Dating Talk #29
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2 hours and 58 minutes
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200.1342
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230
Summary
In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, SixtyKel, a rapper and friend of ours. We talk about what it's like to be in a relationship with someone you're not in a long term one, and how to deal with a guy you don't really care for.
Transcript
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Every Tuesday and Thursday at 7pm Pacific, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
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We need people to help out with some clips, so yeah, shoot us a DM, or if you just want
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And anyways, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your
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My occupation, I work in healthcare, so that's super fun.
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I'm a retail manager at a shoe store, and I'm just going back to college to be an elementary
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I'm a marketing intern, but that's pretty much it.
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Trying to get my AA, you know, get my little degree.
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If I am, slide into my DMs and tell me I'm trash.
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Like I said, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.
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We're going to go around the table one more time.
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So, tell us your current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?
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And currently, I just deleted Tinder, so not on anything.
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What is the longest period of time that you've seen a guy?
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And my longest relationship was like a year and a half.
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My longest relationship, I believe, was about like three years, four years.
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So my longest has been probably like four or five months.
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But it was like, yeah, it was just four or five months.
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I just recently deleted Bumble because it's just, I don't know.
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The Tinder and the Hinge, the Hinge, that's where it's at.
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So dating apps, I include seeking arrangements in that.
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It's like basically for people who are looking for sugar, daddy.
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That's not like the most sophisticated shit I ever heard.
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So if you're, but none of you have been on seeking arrangements?
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I'll tell you, y'all getting pimped out on seeking arrangements or something.
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But apparently they rebranded to seeking recently.
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So now it's, I think they're trying to maybe move.
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Like, I'm not seeking for you to arrange my crib and shit.
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Tell us about seeking arrangements though, Brian.
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I did think, I did consider getting on there to find girls to bring on the show.
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Like they are the sugar babies or they want sugar babies.
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Well, cause we've had a couple of girls on the show that they've been on seeking arrangements
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Just stuff like that, you know, to go get dinner or whatever.
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So we're going to go, let's see, we're going to go around the table on this.
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You're the only one in a relationship currently.
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I tried to get at her and she said, nah, I'm taking.
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So eight year relationship, are you guys married or?
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No, we're talking about getting engaged though.
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I was also 18, you know, didn't really want to be in a relationship.
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Why no relationships in that three year period?
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Honestly, I'm just not really like the relationship type.
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I don't really want to like take care of someone.
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And I feel like having like a relationship, you're like constantly taking care of someone.
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I like not like having anyone telling me what to do.
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So when you go to bars or clubs, you get a lot of free drinks.
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So that's, that's the primary perk of being single, the free alcohol.
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So you're not interested in a serious long-term relationship right now.
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There, there hasn't been anyone that I'm like, oh my God, I want to be in a relationship with you.
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I had a follow-up question, but it just, it evaded me.
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But so, I mean, when people say they're single, I think historically when someone was single,
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But in today's day and age, you can be single, but like seeing multiple people, seeing one person,
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So when you say you're single, like how many sneaky links you got?
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So if you have multiple sneaky links, do not mention it.
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And once he found out, he was very upset with me.
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I mean, is everyone really just talking to one person or are we really just lying to ourselves?
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Shout out to the homie that she let down like that.
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And see, she's talking about you got to step up, bro.
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So you were, you were seeing a guy and he found out that there were other dudes.
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He never told her that he thought it was exclusive either, which makes no sense.
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Well, how long were you guys seeing each other?
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Because I mean, I feel like if you continue seeing someone, if the period of time, sometimes
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people fall into relationships to some degree, you know, like if they just continue seeing
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Like there's, there's, even if there wasn't an overt conversation, there's almost an assumption
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of monogamy, let's say, if you've been seeing someone for long enough, but it doesn't sound
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Not on my case, but, um, I found out he was not thinking like that.
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And I guess, I don't know, lower your expectations, have a conversation with me.
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So, you know, if you want to talk to me, talk to me, but as of dating, no, thank you.
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So did you say how many sneaking links do you currently have?
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If you want to share, uh, we're going to, we're going to keep that number for another
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So send a hundred dollars and she might say it.
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You're saying, yeah, what's, what's your price?
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Well, I'm like, I feel like this is going to expose the other guys because now they're
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Um, can we have you guys pop your hats off just for the, Oh, excuse me.
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So how much for the chat for my hat to come off?
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I forgot to mention it before the, uh, the show.
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I see the curls and shit, but I just need to line up, bro.
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So before I get into some of my questions, I'd like to open it up to the panel first.
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Is there anything, and we'll go around the table on this.
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Is there anything dating related that you want to get off your chest?
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So one thing you wish for the girls, one thing you wish men did differently, something
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And for the guys, you know, vice versa with the women, you know, maybe you want an advice,
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some advice on a specific situation, whatever it may be, anything.
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I guess I don't really have expectations with the guys here.
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I was going to say, I personally don't think there's any difference between being official
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and like having the title of like relationship, like girlfriend, boyfriend.
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So I just feel like if you call yourself in an official situation or relationship, but they're
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not your significant other, then you're just super afraid of commitment.
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So you shouldn't be talking to someone in the first place.
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So just can you elaborate a bit on what you mean there?
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So you'll go around meeting a lot of people and they'll be like, yeah, we're official.
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And then you'll be like, oh, so he's your boyfriend.
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And then you'll ask them, what's the difference?
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And they'll say, oh, he just doesn't have the title.
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But like they literally had a conversation to call themselves official in the first place.
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So are you saying there's a differentiation between official and boyfriend, girlfriend?
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It's just like another level of commitment that people are not ready to like take on.
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And I live in Miami, so it's a little bit mixed up.
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The number one thing is like, because even hearing the females talking, you know, the girls
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talking about, like, how it's like, oh, the title thing and this and that.
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Like, bro, not every guy is tripping about a damn title.
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Like, for me, like, first and foremost, one thing I'm going to tell guys and girls is stop
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Stop relying and, oh, I'm trying to point your finger at somebody else.
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Because that's the main reason why people going around, oh, that's my girlfriend.
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Like, they're doing all these things where it's like, you don't have to trip.
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First off, I know my girl is my girl with no title, with no this, with no that.
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And OG taught me before what's understood doesn't even be explained, right?
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And that's the same thing that, like I said, people get so caught up on titles and are we
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First off, anybody asking shit, they're either asking because they want your man or they
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So they don't got to ask nothing because they going to know.
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If you see me walk in the room with my girl, you don't got to ask.
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She don't got to fucking wear a banner that says, I'm his girl.
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So that's where I think, like, a lot of people just get missed.
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Like, they just get so caught up on, like, what are we?
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And like I said, for me, I'm a guy that, bro, if I'm seeing somebody, like, that's just
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And just because that's why, to me, I don't like doing titles.
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I hate being, like, boyfriend and girlfriend because when people get those titles, now
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it's like, oh, shit, why'd you get a drink from that guy?
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Where it's like, if you don't have a title, then it's like, oh, shit, you got a drink?
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But then we're going to go back to the crib together, and who's tripping?
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But when you have the title, it's like people are going to say, oh, now, all these little
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When if you don't have a title, who gives a fuck if he didn't call you?
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So I just think people need to stop tripping on labels and this and that, and just, you
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When you fuck with them and they fuck with you, that's it.
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If you want them there and they want to be there, they're going to be there.
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So if a girl, like let's say you were dating a girl, say for six months or something, and
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she came to you and she said, 60 Kel, she wouldn't refer to you by your rap name, would
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So like, it happens to be that I'm a rapper, but that's just my name.
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She comes to you and she says, you know, it's been six months.
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What do you, what do you say to her in that situation?
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I say, bitch, what do you think for six months?
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You need me to tell you like, this is what you are for you to act like one after six months.
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You need a, you need a, for me to tell you, yo, we're boyfriend and girlfriend.
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Nah, if I got to say that, then I don't even, nope, go.
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No, but if the guy I'm talking to doesn't go around and talk about me and say like,
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oh, she's my girlfriend, I'm not going to act like a girlfriend.
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If I'm hanging around a people, a group of people that they know who my girl is or this
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And then, like I said, first off, it's not about claiming somebody because you could be
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And then close the shit, the opportunity that you may have with the females in front of you
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while that girl's over there across the fucking city, state, you know, smashing sand.
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But if the guy I'm talking to doesn't tell me that like he's my boyfriend or that we're
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exclusive, then I'm going to assume he's talking to other people, then I'm going to
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If he doesn't say that, then I'm going to go do this, do that.
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Why the fuck does a few words, why do I have to tell you those words for you to not do
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Like you feel me if you really feel like that, you should say that.
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Like me and my ex, we never, he never officially was like, you want to be my girlfriend?
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We kind of just like, there was like a certain vibe where we were like, we're together, but
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But like at the same time, you feel a type of way and then you just start acting right.
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Listen, I date, I like, I hook up with people, this and that, da, da, da.
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And if anybody asks me or, or, or if I introduce her to anybody, yo, what's up?
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Every, like, and like I said, bro, I got friends, female friends that ain't no, ain't about no
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But if they pull up with me, every one, they get introduced with it.
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What I'm talking about in general, you're just talking about like your personal life.
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You got to think about like how 99% of guys are like usually the same when it comes to
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Like they're so stuck up on titles, which makes us like, or at least me.
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I mean, I can't, like I said, I just feel like for me, I hear the narrative all the time
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that it's like us forcing the issues and trying to make one, I'm like, it's really
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Like it's really like girls feel upset if you don't say, yeah, that's my girlfriend.
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When I'm like, come on girl, why are you tripping?
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I don't, I'm not, if you have a good girl and if you have fun with a person, you get
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If I'm hanging out with this, but if the questions start popping up, like, oh, why don't
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you call me this, oh, why don't you, that's what I say, nah, that's because that's a person
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too reliant on somebody else, you know what I'm saying?
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And I like people to be independent and not just sit there like how she said, I'm not
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trying to take care of somebody every fucking day, you know what I'm saying?
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By the way, I just noticed in addition to the other, you, Dragon Ball Z, oh, sorry.
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So the question, like, is it basically just anything you want to get off your chest that's
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I mean, I'm 21, I'll be doing my thing, you feel me?
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Is there anything that frustrates you when it comes to dating women or dealing with women?
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Like, it's not that, you feel me, like what she was saying.
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Like, if you really want that, like, you want a relationship, like, say it.
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Because some of us, you feel me, we're not going to automatically read your minds and know
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So, like, it's not that hard to just be like, yeah, I'm trying to be in a relationship,
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You have to, like, put out your intentions and, like, tell me what you want.
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But if we chilling, you feel me, we both clearly on that intentions.
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So, you be like, you just go wait for me because I'm a man, I got to tell you that.
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I'm trying to say, like, if your intentions with me are, like, just to be, like, you and
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If I want that first and you haven't said it, then I'll say it.
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But if neither of us are saying it, then I'm not going to act like we're exclusive.
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You're literally preaching communication and that's literally the exact same thing that
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Because, like, if you clear with somebody about what you're doing or what you're trying
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Okay, and then you, but you've been here for school since you were, what, 18 or?
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Because it's very, Miami's very different than Santa Barbara.
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People are not dating for relationships, I would say.
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It's usually just, like, hanging out, getting to meet people, going out.
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But most people are just, like, not serious about much.
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It's, like, the same thing over and over again.
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Yo, Matt, thank you for becoming a member of the channel, man.
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Brian, ask all the ladies at the table to guess the, Jesus Christ.
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Y'all trying to get these good women to square up in here.
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I'm going to say she probably weighs, like, 20 pounds.
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Every day Edgar, thank you for the $10 soup chat.
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Hey, Brian, the turkey girl has me thirsty for milk for some inexplicable reason.
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My boy, Eric, stop talking shit on him on the chat.
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So we're going to do a video reaction here, guys.
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Okay, so actually pull it back real quick, Eric, and then I'll have you come back.
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So the video that we're about to react to, I want you to think, put yourself in the position
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So you guys put yourself in the position of the girl.
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And then, well, this video is more so directed at the women.
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And I want you to tell us how it would make you feel about the guy having been in that
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I don't want to show you the tennis ball, all right?
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You told me that you don't want me to hit you, and maybe I won't, all right?
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I'll turn to the man in the black jacket drinking alcohol on my bus.
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They're going to have to get off or I'm going to call the police.
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When you want a real man, you know where to come, don't you?
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You're the girl, you're the girl sitting right next to either your boyfriend or let's say
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it could be a boyfriend or a guy that you've just been seeing for, I don't know, maybe it's
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Well, probably, if I'm going to be quite honest, there wouldn't have been like a fourth date.
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I don't even think we'd get to the point of dating.
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Because obviously, if he's going to act like that in that moment, what is he acting like
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Like I said, I don't want a man that I'm going to take care of.
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So like if he's going to act like that, he probably is going to act like that at the
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I mean, the guy, the aggressor, he's drunk, looks more physically more intimidating than
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What would you want your boyfriend to do in that situation?
