Dating Talk #39
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4 hours and 21 minutes
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178.15486
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277
Summary
On this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, we interview Dr. Warren Farrell about his new book, It's Upside Down, My Bad: The Boy Crisis, and we introduce ourselves to our new co-hosts, Jasmine and Lily.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.
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Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California.
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Every Tuesday and Thursday at 7pm Pacific, I'm your host, Brian Atlas.
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A few quick announcements before the show begins.
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On Tuesday, I interviewed Dr. Warren Farrell one-on-one.
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Unfortunately, YouTube, we reacted to him when he was on Oprah in the 90s.
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And Oprah has super strict copyright rules with her content.
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It was resolved, but unfortunately, it was unavailable in every territory besides the US.
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Anyways, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and your school major.
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Everyone will claim you're 21 with the drinks and I just, 21 feet in my mind now, I'm 20, sorry.
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I'm a receptionist at a nail salon and I'm an early childhood education major.
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I'm a UCSB graduate with a bachelor in communication.
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I'm 22 and I'm a personal stylist here in Santa Barbara.
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I'm Oksana, 31, and I'm a senior at biz dev at a logistics company.
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I'm a criminal justice major and I work at HomeGoods.
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So, right now I'm doing marketing and also content creations.
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So, once again, around the table, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?
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My longest relationship, it was on and off, but it was over a course of four years.
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I feel like there are more genuine people on there.
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And I had Tinder, but I deleted it, and I don't use it anymore.
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My longest relationship was less than a year, and I'm currently seeing someone from a dating app on...
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Can I have you just tilt the microphone like that way a bit?
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I've had a three and a half, four year toxic relationship, and emotionally unavailable right now.
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I've never been in a relationship, and I'm on Tinder, but I don't really use it.
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My longest relationship was about a year, and I am not on any dating apps.
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Is your current relationship your longest relationship?
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I'm single right now, and my longest relationship is a year, and I'm currently on Raya.
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I'm not sure if you guys are familiar with Raya, but it's a yes or no.
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Because I feel everyone is dying to get on this app, and then, because, like, for Tinder,
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Like, I would just leave it there for, like, a night.
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The next morning, I have, like, 999-plus people like you, like, stuff like this.
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So, Raya's the app for, isn't, like, celebrities and shit are on there?
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Like, my friend is a dentist in Santa Monica, and she's on there.
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And so, you can get on it if you get a referral.
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I heard a way to get on it is either you are in the industry, you're a producer, you're
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a director, you're a photographer, or you have 500K of followers, or you have five referrals,
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which you currently have five friends currently using it, then you're able to get on it.
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So, you've not had any, have you matched with any celebrities or any noteworthy people on
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But, yeah, I've seen people like Charlie Puth on there.
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And then the actor of Get Out, the main actor of Get Out.
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She forgot to cancel her subscription, I guess.
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Well, you said like you saw Cara, Delva, Lala or whatever.
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Actually, probably 50% of my matches is all girls.
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But are they trying to date you or are you straightforward?
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I feel maybe a quarter of them is kind of tomboy-ish.
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But the majority of them just want a girlfriend.
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By Bumble into some of them at the parties and events, but not just like a date.
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By the way, guys, we have some of the girls' dating profiles, screenshots.
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And unfortunately, we couldn't do Raya because they were like kind of strict with that.
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She'd probably get kicked off the app if we showed you her profile.
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So, just going back once again, have any of you ever been on Seeking?
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It's just too much work because none of them are like an application.
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And so, I don't want to whip out my laptop and be like, da, da, da, da.
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And I've also heard that not only like, if you're on it, you also have to like weave through like the men and make sure you find the right one that's like actually going to pay you for like.
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I just wanted to like submit my account and then there's a sugar daddy pops up.
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So, you're the only one with a boyfriend currently, right?
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I'm going to have to get up really quick to adjust this camera angle here.
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So, speaking of dating apps, do you think it's wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps?
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Not because your height's going to dictate whether I like you, but, like, you're already lying to me.
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And then, what if I wear heels and I wouldn't have done that?
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So, you've had it happen before where a guy misrepresented his height.
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It's like other things and you find out they lie about.
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When they lie about the height, it's never just the height.
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So, if they lie about one thing, there's other things that they're maybe lying about.
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And, like, they could be tiny, but, like, I'd still like to know.
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I thought maybe you were going in a different direction.
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Why are you going to lie about it if we're, like, if you want to end up hanging out?
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Like, if I'm wearing heels, I need to know how tall you are.
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Because, like, I'm, like, if we're the same height and I'm in heels, like, okay, that's fine.
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But, like, if you're shorter than me, like, I don't know.
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I'm going to see you eventually if it comes down to it.
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I don't think it's okay to lie, but I think it's okay to exaggerate a little, maybe.
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I don't embellish anything about my physical appearance, but, like, personality.
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I've definitely been on a date with a lawyer who said he is six feet tall on the app,
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and then we showed up to dinner, and he's my height.
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And I'm okay with a man being my height, just not shorter than me.
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But if you're 5'8 1⁄2", 5'9", and then you say you're six feet, and I show up in my stilettos,
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In heels, if I add 3 1⁄2, 4-inch heel, and I'm like, woo, tower.
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So even though height might be, like, a shallow thing, like, people care or don't care, I do.
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I'm going to say yes, because if you lie about, like, your higher age, like,
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what are you going to lie to me about in the future?
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Guys are lying about their age on the app store?
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I would assume it might be the opposite, because maybe older guys think that they might not be,
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well, if you're older, you might not be in their age, what's it called?
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Yeah, so if they put themselves younger, then they're more likely to match with women.
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Yeah, the one that's about to, like, kick the bucket, and then you can get their bucket.
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No, I want to, like, go back in medieval times and get, like, an old-timey ancient man.
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I mean, like, is it wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps?
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I think yes, because it's, like, I feel like you have to be honest from, like, the point
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on, like, it's a trust thing, and in order for me to, like, develop feelings for you,
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like, I have to be able to trust you, and if that's the first thing you lie about, it's,
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like, it's, like, a casual buildup of just, what else could you be lying to me about?
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Well, I think lying is unnecessary, because some girls do like short guys.
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Like, all of my ex-boyfriends are short as fuck.
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I just feel, you know, like, there's different quality about men, right?
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Either you're tall, you are rich, you are loyal, and you have humor.
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So, okay, so you wouldn't, it wouldn't really bother you if a guy lied about his height on
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Or maybe you just also, you don't care so much about height.
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There are worse things to lie about than height.
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So, they are, they're going to be taller than you already.
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But for someone who's above average, and then they say, I'm 6'4", and you show up in your
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heels, and they're like, like I said, your boobs to their eyes, it's like, yeah, it just
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But their eyes are going to be on your boobs anyways.
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Which is fine, which is fine, no matter what, but it's...
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And it's fine, and it's like, I can also show up in my Air Maxis, and be, we're same
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height, and it's fine, but it's just, if on the app, you told me that you're taller,
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then you show up, and you show up, it's just...
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I mean, I feel like you can lie to me about your height, I'll lie to you, and be like,
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Well, I mean, you're going to lie about your ex anyways, so, I mean, it is what it is.
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But, okay, so, a couple of you said that if they lie about their height, then they're
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So, if it's wrong for men to lie about their height on dating apps, do you think it's wrong
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for women to wear makeup in their photos on dating apps, or use photos, or sorry, use
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I feel like, okay, I feel like if it's a drastic filter, then, like, you don't...
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I feel like if it's a drastic filter, and you don't look the same, then obviously, like,
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don't post that, because they're going to see you, and they're going to think you're
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ugly, because you don't look the same way you just looked.
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But if it's makeup, like, you don't think, like, my lips are pink.
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You don't really think that, because they're not.
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I feel like if you do post pictures of makeup, you could at least post at least one with,
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like, less makeup or no makeup, if you're comfortable with it.
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You don't have to, but that's what I've just done.
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I think that's a fair compromise if a woman has at least one or two photos where it's little
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makeup or no makeup, and then the rest are makeup, but you don't really see that from
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A lot of the pictures probably aren't, because you want to look your best, but yeah, I think
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you should make a compromise and at least try to make yourself seem more reasonable.
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Because, like, I see where you're coming from that, like, people or girls should post, like,
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more natural pictures, and, like, I'm not going to lie, you'll see on my Tinder, I did
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Like, I have my natural, and then I have my, like, overfilled makeup, but it's also at the
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same time, like, girls, like, I don't know, girls kind of have the advantage to get
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to put makeup on, and, like, it kind of sucks, but at the same time, that's kind of what
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society's turned to at this point, that, like, it's acceptable for girls to wear so much makeup
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when guys literally, like, don't get that option, but.
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I feel like a lot of girls do overdo it, because they do not look like that without makeup,
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I mean, makeup is one thing, but I think if you're face tuning, or using filters, or
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Have y'all, have any of y'all ever seen those, like, warp fails, where there's, like, a background,
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Kardashians, whenever they do Skims commercial, and she, like, runs her hand on her waist,
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I mean, I don't think that's misleading, but wearing makeup is fine.
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No, I mean, I came here, I came here with no makeup on, and right away, one of the girls
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said, told me I looked pretty, so I'm fine with either.
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What do you guys think about, like, the Facetuning apps?
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I mean, I think if you're going on a date with one of those, like, take her swimming first
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kind of guys, why the fuck would you want to date a loser like that anyways?
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Well, so I don't, actually, the thing with the Facetuning apps is...
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It's, like, bad for women, too, because it, like, gives you dysmorphia.
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If you're changing your body, it's going to warp your own self-image.
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You're going to be like, oh, my God, why don't I look like this girl?
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But, so, okay, and I'm curious if you guys encounter this.
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Do you often see male profiles on the dating apps, those of you that are currently on dating
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Do you frequently see guys that they are using filters on their photos?
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I imagine there's some, but it's probably pretty rare.
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I mean, I think the debate is, what's worse, a girl using a filter on a dating app or a
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guy posting with a fucking fish on his dating app?
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I actually went fishing yesterday, and I posted it on my Instagram.
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But nothing's worse than a guy with a fish on it.
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I will post a picture of me holding 10 fish on my fingers.
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But I will never swipe on the guy if he posted a fish.
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I'm like, I understand the sport and the fun of it, but, like, just be better.
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Well, okay, definitely, I would say face filters are worse, but, okay, so you guys don't frequently
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see guys who are posting filters on the dating apps.
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My experience on the dating apps is, that shit's common, and it's every fucking photo.
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Not every girl, but, like, probably 80% out of 100.
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I would say women who use filters on dating apps, probably 80%, I want to say, are using
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There's some of them, it's every single photo, and that's pretty disingenuous, I think.
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So, I think men should start lying about their height.
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That's your equivalent to makeup, or filters, is lying about your height?
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Yeah, I think men should start lying about their height.
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You say you're, like, six feet, and you're, like, 5'1".
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Have you heard about the surgery that short guys are getting to get taller?
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Yeah, you break your legs, and then they make them longer.
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Is it wrong for a girl to wear makeup or use filters on a dating app?
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I feel like it's wrong if you, like, actively, like, lie about what you look like under the makeup.
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Because, I mean, I feel like everybody knows, like, makeup changes, like, the way you look.
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Or, like, it enhances your features or it can change completely the way you look.
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And it's, like, guys and girls kind of know that.
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But I feel like if you're just, like, oh, like, this is how I naturally look.
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Like, I look like this, like, even under the makeup.
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I did face to my face a little bit here and there in my pictures.
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So, not many people can see, like, oh, you don't look like that in person.
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But also, continue the topic we're talking about.
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Men is absolutely photoshopped the shit out of their face.
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They just whitened their face to an extent the background started to getting pale.
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Like, because in Asian culture, being, like, light skin, like, fair skin as a beauty standard.
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But, Eric, can you switch to the video tab really quick?
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But these are some of the crazy transformations that you can see people doing.
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And girls are, like, putting extra, like, fake things on their face.
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And, like, lifting it and, like, making themselves look more.
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If someone was five one and told me, or they were six one, they showed up, I would have
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And then it levels the playing field for everyone.
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Because your competitors are no longer wearing makeup, either.
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But even if you see, like, Hayley Bieber doing her makeup tutorials.
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But it's just, like, they're, like, a dab here, a dab there.
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The beauty society has, like, transitioned more into, like, a less makeup standard.
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But I don't think we will ever just, like, walk away from it.
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It's because at the end of the day, we put our, beat our face, as people say, for ourselves.
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It's for our own, like, self-esteem and, like, likings and things like that.
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It's like painting a canvas or painting my own face.
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Like, if anyone's offended by makeup, that seems like a you problem.
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In Japanese culture, wearing makeup is showing respect.
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Like, if you wear makeup on a date, it's showing respect to the man.
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And if I want to put makeup on, I put it for myself.
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But so you're, are you saying that you don't wear makeup for men?
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I've gone on the first date in my Lulu, like, athleisure workout.
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Like, the first time I met, I went out on the date with this, another lawyer, different
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And I was like, okay, I'm coming straight from workout.
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I literally rolled out, did a HIIT class at Equinox, and then met him for, like, cheeseburger
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So, I don't think attention from men is the purpose or the focus.
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Most of my ex-boyfriends are like, why do you have to do your makeup?
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Taylor Swift's song, The Bejewel, the, anybody, nobody?
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But, I mean, you can acknowledge, you can at least acknowledge to some degree that you
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I think a woman looks truly beautiful with nothing on.
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By the way, she spent one hour in the bathroom.
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Wait, so you're, but you're from China, correct?
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I was just curious because you brought up the Japanese thing, so I wasn't sure if you
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Actually, wait, before that, let me get these, hit these soup chats.
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Just a reminder, guys, all soup chats will be displayed in stream overlay.
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Have the ladies rate their intelligence on a scale of 1 to 10.
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Curious to see if their answers correlate later.
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I would probably say a 7 because I'm book smart and, like, I try to really think about
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things, like, in social situations, too, but I am naive because I consider people's
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I think I would say I'm with, like, a 6 because I'm not, I, to be honest, I hate school,
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but, like, I have my education, but I'm more, like, street smart, I guess, in, like,
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Well, I wouldn't use your, your, no, I wouldn't use your education, like, your college education
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as a metric of whether you're intelligent or not.
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I would say my higher education taught me a certain level of critical analysis, and
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therapy taught me self-awareness, but rarely do I tap into either, so expect pretty low-grade
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Was born and raised in Russia, so I will outrun, outsmart whatever I need to do.
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I have a graphic design degree, which was the worthless degree you've ever possibly get,
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so if you're in college, don't study anything art, major something business, nursing, something
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I took an extra year of math, just because I love it so much.
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I can be slow sometimes, so it's the same, you know?
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I'm very open to, like, listening to people's opinions and ideas, but I don't really press
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I guess I'm, like, sort of dumb in a way, because I don't, like, push myself too far
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Yeah, I'm more of, like, if somebody, like, yells at me or, like, says something to me,
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But I feel like that doesn't mean you're not smart.
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Well, I'm going to say A, because I did finish my undergrad in finance and accounting, and
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And MBA with concentration of business analytics.
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But that two points is I have really bad memories, probably from the caffeine pills I take every day.
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Really bad memories about faces and names, but...
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I mean, there's so many different types of intelligence, and...
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I think we can all say that we're smart in some ways, and not as strong in us.
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Oh, also, just while we're rating everyone, Stifler, ask the ladies to rate themselves
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I'm going to go with my favorite number, 7, again, because...
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I have depression and stuff, and I can be kind of hard to deal with.
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So, give us your 1 to 10 looks, and then 1 to 10 personality.
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I feel like for people who haven't had a similar childhood, it's just they can't wrap their
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Like, for example, my mom and I don't talk, right?
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And a guy told me once, he's like, have you tried to talk to her?
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I can get not mad, but little things like trigger me, and I feel like, oh, we don't connect
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now, because that's like such a big thing that you're...
