Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #46

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00:00:49.940 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:01.940 La donna è mobile, qual piuma al vento, muta d'accento e di pensiero.

00:01:11.940 I'm your host, Brian Atlas.

00:01:25.620 I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.

00:01:30.100 She's a bit shy.

00:01:31.320 So, a few quick announcements before the show begins.

00:01:33.840 First off, RIP Greg Plitt.

00:01:35.460 He passed away Tuesday, January 17th.

00:01:39.060 I don't know if you see him back there along the picture frame gang, but RIP Greg Plitt.

00:01:45.160 Okay, so, this channel is, by the way, sorry for the late start, guys.

00:01:48.840 We had something like four or five people flake.

00:01:55.020 So, Kiko didn't flake, though.

00:01:58.420 No, I did not.

00:01:58.920 No, she did not.

00:01:59.720 Welcome back, Kiko.

00:02:00.820 We were going to have Hensley.

00:02:02.440 I don't know if you remember Hensley.

00:02:03.260 I do remember Hensley.

00:02:03.760 She was going to be on tonight, but she bailed, unfortunately.

00:02:06.880 She got married.

00:02:07.880 Oh, I just, I was going to save that for the next time she comes on the show.

00:02:11.840 To a beautiful wife.

00:02:13.600 To a woman.

00:02:14.720 Yeah.

00:02:16.180 That was surprising to me.

00:02:18.320 How was that surprising when she came on the podcast to talk about how she wanted to use and show men how they are terrible beings?

00:02:24.080 She was last.

00:02:24.800 And surprising that she makes a woman.

00:02:25.680 Okay, maybe you're right.

00:02:26.400 Come to think of it, you might be onto something.

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00:04:16.280 So without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:04:20.660 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, indoor school major.

00:04:24.960 Go ahead.

00:04:25.480 Okay.

00:04:25.820 I'm Kiko.

00:04:26.740 I'm 22.

00:04:28.340 I'm a bartender, and I'm a sociology major at UCSB.

00:04:33.360 Hello.

00:04:34.280 I'm Jordan.

00:04:35.300 I am 20, and I am a waitress.

00:04:38.760 Hi.

00:04:39.320 My name is Day.

00:04:40.200 I go to UC Santa Barbara, and I'm studying and doing research in biology.

00:04:44.960 Hi.

00:04:45.300 I'm Damiana.

00:04:45.880 I'm 22.

00:04:46.900 I'm a bartender, and I'm not currently in school.

00:04:50.560 I'm Tara.

00:04:51.740 I'm a senior at UCSB studying philosophy and psychology and doing research in psych.

00:04:59.160 Hi.

00:04:59.520 I'm Taylor.

00:05:00.180 I'm 28, and I'm a YouTuber, baby.

00:05:03.060 Don't forget TikToker.

00:05:04.640 TikToker.

00:05:05.140 Instagrammer.

00:05:06.260 I advocate for men's mental health.

00:05:07.560 That's what you look familiar.

00:05:08.780 Oh, you've seen her.

00:05:10.200 I thought it was just maybe, like, I don't know.

00:05:12.220 I was just tripping.

00:05:13.420 Okay.

00:05:14.220 Good times.

00:05:14.820 Good times.

00:05:16.100 All right, guys.

00:05:16.940 Everyone's Instagrams are in the description.

00:05:18.660 Show them some love.

00:05:19.420 Give them a follow.

00:05:20.840 And, yeah.

00:05:21.560 So we're going to go around the table once more.

00:05:23.960 So what is your current relationship status, your longest relationship, and are you on any

00:05:29.420 dating apps that does include seeking arrangements?

00:05:32.720 Seeking.

00:05:33.220 It's not seeking arrangements anymore.

00:05:34.840 Seeking.

00:05:35.660 So go ahead.

00:05:36.640 I am single right now.

00:05:39.020 My longest relationship was, like, two and a half years, and I'm on Hinge.

00:05:44.920 When was your last relationship?

00:05:47.040 I've been single since, like, about April, March.

00:05:50.680 Okay.

00:05:51.640 I am currently in a relationship.

00:05:54.940 It's our two-year anniversary is tomorrow, actually.

00:05:58.140 Oh.

00:05:58.600 Yeah.

00:05:59.140 Oh.

00:05:59.580 Well, there you go.

00:06:00.440 I'm currently single.

00:06:03.800 My longest relationship was about six years.

00:06:08.720 For some parts of that, we weren't together.

00:06:11.220 But, yeah, six years.

00:06:13.200 I am single.

00:06:14.520 I am on Hinge.

00:06:15.640 And my longest relationship was almost four years, and we were engaged.

00:06:20.980 Yes.

00:06:22.520 I'm Tara.

00:06:23.660 I'm single.

00:06:24.580 My longest relationship was a year, and I'm not on any dating apps.

00:06:29.460 I'm single.

00:06:30.340 My longest relationship was six years, and I hate dating apps.

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00:06:59.500 Hey, Devon, man, thank you for the big $50 super chat.

00:07:01.820 Good to see you, man.

00:07:03.320 Okay.

00:07:03.860 So a lot of you said you were single, right?

00:07:06.700 Just you.

00:07:07.340 You have a boyfriend, correct?

00:07:08.200 Yes.

00:07:08.460 Okay.

00:07:08.740 And remind me, how long were you?

00:07:11.600 Two years now.

00:07:12.500 Two years.

00:07:13.000 Okay.

00:07:13.860 So of those of you who said you were single, are you truly single?

00:07:19.460 Yes.

00:07:20.100 Yes.

00:07:20.780 Come on.

00:07:21.820 Come on.

00:07:22.780 A hundred percent.

00:07:23.820 Come on.

00:07:26.840 I'm literally a hundred percent single, yeah.

00:07:29.020 But are you talking to a guy right now?

00:07:31.040 Are you hooking up with him?

00:07:32.240 No, I'm not hooking up with anybody.

00:07:33.600 Talking, literally, maybe this meeting, this guy started messaging, like, yesterday, probably

00:07:37.840 will stop by tomorrow.

00:07:39.360 Oh, is it the guy that you showed me who was shit-talking you?

00:07:42.740 No, not.

00:07:43.200 What's his name?

00:07:43.820 Adam, Adrian.

00:07:44.920 No.

00:07:45.120 Okay.

00:07:45.540 He might be in the chat right now.

00:07:46.700 I would honestly be surprised if he's not.

00:07:48.700 What would he have to do in the chat to get a, because he was talking shit to you because

00:07:53.940 he saw the show, but then he was, like, trying to hit on you, too, right?

00:07:56.420 Yeah.

00:07:57.120 What would he have to do to get a date with you?

00:07:59.300 Fly me out to the UK.

00:08:00.800 That's where he lives.

00:08:01.380 Oh, he lives.

00:08:01.660 And then give me a two-week stay so I can travel a part of Europe, and then take me

00:08:07.280 around.

00:08:07.800 That's the way he can make it up to me for harassing me for two months straight.

00:08:12.360 Oh, harassing?

00:08:13.120 Okay, he's been harassing you.

00:08:14.080 Good times.

00:08:14.940 Good times.

00:08:15.640 By the way, guys, if any women want to be on the show, we are looking for a new, yeah,

00:08:21.480 you'll get some.

00:08:22.380 Okay, so, okay, so what about you?

00:08:25.960 Um, I just go on dates.

00:08:29.720 Sorry.

00:08:30.680 I just go on dates.

00:08:32.720 When's the last time you were on a date?

00:08:34.020 That's a good question, yeah.

00:08:34.840 When's the last time you were on a date?

00:08:36.120 Um, I don't know, maybe a couple weeks ago.

00:08:38.380 I'm on Hinge and Tinder, and I let men court me and take me out.

00:08:42.740 You let men court you and take you out?

00:08:45.420 Yeah.

00:08:46.240 Have you ever courted a guy?

00:08:48.860 Um, I mean, I guess I've, like, shot my shot, but I've never been, like, I'm taking you

00:08:55.020 out here.

00:08:55.520 Yeah, that's it.

00:08:56.120 Be ready by eight.

00:08:57.120 Like, no.

00:08:58.180 Okay.

00:08:59.100 Okay.

00:08:59.800 Um, and when was your last date?

00:09:02.020 Date.

00:09:03.040 What is a date, anyway?

00:09:04.240 Yeah, I don't know.

00:09:04.920 It's hard to define nowadays, I feel like.

00:09:08.020 Let's say the last time you met up with a guy one-on-one.

00:09:14.640 First time meeting.

00:09:17.600 Since before the pandemic.

00:09:19.360 I swear to God.

00:09:20.260 Come on.

00:09:20.780 I swear to God.

00:09:21.920 I swear to God.

00:09:22.780 I am, like, on everything.

00:09:23.620 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:09:24.640 Wait, okay.

00:09:25.360 Before the pandemic?

00:09:26.320 Yes.

00:09:26.720 But you were in a...

00:09:27.560 I started dating my ex-boyfriend, like, a couple months before the pandemic hit.

00:09:32.700 We were together until March of this past year, and I haven't gone on a real date since

00:09:38.280 then, no.

00:09:38.780 Since March of 2022?

00:09:40.900 I've gone on a...

00:09:41.540 I went on dates with my ex-boyfriend when we were together, but since a first date, like,

00:09:44.760 a first date with a stranger?

00:09:46.280 No, I haven't done that since before the pandemic.

00:09:48.800 Since before the pandemic.

00:09:49.880 Like, 2019.

00:09:50.540 And you and your boyfriend broke up in March?

00:09:52.280 Yes.

00:09:52.860 This most recent March?

00:09:53.900 Yes.

00:09:54.440 Okay.

00:09:54.660 Like, we went on dates.

00:09:55.800 Have you been celibate?

00:09:57.180 No.

00:09:58.180 Well, I mean, that's kind of...

00:09:59.440 It counts.

00:10:01.820 That's like a date.

00:10:02.640 So you're sleeping around no dates?

00:10:04.660 Yeah.

00:10:05.180 Well, I was sleeping with girls, and I wasn't really interested in dates.

00:10:08.820 You've only slept with girls since you're...

00:10:10.380 I have slept with one man.

00:10:11.520 One man.

00:10:12.120 Yes.

00:10:12.580 One time or multiple times?

00:10:14.560 Multiple times.

00:10:15.720 Okay.

00:10:16.660 But no longer?

00:10:17.900 No.

00:10:18.300 Why did he kind of dump you?

00:10:20.580 He didn't.

00:10:21.540 Oh.

00:10:21.840 That's a great assumption.

00:10:24.180 My bad.

00:10:26.220 Okay.

00:10:27.420 So some girls.

00:10:28.500 Are you seeing any girls currently?

00:10:30.140 No.

00:10:30.660 No girls?

00:10:31.480 Well, you two are roommates, so I want you guys to rat on each other.

00:10:35.280 If one of them...

00:10:35.780 I'm good.

00:10:35.980 If one of them caps...

00:10:37.120 Am I lying?

00:10:38.160 No.

00:10:38.640 If anybody's caps...

00:10:39.480 He's like, no.

00:10:40.380 But so your last date, you said, was a couple weeks ago?

00:10:43.560 Yeah.

00:10:44.240 Okay.

00:10:45.320 Any...

00:10:46.480 And there seems to be some discrepancy between a date, but then you can also, like, you can

00:10:51.940 hook up with a guy and it not be considered a date.

00:10:54.080 I genuinely think a date is anything where one person plans something.

00:10:59.360 It could be a picnic.

00:11:00.480 It can be going out to dinner, a movie.

00:11:03.560 Anything where somebody is putting an effort and inviting you to come and enjoy you as their

00:11:08.680 company.

00:11:09.680 That's a date to me.

00:11:11.220 Okay.

00:11:12.420 So could you, for example, let's say a guy said, come over at like 10 p.m.

00:11:19.640 I'm not saying you would.

00:11:20.560 Absolutely not.

00:11:20.880 But would you consider that to be a date if you did go over?

00:11:25.780 Have you guys ever done that, though?

00:11:27.440 Yes, of course.

00:11:28.700 No.

00:11:29.120 What?

00:11:29.900 The come over.

00:11:31.020 Okay.

00:11:31.440 But okay, so for you, you're single, kind of, allegedly.

00:11:37.240 I mean, I talk to people, but I'm definitely single.

00:11:39.860 When's the last time you went on a date?

00:11:42.620 I mean, I guess it depends on your definition of a date.

00:11:46.080 I could say last week or I could say like a few months ago.

00:11:48.720 I mean, the last time I went like out on a date with someone, the way that you were describing

00:11:52.680 it, like they invite you somewhere, you do something, I mean, probably a month or two.

00:11:57.080 What's the other definition of a date?

00:11:58.860 Like a hookup.

00:12:00.840 I don't agree with either of them.

00:12:02.080 That's why it's called a hookup, though.

00:12:03.520 That's not a date.

00:12:04.180 Yeah, I know.

00:12:04.960 I mean, I don't know.

00:12:05.620 I guess it just depends on what you're talking about.

00:12:07.300 To me, a date has to be more structured.

00:12:08.540 A few months, for sure.

00:12:09.800 Yeah, if a guy's not asking you out, like, you know, hey, let's go out to eat or I picked

00:12:13.400 you out a dress, it's not a date.

00:12:14.500 If he's just fucking you, you're like, you know, you're basically ran through.

00:12:18.220 Okay, definitely not a date.

00:12:19.660 Yes, wrong definition.

00:12:20.940 But yeah, I would say a few months since like an actual date.

00:12:24.680 Okay.

00:12:25.140 Yes.

00:12:26.060 Tara?

00:12:27.860 Um, is the question last time you went on a date?

00:12:30.860 Yeah.

00:12:31.460 Or did a hookup, we'll say.

00:12:34.500 I went on a first date last week.

00:12:43.460 That's it.

00:12:44.660 Yeah, he's definitely watching right now.

00:12:46.940 Oh, he's watching?

00:12:47.740 Yeah.

00:12:48.760 Oh, God.

00:12:50.020 Was there a subsequent date or it's just been one?

00:12:53.300 Um, I saw him again after, like, he came, he lives far away.

00:13:03.140 He's in Ventura.

00:13:04.380 So, it's like kind of like a distance.

00:13:07.060 Wait.

00:13:07.260 So, it's hard to see each other.

00:13:08.340 What's up?

00:13:08.480 Did you talk about this dude last time?

00:13:10.200 Nope.

00:13:10.540 Is this like the server dude or whatever?

00:13:12.460 No.

00:13:12.980 It's not the bartender.

00:13:14.080 She's like, it's a new one.

00:13:15.120 What is up with you and dating men that don't live within a 30 minute?

00:13:19.360 It's not my preference.

00:13:21.400 I don't know.

00:13:21.800 It just happened like that.

00:13:24.520 But why date someone so far?

00:13:29.100 Ventura's like, guys, Ventura's 45 minutes away.

00:13:31.700 40, 45 minutes away.

00:13:34.420 Damn.

00:13:35.120 Well, that's not that far.

00:13:38.140 You're going to commute 45 minutes to see a guy.

00:13:42.100 Well, I mean, things are different now because I totaled my car.

00:13:47.140 So, even more reason to not date someone.

00:13:54.820 Yeah.

00:13:55.200 Well, I mean, yeah.

00:13:57.620 But I was, yeah.

00:13:59.300 Yeah, I guess.

00:14:00.120 I mean, if he's willing to drive deceive me, I don't know what the problem is.

00:14:10.380 Okay.

00:14:11.160 All right.

00:14:11.480 What about you, Tay?

00:14:12.500 What about you?

00:14:13.080 So, I actually don't do hookups.

00:14:14.520 I don't believe in that stuff at all.

00:14:15.740 The last person I messed around with was my ex.

00:14:17.940 So, yeah.

00:14:20.060 Okay.

00:14:20.580 Not much with me.

00:14:21.580 All right.

00:14:22.220 Next.

00:14:22.520 Good times.

00:14:23.380 Good times.

00:14:24.640 Okay.

00:14:25.720 So, question.

00:14:30.760 Question.

00:14:33.000 I don't know why I'm pausing to build suspense.

00:14:36.020 It's not even a good question.

00:14:37.760 What are your base standards?

00:14:39.620 What are my what?

00:14:40.320 Base standards for a guy.

00:14:42.700 My base standards?

00:14:46.040 Base standards.

00:14:48.120 So, like, for me to go on a date with them?

00:14:49.400 It could be physical.

00:14:50.480 It could be personality.

00:14:51.600 It could be character.

00:14:53.060 For me to go on a date with them?

00:14:55.320 Is that what the question is?

00:14:55.820 Or just in general?

00:14:56.500 Well, like.

00:14:57.320 What are you looking for in a guy?

00:14:58.040 In turn, I suppose, yes, for a date.

00:15:02.120 But, I mean, for someone that you would partner with?

00:15:05.680 I don't know.

00:15:05.980 Because I'm not looking to partner with anyone right now.

00:15:10.120 Why?

00:15:10.980 Because I was in a relationship majority of my college.

00:15:14.820 A lot of the last few years of my life, I haven't learned how to be single and be alone.

00:15:19.100 And I need to work on myself and rectifying some things I have going on before I start giving attention to another person.

00:15:29.200 Okay.

00:15:31.080 So, that's why I'm not really going on dates and stuff.

00:15:35.380 Are you on the dating app right now?

00:15:36.900 I'm on Hinge.

00:15:38.160 Hold on.

00:15:38.600 So, you're on Hinge, but you're not trying to date right now?

00:15:41.600 Explain that.

00:15:42.420 I'm thinking, like, I don't know.

00:15:43.780 I'm confused.

00:15:44.540 It's okay to be confused about certain things in life.

00:15:46.880 Like, damn.

00:15:47.560 This podcast acts like you have to have everything lined up in your life.

00:15:50.460 Well, it's just because, like, yeah, maybe I might want to go out and, like, experience some things.

00:15:55.300 You know?

00:15:55.760 But I don't think right now I am ready for.

00:15:59.880 And also, I've never even met anybody from a dating app.

00:16:01.980 Like, I've had these dating apps for years, and I've never actually met anybody.

00:16:05.280 Like, it's.

00:16:06.240 The only person I've ever met from a dating app is because he came into my job and was like, oh, hey, we matched on Tinder.

00:16:11.100 And I was like, oh, shit.

00:16:13.520 Okay.

00:16:13.940 We probably never would have met if you didn't just come to my job and see me.

00:16:17.820 Can I ask you a question?

00:16:18.920 Yeah.

00:16:19.200 What's your definition of healing?

00:16:20.360 Because you said healing, but then you said you were hooking up with a whole bunch of people.

00:16:23.060 I'm not.

00:16:23.260 I never said I was hooking up with a whole bunch of people.

00:16:24.840 I said one person.

00:16:25.500 You said girls and then one guy.

00:16:27.180 Yeah.

00:16:27.420 So, two girls and one guy since March.

00:16:29.520 If you're healing, so what are you doing to heal?

00:16:31.560 I'm just asking.

00:16:32.320 I'm.

00:16:32.960 I said not healing, but I said I have to work on some stuff.

00:16:35.780 Like, so, for a moment, I was in between houses and stuff.

00:16:38.480 I didn't think there was a reason to be dating if I'm in between homes and stuff.

00:16:41.980 Two, it's just I want to learn how to be single.

00:16:44.680 I've been in a relationship since I was basically 16 years old, hopping to the next person, the next person, the next person.

00:16:49.660 I want to give myself some time because I know right now I couldn't probably love somebody the way they want to be loved.

00:16:55.560 So, I don't even want to put somebody else in that position.

00:16:58.080 Got you.

00:16:58.440 Again, you missed my question.

00:16:59.560 What are you doing exactly to heal?

00:17:00.940 So, I'm not, I don't, I'm not trying to heal.

00:17:03.940 Okay.

00:17:04.440 Is the point I'm trying to make.

00:17:07.540 Okay.

00:17:08.980 Wait, your base standards for God.

00:17:14.020 Because.

00:17:15.780 I don't know, because I, I guess my base standards is I would expect somebody to have a job, have a car, and do something, like have some type of physical activity that they do besides their job.

00:17:29.440 Not just, like, they go to work and then they sit at home all day after.

00:17:32.140 Like, either they have, if they like to go to the gym or like to go hiking or something of the sorts.

00:17:36.660 And a strong family relationship.

00:17:39.580 Because I don't really have one.

00:17:40.720 So, I would, I want, it's a big, it's important for me if I have a family that the other side can help with that.

00:17:46.540 Okay.

00:17:47.600 So, so you said they got to be physical, like physically active.

00:17:51.600 They got to have.

00:17:52.120 Physically active in a way that it's shown that if you just sit inside and you just go to work and just fucking loathe after,

00:17:58.860 you're not going to be a truly functioning member of society.

00:18:02.460 So, I want, it doesn't have to be like, you have to be a gym rat, like super fit or anything.

00:18:05.580 I'm just saying, like, they have some hobby besides, like, hopefully not just gaming all day or something.

00:18:11.380 Oh, oh, gaming.

00:18:12.120 Oh, okay.

00:18:12.360 They could game if they want.

00:18:13.260 But they have their, like, you know.

00:18:15.740 You know, I, you know, I might actually have a guy for you.

00:18:19.280 Carson, can I have you pull up?

00:18:21.400 It's, it's an Instagram tab on over here.

00:18:25.820 It should already be in the, in the browser.

00:18:28.560 Just look for one of the Instagram tabs.

00:18:30.620 It's, it should be a picture of a dude.

00:18:32.880 It's his profile of a dude.

00:18:35.520 Oh, wait.

00:18:36.200 F11, F11.

00:18:37.200 Oh, hell no.

00:18:38.580 Scroll down, scroll down, scroll down, scroll down.

00:18:40.260 Yeah, yeah.

00:18:40.660 Wait, wait.

00:18:41.460 Scroll back up, scroll back up.

00:18:43.960 Okay, that's good.

00:18:44.940 Scroll down just a tid.

00:18:46.360 Tid.

00:18:46.600 Um, what do you think about, like, would you, we'll go around the table on this.

00:18:53.480 Oh, I don't know what's.

00:18:56.500 Did this person consent to have their profile on here?

00:19:00.800 Bro, what's with the buzzkill over here?

00:19:02.840 Okay.

00:19:04.320 Um.

00:19:05.020 Well, I don't want to roast somebody who's, like, just a random person.

00:19:09.280 He's, oh, my God.

00:19:10.500 That's a valid point.

00:19:11.360 Don't, don't worry about it.

00:19:12.980 Okay.

00:19:13.400 Oh.

00:19:13.700 So, around the table, what do you guys, what do you guys think about this guy?

00:19:20.480 Like, would you date him?

00:19:22.980 Um, he's not my personal type.

00:19:24.940 I wouldn't picture us coming into contact into a form where a date would ever be the end thing.

00:19:34.220 I don't ever see us having a, I don't know.

00:19:38.320 I'm dead.

00:19:39.440 Would you date him?

00:19:40.640 Absolutely not.

00:19:41.680 You, Carson, you can scroll down a little bit on that.

00:19:45.140 What about you?

00:19:45.820 Would you date him?

00:19:47.180 Personally, not my type, but there's somebody for everybody.

00:19:50.820 You're right, yeah.

00:19:52.000 Yeah, he's not really my type, but I see how he could be, like, funny, and he seems like he has a big personality.

00:19:57.700 I'm sure he's there for somebody.

00:19:59.600 Not somebody.

00:20:02.560 Uh, Tara?

00:20:03.300 Um, no, probably not.

00:20:07.580 But my guess, sorry to ruin your bit, but my guess is, like, you're gonna, like, tell us that this guy's actually, like, ultra-billionaire YouTube champion of the, like, video game champion of the world or something.

00:20:19.560 Carson, you can scroll up.

00:20:20.640 I don't know.

00:20:20.860 I feel like that's what you're gonna hear.

00:20:22.280 It's like your brother.

00:20:23.060 It doesn't matter.

00:20:23.900 It doesn't matter.

00:20:24.300 It doesn't change what it looks like.

00:20:25.540 Um, I love white boys, but, like, colored-eyed white boys, so no offense, not fully my type, just being honest.

00:20:30.520 Gotcha.

00:20:31.220 Uh, Carson Scroll, all the way up.

00:20:33.640 Okay, so this guy's, his name's Asmongold.

00:20:36.360 He's a Twitch streamer.

00:20:38.680 He's got 100k followers on Instagram, but on Twitch, he's big.

00:20:42.780 He's one of the top streamers on Twitch.

00:20:44.880 I think he's probably making several million dollars a year.

00:20:48.560 Millionaire several times over.

00:20:50.940 Um, and, uh, so, yeah.

00:20:54.320 Uh, nobody?

00:20:56.800 Rich?

00:20:58.540 Good dude?

00:20:59.440 You should see his last girlfriend.

00:21:00.740 She had huge...

00:21:01.520 Oh, actually, I'm just kidding.

00:21:02.160 Oh, he's huge.

00:21:05.900 So, no go for any of you?

00:21:07.720 No, thank you.

00:21:08.520 No.

00:21:08.720 Super successful, makes money.

00:21:11.160 Money doesn't change it for me, at least.

00:21:12.700 I mean, maybe.

00:21:13.240 I gotta be attracted to you.

00:21:14.340 He's a really cool guy, too.

00:21:16.280 He's, like, a nice guy.

00:21:17.020 I feel like it's hard to say I would or wouldn't date someone just based off of their profile.

00:21:20.280 I gotta see him meeting.

00:21:21.100 Like, I mean, yeah, if he had a super dope personality and he's a cool guy.

00:21:23.860 Made me laugh, it would be different.

00:21:27.060 Okay.

00:21:28.340 No go?

00:21:29.540 I think personality...

00:21:31.380 He has a car.

00:21:32.340 Okay, he has a car, he has a job.

00:21:33.980 That's a plus nowadays, for sure.

00:21:36.660 Oh, the bar is on...

00:21:37.900 The bar is in hell.

00:21:39.100 The bar is in hell.

00:21:39.840 No, it's sad.

00:21:41.220 There's so many guys that don't have cars.

00:21:42.640 Like, I don't...

00:21:43.740 Should only date him now because he has a car?

00:21:45.240 Dang.

00:21:45.540 No, no!

00:21:46.300 No!

00:21:46.740 So, I mean, I agree with you in the sense that I don't want to date a girl that doesn't

00:21:56.200 have a car.

00:21:57.240 Yeah.

00:21:57.940 It's feeling like, for me, at least...

00:21:59.900 What?

00:22:00.520 Am I, like, undateable now that I totaled my car?

00:22:03.980 It's okay.

00:22:04.280 It's okay.

00:22:04.480 It's okay.

00:22:04.800 It's the biggest turnoff, huh?

00:22:06.640 Well, I mean, some guys probably care about it less, but for me, I'm just...

00:22:10.220 It's kind of...

00:22:10.600 I'm just lazy.

00:22:11.360 I don't want to be your chauffeur.

00:22:13.200 Yeah.

00:22:13.760 I don't want to drive you around everywhere.

00:22:16.160 I can...

00:22:16.720 There's trains.

00:22:17.500 There's buses.

00:22:18.200 Oh, hide it.

00:22:18.220 Hide it.

00:22:19.200 Carson, hide it.

00:22:19.940 My sprinkler goes like this.

00:22:25.500 And comes back like this.

00:22:27.180 And don't you just hate it when your cat wakes you up like this?

00:22:30.380 Meow.

00:22:31.320 Meow.

00:22:32.340 Meow.

00:22:33.360 Meow.

00:22:33.600 Meow.

00:22:35.520 Yeah.

00:22:36.000 Oh, by the way, Carson, for the TTS stuff, 50 and

00:22:40.140 up, just let it do TTS.

00:22:42.440 You don't have to show the soup chat, but we will pull it back up.

00:22:45.700 Joel Taggart, thank you, man.

00:22:46.600 Appreciate it.

00:22:47.560 Okay.

00:22:47.980 So, Asmongold, no go.

00:22:49.520 Okay.

00:22:49.960 That's unfortunate.

00:22:50.960 I'm sorry.

00:22:51.380 Unfortunate.

00:22:52.060 But, yeah.

00:22:53.400 So, okay.

00:22:54.500 Okay.

00:22:54.880 Hold on.

00:22:55.340 Stop.

00:22:55.660 What's up?

00:22:56.000 How can the British Patriot literally say gold digger alert when none of us were even

00:23:01.620 changing our answers?

00:23:03.080 That's like...

00:23:04.000 That makes no fucking sense.

00:23:05.660 That was actually dumb as hell.

00:23:06.600 I didn't even see that comment.

00:23:07.660 Well, I did.

00:23:08.040 Well, thank you for pointing it out, Kiko.

00:23:09.680 That was good.

00:23:10.540 You're welcome.

00:23:11.660 Carson, can I have you pull up?

00:23:13.400 There's a TikTok tab open.

00:23:15.120 We're going to react to that.

00:23:20.720 You will not play the video.

00:23:25.600 Okay.

00:23:26.240 So, let's see.

00:23:30.080 You might need to hide this just so I can read it really quick.

00:23:32.960 Carson, in the Sources tab, do you see where it says GH5 Center?

00:23:37.040 Click the eyeball really quick just to hide this.

00:23:38.980 Perfect.

00:23:39.680 All right.

00:23:39.980 So, this is a TikTok.

00:23:40.880 I saw this girl for some reason.

00:23:42.340 My TikTok is mostly Asian women in Canada for some reason.

00:23:47.300 I don't know why.

00:23:48.040 It's what you like.

00:23:49.680 Apparently.

00:23:50.180 The algorithm.

00:23:50.700 The algorithm.

00:23:51.760 Anyways, the shorties.

00:23:53.100 We're not going to play the video, but there's not much else to it.

00:23:56.300 The shorties who have to lie about their heights on dating apps.

00:23:59.000 Y'all can sit this one out.

00:24:00.120 And then the description, too many 511s capping on Hinge right now.

00:24:06.680 And Carson, can you just hit the eyeball again on the GH5?

00:24:09.700 Other one.

00:24:12.360 Other one.

00:24:13.100 Hide the other one.

00:24:14.020 There you go.

00:24:14.700 All right.

00:24:15.480 So, do you guys think it's wrong if a guy hides, or sorry, doesn't hide, if a guy lies

00:24:22.540 about his height on a dating app?

00:24:25.320 It's just weird as fuck, because if your point is to meet people off the dating app, what

00:24:29.840 are you going to do?

00:24:30.500 It's like, I think it's weird as hell.

00:24:31.940 I have friends who overly edit their photos and use Face app and all this stuff.

00:24:36.520 I'm like, what do you do when you meet a dude or somebody in person, and they can't even

00:24:40.340 recognize you damn near?

00:24:41.400 Or you're saying you're six foot, and you walk up to me, and you're shorter than me

00:24:44.680 or something.

00:24:45.300 It's not even that big of a deal, but now it is, because you're lying off rip already.

00:24:49.060 That's just weird.

00:24:50.620 Okay.

00:24:51.360 What do you think?

00:24:52.100 Yeah, I just would want them to be honest.

00:24:54.220 I would hate to date a short guy.

00:24:57.340 Whoa.

00:24:58.180 There you go.

00:25:00.200 How long?

00:25:01.060 That TikTok sound.

00:25:01.880 Wait, okay, you would hate to date a short guy?

00:25:04.720 Yeah.

00:25:05.480 I'm not about the short case.

00:25:06.800 How tall are you?

00:25:08.180 I'm just 5'5", but my boyfriend's like 6'2", so I've got a type here.

00:25:13.100 That's an exaggeration.

00:25:15.520 Okay, so you're 5'5", your boyfriend's 6'2".

00:25:17.960 Do you have a bare minimum height?

00:25:20.480 Like six foot.

00:25:21.620 Six feet, bare minimum?

00:25:22.780 Yeah.

00:25:23.000 And we'll go around on this really quick, and then we'll also get your reaction to the

00:25:26.820 TikTok.

00:25:28.220 So height, bare minimum height?

00:25:31.020 For a man or a woman?

00:25:32.560 Men.

00:25:32.920 I used to always say my height, but I did have ran into issues where I kind of really don't

00:25:41.500 care, but I like to wear platform shoes.

00:25:43.440 I like to have big, chunky shoes on all the time, and they do start getting their feelings

00:25:46.400 hurt sometimes when I'm taller than them on the daily, and I just don't want to deal

00:25:49.160 with that.

00:25:49.640 I don't really care.

00:25:50.560 I can give a shit less how tall they are.

00:25:51.900 So you're height or taller?

00:25:54.420 Yeah.

00:25:54.800 I don't think I would be too into a man who's like five foot or something.

00:25:58.180 That's a little crazy.

00:25:58.820 I'm 5'7", bro.

00:26:00.040 And how tall are you?

00:26:02.160 5'7".

00:26:02.880 Oh, 5'7".

00:26:03.420 Okay.

00:26:03.640 Is somebody shaking the table right now?

00:26:06.760 It feels like there's...

00:26:07.720 Me, I'm anxious.

00:26:07.800 I'm sorry.

00:26:08.420 It feels like there's...

00:26:10.500 They're too ADHD.

00:26:11.660 Can somebody...

00:26:12.360 Can you guys just deep breath in?

00:26:14.140 I need like a...

00:26:14.700 Like a tina break.

00:26:16.320 Oh.

00:26:17.340 Okay.

00:26:18.260 What about you?

00:26:19.780 So first, just react to the TikTok.

00:26:22.560 Do you have a...

00:26:24.120 Would it be wrong for a guy to live out his height on a dating app?

00:26:28.760 And just how tall are you?

00:26:30.320 And do you have a height preference?

00:26:31.580 I think that it would be weird for you to lie on a dating app because I'm going to meet...

00:26:36.500 I would think it's weird for you to lie on a dating app because I'm going to meet you in person.

00:26:41.780 And I honestly do not care about height.

00:26:46.260 Just, I mean, it would be cool if the guy I was dating is taller than me.

00:26:50.720 But I also date women and I don't care.

00:26:52.580 How tall are you?

00:26:53.500 5'5".

00:26:54.140 Okay.

00:26:55.860 Got it.

00:26:56.600 And you've had a boyfriend before, correct?

00:26:58.840 Yes.

00:26:59.280 How tall was he?

00:26:59.920 He was 6'0".

00:27:01.420 Have you had other boyfriends too?

00:27:03.240 No.

00:27:03.860 Just the one boyfriend?

00:27:04.940 And wait, going back to you, how tall was your last boyfriend?

00:27:08.620 5'8".

00:27:09.600 Okay.

00:27:09.940 Maybe a half on that.

00:27:10.920 And you said your boyfriend's 6'2", correct?

00:27:12.940 Yeah.

00:27:13.640 What about any previous boyfriends or is this your first relationship?

00:27:16.460 No, I've had a previous boyfriend.

00:27:18.580 How tall was he?

00:27:20.200 He was like 5'8".

00:27:22.640 Oh, okay.

00:27:23.960 Okay.

00:27:24.600 All right.

00:27:24.940 That was way back then.

00:27:26.020 Sure.

00:27:27.180 I mean, I think it's kind of weird to be lying about that.

00:27:29.840 But I mean, if it's only an inch or two off, if you're saying you're 6'0", and you're 5'11",

00:27:34.200 I don't think it's that big of a deal.

00:27:35.500 I mean, it's weird.

00:27:36.160 But I can see how for some women it really is the difference between if I'm going to swipe

00:27:39.500 on you or not, whether you say you're 5'11", or 6'0".

00:27:42.120 But I would definitely prefer to date a guy who's like 6'0", but I'm 5'4", I'm short.

00:27:48.460 My ex that I was with for four years, he was 5'7", and it was fine.

00:27:52.420 We made it work.

00:27:53.180 So I don't think it's not big of a deal.

00:27:55.220 So is your standard just your height or taller?

00:27:58.380 Yes.

00:27:58.860 Yeah, I definitely wouldn't.

00:27:59.980 Well, I mean, maybe like 5'7", and taller.

00:28:02.100 I don't want you to be like that.

00:28:03.900 Okay.

00:28:04.180 So three inches or taller.

00:28:05.500 Yeah.

00:28:05.940 Okay.

00:28:06.640 Got it.

00:28:07.040 And so, okay, you're 5'4", your last boyfriend, you said he was 6'0", correct?

00:28:12.140 No, no.

00:28:12.780 I mean, that's what my preference is.

00:28:14.420 Your ex was 5'7".

00:28:15.440 Yeah.

00:28:15.880 And he was short, and people said it all the time that we look the same height, but I don't

00:28:19.640 really care that much.

00:28:20.540 Okay.

00:28:20.860 I noticed it when people pointed it out.

00:28:22.960 Okay.

00:28:23.460 But you do think it's wrong if a guy were to lie about his height on the dating app?

00:28:27.980 I mean, if it's small.

00:28:29.260 If it's like an inch or two, yeah, I really don't see the big deal.

00:28:31.700 What if it's like 5'11", to 6'1"?

00:28:33.640 I mean, you should just say 6'0", I feel like.

00:28:38.560 Yeah, why 6'0"?

00:28:39.260 Yeah, I think it's stupid, but...

00:28:40.600 Well, I'll get to that.

00:28:41.420 I guess I wouldn't judge you super...

00:28:43.440 I might make fun of you if I realize that, but I don't think it would be like an end-all

00:28:46.920 be-all for me.

00:28:47.560 Like, oh, you lied about two fucking inches.

00:28:49.500 You're out of here.

00:28:50.340 Like...

00:28:50.500 Sure.

00:28:50.880 I don't...

