Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #44

00:00:00.000 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:24.260 Sempre un'amabile, legge addroviso, impianto in riso e menzognero.

00:00:35.380 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:48.260 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:00:58.260 La donna è mobile, qual piuma il vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:28.240 La donna è mobile, chi è un po' di chi. 1.00

00:01:31.320 A few quick announcements before the show begins.

00:01:33.780 First off, hope you all had a good holiday and new year, guys.

00:01:37.760 Chat, I gained about 10 pounds over the break, stress eating.

00:01:41.280 So can you guys spam Pudgy Brian in the chat?

00:01:45.100 So yeah, by the way, not sure if you guys heard, but Santa Barbara was flooded.

00:01:49.080 Major rainfall, super flooded.

00:01:53.600 So by the way, is there a bit of a lag?

00:01:59.000 Do you see that, Eric?

00:02:00.440 Or is that just on our end?

00:02:02.040 Guys, how's the frame rate look in chat?

00:02:04.160 Let us know how the frame rate is.

00:02:05.940 Anyways, yeah, Sanbar was flooded.

00:02:08.620 So some people were late.

00:02:09.760 We had some delays in cancellations, so I had to hustle to get some new people on.

00:02:15.620 But anyways, so thank you for your patience there, guys, with the late start of the show.

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00:03:00.120 Eric, can you pull up?

00:03:01.960 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:03:02.380 Can you show them the, oh, unfortunately, okay, just go to the next one.

00:03:05.480 That's fine.

00:03:07.800 Oh, yeah, actually, the joint.

00:03:09.060 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:03:09.380 Thank you for reminding me.

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00:03:44.860 What's going on, Eric?

00:03:46.980 You done?

00:03:48.460 What?

00:03:49.540 Pull up OBS. 0.73

00:03:50.620 Sorry, guys.

00:03:52.500 Can we get some Fs in the chat for Eric?

00:03:55.460 By the way, we got to talk about the flask that you lost me.

00:03:58.260 Okay.

00:04:00.560 Eric's going to walk out on this.

00:04:02.020 Watch out.

00:04:02.820 Watch out.

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00:04:15.280 or drops an Amazon Prime sub.

00:04:17.500 And like I already mentioned, we have a Clips channel that is blowing up right now.

00:04:21.580 If you want to be on the show, Eric, can you move it to?

00:04:24.220 Yeah, thank you.

00:04:24.800 If you want to be on the show or help the show, DM at whatever on Instagram, chat mods,

00:04:28.480 timestamps, studio hand.

00:04:29.840 I'm looking for a talent coordinator.

00:04:31.780 I will pay.

00:04:32.500 I'm trying to hire a talent coordinator because we need assistance in that department.

00:04:37.900 So DM me at whatever on Instagram and, yeah, if you're interested in joining the team.

00:04:45.980 So, by the way, can we get some W's in the chat for top producer Eric?

00:04:50.740 He lost my flask on a – where were you in –

00:04:53.960 I was in Mammoth.

00:04:54.900 He was in Mammoth snowboarding.

00:04:57.280 And I'll tell the story another time.

00:05:00.540 But anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:05:04.040 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and or school major.

00:05:08.140 Go ahead.

00:05:09.060 Hello.

00:05:09.880 I'm your favorite senpai.

00:05:11.820 I'm 20.

00:05:13.120 I don't work.

00:05:14.220 And I go to SBCC.

00:05:16.200 What's your name?

00:05:17.780 Your favorite senpai.

00:05:18.700 That's not your name.

00:05:19.720 I am senpai.

00:05:20.900 That's – come on.

00:05:21.860 What's the name?

00:05:22.940 Cat.

00:05:23.340 There we go.

00:05:24.160 That works.

00:05:26.120 Hi.

00:05:26.760 I'm Kitty.

00:05:27.440 I'm 26.

00:05:28.760 And I model.

00:05:32.080 Okay.

00:05:32.600 I'm Sarah.

00:05:33.920 I'm 18.

00:05:35.400 And I'm actually from Germany.

00:05:37.300 So I'm a gap year student study abroad on SBCC.

00:05:41.680 And, yeah, I don't really have a major there, Paul.

00:05:44.140 So, like, I'm just trying myself out.

00:05:48.120 Hi.

00:05:48.900 I'm Jennifer Akemi.

00:05:50.160 I'm 30.

00:05:50.840 And I am a market research manager.

00:05:53.680 Okay.

00:05:54.880 Hi.

00:05:55.360 I'm Mila.

00:05:56.020 I'm 18 years old as well.

00:05:57.380 And I'm also an exchange student, actually.

00:05:59.900 So I go to SBCC.

00:06:01.660 Don't really have a major or anything.

00:06:04.760 I'm Maddie.

00:06:05.840 I'm 19.

00:06:07.100 And I work at a smoothie plant.

00:06:10.960 What's up, guys?

00:06:11.760 It's Tristan.

00:06:12.660 You guys know me.

00:06:13.220 I'm 22.

00:06:14.180 And I'm a store manager.

00:06:16.700 Okay.

00:06:17.160 Rock and roll.

00:06:17.600 By the way, we have a couple people in the house that are not from the U.S., right?

00:06:21.940 So you're from Brazil, right?

00:06:25.160 Both of you are from Brazil.

00:06:26.080 Yeah, we are from Brazil.

00:06:27.120 Okay.

00:06:27.420 Can we get some Brazilian flags in the chat for the two Brazilian girls? 1.00

00:06:31.760 Okay.

00:06:31.920 And then you're from Germany.

00:06:33.680 And then you are...

00:06:35.160 I'm from the Netherlands.

00:06:36.280 Ah.

00:06:38.160 Amsterdam's my favorite city, by the way.

00:06:39.980 It is?

00:06:41.100 I've been to the Netherlands three times.

00:06:43.080 I mean, I like Amsterdam.

00:06:44.760 I just don't like the rest of the Netherlands.

00:06:46.920 What part of...

00:06:48.600 Where are you from?

00:06:49.620 I'm from, like, a very small town.

00:06:52.100 But it's, like, in between Rotterdam and The Hague.

00:06:55.800 I'm not sure if you know them.

00:06:56.920 I know The Hague.

00:06:57.440 That's where they prosecute war criminals.

00:07:01.160 Something like that.

00:07:02.220 Right?

00:07:02.680 Yeah?

00:07:02.940 Yeah.

00:07:03.320 Okay.

00:07:04.460 And so you two are Brazilian.

00:07:07.260 Yeah.

00:07:07.860 Okay.

00:07:08.940 So I'm curious, right?

00:07:10.420 Because you're both Asian. 1.00

00:07:13.380 Yeah.

00:07:13.600 So in the U.S., you would be called...

00:07:15.960 If you're Asian and American...

00:07:18.140 You're Asian-American.

00:07:19.020 So are you guys Asian-Brazilian?

00:07:21.140 Yes.

00:07:21.560 Yes.

00:07:22.120 But in Brazil, we're still Brazilians.

00:07:24.500 Well, yeah.

00:07:25.020 I mean, you're still American if you're...

00:07:26.760 Anyways.

00:07:27.600 Cool.

00:07:28.140 Okay.

00:07:29.020 I was curious about that.

00:07:30.280 If there was a similar term as...

00:07:32.380 Because we have here Asian-American.

00:07:34.040 Yeah.

00:07:34.300 So I was curious.

00:07:34.940 Yeah.

00:07:35.200 Like, in Brazil, we just say Brazilian.

00:07:37.920 Because Brazilian is not a race.

00:07:40.900 Yeah.

00:07:41.120 So basically, if you are...

00:07:42.780 If you are born in Brazil, you're Brazilian.

00:07:44.860 Okay.

00:07:45.400 Gotcha.

00:07:46.060 Cool.

00:07:46.940 So guys, everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:07:49.920 Show them some love.

00:07:51.160 Give them a follow.

00:07:52.500 Especially...

00:07:53.140 Oh, by the way, Eric, can you pull up the...

00:07:56.140 Just to show people how bad the storm was.

00:07:59.140 Can you pull up the two storm photos?

00:08:03.960 Where?

00:08:04.320 Do the underpass one first.

00:08:09.900 And I bring this up because the two Brazilian girls drove all the way from Los Angeles. 0.99

00:08:16.120 It was flooded as fuck in Santa Barbara. 0.99

00:08:18.560 This is in Santa Barbara. 1.00

00:08:20.240 That's a car that is fucked. 0.99

00:08:24.080 And then pull up the other one. 1.00

00:08:26.840 Oh, it's a boat.

00:08:29.420 Oh, no, that...

00:08:30.560 Yeah, just...

00:08:33.880 There was this crazy one.

00:08:37.040 It's coming up in a sec.

00:08:38.100 But yeah, they drove all the way from Los Angeles.

00:08:40.000 They almost couldn't make it because, like, just as they were coming, the highway opens back up.

00:08:45.180 So...

00:08:45.480 Yeah, how the hell did you guys get out of here?

00:08:47.240 That's crazy.

00:08:48.480 It took us, like, three hours?

00:08:49.160 Don't play it.

00:08:49.580 Don't play it.

00:08:50.680 Three hours?

00:08:52.240 Yeah, guys, this is Santa Barbara.

00:08:53.720 Look at how...

00:08:54.400 I mean, the cars are totaled as far as I'm concerned.

00:08:57.100 But that's a dude in a kayak.

00:08:58.800 That's a street, by the way.

00:08:59.900 That's not a river.

00:09:01.200 So thank you guys for making the...

00:09:03.300 Keep in mind, people freak out when it drizzles here.

00:09:05.360 Yeah, so this is uncharacteristic.

00:09:08.960 So anyways, so we're going to go around the table once more.

00:09:12.260 Guys, current relationship status, longest relationship, and are you on any dating apps?

00:09:17.720 And that includes seeking arrangements.

00:09:20.420 Go ahead.

00:09:22.320 I am celibate, which is single, longest relationship...

00:09:28.220 Stop the cap. 0.94

00:09:29.760 Stop the cap?

00:09:31.040 What does that mean?

00:09:32.240 You're celibate?

00:09:33.500 Yes, I am.

00:09:35.000 Hello?

00:09:36.940 Okay, yeah.

00:09:38.220 What's with the...

00:09:39.460 What's with it?

00:09:40.800 Yeah, what's with the nun costume?

00:09:43.140 What?

00:09:43.500 I'm a woman of God.

00:09:45.300 Since when?

00:09:46.260 When did that start up?

00:09:48.660 Because...

00:09:49.060 Since I just...

00:09:50.380 He spoke through me.

00:09:51.640 There had to have been a moment where you were just like, okay, like, no, I need to be holy now.

00:09:56.380 Yeah.

00:09:56.780 What happened?

00:09:57.840 I'll tell you the story.

00:09:59.160 I was painting that board, and then God entered my body, and I completed it.

00:10:04.840 And so me and God made that together.

00:10:07.120 Were you on shrooms?

00:10:09.060 No.

00:10:09.540 No?

00:10:09.900 What was going on?

00:10:11.280 No, what is drugs?

00:10:12.040 He entered your body.

00:10:13.520 Yeah, just like the Virgin Mary.

00:10:15.400 Are you familiar with that story?

00:10:16.820 I'm familiar with it.

00:10:17.880 That's just interesting.

00:10:18.860 You were making that specific board when you decided to just be celibate and be holy.

00:10:24.540 No, that's just when God entered me.

00:10:27.040 Okay.

00:10:29.060 Yeah.

00:10:30.680 All right.

00:10:31.300 Hold on.

00:10:33.700 Before I have everyone continue with this, let me get these Super Chats really quick.

00:10:40.080 Hold on, guys.

00:10:41.660 By the way, guys, all Super Chats will be displayed in stream overlay.

00:10:45.620 I will read answer Super Chats, $10 and up.

00:10:50.220 No, I don't care.

00:10:51.440 Yo, we got ZoroSlost11 with the $10 Super Chat.

00:10:55.100 At what age...

00:10:56.200 Jesus.

00:10:57.020 Actually, can you read this?

00:10:58.920 Because I can't parse this at all.

00:11:00.280 Into the mic.

00:11:03.060 Can you read it out loud instead of whispering?

00:11:09.280 Okay.

00:11:09.960 That was helpful.

00:11:13.600 Okay.

00:11:13.920 At what age you get married, start family.

00:11:16.580 If you knew that, you lose 90% of your eggs by 30, 35.

00:11:20.200 And the saddest demo of people in the West is 42-plus-year-old women making 50K a year. 0.96

00:11:26.140 No kids.

00:11:26.860 Family.

00:11:27.840 A quarter of women take antidepressants.

00:11:30.280 Okay.

00:11:30.500 So what age would you get married, start a family?

00:11:33.080 We'll go around...

00:11:34.160 Actually...

00:11:35.700 I'm so confused.

00:11:38.780 This is all over the place.

00:11:40.300 I was like three questions in one thing.

00:11:42.460 You know what?

00:11:43.140 Hold on.

00:11:43.480 I'll get right back to the Super Chats, but I do want everyone...

00:11:47.360 He has a cool profile picture, though.

00:11:49.540 We'll get to it in a sec.

00:11:50.740 Really quick, I do want everyone...

00:11:52.100 I'll get back to that Super Chat, and I'll get the rest of them.

00:11:54.680 I see the big ones.

00:11:55.900 Flan Life, thank you for the big $200 Canadian Super Chat.

00:11:59.580 I'll get to it right after this.

00:12:01.700 We'll go around the table.

00:12:03.180 I should finish that off first.

00:12:04.900 Sorry, guys.

00:12:05.320 A little rusty here.

00:12:05.900 It's been a month.

00:12:07.040 Current Relationship Status, Longest Relationship, and Are You on Any Dating Apps?

00:12:10.700 Did you...

00:12:11.920 Can you actually answer the actual question?

00:12:15.020 Yeah.

00:12:16.680 Longest Relationship was two years.

00:12:18.320 Okay.

00:12:18.580 Woman of God.

00:12:19.520 It was in high school.

00:12:20.080 Okay.

00:12:20.500 Gotcha.

00:12:21.060 It was a beautiful relationship, but it ended, and I can still appreciate the beauty in it.

00:12:26.700 It was a good relationship.

00:12:27.640 Nice.

00:12:28.540 And...

00:12:29.020 I still wish the best for him.

00:12:31.100 Have you been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:12:33.060 No, I have not.

00:12:34.320 Okay.

00:12:34.820 Go ahead.

00:12:36.120 I'm single, and my longest relationship was two and a half years, and I'm not in dating

00:12:42.780 apps.

00:12:45.120 Okay.

00:12:46.140 Ever been on Seeking Arrangements?

00:12:48.120 No.

00:12:48.620 Okay.

00:12:49.140 Go ahead.

00:12:49.980 Yeah, I'm single, too.

00:12:51.280 I've been...

00:12:52.260 I've never been into a relationship, and I'm technically on Tinder, but, like, I don't

00:12:58.280 really do much with it, but, like, yeah.

00:13:01.360 Wait, so you've never been in a relationship?

00:13:03.400 No.

00:13:03.800 But you're on Tinder, so what are you seeking on Tinder?

00:13:10.360 Tinder asked me that several times, and I don't know.

00:13:13.760 To be honest, like, I just want to get to know a few people, but, like, obviously, Tinder

00:13:17.540 is more about, like, something else.

00:13:19.200 Okay.

00:13:19.780 All right. 0.99

00:13:20.120 At least you're shit up about it. 0.98

00:13:22.320 Yeah, because usually, if you haven't been in a relationship, it's, like, it's obviously 0.96

00:13:26.720 not something you're looking for now, right?

00:13:28.840 Yeah.

00:13:29.420 Yeah.

00:13:30.180 Sadly, not.

00:13:31.680 Like, I'm not looking for...

00:13:32.680 What's the reason?

00:13:34.840 Why I've never been in a relationship?

00:13:37.840 Actually, I never, like, I've never found anybody who, like, I would be with.

00:13:42.280 I had, like, something...

00:13:43.160 She's 18, you know?

00:13:44.280 Yeah.

00:13:44.500 What is the longest consecutive period of time that you've continued to see somebody?

00:13:51.320 Because maybe you haven't had a boyfriend, but maybe you saw a guy for three weeks, four

00:13:55.160 weeks, something like that.

00:13:56.400 Two months.

00:13:56.840 Two months.

00:13:57.320 Okay.

00:13:57.720 All right.

00:13:57.980 Yeah.

00:13:59.500 What about you?

00:14:00.360 I'm divorced.

00:14:01.700 My longest relationship is five years, and I'm on Bumble, Hinge, and Raya.

00:14:07.820 Ooh.

00:14:08.560 Okay.

00:14:09.480 Nice.

00:14:09.660 I just love testing the apps.

00:14:11.580 It's just, like...

00:14:12.500 Okay.

00:14:13.080 Yeah.

00:14:13.480 Yeah.

00:14:14.360 How long were you married for?

00:14:16.060 Two years and a half.

00:14:17.200 Two years.

00:14:17.840 Two and a half years.

00:14:18.520 Yeah.

00:14:18.660 Okay.

00:14:19.240 And when were you divorced?

00:14:21.360 How recently?

00:14:23.040 Yeah.

00:14:23.480 We separated last summer, and we, like, finally got the papers in June.

00:14:30.580 Okay.

00:14:31.300 How long were you guys married?

00:14:33.000 Two years and a half.

00:14:34.520 Two years and a half?

00:14:35.300 Yeah.

00:14:37.760 What about you?

00:14:38.780 Sorry.

00:14:39.260 Remind me.

00:14:39.600 How old were you again?

00:14:40.680 30.

00:14:41.240 30?

00:14:41.760 Yeah.

00:14:42.660 You're doing a lot of math.

00:14:45.480 I'm trying to calculate it in my head.

00:14:47.360 I can see it.

00:14:51.260 Okay.

00:14:51.660 Go ahead.

00:14:51.840 So, I'm actually in a relationship.

00:14:53.980 It's my only relationship ever, and my longest as well, because we've been together for four

00:14:57.920 years.

00:14:59.460 We did break up, like, twice, but we're going strong right now, so that's nice.

00:15:04.260 Woo! 0.99

00:15:04.860 Okay.

00:15:06.780 I'm single.

00:15:08.780 I've never had a relationship before.

00:15:14.860 I'm...

00:15:15.340 Wait.

00:15:16.040 Yeah.

00:15:16.580 I'm on Tinder.

00:15:17.620 I'm on Seeking.

00:15:19.200 You're on Seeking?

00:15:19.940 I am.

00:15:20.460 Have you...

00:15:21.080 I haven't met anyone.

00:15:22.200 They're kind of weird.

00:15:22.980 Have you gotten any money?

00:15:25.400 Yeah.

00:15:26.440 For what?

00:15:29.020 For doing God's work.

00:15:29.740 Into the mic?

00:15:31.980 Into the mic.

00:15:32.640 Into the mic.

00:15:32.920 Do I have to say?

00:15:34.720 Nudes?

00:15:35.980 Is it nudes?

00:15:37.740 Madison, you did God's work.

00:15:39.260 Let's just say that.

00:15:40.220 Yeah.

00:15:40.540 Come on.

00:15:41.280 Come on.

00:15:41.320 These men were going to themselves if you didn't.

00:15:44.720 No.

00:15:45.460 That's true.

00:15:47.440 I don't even know.

00:15:48.480 Okay.

00:15:48.880 Well, you don't have to say.

00:15:50.020 You don't have to say, I guess.

00:15:51.080 But we'll just assume it wasn't just feet pics.

00:15:54.620 It could have been feet pics.

00:15:55.440 It could have just been feet pics.

00:15:56.840 I don't know why you'd be hiding that.

00:15:58.840 Was it feet pics?

00:16:00.740 No.

00:16:00.960 It's probably worse.

00:16:01.660 It's probably worse than feet pics.

00:16:03.000 It's probably worse.

00:16:04.700 So you get a kick out of this.

00:16:07.120 I'm currently in a relationship.

00:16:09.940 Are you back with?

00:16:11.640 With Morgan, yes.

00:16:13.040 Woo! 0.99

00:16:14.340 We love Morgan!

00:16:16.920 Brian's life.

00:16:18.260 It's Brian's life.

00:16:19.000 I mean.

00:16:20.500 No, I mean.

00:16:21.240 I was.

00:16:22.060 People break up.

00:16:23.500 They get back together.

00:16:24.540 Bud's.

00:16:24.840 Yeah.

00:16:25.480 You broke up.

00:16:26.860 You're back together.

00:16:27.780 Exactly.

00:16:28.380 Longer's relationship is still only two years.

00:16:30.440 She's a sweet girl.

00:16:31.380 So.

00:16:31.920 We're actually gone.

00:16:32.840 We're about to be the longest relationship I've had after February.

00:16:37.740 City boys?

00:16:38.820 No, not city boys.

00:16:40.020 I'm a retired city boy.

00:16:41.240 Well, you used to be a city boy.

00:16:42.520 Retired city boy.

00:16:43.440 Cool, cool, cool.

00:16:44.460 All right.

00:16:44.940 Let me get these super chats, and then we'll get into our first topics for the show.

00:16:48.640 Wow.

00:16:49.200 Dude, guys.

00:16:49.720 Thank you so much for the support.

00:16:50.680 You guys are blasting the super chats.

00:16:52.140 So we got quite a few here.

00:16:53.600 Just a reminder, guys.

00:16:54.520 All super chats will be displayed in Stream Overlay.

00:16:56.620 I will read and answer super chats.

00:16:58.420 $10 and up.

00:16:59.720 Okay.

00:17:00.140 So we have this guy.

00:17:01.260 At what age would you get married, start family?

00:17:04.820 We'll go around the table really quick on this.

00:17:06.600 If you just want to give what age you'd get married and have kids.

00:17:10.180 Go ahead.

00:17:15.160 I'm not sure.

00:17:16.900 Maybe around 30.

00:17:19.920 Maybe 28.

00:17:22.500 Seems like a good age.

00:17:23.440 Maybe in the median, 29.

00:17:25.420 How about you?

00:17:26.560 Same.

00:17:27.220 30.

00:17:27.820 Seems like a good age.

00:17:28.600 It's a good age.

00:17:29.660 30?

00:17:30.240 Yeah.

00:17:30.800 And you're 28 now, right?

00:17:33.000 No, I'm 26.

00:17:34.020 26.

00:17:34.400 Oh, okay.

00:17:34.800 You got time.

00:17:35.900 Go ahead.

00:17:36.620 I don't know.

00:17:37.120 I don't think marriage is something for me.

00:17:40.000 I don't really see myself in a marriage.

00:17:42.780 You don't see yourself in a marriage?

00:17:44.220 No.

00:17:44.680 What about kids?

00:17:46.300 Even kids.

00:17:47.220 It's like, I don't want to sound like that, but like, I don't really see that the world

00:17:51.880 is like a good place to birth children right now.

00:17:55.140 Like, you don't really see like any future.

00:17:57.280 Like, not a good future.

00:17:59.720 Yeah.

00:18:00.060 I'm sorry.

00:18:00.900 That's what it is.

00:18:02.040 Eric, can you boost the audio on the keyboard just a little bit?

00:18:05.800 So you're, yeah, just boost it to 90.

00:18:08.380 It's really low for some reason.

00:18:09.420 Um, so you don't want to have kids because why?

00:18:14.420 There's like no safety.

00:18:16.660 I don't know.

00:18:17.180 I don't really see like, if you see like climate change and all of the things that are happening

00:18:22.180 right now, I don't really see like a good world in the future.

00:18:25.940 So I don't really know if I really want to put kids when I don't really like guarantee

00:18:32.340 a good future for them.

00:18:33.800 You know?

00:18:34.500 What if you could guarantee a good future for your kids?

00:18:37.440 Depends on if I find a good partner.

00:18:41.020 Like, I want a stable, maybe like a stable relationship and like stability in my life.

00:18:46.460 So then maybe, yeah.

00:18:48.440 I mean, you're young, you're 18.

00:18:50.320 So exactly.

00:18:51.260 Like why?

00:18:52.000 I don't really think about having kids right now.

00:18:54.820 Yeah.

00:18:55.180 But I mean, you can, you certainly, you might not want to have kids now or anytime in the

00:18:59.140 foreseeable future, but perhaps maybe in your mid to late twenties, you think it's could

00:19:06.560 change.

00:19:06.900 Yeah, it could change definitely, but it really depends on how the future is going to look

00:19:11.480 like really.

00:19:12.480 And so your, your primary concern is, is it environmental concerns?

00:19:16.620 Yeah, definitely.

00:19:17.560 Definitely.

00:19:18.620 I, uh, environmental problems and like climate change and politics.

00:19:23.820 Like, I don't know, I don't see really a good stability, like stable, um, society right now.

00:19:33.040 I feel like there's going to be something, I don't know.

00:19:38.120 Do you think it on an individual level in terms of the environment, you think on an individual

00:19:43.340 level, we should take action at an individual level?

00:19:47.060 How many times am I going to repeat myself, um, to reduce our impact?

00:19:52.820 I think that's a really good question to ask because like most of the, uh, like most of

00:19:59.680 the CO2 in the year is like produced by big, big, um, um, yeah, brands and, uh, only politics

00:20:08.760 actually can do a lot or change a lot.

00:20:11.200 So obviously you should think about your CO2 footprint, print, but like you should definitely

00:20:18.140 go vote, like vote for good parties that care about the environment and care about, um, the

00:20:25.740 global climate change because they're the ones in power and they are the ones that can change

00:20:31.220 anything.

00:20:32.480 Okay.

00:20:33.620 Beautiful.

00:20:34.900 Uh, what age would you like to start a family?

00:20:37.620 Um, I mean, you kind of already, do you have a kid?

00:20:40.300 No, no, no, no.

00:20:41.280 Okay.

00:20:41.760 But I got married.

00:20:42.540 You were married.

00:20:43.180 Yeah.

00:20:43.680 When I was 27.

00:20:45.120 What's that?

00:20:45.720 When I was 27.

00:20:46.680 Would you like to get married again?

00:20:47.740 Or do you think you've had enough of men?

00:20:50.940 I think I had enough for the next, like, I don't know, five years, but then I think I

00:20:56.700 would like to get married.

00:20:57.760 That, that only depends on the partner though.

00:21:00.140 Do you want kids?

00:21:01.140 No.

00:21:02.460 And you're pretty set on that?

00:21:06.200 Yeah.

00:21:06.640 I think if I find the right person, it's there, yeah, it's just like a lot to think

00:21:12.700 about with like pandemic, the same thing.

00:21:15.060 What about you?

00:21:15.720 I'm going to say like around 30 as well, but if it feels right to do it earlier or later,

00:21:22.160 then earlier or later.

00:21:23.860 Sure.

00:21:24.620 Madison.

00:21:25.480 Probably like 25.

00:21:27.240 25.

00:21:27.980 Okay.

00:21:28.440 Getting started early.

00:21:30.180 Uh, Tristan, go ahead.

00:21:31.080 Um, I feel like most guys, like for the most part, from what I've heard, they are not really

00:21:37.140 willing to get married as much as girls. 0.93

00:21:39.280 Girls are always like, that's like, they always dream of like the marriage part, you 1.00

00:21:43.180 know?

00:21:43.740 I, I don't think I want to have like, you know, a legal, have to like go through a legal

00:21:49.760 route to get married.

00:21:50.660 Yeah.

00:21:50.820 At one point, if I do find, you know, the right person that is, you know, something I

00:21:55.820 could do on my own without having to go the legal way.

00:21:58.080 Yeah, exactly.

00:21:58.820 I mean, I want to hear your take on this because, I mean, you've been married.

00:22:02.000 Do you really think that you need?

00:22:03.160 We got to move on.

00:22:04.340 Just, we got a lot of super chats.

00:22:05.360 I don't think I needed to.

00:22:06.940 But, uh, all right.

00:22:07.820 We got, uh, by the way, just reminder, $10 and up for the super chats.

00:22:11.480 Uh, Flan Life with the Canadian $10.

00:22:13.240 Thank you, man.

00:22:13.580 Appreciate it.

00:22:14.640 Kiki, do you love me?

00:22:17.320 It will.

00:22:18.320 No.

00:22:19.240 Whoa.

00:22:20.000 Sorry.

00:22:20.520 I guess.

00:22:21.580 I guess.

00:22:23.980 Whose voice is that?

00:22:25.920 That, I, I don't, that's Kiki's voice.

00:22:28.820 Of course.

00:22:30.100 Thank you, Flan Life.

00:22:30.940 Appreciate it.

00:22:31.440 By the way, Flan Life, I think you gifted some subs, but, or gifted memberships.

00:22:35.620 20 gifted, I think.

00:22:37.080 Hold on.

00:22:37.420 What's the trigger on that?

00:22:38.860 Um, for some reason, StreamYard will not show when people gift memberships.

00:22:44.100 So, hold on.

00:22:45.280 Let me get this.

00:22:45.960 We got, yo, Flan Life.

00:22:49.180 Thank you for the gifted memberships.

00:22:50.320 Appreciate it, man.

00:22:51.420 Um, okay.

00:22:52.160 So, we have, let's see here.

00:22:53.860 We got Pollux. 0.97

00:22:56.960 Thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

00:22:58.360 Appreciate it.

00:22:58.820 Bri, I want the first asteroid of 2023.

00:23:00.900 Welcome back.

00:23:01.460 Sing your stuff on MHD and other channels.

00:23:03.440 Jim.

00:23:04.060 Hey, Jim.

00:23:04.540 Really appreciate the support, man.

00:23:06.840 And I got you.

00:23:09.780 Send the asteroid, boys.

00:23:11.500 Send the asteroid.

00:23:12.300 That's so funny.

00:23:13.660 Boom.

00:23:14.120 Asteroid sent.

00:23:15.260 Okay.

00:23:15.900 Bro, I'm dying.

00:23:17.900 I need to, I need to find a, uh, a, a, one that, like, someone does a, uh, like a green

00:23:25.060 screen one where we actually see it coming from, like, outside.

00:23:28.440 I don't know if there's any, uh, visual effects people that could do something like that, but

00:23:32.480 I don't know.

00:23:33.480 Anyways.

00:23:34.040 Yo, Flan Life, thank you for the big $200 Canadian super chat.

00:23:40.040 Oops, wrong one.

00:23:41.920 Boom.

00:23:42.300 Yo, this is for the storm recovery.

00:23:45.280 Dude, thank you so much, man.

00:23:46.380 I really appreciate the support.

00:23:47.840 Um, it was good to talk.

00:23:49.880 Well, we didn't really communicate too much back and forth, but I got your email.

00:23:54.020 Um, it was good to hear from you over the, uh, break and, uh, thank you, man.

00:23:58.360 Yeah.

00:23:58.460 The storm wasn't, it was a nightmare, especially for scheduling the show, but really appreciate

00:24:02.080 your support, man.

00:24:02.640 Good to see you back.

00:24:03.860 Yo, we got Michael.

00:24:05.600 Tell me how I, how I pronounce your name, man.

00:24:07.320 I'm not sure.

00:24:08.200 Michael Metroke, Metroke, Metroke the fourth.

00:24:13.000 Wow.

00:24:13.400 The fourth.

00:24:14.120 That's impressive.

00:24:14.700 Uh, thank you for the $10 soup chat, man.

00:24:16.460 Um, good to see you, whatever and fresh and fit need to unite.

00:24:19.980 I'd love to, uh, get on their show or have them come here.

00:24:22.420 I'd love to see Myron on the panel with California girls.

00:24:26.020 Cause I mean, they're, it's kind of all the same all over the place, but obviously the,

00:24:31.480 their demographic is slightly different in terms of the girls in Miami versus the girls 0.93

00:24:35.820 here in Southern California.

00:24:36.880 So, uh, would love to collaborate with them.

00:24:40.280 Love their, uh, show, obviously big inspiration.

00:24:43.260 Um, let's get you, uh, modded up, Michael.

00:24:46.120 Um, Eric, do you know how to mod?

00:24:48.580 No.

00:24:48.900 Um, in the pop out chat, can you, um, if you can, uh, it might be tough to find him,

00:24:55.720 but, uh, Michael, if you can comment again and wait, let me see if I can, I might be able

00:25:01.200 to do, I'll do it on my end, Eric.

00:25:02.540 Um, but I'm going to try to get you mod if you can do, oh, there she goes.

00:25:07.380 Okay.

00:25:09.760 And, uh, let's see here.

00:25:12.800 I can do it.

00:25:14.040 I, you got it.

00:25:15.780 Yeah, just add mod.

00:25:18.940 And, uh, yeah, welcome to the family, Michael.

00:25:21.580 Appreciate it.

00:25:22.280 Um, all right, let's see here, dude, you guys are blowing up the soup chats. 0.87

00:25:26.520 Really appreciate the support.

00:25:27.640 I'm overwhelmed.

00:25:28.220 Um, oh, Mike Davis weeks off and you put together this pack of misfits for

00:25:32.520 your return to chicks with dyed hair and kitty and cat.

00:25:36.540 I think Brian set this panel up in order of normalcy from left to right.

00:25:39.860 Major L.

00:25:42.720 Yeah.

00:25:43.320 Um, good to see you back.

00:25:44.680 Mike Davis, Eric, can you pull up that photo of, uh, Mr.

00:25:47.420 Mike Davis?

00:25:48.600 That was pretty nice for Mike Davis.

00:25:51.940 Boom.

00:25:52.820 If you guys don't know, Mike Davis is a proprietor of numerous Burger King

00:25:57.420 restaurants on the East coast and, uh, a big patron.

00:26:02.520 Of the podcast.

00:26:04.540 So Mike Davis, thank you very much.

00:26:06.960 And, uh, yeah, you know, we've got some colorful hair, uh, on the show.

00:26:10.720 Definitely.

00:26:11.260 Definitely.

00:26:11.980 We were rigid.

00:26:12.560 We were going to have like two or three other girls, but because of the

00:26:15.860 storms, people, uh, weren't able to make it.

00:26:19.020 So thank you, man.

00:26:20.260 Appreciate it.

00:26:20.860 Excel self with the $10 soup chat.

00:26:22.440 One of them is giving me sociopath vibes.

00:26:24.620 I'm assuming you're talking about the girl who's in the bathroom right now. 0.98

00:26:27.900 So, oh, she's coming.

00:26:29.840 She's coming back.

00:26:31.060 Y'all talking about me?

00:26:32.420 She's coming.

00:26:33.060 Yeah.

00:26:33.260 We're talking about you.

00:26:34.240 Hello.

00:26:34.940 Um, Excel self says one of them is giving me sociopath vibes.

00:26:39.240 I believe he's referring to you.

00:26:41.020 Do you have a response to Excel self?

00:26:43.360 I'm not a sociopath.

00:26:45.060 Okay.

00:26:45.500 It, uh, I guess you got, period, slay, sorry.

00:26:49.380 What do you want me to say to that?

00:26:50.580 Do you want me to convince you that I'm not?

00:26:52.580 Well, I mean, you could roast him back.

00:26:54.960 What does he look like?

00:26:55.660 Let's see.

00:26:56.480 Y'all, should we roast him?

00:26:58.280 What does he look like?

00:27:01.200 I mean, it's on the screen.

00:27:04.720 Um, Excel self.

00:27:07.540 Uh, you look like the guy at a high school party who has a backpack.

00:27:13.320 Who is selling drugs to high schoolers.

00:27:17.180 That's what you look like.

00:27:18.020 Oh.

00:27:18.460 Period.

00:27:18.840 Wow.

00:27:20.260 I'm trying to look.

00:27:22.300 Does he not, y'all?

00:27:23.060 That wasn't very holy of you.

00:27:24.300 He does, actually.

00:27:24.900 Wow.

00:27:25.580 I'm a woman of God and God is honest.

00:27:28.440 All right.

00:27:29.600 Okay.

00:27:30.220 We have Northern Lights with the $10 soup chat.

00:27:32.480 Thank you, man.

00:27:32.780 Appreciate it.

00:27:33.560 General question for all of you.

00:27:35.220 Are high school relationships worth it?

00:27:37.040 Is it worth having the experience?

00:27:40.480 Um, uh, I mean.

00:27:45.540 Yes, I think so.

00:27:47.260 I think relationships in high school could be beautiful, but when it stretches a little

00:27:52.360 past high school, then it's, um, just needs a little bit more maturity, but they can be

00:27:58.760 beautiful.

00:27:59.860 Yeah.

00:28:00.500 Yeah.

00:28:01.120 Whatever state of mind you're at, you can express love.

00:28:06.380 Word.

00:28:06.820 Oh, wait.

00:28:09.040 Can we, could be just like, okay.

00:28:10.300 Go around.

00:28:10.900 I'd say like, I mean, it's not necessary.

00:28:13.780 I mean, I had no relationship, so like, and I had a really good experience, but still like,

00:28:20.220 go ahead if you want a relationship.

00:28:22.740 Do the first step, man.

00:28:24.540 I was watching this documentary that was saying that we only fall in love at the same time,

00:28:29.700 like biologically until we're 25 years old.

00:28:34.040 So after that, it doesn't feel that great anymore.

00:28:38.960 So maybe you should think about falling in love.

00:28:41.340 What doesn't feel that great anymore?

00:28:42.940 Like falling in love.

00:28:44.140 It's not the same.

00:28:45.040 You don't get the same amount of pain or things.

00:28:47.920 After an age?

00:28:48.500 It's true.

00:28:49.260 Yeah.

00:28:49.560 She's, it's true.

00:28:50.760 Why?

00:28:51.240 Why would you say that?

00:28:52.140 That's sad.

00:28:52.880 I'm smart.

00:28:53.920 I wasn't watching the documentary.

00:28:55.620 Think of it like this.

00:28:56.600 Think of it like this.

00:28:57.680 If you've been in love 10 times, gee, I don't know how that happens, but you've been in

00:29:03.520 love with 10 different people.

00:29:05.680 You think number 11 is going to be particularly special.

00:29:10.140 I think so.

00:29:11.200 Yeah.

00:29:11.740 You know, I think everything, everybody has like, every relationship has like, they

00:29:16.500 differences and therefore like, yeah, you can find yourself loving something new.

00:29:21.440 I think you can even fall in love with 60 years old.

00:29:24.460 Like, where's the plan?

00:29:25.620 You're bringing way too much baggage and trauma to the next relationship.

00:29:29.960 Like, wait, you're going to go to therapy, man.

00:29:33.960 You think that people can't heal and move on?

00:29:36.560 Yeah, exactly.

00:29:37.560 No, but like, heal, there's, there's also like, they can't do that.

00:29:40.320 It's not even just healing.

00:29:41.440 There's like, there's, if someone truly messes someone up, like if you, if you cheat on someone

00:29:47.240 and that person will forever have that baggage, there's no, there's no amount of healing

00:29:51.440 that's going to like, take that like thought in their back of their head now that

00:29:54.100 they're like, are you speaking for everyone or just yourself?

00:29:56.840 No, I'm speaking for people.

00:29:58.260 I personally know that have been cheating on and then they're like now have trust issues

00:30:02.260 with the people that they end up getting with later on.

00:30:05.220 You know, it's just like, they can heal to a certain amount, but that's always going to

00:30:08.140 be in the back of their head.

00:30:09.220 You can work with therapy for them.

00:30:11.020 Yeah.

00:30:11.440 I mean, therapy will help for sure.

00:30:13.680 But if you've been in 10 relationships and they all ended for sure, there's been something

00:30:19.220 that messes up those 10 relationships, I could stick with you.

00:30:24.600 Oh, by the way, Eric, when I asked if there was a bit of a stutter or a issue with the

00:30:29.760 frame FPS, do you remember what people were spamming in the chat?

00:30:34.760 I said it looked good.

00:30:36.020 They said it looked good.

00:30:36.460 It looked okay?

00:30:37.080 Okay, cool, cool.

00:30:37.740 Just wanted to make sure.

00:30:38.860 Here it looks a little.

00:30:39.780 Yeah, sorry, our monitor for some reason is like, when I'm moving my hand, it looks

00:30:44.420 like it's lagging.

00:30:45.700 Anyways, but whatever studio, technical issues.

00:30:49.740 Okay, so let's see, we have, did you guys want to give your take on the high school relationship?

00:30:58.280 I would like to give my take.

00:30:59.820 Oh, I thought you did already.

00:31:03.160 Well, I would like to elaborate.

00:31:04.740 I thought my high school relationship was good because it showed me what I liked and

00:31:10.380 what I didn't like really early on in life.

00:31:13.020 So I see people my age going through these issues that I went through in high school.

00:31:18.640 And it seems like it would be a little bit more convenient to go through it when you had

00:31:23.260 like resources to, you know, give your emotions to this person through your parents.

00:31:28.060 Because maybe coming into that issue later on in life, you won't have those resources.

00:31:32.660 So learning earlier is always better.

00:31:35.920 Yeah.

00:31:36.720 I think, I mean, the advice I would give, for example, young guys in high school is don't

00:31:42.900 try to be a player in high school.

00:31:44.500 Wait until college if you're going to be a player.

00:31:46.500 Just get a girlfriend in high school and then break up with her once you go to college

00:31:51.160 because, you know.

00:31:53.520 Anyways.

00:31:55.560 Why do you say that, though?

00:31:57.300 You don't want to be a player in high school.

00:32:00.280 Why not?

00:32:00.580 But be a player in college.

00:32:02.200 Do you speak from experience?

00:32:04.860 I don't know.

00:32:06.020 Brian was a player.

00:32:07.900 Yeah.

00:32:08.800 Listen.

00:32:09.920 Just like, I'm a man of God.

00:32:12.560 So, you know, I'm.

00:32:13.780 Wait.

00:32:14.200 So let's say you are happy in high school.

00:32:17.020 Then you're going to break up anyway because of college.

00:32:19.800 Why?

00:32:20.980 What's that?

00:32:21.560 Like, if you are happy with your girlfriend in high school, then you're going to break

00:32:25.140 up anyway before going to college?

00:32:26.820 Obviously, if you're happy, you stay with her.

00:32:28.700 But, like, you shouldn't be trying to pimp in high school.

00:32:33.080 Okay.

00:32:33.540 That's what I think.

00:32:34.320 Like, just get a relationship.

00:32:35.780 Figure out, like.

00:32:36.780 What do you mean by pimp, though?

00:32:37.940 Like, not mess around with a lot of girls?

00:32:40.040 Just don't, like, be running through.

00:32:40.880 Like, can you even.

00:32:42.340 I guess some guys can.

00:32:43.320 I don't know.

00:32:44.460 I don't know.

00:32:45.100 I take it as, like, if you're in a relationship all of high school, you're taking the experience

00:32:49.720 route with the relationship.

00:32:50.940 So you'll be.

00:32:51.640 You'll kind of see how relationships are for later on.

00:32:54.000 But you're also missing out on other experiences.

00:32:56.320 Like, you know, experimenting, talking to other people if you're stuck with that one person

00:33:00.420 in high school.

00:33:01.500 Like, just speaking from, like, experience.

00:33:03.480 From being in a relationship.

00:33:04.260 Like, a long relationship in high school.

00:33:06.300 I, looking back at it, I wish I never was in it.

00:33:08.800 Yeah.

00:33:09.080 Are you serious, Tristan?

00:33:09.820 I really do.

00:33:11.120 Really?

00:33:11.780 No, I seriously do.

00:33:12.660 That's what Uzi says.

00:33:13.740 He goes, like, I love that girl too much.

00:33:15.260 I wish I never met her.

00:33:16.540 What?

00:33:16.980 Who says that?

00:33:17.660 Uzi. 0.83

00:33:18.440 Uzi. 0.83

00:33:18.860 Uzi. 0.83

00:33:19.560 Uzi, wake up. 1.00

00:33:21.480 Yeah, he goes, like, I love that girl too much.

00:33:23.120 I wish I never met her.

00:33:24.140 Lil Uzi.

00:33:24.960 Oh, Lil Uzi.

00:33:26.060 Does that make sense to you now, Tristan?

00:33:27.500 Are you like, oh, I feel him.

00:33:28.720 No, but not even that. 0.85

00:33:29.760 She was just batshit crazy. 0.95

00:33:31.260 Oh, okay. 0.95

00:33:31.840 Well, that's different.

00:33:32.760 I thought you meant, like, you like it too much.

00:33:34.180 I'm sorry.

00:33:34.720 You can get it back or something.

00:33:35.960 Lil Uzi?

00:33:36.380 Lil Uzi, like, Lil Uzi, like, I just want to rock.

00:33:39.020 Lil Uzi was that guy. 0.96

00:33:40.520 Girl, don't play that sound. 1.00

00:33:41.780 You don't know who Lil Uzi Vert is? 1.00

00:33:44.200 Me neither.

00:33:44.700 I listen to 90s and early 2000s pop punk and grunge music.

00:33:51.720 I'll take that back.

00:33:52.340 I don't know why I said it like that, but I'm just surprised.

00:33:54.680 Anyways, moving on here.

00:33:56.120 Okay, so let's see.

00:33:57.240 We have, yo, Flan Life with the big 50 Canadian dollar soup chat.

00:34:03.620 Woohoo! 1.00

00:34:03.700 Let's do it, boys.

00:34:05.140 Appreciate it, man.

00:34:05.760 Which parent is hardest to impress when you're introducing your significant other to them?

00:34:10.960 The dad.

00:34:11.380 I think the dad.

00:34:12.140 Yeah.

00:34:12.420 Yeah.

00:34:12.920 For sure.

00:34:13.620 The dad, for sure.

00:34:15.280 Wait, which parent is...

00:34:15.920 Especially when you're, like, a girl because they're kind of protective.

00:34:19.400 Yeah.

00:34:20.620 Are we talking about for boys or girls?

00:34:21.860 Yeah, I guess it depends.

00:34:23.300 Yeah, it depends.

00:34:23.960 I would say if you're, like, meeting your boyfriend's parents, it would be the mom.

00:34:27.460 Probably the mom, I think.

00:34:28.540 Oh, yeah.

00:34:28.620 But for the guy, meeting the girlfriend's parents, yeah, it's for sure the dad.

00:34:33.880 Just the opposite sex. 1.00

00:34:35.300 Yeah.

00:34:35.760 Yeah.

00:34:36.500 So, although there, I mean, there's a lot of single parents out there.

00:34:42.880 So, anyways, Flan Life, thank you for the Canadian $10 man.

00:34:45.680 Appreciate it.

00:34:46.820 The Tick with the $10 soup chat.

00:34:48.220 Would you delete your Insta for the correct man?

00:34:50.060 This is a good question.

00:34:51.000 For a serious relationship, or would you continue devaluing your values in your teens for a

00:34:56.500 so-called hoe phase? 0.94

00:34:59.220 Okay.

00:34:59.880 Would you delete your Insta for the correct man for a serious relationship?

00:35:04.320 Okay.

00:35:04.560 Yeah, we'll ask that.

00:35:06.000 So, starting here.

00:35:08.580 Would you delete your Instagram?

00:35:10.760 Or maybe I could frame it.

00:35:12.940 I don't have, like, Instagram besides my surf account.

00:35:16.580 Okay, so Instagram or marriageable man?

00:35:23.440 I have no value in my Instagram, so I guess marriageable man by default.

00:35:27.420 Okay.

00:35:27.800 Yeah.

00:35:28.020 What about you?

00:35:28.580 I would never delete it.

00:35:29.680 You would never delete your Instagram?

00:35:31.200 No.

00:35:31.400 Why?

00:35:32.620 Let's say you meet the perfect guy.

00:35:34.940 The perfect guy would, you wouldn't have to do that.

00:35:38.140 Yeah, exactly.

00:35:38.880 Period.

00:35:40.940 So.

00:35:41.520 That comes from insecurity.

00:35:43.120 Yes.

00:35:43.440 Yes.

00:35:43.840 Yes.

00:35:44.040 Does it, though?

00:35:45.580 Yes, it does.

00:35:46.760 It does.

00:35:47.200 It does.

00:35:47.640 No.

00:35:47.980 I think so.

00:35:48.960 Why would you ask somebody to delete their Instagram?

00:35:51.740 I've had.

