Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #35

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

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00:00:35.360 La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

00:00:49.480 La donna è mobile, ha il piume al vento, muta d'accento e vita in sieno.

00:01:19.460 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:22.800 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:01:25.960 She's a bit shy.

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00:02:17.760 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:02:22.180 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and door school major.

00:02:25.540 Go ahead.

00:02:26.700 Hi, I'm Kitty Lixo.

00:02:29.260 I am 69.

00:02:31.340 What?

00:02:31.460 And.

00:02:33.320 Okay, go ahead.

00:02:34.620 Sorry, why?

00:02:35.640 You're 69?

00:02:36.460 Yeah, I'm 69.

00:02:38.080 In what years?

00:02:38.880 Do you like older women? 1.00

00:02:39.200 Like dog years?

00:02:40.180 Yeah.

00:02:41.800 I am an OnlyFans creator.

00:02:43.620 You should check me out.

00:02:44.980 And yeah, I live in LA.

00:02:47.700 Hello, my name is Jade, otherwise known as NotJadesore. 0.71

00:02:52.220 I do dumb pranks to people and social experiments. 0.99

00:02:57.380 And yeah, I'm going to say some dumb shit to Brian later. 1.00

00:03:02.720 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:03:03.600 Okay, I'm looking forward to it. 1.00

00:03:05.300 I'll say some dumb shit back to you so it works out. 0.98

00:03:08.800 But you also do OnlyFans as well? 1.00

00:03:11.440 Okay, got it.

00:03:12.660 Did you want to omit that from the show?

00:03:14.380 No, no.

00:03:15.000 Okay.

00:03:15.540 I don't mind.

00:03:16.300 Okay.

00:03:16.900 I hope I didn't just expose you.

00:03:18.740 But okay, go ahead.

00:03:20.200 My name's Cam.

00:03:21.900 I'm 18 and I'm a student.

00:03:24.640 My major is biology for pre-med.

00:03:27.980 Student where?

00:03:29.180 UCSB.

00:03:29.780 Okay, rock and roll.

00:03:30.620 Go ahead.

00:03:31.340 My name's Aaliyah.

00:03:32.460 I'm also a student at UCSB studying biology and I'm 18 years old.

00:03:36.640 Are you guys in sororities?

00:03:38.600 I am, yeah.

00:03:39.480 Which one?

00:03:40.560 Actually, wait.

00:03:41.820 I'm an AKO.

00:03:44.420 Okay, rock and roll.

00:03:45.260 Go ahead, guys.

00:03:46.300 My name's Lupita.

00:03:47.500 I'm 23 years old.

00:03:49.180 I do Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube.

00:03:53.200 My name is Jasmine and I'm 23 years old and I'm studying the SPCC and I still don't know what I want to study.

00:04:00.940 Okay, rock and roll.

00:04:04.200 And wait, Jade, did you give your age?

00:04:06.060 Yeah.

00:04:06.500 Okay.

00:04:07.300 69.

00:04:07.900 You're 69 years old.

00:04:08.980 Yeah.

00:04:09.340 What's your real age?

00:04:10.660 You want to guess?

00:04:12.080 You want me to guess your age?

00:04:14.180 No, you can if you want.

00:04:16.240 23?

00:04:18.100 Pretty close.

00:04:19.440 Up or down?

00:04:20.340 Up.

00:04:21.320 25?

00:04:23.160 That's close enough.

00:04:25.500 30?

00:04:26.900 That's down.

00:04:29.220 Oh, what?

00:04:30.140 What?

00:04:32.000 Okay, 27?

00:04:34.580 Up.

00:04:35.560 What?

00:04:37.100 29?

00:04:38.660 Up.

00:04:39.500 Down?

00:04:40.200 I don't know.

00:04:41.300 You got to tell us your real age.

00:04:43.240 Why do I have to tell you my real age?

00:04:44.920 So that we can assess.

00:04:46.620 So you can assess my fertility, my egg count, my valuableness to the world.

00:04:57.480 Yeah, during the show, we actually tracked underneath the table.

00:05:01.240 There's an egg count tracker.

00:05:02.460 There is?

00:05:03.160 What's my egg count?

00:05:04.120 I'm curious.

00:05:04.880 I'm not sure.

00:05:05.620 You're not sure?

00:05:06.260 Do I look fertile to you? 0.80

00:05:09.000 Do I look like I should be barefoot naked in your kitchen? 0.96

00:05:14.820 Barefoot?

00:05:15.260 Barefoot, yeah.

00:05:16.120 I mean, at least some sandals or something.

00:05:18.260 No, I'm Asian.

00:05:19.300 We do not wear shoes in the house, Brian.

00:05:21.840 Moccasins?

00:05:22.280 No.

00:05:22.940 Is that what?

00:05:23.180 Okay, maybe like bedroom slippers.

00:05:25.200 The bedroom slippers.

00:05:25.960 Yes.

00:05:26.180 Okay, all right.

00:05:27.180 I'll get a pair from Amazon.

00:05:28.580 Yeah.

00:05:28.700 Okay, so you both do OnlyFans.

00:05:33.000 Yeah.

00:05:33.180 You two.

00:05:34.260 How long have you guys been doing OnlyFans?

00:05:36.240 Since COVID started.

00:05:37.540 Okay.

00:05:38.020 Yeah.

00:05:38.400 Same.

00:05:38.640 Was that what precipitated wanting to start OnlyFans?

00:05:43.580 Is everyone was locked up in their house and, hey, might as well make some money?

00:05:48.940 Is that?

00:05:49.620 Yeah, she got me into it, actually.

00:05:51.660 She used my referral code on OF, but I got started because I started out as an import

00:05:57.400 model, and so I already had like a following on Instagram.

00:06:00.840 This was before they started banning everyone, and so I kind of converted those followers

00:06:05.080 to OF subs and just got started from there.

00:06:09.600 Okay.

00:06:10.100 Yeah.

00:06:10.580 Nice.

00:06:10.940 How do you like it?

00:06:11.600 Nice.

00:06:12.140 How do I like it?

00:06:12.760 Yeah.

00:06:13.080 That's great.

00:06:13.700 It's good money.

00:06:14.400 It's like, you know, there's haters out there, but like, you know, you're making your own

00:06:18.760 money and like your own brand, so I'm not ashamed of it.

00:06:22.140 Do you guys have a management company running your OnlyFans, or is it just all on your own?

00:06:26.660 Just on my own.

00:06:27.680 What about you, Jade?

00:06:28.480 I don't have a management company on my own, also. 0.97

00:06:31.180 Do a lot of girls have companies like running the shit for them, or is it, would you say 1.00

00:06:35.140 most girls on OnlyFans, it's just they're on their own? 0.98

00:06:38.500 Um, it depends, really.

00:06:40.760 Like, I think some of like the really big influencers have their management companies

00:06:45.240 run it for them, and then they take 20%.

00:06:47.080 Yeah.

00:06:47.920 Okay.

00:06:48.500 But they have like, like you have like assistants.

00:06:50.660 Like, I have an assistant that does like my social media posts, so like I'll send her

00:06:54.380 all my pictures for the week, and then she'll queue them up and stuff.

00:06:58.020 Okay.

00:06:58.360 And she'll queue them on my like Instagram, and like she'll post my stories in my Twitter

00:07:01.900 feeds and retweet and stuff, and handle the collabs.

00:07:04.540 But, um, I think management agencies were really big a while ago, but now girls are 1.00

00:07:09.980 more apt to do things themselves.

00:07:11.940 Hmm.

00:07:13.400 Because I've heard stories of how, because I mean, some of the girls maybe they're, they 1.00

00:07:17.680 have such a huge audience that they can't respond to all the dudes that are messaging

00:07:23.900 them, right?

00:07:24.600 And I think that's a big way you monetize on OnlyFans is by having this interaction with

00:07:28.880 the people that are messaging you, uh, so, have you guys ever considered, hmm, maybe I

00:07:37.140 can optimize this by just having someone respond on my behalf?

00:07:41.600 Is that a thing?

00:07:43.000 Um, I think even though you have a lot of subs, like most girls have paid pages. 1.00

00:07:48.380 So, a lot of my traffic comes from my paid page.

00:07:50.220 So, there's already like, that's already like a paywall right there that kind of weeds people

00:07:54.580 that aren't serious out.

00:07:55.820 And then, on top of that, like, um, I prioritize messages by how much they tip me.

00:08:01.380 So, if you tip me more, and if you're more like, um, if you engage more by tipping, obviously

00:08:06.860 I'll prioritize you more.

00:08:07.880 So, that's how I prioritize my messages.

00:08:09.640 Yeah.

00:08:09.760 How do you categorize the money that you make on OnlyFans?

00:08:12.120 Because I mean, there's, there's the initial sub, right?

00:08:14.260 There's tips, like you said.

00:08:15.560 And then, I guess, people can make requests.

00:08:18.140 Like customs.

00:08:19.200 Yeah.

00:08:19.580 Customs.

00:08:19.880 Like, the more, the more custom it is, the more niche it is, the more money you make off

00:08:24.080 of it.

00:08:24.320 I, I would say I make maybe like 10% of my income off of customs.

00:08:27.940 Okay.

00:08:28.460 Yeah.

00:08:29.380 Do you, are there limits to what you're willing to do?

00:08:33.420 No, I'll do anything for money, Brian.

00:08:35.200 Anything?

00:08:35.780 No, yes.

00:08:36.340 Anything.

00:08:36.640 Okay.

00:08:36.820 I won't do anything poop.

00:08:38.260 I won't do anything scat or anything.

00:08:40.220 Okay, I won't say that.

00:08:41.240 Ah, you can say that.

00:08:42.260 That's fine.

00:08:43.600 Um, no, no poop.

00:08:45.140 And no, like, pee or anything or like bodily stuff.

00:08:48.380 Okay.

00:08:48.820 Yeah.

00:08:49.720 Jade, what about you?

00:08:51.240 I mean, yeah, I do, I do that.

00:08:53.660 Like, if they, if they request it, like, I have some weird customs.

00:08:56.520 They ask for like poop videos, pee videos.

00:08:59.420 I just give it to them.

00:09:00.300 If they want it.

00:09:01.020 They, they pay pretty good for it, honestly.

00:09:02.600 So.

00:09:02.740 How much would someone have to pay for that?

00:09:04.980 So, like, $250 to $300.

00:09:07.060 Okay.

00:09:07.640 Per, per, maybe like a five to ten minute video.

00:09:11.400 You need to charge more than that.

00:09:12.640 Really?

00:09:13.200 Yes.

00:09:13.520 Because customs are so hard to do.

00:09:16.440 Customs are like, I don't like doing customs because it's like, it's just like, like me

00:09:21.100 doing a solo video myself.

00:09:22.840 I don't, for some reason is different than someone saying like, do this and this and get

00:09:25.660 this camera angle.

00:09:26.540 I would say you can charge up to like $600 per custom.

00:09:29.980 That's what I know a lot of girls do actually. 1.00

00:09:31.900 Oh yeah?

00:09:32.140 Yeah, you're selling yourself too cheap, Jade.

00:09:35.700 So, like, of the stuff that you guys do on OnlyFans, I mean, of the different ways that

00:09:41.360 you can make money, you know, there's the initial sub, tips, customs.

00:09:45.060 What would you say the bulk of your revenue comes from?

00:09:50.360 PPV.

00:09:51.140 Yeah, I would say like custom videos.

00:09:52.440 The customs. 0.99

00:09:53.260 Like masturbation. 1.00

00:09:54.560 JOI, which is like jerk off instructions. 1.00

00:09:56.720 That's a big one. 0.91

00:09:57.360 People love that.

00:09:58.300 Jade's very good at JOI because she's really good at telling people what to do. 0.60

00:10:01.220 Yeah, really?

00:10:02.400 Yeah, she's amazing at that. 1.00

00:10:03.500 Okay.

00:10:03.800 You're amazing at that.

00:10:04.480 Can you tell the chat to do something?

00:10:07.000 Oh, what do you mean?

00:10:08.040 Like tell the chat to jerk us off? 0.87

00:10:10.280 I mean, sure. 0.99

00:10:13.680 Tell the chat how to jerk off. 0.99

00:10:14.940 Oh. 1.00

00:10:15.560 Oh God.

00:10:16.040 Oh, that's a little inappropriate for YouTube, I feel.

00:10:18.580 Let me tell the chat to put cucumber emojis in the chat.

00:10:26.260 Hey, sexy boys.

00:10:28.160 How about you take out your big hard cucumber and start putting it on inside the chat, please?

00:10:42.380 Please and thank you.

00:10:45.000 I want you to see your big cucumber. 0.71

00:10:46.700 I want you to see your big ass cucumber in the chat. 1.00

00:10:48.440 Give it to me now, please. 0.97

00:10:51.620 What?

00:10:52.600 Okay.

00:10:53.920 By the way, actually, you know what?

00:10:55.620 I recently acquired OnlyFans.com slash whatever.

00:11:00.140 And I'm thinking of trying to do something, so it may be involving cucumbers.

00:11:03.840 I don't know.

00:11:04.720 So maybe after the show, you can give me some advice on the OnlyFans game.

00:11:10.060 Would you ever like do nudes?

00:11:11.700 Like me?

00:11:12.340 Yeah.

00:11:12.500 Oh, yeah.

00:11:12.640 Would you perform actually? 1.00

00:11:13.540 Would you sell your cock and balls? 1.00

00:11:17.040 It's, no, I wouldn't. 1.00

00:11:18.840 But you have a lot of female fans that would want us to make it, right? 1.00

00:11:21.640 I don't think I have any.

00:11:23.120 I might have like two female fans. 1.00

00:11:24.740 Oh, okay.

00:11:25.520 You have like a lot of gay fans?

00:11:26.360 It's like mostly, probably more gay fans than female fans.

00:11:30.080 Oh, there you go.

00:11:30.580 So, I mean.

00:11:31.400 There's a big market for that.

00:11:33.080 I suppose.

00:11:34.080 So.

00:11:34.440 I was thinking maybe Kiki, like take some photos with Kiki and stuff, you know?

00:11:37.980 Uh-huh.

00:11:38.680 Like she could be, because she's got the parts. 0.82

00:11:41.800 Oh, you could give her the cucumber.

00:11:43.520 That could work.

00:11:45.740 Wow.

00:11:46.340 Yeah.

00:11:46.740 Inspiration.

00:11:47.260 There you go.

00:11:47.680 Yeah, thank you.

00:11:48.560 Maybe for later. 0.99

00:11:49.500 And so for, as far as the content that you guys do, is it all solo content or do you fuck? 0.99

00:11:55.480 So, sometimes I have like a, when I have a boyfriend, I make content with my boyfriend. 1.00

00:12:00.920 So, fucking content. 0.99

00:12:02.360 Really? 0.99

00:12:02.700 Sometimes.

00:12:03.220 What about you?

00:12:03.900 Yeah, I find guys sometimes off of like Hinge and like dating apps.

00:12:07.960 And I have a couple guys that I shoot with.

00:12:10.140 So, I do boy-girl content, like everything.

00:12:12.720 Okay.

00:12:13.140 Okay, I have a question, if you guys don't mind.

00:12:15.160 How is finding guys to do that?

00:12:17.520 Like, is that hard?

00:12:18.560 Like, you say like you just like find guys on Hinge.

00:12:21.620 Like, do you just reach out to them and be like, oh, hey, like make a video with me?

00:12:25.100 Like, how does that work on their end?

00:12:26.720 It's got to be like in the context of finding them and then just like being on the dating

00:12:30.340 app as like a regular girl and then like going out on a date and getting to know them.

00:12:33.680 And then if I like them, I'll just be like, I'll tell them like, hey, I do OnlyFans.

00:12:37.420 Like, I need some talent. 0.95

00:12:38.560 Would you mind just like holding the camera and doing like POV while I like suck you off 0.98

00:12:43.080 or something?

00:12:43.560 And usually they're like totally game for it because they're not, their faces aren't in

00:12:46.580 it. 0.97

00:12:46.740 And they like, and it's, it's kind of just like making a sex tape with, you know, a girl 0.69

00:12:52.300 that you met online.

00:12:54.580 Or you get your friends, like your guy friends to like help you out.

00:12:58.760 Just say, oh, hey, I need like a favor.

00:13:00.420 And then can you like help me make a video?

00:13:02.360 And then usually like guy friends are always down for that.

00:13:04.940 It's a power move. 0.98

00:13:05.640 Wait, when you, when you ask for help, like fucking or just film, like actually just filming. 0.99

00:13:11.800 No, no, no. 0.99

00:13:12.080 You got to get them in slowly first.

00:13:13.600 Like you can't just jump all in.

00:13:15.220 Like you got to like get them, like do some, like a photo shoot, like a sexy photo shoot

00:13:18.800 to like get them warmed up.

00:13:20.100 Oh, wow. 1.00

00:13:20.620 And then you do like video of you like masturbating. 0.98

00:13:23.860 And then, and then you jump into the third part, which is like, oh, can I give you like 0.99

00:13:27.500 a blow blow? 0.77

00:13:28.280 And you go from there.

00:13:29.860 You ask them to edit your videos first.

00:13:32.520 Ask them to start editing your videos just to get them used to the idea.

00:13:36.280 Do they get any of the proceeds?

00:13:37.920 No.

00:13:38.180 No.

00:13:39.300 I mean, they get the, they get you.

00:13:41.620 So like, that's like a gift.

00:13:44.040 They're the prize.

00:13:44.740 You're the prize.

00:13:45.860 Yeah.

00:13:48.700 Okay.

00:13:49.240 So you said, but you said for you, you will have your boyfriends, if you have one at the

00:13:56.240 time, they'll film with you.

00:13:58.860 So, I mean, you've been doing OnlyFans for two, three years now.

00:14:02.700 I think how long was COVID?

00:14:04.440 Like a year and a half?

00:14:05.540 Coming close to three years, I think.

00:14:07.060 Oh, two years. 1.00

00:14:07.760 Damn. 1.00

00:14:07.980 Two years then. 1.00

00:14:08.800 Okay.

00:14:09.200 Yeah.

00:14:09.380 Yeah.

00:14:09.940 So, have you had multiple boyfriends throughout this time period?

00:14:15.800 I've had two.

00:14:16.620 Okay.

00:14:17.080 Yeah.

00:14:17.260 Oh, okay.

00:14:17.740 So.

00:14:18.160 So you've only filmed with two guys then?

00:14:20.060 Yeah.

00:14:20.400 Okay.

00:14:20.900 Got it.

00:14:21.280 Got it.

00:14:22.480 Really?

00:14:22.900 Hinge?

00:14:23.360 That's where you find the dudes?

00:14:24.680 Yeah.

00:14:25.120 I mean, like I've dated a couple of these guys.

00:14:27.020 Yeah.

00:14:27.260 So, like, yeah.

00:14:28.400 So, I'll meet them on Hinge because, like, I could go mainstream maybe and shoot for, like,

00:14:32.600 a major studio, but I feel like as far as. 0.62

00:14:36.200 Proper porn. 0.84

00:14:36.900 Yeah.

00:14:37.120 But I feel like as far as monetization goes, sometimes it's better to do things.

00:14:41.120 Like, I want to own my own content.

00:14:42.440 I want to have creative control over it.

00:14:44.160 Yeah.

00:14:44.280 And then also, I feel like if your content's already out there, it might be harder to monetize.

00:14:47.260 So, I choose to keep it behind, like, a paywall.

00:14:49.760 Okay.

00:14:50.320 Yeah.

00:14:50.660 Nice.

00:14:51.200 Nice.

00:14:51.920 How frequently do you guys post?

00:14:54.320 Every day.

00:14:55.280 Every single day?

00:14:56.100 Yeah.

00:14:56.620 You got to tease them every day.

00:14:58.040 Tease them? 1.00

00:14:58.560 Every day the cock gets hard. 1.00

00:14:59.920 Yeah. 1.00

00:15:00.100 What?

00:15:00.580 And make sure they're thinking about you all the time.

00:15:02.240 So, I post, like, two, three times a day because, like, they should just be thinking

00:15:04.940 about you.

00:15:05.240 They're like our online boyfriend.

00:15:06.500 That's how you make them obsessed.

00:15:08.240 So, you post every day, but are you, you're not taking photos every day.

00:15:11.320 Maybe you'll have, what, one, two days a week where you just take a bunch and then spread

00:15:16.400 that out kind of thing?

00:15:17.540 Yeah.

00:15:17.680 Yeah.

00:15:18.320 Huh.

00:15:19.540 How much do you guys make?

00:15:21.160 On OnlyFans?

00:15:23.240 So, you make the big numbers.

00:15:25.800 I'm in the top 0.1%.

00:15:27.340 Yeah.

00:15:27.960 Top 0.1%.

00:15:29.600 Okay.

00:15:32.320 Yeah.

00:15:32.860 So.

00:15:33.520 You're the top G.

00:15:34.600 I'm not a top G.

00:15:35.960 I'm not, like, Kazumi status, but I'm, like, I'm trying my best.

00:15:38.640 How much does she make? 1.00

00:15:39.660 She makes, like, she makes, like, $100,000, $200,000 a month. 1.00

00:15:42.280 Oh, wow.

00:15:42.780 Okay.

00:15:43.280 I make, like, a quarter of a half.

00:15:47.620 You can say it if you want.

00:15:49.200 Do you want to give us a range?

00:15:52.260 Yeah.

00:15:52.540 Okay.

00:15:52.760 I make between $20,000 and $60,000 a month.

00:15:56.040 Oh, wow.

00:15:56.500 What about you, Jane?

00:15:57.380 I make about $25,000 to $30,000 a month.

00:15:59.900 Wow.

00:16:00.360 Yeah.

00:16:00.980 Wow.

00:16:02.040 UCSB girls.

00:16:03.480 Okay.

00:16:03.740 Anyways.

00:16:04.980 Do you recommend, like, people getting into OnlyFans? 0.99

00:16:10.020 I would say if you really, oh, shit. 0.98

00:16:13.340 That's tough. 1.00

00:16:14.160 It depends.

00:16:15.420 It really depends.

00:16:16.340 Like, if you want to have a career later on, I would say don't do it.

00:16:19.800 So, like, if you wanted to go into corporate, everyone's going to find out later on.

00:16:24.340 And then stuff leaks on the internet really easily.

00:16:26.360 So, I'd say.

00:16:26.860 It's forever.

00:16:27.520 Yeah.

00:16:27.720 It's forever.

00:16:28.260 So, I say be careful.

00:16:30.200 Not everyone should do it.

00:16:31.380 It's not for everybody. 0.99

00:16:32.920 Damn. 0.98

00:16:34.420 But, I mean, the numbers you're saying, I mean, that's. 0.99

00:16:37.920 Well, we love money.

00:16:38.580 That's super, I mean, even out of university with a degree, most people are probably looking

00:16:43.940 at $60,000, $70,000 a month, or sorry, a year salary.

00:16:49.460 So, I mean.

00:16:50.680 But it's also not forever.

00:16:52.500 Like, you have to realize that there's, like, a timeline for this job.

00:16:55.620 So, it's really important.

00:16:56.740 I mean, you're 69.

00:16:57.500 So.

00:16:57.720 I am.

00:16:58.180 That's.

00:16:58.460 Except for me.

00:16:59.020 I'm not time.

00:16:59.500 I'm the exclusion.

00:17:02.240 But there's a timeline.

00:17:03.320 So, I feel like in order to, like, if you really want to commit to doing OF or, like,

00:17:06.740 you know, porn or something, you have to really manage your money properly.

00:17:10.760 Yeah.

00:17:11.040 Save up.

00:17:11.620 I mean, there's, like, MILF stuff, right?

00:17:13.760 Oh, yeah.

00:17:14.320 Yeah, there definitely is.

00:17:15.520 There's a niche for everything.

00:17:16.680 But it's, like, do you have to think long-term, like, do I want to be doing it at, like, 69

00:17:22.140 like me, you know?

00:17:25.140 And, but so, you guys also have the podcast.

00:17:27.080 Like, that's how I found you guys.

00:17:28.240 I saw one of your clips on TikTok, and you guys talk about, like, dating and sex and stuff.

00:17:32.020 So, would you guys consider the podcast to kind of be more your side hustle and OnlyFans

00:17:35.980 is, like, your primary thing that you're focused on?

00:17:39.080 Or are you guys maybe thinking, hmm, how can I maybe transition into, like, either Twitch

00:17:46.020 or the podcast?

00:17:49.000 Yeah.

00:17:49.680 Or are you guys thinking always OnlyFans?

00:17:52.460 Well, I think for me, OnlyFans is more like a supplemental income.

00:17:56.280 My main hustle is, like, I'm in acting school right now.

00:17:59.100 Okay.

00:17:59.300 So, eventually, I'm going to stop and just, like, delete it, make a new name, and then

00:18:05.000 get in, try to get into Hollywood, and that's my, that's my goal.

00:18:07.520 Like, legally change your name?

00:18:08.860 Like, just, like, change my username.

00:18:11.140 Oh, change your username.

00:18:12.120 Just not, yeah, and then use my real name for acting.

00:18:14.240 Oh, okay.

00:18:14.760 Yeah.

00:18:15.620 And so, you're currently in acting school?

00:18:17.820 Yes.

00:18:18.340 Okay.

00:18:18.940 Yes.

00:18:19.360 I could tell you're a theater kid.

00:18:21.420 Oh, you could tell?

00:18:22.060 Yeah.

00:18:22.300 How?

00:18:22.800 Just theater kid vibes, for sure. 0.99

00:18:24.780 Oh, man, they really fuck you up in acting school, though. 0.99

00:18:27.120 I believe it. 1.00

00:18:27.660 Because there's a lot of, like, crazy shit that I've done. 0.99

00:18:29.200 I believe it. 0.93

00:18:29.680 Have you been practicing a monologue that you want to do for the?

00:18:36.060 No, I've only been doing scenes.

00:18:38.360 What kind of scenes?

00:18:39.780 Oh.

00:18:40.380 So, right now, I'm playing, like, Patrick Bateman from American Psycho.

00:18:44.700 So, you know, the scene.

00:18:45.580 Hold on.

00:18:45.840 I got something for you.

00:18:46.960 Hold on.

00:18:47.220 Where is it?

00:18:50.740 Keep talking once you say it.

00:18:52.520 What's going on?

00:18:53.920 I love American Psycho.

00:18:55.420 You do?

00:18:55.840 Oh, man.

00:18:56.540 I read the book, and I love the movie.

00:18:58.680 Have you seen the movie?

00:18:59.480 Yeah.

00:18:59.780 I love his acting.

00:19:01.020 Like, he's so psycho. 1.00

00:19:01.840 He's so fucking crazy. 1.00

00:19:04.720 I just, it's so funny to me. 0.99

00:19:07.020 But it's really hard, because I really have to, like, it's method acting, so you have to

00:19:11.320 really get into character.

00:19:12.700 So, I have to, like, imagine a time where I've felt very, like, very, like, they said

00:19:19.300 start with torturing animals.

00:19:21.000 What?

00:19:21.940 Like, my teachers recommended this.

00:19:23.720 They're, like, oh, think of a time where you, like, abused an animal at one point.

00:19:27.580 That's how, that's how, yeah, that's how psychopaths are created.

00:19:31.820 They start by abusing animals, and then they abuse humans later on in life.

00:19:36.080 Yeah.

00:19:37.000 Okay.

00:19:37.760 I'm looking for a little prop I have here, but I want to ask, so, are your parents, what

00:19:43.200 do your parents think?

00:19:44.100 Like, are they supportive?

00:19:45.160 Do they know?

00:19:46.520 My mom knows.

00:19:47.880 I think both my parents know, actually.

00:19:49.480 My mom is supportive of me, because my mom, my mom's Chinese, and she likes money, so

00:19:56.280 she saw, like, the, she saw it come in, and she's like, oh, okay, you can, you can keep

00:20:01.040 going.

00:20:01.940 You can keep doing it.

00:20:02.740 What is that?

00:20:04.780 All right, do the scene.

00:20:07.820 Wait, what is this?

00:20:10.880 It's Huey Lewis and the News.

00:20:14.120 I don't know.

00:20:14.700 From American Psycho.

00:20:16.600 Do you like Huey Lewis, here, I'll do it.

00:20:19.080 I don't know, I don't know.

00:20:19.640 Here, I'll do it.

00:20:22.620 Do you like Huey Lewis and the News?

00:20:25.240 Their early work was a little too new wave for my taste, but when sports came out in

00:20:30.160 83, they really came into their own, both commercially and artistically.

00:20:35.020 Okay.

00:20:35.940 Cringe.

00:20:36.700 Cringe.

00:20:38.020 It's good.

00:20:38.580 You said you're doing a scene from American Psycho.

00:20:40.940 Yeah, but I don't know that scene.

00:20:42.640 The scene where he kills the guy with the axe?

00:20:47.280 I'm doing the scene where he has the, the girl, his assistant in his room.

00:20:51.780 Have you seen the full movie?

00:20:52.960 I've seen the full movie, like, very high, though.

00:20:55.980 Okay.

00:20:57.940 Moving on.

00:20:59.000 Moving on.

00:21:00.120 Okay.

00:21:01.380 And did you mention about your parents?

00:21:03.280 Like, what do they?

00:21:03.920 Yeah, so I don't have a close relationship with my father.

00:21:06.380 And with my mom, she knows that I do something in, like, she's seen the podcast.

00:21:12.800 She knows I do something, like, sexy online, but she doesn't really, like, she doesn't, she

00:21:17.740 doesn't, she hasn't seen my OF, but she, like, knows how much I make, and she's okay with

00:21:21.040 it.

00:21:21.360 You know, I'm an adult.

00:21:23.260 And do you guys, like, so outside of OF, do you guys do any sort of arrangement type

00:21:27.380 stuff?

00:21:28.160 Like sugar daddy stuff?

00:21:28.980 Like sugaring or?

00:21:30.160 I used to have a sugar daddy, but that was, like, a couple years ago.

00:21:33.580 This was before OF.

00:21:34.760 Okay.

00:21:35.200 Um, but yeah, in the past, I have.

00:21:37.540 Me too.

00:21:38.780 Do you guys have any patrons who are whales?

00:21:41.720 What's that?

00:21:42.640 A whale.

00:21:43.200 Just someone, like, your one patron, maybe two or three patrons, that they're the ones

00:21:47.260 that are just dropping, like, a huge portion of the money.

00:21:50.800 Like, one guy that's just dropped 10K total.

00:21:53.760 Yes.

00:21:55.040 Okay.

00:21:57.500 Definitely.

00:21:58.320 Okay.

00:21:58.780 Nice.

00:21:59.380 Nice.

00:22:00.160 Um, I, we'll come back to the OF stuff.

00:22:02.540 I've got more questions on that.

00:22:03.780 Um, let's do a couple soup chats here.

00:22:06.280 So, let's see.

00:22:08.240 Just a reminder, guys.

00:22:09.600 Uh, all soup chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:22:12.320 I'll read soup chats, $10 and up.

00:22:15.820 Uh, we got Logan Paul here.

00:22:17.440 I want to get pegged by Jada.

00:22:19.380 Um, are you, are you?

00:22:21.720 I'm down for that, dude.

00:22:23.060 You want to get pegged?

00:22:24.000 I've always, I never pegged a guy before, but I've always wanted to.

00:22:27.140 You have a desire to pegue someone.

00:22:28.380 I have a desire.

00:22:28.880 I want to try it out.

00:22:30.280 So.

00:22:30.380 Okay.

00:22:31.000 Uh.

00:22:31.380 Ryan, are you down?

00:22:32.460 For you to peg me?

00:22:33.420 Yeah.

00:22:33.760 All right.

00:22:33.920 Let's talk after the show.

00:22:34.780 We'll see what.

00:22:35.900 Have you ever had anything in your flight?

00:22:38.020 No.

00:22:38.540 Okay.

00:22:38.780 Not like that, but.

00:22:39.520 Okay.

00:22:40.160 It can be arranged.

00:22:41.020 All right.

00:22:42.520 Kidding.

00:22:43.080 Kidding.

00:22:43.480 I'm kidding, guys.

00:22:44.580 Um, Michael Trilstein, thank you for the $1 soup chat, man.

00:22:46.760 Appreciate you.

00:22:48.320 What?

00:22:49.040 Just, just highlight it.

00:22:50.020 I'll get it later.

00:22:50.860 Um, sorry guys.

00:22:53.060 YouTube won't let me gift tonight because I maxed out L Susan.

00:22:55.900 Yeah.

00:22:56.160 They, I don't know why YouTube would have a limit on how much you can super chat. 0.99

00:22:59.400 That just seems stupid to me for whales like you, Michael Trilstein. 0.92

00:23:02.360 But, um, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man. 0.99

00:23:04.600 Appreciate it.

00:23:07.880 Free Joe exotic.

00:23:09.220 Uh, yes.

00:23:10.040 Michael Trilstein, by the way, guys, if you don't know, he is, uh,

00:23:13.540 free Joe exotic's attorney.

00:23:16.020 Really?

00:23:16.460 For real?

00:23:16.960 No, no, no, no.

00:23:17.400 But he's like represent, he's, he's trying to get him out of, out of prison.

00:23:20.660 So, uh, Michael Trilstein, $10 soup chat, pink hair to Asian beauty,

00:23:23.920 third girlfriend. 0.98

00:23:24.700 Yes.

00:23:25.180 Or yes.

00:23:26.780 Yes.

00:23:27.140 Of course.

00:23:27.820 Wait, are you, oh, you're, you're a white male.

00:23:30.840 I would have to, uh, it's, here's the thing.

00:23:36.000 Here's the thing about white guys. 0.75

00:23:37.920 It's not like, like, I think white guys are attractive.

00:23:41.460 Some, like most of the time, sometimes.

00:23:43.360 But I also feel like Asian guys don't get enough representation and, um, I'm really

00:23:50.100 close to my culture.

00:23:50.840 So I prefer Asian guys, but you know, I don't discriminate at the end of the day.

00:23:55.420 What about, what about Latino men?

00:23:57.180 Yeah.

00:23:57.520 People of color.

00:23:58.340 Typically I, I like to date, but like mostly my dating roster has been Asians. 0.73

00:24:02.700 Like in my OF, I only, I only like premier Asian guys in my OF because I feel like there's 1.00

00:24:07.720 not enough Asian representation in porn and people need to see Asian penis. 0.99

00:24:12.020 Word? 1.00

00:24:12.620 Yes.

00:24:13.080 Word?

00:24:13.560 Yeah.

00:24:13.780 Okay.

00:24:14.280 Okay.

00:24:14.920 But so what about black guys?

00:24:17.220 Black guys? 0.92

00:24:17.820 Um, I've, I've had, I've dated black guys earlier on, but like I, it's hard for me to shoot 1.00

00:24:22.780 with them just cause their dicks are so big. 1.00

00:24:24.580 It hurts. 1.00

00:24:26.660 Jade can, can confirm. 0.99

00:24:28.900 Um, I've seen black dick, but I've never like touched it. 1.00

00:24:32.400 Okay. 0.99

00:24:32.720 Like I've seen it on Pornhub and I don't think I could handle, honestly.

00:24:35.860 And to be honest, I don't think it's too big.

00:24:38.020 Oh.

00:24:38.300 It would kill us.

00:24:39.060 Yeah.

00:24:39.760 It just kind of betrayed our stomachs.

00:24:41.120 But okay.

00:24:41.780 So as far as dating goes, you said that you don't date white guys.

00:24:45.440 Um, I've had one white boyfriend who's quite older, like a lot older than me.

00:24:49.220 Okay.

00:24:49.960 He was like 115.

00:24:51.280 No, but, uh, well she's 69.

00:24:54.240 So I mean, um, I've had one white boyfriend.

00:24:56.820 Um, it was okay.

00:24:57.440 I just think there's like a big cultural difference.

00:24:59.400 Like I had to, like, I had to eat a lot of like his food.

00:25:03.880 And when it came to like meeting my parents, like he didn't understand why we had to bring

00:25:09.120 them fruit and he was just very opinionated on certain things.

00:25:12.600 And then, um, I don't know.

00:25:14.940 I just feel more comfortable dating Asian guys.

00:25:17.560 Um, and I also feel like now that I'm older, I feel like there aren't, there isn't enough.

00:25:22.060 Like, I feel like Asian guys do really get the short end of the stick as far as like being

00:25:25.940 able to date and stuff.

00:25:27.260 It's true.

00:25:27.660 I mean, it's definitely true.

00:25:28.580 Um, I think I, I was looking at the, uh, statistics and Asian women marry outside of 0.99

00:25:36.420 their race twice as frequently as Asian men do.

00:25:39.700 Yeah.

00:25:39.980 So I think it's, um, I don't know the exact numbers, but it was, it's on Wikipedia.

00:25:44.100 I think like there's 150,000 Asian men who are married outside their race.

00:25:48.560 And then it's like 300.

00:25:50.880 No, it's gotta be more.

00:25:52.000 I don't know the exact numbers, but, but it's twice as much.

00:25:55.480 So yeah, I definitely feel like Asian men are discriminated against when it comes to

00:25:59.580 dating.

00:26:00.200 Like, I'm not saying I'd like discriminate against white men, but if you were to get like, 0.84

00:26:03.540 if I was to like compare like an Asian guy and a white guy who were like had around the

00:26:08.000 same personality, same type of stuff, like every time I'd go for the Asian guy, not saying

00:26:12.220 that I'm just like, not, I don't, I think that's fine.

00:26:14.500 That's your preference.

00:26:15.180 I think people can have preferences.

00:26:17.500 So I think the most common is like Asian.

00:26:20.780 I think it's, I think I saw on Tik TOK, it was like 70% is like Asian female, white male.

00:26:25.700 Yeah.

00:26:26.280 Yeah.

00:26:26.800 Yeah.

00:26:27.160 Which is good for you.

00:26:28.440 Yeah.

00:26:29.340 Right.

00:26:30.020 Yeah.

00:26:30.260 I get it.

00:26:30.680 Do you have a type?

00:26:31.180 Do I, like, I wouldn't say I have like a major racial preference.

00:26:37.840 I'll date, I'll date a white girl. 1.00

00:26:39.300 I'll date Latina. 0.99

00:26:40.760 I'll date Asian women. 1.00

00:26:41.980 I'll date black girl. 1.00

00:26:42.600 I will say I've had probably more a disproportionate amount of Asian girlfriends. 0.92

00:26:53.140 Really?

00:26:54.040 Yes.

00:26:54.880 Wow.

00:26:55.360 Not, not exclusively.

00:26:56.760 I mean, one, one of my long-term relationships, she is white. 0.68

00:26:59.240 Um, but yeah, disproportionately for some reason, how many Asian girlfriends? 1.00

00:27:06.000 Oh, there was the Vietnamese girl. 0.97

00:27:07.940 And then there was the Chinese, Chinese red flag.

00:27:13.480 Wait, why?

00:27:14.220 You know what?

00:27:14.640 You guys, we have a, you guys did a video on this, which we, we will react to.

00:27:18.640 Um, but I, no, I've dated a couple Asian women, but, uh, I, I wouldn't, I don't think I, I

00:27:24.080 definitely wouldn't say I have like a Asian fetish or like yellow fever or whatever it's

00:27:27.840 called.

00:27:28.000 But, um, actually on the race thing, um, does anyone here like have, I don't know if we

00:27:35.240 should, is this chat, is this like TOS?

00:27:38.980 I don't know.

00:27:39.420 Um, what, one thing I've heard when it comes to the race thing though, is that, um, and

00:27:45.500 maybe you can weigh in, weigh in on this, is that, um, black women have a strong preference 1.00

00:27:50.940 to date black men.

00:27:52.180 Do you, do you have like any preference there?

00:27:55.540 No, I don't think I have any preference.

00:27:57.340 I don't think.

00:27:58.020 Got it.

00:27:58.360 Yeah.

00:27:58.800 And none of my girlfriends have any preferences.

00:28:01.080 Okay.

00:28:01.700 Got it.

00:28:02.100 Yeah.

00:28:03.420 What about you?

00:28:04.180 Um, I typically don't have a preference, but I do like black guys and that actually,

00:28:11.780 okay.

00:28:11.920 Yeah.

00:28:12.200 I would do have a preference for black.

00:28:13.980 It's, that's totally fine.

00:28:15.160 Please tell me more.

00:28:16.100 It's okay to have preferences, but, um, yeah, I have a preference.

00:28:24.160 I would say more like, I like men with color, dark skins or light skins.

00:28:29.760 All of them.

00:28:30.520 All of them.

00:28:31.160 Okay.

00:28:31.720 Yeah.

00:28:32.740 What about you guys?

00:28:34.180 No, well, I don't have a preference.

00:28:36.780 My man's my preference.

00:28:38.980 Is he, is he Latino?

00:28:40.600 Yeah.

00:28:40.840 Okay.

00:28:41.220 What about you?

00:28:41.920 Yeah.

00:28:42.380 I think like men with color as well.

00:28:45.160 Okay.

00:28:46.800 RIP for Brian tonight.

00:28:48.240 No, I'm kidding.

00:28:49.440 But, uh, Michael Trillstein, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:28:52.600 We have, um, once again, Michael Trillstein with the subsequent $10 soup chat.

00:28:55.880 Thank you, man.

00:28:56.620 Is that Jason, the Chad from Vegas's sister?

00:28:59.940 Oh, Jason was on last show.

00:29:01.260 Um, I do not believe they are related.

00:29:04.760 Uh, Michael Trillstein, get the membership.