00:28:51.680 Well, yeah, okay, wait.

00:28:52.900 Maybe another...

00:28:53.660 I don't know.

00:28:54.580 Okay.

00:28:55.080 Tara?

00:28:57.280 Um...

00:28:57.960 I don't think I have a strong opinion.

00:29:01.280 Like, I don't know.

00:29:02.160 I don't think it's...

00:29:03.640 I don't think it's wrong.

00:29:07.120 Yeah.

00:29:07.680 I don't think it's wrong.

00:29:08.580 But I feel like...

00:29:09.320 But I know that I do care, though, about height, honestly.

00:29:12.440 You care about height?

00:29:13.220 Okay.

00:29:14.100 Yeah.

00:29:14.420 Not, like, a ton, but my minimum is probably, like, 5'10", maybe.

00:29:19.740 Can I ask you a question?

00:29:20.960 Yeah.

00:29:21.460 Would you think it's a red flag if he lied, or you just, like, don't care?

00:29:26.100 Um, well, I'm not on dating apps, so it's not something that would affect me.

00:29:29.360 That's one of the, like, not...

00:29:30.620 That's, like, that's not the reason I'm not on dating apps, but, like, a big reason I don't

00:29:33.560 use dating apps is because I just...

00:29:34.860 I always think it's important to see how you connect with them in person, not...

00:29:38.140 Otherwise, like, it doesn't really matter.

00:29:39.700 But they lied to you, like, before they even met you.

00:29:42.500 Would that bother you, or no?

00:29:44.340 Yeah, no, that totally would.

00:29:46.000 I, like, recently had, um, uh, there was a guy I just went on that, like, first date

00:29:51.820 with.

00:29:52.180 I found out, like, lied to me about his age, which I feel like is super suspicious and,

00:29:56.960 like, concerning.

00:29:58.120 Um, yeah.

00:29:58.860 So, yeah, that's, like, my, even itself, like...

00:30:01.760 Can you specify the age?

00:30:02.680 Like, what did he say his age was and what it actually is?

00:30:04.820 So, he...

00:30:06.180 I was thinking maybe he was, like, 21, but, um, then he tells me on his first date that

00:30:12.080 he's 25.

00:30:13.420 Did he say he was 21, or did you assume he was 21?

00:30:15.860 I assumed he was, like, probably 21.

00:30:17.580 So, he...

00:30:17.960 You never knew his age.

00:30:18.560 I never knew his age.

00:30:19.140 So, he didn't lie.

00:30:19.780 No, no, no, he does lie.

00:30:21.100 We're getting there.

00:30:21.620 Oh, okay.

00:30:21.840 So, I assumed he was, like, 21, um, and then I, like, we went on this first date, and

00:30:26.820 then he told me he was 25, and then I, um, see him, he comes into town, I see him,

00:30:32.680 like, downtown a couple days ago, and he tells, um, he, like, meets my friends.

00:30:38.180 My friends ask him, like, how old are you?

00:30:39.620 And he's, like, how old do you want me to be?

00:30:42.080 Like, he's really drunk or whatever, and I was, like, ha-ha, he's 25, and he's, like,

00:30:45.440 no, I'm 23, and I was, like, oh, you're 23?

00:30:48.980 Like, he told me you were 25, and he's, like, no, I'm actually 21.

00:30:51.860 Like, like, jokingly, lying about his age, but, like, straight up told my friends when

00:30:55.140 they, I think he's 23.

00:30:57.120 I think he's 23.

00:30:57.880 Do you still just not know?

00:30:59.900 I honestly don't know for sure how old he is, but he told me on our date he was 25,

00:31:03.740 and I was, like, I think I asked him later, I was, like, why did you lie to me about

00:31:08.420 your age?

00:31:09.060 And he was, like, I thought it would, I thought, like, you'd, I would seem cooler to you or

00:31:13.660 something, but.

00:31:14.880 Didn't think we have to ID our dates now.

00:31:17.320 I know, I know, I know.

00:31:19.360 So that was suspicious.

00:31:19.820 No, you can lie about your age on Tinder and stuff.

00:31:22.180 It's crazy.

00:31:23.120 Wait, so, okay, question about the age.

00:31:24.700 So, initially, he told you 21, correct?

00:31:27.240 No, no.

00:31:27.700 Initially, I, like, that was in my head, like, he kind of looked that age.

00:31:30.740 I was, like, okay, maybe that's what he is.

00:31:32.200 What he told me on our first date was, I am 25, and then he tells my friends when he

00:31:39.120 meets them that he's 23, and I think he's actually 23, and told me that he was 25.

00:31:47.400 So, he, because he wanted to seem older.

00:31:50.220 Okay, so he lied up.

00:31:51.900 Yeah, yeah, he, like, yeah, he lied up, yeah.

00:31:55.980 I don't know, I can't imagine you would have felt any differently if he was two years older

00:32:00.960 than 20.

00:32:02.660 Yeah, I kind of feel, I feel better knowing that he's, like, 23.

00:32:05.880 Because if, because the older guy is, I feel like I would have higher expectations of maybe

00:32:09.720 where he is in his life, and whether he, like, uses his time wisely, and is on, like, a, you

00:32:14.840 know.

00:32:15.060 So, I was actually, I, like, probably would have preferred it knowing he was 23, based

00:32:20.180 on where he is in life, I guess.

00:32:22.660 All right.

00:32:24.280 And.

00:32:24.880 But anyways, that was, like, nearly a deal breaker, because how am I ever, like, that's

00:32:28.300 so, that's such a, like, suspicious thing to do.

00:32:31.060 How can I literally ever trust, like, anything else, like, this person says?

00:32:33.700 What's that called, when people just lie, just, there's not really a purpose, they

00:32:37.820 just do it to do it?

00:32:39.340 Pathological liar.

00:32:40.420 Yeah, that just, like, what's the, I don't know, that doesn't make any sense why he would

00:32:45.380 do that.

00:32:46.180 I mean, he told me it's because he thought it would make him seem cooler to me.

00:32:49.480 I mean, that's, it's already kind of a, yikes, it's already a yikes, but, uh.

00:32:54.740 The fact he admitted that is really embarrassing.

00:32:58.920 I don't know, yeah.

00:33:00.540 So, are you still seeing him, or no, it's done?

00:33:01.940 I, I think it was, it was, that was definitely a red flag, and, and, um, he was also drunk,

00:33:09.260 and, like, seeing someone, I don't know.

00:33:12.660 Yeah, there were just other, like, red flags that came up, I don't know.

00:33:16.140 Is this the Ventura guy?

00:33:17.340 Yes.

00:33:18.200 Yeah.

00:33:18.740 Oh, the guy that you just went on a date with?

00:33:22.120 Yeah.

00:33:22.660 Am I missing?

00:33:23.160 Yeah.

00:33:23.640 No, you're not missing anything.

00:33:25.080 Okay.

00:33:25.860 Yeah.

00:33:26.280 So, what about you?

00:33:26.980 What's your reaction to the clip?

00:33:27.920 I agree with the rest of the ladies.

00:33:29.140 I don't like people that lie to me, especially in the beginning stages.

00:33:32.780 Um, that's a tough one, because I feel like women lie on dating apps as well.

00:33:36.760 So, I don't know.

00:33:39.080 But, yeah, I can't do the lying at all.

00:33:40.480 Just be honest.

00:33:41.020 If you're 5'11", 5'8", whatever, I'm cool with that.

00:33:43.200 But just be straight up from the jump, because I'm not going to put myself as a white girl.

00:33:45.740 You see me, I'm black.

00:33:46.600 Come on.

00:33:46.940 Oh, I thought, I was about to, I was about to quit, because you said I'm a white girl.

00:33:51.900 No.

00:33:52.460 I was like, are you sure?

00:33:54.400 No.

00:33:54.960 You got the opposite of whatever Michael Jackson had?

00:33:57.840 Is that a thing?

00:33:58.820 Can you have the opposite?

00:33:59.980 No.

00:34:00.600 I don't think so.

00:34:02.060 Vitiligo the other way?

00:34:03.580 No.

00:34:04.200 Okay.

00:34:04.660 I'm dead.

00:34:06.840 I'm dead.

00:34:08.120 Okay.

00:34:08.700 All right.

00:34:09.500 Wait, so, okay, but just no, and then as far as height goes, what's your height and heights

00:34:15.720 of last boyfriend?

00:34:17.520 I'm 5'8", and I think all my boyfriends were, like, only had two.

00:34:20.840 We're both 5'11".

00:34:22.500 Okay.

00:34:23.400 Yeah.

00:34:23.920 Got it.

00:34:24.620 So, kind of one of the reasons I asked this, and it was just interesting.

00:34:28.860 Actually, Carson, can you pull back up the TikTok clip really quick, if it's up?

00:34:33.180 So, here's the thing, right?

00:34:38.880 So, okay, she's talking about dudes capping on Hinge, lying about their heights on dating

00:34:43.220 apps.

00:34:44.000 I want you guys to look closely, though.

00:34:47.160 So, this is on TikTok, right?

00:34:49.960 Look at her face.

00:34:54.000 That's a full face of makeup and a filter.

00:34:57.420 So, I'm like, I'm sure she's enough.

00:35:03.180 She's an attractive woman without all that, but, and we obviously don't have her dating

00:35:07.100 app profiles.

00:35:07.880 Maybe all her photos on the dating app are no makeup, no filter.

00:35:12.100 Although, from my experience being on the dating apps, it's typically not the exception.

00:35:16.760 It's the rule that most of the photos on there, most women are using filters and makeup,

00:35:25.680 full face of makeup.

00:35:27.000 Not full face, but, and so, to me, it's just kind of interesting because you often hear

00:35:31.520 complaints from women saying, guys are lying about their height, guys are lying about their

00:35:35.120 height, yet, these very same women, exhibit A, are misrepresenting their facial features,

00:35:42.960 their physical appearance, they're using filters, they're photoshopping, they're fucking, all

00:35:47.700 this shit.

00:35:48.180 And it's just like, so I'm thinking, I'm, listen, just for equality or whatever the

00:35:53.760 fuck, I think dudes should start lying about their age on dating apps.

00:35:57.460 Their age?

00:35:58.180 Their age?

00:35:58.760 Their age?

00:35:59.020 Oh, sorry.

00:35:59.600 My bad.

00:36:00.160 I was like, no, no.

00:36:02.300 Tara, sorry.

00:36:03.620 Guys should start lying about their height.

00:36:06.480 Sorry, Tara's little thing about the age thing threw me off there.

00:36:08.820 I got my wires crossed.

00:36:10.600 Yeah, I think dudes should start lying about their height on dating apps.

00:36:13.940 Or we just all start being more real on dating apps.

00:36:16.440 You think makeup is a lie?

00:36:17.880 Makeup is 100% a lie.

00:36:19.660 No.

00:36:20.200 I mean, I get filters, but makeup is dry.

00:36:22.200 I feel like if you wear a full face makeup every day, what's the problem with putting

00:36:25.900 pictures on your dating app where you're wearing makeup?

00:36:28.060 That's how you present yourself every day.

00:36:29.500 The filters in Photoshop's different.

00:36:31.300 I'm sorry, but if a man cannot tell that I don't naturally have golden shimmery eyelids

00:36:35.940 and red lipstick, I feel like that's his issue, not mine.

00:36:41.780 I really do like her point, though.

00:36:43.100 If a girl is, yeah, besides the filters and the editing and stuff, makeup, if that's how

00:36:49.160 she presents herself every single day, day in and day out, how is that not the woman

00:36:54.060 that he's getting?

00:36:54.960 It'll be different if this girl is dressed like a bum 360 days a year, and five days she

00:37:01.500 puts on the makeup, and those are five days she has a picture on her profiles.

00:37:04.580 That would be a little different, but that's her day-to-day look.

00:37:06.740 That's her day-to-day look.

00:37:07.560 That's how you look.

00:37:08.040 How can you tell her nobody else?

00:37:09.540 How can you tell her she don't look like that?

00:37:12.820 Well, I mean...

00:37:13.500 And also, makeup helps enhance things that are...

00:37:16.880 It depends also what kind of makeup.

00:37:18.060 Are we talking like full drag queen beat, or there's difference in between makeups that

00:37:23.420 can change your features?

00:37:24.400 Not all makeup completely changes your features.

00:37:26.280 Sometimes it just makes whatever lighting from a photo that would mess up your features

00:37:29.880 back to normal.

00:37:31.160 I can ask you a question?

00:37:31.960 So you've never in your life seen a girl completely different without makeup?

00:37:35.020 I have.

00:37:35.400 I used to do makeup.

00:37:35.940 I just...

00:37:36.260 That's why I said there's a difference between the drag queen layers of makeup versus the

00:37:40.320 more natural makeup.

00:37:40.640 I understand where he's coming from because I wear makeup, but I do think that it is kind

00:37:44.560 of like...

00:37:44.840 Because a lot of girls don't look the same without it, and if you can't live in your

00:37:47.240 natural self, and you're sitting out here judging people for their height and things

00:37:50.080 like that, you're not even living in your natural beauty.

00:37:52.020 Not just you guys, just in general.

00:37:53.500 I know.

00:37:53.780 So I understand exactly where he's coming from with that.

00:37:55.320 And I get that too, but then also a rebuttal to that is those girls who are doing the full

00:37:59.920 beat down, like the kind of drag queen-y makeup are probably going to attract men who like

00:38:04.320 that, who like women who do that.

00:38:06.120 The men who like natural women aren't going to go for the ones who are wearing that drag

00:38:10.080 queen beat.

00:38:10.500 And I can guarantee, like she said, if they don't know that they can't, you could usually

00:38:13.600 see, come on, you could see that that's not what they look like.

00:38:15.720 You could see all that makeup on their face.

00:38:17.200 It's not like, you know, you're not being bamboozled.

00:38:20.080 Like...

00:38:20.480 Well, I think you...

00:38:22.180 I can't...

00:38:22.500 I think you...

00:38:23.500 You underestimate...

00:38:26.680 Underestimate how naive some men can be in terms of the way...

00:38:31.060 In terms of the ways in which women will enhance their appearance through makeup and filters

00:38:37.120 and these sorts of things.

00:38:38.400 Let me, let me come back to what you said, then I'll address what you said, but can you

00:38:42.800 scoot your microphone to the, to your right?

00:38:46.080 There you go.

00:38:46.520 Perfect.

00:38:46.740 That's good.

00:38:47.060 That's good.

00:38:47.740 Um, so you said, can you remind me what you said?

00:38:50.580 Yeah, I said that I feel like if you normally wear full face of makeup every day, not every

00:38:55.520 day, but most of the time, then I don't see the problem with making those your pictures.

00:38:58.900 Okay.

00:38:59.060 So my, my response to that would be, well, do you do those same women wear the makeup to sleep

00:39:04.120 to bed?

00:39:04.860 No, but when like, okay, so they're wearing them when they're around people.

00:39:08.060 But within the context of a romantic relationship, at some point you guys are going to spend

00:39:13.740 the night, you guys are going to, you're going to see your girl without makeup.

00:39:18.460 So it is a bit of a, uh, mirage in a sort of way.

00:39:22.260 And the other thing I would add to that too, is why do people find a, why are people attracted

00:39:30.840 to physical beauty?

00:39:33.240 What, what's one reason why?

00:39:35.020 I know it's a bit nuanced.

00:39:36.320 It's because it's a good indicator for health and fertility.

00:39:40.740 Yes.

00:39:41.120 But for example, for example, if you had the choice to have children with someone who is

00:39:46.000 very attractive and children with someone who was not attractive, you would want to

00:39:51.860 pair with someone who's physically attractive so that your children are physically attractive

00:39:57.380 because we know physical attractiveness gives you certain benefits and privileges throughout

00:40:02.420 your life.

00:40:03.380 Well, my thing with that is that makeup only covers up so much.

00:40:06.700 I mean, if you like, I don't know, I feel like someone who's pretty and wears just some

00:40:12.000 makeup to enhance it.

00:40:13.060 I mean, you can still probably tell that they're a naturally pretty person.

00:40:16.600 I mean, no, or?

00:40:17.740 I mean, I don't know if you've seen some of these before and after.

00:40:20.880 I don't know if you've seen some before and after photos, but, uh, you're saying, I get

00:40:26.040 what you're good at the point you said earlier about, I'm not recognizing how like naive some

00:40:29.720 men could be to like makeup.

00:40:31.140 Like, honestly, I can maybe a few percent wouldn't agree, but almost everyone's makeup here in

00:40:36.700 this room, if we were to take it off, we would all look damn the same.

00:40:39.560 The men mostly would not be able to tell a difference.

00:40:41.560 I'm not going to do it.

00:40:42.460 So don't fucking ask me.

00:40:43.720 Um, but the thing is, is like, I got that.

00:40:47.740 I got some Neutrogena makeup for 30 minutes to be here to wear for an hour and take it

00:40:52.700 off.

00:40:52.840 You're out of your damn mind.

00:40:54.740 Um, anyways, back to my point.

00:40:57.480 Yes, men could be naive, but most men can see when you're wearing that much makeup.

00:41:02.020 Like if you're wearing makeup to transform your face, unless you are a freaking Ariel or

00:41:06.360 the Kardashians makeup artist, you're going to see that powder on their face, especially

00:41:09.920 when you meet them in person.

00:41:10.540 You're going to see the layers.

00:41:12.140 It's, it, it becomes to a point where it looks wrong.

00:41:14.720 They call it now, they call it birthday makeup.

00:41:16.240 You know, that's what the whole little, the thing is birthday makeup.

00:41:19.300 Like I get it.

00:41:21.020 I get your point, but a little bit of makeup, come on.

00:41:25.000 Like someone wrote this in the comments, so I can't take credit for it, but they asked

00:41:28.660 a fair question, which was if you don't think makeup significantly enhances your attractiveness,

00:41:35.260 then why wear it?

00:41:37.040 I didn't say that.

00:41:37.620 I said it does enhance yourself.

00:41:38.840 I said it enhances my natural features, which is why I do it.

00:41:41.440 Cause it makes me feel better about myself, more put together.

00:41:44.000 When I look in the mirror, I look like, okay, like I look like I'm about to start my day.

00:41:47.380 I look a little bit more awake.

00:41:48.360 Not like I look like a completely different person.

00:41:50.520 That's not what I'm saying.

00:41:51.100 If, if makeup didn't have any sort of benefit to your appearance, women just wouldn't wear

00:41:58.300 it.

00:41:58.440 Did I not say, are you guys skipping past the word enhance?

00:42:00.300 But you're saying, you're saying like, but, but in terms of selecting a partner, both

00:42:05.360 men and women look to physical attractiveness to determine like, oh, I want to meet this

00:42:10.000 person.

00:42:10.320 So you are essentially misrepresenting your actual appearance, or if you want to use

00:42:15.360 enhancing, you are to a degree.

00:42:18.800 That's not what you actually look like.

00:42:21.880 But my overall point, like how you said how men can be so naive to makeup.

00:42:24.900 I, like, not just me, majority of us here would look, most men, the alley could be like,

00:42:31.020 oh, maybe she looks a little bit tired, or she looks a little bit less flushed in the

00:42:34.240 cheeks.

00:42:34.660 They're not going to notice a vast difference.

00:42:36.180 I'm telling you this because of how often it happens to me from men telling me, oh, I

00:42:40.500 didn't even know you were wearing makeup now, or that you, you were making this time.

00:42:43.460 Unless I'm wearing sparkly shit on my eyes and a red lip, they usually can't tell.

00:42:46.740 See, but look, the difference from you and other women is you might look pretty without

00:42:49.900 makeup.

00:42:50.320 There's a dozen other women that we've seen that hasn't.

00:42:52.220 And like you said, you've been with women.

00:42:53.320 I've been with women before, and they take their makeup off and look completely different.

00:42:56.520 I have concealer on, so I'm fine with taking my makeup off.

00:42:58.760 But there's a lot of girls who don't look the same, so I understand exactly why men want

00:43:02.220 women to live in their natural beauty, because they love themselves and look at themselves

00:43:05.160 that way.

00:43:05.580 Whether you want to believe it or not, I know dozens of women who wear makeup and are insecure

00:43:09.540 as hell.

00:43:10.500 Oh, I'm not.

00:43:10.940 Yeah, I mean.

00:43:11.440 Yeah, so the point of, like, makeup, it does enhance beauty, and it does make a lot of girls

00:43:14.860 more prettier, and some girls don't even look good without it.

00:43:17.180 That's just, like, facts.

00:43:17.660 But my overarching point, though, is, like, those women who don't look pretty without the

00:43:20.660 makeup, one, either aren't going to look still pretty with the makeup, or they're doing

00:43:24.380 a shit ton of makeup to look good, so the guys who don't like natural women aren't going

00:43:29.160 to go after them, is my overall point.

00:43:31.200 Well, okay, we can, I mean.

00:43:32.500 Leave those beat down faces for the men who like the beat down faces, and the natural

00:43:36.880 beauties for the men who like natural beauty.

00:43:38.060 Sure, okay, well, I mean, we could probably go back and forth on the makeup thing for a

00:43:41.960 little bit, but the other point I was going to make is, and I think this is, me personally,

00:43:48.460 I think the makeup example is similar to the height line thing, but I can take it a step

00:43:54.840 further.

00:43:55.260 I think a bigger faux pas is using filters on a dating app.

00:44:00.260 So, I mean, I pulled up Facebook dating right now, and I'm just, I'm looking, I mean, like,

00:44:07.580 first photo, filter, you can't even see your nose, basically, makeup, let me see, oh, I'm

00:44:14.940 not going to show that one, let's see, oh, I'm sorry, I should be showing these, okay,

00:44:21.000 the age range on this is fucking so, oh, shit.

00:44:24.260 Okay, I mean, filter, right?

00:44:26.160 Yeah, I feel like using filters, filtered photos on a dating profile is probably equivalent

00:44:31.380 to lying about your height, you know, because it's, and, and like, that's not just, yeah,

00:44:36.040 like, you could, I just would probably say it's just, it's like impractical for whoever's

00:44:41.360 doing it, because you're going to see them in person, but I could totally see how like

00:44:44.560 a guy who is like really charming, great personality, but it's like trying to meet someone on a dating

00:44:50.460 app, wants to like lie about his height, because if that like makes a difference to a girl,

00:44:53.640 like going to see if going on a first date with him or not, and then he, you know,

00:44:57.980 woos her over with his like humor, but like he wouldn't have gotten the chance to like

00:45:02.680 show her his personality beforehand, like that makes sense.

00:45:06.940 Carson, can you hit the, on the sources tab in StreamYard, the eye, hit the eyeball,

00:45:14.480 for, yeah, it's StreamYard, just the eye, StreamYard, StreamYard, nope, that's SL alerts,

00:45:21.220 StreamYard one down, yeah, I'm not, literally not saying shit to Tara at all, like how am I trying

00:45:27.620 to run her over, like, oh my god, they can't let it go from that last podcast, like let it fucking

00:45:32.440 go, so move forward with your life. When it, when it comes to the, using the filters on the dating apps,

00:45:38.980 I would honestly say, of the girls I see on Hinge, Facebook dating, whatever, like 50% or more

00:45:48.260 are using filters on their photos, I mean, and their first photo too, I, I mean, and that's like,

00:45:57.320 okay, that's the hook, right, so it's pretty disingenuous, I think, to lie about your physical

00:46:04.420 appearance, which I mean, both men and women care about pretty substantially, but men typically are

00:46:09.860 not lying about their, their facial, their, men don't really wear makeup. I know a lot of men who use filters too.

00:46:17.660 I agree with the filter. There are men, there are men that wear filters. Face tune, face app stuff,

00:46:21.980 I think that's, that's out. Yeah. Can I add Snapchat filters that morph your face, like that's just not.

00:46:27.240 I don't even use them on regular social media. But makeup cannot physically make your nose small,

00:46:31.680 it cannot make your lips huge. It cannot make, you know, like filters, filters physically will make

00:46:38.060 your lips bigger. Filters will make your eyes bigger. They'll like literally change you.

00:46:44.220 Sorry, go ahead. Go ahead, go ahead. That's all I had to say. You definitely lost your point with that one.

00:46:51.220 Yeah. Yeah, filters are bad, but I guess what I'm just trying to say is,

00:46:56.920 I think guys should start lying about their height. That's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying.

00:47:00.800 I'm saying. Then don't be mad when they come up to the date and get clowned or laughed at. That's

00:47:06.100 saying you can't be upset then. Yeah. Short King, Supreme, whatever. But if you lie about your height

00:47:10.920 and then show up to a date and you get clowned, can you be upset? What? I don't think that's fair.

00:47:17.880 I don't think it's ever okay for a girl to like clown a guy. What are you talking about?

00:47:22.160 If I, I think it's the same way vice versa. If a girl puts on her profile that she only weighs 110 pounds

00:47:27.120 and then she shows up and he's 300 pounds, I think it's okay to laugh at her and clown her.

00:47:31.220 I don't think it's ever okay to clown. If you, that, that is not okay. If you are hiding what

00:47:36.180 you true, you truly are to get somebody to meet you in person, they can respond anyway. You can't

00:47:41.240 choose how somebody is going to respond to you lying to them. It'll be different if they were

00:47:45.260 straightforward. You know what I mean? Then that's totally wrong. I'm not saying people should slide

00:47:49.040 up on their stuff and insult them or I'm not saying any of that's right. But if you lie to me,

00:47:52.500 make it seem like one way and once another and you show up and it's not, you can't, you can't say

00:47:57.800 how I can react to that. How would you handle if he was six, he said he was six foot and he came to

00:48:02.020 you, he was five eight or five seven. You're going to scream at him and yell at him? Me personally,

00:48:05.500 I wouldn't. I would just be like, I would be like, really dude? Like, you know, you would say

00:48:09.020 something. I would cause I'm five seven and I'm going to be wearing heels probably. So I'm probably

00:48:11.960 gonna be five nine. So if you say you're six feet and I show up and I'm a almost half a head taller

00:48:15.620 than you. Come on, bro. That's weird as hell. And I have, I have on my profile, I have my height on all my

00:48:21.200 profile. So you see that I'm five, seven and a half and you still chose to lie and then show up

00:48:25.340 to the date knowing you're shorter than me and didn't get no stilts. He was, he was trying to

00:48:30.180 get the hook. He was trying to get the hook in the same way that women wear makeup to get the hook on

00:48:35.360 the guy. That is the exact same thing. Can I say one thing then? How could it be a little different

00:48:39.060 then? Maybe if he lies on his profile, right? We're talking for a minute, we're getting to meet each

00:48:44.140 other and then he wants to take me out on a date or whatever. Maybe tell me beforehand, Hey, I'm sorry.

00:48:49.000 It's something I'm insecure with. I did lie a little bit about my height. I hope it's not a big

00:48:53.140 deal, but to completely blindside me and not say nothing until we're in person. That's crazy. I'm

00:48:58.120 supposed to just skate past that. Like I'm not looking down at you. Come on. Well, just kind of

00:49:02.460 going back to something you said previously, you mentioned weight. Yes. It, it is interesting that on

00:49:07.840 dating apps, there's for Tinder. I don't, well, actually, I'm not sure about Tinder. I haven't been on

00:49:12.100 Tinder in a while. Uh, Bumble, hinge, Facebook dating, a lot of these other dating apps. There's

00:49:17.640 a dedicated height field where you can actually put in your height yet. Yeah. Wouldn't it be like,

00:49:23.920 there's no way. Why isn't there a way for women? That would be, I think there is on some dating

00:49:30.360 apps. No, there's not a, I think I remember, I remember. Dude, are you kidding me? Like there

00:49:35.300 is no way. There's no weight field. Like in this America, that would like ever happen.

00:49:41.080 You're lying. Yo. Which is so effed up actually. I feel like the reason why height is in like

00:49:48.800 hinge and stuff is because that you cannot like see in pictures, but like somebody's weight,

00:49:53.680 you would be able to see in a picture. I don't know. I mean, if they're like lying and using

00:49:57.960 hello old pictures, but for me, that's my logical thing. Yo, have you ever seen like the fucking

00:50:02.480 the, the, my space angles? Like fucking up here. I think the reason why it could be different kind

00:50:08.220 of what her point is, but not exactly. I think the reason why maybe they don't

00:50:11.040 include weight is like five, five is five, five, five, seven is five, seven. 130 pounds

00:50:16.260 can look very different on everyone. Even if they're both five, two women can carry 130

00:50:21.440 pounds so vastly differently. Whereas both five, two women, they're both five, two at the end

00:50:26.140 of the day. Like that's not changing. So. Okay. How about your waist circumference measurement,

00:50:29.600 which is actually a really good indicator of physical health? Like you mean like my waist,

00:50:33.180 my hips, all that? Yeah. Yeah. Like if you had to put your, like, like if you're saying,

00:50:37.120 yeah. Like if you're saying like that's not a good one. But even like most men

00:50:40.880 had, if I put my, if I put on my app, my bust is 33, my waist is 25, my ass is 40. They're

00:50:45.920 going to look at that and have no idea what that is. But also. That is true. You and I.

00:50:49.100 I got no idea what any of that. That means stuff to women, but no, if a man said his waist

00:50:54.100 is 33 inches, I'm going to be like, okay. But her point still stands is like you and I

00:50:58.980 could have the same measurements, 33, 25, whatever, but look exactly different. It's, you know.

00:51:05.700 For men too. That's like for men as well. But for the most part, you're seeing what they look

00:51:09.680 like from their pictures unless they're lying. That's why I'm saying, yeah. Like for the

00:51:14.040 women who sometimes only have their little part of their head and they end up being like

00:51:17.580 some woman can like have a smaller face and not match their body. That'd be fucked up if

00:51:22.140 they showed up to the date, acting like they were a little itty bitty and they were, you

00:51:25.520 know, like 600 pound life. That's embarrassing. Word. Word. Okay. We got to get to these super

00:51:30.720 chats here. Um, you can pull that one up Carson. Yeah. Did you miss a few or? Oh yeah. Make

00:51:42.000 sure you like every 20, 30 seconds. You're just looking, looking, looking for every time

00:51:46.800 it updates, just be constantly looking. Uh, I'll get this one while we're at it. Yo,

00:51:50.720 Praxis. Thank you for the $20 soup chat, man. Appreciate it. Even if men don't get tricked

00:51:53.920 by your layers of makeup, your habits still show that you are financially irresponsible and

00:51:58.860 deeply insecure about your appearance. Also, an agreeable plain Jane six trumps a disagreeable

00:52:04.900 10 any day of the week. What do they mean by agreeable and disagreeable? Can I make one

00:52:12.760 statement before that though? I love how he's talking about our habits show that you're

00:52:16.460 financially irresponsible, but you're spending $20 to make a comment on a podcast right now.

00:52:21.460 So I don't know. Maybe, I guess you just got like that, but that's a stupid ass way to

00:52:26.920 spend $20 if you ask me. Actually kind of on this topic, Praxis,

00:52:30.480 thank you for the $20 soup chat. Um, so how much would you guys say you spend,

00:52:36.860 I don't know if you want to break it down by month or year, how much would you say you spend

00:52:40.660 on cosmetics, I guess, uh, a year that I guess that includes makeup?

00:52:45.960 I would have honestly no way to answer that question. No way at all.

00:52:49.440 Like, I'm not going to lie. I just buy drugstore makeup. I probably don't spend more than like

00:52:55.740 a hundred dollars a year on makeup. It's so random. Like before I didn't used to wear makeup

00:53:00.540 that often. Now that I work, um, at a club and have to wear makeup, I wear a little bit

00:53:03.560 more, but like literally it, I'm so, I would have no idea how much I spend on makeup. I would

00:53:09.620 say maybe a year total. I would spend on makeup maybe around 500 the whole year. Okay.

00:53:19.520 I actually keep incredibly detailed, um, logs of all of my spending. So I know exactly what

00:53:27.140 my beauty spending is per month and it's 40. Oh, there you go. 40 per month. All of your beauty

00:53:35.800 in total is 40 per month. Yes. And that stays the same 40 per month. It doesn't like out

00:53:40.320 like your birthday month. It doesn't go up at all. Well, it's all averaged. And that

00:53:43.720 includes like, if you don't get like, yeah, I don't get my nails done, which like saves

00:53:47.980 a lot compared to $40 a month for other girls. Yeah. Like averaged out. Did everyone get

00:53:53.800 to answer that question? Um, you too. I don't spend a lot. I don't really do nails either.

00:53:59.600 I got these from CVS. Okay. What about you? I have makeup that's expired that I still use.

00:54:07.320 Same girl. It lasts forever. Like, I don't really buy makeup that often. I'm sorry. Who

00:54:12.020 is on the Ritalin? Can somebody stop shaking the table? I'm sorry. It's definitely me.

00:54:16.500 I'm sorry for it. I'll cut it off. Did you take some Adderall before the show or what's

00:54:20.180 up? No, just nervous baby. Okay. Um, so you said 40 a year about, or what was it? Maybe like

00:54:28.280 a hundred. I don't know. Okay. You told me to call her up. Sorry. Sorry. It was probably

00:54:37.820 me too. I'm shaking like. Is it too cold? Or I mean, I have the heater. I'm just a fidgeter.

00:54:44.740 I'm sorry. All right. We got Amazon buzz with the $10 soup chat. I wish that there were more

00:54:48.760 people in the world that just want a long-term loving relationship and less people wanting

00:54:52.340 just something casual hookups. I, yo, I a hundred percent agree with you, man. Um, I think hookup

00:54:57.500 culture is, uh, the end of the West. Anyways, uh, we have Eric here with the $10 soup chat.

00:55:04.580 Thank you. What's up chat on the mountain right now. So I can't watch, but wanted to hop on

00:55:08.300 and say common Brian W commenter W comment Taylor W who's out. Okay. Um, also won't let me send

00:55:15.420 $10 on mobile. What the fuck? Hey, thank you, man. Appreciate it. Yeah. Like a nine 99. It gets

00:55:21.160 caught up in the, it'll be yellow. So yo, Joel Taggart. Oh, this, okay. We got the TTS. Hey,

00:55:28.180 thank you, Joel. Appreciate it, man. Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat. When they say,

00:55:32.840 I want to experience life, see what I like travel, not ready to sell down. All I hear is I'm going to

00:55:36.520 be ran through with baggage and my future man better accept me as I am delusional, delusional.

00:55:43.360 Oh, go ahead. What is so wrong with wanting to be alone? Like I don't, I don't understand. It's

00:55:52.420 like so many men just to get so upset when you say like, yeah, I'm not looking for a relationship

00:55:56.540 right now. I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Making it seem like I'm going out and

00:56:01.120 fucking the whole world. I've been single since March. Okay. I've slept with two women and one

00:56:05.440 man since then. Oh my God. I'm a fucking slut. I'm a hoe bag. Take me to fucking hell. Like

00:56:11.880 it's so contradictory. Like just say you get no fucking puss then if that's such, that's such a

00:56:17.980 hoe-ish behavior. I know everyone is different. Everyone has their different opinions, but I think

00:56:22.840 it's kind of crazy. I think it's because a lot of women lie about that and say they're single and

00:56:26.500 don't really know what single means. Like a lot of people, like I said before, will be like, oh,

00:56:29.380 I'm healing. They're sucking 20 peepees. How the fuck is that healing? Think about that. I'm not saying

00:56:33.440 you in general, but single is like you alone, no dating apps. You do your own thing, going to the gym,

00:56:38.140 not fucking around, you know? I'm like in 10 months, if I've happened to have

00:56:41.720 relations with three people. Did you just say relations? Relations, yeah. Sexual relations

00:56:47.800 with three people. Like I just don't understand how that's like end all, be all, especially two of

00:56:54.680 them being woman, like I said. So one man in the past 10 months. So I've slept with, now let's,

00:56:59.800 let's, let's break it down. I've slept with two men since 2019, but I'm a whore because I don't want

00:57:04.920 to date anybody right now. Like it just, it doesn't add up to my brain like at all. Like I just,

00:57:10.980 I know I don't want a relationship, but sorry, I don't, sometimes you want it.

00:57:17.560 Okay. I gotta be celibate for the rest of my life. Like I'm not waiting until marriage. So

00:57:20.840 that's not what I've ever claimed to be doing. Well, I think when, here's like what we translate

00:57:26.420 in our heads as guys, when we hear women say, I just want to find myself. I just want to,

00:57:31.680 you know, explore, find myself. Here's what we're thinking. Getting ran through. That's what we think.

00:57:39.200 These are the same men who want submissive woman, right? You want a woman who is going to be

00:57:43.800 submissive and listen to you and stay at home. You want her to stay home and not hang out with

00:57:47.520 her friends when you want her to hang out with her friends. So what is wrong with me taking a few

00:57:51.500 years out of my life to do that? So I don't have to sit and argue or make somebody upset. I can do

00:57:56.600 whatever the fuck I want. Doesn't mean it has to be fucking. It could be just, I don't know,

00:58:00.820 hanging out with my friends, not responding to my phone, 25, eight, things like that.

00:58:05.200 Wait, 25, eight? You never heard of the saying 25, eight? Come on. Be for real. 24, seven,

00:58:11.080 25, eight. It's like a dramatic way. It's like a hyper thing. Who the fuck is that guy?

00:58:18.400 I've never heard that. Maybe it's AAVE. I don't know. It's AA? AAVE.

00:58:22.080 You're, you're an Alcoholics Anonymous? Oh my God. Oh, how, uh, how long have you been sober?

