Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #53

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00:01:02.500 Welcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast, coming to you live from Santa Barbara, California.

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00:03:00.400 Oh, wait.

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00:03:07.300 By the way, guys, today's episode is proudly sponsored by Blue Chew.

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00:03:54.540 Anyways, guys, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:59.360 So please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:04:02.100 Go ahead.

00:04:02.280 Hi.

00:04:03.260 I'm Kazumi.

00:04:04.140 I'm turning 26 next week.

00:04:06.300 Yay! 0.99

00:04:06.640 I do porn, and I took a Blue Chew last week because the Blue Chew will flush out your period. 0.99

00:04:12.980 Just saying. 0.98

00:04:13.700 You took a Blue Chew last week?

00:04:15.420 For the ladies, yeah. 1.00

00:04:16.540 For the ladies, Viagra, like, when you take it and you have a pussy, 1.00

00:04:20.820 like, the blood flow will make your period stop. 0.98

00:04:24.060 So I was able to have, like, a day without my period, like, in the middle of my period, like, week.

00:04:29.180 Okay.

00:04:29.760 Just saying.

00:04:30.440 So wait, you took a Blue Chew?

00:04:31.960 I did, and I chewed it like a dude. 0.88

00:04:34.940 Okay.

00:04:35.540 Or I guess the way anyone would chew a Blue Chew, yeah.

00:04:38.200 But, yeah, women can take it, and it can, like, chill with, it could make their period, like, chill out. 1.00

00:04:43.260 Okay.

00:04:43.580 By the way, this was not planned.

00:04:46.040 The executives at Blue Chew, not anticipated.

00:04:50.600 It's an experiment I tried out.

00:04:52.120 People of my close friends saw it.

00:04:53.660 Like, I was like, what happens if you take a pill that'll make all the blood flow flow to your genitals?

00:04:59.320 She's always trying to find new ways to stop her period. 1.00

00:05:01.900 I hate my period.

00:05:02.960 Okay.

00:05:03.520 I don't know if that usage is endorsed by Blue Chew, but the views expressed by the panelists do not necessarily reflect the views of whatever the hosts.

00:05:15.840 Or Blue Chew.

00:05:16.760 Okay, Ivan.

00:05:17.740 Anyways, did you finish your intro, by the way?

00:05:21.100 Oh, and my Instagram and YouTube and all my handles are Kazumi's World.

00:05:27.400 Okay.

00:05:27.700 Did you say your age, by the way?

00:05:29.600 I'm turning 26 next week.

00:05:31.340 26 next week.

00:05:32.200 Okay.

00:05:33.400 Hi, my name is Michaela, and I am 30 years old.

00:05:38.080 I know I don't look at it, apparently.

00:05:40.080 Thanks.

00:05:41.580 I am an entrepreneur, so I am a fitness instructor.

00:05:46.200 I also do self-love and mindset coaching, and I am in network marketing.

00:05:52.880 I have a health and wellness business with Arbonne.

00:05:54.700 And I am a regional vice president with the company.

00:05:57.960 Very cool.

00:06:00.180 Hi.

00:06:00.980 My name is...

00:06:01.400 Welcome back.

00:06:02.120 Yes.

00:06:02.680 So, thank you for having me back.

00:06:04.480 My name is Mia.

00:06:06.160 I do porn mostly on OnlyFans, and I am 21 years old.

00:06:10.840 Also, I would like to say that in the industry, any kind of Viagra is mostly known as Blue Chew.

00:06:19.280 So, if Blue Chew comes up again, it's not specifically that company, but that's just the kind of nickname we all give it.

00:06:26.680 Oh, that's just like the...

00:06:28.060 Okay.

00:06:28.280 The slang, I guess.

00:06:29.780 It's like when you say Coke, you mean all pop, but it's like...

00:06:33.300 Yeah.

00:06:34.020 Wait, so you're 21.

00:06:35.560 Yeah.

00:06:37.480 Is that...

00:06:38.340 That's your actual age?

00:06:39.320 That's what I said.

00:06:40.120 Yeah, that's...

00:06:40.720 I thought...

00:06:40.820 Wait, I thought you said you were 23.

00:06:42.640 I am not 23.

00:06:44.020 Oh, okay.

00:06:44.740 I'm getting my wires crossed.

00:06:46.480 You might be mixing me up with my friend who said she was 47.

00:06:49.720 And then who was actually 23.

00:06:51.180 Yeah.

00:06:51.300 But who's older than 23.

00:06:52.760 But okay, go ahead.

00:06:53.720 Go ahead, Sydney.

00:06:54.340 Hi, I'm Sydney.

00:06:57.180 I'm 22.

00:06:58.780 And I'm an actress, but I go to school right now.

00:07:02.900 Sydney, do you know that the viewers have dubbed you Thickney?

00:07:06.400 That's your nickname.

00:07:07.580 Yeah, I guess so. 0.57

00:07:08.820 Oh, hell yeah.

00:07:09.460 All right.

00:07:09.780 Thickney's in the chat, boys.

00:07:11.300 Thanks.

00:07:11.880 Thank you.

00:07:12.520 All right.

00:07:12.860 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:07:14.960 So, current relationship status, longest relationship.

00:07:18.820 Go ahead, please.

00:07:19.300 My longest relationship is like over four years, and my current relationship is a three

00:07:24.060 and a half, and I'm in an open relationship because I do porn.

00:07:27.320 Open relationship.

00:07:28.480 But you, are you sleeping with other people outside of your work?

00:07:36.280 That's what an open relationship is.

00:07:38.020 It means, yeah, it's open.

00:07:39.740 Okay.

00:07:40.180 But you said you're in an open relationship because you do corn.

00:07:44.100 Oh, should I say corn instead?

00:07:46.020 Yeah, moving on.

00:07:46.580 I'm a farmer.

00:07:47.400 It's all good.

00:07:48.060 Yeah, she's a farmer. 1.00

00:07:48.780 I'm like a farmer planting my seeds.

00:07:51.780 But is it open in the sense that it's open because the other people that you sleep with

00:07:57.080 or hook up with, it's within the context of work, or is it also just open in general?

00:08:01.940 I can hook up with people outside of work, yeah.

00:08:03.740 Sure.

00:08:04.140 And you said it was a three-year relationship?

00:08:06.060 Yeah, it's going on almost four.

00:08:07.680 Oh, okay.

00:08:08.300 Sure.

00:08:10.220 So, you said current relationship status?

00:08:13.000 And your longest relationship?

00:08:14.160 I'm single, and my longest, do you count if it had a break?

00:08:21.480 How long was the break?

00:08:23.460 Was it on again, off again?

00:08:25.260 Yeah.

00:08:25.820 It was pretty toxic.

00:08:27.560 Five years of that.

00:08:29.380 Okay.

00:08:29.840 Five years.

00:08:30.660 Sure.

00:08:30.880 Five years collectively?

00:08:32.040 Or five years as like, yeah.

00:08:33.380 So, I do have a partner.

00:08:39.120 My longest, the current relationship that I am is the longest relationship I have had,

00:08:44.200 and it'll be four years next week.

00:08:47.420 Four years next week.

00:08:48.880 Yes.

00:08:49.200 Okay.

00:08:49.380 And then we do also practice non-monogamy.

00:08:52.160 Okay.

00:08:52.640 So, it's an open relationship?

00:08:54.160 Yeah.

00:08:54.600 Okay.

00:08:55.720 Open.

00:08:56.440 And then four years.

00:08:57.900 So, you guys met in high school?

00:09:00.500 No.

00:09:01.140 I met him right after high school, actually.

00:09:03.940 Okay.

00:09:04.120 Like, I think maybe like nine months after I graduated high school.

00:09:10.480 Okay.

00:09:11.260 Last show, you said that you had been doing cosplay for, did I say cosplay?

00:09:16.360 Cosplay?

00:09:17.120 For 10 years now.

00:09:18.420 Yeah.

00:09:18.640 So, you've been doing cosplay since you were 11?

00:09:21.040 Yes.

00:09:21.660 Actually, I think I would have started doing it when I was around 10 years old,

00:09:25.620 but 11 is when I went to my first anime convention and actually dressed up for it and stuff,

00:09:30.880 and participated in that.

00:09:32.380 Okay.

00:09:33.260 Sydney?

00:09:35.080 I'm single, and my longest relationship...

00:09:38.560 Again?

00:09:40.000 Not again.

00:09:40.920 I've just continued.

00:09:42.240 There's a continuity there.

00:09:43.640 Okay.

00:09:43.880 Yeah.

00:09:44.660 Yeah.

00:09:45.140 I'm still single.

00:09:45.820 And, yeah, my longest relationship was six months.

00:09:49.980 Six months.

00:09:51.360 Okay.

00:09:52.020 Good times.

00:09:53.140 Oh, my God.

00:09:53.500 W for open relationships.

00:09:55.020 Let's go.

00:09:55.880 Yes.

00:09:56.980 We're wrong.

00:09:58.020 Y'all got a relationship.

00:09:59.340 Let's go.

00:10:01.020 So, I want to talk real briefly about OnlyFans here.

00:10:05.080 So, you two have OnlyFans.

00:10:07.860 How long have you both been doing OnlyFans?

00:10:11.700 About, like, the same amount of, like, over three years since 2019.

00:10:16.500 Okay.

00:10:16.820 So, you got in pretty early.

00:10:18.500 Yeah.

00:10:18.720 I got in pretty early, and I really blew up during COVID because everyone was just indoors.

00:10:22.960 Were you doing corn previously?

00:10:24.860 I was always doing corn.

00:10:27.500 Okay.

00:10:27.800 Can I ask what corn is?

00:10:29.280 We're talking about corn, but we cannot say.

00:10:32.180 Okay.

00:10:32.240 Gotcha.

00:10:32.400 We're censoring it.

00:10:33.200 Cool.

00:10:33.340 Yeah.

00:10:33.700 No, but it'd be funny if I actually was saying, yes, I am a farmer, and I like to, I live

00:10:39.260 in a barn.

00:10:39.980 Okay.

00:10:40.580 And she harvests cucumbers and eggplants. 1.00

00:10:44.020 In my vagina. 1.00

00:10:44.900 Whatever does it. 1.00

00:10:45.480 Jesus Christ.

00:10:45.940 But that word, we're not going to get censored.

00:10:48.840 That's a scientific term.

00:10:50.500 Fair enough.

00:10:51.280 Fair enough.

00:10:52.220 YouTube and Twitch, they move in mysterious ways.

00:10:55.620 Okay.

00:10:55.900 So, and when did you get started doing, I guess, in the traditional adult industry?

00:11:00.580 So, for future reference, I should kind of, like, have, like, fake words for the words.

00:11:05.980 What?

00:11:06.660 You know what I mean?

00:11:07.160 Like, instead of, I should say corn.

00:11:09.920 Instead of, like.

00:11:10.440 Just that one.

00:11:11.220 Like, Twitch gets all bent out.

00:11:12.600 Yeah, I guess.

00:11:13.100 I mean, I've been told that for Twitch, I guess.

00:11:16.160 Okay.

00:11:16.320 So, I'll just, like, think of, like, fun words.

00:11:18.880 I've been baking a cake for a long time.

00:11:23.080 I have been mostly an independent baker, but I did, like, join.

00:11:30.120 I became Vixen Contract at some time last year, but my contract actually just ended.

00:11:34.100 Vixen Bakery.

00:11:35.200 Yeah.

00:11:35.780 And the bakery of Vixen.

00:11:36.900 Pastries.

00:11:37.880 Okay.

00:11:38.440 Sure.

00:11:39.120 But I'm looking into possibly doing, like, browsers possibly later this year.

00:11:43.500 Brazzers Bistro. 1.00

00:11:44.860 Brazzers of the Bistro. 1.00

00:11:46.320 Of course.

00:11:47.080 Of course.

00:11:47.980 I'll sell my buns.

00:11:50.020 She sells her buns.

00:11:53.060 Okay.

00:11:54.480 So, and when did you, you said you got started when?

00:11:57.320 So, I've been doing OnlyFans since 2019.

00:12:00.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:12:00.580 I've always been making corn on there, but I would say sometime last year, I signed onto

00:12:06.300 Vixen just to get my head, get started doing some mainstream, just because the mainstream

00:12:10.920 was a great commercial for my OnlyFans itself.

00:12:14.420 And I think it's something that I like doing sometimes, but inherently being an independent

00:12:20.020 creator just pays way more and gives me more control to do exactly what I want to do.

00:12:24.500 So, how much do you make?

00:12:27.500 A lot.

00:12:28.860 Do you want to give us a range?

00:12:30.440 Yeah, I make about 300k a month.

00:12:32.360 300k a month?

00:12:33.160 Mm-hmm.

00:12:33.440 What's the most you've made in one month?

00:12:35.420 Like 320.

00:12:36.900 320?

00:12:37.540 Okay.

00:12:37.760 But that's like, I have multiple platforms that I now sell my content on, so that's

00:12:42.700 just on OnlyFans.

00:12:44.180 But I do say this, and I also have been starting to be hesitant about how much I make, because

00:12:50.980 sometimes, obviously, people hate it when they realize that a girl like me is going

00:12:54.720 to make money selling my body when people, their whole lives say they should be punished

00:12:58.460 for stuff like that.

00:12:59.360 But also, like, sex workers of all incomes should be respected no matter how much money

00:13:03.500 they make.

00:13:05.900 Wait.

00:13:06.300 Like, so they should be, you think that the more money you make, they're more disrespected?

00:13:13.320 No, I'm saying, like, regardless of what my income is or what anyone's income is, they

00:13:17.440 should still be respected no matter what.

00:13:19.400 I feel like when I say I make a lot of money, people start thinking it's more or less valid,

00:13:24.480 when in reality, regardless of how much money I make, I should still be respected as a human

00:13:28.560 being no matter what my occupation is.

00:13:30.940 Okay.

00:13:31.800 And so you make about 3 million a year?

00:13:34.720 Mm-hmm.

00:13:34.940 About?

00:13:35.440 Okay.

00:13:35.600 Yeah.

00:13:35.920 Oh, you did the math quickly.

00:13:37.480 Hold on.

00:13:37.920 Actually, no, I think I undressed, wait.

00:13:39.860 3.2 mil was last year.

00:13:42.440 Okay.

00:13:43.760 Do you think it's possible you'll ever do a million in a month?

00:13:47.000 Yeah, totally.

00:13:48.040 I feel like right now I'm in this, like, cool part of my life where I can just do passion

00:13:53.380 projects and do things because, like, because it's fun.

00:13:55.480 Like, I can go to this podcast and spend a day in Santa Barbara just because, oh, it'd be fun.

00:14:00.160 And now I don't really have to do things I don't necessarily want to do, like, do a scene

00:14:04.380 just because I feel like it would make me a lot of money.

00:14:06.320 And now I'm just kind of, like, focusing on passion projects and, like, doing different

00:14:10.400 stuff of my life.

00:14:11.120 But I still do corn because it's fun.

00:14:15.000 Gotcha.

00:14:15.780 And then what about you?

00:14:16.760 So I also started in 2019.

00:14:20.320 But when I started, it was mostly through selling photos.

00:14:24.120 And I actually joined Only Friends later in the year because I was going through college

00:14:32.240 and I didn't really have a lot of time.

00:14:34.520 I started making corn, I'm going to say, in, like, 2021 is when I started making videos

00:14:44.300 and stuff like that.

00:14:46.400 Okay.

00:14:47.080 And how much do you make per month?

00:14:49.200 So I make around $10,000 a month.

00:14:51.840 Okay.

00:14:52.500 But it also, I will say it also fluctuates.

00:14:55.080 Like, for me, since I am a bit of a more niche creator, sometimes I'll have $5,000 a month.

00:15:00.720 Sometimes I'll have $10,000 a month.

00:15:02.420 And it doesn't necessarily correlate directly to how much work I'm putting in sometimes.

00:15:07.980 Sometimes that's just the draw of the cards.

00:15:09.780 And there are a lot of other, you know, factors that I can't control, like the general economy

00:15:15.180 and just inflation and stuff like that.

00:15:18.040 But I make enough to be comfortable and to just do silly things and enjoy my life.

00:15:23.480 So I'm really happy doing it.

00:15:25.920 Cool, cool, cool.

00:15:26.800 Sydney, are you reconsidering your career direction?

00:15:32.740 No.

00:15:33.420 Oh, okay.

00:15:33.860 I definitely, like, I want to be an actress.

00:15:36.040 I know that that's what I want to do.

00:15:37.740 And I think wanting to do that, you have to be very cautious about how you put yourself

00:15:42.520 out there.

00:15:43.540 Like, I mean, I've done this podcast, like, maybe five times now.

00:15:46.800 And I have people from your podcast in my DMs.

00:15:50.620 And it's, like, I'm, like, I go on your podcast and, like, people see me.

00:15:55.060 And that is, like, how I, like, put my name out there.

00:15:56.780 But I feel like I do have to be cautious about how I put my name out there.

00:16:00.200 But I've definitely thought about doing, like, as a thing, like, I wouldn't do, like, I wouldn't

00:16:06.980 do corn.

00:16:07.440 I wouldn't do anything like that.

00:16:08.380 But, like, one of the girls that actually went to UCSB, and I, like, I watch her, and

00:16:12.620 she's, like, blowing up because she's, like, a fitness influencer, Claire Stone. 1.00

00:16:18.000 Claire Stone, she has an OnlyFans, and she posts, like, bikini stuff, gym stuff, and I'm

00:16:23.120 a big gym girl.

00:16:23.900 And I was, like, if I could, like, kind of go off what she goes off of, I think that

00:16:28.300 that would be cool.

00:16:30.100 But I haven't quite, like, personally, I would not do corn.

00:16:34.100 But to each their own, you know?

00:16:36.140 There are a lot of softcore creators that make a lot of money, too.

00:16:40.440 Yeah, I would, I'd be interested in something like that, kind of, like, how she goes off

00:16:44.060 of it.

00:16:44.620 But corn is not for me.

00:16:47.280 Yeah, one of the biggest OnlyFans creators is a fitness person.

00:16:50.340 And all they do is, because OnlyFans inherently is just a subscription waste website.

00:16:54.420 And you can sell anything.

00:16:55.400 There's celebrities that sell, like, that will, like, post, like, pictures of their children

00:16:58.840 because, like.

00:16:59.580 That's weird.

00:17:00.180 Well, but if you think about it, it's smart because, like, with OnlyFans, like, you, like,

00:17:03.500 essentially are selling a contract that these photos cannot get leaked.

00:17:06.600 So if you, like, buy, like, these photos can't get leaked and they can get, like, traced.

00:17:11.260 I don't think that you should be posting your kids on a platform like that, period.

00:17:14.700 Yeah.

00:17:15.240 Yeah.

00:17:15.820 I also don't think that's true.

00:17:18.260 But regardless, like, people of all different, like, I've done a cooking show on OnlyFans.

00:17:22.720 And I've also, like, done fitness stuff with people on OnlyFans.

00:17:25.300 So there is, like, a corn, like, correlation, but it's not necessarily a thing that, like,

00:17:31.740 is all it does.

00:17:33.080 Also, I have met a lot of friends who are actresses and also do runway walking and musicians.

00:17:38.540 And they're also able to cross boundaries.

00:17:40.920 I think it's just, like, whatever you're trying to do and seeing, like, what they're up to.

00:17:44.480 Because I wanted to do fashion this year.

00:17:46.280 And a lot of my friends were like, ooh, you might have to make a separate profile.

00:17:49.680 Where does that?

00:17:52.100 Oh, that's weird.

00:17:56.660 Yo, Cheeks, thank you for the 50.

00:17:59.000 I don't know why the TTS is not coming through and then why it's...

00:18:02.980 Eric, in the OBS...

00:18:03.940 Oh, my God, someone loves you.

00:18:05.260 Eric, in the OBS window, can you hide the Twitch alerts?

00:18:07.660 They don't love me by my name.

00:18:08.960 Hide the Twitch alerts. 0.99

00:18:10.180 Shut up, Thick is a good thing. 0.98

00:18:11.880 Sources. 1.00

00:18:13.020 Not a bad thing.

00:18:14.360 Thick girls unite. 1.00

00:18:15.180 Okay, I'm not sure what's going on with the TTS.

00:18:17.420 I might have to check that out.

00:18:19.940 Sorry, guys.

00:18:20.800 We're... 0.99

00:18:20.960 Fucking TTS is always scuffed. 0.99

00:18:22.920 Cheeks, I will. 1.00

00:18:23.840 I will try to figure it out.

00:18:24.820 But let me read it since TTS is not coming through.

00:18:26.960 You have to read it like the way you think he would say it.

00:18:28.280 The way this guy named Beaten Cheeks.

00:18:29.660 Why don't you read it?

00:18:31.040 Shout out to Thickney and the workout model. 0.99

00:18:34.960 Please don't do the corn route if you want a real man in your life, 0.99

00:18:38.280 no matter the money.

00:18:39.720 It's better to be respected by a high-value man

00:18:42.020 than a ran-frew-only homies content creator that will be with cucks.

00:18:45.520 Thank you, Beaten Cheeks.

00:18:47.120 Spending your $50 to tell us this message.

00:18:49.960 Can they Venmo me this and say a message that way?

00:18:52.920 I feel like it'd be a lot more conducive for her to hear your message.

00:18:56.560 Yeah, I'll respond to it that way.

00:18:58.440 Yeah.

00:18:59.600 Thank you, Cheeks.

00:19:00.540 I'm not sure why...

00:19:02.160 Eric, you're going to have to...

00:19:03.540 I think you might have to hide the Twitch alerts thing on each of the windows.

00:19:06.760 When they say it, does it come with their voice?

00:19:09.200 Yeah, normally it does, but I'm not sure.

00:19:10.940 That's way funnier if they said it with their voice.

00:19:12.480 No, it's not their voice.

00:19:13.960 It's like a bot voice.

00:19:15.020 Oh, yeah.

00:19:15.580 I'm not sure what's going on.

00:19:17.040 I thought you could really hear who you like.

00:19:17.720 We can do impressions.

00:19:19.080 That would be funny.

00:19:20.320 Yeah.

00:19:20.620 Do any of you know how to do any accents?

00:19:22.720 You guys are going to serve as the TTS if it doesn't get fixed.

00:19:26.840 I just talk like a valley girl.

00:19:28.360 Sorry.

00:19:29.220 Rip.

00:19:30.280 I'm just checking it out on my end over here.

00:19:32.160 All right, so you guys have OnlyFans.

00:19:35.700 Cool, cool, cool.

00:19:36.520 You make a good amount of money.

00:19:38.760 And let me see here.

00:19:41.760 I'm looking at my Streamlabs thing here.

00:19:43.800 One sec, guys, while I try to get this fixed.

00:19:47.740 But...

00:19:48.720 Meow.

00:19:49.020 Well, in any case, in any case, there's always some sort of technical issue going on.

00:19:59.680 My bad, guys.

00:20:00.380 Okay, so have you, for those of you...

00:20:04.120 Actually, I'll come back to the OnlyFans thing in a little bit.

00:20:07.420 So have you ever passed on a guy or rejected a guy only to later regret it?

00:20:14.640 Me?

00:20:15.100 Yeah.

00:20:16.620 No, I don't think so.

00:20:18.540 I mean, if I passed on him, then the vibe just wasn't right. 0.99

00:20:21.140 Like, if I found out that later he was fucking Barack Obama or some shit, it really wouldn't matter. 0.99

00:20:26.780 It would... 1.00

00:20:27.340 Because, like, if I decided I didn't want to fuck him, then we just weren't going to fuck anyways. 1.00

00:20:32.760 But I probably would fuck Barack Obama. 1.00

00:20:35.500 If you're watching... 1.00

00:20:41.140 You would fuck Barack Obama? 1.00

00:20:43.500 Oh, abso-fucking-lutely. 1.00

00:20:45.040 What the hell? 0.99

00:20:45.560 Well, he's probably our sexiest president alive. 0.97

00:20:48.760 Facts.

00:20:48.940 What about Trump?

00:20:50.260 Not a sexy president.

00:20:51.820 His spray tan would get on you.

00:20:53.340 Should I?

00:20:56.020 No.

00:20:56.460 So even if I, like, thought Donald Trump was, like, a cool guy, even, like, young pictures

00:21:02.480 of him aren't hot.

00:21:03.480 Young pictures of Joe Biden, though, pretty sexy.

00:21:06.840 That guy's kind of cute.

00:21:08.180 Would you have a Coke-fueled threesome with Hunter Biden?

00:21:12.520 What does he look like?

00:21:13.460 He's cute.

00:21:14.160 Is he cute?

00:21:14.820 I think so.

00:21:15.800 I think he is.

00:21:16.940 It's kind of been a white boy winter for me, so probably. 0.99

00:21:20.760 A white boy winter. 0.62

00:21:24.740 You know what?

00:21:25.540 It happens to be Asian Girl Spring.

00:21:29.180 Oh, yay! 0.82

00:21:30.220 Let's go!

00:21:30.800 It's not spring yet, so I'm sorry.

00:21:34.800 Oh, I'll be back.

00:21:35.620 I'm sorry.

00:21:37.060 But, by the way, there was an issue in the TTS should be fixed now, guys.

00:21:42.400 I'm not sure.

00:21:43.180 Oh, wait.

00:21:43.820 Maybe not.

00:21:44.760 Hold on.

00:21:46.000 I don't know.

00:21:46.360 It's getting scuffed.

00:21:47.120 But, hold on.

00:21:47.720 Let me see if that works.

00:21:50.500 Your answer to the question?

00:21:51.580 When you say pass on a guy, do you mean sex-wise or relationship-wise or date-wise or all of the above?

00:22:02.240 Well, just, I mean, have you ever passed on a guy or rejected him?

00:22:06.100 I've definitely passed and rejected men, yes.

00:22:08.600 No, no, no.

00:22:09.040 But only to later regret it?

00:22:10.680 No regrets.

00:22:11.300 Never regretted?

00:22:12.320 Like, oh, I turned down this guy.

00:22:13.840 He had a glow-up.

00:22:15.360 No.

00:22:15.700 He became rich.

00:22:17.580 No.

00:22:17.840 Never had that.

00:22:18.480 No.

00:22:18.780 That's shallow.

00:22:20.620 Okay.

00:22:20.900 So, I have passed on a guy, rejected a guy, and not regret it, but I do think that people

00:22:33.080 are capable of change, and sometimes the new version of a person can, I can sometimes be

00:22:39.660 like, okay, like, you seem like you're in a way better place right now.

00:22:42.940 Like, okay, you know, maybe something can happen if they've developed as a person and, you know,

00:22:48.800 kind of, I guess, change the traits that I may have non-vibed with or liked in the past.

00:22:55.280 I feel like being, like, having a different, like, what you're saying as far as, like, becoming

00:23:03.100 a different person as opposed to, like, people don't change.

00:23:08.840 You know what I'm saying?

00:23:09.800 Like, I feel like deep down, like, it's very hard for a person to actually change.

00:23:12.980 Like, you can become a different person and learn how to, like, you know, take better

00:23:18.120 control of your negative traits or whatever you didn't like in that person, but I don't

00:23:22.780 think that they actually, like, changed, which is part of the reason why I have no regrets.

00:23:27.140 Okay.

00:23:27.360 Yo, Cheeks, I apologize.

00:23:30.740 I don't know why the TTS is not working.

00:23:33.240 He wants, he has more to say.

00:23:35.380 He's like, I've been retracted by many women and I'm sure they all really regretted it.

00:23:40.500 I swear.

00:23:41.440 Please put my Venmo in the chat. 0.99

00:23:44.580 Shut up. 0.99

00:23:45.200 This guy's in his mind. 1.00

00:23:46.440 Cheeks, I would rather subscribe.

00:23:48.620 Actually, Kazumi, you read it.

00:23:49.920 You have a more pleasant.

00:23:51.060 This guy has, like, is so angry that I make money.

00:23:56.100 I would rather subscribe and donate money on platforms to help men and women than to

00:24:00.180 put a waste of a single cent of my millions, thanks, Beat and Cheeks, to ran through only

00:24:05.980 homies, girls that do not respect their self-image for their future self and devalue themselves 1.00

00:24:10.420 in shame. 0.94

00:24:11.140 Bro, as long as you live in this illusion that you think you call the shots anywhere, you'll

00:24:16.980 never wake up and that's totally fine because we are never going to meet.

00:24:21.060 Like, it's like you can continue living in your, in your strange little world.

00:24:25.820 By the way, his first name actually is Beaton and his last name actually is Cheeks.

00:24:32.100 Well, his life is a, you know, it seems like that's his passion if that's his name.

00:24:37.600 It's not like my name is Kazumi Squirts or something.

00:24:40.780 It is.

00:24:41.540 You should actually legally change your name to Kazumi Squirts.

00:24:45.480 Yeah, that's, um.

00:24:46.740 Is that your court name?

00:24:47.960 Huh?

00:24:48.220 That's my court name.

00:24:48.820 Well, no, actually, it's her birth name.

00:24:50.700 I actually dropped the last name.

00:24:52.820 So now it's just Kazumi because I'm kind of a creamer.

00:24:55.880 I don't really squirt.

00:24:57.060 Oh, so I didn't want to lie.

00:24:59.340 Yeah.

00:25:00.000 So now I'm just Kazumi, like, like Beyonce or whatever.

00:25:03.660 Yeah.

00:25:04.140 Okay.

00:25:04.760 Well, are you well hydrated?

00:25:06.860 Yes.

00:25:07.300 What?

00:25:07.840 Oh, I'm just, yeah.

00:25:09.240 I drink a lot of water.

00:25:10.320 Okay.

00:25:10.700 I think as long as I'm here, this guy will keep tipping the chat and hopefully we'll, you'll

00:25:14.700 like, make hundreds of dollars tonight.

00:25:18.280 We can only hope.

00:25:20.660 You know, and you should actually change it to a kind of a J-Lo thing.

00:25:24.800 Yeah.

00:25:25.060 So K-Squire. 0.99

00:25:26.900 Like Kazumi Lopez? 0.96

00:25:28.280 K-Squirts. 1.00

00:25:28.680 Oh.

00:25:29.120 K-Squirts. 1.00

00:25:29.920 K-Squirts. 1.00

00:25:31.240 You could do squirm.

00:25:32.000 That's cute.

00:25:32.720 For both.

00:25:33.500 Squirm.

00:25:34.060 Cheeks.

00:25:34.580 I do apologize, though, that the TTS is not working.

00:25:36.900 I have no idea why, but we will, guys, anyone who donates 50 and up, we will just read it.

00:25:44.480 We'll do, Kazumi will act as our TTS trigger. 0.99

00:25:48.800 Sound good, Kazumi?

00:25:49.900 Yeah.

00:25:50.560 Okay.

00:25:51.840 So did you get to answer the question?

00:25:53.940 Have you ever rejected a guy, turned a guy down, but later regretted it?

00:25:57.600 So I said yes, but I don't regret it.

00:26:00.260 I guess if I meet a new version of them, I'm just kind of like, okay, this new developed

00:26:05.500 version of you is something that I can kind of get more behind.

00:26:09.300 You know what I mean?

