Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #38

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00:03:15.680 We are now going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:03:23.560 Go ahead.

00:03:24.320 Hi, my name is Keanu Marquez.

00:03:26.260 I'm 30 years old.

00:03:29.260 I am a stand-up comedian, and what was the last one?

00:03:36.260 School or major, if you are currently in school.

00:03:39.780 Maybe it doesn't apply to you.

00:03:41.380 I'm 30, so I don't.

00:03:43.120 It would have been a long time ago.

00:03:45.440 Okay.

00:03:46.960 I'm Ayanna.

00:03:47.940 I'm 21.

00:03:48.960 I am a bud tender, and I don't go to school currently.

00:03:53.400 Hi, my name is Ginny.

00:03:57.480 Tilt that microphone up towards you a bit.

00:03:59.840 There you go.

00:04:00.720 Hi, my name is Ginny, and I'm 23, and I work at Starbucks.

00:04:07.980 Hi, I'm Chyna.

00:04:09.120 Tilt it up towards you just a bit.

00:04:10.720 There you go.

00:04:11.600 Hi, I'm Chyna.

00:04:12.360 I'm 30 years old, and I am in a medical field.

00:04:14.580 Okay.

00:04:16.540 I'm Ava, age 21.

00:04:19.420 I'm working in beauty, a cosmetologist, studying esthetician.

00:04:25.120 Hello, this is Jocelyn Perez.

00:04:28.420 I'm majoring in criminology.

00:04:31.140 Age?

00:04:32.060 Oh, I'm 19.

00:04:33.380 Okay, welcome.

00:04:35.100 Hi, I'm Angelica.

00:04:36.580 I'm 28, and I'm a dental assistant.

00:04:40.380 Hi, I'm Paisley.

00:04:41.580 I'm 22, and I work in marketing.

00:04:44.700 Okay, rock and roll.

00:04:45.720 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:04:47.580 Guys, show them some love.

00:04:49.000 Give them a follow.

00:04:50.780 Sugar daddies, you know what to do. 0.99

00:04:52.140 So we're going to go around the table once more.

00:04:55.600 Tell us your current relationship status, longest relationship.

00:04:59.340 Are you on any dating apps?

00:05:01.380 And by the way, guys, we're going to review.

00:05:03.360 We're going to do a dating app review of their dating profiles.

00:05:07.080 So if you're on any dating apps, and that does include seeking arrangements, go ahead.

00:05:13.620 I am currently on a break.

00:05:19.060 And, yeah, I'm on the dating apps right now a little bit.

00:05:24.080 Longest relationship?

00:05:25.260 Longest relationship, six years.

00:05:29.240 How long have you been on a break?

00:05:32.100 A week.

00:05:33.160 Oh, a week on a break.

00:05:35.220 Yes.

00:05:35.560 Okay, so how's your break going so far?

00:05:39.160 I'm sad a lot.

00:05:41.040 You're sad a lot.

00:05:42.460 Okay.

00:05:43.700 Nice.

00:05:44.520 Good times.

00:05:45.720 It's very good times.

00:05:47.520 It's, you know, I lost a lot of weight, so it's been really good for me.

00:05:51.160 It's helped in the fitness department.

00:05:54.520 Okay.

00:05:54.980 Well, there you go.

00:05:55.960 You go.

00:05:57.060 Go ahead.

00:05:58.060 I am just vibing, you know.

00:06:03.080 I'm not on any dating platforms or anything like that.

00:06:09.300 What was the other question?

00:06:10.240 You're not on any dating platforms?

00:06:12.020 No.

00:06:12.440 I mean, I found the Bumble, but I had to download it for you to look at it.

00:06:16.840 Oh, you did it for me.

00:06:17.740 You downloaded it for me.

00:06:18.740 I feel like that reminds me of something.

00:06:22.060 I only did it with her because I'm in love with you.

00:06:24.220 Okay.

00:06:24.560 So, okay.

00:06:27.260 So, currently single, you're vibing.

00:06:30.260 So, you're single, or are you vibing with somebody?

00:06:33.840 I'm vibing.

00:06:35.720 With nobody or somebody?

00:06:38.680 With somebody.

00:06:39.160 Or multiple somebodies?

00:06:40.500 Not with somebody, but like, yeah, somebody.

00:06:43.920 Okay.

00:06:44.340 Longest relationship?

00:06:45.640 Five years.

00:06:46.540 Five years.

00:06:47.380 And you said you're 21, right?

00:06:50.160 Yes.

00:06:50.620 Okay.

00:06:50.860 So, that was like high school, sweetheart type thing.

00:06:54.080 Okay.

00:06:54.760 Is that the person that...

00:06:55.560 We were at high school.

00:06:56.340 You're not vibing with them no more?

00:06:57.820 Oh, no.

00:06:58.920 Oh, no.

00:06:59.180 Gotta move on.

00:06:59.840 Okay.

00:07:00.460 Okay.

00:07:01.160 Go ahead.

00:07:03.160 I'm not really on any dating apps.

00:07:07.520 Jenny.

00:07:08.020 Besides the ones that I sent you, but I'm not really active on it.

00:07:12.020 The two that you sent me.

00:07:13.340 Yeah, but I'm not really on it.

00:07:14.860 I just read down a little bit.

00:07:16.120 Okay.

00:07:17.260 Longest relationship?

00:07:18.800 Four years.

00:07:19.620 And current relationship status?

00:07:22.040 Single.

00:07:22.740 Single.

00:07:24.140 And have any of you been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:07:27.340 Yes.

00:07:28.180 Signed up.

00:07:29.180 Yes.

00:07:29.760 Yes.

00:07:30.320 Signed up.

00:07:31.040 You've signed up.

00:07:31.560 Never did anything.

00:07:32.820 Okay.

00:07:33.560 So, you guys have sugar daddies or did have sugar daddies?

00:07:36.980 Not at the moment.

00:07:37.980 Not at the moment?

00:07:38.560 I don't have a sugar daddy.

00:07:39.600 But previously...

00:07:40.640 Yeah, and he wants me to start doing arrangements again, but I said no, because I'm just, I'm

00:07:45.900 waiting.

00:07:46.400 I'm on a break.

00:07:47.140 So, I'm not really trying to date.

00:07:48.760 We'll come back to that.

00:07:49.980 Go ahead.

00:07:51.580 I forgot the question.

00:07:53.320 Yeah.

00:07:53.620 Current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:07:59.080 And that includes Seeking Arrangements.

00:08:01.060 Not on Seeking Arrangements.

00:08:02.500 I am single.

00:08:04.140 I'm only on a dating app just for friends right now.

00:08:08.080 Longest relationship?

00:08:09.300 Six and a half years.

00:08:11.000 Married or no?

00:08:12.280 Not married.

00:08:12.820 Okay.

00:08:13.000 My longest relationship was three years, but that's not the relationship I'm in now.

00:08:21.940 I have a relationship, and I do have a Tinder, but I don't use it.

00:08:29.820 Are you two in a relationship?

00:08:31.120 No.

00:08:31.600 Because you made a face.

00:08:32.560 I just made a face.

00:08:33.980 Oh, okay.

00:08:35.120 Oh, okay.

00:08:35.700 So, you know.

00:08:36.600 Okay.

00:08:36.920 Got it.

00:08:37.280 Got it.

00:08:38.180 Seeking Arrangements?

00:08:40.020 Not right now.

00:08:41.160 But previously?

00:08:41.820 In the past.

00:08:43.500 In the past.

00:08:44.520 Okay.

00:08:45.220 Go ahead.

00:08:46.280 Well, I'm single, and I have the dating app, but just for fun.

00:08:51.940 It's not like I go there.

00:08:53.440 Okay.

00:08:55.260 Sure.

00:08:56.120 Just for the swiping.

00:08:58.640 So, wait.

00:08:59.380 Current relationship status, longest relationship.

00:09:01.320 You said you're single, right?

00:09:02.420 Yes.

00:09:03.180 Longest relationship?

00:09:06.060 Three years, I think so.

00:09:08.300 You have an accent.

00:09:09.160 Are you from?

00:09:11.720 Mexico.

00:09:12.540 Okay.

00:09:12.840 Nice.

00:09:13.660 Cool.

00:09:15.560 Okay.

00:09:16.000 Oh, me.

00:09:17.440 I am currently single.

00:09:19.980 I do have a Hinge profile, and my longest relationship was about a year.

00:09:28.100 Paisley?

00:09:28.900 I'm currently single.

00:09:30.700 I'm also on Hinge.

00:09:32.320 Longest relationship?

00:09:37.600 Six months.

00:09:38.920 Don't even start.

00:09:40.320 Okay.

00:09:42.600 And then for you three over here, have any of you been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:09:46.680 No.

00:09:47.660 I have been on there, but I never got a sugar daddy out of it.

00:09:52.260 Okay.

00:09:52.820 Yes, I know.

00:09:53.780 Get my sugar daddy on Seeking Arrangements.

00:09:56.700 So, for those of you who have been on Seeking Arrangements, some of you have just been on

00:10:03.940 there, but never pursued anything, allegedly.

00:10:08.640 What is the most, the highest offer you've received from a guy?

00:10:13.420 Maybe $1,000 for a date, or he asked you to send him something.

00:10:17.420 Do you have any examples?

00:10:19.980 Yeah, I've gotten, like, $3,000 just for talking to men, just for messaging them, because they

00:10:26.960 want the company.

00:10:29.380 You have to look for, like, the right guys, and you just have to be really nice to them.

00:10:33.760 Wait, hold on.

00:10:35.360 You don't even have to be nice.

00:10:37.760 $3,000 to talk to them once, or was this over a period of time?

00:10:44.060 Over a period of time.

00:10:45.020 I built, like, a relationship with them, like a friendship, and they were just super

00:10:49.600 sweet and would just send me money whenever I, like, basically ask.

00:10:53.960 Tilt your microphone up towards you just slightly.

00:10:56.220 Okay, there we go.

00:10:57.020 Perfect.

00:10:57.500 And, yeah.

00:10:58.200 So, was it just one guy or multiple guys?

00:11:01.080 It was just one.

00:11:02.600 And you didn't trick on any other guys?

00:11:04.940 No, not really.

00:11:05.900 Just that one?

00:11:06.720 Because no contact, yes.

00:11:08.780 And you never met up with him?

00:11:09.900 Mm-mm.

00:11:10.400 And you just, how many times would you say you chatted with him, or was it kind of just...

00:11:14.860 Well, I would talk to him throughout the day, every day, just because I have, like, an...

00:11:18.300 I have an office job.

00:11:19.800 I've had an office job for a long time, so when I was doing it, I was just, you know,

00:11:24.640 talking to him throughout the day, just being nice, asking him how his day was.

00:11:29.040 Three?

00:11:29.600 $3,000 total?

00:11:31.520 Yeah, I also used to sell feet pictures to them for, like, $200 a pop.

00:11:36.480 Okay.

00:11:37.200 To them?

00:11:38.300 Yeah.

00:11:38.620 So, with the room...

00:11:40.400 But I don't do that anymore.

00:11:47.380 So, sorry, Eric, I did not mean to play with that.

00:11:53.640 So, feet pics.

00:11:55.000 That's the most risque thing you've ever sent, is feet pics? 0.99

00:11:59.140 Oh, I mean, I've sent some pretty risque nudes for free to assholes, but... 0.99

00:12:04.540 Oh. 0.99

00:12:05.740 Okay.

00:12:06.620 So, they get it... 1.00

00:12:07.520 The assholes get it free. 1.00

00:12:08.780 Exactly. 1.00

00:12:09.360 I should just...

00:12:09.880 And the lonely, seeking arrangements men have to pay.

00:12:13.780 Yeah.

00:12:14.280 Okay.

00:12:14.940 Because we're you.

00:12:17.240 So, for, like, one interaction, so I know there's the guy that paid you $3,000, but that

00:12:24.640 seemed like an extended thing.

00:12:26.860 What's the most someone's paid you for, like, a one-off thing?

00:12:29.960 Like, either a photo or a custom or...

00:12:33.980 Just because I didn't even want to do it, I sold a feet picture for, like, $300, and

00:12:41.900 it was one foot.

00:12:43.400 One foot.

00:12:44.040 And it was just one foot.

00:12:45.860 Did you try to get two feet?

00:12:47.120 Was there a negotiation?

00:12:48.460 Yeah, and I just did it.

00:12:49.120 I'm like, you get what you get.

00:12:50.400 And then they asked for a preview, too.

00:12:51.940 They're like, can I get a preview?

00:12:52.960 And I'm like, no.

00:12:54.040 Send me the money or you don't get it.

00:12:55.700 Do you want a picture of my foot or not?

00:12:57.840 If you look at my Instagram, you can find a good picture if you look hard enough.

00:13:02.520 But every time I post a story, I blur my feet.

00:13:06.100 Did he try to haggle?

00:13:07.980 Like, maybe, like, what about two toes from, like, the other foot?

00:13:11.160 I mean...

00:13:11.800 Like, not the full foot, but maybe just two toes.

00:13:13.600 I mean, kind of.

00:13:14.440 I mean, I already told him he got a discount, so...

00:13:18.380 Wow, you got a deal.

00:13:19.380 I just said that was my price because I didn't want to do it.

00:13:22.380 And I...

00:13:22.820 Yeah.

00:13:23.080 Has anyone else here ever been paid for feet pics?

00:13:26.440 Yes.

00:13:27.140 Yes?

00:13:27.920 Okay, wow.

00:13:28.800 Let's...

00:13:29.240 What was the...

00:13:30.100 How much did you make?

00:13:31.200 What's the most that you've made from an arrangement like this?

00:13:34.960 And a foot pic arrangement?

00:13:37.720 Well, just how much did you make from the...

00:13:39.760 From the foot pic?

00:13:40.800 From the foot pic.

00:13:41.500 I didn't make that much.

00:13:42.440 It was like 150.

00:13:43.460 150.

00:13:44.160 Yeah.

00:13:44.720 I wasn't like...

00:13:45.900 How long did it take you to take the foot pic?

00:13:47.980 Like, did you prep or was it just like...

00:13:49.600 Well, I did go, like, get my feet wet because they look better when they're wet.

00:13:53.420 I don't know.

00:13:53.760 What?

00:13:57.380 Hold on.

00:13:58.020 Your feet look better when they're...

00:13:59.660 Yeah, like...

00:14:00.300 Like pruning?

00:14:00.880 A hot...

00:14:01.380 No, no.

00:14:02.240 Like a hot bath.

00:14:03.440 And then your feet get a little pink, you know, and it's just like...

00:14:05.320 What the...

00:14:06.000 Did you ever get requests?

00:14:10.600 Oh, man.

00:14:11.600 Yeah.

00:14:12.620 Right?

00:14:13.280 Definitely.

00:14:13.600 Yeah, I mean...

00:14:14.600 Send the asteroid.

00:14:19.780 Send the asteroid, boys.

00:14:21.940 Okay, so...

00:14:23.980 150 for the wet foot...

00:14:26.480 I mean, I dried them.

00:14:27.800 I dried them.

00:14:28.620 They were just...

00:14:29.900 Like, prep them.

00:14:33.160 What's the most that you've made from anything on an arrangement?

00:14:38.320 Um, this one guy offered me $5,000 a week.

00:14:47.060 Um, it was more like talking to him, like, three to four times a week.

00:14:51.400 Just vibing.

00:14:52.760 How are you?

00:14:54.500 That's standard.

00:14:55.460 Hold on.

00:14:56.260 Just talking.

00:14:57.400 Yeah.

00:14:58.080 I mean, sometimes he'd want to FaceTime.

00:15:00.140 He'd get, like, five minutes.

00:15:01.460 So...

00:15:01.940 But did you...

00:15:02.560 You turned him down?

00:15:03.760 No.

00:15:04.340 Oh, so you did take it.

00:15:05.440 Oh, yeah.

00:15:05.700 How long did it last?

00:15:06.760 Mmm, three months.

00:15:09.920 Was he pushing for the meetup?

00:15:11.740 Um, yeah.

00:15:12.840 Duh.

00:15:13.160 Did you meet up?

00:15:14.880 Duh.

00:15:15.420 No.

00:15:16.300 He took me to a fancy restaurant.

00:15:18.400 He ate artichokes fully.

00:15:20.200 Like, he would, like, eat them and swallow them.

00:15:22.540 You know, like...

00:15:23.580 It was very weird.

00:15:24.600 It was a one-time thing for me.

00:15:25.940 That's why it only lasted three months.

00:15:28.100 So did you, you know, smash?

00:15:31.260 Absolutely not. 0.67

00:15:32.220 You're an old man. 0.96

00:15:33.140 I'm sorry.

00:15:35.260 He was.

00:15:36.760 Yeah.

00:15:37.000 He was an old man.

00:15:37.900 No, you.

00:15:38.460 No, I'm just kidding.

00:15:38.860 I'm just kidding.

00:15:41.160 I'm just joking.

00:15:43.420 Okay, so...

00:15:44.640 It kind of blows my mind,

00:15:47.100 because, like, I've never heard these sorts of stories from men.

00:15:53.120 Like, there's really...

00:15:53.540 No, why would they go and, like, say that? 1.00

00:15:55.420 You look like a fool. 1.00

00:15:57.040 As a guy, like, to... 1.00

00:15:58.160 I mean, you look like a king, but...

00:16:00.760 Well, I don't think...

00:16:02.100 I don't...

00:16:02.300 I guess the demand just isn't there.

00:16:03.900 At least the female demand for men to provide these services is not really there, compared 0.96

00:16:10.240 to the male demand.

00:16:12.380 Yeah.

00:16:12.980 I'm going to keep that.

00:16:13.740 You can keep that to yourself. 0.98

00:16:14.460 Maybe there's, like, gay... 1.00

00:16:15.360 I think gay men, you know?

00:16:16.780 Like...

00:16:16.980 Yes.

00:16:18.400 That's where it is, but...

00:16:20.640 So, okay.

00:16:21.660 Anyone else on...

00:16:22.740 Did Seeking Arrangements?

00:16:24.180 You said you downloaded it.

00:16:25.740 Did you?

00:16:26.460 Mm-hmm.

00:16:27.320 Let's hear it.

00:16:27.980 What's the dirt?

00:16:31.060 I don't...

00:16:32.020 It was a lot.

00:16:33.400 It was a lot?

00:16:33.860 I didn't do it, though.

00:16:34.840 What?

00:16:35.840 So, this was when I was in Miami.

00:16:37.920 Okay.

00:16:38.280 Miami is very different.

00:16:40.320 That's all I can say.

00:16:41.980 There's not a lot of petite girls out there. 1.00

00:16:44.460 All the girls are very voluptuous. 1.00

00:16:46.500 The guy had a fetish for thin girls. 1.00

00:16:48.940 He offered $10,000.

00:16:51.180 No.

00:16:52.020 I saw the picture, not for me.

00:16:53.520 So, you were on Seeking Arrangements?

00:16:56.560 Yes.

00:16:56.700 This guy offered $10,000?

00:16:58.500 Yes.

00:16:58.980 Because you were petite?

00:17:00.640 Petite, and he was hanging.

00:17:03.020 And he was...

00:17:03.460 Yeah, of course.

00:17:04.140 So, no.

00:17:04.540 So, you offered $10,000?

00:17:05.480 He offered $10,000.

00:17:06.640 For what?

00:17:07.400 Just to meet, or to...

00:17:08.500 No, he wanted...

00:17:09.420 He wanted everything.

00:17:10.320 He wanted everything.

00:17:10.940 He wanted everything.

00:17:11.880 He wanted the whole arrangement.

00:17:13.580 The whole arrangement.

00:17:15.140 Okay.

00:17:15.540 Yeah.

00:17:15.780 I was in no to.

00:17:16.240 Would there have been a price that you would have accepted?

00:17:19.560 Hell no.

00:17:20.180 He had like a... 1.00

00:17:21.820 He literally had like a horse's dick. 1.00

00:17:24.300 No. 1.00

00:17:24.600 Uh-huh.

00:17:25.500 No.

00:17:27.220 No.

00:17:29.160 He was hung.

00:17:30.700 That was going to tear me.

00:17:31.600 No.

00:17:31.840 I'm okay.

00:17:33.260 Not this one.

00:17:34.500 I'm okay.

00:17:39.440 So, it was large. 1.00

00:17:40.760 He had a large penis. 0.99

00:17:41.620 It was large and long, yes. 1.00

00:17:42.820 Large and long.

00:17:43.760 It was large, yes.

00:17:44.820 It took two hands for him to hold it.

00:17:47.360 No.

00:17:47.700 Two hands?

00:17:48.180 Two hands, and it was down to his knees.

00:17:50.520 No.

00:17:50.920 No.

00:17:51.160 Come on.

00:17:51.720 You're lying.

00:17:52.320 No way.

00:17:52.800 No, I am so serious.

00:17:54.080 I had to show like coworkers, because Miami...

00:17:56.580 Miami is expensive. 1.00

00:17:58.820 Bitch, show me. 1.00

00:17:59.160 And I was living there, going to school, needed help. 1.00

00:18:02.620 Like, no.

00:18:04.260 You still got the pics?

00:18:05.460 Hell no.

00:18:06.000 No.

00:18:09.360 I was going to say, maybe you could show us after the show.

00:18:13.400 We take a look, just so we can confirm.

00:18:15.740 I just want to see.

00:18:16.700 Yeah.

00:18:18.200 I don't know.

00:18:18.520 Two hands.

00:18:19.420 It took him two hands.

00:18:20.840 And he had literally, just being honest, like, no girl could tolerate him.

00:18:24.680 No.

00:18:25.280 Okay, what if it was, what if it was, like, average sized?

00:18:30.000 What's average?

00:18:31.440 Because every...

00:18:32.040 Five...

00:18:32.640 Seven inches?

00:18:33.500 Let's say five, six inches.

00:18:34.580 You think seven inches is average?

00:18:35.940 That's why I'm saying, what is average?

00:18:36.940 Because every woman... 1.00

00:18:37.200 Okay, never mind for me.

00:18:38.500 I think that the average is between five and six inches.

00:18:42.280 Okay, but if it's to your knees, that's not average.

00:18:44.540 No, but I'm saying, had his phallus been average, would you... 1.00

00:18:49.540 Because you said you turned him down, because the dick was too big. 1.00

00:18:53.560 Correct. 0.99

00:18:53.960 But if it was not too big, would you have taken the offer, the 10K?

00:18:59.560 I probably would have, just because, like I said, I was in a predicament for school and

00:19:04.460 stuff.

00:19:04.920 Hey, I appreciate the honesty.

00:19:06.440 I'm being honest.

00:19:07.940 I appreciate the honesty.

00:19:08.980 And then weekly allowance, plus that, it's Miami.

00:19:12.080 It's Miami.

00:19:13.100 It's Miami.

00:19:14.200 They got money.

00:19:14.480 So are you from Miami, originally?

00:19:15.780 No, I'm from Texas.

00:19:16.640 From Texas?

00:19:17.060 I travel a lot.

00:19:18.200 Okay.

00:19:18.680 I travel a lot.

00:19:19.580 Gotcha.

00:19:20.680 Any other kind of arrangements, or was that...

00:19:23.180 I did have...

00:19:23.960 I had another one.

00:19:25.180 Let's hear it.

00:19:25.760 Let's hear it.

00:19:27.640 Fort Myers.

00:19:28.480 He took me out to dinner.

00:19:29.800 That was supposed to be the arrangement.

00:19:31.300 He wanted to go back to the hotel and just eat me out.

00:19:33.160 No.

00:19:34.300 No.

00:19:35.160 No.

00:19:35.800 No.

00:19:36.560 That's just weird.

00:19:37.520 You don't know the man, and he just wants to eat you out.

00:19:39.120 You can close your eyes.

00:19:40.200 It's weird.

00:19:41.340 Wait.

00:19:41.460 No.

00:19:43.520 He bought me clothes and stuff, but it was just weird.

00:19:47.340 It was weird that he wanted to just eat you out?

00:19:51.040 Yeah.

00:19:51.560 Because most women would be stoked on that, I think.

00:19:56.000 Right?

00:19:56.360 I'm a 22-year-old girl with a guy that's in his 40s, and he wants to take me back to

00:20:01.080 a hotel to eat me out.

00:20:02.400 That's weird. 1.00

00:20:02.460 Did he want to fuck, too? 0.99

00:20:04.220 No. 1.00

00:20:04.640 He just wanted to eat me out and pay.

00:20:06.080 No.

00:20:07.260 That's weird.

00:20:07.760 I don't...

00:20:08.360 I don't...

00:20:10.360 It may be a normal for a guy, but you're on seeking arrangements.

00:20:14.700 Like, the men are a lot older.

00:20:16.200 Yeah.

00:20:16.380 Like, even when I'm on Hinge right now looking for friends, the men are older.

00:20:20.100 Yeah. 0.96

00:20:20.240 They're pretty nasty.

00:20:21.540 See? 0.97

00:20:22.040 They're just older.

00:20:22.860 But, I mean, they got the money.

00:20:26.440 But, wait.

00:20:26.980 Why is it nasty?

00:20:29.780 They're just old and...

00:20:31.440 How old are you again? 1.00

00:20:32.220 But their dicks don't look... 0.99

00:20:33.120 I mean, I'm... 0.99

00:20:33.980 I know.

00:20:35.320 Well, if they're 40, you're 30, right?

00:20:37.220 That's not a...

00:20:37.820 I mean, it's not a huge age gap, right?

00:20:39.720 No, no, no.

00:20:40.220 It's not that bad.

00:20:40.380 But, like, how old were the guys that were talking to you?

00:20:42.540 Oh, my gosh.

00:20:43.580 Like, late 60s, 70s.

00:20:46.040 They were trying.

00:20:47.320 And, like, those are also the ones that, like, really just want the company.

00:20:51.120 So, just text them.

00:20:53.660 Half of them can't get it up anyway, so...

00:20:56.220 Oh, my God.

00:20:56.840 You got the blue pill.

00:20:57.960 The blue pill.

00:20:59.680 Oh, the blue pill.

00:21:00.880 Oh, Viagra.

00:21:01.940 The Viagra.

00:21:02.200 Yeah, yeah.

00:21:02.720 Got it.

00:21:03.060 No, this isn't the Matrix.

00:21:04.000 Um, okay.

00:21:05.800 So, what's the most that you've accepted?

00:21:11.460 Because you turned down the 10K guy.

00:21:13.820 I...

00:21:14.300 Mm-mm.

00:21:14.700 That was kind of it for me.

00:21:16.760 You've never accepted money?

00:21:18.200 No, that was too much.

00:21:19.340 You just kind of perused...

00:21:20.720 That was kind of it.

00:21:21.680 That was, like, I'm done with it.

00:21:23.240 Mm-mm.

00:21:24.640 10K, though.

00:21:27.380 10K and I have a cervix.

00:21:28.940 No. 1.00

00:21:29.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:21:30.700 Okay. 1.00

00:21:31.080 No, I'm okay.

00:21:32.140 Okay.

00:21:32.460 Anybody else on...

00:21:34.680 You downloaded it, right?

00:21:36.520 I did, and it wasn't for me.

00:21:39.020 It wasn't for you.

00:21:40.840 It was not for me.

00:21:41.780 Oh.

00:21:42.500 Just because, like you guys said, everybody's older on there, and I was younger, and I was

00:21:47.380 just kind of like, hmm, I don't need the money that bad.

00:21:50.320 I'm okay.

00:21:51.140 What if they were, like, hot old, though?

00:21:54.720 Like Brad Pitt.

00:21:55.420 Hot old?

00:21:55.680 Brad Pitt's 58, but he's still a babe, you know?

00:21:58.360 Oh, yeah.

00:21:59.300 Okay, you'd go for it.

00:22:00.520 Uh-huh.

00:22:01.020 Yep, Brad Pitt, okay.

00:22:02.040 Keanu Reeves.

00:22:03.160 Keanu, okay.

00:22:04.160 Yeah.

00:22:04.760 There you go.

00:22:06.460 Okay.

00:22:07.600 Well, those are some pretty interesting stories.

00:22:12.660 10,000, though.

00:22:13.980 10,000.

00:22:14.600 You were really shocked by that.

00:22:16.540 I mean, that's just, that's a lot of money.

00:22:19.240 That's a lot of money.

00:22:20.200 That's a lot of pain.

00:22:22.100 No.

00:22:23.100 Did you try to negotiate it? 1.00

00:22:25.940 Like, what about if we don't fuck, but I'll just hang out with you? 0.99

00:22:29.080 I did, but he wanted a petite girl. 1.00

00:22:32.620 He wanted.

00:22:32.920 Like, that was his thing.

00:22:34.100 He was straight up about it.

00:22:35.080 He was straight up. 1.00

00:22:35.720 He was just like, I want a petite girl because nobody can handle his penis size. 1.00

00:22:39.720 So, for me, that was just, like, no. 1.00

00:22:40.960 Wouldn't he want, like, a taller woman, maybe? 1.00

00:22:44.220 Because, because, oh, he wanted a woman who could not handle his penis. 1.00

00:22:50.040 He wanted a petite girl because petite girls are, like, very, like, slender. 1.00

00:22:53.780 Yeah. 1.00

00:22:54.180 And from what I have been told, like, petite girls, they can feel the penis going inside. 1.00

00:22:58.160 Like, when they put their hand on their stomach, they can feel it compared to other. 0.99

00:23:00.940 Oh, you heard that.

00:23:03.240 Yes, I have heard.

00:23:04.220 It's something you heard.

00:23:05.520 Yes.

00:23:06.220 From your girlfriends.

00:23:07.540 I heard that.

00:23:09.280 So, that's how he wanted a petite girl. 1.00

00:23:10.860 You heard from, through the grapevine.

00:23:13.060 Through the grapevine, yeah.

00:23:13.660 Yeah, of course.

00:23:14.420 Of course.

00:23:15.160 All right.

00:23:16.720 So, we were talking about dating apps here.

00:23:19.900 We're going to, first off, we're going to react to some of the girls' dating apps,

00:23:24.960 those who provided their dating app profiles.

00:23:28.480 So, Erica, if you can pull up the window tab for us, please.

00:23:33.640 Oh, someone in the chat wants me to ask Chyna, was it Mike Davis?

00:23:40.360 I don't even know who that is.

00:23:41.780 Who is that?

00:23:42.300 I don't know.

00:23:42.620 If he's in the chat, he'll have to let us know.

00:23:45.540 Yeah, go ahead, Eric, if you want to just get the window tab going.

00:23:51.520 Okay.

00:23:52.000 So, we have Angelica here first. 1.00

00:23:53.840 Is this the first one, Eric?

00:23:56.080 Yeah.

00:23:56.460 Yeah.

00:23:56.900 Okay.

00:23:57.560 Chat.

00:23:58.320 This is Angelica's Hinge profile. 0.99

00:24:01.120 Okay.

00:24:01.440 The key to her heart is coffee.

00:24:03.580 28.

00:24:04.580 Next one.

00:24:05.220 I got you.

00:24:08.140 Okay.

00:24:08.740 Christian Ventura, long-term relationship.

00:24:13.320 Face filter, sticking out her tongue. 1.00

00:24:16.260 Next one.

00:24:19.420 Okay.

00:24:19.860 I want someone who can make me laugh and stays consistent.

00:24:24.220 Okay.

00:24:24.680 Next one.

00:24:26.880 I believe this might be the last one.

00:24:29.760 And then Angelica, teeth all the time. 1.00

00:24:32.300 Because you do teeth, right?

00:24:34.840 I do.

00:24:35.380 I work in the dental field.

00:24:36.500 Dental hygienist?

00:24:37.500 I'm a dental assistant.

00:24:38.660 Oh, okay.

00:24:40.960 Okay.

00:24:41.500 Chat.

00:24:42.860 Do you swipe left or swipe or no?

00:24:45.140 Actually, well, Hinge is a bit different because you have to.

00:24:47.700 It's a yes or a no on Hinge.

00:24:50.100 Yes for Angelica or no for Angelica?

00:24:55.560 Christian Green five.

00:24:59.480 Yes for Angelica.

00:25:01.320 No.

00:25:02.180 Oh, we got Davon Jackson in the chat.

00:25:04.360 Chyna, was it Davon? 0.93

00:25:05.640 Davon Jackson?

00:25:06.640 I don't even know any of these people that they ever mention me.

00:25:13.280 If you look into the monitor here, hold on a minute.

00:25:18.680 Does this man look familiar to you at all?

00:25:23.540 Chargers hat?

00:25:24.420 Did he have a Chargers hat?

00:25:25.580 No.

00:25:25.900 I do have a picture of that.

00:25:29.160 He is a loyal supporter of the show, Davon Jackson.

00:25:32.940 Every time you pick up like that, I think I'm like it.

00:25:34.640 So, yeah.

00:25:36.820 Sorry, yes for smashing.

00:25:39.780 Okay.

00:25:40.180 It looks like we got a lot of yeses here.

00:25:43.140 Can you actually, Eric, can you go back a few?

00:25:46.460 I wanted to react.

00:25:47.400 My body says yes, but I'm like yes.

00:25:50.740 Hung like a horse, but not offer any girl attack.

00:25:54.540 You're not going to leave us alone.

00:25:55.900 You can go back to her first one.

00:25:59.580 Okay.

00:25:59.980 So, key to my heart, coffee.

00:26:01.540 Just go to the next one.

00:26:04.080 I got you.

00:26:04.440 Next one.

00:26:06.140 Okay.

00:26:06.580 So, this is the one I wanted to react to.

00:26:08.240 So, I want someone who can make me laugh and stays consistent.

00:26:12.240 What do you mean by stays consistent?

00:26:13.680 A lot of people just kind of disappear, like out of nowhere.

00:26:19.400 But the problem isn't that they disappear.

00:26:22.340 It's that they come back.

00:26:24.980 They always come back.

00:26:26.320 They always come back.

00:26:27.300 They always come back.

00:26:28.200 So, can you give us an example of a recent experience where someone was not consistent, but then they came back?

00:26:36.240 What happened there?

00:26:37.860 It's just like the definition of a situationship, I guess.

00:26:41.320 Like, you get to know somebody and you're hanging out and you're hooking up or whatever.

00:26:45.980 And then they kind of ghost.

00:26:48.160 And then weeks later, they're like, hey, how are you?

00:26:52.280 Like, come over.

00:26:53.800 I'm like, no.

00:26:55.040 I don't want to now.

00:26:56.680 How did they ghost you?

00:26:58.920 It's just like not responding or, you know, not saying anything.

00:27:05.060 Got it.

00:27:06.680 So, and then you want someone who can make you laugh.

00:27:10.020 Oh, yeah.

00:27:10.600 Is that a high priority for you?

00:27:12.100 Definitely.

00:27:12.820 What about for the rest of the girls at the table? 0.89

00:27:15.540 Is humor or a guy who can make you laugh, is that a high priority for you?

00:27:20.000 Yes.

00:27:21.180 They have to be funnier than me.

00:27:23.640 They can't be funnier than you.

00:27:24.700 They cannot be funnier than me.

00:27:25.820 Because you're a stand-up comedian.

00:27:27.440 Yes.

00:27:27.720 Okay.

00:27:28.460 I have a question for you guys on this.

00:27:31.620 Do you think inverse, I don't know if it's necessarily inversely, but do you think that men care as much as women about a woman's humor or a woman's ability to make a guy laugh?

00:27:45.020 Yes.

00:27:45.500 Yes.

00:27:46.120 Definitely.

00:27:46.820 A little bit.

00:27:46.960 Hold on.

00:27:49.960 You don't think so?

00:27:50.500 You don't? 1.00

00:27:51.840 I'm trying to find my stupid fucking sound, but I can't do it. 1.00

00:27:55.680 Yes. 1.00

00:27:56.120 Okay.

00:27:56.720 But most men don't think women are funny.

00:28:00.400 She's got a point.

00:28:01.220 Yeah.

00:28:02.340 Most men, honestly, humor is pretty low on the totem pole of what we prioritize in terms of what we find attractive in women.

00:28:12.840 And who here thinks they're funny?

00:28:17.740 Show of hands.

00:28:20.260 Who's funny?

00:28:21.760 Sometimes.

00:28:23.520 Paisley, you're funny.

00:28:24.440 I think I laugh a lot.

00:28:26.660 Okay.

00:28:27.100 Paisley.

00:28:27.340 I laugh a lot.

00:28:29.020 Crack a joke.

00:28:29.820 Let's hear it.

00:28:30.180 No.

00:28:31.500 You can't do this.

00:28:32.320 I don't have one.

00:28:33.680 Prepared.

00:28:34.820 Like a knock-knock joke?

00:28:36.500 Sure.

00:28:37.480 Knock-knock. 0.68

00:28:38.180 Who's there?

00:28:41.060 Kiki.

00:28:42.140 Kiki who? 0.71

00:28:44.380 Did you say he-he?

00:28:47.200 No.

00:28:54.240 Okay.

00:28:55.340 All right.

00:28:57.200 Let's go back to the dating app review.

00:29:01.300 Okay.

00:29:02.640 Next one.

00:29:03.920 Oh.

00:29:04.340 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:29:06.540 Yikes, Eric.

00:29:07.240 That was a yikes.

00:29:09.460 Eric almost exited out of OBS.

00:29:12.960 Next one.

00:29:14.780 Oh, it's fine.

00:29:16.920 This is Ayana.

00:29:18.340 Ayana.

00:29:18.860 Ayana.

00:29:19.940 Okay.

00:29:21.740 Cool.

00:29:23.120 Hair's a little different.

00:29:24.320 In every picture.

00:29:25.860 She can do it all.

00:29:29.640 I don't know if I was able to pull up all of yours, but okay.

00:29:32.420 After work, you can find me sparking up.

00:29:35.160 Is that smoking weed?

00:29:36.300 I'm getting hired.

00:29:37.240 Methan.

00:29:37.820 Methan.

00:29:38.880 No. 1.00

00:29:39.960 Marijuana, motherfucker. 1.00

00:29:41.140 Okay. 1.00

00:29:42.660 Next one.

00:29:46.180 This might be it for her just because I don't know if I was able to get all of them.

00:29:49.900 Um, just check the next one to see.

00:29:55.260 Okay.

00:29:55.700 So, yeah, that's all.

00:29:57.740 Guys, do you swipe?

00:29:59.220 If you, Eric, can you bring it back to her first one?

00:30:01.260 Do you swipe left or right on Ayana's Bumble profile? 0.88

00:30:07.000 Eric, if you can bring it back once it's ready.

00:30:08.900 Left or right?

00:30:10.320 We didn't get all her profile, but, you know, unfortunately, I, what was, what else is in

00:30:15.660 your bio?

00:30:16.120 Do you remember the prompts?

00:30:17.460 Like, um, hold it up.

00:30:19.780 I feel like I really didn't say anything very exciting.

00:30:22.800 What was my, um, what's the questions?

00:30:24.800 I don't even know.

00:30:25.720 I don't, I haven't been on here in a day of time.

00:30:27.040 So left, left is no, right?

00:30:28.980 Right is yes.

00:30:30.080 Yes.

00:30:31.100 Left, no, right, yes.

00:30:33.920 Okay.

00:30:35.240 The chat. 1.00

00:30:37.500 Damn. 1.00

00:30:38.300 He said, fuck that bitch. 1.00

00:30:39.640 Okay. 1.00

00:30:39.920 I type right on you.

00:30:41.180 He said her paycheck.

00:30:43.040 Pass, pass through these.

00:30:46.460 All right.

00:30:47.060 We have Ava here.

00:30:48.680 Ava.

00:30:49.300 Ava.

00:30:49.800 Jesus, I'm butchering all the girls' names at the table. 1.00

00:30:52.100 Okay.

00:30:52.540 Um, next.

00:30:56.240 That's you.

00:30:57.380 Is that, what?

00:30:58.560 That's weed. 0.78

00:30:59.380 Okay.

00:30:59.860 She's smoking.

00:31:01.520 She's smoking the devil's lettuce.

00:31:03.740 Okay.

00:31:04.020 Uh, next.

00:31:06.480 Ava, 21, personal stylist, demisexual woman.

00:31:12.040 Okay.

00:31:13.060 Uh, I care too much.

00:31:15.960 Too much.

00:31:17.120 About what?

00:31:17.640 I need to stop caring so much.

00:31:19.440 Closer than mine.

00:31:20.600 Oh, I care too much.

00:31:22.660 About what?

00:31:23.880 Um, how I make people feel.

00:31:26.960 Oh, okay.

00:31:27.700 All right.

00:31:28.160 Uh, I think that's probably the last one.

00:31:31.260 Left or right?

00:31:32.600 Chat, left or right?

00:31:34.820 What's a, what demisexual, what, what's that?

00:31:37.420 Demisexual is, um, you want to know that person and connect with them before you feel. 0.99

00:31:43.800 Have sex. 1.00

00:31:44.800 Yeah. 0.99

00:31:45.100 Okay.

00:31:45.440 Okay.

00:31:45.660 So you, you want an emotional connection before question.

00:31:51.280 Have you ever had a one night stand?

00:31:53.720 No.

00:31:54.380 Never.

00:31:54.960 No.

00:31:55.560 Okay.