00:58:31.920 Wait, you're a bartender. Hello? Is he being serious right now? Wait. African American

00:58:36.220 Verdacular English is AAVE. Oh. I couldn't. I was thinking though too. Sorry, sir. I was thinking

00:58:43.760 the same thing. I didn't know. And I'm black. Yeah. Okay. Um, yeah. Um, uh, so wait, what were

00:58:53.620 we talking? What were we? Oh, the, you working on yourself. Okay. I think, when did I ever

00:59:01.340 fucking say that? I just said I wanted to be single. Y'all kept saying that. I'm trying

00:59:05.060 to heal myself. I'm working myself. I never fucking said that. I just said I don't want

00:59:07.900 to be up underneath somebody else's asshole all day. Like, I want to do my own thing.

00:59:12.480 Like. Hey, don't knock it till you try it. I have. Oh. Not that way. Good times. Good

00:59:18.680 times. All right. We have, uh, let's see. Uh, okay. We have Sky Traveler with the $10 soup

00:59:25.880 chat. Thank you, man. Love the show. Brian, keep up with the good work. Question for the

00:59:28.580 panel. Would these girls date a cop even with how the political climate is these days? Yeah,

00:59:33.280 we can go around on that. Yes. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, I would date a cop. Definitely. Yeah.

00:59:41.080 Yes. I am kind of surprised by all those answers. Okay. Cops are hot as fuck. What are you talking

00:59:45.860 about? Really? Fine ass man. EMT. We love our blue collared workers. Yes. Oh. Security. Security.

00:59:54.740 I love my type. Like, what do you mean? I don't know. Cause we've had, we had one girl on the

00:59:59.880 show who, well, she, she was very anti-cop. So I figured in a more liberal area, you might

01:00:07.460 encounter. I believe there needs to be some form of reformation in some areas of America

01:00:11.420 with their cop system for sure. But that doesn't mean all cops are bad. That's not what the

01:00:15.680 statement is. It's not all cops are bad. It's all cops are bastards because. Oh, jeez.

01:00:21.280 No, I didn't mean to ding you there. I was dinging you before. Oh, shit. You know, I don't

01:00:24.780 even say, I'm not even saying I really agree with that statement. But the point of the statement

01:00:28.040 is like, when you see things that are going on and they don't say anything like, yeah,

01:00:32.100 that's kind of bad, but I can't assume that every cop has seen bad shit and is letting

01:00:36.740 it slide. Like I know a million cops that are great men. I agree with that. When I was

01:00:41.420 alone on the side of the road, after the totaling of my car on Christmas Eve, like at like midnight,

01:00:51.220 I was, um, it was the cops and the firemen that showed up right away and cop like drove

01:00:58.300 me home. So I wasn't like completely abandoned. So anyways, they're, they do good. They're

01:01:04.800 good guys. Thank you for that. All right. That statement with that comment was wild.

01:01:09.180 Yo, David Drysdale, thank you for the $10 soup chat. If you meet a man your age, Carson,

01:01:13.220 just careful with the feet there. Um, if you meet a man your age and you, and, and he checks

01:01:18.560 all of your boxes, then you guys have a conversation with him about exes and he reveals that he

01:01:23.500 never been in a relationship. Would that be a turnoff for you? We'll go around on that.

01:01:27.620 Sure. Um, I don't think so. No, I don't think so. Yeah. Cause I feel like he's getting his

01:01:36.580 advice from elsewhere. Not a reliable source from, from who? Maybe like Andrew Tate or something.

01:01:43.560 Oh, you know, okay. Uh, wait, but so you think a guy who, they just don't have any experience.

01:01:52.500 Like what are they basing there? Like they don't have any experience.

01:01:58.120 I mean, I'm pretty sure like every single person that listens to Andrew Tate is just

01:02:01.540 fucking slaying, just fucking slaying. I'm sure. So like, they're just, you know, the guys

01:02:09.620 who probably aren't getting any are the ones that watch MSNBC, but, um, not the one spending

01:02:14.680 four hours watching a podcast on a Sunday night. Hey, whoa, Kiko. Whoa. That's you're so, that's

01:02:20.740 so mean. Sorry. How dare you say the, say that about my, my, where's Mike, Mike Davis. I don't

01:02:28.260 know. He would, do you have a name for your fans? Like, do you have a nickname? The, not really,

01:02:33.680 but I mean, the whatever, one came to my mind, but whatever warriors. Did you, were you going

01:02:39.180 to say the whatever wiggers? How dare you? Definitely not. That's whoa. Definitely was

01:02:44.480 not going to come out of my mouth. How dare you? Okay. Um, so wait, the super chat. What

01:02:50.680 about you? I mean, not necessarily, but I would ask him like, why haven't you been in a relationship?

01:02:55.680 If it's like, I don't know, depending on that answer, I would go from there. I agree with

01:03:04.220 that. I think that I'd be kind of concerned, like, like I'd just be confused why, but I

01:03:09.080 also at 22, I don't think that's that old to have not been in a relationship. So I would

01:03:14.220 just be curious why, but it's not a total deal breaker. Tara? I'm only 21, so it's not that

01:03:19.860 bad. If I was like older, if I was like, you know, 25 plus, that would probably be definitely

01:03:27.500 like a concern or like maybe deal breaker. But, um, I only think the thing that would

01:03:35.000 be like concerning or a problem is like figuring out if like a guy doesn't want to be in a

01:03:39.720 relationship with me, that would be like a deal breaker. Maybe that's like obvious. I

01:03:45.360 don't know, but it's like, I wouldn't even go on a date with him if it was clear to me

01:03:48.020 that he wasn't interested in the relationship. Sure. So, um, I see nothing wrong with

01:03:51.880 dating somebody who's never been in a relationship. What about a virgin? Yeah, I

01:03:55.820 would do that. We'll go around the table this way. Tara? Um, I'm gonna have to

01:04:01.920 probably say no to a virgin. Yeah. Yeah. RIP in the chat for all the virgins. Okay.

01:04:12.160 What about you? Yeah, I'm gonna say no. I just, yeah. I wouldn't say no, but

01:04:17.560 I don't know. Um, yeah. I have a boyfriend, so I guess I'd say no. Well, assuming you were

01:04:24.560 single. Okay. Um, then maybe. I don't see why not. Like, just show him around. I can think

01:04:31.420 of like a million. Did you just say show him around? Yeah. Show him around what? You know,

01:04:36.420 like. What, what are you gonna show him around? You could teach them. Yeah, that's what I'm

01:04:40.520 saying. Like, you know? Oh. Oh, okay. It's not a total deal breaker. Yeah. Okay. All right. Keep

01:04:46.980 going. Um, if he was just a virgin because like the time hasn't came, then sure. But if

01:04:51.880 he's like waiting until marriage, then fuck no. I would say no. I think in the same sort

01:04:58.380 of way that I can imagine why like guys wouldn't say, like would find it a little concerning

01:05:04.520 for like a girl that had like a hundred bodies. Like there, like it's, there's something behind

01:05:11.020 that sexual behavior. That's like a reason for it. So it's more of that, that like if

01:05:16.320 you're 21 in a virgin, there, there might be some sort of like emotional issues that are

01:05:21.780 like, that are the cause of why that's your sexual history. If that makes any sense. Okay.

01:05:28.720 Word. All right. We have, uh, oh wait, did we do this one? Yeah, we did Praxis. Thank you, man.

01:05:33.100 Yo, eventine, event, event-eyed fallacy. Thank you for the $20 soup chat, man. Appreciate it.

01:05:39.020 Bro, you've got some fucking shoulders and, uh, traps and biceps and fucking pecs, dude. Congrats.

01:05:49.240 Fucking shredded. You Myron. Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat. It's Kiko Transformer because

01:05:54.820 that masculine, masculinity, I don't know what, what happened there is oozing through the screen.

01:06:00.040 Is she also vegan? Cause that BS makeup rebuttal was a bunch of word salad.

01:06:06.100 What do you have to say? Kiko. I was born with a coochie. Um, I'm not a vegan. I prefer red meat

01:06:13.840 over chicken actually. Um, but yeah, I'm, I don't know. Is there anything you want to tell him? Um,

01:06:22.260 you're giving, you're broke. Well done. Well done. Good one. Gus, you're broke. I would never date

01:06:38.500 you. It's cause you're vegan. But this guy I want to really talk to cause he's just saying some good

01:06:41.620 comments. Can you do a super chat? Oh, okay. Yo, Calvin Hamilton. Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

01:06:47.160 Calvin here. I don't think women today understand that most men just want simplicity. Your physical

01:06:51.820 appearance will change for, for you 10 years from now. Do you ever think about longevity when it

01:06:56.320 comes to dating? I feel like that's slightly vague, but, um, like that was a pointless ass

01:07:03.280 comment and a waste of $10. Whoa. Whoa. Yeah. I'm just trying to parse the question. I don't think

01:07:09.280 women, most men just want, there's like three different semi unrelated statements there, but yo,

01:07:15.600 Calvin, thank you for the $10 soup chat. I appreciate it. I said I was born with a coochie.

01:07:17.920 Uh, you ever think. Oh, sorry. I was referring to a comment. Do you ever think about longevity

01:07:24.500 when it comes to dating? I don't really even longevity. Yeah. I was going to say, I don't

01:07:29.840 even know what that means. I mean, long, like the longterm like mess of dating. No, I know

01:07:34.620 what it means. Just. Oh, does he mean like when you're, when you're considering partners,

01:07:39.300 do you think about whether this would be a good partner and not just like to date and have

01:07:44.620 as your boyfriend or fun with for like one night or like the next six months or year

01:07:49.160 of your life, but like longterm for the rest of your life? Like that depends what you're

01:07:54.540 dating for. Maybe what the question was. So I think he's asking us, is that things we consider?

01:07:59.340 Some people date for marriage. Some people date for experiences and then turn into dating

01:08:04.220 for marriage, whatever. You can pull it up, Carson. I think that was a pointless ass question.

01:08:10.480 Yo, Hector Navarez. Thank you for the $20. By the way, just keep it center. I'm on the

01:08:15.020 soup chats. Hector Navarez. Thank you for the $20 soup chat. We are whoever's. I mean,

01:08:19.160 I was thinking whatever warriors or whatever, but a dude, thank you for the big $20 soup chat,

01:08:23.300 man. Appreciate it. You can pull that up. Yo, Reginald Walken. Welkin, excuse me. Thank

01:08:29.360 you for the $10 soup chat. Appreciate it, man. Thanks for the support. What do you think about

01:08:32.360 disclosing plastic surgery? You marry someone and your kids come out looking way different.

01:08:35.900 That's a good point. By the way, guys, I know we skipped it. We do have the rest of the soup chats.

01:08:40.620 We just skipped ahead to this one, but we will get the rest shortly. So yeah, this sort of ties

01:08:46.300 into the makeup filter conversation that we were having before, kind of misrepresenting what you

01:08:51.080 look like. And I actually had something related to this. So what do you think about disclosing plastic

01:08:57.020 surgery? Um, would you, what, I kind of want to reframe your question here, Reginald, if you don't

01:09:05.540 mind. So would you, do any of you have plastic surgery to start, by the way? Lip fillers, anything?

01:09:15.260 Okay. Anybody? Anybody? Okay. Do you think, and maybe it might be hard for you to answer on behalf

01:09:21.080 of someone else, but do you think it'd be rude for a guy to ask a woman who's undergone a decent

01:09:27.260 amount of plastic surgery, let's say rhinoplasty, let's say lip fillers, let's say maybe some body

01:09:31.700 stuff, right? Do you think it would be unreasonable for him to ask for photos of her, let's say a lot

01:09:38.380 of facial work, to ask for photos of what she looked like before she got plastic surgery? Is that

01:09:44.340 an unreasonable request? I wouldn't say unreasonable. I would just say a little weird. Like if we're

01:09:52.180 getting to the point where we're talking about having kids and stuff, I would hope to God that

01:09:56.120 you're close enough to where you've already disclosed if you've gotten procedures done and

01:09:59.760 you've already seen pictures of your partner. If you're talking about having children with somebody,

01:10:04.900 I would hope you know what they've gotten done. And yeah, I think it would be kind of weird if you

01:10:08.960 never mentioned, oh yeah, I got a boob job when I was 21 or I got a little eyebrow. Like it's so

01:10:14.120 weird. Like I'm sure there's women who don't disclose it out there, I'm sure. But yeah, I'm

01:10:21.580 hoping when some marriage is coming around, that's already discussed. I think any form of surgery needs

01:10:27.700 to be mentioned maybe like when you first start dating. This is something that most people should

01:10:34.180 know. Kind of like, you know, trans people, how they get sexual changes or, you know, I don't even

01:10:43.520 know the word. But yeah, I feel like people like that should say something when they're first

01:10:48.240 starting dating. Like I wouldn't want to date a guy and then find out he has a coochie, you know?

01:10:54.880 Yeah.

01:10:55.400 Wow.

01:10:56.940 I'm down.

01:10:58.180 Carson, are you just pulling these up or?

01:11:00.620 Just anything.

01:11:01.620 Yeah, yeah. You can show them while we're, while I don't have another one pulled up. That's fine.

01:11:05.320 What about you?

01:11:08.780 Yeah, I think honesty is the best policy. If they wanted to see an old picture, okay. Yeah.

01:11:15.000 I agree. I mean, I think it's kind of weird if you just started dating someone for them

01:11:19.140 to ask you for old pictures. But I agree that it's the best policy, you know? But I do think

01:11:25.320 that why are you asking that question unless you're trying to have children with the person

01:11:29.580 and wondering what that project is going to look like, you know?

01:11:33.440 Well, I think some people do date with the intention of, obviously, you don't anticipate

01:11:38.460 having children with someone immediately. But if you're dating with some intention, you

01:11:43.020 maybe see it going towards marriage, children one day. And I feel like it's much better to

01:11:49.200 know sooner rather than later. But Tara, go ahead.

01:11:52.860 Um, I think that's, like, totally fair. I mean, I'm probably biased because I'm sort

01:11:59.060 of, like, against surgery, like, plastic surgery for women in general. So I'm kind

01:12:04.400 of biased in that, like, I think less people should be getting it. But, yeah, so I think

01:12:09.440 that's totally fair that you, like, disclose it.

01:12:11.940 Okay.

01:12:12.760 Yes, I agree. Women should say something first. I don't think a man should have to ask you

01:12:16.220 for pictures. You should just already tell them, like, hey, I got lip fillers. Hey, I had

01:12:19.500 my whole nose done. I used to look like Michael Jackson. And then show your picture

01:12:21.960 some symbol. Got it. All right. Hold on, guys. I got my place lost here with the,

01:12:27.600 uh, sorry. I did not. Uh, or wait, did we? Yeah, we already got that one. My bad.

01:12:34.740 Wait, what did they think I'm mad about? What do you guys think I'm mad about?

01:12:38.920 Uh, yo. I'm literally just shutting up.

01:12:42.240 Eventide fallacy. Thank you for the $20 soup chat. Imagine complaining about $20. What do you

01:12:45.820 think most men in the West make per year? Willing to bet you've taken more from men on dates

01:12:49.660 who you had absolutely zero in 10 on sleeping with, get a career kid, kid, what's your response

01:12:57.080 to?

01:12:57.300 I'm not saying $20 or $10 is a shit ton of money, but when you're on this podcast multiple

01:13:03.680 times a week, setting multiple of those ones all day and night long. Yeah. It does seem

01:13:08.220 like a stupid way to spend your money when it could go into either savings or something

01:13:13.220 else. Like I would definitely, I don't know, I'd rather go to In-N-Out or something than

01:13:17.560 comment on something like this. You know what, Kiko? Especially when you can comment for free.

01:13:21.680 It's like they have to see, they have, they're, they're so like down on themselves. They have

01:13:25.560 to see their comment up there and they have to hear their name read from you, but they

01:13:29.680 can't just make a normal comment on the thing. Listen, Kiko, I am so deeply hurt and offended

01:13:36.680 by what you just said. On our next show on Tuesday, I want a $10 soup chat from you.

01:13:42.740 I would absolutely fucking never. How dare you? I'd rather shit in my hands and clap and

01:13:47.520 then do a somersault. That is vile and disgusting. By the way, I think this is Eventide's first

01:13:56.080 time in the chat. This is Eventide's first time in the, in the chat. So, uh, hey, welcome

01:14:01.560 man. Appreciate the, uh, the subsequent, the super chats. Y'all think I got a BBO? That's

01:14:05.800 crazy. I'm like, thank you though. No. That's insane. Shut your fucking mouth.

01:14:16.340 Okay. We got the tick with the $10 soup chat. This is the official rating from Brian on down

01:14:19.920 four, seven, five, six, five, three. Great show, fellas. City boys, we up.

01:14:24.000 Look at the face.

01:14:24.760 Oh my. Look at what he looks like. You look like that. Okay. Whoa. Wait, come on. Be

01:14:30.840 nice to the tick. Like a chewed piece of gum. I'm talking about rating us. That's

01:14:34.620 insane. Whoa. That's insane. You have to be at least a five to like have rating

01:14:38.740 privileges. I feel like can we make that a rule? If you don't, if you're not at least

01:14:42.100 a five, you're not allowed to rate anybody else. I mean, Eventide, he looks like a

01:14:46.500 fucking babe. He's like giga chat almost. He looks terrifying. I would cross the

01:14:50.500 street. What are you talking about? I would literally.

01:14:53.220 If you, yo, Kiko, be honest. You saw him in person. You'd cross the street. No, you'd

01:14:59.300 hit. Run for my life. No, you'd hit on him. Bro, you'd be like. Run the opposite direction.

01:15:03.080 No, you. Spray. Usain Bolt. Out of there. If, let me, let me tell you this. If you saw

01:15:10.300 Eventide, this is, this is what would happen.

01:15:16.060 If I saw Eventide, I'd probably ask him like. Oh, Jesus. What is happening?

01:15:21.360 Okay. Sorry. The soundboard went fucking gnarly there. All right. Yo, we got Eventide with

01:15:26.840 the $10 soup chat. You just bragged about getting laid as an attractive woman living

01:15:30.320 life on easy mode with a game genie. Father time will quickly take what mother nature gave

01:15:35.460 you. It's called forever 21 for a reason. Wait, who bragged about? I don't know. Did

01:15:40.140 someone brag about getting laid? I don't remember that. Are you? Wait, Eventide, can you just

01:15:46.040 clarify who you're talking to? What's, what's in reference to? Yo, Gus, thank you for the

01:15:49.760 $10 soup chat. Women and beta men. Beta? Beta? I always forget if it's beta or beta. But

01:15:55.080 use sign language. Shame, insults, guilt need to be right. When a fact statement that said

01:16:02.220 is true makes, make the shoe fit. You wouldn't be so defensive if that's not who you are exposed.

01:16:10.140 Thank you, Gus. Yo, Hector Navarez with the $20. Oh, I think I got this one. We are the

01:16:13.840 whoever's. Thank you, man. Reginald Welkin with the $10 soup chat. What do you think about

01:16:18.700 disclosing plastic surgery? Oh, wait, did we, we did this one. My bad. By the way, Carson,

01:16:24.260 you can star these and I'll just pull them up. Are there any others that just star them

01:16:29.140 and I'll pull them up after I get through all of them. Yo, Praxis, thank you for the $10 soup

01:16:32.980 chat. Kiko, $20 soup chat. Now 30 is a fraction of how much money women like you spend on makeup.

01:16:37.200 Please learn basic algebra instead of being so reactive and masculine.

01:16:42.320 Is there, he's talking about money. Is there something you want to tell him, Kiko?

01:16:48.120 What? You're broke. Good. Come on. Don't. Okay. Red pill.

01:16:54.940 Red. What do you want me to say? They keep saying the same shit to me over and over again. Like,

01:16:57.920 I don't know what you want me to say. Well, say what you want. Okay. Red pill.

01:17:00.440 Oh, you want me to say what I want? Oh, don't worry about that. Okay. All right. Red pill.

01:17:03.780 Crip at the $10 soup chat. Thank you, man. Hey, tattoos. What about you is real hair,

01:17:06.880 nails, eyelashes, et cetera. Asking for a friend. So my nails are real. These are extensions for my

01:17:12.200 hair. I do have falsies on right now, but usually I don't. I just, I realized last time my eyes kind

01:17:16.740 of got washed out by the camera. So I was like, let me add a little extra. I don't usually like,

01:17:21.140 I did extensions for a while, but I usually just have mascara on them. Um, but yeah, any more questions?

01:17:26.120 Um, you can send him for $30 next time. Oh God. Okay. We got Mikey, Mikey Davis. Hi baby.

01:17:33.900 How are you doing? We can do better than $9.99. Do you want to read this chat for him?

01:17:40.980 From Mike Davis. I see the chihuahua is back and barking already. Sure am. Thanks, Mike. Back to you,

01:17:47.920 Brian. Thank you, Kiko. Stress teen with the $10 soup chat. Why is Brandon on every live? Call him up.

01:17:54.500 Uh, Eventide fallacy with the $10 soup chat. I've spent more money on subs, Netflix, Hulu,

01:18:00.500 HBO that I never watch. I've been a viewer of this channel for a while and have gotten thousands

01:18:04.800 of dollars of entertainment for free. Keep grinding dude. Eventide. Thank you so much for

01:18:09.080 the support, man. Really means a lot. Thank you, man. Really appreciate it. Um, yeah, I mean the show

01:18:14.980 is a form of entertainment and they're, they're patrons of the show. Yeah. I just, it's like so much

01:18:21.700 fun to sit on this and just like make men spend their money to like say mean things to me. It's

01:18:27.480 like, honestly, why do I get a cut of this? Actually, I feel like all of these super chats

01:18:31.860 are about fucking me. I need to get some percentages on here. I think maybe we could discuss if a fit

01:18:39.820 check, if there's a fit check involved, maybe we can. I did see how much the fit check costs. Yeah.

01:18:43.580 I'm not doing no damn fit check without a demo. I'll throw you, um, if you, if you're able to

01:18:49.600 solicit a fit check, I'll throw you a 20. I got you. $20 or percent? 20, 20 bucks. And? 40. Hold on. 40.

01:18:59.700 Pretty good deal. I got it. I have a dog. Stop it. Get some help. Oh, wait, what? Okay. Sorry. Um,

01:19:13.200 I'll give you this expired, um, uh, plan B. Okay. I have an IUD. I have a, a female condom.

01:19:25.100 Wow. A dental dam? No, it's a female condom. And, um, a bag of Meow Mix cat food. I have a dog.

01:19:35.300 Okay. Next. Tough negotiator here. I don't take anything to her. Yeah. All right. We got it. Oh,

01:19:42.240 wait. I did this one. Oh, can you do this? Um, do you see the pose he's in? The little

01:19:46.200 fucking bicep? Can you, can you hit a little bi for us? A little, a bicep pose. Yeah.

01:19:52.540 Let's see. I don't even know how to do that. It's like, I don't think I've ever done that in my life.

01:19:56.100 Put your right hand on top of your other hand, other hand. Boom. Boom. Flex. Give us. Wow.

01:20:03.120 Fucking shredded. Jacked. Kiko. Kiko is a pole vaulter in high school.

01:20:09.620 Brian, pay Kiko. Come on. They don't even like me and they want you to

01:20:12.240 pay me. Yo, freeze them with you. 20 of those soup chats up, Brian. Love what you're doing.

01:20:16.000 New subscriber. Hey, welcome, man. Thank you. Appreciate the support. Thought Throt Throt

01:20:20.800 Kiko was cute till she opened her mouth. I also see that you have my girl Tay Tay up

01:20:25.480 there. Love you. You beautiful, beautiful human being. Love you too. Okay. By the way,

01:20:32.060 is it getting a bit warm in here for you guys? Yes. Carson, can you just pop the door open

01:20:35.900 for us? Thank you. Oh, my gosh, Jake. Is the table still shaking? No. No, it's good.

01:20:42.200 It stopped. It stopped. It stopped. Okay. I think we're all caught up finally on the soup

01:20:47.640 chats. Carson, just scroll down and just check on any other soup chats that came in. How far?

01:20:57.000 Goddamn. Okay. We're good. We're good. Sweet, sweet, sweet. Okay. So where were we? I'm trying

01:21:03.100 to remember where we had left off. Are we going to react to the video? I'll bring it up at the end

01:21:09.340 of the show, actually. Oh, let's just get this one. Go ahead. Pull it up. Yo, Chris Pacino. I think

01:21:15.000 that's how you pronounce your name. Thank you, man. Hey, brother. Love the show. I'd love to hear more

01:21:18.280 opinions from the other ladies. Please and thank you. It's usually the quiet ones that are more

01:21:21.820 attractive and more intellectual. Then please, because he forces me to fucking sit here and I have

01:21:28.340 to answer every fucking question first. Like, what do you? He didn't like need to at you

01:21:37.300 like so hard. That was like. You were all here when I argued and begged to not be sat in this

01:21:43.560 seat because you have to answer everything first. I do not want to sit here. It's good

01:21:48.040 to have the most opinion person, most opinionated person in that seat to get to get things. I

01:21:53.220 think she's actually far more opinionated than me, but she's just being quiet right now.

01:21:56.900 Because you guys aren't, you guys aren't talking about anything interesting.

01:21:59.780 Point proven. Yeah. Talking about ran through and stuff like that. So yeah, no. Talk about

01:22:03.960 something interesting and I'll get it going. Okay. You got me started. So go ahead. I'll get

01:22:06.840 you good on. I think I'll get you on this. Okay. You want me to get like that? You just said

01:22:10.640 it. I don't. I was just saying I think you're more opinionated than me just based on how you

01:22:14.760 talk. Let's get it. Damn. I got, I got a good one for us. I got a good one for us. Nothing wrong with

01:22:19.760 having opinions. Okay. Hold on, hold on, hold on. All right, guys, just a reminder,

01:22:24.660 all super chats will be displayed. Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, I'm not

01:22:30.980 going to speak at all about it. I'm not going to sit here and take it. It's too early in the night.

01:22:36.640 Let's just say. Not really. It's actually nine o'clock and we're stepping up soon. You're shaking

01:22:42.220 my government now. Damn. All right. Oh shit. All right. So let me get these two chats. Mike Davis,

01:22:47.740 $10 soup chat, chat. Does she look more like a chihuahua or a hyena? One for chihuahua,

01:22:51.260 two for a hyena. Okay. So that's one for a chihuahua, two for a hyena. And then get the

01:22:57.460 next one, Chaz. Yo, at the gym, would you prefer to approach a man, him approach you, or neither?

01:23:05.440 At the gym. Approach me. I would love if a guy approached me at the gym. I think there's a right

01:23:10.940 way to do it when you're approaching someone in the gym. But if you do it right, then I don't see a

01:23:15.060 problem with it. I have been approached at the gym before and I did not appreciate it.

01:23:19.360 I would not like being approached at the gym. That's my me time.

01:23:23.960 Kiara. I don't really mind it. Okay, cool. All right, guys. So get your soup chats in. And

01:23:30.440 also, Carson, can you, excuse me, can you pull up the Twitch tab?

01:23:39.160 I'm going to give you guys the, by the way, twitch.tv slash whatever guys, we're live there

01:23:43.720 too. Pull up another tab, drop us a follow. If you have a prime sub available, drop us

01:23:49.500 a prime sub. Yeah, let me shout out. Shanty T, thank you for the follow. Jesus, thank you

01:23:54.300 for the follow. Patman, thank you for the follow. Prado J, thank you for the follow. Chili Panini,

01:24:00.800 thank you for the follow. Indian Gummy, scroll back up. Indian Gummy, thank you for the follow,

01:24:05.580 man. Appreciate it. Okay. So if you guys want to get it a little heated, the last time you were

01:24:12.280 on the show, Kiara, the big conversation was age gap relationships, which you were critical

01:24:22.660 of. I knew I should have brought my notepad. Yep. So let's talk a bit about that. So do you

01:24:31.100 think it's wrong for a guy to date a younger adult woman? Let's say a 30-year-old dating a

01:24:40.240 20-year-old, for example. No, I don't see anything wrong with it. I just find it, my thing was, okay,

01:24:47.400 I'm not saying once they're an illegal adult, that is her decision, right? That is ultimately her

01:24:53.420 decision. It's not him grooming her or any of those sorts. She's a legal grown adult. I'm just saying,

01:24:58.380 I don't think it's fair to say there isn't a link with how men, the older they get,

01:25:05.840 they still like very young women. And my only point was, I know the stats start at 18, but I bet

01:25:13.100 you if they started younger at 14, there'd be a lot of those grown men finding 14 to 18-year-old

01:25:18.960 woman peak attractiveness as well, especially like 16. I guarantee you would be actually 16 if

01:25:24.180 that was a part of the stats instead of 18. Because 16 to 18, you're not getting much different. 18,

01:25:30.320 she could still be in high school. Remember, we're talking about adults.

01:25:32.960 That's the thing you keep saying is you're talking about adults, but that's not my point. So unless

01:25:37.540 we want to go back to that, then maybe we shouldn't resurface this. What age range bothers you? What's

01:25:41.540 the issue with the age range? I'm going to give you context because he's bringing it up from our

01:25:45.260 last thing. The last two times I was on here. Let me just clarify. I'm talking about adult

01:25:48.500 relationships. You keep bringing up high school and all this shit. I suppose an 18-year-old could be

01:25:54.400 in high school. He said 20 and 30. He said 20 and 30. No, but he said 18 after. He said 18 after. He did.

01:25:59.940 He said 18. Well, I just said 18 now. No, you said after. Okay. The first example I gave was 30

01:26:05.240 and 20. Yes, I said that's fine. I could even make it four. The first thing out of my mouth was

01:26:08.080 that's fine. My thing is I kept going back to the data that you showed on the podcast is my point.

01:26:15.980 When you showed the data that with women and men as they age, women tend to find men the same age as

01:26:21.980 them attractive. While men, it stops at about 18 to 20. My whole point is I don't care if you don't want

01:26:27.580 to bring this up and go into this deep down part of it, but you did. My point is that stat started

01:26:34.940 at 18. I guarantee if those men knew they would not get in trouble or face any punishment, they would

01:26:41.660 say that 16 was their optimal prime most attractive. 18 to 16 is not that far. Okay, but you're basically

01:26:49.460 just derailing the conversation. I'm not because you brought it up. No, no, no, but okay, but you're

01:26:54.220 the conversation is men who are say a 30-year-old guy who wants to date a 21, 20-year-old woman

01:27:03.160 and you always want to bring it to the P word stuff. Because last time we debated it. But it's

01:27:10.020 irrelevant. Let's just for the sake of a conversation. How's it irrelevant if you're bringing

01:27:14.180 up my last time on here? You can't just bring up bits and pieces of what I said. No, but you were

01:27:18.440 making the argument that 30 and 20 or 40 and 20, that's... I did not make that argument. I said,

01:27:27.280 I must have said 18 because I know. I have a question. Do you feel the same way about women?

01:27:31.300 Because like Demi Moore dated somebody really young, nobody batted an eye. Jada Pinkett Smith

01:27:35.360 dated somebody 20 years younger than her. I think it's disgusting. Nobody gave a fuck. I think it's

01:27:38.520 disgusting. Like even my ex-girlfriend, I started a huge thing in high school because my ex-girlfriend

01:27:43.400 started dating her girlfriend when she was in seventh grade and her girlfriend was a senior

01:27:47.080 in high school. I was like, that shit's fucking nasty. I exposed, I exposed the hell out of her

01:27:51.200 girlfriend. I was like, you're a trifle. And I was like, if this was, she was my ex-girlfriend's

01:27:56.400 best friend. It was her older sister. I was like, if this would have been, if you would have been a

01:27:59.580 boy, this would have been everywhere. This would have not been cool. Everyone would have been on it.

01:28:03.080 And I exposed it too. As soon as we got together and I found out about it, I was like, oh, she's out of

01:28:07.080 her mind. Like she's nasty. I don't think it's right if it's girl, girl, boy, boy, boy, girl. And it's not because

01:28:13.280 there is, I'm sure there is certain situations and instances where there is 30 year old or 40

01:28:18.820 year old men in the same position as maybe a 21 year old. But I, it will never sit right with me

01:28:23.900 how a 40 plus year old man could fall in love or be romantically involved with somebody under the

01:28:32.340 age of 21 for it to not be for some type of weird reason. 20? Under, yes. I think a lot of things

01:28:39.220 change at 21 personally for the fact that like, like I remember I was 20 and I started dating this

01:28:45.840 guy for a little bit. He was 26 when we, I felt like a whole child and it was only six years

01:28:51.260 difference because I couldn't even go to the bar with him if he wanted to. I couldn't go to the club

01:28:55.240 with him if I wanted to. I couldn't go into the 21 drinking section. I couldn't go to concerts with

01:28:58.940 him. I felt like his little daughter that I couldn't do shit. Like, I don't know. I'm not saying

01:29:04.680 every man who dates young is a pedophile. I'm not saying that, but I'm saying there is a weird

01:29:09.100 connection between men who are 50 or 40 plus going after 18 year olds. Because usually you'll see the

01:29:15.220 trend. They only go after 18 year olds. It's not like, Oh, he was dating all older women. And then

01:29:19.020 one 18 year old swept him off his feet. Just remind me, how old are you? 22, probably 23.

01:29:23.400 You're 23. So what about like a guy in his thirties dating you? I would be fine with that.

01:29:29.040 Most men I'm attracted to. But that's what we're taught. That's kind of what we're talking about here.

01:29:32.120 I'm 23, not 18. Okay. Let's say 20 and 30. Let's say 20, even 20. I'm saying I just brought

01:29:37.520 my, my situation of, I don't know. I think a lot of things change after the legal drinking age

01:29:43.500 and those things you, I feel like you do grow a lot once you, at least for me, once I hit that

01:29:49.220 point. And also now after the pandemic has happened, we have a lot of these 20 year old adults who missed

01:29:54.900 out on half of their high school and still have the mentality of high schoolers because they missed out

01:29:59.980 on so much of it and are so behind, which I think adds a whole new tier into it.

01:30:05.440 Did you want to come in there?

01:30:07.580 No, I just personally don't think that it's weird or nothing like that, man. I feel like

01:30:10.240 people have preferences and there's a lot of women out here who have preferences. Nobody bags on them.

01:30:13.540 So I'm very big on double standards. I hate how women like constantly bag on men for things

01:30:17.680 that women do as well.

01:30:18.700 Can you hide that? Hide that, man. Go ahead.

01:30:26.020 No, and I just feel like a lot of women, not you per se, but a lot of women have been through a lot

01:30:29.820 of certain experiences and then they categorize other women like that or like even older women,

01:30:33.640 they'll complain about men dating younger women, but they're the ones who are not wanted anymore.

01:30:37.340 So they have a big mouth about that. But when they were younger, they were sucking dick from a 30

01:30:40.580 year old and they were 18 years old. So like I'd never see the reasoning for it, especially because

01:30:44.160 if that girl's not complaining, she's not saying something, why should it matter to you? You know what I'm saying?

01:30:48.200 So it's just an opinion.

01:30:51.480 I want to let everyone else come in on this. Do you have a take on age gap relationships?

01:30:55.360 What do you think it's an issue? A 30 year old guy dating a 20 year old, for example?

01:30:59.240 I don't think there's an issue with that at all, honestly. Like she said, people have their preferences.

01:31:05.900 Personally, I don't think that legality equals morality. So I would find it a little bit strange

01:31:14.860 if a 30 year old is wanting to date a 20 year old. Turn the mic a little bit. It's a bit

01:31:20.480 you'd think it's strange for a 30 year old to want to date a 20 year old.

01:31:25.660 Yes. Why?

01:31:28.360 Personally, because I feel that a 30 year old might not have as much in common with a 20 year old.

01:31:33.960 Maybe the sex, maybe this third is in common. Why does a 30 year old want a 20 year old? Maybe

01:31:40.080 because she's more impressionable. Maybe because she's more vulnerable. I mean,

01:31:44.780 well, that's kind of what Andrew Tate says is sometimes why he wants younger woman is because

01:31:48.320 she is more impressionable and will listen to him easier than a man than a woman who's been with

01:31:52.100 multiple men. He actually. And I don't think that is I have a question. I don't think that's a safe

01:31:56.020 connection for a 20 year old and a 30 year old. So I mean, there's there's a lot of little pieces I could jump off on

01:32:03.580 there. But I'll respond really quick. I know you want to go and then I'll let you come in.

01:32:09.400 So you're saying that a 20 year old is incapable of consenting to having sex with someone who's above

01:32:15.620 a certain age, essentially. No, I did not say that. I mean, that's you're saying it's wrong. Like, so

01:32:22.220 I'm saying that somebody who is hella older, like you're saying a 30 year old and a 20 year old,

01:32:29.840 right? Sure. 30, 30, 30 year old is going to have the control in the relationship. They're going to

01:32:35.740 have the upper hand. They're older. They're going to have more influence. Maybe this 20 year old is

01:32:40.140 going to be more vulnerable, not as strong. There's the her freaking prefrontal cortex isn't even

01:32:47.420 developed yet. Like, you know what? I agree. In fact, I think we should raise the voting age to 25.

01:32:54.520 So, I mean, I don't know if any of you vote Democrat, but that would probably impact you guys

01:33:01.580 quite a bit. And there's been many women like you brought up. So who are like hella older now,

01:33:08.720 and they're judging women who are younger. Let me ask you a question. Okay, go ahead and continue.

01:33:14.380 Who are judging younger women for doing those things? Well, Brittany Renner came to on TikTok or

01:33:20.720 whatever. And she said, you know what? At the time, I thought I was in my hot girl era. I was

01:33:26.880 like doing what men do, like hooking up, taking control of my life. And she says, you know what?