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If you can't understand certain things about me, it's going to be hard for us to connect
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But I feel like it makes it more difficult in social situations.
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And so, how does that manifest itself in relationships?
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I feel like because I don't have family, not that I'm clingy, but like, I want to, like,
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And for people who like doing their own thing and, like, have their own freedoms that they
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They can get kind of annoyed with me, or like, if they're kind of short with me, I'm
00:38:20.900
like, oh, you're mad at me, so I think there's a problem.
00:38:27.940
And I make it like a bigger deal than it needs to be, because I want to make sure
00:38:33.240
But then it does turn into an argument when there really wasn't one.
00:38:41.680
Even if I'm not wrong, I try to find a way to blame myself.
00:38:43.580
Because then if I can blame myself, then I can do something to fix it.
00:38:47.220
Because I'm like a control freak, and I want to fix everything.
00:38:49.900
Okay, but you consider yourself to be always wrong.
00:38:54.840
Okay, in situations where I know I'm not wrong, I'll try to find a way to blame myself.
00:39:04.400
And you know how there's like personality tests where there's like a woo?
00:39:14.420
Yeah, and so there's like personality tests, and maybe you fall into that.
00:39:19.680
I'm not putting you in a box, but just like there's like a three and the woo definition
00:39:24.180
where like they're constantly trying to please other people.
00:39:33.860
I think looks, I'm an eight, maybe on a good day, an eight and a half, like, maybe a seven,
00:39:41.060
Wait, so looks, eight, eight and a half, personality.
00:39:44.140
Yeah, and then personality, I think, I think I'm pretty funny.
00:39:49.880
I just want to preface with, I'm definitely sitting at a table of tens right now.
00:39:57.520
No, and I promise I'm, I promise I'm not trying to be a pick me, but today's a bad day for
00:40:08.000
Just like I was trying to do my makeup in the bathroom, and it wasn't working, and you
00:40:11.460
know when you're just frustrated with your face, and you're like, you just want to get
00:40:14.720
Well, I just either, I wish I like didn't put any on, because I feel like I messed it up
00:40:22.340
Yeah, they told me, they said, don't wear any makeup, and I was like, maybe I'll just
00:40:29.080
Personality, eight, because I'm fucking nuts, but some guys like that.
00:40:37.680
I'm tooting my own horn, but nine, but there's always room to perfect, and that's look-wise,
00:40:48.600
but that's just, again, just tooting my own horn, and then the personality, 13.
00:41:00.880
Look, seven, and then I'm going to say personality, nine.
00:41:11.180
As in, like, personality, probably, like, a six, because I just have a lot of mental health
00:41:19.920
Yeah, don't subtract from mental health issues.
00:41:31.060
Girls with mental illness are high, in my opinion.
00:42:07.560
Well, I mean, this is your first time doing something like this, I imagine, and the camera
00:42:30.440
My parents kind of taught me to be more of a very passive person, like, you know, kind
00:42:35.220
of keep your head down after, like, all the Asian hate crimes and stuff happening,
00:42:43.740
But it's just kind of, like, that stuff that I feel like I could work myself better to
00:42:49.380
be, like, my best self for my friends, family, like, my boyfriend, just anyone around me,
00:43:00.080
Well, sorry to hear that you were the victim of a hate crime.
00:43:08.960
Um, for me, I think for look, I would give 7.5.
00:43:30.260
It's okay, last time I was on here, a guy DMed me and said I was a 10, and then when
00:43:33.560
I didn't respond for two hours, said, fuck you, you're an 8.5.
00:43:42.500
Personality-wise, I would say, in English, I'm 7, but in Chinese, I'm 9, because I'm still
00:44:02.860
Because sometimes I say jokes that make sense in my head in Russian, and then they don't
00:44:09.460
translate well in English, and it's like, okay, I just wasted breath.
00:44:14.820
I can see that, because, I mean, yeah, that makes sense.
00:44:27.940
I want to say I'm looks 6 or 6.9 on a good day.
00:44:46.340
Sometimes I get a little bit of dandruff, you know?
00:45:01.560
Personality-wise, I give myself a solid, like...
00:45:12.160
Probably the most boring person to date, I think.
00:45:17.100
I would say I have a lack of mental health issues.
00:45:27.020
And, like, if you want to go on a hike or go on adventures, I'm not the one.
00:45:33.440
I thought you were going to say you were the one.
00:45:43.900
I'm a homebody and I ran a turkey truck this morning.
00:45:53.500
These chicks, like, they got energy to, like, go camping and shit.
00:46:02.340
That's why you need to get a girl with mental illness.
00:46:19.540
But, anyways, let's get these other super chats here.
00:46:26.840
I'm not going to have the girls do this unless they agree to do it.
00:46:31.460
So, I'll leave it up to you guys if you want to do it.
00:46:35.260
Everyday Edgar seems to have an interest in this.
00:46:46.660
Ladies, guess the weight of the person next to you.
00:46:52.740
Are they small boy who can lift me up and throw me on the bed?
00:47:11.600
Why do we want to display our weight on the public platform?
00:47:16.720
Speaking of the weight, every day, Edgar, I think it's unlikely that the girls are going
00:47:28.840
But don't you guys think, you know, on a lot of these dating apps, they have a height
00:47:34.320
Don't you guys think there should be a weight field?
00:47:37.360
There's nothing called eating disorders, but there's nothing called a height disorder.
00:47:42.400
You're already seeing pictures of us, and some girls will put a full body picture.
00:47:56.940
That's information from the American Eating Health Association.
00:48:06.220
Men delete themselves at a higher rate than women.
00:48:10.100
And I would say that one of the reasons men delete themselves is an inability to find
00:48:14.140
a romantic partner, which men struggle with more than...
00:48:16.540
You don't have to delete yourself from an eating disorder.
00:48:18.160
You have to eat to live, so if you don't eat, you die.
00:48:31.920
I don't think putting a weight thing on Tinder or...
00:48:36.200
Or a hinge would cause women to delete themselves.
00:48:52.100
Where it's like, I could be lying that I'm 200 pounds, and that might be, like, something
00:48:56.080
that you look forward, and I show up, and I'm, like, this skinny...
00:49:04.180
A short guy deleting himself is just as tragic as a woman going through an eating disorder.
00:49:11.240
Yeah, but you're using very extreme examples here.
00:49:13.500
Let's talk more generally just about the height versus weight thing.
00:49:19.400
On dating apps, there's a height field for both men and women, yet there is no weight
00:49:26.800
I feel like it's easier to tell if someone's tall or short on a picture.
00:49:52.560
So if we're going to do that, let's put guys' dick sizes on.
00:50:07.940
We're going to add three things to the dating apps, right?
00:50:10.980
Because obviously I have control over the Tinder, all these...
00:50:16.960
We're going to add penis size, and we're going to add labia in your innie or outie, okay?
00:50:26.180
Wait, Eric, can you pull up my non-profit organization on this?
00:50:32.100
I watched the podcast and you were saying that...
00:50:35.220
Eric, please support my non-profit organization, the American Network, against labia placedi.
00:50:48.440
We're looking for volunteers if any of you guys are down.
00:50:53.160
Women are shamed if they have what's a so-called outie.
00:50:56.400
If they have, you know, outie, large labia, beef curtain.
00:51:03.920
You know, there's these really terrible terms that both women and men use to refer to women
00:51:09.660
You got roast beef, beef curtains, wizard sleeve.
00:51:23.640
So, but do you know, do you know why people, by people, I mean, women and men have the shame
00:51:31.000
It's because when you watch porn, Pornhub, there is very, like, shallow, structured, surgically
00:51:43.860
Yeah, but if you watch, and back in the day, like, Playboy magazines, you open up and the
00:51:58.300
Okay, so in the past, yes, that, like, with magazines, Playboy and stuff, they definitely
00:52:07.940
However, I can just say, based on my own research...
00:52:13.940
I got, bro, I got a, I got a archive of some ladies with large labia.
00:52:23.580
I mean, yo, there are subreddits that are dedicated to women with large labia.
00:52:37.480
Yeah, but it's the same thing as, like, women with big breasts, small breasts.
00:52:50.580
But because I'm older here, the generation growing up, Pornhub, Playboy, all of that, it
00:53:01.060
has been perfectly structured and shown that this is what your lady parts should look like.
00:53:09.520
And then you go on a date or you sleep with someone and it doesn't look like one magazine
00:53:20.800
And so that's where the whole, should it be bigger, smaller, iny, outy, and things like that.
00:53:29.400
There's obviously, like, a standard for men that, like, you want a big dick.
00:53:33.240
Is it bad to have a big pussy or is it a small pussy?
00:53:43.840
So, like, I mean, maybe a more apt comparison to dick size might be tight or loose.
00:53:49.120
But, like, but speaking on labia, the outies versus denies.
00:53:52.980
Are you talking about the outside or, like, the inside?
00:54:14.780
And there's also a wrongly, there's this train of thought that if a woman has slept with a lot of men.
00:54:26.620
Well, that she's going to have roast, like, roast beef.
00:54:32.640
They say, like, your vagina is going to be loose.
00:54:40.200
I've heard that multiple times that, like, if the girl's been, like, running through, then they're going to be hanging.
00:55:28.300
Like, if the girl has big boobs or small boobs.
00:55:33.300
That's a woman suffering from BPD, big pussy disorder.
00:55:38.220
But, sorry, what was the question that you were?
00:55:52.040
Yeah, but there's so many artworks that display women's private parts, and it shows the beauty
00:56:02.260
of it, that there's different shapes, sizes, colors, texture, whatever.
00:56:09.940
We should all go on Reddit and look at funny pictures of vaginas and wee-wee-wee.
00:56:17.520
And the question, why are you on the team of bigger?
00:56:27.420
So, by the way, and it's not like I only would, like, out-innies are cool, too.
00:56:43.160
At one point, I was like, I think they're more rare than innies, has been my experience.
00:56:50.940
So, at one point on the dating app, I was like, yo, I'm only interested if you have an Audi.
00:57:10.840
I heard is if you have a butterfly, which is Audi.
00:57:19.120
They said that kind of feels better because there's more wrinkles inside and get wetter.
00:57:28.420
So, okay, like, the appearance, it grips, so to speak, and I think it helps.
00:57:42.040
I can't believe I'm actually articulating why I prefer this.
00:57:44.760
Do you get giggles when you think about vaginas?
00:57:57.240
It kind of, you know, keeps it there a little bit.
00:58:00.200
It keeps the lubrication there, you know what I'm saying?
00:58:06.940
Not that I'm a biologist, but no, because, yeah.
00:58:11.040
Can we go back to why you know that this is on subreddit?
00:58:17.580
Do you actively, like, search it up and be like...
00:58:26.060
I'll just say that there's several Reddit communities, which...
00:58:35.140
I think one of them has, like, a million subreddit.
00:58:42.200
Has, like, a million followers for the subreddit.
00:59:04.760
Should I list the fucking names of the subreddits?
00:59:24.380
R slash bald-headed yogurt slingers for raiding guys wee-wees.
00:59:44.280
There's probably, like, six more, but they're not coming to me.
00:59:47.400
There should be one where it's, like, both so we can, like, trade pics of, like, I don't
00:59:53.100
know, large labias and, like, uncircumcised wieners with a big equivalent.
00:59:56.620
There's probably subreddits for that shit, too.
00:59:59.880
Let's make this business move, guys, on Reddit, if anyone's on Reddit.
01:00:04.060
You guys should read r slash big dick problems.
01:00:08.880
Because apparently there's a lot of dudes with giant dicks stuck in the toilet.
01:00:30.840
So let me get these, the rest of these stupid chats here.
01:00:39.400
Did you really ask why you need to respect the man that could potentially be your boyfriend?
01:00:42.740
I hope no man shows you respect on a date ever again then, El Mayo.
01:00:45.960
I believe someone said, like, this was probably 30 minutes ago, that, I think it was you, maybe,
01:01:02.500
Oh, you were saying the thing about the Japanese women, when, if they wear makeup, it's, like,
01:01:15.060
I think she means through you making your appearance different for them.
01:01:20.160
What I meant, like, why do you have to, like, show men respect?
01:01:27.800
Like, right off the bat, if it's supposed to be that way.
01:01:34.400
In order to gain, like, respect from the other person, you have to learn to respect them in the first place.
01:01:38.600
Even if they don't have anything to give back, I feel like respect is just a moral basis that you just have, that everyone should just have to everybody.
01:01:48.660
And going back to that, whenever I went out with that lawyer that said he is six feet and he was my height, during the whole dinner date, it went miserable.
01:02:00.420
He kept telling me that I'm not gluten-free or lactose intolerant and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
01:02:05.600
And then at the end of the date, he tried to lean for a kiss and he was like, I hope to see you again.
01:02:18.260
So, yes, you can still respect, but I'm saying, like, me putting makeup is not anything for him.
01:02:26.380
But, yes, at the end of the day, I'm going to be respectful to anyone I come across.
01:02:31.840
Homeless person, guy I'm going on a date, person I just met at our interview job and things like that.
01:02:42.140
We go on our phones the whole time, disrespect each other, and never talk again.
01:02:57.740
Don't invite none of these caged animals, though.
01:03:00.140
The Latina is probably the only honest one here to be humble enough.
01:03:05.480
Also, if you guys are talking about me, first of all, that's kind of racist because I'm not Latina.
01:03:26.480
Listen, listen, Miguel, I need to tell you something very serious here.
01:03:47.700
No, you know what's funny is Miguel's a Hispanic name, but Patel's like an Indian Hispanic name.
01:04:03.120
Rating-wise, a woman will always be near whatever her first man programmed her to be.
01:04:09.940
If you're her first, an imprint on her, she's a four.
01:04:20.920
She said that her first boyfriend said she was a 5.5 or whatever.
01:04:31.320
By the way, Leonardo Nocaprio, your next super chat has to be in French-Canadian.
01:04:36.920
Dave on Jackson, thank you for the $10 super chat.
01:04:43.560
It's an indication of your habits and mental fortitude.
01:04:50.800
I'm with this guy a little bit, but still, there's no reason for me to put my weight.
01:04:57.660
Because diabetes, one, not the one that you're unhealthy, but the one that you're just lacking
01:05:05.380
insulin, you can get to the point where you're just overweight because you're not producing
01:05:10.040
enough insulin, and so why does my weight still has to be on the dating profile?
01:05:30.880
He's not wrong in terms of like, you can't control that, but same as like, we can't control
01:05:35.620
our boob size unless we get a boob job and they can get a-
01:05:42.740
But in some circumstances, like weight is something that you can't always change due
01:05:50.260
Like there are some people out there that can't actually lose weight due to like just pre-existing
01:05:59.460
I know somebody who can't lose weight due to like a lot of weight.
01:06:04.660
Just finish your, they can't lose weight because of what?
01:06:07.440
Well, like I'm not going to go into my friend's like personal stuff, but I'm saying like there's
01:06:12.520
pre-existing health conditions that could cause somebody not to be able to lose weight or
01:06:22.520
So there are things like hypothyroidism where it is a bit more difficult to lose weight.
01:06:27.440
There are some metabolic issues of the people though, that are overweight or obese.
01:06:33.580
And I actually, I have mild hypothyroidism, which means it's a bit harder for me to lose
01:06:41.140
All it comes down to is calories in calories out.
01:06:45.040
If you're at a calorie deficit, even if you don't exercise.
01:06:47.560
So even someone who's bedridden can lose weight.
01:06:54.700
I struggled with my weight because I was 90 pounds, um, during when I first, um, had
01:07:00.960
an eating disorder, which I'm now in recovery for.
01:07:02.880
And it took so much time and changing my diet and just mental struggling with it mentally
01:07:09.300
to gain weight, like to get to a healthy, normal weight, because 90 pounds is not a healthy,
01:07:17.400
Um, it was like an issue where I would, you know, hide it from my doctor, from my family,
01:07:25.800
And so like weight is, I think something that a lot of people struggle with, whether it's
01:07:32.400
Um, whereas I think height is probably something people struggle with.