00:35:52.140 Like, for what?

00:35:53.580 So, the question is, why should someone, why would a guy want a girl to either delete their

00:36:00.020 Instagram or maybe a bit on the lower end go private or maybe not post revealing photos?

00:36:05.380 Yeah, I don't really get the concept.

00:36:05.880 They should be proud.

00:36:07.520 Proud?

00:36:08.020 Yeah, if I post a bikini pic, they should be proud.

00:36:09.540 The guy should be proud.

00:36:10.560 Well, you need context.

00:36:11.700 If the girl's posting some, like, very.

00:36:13.480 I mean, you should be proud, because at the end of the day, he is the guy I'm in a relationship

00:36:20.000 with.

00:36:20.240 Yeah, I'm not interested with anyone else.

00:36:21.820 You should be proud.

00:36:22.540 No, no, but, like, what type of photos are on that Instagram?

00:36:25.260 That's the question.

00:36:25.960 Sorry.

00:36:26.380 Well, why are you assuming that all girls post photos that are. 0.94

00:36:29.060 No, no, no.

00:36:29.420 I'm not saying that.

00:36:30.180 I'm saying what.

00:36:30.840 Exactly.

00:36:31.260 That's why I'm asking.

00:36:31.940 And Instagram doesn't entail that you post, like, provocative photos.

00:36:34.460 Yeah, but what if, what if this Instagram, we're saying, hypothetically, does have provocative

00:36:38.580 photos?

00:36:39.580 Would, would you stop posting?

00:36:40.900 Then you signed up for it.

00:36:42.020 Yeah, okay, okay.

00:36:42.820 If you go into a relationship and you meet the girl, she's posting like that, I feel like that's

00:36:46.480 an argument you can make, you know, obviously, because you met her like that.

00:36:49.300 You know, that's the girl that you're trying to get at. 0.98

00:36:51.200 Personally, if a girl is posting like provocative stuff like that, I probably wouldn't be looking 0.98

00:36:55.100 to be in a relationship with that.

00:36:56.680 So, I wouldn't even have that argument.

00:36:58.680 But, if you did have to like take it down, you say he's insecure if he would try to make

00:37:04.000 you take it down, right?

00:37:05.780 Okay, I'll, let me.

00:37:07.420 But that also depends on their profession, right?

00:37:10.220 Their occupation.

00:37:10.840 If they are an influencer and they have a now chance, whatever, whatever.

00:37:14.440 Yeah, if they have a couple models on set, like they have to post that.

00:37:17.400 Yeah.

00:37:17.620 But most girls are not models.

00:37:20.860 Okay.

00:37:21.380 That have an Instagram.

00:37:22.780 Can I ask like why you're bothered by them posting that?

00:37:27.560 Well, I didn't say that.

00:37:29.140 The question, the super chat is asking that.

00:37:32.080 But I can sort of tell you why the framework for why guys kind of have an issue when it

00:37:38.740 comes to a girl's Instagram.

00:37:40.620 Let me ask you guys a question.

00:37:42.600 How many DMs do you guys get from guys where it's clear they're trying to hit you up?

00:37:49.000 It doesn't matter.

00:37:50.180 I don't get any DMs.

00:37:50.820 Well, answer the question.

00:37:52.080 Answer the question.

00:37:53.260 Definitely a lot, but I mean.

00:37:55.180 Okay.

00:37:55.780 Definitely a lot.

00:37:56.500 So, how many.

00:37:58.720 But do I answer them?

00:37:59.640 No.

00:37:59.920 Sure, but how many would you say you get in a day or a week?

00:38:04.880 I don't know, like maybe in a week.

00:38:07.340 20, 30.

00:38:08.840 20 or 30.

00:38:10.000 Okay.

00:38:11.400 You're not really on Instagram.

00:38:12.920 So, what about you?

00:38:13.640 Do you get any DMs from guys on Instagram?

00:38:16.020 Yeah, but I'm private, so I don't really get a lot.

00:38:17.960 Okay, private.

00:38:18.460 Yeah, less likely to DM you.

00:38:19.820 What about you?

00:38:20.580 Any DM?

00:38:21.320 One a day.

00:38:22.500 One a day?

00:38:23.260 Yeah.

00:38:23.660 Okay.

00:38:23.960 What about you?

00:38:24.940 I do get some.

00:38:26.600 Not that many because my relationship is pretty.

00:38:29.460 Oh, you're, yeah, sorry, you're in a relationship, yeah.

00:38:32.940 But even in a relationship, you are getting DMed.

00:38:35.000 Yeah, they still do.

00:38:35.900 Okay, Madison, what about you?

00:38:37.160 They're like, ooh, everything can get ruined.

00:38:40.440 Madison, do you get DMs?

00:38:41.580 Yeah, I get some.

00:38:42.580 How many per day or week?

00:38:45.360 Not that many.

00:38:46.880 A little louder?

00:38:47.860 Not that many.

00:38:49.240 Yeah, I want you to yell.

00:38:50.500 Number.

00:38:51.000 I don't know, I don't like two a day.

00:38:54.840 Two a day?

00:38:55.720 That's a lot.

00:38:56.500 Okay.

00:38:58.140 That's how many DMs a guy might get in his entire life.

00:39:03.940 Two DMs in his entire life.

00:39:06.160 So you're getting this degree of attention that, like a normal girl,

00:39:12.260 the attention she gets on Instagram is the equivalent of, like, an A-list celebrity.

00:39:17.840 Do you realize the, like, a male A-list celebrity, do you realize the amount of options and leverage

00:39:26.500 you guys have just off of your Instagram, not even counting dating apps and all this stuff?

00:39:31.560 But, like, it's not a competition, right?

00:39:34.120 Yeah.

00:39:34.280 Like, why would you be threatened by the amount of DMs?

00:39:36.600 If I'm in a relationship with it again.

00:39:38.100 I got a follow-up question.

00:39:39.000 I got a follow-up question.

00:39:39.800 Has a guy with a blue checkmark, someone who's verified on Instagram, ever DMed you?

00:39:45.920 Of course.

00:39:48.640 Okay.

00:39:49.040 Baby Keem and Tom Anderson.

00:39:50.720 Oh, you're-

00:39:51.120 And DMs do not discriminate.

00:39:52.520 Isn't the Tom Anderson, the guy from MySpace?

00:39:55.220 He DMed you. 1.00

00:39:55.880 He DMed you. 1.00

00:39:56.400 My, wait.

00:39:57.760 What?

00:39:59.140 Yo, what?

00:40:01.300 It's a couple times, actually.

00:40:04.520 Hold on.

00:40:05.200 That is so funny.

00:40:05.780 MySpace Tom.

00:40:07.600 Has a show of hands at the table?

00:40:09.280 Who else has been DMed by MySpace Tom?

00:40:11.180 Yeah, who is he?

00:40:11.900 You?

00:40:12.120 I feel a little betrayed now.

00:40:13.920 Wow.

00:40:14.540 It's just us?

00:40:15.280 Okay, thank God.

00:40:16.160 Two out of, like, what?

00:40:18.120 That's good.

00:40:18.880 That's fine.

00:40:19.960 So, okay.

00:40:21.140 MySpace Tom DMed you.

00:40:22.020 Who's the other guy?

00:40:23.240 Baby Keem.

00:40:24.200 Who the-

00:40:24.560 You know, we were just talking.

00:40:25.720 It's fine.

00:40:26.840 It wasn't anything. 1.00

00:40:27.980 Who the fuck is that guy? 0.99

00:40:29.820 Who is Baby Keem? 1.00

00:40:31.500 Exactly.

00:40:32.000 He's just a rapper.

00:40:33.440 Any other blue check marks?

00:40:34.920 We didn't have a blue check, though.

00:40:35.180 Any other blue check marks, or is that it?

00:40:36.980 Not that I can think of.

00:40:37.720 Aren't you private on Instagram, too?

00:40:39.760 I do have a surf account, and that is public.

00:40:41.600 Well, the surf account, but they're DMing you.

00:40:44.640 But hold on.

00:40:45.320 When you say they DMed you, like, because you have your surf account, was it, like, for

00:40:49.900 a surfboard, or were they DMing you, like, they're interested?

00:40:53.720 They're interested.

00:40:55.600 Okay.

00:40:56.320 So, Tom also DMed you.

00:40:59.000 MySpace Tom.

00:40:59.680 Of course, she's a pretty girl, of course. 0.99

00:41:00.880 Yeah, of course.

00:41:01.520 Of course, right?

00:41:02.240 But any other verified blue check marks?

00:41:07.000 Yes.

00:41:07.180 More than 10?

00:41:09.100 Maybe around.

00:41:10.940 20?

00:41:11.900 No, less than 20.

00:41:13.100 Between 10 and 20?

00:41:14.060 Yeah.

00:41:14.380 Okay.

00:41:15.460 You don't have to say their names.

00:41:16.760 You can if you want.

00:41:18.160 What kind, like, are they musicians, athletes, actors?

00:41:23.740 Yeah, musicians.

00:41:25.940 And then, like, athletes.

00:41:27.520 Okay.

00:41:28.380 Yeah, not actors, I think, yeah.

00:41:30.820 NFL player?

00:41:32.960 No, actually.

00:41:34.140 I just click, I see, I don't know who it is, and I'm just like, whatever.

00:41:36.960 I just don't answer.

00:41:37.920 NBA player?

00:41:39.460 No.

00:41:40.580 Okay.

00:41:41.120 All right.

00:41:41.400 But you've had some athletes, some famous people DM you.

00:41:45.740 They're clearly interested in you.

00:41:47.100 Okay.

00:41:47.780 Anybody else?

00:41:48.640 Blue check marks?

00:41:50.040 Only, I'm, like, there was, like, one famous Brazilian singer, actually.

00:41:54.480 Oh, who is it?

00:41:55.260 They might know.

00:41:55.720 I totally forgot his name, but it was, like, he was actually on Tinder, and he was asking

00:42:00.480 me, but, um, I don't even know.

00:42:05.120 I don't know.

00:42:05.540 He wanted to blitzkrieg?

00:42:07.960 Um, he wanted, like, give me money if I were, like, come over and.

00:42:13.520 Drop his name right now.

00:42:14.420 How much money?

00:42:15.260 What's his name and his Instagram?

00:42:16.680 I, I really, I forgot.

00:42:18.020 If you have his address, drop that, too.

00:42:19.220 I, I, I just have my phone, but, like, I, I totally forgot his name, but he had, like,

00:42:24.040 eight million on Instagram, and he was, like, DM me.

00:42:27.860 Um.

00:42:28.720 I'm so close.

00:42:29.160 I will, I will, I will answer, but, like, are you really ready?

00:42:33.000 Like, are you ready?

00:42:33.880 And I was, like, what, what do you want me to, to, like, do?

00:42:36.720 And he was, like, yeah, I want to, like, you be, like, ready to, like, play with my,

00:42:42.620 like, fetish.

00:42:43.880 And I was, like, which fetish? 0.96

00:42:45.580 And he was, like, I want to hit you to your limit. 0.64

00:42:49.720 And I was, like.

00:42:50.420 OMG.

00:42:50.740 Was this army hammer? 1.00

00:42:51.640 What the fuck? 0.99

00:42:52.820 Uh, no. 1.00

00:42:54.240 No.

00:42:54.540 BDSM?

00:42:55.420 That's cannibalism, by the way. 0.91

00:42:56.840 Yeah.

00:42:57.560 That was, that was a cannibalism.

00:42:58.700 Okay, so, how much did he offer to pay you?

00:43:01.580 Um, I didn't ask.

00:43:03.120 I didn't further ask, because I was, like, after he said, I want to hit you to,

00:43:06.720 the limit, I was, like, uh, what?

00:43:09.600 And he just said, a lot of money.

00:43:13.920 Oh, you, did he pay you some?

00:43:15.980 No, he said, he said, I'm going to pay you a lot of money if you're going to,

00:43:19.960 like, be, like, open.

00:43:23.320 Okay.

00:43:23.820 What about you?

00:43:24.440 Blue check marks?

00:43:25.680 Um, three.

00:43:26.980 Three?

00:43:27.420 Yeah.

00:43:28.560 Musicians, actors, athletes?

00:43:30.760 Musician, actor, and producer.

00:43:34.420 What about you?

00:43:35.420 I mean, I'm not sure if they had the blue check mark, but I did get a DM from some famous

00:43:40.000 Dutch guy.

00:43:42.420 Armin van Buren?

00:43:43.780 Is he Dutch?

00:43:45.140 I think he is, yeah.

00:43:47.240 Okay.

00:43:47.760 All right.

00:43:49.640 Madison, blue check marks?

00:43:50.760 I don't think I've gotten any.

00:43:52.100 Oh, okay.

00:43:52.700 All right.

00:43:53.720 Tristan, has a girl with a blue check mark ever DM'd you?

00:43:56.900 No blue check marks, but she brought up Tinder.

00:43:59.020 You know who has tried to hit on me, or tried to get on me on Tinder?

00:44:01.880 Who?

00:44:02.000 James Charles.

00:44:03.300 Oh, my God.

00:44:04.240 He did that to a friend.

00:44:04.920 I told him I was straight.

00:44:06.480 No, because I was with these girls. 0.99

00:44:08.060 I was with these girls, and they were like, right swipe, right swipe, and it literally 0.81

00:44:10.680 says match.

00:44:11.320 I was like, bro, what the hell is he doing on the girls' side?

00:44:13.280 Be careful.

00:44:13.760 Be careful.

00:44:14.400 No, no, no, no.

00:44:15.100 This was years ago, so I literally was like, whoa, wait.

00:44:17.680 Years ago?

00:44:18.380 How old were you?

00:44:19.020 How old were you, dude?

00:44:19.780 Yeah.

00:44:20.020 Yeah, I was.

00:44:20.800 This sounds like something.

00:44:21.460 He told me you would get it.

00:44:22.440 I think I was 20.

00:44:23.360 I think I was 20 or 19.

00:44:24.180 You're not a victim.

00:44:24.840 I was 20 or 19, but I seriously think those accusations of him are for real, because I

00:44:30.940 gave the girls, like, have fun with the phone.

00:44:32.680 He's like, I want to text him.

00:44:33.840 So they started flirting with him on my Tinder account.

00:44:36.280 He was checked.

00:44:37.000 It was verified on Tinder.

00:44:38.500 Yeah. 0.99

00:44:38.680 So, like, it was hilarious just scrolling through the messages, seeing the shit that 0.99

00:44:43.020 I was saying he wanted to bring me to his house. 0.98

00:44:44.640 I'm like, bro, I got my phone back, and I was just like, dude, I'm straight.

00:44:48.560 Like, these girls are talking to you. 0.97

00:44:51.480 I believe you, because that same thing happened to my friend.

00:44:53.400 But, like, on Tinder, on your side, you can set-

00:44:57.740 Dude set himself up as a girl. 0.96

00:45:00.300 Bruv.

00:45:00.960 Oh.

00:45:01.560 That's how he gets-

00:45:02.360 That's how he gets into straight guys. 1.00

00:45:04.420 That's fucked up. 0.98

00:45:05.800 Could it have been, like, an imposter? 0.99

00:45:07.920 No, no, because they have a verification process, and his account was verified.

00:45:12.260 It's not like Twitter today, where you pay for the blue check.

00:45:14.580 Yeah.

00:45:14.860 Like, back then, it was legit.

00:45:16.240 Wait, put it on.

00:45:16.800 Oh, yeah.

00:45:17.260 Keep it here if you can.

00:45:18.120 I don't want to cover Maddie.

00:45:20.640 That's fine.

00:45:21.200 That's nice.

00:45:23.660 Are you so mean?

00:45:25.740 No, well, it's not blocking her.

00:45:27.460 Okay, so, we're going back to the whole why dudes have an issue with Instagram thing,

00:45:34.380 is, you're kind of keeping your options open.

00:45:39.940 But, what do you mean?

00:45:41.140 It doesn't matter what they're saying to you.

00:45:43.300 Do you think an A-list celebrity looks through all of their DMs?

00:45:46.200 Like, definitely not.

00:45:47.160 If you're comparing, like, a woman to an A-list celebrity, like, they definitely don't look 0.85

00:45:50.400 through all their DMs.

00:45:52.380 No, like, if she gets two a day, like, that's literally, like, 14 in a week.

00:45:58.420 That is so many to look through.

00:46:00.380 Like, no one's looking through that.

00:46:01.980 You only, if you, especially if you have a boyfriend, it's like, why are you even going

00:46:05.460 to look?

00:46:06.960 Like, do you trust in your girlfriend?

00:46:09.020 Yeah.

00:46:09.660 Because, in the history of relationships, nobody's ever cheated, ever, or ended a relationship

00:46:17.400 to maybe pursue a different partner.

00:46:20.220 That's never happening.

00:46:20.680 Okay, but receiving a DM is not, like, she can go outside, go to a coffee shop, and cheat

00:46:26.640 on you.

00:46:27.260 It's on her behavior, you know?

00:46:28.540 Let me ask you guys a question.

00:46:29.640 Okay.

00:46:30.020 Yeah, it's more about the man's judgment.

00:46:31.780 You guys are, you two are from Brazil, right?

00:46:34.060 Yeah.

00:46:36.060 Bolsonaro slides into your DMs.

00:46:37.980 Oh, my God.

00:46:39.600 Oh, yeah.

00:46:40.420 That's so, you know.

00:46:41.460 Come on.

00:46:42.940 You're going for him, right?

00:46:44.440 What?

00:46:44.960 No.

00:46:46.300 No?

00:46:46.640 Oh, okay.

00:46:47.660 I'm trying to think of him.

00:46:48.900 Okay, start with Johansson, hits on you.

00:46:51.100 You go for her, right?

00:46:52.500 Okay, hold on.

00:46:53.460 You're dating a guy who makes 70K a year.

00:46:57.620 Oh, my God.

00:46:58.220 Well, actually, I don't know.

00:47:00.420 Why, Brian?

00:47:01.700 No, I can say Drake.

00:47:02.980 Drake is, like, talented, gorgeous.

00:47:05.180 Do you answer?

00:47:06.160 Let's say you're single, right?

00:47:07.260 Okay.

00:47:07.440 Do you respond to Drake's DM?

00:47:09.060 If I'm single, yes.

00:47:10.200 If you're single, what about you?

00:47:11.340 Yeah.

00:47:12.040 Okay.

00:47:12.860 What if you've been seeing a guy for three weeks?

00:47:16.180 Do you respond to Drake's DM?

00:47:17.900 You'd be like, bro, look.

00:47:19.440 Drake's DM'd me.

00:47:20.680 I mean, three weeks.

00:47:21.760 Three weeks.

00:47:22.580 If I was seeing a girl for three weeks, I'd open Drake's message, bro.

00:47:26.480 Yeah.

00:47:26.940 I'd be like, I gotta get clapped by Drake.

00:47:28.880 I think he was a guy with his shirt.

00:47:31.640 Yeah.

00:47:32.080 Tristan said it, not me.

00:47:33.040 Tristan was like, I gotta open that DM.

00:47:34.820 Come on.

00:47:35.480 Oh, my God.

00:47:36.740 No.

00:47:37.580 Oh, that's not what you said?

00:47:39.020 Oh, hell no.

00:47:40.240 Send the asteroid.

00:47:42.440 I had this conversation with my cousin where he was like, okay, if my wife ever cheated 0.85

00:47:48.620 on me with Brad Pitt, I would be like, oh my God, like she, she was like, she had sex 0.97

00:47:54.860 with Brad Pitt and she's still married with me. 0.70

00:47:56.920 So it would be like a title of honor.

00:47:59.020 Like a triple.

00:48:00.020 Yeah.

00:48:00.480 Like a, no, just like, you know, like, okay, she can get Brad Pitt and she's with me.

00:48:05.920 Like, so he was like, that's kind of a belt, like a boxing belt, like a trophy.

00:48:12.240 I've definitely had that conversation with my girlfriend though.

00:48:14.160 Like, all right, what if, what if, what Scarlett Johansson stood in my DMs? 0.78

00:48:17.960 Like, what would you do?

00:48:18.900 Like, she was just like, no, no, she was, she, obviously I would, no, like, I still think

00:48:23.740 like you would still, in that scenario that you were saying, you still can't do anything

00:48:27.460 with them.

00:48:28.120 That's like, obviously reply to the message.

00:48:30.720 That's fine.

00:48:31.440 But like, you're not going to do anything.

00:48:33.220 I think you still got to be loyal.

00:48:34.520 Well, of course, yeah.

00:48:36.160 100%.

00:48:36.560 Yep.

00:48:39.340 Brian, what are your thoughts?

00:48:40.420 You're thinking about something.

00:48:41.340 If, if I, by the way, I'm about to use an analogy here.

00:48:46.280 Oh, no.

00:48:47.060 I'm not, I want to make something clear because I don't want to get canceled.

00:48:50.700 We live in California, California stand.

00:48:53.920 The analogy I'm about to use, I'm not trying, nobody is property, but it is an analogy to

00:49:01.280 articulate a point.

00:49:02.300 If I buy a car and the dealership says, I want to keep the for sale sign on the car,

00:49:11.300 but you own it, but we're keeping the for sale sign on the car and maybe, I'm going to 1.00

00:49:18.740 tell the dealership, fuck you. 1.00

00:49:21.660 An analogy, guys. 1.00

00:49:22.900 An analogy.

00:49:23.840 Yeah.

00:49:24.160 That's exactly the point.

00:49:25.500 A woman is not an analogy. 1.00

00:49:26.680 That's, I already prefaced, I preemptively said that.

00:49:30.360 Okay.

00:49:31.280 Yeah.

00:49:31.640 No, that's valid.

00:49:32.520 I see what he's getting at.

00:49:33.480 No, but that, that's more like if you have your Tinder still open though.

00:49:36.300 I don't think.

00:49:36.840 Yeah, I agree on that.

00:49:37.900 I agree on that.

00:49:38.500 I agree on that.

00:49:39.360 Nobody is doing that.

00:49:40.480 That's what I'm trying to say is if I was in a relationship with you, we had a conversation,

00:49:44.300 we're monogamous and you're still on Tinder.

00:49:46.780 Yeah, that's not a bad thing.

00:49:48.360 That's a problem.

00:49:49.060 That's a red flag.

00:49:50.040 Yeah.

00:49:50.080 But here's the thing, for women, Instagram is, in essence, a dating app.

00:49:55.460 No.

00:49:56.420 No.

00:49:56.720 I've never met anybody over Instagram.

00:49:58.840 Okay, Brian, explain how it is a dating app to us.

00:50:00.700 Explain it.

00:50:01.740 Most people nowadays meet online.

00:50:04.020 Instagram is a dating app.

00:50:06.060 Online.

00:50:06.560 So you cannot be online at all.

00:50:07.960 Otherwise, you're cheating on your partner.

00:50:10.000 You can't be online at all.

00:50:11.140 Brian, that means you can't be online either.

00:50:13.540 It's different.

00:50:14.920 It's different.

00:50:15.560 Brian, do you...

00:50:16.300 How is it different?

00:50:17.260 It's different.

00:50:17.620 Yeah.

00:50:17.880 Because guys don't get hit up like that.

00:50:22.220 Guys do not...

00:50:23.220 But isn't that the problem, guys?

00:50:24.700 That's making the assumption that you can follow a hundred hot girls and keep... 1.00

00:50:27.940 I mean, I'm not asking for the DMs.

00:50:29.740 I don't follow them.

00:50:30.580 Nobody's asking for that.

00:50:31.720 I don't follow anyone on Instagram.

00:50:32.960 How do we know that you're also not sliding in a girl's DM? 1.00

00:50:35.440 Yeah.

00:50:36.280 How do you know?

00:50:37.020 Yeah.

00:50:37.520 How do you know?

00:50:38.160 If you accuse your girl of doing that by saying the for sale, sign is still up.

00:50:41.960 Well, that would be overt cheating.

00:50:44.460 How do you not, you're one of the dudes who's sliding into another girl's DMs.

00:50:47.780 If it's so common.

00:50:48.860 The difference is, is that that would be me taking a very specific action.

00:50:56.240 Whereas with women, men and women flirt differently. 0.76

00:51:00.960 So a guy has to take a action, an initiative.

00:51:05.200 It could be in a bar or nightclub.

00:51:06.780 We have to approach the girl.

00:51:09.520 Whereas girls, the way you flirt, it's not by doing what guys do by sending a message or

00:51:17.000 going up to the person.

00:51:19.220 Some girls do it. 1.00

00:51:20.980 Overwhelmingly, most girls don't approach guys. 0.67

00:51:22.720 They don't send DMs.

00:51:24.200 So men and women flirt differently.

00:51:26.120 You just have to kind of be out there in the ether as a girl. 0.75

00:51:29.880 Wait, how do we flirt?

00:51:31.140 Yeah.

00:51:31.340 How do girls flirt? 1.00

00:51:31.800 You just show up.

00:51:32.720 The way that I flirt is.

00:51:33.960 That's not flirting.

00:51:35.200 It's just like leaving.

00:51:36.860 But that's how.

00:51:37.880 You flirt when you start like talking to the person and engaging.

00:51:41.380 Yeah, exactly.

00:51:42.500 You know, like if you receive like a thousand of DMs and you don't answer any, like it's

00:51:48.320 not going anywhere.

00:51:49.460 But then if you're like, oh my God, that's so nice.

00:51:51.840 Thank you for saying that for sure.

00:51:53.920 So that depends on the girl's action. 1.00

00:51:56.700 So if you're confident about your girl, that she's never going to like answer the thousand

00:52:02.120 of DMs that she's going to get.

00:52:03.760 Like it doesn't matter.

00:52:04.980 Yeah.

00:52:05.160 Like if you want to buy a house on the beach, it's going to be common that people are going

00:52:09.100 to be walking by it.

00:52:10.420 It's not the house's fault.

00:52:12.660 It's the location's fault.

00:52:16.420 I think that's like a good analogy.

00:52:19.280 If you think about it, because it's like.

00:52:20.640 The house didn't ask for all those people to walk by.

00:52:22.420 Yeah, that's exactly because the problem is not always the woman. 0.81

00:52:25.720 And that doesn't mean that people are going to like go into that house.

00:52:30.060 What does it mean?

00:52:30.760 The house is going to accept those people.

00:52:34.800 She has a pint.

00:52:36.580 She has a pint.

00:52:38.000 She has a pint.

00:52:39.080 Well, here's the thing.

00:52:40.540 I'm just trying to.

00:52:42.040 I actually, me personally, if my girl has an Instagram, I don't really care.

00:52:46.140 I don't really care.

00:52:47.020 Now, the types of photos she posts could kind of be an issue. 0.62

00:52:55.680 Look, would it be my preference if a girl I was seeing just didn't even have social media?

00:52:59.680 Sure.

00:53:01.180 But if she has it, I don't really care.

00:53:03.160 But I'm just, I'm honestly just being devil's advocate on this point.

00:53:06.340 The bigger issue I have on this, and me and Tristan, we've talked about this before.

00:53:10.300 And, guys, I see all your super chats.

00:53:12.960 I will get to them very soon.

00:53:14.380 Sorry, guys.

00:53:15.960 Is our girl going to the club or bar or party?

00:53:20.840 I think that's the bigger issue for me, per se.

00:53:23.880 I think every gender has an issue with that. 1.00

00:53:27.200 Yeah, women can have an issue with that, too. 1.00

00:53:29.060 Yeah, I don't think that's a specifically like girl or boy issue.

00:53:33.600 Like everyone has insecurities when they're in a relationship.

00:53:37.160 Word.

00:53:37.700 Anyways, we can maybe come back to that.

00:53:39.320 We spent quite a bit of time on that.

00:53:40.900 I need to get through all the super chats here because there's a ton.

00:53:44.100 Okay, so let's see.

00:53:46.420 We have Zoro Slost, 11, with the $10 super chat.

00:53:52.280 A promiscuous woman equals 3FO. 1.00

00:53:54.080 A man equals a 3FO maker. 1.00

00:53:56.460 Your body count matter because that's easy to get for it.

00:54:01.700 He speaks cryptically, this Zoro Slost, 11. 1.00

00:54:05.620 I'm not surprised.

00:54:06.600 That profile photo, I'm not surprised.

00:54:08.220 Can you send us like a cipher so we can like break this down?

00:54:14.180 So what comes easy is not respected.

00:54:16.340 What is one right law?

00:54:18.180 How?

00:54:19.040 Okay.

00:54:19.680 What is one right law opportunity that a man has that you don't in 2023?

00:54:23.920 Okay.

00:54:24.640 Well, this is kind of like.

00:54:26.340 A 10-year-old got into their mom's credit card, I swear.

00:54:29.320 Well, I appreciate the super chat.

00:54:34.780 I'm so sorry.

00:54:36.960 I'm getting dyslexia just reading it.

00:54:38.900 I'm sorry.

00:54:39.860 Okay.

00:54:40.220 So we'll ask, we'll go around the table really quick on this one.

00:54:45.300 I'll ask the last part of this.

00:54:47.420 Dude, the first word of that.

00:54:50.280 So, okay.

00:54:51.280 You often hear feminists saying, you know, we're fighting for women's rights. 1.00

00:54:57.600 We need women's rights. 1.00

00:54:58.920 So what is a right privilege or what is it?

00:55:04.760 Right law or opportunity?

00:55:07.300 I mean, God, you're scuffing the question.

00:55:10.160 But do I really want to talk about this right now?

00:55:13.500 Okay.

00:55:14.120 We can say thank you for it.

00:55:15.920 I want you, if you can, think of one right or law.

00:55:21.020 I'm framing it wrong.

00:55:21.960 Think of one right or law that a man has that a woman does not. 1.00

00:55:25.700 Bigger salaries.

00:55:27.280 That's not a right or a law.

00:55:29.060 I'm in.

00:55:29.600 And it's not true either, but.

00:55:31.700 It's not true.

00:55:32.460 It's not true.

00:55:32.760 Do you really want to talk about it?

00:55:34.200 I don't really think.

00:55:35.580 There's so many super chats.

00:55:37.020 We might have to come back.

00:55:37.800 Oh, I have one.

00:55:39.040 Basically, well, okay.

00:55:39.720 To address that really quick, the wage gap has been debunked time and time again.

00:55:44.900 Economists.

00:55:45.300 Nobody wants to talk about that, Brian.

00:55:46.960 Well, I'll finish my piece on it.

00:55:49.080 Economists have debunked it.

00:55:50.240 Basically, there's just differences in choices.

00:55:52.580 Men tend to work more hours.

00:55:53.860 We work different jobs.

00:55:54.800 We go into different career fields.

00:55:57.280 So, there's, and there's.

00:56:00.000 Okay, we got to move on.

00:56:01.840 Go ahead.

00:56:02.700 I think it's more acceptable for a man to be promiscuous than a woman. 1.00

00:56:08.300 You think it's more acceptable for a man to be. 0.95

00:56:10.880 Well, that's not the question I asked, but we can.

00:56:14.180 A law that applies to a man. 0.66

00:56:15.560 No, no, but repeat what you said.

00:56:18.380 Did I answer the question wrong?

00:56:19.800 No, just.

00:56:20.160 We'll talk about that.

00:56:22.080 Go ahead.

00:56:22.880 I just think it's more socially acceptable for a man to be promiscuous.

00:56:27.480 And it's not socially acceptable for a woman to be promiscuous. 1.00

00:56:30.900 Well, that's not a right or a law, but you're right.

00:56:34.320 I thought you meant like social laws or like social rights.

00:56:37.600 I don't know laws.

00:56:39.360 You're right, but I mean.

00:56:40.480 Okay, so that's a double standard, but it's a justified double standard.

00:56:44.540 Okay, I guess we'll come back to that.

00:56:52.880 What rights or laws are you guys talking about?

00:56:55.840 I don't know laws.

00:56:56.360 Okay, we're going to move on.

00:56:57.800 I don't know my question, but we tried.

00:56:59.940 We tried, man, sorry.

00:57:02.480 This whole show might be super chats.

00:57:03.800 Okay, Bernardo Sandriguez with the $10 super chat.

00:57:06.260 Do you date with intent to follow through with spending life together,

00:57:08.780 or do you date without expectations of a future relationship?

00:57:12.300 Really quick, guys, we'll go around the table on this.

00:57:14.900 Go ahead.

00:57:16.740 Do you date and tend to follow?

00:57:18.800 I guess if I love someone, I love someone.

00:57:22.380 Definitely, do you intend to follow through?

00:57:24.660 Yeah, same.

00:57:25.820 Yeah, the same.

00:57:27.500 Yeah, same for me.

00:57:29.000 Yeah, me too.

00:57:30.180 Yeah, I'm not going to waste my time not thinking that it's not going to follow through.

00:57:34.060 So I do know people that don't think of the future.

00:57:37.140 They're just like, oh, yeah, we're just together right now.

00:57:39.080 But they're not really, they don't have plans to keep going. 1.00

00:57:42.300 They're just stupid. 1.00

00:57:43.520 Yo, we got happy with the $10 super chat. 1.00

00:57:45.060 I don't really have a question.

00:57:46.000 Don't forget to like and subscribe.

00:57:47.600 Looks like I have more characters.

00:57:50.520 Defenestration is a good word to know. 1.00

00:57:52.600 It means the action of throwing someone out of a window.

00:57:55.640 Hey, thank you for that fun fact, Hap.

00:57:57.380 You really appreciate the support.

00:57:58.560 Thank you for the $10 super chat, man.

00:57:59.680 Appreciate it.

00:58:00.480 Yeah, guys, like and subscribe.

00:58:02.160 All right, we have Flan Life with the big Canadian $100 super chat.

00:58:05.880 Thank you, man.

00:58:06.340 Appreciate it.

00:58:09.560 Hey, yo, Mike Davis, do you need any investors in the Burger King?

00:58:13.940 Can you pull up the Mike Davis thing real quick, Eric?

00:58:20.140 Boom.

00:58:20.740 Okay.

00:58:21.520 He looks cool.

00:58:22.660 Guys, Mike Davis is hiring.

00:58:24.420 Okay.

00:58:25.320 Sweet.

00:58:26.080 Yo, thank you, Flan Life.

00:58:27.060 Appreciate it, man.

00:58:27.660 Thank you for the big.

00:58:29.140 Oh, well, we got another one.

00:58:30.220 Flan Life with the Canadian $50 super chat.

00:58:32.380 Just here to one up Mike Davis. 0.99

00:58:34.200 Damn, dude. 0.99

00:58:34.600 Thank you for the support, man. 0.99

00:58:36.020 I really appreciate it.

00:58:37.080 Big.

00:58:37.500 Oh, wait.

00:58:37.800 Hold on.

00:58:38.620 Woo-hoo. 0.65

00:58:39.920 Grats me, boys.

00:58:42.280 Boom.

00:58:43.480 Ninja loot.

00:58:45.360 While we're at it, Eric, can you pull up the Twitch?

00:58:47.380 Let me just shout out the Twitch homies. 1.00

00:58:51.320 All right.

00:58:52.440 We have.

00:58:54.500 Yo, Bobby, thank you for the follow.

00:58:57.440 Afrokunja, thank you for the follow.

00:58:58.620 Intruder, thank you for the follow.

00:58:59.740 Cinema Nomad, thank you for the follow.

00:59:01.560 E-Weave Dog, thank you for the follow.

00:59:03.140 Guys, Twitch.tv slash whatever.

00:59:04.840 Open up another tab.

00:59:05.760 Give us a follow.

00:59:06.780 Drop a Prime sub.

00:59:07.640 If you have it, we will shout you out.

00:59:10.100 All right.

00:59:10.380 So we have Zorozlost with the $10 soup chat.

00:59:15.560 What?

00:59:16.020 What?

00:59:16.320 Is that from an anime?

00:59:17.220 His avatar, by the way?

00:59:18.180 I don't know.

00:59:18.940 That's from One Piece.

00:59:20.240 Oh, One Piece.

00:59:20.800 Okay.

00:59:21.320 Very iconic anime.

00:59:23.420 It's always the colorful hair ones that act the most innocent.

00:59:26.660 We see right through you. 0.99

00:59:28.480 You demon. 1.00

00:59:29.840 Do you know about hitting the wall? 0.99

00:59:31.820 Because the wall is always undefeated.

00:59:34.800 Joey, what'd you think about that?

00:59:37.940 He has no comment.

00:59:39.160 I have no comment either.

00:59:39.920 Do you have a response?

00:59:42.300 Do you want to say something back to Zorozlost 11?

00:59:46.260 It's always the colorful hair ones that are the most innocent.

00:59:48.460 We see right through you. 1.00

00:59:49.540 You are a demon. 1.00

00:59:50.740 If you see me as a demon, you have that right. 0.99

00:59:54.000 That's fine.

00:59:56.260 What am I supposed to say to that?

00:59:56.900 You don't want to fire back?

00:59:58.500 Okay.

00:59:58.940 No.

00:59:59.160 It's not in my jurisdiction.

01:00:00.460 What do you think about that, Sarah?

01:00:01.360 You have colored hair too. 0.59

01:00:03.940 He thinks you're a demon. 0.64

01:00:05.700 Yeah, whatever. 0.97

01:00:06.500 People can call you a demon.

01:00:09.060 They can call you whatever it's like.

01:00:10.320 All wrong.

01:00:10.980 Okay, moving on.

01:00:11.740 Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:00:12.740 Thank you for the Canadian $10.

01:00:13.920 Appreciate it, man.

01:00:14.840 Hey, good to see you back.

01:00:15.700 Hope you had a good new year and holidays, man.

01:00:18.900 This podcast will blow up this year.

01:00:20.440 Let's not forget those we lost.

01:00:21.940 Rip, Entertain Me.

01:00:22.920 Rip, XDM.

01:00:23.780 Rip, Adolph Meowler.

01:00:26.500 Rip, Top G, Free Chase. 0.98

01:00:28.460 Yeah, XDM was actually left a comment, so he might pop back up.

01:00:32.780 Yeah, I think Entertain Me is gone, sadly.

01:00:36.500 By the way, I think you are Adolph Meowler.

01:00:39.140 Okay, Jacob Scheer, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:00:41.200 Have any of you coped with someone walking away realizing it's not what they want or a time they want it?

01:00:56.340 Of course.

01:00:57.540 Yeah.

01:00:57.920 Yeah.

01:00:58.660 It's heartbreaking, but you need to move on.

01:01:04.040 Yeah.

01:01:05.180 I agree on that.

01:01:06.580 Best move is to block them and move on.

01:01:08.840 Like, if you change your physical habits, then your brain will also change to think that's comfortable, so just move on.

01:01:16.400 Okay.

01:01:17.260 Yo, we got Zoro Slossed with the $10 soup chat. 0.72

01:01:20.220 A single woman in her late 20s and so on has been lied by feminism society and turned into, duh, masculine, independent man. 0.55

01:01:28.840 She always wanted to date, marry.

01:01:30.740 Your career status, money, does not make you sexier.

01:01:33.600 By whose standards?

01:01:36.540 I think being a rich woman is very sexy.

01:01:39.140 Yeah.

01:01:40.200 Yeah.

01:01:40.780 I think a woman who doesn't need help is very sexy. 1.00

01:01:43.960 I think a woman who doesn't ask for help is sexy. 1.00

01:01:45.860 Independence makes you sexy.

01:01:47.420 I think people who ask for help are not sexy.

01:01:50.180 You're trying to view it from your point of view, but if you're, but what I'm saying is, is that women tend to look at the male metric of success, which is go make a bunch of money, right?

01:02:05.440 Have a great career.

01:02:06.540 But the thing is, that doesn't, when it comes to being attractive to the opposite sex, your career, the money you make, for most men, it doesn't make you sexier.

01:02:20.260 It doesn't make you more attractive.

01:02:21.400 It doesn't make you more appealing.

01:02:23.240 I mean, I'm bisexual.

01:02:24.480 I can speak for both sides.

01:02:27.140 Yeah, I would think it was pretty sexy if a woman didn't ask for help and could make her own money. 1.00

01:02:31.700 Yeah, and also the same thing with a man.

01:02:33.980 So that's a very heteronormative question.

01:02:35.660 Well, the majority of people are heterosexual.

01:02:39.080 Yeah, that is.

01:02:40.180 Okay, well, that's good to know.

01:02:41.400 I'll keep that in mind.

01:02:43.600 But, yeah, so, yeah, men, generally speaking, if you make a ton of money, it's not really, it doesn't make you more attractive.

01:02:55.500 In the same way that a woman who looks at a guy who's a doctor or a lawyer, they see the prestige, they see the money. 0.88

01:03:03.200 It doesn't, it makes him more attractive.

01:03:06.580 But for men, it's not, well, a successful guy will gladly date a 19-year-old barista.

01:03:13.760 Wait, I'm confused.

01:03:15.220 He's saying, like, guys that are, like, seen.

01:03:18.300 I get it, but, like, I make money because I want to be in a comfortable situation, not because I want to be sexy.

01:03:25.560 Sure.

01:03:26.020 So.

01:03:26.320 And that's totally fine.

01:03:27.640 Yeah.

01:03:27.800 But we're speaking within the context of that appeal to a partner.

01:03:34.460 So, like, makes, does make, does money makes you more attractive?

01:03:39.640 I think I'd be more, like, I don't know, if side by side these two women were, like, put together, obviously the girl that has more money, she probably has more ambition, more hustle. 1.00

01:03:50.300 She's probably got a, it's just the character of that person is probably what I would be.

01:03:54.400 I'm not even capping.

01:03:55.560 I'm not even.

01:03:55.940 Yeah, what do you mean?

01:03:56.740 Like, I agree with you.

01:03:58.520 I wouldn't want a girl that isn't, like, like, Andrew Tate wants, that is just, like, a broad that just sits there and doesn't do anything. 0.85

01:04:06.080 Yeah, even a guy who sits there, if a guy tells me their hobbies are hanging out with their friends, like, I picture them just sitting down and being, like, doing drugs and watching TV.

01:04:14.540 Like, I don't find that attractive.

01:04:16.080 If someone's ambitious, that's cool.

01:04:17.960 Yeah.

01:04:18.220 That's good for them.

01:04:19.120 I think, I don't, I don't care about the money part as much as it's, like, it's their character.

01:04:23.120 Like, if they're actually, if they're making money, they had to have done something right.

01:04:26.200 Like, they had to, they had to grind for that money.

01:04:28.060 They had to have some ambitions.

01:04:29.240 They were, like.

01:04:29.500 Do you like masculine women? 0.96

01:04:31.120 No.

01:04:32.000 Wait, what do you mean masculine, though?

01:04:33.920 I just, I had, I don't know, that was an automatic, that was automatic.

01:04:37.380 It came out.

01:04:38.000 I was, like, no.

01:04:38.440 Like, who makes me as masculine?

01:04:39.160 I was just, like, first thing I pictured was just, like.

01:04:41.240 In order to succeed, not, not always, but in order to succeed in the corporate world.

01:04:47.480 No.

01:04:47.840 Oh, my God.

01:04:48.280 No.

01:04:48.700 I already see.

01:04:49.280 No, no, it's going on.

01:04:50.300 Oh, my God.

01:04:50.920 You need to.

01:04:51.920 I want to get him finished.

01:04:53.740 Yeah, finish, Brian.

01:04:55.260 Yeah, finish.

01:04:56.340 Go off, Brian.

01:04:58.240 To be successful in business, you need to cultivate a certain degree of cutthroatness, of assertiveness,

01:05:07.180 of initiative.

01:05:09.160 And these traits are often linked with masculinity.

01:05:12.400 Yeah, because that's, like, biased.

01:05:14.700 Like, people see, society see women who are, like, ambitious as aggressive. 1.00

01:05:19.700 And men who are ambitious as, like, the hero.

01:05:22.780 So, that's, like, how people think.

01:05:24.920 But that doesn't mean that you are aggressive just because you are ambitious.

01:05:29.220 Like, I get it?

01:05:30.060 You were saying, like, common sense.

01:05:31.460 Yeah, that's what people think.

01:05:32.780 But, like, that's also, like.

01:05:34.640 Have you met a female attorney? 0.98

01:05:36.880 Yeah. 0.94

01:05:37.780 They're incredibly disagreeable.

01:05:40.660 Have you met a male attorney?

01:05:44.440 They are the same.

01:05:45.760 Yeah.

01:05:46.240 Like, what is the problem?

01:05:46.800 In order to be an attorney, you need to be disagreeable.

01:05:50.040 Agreeableness is a feminine characteristic. 1.00

01:05:52.080 Why a woman has to agree? 1.00

01:05:54.420 It shouldn't be.

01:05:55.180 It shouldn't be.

01:05:55.720 It shouldn't be.

01:05:57.000 Agreeableness is one of the big five personality traits.

01:06:00.220 Okay.

01:06:00.880 As a guy, look.

01:06:02.320 And a road season, agreeable.

01:06:04.220 We don't want to have.

01:06:07.300 A guy who's on his mission, we don't want to date masculine women. 0.96

01:06:12.260 We don't want to date a mirror of ourselves.

01:06:16.380 I don't want to have to contend with a girl. 1.00

01:06:18.580 But that's, again, is because of that.

01:06:20.100 What do you mean by contend?

01:06:22.260 Like, compete with her?

01:06:24.140 Like, she's making as much money as you? 0.96

01:06:25.880 No, it's not about that.

01:06:28.340 It's like the attitude.

01:06:30.960 The attitude?

01:06:32.080 That's about not being confident again.

01:06:35.040 I know what you mean.

01:06:36.020 You want a girl that. 0.82

01:06:37.260 I know you, just because I've known you and we've talked about things.

01:06:40.880 So, like, I know you would want a girl that's more submissive and you would be the provider, obviously. 0.99

01:06:44.420 So, that's kind of what you were leaning towards and not so masculine.

01:06:48.240 But I think they're going to be a badass girl that's not masculine, that's feminine.

01:06:51.800 I know dudes that make a lot of money that are feminine. 1.00

01:06:54.240 Sure.

01:06:54.700 Me too.

01:06:55.140 Thank you, man.

01:06:55.860 Thank you.

01:06:56.400 100% is, like, badass girls that are feminine and they can, they're just making good money. 1.00

01:07:01.320 They literally can have a clothing store online and they're making six figures easy.

01:07:05.920 Let me just clarify.

01:07:06.880 I don't, if, I have no issue dating a girl who works. 1.00

01:07:10.900 It doesn't bother me.

01:07:12.800 Wow.

01:07:13.200 Men, that's so, no, it's a bare minimum.

01:07:17.600 No, look, it doesn't, that doesn't bother me.

01:07:19.780 I guess the point I'm trying to make is, is that, let me bring it back to the financial component.

01:07:26.960 It's not sexier because women do not share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women. 0.89

01:07:38.340 For example, I had matched with this girl on Tinder.

01:07:41.600 She was a litigation attorney.

01:07:43.000 She was, this was a couple years ago.

01:07:44.500 She was out earning me $300,000 a year.

01:07:46.920 She told me, she still, even though she makes $300,000 a year, she wants a guy to pay for her. 1.00

01:07:53.680 She wants chivalry. 0.97

01:07:55.080 She wants a guy to take her out on dates and to pay, despite the fact that she makes $300,000 a year. 0.65

01:08:01.300 She doesn't want equality in the relationship. 1.00

01:08:03.420 To me, that's fucking, that blows my fucking mind. 1.00

01:08:06.400 Yeah, that's weird. 1.00

01:08:07.000 It also blows my mind.

01:08:09.160 But that's the point I'm trying to make, is that women do not share their money with their partner the same way that men share their money with their partner.

01:08:19.640 If you guys make a lot of money, have you ever offered to fly a guy out to you?

01:08:24.320 So those are the ones that you should not date.

01:08:27.060 Yeah.

01:08:27.440 Yeah, right.

01:08:28.040 Because that's not everyone.

01:08:29.040 Because that's not everyone.

01:08:30.600 Like, you're generalizing it, you know?

01:08:32.340 But what I'm saying is, if you look at also, in terms of being spoiled, a guy who makes a lot of money, he might spoil his girl.

