Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #77

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00:05:23.640 introduction we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name

00:05:27.300 age and occupation go ahead hello my name is jules thank you so much for having me on

00:05:32.100 i'm 22 years old and i'm currently a bartender and server all right welcome my name is live

00:05:40.820 margaret i'm 22 years old and i'm an entrepreneur entrepreneur what uh what do you mean um so i have

00:05:49.500 a media company called culture stigma i also have a cosmetics company called margaret cosmetics

00:05:53.980 yeah okay do you do any content creation yeah i do a lot of social media and modeling okay of

00:06:01.620 you know you can find out somewhere so yes you also do okay have you done traditional adult content

00:06:10.300 or just of what do you mean tradi oh like corn oh no no okay all right hi um vicky or victoria

00:06:19.420 victoria um 22 and i'm currently a creative director slash like everything i love like dipping

00:06:26.880 my foot in everything slash student yeah slash student i'm studying creative direction too

00:06:31.720 at um art center college of design in pasadena rock and roll what about you uh my name is jessica

00:06:38.780 and i'm a student at ucla and i'm studying gender studies wait hold on age again 20 sorry 20 and you

00:06:47.500 studied gender studies yes i do okay what's your political orientation i'm actually moderate right

00:06:55.340 leaning moderate right leaning and you studied gender i was originally when i started out kind of

00:07:03.320 studying it i was way more liberal and then kind of changed along the way yeah oh um okay we'll get

00:07:12.160 into that in just a sec hey um by the way i think chat are we streaming in 4k i tested something out

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00:07:25.460 in terms of there's not like a desync or if our oh wait hello holy shit uh twitch hello is the bitrate 0.81

00:07:35.420 scuffed on twitch hold on i'll pull it up um chat on youtube first off it are you able to load it in 0.71

00:07:42.680 4k um are you able to load the stream in 4k guys and do you have oh 1440 only 1440 oh shit okay

00:07:52.620 the bitrate is scuffed apparently on twitch 2k not 4k that's fine um does it look good though 0.97

00:07:59.780 on youtube on youtube 1440 only 2k okay um what's up don't later it's later on in the show fucking 0.96

00:08:13.940 yeah um okay and then twitch hold on let me pull up we'll continue introducing yourselves please and

00:08:22.760 i'm just going to check in on this but yeah hi i'm shania i'm 25 and i work for a hotel

00:08:28.680 hi uh thank you so much for having me my name is jake i'm 25 years old i own a swimwear brand i also

00:08:36.580 run a community called irrational optimism so shout out to all my ios that are watching

00:08:40.140 and i also do sales for one of my best friend's company it's called launch socials and shout out

00:08:44.200 to launch socials which night reminder you're 25 right yep okay what about you hi i'm jamie i'm 25

00:08:52.180 years old and i run a conservative woman's magazine where we talk about fashion politics and culture

00:08:58.260 and it's called the conservateur and i'm the founder and ceo don't you have some presence in media too

00:09:04.300 yes like you because i've i've your instagram like you're on fox news or are you a i used to work for

00:09:10.640 fox you used to be a correspondent or what was your i was an associate editor associate editor fox news

00:09:17.100 okay did you have airtime though or were you more behind the scenes more behind the scenes okay gotcha

00:09:22.740 gotcha madison what about you hello my name is madison i'm what's your nickname uh i was just gonna get

00:09:28.780 get to that also known as arch arch arch arch duke arch duke france all right your name's arch

00:09:38.680 duke from now on um arc duke go ahead you're 18 keep cutting me off i'm 18 i'm a student at sbcc 0.50

00:09:48.980 studying accounting rock and roll okay cool um so we're gonna go around the table once more

00:09:56.800 what is your current relationship status are you single are you in a situation ship friends with

00:10:01.780 benefits are you in a relationship engaged are you in a polycule whatever it may be go ahead

00:10:10.840 oh andrew did i say andrew longest relationship go ahead i'm in a serious relationship right now

00:10:16.880 and my longest relationship was about nine months that's not your current relationship though no

00:10:23.280 how long is have you been dating this current six months person male female male male okay six

00:10:31.460 months okay cool what about you married to the money my longest relationship was five years

00:10:39.220 so you're single money so you're single married to the money yeah so you're saying are you

00:10:45.680 married to the money you're in a relationship with the money yes okay um does it please you

00:10:53.480 yeah like romantically not all the way everything you know mentally physically emotionally when when's

00:11:03.040 the last time you were on the date oh not with money i guess oh like a few days ago was it with the

00:11:09.060 money or was it with like a human being with both clearly with the money you were so the guy paid

00:11:15.220 for the date yes wait really yeah so it's like a sugar baby sugar oh wait what do you what do you

00:11:21.680 mean oh like he paid he paid you money to go on a date oh no i thought you're just saying like regular

00:11:27.040 date like regular okay but he paid for the day i mean should man pay for the date yes well we'll get

00:11:31.820 into that later on okay yeah um so you you're married to the money but you were on a date a few

00:11:40.060 days ago was it but that's not like a relationship no what is it a date was it the first date just one

00:11:48.100 date and that's it is there gonna be a second date no it was that bad was it bad it wasn't that bad but

00:11:55.520 it was okay uh and was it was it with a guy was it with a girl it was a guy it was a dude okay hey

00:12:03.280 it's 2023 you can't you can't assume anymore you're right okay um so how many dates a week are you going

00:12:12.040 on would you say i've only been on like three days in my life three dates in your life like with not

00:12:17.160 boyfriends okay so with boyfriends i feel like it's not proper date but what about like because what

00:12:23.140 about like just meeting someone at the party or you know well i consider a date like when you

00:12:28.840 someone's like hey i'm gonna take you on out to dinner and you're not like together and then you

00:12:34.060 go to dinner and have a date or like or like the park or whatever you know okay i consider that a

00:12:38.500 date but you are married to the money the money and you said your longest relationship was what again

00:12:42.820 five years oh five years and you're 22 yeah so was that in preschool or what

00:12:49.100 oh my god no i was like 15 so 15 to 20 yeah okay um why did he dump you um well actually

00:13:01.180 i was young and i cheated on him but i was young but he dumped you he dumped me but then he wanted

00:13:09.100 me back but i was like no after you cheated on him yes okay um and this is so this is the five

00:13:16.000 year relationship that ended when you were 20 um you cheated on him just once yes that yes was a

00:13:23.260 little suspect yes was it with just did you cheat like with just one dude or were they like it was

00:13:30.060 with one guy but like obviously with that one guy it was like i kind of had like two boyfriends at

00:13:33.940 one time situation so was your you had he was the side piece well i had my boyfriend and then

00:13:41.100 your main chick another guy yeah the other guy was the side chick yeah but it was because well

00:13:45.340 i was with my main boyfriend but like you know things weren't going well okay yeah things weren't

00:13:50.600 going well you know what i mean so no excuse i don't condone and cheating never would do it again

00:13:55.420 but i was young and he like took my virginity and everything you know what i mean so it's like we

00:13:59.640 were like you know and then things happened you know so this was like a high school relationship

00:14:04.060 yeah basically it was like my first you know or did you drop out of junior high school no okay you

00:14:10.080 were you did go to high school yes okay did you go to college by the way i forgot to yes i'm in

00:14:14.360 college oh you're currently in college okay what are you studying um pre-law pre-law you want to be a

00:14:20.700 lawyer possibly possibly or a what else can you do with if you're pre-law i mean what well i mean

00:14:30.060 right now yes yeah i suppose you don't have to go because the thing is i don't know if i'm gonna like

00:14:33.620 use the degree so like i'm i'm doing it but i don't know if i'm going to keep doing it you know

00:14:39.100 right you're getting the prerequisites or whatever yeah okay so is that the is that the major though

00:14:46.120 pre-law is that what it's called yeah pre-law okay yeah so you get your degree in pre-law okay

00:14:52.380 and then if you're so inclined you could go to law school but okay so let's get back to your

00:14:56.660 your five-year relationship so you you cheat on him was it just like

00:15:01.660 was the writing on the wall kind of you know what do you mean was it writing on the wall uh was the

00:15:09.140 writing on the wall for the uh relationship um well i mean basically he found out

00:15:15.940 and then he broke up with me and then he wanted to get back together but it didn't work out sorry

00:15:20.480 hold on just one sec eric can you uh put the audio on please it's muted right now cool sorry go ahead

00:15:26.900 but it didn't work out because he couldn't trust me anymore obviously and also i didn't want to do

00:15:31.020 that to him because i feel like we kind of grew apart so it was more like you know it's my first

00:15:35.680 relationship like type thing and we kind of were just like growing apart so it wasn't working anyway

00:15:40.640 but i was like afraid to leave at the time you know because i was like oh my first love type thing but it

00:15:45.340 wasn't like working out did he like cheat back on you or not i don't know you don't know okay but

00:15:51.740 you cheated on him did he discovered or did he tell him he discovered it he discovered it like he

00:15:57.160 walked in no oh my god and saw no no no he hacked my ipad he hacked your ipad don't use your ipad

00:16:06.240 i got two of those i gotta be careful didn't know see like text with him yeah he hacked my ipad and

00:16:11.580 literally like broke my ipad he freaked out yes he i was sleeping and he like woke me up and like

00:16:18.240 literally broke my ipad yeah but he was like so sad about it and stuff and i felt really bad so

00:16:22.720 did he punch a hole in the wall no but he was like never mind i'm not talking about it did he know the

00:16:27.140 other guy you cheated on him with answer it were they friends no wait brothers what stepbrothers wait

00:16:38.140 it was his dad it was his dad wait was it no i'm kidding uh was it actually his dad no no no you can

00:16:45.860 be honest it was his dad it was his dad okay it wasn't his dad oh my god oh you hooked up with the

00:16:53.260 dad she did too i could have you got with the dad okay got it okay this is quite a love triangle you

00:16:59.040 guys have going on here um so okay um so i don't condone a cheating at the end of the day and i would

00:17:06.160 never do it again it was a one-time thing i had another boyfriend never cheated on him um but but then

00:17:10.820 you said he wanted to get back with you yes did you take him back no i didn't that's an that's an

00:17:19.080 l as a dude to get cheated on and then yeah break up with your girlfriend and ask to get back right

00:17:24.840 strange because he actually he came to me he's like i realized like i wasn't treating you the

00:17:29.580 right way like i want to treat you the right way and like that's why you did that to me type thing

00:17:33.160 which i mean it's not i mean i don't condone in cheating like i said there's no excuse to what i did

00:17:38.140 but i mean obviously he wasn't treating me the right way so kind of good times okay maybe we'll

00:17:43.700 come back to that later um what about you current uh relationship status longest oh just closer to

00:17:48.420 the mic oh i'm like i'm like single i guess but i'm not like looking for anyone single you guess

00:17:55.340 i got so is there i'm claimed low-key like you're claimed busy in life you're claimed low-key

00:18:01.840 yeah clearly amen wait so you're claimed yes by a dude um i belong to myself period kind of i

00:18:14.540 don't know you're married to yourself yeah i've heard of people that marry themselves i'm here for

00:18:23.420 that is that a thing there was like some story really 100 what i need to know more it seems like

00:18:29.940 a very fringe thing but um so is there currently any guy in the picture like a guy you've recently

00:18:36.700 been on a couple dates with or anything i like i have people in my life that i have love for and

00:18:42.860 that i've loved for me um i have people i go on dates with just dates are fun but like i'm so focused

00:18:48.980 on school it's like i don't even give it the time of day you have people in your life who you have love

00:18:53.520 for and they have love for you what do you what does that mean it's just like you know like i'm

00:18:59.380 busy and i push everyone away and i'm just like not invested in like getting into a relationship but

00:19:05.640 like if i was going to i have people that i might consider dating so you got some sneaky links no it's 1.00

00:19:12.280 not a sneaky link i mean it's a little bit i'm still i'm celibate as fuck you're celibate as fuck 0.99

00:19:18.920 yeah what it's been like a fortnight no i just 14 days 14 days 0.99

00:19:25.000 you're celibate as fuck what when's the last time you uh i'm not don't have to answer that 0.98

00:19:34.140 well i mean you said you said how long have you been celibate how about that 1.00

00:19:37.500 my whole life huh you've been celibate your whole life that's cap is it true you're friends with

00:19:43.140 her i actually know the truth but why don't you just say it so it's just just capping just say

00:19:48.460 it's a good thing it's just i don't know i'm just not interested in anyone right now it's not that

00:19:52.400 long wait so what i mean that's not my business that's why i love you but it's a good it's a good

00:19:58.660 answer it's a good thing if you want you want me to tell them no no no later me and you can break

00:20:02.320 more celibacy yeah okay because you know you're better for me and like you're like we love you're

00:20:07.060 feeling me wait so okay you're you're celibate question mark yeah i guess so i'm just not interested

00:20:14.260 in anyone have you ever had a period of non-celibacy that's such a well-worded question yeah the gears

00:20:21.160 are turning i'm gonna track it out um why can't i just be someone who's like doesn't who can't

00:20:27.860 it's yeah i've had periods of non-celibacy i guess how long okay so you're not so you've you 0.73

00:20:35.080 have had sex at least once yeah at least once at least once at least one time yeah okay at least

00:20:42.500 once okay well you were kind of angling there to you were kind of angling there to it sounded like 0.97

00:20:49.580 you were gonna try to say you were a virgin but i'd love to be a virgin but alas that is not the case

00:20:55.680 well clearly because you've already said you're not i feel like i'm gonna answer this question on 0.98

00:21:00.540 contingency so okay you're look are you you said you're celibate as fuck right yeah how long have 0.69

00:21:06.580 you been celibate i'm gonna answer that question one day it's kind of long don't answer it 0.96

00:21:14.100 kind of long kind of long like it's a good thing like oh the the period of her celibacy is kind of long

00:21:22.140 you know what three weeks that's not true but that's longer than three weeks the i think the

00:21:29.800 longer the better so i mean like it's not i don't think it's embarrassing for you to be like yeah it's

00:21:35.960 been fucking four score in seven years i don't know it's been four score in seven years ago 0.97

00:21:43.100 many moons have passed what's the score is score five or is it ten many moons have passed wait score 0.98

00:21:49.820 is ten right chat chat is many full moons chat is scored ten at any any case so uh what like

00:21:59.560 it's been a year how long just answer the question please so i can move it along i really don't want

00:22:06.400 to are you pleading the fifth okay i plead the fifth yeah all right whatever okay what about you

00:22:11.680 thank you oh uh i've been in a relationship for two years now okay two-year relationship all right

00:22:20.280 what about you shania i'm single and my longest relationship was roughly seven months seven

00:22:26.380 months oh by the way guys eric can you find the photo of her dad

00:22:30.600 her dad's a famous rock star musician wait before because there's there's some uh

00:22:39.540 you're hiding that you give that energy for sure yeah there's um it's you're gonna have to you have

00:22:45.360 to google it i'm pretty sure or wait actually it might be in one of the folders let me i'll

00:22:48.720 look for you really quick but um guys if you want to guess in the chat some of you might already

00:22:53.140 know um 80s hair metal band right sure if you sing the song we don't have to pull up a photo

00:23:00.500 oh but i'm not the musician in the family so round and round there you go get it dude okay in the chat

00:23:09.200 who's who's her dad wait don't say me by the way okay that was corny um eric can you find a picture

00:23:17.320 i'm gonna have to like i'm gonna have to tell you yeah i'm gonna have to wait eric eric do you remember

00:23:23.840 how to do a full mute i'll i'll say it to you mute it oh yeah yeah just press it press the button

00:23:28.980 real quick do a few yeah robin crosby okay you can uh just google it okay all right did you guys hear

00:23:41.440 that hopefully this picture better be worth it yo is our twitch scuffed oh video is fine on twitch

00:23:48.880 hey um twitch mods can you just in our uh twitch chat can you guys tell me if uh if there's any uh

00:23:56.200 dropped frames on twitch or is the video okay just keep me apprised to that and then uh mods

00:24:02.520 on youtube is the frame rate okay is it is it all good um wait hello sydney huh okay wait so

00:24:12.300 single seven months okay we'll keep moving while we uh while you find that did you find that like blue

00:24:18.720 photo with the guitar oh you don't come on bro does he look pretty in it he always looks

00:24:28.400 oh wow what about the red background one shania's dad was a legit giga chad what does that mean

00:24:41.040 you don't know what a giga chad is okay after you find find a uh photo of giga chad too um

00:24:47.480 youtube chat is acting weird hello um eric why don't you go ahead and pull it up why not

00:24:53.520 wow it's such a low res potato photo dude hello what about the purple purple one scroll down

00:25:06.360 you play instruments scroll down scroll down scroll down the purple are you interested in music at all 0.68

00:25:11.280 there you go oh okay what's that wow what a fucking wait is there there's a lot going on what year was 0.94

00:25:19.920 this how tall are you shania by the way i am six foot two six foot two and her dad was pretty tall 0.98

00:25:28.140 do you model is this is this cringe i feel better bro robin with two b's hello did you ever graduate 0.99

00:25:34.960 college eric hello i'm teasing you um oh it is fuck okay oh yeah that's right i'm the college drop 0.96

00:25:44.400 okay um and then giga chat find a photo of giga chad it's the can chat we have a giga chat emote can 0.97

00:25:52.720 chat just spam giga chat in the chat please just spam yeah that's god is that his name click click the

00:26:02.880 one where it's giga chat what does that mean it's a pretty dark photo hey i love crimson chin jesus

00:26:10.800 is that a lot oh my god spam brian wait spam giga chat in the chat okay my dad was a little fluffier

00:26:18.080 than him though is that your type though no not giga chad you're telling me giga chad slides into your

00:26:25.920 dms and you're not going for it hell no oh no absolutely not all right if you say so um what

00:26:32.560 about you your uh relationship status yeah relationship i'm single uh my longest relationship

00:26:37.280 was about like two years yeah single two years okay eric can you adjust the exposure on the camera go

00:26:43.200 ahead uh your status so i'm married and i've been married for one and a half years and my husband and

00:26:52.240 i had our first baby in december congratulations thank you congratulations um you know what we

00:26:59.680 actually have the baby in the studio believe it or not brian's gonna hold the baby there you go um

00:27:08.880 show us your motherly instincts please okay you have to hold that the rest of the show by the way

00:27:14.400 yeah okay um actually though okay um that's your daughter okay uh go ahead um my current relationship

00:27:28.400 status i'm taken and i've been with my boyfriend for almost 10 months but my longest relationship

00:27:35.600 in the past has been 10 months so okay good times okay uh did you wait what were we going for oh let

00:27:43.360 me do a couple chats here really quick okay we have uh feeling dangerous

00:27:51.920 the stream doesn't appear to be foobar that's effed up beyond all repair tonight like on sunday

00:27:57.760 good work brian and his team uh a c excuse me a cr learning gs major cap she probably somewhere

00:28:04.640 between mao and stalin oh a cr wait what does cr stand for learn i know what gs gender studies

00:28:13.840 yeah i don't know what she's probably somewhere between mao and stalin okay oh yeah we need to

00:28:18.320 come back to that what elaborate please and then we have john galt here you guys should get farha back

00:28:25.360 on the show she's cool and the respectful disagreement makes things entertaining destiny 0.99

00:28:28.480 too great podcast brian keep it up yeah we're gonna have destiny back i think farha we have her next week

00:28:33.040 so uh yeah we should have her back on thank you john galt really appreciate uh the uh donation man

00:28:38.960 thank you um and then we have sweet potato or excuse me sweet tooth hey sweet tooth welcome back to the

00:28:44.640 stream thank you for all the support uh last show really appreciate it you dropped like a ton of

00:28:48.800 memberships last show so thank you so much that was a super stressful stream for me um i was uh yeah it

00:28:54.640 was technical issues out the wazoo so uh thank you she belongs to the streets who's this in reference

00:29:00.560 to yes clarify sweet tooth nine eight nine thank you appreciate it okay um so let's go back to you

00:29:09.680 really quick you study gender studies at ucla yes i do but you you consider yourself like a

00:29:14.960 uh moderate right leaning 100 yes but isn't gender studies like a pretty uh liberal major liberal like

00:29:28.160 feminist yes and when i started out i was very passionately liberal um like throughout high school

00:29:36.800 and then kind of when i started getting into like politics i guess in middle school i would have

00:29:41.360 considered myself a liberal um but kind of covid and then i went to a black lives matter protest and

00:29:49.280 i had a pretty bad experience there i could get into that like later on if you wanted me to or if i

00:29:55.280 could explain it now whatever you want um but yeah just kind of spewed over into a lot of things and i

00:30:04.480 noticed the world kind of just breaking down into chaos and i just had to switch i guess yeah and wait

00:30:13.680 so you're remind me you're 20 is that correct correct when when did you kind of switch to become more

00:30:20.000 conservative or moderate i guess like 2020 i would say um is when it kind of started um and then

00:30:30.480 now like i very much can articulate my opinions i guess i'm just curious though i mean you you're

00:30:41.360 studying gender studies but i mean it sounds like your switch occurred prior to you entering school at

00:30:46.400 ucla so why did you go into uh well that field in the beginning of it like covid i guess um i kind

00:30:56.880 i didn't i didn't i was still like very socially liberal but i kind of covid just like started to

00:31:05.440 make me on uneasy i guess right and just kind of all the censorship surrounding it and um so that was

00:31:14.160 just kind of the beginning of it and then i started with like the classes and i enjoyed them in the

00:31:22.000 beginning but then like i went to a black lives matter protest and they i was walking with my

00:31:30.480 friends and you know we're chanting doing the whole thing and then did you get jumped no i was not

00:31:35.680 jumped i was not jumped but these basically there's an interviewer there and i had like this sign and

00:31:42.160 like me and my friends are having a good time and i'm like wanted to just shake the sign in front of

00:31:47.040 the news reporter basically and she kind of just asked me a question she's like oh why are you out

00:31:52.320 here today and i was like oh i believe in the principles of dr martin luther king you know and

00:31:57.120 i believe in peace and equality and kind of the basic rundown you know and then these two girls 0.91

00:32:05.840 started like harassing me and the newscaster they were just like why would you interview a white girl

00:32:13.200 to black lives matter protest this is ridiculous and then the girls came up to me and were like 1.00

00:32:20.000 next time check your privilege and hand the mic over to a person of color and i just 0.92

00:32:27.840 started like yeah like i was just like i was just out there like talking about martin luther king

00:32:32.720 and like spewing what you guys are supposed to be out here talking about and that's not even good

00:32:38.400 enough so i just it that was the start of it and then like i just started to see in media and pop

00:32:44.240 culture that like there was just this like disdain towards white people and it's kind of alarming

00:32:50.800 quite honestly you know so you got red-pilled i got red-pilled yes but also white-pilled because i

00:32:57.200 what is white uh moderate that's like another term for it i've never i've never heard the white pill yeah

00:33:03.360 white pill um white yeah white pill just like you're like yeah you're you're neither i guess

00:33:08.560 it could be a purple pill because blue and red together makes purple but it's that tick tock

00:33:12.640 song it's like oh something i said she liked purple so i blew her back out and left her on red

00:33:20.960 get it because don't let that go over your head because

00:33:25.120 welcome to california yeah but i'm sorry yeah no um i can't even remember where i was going with that

00:33:31.200 now but okay but so okay you're studying gender studies yes um but you're still in it um how do

00:33:36.720 you not feel the need to just throw yourself off a building every time you're in a gender studies 0.99

00:33:43.120 class i'll be honest i don't go to class a lot which kind of tells you something about gender studies

00:33:48.000 is it online yeah i get away with it um are you gonna switch your major you're just gonna try to

00:33:54.560 no i i'm too far along like i would have to i don't i don't really like school i went and i started

00:34:00.720 with gender studies because i was interested in it i knew i could get good grades and i knew i

00:34:05.680 could get the degree and my grandma told me when i was a kid that nobody can ever take a degree away

00:34:10.160 from you it's and that was just kind of important to me i didn't really give a fuck about what the 0.74

00:34:16.560 major i chose was um yeah no i i wanted to do something after like more creative like start a

00:34:24.480 business or go on creative projects like content creation and i you know i mean i don't think i need

00:34:32.800 a major for that you know i was gonna say with a gender studies degree that's probably like 1.00

00:34:38.560 the joke is often like you're basically unemployable well but with all the like die 0.93

00:34:43.680 shit you could probably like infiltrate like 100 percent like that was my original plan i wanted to go 0.99

00:34:50.000 into hr so there is a lot like actually be based in hr like not be a fucking cuck in hr yeah no and 0.99

00:34:56.880 i that was kind of like my original plan with it is to go into h 0.63

00:35:01.040 psyop the hr department exactly yeah do hr but you can also like go and work in news or media um you

00:35:09.040 could go and run a business on your own or you could become like a lot of a lot of um sorry like fire not

00:35:17.120 fire departments police departments are actually looking for like dei majors because why it's to

00:35:22.880 appear more equitable like oh my god failed society it's over equity and inclusion yeah start learning

00:35:30.080 chinese guys it's it's done okay um yeah okay so uh what was i gonna say i don't know um good times

00:35:37.440 yeah it's good times i i mean i want to kill myself half the time like when i when when the like

00:35:43.520 lecture slide comes up and it says she means that metaphorically oh i'm so sorry i'm youtube 0.95

00:35:48.000 moderators get the fucking shit she's talking about blm i'm so sorry i think it's good that 0.98

00:35:55.440 being in an environment that's opposite to what you believe yeah that was why i did that in college 1.00

00:36:00.640 and that's what i think was like so fruitful about my experience yeah and like that is what ultimately

00:36:05.920 made me decide to stick with it was i was like okay i want to be like fully armed with all of the

00:36:12.480 opposing arguments so that like i can not only create like a decision for myself as to what i

00:36:18.800 believe but also what like be able to argue it from both sides basically you know and like have

00:36:26.480 really nuanced conversations with people about it yeah i agree i went to berkeley and i always

00:36:31.040 say it made me a better conservative i'm kind of studying creative direction to get into the content

00:36:36.720 creating field and stuff which is actually doing into the mic oh i'm studying creative direction

00:36:42.000 to get into that field and it's doing me pretty good i'm learning a lot all right we have bob blah

00:36:47.440 bob blah blah 100 i can't pronounce that uh white pill means you have hope for the future and black

00:36:52.720 pill means you have no hope for the future hey thank you man appreciate it we have uh odin with the 99

00:36:59.520 thank you man thank goodness nobody is hitting on nick this time for the group what job and degree is the

00:37:04.400 biggest red green flag for dating verse hookup why that specific job uh odin hey thank you man yeah

00:37:09.760 we'll go around the table on this really quick um let's start with you go ahead um i guess red to me

00:37:18.240 it's more about like the person someone is like because i think you can meet someone at any point on their

00:37:24.640 journey and so it's about like their efforts and where they are and like i don't look at a partner

00:37:31.040 based off of like what they've achieved but kind of how they're showing up the efforts that they're

00:37:35.520 putting in so i don't really think that there's like a red or a green flag for me

00:37:40.560 there's not like any job a guy could have that i mean maybe if it was illegal and like

00:37:47.520 you know dangerous to me then i would definitely think that's a red flag but other than that no

00:37:54.720 what about um like someone who i'm trying to think of something that could be a red flag for

00:38:01.600 someone different goals like if you're seeking out a husband that's going to like provide for

00:38:06.000 your family you might like want them to have a certain income to provide and protect but not

00:38:11.520 everybody has that goal and so um yeah not for me do you make content online me yeah do you like

00:38:18.480 do of or anything like that i like for fun i've done like tick tock videos but not um that kind of

00:38:24.640 videos just like yeah but no you don't have only fans no okay um would you okay so the the question

00:38:32.080 is is what job and degree i think we'll just pick one of those we'll do job is the biggest either

00:38:39.120 biggest red or green flag and then he specifies for dating versus hookup but i i just want to try

00:38:45.040 to minimize this so what job or do no hold on what job is the biggest red flag i think the biggest red

00:38:54.720 the biggest red flag would be a job where somebody is not being conscious about how their actions or

00:39:00.400 behavior in their company or in their real life is affecting other beings on the planet so if they're

00:39:05.440 not being conscious of that and just being greedy that's the biggest red flag for me what what's the

00:39:10.480 term for people that are um i think it's i'm blanking right now it's on the tip of my tongue you're

00:39:16.240 you're a uh oh a lobbyist what about a lobbyist for the tobacco industry is that a red flag for you

00:39:23.440 probably yeah i mean not like a red flag i guess i'm an open-minded person but um i'm definitely someone

00:39:30.400 who you know would want my partner to also want to be involved in a career path that is supportive of

00:39:37.520 helping humanity become healthier become happier so for me personally it wouldn't probably be my

00:39:44.240 like cup of tea but everybody's entitled to their own preferences okay so no to the tobacco lobbyist

00:39:51.600 let's say he's making 300k a year though don't care that doesn't you don't care you don't care about

00:39:56.800 money no not about i can't i don't look at a partner through the lens of how much money they're making

00:40:01.760 you know what about like do you want do you want to have uh kids one day i don't oh you don't want

00:40:06.800 to have kids yeah i don't okay um well have you always felt that way i have always felt that way

00:40:12.640 okay do you think that's gonna change or you're pretty like i mean you've already got your tubes

00:40:16.720 tied basically no but i'm not gonna i'm open-minded to my mind changing but it's always been something

00:40:23.840 that's like very apparent to me that i feel like i have other you know things that i want to do with

00:40:30.160 my life and that you can have a family in a way that's not necessarily that traditional so for me

00:40:36.960 i've always known that but i'm always open my i'm not gonna never say never you know but pretty sure

00:40:41.840 okay got it and then do you know do you have a sense of what you want to do career-wise like do you

00:40:46.400 want to um i studied psychology in school but i didn't really see myself going in on that traditional

00:40:53.600 path of getting a master's and becoming a therapist but definitely want to work in helping

00:40:58.800 empower women to be confident in themselves and all people as well helping people with

00:41:04.560 their relationships with their health that kind of stuff okay do you think you'll be a high earner

00:41:10.320 one day i do okay but in terms of a partner you wouldn't care about the money they make no like you

00:41:16.240 even even though perhaps you intend to make six figures in a year you would date a guy works at 0.97

00:41:22.400 mcdonald's a hundred percent really i would come on i would i mean to me it's about when you die you

00:41:28.560 take your memories and so if that guy who works at mcdonald's like if i share like the best laughs and

00:41:34.720 the best memories that's all i'm taking with me and so you know if he's a good person and i respect

00:41:39.520 him as a person that's what i look for in a partner okay uh what about you so biggest uh red flag in

00:41:45.680 terms of like a job from a guy um i agree with her with a lot of things she said as well um as long

00:41:52.400 as they're doing something that they love and that doesn't affect humanity in a negative way but for

00:41:58.960 me i would if i had to pick i would say like a red flag one would be something illegal or a corn star

00:42:06.080 wouldn't do that a corn star would be agreed would not absolutely not okay uh just want to check in

00:42:15.360 here really quick with the chat is uh the viewership or sorry excuse me not the viewership is the uh

00:42:22.640 video quality okay just want to check in this is our first time streaming at a higher uh what's it

00:42:27.680 called like a higher quality so just want to make sure that the chat is or the quality of the video is

00:42:32.480 okay uh one in the chat if the video quality is okay there's not any dropped frame rates the audio sync

00:42:38.400 is fine uh yeah okay it sounds like it's good um so wait but okay you'd have an issue with a guy who

00:42:46.480 does yeah yeah just because i mean i don't want my guy to be with like a bunch of women for his job 0.90

00:42:53.520 that's just not you said you do only fans right um yeah do you do solo content i don't do any like

00:43:01.040 things with anybody else it's mainly just like just like solo stuff like extra bikini pics you know

00:43:05.280 what i mean it's nothing crazy okay got it but so you wouldn't get with a guy who does porn that'd

00:43:10.000 be like a red flag for you yeah okay got it um okay uh and then just really quick money wise like

00:43:18.240 do you want a guy who makes about as much as you make because you said you're married to the money 1.00

00:43:21.840 right yeah and you said you own like two businesses you make content yeah um a lot of girls on only

00:43:28.240 fans make quite a bit of money yeah how much how much uh money do you make from only fans i'm not gonna

00:43:32.880 say uh give maybe a range five figures six figures a month it's good amount five figures i'm not gonna

00:43:39.520 say mid mid five figures it's pretty good it's good give us give us a range give us a range it's above

00:43:45.120 six figures above six figures a month yeah okay oh wait not a month not a month not a month yeah yeah a

00:43:50.000 month oh a month okay no no no it's not a hundred thousand a month i'm not saying

00:43:57.680 but you said in a year it's over six figures yeah okay that's all i'll say so do you do you need

00:44:04.320 a guy that you're potentially going to date to make as much money as you no no you don't care about

00:44:10.800 money no okay i just want a guy that i have a connection with and that you know i love as a person

00:44:17.600 sure so you would date a guy who works even though you're 22 and you're making six more than six

00:44:23.200 figures a month totally fine dating a guy who works at mcdonald's okay maybe not mcdonald's

00:44:30.080 as long as they can provide for themselves sure so i don't want to pay for them okay what about wendy's

00:44:36.240 like a more that's the same thing more reputable fast food restaurant i mean i want i want the guy

00:44:40.160 that i'm with to have goals like if he's working at mcdonald's and he's like pursuing like

00:44:43.840 what something else why do you want him to have goals what what is the end benefit of having goals

00:44:49.760 because i mean why would what are we gonna talk about like i'm gonna be like so you talk about

00:44:55.200 goals i mean yeah like talking about the future or talking about something you're passionate about i

00:44:59.840 want a man to be passionate about something while they're talking to me you know what i mean if

00:45:04.000 they're just like yeah i worked at mcdonald's today it shows their pursuit to grow is that but is

00:45:07.840 that what you do when you're with a guy you just talk about work okay not all day the last thing i want

00:45:12.480 to do with with a girl is talk about my work okay maybe never work because okay i'm not let's say

00:45:17.760 he's working at mcdonald's we're not talking about oh how was making the burgers it's about like okay

00:45:22.240 his future goals that he's pursuing but once he pursues the goals we're not gonna talk about it every

00:45:26.480 day so you want to do like a power couple thing yeah maybe power couple power couple yeah i would like

00:45:32.880 a power couple or maybe even even if he's not in like the spotlight of something i would still want

00:45:37.680 a man that has goals if it's a business or if it's something hold on just a sec feeling dangerous

00:45:43.680 thank you man i appreciate it 13 donated 199 dollars i am really shocked she wasn't lying

00:45:50.960 i mean a gender studies major who isn't a ranting communist never thought i'd see the day she ain't 1.00

00:45:56.400 bad looking either oh thank you yeah um imagine our surprise a moderate person studying gender 0.99

00:46:07.680 studies yeah i'm a paradox it's yeah i do we'll touch on it a little bit later but i would like to get

00:46:14.480 into uh maybe you can reveal the uh disastrous stuff that they're espousing uh in the class um okay so

00:46:23.120 we were talking about basically um what you're looking for in a partner um but so you're 22 so

00:46:30.560 i mean i think most of the guys in your age range aren't going to be making six figures a month or

00:46:34.000 excuse me six figures a year yeah yeah um um yeah well i i personally won't date below like 21.