01:07:37.760
It's just, I think weight is a different ball game, um, just because of, um, it affects
01:07:49.200
I mean, that's how I feel like boo hoo, poor me.
01:07:51.920
I had an eating disorder, but like boo hoo, poor you, you're short.
01:07:58.500
So I'm, but the thing is, is that a guy's height is probably going to be a bigger factor
01:08:04.880
in being able to secure a partner than a woman's weight.
01:08:11.280
And with their weight, people die, Brian, people die, you're not going to die from not
01:08:29.820
There's no health related weight conditions in third world countries.
01:08:34.260
And such a small, small percentage of people, it's effectively irrelevant.
01:08:40.440
No, people die from starvation from being malnourished and underweight.
01:08:46.760
We were talking about what he likes and not what he doesn't.
01:09:14.040
Yo, David, Diane, thank you for the super chat, man.
01:09:16.760
I believe Miguel was talking about the second Asian girl from the left next to you, Brian.
01:09:21.240
The only girl that was realistic in her ratings.
01:09:23.460
Shout out to you, Brian, slash whatever the chat and to the ladies.
01:09:44.100
Wait, how come it's good when she calls herself a five,
01:09:54.140
It's like, we just want to see whoever's quiet is torn down.
01:10:00.760
Eric, can you go ahead and pull up the dating profiles, please?
01:10:08.080
You can stay on the window, but do you remember how to switch it, Eric?
01:10:11.160
Yeah, you just go to display, capture, double click, and then just.
01:10:43.580
I smoke weed, and I also smoke puffs and, like, vape disposables.
01:12:07.120
I mean, I guess if you're given a guy who had a Prince Albert piercing.
01:12:21.340
This probably sounds like the biggest red flag.
01:12:27.840
And I was like, ooh, I want a tongue piercing too.
01:15:17.640
And while we get those in, let me, we got a super chat here, I think.
01:15:37.580
Be humble and check yourself before you shrek yourself.
01:15:47.380
Do you even know why you have, why do you feel entitled to include your percentage?
01:15:52.780
If I were to say I was Mexican, what I have to say, I'm 80% Mexican.
01:15:57.000
Do you even know why people started saying their percentages?
01:16:03.400
Oh, do you, are you, do you have membership with the tribe?
01:16:12.300
I have citizenship for being Navajo, but not Chumash.
01:16:16.640
I always get like, oh, so you have a part in the casino.
01:16:25.360
Yeah, it's just the tribe that's recognized here, my family doesn't like what they do.
01:16:29.880
Because they support a lot of people that claim they are Chumash, but they're not.
01:16:33.500
And they can't back it up when like my family can back up.
01:16:37.960
So like we don't want anything to do with them.
01:16:42.720
Oh, there's a little rock concert going on outside.
01:16:58.400
We just don't have the setup for that at the moment, but maybe in the future, Davon.
01:17:25.680
Can you speak a little Russian for the viewers?
01:17:54.860
So, anytime, anytime I download a dating app, food, because Hinge especially makes you select
01:18:04.920
And so, I'm so lazy with it, and I don't want to be on it.
01:18:10.520
I just download them for, like, just out of boredom.
01:18:14.100
Um, and so, the easiest is a food subject versus me going into depth about my likes and dislikes.
01:18:50.140
So, Lily here is the only one with a boyfriend.
01:19:29.100
And so, I don't want to, I don't want to, like, put my stuff on there and stuff.
01:19:35.720
So, like, um, he has a shrine of me in his room.
01:19:48.360
He has photos plastered of me on his wall in his room.
01:19:52.640
Do you think he's watching right now, the show?
01:20:02.680
Wait, let's, okay, let's go into this a little bit.
01:20:13.380
He, you broke up with him or he broke up with you?
01:20:17.800
Was he obsessed with you during the relationship?
01:20:24.520
Like, his, my photos and, like, he has, like, Polaroids of me, like, on his wall.
01:20:29.840
Like, he stuck it on his wall and he has a shelf right under all the photos with everything
01:20:45.560
When's the last time he tried to attempt to contact you?
01:21:01.240
He thinks I'm dating my current boyfriend to make him jealous.
01:21:15.640
Okay, I told him very, like, from, like, the start.
01:21:17.960
I told him, actually, everything from the start.
01:21:20.300
Um, so, my current boyfriend and my crazy ex have the same name and I didn't really want
01:21:25.900
to date my current boyfriend for the fact that he had the same name and it was really
01:21:35.800
He was like, I don't regret it, but I don't understand why she hates me.
01:21:43.400
And he cheated on me with three other women while in the relationship and he begged for
01:21:50.500
Yeah, and he accused me of cheating because I hooked up with somebody, like, a couple
01:21:56.100
And he said that that was cheating, even though he was talking to three women.
01:22:28.960
Yeah, he made a bunch of, he, okay, so I post on TikTok and stuff.
01:22:33.780
That's like where I get my money from, you know?
01:22:43.800
But he would make a fake account and like sit in my lives and stuff and just like watch.
01:22:48.360
But he was kind of dumb because he put a photo of like this dog, like this crusty dog.
01:22:53.740
And he's the only person I know that has a photo.
01:22:55.760
And then he like, he just wasn't slick about it.
01:23:07.360
Do you have a sense of why he's still caught up on you?
01:23:39.780
This is really personal, but I like, I'll explain it.
01:23:42.640
It's basically, I got like assaulted by a frat guy and it was just very traumatizing.
01:23:48.200
I did not like any like form of physical touch because it just really made me panic, but he
01:23:53.100
kept on asking and asking until like, I felt guilt tripped and obligated to do it.
01:23:58.700
And like, he, he made me do it even when I was crying throughout the entire thing.
01:24:03.780
And he asked me to make noises for him while I was sobbing.
01:24:08.880
So like, you can like, so like, I'm just really traumatized by that.
01:24:12.800
And like, that's why I didn't want to date my current boyfriend with like, with the same name.
01:24:16.260
Cause it just, it was like, it was like a horror story in my head.
01:24:36.920
I will rain down on a godly fucking firestorm upon you.
01:24:40.120
You're going to have to call the fucking United Nations.
01:24:42.880
Binding resolution to keep me from fucking destroying you.
01:25:11.920
You don't want to post your current boyfriend on Instagram.
01:25:18.240
I just don't post it like on there because I just also prefer my privacy and he doesn't
01:25:26.840
So it's kind of like a, it's a mutual thing, I guess.
01:25:46.300
You wanted to talk about, God, Zodiac signs and the Hollywood dating scene.
01:25:57.720
If anyone's interested in Zodiac sign, cause I can talk a lot, but.
01:26:14.560
I don't even know that much about Zodiacs, but I have no idea.
01:26:21.280
Well, there's a boy that I'm entertaining right now.
01:26:37.120
If you're saying Zodiac sign, if there's chemistry, it can work.
01:26:43.560
But if there's no chemistry, then yeah, it's just going to be like headbutting.
01:26:56.380
I'm not going to say when my birthday is, but I'm a Taurus.
01:27:16.040
Big thank you for the gifted 20 whatever memberships.
01:27:40.900
By the way, guys, if you look in the description, we have gifted membership triggers.
01:27:50.080
And I just want to point out, can one of you grab the Mike Davis, the big picture frame?
01:27:58.880
Okay, if you gift, if you do 100 gifted memberships, you get to join picture frame gang.
01:28:22.060
Tauruses love food, and they're a little bit lazy.
01:28:31.800
After work, first thing I do, pants off, clothes off, I'm in bed.
01:28:37.940
Set my alarm clock for like at least 30 minutes, I'm napping.
01:28:44.480
I don't know much about like all the astrology stuff, but I will say I don't like Taurus
01:28:52.020
I dated a Taurus, and it was so toxic and so bad, and a Capricorn.
01:29:12.180
No, I will go home for lunch to let my dog out, and I will take a nap.
01:29:17.640
I have a one-hour lunch break, and I will like set on, like I said, alarm clock and pass
01:29:23.180
out, not pass out, but just close my eyes and pretend that I'm sleeping for 30 minutes.
01:29:32.220
Like if I nap, I will wake up 30 minutes later, an hour later, in like a full-blown panic.
01:29:37.860
I sleep fine, but when I nap, like if it's not when I'm supposed to go to sleep, it's
01:29:49.940
Like a human, as like you're supposed to go home, you're supposed to take a nap.
01:29:57.940
I feel like you should take the Myers-Briggs test.
01:30:01.160
I feel like I believe in that science a little more than sodium.
01:30:03.340
I don't know if it's true, but like apparently you're supposed to take like four hours of
01:30:07.840
sleep in the day, and then four hours of sleep in the night.
01:30:13.060
We're not supposed to sleep for that long of a night, and then go all day without sleeping.
01:30:17.780
Yeah, but late stage capitalism, nine to fives, baby.
01:30:29.840
Really quick though, is there a sign that you just would not date?
01:30:37.140
I'm skeptical about Sagittarius's because they always like make me believe in
01:30:43.040
believe they're one person, and then they turn into something else.
01:30:45.360
Like I wouldn't like not date them, but I'm like concerned when they tell me they're Sagittarius.
01:31:08.660
I don't know if that, I don't think that's come out yet.
01:31:10.860
Were you on the panel or were you in the audience with him?
01:31:13.940
I was in the audience, and one of the Dr. Phil producers asked me if I'd answer a question
01:31:19.020
regarding talks of masculinity because they would send us emails, and they asked us to
01:31:23.500
respond to questions, and one of the producers said that she liked my answer.
01:31:27.620
So I was like, okay, well, I didn't know it was going to be like Rola Tomasi or like the
01:31:36.140
I go to talk to him, and Rola Tomasi interrupted me, and we started arguing on TV.
01:31:51.360
I knew of like Andrew Tate and like all that stuff, but I didn't know really who he was,
01:31:56.000
and after the show was over, he introduced himself to me, and I was actually surprised
01:31:59.340
he talked to me because I thought like we just argued.
01:32:05.100
Like we were going to respect each other's like, I guess like in a business-y way, but like
01:32:11.900
What did you, so what did you guys argue about?
01:32:15.040
We argued about toxic masculinity because he wanted to argue with me and say, one of
01:32:19.120
my points, we got kind of off topic, but one of my points, I had said that women don't
01:32:23.000
get paid as much as men and that we don't, obviously that's not in like every year.
01:32:28.680
And then there was the reproductive right thing.
01:32:32.180
He wanted to argue with me about that, but like, he's like, men have more reproductive
01:32:41.140
He must have said that men have no reproductive rights.
01:32:44.640
He hadn't made a podcast and he referenced me in it after the show.
01:32:47.740
And he said, men actually have more reproductive rights.
01:32:53.880
But my point on TV was that even in all states, like they started like banning emotions and
01:32:59.560
I'm like, whether you're for it or not, like you can't tell people what to do with their
01:33:07.360
But then he didn't want to get into like Roe versus Wade and all that stuff, of course,
01:33:13.800
He said that on his podcast, he made him an emergency, he called it Dr. Phil podcast.
01:33:19.860
It was like an emergency podcast and I saw it and it was like right after the show.
01:33:23.880
I was actually, I was actually in touch with one of the producers from Dr. Phil.
01:33:28.460
I think, I don't know if it would have been the same panel, but I opted, I didn't have
01:33:32.780
time to go and do it, but I was in touch with one of the producers and, but okay.
01:33:38.680
So, well, we don't have to get into the whole reproductive rights thing, but I'm surprised
01:33:42.820
that that's his take because a lot of people that are in the red pill space, I mean, one
01:33:48.660
of the common arguments you hear is men have no reproductive rights.
01:33:51.340
So, I don't know if you're misquoting him or maybe he just has a different...
01:33:55.220
Well, on the Dr. Phil show, he didn't see it on the Dr. Phil show, on the Dr. Phil show.
01:33:58.140
We started arguing about it on the Dr. Phil show.
01:33:59.980
On his podcast after the Dr. Phil show, he said women, or men actually have more reproductive
01:34:07.920
Because I can't, that just doesn't, I could be wrong.
01:34:11.860
Whatever, whatever he said, his point was, his point was that we, everything's okay with
01:34:17.240
us and it's not happening, but basically, basically that we have all the rights that
01:34:24.320
So, he must be arguing that men have no reproductive rights.
01:34:47.220
What are y'all talking about in terms of like, they're not growing a baby inside of them.
01:34:54.420
And so, you don't have a say whether or not I'm having a baby.
01:35:00.840
You're just a sperm donor, whether or not I choose to...
01:35:08.460
You'd consider your future father of your children and your husband just a sperm donor?
01:35:21.820
If I was your husband, I'd feel pretty fucking awful to be referred to as a sperm donor.
01:35:29.860
When there's emotions and feelings involved, that's different.
01:35:35.260
But you still say you and I are married and I get pregnant.
01:35:54.400
Like, let's say a guy has sex with a woman, gets her pregnant.
01:35:59.360
What do you say to him if he says, hey, listen, I don't want to be financially responsible.
01:36:12.660
Because it proves the fact he is just a sperm donor.
01:36:19.060
At the end of the day, she wanted to be a mom or whatever the case may be.
01:36:24.020
We don't know her reason why she chose to keep the baby.
01:36:42.680
So, men, we don't have any reproductive rights because in the event...
01:36:47.520
In the event that he wants to have the kid and you don't, he doesn't have a say.
01:36:52.400
In the event that he doesn't want the kid and you do, he doesn't have a say there.
01:36:59.720
And even when you go through the pregnancy, you can always give it up for adoption if you were so inclined.
01:37:07.380
Men don't really have a say under those circumstances.
01:37:10.680
But the big one is, if he doesn't want the kid, you do, that's fine.
01:37:16.580
But if you have the kid, he's now forced to pay child support for 18 years.
01:37:20.940
If he is forced and he's not forced in terms of, like, if I just, like, got pregnant off the streets, I'm not going to go to him and be like, hey, you got to pay me the child support.
01:37:34.900
But also, if you really don't want a kid, then have a vasectomy.
01:37:40.840
I feel like if men had to carry children, they'd feel a lot differently about a lot of the problems.
01:37:45.340
But it's easier for them to say if they do or don't want something, that really is inside of them.
01:37:49.540
Look, so, okay, I'm, you know, I'll give you guys my take on abortion.
01:37:53.980
So I'd consider myself pro-choice with caveats.
01:38:03.020
Well, okay, if women are allowed to have abortions, men should be able to do a legal paternal surrender.
01:38:07.680
Which basically means if the woman has the child, they should have the right to opt out of financial obligation and having to...
01:38:23.060
But see, it's interesting that you make the argument that for men who don't want to financially support a children...
01:38:31.860
But if you said the same thing to women of, oh, well, if you didn't want to get pregnant, you should have just not had sex.
01:38:47.200
And sex without a condom feels better than with a condom.
01:38:52.560
But there are responsibilities that come with if you're having sex without a condom.
01:38:57.280
And so, therefore, if that slip happens, so you're having sex without a condom, you either, like, reserve to plan B.
01:39:06.580
Or you accidentally get pregnant and you decide to keep the baby.
01:39:14.300
It's my fucking choice what I decide to do, whether to keep or not.
01:39:19.960
And then the discussion of, like, do you want to support this or not?
01:39:30.960
I would say people that are pro-life do make very compelling arguments.
01:39:40.660
Not everything that is wrong should be illegal.
01:39:53.960
Would you be okay with a woman having an abortion one day before she would otherwise give birth?
01:40:00.080
If she was about to give birth, would you want her to give birth a baby?
01:40:02.620
Would you otherwise be okay with a woman having an abortion one day before she would otherwise give...
01:40:13.220
I don't think no right-minded woman will decide to do that.
01:40:22.160
So, would you agree it's wrong to have an abortion a day before a woman would otherwise give birth?
01:40:36.760
...like, semantics with the girl whose command of the English language isn't as strong?