01:08:39.680 Also, a girl who makes a lot of money, well, one, a girl who makes a lot of money is not going to look at a broke guy's way. 1.00

01:08:45.480 But a guy who makes a lot of money, he'll date a broke girl.

01:08:49.240 If she's attractive, he'll still date her.

01:08:51.320 That's true.

01:08:52.360 That's his preference.

01:08:53.680 No, that's not even a stigma.

01:08:55.100 That's a generalization.

01:08:56.120 That's just his preference.

01:08:56.840 That is most likely.

01:08:57.640 No, because the guy has to be, the guy in general is the provider.

01:09:00.680 If you look at it, like, you can say equality and pay, yeah, like, but guy is usually the provider in relationships.

01:09:06.580 You guys can all agree with that, right?

01:09:08.680 Yes.

01:09:09.440 Yes.

01:09:09.960 I mean, you're shaking your head no.

01:09:11.220 Yeah, I don't know.

01:09:12.160 I don't know.

01:09:12.400 In general, that's usually how it is.

01:09:14.900 That's just how, that's just how it is.

01:09:16.320 You know, it's the fact of the matter is the guy is usually the provider.

01:09:19.040 So if the guy cannot provide for the woman, you know, the woman is obviously not going to be looking his way as much, you know?

01:09:25.780 There's exceptions, obviously.

01:09:27.180 Some girls, some girls might look a broke guy's way. 1.00

01:09:29.540 But here's the thing with that is a woman who's an attorney who's making $200,000 a year, she's going to want to date a guy that's on her level or higher. 0.96

01:09:40.220 Yeah.

01:09:40.560 She's not going to look at a guy who's a plumber or she's not going to look at a guy who's a barista.

01:09:46.680 But I guarantee you a 30-year-old attorney, a male attorney who's making $100,000, $200,000, he'll date the barista.

01:09:53.460 Because he wants the submissive one, like you were saying.

01:09:56.420 You have to be dependent on him.

01:09:58.240 Like, he wants power.

01:09:59.240 It's about power.

01:10:00.360 It's not about power.

01:10:01.360 I think it's mostly about power.

01:10:02.820 It's not about power.

01:10:04.300 What is about, like, she's how?

01:10:05.860 What is it about if it's not about power?

01:10:10.040 What is it about if it's not about power?

01:10:12.220 Well, it's a few things.

01:10:13.520 One, okay, a woman who's 21, she's more attractive at 21 than at 31. 1.00

01:10:22.760 Okay, so she's more attractive. 1.00

01:10:24.560 So it's a physical attraction thing.

01:10:26.500 Okay.

01:10:28.360 Coinciding with that, it's also a, man, we're, I want to get the super chats, but it's a body count thing.

01:10:34.260 So someone who's younger has had less.

01:10:38.040 Body counts, yeah.

01:10:39.040 Yeah, you are, you are.

01:10:40.200 Has had less sexual partners.

01:10:41.940 Brian, I know 15-year-olds who have been ran through.

01:10:45.120 Me and Tristan know a 17-year-old, or wait, no, that's Luke, sorry.

01:10:49.100 Oh, my gosh, so you get it.

01:10:50.480 So you know that's a fallacy.

01:10:51.800 Oh, you know her?

01:10:52.420 Yeah, we talked about it.

01:10:53.500 You know that's a fallacy then.

01:10:55.820 No, but here's the point.

01:10:59.160 Here's the point.

01:11:00.380 Let's say, yes, even a 19-year-old girl, could she have 50 bodies?

01:11:05.040 Sure.

01:11:05.420 How many bodies is she going to have at 29? 1.00

01:11:11.260 So you're going to just, as you get older, you're obviously going to continue having more sexual partners.

01:11:16.480 And what that includes is more relationship baggage, more trauma, STDs potentially.

01:11:23.920 It's so frustrating.

01:11:25.260 Why is it frustrating?

01:11:26.560 Because body counts, like, bro, we're in 2023. 0.99

01:11:30.720 If a girl is, like, if somebody is fucking somebody, if, like, she has a lot of game, she has a lot of sex, and, wow. 1.00

01:11:38.440 Wait, game? 1.00

01:11:39.240 Women don't have game. 1.00

01:11:40.620 Women don't have game? 1.00

01:11:41.780 That's not it.

01:11:42.300 Look, a girl could stand there, and a guy would literally chase after her, because that's just how it is. 0.98

01:11:47.720 That's how it naturally is.

01:11:48.840 We just talked about how many times you guys get messaged by guys compared to us.

01:11:53.240 It's just incomparable.

01:11:54.420 Like, girls have the power to let all these guys in, so it's like, if you... 0.98

01:11:58.600 But why shouldn't she?

01:11:59.440 Tristan, I'm so sorry about that.

01:12:01.500 Huh?

01:12:01.840 I'm really sorry about that.

01:12:03.060 Apology accepted.

01:12:04.280 I'm really sorry about that.

01:12:05.580 What do you apologize about?

01:12:07.060 What do you apologize about?

01:12:07.520 I feel like women are also, like, more selective. 1.00

01:12:10.360 I feel like men, whatever, like, attention guys get, they're like, oh, okay, this girl is giving me attention.

01:12:16.480 Because if they weren't selective, they were just giving it out to every single, like, that guy that hits her up.

01:12:21.420 Yeah, so why?

01:12:22.240 Like, her body count would rack up like crazy.

01:12:24.020 Why does it matter even?

01:12:25.340 Yeah, why does it matter?

01:12:26.460 But it does matter.

01:12:27.840 Why?

01:12:28.240 Okay, but, like, let's go back just, like, for a second in the financial part.

01:12:32.920 So if you are a 40-year-old guy, like, dating a 20-year-old girl, you have to provide because you're just, like, 20 years ahead in your career.

01:12:42.880 Like, you have more money.

01:12:43.800 Like, the girl didn't have, like, time to build up her career yet. 0.96

01:12:47.700 So, like, body count, like, I don't understand.

01:12:53.400 So, like...

01:12:53.640 What do you not understand?

01:12:54.560 Like, this whole, the whole part about the financial part, like, men, like, why we were doing the comparison about, like, a 20-year-old woman with a 30-year-old woman and the man who is the provider.

01:13:08.580 So, you're, okay, you want to bring it back to the money thing.

01:13:12.940 Yeah.

01:13:13.540 Why men don't really care?

01:13:17.200 Obviously, we don't want to date a girl who has... 1.00

01:13:19.300 Why do you think that girls don't, like, don't share the same amount as, like, don't share the money as much as men? 1.00

01:13:27.500 That's a good question.

01:13:29.820 Have you guys ever been on a first date?

01:13:31.940 Yeah.

01:13:32.560 Okay.

01:13:33.540 Does the guy pay or do you pay?

01:13:35.900 I share.

01:13:37.060 No, the guy always have to pay.

01:13:38.700 Hold on.

01:13:39.160 Answer it again.

01:13:40.080 The guy always have to pay.

01:13:41.460 On the first date.

01:13:42.100 Oh, you said I have to pay.

01:13:43.960 So...

01:13:44.280 And if you're the one that initiated it going on on a date, he should still pay?

01:13:49.060 No, that's different.

01:13:50.420 If I have initiated, that's different, right?

01:13:52.360 But obviously...

01:13:53.160 Have you ever initiated a first date?

01:13:55.300 Well, there you go.

01:13:56.220 It's just that...

01:13:57.060 I rest my case, but...

01:13:59.740 You can argue it all day.

01:14:01.440 That doesn't prove anything.

01:14:02.420 Sorry.

01:14:02.720 That doesn't prove anything.

01:14:04.280 Women don't share their resources with men. 1.00

01:14:07.480 Generally speaking.

01:14:08.760 That is so...

01:14:09.740 No.

01:14:10.500 That's not true.

01:14:11.360 She just said she's never paid for a first date.

01:14:14.720 That's not what I said.

01:14:15.920 She never initiated.

01:14:16.360 I said I don't believe I have paid.

01:14:19.260 This is why today I believe in that because I had five relationships where I actually did provide for my ex-boyfriends.

01:14:26.780 And people take advantage of it.

01:14:28.380 Yeah.

01:14:30.280 What do you mean they take you?

01:14:31.360 Sorry, but like...

01:14:32.560 I don't know.

01:14:33.040 I don't know in which area you live, but...

01:14:34.680 Don't laugh at her.

01:14:36.060 Turn your chair straight on.

01:14:38.120 I believe in her.

01:14:39.500 I was naive.

01:14:40.560 Yeah, that's a valid thing to say.

01:14:41.220 You're in a relationship, obviously.

01:14:42.840 If you're in the same age, you don't make the same money.

01:14:45.300 Obviously.

01:14:45.820 Yeah, let's pay.

01:14:46.480 You were providing for your boyfriends.

01:14:48.260 Not all the time, but obviously...

01:14:49.480 Obviously, like if we were going somewhere, I would do it.

01:14:53.760 Oh, now we're sure.

01:14:54.860 Sorry.

01:14:55.580 What?

01:14:56.540 He says like when a man provides for a woman, it's like...

01:14:59.760 It's a bad thing, but then now I'm being a sugar mommy.

01:15:01.260 But when she provides for a man, she's automatically a sugar mommy. 1.00

01:15:05.060 I would love to be a sugar mommy. 0.98

01:15:06.120 I have friends who are providing for their boyfriend.

01:15:09.320 They provided their home.

01:15:10.540 That's a yikes, first off.

01:15:13.400 That's what you say.

01:15:15.260 Yeah, obviously, the time's changing because society is changing.

01:15:21.180 That's obviously the case at the moment because people are becoming feminist. 1.00

01:15:24.940 People are becoming aware of the situation, and maybe that's what we should do.

01:15:29.380 The thing is, like, you can become aware of a situation, but you can't change the natural,

01:15:34.220 the natural, like, I don't know, what is it?

01:15:37.180 Yeah, it's natural because think about it.

01:15:39.000 If you go back to...

01:15:40.060 Oh, my God.

01:15:40.980 Look, the guy was supposed to go grab the food while the mom took care of the kids.

01:15:45.060 Tristan, for real.

01:15:46.020 Yeah, that was not natural.

01:15:47.620 That was society.

01:15:48.880 That was not society.

01:15:49.780 Tristan, when was the last time you had to forage for your food?

01:15:51.280 Back in the years.

01:15:52.120 Yeah, obviously, that was...

01:15:52.900 When was the last time you foraged for your food, Tristan? 0.59

01:15:55.160 We're not talking about forging food.

01:15:56.620 It's the natural...

01:15:57.360 No, you're bringing up back then?

01:16:00.100 Are we living in back then?

01:16:01.180 Okay, we're not talking about...

01:16:02.220 It doesn't matter?

01:16:03.180 It's not the natural feeling of your body.

01:16:04.400 You're telling me...

01:16:04.920 It's evolutionary.

01:16:05.700 It's literally evolution of your body.

01:16:07.460 That's exactly wrong because if we go back, it's like it's shared.

01:16:13.320 Women were providers too. 1.00

01:16:14.840 Actually, it was found out...

01:16:16.480 You're going to argue with me that men back then were stronger than the woman, 0.99

01:16:21.360 and now it's different?

01:16:22.320 The men is now...

01:16:23.440 No, no.

01:16:24.140 Exactly.

01:16:24.460 It's still the same.

01:16:25.280 It's like the genetic makeup.

01:16:26.400 It's evolutionary.

01:16:27.360 But now you say like providing money for women is something about strength?

01:16:34.200 No, I'm saying that it's evolutionary.

01:16:36.020 I'm comparing it to that.

01:16:37.300 I'm comparing it to that.

01:16:38.040 Okay, okay.

01:16:38.900 Sorry, that was German.

01:16:40.520 Please explain to me why it's evolutionary.

01:16:45.120 Okay, explain to me why the man still to this day is the main provider in a relationship.

01:16:53.280 Explain to me that.

01:16:53.980 But I say it's changing at the moment.

01:16:56.480 Obviously, it was always like because women couldn't make money in the 50s because they 1.00

01:17:01.560 weren't allowed to.

01:17:02.700 And now it's changing.

01:17:04.060 Obviously, we have to take...

01:17:05.420 It's a time thing.

01:17:07.100 The time is changing.

01:17:08.380 We are able to get money.

01:17:09.620 We are able to get high-paid jobs.

01:17:11.400 And now we split bills.

01:17:14.000 And even women... 1.00

01:17:14.560 We split bills.

01:17:15.300 Even with women with high-paying jobs still want chivalry and to be wined and dined and to have the guy pay for the first date. 1.00

01:17:22.560 Tell me.

01:17:23.060 He literally had a perfect example of it.

01:17:24.420 I had...

01:17:25.260 Okay, but that's only one person.

01:17:27.400 That's one case.

01:17:28.340 We cannot generalize that.

01:17:29.280 We've had over 200 girls on the show. 1.00

01:17:31.360 I would say most of them say that the guy should pay for the first date.

01:17:35.760 Or they say whoever asks should pay.

01:17:40.160 But newsflash, 99% of all first dates that have ever happened, the guy asked.

01:17:45.660 Well, Brian, you're getting mad at the system that men create in.

01:17:48.840 There is no...

01:17:49.240 Like, girls didn't ask for guys to ask them out. 0.99

01:17:52.640 Okay, but that's also part of the evolution.

01:17:54.700 Like, you're telling me that girls are now chasing... 0.99

01:17:58.240 Girls, if a guy is talking about evolution, please don't date him.

01:18:01.400 Yeah, for real.

01:18:02.240 Oh, so you're trying to go against the natural creation of how you feel, how your body, your genetic makeup, and how you actually...

01:18:10.420 Okay, guess what?

01:18:10.980 We're in 2023.

01:18:13.000 Because...

01:18:13.840 What the hell does that matter?

01:18:15.600 That has nothing to do with hormones or whatever.

01:18:18.060 Yeah, yeah, hold on.

01:18:18.440 Who is paying the bills?

01:18:19.600 Irregardless of the current year, that doesn't undo hundreds of thousands of years of evolution and social hierarchy.

01:18:28.440 But how does our body decide who's paying the bills?

01:18:32.660 Okay, how does your body decide how you find a guy attractive?

01:18:36.040 You see a guy out there...

01:18:37.240 Why?

01:18:37.780 It's your genetic makeup.

01:18:39.460 You don't know the explanation to it, right?

01:18:41.580 You just, okay, that guy's attractive, right?

01:18:43.460 Yeah.

01:18:43.860 Okay, exactly.

01:18:44.780 It's the same thing.

01:18:45.580 That has nothing to do with money.

01:18:47.360 That has nothing to do with money.

01:18:48.380 It has nothing to do with money.

01:18:49.520 It has to do with money.

01:18:49.660 It has to do with providing.

01:18:50.180 It's providing, being the provider.

01:18:52.000 We're not talking about money.

01:18:52.900 Money has no way...

01:18:53.680 Sorry, but like...

01:18:54.240 Currency is not that...

01:18:55.280 Currency has not...

01:18:56.900 It's changed over the years.

01:18:58.560 It's literally talking about being the provider.

01:19:01.400 I can tell...

01:19:02.220 Sorry.

01:19:02.440 You can argue it all day, but it's literally...

01:19:04.340 I can tell you.

01:19:05.100 I can tell you.

01:19:05.940 Provider.

01:19:06.620 If you talk about...

01:19:07.560 If you talk about back then when we were...

01:19:10.060 I don't know.

01:19:10.900 Almost...

01:19:11.740 I don't know.

01:19:12.760 Not human beings.

01:19:14.560 They were like...

01:19:15.340 You know, like hunters and the people that were like...

01:19:18.560 Like getting the berries and stuff.

01:19:20.600 I don't know.

01:19:21.640 I have no words about that right now.

01:19:23.480 I have whatever.

01:19:24.200 Those were good.

01:19:24.900 The blueberry days.

01:19:26.200 That's the term.

01:19:27.020 But I can tell you both female and men were providing for the food for the family. 0.85

01:19:32.080 So you believe that one day that women are now going to be... 1.00

01:19:35.020 It's going to be flipped.

01:19:36.180 At one point, time is going to flip.

01:19:37.460 I don't think it's going to flip.

01:19:37.720 And women are going to become the main providers for the men. 1.00

01:19:40.060 I think it's going to be equal.

01:19:41.040 And men are going to be...

01:19:41.700 It's going to be equal.

01:19:42.460 It's going to be equal.

01:19:43.420 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:19:43.540 So you're telling me there's going to be the equal amount of men that are going to be broke

01:19:47.020 and literally women are going to be chasing after them. 0.92

01:19:49.520 All of a sudden, they're going to change up and they're going to be like,

01:19:51.660 I'm going to chase after this broke man, but I'm making more money than him.

01:19:54.720 I'll provide for him.

01:19:55.780 You're telling me that's going to be equal, half and half?

01:19:58.360 I think it's about providing money.

01:19:59.820 If we talk about providing money, yeah, I think it's going to be equal.

01:20:01.820 It already is equal.

01:20:03.840 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:20:05.660 It already is equal.

01:20:06.620 It already is equal.

01:20:07.160 Yeah, but why are you saying men are providing for women?

01:20:09.740 Okay, so let me ask you a question.

01:20:10.680 If it's equal, if women are starting... 1.00

01:20:12.720 They're already making their own money.

01:20:14.720 Actually, when it comes to the wage gap, if you look at major cities,

01:20:19.020 women between the ages of 18 to 30, single, for both men and women,

01:20:24.600 who are single, who have never been married, and who have no kids,

01:20:27.940 women out-earn men. 0.98

01:20:30.280 Yeah, okay.

01:20:30.840 That's great.

01:20:31.380 Women are out-earning men. 0.54

01:20:32.500 Yeah.

01:20:32.740 Like when they have no kids, right?

01:20:34.620 No kids.

01:20:35.960 Women out-earn men. 0.98

01:20:36.600 That's just easier.

01:20:37.840 She's like, no kids.

01:20:39.020 Yeah, no kids.

01:20:39.800 So when we have kids, we are one step behind from men.

01:20:44.580 Women tend to prioritize different things once they've had children. 1.00

01:20:47.640 They tend to prioritize.

01:20:50.040 Like if we both decide to have a child right now, who is going to carry it?

01:20:54.300 Well, yeah, exactly.

01:20:55.380 You, exactly.

01:20:56.180 It's going to be me, right?

01:20:56.960 Even if you prioritize your children, it's going to be me.

01:21:00.000 So I'm going to be one step behind on my promotion than you.

01:21:03.920 100%.

01:21:04.360 It'll put you out of work.

01:21:04.980 It'll put you out of work.

01:21:06.460 The thing about salary gap, that's the thing.

01:21:10.840 Like if you don't carry the baby, if the promotion is not the same...

01:21:14.640 Okay.

01:21:18.940 I want to bring it back to if it's equal now, we don't see women flying guys out. 1.00

01:21:26.100 I didn't say it's equal now.

01:21:27.900 The money is equal.

01:21:29.340 You said the money is equal.

01:21:30.300 You literally agreed with him.

01:21:31.380 You said, yes, it is equal.

01:21:32.560 No, it's equal.

01:21:33.300 Yeah.

01:21:33.700 I think about when we get like the equal payment, equal possibilities.

01:21:38.500 It's going to be equal because it's changing right now.

01:21:40.900 We're not getting equally paid then right now, right?

01:21:43.220 Actually, if you look at Scandinavian countries, if you look at Norway, you look at Sweden,

01:21:48.860 these are countries that have done the most that they can to legislate equality between the genders.

01:21:54.240 You actually start to see more significant differences, for example, in the careers that men and women pursue.

01:22:03.420 Yeah.

01:22:05.600 Whereas if you...

01:22:06.260 Women are more... 1.00

01:22:07.620 Mostly like a lot of women go to social jobs. 1.00

01:22:11.120 Yes.

01:22:11.600 And men are going to like, I don't know, science or...

01:22:15.380 And do you think that's even in the societies that are the most equal, that suggests to me that there is something innate within men and women that we have sort of innate different preferences on average.

01:22:31.340 That could be it.

01:22:32.820 Yeah, obviously.

01:22:33.760 I think women are more social in some terms, but that has nothing to say with like why women are not pursuing broke men when they have a lot of money. 0.97

01:22:47.200 I don't get like the causation of why women that have a lot of money can't date broke men or why they don't.

01:22:56.520 They can.

01:22:57.020 They don't.

01:22:57.580 There's exceptions.

01:22:58.420 They do.

01:22:58.820 In general, we're talking in general.

01:23:03.000 General.

01:23:03.520 In general.

01:23:04.300 A woman who's making that much money will only mainly seek for a man making as much money or more than her. 1.00

01:23:11.540 Whereas a dude who's doing...

01:23:13.360 The more money a woman makes, the smaller her pool of potential partners. 1.00

01:23:18.540 Whereas the more money a man makes, the larger pool of potential partners he has.

01:23:24.100 Because men and women value different things in a partner.

01:23:28.900 Why are you saying you don't know what to say?

01:23:30.420 Is that...

01:23:31.040 I don't really get the causation.

01:23:32.780 Why?

01:23:33.280 Why?

01:23:33.540 I feel like that's just your opinion.

01:23:35.000 Yeah.

01:23:35.540 I don't really see like there's no...

01:23:37.540 I wouldn't do it.

01:23:38.940 If I have a lot of money, I don't really care about the guy having much money or not much money.

01:23:47.500 I don't care.

01:23:48.380 And you're an exception.

01:23:49.420 You're an exception.

01:23:50.100 You're probably one of the few that do that.

01:23:53.220 But in general speaking...

01:23:54.460 Okay, ladies. 1.00

01:23:54.760 Ladies.

01:23:55.140 Then I ask you guys.

01:23:56.720 What do you think?

01:23:58.440 What do you think about that?

01:23:59.460 What do you think about that?

01:24:00.700 Okay.

01:24:02.020 What do you date a guy?

01:24:03.120 If you have a lot of money, what do you date a guy that owns less than you?

01:24:06.880 Absolutely.

01:24:07.440 I don't care.

01:24:08.200 I want to add to that.

01:24:09.720 So I want to ask you two.

01:24:10.600 You guys are...

01:24:11.240 You're 26.

01:24:11.940 You're 30.

01:24:12.520 Correct?

01:24:12.860 Yeah.

01:24:13.200 You guys have careers.

01:24:15.640 Correct?

01:24:16.280 Can I ask your salary currently?

01:24:18.780 Like you don't have to tell me the exact, but give me your range.

01:24:21.320 80,000.

01:24:23.380 80,000?

01:24:24.140 Okay.

01:24:24.360 Would you guys date a guy that makes 30,000?

01:24:27.040 40,000?

01:24:29.820 At my age?

01:24:30.980 No.

01:24:32.240 Oh.

01:24:32.620 What about you?

01:24:34.500 If I love him and he has the ambition to be somebody bigger and better?

01:24:39.000 No.

01:24:39.560 He's going to make 40...

01:24:41.160 Maybe by the end of his life, he'll make 50,000.

01:24:43.580 No.

01:24:45.300 So like my point...

01:24:46.700 Like for me, I wouldn't date them because it just means that we have like different ambitions

01:24:51.260 and different passions.

01:24:53.020 Like I'm passionate about my job and my career.

01:24:55.400 It's very important to me.

01:24:56.740 So if I have someone like laying down on the couch the whole day, I'm not going to like...

01:25:00.600 I'm not going to think he's as sexy as me.

01:25:03.380 But I would date someone who is making the same salary as me at my age.

01:25:07.240 Or more.

01:25:07.520 The same salary or more.

01:25:08.720 Yeah.

01:25:09.180 For sure.

01:25:09.760 For sure.

01:25:10.260 That's exactly what I'm saying.

01:25:10.600 So you have to think about your future.

01:25:12.400 I understand when I was younger and I was like, I don't care about money, you know.

01:25:16.740 But as you grow older, you have to think about the family.

01:25:20.180 If you want to have kids, it's expensive, right?

01:25:21.920 And you're 18, right?

01:25:23.020 You need somebody to be the same teens.

01:25:25.140 Exactly.

01:25:25.620 You're 18.

01:25:26.220 So as you get older, it's kind of more of like...

01:25:28.620 It's more of something that you're going to think about a lot more often.

01:25:31.740 Can you guys agree with that?

01:25:32.640 Because you're now looking for a man that can provide and secure some stability with you

01:25:36.940 and your family.

01:25:37.520 Obviously, you don't want kids. 1.00

01:25:38.460 So that's not something you're thinking about.

01:25:40.000 But stability between you and him are something that you're going to prioritize a lot more than

01:25:46.360 when you're 18.

01:25:47.120 Even if she doesn't want kids, though, when it comes to having a life partner, if someone

01:25:52.400 is significantly earning far less than her, you have to think lifestyle-wise, too.

01:25:58.500 If you want to go on vacation, you're going to pay for his flight?

01:26:02.580 You're going to pay for the hotel?

01:26:04.100 Maybe.

01:26:04.600 You might.

01:26:05.480 But a lot of women are going to be, well, I'd rather date someone who I can go on vacation 1.00

01:26:10.100 with a couple times a month and they can pay their own bills.

01:26:12.020 And the thing is, you have a lot more options as a woman because there's a lot more men 0.99

01:26:16.040 that are open to do that, you know?

01:26:18.160 As a guy, if you're not making that much money, your pool is a lot smaller.

01:26:21.680 That's what we're trying to say.

01:26:22.980 Your pool is a lot smaller.

01:26:25.120 I personally wouldn't agree on that.

01:26:27.180 But, like, if you think that, obviously.

01:26:28.980 I don't think it.

01:26:29.880 It's in general speaking, you know?

01:26:31.300 We're just speaking in general.

01:26:33.280 Have you ever gone on a first date?

01:26:35.140 How many first dates have you had, would you say?

01:26:38.580 Five.

01:26:39.180 Have you always split the bill or did the guy pay?

01:26:41.360 Or what was?

01:26:43.200 I would say 50% I split the bill.

01:26:45.600 And then 50% the guy paid?

01:26:47.600 Because they want to.

01:26:48.840 They wanted to.

01:26:50.060 Okay.

01:26:50.940 There's not a lot of women that want to. 1.00

01:26:53.140 Get off your phone.

01:26:54.900 Hello?

01:26:56.780 There's not a lot of women that want to pay for the entire bill for men. 1.00

01:27:02.680 Anyways, we're going to move on.

01:27:03.700 We've got to get through the soup chats.

01:27:05.060 Guys, you're killing it with the soup chats.

01:27:06.980 Zentience, I see you, man.

01:27:07.940 Thank you, dude.

01:27:09.000 All right, let's get these soup chats out of the way. 0.60

01:27:10.760 All right, we have, yo, Zentience with the big $100 soup chat, man.

01:27:15.540 Appreciate it.

01:27:17.020 Yo, these 304s are delusional. 1.00

01:27:19.260 High-value men do not want their woman. 0.98

01:27:22.000 High-value men do not want their woman on Insta or other social media 1.00

01:27:24.940 because women use Insta as a dating app or a level up 1.00

01:27:27.420 if FOMO hits them when their relationship gets boring or gets tough.

01:27:32.180 These 304s and Insta share the same solipsistic frivolity. 0.99

01:27:36.500 Damn, some big words there, Zentience. 1.00

01:27:38.320 It's goddamn, you got some vocab, dude. 0.99

01:27:40.440 Hey, thank you, man. 0.99

01:27:40.980 Really appreciate the big $99 soup chat, man.

01:27:44.640 Thank you.

01:27:45.420 Yo, we got Shane M here with the $10 soup chat.

01:27:47.540 It's like if you're a professional athlete,

01:27:48.860 but you're allowed to have other teams talk to you about coming to their team.

01:27:52.820 There's a reason sports leagues don't allow poaching.

01:27:56.320 Good point there, Shane.

01:27:58.420 Chaz. 0.90

01:27:58.860 Yo, Chaz, what's up, man? 1.00

01:28:00.200 That's a fucking Chad name, by the way. 0.99

01:28:02.220 Chaz on the Monopoeia. 0.99

01:28:03.900 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:28:04.960 Why do they feel the need to post themselves on Instagram in the first place?

01:28:08.540 That's a good question.

01:28:12.060 Yo, Zentience with the big...

01:28:13.880 Woo-hoo! 1.00

01:28:15.200 Grats me, boys!

01:28:17.580 Boom! 0.99

01:28:18.780 Ninja loose!

01:28:19.520 $50 soup chat.

01:28:20.460 Thank you, man.

01:28:20.860 Appreciate it.

01:28:21.300 By the way, guys...

01:28:22.080 Oh, actually, let me read it first.

01:28:23.380 High-value men know their woman is a representative of his family name.

01:28:27.140 If Instagram gives her constant attention, DMs, money, and opportunities,

01:28:31.380 the day she gets mad at him, she will look, consider said options.

01:28:35.900 Gents, never marry three of foes like these. 1.00

01:28:39.980 Do you guys want to shoot... 0.99

01:28:41.880 Oh, no. 0.85

01:28:42.440 I'm so tired of that. 0.99

01:28:44.040 Do you want to shoot shots back at... 0.96

01:28:46.100 You want to...

01:28:47.020 I don't think he deserves a response from us.

01:28:49.880 Oh, no.

01:28:50.240 That was nothing but hate.

01:28:51.800 What about you?

01:28:52.640 Anybody?

01:28:53.180 Oh, okay.

01:28:53.760 Only God can judge him.

01:28:55.000 Okay, only God can judge him.

01:28:58.000 Yo, Frankie K, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:28:59.720 More DMs means more opportunity.

01:29:01.620 More opportunity means more engagement.

01:29:03.460 Typically, psychologically, promiscuity makes it more difficult for women to pair bond. 1.00

01:29:08.020 We gravitate toward inexperienced females. 1.00

01:29:12.740 That's a little questionable.

01:29:15.260 I don't know how I feel about that.

01:29:18.140 Why?

01:29:18.640 Well, if you want an inexperienced female, would you say... 1.00

01:29:24.820 Would you agree that that is because a man is insecure?

01:29:28.800 No.

01:29:29.700 No?

01:29:30.120 Why then?

01:29:30.780 I would say it is.

01:29:31.760 Why does he want an inexperienced one?

01:29:31.880 Because what's the difference between a woman who has one body and two bodies? 1.00

01:29:35.240 You'd obviously prefer the one that has one body, right?

01:29:37.640 Sure.

01:29:38.280 Why?

01:29:38.740 That's because you don't want to be compared to.

01:29:42.140 No.

01:29:42.420 You don't want the possibility of being compared to.

01:29:45.460 No, it's true because you complained about baggage and all that.

01:29:50.480 You don't want the possibility of them comparing you to another person, of them comparing the

01:29:55.760 things that another person did to them, to you.

01:29:59.020 So that's why you want to, by default, be the best by being the only man in that woman's 1.00

01:30:04.360 life.

01:30:05.440 That's how I see it.

01:30:05.660 Well, yeah.

01:30:06.180 I mean, it would...

01:30:07.300 I'll give you that.

01:30:07.560 That's a relationship that God should have with us.

01:30:10.180 So I can see it why they would want to have that with another woman. 0.99

01:30:13.520 Hold on.

01:30:16.280 What, are you going to send the asteroids?

01:30:18.640 Can you put this in?

01:30:20.660 Woo! 0.99

01:30:22.900 Okay.

01:30:23.540 What does that mean?

01:30:24.400 I don't know.

01:30:24.860 It's some music or something.

01:30:26.520 Nice.

01:30:27.720 Okay.

01:30:28.640 So...

01:30:29.120 So you want a girl who's... 1.00

01:30:31.160 Who thinks...

01:30:32.200 Who's inexperienced, yeah, Brian?

01:30:34.240 Yeah.

01:30:34.900 Yeah?

01:30:35.240 Why?

01:30:35.660 Why do you want a girl who's inexperienced? 1.00

01:30:37.120 I can give you a couple reasons.

01:30:38.700 Yeah, give me a couple reasons.

01:30:39.260 So, okay, it kind of comes back to body count, right?

01:30:42.580 So, we don't want the town bicycle.

01:30:47.320 They're shaking...

01:30:48.280 She's shaking her head.

01:30:49.640 But the guys can, like, sleep with 100 guys.

01:30:52.280 Girls, actually.

01:30:53.000 Sorry.

01:30:53.300 Well, here's maybe...

01:30:54.760 Sorry.

01:30:55.120 Here's where I maybe differ from other men.

01:30:57.020 If a woman has the same exact standard, I don't... 1.00

01:31:01.060 If a woman said, I wouldn't want to get with a guy who's slept with a lot of women, I have 1.00

01:31:06.120 no problem with that whatsoever.

01:31:08.420 I think it happens to be the case that men care more about it than women. 0.61

01:31:12.960 But if a woman said, look, I don't want to date a player, I don't want to date a guy 0.99

01:31:16.640 that's slept with 100 women, that's totally fine.

01:31:20.960 I don't have a double standard there.

01:31:23.200 Me, personally, body count does matter.

01:31:25.440 There's a...

01:31:27.140 I'll give you a few reasons.

01:31:28.760 I mean, the...

01:31:29.340 Yeah, please.

01:31:30.540 Okay.

01:31:30.880 I care about that, too.

01:31:31.800 But, I mean, you still need your experience.

01:31:34.980 Because I think a lot of people also tend to maybe cheat later on when, like, let's say,

01:31:40.680 high school sweethearts, that you just have one person in your life. 1.00

01:31:43.260 Because they didn't experience enough.

01:31:44.640 Like, you need to go out there to explore, and it's okay.

01:31:48.040 I mean, I'm not saying that, like, I want a guy that has slept, like, with 100 girls.

01:31:53.200 But, obviously, I would want a guy who has...

01:31:56.520 Who is like me, who picks the girl, and then actually is sleeping with her because there

01:32:02.400 is a connection, not just for the sake of having sex and making their body counts higher

01:32:08.100 because they think it's nice to have a bigger...

01:32:10.600 Now, here's a question for you.

01:32:11.820 Would you prefer to be with a guy that's completely inexperienced and doesn't know how

01:32:14.700 to really, like, do anything.

01:32:15.740 You have to show him kind of how to do everything.

01:32:18.020 Or a guy that has a couple bodies, let's say 20 bodies, but he's experienced.

01:32:22.020 He knows how to, like, you know, pleasure you.

01:32:25.060 Yeah.

01:32:25.440 Well, who would you...

01:32:26.380 20 bodies for sure.

01:32:27.420 20.

01:32:27.720 Okay, yeah.

01:32:28.220 So, at least there's, like, a scale of, like, levels.

01:32:30.940 For me, I feel like my body count for a girl is a little more acceptable.

01:32:34.760 I don't think I would choose that exactly, like, if a girl has one less body, I wouldn't 1.00

01:32:38.760 be like, oh, I have to go with a girl that has one less body, you know. 1.00

01:32:41.680 So, but a lot of guys are, like, like, Brian for sure would want that girl with one less

01:32:46.900 body.

01:32:47.240 I just want the reason.

01:32:49.000 Yeah, Brian, what is the reason?

01:32:50.700 There's quite a few.

01:32:52.060 Yeah, please start.

01:32:53.240 There's one.

01:32:53.700 What's the pair bond thing that he said?

01:32:55.560 Because I've heard about that with, like, roll rats.

01:32:58.360 Okay, so pair bonding, your ability to bond with someone, to fall in love, and to stay

01:33:05.380 bonded, to fall in love with them.

01:33:07.020 If you've had 50 prior partners, your ability to bond with number 51, number 52, number 53

01:33:15.500 is significantly, severely, greatly diminished.

01:33:20.960 Greatly diminished.

01:33:22.580 You know, a lot of people say, oh, my first, second, third, like, you remember those first

01:33:26.640 few loves, and then it's just kind of like, you're going through the motions again.

01:33:30.240 And if you have had a lot of sexual partners, you de-link intimacy from sex.

01:33:38.420 Sex is just sport to you. 1.00

01:33:39.800 It's sport fucking. 1.00

01:33:41.200 You've removed the intimacy component to sex. 1.00

01:33:44.700 It's just short-term pleasure seeking.

01:33:47.220 I can agree with that.

01:33:49.780 It's not a guarantee.

01:33:51.620 The other thing is, is STDs.

01:33:54.760 And it's so, it's so interesting to me.

01:33:56.920 Like, let me ask you guys a question.

01:33:58.380 Would you be so quick to defend having a high body count if you caught a non-treatable sexually

01:34:08.380 transmitted disease?

01:34:10.780 Would you, let's say you, you were promiscuous. 0.91

01:34:13.220 Oh, you're engaging in the hookup culture.

01:34:15.400 Boom.

01:34:17.380 So you don't, you got HIV now. 1.00

01:34:19.560 I mean, I have sex with, like, condoms. 0.98

01:34:22.720 Yeah. 0.95

01:34:23.360 Condoms.

01:34:24.260 Until we are in a relationship, get tests and the whole thing.

01:34:28.320 Get tested.

01:34:30.540 Okay, most people don't get tested before they have sex with a person for the first time.

01:34:34.660 Oh, yeah.

01:34:34.980 No, for the first time, like, I wear a condom. 0.91

01:34:37.220 People just have sex. 0.77

01:34:37.560 Also, well, a condom wouldn't stop you from getting herpes, for example. 0.86

01:34:42.420 Yeah.

01:34:43.080 But you said untreatable, right?

01:34:44.960 You can't treat herpes.

01:34:46.980 I mean, well, it's for life.

01:34:48.900 You can take an antiviral medication, which reduces the severity and length of outbreaks

01:34:55.800 or prevents them.

01:34:56.880 But so it's funny to me with the body count thing.

01:35:01.960 Everyone just wants to forget about sexually transmitted diseases.

01:35:04.600 Does anyone here want to get herpes or HIV?

01:35:09.560 No, we don't.

01:35:10.820 But HIV is preventable by condoms.

01:35:12.520 That doesn't sound fun.

01:35:14.560 Do you think people are always using condoms?

01:35:18.220 I would, personally.

01:35:19.840 And I think a lot of people agree on that.

01:35:21.900 Especially girls agree on using... 1.00

01:35:24.800 Bro, people be fucking without condoms. 1.00

01:35:27.300 Let me tell you that. 0.99

01:35:29.060 These two are looking at each other a little certain way.

01:35:31.160 If you're on birth control, you know...

01:35:36.480 I use them.

01:35:38.320 Okay, all right.

01:35:39.560 All right.

01:35:40.300 Okay, what else?

01:35:42.740 Men, for evolutionary reasons... 0.81

01:35:46.160 I know you hate that word.

01:35:48.300 Both of them.

01:35:49.060 She's like, don't date him if he says evolution.

01:35:53.880 Men are evolutionary, biologically hardwired to find promiscuous women 1.00

01:36:00.300 repulsive. 0.95

01:36:03.000 And here's why.

01:36:04.620 If a woman sleeps... 1.00

01:36:06.260 Sorry, hold on.

01:36:06.780 Let me change this.

01:36:08.300 If a man has 10 wives, and they're only sleeping with him, 0.97

01:36:13.060 and he gets all of them pregnant, 0.92

01:36:15.340 everybody knows who the father is.

01:36:17.300 But if one woman has 10 husbands, 0.99

01:36:20.300 who's the father?

01:36:22.500 And she's sleeping with all of them. 0.76

01:36:24.060 You don't know.

01:36:24.980 Now, in the past 40 years, we've developed DNA testing,

01:36:28.900 and we can determine with paternity testing who is the father.

01:36:32.580 But that does not unwind.

01:36:34.240 It does not unravel hundreds of thousands of years of evolution.

01:36:38.320 So, a woman who is promiscuous, 1.00

01:36:42.260 there's a paternity uncertainty there.

01:36:46.140 So...

01:36:46.500 Do you understand?

01:36:48.020 No.

01:36:48.520 Does that make sense?

01:36:49.400 I don't get that.

01:36:51.140 Okay.

01:36:51.760 So, like...

01:36:52.420 No, no, no, no.

01:36:52.900 I have a question.

01:36:53.700 No, I have a question to, like, clarify that for me personally.

01:36:57.960 So, what uncertainty?

01:36:59.640 I mean, if you, like...

01:37:00.580 If you, like, participate in hookup culture,

01:37:02.720 you're not about, like, having a kid.

01:37:05.320 So, if you're having...

01:37:07.660 It doesn't matter.

01:37:10.040 Then I really don't get the uncertainty.

01:37:12.480 It's not an intellectual thing.

01:37:15.720 So, you're just, like, I'm...

01:37:17.300 Whatever. 0.86

01:37:20.300 If you have sex with someone,

01:37:22.420 you could be doing that recreationally.

01:37:25.160 You have no intention of having a child, right?

01:37:28.680 However, that does not undo...

01:37:31.180 It doesn't undo evolution.

01:37:36.140 Okay.

01:37:36.780 So, your uncertainty that you have,

01:37:39.080 you say it's, like, you birthed with it.

01:37:42.060 You were born with that uncertainty.

01:37:44.940 It's biological.

01:37:46.420 It's evolutionary.

01:37:47.540 If you have sex with a woman, 0.98

01:37:48.800 you'll always have that uncertainty.

01:37:50.600 Like, every time.

01:37:51.900 No.

01:37:52.480 Except me.

01:37:53.060 If a woman is promiscuous, 1.00

01:37:55.420 you cannot guarantee...

01:37:57.140 You cannot...

01:37:57.580 If you have a kid with a woman, 1.00

01:37:59.360 and she's promiscuous, 1.00

01:38:00.920 you cannot guarantee that the child is yours.

01:38:04.520 Yeah, but you are with a woman, 0.58

01:38:06.620 and that's not about, like, getting kids, right?

01:38:09.460 So, you're just, like...

01:38:10.760 I don't know.

01:38:11.440 I really don't get...

01:38:12.160 Let me ask you a question.

01:38:13.020 Are you...

01:38:13.440 Would you date a guy who's shorter than you?

01:38:16.100 I don't really care about that.

01:38:17.520 I like this conversation.

01:38:18.980 This is more fun.

01:38:20.700 I don't like the other conversation.

01:38:23.140 What?

01:38:24.140 It makes me sad.

01:38:25.800 But here's the thing.

01:38:26.640 You're an open-minded person.

01:38:27.880 I know that.

01:38:28.500 So, why does it make you sad, though?

01:38:31.080 Because you guys are, like, fighting.

01:38:32.940 No, but this is a debate.

01:38:34.100 No, this is a debate.

01:38:35.460 We're cool with her.

01:38:36.200 No, it's cool.

01:38:37.000 This is a debate.

01:38:37.320 We're trying to get my opinion and her opinion.

01:38:39.460 I like the short conversation.

01:38:40.040 That's funny.

01:38:41.280 Well, yeah.

01:38:41.640 Okay.

01:38:41.840 Well, let's talk about the hype thing.

01:38:43.020 I guess it's a little more light on you guys.

01:38:44.460 Okay, I'll say it.

01:38:46.720 I love a short game.

01:38:47.680 We're going to move on to the rest of the Super Chats.

01:38:50.400 But so, you'll date it.

01:38:51.200 How tall are you?

01:38:53.020 I don't...

01:38:53.780 We don't have, like, the same...

01:38:55.180 What's the centimeters?

01:38:57.340 172.

01:38:58.600 That's a one...

01:38:59.740 That's five...

01:39:00.740 Seven and a half.

01:39:01.760 Okay, we'll go around the table.

01:39:03.340 You're so real for that.

01:39:04.200 We're going to go around the table really quick on this.

01:39:06.180 Tell us your height, and if you have a height preference for a guy.

01:39:10.440 Go ahead.

01:39:11.700 I'm five feet tall, and I guess I don't care.

01:39:15.320 You don't care?

01:39:16.740 Okay.

01:39:17.100 I mean, obviously...

01:39:18.360 That's fine.

01:39:18.660 You guys are catching me in these fallacies. 0.99

01:39:20.540 Obviously, if they're shorter than me, like, I don't think I could fuck on that. 0.99

01:39:24.580 I was going to say, I was like, shorter than five foot? 0.99

01:39:27.860 Oh, my God.

01:39:29.100 That's like little person status.

01:39:30.760 That's like certified little person.

01:39:32.320 No.

01:39:32.600 I think everyone can agree with that.

01:39:35.560 I don't think that I would, personally.

01:39:37.780 You want to get with that little person.

01:39:39.320 Wait.

01:39:41.680 Okay, so your height, or I'll get with a dwarf. 0.52

01:39:47.880 Your height or taller?

01:39:48.920 You're so real for that. 0.70

01:39:50.540 I'd get with a dwarf. 1.00

01:39:51.480 If you guys know any dwarves, by the way, let me know.

01:39:54.800 You're such a king for that.

01:39:58.240 No, I don't think I care, I guess.

01:40:01.060 What's your height and minimum height requirement for a guy?

01:40:03.820 5'7", and probably, like, the guy has to be at least 5'9".

01:40:07.660 Okay.

01:40:08.340 What about you?

01:40:09.160 I'm 5'7", right?

01:40:12.120 I don't really care.

01:40:14.180 I mean...

01:40:14.580 You'll date a guy who's 5'4".

01:40:16.460 What is 5'4"?

01:40:18.160 It's...

01:40:18.760 He's shorter than you.

01:40:20.740 5'4"?

01:40:21.280 He's, like, literally a little bit taller than me.

01:40:23.760 160?

01:40:24.380 160.

01:40:25.740 This shorter than you?

01:40:27.320 Yeah, 160.

01:40:28.180 I mean, this shorter, I would, like, I think...

01:40:30.980 So you're looking down at him.

01:40:32.000 You're like, oh, that's cute.

01:40:33.220 Yeah, no, no, no.

01:40:34.320 I mean, I get what you mean.

01:40:35.920 I wouldn't, like, if he's, like, a lot smaller than me, maybe not.

01:40:40.080 But, like, I don't really care.

01:40:41.900 Why, though?

01:40:42.680 Why?

01:40:43.400 You said maybe not.

01:40:45.480 Oh, like, when he's smaller than me?

01:40:47.640 Yeah.

01:40:48.500 Have you hooked up...

01:40:49.280 Okay, of the guys that you've hooked up with, have they all been taller than you?

01:40:53.520 Yeah.

01:40:54.200 Oh, that's interesting.

01:40:55.320 Okay, your turn.

01:40:56.340 5'7", and 5'7".

01:40:58.460 Wait, wait.

01:40:59.300 No, no, no.

01:41:00.120 Like, I...

01:41:01.680 What do you mean by that?

01:41:03.560 Guys are...

01:41:04.600 That are taller than you, right?

01:41:06.240 Taller, taller than me.

01:41:07.340 Most of the time.

01:41:08.020 Evolutionary.

01:41:08.780 Evolutionary.

01:41:09.260 You look for a man that is, you know, that can protect you and your family.

01:41:13.700 So you seek guys that are taller than you.

01:41:14.880 I can tell you, I've never met a lot of guys that are smaller than me.

01:41:18.160 There's plenty of guys that can...

01:41:20.820 5'7"?

01:41:21.900 5'7".

01:41:22.580 There's plenty of guys that can be shorter than 5'7".

01:41:24.620 Yeah, when they're, like...

01:41:26.080 Yeah.

01:41:26.580 I think she's 5'8", 5'9", to be honest.

01:41:29.040 No, no.

01:41:29.340 I have platforms on.

01:41:30.480 Oh, right.

01:41:30.860 But she's from Germany. 0.95

01:41:31.500 Yeah.

01:41:31.920 Oh, for sure.

01:41:33.060 You're 100%.

01:41:33.980 If you've only gotten with guys that are taller than you and you're 5'8", 5'7".

01:41:38.140 But are guys in Germany, like, taller than...

01:41:40.840 Yeah.

01:41:41.040 Yeah, guys in Europe are way taller.

01:41:42.040 What are they feeding them?

01:41:44.340 It's like Russians, bro. 1.00

01:41:45.800 Russians are huge.

01:41:46.740 They are taller, yeah.

01:41:47.560 The Dutch are actually, I think, the tallest people.

01:41:49.840 Yeah.