01:33:35.720 I was letting very like older men take advantage of me. But I thought that because I was an adult and I

01:33:44.280 could make my own decisions. I was so grown. But I really wasn't. You know?

01:33:48.620 I mean, zero accountability. But let me just do one quick and then I'll have you come back in. So

01:33:53.580 do you think we should raise the age for when women can start in OnlyFans? So women, I mean,

01:34:03.520 I would want to raise 25 years old. 21.

01:34:05.440 I say 20, 25 years old. 21.

01:34:07.820 Oh, so okay. So then we should also bump the voting age for women too then.

01:34:11.520 I think the difference though, between like. That's a huge jump.

01:34:16.320 We're also saying, no, no, hold on, pause. At 18, you're legally an adult. You can, let's see,

01:34:20.800 what can you do at 18? I mean, you can sign legally binding contracts that will indebt you for

01:34:24.920 the rest of your life. You can join the, hold on, you can join the military. You can purchase a

01:34:29.700 firearm. You can start doing porn. You can start, I mean, there's a whole bunch of other stuff.

01:34:35.560 We're saying raise the works for OnlyFans, strippers, sex workers in general to 21. That's not just

01:34:40.820 women too. Men are sex workers too. So it'll be raising for them too. So they would have to wait

01:34:44.300 till 21 too with your point there. So I don't get how that makes any sense.

01:34:48.080 But this argument is always framed from the point of view of.

01:34:50.900 No.

01:34:51.480 Old, older men prefer to date younger women.

01:34:56.120 That's what we're talking about. You just ask us a new question about OnlyFans.

01:34:58.920 What's that?

01:34:59.460 You just ask us a different question right now about OnlyFans. And we're saying to raise the age.

01:35:02.640 But she's talking about the prefrontal cortex and that they're not able to.

01:35:05.740 Yeah. I have a big problem with like, I just don't really like any of the arguments that

01:35:09.880 come from the standpoint of like women who are 20. Cause I'm 21. Like I'm like basically

01:35:15.200 that age right now saying that women that age have something wrong with their brains that

01:35:20.160 they can't make proper decisions.

01:35:21.580 She never said that.

01:35:22.680 Yeah. Well, okay. That they're not like developed enough that I'm not developed enough

01:35:26.600 to make.

01:35:27.140 She's saying the same thing about how to choose my body.

01:35:29.860 It is a biological fact that your prefrontal cortex is not developed until you're like

01:35:35.220 26.

01:35:35.920 And she only said that cause he said 26 man.

01:35:36.600 And the prefrontal cortex is the part of your brain that is important in making decisions.

01:35:41.460 I'm a psych major so I know.

01:35:42.440 But thank you for clarifying.

01:35:43.680 Obviously you don't seem like it.

01:35:45.400 I have a question.

01:35:46.800 But for like a lot of you guys speaking on these type of things, not every woman is the

01:35:50.480 same. Like everybody grew up very different.

01:35:52.020 Like I knew when I was 22 years old, I grew up in a very different lifestyle with my grandparents

01:35:56.220 and stuff. So like I never was ran through. I never started sleeping around with guys.

01:35:59.060 I had like a good upbringing, but this thing that you said before about Andrew Tate, something

01:36:04.440 about a girl's want to listen to him.

01:36:06.020 What's wrong with that?

01:36:06.680 How come a man can't have a woman who listens to him?

01:36:09.140 Why would he want to be with somebody who's not cooperative, doesn't listen to him?

01:36:11.660 You said that before, something about him wanting just a girl who listens, something

01:36:13.820 along those lines.

01:36:14.360 Oh, I already mentioned before, I think men want a submissive woman.

01:36:17.020 That's totally fine.

01:36:17.580 I never said that.

01:36:18.020 I brought it up because he just said, I forgot exactly what he said, but he said something

01:36:21.460 about how, oh, men don't care about like some, he's stated something saying the

01:36:26.520 opposite of what Andrew Tate said in that statement about how he wants, he does like

01:36:30.360 women who are younger because they have less, they've been through less men and whatever.

01:36:34.100 And he was making some comment about how they wouldn't or something.

01:36:36.960 And I was like, no, cause that's literally what he said in that, in the one we review

01:36:39.840 here.

01:36:40.340 That was my only, that was my only point with that.

01:36:42.440 I do believe why if a man wants a submissive woman, hey, go for it.

01:36:45.440 I, if I have no problem also being submissive in a marriage myself, but it's a marriage,

01:36:49.980 not a relationship is my only thing with that.

01:36:51.900 I mean, it's, are you, we're bringing you back to what Andrew Tate said.

01:36:57.420 I mean, better looking, lower body count, less baggage, more fertile.

01:37:04.400 I see nothing wrong with that.

01:37:05.600 Yeah.

01:37:05.760 I mean, if that's, yeah, if that's what you prefer, that's what you prefer.

01:37:08.240 And there's other men who would prefer, and maybe an older woman or a woman who does have

01:37:13.220 a ton of experience and that's okay too.

01:37:14.980 My only point, cause he brought this up from the last podcast, which you guys weren't present.

01:37:18.300 So I feel like it was very unfair to even go back to this because now you guys are going

01:37:21.380 to debate off of things that, without knowing the full thing.

01:37:24.220 My thing was, I was never saying that because I know there's people are different.

01:37:27.380 There might be some 20 year olds out there that are in the exact same place as a bum ass

01:37:30.320 30 year old or something.

01:37:31.240 I don't know.

01:37:32.360 Everyone's different.

01:37:33.220 I was just saying, I think, and I, he keeps, we keep getting away from it because he doesn't

01:37:37.200 want this podcast to be about this.

01:37:38.720 So that's why we're not, my point's not getting across.

01:37:40.740 I'm just saying it's wrong to not say that there is a link between man, men who like

01:37:46.840 very young women who would still, who would, if they could go after women underneath the

01:37:51.260 legal age.

01:37:52.220 That was my point from the last podcast.

01:37:54.220 I mean, if they're that bad of men, why don't they just go for the younger women?

01:37:57.640 They typically do, but it's because he brought up a data point that started at 18 and I was

01:38:02.300 saying if it could go to 16, it would, but none of you guys saw that data point.

01:38:07.340 Is that how you view men though?

01:38:09.000 How many of you argue men?

01:38:09.880 Yeah, you're, look what you just said.

01:38:11.380 Repeat what you just said all over again.

01:38:12.600 That's how you view men that you think that if they could, they date younger, right?

01:38:15.180 That's not a good thing to say at all.

01:38:17.100 I said some men.

01:38:17.940 Yes, I do believe some men.

01:38:19.140 There's, you're trying to say there's not men out here that wouldn't, but I'm saying

01:38:22.220 from the data.

01:38:23.040 Of course there are some men who are P words and there are some men that are predators,

01:38:26.880 but most, most men, and by the way, most men do prefer, or they do find younger women,

01:38:35.840 keyword women, more physically attractive.

01:38:38.580 But that's not the sole reason they want to be with them.

01:38:42.400 What's the reason then?

01:38:43.300 Because you know.

01:38:43.620 There's other reasons, sure.

01:38:45.000 Yeah.

01:38:45.600 Because they can manipulate it.

01:38:46.620 They can manipulate them.

01:38:47.840 That's not always the case though.

01:38:49.540 It's not.

01:38:49.920 That's like a big word to use.

01:38:51.080 Like imagine if I said that about you, like you manipulate a whole bunch of people.

01:38:53.380 That's not true.

01:38:54.380 You know what I mean?

01:38:54.880 Am I a 30 year old dating 20 year olds?

01:38:57.180 No, that's not all men though.

01:38:58.660 That is not.

01:38:59.000 I'm not a 30 year old.

01:38:59.580 Not all men.

01:39:00.560 Not all men.

01:39:01.360 We're always not fucking saying all men.

01:39:02.900 That's you though.

01:39:03.000 You want to be older and that's okay.

01:39:04.120 You're a woman.

01:39:04.580 That's common sense that we're talking about.

01:39:05.220 There's nothing wrong with that.

01:39:06.340 So why can't a man have a preference?

01:39:07.800 I'm not seeing the big issue.

01:39:08.980 We're not saying they can't have a preference.

01:39:10.000 We're saying it's weird when their preference might be based on something that's not just a

01:39:13.380 preference.

01:39:13.660 When it's based on something that's.

01:39:15.060 It's weird because it's not your preference.

01:39:16.520 Brian is saying that the main reason why older men go for younger women is solely because

01:39:22.320 they're attractive, better looking than older women.

01:39:24.680 Not solely.

01:39:25.520 There's other reasons.

01:39:26.180 Then that's one reason.

01:39:27.560 That's a big one.

01:39:28.280 Personally, I believe the other reasons why an older gentleman would want to go for a young

01:39:34.000 girl that just turned 18, 19, 20 is because they can have more influence on her.

01:39:39.440 They can manipulate her more easily.

01:39:41.080 She's more vulnerable.

01:39:42.020 More so than a woman who is maybe 25, 26, 27, has had a lot of experience in relationships

01:39:49.180 and experience with men.

01:39:51.400 Or we just don't want to date a woman who's been ran through and has a bunch of emotional

01:39:54.920 trauma and baggage.

01:39:55.200 Is every woman that's over 20 years old ran through them?

01:39:58.020 The older you are, the more likelihood to have had a higher partner count.

01:40:02.640 Can men be ran through?

01:40:05.840 Men can't be ran through.

01:40:08.520 Why?

01:40:09.060 No, they can't.

01:40:10.060 Why?

01:40:10.220 So how is this?

01:40:12.420 It's different.

01:40:14.280 It's typically different.

01:40:15.780 Ran through is like loosening up, right?

01:40:18.360 Okay.

01:40:18.640 Can I say something about this?

01:40:19.440 Can I say something about this actually?

01:40:21.800 Yeah.

01:40:22.300 Hold on, please.

01:40:22.880 I mean, if you want.

01:40:24.320 Please let us talk.

01:40:24.980 There's other holes.

01:40:26.760 What makes you, so you're saying ran through loose, right?

01:40:29.660 What makes you somebody who's been in a relationship the past two years fucking who knows how much

01:40:34.580 versus me who's had intercourse four times this past year, wouldn't, just because it's the same dick,

01:40:40.540 wouldn't yours be looser than mine on that logic deal when it comes to relationships?

01:40:44.580 Only four times?

01:40:45.880 Yes.

01:40:48.500 Okay.

01:40:49.580 I've been so, I've said so much shit on this podcast.

01:40:51.360 Why would I start lying now, Brian?

01:40:52.780 And I've literally admitted to the fucking insane shit on here.

01:40:54.680 I shouldn't shame you.

01:40:55.520 I'm sorry.

01:40:56.140 I'm sorry.

01:40:56.700 I won't shame you.

01:40:57.940 Lying is not something I do.

01:40:59.520 Okay.

01:41:00.520 So, okay.

01:41:01.380 You said dominance, right?

01:41:03.000 They want to dominate the women.

01:41:04.500 It's kind of funny, though, that women try to frame this like as a criticism of men,

01:41:08.140 like, that men are bad for wanting to dominate when Fifty Shades of Grey is like one of the

01:41:14.860 best-selling books of all time, and women want to be dominated in the bedroom.

01:41:19.900 Hey, I'm down for some fucking gentle sex, but y'all want to be choked and all this fucking shit.

01:41:24.420 Like, so on one hand, you want a man to be dominant, but you also criticize men for being

01:41:32.220 dominant?

01:41:32.940 I do not want a man to dominate me.

01:41:35.400 I would like a man to lead me.

01:41:36.860 I would like a man to be respectful.

01:41:39.220 I feel like domination is a term that's like implying that a man is superior and the woman

01:41:47.260 is inferior or whoever the partners are.

01:41:50.800 Like, I would not want a man to dominate me.

01:41:53.120 No, I would, I'd want us to be on the same level.

01:41:55.380 You don't like to be choked?

01:41:58.120 What?

01:41:59.220 You don't like to be choked in the bedroom?

01:42:01.480 Is being choked in the bedroom being dominated?

01:42:05.160 I mean.

01:42:05.780 Yeah, I think that's what he's saying.

01:42:06.860 Yeah, I think that's what he meant by that.

01:42:08.700 Bondage, domination, sadism, masochism.

01:42:12.520 I, no, I'm not into BDSM, but.

01:42:16.020 So you, you just, you're not into rough sex, like strictly gentle sex?

01:42:20.160 No, I wouldn't say that.

01:42:21.860 That's fine.

01:42:22.500 It's fine if you are.

01:42:23.020 I've been choked.

01:42:23.480 I've had my hair pulled and stuff, but.

01:42:25.460 And do you like that?

01:42:26.700 I could say yes.

01:42:28.140 Yes, I do.

01:42:28.900 And that's dominating, right?

01:42:30.660 It is, it is, it is dominating.

01:42:34.760 If it's.

01:42:35.940 But okay, I mean, I, to kind of argue for you, dominance within the confines of the bedroom

01:42:42.780 is different, can be different than from the relationship.

01:42:47.080 So I don't want to unfairly argue against you.

01:42:50.340 But so I just, I don't get this because you're trying to link, you're trying to link guys

01:42:58.500 who prefer to date younger women, you think, and tell me if I'm getting this right, men

01:43:04.700 who prefer younger women, if some of them, maybe even a good amount of them, if they

01:43:10.960 could go lower, they would.

01:43:13.560 No comment.

01:43:15.240 I'm over this topic.

01:43:16.780 Come on, Kiko, don't give up.

01:43:18.460 We've done this, we've, okay, no, because you have to understand where I'm coming from.

01:43:21.180 We started this argument, actually, the first podcast I came on.

01:43:24.400 And we argumented, we argued about it almost half the time.

01:43:26.500 The second podcast that came on, we argued about it almost half the time.

01:43:29.560 Like, I'm over this fucking argument.

01:43:31.080 Like, I've done it for hours and hours and hours now already.

01:43:33.340 Like, it's tired.

01:43:34.480 It's so tired.

01:43:35.800 It's my personal opinion based off personal experiences and accounts I've seen from other

01:43:39.360 women, and I will die on this hill, and I'm not changing my opinion.

01:43:42.180 And it sounds like you guys aren't either, so on to the next debate.

01:43:45.020 Well, I mean, no, we'll stick to it for a little bit, so.

01:43:47.780 I'll stay quiet over here, and you guys can continue how I was saying.

01:43:49.980 Okay, so like, I'm trying to.

01:43:56.500 It's just like this comparison is strange.

01:43:59.600 Like, comparing men or trying to create some sort of link that men who are attracted to

01:44:04.620 younger women, again, keyword women, that it's somehow P word, pedophilia, hold on.

01:44:10.720 That would be like me saying that women who want to date tall men have some, have, are

01:44:18.800 incestophiles because they have daddy issues, because they want to look up to a guy, because

01:44:25.120 it reminds them of their dad.

01:44:27.140 Like, you have some weird, incestuous fetishization to date taller men because they remind you of

01:44:34.240 your father.

01:44:34.720 That second statement, I'm going to ignore the hell out of that.

01:44:36.360 That's how fucking crazy you sound.

01:44:38.040 Based off your first statement, though, you keep saying young women.

01:44:40.300 I just, I'm trying to emphasize, I am talking about 18 to 20 years old.

01:44:45.620 I swear to God, I am.

01:44:47.160 That is young women.

01:44:48.080 I know it's young women, but you keep saying like younger women.

01:44:50.260 Like, I'm saying like 25 and below, or like 30 and below.

01:44:54.280 Like, I mean, that strict gap of 18, 19, and 20.

01:44:57.000 I'm happy to talk about that gap.

01:44:58.060 I think 30 year olds and plus should just wait until they are, don't have teen in their

01:45:03.700 name anymore.

01:45:04.280 I'm 33.

01:45:05.280 Yes.

01:45:06.040 You would take quarrel if I dated a 19 year old.

01:45:09.720 I would look at it like, damn, like you're a bum if you have that much in common with

01:45:12.780 a 19 year old.

01:45:13.880 Yeah.

01:45:14.040 I mean, or, or that you're, or that 19 year old.

01:45:16.460 I've been like, damn, she must either be a very successful 19 year old, or he must be

01:45:19.840 a very bummy 33 year old.

01:45:21.620 Because what do you guys have in common to be dating?

01:45:23.300 Bro, it's a W to be dating a fucking 20, 19, 20 year old daddy.

01:45:27.660 See, that's like, that's the problem with it.

01:45:28.820 You guys see it as a trophy, as a reward.

01:45:30.600 Like, that's weird.

01:45:31.340 No, but I'm not.

01:45:32.100 We are the prize for men, though.

01:45:33.160 Oh, I agree with that.

01:45:34.040 Oh, I agree with that for sure.

01:45:35.520 But it's like, I don't know.

01:45:36.960 I don't say like, oh yeah, I just scored a 56 year old man.

01:45:40.120 I just scored a 35 year old man.

01:45:41.960 Yeah.

01:45:42.400 Like, I just don't, I would never do that.

01:45:44.520 Let me ask you this.

01:45:45.260 So you're, you're 23, correct?

01:45:46.840 Or 22?

01:45:47.440 23, basically.

01:45:48.500 Well, you're 22.

01:45:49.660 23.

01:45:51.080 Basically 23?

01:45:51.920 I'm in a couple of weeks, bro.

01:45:53.360 Okay.

01:45:53.580 So you're 22 though.

01:45:54.800 Yeah.

01:45:55.620 Okay.

01:45:56.140 I'm 33, you're 22.

01:45:58.080 You would think it strange of me if I found you physically attractive.

01:46:04.740 I'm 22 years old now.

01:46:06.660 I never said that there was nothing wrong with it.

01:46:08.180 But that's only two years older than 20.

01:46:09.740 That's not a huge difference.

01:46:11.180 I honestly look very, very different than I did at 20 years old.

01:46:14.460 Very.

01:46:15.000 And I'm not saying it in a sexual desiring way too.

01:46:17.720 I'm saying it in the point of like dating and on.

01:46:20.920 It's like for, cause one, okay, here, let me back up.

01:46:23.980 Let me, let me retract.

01:46:25.020 Let me retract.

01:46:26.060 One of your biggest points, or at least Chase's biggest points the other time, was that men

01:46:29.760 like younger women for fertility reasons.

01:46:31.960 Yes.

01:46:32.400 Right?

01:46:33.020 So that means, that's saying that you are going to be obviously dating them.

01:46:36.260 I would hope you're not just meeting a random 19 year old fuck and I'm getting them pregnant,

01:46:39.580 right?

01:46:39.760 So you're going to be in a relationship with them, getting married, and then having kids

01:46:42.300 with them.

01:46:42.560 But I have, I do see it kind of weird that somebody 30 plus is having enough in common

01:46:47.880 with, which I said, there's obviously situational where there is some women who are much older

01:46:53.420 for themselves and some men who aren't.

01:46:54.960 But yeah.

01:46:55.360 And I would say the man is either a bum or something.

01:46:57.680 Like how can you get along so well with somebody who just graduated high school when you graduated

01:47:02.100 over a decade and a half ago?

01:47:04.020 Like you should be in a different place of your life.

01:47:05.400 I understand your point exactly, like I respect your opinion and all, but again, people can

01:47:09.280 meet at the workplace, people can meet all over the world and you might not even know

01:47:12.300 their age and then get with them and now people are looking at you like you're a fucking perv

01:47:15.080 or a weirdo, but you didn't even know her age when you first met her.

01:47:17.180 And a lot of these young girls, they look a little bit older.

01:47:19.200 I see nothing wrong with a guy dating a girl who's younger.

01:47:21.680 There's no problem with it.

01:47:23.040 And guys like anime, a lot of younger girls like anime, video games.

01:47:26.540 No, I'm being serious.

01:47:27.360 Older women, I'm 28 and I've met women my age who don't like anime.

01:47:30.620 They don't like video games.

01:47:31.560 I don't like anime.

01:47:31.960 It's boring to them.

01:47:32.680 So of course a guy's going to talk to a 22 year old who's into that.

01:47:35.400 Because she's into that.

01:47:36.220 Why would he talk to a 30 year old or somebody older who's literally bagging on everything

01:47:40.300 that he does?

01:47:41.140 Older women, not to be rude, but a lot of them bag on men and bag on their preferences.

01:47:45.180 And that's why they're intolerable.

01:47:46.960 They're like so hard to be around.

01:47:48.760 They have so much trauma.

01:47:49.760 They don't heal from their stuff.

01:47:50.960 And trust me guys, I'm studying to be a therapist.

01:47:52.840 So I talk to a lot of people.

01:47:54.040 So this is not just me talking out of my mouth.

01:47:55.580 I actually know this.

01:47:56.520 Can I ask you a question?

01:47:58.400 So, okay.

01:47:59.540 So I'm 33.

01:48:00.540 I'm 33.

01:48:01.080 Can you articulate what advantages are there to dating a woman who is 31 versus 21 for

01:48:09.260 me?

01:48:10.780 It's not a thing about advantages.

01:48:12.340 It's just I would struggle unless I'm saying, yes, there's exceptional things, but I would

01:48:16.180 just struggle to see what you have in common with somebody who just graduated high school

01:48:19.700 a few months ago when you've graduated a decade and a half ago.

01:48:22.880 I would just, yes, you might have some things in common.

01:48:26.320 You might have some things in common for sure.

01:48:28.220 Like you might have some things in common, but for the most part, most 18 year old girls

01:48:43.280 I know are not in the same place in their, in their life as the average 30 plus year old

01:48:48.560 man.

01:48:48.940 Okay.

01:48:49.180 Let me ask you a question.

01:48:49.820 On average.

01:48:50.240 I'm saying what, but what do men and women have in common in general?

01:48:54.760 Like, are you talking music and shit?

01:48:57.100 Because no, I'm not saying, I'm not even saying just music.

01:48:59.140 I'm just saying like, this girl is going to cheer practice while he should be hopefully

01:49:03.180 having maybe a home and like paying bills and shit while she's having a bow in her hair

01:49:08.200 and doing the splits.

01:49:08.960 Like that's two very different things.

01:49:10.220 Yo, Carson, can you pull up a photo?

01:49:11.960 I want to pull this up really quick.

01:49:13.420 Um, it's, it's the Leonardo DiCaprio photo.

01:49:16.500 Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:49:18.180 Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:49:19.240 Let's pull this up.

01:49:19.880 I do have a dog and live alone.

01:49:21.900 Actually.

01:49:22.360 It's beautiful.

01:49:23.500 It's a beautiful thing.

01:49:24.740 Okay.

01:49:25.460 So, and I'll tell you when to switch it, Carson.

01:49:29.100 Not yet though.

01:49:29.800 This is Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:49:31.080 That's, they broke up, but Camila or some shit that, that was his girlfriend for a couple

01:49:36.980 of years.

01:49:37.680 He's, I think it was, he was in his forties.

01:49:39.620 She was in her early twenties.

01:49:41.520 So this is what the world sees.

01:49:44.060 This is what the world sees.

01:49:46.680 And the next photo is what Kiara, Kiara, did I say it right?

01:49:52.140 Kiara?

01:49:52.720 Call me Kiko, please.

01:49:53.680 Kiko.

01:49:54.000 Okay.

01:49:55.160 This is what you see.

01:49:56.460 When you see, this is what, this is what you see.

01:49:58.280 Pull up the next one.

01:49:59.580 Control tab over.

01:50:01.220 Okay.

01:50:01.720 Here we go.

01:50:02.380 This is, this is what, this is what you see.

01:50:05.320 Damn you.

01:50:07.340 That's how you're making it seem though.

01:50:09.160 I love Leonardo DiCaprio.

01:50:09.860 Like, do you see the difference?

01:50:11.240 Maybe, uh, but, but do you see the difference?

01:50:14.240 Like it's, yeah.

01:50:15.960 Cause that's a four year old.

01:50:17.520 Like, what do you, can we please agree to fucking disagree?

01:50:21.840 Because I don't think she's going to change her point.

01:50:23.820 I'm not, there's literally nothing you could say to me that I'm going to say you're right.

01:50:27.440 Other things.

01:50:27.980 Sure.

01:50:28.260 I'll be like, you know what?

01:50:28.960 Maybe fuck.

01:50:29.800 Like you got a point this.

01:50:31.000 I'm dying on this hill.

01:50:31.940 So I ask, I ask again, what advantages are there to dating a woman who is 31 versus 21?

01:50:37.940 Um, that she doesn't have a locker in a high school hallway, um, that hopefully she's not

01:50:44.540 living in her parents' house anymore.

01:50:46.620 Put her age at 20.

01:50:47.380 Maybe that her parents are tracking her location.

01:50:49.180 What 21 year old has a locker and lives with their parents?

01:50:51.660 I have a question.

01:50:52.220 Once again, I'm not talking about 21 year olds.

01:50:54.280 I'm talking about 18 to 20.

01:50:55.380 I thought he was, he just asked you though, you're shifting the goalposts.

01:50:58.740 He said 21, did you not?

01:50:59.880 But okay, no, but my question was, what advantages are there to dating a woman who is 31 versus

01:51:05.800 21?

01:51:06.300 I just listed them.

01:51:07.620 No 21 year old has a locker in high school.

01:51:09.640 I'm thinking you'll be in a similar, more similar place in life.

01:51:11.660 I'm not saying.

01:51:12.360 A woman who is 30?

01:51:13.380 You listen to the same shit.

01:51:15.680 A woman who is 30, she might have a more developed career.

01:51:19.200 She might be.

01:51:20.260 Do not care at all.

01:51:21.440 Guys don't care about careers.

01:51:22.480 When you're building a family, a man wouldn't care to build with, okay.

01:51:28.420 Some men, if, I mean, depending on their earning capability, but I mean, my goal is to be retired

01:51:34.160 at 40 and I'll be able to provide for everything.

01:51:37.360 And so, okay.

01:51:38.280 Let's go, Brian.

01:51:39.520 Good stuff.

01:51:40.320 I mean, that's.

01:51:41.600 I think that a man would, a man and a woman who are closer in age, they would just, like

01:51:48.940 Kiara said, they have more in common.

01:51:50.720 Like what, what do they have in common?

01:51:52.280 A woman, I can say for surely that I'm 22 and I've made really poor decisions when

01:52:00.020 I was 20 and 21 that I would not make today.

01:52:03.620 That I would not.

01:52:05.380 Why does that mean that you wouldn't be able to date someone that was 30?

01:52:08.800 I'm sorry.

01:52:09.180 This is actually crazy to me.

01:52:10.740 What's your name again?

01:52:12.120 Day.

01:52:12.760 Day.

01:52:13.100 Because I feel like.

01:52:14.140 I'm 21.

01:52:14.880 So are you, you had this argument earlier about like the prefrontal cortexing and I guess

01:52:20.920 your past self like 12 months ago was like way different than like decisions you would

01:52:24.960 make now.

01:52:25.360 So are you telling me like right now, I, as a 21 year old, do not have the like mental,

01:52:33.200 enough mental capacity to make proper decisions about my body in relationships?

01:52:39.800 No, I'm saying that everybody who does not have a developed prefrontal cortex is probably

01:52:47.780 not making the best decisions that they can for themselves.

01:52:52.080 That's because the prefrontal cortex, that's a part of the brain that deals with decision

01:52:56.380 making.

01:52:56.980 Yeah, I get that.

01:52:57.580 So should we move the age of consent to 25 when everyone has a fully developed prefrontal

01:53:03.140 cortex?

01:53:03.520 Before you're going to tell, I'm going to say that.

01:53:04.840 I feel like that, like you have to say that.

01:53:06.480 Otherwise, I don't.

01:53:08.620 Well, then don't say that people under 25 like.

01:53:11.300 The example we're giving is somebody, no matter the gender, forget the gender, somebody dating

01:53:16.580 someone for one person who's under that timeframe of your prefrontal cortex, whatever, fucking

01:53:21.360 getting developed versus somebody who's already past that time where their prefrontal cortex

01:53:25.720 is already developed.

01:53:27.300 So maybe easier for them to, like we said before, either manipulate or girls not to realize what's

01:53:33.680 going on.

01:53:34.320 They could fall.

01:53:34.780 They could do things they wouldn't usually do.

01:53:36.480 I feel that.

01:53:37.000 Like maybe sign a lease with this man and be stuck with him forever.

01:53:39.180 Or maybe they're, they would take abuse that they wouldn't usually take if they were older.

01:53:43.640 Like there's a lot of, I feel like when women.

01:53:45.460 It's very naive that this doesn't happen.

01:53:46.720 And you guys are women.

01:53:47.480 So this is like kind of crazy.

01:53:48.560 I feel like when women reach a less vulnerable age, they can make better decisions.

01:53:53.460 They can be like, oh, this guy, maybe this guy genuinely does enjoy who I am as a person

01:54:00.100 and likes being with me.

01:54:01.960 I feel like maybe you are not that developed or that knowledgeable at a younger age to decipher

01:54:08.440 whether a man wants you for you or your body or for like what you do for him, you know?

01:54:14.600 Yeah, so should then younger women or men not be, are we saying that like it's better

01:54:20.360 that they not have relationships if they're not able to make good relationship decisions?

01:54:23.560 We're saying they have relationships with people in the same developed cortex of them.

01:54:27.340 So people with developed cortexes have relationships with people with developed cortexes and people

01:54:30.940 with undeveloped cortexes have relationships with people with undeveloped cortexes.

01:54:34.140 Does that make sense?

01:54:34.820 I have a question.

01:54:35.460 That sounds kind of stupid to me.

01:54:36.800 I have a question.

01:54:38.020 I mean, a guy who's 27 could have a developed cortex and I wouldn't.

01:54:40.620 He's only five years older than me.

01:54:41.800 So you're saying I shouldn't be with him?

01:54:44.240 Oh.

01:54:45.400 How old are you?

01:54:46.200 Damiana with the...

01:54:47.400 I don't think that age gap is too far out.

01:54:51.340 No.

01:54:53.700 It's like when we say a point, there could be no exceptions.

01:54:56.580 But then when you guys say a point, it's like, well, obviously we mean the exception of this.

01:54:59.940 Oh, I'm just trying to tease.

01:55:02.240 It's just a crazy thing to say that people who are like the 21 year olds, like you're basically

01:55:08.440 just saying, like, I don't have the mental capacity to...

01:55:11.880 I'm not saying that.

01:55:12.800 You know what I'm saying, Tara?

01:55:15.020 What I'm saying, Tara, is that you may not have enough life experience or development

01:55:20.420 to make the best decisions possible.

01:55:24.320 She's only a year younger than us, though.

01:55:26.320 Yeah.

01:55:26.620 And I'm saying I don't either.

01:55:28.940 I don't.

01:55:30.660 I feel like that's not a great argument because even the girl last time that was on here,

01:55:33.800 she was like 30-something, didn't make the best decisions.

01:55:36.160 So that doesn't always go for everybody.

01:55:37.520 Yeah.

01:55:37.740 So when she keeps saying this young shit, like it has nothing to do with that.

01:55:40.780 It's how you were raised, who taught you what your upbringing was.

01:55:43.400 It has nothing to do with that.

01:55:44.240 Yes, I understand what you're saying, but that doesn't go for everybody.

01:55:46.880 And with all these young entrepreneur women...

01:55:48.700 Of course there's exceptions with everything.

01:55:50.420 You're going to tell me that a girl who's doing OF at 18 years old, she's literally flicking

01:55:54.280 her being online, lives on her own, doing her own thing, can't make her own decisions now?

01:55:57.200 Did we not say there's no exceptions?

01:55:58.440 All of a sudden, all of a sudden, all of a sudden, all of a sudden, all of a sudden,

01:56:04.020 we may not start those exceptions.

01:56:05.300 She can definitely be younger than you.

01:56:07.760 I can tell.

01:56:08.660 Five years.

01:56:09.200 Hold on, guys.

01:56:09.740 One mic at a time.

01:56:10.520 One mic.

01:56:10.740 You're banging your head.

01:56:11.860 Psycho.

01:56:12.560 Okay.

01:56:13.460 She can definitely make decisions.

01:56:15.280 That's not what I said.

01:56:16.500 If you don't hear your tone when you're speaking to me, you're insane.

01:56:18.760 If you don't hear your tone when you're speaking to me, you're insane.

01:56:20.440 If you're talking to me in a polite manner.

01:56:22.420 Your tone of voice is very rude, actually.

01:56:24.380 You're probably just offended.

01:56:25.420 No, I'm not.

01:56:26.160 None of your points have affected me.

01:56:27.500 They've all been stupid as fuck.

01:56:28.740 Why are you screaming and insulting?

01:56:30.180 I've gotten some of yours.

01:56:31.300 And I've honestly, sometimes when you say it, I'm like, maybe I get it.

01:56:35.220 But a lot of it just sounds like, pick me, pick me, pick me, choose me, choose me, love me, love me.

01:56:39.420 You think I'm an entertainer?

01:56:40.980 We can't have the opposite fucking opinion of somebody without being a pick me.

01:56:44.740 You think I'm a pick me?

01:56:46.060 I never said that.

01:56:46.740 But the ones that you're broadcasting are just very pick me-ish.

01:56:50.820 Well, can I be honest with you?

01:56:51.680 You're literally just arguing for no reason, insulting.

01:56:53.980 You haven't insulted you once.

01:56:55.140 This is a debate, mama.

01:56:56.320 You can call me a five-year-old, the last sentence.

01:56:59.080 It's a debate.

01:56:59.200 You just called me a five-year-old.

01:57:00.200 It's a debate.

01:57:00.840 I'm literally-

01:57:01.720 It's a debate.

01:57:02.500 Calm down.

01:57:04.520 And yes, I'm Team Tate, because you keep bagging on him.

01:57:06.620 Team Tate.

01:57:07.280 Oh, my God.

01:57:08.200 For the sex trafficker.

01:57:09.600 Yes, Team Tate.

01:57:10.540 Where's your proof?

01:57:11.060 The sex trafficker.

01:57:11.500 You got proof?

01:57:11.980 He posted it online himself for a podcast.

01:57:13.740 Where's your proof?

01:57:14.380 He just got arrested.

01:57:14.480 Yeah.

01:57:15.100 Where's your proof?

01:57:15.560 He just got arrested.

01:57:16.860 Your man's in jail.

01:57:17.780 I need proof.

01:57:20.160 Not accusations.

01:57:21.200 I think they want me out.

01:57:22.100 I'm totally ready.

01:57:23.260 Yes.

01:57:23.660 Peace.

01:57:24.160 I'm totally ready to go.

01:57:25.520 Don't worry.

01:57:25.860 Nobody fucking asked you, though.

01:57:26.880 That was a crazy part.

01:57:27.240 Whoa, whoa, whoa.

01:57:27.860 Bring him.

01:57:28.320 This is okay.

01:57:29.160 Let's-

01:57:29.460 I can't cuss all of a sudden.

01:57:30.500 We've been cussing all podcasts.

01:57:31.680 You act like now because I'm cussing.

01:57:32.840 It's a fucking big ass deal.

01:57:33.820 You literally talk about labia surgery on here, and I can't say fucking, like, come on.

01:57:42.720 Hey, don't shame women with large labias.

01:57:45.980 Don't do it, Kiko.

01:57:48.200 Don't do it.

01:57:49.180 I love all labias.

01:57:49.660 That's my soft spot.

01:57:51.360 Okay.

01:57:51.700 Wait.

01:57:52.000 So I want to bring it back to you.

01:57:53.440 You were saying something good.

01:57:55.600 Oh, career.

01:57:56.780 Okay.

01:57:56.960 So an older woman brings her career.

01:57:59.120 Okay.

01:57:59.440 No.

01:57:59.880 That's not the only thing she brings to the table, though.

01:58:02.000 I feel like an older woman is more intelligent.

01:58:04.060 She's more developed.

01:58:04.920 She's been through, like, more in life to where-

01:58:08.320 So baggage?

01:58:09.840 I mean, is baggage necessarily a bad thing?

01:58:14.400 Yeah.

01:58:15.540 I think everybody has baggage, though.

01:58:18.400 But-

01:58:18.900 Every single person.

01:58:20.820 Sure.

01:58:21.500 And that baggage doesn't only come from relationships.

01:58:23.840 It can come from family trauma.

01:58:25.520 It can come from other things.

01:58:27.040 So-

01:58:27.360 If you had to choose-

01:58:29.380 Well, I think it's a bit different, though,

01:58:31.380 because I feel like men's-

01:58:33.260 Oh, God.

01:58:34.440 I'm going to get canceled for this.

01:58:35.940 I feel like men's trauma tends to build them,

01:58:40.400 and women's trauma breaks them.

01:58:43.160 Oh, God.

01:58:43.580 I'm going to get canceled.

01:58:44.440 That's a hot take.

01:58:45.240 That's a hot take.

01:58:45.880 Yeah, that's definitely bold.

01:58:47.040 I don't think I like that.

01:58:47.760 I mean, I just say-

01:58:49.060 I feel like that's very bold to say.

01:58:51.060 I could be wrong.

01:58:52.020 I feel like that's very bold to say

01:58:53.400 when men lead our suicide rates.

01:58:55.700 So, if they lead the suicide rates-

01:58:57.580 That's a great point.

01:58:58.580 Like, how can they technically-

01:59:00.000 Okay, I lose.

01:59:00.520 I lose.

01:59:01.380 I lose.

01:59:02.000 Finally, I just will be right.

01:59:03.200 You are thrown down.

01:59:03.580 I'll take the L.

01:59:04.440 I might, I don't know.

