole him abusing a woman in that way that that's been debunked

02:57:26.540 she came the woman in the video herself came out and said hey multiple times it was totally 0.98

02:57:31.180 consensual like we're just into some kinky shit okay that's the trick then oh go ahead before before 0.98

02:57:37.820 we yeah so even if that was like some kinky shit like i feel like if you speak to a woman in the way 0.99

02:57:44.460 like i don't know if you've watched the videos but like that was disgusting like even if it's like 0.99

02:57:49.420 a kink i guess like it's there there are women who are into degradation yeah i get it there's a 1.00

02:57:54.620 degradation kink so women who are turned on when the guy's like you're a fucking cum dumpster you're 1.00

02:57:59.820 a whore like all that stuff yeah but not my cup of tea not my cup of tea but he was literally like 1.00

02:58:05.100 i'm gonna beat the fuck out of you like that's not that's not i mean there's i mean and the beating 1.00

02:58:11.580 woman thing wasn't even about that video it was about him getting kicked off that big brother or 1.00

02:58:16.540 something like that well he got kicked off big brother because of that video no because i thought it

02:58:20.780 was because he like punched someone or something on the show it was yeah it was the i'll stand if

02:58:26.140 you're right about that then i'm wrong so that's on me but like i don't know i still can't support

02:58:30.940 him i was like yeah and then he said there's other i'm sure you can probably find other things to

02:58:35.260 criticize him on yeah a lot like the whole just the i'm moving to romania because they persecute men

02:58:39.980 less because of the yeah just like sex laws general you can have your that's just like not a good thing 0.99

02:58:45.660 to say in general like i don't it makes you a bad person like by association of those words yeah

02:58:53.580 wait so did someone else want to did you give your take who did you want to give your take on 0.97

02:58:57.740 the video your reaction to the andrew tape video we just watched oh i think she's a hypocrite i'm just 0.85

02:59:01.980 asking a lot from a girl um 5xdm wants me to ask ask if they like being choked okay i guess fine 0.74

02:59:09.500 since we're on the topic would you like to be choked yes yeah no yes yes yes aha uh luke no

02:59:22.300 do you actually this is kind of an interesting conversation will you choke a girl yeah but is it

02:59:28.940 is it something that the girl asks for or is it something that you kind of enjoy doing

02:59:33.500 to be kind of more dominant because honestly i feel it's like i don't really want to do that 0.98

02:59:39.180 shit like i'll do it if it turns my girl on if it turns her on i'll do it yeah but like it's 0.97

02:59:45.180 usually the girl that wants yeah it's asking for i mean it's not like i don't know there's no pleasure 0.99

02:59:50.700 in in guys for it i think there's something weird if you like you're like oh this is so

02:59:54.940 i'm choking her out oh okay bro well there's definitely a sadist yeah bdsm yeah all that stuff but

03:00:03.340 oh it's kind of interesting i feel like there's a a rough sex meta like yeah and i i'm it's kind 0.99

03:00:12.940 of i don't know i mean okay okay so i'll just share this for me one of the the whole rough sex thing 0.95

03:00:21.420 is i love it when a girl will just drag her nails down my back 1.00

03:00:29.980 no pain i kind of with that like if there's scratch marks on my back i'm i don't like all

03:00:35.420 right that's bad that's good i don't know i think that's proof of like passion i don't know yeah

03:00:40.700 a lot of guys like it that's just me though

03:00:45.020 you know because i also feel like when a girl does that usually means like they're actually

03:00:49.340 enjoying themselves yeah and again that's not something i feel like girls like could ask for 1.00

03:00:55.500 choking but like a guy's not going to be like scratch my back like leave me i mean i don't know

03:01:00.860 i beg to differ okay there has there has been well i said corrected

03:01:09.420 okay how did we oh andrew tate okay what and so some of you mentioned something about uh

03:01:16.540 wait so did you get to go right okay so you guys mentioned something about was it age or something

03:01:24.540 like what what was that about he's i just i don't know oh just like the glorification of like younger

03:01:31.100 women yeah he said he said 19 18 19 year olds are more attractive because they've been through less

03:01:35.340 dick that's one of the reasons that younger women are more attractive yes that's what he said 1.00