01:41:50.080 What?

01:41:50.960 Yeah.

01:41:51.360 They're very tall.

01:41:51.880 So that makes sense, yeah.

01:41:53.380 Dutch are very tall.

01:41:55.380 Your height, minimum height?

01:41:56.840 5'7", and the same.

01:41:59.060 What about you?

01:41:59.940 I'm 5'6", I think, and they have to be taller.

01:42:02.780 Okay.

01:42:03.280 Madison?

01:42:04.080 I'm 5'2", and they have to be taller.

01:42:08.620 Just minimum height for the guy?

01:42:12.280 Minimum height for you guys.

01:42:13.580 Like, I don't know.

01:42:15.700 As tall as you.

01:42:16.500 6 feet?

01:42:17.740 I think 6 feet.

01:42:18.980 Okay, Madison.

01:42:20.380 Really?

01:42:21.120 5'6".

01:42:22.320 6 feet is hard to find.

01:42:24.240 Not in the Netherlands, though.

01:42:25.480 Oh, that's true.

01:42:26.360 That's true.

01:42:27.020 But you're in America.

01:42:27.960 Not in the Netherlands.

01:42:28.540 So you see what we're trying to get at, though?

01:42:30.820 What are you trying to get at?

01:42:31.300 Evolution.

01:42:31.920 You're still against evolution, but, like, there's a reason.

01:42:34.680 She said she would date a...

01:42:35.400 I mean, it's Kat, but she would date a guy who's...

01:42:38.100 She had a minimum of five. 0.82

01:42:39.760 She had a minimum. 0.59

01:42:40.320 She literally has... 0.99

01:42:41.320 I wouldn't date, like, if he was, like, 5'4", like that.

01:42:45.320 Yeah, you see, that's the point we're trying to get.

01:42:47.200 You're trying to argue evolution, but, like, 2023 doesn't change that we, like...

01:42:51.320 There are not a lot of men I met in my life that are smaller than me.

01:42:53.980 That's all I can say.

01:42:55.340 But you just said you wouldn't date a guy that's shorter than you.

01:42:57.560 That's what I'm saying.

01:42:58.100 A lot of guys that are smaller than me have a lot of problems and insecurities about that.

01:43:02.960 What?

01:43:03.380 That's coke.

01:43:04.000 That is...

01:43:04.560 Now you're generalizing.

01:43:05.640 You're trying to...

01:43:06.240 You're literally generalizing.

01:43:07.380 You're trying to get at me saying we're generalizing.

01:43:09.620 You have a point.

01:43:10.780 I'm generalizing at that point.

01:43:12.360 I shouldn't...

01:43:12.880 Okay.

01:43:14.840 The same way that...

01:43:16.020 That's my case.

01:43:16.260 The same way that, generally speaking, women are attracted to taller men...

01:43:20.920 Because most of them are taller?

01:43:22.940 Maybe where you're from, but 5'8", here is pretty...

01:43:26.160 Yes.

01:43:26.940 Most...

01:43:27.500 The average female height in the United States is 5'4". 1.00

01:43:30.880 The average male height in the U.S. is 5'9", 5'10".

01:43:33.960 And yes, most men are de facto...

01:43:36.320 They're just already going to be taller than you, so it's not a huge concern.

01:43:39.320 But you ask most women, they're not going to want... 1.00

01:43:43.320 Would it be their preference to date a tall guy?

01:43:45.240 Yes.

01:43:45.480 A lot of girls like tall guys.

01:43:47.740 And a lot of women are going to say, I don't want to date a guy that's shorter than me.

01:43:53.080 In the same way that women are attracted to tall men, men are attracted to women with a low body count.

01:44:02.240 I think that's not the same thing.

01:44:04.440 There are a lot of like...

01:44:05.320 There's a huge difference between those two topics.

01:44:07.620 You were like comparing physical attributes with like personality, right?

01:44:11.980 Yeah.

01:44:12.820 Like with actions and values.

01:44:14.200 Kind of different.

01:44:15.240 Anyways, we're going to move on.

01:44:16.380 We got to get the rest of the soup chats, guys.

01:44:18.200 You're killing me.

01:44:19.020 All right. 0.91

01:44:20.860 So, okay.

01:44:21.600 Hold on.

01:44:22.500 We have...

01:44:25.020 The fact of the matter is no guy wants to have an argument and attitude problem when he walks through the door.

01:44:29.800 Combative women become tiresome after a while. 1.00

01:44:33.560 You're a woman of God, right?

01:44:37.580 Yes.

01:44:39.140 So, do you know, there's this famous Bible verse.

01:44:43.960 I think it's Proverbs 2119.

01:44:45.880 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife. 1.00

01:44:50.380 Thoughts on that?

01:44:51.300 None?

01:44:54.840 I think it would be better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and naggy husband. 1.00

01:44:59.740 So, I'd agree.

01:45:00.660 Yeah.

01:45:01.240 I'd rather be alone than have a quarrelsome and naggy husband. 1.00

01:45:04.820 Yeah.

01:45:05.840 But are men typically known for nagging?

01:45:08.780 Yeah.

01:45:09.820 Okay. 0.65

01:45:10.360 I've met a lot of naggy men. 1.00

01:45:11.980 All right.

01:45:12.220 We got Mangu King here with the $10 Soup Chat. 0.87

01:45:14.140 Wanted to show some support, but this panel is pointless.

01:45:16.720 These are all kids with a vast generational gap with a topic at hand.

01:45:20.080 And for...

01:45:20.280 Oh, he's leaving.

01:45:20.900 Okay.

01:45:21.220 Sorry to see you leave.

01:45:22.360 Well, I mean, we got 30.

01:45:23.900 We got 26.

01:45:25.140 We got the $10.

01:45:26.360 Woo! 0.99

01:45:26.800 We got...

01:45:27.260 We got none.

01:45:29.620 Got none?

01:45:30.380 All right.

01:45:30.580 Thank you, man, for the Soup Chat.

01:45:32.740 Chaz with the $10 Soup Chat.

01:45:34.120 Thank you, man.

01:45:34.900 It's easier for women and easy, regardless of what it is, has never and will never be respected

01:45:39.460 in the same way as difficult.

01:45:41.580 Word?

01:45:43.120 What does it say?

01:45:45.140 The formatting's a bit funky on that one, but...

01:45:50.000 I agree.

01:45:53.380 It could be respected as difficult for guys.

01:45:56.900 I agree.

01:45:57.960 So...

01:45:58.240 They're not lying when they say it's harder to get on a girl.

01:46:02.100 Yeah.

01:46:02.560 Well, that's why the double standard kind of exists, because, like you said, it's very easy

01:46:07.960 for women to get laid. 1.00

01:46:09.440 It's fairly difficult for men to get laid.

01:46:11.500 So, who are we placing the blame on right now?

01:46:15.960 Yeah.

01:46:16.340 It's not really a blame game, but if we're going to have a conversation about, well, that...

01:46:21.180 That is a fact.

01:46:21.920 You're right.

01:46:22.720 It's unjustified that women, when they... 1.00

01:46:25.820 Or, sorry, when men sleep with a lot of girls, it's like, good job. 0.94

01:46:29.720 When women sleep with a lot of guys, they're shamed for it. 1.00

01:46:34.420 So, yeah.

01:46:37.280 All right.

01:46:37.740 We have Gus with the $10 Soup Chat.

01:46:40.000 The world runs in generalities.

01:46:41.600 The exception doesn't make the rule.

01:46:42.960 To be successful, you have to acquire traits like assertiveness, competitive, non-agreeable.

01:46:48.280 Then she won't have time to hang. 0.96

01:46:50.320 Very masculine.

01:46:52.200 We already talked about that, I think.

01:46:55.060 Thank you, Gus, for the Soup Chat.

01:46:56.760 Yeah.

01:46:56.980 I mean, it's not...

01:46:58.360 There's definitely women who are hustlers that they're still really feminine, but you 1.00

01:47:02.560 will start to adapt certain traits that may not necessarily be conducive to attract

01:47:09.980 a guy.

01:47:10.780 Not always, but it can happen.

01:47:14.340 We got Debbie on.

01:47:15.860 Gosh, thank you for the $10 Soup Chat.

01:47:17.020 When a woman starts earning more than the man, she automatically loses attraction towards 1.00

01:47:21.200 her partner.

01:47:22.040 Hypergamy kicks in immediately.

01:47:27.080 There's a lot to unpack there.

01:47:28.380 There's a lot to unpack there.

01:47:29.420 I'm not even familiar with that term.

01:47:31.300 Oh, I actually know what hypergamy is.

01:47:34.020 Do you want me to explain it to you?

01:47:35.480 Please do.

01:47:36.320 Okay.

01:47:36.760 So picture we have a scale of 10 men and 10 women.

01:47:40.820 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, all the way to 1.

01:47:44.400 Guys, girls.

01:47:47.400 Hypothetically, a 10 is supposed to go with a 10.

01:47:50.380 Man, 10.

01:47:51.640 Woman, 10. 1.00

01:47:52.800 9, men.

01:47:54.120 Woman, 9. 1.00

01:47:55.420 But hypergamy is there's crisscross. 1.00

01:47:58.300 There's a woman going for the higher ones. 1.00

01:48:01.080 And the men at the bottom at 1 get nothing.

01:48:04.060 That's like, so they have a perfect scale of explaining all of this.

01:48:08.180 Eric, can you pull up the chart?

01:48:09.300 Did you actually get that?

01:48:10.080 Because that makes me happy.

01:48:10.660 You're going to have to.

01:48:11.340 No, 100%.

01:48:12.340 Okay, I'm glad.

01:48:13.880 As soon as you started saying it, I put two and two together.

01:48:16.560 Yeah, so the men down at the three and the ones, hypothetically, like, they get nothing.

01:48:24.500 Because the women are just by default going for higher. 1.00

01:48:27.100 That's what it is.

01:48:27.320 It's usually with, like, income, like an income chart right there.

01:48:31.380 Usually.

01:48:32.040 I'm not saying it's always.

01:48:33.100 Yeah, that could be part of it.

01:48:33.860 No, you could be.

01:48:34.420 Yeah, you could be right, Tristan.

01:48:35.660 It's usually like a preference thing, income thing.

01:48:39.120 I don't know.

01:48:40.160 Just what happens, I guess.

01:48:42.580 Eric, let me know when you have it.

01:48:43.980 There's hypergamy one and hypergamy two in infographics.

01:48:47.140 Yeah, here's the chart.

01:48:50.120 I'm sorry.

01:48:50.880 That's just really funny.

01:48:52.480 Yeah, so this is basically what she was articulating.

01:48:54.620 Are you saying that these men get nothing?

01:48:57.100 Are you saying that only 30% of men get anything?

01:49:00.520 Well, it's actually worse.

01:49:03.160 So this is kind of on the left.

01:49:05.980 This is whom men would happily partner with. 1.00

01:49:09.840 On the right is whom women would happily partner with.

01:49:13.980 So what you basically have happening in the dating marketplace is 80% of women are chasing 0.55

01:49:19.000 after the top 10, top 20% of men.

01:49:22.400 And we know this because the way most people meet is online, on dating apps.

01:49:29.920 That's the majority way people are meeting in today's day and age.

01:49:33.400 And they've released the statistics on this.

01:49:36.040 And we know the stats on this.

01:49:38.080 Women only match with a very small percentage of men on dating apps. 0.93

01:49:43.040 And it's the top men that are getting almost all of the matches on dating apps.

01:49:48.360 So, yeah.

01:49:50.400 Do you understand that?

01:49:51.980 Because we were talking about the bigger pool and the smaller pool earlier.

01:49:54.860 Like, this is exact.

01:49:56.180 That scale, I didn't even know that that was a thing.

01:49:59.420 I don't know.

01:50:00.880 But, like, what for me comes to mind, why?

01:50:04.700 Because I see a lot of, like, for example, celebrity women. 1.00

01:50:08.580 They're that beautiful as fuck. 1.00

01:50:11.040 And they date. 0.99

01:50:12.900 Yeah, dudes out of the Hollywood or whatever.

01:50:16.220 They're, like, just regular dudes.

01:50:17.960 It's, like, almost, like, a really, like, strict line.

01:50:22.020 A lot of beautiful, really beautiful models date really, like, not attractive men.

01:50:27.000 Most of them date other celebrities.

01:50:29.660 Yeah, that's true.

01:50:30.680 For the most part.

01:50:31.360 Because they're, like, at their level or higher.

01:50:34.700 So, we're not talking about attractiveness anymore?

01:50:37.240 About, like, about status.

01:50:38.240 No, yeah.

01:50:39.120 I mean, status.

01:50:40.260 I mean, status.

01:50:41.060 It's not even status.

01:50:42.260 It's about, like, their income.

01:50:44.120 Yeah, status is huge, too.

01:50:45.300 But, like, that's what we were talking about earlier.

01:50:47.840 Could be, but, like, I also see it with, like, a lot of girlfriends of mine.

01:50:51.460 And they also date men that I would say are not as pretty as them.

01:50:54.580 Yeah, there's always going to be exceptions.

01:50:56.000 But there's always, like, also a general, like.

01:50:57.820 Would you say the same thing about your girlfriends?

01:51:00.560 What do you mean?

01:51:01.120 Do you have, like, a girlfriend that is, like, a girl friend?

01:51:04.720 So, like, an audience friend.

01:51:05.320 A girlfriend, yeah, a single girlfriend. 0.99

01:51:06.680 That, like, is dating a guy.

01:51:08.080 Would you say she's as pretty as him or whatever? 0.97

01:51:11.880 I don't know if that's too much to ask.

01:51:13.580 Oh, what do you mean?

01:51:14.340 Like, do I view my, how do I view my girlfriend?

01:51:16.980 No, no.

01:51:17.640 Oh, my.

01:51:18.240 No, no, no, no.

01:51:18.980 No.

01:51:19.520 Like, if you, I mean, a friend that is a girl.

01:51:21.920 Oh, okay.

01:51:22.560 Gotcha.

01:51:23.200 Not your girlfriend, obviously.

01:51:25.000 But, like, a friend that is a girl in a relationship.

01:51:27.680 Or do you have a lot of friends that are girls? 0.55

01:51:29.780 Yeah, I mean, there's exceptions.

01:51:31.520 I know a girl that's dating a guy that, like, was the provider for the relationship.

01:51:35.020 He, like, wasn't, he wasn't, like, a big, he didn't have any income.

01:51:38.580 I mean, about attractiveness.

01:51:39.480 And attractiveness?

01:51:40.480 Yeah, yeah.

01:51:40.800 There's dudes that, like, just have the riz.

01:51:42.660 They got a game and they somehow pulled off a girl that's, like, a 10 and they're, like, a 4.

01:51:47.500 Or, like, but, in general, that doesn't happen.

01:51:50.940 But maybe, Kitty, maybe we should talk about, like, how many guys you met that, like, actually do skin care.

01:51:57.520 And how many of your girlfriends who do, like, skin care.

01:52:01.060 I think, like, women take more care of themselves in general. 1.00

01:52:06.600 Like, they're more worried about, like, beauty.

01:52:09.740 Well, I would say women are actually harsher judges of physical appearance than men are. 1.00

01:52:14.680 Yeah.

01:52:15.040 Yeah, you guys have a lot more pressure, for sure, in that aspect.

01:52:18.160 That's why you guys take care of her probably a lot more.

01:52:20.180 Actually, it's harder for men to be physically attractive.

01:52:22.720 No, I mean, like, they have a lot more pressure between girls. 0.97

01:52:25.300 Obviously, guys, like.

01:52:26.360 Thank you, Tristan.

01:52:27.180 That's very true.

01:52:28.480 Yeah, between girls.

01:52:29.100 That's why they got the whole, they'll make, well, and they have makeup, you know.

01:52:31.680 That's why girls are, like, more inclined to, like, do the surgeries, you know. 1.00

01:52:35.200 Because they got to compete with all these girls who are now getting surgeries. 1.00

01:52:37.840 Bigger boobs, bigger butts, you know. 1.00

01:52:39.500 While we're on the topic of surgeries, I think it's absolutely terrible. 0.99

01:52:43.180 That women get labia plasties. 1.00

01:52:46.880 I think it's unfortunate. 1.00

01:52:48.480 Is that to make your pussy fatter or smaller? 1.00

01:52:51.200 It's to, they cut the labia. 1.00

01:52:55.160 And I like, outies are cool.

01:52:58.600 I like, out, like, I just think it's unfortunate.

01:53:01.480 That is horrible.

01:53:02.460 Yo, can we get all labia matter in the chat? 0.89

01:53:04.240 No, women are shamed, though. 1.00

01:53:05.620 Women do get shamed. 1.00

01:53:07.020 For having a fat pussy? 1.00

01:53:08.760 Yes. 1.00

01:53:09.660 I've heard having a fat pussy is a good thing. 1.00

01:53:11.960 It is a good, I think it's a good thing. 1.00

01:53:13.520 I think it's a great thing as well.

01:53:15.100 Do you, do you have a?

01:53:20.260 That's funny. 1.00

01:53:20.940 Do you have a fat pussy? 1.00

01:53:22.780 What the fuck? 1.00

01:53:24.800 You asked me. 1.00

01:53:27.200 Well, I'm a male.

01:53:29.020 So, I know it's 2023.

01:53:30.420 I know things are kind of, I know things are, you know, a little funky in 2023, but I'm 0.98

01:53:35.660 a male, so I don't have a vagina, if that's what you're asking. 1.00

01:53:38.900 I do have a fat pussy. 1.00

01:53:40.840 I have a big, fat cat. 1.00

01:53:46.060 Brian, stop.

01:53:47.620 Oh, my God.

01:53:50.700 This is a long sound bite.

01:53:53.540 Should we just look into each other's eyes?

01:53:55.240 Okay, um, nice.

01:54:00.560 Okay, so we got it.

01:54:01.500 Yeah, I find it really sad that people are getting labia surgeries.

01:54:04.480 That's really sad.

01:54:04.980 Unfortunate.

01:54:05.500 Brian, yeah, someone used the roast beef and turkey bologna in the chat, man.

01:54:09.400 Yo, no, no, all labia matter, no shaming.

01:54:12.120 How dare you?

01:54:13.320 Yeah, of course. 0.99

01:54:13.940 Dickheads. 0.97

01:54:14.420 Okay. 0.98

01:54:14.660 It's horrible.

01:54:16.340 Because I, you know.

01:54:16.900 I don't think any of us in here are like, yeah, cut off your labias. 0.90

01:54:20.320 All labia matters in the chat. 0.98

01:54:25.360 ALM.

01:54:26.140 ALM.

01:54:26.820 Yeah, well, I look like roast beef.

01:54:28.920 I don't think anyone should be shamed for their goods, you know, man or woman.

01:54:33.440 Yeah, exactly.

01:54:33.920 I agree, Brian.

01:54:34.460 That's a beautiful take.

01:54:35.340 On that topic, Greta Thunberg said something very mean to Andrew Tate. 1.00

01:54:40.920 We know you're a slut for him. 1.00

01:54:42.660 Whoa, whoa, whoa. 1.00

01:54:43.380 A slut for him? 1.00

01:54:44.520 Yeah, you're a dirty little slut for him. 1.00

01:54:46.640 Whoa. 1.00

01:54:47.540 Whoa.

01:54:48.380 We should talk about that, Brian.

01:54:50.640 Well, we'll react to a video, then we can talk about that.

01:54:52.960 Brian, are we really going to react to someone who's like in jail right now?

01:54:56.560 The Matrix.

01:54:57.640 He's getting out tomorrow, maybe.

01:54:59.320 The Matrix attacked him.

01:55:00.380 We hope not.

01:55:01.060 Guys.

01:55:01.640 You know what?

01:55:02.440 Oh, my.

01:55:03.080 Innocent until proven guilty.

01:55:06.180 In Romania, though?

01:55:07.440 Well, he's going to get railroaded because Romania is probably corrupt.

01:55:11.660 Yo, El Romania in the chat.

01:55:15.240 Because, honestly, he has some criticisms for the U.S.,

01:55:19.400 but if he had been in the U.S., he would be out on bail right now,

01:55:22.140 whereas he's – I don't think they have a bail system.

01:55:24.320 Didn't he actually go to Romania because he thinks the laws are not as strict in Romania

01:55:30.700 as in the U.S.?

01:55:31.640 Didn't he say that?

01:55:32.280 Yeah, it's pretty ironic.

01:55:33.140 Yeah, I know.

01:55:33.480 He did say he wanted access to the corruption.

01:55:36.760 Yeah.

01:55:36.980 So, he kind of – he put himself in that position.

01:55:39.440 I will say he made some inculpatory statements, some incriminating statements, certainly.

01:55:47.640 Okay, we got Coach Harry Wilmington.

01:55:50.040 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:55:50.980 Body count matters because almost any woman can just say, 1.00

01:55:53.300 have me, and they'll get a hookup. 1.00

01:55:55.440 Men have to work to some kind of status to get more hookups. 1.00

01:55:59.140 That's why women get judged more. 1.00

01:56:01.440 That's right, Coach Harry.

01:56:02.560 Yeah, it's pretty easy for women to get laid, whereas – 1.00

01:56:06.680 I mean, quality versus quantity, right?

01:56:09.640 Yeah.

01:56:10.540 What do you mean?

01:56:10.860 Yeah, but some women – 1.00

01:56:11.680 Like, we're sure we can have a lot, but, like, sure, it's easier.

01:56:14.380 Yeah, but some women don't even care. 1.00

01:56:16.120 They're just like, oh, screw body count.

01:56:18.480 I like quantities, but, like, hurt.

01:56:19.300 Yeah, screw body count.

01:56:20.020 I'm just going to be celibate.

01:56:21.820 A lot of people say that.

01:56:23.160 No, no, no.

01:56:23.720 They say screw body count. 1.00

01:56:24.740 They're just like, all right, I'm going to rack them up.

01:56:26.540 Oh, okay.

01:56:28.220 I guess that's their life choice.

01:56:29.940 Yeah.

01:56:30.500 Is it not?

01:56:30.900 It's their choice, but –

01:56:31.940 It's not a choice.

01:56:33.340 It's not a woman I would go for ever. 1.00

01:56:35.140 Well, would you apply those same standards to yourself?

01:56:38.720 Yeah, I was also a quality.

01:56:40.640 I didn't just, like, rack up a whole bunch of, like, bodies.

01:56:43.540 Okay.

01:56:44.140 If that's a standard that you apply to yourself, then I think it's fair that you apply it to other people.

01:56:48.360 Yeah.

01:56:48.820 Yeah, there's nothing wrong with that.

01:56:51.300 What?

01:56:51.480 I guess my issue would be, like, men like Andrew Tate who are, like, supposedly running through girls caring about body count when they don't really apply that to themselves. 0.98

01:57:00.640 That's kind of a dumb standard.

01:57:01.800 Well, a lot of high-value men, a lot of men that make a lot of money like that, they feel they have the – I don't know. 0.98

01:57:09.540 I guess they don't have the say, but they usually just don't really care.

01:57:13.860 That's why Andrew Tate does not – just doesn't care.

01:57:16.140 He's just like, all right, if a girl wants to be here, like, he's going to provide for her.

01:57:19.980 But if she doesn't want to be here, she can, like, get out.

01:57:22.260 So, I'm not saying I agree with him, but that's how he feels it.

01:57:26.820 Well, also, men and women tend to have a different sexual strategy.

01:57:31.580 And, again, to, like, bring it back – why did she laugh?

01:57:36.860 To bring it back to evolution, like, men, we want to spread the seed. 0.86

01:57:42.200 Because we could get a new woman pregnant multiple times a day if we had access. 0.98

01:57:49.340 Whereas a woman, you can only get pregnant once in that last nine months. 1.00

01:57:53.760 So, that kind of explains, for evolutionary reasons, also why women tend to be more selective about who they partner with. 1.00

01:58:00.600 And, like, also evolutionary, we try to find someone who's going to, like, create – raise the baby with, too.

01:58:07.020 Yeah, I love how we're talking about evolution now.

01:58:09.560 How it's finally valid.

01:58:10.920 We'll talk about it.

01:58:11.560 It's my favorite topic.

01:58:13.280 I mean, it's, like, you can't deny evolution.

01:58:16.300 You can't say it's 2023 and things have changed.

01:58:18.020 No, I don't deny evolution.

01:58:19.340 And I think it's just not the best argument if you, like, say – because if you say nature and, like, evolution, we also see a lot of bad things happen, evolutionary. 0.70

01:58:30.040 Like, evolutionary, we can also say men can rape women. 0.79

01:58:36.240 Yeah, that's exactly what happened, evolutionary. 0.74

01:58:39.160 And, like –

01:58:39.840 We don't have an evolutionary desire.

01:58:41.980 The people – men don't have an evolutionary desire to do that. 0.98

01:58:44.260 It's just fucked up people who, like, do that. 0.98

01:58:46.920 Exactly. 0.96

01:58:47.120 Okay, moving on.

01:58:47.760 We got the super chat here.

01:58:49.400 Come honored with the $10 super chat.

01:58:50.980 Men age like wine. 0.99

01:58:52.500 Chicks age like milk.

01:58:53.820 His words, not mine.

01:58:54.980 Okay.

01:58:55.660 We have Lawrence Bullock.

01:58:58.260 Thank you for the $20 super chat, man.

01:58:59.580 Appreciate it.

01:59:00.060 Because sex is easy to get for women, when women has a lot of different partners, it's not respected. 1.00

01:59:05.840 I think we were pretty much just talking about that.

01:59:07.740 Thank you for the big $20 super chat, man.

01:59:09.360 Appreciate it.

01:59:10.580 Leonardo Nocaprio, Canadian, $10.

01:59:12.280 Thank you, man.

01:59:12.880 Every time German girl talks, I think of that final scene in Downfall, where Bruno Gans' character looks at the ground and says to his generals, 0.99

01:59:19.740 the war is lost.

01:59:21.020 Der Krieg ist verloren. 0.89

01:59:23.880 Can you – how do you say that?

01:59:25.400 Der Krieg ist verloren. 0.89

01:59:26.920 Oh, wow.

01:59:28.900 Nice.

01:59:29.520 Okay.

01:59:31.040 Just curious, like – oh, never mind.

01:59:34.980 Okay.

01:59:35.560 Blitzkrieg? 0.53

01:59:36.280 What are your thoughts on that?

01:59:37.460 I don't know that movie.

01:59:38.460 Oh, okay.

01:59:38.960 Never mind.

01:59:39.440 Moving on.

01:59:40.720 Actually, wait.

01:59:41.440 I have something.

01:59:42.960 It's World War I.

01:59:44.900 Where's the –

01:59:45.760 You mean the hat?

01:59:46.600 The hat?

01:59:47.200 It's right there.

01:59:50.560 Okay.

01:59:51.180 I love costumes.

01:59:52.480 This is a World War I helmet.

01:59:54.840 Okay?

01:59:55.080 It's not World War II.

01:59:56.080 Okay?

01:59:56.520 So it's safe, kind of.

01:59:58.160 It's safe.

01:59:59.060 It's safe.

01:59:59.960 How much does someone have to super chat for you to wear this?

02:00:03.540 Oh, my God.

02:00:04.460 It'll really bring out the color of your eyes, by the way.

02:00:09.200 Oh, I feel that's –

02:00:10.240 We'll make the hair prop more.

02:00:11.740 No, no, no.

02:00:12.140 It's World War I.

02:00:13.040 I don't know.

02:00:13.660 It's a pickle haba.

02:00:15.540 I know.

02:00:16.040 Pickle haba is that kind of thing.

02:00:16.800 Pickle haba.

02:00:17.620 How do you say it?

02:00:18.440 Pickle haba.

02:00:19.520 Guys, how much do they have to super chat for you to wear this?

02:00:22.520 How much do you want?

02:00:26.040 $69.

02:00:27.060 How about that?

02:00:28.000 Any 69?

02:00:29.040 Let's say 100.

02:00:30.060 100?

02:00:30.320 I want my word.

02:00:32.280 All right.

02:00:32.940 All right.

02:00:34.040 Yeah.

02:00:34.700 Okay.

02:00:35.180 I really want the word.

02:00:36.220 Really, I don't want the word.

02:00:38.040 Well, that was World War II.

02:00:39.700 I really –

02:00:40.380 I don't think I really want the word.

02:00:42.280 Sorry.

02:00:42.340 It's too late.

02:00:42.980 You've already –

02:00:43.880 It's a legally binding contract.

02:00:45.580 You've made the offer if someone pays you.

02:00:47.140 You kind of –

02:00:48.000 Oh, if he pays me?

02:00:49.520 No, no.

02:00:49.880 They pay the show.

02:00:51.260 Then you kind of –

02:00:54.320 I think you just did an offer for me.

02:00:56.760 So, like, if they pay me, obviously.

02:00:59.640 I want to wear the veil. 0.94

02:01:01.280 Didn't some Germans go – 1.00

02:01:03.680 Okay.

02:01:03.900 Never mind.

02:01:04.660 Never mind.

02:01:06.900 Pause.

02:01:07.860 Pause.

02:01:08.520 All right.

02:01:08.760 We have –

02:01:09.760 Let's see.

02:01:11.500 Mr. K with the $10 soup chat.

02:01:13.020 Is that Adolf Mialer's concubine?

02:01:17.400 What's that?

02:01:19.740 That's a good question.

02:01:20.580 I don't know.

02:01:21.260 We're going to move on.

02:01:22.080 Miss Cement with the $10 soup chat.

02:01:23.640 30 years old who is a virgin or 22 with higher partners because it's very common in immigrant communities to wait until marriage.

02:01:32.560 However, both them and their families never accept a guy with a past.

02:01:37.860 So, is this directed at the guys asking this?

02:01:40.280 30 years old who's a virgin or 22?

02:01:44.320 I'd probably take the 30-year-old.

02:01:46.900 I think he's asking the girls.

02:01:50.880 I think that's directed at the guys.

02:01:52.700 Because he's saying it's very common in immigrant communities to wait until marriage.

02:01:56.720 30 years old who's a virgin.

02:01:57.620 I guess we can all answer that.

02:01:58.800 Yeah, we can all answer that.

02:01:59.580 It is common for immigrant families to withhold that.

02:02:02.500 So, I understand that.

02:02:04.520 It doesn't matter what age you lose your virginity at.

02:02:07.940 It does not matter.

02:02:10.680 All right.

02:02:11.440 Yo, we have Zentience here.

02:02:13.880 Big $50 soup chat.

02:02:15.240 Thank you, man.

02:02:15.960 Woo-hoo! 1.00

02:02:17.200 Grats me, boys!

02:02:19.440 Boom! 0.99

02:02:20.460 Thank you, man.

02:02:21.120 Appreciate it.

02:02:21.520 Successful men, low 30 foes.

02:02:23.240 Women are a representation of the man in social settings. 1.00

02:02:26.980 If the woman is a 30 foe, her husband's peers know he lacks good judgment.

02:02:33.500 And thus, he can't be trusted.

02:02:35.840 He loses business opportunities.

02:02:37.960 He only gets embarrassment.

02:02:41.180 Good point, Zentience.

02:02:42.760 Zentience dropping some gems, some knowledge.

02:02:46.260 If I had a hoe, I wouldn't show them off either. 1.00

02:02:49.940 You go, girl.

02:02:51.320 You go.

02:02:52.500 Okay.

02:02:53.220 We have Lawrence Bullock with the subsequent $20 soup chat.

02:02:56.200 Hey, thank you, man.

02:02:57.260 A man earns money for the security of his family.

02:02:59.240 A woman earns money for her own security. 1.00

02:03:02.300 What's that saying?

02:03:03.220 It's something like, our money.

02:03:07.180 His money is our money.

02:03:09.240 My money is my money.

02:03:13.160 Wait.

02:03:13.840 No, no, no.

02:03:14.960 His money is our money.

02:03:17.480 Her money is her money. 1.00

02:03:19.280 I think that's the saying.

02:03:20.780 Something like that.

02:03:22.540 All right.

02:03:23.060 We have Zentience with another.

02:03:25.580 Dude, thank you, man.

02:03:26.340 So much for the support.

02:03:27.260 Hold up.

02:03:29.240 Grats me, bud.

02:03:30.460 Thank you, man.

02:03:30.900 Appreciate it.

02:03:31.540 As a man in medicine, I can tell these 304s about pair bonding.

02:03:34.580 If she's been with five plus men, her ability to pair bond is broken.

02:03:38.100 Why would any high value man claim a 304 who indiscriminately gave her body away?

02:03:42.140 She wouldn't value him if she doesn't value herself.

02:03:47.740 Yeah, you can't value anyone if you don't value yourself.

02:03:51.060 I agree with that part.

02:03:52.400 Also, I just.

02:03:54.540 Okay.

02:03:56.180 That was an aggressive stand up.

02:04:00.200 She's coming back.

02:04:01.640 Someone mentioned something about someone who's a virgin or who hasn't had a lot of experience when they get married.

02:04:10.300 There's a temptation to cheat.

02:04:12.040 Actually, the studies show that if you've only had like your partner, the person you're married to, that's the only person you've had sex with.

02:04:20.420 Those are actually the relationships and marriages that are the least likely to end in divorce.

02:04:25.740 Whereas as you start getting higher and higher, the more sexual partners you've had, premarital sexual partners you've had, the greater likelihood of divorce.

02:04:33.440 Wouldn't you think that person that like has only been their only partner and they're married, they would have a lot more temptations though?

02:04:40.120 No, not necessarily.

02:04:41.040 They've never experienced like anyone else.

02:04:43.620 Because I feel like that is a lot more prone to like have cheating in that relationship.

02:04:48.540 I don't know.

02:04:49.100 You were, we were talking about it earlier.

02:04:50.880 If they've never been with anyone else and that there have been no relationship with this one person, don't you feel that they'd be more prone to like cheating?

02:04:57.780 I mean, I think so.

02:05:00.400 I don't know.

02:05:01.000 I feel like in general, we should have experiences.

02:05:06.180 So you, not that you have to go out there and sleep with everybody, but have different, like, but also understand for the people that only have had one partner because then they don't know what's out there.

02:05:19.360 Then they don't need the need.

02:05:21.320 But then also sometimes it's just, it's a society, right?

02:05:23.800 Like people that are around you, they're like, wow, you've been just with this one person.

02:05:28.120 Why didn't we go somewhere?

02:05:29.200 Like it's, you're also your values.

02:05:31.860 Yeah.

02:05:32.060 Okay, we have a question here from Stifler.

02:05:35.300 Ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten.

02:05:39.020 We're going to start with none.

02:05:42.580 Go ahead.

02:05:43.820 None.

02:05:47.420 Seven and a half.

02:05:50.480 Ten.

02:05:51.960 Queen.

02:05:52.700 You're so real for that.

02:05:54.980 I'm a very confident person.

02:05:56.780 I'd say maybe a seven.

02:05:59.560 Maybe an eight and a half.

02:06:02.060 I would say seven.

02:06:04.540 Seven.

02:06:05.740 Eight and a half.

02:06:09.580 Six.

02:06:10.380 Six point nine on a good day.

02:06:12.400 Okay.

02:06:12.640 Thank you, Stifler.

02:06:13.080 Six point nine.

02:06:13.320 Great choice of numbers.

02:06:14.940 Okay.

02:06:17.440 So you're a ten.

02:06:19.980 I feel confident enough to say it.

02:06:22.740 You know, like, I don't, like, I could be a ten for somebody or I could be an eight.

02:06:27.520 Like everybody has different their looks.

02:06:29.700 I feel like I'm confident enough.

02:06:31.100 Like, I got reached a point that I'm confident no matter what people say.

02:06:34.980 I'm not going to make me feel, like, bad.

02:06:37.700 Like, I'm not.

02:06:38.400 That's just.

02:06:39.880 No, it's good.

02:06:40.860 I don't think anyone should be, like, you know, get criticism.

02:06:44.480 Get criticism for viewing themselves as a ten.

02:06:47.820 Yeah.

02:06:48.120 I will give credit.

02:06:49.240 I think it's wrong.

02:06:49.760 I will give credit to the panel because oftentimes we get every single girl. 0.97

02:06:54.640 You're a ten girl. 0.87

02:06:55.400 It's just a ten.

02:06:56.720 You're sling.

02:06:57.240 Sorry, everyone.

02:06:58.400 I know all the time.

02:06:59.780 All the time.

02:07:01.180 All the time.

02:07:01.920 But actually, I want to ask you two a question.

02:07:04.500 So you're both.

02:07:05.400 How long have you guys been in the U.S.?

02:07:06.680 Because you're both from Brazil. 0.98

02:07:07.920 Yeah.

02:07:08.280 Right.

02:07:08.460 What would you say are some differences when it comes to dating between Brazil and the U.S.?

02:07:14.380 Oh, my God.

02:07:15.220 My favorite topic.

02:07:17.400 I feel like in Brazil.

02:07:18.000 I have to get up for a sec, but you can.

02:07:20.160 Go ahead.

02:07:20.820 I feel like in Brazil, people are more passionate.

02:07:22.900 Way before he asked how long we've been here.

02:07:25.040 I've been 11 years here.

02:07:26.940 Oh, I've been, like, for three years here.

02:07:29.840 Three years?

02:07:30.800 Going to four now.

02:07:32.800 So what was the difference between relationships over there and here?

02:07:36.000 I feel like in Brazil, people are more passionate.

02:07:39.740 So I would get this complaint a lot.

02:07:41.900 Like, when I kiss people, they're like, oh, my God, you kiss so strongly.

02:07:45.760 But it's not, like, strong.

02:07:47.260 It's, like, passionate.

02:07:48.460 I was more passionate.

02:07:49.760 They got more spice in the Brazilian men. 0.99

02:07:52.380 Yes.

02:07:53.120 I think so.

02:07:54.840 And then, basically, like, I remember when.

02:07:56.720 You're just very loving and very affectionate.

02:07:59.220 You know, like, in Brazil, when we say hi, we give kisses.

02:08:02.180 And then, maybe, here, it's always, like, complicated.

02:08:04.700 How about, like, the types of guys, though?

02:08:06.480 Have they been, like, the same ethnicity?

02:08:07.940 Because that also has a lot to do with it, obviously.

02:08:10.360 You know, has it been the same ethnicity, guys?

02:08:12.280 I'm sure there were Brazilian men that you're talking about, right?

02:08:15.220 Yeah.

02:08:15.600 There's probably not too many Brazilian men here that you've, you know, hooked up with.

02:08:20.080 Or, I guess, kissed.

02:08:22.500 Yeah.

02:08:24.340 Yeah, that's true.

02:08:25.580 Like, I think.

02:08:26.720 Yeah, my ex-husband was American.

02:08:28.500 And I remember the first time that he was, like, oh, like, give me a kiss.

02:08:34.140 And then, I was, like.

02:08:34.560 He's from here.

02:08:36.000 You met him here?

02:08:36.860 Yeah.

02:08:37.220 Oh, okay.

02:08:37.640 So, like.

02:08:38.940 No, we met in Brazil.

02:08:40.220 Oh, okay.

02:08:40.940 Sorry.

02:08:41.560 But then, like, he asked me to kiss him.

02:08:43.980 And I was, like, making out with him.

02:08:45.580 And he's, like, no, it's just a kiss.

02:08:47.100 So, like, in Brazil, we don't have, like.

02:08:50.080 When we say a kiss, it's, like, a kiss with everything you have.

02:08:52.520 It's the culture is different.

02:08:54.240 100%.

02:08:54.600 Yeah.

02:08:54.760 The culture is a lot different.

02:08:55.540 So, like, you never, like, in Brazil, it's someone like, oh, can you give me a kiss?

02:08:59.460 You're never going to do that.

02:09:01.120 Yeah.

02:09:01.360 Because that's, like, what you do with your, like.

02:09:03.660 I don't know.

02:09:04.060 No, I know what you mean.

02:09:04.780 I'm from Costa Rica.

02:09:05.840 So, that culture is kind of similar.

02:09:07.520 There's a lot more passion there.

02:09:08.520 Yeah.

02:09:08.900 Here, obviously, in America, it's not really like that.

02:09:11.320 Yeah.

02:09:11.820 Latinos, you know, they're a little more passionate over their kisses.

02:09:14.920 But could you, you would say the same thing, though?

02:09:16.780 Yeah.

02:09:17.140 Yeah, for sure.

02:09:17.600 Yeah, same thing.

02:09:18.940 What else?

02:09:19.600 I guess it just has to do with, like, the culture.

02:09:21.140 Here in America, it's a little different.

02:09:22.720 You know, I guess that whole passionate part that you're talking about, a lot more common

02:09:26.820 down there in Brazil.

02:09:27.820 Yeah.

02:09:28.940 There are more differences, right?

02:09:33.320 I mean, culturally, it's just basically mostly culture.

02:09:37.940 It's different.

02:09:41.840 Did you say values?

02:09:43.340 They're, like, talking with their eyes.

02:09:44.680 I think, I think, like, I don't know.

02:09:48.120 I think in sex, like, when I think about sex, men in Brazil, they take more care of 0.99

02:09:56.400 the woman's pleasure.

02:09:59.040 Really?

02:09:59.740 That's at least how I felt.

02:10:01.320 Like, I think, like, in the U.S., people sometimes, some people sometimes can be more

02:10:06.500 self-centered and, like, more focused on their own pleasure.

02:10:09.640 I mean, like, they're just trying to get the nut in, and they don't care about the girl's

02:10:14.000 pleasure.

02:10:14.600 Yeah.

02:10:15.080 And then in Brazil, I feel like more often, men are more, like, at least from my experiences, 0.87

02:10:21.500 men were more focused on me.

02:10:24.340 Or, like, at least you have a balance, like, okay, now is your turn.

02:10:28.120 Now is my turn.

02:10:29.640 Wow.

02:10:29.940 I mean, my philosophy is the girl comes first. 1.00

02:10:32.740 Yeah.

02:10:33.060 That's cute.

02:10:33.480 That's my philosophy.

02:10:34.940 That's great.

02:10:36.360 Well, I think also, if you're just, like, hooking up, or it's just going to be, like,

02:10:40.360 a fling or a one-night stand, a lot of guys probably are not going to be concerned.

02:10:44.720 And I don't know if those were your experiences, but, like, probably in more casual sexual encounters,

02:10:51.260 men are less, probably less interested in that, in pleasing the girl, because it's, like... 0.98

02:10:58.680 Yeah, but that's what I'm saying, like, even in casual, like, Brazilian guys, I feel like

02:11:03.240 they are more, like, careful about it.

02:11:06.180 Like, here in the U.S., I felt it, like, when it's casual, it's just, like, okay, that's

02:11:11.800 me, like, come here and do your stuff.

02:11:14.480 But, like, in Brazil, there is, like, this transactional thing, like, I'm doing, I'm giving

02:11:19.180 you pleasure, and you're going to give me pleasure, and we're both going to be happy.

02:11:22.960 I guess Brazilian men are just more romantic, more passionate, they're more passionate.

02:11:31.900 Anyways, okay, let's get these other soup chats here.

02:11:36.660 Did we do this one?

02:11:39.040 Did we do this one?

02:11:40.560 Yeah, we did.

02:11:42.140 Yeah.

02:11:42.960 Oh, yeah, we're...

02:11:44.060 Yeah, we did.

02:11:46.100 Sorry, guys, I'm trying to get caught up.

02:11:48.140 I think this was the last one from Zentience.

02:11:50.080 We got Frankie K with the $10 soup chat.

02:11:53.880 Most men prefer to know they fathered the offspring they're expected to nurture.

02:11:57.680 Low body count equals less emotional trauma slash ex-boyfriend comparisons and expectations.

02:12:03.540 We want a woman we can share new experiences with.

02:12:08.800 Same for a woman, then, like... 1.00

02:12:12.440 Don't women want experienced men, though? 1.00

02:12:14.900 We want experienced men in bed when they know how to do things, but, like, we don't want

02:12:22.240 the, like, trauma because...

02:12:24.100 Oh, okay.

02:12:25.260 Yeah.

02:12:26.560 We got Chaz.

02:12:27.760 Yo, thank you for the subsequent $10 soup chat.

02:12:29.760 I see the one cent there, too, by the way.

02:12:31.520 I think that's three cents total, so big spender here.

02:12:34.580 Thank you, man.

02:12:34.980 Appreciate it.

02:12:35.540 Would they date a man they found out brought them to the same restaurant as 20 other women?

02:12:40.780 Men place a value on body count.

02:12:43.240 If you've been around simply for pleasure, it's harder for us to feel special.

02:12:47.340 Yeah, we can ask this.

02:12:49.000 So, let's say you're on a date with a guy, and you...

02:12:52.780 He goes to the bathroom, right?

02:12:54.520 And the waiter comes up to you, and he's like,

02:12:56.480 Hey, he's brought, like, 30 other girls here the past six months.

02:13:01.380 Maybe the...

02:13:01.840 I don't know.

02:13:02.020 The waiter's a chick and is looking out for you or whatever.

02:13:04.200 Doesn't say anything bad about him, but just says,

02:13:06.120 You're number 31 at this restaurant.

02:13:08.880 Are you going to feel a certain type of way about that?

02:13:11.400 Yes.

02:13:12.240 Yeah, I think it really depends on the date, then.

02:13:14.900 Is the date, like, focused on just, like, having sex?

02:13:18.560 Or is the date focused on being, like...

02:13:20.120 That's how I would feel, too.

02:13:21.320 Being, like, in a relationship.

02:13:22.740 It's like, if they want to, like...

02:13:25.640 If both of the partners have the goal to, like, keep going,

02:13:29.340 becoming a couple or something like that,

02:13:31.680 or if it's just about, like, sex,

02:13:36.480 I think I feel like if the waiter comes up to me, 0.55

02:13:39.200 yeah, that you're the 31st, 0.79

02:13:41.220 I feel like it's probably only for sex, the date.

02:13:45.380 And maybe men feel that same way when it comes to body count. 0.87

02:13:50.520 Because a promiscuous woman is less likely... 1.00

02:13:53.840 But, like, in hookup culture, 0.87

02:13:55.700 wouldn't you say that there can be both men and women

02:13:58.420 that only want sex?

02:13:59.780 Sure. 0.97

02:14:00.320 But that's exactly what we talk about.

02:14:02.640 So, if a guy just wants to hook up, 0.97

02:14:06.580 just wants to have sex, 0.90

02:14:08.100 body count is not going to be particular...

02:14:10.760 It's not going to be as important.

02:14:12.180 Although, I think if you were to ask most guys,

02:14:15.380 even for a one-night stand,

02:14:18.120 would you rather get with a girl who's been with 50 guys

02:14:20.580 or get with a girl who's a virgin?

02:14:23.720 Which, I mean, that's probably exceedingly rare

02:14:26.100 that a girl who's a virgin 0.98

02:14:27.000 is going to do a one-night stand with you. 0.93

02:14:28.460 But it's possible.

02:14:29.880 But most men are going to pick the virgin, 0.99

02:14:31.940 even for a one-night stand.

02:14:34.120 Yeah.

02:14:34.900 I wouldn't pick the guy then.

02:14:36.280 Really?

02:14:36.780 Well, men and women are different, though.

02:14:38.740 Yeah.

02:14:39.320 Men and women are different, so...

02:14:41.740 The virgin would not know what to do. 0.99

02:14:43.700 I mean, I guess they don't really have to do much.

02:14:45.740 Girls... 1.00

02:14:46.040 I guess they don't really have to do much.

02:14:47.240 Girls don't really, when it comes to sex. 1.00

02:14:49.060 Yeah.

02:14:50.100 I mean, you don't really...

02:14:51.660 Sorry, what GigaChad's mean?

02:14:54.220 GigaChad?

02:14:54.840 Yeah.

02:14:57.900 GigaChad is...

02:14:59.660 Eric, can you Google a photo of GigaChad?

02:15:02.080 Is, like, Chad the guys with the big jawline?

02:15:04.880 I'm going to pull it up.

02:15:05.760 I'm going to pull it up.

02:15:06.440 You're smart.