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I mean, honestly, if he's getting his ass kicked, that means I'm getting my ass kicked
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Again, I don't think we should get to that point.
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Like, I would be very embarrassed if we if I had a boyfriend who couldn't do anything.
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Well, we'll continue on with this conversation.
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So you've been dating your boyfriend for eight years.
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So if that was my man and someone came up on him like that, I don't think I would think.
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I just I'll get on him and like probably squaring up with him.
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And like I take it really seriously if he's upset.
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Just if he doesn't like someone or someone disrespects him, I immediately already get my
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But how would I mean, if your boyfriend acted like the guy, though, like the aggressor
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or the victim, the victim, if you act like that.
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It's on site for the other group or something if he's not reacting.
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But if he's you can tell she's been in a relationship for eight years in her mind.
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And I'm taking my man like she ain't even looking at it as like, oh, no, I can't
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be with a guy like, no, she's already with him for eight years.
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Him not reacting immediately, I would react for him, I guess.
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But would you be, I mean, would you be turned off by?
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Honestly, I feel like in situations like that, it's better to not be reactive, to like
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I rather not have the person next to me get aggressive.
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I rather not have him get aggressive for no reason.
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Not for no reason, but like I rather not have him get aggressive.
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So just I feel like in those situations, ignoring is a little bit better, but I would want him
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Kind of just like tell that dude like, yo, like back off.
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Okay, so, but you wouldn't feel a certain type of way towards.
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Like I would be a little bit like, I would be like man up, but don't push it too far.
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Like I would want him to like man up a little bit and be like, kind of like, like push him
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Well, we'll get to the soup chat as soon as we get, we go around the table on this, but
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I mean, kind of like she was saying, like I would probably step in if he wasn't doing
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anything, if we'd been together for a minute, but.
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I mean, confronting somebody like that is disrespectful either way, so.
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Like the aggressor, that's disrespectful either way.
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But you're not, okay, you're not romantically interested in the aggressor, you're on the
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bus with your fourth date or whatever, or your boyfriend.
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So the, kind of the framing of the question is, how does that make you feel about your relationship
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Because they, well they, he cowered in the face of this guy being belligerent and aggressive.
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You're not going to be, you're not going to lose attraction for the guy?
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That's kind of what I'm getting at with the question.
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And if the aggressor had a girl there too, I'd probably start swinging on the girl.
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Does that change anything for you if it was just like a guy you just started seeing,
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like it's the fourth date, and then that happens?
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Oh, if it's the first date, I'm going to not be too bonded with him to immediately jump
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Are you going to be turned off or lose attraction for the guy?
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No, I'll probably talk about it later, like, you good?
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And I'm trying to think how I'm going to frame this for the guy's perspective here.
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Yeah, I mean, basically, guys, what do you think about the video?
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Like, your reaction to it, like, do you think that that guy, him acting in that way would
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I mean, like, he wasn't doing nothing, so, I mean, he was all, the guy seemed like he
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was all up on him, and the dude was just sitting down in the bus.
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I'm not just going to let the dude just keep pressing up on me like that.
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I feel like, see, if my girl was just getting bitched by a female or just getting smacked
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Yeah, bro, I mean, I think it's just clearly, like, as a man, like, you know, like, I'm
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not taking that shit, so that's, like, yeah, like, he, you know, but it's not even about
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that aspect of it, but it's just, like, because you ask the women, and to me, it's just, like,
00:38:37.360
it just depends the type of women that they are.
00:38:39.220
Some women love aggressive guys, you know what I'm saying, that's going to stand up for
00:38:43.180
themselves and protect them, but some women are the protectors and are the ones that, like,
00:38:47.680
they want somebody that's softer and not going to get into some dumb shit, so.
00:38:55.020
Yeah, I could definitely see, though, in situations, like, if guys get into situations like that,
00:38:59.300
they're with a new girl, and some guys acting like that, and I think if you were to cower,
00:39:05.120
the girl's probably going to definitely look at you and probably, I mean, I think your reaction
00:39:10.980
is probably how most women are going to feel, like, it's done.
00:39:17.040
You're going to be turned off, like, it's just, it's a wrap, it's over.
00:39:19.640
You don't even have to get aggressive, just, like, say something.
00:39:22.160
Just be like, hey, walk away, or something like that, you know?
00:39:24.900
If you're not going to do it, I'm going to do it.
00:39:26.800
Like, why are we, why, why is he getting pressed?
00:39:30.260
Wait, so, ooh, that's, I feel like that's the worst thing that a girl could do in that
00:39:37.360
Don't make somebody cut your body, like, yeah, you know what I'm saying?
00:39:40.960
I don't know, I, I don't really, I, I don't know, I've stood up to man, like, a man, like,
00:39:47.000
man, a man, men, in general, I don't know, I, I'm going to do it, no matter what, like,
00:39:52.220
I don't like guys telling me what to do, if you're going to come at me, I'm going to come
00:39:58.840
She's not wearing those horns for no reason, you know what I'm saying?
00:40:04.140
But it would be, if a guy did that, it's a wrap, it's done.
00:40:11.120
We got some super chats here, let me get to them right now.
00:40:16.660
No, hold on, because he's talking to me on this one.
00:40:18.180
Yeah, $10 soup chat, just tuning in, and damn, the content will write itself with these
00:40:22.400
By the way, he's, he's our roaster, resident roaster.
00:40:29.060
Rapper question mark, pretty sure I've seen this fool hustling with his mixtape on the streets.
00:40:34.140
That is never in your life have you seen my ass hustling mixtapes on a fucking corner,
00:40:46.540
I don't know why you want it from me, my G, but no, no, no, we really do this, bro.
00:40:50.920
You go to the IG, you see the following, you go to the videos, you see, that's all I'm
00:40:59.520
Big OG, we appreciate your support in the podcast, fam.
00:41:07.980
I ain't selling no mixtapes on no corner, nigga.
00:41:10.120
They coming to me, they're knocking, labels knocking on my door, trying to sign a motherfucker,
00:41:16.200
Yeah, by the way, 60 Kel, he's got music videos out on YouTube, too, so if you follow the link
00:41:27.500
Like I said, DM a motherfucker if you see my shit, and you're saying, nah, that shit
00:41:47.740
Hey, Bobby, thank you so much for the big $20 Super Chat, man.
00:41:52.600
We got Benjamin Delabasic with the Australian $20.
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But Benjamin, thank you for the big Australian $20 Super Chat.
00:42:20.240
I want you to list as many traits as you can think of that you need in a partner.
00:42:28.500
And it can be physical, and it can also be personality traits.
00:42:36.180
If you guys want, I can kind of prompt you with a few that come to mind.
00:42:44.760
And, like, we're going to do a date night if that is going to happen.
00:42:46.960
So, I want to be able to, like, wear my platforms and, like, not feel like I'm going to be towering
00:42:53.160
And I'm, like, 5'4", so that really shouldn't happen.
00:42:58.240
I like guys with a personality who are genuinely, like, confident about themselves, aren't insecure,
00:43:05.060
I'm very extroverted, so I want someone who's like me in that sense.
00:43:19.600
Like, I want to take, like, cute Instagram photos.
00:43:28.120
So, like, if someone wows me, I guess that's, like, the one I'm interested in.
00:43:34.380
Well, we, Defini and I actually have a point system for height.
00:43:39.560
So, when you're looking at your, like, prospects, these.
00:43:46.520
If they're at, like, six foot and above, every single inch over six foot is an extra point.
00:43:52.500
So, it's like, if you have a red flag, but you're 6'2", the red flag is canceled out.
00:44:06.180
And if you're a short king, you gotta have, like, extra green flags.
00:44:21.180
So, what, is there anything, I mean, you mentioned personality.
00:44:31.660
Oh, I'm a terrible driver, so someone who can drive me around, that would be great.
00:44:36.820
You don't want me driving you around, so drive me around, please.
00:44:40.000
Do you just, like, whenever you get an Uber, you just check how tall he is and?
00:44:46.240
I actually, I'm scared of Ubers, if I'm going to be quite honest.
00:44:49.320
I went on my first Uber drive, like, by myself, like, this year.
00:45:05.460
I, not to toot my own horn, but I'm a blonde girl.
00:45:26.060
That's at the top of the list for what guys want, right?
00:45:31.440
That's funny, because you say it in that tone, but that's, like, one of my qualities.
00:45:37.040
Like, you're not just going to lay there or hang on.
00:45:41.000
Like, I need somebody to, like, because I'm active, bro.
00:45:44.440
But have you ever met a girl that talks too much?
00:45:57.200
Just, like, being out there, but also, like, not, I don't know.
00:46:05.080
So, if I'm bringing what I want to the table, then I expect them to bring what they have to
00:46:09.420
the table, and it goes both ways, like communication, stuff like that.
00:46:17.200
So, what traits, I mean, I know you've got your boyfriend, but list as many traits as
00:46:28.580
So, because I'm spiritual, so something to get on the same level talking about, like, energy
00:46:38.580
Spiritual, smart, because it's just attractive.
00:46:51.100
I'm trying to think of, like, I'm trying to think outside of my boyfriend, so that, like.
00:47:25.360
Like, goofy doesn't take himself or life too seriously at all.
00:47:48.320
There's going to be points where everyone's going to disagree, but you just have to be respectful
00:47:51.260
and you have to be able to, like, listen to the other person and see where they're coming
00:47:54.140
from, and you have to be able to agree to disagree.
00:48:02.180
I feel like this question's kind of boring, I feel like.
00:48:05.860
Yeah, let's talk about some freaky shit, Brian.
00:48:12.680
I wanted to ask it last show, and the guys can answer this too, but you'll have to just
00:48:17.940
If you had to choose, would you rather your boyfriend cheat on you with a really hot girl
00:48:27.640
That's, like, the most annoying question you could ask.
00:48:31.140
Because obviously you don't want nobody to cheat, bro, but, like, honestly, if I may first,
00:48:36.900
I'm going to say I'd rather have my girl cheat on me with a guy that's just, like, I would
00:48:46.580
Like, bro, I actually, funny story that you say that, bro.
00:48:49.960
I had a girlfriend that I dated probably, like, three years ago.
00:48:53.540
Adriana, if you're watching this, I hate you, bitch.
00:49:00.040
I was dating this girl, and she loves, like, music and shit, obviously.
00:49:04.380
So she goes to a bunch of shows, and she, like, she's a really good-looking girl, hangs
00:49:18.300
And this girl literally had the audacity to call me while, like, first off, she calls
00:49:24.900
me, like, oh, my God, we just got invited to go on this fucking, you know, like, on the
00:49:40.760
Bro, then the girl called me immediately after and said, guess what, babe?
00:49:51.440
Like, bro, I literally, I didn't know how to act.
00:50:05.760
Because like I said, for me, it was just like she had the whole, oh, no, but it's G-Eazy.
00:50:14.380
If the dude was just better looking, if it was up, then whatever.
00:50:17.840
But nah, just because he was famous, she smashed.
00:50:25.440
So while we do, we'll get the guys going first.
00:50:27.840
So would you rather your girlfriend cheat on you with a really hot dude or a really ugly
00:50:36.300
Yeah, I just, I don't want to be in that situation.
00:50:46.600
Because, like, if it does, though, like, if it was to cheat, regardless of whatever, bruh,
00:50:51.160
I'm not even going to say about the guy, but if she does cheat, that's on me.
00:50:57.340
So I'm going to, you feel me, as a man, you can go on with whatever man you was cheating
00:51:03.600
And just to make it clear, obviously, you'd rather your girlfriend just not cheat, period.
00:51:09.240
I watched your girlfriend getting just smacked up every night while she's coming back home.
00:51:17.660
Like, oh, you still got a little sound right there, baby.
00:51:26.280
Either way, I just don't want to be in that situation.
00:51:29.140
Because you feel me, I don't know how I would act.
00:51:31.420
I have yet to be in that situation to where, like, I've caught my girl getting blammed up by
00:51:45.940
But we'll let the girls answer this one really quick.
00:51:48.440
So, would you rather your boyfriend cheat on you with a really hot girl or a really ugly
00:51:57.500
Yeah, at least he's getting out there and getting someone better.
00:52:21.540
Because you would feel like you was just crusty as hell.
00:52:25.640
It just doesn't make you feel like the value of, like, wow, they don't value who I am.
00:52:38.120
But I just feel like if you're going to cheat, like, I want to, like, look at her and be
00:52:42.380
Like, at least she's not, like, like, I want to be like, okay, that's fair.
00:52:48.320
Like, if you're going to screw me over, at least have her be hot.
00:52:55.020
I guess, probably, if he, like, cheated with the hot girl, I could be like, all right,
00:53:01.040
I don't feel as crusty, but if it was an ugly bitch, I'd still be pretty pissed.
00:53:18.460
Like, for some reason, when I pull it up, it, like, looks scuffed.