00:29:06.900 You frugal Mariposa. 0.96

00:29:08.860 Okay.

00:29:09.960 Uh, yeah, we, we need some, uh, guys.

00:29:12.220 We're like six memberships away from our unlocking our next emoji slot.

00:29:16.340 So, uh, please consider becoming a member or gifting a membership.

00:29:21.100 Michael Trillstein with the $10 soup chat.

00:29:22.560 That third girlfriend has large boomerangs. 1.00

00:29:24.920 I believe cat.

00:29:26.100 He's talking about you.

00:29:28.220 Shake them boomerangs. 0.87

00:29:29.480 Oh, and then we got, yo, we got Mike Davis here with the $10 soup chat.

00:29:40.120 Uh, OF ain't the easy money it once was for these degenerates during the pandemic.

00:29:45.180 Stimulus, unemployment, et cetera, ran out.

00:29:47.220 They should be voting Trump 2024 to put some more bread in the, uh, I'm not gonna, you almost

00:29:51.660 got me, Mike Davis.

00:29:52.520 Um, I can't say that word.

00:29:54.640 Um, what should, okay.

00:29:59.200 Nevermind.

00:29:59.700 Do you want to read it?

00:30:00.880 Cause I'm not allowed to say that word.

00:30:02.960 What?

00:30:03.440 Oh, nevermind.

00:30:06.420 Nevermind.

00:30:06.760 Nevermind.

00:30:07.440 Okay.

00:30:08.100 Um, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:30:09.220 Is that the guy in the picture?

00:30:11.000 Yeah.

00:30:11.160 Actually, can you scoot the picture frame that way?

00:30:13.460 So he's kind of like part of the, that's what I was looking at the whole time.

00:30:16.260 Yeah.

00:30:16.760 Keep scooting.

00:30:19.640 There we go.

00:30:20.760 Yeah.

00:30:21.020 Well, um, oh, by the way, Mike Davis, are you still in the chat?

00:30:23.600 We got something for you.

00:30:25.020 This is, this is going to blow your mind.

00:30:26.940 Um, I spent many an hour working on this last night.

00:30:30.100 Eric, can you go ahead and pull it up?

00:30:33.420 Um, so guys, we've, we scoured the internet for pictures of Mike Davis.

00:30:39.520 And as you guys know, he is a proprietor of at least seven Burger King establishments on

00:30:49.020 the East coast.

00:30:50.440 And we found you, Mike Davis.

00:30:52.360 I know you've been trying.

00:30:54.280 I know that you've been trying to hide your identity, but we found this photo of you in

00:30:59.880 one of your Burger King restaurants.

00:31:03.620 That's right.

00:31:04.700 Mike Davis.

00:31:05.480 Wait, this is actually real?

00:31:06.780 Like this photo is real?

00:31:08.060 Like, wait, no, like, seriously.

00:31:09.860 That, that is Mike Davis.

00:31:11.300 I, I, everyone thinks I'm joking about the Burger King thing.

00:31:13.920 That's Mike Davis.

00:31:15.080 Mike Davis is that guy.

00:31:16.680 It's that guy.

00:31:17.280 That's Mike Davis.

00:31:17.980 Who is Mike Davis?

00:31:18.700 Um.

00:31:19.180 He owns, or he manages Burger Kings.

00:31:21.020 Yeah.

00:31:21.300 And Eric, can you pull up the other one too?

00:31:23.680 The next one.

00:31:26.440 And this is also Mike Davis.

00:31:28.580 Yeah, no, we've, we've Photoshopped these.

00:31:31.500 Um, so this is Mike Davis, um, in his, this is his, uh, the third.

00:31:36.740 No, actually this is his first chain that he opened.

00:31:39.980 Um, so yeah, Mike Davis, thank you for the, uh, $10 soup chat.

00:31:42.840 Appreciate it, man.

00:31:44.020 Um, so we got everyday Edgar here.

00:31:46.300 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:31:47.460 Hopefully Mike Davis is still in the chat and caught that.

00:31:49.960 Um, everyday Edgar.

00:31:51.120 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:31:52.260 Appreciate it, man.

00:31:52.760 To the two Mexican, Mexican girls next to Brian.

00:31:56.060 Don't listen to these OF3FOs. 1.00

00:31:58.620 This is how you end up alone.

00:32:03.240 Everyday Edgar shooting shots.

00:32:05.840 Would you guys like to respond to Everyday Edgar?

00:32:09.640 You're lonely, but you're rich.

00:32:10.920 We're so lonely.

00:32:11.160 Will you be our boyfriend?

00:32:12.560 We buy boyfriends.

00:32:15.560 No, I'm joking.

00:32:16.520 We, we, you don't get that lonely.

00:32:18.020 We have a plethora of men.

00:32:20.220 We're not lonely.

00:32:21.620 We have a plethora of men?

00:32:22.940 What do you mean by that?

00:32:23.860 By a plethora of men?

00:32:24.960 I mean, like, like fans, like, you could just like pick anyone.

00:32:30.580 I feel like a female.

00:32:31.240 Pick anyone to what? 1.00

00:32:32.400 To, to date or fuck. 1.00

00:32:34.920 Wait, would you date a fan? 1.00

00:32:36.700 No.

00:32:38.320 Maybe.

00:32:39.840 I don't know.

00:32:41.840 I feel like you wouldn't be attracted to a fan.

00:32:44.700 I've been attracted to fans.

00:32:45.740 Really?

00:32:46.260 They're like customers.

00:32:47.240 You got, don't you, well, I don't know if you can give away the game, but like, to some

00:32:51.860 degree, don't you kind of look down on the customers to a degree?

00:32:56.220 No.

00:32:57.660 I mean, they're the ones that are effectively like paying my bills.

00:33:00.500 And I think like, OF does sound really cheesy and it sounds like, to people that haven't

00:33:06.820 experienced it, it sounds cheesy, but like, you do really get kind of deep with people

00:33:11.000 on like a personal level.

00:33:12.840 And at first it does, it is like transactional and it, and it always will be transactional,

00:33:18.020 but you do get to understand people and like the reason why they're on OF.

00:33:23.200 And like, they are humans and they realize that I'm a human.

00:33:26.440 And then I've had, you know, some of my best customers subscribe for a while.

00:33:31.260 And then, you know, they'll be like, they'll hit me up after a couple months and they'll

00:33:33.780 be like, Hey cat, like I found a girlfriend.

00:33:36.380 Like, thank you for like being there.

00:33:38.440 Well, like after I've been drunk on those nights, I've been lonely, but like, I just

00:33:41.600 like, it's time for me to leave.

00:33:43.520 And like, yeah, and I'm happy for them.

00:33:45.500 So you do really form friendships and like bonds on OF.

00:33:49.260 So have you dated any customers?

00:33:52.260 I have not dated.

00:33:53.540 Jade, what about you?

00:33:55.860 No, no, not yet.

00:33:57.940 Is there any, cause I mean, some people do escorting, right?

00:34:03.060 Like a lot of porn stars escort on the side.

00:34:05.380 Have you guys ever considered that?

00:34:07.440 Oh, Nicole.

00:34:08.120 Like how much would you charge?

00:34:09.800 And you might not even, that might not even be something that you'd be down to do.

00:34:13.800 Right.

00:34:14.260 But like, have you ever considered, Hey, 20 K for a one-on-one date?

00:34:21.120 I feel like that'd just be like real.

00:34:22.340 That's like a lot different than online sex work, even though it is sex work.

00:34:25.640 Yeah. 0.99

00:34:26.220 We did have a conversation on our podcast about how much it would take for us to fuck Harvey 1.00

00:34:30.340 Weinstein. 1.00

00:34:32.160 Oh, I said, I said I do for a Tesla.

00:34:36.280 Oh yeah.

00:34:36.960 I remember now for a Tesla or a house or something.

00:34:40.240 You said a house.

00:34:41.020 I said a Tesla.

00:34:41.680 Oh, okay.

00:34:41.920 Okay.

00:34:42.820 Yeah.

00:34:43.620 Was this, was this, uh, well, okay.

00:34:46.080 Jesus Christ.

00:34:46.560 He's face palming himself. 1.00

00:34:47.780 Damn. 1.00

00:34:50.440 Okay. 1.00

00:34:51.420 Would you sell yourself?

00:34:53.660 For what?

00:34:54.300 Like how much would you sell yourself for?

00:34:56.220 If say like.

00:34:56.680 How much are you going to pay me to let you peg me?

00:34:59.660 How much would I pay you to let you?

00:35:02.140 How much do you want?

00:35:04.100 Like what's like your minimum?

00:35:05.120 Make an offer.

00:35:06.340 Would you do it for like 200? 1.00

00:35:08.220 Fuck no. 1.00

00:35:09.460 Well, then how much? 1.00

00:35:10.260 Fuck no. 1.00

00:35:11.500 Listen, you think I'm cheap. 1.00

00:35:13.840 You think I'm a cheap bitch. 1.00

00:35:14.960 500? 1.00

00:35:16.940 What do you want? 1.00

00:35:17.640 You want a cheap bitch darling? 1.00

00:35:19.160 Huh? 1.00

00:35:19.460 What do you want?

00:35:20.040 1,000?

00:35:22.060 I'm expensive.

00:35:23.380 5,000?

00:35:24.480 I'm expensive, Jade.

00:35:25.300 10,000?

00:35:25.760 I'm expensive, Jade.

00:35:26.760 Oh my God.

00:35:27.260 Wait, how much would you do it for then?

00:35:29.900 To get pegged by Jade?

00:35:31.400 Yeah.

00:35:31.680 Yeah.

00:35:31.840 I say do it for free because it's priceless.

00:35:35.480 You know what?

00:35:36.020 I'm a businessman.

00:35:37.340 I'm a businessman.

00:35:38.400 So.

00:35:38.580 So let's hear a price.

00:35:39.880 I want 5% of your OnlyFans earnings moving forward.

00:35:43.880 Wow.

00:35:44.440 Everyone wants a piece.

00:35:45.560 Everyone wants a piece of pie.

00:35:47.080 Like a vulture.

00:35:47.520 Oh my God.

00:35:49.420 That's smart.

00:35:50.560 But then you'd have to like do work.

00:35:51.680 I want the residuals.

00:35:52.560 I want the monthly.

00:35:54.100 So would you let her post it?

00:35:55.540 Like make videos of posting me.

00:35:57.180 Me pegging.

00:35:57.740 Pegging you.

00:35:58.240 Once a month.

00:35:58.940 We have an appointment.

00:35:59.800 Yeah.

00:35:59.900 A pegging appointment.

00:36:00.720 Jesus.

00:36:01.480 It's OnlyFair.

00:36:02.440 I'm kidding.

00:36:02.900 Guys, chat and chat.

00:36:04.060 I'm kidding.

00:36:04.440 I'm kidding.

00:36:04.800 I'm kidding.

00:36:05.460 I'm kidding.

00:36:06.660 I'm kidding.

00:36:09.500 Anyways.

00:36:11.200 Okay.

00:36:11.760 So.

00:36:13.280 What was I going to ask?

00:36:14.420 Oh, okay.

00:36:14.860 So actually, let me do the Super Chats and I have one more question related to OnlyFans.

00:36:20.640 But Mike Davis, thank you for the Super Chat.

00:36:23.780 Appreciate it.

00:36:24.940 Okay.

00:36:25.360 Wait.

00:36:25.600 I already did that.

00:36:26.620 Wait.

00:36:26.840 Did we do this one?

00:36:28.780 Next one.

00:36:29.400 Yeah.

00:36:29.680 We did that one.

00:36:30.820 We got.

00:36:31.540 Hold on.

00:36:32.020 We did one.

00:36:33.580 Dave Vaughn Jackson.

00:36:34.540 Good to see you back in the chat.

00:36:37.440 Appreciate you, man.

00:36:38.300 Thank you for the Super Chat.

00:36:39.440 That's the scene he kills Jared Leto.

00:36:42.020 I appreciate the impression.

00:36:44.420 Yeah.

00:36:44.640 That's.

00:36:45.140 Wait.

00:36:45.500 He doesn't kill Jared Leto in the movie.

00:36:47.700 No.

00:36:48.020 In American Psycho.

00:36:48.980 Yeah.

00:36:49.180 He has like an axe.

00:36:50.200 He puts on this raincoat.

00:36:51.260 It's like the main conceit there.

00:36:53.280 Like that he's jealous of Jared Leto's character.

00:36:55.860 I thought Jared.

00:36:56.280 She was very high when she was watching it.

00:36:59.460 Yeah.

00:36:59.820 So I did forget a lot of it.

00:37:02.000 We got.

00:37:04.180 By the way, guys, just a reminder.

00:37:05.740 $10 and up to read the chats.

00:37:07.640 Crispy Kim.

00:37:08.780 Thank you for the $10 soup chats.

00:37:10.080 By the way, that's Jason who was on the last show.

00:37:13.040 So Brian, hypothetical question since I know you're a man of God.

00:37:17.140 If you were to go on a date with Fun Lee, I like that.

00:37:20.540 I like that.

00:37:21.300 How would you not pay for the first date?

00:37:24.700 Okay.

00:37:25.100 So this came up in our last show.

00:37:26.500 So before I answer that, we'll get the table's take on this.

00:37:31.540 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

00:37:33.520 The guy.

00:37:34.420 Unless I'm not interested in him, then I will offer to split it.

00:37:39.560 Okay.

00:37:39.820 If he wants.

00:37:40.820 Jade?

00:37:41.420 I think the guy should be a gentleman and pay the first date.

00:37:45.040 Okay.

00:37:45.500 What about you?

00:37:46.680 I'm honestly kind of 50-50, but I'm just going to go like what I've done in the past

00:37:51.660 and offer to split, and then if he goes, oh, I got it, then it's his.

00:37:56.860 Okay.

00:37:57.320 Yeah.

00:37:58.760 Personally, I think if it's like we're going on a date and we're going to like it's pursuing

00:38:03.720 a relationship, then he's going to pay, or there's no second date.

00:38:07.460 So let's say the guy, you're really attracted to him, date went great, there's the chemistry,

00:38:14.100 but end of the date comes, and he says, hey, let's get separate checks, or ask a waiter

00:38:22.040 for separate checks.

00:38:22.780 Is it a wrap?

00:38:24.280 Yeah.

00:38:24.920 Like, why did you ask me out to that place then if you can't pay?

00:38:28.520 Even if he's great?

00:38:29.840 Yeah.

00:38:30.580 But okay, I have a question for you.

00:38:31.980 So you're pretty young.

00:38:32.820 You're 18, right?

00:38:33.500 You're in college.

00:38:34.660 Most people are just like in college.

00:38:36.080 They're not going out on proper dates.

00:38:38.340 It's like me to the party.

00:38:39.740 Let's hook up.

00:38:40.440 Especially here in Santa Barbara.

00:38:42.200 I had a guy take me to the weekend concert, pit tickets.

00:38:47.520 So honestly, if a guy isn't going to pay for a first date, don't take me to that place,

00:38:52.000 and you're not going to get a second date.

00:38:54.140 Wait, but in the example you just gave, did he pay?

00:38:57.360 For the weekend tickets?

00:38:58.140 Yeah, he paid.

00:38:58.660 Oh, yeah, and much more.

00:39:00.060 Okay.

00:39:00.320 Well, I mean, for something like that, if you're going to invite someone for an event like that,

00:39:05.220 then you'd pay, yeah, but...

00:39:06.720 Well, if you're going to invite me on a date, you would pay.

00:39:09.080 Okay.

00:39:09.520 What do you guys think?

00:39:10.860 Yeah, I agree with Jade.

00:39:12.000 I think the guy should be a gentleman and pay.

00:39:15.080 Okay.

00:39:15.860 I agree as well.

00:39:17.540 Okay.

00:39:18.380 So pretty much besides you, the guy should pay.

00:39:23.120 Now, would you...

00:39:24.160 You say 50-50, right?

00:39:26.420 But are you going to feel a certain type of way?

00:39:28.680 Yeah, I think it depends.

00:39:29.220 If he does take you up on the 50-50 thing?

00:39:32.020 Yeah, I think it depends, kind of.

00:39:34.080 How so?

00:39:34.320 Like, if it's a nicer place and I was asked to go somewhere, of course I'm going to offer

00:39:38.240 to pay and only order things that I know I can afford.

00:39:41.020 But then it's like, you want to go 50-50, so you obviously don't like me as much.

00:39:45.160 You don't want to pursue a second date.

00:39:47.120 Or it's just the fact that what I ordered and what you ordered, the price doesn't really

00:39:51.360 match up and you can't afford both of ours.

00:39:53.480 So, you know, it really just depends on what I feel, what I gauge the situation was.

00:39:59.900 Yes.

00:40:00.500 Okay.

00:40:01.180 Yeah.

00:40:01.720 I also want to emphasize that if it's like a first date versus like a relationship, like

00:40:06.380 obviously if I'm dating the guy, like I'm going to pay, like I'm going to have a share

00:40:11.220 with him.

00:40:11.800 Like, but like first date, if the guy asks me, he like slides into my DMs or he like

00:40:16.840 whatever, like if he's asking me to go to a specific place, like he should pay.

00:40:20.540 He's the one inviting me out.

00:40:22.480 Okay.

00:40:23.840 Hmm.

00:40:24.200 All right.

00:40:25.880 So I'm going to make the table pretty angry at me.

00:40:28.000 So I don't believe, actually, actually, before I make my point, really quick going around

00:40:34.620 the table.

00:40:35.940 Do you believe in gender equality?

00:40:38.260 Oh my God.

00:40:40.800 And would you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

00:40:43.340 I would definitely consider myself a feminist. 1.00

00:40:45.960 But I, I mean, gender equality in like what context and just like men and women are biologically

00:40:51.020 equal, like all across the board.

00:40:54.620 I mean, I think there's different, definitely differences in gender, but I feel like if you're

00:40:58.960 going to talk about our value in society and like how valuable we are, of course we're equal.

00:41:03.620 I think we offer, but we offer different things to each gender has different roles that we are

00:41:09.020 more biologically like inclined to take.

00:41:11.580 Like, so in that aspect, no, I don't think we're completely even.

00:41:16.020 Okay.

00:41:16.680 Jade, your thoughts?

00:41:19.980 No, I don't believe in gender equality. 0.96

00:41:22.200 I think men are mostly CEOs and I feel like they run the world.

00:41:28.920 So what's the opposite of a feminist? 1.00

00:41:32.260 Andrew Tate.

00:41:33.320 Yes.

00:41:34.460 Yes.

00:41:35.360 Well, I feel like men hold a lot of power in the world.

00:41:39.040 Which men?

00:41:39.980 It's a very small proportion of men.

00:41:42.100 Like maybe like 1% of the men hold a lot of power.

00:41:44.620 Right.

00:41:44.900 So, but like, for example, say there's a guy like asking girls inappropriate question versus

00:41:51.500 a girl asking guys, there's always like a two-sided, it's not, it's not fair.

00:41:56.420 I feel.

00:41:57.380 Mm-hmm.

00:41:57.820 Yeah.

00:41:58.280 Yeah.

00:41:59.220 So like if a, if a girl were to ask a guy inappropriate questions, that's okay on the internet.

00:42:03.140 But if a guy were to ask a girl inappropriate questions, that's like not cool.

00:42:06.760 Yeah.

00:42:07.240 And then.

00:42:07.600 We've done, we've done that prank video.

00:42:10.140 We've done that as an experiment.

00:42:11.600 Oh yeah.

00:42:11.940 And?

00:42:12.540 Well, so I mean the, the video was, um, this is one of our crazy viral videos back in the

00:42:17.580 day.

00:42:18.000 It was called asking, asking people for sex.

00:42:20.160 I had a girl go up to guys, just point blank, say, Hey, I think you're cute. 0.74

00:42:24.580 Do you want to hook up? 0.94

00:42:25.320 Do you want to have sex? 0.65

00:42:26.720 And she, well, first off, just the responses from the genders were different. 0.76

00:42:31.260 The guys said yes.

00:42:32.380 And then I did the version where I'd go up to girls, just point blank, say, Hey, I think 0.82

00:42:35.960 you're cute.

00:42:36.780 Do you want to hook up? 0.99

00:42:37.440 Do you want to have sex? 0.84

00:42:38.900 Uh, actually most of the girls, like some girls got offended, but most of the girls just 0.99

00:42:42.520 laughed.

00:42:42.880 They thought it was funny, but they said no.

00:42:44.200 Right.

00:42:44.500 Um, but then like when we've showed the clip to the panel before, they're all like, Oh,

00:42:51.740 the girl one's okay.

00:42:52.620 But the guy one, that's like inappropriate, creepy girl one's cool.

00:42:56.640 But anyways, um, so, okay.

00:42:59.420 Um, do you believe in gender equality, feminism, or do you consider yourself a feminist?

00:43:03.620 Um, do I consider myself a feminist? 0.96

00:43:05.620 Yes.

00:43:06.180 But I think that there's kind of like a different definition for feminism, especially for white 1.00

00:43:12.080 women and more so people of color.

00:43:14.600 I don't really align myself with white feminism per se. 0.93

00:43:17.940 Like to give you an example, like, um, is there a Latina feminism? 0.97

00:43:21.680 Well, I mean like, yeah, I would say it kind of divides with people of color and then white

00:43:26.000 feminism, but so much so like it's, I, maybe I should just say intersectionality. 1.00

00:43:30.700 I would agree with you that the, the, the origins of feminism were extremely racist. 0.99

00:43:36.000 Yeah. 0.74

00:43:36.440 Especially they wanted to exclude black women. 1.00

00:43:38.680 But, um, and I'm not a particular fan of feminism, but, but, and I'd have to tell you

00:43:44.700 what my definition of feminism is, but, uh, your take. 1.00

00:43:49.440 Um, I think that gender roles are never going to be equal, honestly.

00:43:56.240 Okay.

00:43:56.580 So you can kind of, you can try as hard as you want to like make things equal, but like

00:44:00.960 it's never going to be equal.

00:44:01.980 So would you consider yourself a feminist? 1.00

00:44:04.900 I'm kind of on the fence with it.

00:44:06.540 Okay.

00:44:06.880 That's totally fine.

00:44:08.080 Go ahead.

00:44:08.780 Um, I don't consider myself a feminist because I am a stay at home mom.

00:44:14.120 So my man's the breadwinner.

00:44:16.460 So I don't think I really, I don't think it wasn't me.

00:44:22.000 It was Eric.

00:44:23.400 I don't think I really believe in like gender equality.

00:44:26.660 And I think that's also part of like the Hispanic culture.

00:44:30.300 Like, it's very, um, like we're not really feminist.

00:44:35.640 Like we're more of like, oh, the husband's the breadwinner.

00:44:38.760 The wife stays home and takes care of the kids and the house and stuff like that. 0.99

00:44:43.700 So.

00:44:44.280 Okay.

00:44:44.480 Yeah.

00:44:45.180 What do you think?

00:44:47.000 Um, I think I'm a feminine.

00:44:49.680 Sorry.

00:44:50.160 I think I am.

00:44:52.120 I think that like women also have power to do most of the things that men do, but I don't 1.00

00:44:58.140 know.

00:45:00.260 That's good.

00:45:01.180 Do you, do you have a kid too?

00:45:02.460 No, I don't.

00:45:03.300 Okay.

00:45:03.880 Got it.

00:45:04.240 Got it.

00:45:04.460 Got it.

00:45:05.000 Cool.

00:45:05.500 Um, I don't know why I'm, I'm derailing the conversation a little bit, but okay.

00:45:10.200 So I guess my question, and I still need to address the super chat here.

00:45:16.440 How do you reconcile believing in gender equality, but also thinking that, and I know some of you

00:45:22.740 didn't, but maybe some more so for you two, you said the guy should pay on the first date,

00:45:28.940 but you also believe in gender equality.

00:45:30.680 How do you reconcile that?

00:45:31.860 Um, I said, I believe in gender equality as far as like saying that like men and women

00:45:37.280 are equally valuable in society, but I don't think that we have gender equality as far as

00:45:42.820 like certain roles that we take on.

00:45:44.720 So I think males are naturally, like naturally, um, biologically even like fall into, fall into

00:45:50.640 more of like the care or like the, the hunter gatherer, like role, like they're, they bring

00:45:57.160 like back in the caveman days, they were bringing back the food and hunting the food.

00:46:01.380 And then women were like the caretakers of the house. 1.00

00:46:03.540 So I think I have a more traditional ideology on from that aspect.

00:46:07.640 Gotcha.

00:46:08.440 All right.

00:46:08.800 So the, I guess where I was going with this is I won't pay on the first date.

00:46:16.280 How do you do it then?

00:46:18.940 So I'll pay for my own food.

00:46:20.200 I'm not expecting the girl to pay for me.

00:46:21.680 So I believe in like the 50, 50 and you've had Asian girlfriends.

00:46:25.460 Yep.

00:46:25.940 That is so surprising.

00:46:27.700 We are in California.

00:46:28.560 It's pretty liberal.

00:46:29.800 I mean, San Barbara is pretty liberal.

00:46:32.360 I feel like, I feel like for most, most Asian girls, I don't, maybe more Americanized Asian

00:46:37.480 girls, less traditional ones.

00:46:38.840 I feel like maybe they'd let that slide, but they were like for, um, their parents were,

00:46:44.140 uh, immigrants. 0.97

00:46:46.400 Okay.

00:46:46.800 So like not, they were born in the U S but parents were immigrants.

00:46:51.160 Yeah.

00:46:51.320 Um, I mean, actually, no, one of the girls just, she, just, she was a simp. 0.98

00:46:59.000 She paid for everything.

00:47:00.800 The Chinese girl, right? 0.96

00:47:01.700 The Vietnamese girl.

00:47:02.520 Oh, wow.

00:47:04.000 Surprisingly.

00:47:04.520 Like to just right off the bat?

00:47:06.480 Yeah.

00:47:06.660 She'd like just bring me food all the time and pay for everything. 1.00

00:47:09.860 Not, well, to be fair, we didn't like go out a lot, but she just like bring over food 1.00

00:47:14.420 and shit. 0.99

00:47:15.360 Wow. 1.00

00:47:15.840 She's also, wait, no, I'm not going to say that.

00:47:17.420 Why'd y'all break off that?

00:47:17.920 So like your mother?

00:47:19.180 Uh, she. 0.99

00:47:19.580 She was crazy. 0.91

00:47:24.460 Like what did she do? 0.98

00:47:25.160 That was crazy.

00:47:25.480 That's the trade-off.

00:47:26.000 See, that's the trade-off that you get.

00:47:27.600 The crazy hot matrix.

00:47:29.480 That's what you wanted.

00:47:30.440 Oh, because of the food buying?

00:47:32.480 Yeah.

00:47:32.640 Cause she's going to be a simp for you. 1.00

00:47:33.960 That means she's fucking crazy for you. 1.00

00:47:35.840 So she's going to control every other part of your life. 1.00

00:47:38.500 Well, no, she, I was, I was in charge, but she would pay. 0.70

00:47:44.260 She was like a simp. 0.99

00:47:45.280 Wait, but then how was she crazy? 0.98

00:47:46.900 Well, she had borderline personality disorder. 1.00

00:47:49.580 She was like very needy. 0.93

00:47:51.040 Well, I'll say this.

00:47:52.480 The very first time we hung out, she went through my phone and got pissed at me.

00:47:57.000 Like first time hanging out.

00:47:59.360 I ended up dating her for five years, but that's a, that was, uh, do not recommend, do not recommend.

00:48:08.160 But, um, I was young and naive.

00:48:11.260 I was young and naive, but okay.

00:48:12.800 So to get to the date thing, um, yeah, I don't, I don't, I don't really pay on the first date.

00:48:19.780 There are some exceptions where I will pay, but what are the exceptions?

00:48:23.180 Okay, so I'm 33.

00:48:25.560 If I'm dating someone, like, who's say like between 18 to 23, if they're like in college, then okay.

00:48:33.900 Um, but first date, nah.

00:48:37.700 Did you want to say something?

00:48:39.080 No.

00:48:39.300 And I'll tell you why, um, well, well, okay.

00:48:46.600 Gone are the days of people being truly single.

00:48:51.840 Like people are dating multiple people at the same time.

00:48:54.920 So I would feel bad if I like adhere to my traditional gender roles of paying for a date. 0.99

00:49:01.660 If the girl's like fucking three other dudes or fucking one other dude, two other dudes, three other dudes. 1.00

00:49:07.580 Like for me, it's just, I don't even want to, no offense to anybody here, but maybe I'm old fashioned. 0.99

00:49:14.600 Like I want a girl to be truly single, even off rip on the first date. 0.91

00:49:21.500 If she's got another guy, she's entertaining.

00:49:23.680 She's sleeping with this guy over here. 1.00

00:49:25.300 That's fine.

00:49:25.980 You can do it.

00:49:26.640 But just for me, like, I don't, I don't want it.

00:49:30.000 Would that mean that you're also truly single on the first date or?

00:49:34.000 Yeah.

00:49:34.900 What do you mean?

00:49:35.600 Like, yeah.

00:49:36.340 No, no, no.

00:49:37.060 Yeah.

00:49:37.520 Like, what's the trade off?

00:49:38.640 Yeah, of course.

00:49:39.740 Well, like, it's not like a, yeah, of course I'm lying.

00:49:42.000 Or like, yeah, of course I'm being funny.

00:49:43.340 I'm really, like, I'm, I'm super busy.

00:49:46.040 Like I'm really on my, on my purpose.

00:49:47.680 Like I'm working really hard.

00:49:48.700 I got my business.

00:49:49.820 I don't have time to be like juggling three chicks. 0.99

00:49:53.180 I don't have time for it.

00:49:54.520 So like, if I'm talking to a girl, like if, if I sleep with a girl for sure, 0.82

00:49:59.720 she's the only one I'm sleeping with. 1.00

00:50:01.080 Yeah.

00:50:01.240 Like, I mean, most people, they're going to be maybe dating, but like sleeping

00:50:04.580 with a girl.

00:50:05.160 Yeah.

00:50:05.260 I'm probably just one at a time.

00:50:07.060 Right.

00:50:07.420 Cause I'm not interested in one night stands either. 0.99

00:50:09.020 Like to me, that's a, it's a waste of fucking time for me. 0.97

00:50:12.140 Like if I'm going to take you, go on dates and like do all that, do the 0.99

00:50:16.020 whole dance or whatever.

00:50:16.780 Like I want to pursue that.

00:50:19.020 It's not worth it to me to sleep with a girl one time and then never see her 0.94

00:50:21.860 again.

00:50:22.120 So are you like dating for marriage per se?

00:50:24.800 No, no, no.

00:50:25.660 I'm not going to get married ever.

00:50:27.580 That's no.

00:50:28.200 What if you fall in love?

00:50:30.000 Yeah.

00:50:30.220 We can be in love.

00:50:31.160 Are you up front with that?

00:50:31.780 I could.

00:50:32.100 With the girls that you date, do you tell them that from like, from the get?

00:50:34.540 If they ask, I'll tell them.

00:50:36.660 If they ask.

00:50:37.600 Every girl should ask then.

00:50:38.720 Every girl.

00:50:39.220 But, um, no, but I mean, I can have a life partner, but marriage.

00:50:42.800 Wait, why?

00:50:43.720 Why?

00:50:43.840 Why?

00:50:44.040 What's the difference?

00:50:45.060 Because, because men lose in marriage overwhelmingly.

00:50:48.120 What about women lose? 0.99

00:50:48.800 I mean, hit her with a prenup. 1.00

00:50:50.120 Well, maybe you guys, cause you guys might end up being the breadwinners in your

00:50:52.980 relationships because I mean, you guys are high earners, but like the, the way that the

00:51:00.200 court system is set up and the way the marriage laws are in most Western countries, no fault

00:51:06.240 divorce, like it's women are incentivized for divorce. 1.00

00:51:13.120 They're incentivized towards divorce.

00:51:15.260 They get half, they get the money.

00:51:17.380 So it's just, and then you get the government involved and you got to pay for the lawyers.

00:51:21.520 And it's just, why, why do we need the government involved in our love?

00:51:25.720 Well, from a woman's perspective though, like I don't think women, I don't think it works in 1.00

00:51:30.160 favor of women because the older women get the more, like it sounds really crude, but like the 1.00

00:51:35.400 more they depreciate.

00:51:36.480 Right.

00:51:36.700 So like you could divorce your wife at 50 and then start all over and marry a 25 year old

00:51:42.920 girl and just be just fine.

00:51:44.520 And even though she gets half of your money, she doesn't, she doesn't necessarily want 1.00

00:51:48.480 to start all over and she can't get like a 25 year old guy. 1.00

00:51:51.500 And if she does, he might just be in it for the money and he's going to leave her.

00:51:54.220 Like she can't, it's hard for her to find true love where it's not as hard for you.

00:51:58.240 So I feel like that's the trade-off right there.

00:52:00.320 I mean, in the past it made sense because women were not engaging in the labor pool as frequently 1.00

00:52:08.040 as men are.

00:52:08.700 But now, I mean, women are going to college. 1.00

00:52:10.680 Actually, women are, there are more women in college and there are more women who are 1.00

00:52:14.360 getting graduate degrees or undergraduate degrees.

00:52:18.540 I think it's like 60, 40 is the split in universities.

00:52:22.500 So in today's day and age, women are, they're making their own money. 1.00

00:52:25.800 They're getting their own bag.

00:52:27.760 So the alimony laws are outdated and there's a bias in the court system against men.

00:52:35.560 And so it's just a bad bet.

00:52:37.480 And then you get divorced and, and also women initiate like 80% of divorces. 1.00

00:52:42.900 Wait, is that a real statistic?

00:52:44.440 Can we get like fact check that?

00:52:45.760 That's like, is that in the almanac or something?

00:52:47.820 Like, I feel like that's a made up statistic, Brian.

00:52:49.960 No, I think it's real.

00:52:50.860 Women initiate 80%. 0.99

00:52:52.920 Like, how do you know you initiate?

00:52:54.120 Can I ask you, can I ask you, we can go around the table on this.

00:52:56.120 And Jason, I will get back to your super chat on the first date thing.

00:52:58.700 Um, of the breakups that you've had, would you say you've initiated that more or has

00:53:05.200 the guy initiated that more?

00:53:08.480 Of the times you've had to either break up with someone or say, Hey, I don't want to

00:53:14.460 continue seeing you.

00:53:15.840 So I guess that's not, you know, cause sometimes you've been seeing someone for, you know,

00:53:20.320 for dates.

00:53:20.940 That's not really a relationship where you're going to do a proper breakup.

00:53:23.680 But of the times you've ceased a, um, relationship of any duration, I think it's been half.

00:53:33.180 I've only had like four relationships.

00:53:35.300 Okay.

00:53:36.100 So two times you were dumped and two times you dumped them.

00:53:38.900 Yeah.

00:53:39.320 Later.

00:53:39.780 Like, I feel like my last two relationships, I ended in like the beginning to day.

00:53:43.340 Okay.

00:53:44.060 What about you, Jane?

00:53:45.320 No, I, I started the breakups except for one.

00:53:48.900 Okay. 0.99

00:53:49.420 One, one guy like fucked me up. 1.00

00:53:52.360 He fucked you up. 0.99

00:53:53.000 It was like very toxic. 1.00

00:53:54.280 He wrote in a diary about like little tactics to do like how to, how to sleep with women.

00:53:59.960 Yeah.

00:54:00.420 He had a diary?

00:54:01.460 He had a diary.

00:54:01.660 Did you read it?

00:54:02.580 I read it.

00:54:03.160 I did read it.

00:54:03.840 Was it hidden?

00:54:04.300 When he was cooking.

00:54:05.080 No, he left it on the table.

00:54:06.420 It was like, he wanted me to read it.

00:54:07.800 What the?

00:54:08.460 So I was confused.

00:54:09.240 Did it also have his body count?

00:54:10.620 Like his, uh, his bodies?

00:54:12.180 Yeah.

00:54:12.400 Every girl that, every girl that he's dating, like he had like, um, like a list and comparison

00:54:16.340 and he would compare all the girls.

00:54:17.840 Oh, like all the girls he was dating at one time?

00:54:20.320 No, I think in his past.

00:54:21.300 In his whole like past.

00:54:22.100 And he had a whole diary. 1.00

00:54:23.000 Archiving that shit. 1.00

00:54:23.840 Yeah. 1.00

00:54:24.040 Okay.

00:54:24.320 How many were there?

00:54:25.820 I would say there was like four.

00:54:27.960 Oh, that's not, I thought it was going to be like 50.

00:54:30.720 But like detailed, like paragraphs on each four and their characters and their personalities.

00:54:34.720 Yeah, it was, he was toxic.

00:54:38.660 Wow. 1.00

00:54:39.560 Goddamn. 1.00

00:54:40.280 Wait, so, okay. 0.99

00:54:41.020 So of all the times you've had to say, hey, I don't want to see you anymore.

00:54:45.920 You'd say all but one you initiated.

00:54:49.100 Yeah.

00:54:49.460 What about you?

00:54:49.900 I've actually never really been in an actual relationship.

00:54:52.920 You know what?

00:54:53.380 I forgot to do this at the beginning.

00:54:55.180 We need to do the, shoot.

00:54:57.280 Um, I'll, well, okay, we'll do this.

00:54:58.820 So I forgot to, normally I do this like after the intros, but we started talking about the

00:55:04.620 OnlyFans stuff.

00:55:05.220 So we'll go around the table really quick on this.

00:55:06.740 Jason, I will get back to your soup chat.

00:55:08.080 But, uh, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:55:12.500 And that includes seeking arrangements.

00:55:13.820 Go ahead.

00:55:14.900 Uh, it was, oh, current relationship status, single.

00:55:18.280 Uh, what is it?

00:55:19.280 Longest relationship and are you on any dating apps?

00:55:21.480 Longest relationship, uh, four years, which is my first relationship.

00:55:26.160 And, uh, am I on dating apps?

00:55:27.940 Yes.

00:55:28.200 Hinge.

00:55:29.700 Uh, I'm currently single.

00:55:31.360 My longest relationship was three and a half years.

00:55:34.580 And I am currently on Coffee Meets Bagel.

00:55:40.380 Uh, current relationship status, single.

00:55:43.340 Longest relationship, never been in one really.

00:55:46.740 Um, on dating apps, yes, Tinder.

00:55:49.740 So, you've never been in a relationship.

00:55:52.800 Not like that.

00:55:53.100 What is the, what is the longest period of time that you've seen a guy, maybe he didn't

00:55:57.280 end up becoming your boyfriend, so to speak, but what's the longest period of time?

00:56:01.520 Um, I mean, I didn't have a lot of time.

00:56:05.160 I've been focused on school, really, like.

00:56:07.720 Zero?

00:56:08.460 Yeah, like, I mean, like, I've talked to people, like, text them, and then, like.

00:56:12.940 But you've been on dates before, right?

00:56:14.820 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:56:15.460 Have you?

00:56:15.740 And it'll be, like, one or two dates, and, like, that's it.

00:56:18.280 So, like.

00:56:18.740 And you ghost them, or they ghost you?

00:56:20.820 It's more just, like, uh, I don't, I don't know how to describe it.

00:56:24.260 It's like, well, I'm doing school, and you're probably doing school, or your job, or whatever

00:56:28.740 you have to do.

00:56:29.960 It's more like, you know.

00:56:31.320 Are these, like, one night stands?

00:56:32.860 No, no, no, no.

00:56:33.800 Are you a virgin?

00:56:35.800 Like, I don't want to answer that at all.

00:56:37.560 Okay, that's a yes.

00:56:38.260 Go ahead.

00:56:39.960 Um, my current relationship status is single, and the longest relationship I was in was on

00:56:46.260 and off for about two years.

00:56:47.800 Okay.

00:56:48.480 Rock and roll.

00:56:49.360 By the way, no shame at all.

00:56:51.360 No, no, no, no.

00:56:52.100 You're good.

00:56:52.540 Props to you.

00:56:53.520 Um, go ahead.

00:56:54.220 So, I'm actually married.

00:56:56.260 So, that's my longest relationship I've been with.

00:56:59.140 Congrats.

00:56:59.700 Thank you.

00:57:00.220 I've been with him for nine years. 0.99

00:57:01.780 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:57:02.340 High school sweethearts? 1.00

00:57:03.360 Yeah.

00:57:03.680 Is he watching right now?

00:57:04.500 Yeah, he is actually.

00:57:05.580 Nice.

00:57:06.040 What's up?

00:57:06.500 So cute.

00:57:07.020 Oh, my gosh.

00:57:09.280 Um, my current relationship status is single, and my longest relationship, I'll say, three years?

00:57:16.260 Yeah, and I'm not on any dating app.

00:57:19.200 Okay.

00:57:20.560 Good times.

00:57:21.960 Um, okay, so, where were we going there?

00:57:26.020 Okay, so, of the men who you've dated, okay, I remember.

00:57:34.340 Sorry, guys.

00:57:34.740 Here, let me play this for me.

00:57:36.260 Of the times that you've had to break up with someone, or the relationship, however long

00:57:46.000 it's been, are you initiating the end, or is the guy?

00:57:52.140 Getting tongue twisted here.

00:57:53.220 Sorry, guys.

00:57:54.440 You're asking me, right?

00:57:55.760 Yeah.

00:57:56.180 Okay.

00:57:56.880 In my on and off relationship, it was mostly him up until the end, and then I was-

00:58:01.660 Can you tilt the microphone down towards you a bit?