01:59:05.380 Maybe I take the L on this one.

01:59:06.540 But, like, I just, to me,

01:59:09.940 I don't see the benefit of dating.

01:59:11.960 And here's the thing, right?

01:59:13.460 I would say most of the women I date

01:59:15.280 are around my age.

01:59:16.760 Like, because I don't think I'm,

01:59:19.040 I don't think I'm of a high enough status.

01:59:22.380 I don't think I earn enough.

01:59:24.020 I don't think I'm physically attractive enough

01:59:26.700 to attract, like, a 21-year-old baddie.

01:59:30.480 Maybe in the future, I got to lose a couple.

01:59:31.900 I got to use, like, five pounds, you know?

01:59:33.460 But, so, but most of the women I do date

01:59:36.520 are within my age range.

01:59:39.540 Actually, I did a 45-year-old cutie, you know, recently.

01:59:42.380 But that's another, is that weird?

01:59:44.480 She was 45, 33, what's up?

01:59:46.420 Actually, I was 32 at the time.

01:59:48.640 Is that, did she, do I have to answer that question?

01:59:50.980 Did she prey on me, Kiko?

01:59:52.340 Do I have to answer that question?

01:59:53.200 She preyed on me, didn't she?

01:59:54.780 I didn't know you were, you went in a time machine

01:59:56.960 and went back to the age of below 21

01:59:59.080 during that relationship.

01:59:59.680 I feel like just because men like younger women,

02:00:02.120 they do not have to go for exceptionally young women.

02:00:05.360 Like, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28,

02:00:09.840 that's, that's young.

02:00:11.220 Are you telling me that's not young?

02:00:15.140 I'm just saying, it's kind of like,

02:00:16.760 in the same way that, like, you can keep edging out

02:00:19.780 in terms of a guy's height,

02:00:21.120 oh, you know, 5'11's good, 6, 6 feet would be better,

02:00:24.180 6'1, 6'2", so it's like 25, 24, 23, 22, 21, you know?

02:00:32.020 Because, okay, and this would maybe tie

02:00:34.600 into our body count discussion.

02:00:35.780 The older you are, generally speaking,

02:00:39.500 you're going to have a higher body count.

02:00:41.520 And men prefer women with a low body count.

02:00:45.300 Men value sexual purity in women.

02:00:47.540 And sexual purity, I mean, virginity is obviously crazy,

02:00:51.480 but we're, I'm talking low body count.

02:00:53.500 Are you saying you personally,

02:00:55.280 or like all men prefer women with a low body count?

02:00:58.640 Almost all men prefer low body count.

02:01:01.580 None of the men I've been with, really.

02:01:03.400 None of the men?

02:01:04.360 At least not, they stayed in.

02:01:05.500 Maybe they kept it really inside.

02:01:06.420 But you're dating cucks, then.

02:01:08.380 Bro.

02:01:09.440 I've honestly never been asked my body count.

02:01:11.800 Yeah, either.

02:01:12.620 We, we, we like,

02:01:14.460 I don't know why there's an assumption, though,

02:01:16.060 that like, there could be an 18,

02:01:17.920 there could be a 20-year-old girl

02:01:19.540 who has 50 bodies,

02:01:21.020 and a 30-year-old woman who has one body.

02:01:23.100 Like, I don't understand why that's such a heavy correlation.

02:01:25.180 It's so dependent on who that woman is.

02:01:27.260 And honestly, I would like to argue

02:01:28.720 a woman that gets along,

02:01:30.460 a younger age woman who gets along very well with an older man,

02:01:33.560 the life experiences she's had

02:01:35.220 means that she's probably been doing things

02:01:39.160 that are of more grown stature from a younger age.

02:01:42.240 So she probably has more bodies

02:01:43.860 than the average 18-year-old already does.

02:01:45.680 Okay, but here's the thing about the whole,

02:01:47.160 well, yes, a 20-year-old could have 50 bodies

02:01:49.500 and a 30-year-old could have three.

02:01:51.600 But the 20-year-old who has 50,

02:01:55.380 let's say the 20-year-old who has 20 bodies,

02:01:58.620 how much is she going to have at 30?

02:02:01.600 That's the point.

02:02:02.500 But that's so dependent on the person.

02:02:03.900 That girl could, that one day,

02:02:05.320 get in a relationship

02:02:05.820 and never have one body the rest of her life.

02:02:08.500 Or that one 30-year-old,

02:02:09.860 the 30-year-old with three bodies

02:02:11.020 could have been in relationships the whole time,

02:02:13.280 get single,

02:02:13.760 and now she's fucking the whole world at 35.

02:02:15.640 Well, the exception doesn't make the rule.

02:02:17.980 The exception doesn't make the rule.

02:02:19.200 Like, as you start to age,

02:02:20.720 you start accumulating more and more bodies.

02:02:22.740 Of course, as you age,

02:02:23.880 yes, you get more bodies,

02:02:24.700 but it's not a direct lineage line.

02:02:27.380 Like, okay, she's 19,

02:02:28.480 so she has four bodies.

02:02:29.500 She's 23.

02:02:30.200 She has seven bodies.

02:02:31.100 She's 26.

02:02:31.680 Sure.

02:02:32.180 It's so vastly different

02:02:33.420 depending on woman to woman,

02:02:35.260 even by look.

02:02:36.160 So it's like,

02:02:36.620 that's why I feel like it's very hard to assume that

02:02:38.840 because it is so fucking different.

02:02:41.200 It's so hard to look at somebody

02:02:42.500 and actually know their body count.

02:02:43.860 I knew a 19-year-old girl

02:02:45.120 who had 100-plus bodies.

02:02:46.440 Right.

02:02:46.620 I'm not exaggerating.

02:02:47.760 I knew a girl who's 28.

02:02:48.880 She was a virgin.

02:02:49.540 Right.

02:02:50.020 Exactly.

02:02:50.220 We had a girl on,

02:02:51.100 well, she's,

02:02:52.220 she was 26,

02:02:53.880 lost her virginity,

02:02:54.740 then she went crazy,

02:02:56.380 30 bodies by the time she was 30.

02:02:58.040 Swear to God.

02:02:58.480 Yeah.

02:02:58.980 It's a perfect example.

02:02:59.600 And she was 30,

02:03:00.280 had way more bodies than me,

02:03:01.160 so I was like,

02:03:01.580 oh, shit.

02:03:02.080 Perfect example.

02:03:03.060 That's why I'm like,

02:03:03.440 I don't like how this argument is.

02:03:05.120 She looked pure and innocent.

02:03:06.460 And that's the thing, too.

02:03:07.380 Like, I'm sure you've gotten this before.

02:03:09.600 I kind of just brought up

02:03:10.440 on my work the other night.

02:03:11.160 I didn't know before I got tattoos

02:03:12.860 that tattoos were equate for women,

02:03:15.480 like you're a promiscuous woman,

02:03:16.720 you're a slut,

02:03:17.200 you're a whore,

02:03:17.620 whatever.

02:03:17.980 I never,

02:03:18.820 ever heard that.

02:03:18.860 It's also for trauma.

02:03:19.880 Like, it's considered,

02:03:20.980 men want women who are pure and feminine,

02:03:22.720 and when we're sitting here

02:03:23.440 getting tattooed,

02:03:24.320 we're self-mutilating ourselves.

02:03:25.500 That doesn't show pure and femininity.

02:03:26.900 So when they see us,

02:03:27.840 they know we've been through

02:03:28.500 too much trauma

02:03:29.600 enough to deal and withstand this.

02:03:31.240 You know how hard it is

02:03:31.760 to sit through tattoos,

02:03:32.540 especially big ones?

02:03:33.400 A lot of women can't do that,

02:03:34.300 so that's how they view that.

02:03:35.140 I honestly think about that.

02:03:35.800 I love that for myself,

02:03:37.060 if anything,

02:03:37.540 because then I'm going to attract

02:03:38.340 the right man that I want.

02:03:39.820 But I just,

02:03:40.380 for what my point was,

02:03:41.100 though,

02:03:41.180 I never knew that,

02:03:42.420 because they didn't really say trauma.

02:03:43.400 A couple of them said,

02:03:44.100 like, if anything,

02:03:44.660 I think she's gone through hella shit

02:03:45.860 because she can handle the pain.

02:03:47.540 But no,

02:03:47.800 a lot of them were like,

02:03:48.520 oh no,

02:03:48.800 she has a sleeve,

02:03:49.680 she has multiple tattoos,

02:03:51.000 she's a whore,

02:03:51.560 she's a slut,

02:03:52.120 she's sleeping around.

02:03:52.980 And I'm like,

02:03:53.800 I just,

02:03:54.240 I've never,

02:03:54.760 it's such a dated,

02:03:55.720 like,

02:03:55.880 I've never equated,

02:03:57.720 maybe certain tattoos,

02:03:58.700 like tramp stamps or something,

02:04:00.040 but just tattoos in general,

02:04:01.740 I was just,

02:04:05.800 I'm a whore,

02:04:06.100 I'm a slut,

02:04:06.340 I'm this for tattoos,

02:04:07.440 whatever.

02:04:07.840 And it's like,

02:04:08.980 I don't know,

02:04:09.620 what you're gonna say, Tara?

02:04:10.360 Well,

02:04:11.140 oh,

02:04:11.380 did you,

02:04:11.800 did you want to come in?

02:04:13.440 Nothing,

02:04:13.900 just,

02:04:14.240 I was like,

02:04:15.240 I think about that a lot recently,

02:04:18.180 because it's like really popular,

02:04:19.840 like,

02:04:20.040 I don't think in this way,

02:04:21.140 it's like a correlate for like trauma,

02:04:22.680 but,

02:04:23.560 like a lot of,

02:04:24.920 it's very popular,

02:04:25.880 like for even just like,

02:04:27.980 girls,

02:04:28.280 you wouldn't necessarily be like,

02:04:29.300 the type to get tattoos,

02:04:30.320 to get like,

02:04:30.740 you know,

02:04:30.940 really cutesy,

02:04:31.680 little tiny,

02:04:32.380 like heart ones or whatever,

02:04:33.820 like all this stuff.

02:04:34.740 But I like,

02:04:36.040 still don't think like,

02:04:37.320 it'll ever be something I do,

02:04:39.040 because,

02:04:40.620 like personally,

02:04:41.460 I feel like it's like a,

02:04:42.400 body purity thing.

02:04:44.960 But,

02:04:45.340 I respect that.

02:04:46.160 We do need to get caught up,

02:04:47.240 on the super chats guys,

02:04:48.380 so guys,

02:04:49.100 get your super chats in,

02:04:49.980 I will get them really quick.

02:04:51.160 I just want to add one thing,

02:04:52.940 so,

02:04:53.520 as far as like,

02:04:54.400 and we'll move on,

02:04:55.240 as soon as I say it,

02:04:56.280 but,

02:04:57.460 here's another example.

02:04:59.100 Okay,

02:04:59.640 so guys who like younger women,

02:05:01.020 if you want to make,

02:05:01.580 P word comparisons,

02:05:03.360 okay.

02:05:05.140 Women who have a preference,

02:05:06.300 for men who don't have beards,

02:05:09.040 they're P words.

02:05:11.660 Women who like guys,

02:05:12.720 who are clean shaven,

02:05:13.780 sorry,

02:05:14.280 y'all are P words.

02:05:15.860 I'm sorry,

02:05:16.740 Kiko,

02:05:17.660 do you have a preference,

02:05:18.440 for men who are clean shaven?

02:05:20.000 I don't have a preference,

02:05:20.700 either or.

02:05:21.500 I'm just saying.

02:05:22.040 If I do,

02:05:22.440 I do love a good old porn stash.

02:05:24.820 You want,

02:05:25.240 you want a guy,

02:05:25.860 I love a thick porn stash baby.

02:05:28.260 I'm just,

02:05:28.540 there's some women,

02:05:29.140 who like guys clean shaven.

02:05:31.040 I've never been one of that women,

02:05:32.180 and I'll actually.

02:05:32.960 Those women are P words.

02:05:34.100 The only women I've ever heard say that,

02:05:35.380 were like usually like bisexual,

02:05:36.860 or in the closet lesbian women.

02:05:38.200 To be honest,

02:05:38.820 I rarely hear grown women say,

02:05:40.220 they prefer no facial hair.

02:05:41.540 If anything,

02:05:42.060 that's like,

02:05:42.420 I've heard a lot.

02:05:43.120 for them.

02:05:43.740 Okay.

02:05:44.080 Like I have friends,

02:05:44.580 who won't date dudes,

02:05:45.320 without facial hair.

02:05:46.740 If anything.

02:05:49.160 Yeah,

02:05:49.520 you're their type Ryan.

02:05:51.100 Hit them up.

02:05:51.480 Look,

02:05:52.880 every single,

02:05:53.760 like I want to say,

02:05:54.860 of the past three or four girls I've dated,

02:05:57.540 they've all been very open,

02:06:00.780 that they do not like,

02:06:03.340 the facial hair.

02:06:04.260 That's so weird.

02:06:05.100 I've never heard,

02:06:05.660 I really,

02:06:06.260 I prefer,

02:06:07.320 I prefer it.

02:06:09.420 I prefer it.

02:06:10.540 I've never heard this before.

02:06:11.960 Hairy chest and all.

02:06:13.060 Love a mustache,

02:06:14.200 love a beard,

02:06:14.980 love hair on the chest.

02:06:15.420 Maybe they don't like,

02:06:16.260 ungroomed,

02:06:17.140 like ungroomed,

02:06:18.220 super like down to here,

02:06:19.980 like you have food in your shit,

02:06:21.260 like that's a different story,

02:06:22.460 but like a beard,

02:06:23.760 a mustache,

02:06:24.340 a goatee,

02:06:24.860 I would always prefer that,

02:06:25.800 I think over none.

02:06:26.640 It's not a deal breaker for me,

02:06:27.640 but I think I would,

02:06:28.240 yeah,

02:06:28.360 I would prefer facial hair.

02:06:29.560 Actually,

02:06:30.080 and on the topic of,

02:06:30.840 I would feel like I'm dating a little boy.

02:06:31.500 I'd also like to say,

02:06:32.580 that I don't care,

02:06:33.320 that the women that I see,

02:06:34.580 don't wax or shave down there.

02:06:36.740 Ooh.

02:06:37.540 I need a trimming,

02:06:38.560 I need a trimming.

02:06:39.300 You said it wrong.

02:06:40.080 I've had one too many.

02:06:40.620 I feel like,

02:06:41.100 if you're like completely bald like there,

02:06:43.160 it's like,

02:06:43.620 I don't know,

02:06:43.880 a little childlike.

02:06:45.160 I'm bald on there.

02:06:46.300 What?

02:06:47.100 If you prefer a woman,

02:06:48.740 like completely bald,

02:06:50.800 waxed?

02:06:51.440 Like you expect a grown woman

02:06:53.100 to be completely bald down there,

02:06:55.400 on their arms,

02:06:56.080 on their legs.

02:06:57.360 If you expect a woman,

02:06:59.000 Arms,

02:06:59.420 I mean,

02:06:59.900 that's whatever.

02:07:00.360 To be bald on their arms,

02:07:01.920 on their legs,

02:07:02.700 on their vagina,

02:07:03.760 everywhere,

02:07:04.200 you expect a grown woman to be hairless.

02:07:06.700 I'm sorry,

02:07:07.240 you're not looking for a grown woman,

02:07:09.020 you're looking for a child.

02:07:10.360 Whoa,

02:07:10.560 whoa,

02:07:10.880 whoa,

02:07:11.440 whoa.

02:07:12.400 It's just a preference.

02:07:13.880 Honestly,

02:07:14.800 some men don't like hair.

02:07:16.360 I was being kind of,

02:07:18.340 I was being memeing with the women

02:07:20.980 who prefer men with shaved beards,

02:07:23.800 arpeedos,

02:07:24.320 but you've gone full force with it.

02:07:26.180 So,

02:07:26.400 okay.

02:07:26.960 If a guy was like,

02:07:28.080 no,

02:07:28.260 I don't want to talk to you.

02:07:29.660 You don't shave your arms,

02:07:30.580 or your vagina,

02:07:31.260 or your legs.

02:07:32.080 Like,

02:07:32.300 I would be like,

02:07:33.720 that's a little bit strange.

02:07:35.280 Into the mic,

02:07:35.780 straight on.

02:07:36.300 I would think that's a little bit strange.

02:07:38.240 If a guy had a preference

02:07:39.420 for a woman who shaved her legs,

02:07:41.680 I mean,

02:07:41.920 that's pretty standard.

02:07:42.860 No,

02:07:43.360 no.

02:07:43.740 If a guy is like,

02:07:45.740 I don't like women who are hairy on their arms,

02:07:49.500 hairy on their legs,

02:07:50.360 if they have hair on their vagina,

02:07:52.140 like,

02:07:53.440 that is so,

02:07:54.420 like,

02:07:54.960 okay.

02:07:55.200 Let me try to help her.

02:07:56.380 I think she's not saying,

02:07:57.760 like,

02:07:58.060 I don't fully agree with that,

02:07:59.220 but I think what she's trying to say is,

02:08:00.940 not that it's their preference,

02:08:02.320 but it's like,

02:08:02.980 it's an end all,

02:08:03.740 be all.

02:08:04.440 Like,

02:08:04.620 if you didn't shave your legs that day,

02:08:06.800 or whatever,

02:08:07.160 he's like,

02:08:07.460 I'm not even going to fucking lady.

02:08:08.680 Like,

02:08:08.760 you're a nasty hairy.

02:08:09.500 Have you ever told you that before?

02:08:10.720 I've,

02:08:11.380 in my life,

02:08:13.020 I've met men who are like,

02:08:14.600 oh my God,

02:08:15.100 your arms are so hairy,

02:08:16.560 or like,

02:08:17.020 have made those comments,

02:08:18.060 and it's,

02:08:18.580 yeah.

02:08:19.060 Can you,

02:08:19.580 do you,

02:08:20.780 do you want to show the camera?

02:08:22.320 That's like,

02:08:26.720 that's pretty.

02:08:28.200 I mean,

02:08:28.560 that's not,

02:08:29.180 that's not bad.

02:08:30.720 I don't think so,

02:08:32.680 but some men are weird,

02:08:34.040 and they're like,

02:08:35.040 I don't like hairy arms,

02:08:36.380 hairy legs,

02:08:37.340 or hairy vagina.

02:08:38.340 I think like,

02:08:38.700 I get it,

02:08:39.180 having a preference is totally fine.

02:08:40.500 I prefer more groomed than not,

02:08:42.400 for sure,

02:08:43.040 but I think it's just more of a,

02:08:44.240 when it's like,

02:08:44.780 with some men,

02:08:45.260 it does become like,

02:08:45.940 a very big deal when you don't,

02:08:47.540 I'm not saying like,

02:08:48.680 yes,

02:08:48.920 it's very different if she decides,

02:08:50.060 like,

02:08:50.180 I'm going to go,

02:08:50.820 I'm going to nature,

02:08:51.880 and I'm going,

02:08:53.100 I'm going my armpits like here,

02:08:54.680 my coochie out,

02:08:55.780 whatever,

02:08:56.060 that's completely different,

02:08:56.880 but if like,

02:08:57.540 you miss a couple days on shaving,

02:08:59.240 and your dude's already like,

02:09:00.480 having issues with it,

02:09:01.400 that's kind of,

02:09:02.300 yeah,

02:09:02.560 that's kind of like,

02:09:03.640 do you want me or a doll?

02:09:04.640 Do you have plastic surgery?

02:09:06.180 What do you mean?

02:09:07.460 Oh,

02:09:07.900 I'm wearing a push-up,

02:09:10.300 for sure.

02:09:10.740 Oh,

02:09:10.920 okay,

02:09:11.160 I thought,

02:09:11.520 I was,

02:09:12.540 okay.

02:09:12.880 What do you mean?

02:09:14.420 No.

02:09:15.220 Wait,

02:09:15.520 I'm 22,

02:09:16.320 I'm poor as fuck.

02:09:17.580 Yeah,

02:09:17.780 you don't,

02:09:18.280 oh,

02:09:18.460 okay,

02:09:18.940 well,

02:09:19.200 there's some 22 year olds,

02:09:20.480 sugar daddies and shit,

02:09:22.240 wait,

02:09:22.500 okay,

02:09:22.880 so the hair thing,

02:09:24.060 but like,

02:09:25.180 me personally,

02:09:27.300 if a girl had a bit of forearm hair,

02:09:29.480 I don't give a fuck.

02:09:30.420 Yeah.

02:09:30.600 You don't have to shave that,

02:09:31.480 but like,

02:09:32.120 it is nice,

02:09:32.720 like shaved legs are nice,

02:09:33.960 just for the,

02:09:35.740 less friction,

02:09:37.620 for the speed,

02:09:38.820 you know,

02:09:39.040 but,

02:09:39.280 okay,

02:09:39.620 what I'm saying is like a man,

02:09:41.680 okay,

02:09:42.040 so people,

02:09:42.840 like men will be like,

02:09:44.180 I will not eat you out,

02:09:45.360 unless you're hairless down there.

02:09:48.160 Well,

02:09:48.520 I don't,

02:09:50.020 oh,

02:09:50.280 Jesus.

02:09:50.560 That's a little bit,

02:09:51.340 okay,

02:09:51.520 so do you ever put this into play?

02:09:53.020 Like,

02:09:53.140 I have a lot of brothers.

02:09:53.980 What if they had a bad experience?

02:09:55.580 What if they like,

02:09:56.700 I don't know if you know this,

02:09:57.380 hair carries odor,

02:09:58.720 and like,

02:09:59.140 not to be rude,

02:10:00.040 I've known friends who wax,

02:10:01.200 a lot of women aren't very clean,

02:10:02.260 baby,

02:10:02.700 so with all that hair,

02:10:03.600 you're walking a fro,

02:10:04.460 the 80s fro,

02:10:05.360 I'm sorry,

02:10:05.920 a lot of people aren't going to go down on that.

02:10:07.140 It just shows that you're clean cut and stuff.

02:10:09.100 I'm not saying every single time and all that,

02:10:10.900 but again,

02:10:11.300 I've never been through that situation.

02:10:12.460 No guy has ever,

02:10:13.240 guy I've been with,

02:10:13.840 whatever,

02:10:13.980 tell me that shit.

02:10:14.700 Wait,

02:10:14.940 question.

02:10:15.420 I don't mind people wax,

02:10:19.000 I don't,

02:10:19.700 no,

02:10:20.200 that's not really what I'm trying to say.

02:10:22.840 I prefer to wax.

02:10:24.040 Yeah,

02:10:24.520 I prefer to wax too,

02:10:26.020 but I'm saying like,

02:10:26.860 I'm not going to discriminate against a woman

02:10:29.880 and be like,

02:10:30.740 I'm not going to eat you out

02:10:31.620 because you have stubble.

02:10:34.020 I mean.

02:10:34.920 But you're different from him,

02:10:35.760 it's a preference.

02:10:36.760 But men do that,

02:10:37.560 and that's strange.

02:10:39.980 Why is everything,

02:10:40.920 why every time a man has a preference,

02:10:42.440 it's weird?

02:10:43.220 I don't,

02:10:43.600 I never get that.

02:10:44.340 Like,

02:10:44.500 why can't they just have preferences

02:10:45.440 and that's it?

02:10:46.040 Or just,

02:10:46.420 that's what they want.

02:10:47.040 If he doesn't want to be able to grow with a fro,

02:10:48.440 that's his thing.

02:10:49.540 It's simple.

02:10:51.820 Simple.

02:10:52.600 Oh my God.

02:10:54.660 I'm your hype man now.

02:10:56.780 But,

02:10:57.840 I mean,

02:10:59.160 can't it just be like a utilitarian thing?

02:11:01.380 Like,

02:11:02.080 there's,

02:11:02.480 it's,

02:11:02.720 it's maybe more uncomfortable for the guy.

02:11:05.020 Women were born with hair on them.

02:11:06.960 I'm sorry.

02:11:08.100 Women were also born not wearing makeup,

02:11:10.760 so maybe you should stop wearing makeup.

02:11:12.580 So,

02:11:12.960 that's a good point.

02:11:14.100 And men were also born without Viagra,

02:11:15.680 so maybe when you have a limp dick,

02:11:16.740 you shouldn't use that either.

02:11:18.180 What kind of guys are you getting with

02:11:19.120 that have to use that?

02:11:20.120 That says a lot.

02:11:20.820 I'm not,

02:11:21.420 but if it's on,

02:11:22.120 if it's covered by insurance,

02:11:23.040 obviously a lot of men need it.

02:11:24.840 So.

02:11:26.400 Wait,

02:11:26.780 it's okay.

02:11:28.960 I think she hates men.

02:11:29.700 I don't even,

02:11:30.480 how did we,

02:11:31.140 how did we do that?

02:11:31.600 Most of my men are,

02:11:33.100 she's actually probably one of my only girlfriends

02:11:35.480 I hang out with here.

02:11:37.020 All of my friends are men.

02:11:38.180 Most of them are actually conservative Republican men,

02:11:40.060 actually.

02:11:40.460 And we all get along just fine.

02:11:42.640 Because I can disagree with people,

02:11:44.660 but we just move on.

02:11:45.480 We don't sit and debate it for hours.

02:11:46.860 But Tay brought up a really good point.

02:11:48.360 Like it seems every time a guy has a preference,

02:11:51.400 a standard or a boundary,

02:11:52.540 it's always like,

02:11:54.320 I mean,

02:11:55.040 normally it's just like,

02:11:57.120 it's typically tamer levels of shaming.

02:11:59.180 Like it's either insecure or misogyny or controlling or dominant or whatever.

02:12:07.640 But like,

02:12:08.820 y'all want to go to the P word thing real quick.

02:12:11.620 Because I feel like that preference is rooted in something else.

02:12:15.320 But what,

02:12:15.560 have you ever asked though,

02:12:16.480 instead of assuming you just,

02:12:17.740 look what you're saying,

02:12:18.300 that's a big word to use.

02:12:19.640 Ask him.

02:12:20.140 Ask him.

02:12:20.580 I never said,

02:12:21.500 I never said,

02:12:22.460 I never called somebody a pedophile.

02:12:24.240 I didn't say pedophile once on the show.

02:12:25.680 You said it's weird though.

02:12:26.500 I said it's childlike.

02:12:27.920 So what does that mean that it's childlike?

02:12:29.540 So if a woman has a,

02:12:30.100 You're literally saying it without saying it.

02:12:31.880 So stop trying to backpedal.

02:12:32.760 If a woman has a preference,

02:12:34.020 is it rooted in anything else?

02:12:35.220 Or is it simply just a preference?

02:12:36.660 If,

02:12:37.480 if that,

02:12:38.360 like what he said,

02:12:39.580 if a woman is preferring that a man is like all clean shaven everywhere,

02:12:44.460 I also would think that's a little bit strange.

02:12:47.220 Why do you want him to look like a little boy?

02:12:49.540 I mean,

02:12:49.760 I don't think,

02:12:52.140 I think it's just their preference.

02:12:53.320 If a girl has a preference here,

02:12:54.740 well,

02:12:54.920 I can articulate a reason why a woman might prefer a guy's clean shaven.

02:12:58.440 Some women when kissing it,

02:13:00.300 you know,

02:13:00.500 the beard will rub up against them.

02:13:02.180 Maybe they get a little,

02:13:03.740 I don't know if red,

02:13:05.560 what's it called?

02:13:06.420 Irritation.

02:13:07.040 Irritation.

02:13:07.400 Thank you.

02:13:08.180 And,

02:13:08.240 and,

02:13:10.040 or maybe they don't just,

02:13:11.100 they don't like how it looks.

02:13:13.260 Okay.

02:13:13.480 You can have your preferences and I can believe that they're strange or not.

02:13:17.260 True.

02:13:18.180 But I mean,

02:13:18.620 it's just,

02:13:19.060 it's unfair to assume that both genders are pedophilic.

02:13:24.840 Now,

02:13:25.100 why does it have to get taken to that?

02:13:25.900 Like,

02:13:26.120 it just seems very extreme.

02:13:27.920 That's very extreme,

02:13:28.540 I do say,

02:13:29.220 but to be fair though,

02:13:30.800 I,

02:13:31.060 we,

02:13:31.240 you can't assume that childlike does mean pedophilic,

02:13:34.180 but it is different when,

02:13:35.040 if she would be straight up using that word that it is.

02:13:37.580 She's just saying it does resemble prepubescent when we don't have hair.

02:13:41.880 And why is that the first thing you guys think of?

02:13:43.380 Like,

02:13:43.560 I never,

02:13:43.960 when I'm,

02:13:44.620 when I'm listening to you guys and that's the first thing you think of,

02:13:47.040 is it like,

02:13:47.480 why does that you bring that up?

02:13:48.560 Is it trauma?

02:13:49.100 Like,

02:13:49.520 that's not something I think of.

02:13:50.460 If somebody asked me,

02:13:51.060 Hey,

02:13:51.200 I want you to be shaved.

02:13:52.360 Like,

02:13:52.560 if that's something wrong,

02:13:53.600 it's rooted in something you're thinking.

02:13:54.760 I think it's rooted in our research.

02:13:56.000 Think about that.

02:13:56.400 My research,

02:13:56.980 if anything,

02:13:57.340 would be rooted in sociology and education.

02:13:59.460 Wait,

02:13:59.600 hold on.

02:13:59.860 What's the stat though?

02:14:00.300 What are you talking about exactly?

02:14:01.820 Wait,

02:14:02.260 the research shows that men who prefer women who are clean shaven are.

02:14:05.940 That's not what I ever said at fucking,

02:14:08.580 oh,

02:14:08.940 oh my God,

02:14:09.280 I'm so tired of taking my shit out of the context.

02:14:10.840 Kiko,

02:14:11.360 it's for speed.

02:14:12.300 I'm telling you.

02:14:13.360 Literally,

02:14:13.860 I'm saying it's just based off of my research that I do.

02:14:16.740 It does create me to look at certain things like this a little bit more deeply.

02:14:21.280 Like,

02:14:21.420 hey,

02:14:21.600 why is that?

02:14:22.760 Because sociology is a study of society.

02:14:24.760 And what we're doing and why things happen and the people in it and everything into working.

02:14:29.480 So sometimes based off of my research,

02:14:31.540 I'm not saying exactly that I've studied the shaving thing,

02:14:34.340 but in things like that,

02:14:35.780 where there is sometimes something is like,

02:14:38.380 you know,

02:14:38.660 scraping the level and there is that iceberg underneath.

02:14:41.380 That is some of a topic that we do bring up nowadays in sociology.

02:14:44.880 I'm not saying it's correct or I agree with it,

02:14:47.000 but with my,

02:14:48.500 what I study,

02:14:49.000 yes,

02:14:49.160 sometimes you'll want to take that layer off and think,

02:14:51.200 is there a deeper reason that we see this?

02:14:53.420 Especially after all of this,

02:14:55.120 um,

02:14:55.880 Gaisley Maxwell and Jeffrey Epstein and all this.

02:15:00.140 Yeah,

02:15:00.440 I can't,

02:15:00.740 I can never pronounce her name.

02:15:04.140 Um,

02:15:04.540 but after that,

02:15:05.140 I think a lot of us looked at things a little bit more with the critical eye.

02:15:09.720 Like,

02:15:09.920 is this something deeper?

02:15:10.900 Cause it was right in front of our faces and we didn't even know.

02:15:16.320 If,

02:15:16.800 if I'm willing to,

02:15:18.740 if I'm willing to concede that,

02:15:23.740 not that I would,

02:15:25.100 that men who are attracted to either younger women or who have a preference for women who are shaved down there,

02:15:33.980 if I'm willing to concede that that is problematic because they're want children.

02:15:39.320 Are you willing to concede that women that are attracted to tall men have an incestuous fetishization for their fathers because they want to look up and look at a tall man?

02:15:51.440 Is everybody's dad taller than them?

02:15:54.060 Mine is.

02:15:54.860 Almost.

02:15:55.340 If you were a kid,

02:15:55.800 you're the same height.

02:15:56.640 My dad's 6'5".

02:15:57.540 But,

02:15:58.020 when you were,

02:15:58.680 but it's when you were a kid though,

02:16:00.160 when you were a kid,

02:16:00.720 of course your father was taller than you.

02:16:02.140 If anything,

02:16:02.240 I would say that.

02:16:02.720 I also said that I don't care about height,

02:16:04.300 so I feel like it's kind of irrelevant.

02:16:05.340 You'll date a,

02:16:05.740 you'll date a 4'11 dude?

02:16:07.560 Come on.

02:16:08.140 I mean,

02:16:08.800 Come on,

02:16:09.240 she's not looking at her same height though.

02:16:11.700 I don't,

02:16:12.400 I would prefer somebody to be like,

02:16:14.620 if I'm dating a man,

02:16:16.160 I don't,

02:16:16.620 for a woman,

02:16:17.280 I don't care how tall she is or how short he is.

02:16:20.040 But if I'm dating a man,

02:16:21.700 I think I would prefer a man that's like my height or taller.

02:16:25.960 Does that mean that I don't find shorter men attractive?

02:16:29.600 No.

02:16:29.940 There's definitely some short kings out there.

02:16:31.900 Listen,

02:16:31.980 Day,

02:16:32.340 what you've just told me is incredibly problematic.

02:16:35.140 The fact that you would prefer to date a guy who's taller than you means that you are incestuous.

02:16:41.900 But I'm not against it.

02:16:42.300 How dare you?

02:16:43.200 But I'm not against dating somebody who's as tall as me or shorter.

02:16:47.940 This is,

02:16:48.580 this is an affront to humanity.

02:16:50.800 You are an incestuous.

02:16:52.840 I'm kidding,

02:16:53.360 by the way.

02:16:53.640 That's okay.

02:16:54.060 But do you see what I'm saying?

02:16:55.100 No,

02:16:55.120 I'm not.

02:16:55.820 What I'm going to say next is yes.

02:16:57.800 If that's my preference and that's your opinion on my preference.

02:17:01.260 Okay.

02:17:02.020 So you're allowed to have an opinion and I'm allowed to have a preference.

02:17:04.760 I identify as the correct person on this issue.

02:17:08.260 Will you,

02:17:08.680 will you affirm my identity as the correct person on this issue?

02:17:13.380 What are we getting out here?

02:17:14.940 Oh,

02:17:16.540 what was the point of that?

02:17:17.300 I,

02:17:17.440 I can guarantee you it's my identity.

02:17:20.100 Anyways,

02:17:20.380 I'm next.

02:17:21.720 Okay.

02:17:22.380 All right.

02:17:22.840 Let's do the soup chats.

02:17:23.660 Let's do the soup chats,

02:17:24.560 boys.

02:17:25.160 Yo,

02:17:25.540 guys,

02:17:25.780 get your soup chats in.

02:17:27.340 And sorry,

02:17:28.180 let me get caught up here to where we were.

02:17:30.820 I'm trying to see the last one.

02:17:33.720 All right.

02:17:33.920 So we have,

02:17:35.040 yo,

02:17:35.220 Kevin Hamilton.

02:17:35.960 Thank you,

02:17:36.260 man.

02:17:36.460 Oh,

02:17:36.620 I,

02:17:36.900 did he change his thing?

02:17:39.560 Anyways,

02:17:40.020 as always,

02:17:40.640 Tay Tay says,

02:17:41.320 what says what all of us men want to say.

02:17:44.060 Homegirl Kiko is a walking red flag.

02:17:47.180 So defensive and manic.

02:17:48.700 Can we give her a hug?

02:17:50.240 Goddamn.

02:17:50.740 But anyway,

02:17:51.220 what's your definition of romance?

02:17:54.420 Do you actually want me to ask the girls that?

02:17:56.760 Question?

02:17:57.980 I'm just a little,

02:17:59.180 I mean,

02:17:59.480 do you really want to know?

02:18:00.540 I mean,

02:18:00.800 come on.

02:18:01.920 Uh,

02:18:02.300 romance.

02:18:03.900 Do you,

02:18:04.600 anybody?

02:18:07.020 Anybody?

02:18:07.700 I'm not feeling romantic right now.

02:18:10.000 You don't,

02:18:10.560 you're not feeling romantic at all,

02:18:12.340 Keegan?

02:18:13.200 What about,

02:18:14.120 hold on.

02:18:14.500 What about.

02:18:25.520 Anything?

02:18:26.460 No.

02:18:26.900 Okay.

02:18:27.900 Um,

02:18:29.600 sorry,

02:18:30.020 Calvin.

02:18:31.100 Yo,

02:18:31.640 what,

02:18:31.900 what,

02:18:33.600 wait,

02:18:33.840 what?

02:18:34.360 Steven.

02:18:34.680 So second to last,

02:18:35.660 bro.

02:18:37.620 Oh my.

02:18:38.320 Okay.

02:18:38.980 Uh,

02:18:39.540 Andrew,

02:18:39.980 Steven Solis.

02:18:40.620 Thanks for the $10 soup chat.

02:18:41.880 If a guy can't get it up,

02:18:43.080 do you blame yourself or the guy?

02:18:44.500 And how does it make you feel?

02:18:45.640 My chick left me for that.

02:18:46.800 Even though I'm nine long.

02:18:48.180 She only saw it at four.

02:18:50.700 Yeah.

02:18:51.140 Yeah.

02:18:51.420 A grower and show or wow.

02:18:52.880 Okay.

02:18:53.200 Uh,

02:18:53.560 yeah.

02:18:53.780 Is that a deal breaker for you?