00:31:55.880 So only sex like within a relationship or?

00:31:59.080 Someone I was comfortable with.

00:32:00.760 Okay.

00:32:01.800 Rock and roll.

00:32:02.880 Eric, you can bring it back.

00:32:04.080 We're going to continue with our dating app review.

00:32:07.620 Okay.

00:32:08.620 Um, next.

00:32:10.620 We have Ginny.

00:32:12.680 Now we have two dating apps here from Ginny.

00:32:15.000 Uh, 23 barista.

00:32:18.400 Next.

00:32:21.960 Okay.

00:32:22.520 Five, two active.

00:32:24.400 Too many things on there.

00:32:25.700 Uh, smokes weed socially.

00:32:28.960 Doesn't know if she wants children or wait.

00:32:30.680 Sorry.

00:32:30.940 Doesn't know what she's looking for relationship wise.

00:32:34.100 Wants children someday.

00:32:36.100 Other religion.

00:32:37.220 Are you in a cult or what's a, um, I think I'm just exploring and I am very open minded

00:32:45.840 in terms of religion right now.

00:32:48.000 Okay.

00:32:48.460 She's a Scientologist.

00:32:49.580 All right.

00:32:51.200 Um, and you said you don't know yet what you're looking for relationship wise.

00:32:55.840 Yeah.

00:32:56.300 Cause I just got out of a relationship.

00:32:57.720 So I feel like, how recently, um, within the last year and a half.

00:33:03.520 So a year and five months ago.

00:33:06.160 Yeah.

00:33:06.400 It's about to be two years.

00:33:07.140 You got out of a relationship.

00:33:08.480 Yeah.

00:33:09.000 Moved out and everything.

00:33:10.520 How long were you guys dating?

00:33:11.740 Was it four years?

00:33:13.660 Living together and everything.

00:33:14.880 Can you really claim you just got out of a relationship though?

00:33:18.620 I mean, you said a year and a half ago or two years.

00:33:21.400 I guess no.

00:33:23.820 It's not just.

00:33:24.640 Yeah, not just, but I think I still have a lot of healing to do.

00:33:29.180 So that's, that's what I mean by just got out.

00:33:31.780 Okay.

00:33:32.020 I don't think mentally.

00:33:34.620 All right.

00:33:35.320 Well, let's continue with, uh, her profile here.

00:33:38.660 Uh, next.

00:33:41.200 The quickest way to her heart is through food.

00:33:46.640 Okay.

00:33:48.780 Interesting.

00:33:49.300 So can you elaborate on that a little bit?

00:33:53.060 Noodles.

00:33:54.160 Noodles.

00:33:54.720 And you'll see it on the next one too.

00:33:56.280 Okay.

00:33:56.640 We'll go to the next one.

00:33:58.120 Oh, wait.

00:33:58.900 Uh, next one.

00:34:00.640 Oh, on the next dating app.

00:34:02.040 After work, you can find me taking naps.

00:34:04.320 That's my mom. 1.00

00:34:05.480 Damn. 1.00

00:34:05.760 Your mom's. 1.00

00:34:06.340 Hold on.

00:34:06.940 Wait.

00:34:08.140 Took some milk.

00:34:09.440 Oh.

00:34:12.480 I'll tell her that.

00:34:13.460 Is she, is she single or what's that?

00:34:15.580 No, she's married. 0.98

00:34:16.560 Okay.

00:34:16.660 I'm joking.

00:34:17.220 Kidding.

00:34:17.440 I'm asking for a friend.

00:34:18.940 Um, next one.

00:34:22.120 Uh, okay.

00:34:22.860 Favorite quality.

00:34:23.360 Any person can make me laugh and match my dummy energy.

00:34:26.320 What, what is dummy?

00:34:27.760 What is dummy energy?

00:34:28.740 I feel like I have a lot of crackhead energy and, um, um, um, yeah, I feel like you have

00:34:38.440 crackhead energy.

00:34:39.480 I, yeah.

00:34:40.320 How does that look like?

00:34:41.520 Cause I mean, right now we're sitting down, we're having a conversation, but how does that

00:34:45.720 look?

00:34:46.080 I don't, I don't know how to describe it.

00:34:50.340 Show us.

00:34:53.300 When, is it, is it when you're comfortable with someone you're just a, like spaz basically 1.00

00:34:58.340 just freaking out and shit?

00:34:59.620 No, I think it's definitely when I'm more comfortable with people. 0.98

00:35:02.580 Um, I think I am pretty extroverted already, but I've feel like I've toned down a lot since

00:35:09.080 the breakup.

00:35:09.620 But do you just start randomly rapping?

00:35:12.800 No.

00:35:13.640 Can you, can you, can you, maybe it's not a super crackhead.

00:35:15.460 Can you drop a rap right now?

00:35:16.940 No.

00:35:17.740 Okay.

00:35:19.020 Okay.

00:35:19.560 And you said the quickest way to your heart is through food.

00:35:22.120 Yeah.

00:35:22.380 So is it a deal breaker if a guy doesn't buy you food or make you food?

00:35:28.400 Um, they gotta know how to eat.

00:35:32.020 They have to know how to eat.

00:35:33.080 Yeah.

00:35:33.660 I feel like I cook.

00:35:35.080 I, I think I, my love languages is food.

00:35:38.460 I also like, I like cooking for people.

00:35:40.900 Okay.

00:35:41.500 Yeah.

00:35:41.980 So you want like a mutual exchange there.

00:35:44.680 You want someone who cooks for you and brings you food and maybe you want to cook for them.

00:35:48.740 Yeah.

00:35:49.160 And bring them food too.

00:35:50.200 Yeah.

00:35:50.340 Okay.

00:35:51.320 All right.

00:35:51.760 Let's continue on with the review.

00:35:54.800 Okay.

00:35:55.280 Can make me laugh.

00:35:56.300 Okay.

00:35:57.080 All right.

00:35:58.880 Uh, next one.

00:36:00.300 Okay.

00:36:00.680 Um, stay there for a sec.

00:36:02.300 So you want a guy who brings you food, right?

00:36:08.640 Or the, the way to your heart is through food.

00:36:11.600 You want a guy who can make you laugh.

00:36:13.360 I'm curious.

00:36:14.840 So you didn't really list anything though that you bring to the table.

00:36:20.440 So I'm curious, what do you bring to, what do you bring to the table?

00:36:23.660 Um, I feel like I'm figuring that out right now.

00:36:26.580 You're figuring it out.

00:36:27.540 I'm figuring that out right now.

00:36:28.840 I feel like, yeah, I'm not really sure to be really honest.

00:36:33.680 You don't know?

00:36:34.620 Not really sure.

00:36:35.640 No.

00:36:35.840 Well, you, you said you're cooking.

00:36:39.080 You said you like to cook for people.

00:36:40.500 Anything else?

00:36:41.620 Um, I'm a very big quality time person.

00:36:44.660 Okay.

00:36:45.960 Yeah.

00:36:46.740 Okay.

00:36:47.780 Anything, anything that comes to mind?

00:36:51.180 Um, can you give me an example?

00:36:54.620 Cause I'm not really sure.

00:36:56.300 One utility.

00:36:58.960 Um, it's okay.

00:36:59.960 We'll move.

00:37:00.340 We'll continue on with the dating app review.

00:37:02.020 Go ahead.

00:37:03.220 Next one.

00:37:03.780 Okay.

00:37:05.840 All right.

00:37:06.140 This is Jenny's, Jenny's hinge.

00:37:09.240 You were, you were telling us the truth there.

00:37:10.660 Okay.

00:37:10.840 Together we could eat a lot of noodles.

00:37:12.580 Is it deal breaker for the guy that doesn't like noodles?

00:37:14.840 Is it a wrap?

00:37:16.340 As long as, I mean, if he can tolerate me eating noodles, like you can watch, I can eat.

00:37:21.480 Okay.

00:37:22.040 All right.

00:37:22.480 You can get something else.

00:37:24.160 I can eat the noodles.

00:37:25.280 Is there, are there people that would not tolerate someone?

00:37:29.140 Did you just like slurp or what?

00:37:30.960 What's up?

00:37:32.020 I don't know.

00:37:32.660 I feel like I've just been eating that as a kid and I've never gotten tired of it.

00:37:36.540 Oh, okay.

00:37:36.980 If I were to live on an island myself, I can survive with just noodles.

00:37:42.240 Next photo.

00:37:42.700 Uh, get myself out of a funk listening to music and having a dance party.

00:37:47.900 Okay.

00:37:48.340 We're talking, that's the crackhead energy you were talking about, I guess.

00:37:51.040 Next one.

00:37:53.700 Okay.

00:37:54.540 Barista.

00:37:55.380 All right.

00:37:56.100 Next one.

00:37:57.780 Uh, why do my best dad joke?

00:38:00.560 Why do cows have hooves and not feet? 0.97

00:38:03.320 Uh, what, what, what is it?

00:38:06.500 What's, I don't know.

00:38:08.060 Tell me.

00:38:08.840 Cause they like toast.

00:38:12.800 That makes me very angry.

00:38:17.900 Okay.

00:38:21.360 Uh, next one, Eric.

00:38:24.540 Oh, what?

00:38:25.480 Oh, this is the same one.

00:38:26.620 Okay.

00:38:26.900 Next one.

00:38:28.520 All right.

00:38:29.540 Whoa.

00:38:30.060 Okay.

00:38:30.620 All right.

00:38:31.220 That's a filter.

00:38:32.060 Okay.

00:38:33.500 Uh, next one.

00:38:34.940 Oh, I think that's the, that's the end.

00:38:36.600 Okay.

00:38:38.060 Left or right.

00:38:39.040 Yes or no.

00:38:40.460 Or wait, left is no.

00:38:42.460 Right is yes.

00:38:44.260 Yes or no.

00:38:45.620 On Ginny.

00:38:47.900 The crackhead energy noodle eater.

00:38:52.260 Okay.

00:38:54.860 Okay.

00:38:56.780 Femme fatale look.

00:38:59.580 Okay. 1.00

00:39:00.320 Uh, fucking chat. 1.00

00:39:02.240 All right. 1.00

00:39:02.560 Next one.

00:39:05.240 All right.

00:39:05.860 We have Paisley here.

00:39:08.440 All right.

00:39:09.320 Here's a photo of you.

00:39:11.120 Uh, I assume this is like your graduation look or what, what, what's it called?

00:39:14.800 Um, yeah.

00:39:16.360 The, the photos.

00:39:17.660 Yeah.

00:39:17.940 Yeah.

00:39:18.880 Um, let's chat about a controversial take.

00:39:21.480 You have most embarrassing song on your spot.

00:39:23.280 Next one, Eric.

00:39:24.960 Dating me is like putting your playlist on shuffle and not wanting to skip a single song.

00:39:32.120 Yes.

00:39:33.160 Oh, hmm.

00:39:35.320 Explain that one.

00:39:36.240 What, what does that mean?

00:39:37.100 I just have to sell myself in a good way.

00:39:40.000 Okay.

00:39:40.360 So I was like, what's a cute little blurb to put in there?

00:39:44.820 But so, um, here, let me pull it back up.

00:39:49.400 So, but, but what does it, what does that mean?

00:39:52.560 That means.

00:39:53.260 Let's don't shuffle. 0.94

00:39:54.340 You know, when you like.

00:39:55.160 So every moment is good.

00:39:56.660 Yeah.

00:39:57.000 With you.

00:39:57.580 No bad moments.

00:39:59.040 Exactly.

00:39:59.520 Okay.

00:40:00.040 All right.

00:40:01.240 There you have it.

00:40:02.460 Uh, okay.

00:40:03.140 She's looking for a long-term relationship. 0.97

00:40:05.260 Okay.

00:40:05.700 Sorry, Mike Davis.

00:40:06.880 Um, next one.

00:40:09.120 She's from Blaine, Washington.

00:40:11.120 Together we could pretend we understand what a Bitcoin is.

00:40:15.100 Okay.

00:40:15.900 I guess you've been running into a lot of crypto bros.

00:40:18.660 Um, next one.

00:40:22.140 My most irrational fear is Michael Jackson.

00:40:24.940 What's going on there?

00:40:25.980 Paisley.

00:40:26.820 Michael Jackson is my sleep paralysis demon.

00:40:30.040 So I'm really scared.

00:40:31.040 Oh, I'm really scared.

00:40:35.700 Ted's serious.

00:40:39.840 Wait, why are you, why are you laughing?

00:40:42.720 I don't know why that's so funny to me.

00:40:45.560 No, that one gets a lot of replies.

00:40:47.660 A lot of people are scared of him.

00:40:50.340 Like a lot of them.

00:40:51.160 I mean, when you look at him, he's had so much plastic surgery.

00:40:54.000 It's like uncanny valley.

00:40:55.040 He's a jump scare.

00:40:56.020 It's really scary.

00:40:57.280 It's kind of.

00:40:59.020 I met, did I tell you I met Michael Jackson once?

00:41:02.040 No way.

00:41:03.040 Yeah.

00:41:03.300 We're at Neverland Ranch.

00:41:06.180 I swear.

00:41:06.800 Does it ring a bell?

00:41:07.720 You've never heard of Neverland Ranch?

00:41:09.040 You've never heard of that?

00:41:10.160 Are you serious?

00:41:11.620 It's, uh.

00:41:12.940 Oh, she's.

00:41:14.460 Should we tell her?

00:41:15.760 What is that?

00:41:16.340 I think you should tell her.

00:41:17.600 Well, I mean, you know about the allegations, right?

00:41:20.940 Oh, yeah.

00:41:21.740 Yeah.

00:41:22.000 Okay.

00:41:22.480 Anyways, Eric, next, uh, next one.

00:41:25.860 Wait, actually, hold on.

00:41:28.060 Can you do a moonwalk for us right now?

00:41:30.200 Yes.

00:41:31.020 Do you know how to moonwalk?

00:41:31.740 No.

00:41:32.100 Oh, okay.

00:41:32.960 I did dance.

00:41:33.840 I don't know how to do that.

00:41:34.500 Oh, okay.

00:41:35.040 Unfortunate.

00:41:35.500 You can try.

00:41:36.100 Try.

00:41:37.260 Special talent.

00:41:39.060 Okay.

00:41:40.300 Undeveloped film cameras.

00:41:41.260 Next one.

00:41:41.760 Or that might be the end for Paisley.

00:41:44.940 Is there one more?

00:41:45.980 Eric, if you head on over.

00:41:49.080 Okay.

00:41:49.480 Here we go.

00:41:50.700 Here's your uniform.

00:41:52.740 Okay.

00:41:53.220 That's you.

00:41:53.820 Is that in Mexico?

00:41:55.020 Where is that?

00:41:55.720 It was in Hawaii.

00:41:56.680 Okay.

00:41:57.000 Yeah.

00:41:57.220 Yeah.

00:41:57.360 And my weekends look like, that looks like IV.

00:42:01.860 Next one, Eric.

00:42:04.340 And I think that's it.

00:42:05.480 Okay, guys.

00:42:08.020 Do you swipe yes or do you swipe no on Paisley?

00:42:11.700 It's the moment of truth.

00:42:15.560 Yes or no on Paisley?

00:42:17.140 Left or right?

00:42:18.960 Okay.

00:42:20.160 While those come in, Eric, if you want to pull up the next one.

00:42:25.480 The next one.

00:42:28.600 The Michael Scott.

00:42:29.700 All right.

00:42:30.100 We have Kiana.

00:42:31.840 There I am.

00:42:33.360 30.

00:42:33.980 She, her.

00:42:34.720 Next.

00:42:36.060 Where is that?

00:42:36.700 Is that New York?

00:42:37.640 That was in San Francisco just a couple weeks ago.

00:42:40.620 Okay.

00:42:41.020 Rock and roll.

00:42:41.620 Yeah.

00:42:42.680 Go ahead.

00:42:43.080 Next, Eric.

00:42:44.760 I honestly don't even want to be here.

00:42:46.880 I'm too pretty to be single.

00:42:48.380 Anyway.

00:42:49.680 I'm very.

00:42:50.400 Actually, let me have you read it.

00:42:51.780 Go ahead.

00:42:52.520 I honestly don't even want to be here.

00:42:54.640 I'm too pretty to be single.

00:42:56.540 Anyway, I'm a very busy lady, but I'm always willing to make time for the people I care about.

00:43:00.860 I love to travel and explore new places.

00:43:03.200 Let's grab a drink and see if we connect.

00:43:05.420 Follow my Instagram because I don't come on here.

00:43:08.700 Okay.

00:43:09.220 AKA, I need more followers.

00:43:10.520 Just kidding.

00:43:11.200 Don't.

00:43:12.920 Okay.

00:43:13.440 5-2.

00:43:14.900 Drinks socially.

00:43:15.920 Smokes weed socially.

00:43:17.020 Yeah.

00:43:17.160 You've omitted your smoking.

00:43:18.680 Do you also smoke cigarettes?

00:43:20.140 I don't.

00:43:20.580 No, I don't smoke cigarettes.

00:43:21.520 Okay.

00:43:22.040 You should say that you don't or show it at least.

00:43:25.720 Okay.

00:43:26.240 It says, yeah.

00:43:27.000 So, the beginning there, I honestly don't even want to be here.

00:43:29.980 I'm too pretty to be single.

00:43:32.240 Is that said, like, ironically?

00:43:34.440 Yeah.

00:43:34.720 Because it seems like a joke.

00:43:36.440 Well, yeah.

00:43:36.940 It is a joke because I'm not really trying to date.

00:43:40.060 I mean, so, actually, those are actually screenshots because I already had those screenshotted in

00:43:44.980 my thing before I got banned.

00:43:47.720 And I got banned from Bumble for following every guy holding a fish.

00:43:52.460 What?

00:43:52.860 And messaging them because the girls have to message first. 1.00

00:43:56.200 Yeah. 0.99

00:43:56.880 And telling them that I want to slap them with that fish. 0.99

00:44:01.080 And I did. 0.97

00:44:02.360 I sent, like, 10, 15 of those messages and then I got banned.

00:44:07.520 Wow.

00:44:08.420 Yeah.

00:44:08.860 Oh, my gosh.

00:44:09.460 That's so funny.

00:44:10.240 You're like all of our heroes.

00:44:12.320 Oh, thank you.

00:44:13.500 You know, I'm happy to help.

00:44:15.000 I hate the fish.

00:44:16.880 Why do you need to post a picture with fish, man?

00:44:19.560 Okay.

00:44:19.880 Just show of hands.

00:44:21.680 Who here has an issue with guys with fish photos?

00:44:26.500 It's just played out.

00:44:28.360 I don't really care, honestly.

00:44:29.780 I don't get it.

00:44:30.360 I don't care, really.

00:44:31.400 I just thought it would be funny.

00:44:33.120 But why do, like, those of you who have an issue with the fish photos, do you eat fish?

00:44:41.860 No.

00:44:42.540 No.

00:44:43.140 Yes, I do.

00:44:44.440 I'm just tired of looking at the fish.

00:44:45.320 Do you own Paisley, no fish?

00:44:46.200 Fish are friends, not food.

00:44:47.680 Are you?

00:44:49.920 Oh, I eat fish.

00:44:51.760 Are you vegan or vegetarian?

00:44:53.420 No, I'm vegetarian, but I don't eat fish either.

00:44:55.760 That's what I'm saying.

00:44:55.980 Okay.

00:44:56.440 All right.

00:44:57.100 All right.

00:44:57.580 Okay.

00:44:58.880 All right.

00:45:02.060 But, okay, can any of you articulate what precisely you find wrong with the fish pictures,

00:45:07.840 the guys holding up fish?

00:45:10.020 I think that it's just because everybody does it.

00:45:13.520 Like, it's just such a common photo.

00:45:16.960 You see it so often.

00:45:18.480 Yeah.

00:45:18.740 I feel like it's just, like, a real certain type of guy.

00:45:21.160 When you see, like, three guys back to back with a fish photo, it's kind of like, is this

00:45:25.500 the same dude?

00:45:26.200 Okay, here's the deal.

00:45:27.100 My ex of six years used to be a competitive sports fisherman, and I hate them because

00:45:33.340 he, that.

00:45:35.180 So you, you hate all sports fishermen. 0.97

00:45:40.340 I hate them.

00:45:40.540 You're a competitive sports fisherman because your ex was a competitive sports fisherman.

00:45:46.140 I mean, I don't really hate them.

00:45:47.500 Oh.

00:45:47.660 I mean, but whatever.

00:45:50.160 I don't, I don't get the, okay, but I guess that, so your main quarrel with your guys' main

00:45:54.880 quarrel with the fish pictures is too many dudes are posting fish pics.

00:46:00.400 Yeah.

00:46:01.800 Yeah.

00:46:02.020 Yes. 0.98

00:46:03.180 Fish pics are the new dick pics. 0.99

00:46:04.400 But okay, like. 0.99

00:46:05.460 Not enough dick pics. 0.98

00:46:06.800 Let me ask you guys a question, though. 0.98

00:46:08.200 Of those of you who have issues with the fish pics, are y'all pictures really that much more

00:46:14.200 original?

00:46:14.920 No.

00:46:15.440 No.

00:46:15.940 Absolutely not.

00:46:16.920 Let's, let's be honest here.

00:46:20.520 Okay.

00:46:21.080 Anyways, let's go back to her profile.

00:46:24.020 Next.

00:46:27.480 All right.

00:46:28.100 My favorite way to spend a summer afternoon is having some drinks on the nice patio somewhere.

00:46:31.500 People watching.

00:46:32.180 Okay.

00:46:33.080 I like to watch people.

00:46:34.240 People watching.

00:46:35.180 It's fun.

00:46:35.640 Next.

00:46:35.900 Next.

00:46:37.400 That's you at a castle and with your friends.

00:46:41.700 Okay.

00:46:41.880 Next.

00:46:43.780 I'm really good at hiding. 1.00

00:46:45.960 Damn. 0.99

00:46:46.380 I can fit in cabinets or small. 1.00

00:46:48.220 Because you're 5'2".

00:46:49.140 You know, suitcases.

00:46:49.580 Yeah.

00:46:50.200 Next.

00:46:52.120 I'm really good at, oh, this is you doing some stand-up?

00:46:54.480 Oh, that's just me doing a show at the Blue Owl last week.

00:46:57.080 Nice.

00:46:57.280 Nice.

00:46:57.680 Next.

00:46:59.140 Oh, oh, okay.

00:47:00.300 That's, that's it.

00:47:01.380 Chat.

00:47:02.840 Left or right?

00:47:03.700 Yes or no?

00:47:04.800 On Kiana. 0.69

00:47:06.780 I mean, I'm asking the girls only.

00:47:09.280 I don't care about the guys.

00:47:10.400 Okay.

00:47:10.560 Just, just the girls.

00:47:11.720 Just the girls. 0.83

00:47:12.300 Just, just the girls.

00:47:13.220 Just the girls. 0.83

00:47:14.120 While we do that, all suit chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:47:18.620 I will read answer suit chats $10 and up.

00:47:21.720 Giving Michael Trilstein here.

00:47:23.000 Thank you for the five gifted memberships before the show started.

00:47:25.840 Michael, I saw that.

00:47:26.660 Thank you, man.

00:47:27.000 Appreciate it.

00:47:28.540 Let's see.

00:47:29.300 We have Feisty here. 1.00

00:47:31.060 Hashtag all labia matter.

00:47:32.280 Thank you, man.

00:47:32.720 We have Davon Jackson with the, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

00:47:37.100 Appreciate you, man.

00:47:38.180 Any guy that's ever laughed at anything you said was just trying to smash.

00:47:43.800 You're wrong.

00:47:44.300 Is he wrong?

00:47:44.780 It's not sure.

00:47:45.180 Eric, are you looking for a super chat or?

00:47:50.460 Okay.

00:47:51.860 Let's see.

00:47:52.520 We have Red Misfit here with the $10 soup chat. 1.00

00:47:55.340 Can you go around and ask if any of the ladies are bi-curious? 1.00

00:47:58.020 Yeah, we can do that.

00:47:59.220 Kiana.

00:47:59.620 Actually, let's start with Paisley.

00:48:00.800 Go ahead.

00:48:01.460 I'm not.

00:48:03.080 Okay.

00:48:04.900 I'm also not.

00:48:07.180 Yes.

00:48:07.580 I think girls are more pleasing to look at, but I'm not. 0.99

00:48:16.220 Okay.

00:48:16.920 Chyna? 0.78

00:48:17.700 No.

00:48:19.000 Wait, hold on.

00:48:19.640 Kiki? 0.83

00:48:20.540 It will.

00:48:21.800 Okay.

00:48:22.600 Go ahead.

00:48:23.400 No.

00:48:24.360 I'm not curious about it.

00:48:26.800 Definitely bi.

00:48:27.820 I'll take it.

00:48:28.480 Okay.

00:48:28.840 Yeah.

00:48:29.220 Okay.

00:48:29.820 I'm not curious either.

00:48:30.980 I'm bisexual.

00:48:32.320 Okay.

00:48:32.720 Rock and roll.

00:48:34.240 Were you able to find it, Eric?

00:48:35.640 Is it this one?

00:48:36.200 It's looking at it's showing up as two on this.

00:48:39.880 It's actually only one.

00:48:40.720 Oh, that's weird.

00:48:41.400 Okay.

00:48:42.000 My gangsterism with the $10 super chat.

00:48:45.820 Thank you, man.

00:48:46.280 Appreciate it.

00:48:46.740 Just because men think you're a joke doesn't make you a comedian.

00:48:51.480 Okay.

00:48:52.140 Okay.

00:48:52.580 Shots fired. 0.98

00:48:53.060 Do you want to shoot shots back at my gangsterism? 0.70

00:48:56.660 I mean, I'm sure you're not a gangster. 1.00

00:48:59.520 You'd probably run away like a little bitch if I walked up to you, honestly. 1.00

00:49:03.020 The fucking smoke. 1.00

00:49:04.400 I think you can make him laugh. 1.00

00:49:07.200 In person, probably.

00:49:09.640 Okay.

00:49:10.280 And then we also have a question here from Stifler.

00:49:13.260 Ask the ladies to rate themselves on the scale of a one to ten. 0.98

00:49:17.860 Kiana, why don't we start with you?

00:49:20.080 On a one to ten?

00:49:21.800 Looks.

00:49:22.600 Looks wise?

00:49:23.380 Yeah, looks.

00:49:23.940 I feel like I'm a ten.

00:49:30.800 Okay.

00:49:32.120 What about you?

00:49:33.340 Same.

00:49:34.700 I mean, on a good day, all the time.

00:49:37.240 Okay.

00:49:39.040 Ginny?

00:49:39.460 I think I'm a six, but working on my way up.

00:49:42.780 Okay.

00:49:44.140 Ten.

00:49:44.900 Ten?

00:49:45.420 Ten easy.

00:49:46.100 Okay.

00:49:46.960 Ten.

00:49:47.380 You've got to say ten.

00:49:50.600 I will say eight, but some days I will say solid ten.

00:49:56.240 Yeah.

00:49:56.800 Some days.

00:49:57.580 Hell yeah.

00:49:57.800 Okay.

00:49:58.360 Yeah.

00:49:59.140 I'm going to say most of the time I feel that I am a ten, but I have my bad days too, and

00:50:04.540 now I feel like a two.

00:50:06.140 Okay.

00:50:06.960 I'm not going to lie.

00:50:08.000 Okay.

00:50:08.840 Paisley?

00:50:09.520 Eight.

00:50:10.980 Eight.

00:50:11.600 Okay.

00:50:11.960 So ten, ten, right?

00:50:16.220 Ten, ten, six, ten, ten?

00:50:19.740 A room full of dimes.

00:50:28.100 All right.

00:50:28.720 Let's talk about it.

00:50:29.660 Okay.

00:50:29.920 So all of you are tens.

00:50:33.960 Well, no.

00:50:34.400 Okay.

00:50:34.560 You said six, right, Paisley?

00:50:37.240 I said six, and I'm working my way up.

00:50:38.880 Working your way up.

00:50:39.920 Paisley, you said eight.

00:50:41.460 Okay.

00:50:41.880 So the rest of your tens, is that your own self-assessment?

00:50:50.880 Everyone has a type.

00:50:52.520 I think everyone has a type, but we're all tens to someone.

00:50:56.400 Oh, true.

00:50:57.020 And then you honestly said looks.

00:50:59.480 You didn't specify.

00:51:00.800 You didn't specify what?

00:51:01.920 You did say looks.

00:51:02.320 Like there's a whole range.

00:51:03.760 You could go based off personality or like self-conscious.

00:51:07.460 Like there's just different things.

00:51:08.220 Well, I'm not convinced if I included personality or any of that other stuff that you guys would

00:51:13.820 have changed or rated.

00:51:14.640 I might go to a nine.

00:51:15.700 I mean, Jenny, what would you, if we factored in your personality, what would you rate yourself?

00:51:19.760 Probably like a seven or eight.

00:51:22.000 Paisley?

00:51:22.860 I'm going to stick with an eight.

00:51:24.360 Okay.

00:51:24.940 All right.

00:51:26.340 Okay.

00:51:26.880 So.

00:51:28.060 We got some uggles in the chat.

00:51:30.440 Don't.

00:51:31.120 Yeah.

00:51:31.520 Don't read the chat, guys, because they're probably going to miss you.

00:51:33.500 I don't care.

00:51:33.520 I'm used to it.

00:51:34.280 So those of you who rated yourself a 10, don't you think that's a bit of hubris to rate yourself

00:51:41.280 a 10?

00:51:42.940 No.

00:51:44.180 Excessive pride.

00:51:45.080 I feel like that's really good for yourself.

00:51:46.920 No.

00:51:47.580 I feel like you have to tell yourself you're a 10. 0.99

00:51:49.480 Because if you tell yourself you're ugly all the time, you're going to feel ugly. 0.99

00:51:52.420 You're going to come off ugly. 0.97

00:51:53.740 No one's going to like that.

00:51:54.640 So if you think you're a 10 and you act like a 10 and you look like a 10, then I mean.

00:52:00.880 But okay.

00:52:01.540 For example, like, so let's say you rated yourself a seven.

00:52:04.860 That's above average.

00:52:06.860 And you can still be attractive at seven, but you can also acknowledge like, hey, I'm not.

00:52:13.460 I didn't say I was the prettiest girl in the world, but I'm definitely a 10.

00:52:16.920 But by putting yourself at a 10, that kind of does say that you might not be the prettiest,

00:52:25.420 but like maybe there's another 10 that edges you out a little bit.

00:52:29.100 But like.

00:52:29.400 Why we got to edge each other out?

00:52:30.600 We can't stand on the same line.

00:52:32.580 But okay.

00:52:33.000 We can all agree that there are differences in terms of physical attractiveness.

00:52:38.500 For example, can you look at one man versus another man and say that man is exceptionally

00:52:45.920 physically attractive and that other man over there is, say, average, for example.

00:52:51.520 Can we say that?

00:52:53.000 Are they both 10s?

00:52:54.280 No.

00:52:54.980 Maybe they're thinking.

00:52:55.600 To us?

00:52:56.280 Maybe not.

00:52:56.760 Is he funny?

00:52:57.600 No.

00:52:58.720 Just looks.

00:52:59.780 Just looks.

00:53:00.780 But I guess the question is, so if you're a 10, then that would suggest to me that there

00:53:04.880 are no women who are more attractive than you.

00:53:08.560 There might be women who are as attractive as you, who are also 10s, but none are more attractive

00:53:15.200 than you.

00:53:15.920 But I am my own person.

00:53:18.040 There's not going to be somebody else like me, though.

00:53:19.900 So why can't I be comfortable in my 10?

00:53:22.280 I guess I could ask the question like, what do you think other people would rate you as?

00:53:28.020 Should I care?

00:53:28.660 Does your answer?

00:53:29.500 Perhaps.

00:53:30.300 Should I care?

00:53:30.780 But does your answer, do you think your answer would change if I asked you, what do you think

00:53:34.900 if you got 100 men and 100 women who were brutally honest, who had no incentive or any reason

00:53:43.240 to elevate or lower you, do you think it would be consistent with your self-evaluation of

00:53:48.980 being a 10?

00:53:49.820 I thought I got to go.

00:53:50.720 Oh.

00:53:52.760 Actually, start here.

00:53:53.940 Go ahead.

00:53:54.580 I feel like it's a good 50-50 chance.

00:53:56.740 50-50 chance.

00:53:57.460 Like, what?

00:53:58.500 Okay.

00:53:59.160 Yeah.

00:54:00.420 What about you guys?

00:54:01.820 You two over here?

00:54:03.140 What?

00:54:03.460 Would it change?

00:54:04.100 I don't even know what your question was.

00:54:05.440 So, if you had, well, I don't really have to ask it, but I'm just trying to, I'm trying

00:54:11.460 to get to the crux of the conversation here.

00:54:15.200 So, you said if 100 people rated you, would you still be your same number, right?

00:54:23.680 Yeah, because that's my own opinion of myself.

00:54:26.060 Would they rate you the same number?

00:54:27.820 Oh, probably not.

00:54:28.960 They probably didn't have a two.

00:54:30.020 Everybody's different.

00:54:31.020 That's okay with me.

00:54:32.620 In the chat, as we can tell.

00:54:34.380 Some people are like, oops.

00:54:35.820 Oh, my God, yeah.

00:54:37.920 You asked us to rate ourselves, so.

00:54:40.520 Based on looks, yeah.

00:54:41.560 Yeah, you'd say we're rate ourselves.

00:54:43.020 Let me ask somebody else.

00:54:44.460 Am I rating them from a hater's perspective or like a regular person?

00:54:48.360 But, okay, so, but if you think that you're a 10, for example, a 10 in looks, then it's

00:54:55.980 possible that you might, perhaps, perhaps you might be right, perhaps, and I'm not pointing

00:55:01.420 this statement at any specific one of you, perhaps you might be right, but perhaps you

00:55:06.100 might be wrong.

00:55:07.520 You might have an unreasonable self-assessment of where you stand on the dating marketplace

00:55:13.560 and the sexual marketplace and the relationship marketplace.

00:55:16.000 So, if you think you're a 10, then do you think, then, that your standards for what you want

00:55:23.460 or expect in a partner in terms of their physical attractiveness or other characteristics is

00:55:30.560 unreasonable?

00:55:32.080 For example, I don't consider myself a 10.

00:55:34.440 I'd say I'm a 6 or a 6.9.

00:55:36.060 I'm not going to land any supermodels anytime soon. 0.54

00:55:42.140 How do you know?

00:55:43.900 Who knows?

00:55:44.960 But it's not like I'm, it's not an insecurity.

00:55:47.400 It's just like I have a reasonable self-assessment of where I think I stand and I'm not dating.

00:55:55.060 How bad do you want people who are out of your league?

00:55:56.820 Is that what you're talking about?

00:55:57.940 When people are out of your league?

00:55:59.500 I mean, you could frame it as out of your league, sure.

00:56:02.420 Okay, but if somebody is out of your league, there are other ways to get them.

00:56:07.440 Sure.

00:56:07.940 Money is everything. 0.99

00:56:09.920 So, the most ugliest person. 0.97

00:56:11.380 10K. 0.99

00:56:12.560 You're saying the most ugliest person can get the most attractive woman. 1.00

00:56:16.040 And we've all seen that. 0.97

00:56:18.320 Yes.

00:56:18.960 So, okay.

00:56:19.440 So, for men, there are definitely ways in which we can overcome, let's say, perhaps our deficiencies

00:56:27.120 in our physical appearance, our physical attractiveness.

00:56:29.340 Money, status, personality, charisma.

00:56:33.080 We can bring other things to the table.

00:56:35.560 But, looks is a pretty big, at least the initial component, especially since most people are

00:56:42.200 meeting online, looks is a pretty primary component.

00:56:45.580 Especially for, I would say for, maybe as you start, for both men and women, as you start

00:56:50.120 getting a bit older, you start, looks is still important, I would say.

00:56:53.880 But, you do start prioritizing some other things.

00:56:57.140 But, like, you know, I think we have some 21-year-olds, whatever, 22-year-olds.

00:57:02.540 I would probably say looks is number one for younger people.

00:57:07.160 I've dated some pretty odd-looking people.

00:57:12.140 Okay.

00:57:13.020 I don't know, and I enjoyed the time that I spent.

00:57:15.240 I mean, go off, y'all.

00:57:17.620 Maybe that makes me a less number. 0.97

00:57:20.320 That sounds silly.

00:57:21.480 No, it doesn't.

00:57:22.360 I just, I don't understand.

00:57:23.380 You can pull anybody you want.

00:57:25.100 Really make your life how you want it to be.

00:57:27.500 I don't know why everybody has to build all these walls and make everything so difficult.

00:57:30.620 I want that one.

00:57:32.160 Okay.

00:57:33.160 Go get it.

00:57:34.700 Okay, so, I don't know where I was going with that.

00:57:37.580 So, you said that guys can make up for it in other ways, right?

00:57:42.140 Yeah.

00:57:42.280 But what if, what if he doesn't?

00:57:46.380 That's when, that's when that guy is in trouble.

00:57:51.560 No.

00:57:52.800 Everybody has one special quality.

00:57:55.240 Around this room, like she said, she's a comedian. 0.77

00:57:57.580 She's into beauty. 1.00

00:57:58.580 Like, everybody has that one particular, like, specialty or quality that they can, like, shine and just blow the room out of somebody.

00:58:06.120 Like, that, that is normal.

00:58:08.000 Jenny, what's yours?

00:58:20.120 Okay.

00:58:25.080 Moving on.

00:58:26.580 You put her on the spot.

00:58:27.840 But, yeah.

00:58:28.940 Well, I was coming back to our previous conversation about what you bring to, what you bring to the table.

00:58:34.280 Okay, so, but.

00:58:38.340 Okay.

00:58:39.020 Just say it.

00:58:43.160 So, everyone's a 10.

00:58:44.360 Did you say that?

00:58:45.040 Everyone should be their own 10?

00:58:46.580 Yes, definitely.

00:58:47.980 But, like, okay, if we take that to its logical conclusion, then how do you discern?

00:58:53.300 Like, we can't discern anything, right?

00:58:55.620 Can we all agree that some people are more attractive than other people?

00:58:58.700 Yes.

00:58:59.660 Like, Timothy Chalamet is more attractive than Danny DeVito.

00:59:07.240 Maybe not.

00:59:07.900 Well, that's what I'm saying.

00:59:09.340 Maybe not.

00:59:11.020 Physically.

00:59:11.640 He's more physically attractive.

00:59:12.760 Why does the scale stop at 10?

00:59:14.900 Right.

00:59:16.180 Like, if you asked us to rate ourselves 1 to 15, I would have said 15.

00:59:19.780 I'm pretty sure numbers go up for infinity.

00:59:21.880 What would you have rated yourself if it was out of 69?

00:59:28.680 A 70.

00:59:29.800 No, I'm just kidding.

00:59:31.720 She's going off the charts. 0.99

00:59:33.600 Okay, I have a further question.

00:59:39.480 Does anyone want to – we've got makeup remover here.

00:59:43.340 Does anyone's answer change if we use makeup remover?

00:59:47.760 No.

00:59:49.280 It's Neutrogena, by the way. 0.98

00:59:50.640 Maybe if my hair is fucked up, but my face – 0.99

00:59:54.460 I already told you I'm either a 10 or a 2. 0.99

00:59:59.460 I'm kidding.

01:00:00.300 Nuddy brought out the makeup wipes.

01:00:02.320 Yeah, the makeup wipes.

01:00:03.600 I have to take it off anyway when I get home, so –

01:00:09.240 I'll use one, thank you.

01:00:10.820 Right now.

01:00:12.080 But –

01:00:12.520 Okay, so of those of you who said you're a 10, that means you ought to be able to get with a guy who's a 10, correct?

01:00:18.940 Uh-huh.

01:00:19.680 I hope so.

01:00:20.760 I don't want a 10.

01:00:22.080 You don't want a 10?

01:00:23.000 No, I don't want a 10.

01:00:23.820 I don't want one.

01:00:24.200 What do you want, a 7?

01:00:25.080 I want somebody that's just a little less than me.

01:00:28.040 Yeah, don't overshy me.

01:00:29.900 Yeah.

01:00:30.340 Okay.

01:00:31.360 You want –

01:00:31.700 I don't want a pretty man. 0.98

01:00:32.880 If it's a woman, go off. 1.00

01:00:35.860 I don't care. 1.00

01:00:37.500 Okay, you're the baddest. 0.97

01:00:38.460 So you guys want men, or I suppose women – well, I guess it's different for women, but you want men who are less attractive than you?

01:00:50.200 You don't want a guy who's more attractive than you? 1.00

01:00:52.120 Yeah, you go to sleep.

01:00:53.000 I don't care about looks.

01:00:54.220 I don't care.

01:00:55.420 I don't care.

01:00:55.780 I don't care about looks.

01:00:58.660 Are you sure?

01:00:59.540 I don't.

01:01:00.380 My – like, I've had – you should see all of my exes.

01:01:03.500 My most recent is a doll face, though.

01:01:05.640 And I would – he's a 10, honestly.