00:58:03.440 And can you just project your voice just a little bit louder?

00:58:06.140 Yeah, sorry.

00:58:06.880 You're fine.

00:58:07.220 Um, in my two-year relationship, that was on and off.

00:58:10.160 It was mostly him, um, and then the end, the last time, it was me, but in, like, little

00:58:16.400 things I have, or, like, situations, it's usually me.

00:58:20.520 Okay, usually you.

00:58:21.420 Go ahead.

00:58:22.100 So, I've only been in one relationship prior to this one, but, um, I broke up with him,

00:58:28.240 because he was kind of boring, so.

00:58:30.160 Ah, he was boring?

00:58:30.980 Yeah.

00:58:31.220 Okay, so your current husband is extremely exciting and captivating.

00:58:37.420 He's the opposite of me, like, he's super outgoing, and I'm, like, shy.

00:58:42.280 Okay, got it.

00:58:43.200 What about you?

00:58:44.600 Do you more often end it, or does the guy more often end it?

00:58:50.680 I think I do, because I just tend to change my attitude, or, like, the way I text him,

00:58:58.260 because I'm not interested.

00:58:59.400 So, I think, like, then I'm, like, okay, I don't want to talk to you no more, you know?

00:59:04.660 Yeah, so, I mean, just, I guess, where I was going with this is that it's a bad bet for

00:59:09.460 men to get married for a myriad of reasons, but one of those, it's more likely, women are 0.99

00:59:15.280 more likely to initiate it.

00:59:17.720 So.

00:59:19.280 But does that, does that, like, I don't understand why, like, maybe it's because men later on

00:59:27.040 in life, maybe they, like, cheat on their wives, like, do you, do you expect women just 0.99

00:59:30.360 to, like, stay with their husbands after being cheated on? 0.53

00:59:32.560 Like, maybe the man, like, you know what I'm saying?

00:59:35.240 Like, that doesn't really, I don't feel like that really says anything.

00:59:38.160 That doesn't say that the woman's divorcing the man to get half his money. 0.97

00:59:42.260 No, not necessarily.

00:59:42.880 Especially now when you say that women make their own money, right? 1.00

00:59:45.840 Not necessarily, well, okay, I'll say this.

00:59:48.240 So, 50% of marriages end in divorce.

00:59:52.060 80% of divorces are initiated by women, I already said that. 1.00

00:59:54.800 90% of child support payments go from men to women.

00:59:58.640 97% of alimony payments go from men to women.

01:00:03.600 It's just, it's a really bad bet for men.

01:00:05.740 Like, you shouldn't enter into a contract with someone who's rewarded for breaking it.

01:00:10.020 And, by the way, I have a list here of some men who have been divorced.

01:00:15.700 You can sign a prenup, though.

01:00:16.780 You can, like, contractually, like, say, you know, put these things on paper and still be, you know,

01:00:22.880 and still be part of, like, still raise, like, a nuclear family, try to, a traditional family.

01:00:26.780 Well, the issue with prenups is prenups can get thrown out.

01:00:32.040 And very often, like, all the woman has to say, or I guess the man could say it, too,

01:00:36.540 if the prenup is kind of unfavorable towards him.

01:00:40.020 I was under duress.

01:00:41.540 I was pressured to sign it.

01:00:43.640 And then it gets thrown out.

01:00:44.720 I mean, I think with Dr. Dre, the prenup he had with his wife got thrown out. 0.99

01:00:48.900 And he got took to the fucking washer. 0.98

01:00:51.560 She took him for, like, she wanted, like, six figures a month in spousal support. 1.00

01:00:56.120 It's just, like, fucking, I mean, I know he's extremely wealthy, but shit's fucking crazy. 0.99

01:01:01.340 So, yeah, prenups get thrown up. 1.00

01:01:02.780 Guys, I'm telling you, prenups are not ironclad.

01:01:06.860 Like, they can be maneuvered around. 0.98

01:01:10.440 Even if you have a lawyer draft that shit up, they can still come after you. 0.99

01:01:14.900 And also in some, let me try to think. 0.99

01:01:19.360 In Canada, you're from Canada, right, Jade?

01:01:21.500 Yeah.

01:01:21.700 There was recently a case where, oh, you're also from Canada.

01:01:26.220 Yeah.

01:01:26.620 Yeah.

01:01:27.060 Eric, I don't know if you're on the other window.

01:01:28.680 You can pull it up.

01:01:29.640 There was this case where this guy wasn't even married to a woman.

01:01:34.120 It was just his girlfriend.

01:01:35.380 Super wealthy guy.

01:01:36.540 They were living together, I think.

01:01:39.320 Just his girlfriend. 0.67

01:01:40.900 And he had to, not married, he had to pay her after the breakup. 0.99

01:01:47.020 Not for child support, but support, because he was providing her with a certain lifestyle or some bullshit. 0.92

01:01:54.780 So, even if you're not married, guys, if you're in Canada, Canada's a lost cause, but no offense, Jade. 0.96

01:01:59.460 Whoa, I didn't know.

01:02:00.800 Eric, pull up the article if you can find it.

01:02:02.560 Something like Canada, man has to pay girlfriend, not married.

01:02:10.820 I don't know.

01:02:11.380 Try to see if you can find it.

01:02:12.040 How did she do that? 1.00

01:02:13.180 Like, she really finessed him.

01:02:14.860 Yeah, how did she do that? 1.00

01:02:15.860 Good for her.

01:02:16.780 She had the best lawyers in the world, probably. 1.00

01:02:18.600 Bad for him, good for her.

01:02:19.500 That sounds like a really outlier case.

01:02:21.500 It is an outlier, but...

01:02:23.600 If you're getting married, though, I feel like if you're married, like, if I marry someone, like, my income becomes his income.

01:02:32.260 Like, you're a team.

01:02:33.080 Like, you can't see it as, like, me versus them, or like, oh, like, you're going to take advantage of me.

01:02:37.720 Like, I feel like if you're really going to, like, be in a marriage, you have to see it as, like, we do this for each other.

01:02:42.860 There's no, like, oh, I did this for you, you did this for me.

01:02:44.980 It's just, like, you guys are one unit.

01:02:46.760 Okay, I mean, I'll give you that, that if you guys have, if your income potential or your earnings are commensurate, then sure.

01:02:57.400 If you're a guy, I mean, there's some other downfalls, too, because, I mean, divorce, then the lawyers get involved.

01:03:02.760 I mean, if your incomes are equal, you guys are probably going to still lose money, both of you, because you got to get the lawyers involved, and then, so that's a whole other thing.

01:03:11.440 But, yeah, if you're a girlfriend, your future wife is going to be a breadwinner, or you're making the same amount of money, then there's, like, less of a risk from the financial component.

01:03:21.420 But it's still a bad...

01:03:25.780 Look at it as a business.

01:03:27.080 It's love.

01:03:27.660 It's marriage.

01:03:28.480 Like, I feel like, who hurt you, Brian?

01:03:30.420 Like, are you, like, who hurt you?

01:03:32.280 Like, it's not about who hurt me, it's just the marriage is a partnership, and it's a financial one.

01:03:39.800 I mean, there's other components to it, but there's a financial component to a relationship.

01:03:45.060 And, actually, most marriages, the leading cause, I think the main cause of divorce is financial issues.

01:03:52.500 So, I mean, of course, I think the financial component to it is definitely important.

01:03:56.900 I mean, love, that's cool, I guess, but, yeah, it's just, sure, if your girlfriend's making good money, then, I guess, okay, get married.

01:04:12.800 It's only okay one way.

01:04:14.580 But if you're the breadwinner, then you have to be, you have to make a more calculated decision about...

01:04:20.900 Also, the thing is, is, like, the only scenario where I would genuinely get married, okay, what are the vows, right, that people say?

01:04:29.700 Till death do us part.

01:04:32.560 50% of marriages end in divorce. 1.00

01:04:35.640 That shit ain't death till you part. 0.99

01:04:37.640 So, people's words mean nothing. 1.00

01:04:40.720 Like, till death do us part.

01:04:42.960 That has to mean something. 1.00

01:04:45.080 If I'm going to marry a girl, that shit's for life. 1.00

01:04:47.680 Like, there is no... 1.00

01:04:49.000 I mean, yeah, I guess I could be divorced, but, like, I would have to be so fucking certain that she's the one. 0.99

01:04:55.120 And even then, like, shit changes, you know? 0.99

01:04:57.360 Who knows what could happen? 0.98

01:04:58.760 I'm sure most people, when they get married, they're not anticipating, yeah, we're probably going to be divorced in three years, you know?

01:05:04.620 So, but, I don't know, people's words don't mean anything. 0.99

01:05:08.160 Like, if I say, for life, I mean, me at least, I mean that shit. 0.97

01:05:14.140 So, but I have a list here of some men who have been divorced. 0.99

01:05:17.460 Is this, like, a random kind of thing?

01:05:21.680 Or, like, you just, like, you had people, like, if you're divorced, like, tell us why.

01:05:25.740 Like, is this from a random generated pool?

01:05:27.980 Of men?

01:05:28.620 Yeah.

01:05:29.300 No, these are celebrities.

01:05:30.920 Oh, okay, okay.

01:05:31.900 Like, very high status men that, if they're getting divorced, what chance does a regular guy stand?

01:05:37.280 Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Dr. Dre, Ryan Reynolds, Tom Brady, Lance Armstrong, Alex Rodriguez, Channing Tatum, Chris Rock, Ben Affleck, Chris Pratt, Liam Hensworth, Ben Stiller, David Duchovny, Orlando Bloom, Tiger Woods, Sean Penn, Sylvester Stallone, Paul McCartney, Ryan Felipe, Jason Momoa, and Michael Jordan.

01:06:01.240 Those are not legit, like, data points.

01:06:03.820 Some of those, first of all.

01:06:04.680 They're divorced, though.

01:06:05.800 Yeah, but some of those, like, those guys did some pretty mean things to their wives. 1.00

01:06:12.420 So, obviously, their wives are going to, you're not going to stand for that, you know?

01:06:16.180 Like, I just.

01:06:17.240 I mean, most of these guys are good guys.

01:06:19.280 Some of them may be.

01:06:20.100 How are you going to say they're good guys and you only see the public perception of them?

01:06:23.080 You don't know them personally.

01:06:24.620 I don't know. 0.99

01:06:24.880 Brad Pitt's kind of a fucking legend in my book. 0.99

01:06:26.920 Brad Pitt? 1.00

01:06:27.520 Are you kidding me?

01:06:28.240 What?

01:06:29.080 What do you mean?

01:06:29.880 Brad Pitt.

01:06:30.960 Like, there's literally, like, pictures of his ex-wife, like, absolutely shouting with joy

01:06:36.040 leaving her lawyer's office for, like.

01:06:38.300 Because she going to get the bag. 0.77

01:06:39.960 Bro, because he's probably, like.

01:06:42.420 No, honestly.

01:06:43.680 And here's the other thing, like, you got to worry about with marriage and, like, having children

01:06:47.300 is they can manufacture false accusations of child abuse, spousal abuse.

01:06:57.360 I'm sorry.

01:06:57.900 Like, and they're going to use that as leverage in divorce proceedings and custody disputes. 1.00

01:07:04.520 So, I guess I'm saying these names because these are very high-status men.

01:07:10.720 A lot of them are exceptionally attractive, wealthy.

01:07:14.860 If high-status, super good-looking, high-status men, wealthy men can't keep a woman, what chance 1.00

01:07:26.240 does the fucking average guy have? 0.99

01:07:28.540 Because they're probably cheating on their women all the time. 0.99

01:07:30.620 Yeah, I mean, like, we're saying, like, things are superficial and stuff.

01:07:33.820 And then you go back and we're like, we don't want anything superficial.

01:07:36.620 But it's, like, behind everything else, behind being super attractive or super rich, you could

01:07:42.240 also be really terrible.

01:07:43.760 And that takes a toll on people, you know?

01:07:46.000 Like, I don't understand why somebody would just stay with a guy.

01:07:48.840 Like, oh, he's emotionally and mentally abusing me, but he's so hot and he's so rich.

01:07:53.860 Like, no, no one realistically is going to do that.

01:07:56.520 I don't know.

01:07:57.180 And obviously their wives didn't because they got divorced, or at least some of those people. 0.88

01:08:00.880 I don't know.

01:08:01.200 My sense is, is that, yeah, maybe some of these guys, there was some infidelity going on.

01:08:06.600 But.

01:08:06.820 But.

01:08:07.740 But.

01:08:08.360 But.

01:08:09.200 But.

01:08:09.820 Come on, Brad Pitt.

01:08:10.780 Hello?

01:08:11.380 Brad Pitt.

01:08:12.740 Do you want to marry Brad Pitt so bad?

01:08:15.720 You know what? 1.00

01:08:16.340 You're, like, dick-riding him so hard right now. 0.99

01:08:17.800 You definitely would. 1.00

01:08:18.640 Gay for pay. 1.00

01:08:19.560 Honestly. 0.99

01:08:20.560 Brad Pitt, my DMs are open.

01:08:21.800 Everything I need to know right now.

01:08:22.880 You know what?

01:08:23.500 I would actually, I would have an, I would have an asexual romantic relationship with Brad

01:08:28.680 Pitt.

01:08:29.160 And would you marry him?

01:08:30.020 No sex. 0.72

01:08:30.740 Would you marry him? 1.00

01:08:31.240 But, like, I'd fucking be his partner. 1.00

01:08:33.720 You marry him? 1.00

01:08:34.440 Would I what?

01:08:35.240 You would marry him?

01:08:36.080 Sure.

01:08:36.880 And then if I.

01:08:38.240 And then if death do you guys part, you guys are just forever together.

01:08:42.120 Get your graves together.

01:08:43.480 I'm not going to front.

01:08:43.840 Get everything enshrined.

01:08:45.000 Like, wow.

01:08:46.060 I'm not going to front.

01:08:46.700 Brad Pitt is hotter, like, than a lot of these chicks out here. 1.00

01:08:49.140 I'm just going to say it. 0.65

01:08:51.340 Sus.

01:08:52.460 Sus.

01:08:55.860 Okay.

01:08:56.540 Are you sure you didn't want to be pegged for cheaper?

01:08:58.800 Right.

01:08:59.100 Yeah.

01:08:59.280 Like, every, the warning signs are here.

01:09:01.300 Okay.

01:09:01.620 The closet, glass.

01:09:03.840 It's okay.

01:09:04.780 We're powers of the people.

01:09:06.040 We're in a liberal area.

01:09:07.440 Like, we're all really good people.

01:09:10.380 I may not be super rich or good looking, but you can trust me.

01:09:13.880 Wait.

01:09:14.160 So you want to get in on the pegging?

01:09:15.720 No, no, no, no, no.

01:09:16.320 I want you to come out to me.

01:09:17.540 That's what I want.

01:09:18.200 To come out as, as, as, what?

01:09:21.180 Asexual, gay, like, whatever you're comfortable with, you know?

01:09:23.940 Wait, chat.

01:09:24.400 This is a comfortable thing.

01:09:25.360 Chat.

01:09:25.880 Come on, guys.

01:09:28.580 Would you guys go for Brad Pitt?

01:09:31.480 Brad Pitt is so...

01:09:32.420 Chat.

01:09:33.340 One in the chat if you'd get with Brad Pitt.

01:09:35.920 I don't think Brad Pitt is attractive anyway.

01:09:37.980 I don't either.

01:09:38.560 And the fact that you chose Brad Pitt, Brad Pitt out of Ryan Reynolds is crazy.

01:09:44.620 It's absolutely crazy.

01:09:45.800 You had Ryan Reynolds in that list and you chose Brad Pitt.

01:09:49.040 He's a great actor, though.

01:09:50.460 You guys would not date Brad Pitt.

01:09:52.380 Absolutely not.

01:09:53.400 We'll go one by one.

01:09:55.560 Would you date Brad Pitt?

01:09:56.480 No.

01:09:57.320 No.

01:09:57.980 No.

01:09:58.680 No.

01:09:59.540 No.

01:10:00.000 Well, you're married.

01:10:00.680 No.

01:10:03.080 Really?

01:10:03.860 Yes.

01:10:04.240 Ryan Reynolds.

01:10:05.920 You had Ryan Reynolds in that list.

01:10:08.300 If you chose anybody else and you chose Brad Pitt, like, really, be for him.

01:10:11.740 Brad Pitt is...

01:10:12.740 I mean, Ryan Reynolds, personality-wise, I don't know.

01:10:16.640 What?

01:10:17.260 Deadpool man himself?

01:10:18.460 I don't know.

01:10:18.900 I don't know.

01:10:18.920 I'm Ryan Reynolds.

01:10:20.120 He's a stud muffin.

01:10:21.300 Exactly.

01:10:21.500 Brad Pitt has the more...

01:10:23.120 Ryan Reynolds is funnier, but Brad Pitt just...

01:10:25.800 Brad Pitt.

01:10:26.540 In a zombie apocalypse.

01:10:27.560 More intense.

01:10:27.660 He's more intense.

01:10:28.280 In a zombie...

01:10:28.980 Although Brad Pitt's kind of old.

01:10:30.600 Yeah.

01:10:30.980 Yeah.

01:10:31.640 Oh, God.

01:10:32.160 This is sus.

01:10:32.920 Yeah.

01:10:33.220 You're...

01:10:33.560 Wait, don't show...

01:10:35.040 Eric, don't show this.

01:10:36.020 Don't...

01:10:36.840 Don't show that.

01:10:37.640 Keep it going.

01:10:37.920 Yeah, keep it going.

01:10:38.840 Okay, last one.

01:10:39.620 Last one.

01:10:40.020 There we go.

01:10:40.860 Lone tardigrade.

01:10:41.780 Jesus Christ.

01:10:42.700 Okay.

01:10:43.640 I've super derailed this conversation.

01:10:46.100 Okay.

01:10:46.360 I got to get back to the soup chat.

01:10:47.540 By the way, guys, get your soup chats in.

01:10:51.000 Let's see.

01:10:51.540 So, okay.

01:10:51.900 I want to get back to...

01:10:53.100 Are you okay?

01:10:54.980 Is it hurting?

01:10:56.040 Yeah, it's like a little tight.

01:10:57.200 I might change out of it in a bit.

01:10:58.640 Okay.

01:10:59.020 If you want, you can just pop that piece off, like, just here at the table.

01:11:03.800 Like the...

01:11:04.080 This piece?

01:11:04.660 Yeah, just the red thing.

01:11:05.640 No, no, no.

01:11:06.340 Oh, the whole thing is just...

01:11:07.660 It's like tight on my chest.

01:11:09.020 Okay.

01:11:10.180 What's up, dude?

01:11:10.660 I'll like stick it for like five more minutes and I'll like take it off.

01:11:13.200 Or you can just leave it on the rest of the show.

01:11:14.720 I mean, then...

01:11:15.360 You want me to leave it on the rest of the show?

01:11:16.600 It looks good.

01:11:17.300 I think it looks good.

01:11:18.040 Is that your fetish?

01:11:19.400 Probably anime girls. 1.00

01:11:21.020 Sailor Moon?

01:11:21.940 No.

01:11:22.980 Oh.

01:11:23.440 No.

01:11:23.600 But you really wanted me to wear this. 1.00

01:11:25.600 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:11:26.500 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. 1.00

01:11:28.320 It was like a passing...

01:11:30.320 It was like a passing, like...

01:11:32.820 Jade, I mean, if you really want...

01:11:34.580 I mean, to be fair, you were in like pajamas.

01:11:37.860 So I was like, how can we spice up the attire a little bit?

01:11:42.480 You know?

01:11:43.620 She was in sporty gear.

01:11:44.860 And I feel like more people are going to sub on your OnlyFans wearing this than what you were wearing before.

01:11:51.520 So I was looking out for you, Jade.

01:11:52.600 I think if you're uncomfortable, you should change.

01:11:54.020 Jade, I was looking out for you.

01:11:54.860 Whenever you're uncomfortable, change.

01:11:56.820 I thought your alpha was cute.

01:11:58.360 Yeah.

01:11:58.660 I would wear it.

01:11:59.340 That's on brand for you.

01:12:00.680 Also, by the way, are you guys going to do a promo code for whatever?

01:12:04.820 Like for you guys as OnlyFans, you guys should do a promo code.

01:12:08.160 I don't...

01:12:08.680 I'm not saying give me a cut.

01:12:09.440 I'm just saying do a promo code like 10%, 20% off.

01:12:12.840 It's already like 75% off.

01:12:15.000 Your first month is like $5.

01:12:16.420 Okay.

01:12:17.580 All right.

01:12:18.060 So let me address the who should pay on the first date thing.

01:12:21.680 Okay.

01:12:21.960 So pulling this back up.

01:12:23.020 Jade, can you read this?

01:12:23.800 Because I know you're dying to read it.

01:12:26.280 Brian, hypothetical questions.

01:12:28.280 Since I know you're a man of God, if you...

01:12:30.600 Wait, that one?

01:12:31.320 If you were to go on a date with Fun Lee, how would you not pay for the first date?

01:12:36.860 So I'll tell you what I'll do to not pay. 0.99

01:12:40.760 First off, you can do some shit that's free. 0.99

01:12:43.120 Go for a walk. 1.00

01:12:44.580 Go to the beach.

01:12:46.080 Oh, God.

01:12:46.580 I've got to walk.

01:12:48.120 You can do that.

01:12:49.200 I'm not really big on that.

01:12:52.280 I'll typically meet for like coffee or tea or...

01:12:55.440 Because I'm not a big drinker.

01:12:56.220 I don't really drink like that.

01:12:57.340 Sometimes I'll meet at a quiet lounge.

01:12:59.840 I don't like bars or clubs.

01:13:01.220 So I don't really...

01:13:02.060 Like I don't party.

01:13:03.460 So quiet lounge.

01:13:05.960 Have a glass of wine, a beer.

01:13:07.760 Here's what you do, guys.

01:13:08.800 Here's what you do.

01:13:11.320 You arrive early.

01:13:12.560 Five to ten minutes early.

01:13:13.960 And it depends.

01:13:15.020 If there's...

01:13:15.440 I mentioned this in the last show.

01:13:16.740 If there's a waiter...

01:13:18.120 If you're early, the waiter comes up and you're like,

01:13:21.240 Hey, separate checks at the end before the girl arrives. 1.00

01:13:28.660 So it's not an awkward thing.

01:13:31.120 Like when the waiter comes, you have to beforehand say separate checks.

01:13:35.700 Wow.

01:13:36.100 Or what you do if you arrive at the bar or the lounge early and there's not a waiter.

01:13:41.520 You go to the bar.

01:13:42.680 You already get your drink.

01:13:43.720 Then you go sit in the booth.

01:13:45.140 And then you already have your drink.

01:13:46.600 Because even if you're five, ten minutes early, she's going to be late. 0.78

01:13:51.760 She's going to be five, ten minutes late anyway. 0.98

01:13:53.380 So you get your drink.

01:13:56.960 Then you already have your drink.

01:13:58.220 Then when she arrives, she's like, you say, Oh, I already got my drink.

01:14:03.160 Go ahead.

01:14:03.900 Go ahead and get yourself a drink.

01:14:05.760 I'll save the table.

01:14:06.980 Boom.

01:14:08.500 And then you don't have to pay.

01:14:09.640 No, never do food dates.

01:14:11.100 Don't do food dates.

01:14:12.200 But then how do you get them to like go out with you?

01:14:14.320 What do you mean?

01:14:14.820 On coffee, for example.

01:14:15.820 I'll be like, let's meet for at Starbucks at 7 p.m. or, you know, whatever it is.

01:14:20.120 But do girls agree to that? 1.00

01:14:22.020 Do like a majority of girls agree to meet me for dates?

01:14:25.180 Yeah.

01:14:25.600 For like coffee or like a walk in the park?

01:14:27.100 Yeah, coffee or like a drink somewhere.

01:14:29.340 I don't do walks.

01:14:30.320 I'll meet either for coffee or I'll meet for like a drink.

01:14:33.140 I feel like there's...

01:14:34.120 I've got some spots.

01:14:35.020 Oh, really?

01:14:35.480 Yeah.

01:14:36.040 The Ritz is good.

01:14:36.860 Can I just ask a question?

01:14:38.760 Yeah, go ahead.

01:14:39.580 So you've been using this tactic for a while.

01:14:42.300 Like how many of those like stuck?

01:14:43.780 Like 30, because you're 33.

01:14:45.780 How many of those stuck from like say like 29 to like your current age?

01:14:49.280 I'm sorry.

01:14:49.580 I keep on banging my nails on the table.

01:14:50.820 No, that's right.

01:14:51.160 Don't even trip.

01:14:51.940 Yeah. 1.00

01:14:52.080 So I've, and by the way, guys, you're going to lose girls if you do this shit. 1.00

01:14:57.300 But here's the thing. 1.00

01:14:58.120 I'm a man of principle.

01:15:00.100 Principle.

01:15:00.640 I am a man of principle.

01:15:01.840 And, you know, listen, I'm an egalitarian.

01:15:05.860 I believe in equality.

01:15:07.820 So, you know, yeah, you know.

01:15:11.300 Do they get mad at you?

01:15:12.800 Do they get mad?

01:15:13.940 Yeah.

01:15:14.180 When you do that, do they ever like throw you shade or anything?

01:15:17.400 You know, the thing is, is that Santa Barbara is a pretty liberal place.

01:15:20.640 So a lot of girls are, they would probably identify politically as pretty liberal. 1.00

01:15:24.180 So, I mean, I feel like most, I mean, I don't know.

01:15:29.120 There's a lot of women who are like feminist until the check comes. 1.00

01:15:31.660 So I've definitely lost girls because of it for sure.

01:15:36.440 But like, I'm not, it's okay.

01:15:39.340 It's not all, Jade, it's not all about the money.

01:15:41.760 It's about the love.

01:15:42.780 You have your co-host to keep you company, you know?

01:15:45.600 That's what I think.

01:15:46.620 Yeah. 0.99

01:15:46.840 No, I mean, look, guys, if you do this shit, especially if you do this somewhere that's 1.00

01:15:51.140 not as liberal as California, you're going to lose girls if you don't, if you don't pay 1.00

01:15:55.400 for girls on the first date.

01:15:57.040 But yeah, it hasn't been a major issue for me.

01:16:00.240 So.

01:16:00.700 It's not because we don't have the money to pay for our own meal.

01:16:03.680 You know that, right?

01:16:04.100 It's not because it's like, we're too cheap to like.

01:16:05.880 It's the principle.

01:16:06.620 Yeah, it's the principle.

01:16:08.140 He's making us all.

01:16:09.260 Wait, why is it the principle that the guy should pay?

01:16:11.860 Well, I feel like in order for a big, a big indicator of how invested a guy is into me,

01:16:19.920 I think is like how much monetarily he'll invest.

01:16:23.780 And I'm not saying like how many gifts he can give us, but it's like acts of service and

01:16:26.780 just something as little as like paying for a meal.

01:16:28.500 It doesn't have to be like, it doesn't have to be like a really expensive meal, but just

01:16:31.820 the gesture of like paying for a meal, I think is a way to kind of gauge if a guy is serious

01:16:36.960 about you or not.

01:16:37.940 If I was to go on a guy who wanted to split the check, I feel like he's, he's not really

01:16:42.260 serious about me or he doesn't like me.

01:16:43.980 I mean, I would actually counter and say that in today's day and age where there's women who 1.00

01:16:48.400 are going on dates specifically to get a meal out of guys.

01:16:51.600 It's called a foodie call.

01:16:52.660 I'm not saying all women do this, but definitely there are women who do it. 1.00

01:16:56.280 Like, I actually think if we want to talk about determining the seriousness in which we're 0.99

01:17:01.860 engaging in the courtship process, I actually think women should be paying the whole fucking 1.00

01:17:06.620 thing. 1.00

01:17:07.080 What? 1.00

01:17:08.020 I turned this shit on you. 1.00

01:17:10.720 So here's why I'll tell you, I'll tell you why. 1.00

01:17:13.440 I'll tell you why.

01:17:15.400 Because men, like if we go on a date with a girl, like we probably, we have a genuine

01:17:20.080 interest in at least sleeping with you.

01:17:24.320 And that's like all we have to ourselves is just like to sleep with us.

01:17:27.920 Like, well, like, okay.

01:17:29.700 I'm sure women will go on a date with a guy cause they're bored. 1.00

01:17:33.600 They're like, I got nothing better to do.

01:17:35.220 I guess, I guess someone, not, not all women, but some women will go and guys don't do this

01:17:40.700 to women.

01:17:41.240 Well, one, because they can't, because there's an expectation that men should pay on the dates, 0.69

01:17:44.660 but women will go on foodie calls. 1.00

01:17:47.640 So they have no romantic interest in the guy and they will just go on the date just to

01:17:52.300 get a free meal, get a free experience.

01:17:54.020 That's so rare.

01:17:55.000 I feel like that happens to like the 1% on Reddit and they're like, this happened.

01:18:00.060 Like, no, it didn't like lock in.

01:18:01.820 They actually, uh, it was a university in Southern California.

01:18:06.060 No, there's a university in Southern California.

01:18:07.700 They did a study on this and something like 33% of the female respondents said that at some 0.85

01:18:13.280 point in time, they did do a foodie call.

01:18:16.700 Come on.

01:18:17.300 You don't have a guy in your phone.

01:18:18.640 That's food, Uber. 0.97

01:18:20.660 Come on.

01:18:21.200 I'm going to admit.

01:18:22.360 Yeah.

01:18:22.520 I've done that before.

01:18:23.500 I made a guy like order me like Uber eats when he's like living in another country.

01:18:27.020 So I've done that before.

01:18:28.240 Yeah.

01:18:28.940 Yeah.

01:18:29.340 But the guys are so willing to do it.

01:18:31.540 Like simps.

01:18:32.900 Yeah.

01:18:33.560 Like simps.

01:18:34.560 I mean, if they want to do it, I'm not going to openly like go through my phone and see

01:18:38.260 these messages on Tinder and like scroll through them.

01:18:40.560 And like, there's men like begging to like take you out.

01:18:44.740 Like it's, they're doing it to themselves, honestly.

01:18:49.160 Well, yeah.

01:18:49.720 I mean, that is sort of the, I mean, the whole idea of whoever asks should pay.

01:18:55.240 So like, if you want to be taken seriously, act serious.

01:18:56.840 Make it clear that you're serious about what you're doing.

01:18:59.060 I couldn't have totally serious intentions to date a girl and not want to pay for her 1.00

01:19:04.000 shit. 0.99

01:19:04.560 But like what, but you're just going to promise her that with your words that you say don't 1.00

01:19:08.200 really matter, especially in like a marriage situation. 1.00

01:19:10.460 But like how many, how do you show her that you're not just trying to fuck her and use 1.00

01:19:14.040 her? 1.00

01:19:14.300 How does she know?

01:19:14.920 But how many girls, how many times does a guy pay only to hit it and quit it? 1.00

01:19:20.460 Like, I don't think a guy paying is a great metric of this guy's going to take you seriously.

01:19:25.120 It's a better metric than him asking you to split the check.

01:19:27.920 That way I think it, do you think it's more likely if that he'll hit and quit it if he

01:19:33.220 asked to split the check?

01:19:34.760 Yes.

01:19:35.400 Yeah.

01:19:35.840 Really?

01:19:36.040 I mean, in my eyes, like if I, like if you're pursuing a relationship and you ask the girl

01:19:41.580 on the first date, you would pay.

01:19:43.340 But like, if you're just trying to like be friends with benefits or like something, or

01:19:47.280 it's like further in a relationship, like something like that, like it would be fine to split it

01:19:51.440 because it's not as like formal as like wanting to pursue a relationship with this woman that

01:19:54.740 you're asking to go on a date with.

01:19:57.340 You're taking this person there.

01:19:58.940 You're asking for them to come meet you there or wherever, however it's getting to this

01:20:03.660 location, like you're putting in the effort.

01:20:06.320 So it might as well just finish the effort that you're putting in.

01:20:08.420 No, I mean, listen, I realize I have a very peculiar position.

01:20:12.880 I think a lot of men would disagree with me on this. 0.75

01:20:17.200 Also, a lot of men disagree with me on this one, but it's just the shitty hill that I'm 0.98

01:20:23.860 going to die on, I guess. 0.92

01:20:25.620 Like, I'm just, that's just my position, you know?

01:20:29.900 And it like, look, I've already said it guys.

01:20:32.740 If you, if you do the whole, you're going to lose girls.

01:20:35.760 Like some girls want the guy to pay. 1.00

01:20:37.720 They're going to, it's going to be a turnoff or whatever it may be.

01:20:40.760 So, but to me, I'm like, I'm an egalitarian.

01:20:45.080 I am a true egalitarian.

01:20:46.440 So step up.

01:20:49.180 In my experience, the one date that I went on, I offered to split it because I knew I

01:20:52.620 could pay for my food. 0.99

01:20:53.880 Based fucking legend. 1.00

01:20:55.320 Go ahead. 1.00

01:20:56.480 Okay.

01:20:56.920 You're a legend.

01:20:57.700 Thank you.

01:20:58.460 Yeah.

01:20:58.720 I know.

01:20:59.120 But you know, thank you for the next.

01:21:00.100 Yeah.

01:21:01.340 He paid for it.

01:21:02.400 Right.

01:21:02.620 But then I said, oh, if you're down for a second date, then I have the next one.

01:21:05.900 And that's what I did.

01:21:06.740 Like that, I feel like it's a, it's a trade-off, you know, like that.

01:21:10.400 And that's nice of you.

01:21:11.140 The thing is though, is that a lot of dates don't make it to the second date.

01:21:15.420 That's the other thing too.

01:21:16.480 Like in the past, when guys were, maybe there's a greater expectation for men to pay in today's

01:21:22.680 day and age, the likelihood of any of a first date going further than that is greatly diminished.

01:21:29.200 Like back in, you know, say even 10, 20, 30 years ago, 40, 50 years ago, if you took

01:21:36.200 a girl on a date, there's a pretty good likelihood that there's going to be a second date. 0.98

01:21:41.060 There's a pretty good likelihood that it's going to go further.

01:21:44.040 I mean, the further back in time you go, probably 1950s, 1960s, you first date, maybe you go on

01:21:53.100 three dates, you date three different guys.

01:21:56.000 And then the third one, that's your husband today.

01:21:59.860 Like people, people have so many options.

01:22:03.780 So there's a greater financial burden on men.

01:22:08.140 If the likelihood of any given date goes the distance.

01:22:12.160 I mean, I can speak from experience.

01:22:13.840 Like I would say most first dates for me don't go past, I'd say 50%, I'd say about 50% of first

01:22:21.660 dates don't go past the first date.

01:22:24.020 Right.

01:22:24.880 And so like, would you say that that's more like you should reflect and like see what

01:22:28.640 you can improve on for the next date or like, like, are we like working towards like bettering

01:22:34.600 ourselves for like a new date or are we just kind of like wallowing in like us?

01:22:38.980 Like, oh dang, there's like no other date.

01:22:40.560 Like, what are we doing here?

01:22:41.400 What do you, what do you mean?

01:22:42.160 Like, I mean, like, like, so you don't get a second date, you know, assumably like.

01:22:47.360 She could just not like me.

01:22:48.740 It's not necessarily that I did anything wrong.

01:22:50.560 Maybe I did do something wrong, but I mean, women often talk about chemistry and like, 1.00

01:22:56.700 you know, the thing is, is that, well, sorry, go ahead.

01:23:00.820 I'll continue with your question.

01:23:02.160 No, no, no.

01:23:02.600 Like, I just want to know, like, so say you really like this girl, right?

01:23:06.780 Yeah.

01:23:07.540 But then there's no second date.

01:23:09.340 Do you ever like reflect and you're like, wait, dang, like what did I do wrong?

01:23:13.100 Because obviously there's a pattern of dates not making it to the second date since, hence

01:23:17.980 why you're going on more dates, right?

01:23:19.960 And you're catching yourself in this position.

01:23:21.460 So like, are you reflecting on like why these dates aren't being, you know, pushed further

01:23:26.920 or are we just kind of being like, oh, well time to go on a new date and then be like,

01:23:30.980 well, it's her not being intimate.

01:23:32.520 Are you saying that I should try to be persistent?

01:23:36.160 Because I mean, I'm asking, I'm not like a pushy guy like that, like, and that's perfectly

01:23:39.940 fine.

01:23:40.280 But I just want to know, like, are you, are you reflecting at all?

01:23:43.100 If I fuck up on a date, I'm going to be like, okay, I did this wrong.

01:23:46.780 I got to maybe adjust here. 0.97

01:23:47.980 Maybe I was a bit nervous.

01:23:49.220 Yeah, of course there's reflection, but I mean, sometimes it just comes down to, and sometimes

01:23:54.180 I don't want to pursue it too.

01:23:55.420 Sometimes I don't want to have a second date.

01:23:57.980 But yeah, certainly there's some degree of, you know, and sometimes it's just, you're not,

01:24:03.360 it wasn't a match and I mean, what I'll do is before I even go on a date with a girl,

01:24:08.140 I want to hop on the phone and talk for like at least 20, 30 minutes, feel it out.

01:24:12.180 Because I want to like, I've, I've done that in order to potentially avoid the whole date.

01:24:19.380 So I can like get a feel for her.

01:24:21.320 Right.

01:24:21.440 Because, you know, you can text and everyone's real fucking clever when they can have a few

01:24:26.120 seconds to think and, you know, you can, you can feel things out much better over a phone

01:24:31.080 conversation.

01:24:31.580 So almost universally, I'm going to hop on the phone with a girl before I meet her in

01:24:35.120 person.

01:24:35.600 Okay.

01:24:36.080 So I'll screen it there.

01:24:36.980 And I've definitely opted to not go on a date with a girl that I was otherwise thinking

01:24:40.880 about going on a date with because we had a phone conversation.

01:24:43.160 I was just, just didn't, I wasn't feeling it maybe.

01:24:45.940 And it also gives them an option to opt out too. 0.99

01:24:48.440 Maybe they don't like my fucking voice, you know, whatever, whatever the fucking reason 1.00

01:24:52.680 may be. 1.00

01:24:53.980 It gives both parties an option to opt out.

01:24:56.060 So I'll always do a phone call before a first date.

01:24:59.140 So yeah, sometimes in person, like I'm kind of a, I'm kind of weird.

01:25:02.540 So I don't know.

01:25:03.840 Weird how?

01:25:04.740 Like, here's a reflection.

01:25:06.580 Like we're building on something.

01:25:07.800 Where's the weirdness coming from?

01:25:09.340 Yeah.

01:25:09.580 I'll lay back in the couch.

01:25:11.000 So, I mean, like, um, like I'm not super flirty on dates. 0.98

01:25:18.420 Like I'm pretty, I'm not like, bro, I'm, I'm, I'm a nerdy fucking dude. 0.89

01:25:23.380 Like I don't have game, you know, like I can, what's that? 0.97

01:25:27.060 Yeah, you do.

01:25:27.920 I have game.

01:25:28.520 You have game.

01:25:29.200 A little bit.

01:25:29.760 You have a lot of game.

01:25:30.740 Um, I'm not a, I'm not like a cool guy.

01:25:33.620 Cool guys.

01:25:34.120 I'm not a cool guy.

01:25:35.220 You know, I definitely.

01:25:36.280 Yeah.

01:25:37.280 I guess, you know, but, um, no, it's just, uh, you know, I don't know.

01:25:44.100 Like you could go up to, you can get a girl just by saying, Oh, Hey, um, yeah. 0.69

01:25:50.060 Let's role play.

01:25:51.140 Okay.

01:25:51.560 Jade.

01:25:51.780 Let's role play.

01:25:52.800 Tell me how to get a girl. 1.00

01:25:55.120 So you want me to be you or?

01:25:56.580 You be the guy.

01:25:57.260 I'll be the girl.

01:25:57.800 Let's role play.

01:25:58.440 Okay.

01:25:59.040 Hey, um, how's it going?

01:26:03.060 Oh, hi.

01:26:04.260 You have really nice eyes.

01:26:05.860 Thanks.

01:26:06.380 I can tell you're a kind soul.

01:26:07.860 Thank you.

01:26:09.620 Do you have a bandaid?

01:26:12.360 What?

01:26:13.560 Do you have a bandaid?

01:26:16.180 No.

01:26:17.100 Because I scraped my knee falling for you.

01:26:20.120 That's a good one.

01:26:20.900 That's good.

01:26:23.500 Yeah.

01:26:24.000 Do you see that coming?

01:26:25.240 Or do you want to come later?

01:26:27.960 Wow.

01:26:28.440 That's, that's really, wow.

01:26:30.980 That's, that's, ew, that's forward.

01:26:33.460 Oh, okay.

01:26:34.020 It's really forward.

01:26:34.980 I just want to make you laugh.

01:26:36.240 I just want to see you smile.

01:26:37.880 This is a, you have a really nice smile.

01:26:39.440 Like, he's blushing.

01:26:42.440 I know, right?

01:26:42.840 Ultimate risk.

01:26:43.740 That'd be true.

01:26:45.880 So, like, how about we go out to dinner Saturday night?

01:26:49.520 Where?

01:26:49.860 You free?

01:26:51.160 Maybe.

01:26:52.480 Come on, I know you're free.

01:26:53.420 You got nothing to do.

01:26:54.520 On Saturday?

01:26:55.460 Yeah.

01:26:55.700 Actually, me and my girls were going to.