03:01:39.820 because i think a lot of men care about body count and that's just from look a 30 year old could have a

03:01:44.700 body count of 5 and 19 year old could have a body count of 50 but if you're a betting man probably

03:01:53.500 more likely than not younger women are going to have a lower body count older women are going to 1.00

03:01:57.180 have a higher body count and that 19 year old is going to have more bodies by the time she's 29 than 1.00

03:02:03.260 when she's 19. so uh that's one of the reasons i think why men and men men value uh

03:02:11.340 uh sexual purity in women that can now that could mean virginity but that could also mean 1.00

03:02:18.620 low body count i mean i get that but like promoting that so actively as you do like he's

03:02:24.380 like stating it as fact like this is how it is you're doing this you have trauma i have to deal

03:02:29.020 with it and everything's about what you're causing to him and how you should just view women like that 0.97

03:02:33.900 and i think that is in and of itself it's really like a toxic mindset and i don't i don't know it's

03:02:39.660 kind of sad i feel bad for him wait so it's toxic that he wants a woman with a low body count no you

03:02:45.820 can if you want that go for it like you can have that but just the fact he's online just continuously

03:02:50.620 spewing this is exactly this is why every man views this and this is why like every younger woman 0.81

03:02:56.540 should be more should be seen as more desirable it i don't know and he keeps on talking about how

03:03:03.100 their trauma affects me because when they're older they have more trauma and it's so much more 0.63

03:03:06.860 difficult and i don't that's also like extremely fucked up i don't know yeah i feel like it's different 0.93

03:03:14.380 guys preferring guys preferring girls who have low body counts and guys telling girls that they need 0.88

03:03:21.740 to have a low body count like it's very it's similar but there's slight differences and it

03:03:27.420 seems like andrew tate is telling girls you need to have a low body count i thought didn't you say you

03:03:33.100 want men to be up front and to be honest so so we are being he is being very honest he's not sugar

03:03:45.740 coating it a lot of men are not going to be i would say most most men have a preference for women

03:03:54.300 probably the vast majority of men would have a preference for women with a low body count 0.98

03:03:58.860 there's a subset of them that would be upfront about that and be willing to share that a lot

03:04:03.500 of men are not going to even your guy friends you might ask them they there's a good chance that

03:04:07.260 they're not going to be upfront with you about that sort of thing especially a guy who's romantically

03:04:12.380 pursuing you he's gonna be like oh it's okay baby i don't care because he doesn't want to say anything

03:04:18.220 that could potentially uh tank his uh courtship let's just say yeah well i'm saying if a guy wants

03:04:26.140 a girl with a low body count and he and that's something he's like super adamant about go ahead find

03:04:32.620 one but telling girls that like like you can do it like girls should be able to do whatever they want 0.98

03:04:40.380 and so like having guys tell them you can't you cannot have a high body count is different than

03:04:46.380 being like i want a girl with a low body count he's presenting it as fact versus opinion and i think

03:04:51.100 that's where like the yeah well what is the fact that he's presenting that women who aren't like 0.96

03:04:56.940 younger are visibly more attractive and they have way more to offer when it comes to that like higher

03:05:02.300 body count that's what i meant lower body count i don't okay my last relationship body count was never

03:05:07.340 talked about like we never tilt the microphone down towards you slightly there you go perfect um

03:05:12.700 body count was never talked about like we never asked each other's it was never a thing that we

03:05:16.220 brought up so i don't think it really matters if you're gonna ask about then ask but i don't think

03:05:22.780 it's if you really yeah like she said if you really want someone with a little body count go find that

03:05:26.940 but if you're attracted to someone you're attracted to someone yeah i mean i i guess i would say this

03:05:32.300 earlier on in the conversation you guys said that and i don't want to misquote you so if i am feel free

03:05:40.220 to jump in but a lot of you said that you think hookup culture is not such a good thing so how do you

03:05:48.540 reconcile having that belief but also he's i mean essentially saying women should have a low body count

03:05:55.660 is saying women should not engage in hookup culture because if you engage in hookup culture 1.00

03:06:00.780 you're having casual sex women should not be promiscuous women he's saying women should not 1.00

03:06:05.980 be promiscuous women should not have should not have a high body count how do you not have a high 1.00