01:01:07.580 I'd call him a 10, and he thinks he's not – he thinks he's like a 1, and I think he's amazing.

01:01:12.420 Yeah, if you like them, you're going to think they're a 10.

01:01:14.740 I'm in love with the guy.

01:01:16.140 I adore him, so I don't really care.

01:01:18.860 Okay, I'm going to come back to the 10 thing.

01:01:20.700 Let me – let me get these super chats.

01:01:25.020 Eric, did we get another super chat from Davon Jackson, or did I – I don't think so.

01:01:30.180 Okay, we got Crispy Kim.

01:01:31.220 What's up, Jason?

01:01:31.840 Good to see you, man.

01:01:33.480 Don't listen to the chat or Brian, ladies. 0.99

01:01:35.300 Your beauty is based on your confidence and inner belief.

01:01:37.840 If you think you're a 10 and act like a 10, then you're a 10 on a scale of 1 to 30. 1.00

01:01:43.260 Fuck it, I guess. 1.00

01:01:45.680 I'm not – 1.00

01:01:47.020 Crispy Kim with the roast there.

01:01:51.340 Thank you, Jason.

01:01:51.960 Appreciate the super chat.

01:01:52.740 Okay, so my question sort of related to the rating yourself thing is what percentage of men would you say you find physically attractive?

01:02:04.560 Now, I want you to give me two answers.

01:02:07.900 What percent of men, like say on a day-to-day basis that you would see in person that you would say, I find him?

01:02:12.800 He doesn't have to be a stunner, but just like if you think binary, yes, he's attractive.

01:02:17.400 No, he's not attractive.

01:02:18.340 And then also for dating apps, either currently or when you had it in the past, what percentage of men would you swipe yes on?

01:02:26.280 Oh, I don't – I don't swipe right on men. 0.98

01:02:33.080 Oh, just women. 1.00

01:02:34.360 I just go on for women. 1.00

01:02:36.560 I don't – I'm not dating men.

01:02:39.160 Okay.

01:02:39.480 What percentage of men would you say you find attractive?

01:02:45.760 Not a lot.

01:02:47.940 Most – like, yeah, most of the time I don't find a lot of men a lot of attractive.

01:02:50.840 If you had to do a percentage, 5%, 10%?

01:02:52.700 I'd say maybe 10%.

01:02:54.300 25%, 30%.

01:02:57.480 And dating apps?

01:03:00.860 5%.

01:03:01.300 I agree with the dating apps.

01:03:05.160 In person, maybe like 15%.

01:03:09.040 15%.

01:03:10.040 In person, about 10%.

01:03:13.640 Dating apps, 5%.

01:03:15.120 What is that about?

01:03:16.660 Is that 100%?

01:03:17.220 None.

01:03:17.980 I don't find anyone attractive, but that's because I – that goes with the demisexuality where I don't think that you're attractive until I know more about you. 1.00

01:03:27.320 I'm not just looking at you and thinking that or not.

01:03:30.880 Okay.

01:03:32.300 That's a good answer.

01:03:34.160 But in person, I would say 10%.

01:03:36.240 And then on dating apps, I would say like a 2%.

01:03:39.960 Now, are we saying in person like physically attractive?

01:03:44.660 Yeah.

01:03:45.020 Okay.

01:03:45.780 Then I'd say maybe like 10%, 15%.

01:03:49.260 And on the dating apps, probably like 2% to 5%.

01:03:52.560 Wow.

01:03:53.900 Okay.

01:03:54.500 Paisley?

01:03:55.080 I would say in person, probably like 15%.

01:03:58.940 But then on apps, probably like 20%.

01:04:01.460 I feel like it goes up.

01:04:02.700 Okay.

01:04:04.000 But still, for most of you, a fairly small percentage of men that you find attractive both –

01:04:09.620 I was out of 100.

01:04:10.700 I'm just making sure.

01:04:11.680 I'm really confused.

01:04:13.200 I was the highest.

01:04:14.140 I don't even be looking at these dudes.

01:04:19.340 So –

01:04:20.820 If it's not in like first seconds, yeah.

01:04:23.620 Don't do that.

01:04:24.360 I've got a question.

01:04:25.280 Do any of you find that a lot of men are not willing to commit to you?

01:04:31.280 No.

01:04:34.600 You've not had that issue?

01:04:36.860 No.

01:04:38.180 What about you?

01:04:39.080 I just got asked to be somebody's girlfriend.

01:04:42.240 Okay.

01:04:42.640 And I just got broken up with a week ago.

01:04:46.380 But you guys have never had experiences where guys want – you know how women will put guys in the friend zone? 0.99

01:04:54.840 There are guys who put women in the fuck zone. 1.00

01:04:59.400 In other words, they'll keep sleeping with you, but they'll never commit. 1.00

01:05:03.640 They'll never take you seriously, never be in a relationship.

01:05:07.340 Do you guys encounter that issue?

01:05:10.620 Yes. 1.00

01:05:12.140 For men, no, they're all easy little sluts. 1.00

01:05:15.160 But for women, oh my God, my heart is broken. 0.99

01:05:18.820 Why is it so hard for you to like me?

01:05:21.600 So it's harder for you to date women.

01:05:25.540 Yeah, I guess.

01:05:26.520 Or women. 0.79

01:05:27.220 Oh, really?

01:05:27.640 Okay.

01:05:28.700 A-women in particular. 0.98

01:05:29.960 Next question.

01:05:30.780 Okay.

01:05:31.720 No, let's actually go into that.

01:05:33.440 No, let's not.

01:05:35.720 You're currently –

01:05:36.940 Just vibing.

01:05:37.900 Gosh.

01:05:39.540 What's going on?

01:05:40.360 Is she curving you?

01:05:41.760 No.

01:05:42.540 I wouldn't say curving.

01:05:43.660 I'd be there every day.

01:05:45.840 But –

01:05:46.480 What's up?

01:05:47.500 I don't want a title.

01:05:49.500 I'm young and she has lots of stuff going for herself.

01:05:54.160 She wants a title. 1.00

01:05:55.140 She doesn't want a title. 1.00

01:05:57.320 I wouldn't mind if there was one.

01:06:01.440 I mean, I'm a vibe.

01:06:04.360 Too many questions.

01:06:06.220 What about you, Jenny?

01:06:10.740 What was the question again?

01:06:12.040 Yeah, so are you finding it difficult to find men who are willing to commit to you?

01:06:20.040 I feel like I'm not really looking for people to commit to me right now.

01:06:23.320 Okay.

01:06:24.260 China? 0.73

01:06:24.880 No.

01:06:26.820 Mm-mm.

01:06:27.740 Over here?

01:06:28.980 No.

01:06:30.160 I'd say yes and no because it's like the ones you don't want.

01:06:34.640 I want to commit to you.

01:06:36.660 And then the guys that you're, like, into that you're vibing with are, like, absolutely not.

01:06:43.100 Can you repeat that?

01:06:44.640 Perfect answer.

01:06:45.820 It's the guys that you're into that don't want to commit to you.

01:06:51.200 And it's the –

01:06:52.140 And it's, you know, the guys you don't want that want to commit real bad.

01:06:57.020 Okay.

01:06:57.380 So that kind of gets me to my point that I'm trying to arrive at.

01:07:00.280 But, Paisley?

01:07:01.040 No, yeah.

01:07:01.560 I was going to say the same.

01:07:03.060 That's so common, that pattern.

01:07:06.040 So what is the issue that you're encountering?

01:07:08.600 I mean, I was, like, in college.

01:07:10.840 Like, I'm freshly out.

01:07:11.980 So that might have been –

01:07:12.700 Into the mic.

01:07:13.080 That might have been why.

01:07:14.440 But, like, I've noticed that pattern, too.

01:07:16.800 Mm-hmm.

01:07:18.880 Okay.

01:07:19.740 And what is the pattern?

01:07:21.100 If you can just –

01:07:22.100 I know I'm kind of asking you to re-articulate what she already said.

01:07:26.080 But what is it?

01:07:27.960 Like, the ones that you want don't really commit to you.

01:07:31.880 But then it's, like, some random, like –

01:07:34.420 Not to say they're, like, unattractive or anything.

01:07:37.120 It's just, like, you're not interested.

01:07:39.140 And they are the ones that are, like, die hard for you.

01:07:42.040 So it's confusing.

01:07:43.300 Good.

01:07:44.520 Okay.

01:07:44.960 So that kind of gets me to my point is when it comes to the rating thing, if you rate yourself a 10, then you're going to be potentially chasing after a top-tier guy, top 10, top 20% of men.

01:08:04.860 And kind of based on your guys' answers, you said of the guys you see on dating apps, you only – 5% of them, 10% of them that you find attractive.

01:08:12.780 So if you're all chasing, and it's not just you that feels this way about these men, of the 5% or 10% of men you find attractive, almost all the other women also find those men attractive.

01:08:26.820 So what's going to end up happening is they're going to have a huge amount of options.

01:08:32.200 So then for them, because men and women have different sexual strategies, they're not going to want to commit to you because they can just – they don't need to commit to you to get what they want.

01:08:44.080 And they have options.

01:08:45.680 Men are only as faithful as their options – well, sorry, I shouldn't say all men, not all men, but men are only as – some men are only as faithful as their options.

01:08:55.040 And very attractive men, they have no – there's no incentive to commit.

01:09:02.560 So that's where I think we see women getting into – not all women, some of you have said you don't have any issues with this, but you're going to encounter men.

01:09:12.260 The men that you do want won't commit to you. 0.95

01:09:14.940 The men that want you, you don't want to commit to them.

01:09:18.080 So that's kind of where I'm getting at with the whole – if you don't have a reasonable self-assessment of where you stand in terms of your physical appearance, you are –

01:09:28.740 because here's the thing, and men, we will sleep with women that we would never have a relationship with. 0.99

01:09:36.140 But most women, in order for you to sleep with a guy, typically you have to – like, he's at least, like, dateable. 1.00

01:09:46.400 He's got to be attractive enough for you to be willing to date or – to date him or to be in a relationship with him in order for you to sleep with him.

01:09:55.200 Other characteristics might not be there.

01:09:58.440 But men, we will sleep with women that we would not be in a relationship with. 1.00

01:10:03.220 But you don't think that applies to women too?

01:10:04.720 Women don't – that's what I was about to say. 1.00

01:10:07.800 Women don't date down, really. 1.00

01:10:10.360 But, again, it doesn't apply to women. 1.00

01:10:12.120 So women can't do what you just said a man can do. 1.00

01:10:14.560 What do you mean?

01:10:15.680 Because you pretty much said that a man can have sex with almost anybody and not date them.

01:10:21.120 We can do that too.

01:10:23.400 No, what I'm saying is is that a man can sleep with a woman, but he has no intention of having a relationship with her. 0.80

01:10:33.120 Women can do it too. 1.00

01:10:33.900 Women can do that too. 1.00

01:10:35.360 But is that what you want?

01:10:37.100 But if that's what we're looking for.

01:10:38.960 If we're looking for all the time, then we're fine with it.

01:10:41.220 Is that what women are broadly looking for, though, is to just – 0.98

01:10:44.020 Look at the time period.

01:10:45.120 It has changed.

01:10:46.060 It has changed.

01:10:46.420 Look at how all the music sounds.

01:10:48.500 Look at how everybody act.

01:10:50.300 Like, really think about it.

01:10:51.380 We can go around the table.

01:10:53.000 Like, are you happy just going from guy to guy?

01:10:58.400 I hate having a rotation.

01:11:01.680 But, no, but does – are you – I mean, a lot of you here have said you've had long-term relationships.

01:11:06.660 You've also had periods where you're single.

01:11:10.960 Are you more happy being single and getting passed around by a bunch of guys?

01:11:15.280 Oh, okay.

01:11:16.040 Or are you happier in a relationship with someone that cares and loves you, cares about you and loves you?

01:11:26.220 I want love.

01:11:27.380 Okay.

01:11:27.640 I think it now depends on your age because I think that when I was younger, I was like, I don't care.

01:11:32.100 I'm going to date whoever and do whatever.

01:11:34.760 And now, like, I'm 28. 0.98

01:11:36.180 I'm like, okay, it's time for me to figure my shit out, you know? 0.97

01:11:38.680 Yeah. 0.99

01:11:39.540 My eggs are getting old.

01:11:41.000 Wait, hold on.

01:11:41.980 Hold on.

01:11:42.580 You're dropping some bombs here.

01:11:45.380 Some pure gold men is for your daily highlights.

01:11:47.980 Can you repeat what you just said?

01:11:51.600 What part?

01:11:52.800 About when you were younger versus compared to now at 28.

01:11:56.080 Yeah, when I was younger, I guess I'd go and date and wouldn't really care and just, it was whatever.

01:12:03.780 Dating was dating.

01:12:04.980 And now as I'm getting older, I'm kind of, like, more serious about it.

01:12:08.420 And I'm, like, looking for more than just hookups and things like that.

01:12:11.900 I agree.

01:12:15.840 Okay.

01:12:17.900 That's interesting.

01:12:19.120 That's interesting.

01:12:20.980 So, anyway, do you want to answer the original question that I asked, though?

01:12:26.480 I'm sorry, what was the original question?

01:12:27.760 Yeah, so, you said that, well, women can do that, too. 1.00

01:12:33.640 Women, we can lower ourselves to the dogness of men just running through chicks. 1.00

01:12:40.100 We can do that shit, too. 1.00

01:12:42.220 But do you want to is the question. 1.00

01:12:44.400 You can do it, but does it make you happy?

01:12:47.240 Personally, not me.

01:12:48.680 Okay.

01:12:49.320 Not me.

01:12:50.060 I've done that, like she said, when you were young.

01:12:52.080 I've done that.

01:12:53.040 And then they want more.

01:12:54.260 And then I'm like, nope, I put you in a friend zone.

01:12:56.280 That's where you're saying you're not crossing that line.

01:12:58.120 I'm looking for somebody else to be more than just a friend.

01:13:01.280 Wait, you put them in the friend zone?

01:13:02.660 Hell, yeah.

01:13:04.360 But I'm talking about, like, hooking up. 1.00

01:13:05.740 Yeah, the fuck zone. 1.00

01:13:06.420 Oh, the fuck zone. 1.00

01:13:07.280 The fuck zone. 1.00

01:13:07.440 Okay, yeah, yeah. 1.00

01:13:08.120 The friend zone.

01:13:08.700 Okay. 1.00

01:13:09.040 If I'm just, if you're my fuck buddy, you're going to stay the fuck buddy. 1.00

01:13:11.380 You're not going to be my man. 1.00

01:13:12.280 I'm like, no, you're a fuck buddy. 1.00

01:13:14.080 That's it. 1.00

01:13:15.960 Okay.

01:13:16.940 Jenny, what about you?

01:13:20.840 Say it again.

01:13:21.600 I'm sorry.

01:13:22.740 I'm paying attention, but I just process.

01:13:24.720 Would you rather be?

01:13:27.420 Was it ran through?

01:13:28.520 Or with somebody who you love?

01:13:33.120 Well, I feel like that goes into me in my healing stage.

01:13:36.200 I feel like I'm not really looking for anybody right now.

01:13:39.640 I would love to have someone who I can love and, like, you know, but if I don't care.

01:13:45.700 She goes to the streets.

01:13:49.120 But if I don't care, I don't care.

01:13:51.160 Like, you know?

01:13:52.860 Okay.

01:13:53.300 I don't care about you.

01:13:54.160 What about you?

01:13:56.340 I feel like it sounds so good to be all in love.

01:14:01.360 And, oh, yes, definitely want to be with that one person.

01:14:03.820 But once you pour all your love into that cup and say you don't get it back, 0.98

01:14:07.700 you're going to be just as mad as you were when you was fucking on this person and this person. 0.97

01:14:12.220 Like, I don't know. 0.99

01:14:14.160 It's a lose-lose situation.

01:14:15.360 No, I'm just kidding.

01:14:15.860 I guess somebody that you love.

01:14:19.140 I don't know.

01:14:19.640 Because I don't know.

01:14:20.120 It just ends up getting your feelings hurt at the end.

01:14:22.420 I guess it doesn't always have to end up that way.

01:14:26.060 Next question.

01:14:26.720 It can hurt their feelings.

01:14:30.240 Yeah.

01:14:31.160 Yeah. 1.00

01:14:32.420 Fuck it. 1.00

01:14:32.920 Okay. 1.00

01:14:34.900 Anybody else on this side?

01:14:37.900 Anybody?

01:14:38.220 I definitely prefer a stable, healthy relationship.

01:14:41.000 Yeah.

01:14:41.420 Word.

01:14:41.840 Okay.

01:14:42.720 Right.

01:14:43.600 All right.

01:14:43.820 Let me get these super chats here.

01:14:45.000 We got Crispy Kim.

01:14:46.260 Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.

01:14:47.620 Appreciate it.

01:14:48.520 Men that ask you to be their girlfriend first are typically men that have a scarcity mindset

01:14:51.960 when it comes to their dating strategy.

01:14:53.940 A man with an abundance of women will be in no rush for commitment. 0.99

01:14:57.260 Good point.

01:14:58.300 Crispy Kim.

01:14:58.940 And then we have Red Misfit with the $10 soup chat.

01:15:02.740 I got to be honest.

01:15:03.380 As a guy, I only find 10 to 15% of women I encounter to be attractive on a daily basis.

01:15:08.300 Sorry.

01:15:09.100 So it's not just you ladies.

01:15:10.280 It's us men too.

01:15:11.580 Well, Red Misfit, I do have to come in here. 0.91

01:15:14.060 You are a bit of an outlier on this because they've done studies on this.

01:15:17.980 They've analyzed the data from the dating apps.

01:15:20.640 It's men rate women on a bell curve whereas women are very harsh grades of men's physical attractiveness.

01:15:29.860 I think it's something like women find 80% of men or women categorize 80% of men as unattractive

01:15:38.500 whereas men put women at about the like 50% of women are at about the average, right?

01:15:43.420 But so it's very different.

01:15:48.600 Honestly, like here and I mean, of the girls I see walking around in Isla Vista,

01:15:53.160 I would say like 80, 90% of them are physically attractive.

01:15:58.640 So actually, we can talk about that a little bit.

01:16:01.820 So do you think it's harder for men to be physically attractive or is it harder for women to be physically attractive?

01:16:08.940 Men.

01:16:10.360 Okay.

01:16:11.060 Here, let's start with Paisley.

01:16:12.020 Actually, no, let's start with you and then we'll go around this way.

01:16:14.320 Go ahead.

01:16:16.500 I think it really just depends.

01:16:18.920 I mean, sometimes, I mean, some men are just like just naturally like rolling out of bed,

01:16:23.400 just beautiful and some men have to kind of brush their hair straight.

01:16:27.400 Generally, generally speaking, generally speaking.

01:16:29.840 Yeah, so generally speaking, I'd say women have to put in more effort. 1.00

01:16:36.540 Do they?

01:16:37.540 You don't have to, but they do.

01:16:39.160 Yeah.

01:16:39.340 Well, they don't, yeah, well, they don't have to, but most of the time they do.

01:16:44.000 Yes.

01:16:45.640 Okay.

01:16:46.100 So I feel like, yeah.

01:16:47.940 What was that?

01:16:48.660 What?

01:16:49.480 I was watching something the other day and they were talking about how, wow, that was real bad.

01:16:56.320 I lost my train of thought.

01:16:57.520 Women. 0.81

01:16:58.400 What was it?

01:16:58.880 What are we talking about?

01:16:59.460 Is it harder for men to be attractive or?

01:17:08.780 Yeah.

01:17:10.180 Okay.

01:17:10.480 I guess I'll just move on.

01:17:13.920 Men don't have as many options to look better.

01:17:18.760 Okay.

01:17:20.540 Jenny.

01:17:21.060 I would say women would spend more time on getting ready than guys do. 1.00

01:17:27.720 Okay.

01:17:28.520 Women for sure. 1.00

01:17:29.760 Harder for women to be physically attractive. 1.00

01:17:32.620 Yes.

01:17:33.300 Because we have, like she said, a lot of different avenues we can go.

01:17:36.540 Okay.

01:17:36.960 We got to shave.

01:17:38.080 So you said harder for men.

01:17:39.480 I think it's harder for men.

01:17:41.480 Okay.

01:17:42.360 What about you?

01:17:43.300 I would say for women, it's even harder for men.

01:17:47.040 Okay.

01:17:48.440 I think it's harder for men, but because, you know, I think I heard something about, you

01:17:54.120 know, some guy was saying, well, all I can do is cut my hair.

01:17:57.360 Like women can go put their eyelashes on and do their makeup and do all this to make themselves 1.00

01:18:02.600 look better.

01:18:03.260 And I just got my hair.

01:18:04.280 But I feel like also if you think about it, like women doing all this stuff to go, whoa, 1.00

01:18:11.840 what the fuck? 1.00

01:18:12.940 They just lost their train of thought again? 1.00

01:18:14.640 It's crazy.

01:18:15.520 Did you smoke weed before that?

01:18:17.660 Duh.

01:18:18.360 I'm a bud tender. 0.95

01:18:21.860 I smoked literally right before we started and I can, I'm pretty good.

01:18:25.980 And I never can keep my train of thought.

01:18:28.040 It's like, I got to say it now or I forgot.

01:18:29.820 I got ADHD.

01:18:31.080 There you go.

01:18:31.820 Real bad.

01:18:32.800 Real ADHD over here.

01:18:34.280 Hey, we'll have you guys continue on with this.

01:18:36.720 Eric, in the podcast folder in Dropbox, if you go to podcast infographics, there's three

01:18:45.140 that are called OKC, OKC1, and OKC2.

01:18:52.160 If you can pull all of those up in a tab on the other side.

01:18:56.240 Did you get to answer the question?

01:18:58.780 Yeah, I think so.

01:19:00.100 Paisley, did you answer?

01:19:00.980 Harder for men or women to be physically attractive?

01:19:04.280 I would say men, because you're kind of out of luck, like you don't have many, you can 0.99

01:19:10.160 cut your hair, you can shave, you can not shave, but other than that, like you're screwed. 0.98

01:19:16.800 Oh, I got it. 0.99

01:19:17.440 I got it.

01:19:18.060 So with women, they're always like, oh, her stomach's too thick or she got too much makeup 1.00

01:19:23.440 on, like always pressing their looks. 0.94

01:19:25.500 But for a girl, they're like, oh, I like me a chubby nigga or stuff like that. 1.00

01:19:30.260 Like your imperfections are making you cuter where like a woman is really going to try 1.00

01:19:34.400 her hardest to cover that up.

01:19:35.660 And you're still going to be like, oh, well, you put on too much makeup.

01:19:38.960 Does that work with what we're talking about?

01:19:40.900 I think that women try really hard to be a specific man's type. 0.99

01:19:47.100 Right, I guess.

01:19:48.220 Whereas men are like, they're going to be whoever they are. 0.99

01:19:50.640 Wait, women, women try really hard to be a specific men's type?

01:19:54.780 Women with BPD do that. 1.00

01:19:56.720 Specific man.

01:19:56.980 Like if you're interested in a man, like a lot of times women are like, okay, I like this 1.00

01:20:00.740 dude, oh, but he likes girls that do this or their hair like this. 1.00

01:20:03.980 I think that's borderline personality disorder.

01:20:06.420 It's all like in your head. 0.59

01:20:07.920 I don't want to be a female. 1.00

01:20:08.580 I think, I mean, I think it's actually men that shift who they are to adhere to women's 0.76

01:20:16.940 standards than the reverse.

01:20:19.200 So you're saying women change because if you ask women, do you wear makeup for men or for 0.52

01:20:25.560 yourself?

01:20:26.320 They're going to say for themselves.

01:20:27.060 What's the answer, ladies? 1.00

01:20:28.400 For themselves, but if you look right now.

01:20:30.160 There are a lot of women that have plastic surgery because some look just like me. 1.00

01:20:35.020 Then all of a sudden, now they got a booty, they got breasts. 1.00

01:20:37.540 Like, and right now, if you look, everybody's going to this volumptuous type instead of

01:20:42.540 just being who they are.

01:20:44.080 Where a man doesn't have that option. 1.00

01:20:46.220 It's just either you take me as I am or just fuck off and go somewhere else. 1.00

01:20:50.020 They can work in the gym, I guess. 1.00

01:20:51.080 Correct.

01:20:51.400 They can work in the gym.

01:20:52.320 Gym, there's such a...

01:20:53.380 I mean, I've seen some guys with some muscle implants that look so bad.

01:20:57.120 Well, that's an interesting point because I would say, to be fair, I guess it's not as 0.99

01:21:03.380 widespread, like muscle implants and shit is not as widespread as like fake breasts or 0.99

01:21:09.120 fake lips, for example. 0.99

01:21:10.440 But I would say women with plastic surgery is much better tolerated by men than men who 1.00

01:21:18.780 have plastic surgery is tolerated by women. 1.00

01:21:21.980 And like, if a dude had fucking calf implants, you'd be like fucking clowning on this guy. 1.00

01:21:26.800 You'd be like, you're like, you'd think he's a joke, you know? 0.99

01:21:31.200 Whereas, to be fair, if a girl has a BBL, I'm not a fan, just going to say. 0.97

01:21:40.180 But you're not a fan, but other men are.

01:21:43.320 Chat.

01:21:43.720 Chat, BBL, yes or no?

01:21:48.060 BBL, yes or no? 0.84

01:21:51.040 Honestly, I think there are some goofball men that are like, well, the bigger, the better, 0.52

01:21:56.020 no matter what. 0.99

01:21:56.740 But like, it looks fucking goofy. 0.99

01:21:59.720 It looks... 0.98

01:22:00.760 I think it looks bad.

01:22:02.480 The BBL.

01:22:04.020 Depends?

01:22:04.500 No, there's no such thing as a good-looking BBL. 0.98

01:22:06.900 They're all terrible.

01:22:08.660 Trust.

01:22:09.400 If the thighs match, can it wiggle? 0.99

01:22:11.640 I mean, what you working with?

01:22:15.480 It just...

01:22:16.360 It's just... 0.99

01:22:17.200 First off, it's dangerous as fuck. 0.99

01:22:20.200 Everything's dangerous. 0.99

01:22:21.580 BBLs. 0.99

01:22:22.140 It's like one of the most dangerous plastic surgeries that you can get.

01:22:25.480 But yet, they still do it. 1.00

01:22:26.900 Because they're stupid. 1.00

01:22:27.660 But nobody's talking about it. 1.00

01:22:29.360 Like, a handful will come out and say, yes, they're dangerous, but everybody else is making

01:22:32.240 it glamorous right now.

01:22:33.740 They shouldn't, though.

01:22:34.880 But they do.

01:22:35.580 Because it's...

01:22:36.180 I mean...

01:22:37.080 If you go to LA, you see.

01:22:38.220 If you go to Miami, you see.

01:22:39.380 If you go to Houston, like the major cities.

01:22:40.820 It's a good thing we're not in Miami.

01:22:41.860 Street clubs.

01:22:42.360 Like, you see it.

01:22:43.620 It's the norm.

01:22:45.020 And they expect the average woman to look like that. 1.00

01:22:47.140 The men?

01:22:48.080 Or...

01:22:48.440 The men.

01:22:49.620 Nah.

01:22:51.480 Chat.

01:22:51.960 What is Chappin saying?

01:22:53.140 Chat, yes or no for the BBLs?

01:22:56.560 Yeah.

01:22:57.080 So, here.

01:22:57.760 Let me...

01:22:58.060 Well, we got Dave on Jackson.

01:22:59.240 I'll pull it up in just a sec.

01:23:00.980 But on the...

01:23:02.300 And with the other plastics...

01:23:03.600 Anyone here have plastic surgery?

01:23:05.320 No...

01:23:05.540 I won't shame you.

01:23:06.900 Anyone?

01:23:07.700 Fake lips? 1.00

01:23:08.440 Fake tits? 1.00

01:23:08.640 I only have my lips done. 1.00

01:23:09.760 You have your lips done?

01:23:10.500 Anybody else?

01:23:11.040 I'm down to get plastic surgery.

01:23:12.600 You want to get plastic surgery?

01:23:13.740 I want to be down.

01:23:14.500 I feel like if I had the choice...

01:23:16.320 Do you have any?

01:23:17.660 No.

01:23:18.180 Anybody?

01:23:18.860 No.

01:23:19.080 Else?

01:23:19.380 Nothing?

01:23:21.400 Lips?

01:23:22.160 And my eyebrows tatted.

01:23:23.640 Okay. 0.98

01:23:25.360 Fake tits, anybody? 1.00

01:23:26.060 And Botox. 0.99

01:23:26.980 Okay.

01:23:27.400 Okay, all right. 1.00

01:23:28.120 Fuck. 1.00

01:23:31.400 Don't do it, Ginny. 1.00

01:23:32.880 I won't.

01:23:33.380 Don't do it.

01:23:33.960 I think if I had the money, I'd feel like I would like the option to be able to do it.

01:23:38.500 Don't do it.

01:23:39.100 Trust.

01:23:39.640 Trust me.

01:23:40.440 And my eyelash extensions.

01:23:41.340 Why not?

01:23:41.960 Okay, that's the last one.

01:23:43.220 Yeah.

01:23:43.400 Why not do plastic surgery?

01:23:44.860 Yeah.

01:23:45.220 It's...

01:23:45.900 If you do it just for yourself, you want to be...

01:23:48.620 You want to look better.

01:23:48.960 You're not doing it just for yourself.

01:23:50.900 I agree with you.

01:23:51.860 I agree with you.

01:23:52.440 You're the first man that's actually said that.

01:23:54.640 Because most people say they're...

01:23:55.560 No, seriously.

01:23:57.300 Okay, but go elaborate a little bit.

01:23:59.660 What do you mean we elaborate on?

01:24:00.940 Because most women don't say that a woman is doing it for her... 1.00

01:24:04.500 She's not doing it for her self-esteem.

01:24:05.820 She's doing it because I have the money. 0.96

01:24:07.120 I want to look good.

01:24:08.300 That's what I normally hear.

01:24:09.940 And the men sit there and like, oh, yeah, she's doing it because she wants to look good

01:24:13.460 or whatever.

01:24:13.920 But I really feel like it's a self-esteem issue.

01:24:17.240 Because if it was not a self-esteem issue, you wouldn't get it.

01:24:21.220 There was a time where you looked just like me or looked like yourself or like you.

01:24:25.060 But now you're trying to look like everybody else in a magazine.

01:24:29.100 So I just feel like it's a self-esteem issue and men are not...

01:24:32.340 They're not saying it.

01:24:33.800 They're not speaking up about it right now.

01:24:37.360 Good point.

01:24:38.520 Very good point.

01:24:39.620 Yeah, I mean, it's kind of an interesting dilemma, right?

01:24:42.860 Because on one hand...

01:24:45.200 Not to get...

01:24:46.440 Well, okay.

01:24:47.560 So if you're a woman's advocate, and you could consider that like a feminist, right?

01:24:53.560 But if you're a woman's advocate, you have two paths, right? 0.93

01:25:01.160 On one hand, you can say women should not be pursuing these plastic surgeries because

01:25:06.340 one, it's a financial burden.

01:25:08.760 There's health risks.

01:25:10.640 It's your... 1.00

01:25:11.720 There's no medical indication to get pads put in your ass. 0.99

01:25:15.980 Like there's no medical reason to do it besides cosmetic aesthetic reasons. 0.99

01:25:21.080 There's...

01:25:21.260 But there's not...

01:25:22.160 Like for example, there are some scenarios where if a woman had breast cancer, for example,

01:25:27.240 and there's like some unevenness, like maybe they had to remove her breast, that could be

01:25:33.000 a reasonable scenario where a woman gets breast implants, right? 0.98

01:25:36.920 Because she feels very self-conscious because one, there's no breast there, and then the

01:25:42.300 other one, there's a breast. 1.00

01:25:43.740 But overwhelmingly, breast implants are done for cosmetic reasons.

01:25:47.880 But so there's a dilemma between what is the more women empowerment position to take? 1.00

01:25:54.700 Is it women should not get plastic surgery because of the financial component, because 1.00

01:25:59.700 of the health risk, because why? 0.99

01:26:02.280 Or is it, no, we should empower women to have free choices to fucking mutilate their bodies 1.00

01:26:10.800 and get fake tits and waste their money. 1.00

01:26:14.040 And so anyways, I'm kind of ranting on that, but... 0.98

01:26:18.380 I mean, I feel like you could be dragging it because some girls are into that. 1.00

01:26:22.260 Like there are people that look crazy and they just keep going, keep going, keep going because

01:26:26.120 that's...

01:26:26.760 They like that.

01:26:28.080 I want to ask you guys...

01:26:29.060 So do what you want to do.

01:26:30.000 I want to ask you guys this.

01:26:30.900 So for me personally, no offense, Kiana.

01:26:35.300 It's okay.

01:26:36.200 If a girl has plastic surgery, it could be fake lips. 1.00

01:26:40.300 No offense, Kiana. 0.96

01:26:41.020 It's okay. 1.00

01:26:42.280 If she has fake lips, fake tits, fake butt, BBL is fucking atrocious. 1.00

01:26:51.560 For me, it's a turnoff. 1.00

01:26:52.900 And even if the difference is she had, for example, flat chest and now she has fake tits, 1.00

01:26:59.360 I would prefer a girl who had like a flat chest over a girl with perfect fake tits. 1.00

01:27:06.580 Would you? 0.99

01:27:07.640 A hundred percent.

01:27:08.560 I have a flat chest.

01:27:09.180 A hundred percent.

01:27:10.400 There's so many options nowadays.

01:27:12.240 I feel like you don't even need to be inserting plastic.

01:27:15.160 It could be an S-curve, which is just a transfer of fat.

01:27:19.820 And people should do whatever they want.

01:27:22.320 Seriously.

01:27:23.140 But most women who get breast implants get like, what is it?

01:27:26.440 The silicone or the gummy bear?

01:27:27.840 I don't know what it's called.

01:27:28.760 The material.

01:27:29.160 The gummy bear.

01:27:29.560 Say it.

01:27:29.980 Gummy bear.

01:27:30.460 And then at the same time, I see a lot of men be tricked by plastic surgery where they

01:27:35.340 think that's all natural and it isn't, but it's just a notion.

01:27:40.100 And yeah, that does raise the other thing when it comes to dating.

01:27:42.760 Like, are you being inauthentic?

01:27:45.880 Are you misrepresenting your appearance?

01:27:48.180 What?

01:27:48.640 I look like that.

01:27:49.760 Like, what are you talking about? 0.99

01:27:50.240 No, with fake tits. 1.00

01:27:51.340 Like, if you have fake tits. 1.00

01:27:52.140 And they're on me for the rest of my life. 0.99

01:27:53.640 I look like that.

01:27:54.640 What do you mean?

01:27:55.580 How am I coming off like I'm something else?

01:27:57.640 For example, if you're wearing a shirt, you might not, a guy might not be able to, listen,

01:28:03.020 I got fake boob radar.

01:28:04.340 I can tell.

01:28:05.480 I could tell.

01:28:06.140 I can tell.

01:28:06.480 But if she's wearing like something where you can't really, you can tell she has big 0.97

01:28:12.480 boobs, but you can't tell if they're fake.

01:28:14.940 That is to some degree misrepresenting your appearance.

01:28:21.100 I disagree. 1.00

01:28:22.260 Because that shit's fake. 1.00

01:28:23.300 Because. 1.00

01:28:23.800 I disagree.

01:28:24.600 I pay for it.

01:28:25.140 I don't know.

01:28:25.580 No, but like, for example, like, let's say down the road, if you want to have kids,

01:28:31.220 right?

01:28:31.900 So we judge people based off of like their physical traits.

01:28:36.560 Okay, okay, okay.

01:28:37.040 Or here's a better one.

01:28:38.480 Here's a better one.

01:28:39.500 If someone starts shaping their jawline, I think that's a better one because that's

01:28:44.140 harder to tell if someone's like changed their jaw.

01:28:46.180 Oh my kids, I already know. 0.71

01:28:47.000 So if someone's just got like a fucked up jawline, for example, and they get it fixed, right? 0.94

01:28:57.300 Your kids. 0.88

01:28:58.600 I could tell you that I had a messed up jawline, but now I look so good and you appreciate that.

01:29:04.380 You know?

01:29:04.700 Not me.

01:29:05.320 Did you?

01:29:05.820 I just talk about, I just talk like that.

01:29:07.940 Not bad.

01:29:09.840 Okay.

01:29:10.120 Not me personally.

01:29:10.820 I never got my jaw fixed, but.

01:29:12.500 I mean, obviously the, you know, having children, that's something that comes much further down

01:29:16.600 the road in a relationship.

01:29:17.680 Wait, wait, I already talked about that, but you couldn't tell I had a daughter.

01:29:19.660 You have a kid?

01:29:20.300 I have a kid, but you couldn't tell I had one.

01:29:22.160 I mean, you are wearing like a trench coat.

01:29:24.140 She's deceiving you with her look.

01:29:25.000 Oh my God, I can like show you.

01:29:26.500 Oh, fit check?

01:29:27.920 We got a little fit check coming?

01:29:29.000 No, it's not a fit check because people are shocked.

01:29:31.340 Like, yes, I didn't have a whole baby.

01:29:33.760 Yes, a whole baby.

01:29:34.720 Period.

01:29:34.980 Yeah, yeah.

01:29:35.240 Okay.

01:29:35.780 All right.

01:29:36.420 No, pregnancy does not have to mess you up like they say.

01:29:39.360 No, but that's not what I'm saying.

01:29:40.960 For other people. 0.99

01:29:41.660 I'm saying like if a woman had like a, you know, or a guy too, a guy could have a fucked 1.00

01:29:47.740 up jawline. 0.99

01:29:48.420 But you could come here with your beard and be like, oh, I'm the handsomest man.

01:29:52.020 And then you shave it off and you look like a turtle, you know?

01:29:57.780 And then you're deceiving me.

01:30:00.580 You're right.

01:30:01.260 I could have a weak jawline.

01:30:03.360 I could have a weak chin.

01:30:04.340 But you didn't go get surgery for it.

01:30:05.960 You're just hiding it.

01:30:06.960 That's right.

01:30:08.500 That's right. 1.00

01:30:09.260 Are you saying and then like you're like somebody's baby's born and then they're like, oh shit, 0.99

01:30:13.560 your jaw's not real? 1.00

01:30:15.260 Yeah.

01:30:15.660 Oh, you got my skull.

01:30:18.280 You know what?

01:30:21.800 There actually was a story.

01:30:23.080 I believe it was out of China.

01:30:24.500 This woman got like a ton of plastic surgery. 1.00

01:30:28.120 I don't know if it was China, but a man divorced his wife because she never disclosed to him 1.00

01:30:37.660 that she got all this plastic surgery and he was upset when the kids were fucking ugly. 0.98

01:30:44.400 The baby didn't match. 0.99

01:30:45.120 The kids were just looking weird.

01:30:46.700 I remember that story.

01:30:47.660 Eric, if you can try to pull it up.

01:30:49.000 Also, can you pull up the, were you able to pull up the OKC?

01:30:52.760 Here we go.

01:30:53.420 So just, just really quickly going back to our previous conversation.

01:30:57.880 So this is how men rate women.

01:31:00.400 This is on the dating app.

01:31:01.220 OKCupid.

01:31:02.100 You see, that's a bit of a bell curve there.

01:31:04.400 And then if you go to the next one, Eric.

01:31:08.940 So this is how women rate men.

01:31:13.760 So this is, this is kind of the difference that's going on on dating apps.

01:31:17.520 And you guys know this.

01:31:19.640 There's a bit of a discrepancy there.

01:31:21.200 So if you have men who are rating women, let's say a bit more fairly, a bit more evenly,

01:31:25.260 and you have women rating men like this, what does that mean for the dating marketplace?

01:31:34.120 Does that mean, and I think this is what's going to happen or what, what is happening

01:31:38.820 is if you want to be with a really top tier guy, you're going to have to share him.

01:31:46.320 He's not going to be loyal to you.

01:31:47.960 You might be the main chick, but he's going to have side pieces.

01:31:51.640 I mean, if you could come to an agreement, there is like open relationships.

01:31:55.440 You're fine.

01:31:56.100 I'm fine. 1.00

01:31:56.680 You want to fuck on people. 1.00

01:31:57.660 I want to fuck on people. 1.00

01:31:58.340 OK. 1.00

01:31:59.120 Let's make it happen.

01:31:59.480 What if he wants it closed on your end, but he wants it open on his?

01:32:02.680 I'm so sorry, sweetheart.

01:32:04.140 It's just not working for me.

01:32:05.260 No, no.

01:32:06.420 It's got to be mutual.

01:32:07.600 OK, question on that, and then we'll get to the, Eric, if you can keep searching for

01:32:12.040 that like plastic surgery man divorces woman ugly baby thing. 1.00

01:32:16.480 Um, shit, what was the, um, what were we talking about? 1.00

01:32:21.880 Here, let me. 0.99

01:32:22.660 Open relationships.

01:32:23.540 Oh, yeah.

