Dating Talk #76
Episode Stats
Length
5 hours and 31 minutes
Words per Minute
188.56102
Hate Speech Sentences
242
Summary
On this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, Brian and Kiki are joined by Nick to talk about their new $5,000 computer problems, and our top 3 favorite big dicks of the month. Also, we talk about how much money we're making on Twitch, and how much we're spending on merch!
Transcript
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All right, and we are live. Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast.
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Thank you for tuning in tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
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I appreciate that. We're coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California every Sunday and Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific.
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I'm your host, Brian Atlas. I'm joined by my co-host, Kiki.
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Bro, you scuffed. You have to pause it, Nick. In the tab over here, you've got to pause it.
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Okay, guys, so Nick is on stream running duties tonight, and here, we'll leave it center.
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And also, we had to swap computers at the very last minute because we were having our brand new $5,000 computer that we just bought a month ago is already having issues.
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So we were scrambling. We had to swap. Luckily, I kept to the other computer. We swapped back.
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So, yeah, Nick, put it over to the actual live chat, please.
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So we are, and Eric is gone. It's his birthday, so he's skiing.
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So we have Nick for the very first time running the stream, and unfortunately, before the show, we didn't have time to, like, do a proper tutorial because the fucking computer wasn't working.
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Anyways, a few quick announcements before the show begins.
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Like, it's his first time operating the stream proper.
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And then we also, oh, follow us on Instagram, at whatever.
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However, the DMs on whatever are no longer bugged.
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You know, a lot of women are getting shamed for, am I a pick-me for saying this?
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A lot of women get shamed if they, you know, they got an Audi.
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If you guys can't catch the full shows, we have two clips channeled.
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Guys, that purple hair one, we're like 7K away from 100,000 subscribers.
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Mods, if you can spam it in the chat a couple times.
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Without further ado, after that thoroughly long-winded and scuffed introduction, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.
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I'm an Instagram model, an OnlyFans model, a former podcaster, and aspiring Twitch streamer.
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So, 25 for five more years, like that's my, that's like, like I'm 25 for five more years.
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Um, I have an only for OF, but I don't really use it.
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I'm Kirsten, I'm 21, and I do only fans on social media.
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First off, before anybody starts talking shit, I just got to say, I was born a woman.
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They love to say I sound like a man ever since I was a little girl.
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Look, I don't know how they would even know half of them probably ain't had no daddy growing up in the house.
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Okay, um, I am very proud and blessed to say that I survived my 20s and I am 33 years old, okay?
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Because if 20s will kill you, be careful, baby.
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Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, guys.
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Everyone, bro, how are you not looking at this?
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Everyone but you because you can't see two inches in front of you.
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Was all the intro scuffed or did it start when somebody started speaking?
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But we're gonna have everyone just introduce themselves again.
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Okay, we're just gonna have everyone reintroduce themselves.
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Motherfuckers been saying I sound like a man my whole life.
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I don't know how when they probably didn't even have no daddy growing up in the house.
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Okay, and I am very proud to say that I survived my 20s and I am 33 years old.
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Be careful out there because them 20s will kill you, okay?
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And when I feel like it, on the weekends sometimes I do makeup, I do hair, I act.
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I also did cosmetology school and got my business degree and real estate and all those other
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I'm about to study here in Santa Barbara and I'm more than likely going to major in aeronautical
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engineering or just engineering in general or just do film.
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I teach people how to get work without buying college degrees.
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And I'm also the head of ops for an AI startup.
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I am an ex-corn star, now OnlyFans model, and I give dating advice on TikTok.
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Please keep us surprised if we have further technical issues.
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We're going to go around the table one more time.
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Are you single, friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship, relationship, engaged,
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Mine's very complicated and I think the longest relationship I was in was four years.
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Well, when you said it's complicated, what does that mean?
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Um, just a very complicated talking situation, I guess.
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Um, like six weeks or what are we talking about?
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So, but you're, was the guy's not in the picture anymore?
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It's just a lot of arguing and stuff, but it's fine.
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Everything that could have fucking gone wrong today went wrong.
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Um, let us know in the chat guys, is her mic, her mic is working.
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So it's complicated by the fact that you're pregnant.
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So, but so why is it complicated besides the pregnancy?
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I mean, we love each other very much and we care about each other a lot, but it's just
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Um, I've been kind of a serial monogamist, um, a bit through life.
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My longest relationship was, uh, from high school, seven plus years.
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I'm also in a relationship and this is my longest one at almost two years.
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My, the longest relationship, all my relationships ain't never made it past the 90 day probation
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Are they, are they, I mean, they all say you're crazy.
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If you went around and asked all my exes, they probably would say the same thing.
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Um, my longest relationship was five years, uh, beginning of high school and then a little
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I am currently single and my longest relationship was probably only seven months, maybe eight
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My longest relationship is eight years and it's my husband and we've been married for
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I am currently in a very new relationship, but my longest relationship was two and a half
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Um, my longest relationship was like a year and a half, two years.
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And you, I don't, I don't talk about my situation.
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Um, so I'm trying to fucking go back behind the scenes, trying to get shit figured out over
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So yeah, if it wasn't for the computer issue, we would have been fine, but it's thoroughly
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Uh, I, here's just a filler question while I have to figure out some technical issues.
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Um, is it the deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you?
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Cause if they're expecting me to go down on them, I would want them to go down on me.
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I don't know if I would say it's a deal breaker, but I think it's extremely important in a relationship
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to feel sexually comfortable with each other, especially if it's going to be like a serious
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I'm agreeing with Jamie a hundred percent on that one.
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Definitely a deal breaker, even though I have dealt with a nigga that would not go
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Um, I definitely prefer somebody that would be willing to go down on me, but I'm not going
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I'm not going to completely cut somebody off if they're not trying to go down on me,
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I don't think it's a deal breaker, but I do agree with the fact that it is pretty
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I think that you should always be in a relationship with somebody who cares enough about you to
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And so if you find that somebody will not do that, that's kind of a red flag.
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I mean, because I like giving head and I like receiving it, but I mean, if the peen is good
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I mean, 69 is kind of like my favorite thing in the world.
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What if you had everything else and that's the only thing?
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That's why I was like, I'm not going to completely cut you off if you check other boxes.
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But if you don't want a 69 with me, I mean, what the fuck am I doing here, you know?
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I would also argue, too, that I might, like if there's not enthusiasm and like, and if
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it's really like torture for the guy, then, you know, it's not enjoyable.
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Guys in the chat, don't take advice from any females on panel, especially the OF corn
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I mean, why, here, here, please, center men on the, need to get a passport and fly
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Okay, Cheeks, who's this, who is this directed to?
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I mean, honestly, in general, I don't think that like men should really take relationship
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Because it's like, how, what am I going to tell a guy how to approach a girl?
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When I've never approached, no, because I've never approached women.
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But you're a woman, and you know how women want to be approached.
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I think women like, we don't typically like know.
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Yeah, I think you can give like tips for what you like.
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Like the thing is like women don't even know what we want half the time.
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Because if you're going up to like a bookworm, and he's very shy, he comes over like, hey,
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And for those of you here who have hit on the guy first, generally speaking, does it
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I mean, sometimes they'll just say, no, I'm not interested.
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Especially with dancing, you have to learn how to approach men.
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Especially when working in the club, you have to learn how to approach men and be able
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to come up to them and talk to them and hit on them first.
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Did you guys ever date anyone that you met at the club and would you?
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I let him take me on dates, but I never did anything sexual with him.
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I just think that if you want to have a healthy relationship with somebody, I can't speak
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for everybody, but I would not be okay with my, I know what goes on in the strip club,
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I can't tell you how many times I have been sitting at a table with a guy who's just going
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on and on about how much he hates his wife or his girlfriend or whatever.
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And that just, that's not what I want for myself.
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And any man that I see in the strip club, like you're there for a reason.
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I was going to say, if he walks into the strip club, do you, do you date him?
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I stopped doing what I do for work when I met the person I got pregnant from.
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But so you do traditional, I'm just fucking whatever.
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I was doing it up until I met this person and I was very comfortable with them.
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So I stopped doing it like a week into us talking.
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I like stopped doing the actual, um, corn, like being on a website.
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I haven't shot anything at all since I met him.
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As someone who's done that before for a partner that I met, totally regret it.
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Why did you quit porn for a, not even a man, a person?
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Honestly, I just have been getting, there's been a lot of stuff in the industry that's
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been going on that I was already kind of getting tired of.
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So I was slowly transitioning out of it and going more towards only fans because I like
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being able to in charge and being able to do what I want to do.
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So I was already kind of getting out of it and I just really do care and appreciate this
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And you know, he, he didn't tell me to stop doing it, but I could tell that it made him
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I could tell that it made him uncomfortable and like, I really do care about this person.
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So for now I'm not going to be working in the corn industry.
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Um, so I'm starting to make better money on only fans right now and I want to get like
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So I do want to go back there and like, I want to get my nursing degree and go back to
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The guy you're currently seeing though, you're, he's definitely the one that.
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Uh, so, I mean, for those of you who said you're single, what, I mean, in today's day
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I mean, I have someone I love very dearly who lives in the UK and don't really know what
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But when we see each other, we are very much like a relationship dynamic.
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And I think like, I mean, like what's a relationship?
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Like I'm in a relationship with my best friend, you know, like these are all relationships.
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Do I have someone that I love that I consider a potential future, like exclusive partner?
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I'm not really interested in like actually dating.
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I mean, I wouldn't even, he wouldn't, I wouldn't be talking to him or about him like this if
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Uh, but I mean, he lives in the UK and you guys don't really have any, doesn't sound
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like you have an established understanding really in terms of the boundaries of your
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And that's kind of like, there's a beauty to that.
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I mean, there, there are times when I, when I like subscribe to the social norms where
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I'm like, oh shit, like, do I need to have him committed to me?
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And like, you know, all these things that I'm like, do I even want him to be committed
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So, I mean, taking it, taking time, like really developing the connection, like, you know,
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establishing what the values are, really establishing whether this is like a future
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And if he is, um, then like, you know, taking it to the next level.
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I think ultimately I do long for an exclusively monogamous relationship.
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I've always been really progressive, really open minded about like ownership and possession.
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But you said you were single, but you're currently in love with a man in the UK.
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Is there a difference between loving someone dearly and being, you're not in love with him?
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You know, I think, I mean, God, I'm in love with so many aspects of him.
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And this person lives like long distance, right?
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So the nature of like the, the interactions that we have is like, are like, like short
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lived couple, you know, three weeks a month at a time in these gorgeous exotic places.
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And it's not necessarily like, you know, a great way.
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I think I've always been a skeptic about like, well, how do you know you're in love?
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Um, I'm not dating him because of his wealth, but is he, he's, I mean, it's all relative,
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but I wouldn't define him as like a, um, like a rich guy, like financially rich.
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Um, he's, he's, you know, like not necessarily no.
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He's one of my greatest, like one of the, I've loved him more than I, I mean, we, we,
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our relationship is so stemmed and like founded in friendship.
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Um, I mean, early on, we were pretty like, we met at a wedding and we were like, there
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And, um, and I was really at first, it was like, you know, it was like a week long
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And we like every night at the end of the night, we kept on gravitating toward each other.
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We just had these really, really wonderful, um, deep like conversations.
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And I didn't really see any, like, I felt platonic friendship, but at the end of the
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week, he like came over and he put his like hand on my leg while we were talking.
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I was like, Oh, I was like, Oh, he's like, you got the tingles.
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And I was like, I'm not necessarily not into this.
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But it was, it took me by surprise because the whole time I had my eye on someone else
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at the wedding because I was like, you know, but, um, I ended up really developing this
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I even remember saying to someone there, I was like, okay, I don't know which guy it
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I was like, with this guy, the one I'm talking about, the connection has grown with this
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The more I've seen, like it was like attraction and the more I see the less attracted I am.
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And my friend was like, well, obviously it's the one with whom the attraction and
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Um, I have like a deep respect and appreciation, admiration for him.
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Cause it sounds like you're both, it seems from what you're saying, it sounds like you're
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Do you think it's you or him that's kind of pumping the brakes?
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He's come to the U S and he's like, fuck that shit.
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So I mentioned to Pearl who lives in London that, uh, that's what I'm asking.
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Do you think if you went to see him like that you guys would date if you like moved
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If I was in London, like, yeah, we think we'd be together.
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Um, I haven't asked, but you know, and I, I don't know that it would be fair to ask
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unless I moved there and we spent time there, like, you know, like long, you know, longer,
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Cause everything's been in snippets for us about a month at a time.
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So you've been dating him for since January of 2021.
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During that time period, have you been seeing any other guys?
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The first year of that, um, I was still just kind of like carrying on with like, like
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dating and I was dating, like I was dating, like fully dating, like multiple, like, all
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right, dinner tonight, dinner tomorrow, you know, um, now I'm not dating.
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Alternate, like call once a week, but like a lot of texting.
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Um, well, we'll, maybe we'll come back to that.
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Um, in your Twitter bio, you state that I am not for sale, but my nudes are.
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Do you want to know why I put that up recently?
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But to be honest with you, I was really bothered by it.
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There's a lot of escorting that happens in these industries, as we all well know.
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Um, but it was, it was the approach and it was also, um, it was also the fact that I'd
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heard from a friend recently about a traumatic experience and she's a high earning big name
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And she had a very traumatic experience escorting and she is in therapy for it and it just broke
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Um, but yeah, so yeah, so I'm not for sale, but my nudes are very much for sale.
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I suppose I can open this up to the entire panel.
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Whenever, whenever I started, whenever like 10 mil, you wouldn't.
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Oh, well, I mean, do you see a barcode anywhere?
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Can I ask you as someone who like a little closer?
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Can I ask you, um, as someone who just left porn, why are you offended that someone would
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Like, because as someone who went into, I knew exactly the kind of treatment I would
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Anytime I got asked those as I guess I could say stupid questions, I knew it came with
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So I would never be offended that someone saw me as an object when I'm putting myself
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And, um, and I think that like, I think what offended me is honestly the fact that I,
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it was probably a projection because I considered it cause I was a good price.
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Well, I think that's why I was like, wait a second.
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You know, it was, it put things in perspective, but I was offended because the
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In fact, if you'd show them respect by having some discretion.
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So I was offended by the whole experience, but not like the approach itself.
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Look, so just to open it up to the entire panel.
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Um, and this is related to what you have in your Twitter bio.
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Like for me, dude, if someone offered me 10 mil, I'm taking that shit.
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Well, it's like a house, my house might not be for sale, but someone comes up and it's
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Like it's not for sale, but you know, it would depend on the person too.
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Somebody is really offering me $10 million to buy me.
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But I also hate the fact that men think that they can like own you.
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We're like, we're just talking like sex, like sex one time.
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Working, working for Pornhub is technically that.
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But is it on the men for buying it or is it on you for putting it on OnlyFans or Pornhub?
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I don't understand why you would hate like a man owning you if that's what you're selling.
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Is there a price where you'd be like, I'll sell sex for that price?
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But at the end of the day, if somebody came up to me with $10 million cash and said,
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Like I do OnlyFans, but like, I don't think I could get myself to say I let somebody
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But you have to look at yourself in the mirror again.
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Like, I've always said since I, even when I started, I started stripping when I was
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I blew out the birthday candles and was wrapping my shit around the pole.
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But I did always say like to customers, I sell the view of my body, but not my body
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I ain't gotta like make a dick appointment every week?
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For me, I feel like for the sake of my dignity and out of respect for whoever.
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I feel like because of my dignity and my morals, I guess I couldn't see myself setting
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And as I said, like out of respect to the person I potentially might get with for a future,
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I wouldn't want somebody to be able to say, oh yeah, I paid for her for the night.
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I know like 10 million is a lot of money, but like at the end of the day, it's like
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If you asked me six months ago, hell yeah, but not anymore.
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Nah, I mean, I just, I feel like if I was that desperate for money, I'd just go live
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I have a, like a story that might be a little entertaining for that.
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So at the strip club one time, I actually did get offered 5k, which is low amount, but
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it was only to, for him to watch me finger myself.
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And I turned that down and he had the 5k in his hand and I still said no.
00:46:19.620
What's different about that and doing OnlyFans?
00:46:21.620
Well, they can, they can own a picture or a video of whatever I'm comfortable putting
00:46:26.620
on the internet, but I, I wouldn't meet with someone for money.
00:46:33.620
Like you can, you can own the photo of me, the video of me getting fucked by somebody
00:46:36.620
I would consensually fuck in my free time, but definitely not like my body, my energy
00:46:48.620
But have you ever sold a video of you doing that for $5,000?
00:46:57.620
But the video, but, but that's them, but, but that's like not in person.
00:47:00.620
Cause if you say yes to one person in the strip club.
00:47:06.620
If you, if you do that in the strip club though, that guy is going to go out and tell
00:47:10.620
his buddies and then he's going to, everybody else in the strip club is going to be like,
00:47:37.620
A lot of people are saying it or some, uh, yo chat once more, is the audio scuffed?
00:48:16.620
Well, while I get that figured out again, audio is good.
00:48:43.620
That's not going to help us fucking do anything, but okay.
00:48:55.620
Can't believe I'm doing this during the fucking live stream.
00:49:23.620
Um, somebody, you guys talk while I figure this out.
00:49:29.620
And that is, so you don't give dating advice to men, correct?
00:49:34.620
Like when I think of dating advice, it's like approach the girl this way, say this, you
00:49:43.620
So you do give a little bit of dating advice, but it's very minimal.
00:49:46.620
I mean, general things like don't, you know, date a girl that slept with 50 dudes, but
00:49:54.620
I mean, that's usually, um, give dating advice to women.
00:49:59.620
I mean, the show is mostly people just giving their opinions on dating.
00:50:04.620
So we more talk about like certain decisions in society and like the outcomes.
00:50:12.620
Earlier, you mentioned, um, you had a, starting a podcast, correct?
00:50:34.620
I'm just trying to, I mean, those are like very few tiny segments in each of my pieces,
00:51:04.620
It's trying to get people to realize, like, just be realistic with yourself before you
00:51:10.620
Have you ever thought about looking inward or about like self-awareness?
00:51:24.620
Cause I feel like everybody has a different definition of what that means.
00:51:34.620
Rolo Tomasi and that other guy, the one that was in the suit.
00:51:39.620
I feel like every guy that comes in here is wearing a blazer or suit though.
00:51:46.620
But, uh, Justin, I think Justin something is his name.
00:52:01.620
Well, I, I feel like those guys all have a different definition of red pilled.
00:52:04.620
And when I hear that spoken about, like originally I thought that was a reference to the conservative
00:52:07.620
movement, but now I feel like it's about women and marriage and it got real crazy.
00:52:11.620
And I would like to know what you all think the definition of red pilled is because I
00:52:16.620
don't feel like I understand because everyone has a different version.
00:52:20.620
I don't think anybody cares about that shit at the tables.
00:52:23.620
I mean, I think you're pretty spot on with your like definition.
00:52:28.620
Well, I mean, incel means involuntarily celibate because I guess it's kind of, I guess
00:52:33.620
the way I would describe it incel or red pill is they've become almost, they feel
00:52:49.620
Red pill, it's like these guys, they basically like 20 years ago, they came together on the
00:52:53.620
internet and talked about trends and like patterns and behavior they saw in like the
00:52:58.620
So like, for example, one, one pattern they noticed was every girl says she hasn't had sex
00:53:04.620
Every girl is saying, oh, I don't ever do this.
00:53:08.620
So initially it started as the study of human behavior.
00:53:11.620
But the issue is like, they also have the movie, the matrix.
00:53:16.620
And like, there's just like people just use it in a lot of different ways.
00:53:20.620
But that's like what like Rolo and like that crew, basically, that's what they're talking
00:53:28.620
It's more like matrix the film where it's kind of like when I first got into it.
00:53:34.620
Like the red pill is like, yeah, like waking up to your own personal power.
00:53:38.620
Also the illusion of like, you know, the matrix being like, you know, essentially like we're
00:53:41.620
in a simulation video game, how metaphoric, how literal, you know, that's kind of up for
00:53:46.620
interpretation, I guess, like how to apply to your life.
00:53:48.620
You're like, but I mean, yeah, the fucking like I'm fully on board.
00:53:56.620
That's like when men decide not to deal with women at all.
00:54:00.620
So they don't and there's different levels of MGTOW.
00:54:01.620
Like there's some that will still like screw them, but they're not trying to be in a relationship.
00:54:04.620
There's some that are walking away from marriage.
00:54:06.620
And that's more talking about like the oppressive structure that like actively oppresses men.
00:54:12.620
Like, like so, and I could go more into that, but that's like the general.
00:54:20.620
I need to get caught up on a couple chats here.
00:54:27.620
Nick, can you put the exposure all the way to zero, please?
00:54:33.620
You want to give, yo, want to give Pearl Lee a shout out.
00:54:36.620
You doing the Lord's work with these three of foes.
00:54:47.620
I don't have any issues with FNF, but I think they have, it seems like they have some issues
00:55:01.620
That 25 plus five chick just means she's going to say she's 25 until she's too old to pass
00:55:42.620
I would just say women are attracted to like high status jobs.
00:55:45.620
And it's really sad, actually, because my mom always told me to go for like blue collar,
00:55:50.620
but just women don't seem to respect it overall.
00:55:57.620
I would say look for women that do not have college degrees.
00:56:00.620
They think that they're more intelligent than you, even though they're going to need to
00:56:03.620
marry you in order to pay off their bachelor degree debt.
00:56:06.620
I never thought about it like that, but that kind of makes sense.
00:56:17.620
By the way, I know you're trying to trigger the spam on the TTS.
00:56:21.620
You have to do it at, it has to be at the TTS threshold.
00:56:27.620
Feminism is a CIA psyop, propagated by useful idiots.
00:56:30.620
We are living in Calhoun's mouse utopia, deus of volt.
00:56:39.620
If you want that spam thing to trigger, you got to do TTS 199 and up.
00:56:49.620
Maybe it's just, it might just be because this came in before.
00:56:56.620
It's going down on any women with a corn pastor having thirst traps on social media
00:57:01.620
Pearl, will you finally let go of George W. Miller now that he is exposed?
00:57:15.620
I guess you'd have to hold on to him to let go so that she doesn't know who that is.
00:57:21.620
Women that are in the corn industry are some of the cleanest and safest women to be having
00:57:32.620
They tested like the corn industry versus the non corn.
00:57:35.620
Because I had a different corn star come on my show and say the same thing.
00:57:48.620
People who are more sexually promiscuous are more likely to have sex.
00:57:53.620
If you don't sleep with anybody, you can't get an STD.
00:57:54.620
Because people who think sex is something to be shamed or hidden aren't going to go to
00:57:59.620
the clinic, aren't going to be getting tested regularly.
00:58:03.620
I'm just, I looked this up because I had a different corn star on my show and I didn't
00:58:07.620
And then I went and the study was either from Utah or California, I can't remember which,
00:58:12.620
but they took corn stars versus non corn stars and corn stars had a higher STD rate.
00:58:16.620
I mean, listen, even if you are in the corn industry, like my body counts, not very high
00:58:28.620
Um, I just think we're a lot safer because I've slept with men that weren't in the industry
00:58:34.620
and they don't care either to wrap up or to go get tested.
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And I make sure not obviously to sleep with those people, but they just don't care.
00:58:46.620
Yeah. If corn stars are getting STDs from anybody, it's literally from civilians.