01:26:58.860 Well, you can tell your girl to come with.

01:27:01.220 To, to dinner?

01:27:02.300 Yeah.

01:27:02.920 You're going to pay?

01:27:03.660 I'll pay for everything, yeah.

01:27:05.140 But you've already lost.

01:27:06.160 I'm sorry, but you just lost right there.

01:27:07.780 What, I got two girls on a dinner date? 0.99

01:27:10.220 You guys, can I take, okay.

01:27:12.660 Come on, that's a win.

01:27:14.420 Taking two girls on a date.

01:27:15.160 Can I, can I take three of my girlfriends with me? 0.95

01:27:18.180 I would say two.

01:27:19.520 So, three total?

01:27:20.800 No, two.

01:27:22.100 Oh, so you can bring a friend and a girlfriend.

01:27:23.960 And I'll bring my friend.

01:27:25.200 And we can have a double date kind of thing.

01:27:26.500 A two man.

01:27:27.260 Oh, okay.

01:27:27.920 Yeah, a two man.

01:27:28.840 Okay.

01:27:29.520 How about that?

01:27:30.440 Yo, Becky. 0.97

01:27:31.420 I'm going to mess the shit out of this. 0.92

01:27:33.580 Okay, can we get sushi? 0.84

01:27:35.860 You want sushi?

01:27:36.760 Yeah, I want sushi.

01:27:37.780 Where can we go?

01:27:38.820 How about?

01:27:39.400 Arigato?

01:27:39.780 How about burgers?

01:27:40.720 Burgers? 1.00

01:27:41.100 You like burgers?

01:27:42.160 McDonald's.

01:27:42.520 No, just.

01:27:42.900 I'm out.

01:27:43.320 No, like, like A&W.

01:27:45.080 We got some curly fries.

01:27:47.040 There's no A&W here.

01:27:48.660 There's no A&W in the United States.

01:27:50.220 They got some bomb curly fries, though.

01:27:53.680 Denny's.

01:27:54.160 Denny's.

01:27:54.860 What is the Horton's?

01:27:55.960 What's that?

01:27:56.280 Tim Horton's.

01:27:56.800 Tim Horton's.

01:27:57.420 Sorry, this is.

01:27:58.640 Applebee's.

01:27:59.340 Oh, oh, I'll take.

01:28:00.720 Yeah.

01:28:01.840 Unlimited breadsticks.

01:28:02.840 Okay.

01:28:03.260 Okay, wait.

01:28:03.740 No, Chili's, though.

01:28:04.860 Chili's is better than. 1.00

01:28:05.640 Chili's is fine, yeah. 0.96

01:28:06.240 Yeah, Chili's is way better than Applebee's.

01:28:08.360 Whoever said Applebee's?

01:28:09.320 What about P.F. Chang's?

01:28:11.320 Chili's is slept on.

01:28:12.840 Chili's is so slept on.

01:28:14.080 Or BJ's.

01:28:14.880 I don't know.

01:28:15.080 Is there a BJ's out here?

01:28:16.680 Do you guys know about BJ's?

01:28:17.720 She's actually, I guess the chat's saying that you've got some game, so.

01:28:21.320 Well, she had you blushing for a little bit.

01:28:22.940 Was I blushing?

01:28:23.800 Yeah, you were nervous.

01:28:24.480 You were sleeping in the water.

01:28:25.540 Like, you were like, oh.

01:28:26.520 No, that was just me, like, pretending we're in a bar.

01:28:29.080 You were hiding behind your cup blushing.

01:28:30.700 You want to take me out?

01:28:31.000 You were.

01:28:31.380 Don't be shy, Brian.

01:28:33.300 I know you want to get pegged.

01:28:34.720 Oh, Jesus.

01:28:36.960 I don't think you're going to live that one down.

01:28:39.880 Okay, so let's finish up the whole first date thing.

01:28:44.180 Who should pay?

01:28:44.900 Okay, so there's the whole, like, whoever asks should pay concept.

01:28:48.660 Did any of you say that or not really?

01:28:51.040 Yeah, I kind of did.

01:28:51.380 I mean, most of you just said the guy should pay, so.

01:28:53.580 I kind of said that.

01:28:54.380 Like, if you're going to ask me out to a specific location, like, obviously, don't ask me out to, like, a five-star restaurant if you can't afford to pay for a five-star restaurant, you know?

01:29:03.120 Okay, so just to recap, guys, arrive early.

01:29:06.460 If there's a waiter that comes up, no food dates.

01:29:09.140 If it's drinks, I guess you could go to a restaurant and just get drinks or whatever.

01:29:12.940 If there's a waiter that comes up, you tell him ahead of time before she arrives.

01:29:17.460 Split the check.

01:29:18.820 Give him the advance notice.

01:29:20.100 Or if it's, like, a bar, there's no waiters, you go up to the bar, get your drink, sit down, and then when she arrives, go send her over to get her own drink.

01:29:30.080 Toxic.

01:29:30.780 Can I tell you a better way?

01:29:32.260 Oh.

01:29:32.780 If you really want to get, like, if you really want to get laid down with a girl, there's a better way to do it. 0.98

01:29:37.900 Wait, laid down?

01:29:38.940 Like, to get laid.

01:29:40.320 Oh, no.

01:29:40.740 This is, like, the anti-getting laid strategies I'm talking about here.

01:29:45.460 I told the guys that you're going to lose women doing this. 0.97

01:29:50.440 But don't you want to gain women?

01:29:53.420 Yes, but it's, like, a matter of principle.

01:29:56.080 Like, it's a principle thing.

01:29:57.900 But, like, I feel like you should be able to, if you invest a lot in the date, then you get a higher chance of getting on a second date.

01:30:05.200 He's too proud to do that.

01:30:06.640 He's too proud to do the investment.

01:30:08.320 He said he's going to die on the hill.

01:30:10.300 I will die.

01:30:11.160 You cannot convince him to pay for anyone.

01:30:13.100 Maybe you just haven't met, like, a girl that you actually, like...

01:30:16.480 Are crazy for?

01:30:17.160 Yeah.

01:30:17.640 Okay, on the...

01:30:18.520 Okay, and I need to give more reasons why I don't do it.

01:30:22.840 But you said whoever asks.

01:30:24.260 Here's the thing.

01:30:24.840 Have you ever asked a guy out on a date?

01:30:26.560 Yeah.

01:30:27.260 Okay.

01:30:28.540 Don't ask me a question if you're not going to believe my answer.

01:30:31.080 Yeah.

01:30:31.300 But, like, okay, that's fine.

01:30:33.380 You do it.

01:30:34.040 You're an outlier.

01:30:35.400 But...

01:30:35.560 Says who? 0.65

01:30:37.380 Outlier to who?

01:30:38.100 Most women don't be initiating like that. 1.00

01:30:41.500 I...

01:30:43.700 Women... 1.00

01:30:44.200 Based on...

01:30:45.960 Based on first...

01:30:47.240 Back in your day or what?

01:30:48.020 Because...

01:30:49.420 Modern day.

01:30:50.480 Yeah.

01:30:51.020 Even modern day.

01:30:51.920 Like, okay.

01:30:53.020 There's evidence in the...

01:30:55.420 What?

01:30:56.140 What the frick? 0.92

01:30:56.740 Stretch out, baby! 0.99

01:30:57.860 Okay.

01:30:59.080 There we go.

01:31:00.560 She's free.

01:31:02.700 You guys are going to head out?

01:31:03.980 Okay, let me think if I have one more question for you guys before you leave.

01:31:06.760 Sure.

01:31:06.960 No, I don't think so.

01:31:11.600 But thank you guys for coming.

01:31:12.680 Appreciate it.

01:31:13.120 No, thank you for inviting us.

01:31:14.660 Nice meeting you girls.

01:31:15.620 It was so nice meeting you girls.

01:31:16.400 Bye, everybody.

01:31:17.580 By the way, guys, they announced before the show that they had to leave.

01:31:21.760 So they're not, like, leaving because they're upset that I'm a...

01:31:23.860 No, no, no.

01:31:24.480 I need to go and get my daughters. 0.93

01:31:25.060 I'm toxic.

01:31:26.900 How old's your daughter?

01:31:28.860 She's nine months.

01:31:30.540 A baby!

01:31:31.820 I love babies.

01:31:33.040 Oh, my gosh.

01:31:33.480 Yeah, unfortunately, we do have to head out.

01:31:38.960 But, yeah, thank you guys for coming on.

01:31:40.240 Appreciate it.

01:31:40.680 Thank you.

01:31:41.400 Bye.

01:31:42.220 Bye, guys.

01:31:42.680 Nice meeting you.

01:31:43.980 Nice meeting you.

01:31:44.720 I like how you threw shade before you left.

01:31:47.660 Why?

01:31:48.340 You threw some shade.

01:31:49.780 What was the shade?

01:31:50.380 What was the shade?

01:31:51.260 She was, like, back in your day.

01:31:54.340 Yeah.

01:31:54.800 It could have gotten worse.

01:31:56.220 It's all good.

01:31:57.160 All right.

01:31:57.560 See you guys.

01:31:58.100 Take care.

01:31:58.460 Bye.

01:31:58.580 Thank you.

01:32:00.360 I'm just going to put these microphones down on the floor here.

01:32:03.480 Or do I leave them?

01:32:08.200 Yeah, I'll put them down.

01:32:09.860 But.

01:32:12.040 Should have asked to see your baby.

01:32:13.460 I love babies.

01:32:15.780 Vegans?

01:32:16.300 What?

01:32:16.820 Babies.

01:32:17.320 I said babies.

01:32:18.100 Sorry.

01:32:18.920 Vegans.

01:32:19.540 I don't know.

01:32:20.980 Brian, would you ever have a kid?

01:32:23.060 Oh, my gosh.

01:32:25.740 You don't want to spread your seed?

01:32:27.320 No.

01:32:27.500 Probably not.

01:32:28.540 Yeah.

01:32:29.220 If you don't want to get married.

01:32:30.620 Maybe.

01:32:31.280 You want to have a kid without getting married? 0.98

01:32:32.420 I mean, Jade, you can't get me pregnant by the way you want to. 0.94

01:32:38.660 The way you want to do it.

01:32:40.060 Okay.

01:32:42.300 I think we're talking about pegging.

01:32:43.980 Okay.

01:32:45.120 What were we talking about?

01:32:47.420 Sorry.

01:32:48.080 The girls who left threw me off a little bit.

01:32:50.420 Paying, right?

01:32:50.980 Yeah.

01:32:51.660 Paying.

01:32:51.880 Okay.

01:32:52.140 So you were saying that women ask out men at similar rates?

01:32:57.080 Is that your position?

01:32:58.100 No, I will admit, like, men probably do ask out women more, but, like, it's probably, like,

01:33:04.340 I'm not as crazy of an outlier, like, as you are assuming, I think.

01:33:08.740 I would say, of all first dates in the past, let's talk modern times, right?

01:33:15.500 Let's say the past five years.

01:33:17.020 I'm going to say 99% of that's been initiated by men.

01:33:19.940 Like, just from, like, your own experience?

01:33:25.180 No, like, all men.

01:33:26.700 99% is pretty high.

01:33:27.580 All men. 0.93

01:33:28.460 99% of first dates are initiated by men.

01:33:30.900 Even with, like, the introduction of, like, dating apps nowadays, you would think that...

01:33:33.960 It's even worse.

01:33:34.900 Oh, I don't think so.

01:33:36.340 Bumble is initiated by women, right? 1.00

01:33:38.000 Women have to do the first, actually reach out first. 1.00

01:33:40.460 Technically, yes.

01:33:43.340 I mean, but most women on Bumble just say hi or hey and then shuck the entire conversational 1.00

01:33:49.160 burden on the guy.

01:33:50.720 And I think with the introduction of dating apps, women are more inclined to reach out

01:33:54.840 first.

01:33:56.040 Because it's, like...

01:33:56.360 You might send the first message, but, like...

01:33:58.720 That's reaching out first.

01:34:01.200 Reaching out first.

01:34:01.720 But I'm talking about...

01:34:02.840 Are you talking about, like, to make your point of, like, asking...

01:34:06.860 That's a very token level of initiative.

01:34:08.660 Like, are you trying to, like, make your point of, like, asking out to the location

01:34:11.520 so, like, she would pay because she asked you out?

01:34:13.440 Is that what you're, like, trying to get at?

01:34:15.180 Yeah.

01:34:15.580 I mean, there's the initial conversation.

01:34:17.660 I'll maybe say that women reach out... 1.00

01:34:20.900 I'll say it's 95% there.

01:34:23.720 I'll give you 5% on, like, the first message.

01:34:26.440 I think you should give me 20.

01:34:27.340 I think it would be at least 80%.

01:34:28.620 Yeah, I think because, like, you're saying all men and, like, do we have all men here?

01:34:31.700 Like, come on.

01:34:32.860 They've released the data from, like, Tinder and all these sites.

01:34:36.080 Like, women really don't be messaging like that. 1.00

01:34:40.100 Because guys are drived more by sex. 0.99

01:34:42.020 Yeah. 0.96

01:34:42.720 I mean...

01:34:43.080 Guys are hornier than women. 1.00

01:34:44.200 Yeah.

01:34:44.480 Yeah, so I think that's why.

01:34:46.620 Yeah.

01:34:47.820 But nothing precludes women from... 1.00

01:34:50.280 I mean, women are just as desirous of men of finding a partner and having a relationship. 0.99

01:34:55.840 I would say nowadays it's more, like, more women are starting to be comfortable in their 1.00

01:35:02.900 singleness and...

01:35:04.240 Yikes.

01:35:05.080 I mean, you're okay with your singleness, so, like, don't be...

01:35:07.800 Oh, am I single?

01:35:08.740 I mean, I assume so.

01:35:11.400 I didn't reveal...

01:35:12.940 I mean, I don't want to, like, assume anything, but that's what I felt like you were trying

01:35:18.060 to portray.

01:35:18.580 Well, you know, they actually...

01:35:19.780 There's studies released that the demographic of people that are most likely to be on antidepressants

01:35:27.160 are women in their 40s who are single and don't have children.

01:35:33.580 Well, you said that women are more comfortable in their singleness. 1.00

01:35:37.200 I think, like, the newer generation...

01:35:38.640 So, say, like, for our generation, right?

01:35:41.180 Like, there's a lot of girls who are okay with...

01:35:43.580 Yeah, but you're 18, so it's...

01:35:45.160 I mean, like, yeah, but this is kind of a growing thing.

01:35:47.420 Like, nothing just happens, and then it sticks.

01:35:49.480 Like, it takes a while for it to grow and accumulate.

01:35:51.980 Here's the...

01:35:52.780 Okay.

01:35:54.740 Here's the difference between...

01:35:58.100 Sorry, she's just getting up here. 0.72

01:36:02.160 Here's the difference, I would say, between men and women. 0.99

01:36:04.160 When women start making money, they're strong and independent. 1.00

01:36:07.240 They don't need a man. 1.00

01:36:08.360 When men make a lot of money, they think, okay, great, I can support my family.

01:36:12.800 I mean, like, I mean, are you saying that men automatically come with families and women

01:36:20.960 don't come with families?

01:36:22.120 No, but what I'm saying is when men get a successful career, when they start making money, they think,

01:36:27.180 great, I want to be a provider.

01:36:28.840 I want to support my wife.

01:36:30.200 I want to support my family.

01:36:31.400 When women start getting the bag and they start making money, it's often, I'm a strong, 0.99

01:36:36.640 independent woman.

01:36:37.720 I don't need a man. 0.99

01:36:39.000 I would kind of say it's more so the opposite.

01:36:41.160 Like, you see guys with a bunch of money, they're like, bro, I'm going to blow it on

01:36:44.180 strip clubs, a weird car for no reason, like, just doing whatever to do whatever to please

01:36:50.680 anybody.

01:36:51.280 Like, I feel like that's more what it is, you know?

01:36:53.220 Like, I feel like this is more of, like, a game of bias of some sorts because it's like,

01:36:58.400 you say that women are independent once they get their money, which, okay, sure, women 1.00

01:37:02.860 can be independent, but so men get their money and then they blow it on whatever. 1.00

01:37:06.720 You know, more likely you have the men not providing for their families.

01:37:11.240 Like, I feel like that you kind of saying that is kind of a little bit, like...

01:37:16.080 I feel like it's also, like, above a certain income level, too.

01:37:18.520 I feel like if you're middle class, maybe it's, like, they're supporting their families,

01:37:21.140 but if you get above a certain income level, then, like, I feel like men are just as easily, 1.00

01:37:27.180 like, fuck boys. 0.99

01:37:28.600 Honestly, I don't think, like, I feel like you have this, like, idea in your head that women 1.00

01:37:32.540 are, like, constantly trying to take advantage of men for their money. 0.87

01:37:34.980 No, I don't, I don't think that at all.

01:37:36.400 Like, pretty leopard fox, like, I want your money, I want, I want, I want a free meal

01:37:39.740 out of you.

01:37:40.380 Which is...

01:37:40.780 No, I don't, I don't, I don't think that, I don't think that.

01:37:43.900 Did you have, like, something that made you kind of have a perspective towards this or...

01:37:48.880 Towards what?

01:37:49.600 Towards, like, your whole, like...

01:37:50.920 I've actually, overwhelmingly, I'd say...

01:37:53.280 You've had the opposite or...

01:37:54.580 I've had pretty, like, a lot of the women I've dated are, have been fantastic. 0.85

01:37:59.340 Okay.

01:38:00.820 I've, sure, I mean, I think we've all had bad dating experiences, but, I mean, I've, maybe

01:38:07.160 I've lucked out in this, but I've heard from other men, my friends, I mean, I have friends 0.95

01:38:12.600 who've been through the fucking ringer, through divorce, through fucking brutal custody battles, 0.99

01:38:20.100 trying to get their kids. 1.00

01:38:21.060 And, and, uh, there, there is a bias in the court system.

01:38:24.840 Right.

01:38:25.320 Um, against men.

01:38:27.320 And, it's just...

01:38:30.780 I mean, I've heard from a lot of men, and, I mean, I've had, I've had some experiences,

01:38:36.400 like, foodie call experiences, for sure, and...

01:38:39.620 But, I mean, that's a very small portion of the picture that I have of women. 0.98

01:38:46.220 Mm-hmm. 0.99

01:38:46.620 In the same way that I would advise women, like, hey, screen these fucking guys out and 1.00

01:38:52.060 make sure they just, they don't want to just fucking chuck you, like, fucking screen them 1.00

01:38:55.900 out. 0.99

01:38:56.200 If, if you want a serious relationship, like, screen these fucking guys, right? 0.99

01:39:00.680 Now, we can... 0.99

01:39:01.840 How do we do it?

01:39:02.320 How do you suggest that we do it without expecting some type of, like, monetary investment from

01:39:07.780 them?

01:39:07.840 From, from guys?

01:39:08.860 Yeah.

01:39:09.000 Yeah, you're not giving us any ways out of this.

01:39:10.880 Yeah, so how should we screen guys?

01:39:11.680 You're helping, like, your half, and it's like, help us out, too, you know?

01:39:14.220 Yeah.

01:39:14.340 Well, what do you want?

01:39:15.060 Well, okay, we're, we're hitting a whole bunch of people.

01:39:16.600 We're hitting a bunch of different topics here, so.

01:39:17.840 It's okay.

01:39:18.000 We can hit all of them. 0.98

01:39:19.360 Let me just, okay, we'll get to that.

01:39:21.180 Let me wrap up on the whole who should date thing.

01:39:23.300 Right.

01:39:23.940 Here, so.

01:39:26.820 I'll, I'll tell you what.

01:39:28.080 I can agree with the whole, like, whoever asks should pay thing when women ask out men, 0.96

01:39:33.960 ask out men in equal numbers.

01:39:39.280 Until then, like, women overwhelmingly do not initiate first dates, so. 0.93

01:39:44.440 So, word.

01:39:48.380 Okay.

01:39:49.520 I think I've kind of covered it, the whole first date thing, pretty much.

01:39:55.620 I mean, to just reiterate, though, I don't want to adhere to my traditional gender roles

01:40:03.620 with a woman who's not traditional.

01:40:05.060 So, the fact of the matter is, in 2022, you have to, why are you shaking your head?

01:40:08.760 Well, I mean, you can't say you're, like, a traditional man, right, and then say you

01:40:12.620 don't want marriage, because marriage is the standard of being traditional. 0.68

01:40:15.960 Getting married, having kids, that is the, like, that is ideal traditional.

01:40:20.720 Like.

01:40:21.640 Sure.

01:40:22.180 Like, you can't call yourself traditional and be like, I don't want kids.

01:40:25.220 I don't think I'm true.

01:40:26.240 I don't think I'm a traditional man fully.

01:40:28.200 Well, then, so then don't say, like, you're adhering to traditional standards, because then

01:40:32.220 Well, no, I'm not.

01:40:33.300 That's the thing.

01:40:33.980 I'm saying, I'm not going to adhere to my expected traditional gender roles of paying

01:40:39.900 for a first date.

01:40:41.060 Right.

01:40:41.680 If a woman is not traditional herself.

01:40:44.680 Okay.

01:40:45.560 Okay.

01:40:46.300 Yeah.

01:40:46.920 Okay.

01:40:47.340 I'm not mad at you, by the way.

01:40:48.440 No, no, no.

01:40:48.620 I'm not mad at you.

01:40:48.960 We're having a conversation.

01:40:50.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:40:50.380 I appreciate it.

01:40:50.860 I'm engaged.

01:40:51.380 I'm engaged.

01:40:51.420 No, I really appreciate you pushing back on this.

01:40:53.500 So, um.

01:40:54.820 What are your ideas of, like, a traditional woman?

01:40:56.840 Like, what would make you, like, what would a woman do to make you want to pay on the first date? 1.00

01:41:00.300 Well, so, in 2022, and this applies to both men and women, you have to assume going in that 0.97

01:41:06.820 that person that you're going on a date with is fucking at least one other person. 0.97

01:41:12.840 You have to assume that going in. 0.99

01:41:14.200 That is everyone's mantra. 0.99

01:41:15.680 Every person that you go out with is having a fuck fest with seven other people all at once. 0.99

01:41:19.700 Like, you, otherwise you're going to get hurt. 0.99

01:41:21.940 But then how do you know?

01:41:23.520 You have to weed out by going on, like, more dates, getting to know them better.

01:41:27.760 Like, that's how you weed out, and that's how you gain that trust for that person.

01:41:29.900 But it's at least, they're sleeping with at least one other person.

01:41:33.320 People are not truly, truly single.

01:41:35.580 And part of that is because social media and dating apps.

01:41:39.920 We've globalized the sexual marketplace.

01:41:42.300 We have, we've had some girls here on the show who go to UCSB, 19-year-old girls, right?

01:41:47.380 They got, they got NFL players, NBA players, blue check marks in their DMs.

01:41:53.520 Like, very high status men.

01:41:55.460 You think a 19-year-old college guy is going to be able to compete?

01:41:59.820 Like, it's, it's just totally different now.

01:42:02.440 I mean, I'm sure you guys have guys with blue check marks in your DMs, right?

01:42:08.640 On my old account, I did, yeah.

01:42:10.100 Okay.

01:42:10.620 Yeah.

01:42:11.420 Don't, you don't have to say who, but like, give athletes, NBA players, NFL, musicians.

01:42:19.420 I did have a guy who was in my DMs who was, he had a pretty big show on the Food Network.

01:42:26.260 Bourdain?

01:42:27.620 Before he?

01:42:28.160 Just in peace.

01:42:28.700 Just in peace.

01:42:29.160 No, it's not, not, not warning.

01:42:30.660 Okay.

01:42:30.840 Like, yeah.

01:42:31.980 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:42:32.900 Wait, who's the guy with the, who's the, who's the guy with the, uh, bleached hair?

01:42:37.980 Guy Fieri.

01:42:38.640 Guy Fieri.

01:42:39.040 Was it him?

01:42:40.240 No.

01:42:40.620 Okay.

01:42:40.900 I can't say.

01:42:41.260 It was him.

01:42:42.000 Okay, just kidding.

01:42:42.620 Just kidding.

01:42:43.420 Um, NFL players.

01:42:46.040 Rappers.

01:42:46.660 Rappers.

01:42:47.240 Okay, what about you?

01:42:48.340 Um, I had this, uh, social media content creator.

01:42:52.440 He makes like blogs on YouTube, but he has a wife.

01:42:55.300 Logan Paul?

01:42:56.040 No.

01:42:56.300 The guy who has to be pegged?

01:42:57.860 Okay.

01:42:57.960 No, no, no, no.

01:42:58.520 Okay.

01:42:59.400 What about you?

01:43:00.040 Any blue check marks?

01:43:01.040 No.

01:43:01.200 Okay, what about you?

01:43:02.220 Any blue check marks on Instagram?

01:43:03.780 No.

01:43:04.300 In your DMs?

01:43:04.780 Okay.

01:43:05.200 You guys are, whoops, you guys are fairly young though.

01:43:07.700 You're 18.

01:43:08.260 Give it time.

01:43:09.260 The blue check mark DMs will come.

01:43:10.580 But like most guys, like, they're not getting hit up by women with blue check marks in their

01:43:16.960 DMs.

01:43:17.240 Most guys aren't even getting DMed to begin with.

01:43:19.940 Guys' Instagram profiles are crazy.

01:43:21.280 Like, let's touch on that first. 0.97

01:43:22.380 Crazy.

01:43:22.540 Because you guys be holding fish from 2016.

01:43:24.240 What's wrong with that?

01:43:26.620 What's wrong with that?

01:43:27.080 Nothing, but like, how you have to sell yourself a little bit at least.

01:43:31.800 Like, you just, like, you guys have no updated pictures, like, nothing to show for on your

01:43:38.260 account.

01:43:38.540 How are you expected to get, like, hit up when you, your latest picture is from, like, 2018?

01:43:43.520 You know what, though?

01:43:44.300 As a girl, I actually think you should look at that guy and think, he's not super caught

01:43:50.060 up in the social media thing.

01:43:51.800 Like, that might be a guy who's probably less inclined to be, to just hit and quit it.

01:43:59.980 So why would I bother sliding into his DMs over an Instagram app that he doesn't use?

01:44:04.040 So, okay, you're saying that you don't hit up guys, you don't DM guys because their Instagrams

01:44:11.260 aren't popping?

01:44:12.140 Like, that's it?

01:44:12.580 No, I'm just saying hypothetically, like, of course, women who are averagely, like, more 1.00

01:44:17.120 active on Instagram are going to get more people, specifically blue check marks, in their

01:44:23.840 Instagram DMs if they're posting more pictures up to date, you know, than, like, a man who doesn't

01:44:30.740 have as much on his Instagram, of course, a woman, specifically with a blue check mark,

01:44:35.120 isn't going to, like, slide into their DMs that way.

01:44:37.560 They don't even know they exist, most likely, because they're not active on the app.

01:44:41.060 Well, I mean, I will give you that.

01:44:42.560 Like, guys probably are not really on their photo game as well as a lot of women are.

01:44:48.540 Right.

01:44:48.880 Maybe that's because men, they might just not care as much.

01:44:53.060 Right, yeah.

01:44:53.620 Yeah, I mean, sure, maybe guys should step it up and market themselves to be, appear

01:44:59.240 more appealing or actually, you know, show their, but what's with the fish thing?

01:45:03.740 You don't like, is that, I see a lot of girls on the dating app say, don't have a fish pick. 1.00

01:45:08.800 No, I think that's just, like, a funny example, like, especially, like, with our age group,

01:45:12.200 that's, like, men, it's just, like, a funny, it's like a joke.

01:45:16.460 Like, like, a little joke.

01:45:17.660 Wait, how did we get onto that, though?

01:45:19.080 Because you asked about the blue checkmark, and you said, like, men are less likely to

01:45:22.820 have blue checkmarks in their DMs, and I said, yeah, these are Instagrams are crazy.

01:45:27.100 I guess, but, like, I would say there's, okay, the girls at UCSB, right?

01:45:33.980 There's probably a bunch of dudes in their DMs who have blue checkmarks.

01:45:37.820 There's probably a very few guys at UCSB, even really attractive guys, that are getting

01:45:43.040 hit up like that.

01:45:44.040 Even just regular DMs, like, let me ask.

01:45:48.920 I'm curious, how many, I mean, you guys are kind of out there in the ether in terms

01:45:53.520 of, like, you're out there on social media, so you're probably going to get a lot of DMs

01:46:00.160 and stuff, but how often do you get DMs from guys that are, like, hitting you up, maybe

01:46:05.400 for a date, or that it's clear that there's a, they're interested in you?

01:46:09.200 A lot, like, daily.

01:46:10.580 How many per day?

01:46:11.660 How many DMs per day would you say you get?

01:46:14.300 Now that Instagram has this feature where it's, like, if you don't follow them, it just

01:46:17.380 goes straight to, like, a...

01:46:18.400 The hidden folder.

01:46:18.960 Yeah, and then, like, every once in a while, I'll just go through and just, like, mass

01:46:21.380 delete all of them.

01:46:22.080 I don't really, I don't read, I don't read my, I don't read, I don't really read those

01:46:26.340 messages anymore, because I get a lot of them.

01:46:27.920 Yeah.

01:46:28.620 But, yeah, like, daily.

01:46:30.420 Like, would you say 10 a day?

01:46:33.260 Yeah, maybe, like, 10 to 20 a day or something.

01:46:35.420 Jade, what about you?

01:46:36.560 I don't really count, but something like that.

01:46:38.960 Okay.

01:46:39.440 Yeah.

01:46:40.980 I have no big check marks.

01:46:42.340 No, just regular DMs from guys.

01:46:43.960 Regular DMs?

01:46:45.220 Not many.

01:46:46.000 Okay.

01:46:46.320 I DM my friends and, like, that's it.

01:46:47.800 Okay.

01:46:49.260 Yeah, I would say I have quite a few.

01:46:51.040 Quite a few?

01:46:51.580 Okay.

01:46:52.200 Often, yeah.

01:46:53.000 Yeah, most guys, like, they're not getting hit up in the same way that women are getting

01:46:56.380 hit up.

01:46:56.900 How often do you get hit up in the DMs?

01:46:58.820 I've had, okay, I've had two girls in my entire life DM me.

01:47:05.360 Wow.

01:47:05.820 And did you go out with them? 0.99

01:47:07.060 They weren't even in fucking California. 0.99

01:47:09.160 One chick was in Canada. 0.99

01:47:11.300 Was it you?

01:47:12.060 No.

01:47:12.560 Might have been me.

01:47:13.280 Yeah.

01:47:13.900 One chick was in Canada.

01:47:14.960 One was in Chicago.

01:47:18.760 And they're not going to, like, fly out.

01:47:21.360 So, and I'm on social media, too.

01:47:23.900 Like, I'm kind of out there.

01:47:25.100 So, two girls.

01:47:26.540 What about the girls that you pick up in your pranks?

01:47:28.940 In the videos?

01:47:29.580 Yeah.

01:47:30.480 I mean, my philosophy was that.

01:47:32.520 My philosophy with that was it's bad for business.

01:47:37.300 What?

01:47:37.960 So, you don't, it's bad for business because?

01:47:40.600 If they're, like, in the video and then I start dating them, I don't want them, like,

01:47:47.160 to, if I'm dating them, then they're going to come and say, take me out of the video. 0.66

01:47:54.040 I don't want to be in the video, blah, blah, blah.

01:47:55.680 So, I, my, there were maybe a couple girls that I was, like, oh, she's really cute. 1.00

01:48:00.440 I like her personality.

01:48:01.440 I'll pursue it.

01:48:02.420 But most of the girls in the videos, like, it's strictly business. 0.57

01:48:05.460 I'm not going to, like, try to pursue it.

01:48:08.460 Your stuff is mostly geared for, towards, like, males.

01:48:11.480 It's, like, prank stuff.

01:48:12.600 Yes.

01:48:12.840 I mean, that explains it, too, because, like, the vast majority of my audience, it's, like,

01:48:17.660 80, 90% men. 1.00

01:48:18.860 And so, if I was gay, then I'd be fucking killing it. 1.00

01:48:22.420 You would. 1.00

01:48:23.080 I see you guys in the chat. 1.00

01:48:24.280 You can, you can, you can kill it without being gay, but just cater, like. 1.00

01:48:27.880 Cater to the men. 1.00

01:48:28.700 Yeah.

01:48:29.080 There's a lot of guys that have.

01:48:30.700 For sure.

01:48:31.300 That are, like, not gay, but also cater to the gay male audience.

01:48:34.280 And they do very well.

01:48:35.420 Yeah.

01:48:35.640 And there's definitely guys who are on social media who do YouTube, do Twitch, and they

01:48:40.120 have a decent female following.

01:48:42.140 And then, yeah, they're going to get DMs from women, but, yeah. 1.00

01:48:46.420 Anyways, okay, so let's do some super chats.

01:48:50.660 Let's see.

01:48:51.340 Oh, we were talking about marriage, too.

01:48:54.620 The other thing, you made a point that I wanted to respond to, but I forgot what it was.

01:49:00.900 Something women are making all their money. 1.00

01:49:05.640 I'm trying to remember what it was.

01:49:10.960 I think the point I was going to make is, is that as far as women making their own money 0.96

01:49:15.800 and, like, how that plays out in a relationship, for the most part, women don't share their 1.00

01:49:22.780 resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women. 0.75

01:49:26.160 Oh, I remember.

01:49:27.100 You said in marriage, if you're both bringing money to the table, then it's like a partnership,

01:49:31.280 right?

01:49:31.560 But before it gets to marriage, you have the courtship, the relationship.

01:49:34.740 And I would say, overwhelmingly, in most men's experience, in my experience, besides the one 1.00

01:49:40.860 BPD simp girl that I had, most women really aren't spoiling men in the same way that men 1.00

01:49:47.300 will spoil women. 1.00

01:49:48.380 Our resource is time, though, because for us, time is something that we can't get back.

01:49:53.000 So if we're going to be, if we're going to be committed to you, like really, I'm not talking

01:49:56.800 about like, you know, the girls that aren't faithful, but if we're going to be really committed

01:50:00.460 to you and we're going to like invest our time in you, then I think that is also, that's

01:50:06.100 a big resource for us.

01:50:07.560 That's actually a very, very fair point.

01:50:09.780 And yes, I would say that.

01:50:11.180 So you're saying like giving us your youth, basically.

01:50:14.940 Yeah.

01:50:15.180 Okay.

01:50:15.520 I think that's a fair point.

01:50:17.420 But speaking just like on the financial side of it, women don't really share their resources 1.00

01:50:23.700 with men the same way that men share their resources with women.

01:50:27.300 I think like, I think a healthy relationship, honestly, like I think could be like maybe

01:50:31.520 like 60, 40, 70, 30.

01:50:36.860 Like, I think men always do like realistically put in more in a relationship, but it's not

01:50:42.560 like once you're in the relationship, it's not as imbalanced as like the guy pays for

01:50:46.580 every day.

01:50:47.260 Right.

01:50:47.520 You know, like when the relationships I've been in, it's, it's been like maybe like the guys

01:50:51.660 pay for like when we go out, but then I get Postmates when we order in, you know, the

01:50:56.680 guys get like the airfare on the trip and then I'll get the hotel and the food and stuff.

01:51:00.140 So I think it kind of evens out.

01:51:03.920 Maybe you're a, well, I, I think for most girls, it's like that.

01:51:07.400 Cause once you're in a relationship, you don't want to take advantage of your guy.

01:51:09.880 Like you don't want to like, you don't want him to suffer financially because you're a

01:51:13.220 team.

01:51:13.480 Again, like if you see it, see him longterm, you don't want to put a dent in his pocket.

01:51:16.880 Cause that means like, you're not gonna be able to get the house that you want.

01:51:19.620 You're not gonna be able to like, you know, go on like the nice honeymoon you want to

01:51:22.080 go on.

01:51:22.420 So like you're thinking for you guys in the longterm as well.

01:51:24.560 Um, and there's definitely a lot of women that are like that, but there are also women 1.00

01:51:30.180 that will have that expectation, even moving beyond the first date, moving into a relationship

01:51:35.500 that he's going to continue providing for everything.

01:51:40.900 He'll pay the whole thing.

01:51:42.980 I, I, I don't know.

01:51:44.540 I feel like it's like throughout the relationship, even if the guy is the breadwinner, the woman 0.95

01:51:48.940 like a stay at home mom or something, she's going to be like, she, she sacrifices her body. 0.60

01:51:54.540 For the kid, um, stays at home, takes care of the kid.

01:51:57.700 Like there's, there's also that part of like his life that she takes care of completely

01:52:00.760 so that he can go out and make the money.

01:52:02.660 Yeah.

01:52:03.140 So I think it does even out in the end.

01:52:05.140 It's just like whether or not you want to think short term or long term.

01:52:07.760 No, that you made some good points there.

01:52:09.640 You made some good points.

01:52:10.680 I want to ask, um, would you guys date a guy who makes less than you?

01:52:15.860 Yeah.

01:52:16.600 I've dated guys that make less than me.

01:52:18.100 Okay.

01:52:19.040 What about you, Jade?

01:52:19.500 I've done it before.

01:52:20.440 Okay.

01:52:20.820 Yeah.

01:52:21.120 You've done it before, but dislike it?

01:52:24.760 I mean, I did it cause he was funny.

01:52:28.040 Like, I liked his, he was funny.

01:52:29.740 Sure, sure, sure.

01:52:30.080 So yeah.

01:52:30.880 Yeah.

01:52:31.720 Yeah, I'd say.

01:52:32.620 Okay.

01:52:32.840 Well, you guys are in college, so I feel like at this point in your life, finances

01:52:37.440 aren't like a huge motivating factor, probably.

01:52:42.520 I mean, we're on track to be doctors, so I feel like that's like, we're okay with it.

01:52:46.880 I was just going to say, like, I want to be a pediatric cardiologist.

01:52:49.740 I want to be a plastic surgeon, so like, I'm okay with having my own finances.

01:52:53.640 Unless they're also like an engineer, they're also a doctor, like, I'm probably going to

01:52:56.700 be making more than the man.

01:52:59.220 At some point.

01:52:59.880 You're going to be out earning your future partner, you think?

01:53:03.640 Or, well.

01:53:04.780 Like, unless they're like an engineer or a doctor, like, unless they're like the same

01:53:07.940 career path like I am, I most likely will be.

01:53:11.800 Okay.

01:53:12.280 So you want to be a doctor and you want to be a doctor.

01:53:14.660 Mm-hmm.

01:53:15.280 It's kind of, and then you guys want to be OnlyFans guys.

01:53:18.960 I don't know forever.

01:53:19.600 I mean, I'll have like different businesses, like investments and stuff like that.

01:53:22.780 Well, you guys are making good money, so I mean, I think you guys will be probably

01:53:25.560 properly set up, you know, by the time you start moving out of it, I reckon.

01:53:29.740 It's not about how much money they're making, but like, I feel like I want to be with someone

01:53:33.940 ultimately who shares the same values as me, who like, likes the same family values and

01:53:39.860 like the same values as far as like, I want to, you know, even though he's not making enough

01:53:44.280 and a lot now, but he works really hard.

01:53:46.380 He has the potential.

01:53:47.380 Yeah.

01:53:47.560 I know it's so outplayed.

01:53:48.560 Oh, I want a guy who has like good potential.

01:53:50.220 But it's, it's true.

01:53:51.100 Like you can't look at like what he is now.

01:53:52.840 You have to look at like his, the actions that he's taking to set himself up for the

01:53:55.760 future.

01:53:56.500 Okay.

01:53:57.080 Yeah.

01:53:58.020 Cool.

01:53:59.660 So I will, I'll just say this as far as, so you guys are going to, you sound like very

01:54:04.160 ambitious.

01:54:04.520 You guys want to be doctors, right?

01:54:08.080 Would you be okay being the breadwinner in your relationships?

01:54:14.140 Yeah, of course.

01:54:14.760 Why not?

01:54:14.960 Yeah.

01:54:15.200 Like, why wouldn't I?

01:54:16.180 Well, because very often, so very often what happens is when women start becoming really 1.00

01:54:26.080 successful, their potential pool of partners starts to decrease because a lot of women want 1.00

01:54:32.260 to date men on their level or higher.

01:54:34.500 Whereas a guy who's an attorney or a doctor, he'll date the barista.

01:54:38.540 He'll date a chick that works at Chick-fil-A. 0.90

01:54:40.480 Like, for example, when you're a doctor, are you going to date a guy who works at Chick-fil-A?

01:54:46.500 Probably not.

01:54:48.920 No, but I'd say that that's kind of.

01:54:52.260 Maybe bangable.

01:54:54.000 Bangable.

01:54:54.560 But dateable.

01:54:56.040 Bangable, not dateable.

01:54:57.760 I think that's a difference.

01:54:58.220 Is he going to make my kids cute?

01:54:59.980 Fine.

01:55:00.860 Okay.

01:55:01.380 Well, I mean, I guess that could be a benefit, but.

01:55:04.520 No, but all seriousness, like, yeah, I would be fine with that.

01:55:07.820 I mean, you say that now, but when you're a doctor and you're surrounded by a bunch of

01:55:12.480 other male doctors.

01:55:13.840 I mean, yeah, you have to think about that, too.

01:55:15.360 Like, realistically, like, me meeting someone that I would stick with, like, at a Chick-fil-A,

01:55:21.800 like, the odds of that versus, like, someone I'm working with, like, every single day, like,

01:55:25.260 possibly having chemistry worth at work.