01:40:40.900
Like, it feels like you're kind of picking on her a little.
01:40:47.840
Listen, the thing is that the pro-life argument is not so easily dismissed, right?
01:40:57.300
You're going with, like, if a woman decides to have an abortion or not, it's her choice.
01:41:04.580
Is it wrong that, like, yeah, there's a heartbeat and all of that, and all of a sudden she decides to abort?
01:41:19.940
Because she's the one that's growing, feeding, the body is changing, and all of that.
01:41:28.040
I don't see, like, the significance of having an opinion if you don't have a vagina.
01:41:35.040
I'll get you pregnant, Brian, then let's see what you have to say.
01:41:37.340
I don't understand why your opinion is valid when you're not the one with the vagina.
01:41:42.680
So, what about women who have had hysterectomies?
01:41:49.340
What about women who can't naturally become pregnant?
01:41:52.520
Why is what between your legs a determining factor in whether or not you can have an opinion on something?
01:41:59.260
Well, you can have an opinion, but it's just not a very valid one.
01:42:06.720
Men are the only ones that are subject to military conscription.
01:42:14.420
Because no woman here is subject to military conscription.
01:42:19.480
No woman at this table here has been or will be...
01:42:29.620
Actually, and no woman should be able to be president, because the president can send people to war.
01:42:36.340
So, should women not be able to run for political office?
01:42:41.080
Because no woman would ever be subject to military draft.
01:42:44.780
Why does everything have to do with the military, though?
01:42:47.040
Like, why does the military dictate everything?
01:42:48.580
You said that men are not allowed to have an opinion on the abortion issue because they don't have...
01:42:53.020
No, I didn't say men are not allowed to have an opinion.
01:42:53.820
I'm just saying that there's a lot of men that have very strong opinions about an issue that doesn't have too much to do with them.
01:43:00.960
I mean, that's a logical fallacy to say just because you have certain genitalia that you can't have an opinion on something.
01:43:06.900
I think you're taking my words and running with it.
01:43:11.580
Also, I would say that there's about 50% of people who are pro-life are women.
01:43:19.640
Well, I'm not understanding if you're arguing pro-choice or pro-life because you're saying one thing and then arguing another.
01:43:26.480
I'm playing devil's advocate here and I'm steel-manning the pro-life position.
01:43:36.860
I mean, I'm not saying you can't have your opinion or your opinion is wrong.
01:43:43.080
I have my opinion on racial issues and stuff like that, but it's like my voice isn't the one that should be the most uplifted if it's not an issue that directly affects me or resonates me the strongest.
01:43:54.780
I'm not a good candidate to talk about Black Lives Matter.
01:43:57.460
I have strong opinions about social justice, but the best way to do it is just let people speak who are directly involved in it.
01:44:08.280
Why does every straight man have to echo their opinion about a woman's body?
01:44:16.960
That's why we're all going to make different choices so everyone should be able to do what they want as long as it's not hurting another human being.
01:44:22.460
I can sit here and give you every hot take, but...
01:44:24.920
Well, I mean, you're kind of just getting into identity politics that some people's voices matter less on an issue.
01:44:32.380
I mean, I would say that your skin color, your race, your ethnicity, your gender should be irrelevant in being able to have...
01:44:40.920
In being able to intellectualize on any sort of...
01:44:43.780
It's absolutely relevant because this is a country that's literally running...
01:44:50.640
We're sitting here right now playing into, like, Call of Duty-level circle jerk clapback porn.
01:45:07.280
Look, ultimately, I would say I'm pro-choice with caveats.
01:45:13.520
I mean, I already said some of it, but I'd be in favor of more robust sexual education, sex ed.
01:45:21.280
I think we should develop a male birth control.
01:45:43.020
I actually did an interview with someone who's working on male birth control.
01:45:52.900
I think at the end of the day, it's not black and white.
01:45:59.200
There's lives affected, whether it's moms or the baby.
01:46:06.540
I think that's a contributor of unwanted pregnancies.
01:46:14.560
Well, we can get into the body counting stuff too, but...
01:46:19.700
And then also, we should be developing an artificial womb.
01:46:22.840
I think that is the ultimate solution to the abortion debate.
01:46:26.220
If we can develop an artificial womb, then women, if they want, can terminate their pregnancy,
01:46:34.060
And it can be gestated or whatever developed in an artificial womb.
01:46:37.580
So, both sides, the pro-life and the pro-choice, of course, idiots on both sides will say,
01:46:42.220
no, they'll probably still have an issue with an artificial womb.
01:46:46.300
But you save the life, the woman can terminate the pregnancy.
01:46:53.340
Like, you're going to know that that's your baby.
01:46:56.140
You don't think that would be a fair compromise?
01:46:58.440
A woman can terminate her pregnancy, but the life gets to continue.
01:47:02.360
When you're saying artificial womb, is the artificial womb like an attachment with the
01:47:07.560
It'd be like an external, you know, like, it'd be an external thing, like maybe in the
01:47:14.160
So, he's like, he nuts in her, but then they put the nut in the womb?
01:47:22.840
So, he's nutting in the womb, in the fake womb?
01:47:25.600
You have a baby in you, they take the baby out, and then they put it in the incubator.
01:47:36.680
But there's already so many, like, in orphanage, there's already so many babies in this world
01:47:49.400
There's already enough babies in this world that aren't being taken care of.
01:47:53.940
If abortion was, in every state, if it was allowed, and it was, abortion was legal, but
01:48:00.940
it had to be, you know, if you wanted to get an abortion, it had to be raised in an artificial
01:48:05.920
womb, would that be a fair compromise to secure abortion rights for women?
01:48:13.280
You wouldn't, you wouldn't make that compromise?
01:48:17.200
Because conservatives will continue fighting to get rid of abortion.
01:48:21.200
That's just that, but it's like, where are those babies gonna go?
01:48:27.280
But there's already enough babies in the state that aren't being taken care of and aren't
01:48:39.060
So here's the conservative, here's the pro-life argument.
01:48:41.900
They, upon conception, they believe it's a life.
01:48:46.060
So, you're gonna have to, that's not a good reason to, in a pro-lifer's view, to murder
01:48:56.940
Because there's not enough space, or there's already other people.
01:49:00.580
But why is it that conservatives are fine with murdering children with an AR-15 in a
01:49:04.640
school by the millions, but as soon as it's a baby, it's bad.
01:49:19.800
The Constitution provides people with the right to bear arms.
01:49:23.540
But then we wouldn't have this problem if it was in the Constitution that women could
01:49:26.500
Shouldn't we base our, I mean, America's a very developed society, I just feel like it's
01:49:32.880
You don't think people should own the firearms?
01:49:39.220
That we stand really strongly behind a document that was written in the 1800s when people were
01:49:46.420
And they didn't have AR-15s or whatever back then.
01:49:53.620
Do you think the majority of people with firearms are using it to protect themselves?
01:50:06.260
So just to be clear, who here wants to get rid of gun ownership?
01:50:13.800
So just to be clear, because I often hear this from people who are a bit more liberal.
01:50:18.080
So a lot of liberal people are kind of against police.
01:50:21.160
So you're telling me that you want to get rid of the populace owning guns and you want just
01:50:31.660
Well, I guarantee you, whether you're Democrat or Republican, the police will continue to
01:50:58.840
I don't mind talking about this stuff just because I enjoy having debates and conversations.
01:51:02.860
If anyone's uncomfortable with the political stuff, we can move on.
01:51:12.300
I mean, I have, like, opinions, but they're not, like, strong enough for me to be, like,
01:51:28.760
It makes me uncomfortable, but I wouldn't not date them because they had one.
01:51:34.480
But so the question is, would you date a guy who legally owned a firearm?
01:51:41.380
It wouldn't dictate whether I date them or not.
01:51:52.560
Well, because I was all, like, get rid of them, but, like...
01:52:00.780
I told him to do something else with the gun, which is why it sounds crazy.
01:52:04.620
Wait, hold it up to your forehead while he's having sex with you?
01:52:16.560
Obviously, it was empty, but, like, to have that, like...
01:52:35.680
I made sure it was empty, and then I was like, okay, let's do this.
01:52:39.320
I mean, I've definitely heard girls also have a thing where, like, they want a guy to hold
01:52:46.440
I don't know about a knife, because I feel like that could accidentally, real quickly,
01:53:22.640
Well, that's why I have pepper spray and a taser.
01:53:50.340
Like, the way you described it, you have a hardcore stalker.
01:54:22.980
No, I'm not saying that you, like, waddle, but you just seemed offended by it.
01:54:32.800
Like, you know, like, some people, like, when they walk, like...
01:54:45.880
Think about getting a firearm before shit gets fucking crazy.
01:54:50.480
Because if you make me panic too much, I'm gonna be like...
01:55:01.120
I think women are great candidates for firearms.
01:55:12.640
When I shot the gun, that's how I'm gonna shoot with.
01:55:26.760
Brian, do you have a gun in your lap right now?
01:56:00.120
You wanted to talk about the Hollywood dating scene.
01:56:10.820
I'm going to do some super chats here, and then we'll get to the next topic.
01:56:19.280
We got Davon Jackson here with the $10 soup chat.
01:56:21.520
The fact that she's so casually talking about having a child with a man she doesn't want to be with is concerning.
01:56:25.720
Also, there's a significant chance the vasectomy reversal doesn't take...
01:56:41.220
If you only should get a vasectomy if you know you do not want to have children or don't want to have any more children.
01:56:48.460
We have Red Misfit here with the $10 soup chat.
01:56:50.940
Can all the ladies go around and state their sexual orientation?
01:56:57.280
But then also, if I see a girl look exactly like a boy, my brain just cannot function.
01:57:04.060
And it's like, I see that as a boy and I will in love too.
01:57:15.880
Like, for that kind of woman, that's a dude for me.
01:57:38.300
Isn't it depends on like you're attracted to a soul?
01:57:47.460
It's if we vibe, if we click, if I'm horny, if I'm drunk.
01:57:56.200
I mean, the general stigma about pansexual people is like...
01:58:00.140
I mean, yeah, I'm like super horny, but I'm also super picky.
01:58:08.460
If only people affected by issues were allowed to speak about them,
01:58:34.260
Yeah, you're going to have to read the description for the fit check trigger.
01:58:37.860
George Ontiveros, Second Amendment, a well-regulated militia being necessary to the security of
01:58:46.400
The right of the people to keep and bear arms shall not be infringed.
01:59:00.000
Do you think semi-automatic weapons should be banned?
01:59:06.800
No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:59:10.340
Can you tell me what a semi-automatic weapon is?
01:59:50.320
Well, they might be, like, authorized or something, and some...
01:59:53.580
You can be authorized to have automatic weapons, and if you're, like, an instructor or whatever,
01:59:57.700
Okay, so a semi-automatic rifle, a semi-automatic weapon...
02:00:02.660
So you have automatic and semi-automatic, right?
02:00:06.800
Automatic, if you pull the trigger, it keeps firing.
02:00:11.720
A semi-automatic rifle, you pull the trigger once, one bullet comes out.
02:00:52.980
Brian, can you do another Asking 100 Girls for Sex in 2020...
02:00:57.820
So we can see if the effect of modern-day feminism has changed the way women would answer and react to that question.
02:01:04.080
Actually, I filmed a segment of it with Luke, and I'd like to get a girl to do it.
02:01:09.580
Maybe we can actually pull that up and have the girls react to that while I get up here for a sec.
02:01:14.060
It's a social experiment video I did almost 10 years ago.
02:01:17.900
We had a girl go up to guys, just point-blank on the street, say,
02:01:25.060
I think it'd be interesting to compare maybe like...
02:01:28.660
Well, like a conventionally attractive, like maybe like Santa Barbara, like blonde sorority girl versus like a woman of color and see what the rejection rate is there.
02:01:37.740
I think Lily would fucking kill it if she didn't.
02:01:47.240
Brian, I literally panic talking to new people.
02:01:55.960
No, I have this problem where if I get really nervous, I start laughing really bad.
02:02:05.720
Okay, we're going to have Loie here do it then.
02:02:16.980
I wouldn't date a man with a gun equals I wouldn't date a man that could protect me.
02:02:28.880
So who here is like kind of against guns or wouldn't want their partner to have a gun, whatever?
02:02:36.640
I'm against guns, but I don't care if they have a gun.
02:02:51.340
Let's just say three grown adult men break into your house.
02:02:54.460
In that scenario, would you like either yourself or your partner to have a firearm?
02:03:00.540
No, I'll just take my makeup off and they'll run away.
02:03:03.420
Like, they just make me uncomfortable because like now we're killing people or shooting people
02:03:17.860
If your son's over there, you're not going to put shots down range.
02:03:25.880
If I have a wife, if I have two kids and three men break into the house, they're fucking dead.
02:03:41.660
Because like you don't know if they're just trying to steal something.
02:03:44.420
You don't know if they're going to tie you up and abuse the kids, kill the kids,
02:03:48.240
Why can't you have like a bat or something that has like.
02:03:50.800
Because a bat versus a gun isn't going to work out.
02:03:52.380
But if they don't have guns, if they break in and they don't have guns, then like, don't
02:04:11.960
I think where people have issues with that is like you can have a gun for safety.
02:04:21.420
And that's where those automatic semi blah, blah, blah comes in.
02:04:26.220
And so that's where it gets like a little iffy.
02:04:30.860
Here's what I don't get about the gun debate is.
02:04:41.400
But then I feel like it just go higher on the black market.
02:05:06.440
Someone who's determined to do a school shooting or do a mass shooting.
02:05:13.080
Isn't that kind of the same thing with abortion, though?
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It's not so much to, like, make the guns illegal.
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I mean, obviously, people will go on black market and get their gun and whatnot.
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But if a normal, functional human being with a stable mind go buy a gun, they should, like,
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there's some sort of, like, background check that they do, like, we apply for a job.
02:05:44.960
But wouldn't she look kind of sexy posing with an AR guy?
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I actually have a photo of me with two AK-47s and then, like, pistols in my rain boots and Russian Ushanka hat.
02:06:04.280
So have you had anyone, like, when all the, I mean, the Ukraine shit's still going on, but, like, when it was, like, really popping off?
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Were people like, I don't know if I can be friends with you anymore?
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No, it's not so much that, but it's more so when I meet people and they hear my, like, Russian redneck accent.
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And I say redneck is because I learned English in Texas.
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And so I say I know being Russian is not a popular thing, but I just try to avoid it because I obviously know that it's whatever Putin is doing is idiotic, selfish, inhumane.
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But that doesn't mean I'm, like, I'm not still Russian or, like, Russia is not my country, if that makes sense.
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I mean, if we as Americans had to pay for all our crimes and genocide, no one would be friends with us.
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Yeah, it's, like, to me, it's, like, I have nothing fucking to say.
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If I did, I would hire someone and they'll take care of Putin versus, like, yeah.
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I'm, like, pushing myself off the seat trying to talk into the mic.
02:07:28.780
Eric, why don't you, we'll pull up the, play the Andrea clip first.
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Let me just kind of lay there, and I'll just do her thing.
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I just want to ask you guys if you would be down to have sex with me.
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I'll put it in my house, like, right over there.
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Actually, I appreciate the guys were saying, do you want to know us first?
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Okay, so, your faith in humanity was restored a little bit.
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Well, that's because the guy was, like, below average.
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I think so many people would be like, okay, yeah, let's go.
02:10:06.540
I would literally burst out laughing if I said that to somebody.
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Oh, I feel like guys, like, will f*** anything.
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Most guys are horny, so if a girl's like, let's f***, they're gonna be like, okay.
02:11:01.420
So, before we play the next video, do you guys think it's harder for men or women to get laid?
02:11:12.180
I think it's harder for men because women, we have more, like, check boxes, if that makes sense.
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We're more, we, we want more from you before we want to sleep with you, but the majority of the time, I feel like, at least.
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My answer is redacted, but happy Thanksgiving, ladies and Brian.