01:32:25.660 So let's say, think of like your ideal man, tall, good looking, funny, charismatic, confident,

01:32:32.060 makes good money, whatever it may be.

01:32:33.900 What did we do?

01:32:35.040 He, all the things you want in the partner, he's them.

01:32:38.800 You're going to be his main chick, but here's the caveat. 0.66

01:32:41.480 He's not going to be loyal to you.

01:32:44.300 He'll stay with you.

01:32:45.780 He'll provide, he's a provider, whatever.

01:32:47.960 It depends, because been there, done that.

01:32:50.100 And honestly, like, if you're giving it out to other people, you start to lack inside.

01:32:56.920 So if I can't get it from you, I'm going to go get it from somebody else, I guess.

01:33:01.040 Lack what? 0.99

01:33:01.600 Sex? 0.96

01:33:02.160 Yeah. 0.71

01:33:02.900 What if he's...

01:33:04.240 You run dry?

01:33:05.260 Oh, you should have saved some.

01:33:06.680 I don't know what's wrong with you and what made you think that I was going to be okay

01:33:10.380 sitting over here, feeling the way, and like, what?

01:33:14.280 No.

01:33:15.640 I'm not, mm-mm.

01:33:16.320 Wait, how frequently are you trying to, you know, like three times a day or what?

01:33:23.200 Three times a day is crazy.

01:33:24.080 Like, are you really up on your guy like that?

01:33:28.700 Are you counting?

01:33:30.220 I don't know.

01:33:30.960 Whenever it feels right.

01:33:32.080 I don't know.

01:33:32.460 It's fun.

01:33:33.100 Okay.

01:33:34.280 Anybody else?

01:33:35.100 Okay, so the question is, your ideal man, super attractive, meets all the things that

01:33:41.660 you want in a partner, but you have to be loyal to him, but he'll, you're the main chick.

01:33:49.520 He's going to wife you, give you kids, but he will, he's not going to be faithful.

01:33:54.760 No.

01:33:55.200 For the whole thing?

01:33:56.360 Absolutely.

01:33:56.880 The whole time? 0.99

01:33:57.340 Let's see, he's not just like, out there all the fucking time hooking up with other 0.99

01:34:00.980 chicks, but like, a month here, like. 0.99

01:34:03.380 You can't bring him home and share.

01:34:07.120 Good one.

01:34:10.120 I mean, maybe there could be some free stuff.

01:34:11.680 Like, if you're doing it here and there, why can't we have fun here and there?

01:34:14.360 I'm just confused.

01:34:14.900 Okay.

01:34:15.140 Why you got to be all the way over there?

01:34:16.360 All right, okay, all right.

01:34:17.360 What about, Kiana, what about you?

01:34:18.320 Um, so my, my, that guy that I'm on a break with right now, my ex-boyfriend, we actually

01:34:24.560 did, uh, we wouldn't do that, so like, but I'll bring girls home to him. 0.99

01:34:30.500 Okay.

01:34:30.960 And we would, yeah.

01:34:32.240 Okay.

01:34:32.660 Do that, so.

01:34:33.660 What about you, Jenny?

01:34:35.080 Um, no, because I feel like that's just not how I am.

01:34:39.220 Meets all your metrics, very attractive guy, takes care of you.

01:34:45.400 No.

01:34:45.600 Is it giving?

01:34:46.140 Am I not good enough?

01:34:47.040 Okay.

01:34:47.480 Yeah.

01:34:47.720 So, okay, go ahead.

01:34:50.740 No.

01:34:51.720 It's not going, no, it cannot.

01:34:53.180 What about you?

01:34:53.860 Absolutely not.

01:34:54.600 I've been through that, so no.

01:34:55.980 It's been so bad.

01:34:56.800 It doesn't really work out very well.

01:34:57.920 Okay.

01:34:58.200 Yeah.

01:34:59.280 You're the one that gets hurt.

01:35:00.200 I'd say no, because how embarrassing, if you can't do the same dirt, like, they're just

01:35:05.260 kind of.

01:35:05.600 Like, oh, people just keep running back to you.

01:35:06.960 I saw you, you're doing this.

01:35:08.940 Yeah.

01:35:10.080 Yeah.

01:35:10.340 At that point, everybody else knows your business, too, and it's like, no.

01:35:14.100 Okay.

01:35:14.360 I'm not doing it.

01:35:14.640 Fair enough.

01:35:15.420 Paisley?

01:35:16.000 Absolutely not.

01:35:16.680 I'm way too jealous for that.

01:35:18.400 You're too jealous.

01:35:19.160 Yeah.

01:35:19.340 True.

01:35:20.020 Okay.

01:35:20.280 Okay.

01:35:20.400 So nice.

01:35:20.780 Okay.

01:35:21.100 Cool.

01:35:22.580 Okay.

01:35:23.020 Let's do some super chats.

01:35:25.080 Or, actually, Eric, did you find that article?

01:35:27.340 Yeah.

01:35:28.100 Can you pull it up?

01:35:29.140 There's not a photo?

01:35:35.740 I don't want to see the picture.

01:35:37.000 Oh.

01:35:37.640 Wait, wait.

01:35:38.160 Oh, my God.

01:35:39.220 Are you going to scroll up or scroll down?

01:35:41.100 I'll scroll up.

01:35:41.900 Okay.

01:35:42.180 Go for it.

01:35:43.340 Oh, my God.

01:35:44.880 Right?

01:35:45.840 Wow.

01:35:47.440 Wait, wait, wait.

01:35:47.960 Stay up just a tad.

01:35:49.640 Okay. 0.96

01:35:50.520 Chinese Man Su's wife for being ugly wins $120,000. 0.99

01:35:54.040 It's just makeup, huh? 0.94

01:35:56.840 Because there's, like, prosthetic makeup that people be putting on their face to look different.

01:36:00.640 Can you scroll down?

01:36:02.060 Let me see the article here.

01:36:04.460 Oh, my God.

01:36:06.720 He won the lawsuit after the couple's daughter was born.

01:36:12.020 He was appalled by the child's appearance.

01:36:14.220 Okay.

01:36:14.680 Wow.

01:36:14.860 That's kind of brutal, though, to say about your own kid. 0.75

01:36:16.480 But if she could afford all that plastic surgery, why she can't get her face kicked? 1.00

01:36:20.920 Because, I mean, you have to think, though, like, one of the reasons why people want an attractive partner is so you can have attractive children.

01:36:32.940 So how does he know that the unattractiveness didn't come from his side?

01:36:37.060 We do need a photo of him.

01:36:39.400 We do need a photo of him.

01:36:40.940 So he takes two to tango.

01:36:42.240 That is true.

01:36:43.280 That is true.

01:36:43.720 My mom always said if I got my dad's nose, she'd pay for my plastic surgery. 1.00

01:36:47.300 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:36:50.220 All right. 1.00

01:36:50.640 We have Davon Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat.

01:36:52.640 Did we get this one?

01:36:53.400 I don't think so.

01:36:53.920 Or wait.

01:36:54.800 No.

01:36:55.080 Anyways.

01:36:55.640 Thank you, man.

01:36:56.240 I'm a little late because I'm at work.

01:36:57.800 But are these women really arguing to sleep with men they don't want to be with? 1.00

01:37:01.360 Do y'all really think that's okay?

01:37:03.540 Would you want your daughter hopping from D to D? 0.83

01:37:06.560 That's actually a good question.

01:37:07.780 So two options.

01:37:11.680 Would you want your daughter to be a hoe? 1.00

01:37:15.260 Or would you want her to be like a relationship chick? 1.00

01:37:19.440 Just like, you know, only hooked, like slept with a guy within the confines of a relationship.

01:37:24.880 What would you want your daughter to be? 0.66

01:37:29.680 A hoe or a housewife? 1.00

01:37:31.860 I want her to do whatever she wants as long as she's happy and safe.

01:37:35.760 You wouldn't lean in the...

01:37:37.660 No.

01:37:38.300 I'd be like, well, be safe about it.

01:37:40.940 If you're going to be safe, if you're going to become a sex worker, be safe about it.

01:37:44.560 You know?

01:37:45.100 Be safe.

01:37:45.680 I would just say be safe and be smart about it. 0.99

01:37:48.200 Don't do shit that I used to do when I was younger. 0.99

01:37:50.260 So you would have... 0.99

01:37:51.240 If she came to you and she was like, mom, I want to be a street walker. 0.99

01:37:53.820 I want to be a prostitute. 0.99

01:37:54.320 Well, no. 1.00

01:37:54.820 She wouldn't be doing that. 0.98

01:37:55.360 Well, you said sex walker or sex worker. 1.00

01:37:57.940 Sex worker. 0.99

01:37:58.560 So she wanted to do OnlyFans or, you know, stuff like that. 0.96

01:38:02.340 But I mean, okay, when I think sex worker, I lean more towards like prostitution.

01:38:06.880 I don't think prostitution. 0.99

01:38:07.180 Yeah, I don't lean more towards prostitution.

01:38:09.140 Have you looked at the definition lately?

01:38:11.180 There's a broad spectrum.

01:38:13.220 But no prostitute. 0.92

01:38:14.640 Okay. 0.97

01:38:14.860 No, no.

01:38:15.740 But okay. 1.00

01:38:16.320 I want her to fuck people for free that break her heart, you know? 1.00

01:38:19.540 Oh, okay. 1.00

01:38:20.040 I want her to... 0.99

01:38:21.360 Character development.

01:38:22.740 Exactly.

01:38:23.140 I mean, if you stay with the same boring old person that you forced yourself to think

01:38:28.380 that is the type of person you are.

01:38:30.300 Like, say you got in a relationship in middle school and y'all dated until high school and

01:38:36.160 you're like, oh, I'm such a relationship girl.

01:38:37.640 And now you're out of this relationship and you're like, oh, I only like doing what he

01:38:43.380 liked or like stuff like that.

01:38:45.620 You don't have no develop character.

01:38:47.660 Like, after you broke up with them, you started talking to this person and this person and

01:38:50.800 this person and now you know how to play that type of nigga and that type of girl. 1.00

01:38:55.200 Like, I don't know. 1.00

01:38:58.040 My daughter better not do that shit. 1.00

01:39:00.440 It makes your skin tougher. 1.00

01:39:02.740 It makes your skin tougher to what?

01:39:05.100 I don't know.

01:39:06.060 To get ran through by a bunch of dudes?

01:39:07.820 Why gotta be D to D? 0.98

01:39:09.540 Ava don't be fucking everybody, but she talks to a lot of people. 1.00

01:39:13.520 Okay. 0.99

01:39:13.940 Not at the moment.

01:39:14.460 I mean, I don't know.

01:39:15.360 But like...

01:39:15.800 Sure, sure, sure.

01:39:17.160 Ginny, what about you?

01:39:18.780 Your daughter, do you want her to be a hoe or a housewife? 1.00

01:39:24.140 I think I agree.

01:39:25.720 I think it's definitely...

01:39:26.460 Closer to the mic.

01:39:27.060 I think it's definitely about like if you're safe and you're happy.

01:39:30.580 Like, and I feel like I would want to know about it kind of a thing.

01:39:35.460 But you wouldn't...

01:39:35.960 Okay, for example, let's say you are aware of your daughter.

01:39:41.380 She's 19 and she's slept with 40 men.

01:39:44.240 Oh, I mean, no, I'm locking you in the house.

01:39:47.420 But okay, do you see your response to that, right?

01:39:49.480 Yeah.

01:39:50.400 And I mean, some women be putting up those numbers at 19, let's just say. 1.00

01:39:55.520 But okay, so...

01:39:57.960 She's safe?

01:40:00.100 If she's safe, but like you can't really be...

01:40:03.500 Like here's the thing, every time, even if you wear a condom, even if she... 1.00

01:40:07.500 But even if she's on birth control, even if you wear a condom, like that doesn't... 1.00

01:40:12.320 That's not 100%.

01:40:13.540 As a mother, you could sit there and you could teach your daughter every way to be a housewife 1.00

01:40:19.200 and how to do the things properly. 1.00

01:40:20.840 And if she decides, fuck that, and she want to go be a little floozy, at least we know 1.00

01:40:26.420 that we taught her what she could do when she's ready. 1.00

01:40:29.820 Like, I don't know.

01:40:30.700 I can't stop you.

01:40:31.600 I'm not watching you with my spy goggles 24 hours a day.

01:40:34.860 Like, do what you got to do, I guess.

01:40:36.880 Yeah.

01:40:36.980 Yeah, well, certainly people have agency, they're independent, they can make their own

01:40:40.500 decisions, right?

01:40:41.200 But you can certainly, especially your own children, you can attempt to guide them.

01:40:44.880 Don't do that.

01:40:45.700 For example, like, if my child came to me, my future child came to me and said,

01:40:53.360 Dad, I want to get the whites of my eyes tattooed. 0.99

01:40:58.080 I would say, well, you're free to do that, but don't fucking do it. 0.99

01:41:01.760 Yeah. 0.99

01:41:02.120 I'd tell them, don't do it.

01:41:03.700 Yeah.

01:41:04.280 Go ahead.

01:41:04.880 I wouldn't, like, disown them, you know?

01:41:08.860 I wouldn't.

01:41:09.740 If my child...

01:41:10.740 I've had my parents say, like, if you do something, I'm going to disown you.

01:41:14.240 Why does that even want to do it more?

01:41:16.120 Yeah, exactly.

01:41:17.340 Like, I wouldn't say that, but I would probably not approve.

01:41:22.600 I would probably be like, okay, well...

01:41:24.520 I think we need to bring back child disownment.

01:41:29.220 I think we need to start disowning children.

01:41:31.440 We need to bring back.

01:41:31.880 They're not even owning children.

01:41:33.000 Just get rid...

01:41:33.600 Just start disowning children. 0.95

01:41:36.060 Oh, yeah, like, I don't know, but...

01:41:38.640 I feel like a lot of it is also teaching your child, when you break up with someone,

01:41:46.700 oh, you don't need to go through this phase of maybe doing things,

01:41:50.780 because I hear that a lot, like, oh, we had a bad breakup,

01:41:53.760 and then that was my whole faith.

01:41:55.400 Like, you don't have to deal with it like that.

01:41:59.180 China, what do you think?

01:41:59.960 Because you have a kid?

01:42:02.520 Yes, she is going to be a housewife. 0.99

01:42:04.500 She's going to be a housewife. 1.00

01:42:05.060 She's going to be a housewife. 1.00

01:42:06.440 Okay.

01:42:07.360 But if she... 1.00

01:42:09.640 If you were privy to the fact, I don't know how you'd find out, 0.97

01:42:12.360 maybe she told you, maybe she was just fucking out there doing her... 1.00

01:42:16.160 Not now, of course. 0.98

01:42:17.360 But, like, you know...

01:42:18.700 Is this your daughter?

01:42:19.860 She's telling them the months, so no.

01:42:22.160 No, no, I mean, like...

01:42:23.200 Wait, how old is she? 0.89

01:42:24.240 15 months.

01:42:24.960 Oh, 15 months, okay.

01:42:25.760 Oh, wow.

01:42:26.460 She was your baby.

01:42:27.320 No, but I mean, when she's an adult, right, and she's like, yo, mom, 0.99

01:42:33.540 or you just know she's being a fucking hoe. 1.00

01:42:36.980 Sit down, and I'm going to have to sit down and talk to her. 1.00

01:42:39.420 Why are you doing this?

01:42:40.220 That is my major thing.

01:42:41.360 Like, yo, it's like, why are you doing this?

01:42:43.420 Yeah.

01:42:43.640 Because it seems like the world is getting more crazy and crazier every day,

01:42:46.500 so I would want to try to protect her.

01:42:49.700 Okay, what about you?

01:42:50.440 What do you think?

01:42:51.540 Well, I mean, it's her body, so she has to choose whatever she wants, 1.00

01:42:57.840 but I will be with her to teach her about everything.

01:43:03.140 If she needs help, she has me, and...

01:43:06.280 About everything?

01:43:07.060 What are you talking about?

01:43:07.780 About, like, how can I explain it?

01:43:10.480 Explain it.

01:43:10.980 If she's a hoe or something, I would like her to tell me. 1.00

01:43:18.140 I don't want to know about she's been doing that from other people.

01:43:23.040 Like, I want my daughter to tell me first so I can see if I can help her

01:43:27.480 or basically knowing why she's doing that. 0.99

01:43:32.520 But, I mean, I don't have control over her body, so she has her own choices. 0.92

01:43:37.520 If she wants to be that, I have no other choice to support her

01:43:42.100 and to also help her if she needs something.

01:43:45.960 Okay.

01:43:47.360 What about you?

01:43:48.260 I agree with what she's saying, but, I mean, I think that everybody,

01:43:52.140 nobody's going to sit there and be like, yeah, I want my kid to be a hoe. 1.00

01:43:54.600 Right.

01:43:54.960 Like, I mean, you're always going to be like, of course,

01:43:58.180 I want my child to be the best person that they can be.

01:44:01.400 But, at the same time, kids kind of, like, they learn by experience

01:44:05.680 and they're going to do whatever they want to do at some point.

01:44:09.240 So, the only thing you can do is be there for your kid.

01:44:13.780 Couldn't it also be a trauma response?

01:44:15.600 Let's think about all the bad things that you went through.

01:44:17.600 Why do you think that this is the way that you want to do it?

01:44:19.740 Can we go to therapy?

01:44:21.780 Like, I feel like we don't just have to call you a hoe 1.00

01:44:23.960 because you went and fucked on three people or five people in an hour. 0.99

01:44:27.740 I don't know, but 40 people, like, I don't know. 1.00

01:44:30.660 Maybe.

01:44:31.560 Like, I don't know.

01:44:32.340 How long was I gone?

01:44:33.580 Where do you think?

01:44:33.980 Maybe we should.

01:44:35.100 Like, that was an exaggeration.

01:44:36.500 But, like, I don't know.

01:44:37.620 I feel like it's deeper rooted.

01:44:39.100 Like, why are you looking for a connection in so many people?

01:44:42.520 Like, is it something that I did, maybe?

01:44:44.620 Like, probably.

01:44:45.600 Exactly.

01:44:46.900 Parents.

01:44:51.060 You can't disown your child for the trauma you inflicted on them.

01:44:56.080 Paisley.

01:44:56.440 I think people who jump from relationship to relationship are, like, just as concerning

01:45:02.600 because some people just do that as, like, a rebound thing

01:45:06.180 and then it's a never-ending cycle because they don't take the time to be single

01:45:11.640 and, like, like themselves first.

01:45:14.780 So that's even more concerning.

01:45:16.440 I would say somewhere in the middle.

01:45:18.080 Mm-hmm.

01:45:19.280 Okay.

01:45:20.440 Wow.

01:45:20.760 Just curious here.

01:45:25.480 Let's go around the table on this.

01:45:30.120 Who wants kids? 1.00

01:45:32.820 Just show of hands.

01:45:33.920 Who wants to have kids? 1.00

01:45:34.840 Anybody not want children?

01:45:37.200 I haven't decided yet.

01:45:38.880 Undecided, but okay, all of you.

01:45:40.220 I'm done.

01:45:40.560 You're done.

01:45:41.060 Just the one?

01:45:41.500 I'm done.

01:45:42.220 Just the one?

01:45:42.860 Just the one.

01:45:43.320 Okay, that was enough for you.

01:45:45.960 Okay, just, and is the dad still in the picture or no?

01:45:50.520 No.

01:45:51.280 Okay.

01:45:52.020 Child support? 1.00

01:45:53.300 Fuck no. 1.00

01:45:54.120 He's not paying? 1.00

01:45:55.020 Fuck no. 0.99

01:45:55.560 Do you have shared custody or? 1.00

01:45:57.100 Fuck no. 1.00

01:45:57.880 I'm an independent. 1.00

01:45:58.800 Full custody?

01:45:59.520 Full custody.

01:46:00.300 He doesn't pay child support? 1.00

01:46:01.620 Fuck no. 1.00

01:46:02.240 I'm not about to run out to no man and pay no child support. 1.00

01:46:04.340 Oh, well, that's kind of honorable.

01:46:08.700 Just curious, how many of you, whose parents are like still together?

01:46:13.460 Who has parents who are still together, still married?

01:46:17.020 You, Paisley, anybody else?

01:46:21.200 Everybody else, divorced parents? 0.84

01:46:23.040 I have a stepdad.

01:46:25.080 You were adopted.

01:46:26.620 No, I have a stepdad.

01:46:29.440 Okay, got it, got it.

01:46:31.160 Okay.

01:46:32.000 Oh, my God, my dad's married.

01:46:35.140 All right, let's do these next soup chats, and then we have a video to react to, too.

01:46:39.400 Mike Davis, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:46:40.980 Good to see you.

01:46:41.400 Eric, can you pull up the Burger King photo really quick?

01:46:46.680 I already know it's good. 1.00

01:46:48.100 Keep them asses fat. 1.00

01:46:49.560 There we go. 1.00

01:46:50.200 There's Mike Davis, our patron saint, our Burger King, King of Kings, Heart of Hearts.

01:46:57.800 Okay.

01:46:58.940 Thank you, Mike Davis.

01:46:59.740 Appreciate it.

01:47:00.980 Man who cares.

01:47:02.340 Let them females get them BBLs. 1.00

01:47:04.100 Come on now, Brian. 0.99

01:47:04.940 You know it's all love, but you wouldn't know what to do with all that ass, so your opinion is invalid. 1.00

01:47:13.100 Keep them asses fat, ladies. 1.00

01:47:14.780 Wait. 1.00

01:47:15.260 Yes.

01:47:16.080 Yes.

01:47:16.300 So, Mike Davis, you want a BBL, Mike Davis.

01:47:22.940 Come on, bro.

01:47:23.660 Everyone has their preference, right?

01:47:25.040 I'm disappointed in you, Mike Davis.

01:47:26.840 I don't know.

01:47:28.440 Yeah, no, BBLs for me, man.

01:47:30.420 What if you get a BBL?

01:47:31.900 What if I get a BBL?

01:47:33.280 He's obviously against BBLs.

01:47:36.620 What if you were forced to get a BBL?

01:47:38.520 Would you love yourself?

01:47:38.940 I forced, huh?

01:47:40.940 How would I, in what scenario would I be forced to get a BBL?

01:47:46.140 It's just meant to be.

01:47:48.080 See here, like, okay, I like, don't get me wrong. 1.00

01:47:50.520 I like a fat ass, right? 1.00

01:47:51.640 Fatness is nice. 1.00

01:47:52.340 But, like, you know, you know, Mike Davis. 1.00

01:47:58.940 Would you say you're more of a boobs or an ass guy? 1.00

01:48:00.480 More of an ass guy, I'd say. 1.00

01:48:02.560 But, like, I feel like it's less about the size and more about the proportions and the shape. 0.99

01:48:07.860 I thought you meant the balance.

01:48:09.840 That's what you were going to say.

01:48:12.540 Anyways, no strings attached TV, Canadian.

01:48:15.220 Thank you for the Canadian $10.

01:48:17.720 Merci beaucoup.

01:48:19.220 So, I don't even know if you're from the French-speaking part of Canada, but whatever.

01:48:22.680 So, are the women saying they put makeup and do plastic surgery to please men?

01:48:27.300 Oh, no.

01:48:27.800 No.

01:48:28.960 I mean, some do, but no.

01:48:31.300 But, to a certain degree.

01:48:32.680 I mean, come on.

01:48:33.760 You kind of wear makeup for men.

01:48:35.340 Like, if I wake up in the morning and say I'm having a bad day, what I could do is I could go in the shower and I could make myself feel pretty.

01:48:42.840 And then I'm happy.

01:48:44.060 I'm set.

01:48:44.420 Just because I made myself feel better, that made my whole day better. 1.00

01:48:47.680 And it wasn't because some nigga told me, oh, you look bad as fuck. 0.99

01:48:50.880 Like, okay, yeah. 0.99

01:48:52.900 I'm glad that I made myself feel that way in the mirror, you know.

01:48:56.680 Oh.

01:48:57.380 Well.

01:48:58.120 Okay.

01:48:58.960 All right.

01:48:59.460 We have M for your mom.

01:49:03.120 $10.

01:49:03.800 Thank you, man.

01:49:04.200 Appreciate it.

01:49:04.680 I think this is the first time I'm seeing you in the chat.

01:49:07.700 Welcome.

01:49:08.520 To be fair, if a woman got some augmentation plastic, she has low self-esteem, doesn't want kids, and is for the streets respectfully. 1.00

01:49:18.080 Not respectfully.

01:49:19.300 Just Justin.

01:49:19.880 Well, in your opinion, I think you're from the streets.

01:49:23.220 Shots fired.

01:49:24.540 Yep.

01:49:24.840 M for your mom.

01:49:25.800 Do you have...

01:49:26.220 Whatever your screen name is.

01:49:27.280 You're in your mom's basement right now, aren't you?

01:49:30.240 Do you have anything to say back to Kiana?

01:49:32.420 No.

01:49:33.100 Okay.

01:49:33.420 We're going to react to a video here.

01:49:35.280 Eric, if you can pull up the video tab.

01:49:38.160 Let's do the...

01:49:39.100 It's the very first one, four red flags.

01:49:41.060 All right, ladies. 0.98

01:49:44.580 I might ruffle some feathers with this one, but here are four major red flags that all men notice in women. 0.64

01:49:50.920 Let's go.

01:49:51.560 Number one, non-reciprocal energy.

01:49:54.480 You hear a lot of women in the dating market saying when the right man comes along, you will not have to try. 1.00

01:49:59.300 And although it's true that you won't have to try too hard, there's a difference between not trying too hard and not trying at all.

01:50:04.780 You don't have to be thirsty.

01:50:06.000 You don't have to come off desperate, but no man wants to be pursuing a woman that they feel is not giving them the same kind of energy in return.

01:50:12.360 Number two, unrealistic financial expectations.

01:50:16.360 Somewhere in the modern dating market, we have communicated to women that it is totally acceptable to expect a man to pay for their hair or their nails for a first date,

01:50:23.780 or to even go as far as to ask a man they barely even know to help them with their bills.

01:50:27.480 Feeling entitled to lavish treatment or financial assistance from a man that you barely even know that's still trying to get to know you is an extremely unrealistic expectation.

01:50:37.140 And social media has done a really bad job of making modern women think that that behavior is normal. 0.99

01:50:41.800 Let me be clear.

01:50:42.600 There's nothing wrong with wanting a man who's financially solid, but no man wants to feel like they're your walking ATM.

01:50:48.560 Number three, immaturity and uncontrolled emotions.

01:50:52.000 Immaturity, uncontrolled emotions, acting crazy, all of that has been rebranded recently.

01:50:56.640 As being toxic.

01:50:58.060 And there are a lot of social media channels out there that actually glamorize being toxic and encourage women to engage in this kind of behavior. 0.96

01:51:04.980 When good men get a sense of that behavior, you lashing out, blocking their number, cursing them out,

01:51:10.560 they either just stop taking you seriously from that point forward or they don't tolerate it altogether.

01:51:15.200 Because you're coming across to him more so like a child who's going to temper tantrum,

01:51:19.760 then you are a woman who wants to be taken seriously as an adult.

01:51:23.060 Number four, probably the most controversial one of all, being too masculine.

01:51:27.540 A lot of women will shy away from being feminine now because of the negative connotation that's associated with that in modern society. 1.00

01:51:33.740 Whether you like it or not, the reality is that men like feminine women.

01:51:37.640 Now this is the part in the story where a lot of women will say, 1.00

01:51:40.020 well it takes the right man to bring out that feminine energy. 1.00

01:51:42.440 Although I do think that there are some points of that that are true, overall I don't really agree with that.

01:51:46.760 I think that as a woman, you either embrace your feminine energy and you walk in that,

01:51:50.320 or you just haven't tapped into it.

01:51:51.860 There are so many women in the modern dating market who have hardened themselves to steal 1.00

01:51:55.900 because of the negative experiences that they've had with men.

01:51:58.680 Blocking your feminine energy is often a defense mechanism for a lot of women 1.00

01:52:02.320 so that they don't get hurt in the future.

01:52:03.920 But don't let the experiences of the past turn you bitter.

01:52:06.520 The reality is, ladies, that there are two sides to every coin.

01:52:09.440 And if we're going to talk about the bad traits of men,

01:52:11.640 we also have to acknowledge and take accountability for the bad traits we have in ourselves.

01:52:15.540 Okay, your guys' reaction to that video.

01:52:22.000 Any thoughts on...

01:52:23.140 I agree with her.

01:52:24.340 You agree?

01:52:25.080 I agree.

01:52:25.580 Yes.

01:52:25.960 I agree.

01:52:26.420 I have something to say about the last statement of the masculine woman.

01:52:30.900 So...

01:52:31.980 Pull the microphone a bit closer to you.

01:52:33.620 Okay.

01:52:34.200 Sometimes men confuse masculinity for power.

01:52:39.120 I think a lot of the time, being a powerful woman can be mistaken as you're masculine. 0.55

01:52:45.340 And I would say that they didn't surround themselves with powerful women. 0.98

01:52:51.740 You don't see a difference.

01:52:55.360 Eric, can you search on the other tab?

01:52:57.680 Don't...

01:52:58.240 Just so we can't see it.

01:52:59.180 Can you pull up a Zuby tweet about strong women? 0.98

01:53:06.260 And I want to get your reaction to his tweet on this.

01:53:08.500 But so you're...

01:53:09.840 Can you just kind of repeat your position?

01:53:12.940 What you just said?

01:53:14.000 I'm saying that sometimes power can be mistaken as masculinity.

01:53:21.740 Okay.

01:53:22.400 And it's not the same.

01:53:23.840 And so men are not used to powerful women or is that... 1.00

01:53:27.560 In some situations, yeah.

01:53:30.560 Okay.

01:53:30.840 They haven't been...

01:53:32.180 They haven't been exposed to that type of woman. 0.99

01:53:37.800 Maybe they're...

01:53:39.180 They've always been the more powerful person.

01:53:43.360 Would you...

01:53:43.920 Stronger and more assertive.

01:53:46.180 What do you mean by stronger?

01:53:47.360 Physically stronger?

01:53:49.080 No.

01:53:49.980 Well...

01:53:50.320 Okay.

01:53:50.340 Sure.

01:53:50.900 Sure.

01:53:51.340 Yeah.

01:53:52.700 Some...

01:53:53.060 Well, I mean...

01:53:54.180 Being physically stronger also plays into how men feel that they have more power over women

01:54:00.040 because they're physically stronger.

01:54:03.000 So a woman standing her ground might be looked at as masculine because they're not used to 0.97

01:54:09.520 that being challenged.

01:54:11.180 And when you say stand your ground, what do you mean?

01:54:15.720 Basically...

01:54:16.240 Like being argumentative?

01:54:17.880 Not argumentative, but having your own opinion.

01:54:21.680 Not being submissive, basically, because that could also be like femininity is also submissive

01:54:31.840 in some ways.

01:54:32.600 Yes.

01:54:32.940 But...

01:54:33.940 But would you agree that most men want women who are submissive or find submission...

01:54:40.240 Like women who are submissive... 1.00

01:54:41.260 Definitely...

01:54:41.720 ...attractive?

01:54:42.920 Yes.

01:54:43.840 Okay.

01:54:44.360 And that...

01:54:45.040 That's where that gets confused.

01:54:48.620 That's where that gets confused.

01:54:50.220 Yeah.

01:54:50.480 Eric, were you able to find the Zuby tweet?

01:54:53.400 Of what?

01:54:55.140 The...

01:54:55.740 Let me...

01:54:56.440 Let me see if I can...

01:54:57.720 I have one, but it's the graphs that you pulled up.

01:55:01.920 The graphs?

01:55:02.940 Yeah.

01:55:03.740 The graphs?

01:55:04.560 Oh, it's...

01:55:05.480 Hold on.

01:55:08.460 Let me see if I can find it.

01:55:11.480 Did you search on Google?

01:55:13.080 Yeah.

01:55:14.200 So it's...

01:55:15.360 If you just search like Zuby tweet, strong women, you should be able to find it. 1.00

01:55:24.940 Can you pull it up whenever you have it?

01:55:31.540 Okay.

01:55:31.980 So Zuby, if you can...

01:55:34.000 Yeah, there you go.

01:55:35.460 One less.

01:55:37.580 Yeah, that's good.

01:55:39.160 Oh, actually just do one more.

01:55:40.880 That's fine.

01:55:42.360 Okay.

01:55:42.660 So men are not intimidated by strong women, but far too many women believe that being aggressive, rude, and generally unpleasant makes them strong. 0.95

01:55:52.180 No, it makes you insufferable.

01:55:54.280 It's not that we can't handle you, but that we'd prefer not to in light of better options.

01:55:59.880 Your response to that?

01:56:01.440 There's definitely a limit.

01:56:03.820 You don't want to be over the top.

01:56:05.700 I think there's definitely a difference between just being sure in what you stand for and getting that point across and then being over the top and just rude.

01:56:21.320 Like say you had an opinion and I was talking to you about how that made me feel in this tone of voice rather than this tone of voice and I just don't understand what you're talking about.

01:56:34.180 You know, like you're going to say, oh, she's being crazy, all this, but I was getting the same point across just in a different tone of voice.

01:56:41.520 My bad, I'm sorry.

01:56:47.540 Yeah, okay.

01:56:48.780 So does anyone else want to respond to that tweet that we just saw?

01:56:53.360 Agree, disagree.

01:56:54.700 Chyna, I know you're dying too.

01:56:56.560 No, I agree with it for sure.

01:56:58.400 And then even like they, that even like takes account of it for like going out at a restaurant and being snotty to like the waitstaff and stuff like that too.

01:57:06.780 Like guys don't want to take a girl on a date that aren't going to be polite.

01:57:10.020 So just be, have kind human decency and be polite, you know, when people.

01:57:15.860 Okay.

01:57:16.520 Anyone want to come in?

01:57:18.040 Anyone else?

01:57:19.480 Ginny, I know you're dying to respond to the Zoobie. 0.99

01:57:23.800 The Zoobie.

01:57:25.180 The Zoob man.

01:57:28.400 I think, yeah, I think I definitely agree.

01:57:32.440 It's, it's very different when you're trying to be.

01:57:36.800 Ooh.

01:57:37.820 No.

01:57:39.240 I'm trying to think about my words.

01:57:41.320 Okay.

01:57:43.000 I think, yeah, there's definitely a difference between like me trying to be rude and aggressive versus like, no, this is, this is what I want.

01:57:52.880 This is what I'm trying to say.

01:57:54.900 Sure.

01:57:55.260 Stand in my point.

01:57:56.800 Gotcha.

01:57:57.180 Okay.

01:58:00.060 So we just got some people coming, coming, going here.

01:58:03.220 So let me get these soup chats here.

01:58:05.620 Or actually, we already got that one. 0.97

01:58:08.880 By the way, I just want to add like, I'd rather no ass. 0.99

01:58:15.500 I think I mentioned the boobs. 1.00

01:58:17.340 Flat. 0.99

01:58:17.720 I'd prefer flat over fake tits. 1.00

01:58:19.460 I'd prefer no ass over a BBL. 1.00

01:58:22.540 Okay. 0.99

01:58:22.860 Anyways.

01:58:24.340 Let's see.

01:58:25.580 We have a question.

01:58:27.280 You have a question?

01:58:28.000 Yeah.

01:58:28.240 Hold on.

01:58:28.480 Let me just get the soup chat and then we'll, let's see.

01:58:33.120 We have Dave on Jackson.

01:58:35.400 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:58:36.580 Good to see you, man.

01:58:37.140 I got you.

01:58:40.280 Okay.

01:58:40.760 Catching up.

01:58:41.280 Just saw their answers to my daughter question.

01:58:43.600 Send the asteroid.

01:58:45.240 Jesus.

01:58:46.700 I sent the asteroid, dude.

01:58:48.480 Okay.

01:58:48.800 Send the asteroid.

01:58:51.360 Yeah.

01:58:52.240 What was your question?

01:58:53.080 Would you look at someone, if you didn't have the radar, or if you see somebody with big 1.00

01:59:00.080 ass or big tits, but then you find out that they have surgery, wouldn't you already looked 1.00

01:59:04.740 at them and found them attractive? 1.00

01:59:07.500 Well, I mean, so the BBL, for example, that's usually apparent. 0.92

01:59:13.380 Like, the proportions are all fucked up if they have a BBL. 0.95

01:59:16.940 Their thighs don't match. 0.96

01:59:18.720 I've got a BBL radar, so I know.

01:59:21.920 I know.

01:59:22.620 I look, so, I mean, could I get tricked?

01:59:30.860 Sure.

01:59:31.240 Maybe I get tricked.

01:59:32.120 Maybe they got a really good one.

01:59:33.860 That's going to cut it for you?

01:59:35.260 Yeah.

01:59:35.840 Like, you fully got invested in that.

01:59:38.020 I just feel like the type of girl that gets a BBL, like, it's just not, we're not, she 0.99

01:59:44.260 probably doesn't want to fuck with me. 1.00

01:59:45.680 I don't want to fuck with her. 1.00

01:59:46.960 Like, because I'm, that's just not my type of girl. 1.00

01:59:50.380 Like, I don't know.

01:59:51.920 I feel like there's a, no offense, Keanu.

01:59:54.720 And you don't have a BBL either.

01:59:56.540 I don't get offended.

01:59:57.140 But like, I think when it comes to plastic surgery, there does seem to be,

02:00:01.980 I've noticed some personality traits and behavioral patterns that seem consistent among those who

02:00:10.520 get plastic surgery.

02:00:12.260 And, and it does tend to vary if you, you know, BBLs, that's a certain type of woman. 1.00

02:00:19.380 Fake tits, that's kind of a certain type of woman. 1.00

02:00:22.380 And like, for example, um, a girl who studies STEM at university, who's like studying biology 0.99

02:00:32.040 or whatever it may be, she's not, she doesn't have fake tits. 1.00

02:00:36.780 I don't know where I'm fucking going with this. 0.99

02:00:38.740 There's probably, I don't know where I'm going with this, but I guess like the type of girl 0.98

02:00:44.740 I'm attracted to, I guess is more real, so to speak.

02:00:49.200 And I'm like, it comes with a certain personality type for you to.

02:00:53.900 So, and also one, I do think, and again, there's degrees to plastic surgery.

02:01:00.800 So, and Kiana, I hope I'm not offending you by expressing this.

02:01:03.840 I don't get offended easily.

02:01:05.480 Like, for example, I think fake, fake lips are fairly tame compared to a BBL. 1.00

02:01:12.740 That's a, a BBL is a much more invasive surgery.

02:01:16.820 Also, some girls though overdo their lips. 1.00

02:01:19.140 Like I barely get mine done.

02:01:20.880 I get them a tiny bit done.

02:01:22.220 So you can barely tell that I even have mine done.

02:01:24.700 They're actually just a tiny bit bigger than they are naturally.

02:01:27.940 So that's actually a really good point too.

02:01:29.660 There's degrees of plastics. 0.98

02:01:31.600 I'm not going full like blowjob. 1.00

02:01:35.380 The goofy fucking looking like lips. 1.00

02:01:38.400 I don't want to look like a stupid blue face, but I need it a little bit more because when 1.00

02:01:42.020 I'd smile, my upper lip would literally disappear and I'd be like, like this. 0.99

02:01:46.480 So you guys want me to fucking, let me tell you something. 0.99

02:01:49.940 Whoever knows fucking farmer. 0.99

02:01:51.300 Could be a look. 1.00

02:01:52.220 Could be a look.

02:01:53.400 But yeah, there's degrees to it.

02:01:55.240 In the same way with like breast implants, there's smaller ones and then there's some 0.67

02:01:58.500 women who go too big. 1.00

02:02:01.240 Exactly.

02:02:02.120 But yeah, so there's degrees to the plastic surgery.

02:02:04.440 I think BBL, that's worse, so to speak, than a girl who gets like a rhinoplasty or who 1.00

02:02:11.940 gets fake lips.

02:02:13.760 Or anything like that.

02:02:14.900 So, sorry, what was the question?

02:02:17.140 I forgot.

02:02:18.520 You asked, if I met a girl. 1.00

02:02:20.320 You were more likely to look at or be attracted to a girl with a big ass if you didn't have 1.00

02:02:26.480 that radar as opposed to, you would look at them more than you would look at like flat 1.00

02:02:30.560 tits. 0.99

02:02:31.220 I feel like a BBL, it's pretty obvious. 0.97

02:02:34.840 Is there a degree to that though?

02:02:35.780 Is there a degree to that?

02:02:36.760 I feel like BBLs are pretty obvious.

02:02:39.700 Every friend that I've had, when seeing them, it's very obvious.

02:02:44.240 I don't think so.

02:02:45.180 It depends on the doctor and also the body shape because most of them, you will not see

02:02:51.680 that they got a BBL.

02:02:53.280 You will not even notice because they're thick.

02:02:56.860 But it depends also on the person if they get like a big booty that you can see that

02:03:02.760 it's absolutely fake.