00:58:52.620
Well, I, I heard a study or I'm not, it might not have been a study, but yeah, well, it
00:59:00.620
So if anybody wants to trigger TTS, it should be working.
00:59:04.620
All right. We have a super chat here from sweet tooth.
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Yeah. I'm, I don't think that's, we've done 70.
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We've had some slight audio issues, but we've never had.
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I think it's, yeah, I think you're bad luck for all.
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Ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to 10.
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Wait, can we just have you scoot into the table so you're not like leaned back?
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In, let's say you're in like a international hub somewhere.
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Um, I wouldn't, I don't know, on a good day, a solid, like a strong eight.
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I would call myself a 10, but that's because I'm, no matter who it is, like no one's ever
01:00:28.620
going to think I'm the prettiest girl or like there's not ever, there's always going
01:00:33.620
So I'm just going to call myself a 10 and be happy with that.
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If I was down south or in the Midwest, I'd be Beyonce.
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It really just depends on what part of, well, we're in Santa Barbara, but I'm from LA.
01:00:58.620
But when you go to Beverly Hills, stuff like that, you fat, you got a belly, a little fupa,
01:01:04.620
So Beverly Hills versus the hood, you know, let me know.
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Um, I would rate myself like a seven or an eight.
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Like in Florida, maybe like a seven, but here in California, maybe like a 6.5.
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I think he has a low bone, but I was going to say like a, like a,
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seven or eight, but I'm going to go with an eight.
01:01:45.620
That doesn't mean, I don't think there's anything wrong with average.
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I mean, I think like, there's nothing wrong with being average.
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I think if you take 10 girls at the table, like half of us probably are average.
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I think no one wants to be like honest with themselves.
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Just because you're not saying you're a 10 doesn't mean you're not confident either.
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There's a difference between realistic and just not confident.
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I just, I don't know why, like we live in this society where average is seen as a bad
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Not everyone can be like, if you think about it, if you're an eight, that means you're in
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So that means, I don't know, modeling contracts.
01:02:22.620
I don't know, you know, eligible top 20%, 10% men in your DMs or I don't know, but not,
01:02:29.620
not just like, like taking you seriously, but go ahead.
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They've done where they've like had eight faces lined up of different like kinds of
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beauty, supermodel beauty with the chiseled features.
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And like, you know, what people actually find most beautiful is most familiar.
01:02:45.620
So it's like more of the girl next door look that was actually rated the most beautiful.
01:02:49.620
Or even like somebody like I've noticed, like the more that I've been around couples, people
01:02:56.620
tend to date people that we kind of resemble them or someone that they love, like their
01:03:04.620
Again, it's probably the familiarity thing that she just pointed out.
01:03:07.620
But I've, I've, I've continued to notice more and more that since being in LA that a
01:03:12.620
lot of people tend to date people that kind of look a little bit like them.
01:03:15.620
So it doesn't mean that necessarily like it's the beauty standard.
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There's been many studies, like people tend to find the same things attractive.
01:03:27.620
Like people might have like certain types where it differs a little bit, but in general,
01:03:34.620
And every man, woman and in between is someone's type.
01:03:40.620
Cause I didn't want to get lip fillers until like, like three years ago when it became
01:03:47.620
And I was bullied for my big lips growing up until it became like people were getting
01:03:52.620
I'm not going to base what I think of myself on what anybody else thinks of me.
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I look in the mirror every day and I like what I see.
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Just because you like what you see in the mirror also, that doesn't mean that you're
01:04:32.620
You're saying you have absolutely nothing that you think you can improve on yourself.
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I'm not saying that, but I'm saying that I would consider myself a 10.
01:04:40.620
I think maybe you're thinking of different categories because objectively the golden
01:04:43.620
ratio is a measure, a measure of facial, facial symmetry, and it is objective.
01:04:48.620
You can look at someone's face and see how closely they match.
01:04:50.620
And so I think when a lot of people say it, what they're talking about is this is how
01:05:02.620
Society does value different aspects of women's beauty as time changes.
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I know for a fact that not everybody's going to find me beautiful.
01:05:10.620
So at the end of the day, I'm going to go with what I like.
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But women make, remember, women make 70 to 80% of consumer buying decisions.
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What men, what men likes really has not changed.
01:05:24.620
But I said earlier, like it really does depend on the country and it does depend on where
01:05:28.620
you're living because it's a lot different in America than it is in Israel.
01:05:33.620
And the beauty standards there, wow, completely different than here.
01:05:39.620
When I got back here, when I got back here, I went and I wanted a nose job right away.
01:05:49.620
I didn't feel beautiful here by beauty standards at all.
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But when I lived in Israel, I was very confident and I felt great because they're, they don't
01:06:01.620
No, but they've done studies on this, like with men all over the world.
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I mean, I've lived, okay, I've lived in Germany.
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So we could go back and forth in the I lived game.
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But in general, men tend to find the same things attractive.
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I mean, I think you kind of know it when you see it, if we're being honest.
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Supposedly, like, you know, biologically, like where the men are attracted to a woman
01:06:35.620
that looks like she's capable of bearing a child.
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To me, that's the only way that we can say what we know men like.
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Because it's all different between what men like.
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It's not that one thing like, oh, if you have a small nose, every man is going to like you.
01:06:56.620
So you can't just put men into like a certain category.
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They swipe right on dating apps like 50% of the time.
01:07:05.620
They're not picky on who they fuck, but they're picky on who they want to call their girlfriend.
01:07:11.620
And another thing is you can be the complete and total package and get delivered to the wrong house.
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I'm just saying you can be what somebody is dying and praying for and not get delivered to them.
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But women are the choosers, so then you pick the wrong house.
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No, I'm saying, no, I'm saying, I'm saying you can walk into a room and be a 10 to somebody in that room, but go up to the wrong guy.
01:07:41.620
Lizzo, if she goes to Japan, is she going to be a 10?
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No, no, but she's not going to be a 10 anywhere.
01:07:47.620
I mean, we could argue that maybe like, you know.
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Just like every woman, they could be the exact perfect package for the perfect person.
01:08:05.620
Lizzo, if you want to use her as an example, she's a beautiful woman.
01:08:07.620
Have you spoken to every single person on Earth for her?
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Have you spoken to every single person on Earth for her?
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I think that's where you get it wrong sometimes.
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We have to generalize in order to have conversations.
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Otherwise, if we're going to have a conversation about every single exception.
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Lizzo, we have to generalize in order to have conversations.
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If I said you guys look like Lizzo, would you take it as a compliment?
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Her body and her face and her confidence and the way that she carries herself?
01:08:51.620
I can find beauty in every single woman though.
01:08:55.620
I think what Pearl was trying to get at is that it's okay to be normal.
01:08:57.620
It's okay not to be a 10 out of 10 in society's standards.
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Everybody is told nowadays that they're special and that you're a 10, you're a 10.
01:09:11.620
I'm going to go out there and change the world's opinion.
01:09:13.620
But that doesn't change how you feel about yourself.
01:09:15.620
Yeah, but I feel about myself because I'm going off of society's standards.
01:09:21.620
The question was to rate our looks, not ourselves.
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You're not rating yourself a six and a half person.
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Even if we're going to go off personality, what we all have perfect 10.
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No, I'm saying there's no areas for improvement in your personality.
01:09:37.620
No, I mean it is when you're saying you're a 10, if you're including perfect.
01:09:40.620
You have to be honest with yourself, where you stand in society.
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No, but I said even if we were going personality, that's what I said.
01:09:50.620
But I think that we're having a little bit of confusion about objectively,
01:09:55.620
You can look at a woman and there are different, across races,
01:09:58.620
across ethnicities, across all different types of things.
01:10:02.620
When they walk in a room, you know that's a 10.
01:10:06.620
But there is relative beauty, like you were saying.
01:10:12.620
And you may have somebody who, for that culture, for that area, that's a 10.
01:10:16.620
And it looks different than the objective 10 that all most people,
01:10:19.620
if you have a room full of a thousand people from all over the world,
01:10:22.620
they know when somebody walks in that's a 10, objectively.
01:10:30.620
And if you bring somebody with blue eyes somewhere where it's predominantly not blue eyes,
01:10:35.620
they're immediately going to get a double look or be held to like,
01:10:39.620
oh wow, that's beautiful because it's not seen as often.
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I'm just saying blue eyes because that's what I have.
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So I'm not going to critique somebody else's look.
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What I don't understand is who is the shot caller that said,
01:11:04.620
And you know, another thing that's ridiculous to me is that,
01:11:06.620
okay, this is what a 30-year-old should look like.
01:11:08.620
This is what you should look like when you're 20.
01:11:37.620
And at my age, you're just blessed to get somebody that,
01:11:40.620
you feel me, wants to show you some love, honey,
01:11:47.620
If it's your, you feel me, your type, then it's your type.
01:11:54.620
to put somebody down just based off their height.
01:11:56.620
Women do, though, if you look at the filters on dating apps.
01:12:02.620
and most women have that filter on if they can.
01:12:04.620
I feel like most men like shorter women as well.
01:12:22.620
So for those of you who are working in the adult industry,
01:12:25.620
I'm curious what you think your life will look like
01:12:33.620
I mean, I've definitely been thinking about that a lot
01:12:40.620
Um, that's also why I kind of stepped out of the corn industry itself
01:12:46.620
because I was realizing that, you know, at least with OnlyFans,
01:12:50.620
Yes, they can screen record everything, and it can be put out on Reddit
01:12:59.620
And now it kind of sucks, like looking back on it.
01:13:03.620
I don't regret my decisions because they got me to where I am today
01:13:07.620
and the person that I am today, and I will always be thankful for that.
01:13:10.620
Um, but I do wish I went ahead and did my research before
01:13:25.620
and I help people find jobs without buying college degrees.
01:13:27.620
So I help people get into tech and different industries,
01:13:31.620
Whatever people want to do, I'll help them figure out how to do it.
01:13:33.620
And so I'm curious about if it's common knowledge
01:13:37.620
that if you do that kind of work later on down the line,
01:13:40.620
it may show up and an employer may choose not to hire you,
01:13:44.620
And how have you, like, planned for that on down the line?
01:13:49.620
Kiana still is my real name, but I changed the spelling of it.
01:13:58.620
You can't correlate Kiana Kumani with my real name.
01:14:03.620
What if they start, like, making technology to, like, find your face?
01:14:07.620
I mean, if they already have, then they already have.
01:14:10.620
I don't see myself going back to a nine-to-five.
01:14:18.620
because I do want to go and be a traveling nurse
01:14:22.620
And I don't think it really matters when you're going to be a nurse
01:14:33.620
and it will impact your prospects as far as hiring.
01:14:35.620
And if that is the case, then that is the case.
01:14:37.620
But right now, I'm trying to stack my money as much as possible
01:14:45.620
I don't want to waste my money on stupid stuff.
01:14:50.620
I think it's dumb that a lot of women in the industry
01:14:57.620
so they go and buy designer purses, designer shoes.
01:15:05.620
and they don't learn how to do their tax forms.
01:15:13.620
Like, when you're an OF model, I can write off these nails
01:15:20.620
Do you all do your own taxes, or do you have CPAs?
01:15:25.620
I actually, like, took courses and shit like that,
01:15:27.620
and I actually really, really enjoy doing that.
01:15:29.620
I want to help more people do that when it comes to OF.
01:15:35.620
for after I'm done with the industry that I'm in right now.
01:15:39.620
because you couldn't get a job with your degree?
01:15:54.620
I would just definitely do as much research as possible
01:15:57.620
because when I turned 18 and I moved back to America,
01:16:05.620
That was my job before I got into the sex work industry.
01:16:12.620
I was going to go back to school, do everything.
01:16:14.620
And then I went and started working at a strip club.
01:16:17.620
And that's how I got into the sex worker industry.
01:16:27.620
And I had to pretty much learn how to maneuver my way on my own.
01:16:31.620
I don't wish my life to be any differently than it is today.
01:16:36.620
But I would advise younger women to definitely do their research
01:16:39.620
before they decide to show their body and be as, you know, willing with their body to do what they do.
01:16:46.620
And do you think it's like a positive environment for these like...
01:16:56.620
But as I was saying, like, because you mentioned earlier about this industry kind of being toxic.
01:17:00.620
Do you even think that this is an environment that young women should be going in in the first place?
01:17:10.620
My type is the BBBWs, big beautiful black women.
01:17:30.620
Well, I'm so shocked to hear somebody say they want a black bitch.
01:17:50.620
That's T-H-E, number one, S-T-B-A-R-B-I-E, baby.
01:18:16.620
You know, to be honest right now, I'm kind of on this self journey trying to get my shit together.
01:18:24.620
Because people are so judgmental when you're in your 30s, you know what I mean?
01:18:27.620
You should have your shit at a house on a hill and, you know, Calabasas by now and, you know, driving a sports car and all this or be married with kids.
01:18:39.620
I want a husband, to be honest, more than I want children.
01:18:43.620
That partnership, that companionship, more than kids.
01:18:47.620
Do you want to be in a partnership or would you rather it be more like husband and wife?
01:18:51.620
I want the husband title, the wife and husband title.
01:18:58.620
So when I hear partnership, I think more like 50-50, we have an equal say.
01:19:02.620
And when I hear husband and wife, that means you still want to work and everything like that.
01:19:13.620
I'm a little masculine, you know what I'm saying, in that department.
01:19:17.620
I ain't even, you know, that wasn't even conscious.
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In the U.S., though, the way that marriage is structured is a business partnership.
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I think the way that the marriage is on the inside is very different from the legal structure of that.
01:19:33.620
So in addition to all the audio issues we were having, we're still live for you guys here on the panel.
01:19:43.620
So our monitor, the monitor's there, so we can't.
01:19:53.620
So the stream is still live, but, like, we have three monitors in the studio, one for people at the panel,
01:20:04.620
I think something's going on because Instagram was down.
01:20:06.620
Remember I hit you up and said, yeah, you couldn't even get an Instagram.
01:20:18.620
It feels like it's every time me and Kirsten are on.
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First off, I just want to apologize to all the viewers.
01:20:29.620
We've never encountered this ever before, so we're working on it.
01:20:38.620
We could do a total shutdown of the computer, which might fix it, but if we do that, the stream dies.
01:20:47.620
Thank you guys for keeping the conversation going while I'm dealing with that.
01:20:52.620
I don't think we're going to have a problem keeping the conversation without you.
01:20:57.620
So, yeah, guys, I'm going to continue trying to get the monitors to work, but he literally, like the guy who's running the stream, can't see anything.
01:21:08.620
It's bugging out, so I'm going to keep working on it.
01:21:13.620
It's unfortunate that this is such a scuffed stream.
01:21:18.620
What if you put a phone here so you could see the stream and then swap it like here?
01:21:28.620
I'm not going to be engaged in the conversation, but I'm going to try to fix it.
01:21:41.620
I wouldn't mind, you know, at this point, like I said, I'm very tired of working, so at this point, shit, if I could find a man that would just say,
01:21:51.620
baby, you ain't got to work, and he want to go out and fuck who he want to fuck on the side and do what he want to do, shit, I'd be willing to just sit back and say,
01:21:58.620
all right, you know, as long as you giving me the black car and I can, you know, get my hair done, nails done, everything did, and buy what I need to buy and better myself,
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and you know, just focus on, you know, the home life, then shit, I might go for that and sit back and shut the fuck up.
01:22:13.620
What's the point of having a husband and being in a committed relationship, though, if you're just going to let him go out and fuck whoever he wants?
01:22:19.620
You know what, I'm taking it back to like the olden days, my grandmother's days and things where they had no choice but to sit down and shut the fuck up
01:22:27.620
and let your man do what he do because you cannot go out and work, you have to just sit at home.
01:22:31.620
You know, we did all this fight for equal rights, and now to the point where when I go on dates,
01:22:36.620
guys don't want to date me if they feel like you don't have a good enough job, and that's fucking disrespectful.
01:22:41.620
It's like, damn, you know what I mean, like maybe I'm still working on myself getting my shit to that level,
01:22:45.620
but guys nowadays, especially where I'm from in LA, they don't want to fuck with you if you ain't got your shit like together,
01:22:51.620
like have a really good job, and especially depending on your age, they're not dealing with you.
01:22:55.620
They don't want to be with you if you're on the OnlyFans.
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They don't want to be with you if you work in retail.
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They want a specific woman, and so, you know, we kind of fucked ourselves a little bit with all this equal rights shit.
01:23:05.620
Yeah, I do like being able to make my own bread and do what I want to do and have a say-so,
01:23:10.620
but at the same time, it's like, damn, we kind of set ourselves back because now guys don't even want to open the door for your ass.
01:23:18.620
It's like I'm on one side of it, but then the other side.
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It's tough because it's like, in general, most women are not traditional women, and we want traditional outcomes.
01:23:28.620
I feel like it's just a level of respect for the other person.
01:23:33.620
Like, it doesn't matter what I do for work or it doesn't matter what the other person does for work.
01:23:37.620
If you have a mutual respect for each other, like, I would want my man to open a car door for me.
01:23:41.620
But, like, vice versa, like, I would take my man out to a nice meal once in a while.
01:23:47.620
Like, I feel like it's just an equal amount of respect and, like, I would like my man to get me flowers once in a while.
01:23:53.620
Just like he would probably like, fuck, I don't know, like a massage once in a while.
01:24:00.620
Or to get, like, cooked food when he gets home or whatever.
01:24:05.620
Yeah, but I was talking about, like, the traditional outcome, like, being a housewife.
01:24:09.620
So only, like, roughly 20% of women get to do that.
01:24:14.620
Like, it's, and the guys that want a housewife, like, I mean, you have to compete for them.
01:24:18.620
And typically they don't pick girls with OnlyFans, corn stars.
01:24:25.620
Well, I was only, I don't, I don't know what you want.
01:24:28.620
Right, because I said, there's moments in my life where I'm just, I'm like, fuck it, I'll do that.
01:24:33.620
Because dealing with being a woman and dealing, a black woman at that and dealing with this workforce, like I said, I'm from L.A.
01:24:38.620
So it's hell that I deal with on a day-to-day basis, and I'm sick of it.
01:24:43.620
Yeah, but it's like at 33, like, you just can't be a traditional woman anymore.
01:24:46.620
And I don't think you would claim to be, right?
01:24:48.620
But, and it's like, a lot of times, like, we want these traditional outcomes, but it's like, do we qualify, you know?
01:24:55.620
But it's, I mean, it's like damned if you do, damned if you don't at some point.
01:25:00.620
Well, with that attitude, I mean, like, at that point, I mean, listening to everything you're saying, have you been realistic with the men that you're going for?
01:25:05.620
Like, you're saying, like, the men that you're going on dates with, like, your job isn't good enough, this isn't good enough.
01:25:08.620
Have you ever, like, taken time to stop and be like, damn, maybe it is me and not these men?
01:25:16.620
I definitely have, because I'm a Virgo, I'm an overthinker.
01:25:21.620
And so I do be like, and that's why I just told her when she asked, are you, like, really looking?
01:25:25.620
And I'm like, you know what nobody, you need to sit your ass down and get yourself together right now.
01:25:29.620
Because being real about it, you know what I mean?
01:25:31.620
Maybe this is not the time, you know what I mean, for you to be trying to get it if you don't fully have your shit together, if that's what guys are going for now.
01:25:39.620
If you make it to 35 and you're not married, you only have, like, a 15, I think, percent chance, 20 percent chance of ever getting married.
01:25:50.620
The dating pool in L.A. is not the best at all.
01:25:53.620
The men in L.A. are some of the worst men I've ever experienced in my entire life.
01:26:00.620
They are, they are, they act like they want something serious and they want a real relationship
01:26:07.620
And when they get that, they go and turn around and they're like, oh, I have this already.
01:26:14.620
No, it's because women go for a small percentage of men.
01:26:18.620
That's the only thing, though, because at the end of the day, all I care about is making sure that I'm loved.
01:26:23.620
I'd rather have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they love me over someone who's Chris fucking Brown.
01:26:30.620
I'd rather be loved than have somebody with status any fucking day.
01:26:41.620
And I'm not I'm not talking about you guys individually, but there is no shortage of women trying to sleep with Chris Brown, trying to sleep with Drake.
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Trying to sleep with these entertainers, actors, high status celebrities.
01:26:53.620
That women will know for a fact will not be faithful to them.
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The further away you get from a metropolitan area, the better your odds are going to be.
01:27:13.620
It's also really easy to disguise what you're doing if there's so many people around, to
01:27:17.620
Yeah, because I feel like I used to feel the same way.
01:27:18.620
I used to be like, oh my God, I hate dating in LA.
01:27:24.620
But then I came to LA and I was like, I hate dating in LA.
01:27:27.620
I had to sit down and shut the fuck up and be like, well, where am I actually looking
01:27:31.620
And my guy now, who's like a blue collar job, he's not.
01:27:38.620
But a lot of people don't want to admit that those guys sometimes are the best people
01:27:45.620
As much as we say we don't guess the hell we do.
01:27:47.620
We go to social media and say, if you don't have this, if you don't have this kind of
01:27:50.620
money, if you don't fucking drive a Bugatti, you're not worth my time.
01:27:52.620
So a lot of these guys, a lot of these normal guys that we complain aren't around, they're
01:28:01.620
If you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of like a medium-sized
01:28:05.620
city, like 45 minutes outside of it, and you participate in life in that town,
01:28:09.620
and you work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender, that's
01:28:14.620
I get a lot of people that are like nurses, teachers, social workers, they always talk
01:28:18.620
They can't find anybody because they work with all women.
01:28:28.620
Women go into those jobs and then we can't wait to get out of them because you get into
01:28:32.620
And the other issue is women find 80% of men as unattractive.
01:28:41.620
I've tried to go against the gray and they ugly and they still got played, girl.
01:28:52.620
If you're looking for a partner, if you're looking for a spouse, you need to work around
01:28:56.620
men because you have to know the men in order to actually know if they're attractive
01:29:02.620
But the thing is, women will care less about how attractive a man is if they are in close
01:29:12.620
I know, but I'm not talking about what's ideal.
01:29:14.620
No, but I'm talking about what is most people meet at work.
01:29:21.620
I think dating apps personally are the dumbest thing created because personally for me, like
01:29:28.620
At the end of the day, like yes, the first thing you see when you meet somebody is their
01:29:32.620
looks, but like I've dated men that I haven't found conventionally attractive and they have
01:29:41.620
Was it because you knew them from something other than meeting them and like meeting them
01:29:48.620
Well, actually, so before I also bartended on the side when I was doing.
01:29:59.620
So he was, he was more, well, we didn't work at the same bars, but it was like the industry.
01:30:03.620
Austin's a very, very small nightlife industry.
01:30:07.620
So the person that I dated, he was not conventionally attractive at all.
01:30:10.620
Overweight, just not my type that I would see at all, but his personality completely
01:30:19.620
We were together for, I mean, it was, he died while we were talking, but it was a very
01:30:27.620
amazing, we were friends before and then it just kind of switched into something more.
01:30:31.620
But I think it was, it was like, I knew him for a very long time.
01:30:35.620
So I wouldn't say there was really a time of us like talking, but I think that's why
01:30:39.620
I think dating apps are like the dumbest thing ever.
01:30:42.620
I mean, if we, if we meet someone on a dating app, like we only swipe right 5% of the time.
01:30:47.620
So if you're meeting with someone online, like typically he's got a lot of women.
01:30:52.620
I wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for the day.
01:30:57.620
When you want to come on my show, I'm like, you ain't going to ask me out first.