00:26:10.740 Sydney, what about you?

00:26:12.180 Yes.

00:26:13.180 And I've also reached out to him about it and was kind of like open about it.

00:26:15.760 Did you try to rekindle it?

00:26:18.040 So essentially it was someone that I was seeing before moving to college, but as soon as I

00:26:23.740 met him, I met him coming out to tour the college, and as soon as I met him from the

00:26:28.520 get-go, I was like, hey, like when I moved to college, like I don't want anything, like

00:26:31.400 I want to be on my own, and we got like super, super close, but I stood by my word, and when

00:26:35.920 I came to college, I like, I ended it, and we stopped talking for like over a year now,

00:26:40.800 and I like thought about him recently, and I reached back out, and I was like, hey, I

00:26:44.380 was like, I like called him one night, and I was like, hey, if I'm being honest, like

00:26:47.560 I kind of like regret how I handled things, but at the same time, I stand by being single

00:26:52.140 in college, and I stand by like having like my like, because like I did a lot of growing

00:26:57.380 by myself, like for that year, so I like stand by it, but I did reach back out, and

00:27:02.620 I was like, hey, like, because he was like an amazing guy, but I stand by and regret at

00:27:07.980 the same time, does that make sense?

00:27:11.140 Yeah.

00:27:12.440 Props.

00:27:13.980 I mean.

00:27:14.460 Or standing by what you wanted.

00:27:16.780 Kind of, I don't know, I feel like my take on it is, I've had girls who previously turned 0.99

00:27:21.400 me down, and sometimes like pretty ruthlessly reject me, and then they fucking see my shit 0.97

00:27:26.760 online, and they were like, oh. 0.99

00:27:28.040 As you should.

00:27:28.620 And then they, but so like, there's this, I don't know, this, this is like an 80s song.

00:27:33.740 Oh.

00:27:34.980 Okay.

00:27:35.480 Oh, beat it. 0.76

00:27:36.620 He's back.

00:27:37.360 We'll pull it up in just a sec.

00:27:38.280 Oh my God.

00:27:39.440 She's still here.

00:27:40.340 We'll pull it up in just a sec, Eric.

00:27:41.920 So there's this.

00:27:44.160 This guy's so angry.

00:27:47.320 Hold on, hold on.

00:27:48.280 So there's this song by Positive K, this rapper in like the 80s, 90s, and the song is called

00:27:55.040 I Got a Man, and it's basically, it's kind of an interesting song where he's basically

00:27:59.460 approaching a girl, but she's got a boyfriend, and he's like trying to still get at her, but

00:28:05.280 one of the lyrics goes something along the lines of, so when I blow up, don't try to kick

00:28:10.360 it to me later.

00:28:11.420 So I've had like, you know, throughout my journey online, I've had a lot of girls who 0.66

00:28:15.820 like previously turn me down, and then like they'll see my shit and be like, hey, and 0.83

00:28:21.500 I'm like, no whack, I don't like, you had your chance, if you didn't want me then, like 0.97

00:28:27.060 it's, I'm not interested. 0.74

00:28:28.500 For me, it was like high school people, like I was like a total loner, total loser in high

00:28:33.420 school, like totally like did not talk to anyone at all, and got bullied a lot throughout

00:28:37.420 my school years, and now I have like people from school being like, oh hey, you look really

00:28:41.880 good, or hey, like I see you in the gym and shit, and I'm just like, well like now 0.95

00:28:45.440 I'm not interested because you were like a jerk then, but with this guy, like we started 0.97

00:28:48.960 off really well, we ended things, I ended things, and like it was on good terms, like 0.98

00:28:54.380 we stopped talking completely, but I was like mature about it, but I was also mature

00:28:58.260 like going back, and was like, hey, I don't know, I feel like if you handle things properly,

00:29:03.280 it makes a difference, like ending it and reconciling it.

00:29:06.220 Stop it, get some help.

00:29:08.460 Kazumi, can you read this TTS? 1.00

00:29:11.360 It's like, he is like, fuck her. 1.00

00:29:13.520 It gets worse, it gets worse. 1.00

00:29:14.760 Why is she crying right now? 0.96

00:29:17.480 Kazumi, it's also spelled with a K, A, Z-U-M-I, but you knew that already.

00:29:24.060 I will be on the show in a few months, and you can go ahead and try your best and sit

00:29:29.300 in the same room as me, because that will be the only time you may be with a real man

00:29:33.180 that will turn you down. 1.00

00:29:34.560 What the fuck did you go around? 0.99

00:29:36.580 That will turn you down, even if you try to pay me for a good time. 1.00

00:29:41.080 One, I will.

00:29:41.800 He's paying you right now.

00:29:42.920 Don't you think this is a real guy?

00:29:44.680 I'm like sitting next to a real guy right now.

00:29:47.660 What?

00:29:48.400 That guy's a real guy?

00:29:49.800 Like, that's not a real woman. 0.97

00:29:53.000 Don't assume.

00:29:57.360 It's gender. 1.00

00:29:58.200 Okay.

00:29:58.640 What does this guy think I'm going to do?

00:30:00.280 Like, I'm going to see him and self-combust because he like watches Fresh and Fit or something.

00:30:04.700 Like, I'm just going to like lose my bank account.

00:30:07.320 Like, I'm just going to walk away.

00:30:09.480 It's like when like a crazy guy is like screaming at you at a 7-Eleven.

00:30:12.860 Do I engage?

00:30:13.940 No.

00:30:14.380 I just go and buy my hot dog quietly and then go sit in my car and then I drive home to

00:30:19.080 my nice house.

00:30:19.920 Like, what?

00:30:20.540 I don't care.

00:30:23.180 Okay.

00:30:23.680 Cheeks.

00:30:24.080 Thank you, man.

00:30:24.820 Appreciate it.

00:30:26.280 Appreciate it.

00:30:27.000 Thank you for the, uh, sorry.

00:30:28.580 Sorry.

00:30:28.900 Once again, the TTS is not working.

00:30:30.420 It's okay.

00:30:30.580 I'm the better voice. 0.89

00:30:31.900 I'm going to give him like a very effeminate.

00:30:33.240 Here, while we're at it, um, I'm going to just read the rest of the soup chats here.

00:30:40.860 Guys, get your soup chats in.

00:30:42.160 I will read soup chats, $20 and up 50 and up normally triggers TTS text to speech, but

00:30:47.980 for some reason it's not working.

00:30:49.380 So we're going to have Kazumi act as the, do you know, can you do like a British accent? 1.00

00:30:55.920 Cheerio.

00:30:57.120 Okay.

00:30:57.640 Maybe not.

00:30:58.760 All right.

00:30:59.240 We have, uh, actually we have Andrew Tate here.

00:31:01.420 I'm flying the Asian girl to Romania for a conjugal visit.

00:31:04.660 Pack your bags.

00:31:06.560 Are you, uh, would you be down to?

00:31:08.500 I went on an e-date with Andrew Tate already.

00:31:11.160 Oh yeah.

00:31:11.660 Yeah.

00:31:11.860 Did you see that?

00:31:12.600 I saw that. 1.00

00:31:13.160 I had no idea who the fuck he was. 1.00

00:31:15.180 I just thought he was another bald guy. 0.99

00:31:16.900 So I was, uh, so, and, and it was an e-date.

00:31:19.200 So it was like the bachelorette.

00:31:20.920 So I was trying to win. 0.99

00:31:22.060 And, and first of all, all these guys are hella misogynistic and worm brains. 0.99

00:31:27.240 So I just was just trying to win anyways. 0.96

00:31:30.040 I didn't think what he was saying was out of the norm for guys on Twitch.

00:31:33.580 Aiden Ross is a, is he, are you, are you saying that about Aiden Ross or Tate?

00:31:37.320 No, I'm talking about Tate.

00:31:38.540 Andrew Tate.

00:31:39.080 No, I thought you're homies with Aiden.

00:31:40.840 I am.

00:31:41.400 No, I went on a street, an e-date with, yeah, I saw that.

00:31:44.840 Yeah.

00:31:44.960 I went on an e-date with Andrew Tate and, um, I didn't know who to fart he was, dude.

00:31:49.440 I just knew that he was a silly little guy and e-date is a, it's like an online, it's

00:31:54.640 a virtual date. 0.97

00:31:55.380 It's like the bachelor, but online, you get paid for that.

00:31:58.540 No, it's like a Twitch stream.

00:31:59.880 It's like what we're doing right now.

00:32:01.020 Like it's a podcast, except it's a date where it's like my camera and his camera.

00:32:04.620 And we're just like on like a, basically a FaceTime date in front of like thousands of

00:32:09.700 people.

00:32:09.980 And it just didn't really go well.

00:32:12.380 You could Google it, but it's, uh, I didn't know who he was.

00:32:16.060 So I was saying things like, I want to have your baby and, um, I will impregnate myself. 0.98

00:32:21.360 It's embarrassing, but you didn't look it up.

00:32:24.160 It's not embarrassing.

00:32:24.980 You didn't look it up.

00:32:26.780 But, uh, I've been on one of those on an e-date.

00:32:29.620 Yeah.

00:32:29.940 No, I've done reverse e-dates.

00:32:31.780 That was a reverse e-date where all of us were fighting for Andrew Tate's love.

00:32:34.680 And like, this was before he was kind of like, obviously like our Hitler. 0.67

00:32:39.320 So I didn't know that he was like, hold on.

00:32:41.360 You just, that's a terrible comparison, but it's just like, obviously this was before 1.00

00:32:47.260 he was extremely popular for sucking ass. 1.00

00:32:49.580 Like I just kind of thought he was just some dude. 1.00

00:32:51.780 Um, and then I realized that he was Andrew Tate.

00:32:54.480 Would you say all of this to his face?

00:32:56.820 Yes.

00:32:57.340 You'd say all that to Andrew Tate's face.

00:32:59.060 Yeah.

00:32:59.320 I'm like saying it on a public forum right now.

00:33:01.680 I'm sure he'll see it.

00:33:02.680 He's watching it.

00:33:04.300 I'm sure he just allegedly is in the, in the chat right now.

00:33:08.100 What if you met Andrew Tate in person and he was perfectly pleasant to you in person?

00:33:12.180 I think I would still say that.

00:33:13.800 You'd still give him a piece of your mind?

00:33:15.460 Why would you think I wouldn't?

00:33:18.080 Why would you think I would, I would be, I would suddenly switch up because he has money.

00:33:23.260 If I also have money and also have people in my life that respect me, I don't have to

00:33:27.640 demean myself for some weird guy.

00:33:30.040 Well, why would you be demeaning yourself by being respectful to him?

00:33:33.400 I mean, I would be respectful, but I could still disagree with his concepts.

00:33:36.580 Sure, sure, of course.

00:33:37.800 So, yeah, I would absolutely say everything on camera.

00:33:40.460 I'm saying.

00:33:40.720 You did call him Hitler, though, I think, which is a bit of a stretch.

00:33:42.600 He is definitely our Hitler, yeah. 0.97

00:33:44.240 A what Hitler? 0.87

00:33:45.320 No, he is, yeah, he is our Hitler. 1.00

00:33:47.360 No, no, no, no, come on, that's ridiculous. 0.96

00:33:50.780 And he is not going to, and he. 0.63

00:33:52.500 Come zoom me.

00:33:53.360 Come zoom me.

00:33:56.600 Ryan.

00:33:56.880 What specifically, I guess, what specifically about what Andrew Tate says do you disagree with?

00:34:02.780 Do you agree that women should have their body counts on their forehead? 1.00

00:34:07.160 Why?

00:34:07.780 Okay, I've seen that clip, and we've actually reacted to it on this podcast.

00:34:11.200 Yeah, but do you agree?

00:34:12.060 Can I see it later?

00:34:14.660 Perhaps later.

00:34:15.720 Yeah.

00:34:15.880 So what's your question?

00:34:17.000 First of all, I think it is perfectly, we are perfectly able to talk about how men should 0.63

00:34:22.980 focus on themselves and empower themselves to be kings and whatever the fuck without 0.84

00:34:27.580 demeaning womanhood and, like, also putting all their value on their personal choices. 0.99

00:34:33.600 Like, it's, those things can totally be separate.

00:34:36.020 Also, like, all men benefit from a system built by the patriarchy while we are women

00:34:41.580 and we are dealing, you know, while we, sorry, what did that say?

00:34:46.760 It said erroneous, but continue.

00:34:48.600 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, while we, while we are simply in, in this structure, you know

00:34:54.100 what I mean?

00:34:54.460 Like, it's like, I don't, I also don't have to live by your rules, and if you feel like

00:34:59.360 you are trapped in a, in a place where women only want you for your money or what you offer, 1.00

00:35:03.340 then I just beg you to go the fuck outside and meet more women. 1.00

00:35:08.020 True. 1.00

00:35:08.560 Okay, so you, yeah.

00:35:09.320 Or graduate the eighth grade, honestly.

00:35:10.640 Like, what, do you care, really, how much a guy makes, as long as he's able to, like,

00:35:17.500 you know, take care of himself?

00:35:19.500 I would say most women care, to some degree, about a man's income. 0.99

00:35:22.880 Well, no, of course, we're not asking for, like, a fucking homeless guy, but I'm asking, 0.97

00:35:26.260 like, a guy who's just as stable as me is totally fine. 0.97

00:35:29.880 Like, what?

00:35:30.920 Yeah, but you may, you just said.

00:35:32.180 I don't need him to make $300,000 a month, but I need him to just be able to.

00:35:36.140 But that would be as stable as you.

00:35:37.540 You said you make $3 million a year.

00:35:39.100 I need someone that is able to just, like, be safe.

00:35:42.620 Not a loser.

00:35:43.500 Yeah. 1.00

00:35:43.840 He just doesn't have to be a fucking bum. 1.00

00:35:45.820 Like, have a passion. 1.00

00:35:47.140 Yeah.

00:35:47.420 Have, like, a job.

00:35:47.900 Have, like, a job.

00:35:47.920 Make his own money and then, like, take care of himself. 0.99

00:35:50.460 Like, I've dated my fair share of losers, majority. 1.00

00:35:53.520 All of the guys have been losers. 0.98

00:35:56.100 Like, I've dated guys who, like, don't have cars, don't have driver's licenses. 0.97

00:35:58.920 But you're, like, in college, so this is a normal part.

00:36:01.000 No, but this was, well, I haven't really dated.

00:36:03.660 Yeah.

00:36:04.340 Yeah.

00:36:04.540 This is college.

00:36:05.440 This is a normal part.

00:36:06.380 When you are, like, 25 plus, it's, like, men think, like, there's only two extremes.

00:36:11.100 We either date a hobo or a millionaire. 0.99

00:36:13.240 And it's, like, I could just date a guy who has a normal career.

00:36:16.840 And as long as he has a passion and, like, is able to provide for himself, that's totally fine.

00:36:23.520 Yeah.

00:36:23.860 You know? 0.99

00:36:24.280 I don't really give a fuck. 0.99

00:36:26.120 And also still. 0.99

00:36:26.820 Okay, but there's certain realities to, and, I mean, you touched, you used a couple buzzwords,

00:36:31.940 so I will try to get back to those chiefly that, well, you asserted that there's a patriarchy.

00:36:37.340 I'll get to that in a sec.

00:36:38.460 So, you're a high earner, so you could probably be the sole breadwinner and support a family.

00:36:46.640 However, a man's income is definitely a calculus, I would say, in most women's assessment of who they're going to partner with. 0.82

00:36:54.820 Because assuming you want to have children, because if you want to have children, a man's income is a factor in the calculus and in the equation of,

00:37:03.720 will we be able to, you know, have kids, how big's the house, how big, you know, can we have cars?

00:37:10.040 Like, it's a factor, for sure, especially for women. 1.00

00:37:13.800 Does he need to be, like, a millionaire, or could he just be, like, a normal guy?

00:37:17.360 No, but if you want a certain lifestyle, for example, depending on how many kids you want,

00:37:22.060 do the kids have their own bedrooms, own bathrooms?

00:37:25.240 Do you want to go on family vacations?

00:37:26.620 Do you want to have one, two, three cars?

00:37:29.880 All this stuff starts becoming a factor.

00:37:31.960 Am I unemployed during this?

00:37:33.940 Like, I also can't do that myself.

00:37:35.840 What do you mean?

00:37:36.400 Like, I feel like I could also do that right now.

00:37:39.540 Do what?

00:37:39.680 Even if I had kids, I could take them on vacations, and I just, when people want...

00:37:43.760 You make three million dollars a year.

00:37:45.000 This is fine, but even when I...

00:37:46.400 You can take me on vacation.

00:37:47.300 But even when I didn't make that amount of money, I had very fulfilling relationships,

00:37:50.800 because the relationships I had were based upon the fact that I just liked this person.

00:37:54.880 And they also liked me, and we spent time together and made an effort to appreciate one another.

00:37:59.920 Also, you're right.

00:38:00.860 Like, you know, depending on if you want to have a family, if you want to have kids, all

00:38:05.320 that stuff, you probably should date somebody who has the same goals as you and is actively

00:38:10.900 working towards those goals.

00:38:12.760 Because personally, I don't really want kids.

00:38:15.560 So, you know, when income comes into play, it's not really income for kids.

00:38:19.840 I want my partner to simply earn enough for both of us to just have fun whenever we want.

00:38:25.740 And we both know that, so we both, you know, we also work with what we have.

00:38:31.680 Because, for instance, I'm not making three million a year.

00:38:34.200 You know what I mean?

00:38:34.900 I'm making probably what...

00:38:36.640 You're making six figures, though, right?

00:38:38.320 Yeah.

00:38:38.740 So I'm still making a good amount, but I am making an equal amount as to somebody who has,

00:38:43.380 like, a more, I guess, societally accepted job, like a normal career.

00:38:48.840 But I think when women look into men who are making a certain kind of money, it's not really

00:38:55.440 about the money.

00:38:56.220 It's about the goals and how they're going to work to achieve those goals.

00:39:00.520 I think men like to pretend... 1.00

00:39:01.420 Eric, can you just close the door?

00:39:02.960 It is cold.

00:39:03.820 I think men like to pretend that dating is way harder than it actually is.

00:39:07.540 In reality, I think if we have common goals and common interests and common values, a lot

00:39:13.960 of this is a lot easier than you think.

00:39:16.260 If you think it's...

00:39:17.880 You think dating is easy?

00:39:19.160 If you think it's based off of, like, trying to convince a girl to date you or trying to

00:39:26.460 have things that a woman, that you feel like women want, like having a six-figure income 0.99

00:39:30.820 or a giant fucking dick, then you're only going to attract people that exactly want that. 0.99

00:39:35.140 If I'm looking for someone to date me because of my personality and I want someone to support 1.00

00:39:39.240 me, then I'm going to attract people that want to date and support me and also have those

00:39:44.320 same virtues.

00:39:46.260 I mean, you can say that, but the reality is, is that...

00:39:50.380 The reality is I'm in a four-year relationship.

00:39:53.060 Okay.

00:39:53.640 Yeah.

00:39:53.960 What does that...

00:39:54.640 What does that prove?

00:39:55.320 The reality is that there are many people in my situation who are in very happy relationships

00:39:59.240 and none of it is based off of really income or any of that besides, like, we just like

00:40:05.420 each other.

00:40:05.820 Well, so this kind of originally stemmed from our discussion of Tate, and it's not clear

00:40:10.720 to me that Tate's primary topic of interest is saying that women only care about money. 0.99

00:40:17.500 I don't think he says that at all.

00:40:19.080 I think...

00:40:19.400 I think that's a factor.

00:40:20.320 But to deny that women don't care about a man's money is dubious. 0.98

00:40:26.420 I don't think a lot of women care. 1.00

00:40:28.120 Yeah.

00:40:28.500 I feel like a lot of women don't care. 1.00

00:40:30.380 And I also feel like Tate creates a reality for these men to live in that make it seem

00:40:35.960 like women are constantly out to get them or manipulate them. 1.00

00:40:39.300 But if they would just like...

00:40:39.880 Tate doesn't say that.

00:40:40.760 Tate never says that.

00:40:42.280 Not arguing.

00:40:43.220 But did you see his new, like, foundation that he's, like, he's, like, going to donate?

00:40:48.560 I think it was, like, 100 million.

00:40:49.600 I'm probably getting my math wrong.

00:40:50.920 But to protect men of fake allegations.

00:40:54.700 You're derailing the conversation.

00:40:56.220 That has absolutely nothing to do with what we're talking about.

00:40:59.080 Okay.

00:40:59.620 So you guys...

00:41:02.520 Okay.

00:41:02.700 Well, I want to give you an opportunity to come in.

00:41:04.420 Do you think that women don't care about men's money at all? 0.76

00:41:07.440 Is that what your guys' position is?

00:41:09.240 No, I didn't say that we don't care at all.

00:41:11.320 I'm just saying it's, like...

00:41:12.940 Personal preference.

00:41:14.000 You should just be able to have your own thing going on.

00:41:16.320 And that's fine.

00:41:17.460 I think when men are afraid of women making a lot of money, it's because they feel like

00:41:21.160 they can't control her anymore. 0.99

00:41:22.600 I think it's fine that I have a job and then you have a job.

00:41:25.840 And you don't need to make one bajillion dollars for me to date you or, like, lose my integrity.

00:41:30.160 I'm just saying that I'm happy that you have your own goals and dreams and you're able

00:41:34.420 to hold your own.

00:41:35.520 And so will I.

00:41:36.440 And we will be with each other because we want to be, not because we need to be.

00:41:40.660 Men are not afraid of women who make a lot of money because they're afraid that they're

00:41:45.820 going to lose the girl.

00:41:47.620 No, that's not what I'm saying.

00:41:48.620 Men just don't... 0.56

00:41:49.560 It's not something that's particularly important to us how much money a woman makes. 1.00

00:41:55.080 That's not true.

00:41:55.820 That is...

00:41:56.460 Okay, let me...

00:41:57.260 You think it's not true men care deeply about how much money a woman makes?

00:42:01.120 Well, you didn't say deeply.

00:42:02.700 I mean, everyone has their own opinions, obviously, but I definitely think that how much...

00:42:06.680 Generally speaking.

00:42:06.920 Let's say generally speaking.

00:42:08.300 I think that there are men out there that care about what their significant other will

00:42:14.420 bring to the table because they are like...

00:42:17.220 Not financially.

00:42:18.300 Well, yeah.

00:42:19.060 Financially.

00:42:19.900 Financially plus like other...

00:42:21.520 I'm not saying that all men don't care about that, but most men, it doesn't really matter.

00:42:25.960 Well, that's also what we're saying about women. 1.00

00:42:27.820 Most women don't... 1.00

00:42:28.860 All men don't... 1.00

00:42:29.560 All women don't care about how much money a man may be making. 1.00

00:42:32.560 Women... 1.00

00:42:32.960 You know?

00:42:33.180 Women... 1.00

00:42:33.500 I'm not saying all women care about money, but women care about it more than men do. 0.97

00:42:37.720 I think that that's a reality that men make up for themselves, and I think that it is

00:42:41.200 untrue.

00:42:42.340 It's not because if you...

00:42:44.220 I think...

00:42:44.460 I agree with you.

00:42:45.840 I think that...

00:42:46.800 I...

00:42:47.480 I'm sorry.

00:42:48.140 No, go ahead.

00:42:48.560 I think that women... 1.00

00:42:49.260 I think that women... 1.00

00:42:51.020 Like, it's different because you guys are entrepreneurs.

00:42:54.260 You're making your own money.

00:42:55.040 You guys are making good money, so yeah, that's like not the forefront of your mind, but typically

00:42:59.540 for the average woman, they are going to look at their, you know, the persons that

00:43:05.400 they're dating, their occupation, what are they doing with their life, how much money

00:43:09.100 are they making?

00:43:10.140 Like, that's...

00:43:11.000 That's just...

00:43:12.060 That's just the truth. 0.97

00:43:13.480 I've had to date guys that I've had to like help them with money, and it's fucking embarrassing. 0.92

00:43:17.620 It's like... 0.89

00:43:17.840 It's embarrassing for me only for the point...

00:43:20.320 There you go.

00:43:20.880 Like, for the point for me, like...

00:43:22.760 Like, don't get me wrong, I'm 22, but like...

00:43:25.020 I don't want to have to date a guy again that like doesn't have a car, doesn't even have

00:43:28.140 a driver's license, like doesn't do anything with his life.

00:43:30.860 Like, I've had a guy that was like super into me, but he had no ambition whatsoever, and

00:43:35.300 when he needed money, he would call his mom, and like never wanted to go out of the house,

00:43:39.400 he'd get a job, get a car, get a...

00:43:41.520 Anything.

00:43:42.220 And it's like...

00:43:43.020 I don't want to be with someone that doesn't have ambition like that.

00:43:45.840 That for me is just like, no, and it doesn't have to be about money, but like ambition,

00:43:49.540 like something.

00:43:51.320 Like, I don't want to have to...

00:43:51.940 And I know that you guys are saying that...

00:43:54.320 You're not saying that the person has to make as much money as you, like, I know that you're

00:43:57.880 not saying that, but I just think that in general, when you think of the average woman,

00:44:02.020 like...

00:44:02.540 I think it just depends on what circle you're in.

00:44:05.320 I feel like if you're around women who all make a good amount of money, they don't really 1.00

00:44:09.380 care as much.

00:44:10.520 Well, that's what I'm saying.

00:44:11.600 It's like you...

00:44:12.260 It's different because you guys are making such good money.

00:44:14.120 Generally, the more money a woman makes, the more she cares about how much her partner 1.00

00:44:18.720 makes.

00:44:19.240 Do I care?

00:44:20.820 But that might be your experience, but generally speaking...

00:44:24.640 Do you care?

00:44:25.560 Hell no.

00:44:27.080 Yeah, but you guys are probably...

00:44:28.800 You guys are willing to perhaps overlook that because...

00:44:33.240 I'm not saying I'm going to date a bum, dude. 1.00

00:44:36.120 I'm saying like... 0.53

00:44:36.880 But here's the thing. 0.98

00:44:37.440 Men would date a bum. 1.00

00:44:39.480 Well, that's on them then. 0.95

00:44:40.320 Here's the difference.

00:44:40.800 A guy who makes $300,000 a month will date a girl who's a barista.

00:44:47.520 And that's on him then.

00:44:48.740 I could date a guy who's a barista.

00:44:50.660 Really?

00:44:51.240 Yeah.

00:44:51.680 What is your guy...

00:44:52.860 You said you've been dating a guy for four years.

00:44:54.640 What does he do?

00:44:55.600 Right now, he's just doing some social media management.

00:44:58.260 He helps create long-form content like this into short-form content.

00:45:01.900 So he just has a pretty average career.

00:45:04.640 Okay.

00:45:05.180 Yeah.

00:45:05.520 Six figures?

00:45:06.940 No, less than that.

00:45:08.220 Do you support him financially?

00:45:09.820 Yeah, I think we like match what we can do and we try to like work it out.

00:45:13.300 So we kind of compromise sometimes, but it's not really a big deal.

00:45:17.560 We've been together for so long and he's seen me go through different stages of my career

00:45:21.680 from being a normal office girl to being where I am now. 0.97

00:45:25.180 So we don't really give a fuck about stuff like that. 0.91

00:45:28.420 So does he make six figures? 0.95

00:45:30.380 No.

00:45:31.120 A year?

00:45:32.380 Huh?

00:45:32.860 He makes less than six figures a year?

00:45:34.340 Yeah.

00:45:34.580 Okay, so I would say this.

00:45:36.560 A guy who's making three million dollars a year would probably just pay...

00:45:40.020 Do you pay for everything in the relationship?

00:45:41.960 No.

00:45:42.660 I mean, I'll pay...

00:45:43.320 I'll like...

00:45:44.040 You know, he'll like go out of his way and like do his best to like make sure he pulls

00:45:50.560 up where he needs to.

00:45:51.720 I'll pay like what I want.

00:45:54.240 I mean, I'll always offer like I could just pay whatever.

00:45:57.020 I don't really care.

00:45:57.680 But obviously for him and his ego, he wants to maybe split stuff or whatever, but he

00:46:01.620 will make up for it in other ways by showing me he loves me through small things, which

00:46:05.520 is fine because I've...

00:46:07.020 When I was broke, I would show him how I loved him through like creative things like making

00:46:11.120 a picnic or like thinking of interesting date nights.

00:46:13.740 And I feel like that's what relationships are supposed to be about.

00:46:18.420 I would also like to touch on...

00:46:20.340 I don't necessarily disagree with you.

00:46:22.140 I do think that there are a lot of women out there who think a little bit more traditionally

00:46:27.120 and lead a more traditional life.

00:46:29.800 But I think the point that we are trying to get across is like men think that everyone

00:46:37.440 should think like that sometimes.

00:46:39.180 And it's like, okay, well, you need to understand that if you feel like...

00:46:42.380 If you feel like the most important thing to you is money, then yeah, a woman is going 1.00

00:46:46.800 to come for you for your money.

00:46:48.460 But if you put yourself out there as a person who's just trying to create a meaningful connection,

00:46:53.300 then stuff like money is not going to matter.

00:46:55.280 Eric, can you get Kazumi some water?

00:46:58.660 How'd you know that?

00:46:59.660 You can read my lips.

00:47:00.740 Me too.

00:47:01.460 Pretty much.

00:47:03.020 I'm parched.

00:47:04.240 Pass them the thing.

00:47:06.260 I'll like pour it over here.

00:47:07.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:47:08.140 Hide the table.

00:47:09.480 Oh, hide this though.

00:47:11.200 Hold on.

00:47:11.940 Let me...

00:47:12.220 Sorry, guys.

00:47:16.120 Oh, thank you.

00:47:18.440 And then just put it on the ground once you guys are done.

00:47:20.360 So, it's interesting because, I mean, you out earn your boyfriend who you've been dating

00:47:28.100 for four years.

00:47:30.380 Sorry, almost four.

00:47:31.780 Almost four years.

00:47:33.280 A guy who is making $3 million would...

00:47:36.580 That's yours.

00:47:37.800 Sorry, I just got everyone's cup mixed up.

00:47:40.080 Did you?

00:47:40.820 I don't think so.

00:47:41.960 We are refilling the water.

00:47:43.320 Sorry.

00:47:43.600 Sorry.

00:47:43.900 A guy who's making $3 million and he's dating someone who makes less than $100K, he would

00:47:53.780 probably just pay for everything, vacations, all this stuff.

00:47:56.900 Because you mentioned earlier, you want someone that can match you, like in terms of lifestyle

00:48:01.460 wise, if you want to go on a vacation, you want someone who can like bring, you know,

00:48:06.540 pay for their vacations.

00:48:07.560 And a guy who's making millions of dollars a year will just, if he's dating a girl who's

00:48:14.200 not making that much, he'll just pay for everything from the jump almost.

00:48:19.040 I want to clarify something.

00:48:20.420 I don't necessarily mean it like that.

00:48:22.760 And I'm going to use fast food and dining as a way to describe it just because that's

00:48:27.100 what's easiest for me.

00:48:28.460 So, let's say me and my partner agree that we don't want to eat out, right?

00:48:32.760 We want to cut costs.