02:03:04.000 And some of them, they would just say like, oh, it's natural because she has big hips. 1.00

02:03:09.140 So I think it depends on that. 0.99

02:03:11.220 I think the human eye is very adept at detecting unnatural, what the fuck? 0.99

02:03:21.900 They are listening. 1.00

02:03:23.380 God damn, the matrix. 0.99

02:03:25.360 I'm going to go home and all of those augmentations are going to pop up. 0.99

02:03:29.620 I think the human eye is quite adept at detecting things that look a bit uncanny. 0.94

02:03:36.060 And so, like you can tell, BBL for sure, fake tits, that sometimes can be a bit harder 1.00

02:03:44.140 to assess. 0.97

02:03:46.020 So, but yeah, I just don't think I would be attracted to her in the first place. 0.99

02:03:51.360 And I do think, especially with the more invasive plastic surgeries, fake tits, BBL, 1.00

02:03:57.820 I do think that it's communicating something about you as a person. 0.98

02:04:03.720 I'm making assessment about who you are as a person.

02:04:07.140 I'm probably going to think that you're either, you're, there's vanity there, excessive vanity.

02:04:12.460 I'm going to think that you might have, I'm honestly going to think you might have mental 0.95

02:04:18.080 health issues.

02:04:18.720 And hey, like, that's fine, but like, I don't want to date with someone who's coming with

02:04:24.100 baggage.

02:04:25.300 What if your wife or whatever, if in the future decides to get a BBL, would you divorce her? 1.00

02:04:31.820 There's, I can't imagine a woman that I would marry would ever be inclined, like the type 1.00

02:04:39.140 of woman that I'm attracted to would ever be inclined to get a BBL. 0.99

02:04:43.160 I just, I, it, it's so, unless she got fucking hit in the head, like there's no way a girl 0.99

02:04:51.240 that I'm going to be attracted to, I think would want to get a BBL. 0.99

02:04:56.740 Never say never.

02:04:58.240 Exactly.

02:04:58.480 I mean, you will never know.

02:05:00.640 I mean, it can just change her mind.

02:05:03.380 Hypothetically, if that were to happen.

02:05:05.200 If she got a BBL?

02:05:06.100 Yeah.

02:05:07.660 Would you be like, okay, I guess I have to love you.

02:05:10.680 Am I the breadwinner?

02:05:11.460 Like, well, first off, I don't think men should get married, but that's another, we can, we 1.00

02:05:17.360 can get into that conversation.

02:05:18.700 Wait, please do.

02:05:19.300 Why shouldn't men get married? 1.00

02:05:20.900 You know, okay.

02:05:21.380 We'll talk, we'll talk about that.

02:05:22.580 I'll wrap, I'll wrap the, the whole BBL thing.

02:05:25.380 So, uh, let's say, can I change it if it's my girlfriend?

02:05:32.100 Sure.

02:05:32.520 Okay.

02:05:32.740 So if my girlfriend gets a BBL, I'm going to not be attracted to her anymore. 1.00

02:05:39.480 Like, I'm probably going to lose attraction.

02:05:41.960 Like, to me, it would just be unattractive.

02:05:45.080 Like, in the same way, like, and I'm sure women feel this same way too.

02:05:50.920 If men, there's something substantial that changed about them. 0.64

02:05:53.880 I don't know if maybe if they gained a hundred pounds, you might not be as attracted to them

02:05:57.640 anymore, but like, physical attraction is important.

02:06:04.320 Sex is important. 0.96

02:06:05.080 If you're no longer physically attracted to your partner, it's going to make sex difficult.

02:06:11.700 Um, of course, I acknowledge, like, as you age, you know, you, your physical attractiveness

02:06:19.320 starts to wane and that's to be expected.

02:06:21.840 But if you make, if you start making like crazy changes to your appearance, then yeah,

02:06:30.940 that, that might, that might lead to the downfall of the relationship.

02:06:34.520 Like, there's definitely guys out there that, for example, if you were dating a guy and you

02:06:40.860 decided to shave your head, your hair, you know, maybe he has a really strong preference

02:06:45.880 for women with long hair. 0.99

02:06:47.360 He might have, he might, he might say, hey, listen, I love you.

02:06:50.680 It's your choice.

02:06:52.000 But like, I don't, I don't want that because I wouldn't be attracted.

02:06:56.220 Like, it would, I would lose attraction for you.

02:06:58.800 I can't throw a wig on.

02:07:04.020 Now, now there could be scenarios.

02:07:05.880 I mean, I was going to say there could be scenarios with like cancer or something and

02:07:11.460 you're doing chemo.

02:07:12.240 I think that's a bit different.

02:07:13.100 But if you just shaved your head, it could be, I mean, it certainly could be grounds for 0.79

02:07:18.500 a guy to break up with you because he might not be attracted to you anymore.

02:07:22.160 I don't necessarily think it's, I mean, both men and women, I mean, both men and women

02:07:27.220 are attracted, have physical attraction triggers.

02:07:30.580 So I, did I kind of wrap up?

02:07:34.240 I don't know.

02:07:34.700 I just don't, I don't think I would ever, it's.

02:07:39.860 I've seen some pretty bald girls. 1.00

02:07:42.360 No, that's not, no, I've, I think, by the way, I don't, I actually, for me personally,

02:07:49.100 I was speaking more so for most men because I think for most men, if their girlfriend

02:07:52.640 shaved their head, I think a lot of men would probably be like, they might not break up

02:07:56.460 with a girl, but they'd probably be like, I think you're less attractive than you were

02:07:59.360 with long hair.

02:08:01.140 Me personally, I do think girls are more attractive with long hair, but I would date a girl with 1.00

02:08:05.960 a shaved head.

02:08:06.500 Like that wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker for me.

02:08:09.840 And if I, if I love my girl and she wanted to shave her head, it probably wouldn't be for

02:08:14.340 me, that wouldn't be a deal breaker, but I definitely know guys that I think that might

02:08:18.320 be a deal breaker for them.

02:08:19.720 So, but BBL, yeah, that's, what, only BBL Brian wants is, oh, yeah, actually, we should

02:08:28.280 talk about that.

02:08:31.220 Wait, okay, so, did I get caught up on, hold on, let me do super chats and then I'll answer

02:08:36.220 your question about marriage.

02:08:37.160 Uh, so, did, we did this one, uh, wait, Eric, are you able to highlight the membership

02:08:51.500 one?

02:08:51.860 Oh, it took you so long to come up with that comeback.

02:08:55.500 A woman passed her prim, prim, I think he said, I assume he means prime, 28 and up, is 0.94

02:09:03.680 basically a guy who lives in his mom's basement to where she became the man she wanted.

02:09:08.340 This is to nobody in particular.

02:09:11.740 That doesn't even make sense.

02:09:13.180 I am the man I want. 0.66

02:09:15.620 I guess he's also shooting shots at you too. 0.83

02:09:19.440 Thank you.

02:09:20.480 Thank you.

02:09:20.920 Thank you.

02:09:22.740 Uh, Eric, were you able to highlight the membership?

02:09:26.480 Um, Elder Scrolls, thank you for, uh, the membership, man.

02:09:29.900 Appreciate it. 0.96

02:09:30.560 Only BBL Brian wants his big bouncy labia. 1.00

02:09:32.680 Um, you know what, Elder Scrolls 333, I'm not going to lie.

02:09:42.940 Wait, Eric, is the, I think we have the, my nonprofit organization pulled up.

02:09:49.660 Can you pull that up for us, Eric?

02:09:53.260 Can you pull it up?

02:09:54.400 Um, so guys, please support my nonprofit organization, the American Network Against Labia Plasty or

02:10:02.580 Anal for short, where a grassroots nonprofit movement to empower women who may feel self-conscious

02:10:10.380 if they have a large labia, you know, because some women, they, they like will get surgery 1.00

02:10:17.540 talking, talking, talking about plastic surgery, they will, labia, labia, place, plasty.

02:10:25.920 If they have an Audi, they're going to chop it off like that.

02:10:29.920 It's wrong.

02:10:33.140 And, you know, I think we should be empowering women to accept their presentation.

02:10:39.880 Go off.

02:10:40.520 In that region.

02:10:41.680 I agree.

02:10:42.080 And it's unfortunate.

02:10:44.320 It hurts me that, like, I don't think we should be shaming genitalia for both men or women.

02:10:50.100 What?

02:10:51.180 Huh?

02:10:51.700 You said don't shave?

02:10:52.860 No, don't shave.

02:10:55.200 Do shave. 0.90

02:10:56.160 Do shave. 0.90

02:10:57.220 Please shave. 0.71

02:10:58.480 Do shave. 0.90

02:10:59.380 Don't shave.

02:11:00.800 Like, you know, you're shaming that guy because he, he had two hands.

02:11:05.520 No, I'm kidding.

02:11:06.220 I don't care.

02:11:07.000 Two hands.

02:11:08.160 Really?

02:11:08.680 Two hands security?

02:11:09.540 Two hands.

02:11:10.080 You sure you don't got pics?

02:11:11.260 I'm positive because I looked for it because somebody else asked.

02:11:14.160 Okay.

02:11:14.380 Like, they wanted to see.

02:11:15.260 Okay.

02:11:15.920 But, you know, guys, if they're small in the bulge, I don't think we should shame them.

02:11:19.420 And if a woman has an Audi, we shouldn't be pouty.

02:11:24.040 I just made that up right now.

02:11:26.540 But, no, because you hear guys say, like, beef curtains, wizard sleeve, Arby's.

02:11:33.640 No, okay.

02:11:34.120 Well, you pushed it.

02:11:35.700 What are they?

02:11:36.640 Huh? 0.99

02:11:37.000 I've been watching a lot of porn. 0.94

02:11:38.920 What?

02:11:39.440 What do you mean?

02:11:40.160 What?

02:11:40.840 Where you have all those names for all the ladies. 0.98

02:11:43.200 Well, it's unfortunate that women are, you know. 1.00

02:11:47.400 You said wizard sleeves?

02:11:48.580 Wizard sleeve. 1.00

02:11:50.480 Fuck it. 1.00

02:11:51.140 Oh, man. 1.00

02:11:52.060 I'll put the magic on you.

02:11:53.340 No.

02:11:54.740 It could be exact.

02:11:55.820 What?

02:11:56.100 Or they're, well, you're, who's bi here?

02:11:58.920 You, you, and then you.

02:12:01.680 Do you guys have a preference for a labia preference?

02:12:05.360 Oh, no.

02:12:05.940 I don't really care.

02:12:07.580 I have an Audi.

02:12:08.540 So, I mean, I enjoy ones that look like mine.

02:12:10.660 But I'm good with all of them.

02:12:12.020 Team Audi.

02:12:12.780 Team Audi.

02:12:14.080 All right.

02:12:14.640 You're redeeming yourself, Kiana. 0.57

02:12:16.040 I'm an Audi.

02:12:17.420 Okay.

02:12:17.940 Do you have a preference?

02:12:19.260 Clean coochie.

02:12:20.220 But, of course, it's clean.

02:12:23.600 But, but any, I don't know what it looks like.

02:12:25.400 I mean.

02:12:25.780 Any or Audi.

02:12:28.760 Labia.

02:12:30.180 Do you know what we're talking about?

02:12:31.460 I do.

02:12:31.680 Do you know what we're talking about here?

02:12:35.520 But, I don't have a preference.

02:12:37.180 You don't have a preference?

02:12:38.240 Okay.

02:12:39.860 Who's bi? 0.72

02:12:40.360 You're bi too?

02:12:41.040 I don't have a preference.

02:12:42.020 No preference?

02:12:42.780 Okay. 1.00

02:12:43.600 I do look, say like I'm looking at pictures of vaginas. 1.00

02:12:47.980 I'm going to look at this one and be like, damn, that's a really pretty pussy. 1.00

02:12:51.360 And I'm like, for the most part, I'm like, okay, when it's all like clean and cute, like 1.00

02:12:55.700 not very realistic, but cute.

02:12:57.700 I think it is so cute.

02:12:59.080 And go off you. 1.00

02:12:59.940 I don't, I don't think that I would prefer eating yours more than this other pretty pussy 1.00

02:13:04.860 that don't look like yours. 1.00

02:13:06.620 Like, I don't know, you know?

02:13:09.140 Okay.

02:13:09.740 Because.

02:13:10.660 Okay.

02:13:11.080 So, you're, you prefer innies?

02:13:12.740 No.

02:13:13.980 I can't say that.

02:13:15.060 That's rude to myself.

02:13:16.060 No.

02:13:17.380 Oh, so you have.

02:13:19.060 Next question.

02:13:19.900 No.

02:13:22.360 You have an Audi? 1.00

02:13:25.040 James is talking some mad shit about me in there. 1.00

02:13:27.940 Oh, shit. 1.00

02:13:29.000 All right. 1.00

02:13:29.880 Well, and here's the other thing that kind of rubs me the wrong way. 0.65

02:13:32.640 Guys wrongly think that if a woman has slept with a lot of men, that that changes the labia.

02:13:40.500 That's not true.

02:13:41.200 No.

02:13:41.740 Because when you're 13, you're looking up a.

02:13:43.740 You could be a virgin and have an Audi.

02:13:46.400 So, that's not how that works. 0.95

02:13:48.180 I know being a young girl, I definitely had my fair share of times looking up a vaginal 1.00

02:13:52.480 pasty trying to get it. 0.54

02:13:54.080 Hey, can we make it all cute and perfect like it looks like in the movies?

02:13:58.000 In the movies.

02:13:59.860 But, yeah.

02:14:00.800 If you need convincing not to get a labia place D, my DMs are open.

02:14:07.220 Okay.

02:14:07.600 Moving on.

02:14:08.540 Super chats.

02:14:09.320 Let's see here. 0.98

02:14:10.180 Well, be fucking nice, James. 0.99

02:14:11.720 I'm going to tell your mom if you're not nice to me. 0.99

02:14:13.740 Uh-oh.

02:14:15.120 Oh, God.

02:14:16.240 Okay.

02:14:17.260 Oh, marriage.

02:14:18.840 Okay.

02:14:20.200 Did anyone else kind of raise an eyebrow when I said, I don't think men should get married?

02:14:25.020 Yeah.

02:14:25.280 Why do you think that?

02:14:28.380 Because men lose in marriage. 0.77

02:14:30.540 How?

02:14:31.800 Lose?

02:14:32.480 We lose.

02:14:33.160 Men lose in marriage. 0.78

02:14:34.900 What do y'all lose?

02:14:35.840 We're, we are at a disadvantage.

02:14:42.160 Is it because like an older guy could potentially be better or more in their prime as an old

02:14:47.300 guy?

02:14:47.820 Did I say that twice?

02:14:49.900 You know, like, like for a woman, they always say she's passing her prime when she's younger, 0.99

02:14:55.080 but a young man, nobody wants to be with no clown ass young boy. 0.97

02:14:59.000 Like if you're starting to act mature, are you saying like an older man is primer? 0.98

02:15:05.240 You're younger than a younger man, and that's why a marriage would be a loss? 0.90

02:15:10.900 Well, I mean, I, to some degree, maybe age plays some factor in it, but men just lose 1.00

02:15:20.300 in marriage, and here's why.

02:15:21.980 Okay, so first off, and I think this first stat, women can also look at this and be like, 1.00

02:15:28.000 hmm, is this a good idea?

02:15:29.020 So 50% of marriages end in divorce.

02:15:31.480 So for both men and women, that's, uh, odds aren't looking great. 0.99

02:15:40.020 Eight, now here's some of the shit for why men should not get married. 0.98

02:15:43.820 80% of divorces are initiated by women. 0.99

02:15:47.100 90% of child support payments go from men to women.

02:15:51.020 97% of alimony and spousal support payments go from men to women.

02:15:57.540 So the stats aren't looking great for men.

02:16:02.280 Go get you a rider.

02:16:03.180 A rider?

02:16:03.760 A rider?

02:16:04.460 What's that?

02:16:04.900 Yeah, girl, that's going to be down.

02:16:06.220 Oh, a ride or die?

02:16:07.280 But I got to argue with you on that.

02:16:09.300 Okay, go ahead.

02:16:10.640 Because the simple fact is the woman provides the household entirely. 1.00

02:16:14.520 She's going to cook, she's going to clean, she's going to have a job if she's able to 0.94

02:16:17.600 have the job, where the man usually has no responsibility, only just work.

02:16:22.060 That's not true.

02:16:23.500 How's that not true?

02:16:24.240 Household responsibilities?

02:16:25.860 Take the trash out.

02:16:26.440 Men have responsibilities.

02:16:27.560 Okay, take the trash out, mow the lawn. 0.98

02:16:29.520 It's not significant as to the household doing for the woman.

02:16:34.020 It's pretty significant.

02:16:34.660 No, no, if you go back to biblical days for Adam and Eve, a woman's place is in the house. 0.96

02:16:40.320 So it is only fair and it's only right for the man to provide child support and alimony

02:16:45.160 for that woman.

02:16:46.020 Because at the end of the day, the children are with her 24-7 while the man is the bread

02:16:52.000 winner.

02:16:53.780 Well, I mean, they wouldn't be providing child support and alimony payments while they're

02:16:57.740 married.

02:16:58.780 Correct.

02:16:59.400 But she's not going to really have a full-time job.

02:17:02.780 Because she's going to have to take care of the kids. 1.00

02:17:03.700 She's going to have to take care of the kids. 1.00

02:17:05.000 She's going to have to hold down the household with a guy. 1.00

02:17:07.240 He's only going to get the kids, what, Tuesday, Thursdays, only whenever he wants to?

02:17:11.500 While she still has to figure her child care out? 0.99

02:17:13.520 Like, there's a lot more responsibility on a woman than a man, unless he has full custody.

02:17:21.020 Okay, here's the thing, right?

02:17:22.220 Is that, let's say you marry a guy and maybe you've been married for three years and there's

02:17:30.060 different, I'm not an expert in the laws, but the longer you're with someone, I think

02:17:34.680 the longer you would get alimony or spousal support, sometimes you can get that for, it's

02:17:40.260 calculated, or sometimes you just get it for life.

02:17:43.080 I'm not, and it varies by state and there's all kinds of factors, right?

02:17:47.800 But let's say you're a woman and have any of you been bored in a relationship?

02:17:54.980 Yes.

02:17:55.900 Yes.

02:17:56.600 Yes.

02:17:57.100 Any bored?

02:17:58.340 Yeah.

02:17:58.760 Have any of you ended a relationship?

02:18:01.260 Because you were bored?

02:18:02.360 None of you have, but have any of you broken up with a guy?

02:18:05.360 Ended a relationship?

02:18:06.460 No.

02:18:06.640 Because you're bored?

02:18:07.840 Not just for being bored.

02:18:08.520 Not because of bored.

02:18:09.220 But maybe, sure, there's other factors, but here's the thing.

02:18:12.300 Let's say you get bored in the marriage.

02:18:15.540 You have a document that now says, well, you can walk away with no repercussions and you 0.98

02:18:23.100 get this amount of money, you get half a shit, you start, it starts incentivizing you towards

02:18:31.860 wanting the divorce, so the way the marriage laws are set up currently in the West, whether 0.96

02:18:43.400 you're a man or a woman, speaking outside of marriage here, you should never sign a contract 1.00

02:18:49.480 with someone who is rewarded for breaking that contract.

02:18:53.040 Yep.

02:18:53.800 And it happens to be the case that when it comes to marriage, whoever is not the breadwinner 0.56

02:19:00.420 in that relationship is rewarded for breaking the contract, financially.

02:19:08.600 And.

02:19:09.860 It does sound a little crazy.

02:19:11.980 So.

02:19:13.000 Just a little bit.

02:19:14.020 But that's the thing.

02:19:15.200 Like.

02:19:16.860 That's the thing.

02:19:17.720 And, you know, people change their mind.

02:19:19.420 And people, you know, look, marriage, does anyone know the vows that they say when you

02:19:25.100 get married?

02:19:26.000 Till death do us part, to sickness and health.

02:19:28.360 That's the one.

02:19:29.140 Till death do us part.

02:19:31.120 50% of marriages end in divorce.

02:19:33.760 So people's words in today's day and age mean nothing.

02:19:37.840 Nothing.

02:19:38.120 Not at all.

02:19:38.680 I agree. 0.99

02:19:39.160 But till death do us part, that, that's not just romantic shit. 0.99

02:19:44.160 That has to mean something, right? 0.98

02:19:45.800 So, it's clear to me that when people are getting married and they say, till death do

02:19:52.380 us part, that's not happening anymore.

02:19:56.100 And part of that is, I think that's a societal thing.

02:19:59.840 I think it's a cultural thing.

02:20:00.960 People are, there's a whole bunch of reasons why.

02:20:04.620 But the marriage laws are also a factor. 0.99

02:20:07.160 And the marriage laws, as they are currently written, suck. 1.00

02:20:13.500 Fucking suck. 1.00

02:20:14.440 Like, there's literally a whole show where you meet somebody behind a wall for fucking 1.00

02:20:18.880 seven days and then you see if you want to get married. 0.96

02:20:21.600 And you think that it, that it matters?

02:20:24.000 No.

02:20:24.240 Like, people are definitely crumbling the way that marriage is, was set up originally.

02:20:30.340 But, um, I lost my point.

02:20:33.380 But it was, it was, it was put across.

02:20:35.520 We understand what I was getting to, right?

02:20:37.660 Kind of.

02:20:38.820 Kind of.

02:20:39.200 But okay, let me, also I just want to point out, as men, we're looking at other men and

02:20:46.280 hearing their experiences and hearing how they're getting destroyed in family court,

02:20:50.720 how they're getting destroyed in divorces, how they're getting destroyed.

02:20:53.640 Also, with child custody, because oftentimes custody defers to the mother.

02:21:00.000 And sure, there are deadbeat dads out there, but there are men, there are men out there

02:21:03.560 that want 50-50 custody.

02:21:06.160 You should really work it out with somebody that would take that into consideration when

02:21:10.160 you guys are done.

02:21:10.940 But okay, so here's a list of some very attractive, high-status, wealthy men that have all had

02:21:19.580 divorces.

02:21:20.720 Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Dr. Dre, Ryan Reynolds, Tom Brady,

02:21:27.460 Lance Armstrong, Alex Rodriguez, Channing Tatum, Chris Rock, Ben Affleck, Chris Pratt, Liam

02:21:33.200 Hemsworth, Ben Stiller, David Duchovny, Orlando Bloom, Tiger Woods, Sean Penn, Sylvester

02:21:40.420 Stallone, Paul McCartney, Ryan Felipe, Jason Momoa, Michael Jordan.

02:21:45.360 Wait, Jason Momoa is not divorced, they're separated.

02:21:48.820 I mean...

02:21:49.460 They're separated.

02:21:50.300 I mean...

02:21:51.380 They're not divorced yet, they're separated.

02:21:52.580 But come on, Jason Momoa is a catch.

02:21:54.280 The point I'm trying to make is if these men, highly successful, very attractive, high-status,

02:22:01.140 high-earners, if they can't hold on to a girl, what chance does the average man have? 0.99

02:22:06.860 Doesn't that bring you back to fucking... 0.99

02:22:11.640 A man having a bigger pool of options and doing whatever the fuck he wants because he 1.00

02:22:18.820 has all those options. 0.79

02:22:19.600 And of course, a woman who wants to be with a man that she chose to be with, you know what

02:22:24.580 I'm saying?

02:22:24.980 And she's going to expect you to hold on to your vows, but you're so famous, and you're

02:22:30.080 so high, and you can talk to anybody you want, you know?

02:22:34.140 I'm done.

02:22:35.080 Okay.

02:22:36.500 What's their reasons for divorce?

02:22:38.420 What's their...

02:22:39.120 I mean, I don't...

02:22:40.060 I don't...

02:22:40.660 I didn't write down their reasons for divorce.

02:22:43.440 Maybe in some of these scenarios or examples I provided, perhaps there was...

02:22:48.980 There could have been infidelity.

02:22:51.060 Who knows?

02:22:51.740 But...

02:22:53.100 I mean, look, you have...

02:22:56.140 For example, you have Jeff Bezos...

02:22:59.140 Okay.

02:22:59.660 You have three of the richest men in the world, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, all divorced.

02:23:06.400 Elon Musk got a lot of kids.

02:23:07.920 That's a lot of baby mama drama. 1.00

02:23:08.740 He does...

02:23:09.300 He does...

02:23:09.720 He's doing something interesting there.

02:23:12.260 And then if you listen to his Twitter and all this, he has a very interesting mindset.

02:23:16.080 So who's really going to put up with that, even if it's for money?

02:23:19.040 For the divorce, did the woman make the reason for wanting to leave? 1.00

02:23:23.740 I feel like it doesn't usually start with her.

02:23:25.840 I don't think she was sitting there like, how can I just take all this niggas money? 1.00

02:23:29.600 She was like, hmm, he does a lot of shady, weird things, and I don't think I want to be

02:23:34.880 in this situation.

02:23:35.500 Maybe it hurt me a lot, and now I want to take all your money.

02:23:37.560 That's fine with me.

02:23:38.640 I mean, you hurt me deeply.

02:23:40.280 We were supposed to be here till death.

02:23:41.460 I think if we want to incentivize men to want to get married, there's going to have to 0.60

02:23:52.940 be a reworking of the marriage laws in this country. 0.99

02:23:57.040 Because unless you have the wool pulled over your eyes as a guy, and you've just been oblivious

02:24:02.340 to what's going on, like...

02:24:04.460 What if you're broke?

02:24:06.560 What if you're a broke man, and you get married?

02:24:09.300 There are stories of men divorcing their wives, and their wives were the breadwinner, and

02:24:15.080 the men, they get paid...

02:24:17.000 Say they got eaten pay, and they got a divorce.

02:24:20.240 Now what?

02:24:22.180 I'm not sure how that plays out.

02:24:24.320 If there's...

02:24:26.580 I'm not sure how that plays out, but the marriage laws are pretty... 1.00

02:24:33.820 There's definitely a bias against men in the court system. 0.99

02:24:36.700 And you see that in custody, in how custody is awarded primarily to women.

02:24:45.720 Because it came out of my custody.

02:24:47.400 What's that?

02:24:47.640 I didn't carry the child for nine months.

02:24:49.400 I didn't have to encounter that.

02:24:50.840 You didn't have everything that comes along with it.

02:24:52.460 Well, so I think there is...

02:24:56.860 Women, I think, are probably, during the earlier years, I think are a bit more nurturing than 1.00

02:25:03.020 men are, but I think it's important for a child to have both the mother and the father

02:25:08.940 in the picture.

02:25:11.540 Definitely.

02:25:11.900 But that's not our society anymore.

02:25:14.000 It should be.

02:25:15.040 It's not our society anymore.

02:25:16.340 But it should be.

02:25:17.360 Why should it be?

02:25:18.180 Because now you're excluding the lesbians with the lesbians, the women that are really 1.00

02:25:26.180 successful and only want to have IVF, like you're excluding them.

02:25:30.540 Well, okay.

02:25:31.260 So technically...

02:25:32.100 So for lesbian and gay couples, a two-parent household is better than the one-parent household.

02:25:37.820 So if it's two moms or two dads, that's fine.

02:25:40.900 I don't agree with that.

02:25:41.740 Because you got women that really want IVF and have a baby and are able to provide for 1.00

02:25:45.700 their kid.

02:25:46.060 That might be fine, but what I would say to them is, is they are stacking the deck against

02:25:52.900 their kid.

02:25:54.040 How?

02:25:54.980 By not having another parent in the household, by not having, for the women, by not having 0.99

02:25:59.480 a father.

02:26:00.940 Because men and women, like, we kind of parent a bit differently.

02:26:06.900 What would you say?

02:26:07.680 Okay, so, I mean... 1.00

02:26:09.980 Your dad's going to be like, you're a whore. 1.00

02:26:14.520 And you're like, why are you a whore? 1.00

02:26:16.180 There you go. 1.00

02:26:20.260 Exactly.

02:26:21.180 But so, I mean, and the statistics kind of exemplify why a two-parent household is ideal.

02:26:30.300 You know, the...

02:26:32.820 I don't know the exact numbers, but the majority of people who are incarcerated came from one

02:26:39.920 parent households.

02:26:40.880 The majority of school shooters came from one parent households.

02:26:45.900 Were their parents into guns or in jail?

02:26:49.100 And that's why they weren't around?

02:26:51.520 I mean, it could be a myriad of factors.

02:26:53.280 It could be the father could have been in jail.

02:26:57.500 It could have just been a breakup and the mom didn't want to pursue it. 1.00

02:27:01.360 Maybe the dad didn't want to pursue it.

02:27:03.120 But the statistics are out.

02:27:05.800 Children who grow up in two-parent households are at every statistical advantage.

02:27:11.580 And by the way, I want to make something clear.

02:27:12.900 I'm not saying that if you grow up in a single mother or single father household that you're

02:27:17.540 going to be a failure or a criminal.

02:27:19.880 That's not what I'm saying.

02:27:20.720 But you are at an advantage growing up in a two-parent household.

02:27:27.520 Go ahead, Janine.

02:27:28.500 Would you rather have, like, if it's like a toxic environment to have that two-parent?

02:27:35.520 Or would you rather have a single parent?

02:27:38.460 But, like, do you get what I mean?

02:27:41.440 Well, it's difficult, right?

02:27:43.460 Like, if it's really that toxic, I mean, I think, first off...

02:27:49.560 Being a single would be a lot better than having two parents who are constantly fighting.

02:27:54.560 There are dudes in jail for a variety of things because they grew up in a two-person home where 0.82

02:28:01.560 their parents beat the fuck out of each other.

02:28:03.400 Like, I don't know. 0.98

02:28:04.800 Sure.

02:28:05.600 But, okay, the majority...

02:28:06.980 Even verbally.

02:28:07.540 But you can't go based off the incarceration because, let's be honest, majority of the

02:28:11.100 incarcerations are minorities. 0.52

02:28:13.600 You can't do that.

02:28:14.340 It's a whole bunch of bias in the United States and prejudice.

02:28:17.080 So you kind of have to factor that out.

02:28:19.740 Like, you're doing the studies based off of, like, who's in jail.

02:28:23.040 It's mostly black and browns in jail. 1.00

02:28:25.760 So... 0.97

02:28:26.080 Yes.

02:28:26.540 Kind of...

02:28:27.140 So I can't agree with you on that part.

02:28:29.720 But the single motherhood rate in the black community is very high.

02:28:36.220 But for what reason?

02:28:37.140 I'm not sure.

02:28:37.740 Because the minority is incarcerated. 0.54

02:28:39.500 Incarcerated.

02:28:40.280 Yeah, correct.

02:28:41.320 Due to incarceration and the crack pandemic.

02:28:44.140 Not to mention, thanks to Bill Clinton implementing that whole, we're going to knock them hard,

02:28:49.080 go down, there you go.

02:28:50.560 Mass incarceration.

02:28:51.720 So I'm just saying, you can't go based off the stats.

02:28:55.220 Well, I mean...

02:28:56.000 We're trying to get better, but it's still in our system.

02:28:59.860 What I would say, though, whatever race you are, you probably shouldn't get knocked up by a criminal.

02:29:08.440 But not everybody starts off as a criminal.

02:29:10.000 What's that?

02:29:10.480 Not everybody starts off as a criminal.

02:29:12.780 The average brown and black person is going to be profiled.

02:29:15.680 But you know women that are attracted to, like, gangbangers? 1.00

02:29:18.820 Like, there are women out there that are attracted to guys that are fucking drug dealers. 1.00

02:29:23.320 Like, there are women that will go for men like that. 1.00

02:29:26.040 So you're... 1.00

02:29:27.820 Look, could a guy have a clean record, and then you fuck with him, and then he does a fucking murder bid? 1.00

02:29:35.900 I guess. 1.00

02:29:37.080 But, like, usually you see most people that are, like, incarcerated, like, the signs are going to be there.

02:29:42.640 Not all of them.

02:29:44.380 He's in jail for having an ounce of weed in the back of his car.

02:29:48.160 Like, oh, no. 1.00

02:29:48.860 Yeah, that's fucked up. 0.99

02:29:49.540 That should be the case. 0.99

02:29:50.640 The incident that happened in, what is it, New York, where they arrested all the five black boys because they didn't have no witnesses, and they were all incarcerated.

02:29:59.640 Just like the Spanish girl that was incarcerated, and they finally released her.

02:30:03.560 Like, there's multiple scenarios of incidents of innocent people like me or you that are just locked up on a daily basis.

02:30:13.260 So, I...

02:30:14.560 Not even just that, losing their lives.

02:30:16.760 Losing their faith.

02:30:17.580 You're like, what?

02:30:18.280 And I didn't want to try to be depressed.

02:30:19.220 Yeah.

02:30:19.940 I'll do it.

02:30:23.160 I mean, ultimately, I think my point still stands, though.

02:30:26.060 I mean, we can talk about the reasons, potential reasons for why, but the point I'm just trying to make is,

02:30:30.780 is that you put your children at the greatest advantage in a two-parent household.

02:30:36.600 So, if you're a single mother, you should want a father, whether it's the biological father or a stepfather,

02:30:45.480 although preferably the biological father should be...

02:30:48.800 What's that?

02:30:49.100 What if it's your dad?

02:30:50.020 Oh, my...

02:30:50.780 He has a grandpa to look up to.

02:30:52.380 That could work, too.

02:30:53.660 It doesn't just have to be the dad.

02:30:54.940 But I do think we need more positive male role models.

02:31:00.240 I agree.

02:31:01.220 In people's lives.

02:31:02.560 Just talk to the men about that.

02:31:04.200 Talk to the men about that?

02:31:05.680 Yes.

02:31:05.880 What did you think?

02:31:06.940 Talk to the...

02:31:07.460 I was doing the wrong group.

02:31:08.900 No.

02:31:11.060 But, okay.

02:31:13.720 But, okay.

02:31:14.480 Look.

02:31:14.980 Going back to the marriage thing, it's just a bad bet for men. 0.68

02:31:19.100 Men, don't get married. 1.00

02:31:20.400 Don't cohabitate.

02:31:22.740 Men get married if you want to get married. 0.98

02:31:24.760 Don't do it.

02:31:25.360 Don't do it.

02:31:26.320 It's a trap.

02:31:27.580 Not every female is going to go after your money, though. 1.00

02:31:30.960 Like, I mean...

02:31:31.960 What if she got that flame?

02:31:34.600 Flame what? 1.00

02:31:35.580 Pussy? 1.00

02:31:35.960 You know it. 1.00

02:31:37.620 That's a terrible reason.

02:31:38.960 That's a bad...

02:31:39.460 That's a bad...

02:31:39.480 That's a terrible reason.

02:31:41.040 I talk about weed all day.

02:31:42.360 Oh, okay.

02:31:43.360 But, yeah.

02:31:47.380 I wouldn't...

02:31:47.820 Okay, guys.

02:31:48.360 Here's what I recommend.

02:31:49.740 And, you know, I had a...

02:31:51.740 I was involved...

02:31:52.740 I was a plaintiff in the lawsuit.

02:31:54.100 And I remember before I...

02:31:56.480 Before they heard the civil cases, it was like the judge was hearing a couple of family court cases.

02:32:03.160 So, while I was waiting for my case to get called, the judge pulled up a mother and a couple that was in the process of getting divorced.

02:32:12.660 And they had a kid.

02:32:13.480 It was the most depressing thing I ever heard.

02:32:19.260 These two grown adults in front of a judge arguing about the custody and the money.

02:32:25.100 And it's like, I thought to myself, I never want to be in that position.

02:32:32.000 So, men, my...

02:32:32.880 And honestly, maybe women too. 0.99

02:32:34.560 I don't know.

02:32:35.120 My suggestion would be go spend a day or two at family court.

02:32:41.260 Watch some divorce proceedings.

02:32:42.860 Watch some custody proceedings.

02:32:44.520 And then decide if you want to sign a legally binding contract.

02:32:51.420 Why don't you...

02:32:52.700 And get married.

02:32:53.380 Get married and then go look at that.

02:32:55.060 And then say, oh, maybe we don't want to put ourselves through this.

02:32:58.460 We want to work on building up together.

02:33:00.920 Like, it doesn't have to be before you.

02:33:02.440 I mean, that's a good way to prepare, I guess.

02:33:04.720 For something sad, you're really setting yourself up to be by yourself, which is not what we're all here to do.

02:33:10.500 Well, I think you can still have a life partner.

02:33:14.240 But then if you leave your life partner, then you have to...

02:33:16.560 You have to pretty much get to a divorce depending on the state you're living in.

02:33:19.760 You have to what?

02:33:20.360 So depending on the state that you're living in, if y'all are cohabitating, then if y'all decide to split, you still have to get a divorce, like Texas and Florida.

02:33:27.700 You're talking about common law marriage?

02:33:29.100 Mm-hmm, common law.

02:33:29.580 Yeah.

02:33:29.760 So that applies to a lot of states.

02:33:30.880 Yes.

02:33:30.960 So...

02:33:31.400 Thank you for bringing that up.

02:33:32.700 If you're in a common law marriage state, look it up.

02:33:38.100 Don't cohabitate.

02:33:39.760 Yep.

02:33:40.120 Be careful.

02:33:41.120 Don't do anything.

02:33:41.700 If you're living with her for a certain period of time, the government's going to be like, well, you weren't technically married, but you're married.

02:33:48.960 Mm-hmm.

02:33:49.400 So just be careful, guys.

02:33:51.460 But yeah, like I said, go to the court, go to your local courthouse, sit in for a couple hours, family court, watch the divorce proceedings. 1.00

02:33:58.840 That shit is fucking depressing. 0.99

02:34:02.140 Anyways, I meant... 1.00

02:34:03.140 I don't doubt it.

02:34:06.080 Word?

02:34:07.120 Show.

02:34:07.580 I feel like I've just...

02:34:09.420 Okay.

02:34:11.400 Okay, so let's do a video.

02:34:13.360 Or wait, do we have any soup chats?

02:34:14.660 I think we've got some soup chats.

02:34:17.320 Here we go.

02:34:18.040 We've got Davon Jackson here with the $10 soup chat.

02:34:20.400 I would kindly ask the women to state what a man gets from a wife that he wouldn't get from a girlfriend outside of tax purposes, in which case you can enter a more easily dissolvable civil union. 0.54

02:34:30.520 And that's a really good question, Davon.

02:34:33.440 So what does a man get from marriage that he doesn't get from a girlfriend?

02:34:42.740 Commitment.

02:34:44.200 But you can get that from a girlfriend. 0.57

02:34:45.620 But you can break up with me at any time if I'm your girlfriend.

02:34:48.340 You're really supposed to take your vow serious if you actually and truly believe that.

02:34:52.300 But 50% of divorces end in marriage.

02:34:54.700 Or sorry.

02:34:55.220 Exactly.

02:34:55.840 No.

02:34:55.980 I got tongue-tied there.

02:34:58.700 But if you actually believe in it, you, like, literally get the true meaningful commitment.

02:35:04.600 Not because a girlfriend can go, I'm just going to go here, I can play there, just like for a man.

02:35:08.360 Okay.

02:35:08.720 It's the same way.

02:35:09.900 Sure.

02:35:11.440 What do you think that men get out of marriage? 1.00

02:35:17.120 I will.

02:35:18.420 If anything.

02:35:19.180 If anything, well, I mean, I'd say, like, you just get to be with the person who's your best friend that you like to spend the most time with.

02:35:27.260 But you know what?

02:35:27.720 You make it.

02:35:28.660 We'll make it that much real.

02:35:30.400 Like, get to share the same last name.

02:35:33.240 And.

02:35:34.080 Well, you don't need marriage for that. 0.99

02:35:36.600 But okay.

02:35:37.040 You said share the same last name.

02:35:38.720 So you're going to, if you do get married, you'll take your husband's name?

02:35:41.080 I'm going to hyphenate.

02:35:42.720 Share the same last.

02:35:43.740 Okay.

02:35:44.120 I know.

02:35:44.640 It's still there.

02:35:45.320 I have to.

02:35:45.760 Hold on.

02:35:46.080 We'll go around the table on.

02:35:47.900 No, I don't know.

02:35:48.860 I haven't decided.

02:35:49.300 Let's go around the table on this.

02:35:51.680 Hyphenate.

02:35:52.340 Or do you take your husband's last name?

02:35:55.020 I'll take my significant other's last name.

02:35:57.040 Okay.

02:35:57.560 I will take it.

02:35:58.640 Hyphen.

02:35:59.640 Hyphenate.

02:36:00.280 Okay.

02:36:01.240 Hyphen.

02:36:01.980 But just because.

02:36:02.700 Pull the microphone close towards you.

02:36:03.920 I want to hyphenate and just to keep my last name going.

02:36:08.600 Okay.

02:36:09.060 Go ahead.

02:36:10.280 I feel like it depends, but I might take the last name.

02:36:14.900 You might take the last name.

02:36:16.260 I feel like it differs also, like, for people that say are in, like, they're the only child.

02:36:21.460 Like, for me, I know that if I were to take my significant other's last name, it wouldn't stop my last name because I have two little brothers.

02:36:29.060 You know what I'm saying?

02:36:30.580 And so that's like, it's not really.

02:36:32.060 I'm still Ayanna Brown.

02:36:33.360 Like, what about it?

02:36:35.140 I just.

02:36:35.540 Okay.