00:46:43.440 she won't date below 21. i feel like it's weird if they're like not 21. that's to me it's weird

00:46:48.640 because i'm like they can't even drink sure and it's like where what are you we're gonna go

00:46:52.720 take me out to dinner i'm like can i get a glass of wine he's like not gonna be able to get a glass

00:46:55.520 of wine that's weird to me yeah i mean i think that's pretty normal typically you hear from women 1.00

00:46:59.360 they want to date a guy who's at least their age or a bit older yeah um okay what about you uh

00:47:06.320 biggest red flag in uh i guess anything that like takes away from them or that they don't feel happy

00:47:12.320 about like if you're like doing something that like makes you feel like and you just continuously

00:47:18.000 do it because why for just the check like if you're so like running a dating podcast

00:47:23.760 i'm kidding chat i'm kidding um or like anything that would like make you feel like just icky like

00:47:29.280 um i don't know like i'm trying to think something that you don't feel happy about like if they're

00:47:35.040 unhappy and whatever they're doing like i feel like if someone's working at mcdonald's like they're

00:47:38.720 not like waking up every day like i'm gonna go conquer mcdonald's unless you are like thank you

00:47:43.120 for my extra happy meal toy but um you gotta be like really passionate about what you do um red flag

00:47:50.480 wise i guess anything that's like here straight into the mic oh red flag wise like i don't know anything

00:47:57.520 that would like be dirty or unhygienic you know something that would like make them like like a plumber

00:48:03.760 maybe if it's like if they're not good money they gotta just stay clean you gotta have good

00:48:11.600 hygiene you know i wasn't particularly thinking of plumber i was thinking about like something that

00:48:16.640 make you smell i don't know something that makes you smell like a construction worker or something no

00:48:23.120 i mean there's showers showers like even like maybe even like a butcher like i mean i've heard people

00:48:29.360 who work with like fish can kind of yeah but they make so much money yeah um and i'm not judging any

00:48:37.200 profession i just like but questions so do you at the end of the day though your answer is a little

00:48:42.240 similar to theirs uh you don't care about how much money the guy makes and keep in mind i know some of

00:48:47.280 you guys are younger so at this point in in time maybe you don't really care about the guy's income but

00:48:52.160 let's say like when you're 25 30 do you want kids by the way you want kids yeah okay so

00:48:59.440 um say down the road when you're 25 you've started your career do you care or not care about a guy's

00:49:06.800 money yeah i mean he's gotta be making me or more you know at least as much as you i plan to make a

00:49:12.960 lot of money so yeah i station i don't want to like i mean i believe i can take care of someone i feel

00:49:18.480 like it is important to for like a woman to take care of a man yeah in like a lot of ways but i think

00:49:25.600 that if he's kind of and then like i don't know like whether i'm dating like any and even a man

00:49:31.440 from dating a woman like you can't have that inferiority complex and there are people out

00:49:38.320 there who don't get that and who are just like super supportive and who are like super like

00:49:42.000 peace-minded sure but like you know there are people out there that are like oh okay i'm making

00:49:47.280 under my my partner and i'm sure sitting on the couch and you said that you plan to be a high earner

00:49:52.720 correct yeah do you plan do you anticipate making more than 100k a year of course of course okay

00:49:58.720 you're very confident okay um but currently do you not really care about a guy's money at this point

00:50:06.480 in time um i'm really focused on school yeah so it's like i'm not even looking for someone i mean

00:50:11.920 like the people that i'd be going out with like they take care of me and maybe i'm just like maybe

00:50:16.480 i just attract that because i like to be taken care of and i like to take care of people sure but um

00:50:21.280 yeah definitely like hmm it's it is attractive for someone to have bread of course sure but if i

00:50:29.920 love you i love you yeah um do you know what you're gonna be doing for work hopefully going

00:50:35.680 into creative directing or like something lovely like performing or okay when do you think you'll

00:50:40.960 start making 100k plus by i'm gonna cap it like before 25 before 25 yeah so within three years you're

00:50:48.720 going to be making over 100k even if it's 60k over two dollars over yeah i'll put that as my goal

00:50:55.840 sure two two dollars over 100k 100k yeah even if it's just you know i mean that's pretty ambitious

00:51:02.960 to be making 100k by the time you're 25 but um go ahead what about you thank you uh biggest red flag

00:51:08.720 and like job career wise yeah um besides anything illegal like if you're criminal yeah like if you're

00:51:15.600 a drug dealer ponzi scheme like anything like that yeah no or pharmaceuticals anything in there sure

00:51:23.120 and then uh kind of related to this um currently and then perhaps in the future do you want kids yes

00:51:28.640 well you're in a relationship now so uh do you uh do you care about man's earning potential or his money

00:51:37.760 um yes and no i don't know i think it's kind of a hard question like i i think in general yes like

00:51:46.160 it's good to have those wants but you also can't control who you love so okay yeah um a big red flag for

00:51:56.800 me personally is if you work in like a dispensary or like what i love that for you i don't really i

00:52:06.960 don't smoke and so that has zero interest to me and you know i kind of like what you said when you

00:52:13.200 come home and you tell me about your job i'm not gonna care i don't know what's going on okay so you

00:52:18.160 don't want to pothead basically yeah i'm not i'm not i mean a little bit here and there you know

00:52:23.040 whatever everyone does it but like i said i i don't do it so i don't smoke either yeah it's i'm

00:52:28.800 i'm good uh what about you uh biggest red flag yeah career wise um and a girl i would say only

00:52:34.800 fans are like a corn star it's not my cup of tea sure and um what was the other question uh that's

00:52:41.760 uh what about you no offense but probably my biggest red flag would be like an hr job or

00:52:48.640 if a guy worked at planned parenthood i feel like that would be a no-go for me are guys a lot of work

00:52:55.600 at planned parenthood i knew some i've never seen a man in planned parenthood so okay deal breaker if

00:53:02.400 they work at an hr or they're an abortion doctor okay god oh my god understood okay um and uh what

00:53:12.000 without revealing too much what kind of what what line of work is your uh husband in so we met on a

00:53:19.200 presidential political campaign and so he works in politics for kanye no not for kanye we worked on

00:53:25.200 the trump campaign together okay so we met on the 2020 trump campaign and he is in politics like me

00:53:31.280 still he works he does fundraising for an organization and yeah okay um fundraising got it

00:53:39.440 uh my biggest red flag career wise um would probably be can we get maddie some c boosters 1.00

00:53:48.800 eric can you get her to the seat maybe like a gamer you're just kind of a gamer sitting on a chair all

00:53:53.600 day doing nothing i feel like that really affects your health mentally and physically let's do both

00:53:59.840 let's get both over here my posture is just all so terrible right now but there you go double c

00:54:06.560 boosters for maddie here i'll let you figure that out um

00:54:14.400 okay um what what was your answer

00:54:19.920 oh you're talking to me oh 200 character limit on stream labs here i'll change it

00:54:25.040 i'll change it mike davis mike davis think for the hundred listen up kings you see how these

00:54:29.200 fat bona fide bona fide slobs disrespect you it ain't worth it be like mike davis and head 0.98

00:54:34.720 overseas passport bros we up and brian you bug him with 200 characters on stream labs won't then

00:54:39.440 donate another dollar until that's changed mike davis i'm gonna boost it just for you buddy i'm

00:54:43.840 gonna do it right now hold hold your horses okay we're gonna do that right now and does money matter

00:54:49.600 maddie to you it matters enough to a point where like uh you're able to take care of me and our

00:54:59.040 children later in life because i want to be a stay-at-home mom and take care of my kids so you're 0.77

00:55:04.960 making enough money to take care of the family you want to be a stay-at-home yeah husband i mean

00:55:11.520 trophy wife you want to be a trophy wife what i call it okay and frankie's cool with that frankie's

00:55:17.680 cool with that he's super down for it yep okay i'm making the oh so mike davis the uh limit is 255

00:55:25.920 characters uh on stream labs they they don't let you make it higher so i'm gonna bump it to 255 that

00:55:32.640 should be saved now fyi he wants to write uh extra long messages thank you though for the uh super

00:55:38.960 chat man much appreciated okay so we'll we'll get to that here in just a sec uh okay so oh i should

00:55:46.320 answer this okay so guys here's some fucking game for you hold on let me just pull up the question 0.97

00:55:52.320 so i have it biggest red flag career wise and degree so hr if she works in hr that's a red flag 0.99

00:56:00.800 if she's a flight attendant also red flag if she's a travel nurse also red flag honestly if she's a nurse

00:56:06.880 she's probably also red flag i'm just gonna i'm gonna reduce the dating pool to like zero um let's see

00:56:13.840 um only fans probably a red flag um stripper red flag i mean these are obvious though porn star red

00:56:22.800 flag those are the given though if it's like of i mean yeah no offense over there but uh there's a

00:56:29.680 stigma around it because you don't got to do nude stuff all the time if you're the daughter of a 80s

00:56:35.360 hair metal band that's also a red flag um and if you yeah if you're the daughter of an 80s hair band

00:56:44.560 guitarist okay shots fired tonight specifically shots fired um let's see what else oh and then as far

00:56:51.840 as degrees that go anything like in like gender studies shots fired um communications comms pretty 0.95

00:57:04.240 bad so sociology i think anthrop anthropology is kind of like soc but soc is pretty bad um

00:57:13.840 um and then i want to say uh dance dance major dance so what are green flags huh what are green

00:57:23.120 flag a green flag for a woman degree okay so green flag degrees would be stem so i think like a girl 1.00

00:57:30.320 who's in stem that's green flag um and then work wise uh i mean

00:57:36.560 unemployed unemployed unemployed is probably pretty good now um

00:57:46.480 uh i'm trying to think of what a green flag would be for a job for a girl um anything stem related i

00:57:53.840 think that's a green flag teacher red flag teacher's red flag major red flag why she's dealing with 1.00

00:58:01.120 obnoxious children i mean well it depends if she's like yeah she's just like that's such a stress 1.00

00:58:06.480 successful job and they make dog money and it's just like so teachers are miserable i feel like

00:58:11.680 so you care how much money your woman makes no i don't really care it doesn't matter i'll date

00:58:17.440 i'll date i mean i i yeah i'll so she's working at mcdonald's yeah i dated a girl who worked at 0.70

00:58:23.680 chick-fil-a i dated her for like two years did she have any goals or aspirations outside of that though

00:58:29.760 no she huh but was she like doing other stuff outside of that yeah yeah she was pursuing pursuing a uh

00:58:35.520 stem degree well she's like gonna pursue chick-fil-a like work not like just work there oh i 0.96

00:58:42.960 don't i wouldn't care i just don't me personally given my income i don't really care about a girl's

00:58:47.840 money because i could support she could be stay at home for at least for me but the reality is though

00:58:54.560 for most men and i i don't want to speak i want to speak more in general terms because most men

00:58:59.280 probably can't afford to uh hold down a household on just one income yeah just the economic reality

00:59:06.560 is is that basically because of feminism you need you now need two uh two incomes to support a family 1.00

00:59:14.960 some people can do it but um so depends where you live yeah definitely depends where you live like

00:59:22.560 the cost of living in california you probably i mean there's different parts of california where the

00:59:27.280 cost of living is lower but yeah if you want to be in a city major city probably need uh if you're

00:59:34.560 making like the average or median salary or whatever it is so um yeah did i thoroughly disqualify like

00:59:41.200 90 of women there probably okay no nurses that's like probably most so the only green flag is stem

00:59:46.720 degree that's it there's no i'm sure there's i'm sure there's more but like stem like a girl who's

00:59:51.280 studying stem to me to me i think that's a green flag um so i feel like too though when we like have

00:59:57.520 these discussions about flags it's sometimes not really applicable to like actual connections and

01:00:03.920 how they kind of just happen or even people having children sometimes it kind of just happens and people

01:00:09.680 are end up in these situations where it might not be ideal or it might have not checked off every box

01:00:14.880 on their list but that's the situation they're in sure so i feel like sometimes when we talk about

01:00:20.080 these flags and we're all like trying to make these lists that's not always how it actually unfolds you

01:00:24.320 know yeah why i i really don't care a whole bunch about uh like a woman's career like it doesn't and

01:00:32.560 well this kind of leads into my next question so just a question forever actually hold on let me do

01:00:37.440 one chat here and then we'll get into my next question um actually no we i think we're tapped out on

01:00:43.280 chats here let me just double check one thing yeah we're good okay um so uh who should pay on the

01:00:52.160 first date men the the guy the girl you split well no let me frame it like this uh who do you think

01:01:01.040 yeah just who do you think should pay on a first date who whoever initiates the date and asks you out

01:01:06.480 i think should offer to pay sure and if you can't pay and you want to like meet someone you should just

01:01:11.200 like be upfront about your situation if you want to like meet someone tell tell someone up front yeah

01:01:16.000 okay um sure uh tell them okay and uh okay so whoever asks should pay yeah what about you i think the man

01:01:28.800 should pay man should pay okay what about you um just how it ends up i feel like it shouldn't really

01:01:36.000 be a con i feel like it shouldn't always be a conversation you know just the flow of the date

01:01:40.560 kind of determines like you pay for yourself i mean of course like you want to be taken care of who

01:01:45.040 doesn't want to be taken care of especially like with gender roles and like the man pays for the first 0.99

01:01:50.080 date but like you know if you're chilling you're having a good time and the bill comes and you just

01:01:54.320 kind of like casually put your money down it's like it you mean the guy yeah the guy or the girl

01:02:00.880 i've never like that's like a non-answer but okay i guess like

01:02:08.320 like go with the flow if it's a good time it's a good time probably the guy is mostly gonna most

01:02:12.560 likely gonna pay but like okay what if it's not even like a guy guy guy girl relationship what if

01:02:18.560 it's like a girl and a girl like who pays then that is the rubik's cube of the dating world

01:02:24.640 more masculine one i don't like what is gender roles please tell us well okay sorry um who should

01:02:33.520 pay on the first date um i ideally i think that it should be men but i also am very open to the idea

01:02:44.080 of like paying for myself especially on the first date um be just because like women are like it's 1.00

01:02:49.520 kind of this like common trend now to like go on tinder and then just find some dude to take you out to

01:02:54.080 dinner so i can totally understand like a guy not wanting to pay on the first date and i would be

01:03:00.960 totally open to like splitting it on the first date going forward if i exit my relationship but

01:03:06.160 um i don't think i would have in the past but my eyes have opened a little bit and i can understand

01:03:11.280 how that would be a predicament to be in as a man okay so would it be i mean i know you're in a

01:03:17.920 relationship right now but if you weren't in a relationship and let's say you went on a date with

01:03:22.000 a guy and he asked to split the bill or he asked for separate checks would that be like a

01:03:28.400 i don't know if it would necessarily be a red flag to me i think it would kind of depend on the date

01:03:32.880 like all together that wouldn't be like the like the end line for me um if i had a great date with

01:03:39.440 a guy like all up until and then like they want to split like i i think it's really insincere to go

01:03:46.880 into a date and expect a man to pay for you like you should you should be willing to pay for yourself

01:03:53.520 like i think it's very nice and it's a wonderful gesture to pay for the first date but

01:04:00.480 you know i i i don't think that you should go in expecting that yeah and just to bring it back to

01:04:05.040 you guys so you kind of chuckled there so you go on a date with a guy and waiter comes and he's like

01:04:11.280 hey we're he says hey let's get separate checks um it's kind of like a is it a deal breaker or is

01:04:18.880 it kind of like some negative brownie points like what what is it i mean everything's of course

01:04:22.880 circumstantial and like how he's feeling how i felt like if he's saying let's get separate checks in

01:04:28.320 like a way that means like this is the this is the last date we're going on it's like okay he's not

01:04:34.160 it it's just i don't know give it in the most charitable uh view it in the most charitable

01:04:39.520 way as possible so he's not being he's just like ask the waiter hey two checks but it's not

01:04:45.760 in a way it's like oh this is the final it's interesting that that's the assumption there but

01:04:49.360 go ahead what do you mean by the assumption well your oh that reaction to me suggesting that the guy

01:04:56.480 wanting to split is him not being interested in the second date well that wasn't a reaction but i mean

01:05:01.920 like i feel like that is the assumption genuinely and then like if he does that do men do that like

01:05:08.640 as like a sign that like it's not the next day i mean me personally if he's like let's split it let's

01:05:12.640 split it like it goes over my head you know sure but like if you're like on a date with a girl and

01:05:17.840 you're chilling but you don't want to go on a date again and you're would you use splitting the check

01:05:22.480 as like a reason to like to like let her know like you're shot i don't know like there's hints

01:05:28.800 there's subtle hints you know like i'm like can you uber home after two like i've never been through

01:05:34.080 that but like jeez if you're best friends with someone for example and then you guys end up

01:05:38.080 falling in love and you before you guys were dating or in love you kind of knew their can

01:05:42.880 somebody stop shaking their legs please somebody shaking their legs please stop go ahead um but

01:05:48.320 yeah if two people were best friends and they kind of knew each other's financial situations and maybe

01:05:52.640 like the man in that situation wasn't like thriving necessarily and they fall in love and then you

01:05:58.640 know i feel like like you said it is kind of circumstantial and um that it shouldn't be this

01:06:04.320 kind of like one size fits all standard for sure i feel like if a guy asked me on a date like i'm

01:06:12.080 kind of expecting them to pay just because they're inviting me they're asking me kind of like even if

01:06:16.320 you ask your friend to go somewhere sometimes like oh like it's on me with a friend but in a date

01:06:20.800 situation i'm definitely expecting them to pay and if they say oh like separate checks i'm going to

01:06:25.200 find that weird it's like why do we even go on this date like i don't know okay yeah yeah let me

01:06:29.120 try to get around on this so shania did you answer the question uh no but i 100 agree that it's whoever

01:06:35.680 asks the other person out whoever asks okay yeah i uh i agree with that too it's like kind of like a

01:06:40.880 birthday party thing you know you invite people to your birthday party then ask them to pay it doesn't make

01:06:44.720 any sense i mean i don't want to be rude but if if the guy didn't pay for our date there wouldn't be

01:06:52.480 another one there wouldn't be another one i'm traditional like that agreed okay i think a

01:06:56.800 man should pay for the date well obviously like whoever initiates it but men are more likely to 0.95

01:07:01.680 initiate dates anyway so right okay um so who who here some people said man some people i think you

01:07:09.680 said whoever asks should pay uh just show of hands uh yeah show of hands whoever asks should pay

01:07:19.680 and then man should pay

01:07:24.080 all right man should pay okay yeah wait so just sorry whoever asked should pay andres okay okay um

01:07:33.600 have you ever asked out a guy no shania i have okay did you pay for the date we didn't go on the

01:07:42.080 date okay you got rejected okay well so my first thing is is that my first thinking is on this is

01:07:49.360 that whoever i should pay is de facto men should pay because women aren't out here really asking men 0.99

01:07:57.280 out on dates so anybody who says whoever i should pay your answer may as well be men should pay because

01:08:05.440 women are not out there in droves to the same degree that men are asking women out on dates

01:08:11.280 some women do ask men out on dates but it's like probably one percent of all the yeah 0.99

01:08:17.040 you got this uh happening right now too and it didn't play you better fix that hold on let me see

01:08:25.200 i've been trying to fight uh it's you might have used a banned word it didn't it didn't trigger hold

01:08:30.320 on let me check let me just see oh it's not playing that's scuffed sorry man i don't know why 0.59

01:08:39.600 better fix that shit there's always something weird going on with hashtag save mike davis hold 0.90

01:08:46.960 on let me see what's going on here one sec mike davis um wait 199 one sec one sec one sec that's so 0.99

01:08:55.600 weird i don't know why that's happening i love that you're still holding the baby i know yeah she's

01:09:00.960 still got the baby i think she really has to hold it for the whole time that's why he looks like et

01:09:05.040 where's your baby right now she's my mom and dad it's

01:09:14.800 let me see if i can trigger it one sec mike davis bro i drank way too much of this energy drink 0.98

01:09:19.760 fuck bro i drank way too much of that energy drink i'm like super wired um i'm gonna 1.00

01:09:28.000 fucking explode okay um i need to do some jumping brady gonna have to choke a bitch what the 1.00

01:09:34.960 fuck hello um okay so whoever i should pay right so uh i'll wait till she's back from the bathroom 1.00

01:09:41.840 let me see if i can trigger this one more time i feel like i don't mind hey i gotta read it sorry 0.99

01:09:46.720 mike davis or i guess i don't know why it's scuffed mike davis seven minutes ago i've been trying to fight

01:09:52.240 the good fight but you simps never learn we got a panel who deserve nothing better than a port-a-potty 0.97

01:09:56.320 cleaner yet just like the sun will rise tomorrow you simps will be in their dms i'm choosing violence 0.98

01:10:02.960 and y'all on notice okay small dick energy oh sd that's interesting okay let's talk about small 0.99

01:10:09.520 dick energy really quick okay um who here has ever used the term small dick energy besides you well 0.99

01:10:15.120 you know i have and i regret it you have and you regret it okay what about you a small dick energy 0.99

01:10:21.840 user i'm not a fan of the phrase personally what about you a small dick energy user i think it's 0.98

01:10:27.120 a metaphor not literally i guess it's a metaphor but it means something still yeah i think the 0.94

01:10:33.040 problem with it is is that if you're as a woman gonna ask for men not to objectify your body it's 0.99

01:10:38.480 hard to go and then objectify yeah their body and belittle it so that's just kind of what no you

01:10:45.520 talk i'm sorry oh sorry but yeah that's just kind of my issue with it and my friend actually brought

01:10:50.320 it up to me because we were sitting together and i just threw out the phrase i was talking

01:10:54.480 about some guy and then he was just like don't you find that like a little offensive and and i was like

01:11:01.040 oh you're right but that is kind of like he wouldn't it was just funny he went into this whole thing 0.93

01:11:06.560 about how he was pissed about it what about big dick energy that's the more common one you hear it's not 0.99

01:11:11.440 real oh you don't have to actually have a big dick to have big dick energy though you know what i mean 0.99

01:11:17.280 right it's just the energy but it presupposes that if you're attaching a body part which tends to be 0.98

01:11:27.520 something that a lot of men are insecure about to confidence essentially so for okay for example um

01:11:36.080 who who here is for body positivity show of hands ish kind of um so i don't know i'd like to propose

01:11:45.920 some new terms to the table what do you think of loose energy loose energy yeah um it's giving 30 foe

01:11:58.400 i think too like at the end of the day if you have to insult either side if you have to insult someone

01:12:03.360 in order to get a point across your point probably isn't that strong sure i agree so um i don't

01:12:08.880 yeah so i'm not a fan of those like kind of terms personally but i think that it is like thrown around

01:12:13.040 especially in our online culture where people aren't looking each other in the eye and like

01:12:17.360 you know they feel kind of empowered when they insult people okay got it um cavernous vag energy

01:12:25.680 what does that even mean i mean cavernous not not really cavern why flow off the cavernous oh it's 0.99

01:12:34.240 like a cinnamon cavernous vag energy would the big dick energy like parallel would that be tight 1.00

01:12:42.240 pussy energy huh yeah yeah it'd be like t right uh yeah type pussy energy i guess i i get my issue with 0.99

01:12:50.640 it with with that term is and it's so casually thrown around you could in most circles you can 0.99

01:12:57.280 probably throw around big dick energy like it's perfectly acceptable but if you were to like say 0.99

01:13:03.120 tight pussy energy that's probably gonna like look at you yeah they're gonna be like that's 1.00

01:13:08.560 yeah no you're right i had never thought about like big dick energy also kind of i had thought 1.00

01:13:12.640 about it for small dick energy but i had never thought about it for big dick energy well i think kind of 0.98

01:13:15.840 yeah yeah i i think it's small dick energy is worse because yes but i think they're both bad 0.98

01:13:21.520 placing importance on somebody's body parts it's interesting but in society they do that anyway

01:13:26.800 like men are still going to do that to women do what talk about our bodies and sure probably i feel

01:13:33.280 like women talk about men's bodies all the time like i hear all the time closer to the mic i always hear 0.53

01:13:38.240 people talk about like man's height is like a huge thing that like oh i would never date someone below

01:13:43.440 six feet and like that's the equivalent i feel like of a man saying of like talking about like

01:13:47.760 a woman's weight or something i think you owe an apology to mike davis for for saying he has uh

01:13:54.720 he wanted to be rude to us so yeah if you want and i wasn't trying to say the phrase as in that way

01:13:59.120 you guys made me think of it differently but i was just saying the phrase as a metaphor not

01:14:02.320 thinking about actually like the size of you know your thing you probably have a great huge

01:14:07.120 thing okay what exactly does like the energy's off the energy is bad okay that's it the answer to this

01:14:13.920 one okay it has to like originate from the fact that if you have like a if you're extremely like

01:14:20.240 tiny or like you have a really insecure about your size when you sleep with people you're gonna act a

01:14:25.360 certain way like when you're not when you have your one night stands like insecure you're gonna act a

01:14:29.040 certain way so that they don't talk about it like if you're insecure about your size what are you gonna do 0.98

01:14:33.920 like are you gonna treat the bitches that you can have one night stands with like like 1.00

01:14:38.000 shit because like because you're like nervous that they're gonna go talk like i don't know 1.00

01:14:42.560 like i feel like it has to come from how those people feel if anything and then big dick energy 0.99

01:14:48.400 is like just confidence like flowing like which is more of a joke though but this is like 0.76

01:14:54.320 small dick energy is more of like a joke you know like yeah no one's gonna be like well yeah but

01:14:58.080 it's a joke but if if if the reverse would not be viewed as a as a joke for example if you were to 0.62

01:15:04.400 like say i'm trying to think but one of the more positive ones like

01:15:10.480 not like skinny girl energy or some they kind of say that they say like skinny queen or whatever or

01:15:18.480 like things like that or i hear the opposite but uh anyways let's move on from that okay let's bring

01:15:24.240 it back to the money thing so um i forgot where we left off on the on that so uh i had a question

01:15:30.480 about the money thing like yeah um i was gonna say like when we're talking about for example how

01:15:35.040 like you were saying how you know usually it's like men paying um don't do you think that sometimes

01:15:42.560 maybe it's also a good idea to encourage women to be independent in the sense that you don't they 0.99

01:15:49.440 don't want to jump to depend on a man for finances because they can wind up in a situation where if 0.63

01:15:54.960 you are dependent on a guy and it's not a healthy situation and you're relying on them in that sense

01:16:01.120 then it's harder for them to leave maybe they haven't sought out a path to support themselves and maybe

01:16:05.600 being independent can be a way out of a dangerous situation for a lot of men well and i understand

01:16:10.480 your question but what the question is related specifically to like dates first dates until unless you're in

01:16:17.600 like really deep into this relationship with this i don't think that would really come into play

01:16:21.840 for a first date i wouldn't think of that yeah but then into the relationship does that expectation

01:16:26.960 carry on does the woman continue to expect the man to pay because do you not really because you said

01:16:32.080 whoever i should pay right um i think that well you're okay you're six months into a relationship

01:16:37.760 right did your current boyfriend did he pay for the first date he did did he pay for the second and

01:16:41.520 third um we kind of help you split help each other out or switch off like you know i love to

01:16:48.240 pay and like um we both work hard we work together and so um i love to pay for him sometimes and he loves

01:16:55.760 to pay for me too and like we take care of each other and he's definitely you know taking me to very

01:17:00.640 nice places and paid as well just closer to the mic please um okay um so

01:17:07.520 i i want to try to keep this minimized i mean that that is something that happens but it's

01:17:16.880 it's typically something that might play out uh later on in a relationship so uh so you said whoever

01:17:25.600 i should pay you said the man should pay you said the man should pay correct yeah you said gender 0.63

01:17:30.160 roles i said that i can it wouldn't be like the end of it for me basically you're whoever whoever

01:17:39.360 pays you said the man the man the man okay i said the man but i also don't mind paying right you also

01:17:45.920 don't have to break the bank on the first day too yeah just first date yeah oh yeah i mean do fun

01:17:51.200 things without having to go to dinner first dates you should very low commitment i reckon but that's not

01:17:57.280 a lot of guys are not tuned into that and sometimes they'll go a little overboard so um

01:18:02.240 well it's interesting so you said whoever asks you said the man should pay you said the man should pay

01:18:07.120 but all three of you said you don't really care about the guy's money earlier on in the conversation

01:18:11.200 so how do you reconcile saying you don't care about the guy's money but expecting the guy to pay

01:18:14.960 for the first date okay well the first date is kind of different than throughout an entire relationship

01:18:19.280 like you're asking me like long term do i care about like him paying for everything or like

01:18:24.720 making a certain amount of money that's different than like okay first date like first date if he's

01:18:28.720 asking me on a date which is like you said most women are not asking men on a date so i'm assuming 0.93

01:18:33.760 them and i don't ask guys on dates so if he's asking me i'm assuming he's gonna pay because

01:18:36.960 he's inviting me to dinner so that's kind of what you're saying is like they're different like she

01:18:42.480 wouldn't be going out there to that restaurant on her own and paying for that so someone's saying hey 1.00

01:18:46.480 like i'm inviting you to come then you know you and if they say like i actually like don't have the

01:18:52.720 means right now like i feel like that's the individual situation where you can decide you

01:18:56.960 know yeah and if he doesn't have the means to pay on the first date then he probably shouldn't be in

01:19:00.480 a relationship i think he shouldn't be on a relationship if he if he should be focusing

01:19:06.720 on himself so so shouldn't we say the same thing about women who expect men to pay for first yes of 0.55

01:19:11.680 course i don't think women should use men to go dinner you literally just said that men should pay

01:19:16.320 for the first date yes the first day if they're asking the woman to go on the date yes okay which is

01:19:20.720 how it always happens right like women typically yeah exactly women don't ask for dates but exactly

01:19:26.240 they do sometimes yeah sure they rare rare i don't think it's rare it's super i think it's more rare

01:19:32.640 yeah in hetero well hetero heteronormative like well non-heteronormative relationships are rare too

01:19:40.560 i shouldn't say rare they're they're not the norm no that's not the right word um they're not

01:19:46.400 um i don't know what's the percentage breakdown of straight it's what 90 95 no and gen z 21 of gen z

01:19:56.800 is identifies as lgbtq yeah i think it used to be 10 like when we were when i was growing up at least

01:20:02.240 that's what okay well who here here who here's bi i mean i guess yeah i guess what do you mean you guess

01:20:08.800 yes i don't really care about talking about i don't really care about putting like a word over 0.95

01:20:14.640 like what i like or what i like to fuck or who i like to sleep with and make love to or whatever 0.91

01:20:19.680 i kind of agree with that it's like the least interesting thing about i feel like that's 0.79

01:20:22.720 something that should like yeah like i i mean i've only dated men but i would say that like if for

01:20:28.800 some reason i happen to fall in love with a woman like it wouldn't be like i wouldn't ex-nay that 0.86

01:20:34.800 because i'm straight okay but so you're saying in lesbian relationships obviously a woman obviously 1.00

01:20:42.880 has to ask a woman out or sometimes like we have examples of women that like are interested 0.72

01:20:50.320 and like i've seen examples i mean maybe it's more rare but you know every situation is so unique so

01:20:56.400 unique you know even if it's like the same sex or different sex it's totally unique situations of how

01:21:02.880 people end up having dinner together yeah but we're the exception doesn't make the rule generally

01:21:09.120 speaking i'd say overwhelmingly speaking probably more than 95 percent of the time the guy is asking

01:21:15.040 the girl out so i mean we could talk about the five percent where the women do ask a guy out 1.00

01:21:21.440 where they're in addition to you know uh a much greater likelihood of it being successful if a girl 1.00

01:21:29.200 does ask a guy out so i mean it i mean we can get into that but uh it's just interesting to me

01:21:36.720 though all of you said that you three said you don't care about the guy's money yet you said whoever

01:21:41.680 i should pay aka the man should pay you said the man should pay you said the man should pay on the

01:21:46.880 first date so how do you reconcile and maybe you can weigh on this i haven't heard from you uh

01:21:53.840 you don't you don't care about the guy's money so why should the guy pay on the first date you

01:21:56.880 said gender roles right um i just feel like you want to take care of someone you want to show them

01:22:01.760 that you're like responsible that you're like you don't care enough to make her pay like god i guess

01:22:09.520 you just why why can't you do that for the guy you can but like but you don't want to well

01:22:17.520 you just said the man should pay i guess it's sort of like a it is a gender role thing

01:22:22.800 and i think you want to be taken care of you want to feel respected it's like if it's a stigma

01:22:27.760 if the stigma around it is respect then yeah the men should pay because it's your it's a respect thing 0.84

01:22:33.760 it's all you fuck with me thing oh it's all i like you thing but like if it's a stigma around it is 0.95

01:22:39.040 like i don't know what do you guys think you can open that there pardon okay what do i think about 0.99

01:22:46.000 what like the stigma around is paying equal to i respect you that's the type of guy i am

01:22:53.920 how does that that reflects i guess because of like we're talking about it right now it's obviously

01:22:58.640 a thing that people think about it's reflective of like whether or not what the guy likes you

01:23:05.040 whether or not he's respectful to you whether or not he has bd whether or not he has what is it 0.99

01:23:09.280 small what is it what's the acronym spe like is it spe to not pay for the bitch like 1.00

01:23:17.200 yeah i feel like when when like i also feel bad if i'm trying to pay because i feel like they're 0.96

01:23:23.120 it's like their masculinity and they like want to pay and they feel like oh like i'm supposed to pay

01:23:28.560 type thing and i feel like because like when i was with my boyfriend you know like if i paid for things

01:23:33.040 he would be like like i would obviously we'd pay for things like i paid for a lot of things for him

01:23:37.760 but because i didn't make more money than him at the time but literally like he would be like kind

01:23:42.080 of insecure if i was paying for things you know what i mean and i feel like that's kind of because

01:23:46.080 i feel like they have to though which is kind of sad i think too you shouldn't like for me personally

01:23:52.640 at least i i'll always offer because i don't go into a relationship with that expectation of somebody

01:23:59.360 to take care of me and like maybe that expectation is like exists in society but i don't think everybody

01:24:04.720 like goes into it in that with that intention all right i also feel like it's not that deep like

01:24:10.240 just hold on hey and enjoy the rest of your night so we have a question for the men yeah so if you

01:24:14.800 guys got asked on a date by a woman are you paying or are you okay so are you like okay like hey let's

01:24:20.400 go on a date are you paying i really don't care so what if she tried to pay would you let her pay 1.00

01:24:25.040 sure she's like adamant about it like i think there's like the like no let me pay and you're not 0.96

01:24:29.680 gonna be a jerk about it closer to the mic please that's cute you know what about you if a girl asks 1.00

01:24:35.040 me out yeah she can pay for that shit ha would you say yes jesus yeah i like it if a girl simps for 1.00

01:24:42.400 me yeah yeah yeah it's so rare it's refreshing it is fun huh no yeah if a girl's 0.99

01:24:52.160 is this a great game for us should we be asking men on dates well i think you would have a very high

01:24:57.040 success rate i mean really there's there's a couple different train of thoughts on this i think some

01:25:03.200 guys are like into this like they want to be in their masculine frame yeah and i think there's validity

01:25:10.160 to that and some guys are just traditional and they're gonna be like nope i want to pay me personally 0.95

01:25:16.720 i don't think it's a turnoff if the guy pays i think that's more fucking gangster that's way 0.96

01:25:21.600 more gangster than pay then she's so into you that she's asking you out she's paying on the date 1.00

01:25:27.120 you can still lead and be in your masculine and she's simping for you that's some gangster 0.99

01:25:32.080 shit do you like respect her less no i respect her more yeah really i don't see here's the thing 0.97

01:25:38.560 what if he's gonna be like oh she wants me so bad like she's like taking me out dude i 0.99

01:25:42.720 it's rare i really nice dude dude i like it when a girl's like kind of i don't like it when a girl's 0.90

01:25:49.600 like too much how do i how do i explain this if a girl if a girl's like for example if she were to 1.00

01:25:56.320 approach me and it was like in a really masculine like hey wanna fuck like it's super direct but if 0.93

01:26:02.000 she approached me and she was kind of like coy and a little shy about it that would be super 0.98

01:26:07.680 hot so same with like if a girl dm to me first if she went about it in like a tactful way major 1.00

01:26:14.240 turn on and if she paid for the date i don't know maybe i'm gonna get dragged in the chat but like

01:26:20.560 i mean i think i'm super down for it it's also super down if it encourages women to like sit in

01:26:26.240 their power or stand in their power and like not be afraid to maybe do something that might

01:26:31.360 be perceived as a little bit more masculine i think that's where that that bridge of understanding

01:26:35.680 is yeah and i i still like to lead you know i still like to lead in relationships but

01:26:40.560 if a girl is like i don't know i i kind of like it when a girl's like 0.51

01:26:45.760 see i don't like this chasing idea or like girls who play hard to get but girls like that 0.98

01:26:51.200 like what i feel like girls like to be chased yeah probably when i don't feel wanted like i would

01:26:56.000 never ask a guy out first sure sure even if i like someone but but so i think the thing is though is that