00:48:33.820 We don't want to eat out for the entire week and he's budgeting to fit that.

00:48:38.740 And let's say one night I have a really bad day and I want to go eat somewhere nice.

00:48:43.020 And I know that he doesn't necessarily have the budget for that.

00:48:46.100 I'm going to take him and I'm going to treat it because it's something I want to do with

00:48:50.100 him.

00:48:50.720 And that can be applied to eating out.

00:48:52.660 That can be applied to vacations.

00:48:54.020 That can be applied to events.

00:48:55.420 That can be applied to literally anything in our relationship.

00:48:59.080 But that doesn't mean that like he's just not going to do anything for me.

00:49:03.100 Let's say, you know, on another, let's say I'm having a bad night.

00:49:06.060 I don't really have the budget to do what I want.

00:49:08.280 And he doesn't really have like a budget to take me out on a nice dinner.

00:49:11.240 He'll get me a pizza or like some chocolates from 7-Eleven or something cheap.

00:49:16.080 You know what I mean?

00:49:16.800 It's for me, it's not really about like, oh, can he match a vacation?

00:49:20.520 It's like, you know, showing me that he cares with what he has available.

00:49:25.600 All right.

00:49:26.220 Looks like we got a TTS coming in.

00:49:28.100 But Eric, can you pull that up?

00:49:30.360 Go for it, Kazumi. 0.99

00:49:31.140 She calling dudes who don't have money, lazy, bum, loser, embarrassing, etc. 0.98

00:49:36.700 Well, I'm going to respond and say I wouldn't want to date a unit who can't hit the gym 1.00

00:49:40.080 who is a lazy, a bum, unhealthy, and unfit. 0.99

00:49:44.500 Jacob, thank you for the $50 soup chat. 0.99

00:49:46.620 Sorry, our TTS is busted.

00:49:49.960 Sorry, it's me who has to read it. 0.99

00:49:52.140 I know they're like, fuck that. 1.00

00:49:53.480 I hate this. 1.00

00:49:54.140 I mean, okay, you are totally entitled to just not date who you don't want to date.

00:50:01.160 He was like, I just took a stand.

00:50:04.780 Thanks for your bravery.

00:50:06.600 Like, here's the thing.

00:50:07.600 When a woman makes more money, she's going to typically be looking to date someone who makes at least as much as she does or more. 1.00

00:50:14.380 So, for example, a female attorney, like, just think about it. 1.00

00:50:18.500 Visualize it.

00:50:19.380 A girl, a female attorney, a female doctor, a female surgeon, like, it's almost self-evident.

00:50:26.560 She's not going to go date a guy who works at McDonald's.

00:50:30.520 No.

00:50:31.140 She's not.

00:50:31.760 Like, it's almost self-evident.

00:50:32.880 Because he's not even in her, like, energy space.

00:50:36.360 But here's the thing.

00:50:38.740 Here's the thing.

00:50:39.960 A high-achieving attorney, doctor, surgeon, he'll gladly date.

00:50:44.700 Like, if she's attractive, he'll date a girl who works at McDonald's, at Chick-fil-A, a barista.

00:50:50.800 How long does that actually last, though?

00:50:52.440 Because it definitely matters, like, the intellectual conversations that you have when you're at such a high.

00:50:57.340 You might have those intellectual conversations regardless of job, though.

00:51:02.320 I feel like.

00:51:03.440 Like, your career, I feel like, regardless of your career path. 0.94

00:51:06.700 I've met some fucking annoying pharmacists and nurses, and I've dated pharmacists and nurses, doctors. 0.96

00:51:12.820 Like, they're not any more pleasant to talk to than, like, just a 19, 21-year-old girl. 0.98

00:51:19.580 I feel like it's more about, like, a personality match, whereas, like, a career path.

00:51:24.640 Like, I live next to, right now, I live next to, like, one of the frat houses, and it's, like, one of the, like, doctor frat houses.

00:51:30.400 I'm not saying that kind of thing.

00:51:31.520 It sounds like a hot place to live next to them.

00:51:33.920 Yeah, you should go to Zumi.

00:51:35.560 They sound cute.

00:51:36.940 But some of these boys, if you see this, I'm sorry, can be freaking annoying as hell.

00:51:42.780 And it genuinely makes me wonder.

00:51:44.220 I'm just like, you know what?

00:51:45.020 Like, they're not my type.

00:51:46.240 And these guys are starting to be doctors.

00:51:48.140 Like, they're going to be making big.

00:51:49.300 Do you think that people who, like, you can't have it all.

00:51:54.840 I feel like it's very hard to find somebody who, like, has it all.

00:51:57.800 And by that, I mean somebody who is.

00:51:59.860 Check everything on the list.

00:52:01.200 Let's say, that's, like, a possibility.

00:52:03.700 But, like, also, like, you're either super-duper smart in, like, books and stuff.

00:52:08.200 And you've put in a lot of time and energy and effort into that.

00:52:12.020 Or you're, like, street smart and aware of yourself in other ways.

00:52:18.160 That's what I mean.

00:52:19.380 You know?

00:52:19.820 What was the question?

00:52:21.500 Here, let's do this, Wally.

00:52:23.460 Praxis, thank you for the super chat.

00:52:25.020 I'm sorry, the TTS is broken.

00:52:26.680 So, we have Kazumi as our TTS for tonight.

00:52:29.020 I think they want me to read it.

00:52:29.580 They think, like, there's going to be a point where I just have a mental breakdown or something.

00:52:32.980 And it's like, I'm not.

00:52:33.900 No, I think you have a strong will.

00:52:35.480 Yeah.

00:52:35.780 I'm just like, it's amazing how OF girls have the energy to argue and debate the most obvious troops. 0.76

00:52:40.200 Yet, they refuse to use that energy to find a real job.

00:52:43.940 Your career has an expiration date, whether you like it or not.

00:52:47.740 Guess what?

00:52:48.380 That's all jobs, bro.

00:52:50.040 What?

00:52:50.680 Like, you think, like, bro here is going to podcast until he's 80,000 years old?

00:52:54.560 Yes.

00:52:54.840 No, you're going to probably get your bag and leave.

00:52:57.240 That's life.

00:52:57.900 Guys, the year is 20,023.

00:53:02.580 I'm going to be there podcasting.

00:53:04.220 Listen, Alcor.

00:53:05.660 Listen, guys.

00:53:06.380 Alcor Life Preserve.

00:53:08.260 Wait, it's called Alcor Life Extension. 0.99

00:53:10.800 They fucking freeze you. 0.99

00:53:11.760 Cryo Preservation. 1.00

00:53:12.820 You and me, Kazumi.

00:53:14.320 20,000 years.

00:53:15.440 You'll be podcasting.

00:53:16.560 We'll be one and one.

00:53:17.520 20,000 years.

00:53:18.320 There actually is, it's called cryonics.

00:53:22.840 Yeah.

00:53:23.240 And they freeze you with the anticipation that in the future, science and technology will

00:53:28.620 advance to the point where they can unfreeze you and basically bring you back to life.

00:53:33.980 And so you and me.

00:53:35.620 There'll be like a 30-year hiatus where you're frozen in time and then you'll come back and

00:53:39.560 be like, hey, guys, the podcast is back.

00:53:41.720 Yo, what's up?

00:53:42.280 Dating talk.

00:53:43.120 We now Twitch in space.

00:53:45.520 Dating in 20,000 is a mess.

00:53:49.240 Let's, just before I have you come in, can you TTS this, Kazumi?

00:53:53.180 I'm a doctor.

00:53:54.100 He's kind of sexy. 1.00

00:53:55.520 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:53:56.420 Why is he so buff? 1.00

00:53:57.720 I'm a doctor and I can tell you personally that my female colleagues struggle to find

00:54:01.860 men they date because they won't date down.

00:54:04.000 My male colleagues don't have much of an issue with that because we can date way down easily.

00:54:09.040 Yep.

00:54:09.260 It's like, is the point here the fact that we should help you guys not date down or are

00:54:13.440 you telling us to date down?

00:54:14.620 I'm confused with like what the angle is.

00:54:16.600 Men are perfectly content dating down, so to speak.

00:54:20.780 In terms of socioeconomic status.

00:54:23.320 You also look for things differently in a relationship than women do. 1.00

00:54:25.520 Yeah, if you're looking for a hot, horny honey, I mean, that's your right. 1.00

00:54:28.940 And that, if that hot, horny honey is looking for an $800 credit score, 800 credit score, 1.00

00:54:33.200 then fuck it. 1.00

00:54:34.340 Then like, you know, this is a perfectly transactional relationship and you guys are happy to go off 1.00

00:54:38.800 into the sunset.

00:54:39.600 But here's the thing.

00:54:40.480 So as a guy, his status increases, his money increases, his pool of potential partners

00:54:46.480 also increases.

00:54:47.820 Whereas as a woman's status increases, the more money she makes, actually her pool of potential 1.00

00:54:53.200 partners tends to shrink.

00:54:54.800 Not necessarily because men won't date her, but because she's now looking, okay, I make 0.95

00:55:00.620 this much money.

00:55:01.380 Here's my lifestyle.

00:55:02.460 I want someone that I don't, I don't want to be having to like carry a guy. 0.99

00:55:07.780 Most, most women are going to have that point of view. 1.00

00:55:10.320 Not all women, but a lot of women are, you know, they're going to want to date someone 0.98

00:55:14.260 on their level or higher.

00:55:15.460 It would take a certain kind of man to like, not have to like put his ego aside and be

00:55:23.340 able to be taken care of by a woman.

00:55:26.820 So, okay.

00:55:27.360 Some men do have an ego about that, but the issue while it is primarily on the women's

00:55:33.520 side, it's not on the men's side.

00:55:35.440 The women would not want to date a guy who doesn't match them.

00:55:39.360 I think that has a lot more to do with like the emotional maturity than anything else,

00:55:45.720 in my opinion, because, you know, there have been a lot of reports and studies done about

00:55:51.240 how as men age, their dating pool of ages that they look at don't generally grow with

00:55:56.620 their age.

00:55:57.240 There are still men in their forties looking at girls in their twenties and, you know,

00:56:01.820 around that age looking to date.

00:56:03.400 Whereas with women, as we age, we look for somebody more within our age range. 0.95

00:56:08.780 And most of the time that I will agree, most of the time that does mean financial security

00:56:14.480 as well as emotional maturity, but that's not like all it is.

00:56:18.720 You know what I'm saying?

00:56:19.620 It's evolutionary too.

00:56:20.880 Like if you go back to the caveman days, women were looking for men that could provide 1.00

00:56:24.880 and protect.

00:56:25.840 And so how does a man provide nowadays through financial resources?

00:56:31.640 But why does he only have to provide through financial resources?

00:56:35.540 I just want to be loved.

00:56:37.160 Yeah.

00:56:37.360 I feel like, yeah, I feel like she just wants to be, she just wants to be loved.

00:56:46.300 And she also wants a guy who's six feet, washboard, all this, six feet.

00:56:51.120 You know what though?

00:56:52.020 See, but when you're five feet, it doesn't matter.

00:56:54.200 Oh, but it's great.

00:56:55.220 But what about the five, four guy that, that would be perfectly capable of loving you?

00:57:00.100 Can I have that one?

00:57:01.060 That's the thing.

00:57:01.840 Like he wouldn't even have, I'm at the point in my life where like, I'm going to get what

00:57:06.660 I want in a person because I've like been through the ringer as far as relationships

00:57:11.080 goes.

00:57:11.520 I know exactly what I want and I'm not going to settle for anything less than.

00:57:15.420 So can I ask a question?

00:57:17.260 Yeah.

00:57:17.560 What if he can give you everything that you want, but you just don't have the height?

00:57:20.500 Because that's a physical aspect that he can't control versus where he can like give you

00:57:24.400 like the emotional, the money.

00:57:26.580 I've been on a date.

00:57:27.320 I'm five foot.

00:57:28.220 I've been on a date with a guy that was shorter than me.

00:57:30.520 You're so tired. 1.00

00:57:31.420 Shut up. 0.99

00:57:32.460 No, I'm sorry. 0.99

00:57:33.380 As a tall girl, I just really love having short friends and carrying them around everywhere.

00:57:37.380 But like, I am, at least have to be.

00:57:41.560 Can I princess carry you right now?

00:57:42.880 No.

00:57:43.500 Okay.

00:57:44.340 I won't push.

00:57:45.740 I won't push.

00:57:48.000 They at least have to be like my height or like an inch tall.

00:57:51.900 That was for you two, by the way.

00:57:53.180 I know.

00:57:53.860 I didn't know.

00:57:54.980 I won't push.

00:57:56.460 I respect her boundaries.

00:57:59.620 I feel like men like to pretend.

00:58:01.900 I can't help it that I'm like, I'm, I don't know.

00:58:05.540 I'm competitive.

00:58:05.920 So I do want to touch on what you said, because you said, you know, you've been through the

00:58:10.760 ringer, you know what you want.

00:58:12.500 You're not willing to settle.

00:58:13.780 Is that kind of it?

00:58:14.800 So I, and I want to go around the table on this for all of you.

00:58:17.500 And I do want to touch back.

00:58:19.100 We will return to the tape thing.

00:58:21.800 So if a guy doesn't meet all of your preferences or standards, let's say he met only 80% of

00:58:27.660 your standards and he was lacking in, in some area that you want, would you be willing

00:58:34.300 to settle for less, for less than perfect in a partner?

00:58:39.620 I don't think that there's such a thing as a perfect partner.

00:58:42.620 Everyone has their issues.

00:58:44.020 Relationships are hard and you kind of just have to.

00:58:46.800 Okay.

00:58:46.820 Disregard the perfect thing.

00:58:47.860 Would you be willing to settle for less, say 80% of a guy who meets 80% of your standards?

00:58:53.140 If he checks off every single other box and he's five, six.

00:58:57.580 Okay.

00:59:00.220 It's like, you wouldn't, you just, you wouldn't, you wouldn't be, you wouldn't be attracted to

00:59:06.280 him to begin with.

00:59:07.260 But so that's what I'm saying.

00:59:10.060 Like he wouldn't even have like the chance.

00:59:13.140 Right.

00:59:13.720 Okay.

00:59:14.040 So it was the same question.

00:59:15.880 Same question. 0.86

00:59:16.460 So I threw a birthday party this weekend and it was really funny because since I do porn

00:59:21.640 and I also, I'm just a social person that's an LA native, I invited everyone ever. 0.89

00:59:27.120 So it was obviously a lot of people I've had sex with from college, from my last job, from

00:59:32.380 like how long ago was college?

00:59:35.540 No, no, no, no.

00:59:36.320 Many.

00:59:37.460 I was like, but like, you know, it's just like people throughout my life, like from like

00:59:41.960 when I was like 18, from high school, from my, to now, like now that I'm a porn star.

00:59:45.920 And I felt that something really eclectic that someone noticed was that none of them

00:59:50.000 had a specific look.

00:59:52.260 It was just the, the common denominator was they were open-minded, they were usually really

00:59:57.460 funny, but physically and even, and with their jobs, it was extremely sporadic and eclectic.

01:00:04.260 Like there were people who were short, there were people who were tall, there were people

01:00:07.500 who were fat, there were people that were buff, but the common denominator was that we had

01:00:11.580 a really cool connection and it was cool to see us all come to it together.

01:00:15.040 Granted, I'm also in an open relationship, so it's not weird for me to bring all the

01:00:19.260 people I've ever fucked in one room, you know?

01:00:21.540 How many, wait, so how many people in that room were there that you had? 0.99

01:00:25.600 Well, okay, it's not like I fucked everyone in the room. 0.98

01:00:27.680 Can I ask, as a, as a porn star, like, do you keep track of your like body count now? 0.97

01:00:32.420 I'm just, that's something I'm curious about.

01:00:33.720 No, I'm also an adult woman, so I don't keep track of my body count.

01:00:36.960 But if I had to, it's probably one bajillion, you know, so whether you can respect me or

01:00:41.660 not.

01:00:42.040 Oh, I a hundred percent do.

01:00:43.080 I think, I don't think a body count matters at all.

01:00:44.860 Yeah.

01:00:45.480 I don't think it matters.

01:00:46.340 Okay, we'll talk about that later too.

01:00:48.260 I was waiting for that to come.

01:00:48.900 Yeah.

01:00:49.180 We'll talk about body count later.

01:00:50.420 Let's just say it's one million and if people don't respect me over it, they wouldn't have

01:00:53.720 respected me even if I had five.

01:00:55.700 So, also it's just tired because every single podcast, everyone has to ask me about my body

01:01:00.500 count as if it's like a zinger moment.

01:01:02.260 Like they're like, you have one million, huh?

01:01:03.540 Do you have a brother by chance?

01:01:05.460 I do have a sibling.

01:01:07.420 Do they do corn by chance or bros?

01:01:09.860 No.

01:01:10.700 Are they just like average guys kind of?

01:01:12.880 He's in university.

01:01:14.240 He's just a normal Joe, yeah.

01:01:16.740 So, just, I want you to continue on your point here.

01:01:19.680 Oh.

01:01:19.860 But something that always interests me is the kind of, and I think usually the way I

01:01:24.820 frame this is like your looks equivalent, but since you have a brother.

01:01:28.440 I'm way cuter than my brother.

01:01:30.260 Okay, but same genetics, right?

01:01:31.980 No, well, I'm like super bimbo-fied. 0.99

01:01:34.360 I got face surgery.

01:01:36.500 I got a chin implant.

01:01:37.880 Good times.

01:01:38.520 Thanks.

01:01:38.980 Okay.

01:01:39.640 So, does your brother slay?

01:01:43.120 Does my brother slay?

01:01:44.140 Slay. 0.87

01:01:44.620 Does he just... 1.00

01:01:44.920 No, he's a loser, dude. 1.00

01:01:46.680 No, I like when he gets bitches, I'm like... 1.00

01:01:48.860 Is he a virgin? 1.00

01:01:48.960 No, no, he definitely isn't a virgin.

01:01:50.560 I don't know how he gets women at all. 0.94

01:01:52.180 Oh, so he does...

01:01:52.720 I think he's a noob.

01:01:54.100 But that's because he's my...

01:01:55.060 I'm like his sister.

01:01:55.440 How old is he?

01:01:56.060 Oh, you give him tips.

01:01:56.620 I think he's...

01:01:58.640 But I'm his sister, so I'm like, ew. 1.00

01:02:01.200 Like, I've like seen you shit yourself, bro. 1.00

01:02:03.320 Like, I do not know how anyone sucks your dick. 1.00

01:02:06.440 Like, you are so gross. 1.00

01:02:08.260 But I think he... 0.99

01:02:09.180 He probably thinks I'm gross.

01:02:10.880 Like, he's probably like, ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.

01:02:12.960 My friends do not want...

01:02:14.720 My friends cannot follow you.

01:02:16.000 Ew, ew, ew, ew, ew.

01:02:17.220 So, yeah.

01:02:18.060 What if he died?

01:02:23.540 Send the asteroid, boys.

01:02:25.540 Okay, so...

01:02:27.180 Do you know what your brother's body count is?

01:02:30.160 No, what?

01:02:30.940 That's like such a TMI moment. 1.00

01:02:32.460 What the fuck? 1.00

01:02:33.140 Do you ask your mom her body count? 1.00

01:02:35.400 That's crazy.

01:02:36.480 I actually...

01:02:37.600 Okay, never mind.

01:02:38.740 What?

01:02:39.740 Don't worry about it.

01:02:40.940 Okay.

01:02:41.780 Don't worry about it.

01:02:42.760 Okay, so...

01:02:43.640 Jeez, we're kind of going all over the place here.

01:02:45.840 I kind of want to try to keep things directed.

01:02:47.880 You were asking about...

01:02:49.880 Like, we were talking about preferences.

01:02:51.640 So, what are your bare minimum preferences and standards for a guy?

01:02:56.380 Let's talk height, money.

01:03:00.380 I know apparently money doesn't matter.

01:03:01.240 Okay, if we're going to actually talk about the actual bare minimum.

01:03:03.420 First of all, I'm a sex worker.

01:03:05.340 He just has to be, first of all, chill with that.

01:03:07.360 Like, it's not like a groundbreaking concept to him, like what my occupation is.

01:03:11.660 Because I'm not...

01:03:13.060 Like, what?

01:03:13.920 I just don't feel like I have to explain that anymore.

01:03:16.620 Number two, he has to be funny.

01:03:19.300 You know? 0.75

01:03:19.820 And I feel like the funniness is why, like, all the guys I've had sex with, like, are

01:03:24.040 all different shapes, sizes, and vibes. 0.97

01:03:26.160 Because it's just like, if you're fucking funny and you're like a woke guy, then we're 1.00

01:03:29.880 just going to fuck because... 1.00

01:03:31.580 Why not? 1.00

01:03:32.120 Seems like a silly little thing to do this afternoon.

01:03:35.620 Okay, so funny.

01:03:37.400 That's...

01:03:37.800 And...

01:03:38.200 That's kind of it.

01:03:40.320 You know?

01:03:40.960 Just funny?

01:03:41.480 Also, I like enthusiastic consent.

01:03:43.480 I don't like guys who think they're too cool to say, like, hey, you're really pretty,

01:03:46.980 or hey, like, let's do this.

01:03:48.440 Like, I don't need you to be aggressive, but I want it to be really clear, like, hey, you

01:03:52.100 want to do this.

01:03:52.880 If I feel like I have to, like, really break my back to see, like, hey, do you, like,

01:03:57.500 even want to do this right now?

01:03:59.080 Or, like, do you think this is weird?

01:04:00.480 I don't want to do it.

01:04:01.280 I want to make sure that you have a healed perspective on women and sex, and you, like, 1.00

01:04:06.300 are comfortable expressing, like, hey, I'm attracted to you, and I think we should do

01:04:10.840 something about it.

01:04:12.160 Okay.

01:04:13.780 What about you?

01:04:14.700 Standards.

01:04:15.440 What are your standards?

01:04:16.660 You said, like, you know what you want, right?

01:04:19.000 So what do you want?

01:04:21.780 Right now, I'm...

01:04:24.020 It's, like, hard for me to even think about that because I thought that I found the person

01:04:28.340 that I was going to, like, live the rest of my life with, and then it ended up not being

01:04:33.260 the case, and so right now I'm actually just really focused on myself, and I can't even

01:04:38.740 think about, like, dating somebody right now, but if I had to, like, take a step back

01:04:44.600 and remove myself from that whole situation, and I got to choose, okay, this is exactly

01:04:49.600 the type of person that I want to, like, manifest into my future, then definitely...

01:04:54.420 Let's start with Hyatt.

01:04:55.240 Let's start with Hyatt.

01:04:55.920 Okay, so you're 5'5", right?

01:04:58.620 I'm 5'5", so I would really appreciate it if I could wear heels around them.

01:05:02.320 Okay, so bare minimum height for a guy?

01:05:04.980 Like, 5'6".

01:05:06.400 5'6"?

01:05:07.320 5'6".

01:05:07.960 Okay.

01:05:08.260 Like, at least, you know, at least an inch.

01:05:11.720 Okay.

01:05:12.280 I once spoke to a little person.

01:05:14.760 Not the cow.

01:05:15.420 Wait, you hooked up with a dwarf? 0.86

01:05:18.120 Is that...

01:05:18.740 I don't know if that's an offensive term anymore.

01:05:20.240 I think it's little person.

01:05:21.580 Yeah, it's just little person now.

01:05:22.680 I thought dwarf was the legal term, or not legal.

01:05:25.580 Well, okay, look.

01:05:26.180 There's an illegal term.

01:05:27.180 It's a scientific term.

01:05:28.420 Oh, there we go.

01:05:29.020 I think it started, like, midget was, like, the previous one, which is now inappropriate.

01:05:34.000 Inappropriate.

01:05:34.180 But then dwarf was the appropriate one. 0.98

01:05:35.920 I don't know.

01:05:36.340 I think it's regional.

01:05:37.340 I think, like, little person is appropriate enough.

01:05:38.780 But now I think little person...

01:05:39.360 And then in five years, little person will be offensive, and then they've got to change

01:05:44.100 it to...

01:05:44.980 I don't know.

01:05:45.080 I think little person...

01:05:46.580 I don't know.

01:05:47.100 Well, there are people and they're little, so...

01:05:48.760 It's called the euphemism treadmill.

01:05:52.400 They deem a word bad, and then they give it a new word, and then that word becomes bad,

01:05:58.840 and then...

01:05:59.260 So, it's just...

01:05:59.800 It's kind of ridiculous, but... 0.94

01:06:01.540 Like, moist. 0.88

01:06:02.200 So, okay.

01:06:02.780 Moist is still in its, like, bad character art.

01:06:04.580 Moist.

01:06:05.020 Okay.

01:06:05.360 So, you hooked up with a dwarf? 0.62

01:06:07.740 Of a little person.

01:06:08.680 Of a little person.

01:06:09.080 Yeah.

01:06:09.180 Okay.

01:06:10.280 Do you know any, like, female little people? 0.97

01:06:12.920 Like, for you?

01:06:13.480 Yes.

01:06:13.760 For me.

01:06:14.140 I'm trying to get it in.

01:06:15.680 Yes.

01:06:16.400 I do.

01:06:17.040 Yeah.

01:06:17.520 I'm like...

01:06:18.060 I would...

01:06:18.520 I would date a dwarf. 1.00

01:06:20.660 What's up? 0.98

01:06:21.000 I know, like, a lot of little people's strippers. 1.00

01:06:23.260 It's just kind of a thing.

01:06:24.480 Hey, hook it up.

01:06:24.740 Are you thinking about that girl at Exotica?

01:06:26.540 Yeah, bro.

01:06:27.220 She was cool.

01:06:28.220 She's pretty cute. 0.98

01:06:29.020 She was tiny.

01:06:29.600 But, no.

01:06:30.200 Okay. 0.99

01:06:30.440 First of all, height does not affect dick size. 0.97

01:06:34.380 So, bro was, like... 0.98

01:06:35.680 If, like, if I'm this big...

01:06:37.520 So, a literal third leg.

01:06:38.980 Bro, it was, like...

01:06:40.420 He had a footer, but it wasn't actually a footer.

01:06:42.880 It was just, like, he was short, so it looked big.

01:06:44.960 But I'm sure, like, if he was an average... 0.99

01:06:46.700 Because sometimes when you get a really tall guy, their, like, dick looks smaller because 0.99

01:06:50.700 they're, like, so big. 0.99

01:06:52.700 You know?

01:06:53.100 Like, who knows?

01:06:53.720 Like, if you had a six-incher, it probably looks like it's three inches because you're

01:06:56.520 tall.

01:06:57.680 You know what I mean?

01:06:58.020 That's fun. 1.00

01:06:58.880 But what if you were, like, a little person, your dick probably looks like it's eight 1.00

01:07:02.080 million feet long. 1.00

01:07:04.640 Why are we visualizing my penis right now? 1.00

01:07:07.580 I'm sure it's huge. 1.00

01:07:09.020 I'm sure it's huge.

01:07:09.300 Here, while we're at it, let's talk about labia. 0.97

01:07:11.340 Yeah. 0.85

01:07:12.240 I have...

01:07:12.960 Do you have an innie or an outie?

01:07:14.100 I think I have a half and half.

01:07:16.800 You have a middie. 0.97

01:07:17.480 It's not, like, a roast beef situation, but it's, like...

01:07:20.040 Hey, we don't use that term here.

01:07:22.060 We don't use roast beef.

01:07:24.160 No.

01:07:24.560 But that's what it would look like if it was, like, super outie, and I feel like...

01:07:27.100 No, but that is a derogatory term.

01:07:29.200 I feel like I'm just...

01:07:29.720 How dare you, Kazumi? 0.99

01:07:30.600 I'm like a little burger.

01:07:31.160 How dare you? 0.98

01:07:32.300 You are like a burger. 0.99

01:07:33.560 I am a burger.

01:07:34.700 Yeah. 0.99

01:07:35.080 You are a misogynist, Kazumi. 1.00

01:07:37.920 I like massages. 1.00

01:07:38.780 How dare you? 0.99

01:07:38.940 How dare you shame women for their... 1.00

01:07:45.920 Anyways, I fucked a little person. 1.00

01:07:47.420 Moving on. 0.99

01:07:48.060 Sorry I interrupted you in your apartment.

01:07:50.140 Yeah, okay.

01:07:50.720 So, five, six minimum.

01:07:53.320 What else?

01:07:55.500 What are your standards?

01:07:56.440 I want them to take care of themselves.

01:07:57.780 So, like...

01:07:58.000 Okay, fit.

01:07:58.580 ...into fitness and...

01:07:59.960 Okay.

01:08:00.980 ...ambitious, like, has something that they're working towards or has already, like, mastered

01:08:07.320 their...

01:08:08.280 Okay, how much should they make per year?

01:08:11.280 I haven't even...

01:08:12.080 I mean, I wouldn't even...

01:08:13.100 I haven't even thought about that, to be completely honest.

01:08:16.840 Okay.

01:08:17.700 Well, let me...

01:08:18.600 So, do you want...

01:08:19.320 Enough to take care of themselves?

01:08:20.520 Here, let me go through this.

01:08:21.380 So...

01:08:21.500 I want three kids, so I guess that's...

01:08:23.040 Okay, so you want three kids.

01:08:24.200 Yeah.

01:08:24.720 Okay, so...

01:08:25.940 What's the ideal age of a guy you'd be looking to marry?

01:08:31.320 How old are you?

01:08:32.080 You're 30.

01:08:32.600 I'm 30, yeah.

01:08:33.220 So, what's...

01:08:33.700 Give us a range.

01:08:36.400 Um...

01:08:36.760 Do you want to get married, correct?

01:08:37.760 I do want to get married, yes.

01:08:39.440 Okay, ideal age of a guy you'd like to marry?

01:08:42.900 I guess my age and...

01:08:45.560 Okay, so...

01:08:46.060 Up.

01:08:46.500 30, 34?

01:08:47.900 I think we have to cut off, like, probably...

01:08:50.720 Like, 87?

01:08:52.120 Okay, 37.

01:08:53.480 I was like, that's a little old.

01:08:54.720 Okay, so you're 30 and you want to have kids.

01:08:58.720 By when would you like to be married and have kids by?

01:09:02.920 In a perfect world, I want to start having kids, like, no later than 35.

01:09:08.000 That's getting into high-risk pregnancy territory, but okay, you're 30, so that gives you five 1.00

01:09:13.100 years.

01:09:13.500 But I've also got a lot to do, and I also want to, like, actually be with that person, be

01:09:17.240 able to enjoy that person, like, just us, then to just, like, get married, have kids,

01:09:22.500 and then do the whole, like, thing.

01:09:23.860 Like, if it happens, it happens, but...

01:09:26.020 Okay, sure.

01:09:26.220 How much of the family income do you personally want to contribute?

01:09:30.120 So do you want a 50-50?

01:09:31.860 Do you want...

01:09:32.640 What do you want?

01:09:33.160 I'm...

01:09:33.840 I've always said this.

01:09:35.080 I think that it would be nice to have my future husband be able to take care of all of the,

01:09:42.880 like, not-so-fun stuff, and then with my income, we do, like, family vacations and

01:09:48.680 all the fun stuff.