02:36:36.140 I decided to latch on to this one, you know?

02:36:39.220 What about you?

02:36:40.240 Over here. 0.97

02:36:40.940 Hyphenate.

02:36:41.440 Oh, I'd hyphenate.

02:36:43.880 Okay.

02:36:44.120 I'm too proud of my last name.

02:36:45.840 Paisley.

02:36:46.420 Take his.

02:36:48.060 Based.

02:36:48.560 No disrespect to my family.

02:36:51.180 Wait.

02:36:51.720 So, okay.

02:36:52.200 Um, what if, again, your ideal guy, he wants to marry you, but he, he wants you to take his last name.

02:37:01.820 Like, he has a strong preference for that.

02:37:04.620 For those of you who said hyphenate, still hyphenate or do you bend?

02:37:10.080 Let's start with you over here. 0.95

02:37:11.740 It'd be a discussion.

02:37:12.600 I mean, I feel like I'm, I'd definitely probably like crack and be like, okay, fine.

02:37:19.960 But it would definitely have to be a deep discussion.

02:37:24.200 Okay.

02:37:25.360 What about you?

02:37:26.400 You said hyphenate, right?

02:37:27.960 I said the pants.

02:37:29.540 I'm like in the boat to see if.

02:37:32.960 Depends on their last name.

02:37:34.180 I feel like if you're so infatuated in a love enough to get married, why not just fully take it then?

02:37:41.300 Like, why can't I just fully dive into this because I decided that I wanted to be with you?

02:37:45.520 Then why don't they do the same thing?

02:37:47.260 They could.

02:37:47.740 They could take my last name.

02:37:48.920 You could easily take your last name.

02:37:50.200 No one said that that was against the rule.

02:37:51.840 That's actually a good idea.

02:37:53.200 I think I'd want the man to take my last name.

02:37:55.780 Oh, wow.

02:37:57.000 Okay.

02:37:57.860 All right.

02:37:58.420 So, I mean, I have heard some people say whoever has the coolest last name, they take it.

02:38:03.440 That's cool.

02:38:04.040 I like that.

02:38:04.600 I guess how cool you guys are.

02:38:06.140 We're as best friends.

02:38:11.480 Here's the, okay.

02:38:12.260 Here's the problem with hyphenation, right?

02:38:15.060 First off, let's say that you're, you don't have a hyphenated last name.

02:38:20.280 Them still be the man's last name because surely that your parents, well, not always because if, well, if you're in single mother, how, okay.

02:38:33.240 I guess that depends.

02:38:34.840 Here's the problem with hyphenation, though.

02:38:36.380 How far do you take it?

02:38:38.060 Because let's say two people with hyphenated last names meet.

02:38:42.800 And then do they?

02:38:43.660 They got four last names.

02:38:44.700 That's a quadruple.

02:38:45.800 You know how his Spanish have a lot of last names.

02:38:48.100 And your kid wants to get married and hyphenate their last name.

02:38:50.260 If everybody's hyphenating, then it's eight.

02:38:52.540 But you know that one girl? 1.00

02:38:53.480 16, 30.

02:38:55.400 I'm sure they'll just pick something.

02:38:57.540 Ah, but now they have to pick.

02:38:59.080 See?

02:38:59.460 There's that one girl who got a whole page for her name. 1.00

02:39:02.240 I don't think that.

02:39:03.260 I saw that.

02:39:05.180 I have a pretty long name, actually.

02:39:09.500 That was just her first name.

02:39:11.040 Exactly.

02:39:11.440 Right.

02:39:11.940 I'm just curious.

02:39:16.080 How many of you consider yourself to be traditional women?

02:39:22.420 Traditional.

02:39:23.640 Traditional.

02:39:24.380 Traditional.

02:39:25.100 What is the definition of traditional again?

02:39:27.760 Like old school.

02:39:29.100 Traditional woman. 1.00

02:39:31.220 Whatever your sense of traditional is.

02:39:35.220 All right.

02:39:35.800 I'm going to just come.

02:39:36.220 I wouldn't say so because I'm very flexible.

02:39:38.660 Yeah.

02:39:38.920 I'm very open-minded.

02:39:40.740 Open-minded.

02:39:41.540 Okay.

02:39:42.200 Well, okay.

02:39:42.840 So, I mean, what I would say to those of you who said you would hyphenate, you're not traditional

02:39:48.600 women. 0.81

02:39:49.220 That's true.

02:39:50.040 I know why.

02:39:51.040 I have a whole kid.

02:39:52.780 You have a whole kid?

02:39:53.740 I have a whole kid.

02:39:54.640 You don't have half a kid?

02:39:55.900 No.

02:39:56.420 So, I have to have it hyphen for her and for him.

02:39:59.560 Okay.

02:40:00.500 Wait.

02:40:01.160 So, she's still.

02:40:03.060 Her daughter has a hyphenate.

02:40:03.720 Yeah.

02:40:04.200 Thank you.

02:40:04.520 Yeah.

02:40:05.140 So, my daughter has my last name.

02:40:06.560 So, when I get married, I'm taking on his last name.

02:40:11.200 Your daughter would still keep her last name, though.

02:40:13.200 Mm-hmm.

02:40:13.440 My last name.

02:40:14.760 Okay.

02:40:15.420 So, I would do it.

02:40:15.600 You just don't want no separation.

02:40:16.560 Correct.

02:40:16.820 I don't want any separation.

02:40:18.280 Like, I want her to still know, like, mommy's keeping her last name.

02:40:21.600 Like, we're still a family.

02:40:24.020 Okay.

02:40:24.540 Because your daughter has your last name. 0.89

02:40:27.940 Okay.

02:40:28.260 In any case, it's still not traditional.

02:40:34.160 True.

02:40:34.800 But, in all aspects, I am very much traditional in old school.

02:40:38.720 Like, I believe the woman should do her duties while I stay at home, do whatever I got to do. 1.00

02:40:42.800 But, couldn't you say one of your duties as a traditional woman would be to take your husband's last name? 0.97

02:40:47.880 Hyphenate.

02:40:48.960 I mean.

02:40:49.500 You're still taking this.

02:40:51.320 You're still taking yours, too.

02:40:53.080 Hyphenation does not.

02:40:54.440 That doesn't count.

02:40:55.220 By the way, I don't really, like, I'm not going to get married, so I don't really, like, this is not something I really care about.

02:41:02.780 But, I'm just saying, like, you can't consider yourself traditional.

02:41:08.040 And, honestly, wanting marriage is kind of traditional, too.

02:41:11.700 But, you're not willing to.

02:41:14.200 Okay.

02:41:15.060 I'm trying to think how I can frame this.

02:41:17.200 Do you guys want 50-50 partnerships?

02:41:19.340 Or, do you want a guy to be, like, more so adhere to his traditional roles in terms of being a provider?

02:41:23.600 Or, maybe some of you might want to take on a more, like, raising the kids role?

02:41:29.780 Or, do you want it to be more 50-50?

02:41:31.200 I don't think there is true 50-50.

02:41:35.560 Okay.

02:41:36.160 What do you mean by that?

02:41:37.420 Like, I'm sure, like, there's days that I'm not going to want to do some things.

02:41:42.040 And, he's going to have to do more or vice versa.

02:41:45.600 So, okay.

02:41:47.180 Yeah.

02:41:48.860 Anyone else want to come in on this?

02:41:52.140 You want me to come in on this?

02:41:55.040 I mean, I think, either way, I don't really have an opinion.

02:42:04.800 Okay.

02:42:08.200 Over here.

02:42:09.160 I forgot the question.

02:42:09.840 Over here.

02:42:10.680 So, do you want, like, you want kids, right?

02:42:16.060 Do you want kids?

02:42:16.960 Who are you asking?

02:42:17.660 You.

02:42:18.140 Me?

02:42:18.500 Yeah, you.

02:42:19.120 Oh, I'm undecided.

02:42:20.660 I've been saying for the last, like, 10 years that I don't think I do want kids.

02:42:25.840 Oh, okay.

02:42:26.440 All right.

02:42:27.020 Fair enough.

02:42:27.600 But, do you want marriage?

02:42:29.780 That's also up in the air.

02:42:31.060 Okay, fair enough.

02:42:31.560 What about you?

02:42:32.760 Do you want kids?

02:42:33.180 Very much not traditional.

02:42:34.640 In the future, yeah.

02:42:36.220 In the future, yes.

02:42:37.700 Okay, because right now you're 19.

02:42:40.020 Okay, so, yeah, probably not right now, but in the future you want kids.

02:42:43.620 Okay.

02:42:45.340 Do you want to be a stay-at-home mom?

02:42:48.320 No.

02:42:49.040 Okay, so you want to work, too?

02:42:50.340 Yes.

02:42:50.840 Okay.

02:42:51.620 Okay, that's fair enough.

02:42:53.000 I mean, if you guys are okay with having, like, a 50-50 relationship, then you have a stronger

02:42:59.640 negotiating position to say, I want to hyphenate.

02:43:03.960 Mm-hmm.

02:43:05.560 But don't expect the guy to adhere to some of his desirable traditional gender roles.

02:43:16.340 Don't bring the money in, broke.

02:43:18.160 I mean, yeah, providing could definitely be one, I would say.

02:43:26.140 So, anyways, let's move on from this.

02:43:28.380 Let's do some, a couple video reactions here.

02:43:30.380 Let's get some videos going.

02:43:34.060 Oh, are there?

02:43:41.920 Wait, this was the original one from Dave Vaughn.

02:43:44.960 Paisley, do you want kids, marriage?

02:43:48.140 Yeah, but I don't know if I would say 50-50, because, I don't know, it kind of depends

02:43:53.700 on, like, say, like, I'm home all day and the guy's working.

02:43:58.720 Obviously, I'm going to, like, pick up the slack, and I would expect the same vice versa.

02:44:04.060 Okay.

02:44:05.180 Got it.

02:44:06.940 But so you want marriage and kids?

02:44:08.780 Yes.

02:44:09.380 Okay.

02:44:10.260 Got it.

02:44:13.500 Did anyone else want to say what a man gets from a wife that he wouldn't get from a girl 1.00

02:44:17.140 friend, Paisley?

02:44:20.020 I mean, you're, like, starting your life together.

02:44:23.680 You could move in with your girlfriend, but it's not the same.

02:44:27.220 And kids, if you do want them.

02:44:29.720 You can have kids with a girlfriend.

02:44:32.120 Yeah, but I wouldn't personally.

02:44:34.260 You have less questions, hopefully.

02:44:35.140 Unless I was married.

02:44:36.520 You don't have to be as unsure of when this moment is going to be.

02:44:41.120 I know we were just talking about how 50% of marriages end in divorce, but if you are

02:44:45.240 signing this contract here to say that you guys are legally binded, then you have more

02:44:51.920 of a chance to be a little harder for you to leave.

02:44:54.200 Like, if you're more secure, you're, you could say that you have.

02:44:57.100 Who's more secure?

02:44:58.160 Both.

02:44:58.480 Both of you.

02:45:00.040 The man's more secure?

02:45:01.340 He could be.

02:45:02.200 Unless you divorce him.

02:45:03.600 I mean, y'all should really talk about that.

02:45:04.660 Well, that's the thing.

02:45:05.840 But, okay, if the guy, if the guy is the breadwinner, then.

02:45:10.400 What, what do you need?

02:45:11.540 What do you want?

02:45:12.360 Like, I don't know.

02:45:13.100 You have to talk about that.

02:45:14.140 You can't just assume that everybody knows.

02:45:15.620 Bad look.

02:45:16.780 Now, there could be, for religious men, the only benefit, I would say, for men to get 1.00

02:45:22.980 married is for religious reasons.

02:45:27.080 Because there's a religious, for, I mean, you can be.

02:45:29.900 So that you can have sex before marriage, or after marriage?

02:45:32.480 Well, I mean, it's just also like, you could, I mean, a lot of Christians have premarital 0.85

02:45:37.580 sex, but, and I'm not particularly, well, okay, I'm not, I don't want to talk about 0.97

02:45:42.640 religion, but as far as I'm concerned, I mean, maybe I'm wrong, chat, the only benefit, if

02:45:52.220 you're a breadwinner as a man for getting married, is if you're religious and it's meeting some

02:45:59.840 sort of, you're, you're meeting some sort of religious expectation.

02:46:05.860 It just sounds like a cold, lonely world.

02:46:08.700 To not get married?

02:46:10.000 Yeah.

02:46:10.440 Like, to just say, just be so against it, and saying it's so bad.

02:46:14.580 There's like, so many things that are good about it.

02:46:16.440 I haven't seen it personally, but someone has.

02:46:22.100 I know that's contradicting, but like, I don't know, it's, it's, it's like, nice to have that

02:46:26.560 hope that it could be nice.

02:46:27.980 Okay.

02:46:28.500 For the man and the woman. 0.75

02:46:31.600 Guys, don't, don't get married.

02:46:33.240 I believe some men genuinely do want to get married.

02:46:35.580 There's guys that literally just want that.

02:46:37.560 I talked to this guy the other day and he was like, literally my only dream is to get

02:46:41.700 married and have a family and provide for my girl and work on each other.

02:46:47.260 And I'm like.

02:46:48.220 That's the game.

02:46:49.520 That's some game.

02:46:50.660 It wasn't talking about me.

02:46:53.120 No, but I mean, that's the game.

02:46:55.000 I guess.

02:46:56.580 Well, I don't know.

02:46:57.260 Look, there are probably men that do want to get married, but they probably aren't aware

02:47:01.720 of the things that come along with.

02:47:05.360 They aren't aware of the social climate where.

02:47:09.840 Look, you got to think, right?

02:47:11.080 How many people get married and are anticipating that they're going to get divorced?

02:47:14.980 Most people going in probably think.

02:47:17.220 I mean, think about it.

02:47:19.780 You just said.

02:47:20.840 A woman gets all the money. 1.00

02:47:22.280 I mean.

02:47:23.040 But like most men, like when they, I feel like most people, when they get married, they're

02:47:26.160 not anticipating, okay, this is going to result in divorce. 0.97

02:47:29.920 Like probably just, there's a breakdown in the relationship at some point. 1.00

02:47:33.220 Shit changes. 1.00

02:47:34.540 Things change. 1.00

02:47:35.320 And then.

02:47:36.740 So.

02:47:38.980 Don't get married guys. 0.93

02:47:39.820 I think you should find somebody who you respect and respects you enough to not have a messy

02:47:45.600 divorce.

02:47:46.600 I feel like you guys can quit.

02:47:47.840 I'm done talking about it.

02:47:49.160 But, but that's even the thing is like you can get married to someone and then you might

02:47:53.580 not be privy to their true colors.

02:47:56.200 Like, or they, or if there was some people can be spiteful out of nowhere.

02:48:01.840 Like, and especially when you have leverage like that, like if one person's the breadwinner,

02:48:05.720 then, oh, the, the money sign starts looking very appealing.

02:48:11.520 I can walk away from all this and get paid for it.

02:48:14.920 Sign me up, you know?

02:48:16.760 So anyways, let's.

02:48:18.080 That depressing divorce court that you watched previously before you got married.

02:48:24.840 I'm like, what?

02:48:25.500 No.

02:48:26.680 Listen, I think you can have a life partner.

02:48:28.840 I can, I think you can have loving relationships and monogamy, but I think marriage is fairly

02:48:34.880 antiquated thing.

02:48:37.360 And yeah.

02:48:39.600 Okay.

02:48:39.880 Let's move on from the marriage thing.

02:48:41.100 Davon Jackson.

02:48:41.780 This is exactly why I asked the question.

02:48:43.280 So I get the responsibility of providing for and protecting a woman. 0.62

02:48:46.500 And my reward is she won't even take my name.

02:48:51.580 Yeah.

02:48:52.060 Tell you what we'll, um, we'll do hyphenation, but when someone breaks into the house, you have

02:48:58.500 to go and check out the noise.

02:49:02.700 You have to check out what's going on.

02:49:04.120 Um, okay.

02:49:05.340 So let's do, let's do a video.

02:49:11.080 Uh, okay.

02:49:12.480 Yeah.

02:49:12.640 Let's do the, uh, oh, let's do prof G.

02:49:14.900 Then we'll do open up and then we'll wrap.

02:49:18.260 Women are interested in men based on three criteria. 1.00

02:49:20.720 The first is their ability to signal resources.

02:49:23.000 The second is intelligence.

02:49:24.560 And the third is kindness.

02:49:25.720 It doesn't matter how rich or how smart you are. 1.00

02:49:27.620 If you're an asshole or you're not kind, people eventually don't want you as a mate. 0.99

02:49:32.260 And unfortunately online, it's very difficult to signal two and three. 1.00

02:49:36.260 So you can signal one.

02:49:37.480 Um, and when everyone has access to everyone, women who have a much finer filter for mating 1.00

02:49:41.940 because the downside of sex is so much greater for them if they get pregnant.

02:49:45.520 So they have a much finer filter.

02:49:48.200 They end up all being drawn or expressing interest to a much smaller group of individuals.

02:49:52.900 So what the dynamic is, you have 50 men on Tinder, 50 women on Tinder.

02:49:57.320 46 of the women will express all of their interest to just four men, which leaves 46 men vying for the attention of just four women.

02:50:03.300 So if you apply the genie coefficient to online dating, it's got the same genie coefficient as income inequality in Venezuela.

02:50:10.440 So mating inequality is greater than income inequality in Venezuela.

02:50:13.880 And what it leads to is what I call Porsche polygamy. 1.00

02:50:16.300 And that is that men who are the top 10% in terms of attractiveness online get 90% of the interest.

02:50:22.840 So that does not lead to good behavior or establishing long-term relationships.

02:50:27.380 Kind of 50 to 90 percentile do okay, but the bottom half of attractiveness of men based on online attractiveness are totally shut out of the market.

02:50:39.280 Okay, so we were kind of talking about this earlier on during the show that it's tough out there on the online dating apps.

02:50:50.860 Do you guys have a reaction to what he said?

02:50:52.720 Agree, disagree, anything?

02:50:54.360 Agree.

02:50:55.080 Agree.

02:50:55.480 Agree, I agree with everything you said, yeah.

02:50:57.900 Well, most of it.

02:50:59.180 Okay.

02:51:00.460 Paisley, you guys over here?

02:51:02.580 Okay, they all agree.

02:51:04.740 Like, if you are the guys in the lower ranking, you should try to figure out a different way, maybe.

02:51:11.240 No, I don't know.

02:51:12.060 There's so many ways.

02:51:12.640 Like, if you're ugly and you came over and you're just so funny and made me feel some type of way, maybe I would give you a chance. 0.78

02:51:18.320 So, okay, the solution to the ugly guy is to be a stand-up comedian and have game, but do you think that's easy for guys? 0.87

02:51:34.020 Practice.

02:51:35.140 Practice?

02:51:35.620 Practice what?

02:51:37.600 Being a stand-up guy, right?

02:51:40.240 But.

02:51:41.180 There has to be something about you.

02:51:42.660 It's all in your energy.

02:51:43.700 If you think that you're low ranking, you're going to come across low ranking and, duh, nobody else will talk to you.

02:51:47.500 Okay, so just be confident and charming and charismatic?

02:51:51.200 Yeah.

02:51:51.420 Do you think that comes naturally to people?

02:51:53.580 Some of them.

02:51:54.640 I don't think, honestly, I think even for a lot of guys, you can't even, you can improve your social skills, but, I mean, unless you do a lot of work.

02:52:03.900 But you're not going to win every battle.

02:52:06.260 I mean, you could just try it.

02:52:08.040 I don't know.

02:52:09.340 Okay.

02:52:09.820 Practice.

02:52:10.380 Yeah. 0.65

02:52:11.180 You'll practice enough, and then that one girl will find you, and look it, you're not a lonely, ugly guy.

02:52:15.400 Okay, so your advice to men who are unattractive is just be charismatic, confident, funny, easy things.

02:52:26.340 Work with what you got.

02:52:27.480 Easy things, right?

02:52:28.320 Yeah.

02:52:28.720 Okay.

02:52:29.740 Well, I feel like it's kind of convenient, don't you think, though, to say, okay, just be confident, just be funny.

02:52:35.080 I mean, it doesn't work every time, but there is that one girl that Sally will definitely go for it, you know?

02:52:41.060 Okay, I have a question for you guys on this.

02:52:42.680 Is it easier for men or women when it comes to dating?

02:52:46.160 Women. 0.81

02:52:47.820 Yeah, you just have to have a whole.

02:52:50.520 Women. 1.00

02:52:51.060 Damn. 1.00

02:52:51.820 Facts. 1.00

02:52:53.100 Literally.

02:52:54.120 Yo, George, thank you for becoming a member.

02:52:57.000 Actually, we'll be able to highlight it, but thank you for becoming a member.

02:53:00.180 Welcome to Tier 2, man.

02:53:01.200 Really appreciate your support.

02:53:02.860 I think you're the only second person to be a Tier 2 member, so appreciate it, man.

02:53:07.960 There he is, George Ontiveros.

02:53:09.880 Look at that handsome guy.

02:53:11.200 Hey, ladies, would you, if you see that icon, would you guys, you know, would you, George of the Jungle, you know what I mean?

02:53:19.800 Would you go for it with George?

02:53:21.240 I would if I wasn't talking to somebody.

02:53:26.020 Oh, you got, you got, you got a little, you got a ting.

02:53:29.320 A ting, yes.

02:53:30.380 You got a ting, okay.

02:53:31.340 A ting.

02:53:31.840 Who here has a ting, but not a boyfriend, but a ting?

02:53:35.260 No.

02:53:35.920 Nothing?

02:53:36.520 No.

02:53:37.700 Wait, question.

02:53:38.500 You said you broke up with your boyfriend like two years ago, right?

02:53:40.620 Uh-huh.

02:53:41.580 Has there been anything?

02:53:44.140 I mean, I've kind of gone on, no, I haven't really gone on any dates.

02:53:48.640 I've had like hookups and stuff.

02:53:50.300 Hookups.

02:53:51.080 No dates, but hookups.

02:53:52.340 Yeah.

02:53:52.680 When was the last hookup?

02:53:57.400 Last night.

02:53:58.060 No, I'm kidding.

02:53:58.620 No, I'm just kidding.

02:53:59.660 Like Halloween.

02:54:02.200 And even before that was like April.

02:54:04.720 Halloween and then April.

02:54:07.620 Okay.

02:54:08.540 Did the Halloween thing continue or was it just kind of like a fling?

02:54:11.300 It was the same person.

02:54:12.720 Oh, it was what?

02:54:14.060 Same person from April?

02:54:15.440 Uh-huh.

02:54:16.120 So this is like a check-in every six months type of?

02:54:19.520 No, it was a.

02:54:21.880 Every six months.

02:54:22.880 It was this person who loved Bami and I checked it and see.

02:54:28.060 If that was real, I guess.

02:54:29.980 And then it turned out it wasn't.

02:54:31.960 And then he loved Bami and you again?

02:54:33.880 Yeah.

02:54:34.240 And then I blocked him.

02:54:36.560 Wait, question.

02:54:37.880 So he loved Bami and you in April.

02:54:41.920 Did you guys only, you only hooked up once?

02:54:44.760 No.

02:54:45.660 Oh.

02:54:46.760 Multiple times?

02:54:47.460 It's like a long history.

02:54:49.000 Okay.

02:54:49.440 All right.

02:54:49.960 So it was ongoing.

02:54:50.800 Yeah. 1.00

02:54:51.320 It was long history, but it was like fuck buddy. 0.99

02:54:53.940 And then started the whole love bomb. 0.99

02:54:56.220 Didn't really believe it.

02:54:57.380 Um, me working on myself can't really.

02:55:00.920 Okay.

02:55:01.700 You know?

02:55:02.520 Sure.

02:55:03.340 But pretty much cutting it off and then work on myself.

02:55:07.940 And yeah.

02:55:09.200 Okay.

02:55:09.960 Wait, so I'm trying to get back to the original question.

02:55:13.280 Oh, the member.

02:55:14.080 Oh, we were asking about George.

02:55:16.880 If he was, if you guys would go for him.

02:55:18.980 Um, and you guys were saying, well, I've got a ting and.

02:55:23.000 All right.

02:55:23.460 Sorry, George.

02:55:24.120 I tried.

02:55:24.760 I tried to play wing men.

02:55:25.840 Um, okay.

02:55:26.660 So is dating, is dating easier for men or women?

02:55:30.800 Paisley?

02:55:31.100 I think men have to initiate more. 0.73

02:55:34.380 So I would say men.

02:55:35.620 Okay.

02:55:36.600 I think it's easier for women. 1.00

02:55:39.400 Yeah.

02:55:40.380 Easier for men. 0.95

02:55:41.500 Easier for men. 0.95

02:55:42.220 Okay.

02:55:43.020 I think it's easier for women because they're getting approached by. 1.00

02:55:48.360 Everybody.

02:55:49.020 Okay.

02:55:49.740 Facts.

02:55:50.640 Women. 0.81

02:55:51.940 Women. 0.81

02:55:52.320 What makes me feel a little, uh, because I don't know.

02:55:59.040 Because like, yeah, everyone's coming up to you and giving you all these options, but

02:56:02.700 men, you get to decide.

02:56:04.340 I mean, a woman can decide. 1.00

02:56:06.400 So women. 1.00

02:56:10.080 Okay.

02:56:10.860 Okay.

02:56:11.380 I had to work that out.

02:56:12.260 Yeah.

02:56:12.440 Yeah.

02:56:13.500 Go ahead.

02:56:14.680 Um, as far as just like how easy it is to get, what was the exact question?

02:56:21.000 So, I mean, the question was, is it, is dating easier for men or women?

02:56:25.000 And I, I mean, I don't.

02:56:26.700 For loyalty?

02:56:27.600 Yeah.

02:56:27.800 Well, yeah.

02:56:28.520 So for, are we looking for relationship in dating?

02:56:31.100 Yeah.

02:56:31.580 Finding relationship?

02:56:32.480 So when I, when I, my sense of this, my sense of this question is, is a very big part of dating

02:56:40.840 is the initial stages.

02:56:43.080 Okay.

02:56:43.760 Um, so, and also being able to, I, being able to get a partner.

02:56:51.000 Um, so, are there differences between men and women when they're at the beginning,

02:57:00.440 in the middle, in long-term relationships?

02:57:02.740 Sure.

02:57:03.060 But overall, would you, is it easier or harder for men or women?

02:57:07.340 I think it's definitely easier for women to get it, but it's not easier for women to get 0.99

02:57:13.620 a guy that wants to be in a commitment with her. 0.99

02:57:15.860 That's why most men are fuckboys. 1.00

02:57:18.060 Most of you are fuckboys. 1.00

02:57:19.500 Well, most men are, I would say most men are not fuckboys. 1.00

02:57:23.400 The men you're, you're attracted to are fuckboys. 0.99

02:57:26.280 I mean, not anymore, but. 0.99

02:57:27.560 Not, not anymore.

02:57:28.700 I don't really date you.

02:57:29.380 Okay.

02:57:29.400 Well, you're dating women now, so.

02:57:30.780 Yeah.

02:57:31.360 It's changed.

02:57:32.180 Um, okay.

02:57:33.560 You said it's easier for men.

02:57:36.040 Now I change my mind now.

02:57:38.400 What, what was your reasoning before you changed your mind?

02:57:41.540 Uh, because I have, I have heard stories about men choosing women.

02:57:49.200 A little closer to the mic.

02:57:50.180 Um, that I have heard basically from my friends that it's easier for men to choose a woman because

02:57:58.320 they're thinking about all the things that they want from a woman.

02:58:02.900 But if I see the other side, a woman, it's easier to get a relationship with a man. 0.99

02:58:08.480 Sure.

02:58:08.880 Because, um, I feel like a man never say no.

02:58:14.820 Hmm.

02:58:15.300 Um, so it's easier for a man, for a woman to get with a man instead of the other way. 1.00

02:58:23.480 Okay.

02:58:23.980 Got it.

02:58:24.360 So you revised your answer there.

02:58:25.620 Yeah.

02:58:25.960 Okay.

02:58:26.500 Gotcha.

02:58:27.540 Gotcha.

02:58:28.440 All right.

02:58:29.080 So let's do this last video and then I'm going to, I think I got two more questions for you guys.

02:58:33.560 Go ahead.

02:58:33.880 Eric, if you can, we're going to watch the, uh, actually before you play it, can you just

02:58:39.180 bring it back center here? 0.87

02:58:40.060 Um, do you think men should open up more to women?

02:58:45.300 And, and be more open with their emotions.

02:58:48.560 Do you feel like maybe men are emotionally stunted or they're very blocked off to some

02:58:53.380 degree?

02:58:54.020 Yes.

02:58:54.300 Yes.

02:58:54.980 Yes.

02:58:55.540 I think that sounds like, that sounds like a overwhelming.

02:58:59.340 Yes.

02:58:59.740 Okay.

02:58:59.940 Eric, let's play this video.

02:59:06.700 Eric, you can actually, uh, pause it.

02:59:08.680 Just pause it.

02:59:09.660 Leave it there.

02:59:10.580 Okay.

02:59:11.000 I'm just going to read it.

02:59:11.860 I wanted this man to be vulnerable with me for so long.

02:59:14.500 He finally called me yesterday and to open up, but the second he started crying, I lost

02:59:18.960 all interest in him quickly.

02:59:21.660 This is a safe space, but not that safe.

02:59:25.300 That's great.

02:59:25.880 That is so, that is, that is so, that's a red flag.

02:59:28.560 That is so.

02:59:29.020 I like when men cry.

02:59:30.360 You like when men cry to me when they are that vulnerable.

02:59:34.060 Come on.

02:59:34.500 Really?

02:59:34.880 Yeah.

02:59:35.140 Yes.

02:59:36.240 I love it.

02:59:36.620 Like when they can like open up and like share their feelings.

02:59:42.400 If they're not being whiny about it, I have no problem.

02:59:44.940 No, if they were like coming and crying to you like every week, that's the problem.

02:59:49.660 Every week.

02:59:50.180 I mean, what's your problem?

02:59:51.760 What's the significance of the problem?

02:59:53.360 Are you crying over something that you can easily fix and you've really thought about,

02:59:57.460 or you're just crying to like initiate feelings from us?

03:00:03.040 Hmm.

03:00:06.680 Okay.

03:00:07.380 So guys cry to just manipulate feelings to men cry.

03:00:11.900 What, what dudes are you dating? 1.00

03:00:13.580 The fuck? 1.00

03:00:14.700 Was it the Halloween, Halloween thing? 1.00

03:00:18.720 The four year.

03:00:19.800 The fling?

03:00:21.080 The four year.

03:00:22.040 Oh, the four year.

03:00:23.120 He cried to manipulate you.

03:00:25.600 Yeah.

03:00:25.900 Oh, he said that my crying was manipulating him.

03:00:30.540 Was it?

03:00:31.680 No, I, I think I am a person with a lot of feelings and yeah, I cry and he took, he, he always,

03:00:41.500 he would say that I'm crying to manipulate him.

03:00:45.120 Sure.

03:00:45.820 Well, okay.

03:00:46.320 So to respond to the TikTok video and I mean, all of you guys kind of were like, what the 0.99

03:00:53.460 fuck? 0.99

03:00:53.720 Like, damn, but that's, that's how men, that's a lot of men's experience in times where we 1.00

03:01:02.880 have opened up to women and you might not admit to it, but like, come on. 0.99

03:01:09.640 I did that the other day.

03:01:10.760 Some dude was crying about how he's so sad about a girl.

03:01:13.000 You lose attraction for that guy.

03:01:14.500 If a guy displays weakness, you lose attraction to him.

03:01:17.860 Um, not true.

03:01:20.080 No.

03:01:20.720 Come on.

03:01:21.920 No.

03:01:22.580 No.

03:01:22.960 No.

03:01:23.040 Really?

03:01:23.460 No.

03:01:24.640 Y'all are human.

03:01:26.220 You, you might say that.

03:01:27.860 Y'all are human.

03:01:28.400 Y'all are going to have your bed.

03:01:29.240 Yeah, we are human.

03:01:30.100 Y'all are going to cry.

03:01:31.100 Sure.

03:01:31.580 I will say it depends on what you're crying about.

03:01:34.160 Yeah.

03:01:34.940 Okay.

03:01:35.300 Like if you're crying cause I don't know.

03:01:38.300 An easily solved problem.

03:01:39.920 Exactly.

03:01:41.100 Then it's kind of like.

03:01:42.000 I mean, I guess I cry about stuff like that.

03:01:43.600 So why should I tell you you can't cry?

03:01:45.120 I will literally cry cause I couldn't find my lip gloss.

03:01:47.400 Like, okay.

03:01:48.200 So you.

03:01:49.040 Frustration crying dude.

03:01:49.980 I can't really say that to you.

03:01:50.640 Yeah.

03:01:50.840 What if, what if a guy cried cause he couldn't find his lip gloss?

03:01:55.340 Dude, you're talking to the wrong one.

03:01:57.920 I don't know.

03:01:58.820 You'll find someone compatible for that situation.

03:02:01.800 I need you to be strong for me, please.

03:02:03.860 So a lot of men's experience is when we do reveal something to a woman or we, we do open

03:02:11.640 up a bit.

03:02:15.520 Women lose attraction for us. 1.00

03:02:18.260 Y'all, y'all lose respect for us and you lose attraction.

03:02:21.360 To us.

03:02:22.320 I think it's also depending on who you're doing it to.

03:02:24.160 How much do you like this person?

03:02:25.900 The woman or the woman liking us?

03:02:27.740 The woman liking the man.

03:02:30.700 You know, like, cause if, if it's someone that like I've seen you put on the ball from

03:02:34.540 you trying to be so hard and so cool and then one day you couldn't take it no more and

03:02:39.400 you was crying to me, that's not making me think that you're, you're less than or you 0.88

03:02:43.200 are nasty cause you cry. 0.88

03:02:45.400 No, it's making me think like, oh, you're comfortable enough to share more than just you trying to

03:02:50.460 be so cool because that makes me feel like I'm not human when I'm crying and I'm sad 0.99

03:02:54.360 and losing my shit. 0.97

03:02:55.540 So why would I do that to you all the time? 1.00

03:02:57.760 I understand sometimes like you can't take a little, a little hit.

03:03:01.280 Like, oh, come on.

03:03:03.220 You should cry then.

03:03:04.420 I don't know. 1.00

03:03:05.740 Like if I, if I was like, uh, you're crying and you're like, this bitch is the most just 1.00

03:03:11.900 numb bitch who don't even pay attention. 1.00

03:03:14.560 Like, you're dragging it. 1.00

03:03:16.620 Just like how a man does that to a woman. 1.00

03:03:18.440 And like when she's crying or she's feeling all these emotions, you're thinking she's

03:03:22.260 doing this when really she just had her feelings.

03:03:25.620 I think I was contradicting myself.

03:03:27.340 So, I mean, when it comes to crying, I mean, you might be able to, you might be politically

03:03:33.500 correct.

03:03:33.980 You might be able to rationalize and intellectualize that.

03:03:38.720 But when it comes down to it, when men show weakness, you lose attraction for them.

03:03:47.260 That's, that's most men's experience when they've shown a vulnerability or a weakness.

03:03:54.380 I see that.

03:03:55.900 And here's the other thing.

03:03:57.740 Like we don't often share our feeling.

03:03:59.620 First off, men, typically we, we deal with our issues kind of different.

03:04:04.780 Like we don't want to, me personally, I don't want to talk about my issues.

03:04:07.820 I want to solve my issues.

03:04:10.420 Talking about it.

03:04:11.960 No, I want solutions.

03:04:13.460 Give me X, Y, Z.

03:04:14.380 How do I do this?

03:04:15.120 How do I, what, how can I solve the problem?

03:04:17.800 Women, they're thinking emotionally. 1.00

03:04:19.540 They're like, okay, so what, how can we work on this so that we can make it better?

03:04:23.140 You're like, no, I want it to be this way and I'm going to fix it.

03:04:26.740 I'm not going to talk about it, but I can't fix it because I don't know what you're thinking

03:04:30.720 because I don't want to talk about it.

03:04:33.080 I don't know.

03:04:33.380 Well, here's another thing like that sometimes men encounter is we,

03:04:37.820 we often don't share our feelings because our feelings end up just upsetting their girlfriend

03:04:44.920 and then they're now left to console their girlfriend on her feelings because of how

03:04:52.400 his feelings made her feel.

03:04:54.900 There's too many feelings.

03:04:56.320 Try to wrap your head around that one.

03:04:58.980 But, uh, I mean, I, I've, I've had experiences in my life where I've been seeing a girl like

03:05:07.020 a couple months, right?

03:05:07.800 So I'm not like nothing going down the first date, second date, third date.

03:05:13.240 So I was seeing this girl for five, six months and something happened and I was kind of in a

03:05:19.720 vulnerable position, whatever.

03:05:21.720 I didn't cry, but I was just like, okay, I'll tell, I'll tell you guys.

03:05:25.320 So, um, I was, I was attacked.

03:05:27.120 I was physically assaulted.

03:05:28.920 Um, got, got jumped three dudes.

03:05:31.780 I was all banged up, bruised up.

03:05:33.360 I called the girl I was seeing.

03:05:35.160 Um, I called the girl I was seeing later that night.

03:05:38.920 I was like, Hey, can you come over? 0.99

03:05:40.100 I'm like fucking limping and shit. 0.99

03:05:41.460 She came over like to her credit. 1.00

03:05:44.180 She, she helped me out, whatever.

03:05:45.560 I was like, Hey, can you get me an ice pack?

03:05:48.060 You know, do this, whatever. 0.98

03:05:49.540 And she was helpful from that point on after she saw me all fucked up, like laying in bed 0.98

03:05:56.640 or whatever. 0.98

03:05:57.340 Again, I didn't cry.

03:05:58.720 I was pretty stoked about it, but I was like, obviously like in pain or whatever.

03:06:03.180 The whole dynamic of the relationship changed.

03:06:06.440 Nothing else changed besides this external event that happened.

03:06:10.000 And just the, like the respect wasn't there. 0.99

03:06:13.980 We started fucking arguing. 0.98

03:06:16.380 And then within a month and a half, it was done. 1.00

03:06:20.200 Wrong bitch. 1.00

03:06:21.720 That doesn't make sense. 1.00

03:06:23.240 I think if.

03:06:24.120 It does make sense.

03:06:25.100 It might come in our nature to.

03:06:27.500 I was.

03:06:28.820 Don't ask me for too much.

03:06:30.220 Well, actually we can play this clip.

03:06:32.880 Um, this is a perfect clip to play.

03:06:34.280 Eric, can you pull up the videos?

03:06:35.360 It's the, uh, it's the one with, uh, Miriam Nakamoto.

03:06:40.780 The fighter chick. 0.83

03:06:42.660 It's probably in the hidden folder.

03:06:45.080 Um.

03:06:47.640 It's, uh, Joe.

03:06:49.020 Wait, go up.

03:06:49.700 I think it's the Joe Rogan one.

03:06:52.220 Wait.

03:06:53.440 Yeah.

03:06:54.140 Yeah.

03:06:54.420 Yeah.

03:06:54.560 This is the one.

03:06:55.460 It's what it's not.

03:06:56.660 It doesn't bug me when somebody is just, they have, you know, slender neck.

03:07:00.120 But when they go through so much trouble to look like an alpha male.

03:07:04.000 Right.

03:07:04.540 But they have that little chicken neck. 1.00

03:07:06.540 Right.

03:07:07.120 And then they're posing like they're.

03:07:08.900 That's gotta be a big issue with you.

03:07:10.900 Mm-mm.

03:07:11.520 Like as a woman. 0.99

03:07:12.620 Oh.

03:07:12.820 Like the way you interact with men.

03:07:14.540 As a world champion Muay Thai woman.

03:07:17.680 Yeah.

03:07:18.080 I haven't figured that out.

03:07:19.100 You have to have a hard time with the men.

03:07:20.760 I do.

03:07:21.720 I bet you do.

03:07:22.640 I do.

03:07:23.200 Yeah.

03:07:23.740 Yeah.

03:07:23.900 Because you need to get a real one.

03:07:25.260 Like a real, real one.

03:07:26.840 Like that's the only way it's gonna work.

03:07:28.160 Yeah.

03:07:28.180 It isn't.

03:07:28.860 No.

03:07:29.340 Yeah.

03:07:29.720 Imagine.

03:07:30.600 It's hard out there for a pimp.

03:07:33.000 It is, right?

03:07:34.280 So I had his great boyfriend.

03:07:37.580 But we went out of country.

03:07:41.060 We fought on the same card.

03:07:42.860 He fought the day before me.

03:07:44.600 I fought the next day.

03:07:46.240 During the fight, he almost gets knocked out.

03:07:50.400 As this guy is mauling him, he goes like this.

03:07:53.900 What do you think I was thinking?

03:07:59.540 Not good thoughts.

03:08:00.940 The boyfriend.

03:08:01.940 The boyfriend.

03:08:02.680 My boyfriend.

03:08:03.860 Like this.

03:08:05.080 Yeah.