01:31:02.620
A lot of something that I think it really missed too.
01:31:06.620
And if some, if a guy is doing well on a dating app, it's really because he can write sales
01:31:11.620
And that's a problem because it means that men who can write sales copy and know how to
01:31:14.620
take photos that look a certain way are the ones that get chosen over and over.
01:31:20.620
I just want to say that when I'm on a dating app, I do read through what they put on that,
01:31:25.620
on the questions and stuff like that, because you can be the finest motherfucker in the room.
01:31:31.620
And if I can't carry a conversation with you and you're not making me laugh or smile,
01:31:38.620
The guys you're going to match with are the ones that know what to say.
01:31:42.620
I don't know because I've seen a lot of really cute motherfuckers on there saying,
01:31:48.620
But again, but again, you're only, you're only swiping right 5% of the time.
01:31:54.620
And you have to remember on a dating app too, women are the product, right?
01:32:00.620
It's, it's, and they're selling us on some of them.
01:32:12.620
I think it's, at least in LA, it's mainly Bumble and Hinge.
01:32:17.620
That's because most people in LA be crazy as hell and got banned off Tinder already.
01:32:23.620
LA dating really is like, the guys are scared to get used for their money and the women
01:32:37.620
And to be honest with the Los Angeles dating to it from, from being here for like less
01:32:42.620
than a year, I've already noticed that the, what LA is known for is they want that instant
01:32:48.620
gratification when it comes to sex, money, clubs, drugs, everything, instant gratification.
01:32:52.620
They don't want to work for, for it for very long or have it for very long if they've
01:33:00.620
Cause a lot of these people that are in this area, they've worked extremely hard to get
01:33:07.620
Cause I've seen people put their all into like music or whatever their niches.
01:33:11.620
But I'm saying like when it comes to dating, I've noticed that people are very quick to
01:33:17.620
And then, Hey, can you scoot into the table, please?
01:33:29.620
So I'm going to have to be controlling a lot of stuff on here.
01:33:37.620
George Miller is the blank that took Rolo Tamar as a pseudonym.
01:33:44.620
Uh, ordeal, BS visectomy ordeal that is making red pill content go bogus.
01:33:53.620
Thank you for the hundred back again after calling Nala out for her cheating kink.
01:34:03.620
Zoe based as fuck, uh, and impressed by your statements.
01:34:19.620
It is said people have looks or personality girls that rated themselves a 10.
01:34:25.620
Also, why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score?
01:34:37.620
It hasn't historically like with the people I've dated, they've been all over the board
01:34:42.620
like height wise, but I think sometimes it's nice to feel small.
01:34:48.620
I think personally height does matter for me because I'm looking for somebody to be the
01:34:53.620
father of my kids and my dad is five, five and I need somebody to balance out my genes,
01:35:05.620
By the way, guys, it's like I said, major technical issues.
01:35:09.620
TTS is going to be TTS is working, but it's scuffed ish.
01:35:20.620
So I say you gotta be at least taller than my dad.
01:35:28.620
If we have sons, they gotta, they have to be at least taller than five, five.
01:35:40.620
Um, why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score?
01:35:45.620
I think honestly, for me, I'm five, nine when a guy is too tall.
01:35:49.620
Like, cause all of my exes have been around like five, nine, five, eight.
01:35:55.620
Any guy over six, one for me to start, they just start to look funny.
01:35:59.620
So I can't, I think it's like biological because we like, we're looking for a protector.
01:36:15.620
The golden ratio is the objective standard of beauty and preserved, not only across cultures,
01:36:24.620
Look up the Marquardt mask and see how your face conforms to the golden ratio.
01:36:29.620
Well, we could pull it up if our monitors weren't scuffed.
01:36:37.620
Uh, Pearl gave a poor example of red pilled from the matrix.
01:36:49.620
It means you see the world now and see how modern Western women operate.
01:37:01.620
You can't like, would you say the definition of red pill?
01:37:16.620
I apologize that your first chats on an absolute scuff stream because you brought pearly things.
01:37:21.620
All you women are created thoughtfully by loving God.
01:37:24.620
Keep the body count down, but don't live in guilt.
01:37:34.620
Also, guys, the soup chats are going to be a little bit scuffed if I missed a couple of the displays.
01:37:46.620
Do the women in the adult film industry, OF, want to have children?
01:37:54.620
Um, if so, are you worried about the effects your actions will have on them in the future, specifically for boys?
01:38:00.620
Remember, the internet is forever, and what we do in life echoes in eternity.
01:38:09.620
I mean, I didn't really think about it before I got pregnant.
01:38:14.620
Um, but after I did, I definitely, again, I don't regret anything I've done in my life
01:38:21.620
because it has gotten me to where I am today, but I wish I could have went about things differently.
01:38:27.620
I wish I didn't fully get into being able for people to search me up on the hub and stuff.
01:38:35.620
Um, I'm fine with the OnlyFans aspect of it, but yeah, I mean, it is not going to be the easiest when I have, if I do have a son and they go to school and he gets older and his friends are like, hey, you know, your mom's on the hub.
01:38:54.620
So that's also why, like, I'm glad that I took a step back when I did from being on Pornhub.
01:39:06.620
I mean, I think it'll definitely affect children.
01:39:08.620
Like I said before, I've had one of my old managements, she was huge on Pornhub, and her kids are severely bullied because of it.
01:39:16.620
You know, when I get to that point, when I do eventually want to have kids, I'm going to do my best to wipe myself from the internet, but you know what, I made the decisions that I made and I'm okay with that.
01:39:25.620
I think it's just also having a conversation with your kids and sitting them down and letting them know beforehand, because I would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age where people start going on these websites and letting them know so they're aware of it and they can kind of get a thicker skin before they walk into something that they're not aware of.
01:39:43.620
You want to control the narrative a little bit.
01:39:46.620
Have an open and safe space to be able to communicate, open line of communication for your child is super important.
01:39:51.620
My mom was a stripper and it was in a small town, very local, like people knew that she did that.
01:40:01.620
So I always joked that like I worked, I had previous experience at a strip club because I was in my mom's womb while she was the stripper or whatever.
01:40:12.620
So I, I don't know, I just feel as if it's like, as long as you have that open line of communication, I'm not saying that that makes it any easier on the child's experience because obviously the other kids aren't having that same conversation with their parents.
01:40:27.620
But as long as, you know, you're open and you're, they're not finding out through the other kids.
01:40:38.620
And I mean, it's, it's something that like, we're going to have to deal with when it gets to that point, whether it's eight months from now or, or, or 10 years down the line, you know.
01:40:48.620
Are you going to teach your daughters about the industry?
01:40:56.620
I mean, I'm not just going to be like, Hey, here's the porn world.
01:41:05.620
I am not going to judge my children at all on what they decide to do because I don't have the support of my parents at all.
01:41:17.620
And I always said growing up that I would be completely opposite of what my parents have done for me.
01:41:26.620
I will give them guidance if they do decide to sit me down one day and say that they do want to get into the industry.
01:41:32.620
I would give them my experience and what I've went through.
01:41:47.620
It was like an old magazine in the two thousands.
01:41:48.620
And, uh, I like grew up in that house pretty much.
01:41:59.620
So there was like a bunch of models walking around everywhere.
01:42:02.620
Some of them, uh, I remember Easter's, they would have like wrestling matches outside.
01:42:09.620
And like, I grew up around the sex worker industry.
01:42:15.620
Um, so again, I am going to sit my daughter down.
01:42:19.620
And if she decides that that's what she wants to do, I will always be supportive and I will guide her as much as I can to make the wrong or right decisions.
01:42:29.620
I, I, of course you would, you know, you would, you would love your child.
01:42:39.620
No, but again, if that is what they want to do, I will a hundred percent support them and I will 100% have their back.
01:42:44.620
But again, I will give them the experience that I went through and the, the good things and the bad things.
01:42:50.620
And I think, I think that every person, I think that every person can agree that they want to do more for their child than their parent did for them.
01:42:58.620
And they also want more for their child than they had for themselves.
01:43:02.620
And I think it comes down to the kind of life that your child wants.
01:43:05.620
You know, I mean, some porn stars have been offered experiences that they wouldn't otherwise have had.
01:43:11.620
And like, and even with, you know, me and my journey as an OnlyFans model, like to be honest, I, I haven't through my experience as a model because, you know, and I haven't been subject to like some of the toxic aspects of the industry.
01:43:23.620
It's been really a positive experience for me and a really empowering one.
01:43:27.620
And it's offered me, I mean, just through social media, so many like access to experiences that I, I'm really grateful for incredible freedoms.
01:43:35.620
And I absolutely love my life that I've built and the opportunities that I have.
01:43:38.620
And entrepreneurially, I feel like a lot of potential.
01:43:45.620
Well, I mean, I've never really been one of those girls who's like, okay, so you don't care.
01:43:49.620
Single, unmarried women are the happiest demographic.
01:43:52.620
I mean, like, what do you want your life to look like at 65?
01:43:55.620
A lot of friendship, a lot of self-expression, authentic self-expression.
01:44:02.620
But like, my thing is a lot of times people make these decisions and then whine about the consequences later.
01:44:09.620
I think it really just depends on how you go into anything.
01:44:12.620
And like, even just to take it back to like, I mean, like, you know, anything, even if you take it back to the original conversation about,
01:44:18.620
you know, even escorting, I'm like, I think when it comes to any part of like, you know, sexual objectification,
01:44:24.620
it's really like how your, your perspective is, the way that you go into and experience that situation,
01:44:30.620
determines whether or not you feel power from it or you give power through it and you lose power.
01:44:35.620
And whether it becomes like traumatic or empowering, like they're two different things.
01:44:39.620
So, you know, so it's just a really matter of personal preference and opinion.
01:44:43.620
My life, I've never wanted a normal, typical fucking life.
01:44:51.620
I also feel like I would rather, if I was saying where I would be at 60,
01:44:57.620
I would rather be by myself at 60 or 65 and genuinely happy with myself and where I have come in my life
01:45:03.620
than be in a toxic relationship in a husband or whatever.
01:45:10.620
Obviously we have our ups and downs, but like overall I have a very happy relationship.
01:45:16.620
But I feel like you're saying over here that you can't have a happy relationship.
01:45:19.620
You're never going to get married if you're OnlyFans in the industry.
01:45:23.620
I don't do OnlyFans, but I dance and he's very supportive.
01:45:29.620
You don't know what life's going to look like at 35, 40.
01:45:32.620
And I've talked to older women that have done OnlyFans and done corn work.
01:45:36.620
And a lot of times like a guy will date you in his twenties
01:45:39.620
and then like dump you when he wants to find his wife.
01:45:43.620
It's really early to say though what the future looks like for OnlyFans, which is so new.
01:45:47.620
Especially for our generation specifically, it's very, I'm not saying that it's super right,
01:45:54.620
but it is a lot more normalized than a 30-year-old man's generation is.
01:45:59.620
And let's also, too, though, like just acknowledge the fact, too, that OnlyFans is a premium content platform.
01:46:07.620
There's such a wide variety of the kind of content that's on OnlyFans.
01:46:10.620
There's a total stigma, but it is not porn industry.
01:46:14.620
I'm not saying that nobody is going to get married.
01:46:18.620
Especially when you have a really attractive, like you guys are all very pretty.
01:46:24.620
But sometimes like pretty women have different outcomes than the average chick.
01:46:27.620
And so the average chick is going to sign up to OnlyFans.
01:46:33.620
But there are a lot of girls that are going to do OnlyFans and it's not going to end well
01:46:41.620
But you don't know what your life's going to be like in 10, 15, 20 years.
01:46:43.620
I also think, too, like, you know, what somebody does for a period of time doesn't define
01:46:50.620
Because, like, if I'm going to date a guy and he said I went to prison for five years,
01:46:56.620
If he said I got three women pregnant, but don't worry, I've changed.
01:47:02.620
So, Kiana, you said you'd be a nurse if you weren't doing what you're doing now.
01:47:05.620
What would the rest of you do if you weren't doing your current job?
01:47:09.620
I'm sorry, but comparing prison and what was the other thing you said?
01:47:15.620
No, getting somebody, getting three women pregnant.
01:47:17.620
Yeah, comparing prison and OnlyFans and getting three women pregnant, like, those are
01:47:25.620
But, like, the comparison isn't fair because when men go to prison they actually have more
01:47:29.620
women that are interested in them as far as the opposite where OnlyFans has the opposite
01:47:33.620
where you have less men interested in long term.
01:47:41.620
Hey, we're going to redirect the conversation here.
01:47:44.620
For those of you just tuning in or just want to be caught up, we're having major technical
01:47:54.620
I'm struggling to manage the stream right now on my end.
01:48:00.620
Flan Life, thank you for all the gifted subs, man.
01:48:11.620
I'll read them, but yeah, it's just not going to display.
01:48:15.620
Yo, Steel Worker, you got your priorities all messed up.
01:48:21.620
Mike Davis got generational wealth because he doesn't concern himself with these twisted
01:48:40.620
Benningpool says four of you are artificially blessed.
01:48:48.620
Well, I think we should wait until someone comes back from the bathroom to address that
01:49:09.620
I'll only apologize to you, Brian, not for what I said, but I have a soft question I've
01:49:14.620
not asked in a while to the panel, to the OF girls.
01:49:19.620
Okay, do your fathers know about your content or have they disowned you?
01:49:29.620
He knew he was still kind of speaking to me when I was working at the club, but I think
01:49:38.620
my cousin found me or something on the hub and he found out and he does not speak to
01:49:54.620
So, does your father know about your content and has he disowned you?
01:50:05.620
I don't seriously do OnlyFans, but both my parents know about everything I do and have
01:50:14.620
No, seriously, like my mom will like ask me to send her videos.
01:50:22.620
My parents do not know, but I grew up in a very conservative Christian household, so
01:50:26.620
that is a conversation that I prepared myself for the day they do find out.
01:50:35.620
It's been two and a half years and they some found out, but you know, one day they
01:50:41.620
What do you think is the, are they going to disown or do you think it would be okay?
01:50:44.620
I don't think they would fully disown me, but I would definitely get some stern conversations.
01:51:04.620
She doesn't particularly like that I do it, but she also will always support me and always
01:51:11.620
make sure that I still feel loved and cherished and wants the best for me regardless.
01:51:16.620
Um, and my dad, he, um, obviously wasn't really around too much growing up.
01:51:22.620
So I just kind of like, obviously if I had a stronger male figure on my life, I probably
01:51:26.620
wouldn't have been, wouldn't have even gone there.
01:51:28.620
But, um, yeah, no, uh, he's also supportive since being a little bit closer now that I've
01:51:40.620
Like, uh, my mom found out and I cut her off because she is just this very, very conservative
01:51:45.620
Christian with a bunch of opinions and she does nothing with her life.
01:51:50.620
So no, I don't talk to either one of my parents or any of my family cause they all just are
01:52:08.620
Once you post something on the internet, it's there forever.
01:52:16.620
People are really focused on the OF stuff tonight.
01:52:23.620
Single women from 18 to 35 are the happiest demo demographic, but 35 plus single women
01:52:28.620
are the unhappiest demo, uh, in the U S have to look at the whole picture.
01:52:51.620
Well, maybe like, maybe you wouldn't be if you weren't doing OnlyFans.
01:52:54.620
I think if she wasn't making like 70 plus K a month, she'd definitely be more depressed
01:53:12.620
He was asking, um, ladies, are they real or are they enhanced?
01:53:17.620
Betting pool says four of you are artificially blessed.
01:54:03.620
Um, with the first week, I would say the benefits that it came with the attention and
01:54:09.620
I was in a relationship at the time when I got them, but after we broke up, yeah, the attention
01:54:14.620
You know, I kind of, I could kind of tell that men were after me, you know, because
01:54:17.620
I know I had like big double D's and stuff, but physically I don't think they're worth
01:54:21.620
it because I used to get like pleasure from my, you know, aerialism and I can't feel a
01:54:34.620
I just, I didn't, but they've gotten me indoors.
01:54:41.620
Like how, does that affect like breastfeeding later at all?
01:54:46.620
There's like a, it's like a percentage of people cannot breastfeed, but it's like 15% chance.
01:54:55.620
Cause that's always what I think of when I think of that stuff.
01:54:59.620
And then TD, TD, uh, you, you did a 50 before, but it was blank.
01:55:03.620
So I'll read this, but just reminder, a hundred and a 99 and up for read ladies.
01:55:13.620
Uh, ladies, are you comfortable with the cost that you will incur with being in the only
01:55:19.620
The cost is for being a 3FO as you, if you guys want, I don't know what the question
01:55:44.620
Uh, really appreciate all the support guys, especially I'm absolute stress case with all the
01:55:50.620
It's very unfortunate, especially after our last stream was like peak, peak viewership,
01:55:56.620
Now it's just frustrating to go from like our, one of our most viewed streams and then to
01:56:07.620
Cause I knew exactly what the hell I was signing up for, but I feel like, um, like how
01:56:11.620
Pearl was saying earlier, which I'm glad this question came up and she was like, you know,
01:56:14.620
a lot of girls will get into this industry and whine and complain.
01:56:20.620
I only really started seriously dating the moment I was like, I can't say.
01:56:30.620
It's me is I've seen it be more accepted, but being in mainstream porn where you open
01:56:39.620
There's no way because I knew I'm not saying I knew I was low value or whatever you guys
01:56:43.620
like to say high value, low value, but I knew that like my dating was going to be harder.
01:56:47.620
But I feel like a lot of people in only fans are so damn delusional being like, well, I
01:56:58.620
And you'll attract the people who are okay with what you do.
01:57:00.620
But yeah, people want to complain that they can't find something based on their decision
01:57:12.620
I mean, I've just found that the relationships that I have pursued and the people that I'm
01:57:17.620
like really interested in are really open minded and really not judgmental and don't.
01:57:22.620
And I mean, so it really hasn't, I don't know, maybe I'm delusional, but it hasn't affected
01:57:28.620
But I also came into this like way before it was like the fucking cool thing to do.
01:57:33.620
Like I have started doing only fans like, like 2016, 17.
01:57:37.620
So I, you know, it was a lot more difficult for me in the beginning when people are like,
01:57:42.620
what now people, you know, now they feel like it's actually become more accepted.
01:57:45.620
So maybe for me, I'm just used to more harsher judgment and it feels less, less so.
01:57:53.620
So I got some specific questions for each of you individually.
01:57:58.620
You had an interesting first date anecdote, something with a guy with a phone.
01:58:03.620
So I went on, when I first fully got into, um, porn, I was still, or no, I had moved here.
01:58:14.620
So I'm originally from LA, but I had moved back to LA.
01:58:17.620
And that's when like, one of the first videos I did was one of the biggest videos I did.
01:58:21.620
It was a bang bus video, which gets, oh, everyone knows what the bang bus is.
01:58:51.620
So it's you, the person, uh, you're filming with and then the person that's filming and
01:58:59.620
So the first day I went on, he, it was, I was like very new in the industry.
01:59:05.620
Um, so I told him, he told me that he like didn't watch porn.
01:59:13.620
And then literally in the middle, I was like about to hook up with this person.
01:59:19.620
And like, he opened his phone and his phone search history was looked up and it was just
01:59:26.620
And it was like 10 search histories of my name.
01:59:38.620
And like the whole date was, it was great until I literally my, cause I told him my real
01:59:48.620
And so I really like, didn't think that he knew me at all.
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I told him I did only fans, but like I looked prior to meeting him prior or it was during.
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You think he might've like went to the bathroom and looked it up to go see it and then tried
02:00:08.620
Cause I looked, I looked at the timestamps and it was like, Oh shit.
02:00:12.620
Wait, you saw the timestamps and it was like, it was like before, like he's been doing research.
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Cause it's like, you know, when it says today and then like yesterday when on your search
02:00:22.620
How much time did you have to look at his phone?
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He opened his phone in front of me and I saw my name from the side of my eye.
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Almost all the women on the panel are so out of touch of reality.
02:00:42.620
How are you so casual about your debauchery nasty MFS?
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I'm not a man of God, but I'll pray for you all.
02:00:55.620
I don't know if you're just, I don't know if you're just tuning in, but it's been an absolute
02:01:03.620
Not, not just like for technical reasons, not okay.
02:01:07.620
You see on his phone, he was Googling your bang bus video.
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And it was like blacked was your black to video.
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It's just, it's, I've only filmed with bang bros.
02:01:26.620
But, um, what's like the most like your what's, what's, what's,
02:01:33.620
Like the just most shit company that you, I don't know if you want to blast them, but.
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Is that like the one with the big, I don't know.
02:01:51.620
Um, I honestly think it does depend like the, I don't know if it's the CEO or the CFO
02:01:59.620
Um, the way that they run their companies, uh, not the best.
02:02:04.620
Um, but team ski has definitely asked me things that I have not been the most, um, okay with.
02:02:24.620
I asked him at first and then he was like, no, no, no, it's not you.
02:02:26.620
And I was like, I literally just saw like my name, my poor name pop up and it, I scrolled
02:02:32.620
through and it was like days of history of him looking my name up.
02:02:36.620
But did it, but did it start from when you matched with them?
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I didn't look that far back cause we've been talking on and off for a while.
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I ran out of there as fast as I possibly could.
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Cause listen, I, I have dated people that have looked me up like, and, but they're open
02:03:11.620
with the fact of, yes, I've watched your videos and I'm, I'm fine with it.
02:03:16.620
But if you're hiding that you don't know who I am and it's days of search history of my
02:03:32.620
He probably determined that somehow that you were in the industry or something.
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Listen, I love like, I love when guys have watched my videos.
02:03:58.620
Like, I think it's like the guy that I'm kind of talking to right now has like, after
02:04:11.620
My baby daddy has watched my videos and like, I don't mind.
02:04:21.620
Cause you, you, you don't like, he's not the guy you're fucking on camera, right?
02:04:25.620
But the thing is, is the videos are very, very fake and they're very not me at all.
02:04:35.620
Um, so the videos that I have filmed is very, very fake and it's not me.
02:04:44.620
It's not like, I, I see sex very differently from on set and like my personal life.
02:04:48.620
Like my personal life is, I see it as a soul tie connection.
02:05:06.620
And that's why I don't do mainstream videos anymore because for me right now, I still
02:05:12.620
will film, but I would like to film for my only fans with my partner or who I'm with.
02:05:19.620
Um, because I am, I see sex very differently now and I want to have that soul tie and that
02:05:28.620
genuine connection with the person that I am sleeping with because it, it does, it does
02:05:34.620
Like the industry definitely does whether people want to admit it or not.
02:05:38.620
But in any case, your current guy who is the, he's your baby daddy.
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He watches videos of you getting fucked by other guys.
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See for me, like as a dude, like I would know, there's no way I'm looking at the video
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I feel like it's, he was very aware of what I did.
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It was one of the first things I said to him when he walked outside.
02:06:23.620
Um, so your, your core name is Kiana, Kiana Kumani.
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Would you be down to, um, this is a whatever exclusive.
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Do any porn stars ever like, uh, have a middle initial?
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Do you think you could like put another K in there?
02:06:50.620
See, the thing is, is my real name, my real name is spelled, um, my, my real name is with
02:06:58.620
a K as, so Kiana is my real name, but I just spell it differently.
02:07:01.620
So it's K and then my last name also starts with a K.
02:07:07.620
I have some more notes here for, for some of you guys.
02:07:09.620
So CJ photo booth X, um, what is Taurus rising into the mic, please?