01:09:50.180 Extracurricular activities for the kids.

01:09:50.940 Okay, so not 50-50...

01:09:52.060 Somewhere between 50-50 and stay-at-home mom.

01:09:56.220 I will never be a stay-at-home mom.

01:09:58.000 You won't be a stay-at-home mom.

01:09:59.220 Well...

01:09:59.380 No.

01:10:00.680 Okay, so how much of the family income do you personally want to contribute?

01:10:04.680 I mean, I want to be making as much as you.

01:10:08.460 Okay, well, you want, but...

01:10:10.340 You can sign up now.

01:10:12.020 I'll send you my referral code.

01:10:13.120 Yeah, you're going to have to talk to her after the show so you can make $3 million a 0.97

01:10:18.240 year, so...

01:10:19.520 Yeah, we'll go for a talk later.

01:10:20.880 We'll go for ice cream later.

01:10:22.040 Okay, so...

01:10:22.600 We'll, like, have a debrief sesh.

01:10:24.100 Yeah. 0.97

01:10:24.220 I do not want to show my boobs. 0.97

01:10:25.480 But, okay, so... 1.00

01:10:26.200 Damn. 0.99

01:10:26.520 Here's the thing, right? 1.00

01:10:27.400 So, you said you want three kids.

01:10:29.420 Kids are expensive.

01:10:30.300 So, how much of the family income do you want to personally contribute?

01:10:36.660 Like, why does it have to be, like, a set thing?

01:10:40.440 Well, okay.

01:10:40.980 Here's the thing.

01:10:41.560 I never want to have to rely on a man for anything.

01:10:43.780 Like, I want to be able to take care of myself and then say something terrible was to

01:10:47.180 happen because that's just where my mind goes because...

01:10:49.560 You can leave if he knows.

01:10:51.160 Um, exactly.

01:10:52.200 Like, what if something, like, he hit me.

01:10:55.180 Like, hopefully that doesn't happen.

01:10:56.540 Well, hopefully, yes.

01:10:57.220 But, like, say if that did happen or he cheated or, like, we just fell out of love that we could

01:11:02.080 go our separate ways and I would still be 100% okay not only supporting myself but also

01:11:07.120 my children.

01:11:07.620 Do you think falling out of love is a good reason to break up a family?

01:11:13.980 See, here's...

01:11:14.540 I think here's the delusion when it comes to family.

01:11:17.900 Like, the way it used to work is love was not really a factor when it came to having a family

01:11:23.740 and starting a kid.

01:11:24.700 If you loved each other, great, but it was a partnership.

01:11:27.400 But, okay.

01:11:27.840 So, here's the thing, though.

01:11:29.420 You said that you want to be independent, but you also just said that you want...

01:11:34.620 You'd prefer the guy to take care of the important things and you're...

01:11:38.700 What you would contribute would be towards, like, the vacations and the fun stuff.

01:11:43.060 So, I'm just trying to arrive at an answer here.

01:11:44.500 I'm just trying to give you, like, well, example, I'm giving you my version of the answer that

01:11:48.400 you're looking for.

01:11:49.180 So, it's, like, it's not, like, a certain percentage.

01:11:51.020 It's, like, that it would be nice if he had...

01:11:55.800 If he made enough to, like, take care of everything and then was, like, don't worry.

01:12:00.700 You know, like, I got you.

01:12:01.920 I got us.

01:12:02.520 Like, I want to be the provider and, like, support you.

01:12:05.220 Like, I want your money to be your money and, like, you be able to take care of, like,

01:12:09.580 all the vacations and all the fun stuff.

01:12:11.800 So, okay.

01:12:12.660 That would be fun.

01:12:13.080 So, hold on.

01:12:13.820 Not necessarily that I would let that happen, but that would be cool.

01:12:17.360 Okay.

01:12:17.620 So, our money is our money, but my money is my money.

01:12:22.520 So, his money is your money.

01:12:24.120 No.

01:12:24.400 Your money is your money.

01:12:25.820 No.

01:12:26.620 Like, we're together.

01:12:28.200 We're a team.

01:12:28.860 We're a family.

01:12:29.300 Okay.

01:12:29.500 So, you have an Etsy shop and you sell trinkets and you make $10,000 a year.

01:12:33.260 That's what I'm saying.

01:12:33.280 It's, like, it acts like a fun little thing.

01:12:34.800 And then he makes $100,000 and pays.

01:12:36.540 Okay.

01:12:37.020 So, I guess my question is, you said you want three kids.

01:12:40.400 So, three kids you're going to want.

01:12:42.560 Tell me about your house size.

01:12:44.320 Square feet, bedrooms, bathrooms.

01:12:47.840 It's, like, do you need her social security number, too?

01:12:49.880 No, but, okay, here's the reason I'm asking is because.

01:12:52.660 Give me your account and routing number.

01:12:54.180 No, but if you want three children, you're going to have to factor in, okay, well, what's the house size?

01:13:00.500 Do they have their own bedrooms?

01:13:02.000 So, do you have a sense of how big of a house you'd like to live in?

01:13:05.680 How many bedrooms and bathrooms?

01:13:08.840 And do you want to stay in California?

01:13:10.340 Well, if I end up having three kids, I don't know about the whole stay in California thing.

01:13:14.380 Okay.

01:13:14.620 That's rough.

01:13:14.920 You want at least one bedroom for you and your husband, correct?

01:13:17.880 Yeah, that'd be cool.

01:13:18.420 No, we all have this one room.

01:13:21.420 And I want an office.

01:13:23.260 You want an office?

01:13:23.980 Mm-hmm.

01:13:24.620 Just for you or a shared office?

01:13:26.280 No, it could be shared.

01:13:26.680 It could be a shared office.

01:13:27.320 You and your husband.

01:13:28.040 Yeah.

01:13:28.340 Okay.

01:13:29.060 So, an office would sort of count as another bedroom.

01:13:32.120 And then a guest room.

01:13:34.020 So, that's three.

01:13:34.520 Okay, sure.

01:13:35.240 Guest room.

01:13:36.000 And then, I mean.

01:13:38.200 So, master, office, guest room.

01:13:40.760 Mm-hmm.

01:13:41.720 And then a bedroom for each child?

01:13:45.940 Eventually.

01:13:46.380 I feel like, at my age right now, I have to like.

01:13:51.480 It's really, it's really messes with your head when you turn 30 because you, society puts

01:13:57.800 this like pressure on you to like be, I don't, to like be a certain way or to be at a certain

01:14:04.280 point in your life.

01:14:05.560 Sure.

01:14:05.880 Well, are you talking about in regards to the development of a relationship and having

01:14:11.060 kids?

01:14:11.580 Mm-hmm.

01:14:12.000 Well, I mean, there is a certain biological reality that women have to face. 1.00

01:14:16.700 And there's a limited period of time in which women can get pregnant. 1.00

01:14:21.340 So, women do have a pressure that doesn't exist, that exists for them, that doesn't exist for 1.00

01:14:26.280 men.

01:14:26.940 Yeah.

01:14:27.620 And I mean, there's certainly scientific interventions.

01:14:30.260 Like, how can I give you all these answers when like, I don't know what my future is going

01:14:33.380 to look like.

01:14:33.600 But I mean, okay, so you're 30 though.

01:14:35.520 So, I mean, and you said you would like to start having children by the time you're 35.

01:14:39.080 So, there is some degree of urgency with which you need to get this figured out.

01:14:43.840 But I guess I'm trying to.

01:14:44.760 So, I'm saying if it doesn't happen, then like, I'm not going to be.

01:14:49.480 That's fine.

01:14:50.080 Like, my life isn't over.

01:14:51.620 Sure.

01:14:51.980 I think that's fine.

01:14:52.480 Like, I'm also super cool with being this, like, the cool, rich aunt.

01:14:55.740 That's totally fine.

01:14:56.520 I mean, me personally, I'm not sure if I'm not set on having kids myself.

01:14:59.860 But you did say that you do want kids.

01:15:03.200 So, you said you want three kids.

01:15:04.600 So, you said you want to master a guest, an office, and then three, you're going to have

01:15:10.180 three kids.

01:15:10.620 And it sounded like you want a bedroom for each of the kids.

01:15:12.440 Two kids, bathrooms, maybe four, three, four bathrooms.

01:15:17.840 Like, I guess, two and a half.

01:15:21.680 Two, okay, two and a half.

01:15:23.360 Like, one for the kids, one for me.

01:15:25.580 It's a big house.

01:15:26.820 Okay, six bedrooms in California.

01:15:29.100 So, that's probably going to run you at least a million dollars.

01:15:32.940 I mean, it depends what part of California, but you're probably looking at a two million

01:15:37.420 dollar house.

01:15:38.420 Okay, so, car wise, do you want regular car, luxury?

01:15:42.440 Luxury car, doesn't matter?

01:15:44.880 Well, I drive a Benz right now, and I'm convinced that I can't go back.

01:15:49.220 You can't go back?

01:15:49.900 I love my car.

01:15:51.500 Do you own your car outright?

01:15:53.580 No, I leased it.

01:15:54.300 You leased it?

01:15:54.880 Mm-hmm.

01:15:55.820 Because I knew I would want, like, a new one in three.

01:15:58.200 Okay, so, do you want to go on vacations, regular international vacations?

01:16:02.060 I have traveled internationally in my past.

01:16:05.920 I don't necessarily, like, I'm not obsessed with it.

01:16:09.080 Sure.

01:16:09.520 But...

01:16:09.920 But maybe once or twice a year go on vacation with the kids?

01:16:12.880 Yeah.

01:16:12.900 Yes.

01:16:13.300 Okay.

01:16:14.020 Not always with the kids, though.

01:16:15.620 Okay, sometimes.

01:16:16.700 Okay, so have, like, a babysitter.

01:16:18.020 The idea of me having kids right now in this moment of my life makes me, like, it's a big

01:16:22.840 no.

01:16:23.760 But perhaps in five years.

01:16:25.360 Maybe five years.

01:16:25.720 At 35.

01:16:26.640 At 35.

01:16:26.920 Well, you seem pretty adamant about wanting three kids.

01:16:30.140 Well, that's kind of, it's, like, kind of, like, the go hard or go home type of mentality

01:16:34.180 for me.

01:16:34.660 It's either, like, we're going to do this and, like, have a family and create, like,

01:16:38.760 I picture, like, you know, like, team sports and them fighting, but, like, also loving each

01:16:45.740 other and, like, growing up and having that, like, bond.

01:16:48.080 Like, I'm a, excuse me, single child.

01:16:51.920 So, like, I always was jealous a little bit of people who had siblings.

01:16:56.900 So, like, I've always wanted, like, it's either zero or...

01:17:00.900 Sure.

01:17:01.680 Like, a family, family.

01:17:03.040 Like, a big one.

01:17:03.480 So, given kind of all the information that you've provided, what would your husband,

01:17:09.560 what would you like your husband's income to be? 0.98

01:17:16.080 Enough.

01:17:16.760 Enough.

01:17:17.800 Thank you.

01:17:18.500 I mean, why does it have to be in numbers?

01:17:21.520 Like, I mean, I don't know.

01:17:23.260 Okay, but if you want these things, your husband's income needs to be a certain... 0.97

01:17:26.920 But what if he's, like, what if he's an entrepreneur and his income fluctuates and then, like, you

01:17:32.340 you know, sometimes it's six figures a month and sometimes it's more or less...

01:17:38.060 Well, I mean, you can average it per year.

01:17:43.440 You can just do an average.

01:17:45.620 What would your average be off of, based off of everything that I said?

01:17:48.600 What would you, what would you think?

01:17:49.680 I mean, I'm not going to tell you the kind of husband that you ought to marry, but...

01:17:54.020 Well, but, like, that's...

01:17:55.100 You're going to have to...

01:17:55.900 Okay, so if you want to...

01:17:57.140 In California...

01:17:58.780 But it doesn't seem like those are, like, things set in stone that she's committed to.

01:18:01.960 Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

01:18:02.740 If she doesn't, if it doesn't happen, it's, like, doesn't seem like it's a big deal breaker

01:18:06.620 in her life.

01:18:07.400 Like, I feel like when people...

01:18:08.760 She said she wants a guest room, an office... 0.91

01:18:10.520 But she doesn't need to.

01:18:11.660 Three bedrooms.

01:18:12.240 Yeah, that's, like, you're asking me, like, in a perfect world.

01:18:15.620 No, but that wasn't the question.

01:18:18.480 Well, that's how I answered it, though.

01:18:19.920 I said, in an ideal perfect world.

01:18:21.660 No, I didn't say perfect world.

01:18:22.800 I said, how many kids would you like?

01:18:24.480 And I asked you, tell me about, you know, the house size, bedrooms, bathrooms.

01:18:27.960 Okay, it's implied you definitely meant, like, in a perfect world, like, what would you like?

01:18:33.240 I understand.

01:18:34.140 I did not say perfect world.

01:18:35.560 Okay, well, I mean, if you...

01:18:36.660 I'm speaking realistic.

01:18:37.880 I'm saying realistically.

01:18:39.100 Okay, well, see, you didn't say realistically.

01:18:42.080 Okay, so if someone were to ask me, idealistically, Brian, what do you want?

01:18:47.600 I want a harem of, like, 70 virgins. 1.00

01:18:51.160 Hell yes. 0.94

01:18:51.800 That's ideal.

01:18:52.900 Am I going to get it? 1.00

01:18:54.160 Fuck no. 1.00

01:18:55.260 But you didn't say realistically. 1.00

01:18:56.500 That's, I think, I think it's only...

01:18:58.400 I didn't say, you're right.

01:18:59.740 I didn't say realistically, but I also did not say idealistically.

01:19:03.160 I think if you don't say...

01:19:03.780 So I think you ought to assume, you ought to assume that I'm, I...

01:19:08.240 You lean more towards realistically with the questions I'm asking.

01:19:11.940 I don't, no, if you say, if you don't say realistically, I'm totally going to give you answers from, like, my perfect ideal world.

01:19:18.800 No, but if someone asked me, if someone asked me, Brian, what kind of girl do you want or what kind of relationship situation do you want?

01:19:25.640 I wouldn't give the ideal of, I want 70 virgins. 0.99

01:19:29.100 Is that your ideal?

01:19:30.140 I mean, I'm sure you would give us, like, the best possible girl.

01:19:32.300 Give me a million virgins. 0.72

01:19:33.180 You know, you'd be like, I would like her to have double D cups or something. 1.00

01:19:36.360 I'm like, my chair.

01:19:37.000 I'm team small titties. 0.96

01:19:38.240 Yeah, you're team small titties. 0.97

01:19:39.760 Or whatever.

01:19:40.580 It's like, you know, it's like, of course you're going to...

01:19:42.080 Sorry. 0.93

01:19:42.800 I like small titties too.

01:19:43.920 But it's like, I feel like those are things that would be cool if they happened, but if they didn't, I think, like, there's this assumption that just because someone is older, there's this ticking time clock of either, is your purpose going to be fulfilled because you have a family or is it not?

01:19:59.040 And it's like, as you grow older, you just realize it's not that big of a deal to hit these milestones that the world puts on you.

01:20:05.840 It's like, if she has these three kids and this one million dollar husband, then it's fine.

01:20:10.460 But if not, it's okay and, you know, life moves on.

01:20:14.660 Well, I mean, it's not a societal pressure necessarily.

01:20:18.940 There's a biological pressure too.

01:20:20.760 It is also a societal pressure.

01:20:22.800 Yes.

01:20:23.380 But it's not just...

01:20:24.940 These are not about, like, her biology.

01:20:27.040 It's the comments are about societally, she's sturdy and this and that.

01:20:30.580 Well, the comments are not really part of the conversation we're having.

01:20:32.760 But those are part of society because we're performing on a stage right now.

01:20:37.120 Yes, there is a societal, I suppose, some degree of societal expectation, but there's a biological reality that you have a limit in terms of when you can get pregnant and bring that child to term.

01:20:48.960 Hold on.

01:20:49.580 Why don't we do this TTS while we're...

01:20:51.600 I personally am looking to freeze my eggs and then have surrogates and then start a family when I'm like 40.

01:20:57.340 Okay, but you have the money to do that.

01:21:02.520 And it's not a guarantee that that even works.

01:21:06.100 See, most...

01:21:06.820 I mean, that's a very...

01:21:07.800 A surrogate's very expensive.

01:21:10.460 Like, so you're...

01:21:11.680 Most women cannot afford to do that. 1.00

01:21:14.540 But, yeah, I'm so...

01:21:15.480 That's why I'm saying I am.

01:21:16.940 Okay.

01:21:17.820 Yeah, I'm not speaking for all women.

01:21:20.020 That's fine, but you're certainly an outlier.

01:21:21.920 You make $3 million a year.

01:21:23.500 That's why I'm not speaking for all women. 0.97

01:21:25.060 I'm speaking for me.

01:21:25.720 But so the biological reality holds for most women that if they want to have kids, they need to do it by a certain age. 1.00

01:21:34.980 I think the biological reality is if it doesn't work out of a person, then I'm just not going to have kids with them.

01:21:41.220 Even if it's too late for me and I can't afford a surrogate, then I'm just not going to have kids with them. 0.95

01:21:45.860 Well, that certainly would be the biological reality if you're 40 or 45.

01:21:49.920 Then it is the reality you're not going to be able to have kids, most likely.

01:21:53.660 I'm not really sure with what you're trying to say.

01:21:55.080 I'm just trying to say that for a lot of women, it's not necessarily like a mandatory part of their lives to start a family anymore. 1.00

01:22:01.260 No, of course not.

01:22:01.920 It's not mandatory.

01:22:02.900 It's cool if we do, but it's not really a goal I aim for to become a milestone in my life.

01:22:08.880 Would you agree, though, that generally speaking, most women want to have a family, want to have kids?

01:22:15.100 Not all, but most women.

01:22:16.760 I don't know if most women right now want to have a family. 1.00

01:22:18.960 Okay, most.

01:22:19.660 I think you want me to say that, but I don't think a lot of women, especially now that they have their own jobs and are able to do more things with their lives and also have kids at a later age, a lot of women don't really want kids right now.

01:22:33.180 I don't think, do you, are you sure you want kids right now?

01:22:36.560 Well, we're not talking about me.

01:22:37.980 I'm asking you.

01:22:38.320 Do I want kids?

01:22:39.360 Well, perhaps in the future, but I.

01:22:42.220 Yeah, but it's not like you're like go gung-ho about like the next one I meet must carry my child.

01:22:47.520 It's like.

01:22:48.040 That's not what we're talking about, though.

01:22:49.380 What are we talking about?

01:22:50.000 We're not talking about the gung-ho-ness with which you're trying to find someone to have kids with, although perhaps as you start.

01:22:57.380 Well, I think, honestly, you should actually start quite young trying to find a long-term partner.

01:23:03.620 Why?

01:23:05.380 Why?

01:23:06.060 Yeah, why?

01:23:06.560 Well, I'm not.

01:23:07.520 What if I don't want to?

01:23:09.720 Well, you're, you're free to do whatever you want, but me personally, I, I'm not a, I'm not really.

01:23:14.060 How old are you?

01:23:14.760 33, but I'm not in favor of hookup culture.

01:23:17.740 Then you wouldn't.

01:23:18.900 I don't think hookup culture is good for society.

01:23:20.920 Can I ask the last time you hooked up with somebody?

01:23:23.280 Bro.

01:23:23.540 Let's not be roasting.

01:23:24.440 Let's not be roasting. 1.00

01:23:25.460 Sydney, you, you fucking like derailed the conversation. 1.00

01:23:29.620 I'm sorry. 1.00

01:23:30.080 Just like random.

01:23:30.760 The conversation has been derailed so far and I've been wanting to talk about something for so long.

01:23:35.820 Here, we need, we, we do need to do the TTS though.

01:23:39.620 So by the way, Dank Naked, thank you, man.

01:23:41.740 Um, the TTS is broken.

01:23:44.340 I apologize, but we will treat, we'll do a spoken TTS.

01:23:47.780 Go ahead, Kazumi.

01:23:48.680 I must just rip the bandaid off.

01:23:50.440 Also, Dank Naked, I speed read this, doesn't go outside.

01:23:54.080 I could tell.

01:23:54.960 But do you really think a man that has enough money to support a family with three kids would be looking for a 30 year old or someone that is younger and more fertile?

01:24:02.040 It's very unlikely.

01:24:03.040 I beg you to leave Reddit, bro.

01:24:06.720 Dude, I also think it's really obvious.

01:24:09.400 He is not a guy coming into a single mom with three kids.

01:24:13.360 I think we're talking about her starting a family.

01:24:16.840 I, which is also a normal age.

01:24:20.220 Anyways.

01:24:20.980 And also she's, she's kind of hot. 1.00

01:24:22.980 She would be a hot mom of three. 1.00

01:24:24.460 Dude, she's absolutely hot. 1.00

01:24:25.440 It's not even a kind of.

01:24:26.880 Like, no, like she's like super sexy. 0.99

01:24:31.840 Where did the kind of come from?

01:24:34.480 I was like rounded. 0.99

01:24:35.660 If someone called me kind of hot, I would shoot myself in the face. 0.95

01:24:39.700 In GTA, sorry. 0.99

01:24:43.100 Brian's like, oh my God.

01:24:45.140 I said in GTA.

01:24:47.020 I've done Twitch streams.

01:24:49.120 By the way, all labia matter.

01:24:52.240 All labia do matter. 0.99

01:24:53.040 How dare you, Kazumi? 0.99

01:24:54.660 I have burger lips, bro.

01:24:56.180 So Google it.

01:24:58.220 How dare you shame him? 1.00

01:24:59.380 I eat all vaginas. 1.00

01:25:00.540 It's not, I don't. 1.00

01:25:02.680 The vagina. 1.00

01:25:03.620 No one also. 1.00

01:25:04.560 I don't even care about dick size. 1.00

01:25:06.140 If I'm about to fuck a guy. 1.00

01:25:07.900 If he pulls his pants down. 1.00

01:25:09.160 Stop the cap. 0.94

01:25:10.060 First of all.

01:25:10.600 Yeah, no, let's stop the cap. 0.99

01:25:12.160 You guys live in this imaginary world where.

01:25:14.680 First of all, I don't.

01:25:15.400 This is probably a rare occasion. 1.00

01:25:16.860 But if you pull your pants down and your dick is lame. 1.00

01:25:20.020 I'm already here. 1.00

01:25:21.220 It's not like I'm going to be like this shit is too small. 0.99

01:25:23.960 I'm going to leave. 0.99

01:25:24.640 We're going to just work with what you got.

01:25:26.040 But also.

01:25:26.840 Yeah, but would you see him again?

01:25:28.500 Would you see him again? 1.00

01:25:29.320 If he could eat some fucking pussy. 1.00

01:25:31.060 Yeah. 1.00

01:25:31.560 Ocean of the ocean, not the size of the boat.

01:25:33.200 Yeah. 0.99

01:25:33.520 Like if you have like some insecurities about your dick size and you feel like women leave 1.00

01:25:37.420 because of your dick size. 1.00

01:25:38.620 Learn how to eat some pussy. 1.00

01:25:40.020 Wait, are you talking about me? 1.00

01:25:41.240 I'm talking to the general public.

01:25:42.560 To the world.

01:25:43.100 To the world.

01:25:44.600 But you were like. 1.00

01:25:46.040 What the fuck? 1.00

01:25:47.580 Well, what if. 1.00

01:25:48.600 Okay.

01:25:49.400 Let's not.

01:25:50.160 Let's not stop.

01:25:51.100 Like if a guy had a micropenis.

01:25:53.780 Can you close the door?

01:25:54.180 I'm sorry.

01:25:54.460 Eric, can you close the door?

01:25:56.140 If a guy had a micropen.

01:25:59.300 Most girls are donezo. 1.00

01:26:01.980 I think I've been with guys who've had average size dicks or smaller. 0.99

01:26:08.840 You just said average. 0.98

01:26:10.480 Or smaller.

01:26:11.760 Okay.

01:26:12.140 We need to give you a class on listening.

01:26:15.040 I've also been with.

01:26:15.540 We need to give you a class on listening.

01:26:16.780 No. 0.99

01:26:17.040 Because when I was talking about all that shit, you weren't listening at all. 0.99

01:26:20.060 Like what? 0.99

01:26:20.400 But go ahead.

01:26:20.980 No, like explain yourself.

01:26:22.000 No, no, no.

01:26:22.020 Go ahead.

01:26:22.520 No.

01:26:23.940 We're going to continue on, but go ahead.

01:26:25.500 No.

01:26:25.880 Explain yourself.

01:26:26.740 What do you mean explain myself?

01:26:27.780 Like what part was I not listening?

01:26:28.800 When you were talking about the pregnancy thing, you were not listening.

01:26:31.360 Like how?

01:26:32.880 You were not listening to what I was saying.

01:26:35.400 So explain how.

01:26:36.380 We're having a discussion.

01:26:37.560 Because I just.

01:26:38.380 Oh my God.

01:26:39.200 Okay.

01:26:40.240 You want to make the exception into the rule, but I was speaking in generalities.

01:26:45.120 And I was speaking as an individual.

01:26:46.620 Okay.

01:26:46.800 But continue your point.

01:26:47.740 Go ahead. 0.99

01:26:48.840 The point about small dicks. 0.99

01:26:50.220 The micropenes. 0.98

01:26:50.940 Yes. 0.99

01:26:51.380 First of all, I've been with average size dicks. 0.99

01:26:53.520 That's great. 0.99

01:26:54.100 And smaller.

01:26:54.460 And women. 0.98

01:26:56.060 Okay. 1.00

01:26:56.260 And I've also been with guys with big dicks. 0.99

01:26:57.980 The common feature that will make me want to come back is, am I going to come? 0.99

01:27:03.940 And that's in general. 1.00

01:27:05.900 If your dick is big and you can't make me come, then I'm not going to come back. 1.00

01:27:11.220 The dick size is seriously not that important. 1.00

01:27:14.120 But it is talking to a deaf choir because you guys don't care how many times we say, we talk about dick size. 1.00

01:27:21.360 You guys don't. 0.99

01:27:22.380 Do you speak for all women though?

01:27:24.120 Do you speak for all women?

01:27:25.520 I am. 1.00

01:27:26.400 Do you care about dick size? 0.99

01:27:28.040 Is it super duper important? 1.00

01:27:28.860 Okay.

01:27:28.880 Let me ask you a question.

01:27:29.800 If a guy has a micropenis, Sydney, is that going to be an issue for you?

01:27:35.520 I mean, it won't feel as good.

01:27:38.420 Okay.

01:27:38.780 So it would be an issue for you.

01:27:41.160 Would you pursue a long, would you, would you pursue a long-term relationship with a guy who has a micropenis?

01:27:46.180 If everything else is on point, we can work with it.

01:27:49.760 Oh, so he has to make up for, so he has to make up for his detriment.

01:27:52.980 Yeah.

01:27:53.080 Okay.

01:27:53.640 Go ahead.

01:27:54.540 It has to be a good sexual, it has to be a good physical relationship as well as an emotional relationship.

01:27:59.960 I get what you're saying.

01:28:01.160 I will say, like, I've been in the same situation as you and like probably like one of the best, but yeah, no, I get it.

01:28:07.060 I agree. 0.99

01:28:07.520 Okay, if I can acknowledge that some women don't care about dick size, can you acknowledge that some women do? 1.00

01:28:15.900 Yeah. 0.99

01:28:16.580 We don't live in a world of absolutists.

01:28:17.840 There we go.

01:28:18.580 We are in a very nuanced world.

01:28:20.780 I am talking, unless I'm specifically saying all people, I'm talking about me.

01:28:25.600 Okay.

01:28:26.240 Yeah.

01:28:26.540 But, so, you're almost saying that it's unreasonable for men to think that it is something that some women, perhaps most women, do care about to some degree.

01:28:38.760 I think, I think what it, no, no, no.

01:28:40.420 I think what it is is that like, okay, for instance, how we just had this conversation, how when she says she speaks, she speaks as an individual.

01:28:47.380 And when you speak, you speak for the general population, right?

01:28:51.320 What the message that she's trying to say, and honestly, the message that I agree with is that men need to stop living in this world of absolute.

01:28:59.120 Not every woman is going to care about how big it is in your pants, bro. 1.00

01:29:03.660 Like, sure, you might run into some girls who are like, oh, you know what? 1.00

01:29:07.320 I just can't vibe with that.

01:29:08.460 And that is truth.

01:29:09.520 But there is also truth that some women won't care. 1.00

01:29:13.560 And that's the thing.

01:29:14.280 Like, if you, if you as a man carry yourself in a way in this world of absolutes, like every woman is going to care about this, every woman is going to care about that, then you are going to shrink the world that you live in and the ability to make connections because you are creating that reality for yourself.

01:29:30.600 And you need to live with the fact that there are going to be people who disagree with you and there are going to be people who agree with you.

01:29:36.200 Just like there are going to be girls who care about how big it is 1.00

01:29:38.860 and there are going to be girls who don't.

01:29:40.320 There are going to be girls who care about how much money you make. 1.00

01:29:42.440 There are going to be girls who don't.

01:29:46.180 Yes, that's all.

01:29:47.280 That's really it.

01:29:48.440 That's really it.

01:29:49.860 Your take?

01:29:50.440 I mean, I definitely agree with everything that she just said.

01:29:52.760 I agree with everything that she just said.

01:29:54.340 Okay, so if a guy's got like a two-incher, it's all good?

01:29:57.020 No.

01:29:57.940 Oh.

01:29:58.660 Yeah, I care personally.

01:30:00.280 Okay, two-inch.

01:30:01.320 You have a minimum.

01:30:02.100 I mean, average.

01:30:03.220 Average and up.

01:30:04.440 Average.

01:30:05.220 What's average?

01:30:05.940 Show us with your hands what's average.

01:30:07.820 No, I'm not doing that.

01:30:08.480 Show us with your hands.

01:30:09.460 Come on. 1.00

01:30:10.580 Because some women think average is fucking. 1.00

01:30:14.160 Yeah, no, that's not what I think. 1.00

01:30:17.000 But there's, I'm sure, guys who have huge penises that. 1.00

01:30:23.160 Peni. 1.00

01:30:24.040 Yeah, peni. 0.99

01:30:25.520 My bad.

01:30:26.500 That don't know what they're doing, just like they were just saying.

01:30:30.900 Yeah.

01:30:31.740 Also, if you would allow me, I would love to bring it back to the point,

01:30:35.940 of, I've been wanting to talk about this for so long.

01:30:38.620 Go ahead.

01:30:39.220 And how you never got to, Sydney, is it?

01:30:42.540 Yeah.

01:30:42.860 Yeah, you never got to me and Sydney about if we would settle with a man who has,

01:30:47.000 who doesn't have all the like super desirable features and like what our standards are.

01:30:50.360 So, also at this party, her birthday party.

01:30:54.320 Oh my God, my party was turnt.

01:30:55.700 As a 5'8 woman, I will say for the majority of my life, I have always looked to men who

01:31:02.760 are either my height or taller.

01:31:05.020 But lately, and especially at this party, there was this guy there who was shorter than

01:31:11.000 me.