01:55:27.340 Like, the odds of that are, like, way different.

01:55:31.260 But here's the difference.

01:55:32.240 If I was at, like, a social, and, like, it was a bunch of men, and one happened to be

01:55:36.840 a Chick-fil-A worker, and one was a doctor, but I didn't know, and I got along with the

01:55:40.280 Chick-fil-A worker better, like, of course, like, whoever I have more chemistry with, whoever 0.99

01:55:44.200 I get along with better, whoever I see being, like, a better partner in life, like, I would,

01:55:48.500 of course, like, it doesn't matter.

01:55:50.440 Like, if I'm making enough to take care of both of us, like, so be it.

01:55:54.040 Good on me.

01:55:55.080 Would his pride let him, like, be taken care of, though?

01:55:57.540 Because I think that's the thing with, like, that makes the relationship imbalanced.

01:56:00.980 It's, like, a woman is, like, okay with being the breadwinner, but then the guy, his ego

01:56:04.480 can't let him stay at home and take care of the kids.

01:56:07.700 I mean, there's definitely guys that probably would have their ego or pride involved, but 1.00

01:56:13.100 I think it's more so the woman's just going to be, like, this guy's a fucking bum. 1.00

01:56:18.900 I want to date a guy who's... 1.00

01:56:20.860 They're not stay-at-home dads.

01:56:22.320 It's, I mean, it's rare.

01:56:23.120 I mean, if I'm a doctor, like, I'm going to need someone to take care of the kids, like...

01:56:27.080 Yeah.

01:56:27.300 Yeah.

01:56:28.260 But I guess the point I'm...

01:56:29.880 I mean, I guess, but...

01:56:32.480 I don't know.

01:56:32.820 I think by the time you are in that really success...

01:56:35.480 And by the way, good for you to pursue it.

01:56:37.260 Like, be successful.

01:56:38.700 Thank you.

01:56:38.900 But I do think that your pool of potential partners will shrink.

01:56:42.780 Oh, definitely.

01:56:43.640 Like, I don't disagree with you there.

01:56:44.020 When you become more successful.

01:56:45.520 I don't disagree with you there, yeah.

01:56:47.080 Whereas for men, their pool of potential partners increases as they become more successful

01:56:51.320 and get more money.

01:56:52.680 Right.

01:56:53.040 Because most women don't want to date down. 1.00

01:56:55.900 Most women. 0.98

01:56:56.720 They want to date across and up socioeconomic hierarchies.

01:57:02.180 And would you say that's because of kind of, like, a power dynamic, per se?

01:57:06.260 Like, men want to date down because they want to probably entrap a, like, a girl.

01:57:11.680 Well, I mean, let's be...

01:57:13.400 Let's be for real here.

01:57:14.320 Entrap?

01:57:14.940 Yeah.

01:57:15.300 Like, financial abuse is a real thing.

01:57:17.060 And so you have a lot of, like, older guys, they, you know, scour the streets for, say,

01:57:21.780 like, us college girls who are, like, you know, they're working towards their futures

01:57:26.460 or whatever.

01:57:27.220 And then you have this old guy.

01:57:28.640 They sell them this dream, pretty much.

01:57:30.420 Also, I'm from Vegas, so this is pretty much big there.

01:57:32.900 That's why I have a lot of...

01:57:33.480 Ah, the truth comes out.

01:57:34.480 Okay.

01:57:34.660 Yeah.

01:57:34.860 Sorry about that.

01:57:35.540 Yeah.

01:57:35.960 Forgive me, if you will.

01:57:37.480 But it's like, you know, financial abuse is a huge thing.

01:57:40.640 And so it's like, the power dynamic, holding financial power over someone is a huge thing

01:57:46.440 because finances pretty much push every desire that we pretty much have in this world.

01:57:50.700 If it isn't sexual, it's probably financial.

01:57:54.000 So it's like, most women want to date across and up because they don't want to potentially 0.99

01:57:59.160 be financially abused.

01:58:00.840 Because if you have your own money, there's less chances of you being financially abused.

01:58:04.580 However, it's like, oh, you have this guy.

01:58:06.580 He's a big CEO.

01:58:08.080 He's a lawyer.

01:58:08.660 He's going to date this 20-year-old guy, and he's 60.

01:58:11.240 Why?

01:58:11.880 Well, she's fresh out of college.

01:58:13.660 You know, if anything goes wrong, she's probably going to stay with him.

01:58:16.860 Why?

01:58:17.180 She has no money. 1.00

01:58:17.760 She has nowhere else to go.

01:58:19.500 It's pretty much just a huge power dynamic that people are working towards instead of,

01:58:23.920 you know, true love.

01:58:25.680 True love.

01:58:26.320 I say true love with quotations because that's like the ideal, you feel.

01:58:29.840 I mean, well, okay.

01:58:31.140 You said there was a lot there.

01:58:33.400 So I don't even know where to begin with all that.

01:58:37.400 Okay, so there's the age gap stuff and then the power dynamic.

01:58:41.060 When I say women like to date across and up, a broke woman could want to date. 1.00

01:58:46.320 Like, I'm trying to understand.

01:58:48.180 Like, what do you mean?

01:58:50.080 Well, you were...

01:58:51.300 Like, if we're talking about...

01:58:52.400 Even with her own money who's totally financially secure, she still wants to date across and up.

01:58:58.760 So even in that scenario, it's not even like a power dynamic thing.

01:59:03.120 Because, I mean, also financial abuse goes the same way.

01:59:05.360 You could be like, oh, this guy, he's asked me for money always, all the time.

01:59:09.060 And now I'm running, chasing his checks and his bills because he has no way else to pay for them.

01:59:15.220 And so now he's gotten me entangled in his debt and I'm trying to chase that off.

01:59:19.240 Wait, so is it only abusive from the man's side?

01:59:23.440 No, no, no.

01:59:23.760 I'm saying it could go both ways.

01:59:25.280 You know, like, okay, you have...

01:59:26.760 I have this young girl in a relationship and she's like, oh, can you pay off my car bill?

01:59:30.100 And next it's her rent.

01:59:31.360 And now it's this and that's that.

01:59:32.660 You know, financial abuse works both ways.

01:59:34.200 But it works on the upper echelon and then the lower echelon, right?

01:59:39.320 So it can go either direction.

01:59:41.140 Well, I mean, the reason I asked if you were trying to frame it from it's only men that are abusing

01:59:45.820 because the two examples you gave were an older guy with a younger woman who she was broke

01:59:52.740 and he had a lot of money and he was taking care of her.

01:59:56.920 You said that that was abusive from the man's direction to the woman's.

02:00:01.680 But in the scenario you also gave, when the guy is broke, you said it was abusive for the guy

02:00:08.140 to be relying on the woman, even though that's the exact...

02:00:11.320 It depends on, like, context, obviously.

02:00:13.300 These are just very black and white things.

02:00:15.480 Like, obviously, there's gray mixed into there, too.

02:00:17.460 Like, nothing can ever be black and white.

02:00:19.000 But those are just kind of the base models of what I was trying to explain to you

02:00:23.000 was that sometimes, you know, like, these little situations,

02:00:27.280 these hypothetical kind of questions that we kind of place upon ourselves is really...

02:00:32.140 Like, they're really hard to answer because there's different things that we need to go back and forth in.

02:00:36.240 Sorry, I don't mean to the chat to be like, oh, my God. 0.99

02:00:39.120 Like, she sucks. 0.99

02:00:40.660 Like, get her out of here, Brian. 1.00

02:00:41.920 Like...

02:00:42.320 No, no, it's good.

02:00:43.240 So men...

02:00:46.740 It's not about a power thing.

02:00:52.340 You don't think so?

02:00:53.100 No.

02:00:53.600 No?

02:00:54.120 No.

02:00:54.420 Well, I mean, there's a few different things.

02:00:56.340 So you brought up age gaps, for example.

02:00:58.880 So...

02:00:59.080 What's it called?

02:01:03.140 So with the whole age gap thing, I mean, men want to date younger women

02:01:07.080 because for, I mean, a myriad of reasons.

02:01:10.720 One of them is they're more physically attractive.

02:01:14.320 So, I mean, and that applies to both men and women.

02:01:16.920 As you age, you become less physically attractive over time.

02:01:20.540 Um, men obviously care a bit more about that than women do. 0.98

02:01:26.160 Um, so that's a factor.

02:01:29.160 It's also just evo-psych, evolutionary psychology reasons.

02:01:32.900 There's a biological reason.

02:01:34.320 So, men for, men look for indicators of youth and fertility.

02:01:43.200 Right.

02:01:43.720 So, younger women.

02:01:46.840 I think there's also just a difference.

02:01:48.040 Because once you hit, once you hit like 35, the likelihood of you getting pregnant starts

02:01:52.100 really diminishing.

02:01:53.960 I thought it was like 40, really.

02:01:55.480 Well, I mean, 35, once you hit 35, that's when you start getting into high-risk pregnancy

02:01:59.800 territory, that there's a greater likelihood of miscarriage, greater likelihood of birth

02:02:04.760 defects starting at 35.

02:02:06.240 And it gets worse and worse as you age.

02:02:08.040 And then once you hit 45, the likelihood that you're going to even be able to get pregnant

02:02:12.000 is pretty minuscule.

02:02:13.880 So, if you're a 40-year-old guy, you're going to be looking, you're probably, if you're a

02:02:19.960 45-year-old guy, you're going to want to date a girl who's in her late 20s or early 30s.

02:02:24.800 You're not going to want to date a girl who's your age, who's 40, if you want to have kids 0.98

02:02:28.860 and have a family.

02:02:30.340 So, for evolutionary reasons, for biological, for biology reasons, men are attracted to

02:02:35.700 younger women.

02:02:38.920 Okay.

02:02:40.040 I think men are also more physical and women are more emotional, like, traditionally.

02:02:44.460 What do you mean?

02:02:45.040 Like, care more about looks and stuff?

02:02:47.360 Men?

02:02:48.140 Yeah.

02:02:48.580 Yeah.

02:02:49.680 Yeah.

02:02:50.140 Well, there's some pretty sensitive men.

02:02:52.200 No, yeah.

02:02:52.700 I'm just saying, like...

02:02:53.700 Pisces, man.

02:02:55.380 Jade, I know you're dying to come in on this one.

02:02:57.300 I got the sense that you wanted to say something.

02:03:00.020 Oh, what?

02:03:01.060 Oh, did I...

02:03:01.980 I lost my train of thought.

02:03:03.000 Did I misread that?

02:03:03.860 Okay.

02:03:04.200 No, no, I was going to say something, but I...

02:03:05.960 Yeah, yeah.

02:03:06.800 Like, you talk about men dating down, but that's just, like, financially.

02:03:10.360 It just shows you the difference between, like, the values that men have versus women. 0.77

02:03:14.280 Like, men might date someone with, like, a lower income, but she's probably going to 0.77

02:03:17.640 be a lot younger and prettier, right?

02:03:19.600 Yeah.

02:03:19.800 So, that means that he probably values more superficial things.

02:03:22.780 Whereas women, like, we hold in high regard, like, you know, stability. 1.00

02:03:28.020 So, we want someone to match us on that level as well.

02:03:32.900 So, it's, like, really, like, what you value.

02:03:35.000 So, it's not like...

02:03:35.500 A man's not going to date someone who's... 0.99

02:03:37.520 A girl who's broke and that he thinks is, like, ugly and, like, really overweight, you 0.76

02:03:41.720 know?

02:03:41.920 There's, like, a give and take there.

02:03:43.700 Yeah.

02:03:43.840 So, I don't think that assessment of, like, oh, men date down, women date...

02:03:47.140 You know?

02:03:47.720 I don't think that's, like, a really fair point that you're making.

02:03:51.120 Like, a valid point.

02:03:51.560 Well, I mean, it's an established societal and cultural thing that women date up. 1.00

02:04:00.600 Women marry up. 1.00

02:04:01.920 Well, so do men.

02:04:03.280 Men also...

02:04:04.200 Financially, though, right?

02:04:05.420 But, like, men marry up as far as, like, okay, like, if a man dates a girl who has less

02:04:10.100 money, she makes up for that with, like, her youth, her beauty, whatever it may be. 1.00

02:04:13.820 So, it's not necessarily, like, men are dating down.

02:04:17.600 They're dating down socioeconomically.

02:04:20.340 Yes, but that's because they want some...

02:04:22.260 They'd rather date down socioeconomically and then have a girl who's, like, more beautiful 0.99

02:04:25.560 in their eyes than date an older woman who probably is more established in her career. 0.94

02:04:30.720 I would say, actually, well, there's definitely guys who make up for their poor looks in other

02:04:36.100 ways, money, personality, humor, confidence, et cetera.

02:04:40.060 But I would actually say...

02:04:42.520 And by the way, guys, we will get to your super chats.

02:04:44.820 We've had quite a bit of a back and forth here.

02:04:46.420 I would actually say that women are harsher judges of appearance than men are. 1.00

02:04:54.380 I completely disagree.

02:04:56.700 Hot take. 0.79

02:04:57.960 Hot take. 0.79

02:04:58.800 Pretty hot take.

02:05:00.380 Yeah.

02:05:01.200 Hot take, but I disagree.

02:05:03.320 Why?

02:05:04.440 Because it's like... 0.53

02:05:05.580 I feel like men are more shallow. 0.97

02:05:07.520 Men are more shallow. 0.99

02:05:08.220 Men are way more physical.

02:05:10.940 Yeah, you often see women with guys that are, like, definitely, like, objectively, as you

02:05:15.840 can, less attractive than them than the other way around, I would say.

02:05:19.460 I'd be seeing the prettiest girls with the craziest-looking boyfriends.

02:05:23.540 But that's just...

02:05:24.060 Okay.

02:05:24.240 They're getting...

02:05:25.260 There's, like, something there, though, typically. 0.95

02:05:28.540 Dick size? 0.97

02:05:29.820 I mean, it could be humor. 0.99

02:05:31.320 It could be their...

02:05:32.200 Humor is not paying the bill.

02:05:34.380 Are they treating them well? 0.99

02:05:35.440 Like, it could be good dick. 0.99

02:05:36.520 It could be... 1.00

02:05:37.260 It could be...

02:05:37.860 I mean, some women will date down because they want... 1.00

02:05:40.340 I mean, like you said, there's both men and women that do this, but it's like, they'll

02:05:43.760 date down because that person's easier to control.

02:05:46.160 Mm-hmm.

02:05:46.720 So, I think that...

02:05:48.860 Okay.

02:05:49.880 I would say women are harsher judges of appearance than men are. 1.00

02:05:53.740 On what appearance...

02:05:54.540 Like, what things are we, like...

02:05:55.960 What appearance?

02:05:56.660 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:05:56.960 Brian, Brian, Brian. 0.99

02:05:57.620 Would you ever date a fat girl? 1.00

02:06:00.260 Yeah. 0.99

02:06:00.760 Yeah.

02:06:01.040 Would you ever date...

02:06:02.140 So, there you go.

02:06:02.920 Probably not, no.

02:06:03.620 Why?

02:06:03.840 Because it's...

02:06:06.400 I mean, why would I not date a woman who's obese? 1.00

02:06:09.140 Yeah.

02:06:09.400 No, no, no.

02:06:09.780 Who's just chunky. 1.00

02:06:10.880 Aesthetically, it's unappealing.

02:06:12.340 It says something about your character.

02:06:13.580 Aesthetically, it's unappealing.

02:06:14.800 Aesthetically, like...

02:06:15.800 Yes.

02:06:16.220 Well, we'll get to...

02:06:17.780 Don't...

02:06:18.100 Look, we're gonna get to it.

02:06:19.960 Well, most women don't want to date an obese man either.

02:06:22.920 Like, let's not trip on this.

02:06:24.820 Like, both men and women have a preference for physically fit partners.

02:06:28.580 Right, and that's when, like, society comes in.

02:06:29.400 I mean, women like dad bods now. 1.00

02:06:30.580 It's coming in, so...

02:06:31.580 Bro, that's cat.

02:06:32.120 Come on.

02:06:32.780 That's cat.

02:06:33.240 See, my two-year relationship that I was talking about, he had a dad bod, okay?

02:06:38.340 And that's not who I'm typically attracted to.

02:06:41.040 Okay.

02:06:41.300 Like, you gotta lock, like...

02:06:42.340 But did you have the equivalent body?

02:06:45.980 Did you have, like, the...

02:06:47.180 Like, no.

02:06:48.120 I know she's wearing jeans. 0.81

02:06:49.020 I can't...

02:06:49.520 I don't know.

02:06:50.140 Bro.

02:06:50.860 I'm not, like, giving her the up and down.

02:06:53.160 But, okay.

02:06:53.460 Like, if you want to talk about some physical things, let me...

02:06:56.760 Let's talk about some physical things.

02:06:57.400 Did I have the equivalent body?

02:06:58.320 Absolutely not.

02:06:59.040 I was actually skinnier than I am now.

02:07:01.800 That's perfect.

02:07:03.080 He was bringing something else to the table then.

02:07:05.400 Okay.

02:07:06.060 Let's talk...

02:07:06.760 But no, let's talk about physical traits.

02:07:08.680 Let's talk about physical traits, right?

02:07:10.520 Right.

02:07:10.700 So, you said weight, right?

02:07:12.520 Yeah.

02:07:13.020 And I don't disagree with you there.

02:07:14.820 Men, that's probably... 0.68

02:07:16.080 As far as physical appearance, that's one of the top things that men care about.

02:07:19.280 Yeah.

02:07:19.660 Is don't be fat.

02:07:21.360 Yeah.

02:07:21.580 It's not that hard, actually.

02:07:22.740 Just don't be fat. 0.88

02:07:22.920 Would you date a bald girl? 0.99

02:07:24.460 Huh?

02:07:24.980 A bald?

02:07:25.480 Would you date a bald girl? 0.99

02:07:26.820 Bald? 0.93

02:07:27.340 Like, no.

02:07:27.820 Like, skin...

02:07:28.600 No hair.

02:07:29.180 No hair.

02:07:30.100 Bald.

02:07:30.420 Bald.

02:07:30.560 Completely bald. 0.94

02:07:31.280 Like, shaved her head?

02:07:32.260 No, no, no.

02:07:32.600 Not even shaved.

02:07:33.260 Like, she's just bald.

02:07:34.640 Yeah.

02:07:35.600 You would?

02:07:36.320 No eyelashes, no eyebrows.

02:07:37.680 A lot of men...

02:07:38.640 Okay.

02:07:39.100 No hair.

02:07:39.820 Like, I'm talking...

02:07:40.620 Like, no hair at all, especially on the top of the road.

02:07:44.180 I mean, this is, like, a very...

02:07:45.880 Let's be real here.

02:07:47.440 What percentage of women... 1.00

02:07:48.160 Women will date bald guys, right? 0.99

02:07:49.860 But men will date bald...

02:07:50.780 Actually...

02:07:51.660 Hold on.

02:07:52.840 What?

02:07:53.580 No, no, no, no, no, no.

02:07:54.440 What?

02:07:55.140 You're using a very fringe example.

02:07:57.860 Also, women do not bald at the same rate that men do.

02:08:01.340 Most women don't lose their hair. 1.00

02:08:03.300 Okay, so she shaved her head.

02:08:04.800 Would you date her?

02:08:05.720 A woman can still be physically attractive with a shaved head. 1.00

02:08:08.740 I do have a preference for women who have long hair. 1.00

02:08:12.240 But here's the difference, right?

02:08:13.580 Do you know who don't do that?

02:08:14.060 That's not really an issue for women. 1.00

02:08:16.400 That's not an issue for women. 1.00

02:08:17.800 You want to talk about hair.

02:08:19.400 Women have a hair preference. 1.00

02:08:21.420 Oh, absolutely.

02:08:22.160 Women would prefer to date... 1.00

02:08:23.700 Would much prefer...

02:08:24.720 Yes, do women date bald men?

02:08:26.600 Well, yeah, because there's a greater likelihood that men will be bald.

02:08:30.680 But women absolutely say, I want a guy with a full head of hair. 1.00

02:08:35.060 Especially young women.

02:08:37.900 Like, maybe when women start getting into their 30s and 40s, they're going to, like, guys start balding a bit by then. 0.97

02:08:44.160 And that's something that's out of men's control is their hair. 0.99

02:08:48.820 If they start balding, that's really out of a man's control.

02:08:51.480 So I'm going to list some physical characteristics that women care about in men that men have no control over. 0.98

02:08:56.780 They're height, penis size, penis performance. 0.97

02:09:03.760 You have control over that. 1.00

02:09:04.980 Nope.

02:09:05.200 Yep.

02:09:05.780 To a degree.

02:09:07.180 To a degree.

02:09:07.920 But, like...

02:09:08.260 Also, is this, like, on face value?

02:09:09.960 Or are we talking, like, stripped down naked? 0.99

02:09:11.820 Because, like, you don't know, like, how big someone else's, like, penis is on face value. 1.00

02:09:17.120 Women will, like... 1.00

02:09:18.280 No, dick size does not matter. 0.99

02:09:20.520 Honestly. 1.00

02:09:21.200 You'll date a guy with a micropenis?

02:09:22.760 Yeah.

02:09:23.380 If I like you... 0.99

02:09:24.780 If he can make you finish in other ways, like, the penis doesn't matter. 0.99

02:09:28.080 It's going to be... 0.91

02:09:28.640 If you're putting in the effort to make that woman finish... 0.97

02:09:30.540 That's fine, but for some girls, it's going to be a wrap. 1.00

02:09:32.900 Actually, probably most girls, it's a wrap. 0.93

02:09:34.200 But, like, micropenises, honestly, guys, are not that common, okay? 0.99

02:09:38.300 Like, if you have, like, a four-inch dick, that is not a micropenis. 0.98

02:09:41.400 Micropenises are a very small percentage of the population. 1.00

02:09:44.000 So, like, don't worry about your dick size. 1.00

02:09:46.240 Like, I feel like guys focus way too much on, like, oh, my dick is small. 1.00

02:09:49.320 It's not because your dick is small. 1.00

02:09:50.560 You're probably just, like, a mean person. 1.00

02:09:51.940 Or, like, you're not...

02:09:52.940 She doesn't like you.

02:09:53.580 She's not good at making a woman finish. 1.00

02:09:55.640 Yeah, if a girl likes you, she doesn't care about your dick size. 1.00

02:09:58.780 Okay. 1.00

02:09:59.620 They're relevant. 0.99

02:10:01.200 Not all women care about penis size. 0.99

02:10:03.160 But to a degree, yes, it does matter. 0.98

02:10:07.080 I don't know.

02:10:07.520 For, I would say, a good amount of...

02:10:08.800 I think everyone has a preference.

02:10:11.020 Everyone has a preference. 0.99

02:10:12.000 But are you saying no women care about penis size? 0.97

02:10:15.820 No, because I don't speak in, like, certainties. 1.00

02:10:17.140 But I say if you have between, like, a four-inch and, like, a seven-inch dick, 0.99

02:10:20.180 which most men fall under in that range, then you're okay. 0.99

02:10:24.060 You know?

02:10:24.300 Most men fall between, like, I think the average is, like, five.

02:10:28.160 Yeah.

02:10:28.480 Four to six.

02:10:28.700 So that's between four and... 1.00

02:10:29.900 That five-inch dick is perfect, actually. 1.00

02:10:31.680 For most women, four to five is... 1.00

02:10:34.320 They're going to think...

02:10:35.640 Do you know where the G-spot is, Brian? 0.94

02:10:37.440 Do you know where that is?

02:10:38.260 Bro, yes.

02:10:38.800 I know. 1.00

02:10:39.140 Okay, so, like, a four-inch dick can definitely... 1.00

02:10:40.980 I'm just saying. 1.00

02:10:41.660 Let's talk about sex. 1.00

02:10:42.440 A four-inch dick can definitely reach the G-spot. 1.00

02:10:44.060 Because your G-spot is not more than four inches in your vagina. 1.00

02:10:46.740 It, like, literally is, like, right here. 1.00

02:10:48.480 It's, like...

02:10:49.000 It's, like, two inches. 1.00

02:10:49.880 Yeah, so if your dick is longer than this, then you can reach. 0.99

02:10:53.000 Thank you for the anatomy lesson. 1.00

02:10:54.420 But, look, my philosophy on sex is the girl comes first. 0.99

02:10:57.360 Like, I'm going to make the girl come. 1.00

02:10:58.480 That's not an issue for me.

02:10:59.360 But, yes, I would say a good amount of women probably have a preference for, like, 1.00

02:11:04.980 a slightly above-average penis size. 0.97

02:11:07.420 I would say a slight preference for above-average. 0.98

02:11:11.440 So, look, I'm not saying it's all women.

02:11:14.880 That's fine. 0.99

02:11:15.460 The point I'm saying is, is that height, penis size, penis performance, 0.99

02:11:20.360 their physical size, and their hair, 0.99

02:11:23.720 those are things that are out of men's control.

02:11:26.700 To a degree, I would agree with.

02:11:28.520 Only the...

02:11:29.060 You said physical size, it went like this?

02:11:31.160 Okay.

02:11:31.420 Are you talking about, like, body mass?

02:11:33.880 Okay, physical size, men do have some degree of control over it.

02:11:36.940 Because you said the same thing about women, like, two minutes ago. 0.82

02:11:39.560 Like, you wouldn't date a fat woman because she can control. 1.00

02:11:42.360 Yeah. 0.70

02:11:42.760 Like, just don't gain weight, you know?

02:11:43.960 I should have...

02:11:44.560 You're right.

02:11:45.340 I should have excluded physical size from the things that are strictly out of men's control. 0.98

02:11:50.600 But that's height, penis size, penis performance, and hair is out of... 0.81

02:11:55.900 And hair can be borderline controlled as well. 0.99

02:11:58.720 Unless you're talking...

02:11:58.940 Not...

02:11:59.520 So sorry.

02:12:00.060 Unless you're talking, like, um...

02:12:02.740 Not without surgical intervention or drug intervention.

02:12:05.340 Or are you just talking about balding?

02:12:06.340 Are you talking about, like, different haircuts?

02:12:08.480 I'm talking about men who are balding.

02:12:11.100 Men...

02:12:11.380 Some men start balding as early as, like, high school.

02:12:14.300 So...

02:12:14.680 These are physical characteristics that men... 0.87

02:12:18.680 Sorry.

02:12:19.060 These are physical characteristics that men have that women judge men on that are out of their control.

02:12:25.720 Women... 1.00

02:12:26.680 What is out of your control that physically men judge you for?

02:12:30.920 Height.

02:12:32.100 Okay.

02:12:32.500 Men don't care about women's height. 1.00

02:12:34.000 Yeah.

02:12:34.280 Would you date a 6'7 woman? 1.00

02:12:35.880 Sure.

02:12:36.580 Really?

02:12:36.860 He's so cap right now.

02:12:37.980 I...

02:12:38.340 Yes, I would.

02:12:39.100 Okay.

02:12:39.900 But I have a...

02:12:40.920 I'd prefer to date a 4'11 queen. 1.00

02:12:44.420 Right.

02:12:44.780 Beef crown queen. 0.94

02:12:45.420 Okay. 1.00

02:12:45.560 So, tit size, ass size, what your labia looks like. 1.00

02:12:49.560 Yeah. 1.00

02:12:49.920 If you want to talk about dick, we can also talk about, like, vaginas in that way. 1.00

02:12:52.440 Yeah. 1.00

02:12:53.000 Um... 0.99

02:12:53.600 Labia preference is not nearly comparable to penis preference. 0.99

02:12:58.100 Face? 0.99

02:12:59.320 Yeah.

02:12:59.920 Women care about face, too, though. 1.00

02:13:01.180 I'm talking strictly, like, gendering it.

02:13:04.900 And we hit the big ones.

02:13:08.420 I don't think women care as much, though. 0.99

02:13:10.000 Again, I think you can make up with it.

02:13:11.740 Okay.

02:13:12.100 So, I think if, like, a guy doesn't hit those, like, physical check marks, he can make up

02:13:16.760 with it for other things.

02:13:17.800 But if women don't hit those physical check marks, then, like, no matter how high her salary 1.00

02:13:22.640 is or no matter how funny she is, she will never be given a chance by a guy. 0.99

02:13:26.280 So, it goes both ways.

02:13:28.720 Well, yeah.

02:13:29.300 I mean, you're right.

02:13:30.360 Yeah.

02:13:30.560 As far as we don't care, like, most men, we don't care about the money that you're bringing 0.98

02:13:36.120 to the relationship.

02:13:37.280 Right.

02:13:37.580 You care about looks, which is what I'm saying.

02:13:39.100 Yes.

02:13:39.240 So, if you're saying that, like, a girl cares about more things that's out of the control 0.98

02:13:43.140 for the guy physically, he can make up for that by doing other things.

02:13:47.680 He can.

02:13:47.780 Whereas, it doesn't go the same way for the girl.

02:13:50.280 Sure.

02:13:50.580 But women, it's easier for women to be considered attractive than it is for men.

02:13:57.520 And they've...

02:13:58.040 It should be, because that's what men care about.

02:14:00.660 Yeah.

02:14:00.940 And actually, they've done studies on this, and this is from a dating app.

02:14:06.180 Something like women, basically, in terms of physical appearance, women rate... 1.00

02:14:10.140 Sorry, in terms of physical appearance, men rate women on a bell curve. 0.99

02:14:16.600 Okay.

02:14:16.980 Whereas, women will say they find... 0.95

02:14:19.380 Okay, you can...

02:14:20.660 They have this data also from Tinder.

02:14:23.500 Women will swipe no. 1.00

02:14:26.300 Is that left?

02:14:27.180 I can't remember.

02:14:28.100 Yes, left.

02:14:28.520 Women swipe left on, like, 90% of dudes. 1.00

02:14:33.120 You ask most women, what percentage of men that you see in day-to-day or on dating apps

02:14:38.200 that you would consider physically attractive?

02:14:41.260 Let's go around the table.

02:14:42.280 What percent of men that you see day-to-day here in...

02:14:47.200 Do you live in Isla Vista?

02:14:48.700 What percentage of the men that you see that you consider physically attractive?

02:14:56.360 Probably 30% to 40%.

02:15:00.260 Okay, that's fair.

02:15:01.040 Go ahead.

02:15:01.660 I was going to put a little bit, like, more on that.

02:15:05.200 I was going to be, like, 60% to 75%.

02:15:07.440 Okay.

02:15:08.200 Yeah.

02:15:08.820 Jade?

02:15:09.300 I'm going to be honest.

02:15:10.340 I would say, like, 5%.

02:15:11.640 5% of men you find attractive?

02:15:13.200 Okay.

02:15:13.540 I'd say, like, 15%.

02:15:14.740 15%.

02:15:15.320 Yeah.

02:15:15.500 Okay.

02:15:16.260 So, what about on dating apps?

02:15:20.040 Like, what percentage of profiles do you swipe right on?

02:15:24.440 Honestly...

02:15:24.760 Do you swipe yes for?

02:15:26.480 Probably around, like, the same area, like, 20, 30.

02:15:29.560 Maybe, like, a little less.

02:15:30.580 Okay.

02:15:31.720 Same with you?

02:15:32.540 Yeah, just about, like...

02:15:35.200 I mean, it also depends on what, like, your, like, little tags are per dating app, because

02:15:40.000 you don't see everyone in the pool.

02:15:41.640 Like, you see everyone who has the same tags as you.

02:15:44.800 Sure.

02:15:45.100 So, I think that's hard to gauge just a tad.

02:15:48.700 Right.

02:15:49.020 But, I mean, so the evidence is in from the dating apps.

02:15:51.600 Women are much harsher judges of appearance than men are, because you're not... 1.00

02:15:56.180 Dating apps are purely physical, especially Tinder.

02:15:59.080 I mean, no offense.

02:15:59.800 Since I saw your guys' Tinder profiles, you had half a sentence.

02:16:04.700 Yeah.

02:16:05.020 Mine was actually a full sentence.

02:16:06.520 Oh, oh, full sentence.

02:16:07.760 Okay.

02:16:08.140 But there's nothing in your profile that would suggest to me anything about your personality.

02:16:13.220 I think that's mainly also because Tinder is mostly a hookup app.

02:16:16.880 Yeah.

02:16:17.120 And it's the biggest...

02:16:17.960 It's the biggest...

02:16:18.620 Right.

02:16:18.940 Yeah.

02:16:19.200 It's ventured more to being, like, a hookup app.

02:16:21.220 Yeah.

02:16:21.400 So, what you have happening on the dating apps is you have 10 or 20% of the men that

02:16:27.400 are getting all of the women, and then the other 70, 80% of the men are just ignored.

02:16:33.240 Sounds familiar.

02:16:34.040 Yeah.

02:16:34.720 Sounds familiar.

02:16:35.220 And also, it makes sense that, like, women are more selective. 1.00

02:16:37.360 If you look at it from, like, a biological standpoint, it's, like, men are, like, you spread 0.83

02:16:40.980 your seed.

02:16:41.540 Women can only, from, like, a biological standpoint, have one baby. 1.00

02:16:44.460 So, like, women have to be more selective about who they choose as, you know, their potential 1.00

02:16:48.660 partner.

02:16:50.020 Absolutely.

02:16:50.940 You're right.

02:16:51.440 Women are more selective. 1.00

02:16:53.780 Makes sense.

02:16:54.140 Thus, it stands to reason that...

02:16:55.400 It's major science.

02:16:55.960 Well, it stands to reason, then, if women are more selective, then they're harsher judges 1.00

02:16:59.380 of physical appearance than men are. 0.54

02:17:01.660 I'm sorry?

02:17:02.880 If women are more selective, then it would stand to reason that they're harsher judges 1.00

02:17:06.580 of physical appearance than men are. 0.54

02:17:09.700 Maybe not...

02:17:10.460 No.

02:17:10.780 I don't think on physical appearance.

02:17:12.240 They might be a harsher judge on men, but you're arguing for physical appearance.

02:17:16.020 I don't think it's...

02:17:17.240 Even physical appearance?

02:17:19.000 Not...

02:17:19.360 No.

02:17:19.980 I think men are definitely a harsher judge of physical appearance.

02:17:22.440 No.

02:17:22.940 Because men...

02:17:23.440 Height?

02:17:23.900 Yeah.

02:17:24.200 Okay, let's talk about height, then.

02:17:25.300 My ex-boyfriend was 5'4".

02:17:26.520 I'm 5'6". 0.99

02:17:27.960 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:17:28.660 Okay. 1.00

02:17:29.300 What about you, Jen?

02:17:30.440 My high school sweetheart was the same height as me.

02:17:32.860 Okay.

02:17:33.280 Yeah.

02:17:33.840 But do you have a height preference?

02:17:35.420 Now, I honestly, I prefer taller guys now.

02:17:37.780 Okay.

02:17:37.960 So I would say, yeah, I'm a harsher judge of appearance than men, yeah.

02:17:40.360 Sure.

02:17:41.080 I would say my height or taller, but I'm, like, I'm not very tall, so I mean, like, that's

02:17:46.920 that should be pretty easy to match.

02:17:48.420 Okay.

02:17:48.900 Yeah.

02:17:49.180 What about you?

02:17:49.600 Um, if I had a preference, I would prefer tall guys, but I do have a track record with

02:17:56.040 short men.

02:17:57.020 Okay.

02:17:57.760 Well, there you go.

02:17:58.340 Short men are very funny.

02:17:59.120 They can make up for it with different things, like, they can't, because I feel like short

02:18:02.520 guys also, they know they have to compensate in other ways.

02:18:05.620 Like, somehow the short men always just be finding me, and... 0.99

02:18:08.980 What the fuck? 0.99

02:18:10.160 It just works like that. 0.99

02:18:11.120 Short guys have wrists.

02:18:12.100 It's like, yeah, they definitely have charm.

02:18:14.120 Short guys have the most personality, I feel.

02:18:18.300 Yeah.

02:18:19.840 It's easy to get.

02:18:20.520 I mean, you say that, but these guys out here are getting curved on the dating apps,

02:18:26.380 like...

02:18:27.000 That's because they're dating, it's dating apps, but I feel like if they met a girl in real

02:18:30.360 life, like, at the library or something, if they did some pickup, then it'd be easy.

02:18:33.420 Most people are meeting online now, though.

02:18:34.780 Yeah, of course, when you're looking for, like, a hookup, you're going to be more selective

02:18:36.640 in, like, appearance versus, like, if you're looking for something more serious.

02:18:41.060 Sure.

02:18:41.380 I mean, yeah, it's definitely better to meet people in person, but most people are meeting

02:18:45.800 online now.

02:18:47.700 Kiki, what do you think?

02:18:49.220 It will.

02:18:50.260 No.

02:18:51.020 Okay.

02:18:52.620 Let's get...

02:18:53.500 Let's do some super chats, but before that, really important question, guys.

02:18:57.940 Guys?

02:18:58.960 Very important question.

02:19:00.580 Wait, put it on Jade so you can see what she's doing. 0.98

02:19:02.880 Okay.

02:19:04.440 Stop distracting me, Jade.

02:19:05.600 Sorry, my bad.

02:19:06.100 Distracting me.

02:19:06.620 This is really the most pressing dating issue, I think.

02:19:12.920 Let's say you meet a guy.

02:19:14.760 He's really attractive.

02:19:15.920 You really like him.

02:19:17.820 Meets all your standards, whatever.

02:19:22.720 You know, let's say he approached you at a Trader Joe's.

02:19:25.220 You guys organically just started a conversation, and he asks for your number, and you're totally

02:19:29.680 down to give him your number.

02:19:30.620 And then he pulls out a flip phone.

02:19:35.120 Wow.

02:19:35.760 That is so cute.

02:19:37.080 That's so cute.

02:19:38.260 Yeah, that would be really intriguing.

02:19:39.300 That's adorable.

02:19:40.480 Yeah, that is...

02:19:41.380 That's top tier. 0.99

02:19:42.600 I don't have to worry about you liking other bitches' pictures. 1.00

02:19:45.760 I don't have to worry about you cheating on me, like, through social media. 0.99

02:19:49.420 First of all, is that yours, or is that a prop one?

02:19:52.240 Do you use that?

02:19:52.680 It's definitely a prop.

02:19:53.480 Yeah.

02:19:53.720 Because we've been talking on Instagram.

02:19:54.580 He flipped it open, and it was dead.

02:19:56.000 Like, he doesn't use that.

02:19:57.560 I feel like guys with those kind of phones are loyal.

02:19:59.300 Yeah, that is a green flag all the way.

02:20:02.000 That is amazing.

02:20:02.160 It's not a red flag?

02:20:03.260 No, that is a green flag.

02:20:05.120 Yeah.

02:20:05.520 Now, I would be worried, like, if I saw that you had, like, an actual phone, like, at home.

02:20:10.040 Because, like, why are you crying about it?

02:20:12.160 Track phone.

02:20:12.600 Track phone, yeah.

02:20:12.800 But if that's really his phone, that's amazing.

02:20:14.780 Okay.

02:20:15.620 Respect.

02:20:16.240 Yeah.

02:20:16.560 I mean, then you hear the whole, like, Android versus iPhone.

02:20:20.400 Oh, I heard that.

02:20:21.380 Green versus blue.

02:20:21.580 Yeah, the only issue I would have is, like, if it's, like, long distance and, like, not being

02:20:24.540 able to FaceTime.

02:20:25.500 Like, that would suck. 0.82

02:20:26.500 But, like, long distance just sucks in general. 0.92

02:20:28.520 Android guys don't get laid as much as iPhone guys.

02:20:30.820 Android guys are, like, more nerd types, but I like more nerd types.

02:20:34.400 So, I think that's honestly a green flag as well.

02:20:36.700 The bubbles, though.

02:20:37.620 Really?

02:20:38.000 I don't know.

02:20:39.020 I like nerdier guys, so I think.

02:20:41.520 What about?

02:20:44.060 What about this?

02:20:44.980 You can't text on those, can you?

02:20:46.920 What is that?

02:20:47.520 Does that even work?

02:20:48.500 This is a Motorola.

02:20:50.540 It's a brick.

02:20:51.580 Like, nobody's going to be in the Trader Joe's with pulling that thing out.

02:20:54.660 Yo, chat, remind me.

02:20:55.320 What's the model number on this?

02:20:57.240 It's the Motorola chat.

02:21:00.000 Wait, Eric, put it on me.

02:21:01.020 From 1912.

02:21:02.340 What's the model number for this? 0.93

02:21:04.820 It's, like, the Motorola X9000 or some bullshit.

02:21:10.260 So, you guys down for this? 0.96

02:21:13.520 Who is pulling that out of the Trader Joe's?

02:21:15.020 Aren't those the ones that you have to have in your car to be connected to anything?

02:21:18.860 So, like, how did he get that in the store?

02:21:19.640 Yeah, what does the other end of, like, the wire look like?

02:21:21.820 Yeah.

02:21:22.980 And if it's a landline, how did he get that there?

02:21:24.740 I mean, that's, like, just the charger for it. 0.99

02:21:26.500 Damn. 0.99

02:21:26.860 I mean, if you let me, like, put that tip in your bowl. 1.00

02:21:31.420 Goddamn, Jade. 1.00

02:21:32.500 Okay. 0.99

02:21:33.140 Let's do some Super Chats.

02:21:34.340 Sorry, guys.

02:21:34.800 We're super behind on Super Chats, but we'll get to it.