00:53:38.320
You can see eight of me walking down the street with me.
00:53:41.080
So, then what's so special about the blonde females?
00:53:43.260
I mean, I just said there was more to me than just being blonde as well.
00:53:48.360
I mean, that was one of the qualities, but she's not lying.
00:53:51.360
There could be a million blondes, but she's one, too.
00:53:59.840
You see a dime, but it doesn't, like Mike said, man.
00:54:02.000
I've never heard a guy complain about a hot blonde, so.
00:54:14.720
Probably, like, I dated somebody with black hair probably, like, that was my last relationship
00:54:20.380
And then after that, it's been blonde, blonde, blonde, blonde, blonde, blonde, blonde, blonde,
00:54:25.300
Wait, so do you guys prefer blondes or brunettes?
00:54:32.560
Like, I don't give a fuck fucking brown, yellow, purple.
00:54:36.860
As long as you good-looking and you have good personality, like, let the fucking rest tell
00:54:44.660
I don't like my, like, blocking myself in to being like, oh, I only like blondes.
00:54:49.960
All right, but then there might be a fucking brunette right there that you're not looking
00:54:53.000
at her as beautiful as she is or hearing her as beautiful as she sounds because you're
00:55:00.520
Like, of course, I think a lot of guys, they would still date.
00:55:14.800
That's just, you know, from my experience, bro, but I love all women the same, bro, equally,
00:55:21.680
I think I have a preference for brunettes myself.
00:55:27.080
Like I said, my ex, black hair with blue eyes, and it was like a thing that I had at
00:55:36.760
But it's not like we wouldn't, like, it's not like I would never not date a blonde.
00:55:44.660
I would date a blonde girl, but it's just like slight preference towards dark hair
00:55:49.800
So we got Salad City Rebel here with the $20 soup chat.
00:56:08.160
Let's let the girls go first and then we'll have the guys answer.
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I mean, personally, not me, but I do understand that.
00:56:17.420
Like, I've had friends who, like, stick with guys and I'm like, ugh, why are you with them?
00:56:21.820
But, like, like I said with, like, the situationship I just, like, ended things with.
00:56:32.940
You know, like, it's, I don't want to put up with energy that I don't like.
00:56:36.680
I don't want to be with you if you're going to be gross.
00:56:42.080
Like, they're sticking around even though they're treated bad.
00:56:44.680
I feel like it's not necessarily because of how they're being treated, but because they have
00:56:48.880
So, they're trying to wait and see if he comes around, acts right.
00:56:55.140
Then, if he doesn't, that's, I guess, when they'll leave or they'll keep trying.
00:57:00.180
I agree with what she's saying and I also feel like, I feel like most people do like
00:57:05.520
a chase, but I feel like some people do tend to take it too far.
00:57:09.080
Like, I like a little bit of a chase, like a little bit of, like, tug of war kind of thing
00:57:13.620
because I don't want to be the only one that's, like, giving you attention.
00:57:16.300
I want to get attention at the same time, but kind of just, like, keep it dynamic.
00:57:19.940
But if you treat me like shit, then, like, okay, bye.
00:57:26.780
So, when the other person's super clingy and, like, overly nice, I'm just kind of, like,
00:57:34.740
But if they become, I don't want to say if they treat me like shit, but if they become
00:57:38.860
more, like, more standoffish, I'm more likely to put more effort in because if I have to
00:57:44.220
be the one or if they're completely clingy, I'm like, okay, then, like, there's no, there's
00:57:56.300
Yeah, bro, I think it's just kind of how the girls are saying.
00:57:59.400
I think it's just if a guy acts too clingy and shit, like, and doesn't give him, like,
00:58:04.920
because it's like, oh, the girl's, like, a bad boy and all that shit, right?
00:58:08.420
Because it's like, what was your name one more time?
00:58:12.160
Yeah, like Liv was saying, it's kind of like if a guy acts too clingy and doesn't give him,
00:58:16.840
like, that, man, get the, you know what I mean?
00:58:18.400
Like, that, that dirt feeling, then they feel like maybe he's not that cool.
00:58:24.480
Maybe he, like, I'm the only one that really sees him how I see him.
00:58:29.020
But when they don't really, when us as guys, we don't really have a fear of what this
00:58:33.920
opposite sex thinks of us and we just kind of don't give a fuck in this and that, I
00:58:37.680
think that attracts them because they know, wow, he doesn't even fucking sees me as
00:58:44.740
And it kind of makes him, like, the fight, because us as humans, we're going to want
00:58:49.060
everything that we can't have type shit, you know what I'm saying?
00:58:52.100
So it just gives him that sense of, like, damn, I need him, though, because if I don't
00:58:56.860
get him, then I'm going to, he's going to go with this girl or that girl, you know what
00:59:01.120
And it just gives him more of a, you know, like, to get a guy to act a little softer
00:59:05.960
when they're an asshole and shit like that, to them, it's like, oh, wow, like, you know
00:59:12.780
Shit, I mean, I feel like every guy wants a female to, you feel me, like, be cleanly,
00:59:20.580
be cleanly, poof, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, cleanly, or, you
00:59:27.360
feel me, you know, you know what I'm talking about, you know what I'm talking about, right?
00:59:30.860
Wait, so you, guys, we don't want it or we do want it?
00:59:39.080
I mean, if she's not blowing up my phone and I'm interested in her, I mean, shit, then
00:59:42.940
I'm being, if she's not blowing up my phone, then obviously she's not interested in me,
00:59:46.260
then, I mean, I want a girl who go tap in with me on the daily, like, see what she had with
00:59:50.700
me, like, because if you not, then if she not, then she not for me, like, obviously.
00:59:54.480
Yeah, I feel like it's, like, guys want the opposite.
00:59:57.880
Yeah, like, I feel like guys is more, like, we want the girl to be, like, hey, but the
01:00:03.580
girl, if the girl has a guy acting, because it's acting, you acting like a hoe, you know
01:00:08.380
Like, that's, that's kind of, like, you want your girl to be clingy, you want your girl
01:00:12.700
to, you know, but if the guy's too like that, that's not a characteristic that a man should,
01:00:16.620
like, really possess, you know what I'm saying?
01:00:18.180
Like, you shouldn't just, like, nah, bro, that's what a woman does, you know?
01:00:22.040
So, do you guys want a girl who's obsessed with you?
01:00:30.640
If you not own me, then you get passed to the side, and I don't, and I, you feel me, I
01:00:34.780
think that's what some of them don't realize, like, if you're not, some dudes, if you're
01:00:38.260
not really doing that thing, you feel me, you go over there, that's all it is.
01:00:45.800
I mean, if she not, I don't want her, bro, I don't, you feel me, I don't.
01:00:49.340
Because I think some girls might respond to that and say, well, the guy has to go first
01:00:53.380
on that, but do you think that, because I feel like one person kind of, I mean, maybe
01:00:57.200
it can be mutual, but do you think someone has to.
01:00:59.200
I mean, it could be mutual in the aspect at first, you know, when we first talk and
01:01:02.340
and shit like that, but, like, you tell me all some, hey, good morning, but, like, it's
01:01:06.140
certain, I don't know how to really explain it, but it's certain things to, like, if she
01:01:09.840
not, like, every day with the good mornings, even if, you know, you're not texting her
01:01:18.040
What do you guys, do you guys have any thoughts on?
01:01:21.560
I feel like I'm more clingy when the guy isn't, because it's, like.
01:01:28.720
Like I said, I feel like, I feel like relationships is, that's what it is.
01:01:31.640
Like, the guy should not be clingy or clingy, and then the girl should be, like, you know
01:01:37.160
That's what makes it, like, a balanced type of shit, you know?
01:01:42.560
Like, there's certain things as a man, you feel me, to do.
01:01:50.680
I'm not going to be on that, like, excessive amount, like.
01:01:59.640
I was just going to say, yeah, it's kind of the same way.
01:02:01.700
Like, if someone's, like, really clingy, like a guy, especially, I feel like I get the
01:02:06.600
But, like, on the opposite, I'm also not super clingy.
01:02:10.520
So, I feel like I want, like, a mind, like, both, I guess.
01:02:14.820
Like, I like just, like, a little bit of it, but not a lot.
01:02:27.080
So, would you guys say that you, kind of on the topic of Brandon's super chat here,
01:02:34.160
do you guys like or find yourself attracted to bad boys?
01:02:50.340
Because if a bad boy is just covered in tattoos.
01:02:56.620
We're trying to understand what you mean by a bad boy.
01:03:02.280
Like there's the imaginary bad boy, where it's just like tattoos, drives a motorcycle,
01:03:06.700
like is disrespectful to parents, but like realistically, like that's just like a made
01:03:21.300
I kind of want, I would prefer to yield to the women on this one.
01:03:29.400
So, why don't you tell me what you think a bad boy is?
01:03:52.640
And, uh, are there, I'm trying to, I'm trying to like think of, if I can think of an example
01:04:06.580
Will Smith just slap the shit out of Tracer Rock.
01:04:12.040
Well, I'm trying to, I'm trying to, I think I might have one, like maybe a guy who's like
01:04:23.080
Okay, so there's a criminality, there could be a criminality component to it, but it could,
01:04:28.640
he could be, have no criminal record, but just it's in his attitude.
01:04:36.000
Like a bad guy, for my definition, would be like maybe more of like a criminal side
01:04:43.200
Well, there, there's this, there's this, um, thing that presents itself more so in women
01:04:49.860
It's called hebris, something like hebristophilia, attraction to those who are serial murderers
01:04:59.020
Hebrist, let me, let me look it up, hebristophilia, a sexual interest in an attraction to those
01:05:09.460
And apparently a lot of women have this for some reason.
01:05:19.440
Cause you know, they're like that new, um, there's that new Netflix.
01:05:24.460
See, they said it without me even saying anything.
01:05:45.160
I don't think they really want to be with the killer.
01:05:48.040
I heard, I heard something about how women like men who are like have long prison sentences
01:05:53.540
because it's like the perfect boyfriend because you know where they are at all times.
01:06:05.500
If you need to know someone's location 24 hours a day for like a couple of years, you
01:06:11.160
Well, they, I mean, they're also attracted to a guy who's a serial killer.
01:06:21.060
And we're going to go off the serial killer vibes, then absolutely not.
01:06:26.320
It's just like, look, bro, I come from a rugged back on myself.
01:06:35.240
Like, for some reason, like, you in the streets selling drugs and you're doing this and you're
01:06:43.420
I think it's just a danger aspect because a lot of people won't do that shit.
01:06:51.560
I think it's because the girl thinks that she can change him.
01:06:59.040
Like I said, like how we were talking about earlier.
01:07:01.280
Like, I, like most of the girls I date come across that are like, they love, love the
01:07:10.940
It's like baby and massage and, you know, we cuddling.
01:07:14.060
And they're like, oh my God, you said, and like, you know, they like fall in love because
01:07:20.040
Where, when I go out and shit like that, nah, bro, there's a certain presence.
01:07:23.440
There's a certain thing that, you know, a motherfuckers carries himself with that, you
01:07:27.220
know, some people are intimidated by it and shit like that.
01:07:30.620
So, when we, but when they get to see that side that nobody else see, that's when it's
01:07:37.960
So, and like I said, like she said, it's kind of like the, oh, I can change him, like,
01:07:44.640
I feel like they like the excitement of the danger that they might put them in.
01:07:47.860
Like I said, that's part of like, when we, oh, it's like, oh my God, like, oh, he might
01:07:56.940
So, like that thrill, you know what I'm saying?
01:08:00.360
I was thinking like, for me, I'd rather be with someone that like everyone loves.
01:08:03.960
Like, if we enter a room and every single person's so happy to see him and like, like
01:08:08.240
everyone's saying hi, they're like, oh, like, where have you been?
01:08:11.340
And like, everyone's just like hitting him up to hang out.
01:08:13.460
I want to be that, be with that kind of person.
01:08:15.880
I mean, I want to be with like the life of the party, the nice, funny guy.
01:08:19.800
But see, but you don't have to be nice to be that.
01:08:22.240
Because everywhere I am, I'm the life of the party.
01:08:26.160
No, I want the guy that is respected and loved by everyone.
01:08:36.800
I want someone that's respected and not feared.
01:08:48.380
I'm from a world that for motherfuckers to earn their respect, yeah, I had to beat some
01:08:56.460
Like I said, the ones that didn't become the opposite, not my people show me love.
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Everywhere and anywhere I go, it's like, oh, what up, oh, and I come in and like, you
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could ask any of my homies, any party even here in Santa Barbara that I'll go to.
01:09:10.040
I show up and it's, oh, Kel, Cecia, it's all love.
01:09:13.440
But I'm not going to deny the fact that some of these motherfuckers are scared that, oh,
01:09:20.780
Like, no, but it doesn't go to that level, but it's there.