01:27:01.520 you like it because you're in a position of power because if the guy's trying to get you you're in

01:27:09.120 like a better negotiating position in the same way that that like for example if i reach out to a

01:27:14.240 company to do a brand to deal that uh they're in a stronger negotiating position because i went to

01:27:19.840 them but if they come to me it's just like a framework where i have more negotiating power if

01:27:25.440 they're coming to me yeah and that's that's how basically women's position is women have a bunch 1.00

01:27:30.560 of dudes coming to them so they have like they have much more options they're much more capable of

01:27:34.640 being in the stronger negotiating position so but i would say woman risks more when they're dating 1.00

01:27:42.560 i agree i think it's a bigger risk as a woman dating yeah especially like i mean age like if you're

01:27:48.800 trying to have kids or anything like men don't really have to worry about that like you can be 40 and

01:27:53.920 go around and find some 20 year old to but i look and i i i because of i've had plenty of experience

01:28:02.800 having to be the initiator because for most men you have to be the initiator initiator otherwise you're

01:28:09.280 going to be bro you're going to die virgin bro if for most men if you don't initiate like you're done

01:28:16.480 yeah because girls like a masculine guy that will come and like sure show that they want them and like 1.00

01:28:22.080 kind of work for them like girls want that like yeah i feel like the whole feminism and everything

01:28:26.720 they try to like they try to break that down and they're trying to say that's not true but it is

01:28:31.040 it's like human nature for women yeah you think girls coming to you and like being like more assertive 1.00

01:28:36.160 to you is hot we think guys coming to us and doing the same but that's the default though that's the

01:28:41.280 default so i'm i'm perfect perfectly capable of being the initiator i've done it for the vast majority of my

01:28:49.200 uh relationships although i have found that a lot of my relationships the girls met me more 0.94

01:28:53.520 a little bit more in the middle like they showed a little bit more effort and interest where there's

01:28:58.400 like i don't want a lot of girls will play like not play hard to get but my philosophy on being hard 1.00

01:29:04.880 to get if you're hard to get you quickly become hard to want so i don't want a girl who's like i don't 1.00

01:29:12.640 know i like it when girls are like i'm i'm a really no-bullshit guy so i'm just i'm the type of guy i'm

01:29:18.320 like hey i like you do you like me cool we're good i don't want a girl it's like where i'm on the 1.00

01:29:23.520 i don't know where i stand with her i'm like disagree i feel like i i want the guy to come

01:29:29.600 to me but i also want the guy to be kind of hard to get like i think my husband did that and it worked

01:29:35.200 because he was like still hard to get yeah it's like a weird dance like i feel like you need a

01:29:38.880 little bit of both like it can't be too hard to get but you can't also be just come and get me i'm

01:29:46.400 i'm open range open season over here that means he's gonna be for anybody yeah like that's not

01:29:51.200 attractive if you're too forward early on yes like like you said it's this dance that you have to meet

01:29:56.240 it if you're too forward early on it's also kind of a turn off like yeah i think you're like right

01:30:00.880 on the money when you're saying kind of like you're acknowledging women being in this position of

01:30:05.200 power where like the guys are asking them out and so they're kind of the weak one where they might

01:30:09.920 have they have the chance of getting rejected and i think that's kind of where a lot of this

01:30:14.400 resistance and the kind of issues come up in these topics about relationships because

01:30:20.160 we might think that because women are in that position of power we need to disempower them by 1.00

01:30:25.120 teaching men like tactics that make them feel like they're in the position of power when in reality i

01:30:30.880 think it's about seeing each other as like sentient beings like deserving of compassion deserving of

01:30:36.400 love deserving of healthy relationships not about winning yeah sure um i'll just say at least for me

01:30:43.280 and look i for the vast majority of my experiences with with women i would say generally speaking

01:30:48.560 i've been the one who's a bit more taking the initiative uh however i i'm not going to lie and

01:30:55.040 sit here and say if a girl slides into my dms for example that that's a turn off absolutely not 1.00

01:31:02.480 and look i can i can lead it from there but if a girl shows a little bit of initiative and i don't 1.00

01:31:06.880 want a girl in my dm like let me you no i don't want that but just like show you're interested clearly

01:31:13.280 but it doesn't have to be this like really uh abrasive thing yeah um so yeah but i also don't

01:31:20.560 like it if a girl like slides into my dms and is like kind of coy with it and is like hey how's your 0.51

01:31:28.800 day going i'm like bro just be i like when girls are up front just up front hey whatever thought you're

01:31:34.000 cute whatever and uh yeah so um but to bring it back to paying i also i don't like to pay for the

01:31:42.160 first date actually hold on let's do some chats here and i'll finish up on the first date thing okay

01:31:46.560 so we have uh uh i'm sorry that i'm gonna actually step up and fix the stream labs because it's not

01:31:53.520 triggering mike davis i apologize i'm gonna try to get that figured out but we have um he can be a little rough

01:31:58.960 huh okay oh she's not here bro come on all right dust i'll read that in a sec yo dustin bond thank

01:32:05.840 for the hundred why does everyone on the show current episode and previous panels consistently

01:32:10.160 say woman when referring to women plural because uh we fail at english in california i guess i don't

01:32:15.600 know or in the u.s we do what consistent to say woman women uh that's why i don't know also just 1.00

01:32:25.440 sound wrong to you but we are saying the right thing yeah maybe blame the sure sm7bs i guess um 1.00

01:32:32.160 uh mike davis no apology needed from that uh blonde she's not even worthy to utter my name 1.00

01:32:37.200 holy shots fired she talking about insecure energy when she got fake boobs i don't have hey those titties 1.00

01:32:43.120 are real they're bro check out her ig just saying i don't have fake boobs uh fake lashes cake on her 1.00

01:32:49.680 okay i sell these lashes so yeah and i don't have a fake butt she doesn't what he's stupid 1.00

01:32:54.880 he's loving stupid chain courtesy of a goofy simp did a simp pay for your chain i think he would 1.00

01:33:00.400 still i think he would still date me though you know what i mean mike mike davis would probably maybe 0.99

01:33:08.240 maybe he's curious if they're real mike davis be gentle be gentle okay um maybe if you want to know if

01:33:13.040 they're real just ask that to say that i gotta get up to uh try to figure out that's a compliment

01:33:17.520 thank you um madison take it away what huh i just want to say they look real they don't look fake

01:33:26.640 they're not yeah i don't know what you're saying mike but can i tell them a lot of money that he owns

01:33:33.280 a bunch of burger kings really mike what yes we should change his mindset on women he's not going

01:33:39.520 to get married he's got a burger oh jesus where's the picture of my burger king the burger king you

01:33:46.720 want to be his burger it's his burger kingdom burger to your king well you roll with the iron fist

01:33:56.080 i don't know what to talk about i i'm not i'm not a host all right everyone i have a really important

01:34:01.840 question should be considered unclean attention this is really deep so if it's too deep just let me

01:34:07.440 know um what's everyone's favorite color oh my gosh i'm a blue girl forever i like a good um lilac

01:34:23.440 a very compelling question what's your favorite color

01:34:26.960 um so i've noticed that like there's this weird thing like that we all refer to dating

01:34:56.960 as a thing like if you have a thing with somebody yeah you have a thing with somebody

01:35:01.280 i i find this to be like the most disgusting and appalling gen z term ever like oh i'm a thing

01:35:06.880 situation ship i hate situation people but a situation is dating that's what you used to call

01:35:11.040 it in the 80s and the 90s like you didn't call it a situation ship you just were dating that person

01:35:15.440 they weren't your boyfriend or your girlfriend relationships that start off that like with

01:35:19.520 like situationships and things are less likely to last yes that but i just i hate the like term

01:35:25.760 thing it sounds just so like i'm a thing so what should the term be i say i'm i don't like i'm

01:35:31.280 dating i'm seeing somebody i'm dating somebody like you to be dating somebody doesn't mean you

01:35:36.480 necessarily have to be their boyfriend or their girlfriend like you can just be going out on

01:35:40.400 dates you have a boyfriend they're courting you or whatever if you want to go into bridger 0.99

01:35:44.480 guys also but yeah i think it's like the tv effect personal experience being in like a thing i was

01:35:49.840 miserable being yeah they're terrible oh my god they're worse exactly we were talking about this

01:35:54.560 earlier but and they last so long nowadays like it used to be like you go on dates and like three

01:35:59.840 dates maybe and then it's like your boyfriend and girlfriend now it's a thing for like over a year

01:36:03.760 and a half before yeah maybe that's why we call it a thing and it's not dating anymore because

01:36:08.240 it's not just three dates yeah like i get it like right at the beginning yeah but once you've been

01:36:13.280 on a few dates it's like i just hate three months and then you're like okay let's be committed at

01:36:18.720 like minimum it's more than three months and you guys are not gonna work do you think it's not even

01:36:23.600 do you think it's possible to have like a healthy situation that might not last forever like a summer

01:36:29.200 fling when you know you're you're maybe not you know you love you have love for someone but both of

01:36:34.400 you don't have the intention of like having a long-term committed relationship do you think

01:36:37.920 it can be the positive experience yeah you don't have to be real value on something like that i don't

01:36:42.960 think it's a bad deal at all no yeah if you're gonna have a summer fling say you like go to like

01:36:47.280 europe or something find the summer fling you're gonna leave and be so depressed yeah but i don't

01:36:51.280 think there's anything wrong with that you're putting too much value on the bad part of it what

01:36:54.160 about the good part i mean yeah there's good parts but don't you want that good part to last a little

01:36:58.080 longer yeah just create other ones how strong is one side it doesn't go well i feel like there's

01:37:05.120 always one person that's like oh i'm chill with this just being a summer fling and there's always

01:37:09.120 a person that maybe catches a little more feelings but doesn't want to admit it yeah that's true

01:37:14.240 like situationships are just too common nowadays and it's like it's all there is yeah people are

01:37:19.760 just scared of commitment that's what i feel like or they don't like hold their boundaries firmly

01:37:25.680 because it's like oh we're together but like i'm allowed to maybe see other people if somebody

01:37:29.440 else comes along well if i say it's not even a fear of commitment it's just everyone is so

01:37:34.160 disposable now with dating apps and yeah i don't think shopping you can just throw it away one wrong

01:37:40.160 thing happens with the person that you're seeing you're like oh i don't like that but i know someone

01:37:43.920 out there will else have it yeah yeah you know you can date someone who's across the world now instead

01:37:48.960 of just in your town it's also a good thing too though i think because if you know you are in a

01:37:53.840 situation where you realize that like someone does do that wrong thing you can you know that

01:37:58.240 there are like plenty of fish in the sea that's and like you shouldn't be afraid to hold your

01:38:02.880 boundaries and like know your worth wait are you saying that like quote unquote things might be

01:38:07.840 good sometimes so you can catch red flags on the way definitely i mean i think like before maybe you

01:38:13.360 want to take someone seriously and like meet your parents and stuff it's good to like have a quick

01:38:18.320 like i'm so excited to fight the good fight but you simple oh did i i fixed it is this the guy

01:38:23.200 again are we gonna fight clean yet just like the sun will rise tomorrow you simps will be in there

01:38:29.760 oh i read this but i'm choosing violence and yell on notice yeah was this an old one the choosing

01:38:34.880 violence says it all all right we have energy feeling she she learned nothing okay uh feeling

01:38:41.520 dangerous i said small energy i didn't say the other word okay feeling dangerous one one three donate

01:38:46.000 a hundred thank you man uh for the women that define ambition but not a dollar amount in terms 1.00

01:38:51.360 of earnings explain why that would be better than uh i need to fix the size of this but uh why would

01:38:56.880 that be better than a steel worker longshoreman or oil worker all three of which make six figures and

01:39:02.000 don't cone with a risk of failure of blind emotion come with a risk of failure or blind ambition

01:39:10.560 that question was too long yeah yeah i guess explain why they would be better

01:39:15.120 than a steel worker i don't even think that they said that he's somebody that has ambition

01:39:20.480 but like has like a mcdonald's shop type thing is how is that better than somebody who has a steel

01:39:25.920 worker job or whatever okay i'm feeling dangerous thank you man sorry the it's going to cut off that

01:39:31.520 last sentence unfortunately until i can fix it but um did you have something no oh i thought you were

01:39:38.560 about to uh okay um yeah i don't think guys should pay for first dates

01:39:44.960 i don't think you should be expected to well i agree i certainly agree with that but i think that

01:39:50.080 it's a nice gesture but you do pay for first dates don't you yeah you just don't go on dates anymore

01:39:56.480 depends depends here's my thing how do you get like what reaction do you get to that well i mean

01:40:01.280 it's fine it's it varies but my my thing is when when it comes to paying for the first date is you

01:40:06.880 don't a lot of people say you don't get to keep the traditional gender roles that benefit you and

01:40:14.720 disregard the rest so you have a bunch of like liberal feminist women who like will be it's a deal 1.00

01:40:21.920 breaker if the guy won't pay for the first date yet they they refuse to adhere to their own gender

01:40:26.960 yeah that's why i i can't agree like with paint like making you pay on the first date because like

01:40:32.240 yeah it just doesn't it doesn't add up with my other opinions making him pay it's more so if he's 0.95

01:40:38.080 asking me take care or just yeah but you're gonna be like a shitter after that that's i think if you 0.90

01:40:43.280 don't like gender roles then you shouldn't expect a man to pay for you on the first day yeah yeah you 0.99

01:40:47.840 got to be consistent wait what what's your response to that oh jesus like i guess gender role i mean

01:40:56.240 like to negate gender roles doesn't mean that like the person who like asked you out or like

01:41:01.920 if you're a submissive type you know want to be taken care of i can't really explain it it's like

01:41:06.400 a mother's tell your daughter's thing you know he should pay for your first date and that's gender 1.00

01:41:11.040 roles though yeah so that means you believe in traditional gender roles which i agree with you 1.00

01:41:18.160 but i believe in traditional gender roles i believe in certain gender roles like in the form of

01:41:22.000 like you're but you only believe in the ones that benefit you then as a woman no okay not all well

01:41:29.200 i think too like like you're saying i don't think you necessarily have to abide by traditional gender

01:41:34.000 roles to assume that a guy should would offer to pay for a date that he asked you on i don't think

01:41:39.440 that that's like necessarily completely true it's like situation based so like you know for me if a guy

01:41:46.480 asked me on a date i would still offer to pay um but i would expect him to offer as well because

01:41:53.040 he's asking me and if he offered like i would probably say like yes and say thank you but that

01:41:57.600 doesn't mean that i think that you know i should be a housewife and i'm only like clean in the kitchen

01:42:04.000 and that i shouldn't be independent like i feel like it's a deeper than that but if you don't believe

01:42:09.920 in gender roles then why do you think that men should in general pay for the day i don't think 0.99

01:42:15.120 mention in general i that's why i said like whoever is asking you know i think it would be respectful of

01:42:20.320 them to offer because like they're asking someone else to come out and you know yeah they're initiating

01:42:25.760 the hangout but but the majority of men ask like we said yeah yeah but but the whole again the whoever

01:42:32.320 asks asks thing is at best naive because it ignores the fact that overwhelmingly men are the

01:42:39.840 ones asking so i mean you can you can sort of play a word game and say well whoever i should pay

01:42:45.920 but if men are overwhelmingly let's say not in 95 of instances the one who who are asking

01:42:53.840 you might as well put an equal sign whoever i should whoever asks just replace whoever asks with men

01:42:59.600 okay but like i said i'm not the kind of person who if a guy asked me to go on a date and i had an

01:43:06.080 amazing time and met an incredible person and then had the best night of my life i'm not just gonna

01:43:11.200 be like oh there's no second date because like he didn't offer to pay and he was like hey do you

01:43:15.280 mind if we split this that's not me personally so i think that i can you know and that's that's totally

01:43:20.400 fine however i think a lot of women would prefer the guy to pay and for a fair amount of women 1.00

01:43:26.960 that might be just a deal breaker full stop if regardless of how good the date would it just be a

01:43:33.120 instant stopper hey he paid or he wanted to split wait i have no longer interested and we've had

01:43:41.440 girls on the show admit as such go ahead do you when you're on a date like do you expect like the 0.99

01:43:46.160 guy to like open up the door for you like pull out your seat when you like sit down for dinner like

01:43:50.880 those like gestures or like drive you to the date i think that people are such like unique beings and

01:43:57.920 we come from different families and have different life stories and cultures and so i don't come in

01:44:04.240 with the expectation of who i want them to be i let them show me who they are and you know that might

01:44:09.680 be like a traditional role that they're playing and i'll still like have respect for that but i'm not

01:44:14.400 looking for that and that's not like a deal breaker for me at all but you also said that you women 1.00

01:44:20.800 should pay for a date but then you said you don't care about how much money they make so it's kind of

01:44:24.080 the same way of you saying to us oh but you want a man they're different gestures though i'm just

01:44:29.120 saying like what you said to me is the same thing you said i don't think it's literally the same thing

01:44:33.040 i said it's i i would think it's actually attractive if a girl offered to pay for the day but you said

01:44:38.720 women should pay huh but you said women should pay on the first date well i was being a little facetious

01:44:42.720 because no no no sane man would expect a woman to pay so but you do but it's also no i said i think i

01:44:52.000 think i think what i what i said was the fetish is that men shouldn't pay and i i think it should

01:44:58.320 be split to me that's the most egalitarian thing that that makes the most sense to me but you are

01:45:05.360 also saying you want to pay for your girlfriend to basically for everything you said you want to

01:45:10.320 pay the bill no so okay i'm i'm open to that i'm open to that okay but it's not like i'm just

01:45:17.280 exclusively dating women who are unemployed or in college like so i think she's kind of saying too

01:45:24.080 like you it's a like a positive thing that you can admit being attractive to something like while

01:45:30.400 still kind of maybe respecting and wanting those traditional roles in your own future and your own

01:45:36.240 relationship you can also you know find it attractive if a woman does something that's like 0.82

01:45:42.560 not really that traditional you know thing it's also even like not i'm not that i'm like making

01:45:48.000 the man pay for everything like every date that i've been on especially with my boyfriend to this

01:45:52.720 day like i'll still like hand out my card but they just refuse to like let me pay it's it's not like

01:46:00.560 oh i'm gonna make you pay for the whole entire thing like you have to pay like i'm always gonna

01:46:04.240 offer but i always offer too to be nice i think here's a question with a like you you offer to pay

01:46:10.560 pay if the guy took you up on your offer would you be a bit i mean i know you're married but like

01:46:18.320 let's say when you weren't when you're still dating or whatever would you be kind of turned off if he

01:46:22.320 took you up on the offer yes no i i like that my husband would i would offer to be nice and like

01:46:28.640 but secretly you would like but like he would be like no way you're not paying for anything on any

01:46:32.720 date that we ever go on okay and i like that you like that yeah but if a guy were to have taken you up

01:46:38.160 on the token offer let's say you would be a little uh deal breaker it would be a deal break i would

01:46:46.720 pay but then it would be no second date see i gotta challenge you a little bit on this here so okay so

01:46:53.280 women often complain that men are poor communicators but i if if you offer to pay i feel like men are very

01:47:00.800 very literal logical thinkers so like when i think of that if a girl offers to pay and then say a guy

01:47:08.880 in good faith takes up that offer and then you disqualify him because of the words that came out of

01:47:17.040 your mouth wouldn't that quite literally be poor communication i guess in a sense but i i think that

01:47:24.240 that's like interactions with humans you know there's gestures that you do to be polite and you

01:47:30.320 know that there's just throughout life there's gestures that people will do and you don't necessarily

01:47:35.760 take it up on and it's more just about that guy's values truthfully like i like what i loved about my

01:47:41.040 husband is that he's the type that would that feels that a girl should never pay for a date that

01:47:45.520 they're on and so for him that was like not acceptable if that makes sense sure so like i guess

01:47:51.120 it's one thing if like the if you're like oh i want to pay help pay for this date or whatever

01:47:55.360 and he's like no no no and you really really pushed it like truthfully i went on a date with someone a

01:48:00.400 few years ago before i was married and i didn't really want to have a second date and i kind of

01:48:04.400 thought it was more of a friendship thing and so like on that date i like really really was like no

01:48:08.960 no i'll pay i'll pay because i didn't want to feel like i like owed him anything if that made sense

01:48:12.880 and so then he ended up like agreeing and so like i think if you're like you said more forceful about it

01:48:17.680 then i don't think that makes you like a horrible guy yeah and and i have heard that from women 1.00

01:48:22.240 where if the the girl knows she's not interested sometimes they will offer to to split uh so i i have 1.00

01:48:28.800 heard that from from women um but uh look i i think the reason why i i'm sort of hesitant to

01:48:36.720 off the jump be fall into the provider role fall into traditional gender roles is especially here 0.97

01:48:43.040 in california i would say 90 of women are not traditional women yeah so like i'm not gonna

01:48:49.840 pay for a girl my this is what i always say i don't want to pay for a girl who's 0.90

01:48:54.880 another dude yeah and like in 2023 realistically like a lot of girls have some dude that they're 1.00

01:49:02.480 and they're going on dates with with other guys so like i don't want to be a sucker that's 0.76

01:49:07.200 what it comes down to i don't want to feel like a sucker so i don't want to go pay for a girl 0.81

01:49:11.280 pay for even if it's 10 bucks it's not a it's not even a money thing yeah yeah it's a principle

01:49:17.680 thing so i don't want to feel like a sucker even if it's ten dollars like i don't want to feel like

01:49:23.680 a sucker so but do you date liberal women or is that like a turnoff for you like oh i'm only interested 0.99

01:49:30.640 in conservative women that are more along traditional general rules because i get that 1.00

01:49:34.240 that's hypocritical if you're like a hardcore feminist that believes in deconstructing gender 1.00

01:49:39.120 roles and then you come in and you're like i expect you to pay for my date like i think that 0.90

01:49:42.160 is hypocrisy and like you said i i was i come from a traditional background where you only date

01:49:47.840 one person and so i don't think you should pay for a girl if she is going and sleeping around and 1.00

01:49:53.040 everything yeah i mean the vetting process with it i feel like if you're intuitive enough to know

01:49:58.640 like what's going on if you're going to date with them sorry yeah what do you think about that

01:50:02.560 that yeah i mean i would say generally speaking i'm not the women i attract and the women i'm

01:50:10.480 interested in generally speaking are i like to think i have a fairly good radar for it but like

01:50:17.760 you genuinely like even really unassuming women they could be sleeping with three other dudes like 0.50

01:50:23.360 there's some shy demure introverted type chicks that are like a lot of dudes and i don't know 1.00

01:50:34.720 i don't want anything to do with a girl that's sleeping even with one other well i shouldn't even 0.99

01:50:38.720 say even if you're sleeping with another dude and you're going on a date with me it's over bro i don't

01:50:44.720 i don't i don't want anything i i are you're assuming so honestly yes i do assume yeah so

01:50:52.320 you just like are going to assume and then kind of not pay because that's how i i i assume that

01:50:57.840 because that's how a lot of people are moving yeah i think he's like saying that like that's just kind

01:51:01.840 of our culture now it's like you'd have to like initially assume that as a guy to kind of like

01:51:06.160 protect yourself you know i think it's weird to assume the same thing though oh wait i'm sorry

01:51:11.600 there is some what maybe a lot of women go into dates oh sorry yeah but what about women if i'm 1.00

01:51:17.520 paying for you and then you're fucking other girls we're not even paying but like in general going 0.99

01:51:21.840 into you know it's kind of we're all in the same boat not knowing who somebody is when you meet them 0.98

01:51:26.560 face to face and so you know that's why i think it's all about like the really who who pays and at

01:51:32.400 the end of the day it's not really the big deal but it's just about like who is that person like do you

01:51:37.040 want to continue to spend time with them are they can you kind of sense are they being true are they

01:51:41.360 being honest with you because that day will turn into maybe a relationship and they're obviously

01:51:45.680 not going to be with other people during your relationship but yeah it's the first date you

01:51:49.680 can't expect them to be like loyal to you on the first i do you do yep if you're gonna go out and

01:51:54.880 like take the effort to go on a date with someone then yeah i'm not gonna i'm not gonna go on a date

01:51:59.440 with anyone if i'm like kind of like don't know where i'm at yeah yeah but i'm saying like let's say you're

01:52:05.440 texting a guy or you're not even having sex with them or something and then you go on a date but

01:52:09.520 you're texting like a few guys or something or something like that sure you know what i mean

01:52:14.240 and then or maybe she's not even having sex with them and then she goes on a date with you like you

01:52:18.080 consider that like unloyalty but it's your first date like why are you like expecting loyalty on

01:52:22.320 your first day and you know this person especially why are you gonna expect she's not loyal she's 0.62

01:52:25.840 texting other other dudes while going on a date with you that's already yeah but it's i mean but why

01:52:30.800 would she be why would you expect loyalty on your first day it's not i don't i don't expect it because

01:52:35.040 i think it's a very rare thing it's it's what i want i don't like i want a girl coming to me 1.00

01:52:41.760 properly single i don't want you to have a sneaky link i don't want you to have but you'd be considered

01:52:47.120 a sneaky link or be considered no one of the guy or a guy that i don't want to be on the bench i don't

01:52:52.160 want to be on your roster go find there's guys who are happy with that but i want a girl to be 0.99

01:52:56.960 properly single when if if she's going to be interacting with me but here's the thing right some

01:53:01.920 girls are not going to be up front with that and certainly guys are not going to be up front with 0.99

01:53:05.840 the other women that they're seeing the the only difference is is that i would say is that women 0.99

01:53:11.520 have to deal with that too definitely like yeah there's guys who are have five chicks seven chicks

01:53:18.000 um the difference is though is that there's more women who are seeing multiple guys or seeing another

01:53:24.640 guy than there's guys that have multiple women really because i feel like especially in this like

01:53:30.320 kind of world of podcasts and the red pill ideology i feel like a lot of the time you

01:53:35.600 we hear men spewing this information about how because like you know they're men and they need

01:53:40.960 to spread their seed that you know women should accept that a guy's gonna have urges and he might 0.93

01:53:46.160 act on their urges but she should be loyal to him and he can kind of fool around i feel like that's a

01:53:50.080 lot at least for me that's what i've heard a lot of and that i think makes women more kind of like 1.00

01:53:56.480 the andrew tates yeah and a lot of those podcasts you know air in that similar realm so i think a lot

01:54:02.000 of people might go into relationships or meeting people thinking they need that roster be i mean

01:54:07.600 unless they actually want to be talking to all those people but they think they need that to have this

01:54:11.440 defense i mean i i don't think that women should be copying men's behavior agree but so you approve of

01:54:20.720 that men's behavior no okay no i i don't think men should be promiscuous either um i think the the

01:54:27.920 thing is though is i think it's there are some i think the double standard those well we we don't

01:54:34.560 have to get into the double standard but uh yeah let's not get into the double standard but

01:54:40.800 uh where was i going with this um look i just basically don't want to date a girl that's

01:54:46.000 sleeping with another guy like that's just to me it's i don't want to get a guy sitting on a girl 1.00

01:54:51.600 either a guy who can't commit yeah the the your i think your initial response to me was i was

01:54:57.200 basically saying women are more likely to have other guys than men are now here's the difference

01:55:04.080 though perhaps because women are basically all chasing after the top 10 top 20 of men and we see

01:55:09.840 this playing out on dating apps and the the data is in from these dating apps women swipe on like 0.96

01:55:16.000 10 of dudes i don't know the exact number is crazy it's like if they're above six foot like they're

01:55:21.200 getting all the likes but dating apps are a horrible place to meet people they are but i would say most

01:55:26.320 people nowadays are actually meeting online i agree so they're not great places to meet people but

01:55:31.760 most people are meeting online and um so yeah definitely with covid and uh so and i mean even before

01:55:41.040 dating apps like i would say women were like if you have a room of 10 dudes and 10 women like there's

01:55:48.560 gonna be like one dude in that room that all the girls want and is that just by attraction yeah they're

01:55:55.600 just all gonna want the most attractive dude they might not be able to get them but it's anything that 0.82

01:56:00.320 goes for like if there was a bunch of women in a room and there was a bunch of uh one man and he's 0.98

01:56:04.160 picking the girl maybe one girl in the room is getting majority of the men well yeah certainly there might 0.87

01:56:08.560 be one girl in that room who's the most attractive but i think men tend to operate more in reality

01:56:13.920 because here here's the difference right like guys get slapped in the face every day with the cold

01:56:19.840 hard brutal truth of the world and that's through the rejection whereas women don't really deal with 1.00

01:56:26.000 rejection on the front end women deal with rejection on the back end so basically that's like 1.00

01:56:30.320 when you get zoned when a guy's not willing to commit to you or he keeps you as a side chick

01:56:34.880 that's where women get rejected on the back end uh men get rejected up front really quick

01:56:40.720 on the front end like go up to a girl nope get away from it like they'll get rejected painful

01:56:46.800 though imagine like you're trying to be with somebody you love somebody that won't commit to

01:56:49.840 you that's getting at least we're up front we're not leading you on about it woman also i i this isn't

01:56:56.640 the case for everybody but women in general are can be way more emotionally invested in relationship 1.00

01:57:02.800 versus men can have i think way easier have that you know friends with benefit situation i mean

01:57:08.720 it's biological women like release a chemical when they have sex with a man that they become attached 1.00

01:57:14.240 and so i think there's a lot more really yeah yeah oxytocin yeah that's the love drug yeah women i 1.00

01:57:20.000 think do build stronger bonds when they have sex with a guy um and women in general like i said not 1.00

01:57:28.800 everyone but i feel like women in general look for relationships versus men aren't there's a lot

01:57:32.960 of men on dating apps are out there and they're just kind of looking to like really casually date

01:57:37.760 yeah and i feel like woman i i'm a huge believer that like feminism has completely destroyed our 1.00

01:57:42.800 dating culture and has like really i think negatively impacted women based um i think it's also important

01:57:49.680 to recognize though again like um and i'm not saying you're wrong i agree with you on a lot of things

01:57:53.600 you're saying like the different goals of people in dating and it's about being upfront and honest

01:57:58.240 it doesn't make people bad like some people are polyamorous and if they're upfront and honest about

01:58:02.720 that then like they have to they should just accept maybe they'll have a smaller dating pool with people

01:58:07.600 that are open to that but people used to date for marriage that was the point of dating to get married

01:58:13.280 and start a family but also marriage wasn't always a positive thing marriage used to be like a man 0.98

01:58:18.800 owned his wife in a lot of ways there was more domestic violence when it was marriage also there's 0.77

01:58:24.240 less benefits to marriage nowadays too marriage is the best possible thing for women it is it truly 1.00

01:58:31.360 is i it women do better financially men do better financially as well when they're married 1.00

01:58:37.200 not when they get divorced though but there's like no divorce rate nowadays in terms of divorce

01:58:42.320 if you if you divorce as all the laws favor women you can take most of your husband's money when 0.95

01:58:49.360 you're divorced but this is a prenup but financially it makes way more sense for people to be married

01:58:56.080 for your children i mean the for men especially if you grow up with a single mother the rates of you 0.69

01:59:02.400 being incarcerated not graduating school drugs and all the stuff is sky high and so you know marriage is

01:59:09.040 the best thing that's happened for both of the sexes and it's i think a huge problem in our

01:59:13.680 society is a lack of marriage and relationships that are not traditional anymore and i think it's

01:59:18.960 breaking down a lot of our cultural fabric and has very horrible implications i can definitely agree 1.00

01:59:24.240 and understand with a lot of things you're saying but i also think too that there's again so many

01:59:28.960 situations where it might not be healthy for two parents to be together and they have children and

01:59:34.320 they might if they're trying to stay together in order to keep the family together but it's a toxic

01:59:38.720 environment then that's gonna have a negative impact on their children like i grew up um in

01:59:43.280 a household where my parents got divorced and like it was one of the best things that ever happened to

01:59:47.600 me personally and um well there is obviously i don't think it's a one-size-fits-all yeah but in general

01:59:54.160 children do better and people do better in marriages in a traditional nuclear family

01:59:58.800 and all the data backs that up yeah i think you would statistically be happier if you

02:00:02.960 got married and had kids it's just kind of conservative christian women are the happiest

02:00:08.560 there's been really studies about this married conservative christian women are the happiest

02:00:12.320 people in society amen but you said you didn't want to have kids right i don't want to have kids

02:00:16.800 yeah and you're also in a serious relationship i am how does your boyfriend feel about that he actually

02:00:22.000 has kids um and i love how old's your boyfriend he is 48 oh okay per how many kids yeah he has three

02:00:32.560 kids so is that oh sorry go ahead is that like we are monogamous does that affect your wanting of

02:00:39.600 children or no honestly it's been a blessing in my life to get to you know learn from children and i

02:00:47.760 think the biggest thing i've learned is how like they're so pure and that that gives me hope in

02:00:52.720 humanity by seeing that like you know so there's these innocent souls that come into the world and

02:00:57.760 you know the world might harden them as they get older but seeing that innocence and like that desire

02:01:01.760 to give love and be love is like what it gives me hope as a person so hope for what uh but the world

02:01:08.320 can be a better place no i don't i just never you know i think that motherhood is a huge decision to

02:01:14.960 make if you're gonna make it and you should be enthusiastic and really want it if you're gonna

02:01:18.640 be good at it and you're gonna and if you don't enthusiastically want it then you risk

02:01:23.280 you know hurting an innocent child and so i take it seriously like if it's not something that i know

02:01:28.960 i want i'm not gonna do that to a child how does he how old is your boyfriend or okay are you guys in

02:01:35.600 a monogamous relationship how did you meet him he is a dj so i met him i'm i live in on maui

02:01:42.960 is it tiesto no is he a famous dj um he's like locally known i think i don't know about like you

02:01:48.720 guys would know him yeah okay you said he's sorry uh 48 48 um yeah i'm gonna say something else or

02:01:57.120 wait you met did you met him on seeking no oh no i met him he's a dj and i met him um because i went

02:02:05.360 to a club um there's like a little club on maui and he was djing there and we met and nice yeah really

02:02:12.080 organic definitely wasn't something i ever expected um and i had had you know she's met him

02:02:17.760 too and like you know he's very young at heart so sure okay um so we're gonna we're gonna come

02:02:24.560 back to some of that stuff later um question who here you know technology's advancing real 0.65

02:02:32.320 fucking crazy um we've got a uh doll in the back there you know that's the future the way of the 0.95

02:02:39.200 future like leonardo dicaprio and aviator is he aviator that's the name of the movie who here would 0.99

02:02:46.240 be down to get with like a really high quality ai sex robot like in 10 years or some shit like if 0.80

02:02:55.200 like do they have feelings and everything like like what this is like the start of the matrix 0.95

02:02:59.840 essentially um show of hands who would be down for like this amazing dude amazing dude robot i guess

02:03:09.120 like anybody down to like us with a sex robot no i'm so weird i'll raise my hand no come on i'm down

02:03:16.560 let's never i mean more for the experience but i think it would be like i wouldn't be able to give me 0.97

02:03:24.880 children no because there's something so special no it's just a sex doll it's just you still have a

02:03:32.960 human but like also it does chores for you but it's a robot it's a robot it's not a human that'd be a

02:03:39.760 terrible and it's happening it's starting to happen there's like ten thousand dollar dollars

02:03:42.640 out there think about it jeff bezos be uh like just beyond dystopian like she could mow your lawn and 0.98

02:03:50.000 shit you know just so you'd want a robot wife no i'd still like get with real humans i guess 0.97

02:03:57.120 like karen my computer wife he wouldn't be opposed why couldn't you just get a robot to do your chores 0.99

02:04:07.840 i want the all-in-one package i want the chore robot he wants to chase too he's gonna have a 0.98

02:04:13.520 think of a good traditional woman that will do your chores for you or are you just shitting with 1.00

02:04:17.920 this like i'm dead serious bring on the sex robots okay i'm for it do you do what if it's like not how 0.99

02:04:25.920 are they gonna like replicate like like the body like squishy like well we got right over there bro 0.99

02:04:33.120 she's got some titties what are you talking about um here let's talk about let's talk about 1.00

02:04:43.360 let's talk about oh there's a vagina yeah hold on guys so show of hands who here has ever used a sex 1.00