03:08:05.480 You didn't like it. 1.00

03:08:06.440 Fuck no. 1.00

03:08:07.400 Did it turn you off? 1.00

03:08:08.660 Oh my God, so much.

03:08:10.200 Whoa. 1.00

03:08:10.880 I was like, dude, you're getting fucked up. 1.00

03:08:12.780 And as you're falling to the canvas, you still need to go fuck you. 1.00

03:08:16.480 Wow. 1.00

03:08:16.840 You're like, fuck you. 1.00

03:08:19.220 Like that. 1.00

03:08:19.560 So the way he was getting beaten was fucking with you. 1.00

03:08:23.380 Yeah. 1.00

03:08:23.640 It wasn't just that he was getting beaten.

03:08:25.220 I don't care.

03:08:25.700 I don't know.

03:08:25.960 That he was like shying away.

03:08:27.100 I don't care.

03:08:27.320 Yeah.

03:08:27.620 I don't care.

03:08:28.340 That he wasn't digging in.

03:08:29.000 You're not going to.

03:08:29.620 Yeah. 1.00

03:08:30.760 Like you got to fucking like take that shit. 1.00

03:08:33.420 Take it. 1.00

03:08:34.120 Yeah.

03:08:34.640 Yeah.

03:08:34.800 Like, you know, like a champ or like a fighter.

03:08:37.340 Right.

03:08:37.800 Yeah.

03:08:38.080 You can't be like.

03:08:39.900 Wow.

03:08:40.600 That was.

03:08:40.920 Ugh.

03:08:42.240 That was the beginning of the end.

03:08:43.680 You're like.

03:08:44.280 Ah.

03:08:44.400 That was the beginning of the end.

03:08:46.040 Yeah.

03:08:46.700 And he was a great boyfriend.

03:08:48.680 First couple of nails.

03:08:48.760 He was great.

03:08:49.720 Top, top, top, top, top, top.

03:08:51.080 Yes, it was.

03:08:51.680 Top, top, top.

03:08:52.320 It was.

03:08:53.060 Maybe sometimes it's like that's the problem.

03:08:54.940 The problem.

03:08:55.420 It's the balance.

03:08:56.220 Okay.

03:08:56.860 He was a great boyfriend.

03:08:59.420 But.

03:09:01.080 She saw him get knocked out.

03:09:03.340 She felt like he couldn't protect her. 1.00

03:09:05.000 He would lay down like a bitch or something. 1.00

03:09:07.080 He's. 1.00

03:09:07.360 He's a.

03:09:08.340 Well, her. 0.77

03:09:08.920 I think it's a little different for her because she's a fighter as well.

03:09:11.440 So.

03:09:12.100 I mean.

03:09:13.640 But it does speak to.

03:09:16.600 Kind of what we're talking about here.

03:09:20.320 So.

03:09:21.080 It's like a natural woman instinct. 0.95

03:09:24.520 That we view that as weakness.

03:09:26.680 But it depends on the woman if they're understanding with the situation and want to help you.

03:09:33.920 It's.

03:09:34.480 Yeah.

03:09:35.380 Well, let me ask this.

03:09:36.600 Like, let's say in some.

03:09:38.200 Some. 1.00

03:09:39.340 Shit hits the fan situation. 1.00

03:09:42.380 We're talking zombie apocalypse. 1.00

03:09:44.900 War.

03:09:45.940 Just some. 1.00

03:09:46.980 Shit hits the fan situation. 1.00

03:09:50.120 If your boyfriend, your husband. 1.00

03:09:52.160 He cowers in the face of whatever could be going. 1.00

03:09:57.160 The fucking natural disaster or some shit. 1.00

03:09:59.240 He cowers. 1.00

03:10:01.060 Do you lose attraction for him?

03:10:03.360 Yes.

03:10:03.960 If you're stronger than him.

03:10:05.560 Yeah.

03:10:06.500 If you end up being the person that has to be stronger.

03:10:10.640 Okay.

03:10:11.220 Then yes.

03:10:11.740 Sure.

03:10:12.880 Yeah.

03:10:13.380 I feel like if I'm stronger than them, I need to be weaker.

03:10:17.240 Sometimes you have to be stronger.

03:10:18.420 If it's a dude.

03:10:18.980 Yeah.

03:10:19.360 But if I'm dating a girl, I like girls that are typically smaller than me. 1.00

03:10:23.140 Oh, you like them petite tings.

03:10:24.600 Yeah.

03:10:25.140 Okay.

03:10:25.340 Well, I mean, I weighed like 40 pounds heavier like three weeks ago.

03:10:29.280 Has there been a little tension?

03:10:30.620 20.

03:10:31.360 Right here?

03:10:32.160 No.

03:10:32.560 No.

03:10:32.700 She's too young.

03:10:34.000 What?

03:10:34.460 You don't like young women? 1.00

03:10:35.660 I know.

03:10:36.280 They can't be young.

03:10:38.280 They need to be.

03:10:39.740 You like the.

03:10:41.000 I like girls my age.

03:10:42.880 It's MILF.

03:10:45.120 Or MILFs with kids. 0.99

03:10:47.540 Okay.

03:10:48.020 Oh, wow.

03:10:48.780 Okay.

03:10:50.120 Huh.

03:10:50.780 All right.

03:10:52.320 Okay.

03:10:52.820 Wow.

03:10:53.820 So, we'll just go around the table because I just want to get everyone's answer on this.

03:10:58.620 Paisley. 1.00

03:11:00.780 Shit hits the fan scenario. 1.00

03:11:02.520 Your man, your boyfriend, your husband, he cowers. 1.00

03:11:07.280 Do you lose attraction for him?

03:11:09.440 Kinda.

03:11:10.220 Yeah.

03:11:10.420 Cause, like, I can't protect myself, so I'd want someone else to.

03:11:16.680 I'd say yes, because I'd be scared shitless too, so we can't both be scared.

03:11:23.920 I will say yes, if I'm stronger than him.

03:11:27.240 Yes.

03:11:28.380 And it will show that.

03:11:31.380 But yeah, basically, I will be the one protecting this relationship instead of him.

03:11:35.740 Oh, someone wrote a really good comment, Thomas Payne, up there.

03:11:40.500 Brian, he's a pro fighter.

03:11:42.000 Can you just scroll up?

03:11:43.260 Yeah.

03:11:44.880 Actually, let me see if I can pull it up, too, here on the stream yard.

03:11:47.320 Oh, awesome, thank you, Eric.

03:11:51.780 He's a pro fighter.

03:11:52.780 He can protect her better than 99% of men.

03:11:55.140 You gotta point this out.

03:11:56.980 So, like, it's an MMA fight.

03:12:01.920 So, this guy is still much more capable of protecting her, the woman that was being interviewed by Joe Rogan, than an average guy.

03:12:12.280 So, I mean, maybe her standards are higher because she herself is an MMA fighter, but, I mean, there's not a lot of MMA fighters that go undefeated.

03:12:22.240 So, it's kind of like, I don't know, to me, that whole thing was kind of ridiculous, but, anyways, whatever.

03:12:29.160 Did everyone get to answer on that?

03:12:32.280 Yeah, I think so.

03:12:33.580 Eric, can you just hide that?

03:12:34.460 Thank you, Eric.

03:12:36.100 So, I want to open it up to you guys.

03:12:38.540 Any final thoughts or questions?

03:12:40.040 Do you have a question for the viewers?

03:12:41.460 A question for the panel?

03:12:43.080 A question for me?

03:12:43.800 You want some advice?

03:12:44.620 Whatever it may be.

03:12:45.240 Final thought or question?

03:12:48.340 Final thought?

03:12:49.280 Final thought or question?

03:12:50.400 This has been fun.

03:12:52.440 I'm ready to go to bed.

03:12:53.500 Okay.

03:12:53.920 True.

03:12:54.600 I've been up for hours.

03:12:56.760 I don't have any questions or anything.

03:12:58.380 Okay.

03:12:58.640 I definitely enjoyed talking.

03:13:00.440 This is good.

03:13:01.360 Good.

03:13:01.800 I liked it.

03:13:03.480 Questions?

03:13:04.040 Anybody?

03:13:05.120 You can ask me your deepest, darkest thing about something you want to know about.

03:13:10.860 Oh, really?

03:13:11.340 They were talking about you liking to get pegged earlier.

03:13:14.040 Is that true?

03:13:16.340 Nah.

03:13:17.260 That's not true?

03:13:18.360 Would you?

03:13:19.140 No.

03:13:19.800 Why?

03:13:20.400 Oh, I was. 1.00

03:13:21.000 You don't like a little thumb up your ass? 1.00

03:13:22.920 No. 1.00

03:13:23.360 Nothing?

03:13:24.180 No.

03:13:24.560 I was having this.

03:13:25.920 I don't know why I did this.

03:13:27.500 We had a girl on.

03:13:29.060 Somehow pegging came up and then I had a banter with her that she didn't, she was an Asian 0.84

03:13:34.660 girl.

03:13:35.200 Okay.

03:13:35.620 And she didn't like white guys.

03:13:37.600 And I was, and somehow I was like, there was, I was like, what if I let you pegged?

03:13:43.240 And then she said, I'll think about, or I don't remember, but no, I do not want to be pegged.

03:13:53.080 No, no pegging, please.

03:13:54.940 Okay.

03:13:55.660 So last question from me, maybe last two questions.

03:13:58.220 Do you think that there are any standards, preferences or boundaries that men have for women that you think are unreasonable or unfair or gross?

03:14:12.880 Because, no.

03:14:14.840 Everybody has their own opinion in what they want in a person.

03:14:19.200 So, if whatever you want, it's going to make you happy, then like go for it. 0.99

03:14:24.120 I mean, you might be a dick, but cool. 0.99

03:14:26.800 It's not for me. 1.00

03:14:27.900 Okay.

03:14:28.680 What about you?

03:14:29.520 I very much relate to that.

03:14:31.320 I don't really have a very big opinion.

03:14:33.600 I don't think I can think of a very good example, and that's why I don't have as much to say.

03:14:38.200 Okay.

03:14:38.880 Jenny.

03:14:39.060 Mind me the question.

03:14:40.520 Yeah, sure.

03:14:41.000 I got you.

03:14:43.460 It's the ADHD.

03:14:44.720 It's the ADHD.

03:14:46.740 So, are there any preferences, standards, or boundaries that you know that men have for women that you take issue with?

03:14:54.280 Here, maybe I can try to prompt you guys a little bit.

03:14:56.940 For example, body count.

03:15:01.740 Men care about body count. 0.99

03:15:04.080 Men typically have a preference for younger women.

03:15:07.280 That's another one.

03:15:09.360 Men have probably a weight preference.

03:15:12.020 That's another.

03:15:12.940 Are there any that you take quarrel with or take issue with?

03:15:17.440 Only reason I couldn't is because I'd probably do the same thing to a man.

03:15:21.340 Closer to the mic.

03:15:22.620 I just feel like I couldn't say very much because I feel like I've looked at men like that, too. 0.99

03:15:27.120 Like, I've been like, I don't want you to be a little slut. 1.00

03:15:31.560 I'm like, I don't know. 0.99

03:15:32.540 I kind of actually don't.

03:15:33.780 Wait.

03:15:34.400 I don't know.

03:15:35.480 I don't think it's that bad.

03:15:36.540 I don't know.

03:15:36.780 Everyone has their own opinion.

03:15:37.700 They think that way.

03:15:37.980 You don't like what?

03:15:39.400 I don't have an example.

03:15:40.620 That's my problem. 0.99

03:15:41.080 You don't want your partner to be a slut? 1.00

03:15:43.440 The guy or the girl? 1.00

03:15:45.240 Or both?

03:15:46.120 Do what you want.

03:15:47.040 As long as you're not dirty.

03:15:49.360 Sorry.

03:15:49.940 That wasn't a good example.

03:15:51.280 No, but you just said that you don't want your...

03:15:53.720 Just men in general.

03:15:55.560 Like, if I'm going to choose you, I'm not going to necessarily go for the sluttiest one.

03:16:01.220 Okay.

03:16:01.760 I don't know.

03:16:02.380 What about for girls?

03:16:04.300 Oh, I don't care.

03:16:05.200 I mean, are you clean?

03:16:06.780 Like, I don't know.

03:16:07.420 Because there's a way that you carry yourself.

03:16:09.420 Do you come off like a hoe? 1.00

03:16:10.580 Or do you come off like you like to have foot?

03:16:13.460 I don't know.

03:16:13.760 These shy chicks, man.

03:16:16.960 Don't sleep on the shy chicks. 1.00

03:16:18.680 They be fucking. 1.00

03:16:19.680 Okay. 1.00

03:16:20.080 They do.

03:16:22.520 So, but okay.

03:16:23.780 So, just to clarify.

03:16:25.580 Men, you do have a bit of a preference for them to not be a hoe. 1.00

03:16:29.200 That's a bad example.

03:16:30.440 That was just a bad example.

03:16:31.600 Like, the thing that they're saying, like, oh, I don't even know what your example was.

03:16:35.420 But, I would think things like how guys are thinking, oh, I want a younger guy or a younger girl or whatever.

03:16:41.620 Like, I understand.

03:16:43.820 Maybe that's not.

03:16:46.100 I understand.

03:16:47.180 Sure.

03:16:48.300 Ginny?

03:16:49.440 I can't think of anything right now.

03:16:51.100 Okay.

03:16:52.020 It's the body count that gets me or the fact that men want the woman to be faithful while they do their own dirt. 1.00

03:16:58.280 Yeah.

03:16:58.540 I got to agree with that.

03:17:00.140 What's the issue?

03:17:01.280 So, we did talk a bit about that before.

03:17:02.840 But, for the body count thing, what's your issue with that?

03:17:05.940 Because if a man can have a high body count, why can't a woman? 1.00

03:17:08.840 Even though it's not favorable, but why can't she?

03:17:11.940 Okay. 0.71

03:17:12.280 Because there are some women that strictly like sex. 1.00

03:17:14.440 Like, they're out there. 0.99

03:17:16.180 Yeah. 1.00

03:17:16.280 So, you shouldn't call her a hoe or a slut. 1.00

03:17:18.800 Because if you're going to call her a hoe or a slut, you need to call the man a hoe or a slut. 1.00

03:17:21.300 Exactly. 1.00

03:17:22.040 That's just how I feel.

03:17:23.140 Well, it does sort of come back to our previous discussion of it's harder for men to get laid.

03:17:30.200 Dating is harder for men.

03:17:31.480 It's harder for men to get laid.

03:17:32.920 It's really easy. 1.00

03:17:33.840 They don't throw their dick in anything. 0.99

03:17:35.600 I'm just so confused. 1.00

03:17:36.360 That's how it's harder.

03:17:37.160 You're right.

03:17:37.720 Women sleep with who they want. 1.00

03:17:39.160 Men sleep with who they can. 0.99

03:17:40.420 Yeah.

03:17:40.780 So, it's harder for men to get laid.

03:17:45.060 It's incredibly easy for women to get laid. 1.00

03:17:48.260 So, it's different.

03:17:50.240 That's why there's a double standard.

03:17:52.060 But there shouldn't be a double standard.

03:17:54.040 Well, the double standard is justified because of the difference I just articulated.

03:17:58.840 I don't care.

03:17:59.600 It shouldn't be double standard.

03:18:01.660 Well, there's all kinds of unfairness in the world and double standards.

03:18:04.880 Oh, yeah.

03:18:04.980 We know that.

03:18:05.760 But I'm just saying it shouldn't be like that at all.

03:18:08.160 You asked what she had a problem with.

03:18:09.500 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

03:18:12.060 It just depends on how they met.

03:18:13.320 Who invited who on this date?

03:18:14.940 That's my thing.

03:18:15.560 I always split.

03:18:16.540 Okay.

03:18:17.120 Or I'll pay.

03:18:17.740 Really quick, we'll go around the table.

03:18:19.300 We'll go around the table on this.

03:18:20.840 Go ahead.

03:18:21.760 Oh, for paying on the first date?

03:18:22.720 Who should pay?

03:18:23.480 I usually will put my card out first.

03:18:26.080 And then if they try to get their card out, I'm like, oh, do you want to split it?

03:18:30.360 Okay.

03:18:30.740 But I don't expect a guy to pay or a girl to pay. 1.00

03:18:34.520 Fair enough.

03:18:34.880 I just go for it.

03:18:35.900 What about you?

03:18:37.280 My grandma always told me the one that initiates the date is the one that should opt to pay

03:18:43.200 first.

03:18:44.060 Okay.

03:18:44.300 Ginny, what about you?

03:18:45.460 I always pull my card out, but that's about it.

03:18:47.900 You pull your card out?

03:18:49.580 Yeah, I'll pull my card out.

03:18:50.600 To pay for the whole bill or to split?

03:18:53.060 I would split or sometimes I would take the whole bill.

03:18:55.840 Okay.

03:18:56.360 Chyna, what about you?

03:18:57.120 Like she just said, who initiated the date?

03:18:58.660 Whoever asks.

03:18:59.460 Okay.

03:18:59.700 What about you?

03:19:00.480 Who should pay for the first date? 1.00

03:19:02.100 Closer to the mic?

03:19:03.120 Close, close, close.

03:19:03.560 Whoever initiates or you can split.

03:19:05.240 Okay, go ahead.

03:19:06.480 Well, I put my card first and then we will decide if we pay, who pays and also if we're

03:19:13.860 going to split it or not.

03:19:14.500 That's how we decide.

03:19:16.040 Okay.

03:19:16.520 That's how we decide.

03:19:17.480 That's how we decide.

03:19:18.340 What about you?

03:19:18.880 I always say it depends on who invites who.

03:19:21.820 Okay.

03:19:22.700 Paisley, who should pay, the man or the woman?

03:19:25.360 Or split?

03:19:26.260 I mean, I was offered, but it's the first date.

03:19:29.460 It's not that serious.

03:19:30.360 So, even splitting it isn't that bad in my opinion.

03:19:34.060 So, the guy should pay?

03:19:35.840 No.

03:19:36.340 Okay.

03:19:36.580 I really wouldn't look down on someone saying that.

03:19:38.700 Okay.

03:19:39.020 Well, so, a lot of you said whoever asks, whoever initiates should pay.

03:19:45.060 Who initiates first dates more, men or women?

03:19:49.800 Okay.

03:19:50.100 So, did you have the bread to pay for the first date?

03:19:51.840 I just really don't understand.

03:19:53.740 You asked me to go do something with you, and now you don't have the money to pay for it?

03:19:57.540 I'm very confused as to why I would even spend more time here.

03:20:00.240 On the second date, if I was like, I really had a fun time with you the other night.

03:20:03.140 We should hang out again.

03:20:04.340 Let's go here.

03:20:05.380 Now, I'll pay for the whole bill.

03:20:07.060 We don't have to split it. 0.99

03:20:07.940 I don't want to split shit, actually. 0.99

03:20:09.620 One of us should choose. 0.99

03:20:10.760 We could take turns.

03:20:11.740 Alternate it.

03:20:12.220 I don't know.

03:20:12.780 Okay.

03:20:13.160 But, I'm not feeling that.

03:20:15.560 It just feels like you were asking me to do something you weren't ready for.

03:20:18.740 Well, that's...

03:20:19.620 Unless I asked you, and then I'm sorry.

03:20:21.500 I mean, that's...

03:20:22.260 Take us out.

03:20:24.300 I mean, so that thinking is fine if we're in a vacuum, but how many first dates do people

03:20:31.020 go on that never lead to a second date?

03:20:34.420 A lot.

03:20:34.680 Should have been two better on your first date.

03:20:36.640 So, guys are...

03:20:39.640 A lot of guys are going on a lot of first dates that never lead anywhere.

03:20:43.320 They're the ones that are initiating.

03:20:44.840 They're having to pay for all these first dates. 0.95

03:20:48.380 But that's why you do, like, the small things now.

03:20:50.600 Sure.

03:20:50.800 You don't have to do, like, the full courting.

03:20:53.060 You can have a picnic.

03:20:53.640 You can do it at the picnic, so you can go to the coffee shop, like, the donuts.

03:20:57.460 Like, there are easier ways.

03:20:58.060 You can go get a coupon for the movies.

03:21:00.120 Come on.

03:21:00.920 Like, figure it out.

03:21:01.820 So, look, whoever asks, men de facto...

03:21:08.260 Whoever asks should pay.

03:21:11.700 Men are over, like, 97% of the time, they're the ones initiating.

03:21:16.080 They are the whoever is asking.

03:21:19.660 So, de facto, your answer might as well be, men should pay. 0.82

03:21:23.620 Men are overwhelmingly the ones that initiate asking for first dates.

03:21:34.460 You don't have the money to afford all these first dates that you keep blowing.

03:21:37.980 I mean, that's on you, dude.

03:21:40.160 You could have really sat with this girl and tried to work it out.

03:21:43.180 I don't know.

03:21:44.060 If it was meant for you, or if it didn't work and you paid for the date, 0.97

03:21:48.320 you paid for some character development and no one bitches you don't like. 1.00

03:21:52.400 Let me ask you a question. 0.92

03:21:53.740 Have you ever gone on a date with someone that you had no intention of sleeping with?

03:21:58.900 Yeah.

03:22:00.040 Definitely.

03:22:01.260 Okay.

03:22:02.020 So, as a guy...

03:22:03.020 So, you're only paying for my food if I'm sleeping with you?

03:22:05.180 No, that's...

03:22:05.300 I thought we were doing it for a relationship. 1.00

03:22:06.860 I didn't want to fuck you until we were together for three weeks. 1.00

03:22:10.280 I don't know. 0.99

03:22:11.120 That's not what I'm saying.

03:22:12.440 But, as a guy, when we go on a date with a girl, 0.98

03:22:15.140 unless you fuck it up, we know ahead of time we want to sleep with you. 0.96

03:22:20.860 I'm not saying it's a transactional thing where there's an expectation if we pay. 0.99

03:22:24.800 That's not what I'm getting at.

03:22:26.020 What I'm getting at is that a woman's threshold to go on a date... 1.00

03:22:32.720 You might say, men, yeah, you just want to fuck, right? 1.00

03:22:36.080 But at least we want to fuck, right? 1.00

03:22:39.940 We're at least pursuing something. 0.99

03:22:42.140 Something.

03:22:43.120 And we're often, maybe, that could be anywhere from just short-term or more serious dating.

03:22:48.160 Women will do foodie calls. 1.00

03:22:50.280 A foodie call, like, you'll go on a date with a guy just so he's like... 0.99

03:22:55.420 Because you probably got a dude in your phone who's fucking... 0.95

03:22:58.580 One dude, Uber. 0.99

03:23:00.140 Another dude pays for your Uber.

03:23:03.300 This guy pays for your meals. 1.00

03:23:04.860 He'll fucking door dash you this shit. 1.00

03:23:06.300 I'm hungry. 1.00

03:23:07.880 Let me text by his name.

03:23:10.520 And now, I don't recommend guys do food dates, really, just because, I mean, for a myriad of reasons.

03:23:16.840 I think a drink, coffee, tea, that's...

03:23:18.760 Or you can do some shit for free, go for a walk or whatever. 0.99

03:23:21.460 But there are women, and there's a lot of guys out there that are on the food, the dinner date game. 0.99

03:23:26.420 And there's women out there that are doing foodie calls, just want a free meal. 1.00

03:23:33.140 Make it worth it.

03:23:33.860 At least you got to spend time with a quality person that likes to eat.

03:23:39.020 Let's go get some noodles.

03:23:40.600 But, I mean, like, most people are dating with some degree of intention of wanting more than just a single night out.

03:23:47.520 For example, for me, I'm not interested in one-night stands.

03:23:51.360 So, like, for example, if there's a girl on a dating app, let's say, and sometimes, it's weird to me, like, girls be fucking weeks before they're arriving at their destination are swiping in that area, trying to have something set up for when they're there for three days. 0.88

03:24:07.240 Okay, weirdo.

03:24:08.140 Anyways, I'm...

03:24:09.360 But, for example, if a girl puts her destination in Santa Barbara and she's just in town for the weekend, for a week or whatever...

03:24:16.240 Keep that in mind.

03:24:17.540 No, I'm...

03:24:18.380 Next.

03:24:18.820 Next, I don't want to just be with you one night.

03:24:22.340 I want to pursue something more like...

03:24:24.920 Do you believe in long-distance relationships?

03:24:28.460 I don't.

03:24:29.040 No.

03:24:29.420 I was just asking if you did.

03:24:30.640 But you know what?

03:24:31.400 Like, men do that, too.

03:24:32.820 Like, they literally come to the area and be like, oh, yeah, I'm not from Santa Barbara, but I'm here for a few days.

03:24:38.520 Let's get together.

03:24:39.040 Show me a fun time.

03:24:39.740 Like, why? 1.00

03:24:41.020 Why do you want to get together with me if you're just out here visiting your fucking uncle? 1.00

03:24:44.940 What do you mean? 1.00

03:24:46.020 You foodie called me, but I'm just not paying for it.

03:24:49.900 Like, I don't see what the problem is.

03:24:51.720 I don't know. 0.99

03:24:52.040 These people out here, like, looking for tour guides and shit, like... 0.99

03:24:54.880 Oh, I've had a couple of those. 0.99

03:24:56.480 Show me around.

03:24:56.540 He was like, I'll pay for you and your friends' dinner.

03:24:59.560 Just, like, come show me around Santa Barbara.

03:25:01.860 I'm here by myself.

03:25:03.300 I was like, eh, I'm good.

03:25:05.560 I now think about it, like...

03:25:07.620 And then they're like, do you want to have a three-way?

03:25:09.420 No, literally.

03:25:10.360 No, literally.

03:25:11.060 So, I don't know.

03:25:15.380 There's definitely situations where...

03:25:17.540 I mean, sometimes you might just go on a date with a guy because you're bored.

03:25:20.720 You're like, I guess.

03:25:22.860 What if you were just so stand-up that I was bored and now I got a little crush, you know?

03:25:27.880 I mean, if you luck out.

03:25:29.060 It could go either way for you.

03:25:30.040 You'd like to really focus on how it could not go that way for you.

03:25:33.500 Sure.

03:25:34.020 Ginny, you wanted to come in? 1.00

03:25:35.060 I was going to say, then that goes back to the whole, like, men will fuck girls who 1.00

03:25:43.440 they wouldn't want to date. 1.00

03:25:45.160 Sure.

03:25:45.980 Yeah.

03:25:46.700 What about it?

03:25:47.560 Girls will go on dates when they don't want to, you know? 1.00

03:25:50.900 Yeah.

03:25:51.480 But what about it?

03:25:52.960 Like, then what...

03:25:57.800 Then, like, what is that...

03:26:00.260 Isn't that a bad thing that guys come in and they have the expectation of, like, getting 0.63

03:26:04.460 sex, you know?

03:26:08.880 The expectation of a date is...

03:26:12.100 That guys go in with, like, intention. 0.82

03:26:13.580 Yeah, we want to have sex, yeah. 0.93

03:26:15.360 Yeah. 0.99

03:26:16.060 Yeah.

03:26:16.640 That's typically the goal.

03:26:18.780 Some guys want it.

03:26:20.640 Some guys just want one time.

03:26:22.520 Some guys want ongoing.

03:26:24.140 Some guys want a relationship.

03:26:25.080 Sounds like a man should pay for it. 1.00

03:26:27.220 For the sex? 0.98

03:26:28.220 No, for the dinner, at least.

03:26:29.900 How much do you charge?

03:26:31.200 I'm not asking for me, but...

03:26:32.740 I'm not just kidding.

03:26:33.740 Well, okay, here's the other thing.

03:26:37.800 Here's...

03:26:38.080 Okay.

03:26:38.680 If that's all you're here for, I mean, might as well make this transactional.

03:26:41.420 I'm hungry.

03:26:42.460 Well, here's also the difference between...

03:26:45.700 Sex is an equal value exchange. 0.79

03:26:48.300 So, if we have sex, you benefit, I benefit. 0.64

03:26:52.760 You get pleasure, I get pleasure.

03:26:53.940 Is that true?

03:26:55.560 I mean, if I'm making a girl come... 1.00

03:26:57.380 Okay.

03:26:59.180 Nice.

03:26:59.620 She comes first. 0.81

03:27:00.280 Not everybody is, though.

03:27:01.700 She comes first before me, but that's another conversation.

03:27:05.840 But, whereas, if you're a guy and you pay for the date, you've provided a value, I mean,

03:27:13.420 whatever, 10, 20 bucks, you've paid.

03:27:16.920 So, that's not an equal value exchange there.

03:27:23.300 What's up?

03:27:23.820 What's funny?

03:27:24.320 What's funny?

03:27:25.480 I don't know.

03:27:26.220 You said 10, 20 bucks, and...

03:27:27.840 Oh, you're...

03:27:28.560 I'm just not understanding.

03:27:29.580 You're more expensive.

03:27:32.080 I just don't understand.

03:27:33.380 Who thinks that they're worth that?

03:27:35.860 You think...

03:27:36.360 I just...

03:27:36.660 I don't see how a meal...

03:27:37.840 I'll take a girl McDonald's. 1.00

03:27:38.500 ...is equivalent to pussy. 1.00

03:27:40.000 Huh? 1.00

03:27:40.820 Like, I paid for your food, so now you should want to fuck me. 1.00

03:27:44.860 No, no, no. 1.00

03:27:45.220 That's not...

03:27:45.720 I'm not...

03:27:46.100 I'm not...

03:27:46.420 That's not what I'm saying.

03:27:47.560 I'm just saying that...

03:27:49.600 If you sleep with a guy, right, you both get something out of that.

03:27:57.260 Whereas...

03:27:57.900 Do you really, though? 0.98

03:27:59.020 You get an attachment to a nigga that don't want you. 1.00

03:28:01.180 He only wanted to take you on that one date, and he was mad he had to pay for it. 0.68

03:28:06.320 But, okay.

03:28:07.000 So, if you...

03:28:07.740 But, okay.

03:28:08.160 Here's the thing.

03:28:08.580 If you go on the date, right, from a purely financial perspective, if one party pays, one

03:28:17.640 party benefited, the other party...

03:28:19.660 The other party benefited because that girl decided she was going to take her time to come 1.00

03:28:24.600 and spend it with you.

03:28:25.400 I don't understand how you're...

03:28:26.260 And so did the guy.

03:28:26.960 So did the guy.

03:28:27.760 It was his idea.

03:28:30.040 But somebody...

03:28:30.680 Right back in the room to who invited you.

03:28:32.500 But look, in this dance between men and women, someone has to initiate. 0.79

03:28:37.340 They don't have to.

03:28:38.580 Okay, well, then...

03:28:39.320 We should do something.

03:28:39.920 You know what?

03:28:40.700 You know what?

03:28:41.500 You're right.

03:28:42.060 Nobody should initiate.

03:28:43.440 The species will go extinct.

03:28:46.040 You're right.

03:28:46.840 I feel like it'll just work out.

03:28:51.040 But, okay.

03:28:51.620 I don't know why I went into the who should pay thing.

03:28:54.200 Oh, I'll add one bit to the who should...

03:28:56.860 The pay thing.

03:28:57.980 So another reason why I don't think men...

03:29:01.540 I think you should split.

03:29:02.500 I don't think men should pay.

03:29:03.760 Even if you ask.

03:29:05.420 Even as a guy, if you ask, you're the initiator.

03:29:07.900 I don't think you should pay.

03:29:09.560 Here's why.

03:29:10.580 It's because in 2022...

03:29:12.540 And this applies to both men and women. 0.97

03:29:13.820 And when you go on a date with someone, you have to assume that they're fucking at least one other person. 0.98

03:29:21.520 Maybe two. 0.99

03:29:22.220 Maybe three.

03:29:22.820 Maybe four.

03:29:23.460 Maybe five.

03:29:24.460 People...

03:29:24.780 I don't think they could pay for it.

03:29:26.240 Well, here's the thing.

03:29:27.580 So a man's traditional gender role is to provide. 0.99

03:29:31.700 I'm not going to adhere to my traditional gender roles when you got fucked yesterday by another dude. 0.99

03:29:38.640 Oh, I'm going to pay for your food. 1.00

03:29:40.360 You're going to take that doggy bag, which I paid for.

03:29:43.140 And feed it to him when you get in the crib.

03:29:46.860 Sorry.

03:29:48.340 I'll take you on a nice...

03:29:50.460 Look, babe, I bought a steak.

03:29:52.760 This happens.

03:29:53.720 Guys will take you out for a $100 dinner.

03:29:55.740 You're going to get a to-go bag.

03:29:57.580 You're going to give him an ass-out hug at the end of the date.

03:30:00.420 And feed the whole family. 1.00

03:30:01.380 You're going to take the to-go bag to the fucking guy that you're fucking, who never pays for shit, 1.00

03:30:07.520 who never does anything. 1.00

03:30:09.480 That sucks. 0.97

03:30:10.320 It's so true. 1.00

03:30:10.840 Then you're going to fuck him and give him the food. 1.00

03:30:14.660 That's an L. 1.00

03:30:16.100 That's an L. 1.00

03:30:17.760 Because did you hear how she was taking it home to that nigga that does nothing? 1.00

03:30:20.960 I just don't understand.

03:30:21.820 You just went on a date with the guy that...

03:30:23.200 She's dickmatized. 1.00

03:30:26.120 He's got good dick. 1.00

03:30:26.980 I mean, it's nothing, yeah. 1.00

03:30:28.860 He's got good dick, but he's a dick, and he's not going to pay for your shit. 1.00

03:30:33.400 Digmatized. 1.00

03:30:34.400 Digmatized.

03:30:35.860 Ginny, I like... 0.77

03:30:36.660 It looks like you've had experience.

03:30:40.680 You've been digmatized before.

03:30:44.020 Okay, so I kind of derailed the conversation.

03:30:47.620 We'll touch briefly on body count.

03:30:50.340 You had an issue with it.

03:30:51.560 You're really going back to this one.

03:30:52.580 Well, because I derailed it by starting to talk about who should pay on the first date

03:30:56.220 because we were talking about unfairness, and I was trying to say, hey, it's kind of

03:31:01.380 unfair that men are having to initiate and pay for all these first dates. 0.90

03:31:06.580 That's unfair.

03:31:07.240 What about that dude that sits at home?

03:31:10.120 How come he gets to not do anything and then keep the girl?

03:31:13.200 And then she'll probably pay for the date, too. 0.98

03:31:15.140 Yeah, oh, yes.

03:31:15.720 Because she's like, I just don't understand.

03:31:17.460 Well...

03:31:17.900 How about that?

03:31:18.600 If it's not the first date?

03:31:19.900 Well, there's definitely scenarios where, and this kind of comes down to women who are 1.00

03:31:24.160 able to sleep outside of their league, y'all can fuck dudes that are hotter than you. 1.00

03:31:30.380 They'll never commit to you. 1.00

03:31:31.900 They're going to pretty much just use you for sex, but it's exciting. 0.63

03:31:36.800 They're good in bed. 0.99

03:31:37.640 They're hot.

03:31:38.240 They're attractive. 1.00

03:31:38.920 They treat you like shit. 1.00

03:31:41.220 Fuck it. 1.00

03:31:41.760 I mean, a lot of girls for some reason. 1.00

03:31:44.100 Can you guys explain that why you like to be?

03:31:46.660 It's exhilarating to... 0.98

03:31:47.860 The dick of ties. 0.97

03:31:49.020 The chase. 0.97

03:31:49.640 So...

03:31:53.640 You're in control.

03:31:56.140 You're not.

03:31:56.760 Where were we going with that?

03:31:58.360 I forgot.

03:31:58.840 I don't know.

03:31:59.560 I just went all over, like, a 360.

03:32:01.300 I have no idea anymore.

03:32:02.520 Yeah.

03:32:02.860 Well, I mean, you...

03:32:05.640 It's kind of, I think, and a lot of men are kind of getting tuned into this.

03:32:09.560 You have two separate rules for different guys.

03:32:12.680 If the guy's attractive enough, you will break rules to get with him.

03:32:17.200 You'll sleep with him on the first date.

03:32:18.540 You'll simp for him.

03:32:19.900 You'll do all this stuff, right?

03:32:21.060 If he's attractive enough.

03:32:22.640 But then for, like, maybe the guy that's kind of more on your level, or you view him more, like, nice.

03:32:29.440 He's more of a provider guy.

03:32:32.420 Third date, fourth date, fifth date.

03:32:34.300 I'm going to make you wait.

03:32:35.580 You're going to have to pay for the first date.

03:32:37.660 You're going to have to pay.

03:32:38.960 You're going to have to be a provider.

03:32:41.160 Missionary.

03:32:41.640 No, I mean, you can still get freaky, but whatever.

03:32:44.140 So you have different sets of rules for different guys.

03:32:46.600 It's a dual mating strategy. 1.00

03:32:50.960 And you're acting like niggas don't have mad bitches. 1.00

03:32:54.100 You're telling me you wanted to take me on a date, but you didn't have a girl somewhere around that you just was a little bit bored with, so you went and did something else? 0.99

03:33:02.260 Well, you're talking about the top percent of men.

03:33:05.980 Okay, here's the thing.

03:33:07.300 An average woman? 0.99

03:33:08.880 Here's the difference.

03:33:09.840 Well, I don't know who you're messing with, but okay.

03:33:16.620 An average woman could sleep with a lot of men. 1.00

03:33:21.920 An average guy can't sleep with a lot of women. 1.00

03:33:26.380 Yeah.

03:33:26.700 Like any girl at this table here, if you were so inclined, could sleep with a new guy every single day of the week. 0.96

03:33:34.300 An average guy cannot pull that off.

03:33:37.820 Average men cannot pull that off. 0.51

03:33:39.760 Also, an average woman can sleep with a very high status man. 0.99

03:33:44.640 Very high status.

03:33:47.120 An average man cannot sleep with a very high status woman. 1.00

03:33:50.620 I've seen some celebrities with some ugly ass nobodies. 1.00

03:33:55.660 You know what? 0.99

03:33:56.140 We'll go around the table on this, and I'll start with you.

03:33:58.860 I don't have their names.

03:33:59.960 Has a guy with a blue check mark ever slid into your DMs?

03:34:02.800 A hundred percent.

03:34:03.680 A couple of them.

03:34:05.440 NBA player?

03:34:07.060 You don't have to say who?

03:34:08.280 Artist.

03:34:09.020 Rapper?

03:34:09.720 Yeah.

03:34:11.220 NFL players, basketball players.

03:34:13.300 For you?

03:34:13.940 Yeah.

03:34:14.380 NBA or college?

03:34:16.360 Both.

03:34:17.100 Both?

03:34:17.740 How many blue check marks have slid into your DMs?

03:34:19.820 This one time I got real excited because it was all blue checks. 1.00

03:34:23.200 What the fuck? 0.99

03:34:23.580 I guess I went to the right party or something. 1.00

03:34:25.740 How many?

03:34:26.900 I don't know, but I'll say like, let's be nice, 15, 10, 10.

03:34:33.680 Okay, and let's say which one of them had the biggest following?

03:34:39.500 You don't have to say their name, just number.

03:34:41.960 One, two, three, four, five million followers on IG?

03:34:45.540 Five million.

03:34:46.360 Five mil?

03:34:46.920 Okay.

03:34:47.120 You said some musicians, NFL players, NBA players.

03:34:50.980 Okay.

03:34:52.280 Got a couple from a bunch.

03:34:54.060 Okay.

03:34:55.680 What about you?

03:34:57.540 Blue check marks in your DMs?

03:34:59.440 A lot of comedians that I meet at shows.

03:35:02.920 Okay.

03:35:03.200 And then, yeah, some people come across like my TikTok videos and stuff.

03:35:07.660 Because you have an Audi, they know, they know.

03:35:10.900 Yeah, I don't know.

03:35:13.560 Okay.

03:35:15.140 So, but any athletes?

03:35:18.800 Yeah, a couple athletes.

03:35:20.400 Okay, blue check marks.

03:35:21.420 Okay.

03:35:21.680 And then I'm assuming you guys are getting like guys who don't have check marks, probably

03:35:25.740 a lot of guys DMing you too, correct?

03:35:27.660 Okay.

03:35:28.040 What about you, Ginny?

03:35:29.060 Any blue check?

03:35:29.840 No blue?

03:35:30.180 Not even one?

03:35:31.180 Nobody's texting me.

03:35:32.420 Okay.

03:35:32.960 All right.

03:35:33.900 Nope.

03:35:34.280 Not into social media.

03:35:35.560 Never a blue check mark in your DMs on Instagram?

03:35:37.940 I got a couple, but I'm not into it.

03:35:39.980 Because I don't even know if they're real or fake.

03:35:41.200 Okay, but you get it.

03:35:42.800 Yes.

03:35:43.320 They do message you.

03:35:44.740 What about you?

03:35:45.160 Any blue check marks?

03:35:46.500 I've had a couple blue check marks.

03:35:47.760 Closer to the mic?

03:35:48.980 I've had a few.

03:35:50.060 Okay.

03:35:50.460 What about you?

03:35:51.560 No.

03:35:52.180 No blue?

03:35:52.560 Okay.

03:35:54.100 Never.

03:35:54.940 Never.