01:31:11.580 I don't know how much shorter, but I could make like, I had to look down a little bit.

01:31:14.980 He was definitely shorter than me.

01:31:16.320 I could like see the top of his head, but he was funny.

01:31:19.260 He dressed really nice.

01:31:20.640 I thought he was really cute and I was ready to change his life in the bathroom, bro.

01:31:26.260 Do we need to go use the bathroom?

01:31:28.620 Like, and here's the thing, if I was just walking like in the middle of the street and

01:31:34.360 I saw him walking down, you're right.

01:31:35.680 I probably would have just been like, okay, you know, it's just another guy, whatever.

01:31:38.860 But at this event where I am, you know, on a mission to connect with people, not necessarily

01:31:44.000 sexually, but just like make connections with people.

01:31:46.440 I thought he was really cute.

01:31:48.560 And I...

01:31:48.920 He was dressed up as a knight.

01:31:50.640 I thought he was really cute and I have not been able to stop thinking about him.

01:31:54.980 I'll be honest.

01:31:56.360 He's listening.

01:31:57.520 Stop.

01:31:58.920 I'll give him your number.

01:32:01.320 But like...

01:32:01.920 Are you just, is this pandering though?

01:32:03.660 No, no, no, no.

01:32:03.880 Are you just pandering?

01:32:04.680 No, but he's really cute.

01:32:05.800 But what I'm saying is that that is not what I would usually look for.

01:32:09.700 You know what I'm saying?

01:32:10.520 So although he wasn't six foot, he had so many other desirable qualities to me, which was

01:32:16.260 his personality and the like common interests.

01:32:19.740 Let's talk a little bit about his personality.

01:32:22.120 So you said he was funny.

01:32:23.360 Yes.

01:32:24.120 Hold on.

01:32:24.560 Was he...

01:32:24.900 Imagine this guy.

01:32:26.020 I'm like, oh my God, not him.

01:32:28.020 Was he exceptionally funny?

01:32:30.260 No.

01:32:31.400 Okay.

01:32:31.700 He was just averagely funny.

01:32:33.200 Yeah.

01:32:33.380 He was just like averagely funny.

01:32:34.880 And was he...

01:32:35.460 I think he's funny.

01:32:36.440 Was he good looking?

01:32:37.200 In the conversation that we had, he wasn't like exceptionally funny.

01:32:40.200 Okay.

01:32:40.420 Was he good looking?

01:32:41.660 Yes.

01:32:41.880 Aside from his height.

01:32:42.580 To me, yes.

01:32:43.580 He is well dressed.

01:32:44.260 He's okay.

01:32:45.240 Yes.

01:32:45.880 He's totally not her type.

01:32:48.300 Okay.

01:32:48.920 So, and you said you're 21 and throughout the whole course of your life, you're 5'8".

01:32:53.860 You've never found other short guys attractive.

01:32:56.340 I've only found...

01:32:58.120 No.

01:32:58.360 Okay.

01:32:58.640 So this is a second short guy I found attractive.

01:33:01.160 I found...

01:33:02.160 I actually did have a thing with another short guy last year.

01:33:05.280 And another party of mine.

01:33:06.640 In the same bathroom.

01:33:07.800 This is a trend.

01:33:09.020 So my question is, you said, and you're 21, the second short guy you found attractive.

01:33:14.880 Let me ask, how many...

01:33:15.940 What's short for you?

01:33:17.060 Hold on, Sydney.

01:33:18.420 How many 6'1 men have you...

01:33:21.240 Let's say 6'1 men have you found attractive?

01:33:23.920 Thousands?

01:33:25.020 Oh, God, no.

01:33:26.100 Jesus.

01:33:27.220 Come on.

01:33:28.020 No, dude. 1.00

01:33:28.840 Because I think most guys are assholes. 1.00

01:33:30.640 I'm going to just say it. 1.00

01:33:31.540 I'm into the very non-conventionally attractive guy.

01:33:34.140 I'm into big guys.

01:33:35.180 I'm into nerdy guys.

01:33:36.380 I'm not into like...

01:33:36.700 I'm just talking about height.

01:33:37.420 I'm just talking about height.

01:33:38.260 Well, in height, I don't know.

01:33:41.040 I don't...

01:33:41.360 Not like...

01:33:42.120 You've probably seen thousands of men who you think are attractive.

01:33:44.200 But they're not all hot.

01:33:45.080 Just because they're tall doesn't make them sexy.

01:33:46.720 No, I'm not saying that all tall men are attractive.

01:33:49.000 But would you say the vast majority of men who you have deemed to be attractive also happen to have been tall?

01:33:55.740 So I guess the point I'm trying to make is...

01:33:57.660 I mean, I guess.

01:33:58.760 But that's also because...

01:33:59.840 And I will be honest.

01:34:00.980 I haven't really been in too many situations where short guys have the confidence to talk to me.

01:34:06.920 And that's where it is, right?

01:34:08.220 If more short guys came up to me, talked to me, and like weren't afraid, like weren't intimidated by my height, I probably would have also found them attractive.

01:34:17.840 Okay.

01:34:18.940 Sure.

01:34:19.500 I mean, look, some short guys do have some limiting beliefs when it comes to that.

01:34:24.240 But it's not imagined.

01:34:26.700 A lot of short guys will shoot their shot and the girls like... 1.00

01:34:30.980 Girls will fucking clown on short dudes. 1.00

01:34:33.060 So it's not like some... 1.00

01:34:35.060 That's real.

01:34:35.840 It's 100% happens.

01:34:37.100 I'm not going to say that that's not real.

01:34:38.560 But my advice is just like, I don't know.

01:34:40.460 Hopefully you can find some better, more open-minded, accepting woman in your life.

01:34:45.680 I don't disagree with you.

01:34:47.600 Yeah.

01:34:47.800 I don't disagree with you.

01:34:49.060 Okay.

01:34:49.940 So two short guys, though.

01:34:53.200 That's the thing, though, is like if they're short, then they have to like work extra hard to make up for it.

01:34:58.840 I have to work extra hard as a fat girl.

01:35:01.200 Sure. 0.91

01:35:02.240 That's just how it is.

01:35:03.720 Like they're going to be...

01:35:04.640 How do you work extra hard?

01:35:06.800 I have to have a really good personality for most of these guys.

01:35:10.780 If I'm fat and dull, they're like, what are you even doing?

01:35:15.400 At least in my personal experience, right?

01:35:17.940 And also, I have always been like the nerdy girl.

01:35:20.740 I've always been into anime, into video games and stuff like that.

01:35:23.920 And that is a personality trait that was normally looked down upon until like COVID in recent years.

01:35:30.460 Now it's like kind of cool to be like a nerd and into anime and stuff like that.

01:35:33.540 It's been cool for a while.

01:35:34.640 For guys, not for girls. 0.97

01:35:37.560 For guys?

01:35:38.840 You think dudes were like curving chicks because they were into anime 10 years ago?

01:35:43.960 No.

01:35:44.440 Yes, bro.

01:35:45.620 No.

01:35:46.500 Absolutely.

01:35:47.120 Well, I'm talking about my personal experience, right?

01:35:49.620 Fair enough. 1.00

01:35:50.100 And a lot of men were like, oh, you're into like this weird shit. 1.00

01:35:53.780 But hold on. 1.00

01:35:54.260 You're 21.

01:35:54.700 So you turned like 18 or 19 like during the pandemic when you presumably would have more

01:36:01.460 seriously started dating.

01:36:03.440 You don't date in high school?

01:36:05.020 You don't have crushes in high school?

01:36:06.880 Middle school?

01:36:07.620 You do, but it's not like standard dating.

01:36:10.200 It's not like serious dating.

01:36:11.760 Dating, you know?

01:36:12.700 Okay, yeah.

01:36:13.100 It's not serious dating, but you still develop like romantic relationships with people in

01:36:17.880 high school and like social relationships.

01:36:20.980 And you're right.

01:36:22.260 We are talking about dating specifically, but I haven't had a lot of people be like, you're

01:36:25.960 weird for being into that stuff.

01:36:27.660 And you're also a big girl.

01:36:29.040 So I am not going to give the time to you.

01:36:32.400 Okay, Sydney, you go ahead.

01:36:33.400 Then I got to do the super chats.

01:36:34.560 Go ahead.

01:36:35.480 On your standards or whatever.

01:36:36.840 Um, um, funny is just like a big one for me, honestly, like if a guy is like funny

01:36:43.520 and he's like, like height doesn't matter for me at all, but like a gym guy for sure.

01:36:48.540 Or like a guy that's like, like I go to the gym daily.

01:36:51.500 So if a guy can go to the gym with me or like it, or like finds that motivation to like

01:36:56.760 be athletic.

01:36:57.960 Okay, sure.

01:36:58.720 That's definitely something I look for.

01:37:00.040 Okay.

01:37:00.220 Let me get these super chats guys.

01:37:01.360 Sorry that we're a bit late on the super chats here.

01:37:03.480 We, uh, been having quite a lively conversation.

01:37:05.640 Guys, get your super chats in TTS is, uh, kind of funky.

01:37:09.400 So we have to just read it straight up.

01:37:12.220 But, uh, by the way, Derek, man, I don't know if you're still in the chat, but I see you

01:37:15.400 thank you for all the support, the past, uh, streams.

01:37:17.700 All right.

01:37:18.300 Uh, oh, that one already came up.

01:37:20.040 Um, let's see here.

01:37:21.820 Yo, captain Bama lamb, $20 soup chat.

01:37:23.860 Ladies, do you believe a man will take you seriously? 0.95

01:37:25.500 Oh, did we do this one?

01:37:26.460 Um, no, if you are an OF creator, corn star, a single mom or loud and obnoxious, do you think

01:37:31.220 your chances increase or decrease when you're a combination of any?

01:37:34.880 And for Kazumi went to the bathroom, maybe we'll catch her when she comes back.

01:37:38.900 Um, I suppose this is more directed towards, well, there's the other components, single

01:37:43.880 mom, loud, obnoxious. 0.94

01:37:45.940 Uh, so do you think that because you are an OnlyFans creator and you do corn that, that

01:37:54.500 shrinks your pool of potential partners?

01:37:57.140 Yeah, but I don't think it should.

01:37:59.380 Like, I am in, I have to live in reality.

01:38:02.740 Right.

01:38:03.120 And the reality is that my career and my line of work is still something that is shamed by

01:38:08.360 both men and woman, right?

01:38:10.120 Not just men.

01:38:11.100 Uh, and a lot of people have a lot of strong feelings about it, but I am thankful that most

01:38:17.080 of the people that are in my life don't really think that it's something that should be shameful.

01:38:21.240 Right.

01:38:21.560 And I work towards destigmatizing it every day in my civilian relationships because it

01:38:27.340 is just like any other job.

01:38:31.840 And truthfully, if somebody like, even if, just, just if anyone else gets up to go to

01:38:36.880 the bathroom, just go that way. 1.00

01:38:37.760 Um, but also like, even if I wasn't a Shrex worker, I wouldn't want to date, if I wasn't 1.00

01:38:44.440 a Shrex worker, I wouldn't want to date somebody who disrespects Shrex worker because I believe

01:38:49.420 that as a human, everyone that everyone should be respected the same, no matter your career

01:38:53.940 or what, what if they don't disrespect sex workers? 0.99

01:38:56.480 Just, they don't want to date them.

01:38:57.960 Then that's, that's cool.

01:38:59.420 Whatever.

01:38:59.780 Like you are entitled to your preferences.

01:39:02.140 And if, if me doing this kind of work bothers you, then it wasn't going to work out anyways.

01:39:06.620 And that's fine.

01:39:07.380 Like move on next.

01:39:09.240 So Kazumi, the question is, uh, do you believe that a man will take you seriously long-term

01:39:13.260 if you're an OF creator or cornstar?

01:39:15.680 Yeah.

01:39:18.820 Happens all the time.

01:39:19.920 But do you think it potentially limits your pool to some degree?

01:39:24.120 Um, no.

01:39:25.260 You don't think, well, I mean, there, there must, there's certainly some men out there

01:39:28.600 that wouldn't date you. 0.91

01:39:29.640 I mean, those people weren't people I would have dated.

01:39:31.180 Sure.

01:39:31.540 That's fine.

01:39:31.980 But does it limit your pool?

01:39:33.620 No, I have no problem dating.

01:39:35.540 No, but that, that's not the question.

01:39:37.700 Does it?

01:39:38.680 Are there, do you think there are men out there that would not want to date you?

01:39:41.580 Yeah.

01:39:41.700 I'm sure there's people that wouldn't want to date me, but I don't.

01:39:44.120 You wouldn't want to date them too.

01:39:45.100 Yeah.

01:39:45.380 So it wouldn't matter.

01:39:46.320 Right.

01:39:47.020 Yeah.

01:39:47.280 But you said that, I'm trying to remember the first part of what you said in response

01:39:51.360 to this.

01:39:51.820 You said that it shouldn't be an issue for people.

01:39:56.520 It shouldn't be as big as an issue.

01:39:58.700 Like, so you, and I think that just has to do with the general stigma, like the stigma

01:40:04.260 that is around Shrek's work.

01:40:06.100 And I think that when it becomes more de-stigmatized and people can just treat people like treat,

01:40:13.000 like treat people like people, no matter their career, that will also go down.

01:40:18.820 If that makes sense.

01:40:19.760 So do you, although you acknowledge that it is some men's preferences to not want to

01:40:26.140 date a girl who's a sex worker or who does OnlyFans, you object, do you object to that 0.94

01:40:32.940 preference?

01:40:33.500 I don't object to that preference, but I know that a lot of the men who are like, oh, like

01:40:38.260 I would never date blah, blah, blah.

01:40:39.620 Don't say it as a personal preference.

01:40:41.340 They say it as like almost in a, like in a shaming way.

01:40:44.740 It's like, wow, how dare you go into that line of work?

01:40:47.540 Like that is so shameful, like blah, blah, blah.

01:40:49.760 So if it's more so just like, you know, like I personally just wouldn't want to date somebody

01:40:53.400 who's in that line of work.

01:40:54.520 Cool.

01:40:54.980 But the truth is, is that these men demonize me.

01:40:58.360 These men demonize her.

01:40:59.400 These men demonize women who work in this field. 0.92

01:41:04.760 Yeah.

01:41:05.280 I mean, also everyone's entitled to their own preferences.

01:41:07.480 I personally wouldn't eat.

01:41:08.420 I wouldn't date a cigarette smoker.

01:41:11.360 Yeah.

01:41:11.700 Yeah.

01:41:11.940 I wouldn't date a picky eater.

01:41:13.560 Okay. 1.00

01:41:14.040 I probably wouldn't date someone who vaped, but that's like a dumb hill I'll die on. 1.00

01:41:17.840 There you go. 0.99

01:41:18.240 Yo, John Ruby.

01:41:18.920 I'm with you on that one though.

01:41:20.120 I don't.

01:41:20.540 John Ruby.

01:41:21.140 Ask these lovely ladies what their Valentine's Day plans are. 1.00

01:41:24.100 My birthday's on Valentine's Day.

01:41:25.580 Ooh.

01:41:26.080 Okay.

01:41:26.260 So I'll be in Italy being spoiled.

01:41:28.560 Okay.

01:41:29.220 What about you?

01:41:30.020 Any, do you have a Valentine's Day plans?

01:41:33.320 I'm moving to Costa Mesa on the 13th.

01:41:36.700 So I'll probably be unpacking.

01:41:39.120 Okay.

01:41:39.960 Wow.

01:41:40.420 That's a far move.

01:41:41.260 What is John's Valentine's Day plans?

01:41:45.580 So I, me and my partner's relationship is also on the 17th.

01:41:50.800 So we actually do like a little, like a three day celebration or 14, 15, 16.

01:41:54.880 It's like a four day celebration.

01:41:56.320 Sydney.

01:41:56.960 Um, yeah.

01:41:58.300 I think I might just be picking up a, like working or just the gym.

01:42:01.820 Single life.

01:42:02.740 Well, I like, we're doing a show on Valentine's Day.

01:42:04.720 If I go to the gym and the guys are there are single.

01:42:06.860 So, you know.

01:42:07.120 Uh, cause Jimmy, can you, uh.

01:42:08.620 These women want men to check off her boxes and carry her baggage at the same time. 1.00

01:42:14.980 Send a freaking asteroid. 0.99

01:42:16.340 What are they talking about? 0.99

01:42:17.460 What does that mean?

01:42:18.220 They're, he's saying that I have baggage.

01:42:20.480 I'm not trying to.

01:42:23.160 Oh, there's the astronaut.

01:42:24.560 I was like, I thought it was like a metaphysical, metaphorical asteroid.

01:42:27.460 Yo, Alvin, thank you for the, uh, 50s.

01:42:29.340 The TTS is broken, but Kazumi is acting as our, uh, impromptu.

01:42:32.580 I know, they're disappointed with that update.

01:42:35.040 You are the impromptu TTS.

01:42:36.520 Yes, okay, um, so we have, uh, we did that one.

01:42:40.480 Jack P, $20 soup chat.

01:42:41.680 Thank you, man.

01:42:42.140 I'm 30 plus.

01:42:42.820 I spend way too much time on my podcast.

01:42:45.340 Two days, two days a week.

01:42:46.720 Would you date me?

01:42:47.220 Don't let you forget.

01:42:48.000 I'm a high value male.

01:42:49.480 Oh, this guy's just roasting me, I think.

01:42:51.480 He's asking you on a date?

01:42:52.660 I get 500 plus views on my streams. 0.99

01:42:55.020 Yeah, he's, uh, yeah, no, he's fucking, he's roasting me. 0.99

01:42:58.420 Yo, Cheeks, thank you for the $20 soup chat. 0.99

01:43:00.820 Brian, you better.

01:43:01.480 Dude, Beaten Cheeks is back.

01:43:02.940 Oh, hey, baby.

01:43:04.360 Brian, you better not give these Renfrews any of my donations.

01:43:07.760 I contribute to your show.

01:43:09.360 Dude, I will literally take it from you somehow.

01:43:12.900 Also, come Zoomy, you seem triggered.

01:43:15.600 Just except not all men want you sitting on their face.

01:43:19.400 Shout out to the two innocent ladies on here. 1.00

01:43:22.460 Shout out to you two innocent women and the choices you've made. 0.99

01:43:27.100 All right, Kazumi, what you got here?

01:43:28.460 As a man from the 805, you guys got an awesome show.

01:43:33.500 Question for the ladies, since Fresh and Fit slash Andrew Tate was brought up, would you

01:43:36.920 go on their show?

01:43:37.580 I already did.

01:43:38.600 Next time I'm home, Harry's, Freebirds, or Cold Spring?

01:43:41.860 Yo, Travis, thank you for the $20 soup chat, 805 for life. 1.00

01:43:47.560 Yeah, Freebirds is the shit. 1.00

01:43:50.120 I thought Cold Springs burned down. 1.00

01:43:52.140 You should see my Fresh and Fit.

01:43:53.640 It burned down?

01:43:54.460 So, I thought so, but maybe not.

01:43:58.280 So, two of the girls on the show have actually been on Fresh and Fit, Kazumi, and, yeah, so,

01:44:05.540 yeah.

01:44:07.000 Yeah?

01:44:08.160 It's a different experience being on their show because they, the dynamic is really weird

01:44:15.000 because if you kind of speak.

01:44:16.320 Be nice, be nice.

01:44:17.340 Huh?

01:44:17.880 Oh, go ahead, go ahead.

01:44:18.580 Because if you kind of like argue, because obviously we're talking about like hot button

01:44:23.460 topics, but they made this, they like made it really clear that if you kind of like disagree

01:44:27.960 too hard, you will be kicked out and not tagged, which is kind of like, okay, well, I've been

01:44:32.980 here for three hours.

01:44:34.480 So, I...

01:44:34.860 Wait, did you get kicked out?

01:44:35.760 No, I didn't get kicked out.

01:44:36.320 You got Frank, Frank Castled.

01:44:37.760 What's Frank Castled?

01:44:38.600 That's what they call like when they kick a girl out. 1.00

01:44:40.580 Oh, no, I did not.

01:44:41.160 They Frank Castled him.

01:44:41.640 I stayed, I stayed the whole time and it was interesting because we were able to have

01:44:45.440 discussions, but they did kick another girl out and I felt sorry for her. 1.00

01:44:49.700 Well, so I, I don't think, I don't think they kick a girl out if she disagrees too hard

01:44:54.960 with them.

01:44:55.440 She... 1.00

01:44:55.760 It's if they're being like rude or disrespectful that they kick them out.

01:44:57.860 Yeah, they kick her out for, for, for like a copious, um, what is it?

01:45:02.120 Like when they interrupt you? 0.94

01:45:03.480 Oh, she's just interrupting a shit ton. 0.81

01:45:05.080 But yeah, I think she got really belligerent and like, it was just kind of like an awkward 0.85

01:45:08.640 stream.

01:45:09.080 Like, it was like, she was just like, and I was like, okay, okay.

01:45:12.020 Like, let us like talk a little bit more.

01:45:13.920 Really quick before I do the rest of the super chats, you mentioned that you're a waifu.

01:45:17.340 You like anime.

01:45:18.220 Can we, can we get, um, an uwu and an ara, ara, ara, ara?

01:45:22.680 Oh, okay.

01:45:23.660 You can get the XXX version on my website, but okay.

01:45:29.160 Uwu.

01:45:30.520 And I'm not really good with the ara, ara, but. 0.98

01:45:35.860 What about you, Kazumi?

01:45:36.660 Can you do either?

01:45:37.380 What is the ara, ara?

01:45:38.420 It's like, ara, ara. 0.91

01:45:40.420 No, I'm not going to do that.

01:45:42.340 What about the uwu?

01:45:44.100 Uwu?

01:45:45.000 Oh, Jesus Christ.

01:45:45.980 What is, what does it mean?

01:45:47.760 It's just like, it's just like, it's just a face, yeah.

01:45:50.180 Uwu?

01:45:51.180 Yeah.

01:45:51.780 What's the ahigao? 0.98

01:45:53.440 The ahigao face is like when you stick out your tongue and you cross my eye. 1.00

01:45:56.560 No.

01:45:56.660 Into this camera.

01:45:57.400 No.

01:45:57.640 Kazumi?

01:45:58.140 My page has three bucks.

01:45:59.300 Kazumi?

01:45:59.720 See it there. 0.98

01:46:00.340 The ahigao is a cum face, so I can't do it naturally. 1.00

01:46:03.340 I'm really bad at it. 0.99

01:46:04.720 Like, I'm really bad at making a fake orgasm face. 0.97

01:46:06.940 It looks like I'm having a seizure and shitting myself at the same time. 0.98

01:46:09.700 Wow.

01:46:10.160 Good times.

01:46:10.620 So I'll save everyone the dignity.

01:46:14.020 Oh.

01:46:14.960 Okay.

01:46:15.800 Yo, Burning Below, $20 Soup Chat.

01:46:17.380 Thank you, man.

01:46:17.900 Oh, go ahead, Kazumi.

01:46:18.660 Generally, most men don't care about women's money because men make their own money and

01:46:23.080 women won't spend their money on their men anyways. 1.00

01:46:25.360 Your experience, a man's money is both their money and a woman's money is her money. 1.00

01:46:30.180 That's just reality.

01:46:31.300 Yep.

01:46:31.600 You're in your own little prison, bro.

01:46:33.220 That is not my problem.

01:46:35.160 The thing is, though, is like women really don't share their resources with men the same 0.98

01:46:38.600 way that men share their resources with women.

01:46:40.140 If we're going to talk.

01:46:40.800 Generalizations.

01:46:41.660 That's, but yeah, we're speaking in generalities here, but that's most men's experience.

01:46:45.760 But you could just find a girl who doesn't think that way if it's a big deal for you.

01:46:49.700 I could also find, you know what I mean?

01:46:52.400 It's like, it's like we can pretend like the world is black and white when in reality

01:46:55.440 it's way more nuanced and it's not that hard.

01:46:57.420 But, okay, but the kind of the purpose of the show is to have a generalized discussion

01:47:02.780 about dating dynamics.

01:47:04.600 I feel like the purpose of the show is also to show you guys a different perspective.

01:47:10.120 But, okay, so do you, okay, let me ask you a question.

01:47:14.020 Do you disagree with the following statement?

01:47:15.960 Generally speaking, most women prefer to date men who are taller than them.

01:47:21.380 Like, are we talking?

01:47:22.720 Kazumi, this is like a layup.

01:47:24.600 This is like so obvious.

01:47:26.580 In your world?

01:47:27.560 Yeah.

01:47:28.060 It's not about in my world.

01:47:29.280 It is in your world because in my world, I don't think anyone cares.

01:47:32.820 Kazumi, what's the color of the sky when the sun's out?

01:47:35.780 Blue.

01:47:36.400 Okay, sure.

01:47:37.160 I'll humor you.

01:47:37.940 Yeah.

01:47:38.200 Generally speaking, I guess women do care about height. 1.00

01:47:40.900 That's like if you.

01:47:41.800 The majority of women care about height. 1.00

01:47:43.600 Yeah.

01:47:43.940 Generally speaking.

01:47:44.740 Majority of women. 1.00

01:47:45.360 But also, if it's a really big deal to you and you're like a short guy, you will find

01:47:50.820 love somewhere.

01:47:51.800 It's totally possible.

01:47:52.880 There's a lot of short kings out there. 0.99

01:47:54.520 Also, I was doing a fuck a fan for short kings. 0.98

01:47:57.160 Unrelated. 0.95

01:47:57.560 But it's also like there are many people out there that are short that also get laid all

01:48:03.440 the time.

01:48:04.000 I went on a date with a guy that was shorter than me.

01:48:06.560 But here's the thing.

01:48:07.020 My first boyfriend, my longest relationship was a short guy and he was three inches shorter

01:48:10.940 than me.

01:48:11.520 And I don't think we're like exceptions to a rule.

01:48:15.400 I think it's just a thing that happens.

01:48:16.880 Sydney, can I ask you a question?

01:48:18.500 Has a guy ever either spoiled you or offered to spoil you?

01:48:22.300 Yeah.

01:48:23.200 How many guys?

01:48:25.160 A few.

01:48:26.100 Like handful.

01:48:27.080 Yeah.

01:48:27.240 It's nothing to be ashamed of.

01:48:28.420 Yeah.

01:48:28.820 But how many?

01:48:30.540 Like in DMs or in person?

01:48:32.340 Like the...

01:48:32.560 Both.

01:48:33.940 Like 20.

01:48:35.280 20?

01:48:36.280 Are they typically maybe a bit older guys?

01:48:38.280 Yeah.

01:48:38.740 Late 20s, early 30s?

01:48:40.180 Yeah.

01:48:40.580 Okay. 0.86

01:48:41.420 So men will spoil women. 1.00

01:48:46.280 Women don't spoil men. 1.00

01:48:47.660 Generally speaking.

01:48:49.300 Okay.

01:48:50.440 What's this?

01:48:51.800 You disagree?

01:48:52.680 Yeah.

01:48:53.260 Well, I mean, maybe general.

01:48:54.700 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

01:48:56.000 Men or women? 0.78

01:48:57.020 Oh, geez.

01:48:57.800 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

01:48:59.000 Whoever asks.

01:49:00.080 Okay.

01:49:00.780 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

01:49:02.260 The man or the woman? 0.99

01:49:03.560 Everyone has their own opinions on like...

01:49:05.740 Whatever your opinion is fine.

01:49:06.940 I'm just asking you.

01:49:08.400 Me personally?

01:49:09.140 Yes.

01:49:09.320 Going out on a...

01:49:10.000 If somebody...

01:49:11.620 Say I was asked him out on the first date, then I would pay because I'm asking him to

01:49:16.800 come to dinner with me.

01:49:18.160 But vice versa, same thing goes for him.

01:49:20.340 So like if he asks me to go out, then I would expect him to pay because he's inviting

01:49:25.480 me somewhere.

01:49:26.580 Okay.

01:49:27.100 You said whoever pays.

01:49:28.700 Whoever asks.

01:49:29.440 Whoever asks.

01:49:29.680 Sorry.

01:49:29.960 Excuse me.

01:49:30.340 Whoever asks should pay.

01:49:31.300 What about you?

01:49:32.140 Same?

01:49:32.940 Same.

01:49:33.400 Yeah.

01:49:33.700 Okay.

01:49:34.340 I'm very pro on splitting it, but I've also like, I've been the one to ask out the guy

01:49:38.520 and I've been the one to pay and I like have no problem, but I think splitting is good.

01:49:43.060 Sure.

01:49:43.460 Who should be the one who asks? 0.94

01:49:45.720 It doesn't matter.

01:49:46.840 Hold on.

01:49:47.220 I want you to go first.

01:49:49.160 I mean...

01:49:49.840 Who should be the one who asks? 0.94

01:49:50.940 I don't feel like there's any rule.

01:49:52.240 There's no like should.

01:49:53.260 Okay.

01:49:53.600 You know?

01:49:54.380 If you had to give us a range, how many first...

01:49:57.140 Personally, it's going to be very rare for me to like go out of my way and ask somebody

01:50:02.940 out.

01:50:03.360 Like I want to be pursued.

01:50:05.340 That's just a personal preference.

01:50:06.540 So you want the guy to ask you?

01:50:08.980 Yes.

01:50:09.700 Okay.

01:50:10.100 But I also have been in a, like my long relationship.

01:50:14.740 We split everything down the middle all the time.

01:50:17.260 I just bought in the relationship that I was in, like previously I, for his birthday,

01:50:24.880 bought us a one week vacation to Oahu.

01:50:29.500 That's wonderful.

01:50:30.900 That's great.

01:50:31.640 You know, like I spoil my boyfriends too.

01:50:34.300 Like I don't just expect to be spoiled.

01:50:36.920 Like I feel like there needs to be a give and take.

01:50:39.700 Okay.

01:50:40.520 So you said that if you had to like give it a range, how many first dates have you been

01:50:46.060 on?

01:50:47.800 A hundred?

01:50:49.120 I don't know.

01:50:50.240 Nothing.

01:50:51.180 No, I know that there's nothing wrong with how many dates that I've been on.

01:50:54.200 Just first dates.

01:50:57.580 I don't...

01:50:59.020 Do you think it's over a hundred?

01:51:02.340 So you're 30.

01:51:03.060 I don't know if I would call every time I hang out with somebody new, like a date, like,

01:51:09.740 you know what I mean?

01:51:10.200 Like, I don't really...

01:51:11.880 Let's say the first, instead of dates, let's call it the first time hanging out with someone

01:51:16.280 new.

01:51:17.660 How many times has that occurred?

01:51:19.700 I mean, probably.

01:51:20.820 I mean, I've been dating since I was like 15.

01:51:23.160 Sure.

01:51:23.540 Yeah.

01:51:23.660 It was 15 years ago.

01:51:25.280 So...

01:51:25.680 200.

01:51:26.600 Maybe like a hundred.

01:51:27.940 A hundred.

01:51:28.420 Anywhere from a hundred.

01:51:28.940 Okay, so of those a hundred, let's say, how many of those did you initiate?