02:04:50.800 toy sex toy as in like a dildo or like a vibrator is it weird that i've never used a vibrator account 0.99

02:04:58.240 yeah yeah vibrator okay so so this is a question never used question for the girls here would it be 0.99

02:05:05.440 a turn-off or a deal breaker wait so just show you guys already did it would it be a turn-off 0.95

02:05:12.880 or a deal breaker if you found out a guy had a male sex toy like done if he was let's go around 0.96

02:05:21.520 you start go ahead no i mean i think when you i think it's interesting to 0.50

02:05:26.320 learn with a partner about how like your habits can affect your sexual relationship like if a guy

02:05:33.040 is watching porn you can explore about how that affects dopamine or a girl's watching okay 0.99

02:05:39.040 bro he's got a pocket pussy like on the on the bedroom nightstand deal breaker yes or no 1.00

02:05:44.480 yes i mean it would be a discussion potential deal breaker first time going over to guy's house 1.00

02:05:49.360 yeah i mean it's just like off-putting to me personally deal breaker deal breaker

02:05:53.920 ignore the like nightstand scenario you just find out you've been dating let's say you i don't know 0.99

02:06:00.160 three dates or something he's got a pocket pussy like i'm just not one i don't i don't agree with 1.00

02:06:05.760 like porn porn like a guy like not porn just like a fucking pocket pussy i think just jacking off is 1.00

02:06:12.240 better like why you gotta have a whole like fake vagina how else that like like squirts water and 1.00

02:06:17.520 shit that's like no no no water squirting like a fake vagina like a fake vagina and you we put stuff 1.00

02:06:24.320 in it right to like make it wet you put lube in it that's great water at you but they're like putting 1.00

02:06:28.880 water in it or something technically a vibrator is like a vibrating penis no it's like them jacking off 0.99

02:06:34.560 kind of because unless you're using like a giant dildo do you want your girlfriend using a dildo 0.99

02:06:38.160 when did we get used to the feeling of vibrations inside of us and that's a turn on that's a good point 0.99

02:06:42.720 that's a good like when did like when was it like pocket pussies like i mean come on 0.98

02:06:51.200 i feel like it's cheating you're you're you feel like it's cheating if a guy has a pocket 1.00

02:06:55.360 pussy yes it's not my vagina but you got you said you had dildos and shit no i don't have dildos 1.00

02:07:01.280 oh vibrator excuse me a vibrator which i don't think is the same it's not like a fake dick that 1.00

02:07:04.800 looks like a dick yeah but it's like how else is a guy like a guy can't get off if you put a vibrator 1.00

02:07:10.160 like that's not how guys get off and his booty yeah but that's not a sex toy we're talking about 1.00

02:07:14.880 sex toys wait okay well what about you works deal breaker for guys got a pocket pussy why should 1.00

02:07:21.760 okay the question was it's out it's out of my vagina fuck that but let's just forget that out 1.00

02:07:31.120 first thing i know that man i'm not gonna tpe this and be like i know that that that pp or whatever 1.00

02:07:37.280 pocket pussy is not comparing to like my acrobatic whatever but like but like it's not it's not a 0.99

02:07:45.120 deal breaker because like how you masturbate and how you relieve yourself is on you but like i 0.99

02:07:50.080 personally as somebody who like has like a weird relationship with like like masturbating it's like 1.00

02:07:58.160 what i want somebody more like me i don't really know if you're if you're into the pocket pussy man 1.00

02:08:03.280 i don't kind of care but it's kind of like i've never really i've never been with someone who i 0.96

02:08:06.880 know has one like i've never met a man who's like who likes me who i'm into who we're talking or 0.99

02:08:13.120 for a fucking or sleeping together and he's like hey i have a pocket pussy do you have one but like 1.00

02:08:18.960 you want to fuck and bring it out like i'm sorry would you think less of a guy that you were dating 1.00

02:08:24.480 if you discovered either he said hey maybe we could incorporate it or you just found out it was an 1.00

02:08:29.680 i don't know you found out or he just told you why would he want to incorporate a pocket 0.99

02:08:34.400 pussy if he has a real one right in front that means he doesn't like you enough yeah if he got 1.00

02:08:38.800 a pocket pussy that means he doesn't like you enough to have i feel like at that point they're 1.00

02:08:42.080 just watching too much porn and that's what ruins the real sex guys that watch porn 24 7. 1.00

02:08:46.960 fair enough i gotta know here what about you um i was thinking about like i feel like if 0.99

02:08:52.880 they had like more like regular sex toys but there's one of those no no not a sex doll just 1.00

02:09:00.320 just like a just a flashlight like a yeah pocket pussy i guess yeah okay um 1.00

02:09:07.440 i don't know like i i guess i guess not i mean it would be like a i like why is that out on the bed 0.98

02:09:13.760 you didn't think to put it away before i got here but i don't know i like i use a vibrator so i feel like 0.95

02:09:20.640 i cannot like judge somebody for using a pocket pussy shania what about you i mean i so i usually 0.99

02:09:28.160 date men who live far away from me so i myself cannot be there every single night so if he has 0.99

02:09:34.160 one and he needs to use it okay get your get your thing dude get your pocket pussy yeah that's i'm i'm 1.00

02:09:42.240 cool just don't leave it on the table like it's a piece of decor on the dinner like it's not from 0.99

02:09:46.320 we're eating like you know but and it's like

02:09:53.360 sorry sorry sorry sorry sorry i know the laugh is like that laugh was amazing 0.99

02:09:58.720 what's for dinner that was awesome ew like you guys have seen the memes of like the dirty ass like 0.99

02:10:04.320 the crackhead memes with like the pocket pusses like on the floor and like the car and like 0.99

02:10:09.840 the parking lot okay what about you me yeah absolutely huge turn off you discover like 0.99

02:10:17.440 your husband you're going through the drawers or whatever and it's just like a fucking pocket 1.00

02:10:22.880 pussy like is it is it a divorce instant divorce or it would be therapy it's name is like he would 1.00

02:10:28.320 never do that marriage i mean i feel like there's a certain type of person that would do that and 0.99

02:10:33.920 like that would just never be someone i would marry okay you know but yeah okay so i love that you'd

02:10:39.440 you wouldn't insta divorce your husband but insta therapy like insta therapy how do you feel like 0.99

02:10:47.200 are you like what are we naming the pussy yeah i'd be really angry i mean i can't even visualize it 0.99

02:10:52.160 because it's just like so out of the realm of possibility like i like i said i just have never 0.99

02:10:57.680 dated someone that would be that type of person and yeah madison what about you i'd say it's like a 0.76

02:11:03.760 it's not a deal breaker but it's just like a what the fuck like why do you have it if frankie ever 0.95

02:11:09.040 no if frankie ever if i was going through his stuff and found a pocket not gonna i would be mad i would 1.00

02:11:14.080 be so mad at him actually you'd be mad i would be yeah the pocket pussy i'd be kind of mad yeah you 1.00

02:11:18.480 should be like we're together 24 7 like why do you need a and they got weird ones too with like fake 0.99

02:11:22.480 butts and stuff freaky oh that was something i thought about like i feel like it's a little different 0.99

02:11:27.920 actually for women to have sex toys because it's so hard for women to climax with i think women having 1.00

02:11:33.280 sex toys is kind of weird too like a dildo your hand yeah like like it's it's so hard but like 0.99

02:11:39.280 for a guy like you just got your hand yeah like it's you can't really use our hands like you can 0.98

02:11:44.720 but like it takes i mean i never i couldn't i couldn't use my hand i just feel like it's a part

02:11:49.600 of this larger culture that sex is now just so transactional like and there's just no like there's

02:11:55.520 nothing sacred now about sex it's just like two consenting individuals or a sex toy or whatever and

02:12:00.800 that like makes you happy and i just think that like completely has degraded like the meaning of

02:12:04.880 what sex is supposed to be yeah i think sex too though like for example like a woman who might be 0.97

02:12:10.800 like celibate who uses a vibrator like do you think that could potentially be a sacred experience for

02:12:16.320 her to connect to her sexuality to figure out what she likes and to like you know become in touch with

02:12:21.520 her body in a way that maybe she never experienced in a relationship and is celibate like do you think

02:12:26.720 that that is you know a bad thing i i personally like i said it's a free country so people are free

02:12:32.160 to do what they want to do in the privacy of their bedrooms but i believe that sex is supposed to be

02:12:36.880 between two people who love each other and are committed to each other and so i think we live in

02:12:42.080 a culture now that has completely degraded that and has made sex transactional and i think that largely

02:12:47.840 hurts women more than men i feel like sex kind of always was secretly transactional but then it was like

02:12:53.920 like the popularization of media and like book i mean like books always but like a population of

02:12:59.360 sex books population of sexy tv scenes population of sleeping around like it's all glamorized on tv

02:13:05.760 so it's like it comes to the light and it's like of course if you're sleeping around back in the day

02:13:10.080 you're not really going to talk about it because there was like the word hope predates okay hold on i

02:13:15.600 need to stay the stay the course a little bit on this conversation so just a little game i feel like 0.98

02:13:21.360 like it's probably worse actually if a dude's masturbating as compared to using a black 1.00

02:13:26.480 pussy because i think it's worse these dudes like if they're if they're actually masturbating like you 1.00

02:13:32.720 can holy shit what the is going on with your mic over here do you think it's gay or something that 1.00

02:13:37.280 they like themselves a little too much no because like they've got the if they have the death grip 1.00

02:13:42.880 it's like they're not going to be able to some dudes like won't be able to come during sex if they've

02:13:47.280 like oh up their sensitivity because they got the what's if you do too much okay because there's 0.99

02:13:52.480 guys like a pocket pussy a pocket pussy is a bit more like you can't death grip that 1.00

02:13:56.960 shit so it's going to be like a little more the things or if they're watching men doing it 1.00

02:14:00.640 well you mean death grip like because you could close your hand really hard yeah they got 0.99

02:14:05.600 never heard like way too tight with the they need somebody or just their satisfaction during

02:14:10.320 sex if they're watching but but it's interesting though like nobody bats an eye 0.78

02:14:14.560 if a girl has a vibrator or dildo like she's in touch with her sexuality whatever but if a dude 0.99

02:14:24.640 has a pocket pussy all of a sudden he's less than home he's looked down i think it's so weird if you 1.00

02:14:36.320 use a dildo no that's just that i think that's pretty common it's pretty normal yeah but but 1.00

02:14:41.600 speaking of speaking of we have uh something in studio here um shania you were talking about um

02:14:49.120 you know putting it on the uh the table so what i'm gonna have you uh reveal this and then just put

02:14:56.080 it on the table please me yeah that one over there so i have here oh no a what's called an auto blow

02:15:03.360 i don't want to see this this is freaky um and it's actually so this is a auto blow ai and um what

02:15:12.240 it does you should not be promoting this and hold on so you turn it on turn the switch on okay and then

02:15:18.320 press the the power button why does it do circles oh my what does that do is it used and then it's got

02:15:25.040 10 different speed settings so like check this shit out bro i need like i mean at least people 0.88

02:15:28.800 won't get the apple tool wow that's why i'm really interested wait what is the bottom part 0.96

02:15:35.920 i'm like a little nauseous i'm sorry i'm not shaming i'm not shaming that's horrifying

02:15:44.080 that's like so dystopian what if you're like really thirsty and like i don't want that 0.95

02:15:48.720 shit i'm against it is that the fastest so wait is this for a guy or girl here put it on the table 0.96

02:15:54.800 i'm confused this is for a guy right yeah it's for dude so wait i'm confused on how you use this 0.99

02:16:01.680 are you laying down or do you put it against a wall or like i mean you can use it in all kinds

02:16:06.080 ways but he just lie back you put on some jazz no you put on what i've been listening to when they

02:16:14.080 use this please tell me do you know so wait i'm putting on i have a question though does this make

02:16:20.960 men less satisfied during like if men do this often buy this at home if men do this often does

02:16:26.560 that make them like less satisfied during actual like sex for example that's what i was not doing 0.84

02:16:32.240 enough in a day if you're just like jacking off and using these things they must be bored yeah exactly 0.75

02:16:36.400 is looking at this doing anything for you you don't have to answer honestly but is looking at it

02:16:40.720 like doing anything that's disgusting thank god we have hope but is it is it due to the

02:16:46.160 mechanical part this is the future no i feel like a grandma looking at this this is look

02:16:54.160 someone said imagine the bacteria

02:16:57.200 ew i don't like how it just like why can't we just use their hands i mean listen listen sexual

02:17:03.600 revolution was a mistake look i'm just saying by the way these came from bosnia son have you have 0.98

02:17:10.800 you ever been to bosnia have you ever been in the shit i'm just kidding they don't know he said 0.98

02:17:15.040 imagine the bacteria look yeah come on yeah look i it's an auto blow ai i assume the ai stands for 0.99

02:17:22.400 artificial intelligence you plug it in automatically blows you word the worst part is it makes me

02:17:30.080 uncomfortable like being in front of me really yeah a little cute put it like right there take it

02:17:34.400 away take it away from her it's a little bit but uh you know listen as someone who has carpal tunnel 0.94

02:17:38.560 syndrome this this seems like a game changer i'm just saying i don't know it's the ferrari of fellatio 0.99

02:17:45.040 it's the jaguar oh it's a mouth it's the bugatti of blowjobs no and it's got 10 different speed 0.98

02:17:52.000 settings use code whatever 10 off link in the description i feel like you need to blow out 0.84

02:17:58.080 we have a link tree link you have to go to the link tree link if you want to check it out guys

02:18:02.080 check it out you know 10 off use code whatever um yeah okay that thoroughly made i feel like self

02:18:08.560 love is very reflective of we kind of ruined your sex toys do you think that i feel like this make 0.59

02:18:14.480 people less satisfied yes yeah i can't look at it anymore what do you guys think about the relation 0.92

02:18:20.560 between like sex like sex toys and self-love like if you're like really if you're like personally

02:18:27.760 i'm just not into it because i like you know like into sex toys yeah because just i guess like i like

02:18:33.600 a person you know and i don't like the like i think that's how i don't even like really like doing it by

02:18:37.520 myself unless like i don't like i don't know like it has to be special or like a special mood or whatever

02:18:41.760 yeah but like if you're like have a fanatic for self for sex toys and you're you're probably

02:18:48.400 loving you're probably really creative you know you probably really have a good imagination

02:18:52.800 because you spend a lot of time well first thing what scares me about that is that it's a plug-in

02:18:56.960 it's not battery powered second thing that might make it safer i might make it safer but if you're

02:19:03.120 sitting with your if you're sitting with your with your what's it called i'm gonna name it

02:19:06.240 what's her name it's the auto blow the auto blow but she needs a name you know she's making you 1.00

02:19:12.560 come gertrude gertrude so you're sitting there with gertrude and you're getting imaginatory are

02:19:17.200 your eyes open are your eyes closed are you watching gertrude like i mean you have to be a

02:19:21.600 really creative person to sit there because i'm not turned on by the robot or are you turned on by 0.90

02:19:26.880 the robot that's okay it's just like you're watching you could be watching porn i guess while you're

02:19:31.920 but are you choosing to watch porn or are you looking at the machine no you don't look at the

02:19:37.120 machine it's the feeling and then they're like watching something and they're just like imagining

02:19:40.320 because the machine looks scary as i'm so sorry that's why you guys shouldn't use tinder but it

02:19:46.320 doesn't get us further and further away from actual like good sex is my question yes you know what i 0.79

02:19:51.280 mean yeah look if you just need it on my toes you just need a nut why not but why do you just it's 0.99

02:19:57.200 please you know it's actually bad for men to like jack off all the time and watch porn it's bad for 0.99

02:20:02.000 them word bro it's crazy i mean i feel like it's fine if you if you're okay don't get one if you're 0.88

02:20:11.200 not single that's all i have to say it's so bad for men at the end of the day she's anti-porn if you're 1.00

02:20:18.480 dating her oh you've got only fans hello but i'm not doing porn like i'm doing like soft porn it's not

02:20:25.760 like um it's like posting on instagram like it's not like i'm doing porn just because you have an

02:20:30.880 only fans doesn't mean you're doing porn yeah and like i guess for you because i know you personally

02:20:35.440 and i know you're like you represent a huge amount of only fans girls who um how do i put this they're

02:20:42.480 not they're not porn stars like you're you're anti-porn and you like a lot of it is like i disassociate

02:20:48.480 with the people who use my content right like i'm not a porn user i'm not even a masturbator but i have only

02:20:54.480 fans and i you have only no i don't but i'm talking like a hypothetical person but i have

02:20:59.920 only fans but i'm not really into the whole idea of only fans and it's it's fun for me i mean i love

02:21:05.600 i love like i think it's funny or i think it's kind of cute that like a lot of girls are kind of like

02:21:11.600 like really like disassociate the customers i mean i guess some people have kind of like a drug dealer

02:21:17.280 that sells weed but doesn't smoke weed some people get off on it like i knew a girl who did only fans 1.00

02:21:21.040 and she sat home and like and like masturbated on like facetime all day like or you know and she 1.00

02:21:26.000 nutted like 10 times a day and she was like into it oh i knew an only fans girl who would like 1.00

02:21:30.800 masturbate and like all day and just do said that's probably really bad people would pay her for 1.00

02:21:35.200 facetime and she would like come over and over again and i know that if you're doing that you're

02:21:39.200 you're that's kind of like it's become i don't know does it is it has it become your kink or is it

02:21:43.840 just like you liked it in the first place i don't know how does only fans dictate your sex life and like

02:21:49.600 if you're doing it hardcore if you're doing it personally like i like looking at the picture

02:21:52.800 you just asked like seven questions there okay let me um but can you explain what i'm trying to

02:21:56.480 yo hold on feeling dangerous thank you man i'm sorry i forgot your name but the based woman next

02:22:00.480 to madison i pay for the first few dates as a man uh after that i use as a means to communicate how much

02:22:06.880 money i expect a woman to contribute to the household in the future good or bad idea that's for you 1.00

02:22:12.560 let's see i pay oh wait could you pull it back up yeah i pay for the first space as a man and as a

02:22:20.000 man i communicate how much money i accept the word well if you're going to read it read it out loud

02:22:24.480 i mean i think it just depends on your relationship with that woman and if you got if that woman is

02:22:30.080 someone who's like very career driven and wants a career i think that's great to support her

02:22:34.560 um but you know if she wants to be a mother and stay at home and raise the kids it's a really important 0.92

02:22:39.760 job i think it's the most important job in society and i think it's very undervalued and as someone who

02:22:45.760 does have a baby i know it's a full-time job and so i think men should also respect that that is a

02:22:50.800 full-time job cleaning cooking taking care of it's the hardest job icon but you know obviously we live

02:22:56.480 in an economy like you mentioned earlier where that is not the case where everybody can have a

02:23:00.160 stay-at-home wife and so in a marriage you need to make decisions together on how what works best

02:23:04.880 financially for each other and support each other sure all right we have uh rachel fallen thank you

02:23:10.240 if being upfront about your goals why not normalize arranged marriages in the u.s

02:23:16.480 uh range because it's not true love yeah you have no idea you don't you have no idea who a person

02:23:23.280 is like even it's three months into a relationship to be honest like i feel like it can take a long

02:23:27.520 time hold on just a sec thank you man appreciate it 199 dollars a lot not all of current women

02:23:35.440 versus sex toy both don't clean or cook don't communicate when something is wrong that it is

02:23:42.000 acceptable to replace the sex toy when loose um based hello what wait so he's basically saying that 0.95

02:23:50.640 sex toys are the same as i think he's talking about the robot the robots both okay no he's saying

02:23:57.200 both don't clean or cook don't communicate when something is wrong it is acceptable to replace 0.98

02:24:02.480 the sex toy when well he's the wrong woman then okay all right thank you um just going back to rachel's

02:24:10.960 comment about why not normalize arranged marriages in the u.s i mean i don't think that that would

02:24:17.440 cause more divorces you know actually that's not true that's not true people who are in arranged

02:24:22.400 marriages are statistically happier and they get less divorces i think because cultures with 0.77

02:24:28.880 arranged yeah they generally don't yeah i'm not advocating for arranged marriages but i just

02:24:33.920 thought that was an interesting in that marriage so like there's no way that they can get out they 0.61

02:24:37.760 have well but it's also happiness like levels too like people who are in arranged marriages also are

02:24:43.040 statistically happier i think there's the opposite problem in the u.s where there's like we're

02:24:48.080 talking about with dating apps you're swipe swipe and it's like almost too many options like how do

02:24:51.760 you actually meet someone like i i think like when you're dating someone you you can't expect that

02:24:56.160 person is going to be absolutely perfect and you have to take people at their flaws as well and so

02:25:01.040 like obviously totally against arranged marriages but i think we have an opposite

02:25:04.480 hold on hold on hold on hold on make no mistake she don't want love messing with a 48 year old geezer 0.99

02:25:12.240 men already have a lower life expectancy which means he's gonna kick the bucket before she hits 48. 1.00

02:25:18.720 now what the female equivalent of the male dj is a truck stop lizard weirdo 1.00

02:25:24.480 he's really proud of your response so proud of you thanks for your message mike um first of all he's

02:25:33.760 not just a dj that's like one of his business endeavors and he has a couple um not that that

02:25:40.640 matters anyway but i think that if you you know have this assumption that just because people are

02:25:47.440 different ages that they can't have a healthy relationship you know then you're entitled to 0.95

02:25:52.720 that but that doesn't say anything about the reality of my relationship so i'll just keep

02:25:58.480 being happy and you seem like you're doing really you're happy with all your messages too so he's

02:26:03.280 spending money yeah she's happy good for the pod good for the yeah all right mike davis appreciate it

02:26:09.040 okay we have let's get some super chats anger it seems like yeah all right we have less pent-up

02:26:14.320 anger than the other ones we love you all right k-pip thank you man men in general want to feel

02:26:18.800 desire madison can you read it men in general want to feel desired if a woman pays for the date

02:26:23.600 it's going to make him feel desired when women stop making a man feel desired that is when they 1.00

02:26:28.960 more likely will cheat not saying that it's okay just saying that's what happens yeah i definitely

02:26:36.240 think that uh i mean there's this talk about there's definitely some talk about well you know

02:26:41.920 you'd want the guy to pay because that's him showing that he's actually interested in you but i

02:26:47.840 think you could actually make a much stronger argument for the reverse if a girl pays for you 0.91

02:26:53.120 then she must genuinely be super interested because if it's just the expectation that men should pay

02:26:59.040 i don't think it really indicates his level level of interest in you i'm sure girl like a girl has been

02:27:06.000 paid for on a date and then got like maybe they hook up and then he never talks to her again so i don't

02:27:14.960 think a guy paying on a date is any indicator that the guy's not gonna hit it and quit it so

02:27:21.680 yeah where's the reverse if a girl's like here i'm gonna i want to pay for you let me simp 1.00

02:27:28.240 then you're like bro she's into you but i don't think the reverse is the case like you were saying

02:27:34.240 that you paid for like oh yeah that's that's fair that's fair yeah because well but that's when a girl 1.00

02:27:38.880 will give him that message that's when the girls like if a girl splits on a date that could be an 1.00

02:27:43.680 indicator yeah that she's just yeah she doesn't but he was talking about like not just days i'm

02:27:49.200 like a whole relationship yeah that's true i love taking care of him i mean like off rip when i first

02:27:54.960 meet you i kind of want to i guess paying for it might be the sense of commitment like if we're into

02:27:58.720 each other and him paying for it as a sense of i don't want to say responsibility because um i just don't

02:28:04.640 but but like you get kind of get the feeling that he's serious also you know when you're in a

02:28:08.800 relationship because of the stigma yeah but that's okay you know i feel like also in a relationship

02:28:13.360 like let's say you know he's like not doing as good financially like in the long run or something

02:28:19.280 happens and if you have more you can like help support that you know what i mean like it doesn't

02:28:23.760 have to just be the man paying for everything it could be like if he's going down bad or something

02:28:28.080 happens like you're there to support him as well like that's what a team is like supporting each other

02:28:32.240 you know it's another interesting like aspect that we haven't talked about that i also think

02:28:36.080 is because of feminism when men pay for i've heard a lot of my friends talk about this 1.00

02:28:41.840 when men pay for the date they automatically expect that you're going to go home with them 0.95

02:28:45.840 and that they're going to get something out of that and that's kind of like how our culture works

02:28:49.360 nowadays yeah i think that kind of i mean not with everyone obviously like obviously not a good guy

02:28:55.280 but there are a lot of guys my friends have talked about that they feel like in a very awkward

02:28:58.480 situation because of that and you know that's obviously because of hookup culture and everything 0.98

02:29:03.600 or you feel like you owe them something yeah type thing if they pay for your dinner all the more

02:29:08.000 reason to not pay for the first date okay we have a sweet tooth here uh men should pay for the 1.00

02:29:13.360 traditional woman it's if she's not traditional split or have her pay three of uh three of foes can 1.00

02:29:19.600 kick rocks what does that mean area code it's an area code i agree with that area code yeah i mean i

02:29:26.640 wouldn't say like if she's not traditional split or have her pay i'm not like i mean have 0.82

02:29:34.080 i don't i wouldn't go into it i would never go into a date expecting her to pay for me the same

02:29:39.040 way that a lot of women not all women but a lot of women will go into a date expecting the guy to

02:29:45.040 pay for them but it i think you should split pay for your respective meals so especially if she 1.00

02:29:51.200 spends more than like yeah i also want to touch on something you said and i think that's interesting how

02:29:56.240 like when you know we're throwing out words like feminism or like traditional women it's

02:30:01.120 interesting because it is so layered like i can like call myself a feminist and then somebody else

02:30:06.480 who might call themselves a radical feminist would say that's not feminist because you're wearing 1.00

02:30:10.240 makeup and and somebody who might say that you know we all have our own kind of personal definition

02:30:17.680 of like where we stand but a lot of the times we might find things that we actually do agree on and

02:30:22.480 it's not black and white at all you know i think feminism isn't what it used to be and it comes 1.00

02:30:27.680 with like a lot of values that i'm very pro-woman and i believe in women's equality and i believe in

02:30:34.960 like empowering women but i find that a lot of feminism does the exact opposite which is why 1.00

02:30:39.520 i call myself an anti-feminist based wait who here's a feminist how can you like but like what 1.00

02:30:46.560 in definition definitely in definition yeah it has to be your personal definition because

02:30:52.480 yes anybody because you know like somebody who's a radical feminist for example like would call a lot 1.00

02:30:58.480 of women who call themselves feminists like that say that they're not feminists but before we get into

02:31:03.680 the feminist conversation i just want to thank uh sweet tooth we i know re-read it but thank you sweet tooth for

02:31:08.560 the uh soup chat appreciate all your uh support tonight and in previous streams and then we just

02:31:13.280 have one here from stream labs we have uh shania can you read this this is me shouting out shania as

02:31:20.800 the goat every show she's on can you make a goat noise i don't think i can drop what's what noises do

02:31:28.400 they go like yeah do can you do it no do it come on come on please please please please i'm not

02:31:35.520 one of your pressure what do you mean you don't need a come on yeah that's a lot of stuff going on

02:31:40.400 give us a little meh oh man okay all right stoically thank you man appreciate the uh donation okay so uh

02:31:47.120 feminism uh again just show of hands who considers themselves a feminist whatever your sense of that word 1.00

02:31:52.720 is what okay all right were you gonna raise your hand i mean i'm like a woman's woman wait can you

02:31:59.440 scoot the mic closer towards you and just tilt the mic down just a tad you're a woman's woman yeah like 0.79

02:32:05.520 i are you a boss babe a boss babe are you a boss babe i mean i'm a i mean i'm a boss are you a boss 1.00

02:32:12.320 ass bitch i mean i she's married to the money of course she's married to the money you're married to 1.00

02:32:16.880 the game but i know what you're trying to say you're trying to like make that a bad thing but no i'm just 1.00

02:32:20.240 asking are you i'm just asking like you making fun of that yeah kind of but whatever you are so

02:32:25.120 that's why i'm not saying fair enough okay but are you a feminist 1.00

02:32:31.760 you three right okay yeah um okay um

02:32:38.000 so i actually we can start with you and then we'll work our way that way what's your definition

02:32:44.720 wait wait actually let me just read this super chat from mike davis really quick yo mike davis um

02:32:49.280 actually madison can you read it you goofs don't realize i'm a multi-millionaire and did so without

02:32:54.560 selling my soul a hundred dollars to me is less than one cent to one cent to you entertainment 0.94

02:32:59.840 money the west is the lost cause i'm just enjoying watching it burn i got foreign woman much prettier 0.81

02:33:05.280 than you basics who worship me this is my davis by the way so is this like your this is his main sponsor

02:33:12.800 sponsor guy boom define our worship of you please but at the end of the day money doesn't buy

02:33:18.880 happiness it does you know there's a new study that proves that money does increase happiness

02:33:24.560 increase happiness because you're not as stressed out financially but at the end of the day long term

02:33:29.360 that's why you see all these celebrities commit suicide or doing drugs because they can't find that

02:33:33.760 love humans at the end of the day like want love we all just want love and acceptance it's not just

02:33:38.880 about money and materialistic things it does make you happy it makes you feel happier too much money

02:33:44.320 can really corrupt yeah and cause a lot of issues in your life yeah i think there's a balance of being

02:33:49.120 like wealthy and be able to provide for your family that will bring a lot of happiness you know what

02:33:53.680 though my my thinking is is that like let's say you fit like you had some experience in the workforce 0.99

02:34:00.560 for a couple years you're a wage slave it fucking sucks maybe you're doing physical labor maybe you're 0.99

02:34:06.240 sitting for 10 hours a day at a fucking cubicle that to me is draining so i think money would make 1.00

02:34:12.720 you happier insofar as if you came into such a significant amount of money that you could retire 0.99

02:34:19.840 say for example at 25 or 30 it would be hard for me to if i came into such an amount of money where i

02:34:26.320 could just never work again i would be pretty happy like we didn't want to work like i'll do anything

02:34:34.800 honestly like you'd get bored of it quick yeah no i don't think i would like a family or a good

02:34:42.320 hobby yeah you need to build oh i have hobbies i have hobbies if i have if someone just put 30

02:34:47.440 million dollars in my bank right now i'd i'd probably just retire i just fucking chill maybe i'd still do 0.87

02:34:54.480 a podcast but i'd well that's why you see a lot of like super rich people doing random things because

02:34:59.600 they're kind of bored and they're like start things because they're bored and they're kind of just

02:35:03.200 bored you know because they have so much money kids get i wouldn't be bored and i wouldn't be

02:35:07.360 bored bored with life after go buy like a little go-kart or something right around then you get

02:35:11.760 bored after that everything is temporary yeah but like being a wage slave is not happiness 0.98

02:35:18.080 fucking sitting in a oh well yeah cubicle for 10 hours a day that's why it's good to choose

02:35:23.200 the career path that makes you happy and something you're actually passionate about hello eric hello 0.99

02:35:27.760 hello i do agree why are you in the point that you're getting at yeah like i feel like success

02:35:33.520 is very it's it's defined in like two different ways nowadays i feel like eric never you cannot have

02:35:40.080 that window open man what all right anyway people think like success is money but success is happiness

02:35:47.840 and exactly there's a balance like everything yeah eric that window can never pop up on stream okay

02:35:55.040 yeah all right they're right next to each other what but why were you in the windows tab to begin

02:36:01.040 with did anyone just see my home you had to pause because the buttons are right next to each other

02:36:06.880 wait so it's been running the whole time what the video's been running the whole time no uh okay

02:36:12.720 whatever um what were we talking about i don't know mike davis's thing um okay more money more problems

02:36:19.680 okay we were talking about feminism right so oh yeah that's uh what's your definition of feminism 1.00

02:36:24.720 um the belief that men and women are equal okay that's it so feminism is about equality yes 1.00

02:36:34.480 purely in my opinion what's what's your sense of feminism definitely equality it's kind of funny to 1.00

02:36:40.480 see how like when people start to like name movements that are like i don't know what happens to

02:36:47.600 like an idea and a belief once it gets a movement why does it become so bullied like why is it when

02:36:55.280 people stand up for like feminism are you talking about feminism yeah like what happened i feel like

02:37:00.880 because feminism and it's become such like like a movement where it's like uplifting woman by degrading 1.00

02:37:06.960 men yeah that's exactly the same thing yeah it's like the small technology yeah hold on please please

02:37:13.440 before we give our response let's allow them to define what the feminist is sorry oh you oh me yeah 1.00

02:37:21.840 well you didn't identify yeah yeah right um i think that we live in a society where or just

02:37:28.400 i think that feminism is about liberty and about freedom for all people for all beings and so that 0.81

02:37:36.400 by supporting and people have their different definitions of feminism but by like generalizing

02:37:42.880 feminism as a whole and saying that it means one thing is being kind of ignorant to the many many 1.00

02:37:47.760 layers of feminism in the many ways that people have completely opposite beliefs and will still call 1.00

02:37:52.640 themselves feminists so i'm my definition of feminism is being as free as the person next to me regardless 1.00

02:38:01.040 of their sex regardless of their gender okay so equality or yeah equality for all people sorry

02:38:08.080 madison did you want to continue with your take oh i was just gonna say i liked like i believe in the

02:38:13.280 same things that like all of you said like equality hold on okay batsunders corex donated 200 0.97

02:38:21.040 blonde girl with the fat ass gap next to shrek with a wig what you need to do is get married to a 1.00

02:38:26.480 dentist to fix that messed up grill catch braces not bodies i already had braces back in sale you are 0.99

02:38:35.200 why are you so mad i love my gab if you check my instagram it says girl with the gap literally on

02:38:40.160 there it definitely makes me money so and why are you so mad did you comment this just to come for me

02:38:45.600 who's discount kate beckinsale who's what discount who is discount kate beckinsale yo victor thank you

02:38:55.440 hey eric can you pull up victor's instagram it should be on the tab um victor is one of our

02:39:00.800 long-time supporters i want to ask the girls like would you date this guy let's see is this the guy who

02:39:05.600 just said something rude oh yeah this is the guy this is uh check out his instagram um scroll up you can

02:39:10.080 scroll up a little bit um all right victor uh can you pull up that first photo of him

02:39:17.440 yo do you see do you see all these comments that's from us yo go to everyone in the chat pull up his

02:39:21.920 instagram and uh like i want you to put um i want you to put that um emoji where there's like the

02:39:30.880 the fingernails and it's the uh nail polish that looks like this yeah the nail the nail polish emoji i

02:39:36.640 want you to spam his comments with the nail polish emoji guys all right sweet uh oh would you guys

02:39:41.680 date him no no huh because of what he said or just because no i mean i'm one that's i'm not really

02:39:47.360 attracted to him oh rip sorry victor okay anybody else and also shania are you down for him i'm good but

02:39:56.720 thank you what the did he ever go on that or did he ever keep he doesn't like my gap so

02:40:02.640 did he ever keep talking uh oh i don't know probably not um i wanted to touch on when you

02:40:09.280 guys said equality because i think that's an interesting word to use and i want to preface

02:40:13.440 this by saying i believe in we have the same rights under the eyes of god in america and i will

02:40:19.920 always fight for that but i don't think men and women are equal i i don't i don't think you can 1.00

02:40:24.240 compare men and women i think they're intrinsically different and so that's my problem with feminism 1.00

02:40:30.720 while they degrade men they also are trying to make women more like men and women are special and

02:40:36.560 unique in our own ways and femininity is special and i think that there's a lot of things that women 0.94

02:40:43.440 should aim for that's different than men and i think we should embrace that we're unique and different

02:40:47.920 and i think a lot of feminism has brought out the worst qualities of men and are trying to make women 0.93

02:40:53.600 follow those qualities especially when it comes to hookup culture but how do you feel about like

02:40:57.040 the alpha male um culture like the new culture with like andrew tay and all of them i think that's a

02:41:03.280 complete like rebellion to feminism that you're producing kind of this hyper masculine culture and 1.00

02:41:09.760 there's some parts that you know i agree i think we need more masculinity in the us i think men have been

02:41:15.040 degraded in this country and i think they've been torn down and i think they're told that masculinity is