03:35:55.440 Not one.

03:35:55.900 Never.

03:35:55.980 Okay, Paisley?

03:35:56.940 Me neither.

03:35:57.820 Okay.

03:35:58.480 So we've got a toss up here.

03:36:03.940 Well, I already said it.

03:36:05.440 So average men can't get with high status women, but high status, hold on, wait. 0.90

03:36:11.500 Yeah.

03:36:11.680 Average men can't get with high status women. 0.97

03:36:15.620 Average women, average women can get with high status men.

03:36:18.780 What about high status, low average men? 0.99

03:36:22.920 You know, like an ugly rapper. 1.00

03:36:24.560 Like you're hella ugly. 0.99

03:36:26.800 Can you think of like a really successful rapper that- 0.99

03:36:30.060 Young boy.

03:36:31.240 Who's the, I don't want to get like- 1.00

03:36:33.600 He has herpes and he still pulls bitches. 1.00

03:36:34.920 Jesus Christ. 1.00

03:36:36.000 I don't want to beef though, so I don't know if I should say it.

03:36:39.240 Who's- 1.00

03:36:39.680 Fuck. 1.00

03:36:42.140 I can't, I don't really listen to rap, so I don't, I can't remember his name. 1.00

03:36:45.740 But he has status though.

03:36:48.520 So.

03:36:49.980 High status, low average.

03:36:52.320 Okay, sure.

03:36:54.040 They still have a very high chance.

03:36:56.260 Sure.

03:36:56.820 So have a talent and maybe you'll be a-

03:36:58.620 But let me ask, you said, you said you had some NBA players, some NFL players, were they,

03:37:04.280 I mean, I assume athletes are typically, at least physically, their physicality, exceptionally

03:37:09.940 attractive.

03:37:11.380 Body anyways, I don't know how.

03:37:12.620 They were, they were cool.

03:37:13.820 Okay.

03:37:14.240 I didn't, I'm gonna be honest, I didn't really respond to very many of them.

03:37:17.280 Okay.

03:37:17.600 I was like, why?

03:37:18.940 Because they, well maybe because you know, they-

03:37:21.080 It's not just- 1.00

03:37:21.660 People just wanna fuck you maybe, but, so, how did we fucking get there? 0.99

03:37:28.260 Where, where am I going with that? 1.00

03:37:29.220 Body count.

03:37:29.860 Body count.

03:37:31.460 Okay.

03:37:32.340 We keep going off of it.

03:37:33.840 Yeah, yeah, let's, I wanna try to put a wrap up on the body count thing.

03:37:37.560 Blue checks.

03:37:38.780 Blue checks.

03:37:39.680 Okay, so, the double standard exists because it is harder for men to get laid.

03:37:45.420 And it's very easy for women to get laid. 1.00

03:37:50.260 That's, it's not impressive.

03:37:52.600 It's, for a guy to be able to sleep with a lot of women, he has to be bringing something.

03:37:58.800 Either looks, or typically game, charisma.

03:38:02.420 Women need not, you need not have game to get laid as a woman. 1.00

03:38:07.060 You just kinda show up.

03:38:08.820 Mm-hmm.

03:38:10.100 Bout your eyes a couple times.

03:38:12.540 Yeah.

03:38:12.900 Yeah.

03:38:13.020 You don't need to have to do that much.

03:38:16.280 I know, literally.

03:38:17.180 Okay, here.

03:38:19.240 Sometimes, it depends.

03:38:20.440 It depends. 1.00

03:38:21.000 You, you walk into a club, and you just say, anyone wanna fuck? 1.00

03:38:27.360 Ooh. 1.00

03:38:27.760 Some dude's gonna be like, I'm down, let's do it. 0.96

03:38:30.200 Ugh, dirty. 1.00

03:38:31.260 You're dirty. 1.00

03:38:32.220 You could be, you could be a super handsome guy, rich, have a Lambo parked outside, 1.00

03:38:40.020 she's fucking, whatever. 1.00

03:38:41.640 Or, say, anyone, anyone wanna fuck? 1.00

03:38:44.860 Girls would be like, what the fuck, weirdo? 1.00

03:38:47.900 It's different. 1.00

03:38:48.920 It's different.

03:38:49.700 So, the double standard exists because it's harder for men to get laid.

03:38:56.140 It's impressive.

03:38:57.220 A girl can't even talk about how she wants to get laid for a girl. 1.00

03:38:59.020 Just because we have the chance doesn't mean we're doing all that.

03:39:02.640 Well, yeah, just because, well, yeah, then, I mean, women would have body counts in the 1.00

03:39:07.980 thousands.

03:39:09.080 If, if you exercised every single option, I mean, you guys are probably inundated with

03:39:15.240 DMs on, or on Instagram, or it could be on dating apps, even in person.

03:39:21.080 If you said yes to every dude, y'all would probably have body counts in the thousands, 0.98

03:39:26.120 right?

03:39:26.940 You, you, you cannot say yes to every guy because there's not enough time in the day for that

03:39:32.340 much day.

03:39:32.640 But, so, it's, do you wanna come back?

03:39:36.740 I mean, I feel like I haven't convinced you.

03:39:38.620 You still haven't.

03:39:39.420 I still stand on it.

03:39:40.380 Okay, so body count.

03:39:41.660 I still think it's biased.

03:39:43.220 That's just how I feel.

03:39:44.780 Okay.

03:39:47.360 You're not gonna convince me.

03:39:50.200 I understand, I understand and respect your point, but it's still biased.

03:39:57.240 How do I, chat, help me out here, guys.

03:39:59.700 You kind of gave me that change my mind dude kind of vibe.

03:40:05.180 What's that?

03:40:06.040 You kind of gave me the change my mind dude kind of vibe.

03:40:10.520 Steven Crowder?

03:40:11.680 I don't know.

03:40:12.660 Change your mind?

03:40:13.920 The one that's like.

03:40:15.580 Have I changed your mind?

03:40:18.120 What's going on here?

03:40:20.040 I don't know.

03:40:20.980 I don't know.

03:40:21.640 Let me get these super chats.

03:40:23.040 Let me get these super chats here, and then we're gonna.

03:40:28.340 All right.

03:40:28.880 Dave on Jackson, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

03:40:31.040 Appreciate it. 0.89

03:40:31.600 It's harder for men to get sex because it's ultimately the woman's decision who has sex. 1.00

03:40:35.540 You are rewarded for doing what's difficult, not what's easy.

03:40:39.040 That's a good point. 0.97

03:40:40.280 Women are the gatekeepers of sex. 1.00

03:40:42.440 You decide.

03:40:44.060 Are we?

03:40:44.780 Yeah. 1.00

03:40:45.040 Because you got the prostitutes that just have sex with anything and anyone. 1.00

03:40:48.220 True. 1.00

03:40:49.020 Sure.

03:40:50.200 But.

03:40:50.980 So they're not gatekeepers. 0.99

03:40:51.880 I didn't know because you're like, I'm not fuck you for less than $50 or whatever. 0.99

03:40:56.400 Like you're saying that there's the bitches that don't turn it down. 1.00

03:40:59.660 So then like, I mean, I don't know. 0.99

03:41:02.220 I mean, the whole prostitute thing, that's kind of an extreme example.

03:41:05.620 And it doesn't really. 0.60

03:41:06.920 Are there male prostitutes for real? 0.94

03:41:08.660 Yes. 0.98

03:41:09.520 Like how many of them?

03:41:10.480 Not.

03:41:12.020 I mean, it's the same thing with OnlyFans.

03:41:13.600 Like, yeah, there's guys who do OnlyFans, but it's just not even comparable to women's 0.98

03:41:18.700 capability to make money.

03:41:20.840 We've got Davon Jackson here.

03:41:22.160 Y'all know damn well. 0.58

03:41:23.140 Y'all don't ask men out. 0.88

03:41:24.480 Stop being facetious.

03:41:26.800 I have asked men out.

03:41:28.180 I've asked men out all the time.

03:41:29.760 You ask men out all the time.

03:41:31.720 Yeah.

03:41:32.420 Okay.

03:41:32.660 Let's do a role play.

03:41:34.480 Where do you ask men out? 0.96

03:41:35.540 On dating apps or in person?

03:41:37.920 More in person.

03:41:39.320 Okay.

03:41:42.100 Here, let's role play.

03:41:43.220 Do it.

03:41:43.580 Oh, no, I don't want to.

03:41:44.580 Ask me out.

03:41:45.840 Not really, but like pretend I'm a dude that you find is attractive.

03:41:51.980 Well, it depends on where we're meeting.

03:41:54.300 Like where I met you.

03:41:55.820 You said, I mean, you're the.

03:41:57.040 I'm an awesome person.

03:41:58.160 So like, it usually starts off with like a conversation just so random.

03:42:01.980 Like I meet people in like coffee shops all the time.

03:42:04.860 Oh, so they start talking to you.

03:42:05.940 They start talking to me, but I'll end up being like, oh,

03:42:08.800 well, yeah, we should get together sometime.

03:42:10.420 What's your social media?

03:42:11.780 No, I never ask people for their social media though.

03:42:14.880 No, what do you look like on the internet?

03:42:16.540 So you ask for their number or you just say.

03:42:19.740 No, yeah, I'll ask for their number.

03:42:21.880 Okay.

03:42:22.100 There's a difference.

03:42:22.960 There's a big difference.

03:42:25.060 They have to be photogenic.

03:42:26.680 No, not even necessarily. 0.99

03:42:27.900 But are you the type of nigga that only posts selfies? 1.00

03:42:30.880 Because I don't want to. 1.00

03:42:32.880 Wait, what are you talking about?

03:42:34.220 There's definitely a type of dude that is like,

03:42:36.360 he's constantly posting pictures of himself,

03:42:38.720 feeling cute or whatever.

03:42:39.800 And now I'm just getting a little bit of a fruity vibe.

03:42:42.660 A fruity vibe.

03:42:43.380 Yeah, but he was being all big and masculine in front of me,

03:42:46.100 but you'd be in a mirror all day. 1.00

03:42:48.500 Bitch, you're fruity. 1.00

03:42:50.000 I don't know. 1.00

03:42:51.300 I don't know.

03:42:52.700 She needs a masculine guy, apparently. 1.00

03:42:56.140 Wait, so who here hits on guys, allegedly?

03:42:59.840 I've done it.

03:43:01.000 You've done it?

03:43:01.500 It's not something that I do.

03:43:02.340 But you said you've done it all the time.

03:43:03.760 Okay, let's.

03:43:05.400 I'm in a coffee shop.

03:43:06.560 Oh, no.

03:43:07.460 This is too awkward.

03:43:08.680 I can't do it.

03:43:09.760 Play it out.

03:43:10.080 No, it has to come like naturally.

03:43:11.580 Like I cannot be up and be like.

03:43:14.680 You do it all the time, but you don't know how to do it.

03:43:17.380 Yeah.

03:43:17.680 It's a feeling.

03:43:18.320 Okay, I said all the time, but that's exaggerating.

03:43:20.760 She's done it twice in her life.

03:43:22.180 No, a few times, but yeah.

03:43:24.220 Well, here's the other thing.

03:43:25.560 If a woman, as a woman, if you do choose to be a bit more, 0.93

03:43:31.500 let's say aggressive, and you do initiate,

03:43:34.560 compared to men, your likelihood of success is going to be way higher.

03:43:40.040 Like if you hit on a dude, if you hit on a guy, compared to like a guy's batting average,

03:43:47.160 there's a very high likelihood that you're going to have a positive response.

03:43:52.040 And even if the guy's not interested, it's still probably going to go much better than how men get rejected.

03:43:57.480 Like, they'll at least probably be like, they'll probably be flattered, you know?

03:44:03.700 I got rejected by a man once.

03:44:07.040 Me too.

03:44:07.520 Yeah, and he went and told my ex-boyfriend that I was being a hoe. 0.97

03:44:11.800 I was like, never will I ever talk to another nigga again. 1.00

03:44:14.900 No, I'm just kidding. 0.92

03:44:15.260 All right, we got Davon Jackson here with the $10 soup chat.

03:44:18.880 This girl's delusion makes sense now. 0.60

03:44:20.820 She's viewing all men's options as if they were all six feet plus athletic millionaires.

03:44:26.640 These are 1% guys in your DMs, and you all average at best.

03:44:31.940 Okay, Davon Jackson.

03:44:33.400 Are you mad?

03:44:34.700 I think he...

03:44:35.480 Sounds a little bit salty.

03:44:37.000 You're not six feet?

03:44:39.200 I'll have you now.

03:44:40.360 Can you pass?

03:44:41.460 Thanks, Paisley.

03:44:43.960 Oh, it's toasty?

03:44:45.260 I thought you said it was toasty because you're keeping it warm.

03:44:48.500 Davon Jackson, by the way, your mug has been being kept warm in Paisley's lap.

03:44:54.960 I'll let you know.

03:44:56.960 I'll let you know.

03:44:58.960 Come on.

03:45:00.220 I didn't say nothing wrong about the guy.

03:45:02.100 He's talking to me.

03:45:02.720 Look at this guy.

03:45:03.340 First off, look at his facial aesthetics.

03:45:04.840 I feel like you're trying to sell him right now.

03:45:06.420 Yeah, he is.

03:45:07.820 Listen, first off, he's a 6'5 Giga Chad.

03:45:11.840 Okay.

03:45:12.400 Davon Jackson's a 6'5 Giga Chad.

03:45:14.320 Look at that facial hair.

03:45:16.840 Look at the hair insertions on his beard. 1.00

03:45:18.640 That's a fucking top-tier beard, first off. 0.99

03:45:22.480 You know, he does, like, obviously for, you know... 0.99

03:45:26.660 You know, I don't want to assume, but I think these are just faux glasses.

03:45:31.620 It's just kind of a style thing.

03:45:32.860 I don't think...

03:45:33.620 I don't know what he looks like.

03:45:35.060 Hmm.

03:45:35.500 Without a hat?

03:45:36.340 In a real picture, maybe?

03:45:39.200 Like, as a real person, you know?

03:45:41.280 Yeah, not a drawing.

03:45:41.780 Like, a painting or a picture.

03:45:43.880 Look, I think...

03:45:44.920 I'm not even coming for you.

03:45:45.940 I think he has 20-20 vision.

03:45:48.760 I just think it's a style choice.

03:45:50.280 So, like, he doesn't get any negative points from, like, a, you know, mating perspective.

03:45:54.940 Like, your children will have good vision.

03:45:57.400 As far as his hat goes, like, I think he's just a big fan of the Chargers.

03:46:01.580 Can we see his Instagram? 1.00

03:46:02.500 His fucking hairline is majestic. 1.00

03:46:05.340 How dare you? 1.00

03:46:06.080 I can't tell.

03:46:06.520 He just really likes the Chargers, okay?

03:46:11.040 Look at those.

03:46:11.680 I should say something to him.

03:46:12.260 And he has...

03:46:13.340 Kiss it.

03:46:14.220 He has a neutral tilt.

03:46:17.340 His eyes are neutral tilt.

03:46:19.140 So, that's good.

03:46:20.660 That's a drawing.

03:46:20.980 That's...

03:46:21.260 What's that?

03:46:22.640 I'm not getting over it.

03:46:24.180 Show me a picture of this.

03:46:25.180 Would you...

03:46:25.960 Question.

03:46:27.120 Can I set you up with Davon?

03:46:28.900 No.

03:46:29.440 He's the homie. 1.00

03:46:30.220 Can I set you up with him?

03:46:30.760 He already started wrong.

03:46:32.500 Listen, can he redeem himself?

03:46:35.300 Probably not.

03:46:37.100 Can I...

03:46:37.660 $100 chat.

03:46:38.800 Listen.

03:46:39.660 Put a $20 chat.

03:46:40.700 Davon.

03:46:41.940 Davon.

03:46:42.260 Too broke.

03:46:42.900 You're 4'11", right?

03:46:44.320 Mm-hmm.

03:46:46.180 Fun-sized.

03:46:47.680 What y'all got to say about that?

03:46:50.100 Huh?

03:46:50.620 Oh.

03:46:51.180 Well, you know, I mean, on the topic of height.

03:46:55.060 If her height don't start with 4, she ain't the one. 1.00

03:46:58.600 So, Davon, you got some competition.

03:47:01.120 I'm just kidding.

03:47:01.860 But here, we got one more from Davon.

03:47:05.340 I'm six foot tall, stronger than 90% of humans, and make six figures.

03:47:09.700 I'm all right.

03:47:10.540 I'm speaking for average men.

03:47:12.260 Word.

03:47:14.320 Word.

03:47:15.360 And then let me...

03:47:16.100 Once we get this last one, we'll pull that one up.

03:47:19.860 What?

03:47:21.160 Mickey Mac.

03:47:22.560 Don't say that.

03:47:23.160 He said he is.

03:47:23.980 He does...

03:47:24.780 Go ahead.

03:47:25.980 So, then my children's hairline would be at risk.

03:47:32.540 I am bald.

03:47:33.180 I don't really care.

03:47:33.820 No, thank you.

03:47:35.200 Exactly.

03:47:35.900 I'm trying to be matchmaker here, Davon.

03:47:37.720 Don't do it.

03:47:38.360 All right.

03:47:39.160 All right.

03:47:39.600 Well, I think that's it for the super... 1.00

03:47:41.260 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:47:43.000 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:47:44.060 Ah, I'm expensive. 1.00

03:47:45.880 All right.

03:47:50.940 Yeah.

03:47:51.680 Have me back on the show.

03:47:53.960 Yo, we got a $100 super chat from the Chad.

03:47:58.400 The Giga Chad.

03:47:59.480 What is a Giga Chad?

03:48:01.380 Giga Chad?

03:48:02.280 Yeah.

03:48:02.460 It's like a Chad, but Giga. 0.91

03:48:04.780 Okay.

03:48:05.460 That's a good one.

03:48:06.220 Wait, Eric, can you pull up Giga Chad, a photo, just so we have a reference?

03:48:10.040 Just search Giga Chad.

03:48:12.480 Yo, Davon, thank you for the big $100 super chat.

03:48:14.760 Really appreciate your support, man.

03:48:15.860 That's crazy.

03:48:17.640 I should have asked for that.

03:48:18.360 By the way, if you happen...

03:48:19.580 I said 20.

03:48:20.460 He dropped 100.

03:48:21.540 Yeah, because you're low-balling yourself, dude.

03:48:23.480 Oh, that's true.

03:48:24.320 Don't do it.

03:48:25.040 That's true.

03:48:25.480 By the way, Davon...

03:48:26.740 Oh, can you make it bigger and go F11?

03:48:28.500 His chin.

03:48:29.360 Is that the chin that you were talking about?

03:48:31.880 This is Giga Chad.

03:48:33.660 This is Giga Chad.

03:48:40.820 Would you guys date Giga Chad?

03:48:44.140 Wait.

03:48:44.560 He looked like his jaw game is real strong.

03:48:47.240 Okay. 1.00

03:48:47.840 Shit. 1.00

03:48:51.460 Wait, Eric, can you find a full-body version of Giga Chad? 1.00

03:48:56.700 Uh-oh.

03:48:57.220 And I'll spend more money on these chats than I knew, but...

03:49:01.680 Did they think I wouldn't?

03:49:03.280 Big...

03:49:03.640 Thank you, man.

03:49:04.060 I really appreciate the support.

03:49:04.980 Show me again.

03:49:05.740 I'll pull up your other one.

03:49:07.060 Look at the money.

03:49:08.560 Drop my demo.

03:49:09.720 All right.

03:49:10.220 Let me drop my demo.

03:49:11.400 I'm actually something weird on all platforms.

03:49:13.920 Cash app, demo, Instagram, TikTok.

03:49:17.080 I don't know if he's going to simp like that, but...

03:49:20.660 Davon Jackson ain't no simp.

03:49:22.960 I didn't think so.

03:49:24.300 He ain't no simp.

03:49:25.300 Um, Eric, can you just pull up this other soup chat?

03:49:30.140 I'm not getting it yet.

03:49:30.800 A Giga Chad with Giga...

03:49:31.980 Oh, wait.

03:49:32.320 Sorry.

03:49:32.560 I got it.

03:49:33.080 Um, did you...

03:49:33.660 Did you find the Giga Chad picture?

03:49:35.300 I'm trying to find a good one.

03:49:36.620 Like, full-body...

03:49:37.540 Did you find a Giga Chad of Devon?

03:49:39.060 I'll send more money on there.

03:49:40.180 Davon Jackson, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

03:49:42.100 I'll spend more money on these chats than I ever would on you on a date.

03:49:46.500 Oh, my God.

03:49:48.300 Oh, my God. 0.99

03:49:49.480 That would hurt really fucking bad. 0.99

03:49:52.460 Devon. 0.98

03:49:53.960 Davon?

03:49:54.440 No matter.

03:49:57.160 Uh, were you able to find it, Eric?

03:49:59.400 Yeah.

03:50:02.380 Let's pull up the Giga Chad.

03:50:06.560 Okay, go.

03:50:08.420 That's scary. 1.00

03:50:09.140 He's going to rip your head from your body. 0.93

03:50:12.600 I feel like there's a better one. 0.99

03:50:14.140 I was trying to find a better one.

03:50:15.240 Yeah, there's a better one, but...

03:50:16.840 Oh, the veins on this thing.

03:50:19.740 I feel like that...

03:50:21.160 This guy...

03:50:21.960 That photo's kind of Monka-TOS.

03:50:24.100 He's busting out his skin. 1.00

03:50:25.800 I think that...

03:50:26.680 That photo might be Monka-TOS.

03:50:31.160 I don't know. 0.99

03:50:33.180 His fucking jeans were unzipped. 1.00

03:50:35.300 Pulled that pretty fucking far. 1.00

03:50:37.680 Monka-TOS. 0.94

03:50:38.400 Anyways, we don't...

03:50:39.780 Yeah, we're fine.

03:50:41.000 Oh, why is it so...

03:50:42.780 It looks super dark.

03:50:43.980 Maybe that's just on our monitor. 1.00

03:50:45.440 It's like a veiny penis. 1.00

03:50:46.440 I'm so disgusted and scared. 1.00

03:50:48.940 Anyways, okay, well, we're going to wrap there.

03:50:51.780 I don't think I'm going to be able to convince the girls on the body count thing. 0.99

03:50:57.540 Should we do a Tate?

03:50:58.400 Do you guys want to react to one Tate video?

03:51:00.500 Okay, sure.

03:51:01.140 All right, one Tate video, then we'll wrap.

03:51:02.780 By the way, thank you guys.

03:51:03.640 I know we've gone pretty late here, so...

03:51:06.160 Pull up the videos tab.

03:51:08.820 Oh, maybe we should wait for Chyna to come back and back to... 0.97

03:51:12.440 Can you hold for five?

03:51:14.020 We're going to wrap.

03:51:15.620 Awesome.

03:51:16.080 Thank you, Chyna.

03:51:18.980 Black Chyna. 0.99

03:51:20.360 No.

03:51:21.480 Because of the rapper, right?

03:51:23.900 Or the musician?

03:51:24.880 No, don't make that a scene.

03:51:27.220 She's bad news, dude.

03:51:28.700 Thank you.

03:51:29.300 Wait, she is?

03:51:29.900 She holds people hostage. 1.00

03:51:31.720 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:51:32.440 Sex trades people. 1.00

03:51:33.060 Yeah, so no correlation.

03:51:34.740 You're not related.

03:51:36.220 Hell no.

03:51:36.980 Okay.

03:51:37.880 No.

03:51:38.320 Okay.

03:51:39.500 Yeah, let's do a Tate video.

03:51:42.400 I guess, you know what?

03:51:43.640 I got to call in the...

03:51:45.100 I guess we got to do the body count one because...

03:51:49.580 All right.

03:51:50.100 You know what's so attractive about younger women? 1.00

03:51:51.560 Oh, my God.

03:51:51.880 Because a lot of these dudes talk about fertility and looks and stuff. 0.97

03:51:55.480 I don't actually think it's that.

03:51:56.780 I think that in the modern world...

03:51:58.940 In the days of old, right?

03:52:00.080 You'd meet a woman, you'd get married, you'd be together, whatever, whatever. 0.99

03:52:02.000 In the modern world, if I meet a girl who's 33 and single, I know the amount of dick that's been through her before me is just simply unattractive. 0.99

03:52:09.200 I don't care how nice you are, but you're 33 years old. 1.00

03:52:12.280 How many men have fucked... 0.99

03:52:13.360 If I get a 19-year-old girl, I might be your second or third man, right? 1.00

03:52:15.660 I'm going to be dude number fucking 29, and all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit they put you through, you're going to try and bring to my door? 1.00

03:52:23.240 Like, well, if my last man cheat, I don't give a fuck. 1.00

03:52:25.880 Like, I don't care. 0.99

03:52:26.900 Like, why is that my problem?

03:52:27.980 So, if you pick up older women, you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer. 0.99

03:52:31.840 They've had more fucking rides, more spins. 1.00

03:52:34.560 I don't want that shit. 1.00

03:52:35.780 And when I see a beautiful young woman, I know that she has a very low body count. 1.00

03:52:38.920 And that, and also, no, but the truth is this, women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex. 1.00

03:52:45.120 If a woman sleeps with a bunch of men, it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall in love with you. 1.00

03:52:48.800 It is unattractive, too.

03:52:50.020 And it's unattractive, but if she's had 30 dudes inside of her, is she really going to think, you know what, this guy's so, so, so special?

03:52:56.160 Or is she going to think, you know what, he talked to me real, let's go get a new guy?

03:52:58.300 Whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys, she's much more likely to fall in love with you and be a better partner. 0.96

03:53:01.520 The likelihood of her falling completely in love with you and staying loyal to you and really believing you're the only man for her,

03:53:07.220 after being through so much trauma and so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart broken

03:53:11.800 and having those memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through,

03:53:14.760 is far less likely than meeting a nice, young, beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men.

03:53:18.340 And she goes, you know what, this is the guy, I like him.

03:53:20.660 Every woman who knows this and every man who watches this can be honest.

03:53:22.840 Women fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy. 0.95

03:53:25.580 They really remember them. They really love them.

03:53:27.280 Any woman who slept with 50 dudes, she doesn't even remember who most of them are. She doesn't care. 1.00

03:53:30.040 If a woman slept with a bunch of men before you, she's less likely to stick it out through a difficult period in a relationship. 1.00

03:53:34.100 She's more likely to just say, you know what, new answer's new date. 0.86

03:53:36.280 That's a pretty good answer.

03:53:37.040 And that's the truth. Let me make something clear.

03:53:38.940 If I meet a beautiful 30-year-old woman, I'm not saying I want to see you. 1.00

03:53:41.360 That's pretty fucking old. 0.99

03:53:43.080 30? 0.99

03:53:43.820 I know. 1.00

03:53:44.240 What are you, crazy? 1.00

03:53:45.920 There's been times I was drunk. 0.99

03:53:48.360 Okay, your guys' reaction to that video. Kiana, go ahead.

03:53:51.900 I mean, I agree with them, like some of it, but like, I mean, it happens.

03:53:59.140 Well, now you do that. 1.00

03:54:02.060 But it shit happens. 0.99

03:54:03.860 Like sometimes, I mean, people's body counts are higher, though. 1.00

03:54:07.240 What shit happens? 1.00

03:54:08.660 Like, I mean, yeah, I agree with the fact that like she is going to be more fucked up in the head, 1.00

03:54:15.380 the more miles of dick, if I want to put it, she has in her. 1.00

03:54:20.020 So it's, I mean, coming from, I mean, me, I mean, it's not that high, but I mean, I've, even me, like, have had a lot of trauma just from going, having three boyfriends that broke my heart, you know? 0.99

03:54:33.140 So, and even that, it's really, it's really hard.

03:54:38.600 So, I mean, it's hard to trust people again. 0.80

03:54:42.600 And so, I mean, I think it can go either way with having a high body count and being fucked up to being a young girl, not having that much experience. 0.99

03:54:51.340 I think you can be fucked up either way. 0.99

03:54:55.160 And if you have a high body count, that does not make you more fucked up. 1.00

03:54:59.020 And that's not going to make you more going to want to go cheat or want to go be with another person immediately. 0.98

03:55:04.480 Because I know people that have had huge body counts.

03:55:08.560 Oh, whatever.

03:55:09.400 I'm going to stop talking.

03:55:11.320 Well, the thing is, though, if you do have a high body count, it kind of does mean those things.

03:55:21.740 So does that apply to a man?

03:55:24.420 To a degree.

03:55:26.060 Because there are men that have high body counts, like in the hundreds.

03:55:29.780 Yes.

03:55:30.100 So, the inability to be able to pair bond after you've had so many sexual partners does diminish.

03:55:41.880 For both men and women, it's stronger in women.

03:55:48.140 So, if you've slept with 100 people, is number 101 going to be really special?

03:55:54.440 Maybe.

03:55:54.780 Okay, if you've had 30 relationships, I don't even know how you'd do that.

03:56:01.560 I mean, I'd assume they'd have to be fairly short term.

03:56:04.700 Number 31 ain't going to be...

03:56:07.320 What if it is?

03:56:09.200 Come on.

03:56:09.780 I'm so confused.

03:56:11.160 There's always somebody better than the last one. 0.99

03:56:13.400 So, you're telling me I fucked with a fucking person who didn't know how to fuck, and that was my 33rd body or some shit like that. 1.00

03:56:25.900 And then the next person I fucked, they was the fuck champion. 1.00

03:56:29.400 You're saying that it wasn't better? 1.00

03:56:32.680 I'm confused.

03:56:33.300 I lost the whole question.

03:56:34.220 But, well, you can definitely level up, no matter how many body counts you have.

03:56:38.160 Well, here's another reason why the divorce rate is so high and why most divorces are initiated by women. 1.00

03:56:46.360 You can sleep with that really exciting guy, that really attractive guy.

03:56:51.440 He will never commit to you.

03:56:53.060 So, when you look for marriage and commitment, you're going to look for the safe, reliable guy.

03:56:59.020 I don't know.

03:57:00.120 That is why marriages don't work. 1.00

03:57:02.000 Because you are looking for an average dick, and I don't think that'll... 0.99

03:57:05.580 Well, if you're average, for long-term commitment, you're going to have to... 1.00

03:57:10.240 You're going to take that exception, or you're going to fucking... 0.98

03:57:12.380 If you're average, you should partner with someone who's average. 0.98

03:57:17.080 Because, I mean, maybe you can luck out and get someone who's really above you, but...

03:57:23.680 That's not fun either.

03:57:26.060 Well, I mean...

03:57:27.220 Okay.

03:57:28.760 I'm just...

03:57:29.060 No, but...

03:57:30.060 Look.

03:57:30.280 In your youth, you sleep with the bad boy, the exciting guy, the guy who's really good in bed, the guy who's really attractive.

03:57:40.080 But then, he's never going to commit to you.

03:57:42.760 When it comes time to start a family and settle down, you're going to have to...

03:57:47.480 Choose the square.

03:57:49.020 Well, here's the thing.

03:57:50.020 Like, that guy was...

03:57:51.440 The guy that you're probably going to end up marrying is actually probably your looks equivalent and your...

03:57:56.820 What would otherwise be an equal match.

03:57:58.520 But because you were able to secure sexual access from men that would never commit to you, but that would sleep with you because they want easy access to sex, you have...

03:58:08.880 You're always going to be like, oh my God. 0.99

03:58:10.760 You're going to compare your husband to the guy who could fuck you better, who was more attractive, and who has all these other characteristics that your husband isn't. 1.00

03:58:20.300 That is one of the reasons. 0.98

03:58:21.920 That's one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high. 1.00

03:58:25.620 But isn't he going to do the same thing?

03:58:26.720 And that's why it should just be...

03:58:28.200 Men, we can't... 0.97

03:58:29.460 We don't really fuck up. 0.99

03:58:31.440 It's hard. 0.92

03:58:32.820 Hold on. 1.00

03:58:33.660 Men don't fuck up. 1.00

03:58:35.040 What are you saying right now? 1.00

03:58:36.180 Actually...

03:58:36.580 Yo, we...

03:58:37.380 You're...

03:58:37.980 I can't even get it together. 1.00

03:58:40.080 Men, we're not able to fuck up. 1.00

03:58:41.460 Men don't fuck up. 1.00

03:58:44.240 Okay. 1.00

03:58:44.660 Well, for example, the...

03:58:49.800 I mean, I kind of already said this.

03:58:53.620 I know.

03:58:55.500 Sorry.

03:58:55.760 We're just...

03:58:56.280 The conversations, just great questions from you.

03:58:59.220 I will try to wrap this up fairly soon.

03:59:01.680 But when it comes to status, a 19-year-old college chick can get with Drake. 0.99

03:59:10.620 There's no 19-year-old college dudes that can get with Rihanna or some, you know.

03:59:17.460 It's not happening.

03:59:18.520 She... 1.00

03:59:19.240 So, as a woman, as you become higher status, as you become more successful, your pool of 1.00

03:59:25.040 partners starts to shrink.

03:59:26.620 The more money you make, your pool shrinks.

03:59:29.620 As a man, as you gain status, as you gain money...

03:59:32.320 Sorry, guys.

03:59:32.720 I got some Altoids.

03:59:33.480 That's why I sound weird.

03:59:35.920 Your pool widens. 0.96

03:59:38.220 So, we can't really fuck up. 0.96

03:59:43.520 I just don't like that statement. 0.96

03:59:45.080 There's so many other words you can use. 1.00

03:59:46.660 Y'all niggas fuck up every day. 1.00

03:59:49.840 Weren't we... 1.00

03:59:50.420 What is it?

03:59:50.900 Born sinners?

03:59:51.840 Or something like that? 1.00

03:59:52.740 You can't tell me that you don't fuck up. 1.00

03:59:54.360 You're lying. 1.00

03:59:55.060 You're lying.

03:59:55.660 But let me...

03:59:56.380 Okay, let me...

03:59:56.740 Don't go for it.

03:59:57.800 Well, let me bring it back to the conversation that we were having earlier.

04:00:00.800 It's our fault for letting you in. 0.99

04:00:02.820 So, basically, the women fucked up for letting... 1.00

04:00:05.380 Well, I'm not sure if I recall necessarily saying that, but we were talking about the percentage 0.99

04:00:10.860 of men that you guys find attractive.

04:00:13.720 Uh-huh.

04:00:14.800 Right.

04:00:15.160 You only find a small percentage of men attractive.

04:00:18.660 Uh-huh.

04:00:19.820 Okay? 1.00

04:00:20.340 How does that mean you don't fuck up? 0.99

04:00:22.240 Where's the correlation? 1.00

04:00:22.660 I think he's saying you fuck up. 1.00

04:00:25.860 Oh, you fuck up. 1.00

04:00:27.440 Okay, I was like, you don't fuck up. 1.00

04:00:29.300 I was like, how do you not make mistakes? 0.99

04:00:30.720 I'm so confused.

04:00:31.620 I was so confused.

04:00:33.740 I was like, what?

04:00:35.660 No, I'm not...

04:00:36.860 Okay.

04:00:38.160 I'm not talking about making mistakes. 0.99

04:00:40.140 Yeah, you couldn't fuck up. 0.99

04:00:40.200 You could never do no better than the one that really chose you. 0.98

04:00:42.900 I mean, sleeping...

04:00:42.920 I mean, sleeping up.

04:00:44.340 Yeah.

04:00:44.680 Like, we usually, it's...

04:00:46.780 There are some circumstances where it happens.

04:00:48.800 Maybe you get lucky.

04:00:50.140 Maybe you're bringing something else to the table in substantial quality to maybe make

04:00:54.780 up for your looks, charisma, confidence, personality, status, money, whatever it may be.

04:01:01.980 But, those are typically outlier scenarios.

04:01:06.880 Like, generally speaking, we're not able to secure sexual access from women who are more 1.00

04:01:12.760 attractive than we are easily.

04:01:15.500 Whereas, it's fairly easy.

04:01:16.960 Like, any of you can hop on Tinder.

04:01:18.460 Okay, okay, okay.

04:01:18.860 I agree with you. 1.00

04:01:20.520 You can't fuck up. 0.99

04:01:22.400 It's possible, but it's pretty fucking hard. 0.99

04:01:25.400 Yeah.

04:01:26.320 But...

04:01:27.160 That's a good pat on the back if you do.

04:01:29.980 I suppose.

04:01:31.980 But, when it comes to...

04:01:34.780 And that's what's going...

04:01:35.840 How did...

04:01:36.340 I don't even know how we got there.

04:01:37.380 We're talking about Tate.

04:01:39.200 We were trying to react to Tate's video.

04:01:41.880 The point is, is that that's what's going on with...

04:01:44.880 One of the reasons why I think the divorce rate is so high is... 0.87

04:01:49.500 The more men that you sleep with, the greater likelihood that one of those men that you've

04:01:55.760 slept with in your past is a top G.

04:01:58.880 Like Andrew Tate.

04:02:00.840 Or maybe not like Andrew Tate.

04:02:03.180 You just called Andrew Tate a top G. 1.00

04:02:04.720 He's the fucking top... 0.99

04:02:05.740 Well, he is the top G. 1.00

04:02:07.960 Okay.

04:02:08.600 That's his nickname.

04:02:09.760 That's his nickname.

04:02:11.040 But there's...

04:02:11.980 So, there's this concept.

04:02:13.460 And I mean, it's...

04:02:14.460 It's called the Alpha... 0.99

04:02:16.560 I don't like the Alpha Beta fucking... 0.99

04:02:19.080 I don't like that terminology. 0.99

04:02:20.580 But Alpha Widow. 0.97

04:02:22.600 So, once you've gotten with a guy of a certain caliber...

04:02:26.620 It could be for a one-night stand or for a relationship.

04:02:29.640 If you've slept with someone who's either so incredibly good in bed or so physically attractive

04:02:36.020 or has a certain amount of status or is meeting some sort of metric...

04:02:40.560 It's going to be very difficult for you to get with a guy who doesn't meet his level.

04:02:49.160 So, in the same way, like, to maybe put it more down-to-earth, once you've hooked up

04:02:55.460 with a guy who has a car and who has his own place, hooking up with a guy who lives

04:03:00.720 in a dorm room doesn't seem as appealing.

04:03:03.700 Does that...

04:03:04.580 Yeah.

04:03:05.240 Like... 1.00

04:03:06.200 But you guys could go fuck a girl in the dorm room or in her house and y'all be satisfied 1.00

04:03:10.660 because y'all got the coochie. 1.00

04:03:12.460 Yeah.

04:03:13.100 Yeah.

04:03:13.380 Yeah, pretty much.

04:03:14.100 Cool.

04:03:14.400 Pretty much.

04:03:15.760 So, I want to open it up.

04:03:17.740 I want to...

04:03:19.740 Did anyone else want to react to the tape video on this side of the table?

04:03:23.160 Any reaction?

04:03:23.900 It's just time.

04:03:24.620 Nope.

04:03:24.920 Yeah, it's getting late.

04:03:25.740 It's getting late.

04:03:26.440 I don't know.

04:03:27.040 I don't think I'm going to be able to milk much more from...

04:03:29.740 Yeah, it's 1130.

04:03:32.560 Yes.

04:03:32.700 She's about to drive home.

04:03:33.760 Yes, yes, yes.

04:03:34.360 Isn't it?

04:03:34.640 So, last opportunity.

04:03:38.000 Anybody?

04:03:38.540 Okay, we'll wrap.

04:03:39.180 We'll wrap.

04:03:39.540 Thank you, guys.

04:03:40.060 I appreciate you guys.

04:03:41.080 We definitely went very late on this one.

04:03:42.900 Okay, so, let me just do the...

04:03:47.820 By the way, just thank you for everyone.

04:03:49.320 Thank you for everyone who super chatted tonight.

04:03:52.900 Thank you guys for tuning in.

04:03:54.580 You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.

04:03:57.140 I appreciate that.

04:03:58.400 Thanks to everyone who super chats and supports the show.

04:04:00.440 Really appreciate it.

04:04:01.420 Thanks to our chat mods.

04:04:02.640 Zach, see you in the chat.

04:04:03.980 Candice, see you in the chat.

04:04:05.880 Thanks to Eric, top producer.

04:04:08.320 Thank you to all of you so much for coming.

04:04:10.540 Really appreciate it.

04:04:11.220 Sorry we went a little late, just the...

04:04:13.180 I thought it was a great panel.

04:04:14.300 I really appreciate you guys had some really great...

04:04:17.060 We had some great back and forth.

04:04:19.180 I appreciate some of your questions.

04:04:21.180 You were hilarious.

04:04:22.300 In a good way, you got a great laugh.

04:04:24.060 I loved all of you guys.

04:04:25.320 You guys were great.

04:04:26.000 Thank you so much.

04:04:27.560 But, yeah, sorry that we did go a little later than anticipated.

04:04:31.200 For those watching, we will be live again Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:04:36.540 Thanks again for tuning in.

04:04:37.600 Thanks again to the wonderful panel.

04:04:40.020 And we will see you next time.

04:04:42.980 Good night, guys.

04:04:44.320 Bye, guys.

Whatever Podcast - February 04, 2023

Dating Talk #38

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