01:51:36.600 I don't think I've ever initiated a first date or like the first time hanging out with

01:51:41.960 somebody.

01:51:43.140 So just to bring it back to the who should pay thing, you said that whoever asks should

01:51:47.660 pay.

01:51:48.200 However, of the hundred first dates or whatever you want to call them that you've been on,

01:51:52.100 you've not initiated any of those.

01:51:56.080 Ergo, the guy should pay.

01:51:58.520 The man should pay.

01:52:00.940 Ergo, in my situation, the man should pay.

01:52:03.320 Yes.

01:52:04.240 Right.

01:52:04.540 Because you say whoever asks should pay, yet you've never asked a guy out on a date.

01:52:08.860 Because I don't have to ask guys out on dates.

01:52:10.940 Precisely.

01:52:11.580 Women don't have to ask men out. 1.00

01:52:13.740 But they could.

01:52:14.140 She's also speaking as an individual.

01:52:16.340 Because I've had the completely opposite experience.

01:52:19.160 Okay, but I would say you're an outlier.

01:52:22.340 I would say most women are more like her than they are like you. 1.00

01:52:26.820 Okay, but why can't there be, why can't most women be like me? 1.00

01:52:30.420 I agree.

01:52:31.800 Why don't women initiate more? 1.00

01:52:33.980 Because they don't have to.

01:52:35.600 They have the privilege and the benefit of not having to.

01:52:40.000 I think that's just, I think that's just, again, like personal preference.

01:52:43.320 I think that's straight up.

01:52:44.120 It's not personal preference.

01:52:45.920 I think it's up to the woman, right? 1.00

01:52:48.380 Sure.

01:52:48.680 And that's the thing.

01:52:49.800 Like, sure, maybe they don't have to.

01:52:50.980 But like, just pursue other women that would want to be willing to like give you more.

01:52:55.620 Like, if that's your problem.

01:52:57.140 Men don't have the privilege of waiting around, letting women come to them. 0.98

01:53:01.860 If men did do that, they would die virgins. 0.96

01:53:05.040 I reach out to men all the time. 1.00

01:53:07.120 I'll shoot my shot. 1.00

01:53:07.840 You're an outlier. 1.00

01:53:08.560 I'm an outlier.

01:53:09.260 You're an outlier.

01:53:10.000 Yeah, but I'm still in the conversation.

01:53:11.660 So I still count, you know?

01:53:13.360 Like, even if I am a minority.

01:53:14.760 I'm not excluding you from the conversation.

01:53:16.120 I am an outlier, but my experience is still representative of a lot of other women who are just like me.

01:53:22.140 Let me ask you a question.

01:53:23.100 She is right here, and that's 50% of this whole squad right here.

01:53:26.720 Okay, but that doesn't represent 50% of all women. 1.00

01:53:29.260 It doesn't.

01:53:30.060 That's not what I said.

01:53:31.180 I'm saying we're presenting 50% of the women right here.

01:53:33.820 But just because you guys move a certain way doesn't mean that that's going to be representative of all women. 0.84

01:53:41.100 I think you're, like, trying to create this, like, fake issue, right?

01:53:45.020 Like, men don't have the privilege of women reaching out to them, which just seems like maybe women haven't reached out to maybe you.

01:53:53.800 I've reached out to plenty of men.

01:53:55.980 I will slide in a guy's DMs. 0.99

01:53:57.720 I do not give a fuck. 1.00

01:53:59.040 I swear to God, a lot. 1.00

01:54:00.100 Like, Odell Beckham Jr., I'm sure women throw themselves at him all the time. 1.00

01:54:04.580 And if it's a guy at a coffee shop.

01:54:06.280 You DMed Odell?

01:54:08.040 No, I don't really.

01:54:08.780 He DMed you? 0.99

01:54:09.700 No, I'm saying as an example.

01:54:12.420 Like, women do shoot their shot all the time. 1.00

01:54:15.100 Yeah, they'll shoot their shot with a guy who's a fucking NFL player. 1.00

01:54:18.480 No, dude, we were at In-N-Out. 1.00

01:54:20.120 Bro, you give Odell.

01:54:21.720 How about the normal guy that works at Starbucks?

01:54:24.540 That's the guy I go for.

01:54:26.300 We were at In-N-Out, and we were at the drive-thru, and the drive-thru guy was super cute.

01:54:31.960 And I was like, what's up, cutie pie?

01:54:33.920 And he was like, oh, my God.

01:54:36.480 And I think it's funny, though, too, because, like, guys do not get hit on nearly as much as women.

01:54:41.860 Yeah, like, we can agree that.

01:54:43.300 And when you hit on a guy, personally, me, I love making the first move because when you hit on a guy first.

01:54:48.160 Because they're like, whoa, no way.

01:54:49.720 He has no idea.

01:54:50.600 It's so fun.

01:54:51.480 But the question isn't, like, have you hit on a guy?

01:54:54.420 It's have you asked it.

01:54:55.300 Yeah, yeah.

01:54:56.160 I like asking. 0.70

01:54:58.020 Yo, clown world in the chat.

01:54:59.780 Can I tell you a story? 0.87

01:55:00.380 Clown world in the chat. 1.00

01:55:01.420 Spam that shit, boys. 1.00

01:55:02.400 Brian, can I tell you a story? 1.00

01:55:03.060 I'm going to tell you.

01:55:03.360 I told you I have multiple times.

01:55:04.500 No, no, no, I'm not in response to you.

01:55:06.360 I want to tell you a story.

01:55:07.920 You can just pretend that women don't do that, but I think it's maybe these guys, you know?

01:55:13.280 Like, I, women, three out of four women here continually hit up guys. 1.00

01:55:20.880 Sorry.

01:55:22.300 Okay, but Kazumi, you are an outlier in numerous ways.

01:55:27.120 You make $3 million a year.

01:55:28.540 Is she an outlier?

01:55:28.820 She is a pretty, she is a pretty woman in college who hits on guys. 1.00

01:55:32.800 Thank you.

01:55:33.360 And goes on dates.

01:55:34.200 But she's an outlier, too.

01:55:35.680 Okay, but how are all, how are three of us outliers and one of us not?

01:55:39.060 Because we're just looking at us right here, though, like, majority of women do not make 1.00

01:55:43.320 the first move on guys because majority of women feel like, A, a man should come up 0.99

01:55:46.800 to them first, like, a man should spoil them first, like, we just have, like, a different,

01:55:50.220 I think, you know?

01:55:51.500 Well, I think that in society's views, yeah, sure, most women don't do that, but I guess 1.00

01:55:55.920 the reason that we're saying that, hey, yes, we are women and we enjoy making the first

01:56:00.260 move, we enjoy initiating, we enjoy doing the things that the man is traditionally

01:56:04.700 supposed to do, we're just saying that to give the people watching the personality

01:56:09.060 perspective that, like, life is not just a box that you choose to put yourself in.

01:56:13.460 Like, there are so many different things going on.

01:56:17.120 The exception does not make the rule.

01:56:19.820 The exception does not make the rule.

01:56:21.320 It is the exception when a woman initiates. 1.00

01:56:24.320 I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it is the exception.

01:56:27.800 I'm speaking in generalities here.

01:56:29.580 Now, Kazumi, you said that, well, maybe, you know, it just doesn't happen to you, Brian.

01:56:34.300 Well, first off, you are right.

01:56:36.560 It doesn't happen to me.

01:56:37.700 I would tell you this, though.

01:56:39.200 My looks equivalent, my, say, status equivalent, if a girl had my following and was my looks 0.91

01:56:46.040 equivalent, I'd give myself, well, we could do the rating later, but she's getting, like,

01:56:51.740 20 DMs a day from dudes.

01:56:53.960 I almost never get DMs.

01:56:55.940 And here's the thing.

01:56:57.360 Average women, average women will get DMs. 1.00

01:57:01.680 Average men will never in their life get a single DM from a girl. 0.51

01:57:05.700 If a girl does, in the rare instance that it happens, does approach a guy, she's going 1.00

01:57:11.320 to go for, like, the guy she really, really likes, whereas guys are going to shoot their

01:57:16.100 shot at, like, girls that are their equivalent or even girls that are, like, looks-wise below

01:57:22.200 them.

01:57:23.020 I think also women are socialized and not do the first move because they don't want to 1.00

01:57:27.100 seem slutty.

01:57:28.040 They don't want to seem easy. 0.99

01:57:29.140 They don't want the guy to be like, oh, is she thirsty?

01:57:31.480 Is she, like, desperate?

01:57:33.720 Like, why is she doing that? 0.99

01:57:34.760 You know, I'm a girl and I get rejected sometimes.

01:57:37.960 You know, like, I feel like the reason, there's many reasons why men don't get hit on as much

01:57:43.620 as women, but it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. 1.00

01:57:46.080 I think it comes off as confident rather than...

01:57:48.140 I want to continue with this conversation.

01:57:50.020 Can you do this, TTS?

01:57:51.200 When Brian is talking, like, saying in general, the average, he is talking about what is likely

01:57:56.240 and really realistic.

01:57:57.680 He isn't talking in absolutes at all.

01:57:59.580 You are still valid but aren't representative of all women. 1.00

01:58:02.240 All women aren't in your position. 1.00

01:58:03.740 Okay, Brian. 0.99

01:58:04.240 Dank naked. 0.83

01:58:04.440 Thank you for the $50 super chat.

01:58:05.680 Then how would you want me to approach the conversation since I can only talk about my

01:58:09.040 perspective?

01:58:10.720 But, okay, look, we can talk about...

01:58:12.840 Let me ask you a question.

01:58:14.840 How many fingers do humans have?

01:58:16.580 Ten.

01:58:16.880 Oh, my gosh.

01:58:17.880 This question again.

01:58:19.320 Listen.

01:58:20.200 Brian.

01:58:21.440 But, okay, humans have ten fingers, correct?

01:58:24.380 Humans generally have ten fingers, Brian.

01:58:26.000 Do some...

01:58:26.440 But we are talking about the human experience, right?

01:58:28.640 Yeah, yeah.

01:58:28.800 Hold on.

01:58:29.120 Which is nuanced.

01:58:29.880 No, no, no, no, hold on.

01:58:31.180 That's not...

01:58:31.700 But that's not the point I'm about to make.

01:58:33.620 Do some...

01:58:34.120 Are some humans born with an extra digit?

01:58:36.640 Sure.

01:58:37.180 Do some humans have 11 fingers?

01:58:39.280 Yes.

01:58:40.060 Okay.

01:58:40.560 But it's not incorrect to say that humans have ten fingers because generally speaking,

01:58:47.000 the vast majority of humans...

01:58:49.760 What would this podcast be if I just continually agreed with you?

01:58:52.640 There would be no podcast.

01:58:53.580 You don't have to agree with me.

01:58:55.220 Yeah, we're not agreeing.

01:58:56.700 So I am here to give you your counterpoint, which is my ultimately extremely different experience than yours.

01:59:02.500 But you're...

01:59:03.980 It's almost like you're not acknowledging the fact.

01:59:07.040 I do understand the fact.

01:59:08.680 I know you're talking about the general speaking public, but I'm saying that the general speaking public doesn't actually exist.

01:59:14.200 But see, you're not...

01:59:14.480 We live in a world on the internet which has several different micro-communities of people who believe a certain thing and live by different societal rules.

01:59:22.620 Okay, Kazumi, here's the thing, is that we don't actually disagree.

01:59:26.900 There are women that initiate. 1.00

01:59:29.060 We don't disagree, but it's sort of irrelevant because the point I'm trying to make is that men don't...

01:59:36.420 Like, they don't get approached.

01:59:37.740 They don't get initiated like that.

01:59:39.640 And you're trying to say, well, some women do, but that's really not... 1.00

01:59:43.560 That doesn't...

01:59:44.560 That really doesn't combat the point I'm trying to make.

01:59:47.380 Because I agree with you.

01:59:48.660 Some women do initiate. 1.00

01:59:50.540 Most women, however, don't. 1.00

01:59:52.020 So what do you want from this conversation?

01:59:54.960 Well, you can't...

01:59:56.060 If I say most women don't initiate, most women don't approach men, your counter to my argument cannot be, well, some women do. 0.78

02:00:03.880 Except it can be.

02:00:04.320 We don't disagree.

02:00:05.440 No, I'm saying...

02:00:06.660 It's not a counter to my argument.

02:00:08.060 I'm giving a different perspective to an experience that a lot of these men online think that they are trapped in, right?

02:00:15.020 A lot of these men do believe that what you're saying is an absolute...

02:00:18.380 Unfortunately, because they are worm-brained, okay?

02:00:20.980 A lot of them...

02:00:21.920 They're not warm.

02:00:22.720 It's not warm.

02:00:24.100 Yeah, they do think...

02:00:24.760 What specifically about what I said makes them worm-brained?

02:00:27.020 They think that you are speaking in absolute terms.

02:00:29.560 They don't understand that there are women like me who exist, right?

02:00:33.140 I have preempted almost all of my statements by saying in general.

02:00:39.140 And I have preempted most of my statements by saying my experience.

02:00:44.100 But you're saying I'm speaking in absolutes even though I've repeatedly said...

02:00:48.720 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:00:49.780 Don't interrupt, hold on.

02:00:50.720 Don't interrupt in chat.

02:00:52.000 Your chat is...

02:00:52.960 Your chat obviously thinks a lot of these things are absolutes.

02:00:56.240 They have not met women like me, so it's important for them to see women like me tell them my experience.

02:01:02.240 There are women that will hit on you. 1.00

02:01:03.880 There are women that don't care about your dick size, your height, your finances, or whatever. 1.00

02:01:07.720 Really, the best way to approach dating is just by being a good person. 0.99

02:01:11.340 Okay.

02:01:12.060 It's not wrong for someone in the chat to, for example, say women don't approach men. 0.80

02:01:19.520 Generally speaking, they don't.

02:01:21.540 And there's nothing wrong with me saying sometimes they do.

02:01:25.140 Right.

02:01:26.000 That's true.

02:01:26.720 So we're agreeing.

02:01:29.020 Yes, I agree with you.

02:01:30.860 I agree with you.

02:01:31.960 But it does not, it doesn't change the fact that for most men, they are invisible.

02:01:39.300 Most men never get approached.

02:01:40.780 They never get a DM in their entire life.

02:01:43.000 An average man will never get approached in his entire life.

02:01:47.520 He'll never get a DM in his entire life.

02:01:49.340 You cannot say the same about an average woman. 1.00

02:01:52.560 I think you, first of all, a lot of women don't get approached in real life. 0.82

02:01:57.740 We are pretending that all women look like us. 1.00

02:02:00.540 Okay.

02:02:00.780 There are a lot of women who are very unconventionally attractive. 1.00

02:02:04.280 There are women who aren't really cool or popular. 1.00

02:02:07.580 There are women who, and they don't get, and they don't. 1.00

02:02:11.120 Well, it depends on the setting.

02:02:12.420 If you go to a bar or nightclub, almost any woman's been approached in those venues. 1.00

02:02:17.260 Wrong.

02:02:17.760 Wrong.

02:02:18.120 How often do you go to bars or clubs?

02:02:20.400 Okay, so I turned.

02:02:21.340 You've never been hit on at a bar or club?

02:02:23.080 Absolutely not.

02:02:23.960 No, I really haven't.

02:02:24.840 No, I'm so serious.

02:02:25.740 I really haven't because I am a big girl, Brian.

02:02:30.240 I'm a big girl.

02:02:31.480 I'm tall.

02:02:31.900 Some guys like big girls.

02:02:33.400 No, and you're right.

02:02:35.080 Some guys, my boyfriend's certainly into big girls, and that's why we're together.

02:02:38.380 But I don't normally get approached in public.

02:02:41.800 And I also don't normally get approached meaningfully and truthfully in the DMs either.

02:02:48.120 Right?

02:02:48.840 Because, look, as a woman, I am tall.

02:02:51.660 I am big.

02:02:53.160 I also don't really consider myself conventionally attractive.

02:02:57.040 Perhaps that's the issue then.

02:02:58.940 Okay.

02:02:59.620 But, see, why can't that be the truth for men then? 0.95

02:03:03.080 If they're not getting approached because they have low confidence, then doesn't it make sense that they're obviously not going to attract anyone?

02:03:10.140 But besides the point, what I'm trying to say is, as a woman who, you know, is a human, has insecurities, is tall, and generally doesn't fit, like, the super attractive mold of what men are normally attracted to, it's very – I have been put in a position where I – it's the norm for me to initiate.

02:03:27.880 Because the majority of men don't initiate with me.

02:03:31.240 But that doesn't mean that there are going to be – there aren't going to be a few guys who do initiate with me because in, like, the recent times there have been.

02:03:41.140 But I, as a woman, don't normally get approached in outside areas, especially when I'm surrounded by women who are more conventionally attractive than me, shorter than me, skinnier than me.

02:03:53.960 That's just how it is.

02:03:55.080 But I don't – I don't let that fester in my brain and make it seem like, oh, I'm never going to find love, like, blah, blah, blah, whatever.

02:04:01.500 I need to make the change in myself to achieve what I want.

02:04:06.040 Okay, but do you – you are out there in the ether when it comes to social media, so you don't get any DMs?

02:04:13.140 I mean, you have an OnlyFans, I assume, your only – your patrons are – I don't know what the proper – your fans, I guess.

02:04:19.200 I don't know what the proper term is.

02:04:20.160 But I suspect that they have a romantic interest in you.

02:04:25.140 They DM – okay, well, first of all, people who DM me on social media don't normally DM me to have a meaningful connection with me.

02:04:31.800 They're like, oh, you got a Snapchat.

02:04:33.360 Oh, can you send me pictures?

02:04:34.800 Oh, can you send me videos?

02:04:35.740 Whatever.

02:04:36.200 So that's –

02:04:36.820 But most guys don't even get that.

02:04:38.740 Because – okay, in what position would a man be put in?

02:04:43.240 Or, like, what scenario would a man be in for a woman to approach him like that? 0.95

02:04:47.720 Because for me –

02:04:49.240 You're right, men don't get DMs, but go ahead. 0.56

02:04:51.020 She has an OnlyFans page, so of course they are.

02:04:53.260 I am personified as a sexual being, which is why men are okay DMing me, stuff like that.

02:04:58.680 Well, I thought you said you don't get DMs.

02:05:00.520 No, I told you I do have DMs, but a lot of them aren't for personal connections.

02:05:05.080 They're just like, you know –

02:05:06.340 They're romantically or sexually interested.

02:05:08.760 They're most of the time sexually interested.

02:05:11.140 Well, but that's kind of what we're talking about.

02:05:13.580 Yeah, but what I'm saying is, like, the only reason –

02:05:15.760 Men don't get any of that. 1.00

02:05:17.320 They don't get sexual.

02:05:18.260 They don't get romantic interest.

02:05:19.500 None of it.

02:05:20.480 Are they posting a lot?

02:05:21.740 Are they putting themselves out there?

02:05:22.900 What about the guys who do put themselves out there, like –

02:05:24.840 On social media?

02:05:25.760 Yeah, like the guy who chops wood, Bradley Thor.

02:05:28.340 His DMs are –

02:05:29.840 Wait, who?

02:05:30.620 Lit.

02:05:31.520 I'm sorry.

02:05:32.340 Who?

02:05:33.440 Who the hell is that guy?

02:05:38.680 Bradley Thor. 0.92

02:05:40.040 Is that a male model?

02:05:41.480 I don't know.

02:05:41.900 He's, like, a guy who is in the forest and he chops wood.

02:05:46.200 He's, like, very, like, I don't know, popular –

02:05:49.200 With women or with men? 0.91

02:05:50.460 In Instagram.

02:05:51.960 With women. 0.98

02:05:53.280 Probably with men, too. 1.00

02:05:54.440 Shit, I don't know. 1.00

02:05:55.240 Actually, I have a friend – 0.99

02:05:56.340 Okay, but –

02:05:56.960 I have a friend who's, like, a super muscular bodybuilder dude,

02:06:00.260 and his DMs are blown the fuck up by men and women. 0.73

02:06:05.820 Okay. 0.97

02:06:06.520 You said he's a body –

02:06:07.500 How many followers does he have?

02:06:09.440 I don't know.

02:06:10.440 Maybe, like –

02:06:11.520 I don't know.

02:06:12.220 I haven't even –

02:06:12.440 I haven't looked.

02:06:13.260 I don't –

02:06:13.880 I don't even –

02:06:15.240 I don't know.

02:06:15.920 Like, a lot, though.

02:06:17.260 Like, over –

02:06:17.520 More than 100,000.

02:06:18.920 I mean –

02:06:19.340 I think over 100,000, yeah.

02:06:20.580 Okay, a girl with, like, 1,000 followers is getting a lot of DMs on Instagram. 0.98

02:06:27.220 Sydney, how many followers on Instagram do you have?

02:06:30.580 1,700.

02:06:31.720 A little over that.

02:06:32.540 How many DMs per week would you say you get from men?

02:06:36.980 Unopened ones?

02:06:37.620 I have, like, 35 right now.

02:06:39.800 Like, in the requests.

02:06:40.900 That you received in the past week?

02:06:43.580 Like, in the past week, I've gotten, like, five.

02:06:48.580 Five DMs.

02:06:49.340 Yeah, and some of them are from, like, your show.

02:06:52.900 Yeah, but you haven't been on the show in months.

02:06:54.540 I know.

02:06:55.000 So, it's like, okay, some of them are from the show.

02:06:57.520 How about before you were on my show?

02:06:59.060 Were you getting DMs?

02:07:00.900 Before you ever were on my show, were you getting DMs from men?

02:07:03.460 Yeah.

02:07:03.780 You have 1,700 followers?

02:07:05.240 Yeah.

02:07:05.600 Okay.

02:07:06.220 How many per week were you getting?

02:07:09.480 Like, three or four.

02:07:10.880 Do you have any siblings, male brothers?

02:07:13.260 Yeah.

02:07:13.780 Older or younger?

02:07:14.580 Younger.

02:07:15.340 How young?

02:07:15.980 12.

02:07:16.900 Okay.

02:07:17.480 I'm not going to, I'm, there's no DMs there, but okay.

02:07:20.820 So, okay.

02:07:24.160 Your male counterpart, let's say, goes to City College, no girls are DMing him.

02:07:32.620 No girls are, you're how old, 20? 0.99

02:07:35.020 I'm 22.

02:07:35.660 You're 22.

02:07:36.560 No 22-year-olds at Santa Barbara City College, no males, are getting DMs.

02:07:41.300 Hmm.

02:07:42.380 Maybe some of the football players might, might be getting DMs, but even then, SBC, what 0.97

02:07:47.960 is it, like D3 or some shit? 0.97

02:07:50.260 Of going to school? 0.97

02:07:51.620 Well, SBCC, the football team, what is it, D3?

02:07:54.440 Oh, they're D, yeah, D3.

02:07:56.520 They're D3.

02:07:57.120 Okay, yeah, no, no chicks care. 1.00

02:07:59.020 D3.

02:08:00.100 No, and honestly though, like, I do think, and like, I see it from both point of views

02:08:05.920 too, because like, I have like, both, like, friends, like some of my best friends are guys,

02:08:10.120 but like, I do see it, guys do not get DMed.

02:08:12.620 They don't.

02:08:13.120 They don't get DMed.

02:08:14.100 They don't, I will say that, like, I.

02:08:15.380 Generally speaking.

02:08:16.280 Yeah, they, genuinely, yes.

02:08:17.780 And I DM the guys though too, like, I've been like, debating DMing me like this one. 0.96

02:08:22.660 The guys you do DM are like, they're really fucking hot. 0.83

02:08:26.440 Yeah, yeah. 0.95

02:08:27.580 Dudes will. 0.95

02:08:28.460 He's so pretty.

02:08:29.520 A guy could DM a girl that is like, less attractive than her and still get blanked, still just invisible.

02:08:37.080 So like, anyways, I do want to get through the soup chats because we have quite a few guys.

02:08:42.340 So let's continue on here.

02:08:44.960 Okay, so we have Louis Brito, 20 Law Soup Chat, question for the panel, what constitutes

02:08:50.640 a bum at what yearly income bracket?

02:08:52.660 You'd be okay with dating a guy, even if you work six days a week and makes under, it

02:08:57.220 sounds like from our earlier conversations, most of the girls seemed okay.

02:09:00.900 It didn't really care too much about income, but if you, any of you want to.

02:09:04.600 I mean, a bum is like a mindset, you know what I mean? 1.00

02:09:07.420 Like, it's like, I've met guys who are trust fund babies and I think they're bums. 0.99

02:09:11.840 And it's like, they live in giant penthouses and it's like, you just don't.

02:09:14.960 No ambition is a bum.

02:09:16.000 No ambition.

02:09:16.900 There's no passion.

02:09:18.060 Like, I was going to like roast my brother, but it's like, he has no job, bro. 0.99

02:09:22.440 It's like, bro, you are a bum. 0.98

02:09:24.120 Like, please figure out something that makes you feel alive. 0.98

02:09:27.000 What's that?

02:09:27.240 All I can think about is no scrubs.

02:09:28.960 Yeah, I was thinking the same thing, no scrubs, no scrubs.

02:09:31.620 And it's like, I've dated guys who, you know, like I dated this guy and he's like a construction 0.98

02:09:36.740 worker, right?

02:09:37.400 And he works so much and obviously I make more, but he's cool.

02:09:41.000 And it's like, he likes what he does and that's interesting.

02:09:43.800 And that creates a cool dynamic with us.

02:09:46.180 So it's, yeah, it's more so a mindset than like an income thing.

02:09:49.800 I don't really care if you're a blue collar or like an entrepreneur as long, or whatever 0.88

02:09:53.520 the fuck, as long as you really like what you're doing or, or not even like, like what 0.98

02:09:57.520 you're doing. 1.00

02:09:57.840 You're just doing something.

02:09:59.080 Sure.

02:09:59.860 Um, I do have a, we're going to continue on with the super chats here in just a sec.

02:10:04.980 Um, really quick question though.

02:10:07.060 I want to start with you, Sydney.

02:10:10.060 Hold on.

02:10:10.580 Let me see if I, okay.

02:10:11.280 Um, would it be a deal breaker if a guy had trouble getting it up?

02:10:17.400 Sydney, go ahead.

02:10:18.660 Continuously.

02:10:19.440 Like this was an every time problem.

02:10:21.580 Maybe not every time, but it was a continuous issue.

02:10:25.440 Yeah.

02:10:27.340 Yeah.

02:10:28.580 A little bit.

02:10:29.360 Just because like, I think at that point, like I would get either like self-conscious,

02:10:34.200 but I would also be like, what's the deal?

02:10:36.900 Like, why is this in every, like, if it's like a situation that never changes and he

02:10:41.260 won't go like, see someone about it or do something about it?

02:10:44.580 Yeah.

02:10:44.740 A little bit.

02:10:45.660 And I mean, that relationship's not totally based off of sex, but yeah.

02:10:47.980 If, if it happens the first time is a wrap or will you give him?

02:10:51.440 No, I would give it another opportunity or two.

02:10:54.000 Okay.

02:10:54.600 First time's not a wrap for me though.

02:10:56.200 Nika, go ahead. 0.64

02:10:57.140 Um, so it would be an issue, but it would be an issue that I would look to like get help,

02:11:01.840 you know, maybe like intimacy counseling or, you know, like talking about other factors

02:11:07.120 like stress, what might be going on.

02:11:09.280 Um, if he couldn't get it up the first time, I would also definitely give him another chance.

02:11:13.460 It wouldn't be like immediate, just the first time.

02:11:16.400 Like it happens.

02:11:17.480 People get nervous.

02:11:18.480 Like I know that a lot, like I know a lot of the time it is mental for guys and a lot

02:11:24.020 of, you know, the guy friends that I have had who have talked to me about it are like,

02:11:27.200 yeah, you know, like I was just really stressed out and like, I was really nervous and blah,

02:11:30.820 blah, blah.

02:11:31.000 Like it happens and it's a normal part of life.

02:11:33.060 Sure.

02:11:33.420 Take a blue chew.

02:11:34.080 Oh, there you go.

02:11:38.260 That's what I was going to say.

02:11:39.360 There's my advertisement.

02:11:40.880 Here we go.

02:11:41.280 Say it again.

02:11:43.540 Uh, what about you?

02:11:45.180 Is it a deal breaker?

02:11:46.460 Yeah.

02:11:46.820 If it was like a continuous thing.

02:11:48.980 Well, let's, let me break up the question.

02:11:51.240 So the first time, is it a deal breaker?

02:11:53.960 And then, okay.

02:11:55.860 Cause that, well, I'll let everyone answer, but, um, but if it was kind of like continuous.

02:12:00.440 I mean, I would obviously talk to them about it.

02:12:04.120 And also there are definitely factors that come into play as far as maybe they're watching

02:12:09.640 too much porn, porn. 0.92

02:12:11.860 Maybe they're, maybe they are, um, low in testosterone. 0.99

02:12:16.760 Like their hormones are imbalanced.

02:12:18.620 Maybe they're super stressed out.

02:12:20.160 Like maybe they're just not that into you.

02:12:24.740 Cause I have personal experience.

02:12:26.700 I once dated a guy and I really, really liked him.

02:12:28.960 And the first time it didn't work.

02:12:30.720 And the second time it didn't work.

02:12:32.360 And there was just many, many times and it didn't work, but I really liked him.

02:12:36.300 And I just, I just really liked him, man.

02:12:40.120 Like, I just kind of was like, we really like, just like got to the root of the problem.

02:12:44.680 And it was about like, just making him feel comfortable.

02:12:47.200 I feel like some guys get intimidated with me sexually.

02:12:49.420 So they're just like, oh my God.

02:12:51.460 Um, so we just had like more conversations about it.

02:12:54.040 So it was just because I really liked him.

02:12:56.280 Like, and I wanted to date this guy, but if it was like just a hookup.

02:13:00.260 Okay.

02:13:00.640 The second time.

02:13:01.440 Okay.

02:13:01.720 We can't, I don't know if we can do this, but if I really, really liked you, then we'll

02:13:04.700 work through whatever.

02:13:05.540 Like, it's not that big of a deal.

02:13:07.460 Sure.

02:13:07.680 But if you were kind of lukewarm on the guy, you didn't dislike him, but it wasn't like

02:13:11.140 that connection you had with that one guy.

02:13:13.600 Do you think that, uh, I think Eric had this, it was like, if he was creative sexually in 1.00

02:13:20.280 different ways, like, okay, like a big thing I told him was like, okay, if your dick can't 0.98

02:13:24.060 get hard and we're both naked and we're turned on, we have to keep like this sexual energy 0.98

02:13:28.420 flowing through different types of foreplay or just making sure we're still both like interested

02:13:34.040 in doing this.

02:13:34.720 Like if, if you kind of are like, I'm not hard, like this whole thing is over, we're

02:13:38.680 not even going to try to turn you on. 1.00

02:13:40.280 Then dude, what the fuck? 0.99

02:13:41.640 Like, let's move on and do something else. 0.99

02:13:45.320 Guys.

02:13:47.640 Get blue chew.

02:13:48.980 Get blue chew.

02:13:49.700 Okay.

02:13:50.120 Um, cool.