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Wait, we haven't talked about your OnlyFans yet.
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So, I'm trying to think if I want to adjust the microphones at all.
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Yeah, I'll take you out in the middle of the...
02:12:43.640
Wait, the question was easy for men to get laid?
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Yeah, is it easier for men or women to get laid?
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I think it just depends on how much substance, alcohol they've had that day, and how horny you are, and X, Y, and Z.
02:13:01.800
Wait, but okay, is it easier for men or women to get laid?
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It's easier for women to get laid, because we have a say, for the most part.
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Like, if I want to go have sex with someone, text, call, I'm over having it.
02:13:28.040
You, what's that term for people that steal compulsively?
02:13:44.060
Okay, do you think it's easier for men or women to get laid?
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I feel generally, it's harder for men, but thinking about people like Drake, they never
02:14:21.480
If there's a good looking guy and like a lot of girls want to like fuck him, then he's
02:14:31.540
Just like, obviously, it's like based off of like attractiveness.
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Okay, take away like Drake, like someone with really high status.
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Even a really good looking guy, an average girl has an easier time getting laid than like
02:14:58.420
Yeah, it's like men sexualize us even when we don't want them to, so it doesn't...
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Sometimes men sexualize you when you're not even wearing something revealing.
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So I feel like just stereotypes and just genders being different in the first place
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I mean, I'm not sure if it has so much to do with sexualization, but it's for sure easier
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And on that note, Eric, why don't you go ahead and pull up my version of that video?
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I just thought you were cute, and I want to know if you wanted to have sex.
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I just thought you were really cute, and I want to know if you want to have sex with me.
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And I want to know if you guys wanted to have sex.
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I just thought you were cute, and I just wanted to know if you wanted to have sex.
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I'm not from around here, so I don't know the custom.
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I just, because it looks like you were like in Europe.
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I had one girl say yes in Europe and I asked 200 women.
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And I asked 100 here in the US or in Santa Barbara.
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So yes, the two videos I showed you, there's a bit of a difference there, but we did do it
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I think I'm the most publicly rejected man in the world.
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I also think it's just the way you approach them.
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You said you want to go on a date, it would turn out better than do you want to go on.
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You just like stood there like, like, you know, the emotions.
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That does support like what we were talking about.
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But no matter, even if you did, a lot of women would have still said no just because of
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I would like to actually redo it where instead of just being like, when you like to have sex.
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It would be, it would be better to do like, would you like to hook up?
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Even that little change I think would, would change it a bit.
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And now that you're a more grown man with a deeper voice.
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I had another guy do it who I think is, he's a bit better looking than I am.
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So, you're saying even like a brutal guy will get a whole bunch of no's?
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I would love to do it again with like the most Chad, like giga Chad, 10 out of 10 dude.
02:19:33.980
Honestly, I, he might get a little bit of success, but I want to say like.
02:19:40.020
Like, he might get a couple, like two or three, but I'm pretty sure it's, if we do a hundred,
02:19:52.060
Because especially, you're asking all these women on their sober head, which you shouldn't
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just like have sex with a woman if she's like out of her mind.
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But it's like on the sober head, yeah, woman is going to be like, are you fucking out of
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If you're, unless I have beer goggles, tequila goggles.
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Honestly though, I think even if you did it like at a bar or a club at a party.
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At the end of the day, I think it's just, it's harder for men.
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We go downtown, we get drunk and then have a good day.
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But like, what about with previous, previous partners?
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But I've, I've met people that, and this, these are typically people who are in college
02:21:59.760
that they've, some people have never had sober sex.
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Cause they're just doing like hookups, one night stands.
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They've only had sex drunk or they're just, they're just always drunk.
02:22:20.000
It's not, it's not that I'm just like always blackout drunk.
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It's just, I'm out socially drinking and then either the lights go out and then it happens
02:22:49.380
So how many dates until you hook up or sleep with a guy?
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I feel like I've tried dating, but I haven't dated like a lot because I tend to be in a relationship.
02:23:07.120
I've been in one for, I was in one for a long time, but I think definitely a few, but
02:23:13.860
Like if you guys connected, I guess it depends on how much you connect with the person.
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No, but so would you hook up with someone the first night?
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Not preferably, but if it went that way, I wouldn't be upset about it.
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But cause some people like say, oh, third date, some people want to wait longer.
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Or some people think it's like bad if you hook up.
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Um, personally I like to wait, but like if I, how long, like, um, at least like four
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or five dates, but at the same time, four or five, God damn know that they like you.
02:23:48.580
But at the same time, I, I do have like some people that like I have hooked up with them
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Because I know that we're only hanging out to hook up.
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If, if there's a guy where you, you just, he just wants to hook up.
02:24:18.720
Previously I met a guy at the bar, but like he was a very genuine person.
02:24:23.360
Like he was very, he was very into the relationship type and like I'm, I am too.
02:24:28.960
So like, he's not the guy that I'd be like, Oh, I've just want to hook up with you.
02:24:37.220
Wait, but so did he want to have sex with you and then you made him wait?
02:24:41.620
We both wanted to, but we both, we both, yeah, we both wanted to have sex and we both
02:24:48.580
Well, obviously you both waited because one person in that dynamic can set the terms for
02:24:54.040
that, but you're telling me he also wanted to wait because, uh, or, or is it that you
02:25:05.540
So, I mean, I can see, I can kind of see that, but, and you were not a virgin, correct?
02:25:37.480
Like there have been circumstances where I've had sex on the first dates.
02:25:42.500
There have been circumstances on the second, third date, but it doesn't matter how long
02:25:51.000
Once you have sex, it's either there or it's not.
02:25:57.420
You can make them wait 12 days, three days, one day, 90 days, whatever the fuck you're
02:26:04.980
Like it, there's either chemistry connection or there's not and whether they want to continue
02:26:18.320
Like the thing is, is that oftentimes a lot of women will, will wait.
02:26:22.920
They think that they can keep man because you're making them wait.
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Because you're making them wait and they will continue like want to date you and pursue
02:26:32.720
you because you think you're emotionally connecting, but it doesn't matter.
02:26:36.940
Like once you have sex, it's either there or it's not.
02:26:41.980
I mean, it's sort of, it is a bit of a damned if you do damned if you don't situation with
02:26:46.260
women, because on one hand, there are definitely guys out there that if you sleep with them
02:26:51.300
too soon, they're going to be, they're going to think a certain type of way about you.
02:26:56.680
But also if you make a guy wait, then you might start getting feelings for him.
02:27:05.900
But there's also, you can sleep on a first night, uh, first date, but if there's that
02:27:12.560
connection, you will continue, he will continue pursuing and dating you versus like, Oh, she
02:27:20.240
Like, and, and there's also scenarios where if you make a guy wait too long, then they're
02:27:28.560
Or, or they would have otherwise liked to have continued seeing you.
02:27:32.160
But if you make him wait too long, he's going to think like, this is how I'll, I'll think.
02:27:36.940
Sometimes if a girl makes me wait too long, um, I'm going to think she's playing a game.
02:27:42.220
The only time where I feel like it can be kind of justified to wait is if you're genuinely
02:27:47.980
like that's been your, that's been your standards for all your previous men.
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You've slept with 30 guys before you've had a bunch of one night stands.
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You've had a ho phase and now you're going to make me wait.
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So I'm already, now I'm thinking, okay, let's play the game.
02:28:07.660
Whereas if it's genuine, like if it's a girl who's a virgin, for example, okay, fine.
02:28:15.260
Like now you're either, either I'm going to think you're not that into me because you
02:28:22.300
You're going to make, so you're telling me that guy with a jerk, the asshole, you gave
02:28:26.220
it to him the first night, but I'm the good guy.
02:28:28.140
You want to make me wait three days, four days, five days, you're a good guy.
02:28:31.660
And like, maybe they want to, you should, you should be rewarding the good men.
02:28:41.100
Um, I don't, for me personally, I, I, if a girl wanted to hook up quick, like I wouldn't
02:28:48.060
view her like, oh, she's cause I think you can hook up, no, but I think you can, you can
02:28:55.260
hook up with someone relatively fast and still not have a high body count.
02:28:58.940
Cause a lot of guys care about body count, right?
02:29:00.860
So you can have sex with someone fairly quickly, but also be relationship minded.
02:29:06.300
There's other indicators of if you're, what's that?
02:29:10.460
There's other indicators of promiscuity and like of the law I've had multiple longterm
02:29:17.020
I had a two year one, I had a one year one, all those relationships.
02:29:20.300
It wasn't let, it wasn't like let's wait 10 dates.
02:29:23.340
And then no, it was like within the first one, two or three times we hung out, we had
02:29:31.020
So I don't know this idea of waiting in order to secure a guy for a relationship, it doesn't
02:29:37.180
Like if he's down for you, like, yeah, I mean, maybe you could do like a token, like maybe
02:29:42.060
not the first time, but like, I don't know if you like the guy and you, if the vibes are
02:29:48.300
If that's your standard, it like some girls, they might genuinely like for all the guys
02:29:58.220
But if you had a hope is you've hooked up like a month ago, you hooked up with a guy
02:30:03.180
first night, there's no way a guy might know, but I'm just like, it's for me, it's a fucking
02:30:08.540
If you're, if you hooked up with a guy the first night, a month ago, well, I mean you wouldn't,
02:30:21.340
For this guy first, first night, but then this guy who I actually want, who I want a relationship
02:30:32.780
What do you think about girls who like they'll fuck on the first night, but they're interested
02:30:40.580
It's cause it's like, if there's connection, it will work, but if there's not at the end
02:30:45.860
of the day, you're just ripped up, bend it quickly.
02:30:52.420
But, but you should probably like, if you want something more serious, like you should probably
02:31:01.380
So that's, I mean, there are women who will sleep with the guy, what's that?
02:31:05.780
If that's what you want, like just, that's what's going on.
02:31:11.460
Like, like what if you guys are just like fuck buddies and like, no one said what they
02:31:16.580
want, but you guys are just fucking well, but what I'm saying is establishing these sorts
02:31:21.180
of understandings before you even sleep with someone first.
02:31:25.620
Like if, if your concern as a woman is, Hey, I don't want to rack up a high body count.
02:31:29.780
You can sleep with a guy relatively quickly, but you need to have a sense of where his
02:31:37.620
Also, if you're chasing after fuck boys, like he's not going to commit to you.
02:31:42.420
And I think, I think all the girls at this table, um, you know, cause we'll have girls
02:31:50.980
So if you don't have a reasonable self-assessment of your physical attractiveness, where you stand
02:31:57.060
in terms of your attraction to the, your, how your fuck, I'm sorry.
02:32:07.540
If you don't have a reasonable self-assessment of where you stand in terms of your physical
02:32:11.540
appearance, you're going to be chasing after a certain caliber of guy.
02:32:15.540
And that caliber of guy is never going to commit to you.
02:32:22.260
Like a guy who's a guy who's an, to use the numbers, right?
02:32:26.820
A guy who's a nine will gladly sleep with a girl who's a seven or six or five.
02:32:32.100
He's not going to ever commit to her for a long-term relationship, but he'll gladly,
02:32:40.820
So if a woman, if a woman is chasing after like a top tier guy, that's maybe more attractive
02:32:51.780
He might be great in bed, but you're not going to get commitment.
02:32:54.660
And then you're actually kind of like fucking yourself because that, then you start looking
02:32:58.100
at the guys who are your looks equivalent and all of a sudden the guys that would otherwise
02:33:03.620
be your looks equivalent, the guys that would be faithful to you in a relationship, the good,
02:33:07.140
dutiful boyfriends, you're going to think you're settling for what is actually your equal.
02:33:12.420
And then you're just, so, and it's, it's pretty easy for women to sleep with like really
02:33:21.860
An average woman can sleep with a guy who's much more attractive than her, but like an
02:33:26.580
average guy can't really sleep with a guy, with a girl who's, who's fucking hot.
02:33:32.580
So we don't have the same opportunity to like, fuck ourselves or wiring into like,
02:33:41.460
So we're, I've actually seen a lot of bomb guys with like girls.
02:34:00.820
That, because honestly it's fucking with social media and dating apps.
02:34:07.780
Have you ever seen a girl's Instagram comments on her Instagram?
02:34:14.580
Then you get a shit, you get a shit, you get a ton of DMs from guys.
02:34:18.460
You get on dating apps, you guys get bombarded by guys.
02:34:24.220
But these guys, a lot of these guys, uh, you have to separate.
02:34:28.540
So there's physical attraction and then there's relationship attraction.
02:34:32.340
So a guy will, guys will sleep with you, but they might not want to be in a relationship
02:34:38.200
And I honestly, I think women should only be sleeping with men that see you as like relationship.
02:34:48.340
I mean, if you don't, I mean, look, you're free to do whatever you want, but like if you
02:34:52.980
want, yeah, if you want to be the town bicycle and get run through, you can do it.
02:35:08.180
And I say this because men, we, we don't want a woman with high body count.
02:35:17.220
Like if you and I date, I'm not just going to tell you that I slept with two or three or
02:35:28.200
But even if I slept with a hundred, it has nothing.
02:35:37.120
What, what good does it bring into a relationship?
02:35:41.480
I mean, I feel cause it's like, you've shared that person with a lot of people.
02:35:48.600
It sounds worse when a girl has a high body count than a guy.
02:35:51.640
Like it looks bad on you, but guys, oh, but guys almost like, they're like, oh yeah, man,
02:36:03.860
I mean, it's, there's all kinds of double standards, but I think that's a justified double standard.
02:36:10.340
Brian, you just said you can tell if the girl has high body count because you described
02:36:15.480
I mean, not always, but like we are going to look at other factors because we know if you're
02:36:37.080
I think for most men, for most men, honestly, at any age, over 10, over, over 10 guys are
02:36:52.500
I'd say a lot of women have an over 10 body count.
02:36:54.480
But when I date man, I'm never asking them how many they've had.
02:37:02.060
No, some women do care about body count, but like they care.
02:37:05.680
Generally speaking, women care about body count far less.
02:37:14.420
It was just a statement that when I date man, I don't care nor they ask me because it's
02:37:22.460
irrelevant information because it's not necessarily that it's completely irrelevant, but it's just
02:37:31.020
like there's no good that's going to come from it.
02:37:35.800
And do I need to like dwell and think about it?
02:37:39.220
How many people you've been with where it's just like, I have you.
02:37:44.320
And so I'm, it's just you and I now versus like, unless you fucking cheat on me.
02:37:52.860
But it's like in the moment, it's, I'm sleeping with you, you're sleeping with me and that's
02:38:01.920
One reason to care about body count is the more partner someone has had, the greater likelihood
02:38:08.900
There's a lot of reasons to care about body count, but.
02:38:18.400
And that's because there's asymmetry in what men and women find.
02:38:22.140
If you're single, how else do you get better at sex?
02:38:26.760
If, if you're in a five year relationship, that's a good question.
02:38:31.980
And it gets just monotonous and you're like, Hey, do you want to have sex?
02:38:37.580
It's like, or if you're single and it's not necessarily that you have to be good at
02:38:45.720
It's just, that's how you learn what you like, what you dislike and you grow that way.
02:38:57.640
Well, I think if you compare someone, if you compare a woman who's had sex with her boyfriend
02:39:04.300
20 times versus a woman who's had sex with 20 men one time, I would argue, I mean, you
02:39:14.800
Um, and no, we had the worst sex of my life and I was there trying to work on it and you
02:39:23.680
were how by not to expose too much, but, uh, like I wanted to like need included like a
02:39:33.360
sex therapy or couples therapy or something because it was his issue.
02:39:37.260
Six, six, six months because, because there was a strong enough foundation of friendship
02:39:45.600
And so I was willing to stay in that relationship.
02:39:51.280
So here I was six months relationship and I'm crying because.
02:40:01.820
So, so, so he had an issue with premature ejaculation.
02:40:06.540
Was that the primary reason why the sex was bad?