02:15:06.960 You're smart.

02:15:07.400 You know.

02:15:08.460 Let me know when you have that, Eric.

02:15:09.820 Eric, let me get these soup chats while we're...

02:15:13.140 Okay, wait a minute.

02:15:15.580 Wait.

02:15:17.600 Do you have it?

02:15:18.980 It might take...

02:15:19.520 Gus with the $10 soup chat. 0.99

02:15:20.960 This whole bullshit narrative about women not making money back in today needs to stop. 0.99

02:15:25.320 The first woman millionaire was Madam C.J. Walker in 1915, a black woman. 0.99

02:15:29.600 Even woman voted to not want to vote. 1.00

02:15:31.940 Oh, that's...

02:15:34.260 I think he should check his facts.

02:15:38.620 Source, maybe.

02:15:39.860 You can go ahead and pull it up, Eric.

02:15:41.220 I don't know about that.

02:15:44.680 Yeah, this is GigaChad.

02:15:46.420 Eric, can you mouse wheel control up?

02:15:49.280 Yeah, control mouse wheel. 0.84

02:15:51.260 Sorry.

02:15:52.700 Wait.

02:15:53.980 Yeah, there you go.

02:15:55.140 Scroll down a bit.

02:15:56.720 This is a $10 in my eyes.

02:15:57.760 He's not real.

02:15:58.920 GigaChad.

02:15:59.520 Boom, look at those.

02:16:00.060 How is this TV show with Timmy Turner called?

02:16:05.160 With those fairies. 1.00

02:16:06.860 Timmy Turner?

02:16:07.560 The fairies?

02:16:08.900 We don't use that term anymore.

02:16:10.140 Oh, you mean the green one and the pink one?

02:16:12.200 Yeah, the pink and the green one.

02:16:14.880 Fairy old parents?

02:16:16.360 Something like that.

02:16:17.540 Fairy old parents. 0.81

02:16:18.540 Yeah.

02:16:19.100 There's like this one fairy that has a huge jawline. 0.83

02:16:23.720 He reminds me of that.

02:16:24.980 He's like a Giga fairy. 0.99

02:16:26.920 Okay, go say.

02:16:27.680 Eric, can you do center zoom?

02:16:31.120 What is that?

02:16:31.840 Listen, the only GigaChad in my book is Greg Plitt helping you stay fit.

02:16:37.520 Can we get some RIPs in the chat for Greg Plitt?

02:16:40.940 That is insane.

02:16:43.040 Whoa.

02:16:44.400 RIP for Ziz, bro.

02:16:45.780 RIP for Ziz. 0.99

02:16:46.660 Yo, settle down there. 0.98

02:16:47.900 Jesus Christ, Tristan. 0.89

02:16:50.280 Dude, how did Ziz get up here? 0.99

02:16:52.160 That's a fucking 50 DKP minus. 1.00

02:16:54.740 What the fuck was that shit? 1.00

02:16:57.900 Wait, what? 1.00

02:16:58.560 How did Ziz even get one?

02:16:59.660 Why did he get his own?

02:17:00.800 Oh, he's the homie. 1.00

02:17:02.360 He's Ziz. 0.91

02:17:03.200 Yo, hey, dude.

02:17:04.440 I'm DMing chest bra.

02:17:06.060 Do you know chest bra?

02:17:06.820 Yeah, I do.

02:17:07.660 He's coming to California.

02:17:08.800 Oh, no.

02:17:09.360 So I might try to get him on the podcast.

02:17:12.100 Yeah.

02:17:13.260 All right.

02:17:14.300 Yo, we got Bruce BC with the, I believe that's Filipino pesos.

02:17:18.880 500, 500.

02:17:20.320 Can anyone confirm in chat?

02:17:22.320 Yo, thank you for the 500 Filipino pesos.

02:17:24.920 Appreciate it, man.

02:17:25.360 A simple answer to why we care if our lady partner makes more is because we want to feel 0.98

02:17:30.680 appreciated for a lifetime of hard work.

02:17:33.620 The appreciation makes us feel amazing from accomplishments that are usually

02:17:38.980 ignored.

02:17:41.100 That's a good point.

02:17:43.160 Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:17:44.760 When a woman feels some type of way, when a fact statement is said, she uses sign language, 0.99

02:17:50.120 shame, insults, guilt need to be right because the shoe fits.

02:17:53.480 That's why Danone wanted to change subject?

02:17:57.500 Confirm or deny?

02:17:58.940 Oh, he's talking about when you guys were fighting and it made me sad.

02:18:02.580 Oh.

02:18:04.220 I don't remember what we were talking about.

02:18:05.920 I just didn't want to talk about it anymore.

02:18:08.980 That's me right now.

02:18:11.920 We were talking about evolution.

02:18:14.160 Oh, no.

02:18:15.180 I just thought you guys were never going to agree.

02:18:18.100 So I didn't really like to watch that.

02:18:20.280 I feel like I got my point through.

02:18:21.660 I already got a point through.

02:18:22.540 Yo, we got reckless gaming with a Canadian $10.

02:18:24.760 A tweet came out October 11th that the US big tech put pressure on Romanian government

02:18:29.440 to lock Tate up.

02:18:30.800 Whether he was guilty or innocent by end of 2022, beginning of 2023, this was all part

02:18:36.180 of the Matrix plan.

02:18:38.320 Oh, wow.

02:18:39.020 Conspiracy theories.

02:18:41.840 That's going to be interesting.

02:18:44.820 I think Tate's getting railroaded.

02:18:47.120 I think they're railroading him.

02:18:49.580 Apparently, two of the alleged victims came out and said, yeah, we were doing webcam stuff

02:18:57.340 for him, like, we, what?

02:19:01.460 They literally straight up said, no, he did not sex traffic us.

02:19:04.460 And he still.

02:19:04.840 Yeah, they literally, they went on an interview.

02:19:07.200 They were two of the named victims, apparently, went on Romanian TV or something.

02:19:11.760 And I don't know if it was Romanian, whatever.

02:19:13.500 Said, no, we were engaged in business with him.

02:19:16.860 We were doing webcam for him.

02:19:18.200 It was all, anyways, he was like, anyways, whatever.

02:19:22.560 Who knows what the full story is?

02:19:24.320 Let's let the details come out.

02:19:29.220 Innocent until proven guilty.

02:19:31.260 All right, we have Shane M. with the $10 Soup Chat.

02:19:33.340 Men seek status. 0.76

02:19:34.380 Have a young, attractive, loyal woman that other men have not, men have not and cannot have

02:19:40.420 is what men want.

02:19:43.080 Any response to this?

02:19:45.120 To the bane?

02:19:46.480 Men, make sense.

02:19:47.520 I just spoke Portuguese, but, okay.

02:19:50.480 Tudo bem.

02:19:51.140 Tudo bem, tudo bom.

02:19:53.260 Yeah, that's all I know.

02:19:54.520 Okay.

02:19:55.920 Tudo bem.

02:19:56.860 Yeah.

02:19:57.280 Yeah.

02:19:58.180 It means, how are you?

02:19:59.600 Aw.

02:20:00.580 Yeah.

02:20:00.920 Or it can also mean, like, everything is right.

02:20:04.260 Yeah, the only words in German that I know are Lufthansa.

02:20:09.280 Aw.

02:20:10.080 I know there's Luftwaffe.

02:20:13.920 Nein.

02:20:14.720 Luftwaffe.

02:20:15.300 The Luftwaffe.

02:20:16.120 Yeah.

02:20:16.680 It's a gun.

02:20:18.600 No, it's the Air Force, I think, during, the German Air Force during World War II.

02:20:25.860 Luftwaffe.

02:20:26.660 Luftwaffe.

02:20:27.480 It was, like, the winning sequence.

02:20:30.660 Huh?

02:20:31.520 Wait, what?

02:20:32.140 Isn't it, like, a German military tactic or something?

02:20:36.880 Oh, well, Blitzkrieg was the lightning war.

02:20:39.600 Oh.

02:20:39.940 Yeah.

02:20:40.420 How is it, like, ich liebe dich?

02:20:42.840 Ich liebe dich.

02:20:43.860 Ich liebe dich.

02:20:45.640 Ich liebe dich.

02:20:46.920 Yeah.

02:20:47.860 That's cute.

02:20:48.200 Pretty good.

02:20:48.820 Pretty good.

02:20:49.340 Thank you.

02:20:50.600 Yo, Dabayan Ghosh, thanks for the $10 soup chat, man.

02:20:52.880 Appreciate it.

02:20:53.720 Miss Cement, thanks for the $10 soup chat. 1.00

02:20:55.220 I was asking the guys, LOL.

02:20:56.800 Also wanted to give perspective to the conversation regarding me with high body count.

02:21:00.500 I come from an Islamic faith, and it's sinful. 1.00

02:21:05.620 Haram. 0.98

02:21:07.060 Haram!

02:21:07.460 For both.

02:21:08.380 By the way, I am a new sub.

02:21:09.740 Hey, welcome.

02:21:10.320 Thank you for subbing.

02:21:11.260 Thank you for all the soup chats.

02:21:12.200 Really appreciate it.

02:21:13.340 Miss Cement. 1.00

02:21:14.920 Thank you.

02:21:16.000 Ricardo Fosto, thank you for the...

02:21:18.940 Is it Ru?

02:21:21.760 What is it?

02:21:22.380 Does anyone know what currency this is?

02:21:25.620 Heis.

02:21:26.160 Heis.

02:21:27.080 What?

02:21:27.740 Heis.

02:21:29.480 Brazilian?

02:21:29.940 The Brazilian? 0.81

02:21:30.800 Oh, okay.

02:21:31.880 The...

02:21:32.400 Okay.

02:21:33.420 Right?

02:21:34.100 Heis.

02:21:34.620 Heis.

02:21:35.240 Heis dollar?

02:21:36.400 No.

02:21:36.700 But why is there a dollar sign?

02:21:38.700 It's just like a money sign.

02:21:40.240 Yeah, he's a money sign.

02:21:41.040 Oh, okay.

02:21:41.840 I'm from Brazil.

02:21:42.660 The Canadian also has a sign.

02:21:44.380 I'm from Brazil, and I can confirm we're all giga chats.

02:21:47.840 Isn't like...

02:21:49.060 Aren't they...

02:21:49.540 Isn't there basically January 6th happening in Brazil?

02:21:52.820 Like, didn't they storm the capital of Brazil or something?

02:21:56.080 Yeah.

02:21:56.820 Yeah, I saw that on the news.

02:21:57.900 Anyways.

02:21:59.020 All right, we have Mr. K with the $10 soup chat.

02:22:00.900 Would they date the revered stud muffin known as Robert Lewandowski, the OG giga chat?

02:22:06.700 I see what you did there, Mr. K.

02:22:09.200 Thank you.

02:22:10.360 Would you guys date Robert Lewandowski?

02:22:12.540 Actually, Eric, can you pull up...

02:22:14.700 Can you pull up...

02:22:16.340 Just Google Robert Lewandowski.

02:22:19.600 Lewandowski, my bad.

02:22:21.040 We'll ask the girls if they would date him. 0.98

02:22:23.240 Wow.

02:22:23.760 Guys, first off, thank you so much for all the super chats.

02:22:27.240 I feel like it really directed the conversation tonight.

02:22:31.060 All right, we got through all of the ones that have come in thus far.

02:22:35.380 I want to finally actually get into some of my conversation topics here.

02:22:41.080 Let me know...

02:22:41.920 Yeah, this is Robert Lewandowski, guys.

02:22:44.860 Would you date him, yes or no?

02:22:47.000 It's not my type.

02:22:48.580 No.

02:22:48.960 No, neither.

02:22:51.560 Kitty?

02:22:52.360 Wait.

02:22:53.040 Kat?

02:22:55.200 I would eat that up in a heartbeat.

02:22:56.760 You know, they say that...

02:23:00.460 They say that...

02:23:02.300 Wait, hold on.

02:23:02.960 Let's stay celibate. 0.66

02:23:05.000 I...

02:23:05.600 Apparently, people think I look like him.

02:23:14.080 Brian, what are you doing after this?

02:23:15.860 How you doing?

02:23:16.800 Okay.

02:23:17.600 Let's see.

02:23:18.140 We got a...

02:23:20.100 Here, I'll just get it while we have it.

02:23:21.840 Yo, Mr. Men, thank you for the $10 shoot chat.

02:23:23.500 I mean men, not me.

02:23:24.680 Men with high body count.

02:23:25.520 It was a typo.

02:23:26.520 Hey, no worries.

02:23:26.980 I think we got the gist of it.

02:23:28.400 But hey, thank you for the subsequent $10 shoot chat.

02:23:30.540 Appreciate it.

02:23:31.380 Okay.

02:23:32.260 Woo.

02:23:33.640 We got through a lot.

02:23:34.700 Oh, thank you, Eric, for that.

02:23:36.380 Yo, shout out to Tosa. 0.99

02:23:37.480 Thank you, Jord Froh, for the follow.

02:23:40.440 Thank you, Lon, for the follow.

02:23:41.700 The Prophet, for the follow.

02:23:44.540 K7, thank you for the follow.

02:23:45.660 Brian, what does Haram mean?

02:23:48.540 Haram?

02:23:49.080 Yeah, what does that mean?

02:23:50.880 Haram!

02:23:51.320 Yeah, what is that?

02:23:52.700 Haram.

02:23:53.020 Haram.

02:23:53.520 It's like...

02:23:55.360 It's like...

02:23:57.100 Come on, use the words, Brian.

02:23:58.220 What does it mean?

02:23:59.440 It's forbidden.

02:24:01.200 Something that's forbidden.

02:24:02.560 Oh, okay.

02:24:02.980 But isn't it in their specific culture?

02:24:05.840 Islamic law.

02:24:06.840 Yeah, it's like...

02:24:07.900 I think you say, if you're sinful, you're Haram.

02:24:11.100 Oh, okay.

02:24:11.940 It's like sin or blasphemy.

02:24:14.920 It's a Haram. 0.98

02:24:16.180 Haram.

02:24:16.640 Okay, cool.

02:24:17.980 Yeah.

02:24:18.460 Okay, so...

02:24:19.980 I know you wanted to talk about polygamous relationships, right?

02:24:27.600 Or are you over that?

02:24:29.900 You told me before the show that you were keen to talk about polygamous relationships or open relationships, right?

02:24:37.620 That doesn't seem like a fun conversation with you now.

02:24:40.460 Well, I'm happy to engage in a conversation about it.

02:24:46.300 Hmm.

02:24:47.280 I mean, we can talk about it.

02:24:48.900 What do you think about it?

02:24:50.020 What do I think about them?

02:24:51.160 Well, I mean, I think people are free to have whatever legal consulting relationships they so choose.

02:25:00.660 Do I think that it is...

02:25:03.320 For example, do I think that a polygamous relationship would be a good framework for raising children? 0.99

02:25:08.520 I don't.

02:25:08.940 And some people might disagree with me, but I don't think that that would be good for children.

02:25:15.300 Not because of necessarily any abuse, but I just...

02:25:18.180 I don't think that that's...

02:25:20.200 I think society, civilization functions best with monogamy. 0.52

02:25:28.200 I agree.

02:25:30.380 Yeah, we live in a society.

02:25:32.680 I agree.

02:25:33.640 Wow, that was deep.

02:25:34.480 Okay.

02:25:35.520 I'm a very deep person, yeah, I know.

02:25:37.440 You are a nun. 0.56

02:25:39.300 And a woman of God.

02:25:41.800 So, yeah.

02:25:43.400 What do you guys think about it?

02:25:45.180 I don't really have, like...

02:25:47.060 Everybody is...

02:25:48.180 Everybody can do whatever they want.

02:25:50.560 Right?

02:25:50.880 It's not a fun conversation.

02:25:52.680 That's why I got divorced. 0.98

02:25:55.360 Oh, wait.

02:25:56.240 Did you guys have an open relationship?

02:25:57.600 Actually, we were, like, monogamically married, and then he figured out that he was non-monogamous, like, halfway through the marriage.

02:26:10.280 Oh, no.

02:26:10.380 So, what did he ask you?

02:26:12.900 He was just, like, would you be open to have an open relationship?

02:26:15.420 No, he's, like, hey, I'm, like, he started, like, getting, I mean, I'm not gonna talk too much about him, but, like, he was, he was not himself.

02:26:25.060 He was, like, kind of depressed, and I was, like, hey, what is going on?

02:26:28.520 And he's, like, I think, I'm feeling more, I'm more trapped.

02:26:32.140 So, I feel, and, like, and then I was, like, you know, go to therapy, figure out about yourself, and then he figured out that he was, like, non-monogamous.

02:26:40.380 So, I'm super afraid of having regrets in my life.

02:26:46.880 So, I was, like, you know what?

02:26:48.920 I never had an open relationship before, so maybe before just pulling, like, pulling the plug, let's try it.

02:26:56.380 And we did try for six months, but, like, it was too much for me.

02:27:01.280 So, you guys, for a period of six months, you opened up the relationship for both of you?

02:27:05.500 Yeah.

02:27:06.020 So, were you also dating other guys?

02:27:08.340 Yeah.

02:27:08.900 Okay.

02:27:09.120 That's when we also, like, so, we were moving houses, too.

02:27:13.860 So, that's when, like, I decided to move, and, like, because we were in different cities.

02:27:19.940 I was, like, okay, we're in different cities, so maybe we can try like that, because then I'm not gonna.

02:27:25.500 I feel weird about it, like, to go in Trader Joe's and meet someone you hook up with there.

02:27:31.800 Hell no, I could never, I could never, I could never, I could never be in that type.

02:27:36.100 It was hard, it was hard.

02:27:36.940 But then, like, then how, like, if, if you, like, if I divorced him before trying the open relationship.

02:27:44.140 I mean, you, I honestly, I think your route of trying it was, like, the best you could do.

02:27:47.640 So, honestly, props to you.

02:27:48.720 A lot of women would just be, like, what the hell did you just ask me? 1.00

02:27:51.400 No, we're done, like, divorce, right there.

02:27:53.480 Yeah, yeah.

02:27:53.780 But, like, we both loved each other so much.

02:27:56.820 There was just, like, these things that was different between us.

02:28:00.300 That I was, like, if I never try it, I'm gonna be forever, like, oh, what if I had tried?

02:28:06.240 And what if I liked it?

02:28:08.120 Oh, that's.

02:28:09.600 I didn't.

02:28:10.200 Six months, though?

02:28:11.960 You held out.

02:28:13.620 Yeah.

02:28:14.100 You held out.

02:28:15.200 It was a lot. 1.00

02:28:16.520 Damn. 1.00

02:28:17.820 Damn. 1.00

02:28:18.140 She was married. 1.00

02:28:18.760 She wanted to commit to him.

02:28:20.880 Yeah.

02:28:21.580 That's still.

02:28:22.240 You would do a, you would do an open relationship like that?

02:28:25.420 If I really love someone.

02:28:26.920 Close.

02:28:26.980 Into the mic.

02:28:28.240 If I really love someone and then that's what they wanted and they thought that's what was

02:28:33.060 best for us, maybe it could work out.

02:28:37.180 At some point, like, I felt that it was just what he needed.

02:28:40.500 Like, I saw his, like, energy, like, drained.

02:28:43.660 And I was, like, okay, he's really unhappy right now.

02:28:46.220 What happened in those six months?

02:28:47.960 Was he a lot happier?

02:28:48.980 Was he, like, better?

02:28:50.340 Yeah.

02:28:50.560 So, the thing is that, like, I was afraid of opening the relationship because I was, like,

02:28:57.500 you know, I'm gonna fall in love with someone else and I'm gonna, like, get, like, not interested

02:29:02.380 in him anymore.

02:29:03.320 That was your biggest worry? 1.00

02:29:04.520 I'd be, like, I'd be, like, oh, he's fucking another girl, like, while I'm married with him, 0.99

02:29:09.820 you know? 0.99

02:29:10.160 But, like, for him, it was, like, how he was saying, like, it was, like, sex was just,

02:29:15.420 like, sport at some point.

02:29:16.920 So, he could separate a lot.

02:29:18.940 Like, he's, like, I love you and, like, I'm devoted to you, but, like, I can't have sex

02:29:26.460 with other people.

02:29:27.220 Like, I can't have a chat.

02:29:28.960 So, for him, it was different.

02:29:30.000 And, um, but then, um, yeah, I think I'm talking too much about him, but, like, for

02:29:36.820 me, I kind of understood this part when I had it.

02:29:40.580 I was, like, okay, like, I'm going out with all those guys, but my husband is still the

02:29:46.660 bar.

02:29:47.240 Like, he's still right there.

02:29:48.960 How, do you know how many girls he smashed while you guys were still together?

02:29:52.780 No.

02:29:53.720 So, you get it, I know you're talking about it.

02:29:54.800 Do you have a sense, like, was it, like, three girls a week or what? 0.99

02:29:59.260 Is he, like, was your ex-husband, was he a fucking Chad? 0.98

02:30:02.080 Like, a giga Chad? 0.99

02:30:04.300 What does he mean?

02:30:05.420 A giga Chad.

02:30:06.540 Like, I know, I know him, but, like, what does he mean?

02:30:09.160 Like, just, like, good looking, he has game, like, can he get, can he get girls?

02:30:13.900 She married him.

02:30:14.880 Okay.

02:30:15.260 I married him.

02:30:16.240 He's, like, gorgeous.

02:30:18.940 Yeah.

02:30:19.480 He's, like, handsome, he's super charming, he's...

02:30:23.480 But you guys would never talk about, like, the other people that would be, you know, on

02:30:27.540 the side.

02:30:28.500 We talked about for, like, during the open relationship, we would talk about, but, like,

02:30:34.380 I didn't want to talk that much.

02:30:36.600 It was just, like...

02:30:37.420 No, it's obviously, it's not an easy topic to talk about with you, you know, the person

02:30:41.560 you're married with. 0.99

02:30:42.400 Like, hey, yeah, I just had sex with this one girl. 1.00

02:30:45.220 Yeah. 0.99

02:30:46.140 Oh, my God.

02:30:47.100 No, I could never.

02:30:48.060 I mean, from the guy's perspective, the moment a girl even tries to bring up open relationship, 0.99

02:30:54.220 it's a wrap.

02:30:55.540 Yeah.

02:30:55.940 Goodbye.

02:30:56.720 Yeah.

02:30:57.300 It's done.

02:30:58.100 I don't know if it's different for girls, but if a girl... 1.00

02:31:00.880 If my girlfriend comes to me and says, Brian, I want to open up the relationship, you're 0.99

02:31:04.140 already cheating, or you want to fuck other guys, we're done. 0.99

02:31:08.560 If I had a boyfriend and he came up with this idea, for sure, but, like, he's one of my 0.99

02:31:17.340 soulmates in life, like, he's still...

02:31:19.800 You loved him.

02:31:20.800 I loved him, but, like, we are also, like, so the same person, like, with different hairs,

02:31:25.900 basically, and, like, monogamous, non-monogamous.

02:31:28.460 Yeah.

02:31:29.520 But we are the same person, like, Kitty met him, like, we have just so much chemistry,

02:31:34.340 we like the same thing, we have the same energy level, we like to hang out with the same people.

02:31:39.180 So when you were at that level of compatibility, like, why would you not try if you feel like

02:31:44.820 someone needs it, you know?

02:31:47.440 And that's why I tried, but then that's also, like, when we both realized that he was

02:31:53.040 grieving up out of the relationship, he was happy where he was, and I wasn't, so that's

02:31:58.620 when I was, like, okay, we should get divorced.

02:32:03.080 Word?

02:32:04.820 Rip, can we get some, can we get some RIPs in the chat for, oh, it's cold, Eric, can you

02:32:11.700 close the door for us?

02:32:14.080 Here, let me just, while he does that, let me just get these, Eric, are you able to highlight

02:32:18.060 that membership?

02:32:20.720 Oh, this is a, okay, it's a renewal.

02:32:22.640 Yo, XDM, thank you for the renewed membership, man, appreciate it.

02:32:26.780 Shalom, Brian, I haven't been on chat because I've been looking for Entertain Me, I'll be

02:32:30.360 back soon, you should give us a new year fit check, girls. 1.00

02:32:34.340 We can do a fit check, I think we got, what is the trigger for that?

02:32:39.660 Fit check, there's a fit check trigger, it's in the description, it's pricey.

02:32:46.240 Okay, thank you, man, appreciate it, good to see you back.

02:32:48.940 Fine to entertain me for me.

02:32:50.260 Okay, we have Chaz with the $20 soup chat.

02:32:53.820 Thank you, man, for the big $20 soup chat.

02:32:56.020 If any of the panel wants a relationship in the future, what preliminary action are they

02:32:59.820 taking to avoid being a part of the predicted 40% of women that will be single by that time?

02:33:06.040 Do you mean by the time they're 45?

02:33:07.340 Morgan Stanley study predicts bleak future.

02:33:12.820 Yeah, there's some sort of study that says by the year 2030, something like, I don't know

02:33:17.980 what, I forgot the age range, but something like majority of women will be single without 1.00

02:33:23.180 children in their 40s or something like that.

02:33:26.060 I don't, I don't know.

02:33:27.560 So, yeah, good times, good times.

02:33:32.560 Okay, so what I want to do is I want to open it up to you guys.

02:33:35.640 Is there something dating related that you guys want to get off your chest, maybe a question

02:33:43.080 that you have or a frustrating, a frustration with dating, anything advice, so you ask for

02:33:51.200 advice, something you want to get off your chest that frustrates you with dating.

02:33:55.480 Actually, we'll start over here with Madison, or we could do, we could do Tristan.

02:34:05.980 I got most of it off my chest, honestly, I feel like we got to get a conversation going

02:34:10.420 about everything, so.

02:34:12.120 Okay, Madison, anything?

02:34:13.740 No?

02:34:14.140 Yes?

02:34:14.680 No.

02:34:15.160 Okay, what about you?

02:34:16.020 Any?

02:34:16.840 No, not really.

02:34:17.900 Anything?

02:34:18.440 Okay.

02:34:19.220 I feel like I hate when someone asks you on a date on Tuesday, like, oh, let's go

02:34:25.480 hang out on Sunday, and then you're like, sure, and then you never talk again?

02:34:31.200 Like a ghosting?

02:34:32.840 Yeah.

02:34:33.220 Not like ghosting, because then on Sunday, they're like, hey, what time should I pick you

02:34:37.080 up?

02:34:37.280 And I was like, wait, are you still there?

02:34:39.760 Like, you know, like, just don't engage in the conversation?

02:34:43.200 Oh, I'd never follow up.

02:34:45.080 Get to know me through text, why am I going to leave my house, dress up, go with you to

02:34:50.980 a movie theater to get to know you?

02:34:53.500 I know.

02:34:54.400 Yeah.

02:34:54.680 Don't you, man?

02:34:56.140 Yeah, I really would love with, like, more, if, like, texting before going on a date.

02:35:02.600 Only because I have, like, really huge anxiety before dates.

02:35:06.220 I'm just like, oh, what should I say?

02:35:08.180 I don't know them.

02:35:09.220 I don't really know, like, what to talk about.

02:35:11.820 So, like, I actually love texting before going on a date.

02:35:15.320 Yeah, me too.

02:35:16.160 Makes me feel more secure.

02:35:17.900 I like a phone call before a date.

02:35:20.140 Oh, yeah.

02:35:20.540 That's cute.

02:35:21.120 Yeah.

02:35:21.360 That's cute.

02:35:21.860 It's good because how someone conducts themselves over text message, it's not always a great

02:35:29.800 field because people can be real clever when they're texting you and they have time to think

02:35:34.460 about a response.

02:35:35.140 But conversationally, in person, it could be totally different.

02:35:39.280 Also, if you call the person beforehand, it's sort of, one, it reduces the risk of getting

02:35:44.200 catfished.

02:35:44.860 So, if I call a girl and it's a dude's voice, that's probably not a chick. 0.57

02:35:50.600 And then the other thing...

02:35:51.700 Luckily, not yet.

02:35:56.160 Luckily.

02:35:56.740 Fingers crossed.

02:35:57.500 Fingers crossed.

02:35:58.440 The other thing is, is that you can, instead of going through with a time and commitment

02:36:03.860 of actually meeting up in person, yes, it does take extra time to have the phone call,

02:36:08.780 but you can feel each other out having the phone call.

02:36:11.440 So, maybe after the phone call, you realize, whatever it may be, maybe you didn't feel

02:36:18.060 a connection over the phone or you didn't like the way they spoke, their voice even.

02:36:25.260 Maybe you detected, hmm, I felt a little weird about them or whatever.

02:36:30.400 You can opt out for both men and women. 0.90

02:36:32.800 So, and I've definitely had phone calls where I've spoken to the girl and after the phone

02:36:36.800 call, I was like, hey, didn't really feel it.

02:36:40.640 I, you know what?

02:36:41.980 No harm, no foul.

02:36:43.880 Let's just not meet up for a date.

02:36:46.060 And, yeah.

02:36:47.880 No, physical, physical.

02:36:48.960 Go ahead.

02:36:49.300 Go ahead.

02:36:49.800 Oh, I have just like one friend that like we were going on a date and we call each other

02:36:54.660 and we used to talk for hours on the phone.

02:36:57.520 And then when the actual date happened, like the physical chemistry wasn't there.

02:37:02.980 And now we became like great friends.

02:37:05.100 Oh, you did that?

02:37:06.240 Yeah.

02:37:06.740 Okay.

02:37:07.140 That's too much.

02:37:08.040 I think, I mean, when I say have a phone call, I think 30 minutes, you know.

02:37:12.580 No, but that's because like we like to talk to each other so much and we were texting so

02:37:16.560 much that we were just like, okay, let's call each other all the time.

02:37:19.460 Like we were both calling.

02:37:21.860 Yeah.

02:37:21.940 Do you think it was because you guys maybe were both nervous because you're like, whoa,

02:37:26.980 I really like this person.

02:37:28.440 And then it took so long for you to finally meet in person.

02:37:31.160 There was like a lot of pressure for on both of you to, and maybe it just created some

02:37:37.660 awkwardness or something.

02:37:39.540 No, I think it's just like, like we match on the apps on like Wednesday and then until

02:37:45.660 like Saturday night, we had like four days in between and we started talking so much.

02:37:50.700 But then like when we were together, you know, like the kiss was weird and we were like,

02:37:57.280 okay, let's be friends and just talk.

02:37:59.600 Sure.

02:38:00.040 Okay.

02:38:01.780 Okay.

02:38:02.660 Any, anything for you?

02:38:04.960 Something, advice you want to ask about a dating situation or maybe there's something

02:38:08.780 frustrating, something that frustrates you about dating or?

02:38:13.160 No, not really.

02:38:13.960 I just like, because you asked them about Brazilian guys and like how it's different and I actually

02:38:20.680 like kind of, I think hookup culture here in America is a lot like different.

02:38:26.660 Yeah.

02:38:26.740 It's like a lot more hookups.

02:38:28.980 It's not really a thing in Europe, I think.

02:38:31.360 Really?

02:38:31.840 No.

02:38:32.460 I mean, obviously.

02:38:33.460 I don't know those Dutch girls. 1.00

02:38:34.400 I mean, it's a thing.

02:38:35.140 The Dutch girls. 0.77

02:38:35.960 It's way bigger here.

02:38:37.380 Yeah.

02:38:37.560 It's way bigger here.

02:38:38.380 It's like if you go on a date.

02:38:39.940 I agree with that.

02:38:40.560 I don't know if it's expected from you to have sex on the first date.

02:38:43.000 Wait, have you guys mainly stayed in Santa Barbara though?

02:38:45.820 Yeah.

02:38:46.320 Oh.

02:38:46.840 It's probably, is it Santa Barbara?

02:38:48.680 I mean, we live next to Ivy.

02:38:50.500 We're in Ivy right now.

02:38:52.000 Yeah, I get it.

02:38:53.140 I get it. 0.97

02:38:53.320 Santa Barbara is pretty degenerate. 0.93

02:38:55.160 Oh, yeah. 0.97

02:38:55.720 Yeah, it could be Santa Barbara.

02:38:57.740 I only were in like.

02:38:58.560 I mean, Southern California is pretty bad.

02:39:00.040 Yeah.

02:39:00.520 You go to LA, it's the same thing.

02:39:02.420 Miami's pretty bad too.

02:39:04.580 Have you guys been to Miami?

02:39:06.320 We were just there.

02:39:07.300 Oh, okay.

02:39:08.840 Yeah.

02:39:09.200 Yeah, I've also been there.

02:39:09.880 We were just there like last week?

02:39:12.020 Yeah.

02:39:12.500 We came back last Thursday.

02:39:14.240 How was it?

02:39:15.720 So much fun.

02:39:17.180 So, okay.

02:39:17.980 You're saying that in Germany, there's not as much of a hookup culture.

02:39:21.820 Whereas here, when you came to the US, it was much more common.

02:39:25.740 And I think that's because the United States is leading the world into the pit, the downfall

02:39:34.140 into degeneracy.

02:39:36.200 That's what I think.

02:39:38.360 Degeneracy?

02:39:39.340 Degeneracy.

02:39:39.980 Okay, maybe.

02:39:40.600 Well, we have a nun here. 0.99

02:39:41.700 Maybe she can explain.

02:39:43.820 What's up?

02:39:44.800 I think she's comatose.

02:39:46.100 What?

02:39:47.180 What?

02:39:48.800 Degeneracy.

02:39:49.420 Explain degeneracy.

02:39:49.840 Explain.

02:39:50.200 About what?

02:39:50.780 About the hookup culture.

02:39:53.940 Oh, it's fully degenerate.

02:39:55.880 Fully degenerate.

02:39:56.880 Yeah.

02:39:57.300 Throw it away.

02:39:58.260 Get it out of my face.

02:39:59.200 I don't want to see it.

02:40:00.220 Get out of my face. 0.99

02:40:00.720 Get out of my face. 0.99

02:40:01.560 It's just like going downhill.

02:40:02.100 Oh, okay.

02:40:02.740 Falling apart.

02:40:04.740 Okay.

02:40:05.800 Any...

02:40:06.160 What about you?

02:40:08.280 Any dating frustrations?

02:40:10.680 Men are pissing you off in some way that you want to rant about?

02:40:13.820 Lack of effort.

02:40:15.100 Lack of effort.

02:40:16.180 Interesting.

02:40:17.020 Can you tell us a bit more about that?

02:40:19.380 I think I've been always dating for the past 10 years and I was...

02:40:24.200 And I got off of my relationship last year.

02:40:26.820 And it was just so frustrating to actually meet people that wanted something serious.

02:40:31.320 Everybody just treats you as an option, sadly.

02:40:35.840 You know?

02:40:37.940 Or even not having the basic needs of being a man.

02:40:44.500 You know?

02:40:45.020 The basic needs of being a man?

02:40:47.660 I don't know.

02:40:48.160 Like opening the car door.

02:40:49.940 I mean...

02:40:50.380 Like I...

02:40:52.580 So one time I went on a date and the guy did open the door for me.

02:40:56.820 I was like, wow.

02:40:57.600 I was impressed.

02:40:58.080 And I told my roommate.

02:40:59.000 She's like, Kitty, you shouldn't be impressed.

02:41:00.400 That's like the minimum that she'd do.

02:41:02.160 I don't go out with guys that don't do that.

02:41:04.360 But the majority, don't do it.

02:41:06.860 Like little acts of things.

02:41:09.360 Flowers.

02:41:10.520 Flowers?

02:41:11.880 Not...

02:41:12.320 Flowers.

02:41:13.360 That's an example.

02:41:14.660 Hey, we're in 2023.

02:41:16.180 Not exactly that.

02:41:16.700 Wait, no.

02:41:16.960 You don't send flowers? 1.00

02:41:18.320 Fuck no. 1.00

02:41:19.400 You don't give flowers? 1.00

02:41:20.420 I've never sent a girl flowers. 0.53

02:41:21.920 Oh, my ex-boyfriend sent me flowers.

02:41:22.520 Ever.

02:41:22.680 I've never sent a girl flowers. 0.53

02:41:23.280 Is this why you're single?

02:41:24.440 Probably.

02:41:26.360 But why?

02:41:27.480 Why send flowers?

02:41:29.080 I'm not exactly with flowers.

02:41:29.600 It's about thinking about the person.

02:41:32.440 It's like...

02:41:32.700 You can only be a gentleman with ladies. 0.99

02:41:34.620 It's like you're going to the grocery store.

02:41:36.560 Imagine like...

02:41:37.700 What do you mean?

02:41:38.320 You never had a lady? 0.99

02:41:39.620 Well, that's the...

02:41:40.200 You never had a lady? 0.99

02:41:41.180 I don't agree with that.

02:41:41.200 The girl would feel so special and loved.

02:41:42.940 I've given a guy flowers before.

02:41:44.580 Give me flowers.

02:41:45.700 It's not about flowers.

02:41:46.940 I want flowers.

02:41:47.420 It's about the act of thinking about that person and caring about her.

02:41:50.340 Showing them that you care.

02:41:51.660 It's another like five minutes like, hey, I was thinking about you.

02:41:54.620 I bought you flowers.

02:41:55.300 What do guys don't get this treatment?

02:41:59.180 We're all about equality, right?

02:42:00.520 So why...

02:42:02.520 Depends on who you date.

02:42:03.580 I think that most guys won't get flowers until they die.

02:42:07.360 That's very sad.

02:42:08.160 I was actually about to say that.

02:42:11.780 That's very sad.

02:42:12.460 I find that very sad.

02:42:13.640 I don't like that.

02:42:14.420 It's deeply...

02:42:15.520 It makes me sad.

02:42:16.180 It's hauntingly sad.

02:42:17.360 I've given many guys flowers before.

02:42:18.680 I like to do it.

02:42:19.560 I like to see the draw in their eyes.

02:42:20.960 You're also a nun and an outlier and celibate. 0.97

02:42:23.180 I have TV.

02:42:24.260 I've given two flowers.

02:42:26.660 Okay.

02:42:27.100 Given flowers?

02:42:28.000 But I'm a romantic Brazilian girl.

02:42:30.480 Aww.

02:42:32.120 Do guys want flowers, though?

02:42:34.700 What do they want, Brian?

02:42:35.600 It'd be a nice gesture.

02:42:37.360 It would be a nice gesture.

02:42:38.420 Some food.

02:42:39.000 Food.

02:42:39.400 Food is good.

02:42:40.600 Food.

02:42:41.540 It takes a few.

02:42:42.380 Door die.

02:42:43.120 Cooking, right?

02:42:43.680 So acts of service.

02:42:44.680 That's your love language.

02:42:46.200 Yeah, everybody has different love.

02:42:47.500 I feel like every gender, I was like...

02:42:48.780 I mean, every gender, I guess, in 2023.

02:42:51.440 The genders have like roles, you know? 1.00

02:42:52.860 Like, the woman, I guess, could cook for the man. 1.00

02:42:55.280 The man can bring her flowers, you know?

02:42:57.040 Men, obviously, opening the door.

02:42:58.620 You said that there was not that many men that opened the door for you, though?

02:43:01.460 Okay, but were those hookups?

02:43:02.620 Or were those dudes you were trying to date?

02:43:04.760 No, my ex-boyfriend's none were like that.

02:43:07.080 Oh, my God.

02:43:09.120 Open the door for a girl? 1.00

02:43:10.760 Yeah.

02:43:11.020 That doesn't have to be all the time.

02:43:12.220 Oh, my God, Brian!

02:43:13.000 Why are you reacting like it?

02:43:14.660 I just made flowers.

02:43:16.120 Brian is making a chat.

02:43:18.360 Open the door for a girl. 1.00

02:43:20.240 You know, you are hilarious.

02:43:22.280 Like, your reaction to that?

02:43:24.460 I was like, what?

02:43:24.960 That is so funny.

02:43:25.960 Open the door?

02:43:27.140 Maybe do that in the next day.

02:43:28.120 Open the door?

02:43:28.920 Like, why would I do that for that harpy? 1.00

02:43:32.040 The next day, like, sing so crazy.

02:43:34.500 Calling the next day?

02:43:35.380 What do you mean?

02:43:35.640 Yeah.

02:43:35.880 Like, no, I'm just making fun of you because you were like so shy about that.

02:43:39.880 You texted the day after?

02:43:41.460 Yeah, calling the day after?

02:43:43.420 Like, those women called me? 1.00

02:43:44.600 Wait a week?

02:43:45.220 Like, I guess here's my thing, right?

02:43:47.560 We've sort of touched on this at different points in the show.

02:43:51.100 We're talking about, oh, we're in 2023, equality, men and women are equal, all this stuff, right?

02:43:56.700 But why is there this expectation on men to perform all these things?

02:44:02.620 But, like, don't you expect anything from a woman? 1.00

02:44:04.780 Like, what do you think is nice for you to receive from a woman? 1.00

02:44:08.500 It would be nice, but women don't generally, like, they don't really. 1.00

02:44:11.500 Women forget about gender roles. 1.00

02:44:13.220 Women forget about gender roles when it comes to men. 0.99

02:44:15.740 Like, when it's, like, on their end, they're like, oh, equality and everything.

02:44:19.600 But then when it's like, oh, the men has to do, the men has to pay for the check.

02:44:23.440 Tristan, give us an example.

02:44:25.440 Yeah, like, the men has to usually, like, when we argued earlier or, I guess, debated, right?

02:44:30.440 We were talking about how the men usually is the provider and usually is the one paying for the check, you know?

02:44:35.000 And she said, well, I pay for the check, but, like, usually the men is expected to pay for the check, you know?

02:44:39.600 It's those gender roles that she was trying to say. 0.98

02:44:41.960 It doesn't, like, matter.

02:44:42.820 It's equal, you know?

02:44:44.020 But, like, in reality, generally, the men usually have to pay.

02:44:47.980 The woman is expected, like, to cook and to clean the house. 1.00

02:44:50.880 Yeah, I mean, that's the equality of it, you know?

02:44:53.120 There's, like, they have their gender roles, but, like, you can't compare a lot of things.

02:44:57.000 That's just, like, it's just the gender roles. 1.00

02:44:58.600 What are romantic things that you like from a woman? 0.99

02:45:03.340 Like, you know, opening the door.

02:45:04.380 Women aren't romantic. 1.00

02:45:05.740 Yeah, but, like, what would be...

02:45:07.200 Brazilians are not like that.

02:45:08.360 Cooking you, like...

02:45:09.220 Brazilians are romantic.

02:45:10.200 You know what?

02:45:10.540 Maybe I should date a Brazilian. 1.00

02:45:11.940 A Brazilian woman.

02:45:12.900 Like, Keita and I were talking about how we send letters for, like, the people that we date.

02:45:18.800 Let me tell you...

02:45:19.740 Let me clarify my statement.

02:45:21.940 Women receive the romance. 0.99

02:45:24.180 Men are the romantics.

02:45:26.440 So, why do you date women, then?

02:45:29.200 What is...

02:45:29.800 Because I'm heterosexual.

02:45:31.480 Yeah, but, like, you say women are not romantic. 1.00

02:45:35.040 I just wanted to ask you, what do you get from a date?

02:45:37.400 We don't need the romanticism.

02:45:39.000 That's the thing.

02:45:39.540 Don't you both, like, have, like, this, like, chemistry, which is, like, romantic...

02:45:44.280 You, like, girls flirter. 1.00

02:45:46.620 You romantic.

02:45:47.620 Yeah.

02:45:48.220 I personally like being the romantic.

02:45:49.880 I don't really need any romanticism.

02:45:51.800 I don't need flowers brought to me.

02:45:53.000 But, you know, like, if I was dating a girl, like, her cooking me a meal, you know, would be nice.

02:45:57.380 You know, that's their form of, like...

02:45:59.440 Doing for the partner, nice things doing for the partner.

02:46:01.620 I think that's a really good thing, good base for a relationship.

02:46:07.080 Would you like if the girl, like, bought you flowers or sent you letters or would you...

02:46:12.940 I want a girl to simp for me, but it doesn't mean I'm going to get it. 0.98

02:46:16.920 You want a girl to do what? 1.00

02:46:18.220 To simp.

02:46:19.160 Simp.

02:46:19.520 I would love if a girl simped for me, but they don't. 1.00

02:46:23.060 Like, if you could fall falling for them, like...

02:46:24.940 No, could you fall?

02:46:25.820 No, like, doing being...

02:46:27.160 Doing the most for you.

02:46:28.200 Doing the most.

02:46:28.760 Yeah, obsessing, like, kind of...

02:46:30.440 Brian, why don't you think they do that for you?

02:46:32.440 They don't do it for the vast majority of men.

02:46:35.640 Brian, you're lying.

02:46:37.100 You're a good-looking dude.

02:46:38.260 Like, a girl would easily simp for you. 1.00

02:46:40.620 Why do you think they're not simping for you?

02:46:42.360 I've had girls simp for me, but it's rare. 1.00

02:46:45.180 It's super rare.

02:46:46.660 Did you value them, those who simped for you?

02:46:49.500 Do I what?

02:46:49.920 Like, did you give your most to them, too?

02:46:53.780 He didn't bring her flowers or open her door.

02:46:55.720 Yeah.

02:46:56.300 Right.

02:46:56.920 Exactly.

02:46:58.100 That is what.

02:46:59.300 Brian, you answered your own question.

02:47:01.320 Exactly.

02:47:02.060 How did I answer my own question?

02:47:03.800 Brian, you're putting out all these standards, and you want a girl to simp for you. 0.99

02:47:07.660 You have all these qualities, and then you, like, throw it out the window by openly saying

02:47:11.780 stuff like that.

02:47:12.360 I'm basically...

02:47:13.160 You're being very openly derogatory.

02:47:15.140 What do you mean?

02:47:15.500 You're like, why would I open a door for her?

02:47:17.780 Why would I get flowers for her? 0.99

02:47:19.360 Do you think that's attractive to a girl?

02:47:21.780 I'm not trying to min-max my dating.

02:47:24.220 Well, you do want a simp.

02:47:25.680 You want something.

02:47:26.660 You can't act like you don't want anything. 0.99

02:47:28.940 Who wants a midget with labia? 1.00

02:47:30.980 I want a 4'11 beef crud and queen. 0.99

02:47:34.380 Oh, you're so real for that.

02:47:35.340 I do.

02:47:35.720 I mean...

02:47:36.400 Anyways, I do have a preference for it, but hold on.

02:47:40.060 Okay, so let's just get back to the...

02:47:41.780 So, what was the...

02:47:44.400 How was it derogatory, or what was it?

02:47:49.080 I guess you're just openly being negative.

02:47:50.980 You don't see us going like, why would I pay for a man? 0.96

02:47:54.240 We have all said, yeah, of course.

02:47:56.180 We'll split if they want to split.

02:47:57.440 We're all being very nice.

02:47:58.900 You're being very derogatory.

02:48:00.300 You're like, why would I pay for her?

02:48:02.120 Why would I open the door for her?

02:48:03.680 Yeah, you want a simp.

02:48:04.560 Yeah, you want someone to do all that for you, but you're not willing to put it out?

02:48:09.120 I'm saying what I would want, ideally.

02:48:11.300 It would be wonderful if a girl simped for me, but it's not...

02:48:16.440 It doesn't happen in actuality.

02:48:19.560 Brian, the world is so big.

02:48:20.860 There are so many people in this world.

02:48:23.400 You say that some of them did, right?

02:48:26.020 Like, they did simp for you.

02:48:27.160 A little bit, but then there's headaches also, but that's another...

02:48:31.260 Do you self-sabotage?

02:48:31.720 And then how did you treat them?

02:48:33.060 Yeah, Brian, do you self-sabotage?

02:48:35.860 Brian, that's the real question.

02:48:36.460 This is a therapy session for Brian.

02:48:38.180 This is a therapy session for Brian.

02:48:39.880 This is a therapy session for me.

02:48:42.180 Wait, okay, so you guys have thrown a couple different conversational topics at me right now.

02:48:47.100 So I'm just trying to get caught up here.