02:13:51.320 Cool.

02:13:51.460 Cool.

02:13:51.640 So do you need a, do you need like a, a pharmacist to say you could buy it or you could just

02:13:56.520 buy it?

02:13:56.920 Um, you, you need to, uh, it's like a doctor, it's like, it's all, it's just like online

02:14:03.460 and then the doctor can do like a tele visit or whatever.

02:14:06.060 I think it's like hymns and hers.

02:14:07.360 And then they, they ship it to you.

02:14:08.640 They ship it to you.

02:14:09.320 So, uh, yeah.

02:14:11.120 Cool.

02:14:11.400 Cool.

02:14:11.540 Cool.

02:14:11.840 Um, let's get back to the super chats.

02:14:14.500 Uh, can, wait, do we, Kazumi, do you want to read this?

02:14:18.180 Mikayla and Thick knees. 0.99

02:14:19.640 You're on the right track.

02:14:21.180 Men don't care about how much you make. 1.00

02:14:22.760 Oh, F girls. 1.00

02:14:23.380 Are your fodders proud of you? 0.60

02:14:24.780 Yeah.

02:14:24.940 He's retired.

02:14:25.600 What about yours?

02:14:26.320 Did you retire your dad? 1.00

02:14:28.320 Yeah, bitch. 1.00

02:14:28.940 Oh, snap. 1.00

02:14:29.700 Frankie K.

02:14:31.300 Frankie K.

02:14:33.340 All right.

02:14:33.700 By the way, sorry for the delay to getting into these super chats.

02:14:35.640 Dude, Beauty and Cheeks is like losing his mind over me. 0.98

02:14:39.380 Dude, are you jerking off to this? 0.99

02:14:41.680 I do decent in life and would rather date a Walmart beauty over, a Walmart beauty over 0.99

02:14:47.840 and only homies ran through girl. 1.00

02:14:50.100 Women date on their level or up. 1.00

02:14:52.120 Men date down and above. 0.60

02:14:53.600 So that's both directions.

02:14:55.520 Brian can explain the 80-20 rule.

02:14:58.020 Fick knee and workout girl. 0.99

02:14:59.360 I got you.

02:15:00.560 Are you workout?

02:15:01.600 Am I also workout girl?

02:15:02.840 No, she's workout girl. 1.00

02:15:04.320 I'm a workout girl.

02:15:05.380 Well, she has a name. 0.95

02:15:06.880 You got it.

02:15:07.180 And her name is Mikayla.

02:15:09.820 High value men know if I'm making money, it's our money.

02:15:12.940 If you are making money, it's your money.

02:15:14.960 Okay, Derek. 0.99

02:15:16.280 Go crazy. 0.99

02:15:17.900 By the way, look at, he's got like a sick beard. 0.97

02:15:21.940 He's got like, is it a goatee or a beard?

02:15:23.740 I can't tell.

02:15:24.160 I love gingers.

02:15:25.040 It's a, yeah.

02:15:26.480 Yo, Derek.

02:15:27.080 Thank you, man.

02:15:27.500 Appreciate it.

02:15:28.340 Go crazy, Derek. 0.98

02:15:29.040 Shoot me a DM later, Derek. 1.00

02:15:31.360 Yo.

02:15:32.200 Oh, this came through.

02:15:34.120 Did this come through as a-

02:15:35.260 Yeah, we said this already.

02:15:36.100 Okay, okay, okay.

02:15:36.980 And I was like, it's your right, Jacob, to date whoever you want.

02:15:41.760 Bernito.

02:15:42.640 I'm going to be honest.

02:15:43.500 I think that OF girls are out of touch with financial differences between men and women 0.98

02:15:48.100 because their paychecks are exponentially greater than most men's pay with little to

02:15:51.960 no effort.

02:15:52.820 Little to no effort? 1.00

02:15:53.720 Take a dick up your ass, bro. 1.00

02:15:55.060 See how easy it is. 1.00

02:15:56.080 Ah!

02:15:56.520 Ah!

02:16:00.780 Okay.

02:16:01.460 Bernito, thank you for the super chat.

02:16:03.240 Do it.

02:16:03.480 Do it.

02:16:03.560 There's a reason a lot of girls don't do it. 1.00

02:16:06.000 The social stigma's hard.

02:16:07.360 There's also a lot of reasons why girls drop it after like a month or three. 1.00

02:16:11.120 Like, it really is not as easy as people make it seem.

02:16:13.680 And it's so annoying.

02:16:15.240 Yeah, most girls read these chats and this would break them, dude. 1.00

02:16:19.420 You gotta have thick skin.

02:16:21.280 Yeah, I don't give a fart, bro.

02:16:22.640 Yeah, you do.

02:16:23.420 It's like if, like, the average girl who tries, like, the reason- 0.81

02:16:27.240 Use frick.

02:16:28.120 Do frick, by the way. 0.97

02:16:29.120 Farts come out. 0.98

02:16:29.580 Dude, but the fart is so funny. 0.87

02:16:31.000 Eh, frick is funny.

02:16:31.780 You don't like it? 0.97

02:16:32.440 Frick is better.

02:16:32.780 I mean, you can say the F word.

02:16:34.060 Yeah, I don't like swearing.

02:16:35.500 It's scary.

02:16:36.260 Okay, that's fine.

02:16:37.240 All right, we got this one.

02:16:39.940 We already said this.

02:16:41.440 Alvin, thank you, man.

02:16:42.240 Appreciate it.

02:16:42.760 Go ahead.

02:16:43.040 Oh, Derek again.

02:16:44.460 Hell, I just hope you are wearing a jimmy for this conversation.

02:16:48.260 No problem on the support, brother.

02:16:49.580 Oh, he just tipped again.

02:16:51.120 I just don't understand what these girls think a high-value man would run for them. 0.99

02:16:54.880 What is your valuable asset?

02:16:56.900 I'm fun.

02:16:58.820 You're fun.

02:16:59.740 My valuable asset is that I just wouldn't-

02:17:03.340 I don't really know what his angle is.

02:17:05.260 You wouldn't date him?

02:17:05.940 Is that what you're going to say?

02:17:07.500 I mean, I don't really-

02:17:08.420 I don't think I would date him, but it wouldn't be because of anything.

02:17:11.300 I just-

02:17:11.620 Okay.

02:17:11.880 Honestly, anyone, any guy who labels himself as a high-value man is not someone-

02:17:16.700 I'm not looking your way, bro.

02:17:18.020 Yeah, go touch some grass.

02:17:19.460 What you got, Kazumi?

02:17:21.140 To the panel.

02:17:21.800 Do you think you would make a good wife to a high-value man? 0.99

02:17:24.360 There it is.

02:17:24.980 So why?

02:17:25.720 There it is.

02:17:26.020 I don't know what you mean by high-value man.

02:17:28.300 Like, are we talking in the actual term, like a guy who's just a really cool dude?

02:17:32.840 Then, yeah.

02:17:33.480 I probably am and will be.

02:17:35.940 If you mean high-value man the way this guy's probably thinking about a high-value man.

02:17:39.580 Here, just disregard the high-value man component.

02:17:42.120 Would I be a good wife?

02:17:42.780 Do you think you would be a good wife?

02:17:44.120 Yeah.

02:17:44.620 I'm not, like, why not?

02:17:46.740 Okay.

02:17:47.020 I'm going to be an amazing wife.

02:17:50.180 Yeah.

02:17:51.400 Absolutely.

02:17:52.160 Freaking Lully.

02:17:53.840 Yes.

02:17:54.700 Okay.

02:17:55.060 So all of you said you'd be a good wife.

02:17:56.700 So my question is, what do you bring to the table?

02:18:02.760 Why'd you say it?

02:18:03.620 Why'd you bring? 1.00

02:18:05.080 Were you like, fuck? 1.00

02:18:07.180 God, this question. 1.00

02:18:08.860 What?

02:18:09.660 Are we starting from here?

02:18:10.880 Are we starting from here?

02:18:11.040 Go ahead.

02:18:11.580 Sydney, you first. 1.00

02:18:12.700 Goddamn. 0.99

02:18:14.040 I don't know. 0.99

02:18:14.560 I'm very supportive.

02:18:15.220 I have, like, my love language is definitely, like, I think my love language, like, covers

02:18:19.940 all bases, and I'm just, like, I know that I'll be a good partner.

02:18:23.640 Like, I know that I'll be able to take care of my spouse, and I know that I'll be able

02:18:27.100 to support them and be there for them no matter what, but, like, right now in this time in

02:18:31.400 my life, like, I'm just doing me right now.

02:18:33.240 Okay.

02:18:35.120 Your turn.

02:18:36.040 I bring a super fun life, truthfully, right?

02:18:39.940 I bring really fun experiences.

02:18:42.100 I bring an open mind.

02:18:43.200 I bring a, like, a new perspective.

02:18:46.120 I also bring, like, and when I say fun, that also means money.

02:18:49.480 Like, I'm willing to pay, more than willing to pay for fun experiences, you, dinners, trips,

02:18:54.600 whatever.

02:18:56.200 I'm also very supportive, and I will, you know, definitely support you and my husband if he

02:19:01.300 decides to try this, that, whatever.

02:19:04.040 Yeah.

02:19:04.440 And I, yes, also, no, it's awesome.

02:19:08.820 No, this is, go ahead, go ahead.

02:19:11.840 And truthfully, I bring a very fun aspect.

02:19:17.460 When I say fun in all aspects of life, I also definitely mean, like, the bedroom, because 0.99

02:19:21.480 that shit gets crazy. 0.96

02:19:22.960 What do you bring to the table? 1.00

02:19:30.580 Open-mindedness, honest, loyalty, support, like, good support system.

02:19:37.060 I feel like that's very important in a relationship.

02:19:39.980 Just being there for that person and, like, having their back no matter what.

02:19:44.140 Like, putting them first, like, making our relationship a priority no matter, no matter

02:19:49.800 what.

02:19:52.240 Making the relationship the priority?

02:19:54.320 Mm-hmm.

02:19:54.780 But I thought, didn't earlier, I don't know if these two things necessarily contradict.

02:20:00.560 Earlier, you said that you're, you were independent.

02:20:04.380 Yeah.

02:20:05.260 And so, do you think that you're, you said you want to continue working when you get married

02:20:10.180 and have kids and stuff.

02:20:11.100 Do you think that that could potentially come at the expense of the relationship and the

02:20:16.940 family?

02:20:17.080 I would never be with a man who, like, it was a make-or-break deal where I had to be a

02:20:22.140 stay-at-home mom or I wasn't allowed to have my own income. 0.99

02:20:25.120 What, let me ask you a question.

02:20:26.320 What if a guy made a million bucks, a million dollars, and he could support you, but he said,

02:20:31.620 I don't want you to work?

02:20:34.280 It would drive me crazy.

02:20:36.500 Like, I wouldn't be happy in that relationship.

02:20:38.400 Well, what if he said, I want you to just take care of the kids, I want you to just

02:20:43.320 be the caretaker for the children.

02:20:44.240 And I'm not allowed to do anything else?

02:20:46.020 Well, no.

02:20:46.440 I mean, if you want to go to the gym, stay fit, you know, do those things.

02:20:48.960 Well, no, what I'm saying is, like, I'm not allowed to do anything else as far as creating

02:20:52.240 an income for myself.

02:20:54.000 Well, I mean, if you're married, you guys share.

02:20:56.460 And it's like a big background.

02:20:57.780 Like, it's scary for women not to have something where, like, if it comes time for us to need 1.00

02:21:02.020 to leave, we don't have an exit route.

02:21:04.120 We don't have anything of our own.

02:21:06.220 So, like...

02:21:06.940 Which is so sad that we even have to think about that.

02:21:09.240 It is.

02:21:09.680 But it is.

02:21:10.340 Like, she wants to make her own money. 0.99

02:21:12.660 Don't let me speak for you.

02:21:13.700 But, like...

02:21:13.820 That's not the only reason why I want to make my own money.

02:21:16.720 It's just because I want to have something that's my own.

02:21:19.060 Right.

02:21:19.240 Because I don't want to just be a mom.

02:21:21.180 Like, I want to have my own and keep my own identity.

02:21:23.740 Well, just curious.

02:21:25.860 So, you're going to have...

02:21:27.280 You want to have three kids.

02:21:29.320 Would you...

02:21:30.200 Would you want to hire a...

02:21:34.740 Like, send them to childcare?

02:21:37.980 Or would you take care of the kids?

02:21:41.860 I would take care of the kids.

02:21:43.100 I don't want to send them to childcare.

02:21:45.680 Maybe I'll have, like, a nanny.

02:21:46.860 That'd be cool.

02:21:47.640 Okay.

02:21:48.000 But, if I work with the stuff that I do, it'd probably be from home.

02:21:55.080 So...

02:21:55.480 Okay.

02:21:55.980 Or anywhere.

02:21:57.600 Okay.

02:21:58.100 That's, like, the goal.

02:21:58.660 But, so, you marry a guy who makes a million bucks, but he says, hey, I want... 0.96

02:22:01.700 Don't worry about work.

02:22:02.540 I got it.

02:22:03.520 I got this.

02:22:04.780 You don't have to work.

02:22:06.800 That's what I'm saying.

02:22:07.500 That'd be nice.

02:22:08.360 But, like, I'm still going to work.

02:22:09.960 Like, thank you.

02:22:10.580 I appreciate that.

02:22:11.220 But, like, I'm still going to have my own thing.

02:22:12.940 So, what...

02:22:13.540 I mean...

02:22:13.940 But then, if your husband says, well, I'd rather you focus on the kids.

02:22:18.000 We don't care about your Etsy shop.

02:22:20.700 That would be a conversation that we would have before we even, like, made the relationship.

02:22:25.960 Sure.

02:22:27.080 And, it's totally fine that you feel that way.

02:22:28.980 Go ahead, Kazumi.

02:22:30.060 The initial question was...

02:22:31.960 What do you bring to the table?

02:22:32.840 What do I bring to the table?

02:22:33.820 I feel like, first and foremost, with all of my relationships, is I'm just a great friend.

02:22:38.740 You know, I show up.

02:22:39.780 I listen.

02:22:41.100 You know, I provide.

02:22:43.580 I just...

02:22:44.480 You know, I care about your happiness.

02:22:46.620 And, I make sure I communicate things. 0.95

02:22:48.600 Obviously, I'm a hard person to date because I do porn.

02:22:52.140 And, I'm always going to be about ethical non-monogamy.

02:22:55.500 But, I feel like I'm exciting.

02:22:57.180 I feel like I bring a lot of, like, fun to the table.

02:23:00.560 And, not only that, it's like, I'm a reliable person.

02:23:03.800 And, I feel like I also have a lot of hobbies.

02:23:06.440 Like, I'm very talented. 0.99

02:23:07.280 Like, I can actually do, like, wifey shit. 1.00

02:23:10.540 Like, cook and clean and do shit like that. 1.00

02:23:12.260 I want a cooking show. 0.99

02:23:13.440 I want 10K.

02:23:14.620 Random.

02:23:15.740 Right?

02:23:16.160 But, that's irrelevant to the fact that what I bring to the table is that, like, if I want

02:23:21.600 to be with you, I want to be with you.

02:23:24.320 And, I like...

02:23:25.340 I'm a big simp.

02:23:26.540 Like, I love romance.

02:23:27.540 I love to do things for my partner.

02:23:29.260 Like, with my partner, I surprise him with roses.

02:23:32.660 You know, I'll surprise him with a dinner.

02:23:34.260 Like, you know, if there's an anniversary, then he always knows when he opens a hotel

02:23:38.080 room, there's rose petals everywhere.

02:23:39.960 You know, I make sure the guy feels validated and special.

02:23:42.640 And, I'm not shy to tell him, like, I think you look so handsome.

02:23:45.580 I think you look great.

02:23:46.820 And, I will show him with my words, my body, and, like, my actions.

02:23:51.260 So, I feel like I do bring a lot to the table in that regard.

02:23:54.440 When I am in a relationship.

02:23:56.240 Got it.

02:23:56.860 Do you want to read this?

02:23:58.200 The two corn on the cob, that's funny, need to come down from their cloud of financial

02:24:03.140 independence and expensive lifestyle delusion in order to have a real conversation.

02:24:07.460 You're the exception, and you can't seem to grasp that.

02:24:09.660 I do not have an expensive lifestyle, bro. 1.00

02:24:11.760 You're crazy. 0.93

02:24:12.980 I do not make the amount of money that she makes, okay? 0.94

02:24:16.220 Just because I'm an OF girl does not mean I'm living in some, like, luxury penthouse, 0.98

02:24:21.720 eating fucking crab every night. 0.98

02:24:23.480 Like, that's not how that goes. 0.99

02:24:24.820 I also feel like, I mean, it's not like I'm, like, a big baller spender for the most

02:24:31.040 part.

02:24:31.280 I save my, I'm, like, not an, I make a lot of money, but a lot of it is saved immediately

02:24:35.640 into my retirement and investments, and I live a pretty normal, humble lifestyle.

02:24:39.880 So, it's like, I mean, I'm just talking realistically.

02:24:43.380 In a perfect world, and luckily in the world I live in, the choices I make are because I want

02:24:48.060 to do them and not based off of survival or convenience.

02:24:50.180 She's so quick to defend her reality, but will instantly attack and try to disapprove 0.99

02:24:55.320 the experiences of most men.

02:24:56.880 Why can't you accept that a lot of men have it hard in the dating market? 0.79

02:24:59.580 Sad face.

02:25:00.640 Bro, because as soon as you wake up from the fact that a lot of your preconceived notions

02:25:06.600 about what women want are self, are enabled by yourself and your own experiences and decisions 0.97

02:25:13.300 to decide that that's how you think relationships are, the freer you'll become.

02:25:17.220 As Yaya said, you know, life for her is hard, is, dating for her is harder because she may 0.97

02:25:22.800 not seem or feel like the most conventionally attractive woman, but if she, like, lived in

02:25:26.520 that prison for herself, she wouldn't get anything done. 0.95

02:25:29.540 She wouldn't be in a relationship, and it would be hard, but because she takes the courage

02:25:33.300 to put herself out there and not live in these, like, restrictions where she feels like

02:25:37.180 people wouldn't want to date her because of her weight or because of her interest, she's 1.00

02:25:40.640 able to take a chance and take a leap and take a risk to meet people who would want what

02:25:45.900 she is. 0.98

02:25:47.120 And if men would realize, like, hey, if you didn't give a fuck about as much as these 0.99

02:25:53.080 insecurities that we tell you time and time again that we don't really care about, you 0.98

02:25:56.980 would realize that it's not that hard.

02:25:58.920 I used to have a sugar daddy, and he was really cool.

02:26:03.820 He was 27.

02:26:05.260 He made video games, and all we would do is eat sugarfish and have the laziest backshots

02:26:11.300 in the world.

02:26:11.900 There was no issue with him.

02:26:13.520 The only issue was that he was short, but the real underlying issue was that he just 0.97

02:26:20.080 wouldn't shut the fuck up about how he was short and how women wouldn't want to date 0.97

02:26:23.840 him because he was short. 0.96

02:26:24.820 And I was like, dude, honestly, women don't want to date you because you were just so loudly

02:26:29.820 insecure.

02:26:30.320 And once you work on this insecure part of yourself and just kind of, like, just show

02:26:35.520 up and be a cool guy the way I know you're a cool guy, trust me, a woman would just date 0.99

02:26:40.600 you, you know? 0.99

02:26:41.780 Like, it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy of, like, oh, I suck. 0.92

02:26:44.720 I have to work up, like, make up for it in some weird way. 0.89

02:26:47.800 And women can tell when you feel insecure, and then it is a turnoff because the sexiest

02:26:52.280 part of you is being confident and, like, working on yourself and your self-esteem.

02:26:56.240 Yeah, but if a guy is confident, but he doesn't meet a woman's metrics of what she desires 0.99

02:27:03.080 in terms of physical attractiveness, one of which is height, it doesn't matter how confident,

02:27:08.660 but it doesn't matter how confident he is.

02:27:10.800 You got rejected.

02:27:11.900 It happens.

02:27:12.680 You're a person.

02:27:13.400 But, okay, if a guy is 5'2", if a guy is 5'2", and he's super confident, it's not like

02:27:23.240 he's going to struggle with dating despite his confidence.

02:27:28.360 I, well, okay, well, I'm still his friend, you know?

02:27:30.980 And now he is still short because he, I don't know, height surgery hasn't existed to make

02:27:36.260 you six feet tall yet.

02:27:37.200 Don't do height surgery, guys.

02:27:39.080 And now he gets girls.

02:27:41.440 He always had an income that was cool, obviously, because he was my sugar daddy.

02:27:45.180 The only thing that really changed is that he became more confident to talk to women,

02:27:49.320 and he, like, worked on that part of his self-esteem.

02:27:52.900 And that's what I'm just saying is, like, a lot of these small things, small factors aren't

02:27:58.200 as big of a deal-breaker as most men think as long as you are just happy with yourself.

02:28:03.540 I mean, most short guys would have no issue dating a woman taller than them, but the reality

02:28:09.740 is is that they can be as confident as possible, but for some women, it's just, hey, that's 0.99

02:28:16.760 kind of a deal-breaker for them if the guy is shorter.

02:28:18.780 Yeah, exactly.

02:28:20.040 Yeah, for some women, it is a deal-breaker. 1.00

02:28:21.800 Probably most women. 1.00

02:28:22.760 That doesn't mean all women. 0.98

02:28:24.060 It's most women. 1.00

02:28:24.680 Most women, it would be a deal-breaker. 1.00

02:28:26.000 Because now he's happy, and he's dating women that are tall, and they're just, it doesn't

02:28:30.480 matter.

02:28:30.900 It's not that big of a deal once you just escape that mindset.

02:28:34.420 Dava, thank you for the Canadian $20 soup chat.

02:28:36.800 Appreciate it, man.

02:28:38.220 Go for it, Kazumi.

02:28:39.740 You are, who is Nora?

02:28:41.180 You are out of touch.

02:28:42.340 Look into Nora Vincent, the lesbian who became a man, not through surgery, for 18 months and

02:28:46.940 only recently unalive herself.

02:28:48.880 I don't really get the reference.

02:28:50.140 Eric, can you open the door a little bit, too?

02:28:51.560 So there's a woman who turned herself into a man and lived as a man, and as a man would 0.93

02:28:58.260 for 18 months.

02:29:00.240 And then she deleted herself.

02:29:02.160 To basically run an experiment on how different it is for men and women in this society.

02:29:11.760 Well, she was a feminist, and she wanted to go in and basically point out, here, I'm 1.00

02:29:16.680 living as a man, here, watch all these privileges and benefits fall into my lap, and then she 1.00

02:29:22.280 realized how brutally and crippling, crippling, I'm butchering this, how brutally lonely it

02:29:27.840 is to be a man, and actually how difficult it is to be a man.

02:29:31.100 And then she kind of, well, then later on, it's not clear to me if it's, this is why she

02:29:37.180 deleted herself, but she did delete herself, so.

02:29:40.460 Yeah, I would just need to know more context about that situation.

02:29:43.120 But, uh, yeah, basically she was like, whoa, this is like the way I'm getting treated as

02:29:48.060 a man, like I'm getting all this stuff, I'm super lonely, blah, blah, blah, so, um, go

02:29:53.620 ahead, Kazumi.

02:29:54.660 Bruh, Kazumi, if women were really approaching men, you would not be making 300k a month.

02:29:59.420 Men pay because they don't get any. 1.00

02:30:01.140 That's a very good point, actually.

02:30:02.440 What does that mean?

02:30:03.500 Well.

02:30:04.000 I, what?

02:30:04.840 In, in terms of men having it harder for dating, these industries, specifically, specifically

02:30:10.680 sex work, would not be generating the sort of money that it is if men were getting women. 0.96

02:30:17.780 I, do you think, I, first of all, I don't think only single men are in my, are in my

02:30:21.620 OnlyFans, you know what I mean?

02:30:22.980 No, there's definitely guys who have girlfriends and are, I don't, that's, that just doesn't

02:30:27.140 make any sense to me.

02:30:28.420 Also, I've totally been with, and I've also hung out with my fans, I have a discord to follow 0.96

02:30:33.400 my fans, some of them have girlfriends, some of them do get pussy, they also just happen 0.98

02:30:37.720 to support a creator, like, I think, I'm pretty sure most men watch porn, you know, the fact 0.99

02:30:43.980 that they are, they have the kindness to support a local hoe and, like, pay, pay for, pay for 1.00

02:30:49.960 my homegrown porn, doesn't mean that they get no bitches. 1.00

02:30:53.660 Let me, can I ask you guys a question, um, do more men watch porn than do women watch porn, 0.99

02:30:59.860 generally speaking?

02:31:00.920 I have no idea.

02:31:02.900 Yes. 0.97

02:31:03.880 I feel like I watch a lot of porn.

02:31:06.380 I think so, just because, like, I don't want to agree with you, but like you said, like, 0.97

02:31:11.740 it's easier for women to get sex than for men to have sex, and so I think, like, for men 0.96

02:31:20.440 to watch porn, that's kind of, like, their way of, like, you know, but I mean, women totally 1.00

02:31:25.700 watch it too.

02:31:26.660 I don't think porn is a supplement of human connection.

02:31:29.420 It's not at all, but I think it's definitely, like.

02:31:31.700 Like, I've definitely talked to guys who are athletes and, like, musicians and they're

02:31:36.520 cool guys and they still watch porn just because they want to get off.

02:31:39.740 Yeah. 0.56

02:31:39.820 It's not like they can't call a woman. 0.99

02:31:42.040 It's just, like, I just want to watch some porn. 0.85

02:31:44.300 More convenient sometimes. 0.70

02:31:44.600 I don't think them watch, yeah, of course, I definitely feel like men watch porn more 0.69

02:31:50.820 than women, and that's also, but I don't know, I guess. 0.70

02:31:54.700 Do you think men that are getting laid regularly watch more or less porn than men that don't

02:31:59.280 get laid at all?

02:31:59.940 I think if you're a guy who just kind of chronically watches porn, you do that regardless of being

02:32:04.680 single or not. 1.00

02:32:05.760 Like, I know my boyfriend still watches porn, and he can totally fuck me or someone else. 1.00

02:32:10.240 Oh, we got two coming in, okay. 1.00

02:32:15.660 Hi, and the girl.

02:32:17.380 Which girl? 0.93

02:32:18.220 Hi, Brian and the girl.

02:32:19.900 Oh, Kiki.

02:32:21.220 Why, when Chase is, who is Chase?

02:32:24.140 Why, when Chase is present, the girls are always irritated at some point during the show? 0.99

02:32:28.400 He has the right to have his own principles.

02:32:30.440 Have you, oh yeah, I don't know these, have you ever invited Pearl to the show?

02:32:34.060 Yo, Frank, brub, thank you for the 50 euro, appreciate it.

02:32:36.900 The TTS is broken, but we are, Kazumi is filling in as our honorary.

02:32:40.260 I'm sorry, I know they hate that.

02:32:42.460 They're like, we don't want her to speak.

02:32:43.560 Can you actually do it in a European accent? 0.99

02:32:45.460 Like, think, maybe, because you donate in euro, so maybe you could do, hold, dirt and shit. 0.95

02:32:49.880 I don't know how to do a European accent. 0.97

02:32:51.680 Hi, Brian.

02:32:52.680 No, I can't do that.

02:32:54.880 No, I don't know how to do it.

02:32:56.040 Okay.

02:32:56.280 But I don't know these people.

02:32:57.440 Frank, thank you.

02:32:58.960 Yeah, Chase, Chase is definitely.

02:33:03.420 Probably more disagreeable than I am.

02:33:05.320 So he definitely pushes buttons a bit more than me.

02:33:08.300 So, yeah.

02:33:10.300 I mean, he definitely.

02:33:11.920 Not my co-host, but he's been on a couple shows.

02:33:14.700 Eric, go ahead, pull up the, but Frank, thank you, man.

02:33:17.160 Appreciate it.

02:33:17.520 Oh, as far as Pearl, me and Pearl are talking.

02:33:20.960 She was in the UK.

02:33:22.000 She's actually, I think she's moving to the US.

02:33:23.960 We will get Pearl on the show eventually.

02:33:25.900 Next one, Eric.

02:33:27.500 Yo, Derping, oh, actually, you get, go ahead, Kazumi.

02:33:29.780 Based on dating site matches, Tinder, I think it was, there is a steep drop-off for men

02:33:34.020 getting matched when going from six feet tall to five foot 11 inches tall.

02:33:38.460 Go outside.

02:33:39.800 I swear to God, if you go outside.

02:33:41.380 We're going to pull up some stats, too.

02:33:43.480 First of all, Tinder is an app based off of your social appearance.

02:33:48.520 So, also, if I went outside, I really couldn't tell the difference between a guy who was six

02:33:53.160 foot or five 11.

02:33:53.920 Past five eight, they look the same to me.

02:33:56.720 Yeah, I, like, if I was, if, first of all, if you're five foot 11 and you think it is

02:34:01.540 a big steep drop-off, just say six foot, I won't be able to tell.

02:34:04.620 Like, I, if I met you at, I don't, I think you're like six, seven.

02:34:07.500 I don't know how tall you are.

02:34:08.760 Like, what I just know, it's probably tall.

02:34:10.280 Eric, get the other one.

02:34:11.240 Pull up the other one.

02:34:12.660 Derpington, thank you for the super chat.

02:34:14.200 Really appreciate it.

02:34:15.460 There should be another, there's another one, Eric.

02:34:17.460 There's another one.

02:34:19.100 Down, down, down.

02:34:20.560 I'm pretty sure another TTS came in.

02:34:23.520 Right?

02:34:24.040 No?

02:34:24.680 Is that all of them?

02:34:25.320 Okay.

02:34:26.000 Oh my God, how much money do you make from a single stream?

02:34:28.260 Don't worry about it.

02:34:29.100 He's like, enough to pay to win.

02:34:30.300 These are my patrons, my deeply appreciated patrons.

02:34:33.080 Enough to keep the pod going.

02:34:35.220 So.

02:34:35.920 Oh yeah, yo, Dex, do you think for the sub?

02:34:39.320 Wait, let me read that guy, because I have a follow-up statement.

02:34:42.760 Which one?

02:34:43.320 The one that says, bro, the ones that pay for OnlyFans girls. 1.00

02:34:46.080 Bruh, but the ones that follow OnlyFans or watch obsessively porn are not getting enough.

02:34:50.560 Dude, you just paid 20 bucks.

02:34:52.660 You are a guy that supports the creators you like, just like everyone else.

02:35:00.940 Okay.

02:35:01.420 Like, there's really.

02:35:03.240 No, it's true.

02:35:03.780 No, it's true.

02:35:04.740 Whether it's like a, it's porn or your favorite podcast or Netflix, you are paying money for

02:35:10.280 a creator or a group of creators to fund what they are doing.

02:35:13.640 I don't think, do you feel like because he's watching his podcast, he just doesn't have

02:35:18.880 anything better to do today.

02:35:19.980 So he's just watching you stream.

02:35:21.660 Like, I'm sure he has a social life and is cool.