02:07:16.620
Um, honestly, I just didn't really know what to put my bio as.
02:07:20.620
So like your rising sign, it's like something from astrology.
02:07:40.620
Um, are you wearing your cross necklace by the way?
02:07:46.620
I purposely took that off before the show because she didn't want you to mention it.
02:08:06.620
She texted in the group chat before we started the podcast.
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She was like, I literally just took off my cross necklace necklace.
02:08:10.620
Yo, should I get rid of the cross necklace for this?
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Well, I, I, I reviewed your guys' Instagrams before.
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And I saw like every photo you're wearing a cross thing.
02:08:46.620
Wait, you say in your profile, something about the law of attraction.
02:08:52.620
Um, the law of attraction, just like meaning that I think I said like something along the
02:08:58.620
lines of like the law of attraction is a powerful thing.
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I believe you attract what you put out and I believe in good karma and bad karma.
02:09:10.620
And I think that if you like, if you go, if you go to people and you speak that and
02:09:16.620
you speak to them and treat them with kindness and respect and dignity, despite disagreements
02:09:21.620
or having difference of opinion, then that, that good karma comes back to you eventually.
02:09:28.620
So like if I attract, if I put that out, then I attract that.
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I'm not going to get, don't get me started on the law of attraction.
02:09:39.620
That sounds, I feel like when people say the law of attraction, this is what I hear.
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I hear, I want to just do nothing and have everything come to me and just be like, yeah,
02:09:51.620
No, I mean, I definitely, I definitely don't think of it in that sense.
02:09:55.620
I don't think that I'm just like doing nothing.
02:09:58.620
Like, I think that, I think that being kind to others is like the least.
02:10:02.620
How much charity work have you done last month?
02:10:05.620
No, I'm just saying like, I need metrics to like quantify.
02:10:10.620
Um, I mean, charity work, like you mean like, like going in like, like, um, what the fuck
02:10:18.620
I'm not, I'm not saying, I'm not saying this like, like I expect that you've done charity
02:10:22.620
It's just like, we'll say, oh, I think being nice and being kind.
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And whenever we like quantify it, there's never anything that we can quantify it.
02:10:31.620
I mean, in the sense of like, a lot of people go throughout their day, just being disrespectful
02:10:36.620
and ignorant and mean to other people for absolutely no fucking reason.
02:10:40.620
So to me, I think that that, I think that that way of life is not going to get those
02:10:55.620
So just show of hands again, who here has an OF or had an OF?
02:11:05.620
Uh, if you guys are comfortable sharing, how much you guys make on OF?
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I just started making about 20 to 30,000 a month.
02:11:37.620
I've had nights where I've taken home five grand.
02:11:41.620
And most of her dancing was in Ohio in a small town as well.
02:11:56.620
Um, would you say that you get, make more from talking to the guys or from dancing to
02:12:03.620
Would you say you make more from talking to guys and kind of having more of like an
02:12:06.620
intimate conversation or more of an intimate dance?
02:12:20.620
And then Zoe, when you were active, how much were you making?
02:12:30.620
So I mean, honestly, literally the most money I made by luck was three grand because I,
02:12:34.620
I hate, I just, I was a great dancer, but talking wise, I cannot stroke a man's ego
02:13:01.620
The most, or different, not different countries, different states.
02:13:02.620
And the most I made when I was, when I was in New York and that was like literally
02:13:13.620
Um, and then the, but like I would average at like Ohio, like most at most was about
02:13:29.620
Pearl babe, holler at me so we can flirt, laugh, share opinions, dreams, aspirations.
02:13:35.620
Entertain a meetup that you'll probably never follow through with.
02:13:49.620
Um, well, speaking of that, um, and we'll come back to you here in just a sec, Pearl.
02:14:14.620
Well, I mean, I wouldn't complain, but I've never like gone for a guy that's six eight
02:14:20.620
Um, but what's your, what's your, just how often do you meet six, eight guys?
02:14:24.620
Um, I like guys with a nice smiles, tall, um, uh, conservative.
02:14:30.620
I like, I like, I like ultra fall, far right men that are like super enough.
02:14:47.620
Is it like conservative not thinking women should vote for right?
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Do you think that's a, like a, like a Republican?
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I don't think that's like a mainstream conservative.
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I think, I guess she's not allowed to have an opinion if she doesn't want women to vote.
02:15:04.620
If I was on a first date, if I was on a, if I was on a first date and you said women
02:15:10.620
You're talking too much to bag one of these guys.
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The reason, so the reason, the reason, the reason that, I'll tell you why I think this
02:15:20.620
It's because men, men are, men are put in selective service.
02:15:23.620
So men are fined $300,000 if they don't, basically it's called conscription.
02:15:29.620
And I just think if we're going to vote, it should be equal, equal rights, equal lefts,
02:15:38.620
So you vote, so you won't get drafted, but you don't think women should vote?
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I vote because I can, but I don't think women should vote.
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Even if you carry the one, it didn't add up for me.
02:16:10.620
Um, no, I've, I've like black or white is fine.
02:16:19.620
Like what do you usually find yourself up with, like ending up with?
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Cause you might not have a type, but like you can end up with certain people.
02:16:29.620
By the way, Pearl, why, uh, why are you in a beef with everyone right now on the internet?
02:16:37.620
Um, well, give us the little, who are you asking about?
02:16:42.620
Well, there's, I think Brittany Venti did a hit piece on you.
02:16:52.620
So Brittany Venti, I don't really, I don't know who she is to be honest.
02:16:57.620
So she just, yeah, she's obsessed with me, I think.
02:17:00.620
Cause she's just every, like, she's just always on my stuff.
02:17:05.620
I look, I don't have anything negative to say about any of these people.
02:17:09.620
For some reason people, there's like 20 people making hit pieces on you, right?
02:17:13.620
Um, well I got into some hot water when I had Nick Fuentes on, like, he's a pretty controversial
02:17:18.620
guy and a lot of people didn't agree with that.
02:17:25.620
He's like, um, he, isn't he basically like a super alt, is he alt right?
02:17:39.620
Um, I just believe in like freedom of speech and I think that like, I think people shouldn't
02:17:43.620
be banned off platforms just because they have extreme opinions.
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Cause I have extreme opinions and some people think that I should be banned off a platform.
02:17:50.620
So I've been very like much into bringing people on that are controversial and like other,
02:17:56.620
like other people are too afraid to have on in my opinion.
02:17:59.620
Um, so that kind of started a lot of the hit pieces.
02:18:09.620
Um, Rolo, you know, I really have always been a fan of Rolo, but yeah, I don't know.
02:18:24.620
Brian would get canceled if I voiced my conservative opinions.
02:18:41.620
What do the girls think about a high transforming the world?
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Images and deep fake videos will most likely take over only fans.
02:18:50.620
When that day comes, OF will be controlled by dudes scamming other dudes.
02:18:56.620
I'll have the girls come in on this in just a sec here.
02:18:58.620
Uh, one thing I do want to point out, and I don't know if any of the girls will admit
02:19:03.620
I'm sure a lot of girls on only fans, they're not the ones messaging dudes.
02:19:07.620
Like y'all got messenger dudes to like message on your behalf.
02:19:23.620
You, you, you, when you were doing, are you still, you're not still doing it, right?
02:19:36.620
I have a lot of time on my hands because of my OF.
02:19:37.620
So, I mean, I guess I could, I guess I could grant them the.
02:19:40.620
A lot of these girls who have OF, they have like a management company that does like everything
02:19:46.620
I think there are different levels of management cause I know a lot of girls and I know a lot
02:19:50.620
of guys who do managing and there are some managements who all they do is they get you,
02:20:00.620
And then there are ones that go as far as to like take over every aspect and all you do
02:20:05.620
is take pictures and send it or even they'll set up photo shoots and whatnot.
02:20:11.620
It, it totally depends on what the girls level, like what she wants.
02:20:15.620
I mean, yeah, honestly, I do have help on mine.
02:20:17.620
That's not saying I have somebody completely run my shit.
02:20:20.620
I do run some of it, but like I have 50,000 people messaging me.
02:20:23.620
So like I could not do that individually as a person unless I want to be on my phone
02:20:34.620
And with Kirsten, she lives with me and she was one of the, one of the people that I went
02:20:38.620
to guidance for with OF because I knew absolutely nothing about it when I started.
02:20:43.620
And she saw me struggling, like still struggling to like keep up with messages.
02:20:48.620
I would constantly be stressed out about, oh, I got to go on my phone and answer this
02:20:52.620
and that and the third and like, but I wanted to give people like a, the actual real experience.
02:20:57.620
To me, I'd rather take my time and put it into my content to make sure I'm giving these
02:21:03.620
If they're going to pay for it, then sit there 24 seven and answer these messages.
02:21:09.620
I'd rather put my time and energy into the content that I'm making.
02:21:13.620
Also, especially when it comes to custom requests too, like that's you making that custom for
02:21:21.620
You're still aware and up to date of what the conversation is.
02:21:25.620
I just think it is easier to get some help, especially when it does come to customs or
02:21:30.620
certain requests of being able to have somebody help and filter and be like, hey, this is
02:21:35.620
And these are the certain videos that need to be done for the day.
02:21:41.620
And if you don't think it's me, ask me for a fucking voice memo.
02:21:46.620
Yeah, there's several messages that I will respond to, but it's not always.
02:21:50.620
Move your mic this way because you're blocking.
02:21:57.620
So, sorry guys, I'm getting distracted here from something.
02:22:02.620
Can you pull your hair just so we can see the cross?
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I just, I think it looks nice with my other necklace.
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I just think it looks nice with my other necklace.
02:22:35.620
You don't think that's slightly disrespectful though to like Christianity?
02:22:40.620
I think Christianity has caused so many problems in so many ways that out of all of the religions,
02:22:52.620
I just don't think Christianity gets the space to say like, hey, don't be disrespectful to
02:22:58.620
Cause there's just, there's so many, so many different kinds of Christianity and different
02:23:04.620
individual Christians who are so hateful and so judgmental.
02:23:08.620
And you know, like, I just don't think that you get to have that place to say that anymore.
02:23:14.620
And if somebody wants to come at me for that, then that's fine.
02:23:19.620
I think I could say that about all people, to be honest.
02:23:22.620
I mean, the left is in my opinion, like the most judgmental group ever.
02:23:40.620
Um, this had to do, Oh, the going back to single, I think we got to you.
02:24:23.620
Um, can I, can I, can I hook you up with, um, bless, blessed, blessing?
02:24:48.620
I got someone else I could set you up with though.
02:25:13.620
I know you wouldn't expect it, but that's my preference.
02:25:52.620
I guess you can't put your OnlyFans in your bio.
02:25:58.620
Chicks on the, you know, y'all putting your cash app, your, your Venmo.
02:26:09.620
Which could therefore create opportunity to date.
02:26:15.620
But yeah, I got banned on hand, unfortunately, so it's all good.
02:26:20.620
These are the most like random non sequitur questions.
02:26:26.620
You have, I don't know if you can show these, but you have a vanity tattoo, a psycho tattoo,
02:26:39.620
And a lot of my tattoos, I like to get to piss people off.
02:26:41.620
Cause I used to live like in the, you know, just the deep, the what's called the Bible
02:26:46.620
And I used to be, I used to work at, um, a cell phone store and used to be like customer
02:26:53.620
I would just like spark really interesting conversations.
02:26:55.620
So, but the vanity tattoo I got when I was 19 and I pretty much got it because I believe
02:27:00.620
in kind of like owning your, the negative parts about yourself.
02:27:05.620
So like I was 19 and I was vain and I'm 27 and still very vain, just very humble now.
02:27:09.620
And so I don't, you know, I'm just like wearing it on my body, you know, so like accepting
02:27:13.620
my flaws before anyone else can put judgment on me.
02:27:16.620
And then the sinner tattoo, um, that definitely was, I'm a agnostic atheist.
02:27:21.620
So like I heavily, heavily, heavily quite literally hate religion.
02:27:26.620
Um, so it was kind of like a slap in a face to my mother who is, um, conservative Christian.
02:27:33.620
Like I said, I like pissing people off, I guess.
02:27:35.620
So that's where I got the sin from and Zoe's sin.
02:27:44.620
So by Ronique, um, when's the last time you were in a relationship?
02:29:13.620
Uh, married, relationship, and then Pearl is in the bathroom.
02:29:52.620
I'd honestly, I'd honestly drop all of them for somebody in this room.
02:30:24.620
I have already filmed content with every single girl that is a roommate of mine.
02:30:43.620
If they, if they tell me they have a girlfriend, I'm completely, they're off.
02:31:55.140
Wait, but how many guys are you dating right now?
02:32:01.200
When's the last time you hooked up with a dude?
02:32:08.640
Yeah, I want you so badly, but I'm so bad at saying no, bro.
02:32:16.020
Okay, the last time I hooked up with a dude was, like, maybe, like, two days ago, yeah.
02:32:46.280
But this guy you recently hooked up with, are you going to continue seeing him, or was it a one-time thing?
02:32:57.300
Dude, these girls, I don't even want to talk about it.
02:33:00.200
They're just going to fucking, I don't even want to talk about it.
02:33:03.980
Wait, is it just four of you in the house, or is there another?
02:33:17.440
Do you each have your own bedroom, or do you share a bedroom?
02:33:31.620
There's too many hot females in that house for us to say what area.
02:33:34.000
Sometimes I forget I'm talking to a lot of people.
02:33:40.480
We used to, no, honestly, okay, it's been better.
02:33:44.580
It's a merry-go-round of who's arguing with you.
02:33:48.260
Who argues the most with each other out of the four of you?
02:34:01.300
This is the longest we've gone without arguing about anything, to be honest.
02:34:05.660
We always usually argue about the dumbest stuff.
02:34:08.400
Actually, the stupidest, not even significant at all, whatsoever.
02:34:11.980
The last time we really got into an argument was about my baby daddy.
02:34:33.620
I mean, it wasn't like he could have gotten me pregnant, too, so I consider that a win.
02:34:38.680
That was a one-time drunk thing for them, and then they started being very good friends
02:34:43.220
Yeah, and it was completely platonic after that.
02:34:58.920
No, I just can't imagine, like, going from that to being, like, platonic friends.
02:35:06.080
I mean, when you don't have, like, that sexual connection with someone, it just kind of,
02:35:12.060
it honestly, like, ruled it out for both of us, and it just made us more of just, like,
02:35:18.460
Men and women cannot be friends, especially in that close proximity.
02:35:21.880
Men and women can be friends if you're not attracted to each other.
02:35:24.480
So, do you think it's disrespectful if you are dating someone new and you have someone
02:35:36.500
Yeah, it depends on the nature of the relationship.
02:35:37.620
Yeah, I think it, one, depends on the comfortability of you and in your relationship.
02:35:44.040
If it's something new, then, like, if that's a boundary for the other person, then that's
02:35:48.600
to be something that's communicated and respected both ways.
02:35:51.740
But if, if you were, if you were, like, you can't go out to a club and then get mad at
02:35:58.440
your girlfriend or your boyfriend or whatever situation you're in if there's somebody that
02:36:03.200
they're, that they've hooked up with or been attached to in the past there.
02:36:08.300
I think she means, like, choosing to keep someone in your life, hanging out with them
02:36:13.260
and stuff, like, that you've hooked up with in the past, even though you're in a committed
02:36:20.160
Yeah, I think it's, I think it's disrespectful to the partner if it's, if that's, like, something
02:36:25.760
Yeah, I mean, that's, I don't, it really is so circumstantial that it's hard to, like,
02:36:29.820
I feel like that's a boundary that just depends on each situation.
02:36:33.900
I just kind of think of things from, like, a guy's point of view.
02:36:36.400
So I'm thinking, if I'm a guy and I'm, like, looking to date a girl, like, why would
02:36:39.060
I want to date a girl that has a bunch of dudes around that have, like, ate her out or
02:36:44.300
Isn't that, isn't that kind of a red flag for a guy's point of view?
02:36:48.000
If that's, like, something, like, like I said, I'm single for a fucking reason.
02:36:51.720
Like, and, but sometimes, like, you know, people stay friends with their ex, you know,
02:36:57.300
their ex, sometimes they have, like, a ex, like, marriage.
02:37:00.080
I think that, I think that could be, but often it's, like, I, yeah, like, you know, sometimes
02:37:04.980
a friendship remains, like, I mean, I think it really depends, like, on the nature of the
02:37:14.560
I think it really does depend on the situation, because one of my exes, we are, like, not attracted
02:37:19.420
to each other anymore at all on any level whatsoever, but I love this person so much
02:37:24.460
as the person that he is, and, like, we are just very good friends.
02:37:28.360
Like, I've met his current girlfriend, and, like, she's very aware of the situation, and,
02:37:34.260
I feel like it's very different when you, like, move on.
02:37:36.540
Yeah, but if you had a boyfriend who said the same thing about one of his friends, would
02:37:40.320
you feel comfortable with him hanging out with her?
02:37:43.220
I think it does depend on the situation, because he has categories.
02:37:47.220
They, I don't think that that's, I don't think that's a thing for men.
02:38:00.340
I think for me, personally, if I'm in, like, a friendship with a guy, and I've hooked up
02:38:04.940
with them before, it, like Elle said, it rules, it cancels out that kind of, like,
02:38:09.340
I feel like every guy and girl friendship has some kind of level of sexual tension.
02:38:14.800
So I think once that is, like, ruled out, and it's like, okay, I am not, yeah, I do,
02:38:22.860
At all, I think you can genuinely have a good friendship.
02:38:26.280
I'm not saying that that's the only way to have a good friendship, but I think that that
02:38:29.600
is, like, you can still be friends with somebody that you've slept with before.
02:38:40.680
Everyone who's watching on Twitch, by the way, unfortunately, we can't shout anybody out
02:38:44.900
because our, what's that, can somebody fix that peeping?
02:38:48.400
Just unplug the monitor, I guess, just from the back.
02:39:02.760
Twitch.tv slash whatever mods if you could spam in the chat.
02:39:05.920
Yeah, sorry, guys, it's a little hard to run the show because our monitor's gone.
02:39:08.420
It's scuffed, so, okay, we have a chat here from Tolu Alimi.
02:39:20.960
Last show, a few panelists, when asked, well, I think it was one panelist, but when asked
02:39:25.720
what advice they'd give to women who are physically abused in relationships, said the partner should
02:39:34.860
Curious your takes, Brian and Pearl, and the rest of the panel, too.
02:39:38.420
Okay, yeah, this is, like, went crazy viral on Twitter and a couple other places.
02:39:44.600
Yeah, first off, the short clip that Mel posted, I don't know if she edited it or if it was somebody
02:40:00.400
So, MLD was saying that you should endure, I'm not even sure if he said, like, I think
02:40:08.180
he was talking about in general, but, like, because she threw in, well, what should you
02:40:12.980
And then she threw in this other stuff about abuse.
02:40:17.080
My take is, if you're being abused, whether emotionally, physically, whatever it may be,
02:40:21.880
but your question is physically abused, like, get out, like, end.
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The relationship, get divorced, like, don't stay.
02:40:30.700
However, they decided to, like, crop in, like, Chase, and then they cropped in Mary, and then
02:40:35.520
John, and then they put, I didn't even say anything during that entire segment, and they
02:40:41.500
And then, like, people are thinking, every single one of us, like, they showed our face
02:40:44.940
in the segment, that we co-signed on his endure statement, which is not true.
02:40:51.080
If you're in an abusive relationship, like, marriage, relationship, whatever, that's pretty
02:40:56.380
justifiable, extremely justifiable reason to leave and get out.
02:41:02.360
Yeah, when I watched the full clip, I was actually really surprised, because I didn't really
02:41:06.280
take it that that's what he meant, but when they cut it up like that, it just seemed like
02:41:10.380
he said something he didn't say, but that's what a lot of these, like, reactions, and I'll
02:41:13.720
say this as a content creator, like, a lot of the reaction channels will take clips to,
02:41:17.860
like, put you out of context and, like, say things that you didn't say, and kind of, like,
02:41:24.760
And Mel, the Destiny's wife, it was her clip that she made, which I think is pretty disingenuous,
02:41:31.420
because if you watch the whole thing, I think MLD got a little, like, he was fucking seven
02:41:38.120
Look, if he, I'm not, I'm not going to co-sign what he said, disavow.
02:41:42.080
Disavow, but, like, it sounded like, to me, like, they were asking about divorce in general,
02:41:48.300
and he was saying, endure, endure, and then, like, somewhere through that, she brings up
02:41:57.200
Well, and so, I kind of look at this question a little differently, because my question is,
02:42:04.300
And I need specifics, and, like, the reason I need specifics is women cry abuse for everything,
02:42:11.760
Like, if you go to, and I know this because I'm doing a divorce documentary, and so I'm
02:42:17.120
actually interviewing men that are in the process of getting, like, absolutely wrecked by divorce,
02:42:20.900
and a lot of them have had false allegations put out against them.
02:42:24.000
And a lot of those, basically what the feminists do is they expand the definition of abuse to
02:42:28.320
include things like coercive control, financial abuse, and even physical abuse.
02:42:32.340
A lot of times, like, girls don't talk about how they hit first, and most abusive situations
02:42:38.220
are mutually abusive, meaning they're both hitting each other.
02:42:41.620
And so a lot of times what girls will do is they'll say, oh, I'm being abused, but they
02:42:47.280
Like, I had a girl on the show say I was physically abused, and I used to just believe women.
02:42:51.440
Like, I genuinely, I would always just be like, oh, I'm so sorry.
02:42:53.660
But then you start asking questions, and it baffles me how women, like, turn the situation
02:43:03.260
Like, this one girl, she came on my show, she said I was physically abused.
02:43:13.220
Like, so she's trespassing on his property, saying I'm not going to leave, and he pushes
02:43:19.520
Or another thing that girls do is they'll edge a guy on.
02:43:22.500
Like, I saw a clip of a dude, of a girl, basically making fun of a guy for having a
02:43:30.920
And that's, like, the other side of this that we don't talk about, is that a lot of
02:43:34.380
times, like, the feminists or whatever will try to get a gotcha question, because they'll
02:43:40.080
But, like, I know the ins and outs of this, because I interview the men that are falsely
02:43:46.700
So, and the one thing that guys should know is if a girl says she was abused and she didn't
02:43:50.560
file a police report, like, because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone
02:44:00.480
So it's more, like, it's more likely true if it's in criminal court.
02:44:03.460
If it's real abuse, yeah, I mean, you should leave.
02:44:06.980
But my issue is, like, a lot of times it's not actually real abuse what they're talking
02:44:12.120
And they don't talk about the other side, where a lot of times the girls start it.
02:44:16.680
I don't know about that example of somebody saying, of the woman saying that, telling
02:44:21.280
the husband that he had a dead son, and then she hits him.
02:44:29.620
If someone taunts you, or if you taunt someone and they hit you, is that acceptable?
02:44:33.900
I didn't say it's acceptable, but it's not like, like, they're paying.
02:44:43.400
But you can't, you can't punch someone because they say something that hurts your feelings.
02:44:50.940
Wait, tilt your microphone so it's facing straight.
02:44:53.580
I'm not saying it's okay, but we don't talk about the other side, where a lot of times
02:44:58.580
So it's not like he's this horrible, like, is that, in that situation, is that something
02:45:04.320
I mean, like, obviously that's a crazy, toxic relationship.
02:45:06.460
But, like, they'll act like, oh, the guy isn't the horrible person.
02:45:13.020
And also, like, a lot of times, you know what girls do?