02:48:50.520 So you guys don't like that I grimaced when someone said, open the door for a woman?

02:49:00.040 It's not exactly open the door.

02:49:01.740 It's an example.

02:49:03.060 Yeah.

02:49:03.300 Of being a gentleman.

02:49:04.880 But women aren't ladies. 1.00

02:49:07.020 Or for example, it's just that if you add that, it's just...

02:49:10.480 Well, the girl you're taking on a date, I mean, I would take a lady to the date. 1.00

02:49:14.580 I wouldn't be taking no...

02:49:15.960 Have some respite.

02:49:16.780 We live in California.

02:49:19.280 California is a failed society.

02:49:21.780 It's... 0.99

02:49:22.220 Dude, there's so many women. 1.00

02:49:23.820 It's true.

02:49:24.040 There's so many women. 1.00

02:49:25.220 Brian, let it out.

02:49:26.140 Come on, let it out.

02:49:26.800 Look.

02:49:27.200 Let it out.

02:49:27.660 Let the hate out.

02:49:28.180 Come on.

02:49:28.680 It's not about hate.

02:49:30.140 It's not about hate.

02:49:30.980 No, come on. 0.85

02:49:31.340 Let it out.

02:49:31.920 No, I'm not.

02:49:32.640 It's not hate.

02:49:33.360 I'm just pragmatic and realistic.

02:49:35.820 I'd say so too.

02:49:37.480 I'm a pragmatist.

02:49:41.220 Most of the women I encounter are... 1.00

02:49:48.300 Okay.

02:49:49.700 They're not ladies. 1.00

02:49:52.620 Like, okay, if I meet a girl on a dating app, more likely than not, she's talking to multiple

02:50:00.060 guys at the same time.

02:50:01.680 She's sleeping with at least one, two, or three other guys. 0.94

02:50:05.760 So, I guess my kind of like...

02:50:08.120 You're meeting them on a dating app.

02:50:09.860 Most of them.

02:50:10.540 But that's how most people meet nowadays.

02:50:11.860 Also, I'm not in college anymore.

02:50:13.500 You are probably doing the same thing.

02:50:15.440 I'm not.

02:50:16.420 I don't have time.

02:50:17.640 You gotta be one of those dudes.

02:50:18.940 Not all the girls are like that too.

02:50:20.420 Don't hate the player.

02:50:21.280 It's a game.

02:50:22.980 Wow.

02:50:23.720 Most of the guys are doing the same thing.

02:50:26.200 They have a side...

02:50:26.820 Like, they're talking with...

02:50:28.040 Be true right now.

02:50:29.040 Brian, be pragmatic right now.

02:50:30.760 Hold on.

02:50:31.220 You said most men?

02:50:33.020 That's not true.

02:50:33.580 The top 10, top 20% of men can do that. 0.58

02:50:37.440 Most men are so starved for female attention, for sex, for intimacy, for anything. 0.67

02:50:44.500 They really don't have...

02:50:47.000 I think you have to understand the amount of options that even an average woman has is... 0.98

02:50:53.580 Would boggle the mind...

02:50:55.580 Like, is...

02:50:57.080 We can actually pull up statistics on this.

02:50:59.440 An average woman has more options than, like, a really good-looking guy. 1.00

02:51:04.400 Really good-looking dude.

02:51:06.320 Your DMs.

02:51:07.780 Your dating apps.

02:51:09.700 Going to the club.

02:51:11.260 What?

02:51:11.540 Come on.

02:51:12.420 No.

02:51:13.620 Don't look at me.

02:51:16.580 No.

02:51:17.180 I'm not even laughing about that.

02:51:18.960 I'm not even...

02:51:19.580 I'm listening to you.

02:51:20.840 I'm listening to you.

02:51:21.220 Yeah.

02:51:21.400 I don't know why I'm a giggly goose.

02:51:22.560 Look, my experience and the experience of many men has been that in today's day and age,

02:51:29.300 in 2022, the days of dating one person at a time are gone.

02:51:35.180 Can you find it?

02:51:36.220 Yes.

02:51:37.000 Is it the majority?

02:51:39.800 No.

02:51:40.140 If I'm going on a date with a girl, and most girls are not necessarily going to be up front with this,

02:51:45.500 I'm going into any given date, assuming she's sleeping with at least one other guy.

02:51:51.700 A lot of women are never truly single.

02:51:54.260 There's some guy in the picture.

02:51:56.100 There's some guy they're sleeping with.

02:51:57.860 Not all women. 0.96

02:51:58.980 Not all women. 0.96

02:52:00.000 But I would say the majority of women have some... 1.00

02:52:04.020 The thing is, it's your mindset.

02:52:05.200 He's not going to rescue...

02:52:06.100 It's your mindset.

02:52:06.960 I didn't say anything.

02:52:07.920 Don't simp.

02:52:08.540 I'm not simping.

02:52:09.780 I'm not even giving in to them.

02:52:11.420 I was laughing about...

02:52:12.160 No one said anything.

02:52:12.960 Nobody said anything over here.

02:52:13.700 I was laughing about a comment about the fake nun turning him on. 0.80

02:52:19.580 But no, I know what you're trying to say, but if I'm saying a lot of guys have that mindset,

02:52:24.700 I know what you're saying.

02:52:25.720 But they're like, oh, she's talking to a lot of guys.

02:52:27.400 But if you go in there with that mindset, you're literally going to be thinking that.

02:52:30.540 You're going to self-sabotage. 0.99

02:52:32.040 Do you think you're an ugly girl? 1.00

02:52:34.240 Everyone's going to think you're an ugly girl. 1.00

02:52:35.860 Hold on. 0.99

02:52:36.260 So you're saying...

02:52:36.860 You've got to go in there.

02:52:37.660 You're a gig of Chad.

02:52:38.340 And you're like, she's going to choose me over every other guy. 0.98

02:52:40.680 Yeah.

02:52:40.840 I don't...

02:52:41.180 But here's the thing.

02:52:41.800 And also, if there's a bunch of...

02:52:43.120 Sorry, go on.

02:52:44.160 You're saying she's going to choose me over all the other guys.

02:52:47.200 How far into the relationship is she going to cut off all those options? 1.00

02:52:51.960 People are constantly in situationships.

02:52:53.340 That's a good question.

02:52:54.300 I...

02:52:54.820 Like, here's the thing.

02:52:55.900 I don't even want it to get started if she's sleeping with another guy. 1.00

02:53:00.400 I don't want to kiss you.

02:53:01.820 I don't want to go on dates with you.

02:53:03.280 I don't want anything from you if you're sleeping with another guy. 0.99

02:53:08.060 That's probably asking a lot in 2023.

02:53:11.300 But maybe I'm a gentleman.

02:53:14.080 I don't know.

02:53:14.820 No, no.

02:53:15.400 I don't know.

02:53:16.700 Ryan, I completely agree with you.

02:53:18.520 Look...

02:53:18.860 Like, that's a totally valid point to have.

02:53:20.660 No, that is.

02:53:21.120 And just to be clear, women can feel the exact same way. 0.99

02:53:24.660 If a woman says, he's a player, he's got three other girls right now, do I really want to try to pursue him? 0.99

02:53:29.460 You got to bring up the question, though. 0.99

02:53:30.800 Am I going to just get caught in a situationship with him and then we're going to fuck for six months and then he's on to the next one? 0.94

02:53:36.500 But then you'll be playing the assumption game because you'll be assuming all these things. 0.89

02:53:41.000 So what you got to do is...

02:53:42.280 I know, but you have to be straight up in front with them and just be like, all right, what is this? 0.91

02:53:45.440 Are you fucking around with other dudes? 0.94

02:53:47.420 And yeah, they may lie to you, but like, huh? 0.99

02:53:49.380 Well, first off...

02:53:50.780 I've been asked that question.

02:53:52.000 I've been straight up.

02:53:53.140 Communication is the key.

02:53:54.120 If you ask...

02:53:55.320 Here's the thing.

02:53:56.280 My sense is, if I were to ask a girl straight up, like, before we even meet on a first date...

02:54:02.140 Okay, but not...

02:54:02.500 I think it should be fine.

02:54:03.380 I think it should be fine to ask, but most girls are probably going to have an issue with it. 1.00

02:54:06.860 If I say, by the way, are you fucking someone else right now? 0.99

02:54:11.660 Even if she's not, like, or even if she is, one, she might lie. 1.00

02:54:15.780 She's going to be like, that's none of your fucking business. 1.00

02:54:19.240 You just... 0.99

02:54:19.720 You gotta ask what the person wants, because, like, maybe the person's, like, looking for a relationship, then probably they're not fucking around, you know?

02:54:27.080 But then, if you are, like, okay, I'm open to dating, meeting other people, obviously. 0.98

02:54:31.680 But I know there's some fucked up girls out there that date, like, several guys at the same time, and they're playing them. 1.00

02:54:36.780 You know, she's just like, all right, which one do I pick, you know, to a certain point? 0.99

02:54:40.260 And, like, they're just in the dark about it.

02:54:42.000 So, like, I feel like there's a certain point, this could be a good question, a certain point where, like, you have to decide, all right, how long into this, like, talking stage, how many dates do you have to go on before you're just like, all right, are we going to, like, be just us talking, or are you talking to other people, you know?

02:54:57.940 And you have to ask the question, you know?

02:54:59.320 Obviously, eventually.

02:55:00.360 Yeah, you can't just play the assumption game and be like, oh...

02:55:02.600 You gotta be the same, like, talk about it, obviously, communication.

02:55:05.080 Yeah, because if not, they're just gonna be like, oh, they haven't asked me, it's okay if I talk to other guys, this isn't serious, you know?

02:55:14.240 Ryan, I know what you mean, man, I'm on your side.

02:55:17.260 I know what you mean, but, like, you have to ask, you have to ask them.

02:55:20.800 They're gonna, they're not gonna be honest.

02:55:23.020 Wow.

02:55:23.540 Well, are you directing your anger towards women or towards the dating?

02:55:28.840 That's a trauma.

02:55:29.460 We came back, bro.

02:55:30.880 We came back.

02:55:31.300 I'm not angry.

02:55:33.160 No, I'm not, I'm not angry.

02:55:35.080 I'm just realistic.

02:55:36.920 I see, it's like the, I see the matrix.

02:55:41.040 I can see what's happening in the dating marketplace, and I'm not some guy that's gonna go on a date with a girl and assume she's not sleeping with another guy or talking to multiple other guys.

02:55:52.340 Is that her fault or is that dating culture's fault? 0.97

02:55:55.500 People have accountability.

02:55:56.840 People have agency.

02:55:58.560 It, it's her fault and it's both.

02:56:03.200 Because you have...

02:56:04.400 A gray area.

02:56:06.180 Well, there's a culture that promotes hooking up, casual sex, date a bunch of people. 1.00

02:56:13.680 So the, the society, the culture promotes it, but also as an individual, on an individual level, you have agency.

02:56:19.540 So despite the degeneracy of Western society, you as an individual, as a man or a woman could still say, you know what? 0.98

02:56:30.360 I'm not gonna fuck a new guy, two new guys every single weekend. 0.99

02:56:36.520 You can make that choice. 0.99

02:56:37.820 So you have agency and you have accountability.

02:56:41.840 I'm only going to date one guy at a time.

02:56:44.280 You don't have, look, people can, are free to do whatever they want.

02:56:46.940 But for me personally, I don't know.

02:56:49.360 The thought of, just the, okay, the thought of...

02:56:53.100 You're putting your time in a girl who's probably putting in time with other guys at the same time.

02:56:56.640 I'm too busy to be dating three girls at a time, to be sleeping.

02:57:00.580 Also, I just don't want the headache too, but...

02:57:03.040 Yeah, I know, but you're gonna let that stop you from, like, talking to one girl that you like.

02:57:06.420 Because you're like, oh, she's probably talking to another guy.

02:57:08.400 You can't go in a relationship, like, thinking, alright, we went on one date or we talked to her, like, a couple hours.

02:57:13.820 She should cut off every guy right there and there. 0.99

02:57:15.820 Yeah. 1.00

02:57:16.220 You know, like...

02:57:16.780 She just shouldn't be, this is gonna be a hot take, she just shouldn't be talking to any other guys.

02:57:22.160 But other guys, the thing is, like, they've already been conversating, like...

02:57:25.600 In fact, let me, hold on, let me just say this.

02:57:26.920 In fact, I think every single woman should just, before they meet me, 1.00

02:57:32.500 for at least a period of three years, should be celibate.

02:57:37.440 Okay.

02:57:38.320 For three years, that's really...

02:57:40.500 I think...

02:57:42.120 You're not gonna find the girl.

02:57:43.820 Before you...

02:57:44.580 Good luck.

02:57:45.800 Before you've even met me, I think you should have been celibate.

02:57:49.360 Yeah, I know.

02:57:49.880 Good luck on this.

02:57:51.300 Okay, I'm exaggerating.

02:57:52.600 I'm exaggerating.

02:57:53.000 I know you're exaggerating.

02:57:53.780 I'm exaggerating.

02:57:54.540 I'm joking.

02:57:55.080 Okay, I've been married before, right?

02:57:58.120 Yeah.

02:57:58.280 And I kind of, like, see how much you had to have in common to make it work.

02:58:05.380 And even though I had, like, a lot in common, even like this, it didn't work.

02:58:08.900 So I feel like that's why people right now are, like, talking to more people.

02:58:13.760 Because if you only talk to one person, and this person is not, like, exactly, like, what

02:58:21.180 you needed, you're gonna take forever to find your partner.

02:58:24.920 Yeah.

02:58:25.040 So, like, if you are just chatting with people, like, what is the matter?

02:58:28.260 Like, if you are talking to people.

02:58:30.380 For sure, like, sex is another level of things.

02:58:32.940 But, like, just talking to people to get to know them.

02:58:35.760 And then they're, like, okay, this guy is really nice.

02:58:38.080 Let's go on a date with him.

02:58:39.280 And then you see if it works.

02:58:41.720 I think Brian thinks, like, they're talking to different dudes, sending news to, like,

02:58:44.880 every single one of them.

02:58:46.100 But, like, realistically, in my shoes, the way I view it, the reason I'm able to view

02:58:50.100 it that way, you know, is because I have been in that spot where I was talking to, like,

02:58:53.560 several girls, but, like, not in a certain way to, like, date them.

02:58:57.000 You know, but once, you know, one specific girl, let's say, I was interested in them.

02:59:01.460 Obviously, I wouldn't stop talking to other people until, like, that was a serious, it

02:59:06.580 became a serious relationship.

02:59:07.920 So, it has to be that point where it's, like, okay, this is serious.

02:59:10.560 And then from that point on, that's when you should cut someone off.

02:59:13.240 I shouldn't automatically cut every girl off from talking to me because this one girl, 1.00

02:59:17.720 like.

02:59:17.900 Well, so there's degrees to it, right?

02:59:20.040 So, if you're just talking, like, there's no sex.

02:59:24.300 Yeah.

02:59:26.320 There's degrees to it.

02:59:27.620 Whereas, like, let's say.

02:59:31.100 She's hooking up with, like, two other dudes, but kind of, like, she's not sure.

02:59:36.460 And then there's, like, other guys that are, like, circling into the carousel, the picture.

02:59:42.800 I mean.

02:59:43.440 I know some girls like that. 1.00

02:59:47.800 They have, they have a roster.

02:59:50.000 It's really, it's honestly really not that hard to take a bit of time, just be talking

02:59:56.320 to one person at a time.

02:59:59.880 It's not, I don't think it's that hard.

03:00:01.560 It's a short story.

03:00:02.560 Like, when I met, there was this guy that I was dating that we met on Tinder.

03:00:06.920 We were in different cities.

03:00:09.540 And then we started talking two months before he was, like, going to the city that we were

03:00:15.240 going to meet.

03:00:17.040 And then by one week, like, talking to him on Tinder, I was so in love with him that I

03:00:22.840 didn't talk to anyone else, even though we only met in person after two weeks.

03:00:27.340 And that's how it should be.

03:00:28.240 But realistically, a lot of girls will continue to talk to other dudes. 1.00

03:00:31.460 Yes, because I was, like, emotionally connected with him.

03:00:34.400 So, like, if, like, he invited, like, random, like, one, two, three, four, five girls.

03:00:40.180 Like, one has this story.

03:00:42.160 Like, why for you is so tough to, like, believe that there are girls there that can do that

03:00:48.220 for you, you know?

03:00:49.540 There are girls that will only talk to you, even, well, it's rare. 0.85

03:00:55.680 Even from the get-go, from the very beginning, they're only talking to you.

03:01:00.140 That's super rare.

03:01:02.840 Super rare.

03:01:04.280 We live in a day and age where there's situationships, there's hookups, there's friends with benefits.

03:01:09.600 Most of the time, someone has someone in the picture already.

03:01:14.380 In the Western world.

03:01:14.980 A lot of girls, a lot of girls are, like, really never truly single.

03:01:19.040 There's some guy in the picture.

03:01:20.560 But, like, if that's all you need, it's rare because, like, that's how love is, right?

03:01:25.360 Like, it's so, if love was easy, if it was easy to find your soulmate, you would find, like,

03:01:30.680 everybody would be together with someone.

03:01:32.560 But, like, love is hard.

03:01:33.780 So, if that's what you need from a girl, and, like, it's going to be rare.

03:01:39.420 And it's going to be special when you find it.

03:01:41.300 And that's going to be your person, you know?

03:01:43.360 Don't you want to fight for it?

03:01:44.980 Like, fight for love?

03:01:46.220 No.

03:01:46.480 No, I don't really want to fight.

03:01:47.720 I don't want to fight.

03:01:48.680 No, I want to fight.

03:01:48.920 It does not chase, for sure.

03:01:50.540 It's just, like, rare.

03:01:51.880 It's rare to find what you want and what you need.

03:01:56.040 But, okay, this all stemmed from me kind of, like, tweaking about opening a car door for a girl.

03:02:05.060 And I guess the point I'm trying to make is, first off, guys who do the nice things, men are realizing that when we do the right thing, when we're nice, when we buy you flowers, when we open the car door, when we're gentlemen, it doesn't work.

03:02:29.760 It doesn't work.

03:02:30.520 It doesn't...

03:02:31.520 A guy can do all the right things, all the nice things.

03:02:36.420 And then women don't reward that sort of behavior. 1.00

03:02:44.400 If a guy bought you flowers on the first date, that guy, like, you're not... 1.00

03:02:49.620 Girls are going to be like, this guy's a fucking clown. 1.00

03:02:51.720 You're generalizing, right? 1.00

03:02:53.460 Because, like, the girl that does what you want, they are rare. 1.00

03:02:57.500 So, like, if you ever treat all girls in this bar, like, this low bar level that you were saying, like, I'm not going to buy her flowers because she's never going to, like, reward me for that.

03:03:07.840 Then you are never going to find the rare girl because she's like, okay, he doesn't give me flowers.

03:03:12.780 Why does it need to be a reward?

03:03:14.060 Like, why are you giving already thinking about the expectation?

03:03:17.180 You give because that's your person and that's your personality.

03:03:20.220 I know plenty of girls that go back to their girlfriends and are like, oh, my God, yeah, like, he brought me flowers.

03:03:24.560 Like, he opened my door.

03:03:25.800 Like, she was excited about it, about that one guy that opened my door.

03:03:28.520 Stop simping.

03:03:29.360 I'm not even a simp.

03:03:30.840 I'm not even a simp, guys.

03:03:32.080 I'm not saying you're a simp, but you're simping for them. 0.69

03:03:34.380 Come on.

03:03:34.700 I am not.

03:03:35.480 I've been debating with them the whole podcast.

03:03:39.040 No, Justin's a king.

03:03:39.780 I don't think he is.

03:03:40.840 You're a king.

03:03:41.380 I don't even need...

03:03:42.240 I don't even want to take the whole king.

03:03:43.680 Like, I don't want to need that phrase.

03:03:44.820 It's fine.

03:03:45.280 Thank you, bro.

03:03:45.880 So, you've heard girls say, oh, he got me flowers on the first date.

03:03:49.060 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

03:03:49.320 Did they fuck? 1.00

03:03:50.420 What do you mean... 1.00

03:03:51.000 Did they fuck? 1.00

03:03:51.540 Did they fuck? 1.00

03:03:52.820 No. 1.00

03:03:53.660 Yeah.

03:03:53.920 So, they're going to curve the guy.

03:03:55.300 They're going to make that guy wait. 1.00

03:03:56.720 And then the guy who's a dickhead, who's an asshole, who's a jerk, who's a bad boy... 1.00

03:03:59.640 And who's straight up and just straight to the point. 1.00

03:04:01.340 He gets in their pants faster.

03:04:02.940 Yeah.

03:04:03.040 Yeah.

03:04:03.400 That's true.

03:04:03.940 So, guys are starting to see this, and we're starting to say, hold on.

03:04:09.040 We're doing the right things, and then... 0.98

03:04:12.840 The dickheads over here get in their pants for you. 1.00

03:04:14.760 And the jerks, the assholes, the bad boys, they're the ones getting laid. 1.00

03:04:18.760 And that's how we end up with a culture. 1.00

03:04:20.680 And we're waking up.

03:04:21.720 Yeah. 0.99

03:04:21.980 But that's how we end up with a culture where every guy's just a dick, you know? 0.99

03:04:25.080 Yeah. 0.99

03:04:25.360 I love a good boy.

03:04:26.620 Like, I've been through that same scenario, but I just had to, like...

03:04:32.460 Honestly, I'm not going to let them change my morals because some other dude that was 0.98

03:04:38.020 a, you know, a dickhead, like, got in there. 1.00

03:04:40.560 I was like, fuck her. 1.00

03:04:41.280 Like, I'll literally find someone way better. 1.00

03:04:43.420 Exactly.

03:04:44.620 And there for sure is girls that literally... 1.00

03:04:46.760 I'm not even being a sim.

03:04:48.420 I'm literally going to get so much hate from this chat because I know the audience that

03:04:51.100 I'm speaking to right now.

03:04:52.740 You're going to hear the, take the red pill, bro.

03:04:54.400 Let me ask you a question.

03:04:55.800 Why is there a trope of women being attracted to bad boys? 0.99

03:05:00.080 It's not, it's not an invention. 0.84

03:05:02.740 You could be a gentleman and a, and I feel like a, not, not a dickhead, but like be a 0.57

03:05:08.600 nice, I guess, bad boy, if you want to say, you know? 0.53

03:05:11.680 Okay.

03:05:11.940 So I'll kind of put a bow on this.

03:05:14.140 So, and I'll get the super chats in a sec here, guys.

03:05:16.740 So I guess the reason why I don't want to pay for a girl's meal, I don't want to open 1.00

03:05:21.280 the door for her.

03:05:22.020 I don't want to do all these things.

03:05:23.920 Why are you looking at me like that?

03:05:25.620 What's up?

03:05:26.040 No, I'm just like saying the list of everything you want to do while you want a girl to sing 1.00

03:05:32.320 for you.

03:05:33.140 So guys aren't entitled to pay for the meal.

03:05:35.580 I agree with that.

03:05:36.260 Unless you do a take her out on the date, then maybe, maybe like if you're asking her to

03:05:40.780 take her out on the date, that's the only argument that I would say.

03:05:43.240 When she's my girlfriend, then I'll pay for a trip to, like, that's fine. 0.95

03:05:48.240 I'll pay.

03:05:49.340 But you got to make an impression. 1.00

03:05:51.000 Fuck no. 1.00

03:05:51.560 You got to make an impression. 1.00

03:05:52.580 You got to be different than all the other, like, dickhead guys. 0.97

03:05:55.460 Yo, paying for the first date, it's not. 0.96

03:05:58.020 No, I'm not saying, no, I'm saying you got to make an impression, like, opening the door.

03:06:01.260 I'm not saying bring her flowers on her, on her, on the first date.

03:06:04.360 I'm not even saying that.

03:06:05.620 But, like, I wouldn't, I don't think I've, I've ever done that on the first date, bring

03:06:10.020 flowers. 0.73

03:06:10.400 The Brazilian girls hate me right now. 1.00

03:06:14.900 I'm getting hit on by the chat, bro. 0.98

03:06:17.980 I'm not taking heat.

03:06:19.460 Here's, here's an example I've, I've often given to sort of illustrate my point for why

03:06:25.500 I, I'm hesitant to want to do some of the gentleman type things.

03:06:30.620 Opening the car door, like, doing all these gestures, paying for the date, all this stuff.

03:06:36.180 I, I still adhere to my traditional gender roles in the sense of, I'm going to take initiative.

03:06:42.080 I'm going to, I'm going to lead.

03:06:43.600 I'm going to set up the date.

03:06:44.960 I'm going to plan the date.

03:06:45.820 I'm going to be the one, you know, making the steps to make that happen, doing the follow

03:06:50.860 up, et cetera.

03:06:51.960 But when it comes to the actual date, getting on the date, as far as paying for the date

03:06:56.060 goes, here's my, here's my issue.

03:06:58.380 I don't want to pay for a girl's meal. 1.00

03:07:04.060 And then she gives me the, an ass out at the end of the date. 1.00

03:07:08.080 Oh, it was really nice. 0.98

03:07:09.280 It was nice. 0.95

03:07:09.920 Date gives me an ass out hug, you know, a side hug or whatever she got. 1.00

03:07:14.980 She, we, we went to a dinner or whatever. 0.96

03:07:17.980 She gets a to go bag.

03:07:20.120 She takes the to go bag to the guy's house who she's sleeping with.

03:07:25.900 Did you see them do this? 0.99

03:07:26.940 That sucks. 1.00

03:07:27.540 That sucks. 1.00

03:07:28.160 She takes the to go bag to the guy's house who she's sleeping with, who by the way, never 0.98

03:07:32.100 took her out on the first date.

03:07:33.780 And it was always just, what are you doing?

03:07:35.480 Come over.

03:07:36.980 Because he's an exceptionally, exceptionally attractive or whatever.

03:07:40.160 She has some interest in him.

03:07:42.340 She gives him the food that you paid for. 1.00

03:07:45.020 And then she fucks him. 1.00

03:07:47.880 Holy shit, Brian. 1.00

03:07:48.680 That is so sad. 1.00

03:07:49.940 That is so sad.

03:07:50.900 That happens to dudes.

03:07:52.200 That happened to you?

03:07:53.540 Oh.

03:07:53.720 No.

03:07:54.160 Because I'm a G and I don't pay for girls' meals. 1.00

03:07:57.620 Oh, my God.

03:07:59.960 Is this like a story that they made up in their head or did this happen?

03:08:04.740 That's an extreme example. 1.00

03:08:06.460 That sucks. 0.99

03:08:06.760 That's an extreme example. 1.00

03:08:09.000 Yeah, that sucks. 0.98

03:08:09.640 I can see that happening. 0.99

03:08:10.920 Are all girls the extreme, though? 0.88

03:08:11.920 There are definitely bad girls out there. 1.00

03:08:12.820 How many girls out there? 1.00

03:08:13.700 Okay, but then you're just out with the wrong girl.

03:08:15.520 Yeah, Brian, that seems like a lack of judgment.

03:08:19.480 Talk to them before.

03:08:21.340 If they're going to do that, then they're going to do that.

03:08:23.640 If you take them out, then that's your choice to take them out.

03:08:26.940 Is it not?

03:08:27.560 You can tell when somebody will be taking advantage of you.

03:08:31.400 Look, the way I see it, a lot of guys, and I'm not even trying to get at you, Brian,

03:08:35.480 but a lot of guys will put up a shield to not be hurt and not be taken advantage of like that

03:08:40.540 because a lot of guys don't get that ROI, like someone was saying in the comments,

03:08:43.980 the return of investment.

03:08:45.200 Return of investment.

03:08:46.320 So like you're treating this woman right, you're opening your door right, 0.99

03:08:49.180 you're doing everything right, and then it doesn't fucking matter 0.98

03:08:52.120 because the guy doing half the shit you are is getting further than you, you know? 0.97

03:08:56.440 And that's why like a lot of guys put that shield up, and then they're just like, 0.97

03:08:59.760 you know what, I'm not going to try anymore.

03:09:01.120 I'm just going to do what they're doing, and then hopefully that works.

03:09:03.880 But the thing is, what I'm trying to say, which might make me a simp or whatever,

03:09:08.740 I will not change my character because of that girl. 0.85

03:09:12.980 Literally, I'll just be like, okay, screw her, like go, like you're literally not even worth my time, you know? 0.84

03:09:19.400 Guys, there's nothing wrong with them.

03:09:21.480 It's like the people they go after.

03:09:23.200 Like there's nothing wrong with being a nice guy, and there's nothing wrong with dating how you want to date. 0.95

03:09:27.060 No, and I've been through that phase where I was like, you know what, I'm going to be the dick, 0.98

03:09:30.240 I'm going to be like, and trust me, I've been through that phase where I just did not give a shit, 0.98

03:09:35.020 and I was just like, what am I doing? 0.96

03:09:37.180 Because it's exactly like what we were saying, like those guys who are getting a lot of girls

03:09:41.660 and doing low effort, like what kind of girls are those who accept that kind of behavior? 1.00

03:09:47.520 Exactly, it's like who you're attracting.

03:09:49.140 There are some very unassuming women who are sleeping with other men while they're dating you. 1.00

03:09:57.180 What is unassuming me?

03:09:58.180 Like you wouldn't expect it.

03:10:00.860 Like it's not always what, what, what?

03:10:04.120 I'm talking from Maddie.

03:10:06.200 Okay.

03:10:08.560 Why is that?

03:10:09.880 Madison say something.

03:10:12.720 Sorry, what was the, what was the question?

03:10:18.400 I forgot.

03:10:19.060 I forgot too.

03:10:19.820 I forgot too.

03:10:21.220 I'm sorry. 0.99

03:10:22.180 God damn it, Tristan. 0.99

03:10:23.140 We're trying to make Maddie talk. 0.99

03:10:24.240 Oh, we were saying that like the guys who does low effort get like more girls,

03:10:30.740 but those girls are also like girls who accept this kind of behavior. 0.99

03:10:35.600 Yeah.

03:10:37.280 So, you know.

03:10:38.660 Like the type, there's those girls. 1.00

03:10:40.180 How many girls act like that do you know of? 1.00

03:10:42.400 How many girls act like what? 1.00

03:10:43.820 Oh, you said something like that.

03:10:44.540 You're describing.

03:10:45.560 That whole like fantasy you described.

03:10:48.160 Like how many girls actually do that? 1.00

03:10:49.520 His viewpoint, most.

03:10:51.220 Most?

03:10:52.020 Do most girls do that? 1.00

03:10:53.240 No, I, I wouldn't, I would say that specific example where she brings the doggy bag is, 1.00

03:11:00.780 well, it's not extreme, but it's rare.

03:11:02.940 But I mean, what might be less extreme is you go out on a date with a girl, you pay for everything.

03:11:08.080 But she's also, she has a guy that she's hooking up with. 0.98

03:11:11.640 She might not bring the food that you paid for to him so he can eat the food that you paid for. 0.99

03:11:17.500 But women are sleeping with multiple men and going on dates. 1.00

03:11:25.040 What about men that are paying, expecting already that the girl has to sleep with her on the first date? 0.61

03:11:29.140 Women can object to that just as equally as I object to it. 1.00

03:11:33.640 Fair.

03:11:34.620 In fact, women can... 1.00

03:11:36.680 If you can say that, then why are you mad?

03:11:38.520 Yeah.

03:11:38.780 What do you mean?

03:11:39.860 If you can say that, women can object to that. 0.99

03:11:42.000 Because why would a woman want to sleep with someone where they know that the relationship is transactional? 0.99

03:11:47.340 Like why would you want to sleep with someone if they're like buying you dinner for the sake of sleeping with you?

03:11:51.680 No, no, no, no, no, no.

03:11:52.300 Hold on.

03:11:52.680 That's not what I'm saying.

03:11:53.860 It's not about paying for the dinner and, oh, I paid for your dinner. 0.98

03:11:57.900 I'm owed sex. 0.93

03:11:59.100 That's not it. 0.64

03:12:00.240 There's no expectation of paying for the dinner. 1.00

03:12:03.320 I deserve sex. 0.98

03:12:04.760 It's I am adhering to my traditional gender role. 0.99

03:12:08.980 I am paying for you.

03:12:12.780 I am using resources, and you're sleeping with somebody else.

03:12:21.840 To me, it's just like it's a disrespect thing.

03:12:25.280 After the first date, though, I mean, I personally wouldn't...

03:12:29.140 I don't think any...

03:12:30.020 Brian, if you think that the majority of people are like sleeping with people, then how could you expect that, that someone is like celibate?

03:12:36.740 And then how could you get mad at them if you expect for most people to be celibate or most people to be sleeping with people?

03:12:41.900 I feel like you think everyone is sleeping with everyone, then why would you expect that?

03:12:46.500 I'm not mad.

03:12:47.320 I accept reality.

03:12:48.980 But because I'm aware of the reality, I'm saying that I'm not going to put myself in a position where I feel like I'm getting played.

03:12:58.520 So if I pay for a girl and she's hooking up with another guy, I feel like I'm kind of getting played.

03:13:05.580 I feel like you are seeing a woman as an object.

03:13:09.780 Let's use analogies.

03:13:11.300 Like you are paying for an Uber expecting that you are buying a car.

03:13:15.300 Like you are going on the first date, you are not buying the girl.

03:13:19.460 Like you cannot say, okay, we are going on this first date.

03:13:22.100 No, that's not what he means.

03:13:23.100 He means like he's investing into like the time.

03:13:26.020 He's putting down, he's paying for the meal.

03:13:28.140 So he's expecting you to like, I don't know.

03:13:31.140 To be a traditional woman? 0.99

03:13:32.500 Yeah, to be a traditional woman. 0.99

03:13:33.720 Well, Brian, if you're not being a traditional man, then why would you expect women to be traditional? 0.99

03:13:37.900 No, that's what he's saying.

03:13:38.640 He wouldn't be a traditional man because he doesn't expect a woman to be traditional. 0.70

03:13:42.920 But you want a traditional woman, right? 1.00

03:13:46.260 Yeah.

03:13:46.480 Yeah, then maybe.

03:13:47.580 Oh, yeah.

03:13:48.200 Maybe you're not going to go market yourself as a traditional man. 0.98

03:13:51.020 Traditional in the sense that she's not fucking other guys. 0.97

03:13:56.760 It's crazy to me that it's a big ask. 0.97

03:13:59.580 It's a big ask to like be trying to pursue someone and not want someone you're pursuing

03:14:06.520 who could potentially be your future girlfriend, who could potentially be the future, your future

03:14:10.920 wife, who could be the mother, the future mother of your children. 0.98

03:14:13.860 And it's not crazy to be like, hmm, yeah, when we met, she was fucking three other guys. 0.98

03:14:20.420 Sorry if that's a shocking standard or boundary or preference for a guy to have. 0.97

03:14:27.020 But I don't know.

03:14:28.740 But why do you need to know?

03:14:30.400 Like, I prefer not to know about like.

03:14:33.420 Ignorance is bliss.

03:14:34.620 Yeah.

03:14:35.040 I prefer not to know.

03:14:36.080 I like that too.

03:14:36.780 I like that saying. 0.97

03:14:38.520 I don't go out on first dates and I'm like, hey, how many people are you fucking around 0.97

03:14:42.860 right now?

03:14:43.900 Well, the first date, I feel like the first date is the introduction to that person.

03:14:47.140 You're getting to know like what they are.

03:14:48.480 I don't feel like that's why I don't think the first date should be even.

03:14:51.520 The check should be split.

03:14:52.700 Should be split because you were getting to know each other.

03:14:55.000 You don't even really know.

03:14:56.000 After that, then that from that like introduction date right there, that's where you can like,

03:15:00.560 all right, you don't have like if we're going to keep going forward, you know, 0.96

03:15:03.760 like you shouldn't be fucking around with other guys. 0.97

03:15:05.620 It could be. 0.93

03:15:06.420 But like by that first date, I don't think the girls should automatically like be like.

03:15:09.960 Like expecting from the first moment that I'm the one, it's like, I think you really

03:15:16.060 have to go through that introduction phase and then obviously. 0.96

03:15:20.280 I feel by the second date, that's when like shit shouldn't like be settled. 0.52

03:15:24.400 Like I don't think you should be talking really to any other guys in a bad way. 0.92

03:15:28.600 But I don't know what you think.

03:15:30.320 You want it by the first date, huh?

03:15:31.640 She shouldn't be talking to anyone, which is clearly possible.

03:15:34.840 She literally was talking to a guy and she was so invested to it that she was like,

03:15:37.920 oh, I'm not talking to anyone else.

03:15:39.120 So it's possible.

03:15:40.560 It's not very common, but especially here in California, not at all.

03:15:45.960 You're like in the worst place for that.

03:15:48.020 I mean, like I was like completely in love and then like I, I could have gone through 0.99

03:15:53.780 your road, your like path and say, oh, he must be fucking everyone. 1.00

03:15:58.440 So I'm going to fuck everyone too. 1.00

03:15:59.960 But like, you know, like I didn't need it. 1.00

03:16:02.700 I was so in love with him that I was like, okay, I don't need like anyone else because

03:16:06.460 I really believe in this.

03:16:08.180 So, you know, like you shouldn't treat girls from your like past experiences or you can 0.99

03:16:13.420 find because then you're never going to find this rare girl that you were like trying

03:16:17.340 to, or if you find her, you're going to mistreat her or like not treat her.

03:16:22.580 Mistreat her.

03:16:23.040 No, like I'm saying like you're not going to give her flowers.

03:16:25.800 Oh, but that's not even mistreating.

03:16:26.960 I don't feel like that.

03:16:28.100 Yeah, sorry, I used the wrong.

03:16:29.440 You know what?

03:16:30.020 Here's, here's the thing.

03:16:31.100 I actually think that the girl who isn't first off, and it's not, I don't think it's

03:16:37.920 necessarily a given that a girl who is more traditional in the sense that she's only dates 0.87

03:16:43.720 one person at a time.

03:16:45.000 She's not talking to a whole bunch of dudes.

03:16:47.080 She's not getting ran through, doesn't have a high body count, whatever.

03:16:50.980 It's not necessarily a given that she expects those more traditional gender roles. 0.96

03:16:56.120 It could be the case, but how do I?

03:17:02.960 You all right?

03:17:05.160 You guys are breaking me, you're wearing me down here.

03:17:07.580 You're wearing me down.

03:17:08.400 You have four million subscribers.

03:17:10.160 Like girls, if you are not hooking up with anyone, like hit Brian on DMs, please, because 0.75

03:17:15.540 women don't DM guys, but that's another conversation.

03:17:17.720 He's searching for it.

03:17:20.260 Brian, why would you say that?

03:17:21.560 You're going to make it your reality.

03:17:23.320 Yeah.

03:17:23.680 Yeah.

03:17:23.940 Stop saying that.

03:17:25.120 Say you get DMs all the time.

03:17:27.300 Yeah.

03:17:27.540 I don't.

03:17:28.300 No, you need to be optimistic.

03:17:29.920 That's what faith is about.

03:17:30.720 You're going to have BDE, bro.

03:17:32.080 Yeah.

03:17:32.340 You need to have faith in yourself and in the world.

03:17:34.220 BDE.

03:17:36.820 There's so, okay.

03:17:37.760 I could talk about the BDE thing, but that's a whole nother.

03:17:39.700 Okay.

03:17:41.000 Me, just to respond to that, me thinking in my mind, trying to manifest girls DMing me.

03:17:51.420 Girls are not going to DM me. 1.00

03:17:53.120 You cannot manifest that into your life just because you-

03:17:56.860 Because you don't believe in it, so.

03:17:59.120 No.

03:17:59.680 I don't know about-

03:18:00.280 Okay.

03:18:01.620 I'm Danny DeVito, but not famous.

03:18:04.640 I want girls to just DM me. 1.00

03:18:06.820 I want Victoria's Secret Models to just DM me all the time. 1.00

03:18:10.900 Is that going to happen?

03:18:12.060 Victoria's Secret Models?

03:18:13.600 Yeah.

03:18:14.140 You are choosing a very specific category of girls, right?

03:18:18.380 Like who-

03:18:19.140 You are choosing as much as you were saying that girls only choose those top three guys.

03:18:25.320 Like you're doing the same.

03:18:26.700 You're like, okay.

03:18:27.560 I'm like-

03:18:28.180 I agree.

03:18:29.080 This guy and I want only hot supermodels. 1.00

03:18:32.540 You want hot supermodels or you want someone nice who'll sing for you 1.00

03:18:36.540 when he's going to like give you flowers.

03:18:39.220 Both.

03:18:39.620 He wants both.

03:18:41.340 Everybody does.

03:18:42.180 Women don't DM average guys, whereas average women- 1.00

03:18:45.700 That's not true.

03:18:46.960 That is not true.

03:18:47.480 Average guys-

03:18:48.260 I don't think you understand how attention-starved the average guy is.

03:18:53.460 Average guys get almost no matches on dating apps.

03:18:57.880 They get no DMs.

03:18:59.820 They go to a club.

03:19:01.060 Nobody talks to them.

03:19:02.340 Average girl goes to the club. 1.00

03:19:04.520 A couple guys are going to go talk to her. 0.95

03:19:06.160 I feel for them.

03:19:06.980 I feel for them.

03:19:07.720 That's really tragic.

03:19:08.920 But if you go around and like-

03:19:10.880 Let's say that we go around and we're like, 0.99

03:19:12.140 I'm so fucking ugly. 0.99

03:19:13.080 I'm so fat. 1.00

03:19:14.480 Everyone's going to treat you like you're a fat, ugly girl. 1.00

03:19:16.940 Yeah. 1.00

03:19:17.240 But if you're like, I'm pretty.

03:19:18.660 I'm confident.

03:19:19.240 People are like, oh, she has something.

03:19:20.700 I've seen many ugly girls who have confidence of a pretty girl. 1.00

03:19:23.660 She gets treated like a pretty girl.

03:19:25.120 Confidence does a lot to people.

03:19:25.880 Yeah.

03:19:26.280 If you go around being like, girls don't DM me. 0.98

03:19:29.240 It's like, do you think a girl wants to DM you? 1.00

03:19:31.420 Because you're like, nobody DMs me.

03:19:33.580 Like, do you think you're putting yourself in an attractive position?

03:19:36.940 I'm not-

03:19:37.620 Like, be for real right now, Brian.

03:19:38.880 He's not sad that goes on DM you.

03:19:41.560 I'm not sad.

03:19:42.920 I know you're standing up for the dudes that are sad about it.

03:19:45.140 But be for real.

03:19:46.320 Like, do you think someone wants to slide into your DMs if you're complaining about it?

03:19:49.200 No, but I'm reporting the facts.

03:19:51.080 I accept reality.

03:19:53.240 Women don't initiate like that. 1.00

03:19:55.200 Like, do some women occasionally DM a guy? 1.00

03:19:58.080 Yes. 0.91

03:19:59.020 But it's so fucking rare. 0.97

03:20:01.140 It's super rare. 0.83

03:20:02.120 As a guy, the only way you're going to be getting any girl's attention is either one, 0.99

03:20:07.600 you're going to be sending DMs, which like, Brian, I'm not sure if you're out there,

03:20:11.140 like sending DMs to a girl like, hey-

03:20:12.480 I don't DM girls.

03:20:13.040 Yeah, exactly.

03:20:13.980 I don't DM girls.

03:20:14.360 So like, you have to be like, honestly, like in a social area where you have the confidence

03:20:18.680 to like, walk up to a girl and like, talk to her.

03:20:20.940 Like, that's literally it.

03:20:22.660 That's the only way.

03:20:23.460 Like, girls get guys walking up to them all the time. 0.99

03:20:25.640 But like, does that work sometimes?

03:20:28.260 When a guy walks up to you and like, talks to you and like, he actually is like, confident

03:20:31.720 and is able to hold the conversation with you.

03:20:33.980 It works sometimes, right?

03:20:35.440 Of course.

03:20:36.200 Yeah, exactly.

03:20:36.820 It's like, that's the best way you're going to go with it.

03:20:40.720 Well-

03:20:41.480 Unfortunately, the fact we're not getting chased by girls.

03:20:43.040 We don't get easy like, DMs and like-

03:20:45.380 So what's the solution to that?

03:20:47.420 And there is no solution.

03:20:48.680 There's not going to be girls that like, just slide in guys' DMs.

03:20:51.060 Guys are just going to have to-

03:20:51.920 So you're just doomed forever?

03:20:53.160 No, you just have to like, have the confidence to like, walk up to a girl and be-

03:20:57.480 Put yourself in like, social areas, I guess.

03:21:00.100 You don't have to go chasing after girls, like go to bars or anything.

03:21:02.720 But like, I guess like you were saying, you're not in college anymore.

03:21:06.320 So like, you're not able to start these conversations with like, random girls on a daily basis.

03:21:11.160 Yeah, college is a great opportunity to organically meet people.

03:21:15.060 But once you get into your career-

03:21:17.300 You have to like, go out of your way to like-

03:21:19.260 I don't, like a lot of people will sometimes meet at work.

03:21:24.200 Eric, what's up, dude?

03:21:25.460 How you doing?

03:21:26.400 Like, that's it.

03:21:28.120 You're hollering off the balcony.

03:21:29.740 Eric's a handsome dude, right?

03:21:31.080 But I mean, you know, we're both straight.

03:21:33.840 It's the environment that you're in.

03:21:35.000 We're straight guys.

03:21:35.500 If you're not making connections with people like, in social areas or at work, then it's just like, it's hard.

03:21:40.720 There's like, you're in that hard spot where there's no girls at your work, girls aren't DMing you, and you're not really going out.

03:21:47.260 So it's like-

03:21:47.860 Here, let me try to play out like this.

03:21:51.760 You are 18, right?

03:21:54.200 You said you've gotten some DMs, right?

03:21:57.780 Like, I got into that at DMs?

03:22:00.100 You've gotten DMs from guys, right?

03:22:01.980 Like, give us a range.

03:22:04.660 How many DMs have you gotten from guys?

03:22:07.200 I don't know.

03:22:07.980 Just 50, 100?

03:22:09.800 Could be 50.

03:22:10.500 On Instagram?

03:22:11.360 Yeah.

03:22:11.840 Okay.

03:22:12.560 You're 18, right?

03:22:13.900 Yeah.

03:22:14.480 I'm 33.

03:22:15.340 I've been DMed two times by girls. 0.64

03:22:19.440 I don't deny that.

03:22:19.980 I feel really bad for you.

03:22:21.220 No, you don't need to feel bad.

03:22:23.040 We said negative at two.

03:22:25.280 It's not a negative.

03:22:26.220 Brian, what are we supposed to say to that?

03:22:27.960 Like, what do you want us to say to that?

03:22:29.220 No, I'm trying to make a point.

03:22:30.660 I'm trying to make a point is, maybe you guys don't realize, but guys don't get hit

03:22:36.740 up like that.

03:22:37.880 Yeah, I feel for them.

03:22:39.200 I know.

03:22:39.800 I know.

03:22:40.240 It's hard to be a guy.

03:22:41.040 No, I'm not asking for sympathy.

03:22:43.040 I'm not asking for pity.

03:22:44.320 I'm not giving pity.

03:22:45.280 I just understand.

03:22:46.840 It's hard for them.

03:22:47.060 What I'm trying to articulate is that it's very different between men and women.

03:22:51.780 Yeah.

03:22:52.920 It's very different.

03:22:54.380 It is.

03:22:55.280 Yeah.

03:22:55.680 And if it's really different and that's a system that we live in, then it's not really

03:23:00.720 a gender problem like fault. 0.65

03:23:02.640 It's not really individually women's fault for causing that. 0.92

03:23:05.940 It's not men's fault for creating that system.

03:23:07.940 It's like, just who uphold that?

03:23:10.980 Maybe you're being disruptive, which is good.

03:23:13.320 And I'm sorry that it's not working out.

03:23:15.020 But maybe, like, soon it will.

03:23:18.280 But I'm not, you shouldn't really blame, like, girls for not hitting on guys.