02:18:55.420 If,

02:18:55.720 uh,

02:18:56.480 well,

02:18:56.700 I guess you could just answer the soup chat as is.

02:18:58.460 Go ahead.

02:18:59.200 It depends.

02:19:00.480 It depends.

02:19:01.080 Um,

02:19:01.480 if it's like one time,

02:19:02.900 like I'm not going to just off the first time,

02:19:04.600 like,

02:19:05.120 like,

02:19:05.300 you know,

02:19:05.820 maybe he's nervous,

02:19:06.600 things happen,

02:19:07.340 alcohol,

02:19:07.760 whatever,

02:19:08.160 but it like consistently.

02:19:09.800 Yeah.

02:19:10.380 And you're not willing to take like something for it.

02:19:12.940 I don't,

02:19:13.240 I don't think I'm going to be,

02:19:14.220 I can't have limp dick.

02:19:15.520 No.

02:19:16.280 I'd rather get some plastic than to be real.

02:19:20.880 What if he made you come another way?

02:19:24.840 Still,

02:19:25.680 you still need the D?

02:19:27.180 I don't think it's going to work.

02:19:27.900 You still need the D?

02:19:29.520 Yeah.

02:19:29.900 Cause like,

02:19:30.180 again,

02:19:30.320 I could just get a bitch,

02:19:31.340 you know?

02:19:31.820 Yeah.

02:19:33.020 Well,

02:19:33.220 it has nice,

02:19:33.760 that has like titties and an ass.

02:19:35.620 That has like titties and an ass.

02:19:40.200 Like,

02:19:40.400 why would I want a man with a limp dick?

02:19:42.080 If he's going to do everything a woman's going to do for me,

02:19:43.960 then I'd rather get a woman with some like,

02:19:45.200 yeah,

02:19:45.360 nice titties,

02:19:46.000 areolas and ass and all.

02:19:47.660 Can I,

02:19:48.000 can I ask you a question on that?

02:19:49.120 So you're,

02:19:49.540 you're bi.

02:19:50.640 Yes.

02:19:51.100 What's your labia preference?

02:19:53.360 Do you like innies or outies?

02:19:54.660 Innies.

02:19:55.020 I've never even noticed a difference.

02:19:56.820 But you've been,

02:19:57.700 have you had both?

02:19:59.700 Me,

02:19:59.940 I don't think I ever like.

02:20:00.560 Are you bi too?

02:20:01.780 Yeah.

02:20:02.360 Oh,

02:20:02.540 okay.

02:20:03.060 I'm sure.

02:20:03.840 I don't think I've ever like took her pants down and was like,

02:20:06.660 oh,

02:20:06.820 that's an innie,

02:20:07.340 that's an outie.

02:20:08.000 I don't remember.

02:20:08.860 I don't really know what you mean by any outie.

02:20:12.260 What?

02:20:12.800 Some girls lips are different than the labia.

02:20:14.460 You're talking about like beef curtains versus no beef curtains.

02:20:16.500 No beef curtains for me.

02:20:17.360 Deli sandwich or PB sandwich?

02:20:18.780 Whoa,

02:20:19.080 whoa,

02:20:19.280 whoa.

02:20:19.680 What?

02:20:19.960 I mean,

02:20:20.240 it's a debate.

02:20:21.860 Like out of all the girls I've slept with,

02:20:23.460 I don't remember what they're.

02:20:25.180 No,

02:20:25.440 me either.

02:20:25.720 It's not me either.

02:20:26.680 When I would remember a smell.

02:20:28.400 I would remember a smell.

02:20:30.580 I would remember that.

02:20:31.680 Have you ever gone through that before?

02:20:32.760 Yes.

02:20:33.840 Wait,

02:20:34.220 wait,

02:20:34.340 do you tell them or do you keep going?

02:20:35.880 Girl,

02:20:36.300 you better not.

02:20:36.920 Ew,

02:20:37.300 no.

02:20:37.420 I didn't keep going,

02:20:38.720 but I didn't exactly tell them,

02:20:41.940 but I didn't keep going.

02:20:42.920 I got out of the situation.

02:20:44.660 If that makes sense.

02:20:45.900 I'm too nice.

02:20:46.840 I don't want to hurt her like that.

02:20:48.300 You know,

02:20:48.500 I debated like going to her later and being like,

02:20:51.280 yo,

02:20:51.480 like girl to girl.

02:20:52.360 But like,

02:20:52.940 you never know how someone's going to take something.

02:20:54.520 I want somebody to tell me.

02:20:55.280 I wouldn't want.

02:20:55.760 I would want somebody to tell me.

02:20:56.320 Tell me,

02:20:56.760 tell me.

02:20:57.100 I feel way too bad.

02:20:58.080 But she got back with her ex-girlfriend like a couple weeks after that.

02:21:01.240 So I'm like,

02:21:01.480 that's homegirl's problem now.

02:21:02.360 Oh yeah.

02:21:02.660 Like that's her.

02:21:03.260 She was the mom that got away.

02:21:05.540 No.

02:21:06.620 Okay.

02:21:06.940 So deal breaker if the guy can't get it up.

02:21:10.180 Yeah.

02:21:11.240 Deal breaker for sure.

02:21:13.460 I agree with Kiara.

02:21:14.900 I mean,

02:21:15.780 if it's like every single time.

02:21:18.560 Yeah.

02:21:18.760 No.

02:21:20.120 I would kind of go with that same sentiment.

02:21:21.780 I realized that there's a lot of other.

02:21:23.600 I wouldn't take it completely personal because I realized that there's a lot of

02:21:26.780 other factors that could go into it.

02:21:28.520 But if it became in all the time thing,

02:21:31.280 then I would,

02:21:32.400 yeah,

02:21:32.580 be,

02:21:32.940 it'd be deal breaker.

02:21:34.500 Yeah.

02:21:34.700 Sexual chemistry is really important.

02:21:36.000 If we were married,

02:21:36.440 it's a different story.

02:21:37.320 But if we're just like relationship,

02:21:38.600 I don't know.

02:21:39.840 Like if you were married and then he started getting,

02:21:41.320 yeah,

02:21:41.440 cause I usually don't sleep around.

02:21:42.620 I usually have a boyfriend and then like,

02:21:43.840 we're already like together.

02:21:44.700 You know what I mean?

02:21:45.080 I don't like just doing some people.

02:21:46.240 I don't know.

02:21:46.980 Yeah.

02:21:47.180 But like,

02:21:47.540 so wouldn't you find out when your boyfriend,

02:21:49.040 that's why I'm saying we're already together at that point.

02:21:50.500 I'm not going to dump you for that.

02:21:51.340 I feel like that's so like fucked up.

02:21:52.740 But that's kind of why.

02:21:54.400 Yeah.

02:21:54.760 That's why I like when people say they're waiting till marriage.

02:21:56.480 I'm like,

02:21:56.740 I don't,

02:21:57.060 I don't think I can do it.

02:21:57.800 I don't,

02:21:57.960 I can't do it.

02:21:58.900 He matches everything I need besides that.

02:22:02.200 That's fucked up.

02:22:02.760 No.

02:22:03.140 Cause that's what leads to cheating and adultery and all this stuff.

02:22:05.740 If you're not pleased in bed to the full amount,

02:22:07.860 then you're going to go seek for it.

02:22:09.320 I don't cheat regardless.

02:22:10.580 So that's,

02:22:11.580 that's what most people say,

02:22:12.560 but no,

02:22:13.520 I'm not most people,

02:22:14.240 baby.

02:22:14.760 And just the original question,

02:22:16.900 like,

02:22:17.540 Oh,

02:22:17.840 I,

02:22:18.100 I kind of,

02:22:18.840 I just,

02:22:19.540 so it's fair to super chat.

02:22:20.860 I do,

02:22:21.160 I do want to,

02:22:22.040 so I kind of reframed it,

02:22:23.840 but would you blame yourself or the guy?

02:22:25.900 Like,

02:22:26.080 let's say the first time,

02:22:27.000 if you didn't get it up,

02:22:27.740 would you blame yourself,

02:22:29.000 blame the guy?

02:22:29.700 Would you feel bad about it?

02:22:31.080 Or just be like,

02:22:31.700 it happens like next time.

02:22:33.640 I just don't see the need to put blame on either person.

02:22:36.140 I think it just happens.

02:22:37.540 If it's a one time.

02:22:38.340 Yeah.

02:22:38.540 It just happens.

02:22:39.340 Like sometimes girls will like,

02:22:41.820 they get upset about that.

02:22:42.780 They'll be like,

02:22:43.260 Oh,

02:22:43.500 is it me?

02:22:44.560 Yeah.

02:22:45.380 That's dumb.

02:22:46.120 I've been totally offended before.

02:22:48.500 I've,

02:22:48.800 I've been offended.

02:22:49.540 You've been offended when the guy.

02:22:50.520 I thought I was like,

02:22:51.200 not attractive or not.

02:22:52.140 And I had to tell her that it was not her.

02:22:54.260 I remember.

02:22:54.680 She was around.

02:22:55.880 I was like,

02:22:56.380 I'm ugly or something,

02:22:57.460 but they just had ED,

02:22:59.120 I guess.

02:22:59.800 Did you react like all crazy?

02:23:00.900 Or did you just like tell them?

02:23:01.920 No,

02:23:02.060 I just went to her.

02:23:03.180 I just,

02:23:03.700 I don't go and tell them,

02:23:05.220 but I was just like,

02:23:07.220 ah,

02:23:08.280 bummed.

02:23:09.660 Okay.

02:23:10.260 We have Kuku Kiko.

02:23:12.660 What is this photo?

02:23:14.880 Wait,

02:23:15.060 that's a photo.

02:23:15.660 Wait,

02:23:15.800 that's me.

02:23:16.620 That's you.

02:23:17.380 Wow.

02:23:17.560 Super unnecessary.

02:23:18.940 Wow.

02:23:19.480 What is the,

02:23:20.320 I don't know.

02:23:20.680 Kuku Kiko.

02:23:21.340 I'm in a straight jacket.

02:23:22.620 Thank you.

02:23:22.940 I'm in a straight jacket.

02:23:23.740 Okay.

02:23:24.540 Nice Photoshop.

02:23:25.340 I believe that's our homie,

02:23:26.800 No Caprio.

02:23:27.320 Thank you,

02:23:27.640 man.

02:23:27.740 Oh my God.

02:23:28.620 It's kind of cute though.

02:23:29.180 It's hilarious.

02:23:31.140 Do you want to read it?

02:23:32.040 Can you read it for us?

02:23:33.620 I left my straight jacket at the nut house.

02:23:35.980 When I start clapping,

02:23:37.160 just know it's not peanut butter

02:23:38.420 and feel free to suplex me.

02:23:40.340 I have no,

02:23:41.240 no self-respect for myself.

02:23:43.500 Anyways.

02:23:44.120 Yeah,

02:23:44.280 we can tell bud.

02:23:45.080 Back to you,

02:23:45.660 Brian.

02:23:47.060 All right.

02:23:47.840 Yikes.

02:23:48.800 Yo,

02:23:49.420 Pollux 99.

02:23:50.780 Thank you,

02:23:51.020 man.

02:23:51.680 Brian for the show.

02:23:52.440 Instead of Frank Castle,

02:23:53.480 you can give the offender the heave ho.

02:23:55.360 Send the asteroid.

02:23:56.740 I got you,

02:23:57.240 man.

02:23:57.400 Hold up.

02:23:58.460 All right.

02:23:58.780 Boom.

02:23:59.380 Fucking asteroid.

02:24:00.660 Sent.

02:24:01.940 Appreciate it,

02:24:02.500 man.

02:24:03.520 I also have a couple sounds.

02:24:04.880 I,

02:24:04.900 instead of,

02:24:06.020 hold on,

02:24:06.620 let me see if I can find them.

02:24:08.960 I haven't yet had to do Frank Castle.

02:24:11.100 Just maybe my tolerance is really high,

02:24:12.720 but fuck.

02:24:13.740 Let me see if I can find the sounds.

02:24:15.140 I'll,

02:24:15.400 I want your guys' feedback

02:24:16.460 on these potential kick out sounds.

02:24:19.920 Let's see.

02:24:20.500 Okay.

02:24:20.620 So we have.

02:24:22.640 This is Sparta.

02:24:27.220 We have.

02:24:28.480 Peace out.

02:24:29.080 Peace out with you too,

02:24:30.180 homie.

02:24:31.700 And well,

02:24:32.220 we kind of.

02:24:32.520 Keep it change,

02:24:33.580 you filthy animal.

02:24:35.220 Okay.

02:24:35.520 Those are the three.

02:24:36.420 I don't know.

02:24:37.440 All right.

02:24:38.880 Yo,

02:24:39.180 Chaz.

02:24:39.480 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:24:40.620 I think with an age gap present,

02:24:41.780 it's just easier to establish a respectful dynamic between the cup.

02:24:45.760 The men with options will always take the best available option.

02:24:48.180 And also Tara,

02:24:49.260 what gym do go,

02:24:50.440 do go to.

02:24:54.020 Tara.

02:24:54.500 Tara.

02:24:55.340 Tara.

02:24:57.740 No.

02:24:59.580 Oh,

02:24:59.860 shit.

02:25:03.380 Yeah.

02:25:05.100 Unfortunately,

02:25:05.660 she left.

02:25:06.300 I'm sorry.

02:25:06.740 This soup chat probably came in when she was still here.

02:25:09.280 We're a little behind on.

02:25:10.260 Yeah.

02:25:10.480 We're about 30,

02:25:12.200 45 minutes behind on the soup chats or the most recent one.

02:25:15.580 Yo,

02:25:15.760 Alex,

02:25:16.120 thanks for the $10 soup chat.

02:25:17.140 Appreciate the support.

02:25:19.500 Just a reminder,

02:25:20.300 $10.

02:25:20.760 Nicotine.

02:25:21.400 You guys know what nicotine is?

02:25:23.260 Cancer.

02:25:24.580 Yeah.

02:25:25.000 But that's why I'm like,

02:25:26.360 actually,

02:25:26.900 matter of fact,

02:25:27.680 I was like a piss too.

02:25:29.340 Oh.

02:25:29.780 I'm going to go fucking hit my date.

02:25:31.580 Okay.

02:25:32.780 Trunks.

02:25:33.200 Trunks.

02:25:33.240 No,

02:25:33.340 but they want to,

02:25:34.600 they want to,

02:25:35.020 you got to stay for the soup chats.

02:25:39.920 Whoa.

02:25:40.560 Okay.

02:25:41.080 Yo,

02:25:41.280 Gus,

02:25:41.580 $10 soup chat.

02:25:42.300 Thank you,

02:25:42.540 man.

02:25:42.680 How would you feel if man called you weak,

02:25:44.440 short and dumb for wanting someone that is more stronger than you,

02:25:47.260 more money,

02:25:47.720 confident,

02:25:48.180 taller,

02:25:48.420 ambitious,

02:25:48.800 good leader.

02:25:49.520 Sounds dumb.

02:25:50.480 Doesn't it?

02:25:51.440 Men lead,

02:25:52.800 women follow.

02:25:54.080 Your thoughts on that super chat.

02:25:58.900 I think he's just angry.

02:26:01.340 I think Gus needs to work on,

02:26:02.820 wording his sentences because every single one he sends is like,

02:26:06.360 takes me a second.

02:26:07.940 Well,

02:26:08.400 is it like he's saying,

02:26:09.820 if you want a guy who's stronger,

02:26:11.620 taller,

02:26:12.160 more makes good money,

02:26:13.480 confident,

02:26:14.160 ambitious,

02:26:14.660 et cetera.

02:26:15.180 Does that mean that you're weak,

02:26:16.480 short and dumb?

02:26:18.160 Basically because women shame men for what they want as preferences.

02:26:20.740 And then what we say,

02:26:22.060 we can have tall six figures,

02:26:23.540 six inch,

02:26:24.060 all this,

02:26:24.440 and no one shames us.

02:26:25.180 We can have whatever we want.

02:26:26.280 I don't really get it.

02:26:27.260 I don't know.

02:26:27.660 Cause just because I'm with a man who's weak or with a man who's strong and

02:26:31.280 whatever he said,

02:26:32.000 the other ones doesn't mean now that I'm short or not.

02:26:35.000 You missed the point.

02:26:36.160 It's just,

02:26:36.440 maybe I am because I'm always wording it because I don't think those go hand

02:26:39.700 in hand.

02:26:40.400 Why can't we be strong and tall and shit together?

02:26:43.780 All right.

02:26:44.480 We got dart Sam with the Canadian $10.

02:26:47.260 Thank you.

02:26:47.580 If women don't have their frontal cortex,

02:26:49.000 not developed until 21,

02:26:50.400 then should women not date at all until they're 21 men in their 18s are more

02:26:54.040 immature.

02:26:54.420 There is more chance to have a power play.

02:26:58.580 Okay.

02:26:59.300 All right.

02:27:00.660 Yeah.

02:27:01.660 I mean,

02:27:02.200 when it comes to that whole thing,

02:27:03.380 I mean,

02:27:03.640 you could even argue that younger women are actually at their peak agency when

02:27:08.160 they're between like 18 to 22.

02:27:09.840 I think you have the most negotiating power when it comes to finding a partner at

02:27:16.060 that age versus when you're 31.

02:27:18.520 So who really has the power?

02:27:21.500 I think.

02:27:22.660 Plus also,

02:27:23.700 Oh,

02:27:23.880 I wanted to bring this up related to that.

02:27:25.940 Um,

02:27:26.620 I think women get way more experience than men do in the dating realm at a young

02:27:32.260 age.

02:27:32.860 So women are running circles and women are,

02:27:36.520 I think are just more attuned socially to begin with.

02:27:39.200 So women are just already running circles around men,

02:27:42.440 their same age.

02:27:43.720 So like women have,

02:27:47.300 by the time a woman's 21,

02:27:49.500 she's had way more experience dealing with men.

02:27:52.380 Well,

02:27:52.880 I don't know if I want to go down this road.

02:27:53.920 Cause this might.

02:27:54.820 Yeah.

02:27:55.600 You've had way more experience dealing with men than the reverse.

02:27:59.340 I wouldn't say that because I definitely know that boys at my high school,

02:28:03.260 at least we're going rampant while most of the girls weren't for the fear of

02:28:06.560 being called a hoe or more.

02:28:08.780 But I do agree with your statement that at the same age and at least

02:28:12.420 intelligent wise and like,

02:28:13.660 you know,

02:28:14.080 the power field and stuff,

02:28:15.740 most women.

02:28:16.640 Yeah.

02:28:17.080 At the exact same age growing up have more intellectual power and can maybe

02:28:22.760 manipulate a man worse than they could them.

02:28:25.220 Yeah.

02:28:26.560 But I don't think that's because they have more experience or not.

02:28:30.600 I think because we're generally smarter.

02:28:31.940 Wait,

02:28:33.820 you're saying the guys,

02:28:34.620 the guys,

02:28:35.120 I was kidding.

02:28:35.560 I was kidding.

02:28:36.000 I was kidding.

02:28:36.680 I was kidding.

02:28:37.160 I was kidding.

02:28:39.480 No,

02:28:39.600 but the guys at your high school,

02:28:41.320 you said they were,

02:28:42.200 you mean like the top 10% of guys?

02:28:45.020 I would say overall there was more guys getting more experience.

02:28:47.980 The guys are getting more experience with girls than vice versa because guys

02:28:52.260 weren't scared of being called a hoe or a whore for hopping into a relationship

02:28:55.820 relationship or hooking up with this girl or dating this girl.

02:28:58.840 They didn't have that fear.

02:29:00.160 Whereas as girls,

02:29:01.680 I remember all my friends super scared.

02:29:03.400 Like if they would move on from one guy too quickly,

02:29:05.240 there would be the next hoe or like I,

02:29:07.420 that was a big thing at my school,

02:29:08.700 at least in my schools in my area.

02:29:10.780 I don't know if that's common everywhere.

02:29:13.020 All right.

02:29:13.260 Well,

02:29:13.740 we got Eric Chilson here with the $10 soup chat.

02:29:15.620 Thank you,

02:29:15.860 man.

02:29:15.960 Appreciate it.

02:29:16.740 These women are looking at relationships like they're a battlefield instead of a

02:29:21.380 union.

02:29:22.220 Thinking men want to manipulate their partners is such a pessimistic,

02:29:26.580 excuse me,

02:29:27.280 pessimistic view to have on men.

02:29:29.540 I mean,

02:29:29.780 that is a good point.

02:29:30.620 And I often think like,

02:29:32.460 well,

02:29:32.780 okay,

02:29:33.000 let's say you,

02:29:33.980 a 20 year old girl,

02:29:35.080 is she better off fucking a 20 year old fuck boy?

02:29:38.720 Who's going to fucking play games with her fucking trucker,

02:29:42.740 boom,

02:29:43.620 just run a one night stand or a 30 year old guy who wants a genuine loving

02:29:50.500 relationship with her,

02:29:51.580 who wants to provide protect and you know,

02:29:56.480 wants something serious,

02:29:58.000 which is better for the girl?

02:30:00.340 The older guy.

02:30:00.780 Definitely the older guy.

02:30:02.460 Yeah.

02:30:02.680 I prefer that too for younger women.

02:30:05.280 I mean,

02:30:06.840 I don't know.

02:30:07.300 Cause he's more secure.

02:30:08.340 I think that guy made a good point.

02:30:09.800 Yeah.

02:30:10.380 It is a very good point.

02:30:11.460 Yeah.

02:30:11.640 Cause he's more secure.

02:30:12.280 He could do more things for you than a fuck boy.

02:30:13.780 He's probably going to be around a whole bunch of little girls.

02:30:15.880 It's all he wants to keep messing around with girls.

02:30:17.380 That's not good.

02:30:17.880 I think it's older is more stable.

02:30:19.500 I think it would be not,

02:30:20.940 I don't want to like frame it from a point of view of like damaging that

02:30:23.720 it's damaging to date a guy who's older,

02:30:25.600 but you can make that if,

02:30:26.840 if you do say it's somehow problematic in some way for a woman to want to

02:30:30.620 date or for a woman to date an older guy,

02:30:32.860 I mean,

02:30:33.740 in terms of the impact on her life,

02:30:35.900 I would assume that just getting passed around by a bunch of 20 year old

02:30:39.800 fuck boys that don't fucking treat her poorly versus dating an older guy.

02:30:45.400 Who's going to commit to her.

02:30:46.560 Who's going to be loyal.

02:30:47.500 Who's going to provide and protect.

02:30:49.020 I just,

02:30:49.500 I'm trying to do the algebra here.

02:30:51.820 It just seems like that's would be better for her.

02:30:56.020 Who's to say every older guy is like that.

02:30:59.720 And every 22 year old man is like that.

02:31:02.520 I mean,

02:31:05.440 within the example that I provided,

02:31:08.620 there's certainly 20 year old men that are happy to find commitment.

02:31:13.120 And there's 30 year old guys that just want a one night stand.

02:31:17.040 But I mean,

02:31:19.240 you guys live in Ivy.

02:31:21.000 Some of you live in Ivy or did live in Isla Vista.

02:31:23.100 Do you live in Isla Vista?

02:31:24.240 No.

02:31:24.740 Wait,

02:31:25.020 remind me,

02:31:25.420 you guys go to,

02:31:26.140 where'd you guys go to school?

02:31:29.440 I'm not in college.

02:31:30.520 I guess I wasn't even listening for like a year,

02:31:34.660 but.

02:31:35.320 Oh,

02:31:35.580 so you guys are just working.

02:31:36.800 Yeah.

02:31:37.040 Oh,

02:31:37.160 so you're from Santa Barbara then.

02:31:38.420 Okay,

02:31:38.820 sweet.

02:31:39.200 805.

02:31:39.660 Let's go.

02:31:40.520 So yeah,

02:31:42.120 I was going to say,

02:31:42.780 oh,

02:31:43.120 it's kind of tough,

02:31:43.840 but like a lot of the complaints that women have that live here in Isla Vista,

02:31:49.600 college town,

02:31:50.480 UCSB,

02:31:51.240 they can't find commitment.

02:31:52.540 All the guys do is they just want to hook up.

02:31:54.180 That's the common complaint I hear from women who go to UCSB who come on the show.

02:31:58.340 And would it be so bad if instead of getting,

02:32:02.900 you know,

02:32:04.300 just fucked once and then maybe that's what they want.

02:32:07.700 Maybe they just want to fuck a guy once and then never talk to him again.

02:32:11.060 I don't.

02:32:12.620 Maybe.

02:32:13.160 Have you guys ever met like a 30 year old man that like you guys seen as like a good,

02:32:16.480 you know,

02:32:17.300 relation?

02:32:17.660 That's why I,

02:32:18.340 I've seen that before.

02:32:19.140 Even one of my friends,

02:32:19.900 she's way younger and she's dating like a 30 something year old.

02:32:22.280 Man,

02:32:22.500 I'm telling you right now,

02:32:23.260 best relationship she's ever been in.

02:32:24.740 He does everything for her and she used to get fucked over a lot.

02:32:27.220 And she's way younger than me.

02:32:28.500 So I just know this from experience.

02:32:30.540 So I see nothing wrong with dating an older guy,

02:32:32.320 especially if he's more stable and like mature.

02:32:34.180 I don't see anything wrong with dating an older guy either.

02:32:38.140 But I mean,

02:32:38.960 you're,

02:32:39.380 but it depends for me on how big that age gap is.

02:32:43.900 So 20 and 33 is too old.

02:32:47.300 You can offend me.

02:32:51.040 That's fine.

02:32:52.200 I personally,

02:32:54.720 I have a little sister.

02:32:56.060 Would I want her as a 20 year old to date a 33 year old man?

02:32:59.780 No.

02:33:00.680 So you would judge her based off of that?

02:33:01.960 I would judge her.

02:33:02.900 No,

02:33:03.160 I would give her advice and be like,

02:33:05.420 you know what?

02:33:05.940 I don't know if this is the smartest decision to make and to be in a relationship with a 33

02:33:10.480 year old man.

02:33:11.600 He has like an upper hand.

02:33:13.340 He has more control.

02:33:14.520 Although that is not always the case.

02:33:16.660 I know that is not always the case.

02:33:18.480 And personally,

02:33:19.520 I do think I would enjoy dating somebody who is older because they are a little bit more

02:33:24.140 mature and have more going for themselves.

02:33:29.300 I think that you literally just answered your own question.

02:33:31.420 So why wouldn't it be okay for her to date that person?

02:33:33.600 Like imagine he's stable.

02:33:34.920 He can take care of her.

02:33:35.740 He can lead her into success.

02:33:36.760 And you're over here thinking negative and you don't even know the guy yet.

02:33:39.440 And I'm not saying,

02:33:39.840 I'm not saying all man.

02:33:40.520 And I'm not saying you're just exactly saying that,

02:33:41.960 but you never know.

02:33:42.720 You know,

02:33:43.200 I would say you have a negative thought about that.

02:33:45.380 I would say you're 20.

02:33:46.480 You're really young.

02:33:47.440 There's a lot of life to experience.

02:33:49.740 What's the life she needs to experience?

02:33:51.380 Getting ran through.

02:33:52.000 Yeah.

02:33:52.260 That's all.

02:33:52.540 That's all I hear.

02:33:53.280 Why?

02:33:53.700 A lot of women getting ran through.

02:33:55.260 Used to settle down young.

02:33:56.220 Why is,

02:33:57.480 why can't you connect with people without having sex?

02:34:00.220 Why can't you have a,

02:34:01.360 I,

02:34:01.760 why do that?

02:34:03.840 You just said,

02:34:04.380 but you can,

02:34:04.880 you just sleep with them until you're dating.

02:34:06.200 That's why it's okay to be in a relationship.

02:34:07.600 I never said ran through.

02:34:08.480 I'm asking her something completely different.

02:34:10.140 I know,

02:34:10.660 but are you in a relationship right now?

02:34:12.680 No.

02:34:13.120 So are you ran through?

02:34:14.080 Nope.

02:34:14.400 Never.

02:34:14.720 Okay.

02:34:15.080 So I don't understand.

02:34:16.020 You guys always saying if they're single,

02:34:17.580 they're ran through.

02:34:18.180 You guys act like the only reason why someone wants to be not in a relationship.

02:34:20.940 It's not that.

02:34:21.200 It's to fuck random people.

02:34:22.180 It's the fact that she's saying,

02:34:23.240 just do whatever you want or just whatever.

02:34:25.020 But if she has a guy who's stable for her,

02:34:26.700 wants to be with her in the long run,

02:34:28.380 because not,

02:34:28.880 not everybody in a relationship.

02:34:30.880 Young is not everything.

02:34:32.140 In the long run,

02:34:32.500 we all want to be married or want something like that.

02:34:34.980 Not everyone.

02:34:35.260 I just said not everybody,

02:34:36.400 but you're not listening.

02:34:37.300 So if that's the end goal,

02:34:39.160 why not let her be married and be with somebody who might take care of her in the future

02:34:42.180 instead of tainting it and having your mindset on something negative

02:34:45.180 before you even know the person?

02:34:46.740 That's just all I'm saying.

02:34:47.460 You know,

02:34:47.640 you can do whatever you want.

02:34:48.400 It's your life.

02:34:50.040 I was just talking about your ran through comment.

02:34:51.600 I wasn't even listening to the fuck I'm talking about.

02:34:52.440 I didn't even say it.

02:34:52.940 He did.

02:34:53.240 And you're coming at me.

02:34:54.000 All right,

02:34:54.220 let's move.

02:34:54.540 You're after him.

02:34:55.520 I said,

02:34:56.140 yup.

02:34:56.720 That's it.

02:34:57.100 You said ran through.

02:34:57.700 There's more.

02:34:58.100 You're saying there's more to life.

02:34:59.300 You can ask me a question.

02:35:00.440 You're saying there's more to life,

02:35:02.320 but yet you can't answer what's more to life.

02:35:03.760 What else?

02:35:04.280 I'm saying you,

02:35:05.260 you don't have to be.

02:35:07.700 Just answer the question.

02:35:08.780 What else is there more to life?

02:35:10.100 It depends on who you're dating.

02:35:11.280 No,

02:35:11.380 no,

02:35:11.640 nothing.

02:35:12.100 What's more to life?

02:35:13.220 Hanging out with your friends,

02:35:14.780 having your career.

02:35:15.480 until you're 40.

02:35:16.180 That's what I'm getting at.

02:35:17.020 Yeah.

02:35:17.640 Some people are totally okay with that.

02:35:19.360 Not everybody wants to be.

02:35:19.940 You're going to be an 80 year old grandma hanging out with your friends.

02:35:21.380 Seriously?

02:35:21.960 Yeah.

02:35:22.160 My grandma stays with her friends every day and she loves them.

02:35:24.740 And she has her same friend group.

02:35:25.580 You think relationships are the end all be all of life?

02:35:28.680 Not everybody wants to marry.

02:35:29.380 The only point of life is to be in a relationship.

02:35:31.640 But see,

02:35:32.160 we're different.

02:35:32.920 I was raised by grandparents,

02:35:35.060 so I believe in tradition.

02:35:36.020 Me too.

02:35:36.320 I was raised by my Roman Catholic grandparents.

02:35:38.920 It doesn't seem like it.

02:35:39.920 Sorry.

02:35:40.440 So it doesn't seem like you even picked up any of their information that they told you.

02:35:43.100 Sorry.

02:35:43.680 But I'm just saying,

02:35:44.380 everybody else has different things that they want for themselves.

02:35:47.920 But come on,

02:35:47.940 tell me that.

02:35:48.440 Most women want to be mad.

02:35:49.220 Wait,

02:35:49.380 wait,

02:35:49.580 guys.

02:35:50.160 Okay,

02:35:50.580 hold on.

02:35:51.920 Hold on.

02:35:52.780 Guys.

02:35:53.100 I have to pee really bad too.

02:35:54.420 I can't even tell what's happening.

02:35:55.580 We'll do the super chats.

02:35:57.240 Go ahead.

02:35:57.840 Go ahead.

02:35:58.440 Yeah,

02:35:58.580 yeah,

02:35:58.720 go for it.

02:35:59.040 Go for it.

02:35:59.140 I'm so done.

02:36:00.540 I'm getting a headache.

02:36:02.300 I know.

02:36:03.140 This question is annoying.

02:36:04.740 Okay.

02:36:05.280 Fluorescent lighting.

02:36:06.760 Troy Gabe,

02:36:07.540 Canadian,

02:36:08.500 $14.

02:36:10.440 Thank you,

02:36:10.700 man.

02:36:10.800 Appreciate it.

02:36:11.880 We have Truth Savant with the $10 soup chat.

02:36:14.420 Thank you,

02:36:14.660 man.

02:36:14.740 Appreciate it.

02:36:15.660 Yo,

02:36:15.860 we have David Drysdale.

02:36:17.240 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

02:36:18.380 Appreciate the support,

02:36:19.580 man.

02:36:20.000 Which is more attractive to y'all if a guy can get other women or if a guy can't get

02:36:23.700 any women?

02:36:25.060 And is it attractive if you find out that your guy has visited a lot of strip clubs?

02:36:30.020 Guys,

02:36:30.440 we'll come back to that.

02:36:31.140 Just once Keith goes back,

02:36:32.420 we'll come back to your soup chat.

02:36:34.300 Gus,

02:36:34.760 $10 soup chat.

02:36:35.540 Your money,

02:36:35.980 career,

02:36:36.320 status,

02:36:36.640 and experience doesn't make a woman more sexier or attractive.

02:36:40.160 That's what makes a man attractive.

02:36:42.020 Attraction is not symmetrical.

02:36:43.240 We want ambition to be a wife,

02:36:45.560 mother,

02:36:46.320 feminine,

02:36:47.020 fit,

02:36:47.620 young,

02:36:48.620 and peace.

02:36:49.220 We want peace.

02:36:49.800 That's a big one.

02:36:51.640 Yeah.

02:36:51.880 And also with the whole like career money thing,

02:36:54.240 you brought that up before in terms of what a guy would have in common with

02:36:58.540 someone who's a bit older.

02:37:01.380 One of the reasons men don't,

02:37:03.740 it doesn't really matter to us is because women don't really share their

02:37:07.800 resources with the men the same way that men share their resources with

02:37:11.160 women.

02:37:11.440 And women rarely like will spoil a guy,

02:37:14.460 especially early on the same way that a guy will spoil a girl.

02:37:18.900 I feel like it's unfair to make that assumption.

02:37:20.920 It's not unfair.

02:37:22.000 Wait,

02:37:22.200 unfair to make that assumption.

02:37:23.540 I think I'd know a lot of women who,

02:37:25.800 women who,

02:37:26.320 if they have the means to that,

02:37:28.060 they,

02:37:28.480 that they would.

02:37:29.500 And spoiling doesn't only have to be in like terms of money.

02:37:33.700 You can be there,

02:37:35.500 support your partner emotionally.

02:37:37.720 It's physically like it's just because a man,

02:37:41.440 but we're talking about money though.

02:37:43.540 We're talking specifically about money.

02:37:45.460 Okay.

02:37:45.900 So I'm talking about spoiling someone.

02:37:48.800 I think it's just,

02:37:49.820 sorry,

02:37:50.760 go ahead.

02:37:51.080 I was just going to say,

02:37:51.740 I think it's more common,

02:37:52.680 I guess,

02:37:53.480 for the man to be the one spoiling and having more money.

02:37:56.100 But I mean,

02:37:56.680 most of the time when I have met women who are financially able to,

02:38:00.100 and they,

02:38:00.800 they will,

02:38:01.380 they can't.

02:38:01.820 I've dated very successful women who make a lot of money.

02:38:05.540 They don't even want to pay for the first date.

02:38:07.380 That's crazy.

02:38:08.020 I used to pay for my ex boy.

02:38:10.180 And looking back on this now,

02:38:11.400 I don't think I should have done this.

02:38:13.120 I think we should have gone 50,

02:38:14.120 50,

02:38:14.420 but I used to pay for our entire rent,

02:38:17.500 all our utility bills,

02:38:18.940 everything.

02:38:20.060 And he went,

02:38:21.260 and he was in nursing school.

02:38:22.620 And I'm not,

02:38:22.980 I don't think that's like a good thing on me.

02:38:24.440 I look back on that.

02:38:25.240 I'm like,

02:38:25.480 okay,

02:38:25.720 you were stupid,

02:38:26.220 but I'm just saying that I think that there are definitely women that do that to help a man.

02:38:30.840 There,

02:38:31.200 there are,

02:38:32.040 but it's dreams,

02:38:32.880 but most women,

02:38:33.840 like if they are supporting their guy,

02:38:35.840 it's going to be like,

02:38:36.680 they don't,

02:38:37.780 they won't do it longterm.

02:38:39.300 Maybe they'll like hold a guy down for a couple months,

02:38:41.800 but like not,

02:38:43.940 they're going to start having contempt for their partner.

02:38:46.500 If they're holding it down,

02:38:47.600 like for a long period of time,

02:38:49.980 and look,

02:38:51.520 some women are happy,

02:38:52.640 are cool being the breadwinner,

02:38:54.100 but most guys experience.

02:38:56.060 And I can tell you from my experience,

02:38:57.480 most women are not offering on a date to pay the whole bill.

02:39:01.720 Yeah.

02:39:02.340 Whereas guys will do that shit all the fucking time.

02:39:05.720 That's just the stereotype.

02:39:07.680 It's not,

02:39:08.460 it's actually,

02:39:09.220 it's not a stereotype.