02:40:18.280
Because often there's, so there's no round twos.
02:40:25.520
But there's, and that's, that's why like I was there.
02:40:30.460
You stayed with him for six months, even though there was such a glaring sexual incompatibility.
02:40:39.560
I think, I think it was fair of you to give him an opportunity to improve, but, and I
02:40:43.860
think all people should give people an opportunity to improve in that department.
02:40:47.420
But I mean, it seemed like a pretty glaring incompatibility sexually.
02:40:52.340
So maybe you should, I would have moved on sooner, but, but, but here's the thing though.
02:41:00.520
Like here's the difference between men and women.
02:41:02.520
Like would, would any of you for like a one night stand currently, or even for a relationship,
02:41:08.860
would any of you want to date a guy who's a virgin?
02:41:11.140
I don't, I don't necessarily care as long as you're trying to make sure we're both having
02:41:19.780
Like, like you can like work on things or like get good at things, but if you're not
02:41:25.380
I did date a guy that was a virgin and it was because he was really nice and really
02:41:29.620
sweet and like, he was boyfriend material and like, I didn't know he's a virgin until
02:41:34.900
And then once it, well, no, I knew before we had sex and then once we had sex, like it
02:41:43.800
Cause then I, I know what I like, so it was easier to like tell him what to do, what I
02:41:49.440
like when other times when you're with a guy that is experienced, they don't even know
02:41:53.800
what they're doing, like how the guy that was a virgin, I've had way better sex with
02:41:58.360
the guy that was a virgin than guys that have had experience.
02:42:03.160
Someone's saying, is someone saying that the black haired girl mic isn't working?
02:42:18.180
I think they're talking about hair cause she's not talking about it.
02:43:05.280
But you, wait, you just, but of course, how do you, how can you say you don't know when
02:43:10.200
I'm just saying like, I don't, I don't like, yeah, I did.
02:43:13.280
But I'm saying like, I don't know how to talk about this stuff, especially like in a
02:43:17.760
I prefer not, but if the guy didn't tell me, I would just go for it.
02:43:27.660
So that's the difference between men and women because for a lot of men, a woman who's a
02:43:38.980
My Chinese mom, make sure I don't break my virginity before marriage.
02:43:44.800
And like she literally said, your husband won't treat you as good if you are like as
02:43:55.780
Wait, did we, did we go all the way around on how many dates until you sleep with the
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We'll continue on with the conversation, but go ahead.
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I can't be a hypocrite because I've slept with someone the first time I met him.
02:44:19.540
But don't, but I, the thing is, not dates, like just how many, how long you could say
02:44:33.500
So if it's the first night, it's the first night.
02:44:35.980
I mean, I wouldn't prefer it, but like, maybe like, like three months, three months.
02:44:51.640
I think I'm very similar to the one you just described is I categorize my like boys into
02:45:05.180
I usually fuck like second or third time I see them and then they only come over to my
02:45:14.900
I don't go to public or like don't hang out with them.
02:45:23.020
But another type of guy is the guy I maybe will have a lot of mutuals or I see any slight
02:45:36.580
But the thing is, like, I'm not looking for like relationship right now.
02:45:45.420
You're not looking for a relationship right now.
02:45:52.120
You guys come over, fuck, and you can leave or you stay for a night and you leave the next
02:46:04.500
So some of the guys, you said that you just, you invite them to your house.
02:46:17.520
But I, but no, but you said that you don't do the.
02:46:20.180
And ever like after that dinner or meetup, it is strictly to my house.
02:46:32.740
She doesn't want to be seen in public with them.
02:46:37.280
And then you never talk to them again, or that's just always how it is.
02:46:43.240
I, in my opinion, like sometimes girls just want to have sex and then not, because the
02:46:47.320
more we talk, girl going to build emotions and I'm super emotional.
02:47:20.440
If that's my dream person, then I'll have him wait a little if I'm ready for a relationship.
02:47:40.440
I actually don't like cuddling because it's so warm.
02:47:47.380
Literally, last night, my sneaky link was like, come cuddle.
02:47:54.000
It's not a sneaky link because y'all are catching feelings.
02:47:56.560
Because I feel cuddling is overrated because why you guys both fall asleep?
02:48:00.940
You're going to fall that separate because it's warm.
02:48:07.340
What about just like the, you know, 10 minutes post-sex cuddling, then you kick them out?
02:48:12.660
Yeah, I prefer to go take a shower or take a pee first and then go back to cuddling.
02:48:25.700
Like, even honestly, even with a girl I've been seeing for like a year or two, I don't
02:48:40.900
Taurus, and he doesn't sleep or take naps, but I value my sleep also.
02:48:58.240
Yeah, so that way there's enough space for the activities, and then also you stay on your
02:49:03.700
side, I stay on my side, and we're both just zonked out.
02:49:06.800
Yeah, I only have a queen, so even a queen, it's just.
02:49:47.900
I feel like if I kind of push through that initial, I have had girlfriends that I've,
02:49:54.200
I can actually, like, sleep, like, you know, spend the night with or whatever, but.
02:50:04.800
And they'd be trying to wake me up and shit in the morning, the fuck.
02:50:35.800
And I cannot do anything, like, work and career.
02:50:47.020
But this is not the time for me to fall in love.
02:51:01.080
Well, also, my theory is coming from all of my, like, trauma, like, experiences.
02:51:19.940
I've been telling everyone, like, I love Aiden Rose's favorite streamer because he can
02:51:26.880
And then his assistant reached out to me a couple, like, last months.
02:51:31.480
And then he's like, oh, please, could you come on this live stream with Aiden?
02:51:38.780
And then he reached out to me again for Andrew Tate.
02:51:43.700
I didn't know Andrew Tate, like, who is this person?
02:51:52.040
And then after I see that live, I was like, damn, maybe I should be on there because this
02:51:57.240
is the only chance me as a woman can totally Rose him in person and just, you know, like,
02:52:06.080
So, after that, I was like, if Aiden ever asked me to do live stream again, I will do
02:52:11.220
it just to, you know, make some jokes and stuff.
02:52:14.540
So, I went on there with Kai, actually, another streamer.
02:52:27.280
So, the moment after that, I was like, I'm so ashamed.
02:52:38.200
Yeah, like, well, probably a couple of days ago.
02:52:42.080
That was like, when I checked it, it was like 800K views at the time.
02:52:46.060
And then, uh, it's my edits of me getting kicked out.
02:53:01.300
You backed me to go on your live stream just to kick me out.
02:53:13.500
And then Kyle was like, oh, is that chrome heart jacket?
02:53:20.420
I was like, bro, you are literally wearing a chrome heart hat.
02:53:28.800
So basically what, here, let me, let me, let me translate because, uh, so basically she
02:53:35.260
went on and then Aiden Ross is a streamer on Twitch.
02:53:44.760
Uh, they do like this e-date thing where they have girls like zoom in or it's on discord
02:53:50.700
And they like pretended they were talking to her for like not 10 seconds, 20 seconds.
02:53:56.040
And they like pretended to freeze while talking to her and then like booted her from the discord
02:54:10.380
I was prepared 10 questions to Rose, Aiden Rose, and I couldn't get to do it.
02:54:16.540
What was the other thing we were going to talk about though?
02:54:46.940
Oh, they get with your best friend or stuff like this.
02:54:53.720
Well, not like best, best friend, but like one of the girlfriend.
02:55:12.260
A lot of guys really don't like it when girls wear ugly looking Birkenstocks.
02:55:28.300
Especially like the bright yellow ones with the little chairs with.
02:55:42.020
I don't like Crocs, but I like the fact that you design it.
02:55:47.560
I'll never understand why they would hook up with a guy they don't see a future with.
02:55:50.440
Quickly, but the guy that they see a future with, they'd make weight.
02:55:53.500
If you keep rewarding trash dudes, they'll keep being trash.
02:55:59.000
Well, the thing is we don't hook up with like good guys immediately.
02:56:03.460
For me is any friends with benefit has an expiration date.
02:56:09.460
So I'd rather it's not happened than happened and it ended in a bad way.
02:56:23.380
Well, actually, I want to come back to this one.
02:56:26.520
You know, because you guys do kind of choose who you sleep with.
02:56:32.560
Do you have anyone to blame but yourself when you get with a fuck boy or an asshole or a
02:56:53.160
Muck bang is when they, you start from zero to a hundred and they shower you with compliments,
02:57:00.640
with gifts, they, uh, uh, uh, plan future trips together, but they're also, but then try
02:57:11.960
And then, uh, once, uh, the relationship starts getting serious or your show, you start talking
02:57:21.040
about feelings or set boundaries, they become uncomfortable and that's what, but usually love
02:57:27.920
bombs are, come from narcissists and the fuck boy version and the man who are emotionally
02:57:38.040
detached and they're just there to have like a upper hand over you and have control of who
02:57:47.480
Cause I dated this guy literally just for a month and after five days, he was like, I
02:57:53.140
don't want you to see anybody sleep with anybody.
02:58:13.540
I think a girl should be celibate for like a year before she even meets me.
02:58:21.360
Like she doesn't even know who I am, but she's like, should be waiting.
02:58:33.920
Are you single or are you dating someone right now?
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It's not that, I mean, it's kind of fun, but I don't, I don't have it.
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But if you send it a third time, I have a special, just for the fun, I'll play a special soundboard
02:59:17.360
Paradise champ, we need the hat trick on this super chat.
02:59:22.540
What would be the purpose of asking you a question they know will upset you and that you are likely
02:59:41.860
I'm not sure what this is in relation to, but that doesn't mean it doesn't matter to
02:59:55.580
Good bedroom fun is about communication and enthusiasm, not about how many men you took
03:00:49.740
George, you should be furious right now at Eric because we almost missed your juicy 304.
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Eric, you are now third in line for Gressel from Kel'Thuzad.
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We're going to have to talk about this in the guild, okay, Eric?
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You're benched and you're loot banned for a day and you lose like 50 DKP.
03:01:26.400
We have Davon Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat.
03:01:36.460
What would be the purpose of asking you a question they know will upset you?
03:01:41.900
So we were talking about like asking the girl her body count.
03:01:45.260
What would be the purpose of asking about your body count?
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They know it will upset you and you're likely to lie about it.
03:01:55.740
Guys, just on the topic of would you guys ever date like a guild leader for?
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Yeah, like but he plays, I mean he's the guild leader and he's the main tank and he also has,
03:02:21.180
And then like he's, this is World of Warcraft classic.
03:02:31.440
No, it's just more like, and it's a hardcore raiding guild and so they're also going to be farming world bosses.
03:02:37.100
So like Lord Kha'Zach and Azergos, because they want to get the world boss loot.
03:02:41.700
Like they want to fucking dominate the world bosses.
03:02:47.060
It's just, you're speaking and they're just like, shoom, shoom.
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Okay, but he's the top guy in the game or like.
03:02:57.320
Like, well, I mean, we, there will be speed running.
03:03:02.280
They're going to be speed running like Molten Core, AQ40, BWL.
03:03:13.000
But does it like, do you think it's kind of hot?
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But also they're like, they're really sweaty about it because the, uh, everyone in the
03:03:26.520
guild has to have a level 20 summoning alt, like a warlock summoning alt.
03:03:34.060
But like, if we want to get the world bosses, like if we want to get Lord Kha'zak, if we
03:03:37.420
want to get the Emerald Dragons, like the four dragons, the.
03:03:42.300
If we want to get Azergos and Lord Kha'zak, we're going to need at least like four summoning
03:03:46.720
alt's set up in, uh, oh shit, Ashara and, uh, what, what's the one?
03:04:01.040
Like also his, like if you go on Warcraft logs though, his parses are like all 99%.
03:04:16.140
If you teach me how to play, I guess I'll play, but like.
03:04:23.440
Does this make you to go home to a Pandoga out?
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I don't think this is actually about video games.
03:04:36.560
He's also getting Scarab Lord when, when the AQ.
03:04:39.520
You're just going to make fun of us because none of us know what's going on.
03:05:56.080
I thought you were talking about the basketball team.
03:06:55.880
And I've had this occurrence happen with women.
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So, let's say there's a guy you just started seeing and you want to hang out with him.
03:07:08.760
Or are you going to beat around the bush and text him, hey, and wait for him to suggest
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But I noticed, I think guys, I don't know, I could be wrong, but I think guys like it
03:07:24.600
if you're like straightforward and being like, hey, I do want to hang out.
03:07:27.580
Because even with girls I've been seeing for a while, sometimes they'll just text me
03:07:36.460
And it's, and so I'll, but I'll, I'll play the game.
03:07:42.560
I'll just say, hey, you said, hey, I'll say, hey.
03:07:52.580
And then, and then here's the, here's the crazy thing though.
03:07:54.620
I know she wants to hang out, but she doesn't want to say it.
03:07:58.280
So then I'm just like, finally, I'll just be like, do you want to hang out?
03:08:03.500
I'm like, why didn't you just ask me that up front?
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Can you just be, I've had that experience with a lot of women.
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Three pictures of beer and you still can't ask.
03:08:36.700
You called me because you needed a place to stay.
03:08:54.440
Okay, so that's been my experience quite a few times.
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And then also I've had times where I actually had this happen to me today.
03:09:13.800
There's this girl I was seeing for like six months.
03:09:15.880
It must have been like in this last spring or over the summer or whatever.
03:09:25.280
And today she messaged me kind of like, she messaged me, happy Thanksgiving, Brian.
03:09:37.360
And I'm like, I know you want to like rekindle because we haven't talked in three months.
03:09:43.880
All of a sudden, the happy Thanksgiving, right?
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Like we had an argument the fucking last time we talked.
03:10:14.680
And then she got pissed because she's like, what?
03:10:21.300
And just, you know, just say, how are you doing back?
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And I was like, well, obviously you're trying to rekindle.
03:10:32.280
Stop beating around the bush and just stop being around the bush.
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And anyways, so, so I, it was kind of fitting that we play the, but the fight club clip.
03:10:48.020
So have any of you guys, maybe you've had that experience with guys where the guys are
03:10:52.120
fucking being around the bush and you're like, get to the, like, get to the fucking point.
03:10:56.360
Just say it literally guys have done that to me before.
03:11:06.480
And we should all just cut the foreplay and just ask, not the other kind of foreplay though.
03:11:12.940
We have a big super chat here from our boy, George.
03:11:18.360
How do I pronounce your, can you tell me how I should pronounce your last name?
03:11:46.660
If I like women who are straightforward, I think women should be more.
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I think everyone should be more straightforward.
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I think this is the first time, by the way, I've seen you.
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Or no, wait, you were, you know, I think you were in the stream last show, man.
03:12:05.960
By the way, I don't know if you guys can see him.
03:12:08.180
I mean, George, you know, picture frame, picture frame gang.
03:13:08.840
He's, he's looking, he's looking at the sunset.
03:13:51.100
This is one of Lewandowski's finest performances.
03:13:57.960
Uh, we have George Ontiveros with the hundred dollar.
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The chat's been asking for the panel to answer this.
03:14:37.520
I'm gonna ask everyone their body count, but what's your body count?
03:14:47.300
I've never been doing sex with me, so I'll go home now.
03:15:32.560
Have you ever rejected a guy, but later wished that he kept pursuing you?
03:15:39.780
Or you turned down a guy, but later on regretted it?
03:15:51.100
So, you turned him down, but then you're like, why did I do that?
03:16:09.360
I feel like I always have a reason and I don't regret it.
03:16:13.620
Have any of you ever been mad at your boyfriend for cheating on you in the dream?
03:16:24.200
But have you ever had a dream where your boyfriend cheated on you?
03:16:31.220
There was a lot of toxic stuff going on there, so I don't really remember specifics.
03:16:40.300
I literally just talked about this with him like two days ago.
03:16:44.740
I had a dream that he cheated on me, but then I didn't get upset with him.
03:16:47.360
I just started crying because I felt bad that I had a dream that he cheated on me.