03:23:21.600 I'm not, I'm not, no, no, I'm not blaming girls.

03:23:22.980 He's just stating the facts.

03:23:24.040 He's not blaming them.

03:23:24.920 It's not somebody's fault.

03:23:27.000 It's not anybody's fault.

03:23:28.940 But women, okay, women don't need to DM guys, for starters, because you already have an 1.00

03:23:36.260 abundance of options of the guys who are DMing you.

03:23:39.840 Um, women typically tend to pick, of the men that pursue them, they tend to pick that way. 0.95

03:23:47.720 Um, I guess as far as the girls who DM, ah, what was I going to say? 0.99

03:23:52.660 The girls who DMed me, ah, fuck, I think I lost it. 1.00

03:23:56.440 Um, it's okay. 1.00

03:23:57.260 We don't need to talk about it.

03:23:58.620 Oh.

03:23:59.640 It makes me kind of sad.

03:24:01.280 Why?

03:24:01.700 Why does it make you, why does it make you, oh, I remember my point.

03:24:04.660 Um, also keep in mind, like I'm, I'm not trying to like brag or anything, but I've been out

03:24:12.820 there on social media for 10 years, right?

03:24:16.120 To be fair, my audience is like predominantly men.

03:24:19.180 So maybe that's part of it.

03:24:20.540 But like girls are not sliding into my DMs and that's with me on social media. 0.99

03:24:25.340 If I was a girl with my following, holy fuck, my, my inbox would be insane. 0.99

03:24:33.420 That's true. 1.00

03:24:34.420 Insane. 0.99

03:24:35.120 Be transgender. 1.00

03:24:36.620 What the fuck? 1.00

03:24:38.580 Haram! 1.00

03:24:39.400 Well, what's, what's the issue?

03:24:42.500 If you want more DMs, hypothetically, if you're.

03:24:46.240 Here, let me get these super chats.

03:24:47.740 We got it.

03:24:48.100 Let me do these super chats.

03:24:49.620 Um.

03:24:50.200 Brian, I'm trying to help you.

03:24:51.800 You're like complaining and I don't know what to say.

03:24:53.740 I'm not complaining.

03:24:55.700 I agree, but like, yeah, I, I don't know if there is a solution because it comes like

03:25:00.740 from evolutionary, like men being the hunter.

03:25:04.300 Yeah, there isn't a solution.

03:25:05.700 Like I said.

03:25:06.080 Have you ever seen those Twitch streamers that are guys who like pretend to be girls and

03:25:10.020 then they get a lot of attention?

03:25:11.660 Mm-hmm.

03:25:12.480 Yeah, that's a thing.

03:25:13.380 Yeah.

03:25:13.860 People do that.

03:25:14.500 Yeah.

03:25:14.620 People do that.

03:25:15.620 And like, it seems like they solve their own issue.

03:25:17.940 I don't know.

03:25:19.080 I don't hear them complaining about anything.

03:25:23.720 No comment.

03:25:24.500 Okay.

03:25:24.820 Okay.

03:25:25.720 Um, super chats.

03:25:26.500 We got, did I get this one or is this the most recent one?

03:25:31.880 I think that was the last one.

03:25:33.140 Okay.

03:25:33.300 So we have Gus.

03:25:34.060 Thanks for the $10 soup chat.

03:25:35.140 Polly relationship.

03:25:36.000 Actually, let's do Twitch first and then I'll get this.

03:25:37.980 Eric, can you pull up the Twitch tab?

03:25:39.960 We'll, we'll come right back to the soup chat.

03:25:41.660 Sorry for the wait guys.

03:25:42.480 We had a, uh, productive debate there.

03:25:44.980 Guys, open up a Twitch tab, twitch.tv slash whatever.

03:25:47.500 Drop us a follow and, uh, drop us a prime sub.

03:25:51.040 If you have a sub available.

03:25:52.740 Thanks, Eric.

03:25:53.660 Eric, could you, uh, snag me a water bottle, please?

03:25:56.200 Thank you, man.

03:25:57.340 Um, Gus, $10 soup chat.

03:25:59.860 Thank you, man.

03:26:00.240 Polly relationship only works if it's open, only on demand side. 0.99

03:26:03.320 A woman fat, I think he means that truly loves, admirers, respects for man, won't ever think 1.00

03:26:09.000 about being with other man.

03:26:10.460 A man can hook up with others and still love you.

03:26:13.600 Word.

03:26:14.400 Yo, Zentience, dude, thank you for drop.

03:26:16.220 Dude, really appreciate the support, Zentience.

03:26:17.920 I think this is, uh, the first time I've seen you, um, I think this is the first time

03:26:25.900 I've seen you in the chat, man.

03:26:27.300 Welcome.

03:26:27.700 I, I'm pretty sure I've seen you in, uh, fresh and fit.

03:26:29.940 Uh, dude, thank you so much for the support, man.

03:26:33.440 Appreciate it.

03:26:35.020 Uh, Miss Brazil is like the nun, in-depth and introspective as a blank sheet of paper. 0.99

03:26:41.080 Miss Brazil will never find another guy like him.

03:26:43.660 If she settles, she will undoubtedly, undoubtedly get the simp and subsequent chats.

03:26:50.060 Modern women lack cost-benefit analysis of their men. 0.98

03:26:53.940 You and me.

03:26:55.180 Come on, Sarah.

03:26:56.920 What?

03:26:57.460 You said you're like me.

03:26:58.400 Oh, I think he means Miss Brazil.

03:27:01.940 Like, he said Miss Brazil.

03:27:03.400 Oh, yeah, you're joking.

03:27:04.420 I'm so sorry.

03:27:05.980 He's too Brazilian, so we don't know.

03:27:09.020 Yeah.

03:27:09.620 Listen to them.

03:27:10.680 I don't care.

03:27:11.540 I'm thinking Miss Brazil.

03:27:13.120 All right, we have, uh.

03:27:13.880 That's exactly, I don't want to find someone like him because it didn't work out.

03:27:18.480 We have Zentience here with the $20 soup chat.

03:27:21.460 Subsequent cats?

03:27:22.520 Wait, I'm confused.

03:27:23.800 So, oh, wait.

03:27:25.220 Get the simps and subsequent cats.

03:27:27.700 Okay, guys, invest in Chewy.

03:27:29.800 Hold on, I have something here.

03:27:30.920 What is a cat?

03:27:33.520 I have those.

03:27:35.180 All right, guys.

03:27:38.020 Invest in cat food because there's going to be a lot of single people in the coming years. 1.00

03:27:43.700 I call those kitty and cat.

03:27:45.300 Kitty and cat.

03:27:46.480 Kitty cookies.

03:27:48.180 Irresistibles.

03:27:48.680 That's Meow Mix, by the way.

03:27:50.040 Yeah.

03:27:50.600 I call them kitty cookies.

03:27:52.220 Yo, we got Chaz here with the $10 soup chat.

03:27:54.820 Thank you, man.

03:27:55.180 Apologies.

03:27:55.700 Morgan Stanley, a global leader in investment banking, predicts that by 2030, 45% of women

03:28:01.060 ages 25 to 45 will be single.

03:28:04.260 Do they feel differently about that stat based on their experience dating?

03:28:09.200 I think everybody will be divorced or single.

03:28:17.080 Yeah, it's the fall of the West.

03:28:18.800 Okay.

03:28:21.360 We have Gus with the $10 soup chat.

03:28:23.260 Chivalry is dead. 0.80

03:28:23.960 Women killed it. 1.00

03:28:24.640 Y'all yell. 0.99

03:28:25.240 I'm independent.

03:28:25.980 Don't need no man, fellas.

03:28:27.020 Take her on a cheap first date until she proves and earns your chivalry. 0.99

03:28:31.060 I'm sure a lot of guys would love to pull out the stops on a first date, but we've been

03:28:38.180 burned.

03:28:39.320 We've done it.

03:28:40.740 It doesn't go anywhere.

03:28:41.940 The likelihood of any given first date nowadays going to the second date leading to a relationship

03:28:47.880 is so greatly diminished.

03:28:49.160 Also, I'm not sure if you guys have heard of this term, foodie calls, foodie, a foodie

03:28:54.240 call, like a booty call, but a foodie call.

03:28:55.940 So, a girl will go on a date with the sole intention of just getting a free meal. 1.00

03:29:02.400 Yeah, I heard about it from some friends. 0.99

03:29:04.360 That sucks. 0.97

03:29:05.580 Yeah, and they actually, some professor at some California university did a study on it, 0.99

03:29:09.540 and he found like 50% of the women that he polled admitted to have gone on a date with

03:29:15.980 a guy just for a free meal.

03:29:20.580 Actually, Eric, it might be in the studies folder if you want to pull it up.

03:29:23.960 Just so I, the girls don't doubt mine.

03:29:26.080 Yeah, that's the type of things that girls do that made, made Brian not want to pay for 1.00

03:29:30.780 any more meals.

03:29:32.840 Bro, I, I mean, I've had, I've, I've had foodie calls.

03:29:35.900 I've not had the doggy bag experience, but I've, I've definitely had girls. 0.88

03:29:39.340 What is the doggy bag experience?

03:29:40.700 What did he tell you the story?

03:29:42.140 Oh.

03:29:43.000 Where she brings the doggy bag that I, of the food that I paid for to the guy that

03:29:47.200 she's.

03:29:47.940 You haven't had that?

03:29:49.900 Not, I, no.

03:29:51.440 So why is it a concern for you?

03:29:53.020 Oh, he's on the foodie call.

03:29:54.940 I'm, I'm being cautious.

03:29:57.320 I'm mitigating my risks, I guess you could say.

03:30:00.480 Um, I'm trying to find it here, Eric.

03:30:03.880 Uh.

03:30:04.580 Yes, the foodie call statistics.

03:30:06.660 I need to see this.

03:30:08.360 I don't know.

03:30:09.800 Whatever, it doesn't matter. 0.95

03:30:11.360 All right, we have, uh, Zentience with the 50, dude, Zentience are fucking legend, dude. 0.94

03:30:17.060 Oh, wait, hold on. 0.82

03:30:18.980 Thank you, man.

03:30:19.900 Appreciate it.

03:30:20.360 $50 soup chat.

03:30:21.240 The flower door opening topic is banal at best since men don't benefit from any of that. 0.83

03:30:25.600 The bad boys always get the cheeks for free while Poindexter pays for everything while

03:30:29.520 waiting for a chance while losing money and his pride.

03:30:32.900 Focus on your future gents. 1.00

03:30:35.400 Yeah, I mean, I think a lot of men are starting to wake up because I think what you see happen

03:30:41.740 a lot is women, when they're younger, they're chasing after the exciting guy, the really 0.96

03:30:47.920 hot guys, the attractive guys, the bad boys, whatever.

03:30:50.300 And then when it comes time to have a family and settle down, you're going to go for the

03:30:54.420 provider guy, the safe guy.

03:30:57.840 And I mean, if you can get the whole package, you'll go for it, but you're going to go for

03:31:03.160 the nice guy, maybe for marriage.

03:31:08.580 Doesn't Sheryl Sandberg have some quote? 0.55

03:31:11.300 Like, I don't know, Sheryl Sandberg, she was the CEO of Facebook.

03:31:15.740 She wrote a book and in the book she said, women, you should date in your youth the bad 1.00

03:31:23.000 boys, the jerks, the assholes, the commitment phobic boys, get them out of your system. 1.00

03:31:28.580 And then there's nothing sexier than just a nice, the nice guy for when you want to settle 1.00

03:31:34.740 down and commit, when you need a guy to be a workhorse and a slave and a provider.

03:31:40.320 Men are starting to wake up to that and we're like, okay, you wouldn't have gone for us

03:31:44.460 when we were younger.

03:31:48.700 You were chasing after these types of guys when we were younger.

03:31:51.920 So a lot of guys are saying, if you, if I couldn't have got you when you were young,

03:31:56.480 I don't want you now.

03:31:59.180 Okay.

03:31:59.540 I'm being toxic tonight.

03:32:03.160 So, okay.

03:32:06.440 Yo, we got, yo, what's up?

03:32:08.880 Azul 69.

03:32:09.880 Good to see you, man.

03:32:10.900 Hope you had a good new year.

03:32:11.980 Good to see you back, Brian.

03:32:12.920 $20 soup chat.

03:32:13.680 What luck.

03:32:14.460 I've been trying to learn Portuguese these days.

03:32:16.660 What does, can you guys read this?

03:32:18.000 Don't read that.

03:32:18.660 Oh, is it?

03:32:19.420 It's bad.

03:32:19.780 Yeah, it's really bad.

03:32:21.960 No.

03:32:22.580 Can you tell me what it's about?

03:32:24.560 Is it sex related?

03:32:25.540 It is sex related. 0.75

03:32:27.320 But badly.

03:32:28.380 It's okay.

03:32:28.780 Just say it in English.

03:32:30.040 Okay.

03:32:31.920 Azul, how dare you, sir?

03:32:33.140 Okay.

03:32:33.380 Mr. K.

03:32:35.040 $10 soup chat.

03:32:35.840 I feel you, Brian, but personally, I have no issue with a girl having been talking to other 0.95

03:32:38.740 guys when we first meet.

03:32:40.020 She doesn't owe me anything up to that point.

03:32:41.900 It's none of my business.

03:32:42.640 Anyways, hey, that's fine.

03:32:44.440 I also, that's fine.

03:32:46.900 I also don't owe her to pay for her date.

03:32:49.800 We should split the bill.

03:32:50.860 But if you ask a lot of girls, if a guy said, hey, we should split the bill, a lot of girls 1.00

03:32:55.180 will say, there's not going to be a second date.

03:32:57.580 So, I don't know.

03:32:58.700 At least be consistent.

03:33:02.920 But, I don't know.

03:33:06.640 You don't owe anyone anything, but.

03:33:11.140 Okay.

03:33:12.780 Yo, Zentience.

03:33:13.780 What?

03:33:14.220 Bro.

03:33:15.700 Oh, whoops.

03:33:16.240 Wrong one.

03:33:16.640 My bad.

03:33:17.020 That was a.

03:33:17.700 Here's Zentience.

03:33:18.740 $50 soup chat.

03:33:20.620 Tristan is very weak.

03:33:21.460 The lack of understanding regarding feminine boss babes, mindset, et cetera, shows him placating 1.00

03:33:25.740 the three of foes on the panel.

03:33:26.980 Sit down, pay attention, and listen to the men talk.

03:33:29.600 Weakness emanates from men who feel rather than he who thinks.

03:33:33.480 Sounds like an insecure man.

03:33:35.120 Do you want to respond to that, Tristan?

03:33:36.380 Sounds like toxic masculinity. 1.00

03:33:37.620 Nah.

03:33:38.380 Honestly, it just sounds like insecure men, bro.

03:33:40.460 To be honest.

03:33:41.580 I have no comment on it.

03:33:44.360 Zentience.

03:33:44.860 You should come on the show, man.

03:33:46.040 Tristan, you're very real for that.

03:33:47.680 Very real for what?

03:33:49.900 We're calling that out.

03:33:51.660 Nah, man.

03:33:52.140 I don't really care.

03:33:54.440 It's pretty funny.

03:33:55.360 Excel self with the Tendal soup chat.

03:33:56.660 Brian needs to take classes from Toxic Kings.

03:33:59.160 I have no idea who that is, but okay.

03:34:01.520 Thank you.

03:34:02.440 Yo, Chaz with the Tendal soup chat. 0.93

03:34:03.800 Hey, good to see you, man.

03:34:05.280 By the way, would you guys date a guy whose first name was Chaz?

03:34:10.940 I'm sorry, Chaz.

03:34:11.760 I threw you under the bus, but I'm just curious.

03:34:13.860 He's got the stash going.

03:34:15.400 Chaz. 0.90

03:34:15.620 Come on.

03:34:16.120 Chaz Onomatopoeia.

03:34:18.240 Chaz Onomatopoeia is a really fun name.

03:34:24.200 Wait, like three Zs? 0.99

03:34:25.800 Like that.

03:34:25.940 Chaz. 0.90

03:34:26.300 No, like just one Z. 0.93

03:34:28.220 Just one Z. 0.99

03:34:28.860 Chaz. 0.90

03:34:29.900 Would you date a guy named Chaz?

03:34:31.340 Chaz's all about it.

03:34:34.300 The stash?

03:34:34.920 You wouldn't do the stash?

03:34:36.600 Hello?

03:34:37.360 Okay.

03:34:37.960 I don't think he would want to date us.

03:34:39.960 All right.

03:34:40.500 Okay.

03:34:41.000 Chaz, would you be willing to tell a man before a first date that you're seeing other

03:34:44.120 men if he, oh, this is a, this, thank you, Chaz.

03:34:45.880 This is a good question.

03:34:46.900 So would you be willing to tell a man before a first date that you're seeing other men if

03:34:52.120 he asked?

03:34:54.420 Yes.

03:34:54.900 I don't believe in lying.

03:34:55.860 Would you feel affronted if he did ask?

03:35:01.940 Would you be like, that's kind of none of your business?

03:35:05.500 I would just assume that he's asking because he's overly concerned.

03:35:10.000 So I would like to alleviate that and just answer.

03:35:13.120 Okay.

03:35:13.820 Would it be like negative?

03:35:15.640 Would you view him slightly negatively if he asked something like that?

03:35:19.580 Or in neutral?

03:35:23.060 Honestly, I, honestly, I, I think I would be a little like put off by it.

03:35:26.980 I'd be like, I don't think you should be concerned about that.

03:35:30.800 Cause I'm not concerned about that.

03:35:32.580 You know?

03:35:33.440 So you wouldn't, for example, if you knew that a guy, and I will go around the table on

03:35:38.040 this guys.

03:35:38.520 If you knew that the guy was, let's say you wanted to pursue someone for a long-term

03:35:44.560 relationship.

03:35:45.060 You knew he was sleeping with seven other women that wouldn't be part of your, um, analysis.

03:35:53.260 What's the word equation of maybe I don't want to date this guy.

03:35:59.920 Would I want to date someone that's dating seven other people?

03:36:02.160 Yeah.

03:36:02.720 No.

03:36:03.280 If we're being real.

03:36:04.440 Okay.

03:36:04.900 Like be for real, obviously.

03:36:06.200 But, but I want to maybe challenge you on trying to reframe, reframe that. 0.99

03:36:11.940 Maybe he's asking because he, he won't, he's not just going to fucking chuck you. 0.98

03:36:16.620 He's not going to do, he doesn't want to one night stand with you. 0.98

03:36:21.040 He actually wants to pursue a long-term serious relationship with you.

03:36:24.580 And that's why he's curious.

03:36:27.300 So could you reframe it like that to be like, Oh, actually this is a genuine guy who actually

03:36:34.240 wants to pursue a relationship with me.

03:36:35.940 Yeah.

03:36:37.020 I could.

03:36:37.820 Anyways.

03:36:38.360 Uh, so.

03:36:39.300 Question's a question.

03:36:40.600 So would you be willing to tell a guy before a first date that you're seeing other men

03:36:44.540 if he asked?

03:36:46.980 Uh, yes.

03:36:48.480 But that's also like a red flag for me as part.

03:36:50.680 Like, why would you want to know that in the beginning?

03:36:52.840 Obviously in the beginning you're always dating, you know, you're maybe talking to somebody.

03:36:59.200 Why would you even want to know that?

03:37:01.360 Why would a guy want to know that?

03:37:02.820 Yeah.

03:37:02.980 Well, we, we just talked about it.

03:37:05.680 I think it's just like pointless.

03:37:07.380 Cause then you don't, you go to the first date, it gets another person, right?

03:37:11.840 Like it doesn't matter because that, I mean, yeah, obviously I wouldn't want to go out

03:37:19.620 on a date with a guy knowing that he's going out with seven other girls.

03:37:23.120 Okay.

03:37:23.720 But I already assume this person is already talking with other people.

03:37:27.880 You know, I'll be my best.

03:37:29.540 And maybe if we connect, he would choose me, then automatically those other people won't

03:37:35.600 be in the pageant more.

03:37:37.860 That's my thinking.

03:37:42.880 So, wait.

03:37:44.300 Okay.

03:37:44.560 So, well, I can tell you why you asked why a guy would want to know that.

03:37:51.040 Right?

03:37:51.520 Okay.

03:37:55.780 I can tell you why, for example, I might want to ask that question.

03:37:59.800 If I asked the question and the girl was honest with me and she said, hey, you know what?

03:38:03.880 Yes, Brian, I'm sleeping with two other guys right now.

03:38:06.840 You're free.

03:38:07.260 That's fine.

03:38:07.900 You can do that.

03:38:09.500 But I don't, I no longer want to go on a date with you.

03:38:12.820 We're not compatible.

03:38:14.400 So, why?

03:38:15.020 I don't want to waste your time.

03:38:16.080 Why are you not compatible?

03:38:16.880 Why am I not compatible with the girl that's sleeping with three other men? 0.69

03:38:20.800 He's saying they're not compatible.

03:38:22.380 I'm talking about just dating.

03:38:22.960 Okay.

03:38:23.180 Like, you were even saying if the girl is talking, seeing other people, that doesn't necessarily

03:38:27.440 mean that you are sleeping with them.

03:38:29.360 Right?

03:38:29.620 But let's say I have planned two dates this week.

03:38:34.000 Right?

03:38:34.300 And you have asked me, are you seeing other people?

03:38:37.600 Right?

03:38:38.260 Why?

03:38:39.660 We're dating.

03:38:41.660 You, it's not like you go in one day, you're finding the way.

03:38:43.880 You're a perfect person.

03:38:45.520 And you're already assuming that's like also insecurity.

03:38:49.260 You're asking those questions already to cause a problem.

03:38:51.600 Is it insecurity or is it having a boundary?

03:38:54.480 I think it's like values, what he's talking about.

03:38:57.300 Because what.

03:38:57.740 You have different values.

03:38:59.140 Well, what you call insecurity, I call having a boundary.

03:39:03.080 So, you would only go out on a date if the girl is not talking to anybody?

03:39:08.020 No.

03:39:08.960 I accept that women are probably talking or inter-talking to other guys. 1.00

03:39:15.220 However, if I find out that she's currently sleeping with another guy, now how would I 1.00

03:39:20.640 find that out?

03:39:21.500 Most girls are either not gonna, they're not gonna be upfront about that. 1.00

03:39:24.900 They could lie.

03:39:26.540 Yeah, so why ask?

03:39:29.820 You wouldn't know.

03:39:30.480 He wants to know if he's wasting his time or not.

03:39:32.400 Yeah, but the girl, exactly what you said, before going to the first date, you're messaging,

03:39:35.920 hey, are you sleeping with other people?

03:39:37.700 I mean, I'm not agreeing with like having to ask that on the first date, but like if

03:39:40.920 you do somehow find out, he wants to know if he's of importance to her that she's not

03:39:46.160 smashing other dudes on the side.

03:39:47.720 Yeah, so if I find out, or if somehow we're talking, maybe when we're on the phone call,

03:39:52.780 it comes up organically, we're talking about previous relationships, and I don't know,

03:39:56.940 just somehow it organically comes up.

03:40:00.220 I mean, certainly it'd be nice if you could just be straight up and just be like, hey,

03:40:03.420 are you hooking up with other people right now?

03:40:05.060 But I don't know, maybe I should start doing that, to be honest, but they're just, I wouldn't

03:40:11.000 even want to go on the first date.

03:40:14.720 Is it too hot now?

03:40:16.140 It's pretty hot.

03:40:17.000 Eric, can you open the...

03:40:20.100 I understand.

03:40:21.000 I wouldn't want to as well, but it's not a question that I think, I mean, it's really

03:40:27.220 hard to judge people, right?

03:40:28.560 Like, I think, obviously, this is the problem with dating apps, because you don't know them,

03:40:36.080 but if you meet somebody in real life, mutual friends, in a bar, you can tell a little bit,

03:40:43.340 like, it's not like it's going to give it away how many people they're sleeping with,

03:40:45.820 but you can tell their values, and then you would take them on the first date, you seem

03:40:49.880 like, okay, this girl is nice, has good values, I want to take them on a date.

03:40:53.440 You're going to scare the person if you're like, are you sleeping with other people?

03:40:56.680 Well, perhaps, maybe, but if she's not, then, I mean, I think there's also more eloquent

03:41:05.800 ways you can ask it.

03:41:07.580 You could say, are you seeing anybody else right now? 0.99

03:41:10.900 Or instead of saying, hey, are you fucking anybody else right now? 0.98

03:41:13.760 I think if you ask someone, hey, just, you could, here's how I might frame it if I were 0.98

03:41:18.980 to overtly, if I were to just straight up ask them, I might frame it like this.

03:41:23.180 I might say, hey, listen, I just want to be upfront with you.

03:41:26.180 I am looking for something serious.

03:41:28.200 I'm not interested in one night stands.

03:41:29.660 I'm not interested in friends with benefits.

03:41:32.940 I'm not saying we're going to be boyfriend, girlfriend right away, but that is, I am kind 0.78

03:41:37.120 of dating with a purpose, and just, you know, I'd like to know, I kind of fucked up the last

03:41:41.360 part, but, you know, are you currently seeing other guys right now?

03:41:45.580 I might frame it like that.

03:41:47.040 That might be a better landing for that sort of question, but, yeah.

03:41:52.940 Yeah, if you frame it like that, that's a point.

03:41:55.800 And that's true for me, because I'm not interested in just running through a bunch of girls.

03:42:01.820 It doesn't interest me. 0.96

03:42:04.240 Having sex with a bunch of different girls once, twice, and then never talking to them 0.58

03:42:08.500 again, that's not appealing to me. 0.92

03:42:13.340 No, that's fair.

03:42:14.560 And I value, and you know what's interesting when it comes to sex, right?

03:42:21.440 First off, the most consistent and regular sex that you're going to have is within a relationship,

03:42:27.700 I think. 1.00

03:42:28.120 I mean, unless you're a real fucking player. 1.00

03:42:29.600 But you're going to have the most consistent sex, you're going to have the best sex, because 1.00

03:42:36.160 I mean, I think anyways, the best sex that you're going to have with someone is you trust

03:42:43.180 each other, you love each other, you have comfort, you have a connection, you, there's

03:42:47.880 an, excuse me, getting tongue-tied here, there's an emotional connection.

03:42:51.980 And then just on a purely physical realm, you know, there's a, you know what they like,

03:42:57.560 and they know what you like.

03:42:58.740 And so, yeah, so, I don't know, I've never, me personally, maybe I'm different in this

03:43:05.660 way, I've never been interested in just sleeping with a whole bunch of girls. 0.76

03:43:08.780 It doesn't, it doesn't, oh, wow, that's striking, you look great in that.

03:43:14.160 It doesn't interest me.

03:43:15.560 It doesn't interest me to just run through a bunch of girls.

03:43:17.760 I value more so long-term, serious relationships.

03:43:20.720 Obviously, in that scenario that you had put, it's true, but it's just that it sounded

03:43:26.320 like, oh, if the girl is going on a different date, I'm not saying sleeping, but different

03:43:31.780 dates, it's a wrong thing, you know, but it shouldn't be, because you're getting to know

03:43:35.740 people, especially from dating apps, because you don't know anything.

03:43:39.120 All you see is just, like, a picture and how tall they are, and you don't know anything.

03:43:43.500 You don't know, and sometimes people don't connect on the first day, you don't, there is

03:43:47.760 no, there is such thing as love at first sight, but as you grow older, it's not like, okay,

03:43:54.700 I met you, and I'm in love with you, I'm going to cut everything, I'm not going to meet anybody

03:43:58.380 anymore, you know, like, so I was saying in that sense.

03:44:03.160 I mean, going on five dates a week to me just seems exhausting, to be honest.

03:44:07.160 No, that's true.

03:44:07.900 And, and I also think that, I mean, why is it that we've seen the rise of, because I

03:44:14.580 feel like kind of before social media, and before dating apps, people were more likely

03:44:22.580 to get into relationships, whereas now we have situationships where someone wants a

03:44:29.000 bit, something more, someone doesn't want to commit, and it's because we have such an

03:44:32.840 abundance of options, and I mean, you can't, I don't think you can simultaneously say, I

03:44:41.020 don't like situationships, but also, I know you didn't say that, but people often complain

03:44:45.360 about, oh, situationships, they suck, like, I just want a partner, and then also be going

03:44:51.460 on multiple, like, going on all these dates, too, and entertaining multiple options, so I

03:44:57.800 think that, um, I think it's also a cultural thing, and then, unfortunately, it's how dating

03:45:03.980 is right now for the 20, 30 people, you know, because exactly what you said, there is, like,

03:45:09.320 a bunch of options out there, and that's what I was saying before about the lack, lack of

03:45:14.380 effort, because why are you going to do the same thing for 10 girls that you're going to

03:45:18.980 go out with, you get what I mean?

03:45:20.920 Well, I mean, to me, it just seems exhausting to be going on a whole bunch of dates with different

03:45:25.540 people, I say, I mean, people can do whatever they want, but I think what would be the most

03:45:31.140 optimum thing for both men and women is talk to someone and really try to just pursue one 0.88

03:45:40.760 person at a time, if there's that mutual interest there, um, I mean, it's, it's funny, I think

03:45:47.360 this was about a year ago, I went on a date with a girl who was, I don't know, she was 31

03:45:52.840 or something, why are you laughing, uh, too, what, too old or something, I don't know,

03:45:59.580 no, it was the comments, oh, one of the comments, yeah, went on this date with a girl, 31, like,

03:46:05.260 pretty average girl, uh, well, here's the other thing that I think might be frustrating for

03:46:12.480 a lot of guys, an average woman has so many options, she was, I'm not trying to be mean,

03:46:19.820 but she was average, not particularly remarkable in terms of her personality, she wasn't an 0.96

03:46:25.780 exceptionally charismatic, looks wise, average, um, average job, worked, I don't know, she was a

03:46:34.280 nurse or something, she told me, we went on, I went on a date with her, and she told me she had

03:46:41.300 just down, we met on Hinge, she had just downloaded it two days prior, three days prior, she said that,

03:46:48.460 and I think she'd been on it for three days, we had been on it, we went on a date on the third date

03:46:53.360 that, sorry guys, getting tongue tied again, we went on a date the third day that she had the app,

03:46:59.460 she had told me she had already been on one date, and she told me she had two dates planned for the

03:47:03.500 weekend, the way that makes me feel is, well, one, it's just shot, it's kind of crazy to me that

03:47:10.400 someone so average has that degree of options, but that's how it is for women, um, but I was like, 0.98

03:47:21.660 I, okay, well, what if I wanted to hang out with you on Saturday, you already got plans, you're gonna

03:47:25.800 go see another guy, the likelihood that I'm, it's going to work out between you and me,

03:47:33.760 you're talking to five other dudes, I'm, I'm checked out, I just, we're done, like, I don't

03:47:42.580 want to pursue it, so, did you just moan? I just burped. Oh, okay, I thought there was a moan.

03:47:50.180 I burp and I moan at the same time, yeah. Oh, wow, okay, um, all right, let's get some super,

03:47:54.920 oh, wait, did we go all the, sorry, did we go all the way around the table on that super chat?

03:47:59.600 No. Okay, we'll do it really quick, we'll get the rest of the soup chats, we'll react to a video,

03:48:06.100 and then we're going to wrap up, um, would you be willing to tell a man before a first date that

03:48:10.840 you're seeing other men if he asked? I don't care, yeah, sure. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Okay, cool, um, oh,

03:48:21.920 while I, while I have this in mind, Madison, um, we spoke previously, do you remember the thing we

03:48:27.840 spoke about, do you want to bring that up? Um, uh, yeah, we can. You sure? Madison, you're so cute.

03:48:40.460 What is it? Yeah, we can. You sure? Yeah. Ask her one more time. You know what I'm talking about,

03:48:46.520 you know what I'm talking about, though. Okay. Um, you want me to, Jesus, say it, say it.

03:49:05.360 Hold on, actually, before we do that, we'll get to that in a sec. Um, we talked a bit about body

03:49:12.780 count. I want to go around the table on body count. What's your body count, Tristan? Uh,

03:49:20.100 wait, actually, hold on. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Really quick, really quick around the table.

03:49:25.760 Should body count matter? No. Uh, yes. Oh, okay. No. No. That was for her, by the way. Okay. No.

03:49:36.540 No. No. Uh, yes. Okay. What's your body count? 21. Madison, into the mic. Do I have to? You

03:49:51.060 already, you already said it on the last show. I know. Did I? Yeah, you did say it on the last

03:49:55.360 show. Wait. It's the mic, Madison. Um, it's like, um, say it. I'm nervous. You already said it.

03:50:09.620 We can all say it at the same time. Okay. Well, one at a time. Go ahead, Madison. Can I go last?

03:50:15.580 Or middle? No, no, you should go first. You should go first. No, no, no, no, no, Madison, Madison.

03:50:20.760 I won't lie about it. No, but you've already revealed it on the previous show. Did I? Yeah,

03:50:25.540 you did. Yeah, I did. So what is it? Like, 35. 35. Okay. I've been with the same guy since

03:50:32.800 13, so one, obviously. Wow. Okay. Wait, so you're in a long distance relationship? Yeah. Oh,

03:50:45.420 okay. I don't know. I'm not sure. You don't know? No. You want to

03:50:50.740 give us a range? 10, 20, 30, 40? 100? No, no, no. Maybe, like, 20? Like, between,

03:51:00.740 like, 20, 25? Okay. I don't know. Sure. Appreciate the honesty. Thank you. Yeah. Go ahead. Do I have

03:51:07.420 to tell? I mean. You just, hold on, but you said body count doesn't matter, so why the hesitation

03:51:12.240 to reveal? I can, but I think you're going to be surprised, maybe? Go for it. I don't,

03:51:20.420 I have, like, really low. I have one. But you're also just 18, so. I just turned 18.

03:51:27.500 So you still won? Yeah. Okay. All right. Body count? Like, 12? Like, 12? Yes. Okay. Okay.

03:51:40.240 One. One. Are you looking at me like that? I felt so bad. What? I felt so bad. Is that uncommon?

03:51:56.160 Is that unheard of? Is that absurd? It's very beautiful music. Okay. Okay. All right. You know who it is?

03:52:09.880 Say it with me now. Jesus? Oh, my God. Stop the cap. Stop the cap. Stop the cap.

03:52:19.640 What's the actual number? One. Wait. So, okay. As far as the body count of the table goes?

03:52:26.920 Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.

03:52:28.740 Okay. So, Madison, do you want to share?

03:52:41.680 What do you mean?

03:52:43.440 The situation.

03:52:45.600 Can you start? I'll go with you.

03:52:48.620 You know what I'm talking about, though, right? I do, yeah.

03:52:50.140 Okay. All right. You want me to say it?

03:52:53.640 Yeah. I don't know. What are you going to say?

03:52:56.020 One of you, say it.

03:52:57.460 What is happening right now?

03:52:58.740 I know.

03:52:59.280 I'm very curious.

03:53:00.780 I know.

03:53:02.320 The semen situation?

03:53:04.340 No, I didn't say the semen situation. Okay.

03:53:05.960 What do the blue emojis mean?

03:53:12.120 Cap. Stop the cap. It means you're lying.

03:53:14.420 It means you're capping. She's got the blue hair. She's capping.

03:53:17.100 Okay.

03:53:19.100 That's hilarious.

03:53:21.360 Hilarious.

03:53:24.600 I just don't know how to, like, start it.

03:53:28.240 All right.

03:53:28.840 Okay.

03:53:29.100 It's about herpes.

03:53:30.040 Okay. It's about herpes.

03:53:32.020 Right?

03:53:32.440 Yes.

03:53:32.980 Yeah.

03:53:33.620 Okay. Do you want to reveal to the chat?

03:53:35.800 What about it?

03:53:36.460 Oh, we're talking about STDs now.

03:53:38.040 Okay. Like, um, I don't know.

03:53:41.100 Into the mic. Louder, louder.

03:53:42.440 Can you talk?

03:53:43.480 Do you want me to say it on your behalf?

03:53:45.240 Yeah.

03:53:45.860 Okay. So, you sure?

03:53:49.120 Yeah.

03:53:50.080 Okay. So, Madison told me that she has herpes. 1.00

03:54:00.080 Okay.

03:54:00.740 Okay.

03:54:01.000 What do you want us to say to that?

03:54:04.680 I, what I'm trying to say.

03:54:07.040 What would you do it with someone if they told you they have herpes?

03:54:10.100 Madison, you're perfect.

03:54:11.200 You're fine.

03:54:11.520 They would be like, no.

03:54:11.960 Don't worry.

03:54:12.520 They do say no.

03:54:13.840 But I feel like no one knows, like, how, um, obviously, like, have safe sex, you know?

03:54:20.340 But.

03:54:20.780 Okay.

03:54:21.320 We will.

03:54:21.980 But, like, okay.

03:54:23.540 But everyone thinks it's really bad.

03:54:25.240 And it's not as bad as everyone thinks it is.

03:54:28.600 Herpes is herpes.

03:54:29.260 It's in your DNA.

03:54:30.720 I guess my question is, because there's a lot of talk about body count, right?

03:54:33.920 And saying body count shouldn't matter.

03:54:37.380 But would you so fervently defend promiscuity, casual sex, having high body count, if you got herpes? 0.95

03:54:46.720 No, that is terrible.

03:54:51.040 Like, I think to myself, if I were to catch herpes, by the way, don't have herpes.

03:54:55.380 But if I were to catch it, and I was being promiscuous, I would think to myself, I should not have been so promiscuous.

03:55:03.320 What is, like, being promiscuous?

03:55:05.380 Like, what is, like, too high of a body count?

03:55:08.440 Sleeping with a lot of people at the same time.

03:55:10.900 I don't know, but, like, we say the word numbers.

03:55:14.000 Like, what is, like, a high body count for, like, someone who's 30?

03:55:18.380 Someone who's 30?

03:55:19.360 Yeah.

03:55:21.160 Ah, it depends.

03:55:22.800 Brian, what's your body count?

03:55:23.800 You're, like, 30, right?

03:55:25.100 I'm a man of God, so I don't disclose my body count.

03:55:27.880 What?

03:55:28.720 Oh, what?

03:55:29.760 That's unfair.

03:55:30.480 I think body count matters, so I'm not going to disclose my body count.

03:55:34.200 How about this?

03:55:35.060 You guys can guess.

03:55:36.000 How about that?

03:55:36.520 I'll let you guess.

03:55:37.800 We'll start with you.

03:55:39.160 Judging by the stats, I'm going to believe you and say one.

03:55:44.400 Okay.

03:55:45.260 Are you offended by that?

03:55:46.780 I'm not offended.

03:55:48.440 I'll tell you.

03:55:48.960 I will tell you you're wrong, though.

03:55:50.740 Okay.

03:55:52.700 How old are you?

03:55:53.680 30?

03:55:54.080 33.

03:55:54.600 He's, like, 30-something.

03:55:55.420 I mean, imagine, like, from 18, if you had lost your virginity and then to 32, imagine

03:56:00.880 if you sleep just once every year.

03:56:03.060 That's already, like, 15, you know?

03:56:05.960 Think about it.

03:56:06.920 It's not bad.

03:56:08.900 Could be once a year.

03:56:10.260 Who knows?

03:56:11.420 I'd say...

03:56:12.000 Long-term relationships.

03:56:12.880 But the way you are very annoying about that, maybe, like, 10.

03:56:15.980 Oh, it's less because I was annoying.

03:56:17.700 Okay.

03:56:18.020 All right.

03:56:18.440 That's fine.

03:56:19.080 What do you think?

03:56:21.240 That'd be really nice.

03:56:22.620 I'd say the same, I guess.

03:56:24.680 I don't know.

03:56:25.160 Like, 15, maybe?

03:56:27.200 I'm, like, 12.

03:56:30.600 Brian, please tell us.

03:56:31.660 Please tell us.

03:56:31.960 Yeah, just tell us.

03:56:33.220 Please tell us.

03:56:34.000 Just please tell us.

03:56:35.420 I don't disclose.

03:56:36.580 Never disclose.

03:56:36.960 I don't disclose.

03:56:38.020 It could be anywhere from zero to 200.

03:56:40.940 Okay.

03:56:42.900 Let's go with the median and say it's 100.

03:56:45.720 But, like, I...

03:56:46.440 Here's the thing.

03:56:47.140 When it comes to the herpes, right, and body count, I guarantee you,

03:56:55.100 if a...

03:56:56.100 Well, maybe it's not a guarantee, but if a girl got, or anyone got herpes or an incurable

03:57:04.080 STD, they're probably going to take pause and think, maybe I shouldn't have had...

03:57:11.520 Now, you can get an STD in a relationship, sure.

03:57:15.300 But, like, come on.

03:57:17.880 It's more likely in a hookup scenario.

03:57:24.100 Didn't you say you used protection, though?

03:57:26.280 And you still...

03:57:27.160 Not all the time.

03:57:29.120 Oh.

03:57:30.680 But, Madison, I just...

03:57:31.920 I want to commend you because I think, first off, it's...

03:57:35.680 One, it's incredibly brave of you to, one, be honest about your body count, and then,

03:57:42.120 two, to, you know, be willing to disclose your status on the show.

03:57:51.720 And I do think that herpes, it has maybe a stigma attached to it that might not necessarily

03:57:58.680 be...

03:58:00.240 Maybe there's some misconceptions about...

03:58:02.980 Oh, Angel...

03:58:03.680 Let me...

03:58:04.300 Wait.

03:58:04.640 Okay.

03:58:05.360 So, do you have any comments or anything, or anything you want to share about...

03:58:09.680 Um, no.

03:58:13.100 Okay, she's good.

03:58:13.920 I don't think so.

03:58:14.720 All right.

03:58:15.000 You said it's not that bad.

03:58:16.260 No, I like...

03:58:17.060 Because it's so controllable, and people just don't know about it.

03:58:21.480 I feel like you should learn a little more about it before you're like, oh, you have herpes,

03:58:27.140 I'm not going to get with you.

03:58:29.180 Let's go around the table really quick on that.

03:58:32.100 If you're talking to a guy, and you liked him, and he told you, obviously, before you hooked

03:58:38.300 up, hey, listen, just want to talk to you, I should let you know, I do have herpes, are

03:58:45.380 you going to pursue it, or are you not?

03:58:49.580 Um, I just want to say, first of all, you are very brave, and my answer has nothing to

03:58:56.600 do with, like, you at all, but, like, if we're being real right now, like, that's a

03:59:03.180 question that I feel like everyone is going to say no to, unless you have herpes, too.

03:59:08.300 Well, actually, well, you told me that you've disclosed to some guys, and they were okay

03:59:16.740 with it, be careful, but, uh, but you told them, and they said, I accept the risk.

03:59:25.740 Oh, they're so real for that? 1.00

03:59:27.540 These motherfuckers, desperate for some pussy, I mean, anyways, um, what about you? 1.00

03:59:33.240 Um, no, no, no, if I was in love with them, using protection. 1.00

03:59:42.720 How would you be, but, I mean, you wouldn't, they disclosed to you, like, the second or

03:59:49.980 third date before you have the chance to fall in love with them?

03:59:53.460 Like, second or third date?

03:59:55.600 Like, before you guys sleep together.

03:59:58.520 I don't know, maybe it's on the first date.

03:59:59.900 I don't know what your schedule is, but...

04:00:01.160 I've been in love through messages before, right?

04:00:03.360 So, like, I fall in love with the conversation, and then, if the sexual chemistry, if the, like,

04:00:10.080 physical chemistry happens, then I fall further, but, like, I...

04:00:15.160 But you don't fall in love with the guy before you sleep with him, right?

04:00:19.580 I mean, I don't know how long you wait, but...

04:00:21.660 Maybe you, like I did.

04:00:27.420 I've done before.

04:00:31.080 She's falling in love with someone before she...

04:00:33.000 I mean, that's really cool.

04:00:35.500 Okay, um...

04:00:36.960 Like, for their personality, and...

04:00:41.160 What, what's up?

04:00:43.420 What?

04:00:44.220 What's up?

04:00:45.460 Um, I was just wondering when this was, like...

04:00:47.880 Oh, we're gonna wrap...

04:00:48.620 Not to be disrespectful.

04:00:49.160 No, we're...

04:00:49.760 No, I know, we've gone late.

04:00:50.880 We're gonna wrap pretty soon here.

04:00:53.360 Okay, let me get these soup chats.

04:00:54.840 We'll react to one video, and then we'll, uh...

04:00:58.460 Yeah, but I do commend you, once again, very brave of you to be willing to, uh, talk about

04:01:03.760 that, and, uh...

04:01:06.180 Yeah, um...

04:01:07.120 Okay, so...

04:01:09.600 Uh...

04:01:10.600 Let's see.

04:01:12.660 Yo, we have Zentine's here with a $50 soup chat.

04:01:15.060 Thank you, man.

04:01:16.120 Appreciate it.

04:01:17.080 We have, um...

04:01:18.440 Woo-hoo! 1.00

04:01:18.940 Blue-haired hentai is wrong... 0.98

04:01:21.940 Oh, that's me.

04:01:22.800 Yeah, that's you.

04:01:23.400 Oh, cool.

04:01:24.100 Uh, maybe Kiki, too.

04:01:25.560 Um, when women go around saying, 1.00

04:01:28.140 I'm ugly, there are legions of simps and other women bolstering their ego, i.e. Lizzo. 1.00

04:01:33.840 If...

04:01:34.300 But if men do that, other men will shame them relentlessly.

04:01:38.620 Men must battle their demons on their own. 0.91

04:01:41.080 Yeah, a guy who's a bum, who is unattractive, like, if he's, like, trying to big up himself, 1.00

04:01:49.500 like, we're... 1.00

04:01:50.680 Tristan, like, if one of your buddies is like, I'm the fucking shit, dog, and he ain't the 1.00

04:01:56.360 shit, are you gonna fucking clown on him? 1.00

04:01:57.880 Oh, yeah, we're calling him out for shit. 1.00

04:01:58.900 I'm a fucking clown on him, dude. 1.00

04:02:00.960 Girls will, like, big up their friends. 1.00

04:02:03.420 100%.

04:02:03.860 That Lizzo example is, it's like, don't normalize being, like, unhealthy. 0.96

04:02:08.700 It's just, I don't know why the fuck that's, like, a trend to be okay with that. 0.96

04:02:14.020 That Lizzo example is perfect. 0.97

04:02:15.880 You're opening a box of...

04:02:17.120 Oh, I don't care about the cancel culture. 1.00

04:02:20.020 You're gonna get canceled.

04:02:21.240 Gus with the $10 soup chat.

04:02:22.520 Man cannot go through life manifesting, believing in truth.

04:02:25.460 If I'm a fat, broke man that lives with his mom, I ain't getting no DMs.

04:02:29.660 Solution is men have to level up game, or level up money, game, and fitness. 0.73

04:02:35.800 Yeah, we don't really, I feel like we don't really get the benefit of, like, we have to

04:02:40.400 operate in reality here.

04:02:42.920 A guy can't just manifest these things into his life, so.

04:02:49.360 I don't think a woman can either. 1.00

04:02:51.360 I think if a woman wants to not be insecure, then she can work on herself, and a guy can 0.94

04:02:56.040 too.

04:02:56.340 The only difference is, is that, like, an average guy is gonna struggle to find girls

04:03:07.940 to date, whereas an average woman has an abundance of options. 0.95

04:03:11.840 They might not be the ideal suitor, but, like, any single girl at this table now, it's a Tuesday,

04:03:18.240 day, right?

04:03:19.320 Any single one of you, it's fucking 11.30, could, like, find a reasonably, a physically 0.98

04:03:26.380 attractive guy to sleep with tonight. 0.98

04:03:32.280 Okay, she's getting sad again.

04:03:33.620 All right, we got Excel, selfie, $10 soup chat.

04:03:35.880 Brian, you let her in.

04:03:36.900 She understands what you're saying.

04:03:38.220 However, you gave her the fuel she needed to get inside that charisma is pretty strong,

04:03:43.360 but don't let it get to you.