02:45:17.140
Like, I have literally, like, gone through these, like, the, like, subpoena or whatever
02:45:21.960
it is when they have to get the stuff from the women.
02:45:24.680
Women know that they get perks from the government if they accuse a guy of abuse.
02:45:30.080
There was a girl that had in-text messages, I wish he would just hit me, because if he
02:45:36.960
hit her, she gets a free lawyer from the government.
02:45:40.740
And so this is, like, these are the situations that, like, the left doesn't talk about, where
02:45:48.260
And, like, and it's so sad, because women that are actually abused are the ones that suffer
02:45:54.140
Because women are going around calling everything abuse, everything grape.
02:45:57.500
And most of the women who suffer from abuse actually suffer in silence, and don't speak
02:46:01.680
on it ever, and are terrified, and even, you know, and it makes it difficult, too, but
02:46:12.440
Yeah, the people who hate it the most, they don't say anything.
02:46:14.280
I mean, in my opinion, like, I really think we need to go off of evidence.
02:46:17.820
Like, I just think that false, like, false accusations and abuse is so rampant that we have to go
02:46:22.460
off of evidence, and we should encourage women that are actually abused to go to the police.
02:46:26.560
Because now we're in a situation where if you don't go to the police, how can I just
02:46:29.980
believe you when women go around falsely accusing men all the time?
02:46:33.800
I mean, also, I think there are certain situations where you don't have evidence.
02:46:37.820
Like, if I get hit, but it's not leaving a bruise, how are you supposed to show the evidence
02:46:44.180
And I think you also need to go to police officers and tell them to take it more seriously,
02:46:49.220
because I can't tell you how many times that I have had friends had something happen, and
02:46:55.920
they've gone to the police, and the police do absolutely nothing.
02:46:59.560
Well, is it possible that maybe it didn't happen?
02:47:02.760
Because we're not really going to get into it, but I was there.
02:47:06.200
Okay, if you, if you, like, my whole point isn't about, my whole point is we need to go
02:47:12.700
Like, in society, we cannot just openly believe women because they say something.
02:47:19.120
I'm not talking about, look at, I'm not talking about your.
02:47:21.420
But this is what I'm asking you, is what do you mean by evidence, you know?
02:47:23.720
Was I supposed to sit there and get my camera out?
02:47:36.920
Okay, I don't know, I don't know the ins and outs of every situation, so I don't really want
02:47:42.420
Yeah, no, I'm just saying that when you say, like, if a girl hasn't taken it to the cops,
02:47:46.840
then she's lying, that's not a blanket statement.
02:47:49.980
Well, your friend did take it to the cops, right?
02:47:58.860
Thank you for the super chat, but yeah, I think you're digging there, Tolu.
02:48:03.780
I don't know if you're digging for something, but yeah, all right, we have TJ King,
02:48:08.420
Do you women think that a blue-collar man that works 80 plus hours a week is more looked
02:48:12.480
over in today's, yeah, by the way, Tolu, thank you for the, oh my God, all right, is more
02:48:17.320
looked over in today's society than a woman who has an OF?
02:48:23.920
Do you women think that a blue-collar man that works 80 plus hours a week is more looked
02:48:28.480
over in today's society than a woman who has an OF?
02:48:32.060
I think he's asking if I think he means less desirable.
02:48:35.060
No, I don't, I think, I think a blue-collar man, I think a blue-collar man is more desirable
02:48:41.760
I think a blue-collar man is more desirable to any woman, OnlyFans or not, than an OnlyFans
02:48:51.900
is to a mass majority of men that aren't trying to subscribe to her.
02:49:02.320
I think it depends how hot the OnlyFans model is.
02:49:08.360
As someone who dates nothing but regular guys, no.
02:49:10.920
I mean, you know what, maybe you're not wrong, 50,000 people subscribed to Kirsten.
02:49:13.940
I can say as someone who actually actively loves dating blue-collar, I mean, honestly, I
02:49:17.720
really don't like white-collar men, you know, I'm not really into that finance road tech
02:49:22.040
But I look for them, you know what I mean, like, I make sure I'm open enough to them,
02:49:25.740
but as someone who works with nothing but women, hell yes, I mean, I feel like some
02:49:29.620
of them, a lot, are kind of airheadish and a little, like, too full of themselves, and
02:49:34.000
they'll be like, oh my god, you can't make as much money as I do, you're not worth my
02:49:41.280
All right, we have Kiyoshi Gadget, think for the hundred men in the manosphere, and then
02:49:46.420
to hear the truth that astrology will make you powerful, know thyself.
02:49:50.900
The ruling class have always made moves with the planets, because these giant consciousnesses
02:49:59.660
It's too foolish to write off the metaphysical.
02:50:08.900
I think we already talked about astrology a little earlier on.
02:50:12.600
Apparently now our overlays are, is the monitor working again or no?
02:50:17.320
Well, apparently I'm seeing the overlays now, so that's good.
02:50:24.860
The room probably smells like La Croix, cheap perfume, and a warm turtle tank.
02:50:36.120
For the girl wearing the cross, low-key, you can buy me a drink sometime.
02:50:47.240
Why would somebody a drink doesn't have to be like that, though?
02:51:01.560
Okay, we're going to go around the table on this.
02:51:03.940
Actually, we're not going to go around the table on this.
02:51:05.740
So, Zoe, you had a viral video recently on TikTok where you were giving some dating advice.
02:51:15.800
Yeah, it was like dating advice that no one wants to hear.
02:51:20.300
Common sense dating advice that you don't want to hear, but you need to hear.
02:51:24.520
We were going to pull it up and watch it, but unfortunately, we can't.
02:51:29.700
So, I don't know if you've committed it to memory, but what were the tips that you offered in that first video?
02:51:37.640
I think the very first one, if someone wants to pull it up, we can just because I've already made like six of them.
02:51:44.580
So, I would say the very first one was, let's see, like don't complain about cheating if you're willing to stick around for it.
02:51:50.560
You either shut up and move on and learn how to work through it or leave.
02:52:06.400
But I think the one that pisses most people off is that I said men have it harder in life, especially financially.
02:52:16.960
And yes, I know like my, what I compared it to, I was like, you know, like men can't just sit here and bust their coochie open on OF for 10 grand a month.
02:52:26.320
I was a little biased because it's literally my life.
02:52:39.240
So, who has it harder when it comes to dating, men or women?
02:52:44.020
I think it definitely does depend on the situation.
02:53:01.820
That's so funny that everyone's saying this now because the girlies in the comment were calling me pick Misha.
02:53:11.240
I feel like a lot of things in life, men have it harder.
02:53:20.620
Well, I don't know if it's equally have it hard.
02:53:22.680
I think women have certain difficulties that perhaps men don't have.
02:53:26.700
And men have difficulties that women don't have.
02:53:29.540
I think, generally speaking, men have definitely a harder time with dating.
02:53:35.560
Yeah, I would say that men have a pretty rough time.
02:53:37.180
If you, like you have these guys in your comments asking if they're being overlooked because they're blue collar.
02:53:43.800
And now it becomes this issue where, and you talk about this, and actually you do too, Brian, but a very small pool of men are the ones that get all of the attention.
02:53:53.120
Even though there are lots of good, hardworking men who would love to find somebody good and have a relationship, but because women are the gatekeepers of sex, they have to compete.
02:54:04.560
And it can be really discouraging and extremely lonely.
02:54:06.660
And that's why, like, after, it took me about a week to make a response video to all the girlies in my comments being like, pick me, pick me.
02:54:14.080
Because I really, I had to sit down with a few of my girlfriends just to make sure that, like, maybe my comment was a little, like, fucked up.
02:54:19.840
Maybe I should, like, do some self-introspection, which is everything that I preach.
02:54:23.820
And then I came down to it as I do feel like in society, especially when it comes to dating, we hold the power.
02:54:31.860
Which, I mean, that's just the way the world works around it right now.
02:54:34.300
But I don't feel like we give men enough compassion for the hardships that they face.
02:54:40.880
I don't, I mean, in my relationship now, it's the first relationship I've actually practiced loving somebody unconditionally.
02:54:48.380
So, like, when it comes to, like, money and when it comes to, like, dick size, all this kind of shit that we're so, like, I don't love you unless you have this.
02:54:57.400
And I feel like a lot of women take this and they're like, okay, cool, you want this out of a man.
02:55:02.460
But I do not feel that the question, what do you bring to the table, is a bad question to ask.
02:55:06.940
Because if all you can bring me is that you have a fat ass and you have a pretty face and you can fuck good, that's going to get the man.
02:55:15.100
That's the reason why I don't care about the, oh, she's just a porn star and OnlyFans girl.
02:55:20.220
And half of the men that have gotten to know me can all say the same thing.
02:55:26.520
And I'm like, well, because I'm capitalizing off the market, okay?
02:55:31.060
But I feel like a lot of women that I meet, which is the reason why 90% of my friends are guys,
02:55:35.660
and I know this is, like, feeding in some more of the pick-me thing, but no, I feel like men hold me accountable.
02:55:42.780
I don't feel like a lot of women hold themselves accountable.
02:55:44.840
So we're, like, always preaching these standards.
02:55:51.420
I'm literally, my shit is middle ground because I feel like women preach these crazy standards that they can't even upkeep themselves.
02:55:59.560
And, like, you know, like the whole men want a traditional wife, but they're not traditional men.
02:56:03.500
But I feel like women are taken, like, when a man says, oh, I don't want a girl with a high body count, we're like, that man's trash.
02:56:13.660
But then I feel like when women say, like, oh, you know, I want a man to make this amount of money, it's not coming from a place of, like, she knows who she is.
02:56:24.520
She's coming from a place of, like, what society is sort of what they should want in men.
02:56:40.560
It's a really nice vibe to enjoy a coffee to and fire up the business.
02:56:51.620
In that same vein, it's like it's never our fault when things go wrong.
02:56:54.700
And that's something that I see a lot when women talk about different aspects of life.
02:56:58.900
It's never, if you pick shitty guys, it's never your fault.
02:57:01.780
If you go into too much student debt, it's never your fault, right?
02:57:05.640
If you don't negotiate well when you're trying to get a job, it's never your fault.
02:57:08.540
And that really hurts women because it doesn't actually empower us to take any sort of agency over our own lives
02:57:15.400
and actually make decisions and be responsible for our own actions.
02:57:18.440
But men have to do that because if they do not, they are not attractive partners.
02:57:22.300
And that's really an unfair standard that our society has, particularly in the U.S., I think that that's a real problem.
02:57:32.580
You know what I was thinking about, which is crazy?
02:57:34.680
If you're a 1% guy, like top 1%, let's just say height, money, looks, whatever, you can't expect a virgin.
02:57:49.660
I'm not saying they don't want it, but they don't expect it.
02:57:55.140
And that's just kind of speaks to the dating pool for like men today.
02:57:58.820
You can get like to the top like 1% of men and you don't expect a virgin.
02:58:04.840
I mean, like what do men look for typically, historically?
02:58:09.560
And attractiveness, obviously, pretty and shape.
02:58:11.580
And so it's like you have a guy that can get to like the pinnacle of what women want, like, you know, tall, muscles, money, whatever.
02:58:19.800
And like those guys don't expect a virgin because like the quality of women has just gone down today.
02:58:29.940
And like you know that after like 5 to 7 partners, your chance of a happy marriage drops to like 20% in 10 years roughly.
02:58:45.280
I mean, you're going to find different studies that you're going to.
02:58:48.140
I do think that part of the reason that your chance of a happy marriage go down is because you have more experience and you know what you want.
02:58:56.880
And a lot of people settle in marriage and relationships.
02:59:01.260
I mean, I just want to ask like how is it working?
02:59:04.300
Like how is women having more partners working in society?
02:59:07.320
Is it leading us to having more fulfilling, long, happy relationships or not?
02:59:14.840
Wait, so 100 years ago only 15% of women admitted to premarital sex.
02:59:22.520
And then, let's say they're big liars and we double it.
02:59:26.360
Okay, that's still two out of three that were virgins on their wedding night.
02:59:28.840
And so, like my question is, are relationships in a better place today than they were 100 years ago?
02:59:34.560
Because say what you want about relationships 100 years ago.
02:59:37.740
You cannot tell me that the way relationships are today are working.
02:59:40.580
Like half of our generation is afraid of getting married because of what we've seen in our parents.
02:59:47.100
Because our parents stayed together because they felt like they had to.
02:59:51.060
I mean, I can't speak for your parents or my parents.
02:59:56.720
For so long, women didn't have the autonomy to say no and to ask for what they want.
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I think the man gets to say, no, that doesn't make me happy.
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But the thing is, is it was only one-sided for so long.
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I want to look at what outcomes have women had.
03:00:36.800
90% of women have been on contraceptives at one point in their life.
03:00:40.800
Women are on antidepressants more than ever before.
03:00:48.780
Well, why can't we have a conversation about women without saying, but men?
03:00:58.300
But I'm saying, like, if we're so happy and promiscuity leads to great things, why is it
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when our body counts go up where we have more STDs, more abortions, we're on antidepressants
03:01:12.320
I don't think antidepressants has anything to do with body count.
03:01:17.400
I personally don't think that it's just like, oh, yeah, you should just fuck whoever, whenever,
03:01:23.140
at any time you want, just legs wide open, anyone can get in.
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But I do think that it is your, it's your life and your decision.
03:01:35.340
If you, if I want to have more than one sexual partner in my life, that's, it, I have.
03:01:43.920
On that topic, let me just come in here for a sec, Pearl.
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If you want to have more than one sexual partner at a time, what's the most you've had at one
03:01:57.460
Like, if I don't want to only ever have sex with one sexual partner.
03:02:03.800
Now that the U.S. government has admitted that UFOs are real and we are about a year
03:02:08.140
from them admitting non-human intelligence is real and has visited us, would you date
03:02:22.820
Would you date outside your, like, I would definitely fuck an alien.
03:02:35.520
But, like, if it was a humanoid alien, you know?
03:02:37.720
But if it was, like, some fucking weird looking, yeah.
03:02:51.240
I'm just picturing some kind of, like, giant spider with, like, fangs or some shit coming
03:03:13.460
Who here would, let's say it's, like, an alien, but it kind of looks like a human, like, human
03:03:22.580
But, I don't know, it's got, like, some weird, I don't know.
03:03:52.020
Okay, we were talking about, you said you've only dated one person at a time.
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No, I actually, it, like, really stresses me out.
03:04:05.380
Bro, your friends are throwing you under the bus.
03:04:11.080
Okay, so you're saying that maybe there's, like, Chaz on Sunday and Gustavo on Monday.
03:04:18.600
No, it really stresses me out to try and juggle relationships, so I really try to avoid it.
03:04:23.900
In a 72-hour period, what's the most amount of guys that you've, like, ever hooked up with?
03:04:40.980
Yeah, but I, when I was saying, like, sexual partners, I meant more, like, relationship-wise.
03:04:46.180
Like, if I am involved with someone, I don't want to be involved with anybody else at the same time.
03:04:53.640
Honestly, I've had my nights where I got a little too fucked up and made poor decisions.
03:05:34.280
I think it would be worse if it was, like, one, and then, like, 30 minutes later, other dude.
03:05:46.280
Well, in terms of, like, the scale of, like, sexual ethics and morality, which is...
03:05:55.400
You think a threesome is better than, like, back-to-back?
03:05:57.180
I think a threesome would be better than back-to-back.
03:06:04.180
Yeah, like, because the second dude is just, like...
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And we're going around the table on this one, so get ready.
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I think it probably was within a fortnight, so I'll say three.
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Well, I was pissed at the first one, so I kind of got back at him.
03:07:19.380
I've had five shoots in 14 days before, and one of those shoots was a threesome, so seven.
03:07:59.420
So wait, are you talking about, like, how many people you've hooked up with within a
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Throughout your whole life, and then also a 14-day period.
03:08:08.380
Throughout my whole life, I've already been over this.
03:08:24.280
Unless you're talking about threesomes, because I wasn't a polyamorous relationship with a female.
03:08:28.420
At one point in my life, and that was the last relationship I was in.
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Oh, by the way, chat, can you let me know, did Flann Life gift 50?
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Because I had an ex-girlfriend, we had a threesome with, well, it's still the same girl, so do I count the same girl twice?
03:09:05.560
Okay, then still two, because, yeah, still two.
03:09:25.720
So, you said, so, like, I don't know, I think my.
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When I was, like, 19, I had a foursome with three girls in the back of my Honda Civic, and then, I don't know, so I'd say 72 hours, probably, like, five.
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There was some in the front, some in the back, and the little car.
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By the way, just a reminder, Reed is $199 and up.
03:10:40.720
Well, first off, to show of hands, should body count matter?
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Raise your hand if you think body count shouldn't matter.
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Obviously, my dumb ass is going to say it shouldn't matter.
03:11:16.600
Well, so with that said, for those of you, well, we're going to ask everyone, but if body
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count shouldn't matter, what's your body count?
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I'm not a weird high school boy that keeps it in my notes.
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I know it's definitely over like 50, probably over 90.
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Her answer was, I think it's about 200, including men and women.
03:12:13.420
I consensually started having sex when I was 15.
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I honestly, honestly don't think it's anywhere close to 200.
03:12:30.920
Even if it's like 100, do you feel like sex has changed for you since you like had a lower
03:12:37.940
I think sex has definitely changed for me from probably like when I was in a polyamorous
03:12:48.340
I think that that changed my perspective of sex a lot because I was deeply in love with
03:12:54.700
somebody and I kind of changed my way of like what I thought I wanted in a relationship
03:13:03.740
to appeal to them because I wanted them to be with me so badly that I was willing to watch
03:13:09.460
them, you know, enjoy other people with me, which isn't something that I was originally
03:13:16.680
like super okay with in hindsight in the beginning.
03:13:20.660
And like now that I've kind of like clearly experienced things, I think for me, eventually
03:13:29.880
I'm not saying like right now or in the near future, I don't know what the future holds
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for me, but I just wouldn't say like I'm going to not want to like chill and then settle down
03:13:44.600
But I'm also like aware that like me coming on the internet and broadcasting something that
03:13:52.340
Like a lot of women will sit there and lie and just completely manipulate their narrative
03:13:57.660
into being, oh, my body counts super fucking well.
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Out of out of the like roughly 100, 150, 200, whatever it is, how many, I'm just curious,
03:14:35.660
And I probably didn't hook up with, I probably didn't hook up with like a good like 80 of
03:14:44.340
Like most of it was just like one night stands.
03:14:50.700
Probably like, probably like 20 to 30 percent or number.
03:14:57.580
Wait, so before we continue on talking about that.
03:14:59.740
And probably most of that 30 people were women.
03:15:02.180
Oh, before we continue talking about that, I want everyone else to give their answer.
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So let's go start here and then move our way around.
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I haven't been in the porn industry for that long.
03:15:39.760
I would say if I was going to guess like around like 20.
03:15:45.640
But I definitely went through periods of being more sexually like fucking promiscuous or empowered
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Wait, can you just scoot into the table and have the mic on the table?
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I'm not 100% sure on how many, but either 30 or 40s.
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We're going to have a house fight when we get home.
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I'm pretty sure this girl did not say that low of a number in the car.
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Yeah, you guys are going to have a very interesting car ride back.
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Oh, we should have you on the show more often then.
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First off, it really ain't nobody motherfucking business.
03:18:03.720
I like the fact that people is all about slut shaming and body count.
03:18:07.620
Now, look, we get horny to us, bitches like some dick.
03:18:10.940
You know, we shouldn't have to, if you can't be in a relationship, you should be able to
03:18:26.120
So, it shouldn't be nobody shaming about how many bodies you got.
03:18:31.180
Like, and, you know, to be honest, shit, I forgot I stopped counting after 10 because
03:18:37.900
You could literally catch AIDS after having sex fucking one time, or, you know, you could
03:18:43.080
beat and fuck a million people and not have nothing.
03:18:47.820
If you had a brother, would you tell him it doesn't matter and, like, the girls he's
03:18:53.200
Look, I tell him, strap up if you want to make sure you don't die out here.
03:18:58.400
But, if you want to be promiscuous, honey, it's 2023, baby.
03:19:05.440
No, but I meant, like, for, I'm not talking about, like, short term.
03:19:10.520
Like, if you want to get married, should you be fucking other people in your marriage?
03:19:13.540
No, no, I'm saying, like, if you, if your brother had two girls to pick from, all
03:19:17.720
things being equal, one slept with 50 dudes, one slept with two, who would you tell him
03:19:24.180
That ain't got nothing to do with nothing, like my grandpa used to say.
03:19:26.460
It's about the, what the person is, their heart, their soul, their spirit.
03:19:30.960
We don't give a fuck about who they didn't fuck.
03:19:32.860
That don't mean, and what money, none of that stuff should matter.
03:19:35.880
But I think the idea is, like, if she's been with 50 people, like, how, what are the odds
03:19:40.180
your brother or the guy is going to be the best she's ever had?
03:19:49.800
And also, if you ask me how many of my actual committed, if, if you ask me how many of
03:19:57.400
I might be, I might be a motherfucking slut, but I am not a, like, liar, cheater, any of
03:20:06.380
I know, I'm just saying, that's another stigma.
03:20:08.380
It's like, just because, just because my body count is high and my, my sex drive is high
03:20:13.660
does not mean that I'm, I can't be in a committed relationship one day when I'm ready.
03:20:18.660
I might have been with anywhere from, I don't even know how many people, but my current boyfriend
03:20:22.860
is the most sexually comfortable person I have ever been with.
03:20:29.800
And, and, but, like, my, my thing is we can make inferences based on data and all of the
03:20:34.760
data says that when women are virgins on their wedding night, they, that is the highest chance
03:20:40.100
And you know, why are they, that's all they've ever had.
03:20:48.760
Because most of the time, because most of the, most of the time, if you get better, like
03:20:52.800
if you slept with 50 dudes, there's no way you're going to keep the best guy out
03:20:58.580
Because as you get older, you realize it's not just about the size of his dick.
03:21:01.460
You learn so much through other people and the experience.
03:21:08.380
So to me, if you marry the girl, let's say you're 35, you're both 35 years old, whatever.
03:21:13.500
You're 35 and she slept with 50 people, you slept with 50 people.
03:21:17.580
Let's just say you have somebody who's 35 who slept with one person.
03:21:20.520
Women reach the height of their horniness in their 30s.
03:21:23.720
Who's more likely to cheat on you because you're just not self-satisfying her?
03:21:27.320
Because she has no experience, she doesn't know any better.
03:21:32.940
Why are we debasing the human complex experience to data and statistics and numbers?
03:21:37.680
And I can take it anecdotally where, you know, the girl that's on OnlyFans is saying she's
03:21:43.520
Like, there's more problems when you sleep with more people.
03:21:54.100
Because I don't think women are meant to sleep around like that.
03:21:57.100
I think that OnlyFans and antidepressants have a correlation is delusional.
03:22:01.880
Do we not have needs just as much as men want pussy, we want dick?
03:22:09.400
But that doesn't mean we're meant to be sleeping with a whole bunch of dudes.
03:22:12.740
And I think what can attest to this is the one who waited until she was married is the
03:22:18.720
one that is, like, or is the one that's married here and seems to be in a happy, healthy relationship.
03:22:23.920
Because the majority of virgins on their wedding day are religious.
03:22:29.080
And in the Bible, it says that you were supposed to be with that one person for the rest of
03:22:32.760
So could that be because that is a religious thing?