01:09:26.980
Yeah, I was going to say, I think it's just personal preference on, like, what the girl
01:09:30.440
If she really does want, like, the bad boy, like, she's going to go for the bad boy.
01:09:33.820
If she does want the bad boy, she's not going to go for a bad boy.
01:09:39.620
Like, if a girl comes up to them and tries to be all, like, touchy, they're going to be
01:09:48.000
I mean, yeah, I don't want the guy I'm talking to, like, have a girl come up to him and he'd
01:10:05.180
And that energy's going to be like, oh, shit, but nah, that's, I'm here with my girl.
01:10:08.460
You don't even have to say anything, but, like, if a girl comes up to you and
01:10:10.960
sort of, like, it's, like, you just kind of, like, move away.
01:10:15.300
You don't even have to say anything, but just walk away.
01:10:18.160
I mean, like, me being an artist and shit like that, like, I'll have, you know, some
01:10:22.940
females that come up or this or that, and when I, this is my number one thing, if I'm
01:10:27.560
next to a girl or I'm with a girl, don't ever trip about any of these bitches, because
01:10:35.900
No, but then if my girl's standing there, but if my girl's standing there and she's
01:10:41.860
holding it down and she's standing firm and holding her own and knowing that, like, nah,
01:10:45.640
Kel's good, then it's, like, the biggest turn on.
01:10:49.480
Like, I don't have to, like you said, I don't have to be rude and tell these bitches, yo,
01:10:56.320
My boyfriend's in a band, so when there is girls, I am not, like, I get jealous, but I'm
01:11:02.320
not, I don't expect him to be rude to them, because, like, it's how his character is,
01:11:07.880
because they're not going to want to, like, support him.
01:11:11.200
Yeah, that's fans, that's fucking money, that's a dollar sign saying, hi, how are you?
01:11:16.880
The wrong motherfucker's doing this shit just for some pussy.
01:11:19.480
That doesn't mean, that doesn't mean you need to be touching up on them, though.
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I just don't want to get that hey girl text out of nowhere, because that's not the problem
01:11:29.920
Do you think, do you guys think that a lot of women complain about the men they date
01:11:37.720
in terms of, I hear this a lot from women, that they say the guys they're dating are jerks
01:11:42.580
and assholes, do you guys hear that from your friends at all?
01:11:50.220
But, like, do you think we should feel any sympathy for women when complaining about men being
01:11:55.240
assholes when those are the men that the women picked, and women are known for liking bad
01:12:02.000
boys and guys who are jerks and guys who are assholes?
01:12:04.140
No, but if she's stuck in a toxic relationship, how are you going to blame her for being stuck
01:12:18.300
You're a grown-ass woman, though, so, like, you feel me?
01:12:24.400
You don't need your friend telling you, leave him, girl, leave him, girl.
01:12:30.860
Like, if someone doesn't ask for help, I'm not going to lend a hand.
01:12:35.180
But I'm just saying that, like, sometimes they want to be out of the relationship, but they're
01:12:39.080
just stuck in that toxic cycle that they just can't get out.
01:12:55.520
That usually there's not one person that's a perfect angel and one person who's, we do
01:13:01.740
And most of the time, that's why sometimes, like, most of the time these people try to
01:13:05.500
express it to their friends and shit so that they have a finger to point that they don't
01:13:13.560
You might be so manipulated to the point where, like, you might think, like, staying with
01:13:23.920
If he's not holding you, like, saying, stay here with me, then you should be able to leave.
01:13:28.860
No, like, weaponizing suicide if you leave him.
01:13:33.000
But majority of the time, he's not, I'm going to cut myself and kill myself if you leave me.
01:13:40.480
Sometimes it's like, it's all good, it's all perfect, and then one day you argue for 20
01:13:44.580
minutes about the fucking Velveeta left in the fucking couch, and it's like, oh, my God.
01:13:49.740
And then, like I said, the anger built off of this and built off of that for two hours.
01:13:54.260
You're talking to your girlfriends and saying, oh, my God, I can't do it anymore with him.
01:13:57.900
But then you get back to the house, you guys watch Netflix, you eat some ice cream, you
01:14:03.900
And that's why a lot of these cycle, like, bad relationships speak.
01:14:07.360
I just feel like there's a line that, obviously, it's like, if you're constantly complaining
01:14:10.620
about this guy because he's just, like, mean to you or, like, doesn't give you attention
01:14:13.800
and then you keep going back, then that's on you.
01:14:16.280
But if you're in, like, a mentally or physically abusive relationship, then I don't think anyone
01:14:20.860
Okay, then you can't, no one can talk to the person who's the victim in the relationship
01:14:24.700
and be like, well, you're a grown-ass person, you can't leave.
01:14:29.160
Like, but I'm just, like, I think we're just talking about people that are like, oh,
01:14:33.380
And then you, like, you constantly go back to him.
01:14:37.520
There's definitely relationships that are genuinely, like, abusive.
01:14:41.380
But I think we got to give people, you know, people have accountability and have agency
01:14:52.100
This one time I was dating a chick and I was always trying to break up with her, right?
01:14:56.080
She pulled the I'm pregnant thing on me to try to keep me in the relationship.
01:15:12.160
I don't know why Mike got it with me right now.
01:15:25.720
It looks better on the camera than it does over here.
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So we got Benjamin here with, thank you for the Australian $10.
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Younger women tend to go for bad boys because they are perceived as adventurous and confident.
01:15:49.800
Hey, Benjamin, thank you for the Australian $10, man.
01:15:54.940
We got Mike Davis here with the $10 Super Chat 60.
01:16:00.940
He says 60 the type of nigga to address his IG followers as his fans.
01:16:07.400
They just hate him, but a fucking black, powerful king.
01:16:10.100
But listen, Mike, my fans, well, first off, that's what they are, you know what I mean?
01:16:15.260
The followers, that's why they fucking follow me because they're my fans, you know what I'm
01:16:19.520
But I don't really, it's even weird for me to say fans, bro, because I don't believe
01:16:24.380
these people that support me, that love, that look at me as an inspiration, as motivation
01:16:30.720
I don't really look at them as fans, you know what I'm saying?
01:16:33.040
It's more like a family and supporters, you feel me?
01:16:40.360
It's the love that a motherfucking gets when I do what I do.
01:16:44.460
I get off that microphone and then people, you know, say I'm an inspiration to them.
01:16:49.980
People support me and people follow me and do this.
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It's usually unattractive, desperate girls that go for criminals and attractive girls
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go for high level men that are rich and famous.
01:17:18.660
Usually unattractive, unattractive, desperate girls that go for criminals.
01:17:23.260
First off, I'm a criminal and nah, it ain't just unattractive.
01:17:27.860
Like, no, that's not like, I, I kind of agree with the high level men.
01:17:36.160
Like, I kind of agree with that, but, but the first part, nah, nah, bro.
01:17:53.260
An example that girls say is a bad boy is Damon.
01:18:05.040
Well, if we're going to talk about Vampire Diaries and Damon, then like, yes, I would like
01:18:34.380
Instead of porn, you watch Vampire Diaries is what I'm getting at.
01:18:52.620
If that's where your mind's going to wander, then go for it.
01:19:10.420
Kind of related to this conversation we've been having.
01:19:36.600
If you're saying that I value sexual exclusivity above everything else, that's fine.
01:19:42.720
If I want the most reliable car I can buy, I can't go into the Ferrari garage and say
01:19:55.500
If you want a top, top, top tier man, he's going to do certain things.
01:20:01.720
If you go to one of these parties in Miami and one of these chicks is chilling with Chris
01:20:05.160
Brown, do you think she believes he's going to be loyal?
01:20:09.940
Women intrinsically understand a certain value of male that they're not going to get a sexual
01:20:19.280
So basically what he's saying is once you start dealing with a certain tier of men,
01:20:23.940
a guy who's at such a high level of attractiveness, high status, et cetera, et cetera, you're not
01:20:38.300
Like if it's someone of like a high level status, like they wouldn't expect that out of me.
01:20:46.980
Um, that's just, again, not like normal standards.
01:20:50.240
Are you saying like a, like a, like a famous dude, are you expecting him to be loyal to
01:20:57.680
Or not famous, but maybe he's incredibly wealthy, good looking, like just really top tier men.
01:21:03.260
Because it's like you as a person doesn't really.
01:21:08.100
Like, yeah, you might like pull a lot and like you might be attractive and you might always
01:21:13.200
But like, if we're going to be in a situation where you're going to expect me to be loyal,
01:21:19.260
You're like, you might be hot, but you're not all that.
01:21:24.100
I feel like it just depends on like what it is.
01:21:40.920
I mean, yeah, because if you pull up to a party and Chris Brown's sitting with another
01:21:46.780
chick, obviously you're not going to expect him to be loyal.
01:21:51.040
But like, if you're with a top tier man and you guys know, you both know what it is and
01:22:01.220
Yeah, I mean, bro, like I said, at the end of the day, it is a sad reality that, you
01:22:07.420
know, because, you know, certain women, like, it's just how he said, I apply it to like women.
01:22:13.680
Like, I already know that if I want the baddest girl in the club, if I want this, she's going
01:22:17.980
to require some things, you know what I'm saying, that I either got or I don't.
01:22:23.920
It's like, you can't just have fucking Jennifer Lopez at your crib, but then be pushing a
01:22:35.340
A woman like Jennifer Lopez, she's going to need you to be a fucking baller, the baller.
01:22:41.720
She's going to need you to have a, you know what I mean?
01:22:43.260
Like, there's certain things that certain people require.
01:22:46.800
Us as men, yeah, like, first off, Chris Brown, just because he's fucking Chris Brown and
01:22:51.960
he's a handsome guy and he has the world at his fingertips, doesn't mean that he's a cheater.
01:22:59.640
So, it's just about the right woman that he has next to him.
01:23:03.800
If he's with a groupie, of course he's going to fucking cheat on it.
01:23:08.740
Like, how Liv was saying, if he's with a real woman, his woman, it doesn't matter who you are.
01:23:14.740
Like, you know, like, it's like, people motherfuckers got to have standards.
01:23:17.640
Like, if you don't have that principle and that moral as an individual and as a person
01:23:22.560
to be like, I have a girl that I respect, that she respects me, I live with her, this
01:23:36.300
Like, trust me, I love women more than anybody and shit, but my ideal, you know what I mean?
01:23:47.100
Fuck no, but that's the idea, you know what I'm saying?
01:23:50.700
So, I feel like when people are ready, yes, if I want a wife and I want kids, yeah, bro,
01:23:56.200
I'm going to have to be able to have the things, you know, to provide those things
01:24:00.240
and provide them security and provide them comfort, you know?
01:24:03.680
But if I'm just trying to fuck around and shit and fuck with this girl or that girl,
01:24:11.360
There's this level to what people are trying to do.
01:24:14.360
Would you say that you're a one-girl type of guy or do you have, you got a roster rotation?
01:24:24.900
All right, so, like, currently, bro, like I said, I'm single as fuck, so I got a roster,
01:24:32.320
But it's not even, like, a roster of, like, on some, like, oh, I'm smashing everything
01:24:36.660
and I just add more and more to the roster, bro.
01:24:39.040
It's like a, it's almost like a, like, a special, like, roster that to me is just women that
01:24:46.220
have respect, respect me, are beautiful as fuck, and they know what time it is, so I
01:24:51.640
can entertain that, like, you know what I mean?
01:24:53.280
Like, I can entertain that, I can hit them, because it ain't nothing else than what they
01:24:58.400
So that's why I have a steady, you know, a strong roster, but it ain't on some, like,
01:25:03.480
I don't want to be able to have that shit forever.
01:25:05.700
Like, I don't, I'm just single, so that's the way single people roll.
01:25:09.260
If you're somebody, if you're a good-looking dude, good-looking girl, like, you're going
01:25:12.820
to have a few in your roster, bro, like, you know, but you don't have to be a hoe and
01:25:19.460
Your thoughts about the roster or about the roster or about what was...
01:25:31.620
I feel like sometimes, like, he be spinning, like, sometimes he be spinning facts that I feel
01:25:36.700
like, get people triggered, like, that's why they don't want him to have his podcast
01:25:40.680
already, because he really be saying something like, true shit about them females, and them
01:25:44.840
females be getting mad, but some of the shit be out of line.
01:25:47.520
I'm not going to sit here and be like, say everything, but some of the shit he be telling
01:25:52.780
He will really tell them females tricks, listen to the Top G, but that's pretty much it.
01:25:58.880
So, I guess my question for the women is, would you be willing to share a really top-tier
01:26:13.420
Yeah, like, let's say it's your celebrity crush, just, you know, really attractive, you
01:26:26.480
Are you willing to, would you be willing to share him?
01:26:29.260
Well, I don't have a, like, celebrity crush or, like, any famous person that I'm really,
01:26:37.400
No, I said I liked him, because he's in a vampire show that I watched.