03:06:12.380 body count not have into not have indiscriminate sex not have casual sex not engage in hookup culture 0.98

03:06:19.100 if you i mean if you're just having long-term relationships and valuing long-term relationships

03:06:26.140 then more likely than not you're going to have a low body count so i guess my question is how do you

03:06:32.380 reconcile saying hookup culture is not this great thing but also he's he's essentially saying don't

03:06:39.100 do hookup culture don't have a high body count is it the double standard that you feel like it's

03:06:45.020 directed more towards women or go ahead i don't even know if i'm touching on the subject we're

03:06:49.980 supposed to be talking about if you want go ahead just come on but um i don't know like you could

03:06:55.900 not be in hookup culture and still have okay wait let me rephrase that you could not be in a long-term

03:07:03.580 relationship but also not be in hookup culture like my coworker and i talk about this all the time because

03:07:10.060 we both kind of like the same views on this but like we're i don't know like we i guess like the

03:07:17.980 standards that we have for men makes it so that like we just don't hook up with anyone we don't

03:07:23.980 like so our body count doesn't go up and i mean neither of us are in relationships either so and haven't

03:07:32.140 been for a while yeah i mean see i don't that's well yeah i mean that's probably we're supposed to

03:07:40.140 well no it's more you you don't have to be in a relationship i mean someone who's never even

03:07:46.540 had a boyfriend ever she might be virgin so and in your case you've alleged body count is two so i

03:07:55.420 mean i yeah it's two i'm not doubting it but uh but okay did anyone else want to come in i don't

03:08:06.540 know i feel like i'm not the biggest fan of like d platforming in general so but i can like thoroughly

03:08:11.820 say i don't like the guy i don't like his opinions but i mean that's just kind of how it is there's

03:08:18.540 always going to be someone online who you're not going to agree with if i don't want to support him

03:08:21.420 yeah my prerogative anybody else want to come in on it okay so we're going to wrap up here pretty

03:08:27.660 soon i want to do final thoughts so if you have a final thought or question for someone else someone

03:08:34.940 else on the panel you have some dating advice you want to ask luke he's a dating expert a dating coach

03:08:41.340 um so if you guys have final thought or question for the panel i want to open it up

03:08:46.380 i don't know do you want me to come back to you yeah i think i'm good yeah i don't think i have

03:08:53.900 anything to say any any questions final thoughts really more to say i think i've learned that maybe

03:08:59.180 i should ask somebody out because my bees are though yeah i did learn that too um body counts i feel like

03:09:06.860 girls just you know do you i'm like you only live once yeah yeah i mean do it for the plot

03:09:19.420 my my final thought on the whole body count thing and this is why i think it's important to

03:09:25.260 not have the highest body count or to sleep around just like whimsically like sleep with whoever the 0.94

03:09:30.940 fuck you want is because and i said this last week i think there's an energy transfer that happens 0.99

03:09:36.780 when you have sex with someone you know you're literally letting somebody inside of you or you're 1.00

03:09:41.420 connecting on it like a more spiritual level the most like the most vulnerable you can get with

03:09:45.580 someone exactly so i think the fact that a lot of people go straight to oh this person's attractive

03:09:51.260 i'm gonna hook up with them and then they find out oh this is their act the dude's actually a 1.00

03:09:55.100 douchebag that tries to take advantage or the girl's a fucking you know total cunt and um it's 1.00

03:10:03.500 just you should put more thought into it so for me all my the only two people that i've hooked up once 1.00

03:10:09.820 with have been friends of mine and i've known them prior to hooking up with them and then the other

03:10:15.900 ones have either been like talking stages to where i'm actually knowing the person or they're actually

03:10:22.060 like relationships so i won't hook up with anyone that i don't know like or have a past with that i

03:10:28.460 know like hey i'm actually getting into like something good like i can actually connect with 0.98

03:10:32.220 this human being on a level that isn't just i'm gonna fuck the shit out of her i think a lot of 0.69

03:10:38.380 people need to go into that and take that into effect on how they view hookup culture because it's 0.98

03:10:44.060 so gross and toxic i get what you're saying completely but also like that's not for everyone like

03:10:49.340 not everyone thinks that way no yeah that's fine and like i don't think it's for us to say like they

03:10:54.620 need to change i'm not saying that they need to change i'm just saying if you don't want to get