03:22:40.340
If you want to make that decision for yourself, that's fine.
03:22:42.740
But don't sit here and judge other people who don't want to do that.
03:22:46.300
Or try and throw data and statistics in people's face.
03:22:56.280
And I'm telling you, as a person sitting right in front of you, that the person I am
03:23:05.420
But I'm saying across the board, like, this is the thing with women.
03:23:10.840
And I'm not talking about you guys personally, but we look at society as a whole.
03:23:15.760
The outcomes for women for sleeping around are not good.
03:23:26.940
I can't make a statement about women without saying but men.
03:23:31.900
No, because in order to have a conversation, in order to have a conversation about anything,
03:23:38.440
But that's also why I said, yeah, to an extent, body count shouldn't matter.
03:23:41.880
I just don't know why we can't open up the conversation to also just discuss promiscuity
03:23:47.140
There's a lot of depression associated with promiscuity.
03:23:56.760
Like, the best outcome is when they're both virgins on their wedding night.
03:24:00.660
I've never taken this survey, by the way, so they don't hurt my head.
03:24:13.000
They ask them if they're happy in their marriage.
03:24:15.820
They would come back 10 years later and ask if they're happily married, yes or no.
03:24:19.300
To be honest, living in L.A., if I would have been waiting for marriage for a nigga
03:24:23.340
to put a ring on my finger, I would have been dead.
03:24:30.160
From the men you want, but one in three men are sexless, so there are men that will wait.
03:24:38.780
Women can sleep up, so typically women sleep above their level.
03:24:42.000
I don't disagree with you when you say that, like, full promiscuity is not good for you.
03:24:46.820
When I got most of those sexual partners that I have were when I was young and I was not happy with myself.
03:24:59.840
And I spent a long time not being with anybody.
03:25:09.940
So, yeah, I don't disagree that full promiscuity is not great for you.
03:25:15.360
But I do not, 100% do not agree that being with one person for your entire life is good for you.
03:25:24.660
And I will say that because sitting at this table here, I have had the longest relationship.
03:25:34.880
And I'm not going to say it's a period because I'm not going to tell people how to live their lives.
03:25:38.040
Everybody live a life how you want to live, you know?
03:25:40.480
But I will say the simplest way I can explain it is when you involve multiple people in anything, it's very complicated.
03:25:48.960
And hearing all of these stories from all of you, what I hear is it's really complicated.
03:25:54.460
And I've actually talked to my husband about this before.
03:25:57.220
But I just told him, I was like, I'm really glad that I didn't sleep with anybody before you.
03:26:01.040
Because it does seem like it's really stressful and it's really complicated.
03:26:04.820
And there is an outsized amount of risk for women.
03:26:07.760
We are the ones that end up on the receiving end of all of...
03:26:11.280
We are the ones that end up on the receiving end of a lot of STDs.
03:26:14.140
We have the complications from that down the road.
03:26:17.200
And so the less risk you expose yourself to, the less risk you will actually have happen to you.
03:26:24.900
I just think that the problem comes in when it goes into being judgmental about it.
03:26:29.480
At the end of the day, it's not my place to be...
03:26:32.660
If you want to be with just your husband, that's fine.
03:26:38.340
That's why I'm sitting here saying that, oh, it's bad for you and you're making bad decisions.
03:26:43.240
But you did say you don't think it's healthy to be with one person.
03:26:46.660
And fundamentally, even though I understand that you don't like the stat she's talking about.
03:26:51.780
And I'm not going to say that people don't have successful relationships any which way, right?
03:26:57.040
There are people that have successful relationships.
03:27:02.640
But what I will say is the idea that one man and one woman only sleeping with each other
03:27:11.140
That's probably not the words that I wanted to use.
03:27:24.040
Like, for you, I don't know your relationship personally.
03:27:36.560
But I do think that pushing the purity narrative is a really easy way to put a lot of girls
03:27:50.520
But even just saying, like, pushing the narrative that being with only one person, it can fast-track
03:28:00.200
Sleeping with multiple partners can fast-track you because it's, like I said, more factors,
03:28:04.020
But that's why I'm saying I think it matters to an extent.
03:28:14.180
My life has been happier because I haven't had less risk.
03:28:16.200
Because you got lucky and you picked the right guy.
03:28:20.260
And that's actually something that I think a lot of people, this is what happens with the
03:28:33.300
So she dated him for, like, three fucking years before she cuffed him.
03:28:36.780
But I'm saying that there are a lot of women who don't see that kind of man.
03:28:42.460
When women are getting abused, that man is not always abusive from day one.
03:28:46.440
But most, I wouldn't say that most men are abusive and most women are abused.
03:28:50.540
So, and what I'm talking about is the fact that, like, because what you're talking about
03:28:54.420
is you're saying that women are being put at risk by sleeping with one person only.
03:28:58.340
I don't think that, I think that maybe you're misunderstanding what I'm saying.
03:29:01.520
I'm just saying that by pushing that narrative.
03:29:04.740
But the narrative I'm saying is that it's simpler to only sleep with one person.
03:29:08.360
But lack of experience is what puts you in unsafe situations.
03:29:15.020
I'm just saying with people in general, when you just go, when you decide, like, one person,
03:29:21.260
that's it, you, yeah, you get to know someone for a long time, but you don't know who that
03:29:29.480
Well, then, you know, you know, the people, by that logic, though, then you know, the people
03:29:33.280
you sleep with even less because of the amount of time I've spent with my husband.
03:29:38.580
Not you specifically, but you, the theoretical you.
03:29:40.360
But that's why, when I say, like, I think body count matters to a certain extent, you
03:29:46.460
I'm not going to say it matters because, like I said, people, people come, like, I'm not
03:29:53.380
But am I going to say that it's going to affect someone's personal relationship?
03:29:57.880
Because there is data, but there are also people.
03:30:00.760
Yeah, and that kind of reminds me of, you actually had this one girl on here.
03:30:04.900
She was wearing, like, a pink mask and had a kind of accent.
03:30:08.040
I don't know if you remember who I'm talking about.
03:30:09.440
But she didn't, she was saying something that I kind of agree with when she said, you
03:30:15.200
know, you can't just narrow someone down to just a number.
03:30:20.780
And I know that you're not coming from that standpoint at all whatsoever.
03:30:23.480
So don't think I'm just directly talking to you, but just, like, when a guy here is a
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higher number than six, five, eight, whatever your statistics, whatever, I mean, I'm just
03:30:36.520
saying they immediately put you into a box, and that's something that even Justin on the
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Like, it's just this thing where it's, like, this construct of, oh, I'm going to be compared
03:30:51.600
And, I mean, I get it to an extent, but it's like, bro, if you feel like, if you feel like
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you're not up to the, like, it shouldn't even matter.
03:31:06.860
But they want you to be a whore in the bedroom.
03:31:11.000
But, look, guys care about body count, point blank, period.
03:31:15.420
And that's why we make such blanket statements.
03:31:17.480
Like, we know every man, everyone makes a shit.
03:31:21.020
men don't want to date promiscuous women or women with a high body count.
03:31:35.580
I mean, some of the studies indicate that once you get over six, that's when your likelihood
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of, for example, divorce increases dramatically.
03:31:43.380
I don't remember the exact numbers on the other studies.
03:31:47.220
I'm going to come back on the podcast when I'm married for three years.
03:31:51.860
But the whole point is, whenever men have standards, we shame them for having standards.
03:31:55.480
Like, if a girl says, like, I don't want to date a guy that's short and broke and fat,
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No, like, they're not going to argue with that.
03:32:02.040
But if a guy says, I want a girl with a low body count, like, we argue for hours and say,
03:32:07.020
I would argue with a woman that said that they want to not judge.
03:32:16.880
I never said that I was going to judge a guy who wants to be with a girl.
03:32:21.060
Who's only had one partner or wants to be a virgin.
03:32:26.840
I never said anything judgmental about a man who prefers that.
03:32:30.120
But we've been talking about body count for the past 30 minutes.
03:32:36.480
My whole, no, I said, you said something about that we shouldn't be so judgmental.
03:32:42.160
And I'm saying, you know, I don't think it's kind to act like people don't judge you for
03:32:54.520
Like, you don't get a get out of jail free card.
03:32:56.440
And I think it's dishonest to say that, like, men don't care about that stuff.
03:33:02.240
Because a lot of you guys have said yourself that there are.
03:33:10.460
I mean, I don't think that I have sat here and said that there aren't consequences.
03:33:16.280
But you were saying that there's something about value.
03:33:21.380
And that you're thinking that men are diminishing women's value to their body count.
03:33:30.960
It's just a metric by which men look at a potential partner and decide,
03:33:37.920
hmm, is this someone I want to have a relationship with?
03:33:52.120
So like a girl who's promiscuous, they might not care so much.
03:33:54.340
If you have a high body count, if they just want to fuck you.
03:33:57.740
But for a relationship, for a long-term commitment, for marriage,
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it's going to matter much, much more in those circumstances.
03:34:04.340
And the person that I choose to be with in the future,
03:34:07.840
I hope is understanding that my hypersexuality is something that I embraced
03:34:12.600
during a time in my life and that I can say goodbye to when I meet that person.
03:34:20.400
But that's that's I mean, yeah, it's convenient if I'm ready for love.
03:34:24.080
And that's something I want to experience next.
03:34:26.440
But it's not something I'm like fucking it's not that like earning for something.
03:34:31.520
It's not that simple, though, because the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
03:34:37.560
If you've had certain I don't know what your personal like this isn't a personal thing.
03:34:41.800
But but it's like it's like if someone's done something for five years, 10 years, whatever it is,
03:34:48.900
So the longer you like engage in certain decisions, it's harder to stop.
03:34:52.220
And we don't even have to make it about like sleeping around.
03:34:54.620
It could be about like if you drink every day for 10 years, it's going to be harder to stop.
03:35:09.540
I don't know if we got to go fully around the table as far as a body count goes.
03:35:23.460
And this is my let me just like interject a little bit because I'm waiting to talk.
03:35:27.680
This is why I consider myself to the mic, please.
03:35:29.360
This is why I consider myself very middle ground, because at the end of the day, what she said, I agree with someone.
03:35:35.620
At the end of the day, it literally comes down to the reason people are bitching about this dumb stuff is because they're so unhappy and they're projecting.
03:35:43.120
They're like, oh, you're wrong for only sleeping with one man in your life.
03:35:47.420
Oh, you're wrong for sleeping with that many people.
03:35:50.480
If people just minded their freaking business and worried about what truly makes them happy.
03:35:54.940
If we were just like, holy crap, half of this stuff.
03:35:57.880
That's why half of my comments on my TikTok is like, she just ended all relationship podcast because I come down to it from a people, a human experience.
03:36:05.640
Like, men are not here to fund your life and make you happy.
03:36:08.720
Women aren't here to do whatever the fuck men think women are here to do.
03:36:13.040
At the end of the day, it's like, what do you want?
03:36:17.600
You want a girl who's a whore and will just suck your dick at any point at the time of day, at the drop of a hat?
03:36:24.800
And that's where I find that a lot of people find solace in my content because I love the arguments.
03:36:31.820
But at the end of the day, if people were truly happy in how they lived life, no one would argue with each other.
03:36:38.840
But the fact that people are so – and it's not like, oh, don't judge.
03:36:42.380
It's not that simple if people were actually doing the things that make them happy.
03:36:48.680
Well, I mean, you're kind of – you're a little bit dismissing.
03:36:51.640
Like, we can have intellectual conversations about these topics.
03:36:55.560
At the end of the day, if a woman with high body count, there's going to be guys out there that don't care.
03:37:03.680
But, I mean, we can also have – I mean, it's even beyond just an intellectual conversation.
03:37:09.280
We can also just say, hey, look, if you choose to partake in certain behaviors, if you maneuver in the world in a certain way, that's going to have consequences.
03:37:20.500
And I know, and I always talk about – I talk about specifically that women – I feel like we lack a lot of accountability just because I'm a woman and I see it and I can speak to women.
03:37:32.780
I feel like the word should is such like a – when you use the word should, you're like, you should – this is what makes you a real man.
03:37:40.780
You should do these things where we're creating anxiety and unsettleness and shame and guilt in people for the way that they're living life.
03:37:48.800
I honestly agree with 100% of the words that just came out of this woman Zoe's mouth.
03:37:53.520
Like, dead ass, like being – I would never in my life sit here and say that this young woman right here that has not slept with anyone or this beautiful woman right here that chose to wait until marriage has done anything you're a beautiful woman to.
03:38:13.860
But no, I would never say anything about their decision.
03:38:17.800
I think that it is your body, and that is a beautiful thing that you've done, even from the opposite perspective of somebody that has done the opposite.
03:38:25.920
I think that's like – if that's what – if that's what – yeah, if that's what makes you happy and that's what makes you think that – and whether you're right or wrong is not my decision to make because there is clear evidence that right here sitting next to me to my right that it can work out that way, that's totally your body or choice.
03:38:45.540
I just think we should be honest about the consequences.
03:38:48.940
And that's my only thing is I just don't like –
03:38:51.100
And I'm owning my shit on camera in front of 10,000 people.
03:38:54.360
But I feel like a lot of comments that you make are geared towards the people that I make my comments geared towards too, right?
03:39:00.960
Like if OnlyFans girl is like, I deserve a high-value man, I know he shouldn't care about – I'm going to be like, no, be fucking for real.
03:39:06.440
Like, no, it matters as someone who's in the industry.
03:39:14.420
I've been, like, listening the whole time, just been kind of quiet, just trying to take in with all of you guys are saying.
03:39:20.200
I really think that we should just let people live how they want to live.
03:39:23.040
Like, at the end of the day, it's not affecting you personally, so I don't see how that's a big issue.
03:39:30.380
As long as it's not personally, like, getting in your life, then I don't see the issue with it.
03:39:36.680
And I just want people to look in introspectively.
03:39:39.120
Become self-aware, because a lot of people lack it, men and women.
03:39:41.200
Like, look at things from other people's point of view, not just yours.
03:39:43.740
People need to stop shoving it down other people's throats.
03:39:46.280
Like, their view is the only view that is allowed.
03:39:48.720
Because I don't agree with, like, Christian views.
03:39:50.600
I don't have to live my life that way, but I don't give a fuck if you live your life that way, if you're not affecting me directly.
03:39:55.240
The bottom line is that values are different from person to person, and value is different from person to person.
03:40:01.720
So, what you may find a high-value man may not be what someone next to you finds a high-value man, right?
03:40:08.800
Like, you know, you're saying, like, you know, this woman is a lower-value woman because she slept with many people.
03:40:13.220
Well, I'm sure that there are many low-value women with poor integrity, lack of integrity, bad women, dishonest, who have slept with one man, right, or none.
03:40:21.920
So, it just comes down to the values that you have.
03:40:23.960
There is nuance, but men generally want the same things, and women generally want the same things in general.
03:40:34.960
And then we can go to the nuance of where that stems from, but I don't, you know, we're not actually going to get into that.
03:40:41.340
It stems from paternity because men historically had to make sure that the kids were theirs, and historically we didn't have DNA tests.
03:40:47.000
So, if a girl was promiscuous and sleeping around, basically, like, the man wouldn't know that if the kid was his.
03:40:52.740
So, it's not even necessarily something they can, like, biologically help.
03:40:58.720
And, like, guys might lie to you about this, but, like, guys feel this way.
03:41:04.700
If those guys care about my body count, guess what?
03:41:06.200
That guy is not for me because my life path has not gone down that virgin life path.
03:41:11.600
So, at the end of the day, that opinion of what men want, I don't want those men.
03:41:20.200
That's exactly why I just, that's what I said to her.
03:41:22.600
Like, I'm not going to say that because of statistics, you are not going to have a good relationship in the end.
03:41:30.960
Yeah, no, but, like, there's no way to say that.
03:41:33.200
I don't think it's dishonest to make that statement because there are rules.
03:41:37.600
And not only that, but everybody is on a different path.
03:41:45.360
We will come back really briefly to one or two questions I have here.
03:41:53.820
Yo, Pimmy Flores, thank you for the hundred man.
03:41:59.060
I'm a paramedic from Texas and would love to take her to a baseball game as a first date, 31-year-old, 5'10 Hispanic.
03:42:04.880
Also, would y'all women settle down right now if a man was serious and wanted marriage?
03:42:12.820
Okay, so your boyfriend, kind of complicated thing, who has you currently knocked up.
03:42:23.640
I mean, I think if we worked out our stuff and it was, you know, a pretty healthy relationship for the most part,
03:42:29.260
then I wouldn't be opposed, especially with the fact that I'm carrying his child.
03:42:44.160
I'm not ready to get married, yeah, settle down.
03:42:51.780
I have a lot of healing, growth, self-awareness.
03:42:58.380
Pearl, do you think it's hypocritical of you to preach people about settling down, being a virgin, not being career-oriented when you are none of these things?
03:43:23.940
No, I mean, like, honestly, I wish I waited until I was married.
03:43:34.460
If I could have, like, did it again, I would have waited.
03:43:37.740
But I just think it's, like, I'd rather be honest to the next generation of women that there are, like, consequences.
03:43:43.180
And like I said, it's just the, I think I'm presenting a side of the coin that's not often represented, which is just, like, man, do I feel like I was very fortunate in.
03:43:50.900
And I think, although a lot of it was expectation setting, and this is something that I think younger women especially should probably hear.
03:43:56.560
But when I first met my husband, I told him on the first time we ever went out, I said, I'm not going to sleep with you.
03:44:03.420
And if you don't want that, like, I'm not interested.
03:44:05.200
And that's fine, because, like, I don't want to waste your time.
03:44:07.760
Like, and if it's not you, I'm going to go meet somebody else.
03:44:10.020
And that was apparently, and I think that's something now, too, when people are looking for relationships, they're really, women, I think a lot of times they try to hide the fact that they do want that.
03:44:20.460
And that leads them down this primrose path of, oh, like, pretending like they don't want to get married, pretending like they don't want a relationship.
03:44:26.680
And that just pushes it further and further down the line.
03:44:28.900
And then they turn around, you know, around that, like, five to seven year mark, and they're like, hey, I want to get married.
03:44:33.400
And the guy's like, what are you talking about?
03:44:37.580
And now that relationship ends up breaking apart, and then they have to go and find somebody else.
03:44:42.000
But now they're much older, and it gets more difficult, as we've talked about.
03:44:49.380
The expectation setting is really important, and the honesty and upfrontness with somebody that you want to be with.
03:44:56.440
All right, let me get through a couple of these chats, and then I think we're going to wrap up in about 10, 15 minutes.
03:45:03.880
Body count matters the same as credit score matters or pass matters.
03:45:09.340
If you cannot maintain a relationship, it's like defaulting on the loan.
03:45:26.320
At what dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window, and how does it relate to potentially divorce grape?
03:45:40.140
What dollar amount would you throw your morals out the window?
03:45:50.420
By the way, Zoe, there was someone here, Darth Perdicius, who says you're a dream.
03:46:02.440
Anonymous, this is kind of a vague, at what dollar amount would you, okay, it kind of goes, we already kind of answered this question with the, what would you, what's your cost, you know, if you.
03:46:20.840
Like, my morals kind of went out the window when I was doing, when I was like in the mainstream porn industry, so I was literally throwing out my morals for, for $1,000.
03:46:32.500
I don't think that's, like, you throwing away your morals.
03:46:36.700
That's just your moral code, you know what I mean?
03:46:38.040
I don't think it's me throwing all of my morals away, but I think it's, I'm going to be honest, I think a certain part of me would, like, feel guilty every single time I was on set.
03:46:49.960
And, like, now I'm a lot stronger of a person, but when I first started, I was not.
03:46:53.300
Here, let's just, let's just try to get through these quick.
03:46:57.920
We kind of answered it, but, like, is there a dollar amount where you'd throw your morals out the window?
03:47:03.900
Let's just try to zoom around the table real quick.
03:47:22.060
All right, they don't want to, all right, let's just move on.
03:47:24.520
Sorry, bro, you got to ask a more precise question.
03:47:29.680
Not to change the topic or anything, but for the girls in Brian, what three jobs and what three degrees are red flags for dating?
03:47:46.280
Okay, three jobs, flight attendant, red flag, major red flag.
03:48:02.940
That's what I'm studying to be when I go to college.
03:48:07.880
Because it's like, these chicks, if you're a travel nurse or a flight attendant on a dating app, bro, you're fucking.
03:48:17.120
And so, like, travel nurse, especially, they're in town for six weeks on assignment, some bullshit.
03:48:27.220
And they're just, like, I don't know, whatever.
03:48:41.020
That's probably a red flag for, like, chicks and, well, anyways.
03:49:00.040
Yeah, like, because, yeah, my brothers, sorry, sorry, Austin, I said it.
03:49:07.020
Because he said they're also feminist, like, that they just can't, yeah.
03:49:23.320
The MBA, because you're going to end up having to pay off her MBA debt when she decides that
03:49:27.200
she doesn't want to do her job anymore, which happens really, really quickly.
03:49:30.040
And then teachers, because teachers, most teachers leave within five years.
03:49:33.120
And, again, you're going to be on the hook for their student debt, because they're not
03:49:38.780
And it takes a lot emotionally out of teachers.
03:49:44.800
Okay, and then we have, I mean, do you guys want to come in through any jobs or degree?
03:50:40.580
I don't think I have enough experience with people in different jobs with different degrees to.
03:50:51.420
No, I mean, like, when they said, like, L.A. promoter, I was like, eh, I probably wouldn't
03:51:07.500
Because I was one, and I think that is kind of a red flag.
03:51:13.040
It's, well, I think, I think L.A. bottle girls.
03:51:20.260
Sorry, the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love
03:51:28.860
Oh, well, you're going to have to pick somebody with low student debt, or you're going to be
03:51:34.340
So the original question he asked is, at what dollar amount would you throw your morals out
03:51:38.160
the window, and how does it relate to potentially getting screwed in divorce?
03:51:42.020
And the question was more around marriage and potentially using it for money versus love.
03:51:49.220
So is he asking, like, would you marry a rich person for their money?
03:52:00.340
I think he's asking, would you marry for money or love?
03:52:03.440
Like, if you had, like, two options, like somebody that you love versus somebody who is
03:52:20.680
Like, I think someone who works in the nightlife industry, if they're a bartender or something,
03:52:25.580
Well, I don't think bartenders, I think with bottle girls, because you have to message
03:52:29.100
these guys, these big spenders to come in and, like, buy bottles at night.
03:52:33.420
Like, that's part of your job is, like, having to message men, especially if you're
03:52:38.020
trying to be in, like, a committed relationship.
03:52:39.580
I don't think a man would be, like, totally comfortable with that.
03:52:43.560
So kind of like OnlyFans, where you're, like, messaging dudes on...
03:52:46.620
I mean, I'm surprised that you didn't say that as one.
03:52:54.320
Another one in a different vein would be somebody who, specifically a woman who got
03:53:03.120
That is going to be a very unhappy life that you live to marry that person.
03:53:18.300
It's so fun how when you speak facts, everyone gets offended and loud.
03:53:31.360
What these promiscuous women don't get is that marriage is for the benefit of children.
03:53:38.340
If you choose to be promiscuous, your choice will negatively affect your marriage and in
03:53:52.620
I've said this before and people are like in the chat roast me for it.
03:53:55.940
Like, listen, I would date a girl who does OnlyFans, but she can't do, like, BG content.
03:54:08.500
What if she used to do BG content, but if she, before dating you or meeting you, she
03:54:13.540
decided to delete all of it and not use it anymore for you to be more...