02:39:10.540 The reason why divorces are ending because women make more money.

02:39:13.620 They see their husbands as less than,

02:39:15.120 so it's like,

02:39:15.540 it's proven.

02:39:16.140 That's actually a good point.

02:39:17.280 I think the stat is,

02:39:18.460 is that so 50% of marriages end in divorce.

02:39:22.500 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

02:39:25.540 And that number rises to 90% if she's college educated and she's the breadwinner.

02:39:33.040 So if she makes more money for some strange reason,

02:39:37.020 they're more likely to initiate a divorce.

02:39:40.340 But can I initiate a point from,

02:39:42.900 that might just go to that and you can continue.

02:39:44.840 Go ahead.

02:39:45.560 Oh,

02:39:45.660 you go ahead.

02:39:46.100 Well,

02:39:46.320 no,

02:39:46.540 it's just the only thing I was going to end with is that the,

02:39:51.380 the way I can dispel this idea that women don't share their resources with men

02:39:56.480 in the same way that men do,

02:39:57.880 or that women don't spoil their men the same way that men spoil women is women.

02:40:05.640 Kiko,

02:40:06.340 who should pay on the first date?

02:40:08.280 Whoever's asking the person out.

02:40:10.920 That's not what you said last time you were on the show.

02:40:12.980 You said men should pay.

02:40:13.800 I said,

02:40:14.240 no,

02:40:14.540 you,

02:40:14.820 it was actually on Tik TOK.

02:40:16.000 So I just watched what I said and I went to rewatch what you cut out.

02:40:19.120 What I said too.

02:40:20.320 Yes.

02:40:20.780 We just watched it.

02:40:21.960 I said,

02:40:23.140 at first I said,

02:40:24.160 I would not typically be paying.

02:40:25.840 I probably will never be paying for a first date.

02:40:27.720 Cause I don't ever see myself pursuing somebody and asking them out on a first date.

02:40:31.820 So the man should pay.

02:40:32.800 I think whoever asked someone would like asking men out on date.

02:40:35.380 Then if she,

02:40:35.860 if a woman asks a man out on a date says,

02:40:37.380 Hey,

02:40:37.840 I fuck with you.

02:40:38.860 I want to go get some coffee or go get some food.

02:40:40.960 She better pay for it.

02:40:41.940 That does happen.

02:40:42.700 And I think she should pay for it.

02:40:43.960 Okay.

02:40:44.100 Okay.

02:40:44.500 Let me counter that.

02:40:46.940 So if a woman had the position of,

02:40:50.320 I'm never going to approach a guy.

02:40:52.520 I'll wait till guys approach me or initiate with me.

02:40:56.240 She can find a partner.

02:40:58.900 The majority of men,

02:41:00.380 if they say,

02:41:01.080 you know what?

02:41:01.740 I'm going to sit back.

02:41:02.700 I'm going to let a girl approach me,

02:41:05.020 ask for my number,

02:41:06.400 set up the date,

02:41:07.400 take the lead,

02:41:08.100 go for the first kiss,

02:41:09.380 escalate things sexually.

02:41:10.960 That man is a virgin for life.

02:41:12.440 He will die a virgin.

02:41:14.000 Correct.

02:41:14.760 He will,

02:41:15.780 unless he's exceptionally attractive,

02:41:18.840 guys don't have the benefit of just waiting for women to come to them.

02:41:22.560 Correct.

02:41:22.920 But this is what the society that men created.

02:41:26.800 Y'all are the ones who set all these standards in place,

02:41:28.800 not us.

02:41:29.680 So we match ourselves for that.

02:41:31.320 But it is naive to say that whoever pays should ask,

02:41:36.580 or sorry,

02:41:36.980 excuse me,

02:41:37.340 I'm butchering the word.

02:41:38.960 Whoever asks should pay.

02:41:41.160 It's naive to say that that's how it ought to be,

02:41:44.160 because it ignores the fact that in the vast majority of instances where somebody's asking someone out,

02:41:49.800 it's going to be the guy asking the woman out.

02:41:52.340 So you might as well just say men should pay.

02:41:55.460 Yeah,

02:41:55.760 that sucks.

02:41:56.480 But I only reason why I say whoever asked to pay is for those exceptions that we have.

02:42:00.620 That's literally why.

02:42:02.020 Because they are exceptions.

02:42:03.300 So yeah,

02:42:04.040 I agree with you.

02:42:05.240 90% of the time,

02:42:06.040 it will be the man paying.

02:42:07.220 Sorry.

02:42:07.900 I don't know if they want to cry about it or not.

02:42:09.300 I can tell you anecdotally,

02:42:10.460 as someone who's probably gone over on over a hundred first dates,

02:42:13.920 one time,

02:42:15.300 one time a girl bought me a burrito.

02:42:19.200 Every other time,

02:42:20.280 it was either split

02:42:21.440 or I paid.

02:42:24.160 Every other time,

02:42:25.220 I've gone on over,

02:42:26.600 it's probably over 200 first dates,

02:42:28.340 to be honest.

02:42:28.780 Well,

02:42:30.420 guys want to be the provider.

02:42:32.540 That's like a red flag.

02:42:35.180 I'm just kidding.

02:42:35.960 I just can't.

02:42:36.360 I love you,

02:42:36.640 Brian.

02:42:36.900 I love you.

02:42:37.100 Well,

02:42:37.280 you know,

02:42:37.840 W's for Brian in the chat.

02:42:38.780 W's for Brian in the chat.

02:42:38.980 I used to,

02:42:39.660 what's the percentage that got second dates?

02:42:42.660 Right.

02:42:43.040 I think that's the real question.

02:42:44.540 Have you seen those like TikToks where they went through all their first dates?

02:42:47.520 Yeah,

02:42:47.960 it's so much.

02:42:50.560 But,

02:42:51.060 and that,

02:42:53.100 my experience is the experience of most men.

02:42:56.900 It's either split or the guy pays.

02:42:58.780 Where are the trophy?

02:43:01.040 Like,

02:43:01.140 I don't know if you want me,

02:43:01.820 I agree with you.

02:43:02.620 I don't know if you want to cry about it or not,

02:43:04.460 but like,

02:43:04.800 yes.

02:43:04.900 Are women the trophy though?

02:43:06.060 Yes.

02:43:06.600 A hundred percent.

02:43:07.340 Why?

02:43:07.520 Women are the trophy.

02:43:08.280 Why?

02:43:08.660 You get down on one knee,

02:43:09.920 and you propose to me,

02:43:10.940 to make me say yes.

02:43:11.600 You go and buy me a pretty ring worth thousands of dollars,

02:43:13.820 and ask for my hand in marriage.

02:43:15.180 I'm not asking for yours.

02:43:16.300 And that's why you should not get married,

02:43:18.220 gentlemen.

02:43:19.200 Don't get married.

02:43:20.300 50% divorce rate,

02:43:21.480 80% of divorces are initiated by women.

02:43:25.240 And,

02:43:25.520 Or get a prenup.

02:43:27.440 And they get thrown out all the time.

02:43:29.300 Yeah.

02:43:30.160 Prenups are not ironclad.

02:43:31.440 They can get thrown out.

02:43:32.460 Oh,

02:43:32.560 I was under duress.

02:43:34.540 He forced me to resign.

02:43:38.920 Okay.

02:43:39.280 I don't even know how did we get to all that,

02:43:42.680 the career.

02:43:43.080 Oh,

02:43:43.540 I will come back to the super chat now that you're back.

02:43:45.640 He was asking,

02:43:46.600 what is more attractive to y'all?

02:43:47.680 If a guy can get other women,

02:43:48.840 or if a guy can get any,

02:43:50.420 wait,

02:43:51.000 if a guy can get other women,

02:43:52.540 or if a guy can't get any women,

02:43:54.700 and is it attractive if you find out that your guy has visited a lot of strip

02:43:58.200 clubs?

02:43:58.600 Go ahead.

02:43:59.800 Actually,

02:44:00.220 Tay,

02:44:00.420 let's start with you.

02:44:02.080 No,

02:44:02.360 I don't like the strip club thing,

02:44:03.600 and I'd rather him not get a lot of women.

02:44:05.220 They get too many women.

02:44:06.060 Because women always complain about men being around so many,

02:44:09.520 so I prefer not to have that,

02:44:11.060 because I can't deal with like a Drake or Chris Brown,

02:44:12.720 not my style at all.

02:44:14.560 Yeah,

02:44:14.960 I don't really think that that determines how attractive you are for me.

02:44:18.680 I mean,

02:44:18.980 I just kind of like what she was saying.

02:44:21.300 I definitely would rather have you not get many women than get a lot of

02:44:25.480 women.

02:44:25.840 And the strip club thing,

02:44:26.960 I mean,

02:44:27.920 I don't like it,

02:44:29.600 but I mean,

02:44:30.640 if it's like a one night drunk out with your dudes,

02:44:33.400 I mean,

02:44:33.680 I think it's something that I could look past,

02:44:35.460 but it's definitely not something I like.

02:44:38.140 No.

02:44:40.080 What was the question?

02:44:41.920 Would you prefer your guy to get a lot of girls?

02:44:44.520 Get a lot of girls or not get a lot of girls?

02:44:45.880 I also agree,

02:44:46.680 like that's not really my base,

02:44:50.040 how I would base attraction.

02:44:53.680 And I've been to a strip club,

02:44:56.000 so.

02:44:57.240 Okay.

02:44:58.100 I would prefer it if my boyfriend didn't go to the strip club.

02:45:01.240 I wouldn't even mind if he was a gamer 24-7,

02:45:03.860 honestly.

02:45:04.660 And yeah,

02:45:05.040 I'd prefer it if he wasn't a man whore.

02:45:07.260 You,

02:45:07.660 you want him to be a gamer?

02:45:09.660 He is a gamer.

02:45:10.560 Oh,

02:45:10.680 he is a gamer?

02:45:11.100 And I don't even mind it now.

02:45:12.220 What's he play?

02:45:14.580 Everything.

02:45:15.100 Right now it's the new Call of Duty.

02:45:16.660 Call of Duty?

02:45:17.300 Is he watching right now?

02:45:19.040 No.

02:45:19.540 What's his name?

02:45:20.060 Maybe.

02:45:20.640 What's his name?

02:45:21.400 Or actually,

02:45:21.860 no,

02:45:21.960 no,

02:45:22.060 no,

02:45:22.200 sorry,

02:45:22.480 don't.

02:45:22.600 Never mind.

02:45:23.340 I'm not going to say it.

02:45:24.100 Yeah,

02:45:24.340 yeah,

02:45:24.560 yeah.

02:45:24.700 Actually,

02:45:26.860 this kind of brings me back,

02:45:27.920 like,

02:45:28.180 so would you guys really quick,

02:45:29.760 would you guys date a gamer?

02:45:31.320 Yes.

02:45:31.600 Yes,

02:45:32.040 I know.

02:45:32.380 I want to date a gamer.

02:45:33.120 I'm going to become a gamer soon.

02:45:34.020 They're out of trouble.

02:45:35.320 I don't know.

02:45:36.020 I've been there.

02:45:37.400 Yeah,

02:45:37.640 I dated a gamer for almost four years,

02:45:39.700 was engaged to him,

02:45:40.820 and no,

02:45:41.440 it genuinely took a lot of time.

02:45:43.060 You're a,

02:45:43.700 what do you play?

02:45:44.820 I mean,

02:45:45.400 not anything like Black Ops or Warzone,

02:45:48.040 but I like video games.

02:45:49.980 Animal Crossing?

02:45:50.920 I was going to say.

02:45:51.620 I like the Spider-Man game.

02:45:53.620 I like the Transformers,

02:45:54.860 Batman.

02:45:55.480 I think it depends on what a gamer is.

02:45:56.780 Mortal Kombat.

02:45:57.940 If you're gaming,

02:45:58.820 Borderlands.

02:45:59.840 If you're gaming as a hobby,

02:46:01.360 then no,

02:46:01.960 it's really not that big of a deal,

02:46:03.420 but if you're.

02:46:03.820 What if that was his career,

02:46:04.640 though?

02:46:04.880 Like,

02:46:05.040 what if he was like a Twitch streamer,

02:46:06.100 like Aiden Ross?

02:46:06.740 But if he was really successful,

02:46:08.000 yeah,

02:46:08.360 but if.

02:46:08.660 Oh,

02:46:08.800 but it's only the money,

02:46:09.440 though?

02:46:09.580 That's sad.

02:46:10.260 But what if it's his hobby?

02:46:11.220 That's sad.

02:46:11.780 Only money?

02:46:12.620 No,

02:46:13.160 well,

02:46:13.380 if he has a job and that's his hobby,

02:46:15.440 sure,

02:46:15.820 but if he's trying to make it as a Twitcher

02:46:21.620 OK,

02:46:22.180 I want to paint a picture for you guys here.

02:46:24.320 OK,

02:46:24.920 so hold on.

02:46:26.640 I got to pull this up here.

02:46:27.800 Gaming as a hobby is cool.

02:46:29.980 OK,

02:46:30.300 so.

02:46:32.020 Oh,

02:46:32.680 fuck,

02:46:32.980 I played the wrong one.

02:46:35.420 All right,

02:46:36.160 so.

02:46:39.040 Would you date the following man?

02:46:41.400 He's in the top North American hardcore reigning guild

02:46:43.960 in World of Warcraft classic.

02:46:46.100 He's got four level 60s.

02:46:48.800 He's got a rogue main,

02:46:50.240 a warrior primary alt,

02:46:52.740 and then the warlock and a mage,

02:46:54.120 and he parses in the 99th percentile

02:46:56.320 on Warcraft logs.

02:46:58.820 Oh,

02:46:59.000 he's good.

02:46:59.400 He's a legend.

02:47:00.460 He's good.

02:47:01.220 He's real good.

02:47:02.020 And like,

02:47:02.440 I'm telling you,

02:47:03.240 all pink parses,

02:47:04.400 guys,

02:47:04.860 all pink parses.

02:47:09.820 You know,

02:47:10.520 OK,

02:47:10.700 his entire guild,

02:47:12.000 full consumes,

02:47:13.420 full world buffs,

02:47:15.180 summoning alts all over the place.

02:47:17.540 Gamers.

02:47:18.860 Gamers.

02:47:19.300 Am I the only one

02:47:20.220 that doesn't understand anything?

02:47:21.880 What's going on?

02:47:22.540 Bro,

02:47:23.000 Molten Core.

02:47:24.000 Let me,

02:47:24.620 OK,

02:47:25.400 hold up.

02:47:25.660 You build your player.

02:47:26.300 OK.

02:47:26.760 Molten Core.

02:47:27.920 We full clear,

02:47:29.340 not we,

02:47:29.940 I'm sorry.

02:47:30.400 He full clears that

02:47:31.380 in like 30 minutes.

02:47:33.040 BWL,

02:47:33.540 Blackwing Lair,

02:47:34.480 30 minutes.

02:47:37.060 He's got Scare Ablord.

02:47:40.680 Scare Ablord.

02:47:42.740 Even the comments are like,

02:47:44.460 what the fuck?

02:47:44.960 Yo,

02:47:45.120 yo,

02:47:45.240 yo,

02:47:45.500 yo.

02:47:45.720 Hold up,

02:47:46.060 hold up,

02:47:46.340 hold up.

02:47:46.760 Hear me out,

02:47:47.440 hear me out.

02:47:48.600 Hear me out,

02:47:49.400 OK.

02:47:50.200 Here you go,

02:47:51.080 hear me out,

02:47:51.640 OK.

02:47:52.020 They have the world bosses

02:47:53.340 on farm in his guild,

02:47:55.220 Azergos in Azshara on farm,

02:47:57.740 Lord Kazak in Blasted Lands,

02:47:59.600 the Tainted Scar on farm,

02:48:02.120 Nightmare Dragons 2,

02:48:03.380 that's four locations

02:48:04.640 spawning in one place.

02:48:06.500 This is not what I do.

02:48:07.320 90% out of the window.

02:48:12.340 OK,

02:48:12.560 world bosses though,

02:48:13.640 90% of the time,

02:48:14.680 like we get,

02:48:15.340 sorry,

02:48:15.660 he gets the tag and we kill it.

02:48:17.720 We kill the world boss.

02:48:19.460 And we have multiple rank 14,

02:48:21.760 no lifers,

02:48:22.460 like PVP ranking.

02:48:23.580 You could stop getting more.

02:48:24.760 He's doing this on purpose

02:48:26.000 to make us all just look at anything for me.

02:48:28.700 Get this,

02:48:29.380 we level,

02:48:30.500 like,

02:48:30.900 sorry,

02:48:31.260 not we,

02:48:31.580 like the guy,

02:48:33.580 he's a horde,

02:48:34.900 they're on horde,

02:48:36.020 right?

02:48:37.300 I don't worry about it.

02:48:40.520 It's like the most passionate

02:48:41.520 I've seen you all stream.

02:48:43.200 Yeah,

02:48:43.420 yeah,

02:48:43.620 but like,

02:48:44.080 OK,

02:48:45.280 but he's,

02:48:47.440 when it comes to his DPS,

02:48:49.060 when it comes to his DPS,

02:48:50.360 guys,

02:48:51.100 DPS,

02:48:52.240 he's a pumper.

02:48:53.300 Yes.

02:48:54.600 He's a pumper with his DPS.

02:48:57.860 God damn.

02:48:58.320 For sure.

02:48:59.100 Pumper.

02:48:59.580 OK,

02:48:59.800 and then get this,

02:49:02.020 like these guys,

02:49:03.020 they grief too,

02:49:04.080 like,

02:49:04.380 so they'll level up an Alliance Priest

02:49:06.020 on the opposite faction

02:49:07.040 and dispel their world buffs and shit.

02:49:09.200 So like,

02:49:09.860 they're super competitive

02:49:10.820 and,

02:49:11.600 yeah.

02:49:13.340 By the way,

02:49:13.940 like,

02:49:14.540 I want to ask you guys a question.

02:49:19.320 What the fuck?

02:49:21.100 Yo,

02:49:21.580 question,

02:49:21.960 guys,

02:49:22.580 for loot council,

02:49:23.500 like for guild.

02:49:24.340 Oh my God.

02:49:24.820 Guys,

02:49:25.120 guys,

02:49:25.400 pay attention.

02:49:26.020 Pay attention,

02:49:26.500 guys.

02:49:27.340 For the loot council,

02:49:28.480 for the guild,

02:49:28.980 sorry,

02:49:29.460 not,

02:49:29.760 excuse me.

02:49:30.220 What are we fucking talking about?

02:49:31.120 Wait,

02:49:31.320 wait,

02:49:31.800 Kirara.

02:49:32.260 I'm so lost.

02:49:34.080 Try to try to keep up.

02:49:36.040 Hold on.

02:49:37.020 Guys,

02:49:37.280 guys,

02:49:37.480 guys.

02:49:37.680 OK,

02:49:38.120 for the guild,

02:49:39.380 guild loot.

02:49:40.380 What do you guys think is like the best guild loot system?

02:49:43.400 Like,

02:49:43.600 OK,

02:49:43.800 you have loot council,

02:49:45.300 DKP,

02:49:46.200 EPGP,

02:49:47.020 Suicide Kings,

02:49:47.660 or Soft Reserve.

02:49:49.940 Which one?

02:49:51.880 Suicide King.

02:49:52.660 Yeah.

02:49:53.420 OK.

02:49:53.940 DKP.

02:49:54.720 Oh my God.

02:49:55.620 DKP.

02:49:56.140 I mean,

02:49:56.360 yeah.

02:49:56.960 OK.

02:49:57.180 Suicide King.

02:49:58.460 All right.

02:49:59.040 That's fair enough.

02:49:59.480 Sounds like Suicide Boy.

02:50:01.120 You know what I chose it?

02:50:03.560 I learned it.

02:50:05.920 And that's,

02:50:06.920 hold on.

02:50:09.280 And that's how men feel about women's careers.

02:50:12.500 OK,

02:50:12.660 I'm kidding.

02:50:13.000 I'm kidding.

02:50:13.380 I'm kidding.

02:50:14.560 I'm kidding.

02:50:15.520 I'm kidding.

02:50:16.100 I'm kidding.

02:50:16.800 You could have said like hobbies,

02:50:18.000 not careers.

02:50:18.760 OK,

02:50:19.240 I'm kidding.

02:50:19.900 OK,

02:50:20.140 let me,

02:50:20.720 wait,

02:50:21.700 Stifler,

02:50:22.460 Stifler's curious,

02:50:23.400 ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10.

02:50:25.240 Go ahead,

02:50:25.520 Kiara.

02:50:26.360 10.

02:50:27.620 Like eight.

02:50:29.100 10.

02:50:30.660 I would say like a seven or eight.

02:50:32.700 Average.

02:50:33.380 I would say a seven.

02:50:34.400 Wait,

02:50:34.660 so did you both say 10?

02:50:35.920 Yeah.

02:50:37.740 Come on.

02:50:39.660 That's why it's stuttering.

02:50:40.500 Stop the cap.

02:50:41.440 You couldn't even get the button to work.

02:50:42.440 I was,

02:50:42.840 I'm very slow with the buttons tonight.

02:50:44.400 Because the button knew his cap.

02:50:44.940 No,

02:50:45.260 it's because it's,

02:50:46.060 everyone has their different opinions.

02:50:47.340 What's a 10 to somebody is a 10,

02:50:48.500 is not a 10 to somebody else.

02:50:50.100 Brian,

02:50:50.540 you might be somebody's perfect 10.

02:50:51.820 You might be somebody's seven.

02:50:53.040 You might be somebody's four.

02:50:53.860 Or who knows?

02:50:54.340 I could be somebody's 10.

02:50:55.360 I could be somebody's seven.

02:50:56.060 I could be somebody's four.

02:50:57.080 But it feels,

02:50:57.960 the first podcast that came on,

02:50:59.260 I said I was a seven.

02:51:00.300 And I thought about it when I got home.

02:51:01.700 That just feels so stupid and wrong.

02:51:03.740 Wait,

02:51:03.960 Carson,

02:51:04.820 you can pull it up,

02:51:05.520 Carson.

02:51:06.700 Carson's,

02:51:07.140 Carson's really toxic.

02:51:08.480 This is his,

02:51:09.960 this is Carson's,

02:51:11.360 a favorited tab on Instagram.

02:51:13.940 Wow.

02:51:14.160 Yeah.

02:51:14.400 I'm not even worried.

02:51:15.260 So like,

02:51:15.840 exactly.

02:51:16.400 Scroll down.

02:51:16.760 Keep scrolling,

02:51:17.420 Carson.

02:51:17.900 So like,

02:51:18.480 maybe some of these are nines and tens,

02:51:19.880 right?

02:51:20.060 Keep scrolling.

02:51:20.920 Go,

02:51:21.160 go ahead,

02:51:21.620 Carson.

02:51:21.980 Keep going.

02:51:22.440 Keep going.

02:51:22.800 Do all guys have a 10?

02:51:23.700 Is this Monka TOS,

02:51:24.600 by the way?

02:51:24.880 Keep going.

02:51:25.280 Just keep going.

02:51:26.260 Keep going down.

02:51:27.220 Keep going down.

02:51:27.960 Keep scrolling.

02:51:28.580 Keep scrolling,

02:51:29.180 Carson.

02:51:29.980 Oh,

02:51:30.340 who's,

02:51:30.880 wait,

02:51:31.040 go back up a little bit.

02:51:32.080 That's,

02:51:32.520 who's that chick from Smallville?

02:51:33.880 What's her name?

02:51:35.240 She's a 10.

02:51:36.040 What's her fucking name?

02:51:36.820 I don't know her name,

02:51:37.480 but she's a 10.

02:51:38.100 Oh,

02:51:38.220 Kristen Kruick.

02:51:39.560 That's a 10.

02:51:40.480 Keep going.

02:51:41.080 She's a babe.

02:51:42.080 Okay.

02:51:42.920 Yeah.

02:51:43.320 All right.

02:51:43.720 So I mean,

02:51:44.320 a lot of those women are beautiful.

02:51:45.540 Oh,

02:51:45.760 I would think majority of those women,

02:51:47.360 I would consider a 10 too.

02:51:48.260 But who am I to mark myself off points already?

02:51:53.220 That's like,

02:51:53.600 I feel like that's just introducing or allowing somebody to come in and just disrespect me even more.

02:51:59.900 If I don't even see myself as a 10,

02:52:02.740 because everyone has different preferences.

02:52:04.080 But also it was very ironic to me,

02:52:05.260 because you guys spent so much time on here talking about filters and editing,

02:52:07.920 when half of those photos,

02:52:09.160 if not more,

02:52:10.040 were heavily edited.

02:52:11.460 And that's your 10s?

02:52:12.860 Well,

02:52:13.320 I mean,

02:52:13.720 there's bikini photos.

02:52:15.700 Maybe that's why I never.

02:52:16.800 Some of them were,

02:52:17.480 I guarantee Brian,

02:52:19.460 I could literally see most of the lines curving on them,

02:52:21.760 bitches.

02:52:22.180 I saw face app like a motherfucker on there.

02:52:24.900 They all almost have face app on them.

02:52:26.780 Half of those girls don't even look like that in person.

02:52:28.580 No,

02:52:28.680 it's hard to find the proper 10s.

02:52:31.080 Not saying they're nothing.

02:52:31.960 I'm not saying that they're wrong for that,

02:52:33.480 but to use as an example with versus women sitting right in front of you versus some girls you've never seen in real life,

02:52:38.280 you could be,

02:52:39.240 I guess the celebrities,

02:52:40.280 some of the celebrities there,

02:52:41.260 sure.

02:52:41.560 But all these women,

02:52:42.420 you have no idea who they even are.

02:52:43.960 Probably never even seen them moving besides a still photo.

02:52:47.540 And that's why y'all shouldn't be using filters on dating apps.

02:52:51.480 That's what I'm trying to say.

02:52:52.120 I already agreed with that.

02:52:52.520 That's why I've been arguing.

02:52:53.580 We literally all agreed with you with that statement.

02:52:56.000 Okay.

02:52:56.400 Let's get to the next super chat.

02:52:57.700 Let's get through these super chats.

02:52:58.740 We've got to get through the super chats and then we're going to,

02:53:00.320 I don't use filters.

02:53:00.880 Yo guys,

02:53:02.120 get your super chats in because once we're done,

02:53:04.320 we're going to probably wrap up.

02:53:05.440 So yo freeze and thank you for the $20 super chat.

02:53:07.660 Kiko obviously doesn't know Tay.

02:53:09.020 Tay naturally has a deeper voice.

02:53:10.760 Her tone of voice is only rude when she says something that the world doesn't agree with.

02:53:14.660 Once again,

02:53:15.440 love you so much.

02:53:16.800 Tay.

02:53:17.100 Is my voice not deep?

02:53:18.500 I have a pretty fucking deep voice too.

02:53:20.300 It's a tone of voice.

02:53:21.120 It's fine.

02:53:21.400 We both have attitude towards each other.

02:53:22.640 It's a debate.

02:53:23.160 Things get heated,

02:53:23.920 but okay.

02:53:26.300 I don't think that she has a deep voice.

02:53:29.040 Sure.

02:53:29.220 But honestly,

02:53:29.560 because you were saying I was rude.

02:53:30.800 If you read it,

02:53:31.340 it hasn't been in my voice.

02:53:32.680 You were.

02:53:32.960 I'm telling you.

02:53:33.520 You were being rude.

02:53:34.200 It's a debate.

02:53:34.860 I have no issue with you.

02:53:36.020 I think you're beautiful.

02:53:36.840 It's a debate.

02:53:37.700 I do this for a living,

02:53:38.740 but you said I was rude.

02:53:39.520 That's why he's saying that.

02:53:40.300 Because you were rude in that moment.

02:53:41.180 Yes.

02:53:41.380 Your tone of voice is quite rude.

02:53:43.740 That's your opinion.

02:53:44.640 That's my opinion.

02:53:45.760 I don't give a fuck if I know you.

02:53:47.040 See, look.

02:53:47.420 You were being rude in that moment.

02:53:49.300 That's fine.

02:53:50.060 You're very disrespectful.

02:53:50.740 You're pointing all this up.

02:53:51.540 You're very disrespectful.

02:53:52.580 You're very disrespectful too

02:53:53.480 when you were saying to me earlier.

02:53:54.380 I'm literally just explaining this.

02:53:54.680 You got a little mad earlier.

02:53:55.880 Look how mad you're getting.

02:53:56.600 You get a lot.

02:53:57.100 You got a lot of.

02:53:57.720 You got a little mad earlier.

02:53:59.240 I'm not mad at all.

02:53:59.880 You had a tone of voice with me

02:54:00.940 that was rude.

02:54:01.580 I'm not mad at all.

02:54:02.620 I'm telling you.

02:54:03.100 My tone of voice is rude back.

02:54:05.240 No one's mad.

02:54:05.700 You've been rude this whole time.

02:54:07.040 Okay.

02:54:11.380 I've never said anything

02:54:12.300 about your character or anything

02:54:13.300 and you're the only one commenting on mine.

02:54:14.720 I can care less.

02:54:15.120 Wait.

02:54:15.260 Like, that's like,

02:54:15.940 it was so crazy.

02:54:16.600 Let me get, let me, let me just,

02:54:18.860 let me just, oh God.

02:54:20.560 Like, listen, but I'm the rude one.

02:54:22.300 You just told me to shut up

02:54:23.000 in another language.

02:54:23.760 Be quiet.

02:54:24.580 Let's just, everyone, everyone,

02:54:27.020 let's just keep it.

02:54:28.040 No, I'm fine.

02:54:28.760 But it's just like,

02:54:29.200 don't act like you're some cool,

02:54:30.260 calm, eclective person

02:54:30.940 when you're far from it.

02:54:31.760 Trust me, if I was screaming

02:54:32.780 and getting up and wild,

02:54:33.800 you would know when I'm getting like that.

02:54:34.960 And I'm not far,

02:54:36.020 like, I'm not even close to being upset.

02:54:37.400 This is what I do for a living, baby.

02:54:38.620 It's a debate.

02:54:39.400 Calm down.

02:54:39.780 I don't give a fuck if you're upset.

02:54:41.120 I'm just saying,

02:54:42.100 your tone of voice can be rude sometimes.

02:54:44.080 Guys, guys, guys, guys.

02:54:44.860 Guys, guys, guys.

02:54:45.000 No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:54:45.860 Tell me to shut up.

02:54:46.380 Hold up, hold on, hold on.

02:54:48.440 Guys, breathe.

02:54:48.960 It's a debate, girl.

02:54:49.980 No, but you're not going to tell me to shut up.

02:54:51.320 That's what you're not going to start doing.

02:54:52.220 Gayath means be quiet.

02:54:53.560 Guys, guys, guys.

02:54:54.120 Are those not synonyms?

02:54:54.780 Please be quiet.

02:54:56.440 Okay, how about you shut the fuck up?

02:54:57.680 Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

02:54:58.240 See?

02:54:58.740 Yeah, I can go there, too.

02:55:00.380 Guy and te.

02:55:00.980 Guy and te.

02:55:01.480 Por favor, guy and te.

02:55:02.620 Shut the fuck up.

02:55:03.680 You're embarrassing yourself.

02:55:05.020 That's sad.

02:55:05.680 I don't care.

02:55:06.420 I'm not embarrassed at all.

02:55:07.860 Hold on.

02:55:08.520 Yo, both of you, both of you, let me do the super chats, and then you guys can.

02:55:13.340 Go, finally.

02:55:14.220 You guys can.

02:55:15.060 Hold on.

02:55:15.420 You guys can kiss after the show, okay?

02:55:17.740 Hell no.

02:55:18.160 All right.

02:55:18.420 I'm already here at this point.

02:55:19.660 Guys, hold on, hold on.

02:55:21.160 Yo, Quiznos with you, $20 super chat.

02:55:22.820 No accountability.

02:55:23.520 They are gatekeepers of sex, and they can't even take accountability for their own choice.

02:55:27.100 Uh, word?

02:55:29.020 Are we talking about body count?

02:55:30.160 Yeah.

02:55:30.740 Quiznos, thank you for the big $20 super chat, man.

02:55:32.500 Appreciate it.

02:55:33.620 Uh, let's see.

02:55:34.600 We have Hector Navarez.

02:55:35.640 Thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:55:36.720 My father is 67.

02:55:38.120 Mother is 53.

02:55:39.060 I'm 29.

02:55:39.740 Oldest sister is 35.

02:55:41.080 Both Mexican.

02:55:41.980 I think if you grew up and lived elsewhere other than the U.S., you wouldn't have the same

02:55:46.320 mindset on what constitutes a schmido.

02:55:50.860 What's that?

02:55:52.140 Pedophile.

02:55:53.240 Oh, God.

02:55:54.140 P word.

02:55:54.780 Let's use P word.

02:55:55.340 Sharky, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:55:56.580 If your mom raised you to identify good men versus predators, the benefits of dating an

02:56:00.720 older man are massive.

02:56:02.000 If your mom didn't train you and you fall for the predator, well, then you turn bitter

02:56:06.300 like Kika.

02:56:07.540 Do you want to say something back to Sharky?

02:56:09.860 Um.

02:56:13.400 No.

02:56:14.060 No.

02:56:14.260 I'm like so ready to go.

02:56:15.220 Roast.

02:56:15.960 Little roast.

02:56:16.800 Little roast.

02:56:17.080 I'm like, I'm over this conversation.

02:56:18.300 Frankie K with the $20 super chat.

02:56:20.000 Shaving down there is just being considerate these days.

02:56:21.860 Also, when you're 34 and you've got dozens and dozens of notches on your belt, what kind

02:56:25.900 of man do you want to wife you?

02:56:27.280 Promiscuity devalues, devalues you in the dating pool?

02:56:30.480 Nah, I mean.

02:56:33.280 Bored.

02:56:34.300 Thank you, Frankie.

02:56:35.140 Dude, really appreciate the support, man.

02:56:36.680 Big $20 super chat.

02:56:37.760 You're a legend.

02:56:38.260 Jordan, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:56:39.880 Kiko, don't.

02:56:40.340 Didn't you sell your childhood shoes to an older man?

02:56:43.620 Day.

02:56:44.220 Why is hygiene preferences?

02:56:46.020 P word.

02:56:46.940 Men don't want women with a lot of experience because lower chance of pair bonding and combativeness.

02:56:53.520 Yeah.

02:56:54.600 Word.

02:56:56.260 Okay.

02:56:56.900 They don't have anything to say, but Jordan, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:57:02.880 EP, thank you for the $10 super chat.

02:57:04.460 Can Kiko blow an O off the vape?

02:57:07.180 All right.

02:57:07.380 How's your, can you do that?

02:57:08.640 I don't get duos.

02:57:09.500 You don't?

02:57:09.960 Okay.

02:57:10.100 Are we allowed to vaping here all of a sudden?

02:57:12.220 If you can, if you do that, if you, only if you have tricks, only if you can do tricks.

02:57:18.180 I'm sorry.

02:57:19.260 Right.

02:57:19.760 Only if you can do tricks, you know.

02:57:22.440 Okay.

02:57:25.000 No strings attached TV.

02:57:26.380 Think of the Canadian $10.

02:57:27.520 The Kiki, what?

02:57:28.900 Her name's Kiko, guys.

02:57:30.480 Okay.

02:57:31.540 Does not know any conservative men.

02:57:33.860 Chase was saying some basic, basic conservative things last time.

02:57:37.580 And she was so triggered she left.

02:57:40.180 I do know many conservative men.

02:57:41.660 I think, honestly, at this point in my life, I probably know more conservative men than liberal men.

02:57:45.820 And I'm quite close to them, hanging out with them almost daily.

02:57:48.920 Spent actually all morning helping me move into my place today.

02:57:51.680 Spent all yesterday with them, all the day before.

02:57:53.440 Anyways.

02:57:53.620 A conservative, conservative guys helped you move?

02:57:56.540 Yeah.

02:57:56.920 Helped me move into my apartment.

02:57:58.080 They're like my closest friends, I would say, are lean more conservative these days.

02:58:01.960 Because I'm, I'm aware that we will have disagreements on things.

02:58:05.800 I just put my foot down with certain things.

02:58:07.540 Like with Chase, he was saying that a trans woman is a man, period.

02:58:13.420 Right.

02:58:14.000 That, if that's his opinion, that is totally fine.

02:58:16.200 If that's his opinion.

02:58:16.820 If he doesn't want to date a trans man or a trans woman, that's his prerogative.

02:58:20.140 I'm not going to say he has to.

02:58:21.100 Everyone has their preferences.

02:58:22.280 I just don't like when you try to make your views as fact.

02:58:25.180 Because that's, that's where I lay an issue.

02:58:27.200 Because he kept saying, no, this is true.

02:58:29.180 This is fact.

02:58:29.800 And it's not, it's quite clear that you and Chase control most of the narrative on this podcast.

02:58:34.920 So no, I did not want to be a part of something that was saying that trans people are stuck

02:58:39.900 at what the gender they were born as.

02:58:41.780 Because I don't believe that.

02:58:42.860 We have two different opinions.

02:58:44.020 There's different opinions on it.

02:58:45.180 Don't make yours seem fact.

02:58:46.760 Well, I mean, I just.

02:58:50.060 I mean, he was saying that he doesn't view it from a lens of gender.

02:58:55.180 He views it from a lens of sex.

02:58:57.200 And someone who's, hold on.

02:58:59.040 Someone who is a transgender woman is biologically male.

02:59:05.260 So he views it.