03:10:59.740 thought of as this like hoe by society maybe put some more thought into who you're hooking up with 0.96

03:11:06.300 and you guys have all said like you've lost hope in men i'm just gonna blame that on your experience

03:11:13.660 with it because i know a lot of my friends who are super respectful and same thing with girls i

03:11:19.340 think guys will give you know shitty raps girls like they're only in it to hook up or whatever same 1.00

03:11:23.340 thing with guys that's not the case you're your experiences with guys have just been too shallow

03:11:29.100 big tradition i feel like i'm getting some new perspective here yeah right yeah

03:11:38.700 beast not all men suck i mean like definitely from my experience all the guys i've either picked or 0.90

03:11:45.740 whatever they've also they've been all awful and ruined my lives in many ways but but there definitely 0.96

03:11:53.500 are a lot of good ones out there just giving them a chance or letting them come to you they're already

03:11:58.460 taken or yeah we were literally talking about this on the way here that like women like it's really 1.00

03:12:04.060 common how girls are is like we hate all men like that's like a common thing yeah yeah or like all

03:12:09.820 men are trash yeah and that's just that's just a joke yeah yeah like chill out like it's just a joke 0.83

03:12:15.340 it's just a prank a lot of my friends it's all the guys you pick it's all the guys you pick but it's 1.00

03:12:19.100 like i don't know that until i get to know them yeah yeah like you don't know their dicks until you 0.99

03:12:24.140 actually get to know them for a while so it's not like you don't know they're dicks like that they 1.00

03:12:28.220 are like you don't go after like oh he's a dick i want to go get to like go hang out with him 1.00

03:12:36.380 like i mean uh do you guys like bad boys we'll go around the table do you like bad boys 0.99

03:12:42.060 to a certain extent i guess from my past i guess

03:12:45.580 do you like bad boys why are you looking at that answer the question

03:12:55.100 sure

03:12:58.460 what about you oh my turn okay sorry i mean like yeah to a certain extent but i don't want them to be like

03:13:03.980 bad to me like you know you want someone that's like

03:13:09.260 closed off to everyone else except for you does that make sense

03:13:11.580 uh not really i want you to buy me teddy bears and stuff i mean i used to not anymore

03:13:19.900 okay wait so you you said that i'm trying to remember

03:13:26.700 what did i say i forgot something about men are terrible or something oh um

03:13:32.620 because i don't know my friends always say like oh like they men are awful i think i said like oh my 0.96

03:13:36.540 god men suck and they're like oh no it's the guys you pick but it's like i don't seek 0.99

03:13:41.260 these assholes they just end up i end up learning that they're assholes like i don't i'm like oh 1.00

03:13:47.820 he's an asshole like let me go hang out with him like that's not what i do but there's also a lot 1.00

03:13:53.500 of good guys out there you just gotta give them a chance sometimes are you attracted to those guys 0.99

03:13:58.860 though um yeah i'd say i mean but they're not the ones you end up with no are you saying nice guys finish

03:14:09.420 last i guess from my from like my past i guess so but like a lot of times they end up they're

03:14:16.220 super nice in the beginning and then it just is a decline from there so word word

03:14:22.940 word like that happens a lot like they're great and then you really get to know them and then it

03:14:27.180 just a decline from there from my experience i hope it gets better from here yeah i really hope for you

03:14:34.300 no more homeless men please i'm i'm really trying after this after this i'm really trying and get him

03:14:39.980 out of your mom's house get your mom back get your mom back and i just want to come back to two i

03:14:48.220 think i heard two of you say this so you said you you feel like you've learned something or you've

03:14:54.620 found some insights or something i have like obviously i've lived my life as a woman growing up here

03:15:00.300 i hope so um it's kind of nice because i haven't really had like any proper guy friends which is

03:15:09.260 probably on me but like it's nice just being able to talk in like a very open setting like this and

03:15:14.300 just kind of hear the other perspective even if i don't agree with some stuff it's useful to know

03:15:18.220 i don't know it's nice it's interesting yeah appreciate that true yeah i i agree with you yeah i

03:15:23.100 mean like maddie and i like we talked to our guy friends about this stuff too and they're pretty open

03:15:26.940 about it and we're open with them yeah and like we've just been close what's something that you