03:54:30.540
So, for one, I've never dated a girl who's done porn or who's done OnlyFans.
03:54:37.400
However, would I prefer, and would I prefer to date a girl who doesn't do OnlyFans?
03:54:43.940
In the same way that I'm sure girls would prefer to date a guy who's a certain height or makes
03:54:52.320
But, um, so I would, if she did solo content, preferably more on the tasteful side, but
03:55:07.940
What is tasteful about playing with your pooh-ha?
03:55:10.280
If, if, well, I mean, like, look, if a girl's on OF, like, bad dragon shit, like, if she's,
03:55:17.700
like, riding bad dragons and shit, probably, like...
03:55:38.120
It's like, it's literally, like, octopus tentacles that, like, these girls, I'm like,
03:55:44.620
You're lucky she didn't say that I can make it swim joke.
03:55:51.080
Um, yeah, but like, okay, I've never dated a girl who does OnlyFans.
03:55:54.800
If you put, like, two girls together, one has OnlyFans, one doesn't.
03:55:59.740
And at this point in my life, like, I'm not, like, pressed to get with a girl who has OnlyFans.
03:56:31.200
And I'll give her more of a pass if she's got a large labia.
03:57:18.700
I didn't even know what Vixen was when I was in porn.
03:57:21.040
You have to watch a good amount of porn to know what Vixen is.
03:57:47.660
The woman who's wearing sheer pink, single slash date.
03:58:00.940
Are you single and are you down for a date with Jameson?
03:58:03.640
I'm single, but I think I'm going to be taken by Nick after the show, so I don't know.
03:58:13.300
Okay, then yeah, Jameson, I'm available, I guess.
03:58:20.660
Wait, first off, just really quick, going back to body count here.
03:58:24.260
Multiply it by three, and that's the real number.
03:58:25.980
So whatever y'all said, multiply that shit by three.
03:58:57.660
My younger brother, the 19-year-old one, he has a boyfriend.
03:59:10.020
Okay, well, I guess my question doesn't make any sense then.
03:59:29.860
I guess what I was trying to get at is we were previously talking about, you know, who's
03:59:38.360
Don't take this the wrong way, for some of you.
03:59:45.100
I don't know, we don't have photos of your bro, so I don't know.
03:59:54.400
My 19-year-old brother is very handsome, but we don't have the same dad.
03:59:59.920
But we've lived together our entire lives, so he's my blood.
04:00:02.540
But just a point of clarification, your brother is...
04:00:23.780
Like, I think if you break it down, if you make a comparison, like, I would say, and I'm
04:00:29.540
not saying this to be mean, but like, your looks equivalent would not be able to sleep
04:00:37.820
Oh, like, if, okay, so like, if a guy looked as good, or you're saying...
04:00:42.120
Like, your looks equivalent would not be able to have like 150 or 100 plus body count.
04:00:47.920
Well, I don't, I don't think that that's completely, I don't think that's true at all.
04:00:54.540
Wait, are you saying that, like, if she was a dude and looked the way she did now, on the...
04:01:01.120
You're saying that you don't find her attractive enough?
04:01:04.440
I'm just saying, like, your, like, your male looks equivalent, if you're mirror opposite,
04:01:12.840
But male, like, would not be able to sleep, like, and that just comes back to...
04:01:16.560
And I think, I think if male me was also bisexual, I would, I pull both genders now, I would pull
04:01:24.140
But I'm speaking just, but, but it's different, though.
04:01:27.580
So what you're saying is like an average looking guy could not pull as many people as African
04:01:31.400
I'm not saying that in a cocky way, that sounded really cocky, but I'm just saying, like...
04:01:43.860
So if we all switched to our looks equivalent and, like, became men, then it would be harder
04:01:49.060
No, I'm saying I'm very picky in who I sleep with and I've still slept with a lot of people.
04:01:56.000
I was saying, like, she was saying, like, or one of you was saying that men, like, don't
04:01:59.380
have standards and, like, still can't get laid.
04:02:00.600
Like, look, I'm saying, like, my standards are very, very high and I have still been
04:02:18.580
You said your standards are high, so I'm just curious what they are.
04:02:20.580
Well, I'm a very intellectual person, so, like, I cannot, civilian-wise, not porn or anything,
04:02:26.700
I cannot just sleep with anybody because they look good.
04:02:29.420
Because I have been on some dates with some hot, influential, high-end men.
04:02:35.220
I'm not going to say this is most women because it's not.
04:02:37.520
But if you cannot have a deep conversation with me, I will not fuck you.
04:02:46.820
I mouthed the words you were going to say with you.
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So it's, like, they have to know how to have a deep conversation with you?
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I have to be intellectually stimulated by you first.
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You know, I feel like, though, the guys that can do that are the guys that have practiced
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a lot, which kind of makes us go after, like, players.
04:03:03.160
Because men don't just, like, naturally know how to talk to women.
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The difference between me and a lot of other women is I give people grace and compassion.
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Even a five-foot guy, you're giving him a chance?
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I think the shortest guy I slept with was 5'6".
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The guy I slept with a couple of days ago was under 5'10", maybe 5'8".
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Oh, I was just saying that I think the, like, when you were saying, like, an average guy
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couldn't get 150 plus, I think it's more of a matter of, like, well, how hard is he trying?
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And, like, what's the time frame that we're looking at, too?
04:03:57.560
I'm not disagreeing that women are the keepers of sex.
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But if an average dude wanted to run around and just fuck every single thing that would
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I'd be interested to see the time frame difference.
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But most men are, like, most men are invisible to women.
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Well, I'm not talking about, like, bottom of the barrel, man.
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Even the average dudes are struggling majorly when it comes to dating and getting laid.
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And I usually date the average guy, so they always tell me about their struggles.
04:04:33.620
Well, I actually had an experience with this where I didn't understand, like, how hard
04:04:39.100
Because when I first got into, like, the content in this space, I was like, why are they saying
04:04:43.760
I actually ended up going to a pickup artist conference.
04:04:46.940
Now, if you don't know what that is, it's basically where guys, like, go and, like, they...
04:04:52.220
It was based off of a guy, like, Neil Strauss, The Game.
04:04:55.620
But there's a whole, like, I haven't dove that deep into game type stuff.
04:05:00.280
But there's really, like, they have a bunch of books.
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They pay five grand to go learn how to talk to women, approach women, and, like, sleep
04:05:13.960
And I would watch these, like, average guys, like, kind of fives, like, sixes maybe, go
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up to these, like, honestly, like, super obese women and get rejected harshly.
04:05:26.840
And I'm just thinking, wow, this is harder than I thought.
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I guess, yeah, I've just never seen that happen.
04:05:42.480
I feel like a lot of, like, women are very delusional.
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I said, I think that a lot of women are very delusional with their standards and where
04:05:51.540
So I have 100% seen, like, average looking butt ugly chicks, like, have average looking
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And I'm like, look, I don't mean to, like, face your value, but, like, bro, be honest
04:06:04.640
So I definitely feel like, yeah, women are a hell of a delusional with who they think
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I said, maybe I just haven't been paying enough attention, honestly.
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Walk into a room with 10 guys and ask yourself how many you're attracted to.
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Well, the thing is, is it doesn't just depend on looks for me, you know?
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I think she's talking about initial visual attraction.
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I agree with you if you're actually talking to them.
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That's why earlier I said if you want to actually meet somebody, you should go work with whatever
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gender you're trying to date and then get to know those people.
04:06:33.500
But yeah, initially when you walk in, if you're looking at a room full of average guys,
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He just, he's looking at maybe get, you know, box seats are like at basketball games.
04:07:02.700
And I thought it was the biggest shame, okay, because this girl was like doing the cart.
04:07:08.100
Like the, you know, she was serving the desserts and the food.
04:07:10.660
And this is to, like, you have to be super rich to be like up there, like to own one of
04:07:15.460
So you're going to interact with the top half a percent of, wow, this girl was like morbidly
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I'm like, you are missing out on the biggest opportunity.
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Like you're in a room with the rich, like the most successful men you'll ever meet.
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You're going to end up with and be friends with whoever you're around.
04:07:37.500
I was thinking if I was like a diehard, like gold digger, I'm like, I would just get
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a job that was a service in one of those places.
04:07:43.520
Even though you probably actually, like, it's kind of like what you said earlier though.
04:07:47.720
You want somebody who's like, you actually want somebody who's just like middle of the pack
04:07:50.920
or a little bit above, who's around, you know, the equal of you.
04:07:54.680
And that is by, if that's what you're looking for, you need to go work somewhere where that
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That's the, for, for people in the U.S., that's the way you're going to meet people.
04:08:02.860
Like that, that's what you need to do if you want to meet somebody.
04:08:05.600
Okay, guys, unfortunately, we, let's, let's wrap it up there just because we've been going
04:08:10.720
Before I do that, any one final thought before anything?
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I feel like somebody's going to get you to make a sense.
04:08:30.700
I feel like that would cause a poor dynamic in a relationship.
04:08:46.220
I know how hard it is to run one of these shows.
04:08:51.560
I also appreciate, I also appreciate how much feminine energy was on the panel today.
04:08:56.580
I know it might have been a little chaotic, but I appreciate all the women that were, that
04:09:05.660
I know we had a, and I, well, I want to apologize to the viewers because we had a lot of technical
04:09:11.080
In case you're tuning in and you didn't know what happened beforehand, we started out with
04:09:20.740
None of the monitors in studio are working, which really throws a wrench in our entire thing
04:09:26.580
We have one, like he's, uh, Nick is having the camera switch by looking at us speak.
04:09:33.360
Normally we have monitors that, that has an impact on our super chats.
04:09:38.620
We can't, it's hard with this, uh, pulling up the, uh, stream labs donations.
04:09:42.540
So I apologize for the, uh, I guess impact that that's potentially had on the show's
04:09:50.260
Obviously I've been kind of distracted running around trying to figure out all the technical
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Um, and obviously sorry to the panel for that because that obviously had a little distraction
04:10:03.780
Um, any one final last final thing or also my bad for being so quiet this entire panel.
04:10:09.920
Like I try to keep it quiet, but I've had the migraine, the worst migraine for the past
04:10:14.040
like four hours and I tried to push through it and it was like, oh, you should have asked
04:10:17.980
us before the show, but, um, yeah, but, uh, yeah.
04:10:32.720
Even if you feel like you didn't say much, girl, you said something.
04:10:35.540
And, you know, I just appreciate being around everybody.
04:10:51.040
Uh, by the way, in the chat, one's in the chat.
04:11:10.280
We're going to do a fit check, then sit back down, and then I'll wrap the show.
04:11:13.440
Uh, so everyone, I guess, stand up and show us what you're wearing, I guess.
04:11:25.280
Oh, once more, let's see, spins from everybody, once more, I guess.
04:12:03.700
Byronique, where can the people go see your comedy show?
04:12:14.600
It's a good little drive from the barber, but if y'all want to come, I'm going to be at
04:12:20.080
That's a very well-known comedy club in L.A., so come check me out.
04:12:45.640
You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
04:12:49.840
Can everyone just scoot in for the, really quick, just for the outro here?
04:12:54.300
Yeah, you could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me.
04:12:56.920
Thank you to everyone who super chats and supports the show.
04:12:59.260
Sorry that, again, we had some absurd, egregious technical issues.
04:13:17.080
I was like roasting Pixie yesterday about this.
04:13:26.340
So sorry that some of the soup chats weren't working so great.
04:13:37.220
If you want to be on, any women who want to be on the show, DM at whatever on Instagram.
04:13:42.040
We will be live again Tuesday at 7 p.m. Pacific with a much smoother show because I'm going
04:13:57.940
There's actually no way for us to end the stream.
04:14:02.640
We're going to have to just like throw the computer out the fucking window.
04:14:08.180
There's like literally no way for us to end the stream.
04:14:10.520
And so I guess you're going to see some of the pre-show fucking whatever.
04:14:16.340
Before I end this, like actually have everyone get up.
04:14:18.760
What is the term I'm looking for for being frazzled?
04:14:50.300
I don't know how we're going to end the stream.
04:15:10.900
This was an absolute shit show of a production tonight.
04:15:16.120
And thank you to the panelists here who tolerated the madness.
04:15:25.680
We're going to film us throwing the fucking computer out.
04:17:11.700
Do you guys want to ask Madison anything while she's here?
04:17:29.040
I'm 18 years old, and my occupation is being Archduke Franz Ferdinand on the Whatever Podcast.
04:18:21.520
I'm not a very high-maintenance person, unless, you know, you know.
04:18:32.720
Yeah, but we worked our way up to there, you know.
04:18:41.520
I'm very thin, but I work for it, and I'm actually a really good driver.
04:18:55.920
My boyfriend's, like, a part of the Fast and Furious, so he's been teaching me how to drive
04:19:13.640
Nick is my friend, and we know each other's significant others, so.
04:19:59.640
I don't, I don't really find out the mystery, I guess, until I get here, actually.
04:20:05.300
Wait, Madison, just put it centered in, and then just, like, Madison, just, like, look
04:20:10.500
No, no, no, like, get out of the chairs and be right in the camera.
04:20:15.940
I give him the biggest, hardest time to make you look so long.
04:20:23.360
Yeah, I'm like, you might have gone to, but you need Blosser to do that.
04:20:33.420
I was like, well, you actually don't want to do that.
04:20:38.400
So, we actually don't really know how to end this podcast.
04:20:54.100
I don't know if you could hear me earlier, but if you're still here, thanks for watching.
04:20:59.560
I appreciate all of you, and you're a real one if you stayed after to listen to me talk.
04:21:06.700
I'm going to read the comments a little bit more.
04:21:19.020
Maddie, who pissed you off the most out of every episode?
04:21:23.920
I will say there is a person, but I'm not going to answer it.
04:21:56.500
I think he's a very real person who speaks about reality and the reality that some people
04:22:13.420
Brixton is currently talking to Pearl, so I had to take over.
04:22:16.900
Um, Frankie, if you're watching me, hi, I love you.
04:22:38.860
I mean, you're supposed to say, no, I don't want to hear them.
04:22:42.740
Yeah, I know, but I'm saying, because, like, last time, like, people were, like, bashing
04:22:47.400
on me, because I'm 18 and my boyfriend's, like, 21, so everyone was, like, you like older
04:23:03.740
You guys gotta keep, keep watching if you wanna, uh, find out.
04:23:13.340
I'm sorry, but Frankie, Frankie D is where it's at.
04:23:26.300
I actually do like her, but I told her Nick had a girlfriend.
04:23:31.300
She was, she was kind of trying, though, for you, Nick, huh?
04:23:37.980
Yeah, her eyes were just, like, this was her at Nick.
04:24:02.100
I'm gonna sit here, Madison, if you want to sit.
04:24:22.980
Well, yeah, but we don't, let's, let's just have it be, uh, I guess, I guess we could
04:24:35.860
Are there still, holy shit, are there still 6,000 people on?
04:24:44.480
Guys, this is gonna be the official blessing reveal.
04:24:50.720
No, he's so particular about not getting his face.
04:24:58.560
Yeah, guys, um, a lot of people wanna know what blessing looks like.
04:25:02.840
Today's not that day, he's coming on with a mask.
04:26:30.820
Yeah, that's a good word to explain what you were going through.
04:26:36.380
I'm still trying to think of what the word was.
04:26:39.820
Pixie, the girl, the feminist girl from the Destiny stream.
04:26:42.340
She was streaming yesterday on the phone with Destiny, Saturday night, doing a breakdown
04:27:02.360
Yeah, the reaction channels get very emotional.
04:27:11.920
And you guys were talking about this on the podcast earlier, about how they, like, kind
04:27:15.560
of, like, take certain clips and just, like, kind of, like, paint a picture, like, of
04:27:29.100
I don't remember their name, but they, like, put me as the cover.
04:27:33.320
And the title was, like, Trad Wife, question mark.
04:27:36.720
And they were, like, oh, blah, blah, girls like this don't want, like, a...
04:27:41.800
Like, I don't know, just, like, a relationship and to be a mother and all this stuff.
04:27:48.200
That's kind of weird, because that's exactly what I want.
04:27:57.860
Yeah, it was a clip of my face, and they were, like...
04:28:12.100
They used my face and basically said that I'm not an ideal woman.
04:28:21.800
Whatever after hours brought to you by Meow Mix.
04:28:44.760
I don't know if you guys noticed, but my helmet got upgraded.
04:28:55.640
People are saying I should always do an after party.
04:29:05.980
I think I'm just young, and I wear whatever the girls my age wear.
04:29:12.960
Guys, if you have any questions for Pearl, this is...
04:29:23.740
Family Guy Canadian 22 asks, Madison, do you...
04:29:30.520
Actually, Nick, it's probably better if you don't show up on camera.
04:29:41.400
Can we possibly have Matthew Hussey on the show?
04:29:46.920
Maybe I should send another email since we're a little bigger now.
04:30:10.960
I feel like the quality must be pretty shit because it's pretty low light in here.
04:30:26.940
Real Life Outdoors, thank you for the membership.
04:30:29.420
Family Guy, what are your thoughts on interracial marriage?
04:30:49.620
I work an 18-hour shift that goes through the night.
04:31:00.740
Whatever after I was brought to you by Meow Mix.
04:31:25.640
Well, Pearl, I saw you speak on how proud you are of your brother.
04:31:28.920
Do you feel that them as men in your life have played a significant role in your life view?
04:31:40.740
Um, I think anyone that's, like, watched my show for more than five minutes knows.
04:31:46.800
He's honestly, like, the nicest person I've ever met in my life.
04:31:50.460
And, like, goes above and beyond for everyone, so...
04:32:02.420
Um, Ryan, Australian 10, does Pearl Pay Blessing?
04:32:07.080
Oh, yeah, there's this rumor going around that I just, like, don't pay anyone that works for me.
04:32:19.600
Apparently I give horrible, horrible contracts.
04:32:28.940
But they don't believe people that work for me, so...
04:32:38.060
Um, so, I get, like, hundreds of DMs a week from guys wanting to be on the show.
04:32:45.420
So, unfortunately, just due to the volume of how many people request to be on the show,
04:32:53.860
And, um, we also just, because we're getting bigger now and we've, like, had some controversial takes,
04:33:01.480
So, I'm very selective over, like, who I let on the show.
04:33:05.200
But, uh, yeah, it's just, like, there's way too many people who want to be on the show.
04:33:10.720
And, actually, Madison, can you read these of my voices?
04:33:29.980
Jordan Peterson would be, fuck, I would love to have Jordan Peterson on.
04:33:42.000
But, like, I don't think he's coming back to the U.S.
04:33:43.580
And I think he's over some of the dating type stuff.
04:33:46.320
But, Pearl, have you been, I mean, Tate's out now.
04:33:48.580
Have you been, you had Andrew Tate on your show.
04:33:53.240
Yeah, I mean, we've spoken, because he had that video that came out that was saying that he, like, that reporter was, like, saying, oh, we have history.
04:34:03.920
So, I just messaged him, I'm like, we have history.
04:34:11.220
But, yeah, I mean, obviously, everyone wants to do the first podcast with him when he gets out.
04:34:25.020
Yeah, that would be an awesome come-up to do something with Peterson.
04:34:29.380
And I don't think I'll get to do something with Tate, just because, from what I've heard, like I said, he's probably, I don't know, I think he's maybe not doing the dating type stuff.
04:34:38.640
At least that's what I think I heard Sartorial Shooter, his manager say, is, like, he's going to move away from, like, dating man women shit and just be, like, self-help.
04:35:33.280
So, in, like, a video game, an Easter egg is, like, this little hidden thing.
04:35:36.260
You're not hidden, though, but it's kind of, like.
04:35:49.340
Whoa, why do you have to say it like that, Madison?
04:36:09.720
And, yes, I would have Ben Shapiro on, Michael.
04:36:16.280
I would have both on, but to pick one, I don't.
04:36:26.240
I'd want Ben Shapiro on a show more than Peter.
04:36:29.840
I'd want Ben Shapiro on a show more than Peterson on a show.
04:36:44.860
We'll get you some 18-year-olds to just dunk on.
04:36:50.880
This one right here, yeah, just so it's not blocking you.
04:37:06.420
I think that's personal, and you shouldn't really share that on a podcast.
04:37:18.200
John Cross says, I do care taking and work 46 hours and 72 hours.
04:37:28.800
There's still, it's 6,000 people still watching.
04:37:33.900
I could not believe she made 70K a month on OnlyFans.
04:37:42.440
We have a very different vibe when it comes to dating.
04:38:02.480
If I had to pick Trump or Biden, they already know I'm a Republican.
04:38:15.280
This was before his, like, kind of ridiculous takes.
04:38:20.380
Because, like, I thought, I don't know, I'm not, maybe I'm going to hate for this.
04:38:29.540
So, to me, I was just like, and I'm in California, so it's like, Biden's going to win the popular,
04:38:38.220
Well, he's going to win the popular vote, but he's going to get the, why am I blinking on this?
04:38:42.680
The electoral college anyway, so it's like, fuck it.
04:38:49.540
This, this, guys, this is before he went on those crazy fucking rants and shit.
04:38:58.300
For some reason, physical touch weirds me out, and it feels so fake to date.
04:39:07.900
If you think you're ready to find a woman at any time in your life, go ahead, but focus on yourself.
04:39:31.700
You're a little, you're a little, you're a little nicer than me, though.
04:39:55.180
Also, would y'all move out of Cali due to cost of living and drugs and homeless?
04:40:06.000
So, you get taxed at the federal level and then at the state level.
04:40:16.820
Luckily, Santa Barbara, it's not quite to the level of LA.
04:40:26.300
Maybe Hawaii, but there's income tax there, too.
04:40:39.040
Brian, can I rent out the middle of your white table to showcase my products for my company
04:40:44.300
John Deke, you can email me, brianatwhatever.com.
04:40:47.600
We're pretty selective, though, with sponsorships.
04:40:49.280
Pearl, is it true you moved your ex-boyfriend into your dad's house?
04:40:56.300
They kind of clip things together to make it seem different than it was, but.
04:41:07.940
Pearl, how much was your flight and next appearance?
04:41:25.560
Well, you're doing some other shows, too, right?
04:41:45.200
She reminded me of myself, like, two years ago.
04:41:54.080
People have beef with me that I don't even, like, know, so.
04:42:21.160
Do you guys believe in God, and do you think there are rational arguments for that belief?
04:42:41.640
What's the, remember, remember the 5th of November?
04:43:02.280
I feel like you're always playing Sublime in here.
04:43:04.740
Yeah, like, I like, honestly, 90s alt rock stuff.
04:43:07.800
So Sublime, Blink-182, early 2000s, like, pop punk type stuff, rock music.
04:43:22.160
I listen to some rap, but mostly it's just Pearl Jam.
04:43:26.740
What's the other, some of the other grunge bands?
04:43:45.920
I was just, I was just inspired by this certain YouTuber.
04:44:04.920
I do, I do know how to freestyle, but I listen to country mostly.
04:44:11.680
Hey, Madison, can I teach you how to do this so I can get up for a sec?
04:44:15.060
So you, with the mouse cursor, you can also use here, and you just click show, and then
04:44:21.980
Yeah, I think I know, I watch you do it all the time.
04:45:00.260
Who runs the news, media, banks, and corporations?
04:45:14.760
This one says, cards against humanity for the after show with the ambient lighting.
04:45:27.520
What are pluses slash minuses of podcasting as a career?