02:21:36.880 But we did this one.

02:21:40.300 Or, wait, did we do this one?

02:21:42.340 We haven't done a lot.

02:21:43.460 Yeah, I know.

02:21:44.200 We just were in a really good back and forth there.

02:21:46.980 Red Misfit, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:21:48.660 It's funny.

02:21:49.040 I feel like Asian women and white men are as common as black men and white women.

02:21:52.980 It's just a thing.

02:21:56.520 Word?

02:21:57.000 Oh, that's very true.

02:21:58.520 Word?

02:21:58.980 Yeah.

02:21:59.180 Yeah.

02:21:59.480 Yeah.

02:22:02.100 We got Davon Jackson.

02:22:03.720 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

02:22:04.960 Appreciate it.

02:22:05.480 I truly don't understand paying for OnlyFans or Prawn when there's literally limitless free

02:22:11.720 porn on the internet should show women how desperate these men are for companionship.

02:22:17.900 Yeah, I mean, I don't think there would not be such a demand for strippers, porn, OnlyFans 0.62

02:22:24.860 if I think men were getting laid.

02:22:27.420 That's not a bad thing.

02:22:28.440 You guys, it's not bad to be lonely.

02:22:30.660 Like, it's not like...

02:22:31.540 It's kind of bad.

02:22:32.340 No, it's not.

02:22:32.900 Like, you shouldn't be ashamed to feel like a natural human emotion.

02:22:36.200 Like, we all feel it.

02:22:37.060 You shouldn't be ashamed of it.

02:22:39.280 If OF or, like, porn isn't for you, that's good.

02:22:41.740 But, like, you shouldn't shame other people for being lonely.

02:22:44.400 Because you felt it.

02:22:45.420 I think we've all felt lonely.

02:22:47.160 By the way, her OnlyFans is 20% off.

02:22:51.920 I say this from a non-biased point of view.

02:22:54.500 Yeah, yeah.

02:22:55.220 There's no...

02:22:56.660 What's it called? 1.00

02:22:59.380 Fuck, what's the term? 1.00

02:23:00.220 I forgot. 1.00

02:23:00.620 Whatever.

02:23:01.280 This is in response to Mike Davis seeing...

02:23:05.760 Eric, can you pull that back up?

02:23:06.920 The Burger King?

02:23:07.820 Yeah, there we go.

02:23:08.840 If you guys are just tuning in, we uncovered...

02:23:11.260 We went deep into the Google searches and we found this photo of Mike Davis working at

02:23:18.340 one of his Burger King restaurants.

02:23:20.660 So, yeah.

02:23:22.660 Thank you, Mike Davis.

02:23:23.620 Appreciate it.

02:23:24.340 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

02:23:25.700 I would rather marry a Burger King Whopper than a woman. 1.00

02:23:28.280 Given the state of females nowadays, it's easier to find a black cat in a coal cellar than 1.00

02:23:34.380 women worthy of a ring. 0.99

02:23:36.300 W.

02:23:36.660 Brian.

02:23:37.060 Yo, what's up?

02:23:37.660 Team No Marriage. 0.99

02:23:38.440 Let's do it.

02:23:40.960 Okay.

02:23:42.040 Go your own way, fellas.

02:23:43.280 Okay.

02:23:43.540 Dave on Jackson with the $10 soup chat.

02:23:45.100 Shout out to Fresh and Fit.

02:23:45.980 What's one thing you did wrong in your last relationship and one thing your partner did

02:23:49.700 wrong that led to the end of the relationship?

02:23:52.480 Good question, Dave on Jackson.

02:23:53.880 We can do that one right now.

02:23:56.100 Go ahead.

02:23:58.280 So, one thing you did wrong in your last relationship?

02:24:01.100 One thing I did wrong, the big thing I did wrong in my last relationship was mistake

02:24:05.060 love for, was mistake the feelings I had for like the appreciation that he like, he

02:24:12.540 gave, like he centered me, he made me his like whole world and I love that, that feeling

02:24:17.560 of validation and I mistaked it for love and it didn't ultimately work out because I didn't

02:24:24.920 really love him.

02:24:25.540 I just liked how he made me feel.

02:24:28.040 One mistake that he made was that he focused way too much on me and not enough on himself.

02:24:33.900 Okay.

02:24:34.720 So, what was the thing that you did wrong?

02:24:36.760 Like, I didn't really love him.

02:24:39.300 I just like how he made me feel.

02:24:41.120 Like, I don't think we were ultimately equals.

02:24:43.920 Did you end that relationship or did he?

02:24:46.900 I ended it.

02:24:48.160 The last one.

02:24:48.860 Is that, is that, did you, I don't know if that's you doing something wrong though.

02:24:53.580 I'm talking like, did you slash a dude's tires?

02:24:56.220 Oh, like that? 1.00

02:24:57.260 You did some crazy shit or you were argumentative or, you know, whatever. 0.99

02:25:01.340 Yeah, no, I was definitely really argumentative because I felt like I could get away with 1.00

02:25:05.380 a lot of things.

02:25:05.960 Like, he was, he was constantly like, yes, yes, yes, let me do this for you.

02:25:09.920 And then like, I felt resentful towards him because I felt like I just tried to push his

02:25:14.020 boundaries a lot.

02:25:14.820 So, it was a really toxic relationship.

02:25:16.500 Okay.

02:25:17.080 Jade, what about you?

02:25:17.760 All right, so this is my first, my first relationship.

02:25:20.980 It was the, the three or one. 1.00

02:25:23.520 I fucked it. 0.99

02:25:24.540 I didn't, well, okay. 1.00

02:25:25.740 So, what happened was we were playing basketball one-on-one and then I found out, his friend

02:25:31.280 told me that he cheated on me with his coworker.

02:25:34.220 So, then during our one-on-one basketball game, I tried to hold in the anger, but I ended

02:25:38.460 up beating him up.

02:25:39.880 What?

02:25:41.040 What?

02:25:42.620 You? 1.00

02:25:43.440 Like, I like, just like straight, like, fucked him up with my hands. 1.00

02:25:47.760 Wait, you? 0.99

02:25:57.020 But I didn't hit him too hard, but I just hit him enough to show that I knew that he

02:26:01.620 cheated on me.

02:26:02.160 Did you, did he fight back or he just let you?

02:26:04.720 He kind of pushed me back a little bit.

02:26:06.280 Like, he was playing a little bit, like, he was checking the ball aggressively, which

02:26:09.640 made me more aggressive and he was following me a bit.

02:26:11.520 And then, and then that's what led up to me, like.

02:26:15.380 Boom. 0.99

02:26:17.020 Goddamn. 1.00

02:26:17.380 Okay. 0.99

02:26:17.980 What about you?

02:26:18.720 I'm going to have to skip this question.

02:26:19.780 I've never been.

02:26:20.220 Oh, right.

02:26:20.660 You've never been in a relationship.

02:26:22.840 What about you?

02:26:23.980 A mistake I made was being really insecure, probably.

02:26:27.660 And like, caring a lot about different girls he was talking to and like, whatever.

02:26:33.300 Okay.

02:26:35.840 Him, just like not putting in enough effort, I feel like.

02:26:39.520 That was like the main reason I ended it was just like, if it wasn't working and we lived

02:26:43.440 like 10 minutes away from each other, it wasn't going to work when I came to school.

02:26:47.160 Wait.

02:26:47.540 So remind me, what did you do wrong?

02:26:49.720 Oh, I was really like insecure.

02:26:51.400 You were insecure.

02:26:52.240 Okay.

02:26:52.480 I would like kind of start fights over like, probably things that like weren't super substantial.

02:26:57.240 Like, if he was talking to someone and I didn't know who it was.

02:27:00.220 Okay.

02:27:01.120 Got it.

02:27:01.660 Got it.

02:27:02.400 We got one thing here real quick from Stifler.

02:27:04.520 We got, ask the ladies to rate themselves on a scale of one to 10. 1.00

02:27:07.140 We can do that really quick.

02:27:08.040 Go ahead.

02:27:09.700 Oh, God.

02:27:10.840 I'd say I'm like a seven.

02:27:13.400 Okay.

02:27:14.160 Jade?

02:27:15.220 I would say on a good day, a solid six.

02:27:19.220 Okay.

02:27:19.800 All right.

02:27:20.700 I would say a seven too.

02:27:23.900 I'm a 10 because confidence is key.

02:27:27.880 I love you for that.

02:27:30.980 Wait.

02:27:31.440 Okay.

02:27:31.780 So one question.

02:27:33.880 Why would I rate myself like for these men?

02:27:36.620 Like I'm a 10.

02:27:37.520 I'm a 10 in my eyes.

02:27:38.660 Don't you think it's a bit of hubris?

02:27:40.820 No.

02:27:41.520 She's a 10 to me too.

02:27:43.820 But like, okay, if you're a 10, then you could deserve a guy who's a 10, right?

02:27:47.800 I deserve whoever I deserve.

02:27:50.740 I don't know.

02:27:51.040 Because like on the dating marketplace, don't you think you should have a reasonable self-assessment

02:27:55.080 of like where you stand?

02:27:56.880 That way you can secure a guy that's like on your level, you know?

02:28:02.560 I don't believe in leagues.

02:28:04.840 In what?

02:28:05.440 In like different leagues.

02:28:06.780 Like if someone's like out of my league.

02:28:08.100 Or like I'm out of their league, you know?

02:28:09.980 So everyone's the equivalent, the same attractiveness?

02:28:13.920 No.

02:28:14.360 I mean like I wouldn't base who I'm going to go up to like on what I think.

02:28:20.780 Like if I'm like going out to, say I'm at a party or something, okay?

02:28:25.940 And like there's this guy that I'm attracted to.

02:28:28.680 I'm not going to be like, oh, he's too attractive for me based on what I think I look like.

02:28:32.460 So I'm not going to go up to him.

02:28:35.120 Like I'm not going to let what I think I look like and what I think my rating should be affect how I live my life.

02:28:41.460 Right.

02:28:41.980 But okay, here's the problem.

02:28:43.440 Let's say you might believe that.

02:28:45.860 But let's say the guy in actuality is out of your league. 1.00

02:28:48.780 Like he's going to fuck you and then not ever date you. 1.00

02:28:54.460 Okay. 1.00

02:28:55.340 I mean if you're okay with that, that's fine.

02:28:58.180 But if you're trying to, you're not going to be able to secure a relationship from that guy if he's truly out of your league. 0.96

02:29:04.680 If he's going to fucking dip based on what I look like, then I don't want a relationship with him. 0.97

02:29:08.820 I mean newsflash, men care about physical appearance. 0.99

02:29:11.460 I know we've been over this.

02:29:14.460 I mean you're potentially setting yourself up to get hurt or screwed over.

02:29:19.980 No. 0.99

02:29:20.440 And it's not even, he might not even dip, but he's just going to keep you around for sex.

02:29:24.200 He's not going to commit to you is what I'm trying to say.

02:29:27.500 He's not going to commit to you.

02:29:28.580 I wouldn't want to commit to someone who isn't going to commit to me in that way.

02:29:30.780 Right, but he's going to keep you around just for sex. 0.98

02:29:34.460 But I'm allowing that, so who's really winning?

02:29:36.880 If I'm allowing, because I have to have a say in the matter, it takes two to tango.

02:29:42.480 Sure.

02:29:42.860 So if I'm allowing it, then obviously I'm fine with it.

02:29:46.100 But I mean it's often women who complain that men aren't willing to commit to them.

02:29:50.140 Oftentimes, yeah, but I don't care.

02:29:51.940 You don't care about commitment?

02:29:53.200 I don't care. 1.00

02:29:53.960 If I'm fucking someone. 1.00

02:29:59.380 She belongs to the streets. 0.99

02:30:00.720 If I'm fucking someone, and then, like, if I'm, okay, we're fucking, and that's all 0.99

02:30:05.980 that needs to be, then, like, that's fine. 0.98

02:30:08.620 Like, I don't understand how this got from me rating myself.

02:30:12.860 How do we end up here?

02:30:13.980 How do we end up here?

02:30:14.900 How do we end up here?

02:30:15.000 Rating myself.

02:30:15.620 Rating myself.

02:30:16.200 Yeah.

02:30:16.440 I want to hear a six.

02:30:18.000 Six?

02:30:18.260 Six.

02:30:18.340 Six point nine on a good day. 1.00

02:30:19.500 Damn. 1.00

02:30:20.160 What? 1.00

02:30:20.520 You think that's too high? 0.99

02:30:21.520 I mean, I just said damn. 1.00

02:30:22.640 What the fuck? 1.00

02:30:23.140 I just said damn. 1.00

02:30:23.700 Why did you say damn? 0.99

02:30:25.180 Because that's immediately what popped in my head when you said that. 0.92

02:30:27.720 When I said six? 0.99

02:30:28.700 Yeah, I was like, damn. 0.99

02:30:29.480 What? 0.99

02:30:30.580 There's no, it's neutral.

02:30:32.240 That's not a neutral.

02:30:33.160 That wasn't it.

02:30:33.720 What did you mean?

02:30:35.420 It's neutral.

02:30:36.340 You think six is too high?

02:30:37.980 I, who said that?

02:30:39.040 Say what you think.

02:30:40.000 Who said that?

02:30:40.560 You can say what you think.

02:30:41.520 But why would I do that?

02:30:42.720 I don't know.

02:30:43.460 Well, then.

02:30:44.140 You think, what did you rate yourself for minor?

02:30:46.860 I rated myself a seven.

02:30:48.380 Okay.

02:30:48.820 Yeah.

02:30:49.300 Oh, okay.

02:30:50.820 All right.

02:30:52.100 Six point nine on a good day.

02:30:53.340 All right. 1.00

02:30:54.500 Damn, what the fuck? 1.00

02:30:56.600 Okay, so. 1.00

02:30:59.480 Brian is hurt.

02:31:00.640 Are you hurt, Brian?

02:31:01.540 Are you hurt?

02:31:02.080 I'm sorry. 0.99

02:31:02.700 God damn. 0.99

02:31:03.780 Don't be hurt. 1.00

02:31:04.580 My humor is at.

02:31:05.440 I'm deeply, I'm deeply hurt.

02:31:06.980 I'm deeply hurt.

02:31:07.660 She is not a seven.

02:31:09.380 Oh my God.

02:31:09.940 What rate would you, like, say if you want to date a girl, like, what kind of rating would

02:31:14.820 you do to date her?

02:31:16.760 Like, what does she need?

02:31:17.920 Yeah, what does she need for you?

02:31:18.900 Physical appearance?

02:31:19.640 Yeah.

02:31:22.180 Like.

02:31:22.560 What does she have to be? 0.99

02:31:23.200 Like, a five, six, seven.

02:31:24.180 Like, what's your.

02:31:24.720 What does she have to be? 0.99

02:31:25.680 I mean.

02:31:26.120 For you.

02:31:27.000 I mean, I care about more than just appearance.

02:31:29.040 But, um, like, seven's good.

02:31:34.300 Give me a seven.

02:31:35.640 You know.

02:31:35.960 Get you a seven.

02:31:37.240 And what does that, like, entail?

02:31:38.320 Like, what.

02:31:38.620 What do you mean?

02:31:39.160 What do you mean?

02:31:40.780 What do I mean?

02:31:41.280 What do you mean?

02:31:41.760 What do I mean?

02:31:42.260 What do I mean?

02:31:42.820 What do you mean?

02:31:43.140 I'm just asking questions.

02:31:44.880 No, no.

02:31:45.240 Okay, go ahead.

02:31:45.880 Go ahead.

02:31:46.200 Okay.

02:31:46.600 So, what physical attributes does she need to be a seven? 1.00

02:31:49.280 Like, a solid seven.

02:31:50.420 What does she need? 0.99

02:31:51.140 I mean, you know it when you see it. 1.00

02:31:52.520 Like, you want me to articulate the fucking jaw structure. 0.99

02:31:55.640 Absolutely. 0.99

02:31:56.000 I want you to paint me a picture.

02:31:59.100 Paint us a picture.

02:31:59.380 It could be Giselle.

02:32:00.820 Okay, okay.

02:32:01.180 I'll tell you what my type is.

02:32:02.420 How about that?

02:32:02.960 No, no, no.

02:32:03.320 I need, like.

02:32:03.740 Actually, yeah.

02:32:04.200 I need, like, to a T.

02:32:05.460 No, I want to know what it is. 0.92

02:32:06.060 Bro, like, her boob size.

02:32:07.700 Like, her waist size.

02:32:08.920 Like, I need everything.

02:32:09.680 Her shoe size. 1.00

02:32:10.820 Shoe size, motherfucker. 1.00

02:32:12.000 Shoe size. 1.00

02:32:12.660 What the fuck? 1.00

02:32:12.960 Huh? 1.00

02:32:13.480 Okay, wait.

02:32:13.820 What's your type?

02:32:14.380 I want to know what your type is.

02:32:16.780 Okay.

02:32:17.220 Okay.

02:32:17.880 4'11 beef curtain queen. 0.97

02:32:20.900 Beef curtain queen. 1.00

02:32:22.040 Oh.

02:32:22.840 Oh.

02:32:23.320 That's a fact.

02:32:23.960 I like Audis.

02:32:24.660 I like Audis.

02:32:25.560 That's a fact, for sure.

02:32:26.780 Those guys still love them.

02:32:27.720 You're not going to know if she's an innie or an outie. 1.00

02:32:29.660 I'm going to know the first time we fuck. 1.00

02:32:32.760 I'm talking, like, you see someone walking down the street. 1.00

02:32:35.760 You know what?

02:32:36.340 I wish there was, like, data points that.

02:32:40.740 X-ray vision?

02:32:41.620 X-ray vision.

02:32:42.460 You want to see their outies before you commit to them? 1.00

02:32:45.580 Shit, I'll ask. 1.00

02:32:46.960 I'll ask. 1.00

02:32:47.800 Do you have an innie or an outie?

02:32:50.080 No, I like outies. 0.99

02:32:51.400 Outies are good. 0.97

02:32:51.820 I like innies, too.

02:32:53.040 I do, but, yeah.

02:32:55.260 So, that's your preference.

02:32:56.100 My DMs are open.

02:32:57.540 What?

02:32:58.200 Your types are, like, sevens with a... 0.81

02:33:00.720 If her height doesn't start with a four, she ain't the one. 1.00

02:33:03.820 Oh.

02:33:04.560 Short.

02:33:05.000 Yeah, shorter the better.

02:33:05.940 No, I mean, I'm kind of joking.

02:33:07.940 Like, I do have a slight preference.

02:33:09.640 She wants, like, a midget? 1.00

02:33:10.140 Like, he wants one so... 0.95

02:33:11.120 I'll date a midget. 1.00

02:33:12.160 My DMs are open. 0.98

02:33:13.500 I will get with a midget. 1.00

02:33:15.180 Sorry, dwarf. 1.00

02:33:16.020 Dwarf.

02:33:16.500 Yeah, sorry.

02:33:17.060 Little person.

02:33:17.940 Little person.

02:33:18.620 Little person.

02:33:19.380 Forgive us.

02:33:19.920 No, I'm serious.

02:33:21.180 I will.

02:33:21.980 So, I have a...

02:33:23.080 I'll date a woman who's taller than me, but I would say, overall, I have a slight preference

02:33:27.160 towards...

02:33:28.020 Little people. 0.82

02:33:28.680 Short.

02:33:29.460 Yeah, little people.

02:33:30.080 So, you could dominate them in bed?

02:33:31.540 And, like, pick them up?

02:33:32.280 Fun size.

02:33:33.020 Fun size.

02:33:33.500 Fun size.

02:33:34.560 You know, the light...

02:33:35.340 Throw them up. 1.00

02:33:36.060 Fucking throw them over here. 1.00

02:33:37.560 Throw them over there. 1.00

02:33:38.620 Right, right.

02:33:39.560 Throw them through the window.

02:33:40.440 And, honestly, okay, this is...

02:33:43.920 I'm...

02:33:44.320 Jesus Christ.

02:33:45.360 I like a thick girl.

02:33:46.500 Don't get me wrong.

02:33:48.300 But, okay.

02:33:49.320 If the thighs... 0.71

02:33:50.140 What's the weight limit that you're...

02:33:51.520 Huh?

02:33:51.780 How thick?

02:33:52.180 How thick?

02:33:53.200 Depends how tall she is. 1.00

02:33:54.260 Well, obviously, if she's 4'11", then, like, what's the weight she's got to be in? 0.99

02:33:58.460 Probably...

02:33:58.820 I don't...

02:33:59.340 I don't know.

02:34:00.420 I'm not...

02:34:00.660 Are we talking, like, 85 to, like, 4...

02:34:03.300 I mean, sub-100 is good, I guess.

02:34:05.460 If she's short, sure. 0.91

02:34:07.280 But, if she's, like, average height, average weight... 1.00

02:34:10.720 No, I shouldn't say average weight.

02:34:12.460 I honestly don't think you can't.

02:34:12.480 You can't have both.

02:34:13.380 Like, you're either gonna have thick or you're gonna have sub-100.

02:34:15.460 But, here's the thing.

02:34:16.120 What were you gonna say?

02:34:16.880 Okay, thighs... 1.00

02:34:18.200 If the thighs are too big and she's on top, I can't, like... 1.00

02:34:22.680 But, if she's lighter, you shouldn't even add her, right?

02:34:25.140 You know, because...

02:34:26.200 That's, like, thick, thick.

02:34:29.380 Oh, you wanna do the reach around? 0.99

02:34:30.560 Oh, to her butthole? 1.00

02:34:31.360 Well, to rubber... 0.99

02:34:32.040 Oh! 0.60

02:34:32.740 Rubber clip.

02:34:33.660 Wait, hold on.

02:34:34.180 I can't...

02:34:34.620 Why don't you rub it...

02:34:35.380 If she's on top, you rub it like this. 0.97

02:34:37.040 You don't rub it around...

02:34:38.080 No, no, no, no.

02:34:38.760 Okay, if she's on top...

02:34:39.780 She's on top, right?

02:34:41.540 You go around the leg.

02:34:43.480 You don't go...

02:34:44.340 You don't...

02:34:44.900 Wait, if she's on top of you... 0.99

02:34:45.980 If she's on... 1.00

02:34:46.480 Her pussy's right here, you can do this. 1.00

02:34:48.720 Like, you're on top, like, you're... 1.00

02:34:50.300 Are you from the front?

02:34:52.600 You're saying like this?

02:34:53.180 Yeah, you do it with your thumb.

02:34:55.480 Like, she's on top of me, right?

02:34:56.540 Like, it's right here and you're just...

02:34:57.300 No, no, no, no.

02:34:58.000 See, because when...

02:34:59.240 When the girl's on top, she's not riding. 0.80

02:35:01.420 She's down here, hair pull in the ear.

02:35:04.980 Wait.

02:35:05.760 Reverse cowgirl? 1.00

02:35:07.040 No, cowgirl. 1.00

02:35:07.860 Is her butt to you? 1.00

02:35:08.460 Cowgirl. 1.00

02:35:08.840 Is her face to you?

02:35:10.080 Yes.

02:35:10.520 Oh, you're talking like she's laying on your chest?

02:35:12.960 She's laying on my chest.

02:35:15.360 Oh.

02:35:15.960 Oh.

02:35:16.080 Yeah, if she's up, you can't do the reach around anyways.

02:35:19.940 Yeah, that's why we're confused.

02:35:21.220 Yeah.

02:35:21.520 No, but she's down by my side here.

02:35:24.080 I just kind of see.

02:35:25.980 Okay. 0.77

02:35:26.160 So you're trying to, like, reach for a clit when you... 1.00

02:35:27.640 You read... 0.98

02:35:28.180 Oh, okay.

02:35:28.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:35:29.360 I see what you're saying.

02:35:29.660 Like, from the back or from the front?

02:35:31.040 From the back.

02:35:31.560 It's from the side.

02:35:32.480 Oh.

02:35:32.520 From the side, yeah.

02:35:33.180 I see what you should say.

02:35:34.100 If the thighs are too big, I can't... 1.00

02:35:35.680 It's, like, fucking my... 1.00

02:35:37.040 It's hard, you know? 1.00

02:35:38.060 I like...

02:35:39.320 You know, I don't know.

02:35:39.880 Anyways, I don't know.

02:35:40.980 So, like, how thick do you...

02:35:41.940 Like, what's, like, your thick preference? 0.91

02:35:43.520 Are we talking about labia? 0.97

02:35:44.680 Like, legs. 0.92

02:35:45.860 Thick.

02:35:46.200 The bigger, the better.

02:35:47.160 Oh, yeah?

02:35:47.540 Give me...

02:35:48.140 Yes.

02:35:48.560 I'm not even exaggerating.

02:35:50.320 Wow.

02:35:52.140 So, you look like a little person.

02:35:53.600 So, you do...

02:35:54.380 So, because little people, their weight distribution is usually, like... 0.60

02:35:57.260 So, you're not going to have sub-80.

02:35:58.280 No, wait.

02:35:58.580 I'm talking about...

02:35:59.060 Yeah, you're not going to have sub-80.

02:35:59.420 I'm talking about labia.

02:36:00.380 Or sub-100.

02:36:01.100 Oh, I thought you were talking about labia.

02:36:02.820 Oh, I thought you were talking about how thick she is. 1.00

02:36:03.740 When I say bigger, the better. 0.95

02:36:04.820 I'm talking about labia. 0.95

02:36:05.960 Oh, I see. 0.99

02:36:07.060 What if she has a giant clit? 1.00

02:36:08.780 Sure. 1.00

02:36:10.040 Giant clits are just penis and jay. 1.00

02:36:11.760 I'm down. 1.00

02:36:11.920 I'm down for it. 1.00

02:36:12.940 Penis is... 1.00

02:36:13.580 That comes with the large labia, I guess. 1.00

02:36:15.620 Does it?

02:36:15.920 Not always.

02:36:16.580 No, not always.

02:36:17.560 No, no, no.

02:36:18.740 But boobs? 1.00

02:36:21.440 I don't really... 0.95

02:36:22.180 Boobs are... 1.00

02:36:22.700 Big boobs are fine. 0.99

02:36:23.520 Small boobs are fine. 0.97

02:36:24.300 I don't really care. 0.99

02:36:25.280 Are you a booby guy or a butt guy? 0.99

02:36:26.540 Butt guy. 0.98

02:36:27.160 Butt guy.

02:36:27.560 I'm a labia guy.

02:36:29.720 I'm a labia guy.

02:36:31.000 Clearly.

02:36:31.920 Like you...

02:36:32.280 What?

02:36:33.780 Women... 1.00

02:36:34.420 Chad is freaking out.

02:36:35.480 Brian, who are you? 1.00

02:36:37.560 What the fuck, man? 1.00

02:36:39.460 Yo. 1.00

02:36:40.460 Listen, women can have a genital preference. 1.00

02:36:42.620 They like big dicks. 1.00

02:36:43.780 I like large labia. 1.00

02:36:44.820 You speak your truth, King. 0.92

02:36:47.580 I am.

02:36:47.880 No, it's live your truth.

02:36:50.180 Listen, I think it...

02:36:50.980 No, but I mean to...

02:36:52.040 I know we're having fun here, but I don't want to be flippant about this.

02:36:55.360 It is unfortunate that women who do have Audis get shamed for it.

02:36:58.840 You know, you hear Arby's, roast beef, like all these terms, right?

02:37:02.680 But, and there's dudes like who like wrongly think that if a woman has an Audi, like she's

02:37:09.040 been ran through.

02:37:09.640 Like that's not how that works.

02:37:12.360 Like you don't get an Audi if you've had sex with a bunch of guys.

02:37:15.500 That's not how that works.

02:37:16.380 But okay.

02:37:18.300 I need to use the bathroom really quick.

02:37:19.720 So let's pull up a video.

02:37:20.740 We're going to react.

02:37:21.320 By the way, guys, if you did not know, Jade and Kat here have a podcast and I've curated

02:37:28.940 some of their most toxic, awful clips from their most recent episodes.

02:37:33.820 So we're going to react to a few.

02:37:35.460 We're going to do soup chats.

02:37:37.380 We'll get back to...

02:37:38.280 I know guys, we'll catch up on the soup chats after we watch one of the clips.

02:37:42.180 So yeah, guys, they have a podcast.

02:37:43.820 So check them out.

02:37:44.860 The link's in the description.

02:37:46.100 Before you're right.

02:37:47.300 Yep.

02:37:49.380 That's funny. 1.00

02:37:50.220 So, oh wait, shit. 1.00

02:37:52.660 Did I... 0.99

02:37:53.500 Please tell me I added it.

02:37:55.120 Okay, I did.

02:37:56.660 Eric, can you pull up the video tab, please?

02:38:02.560 Okay, we're going to do...

02:38:03.760 It's at the very top.

02:38:04.640 Very top, very top.

02:38:06.780 Let's do...

02:38:07.340 Yeah, do the first one.

02:38:11.740 Why not?

02:38:12.880 I'm so excited.

02:38:14.980 When I see an Asian guy, when I see his past... 1.00

02:38:18.560 Excuse me?

02:38:19.320 Why use the bathroom?

02:38:20.300 We're allowed to pull up our phones or...

02:38:22.000 That's a red flag.

02:38:23.180 Oh, that's a red flag.

02:38:24.240 Yeah.

02:38:25.020 Diversity in your dating history is a red flag.

02:38:27.740 Yeah, because they have so many types.

02:38:29.220 They would just go for anybody.

02:38:30.840 Oh.

02:38:31.800 Right?

02:38:32.320 They wouldn't just go for me because I'm Asian.

02:38:35.360 Right?

02:38:35.600 They wouldn't go for a specific type.

02:38:37.140 They like everybody.

02:38:38.200 So they think everybody's attractive.

02:38:40.220 Oh, so they're just out here just looking at everyone like a piece of meat out here.

02:38:45.340 Okay, so it's more competition.

02:38:47.000 I think so.

02:38:47.800 Maybe we just misjudged white guys.

02:38:49.860 Why?

02:38:50.320 Are you thinking of dating white guys now?

02:38:52.100 No, absolutely not.

02:38:53.080 Oh! 0.60

02:38:56.420 We're loyal to our race.

02:38:57.860 Yeah.

02:38:58.180 We don't stick to our race until the day we die.

02:38:59.580 I think we are.

02:39:01.040 Asian for life. 0.92

02:39:02.280 Asian for life. 0.92

02:39:04.640 What did she say?

02:39:05.780 Asian for life. 0.92

02:39:07.140 Asian for life. 0.92

02:39:08.480 Asian for life. 0.92

02:39:10.780 Oh, no.

02:39:12.200 Okay.

02:39:15.200 What do you guys base your podcast on?

02:39:18.360 Mostly like sex, relationships, dating.

02:39:20.800 And we have like other creators come on our show and talk about this, you know, different

02:39:24.840 things.

02:39:25.820 Like have their hot takes on things.

02:39:27.780 Do you guys have a favorite podcast to watch like your guys'?

02:39:30.940 I like Call Her Daddy.

02:39:32.040 Oh my God, I love Call Her Daddy.

02:39:33.340 I like Call Her Daddy.

02:39:33.900 Um, yeah.

02:39:36.420 No, these chat people, they agree.

02:39:38.020 They're loyal to the race, you know?

02:39:39.760 Yeah.

02:39:40.580 I just feel like, I feel like, okay, I feel like if an Asian girl, for example, goes out

02:39:44.460 with Brian and like, like tolerates being, tolerates splitting the check and stuff, I'd feel colonized

02:39:52.420 almost, you know?

02:39:53.680 It's not because I don't feel like white guys are attractive because they are, but like, 1.00

02:39:57.920 I feel like there's so much underrepresentation for our own race that like, like, why would

02:40:02.720 I go out with a guy who like doesn't want to invest anything in me who's just white and 0.95

02:40:08.480 that's all he has to offer rather than being with an Asian guy who shares my same culture

02:40:12.220 who's underrepresented and will share the same beliefs I do?

02:40:17.140 Jade?

02:40:20.140 What, what, what do you want me to say?

02:40:21.600 Oh.

02:40:22.860 Oh, about, about that?

02:40:23.920 Yeah, yeah.

02:40:24.480 Oh, um, I think she hit the, hit the point on that.

02:40:27.620 Like, everyone has types, right?

02:40:29.000 That's just my type.

02:40:30.580 Also, I feel like a lot of people, like the, the, the hot take that Jade had, a lot

02:40:34.820 of them are saying that Jade was like, or that we're racist.

02:40:37.780 And I don't think it really speaks to like, I don't think it was like a racist comment.

02:40:42.200 I think if anything, it's a preference, but also if anything, it spoke to Jade being a

02:40:48.460 little bit naive thinking just because a guy has a, like a, a diverse dating past, that

02:40:54.860 means that they'll appreciate her less.

02:40:57.280 So I feel like if anything, it's not because Jade's racist.

02:41:00.080 That's what people took it as.

02:41:02.360 Word.

02:41:02.900 Which is why I clipped it and put it up there and asked Jade if I could, obviously, because

02:41:06.000 I didn't think it was a racist take by her.

02:41:07.540 It was more of like a naive, funny take.

02:41:09.540 Well, I think you guys also ham it up a bit for your podcast, you know, but, uh, so would

02:41:15.160 you guys just question, would you guys date an Asian guy or sorry, would you date a white

02:41:20.040 guy?

02:41:20.260 That's what I was going to ask.

02:41:21.040 Um, it, it, it really depends, but from what I'm comfortable with and from what I've dated,

02:41:32.360 it's been Asian guys.

02:41:33.760 I think it's going to continue that way.

02:41:35.260 Unless a really special white guy comes in my life.

02:41:38.040 I'm not going to say never.

02:41:39.260 Jade, what about you?

02:41:40.320 I just have a preference towards Asian guys.

02:41:42.600 Asian guys? 0.60

02:41:42.880 Yeah.

02:41:43.100 But have you guys dated white guys?

02:41:46.500 Uh, I grew up with Asians, so I never really been around like white guys. 0.53

02:41:50.520 So no, I haven't.

02:41:51.840 You've never, I've never dated a white guy.

02:41:53.400 Really?

02:41:53.780 Yeah.

02:41:53.920 Because I'm not around them.

02:41:54.940 I'm not surrounded by them.

02:41:56.420 But I mean, you're in LA, so.

02:41:57.700 Now I'm in LA.

02:41:58.280 Okay.

02:41:58.620 Yeah.

02:41:59.320 Have you ever hooked up with a white guy?

02:42:01.080 No.

02:42:01.420 Not even hooked up.

02:42:02.220 You've never slept with a white guy.

02:42:04.440 How are you going to peg me? 0.99

02:42:05.840 I mean, I'll peg you.

02:42:06.740 Okay.

02:42:07.180 That's a different story.

02:42:07.980 Make an exception for you.

02:42:08.620 Guys, I'm joking.

02:42:10.040 Chat, chat, I'm joking.

02:42:10.960 I'm joking.

02:42:11.960 Um, okay.

02:42:12.660 Wow.

02:42:13.100 Um, I feel more comfortable with, like, Asians.

02:42:17.260 Okay.

02:42:17.720 Yeah.

02:42:18.100 Fair enough.

02:42:18.500 Fair enough.

02:42:19.560 Um, I'm, no, I'm kidding.

02:42:23.140 Uh, Eric, let's, let's pull up the next clip.

02:42:26.020 Actually, you know what?

02:42:26.740 Sorry.

02:42:27.020 Sorry.

02:42:27.320 Bring it back.

02:42:28.120 Um, let me catch up on Super Chats here.

02:42:30.540 Uh, let's see.

02:42:33.220 Yeah, let me just get these Super Chats.

02:42:34.640 Sorry, guys, that we're taking, we took a while to, uh, get to some of these.

02:42:38.240 Uh, Davon Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.

02:42:41.720 That the top 12 wealthiest women in the world made their money through inheritance or divorce.

02:42:46.800 That's a real thing.

02:42:49.500 I think this goes back to what we were talking about with the, um, uh, you know, marriage,

02:42:55.380 divorce, finances component.

02:42:57.620 So, yeah.

02:43:00.560 Word.

02:43:02.180 Okay.

02:43:02.720 Word.

02:43:03.060 Good for it.

02:43:03.640 Davon Jackson with the $10 Super Chat.

02:43:05.000 It's not about who hurt us specifically.

02:43:06.880 It's about who hurt the 80% of men who wanted to remain married and were served, were served divorce papers.

02:43:14.080 But because of what, though? 1.00

02:43:15.640 You'd have to, like, you can't expect a woman to stay in a relationship if a guy's just cheating on her, abusing her, treating her like shit. 1.00

02:43:21.920 So, like, that's kind of taken, that statistic, I think, has taken a little bit out of context. 0.99

02:43:26.620 I mean, I doubt most divorces are because of abuse or infidelity.

02:43:31.180 I'm sure most of them are because of abuse.

02:43:33.440 I feel like it's infidelity.

02:43:34.120 Yeah, it's infidelity or financial issues.

02:43:36.960 Also, a lot of, if children are involved, a lot of things stem from, like, if a child gets sick and, like, they're in a hospital or something like that.

02:43:45.400 Which also goes to, like, financial because that's a great financial burden.

02:43:49.240 So, I feel like it would either be, like, infidelity, finances, or, like, tragic.

02:43:53.500 Well, finances are the primary reason why there are divorces. 1.00

02:44:00.160 But, I mean, women just get bored. 1.00

02:44:03.960 So do men.

02:44:04.260 Women just get bored. 1.00

02:44:05.180 So do men.

02:44:06.240 Like you just said, like, the older the man gets, he's going to want to seek a younger woman.

02:44:11.940 So what is a man doing with his 45-year-old wife when he has a 25-year-old down the street, you feel?

02:44:17.200 Like, you can't make one point and then disregard it in the next scene.

02:44:20.760 You've got to talk into the microphone.

02:44:21.800 I'm so sorry about that.

02:44:23.340 I'm sorry.

02:44:23.920 I was, like, having a conversation.

02:44:25.600 But, like, you just said, you have men who, biologically, as you stated, they want a younger woman.

02:44:32.500 So what is a 45-50-year-old man doing with his 45-year-old wife when he has a 25-year-old down the street?

02:44:38.760 That's pretty rare.

02:44:39.780 I mean, okay, do you want me to say, like, 35, like, 19-year-old?

02:44:42.900 Like, a younger woman or a more attractive woman or a more physically fit woman or someone who piques his interest at, like, some point in time.

02:44:51.260 Like, infidelity is a huge thing.

02:44:54.160 I mean, rates of infidelity are pretty equal between men and women.

02:44:58.120 I know.

02:44:58.360 But so what we're arguing against is that, like, you can't expect a woman to stay because, like, you feel like you want to stay in the marriage. 0.61

02:45:07.000 Like, if she feels like, for instance, like, she says that the statistic is skewed, right?

02:45:12.340 Because there could be other things that could contribute to said divorce, right?

02:45:16.240 And I'm saying, okay, as you just said, you have men who want to actively seek out younger women.

02:45:22.700 So what's not to say that the statistic of people getting divorced is because the guy wants to cheat on her or whatever infidelity situation there's going on?

02:45:34.640 Okay.

02:45:34.900 Well, so, like I said, men and women cheat at pretty equivalent rates.

02:45:41.500 So as far as the younger women component is kind of irrelevant if the woman is just going to cheat with one of her coworkers who cares about the age or whatever it is of the cheating partner.

02:45:54.080 So I think infidelity is not really a huge thing.

02:46:00.280 And also you have dead bedrooms in relationships.

02:46:04.080 And dead bedrooms are mostly driven by women. 1.00

02:46:07.880 They lose interest in sex.

02:46:09.440 And so, I mean, if you want to talk about infidelity, maybe more men are likely to be pushed towards infidelity because of their wives.

02:46:17.140 It's a dead bedroom.

02:46:18.240 The wives don't want to have sex anymore. 1.00

02:46:20.360 Yeah, why don't they want to have sex anymore? 0.98

02:46:22.020 Because women lose their sex drive. 1.00

02:46:25.380 As they get older?

02:46:26.520 No, that's not what I'm saying.

02:46:27.920 But in long-term relationships, it's less exciting.

02:46:34.340 I think that there is something to be said about that.

02:46:37.160 And I think, like, I think you're right.

02:46:39.720 Sometimes infidelity happens because of that.

02:46:42.800 So couples should be more communicative about, like, their wants and needs sexually.

02:46:47.360 Right.

02:46:47.920 Yeah.

02:46:49.000 I do think a woman has a responsibility to her husband to, like, not that she owes him sex, but to be sensitive to the fact that, like, he is, like, a sexual being and to just be, like, communicative about it.

02:46:58.520 Well, yeah, I mean, part of sex is, sorry, part of marriage is you are, and even monogamous relationships, you are the sole avenue for each other to have sex.

02:47:14.820 So if one person starts, like, their sex drive decreases, how, like, okay, if I got into a relationship with a girl and she just stopped wanting to have sex, unless there's a very good reason, like, and I think this will be for both men and women.

02:47:34.100 Like, if one partner in a relationship just loses their interest in having sex, it's probably either going to be the end of the relationship or infidelity. 0.98

02:47:43.240 And women are typically the ones that you often hear men complaining that their wives don't want to fuck them anymore. 1.00

02:47:50.200 Like, I think if you look in marriages, there's a lot of other factors specifically surrounding women as to, like, why they won't have sex with their husband. 0.99

02:48:00.540 A lot of men, or, like, typically women will kind of use sex as, like, initiative, like, incentive to, like, do things around the house.