02:41:19.840 toxic masculinity is not toxic masculinity is the most important thing to make a country but there

02:41:24.320 is toxic masculinity traits there's bad traits that men have that are not good but i think women enable 1.00

02:41:31.120 that when we have a culture where you sleep around with guys you enable toxic masculinity you enable guys

02:41:36.480 to take advantage of your body and use you as like a credit card for sex rather than making that man 0.66

02:41:42.240 work for you so i think it's like what i find funny is that feminism brings out that so-called 1.00

02:41:48.320 toxic masculinity and we allow like the quote unquote i hate using this word but like really

02:41:53.440 the patriarchy to take advantage of us and use our bodies instead of work for us build a family with us 0.89

02:42:01.600 and treat us with respect and dignity i can hear and understand what you're saying completely but i also

02:42:07.280 think it's important while acknowledging the pitfalls of feminism in areas where it may be you know 0.99

02:42:13.120 harmful and degraded men to also recognize where feminism has been necessary and fundamental for 0.69

02:42:19.440 women's survival and safety sure in 1950s nobody look at violence rates like if you look at violence

02:42:26.320 rates you know majority of crimes violent crimes are commit by men like that's a true statistic and when

02:42:33.840 we're thinking about violence for example you know that is there's no liberty there there's no freedom

02:42:39.040 if somebody's threatening your life then and obviously women commit violent crimes too but you 1.00

02:42:44.320 know if we're looking at the statistics men do commit more violent crimes than women and so when somebody

02:42:50.240 is having a violent crime being committed against them there is no liberty there there is no freedom

02:42:55.440 and if we look at the roots of even marriage men were permitted to beat their wives so it is still part

02:43:00.800 of our history and feminism but those are laws that have been overturned and i'll say this the whole

02:43:06.880 hookup culture allows women to become victims of sexual violence and abuse it's not safe for a woman 1.00

02:43:12.560 to meet a man at a bar and go home with him someone she doesn't know someone her friends don't know

02:43:17.040 you put yourself in a very very risky situation doing that but instead feminism instead of talking about 1.00

02:43:22.880 that how that is a huge cause of sexual violence they're encouraging women to do that they're saying go 0.58

02:43:28.000 be like a man go have sex with a random guy and woman just biologically we have more implications

02:43:33.600 when we have sex with a guy we could become pregnant where we put ourselves at risk for sexual abuse and

02:43:39.120 violence and like we talked about earlier women become more attached to men so i think it actually

02:43:43.120 leads a lot of women to depression when they're engaging in this meaningless hookup culture but i don't 0.95

02:43:47.840 think the feminism or our feminist is oh them saying oh go fuck everybody i don't think that's what it's 0.99

02:43:54.000 what that's a sexual revolution it was you know we should be like men and maybe that's the radical 0.99

02:44:00.560 but women are supposed to shame for their bodies which if women go to meet men at a bar or they go 1.00

02:44:06.480 on a walk in their neighborhood in the morning they're still vulnerable to being you know violently

02:44:11.600 attacked men are more likely to be victims of violent crime so yeah just just because you feel more

02:44:17.760 vulnerable doesn't actually mean you are but walking on a street you're way less likely to be

02:44:24.480 harmed by a violent crime than going home with a man from a bar that you don't know and going to his

02:44:29.200 bedroom and you could even if i just we're definitely not saying oh go do that that's not well i think

02:44:34.320 that's part of the sexual revolution it's encouraging women to do what they want with their bodies and as 1.00

02:44:39.200 long as it's two consenting individuals there's nothing wrong with that and i think there's something

02:44:43.040 completely wrong with using sex like a transactional no yeah i agree i think you should only be having 0.94

02:44:49.440 sex with someone that you fully know you want to maybe be with or commit to i'm not saying to just

02:44:55.360 go have sex with anybody i don't do that i would i don't have sex on the first day with anybody or even 0.96

02:44:59.120 the second or third like you know what i mean like or fourth like which i think is good but yeah 0.97

02:45:03.040 that's a sexual revolution yeah but sex is also a power women have that has been stripped from them for 1.00

02:45:09.440 generations but how is it empowering to have sex with a guy that uses your body and then discards 0.98

02:45:15.440 you like you're nothing my well that might not be empowering to you and maybe like the way that 0.91

02:45:21.360 you're wording but to some women having casual sex might be empowering to them and who am i to say

02:45:27.280 that it's not if it maybe has been fundamental on their life journey if it's taught them about what

02:45:32.400 they want in relationships like who are we to say and discard her experiences i mean i i think we are to

02:45:38.800 say that that's a bad cultural trend that doesn't lead women towards success happiness i think it 1.00

02:45:44.080 leads women towards depression i already mentioned i think it puts women at risky situations and i think

02:45:48.400 it enables toxic masculinity quote unquote and the patriarchy you're allowing men to just use your 1.00

02:45:53.680 body um yeah but like i would say we shame women and say oh like it's you're a sliver or mom i'm not

02:45:59.120 saying that but like you're you're you're doing that like it's bad but then men it's like they say oh

02:46:03.280 like go have 20 women go do this that and then half the time they don't even be wearing protection and then 1.00

02:46:08.240 they're they're the ones who are giving the std i completely disagree with men being promiscuous as

02:46:13.120 well but there there is just the reality that woman can fall pregnant men can't there's a way 0.98

02:46:18.800 bigger risk as a woman you are in biologically we're smaller than men we're at a risk when we

02:46:24.000 engage in casual sex that men don't have that same risk and i completely disagree with men being

02:46:28.160 promiscuous as well but i think for women it's even more important we protect our own bodies but i think

02:46:33.200 we should be shaming men as well for for doing yeah i totally agree and i would shame any guy

02:46:37.680 that goes out and but it's saying we're shaming women for doing that it's like we should be shaming

02:46:42.960 men as well like you know what i mean it's like people are hyping men up to do this but if a woman 1.00

02:46:47.680 is with a guy or like how you're in high school or whatever right and then a girl gets caught like

02:46:52.960 with a guy or something all everyone's like ew she's a whore but then the guy doesn't everyone's praising 1.00

02:46:58.000 him i think we should encourage a culture where people there's a sacred element to sex between 0.73

02:47:03.760 two people who love each other and are committed to each other and like i said i don't think we

02:47:08.640 should degrade that and i agree with you that i don't think we should be encouraging anybody to

02:47:11.920 be promiscuous men or women but there's a certain risk that women incur that's more than men which is

02:47:16.640 why i think throughout history there's more of a societal statement i mean there's still a risk for men

02:47:20.640 with getting stds and half the time they aren't using protection and there's a risk for men where if

02:47:26.400 you're in a room alone with a woman you don't know and she claims that you raped her and she

02:47:31.120 she may have he may have not but that's also a risk that men incur as well and vice versa yeah the

02:47:36.960 whole the whole situation i just think is so toxic and horrible for our society it is and also if you

02:47:42.560 think about it then the man will have a kid with a woman that he doesn't know and then leaves and

02:47:46.880 then now that baby is growing up with mental issues baby daddy issues trauma which is what that's

02:47:51.680 that's a big problem exactly it's a big problem like what i like kind of dabbled into in my little

02:47:58.480 feminist ways has been the abortion industrial complex and how that's really disproportionately 1.00

02:48:04.240 affected women because basically we are telling men that and black women specifically yeah exactly 1.00

02:48:09.440 that you can just fuck me it does not matter like because i can go tomorrow and get an abortion 1.00

02:48:14.560 and and that it not i'm not saying that i disagree with abortion necessarily but i'm saying 0.99

02:48:22.400 that it's something to think about that we are allowing men to just say yeah no it's cool like i'll

02:48:29.920 just go get it fixed and then you're left with the emotional trauma and the pain yeah from having

02:48:34.560 that abortion validation to do that they don't have to do it and do that the emotional trauma i'm very

02:48:41.840 pro-life because i believe it's such a horrible thing for a woman to kill her own child i think 1.00

02:48:46.640 it's against nature i think it's against every single thing inside of a woman yeah and so that's 0.93

02:48:50.880 why it's so important that sex is sacred because there are those implications that men do not have

02:48:56.960 and as women we should be holding men to a higher standard instead of lowering ourselves to theirs yeah 0.59

02:49:01.680 we should be leading on that but it's also important to acknowledge where is the man's responsibility and

02:49:07.440 i think that's what we're when we're talking about feminism as i'll be of course can agree with you 0.98

02:49:12.320 that there are like you know ways that people can take it to an extreme that's harmful for men you

02:49:17.280 have to acknowledge the flip side and acknowledge where where are men not showing up in that regard

02:49:22.400 and not taking care of women in that regard like completely with the wounder and the wounded i think

02:49:27.040 thank you go ahead go ahead i think women have allowed men to take advantage of us through feminism and 1.00

02:49:32.320 i think it's like i said it it's brought out the worst of men yeah because it's the best put under

02:49:36.480 this guise of like oh i'm empowered because i can make the decision to go and do this but are you

02:49:42.880 really empowered if he's just coming in you and then saying bye-bye using your body yeah and just

02:49:49.520 using your body i don't know if that's a feminine feminism feminist but it's also it's a product of 1.00

02:49:54.640 feminism that's a sexual revolution yeah i don't know much women should be like men yes and men

02:50:01.920 throughout history have slept around i figured that the sexual revolution was like the popular

02:50:06.480 throughout history have slept around media more than that's part of it it happened in the 60s and

02:50:12.240 then it's happening now too as well i would argue i guess it's like sex is like media that's what i

02:50:18.480 always figure women like we talked about earlier women have different experiences with sex than men do

02:50:23.040 and like i said we should bring men to that same level and it should be a sacred bond i agree

02:50:28.720 okay oh point proven that was really i thought you guys wanted to talk more about abortion or 0.90

02:50:36.160 some shit we can talk a little more i mean i think i mean now we're getting political

02:50:40.240 regardless of like i don't know if it's the right of anyone to stop it yeah personally i feel like a 0.99

02:50:47.840 lot of like the the mental issues and things that go on in society nowadays stem from how you're raised

02:50:53.680 and if you're not raised like you said like with like a two-parent household right which is a man

02:50:58.240 a man is just having sex with any girl right and then coming in 10 girls or whatever getting them 0.80

02:51:03.440 pregnant and not being there for them and not being a good dad those kids are going to grow up without 0.99

02:51:08.480 a dad or even without a mom of course it happens but it's mainly the the man that the breakdown of

02:51:14.000 the nuclear family has been one of the worst things for america yeah which is why men should but also 1.00

02:51:19.920 i think it's you know what wear condoms i feel like a lot of men don't wear condoms yeah and

02:51:26.640 that's because how many times have you guys literally like stop donated two hundred dollars

02:51:32.080 men being promiscuous is one of the few double standards we get it is insanely harder for men to

02:51:38.000 get laid than women men's privilege to the world is to die for their country while women get to continue 1.00

02:51:44.000 hot girls summer yeah i mean i think i think the double standard on that front is justified frankly

02:51:49.920 i don't i don't think men ought to be promiscuous but i understand for example why it's impressive

02:51:56.000 for a guy to sleep with a lot of women and women are typically looked down upon or shamed if they sleep 0.83

02:52:03.600 with a lot of men and that just comes down to the the difficulty with which both of both men and women

02:52:09.920 can get laid it's super women have getting laid and honestly dating on easy mode compared to men 0.83

02:52:17.200 any girl like girls can get laid super easy whereas like for most guys average guy it's difficult to 0.56

02:52:24.560 get laid yeah it's not like men's are the gatekeeper of sex yeah women are the gatekeepers of sex but

02:52:31.040 but also i think it's like you have to look at these situations and how unique they are like

02:52:36.160 somebody for example like a a girl in high school um at a party and some somebody you know she thinks

02:52:42.560 she's drinking something and somebody what how what are you talking about here i'm just saying

02:52:46.720 that like every situation is different and so to say like one person is completely responsible wait

02:52:53.360 like you're saying that women are the gatekeepers right this is what you were talking about and i was 0.73

02:52:57.280 just coming back to what she was saying kind of about how like if we're just talking about abortion

02:53:02.160 in general that every situation is really unique that's what i was saying okay but i i we can come

02:53:08.880 back to the abortion thing but what i'm talking about here is the the double standard between men and

02:53:12.880 women when it comes to the ease with which both of the sexes can get laid or get laid but that shouldn't 1.00

02:53:19.520 be the goal to just get laid that's where the whole culture is wrong it should be to find the person 0.51

02:53:24.640 that you love and sure and build a relationship yeah but but i don't think like the the cat is out

02:53:31.920 of the bag um i but i think we can strive to improve our culture and create more of a culture that centers

02:53:39.040 itself in building relationships with people and not having transactional sex i i agree with you

02:53:44.960 idealistically it would be great if we can have a return to more traditional values however i think

02:53:53.760 i i think conservatives generally speaking are losing the culture war um we don't have like

02:54:00.960 concert obviously conservatives conservatives don't have control of the media yeah they don't have

02:54:06.080 control of academia uh they don't have control of like major uh mainstream news outlets uh like

02:54:17.120 most most people who are journalists who are reporting on the news tend to be excuse me tend to be left-leaning

02:54:23.040 so um you look at popular culture you look at music you look at movies you look at the hollywood

02:54:28.960 the entertainment industry it's it's dominated by people who are more liberal yeah i mean every

02:54:36.640 corporation at uc target putting up pride things every corporation is trying to market towards

02:54:41.600 yeah liberals so i i think like but we can't just give up sure i did but idealistically it would be

02:54:49.200 wonderful if we return to traditional values but because of feminism because of the of birth control 0.98

02:54:56.240 um it's just changed the dynamics between men and women um so i mean that's i don't think we're gonna

02:55:02.880 unwind so it's like we now have to adapt to the new rule set i don't think that we should do that at

02:55:08.720 all i think like for example i run a woman's culture and fashionizing and our whole job is that we're

02:55:13.760 bringing conservative and christian values into the mainstream and you know talking to women about

02:55:19.440 that there are other choices outside of this like radical feminism that will make your life happier 0.96

02:55:24.000 and i think as conservatives older conservatives made the mistake of letting the culture just go so

02:55:28.880 far left and you know giving away everything and i think you're now seeing an uprising of people who

02:55:33.440 are fighting back i mean like look at the bud light situation we are there are points that now we're

02:55:37.600 finally putting on the board and we can't just like throw in the towel and be like you know i have a

02:55:41.440 daughter and i want to create a better world for her and so i think it's like my duty before i leave

02:55:46.960 the planet to create a better world not just throw in the towel no and i i agree with you there um i just

02:55:52.880 it is i i suppose a bit idealistic in so far as and especially related to his super chat where he's

02:55:58.160 talking about why the double standard is justified so in a society where hookup culture is the norm

02:56:05.840 where people have are sleeping with multiple people where people are just hooking up

02:56:10.960 and if we're going to have a conversation of well it's unfair for men to be praised for sleeping

02:56:18.480 with a lot of women where whereas women are shamed for sleeping with a lot of men well first off

02:56:24.160 the world is unfair society is unfair there's plenty of double standards that benefit women 1.00

02:56:29.600 that don't benefit men so this is one of the very few double standards that benefits men when it comes to

02:56:35.680 uh intersectional intersexual dynamics um so yeah but i don't think that also like men who are kind

02:56:44.160 of that like oh i'm sleeping around then they can't expect the woman that they marry and i think a lot

02:56:48.480 of men want it want a woman that hasn't been sleeping around and i think that's like a common thing that men

02:56:53.520 want but then men shouldn't be partaking in that culture yeah exactly so you're are you talking about

02:56:59.680 a guy who has for example a high body count yeah he he should not desire in a partner a woman with 0.99

02:57:07.040 a low body count because it would be hypocritical so to speak yeah and i i mean there are situations

02:57:12.160 where that probably folds out but i think in general women are the gatekeepers of sex so the reason why men 0.98

02:57:18.880 are allowed to get these high body counts for the most part is because women are giving into that culture 1.00

02:57:22.800 so as women we can pull back and be like no we're not going to have this sleep around feminism 1.00

02:57:27.600 culture that's so destructive to us and is like honestly disrespectful to us and is like not

02:57:33.520 empowering to us and said we should be empowered and and come back and you know fight for a better

02:57:38.400 culture with men yeah it just cheapens us quite honestly it's sad yeah well i mean also when it 0.77

02:57:43.440 comes to the the double standard too very few men a small percentage of men can have high body

02:57:51.200 counts whereas almost any single woman could be promiscuous very few men can be truly promiscuous

02:57:59.040 so i mean there's another double standard there women women have the capability of being more women 1.00

02:58:07.040 have the option of being promiscuous than do men you look at an average guy he can't be promiscuous

02:58:12.880 every night any girl can be promiscuous i mean with dating apps nowadays there's somebody out there

02:58:18.080 that's gonna no but that's not with what he just said if women are only swiping on 10 of the dating 1.00

02:58:24.320 pool then i think it's gonna be pretty hard you might but i think there's always somebody or a

02:58:29.120 woman that may say yes to them or they could even pay for it or like you know what i mean 1.00

02:58:32.960 that they can get it somehow but women aren't paying and they're gonna try to get it most most average 1.00

02:58:39.280 men they're not going on dates like they're not easily able to secure dates they're not

02:58:45.920 easily able to secure the ability easy but they still can like i don't think they're like not at

02:58:51.600 all a lot of guys women that want to be in relationships and maybe they don't have the 1.00

02:58:55.280 confidence or they're maybe going for women that are not in their league 0.81

02:59:01.360 and also i think the this idea of like how like shaming women like well the world is unfair so we

02:59:06.640 should just accept like some like men are going to be shamed for things and women are going to be

02:59:10.160 shamed for things i think we should also ask like where has shaming women for sex for example gotten 0.92

02:59:15.360 us because it's existed for a long time and it's also contributed to getting us to where we are

02:59:20.640 and it's contributed to this you know like you said how this new alpha male culture is this rebellion

02:59:26.240 against feminism well what is feminism the rebellion against and why is there that anger and why was there 0.87

02:59:31.760 that desire you know i think it's important to ask that question too well i feel like there was real

02:59:36.240 civil rights measures that needed to be achieved in the early 1900s but i think it's been pushed

02:59:41.760 too far and i think it was a movement that spiraled and picked up very bad values along the way that

02:59:48.640 they've peddled to women as i've explained earlier in the podcast that have been very detrimental to 1.00

02:59:54.080 women and you know i also wanted to go off of like if you're a guy and you or a girl and you like having 1.00

02:59:59.120 sex there's something to be said about getting in a relationship where you're committed to each other 0.65

03:00:03.040 and you love each other you'll have way more sex and sleeping around and better yeah obviously

03:00:08.560 yeah i don't know i don't know why people don't know that i think just pain you know like the sexual

03:00:16.000 revolution promotes like promiscuity promiscuity promotes heartbreak because people get sensitive

03:00:21.440 when you share your body with someone and then you know just becomes a habit and it's all over tv 0.99

03:00:26.560 it's all over mark media it's like oh how many bitches did you get with brah like i think feminism 1.00

03:00:32.160 has contributed to how toxic and horrible our dating culture is and it's a real problem yes 0.98

03:00:40.000 hold on just a second mike davis donated two hundred dollars money doesn't thank you man happiness says the

03:00:46.000 lowlife selling herself for a few bucks would rather be stuck in a septic tank than on a date with blondie 1.00

03:00:53.040 plus mute jewels her voice is more annoying than a mosquito buzzing in there when they're trying 1.00

03:00:58.800 to sleep ouch mike that one that one's gonna leave a bruise yes i really appreciate um keeps the

03:01:07.840 boy in the pod keep hating please please please um please keep um saying whatever you want just send

03:01:12.880 the money thank you mike davis appreciate it bread love man thank you mike davis we love you bro

03:01:19.280 mike we love you mike remember only hurt people hurt people so oh you're clearly hurt you know if you

03:01:24.960 need some advice or anything you could always dm me and like i got your back okay mike davis her dms

03:01:31.040 are open by the way he owns like 400 burger king restaurants on the east coast like if he flew

03:01:35.680 you out would you be down for a date a burger king date a burger king date he'll get you whatever you

03:01:42.080 want i don't just fly out my great-grandparents used to do that they used to roller skate down to the

03:01:47.120 local burger king and get a whopper here let me just read this while we have it up here all right

03:01:51.280 we have feeling feeling dangerous thank you man my last chat for the tonight thank you brian and the

03:01:55.840 panel just want to say in regards to my chat i'm fine with many answers to how much i want to provide

03:02:01.200 to the home anything from zero to 50 is acceptable but not over thank you man um what was your last chat

03:02:10.320 uh it was uh uh oh you're saying i pay for the first few dates okay i see i see oh okay i want to

03:02:20.640 provide to the home anything from zero to 50 is except for the first date you were saying anything

03:02:25.520 from zero to 50 is acceptable but you would not go over 50 for a first date got it thank you man

03:02:30.880 appreciate it okay and then i think we're good on the soup chats over here um all right cool um i think

03:02:36.800 we were talking a little bit about feminism so you guys um what if i told you that feminism is not 1.00

03:02:42.880 actually about equality agree disagree it's about awareness awareness i would wait did madison dip i

03:02:52.000 would no i think she went to the bathroom maybe but i would like to hear what you think feminism is 1.00

03:02:56.880 or what you're yeah because i i i took my definition straight from the dictionary at least from what i

03:03:04.800 remember it could have changed now they like to change definitions now yeah yeah i mean i think uh

03:03:11.440 i mean the the most charitable definition that i could give feminism is it's not again this is the 1.00

03:03:18.880 most charitable definition i give it it's not an equality movement it's a woman's advocacy movement

03:03:24.640 and there's nothing wrong with women's advocacy but to try to paint feminism as seeking true equality

03:03:31.360 see feminists don't fight for equality if said equality does not come at the benefit of women 1.00

03:03:37.680 if there is no benefit to be reaped by some by a form of equality feminists will not fight for it 1.00

03:03:43.440 therefore it is not a true equality movement because if there was a form of equality that would

03:03:49.040 in some conceivable way come to the detriment of women but equalize the genders for example military 0.88

03:03:55.680 conscription feminists will not fight for it even if you're granted equality for example with uh if 1.00

03:04:01.600 you equalized military conscription to the point where both men and women had to register for the

03:04:07.680 selective service had to um excuse me if they both had to be conscripted in wartime that would be equality

03:04:16.160 but it's the case in today women were able to secure the vote without having the corresponding 1.00

03:04:22.240 responsibility of being conscripted into war so and even to this day women are not subject to military

03:04:29.840 conscription in the u.s and the vast majority of western countries where we have feminist movements 1.00

03:04:36.000 and where we otherwise have equality between the sexes so i mean from like my definition of feminism 0.85

03:04:43.120 like i said it like equal the belief that men and women are equal and i kind of take like your

03:04:47.680 version of it or i mean you i know you're not a feminist but like we are equal in value we are not 0.96

03:04:54.240 equal in like we're just not equal like you can we can't it's comparing apples to oranges it's two

03:05:01.200 completely different things so that's kind of where i see it and i and i i don't know it's taken

03:05:08.640 since i've kind of switched political leanings i it's taken me a while to kind of like reclaim the term

03:05:14.560 feminist because like i do just believe in that like we are equal in value and i think that's like 0.99

03:05:20.880 important and you i mean it goes into a whole bunch of other different definitions i guess everybody

03:05:26.240 interprets it differently but like that's my belief of like what true feminism is i think another aspect 0.98

03:05:32.160 of feminism that really bothers me is this obsessive culture of making women go into work and encouraging 1.00

03:05:38.400 women to work which i'm a huge fan of like i i love a you know i think we're all americans and we 0.99

03:05:44.000 should pursue our dreams in our career but not at the expense of your family and so they're leading

03:05:48.800 women into this corporate life that's so unfulfilling and it's just like honestly buying into this whole 1.00

03:05:53.680 capitalist system where you're just sitting at your desk all day and you leave behind no legacy and you

03:05:58.560 have no family and there's no fulfillment and as someone who works and also has a daughter i will tell

03:06:03.120 you every day of the week every second of the day being a mom is way more fulfilling and important to me

03:06:09.200 than whatever career is is happening and that doesn't say that you can't be passionate about

03:06:12.880 your career but i think there is no focus on that with women instead it's going to the corporate 1.00

03:06:17.680 machine work all day freeze your eggs we'll pay for your abortion and i think that's so toxic and 1.00

03:06:22.800 detrimental to women i think that i agree with a lot of what you're saying but you also we also have to 0.97

03:06:27.520 always acknowledge that that's a luxury that so many women don't have and so like in this time where 1.00

03:06:33.040 a lot of women do need to work and they don't have the luxury of you know getting to spend that 1.00

03:06:37.920 time like with their children in that way that feminism there's aspects of feminism that do 1.00

03:06:44.000 benefit women just like there's aspects of feminism that might hurt women and hurt men the same way 1.00

03:06:48.560 there's aspects of masculinity in this modern movement that are positive but there's also aspects

03:06:54.160 that hurt men and hurt women and i think it's on both sides it's not like who's to blame is feminism

03:06:59.280 to blame is masculinity to blame but i think there's issues on both sides yeah i can agree with

03:07:05.840 that yeah i mean i think it's like a one size fits all oh my gosh feminism is the only thing that's 1.00

03:07:10.720 ever gone wrong i think there it's the breakdown of traditional gender roles in the family i think

03:07:15.600 there's a reason why this existed throughout history and has been successful and i think there's 0.99

03:07:19.200 this attitude with people nowadays where they think that everyone that came before us is stupid

03:07:24.000 and we're going to create this whole new world and i think we can learn from people of the past 0.70

03:07:28.560 and their successes and like what created happiness and what created fulfillment and

03:07:32.480 like i said my whole thing is i think feminism is very counterproductive to women and like even 1.00

03:07:37.920 going into a whole nother aspect of this they rare like when i see actual civil rights deterioration

03:07:44.160 for women which is what feminism should stand up for like the transgender movement that now is 1.00

03:07:48.320 allowing men to basically become women just because they like stereotypically feminine things

03:07:53.440 putting on dresses and heels and now they're invading our sports teams our locker rooms like

03:07:58.480 these are civil rights that we've fought for and now are being eroded by men and then i see rarely

03:08:04.480 see feminists standing up against that and like men are taking our championships our titles they're 1.00

03:08:10.720 competing in our sports and like title nine we fought really hard like feminists fought hard for that 1.00

03:08:15.120 what what's that i agree well like to be real that's so like jesus christ i feel like that's how

03:08:24.000 does that have anything to do with feminism when we come to feminism it's just kind of about 1.00

03:08:28.480 going to the places where like women are kind of considered not equal to men where women should be

03:08:33.120 equal to men like i feel like it was all about wages and then people drag it i mean it was about

03:08:37.920 traditional feminism it was about it was about wages and then it kind of got dragged into getting 1.00

03:08:42.160 bigger about um what gender roles and like so it was feminism was of course in the name created to 0.99

03:08:47.920 protect women but then like to go forward and say like men are just choosing i mean like you don't

03:08:53.920 understand like the chemical makeup of people and their hormones or their hormone imbalances and like

03:08:59.280 what happens in the body is so organic like you can't tell me there's enough science to prove

03:09:02.640 that that's just so that like that an xx chromosome is female and xy is male yeah but like who cares

03:09:10.880 like everything i care if men are coming in and taking away civil rights achievements that yeah 0.99

03:09:15.520 are coming into my prisons yeah and raping women in prison well men aren't coming into yes they are

03:09:20.480 they are yes they're winning our championships look at look into washington state prisons 0.98

03:09:25.040 they're they're raping women in prisons wait hold on are you i'm so sorry i keep saying the r word are

03:09:30.400 you saying i like cannot i'll let you talk but i cannot condone great like okay just saying that 0.98

03:09:36.160 men are coming into our our way with women when transgender women experience so much abuse all

03:09:43.360 right we're not we're gonna as well as women about that um but basically what you're saying is that men

03:09:49.120 like who are better women than women is what you're saying i'm just kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding

03:09:54.640 my my whole thing is that it feminism is not protecting women in this day and age and the actual 1.00

03:10:00.080 erosion of our civil rights that i'm seeing unfolding through the transgender movement 1.00

03:10:03.920 there's very few feminists that patriarchy wins again yeah exactly i just find the entire movement 1.00

03:10:09.760 overall extremely counterproductive for women yeah and very toxic but do you think that that means that 1.00

03:10:16.960 we just have to we can't you can't just like eliminate the idea that like there there is that

03:10:22.080 movement going on for like people who are transgender to um you know do things like sports like we can't 0.63

03:10:27.840 deny that that's happening so if it's i feel like it can't just be that we either accept that or we

03:10:33.360 don't but what about you know finding solutions that everybody can agree with do you think that that's

03:10:38.160 possible that's supportive of everybody that everyone would be comfortable with i have extreme compassion

03:10:43.760 and empathy for people who struggle with gender dysphoria and that they they do not like the bodies

03:10:49.600 that they're in okay extreme empathy and compassion for that but that just because someone feels that way

03:10:55.680 does not mean it's true if an anorexic person is telling you that they hate their body they look

03:11:00.720 in the mirror every day and they're like i'm fat i'm fat a doctor does not just prescribe them that

03:11:06.160 diet pills it's the same way we should be teaching people that the body we're born in is the right body

03:11:11.520 god does not make mistakes you have a beautiful body and you should embrace that and you should love

03:11:16.240 yourself for who you are and regardless you can't you can't biologically and physically

03:11:22.160 transition into a different gender and so like i said i have extreme jesus really cares about

03:11:26.960 whether or not you're transitioning did jesus is there one time in the bible where jesus many times

03:11:31.120 he made them man and woman where did jesus say that jesus came to forgive and spread love like

03:11:36.720 for our sins to live in his honor and jesus died for our sins for so much there's nowhere in the bible

03:11:42.320 where jesus is not here what happened in dating yeah but then jesus came jesus warned us about

03:11:47.120 being too religious so going through and saying he made us man and women it's not religious like

03:11:53.280 it's not i cannot even believe you said that biological reality it's women are born with xx

03:11:58.640 chromosomes okay and have children the bare pregnancy for the most part and men are born with uh xy

03:12:05.120 chromosomes and they have through they have complete different bone density body structure they have

03:12:11.120 different uh sexual reproductive parts it's reality and so by leading people down this false road that 1.00

03:12:16.880 they can actually change their gender when it's not physically or biologically impossible i think is

03:12:21.520 cruel and medical malpractice oh my god i can say that um oh my god okay you know a man maybe feeling

03:12:28.720 feminine or feminine energy and i'm dressing up or whatever that's fine but i i could say i do agree

03:12:33.280 with you on the part where the medical part because a man taking estrogen is like so just weakens their

03:12:39.600 body and it's really bad for them at the end of the day and i don't i personally i i don't know too

03:12:44.240 much about it so i can't say but i would say medically it's not really i'm fine with men liking

03:12:48.720 i can't believe you just said that at the end of the day of most transgenders that transition fully

03:12:53.920 like their bottom part do commit suicide yeah no that's true it's statistic you are statistically more

03:12:59.760 likely after you transition i'm totally okay that's why i think that's why i think that gender roles 0.99

03:13:04.880 are fucking bullshit if anything it's about gender roles like what what about okay so me being about 0.99

03:13:10.000 a baby woman okay whatever everything else about woman is a gender well it's a gender and it's like 1.00

03:13:17.360 if you're gonna sit here and talk about people who genuinely who genuinely struggle more than other

03:13:23.680 people that is because they that's how their emotions feel this is what i'm trying to scream 0.91

03:13:29.440 at you but it's just like it just feels stupid to me to sit here and be like okay you're mutilating 1.00

03:13:33.360 your body you can be a transgender woman and not touch your freaking genitals i don't care like my 1.00

03:13:37.840 pussy's a dick i can say whatever the fuck i can believe and have whatever the fuck i want it's 1.00

03:13:41.440 their words that's delusion what's ironic about transgenderism i'm not like my pussy's a dick but 1.00

03:13:46.800 like my exact gender roles and whatever gender that associates are fighting against so the whole 0.99

03:13:52.160 thing is if a man likes stereotypically feminine things then he becomes a woman that is cementing 1.00

03:13:57.920 gender roles and saying like example when i was little i liked traditionally masculine things i

03:14:02.080 like sports i didn't want to wear a skirt i wanted to wear shorts that didn't make me any less of a

03:14:05.760 woman and so that's what i find so regressive about transgenderism is that cementing archaic and 0.92

03:14:11.440 stereotypical gender roles and telling people that they can be whoever they want to be but that doesn't 0.95

03:14:15.360 make them less of a man or less of a woman but i think also if you're bringing you brought god

03:14:20.560 it matters because they're coming in like i said they're coming and dying yeah and there's very high

03:14:26.560 suicide rates but also i think it's important to acknowledge that you brought god into this

03:14:31.120 conversation and i completely respect and i think a lot every you know a lot of people respect your

03:14:37.120 right to practice your religion to have your beliefs but then you also have to respect someone's

03:14:43.280 right but these aren't my religious i do have religious beliefs but it's a projection of

03:14:47.360 religious no it's not it's a projection of what i believe is biological reality that's existed

03:14:53.200 since the start of humankind but then why does it why if we're not talking about like

03:14:59.760 how it's coming into like our sports and things like that i'm saying there's other alternatives for

03:15:04.800 compromise that i believe are possible maybe we haven't found them yet but ways that we can all

03:15:09.200 coexist peacefully agreed and so but to deny the experiences of people with gender dysphoria i don't

03:15:15.360 think she's denying anybody's experience i think that she is just merely saying that this is a mental

03:15:21.440 illness and to treat it as anything other than that is a disservice to those people yes it's because you

03:15:27.920 are telling them a delusion you're you're you're feeling into a delusion and and i know that there are

03:15:34.480 some people who do experience gender dysphoria who do walk lighter in life after medical and

03:15:41.920 social transition but i think that for the majority of it if we look at the statistics and the only

03:15:49.520 long-term study done it's done can you pull up s fonds really quick can you pull up s fonds it's one

03:15:54.880 of the instagram tabs okay guys would you date this man don't show the uh follower count

03:16:01.120 i literally okay so this is s fan she's a he's a classic chad world of warcraft gamer um scroll

03:16:10.160 keep scrolling down yeah he has a girlfriend no no i don't think so he's a really uh he's a cool guy

03:16:16.960 he's got look at his flow he's got really good flow and he's a paladin he plays a ret paladin

03:16:21.840 which you know like not the best dps but like he he runs his guild so like he's gonna get thunder

03:16:30.000 fury you know whatever but um right now he's playing hardcore um and he's a sweetheart he's

03:16:35.920 like a total sweetheart um so yeah you know seems like a fun guy is he in the chat right now uh probably

03:16:44.880 not um but yeah this is s fond and he's just like a chad ret paladin like a pumper paladin he's still

03:16:52.080 at the bottom of the dps like random women though like what what's up with that can i like so so 1.00

03:16:56.560 like um would you guys date him or what here let's hold on hold on let's start with you go ahead i would

03:17:02.080 have to meet him in person get to know who he is as a person i can't like look at a picture of someone

03:17:07.200 and know a decision like that um personally not really my type okay would you date him as long

03:17:18.720 as he's not a prejudice sure wait i'm so confused i like i can't take the redirect from that conversation

03:17:27.760 i just have to make a statement and say you guys aren't even entitled to that opinion yes we are yes

03:17:32.800 we are okay you guys are just like wow like it's just sad to me that there are people who can like

03:17:42.240 think that way and like feel that way and i know that you think that it's a mental disorder but people

03:17:47.920 are like transgender people struggle so much more than regular people there's so much science on like 0.99

03:17:53.120 just answer the question yes would you would you date s fans no i would not i don't know him

03:17:58.240 he looked like a nice guy i'd party with him please just let me like stand up for like

03:18:02.480 transgender people no we're redirecting the conversation so do you would you date him

03:18:11.680 what's up i just think it's wrong like to to like not to segue i mean like i don't know him sure like 0.63

03:18:18.720 i don't fucking care at this at the end of the day that conversation like everyone's gonna have 0.90

03:18:21.520 their own opinions we're not gonna agree you know what i mean like no one's gonna ever 0.97