04:03:44.880 Wait, what?

04:03:45.320 Who is he talking about?

04:03:46.580 You let her in?

04:03:47.700 Who?

04:03:48.420 Who did you let in?

04:03:49.920 You?

04:03:50.640 Me?

04:03:51.720 Did you let me in?

04:03:52.680 Did I let...

04:03:53.400 Did you let me in?

04:03:55.580 I'm not into pegging.

04:03:57.200 Oh, okay.

04:03:58.040 How dare you?

04:03:59.840 That wasn't on my mind at all.

04:04:01.920 I'm into some...

04:04:02.500 And I didn't say that at all.

04:04:03.800 Is he talking about the...

04:04:06.920 You?

04:04:08.300 Who's he talking about?

04:04:08.800 I don't know.

04:04:09.140 Anyways.

04:04:09.760 Why don't we ask him?

04:04:11.520 Yeah, Excel self.

04:04:12.660 Who you're at?

04:04:13.600 Which girl? 0.93

04:04:14.620 Mac Joseph, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

04:04:16.180 The girl with the husband story.

04:04:17.200 The guy just used you or something, to be honest.

04:04:19.100 Kind of a fishy story.

04:04:20.360 Ooh.

04:04:21.200 Do you want to respond to Mac Joseph?

04:04:22.960 I mean, he doesn't know anything about our story, so whatever he thinks...

04:04:28.880 Doesn't matter.

04:04:30.420 I don't think he used you, but it's just...

04:04:34.020 I think it's an L, when your partner wants to open up the relationship.

04:04:38.000 Like, that's...

04:04:38.480 I think it's a bad sign.

04:04:40.340 I mean, clearly.

04:04:41.240 It didn't work out, so...

04:04:42.780 Like...

04:04:43.700 Doesn't mean it has to be a bad sign.

04:04:45.560 He didn't...

04:04:46.620 Hold on.

04:04:47.120 Wait, wait, wait.

04:04:47.520 What?

04:04:48.500 Okay.

04:04:49.420 It is...

04:04:50.340 Unless...

04:04:51.740 If you're previously in a monogamous relationship,

04:04:56.140 and one of the partners wants to open it up,

04:04:59.100 and one of the partners doesn't,

04:05:02.780 that's a bad sign.

04:05:03.900 Yeah, then it's a bad sign.

04:05:05.020 If the other one doesn't want it,

04:05:06.440 then it's definitely a bad sign.

04:05:07.520 I mean, it's usually never, like,

04:05:08.960 at the exact same moment in time,

04:05:10.900 it's usually never a mutual,

04:05:13.080 hey, let's just open this up.

04:05:16.140 But you know what?

04:05:16.980 Like, there's a lot of guys there

04:05:18.480 that, like, cheat on their girlfriends,

04:05:20.960 a lot of girls that cheat on their boyfriends. 1.00

04:05:23.400 He figured out later on,

04:05:27.340 like, through a lot of, like, self-reflection,

04:05:29.980 that he was no monogamous,

04:05:31.560 and it's not like he's with someone else right now

04:05:35.240 married in a monogamous relationship.

04:05:37.460 No, this is, like, past, like, life.

04:05:40.320 He tried because he really loves me,

04:05:42.900 and, like, we really loved each other,

04:05:45.460 but that was it.

04:05:47.640 Yeah.

04:05:48.340 Gotcha.

04:05:48.700 All right, we have Lawrence Bullock

04:05:51.440 with Etoni Dossup Chat.

04:05:52.320 If men and women are equal,

04:05:53.340 why do we revert back to traditional gender roles

04:05:56.000 when there's civil unrest?

04:05:58.320 Good point.

04:05:59.200 How many women at the table 1.00

04:06:00.360 would shield their man from an angry mob?

04:06:03.200 I mean, we do have two Brazilian girls here, though, 1.00

04:06:05.460 here, so, I mean...

04:06:07.460 What does that mean?

04:06:08.940 Like, Brazilians has kind of got that little spice.

04:06:13.880 They got that fire.

04:06:14.340 They got that fire.

04:06:15.280 Brazilian girls, you know? 0.99

04:06:16.700 Got a little fire.

04:06:17.680 Y'all know jujitsu?

04:06:19.700 No.

04:06:20.900 Okay.

04:06:22.360 Well, let's speak about Ukraine here for a second.

04:06:25.500 I would say that when we get...

04:06:31.380 When chaos...

04:06:32.700 Hold on, sorry.

04:06:33.380 Let me rephrase this.

04:06:34.580 When we encounter chaos,

04:06:36.560 when society starts to break down,

04:06:39.420 that's when we start reverting, really,

04:06:42.860 to our traditional gender roles.

04:06:45.600 So, you do have to think that because of men's...

04:06:53.920 Because we have such a comfortable society,

04:06:59.060 we have the benefit of these concepts of equality.

04:07:04.240 But I'll tell you this much.

04:07:05.580 There's no feminists when Russia is invading. 1.00

04:07:10.160 What the...

04:07:11.360 There are no feminists when Russia is invading. 1.00

04:07:15.100 Should we talk about, like, how biologically we are different, or let's not talk...

04:07:20.500 Well, what I'm trying to say is,

04:07:22.660 most recently, Ukraine was invaded, right?

04:07:27.860 And, you know, there's a lot of talk about equality, you know?

04:07:32.180 All this stuff.

04:07:33.140 Are men, like, stronger than women, like, muscles and everything?

04:07:37.600 Are we just built differently?

04:07:40.200 Men are stronger than women, yes.

04:07:41.980 That's it.

04:07:43.960 That's what he's trying to say, like... 0.98

04:07:44.940 Women can shoot guns. 1.00

04:07:46.640 I mean, we can, but, like, physically...

04:07:49.760 Do men make better soldiers?

04:07:51.120 Yes.

04:07:51.780 Are you talking about, like, that men has to go to war instead of women? 0.55

04:07:56.780 What I'm saying is, is that...

04:08:00.780 Okay, for example, in Ukraine, there was news...

04:08:04.080 Well, men between the ages of 18 and 60 had to stay in the country.

04:08:09.800 Women could leave. 1.00

04:08:10.620 You hear the news reports.

04:08:11.860 Women and children leaving.

04:08:15.160 You think those men want to...

04:08:16.780 Maybe some of them want to be there, but...

04:08:19.280 I still think...

04:08:20.120 So, while you had men in Ukraine that were getting killed,

04:08:24.640 you had women, Ukrainian women, in Dubai and Sweden

04:08:29.480 on Tinder in the club.

04:08:32.840 You want to talk about equality?

04:08:34.460 We can...

04:08:35.020 Let's talk about equality.

04:08:37.760 Actually, you know what?

04:08:38.620 Here's another thing.

04:08:39.420 I want to show you guys this.

04:08:42.000 All right, I'm being...

04:08:43.080 Am I being toxic?

04:08:44.120 I don't know.

04:08:44.700 Okay.

04:08:45.960 I'm sorry.

04:08:46.600 When I was talking, I didn't know about, like,

04:08:49.080 that men were forced to stay.

04:08:50.920 I thought you were just talking about, like, when in war men...

04:08:54.640 Like, are more prevalent than women. 0.95

04:08:57.460 Men are more privileged?

04:08:58.920 No.

04:08:59.640 Prevalent.

04:09:00.380 Like, there are more men than women, not privileged.

04:09:03.680 Yeah.

04:09:04.100 Well, okay.

04:09:04.640 So...

04:09:05.040 And that's Ukraine, right?

04:09:06.400 Well, you might...

04:09:06.960 Well, here's the United States.

04:09:09.100 So, this is a selective service system...

04:09:12.680 ...registration card.

04:09:16.300 So...

04:09:17.920 Can one of you read this?

04:09:22.720 What does it say?

04:09:23.620 Men, 18, 25 years, you can handle this.

04:09:29.480 Read it, fill it, mail it.

04:09:31.920 Register.

04:09:32.800 It's quick, it's easy, it's the law.

04:09:34.540 Eric, can you go center, center zoom?

04:09:37.660 All right, I don't know if you guys can see this.

04:09:39.040 This is a selective service registration form.

04:09:41.600 I'll take it back.

04:09:42.180 So, men, 18 to 25, have to register for the draft here in the United States.

04:09:49.900 And, uh...

04:09:51.620 I don't know.

04:09:54.420 You don't really hear a lot of women campaigning for the equality when it comes to getting drafted. 1.00

04:10:01.320 How old are you, Tristan?

04:10:04.820 I'm 22, and I'm registered.

04:10:06.980 I'm registered also.

04:10:08.640 So, if we were to go to war...

04:10:10.880 I've aged out, luckily, of the draft, although in some catastrophic scenario, I still technically, I suppose, could get drafted.

04:10:18.360 You are subject...

04:10:19.600 If we were to go to war, you are subject to the draft because of your age.

04:10:23.880 Yeah.

04:10:25.600 So...

04:10:26.120 100%, yeah.

04:10:27.660 Who's really privileged?

04:10:29.080 Okay, I'm being...

04:10:30.160 What time?

04:10:31.180 I don't know why.

04:10:32.080 I'm derailing the conversation.

04:10:33.560 Okay, let me get through these super chats.

04:10:35.660 Oh, my God.

04:10:37.180 What?

04:10:37.860 I wish you get periods every month.

04:10:41.060 I don't think that's the only one there.

04:10:42.840 Well, I mean, that's...

04:10:44.240 The difference is that that's just a biological reality.

04:10:47.340 Yeah, that's exactly why.

04:10:51.520 Okay.

04:10:52.040 Okay, let's move on.

04:10:52.780 Let's move on.

04:10:53.300 Yo, Angel Grablev.

04:10:54.660 What's up, dude?

04:10:55.460 Love you, Brian.

04:10:56.140 Hey, Angel's the homie. 1.00

04:10:58.100 Angel's the homie. 1.00

04:10:58.840 Thank you, man.

04:10:59.160 Appreciate it.

04:11:00.680 Angel Grablev, I think he's guessing my body count, 99.

04:11:04.140 Okay.

04:11:05.160 Will not disclose.

04:11:06.180 Thank you.

04:11:06.500 Thank you, Angel, though.

04:11:07.760 I'm a scat man.

04:11:08.480 Thank you for the...

04:11:10.200 Does anyone know the currency?

04:11:12.140 I think it's yen.

04:11:14.620 I'm not sure.

04:11:15.420 Sharky.

04:11:15.840 Yo, good to see you, Sharky.

04:11:16.840 The $10 soup chat, ladies, would it change your view of your boyfriend if he was engaged

04:11:20.100 six times and proposed to you with the same ring he promised to six other women?

04:11:24.400 That's how men look at women giving their body away. 0.93

04:11:26.960 It's totally the same thing.

04:11:28.420 Oh, my God.

04:11:28.960 Yeah.

04:11:29.420 Yeah.

04:11:30.740 It's kind of...

04:11:31.580 I mean, it's...

04:11:32.220 No, it's not.

04:11:32.780 It's attempting to explain the feeling that men feel.

04:11:36.520 But engaging.

04:11:37.600 Yeah.

04:11:37.800 The body count, there's two really clear different things.

04:11:42.340 Word.

04:11:42.980 Okay.

04:11:43.540 Cool.

04:11:44.260 All right.

04:11:44.640 We're going to do one last thing.

04:11:45.760 We're going to react to a video.

04:11:46.820 Then we're going to wrap up.

04:11:47.680 Guys, if you want, get your last minute super chats in.

04:11:50.100 Let's see.

04:11:50.760 Pull up the video tab, please.

04:11:57.020 Let's see.

04:12:00.460 Let's do...

04:12:02.760 Should we do a Tate video?

04:12:04.880 Let's do a Tate video.

04:12:05.660 Why not?

04:12:06.520 Tate?

04:12:06.800 Let's do Andrew Tate.

04:12:08.540 Isn't that controversial?

04:12:11.140 That's what this show's about.

04:12:12.640 Oh, I'm sorry.

04:12:13.560 I forgot.

04:12:14.040 Okay.

04:12:16.460 Which one should we watch?

04:12:18.360 Let's watch the one that'll make us the most mad.

04:12:21.240 Yeah.

04:12:21.660 Let's watch the one that'll get us riled up.

04:12:24.240 We could do his body count one.

04:12:27.000 Come on.

04:12:27.320 Run it up.

04:12:27.780 Come on, Brian.

04:12:28.240 Run it up.

04:12:28.280 All right.

04:12:28.380 Let's just do the classic.

04:12:29.500 We'll do the body count one.

04:12:30.380 Go for it.

04:12:30.840 Let's see blood.

04:12:33.740 You know what's so attractive about younger women? 1.00

04:12:35.180 Because a lot of these dudes talk about fertility and looks and stuff. 0.97

04:12:38.800 I don't actually think it's that.

04:12:39.680 Do you guys believe his accent?

04:12:40.800 I think that in the modern world, in the days of old, right, you'd meet a woman, you'd 0.99

04:12:44.040 get married, you'd be together, whatever. 0.99

04:12:45.160 In the modern world, if I meet a girl who's 33 and single, I know the amount of dick that's 1.00

04:12:49.580 been through her before me is just simply unattractive. 0.99

04:12:52.300 I don't care how nice you are, but you're 33 years old.

04:12:55.660 How many men have fun?

04:12:56.700 If I get a 19-year-old girl, I might be her second or third man, right? 0.99

04:12:59.000 I'm going to be dude number fucking 29, and all the trauma and heartbreak and bullshit 0.99

04:13:03.760 they put you through, you're going to try and bring to my door? 1.00

04:13:06.500 Like, well, if my last man cheated, I don't give a fuck. 0.99

04:13:09.200 Like, I don't care. 0.98

04:13:10.200 Like, why is that my problem?

04:13:11.300 So if you pick up older women, you have to accept they've been on the carousel longer. 1.00

04:13:15.140 They've had more fucking rides, more spins. 1.00

04:13:17.880 I don't want that shit. 1.00

04:13:18.980 When I see a beautiful young woman, I know that she has a very low body count. 1.00

04:13:22.560 And also, no, but the truth is this, women's mentality is absolutely connected to sex. 1.00

04:13:28.360 If a woman sleeps with a bunch of men, it's harder to penetrate her mind and make her fall in love with you. 1.00

04:13:32.140 It is unattractive, too.

04:13:33.340 And it's unattractive.

04:13:34.080 It is.

04:13:34.280 But if she's had 30 dudes inside of her, is she really going to think, you know what, this guy's so, so, so special?

04:13:39.460 Or is she going to think, you know what, he talked to me real quick, I'll just go get a new guy.

04:13:41.600 Whereas if a woman's only been with a few guys, she's much more likely to fall in love with you and be a better partner. 0.96

04:13:44.860 The likelihood of her falling completely in love with you and staying loyal to you and really believing you're the only man for her after being through so much trauma and so many men and sleeping with so many dudes and having her heart broken and having those memories of her ex and all that crap she's been through is far less likely than meeting a nice, young, beautiful girl who hasn't been with many men.

04:14:01.660 And she goes, you know what, this is the guy, I like him.

04:14:03.800 Every woman who knows this and every man who watches this can be honest.

04:14:06.180 Women fall in love with the person they lose their virginity to or the second or third guy. 0.95

04:14:08.900 They really remember them.

04:14:09.760 They really love them.

04:14:10.600 Any woman who slept with 50 dudes, she doesn't even remember who most of them are. 0.96

04:14:12.840 She doesn't care.

04:14:13.600 If a woman slept with a bunch of men before you, she's less likely to stick it out through a difficult period in a relationship. 1.00

04:14:17.420 She's more likely to just say, you know what, new answer is new date. 0.90

04:14:19.580 That's a pretty good answer.

04:14:20.460 And that's the truth.

04:14:21.320 Let me make something clear.

04:14:22.220 If I meet a beautiful 30-year-old woman, I'm not saying I won't sleep with her. 0.99

04:14:24.680 That's pretty fucking old. 0.99

04:14:26.400 30? 0.99

04:14:27.080 I know. 1.00

04:14:27.560 What are you, crazy? 1.00

04:14:29.280 There's been times I was drunk. 1.00

04:14:31.800 Okay. 0.89

04:14:32.200 Gay, your reaction to that. 0.99

04:14:33.580 Go ahead. 0.97

04:14:35.000 I don't agree and I have no opinion.

04:14:37.540 Come on.

04:14:39.000 What?

04:14:39.660 You want to see me sweat?

04:14:40.740 You just said pull up the video that will get us the most upset.

04:14:46.720 No.

04:14:47.300 What do you think of Tate?

04:14:48.040 Would you date him?

04:14:49.280 Would I date him?

04:14:50.200 Is it wrong to say that I find him attractive?

04:14:53.440 I could say he's subjectively attractive.

04:14:57.060 But probably not because he's in jail, so I don't think I could.

04:15:00.580 Conjugal visit?

04:15:02.200 A Romanian conjugal visit?

04:15:05.560 Sounds fun.

04:15:07.160 Sounds like a good time.

04:15:12.300 Your reaction?

04:15:14.300 Honestly, I was trying to understand it, but he was talking so fast, and then I couldn't really hear.

04:15:22.400 Yo, Portuguese bros in the chat, can you translate what Andrew Tate said in Portuguese?

04:15:26.880 Thank you.

04:15:27.140 Do we need German translation for you?

04:15:30.200 I mean, he was fast, but I think I could get the main point of it.

04:15:35.840 But I'm really tired of men.

04:15:40.620 Yeah, that's my statement.

04:15:41.980 Oh, you're just tired of men?

04:15:43.500 Yeah.

04:15:44.300 Wow.

04:15:45.240 You're tired of men.

04:15:46.460 Why is that?

04:15:46.860 All that, like, Andrew Tate, and like, Andrew Tate, come on. 0.99

04:15:51.760 I think, at least, I hope 50% of men already know that what Andrew Tate is saying is total bullshit, I hope. 0.99

04:16:01.860 But whatever. 0.98

04:16:02.740 I'm really tired of that.

04:16:05.060 I'm tired, too.

04:16:06.220 Of that discussion.

04:16:07.080 Yeah, it's not even worth, like, arguing about.

04:16:09.640 No.

04:16:10.280 It's not.

04:16:10.600 Will we ever change this person's mind or, like, any of these people?

04:16:13.240 Probably not.

04:16:13.580 Like, no.

04:16:13.800 Andrew Tate is, and Andrew Tate fans, I don't know.

04:16:17.160 Yeah.

04:16:17.780 That's not even worth wasting your time.

04:16:19.520 Please talk to your mom about worth of women, and then maybe you will get it. 1.00

04:16:26.300 And if not, I'm sorry.

04:16:28.100 I'm really sorry.

04:16:28.860 Yeah, there's nothing to say, but just, I disagree, and separate yourself from that.

04:16:34.680 Just don't partake in that conversation.

04:16:36.900 Yeah.

04:16:37.280 So, do you guys question why is Andrew Tate so popular?

04:16:42.060 No, he's popular because he's, like, loud, and he says controversial things.

04:16:47.880 He's, like, talented.

04:16:49.440 I can give him credit for, you know, getting the notoriety that he has.

04:16:55.040 With that being said, I don't agree with anything.

04:16:57.320 But it is, kind of, it does take talent to get as big as he did.

04:17:01.960 So, I will give him props for that.

04:17:04.400 Yeah.

04:17:04.940 Well, I think Andrew Tate is popular because he is the result of the pendulum swinging the other way.

04:17:12.000 I think, actually, at that point, I would agree with you.

04:17:14.620 Because, like, I get that.

04:17:16.500 Like, cancel culture and everything.

04:17:18.680 And then, like, Andrew Tate coming up, and everybody's, like, Andrew Tate, wow, wow, wow.

04:17:23.400 He's, like, saying controversial things.

04:17:26.320 And I think, obviously, cancel culture goes too far at some point.

04:17:31.820 I think so, too.

04:17:34.280 A lot of people would agree with that.

04:17:36.640 Cancel culture sometimes goes too far.

04:17:38.900 But sometimes it's doing the right job, and it did with Andrew Tate.

04:17:43.380 Thank you, and period.

04:17:44.780 I don't think that was cancel culture.

04:17:46.340 I think that was, like, legal allegations.

04:17:47.500 Yeah, and luckily it was also legal, yeah.

04:17:50.580 But also, like, cancel culture in terms of, like...

04:17:53.320 Cancel culture literally got him removed off social media.

04:17:56.780 Like, he did...

04:17:58.600 Cancel culture did have an effect on it, too.

04:18:01.140 That's new, that whole allegations.

04:18:03.420 But he's innocent until proven guilty, so...

04:18:06.400 He's...

04:18:07.060 Didn't he have, like, videos where he literally told...

04:18:10.060 What?

04:18:10.680 Didn't...

04:18:11.280 Whatever.

04:18:12.140 I don't really know a lot about him, so...

04:18:14.880 I'm pretty sure those were debunked.

04:18:17.160 Like, the videos where he was, like, whipping a girl with a belt?

04:18:20.920 I saw that, too.

04:18:22.060 I didn't even know about that.

04:18:23.060 But I saw also a video where he said that he's only going to Romania, so he's, like...

04:18:28.020 Running away from law in the U.S., so he's going to Romania or something?

04:18:32.720 I saw that.

04:18:32.900 He did say he moved to Romania because...

04:18:36.020 One of the reasons was because he has access to the corruption.

04:18:39.700 Oh, wow.

04:18:40.400 That's so...

04:18:42.140 But...

04:18:44.180 Yeah.

04:18:46.340 But...

04:18:46.740 As far as the video goes, the woman who was in it came out and said... 0.99

04:18:51.900 It's just...

04:18:52.380 It's...

04:18:52.740 I mean, I don't mean to use this term...

04:18:58.020 But it literally is fake news because the woman in the video came out and said,

04:19:04.240 Hey, we were into some kinky stuff. 0.99

04:19:06.640 We were into BDSM.

04:19:09.380 And it was just...

04:19:11.020 Like, why would you record...

04:19:14.160 You doing...

04:19:15.060 Like, you're in a bedroom.

04:19:16.120 Why would you...

04:19:16.720 Anyways, the woman in the actual video came out and said,

04:19:19.740 Hey, there was no abuse.

04:19:22.540 It was consensual.

04:19:24.000 We're just into freaky stuff.

04:19:26.580 Whatever.

04:19:26.740 Like, my hate against Andy Tate comes alone from his opinion.

04:19:30.340 Sure.

04:19:30.700 Of what he's saying.

04:19:31.520 So, like...

04:19:33.020 Sure.

04:19:33.520 Do you want to give your reaction to the video?

04:19:35.200 Oh, I...

04:19:36.140 Oh, the Portuguese. 1.00

04:19:37.720 Right, right, right.

04:19:38.280 Go ahead.

04:19:38.780 Any reaction?

04:19:39.540 Do you need it in Dutch?

04:19:40.700 Yeah.

04:19:41.040 We're going to get it in Dutch.

04:19:41.960 Okay, we'll get that.

04:19:43.200 Madison?

04:19:43.480 Um, I don't agree with him.

04:19:46.460 Okay.

04:19:46.880 Yeah.

04:19:47.800 Okay, cool, cool, cool.

04:19:50.120 All right.

04:19:50.700 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

04:19:51.520 I want to hear his reaction.

04:19:53.260 Oh, Tristan? 0.97

04:19:54.620 My reaction on Andrew Tate?

04:19:56.000 I think Andrew Tate did a very good job in, like, marketing himself at first and saying,

04:20:01.960 like, really, like, outlandish stuff at first.

04:20:05.220 And he kind of created this character of himself.

04:20:07.400 Now, if you really listen to a lot of what he says, like, when he's not playing that character,

04:20:11.940 he's speaking, like, the truth.

04:20:13.780 Like, he says a lot of things that you can agree with.

04:20:15.780 And I'm sure if you guys actually heard some videos, other than the viral clips that have

04:20:19.420 been, like, chopped up, you guys would agree with a lot with what he says.

04:20:23.600 But, like, obviously, what he's saying is it's a little out.

04:20:28.080 It goes a little out.

04:20:29.420 Out of the boundaries.

04:20:31.440 Yeah.

04:20:31.720 And there's some things that he just goes too far with, obviously.

04:20:34.660 Like, if it, like, I would ask him, honestly, if that was your daughter, like, how would

04:20:38.400 you, how would you think about that?

04:20:39.880 You know, like, would that change your viewpoint?

04:20:42.140 But, like, a lot of what he says, it's facts.

04:20:45.540 But, obviously, the viral clips aren't going to show when he's, like, speaking facts.

04:20:49.760 They're going to show the crazy, loud ones where he's saying super controversial stuff.

04:20:54.280 He makes good points.

04:20:55.680 Yeah, 100%.

04:20:56.480 Yeah, I think he makes good points.

04:20:58.420 And that's why it's easy to indoctrinate people.

04:21:01.280 Because you can mix a little bit of crazy into normal, and then people just believe everything.

04:21:06.460 He does make good points.

04:21:07.800 I do, I do think he, like, says some things that, obviously, are, like, really real.

04:21:13.300 But we can't really justify that.

04:21:16.780 What are you laughing at?

04:21:18.380 I just saw a movie about comments.

04:21:20.540 Oh.

04:21:21.100 Is it the same one?

04:21:22.140 Yeah.

04:21:22.920 Wrong.

04:21:24.400 It's translated for us.

04:21:26.340 Oh, I can't.

04:21:27.500 I can't.

04:21:27.960 It's literally.

04:21:30.720 It's haram.

04:21:31.740 Okay.

04:21:31.860 Yo, so, last three, last Super Chats here, then we're going to wrap.

04:21:35.960 Okay, Chaz, $10 Super Chat.

04:21:37.760 Oh, my God.

04:21:38.360 All right.

04:21:39.240 Funny enough, my name was chosen solely by a woman is what it is.

04:21:42.880 Someone that thinks like that girl, Tara, from previous episodes is more my style.

04:21:47.640 Anyways, I'll ask her.

04:21:49.060 Ooh, voice crack.

04:21:50.080 Nice.

04:21:50.760 I'll ask her your question next time.

04:21:52.800 Thank you.

04:21:53.260 Nobody heard that.

04:21:53.780 I needed that.

04:21:54.420 I'll ask her your question next time she's on.

04:21:56.360 Actually, Tara should be on Sunday. 0.77

04:21:57.960 By the way, just a reminder, we will have a Thursday show, but we're going to be switching

04:22:02.380 to Sunday, Tuesday.

04:22:05.180 She'll be on Sunday.

04:22:07.740 Darian Conner, thank you for the $10 Super Chat.

04:22:09.640 Universally, women want a man who provides stability, security, confidence, and kindness. 0.98

04:22:13.540 What all your opinions?

04:22:15.580 Really quick, we'll go around the table.

04:22:17.060 Just yes or no.

04:22:18.620 Agree or disagree?

04:22:20.180 Agree.

04:22:21.480 Agree.

04:22:22.820 Agree.

04:22:23.860 Agree.

04:22:24.720 Agree.

04:22:26.500 You know my opinion.

04:22:28.900 Gus with the $10 Super Chat.

04:22:30.080 You can't disagree with someone and not say why.

04:22:32.700 Most men think like Tate, but a man's standards are considered discrimination.

04:22:36.940 A woman's are preferences. 1.00

04:22:38.900 More men want to be traditionally masculine. 0.82

04:22:45.780 He does raise a good point.

04:22:48.880 Do you think it's wrong when it comes to body count?

04:22:50.740 Do you guys think it's wrong if a guy, he wants a woman who has a low body count? 0.87

04:22:56.060 Do you think that's wrong?

04:22:58.500 I wouldn't say wrong.

04:22:59.640 I would say, I mean, and he's not something for me personally.

04:23:04.860 If he's like, I want a woman that has low body count. 1.00

04:23:08.240 I want that.

04:23:09.000 I want that.

04:23:09.560 No.

04:23:09.900 I mean, you can have preference, obviously.

04:23:12.120 But like, if you're like, so fixated on that point with body count, he will probably have a little, like, he will have probably your opinions on dating, too.

04:23:22.880 And that's definitely not something I can agree on.

04:23:26.620 And then probably dating with, like, that person in me would not go at right well.

04:23:33.340 But like, if it's his opinion, go for it.

04:23:35.900 I have a question for you.

04:23:36.880 So you said your body count is one.

04:23:38.760 So if you were talking to a guy and he was like, whoa, I really like that.

04:23:43.940 I really like that you have a low body count.

04:23:46.740 Would you be put off by that?

04:23:48.280 Yeah.

04:23:49.240 So despite it being something that you possess, having a low body count, you would be put off by a guy being desirous of a trait that you possess.

04:23:59.440 Yeah.

04:23:59.940 I mean, he should just not care about it.

04:24:03.880 Like, that's not too much to us. 0.98

04:24:05.840 Just not fucking care. 0.97

04:24:07.660 Tell you what. 0.98

04:24:08.800 As the representative for all men in the world, on behalf of all men, we'll stop caring about body count.

04:24:18.960 When...

04:24:19.560 You stop caring about height?

04:24:20.680 Women stop caring about height. 1.00

04:24:23.300 And money?

04:24:26.260 A man's money, I guess. 0.99

04:24:27.980 That's fun.

04:24:30.160 And his confidence.

04:24:31.020 What other things do women like? 1.00

04:24:32.640 Confidence.

04:24:33.920 Height. 1.00

04:24:34.460 Penis size. 1.00

04:24:35.080 Confidence. 1.00

04:24:35.700 I don't know what penis size is. 1.00

04:24:37.140 I think the nun is having a stroke. 1.00

04:24:40.660 But, okay, we have Sharky here.

04:24:44.140 Last one.

04:24:45.000 $10 super chat.

04:24:45.940 A man's body count doesn't matter to women. 1.00

04:24:47.400 But economic security does.

04:24:50.260 Economically providing doesn't matter to men. 0.99

04:24:52.320 But the female's purity does. 1.00

04:24:54.320 Each sex values and offers different things.

04:24:57.840 Very good point, Sharky.

04:24:59.440 Very good point.

04:25:00.380 Pull up the Twitch chat.

04:25:01.380 Let's shout out the Twitch bros.

04:25:04.720 Twitch.tv slash whatever, guys.

04:25:06.240 Open it up.

04:25:07.440 Yo.

04:25:07.680 K7, thank you for the follow.

04:25:10.160 Big Styles, thank you for the follow.

04:25:11.540 CJ, thank you for the follow.

04:25:12.540 Ghost Boy Ghoul, thank you for the sub.

04:25:14.240 Thank you for the prime sub.

04:25:15.640 Appreciate it, man.

04:25:16.760 Intruder, thank you for the thousand bits.

04:25:18.400 Appreciate it.

04:25:19.140 Men's most valuable resources is our time and our money. 0.64

04:25:22.140 Enable us to do what we please with our time.

04:25:24.000 If women do not want to be seen as objects, it is also true. 1.00

04:25:28.920 Men don't want to be seen as utility objects.

04:25:33.080 Cheer.

04:25:33.480 Okay, got it.

04:25:34.200 Cool.

04:25:34.420 Thank you, man.

04:25:34.760 Appreciate it.

04:25:36.540 And okay, last opportunity.

04:25:39.920 Anyone have a last thought or?

04:25:42.100 Okay, cool.

04:25:43.380 Cool, cool.

04:25:44.860 All right.

04:25:45.520 So I feel like I'm forgetting something.

04:25:48.980 Last thing.

04:25:49.960 You said that you wish guys put in more effort earlier on in the conversation.

04:25:54.340 Is that right?

04:25:55.500 You wish guys put in more effort on the date or when it comes to courting women? 0.98

04:26:00.600 It's just because I dated really shitty guys. 0.97

04:26:03.280 You've dated really shitty guys before. 0.95

04:26:05.280 So they didn't put in more effort? 0.87

04:26:07.820 No, they wanted me to be, like, for example, my last relationship, he wanted me to be the

04:26:12.820 man of the relationship.

04:26:14.440 He wanted you to be the man?

04:26:16.260 Yeah.

04:26:16.560 And were you the man of the relationship?

04:26:19.620 No, I don't want to be the man in the relationship.

04:26:21.820 But I'm not talking about financially.

04:26:23.580 I'm talking about even putting the effort of, like, planning things.

04:26:29.020 Planning dates.

04:26:29.580 So you were mostly planning dates?

04:26:32.200 Usually the person that plans it, they'll pay for it.

04:26:35.480 Usually.

04:26:36.360 You're not going to plan it and then have the other person pay for it.

04:26:38.780 It's very different.

04:26:39.560 I was, like, in a...

04:26:40.800 It's different because my relationship, we were together for a long time.

04:26:45.320 And he had different expectations.

04:26:47.140 And I had different expectations.

04:26:48.780 Sure.

04:26:49.780 Okay.

04:26:50.960 Huh.

04:26:51.800 There's a beta male who likes to be the...

04:26:53.900 What's it called?

04:26:54.960 Oh, wow.

04:26:55.360 He doesn't like to be the dominant one in the relationship.

04:26:58.420 Well, here's the thing, though.

04:26:59.560 I think, guys, we're perfectly content doing nothing.

04:27:05.400 We don't need to...

04:27:06.700 Like, at least for me, right?

04:27:08.020 I don't know if this is about, like, the same for all guys.

04:27:10.420 But I don't feel the need to go to brunch with a girl. 0.98

04:27:14.760 Like, I'm perfectly content just being in a girl's presence. 1.00

04:27:18.780 I don't need to do...

04:27:19.980 Play mini golf.

04:27:20.700 I don't need to do all these other activities.

04:27:24.100 I feel like men are pretty easy to please in that sense.

04:27:26.360 Like, we're good to just lounge around the house and...

04:27:30.700 Chill.

04:27:32.500 Chill.

04:27:33.780 Eat.

04:27:34.560 I'll need you to travel. 1.00

04:27:35.360 Fuck. 1.00

04:27:37.440 I don't know. 1.00

04:27:38.620 Has a girl ever asked you to go to the zoo?

04:27:40.380 One time, I was dating a girl, and she wanted to go to the zoo.

04:27:43.520 And that's when I knew this relationship is over.

04:27:47.220 Oh, I knew she had swag. 0.66

04:27:49.280 That sounds like me.

04:27:50.080 Wait, why?

04:27:51.300 That sounds like you.

04:27:52.260 I love going to the zoo.

04:27:53.740 The zoo is fun.

04:27:54.920 Like, the aquarium, museums.

04:27:57.820 You go to one zoo, you've seen every zoo.

04:28:00.560 What?

04:28:01.660 Like, once you've gone to the zoo once, do you really need to go...

04:28:04.900 Different animals.

04:28:08.320 I don't know. 0.99

04:28:08.740 YouTube's got some 1080p videos of tigers and shit. 0.98

04:28:12.720 What is... 0.99

04:28:13.400 Wait, but I'm confused.

04:28:14.380 What's the problem?

04:28:14.940 If the girl wants to go to the zoo, it's no way. 0.99

04:28:17.260 He's saying he's content without doing that.

04:28:18.640 I'm just such a busy guy. 0.99

04:28:20.200 Like, I don't want to fill up my time with shit. 0.99

04:28:24.300 Oh, you don't want to have time to date, and you want a girlfriend. 0.99

04:28:28.440 So, tell me more about that.

04:28:30.180 What?

04:28:30.640 You want that relationship, and you don't have time.

04:28:33.480 Like, you...

04:28:33.640 Oh, I've got time. 1.00

04:28:34.160 You just want to, like, sleep and have sex? 0.99

04:28:36.420 That's it? 0.99

04:28:36.660 Well, actually, do I have...

04:28:37.780 So, yeah, you know...

04:28:39.440 Yeah, so that's, like, exactly.

04:28:40.800 I mean, there's a type for that.

04:28:42.120 There's homebody girls. 1.00

04:28:44.180 I'm exactly your type.

04:28:45.720 There's homebody girls that like to just stay home. 1.00

04:28:48.100 There's a type for that.

04:28:49.040 There's a type for everyone.

04:28:49.780 Yeah, but even then, you would want somebody to put an effort in the relationship.

04:28:59.300 Yeah, he's just saying he wouldn't need much.

04:29:01.480 I feel...

04:29:02.000 I guess my rationale is I feel like I put in the effort in the beginning, and then I'm just

04:29:08.400 going to cruise for the rest of the relationship.

04:29:10.580 You shouldn't be like that.

04:29:11.640 Huh?

04:29:12.120 Why?

04:29:13.160 So, you're saying you're putting effort in the beginning, but then after when you have 1.00

04:29:15.960 her, like, fuck it. 1.00

04:29:16.700 He's going to hook her, and then just be like, all right. 1.00

04:29:18.620 Well, here's my view.

04:29:21.020 Because my experience when it comes to dating is I have to...

04:29:25.860 Let's say I match with a girl on a dating app. 0.50

04:29:28.780 Overwhelmingly, I have to send the first message.

04:29:30.860 I have to carry the conversation.

04:29:33.620 I have to move things forward.

04:29:36.200 I have to say, hey, would you like to meet for a drink?

04:29:38.600 I have to start planning the date.

04:29:40.660 I have to ask for a number.

04:29:41.840 I'm going to ask for the phone call.

04:29:43.260 I'm going to say, meet me here at this time.

04:29:45.580 Oh, it's so hard to do that.

04:29:46.920 Yeah.

04:29:47.300 That's convenient for someone who's probably...

04:29:49.780 That's convenient to say for someone who's probably never done it themselves.

04:29:55.780 I've done it myself.

04:29:58.400 It's so rare for a girl to say, to take that lead, to take the initiative. 0.98

04:30:05.120 Probably not on the first date, for sure.

04:30:07.560 Okay.

04:30:08.520 But it doesn't mean that I'm not going to put any effort on the second,

04:30:11.640 or third date, or fourth date.

04:30:13.200 Wait, you already took initiative in first dates.

04:30:16.160 I've seen it.

04:30:17.280 Many times.

04:30:18.040 Yeah.

04:30:18.680 I do talk to guys.

04:30:20.500 If I want it, I go for it.

04:30:22.260 You approach guys?

04:30:24.800 Yes.

04:30:25.420 Okay, well, all right.

04:30:26.040 She does, she does.

04:30:26.900 Okay.

04:30:27.440 I do.

04:30:27.980 Fine.

04:30:28.300 You're an outlier.

04:30:29.020 Most women don't. 1.00

04:30:29.640 She's also from Brazil.

04:30:31.920 So, like, I guess women out here expect guys to go up to, like... 0.92

04:30:36.720 I just feel like you just lose time if you're going to wait around for a guy to come up to you.

04:30:40.660 If I'm interested, I'm going to show my interest.

04:30:42.480 And if the guy doesn't want it, okay.

04:30:43.700 I guess what I'm trying to say is, for me, at the beginning of the relationship, it feels like, to me, I'm doing, like, 90%, 100% of the effort to trying to get to meet you.

04:30:57.520 It's very rare that a girl is going to, like, propose, hey, let's, I'd like to meet you here at this time, da, da, da.

04:31:04.100 Like, or let me also put it like this.

04:31:07.240 If I match with a girl on a dating app, if I don't send the first message, most likely she's not going to send the first message.

04:31:12.800 If I don't say, hey, would you like to grab a drink sometime, she's never going to propose it.

04:31:17.580 I could carry the conversation on and on, and she would just never propose to meet.

04:31:25.520 Maybe you should try in Brazil.

04:31:27.140 Maybe the South American women, I don't know. 1.00

04:31:30.720 But I'm in the United States.

04:31:32.660 And my experience in the United States with women is, if I don't take that initiative, it's just never going to happen. 1.00

04:31:40.940 So I feel that.

04:31:41.480 Yeah, so you do the effort in the beginning, and in the relationship, the girl would put effort on it, too.

04:31:46.060 I'd say it's just, like, 50-50.

04:31:48.320 It becomes 50-50. 0.65

04:31:50.980 Sort of.

04:31:51.960 But I'm not, like, I'm not going to go, I tend to not go above and beyond.

04:31:57.700 I don't know.

04:31:58.720 I don't know.

04:32:00.500 Yeah, but that's the basic.

04:32:01.960 Why is it guys?

04:32:02.660 It's not really hard to just send a message and be like, do you want to go out for a date?

04:32:06.120 And then just book a restaurant.

04:32:07.520 Wow, how long does that take?

04:32:10.300 I mean, there is a burden on men to take the initiative.

04:32:15.700 So you say, oh, why isn't it so hard?

04:32:18.040 Then why don't women do it? 1.00

04:32:20.500 If it's not so hard, why don't?

04:32:21.900 Because women are scared of rejection. 1.00

04:32:24.000 No, we do it.

04:32:25.140 That's exactly what she was saying.

04:32:26.480 Like, she approached some guys in the first date.

04:32:28.680 I did, too.

04:32:32.700 He's saying most of the people.

04:32:33.980 Okay, let me ask you another question.

04:32:38.020 Who should go for the first kiss? 0.74

04:32:39.600 Like, Bumbo.

04:32:39.860 Bumbo is not about that.

04:32:41.320 Do you want to initiate the first kiss?

04:32:43.500 Or do you want the guy to initiate the first kiss? 0.63

04:32:46.900 The guy, right?

04:32:47.940 Let me tell you this.

04:32:49.240 If I never initiated the first kiss with the girls I've kissed, the girls I've been with,

04:32:56.160 they would have never done, maybe out of desperation after 10 dates, 1.00

04:33:01.760 Brian, what the fuck? 1.00

04:33:02.840 Kiss me already. 1.00

04:33:03.900 Maybe. 0.96

04:33:05.340 Women will not initiate that. 1.00

04:33:08.540 We won't, but we'll give you the room and opportunity for you to do that.

04:33:12.980 I honestly, I like being the initiator of the kiss.

04:33:17.940 I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but he's trying to make the point like

04:33:21.320 the woman will not really do it. 1.00

04:33:23.680 And you guys all stayed quiet because you guys agree.

04:33:25.420 The guy is usually the one, or almost always the one that makes it.

04:33:29.020 No.

04:33:29.240 I don't agree.

04:33:30.640 You don't agree.

04:33:31.760 So you've made the first kiss move.

04:33:34.700 Yes.

04:33:35.900 Out of how many times?

04:33:37.520 Almost every time.

04:33:38.820 Oh.

04:33:40.220 She's only been almost every time.

04:33:43.640 Kissing boys is different.

04:33:44.880 Well, that's true.

04:33:45.540 That is true.

04:33:45.940 A kiss is just a kiss. 1.00

04:33:47.000 You can make out with a bunch of people and never fuck them. 0.99

04:33:49.520 But I mean, you say like, oh, it's not such a big deal to do that, but it corresponds with 0.99

04:33:56.080 a risk of rejection at each individual step when we're, okay, asking for the date.

04:34:02.320 I mean, why, I don't know why you're laughing, but like.

04:34:06.740 No, I was talking about a comment.

04:34:08.120 Oh, okay.

04:34:10.900 But.

04:34:12.460 It's not hard to be like, Brian, what are you doing after this?

04:34:16.460 Like, that is not hard at all.

04:34:18.140 I think anyone could do that, right?

04:34:21.200 Does it matter if you're a boy or a girl?

04:34:22.860 Well, I agree with you that it's not hard, but women don't do it, generally speaking. 1.00

04:34:32.720 Someone said simpy Tristan for that.

04:34:34.200 Well, that is like the masculine thing to do.

04:34:36.200 Like, if you're having, if you're letting the girl make the first move, that is feminine 1.00

04:34:39.760 of you.

04:34:41.060 What?

04:34:41.660 I don't think so.

04:34:42.480 Yeah.

04:34:42.920 I don't think so.

04:34:43.200 You would, okay, you would not prefer that you had to make the first move?

04:34:46.500 No, because like.

04:34:47.500 You would prefer to make, you would make the first move?

04:34:49.940 Yeah, because then I'm like, okay, like, I'm clearly opening the door for us, you know,

04:34:56.560 like, I'm initiating this, like, this is okay.

04:35:00.100 Like, I feel.

04:35:00.680 So you get to be the gatekeeper for it.

04:35:02.920 I feel like for men right now, like, right now when we are there, we are talking so much

04:35:07.440 about, like, rape and, like, a lot of abuse.

04:35:11.380 You mean, like, guys are more scared to, like, do it?

04:35:13.320 Guys are more scared to do it.

04:35:14.900 So if I initiate it, it's like, like, a sign that it's okay, you know.

04:35:21.580 It's not that hard to read.

04:35:22.700 I mean, it's like, it's like, pick up some signals, like, read a sign, you know, like,

04:35:27.820 you can give out signals without having to kiss the guy first.

04:35:31.440 Some guys just don't, don't know how to pick up the signals, so they're just like, they

04:35:34.460 never make the move.

04:35:35.480 Or they do the move when it's not a move.

04:35:38.380 What do you mean?

04:35:38.880 Oh, like, she's not okay with it?

04:35:40.340 Oh.

04:35:40.740 You know.

04:35:41.920 Then she's giving out mixed signals or the guy just didn't read it right.

04:35:44.900 I don't know.

04:35:45.840 I just think.

04:35:46.280 You know, we could probably continue talking about this forever, but it has, we have been

04:35:51.360 going long.

04:35:52.060 Reginald Welkin, $10 soup chat.

04:35:53.620 Would guys be considered more desirable if they overstayed their body count?

04:35:58.920 Really quick, yes or no?

04:36:01.960 No.

04:36:03.180 Wait, what?

04:36:03.700 What is that?

04:36:04.120 If they overstayed it, like, if they lied about their body count?

04:36:06.640 No.

04:36:06.940 If they said it was really high?

04:36:08.480 No.

04:36:10.840 No.

04:36:11.800 Reginald Welkin, thank you for the soup chat.

04:36:13.340 Much appreciated.

04:36:14.080 Anyways, guys, we are going to wrap up.

04:36:19.560 Guys, thank you for tuning in.

04:36:21.120 You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.

04:36:24.120 I appreciate that.

04:36:25.400 I want to thank everyone who super chatted.

04:36:27.520 Thank you guys so much for the support.

04:36:30.020 Really appreciate you.

04:36:31.220 I'm hoping I can, well, actually, never mind.

04:36:33.900 I was going to say I'm hoping I can break even soon, but the TikTok and the second channel,

04:36:38.920 Clips channel, has been blown up.

04:36:40.080 So I think finally going to be breaking even, but really appreciate the support.

04:36:44.140 I was majorly in the red.

04:36:45.420 So thank you, guys.

04:36:46.100 Big shout-out to our chat mods.

04:36:49.560 Shout-out to Zach, who's a chat mod.

04:36:53.440 Sorry, guys.

04:36:53.880 Tired here.

04:36:54.700 Thanks to Eric, top producer.

04:36:56.800 I want to give a big thank you to the wonderful panel.

04:37:00.680 Big thank you to, oh, what?

04:37:03.720 Oh, Ziz? 1.00

04:37:04.380 Okay.

04:37:04.720 Hug Ziz. 0.99

04:37:05.320 Yeah.

04:37:05.440 And big thank you to you, too, who made the drive despite the crazy flooding and storm.

04:37:12.000 I don't know if you guys caught at the beginning of the show, but we're here in Santa Barbara.

04:37:15.020 It was crazy flooding.

04:37:17.040 So thank you, guys.

04:37:18.340 Really appreciate it, and thanks to everyone else for coming on.

04:37:21.180 I thought it was a really lively conversation, really good conversation, so appreciate it,

04:37:24.880 guys.

04:37:25.640 Guys, we will be live again Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

04:37:28.960 That's going to be our last Thursday show, and then we're swapping to Sunday, Tuesday.

04:37:34.460 So we'll be live again Thursday at 7 p.m. Pacific, and that's it, guys.

04:37:39.220 We'll see you Thursday.

04:37:41.280 Thanks again for tuning in.

04:37:42.300 Hope you guys have a good night, and yeah, we'll see you next time, guys.

04:37:46.000 Have a good night, guys.

04:37:46.740 Peace.

Whatever Podcast - February 04, 2023

Dating Talk #44

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