03:15:31.180 and your guy friends often talk about when we have talked about we talked about a lot of stuff with

03:15:36.540 them like they're really close like we have like open minds when we're talking to them like yeah we

03:15:41.580 want to hear from a guy we never like judge we're not gonna be like why would you say that we're like

03:15:45.340 why do you say yeah like if they say something we're not gonna be like what the

03:15:49.180 fuck we're gonna be like interesting what what is an example of like something that they've said 0.90

03:15:55.020 um maybe what what's their take on body count body cap they don't really care honestly yeah 0.99

03:16:01.020 they don't care they don't care yeah all right we got maybe it's just a good guy yeah we just got

03:16:05.740 the show yeah to be fair shout out connor we chose good guy friends they're like very sweet yeah yeah

03:16:11.740 so your guy friends don't care about body count no no chat do you think that's cap hey whoa whoa

03:16:17.020 i think i remember them mentioning they prefer low body count okay so they do but like they prefer low

03:16:24.060 body count but overall they don't care like if the girl's a nice girl it's not gonna deter them

03:16:31.260 i think i think it's more of a thing like like i have some like girlfriends that like have slept

03:16:38.220 around with a lot of dudes and i'm like i'm not looking to sleep with you so i really couldn't get

03:16:42.060 the loss of a fuck yeah it's it's it's just like a friend like a simply a platonic yeah so you only 0.91

03:16:49.020 really care about it when it's like you're leading to like a romantic situation yeah okay yes i see 0.99

03:16:53.660 that because again that's what i'm talking about the whole energy exchange it's like i'm not gonna

03:16:57.900 exchange anything with this person it's just gonna be me hanging out with them and my other friend

03:17:01.980 group doing whatever we want i'm not gonna hook up with them i'm not gonna like root myself to them 0.94

03:17:07.660 compared to someone that has rooted themselves to a bunch of assholes or like you know people are 0.97

03:17:13.260 shitty human beings yeah i just wish i could read a guy's mind i don't know if you uh if i selectively 0.98

03:17:21.660 want to at the time i just want to know something you want to like choose one to read yeah i'm gonna

03:17:26.860 choose one to read their mind yeah also the other thing with the body count so i think there's a bit

03:17:32.060 more nuance to it so for a if a guy is just wants to hook up it's probably going to be less of a concern

03:17:41.500 but to take you seriously for a long-term relationship for marriage guys are going to

03:17:46.460 care about body count a whole lot more so when they say oh body count doesn't matter i mean they

03:17:51.660 might just be i mean if i don't know who they are i don't know what they're looking for but a lot of

03:17:56.380 guys in college like they kind of just want to hook up so they're probably like yeah it doesn't i'm not

03:18:02.300 really tripping too much i'm just trying to hit and quit it like whatever but i mean even for me like

03:18:07.740 like i'll i'll come out and say even for a one night stand i'd prefer lower body count

03:18:14.540 okay whether that's a realistic scenario that would play out i mean that's another thing but

03:18:20.620 yeah so yeah um last question then we're gonna wrap up here and then and then we'll watch a little

03:18:27.180 fun little video just as a little cherry on top is it creepy when a guy you're not attracted to

03:18:34.300 shoots his shot i wouldn't say not i wouldn't say creepy creepy not creepy i mean they can be

03:18:40.220 creepy but i don't they can do it in a creepy way yeah yeah definitely but just the act of shooting

03:18:46.540 their shot even if i'm not attracted to them is not creepy okay so like let's say for example a guy

03:18:51.820 maybe you're at trader joe's or something or and a guy trader joe's reference

03:18:55.980 yeah i mean yeah exactly uh and let's say a guy came up to you maybe he wasn't like the best looking

03:19:04.780 guy whatever but you know he's polite he was otherwise polite you just weren't attracted to

03:19:09.020 him would you like would you find that kind of creepy no i would literally be like oh my god like

03:19:14.220 texting my friends like i just got asked how i like trader joe's like it's okay and they're like

03:19:18.140 what did you do and i'm like oh i just said no thanks like i'm not yeah but you would you feel good

03:19:23.020 about about it yeah i'm like kind of flattered and sort of or i had a guy i was walking on state