02:48:08.540 Like, if you're not doing dishes and the woman's always doing dishes, always doing the laundry, always, like, taking care of the house, like, what makes her want to go and have sex with you later that night? 1.00

02:48:16.380 Like, put in some effort. 0.77

02:48:18.840 Okay.

02:48:20.440 Wait, what?

02:48:21.340 Sorry, repeat it one more time.

02:48:22.460 Sorry, I was distracted by chat.

02:48:23.500 Say it one more time.

02:48:24.100 I'm sorry.

02:48:24.700 The entire thing?

02:48:25.700 Yeah.

02:48:26.100 Say it one more time.

02:48:26.420 Sorry.

02:48:28.140 I think if you're looking in marriages, women typically will use sex as incentive for men, and if they lose their sex drive, it could be because of a man not helping out around in the house or, like, something. 0.98

02:48:40.880 That's ridiculous. 1.00

02:48:41.620 That's fucking ridiculous. 1.00

02:48:43.860 They do, though, but that's toxic. 1.00

02:48:45.640 That's also, turning a woman on is way more than just, like, the things you do in the bedroom.

02:48:51.240 Like, women are typically, like, more, you're going to want, you're going to see effort outside of just, like, oh, I want to get laid. 1.00

02:48:58.000 Sex is an equal value exchange. 0.79

02:49:02.020 Both men and women get pleasure from sex. 0.55

02:49:03.620 No, I'm saying typically in marriages, a lot of the times when men aren't getting laid, it's because they're not doing something.

02:49:09.840 Like, they're not helping out the woman the way she needs to, like, be it, like, emotionally or, like, around the house or something in that stance where, like, she's not in the mood at all.

02:49:19.060 Like, her entire day is ruined.

02:49:20.500 She's not in the mood. 1.00

02:49:21.180 She doesn't want to fuck you that night. 1.00

02:49:22.220 Like, if I was working all day and I came home and the house is a fucking mess, I'm not going to be horny for you later. 1.00

02:49:29.580 Like, I don't want to touch you. 1.00

02:49:30.740 You piss me off.

02:49:32.600 Is this your hypothetical stay-at-home husband?

02:49:37.280 Yeah.

02:49:37.560 No, this is just, this is me hypothetically, like, bringing to the table an example of, like, why I think in marriages, women tend to give their husbands sex less.

02:49:49.060 Because they're not happy in the marriage, because they're not happy in the marriage, so they're not horny for them.

02:49:58.000 Yeah, they're not receiving more than just, like, sexual pleasure.

02:50:02.100 I would say that it's more.

02:50:03.340 And then what do the men get?

02:50:05.380 What are the men getting?

02:50:06.800 It's an equal relationship.

02:50:08.380 That's what I'm saying.

02:50:09.040 Like, women, if they're always feeling that they're doing everything around the house, if they're always, like, putting in work with the kids or, like, doing household chores and whatnot, like, obviously you're not going to want to go home. 0.69

02:50:19.060 You don't have sex with your man later, because, like, you're annoyed.

02:50:22.040 That's why you usually need to communicate, though.

02:50:23.620 Like, if I was, like, okay, we were married.

02:50:24.800 Yeah, it leads back to communication, but I'm saying, like, in marriages, like, that's what I've typically heard about, seen.

02:50:29.380 Like, a lot of examples are, like, women that aren't happy with what their man is doing at home, helping her out more than just physically and sexually. 1.00

02:50:36.640 So your advice to men is they should do more chores to get laid?

02:50:41.880 Not the conversation.

02:50:42.740 That's not my direct advice.

02:50:44.000 That's just, like, me noticing a trend in marriage about men and women and why the woman may not be putting out for the man as much.

02:50:55.120 I mean, a man could be a fantastic partner and the woman can just not be attracted to him. 0.95

02:50:59.500 I gave one example, though.

02:51:00.360 Like, that was literally just, like, one example.

02:51:02.020 Yeah.

02:51:02.420 Guys washing dishes are hot, though.

02:51:03.900 Like, if I come home to a clean house, if I just worked, it's, like, the same thing with a man. 0.98

02:51:10.800 He wants, if he's working all day, he wants to come home to dinner being made.

02:51:13.680 Like, it's, like, a similar thing. 0.99

02:51:15.180 Like, if I'm working all day and the house, I come home and the house is disgusting after working all day and being tired, like, I'm not going to want to have sex with you in a dirty house. 0.95

02:51:23.660 Like, if the house is clean, like, I'm going to be more inclined to have sex with you that night.

02:51:26.660 I was going to say that I would think, like, the most reasonable thing that makes sense to me would be that, like, the relationship is no longer, like, you're not communicating about what the other needs.

02:51:43.500 Like, in intercourse, you're supposed to be pleasuring each other.

02:51:45.340 So, say one person wants something very rough and very quick and very fast, but someone wants someone very sweet, very sensual.

02:51:51.880 And so, then, there's a disconnect in the bedroom because it's, like, you want one thing and I want the other, but we both can't match each other's expectations on that.

02:52:00.060 And so, thus, like, we have people that's, like, I don't even want to do anything with you because you don't want to do the things that I want to do.

02:52:05.920 And even if I do things you don't, like, you want me to do, you're not going to match the same energy.

02:52:11.520 I think it all comes down to her point about communication.

02:52:13.880 Yeah, communication for the most part.

02:52:15.780 Like, that would be my, like, the most reasonable answer to, say, like, a dead bedroom, like you said.

02:52:23.100 I mean, men communicate often in these dead bedroom situations that they want to have sex, but.

02:52:29.220 But then, like.

02:52:30.020 Like, she's not, it's just not happening.

02:52:32.460 Well, because there's also, like, you know, like, you can only, you can, you put out and then you have to also, you have to receive, too.

02:52:38.520 Like, you have to, like, you have to give and take from that.

02:52:41.860 I don't, I don't think we should assume in these dead bedroom situations that the men are necessarily doing something wrong.

02:52:48.260 I'm saying both, both parties are.

02:52:49.980 Or that the guy isn't a good lover.

02:52:52.360 No, no, no.

02:52:52.820 Like, I'm saying both parties could be equally, like, not a good lover or what have you.

02:52:57.600 But I feel like it's just not, like, there's no communication between what both parties want.

02:53:05.400 That would be the most reasonable kind of excuse that I would have for a dead bedroom.

02:53:10.580 Like, here's, here's what I think is the cause of dead bedrooms.

02:53:13.660 Women throughout.

02:53:16.500 Here's, here's what I think, right?

02:53:18.060 Okay.

02:53:20.040 When women are young, say, from, like, 18 to late 20s, they're dating the hot dudes, the guys who are really great in bed, the really attractive guys.

02:53:28.600 Those guys are not willing to commit.

02:53:30.020 When it comes time to have a family and have children, they want the reliable, probably a bit dull provider. 0.99

02:53:38.760 So, they settle down, or they consider they settle for a provider, and that guy is not exciting to them the same way that the guy who's a bad boy, who's a jerk, is exciting to women. 0.99

02:53:52.720 So, that's what I think is happening. 0.99

02:53:55.680 That's why I think there's dead bedrooms in marriages. 1.00

02:53:58.360 I think that's, I think there's some truth to that, actually.

02:54:01.680 But I think women should not lower, settle, and lower their standards for someone that they think is just safe.

02:54:06.820 Because I feel like men and women both deserve a partner that they, like, value, and they hold to the highest esteem.

02:54:12.940 That's, like, the truly, like, that's a true healthy relationship.

02:54:15.400 Yeah.

02:54:17.560 Yeah.

02:54:18.300 Yeah.

02:54:18.780 Yeah.

02:54:19.260 I'd like to get married.

02:54:20.580 Nah.

02:54:20.900 I'd like to get married, Brian.

02:54:21.920 Nah, I'm not going to get married.

02:54:24.680 She'd have to be, probably make more than me. 0.94

02:54:27.240 Okay.

02:54:27.840 Let's just get, I got to blast through these super chats, just because we've got quite a few.

02:54:34.480 I think we got that one.

02:54:36.580 Okay, we got Mike Davis here with the $10 soup chat.

02:54:38.560 Something wrong in the head with most women nowadays. 1.00

02:54:40.400 The only sane women seem to be Latina. 1.00

02:54:43.480 No white or black women for me. 1.00

02:54:44.840 And also, this group of basic girls wouldn't date Brad Pitt. 0.99

02:54:49.580 Deranged.

02:54:50.560 Wow, you guys wouldn't date Brad Pitt. 1.00

02:54:52.380 Damn. 1.00

02:54:53.380 Remember that? 0.99

02:54:54.380 When they said they wouldn't date Brad?

02:54:56.440 Can you pull up the Mike Davis Burger King thing really quick?

02:55:00.420 Boom.

02:55:00.940 Look at that handsome fella. 1.00

02:55:03.580 By the way, if any of you are on the West, or sorry, the East Coast, he'll hook you up with a Whopper.

02:55:08.600 Nice.

02:55:09.160 Okay.

02:55:09.840 We got Dave on Jackson here with the $10 soup chat.

02:55:12.060 But my thing is, the man should pay on the first date, but the woman should have zero judgment on where he chooses to take you. 0.98

02:55:17.320 Also, these women just want the man to invest first without having to do anything. 1.00

02:55:21.700 Dave on, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:55:26.360 Do you guys have a response?

02:55:27.640 I think he has a point.

02:55:29.120 I think that's true.

02:55:30.300 Yeah.

02:55:30.660 I think he's true, yeah.

02:55:32.080 Yeah.

02:55:32.880 I mean, unless the guy asks, where do you want to eat?

02:55:35.380 But if he asks me on a date and he wants to choose, I think that's perfectly reasonable.

02:55:39.920 McDonald's?

02:55:40.960 Sure.

02:55:41.640 I like McDonald's.

02:55:42.420 We're probably going to get McDonald's.

02:55:43.060 Chicken nuggets.

02:55:44.020 Yeah.

02:55:44.260 If he gives you chicken nuggets, he's the one.

02:55:46.400 It could be a fun McDonald's date.

02:55:49.560 We got Mike Davis.

02:55:50.660 Is that a COVID cough, by the way?

02:55:52.060 No, it's not.

02:55:53.580 It's really like stuffy and kind of hot in here.

02:55:55.700 Oh, yeah.

02:55:56.100 Eric, can you open the door?

02:55:57.500 It's hot.

02:55:57.980 We got Mike Davis here.

02:55:59.380 Every woman who walked out of my life has been a major blessing. 0.96

02:56:03.440 If an entitled woman wants me to pay, I'll take her to one of my Burger King joints and 1.00

02:56:08.580 give her some leftover about to expire shit. 1.00

02:56:12.080 Okay. 1.00

02:56:13.200 Oh, he hates women. 1.00

02:56:14.420 Damn. 1.00

02:56:14.680 No, no. 1.00

02:56:15.640 Mike Davis loves Mike Davis.

02:56:18.460 Can we pull up the Burger King image one more time?

02:56:20.340 I feel like.

02:56:21.220 Look at that.

02:56:21.880 Look at how happy his female employee is. 1.00

02:56:24.020 He actually looks like a nice guy.

02:56:26.060 Yeah, he's a good guy.

02:56:27.020 But I feel like his mother probably cheated on his father.

02:56:31.620 That's why he feels that way.

02:56:32.580 Whoa.

02:56:33.660 Whoa, Jay.

02:56:34.460 No, seriously.

02:56:35.100 That's like usually when guys hate women, that's why. 1.00

02:56:38.460 Holy moly.

02:56:39.700 Wow.

02:56:40.660 Psycho.

02:56:41.780 Never mind. 0.63

02:56:42.300 Okay.

02:56:42.800 We got Dave on Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat.

02:56:44.840 Most women, even if they're the ones that ask you out, will expect you to pay. 1.00

02:56:50.600 Usually women don't ask. 1.00

02:56:51.880 Yeah.

02:56:52.400 Usually women don't ask. 1.00

02:56:54.040 One time.

02:56:54.640 Guys, check this out.

02:56:55.540 I've said it before.

02:56:57.860 I'll say it again.

02:56:59.860 One time, a girl bought me a burrito.

02:57:03.420 That is so sad.

02:57:04.740 And then?

02:57:05.300 One time. 1.00

02:57:05.660 Did you eat her pussy after? 1.00

02:57:07.500 Well, here's the thing, right? 1.00

02:57:08.840 Here's the thing.

02:57:09.280 Real.

02:57:09.340 Is she's super sweet girl, but she was, I didn't know this beforehand, but I agreed to go on

02:57:16.900 the date with her.

02:57:17.340 She asked me out too.

02:57:18.540 She paid for the date.

02:57:19.280 She was like, legit, proper Christian.

02:57:24.240 And she was like, waiting till marriage.

02:57:26.880 And I was like, you're really sweet, but like, I'm not looking to wait.

02:57:31.500 Like, I'm not looking for a one night stand either, but I'm not, I'm not waiting till

02:57:36.380 marriage, you know?

02:57:36.940 So Michael Trillstein with the big $100 soup chat.

02:57:43.760 Oh, whoops.

02:57:44.360 I pressed the wrong one.

02:57:45.200 Here we go.

02:57:48.040 I'm an amateur with the stream deck.

02:57:49.860 Brian is hot.

02:57:50.600 Thank you, man.

02:57:51.000 Appreciate it.

02:57:51.540 Um, when you coming back to California, dude, we'll get you back on the show.

02:57:55.680 Okay.

02:57:56.280 We got, uh, Susc Finest with the Canadian, Canadian $10.

02:58:02.600 Do you speak French by the way, or you're not from the French speaking?

02:58:05.340 Oh, we have to learn French in high school.

02:58:06.780 Tu ne pas français?

02:58:07.720 A petit peu.

02:58:08.780 C'est bien ça.

02:58:09.420 Okay.

02:58:10.040 Uh, why do you expect us to be traditional when you are not?

02:58:13.840 Good, good question.

02:58:15.120 Good, good question.

02:58:16.560 Go ahead.

02:58:17.240 We'll, we'll ask that.

02:58:17.960 Um, like in the way of like, in the way of paying for the first date, I don't think it's,

02:58:26.340 I don't think, again, my rationale isn't just like based on tradition.

02:58:29.380 My rationale for guys paying on the first date is rooted in the fact that I want him

02:58:34.420 to show some type of investment up front, because that's the best way for me to gauge

02:58:39.280 whether a guy is interested or not in me.

02:58:41.200 And it doesn't have to be a big investment, just a gesture.

02:58:44.740 I want to just add to the whole who should pay on the first date thing.

02:58:48.380 I, I might have already, did I already talk about it?

02:58:51.300 I don't know.

02:58:51.660 Jade, do you want to just respond?

02:58:53.180 Don't.

02:58:53.820 Oh, uh, what was the question?

02:58:55.600 Uh, something about why, can you, can you, can you pull it up?

02:58:59.120 Why be traditional when you're not?

02:59:00.900 Oh, I think deep down rooted, I'm like an old soul.

02:59:03.840 I am very traditional.

02:59:04.880 I want, like, I want loyalty.

02:59:07.080 Um, I want to be with one guy.

02:59:09.660 And yeah, I think I am pretty traditional in that sense.

02:59:13.640 What about you?

02:59:14.360 You said the guy should pay on the first date.

02:59:16.720 Um, I think that if you're pursuing a relationship, then that should just be the first thing you

02:59:24.440 do.

02:59:24.880 I don't know.

02:59:25.320 I've given a lot of reasoning, I feel like, since this was made.

02:59:32.180 I don't know.

02:59:32.900 Modern problems call for modern solutions.

02:59:35.820 And I'm not saying that the guy's always paying a hundred percent of the time.

02:59:38.680 Um, I'm just saying, like, first date, if you're pursuing a relationship, it's not just a hookup.

02:59:43.520 It's not just friends as benefits, going out, whatever.

02:59:46.720 Like, if you're pursuing a relationship, that's the traditional way to do it.

02:59:50.520 That's usually the way that a relationship starts.

02:59:53.620 Are you a traditional woman?

02:59:54.860 In a relationship?

02:59:55.680 Yeah, I would.

02:59:56.260 Yeah, I am.

02:59:58.100 Okay.

03:00:00.660 I don't know.

03:00:01.220 Okay, so.

03:00:01.880 It really just varies.

03:00:03.640 Relationship, friends with benefits, hookup.

03:00:06.200 Like, it just varies.

03:00:07.920 I mean, like, if I'm obviously a hookup, like, I'm not really going out on a date.

03:00:12.340 If you're engaging in hookups, you're not. 1.00

03:00:13.860 Going into his place, and we're going to fuck. 0.99

03:00:15.280 Like, that's, I'm not going out on a date. 1.00

03:00:17.960 But, okay, if you're engaging in hookups, like, you're not a traditional woman. 0.93

03:00:21.200 And that's fine, but you can't consider yourself a traditional woman if you're, like, hooking 1.00

03:00:27.500 up regularly with dudes.

03:00:30.240 At what time point?

03:00:32.000 Because, like, hypothetically, I could be messing around with other guys, but when it's time

03:00:37.600 for me to settle down, like.

03:00:38.720 You're not, if you're sleeping with more than one guy at a time, you're not a traditional

03:00:42.720 woman.

03:00:43.200 Right.

03:00:43.620 But if I'm looking to settle down, I become that traditional, I'm ready to settle down.

03:00:48.600 And, like, I'm ready to have a relationship, and I'm not screwing around with, like, a bunch

03:00:54.080 of other guys.

03:00:54.440 What's the most amount of men that you've seen concurrently?

03:00:59.660 I don't know.

03:01:00.760 Three?

03:01:01.500 Four?

03:01:02.380 Five?

03:01:02.900 Like, what's the relevancy?

03:01:04.580 Like, I couldn't tell you.

03:01:05.160 Well, to assess the degree to which you're in traditional or not traditional.

03:01:08.480 It's none, so.

03:01:09.620 When you're not in a relationship, what is the most amount of men that you've concurrently

03:01:13.220 been seeing?

03:01:14.360 It varies.

03:01:15.740 Just give me a number.

03:01:16.780 Give me a number.

03:01:17.740 Zero to 100.

03:01:18.820 I don't know.

03:01:19.360 Okay, fine.

03:01:19.960 Like.

03:01:20.280 All right, it's fine.

03:01:20.900 If you don't want to answer, that's fine.

03:01:22.260 Look, I think modern problems call for modern solutions.

03:01:25.080 So, I don't know.

03:01:25.820 The thought of giving my time, attention, resources, we're speaking about paying on the first date

03:01:30.280 here, and intimacy to a woman who is sleeping with one or more men. 0.88

03:01:34.620 But if I'm going on actual dates, then I'm not sleeping around with all these other men.

03:01:37.580 No, I'm just talking about me.

03:01:38.600 I'm talking about me here.

03:01:39.680 Okay.

03:01:39.880 So, the thought of me giving all those things to a woman who's sleeping with another man 1.00

03:01:43.800 to me is kind of disgusting. 0.93

03:01:47.240 I'm going to say it. 0.97

03:01:47.920 It's gross.

03:01:48.520 Okay.

03:01:49.120 It's gross.

03:01:50.940 Have you slept with like, like what?

03:01:53.260 So, are you traditional?

03:01:56.200 I mean, not totally, but I don't have like, if I'm sleeping with a girl, like I don't have

03:02:02.680 four other girls, five other girls I'm sleeping with at the same time. 0.93

03:02:06.380 Um, there's been periods where I've maybe had a degree of overlap, maybe between two

03:02:12.780 girls, but like. 1.00

03:02:14.360 So, you're not traditional then?

03:02:15.880 No, but overwhelmingly, like if I'm sleeping with a girl, I'm only sleeping with her. 0.80

03:02:20.680 Okay.

03:02:21.460 And that's not because I could, it's not because I couldn't have three or four girls

03:02:26.280 on a roster.

03:02:26.920 It's not because I couldn't.

03:02:28.020 It's because I don't, honestly, I'm going to be honest.

03:02:31.720 It's like, it takes a lot of time to be juggling a whole bunch of girls.

03:02:35.320 And I feel like as long as you communicate that to your partners, then there shouldn't

03:02:38.700 be an issue.

03:02:40.080 I mean, like if a woman is communicating to you. 0.97

03:02:42.600 Are you getting cold?

03:02:43.320 A little bit.

03:02:43.840 Oh, Eric, go ahead.

03:02:44.840 Close the door.

03:02:45.240 No, it's okay.

03:02:45.580 You're good.

03:02:46.220 Like if a woman is communicating to you that like. 0.99

03:02:49.660 Eric, close the door.

03:02:50.480 She's sleeping with other men. 1.00

03:02:53.220 Thank you, Eric.

03:02:54.840 Go ahead.

03:02:55.340 If a woman is like communicating to you that she's sleeping with other men, then obviously 1.00

03:02:59.240 like you're not going to put in that effort if you want a relationship.

03:03:02.320 Sure.

03:03:03.180 Right?

03:03:03.420 But if, okay, so let's say I'm, if somehow she reveals to me, most women are not going 0.99

03:03:09.140 to reveal that they're sleeping with other men.

03:03:13.260 It's just, it's done.

03:03:16.520 I'm not going to, I don't even want to do anything with you.

03:03:19.040 That's completely your own personal preference.

03:03:20.980 I don't want to do anything with you.

03:03:22.200 Right.

03:03:22.600 That's completely your own personal preference.

03:03:23.740 You're free to do it, by the way.

03:03:25.000 Women, you're free to do it. 1.00

03:03:26.140 Right.

03:03:26.700 And that's all personal preference.

03:03:28.280 It's all communication.

03:03:28.820 That's a wrap.

03:03:28.980 I don't think anyone would like, like, no, but yeah, nobody's going to be like wanting,

03:03:38.320 like, if I go on a date with you and you're sleeping with five other women, obviously I'm 0.78

03:03:41.740 not going to want to send them down in a relationship with you.

03:03:43.520 Same for both sides.

03:03:44.320 Yeah.

03:03:44.880 It just goes, it's all communicating what your plans are.

03:03:48.400 Or if you're looking for a relationship, you're like, hey, I'm interested in you more than

03:03:53.020 just sleeping with you.

03:03:54.200 Like, I would be fine.

03:03:55.220 Like, I would be looking for a relationship with you.

03:03:57.280 And you would communicate that to the person that you're pursuing.

03:04:00.980 Word.

03:04:01.380 And if you're not wanting that, then that's fine.

03:04:03.800 That's all up to you.

03:04:04.820 But like, what some guys will do is even, they'll still pursue, not pursue things, but

03:04:11.340 they'll still, they'll acknowledge that a girl is sleeping with other guys. 0.96

03:04:16.380 They'll still want to have sex with her. 1.00

03:04:19.200 I don't want, like, when I say I don't want anything, I really mean I don't want anything. 0.99

03:04:23.860 I don't want to have sex with you, even with a rubber. 0.99

03:04:26.280 I don't want head. 0.99

03:04:27.320 I don't want to cuddle.

03:04:28.200 I don't want to even kiss you.

03:04:29.740 It's a wrap.

03:04:31.220 Right.

03:04:31.540 Like, I don't know, if you're not truly single, don't waste my time.

03:04:35.580 And women can feel this exact same way. 1.00

03:04:37.640 Yeah, no, I think there are women that do feel that exact same way.

03:04:40.360 But again, like, it's just what you're communicating to your partner.

03:04:43.880 If two people are fine with, like, sleeping, it's like an open relationship.

03:04:47.760 Like, if two people are fine with sleeping around, then that's their own, like, commitment

03:04:52.400 to each other.

03:04:53.100 If they want to be completely exclusive, that's their own commitment to each other.

03:04:56.220 Of course, all has to be communicated.

03:04:57.520 So I think it just depends.

03:04:59.300 Gotcha.

03:04:59.580 Like, case by case.

03:05:01.540 Okay.

03:05:03.160 Let me get these.

03:05:03.980 Let's get these.

03:05:05.780 All right.

03:05:06.940 We got Landon Musso.

03:05:12.140 Brian, give us a Paisley update.

03:05:13.560 Did you guys end up hooking up after the show ended?

03:05:15.600 And will she be back on a future show?

03:05:18.160 A Paisley update?

03:05:20.200 I mean, when.

03:05:22.260 No.

03:05:22.820 There was a girl, like, two weeks ago that was on here.

03:05:24.800 And you were, like.

03:05:25.500 Oh, yeah.

03:05:26.140 And she was, like, I'll ask you right now.

03:05:27.360 And she asked you out.

03:05:27.980 Remember that?

03:05:28.860 Well, okay.

03:05:29.520 So there's been, like, in recent.

03:05:30.860 So there's been three girls.

03:05:32.380 One girl we were talking about.

03:05:33.960 Yeah.

03:05:34.120 One girl asked me out live on the show.

03:05:36.520 I do remember that, yeah.

03:05:37.920 No, we didn't go out.

03:05:39.500 What?

03:05:40.280 She was so pretty.

03:05:42.040 Bring her back. 0.91

03:05:42.640 Why not?

03:05:43.360 Are you sure?

03:05:44.380 Why don't you all go out?

03:05:45.080 It was a cap, did you?

03:05:46.580 Or did you not?

03:05:47.260 Did I what?

03:05:47.740 Did you really not go out with her?

03:05:50.420 No.

03:05:50.940 We didn't go out.

03:05:51.780 Why?

03:05:52.240 Do you want to?

03:05:52.880 Why is that?

03:05:53.420 Why didn't you guys go out?

03:05:56.000 I'm not going to get into it.

03:05:58.760 But, okay.

03:05:59.840 Then there was the girl who.

03:06:01.780 Okay.

03:06:02.820 I'll just answer the soup chat.

03:06:04.600 Just so I can get through them.

03:06:05.820 Paisley.

03:06:08.880 Yeah.

03:06:09.440 I mean, we talked a little bit after the show.

03:06:12.340 And that was it.

03:06:13.740 We got Dural here.

03:06:15.580 Hey, good to see you back in chat, man.

03:06:17.140 Thank you for the nine.

03:06:17.980 I believe that's British Pounds.

03:06:21.400 Question for the ladies. 0.99

03:06:22.400 What's something men can do on social media, dating apps, to be more attractive and get female attention?

03:06:28.900 I think putting effort into the, like, for example, on Hinge or, like, the dating bios.

03:06:35.940 If you put a little bit of effort, actual effort into the dating bios, I think that's a turn on because that shows that you, like, put thought into it. 0.99

03:06:41.600 And you're not just, like, here's my dick. 1.00

03:06:44.280 Come fuck me. 1.00

03:06:44.820 You know. 1.00

03:06:45.380 I think if, to really up your Instagram game, if you have one picture of you doing something you love.

03:06:52.940 So, for example, if the guy's, like, playing poker, if he's playing basketball, like, an action picture or, like, an outdoor shot, it really gets up there.

03:07:01.740 I agree with what Kat said.

03:07:03.860 Just effort in your pictures.

03:07:06.260 I feel like that really.

03:07:07.460 No fish pictures, apparently.

03:07:10.560 If fishing's something you love, but, like, not the only picture, like, from three years ago.

03:07:15.600 So, I think, okay, this is my take on guys' social medias.

03:07:20.760 Be a little up-to-date.

03:07:22.940 Like, it doesn't, like, not a couple months ago.

03:07:24.880 Like, at least just, like, in the same year, please.

03:07:27.560 Like, everyone changes so much.

03:07:29.820 And, I mean, my age at least, like, too.

03:07:33.320 But stay a little up-to-date, at least.

03:07:37.440 And, again, do something that you love.

03:07:42.200 Also, just not every picture doing the same pose with your homeboys, okay?

03:07:48.800 Like, I want some shots of just you.

03:07:51.660 Because if I can't tell which one you are, that's just going to make me irritated.

03:07:55.300 I have to, or at least tag your hot friends, then.

03:08:00.160 Or a picture with a dog.

03:08:01.500 Any guy with a dog.

03:08:02.260 Oh, yeah.

03:08:02.740 A dog's an actual, like, automatic winner.

03:08:04.720 Yeah.

03:08:05.180 Yeah.

03:08:05.560 Something like a pet.

03:08:06.220 I think, yeah.

03:08:07.240 Doing something you love is good.

03:08:08.720 Something that, like, you have a hobby or an interest in.

03:08:10.620 Something you could possibly teach.

03:08:11.500 Because that's a great conversation starter, too.

03:08:13.300 Like, if you want a girl to slide in your DMs, then have doing something you love.

03:08:17.440 Or, like, if you travel, like, post some pictures of you in that place.

03:08:20.020 And then it's like, oh, okay, you went to Italy.

03:08:23.420 I went to Italy, too, last year.

03:08:24.840 Like, let's talk about it a little bit, you know?

03:08:26.200 Just copy Brian's Instagram.

03:08:27.820 You got some good pics.

03:08:29.760 Yeah, a pic with you laying on the bed with your dog.

03:08:31.780 Like, that's a fire one.

03:08:32.320 Oh, yeah, we were looking at your Instagram. 1.00

03:08:34.200 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:08:35.000 Oh, wow. 1.00

03:08:35.320 I was like, man, this guy got game.

03:08:36.840 Yeah, yeah.

03:08:37.380 That was nice for sure.

03:08:38.940 Thank you, guys.

03:08:40.880 So, this was the one we just did.

03:08:44.260 My advice for what's something men can do on dating apps to be more attractive.

03:08:48.180 I mean, he did ask the ladies, so I don't know if you want me to weigh in.

03:08:53.160 I mean, definitely have good photos. 0.99

03:08:55.400 And if you're on Hinge, write some shit. 0.99

03:08:59.600 Okay, let me just get through these soup chats. 0.99

03:09:02.080 Dave on Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:09:04.080 Men ask for a lot less from women than women ask for from men. 0.98

03:09:08.720 So, the things men do ask for carry more weight.

03:09:12.620 That's true.

03:09:13.400 That is very true.

03:09:14.100 I think that's true.

03:09:14.820 Yeah, valid.

03:09:15.240 I think women have these long, not always, but, like, long laundry lists of things, whereas 1.00

03:09:20.620 men, like, honestly, just loyal, be hot, don't be annoying.

03:09:26.620 That's kind of, be feminine, like. 1.00

03:09:29.260 Get their dick sucked. 1.00

03:09:31.080 Yeah. 1.00

03:09:31.660 Fellatio. 0.98

03:09:32.280 It's easy.

03:09:32.900 Guys are simple.

03:09:33.980 Yeah.

03:09:34.700 That's reasonable.

03:09:35.520 That's pretty reasonable.

03:09:36.320 Yeah.

03:09:36.640 Yeah.

03:09:37.340 They just want to have morning head every morning when you get fed and guys are happy.

03:09:41.740 Michael, morning head.

03:09:43.340 Yeah.

03:09:43.560 Honestly, I don't like women sleeping over. 1.00

03:09:46.200 Oh.

03:09:46.860 I don't either.

03:09:47.320 Even if you like them, even if you love them, you don't like them sleeping over?

03:09:49.500 Honestly, even.

03:09:50.340 Because they snore, right?

03:09:51.680 No, not because. 1.00

03:09:53.060 Actually, I did have a girlfriend that snored, like, fucking insane. 0.98

03:09:56.940 Like, it was never again. 0.99

03:10:00.000 But, no.

03:10:01.140 Most women, that's not the primary reason. 1.00

03:10:03.480 It's just, I really value my sleep.

03:10:06.980 And, like, if you're sleeping next to someone, for me, I don't know if, it tends to be kind

03:10:11.060 of distracting, I guess.

03:10:13.660 And I have difficulty sleeping in the same bed as someone, so.

03:10:16.900 I do, too.

03:10:17.800 Yeah, so.

03:10:18.400 I feel that.

03:10:20.000 Or just, you fall asleep first.

03:10:23.380 Even then, they're going to wake me up.

03:10:25.420 Oh.

03:10:26.460 Oh, I get it.

03:10:27.720 Yeah.

03:10:28.320 But, morning head is good.

03:10:30.480 Like, a lot of guys.

03:10:31.300 Like, because you get hard in the morning.

03:10:34.660 Don't you fap in the morning?

03:10:36.340 No.

03:10:36.860 When do you fap?

03:10:37.400 At night? 0.99

03:10:38.040 I don't really masturbate. 0.53

03:10:39.860 At all? 0.97

03:10:41.120 Rarely.

03:10:41.520 Like, are you doing the no fap challenge?

03:10:43.120 No, just.

03:10:43.520 No, not November.

03:10:45.040 If I got a girl in the picture, I don't really need. 1.00

03:10:47.180 So, when was the last time you jacked off?

03:10:50.680 I don't know.

03:10:51.320 Two months ago, maybe.

03:10:52.540 When was the last time you had sex?

03:10:53.920 I'm not going to answer that. 0.55

03:10:55.040 Why not?

03:10:55.760 Why?

03:10:56.020 I'm not answering that.

03:10:57.000 Come on.

03:10:57.400 I have so many personal questions.

03:10:58.820 No, no, no, no, no. 0.99

03:10:59.640 I think you had sex yesterday. 0.95

03:11:01.940 Yesterday? 0.71

03:11:02.500 Why is he?

03:11:03.480 Because you're glowing.

03:11:04.560 He's glowing.

03:11:05.420 He's red.

03:11:06.320 Nah, I don't.

03:11:07.160 Blushing.

03:11:07.660 Listen, I am a man of God.

03:11:09.500 Yeah.

03:11:10.080 I am a man of God.

03:11:11.600 Sir celibacy over here.

03:11:13.000 Yeah, so.

03:11:13.660 You're probably with a girl.

03:11:14.700 Like, you're dating someone right now.

03:11:15.860 I'm guessing.

03:11:16.780 I don't know.

03:11:19.300 Listen, I'm, I'm, uh.

03:11:22.800 Anyways, moving on.

03:11:24.580 Well, I'm, I'm single.

03:11:26.200 You know.

03:11:26.760 Okay.

03:11:27.820 We got, we got Michael Tristin here with the $100 soup chat.

03:11:34.800 Kiki, do you love me?

03:11:38.860 It will.

03:11:39.900 No.

03:11:40.300 Oh, wow.

03:11:42.100 I'm sorry, Michael.

03:11:42.980 She just rejected you. 1.00

03:11:45.180 Okay.

03:11:45.580 We got Michael Tristin with the $10 soup chat.

03:11:47.760 I actually slept with the, she's in the bathroom. 1.00

03:11:51.080 With the chocolate on the panel.

03:11:52.600 She said I wasn't as big as her other.

03:11:54.140 Wait, what?

03:11:55.600 You gotta wait for this one when she comes back out. 1.00

03:11:57.660 Oh, okay.

03:11:58.360 We'll, we'll pull that one back up, Michael.

03:12:00.280 Uh, did this 304 really say we should stay lonely?

03:12:02.780 Oh.

03:12:04.640 I didn't say we should stay lonely.

03:12:06.600 I hope you don't.

03:12:07.780 I hope you don't stay lonely, but there's nothing wrong with being lonely.

03:12:10.820 I'm not telling you to be miserable.

03:12:12.560 By the way, go sub to our OnlyFans.

03:12:15.220 See, you're, you're, oh, what's the term for it?

03:12:17.320 You're a conflict of interest.

03:12:20.080 I'm like, I'm biased, right?

03:12:22.060 You think I'm biased?

03:12:22.680 It's a, it's a conflict of interest for you to say, men, it's okay to be lonely.

03:12:26.660 By the way, here's my OnlyFans.

03:12:29.100 Coupon code, whatever.

03:12:30.500 Okay.

03:12:31.080 Michael Tristin with the, shout out to my friend, Waifu Watchers.

03:12:33.760 All his wives are from anime and will never age. 0.99

03:12:36.160 A man of culture.

03:12:37.360 Michael Tristin, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

03:12:39.100 Much appreciated.

03:12:40.280 We should have.

03:12:41.940 Had one of the girls where the ahi gal had, do you know, do you guys know what I'm talking 1.00

03:12:45.260 about?

03:12:46.760 Wait, can you, can you demonstrate?

03:12:51.100 Jade?

03:12:52.220 Oh, she's a pro.

03:12:52.960 I'm not.

03:12:53.260 Oh, okay.

03:12:54.040 Okay.

03:12:54.540 Oh, so we have one, a soup chat specifically for you.

03:12:58.740 Oh, Lord.

03:12:59.420 Let's see what it is.

03:13:00.600 He says, I actually slept.

03:13:02.440 I don't, this is, I don't even know if I should say.

03:13:04.600 Do you want to read it?

03:13:05.620 No, not really.

03:13:06.520 Okay.

03:13:07.340 Yeah.

03:13:08.320 Michael Tristin, getting me in trouble over here.

03:13:10.280 Uh, we got this one.

03:13:12.120 We got, Dural, thank you for the nine British pounds.

03:13:14.940 Appreciate it, man.

03:13:15.840 Would these ladies find it attractive for a man to cold approach them in public gym, mall, 0.99

03:13:19.440 coffee shop?

03:13:19.920 Yeah, we can ask that really quick.

03:13:21.380 Um, I mean, these are all kind of different environments.

03:13:23.920 Like, gym's kind of, I feel like is a no-go, but anyways, go ahead.

03:13:28.200 I feel like that's one of the situations where, like, superficial looks do matter the most.

03:13:33.120 So it really depends on whether or not I find him attractive.

03:13:36.280 But I will never, like, think less of a man for approaching me in public.

03:13:40.380 Okay.

03:13:40.660 I like that.

03:13:43.720 I, I, I wish more men do that.

03:13:46.440 It's like, I find it very brave, and I respect them more if they did.

03:13:50.880 I don't mind whenever someone talks to me or something like that.

03:13:55.420 Yeah, I agree.

03:13:56.620 Um, except for the gym.

03:13:57.900 The gym's my time.

03:13:59.120 Yeah, I feel you on that.

03:14:00.200 The gym, but otherwise, it's fine.

03:14:03.340 Wait, Jade, I have a question.

03:14:04.500 Unless I'm, like, finishing my workout.

03:14:05.640 Are you, are you full Asian or, like, half white, half?

03:14:10.140 Uh, I am half white, half Chinese.

03:14:12.640 Half white, half Chinese.

03:14:13.680 Yeah.

03:14:13.800 Okay.

03:14:16.420 So would you date a half white, half Asian guy?

03:14:19.500 Or do they need to be pure, pure-blooded? 0.95

03:14:23.040 I feel like, I feel like the mixed, mixed people are kind of, like, crazy, honestly. 1.00

03:14:28.440 Really?

03:14:29.000 Yeah. 1.00

03:14:29.340 Like, they're really fucked up, like, personality-wise, I feel. 0.99

03:14:33.200 So, so you're talking about yourself right now? 0.99

03:14:37.060 Yeah, me too.

03:14:37.760 Because you're half, right? 0.99

03:14:38.980 Yeah, I'm included.

03:14:39.800 I feel like, um, like, growing up as a child, like, I'm, I think a little differently.

03:14:44.680 I feel like mixed people have, like, a, like, they're a little, something up with them. 1.00

03:14:49.260 Interesting.

03:14:49.780 So I feel like in my acting school, all the mixed kids are, like, they always do the psychotic characters. 1.00

03:14:56.080 So I feel like I wouldn't date a mixed person. 1.00

03:14:59.380 I would, I'd be open to it, but I prefer Asian.

03:15:02.160 Um, yeah.

03:15:06.160 All right.

03:15:06.860 We got Michael Trilstein here with the $10 soup chat.

03:15:09.940 I have two girlfriends that are perfect tens. 1.00

03:15:11.620 Uh, hashtag top two.

03:15:13.540 Hashtag free Tiger King.

03:15:14.740 Hashtag free Joe Exotic.

03:15:16.400 Also, someone put on the MAGA hat to watch Brian squirm.

03:15:20.340 Okay.

03:15:21.260 Thank you, Michael Trilstein.

03:15:22.800 Uh, Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

03:15:25.400 Um, delusional confidence.

03:15:27.200 No wonder her relationship ended due to insecurity.

03:15:29.440 She don't believe she had 10, 6.5 max. 0.95

03:15:32.020 And that's on, it's unfortunate that she walked out right when I started reading this.

03:15:37.600 Um, yeah.

03:15:39.540 Uh, can we pull up the Burger King photo again?

03:15:43.140 Sorry, Mike Davis.

03:15:44.200 What's in that bag, by the way, is it a whopper?

03:15:47.040 What, what you got?

03:15:47.760 Okay.

03:15:48.120 We got Michael Trilstein with the $10 soup chat.

03:15:50.500 With all due respect, your deep voices, your deep voice takes you down a few points.

03:15:54.620 I don't know who this is directed towards, but, uh, inborn X with the $10 soup. 0.99

03:15:59.900 Jade cute as fuck. 1.00

03:16:01.320 Would take her out if I had money. 1.00

03:16:05.020 Wow.

03:16:05.780 Take her out with the $10 you just spent on chicken nuggets. 1.00

03:16:08.560 Yeah.

03:16:09.160 Can you give him a little wink?

03:16:12.440 There we go.

03:16:13.180 Boom.

03:16:13.480 That was good.

03:16:14.980 Nice.

03:16:15.700 Nice.

03:16:17.860 He gave the little winky emoji.

03:16:19.400 So, um, we got lukewarm with the $10 soup chat.

03:16:22.220 Instead of rating one to 10, should ask to rate as percentile on bell curve.

03:16:25.400 It requires acknowledging attractiveness relative to others.

03:16:29.960 I have no idea how I would do that, but that's a good idea.