02:59:07.220 When it comes to.

02:59:07.840 He wasn't saying that though.

02:59:08.620 When we were talking about before I, before I gave him a second before I left.

02:59:11.620 Because I wanted him to get off his chest.

02:59:13.020 Actually, the main reason why I left is because he told me to make him do something or whatever.

02:59:16.400 And I was like, okay, this is getting too much.

02:59:17.480 Let me just leave.

02:59:19.060 It's.

02:59:20.320 That's not what he was saying.

02:59:21.120 The original question that got popped up was.

02:59:22.960 It asked Chase, would you date a trans woman?

02:59:26.380 And he said, fuck no.

02:59:28.440 That's a man.

02:59:29.120 That's forever going to be a man.

02:59:30.140 That's only a man.

02:59:31.240 That's his opinion.

02:59:32.220 And he kept saying that that's fact.

02:59:34.180 How are you going to tell me that people like Nikita Dragon.

02:59:36.600 That is a fact though.

02:59:38.220 Nikita Dragon was put in a male's prison.

02:59:40.380 Why?

02:59:40.800 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

02:59:41.400 It never actually happened.

02:59:42.140 It was all rumored.

02:59:43.000 It was possible that it could happen.

02:59:44.180 And the judge said, I can't help you if it does, but I never did before, before we have

02:59:47.760 a heated.

02:59:47.960 She came out and said she was never placed in a man's prison.

02:59:49.960 But before we have a heated conversation on this, why don't we save it till the end of

02:59:53.120 the show?

02:59:53.360 No, I'm not having this conversation because I'm not debating.

02:59:55.280 Is there a single trans person sitting at this table?

02:59:57.500 No.

02:59:57.760 So why are we debating something that no one here can stand up for themselves and state

03:00:01.200 their opinion?

03:00:02.100 We have no business debating that.

03:00:03.940 Just like I wouldn't debate.

03:00:04.960 I don't think anyone here is Asian, right?

03:00:06.140 So I wouldn't debate Asian rights right now.

03:00:07.540 We debated man versus woman and those things because that affects us all directly.

03:00:10.860 Well, I think we are part of it.

03:00:12.080 Well, I mean, but I think.

03:00:13.800 On the topic of the Asian.

03:00:15.020 You can still not be a dick during debate, though.

03:00:17.800 Okay, so like, for example, you said there's no Asian people here.

03:00:20.660 I mean, I could say, for example, that I think it's unfair that Asian people are discriminated

03:00:26.740 against when it comes to college.

03:00:30.180 Fuck, what's it called?

03:00:31.960 They have to score higher on the SATs.

03:00:35.220 Okay.

03:00:35.480 In order, as compared to other races.

03:00:39.480 Fuck, I'm butchering this, but.

03:00:41.500 What's your point, though?

03:00:42.780 What's that?

03:00:43.320 What's your point, though?

03:00:44.440 Well, I'm not Asian.

03:00:45.660 There's no Asian people here, but I'm happy to say that I'm more than happy to discuss

03:00:49.740 that Asian people are discriminated against when it comes to college enrollment.

03:00:53.900 Okay, but it's debate, right?

03:00:54.960 So somebody here is supposed to disagree with you.

03:00:56.700 We're supposed to go back and forth.

03:00:57.120 They don't have to.

03:00:58.120 But then it's not a debate.

03:00:59.040 If we all just sit here and agree and la-li-la-li-da, then we're not debating anything.

03:01:02.080 We can have a conversation about ways in which people that are not present are.

03:01:06.220 But the thing we're here, we're mostly here, we're debating.

03:01:09.140 We're not just having some cordial little conversations.

03:01:10.900 We're here to debate back and forth, like she just said, it's a debate.

03:01:13.640 So I don't want to debate things that nobody, I'm not saying I have to be a part of it,

03:01:16.840 but if not a single person at the table can fit that category, then no, I don't think

03:01:20.800 we have any business discussing those matters.

03:01:22.740 Well, I mean, I think you can have conversations and debate things where there's not like someone

03:01:30.480 who has a vested interest in what's being debated.

03:01:34.660 Nobody wants to watch a group of all white people debating about black rights and what

03:01:37.460 they're doing.

03:01:37.880 Nobody wants to fucking see that.

03:01:39.280 Sorry, I don't.

03:01:39.980 I know that.

03:01:40.360 At least I don't want to see that.

03:01:41.600 Because what do you know about the black experience or the things going into that?

03:01:44.680 Maybe if there's a couple black people and a few white people all debating who knows

03:01:48.660 what side they're on, that's totally fun because they're there to defend themselves.

03:01:51.720 But I'm just, I'm letting you know.

03:01:54.060 I would walk out again.

03:01:54.540 Well, you'd be a great debate person because you're a part of the LGBTQ community.

03:01:57.860 I am.

03:01:58.240 I'm gay, but I'm not trans.

03:01:59.300 So you'd be good to hear them too.

03:02:00.160 I'm gay.

03:02:00.660 I'm not trans.

03:02:01.280 That's two very different things.

03:02:02.300 And you could still debate it.

03:02:03.220 It's not that serious.

03:02:03.800 Whether someone would want to.

03:02:05.020 It is that serious because it's people's lives and it's people's livelihood.

03:02:06.800 What do you mean?

03:02:07.200 This podcast gets thousands and thousands and thousands of views.

03:02:09.420 Yes, and we're debating it.

03:02:10.220 This could be life-ending careers.

03:02:11.880 You guys sitting up here and saying all this bullshit.

03:02:13.440 I mean, I think it's okay to have an opinion.

03:02:14.800 I mean, if people are spewing a bunch of hateful shit, then that's annoying.

03:02:19.280 But even though none of us fall into that category here, I wouldn't see a problem with

03:02:23.280 the topic going to that and talking about it.

03:02:25.100 Last time, he wasn't saying it was his opinion.

03:02:27.020 He was saying, this is straight up facts.

03:02:28.260 This is never changing.

03:02:29.340 This is not my opinion.

03:02:30.140 This is how it goes.

03:02:30.820 And then he started saying hate words and hateful things.

03:02:33.700 That's why I left.

03:02:35.000 Because I didn't sit right with me.

03:02:36.420 We know nowadays we're not stupid.

03:02:37.660 Anyone can get canceled nowadays.

03:02:39.200 This podcast is starting to go viral on TikTok.

03:02:40.760 All it takes is one little clip of you saying some transphobic remark, and here you are

03:02:44.260 never getting hired in California again.

03:02:46.180 And I'm not saying that that's my prerogative for what I'm doing.

03:02:48.480 It's because I do truly believe those things.

03:02:50.460 But I can't believe how no one takes that into consideration sometimes during these little

03:02:54.580 podcasts.

03:02:55.460 Well, Chase isn't here to defend himself, but I think you did slightly misquote what precisely

03:03:01.700 he said.

03:03:02.740 And I think I don't recall it verbatim, but I believe he said something along the lines

03:03:07.240 of he would view it.

03:03:09.280 He's not gay.

03:03:10.000 He views it as gay.

03:03:13.320 I think that was the thing.

03:03:14.160 That's exactly what pissed me off.

03:03:15.000 He said, no, if you're a straight man and you sleep with a trans woman, that's gay.

03:03:20.520 You're now a gay man.

03:03:21.720 That is your opinion.

03:03:22.620 That is not fact.

03:03:23.460 That's what pissed me off.

03:03:24.200 I'm so glad you said that.

03:03:24.920 I couldn't remember exactly what it was.

03:03:26.060 So I want to make this comment.

03:03:27.580 I'm making this comment in good faith.

03:03:29.440 I don't want to stick on this conversation too long.

03:03:31.900 But just I'm curious.

03:03:33.220 So if a straight guy sucks the dick of a transgender woman, I'm curious, transgender woman, is he still

03:03:53.760 straight?

03:03:54.700 Because I don't know the rules.

03:03:55.820 I don't know the rules.

03:03:56.540 I'm just asking.

03:03:56.920 Whatever he sexually identifies himself as, yes, because I don't choose people's sexual

03:04:00.900 identities.

03:04:01.600 So it's just...

03:04:02.240 I know multiple...

03:04:03.260 Is it not gay for a man to have his dick sitting out there while having a double man threesome

03:04:08.200 with another woman?

03:04:09.200 Is it not weird for their dicks to be touching a little bit and them staring and having sex

03:04:12.300 with a naked man next to them, but they're still straight?

03:04:14.860 I mean, it's sex.

03:04:16.000 I mean, the devil's threesome is...

03:04:17.500 Sex isn't black and white.

03:04:18.840 Like, there's ins and outs of it.

03:04:20.380 Just because you have one experience doesn't change your whole sexuality forever.

03:04:23.860 That's why I'm saying it's his opinion and it's not black and white.

03:04:26.240 And it was wrong for him to state that as a fact.

03:04:28.380 If he thinks...

03:04:29.380 If he sleeps with a gay woman...

03:04:30.420 Or if he sleeps with a trans woman, that will make him gay.

03:04:32.540 That's his opinion.

03:04:33.400 That's his provocative.

03:04:34.360 But to say...

03:04:34.920 Whatever, I can't pronounce the word.

03:04:36.220 But to say that that's fact is just wrong to me.

03:04:39.240 I'll give you the final...

03:04:40.140 I'll give you the final word on that.

03:04:41.520 We're going to move on.

03:04:42.400 All right.

03:04:43.120 Let's see.

03:04:43.620 We have...

03:04:44.340 Did we do this one?

03:04:46.800 Joel Taggart, $10 soup chat.

03:04:48.060 Thank you, man.

03:04:48.520 Scientific fact that women in their early 20s are more emotionally immature than men of

03:04:52.360 the same age.

03:04:53.660 Hence why younger women are attracted to older men when wanting something serious and stable.

03:04:59.840 Okay.

03:05:00.220 Joel Taggart, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:05:02.240 Max with the $10 soup chat.

03:05:03.640 Emotional damage has also been proven to stunt the growth of the prefrontal cortex.

03:05:07.540 Sorry, Kiko.

03:05:08.400 No dating for you until you're healed by a licensed therapist.

03:05:13.180 Do you want to say anything back or no?

03:05:15.680 Okay.

03:05:16.200 We have...

03:05:16.700 Oni Nofro with the Canadian $10 soup chat.

03:05:19.220 How does the older guy have the upper hand when it is women who initiate divorce over 80%

03:05:23.560 of the time, resulting in the men losing accumulated resources, representing the results of work?

03:05:29.940 Explain.

03:05:32.180 Do you...

03:05:32.660 I think that was maybe you who said the thing about the upper hand?

03:05:37.700 Day?

03:05:37.900 We're both ready to go home.

03:05:40.960 I think we're already...

03:05:41.900 Yeah.

03:05:42.360 Well, you know, we'll just stick through the soup chats here.

03:05:47.620 All right.

03:05:47.700 We have Praxis here with the $10 soup chat.

03:05:49.860 Kiko and Day, you can't manipulate someone unless they're incapacitated or disabled.

03:05:54.040 Are you two saying that younger women are mentally disabled?

03:05:56.940 That's misogyny.

03:05:57.940 That's a stupid-ass fucking way you're thinking.

03:05:59.900 If you think people can only be manipulative if they're incapacitated or disabled, you're

03:06:03.400 actually slow.

03:06:04.580 Sorry.

03:06:05.380 Couldn't you make the argument that women manipulate men more than men manipulate women?

03:06:11.280 Maybe.

03:06:12.160 Because, like, there's way...

03:06:13.460 That's why it's...

03:06:14.260 Yeah.

03:06:14.420 Yeah.

03:06:14.660 It doesn't happen to just incapacitated or disabled because it happens on both sides.

03:06:18.740 Yeah.

03:06:18.940 No, it happens.

03:06:19.640 All the time.

03:06:19.740 Yeah.

03:06:19.940 I mean, I disagree with that.

03:06:21.640 The term manipulate, I disagree with the incapacitated or disabled thing.

03:06:24.980 But, I mean, when it comes to finessing, bro, women finesse men way more than men are finessing

03:06:32.760 women.

03:06:33.480 When men finesse women, they make Netflix documentaries about it, a la Tinder Swindler.

03:06:38.520 Yeah.

03:06:39.040 Whereas women are out here finessing dinner dates.

03:06:41.700 That's honestly a pretty good point.

03:06:42.880 That's a good point, though.

03:06:44.060 The Tinder Swindler was crazy, though.

03:06:45.980 That was crazy.

03:06:46.560 That was a nice story.

03:06:47.760 That is pretty crazy.

03:06:48.640 Even if a girl did that, I would have been like, damn, like...

03:06:50.780 That's what divorce is.

03:06:52.720 That's what divorce is.

03:06:53.940 Yeah.

03:06:55.500 The ultimate finesse.

03:06:57.020 Okay.

03:06:57.300 Crispy.

03:06:57.980 Yeah.

03:06:58.380 Well, okay.

03:06:59.080 They weren't ever married.

03:06:59.960 We were married.

03:07:00.320 Never married any of them.

03:07:01.240 No, but divorce is a finesse.

03:07:02.800 Okay.

03:07:02.980 We were married for five years.

03:07:04.640 Dr.

03:07:05.040 Oh, Dr. Dre.

03:07:06.360 I was married to Dr. Dre.

03:07:07.600 I want $300,000 a month in spousal support.

03:07:10.480 Okay, lady.

03:07:11.760 Yo, we got Crispy Kim with the $10 soup chat to the girl that asked if relationships are

03:07:16.280 the end-all be-all to life.

03:07:18.000 Yes, they are.

03:07:18.880 You can have all the money in the world, but you will be miserable without strong relationships

03:07:23.060 in the long run.

03:07:26.580 I meant a relationship with, like, a partner.

03:07:30.100 I think your relationships with your family and your friends are just as important.

03:07:35.020 By the way, we do have an Asian person because that's Crispy Kim.

03:07:38.520 He's been on the show, by the way.

03:07:39.800 What's up, Crispy?

03:07:40.640 Good to see you, man.

03:07:42.740 Yeah, anyways.

03:07:44.020 Yo, Oni Nofro.

03:07:44.860 Thank you for the Canadian $10.

03:07:46.720 It's simple.

03:07:47.420 Who buys the other more gifts?

03:07:48.520 Who is expected to pay for the dates?

03:07:50.640 Who is expected to ask for marriage?

03:07:52.480 Accept responsibility in perpetuity.

03:07:55.140 Girls have a hard time cooking a...

03:07:57.800 What was that?

03:07:59.780 What was that noise?

03:08:00.620 I don't know.

03:08:01.940 Girls have a hard time cooking a plate.

03:08:05.000 Okay.

03:08:05.780 I'm trying to remember.

03:08:07.740 Okay.

03:08:08.700 Thank you for the soup chat, man.

03:08:09.560 Jacob Schroeder with the $10 soup chat.

03:08:11.020 Does Kiko think we forgot about the...

03:08:13.740 LOL, but yeah, this panel thinks female promiscuity is nice

03:08:16.480 until it comes to admitting their body count to a potential significant other?

03:08:20.600 I mean, I don't...

03:08:21.300 We didn't ask that.

03:08:22.020 Is that...

03:08:22.280 Do you guys...

03:08:22.860 I don't think we talked about that.

03:08:25.020 I feel like if they...

03:08:26.400 I don't know.

03:08:27.220 It's tricky.

03:08:27.900 I mean, I feel like if they ask and you guys are far enough in...

03:08:31.900 I don't really see the big problem in giving out your body count.

03:08:35.100 I think if they're asking on the first date, it's kind of just like,

03:08:38.880 why is that the first thing that you're curious about?

03:08:41.140 But I don't think it's the worst thing to ask.

03:08:44.100 Okay.

03:08:45.720 Should we do body count?

03:08:47.100 You want to do body count?

03:08:47.860 Sure.

03:08:48.080 Five.

03:08:49.560 Oh.

03:08:49.800 On the spot.

03:08:53.340 Questionable.

03:08:55.280 Fifteen.

03:08:56.480 Damn, bro.

03:08:57.200 Fifteen?

03:08:57.660 Okay.

03:08:57.940 Hell yeah.

03:08:59.820 One.

03:09:01.020 Oh.

03:09:02.620 One.

03:09:03.220 Okay.

03:09:05.660 Four.

03:09:07.660 Four.

03:09:08.860 Fourteen?

03:09:09.440 Four.

03:09:09.780 Four.

03:09:10.000 Four?

03:09:10.300 Okay.

03:09:10.540 Definitely four.

03:09:11.320 I'm a virgin.

03:09:13.060 Come on, bruv.

03:09:14.040 Come on.

03:09:14.540 I'm a virgin.

03:09:15.300 Come on, Kiko.

03:09:16.440 It's already out there.

03:09:17.280 I've said it on the last two.

03:09:18.260 Three, and that's the real number.

03:09:19.540 All right.

03:09:19.940 So my body count's three.

03:09:21.520 Yo, Joel.

03:09:23.280 Yo, Jill.

03:09:23.940 Or zero, yes.

03:09:25.900 Jill, Steven.

03:09:27.380 Yeah.

03:09:27.740 With the, actually, I wanted to ask you, on one of the previous shows,

03:09:31.180 you said that you had some bartender female friends that were like in the hundreds or something?

03:09:37.680 Yeah, for sure.

03:09:38.520 Not bartender female friends, but just friends in general.

03:09:40.760 Oh, so like some guys, too.

03:09:42.040 Okay.

03:09:42.240 Yeah.

03:09:42.640 Yeah, yeah.

03:09:42.940 Well, guys, for sure.

03:09:43.700 I mean, I've known guys, I've known guys a hundred since we were 19 in our teens, but

03:09:47.240 I mean, I've, since I've come, um, the past few years, I've definitely met women with

03:09:51.860 pretty high body counts.

03:09:53.140 Yeah.

03:09:53.480 What's the highest?

03:09:54.780 If you know.

03:09:55.320 The ones that don't know anymore, who they would probably assume it's around like 200 or

03:09:59.080 something.

03:09:59.640 Okay.

03:10:00.400 Does that, does anyone here like have a friend that, you know, she's the, has the highest

03:10:05.180 body count?

03:10:06.020 I know.

03:10:06.900 Like that she's admitted.

03:10:07.840 I know a few people who have given me numbers in like the fifties and sixties, but I haven't

03:10:12.420 heard something more than like a hundred.

03:10:14.000 Okay.

03:10:14.240 I'm talking women friends, not guys.

03:10:15.820 What about you?

03:10:16.440 Anything?

03:10:17.360 Probably her.

03:10:17.960 Same thing.

03:10:19.120 Oh, her.

03:10:19.540 She is the friend.

03:10:21.000 That's crazy.

03:10:22.300 Oh, shit.

03:10:23.720 She said she's the friend.

03:10:24.860 Sorry.

03:10:25.740 Yo.

03:10:26.420 I love you.

03:10:27.480 Hey, at least she's honest.

03:10:28.900 Do you know what?

03:10:29.500 I have an honest friend right here and that's all I can have for.

03:10:33.200 Shots fired.

03:10:34.240 I'm not embarrassed about it either.

03:10:35.800 Like that's like, I don't, I don't, I don't think that it's the best thing that I've done

03:10:40.800 that, but it's just that many friends either.

03:10:45.280 Also, my friends were like in their thirties and stuff.

03:10:47.840 So, I mean, as time goes, I guess, but still pretty.

03:10:50.480 Oh, a hundred.

03:10:51.620 It's pretty.

03:10:52.300 It's pretty crazy.

03:10:53.240 Yo, we got Giole Steven with the 1600 yen.

03:10:57.460 Konichiwa.

03:10:57.980 Thank you.

03:10:59.160 Jacob Schroeder.

03:10:59.960 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:11:00.860 Women complain about men built societal structures, yet they enforce the six foot six figure rule.

03:11:06.560 Don't forget the six inch rule.

03:11:07.760 Okay.

03:11:08.900 Yo, Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:11:10.480 The saddest demographic of people in Western countries is 42 plus your women making 50K plus

03:11:16.240 no kids family.

03:11:17.440 If studies say otherwise, that's because one fourth of women take antidepressants.

03:11:21.300 Menopause equals zero eggs.

03:11:22.540 A hundred times more emotional.

03:11:25.180 All right.

03:11:25.480 That's a lot of, that's a lot of numbers there.

03:11:28.160 Thank you, man.

03:11:28.560 Oni Fro with the Canadian $10 soup chat.

03:11:30.600 The hypergamy of these girls is unreal and they can't even admit it to their motivations.

03:11:33.840 So much hypocrisy, barring Tay, it's sad, but predictable.

03:11:41.180 Okay.

03:11:41.700 The token Asian $10 soup chat.

03:11:43.660 If Asian men are at the bottom of the sexual marketplace, but when it comes to money, they

03:11:47.940 are at the top and most women are looking for money.

03:11:50.680 What keeps Asian men at the bottom, which I think is cap BTS, BTS for the win.

03:11:57.380 Okay.

03:11:59.880 Are you asking the girls this?

03:12:03.500 What's SM?

03:12:04.640 Social?

03:12:05.240 Oh, a sexual marketplace.

03:12:07.300 I find Asian guys attractive, but I don't think Asian guys like black girls, do they?

03:12:10.860 I never really see them with like black women and they don't look at, they don't look at

03:12:13.800 me at least.

03:12:14.560 It's usually white boys and Mexican boys that look at me.

03:12:16.520 A lot of black boys.

03:12:17.140 What I've noticed at least, the black women they do go for is not like, it's very clean

03:12:21.480 cut, preppy, like that's the type that they usually go for, but I haven't seen an Netflix

03:12:25.300 in it.

03:12:26.120 And it's always so cute.

03:12:27.540 Yeah, I think Asian boys are cute.

03:12:28.760 I love Asian men.

03:12:29.680 I was actually very upset last time I stepped away to the bathroom when a question like this

03:12:33.260 got brought up.

03:12:34.360 And then I guess people at the table were all saying they're not attracted to Asian men

03:12:37.260 and I was not there.

03:12:38.280 And then you guys just lumped me into that when I would absolutely never say that.

03:12:42.520 Like, I was very offended actually.

03:12:44.140 I watched it later.

03:12:45.040 Oh, I'm sorry.

03:12:46.060 Oh.

03:12:46.620 Yeah.

03:12:47.140 I just, uh.

03:12:48.380 I meant to get that off my chest.

03:12:50.220 I'd like to thank this chance to apologize.

03:12:52.480 Yeah, please.

03:12:53.220 I never said that.

03:12:53.540 Absolutely nobody.

03:12:55.880 I can't do a single push-up.

03:12:57.800 All right.

03:12:58.180 We have Alex Mack with the $10 Super Chat.

03:13:00.860 Nobody liked this chick bottom right.

03:13:02.360 Not the chat nor anyone on the table.

03:13:04.120 I'll say it.

03:13:05.580 No.

03:13:06.060 Wait, what were you just doing?

03:13:08.080 Shimmy.

03:13:08.700 Hold on.

03:13:10.360 Wait.

03:13:11.300 Go ahead.

03:13:13.540 All right.

03:13:14.060 Tell me more.

03:13:14.660 Hat trick.

03:13:15.080 Tell me more.

03:13:15.560 Hat trick.

03:13:16.240 Hat trick.

03:13:16.920 Tell me more.

03:13:18.440 Yo, we got No Strings Attached TV.

03:13:20.080 Thanks for a Canadian $10 Super Chat, man.

03:13:21.700 Appreciate it.

03:13:22.400 I want to say something, but I feel like you don't want me to say it.

03:13:25.420 Let me just get through the Super Chats.

03:13:26.680 Okay.

03:13:27.340 The fact.

03:13:28.180 Wait.

03:13:28.840 I don't want you to say it?

03:13:30.020 Yeah.

03:13:30.460 I don't know if I'm allowed to say it.

03:13:32.720 Can you give me a hint?

03:13:33.600 All I'm going to say.

03:13:34.440 Can you give me a hint?

03:13:35.020 I feel like I did a job well done tonight.

03:13:38.040 Okay.

03:13:38.640 All right.

03:13:39.280 For these fucking.

03:13:40.880 You've probably made about.

03:13:42.520 I don't even know how much money on them just sitting in Super Chats to comment my name in it.

03:13:47.040 Oh, shit.

03:13:47.880 That reminds me.

03:13:48.580 Carson, did someone become a member?

03:13:50.580 I forgot to tell you about that.

03:13:51.820 Did you ever see a green?

03:13:53.200 I did not.

03:13:54.600 Okay.

03:13:55.040 Because if you do see.

03:13:56.460 I forgot to tell you that.

03:13:57.560 It's probably way.

03:13:58.620 You're not going to be able to find it.

03:14:01.620 Just Carson.

03:14:02.300 If you ever see like someone became a member and you can star it.

03:14:05.300 Star any green things in StreamYard.

03:14:08.680 Guys, sorry if I missed it.

03:14:11.300 But if you did become a member, thank you for the support, guys.

03:14:14.260 Appreciate it.

03:14:15.320 All right.

03:14:15.960 No Strings Attached TV.

03:14:16.900 The fact that women all around the world were shocked that Andrew Tate message was so relatable to men.

03:14:20.820 just shows how men lie to women to get laid.

03:14:27.320 Yeah.

03:14:27.580 Men will say what women want to hear to get laid.

03:14:34.360 No Strings Attached TV.

03:14:35.700 Thank you, bro.

03:14:36.280 Bro, Kiko, you don't know any conservative men.

03:14:39.160 You're so far left that Brian looks like pro chump to you.

03:14:44.680 I'm like center left, you know?

03:14:46.320 I mean, I don't know.

03:14:47.000 But it's interesting that you got conservative men to help you move and not liberal.

03:14:52.080 And that's my friends.

03:14:53.060 I don't have any liberal men friends right now.

03:14:54.700 Oh, okay.

03:14:55.280 Maybe if I did, I would have called them.

03:14:56.720 Yo, Calvin Hamilton with the $10 soup check.

03:14:59.260 Kiko's showing the world what kind of women men don't want.

03:15:02.520 I think they're obsessed with you.

03:15:03.100 I want to check.

03:15:03.880 I think they love you.

03:15:04.960 Yeah, they really do like you.

03:15:06.660 They like are in my DMs hard too.

03:15:08.960 Probably.

03:15:09.180 Not good for not good reasons.

03:15:11.020 Let me clarify.

03:15:11.920 Tay Tay gives me so much hope that real intellectual women do exist.

03:15:15.180 She has a new fan here.

03:15:16.080 Can we bring her back on the show?

03:15:17.900 Brian, I mean, Tay Tay, I'll leave that up to you.

03:15:19.460 What do you think?

03:15:19.880 Yeah, I'm down.

03:15:20.540 You're down?

03:15:21.200 Yeah, you're in Vegas, right?

03:15:22.220 I know, so I'm going to have to come back down.

03:15:23.480 Yeah, well, next time you're in Cali, we'll get you back on.

03:15:27.160 Gus, $10 soup chat.

03:15:28.380 It's scientific fact.

03:15:29.640 Dat.

03:15:30.340 A man cannot be a woman.

03:15:32.640 Inter sax.

03:15:33.760 Is that like a saxophone?

03:15:35.600 An inter sax.

03:15:36.820 It's like a trombone.

03:15:38.420 Part trombone, part clarinet.

03:15:41.020 What the fuck?

03:15:41.840 Is less than 1% of the population.

03:15:44.360 There is empirical data, statistics that allow us to talk about issues in other communities.

03:15:50.460 All right.

03:15:50.880 And we have Ragu Man with the $10 soup chat.

03:15:56.740 Any more makeup, Kiko?

03:15:58.080 Okay.

03:15:59.700 Literally.

03:16:00.540 Take it out on that cup.

03:16:01.880 Take it out on that cup.

03:16:03.280 I really need my nicotine stick.

03:16:04.780 Your what?

03:16:05.520 My nicotine stick.

03:16:06.440 Oh, okay.

03:16:06.780 So, I'm sorry.

03:16:10.620 Did someone want to come in on something?

03:16:12.280 I didn't.

03:16:13.220 Okay.

03:16:13.780 So, that's all the soup chat, guys.

03:16:15.980 Carson, can you pull up the Twitch really quick?

03:16:17.540 Let me shout them out.

03:16:19.640 I have one final question, and then we're going to wrap.

03:16:21.600 Yo, Rose, thank you for the follow.

03:16:26.820 Nashawn, thank you for the follow.

03:16:29.680 Zinx, thank you for the follow.

03:16:31.300 Frids, thank you for the prime.

03:16:33.420 Appreciate it.

03:16:34.660 And Rubius, thank you for the two bits.

03:16:37.240 Much appreciated, man.

03:16:38.580 Okay.

03:16:39.060 So, final question.

03:16:43.920 Do you think it's...

03:16:44.760 Hold on.

03:16:45.080 Actually, wait one second.

03:16:46.420 Actually, before I do that, I want to open it up to you guys.

03:16:49.200 If any of you have a final thought or something that you want to get off your chest, dating-related or a final thought, open it up to you, and then we'll do my question, and then we'll wrap.

03:16:58.160 Go ahead.

03:16:59.720 Anybody?

03:17:02.900 I'm just happy, honestly, every time I come on here and everyone in the comments disagrees with me, because I want to be nothing like majority of the people who watch this podcast.

03:17:12.400 So, it just affirms me that I'm going in the right direction of my beliefs and who I am as a person for the fact that they think they don't agree with me.

03:17:20.660 I'm like, and I must be doing something right, because these are not the type of men that I want to be agreeing with me or on my side.

03:17:26.420 So, honestly, it's very...

03:17:28.600 I don't want to get myself out of the back, honestly.

03:17:30.900 Do you think that there's any truth to what they're saying, or do you think they're just trying to be...

03:17:36.160 I'm sure I could definitely miss the head on some of my opinions.

03:17:37.980 I'm not saying my opinions are fact and always correct, but I do think hard on a lot of my opinions, and that's why I stand on them.

03:17:44.680 Sometimes they might have a point.

03:17:46.640 Sure.

03:17:47.160 I'm not saying they're always 100% wrong, but overarching, we believe in very different things.

03:17:55.540 Okay.

03:17:56.260 Gotcha.

03:17:57.340 Question.

03:17:57.880 So, here's the final question.

03:17:59.180 Do you guys wish that men were more straightforward, and do you think it's easy to get women as a guy?

03:18:07.980 I believe men are already straightforward.

03:18:09.440 Actually, let me just start with...

03:18:12.340 And we'll go around this way.

03:18:13.240 Go ahead.

03:18:16.820 No, I don't need men to be any more direct than they already are.

03:18:20.920 I think they're doing just fine with that.

03:18:22.560 What was the second part of the question?

03:18:24.140 Do you think it's easy for men to get women?

03:18:27.680 I would say in some...

03:18:29.980 It depends.

03:18:31.120 I would say not all over the whole world, no.

03:18:34.200 But I know there's towns, like the town we live in, of Isla Vista or Santa Barbara, where I know plenty of women who would go home with any man they met from the club that night, or a party in Ivy.

03:18:43.140 I saw many of my friends, like, fuck a different girl every night.

03:18:47.120 They didn't care what number they were on the list.

03:18:48.860 So, I would say it depends what kind of man you are.

03:18:51.580 Like, yeah.

03:18:52.440 But also, if you're like, you know, you gotta date in your realm, stay in your realm, stay in your league.

03:18:57.420 But, like, here?

03:18:58.500 No.

03:18:59.120 Maybe in L.A.?

03:19:00.340 Maybe not.

03:19:00.880 I don't know.

03:19:02.420 Okay.

03:19:02.740 I think it is difficult for a guy to get a girl most times, just because, you know, they've got standards.

03:19:10.120 We've got standards.

03:19:12.260 And what was the other part?

03:19:14.960 Do you wish guys were more straightforward?

03:19:16.900 No.

03:19:17.920 Okay.

03:19:18.600 No.

03:19:21.020 I feel that guys are already pretty straightforward, and I don't know.

03:19:26.920 I can't really say I'm not a man.

03:19:29.040 I don't know.

03:19:30.180 Okay.

03:19:30.520 Well, let me reframe it.

03:19:31.400 When it comes to getting laid, is it easier for men or women to get laid?

03:19:36.220 I think it might be easier for women.

03:19:39.960 Okay.

03:19:40.360 Yeah.

03:19:40.500 I wouldn't say that they need to be more straightforward on every aspect, but I think for the most part, they are pretty straightforward.

03:19:49.700 I think there's a couple things, but some people have a problem with honesty.

03:19:53.100 Sure.

03:19:53.460 So that can be difficult.

03:19:54.940 And then I would say with, if it's easy to get women, it really just depends.

03:19:58.940 Like she was saying, if you're out at the club all the time, yeah, it's going to be probably pretty easy.

03:20:04.500 But it just, I think it really depends on a lot of different factors.

03:20:08.520 Kiko?

03:20:09.560 Or sorry, Kiki?

03:20:10.680 It will.

03:20:11.720 No.

03:20:12.320 I don't know.

03:20:12.740 I got you.

03:20:13.460 I'm sorry.

03:20:14.160 I got you two mixed up.

03:20:16.040 And then Tay.

03:20:16.760 So I agree with what they're saying.

03:20:18.020 Like, I think it depends on how the man looks as well, too.

03:20:19.900 But it is hard for a man to date in general.

03:20:21.940 But to get laid, I think it's women.

03:20:23.740 Women can get laid easier than a guy can.

03:20:25.800 Sure.

03:20:26.480 Okay.

03:20:26.800 We're going late, so we're going to wrap there.

03:20:29.540 Yo, no strings attached.

03:20:30.520 Thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:20:31.580 Kiko has to come back with Chase, please.

03:20:33.640 I don't know if she wants to do that.

03:20:35.140 Mangu King with the $10 soup.

03:20:36.200 Or do you?

03:20:36.700 I don't know.

03:20:37.020 I don't want to put words in your mouth.

03:20:38.100 I'm fine with going on, Chase.

03:20:39.320 I just don't want to debate religion anymore.

03:20:40.540 I think that's a stupid topic to let people believe what they want to believe.

03:20:43.780 I think it was Hensley that didn't want to come back home with Chase.

03:20:46.660 Mangu King with the $10 soup chat.

03:20:48.880 My previous soup chat did not get read.

03:20:50.400 I was agreeing with Kiko.

03:20:51.920 Men would date younger girls.

03:20:53.440 Look at our grand or great grandparents.

03:20:56.640 Men 24 dating 14-year-old girls.

03:21:00.860 Wait.

03:21:01.560 Men would date younger girls.

03:21:03.480 Look at our great.

03:21:04.760 Sorry that we missed it.

03:21:07.540 I don't.

03:21:08.660 I'm wondering.

03:21:10.360 Yo, Mangu King is it cool if I snag it next show?

03:21:13.220 I mean, actually, let me.

03:21:15.500 Fuck.

03:21:16.560 Did you miss it, you think, Carson?

03:21:18.520 I don't remember seeing another one from Mangu King, so I don't know.

03:21:22.500 Yo, Mangu, let me just look real quick.

03:21:24.240 My bad, bro.

03:21:25.380 We got like over 70 soup chats tonight, so there's a lot.

03:21:31.540 Let me get it next show, my guy.

03:21:33.800 Anyways, we are going to, oh, okay, pull it up real quick.

03:21:40.740 Gus, thank you for the $10 soup chat.

03:21:42.280 She hooks up with these types of men that think like the chat does and notice how hard it is

03:21:46.320 to talk about the truth in commie, fornia.

03:21:49.360 Feminism is damaging these poor women.

03:21:52.960 Any, okay.

03:21:54.460 We'll leave it there.

03:21:55.640 All right.

03:21:56.180 Gus, thank you for this soup chat, man.

03:21:57.480 Appreciate it.

03:21:58.440 So, guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:22:01.200 You could have been doing anything else, but you're here with me.

03:22:03.160 I appreciate that.

03:22:03.900 Thanks to everyone who super chatted and supports the show.

03:22:06.620 If I miss any of you guys' soup chats, just shoot me a DM.

03:22:09.620 I'll get it.

03:22:10.140 I'll read it on the next show.

03:22:11.360 My bad, guys.

03:22:12.840 I really appreciate you.

03:22:14.040 I hope I can start breaking even soon.

03:22:16.600 We're close.

03:22:17.440 I think we're going to break even soon.

03:22:19.280 But, yeah, thanks to everyone who supported the show.

03:22:20.740 Really appreciate it.

03:22:21.900 Been in the red on this podcast for a while, so appreciate it, guys.

03:22:24.200 Thanks to all our chat mods, Zach, Candice, Nemesis, Urumeshi.

03:22:27.460 Thank you, guys.

03:22:28.080 Thanks to top producer Carson there.

03:22:30.500 That was his first time.

03:22:31.320 Can we get some Ws in the chat for Carson?

03:22:33.180 That was his first time running the show.

03:22:35.380 Eric's still on the team, but he couldn't make it today.

03:22:38.060 Guys, big thank you to the panel.

03:22:39.440 Thank you, guys.

03:22:40.060 I know we went a little late.

03:22:41.420 Thank you all for coming.

03:22:42.400 Had a very fun, lively debate.

03:22:44.400 Much appreciated.

03:22:45.460 Guys, we'll be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:22:48.700 Once again, we're switching to Sunday, Tuesday.

03:22:51.060 So, yeah, Tuesday, 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:22:52.900 Anyways, guys, we'll see you next time.

03:22:55.240 Have a good night, guys, and we'll see you soon.

03:22:58.120 See you guys.

Whatever Podcast - June 04, 2023

Dating Talk #46

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