03:19:28.140 street it is an ego boost yeah he asked me where macy's was and there was no macy's and i think he

03:19:33.660 was just trying to talk to me on state street but like where's paseo nuevo like not upper upper state

03:19:39.260 but there is one on yeah yeah but i'm saying like paseo nuevo where like there used to be one at

03:19:44.140 paseo yeah yeah but he asked me where macy's was and i was like no more macy's and it got my

03:19:48.460 attention from like walking and then he's like oh can i get like your number i was like no he wasn't

03:19:51.980 attracted to me right and i just was like oh no no thanks i mean this happened to me like semi

03:19:57.180 recently i was just like walking in the mall and this guy came up to me and was like i just saw you

03:20:01.580 from over there i just had to introduce myself i i wasn't really that attracted to him but like i

03:20:08.220 talked to him for like a little bit he seemed nice but then he was like oh like can i get your number

03:20:12.460 and i was like no like i'm about to leave like sorry but it was really nice like meeting you and

03:20:17.740 it is a little bit of an ego boost but i mean at least for me i was like respect for shooting

03:20:22.940 your shot like i respect you like sorry it didn't work out with me but i do hope it works out with 0.94

03:20:27.180 someone shooting a shot in person is a lot more scary yeah oh yeah it's a lot of balls oh yeah that's

03:20:32.380 for sure sorry i also feel like sometimes i do get uncomfortable though like i don't know maybe

03:20:39.580 it's like the setting but also like i have had a lot of creepy guys like do creepy things so like

03:20:45.500 i think in general i'm kind of like creeped out by men especially if it's like older men yeah i had

03:20:51.100 a guy like kind of follow me around the grocery store okay and he was like in his like 50s yeah

03:20:56.700 like definitely dad and he like kept on walking the same aisles with me and then introduced himself

03:21:01.100 and then i just ran away wait so hold on you guys said like if it's an older guy like what is the

03:21:07.340 oldest as in like a dad yeah like 40 50 what what's the oldest that you guys think you would date

03:21:15.500 right now right now sure like hooked up with like a 30 year old yeah i mean i haven't but that's

03:21:21.820 like i haven't done that but not but i guess like 25 26 um like 23 24 yeah 23 23 even andrew tate

03:21:32.460 like no go no 35 no what about what if he's like do you guys have a celebrity crush yeah it's harry

03:21:41.340 styles like yeah miles teller andrew garfield andrew garfield yeah oh my god hold on so okay

03:21:47.660 harry styles is miles oh my god i love him harry styles is 28 you'll go for i'll go for harry

03:21:53.740 styles i'll do anything for him i think he's like 30 something but i said i would do 30 like chris

03:21:59.100 evans who said andrew garfield me oh i love him too he's 39 yeah okay but it's andrew garfield

03:22:06.700 there's exceptions there's exceptions okay he does not look 39 he looks like 33. so if a guy

03:22:12.460 has status no i know i wouldn't date him i think it's just from watching i think it's just from

03:22:17.260 watching all the movies that they've been on and like seeing it's like the way that they hold it

03:22:20.940 like it's attractive but it's like a year old by the way you wouldn't date andrew garfield you've also

03:22:25.260 i don't know he's had like so much more life experience than me like i feel like i just literally

03:22:29.260 i can talk about my childhood and that's it high school a little bit of college

03:22:43.900 okay so we are going to react to a final video we got a patrice o'neill clip

03:22:52.140 if you can add one up eric i believe it's yeah there you go

03:22:59.580 let me ask you a question here's a question see this question okay ladies if you didn't 1.00

03:23:05.660 have a vagina like say it was a terrible train accident right and the doctor was like we have 1.00

03:23:12.540 to remove your right away or you're gonna die 1.00

03:23:19.180 how would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty i can't leave the 1.00

03:23:25.820 the bitch right away because she just lost the pussy the train actually 1.00

03:23:32.460 can't just walk right out on him 1.00

03:23:37.980 how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina eric can you pause it 1.00

03:23:47.180 uh so go ahead your answer to his question i'd like like sexually is this like 0.99

03:23:52.620 because just how would you keep your men i love an affection it could be sexually too but 1.00

03:23:59.740 um you lost your vaginas i love you enough they'll stay terrible train accident yeah 1.00