04:45:46.980
I was in a dead-end sales copier job that I hated.
04:45:55.300
Mom, Dad, I'm going to be, I was a TikToker back then.
04:46:01.820
And I said, Mom, Dad, this is what I'm going to do.
04:46:14.020
Like, I'm just, I just want everybody, like, don't do it.
04:46:22.000
The cons is that, I would say the unfortunate part is when people that aren't involved,
04:46:30.720
So, it's kind of like, like, I mean, you heard the super chat where they're saying,
04:46:35.120
like, they were kind of trying to paint my ex-boyfriend as, like, a homeless, like, bum.
04:46:39.560
When, and it's hard because I can't even, like, clarify it.
04:46:46.340
Because I'm not trying to bring someone else into that situation.
04:46:48.880
But it's unfortunate because it's, like, it's, like, you're bringing in people that, like,
04:46:59.440
Hey, Maddie, if there's any, try to pre-read it.
04:47:02.080
If there's any questionable ones, just don't pull it up.
04:47:08.360
Also, like, this format, it's a nice post-show, stress decompress.
04:47:32.300
You need to have some married men on the show to give actual advice to women.
04:47:36.240
I don't take advice from homeless men on how to be a millionaire.
04:47:39.280
Don't take advice from 30 foes on how to date for marriage.
04:47:43.860
The one thing, that's a common, like, complaint from, like, with these type of shows.
04:47:48.760
But the one thing is, I'll say, married men don't really understand the dating market today.
04:47:52.820
Like, they were not dealing with women that slept with 50, 100.
04:47:56.380
Like, you think our dads, like, before social media, they were.
04:48:00.620
So, it's, it's unfortunate because I think that's, like, a lot of, like, the advice is, like,
04:48:07.440
But, like, do the married men really know how to deal with, like, the average chick today?
04:48:11.380
Like, where one in three of us have had an abortion.
04:48:15.860
Like, and how is a guy supposed to tell the difference?
04:48:18.600
Because some of those girls, like, if we weren't asking them questions,
04:48:21.100
you wouldn't know just looking at them on the street.
04:48:36.340
I used to play Super Smash Bros when I was younger.
04:48:39.640
I liked, like, as a kid, I feel like I always liked, like, Wii sports.
04:49:00.540
For the after show, keep around one or two guests.
04:49:03.320
It's inexpensive super chats and more intimate conversations and child downs to really get
04:49:09.640
to know either special guests or people who are just for fun.
04:49:45.480
Great show, Brian and Maddie, in spite of the early scuff.
04:49:48.240
Pearl, it would be great to see you back for another show.
04:49:51.400
W. Blessing coming in for the first after show.
04:50:02.920
Any consideration to limiting the amount of OF girls per pod was kind of annoying.
04:50:14.220
What percent of girls do you think has an OnlyFans out here?
04:50:20.480
Literally the only people that I've met that have actually done OnlyFans are the people that I've met on this podcast.
04:50:31.340
I loved the variety of guests you have on the show.
04:50:34.100
Less workers and more people like Pearl and Destiny with varying views.
04:50:50.100
I'll give you a million bucks if you get Moon on here.
04:51:00.000
I don't think, we don't have a special guest on Tuesday.
04:51:08.940
Actually, I think we do have an interesting person, but go ahead.
04:51:13.040
Ben Shapiro versus, are they trying to say Destiny?
04:51:36.580
I think Destiny would have a leg up because Ben Shapiro, like, this is the one thing you get
04:51:41.640
when you have people that are, like, strictly reaction channels, is they've spent hours and
04:51:48.140
So it's like, you kind of are going in, like, almost blind in a way because it's like, you
04:51:55.780
You're, like, running the live show and all the live stuff.
04:51:58.500
Like, you don't have time to, like, study for every single debate.
04:52:01.920
And so it's like, they're, like, I think actually Destiny might win because he just, like, sits
04:52:09.680
So, like, he's going to know every single little thing.
04:52:12.620
But I don't think it would, I don't think he would just, like, like, bolt.
04:52:20.260
It's just, like, debate, debate, debate, debate.
04:52:22.200
Whereas Ben Shapiro, like, he has a spoken show and he gives lectures.
04:52:45.600
The camera changed on fit check, so I missed it.
04:52:51.680
Pearl, what would be your top three favorite slash influential books?
04:52:55.420
Brian and Pearl, it's time to bring in sweet daddy Matt Walsh into each pod.
04:53:02.420
I'm in touch with the people at the Daily Wire.
04:53:06.900
We're probably, we're going to try to get, look, it might happen, it might not.
04:53:11.060
But, um, I have, I, I don't have any reason to believe why it wouldn't work out, um, but
04:53:19.280
part of me thinks it's, like, they might, obviously, I run, like, kind of a controversial
04:53:24.640
show, and, like, Daily Wire, they're kind of controversial in a different way.
04:53:28.820
Like, they're obviously very, uh, super conservative, um, and I'm, like, bro, I got, like, titties in
04:53:36.440
Like, I don't know if it's, like, the exact right match for them, but we had Michael Knowles
04:53:41.980
So, I'm down to get Matt Walsh, I'm down to get Ben Shapiro, we're trying to, I think
04:53:46.420
we're maybe going to get Brett Cooper on, so we'll see.
04:53:49.100
Um, favorite influential books, uh, Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, uh, The Power of Now by
04:53:55.980
Eckhart Tolle, Tolle, Eckhart Tolle, and, shit, I don't know, um, these World War books,
04:54:10.540
My favorite video game was World of Warcraft, but I quit video games, like, three years
04:54:20.400
Um, I really, I obviously liked the rational mail, um, even, even though, you know, Roland
04:54:32.320
Should we do 10 and up, by the way, for the chats?
04:54:34.600
Because, look, we literally, like, we've gotten, like, we've gotten most of the super chats,
04:54:43.600
Um, I, I liked Black Rednecks, White Liberals by, um, Thomas Sowell.
04:54:56.100
It was, I can't even remember what it was called, but it was, it was like a non, it was
04:55:06.580
Uh, guys, let's, uh, guys, for those of you in the after hours, let's, uh, do $10 and
04:55:18.560
Please don't do it through, I mean, if you want to do it through Streamlabs, but my recent
04:55:21.920
events for Streamlabs, I guess I could change it.
04:55:25.060
I don't, I don't really, just do it through, uh, super chats.
04:55:44.220
She used to be my, like, prank videos, and, uh, we had, like, a following, it's been, like,
04:55:50.300
seven years since I've talked to Andrea, so, uh, just, I don't really want to get into
04:55:56.100
the details, but, yeah, just wish her the best.
04:56:01.480
Sexless and sexed out coming to terms won't happen.
04:56:04.840
The irony that men going their own way is not only a reason why sub-decimal birth rates
04:56:15.560
Hey, Angry, could you actually send, man, doesn't matter, never mind.
04:56:41.900
I mean, they're, they're, they're these, they're these old guys that just make hit pieces on
04:56:46.520
That's all, if you look at their thing, that's all they do.
04:56:48.880
They have financial incentive to literally just make hit pieces on everyone.
04:56:55.700
I got, I, I don't got beef with, I don't got beef with nobody.
04:56:58.320
I know, because I remember being in your place.
04:57:00.080
I was like, I don't want to say anything, because I'm not trying to have them go after me.
04:57:11.620
Thank you for having base guests on, like, Chase and Pearl.
04:57:16.920
I think my credit score analogy was good, right?
04:57:22.780
Also, Kiki versus Peterson or Shapiro would be epic.
04:57:32.000
Angry Casper, if you send, so I've been trying to pull out New Zealand dollars from my PayPal,
04:57:40.760
Can you just drop, like, five New Zealand dollars through Streamlabs, please?
04:57:53.880
Unfortunately, we can't, because my, for, through Streamlabs, the, uh, the alert minimum is 100.
04:58:04.160
Uh, just the, and it takes too long to change the settings in, in OB or in Streamlabs.
04:58:09.900
So just, yeah, just do it through, uh, YouTube.
04:58:13.040
Also, this after show is actually pretty awesome.
04:58:24.360
I love Brian and Madison, too, but still, Pearl, please bring Matt Walsh or Candice Owen
04:58:30.780
Uh, Lucia, thank you for the, uh, 16, or 160,000 Indonesian, I don't know what the, thank you
04:58:43.840
Need to have Charlie Kirk, Pearl, Fleckus, Matty, Jeff Durbin, and some 304s.
04:58:52.440
Uh, I've actually been messaging with Charlie Kirk.
04:58:54.740
We were going to have him on a while ago, but I haven't heard from him in a minute, but he's
04:59:03.480
Let's have you on the show, but it didn't work out.
04:59:18.260
We've been, we've done really bad about doing the meetups, but if we do, we're in Chicago
04:59:24.440
next week, Nashville the week after, and like, Nashville and DC the week after, so those
04:59:45.640
Stay Safe helped me find you, and I'm here to stay.
05:00:00.220
Much more interesting hearing intelligible counterpoints rather than bimbos getting owned.
05:00:06.980
We're going to try to get Destiny back on the show.
05:00:09.560
Nick, can you close those windows up there all the way and, like, lock them?
05:00:18.040
I can tell you've been really stressed these past few episodes.
05:00:26.260
It was just pretty unfortunate what happened with the show.
05:00:52.140
So basically what I think the issue is, I basically have to reset, do a factory reset on the computer.
05:01:00.780
And that means it's going to take me, like, hours to get all the settings back.
05:01:10.940
And I'm pretty sure I have to do a factory reset.
05:01:20.940
And then the replacement computer, because I have a previous computer we were using.
05:01:31.040
I was, like, this was the most technical issues we've ever had.
05:01:36.540
And I feel really bad, especially because Pearl came all this way.
05:01:39.340
And I feel like the show was kind of, like, lackluster.
05:01:42.220
And especially coming off the back of that killer stream with Destiny.
05:01:46.100
Like, the viewership on tonight's show was kind of, like, people were, like, leaving.
05:02:00.360
Blessing told me to say fuck you to Microsoft and get on Apple.
05:02:08.040
I was really mad at him for making me buy all these Apple computers.
05:02:20.160
Well, we have, I mean, we have, like, a whole, yeah.
05:02:31.040
Yeah, your guys' production value, production quality is insane.
05:02:44.540
No, I just, I have a joke with him because I'm, like, I don't, I'm not really a big spender.
05:02:49.160
So, I'm, like, I think he uses my credit card more than I do.
05:03:01.320
Yeah, we're at 1080, but I think I'm going to be able to upgrade here to 4K soon.
05:03:05.900
So, Blessing, you do lights, camera, like, video, everything?
05:03:11.040
Yeah, so you have to go, like, hardware, hardware, no software stuff.
05:03:18.600
Yeah, I think we spent over $100,000 on equipment.
05:03:29.240
I mean, it's worth it, though, especially, I mean, if you're making good money, like,
05:03:38.500
We did fucking 60-plus shows with the shit PC, and I'm like, why didn't I just get a
05:03:47.020
Thoughts on a tribe called Quest go to the 90s rap?
05:03:53.220
Honestly, you'd have, I'd have to hear one of their songs because the name doesn't, like,
05:04:00.880
Like, you guys have really good production quality.
05:04:04.940
Like, the lighting, the cameras, it's, it's really good, so.
05:04:19.380
But are you, so, confirm or deny, though, are you, because I remember you saying you
05:04:26.380
were going to move to Chicago, but is that kind of not?
05:04:30.740
I, I think, that's what I'm leaning towards, but I'm open, so, um, I'm looking, my main
05:04:41.600
I'm, no, I don't see myself coming to California.
05:04:44.700
It'd be great for your, well, because you said you want to be in a conservative, excuse
05:04:53.500
Because for, like, business reasons, the type of people that you can come be on your
05:04:57.460
show, I think you'll get a better group of people in California, for example.
05:05:01.820
Oh, I have no doubt, but it's more, I just want to be closer to my family.
05:05:06.440
When you're, like, a five-hour flight away, it's just, like, it kind of defeats the whole
05:05:10.580
purpose, like, so, I mean, I want to be in either Miami or Orlando, hypothetically, because
05:05:20.500
my parents have a house there, and then Nashville, just because there's a lot of, I just like
05:05:25.800
that city, and it's not, it's like an hour flight from Chicago, and then Chicago.
05:05:31.740
I mean, I feel like you can, you'll probably do okay getting people in Chicago, because
05:05:43.180
It really helped me come into touch with who I am realistically, helping me accept my heterosexuality
05:05:58.520
Pearl, did you get in contact with Erin, is it Pizze?
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She opened the first male domestic abuse shelter or something like that.
05:06:21.700
Old school feminist who quickly became an MRA person by getting kicked out of her own
05:06:42.700
I think Wedding Crashers is definitely like my go-to.
05:07:36.780
And one of them, we, like, talked about Tate when they were on.
05:07:52.180
And when he got released, I sent her the tweet of him, like, walking back and forth with his shirt off.
05:08:06.500
I mean, he's reacted to a couple of our videos.
05:08:13.000
So, will you ever do a collab with Fresh and Fit?
05:08:21.140
I mean, so, I credited Fresh and Fit as kind of, like, the inspiration for starting the show.
05:08:25.800
I mentioned in the first few videos, I've always shouted them out.
05:08:30.920
But I think, and I'd be super down to collab with them.
05:08:38.960
So, I think, and look, correct me if I'm wrong.
05:08:45.340
I think Myron has an issue with that we're, like, copying or competition.
05:08:53.420
I don't really want to, like, talk about it, get into the details.
05:08:58.600
I'd be more than happy to collaborate with them.
05:09:00.620
But I'm getting the sense that he's probably not down to collab.
05:09:14.120
I think it'd be, I don't think it's competition.
05:09:19.500
I don't think I'm competing with Fresh and Fit.
05:09:21.800
First off, I don't stream on the same days that they stream.
05:09:27.180
They're Monday, Wednesday, Friday with their dating talk.
05:09:30.660
Like, it's not like, there's not, like, a market share where, like, if someone tunes into my live stream,
05:09:36.300
which, by the way, I don't stream on the same days that they stream,
05:09:41.980
Like, I think that me being in this, you being in this, you're bringing more eyeballs to this space.
05:09:52.520
So, and we're, at an individual level, we're building our audiences.
05:09:58.760
And then if we're collaborating with each other, then it's, like, a really good opportunity to share, like, share our audiences.
05:10:10.220
But, like, you're going to have trouble, like, with that.
05:10:18.940
It's unfortunate because I feel like we're already kind of on the back foot in the sense that we're talking about some controversial topics that are maybe not so popular.
05:10:30.560
And I think that we should all be on the same team.
05:10:35.260
I just, I wish there wasn't so much infighting, to be honest.
05:10:39.360
Like, I just don't think it's, like, a good look for the space overall.
05:10:46.820
I actually hope one day we have a Red Kill Festival with everyone.
05:10:51.740
I think it'd be cool to, like, bring everyone on a panel that, like, does these shows.
05:11:02.660
While Brian closes out the show, Maggie does this also.
05:11:06.520
And it's BS that they set up the show like they did for that soundbite.
05:11:12.120
Oh, are you talking about Mel with the Endurer?
05:11:23.040
Crazy how these other creators are coming at your neck.
05:11:25.460
Been watching you for a while, and you've been open and honest from jump.
05:11:34.740
Wow is easily the best game ever made, and good thing you quit.
05:11:38.740
It became not fun after Wrath, but look up Moon on YouTube.
05:11:43.540
Yeah, I only played during, like, I played Vanilla, so back in, like, 2006, I think,
05:11:48.860
and then I played a bit when Classic came out for a couple, like, I don't know, nine months
05:12:11.280
Pearl, your thoughts on Brittany Venti going after you?
05:12:21.400
Like, they just, like, they attack me personally, and they never attack, like, what I say.
05:12:25.620
So it's like, how do you, how do you, like, what am I going to say to someone that's attacking
05:12:32.840
me personally instead of the ideas that we talk about, so.
05:12:38.420
And also, I never call anyone a whale individually.
05:12:44.460
All right, so let's, this is a misconception, all right?
05:12:49.420
The only time I've called someone individually a whale was a lady who attacked me, and I think
05:13:04.820
Knowles was actually how I got introduced to this show.
05:13:08.180
As much OF girls can be insufferable to watch, it's fascinating and frightening to see both
05:13:22.560
I'm pretty sure that Byron told me the F word, by the way.
05:13:29.660
I didn't think they actually had issues with you guys, like, from what.
05:13:38.260
Well, he was like, he was saying something about, it was during this Steven Crowder album,
05:14:40.600
This after party has been better than the actual stream.
05:14:44.980
Does Madison have a big, oh, I'm not answering that.
05:14:54.420
The first full stream I watched, and there's an after show.
05:15:00.960
Here's some extra cash to buy some neck pads for your first date with your new co-host.
05:15:06.540
After hours with prime guests like Pearl's sick.
05:15:09.320
Would love to talk to more guests rather than listen.
05:15:17.540
Are the only girls that want to come on OF Girls lame because it just promotes their
05:15:22.280
brand more, but it seems like either there aren't any quality women out there, or they're
05:15:33.320
Are the only girls that want to come on usually just OF Girls?
05:15:38.120
Yeah, it's getting pretty hard to get no more girls.
05:15:45.380
Like, we literally, it's the most random people, and then they'll say, oh, you don't bring
05:15:51.920
But it's like, they can't even name what a quality woman is.
05:15:59.460
All right, save the low lighting for the after show.
05:16:05.200
Also, if you bring Destiny back, have Knowles or someone capable of debating him on.
05:16:11.380
Me and my buddy would like to be on the podcast sometime, Bricks, and promise we wouldn't be
05:16:15.560
weird like Glasses Girl when you had Destiny on.
05:16:33.340
Brian, just get a technician that runs it all for you.
05:16:36.080
Sometimes it hurts to show when you have to leave to fix stuff and host.
05:16:41.980
You saw H3 and Moist Critical has been talking about you.
05:16:49.040
I hate that they only pick out the few clips where the guys fumble an argument or out of
05:16:54.500
Yeah, I mean, they're talking about the MLD in juror thing and like, yeah, I mean, it's
05:17:08.500
They're going to be super friendly and excited to hang out with me.
05:17:13.080
I think it's going to be a very good faith, productive conversation.
05:18:00.600
What are your plans this year to grow your channels?
05:18:03.520
I mean, I've been using Microsoft for two decades.
05:18:24.880
Myron has said multiple times that they have no issues with you.
05:18:35.440
No, I like I said, I mean, I don't have any issue with fresh and fit.
05:18:45.500
I'm so busy, so I haven't been able to watch their show in a really long time.
05:18:53.220
I'd be down to go on their show and more more than happy to have them come on mine.
05:18:58.540
I just I remember there was a moment and maybe he was just like saying it in the heat of the moment.
05:19:02.380
There was a moment where he said something like he was saying, like, we're we're not.
05:19:09.020
But it was during the Stephen Crowder breakdown of Stephen Crowder's divorce.
05:19:13.420
And there's just a moment where he's like, fuck these copycat motherfuckers.
05:19:21.900
I don't know if he's talking about me, maybe that that's the way I took it.
05:19:25.800
He might not have been talking about me, but who knows?
05:19:29.300
But look, I it takes like it takes a lot to get me upset with somebody.
05:19:38.340
So, like I said, got nothing but love for them if they want to come be on our show.
05:19:50.760
Let me know if you want me to come on your show.
05:19:52.780
So no one speaks about how speaking about sexuality is still taboo.
05:19:59.640
It is still masked by masking sex cheap like never before.
05:20:03.840
It's still taboo to speak about topics such as healthy and sacred sexuality.
05:20:12.400
Quay Lewis and the news questions for everyone.
05:20:18.840
What is the most romantic thing you've done for someone?
05:20:43.420
Like, I had to look at people because I was doing the thing.
05:20:46.840
And every time I'd look at her and she'd be talking, she'd like, look at me.
05:20:58.200
What's the most romantic thing you've ever done for someone?
05:21:23.700
My ex-boyfriend had a really big financial milestone.
05:21:31.440
So, like, I basically, I got him, like, his first, like, nice piece of jewelry, I guess.
05:21:37.340
And, like, got him, like, a whole, like, his favorite, like, food was cooked and, like, that sort of thing.
05:21:45.780
Pearl, are conservative women less likely to date or marry outside their race than liberal women?
05:21:59.520
Shout out, Madison, always provides the best background entertainment by her bubble tea as bonus for coming on to the show.
05:22:21.980
But he was saying something about you copycat F-words.
05:22:32.680
Oh, I think that's, like, a different podcast we're talking about in Miami.
05:22:40.640
But I'm thinking, like, okay, those guys, it doesn't matter.
05:22:46.160
I'm probably shooting myself in the foot by talking about this.
05:23:09.180
If some screens are off, you should test each display port directly and or change out the
05:23:17.720
So, Anonymous, we had a couple different technical difficulties.
05:23:21.960
So, factory reset is for the computer that was not turning on.
05:23:32.240
Outside of the headliner guests, in parentheses, Pearl, which of tonight's guests do you think
05:24:00.660
Bob says, okay, I've got to be up at 6 a.m., but Pearl was here, so I stayed.
05:24:29.940
Evan says, we could see how awkward Nick was ending.
05:24:33.500
Nick was acting in the window reflection with the L-O-F.
05:24:50.860
I think it's basically just like women no longer reward
05:24:53.820
those sort of chivalrous gestures like getting a girl flowers.
05:25:03.220
A lot of girls would like laugh at that if a guy bought them flowers.
05:25:08.580
Not laugh to their face, but like with their girlfriends afterwards.
05:25:17.580
It's just like doing something for someone that essentially doesn't deserve it.
05:25:21.180
So I just think it's like when the quality of women went down so much
05:25:24.160
that like they don't really deserve chivalrous treatment.
05:25:26.380
Yeah, I mean, this is a point I've made is like me personally,
05:25:30.560
I don't like to pay for first dates with women who like...
05:25:38.680
Well, basically what I've said is I don't like to pay on the first date if a girl...
05:25:46.340
A lot of times you have to assume going in, especially here in California,
05:25:54.140
So like I don't want to adhere to my traditional gender roles of paying for the first date
05:25:58.700
when like it very well could be the case that she like hooked up with a guy yesterday.
05:26:02.600
I would feel like a sucker if I did the whole like,
05:26:09.020
And then like she hooked up with a guy earlier on in the day, the night before.
05:26:13.620
And it's just so, for me, it's like, I don't know,
05:26:17.660
you don't adhere to traditional gender roles with women who are not traditional.
05:26:25.720
You should make a viral complaint video like those girls in the gym
05:26:29.100
on how the Hobgoblin made Nick feel numerous times after he made it clear
05:26:44.440
Balake's Fishroom. Thank you for becoming a member.
05:26:52.120
You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're...
05:27:00.020
Dude, I'm surprised by how many people stuck around for the after hours.
05:27:15.520
I'm excited for our nice convo where we get along.
05:27:25.720
She seems to be one of the few intelligent leftists I've ever seen on this.
05:27:31.560
I invited her back on a couple times and she flaked a couple times and then never bothered
05:27:38.480
So, she got dragged because of her like viral toxic clip.
05:27:48.100
Again, I don't know how to end the fucking stream.
05:28:02.140
I don't know if this is going to stop it, but...
05:28:37.300
I don't know if this is going to be higher than that.
05:28:40.460
I don't know if it's going to be higher than that.
05:28:42.500
I don't know if it's going to be higher than that.