03:16:33.100 Good suggestion.

03:16:33.960 We have, uh, Leonardo no Caprio with the Canadian $10 soup chat.

03:16:39.080 Thank you, man.

03:16:39.800 Appreciate the support.

03:16:40.720 Modern men have to work five times harder than their grandfathers did for women.

03:16:44.760 20 times worse than what their grandmothers were.

03:16:47.320 It's called hoflation and it's destroying Western men's desire to provide and protect, 0.97

03:16:52.760 um, yeah, I guess word.

03:16:57.660 Sorry.

03:16:57.880 I'm a little tired.

03:16:58.780 Um, yeah, I, I do think that what men have to bring to the table, I think is a bit more

03:17:05.860 nowadays than in the past for men to be appealing in today. 0.98

03:17:12.960 Like today, I think they have to bring a lot more to the table and have their shit together 0.96

03:17:17.440 a lot more, uh, and what are they getting in return? 0.98

03:17:27.060 Okay.

03:17:29.140 Michael Trilstein with the $10 soup chat roast, roast beef, roast brine, stop the cat.

03:17:33.160 Michael Trilstein.

03:17:33.900 How dare you, sir?

03:17:35.300 How dare you?

03:17:36.240 I'm a man of the people.

03:17:39.020 Like I said, it's unfortunate that women get shamed for if they got large lady. 1.00

03:17:43.520 My DMs are open.

03:17:44.280 Okay.

03:17:44.960 We got, uh, yep.

03:17:48.280 Mike Davis with the $10 soup chat.

03:17:49.880 Let these Asian Asians stick with Asian men. 1.00

03:17:52.920 Oh my God.

03:17:54.380 Honestly, they need some love walking around San Francisco. 0.98

03:17:56.740 Got to be torture for Asian men. 1.00

03:17:58.040 No wider. 0.97

03:17:58.480 The golden, no wonder the golden gate got layers of Jesus Christ.

03:18:03.340 What does that mean?

03:18:04.160 Like the Asian men are throwing themselves off the golden gate bridge because they don't 1.00

03:18:08.880 get anything.

03:18:10.400 I think it's San Francisco.

03:18:11.640 I do think Asian men are definitely struggling more when it comes to dating.

03:18:16.340 I think it's becoming better now though.

03:18:18.600 I think, I think maybe two years ago.

03:18:20.500 Is that like a K-pop thing?

03:18:21.960 Yeah.

03:18:22.180 I think Asian culture is becoming more and more accepted.

03:18:24.460 So I think it's a good thing.

03:18:25.680 Yeah.

03:18:26.000 It's going the right way.

03:18:27.120 Yeah.

03:18:27.260 I think, but I think like, I don't know, a lot of like outside their race, a lot of women 1.00

03:18:32.580 will say like, I wouldn't date an Asian guy. 0.99

03:18:36.240 And I think that's Asian men are fucking lit. 1.00

03:18:38.860 They are lit. 0.99

03:18:39.380 I mean, I haven't, I haven't dated one, but like, I don't know.

03:18:43.160 Anyways. 0.68

03:18:43.560 There's a lot of like misconceptions about men, including dick size and stuff that are 0.86

03:18:46.920 just not true. 0.69

03:18:47.520 And I don't know, like, and I hope this doesn't come off like stereotypical or racist, but

03:18:54.540 I do think that like Asian culture is, for example, the divorce rate in Asian families 0.91

03:19:03.440 is much lower.

03:19:04.300 Or they're Asian. 0.98

03:19:08.940 That's very true.

03:19:10.040 More, they're more likely to go to college, more likely to graduate from college, more

03:19:14.800 likely to have stable careers, less likely to be criminals.

03:19:18.500 So like, I'm, I look at that, I'm like, that's hot.

03:19:22.520 Yeah.

03:19:22.840 Yeah.

03:19:23.240 So, so it's like, what's going on or are, is it the more traditional family structure?

03:19:32.500 I don't know.

03:19:32.860 It's maybe you guys can speak to that.

03:19:34.560 Why you think that there's these sort of differences between.

03:19:37.880 Well, that's just in Western culture.

03:19:41.240 I think Asian men are emasculated within the context of Western culture.

03:19:45.480 Like, even our beauty standards are very different.

03:19:47.920 If you look at someone, a male who's, who's very attractive by Western beauty standards,

03:19:52.060 that's completely opposite, completely different from what's attractive in the East.

03:19:56.100 So obviously like pop culture and media, Asian men are not going to like be portrayed

03:20:00.920 as attractive historically. 0.87

03:20:02.520 They've been like the nerds, the dorks, you know? 0.88

03:20:04.260 Yeah. 0.97

03:20:05.080 So I think that's a large part of it.

03:20:06.820 If you go to Asia, I mean, Asian men are very in demand in Asia.

03:20:11.680 Well, yeah.

03:20:12.260 Because that's where they're, they're from, you know?

03:20:14.020 Yeah.

03:20:14.180 Yeah.

03:20:14.880 Yeah.

03:20:15.520 Yeah.

03:20:15.800 I've had a lot of male Asian friends and they've told me like, yeah, I, I struggle to find women

03:20:25.860 outside of my race that are attracted to me or that are like, so, and I think that's unfortunate,

03:20:32.880 but okay.

03:20:33.320 Um, Michael Trilstein with the $10 soup chat.

03:20:36.980 She just rationalized women, not giving their husband the box. 1.00

03:20:39.560 Invest in Chewy.

03:20:40.880 Guys.

03:20:41.360 What's Chewy?

03:20:41.660 I believe that was directed to you.

03:20:44.040 Yeah, probably.

03:20:45.580 Uh, Chewy is a, uh, a pet food company and online company.

03:20:53.440 I think they're on the stock market.

03:20:55.060 So basically there's going to be a lot of cat ladies is what he's getting at. 0.66

03:21:00.100 So invest in Chewy because.

03:21:02.560 Oh, wow.

03:21:03.140 Oh, I get it.

03:21:03.800 I get it now.

03:21:04.440 I thought he was like an investor in Chewy.

03:21:06.220 He wanted to like inflate the stock prices.

03:21:09.220 I get it.

03:21:10.140 Ah.

03:21:10.720 I already have, yeah, I have two dogs.

03:21:11.940 I'm going to be a cat lady one day.

03:21:13.000 It's fine.

03:21:13.400 Meow mix.

03:21:14.040 Okay.

03:21:15.680 Got Michael Trilstein here with the $10 soup chat.

03:21:17.500 A beach.

03:21:18.600 Back off my guy, Mike.

03:21:19.820 Watch your tone.

03:21:20.620 Know your lane.

03:21:21.140 Not sure who this is directed to, towards, but, uh, yeah.

03:21:25.480 Probably me.

03:21:26.260 Everyone was like, oh my God, she's so passive aggressive. 1.00

03:21:28.660 I was like, damn. 0.99

03:21:29.440 You guys can't take the heat at all. 1.00

03:21:31.200 Well, well, I'll know someone was talking shit to Mike Davis. 0.99

03:21:35.080 I don't know. 0.99

03:21:35.600 Um, Michael Trilstein, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:21:37.860 Very traditional hitting your man.

03:21:39.280 L beach.

03:21:41.060 L who attacked my friend, Mike.

03:21:42.740 Okay.

03:21:43.280 Yeah. 0.97

03:21:44.320 I'd like to see you try to hit Mike right to the moon. 1.00

03:21:46.920 Alice. 0.96

03:21:47.400 Who's, wait, is it because of you?

03:21:50.280 Because you, you were.

03:21:51.420 Because you said that Mike's.

03:21:54.480 Yeah.

03:21:55.100 What?

03:21:56.260 I thought it was because you got in a fight with your, you beat up a guy.

03:22:00.180 Yeah.

03:22:00.460 I mean, I didn't hurt him too bad.

03:22:03.500 Mike Davis.

03:22:04.600 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:22:05.620 I don't hate women. 1.00

03:22:06.340 I just recognize that the vast majority are blood. 0.96

03:22:08.480 Oh my God. 0.80

03:22:09.560 Are blood sucking mosquitoes, leeches that bring no Jeep.

03:22:12.460 Oh, okay.

03:22:12.860 Well, come on.

03:22:13.600 Mike Davis.

03:22:14.220 I don't know about that one.

03:22:15.860 Put respect.

03:22:17.640 That's a hot take.

03:22:19.100 That's a hot take.

03:22:20.680 We love women here. 1.00

03:22:21.780 Mike Davis.

03:22:22.300 We got love for women. 1.00

03:22:23.480 Fuck women. 1.00

03:22:24.040 His mom definitely cheated on his dad. 1.00

03:22:25.480 We're not going to marry him.

03:22:26.720 We're not going to marry him, but we're going to love him.

03:22:28.740 Okay.

03:22:29.440 Uh,

03:22:29.800 and lastly,

03:22:31.220 we got Michael Trilstein here with the $10 soup chat.

03:22:33.200 Paisley smashed Brian after the show.

03:22:34.660 He told me not to tell you guys.

03:22:35.740 Sorry, bro.

03:22:37.540 Come on.

03:22:38.380 Come on, Michael Trilstein.

03:22:39.540 That did not happen.

03:22:41.240 No.

03:22:42.840 Yeah.

03:22:43.760 Nothing.

03:22:44.360 No.

03:22:44.900 She,

03:22:45.180 there was nothing.

03:22:46.020 Okay.

03:22:46.260 Guys,

03:22:47.600 guys, get your last opportunity to get some super chats in because we are going to wrap here

03:22:51.580 pretty soon.

03:22:52.200 Let's react to just a few more videos.

03:22:54.700 Actually, before that, sorry.

03:22:55.780 Um, I want to open it up to you guys.

03:22:59.040 Any final thoughts or questions if either for me or for the panel or for chat, if you want

03:23:03.280 to ask anything.

03:23:04.300 Are you actually going to answer them?

03:23:05.920 Oh, you got some questions?

03:23:06.840 Okay, go ahead.

03:23:08.140 Well, we had a question earlier.

03:23:09.380 I'll answer it.

03:23:10.260 Oh, what is it?

03:23:10.920 What's your, what was it? 0.93

03:23:11.840 When's the last time you had sex? 0.77

03:23:12.800 Oh, I'm not answering that.

03:23:13.960 Why don't you want to answer it?

03:23:15.240 Because I'm a man of God.

03:23:16.540 I'm a very discreet individual.

03:23:18.240 I do not kiss and tell.

03:23:20.040 I offer my discretion to, to, uh, my partners.

03:23:25.360 So.

03:23:28.360 What?

03:23:30.600 When's the last, okay. 0.71

03:23:31.340 When's the last time you had sex?

03:23:32.540 Well, why would I answer it if you haven't?

03:23:34.500 You go first.

03:23:36.200 I asked you first.

03:23:39.160 Valid.

03:23:39.580 Very valid.

03:23:40.280 Yeah.

03:23:40.520 I asked you first.

03:23:41.840 Come on.

03:23:42.140 Okay, well, I'm, I'm not going to answer.

03:23:43.420 So, I mean.

03:23:44.860 So then I won't answer.

03:23:45.700 That's fine.

03:23:46.300 Does anybody else want to answer? 0.79

03:23:48.500 Jade, last time you had sex? 1.00

03:23:49.960 Damn. 1.00

03:23:51.060 Honestly, it's been a while. 0.99

03:23:52.180 Come on, Jade. 1.00

03:23:53.280 Come on.

03:23:53.540 No, seriously.

03:23:54.140 Really?

03:23:54.500 Yeah.

03:23:56.140 Okay.

03:23:57.400 Hopefully soon.

03:23:58.120 14th? 0.99

03:23:58.240 I think, I think I'll have sex soon. 0.99

03:23:59.620 I think I'll have sex by Thanksgiving. 0.98

03:24:01.260 Was it a fortnight ago? 1.00

03:24:02.520 I'm going to have sex by Thanksgiving. 0.98

03:24:04.280 But in the universe. 1.00

03:24:04.760 You'll have sex by Thanksgiving? 0.99

03:24:06.220 Yeah, I hope, I hope. 1.00

03:24:06.900 Is there, is a handsome Asian man?

03:24:10.360 Hopefully.

03:24:11.100 Okay.

03:24:11.460 I think I know which one it is.

03:24:12.620 I saw the clip.

03:24:14.220 Oh, not him.

03:24:14.960 He has a girlfriend.

03:24:16.760 I'm not even, we might not be talking about the same person.

03:24:19.880 The guy I kissed?

03:24:21.300 No, no, no.

03:24:22.000 Oh.

03:24:22.560 Wait, so, but do you want to answer when the last time was?

03:24:25.220 You said a fortnight?

03:24:26.520 14?

03:24:27.060 Wait, fortnight is 14 days.

03:24:28.680 Do you know what a fortnight is?

03:24:29.060 No, I don't know what a fortnight is.

03:24:30.180 It's 14 days ago.

03:24:32.340 Oh, no.

03:24:33.480 Longer?

03:24:33.980 Probably longer.

03:24:34.460 A month?

03:24:35.120 Two months?

03:24:35.520 Three months?

03:24:36.760 Two months.

03:24:37.560 Two months.

03:24:37.960 Yeah.

03:24:38.420 All right.

03:24:39.280 Kat, what about you?

03:24:40.480 Two nights ago.

03:24:41.440 Okay.

03:24:42.920 No answer.

03:24:43.720 Okay.

03:24:46.460 18 years ago?

03:24:47.700 Wait.

03:24:48.120 Hold on.

03:24:48.360 Wait.

03:24:48.540 Wait, what?

03:24:48.920 Sorry.

03:24:49.200 Oh, my God.

03:24:49.500 I mean, no, I meant, I didn't mean.

03:24:51.340 Let's just continue on.

03:24:53.120 Are you sure you don't want to answer?

03:24:54.340 If you answer, I'll answer.

03:24:56.260 Come on.

03:24:56.640 Answer.

03:24:57.180 Come on, Brian.

03:24:57.880 You got this.

03:24:58.440 Don't be shy.

03:24:58.840 I'm not going to answer.

03:24:59.600 I'm not answering that.

03:25:00.340 Don't be shy, dude.

03:25:01.080 Okay.

03:25:01.400 Can you answer my question?

03:25:02.980 What's up?

03:25:03.600 Are you in a relationship currently?

03:25:04.940 Yes, he is.

03:25:08.040 Because he scratched his nose.

03:25:09.900 Oh, my God.

03:25:10.900 What was that?

03:25:13.340 A pellet gun?

03:25:14.440 Did someone throw something? 1.00

03:25:16.200 What the fuck? 1.00

03:25:17.260 A rock? 1.00

03:25:18.080 That sounds like a rock.

03:25:19.840 Did something fall?

03:25:21.240 I think.

03:25:21.560 I thought it was something that fell.

03:25:22.300 It might have been a bottle.

03:25:23.140 I think something from outside.

03:25:24.820 Really?

03:25:25.080 I thought it was a harder than bottle.

03:25:26.680 Yeah, a little harder than a bottle.

03:25:28.220 I thought something fell.

03:25:30.600 Stream sniper. 1.00

03:25:32.800 What the fuck? 1.00

03:25:33.800 They're coming for you, Brian. 1.00

03:25:34.140 They're coming for you. 1.00

03:25:34.940 Crazy shit right now. 1.00

03:25:35.520 Hold on. 1.00

03:25:36.200 Is my head safe right now?

03:25:37.580 You're fine.

03:25:38.140 You're fine.

03:25:38.680 Bro, there's like a red hat.

03:25:39.560 It's probably a stream sniper.

03:25:41.020 It's all good.

03:25:42.220 Okay, so find the other question, Jane.

03:25:45.560 You didn't even answer my question.

03:25:46.620 What was your question?

03:25:47.260 I'm not answering that.

03:25:48.100 Go ahead.

03:25:48.620 Okay.

03:25:49.100 This is crazy.

03:25:50.180 Well, what are your red flags?

03:25:53.660 Oh.

03:25:54.400 Yeah, what's like a number one deal breaker?

03:25:59.060 What are my red flags?

03:26:02.660 Say she's a 10.

03:26:03.860 Yeah. 0.99

03:26:04.440 But she doesn't give blowjobs. 1.00

03:26:06.640 What is she now? 1.00

03:26:10.560 Like an eight.

03:26:11.700 Okay. 0.99

03:26:12.260 I guess you don't like blowjobs that much. 0.99

03:26:13.900 No, I do. 0.98

03:26:14.980 I really like head, but it's not, that wouldn't be a deal breaker for me.

03:26:18.880 I'd be kind of a bit disappointed, but I mean, if the sex is still good, like, I wouldn't

03:26:25.220 need it, but if I can get, if I can get the girl I want and she's likes that, then that's

03:26:31.040 good.

03:26:31.380 That's fine.

03:26:32.100 Okay.

03:26:32.400 Yeah.

03:26:32.600 So, um, oh my God, Jesus Christ, these comments.

03:26:37.140 Um, so red flags.

03:26:39.980 Oh, red flags.

03:26:40.940 Okay.

03:26:41.280 So I'm trying to think here. 0.70

03:26:44.460 Sorry, that noise fucking threw me out, threw me off, guys. 0.77

03:26:50.040 It was like super loud. 0.96

03:26:51.040 Um, okay.

03:26:55.040 Say, say, body, high body count.

03:26:57.080 Okay.

03:26:57.420 I'd say high body count is red flag.

03:27:00.100 That's valid.

03:27:01.120 High body count is a red flag.

03:27:02.740 Like, that's, that's the big one for me.

03:27:07.080 Yeah.

03:27:07.580 What if she chews with her mouth open?

03:27:11.260 I don't care.

03:27:12.240 And she makes like really loud noises. 1.00

03:27:13.980 That's fucking hot. 0.99

03:27:14.900 Really? 0.99

03:27:15.280 Center my way.

03:27:17.100 Center my way.

03:27:18.500 The head's going to be good.

03:27:19.280 So.

03:27:19.560 Okay.

03:27:20.080 Yeah.

03:27:21.100 Yeah.

03:27:21.460 Um, yeah, definitely.

03:27:22.960 I'd say body count is the big one.

03:27:24.820 And then, um, excessive vanity is a big one.

03:27:29.200 Uh, and then just like really quarrelsome.

03:27:31.340 Someone who's very argumentative.

03:27:32.740 That's, that's a wrap.

03:27:34.860 I want a girl to bring me peace. 0.98

03:27:36.760 Peace is like the biggest fucking thing for me. 0.99

03:27:38.840 I don't want a girl that's going to be a headache. 1.00

03:27:40.340 And most guys like feel the same way.

03:27:42.340 Do you rather have a, like a, a boring girl or a crazier girl?

03:27:46.420 Give me a boring girl. 1.00

03:27:47.480 Oh yeah.

03:27:47.720 I want a boring, boring, boring, boring, boring.

03:27:50.440 Yeah.

03:27:50.640 I know. 1.00

03:27:50.880 I feel like most men like fuck with the crazy. 1.00

03:27:52.900 No, no, no, no, no. 1.00

03:27:54.060 We, we don't want, men don't want crazy.

03:27:57.020 Some do.

03:27:57.840 No, some do. 0.98

03:27:59.540 Some fuck up the crazy. 0.78

03:28:01.720 They be loving it. 0.99

03:28:03.040 Some of them.

03:28:03.600 No, we want, we would rather err on too dull than too like crazy or exciting.

03:28:11.520 It depends if he's like an introvert or extrovert.

03:28:13.340 Cause I feel like the shy introverted men like a little spice in their life.

03:28:16.440 And like the extroverted men want like a normal girl.

03:28:19.900 Yeah.

03:28:20.220 So I feel like you're more of the extroverted type.

03:28:22.840 You think I'm more extroverted?

03:28:24.220 Yeah.

03:28:25.860 I think I'm pretty introverted.

03:28:27.220 Oh yeah.

03:28:27.620 I think so.

03:28:28.220 Oh yeah.

03:28:28.800 Maybe a little bit of both.

03:28:30.040 Yeah.

03:28:30.260 I think I might be a bit in the middle.

03:28:32.000 Yeah.

03:28:32.600 But yeah, I prefer pretty like super mellow women. 1.00

03:28:37.700 Like not to say I don't like, I mean a woman's humor is pretty low on the totem pole in terms 1.00

03:28:43.860 of what I value in a partner.

03:28:46.040 It's if she's.

03:28:47.100 I don't know how to, how do I frame this?

03:28:55.080 I'd say I prefer like pretty demure women. 1.00

03:28:59.220 Okay.

03:28:59.900 Yeah.

03:29:02.480 Any other final thoughts or questions?

03:29:06.300 Brian wants to be pegged.

03:29:07.860 Jesus Christ.

03:29:10.920 Wait, actually on the topic of body count since I brought it up, do you guys think body count should matter?

03:29:15.400 No.

03:29:16.640 No?

03:29:17.940 No.

03:29:18.660 Into the mic?

03:29:19.120 Sorry.

03:29:19.580 No.

03:29:20.580 I think it matters.

03:29:21.980 We're going to wrap soon.

03:29:23.000 Yes.

03:29:23.400 You think it matters?

03:29:24.400 Yes.

03:29:24.940 I don't think it matters.

03:29:26.020 Okay.

03:29:27.740 So you said.

03:29:28.920 For girls and guys, like both ways.

03:29:30.080 Yeah.

03:29:30.380 You said it doesn't matter.

03:29:31.480 Yeah.

03:29:32.180 You said it doesn't matter.

03:29:33.220 No.

03:29:33.780 You said it matters.

03:29:34.920 You said it doesn't matter.

03:29:38.020 What's your body count?

03:29:39.660 Hold on.

03:29:40.760 Wait, why does it matter?

03:29:42.000 I want to know like why the different opinions because usually I hear about like a night.

03:29:47.100 It's not mattering.

03:29:47.720 So I want to know why you think it does matter.

03:29:50.720 Oh, you want to know why I think it matters?

03:29:52.100 Yeah.

03:29:52.660 Because like say you're interviewing a person and you see like a lot of jobs on their resume.

03:29:59.220 Like you wouldn't want to hire that person.

03:30:02.620 Rather if they had like one or two consistent jobs for like three to five years, I would

03:30:07.300 rather hire that person.

03:30:09.860 I think they're very completely different.

03:30:12.680 I mean.

03:30:12.980 I prefer a guy with a lower body count because I don't know.

03:30:16.460 It's just.

03:30:16.700 Really?

03:30:17.140 Yeah.

03:30:17.400 Because I feel like most women care less about body count. 1.00

03:30:21.860 There's definitely women that do care about it, but I feel like most women like don't 0.99

03:30:25.160 really care.

03:30:25.560 I just prefer my man to be like more traditional and have like less like girls in this work. 1.00

03:30:29.340 You know what I mean?

03:30:29.760 Yeah.

03:30:30.000 Yeah.

03:30:30.800 Okay.

03:30:31.820 So your question.

03:30:33.200 Hold on.

03:30:35.740 I'll answer why body count matters, but what's your body count?

03:30:39.220 If body count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?

03:30:41.580 What if I said it was one?

03:30:42.880 I still don't think it matters.

03:30:44.180 Like, are you asking me that because I said it doesn't matter?

03:30:50.900 So you're like, oh, she has a high body count. 0.99

03:30:52.540 No, that's not what I'm saying, but I'm seeing if you're open with sharing your body count.

03:30:59.520 If it doesn't matter, then you should be okay sharing it.

03:31:02.560 I'll give like a range.

03:31:04.040 Okay.

03:31:04.440 What is it?

03:31:05.920 Zero to 20.

03:31:08.040 That's a decent range.

03:31:09.480 Zero to 20.

03:31:10.260 So you're either a virgin or you've slept with 20 men by the time you're 18.

03:31:14.340 That's not a good range.

03:31:17.720 Just say, you can just say what your, your number is.

03:31:22.060 You said, okay.

03:31:22.960 You said body count shouldn't matter, right?

03:31:24.740 Right.

03:31:25.320 Be the change you want to see in the world.

03:31:29.240 Three.

03:31:30.900 Okay.

03:31:33.180 That's, that's the truth.

03:31:35.080 Okay.

03:31:35.520 I don't feel comfortable.

03:31:38.160 You asked me this before and then, you know.

03:31:40.300 Okay.

03:31:40.820 Yeah.

03:31:42.880 I honestly don't really know, but it's probably somewhere between like, oops, like 20, 21 to like 25.

03:31:49.640 Okay.

03:31:50.940 Jade.

03:31:52.120 I, I honestly, I smoke a lot of weed.

03:31:54.260 So I like, I forget.

03:31:56.500 You forget?

03:31:57.540 I forget.

03:31:58.200 Like I don't keep track.

03:31:59.100 Do you have a range?

03:32:00.760 Um, I'd say like probably like 11 to 15.

03:32:07.740 Okay.

03:32:08.320 Yeah.

03:32:09.680 Multiply it by three and that's the real number.

03:32:11.440 Okay.

03:32:14.500 Okay.

03:32:15.260 Um, so, okay.

03:32:16.120 Your question was why body count matters.

03:32:17.620 I mean, I want to wrap up here pretty soon, so I won't get into all the nitty gritty, but I'll give you a few.

03:32:23.540 Okay.

03:32:24.140 STDs, baggage and or trauma.

03:32:26.220 The more previous relationships you've had, the more people you slept, slept with, the more likely you're going to bring baggage and or past trauma to the new relationship.

03:32:34.400 You've, you start chip as your body count starts increasing, you start chipping away your ability to pair bond with a future partner.

03:32:42.780 So your ability to fall in love, your ability to really, really bond with that person.

03:32:48.580 If you've slept with a hundred people before that, your ability, you're not going to really be able to bond with someone.

03:32:56.960 Why not?

03:32:58.660 Because you're like jaded by like so many different types of people.

03:33:03.040 Like if you had sex with so many people, then it's just not as meaningful to you.

03:33:07.180 But if sex is just on a physical level, you can still adapt to you.

03:33:11.180 I disagree.

03:33:12.460 So if sex is purely physical to you, there's not an emotional or intimacy component?

03:33:17.200 No, sex is definitely emotional when you want it to be emotional, but I think you can definitely choose when you want it to be emotional and when you don't.

03:33:23.720 If you, like having sex with some random person is completely different than having sex with someone you're invested in emotionally.

03:33:30.140 I think it's completely different.

03:33:31.440 It's a completely different type of sex and it feels completely different. 0.95

03:33:35.120 I mean, you're, you, you are sort of compartmentalizing there.

03:33:40.360 But when you start detaching intimacy from sex, when you have sex with guys that you don't care about, or when you have sex with partners that you don't care about.

03:33:48.860 And then when you are in an intimate, serious, long-term relationship, you have started to detach the degree, the value that you put on sex.

03:34:00.780 You've detached some of the intimacy from it.

03:34:03.100 I just, I disagree with that.

03:34:06.980 That, I mean, that's fine.

03:34:09.000 Like, is that based on what, like, are you like, is that like an actual fact or is that like your opinion?

03:34:13.900 Well, it's just like the way you view and value sex.

03:34:16.780 Because if you only have sex with people you're in long-term relationships with, and by the way, you're free to do whatever you want.

03:34:24.540 But, I mean, and they have done studies on this.

03:34:28.480 So, yeah, you, you're rewiring your brain towards short-term pleasure-seeking.

03:34:37.440 In the same way, if you've scrolled through TikTok for three hours, and then you sit down and try to read a book, good luck. 0.99

03:34:43.540 You're fucking up your attention span.

03:34:45.620 So, in the same way that if you're sleeping with a whole bunch of guys, and there's not, it's not serious, you've got a 50-50 body count. 0.98

03:34:52.920 You're not, you've detached the pair bonding, you've detached intimacy from the act.

03:35:00.780 But I think that you're still able to find intimacy.

03:35:03.220 Intimacy is more than just sex.

03:35:06.540 Like, I think you're still able to find intimacy with a partner that you want to find that intimacy with.

03:35:11.720 Like, if I'm having meaningless sex with whoever I want to, which is completely fine, and that's completely my business.

03:35:17.220 And then I get in a relationship with a guy, and I'm actually, like, emotionally, like, I am interested in this guy emotionally as well.

03:35:27.000 Then I think there's, that's intimate in my eyes.

03:35:30.500 Like, and that brings intimacy into the bedroom, is being emotionally into it.

03:35:37.500 I don't know.

03:35:38.140 I mean, if you've, if your past, your past is, you've had 30 sexual partners, none of them were relationships, they were all one-night stands, or, like, you hooked up two or three times, and now all of a sudden you want to get into a relationship with someone.

03:35:52.600 It's just, your view on sex is just, it, you've, you've retrained your brain towards short-term pleasure-seeking.

03:35:59.660 Well, you know, I don't, I don't, I don't necessarily think that having, I don't necessarily think that having, like, non-intimate sex keeps you from having intimate sex in the future.

03:36:16.760 Yeah, I, but I do, I do, I do kind of see what you're saying about, like, maybe, like, the trauma and the, like, the trauma, like, and having baggage maybe a little bit, but I don't think, I mean, you can say that.

03:36:29.220 You can say that, sorry, but you can say that about, like, other types of trauma, too, it's like, oh, she's from, like, a bad family, and I want to be with her, because she, like, has, yeah, so I think that's, I think it's reasonable not to want to date someone who has baggage, because, like, why would you?

03:36:42.640 If you're not willing, if you're not willing to be a good boyfriend and take on that type of responsibility, it's good for you to be honest about it.

03:36:47.380 Yeah, well, I mean, that's, on the topic of baggage, if someone's had 50 previous partners, like, the moment, my view is, like, the moment that something

03:36:57.200 goes wrong in the relationship, like, your instinct might be, like, new dick, new answers, I'm just gonna go get another guy, so, whereas if you have fewer partners, then you're more likely to be willing to stick it out with that person.

03:37:17.660 I can see the logic behind it, but I don't, I think that's pretty general, like, it's a pretty, like, it's, like, a generalization that I don't think is, like, true, necessarily.

03:37:27.840 Well, I think what's going on with dating now, because we have so many options, that's why people aren't getting into relationships, there's always that shine, that other shiny object over there, the, someone better is just a swipe away, so, I mean, outside of sex, you have, people just have so many options, so, I don't know.

03:37:47.500 Yeah, that's why people are just not committing, so, I'll give you a few more, I'm trying to.

03:37:57.540 Ryan, what's your body count?

03:37:59.920 I'm a man of God, I do not disclose.

03:38:01.300 Wait, I mean, we answered, so what is it?

03:38:02.900 I don't, I don't, I don't share that, because I think body count matters, that's why I don't, I don't share it.

03:38:08.300 So, it's between zero and 150.

03:38:13.200 I think you got a high body count.

03:38:14.300 Really, you think I have a high body count?

03:38:15.680 Yeah.

03:38:15.940 Why do you think that, Jid? 0.98

03:38:16.960 I think you just slay women. 1.00

03:38:18.440 You think, you think I slay women? 1.00

03:38:19.960 I think you slay women. 1.00

03:38:20.840 Why, why do you say that, why do you think that?

03:38:22.340 I feel like you, like, you have a lot of game, you can, like, talk really well, and you do your pickup stuff, so.

03:38:29.140 You think, you think I have game?

03:38:30.400 I feel like it's easy for you.

03:38:31.700 You think I have game?

03:38:32.680 Yeah.

03:38:33.040 Don't start blushing.

03:38:35.120 I don't know, I don't, uh, you know.

03:38:37.000 I mean, you, you do, like, the date thing, and, like, 50%, like, it's a numbers game for you.

03:38:41.560 Wait, Eric, can you pull something up, just to, so I can show, uh, you're going to have to open up the folder.

03:38:47.720 It's in the Dropbox folder.

03:38:50.080 Eric, and guys, we're going to wrap in five minutes here.

03:38:53.540 Um, so, okay, you think I have game?

03:38:59.020 Um, I, I think, I think your body count's, like, 50.

03:39:03.080 Okay, Eric, open up the Hearthstone file.

03:39:08.140 The high elo king? 0.99

03:39:10.640 I don't know, never mind, I'm just a fucking nerd. 0.99

03:39:13.060 Okay, it doesn't matter. 0.99

03:39:14.660 Um.

03:39:14.740 Oh, yeah.

03:39:15.800 Mm-hmm.

03:39:16.220 The high elo thing.

03:39:19.440 Okay, we're going to move on from the body count thing.

03:39:21.200 Let me get these soup chats.

03:39:22.280 I do want to react to more, can we get you guys back on the show?

03:39:25.380 Because I want to react to the other videos, but we've gone really long, so.

03:39:32.860 Yeah, our backs are hurting.

03:39:36.440 Okay, we got, yo, Alex Mack, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:39:40.660 Joni loves Chachi.

03:39:41.460 Ben Stiller.

03:39:42.020 Okay, thank you, Alex Mack. 0.97

03:39:44.520 Man up, Brian, give the crazy ones a chance. 0.96

03:39:46.580 Nah. 0.99

03:39:47.540 Give me, give me a dull girl. 1.00

03:39:49.420 Um, see, that's, I feel like that's the difference between men and women, is, like, 0.99

03:39:55.380 they'll, they'll be dudes who are criminals.

03:40:00.700 That y'all, y'all are attracted to. 0.96

03:40:02.600 No, I like my men boring.

03:40:03.800 Yeah, I like nerdy guys.

03:40:05.000 Okay, well, fair enough.

03:40:05.880 Yeah.

03:40:07.200 And, I don't know.

03:40:09.680 Anyways.

03:40:11.040 Okay, Joe Proper, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:40:13.020 Love the Asian in blue.

03:40:14.300 Hit me up if you're single.

03:40:15.880 Great show, guys.

03:40:16.920 Okay, you're probably going to have to hit her up, my friend.

03:40:18.880 But, uh, her DMs are open, and her OnlyFans, uh, is there a coupon?

03:40:23.900 Dural, thank you for the $18 British Pounds.

03:40:26.940 Thank you, man.

03:40:27.340 Appreciate it.

03:40:28.060 Any chance of Chase being a permanent co-host?

03:40:32.720 Um, I don't know.

03:40:33.860 Uh, I would like to bring him on more frequently, but, uh, Chase has his own business.

03:40:38.800 Um, I think he's, he'd be a great addition, but, uh, I don't, and me and Chase disagree

03:40:45.300 on a couple things.

03:40:46.260 I don't know.

03:40:47.000 Um, that's good.

03:40:49.620 Maybe, maybe.

03:40:50.740 Um, so, potentially, potentially, but I, I think he has his own business going on,

03:40:57.040 and just, you know, uh, bye, Jade.

03:41:00.880 Bye.

03:41:01.540 I love you.

03:41:04.260 Uh, and Born X, Brian's body count is 75.

03:41:07.640 Wow. 0.99

03:41:08.360 Goddamn. 0.95

03:41:09.140 Uh, can you pull up the, let me see if I can get Dave Ons here really quick. 0.97

03:41:14.200 So many soup chats.

03:41:15.280 I might have to boost, add the Asians as co-hosts. 0.90

03:41:20.640 They have names, okay?

03:41:23.380 We're just the Asians, too.

03:41:25.740 The Asians. 0.97

03:41:27.220 Um, yeah, they have names.

03:41:28.800 It's Jade and Kat.

03:41:31.340 Uh, okay.

03:41:32.720 Let me grab this last soup chat here from our boy.

03:41:36.260 It's not even showing up.

03:41:37.420 Um, let's, what's that?

03:41:40.420 The one from Dave Onn?

03:41:42.560 Yeah.

03:41:43.000 Oh, weird.

03:41:43.720 I don't see it.

03:41:44.520 Oh, here we go.

03:41:45.180 Okay.

03:41:45.900 Dave Onn Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:41:47.480 I appreciate you, man.

03:41:48.220 Body count for me matters because if it's high, that means you have a habit of putting yourself

03:41:52.080 in positions to get ducked.

03:41:53.540 That's not the habit I want in my future wife. 1.00

03:41:57.080 Word?

03:41:58.580 Word?

03:41:59.860 Word.

03:42:00.440 Guys, we're tired.

03:42:01.280 We're tired, guys.

03:42:01.900 So we're, um, should we, one last video?

03:42:04.860 Yeah.

03:42:05.220 Do you, do you consent?

03:42:08.520 Me?

03:42:08.860 Yeah.

03:42:09.040 Why is it all on me?

03:42:10.100 I don't know.

03:42:10.680 You got your purse strapped on.

03:42:12.060 You're ready to go.

03:42:12.800 Oh, yeah.

03:42:13.360 I know.

03:42:14.620 Everyone's tired here.

03:42:15.640 It's, it's getting late, guys.

03:42:16.960 Um, let's do one more from, from, uh, the Girls Gone Wild podcast.

03:42:22.160 Wireless, wireless, wireless.

03:42:23.200 Oh, sorry, sorry, sorry.

03:42:23.900 Wireless, wireless, wireless.

03:42:25.220 The, the, yeah, yeah.

03:42:25.940 I pull up the video tab, Eric.

03:42:27.420 I don't see what this is.

03:42:28.400 Let's do, uh, let's do the pharma one.

03:42:31.260 Yeah, here we go.

03:42:33.260 Pharmacist on what?

03:42:33.980 Coffee Meets Bagel?

03:42:34.660 Yeah.

03:42:35.420 It's great.

03:42:37.460 That's amazing.

03:42:38.060 And then, uh, and then I, I flopped on him.

03:42:40.980 Okay, I'm a little tired here.

03:42:42.640 I don't want to play basketball with you anymore. 0.98

03:42:44.920 Damn, what does he look like? 0.99

03:42:45.860 He's cute. 0.98

03:42:45.920 Can you boost the audio, Eric?

03:42:46.960 I mean, he's just, he's like a very tall Asian guy, like regular. 0.99

03:42:49.960 How tall?

03:42:50.800 190 centimeters.

03:42:52.300 So that's like six, six, four.

03:42:55.220 That's pretty good, Jade.

03:42:56.280 And you flopped on him?

03:42:57.320 Yeah.

03:42:57.860 Why?

03:42:58.620 Because that's how you play the game.

03:42:59.780 Oh, God.

03:43:00.440 They gotta chase you.

03:43:01.820 They gotta chase you.

03:43:03.160 Yeah.

03:43:03.820 I need to be more like a cat.

03:43:04.680 And I'm not that interested in him, honestly.

03:43:07.460 Rip.

03:43:08.080 Can we get some RIPs in the chat for the six, four Asian Chad pharmacist? 0.99

03:43:12.000 Um, so just curious, like what, when you say flop, is that flake?

03:43:17.540 Yeah.

03:43:18.020 When you flop, like you flaked on him?

03:43:19.080 Yeah.

03:43:19.820 Why did, six, four pharmacist?

03:43:22.740 Yeah, that's funny. 0.99

03:43:23.460 Honestly, like height sucks. 0.98

03:43:24.360 That's a catch. 0.98

03:43:25.340 I agree with you on that.

03:43:25.720 Height doesn't matter to me.

03:43:27.920 What about your babies?

03:43:28.920 Jade is more like a catch. 1.00

03:43:29.340 The babies.

03:43:29.540 She's like, she's very, she's not the anti-simp.

03:43:32.200 She's the anti-simp. 0.99

03:43:32.800 She's anti-simp. 0.70

03:43:34.000 Okay.

03:43:34.180 It's like the opposite.

03:43:35.120 Yeah.

03:43:35.500 She's like a cat and a dog.

03:43:36.900 Yeah. 1.00

03:43:37.260 Damn. 0.99

03:43:37.760 But Jade, you're curving six, four pharmacist. 0.99

03:43:42.120 But also he was like trying to like feed you, like it was very clear that he was just trying

03:43:45.200 to like get you like wasted and like, it wasn't, it was creepy.

03:43:48.860 That's pretty weird.

03:43:49.840 Yeah. 0.94

03:43:50.040 That's pretty fucking weird. 0.87

03:43:51.600 Yeah. 0.98

03:43:51.720 That's a, that's a yikes for me. 0.92

03:43:53.300 Okay.

03:43:54.140 Right.

03:43:54.680 But you flaked on him.

03:43:55.600 Yeah.

03:43:56.140 God.

03:43:57.340 Terrible.

03:43:57.940 Terrible.

03:43:58.420 Jade.

03:43:58.540 I mean, he could, he could have someone else that wants him for his height, you know,

03:44:01.580 like I'm saving him for someone else.

03:44:03.420 Yeah.

03:44:03.920 Yeah.

03:44:04.280 Okay.

03:44:04.820 Well, uh, we're going to wrap up there.

03:44:08.460 Um, I want to give a big thank you for tuning in tonight, guys.

03:44:12.680 I want to give a big thank you to the wonderful panel.

03:44:16.280 Sorry that we went a little bit late here, guys.

03:44:19.440 Uh, the conversation was just so.

03:44:22.500 Sexy.

03:44:23.260 Scintillating.

03:44:23.900 And, and, uh, I really appreciate we had some good back and forth there guys.

03:44:27.600 So thank you guys so much for coming on.

03:44:29.480 Uh, thank you guys for tuning in tonight.

03:44:31.940 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:44:34.880 I appreciate that.

03:44:36.240 We'll, we will be live again Tuesday at 7 PM Pacific guys like the video and leave a comment

03:44:41.320 on your way out for the algorithm.

03:44:43.060 Thanks again to the panel.

03:44:44.380 Thanks for watching.

03:44:45.680 And, uh, we will see you guys next time.

03:44:48.840 Have a good night.

Whatever Podcast - February 04, 2023

Dating Talk #35

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