03:18:24.320 i'm not gonna get anywhere i want you to know that like i really don't think that they're like

03:18:31.920 some disgusting like it's like wrong i've redirected the conversation answer the question

03:18:39.360 i just said i don't know him if he's sweet sure but like why can i sit here and talk about i mean

03:18:44.160 it's your podcast because i've i've chosen to redirect the con the conversation you can either accept that or

03:18:50.320 you can leave your choice yeah for people out there who like are listening to this i'm

03:18:56.080 i'm literally about to get out yeah i'm out i'm out and you got to say get out to me but like

03:19:01.440 peace out peace out

03:19:08.560 see ya i'm gonna get up too but thank you for having me okay you can it's nice meeting you

03:19:13.760 no you can't sit here you got to get out you got to get out we drove together okay make it a this

03:19:24.880 whole squad leaving or what we got a whole squad make it a hat trick then i'm sorry for not taking

03:19:30.240 that but i have to do that for like family members of mine and i'm not actually you know what i'm not

03:19:34.800 sorry and god bless you okay can you just leave like yeah i'm out of here okay we drove together

03:19:41.760 so i mean i guess i have to leave too sweet see ya nice meeting you nice meeting you nice meeting

03:19:48.960 drive safe can you leave yeah you guys gotta go

03:19:59.040 all right hat trick let's go three down can we like is can we like no we're just gonna okay okay

03:20:08.240 all right was that was that an appropriate kick chat i don't know i mean you did say you were

03:20:14.960 gonna redirect the call i read it i read it in the pre-show so yeah i mean i wanted to move away

03:20:21.360 from that conversation like if she wants to try to bully the conversation back there then tos yeah 1.00

03:20:28.160 it's probably a little tos um all right hat trick time um okay so s fan s fan wait did i think that he

03:20:39.120 was cute is that what you're asking me yeah like what you didn't if you were i wouldn't date him

03:20:44.320 i'll be honest but i mean actually okay i can't say that i haven't met him in person i'm not i'm not

03:20:48.880 gonna be that shallow just based on i kind of think he's your type shania no she was saying she was

03:20:53.520 over here she's like really you would go on date with him i was like what okay okay he should reach

03:21:00.080 out no but he looks nice like he looks like he's somebody that i would if i had met in person and

03:21:06.080 they asked me out on a date and he is what i'm thinking he's gonna be i like i would i would enjoy

03:21:10.960 that date you know i don't know if i would go on a second but i would enjoy the first date and i would

03:21:16.240 split it split the boat we're coming full circle what about you jake would you go on a date with him

03:21:25.920 i'm not gay and i'm married not even just a tickle i'm married so that's the end madison um if i

03:21:36.000 didn't have a boyfriend still now sorry but you look fun i would definitely be open to being friends

03:21:41.200 with you just not my type okay that's s fan for you okay um just a couple things here guys um i think

03:21:50.480 we're gonna wrap up the show here pretty soon we are gonna do an after show madison is gonna host

03:21:54.960 the after show and uh yeah so um what we're going to do now is hold on just a sec guys let me see if

03:22:02.720 we have any we have draymore here if you can just hide that for a sec eric thank you uh draymore you

03:22:08.720 women have lost your minds you need to focus on raising family kids will make you happier than 1.00

03:22:12.240 working and making money you could stay at home and do an online business focus on family and lock

03:22:18.160 down the high value man trust me infinitely happier hey draymore thank you man appreciate it

03:22:22.960 all right we have uh who do we have here selena uh very she says very appropriate kick out

03:22:31.120 if they can't respect the rules or podcasts they can go yeah i mean sorry i felt really bad i kept

03:22:35.920 like engaging yeah i probably should have kicked you too probably but um rams canadian thing for the 28

03:22:42.400 anyone oh wait oh sorry all right um uh okay we have uh okay that's it for the super chats um i just

03:22:51.840 want to say one thing so um i'm probably after the next two shows next week i'm gonna at least take one

03:22:58.560 week off um it's been actually that's from let's probably just keep it over here um been way too stressed

03:23:05.440 out it's impacting the quality of the show um i want to apologize to eric because i kind of snapped

03:23:11.440 at him earlier when that window popped up um i've been like obscenely stressed out these past couple of

03:23:17.600 weeks um there's a lot going on behind the scenes that uh you don't you don't really see you know you

03:23:25.360 see these couple hour streams but it's i work every single day i'm working 12 hours a day to make the show

03:23:31.440 happen um we had 12 flakes today that's a record um i've already been stressed out enough as it is

03:23:40.160 because i don't know if you guys know we had major technical issues last stream i was in here until 1am

03:23:45.440 yesterday fixing the computer um and uh that was a major headache we the the new computer i paid for we

03:23:55.520 i got it working but i basically had to do factor reset basically had to get everything set up again

03:24:02.240 and then we just last minute had nearly the entire panel flake so i had to scramble um and it's like

03:24:11.040 the last thing i want to do on the show day instead of focusing on doing preparation and scrambled to to

03:24:16.800 get replacements um so thank thank you to those of you who i think we had to well in any case um yeah

03:24:26.400 it's just it was a lackluster panel um and uh yeah uh so uh yeah sorry for for that and it's just been

03:24:35.920 stressful like there's been a lot of bro we're we're under attack right now like um someone came on the

03:24:43.120 podcast two shows ago with the destiny stream or well basically there's just been a shit ton of drama behind the 0.94

03:24:48.800 scenes um what's it called uh the podcast has been targeted we're fucking getting like death threats 0.94

03:24:55.120 and shit um my personal thing and during the segment in question uh i was silent during when the people 0.90

03:25:04.720 were talking about that that situation and i apparently people took that as a cosign because i was silent 0.83

03:25:10.480 that i agreed with the statements that were made but let me emphatically say now that i disavow the

03:25:19.840 stance that was taken um that that's not my stance but people seem at least me personally the way i've

03:25:26.640 always lived my life is i'm responsible for the words that come out of my mouth i'm not responsible for

03:25:32.080 what other people say especially other guests on my podcast i only know how to be responsible

03:25:37.280 for me because i believe people have responsibility on an individual level um however some people are

03:25:43.280 saying well because you're on that side of the table then look in any case i've been super stressed

03:25:48.000 out so sorry to eric um and it's just you know how it is with flakes man like it just it's it's a nightmare

03:25:56.320 so um uh yeah i i think uh i don't know where i'm going with this oh yeah i like there's been some

03:26:04.720 bullshit going on like every single week for the past couple weeks we had the whole drama with 0.97

03:26:10.160 with the chick who nip slip she's like threatening to fucking sue us because we 1.00

03:26:16.560 you know whatever um so bro there's a lot of shit going on behind the scenes um and uh just been 0.99

03:26:23.120 super stressed out so okay um and uh what else what else bro we got hit pieces from fucking 0.99

03:26:30.160 uh paint uh moist critical ob and preach all that shit uh a lot of shit going on behind the scenes so 0.98

03:26:37.520 uh yeah um anyways that's that was rather long-winded but um yeah uh final thoughts from 0.98

03:26:46.240 we are going to do an after after our show madison's going to host it um so if you want you can stick

03:26:52.480 around after the end of the proper show um so any final thoughts anybody thank you for having us on

03:27:00.800 yeah thank you for coming yeah thank you this was really fun a little heated at the end

03:27:08.400 i feel like she's she hasn't really talked and everyone loves her so

03:27:12.080 i like how they call you shania twain i hate it why i love shania twain uh no no no um i i don't

03:27:24.480 know i mean i'm kind of the type of person that doesn't talk unless spoken to and there was very

03:27:30.560 dominant speakers tonight so thank you for having me i love watching it cool love being in the mix

03:27:38.800 okay guys all right uh let's see here um i think i hit yeah i hit on everything um okay so uh let's

03:27:48.880 see what we're going to do here uh okay guys so we are going to do a uh pre-show or sorry an after

03:27:56.320 hour show we're going to dim the lights and uh yeah but uh last call guys hit the like button on your

03:28:03.440 way out if you're not going to stick around for the uh after hour show thank you for tuning in tonight

03:28:07.760 you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that thank you

03:28:12.080 to uh everyone who super chats and supports supports the show really means the world um

03:28:18.160 thank you to the panel that made it to the end um any women who want to be on the show dm out whatever 1.00

03:28:25.840 we will be live again with our normal show sunday at 7 p.m pacific um

03:28:31.920 we will if those of you who are taking off we'll see you next time good night guys um

03:28:36.080 um and we're gonna lower the soup the tts trigger for the after hour show and then we're gonna lower

03:28:42.240 the uh read trigger to um let's lower to 50 maybe we'll lower it from there but for for uh read we're

03:28:53.040 gonna lower it to 50 and then tts i'll lower to uh or 49 99 and tts i'll lower to uh 99 99 so uh yeah

03:29:04.480 um word word word shania do you want to stick around for the after sure okay do you want to

03:29:14.800 stick around for the after hours oh you have to leave you have to leave yeah yeah okay so at least

03:29:18.320 it's good time yeah okay cool um baby all right see you guys eric can you uh put the no no no don't

03:29:25.680 stop don't stop don't stop um no don't don't stop anything um and uh could you uh what's it called

03:29:37.440 could you put the lights on dim there we go welcome to the after hour show let me just fix this really

03:29:46.560 quick

03:29:50.880 what's that oh wait thank you guys so much yeah i think you're coming

03:29:56.320 thanks for coming appreciate it

03:30:03.120 do you want to come over here on the side we're gonna i don't know what's happening i'm kind of

03:30:06.080 excited it's the after hours show

03:30:10.720 yeah just sit next to madison hold on

03:30:12.640 second ever special guest really wow hi second or third i've never been this close to the camera

03:30:21.840 you can really see my pores usually in that corner minimum donations to read you just get

03:30:29.600 legfuck by that poll yeah uh okay i'm lowering the tts to uh 99 i don't know but 0.70

03:30:35.520 no we'll see i might lower to lower it more um hold on just a sec you look so good with this lighting 0.93

03:30:45.120 she's like who should i yeah oh my god i need to stay after hours all right that should fix it

03:30:54.240 so what are we talking about um i honestly just well some people like into the mic you got to do

03:31:00.000 into the mic okay some people just super chat some people um sometimes i read the comments and reply

03:31:06.160 to them or whatever so it's like a live yeah it's still live my official role on the show is we have

03:31:19.520 wearing this helmet and posting up

03:31:30.640 all right thanks everyone for staying for the after show i don't know how many of there are you on here

03:31:36.160 but it's good to see you how's everyone doing tonight hi

03:31:43.840 i'm just reading the comments do we have to sniff the seats no they always say that

03:31:47.520 but we're not sniffing the seats guys unless the normal chats

03:31:57.040 bye irk see ya

03:32:02.160 wait brian what normal chat are you talking about

03:32:07.680 yeah i am all right people are just what's your daily routine like what's your daily routine like

03:32:14.640 uh wow this is like this is insane yeah um daily routine it's very boring um i work in a hotel

03:32:24.800 do you work every day i work every weekday oh um and i have to get up at 4 30 every morning every

03:32:32.480 morning oh no i'm not a morning person i go to work and then um i work and then i go home and i go to

03:32:38.880 bed because what time are you going home i go home at 3 3 p.m yeah okay that's not that bad so not

03:32:45.440 terrible but i live kind of far away from where i work where are you from i live in ventura and so

03:32:50.720 it takes me about an hour yeah yeah it takes me about an hour to drive home so then i get home

03:32:57.120 and then like i said i go i go to bed because i have to get up at 4 30.

03:33:00.800 she's a hustler she's a hustler i heard someone ask what's her height you said you were six 1.00

03:33:05.600 two i'm six foot two i'm five two she's a whole foot oh my gosh yeah can we stand up 1.00

03:33:10.880 she's a whole foot taller than i am i'm okay to be fair i am wearing heels though so this isn't my

03:33:17.040 real height oh my goodness i didn't do you want to put it i'll put it on the center 0.81

03:33:25.920 this way okay here we go there we go hey holy shit i didn't even realize how the height difference

03:33:36.480 earlier when we were standing next to each other are you in heels though shania i am i said that 0.85

03:33:40.640 yeah but still they're like yeah so like right now yeah right now i'm six four wow all right

03:33:51.360 anyways

03:33:55.920 they're like i i'm reading they're just she's an inch taller than me um she should have been a 0.99

03:34:02.720 runway model that's what they were that's what we were saying earlier oh i would love she should

03:34:06.720 model if anyone knows any modeling agencies hit her up please hit her up where did everyone go 1.00

03:34:13.760 the show brian i mean the show i just read a comment the show ended how are madison and brian related i'm

03:34:21.280 his younger sister i thought you guys were twins to be honest yeah a lot we get we get that a lot

03:34:30.560 brian do you join us do you join us generally uh yeah i'm gonna step away for a little bit but i'll

03:34:36.000 join you guys for a few okay madison why did you quit modeling i never started but i i would love to

03:34:43.040 you're actually the look that they're looking for right now too really yeah i'm short though i feel like

03:34:47.520 that does not matter really it does not matter anymore maybe i'll i'm just trying to find time

03:34:53.520 to get into it but do it i really want to especially because it's summer i don't have school so

03:34:59.200 was i toxic this episode i feel like not this i feel like you've been more i'm gonna be straight

03:35:07.280 up with you yes straight up i was toxic straight up not like that toxic just like a little here and

03:35:12.880 there i was in the i've been in i was in a bad mood it's reasonable why you were though like i was

03:35:18.880 about to say righteously so 12 people flaked like and then three people got kicked out so three people

03:35:26.560 was the kick out justified i mean people said it was appropriate okay i mean i do understand where

03:35:33.600 she was coming from but also it's you have to know when to hold your tongue so yeah yeah i mean

03:35:40.720 we tell them before the show like if i'm if i'm like hey we're not going to talk about that let's

03:35:45.520 redirect yeah i literally read it in the pre-show so i was like and if a host of a podcast that you are

03:35:51.360 our guest on is saying hey shut up you should probably listen i feel like that's the big issue

03:35:56.480 here people come on here and have the opportunity to be on this podcast and just

03:36:02.560 it goes terrible yeah very entitled people uh brian people are asking you to reveal the seven

03:36:10.560 doing great my dude if you need some muscle i got you sweet tooth 989 hey thank you appreciate it

03:36:15.120 uh tatered big w for brian uh accountability and clearing the air thank you man shania what is

03:36:21.200 your type uh s fond uh no i uh i really like funny so um you mentioned when you were describing him that

03:36:32.000 he you know was a sweetheart and that you could kind of tell that he had a great um attitude and

03:36:37.200 personality in his pictures um because not all of them were super serious and all that so you have to be

03:36:44.000 funny like if i'm gonna be with you you have yeah i'm sorry but if you're boring like what do we talk

03:36:50.720 about well that's what my mom this one um my mom gave me great advice when i started dating and she said

03:37:04.960 um she basically said like you know looks go so far hold on i have a lot of legs oh i'm so sorry i'm

03:37:12.960 like jamming her legs right now with my chair and i didn't even know um uh anyways her advice was um

03:37:20.320 always be with someone that you would be okay with on a deserted island and it's just you and it's just

03:37:26.320 yeah that's really good advice and of course you know your looks are gonna fade on a deserted island and

03:37:31.520 so if you guys are cool with each other that's it so that's my tap if we can be on a deserted island

03:37:37.520 together looks wise like what do you usually go for like brunettes blondes it really ranges i mean um 1.00

03:37:48.240 i kind of said before i guess i'm kind of pansexual because i really don't care about how you look and

03:37:56.960 yeah you know gender of course age you have to care yeah you have to um but uh yeah so i mean in the

03:38:07.520 past there's been surfer dudes there's been tatted dudes there's been blonde chicks there's been

03:38:15.520 everyone so wow so anyone looking as long and interested and if you're funny can you read this

03:38:23.840 one madison is dolly dolly hit really hitting you hard because that's kind of wild i don't think you

03:38:31.520 even said anything that crazy and i haven't heard about it he didn't say anything crazy she was just

03:38:36.400 being way too crazy and we wanted to direct the conversation multiple times and she kept going back 1.00

03:38:41.120 to it so she she got herself like mad so that's why she had to leave honestly yeah hey thank you for

03:38:48.240 the uh super chat man appreciate it is that who dolly i think he's might be talking about something

03:38:54.560 else he might be talking about destiny oh what happened can we can we talk about well basically

03:39:00.480 um we had a male guest on the show and i was honestly kind of a lot of times i start getting

03:39:05.760 checked out of the conversation because i'm like paying attention to the chat and i'm like dealing

03:39:09.760 with technical issues yeah especially if if there's like other dudes on the panel like chase

03:39:15.520 i kind of like lean back a bit and let let the other male guests speak especially when we had

03:39:19.760 such a stacked panel i'm like hey i'm just going to play kind of moderator host i'm going to let

03:39:24.880 other people speak um mld said that and i feel like he he basically said that to endure in abusive

03:39:37.360 relationships but i i want to be charitable and i feel like at least the kind of the frame of

03:39:45.120 view i'm i'm viewing it as is that he may have very well meant that but it sounded like he the way

03:39:52.400 he started what he was saying is like he was making again maybe he genuinely means that but the way i sort

03:39:59.920 of interpreted it and if he does genuinely mean endure abusive relationships disavow and that's not

03:40:06.160 my position but i stayed i just was kind of i wasn't even saying anything during that entire segment

03:40:11.760 um i think he was more so just generally speaking hey people are so quick to end relationships people

03:40:19.200 are so quick to the the first sign of look if it's physical abuse emotional abuse yeah you should

03:40:26.160 probably get out but if there's like people have arguments in relationships people have disagreements

03:40:31.040 sometimes there's lows sometimes there's highs in relationships i think he was trying to make

03:40:37.360 a more general argument but like i think you i don't know look he said what he said disavow um but uh

03:40:46.640 yeah so basically then it just went super crazy viral like got like 40 million views on twitter a bunch

03:40:52.480 of views on tick tock a bunch of people reaction channels are like this podcast by the way he was a

03:40:57.840 guest on the podcast he's not a host he's not part of the team he's a guest they're like this podcast

03:41:04.960 needs to be canceled this podcast is toxic and like i was getting dms even though i was silenced the

03:41:11.680 entire time i've gotten hundreds of dms from people hate dms saying we need to cancel your podcast blah

03:41:18.240 blah blah all this stuff um so yeah it got and then chase got some flack too and the the editing on well

03:41:27.360 whatever i don't want i i don't want to go into it too much but we have sugar brian uh i'm not going to

03:41:32.880 reveal what the seven is at the moment but uh on the 77th episode will you this is the 77th oh

03:41:40.560 we are here uh mr cappadocio what is the pre-show about what all goes on before the guests sit down

03:41:46.080 that could potentially be interesting to stream maybe we could do it on twitch

03:41:48.960 just rules yeah uh rate them guys i give you based off profile 6.9 brother

03:41:58.320 you look like such like a happy like genuine person like i i would give you like a

03:42:06.400 like a 7.5 okay so you know how everyone has like their physical thing that they

03:42:12.080 like the first thing mine is smile and he has a great that's why i was like yeah so happy

03:42:18.160 that was a great smile that's a great profile picture you are very fine sir

03:42:25.200 um we're good by the way for the for the super chats let's do uh

03:42:30.800 just so we don't let's do 10 and up guys we'll read super chats ten dollars and up and then

03:42:36.240 don't just do it through super chat you don't have to do it through stream labs it's just easier for

03:42:40.880 me to do it through super chat um i mean if you want if you want to do it through stream labs um

03:42:47.360 the tts triggers down is reduced um first girl that was kicked off was wigging outside i think

03:42:54.320 she was trying to get kicked she was hyper fixated on her looks and threw on the hat okay what

03:42:59.280 she really wanted shania can you wear this do you want me to yeah you don't mess up your beautiful

03:43:04.000 hair do you blow out your hair i literally just put water in it can you read this madison wait

03:43:09.600 what's the right way to do this yes w hat trick she had like four warnings she was loud yelling 1.00

03:43:15.360 into the mic the whole time couldn't handle the 50 millimeter chad kick cannons from the legend

03:43:20.400 brian himself and the two others were collateral damage yep aw do you want thank you man appreciate it

03:43:27.440 all right the show was oh whoops let me hide that what is thank you k-pip

03:43:35.840 the show was that what is that like maybe more feminine petition heavy again oh petition to bring 1.00

03:43:42.640 back chaser yeah we're gonna have them back chase is gonna come back just don't i i it would have been

03:43:47.600 good to have chase tonight but uh yeah um chase will be back we'll have lila back we're gonna have

03:43:53.680 lila debate destiny i think um all right did i say 10 and up by the way did i say 10 and up or 20 and up

03:44:03.280 10 10 okay we'll do 10 and up all right buy yourself some bubble tea what's your bubble tea order

03:44:11.200 thank you for the australian appreciate it my order is either a passion fruit green tea with extra boba or a

03:44:18.080 milk tea with boba extra i uh i don't drink caffeine so i don't know do they have no yeah

03:44:25.360 they have non-caffeine yeah anything non-caffeinated have you ever had boba i have oh yeah i've only

03:44:30.240 been caffeine for a year yeah um brian love the show would love to see jordan peterson ben shapiro or

03:44:36.160 brett cooper on the show keep up the good work hey sean thank you man appreciate it um yeah we're uh

03:44:42.320 uh i've been talking to brett cooper's producers that may be in the works maybe it's falling through

03:44:49.920 hard to say it's hard to say but i i think i'm on good terms with the daily wire people so

03:44:54.880 i'd love to have jordan peterson on ben shapiro matt walsh candace and all those people brah someone

03:45:01.120 trying to make name let me know i'm on disc not sure what that means thank you brian do you go shooting

03:45:07.600 ski or target shania shania oh my god i'm so sorry shania what would you do in you free when

03:45:16.480 you ain't in the hotel aj speed thank you man um sorry by the way just the it's hard for me to change

03:45:23.680 the here actually if you it's harder for me to trigger the recent events so if you guys want you 0.96

03:45:30.400 can do through stream labs i just i can't i can't change the settings right now so oh fuck um 0.92

03:45:37.600 so if you guys just submit them through youtube if you can i guess um you tts still triggers through

03:45:45.440 uh what's it called uh stream labs but we'll just do uh oh i didn't answer the question hey victor

03:45:52.800 uh no i don't really i don't go shooting i have i have bb guns but um yeah what do you do in your free

03:45:58.080 time um lately i've just been escaping so like that sounds weird but like i'll just go to a town maybe

03:46:06.960 three hours away and just go to like i love doing that people watch and then head home at the end

03:46:13.040 of the day peaceful yeah that's what i'm like i just and i yeah i think she mentioned me in the

03:46:18.400 instagram story let's see she's gonna be like oh my god wait oh jules oh jules was the girl

03:46:24.320 oh yeah she was she just posted a story okay um can you re-click that one here i'm gonna get up but

03:46:35.120 do you want to uh yeah i can just click these how big of an age gap do you feel is too big for example

03:46:41.040 i'm 33 and a girl i'm sort of seeing is 22 but i feel like a creep sometimes when i'm with her just

03:46:46.000 because of the social stigmas surrounding it honestly age does not matter you love who you

03:46:52.720 love i'm not that i don't really care about like age to be honest uh i usually prefer my partners

03:46:59.760 to be older so um i mean if it's making you uncomfortable obviously stop doing it but if

03:47:07.600 you're okay with it and she's okay with it then who the fuck cares what everyone just learn to be 0.73

03:47:12.000 okay with it and honestly 11 years is not that big of an age gap not at all there's crazier going 0.94

03:47:18.800 on yeah you go for it you do that you do that with consent first thank you so much brian you're

03:47:25.840 awesome the show's awesome and it's really helpful to clear out lots of issues say hi to the girls

03:47:30.640 i'm here if you need any it help i can automate stuff cool anas thank you i appreciate it i don't

03:47:38.000 know if you can hear me but thank you um i think we're good on the it front i think i got it figured

03:47:43.360 out but uh i'll be sure to be in touch if uh any instances come up

03:47:52.960 i can feel your stress b the snuggle is this is a spoonie pillow you guys never sent me my pillow by

03:47:59.840 the way you dm'd me and i gave you my information and you never sent me a pillow

03:48:08.160 right can you see that you need a good cuddle sesh from your cuddle buddy what is spoonie pillow is it

03:48:15.200 like a like it looks like literally the um like a picture like it's like a it's like a cylinder kind

03:48:22.800 of that you can like put your arm under if you want to like spoon with someone i guess oh so your

03:48:28.240 arm doesn't go dead yeah yeah oh oh that's actually really smart i'd like one too please

03:48:34.000 thank you yeah send her one send me one too yeah send her hers first when i google he said he has no

03:48:41.120 kids this is interesting so when you google my father it says that he is married he's only been

03:48:48.400 married once unfortunately not to my mother um but uh when he was married it says that they don't have

03:48:55.680 kids oh that makes sense i am uh exceptionally private so clarification yes that's honestly kind

03:49:04.960 of nice yes if it was not like that you'd be like blowing up oh yeah

03:49:13.440 would you like to read this one oh oh okay miss tween let's date by the way sorry for the 12 flakes

03:49:19.520 you deserve better brian you do brian um i okay

03:49:27.600 i uh um i don't know i'm kind of not actively looking to date right now i am i said it last

03:49:36.320 time i was on the show but i have not had the best luck with dating with dating and so i've deleted all

03:49:43.040 my dating apps and you said you're 25 i'm 25 almost 26 i'm getting up there um so yeah so i'm

03:49:51.360 kind of taking a break right now but you know gotta do what you gotta do maybe in like the future yeah

03:49:58.880 t giggles jujitsu yeah mr smile man all right i think the segue was needed and they need to respect

03:50:08.400 the host not gonna lie i was about to check out due to her being loud and not moving on you were 100 0.99

03:50:14.000 justified great work here yeah thank you half dead c and i mean i think i can hear you guys by the way

03:50:20.080 i'm just behind the screen for a sec yeah brian's behind the screen but he can still hear you guys

03:50:26.000 thank you guys i need to i'm gonna um this is for the chatting for you guys can they hear me chat one

03:50:32.720 in the chat if you guys can hear me back here one in the chat can you guys hear me

03:50:44.160 oh i see a one yeah they can hear you yeah guys i'm gonna go i need to ice my neck a little bit

03:50:50.400 i'm gonna lay down a little bit so i'll be back in about 15 minutes so take it away ladies all right 1.00

03:50:58.720 girls party

03:51:02.720 oh we read that all right do you want to read this one um i've only been watching the show

03:51:10.480 for around a week i really enjoyed wait about around a week i really enjoyed i like

03:51:17.040 the fact that you have both sides of the table and i completely understand why you ended the

03:51:21.600 transgender conversation thank you for being respectful yeah

03:51:25.840 all right when is bangs coming back chase is the goat who's bangs i never met bangs okay

03:51:35.600 bangs is definitely not coming back chase is the greatest of all time he will be back

03:51:41.120 just don't know when yeah chase did you meet chase i did oh yeah he's super nice he's very kind

03:51:48.080 all right it's amazing to me that this errant chick from the destiny ep is still running her mouth el 0.99

03:51:55.040 mayo how is someone so bad faith and wrong yet snarky and arrogant there's terrible people in the world

03:52:07.120 oh it's in the mail yay okay i'll dm you later after the show but thank you

03:52:14.160 glad you didn't forget about me that's exciting send her one too please dm her for me myself and 1.00

03:52:21.360 i wait so you have a boyfriend you said right yes i do have you guys have been dating for 10 months

03:52:25.840 we've been dating for almost 10 months yeah we actually met like right when i moved down here

03:52:29.760 for school like did you guys meet at school no um we met on the beach actually oh my god romantic

03:52:35.760 yeah but um i actually i don't know if i should like just tell my story but i had a boyfriend at

03:52:44.320 the time okay that i met my new boyfriend oh so where's the button uh brian said her on but um

03:52:55.680 yeah i just ended up being like really good friends with like my new my current boyfriend

03:52:59.680 and things weren't working out with my other one i wanted to break up with him for like

03:53:06.160 months but it's kind of hard to when you're in like a toxic relationship it's hard to get out of it

03:53:11.040 yeah so yeah i did it and then me and my boyfriend are now

03:53:17.120 very committed we're gonna get married and then when you first met your current boyfriend was there

03:53:23.360 any inkling in your head being like oh like how you doing i don't want to sound like a bad person

03:53:30.240 but like yeah i thought he was cute like he had a great personality like he he's the same person

03:53:36.480 to this day like he hasn't changed a bit so i think that says a lot because i feel like in relationships

03:53:42.640 like you'll get a guy or a guy will want to get like try to get you and then you'll like

03:53:48.000 get with him and like do give your all to him and then he'll be like okay i have her so i don't

03:53:54.080 have to try anymore yeah now i'm bored yeah have you ever experienced that oh yeah yeah i just feel

03:53:59.120 like they get lazy that was just the problem with my last relationship but now we like this one yeah

03:54:04.640 and she's gonna stream the wedding we love it he's actually been on the podcast has he really i brought

03:54:10.080 him like one time oh my god was that scary or um no he was actually like the reason i came on the

03:54:16.720 podcast for like the first time i ever came on because he was like one day he randomly like

03:54:25.040 brought it up to me he was like do you know what the whatever podcast is and i was like uh like i've

03:54:32.160 been seeing their stuff on tiktok and all this stuff like i don't really know them i don't really

03:54:36.240 watch them that much but they dm'd me like back in october yeah and he was like no way like that's

03:54:42.560 crazy you have to go on and he convinced me to go on and now i'm here and now look yeah hosting the

03:54:48.400 after party yep yep what's your boyfriend's name frankie thanks frankie hi frankie he's probably

03:54:54.560 watching right now honestly okay we'll keep going with these i don't actually don't know if we read

03:55:00.240 that one i think i might have oh they're coming there's like a bunch before these are like the

03:55:05.760 oh yeah we'll get to there brian in all seriousness you're a good man doing an important thing keep

03:55:12.800 building the whatever fam find a co-host to help take the weight off you do too much ladies favorite 1.00

03:55:17.680 guests and why oh guess on the podcast honestly there was an episode that i did um i'm gonna totally

03:55:27.840 blink on their names and i'm so sorry because i love them so much yeah um

03:55:37.760 and so uh they were only fans girls over here and then i had two girls from ventura next to me and then 1.00

03:55:43.680 i think i was sitting next to brian and those only fan girls i didn't really get to talk to the uh 0.60

03:55:49.360 ventura girls i talked to them for a little bit before and they were sweet but they had to leave in 0.93

03:55:52.560 the middle um i think they were like from florida and they were all blondes one was in the military

03:55:59.680 one was in a pink dress and they were all gorgeous and they were literally the coolest girls ever really

03:56:06.320 i mean they got a lot of hate on the podcast i'm sure because of you know only fans and stuff

03:56:11.040 but they were honestly the coolest so they were forever my favorite i once again i don't remember

03:56:16.160 your names but ladies you guys were amazing i still think about you today honestly i feel like

03:56:21.760 people judge so hard about only fans which is like reasonable like you obviously like you can think

03:56:27.520 what you think i think what i think i know that for a fact yeah but they're like they're honestly

03:56:33.040 like such nice people like when i meet them in person oh very kind people my favorite guest um

03:56:42.480 probably my boyfriend there we go that's a good girlfriend right there 0.98

03:56:46.480 yeah we need to set up a rule where chat can kick a user we got the feeling right from the beginning

03:56:59.040 and we have been right on each one we needed to kick within the first five minutes i like the idea of

03:57:03.440 ending on time on days y'all go late i can't read the rest it's cut off uh on days y'all go late

03:57:09.520 i'm headed to work the next day thank you the fans fantastic appreciate it

03:57:17.600 do you have instagram i do everyone's asking for our instagrams brian you better put us in there

03:57:23.040 brian

03:57:36.880 brian love what you're doing here man but seriously you need to chill maybe take a vacation or something

03:57:42.080 and unplug you deserve it one and two it helps keep you goal-oriented just want the best for you

03:57:47.200 uh that's why we're taking a little break soon for a week

03:57:58.160 this is a college town you'll hear a lot of girls here 1.00

03:58:07.200 thanks guys do you want to read this one uh oh gosh i want a public

03:58:13.360 oh oh oh i forgot sorry never mind so yellow okay this is the fourth show i've watched i enjoy

03:58:21.680 the mix between christian chads non-christian chads and the others good stuff cheers

03:58:26.320 9.99 is fine

03:58:35.760 m-a-d-y-s-e-n-v-u-e 1.00

03:58:42.400 all right what's our instagrams are in the description they go

03:58:49.520 all right what's this talk about 12 flasks tonight well we're talking about flakes people that canceled

03:58:56.320 so people that were about to come on the podcast but canceled last minute which was why it was very

03:59:00.400 difficult

03:59:05.040 would you like the after show is so much more relaxed and personal love it this is actually a

03:59:11.680 very nice vibe that you guys have created like intimate conversation that's why i like it like

03:59:16.480 it's hard to talk when there's people like arguing about stuff that sometimes you're not like informed

03:59:21.440 about so like you don't know what to say or what to do well and that's what a lot of the time like

03:59:25.600 i said before i don't usually speak unless i'm spoken to but at the same time a lot of the topics

03:59:31.440 like i just don't feel like i can have an opinion on because it doesn't involve me so i'm always just

03:59:36.960 like that's how i feel too sometimes like yeah like for example politics will be brought up like i'm not

03:59:43.440 like i know my own like political views but i'm not informed enough to like chime in because i can't

03:59:50.000 back myself on that or say hey you're wrong like i have no right to say that you're wrong for feeling

03:59:54.320 this or anything like that or like even when like you know all the bigger topics also come up i'm like

04:00:00.160 this was a dating party yeah exactly why are we talking about this it always seems to stray to that too

04:00:06.240 yeah and like religion and all that i'm like y'all it's not even sunday the destiny ep was hilarious

04:00:14.080 the apple girl was way too effed up when she came back from the podcast or from the bathroom 1.00

04:00:20.880 was that just a rough episode it was just rough yeah yeah it was from start to finish or was it just

04:00:28.720 like a steady decline like yeah steady lovely it was honestly pretty like interesting though i would

04:00:37.120 say it was very entertaining yeah yeah i mean you can read this one uh shania do you want to be a

04:00:43.520 traditional wife or more modern that's a tricky one to answer i mean um like marriage and kids i am open

04:00:52.880 to having both of those happen for me however if it doesn't i'm also not going to be heartbroken

04:00:57.680 um so i guess in that case it would make me more modern however if i were to get married oh and a

04:01:02.800 thousand percent my dream is to be a stay-at-home wife like mine too oh i'm so and i'm just like

04:01:09.360 like i want to have children and i want to be able to like focus on my children and give my all my

04:01:14.880 attention to them so that's exactly why i want to be a stay-at-home mom and luckily my boyfriend

04:01:20.800 who i plan on getting married to has it set up to be like that so hear that frankie 0.97

04:01:28.400 but that's it yeah and like i said even like a stay-at-home wife like once again kids i'm open

04:01:33.360 to but if it's just me and my partner i'll yeah i'll cook for you i'll clean for you i'll do anything

04:01:38.720 for you just let me stay home i'm tired brian can you move that tab that's covering the chat i can't

04:01:46.800 see it completely yeah thank you

04:01:53.920 you can read this one um it would be really nice if you would rate me i'm the guy on the left and i

04:01:59.040 think you're both absolutely beautiful and have and have from what i can see great personalities

04:02:05.520 you're definitely shania's type the guy on the left the guy on the left he got a little 0.89

04:02:11.760 a big does he have a baby a big one seem like a rad dude i honestly can't see you so i'm just

04:02:19.120 gonna assume from what brian's saying is that i would probably go on a date with you

04:02:27.040 okay you can read this one too uh you were in the right tonight brian about the recent drama

04:02:32.880 it will just dissipate hello give it time as you said you didn't agree you weren't really following

04:02:38.720 along unrelated guys quit simping for girls shaking my head okay i'm very i've heard this so many times

04:02:46.640 and i don't want to sound like an old lady but what the hell is simping simping okay there's like it's