01:26:41.640
Like, yeah, obviously, I think he's hot in that show, but, like, in general, like, I'm
01:26:45.740
not, like, I don't have someone, so I feel like if it was, like, the, like, if I was
01:26:50.900
truly, actually, no, I, no, because I don't think I would date someone famous.
01:27:00.060
I, I mean, I just, personally, I don't, I don't want that.
01:27:17.760
Y'all y'all tripping, you know what I'm saying?
01:27:19.940
Maybe she could probably sing her ass off or some shit.
01:27:27.420
I don't want the guy I date to be famous, so, yeah.
01:27:40.240
So, I mean, if you can think of just a guy who's super, really attractive, maybe you
01:27:44.160
have a celebrity crush, would you be willing to share that man with other women?
01:27:56.600
Would you rather share your ideal man, so, like, super successful, it could be good-looking,
01:28:01.440
high status, or would you rather have a monogamous relationship with an average guy?
01:28:19.440
Yeah, but, like, if I'm going to be with an A-list celebrity, you know, then obviously
01:28:28.100
But why is that the stigma that celebrities are just all hoes?
01:28:30.160
No, because I'm not going to expect to be in a relationship with them.
01:28:34.860
I'm not going to go into it and be like, oh, yeah, we're going to end up dating.
01:28:38.900
And you're like, oh, okay, this A-list celebrity is interested in me.
01:28:49.120
I feel like that would say a lot about me, too, is, like, I don't know.
01:29:02.480
You mentioned earlier, I don't know if you're down to talk about it, but you mentioned you
01:29:13.080
Can you talk a little bit about your, I mean, you mentioned that you did
01:29:19.440
Can you talk a bit about that, or do you not want to?
01:29:25.860
Yeah, I don't know how much I could talk about shit like that, you know, some shit still
01:29:29.600
But did you do, and if you're not comfortable answering this, did you do, like, any time
01:29:34.680
I've done a little bit of times, like, a month there, two months there, but nothing crazy.
01:29:44.680
I grew up in Puerto Rico, you know what I'm saying?
01:29:48.980
Out there, my mom and I lived in fucking crazy-ass conditions.
01:29:54.520
Like, I even stayed in abandoned buildings and shit like that, like, heating up water
01:29:59.540
on the stove to, like, get, you know, take hot baths and all that shit.
01:30:03.180
But I was in the midst of all that shit, you know, could have gone one way or the other.
01:30:07.880
My mom ended up moving to Massachusetts when I was, like, 10 years old, Gloucester, Massachusetts,
01:30:16.600
I went straight from the hood, went to the suburbs, and that shit was, like, mind-boggling
01:30:21.920
But I stayed there until I was 14, went back to Puerto Rico, and then I went to high school
01:30:28.280
And when I was in the hood, like I was saying earlier, bro, there's just certain things
01:30:33.260
that, you know, as a man, if you don't carry yourself a certain way, you're going to be
01:30:37.700
somebody's bitch, or you're going to be the talent bitch.
01:30:40.600
Like, there's just certain things that you got to, like, not, like, the dude in the video,
01:30:44.920
your girl ever get touched, and now you got to catch a body.
01:30:47.780
And, like, that's why it's, like, I, trust me, because I have, there's certain people
01:30:53.040
in my life that I keep around me for a very specific reason when it comes to, like, they
01:30:58.180
don't, they don't, they're not from the same world, so they don't be thinking how I think
01:31:02.300
Like, for me, if I'm running into a situation, especially, like, how we saw in that video,
01:31:06.820
like, my mind immediately is going to say, I'm going to break this motherfucker's neck,
01:31:10.480
which, that shit's going to get me locked up, or something, you know, this, that.
01:31:13.900
So I got some people around that literally, they're the opposite.
01:31:28.440
Let's wait till we, yeah, go for it if you want.
01:31:31.540
Let's see if we can get it pulled up here real quick.
01:31:35.840
This man, Mike, trying to put me on the spot, bro.
01:31:40.340
I'll rap to my grandma right now, and she woke up from her grave, you know what I'm saying?
01:31:46.520
But yeah, bro, like I said, I went, when I was in Syracuse and shit, that was just like really, and I was kind of pretty much on my own and shit.
01:31:54.140
So I was just, I said some more things I want to, I just don't even feel comfortable speaking on some shit because it's like PTSD type shit.
01:32:01.920
But no, bro, you can just imagine, you know, regular hood shit, just fighting left and right, fucking telling drugs.
01:32:18.820
So I came out here, I moved to L.A. first, you know what I'm saying?
01:32:22.600
I was living in L.A. for like a year or some shit.
01:32:25.920
And then my manager lives out here in Santa Barbara.
01:32:34.780
And I was just going to go back to like New York or go back to Boston and shit at one point.
01:32:40.100
Because like the whole L.A. shit, like I lived it, bro.
01:32:44.900
Like I was there going to all these parties, going this, going to that.
01:32:48.100
And that shit, if you ain't ready for it, fam, like that shit will take you over.
01:32:52.420
Like, and I just didn't like where my mind was headed.
01:32:58.480
And then my manager called me and said, just come to Santa Barbara.
01:33:02.660
So I came to Santa Barbara and this shit is like, it's.
01:33:24.660
So are we playing a beat or am I just fucking uncompeller this shit?
01:33:36.640
We're going to have to pull up something that's not like copyright.
01:33:48.260
All I'm saying, bro, is you better send more than $10.
01:33:56.120
How bad do you want to hear me freestyle, Mike?
01:34:00.320
Like, I'm over here hearing you giving $100 for fit checks, my nigga.
01:34:24.200
Like, I don't want this shit to get taken down.
01:34:39.440
I'm going to put Mike's picture right here, too.
01:34:43.060
Can you incorporate Mike Davis into the freestyle?
01:34:46.240
I'm so interested to see how this is going to go.
01:34:52.400
I mean, if I ain't going to hurt myself up, who will?
01:35:32.740
How many other people y'all have freestyle in this bitch?
01:36:30.640
Oh, that's my nigga Mickey for fifth in this bitch.
01:36:59.280
Any way that I put it, niggas know that I'm going to get the bread.
01:37:06.860
Because if niggas talking about silent, my nigga, I swear to God, I hear the sirens.
01:37:17.500
But if you see close to my face, all you see is stripes.
01:37:47.360
Like I said, bro, niggas trying to spit without a beat.
01:37:50.560
But you know me, 60K, if I got to speak, I'm going to fucking speak.
01:37:53.960
I'm trying to reach out of bullshit that these fake ass motherfuckers can't see.
01:37:59.140
But instead of looking at me, they turn on the TV.
01:38:03.760
Nigga, I'm just trying to be who I'm supposed to.
01:38:28.380
I told you once, I'll say it again because I really ain't him.
01:38:32.340
I told these niggas from the streets that a nigga like myself, I got the tule and that will creep.
01:38:36.640
You don't want to fall asleep around a nigga like me because I'm always headed to the cash.
01:38:52.200
Like myself, nigga, I'm drinking rebel because I'm fly as fuck.
01:38:55.620
All these bitches on my nuts, they're trying to fuck.
01:39:01.540
Don't remind me why these niggas trying to envy.
01:39:09.680
I need that shit back because I'm trying to get my bag right.
01:39:15.980
I don't do this shit for free, but 60 on a freestyle trying to be the emcee that all
01:39:24.600
But everything I do, I do it for my squad because I'm really going in.
01:39:31.940
And all the bullshit that I went through, I can't forget it.
01:39:41.500
60 Kelly get me up in the booth and I'm the fucking truth.
01:39:43.940
These people don't even know what it is because they ain't like the kid.
01:39:47.580
I swear to God, I need a crown because a nigga a king.
01:39:51.580
They saying, wait, hold on, where'd that kid go?
01:40:30.500
If y'all want to really check out 60 Kelly music, go to 60 Kelly right now on YouTube,
01:40:34.700
Spotify, Apple, iTunes, SoundCloud, whatever the fuck you listen to music to,
01:40:41.780
I don't really be freestyling with no beats and shit, but it is really good.
01:41:08.940
Yeah, Ian, real gangster in this bitch, you hurt?
01:41:21.780
I don't know, 80 perp, that sounds like my dude, though.
01:41:39.700
So, I want to ask the guys a question, because oftentimes I sort of frame this.
01:41:48.100
Actually, before I ask the guys this question, I want to ask the girls.
01:42:22.560
Like, I want to say no, because I have my home in days.
01:42:44.160
Yeah, but if my girl is just, she tells me she got, like, 20 plus bodies, it's bad.
01:42:55.680
If you're out there just getting waxed, do you really think I want you?
01:43:03.840
If we're going to be living in the same fucking city, seeing the same motherfuckers that already
01:43:08.080
done waxed that ass, and I'm going to be walking around with you like ain't nobody touch
01:43:12.340
you, then, then I'm a Mike Davis in the chair with the mind of 100, 100, 100, 100, 100.
01:43:34.620
Yeah, I guess he also wants a fit check, so it's kind of like a two-for-one deal, which,
01:43:39.240
by the way, Mike Davis owns a couple chains of Burger Kings on the East Coast.
01:43:53.000
I thought East Coast was like New York, Boston, like.
01:43:57.760
Yeah, but I mean, I've never been to North Carolina, but I thought that was South.
01:44:14.100
All right, Mike Davis with the $100 soup chat, A60.
01:44:17.580
Keep grinding, young buck, and stay out the pen.
01:44:22.800
Hey, bro, you're talking about stay out the penitentiary.
01:44:27.020
This $100 is for a fit check, more like a live check.
01:44:33.740
But I think he wants a fit check on all the girls.
01:44:35.840
So, girls, if you guys want to do, just stand up.
01:45:15.340
Everybody on the live, you got to shout out the homie Mike because he just got y'all everything
01:45:24.120
Mike Davis, thank you for the big $100 super chat, man.
01:45:38.960
And did you get to finish your take or did you get?
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Because they have high body counts in their mind.
01:46:01.260
I was going to say, I feel like if I would be with a dude, why are we even having the conversation
01:46:16.560
You guys made me feel crazy because I'm from the East Coast.
01:46:28.420
I said I moved to the East Coast when I was 10 years old.
01:46:40.180
I was going to say, why are we even having the conversation about body count?
01:46:47.520
You have to, like, talk to me about how many people I've had sex with.
01:47:01.920
Like, if you really need to know, then you shouldn't be with me.
01:47:39.320
So for me, the topic a long time ago should just not even matter.
01:47:49.900
But it doesn't have to be like on some dirty shit.
01:47:52.340
It doesn't mean like you're going to be fucking.
01:48:14.660
Well, I don't want to be the only one that's answering this question.
01:48:34.620
But if body count doesn't matter, why not just share it?
01:48:38.140
Because honestly, if we're going to be quite honest, if I'm so worried about my body count,
01:48:41.900
that means I'm like counting every single dude I've had sex with.
01:48:45.500
Yeah, I was going to say, like, who's literally sitting, like, I don't have a diary.
01:48:50.500
I'm not sitting there being like, oh, my God, this guy, this guy, you know, like, if it
01:48:57.660
I'm more worried about, like, if you're clean or not, you know?
01:49:00.020
But someone who has a high body count is more likely to have an STD.
01:49:09.760
If you're responsible with it, then obviously, but it doesn't matter if you have two bodies,
01:49:14.080
But you are aware that body count is something that most men care about.
01:49:20.700
Well, I was going to say, every single guy I've been with, they have not known my body
01:49:28.460
I think they're in it for the moment and don't really care because you're getting.
01:49:32.100
But, but you also said you've, your longest relationship was four months.
01:49:38.880
Not like it's any better, but like, yeah, six months.
01:49:41.300
But here's the thing is that just to hook up with a girl, guys are not going to be particularly
01:49:46.020
preoccupied with a woman's promiscuity or past.
01:49:49.920
But when it comes to serious relationships, boyfriend, girlfriend, marriage, most men, men
01:49:59.600
Well, then I guess I'm not going to get that man.
01:50:02.740
It's not, I'm not saying that you're not going to get that man.
01:50:05.380
Because right there, like I said, I never asked my, no, I literally like, I'm like,
01:50:11.500
I know enough about myself and what I do that I'm like, why the fuck would I do that?
01:50:18.200
He was talking so much shit about having a high body count.
01:50:21.360
Well, my shit is probably, I don't care about that.
01:50:34.400
I'm not just going to sit here and be like, I don't.
01:50:40.720
You're like, yeah, I don't want to go much longer.
01:50:46.620
The thing is, I don't care, but if a girl told you, if I was sitting here.
01:50:57.360
Wait, so, okay, you're, if a girl told you, and remind me, you're 20, 21?
01:51:07.400
But if a girl told you, let's say she's 21, my body count's over 30, it's a wrap?
01:51:17.660
What if I go to one of my boys' party, and, you know, secretly, you feel me, she's been
01:51:22.040
with him and shit like that, and I don't know that because I didn't ask the body count,
01:51:25.720
I don't want to be with a girl who's known, you feel me, who was getting around before me.