03:16:55.000
I've had girls, girlfriends say that I cheated on them in a dream and then they were pissed
03:17:05.680
I was just like, I'm so sorry for thinking about you this way in my dream that I couldn't
03:17:21.220
We're going to probably do one video reaction and probably wrap shortly, but yeah, so we'll
03:17:29.740
But before we do that, I want to open it up to you guys.
03:17:32.240
If you either have a final thought, you have a question that you want to ask the rest of
03:17:37.640
the panel, you have a question you want to ask me, you have a question that you want
03:17:40.520
to ask chat, or if there's just something dating related that you really want to get
03:17:44.720
off your chest, maybe something that frustrates you about dating, a bad date experience, whatever
03:17:51.540
One little thing, I've noticed, not all guys obviously, but I know most of the guys
03:18:01.380
They want me to do everything myself and I'm a very independent person, so I'm going to
03:18:04.180
do it regardless, but then they don't take, then they like kind of hate me for it, but
03:18:08.280
they don't take the initiative to do anything for themselves.
03:18:15.140
I'm like trying to figure out like my career and things like that and I'm very independent
03:18:18.660
and then my previous boyfriend's like they don't want to work or like they're not like
03:18:22.620
trying, trying to do the same things and like we're building a life together, so like I want
03:18:26.460
to talk about those things and like what their plans are and they don't have any and it's
03:18:31.160
frustrating because like then they look at me like I'm the crazy one because I want to
03:18:34.680
talk about it and I don't know how to like plan things in our relationship.
03:18:39.620
If yours let me make all the decisions, that's fine, but don't resent me for it.
03:18:43.480
I feel like they don't, they don't take initiative, but then they don't want me to do it.
03:18:46.480
Well, someone has to, so then it becomes like a control thing and then.
03:18:50.740
Do you find that in your relationships, you're kind of, you, to use the colloquial saying,
03:19:01.480
And do you think that's who you are as a person?
03:19:08.460
Like, would you prefer to be more like have a guy more in the leadership position?
03:19:13.580
I would like, I would like him to have a leadership position, but not where it's like nothing
03:19:20.260
Like, I don't want him to, I want to feel like I can rely on him and that not everything's
03:19:25.320
all on me, but I don't want it to be, um, you know, just one sided because that doesn't
03:19:31.520
Because then one of you ends up presenting the other.
03:19:34.200
And it's like hard to get that for whatever reason.
03:19:36.160
And so do you find that with the guys that you've dated oftentimes, for example, here's
03:19:43.100
a simple one, they are, they don't know what they want to have for dinner and they're deferring
03:19:53.380
Like I want to build a life and they're worried about what's for dinner.
03:19:59.020
And I'm like, that's not what I'm talking about.
03:20:01.120
Like, I'm trying to talk about the bigger picture and they're like, Oh, we'll talk about
03:20:10.160
And I'm like, well, I asked your opinion and you said, you don't want to deal with that
03:20:16.120
So, I mean, well, it sounds like you're looking to build more with someone and have a partner.
03:20:27.100
When I have gone on dates, which is very recent for me because I've, like you said, I'm only
03:20:34.220
20 and my only relationships have been like high school relationships.
03:20:38.340
I tend to go just a few years older, not drastic, but definitely by a few years, because I feel
03:20:44.560
like, I feel like my experiences with guys my age, they're just not thinking about the
03:20:51.420
And I think the only reason I do think about a lot of the things I think about is because
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like, I don't have my parents and things like that.
03:20:56.120
So I've already, I've already like learned to take an initiative in my life.
03:21:00.220
Like that's on me and there's no one there to like, pick me up.
03:21:03.800
So how are you, why are you laughing when she just said she doesn't have parents?
03:21:10.980
See, this is why you shouldn't read the chat while someone's talking.
03:21:13.620
You just laughed at her because you don't have parents, correct?
03:21:18.380
Um, so I feel like I try to think more into things and try to like, make sure like I'm
03:21:24.060
It's where if we break up, like everything, like I'm still like fine, but I want to build
03:21:27.780
Like, that's like my goal because that's all I can really do to get like the family aspect,
03:21:32.100
So it tends to be like a few years older there.
03:21:35.220
They've already started to think about things like that.
03:21:37.420
Well, I can imagine because you, you said you're an orphan, right?
03:21:41.820
I, yeah, my mom left me on the street as a teenager and my dad died.
03:21:46.260
So, I mean, it's probably led to you having to take on more, uh, responsibility and be
03:21:56.760
And so when I would imagine the partners that you're encountering probably, they don't, they're
03:22:05.300
not on your level in terms of how, uh, responsible you are for yourself.
03:22:09.680
Um, yeah, I'm like, no, I like nothing's necessarily wrong with it.
03:22:13.400
It's just like, if we're not on the same team, don't pretend like you want that if you're
03:22:17.200
not going to do it at the end of the day, because I don't want to expect something from
03:22:22.360
you because you were in a better situation that you can't give me when I do know what
03:22:31.320
Um, I want us to both be working towards a life together instead of it being, you know,
03:22:36.200
I'm the one worried about the life together and it's just, oh, we'll just take it day
03:22:39.140
by day or they promise things that they don't do.
03:22:44.420
Just, just like getting married, both having your own careers, like kids stuff, like just
03:22:49.120
And it, and like moving out, like I had my own apartment in Illinois for a couple of
03:23:02.380
Um, even in that situation, like, because I was the one dealing with everything, like
03:23:08.720
I, I had a boyfriend that lived with me at one point and I already had my whole life set
03:23:13.580
So because I was already taking the initiative, like I couldn't rely on him for, for like
03:23:19.280
Like if something happened, he would not know what to do.
03:23:22.700
Like if anything happened to me, he wouldn't know how to pay anything.
03:23:32.660
And, um, were you paying the bills or how was that working?
03:23:40.620
But it's just like, I want someone to want to work hard with me and create a life together.
03:23:45.380
And it seems like everything that's brought into the relationship is usually things that
03:23:52.680
I talk about, um, like, oh, do you want to move here?
03:23:56.920
And it's like, they don't, they don't really want to take the initiative to do it or talk
03:24:00.920
And then I express the things that I want or things I am thinking about.
03:24:16.900
How soon into the relationship are you bringing these things up?
03:24:20.380
Because it's going to scare, probably scare guys away if you start talking.
03:24:24.400
I mean, maybe it shouldn't, but for most modern men, those sorts of long-term planning
03:24:30.160
and conversations are probably going to scare a lot of guys away.
03:24:33.260
I don't feel like it really scared my previous relationships.
03:24:37.900
And then when it comes time to actually talk about things or like what our next steps are
03:24:41.200
to like get there, even if it's like far in the future, just like we both have to have
03:24:45.540
We both have to know where we want to live, like be stable.
03:24:51.140
You can't just be like, oh, I don't know what I want to do and I'm not going to aspire
03:24:55.080
But what if you met a guy who he was making enough money to support you and you could just
03:25:03.120
Like I don't like like retail working and stuff like that, but like I want to be independent.
03:25:07.520
But what if he was building his thing and his earning potential was, I mean, I don't
03:25:13.700
know what your earning potential is, but his earning potential dwarfed yours and he
03:25:19.380
said, hey, I'm going to support us, but I want you to support my mission.
03:25:27.460
Well, you would be basically helping him with his business, for example, or making yourself
03:25:34.520
I would help as much as I can, but I'd never give up a career ever because, um, even, even
03:25:43.540
While I like appreciate the fact that he does want to take a step of leadership in that role,
03:25:50.280
Just even me alone as a person to know that I can take care of myself, um, because of my
03:25:56.420
family history and because like I watched like divorce and things happen and it's like
03:26:00.660
Like you can be a stay at home mom, but I've watched like, they don't want to really leave
03:26:04.200
the relationship because they can't take care of themselves or, you know, things like
03:26:07.700
And I never want to be trapped in something like that.
03:26:14.200
I was actually engaged in my last relationship.
03:26:17.440
So like it, it was, but I was, we were engaged for like a while and then I was the only one
03:26:26.360
Like I was like straight chilling the whole time with not bringing anything up and just
03:26:31.780
And then it became, oh, well this, oh, well that, or we'll think about that later.
03:26:35.480
Like, I'm like, well, why would you, why would you propose to me if you don't want to talk
03:26:40.660
And I waited a whole year before I even started bringing up like details.
03:26:44.700
I felt misled and other things like derailed the relationship.
03:26:49.260
It wasn't that, but that was like, I got that over and over again in different circumstances.
03:26:55.740
Just curious who here wants to get married at some point?
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What, what does a woman bring to a marriage that, sorry, I'm fucking this up.
03:27:19.080
What can they, what does a guy get from a marriage that he doesn't get from a girlfriend?
03:27:34.320
I just mean like you both are, it's clear you're both agreeing on, that doesn't mean you're both
03:27:40.540
Cause like there's divorce and infidelity, infidelity and stuff, but it gives a basis of
03:27:47.520
Cause we both agreed to get married and we both know what the contracts are for marriage.
03:27:50.460
So then it's like, if you step away from that, like that's obviously wrong.
03:27:57.060
But what is the incentive for, for men to get married in today's day and age?
03:28:03.520
I guess I would have to ask a man cause it's like, it could go the other way too.
03:28:12.620
Me and Davon were actually talking about this over Instagram DMs.
03:28:15.920
So for men really, besides their own set, their own for spiritual reasons, for religious reasons,
03:28:38.720
90% of child support payments go from men to women.
03:28:41.260
And 97% of alimony payments go from men to women.
03:28:45.660
So for men, the way the marriage laws are now in the West, there's no reason for men to get married.
03:28:54.160
And a lot of men are waking up to this and we just, we don't want to get married.
03:28:59.080
But you would have like a kid with someone and be together with the readers?
03:29:03.140
You could have, you could still have a life partner.
03:29:06.840
I mean, there's other risks there too, but like what everybody wants.
03:29:15.720
Well, you want it because if he's the breadwinner at when you inevitably, well, I shouldn't say
03:29:22.900
inevitably, but if you get divorced and he's the breadwinner, free money.
03:29:27.920
What if you, what if neither of you is just one breadwinner?
03:29:32.280
Like, cause like I want to still work and I would still want to get married.
03:29:40.200
Prenups get thrown out all the time by judges and courts.
03:29:44.900
Even, even if you have a prenup just takes one person to say, oh, I was, you need to
03:29:50.600
do like a lot of things to make sure that the prenup.
03:29:57.620
Cause like, I know I have a friend and not anymore, but her parents, her step-mom and
03:30:04.300
And as soon as it hit 10 years, she left and she got a lot of money out of him.
03:30:12.660
Cause after 10 years, then you're obligated to be financially responsible for your spouse.
03:30:20.840
I guess you just have to find someone who wants the same thing as you are.
03:30:24.940
But you can find the same, like you can find that.
03:30:27.260
And then like, it doesn't like, I have a perfect example.
03:30:34.680
I mean, it's just like, look, so many divorces end in marriage.
03:30:44.880
Like, think about the vows that you say till death do us part.
03:30:52.500
So it's just like, people's words mean nothing.
03:30:54.640
People are so noncommittal in today's day and age.
03:30:58.420
And also why you don't need the government involved in your relationship.
03:31:03.020
Even if you both are equal earners, you still got to get lawyers involved.
03:31:10.700
I mean, my advice to both men and women is for three days, go to the court, go to your
03:31:20.920
local courthouse, go to the family court, go sit in.
03:31:28.140
Go sit in on divorce proceedings, sit in on custody dispute proceedings, and then think
03:31:46.860
Yeah, it's like, I think marriage, outside of people who are religious, it's an antiquated
03:31:58.380
I also just see people, like, being really quick with it and being like, oh, I'm so in
03:32:02.660
And like, okay, I want to prove that I'm so in love with you.
03:32:09.300
I've heard this saying before, a lot of women, fuck, I'm going to butcher it.
03:32:31.620
They're willing to give you that wedding, but they're not.
03:32:36.660
I'm trying to, I kind of might have butchered it.
03:32:39.440
Yo, Davon Jackson, thank you for the $20 soup chat.
03:32:42.660
I can promise to stay with you without having to bet half my worth that you feel the same.
03:32:50.640
Well, that's the other thing is like a lot of guys get absolutely just.
03:33:05.800
They're probably going to lose custody of the children.
03:33:11.740
Then they're going to start having to pay child support.
03:33:16.360
Like, we don't want to be fucking workhorses to pay for.
03:33:30.420
A lot of women want to be married, but don't want to be wives.
03:33:39.800
Honestly, there's going to have to be a reworking of marriage laws.
03:33:44.000
Honestly, though, probably if like guys just start opting out, if men start really opting
03:33:48.380
out of marriage, they're probably the governments are going to fucking pass bullshit thing.
03:33:53.000
Eric, can you try to find that article from Canada about the guy who is with his girlfriend,
03:33:58.780
not even married, and he had to pay her, his girlfriend, his ex-girlfriend, like $40,000
03:34:16.320
Something dating related that you want to get off your chest?
03:34:21.320
Something that just frustrates you about dating?
03:34:33.180
I just want to know why guys keep you around if they don't want anything.
03:34:46.480
Like, they hit you up, like, they blow up your phone, like.
03:34:59.640
Well, I mean, for sex, but you said that's not it.
03:35:05.040
They don't live here, so I'm not giving them nothing.
03:35:07.280
Guys are, hold on, guys are texting you just to text you?
03:35:27.800
A dude is just, what do you mean keeps you around, though?
03:35:34.820
So he doesn't want to sleep with you, but he's just texting you?
03:35:39.960
He doesn't live here anymore, and I don't live here anymore, so it's like.
03:35:44.540
Well, he probably wants more, then, if he's just.
03:35:47.360
He's trying to, like, keep in touch or whatever.
03:36:12.440
I mean, I know there was a news article on it, but.
03:36:15.360
Man ordered to pay his ex-girlfriend $50,000 per month in Canada.
03:36:20.060
Wealthy businessman will have to pay more than $50,000 a month in spousal support for 10 years
03:36:24.140
to a woman with whom he had a long-term romantic relationship, even though they kept separate
03:36:34.980
Um, so, an unmarried couple are considered common-law spouses if they have cohabitated.
03:36:43.700
But apparently it's saying that they didn't cohabitate it.
03:36:49.520
Um, in some states here in the U.S., there's this thing called a common-law marriage.
03:36:54.860
So even, yeah, even if you haven't done the ceremony or whatever, if you've been living
03:37:01.900
with someone for long enough, if it depends on the period of time, if you've been living
03:37:06.400
with your girlfriend for long enough, they're going to treat that like a marriage and you
03:37:09.620
could be on the hook for spousal support, even if you're not married.
03:37:13.400
So, guys, check that, check out the laws in your state.
03:37:23.860
Okay, guys, her DMs are open if you're willing to be her sponsor.
03:37:29.200
Um, Lily, what, anything dating-related you want to get off your chest?
03:37:40.560
There's got to be something that bothers you about dating, when you were dating, or dealing
03:38:02.900
Something dating-related you want to get off your chest?
03:38:04.880
Not really, but I actually have a story to back up what you're saying about paying the
03:38:10.620
This is a story happening in China, in Shanghai, actually.
03:38:13.840
One of the richest guys called, his English name is Qin, Chinese name is Qin Fen.
03:38:19.840
He made a girl, got pregnant, and that girl was trying to scan his money.
03:38:26.440
And he already paid that girl a couple millions, USD already.
03:38:29.940
And that girl carried a baby and escaped to America, gave birth to the babies, carry his
03:38:41.600
I gave birth to him and scammed him again with, I believe it's like a hundred million
03:39:00.720
Do you guys know that like the 10 richest women in the world all came into their wealth through
03:39:09.800
The richest women in the world, not through starting their own business.
03:39:17.280
So, I mean, you know, it's kind of, wait, question.
03:39:29.820
Dude, my type is terrible because I love funny dudes.