04:02:53.040 i feel like the definition got like very disproportion like over time but simping is for example like a guy

04:03:01.120 that will like do anything for you like so a good basically but people people think of it as like

04:03:07.520 in a bad way because it's like oh yeah a weakness like oh like you're my little 0.96

04:03:11.840 bitch or whatever like i see that's why i don't know especially if the girl doesn't 1.00

04:03:17.520 reciprocate that energy that's fucked up yeah it's fucked up but necessarily i don't think 0.99

04:03:23.920 simping is a bad thing like i feel like everyone thinks it's a bad thing but i would love to have 0.90

04:03:28.960 a simp oh simps in the chat yeah we're loved we accept all simps here was it simp kings like i just

04:03:39.360 i like very kind people like yeah if you're gonna like i don't know if you would do anything for me

04:03:45.840 that says a lot that means you love me and truth be told that should be what a relationship is you

04:03:51.520 would literally do anything for each other no matter what so i think that's like if you want to be

04:03:57.680 in a relationship you you kind of gotta be a simp yeah exactly and it'd be healthier healthier yeah

04:04:04.640 simp kings and queens we love you

04:04:11.440 oh wait 0.91

04:04:14.800 no there's more

04:04:17.600 all right a super chat option to kick that triggers brian to spark a vote in the chat if chat votes

04:04:23.360 casts off bye bye still let's brian be respectful but solves a problem for the stream and viewership

04:04:30.480 well that's an idea

04:04:33.840 everyone in the chat saying like no simping simping's dumb

04:04:38.800 why well i think everyone has a different definition of simping and that's mine so i was

04:04:44.720 about to say can the people in the chat who say that simping is not good can you explain what yeah

04:04:50.640 simping is for you yeah chat let's let's give a good definition of what simping is yeah we want to

04:04:58.160 know basically below a friend zone fool is there below friend zone like as acquaintance people just

04:05:08.000 think it's like kind of cringy to be like a simp i don't know let's see simping is admiring and 0.85

04:05:14.400 worshiping a woman totally unconditionally never in your mind think she's thinking she's doing

04:05:18.880 something wrong oh i can see how that okay yeah i see that yeah i see that that's why i brought up

04:05:24.480 like if the girl's not like reciprocating it then that's yeah yeah you shouldn't be a simp if no

04:05:29.840 that's the case but but we also said that that's a relationship you both should be simping for each

04:05:34.640 other educate yourselves about simps i'm sorry i don't really know this whole thing oh pain for sex 0.95

04:05:42.400 without sex what oh what does that mean like like kind of a sugar daddy but not getting the sugar 0.89

04:05:55.440 could be i mean you're only seeing good things y'all okay guess my ethnicity brian this podcast is

04:06:03.440 great that whale had to go well i don't know that last part's a little rude i don't want to be rude and

04:06:09.280 like i don't know if this is like cultural appropriation but like i will i will guess

04:06:14.960 guess your ethnicity but

04:06:19.680 puerto rican maybe mexican hispanic

04:06:26.080 i don't know i'm trying to go off the name too oh could it be my eyes aren't honestly that good it

04:06:34.800 could be that could be that i do not say are you arabic you look arabic yeah he looks arabic

04:06:45.440 also if we're offending you yeah that's why i said like i'm sorry if this is offensive

04:06:51.280 okay we're gonna move on

04:06:53.920 uh shania holla at your boy i am trying to have some d1 athletes have you ever played sports or uh i

04:07:02.000 dance you dance yeah i was a dancer i would i used to dance too absolutely not what kind of like

04:07:08.720 style dance i did jazz i see that i did tap ballet and jazz holy yeah well i did that when i was like

04:07:18.880 four years old for like five months if i i honestly would love to like know how to tap dance if anyone's

04:07:26.240 trying to teach me how to tap dance let me know uh do i do i get all of the money

04:07:38.720 oh 350 what is that oh no

04:07:44.400 okay you can read um brian we need to get chris williamson on the podcast that would be awesome

04:07:58.240 and need more frank castles when people are not listening to you tell them brian what is frank

04:08:04.080 castle i i see people always commenting uh i don't know what it means though

04:08:15.840 10 and up please yeah 10 and up for super chats you're a penny off shane what time is it

04:08:24.080 okay it is currently 11 26 p.m in america oh frank castle is just kicking someone off oh that's

04:08:32.880 that's what i thought it was but why do they call it frank castle i honestly don't know okay lingo

04:08:39.040 these days i've seen several times in the chat madison what's your zodiac sign um honestly i don't

04:08:46.080 believe in zodiac signs but i'm a sagittarius i'm a sagittarius when's your birthday november 27th

04:08:55.120 hear that her her send me her venmo is open my venmo is the same as my instagram

04:09:03.600 i'm a leo my birthday is august 4th my venmo is also open i heard like i don't i like don't believe

04:09:11.040 in this stuff but like i heard like leos and sagittarius get along do because they're like

04:09:16.480 fire signs or something i kind of feel that we're very spicy ladies i honestly hate leos though like 1.00

04:09:22.560 i can't stand yeah me too sometimes but you're like cool like my sister's leo

04:09:33.360 like we're honestly the worst like anyways okay next one simping is more so when a man does whatever for

04:09:45.120 a girl sometimes sacrificing his own dignity for a woman who does not reciprocate a simp doesn't really

04:09:51.040 relate to someone in reciprocated relationship okay i get it then yeah simping don't simp guys

04:09:57.280 don't simp there should definitely you should not be a limit to the simping like don't lose yourself

04:10:02.800 but it's okay to also you know treat your girl right or your boy right we don't judge here yeah

04:10:07.120 exactly stop simping i just said that because i didn't know like the true definition of it sorry

04:10:15.200 all right brian i wrote at the start about your super long intro and mods put me in a timeout i want

04:10:24.720 my five dollar membership feedback if i can be blocked from making a genuine suggestion

04:10:31.200 okay thanks thanks carter thanks for nothing

04:10:34.480 brian i dm'd you way back when you said your channel was going a different direction away from

04:10:45.360 the prank stuff glad to see you're doing well but yes you need a break ladies great job on the after 0.55

04:10:50.160 show you rock oh this is my first time doing i don't know what the hell we're doing originally it

04:10:59.360 was men who were giving women online loads of money for no reason and being led on oh then yeah

04:11:05.040 no that's not good wait wasn't there do you watch like 90 day fiancee i've seen like a couple clips of

04:11:13.440 that one couple i think there's one on rose and no it was what's his name i'm gonna totally blank on

04:11:22.240 on his name but yeah he he kind of did exactly that so i'm now i'm picturing him as a simp and

04:11:27.920 yeah stop simping yeah don't say don't do it guys we were i don't know what simping was to be honest

04:11:34.320 we just really like the whole treating each other right sort of thing yes absolutely

04:11:40.000 oh no

04:11:49.840 brian's thoughts on having tim pool on

04:11:55.280 brixen he said yeah he's down

04:12:01.440 okay what you are asking is for a man who will appreciate you and respect you and treat you

04:12:07.600 good simping is completely different you're absolutely right okay so there's good simping

04:12:11.760 and there's bad simping i guess simping in general is just like

04:12:17.600 if your woman is not up to par to what you're doing for her and if you're just yeah

04:12:24.960 okay we should move on from the simping any who's

04:12:30.400 love the show brian love kicking back smoking while i watch the show and do my

04:12:35.280 what is that love from india looking forward to more thanks mohan very cool profile picture too

04:12:45.360 oh yeah it's very dramatic mysterious

04:12:51.680 frank castle is the punisher he's a marvel character oh okay

04:12:57.760 we have to read these i mean they're ten dollars but simping is one-sided desire when a guy gives a

04:13:05.760 woman his all but is unreciprocated keyword unreciprocated when two people give each other

04:13:10.960 the same energy it's not simping makes sense okay don't be a simp yeah never mind everything we said

04:13:18.240 in the past yeah joyce benenson and chris williamson had a great conversation pertaining to the subjects

04:13:30.080 of this podcast sounds good cool cool cool this one's for you shania who's your dad we have said that

04:13:39.760 so many times tonight so obviously go back and watch the podcast

04:13:50.160 but also very cool profile picture yeah i keep feeling like i'm like smacking my face

04:13:57.200 frank castle is a punisher from marvel comics the kickouts are punishment for bad behavior it came

04:14:02.080 from fnf oh yeah you're right because one of them went viral for saying you have to punish

04:14:07.600 bad behavior from girls got it there's a lot of these coming in would y'all give instagram or social

04:14:17.280 or would y'all give up instagram or social media in general for a long-term relationship

04:14:22.800 you can answer that first um i would be okay with it but i'm also like i like showing off my partner

04:14:30.720 and so you know i would be kind of sad that i couldn't post like sweet things yeah um but yeah

04:14:38.880 if my partner requested it or we both did it together or like you they had a good reason then

04:14:45.520 be like okay i um same honestly same answer i would give it up for a long-term relationship

04:14:53.360 yeah but i do also like flexing my boyfriend he's all over my instagram i like keeping up with

04:15:02.160 my family and my friends so i feel like without instagram or social media i wouldn't be able to

04:15:08.000 keep up as much with what they're doing yeah that's true

04:15:10.720 but yeah shout out flan life you're the bestest

04:15:21.120 you can read this is how are you

04:15:25.920 um on dating me i'm rich af i'm mike davis's cousin does that change anything nah jk i'm a combat athlete

04:15:35.040 i'm broke af lol but yeah never simp and yeah and prove like there's no tomorrow

04:15:42.400 nice good job t giggles yeah you do you you're doing great you're doing stay happy stay keep

04:15:49.360 that smile of yours combat athlete that sounds like it's a very violent job too yeah what is that

04:15:55.760 if you want to send another chat to tell us what that is yeah bring it on

04:15:59.680 all right you can read uh what is masculinity to you how does that play into toxic masculinity

04:16:07.680 like honestly for me it's just doing manly things like working hard fixing things protecting

04:16:13.680 providing being the best me exactly and being like um being strong enough to i guess

04:16:22.160 like oh what am i trying to say andrew tate said something about this but it's a hard question

04:16:30.080 it's like saying what yeah it's like being strong enough to like put your i don't know i i don't

04:16:37.680 know i watched this video but basically i think we are toxic masculinity is very different from 0.98

04:16:45.440 masculinity toxic masculinity i think is just being a dick yeah being a dick not being a true man who 0.98

04:16:52.960 knows how to do their duties and yeah and yeah you're right you're pretty right on your 0.99

04:17:01.120 definition of you got it you don't need to expand you nailed it you should bring sneeko

04:17:08.640 and zerk on the panel would be great content berkson

04:17:16.240 brian would not comment

04:17:20.240 frank castles is a punisher punishing girls oh gotcha cool we now understand frank would love to see

04:17:28.080 him get tom mcdonald on here that would be awesome if you haven't heard of him i highly recommend

04:17:32.640 listening to his music okay if you were financially cared for by a wealthy man who

04:17:42.400 you only saw one month out of the year would that become frustrating and make you want to leave the

04:17:46.640 relationship oh personally i cannot do long distance long distance sucks and i feel like

04:17:55.440 with coming from personal experience like every time i'm not with my boyfriend i get really

04:18:01.200 upset and moody yeah so i mean you said you dated guys that are like far from you right yeah um

04:18:09.280 my i've actually only been in one relationship and he lived about four hours away and so i would only

04:18:14.640 see him on the weekends um and i mean it's it's kind of a good balance because yeah during the weeks

04:18:21.280 it's so hard especially leaving on sunday you just you know you're leaving a piece of your heart

04:18:26.400 back where they are um however i think it's also healthy too to have that distance but i don't know

04:18:34.320 one month out of the year like are are we still allowed to be in contact with them or like i think

04:18:40.320 yeah be in contact but say you can only see them like physically yeah that's tough i mean i personally i

04:18:48.160 feel like i would eventually become frustrated i just don't think i could do that yeah like even

04:18:54.400 though i'm financially cared for i'd personally rather would be in a healthy relationship because

04:19:01.680 i just know that would be toxic for me personally i'd rather be in a healthy relationship and have to

04:19:06.400 support myself yeah financially precisely all right seems melina was a snake she comes with destiny 0.78

04:19:16.720 had what seems like a a makeable convo then slices up a clip that directs a ton of heat brian

04:19:24.640 don't let the stress get to you you got this mads i love you love you oh that's so nice mark

04:19:32.640 okay also really good there's like been some great profile pictures

04:19:40.880 hodge twins would you bring them on their dating advice is hilarious brian said yes he's awake

04:19:50.720 all right maybe taking a break is a good thing for brian and the audience because i think i'm

04:19:54.880 starting to lose brain cells by continuously watching for so long

04:19:58.960 tonight was pretty good though yeah it was pretty we've got some heat

04:20:08.160 brixton do you love steaks i work for a famous steak company and would love to send you some

04:20:12.640 i love steaks steak is my favorite food

04:20:19.840 brian loves steaks dm at whatever on instagram send us some steaks

04:20:25.600 you want to read uh ladies have you ever had a guy in the friend zone and how did you deal with 1.00

04:20:34.800 the situation wait we're like we put them in the friend zone yeah i don't think i have i've been in

04:20:43.280 the friend zone but i don't think i've put someone in the friend zone oh i've i have had a guy in the

04:20:50.800 one before and it's honestly really hard to deal with the situation like that but i guess giving

04:20:56.640 them the closure that it's okay to be friends and that even if you tried really hard to be in a

04:21:02.800 relationship it wouldn't be pure because you're kind of forcing it upon yourself so i guess just stay

04:21:09.280 like really good friends with them be kind my best advice yeah

04:21:18.720 oh um shania i understand the idea of showing off your man but social media is the devil

04:21:24.400 it was a big reason for my premature exodus i think from my long-time partner men don't want to be shown

04:21:31.600 off they want peace that i mean so like i said before i'm actually huge on privacy and so when i

04:21:40.400 show off my man um it's like little things um so it's not like a big old you know projection of like

04:21:48.720 look at this this is my boyfriend girlfriend whatever um my last relationship i that was actually

04:21:54.800 something that he brought up when we were on the decline is that i didn't show him off enough

04:22:00.480 yeah i was just gonna say that like uh you said showing off your man social media is the devil

04:22:06.640 well i feel like if you want if you want to bring your relationship into social media you have to take

04:22:12.640 that into accountability and you just have to ignore it or block anyone that tries to bash on your

04:22:19.360 relationship and um yeah like she said my boyfriend loves that i show him off people praise me all the

04:22:27.040 time for showing him off so that's it that's what my ex actually said that because i wasn't posting him

04:22:33.280 enough i was protecting someone else's feelings which i was like oh that's interesting very interesting

04:22:41.200 truth be told i just looked ugly in all of my photos together

04:22:43.680 some girls though like some girls will not like post their man because of things like that which 1.00

04:22:50.480 is so sad yeah just don't date him then like i said i'm just i'm private but i still want it to be

04:22:55.920 known that i am off limits if that makes sense oh he changed his picture just so he could see closer

04:23:04.240 can you see me better in this picture you got glasses on is that a durag i think so i mean you're throwing

04:23:11.520 up a shaka so that's you must be nice we still can't really see i really don't like to judge on 0.77

04:23:19.600 looks because i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings here how about instead why don't you tell us since

04:23:25.840 we both love humor why don't you tell us your best joke and we'll rate you off your joke whether we

04:23:30.800 date best joke and best pickup line send another pickup lines are good too then we'll give you a rating we

04:23:38.720 welcome dirty pickup lines as well yes wait did you like accidentally scroll down too far because

04:23:46.880 i feel like we maybe skipped a whole bunch of super chats i don't think so you sure hold on let's check

04:23:55.200 what's up welcome i'm back guys wait so

04:23:57.840 we did all these you did you sure yep oh

04:24:11.280 wait where did we leave it

04:24:14.880 this one yeah did you read this one um no brian you should also try to get matt rife on oh he's that's

04:24:22.080 the comedian my boyfriend and i watch him on dude cracks me up and is unapologetic in his comedy

04:24:30.320 routine crisis lord um i don't know who that is but i'll check it out uh i have a suggestion

04:24:38.960 of who we should try to get on uh chat does anyone know who shoddy bae is do you know who shoddy bae is

04:24:45.760 no idea by the way um i think we should boost otherwise we might be here all night we should

04:24:51.920 maybe boost the uh super chat trigger to uh 19 1999 and up uh yeah the difference between you two ladies 1.00

04:25:04.000 and most of the other female guests is you carry yourself with grace what do you think it means to 1.00

04:25:08.240 be a true to purpose woman first of all thank you yeah thank you um to be a uh true to purpose woman

04:25:20.400 i'm just guessing like to be a like a woman you know but um to embrace your femininity 1.00

04:25:30.960 um i mean i don't once again this is like the masculinity question like it's tough to be like

04:25:36.880 what what makes a woman yeah i mean personally for me it's just calm like never never lose your

04:25:45.200 head just stay chill be peaceful do you have the mouse oh here yeah i was gonna say it's a weird mouse

04:25:55.280 though if you know how to use one of the vertical mouses oh this button here no no no oh that's right

04:26:01.440 click it's the top button so look the mouse is vertical so you have to oh jesus what do you think

04:26:13.680 it means to be a true to oh what is that

04:26:20.000 true to purpose woman and when i say embrace your femininity i don't necessarily mean like

04:26:26.000 feminism blah blah blah but like embracing your womanhood your maternity so you press this one 0.95

04:26:35.520 the top one okay i did that didn't i no you press the the right click button oh yeah just look at

04:26:44.640 your instagram and yes you can see that you are very proud of your boyfriend and that you are very

04:26:48.800 happy and i wish more women would make their instagram look like that when they are taken 0.73

04:26:52.640 okay so they do like it it's mine yeah is this my cup this water here mine was lost over there

04:26:59.360 uh is this yours madison i don't know is there lipstick on it no are you wearing lipstick i think

04:27:05.200 this is yeah because i didn't finish my water

04:27:13.680 brian are you gonna do more vetting have more rules restrictions for future pods to cut down the

04:27:18.160 stress of having to deal with kicking people out or do you think it's good for viewership

04:27:22.240 i mean there's only so much vetting you can do um i uh you never know you never know i mean a girl

04:27:32.480 who would otherwise seem normal you know um yeah there's not much vetting you i mean there's some vetting

04:27:40.400 you can do where it's obvious if they're gonna be like a mess a mess but uh you never know um

04:27:48.240 um we do we do there's like uh a lot of people are like brian why do you get so mad at the girls

04:27:54.960 if they do this or they do that or you tell them to speak into the mic i mean we do like a 10 minute

04:27:59.840 pre-show instructional a panel instruction before the shows and we say uh speak into the mic uh don't

04:28:06.000 interrupt uh if brian redirects let them redirect like uh it's a it's a long-winded uh

04:28:13.120 pre-show instructional and uh people just even though i hammered away speaking to the mics like 0.88

04:28:21.280 people just forget and and i'm ocd too so thank you joey

04:28:25.920 thank you joey

04:28:29.360 we're gonna be here all night by the way so let's uh mods bump it to uh 1.00

04:28:34.320 bump it to uh nine well it's guys from here on out we're gonna do uh 19.99 and up so that should be the

04:28:40.560 orange so we're not gonna do no we're gonna read all the tens that came in but just from if you got

04:28:46.720 a 10 uh ten dollar soup chat in 9.99 we're gonna read it but just so we can get out of here pretty

04:28:52.080 soon um 1999 thank you blair yes but be a kick but guess would also yes be a kick but okay oh kick

04:29:05.200 butt guest okay yeah i actually discovered the hodge twins like probably 10 10 years ago um i used

04:29:15.200 to watch their stuff when they were like primarily doing like fitness and like kind of funny videos

04:29:19.280 i'm trying to they used to have this intro that they always did it was really funny like 45 second

04:29:24.960 intro anyways yeah i love the hodge twins they're super funny oh that was the right clip yeah you're

04:29:33.120 good yeah super violent i'm a pro submission grappler trying to stay humble here but yeah i'm broken

04:29:39.840 people's feet in a toehold sounds like stepping on a tree branch multiple times

04:29:43.840 put people to sleep yeah he's strong call me oh okay it's going down in the super chats

04:29:56.800 wait was he the one that said the d1 athlete thing no that was another no somebody else okay

04:30:01.440 we told him he had a nice smile and everything i remember that would you choose six pack or dad bod

04:30:08.080 six pack so now shania is for sure a dad bod chick i mean i'm cool with anything you know what about

04:30:16.320 you maddie event i i right now i would choose a six pack but i wouldn't be i wouldn't be opposed to

04:30:22.160 a dad bod because eventually eventually frankie's gonna have a dad bod don't you dare say that frankie's

04:30:28.000 gonna be shredded until he's 70. exactly that's gonna be shredded he never said he was gonna have

04:30:32.800 a dad bod okay all right yo we have the same birthday ladies would you prefer to live in the 1.00

04:30:39.280 mountains or the beach wait i think hello oh wait i wasn't here so i was like why are you calling me 0.95

04:30:44.400 ladies hello wait you look really familiar i think i've seen you on instagram oh shit beach it's 0.79

04:30:50.640 going down in the soup chats for shania i've uh i've stalked your page um beach

04:30:59.600 beach brian since michael knolls did such a great job giving his catholic perspective to the of girls

04:31:05.920 would you like a mormon perspective on the show let me know yeah it could be interesting to uh

04:31:11.360 have somebody who's mormon come on the show um the thing is those were we get like a hundred

04:31:21.360 well over 100 dms a week from guys wanting to be on the show um so just due to the volume of requests

04:31:28.160 we get and also i stack the panels with girls so like if i do have a guy on the show it's either 0.97

04:31:33.600 going to be someone who's notable or like the thing is is that i've had experiences where we used to bring

04:31:40.320 on just guys more frequently but what i found is is that a lot of guys will talk a big game and they'll

04:31:49.520 say brian put me on the show i'll show these girls i'm such a good debater i'm like you know i know how

04:31:58.880 to argue and then they come on the show and then they're sitting in front of eight girls some of

04:32:05.280 which are hardcore feminists and the lights are on the cameras are on there's 10 000 people watching 1.00

04:32:10.880 the show and they underscore donated 100 missed the show today i hope you guys are well and i

04:32:19.040 keep hearing brian needs a vacation i hope there's nothing serious weighing on your mind much love guys

04:32:26.160 hey victor man uh i think i saw your i don't know if you messaged me on instagram or what but thank

04:32:32.480 you man really appreciate it uh thank you for that uh really generous tts yeah oh reminder tts

04:32:38.080 is i maybe i should put that in the uh description tts we lowered it to uh 99 if anyone's interested

04:32:44.480 uh just to wrap up on the other one though um if you could pull that one back up if you scroll up

04:32:48.880 just a bit yeah uh so what was i saying um oh yeah we get guys who say oh i'll do great on the show

04:32:56.960 and then they don't really they they just they choke they just sit there um

04:33:05.280 i mean not to throw jake under the bus he requested to be on the show nice guy um but

04:33:13.040 he wasn't really able to insert himself into the conversation and we tell people before the show a

04:33:19.840 lot of people are like oh give other people an opportunity to speak but we tell people hey look

04:33:24.480 there's a tendency for one or two people to be conversationally dominant and i explicitly instruct

04:33:29.920 them if you want to speak you need to either do a hand raise or try to insert yourself into the

04:33:36.160 conversation i'm too busy trying to handle super chats be conscious of time and all these there's

04:33:44.720 like so many moving parts and then i'm also trying to listen to the conversation and think of my own

04:33:50.720 rebuttals or arguments so it's very difficult for me to be multitasking all these things so i tell

04:33:56.240 people like before the show very explicitly insert yourself or do a hand raise and what ends up happening

04:34:04.160 is a lot of people come on the show and then they just they're not able to insert themselves um

04:34:09.920 and look it's tough when there's really dominant speakers especially if you're more soft-spoken i

04:34:14.240 consider myself soft-spoken i have the privilege of being the host so i'm kind of in a position where

04:34:21.120 i'm a bit more capable of just interrupting and being like you know inserting myself but um and i've

04:34:26.880 done 70 plus of these but uh yeah a lot of guys say hey let me on the show and then they

04:34:31.680 come and they just sit there and they don't there's been a lot of guys who have come on the show who've

04:34:37.120 either added nothing or actually been a detriment so i'm very selective with the male guests i i

04:34:44.160 basically want a guy who you you need to basically have proven track record of being a capable speaker

04:34:52.240 and debater um i'm willing to put you on if you send me videos but then the other thing that we have

04:34:58.960 other concerns too we now have security concerns because of the controversial nature of the podcast

04:35:04.400 i have to be considerate of who i'm letting into the studio we run a very tight ship we nobody's allowed

04:35:10.560 behind the scenes um during the show um i i'm very cautious of who i let into the studio um and then it's

04:35:20.000 just a matter of volume i'm kind of rambling here we just have way too many uh people wanting to be

04:35:25.760 on the show so yeah um sorry for the long-winded

04:35:34.240 what's your ideal male body type how important is it that your boyfriend meets your ideal honestly i've

04:35:41.440 dated or i wouldn't say dated but been with very of various amount of body types i've dated skinny men

04:35:50.000 a little bit of larger men just a reminder 1990 1999 and up shania what 300 pounds plus is your type

04:36:01.040 no okay i like i'm truthfully i do not care so that's it you can be a little fluffy you can be super

04:36:10.800 fit you could be anything as long as you're funny sure next one

04:36:16.320 brian we love you we really do and welcome back but this is maddie's at the show now word yeah maddie

04:36:25.840 should just host the show yeah we should do this like every every yeah i think i'd like to do that

04:36:32.960 and just have like like one or two of the guests stay after the cool guests i guess yeah the cool

04:36:38.480 guests thank you don't get a big head ladies would you give up city life to move to the countryside to 1.00

04:36:47.360 have a slow and peaceful lifestyle if your partner was providing everything absolutely yes yeah who said

04:36:54.400 i who said i who said i hated the countryside i feel like that's the dream now yeah that's the american

04:36:59.840 dream okay

04:37:05.280 you want to read this one me yeah uh men and women view each other as status symbols

04:37:12.000 sm is the modern day ballroom men and women want their significant others to be proud of them

04:37:18.320 and show them off discretion and sm oh on social media required though what's sm social media oh

04:37:28.800 thank you blair just spam it every few every minute or something

04:37:35.200 oh you skipped the yeah thank you for the canadian 55 men merci beaucoup

04:37:41.040 uh brian this is for you to go out tomorrow and just grab some lunch and a drink

04:37:45.440 i can see how stressed you are but you need to persevere your show will help a lot of men and

04:37:50.720 women in the future yeah it's been pretty stressful honestly though it's so fucking unfortunate like 0.92

04:37:56.480 back in me in march i tweaked my neck and the show was already stressful to begin with but like

04:38:05.440 when you're in physical i mean i've had chronic pain issues for a while but like i

04:38:10.000 i've had the worst neck pain flare up for two months basically it's really bad it's bad like i'm in pain

04:38:17.600 right now um and i took some i took like a tylenol before the show but i've been icing um

04:38:26.640 so uh if it wasn't for my neck pain i would i don't think i would be i think i would be able to better

04:38:35.360 tolerate the stress of the show if i wasn't in just constant chronic pain but i think when you're

04:38:42.560 in physical pain it just like it lowers your threshold to like we're just i i'm my my what's

04:38:51.920 what's the term for it i'm like my fuse is short or something so just like little little stressors

04:38:59.760 that wouldn't bother me normally or bother a normal person like it's just

04:39:06.320 i don't know i don't know it's kind of like for example like let's say you have

04:39:11.680 let's say you could deal with one life stressor that you know would otherwise be tolerable but if

04:39:19.360 you start like okay you're you're having financial issues then you're having health issues and then

04:39:25.440 then you're having interpersonal issues you're having issues with your family issues with your

04:39:29.600 relationship it just starts piling up and it just it it really lowers your threshold so

04:39:36.720 um i need to meditate or some but yeah i've been pretty irritable um it's something i need to work

04:39:41.680 on but i i don't want to cop out like oh i don't want to use my chronic pain issues as a cop out but

04:39:49.360 i don't know if any of you have dealt with physical pain like i would

04:39:55.520 physical pain is like a whole nother beast i don't know if any of you have had that experience but

04:40:01.200 um i think i can handle like emotional pain but like i don't know physical pain is uh

04:40:08.800 is pretty tough anyways i'm being i'm being you're trauma dumping right now

04:40:12.160 i'm trying i'm like i'm kidding yeah i'm being i'm being a a uh what's what's the word uh a debbie

04:40:18.880 downer yeah let's move all right thank you sky patrol there's not enough space for my best joke

04:40:26.480 on here and i don't believe in pickle lines just try to be real brian there's enough space for your

04:40:30.800 best joke come on just from that we're not gonna go on that date i'm sorry yeah sorry you have to turn it

04:40:36.960 down all right steven crowder would be interesting to have on the show but not sure it would be a

04:40:43.200 good idea if you want to stay on good terms with the dw lol yeah i guess they're in the beef i don't

04:40:49.520 think it would be uh i mean if i hosted him i don't think daily wire is pretty professional like

04:40:56.800 it's not i don't think it would be an issue i don't think steven crowder would come though i think

04:41:00.560 he has um kind of enough on his plate as it is right now but i mean i'd love to have him on he's

04:41:05.920 reacted to uh one of our videos so thank you man hey boo um but yeah i've won multiple grappling

04:41:18.640 championships on the east coast performed live on flow grappling and youtube among others

04:41:25.920 was in a camp for mma fight got a concussion don't want cte so grappling's the move long term lol

04:41:35.920 i still don't know what that's nice yo uh giggles did you wrestle in high school are you from the

04:41:42.320 u.s uh because i feel like a lot of people who'd like wrestling in high school end up going into

04:41:46.640 jujitsu and mma and stuff i wrestled in high school common ground yeah i wrestled in high school

04:41:56.320 brixton when is tasha coming back also try to get hannah claire

04:41:59.360 brown from tim cast on i think mary oh natasha uh hey thank you for the canadian room we appreciate

04:42:05.600 it uh i'm not sure who hannah is but i'll check her out uh i don't know if natasha's coming back um

04:42:14.000 um i think i called her in passing like in one of our live streams of pick me um

04:42:23.600 and look i wasn't i wasn't like

04:42:27.280 like i she's gonna be mad at me for even mentioning that but

04:42:31.200 look i called her pick me i i don't dislike natasha just

04:42:35.520 you know whatever okay let's move on she's probably gonna call me up and be all pissed 1.00

04:42:41.840 that i just sent a message to insta about steaks but

04:42:45.680 hell yeah thank you man appreciate it is it filet mignon i could cook us a really nice steak

04:42:51.840 i'm a great let's do a cooking are you yeah i'm a really good cook i have a stove over there yeah 0.93

04:42:57.760 i cook every night for dinner that would be like the most gangster shit like after this like right 0.96

04:43:03.680 before the stream ends during the after show we have you uh we move the camera we move that camera 0.97

04:43:09.280 and we have you like cooking steak and then we eat some steak this is literally what i had for dinner

04:43:12.640 i cooked myself chicken and rice wow okay wow lucky frankie okay um wait oh here he's back here we go

04:43:22.320 i guess a good pickup line would be for me if you'd like to date a man who will love you

04:43:27.200 under you and cherish you i'll be sitting over here what that's gonna be a hard pass for me

04:43:35.280 it was always gonna be i'm sorry thank you man appreciate it i if i was if i went that way

04:43:44.240 just saying you're handsome man great beard right i'm very serious about the d1 athlete children

04:43:51.040 it's simply financial move jake had nothing productive to say very disappointing

04:43:54.640 yo victor thank you man by the way did they blow up your uh did they blow up your instagram when we uh

04:44:01.680 showed your showed your instagram wait that's that's him yeah that's victor what the number one d

04:44:08.800 the number one d the big d oh thank you man appreciate all the support you've shown

04:44:15.600 y'all's dream car bugatti no i'd like a lamborghini with the uh suicide doors that's cool i could see

04:44:26.800 you driving that i just want like a like a mom escalade a mom escalade i want a 65 mustang and

04:44:36.800 baby pink that's so fitting that's so cute yeah i'd like a mclaren would be good lamborghini i'm

04:44:44.880 i'm not a flashy guy though i mean i still drive i bought a toyota in 2013 that you know uh

04:44:54.480 twenty thousand dollar something like that maybe it's 25k toyota still drive it

04:44:59.520 it i'm not i'm not a flashy dude funny but it's only ten dollars go ahead we'll just just pull it

04:45:05.120 up why not hell yeah thank you man thank you for the australian town appreciate it okay been getting

04:45:13.840 a lot of entertainment out of the shows lately you're the goat hey thanks brian what server 0.96

04:45:20.160 faction do you play on classic i'm a white main og oh shit uh first off shania we need to hear the 0.98

04:45:25.520 goat noise do it me i did it earlier me oh goat noise my bad okay whatever um don't goats make 0.96

04:45:36.560 the same noise yeah it's like meh or something like that can you make an alpaca noise what do they

04:45:43.200 make don't they just scream they literally just scream or do they spit what are the spitting ones

04:45:48.480 i'm pretty sure they scream what noises dude llamas make it's either what does the fox say oh goat

04:45:55.680 scream um oh yeah so i i played so i played world of warcraft uh during vanilla this was back in like

04:46:07.440 2005. i played a little bit during tbc i played a little bit during kata but like i never was serious

04:46:13.920 about it when i was younger but then like i always preferred vanilla and then i stopped after kata

04:46:19.360 basically and then i came back for classic and i was like hardcore with it joined a hardcore raiding

04:46:25.840 guild had 460s a mage a warlock a warrior a rogue rogue main warrior alt and then i had the

04:46:32.240 mage and warlock alt um i was on i don't know if i want to reveal the server i was on i only i quit

04:46:38.560 before aq40 people are liking the chat what the fuck is he talking about these girls over here 0.98

04:46:43.920 like what the fuck is he talking about elevator music turn on in my head i played i played horde 0.98

04:46:49.520 you know it's funny i was initially gonna roll on white main or maybe i was gonna roll on fairbanks 0.99

04:46:56.800 but like my name was taken that i wanted so i went on a like a medium pop realm which was really good

04:47:03.120 towards the beginning of uh it had a pretty good balance it was lower pop um and my guild i was in

04:47:11.040 like the top rating guild and uh but uh it was loot council and the loot council was corrupt but we were

04:47:18.800 like speed running like we were top 10 horde guilds in north america um yeah and my 60 warrior was

04:47:28.960 named does it fucking matter it was named brian that's all i'll say um yeah okay the next one 0.86

04:47:40.880 make dudes who want to be in the show ain't up put down one thousand dollars if they're a great 0.97

04:47:47.600 guest who contribute to get their who contribute they get their cash back if they blow you keep the

04:47:52.640 money let chat or maddie decide if they sucked um honestly i mean i to me it's just i don't i don't

04:48:01.760 want to i'd probably honestly make someone pay like 10k for a seat at this point i'm just chase is a good

04:48:08.800 host and then there's like content creators i can bring on that would be good co-hosts but

04:48:15.920 back when we were doing 300 live viewers um i was more open to like just bringing on random guys

04:48:26.720 but now there's just a lot more on the line a lot more eyeballs i'm not ready i'm not really prepared

04:48:31.360 to like risk a dead seat as i call it uh for the chance that the guys may be good so yeah um i mean

04:48:43.200 yeah thank you though i appreciate the uh super chat man no i didn't say she should host the show

04:48:51.280 remember i said we love you they're talking about you brian oh i didn't honestly go ahead

04:48:56.400 you honestly do a fantastic job and nobody can replace you here but maddie's a great after show

04:49:01.440 co-host oh yeah no i didn't take it and i didn't take it in a bad way yeah and i think you did say

04:49:06.560 after show co-host yeah matt maddie's the goat maddie's the goat sim for maddie squad

04:49:13.360 don't say i was about to say we just found out that don't sin all right thank you for your

04:49:19.440 explanation on the stressors your chronic pain is not a cop-out i lost my leg three years ago and

04:49:24.000 i'm trying to persevere and become a high value man even with the pain 24 7 pain love your show