01:51:30.480
She might have a good look now with me, you feel me, cleaned up, whatever you want to
01:51:33.680
call it, but before all that, you was not doing all that.
01:51:42.380
No, no, no, but what she's saying, though, bro, think about it.
01:51:45.680
Like, what if she goes to a party with you, and then you hooked up with one of her friends?
01:51:50.420
You can call me what you want to call me, but that's just how I look at it in a female.
01:51:55.180
For me, like, labeling someone as, like, a whore or a slut has nothing to do with body
01:52:00.600
It's about the respect they have for people that are in relationships.
01:52:04.960
Like, if you're going after people that are in relationships, then I don't fuck with you.
01:52:09.580
But if you have a high body count, and if you're, like, a respectful person-
01:52:13.440
No, it's like, I don't care about your body count.
01:52:14.020
So, if your man was just fucking on everything, and it's just, whatever, it's just a high
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body count, but he has respect for you, it's okay, you're coolin'.
01:52:22.820
When he's with me, is he hooking up with other people?
01:52:31.840
Listen to her, though, because what she's saying is, like, like I said, that's why body
01:52:36.740
Because when you're with the girl, like, first of all, like, you're saying your girl can't
01:52:44.140
But if you go tell your female that you hook up with a girl you like, you go be like, yeah,
01:52:48.880
But if your girl tell you that, you go be like, yeah, let me stay with you.
01:53:01.520
I want to know about what my girl's been fucking on.
01:53:17.020
And she said, all right, babe, what's your body count?
01:53:26.420
Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
01:53:38.080
Niggas ain't got to get all hurt and shit about it.
01:53:41.540
My girl ain't never going to be with no, you feel me, 30 bodies.
01:53:44.280
And you ain't never going to be with a girl with this or that.
01:54:24.720
But I agree with you that I think body count matters.
01:54:30.240
But it's also okay for guys, for a guy to disagree on that.
01:54:37.220
If you know your girl out there again, you feel me, numbers.
01:54:45.780
If you're going to say you want to be with her, go ahead, man.
01:54:51.460
So, I want to bring it back to the girls, though, on this.
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I think, I don't know if it was directed towards me.
01:55:10.600
The thing is, if you're going to, you're yelling and you're screaming because three
01:55:14.460
of us disagree with you about body counts, like.
01:55:16.720
So, I'm going to state my opinion on how I feel?
01:55:19.740
But you don't need to yell and raise their voice to state the opinion.
01:55:29.120
You look at the chat, it says you got 30 plus bodies.
01:55:43.280
Guys, guys, it's totally okay to disagree, but let's just keep it.
01:55:56.720
I feel like if a guy really needs to know my body count because he needs to know how many
01:56:01.900
guys I've been with, he has an insecurity problem and he's insecure in himself.
01:56:07.200
It means he is afraid that my body count is higher or my body count is lower or that I've
01:56:16.800
If you want to be with me, then you're going to be with me.
01:56:20.620
If I want to be with you, I'm going to be with you.
01:56:32.520
I'm not having sex with any of you guys, so it's none of your business.
01:56:35.600
But, okay, so here's the thing with body count, right?
01:56:38.380
Is that you said it's insecure, but are you saying that men can't have a preference for
01:56:43.480
women who are not promiscuous or who have a low body count?
01:56:50.640
But I have my own preference, and I prefer guys who don't care.
01:56:58.260
But I don't think it's, it's not insecure for a guy to want to date a woman who's not
01:57:18.000
Because, like I said, I've been with guys, and they, like, haven't cared.
01:57:22.220
Like, I think it's, again, it's just how you feel.
01:57:24.360
Obviously, you guys feel about it in that way, so you're not going to have, like, you're
01:57:28.180
not going to be with a girl who's going to tell you your body count, and it's over a
01:57:30.660
certain number, and you're going to, like, not work.
01:57:31.400
Also, I want to say, if you're talking with a girl, and you're like, yeah, like, I'm,
01:57:34.740
like, super, like, specific about your body count, if it's above this, if it's above
01:57:39.720
If she still wants to be with you, or if she wants to mess with you, she's going to lie.
01:57:43.340
How do you know I just didn't lie 10 minutes ago?
01:57:45.640
But, I mean, there's, okay, there's ways to kind of, I don't think it's probably going
01:57:51.260
to be a great look to overtly ask a girl, hey, what's your body count?
01:57:56.020
But, there are ways, us as guys, we can sort of, we can look at your behavior.
01:58:04.180
You're just going to assume because a girl acts a certain way, she's just been with a
01:58:07.620
Okay, how's it misogynistic to assume something like that?
01:58:14.040
Yeah, you're just, like, how, like, what's the criteria?
01:58:22.360
Just like it's a preference for men to prefer women who have sexual purity that have a low
01:58:34.540
Yeah, news, newsflash, men value sexual purity in women.
01:58:38.140
And, and by the way, that could mean virginity, but that could also mean.
01:58:43.860
Like, is there a, what was the last virgin that you met?
01:58:49.600
Well, again, first off, that's a different world, bro, because I said, I'm not out here
01:58:54.980
Also, in my opinion, you can't be out here on the streets.
01:58:57.860
I'm going to hook up with girls with a body count.
01:59:00.300
No, also, you can't be out here on the streets.
01:59:10.440
And then when it comes to like settling down, you're like, oh, I have this body count,
01:59:15.840
Like, what if she wants, what if she wants someone with a low body count as well?
01:59:20.340
So it's, it's always interesting to me how when men have preferences, standards,
01:59:24.660
and boundaries in women, it's almost always met with some sort of shaming language,
01:59:29.700
accusations of being an incel, insecure, toxic, misogynist, misogynist, small dick,
01:59:37.100
Men are allowed to have their preferences just like women are allowed to have their preferences.
01:59:41.700
Not all men, but most men, a lot of men care about a woman's sexual past.
01:59:48.920
When I said sexual purity, that could mean virginity, but it could just mean someone who's
01:59:53.180
relationship minded, who's maybe had one, two, three, a couple partners, and that's
01:59:57.900
Not a girl that's just had a ton of one night stands that's just been ran through.
02:00:01.440
So their sexual purity can be the way I think of it.
02:00:07.320
But just because you have sex a lot, especially as a woman, it doesn't mean that you got ran
02:00:17.900
Well, it's different from, so, I mean, you could have sex a lot of times with one partner.
02:00:23.460
No, I feel you, but like, even in a lot of partners, it doesn't mean that she's just
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going to fuck around with every dirty motherfucker trying to fuck them.
02:00:32.240
Also, earlier you were saying guys who have preferences are met with animosity and whatever.
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It's because when guys say they have preferences, those preferences put how much value they put
02:00:44.920
They're like, oh, I don't want a woman with a lot of body count.
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If they have a high body count, then she's going to be low valued.
02:00:54.880
Why does, like, why is that a criteria with her value?
02:00:57.920
With her, I mean, we all make, when we're considering dating, sleeping with, having a
02:01:03.320
relationship with, marrying someone, we make value judgments.
02:01:07.200
You made a value judgment about how, and let me make something very clear.
02:01:12.420
If a woman says, hey, I don't want to date a guy who's a player.
02:01:15.160
I don't want to date a guy who's just had a whole bunch of one night stands.
02:01:21.920
I happen to think it's the case that most women don't care as much as men do about a
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male's promiscuity as do men care about women's promiscuity.
02:01:31.440
But if a woman had that standard, hey, I don't want a guy with a hundred plus body count,
02:01:38.880
I think women care less about it, but it's not insecure for a guy to want a woman with
02:01:43.380
a lower body count or to care about body count up until very recently, sexual purity has
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been something that's very valued for both men and women.
02:01:55.200
I mean, I know you said times are changing and that's true.
02:02:00.160
Like maybe in fucking 1965, like it was like, no, get married and wait till you're
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A lot of it too could be spiritual, like, cause like I'm spiritual.
02:02:12.880
You don't want to just be giving yourself out to everybody.
02:02:17.280
And when I have sex with a woman, I connect with them.
02:02:20.000
And I don't, I say that even the cliche, like I make love.
02:02:24.120
I know, but some people want that for special, like just for them.
02:02:27.240
Like say, but like your husband or your wife, I don't know.
02:02:31.320
I feel like girls have different opinions on body count.
02:02:33.860
But yeah, you, you said that body count should matter.
02:02:37.680
I feel like it should matter because I feel like it's more rewarding of when you're married
02:02:42.200
that your man knows you haven't been through a lot of dick.
02:02:46.960
So, and also like 2020, 2022 motherfuckers find a girl like that.
02:02:57.820
Cause these girls is fucking like, we all feel like, bro, the world is having sex.
02:03:06.020
I feel like, um, value is value no matter the year.
02:03:09.960
You could value someone that doesn't give themselves out to just everybody.
02:03:14.600
So you guys don't care, but like some people do care.
02:03:17.500
But you keep, like I said, the way you're wording it to me is like, oh, it doesn't give
02:03:22.600
Everybody, there's more than 30, 40 people on this earth.
02:03:26.600
So having a 30, 40 body, I'm not, that doesn't mean they're giving it to everybody.
02:03:30.640
You meet and see a thousand people a day type shit.
02:03:33.840
Like you mean thousands of people left and right.
02:03:35.880
Like there's having sex to have sex cause they're lustful, not necessarily doing it.
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What's wrong with somebody enjoying sex if they're doing it protected?
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So if somebody is having sex with a bunch of people, like that's them, whatever.
02:03:55.620
But my preference for a lower body count is so like you're just.
02:04:03.040
For having sex with your partner, it's not just lust.
02:04:07.060
Like when people go around having sex with other people, it's just lust.
02:04:13.680
And I make love with the women that I hook up with.
02:04:16.460
I could meet a girl for one night and when I have sex with it.
02:04:20.560
So I want my man to make love to just me knowing it was for me and that he wasn't having that
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We're not being brought up with the same morals as our parents.
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When they said, no, you get, you go, blah, blah, blah.
02:04:42.480
You find a nice young man and you this and you.
02:04:46.220
We're coming up in the fucking social media epidemic where girls are showing their body
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and they're getting all the attention and all the love from these people.
02:04:55.580
And like I said, to me, just because people enjoy sex, that doesn't make them less valued.
02:05:08.980
I just, and then, you know, going to the points that you guys are putting out there as to why you agree with,
02:05:20.960
So, I don't think, and at least for me, I'm not saying that women shouldn't, can't, can't do it.
02:05:27.700
It's not so much a judgment like you shouldn't do it.
02:05:32.140
But what I'm saying is, is that for a lot of men, it is a important, not all men, it's important consideration for a lot of them
02:05:40.460
in terms of who they're going to choose for a long-term partner.
02:05:43.580
So, you're free to do it, but what are the potential consequences?
02:05:49.040
Some men might not take you seriously for a long-term commitment if you have a promiscuous past.
02:06:00.300
Long-term serious relationships are components of dating.
02:06:02.580
But, like, at 21, I'm sorry, I'm not thinking about marriage right now.
02:06:10.000
And, like, also the fact is, like, I respect everyone's opinion.
02:06:13.360
If you don't want to date someone like that, that's fine.
02:06:19.140
You're free to move through life however you'd like.
02:06:23.100
But what I'm telling you is, is that it might, you know, actions can have consequences.
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But the consequence might be some men, maybe most men, if you have a high body count...
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I don't have, like, an infographic I can pull up.
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So, obviously, you're going to ask questions that you're interested in.
02:07:18.700
So, this is something that you're interested in.
02:07:21.900
Obviously, we know from this conversation, you don't want to date a woman that's, quote,
02:07:36.900
Do you want a girl with a high body count or a low body count?
02:07:42.780
So, I mean, you've got a couple guys here at this table.
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I think the thing is, like, if you meet a girl and you're like, oh, like, she's like,
02:07:48.240
Are you going to be like, okay, this is the deal breaker?
02:07:57.320
Then you're immediately going to, like, it's a no.
02:08:01.360
I would rather date an average looking woman who has a zero body count than a 10 out of 10
02:08:10.420
Like, I'm talking about, like, I'm not talking about sleeping with people.
02:08:12.860
I'm talking about, like, dating, like, being with someone.
02:08:16.160
I think she's saying, like, them for them rather than what their body count is because
02:08:21.640
But what I'm saying is, is that, yes, if she has a very high body count, if she has a
02:08:30.820
But everything else is completely fine exactly what you're looking for.
02:08:34.420
I mean, but this is a hypothetical scenario you're painting here.
02:08:42.060
She has every single quality that you're looking for.
02:08:48.120
I'm not bringing a girl with 100 body count to mom.
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I just want to know, like, what their perspective of high is.
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Some of these SBCC, UCSB girls, like, their first freshman semester.
02:09:45.580
I know what I've done to be able to say, I can't hold somebody to these standards.