03:24:04.940 if a guy loves you enough they'll stay yeah i love affection care but what would you do 0.99

03:24:10.220 sexually keep your men well however you want to take the i i don't want to influence you

03:24:16.300 you're trying to go for no i just i don't want to influence your answer but i just want to know 0.97

03:24:20.060 how you'd keep it yeah yeah i mean there's other things that don't don't involve a vagina yeah there's 1.00

03:24:26.380 a lot of things like foreplay and everything i mean i guess there's no foreplay yeah but i mean 0.95

03:24:31.500 outside of sex like you can just be like a good person like you are already dating before yeah

03:24:37.740 yeah no like literally what they're saying like time care like together spend time together 0.97

03:24:43.980 this person really wants to be with you for their vagina yeah yeah if you break up with someone 1.00

03:24:48.300 after you leave like you leave them after they don't have a vagina you're i think you're a bad 1.00

03:24:52.140 especially if it's like a bad accident they were like in a long-term relationship like that's kind 0.94

03:24:56.860 of and also just like is quality time not enough yeah yes intimacy and that stuff is important but 0.99

03:25:03.420 there's other ways to do that if you don't have a vagina there's also like pocket pussies 1.00

03:25:08.380 exactly yeah get creative get creative there's just a hole there's just a hole worth of vagina 1.00

03:25:16.940 it's soda it's like a barbie doll bottom i mean there's another terrible train accident 0.97

03:25:25.420 there's one you guys are forgetting there's like a very viable option there's another hole there you go

03:25:30.700 yeah there's two you're the belly button you're not the belly button yes there are two but

03:25:37.500 and you're what what would you do i want to keep him he wants to leave no but what would you do

03:25:43.180 to keep your man you lost you just lost your terrible train that amtrak amtrak derail

03:25:53.180 there you go yeah all right they didn't really go for they i don't think they took the bait but

03:25:57.980 we'll finish off the clip hey i tried wow nothing you can talk you can talk 1.00

03:26:12.060 suck his dick okay mouth 1.00

03:26:13.660 asshole okay great do you see what i'm saying now i've been getting pussybeating the whole show 1.00

03:26:24.140 right but i give women the opportunity to say i want to make myself worth more but you just classified 0.99

03:26:30.220 yourself as a series of holes but but you know i'm i'm supposed to teach you special but you're just a bunch 0.60

03:26:39.580 of holes for yourself no one said learn how to play xbox learn how to play pool tell better stories get 1.00

03:26:48.700 another that got a pussy to come on in well look whatever all right yeah you guys didn't really take 0.99

03:27:00.300 take the bait on on that one hey i mean i said some options yeah that's good it was good anyways um 0.99

03:27:07.020 i think we're gonna wrap up here i know i opened it up to final thoughts i want to one last opportunity

03:27:11.500 if anyone had any question you want to ask the panel anything okay cool cool cool luke you got

03:27:16.860 i think you got your thing in too right i'm all good okay rock and roll guys so um thanks guys for tuning

03:27:23.980 in you could have been doing anything else but you're here with me i appreciate that we will be

03:27:30.060 live again tuesday at 7 p.m pacific uh like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the

03:27:36.780 algorithm yeah and uh thank you to the wonderful panel for coming you guys were awesome i think this

03:27:43.580 was like i think this was like a really solid panel like yeah i saw a lot of comments that were

03:27:50.380 like pretty positive like good energy yeah it was good i think this was like one hater like one

03:27:54.940 singular hater like the whole time what was he saying i'm not really reading i don't know his name

03:28:00.460 was like hector but he like the whole time he was just bagging on me yeah yeah it's the same thing

03:28:13.420 yeah no i i definitely agree like i think the energy for this one is like on the the 7-eleven date

03:28:20.940 uh mantis uh i guess he's asked her dms are open i guess yeah yeah the the instagrams are down below

03:28:27.500 yeah give everyone a follow on instagram show them some love guys but uh yeah just uh oh we're cool and

03:28:33.980 positive yeah oh my god yeah definitely definitely i think a uh very good panel but yeah guys if you can

03:28:42.940 uh we will be live again tuesday at 7 p.m like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the

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03:28:54.140 time thanks for having a good night guys good night

Whatever Podcast - February 03, 2023

Dating Talk #23

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