03:39:33.560
Funny dudes is the worst because usually they can pull jokes and the, the pussy, they pull
03:39:41.200
the jokes and they pull the, if you're funny enough, you don't even need to be cute.
03:39:47.040
Just what all over you girls nowadays, like they're not like that submissive anymore.
03:39:53.340
They like the humor, like the hilarious guys, always the most popular.
03:40:08.300
It's like, cause we had, we had a Chinese girl on, uh, or was she, she was like, uh, no,
03:40:16.180
she was Chinese and she said that she only dates Asian guys.
03:40:29.080
I don't, I think white guys don't find me attractive and nothing ever happens.
03:40:35.540
So you've dated Chinese, uh, Asian, Asian, half Asian.
03:40:41.480
Half white, half Asian, uh, Latino and Chinese.
03:40:57.460
Wait, have you ever hooked up with a white guy?
03:41:14.320
No, remember you had that one girl and she said she was Middle Eastern.
03:41:27.420
Just the Turkish, you're considering the Turkish guy.
03:41:37.900
That's even, that was a little turned off because usually this kind of guys is yellow
03:41:44.440
They want to move to China just to get Asian girls.
03:42:02.300
Funny do and also working on, like he has his own thing going on, either, you know, working
03:42:14.480
You, you want a guy who's only available like once every two weeks, once every fortnight.
03:42:20.780
Not like every two weeks, but the maximum I can do is I can meet him twice or the maximum
03:42:36.020
You told us earlier that you want them to just come over to your house.
03:43:04.840
Only dated Asian guys, including your stalker ex.
03:43:24.340
Well, I mean, like, I do find, like, other races attractive.
03:44:19.860
Honestly, after that, I don't want to speak Vietnamese anymore.
03:45:09.640
Mine is, I like Latinos with, I don't really like white guys.
03:45:18.720
I mean, some white guys I think are attractive, but like, I don't think I'd ever date a white
03:45:24.500
I've seen attractive white guys, but I'm just like, no.
03:45:26.940
You just smash a white guy, but not date a white guy?
03:45:36.680
But then I also am on the opposite side that like, you can be scrawny and you can be scrawny
03:45:43.620
and like, I still think you're really hot, but I really like Mexican, Latino, or light
03:45:57.760
Because like Native Americans, you have to like, okay.
03:46:00.900
Some are cute, but you have to find the right ones because a lot of the guys in Native American
03:46:04.640
culture, they like to have long hair, which isn't a bad thing.
03:46:07.140
Like some guys are hot to have long hair, but other guys just can't, can't pull it off.
03:46:14.820
You have to be Mexican, beefy, or I guess scrawny.
03:46:19.260
Not scrawny, but like my sneaky link isn't beefy, but I think he's super fucking hot.
03:46:30.440
I really don't have a type because I can't correspond any similar things between any of
03:46:36.000
my relationships or people that I've gone on dates with.
03:46:41.840
Well, since the girls have brought up the race thing, do you have a preference there?
03:46:53.520
Your, your last two exes, were they white guys?
03:46:58.940
One was Latino and one was half black, half white.
03:47:10.520
So I thought this would be a perfect opportunity for us to watch an Andrew Tate video.
03:47:34.360
The reason 18 and 19 year olds are more attractive than 25 year olds is because they've been through
03:47:38.620
I'll say this right here on the fucking internet.
03:47:41.360
People will sit there and go, Oh, you can't say that.
03:47:43.620
A 19 year old is more attractive than a 26 year old woman.
03:47:47.140
Cause that 26 year old has talked to more guys, been to the club more times, been more
03:47:50.880
places, been fucked and dumped more times, more arguments, more heartbreak, more bullshit,
03:47:57.660
Whereas a 19 year old might've had one guy from high school, just broke up.
03:48:00.540
She's fresh and I can fucking put my imprint on her and make her a good person.
03:48:03.320
And without her having to go through all that detriment to learn about life.
03:48:09.980
No, I know, but what's your, what's your, what's your preference?
03:48:14.600
But my point is that older women, the reason they're less attractive to men, even if men
03:48:19.600
don't instinctually understand it, it's because they've been through a whole bunch more shit.
03:48:23.240
And we're not interested in dealing with someone else's problems.
03:48:25.620
If you get with a girl who's 26, 27, she's going to be sitting there going, I know men
03:48:35.640
So you're telling me, wait, wait, you're telling me you were innocent and sweet for
03:48:42.340
And now I deal with the attitude problem you've developed because he got your pussy?
03:48:46.460
I didn't even want him to fuck me in the first place.
03:49:03.680
I feel like it feeds into the double standard thing.
03:49:12.220
Do you think the double standard is justifying?
03:49:16.240
No, because I could say the same thing about a guy.
03:49:19.640
Now I'm going to think about how he slept with all those girls while he's fucking me.
03:49:22.420
But I'm not going to go there because like that's...
03:49:38.280
What if the 19-year-olds ran through compared to the 26-year-old?
03:49:44.940
There could be a 26-year-old that like has been...
03:49:48.780
And then the 19-year-old's out here getting drunk.
03:49:56.440
And I definitely think there is something to be said with people who are younger now.
03:50:02.320
I feel like are definitely racking up a much higher body count than back 10 years ago, back 15 years ago, back 20 years ago.
03:50:16.340
I mean, it is a bit of a somewhat to some degree an antiquated concept that just because they're younger, they're going to have a lower body count.
03:50:24.360
But I think more so the point he's making is a girl at 19, her at 19 versus that same girl at 29, she's going to have a lower body count at 19 than at 29.
03:50:40.760
Well, I mean, you can only go up in body count.
03:50:46.640
It's more likely that someone who's younger has a low body count.
03:50:55.240
I mean, I get where he's coming from from the guy's perspective.
03:51:00.100
Definitely, there's a lot of younger girls who are racking it up.
03:51:26.940
And, like, the whole idea of, like, nowadays, there's a really big idea of hookup culture compared to in the past.
03:51:34.860
So, a lot of girls that are younger definitely do have more, like, a higher body count.
03:51:39.440
Like, I know this girl, she was, like, when I talked to her, she was, like, 20.
03:52:39.920
So, what is the highest body count that you've heard, like, a girl admit to you, like, tell you?
03:52:53.140
My sophomore year of high school, a girl said she's already fucked 100 guys.
03:53:04.800
Because I was like, oh, I've already had sex with two people.
03:53:37.980
Oh, I think the highest I've heard was probably, like, 17.
03:54:03.760
But also, like, yeah, I don't have really very active girlfriends like that.
03:54:33.560
Well, I don't work for you, so I can't call you boss.
03:54:44.360
Can you ask her if she's down to come on the podcast?
03:54:47.780
Well, me and her got in an argument, so we're on a bad turn.
03:55:09.000
Unless she skips to the very last five minutes.
03:55:11.220
She's going to try to, like, give you her herpes that she probably has?
03:55:21.300
And you said you could, like, fuck her up, so it's all good.
03:55:33.400
Do you want to give your reaction to the video, the Tate video?
03:55:35.620
I think besides body count, also girls of, like, 18 years old girls are easier to manipulate
03:55:45.000
That's kind of also the point you want to make.
03:55:55.000
How would she know that she has plus a thousand?
03:56:13.900
Or, though, could his preference be that he prefers younger women for some of the reasons
03:56:21.640
Lower body count, more pleasant, less relationship baggage, more physically attractive, et cetera,
03:56:42.840
Actually, I would say that men who are interested or who want to date younger women are shamed much
03:56:50.260
more for it than women who want to date younger men.
03:57:05.360
Like, they're not mentally developed there yet.
03:57:10.260
I think you can definitely articulate better reasons for why an older man would want to
03:57:20.880
It's a bit more of a stumper as to why an older woman would want to date a younger guy
03:57:27.620
because typically women are attracted, tend to be a bit more attracted to men who are a bit older than them
03:57:34.840
just because they're a bit more mature, maybe they're a bit more secure financially, you know,
03:57:53.580
No, but if you have a crazy number like a thousand, then that's a red flag.
03:57:57.260
But generally, generally, like normal people, I don't think so.
03:58:01.100
Well, let's not use an extreme, but like let's say it's plausible that a girl at 21 could have like a 30 or 40 body count.
03:58:12.240
But you also have to think about when did she start having sex.
03:58:16.180
But if you're like 14, that's still kind of like young.
03:58:19.560
That's probably also a bit of a red flag a little bit.
03:58:23.020
On that note, when did you lose your virginity?
03:58:25.580
When I was 15 with the boyfriend I had for a year.
03:58:44.580
You know, we could do something, but then I was like, okay, cannot poke it through.
03:58:50.240
It's just like kind of, you know, do sound like make out and stuff.
03:58:54.240
I was like, please do not poke it through because my mom said I cannot break my virginities before marriage.
03:59:00.020
But that was when I was 20 years old and poked a little bit too deep.
03:59:07.240
So you were like, you could poke it in a little bit, but not all the way?
03:59:13.080
Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
03:59:28.700
It doesn't matter if it's like this much or the whole thing.
03:59:41.520
I would just study because I was in China the entire time.
03:59:43.940
Okay, so you would entertain yourself by just the tip just for a second just to see how
04:00:04.640
But it's just, you know, young boys and young girls make out in a hotel room.
04:00:13.520
Doing everything but not sexual intercourse, not annual.
04:00:33.940
So he accidentally, this is kind of almost sounding like an assault or some shit, but okay.
04:00:41.660
He accidentally, but you were down for just the tip.
04:00:48.420
And then the question though, did how many, like, was it went all the way in?
04:00:54.340
It was like halfway, but it still was a little too deep.
04:00:58.200
And then like, but did, did you stop after that?
04:01:01.800
Or did you, you just like, I guess we might as well continue?
04:01:09.360
Like a sexual intercourse, but not all the way.
04:01:26.180
So, so the Mormon way to get around not having sex before marriage, which is like.
04:01:58.760
Have you seen that YouTube video about the two girls saying the other way, like, because
04:02:05.140
So they're like singing about putting in their butt.
04:02:12.160
We have Davon Jackson here with the $10 Soup Chat.
04:02:20.560
Be a good girlfriend, potential mother to his children.
04:02:28.340
Manipulate them to think he has multiple girlfriends at the same time is okay.
04:02:33.320
Because he's giving them money and like, like something.
04:02:44.040
Well, he did convert to Islam, which allows for four wives, I think, is it?
04:02:55.160
Oh, and also he manipulated all of his girlfriends to do OnlyFans.
04:03:54.040
Is it wrong for a guy to care about a woman's body count?
04:04:03.680
Then I feel like he should just leave and not be with her.
04:04:13.200
But I feel like you also can't judge someone based just off of that.
04:04:19.020
So I always think I don't care about body count until recently.
04:04:30.280
I was like, and then he asked, what's your body count?
04:04:33.060
I tell everyone three because that's out of like almost respect for him to have the audacity
04:04:38.180
to say to my face that actually accurate body count.
04:05:01.580
So you always say your body count is three, but your body count actually isn't three, correct?
04:05:17.500
Just tell guys you have three body counts and that's it.
04:05:24.520
I have a girlfriend that's telling his boyfriend like she's a virgin before her.
04:06:31.160
Didn't you bring up about how your mother does this?
04:07:21.000
I don't think you're going to break it out of her.
04:07:23.260
I thought you just said, though, that body count shouldn't matter.
04:08:12.320
You know, well, first off, I appreciate your honesty.
04:08:20.760
Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
04:08:56.520
Imagine if her body count's like 9, and you said you're below 50.
04:09:02.480
The guys are going to think you're like, it's much better to say you're 9.
04:09:16.000
I hope a guy lies to you about his finances, his height, all that shit.
04:09:36.520
Because what if someone you tell your 3 body count to knows someone else that you also
04:09:41.620
hooked up with, and they're going to be like, oh, well, she's-
04:09:47.540
I want the opportunity to opt out of dating a woman if she has a body count that's too high.
04:10:01.260
And I don't think we should make it a habit to lie to people, but will it be a self-serving-
04:10:09.300
Will it benefit you to say that your body count's 3 even though it's not?
04:10:22.080
First of all, people shouldn't ask each other's body count if you really love that person or something.
04:10:28.480
Don't you think it's hypocritical that you said you hate when guys lie about their age
04:10:49.360
It's like, it's not processing with the story and then the mom, and then you're like, oh,
04:10:58.740
Like, it could be 3, actually, but I'm just gonna say it's under 50.
04:11:05.120
But, okay, you're saying the guy should just not ask.
04:11:08.940
Like, it's better we both don't know each other.
04:11:11.680
After the guy tell me, like, 63, like, my heart shake a little bit.
04:11:27.720
But also, you guys have to think she is 28, so it's like.
04:11:36.000
Well, didn't you say that at the beginning of the show?
04:11:47.880
Girl, you're just finessing your way through life, like.
04:11:55.840
I shouldn't say it, but Lily, what's the saying?
04:12:21.680
Okay, you know how I like those saying black don't crack?
04:12:24.100
Yeah, I knew that's where you're going with this.
04:12:48.280
Is that talking about your skin or, like, down there?
04:12:52.820
Because when you see older Asians, they're youthful.
04:13:00.200
I feel like once it hits a certain point, then, yeah, they look older.
04:13:23.080
And then it's just, like, you're in a dehydration shit.
04:13:32.500
He a man, a business offer, and then made them millionaires.
04:13:38.260
By lying, wouldn't you say you're manipulating the guys you talk to into not being disgusted with you?
04:14:07.140
We've been going for, like, I think this is four plus hours.
04:14:10.840
If yours is high, why did the guy's high body count make you, like...
04:14:24.220
Wait, so if you're supposed to multiply by three, should I start saying my body count's five?
04:14:30.180
Because then they'll multiply by three and it's really 15.
04:14:42.320
The best way to start a relationship, the best foundation...
04:14:49.480
Well, the best foundation for a relationship is to lie.
04:15:03.600
Brian never shares his, but it's not a kind line.
04:15:06.620
No, actually, I won't share mine if you share yours.
04:15:13.640
I would like to say, who have in the comments, I'm Lily.
04:15:19.040
But, like, this entire time we've been on stream, everyone's been mistaking her for Lily.
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Is it because two Asians are sitting next to me?
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Do you got something against Vietnamese people?
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Lily, let me actually tell you, that's his type.
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Like, your type is Vietnamese people, but not me.
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She's saying that she doesn't live up to your Vietnamese standards.
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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
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I'm not going to front if you didn't have a boyfriend.
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Hey, my friend's Vietnamese and I didn't shot his shot.
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My ex-girlfriend, the five-year relationship, she's Vietnamese.
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I don't know if you've met Vietnamese parents, but they be cussing me out like, no tomorrow.
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The fact that she's the only one laughing about that.
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But you know how the term of saying a Karen and stuff?
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It's a generalized term for an Asian guy that dresses the exact same.
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And they vape and they're like, what's up, bro?
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Like, it's like it's just a stereotype of like these Asian guys who are just so typical
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It's like a white frat guy, but like as an Asian person.
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A lot of Asian women, like they're ranking the different Asian races.
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And they're like, why is all these like Asian women going for the Filipinos?
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Filipino guys are like the biggest fuckboys out of like all the Asians.
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So the Chinese are not fuckboys and the Filipinos are fuckboys.
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You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.
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I will get this question for you on our next stream.
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We're already way over the four-hour mark, so we got to wrap here.
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I will get the super chat, though, on our next stream.
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If you can tune into our next stream, do a little comment, I will be sure to get that
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But, yeah, you can be doing anything else, guys.
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Thanks to everyone who super chat and supports the show.
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We're still in the red on this project, but hopefully, you know, we can get up there.
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Thank you to you guys for staying for the whole show.
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I think this is actually our longest stream ever, so really thank you, guys.
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And, yeah, thank you to everyone in the chat for all the super chats.
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We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
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And I'm trying to think if there's – oh, let me – sorry.
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Yeah, we will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.