02:09:55.060
Like, I'm not going to be like, I can't date a girl with this and that.
02:10:13.400
Because, like, how he said, like, the same morals.
02:10:16.840
Like, I don't want to think of my woman, my girl.
02:10:19.760
The one that I touch, that I sleep with, being fucking, you know, being, like, cummed on.
02:10:36.280
Because if it really comes out, you're going to say some shit that I'm going to be like,
02:10:44.760
Or I'm going to say some shit that you're going to be like, just lie.
02:10:47.660
Let's say you're saying it doesn't matter because you don't want to know?
02:10:52.260
You're saying you don't want to ask because you don't want to know?
02:10:58.580
Would you prefer it to be low if she were to answer?
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One in the chat, if you prefer a low body count.
02:11:13.220
Two in the chat, if you don't care about body count.
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But wait, it's one if you prefer it, and two if you don't care.
02:11:44.500
I feel like I kind of want to defend the high body count girls.
02:11:49.920
I feel like they may feel not as valued knowing.
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It's just about men's preferences and a partner.
02:11:57.040
The same way that women want a guy who's tall, confident, funny, masculine, dominant, leader.
02:12:01.420
Besides tall, none of those are physical qualities, though.
02:12:07.760
I feel like that may make them feel not valued.
02:12:09.620
Let's talk about some physical qualities that women care for in men.
02:12:21.120
These are some physical characteristics that women care for in men.
02:12:24.960
Tall, and these are things that are out of men's control.
02:12:29.360
Tall, not balding, so full head of hair, penis size.
02:12:34.440
Is there anyone else that's – women care about that.
02:12:39.920
Yes, and also I guess you could say skin color.
02:12:46.700
I know girls only like white guys, and some only like black guys.
02:12:50.320
Yeah, I hooked up with a girl that before we hooked up, she literally said,
02:12:53.440
you're so hot, this and that, but I would never hook up with you.
02:12:57.300
She said, yeah, I'm going to talk to the tall white guys.
02:13:05.960
I was going to say like we've been emphasizing this whole time.
02:13:09.400
It's about preference, but if I – that's what I've been trying to like get at.
02:13:12.840
Like I don't understand how you can be like, oh, this girl meets all my criteria,
02:13:18.000
If I meet – like if a guy meets every single bottom of my like criteria,
02:13:22.360
he's funny, confident, respectful, loving, caring, like listens, like all this stuff,
02:13:30.280
But okay, so you're viewing it through the female lens.
02:13:35.640
Well, yeah, but so for a lot of women, a man's body count just – it doesn't really matter.
02:13:45.800
But you're – it's within the context of the body count discussion.
02:13:51.040
You just said like, oh, like they got – girls want a guy that's like tall,
02:13:59.940
I'm just saying like at the end of the day, if he makes it up for –
02:14:03.020
if he makes up for it in other ways, those physical stuff doesn't matter.
02:14:07.060
But what I'm saying for me, it is a deal breaker.
02:14:12.140
But I mean the thing is is that someone who's slept with 100 guys,
02:14:18.020
there's probably going to be some character traits.
02:14:20.640
There's like a lack of – like you obviously are not a relationship-minded person
02:14:28.700
And I want to date a woman who's relationship-minded.
02:14:34.520
But you're looking through the man's perspective,
02:14:36.080
like we're looking through our woman perspective.
02:14:37.780
Right, but you guys are asking me why I would care about a woman's body count.
02:14:45.080
No, because you're asking me like, oh, like –
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Like you're like, oh, you want someone that's tall.
02:14:50.000
And then I'm saying like, yeah, I would prefer someone that's tall,
02:15:00.220
But for me, what I'm trying to say is you're saying if the guy's not tall,
02:15:12.240
I don't care if she's – all these other good characteristics.
02:15:15.880
If in this one dimension she has a high body count, it's a rep.
02:15:28.160
No, I'm just saying like that's your preference.
02:15:31.180
Go on about it, and then maybe we'll get an invite to your wedding someday.
02:15:50.720
Explain to me, why is it misogynist to care about body count?
02:15:59.760
I explained it earlier because you're basing value.
02:16:20.940
But, okay, I'm not saying about – like I'm not talking about their value as a human being.
02:16:25.800
Their value as like a potential long-term partner.
02:16:32.920
I'm just saying it comes off as misogynistic when guys in general – I'm not talking about you and this conversation in particular.
02:16:38.420
I'm just saying when guys make those comments, people tend to like get at them because it usually ties in with that.
02:16:46.520
Well, I mean, I reject that men having a preference for women with a low body count is misogynistic.
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I reject it entirely in the same way that it wouldn't be misandrist for a woman to say, I want a guy who has a low body count too.
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Do you want me to explain why men care about body count?
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I haven't told you the reasons why men care about it.
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Like imagine if I said woman nagging or some shit.
02:17:34.520
You're literally a white man looking at me telling me like –
02:17:43.760
If you can't see how you being a white man has anything to do with like the power you have in conversation,
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then I don't even want to like talk about that.
02:18:00.360
What does my skin color have to do with this conversation?
02:18:08.260
Don't you think it's a bit racist to bring up skin color in a conversation, a dating-related conversation?
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What does my skin color have to do with this conversation?
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But, I mean, you said it, so I'm trying to understand.
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I'm going to, like, ask the questions I'm going to ask.
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I thought it was fucking Kiki keeping it together.
02:19:48.920
But, okay, so, I'll just wrap up with the whole body count thing on this, right?
02:19:55.640
So, men are not allowed to have – apparently, men are not allowed to have preferences, boundaries, and standards.
02:20:08.740
But do you see the kind of shaming language that you receive when you do have a preference?
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So, but we don't get all bent out of shape when women say, I want a guy who's tall.
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I want a guy who's funny, confident, et cetera, et cetera, et cetera.
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But when men say, I don't want a woman who has a high body count.
02:20:39.540
I think what I said got taken out of context, and I want to – let me just, like, summarize what I was trying to say.
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Everyone has their preferences, like we've been saying.
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I'm just saying – I was just trying to explain.
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I wasn't trying to get at you or anyone in specific.
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You were like, oh, why do men get this hate when they talk about body count?
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It's because it's usually associated with the stuff that I was talking about earlier.
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I'm not trying to disrespect anyone's preferences or anything like that.
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You guys are more than, like, oh, like, I don't care.
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Like, you can't have your own preference, of course.
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I'm not trying to, like, argue just for the sake of arguing.
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I was just trying to explain a point, but I think it just got taken out of context.
02:21:24.280
Well, I don't know if it was taken out of context.
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But then why don't you – like, why aren't you okay with us disagreeing with you?
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But you haven't said any comments that are, like, positive about that.
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But you don't have to come at us for disagreeing.
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You guys just said – well, you started off with the whole body count thing.
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I didn't come at you guys, like, devil lady, angel.
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You know, I didn't – because of your costume.
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I feel like it's kind of aimed at females for body count.
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So it's, like, maybe, like, do they care about men's body count so that it's not just directed
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towards what women should have and shouldn't have.
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But it's still preference for the other person, but –
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I feel like it comes down to, like, if a girl doesn't care about body count, she's
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going to get a guy who doesn't care about body count.
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And if a girl does care, she's going to get a guy that cares.
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I feel like we should ask the ones that said no, if they care if the guy has a high or
02:22:50.720
I guess my question is why – when – this was, like, the first time during this conversation
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Because it's just something that, like, why are we even having this conversation?
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Like, I just don't understand, like, why at some point, like, someone needs to, like,
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come to, like, me and be like, I need to know your body count.
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I need to know how many people you've slept with.
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When someone is normally asking me my body count in that scenario, that's normally what
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I think we're saying if it comes up in a conversation, if you decide to bring it up,
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like you said, if I see all my green flags, I shouldn't have to ask you about what your
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But I'm saying if that comes around and you don't decide if you don't want to say your
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body count or whatever it is because you feel like, you know, you shouldn't tell and that's
02:23:55.760
That's – again, I wouldn't go for a man like you.
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On the whatever dating show – fair enough, fair enough.
02:24:08.480
So, okay, I understand where you guys are coming from.
02:24:12.560
And just to make it clear, like it's not – if you've slept with a bunch of people, your
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value as a human is – you obviously have value.
02:24:27.720
Yeah, I'm not like, oh, this person is a terrible human being and they should be outsized
02:24:34.100
That's what I've been trying to say this whole time.
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Yeah, you should be – women should be free to do whatever they want.
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If you want to sleep with a bunch of men, that's your call.
02:24:41.920
No, that's exactly what I've been trying to say.
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I guess I just put myself out there in a wrong manner.
02:24:46.080
But that's what I've been trying to say this whole time.
02:24:48.380
No, but it's just in the same way that, you know, there are certain behaviors that men
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There are certain things that men take issue with in terms of female behavior.
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It made things exciting there for a little bit.
02:25:21.140
So, okay, we're going to wrap up in about 10, 15 minutes.
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What I like to do at the end of the show is give everyone a chance.
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If you have a final thought or question that you want to ask someone else on the panel.
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It's interesting to hear the different opinions and stuff.
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Everybody should be entitled to their opinion, and everybody should be able to respect another
02:26:28.520
So, I appreciate everybody on this table for getting along, the conversations we got through,
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I wish everybody in this fucking table success.
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And everybody in the chat, stop being so fucking hateful, fam.
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Y'all just be too hateful and too quick to, you know what I mean, to judge and shit like
02:26:59.320
Man, I honestly feel like we need a rerun of this.
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Like, I feel like we got way too up topic about bodies.
02:27:13.940
I mean, I can bring it back to you guys if there's something dating related, final thought
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or question that you guys, something you guys want to talk about.
02:27:24.080
When was the last time anyone went on a first date?
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And it ended because I'm out here in Santa Barbara in the long distance.
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See, we need part two because I can keep going.
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And then came out to Santa Barbara and it was over after that.
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I've been so busy with the podcast, I just don't really have time to do it.
02:28:11.920
But proper first date, yeah, three or four months ago, I reckon.
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Do the girls want to answer or first, like, last time you had the first date?
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And we outspoken and we speak what we really fucking feel.
02:29:04.780
I like to hang out with people and not make it so official.
02:29:15.520
Yeah, but I just, I personally just, I like it more, like, casual.
02:29:27.180
Like, maybe we'll do, like, a little, like, sushi thing.
02:29:35.180
If I take you guys walking to the beach, get some sushi, that's a date.
02:29:38.680
But I'm saying, like, I feel like a proper first date is, like, a guy picking me up, and, like, we're actually, like, he made plans to go somewhere.
02:29:45.200
If we're just, like, oh, like, let's go watch the sunset, like, casually, I feel like that's not a date, and I wouldn't consider that a date.
02:29:51.660
But do you want that, a guy to do the proper pick you up, all that stuff?
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Yes, if I was, like, interested in a guy, and I wanted him to do that for me.
02:30:06.200
I feel like my ideal first date would probably get to be picked up, because, like I said, I'm a very bad driver, so I'd rather not get driven around, or I'd rather not be doing the driving.
02:30:23.480
So, like, maybe we'll go to, like, a vineyard, and we'll, like, just talk.
02:30:50.220
But, uh, okay, so, I want to say one last thing on body count.
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I think one of the reasons why it's different for men and women, if a man has a high body
02:31:07.080
If a woman has a high body count, that shit's easy.
02:31:16.560
I mean, some females look at it like, damn, this nigga been fucking on everything.
02:31:23.240
They ain't gonna be like, damn, he's been with hella females.
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Bro, the down side, I feel like they do say that shit.
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Like, even the ones that say, oh, I don't want this and that.
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But then if somebody else does want them and they're friends.
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If she said, you see all the green flags in this female, you shouldn't really have to ask.
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I'm not going to really question her body count.
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I'm not even going to be in this situation if I think she was with other guys.
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Not unless you had a couple homies coming up like, oh, my God, I crammed that, nigga.
02:32:21.180
You don't want to post pictures with her and then a guy slide up and be like.
02:32:26.480
You should ask her to do this and do that trick.
02:32:31.620
Like, girls on TikTok will post a video in a guy's room.
02:32:34.420
She's like, before I start fucking with this man, like, does anybody recognize this room?
02:32:37.880
And they, like, literally wait for guys to do this for girls to be like.
02:32:45.100
But I guess what I'm saying is it's much easier for women to get laid than it is for men to
02:33:00.280
Like, like I said, that's the stigma that why there's so many, like, oh, guys do this.
02:33:07.900
And when you're a good looking guy, you're going to get it.
02:33:12.540
When you're a good looking girl, you're going to get with guys.
02:33:16.180
But even an average looking girl can run up her body count.
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Whereas, like, an average looking dude, he's going to struggle.
02:33:30.460
There's some guys that, you know what I'm saying?
02:33:36.900
Like, we don't care how many guys a girl could get, how pretty she is.