04:49:30.160 hashtag based hey sky patrol uh drones thank you for the uh canadian merci beaucoup uh sorry to hear

04:49:37.600 about your leg holy man um three years ago can you tell us what happened like what how did you

04:49:43.840 was there a car accident something else but uh uh do you get by the way do you get phantom limb pain

04:49:50.960 because you lost your leg where by the way is it below the knee above the knee amputation um yeah man

04:49:57.360 that's i mean i i have pretty bad neck pain but i know there's people who have it way worse than

04:50:05.280 than me and they still persist um so good for you man for continuing to persevere um and uh yeah i mean

04:50:14.000 that's a to lose your leg is just uh hold on leave it up for a sec i just want to um that's that's

04:50:23.680 that's pretty major man um and i've heard um it's it's interesting though with with uh people who

04:50:30.000 have amputations um there's uh and this is kind of i don't want to get too far into this topic but

04:50:38.080 there's this concept where i think there's a psychosomatic component of chronic pain like especially

04:50:44.640 for neck pain well especially for back pain and um i think that a lot of pain is can be in the mind

04:50:54.080 and like rewiring your neural circuitry um i mean a lot of people report after having a major life

04:51:01.840 stressor event that they get they all of a sudden have start having chronic back pain um and i think

04:51:08.080 that's a component of my pain i do have a structural issue i have a fracture in my l5 s1 so i have

04:51:14.400 what's called a spondylolisthesis basically the vertebrae if i can i don't know if i'm here

04:51:19.520 the vertebrae for uh i have a fracture in my low back the vertebrae uh slides out of place so if you

04:51:26.800 think about your vertebrae it's stacked so mine will like slide out of place um so i do have a

04:51:33.040 structural issue but i think some of my pain is also psychosomatic and i'm working on that but uh

04:51:39.120 one thing i heard with people who have an amputation for example uh even if so if you

04:51:46.480 have pain in your foot and you have to maybe you have an injury on your foot and you have to amputate

04:51:54.960 the leg you will still feel the pain that you felt previously even though they're the the and that's

04:52:04.000 perhaps related to nerves where the uh amputation anyways this is totally unreal i was actually like

04:52:10.000 kind of interested in what yeah no but but people who have for example amputations they will report

04:52:16.560 feeling as if their arm or let or foot or leg is still there um it's called phantom limb pain and it's

04:52:24.800 a really interesting uh it maybe it's related to the nerves but i think there's a neural uh component

04:52:31.680 to it because pain is is in the brain anyways but sky patrol thank you man sorry you you are a high

04:52:42.160 value man already hey brian i've been living with chronic pain for 10 years now muscle nerve and joint

04:52:50.160 find what works for your pain and use it when you need it if it's tens get it set up before the show

04:52:54.720 and turn it on when you need it yeah i've tried tens it's okay i i use uh i there's a

04:53:01.440 variety of stuff i'm i'm using but uh yeah sorry to hear that you've been dealing with uh

04:53:07.680 pain for 10 years man um it's it's uh it's rough and um yeah

04:53:17.040 this this most recent flare-up's been pretty bad and it's been two months now so i'm a little worried

04:53:22.160 but whatever um thanks yeah brian have you ever considered chase being a co-host on the show and

04:53:31.200 also you need to get ben shapiro on there yeah uh i chase has other things going on um when just

04:53:41.120 i i offered it offered it to him chase has and i think he's mentioned on the show chase has uh

04:53:46.400 is it lyme disease yeah lyme disease yeah and um that impacts his energy so i

04:53:53.840 i some days he just like i don't think he's in the place to like deal with arguments and debate and

04:54:02.720 like you need to be pretty so i struggle with it because i have brain fog and headaches and because

04:54:08.080 of my neck injury um it's hard for me to stay focused so i understand that and he gets pretty bad

04:54:13.760 brain fog so uh it's not it's the inv the invitation's there but i i don't think chase is uh chase has the uh

04:54:29.280 the time right now to just be uh constantly doing it and yeah down for ben shapiro

04:54:36.080 oh do this one know your realm thank you for the australian 20 man appreciate it

04:54:45.440 thank you for the australian 20 man what about ginger snap from lwc or brett cooper from dw

04:54:52.640 obviously steven is an o what about phil l from atr i know you're stressed but please know you're

04:54:58.320 doing the world a legitimate justice simply by broadcasting hey joshua thank you man uh

04:55:05.600 i don't know ginger snap brett cooper yes i've spoken to our producer i don't know like sometimes

04:55:12.400 people reach out and then i mean especially with some of the recent drama we've had i think we've had

04:55:16.960 some people flake because of the drama like uh and then a lot of girls uh you know people like oh they're 1.00

04:55:25.520 are semi getting canceled a little bit um don't want to go on the show not really like i don't

04:55:32.240 know but maybe i'm over exaggerating with that i'm down to have steven on i i wouldn't say it's obviously

04:55:37.280 no i don't know phil uh but joshua thank you man appreciate it had similar had similar i don't know

04:55:48.080 if yours is the same as mine i think mine has been sitting at my job for the last six years personally

04:55:52.560 not as much physical activity as i should have anyway i appreciate you you guys are awesome any

04:55:57.680 steak you want to send the steak too bring it on over yeah filet mignon let's go um yeah sitting is

04:56:06.560 not good definitely i start getting kind of dizzy towards the end of these shows and sitting is not

04:56:13.280 great so yeah thank you man got claudio thank you man would you ever had justin waller back on and

04:56:21.920 damn he got wrecked in the comments section kind of deservedly though or so though also he didn't 0.59

04:56:27.760 really add much in my opinion yeah i would have justin back on um i don't know he's i don't know uh 0.99

04:56:36.240 yeah i mean lila the back and forth with lila was a little because she was nice i think i think he

04:56:42.640 i don't know if he was just in a bad mood that day or he seemed a little on edge i don't know

04:56:47.520 everyone has bad days um he's he's like he was super nice you know i think uh i'm down to have

04:56:55.600 him back on um i don't know if he would come back on though because he got i mean the back and

04:57:03.360 forth with lila i don't think he came out looking looking the best um i think he she got under his

04:57:12.480 skin a little bit so yeah he was cool oh again to you googles yep wrestled in middle school and

04:57:23.760 played football in high school you're right brian wrestling's op in mma bow nickel khabib islam

04:57:31.680 lol brian do jujitsu you'll love it twain are we wifey and hubby you'd have to you'd have to pay on the

04:57:39.360 first date shania you gotta pay it is what it is man where where where do you live giggles oh 0.99

04:57:46.800 shit it's going down like donkey kong are you uh are you long distance because you know i got a thing 1.00

04:57:52.720 for those across the sea wait i have a thing for this hold on it's all like donkey kong bitch okay 1.00

04:58:03.520 cute wait did he mute hold on you can keep reading okay if you want some midwest steaks 0.98

04:58:11.120 and burgers messages in your insta yes we would love some

04:58:21.280 do you like steak i am not a fan of red meat so you guys can have my share retired semi-pro

04:58:28.160 wrestler with some neck and back issues after 12 years or 14 years of wrestling foam roller and

04:58:33.360 trigger point rollers really helped buy two roll it up in a hot towel and you should see results hope

04:58:38.800 it helps madison would make a great mom wouldn't i make a great mother look look at you with your

04:58:46.320 interracial baby okay um i'm all about interracial okay um canceled uh yeah wait did did we read this

04:58:58.240 one i have to like hold the baby oh roll up in a hot towel and you should see results yeah i i need to

04:59:05.360 get i need to get on my uh my what's it called just i need to do like proper pt physical physical therapy

04:59:14.720 next one thank you richard all right victor says my grandma's still getting blown up from two

04:59:21.520 podcasts ago i'm probably still going to set it back to private but some of the comments are pretty

04:59:26.320 funny it's giving me pretty good content for my meme page good times oh wait he's got a meme

04:59:31.280 page oh he's funny he's funny he's funny uh oh by the way richard tyler yeah i've heard

04:59:38.320 uh pro wrestlers their bodies go through the ringer holy shit what was that movie with uh

04:59:46.320 who um val kilmer wait is that val kilmer who was in the work or no yeah yeah it was mickey 0.61

04:59:52.720 roark excuse me he was in the wrestler is that darren aronofsky that was a sad that was kind of

04:59:59.200 pretty sad movie okay

05:00:04.720 godspeed though in your healing man hello from new zealand hey thank you man shout out to brian

05:00:12.640 and his awesome work also thank you up all the up all to up the all blacks because i know you a rugby

05:00:20.720 fan last off i wish new zealand woman were as stunning as oh that's so nice uh i would have been 0.86

05:00:28.000 married years ago check this out rugby this is a new zealand let me see it rugby world cup 2011

05:00:39.440 uh yeah new zealand 2011 yeah big fan of rugby i haven't been watching it i i was super into it

05:00:48.560 like a decade ago i still watch highlights and stuff um is uh is sbw is he still playing um

05:00:58.160 rugby sunny bill williams um who i'm trying to think like new zealand rugby players i was 0.59

05:01:03.680 um i really liked um shit who's like 0.88

05:01:11.760 who's really impressive you know who's really impressive 0.97

05:01:15.840 what's his he plays for south africa he's the nine i forgot the names of the oh he's the scrum half

05:01:21.920 um fuck oh anyone in the chat who chat do any of you watch rugby who's the who's the number nine 0.94

05:01:29.360 for the south african team it's uh i don't i don't want to read the chat because i want it to come to 0.99

05:01:34.800 me naturally it's uh pete oh fuck wait wait 0.99

05:01:42.160 rugby hello uh he's the short guy really fuck anybody 1.00

05:01:49.840 uh anyone chat hello uh 1.00

05:01:54.480 uh fuck what's his name how many hours do you take to prep for dinner only about like 0.97

05:01:59.600 here i'm gonna look it up oh fafta cleric thank you guys it's faft yeah i wasn't it wasn't gonna 0.99

05:02:04.160 come to me fafta cleric the giant slayer dude i he's i really like fafta cleric uh

05:02:09.840 uh and who was good on the new zealand team quaid cooper i liked yeah whatever

05:02:22.720 he's he's australian though but uh door thing for the 20 man appreciate it

05:02:29.200 sorry that was a speech to text fail it was supposed to say love honor and cherish you i will be over here

05:02:35.520 like a good woman should be and treated i love the bronco in her instagram oh let me have the mouse 0.99

05:02:41.520 really quick i'm just gonna check the if there was any tts so i love cars and we had a old bronco

05:02:47.760 pull up on my job her photo shoot and i was like i got to send it i was like i don't know

05:02:57.200 was i gone when this one came through missed the show today i hope you guys are well that one

05:03:00.560 never came through this one victor underscore apostle donated one hundred dollars missed the

05:03:07.520 show today i hope you guys are well and i keep hearing brian needs a vacation i hope there's

05:03:13.680 nothing serious weighing on your mind much love guys i think it did come through but hey victor man

05:03:20.000 really appreciate it all right oh this is kind of sad hey brian i lost my leg from cancer i still feel

05:03:29.200 my entire leg that isn't there i can still wiggle my non-existent toes

05:03:34.880 bro this thing's been on the entire fucking time hello no wonder the pocket 0.99

05:03:38.960 pussy or not the pocket pussy auto blow auto blow we're ruining it yeah okay i'm sorry i'm sorry 0.99

05:03:45.200 i'm sorry i'm sorry it was like this moment sky patrol i'm sorry man i the um i heard like this like uh 1.00

05:03:54.240 uh low frequency buzzing and i'm oc okay i'm sorry it's just your girlfriend okay go ahead go

05:03:59.840 ahead okay i'm gonna reread it i'm sorry i'm sorry man i'm a dickhead hey brian i lost my leg from 0.68

05:04:04.560 cancer i still feel my entire leg that isn't there i can still wiggle my non-existent toes i lost my

05:04:10.160 entire leg but i'm not looking for sympathy i'm trying to persevere hoping to start a new company soon

05:04:15.920 go use i like this guy yeah yeah you're you're a boss man um i mean that's uh to i mean to lose a

05:04:23.680 limb is like uh a whole nother oh cancer holy shit man yeah i hope have you had any like issues with 0.81

05:04:31.360 remission or like you're you're good like totally clear i can still wiggle my non-existent toes that's 0.98

05:04:37.360 wild are you taking a photo with that's really insensitive of you to take a photo with your 0.94

05:04:43.040 interracial baby while we're talking about while we're talking about his leg i think you owe an 0.60

05:04:49.920 apology to sky patrol jones or the auto blowout that is true i think that was a bit more insensitive 0.97

05:04:56.560 that i pulled out a a fucking blow auto blow while i'm sorry brother um but uh yeah man persevered um 0.96

05:05:06.400 and yeah that's the phantom limb syndrome thing i was talking about so he can even though his legs gone 0.98

05:05:11.040 he still feels his entire leg do you have uh what would feel like nerve pain in your leg like do you

05:05:18.160 have is your leg painful or is it just you you feel it as if it was totally normal but uh hey man uh

05:05:26.640 sorry to hear about the leg man that's uh is it your left or right

05:05:32.320 because we actually had an amputee on the show a woman who also lost her leg maybe

05:05:38.240 a while ago yeah a while ago yeah and she like took the leg off do you have a prosthetic sky she 1.00

05:05:47.120 took the leg off and like boom put it on the table wait were you there like out of pocket just bam

05:05:53.680 well i mean we're like can you show us we asked if she could show us the prosthetic and she's like

05:05:57.520 puts around the table um i was here when hensley showed off her killer boots oh 0.98

05:06:03.760 shit bloody one sorry go ahead go ahead uh where's kiko been i don't agree with what she believes in 0.98

05:06:09.040 but she brings a good argumentative dynamic to this show i actually saw her not too long ago 1.00

05:06:15.120 oh when you snuck into a don't say that oh whoops um what we're gonna have kiko back on we'll have 0.93

05:06:22.400 we'll have her back on just we've been uh i'd like to have her do a round three with chase 1.00

05:06:28.720 that'd be fun that's your baby this is my baby my baby's more valuable than yours here hold on

05:06:36.480 shania shania you need a baby too get her a baby here catch give me the baby 1.00

05:06:44.240 okay this is the weirdest string ever i'm just saying tom mcdonald would be great i think it would

05:06:50.000 it would do amazing he has great music it speaks truth to the people instead of lies like our media

05:06:56.720 okay pip hey thank you man appreciate it

05:07:01.680 tom mcdonald oh tom mcdonald the guy with the

05:07:04.480 hey flan life dude thank you so much for the five gifted yo i want to do a big

05:07:07.840 fucking shout out to flan life he's been a long time supporter he almost every show he's gifting 0.83

05:07:14.000 20 subs or 20 memberships 50 memberships 100 memberships by the way flan life this one's for you 0.97

05:07:20.240 um we've can you hide it really quick i'm gonna do the uh we'll read this one sec um

05:07:27.520 i always forget to the trigger the fireworks so this one's for you man

05:07:33.040 boom yeah fireworks for flan life honestly probably like 500 of you who have your memberships is because

05:07:39.280 of flan life flan life's an og whatever supporter he's been supporting for a really long time he's a

05:07:45.120 really good guy and uh i just really want to thank you man for your patronage it means the world

05:07:50.320 and um i appreciate you tuning in week after week and not only watching the show but supporting the

05:07:56.720 show and that that's i mean to all of you who tune in i really appreciate it guys you guys are awesome so

05:08:02.160 uh uh sorry that i always like forget i delay the fit checks and i forget to do the fireworks but um flan

05:08:09.360 life i really appreciate your uh support and patronage man thank you um and i yeah pull the that one back

05:08:15.200 up uh vosh to come on this do you want to read it i would like to nominate vosh to come on this he's a

05:08:23.200 streamer slash commentator really good debater same ilk as destiny okay i think he lives in la too also

05:08:31.600 might be interesting to have a pickup artist on the panel uh i don't know if i want to pick up artist

05:08:36.640 on the panel i don't know the whole like i feel like the pickup stuff's a little

05:08:41.920 2005 um but uh maybe i mean i don't know um i feel like a lot of the pickup artists are kind of i mean

05:08:52.560 they're a lot of i don't know um vosh though i don't i he's a political commentator right i could be

05:09:01.440 down i'd have to check him out um but i'm i'm open i'll bring on people yeah

05:09:07.440 thank you green lantern for the was it british pounds thank you man would you like to read this

05:09:14.800 uh shania my looks didn't get me far in life it was mostly my sense of humor also it's francois

05:09:21.920 francois what's francois is that his name i thought his name was victor

05:09:25.360 name by the way francois is such a beautiful name wait bad zxe confirm or deny is your name francois

05:09:33.040 or victor victor just a reminder guys uh 1999 and up for uh super jets

05:09:41.040 t giggles yup babes i'm on the east coast but yeah i'll send you a dm and i don't know maybe

05:09:48.960 i'll visit soon or vice versa just don't be awkward i hate that lol jk i don't really care but yeah

05:09:55.120 dub ryan do yoga sauna helps me with pain yeah yeah i actually at my other place um i have a

05:10:01.840 infrared sauna uh i was going in almost every single day but i've kind of pulled back recently

05:10:09.360 i should i should try to get back to doing it every single day but yeah i'll do a 20-25 minutes

05:10:15.360 sauna session i go in the pool almost every single day um i'll go in for an hour sometimes i try to do

05:10:21.360 two hours um computer work doesn't help and a lot of what i do is i sit at the computer i i have a

05:10:28.640 standing i'll try to stand too but uh i need a i need a team what i would ideally like is i have a

05:10:36.560 team around me where everything is taken care of i just come in and host and then that's it and then

05:10:42.880 i can do i i can do preparation for the show because honestly i wing these shows i just i there's always

05:10:49.440 like some last minute thing either tech issue or like trying to procure guests for the show where

05:10:58.480 i don't have time to like okay let me just do a deep dive in everyone's profiles let me see

05:11:03.440 who the guests are let me see if there's anything i can talk about and then let me actually prepare

05:11:07.760 like 10 questions for the show let me do some some catch up on reading in terms of like my debating

05:11:13.520 and argumentation so yeah so

05:11:21.680 ryan says why doesn't shenaya eat red meat modern unbiased science says that red meat is extremely

05:11:27.040 healthy eating saturated fat doesn't cause heart disease eating processed food sugars and seed oils

05:11:32.320 causes it um i just truly don't prefer the french one's a cleric okay uh yeah i just don't prefer the

05:11:39.760 taste i'd much rather have a turkey burger turkey burger ew are you crazy i've never had a turkey

05:11:48.080 burger but oh my god i'll make okay when you make steaks i'll make you a turkey burger because i make

05:11:53.200 a really good turkey there is no such that is an oxymoron there's no such thing had my turkey burger i

05:11:58.720 don't care i don't care there's no such thing as a good turkey burger yes there is no such thing i'm

05:12:06.640 sorry brian you're upsetting the baby i was upsetting the baby good that baby deserves the

05:12:12.720 trauma there is no such thing as a good turkey burger brothers i'm sorry but like it's so good

05:12:19.120 you have to see what it tastes like turkey oh my god does it taste like like ground turkey no oh my god

05:12:27.840 red flag if she likes turkey burgers such a red flag it was a soft tissue tumor that was removed in 2018

05:12:35.680 came back and they removed my entire right leg in 2020 holy no hope for prosthetic leg i walk with 0.98

05:12:41.280 crutches i feel my leg but not in a normal way 24 7 harsh nerve pain i'm so sorry fuck man um can i 0.98

05:12:49.360 reckon i i don't know maybe you've already looked into this but if i can recommend a book for you 0.98

05:12:57.200 um and maybe you've already explored this because i mean um

05:13:03.360 i i was it sounds like you've been dealing with this for a long time

05:13:07.360 i'm sure you've probably done everything you can to tackle the pain maybe you haven't stumbled upon

05:13:12.480 this though if i can recommend there's there's a couple books but uh think away your pain i know

05:13:18.160 it sounds like woo woo whatever but it's written by a medical doctor and i do think there is a

05:13:27.120 psychological component to some pain um maybe you've already looked into it so it's uh think

05:13:32.560 away your pain by uh dr david schechter i think and then there's another book called back in control

05:13:41.120 uh from a orthopedic surgeon who was a back surgeon and that's called yeah it's called back in control

05:13:48.880 by dr david hanscombe uh that one's longer i recommend the audiobook that uh think away your

05:13:55.920 pain's a little shorter of a read uh you can get the audiobooks get it on audible um i'm not sponsored

05:14:03.600 just my recommendation maybe you've already tried to tackle the um psychosomatic angle to pain but

05:14:12.800 um and and it's tough though you had a legitimate structural issue so it might be worth looking into

05:14:22.240 um i recommend but yeah i found it very helpful for my pain

05:14:28.480 victor francois de clerk low my name is victor that super chat was dropped when you asked big

05:14:37.120 rugby rugby fan i actively play in socal oh shit hell yeah dude what what uh victor what uh position

05:14:45.440 do you play i want to guess i feel like you're a forward i want to guess that you're you play 0.58

05:14:49.680 is flanker seven if i recall i think you're a seven let me know are you a seven is that flanker

05:15:01.040 i think um thank you man francois de clerk who's the other really good i love the south african rugby

05:15:10.240 names there's like uh fuck i'm trying to think francois stein is another one and then there's uh 0.92

05:15:18.800 shit who's the other uh i can't there i'm blanking we'll move on 0.99

05:15:29.360 you're doing god work here brian he's either saying thank you work or god's work i see you 0.98

05:15:35.600 really care about your fellow man a lot of guys out here struggling screw the reaction like tate said

05:15:40.880 you can only get canceled if you allow it i'm east coast but i always gotta watch hey magnus rex thank

05:15:46.480 you man you're up super late i really appreciate you uh staying up late to uh uh you know catch the

05:15:53.680 after show and watch the shows really appreciate it i know uh i know a lot of you are like brian

05:15:58.320 you should try to start the shows early or at least start them on time because i know a lot

05:16:01.520 of you on the east coast so if we started at 7 it's 10 p.m over there um but uh i i wish i could

05:16:08.800 start them on time but a lot of times people are kind of late and then sometimes yeah a lot of times

05:16:14.000 people are late and then um i'm always dealing with some things last minute and so uh also like

05:16:22.480 i would maybe i might want to start trying to get the shows out at 6 p.m instead of 7 p.m pacific so

05:16:28.960 thank you man didn't it used to be that no it's always been seven

05:16:33.120 all right there's such a good thing as a turkey as a good turkey burger

05:16:42.560 haram yeah i'm sorry bro it just can never compare to a regular burger erroneous

05:16:48.160 erroneous wait by the way oh go ahead go ahead it's definitely different i'm not saying that a

05:16:53.440 turkey burger is better or the same as but you know for sure i'll make a good one wait hold on

05:17:01.600 just one sec i think let's uh um you know what was there a tate one recently pull up tate again 1.00

05:17:07.280 the take the tate super chat yeah i'm gonna add tate to the panel here

05:17:11.600 do you like i hold on i got another one oh my god hi sorry wait shania can you give tate a kiss

05:17:23.760 hold on yeah give him a kiss sorry he's gonna disappear quick there we go wait can you give

05:17:32.720 him like a handy no sir don't ask her that my hands are full with precious get the auto blow get the

05:17:43.040 auto blow here okay by the way do you guys what about the question guys is um is this one kind of

05:17:57.440 obnoxious do it holy just do it a little bit don't let your dreams be dreams yesterday you said

05:18:07.760 tomorrow so just do it make your dreams come true just wow do it

05:18:17.760 some people dream success while you're gonna wake up and work hard at it nothing is impossible

05:18:23.280 i i want to pull this up wait or anyone else when when someone when someone refuses to answer

05:18:31.200 a question i'm gonna pull this up every time do it like when girls are like lying about their age 1.00

05:18:38.560 or like i'm trying to think of an example where i could bring it up do girls like actually do that

05:18:42.560 on your like yeah we've had girls and then i also have this one do it 1.00

05:18:46.160 it just do it answer the body count question just do it okay oh wow tonight's the first time

05:18:56.320 we didn't do our body count oh yeah we didn't talk about body counts okay we can do oh we should 0.99

05:19:01.920 have hidden that wall oh fuck whatever all right all right the guy with the facial tattoos and 0.99

05:19:07.680 sometimes braided pink hair he's extremely truthful in his music and it's a breath of fresh air to all 0.99

05:19:13.440 the rest of the music i hear i do not like rap but i love his music oh yeah he's uh i've seen his

05:19:19.200 music videos he's like super based um and you wouldn't expect like based off of how he looks you

05:19:24.880 wouldn't expect it oh should i should put it back my bad um based off of how he looks you wouldn't expect

05:19:30.240 it but uh yeah tom mcdonald he's super talented like his stuff

05:19:39.440 this is the last super chat of the night

05:19:45.760 get your last ones in boys all right i want i want in and out shania the way you holding that 0.62

05:19:53.600 baby is giving off big mom vibes we would be perfect you grab the things off the shelf off the top shelf

05:20:00.000 i carry all the groceries inside with one mill bricks in number four but i also switched jerseys

05:20:06.320 depending number four so that okay so your front is for front row wait four how tall are you because

05:20:15.760 number four usually is like a really tall dude because number four does the throw-ins right or

05:20:20.800 wait no well he does want d1 no no no sorry number four is not the throne usually it's number a front row

05:20:26.560 or some number one or two or something who will do the throw-in but number four is the tall guy who

05:20:31.680 will catch the throw-in so i'm confused okay whatever um god is this the last one i don't think anyone's

05:20:42.320 sending anymore okay if you guys want get your last uh minute super chats in here we'll answer every

05:20:50.480 question no matter how gross bro don't don't tempt them with a good time um oh there we go

05:21:04.240 here i'll pull it up oh isn't it hasn't populated yet

05:21:10.960 while we wait for that 0.99

05:21:12.000 can you kiss him can you punch him i can't my hands are full oh just throw the baby or something 0.99

05:21:24.880 that's so rude it's a doll by the way that's the baby if anyone's curious that's the baby from my 0.99

05:21:31.360 uh prank oh actually we should guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever and drop us a prime sub and a follow

05:21:38.640 if you have one um wait what i've never actually watched your prank videos that's the one from

05:21:45.600 the flyway baby prank and the drowning baby prank those those were the days um okay we have alex

05:21:52.400 can you read this one brian you're getting to a point where you'll need to add legitimate armed

05:21:56.400 security even in cali you can be in you can be armed in a bldg you rent avoid talking about it beyond

05:22:05.760 saying it's their higher x sof guys only we do good roll

05:22:14.880 yeah i i do think we should get security soon because of the size of the podcast the fact that

05:22:22.000 we're doing it in california the fact that we're you know a little controversial a bit of a controversial

05:22:29.360 show we have to kick people off now i think i think it's time to get some security um

05:22:35.760 tom mcdotto is a real goat based mvp thank you selena

05:22:43.520 i play lock and prop also shania i'm not hearing no

05:22:51.760 how tall are you how tall are these children gonna be lock and oh yeah it's prop props are the

05:22:58.640 wait prop is three prop is one of the first three and lock is four um acupuncture

05:23:07.680 i'm actually gonna have my first acupuncture appointment this week or wait maybe next week

05:23:16.400 i'm trying to remember i think next week yeah i'm gonna try it i heard it's helps

05:23:23.360 oh is this the capture the flag thing wait you want to read this did you see the whole shia versus

05:23:29.280 4chan event that was crazy also you should get tim pool on the show i know chase did his podcast

05:23:36.960 uh yeah i was invited on tim pool but this was like a couple months ago i don't know if the invite

05:23:43.520 still stands i was just so busy i didn't have time but uh i'd be down i'm good i'm tight well

05:23:50.240 mary's been on and she's with tim cass so uh brian i think you need a swedish conservative guy to join the

05:23:56.400 table sometime also shania how about a swedish husband uh uh didn't tell her into svenska 0.99

05:24:05.680 you're such a pick me think is how you say it um yeah uh people are saying i can't read well i'm

05:24:14.480 just on one brain it's it's late yeah it's 12 43 in the morning yeah oh just really quick yeah i did see

05:24:19.840 the capture the flag thing that was so funny um where they like it was the you will not divide us thing

05:24:26.000 right or he will not divide us and then they like then he had the flag and he had to keep moving it 0.96

05:24:31.520 because these guys would like triangulate where the flag was and like steal his flag that shit was so 0.99

05:24:38.560 funny all right if you have a dead seat like today provide alcohol shout out to the raw dogs in cambodia 0.98

05:24:45.920 um that's a euro though i'm confused um provide alcohol to the dead seat i don't know i don't i don't

05:25:05.280 want to we don't condone i don't want to provide alcohol because then the last thing you want is 0.98

05:25:11.200 someone saying oh he got us liquored up and like i said some stupid shit and i don't want that like 0.95

05:25:18.960 so yeah we don't provide any alcohol to the guests beforehand because we don't want like oh 0.98

05:25:23.040 i said something and they intentionally got us drunk yeah we don't want that um and i'm not a drinker

05:25:29.760 myself so um yeah especially and then also like we have guests that are not 21 so if incidentally a

05:25:38.320 21 year old is on is drinking then that's a whole under 21 year old is drinking that's a whole nother

05:25:43.920 can of worms um hey man uh sky patrol thank you uh and thank you for all your support and your

05:25:51.600 patronage man really appreciate it um do you speak french are you in the canadian speaking part of uh

05:25:59.520 wait canadians are you in the french speaking part of canada quebecois

05:26:03.760 thank you man really appreciate it um check out that book by the way i'm 5'9 but i'm also the

05:26:09.520 shortest male in my family i just got the stocky jeans but yeah brian i can only play 15s and i

05:26:14.320 switch between the three and four jersey depending on who's playing you're 5'9 and you play four how

05:26:19.920 does that i mean in like prof there's no way in professional maybe you're playing like on a small city

05:26:28.160 team um but there's n plus we're in the us so i feel like there's less people playing rugby but

05:26:33.920 um dude rugby is hardcore um i actually kind of i enjoy it more than uh american football because

05:26:42.640 it's like the pace is faster there's not breaks like there's just a continuity of play

05:26:47.840 which is really cool about rugby um i like american football too but rugby's pretty

05:26:53.520 fucking dope um and it's i think it's catching a bit of steam in the us so yeah and rugby rugby 0.77

05:26:59.440 union i don't like i don't really follow sevens or league so thank you man um i think that's it 0.98

05:27:06.000 and then sky patrol is uh in british columbia okay i think that's it let's wrap up it's late i i want

05:27:12.400 to try to snag in and out but i don't know if i'm gonna be able to make it yeah probably not it's scuffed

05:27:16.640 okay all right guys um i think uh let me just check one last thing guys go to twitch.tv slash

05:27:22.400 whatever drop us a follow and drop us a prime sub if you have one and uh big big shout out to uh

05:27:28.560 madison and shania for sticking around for the for the uh after show really appreciate it

05:27:35.680 thanks for having me yeah thank you for coming back and uh yeah guys uh hope you guys have a good

05:27:41.760 night we're gonna be live again sunday at 7 p.m pacific um trying to oh go subscribe to us youtube.com

05:27:48.560 slash nevermind drop us a sub on there let's get us to 100k on there thank you guys for tuning in

05:27:53.600 tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that uh really

05:27:59.600 appreciate all your support guys i'll read this last uh super chat and then we'll uh i'll say goodbye

05:28:04.720 okay let's see sky patrol thank you i'm still waiting for this other one to uh pop up uh

05:28:14.640 yeah oh do uh spam youtube.com slash nevermind eog thank you man brian thanks for hosting this type

05:28:20.480 of content wish you stream more often would give more awesome content to listen to while driving

05:28:24.720 across the country otr what's otr trucker off the road trucker what does otr stand for but yo eog i just

05:28:33.840 want to and and to anybody who works i mean trucking is a very specific thing you're in

05:28:40.480 transport but anyone who's like in the trades who's like working on an oil derrick who's a uh

05:28:47.600 who's a what's the on the road trucker over the road um you know i have so much respect

05:28:57.760 for men who work in a trade or who truckers like society would break down if there weren't 0.94

05:29:07.200 men doing these sorts of jobs so what i know some people get down on themselves like i genuinely have

05:29:14.800 so much respect for people who do jobs like that who are truckers who are uh work on oil rigs roughnecks 0.92

05:29:23.840 roughnecks iron workers whatever it may be you are the backbone of society you guys are what makes

05:29:33.920 society function if we didn't have truckers if we didn't have all these people and all 0.97

05:29:38.400 like a lot of people like want to hate on the fucking i don't know it just it just bothers me 0.99

05:29:43.760 that like the a lot of this feminism shit is just such a contempt for men sorry i know i was just about 1.00

05:29:50.000 to end the show but now you got me going um it instead of demonizing men we ought to be 0.98

05:29:59.920 show a little more appreciation um like no offense to the ladies here but like

05:30:07.120 men play such a significant role in the uh what's the word 0.93

05:30:13.680 in society running smoothly you know we in terms of oh fuck i'm my i'm like on my last brain cell here 0.95

05:30:24.640 guys i'm i'm blanking on the term but you know the i don't know i'm so guys i'm sorry i'm so tired 0.77

05:30:33.520 i'm so tired we need to go to bed yeah but like it just it bothers me that there's you you hear like

05:30:43.280 male privilege and all these terms and how you know men are like the enemy and the patriarchy and

05:30:54.000 all this stuff and i don't think there's enough appreciation of men because truly if if all men

05:30:59.520 disappeared it would be probably be chaos it'd be chaos society would collapse within 72 hours

05:31:07.840 if all men disappeared and it's men like you who are doing the necessary work to keep society 0.98

05:31:13.760 functioning that i'm sorry i'm losing my train of thought i'm sorry guys my i got a headache and i'm 0.58

05:31:20.640 um okay but uh you're a fucking legend uh thank you for what you do to uh keep society functioning thank 0.93

05:31:28.960 you man because look if if truckers am i stoned right now what the fuck if truckers were gone 0.99

05:31:36.800 how do you transport food how do you transport oil and gas truckers are such a 0.99

05:31:42.800 fucking essential part of the economy and society functioning bro i don't know where i'm going with 0.98

05:31:49.040 i'm sorry bro you're a fucking legend keep trucking brother uh we don't we don't need more youtubers we 0.99

05:31:56.000 need more fucking people that are going to do the jobs that is mad she's okay man he's trolling me now 0.99

05:32:01.840 okay um okay last one i really appreciate your show i'm glad i found it and i will be tuning in as 0.98

05:32:09.920 much as humanly possible truck driver from jacob infrastructure thank you infrastructure is the

05:32:15.120 word i'm going for the infrastructure would fucking crumble if all men disappeared everything bro okay 0.99

05:32:23.840 think of think of think of think of like uh the the the water infrastructure gas heating all this 0.98

05:32:30.080 shit bro okay i know let me collect my thoughts i'll i'll have it more uh i'll be more articulate 0.59

05:32:39.360 next show um wait did we read this one yeah yeah i just read it right now thank you pip 0.97

05:32:45.760 he really is on one brain cell go get some sleep guys love ya love y'all too

05:32:50.240 next show you should hand the baby dolls to the girls and see who holds them like a mother would 0.98

05:32:55.520 i think that's a tell okay yeah thanks what if i just you know what i should crack one of these

05:33:03.760 windows open and just like mid-show like toss one of the babies out the windows but um no i'm kidding

05:33:09.120 i'm kidding i'm kidding they're fake babies but um that'd be interesting get a reaction just like 0.98

05:33:15.120 toss it off holy shit just toss a baby at one of the people like all right show show us your instincts okay 0.98

05:33:23.040 all right uh okay all right we'll be live again sunday at i need actually i need to get up to stop the stream 0.98

05:33:31.920 we will be live sunday at 7 p.m east or yeah pacific my bad we will see you guys thanks for

05:33:42.640 watching yeah i'll go over there and stop the stream you guys can do an outro but sunday 7 p.m pacific

05:33:48.560 thank you guys for tuning in thank you for all the support have a good night guys all right thank you

05:33:53.200 for being on the after show i hope you guys like today's special guest and we will see you guys on

05:33:59.760 sunday bye bye

05:34:07.200 no it's so late

Whatever Podcast - May 29, 2023

Dating Talk #77

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