02:33:46.260
Like I said, when you're somebody that you have your, you know, you got your fair share of women around and this and that.
02:33:52.720
Like, you're not tripping about a girl doing this and doing that.
02:33:56.580
But that's why, like, a lot of people trip about that.
02:33:58.560
Like, a lot of guys are like, that's what I'm telling you.
02:34:00.480
A lot of guys that be caring about the body counts and that's because their body count low as fuck most of the time.
02:34:08.920
That guys with high body counts prefer women with low body counts because they know.
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And then the guy who has a low body count, he struggles to get women.
02:34:24.760
But like I said, it's just like, for me, I know what my body, so I just more, like, because I try to be a fair individual.
02:34:39.900
But, like I said, for me, it's like, I know I have a high body count.
02:34:47.660
If I can't take somebody for having this and having that, then why the fuck should I expect them to be with me?
02:34:57.840
If my girl's still out there, like, if it was, like, two weeks ago, she just fucked Jamal and Steven and Larry.
02:35:04.320
Like, that's a whole different story if it was just, like, she bent around.
02:35:08.160
But if it was, like, she has a history, then, you know what I mean?
02:35:13.040
That's why, for me, it's like, ah, shit, I got a history, too.
02:35:15.640
Well, according to your standards, I have a low body count, and I still disagree.
02:35:26.000
With what you guys were saying, with what you consider a high body count, my body count is low.
02:35:45.200
I thought it was 30 as well, and I was saying, if you said 30 was your, like, done, then mine
02:35:59.640
But, I mean, like, 29, I wouldn't say 29 is a low body count.
02:36:07.660
Well, that's not my body count to begin with, but.
02:36:11.860
Like, see, we gave a number under 30, and then now she's saying that she's below her.
02:36:19.600
I'm just saying, I'm just saying, in your standards, you have, like, your, you said
02:36:31.980
Well, anyways, with what was said, I thought it was a certain thing.
02:36:35.700
Mine would be considered low in that scenario, and in that case, I still think it doesn't
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And if someone else thinks that, it doesn't matter.
02:36:48.900
And at the end of the day, like, I feel like if you're in a relationship, it's not going
02:36:55.320
If you truly like someone, you're not going to have this, like, you don't have to sit down
02:37:01.320
Like, if a guy found out, for example, and this is a bit of a different example, but
02:37:06.320
let's say a guy was about to marry a woman a week before the marriage, right?
02:37:11.200
He finds out that she's, like, been on OnlyFans and done sex work and, you know, she did porn
02:37:23.560
I was going to say, that's a whole different conversation.
02:37:25.540
Okay, he finds out that she was the town bicycle.
02:37:31.840
If he finds out, he's going to have some real hesitations about continuing that relationship.
02:37:38.680
Especially, like, her OnlyFans, because not everyone's going to be, like, a real porn star,
02:37:41.700
but, like, I feel like having OnlyFans is really common now for a bunch of women.
02:37:46.100
Just, like, having casual sex, like, high body count is, like, normal now, I guess.
02:37:53.440
Yeah, just for me, I don't think there's, like, a certain number where it's high or low.
02:38:03.740
Just, like I said, if, like, it ends up coming up, actually, no, it's never come up in any
02:38:15.360
But, like, you know, like, it just, in my personal life, it has never come up.
02:38:20.220
You're generalizing it when you say most, and then, again, that's your opinion.
02:38:36.380
No, but I'm trying to explain to you that for a lot of men, body count, a woman's past,
02:38:45.460
Men don't want to date women who are or were promiscuous.
02:38:50.820
And you're like, okay, but, like, okay, I don't care what the majority thinks.
02:38:57.700
I'm not trying to live my life regarding what the majority does or think.
02:39:01.200
I'm going to find a person that doesn't care because I personally don't care and I want
02:39:25.840
Men will look to other cues to determine if a woman's promiscuous.
02:39:32.180
If you ask a woman what her body count is, one, she could lie, two, like, we're going
02:39:49.960
So, if I see a girl and she's every single weekend, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday,
02:39:55.620
she's at the club, she's at the bar, I'm going to think a certain type of way about that.
02:40:01.440
Maybe not, but I'm going to make some assumptions.
02:40:08.360
I don't have to get into what those cues are, but, I mean, there's ways we can sort of
02:40:12.260
suss out without overtly asking, what's your body count to get a sense of a woman's promiscuity
02:40:23.880
But I think you're, again, saying that, like, you're generalizing it.
02:40:41.540
Then I guess we have very different social circles.
02:40:45.900
You guys are in college, but the thing is, is that most...
02:40:50.920
Even your friends are not going to be honest with you about this because it's going to
02:40:54.580
be met with sort of the same kind of contempt or derision that I was met with tonight.
02:41:07.720
No guy's like, gee, I really wish that my girlfriend slept with more men before she
02:41:17.780
I also want to go back to the thing that you were saying.
02:41:22.060
I was trying to make a point about the comments in general.
02:41:35.740
I need to, guys, get your last minute super chats in.
02:41:38.400
We're going to react to one video and then we're going to wrap up.
02:41:40.280
Okay, so, we got Crispy Kim, Jesus, $10 soup chat.
02:42:01.360
He said the one guy on the panel don't care about body count, has face tattoos and painted
02:42:05.500
nails and is the fucking litty-est fucking person you ever met in your life.
02:42:10.720
And Crispy Kim, first off, with a name like Crispy fucking Kim, I could tell with Litty,
02:42:16.380
you don't even got a fucking profile picture, my nigga.
02:42:19.340
At least I can show my face even with scribbles on it.
02:42:23.580
Show your face a little more and be proud of it.
02:42:26.260
I'm sure you don't even look as bad as you think you do.
02:42:38.840
Green Lantern with the, I believe that's British pounds, nine British pounds.
02:42:43.080
Is the preference for low body count based on negative stereotypes that comes from antiquated
02:42:52.460
You're way too smart to be in this chat right now.
02:42:59.460
I mean, there's a religious component to it, but I mean, I can make a very strong
02:43:04.820
non-religious argument for why body count matters.
02:43:08.940
I can make a very strong argument for why it is.
02:43:11.920
So, there is a component of it, sure, but yeah, I mean, I'll go into it real quick just
02:43:23.480
Someone who's promiscuous is more likely to have an STD.
02:43:26.300
Also, someone who has a, who's promiscuous, who has a high body count, they've done studies
02:43:34.800
There's greater likelihood of infidelity if you have a high body count, greater likelihood
02:43:40.340
of reporting relationship dissatisfaction, greater likelihood of the breakup of the relationship,
02:43:50.820
And also, if you've slept with a ton of people, your ability to bond with a person starts to
02:43:58.760
So, if you've slept with 100 people, you're not going to bond with 101.
02:44:03.120
101, you're not going to be able to bond with 101 the same way that you'd bond with number
02:44:22.540
But like, niggas really be that mad though with their life.
02:44:30.820
They've racked up hella bodies and deep down inside know they're tainted.
02:44:42.620
Yeah, like, what is y'all purpose to go on a show and, like, feel better than people?
02:44:46.700
Like, people that opening up and talking about some shit.
02:44:55.700
We just having a fucking conversation that y'all fucking...
02:45:07.200
It's just people that they're trying to say some shit to do what we're doing now.
02:45:11.440
So that they're relevant enough so that we can speak on you guys.
02:45:14.760
But you guys talking shit on all these beautiful women.
02:45:17.940
On myself with my nails, my tats, all this shit.
02:45:20.540
Like, think about what y'all got to do to get anybody's attention.
02:45:24.280
What we had to do was we got hit up and say, hey, you want to do some cool shit and be
02:45:33.880
You guys are not getting these opportunities because y'all so fucking hateful.
02:45:54.860
If you tell them to be nice, they're not going to be nice.
02:46:00.920
And sometimes I hate it because, like I said, bro, I notice these motherfuckers because
02:46:09.580
But the ones that be that hateful, yes, we can see y'all, bro.
02:46:14.620
Like, yes, that's the only way we're noticing y'all.
02:46:19.080
I bet you if y'all said, oh, I love this, I love...
02:46:23.920
Like, people just up here having a simple-ass conversation.
02:46:29.040
Not to push the whatever fans away, but, like, come on, bro.
02:46:33.100
You do make a good point, though, that if you tell someone not to do something, they're
02:46:39.700
But anyways, Frank Sustadia, thanks for the $10 super chat.
02:46:53.780
Hey, we will be live again on Tuesday at 7 p.m.
02:47:01.360
Blaming the white man or men is just a coat mechanism instead of looking at your bum-ass
02:47:07.340
I knew that from day one, and that's why I got the bag.
02:47:11.700
Keep that slave mentality, and you'll stay a slave.
02:47:22.180
It's like, anything about black, white, brown, yellow, purple, is just get to the fucking
02:47:30.120
Don't think, like, anybody's against you because of any color or this and that.
02:47:36.240
He got the bag from being the top franchisee of Burger Kings on the East Coast.
02:47:45.180
If you're on the East Coast, hit up Mike Davis.
02:47:56.040
But, yo, nah, you keep saying East Coast, but then we said North Carolina.
02:48:23.160
That's you right there, you know what I'm saying?
02:48:44.940
Like, he gets awards from Burger King corporate.
02:48:49.080
They're like, whoa, you're the best Burger King franchisee in the greater East Coast area.
02:49:06.800
Get your last-minute Super Chats in if you want.
02:49:22.960
I'm pro-Mike Davis, and I look after Mike Davis.
02:49:36.460
Quick question for Mike Davis, or quick question.
02:49:39.560
How big of a Super Chat to get you to freestyle?
02:50:16.360
This little speech of yours was better than that freestyle earlier.
02:50:24.640
They can't do it, so of course they're going to hate.
02:50:29.920
Why don't your eyes get invited to a podcast that's interesting enough for me to fucking watch
02:50:36.360
Leonardo No Caprio, you're going to have to come on the podcast, man.
02:50:50.200
Motherfuckers do something to be on this podcast.
02:50:53.060
Not just talk shit, because that's not what this is about.
02:50:58.700
If you want to be on the podcast, you got to do some, nigga.
02:51:01.820
Turn up somewhere so we can say, yo, we got Leonardo No Caprio in this bitch.
02:51:13.380
So, Eric, we're going to do the Patrice O'Neal video to sort of wrap up the show.
02:51:19.800
Eric, if you can go ahead and pull that up for us.
02:51:31.260
Okay, ladies, if you didn't have a vagina, like, say it was a terrible train accident,
02:51:38.100
right, and the doctor was like, we have to remove your pussy right away, or you're going
02:51:47.020
How would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty, I can't leave the bitch
02:51:53.980
right away because she just lost the pussy in a train accident?
02:52:05.780
How would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina?
02:52:16.540
So, real quick, just your answer to his question.
02:52:27.880
I feel like it's not necessarily what I could do to keep you because that's his decision if
02:52:41.740
I guess I'll be there for him emotionally, mentally.
02:52:49.080
Not just that, but, like, still be his companion and stick to him.
02:52:54.260
Stick by him if he, like, I'll be there for him.
02:52:56.240
He's a person he can always go to and, I guess, throat go, gobble it down.
02:53:05.500
You're going to have to do some without no pussy.
02:53:10.160
If it's the man I love, there's nothing I wouldn't do.
02:53:23.700
I mean, to keep him satisfied, I have my mouth.
02:53:32.740
You know, while you're talking about Mike, what would you do to keep this beautiful man?
02:53:47.760
Well, the guys can't really answer this one, so...
02:54:16.180
Nah, you ain't going to just go down on a one-night stand, fuck out of here.
02:54:20.060
Like, if I don't know where that shit's been and this and that, then nah.
02:54:32.240
The same way that us guys love when we get ahead.
02:55:10.160
Now, I've been getting pussy-beating the whole show, right?
02:55:12.740
But I give women the opportunity to say, I'm going to make myself worth more.
02:55:16.420
But you just classified yourself as a series of holes.
02:55:23.420
I'm supposed to teach you special, but you're just a bunch of holes for yourself.
02:55:31.320
No one said learn how to play Xbox, learn how to play pool, tell better stories, get
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I mean, I said my actual thoughts, like, or all my thoughts in the last time I watched
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But basically, I would just, like, I know it would also be, like, a frustrating time.
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So, I would obviously have to be, like, look, whatever I got to do to improve.
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So, I want to give a big thank you to the panel tonight for coming in.
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But that makes it entertaining for the viewers.
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It's always good to have a fun little debate going.
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You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.
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We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
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Guys, like the video and leave a comment on your way out for the algorithm.
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Stay away from corny, jealous niggas and save up.
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Those are the ones that I'm going to always connect with.
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So, salute to you if you're connecting with me some way, somehow.
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I know this isn't the type of conversation we're really going to connect on.
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Appreciate the positive message to end things up.
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And then, Frank, thank you for the $15 soup chat.
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You got only friends that said we could sign up?
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We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.