02:35:23.800 The same way people who watch porn. 0.99

02:35:25.720 Also, maybe there are a few extremists who don't get any pussy, but I'm sure they just 1.00

02:35:30.080 kind of just buy porn sometimes. 0.99

02:35:32.460 Well, I mean, they, they are patrons and they support the show, but all right.

02:35:37.000 So I just want to touch on this.

02:35:38.700 No strings attached.

02:35:39.500 Thank you for the Canadian 20.

02:35:41.100 Yeah.

02:35:41.320 I mean, if men were regularly getting laid, there would not be such a demand for pornography, 0.95

02:35:48.780 OnlyFans, sex work, and strippers. 1.00

02:35:51.420 I don't think that's true.

02:35:52.420 I don't necessarily think that's true either.

02:35:54.680 I think a lot of men in the strip club are married. 1.00

02:35:56.720 If men were regularly, if men were, let me, then why is it that women don't consume these 0.89

02:36:01.840 things at the same rate that men do?

02:36:04.280 I think we're not.

02:36:05.180 There's a strip, there's a strip club in Santa Barbara.

02:36:07.600 Do you want to get, do you want to guess if it's for men or for women?

02:36:11.400 I, well, obviously it's.

02:36:13.900 Why is it obvious?

02:36:15.020 It's, I'm not.

02:36:16.100 No, I'm saying like.

02:36:16.580 Well, it is obvious.

02:36:17.340 It's, yeah, like it is.

02:36:19.160 There's more men in there than there are women, but that doesn't mean that there aren't any

02:36:23.480 women. 0.81

02:36:24.680 Like in there.

02:36:25.860 But there's not a demand.

02:36:27.220 There's not a, there's not a demand.

02:36:29.840 I think it's social stigma.

02:36:31.380 I think it's social stigma because realistically as a woman, I like as a girl, even, you know, 0.80

02:36:36.920 being raised, I was always being told ways to make sure I don't come across as a slut 0.96

02:36:41.580 or a whore or use goods. 1.00

02:36:43.580 And I'm sure that if I was raised in an environment that didn't, you know, necessarily enforce those 0.97

02:36:50.640 kinds of gender roles, I would be consuming porn at the same rate as like. 1.00

02:36:54.680 You know, another guy.

02:36:56.060 But as a woman, I was raised to be more conservative and to not really partake in that kind of stuff.

02:37:02.700 So there's, there's probably, that's probably a reason why.

02:37:06.840 You know, when I turned 18, I, no, sorry, not 18.

02:37:10.620 For my 21st birthday, I went to Vegas and I went to a strip club and I had so much fun

02:37:15.640 because I was like, wow, like I've never been to a strip club before and I've always wanted

02:37:18.780 to go, blah, blah, blah.

02:37:19.720 But that's only because I finally found a group of people that were like, hey, it's not weird

02:37:24.540 for you to be a sexual being as a woman. 0.80

02:37:26.760 Because most women, regardless if they have OnlyFans or whatever, are often shamed and 0.86

02:37:33.280 treated differently because, you know, because of wanting to be sexual just like men do.

02:37:39.480 Okay. 0.80

02:37:39.740 Let's, let's talk about the ultimate form of sex work, which is prostitution. 1.00

02:37:43.540 I paid for pussy. 1.00

02:37:44.540 I, yeah, I went to a brothel. 1.00

02:37:47.660 Kazumi, you're an outlier. 0.93

02:37:48.500 Sorry, I don't count.

02:37:49.080 You're an outlier.

02:37:50.000 I don't count, so I should have just not mentioned it.

02:37:51.840 It's very legal where I'm from.

02:37:53.400 I've recently been thinking about hiring a male escort.

02:37:57.040 Same here.

02:37:57.920 I just want to try it.

02:37:58.960 So just generally speaking though, of the people in the entire world or let's, yeah, we

02:38:06.240 could say the entire world or we can say the United States, of the people that pay for 0.90

02:38:11.420 sex, is it men or is it women? 0.99

02:38:13.740 It's probably men, but that's just because women are demonized when they try to be a 1.00

02:38:18.300 sexual being. 0.90

02:38:19.860 Yeah.

02:38:20.040 Also, if you go to a woman who. 0.99

02:38:22.300 Like, I feel like for men with the hormone difference, it's like, it's like, yeah, like

02:38:29.360 it just is what it is.

02:38:31.800 It's not.

02:38:32.420 There is.

02:38:33.100 Yes.

02:38:33.400 There is a, a biological reality to it.

02:38:36.720 Yeah.

02:38:37.160 To the testosterone.

02:38:38.260 Circling back to your point though, regardless of if more women were approaching men, I don't

02:38:43.540 think that it would affect sex, Shrek's work at all.

02:38:47.980 Because truthfully, people will always want to be sexual beings regardless of if they're

02:38:52.280 in a relationship, if they're single, if they're being approached, whatever.

02:38:55.180 Like, I'm in a relationship.

02:38:56.440 Does that mean I'm not allowed to watch porn anymore?

02:38:59.160 No.

02:38:59.540 Does that mean I'm not allowed to pursue other sexual experiences if I feel like I need it

02:39:03.580 in my partner and I want to come to an agreement about it?

02:39:06.480 Like, the work is always going to be there because there's always going to be a demand

02:39:11.040 regardless of if men are getting approached by women more or not.

02:39:14.180 But the point is, these industries would not be as prominent as they are if it wasn't for

02:39:19.440 men.

02:39:20.000 And men's lack of attention from the opposite sex.

02:39:24.420 You can say that about anything, Brian. 0.98

02:39:26.140 You could say that about freaking Walmart.

02:39:28.480 Imagine like back in the day when, okay, let me say something else.

02:39:32.040 Sometimes takeout restaurants, Chinese food.

02:39:34.240 I, as a person, can learn how to make Chinese food at home.

02:39:37.600 And I can cook it myself and not have to go out, blah, blah, blah.

02:39:40.820 But sometimes it's just more convenient to go out and buy it.

02:39:45.060 Just because I know how to make it at home.

02:39:47.120 Or a better example, I went to college for fashion.

02:39:49.380 I graduated with a fashion design.

02:39:51.000 I've been sewing since I was 10 years old.

02:39:53.140 I could tell you so much about that shirt that you're wearing right now.

02:39:56.520 And it wouldn't sound like English to you, right?

02:39:58.460 I know how to make my own clothes.

02:40:00.100 Does that mean I make all of my own clothes all the time? 1.00

02:40:03.200 Fuck no. 1.00

02:40:04.280 I go to the, okay. 1.00

02:40:05.820 Okay, let me.

02:40:06.420 I'm not sure I'm following.

02:40:07.440 Okay, let me, okay.

02:40:08.620 I know how to make my own clothes.

02:40:10.260 Does that mean I make all of the clothes myself?

02:40:12.520 No, because sometimes it's much easier to go out and buy those clothes.

02:40:16.280 So circling back to your point, just because in a world, if men were getting approached

02:40:22.160 by women, sometimes you just gotta, sometimes you just gotta let it out. 1.00

02:40:25.100 And that means watching corn or hiring an escort to do that. 0.92

02:40:30.100 But it's not going anywhere.

02:40:32.020 Unrelated.

02:40:33.040 Oh, sorry.

02:40:33.680 No, go for it.

02:40:35.220 I've been to Magic Mike a million times. 0.99

02:40:37.440 And every night, it is fucking packed, bro. 1.00

02:40:41.180 Was that in Vegas or some shit? 1.00

02:40:42.600 Yeah, it's that male strip show. 0.99

02:40:44.300 Also, I've also been to Funderdown Under.

02:40:46.000 And I had to fight for a reservation.

02:40:48.140 We, it is not, we are, oh, I'm sorry.

02:40:51.680 It's a special thing in Vegas.

02:40:53.660 The special thing, no, I wish it was in every major city.

02:40:56.420 I'm sure, the reason why it's packed out is because there's only so many few male review

02:41:00.720 shows.

02:41:01.280 What is the point of a business to make money, right?

02:41:03.640 Yeah.

02:41:04.400 If there was more. 0.96

02:41:05.540 If somebody, okay, there's a strip club in Santa Barbara with female strippers. 1.00

02:41:10.880 If there was a male strip club in Santa Barbara, it would go out of business. 0.99

02:41:14.960 You literally don't know that.

02:41:16.420 A hundred percent, it would go out of business.

02:41:18.140 What if they had Magic Mike people dancing and dancing?

02:41:19.080 I want to go.

02:41:19.840 There's not, there's, there's, there's, there's, there's, there's, there's not a demand for

02:41:25.180 it.

02:41:25.460 Yes, there is.

02:41:25.960 Yes, there is.

02:41:26.680 I'm sure there are many women in Santa Barbara who would really want to see that because 0.99

02:41:30.620 it's not available.

02:41:31.400 These college girls with the amount of guys that we deal with. 1.00

02:41:33.660 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

02:41:35.040 Yeah.

02:41:35.380 Bro, girls don't spend money like that. 1.00

02:41:37.620 Yes, we do.

02:41:38.600 We literally are telling you.

02:41:40.180 We're telling you that we want to spend money like that and you are saying that.

02:41:44.620 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:41:45.140 You just like to argue.

02:41:46.300 No, no, no.

02:41:46.820 It's, but I'm righteous here.

02:41:48.560 But you're not.

02:41:49.760 You literally aren't.

02:41:50.900 No, the reason why it's.

02:41:52.460 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

02:41:53.400 I'll let you go, but hold on.

02:41:54.760 If there was a market for it.

02:41:56.440 There is.

02:41:58.200 If there was a market for it, there would be a strip club in Santa Barbara. 1.00

02:42:01.900 There would, a male strip club in Santa Barbara.

02:42:04.280 There'd be a male strip club in all the cities that there's a female strip club. 1.00

02:42:07.340 The reality, tell you what, Kazumi, you're a high earner.

02:42:10.060 You have the money to invest.

02:42:11.880 Open a male strip club in Santa Barbara.

02:42:15.020 But look at the tiny strip club that's here. 1.00

02:42:16.700 Open a male strip club. 0.97

02:42:17.640 Put your money where your mouth is.

02:42:18.600 I just wouldn't do it in a location like Santa Barbara because.

02:42:21.700 Because why?

02:42:22.300 Because I live in LA.

02:42:23.080 Because it would fail.

02:42:24.080 No, because I literally live in Los Angeles.

02:42:25.040 Hire a manager.

02:42:26.020 Hire someone to manage it here in Santa Barbara.

02:42:28.100 If you want to see some male strippers here, sure. 1.00

02:42:30.220 I'll put it in LA and that'll be fine.

02:42:32.280 It might do okay in LA because LA is a major city.

02:42:34.480 No, it's probably because I just literally live there, dude.

02:42:36.940 Like, that's the main reason.

02:42:38.300 Okay.

02:42:38.760 It's like, I'm literally telling you that there are women who would pay. 0.79

02:42:42.820 It's packed.

02:42:44.000 I had to fight for a reservation.

02:42:45.580 And the reason why is because there's only so few male review shows.

02:42:50.500 Dude, I have also a lot of homegirls who've paid for male escorts. 1.00

02:42:55.000 It's a lot more prevalent.

02:42:56.160 The demand is not there, Kazumi.

02:42:57.500 The demand is there.

02:42:58.920 Yeah, I just said it.

02:43:00.000 Okay, okay.

02:43:00.520 You said there was.

02:43:00.960 The demand is there, but it's not as great as a demand for female performers.

02:43:06.400 And I think that's what you're saying.

02:43:07.240 Right.

02:43:07.480 That's what I'm saying.

02:43:08.460 But you cannot say that there isn't a demand.

02:43:10.080 I'm not saying that there's a zero demand.

02:43:11.340 There's probably some women in Santa Barbara. 1.00

02:43:13.200 You just said there is no demand.

02:43:14.120 Yeah.

02:43:14.660 When I say there is no demand, I don't mean that there is absolutely zero demand.

02:43:19.580 I'm saying that the demand is not sufficient enough.

02:43:22.140 Say that instead.

02:43:23.020 He's rounding.

02:43:24.280 Well, what I'm saying is say that instead because there is a demand.

02:43:28.820 But okay, if there's one girl in Santa Barbara that would be willing to go to a male strip club, 1.00

02:43:34.320 that is not a sufficient amount of people to make that a profitable business.

02:43:39.780 Let me ask you.

02:43:40.100 Therefore, there is not a demand.

02:43:43.020 Let me ask you something.

02:43:43.800 Because for the business to work, there must be a sufficient demand for it to make money and for it to work.

02:43:49.060 I want to ask you something, Brian.

02:43:49.280 Go ahead.

02:43:49.460 I want to ask you something.

02:43:50.360 All right.

02:43:50.740 So let's say a male strip club did open up in Santa Barbara. 0.99

02:43:56.180 Can you tell me, how long have you been in Santa Barbara?

02:43:58.760 94.

02:43:59.840 Okay.

02:44:00.220 Can you tell me a little bit about this town?

02:44:02.460 You know, like what are like the statistics, like how do people normally act here?

02:44:06.900 Do people here normally come from religious households?

02:44:11.200 What?

02:44:11.400 Do people here come from like traditional households?

02:44:13.880 Like I want to know what the social life is like here.

02:44:15.880 Santa Barbara is a very liberal city.

02:44:17.580 Very liberal?

02:44:18.280 I'd say it's a very liberal city.

02:44:19.800 Okay.

02:44:20.040 Yes.

02:44:20.480 So let's say a male strip club did open and girls go. 1.00

02:44:25.560 It's a college town.

02:44:26.660 Girls talk. 0.98

02:44:27.420 What if there's a guy who goes and sees all these women here and is like, whoa, why are you here?

02:44:35.280 Why are you doing this?

02:44:36.140 What the point I'm trying to get at is men can comfortably be in a strip club setting

02:44:42.100 like that, whereas women normally can't because again, we are demonized when we want to express 1.00

02:44:48.800 ourselves as sexual beings. 0.99

02:44:50.240 We'll get slut shamed. 1.00

02:44:51.740 We'll get questioned. 0.99

02:44:53.420 Whereas, you know, if a guy told me he went to a strip club, it would be like, okay, no big

02:44:56.480 deal.

02:44:56.640 You went to a strip club.

02:44:57.520 If I told somebody I went to a strip club, they would be like, why were you at a strip

02:45:00.660 club?

02:45:01.020 Nobody would say that.

02:45:02.320 Absolutely.

02:45:03.000 And actually male sexual, male sexuality is more demonized in today's day and age than

02:45:08.500 female sexuality. 0.98

02:45:09.440 Okay.

02:45:09.580 But aren't we talking about generalities here?

02:45:13.780 Aren't we talking about in general, haven't we been talking about in general this entire

02:45:18.640 time?

02:45:18.960 And in general, women are more demonized. 1.00

02:45:21.860 We're literally slut shamed all the time for wearing a top that shows too much of our boobs. 1.00

02:45:26.400 And if we, I don't know if you saw that recent story, if we so much as even glance at a woman 0.97

02:45:30.620 in the gym, I don't know if you saw that. 1.00

02:45:32.520 That shit is crazy. 1.00

02:45:33.700 And I think that shit got out of hand. 1.00

02:45:35.340 But girls will say, oh, some fucking creeper stared at me. 1.00

02:45:39.160 He just looked in my direction. 0.99

02:45:40.580 I think that that guy got out of hand.

02:45:41.820 Male sexuality, male sexuality is now being demonized.

02:45:45.240 And I don't think that's right.

02:45:46.260 And I want to say like, I think that that situation got really out of hand.

02:45:49.360 And it's not even sexuality.

02:45:50.420 It's just some poor guy in the gym who doesn't even consent to being filmed, being blasted on social

02:45:55.060 media for glancing in a girl's direction.

02:45:56.700 I agree that that is so wrong.

02:45:58.840 My point is that no gender should be sexualized, I'm sorry, demonized for expressing their sexuality.

02:46:04.900 And also that entire thing was literally insane and actually so dangerous because there are

02:46:10.100 women now posting videos of themselves, not being able to like school, like, you know,

02:46:14.240 finish their rep.

02:46:15.340 I saw that.

02:46:15.840 Only being able to like ask men for help and men will just ignore them. 0.76

02:46:18.520 And that is such a dangerous situation. 0.96

02:46:19.900 And I think that's super, I think that sucks. 0.95

02:46:22.400 And I think that's super bad. 0.97

02:46:23.760 But what I'm saying is there is a demand. 1.00

02:46:26.380 Women are just as sexual as men. 1.00

02:46:30.380 I'm not sure I fully agree with that. 0.96

02:46:33.700 There are some guys who aren't really into sex, just like there are some girls who aren't

02:46:36.760 really into sex.

02:46:37.920 I mean, I think women enjoy, actually can enjoy sex more than men, but I think men have a much 0.98

02:46:43.380 stronger desire to have sex than women, generally speaking, because of testosterone. 0.69

02:46:49.900 Okay.

02:46:52.580 Okay, moving on.

02:46:53.860 Let's get through these super chats here.

02:46:55.520 Kazumi, you've got a lovely voice.

02:46:56.940 I've become the narrator.

02:46:58.300 She clearly thinks the chat isn't smart enough to understand the word more likely, which is

02:47:02.680 used in stats.

02:47:03.960 Is he talking to me?

02:47:05.060 Yeah, I'm pretty sure.

02:47:08.160 Okay.

02:47:08.920 One access.

02:47:09.700 Thank you, man.

02:47:10.080 Appreciate it.

02:47:10.700 Girls, a good lock only. 1.00

02:47:12.520 Oh my God.

02:47:13.660 Did this guy just graduate middle school?

02:47:16.720 Girls, a good lock only opens with one key. 0.99

02:47:19.360 A bad lock opens up to multiple keys.

02:47:21.860 Men don't want a bad lock. 0.99

02:47:23.580 Well, I'm a person, not a lock.

02:47:25.920 Yes, we'll take you for a spin, but we won't take you serious.

02:47:28.820 Men want traditional women, just like you want traditional men. 0.99

02:47:31.380 I definitely don't know what a traditional man or woman is, and nor do I have to even follow 0.95

02:47:37.100 those.

02:47:37.640 So, whatever.

02:47:38.460 Also, in the same regard, like, why are you trying to open so many locks in the first

02:47:43.560 place if you think that a lock opening up to every key is bad?

02:47:46.840 Like, what?

02:47:47.440 That is so strange.

02:47:49.500 Well, men and women's sexual strategies are different. 0.96

02:47:53.300 Okay.

02:47:53.980 Like, men can impregnate three women a day.

02:47:57.280 A woman can only get pregnant once a year. 1.00

02:48:00.680 Once in nine months.

02:48:01.560 What I'm saying is that there's a double standard.

02:48:02.760 Like, if you want a woman who has, like, a low body count or low sexual experience, then, 1.00

02:48:07.860 like, why are you out here doing the most and, like, you know, freaking everything that 0.64

02:48:11.960 you can?

02:48:12.540 Like, I just don't get it.

02:48:13.380 You're farting everything you can.

02:48:14.080 Yeah.

02:48:14.380 Like, I just don't understand.

02:48:15.520 Like, if you, yeah, that's it.

02:48:18.040 So, do you think it's hypocritical that, say, for example, a guy who, he has a high body

02:48:21.780 count, he would prefer a woman with a low body count? 1.00

02:48:25.680 You think it's hypocritical? 0.86

02:48:27.020 I do think that it's hypocritical, and I think it's a little weird.

02:48:31.140 Okay.

02:48:31.500 Do you got, what about you?

02:48:33.520 What do you think?

02:48:34.940 About what?

02:48:36.400 Sorry.

02:48:37.420 Do you think it's hypocritical if a man has a high body count and wants a woman with a 0.73

02:48:42.460 low body count?

02:48:47.100 Yeah.

02:48:47.800 Yes.

02:48:48.500 Yeah.

02:48:49.220 Yes.

02:48:50.220 Sydney, Kazumi.

02:48:51.200 Yeah.

02:48:51.300 I mean, I think whatever you're, whatever, everyone is entitled to their own dating preferences,

02:48:58.500 right?

02:48:58.740 I think it's silly to, to place, to care about that stuff, but it's also like, we, we just

02:49:06.380 wouldn't date, you know?

02:49:07.560 It's as simple as that.

02:49:09.140 Okay.

02:49:09.580 So, you believe that there's the double standard, though?

02:49:11.900 I just think it's a little weird.

02:49:13.600 That's it.

02:49:14.060 Because I feel like it's something that men, a lot of men focus so highly on, and I'm just

02:49:18.760 kind of like, well, you're doing the same thing.

02:49:20.780 So, what gives?

02:49:22.620 So, okay.

02:49:24.140 So, but I guess my rebuttal to the whole thing, like, oh, it's hypocritical if a guy

02:49:28.840 who, with the, excuse me, getting tongue-tied here, you think it's hypocritical if a guy

02:49:33.500 who has a high body count prefers a woman with a low body count? 1.00

02:49:36.760 I just think it's, okay, everyone is entitled to their own preferences, like Kazumi said,

02:49:41.040 but I just think that's a little weird.

02:49:43.180 So, to want a low body count or for a guy with a high body count to want a low body count?

02:49:46.640 With a high body count to want someone with a low body count.

02:49:50.120 Hey, if you want somebody with a low body count, then whatever, that's your preference.

02:49:53.860 But if you have, like, a super high one and you're like, oh, I will only date a person

02:49:58.140 with X amount.

02:49:59.200 First of all, body count doesn't even really matter that much.

02:50:01.900 But for the people that it does, for the people that it does, like, matter to, if you

02:50:08.520 want someone with a low body count, then why aren't you practicing what you preach?

02:50:11.620 Can I say something on that?

02:50:13.040 I think, oh, no.

02:50:14.640 Well, I'll respond, but make it quick.

02:50:16.320 Okay.

02:50:16.860 I was just going to say, I think, and I'm not, like, for either side, but I kind of

02:50:20.800 saw something that I like.

02:50:21.640 I think men have sex for a different reason than women. 0.89

02:50:25.420 I think women go for a more of a connection, not all. 0.99

02:50:28.100 I think women go for more of a connection base versus whereas men go more for just, like,

02:50:32.220 a pleasure base some of the time.

02:50:34.600 Again, not all of the time, but, like, I know that women are more of, like, emotional 1.00

02:50:39.180 and, like, connection based.

02:50:41.840 And so I think that's kind of, but that's just something I thought.

02:50:45.820 So, okay.

02:50:47.380 Do you think that you shouldn't desire something in someone that you yourself do not possess?

02:50:54.400 Elaborate.

02:50:55.000 No.

02:50:55.220 So, a guy who has a high body count, he should not desire something in someone else that

02:51:02.240 he himself does not possess and that being a low body count.

02:51:05.620 I think you can desire an opposite effect in your partner.

02:51:12.000 Well, that's what I'm kind of about to, that's what I'm about to arrive at my point, but I

02:51:17.140 might have stumped you there.

02:51:18.160 I think, you did.

02:51:18.980 Honestly, you did.

02:51:20.560 I, because personally, I don't really care too much about body count, so I don't really

02:51:24.140 think about these conversations a lot, but I think it's okay.

02:51:28.220 Okay.

02:51:28.440 I gotcha.

02:51:32.580 You did get me.

02:51:33.300 I gotcha.

02:51:33.780 You did get me.

02:51:35.840 I will re, I will rephrase my statement.

02:51:40.120 A lot of the time when a man is focusing on body count and a high one or a low one, right?

02:51:47.060 They're like, for instance, that lock example.

02:51:49.120 Oh, you're used, like no one's going to want you, blah, blah, blah.

02:51:53.560 And it comes from a place of shaming.

02:51:56.400 It comes from a place of shaming because there's a difference between a guy saying, oh, I don't

02:52:00.420 want a girl with a low body count and a difference between saying, oh, I don't want to. 1.00

02:52:03.700 Why are you on me, Eric?

02:52:04.640 And him saying like, oh, I want a girl with a low body count because girls with high body 1.00

02:52:10.640 counts are sluts and whores and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, right? 1.00

02:52:14.140 So if he is coming at it from a respectful point of view, then like power to you, bro. 1.00

02:52:19.720 But the fact of the matter is, is that most of these guys are not coming from a, like a 0.89

02:52:25.860 healthy point of view.

02:52:27.000 And that's where the issue lies.

02:52:29.700 Okay.

02:52:30.660 Because as a person, first of all, I'm a person, right?

02:52:33.460 I'm not a log, I'm not a cookie, I'm not whatever fricking analogy you want to use

02:52:39.120 me as.

02:52:39.840 I'm a person and I am allowed to have my own experiences in life.

02:52:45.360 And a lot of those for me have been sexual and they've been so much fun.

02:52:49.180 And you as a man are allowed to do the exact same thing.

02:52:52.220 But where the issue comes from is like you as a man, most men are like, oh, you're not

02:52:56.400 allowed to have that because you're used or damaged goods.

02:52:59.600 That is, so it's really the mentality behind it and not the actual sentiment.

02:53:04.860 Well, I mean, there's a variety of reasons why men think body count matters, but just 1.00

02:53:09.780 to address the double standard or the hypocrisy thing, there are things that people desire

02:53:15.960 in a partner that they themselves do not possess.

02:53:18.820 For example, I would say 99% of women, if asked, if you asked a girl, do you want a guy 0.97

02:53:24.800 who's funny?

02:53:25.820 I would say 99% of women would say, yeah, I like funny guys.

02:53:29.440 Are they funny themselves?

02:53:32.060 Maybe, maybe not.

02:53:34.260 So there are a variety of things.

02:53:37.840 Men and women, what we find attractive in the partner, there's not a symmetry.

02:53:43.080 There's not always symmetry in what we find attractive.

02:53:45.560 For example, if a woman wants a man who's six feet tall, ought she be six feet tall too?

02:53:50.840 Hmm, right?

02:53:53.040 I've got some more.

02:53:55.560 Many women want a charismatic man, yet they may not necessarily be charismatic themselves.

02:54:01.400 I get what you're saying.

02:54:02.540 Many women want a guy who's chivalrous, but they don't want, they are not chivalrous themselves. 1.00

02:54:07.880 Many women want a physically strong man, yet they are not physically strong themselves.

02:54:14.480 So there's an asymmetry in what we want.

02:54:16.400 So I don't necessarily think that it's actually wrong for even a guy who has a high body count

02:54:21.580 to say, I prefer women with a low body count. 1.00

02:54:25.180 Okay, but then...

02:54:26.060 Because there's asymmetries in what we find attractive.

02:54:27.520 Okay, but then the opposite can be true.

02:54:29.040 Like, let's say a woman has a high body count and she prefers a man with a low body count. 1.00

02:54:33.080 That's totally fine.

02:54:34.140 Yeah, I'm not saying that he can't do that.

02:54:36.620 I'm just saying, I think it's a little weird given the context of which body counts are usually

02:54:40.920 talked about.

02:54:41.680 Personally, I don't care about body count. 0.97

02:54:43.500 I think it's dumb to think about it. 0.77

02:54:45.140 It doesn't really matter to me.

02:54:46.540 I don't really keep track of, you know, the people that I have connections with like that.

02:54:51.500 And, but I guess I'm talking to the people who do care about it, right?

02:54:56.680 And again, most of the time, the people who do care about it, it doesn't come from like

02:55:00.920 a healthy place.

02:55:03.160 Okay.

02:55:03.800 That's really all I'm saying.

02:55:05.100 Let's get through these super chats here.

02:55:06.760 We'll come back to body count.

02:55:07.880 This is like my, my like, my participation part.

02:55:10.820 This is, I'm like the reader.

02:55:12.800 No, this is...

02:55:13.520 Did we do this one?

02:55:14.280 Yeah.

02:55:15.220 This one?

02:55:16.680 This...

02:55:17.920 Oh.

02:55:19.160 Oh.

02:55:19.820 Do this one and then we'll pull up Alvin's.

02:55:21.700 This ho calling men insecure is in for a reality check when she realizes they only want her 1.00

02:55:26.740 recreation purposes.

02:55:29.040 Brace yourself for a cat lady existence ending up all alone. 1.00

02:55:32.260 The funniest thing is when this just doesn't happen.

02:55:35.820 The funniest thing is when life just turns out to be fine for all of us.

02:55:41.040 Go ahead.

02:55:41.540 You can pull it up, Eric.

02:55:43.320 Oh, wait.

02:55:44.920 You don't want to be treated like an object, but you objectified yourself by going on OnlyFans.

02:55:49.280 Can't make this up.

02:55:50.580 Alvin, just go touch some grass, bro.

02:55:54.540 Dude, we're all here in the game of social media entertainment.

02:55:58.460 Yo, Alvin.

02:55:59.100 Thank you for the $50 soup chat, man.

02:56:00.600 Appreciate it.

02:56:01.240 Let me get the rest.

02:56:05.220 Okay.

02:56:05.460 We have...

02:56:06.340 We did that one.

02:56:07.080 We did this one.

02:56:09.200 This one came through.

02:56:10.500 This one came through.

02:56:11.300 Thank you guys for all the...

02:56:12.660 Go for it.

02:56:13.540 The roasters are never hot. 1.00

02:56:15.620 Damn. 0.99

02:56:16.420 I'm just sorry. 0.99

02:56:17.360 That was such a rude thing to say.

02:56:18.740 I'm so sorry.

02:56:19.600 Go for it.

02:56:19.980 It doesn't matter if you're not hot or not.

02:56:21.520 I'm so sorry.

02:56:22.080 Oh, we did?

02:56:22.520 Okay.

02:56:23.560 We got this one.

02:56:24.480 Go ahead.

02:56:25.500 I think it's the parents' faults for men slash women having a high... 0.99

02:56:29.440 Huh?

02:56:30.440 Having a high body count.

02:56:31.800 I get younger people want to have fun, but any girl says that she wishes she had a lower 0.98

02:56:35.120 body count when she finds the one faults.

02:56:37.740 No.

02:56:38.200 I don't...

02:56:39.220 No.

02:56:40.260 When I found the one, I did not wish for a smaller body count.

02:56:43.620 I was glad I had the experiences I had to give me an educated decision on if this was

02:56:48.040 fun or not.

02:56:48.880 Can I ask you...

02:56:49.820 I don't know if this is like too prodding, but has anyone here ever gotten STD?

02:56:56.640 I think STDs are a thing that happens when you have a lot of sexual partners.

02:57:01.140 Well, actually, no.

02:57:01.780 You don't even have to have a lot of sexual partners.

02:57:03.900 Freudian slip.

02:57:05.300 You don't need to have sexual partners.

02:57:07.700 You can live... 1.00

02:57:08.300 You can get that shit from a toilet seat? 1.00

02:57:09.600 You can get that shit on the first time having sex. 1.00

02:57:12.540 Yeah. 1.00

02:57:13.000 I have a friend and...

02:57:14.000 You can, but...

02:57:14.960 I know.

02:57:15.320 Yeah.

02:57:15.640 I have a friend who...

02:57:16.700 It's exactly the thing.

02:57:17.000 Pull the microphone closer to you.

02:57:18.040 That's exactly the thing. 0.73

02:57:19.060 You can get an STD the very first time you have sex.

02:57:22.000 It doesn't matter how many times you have sex, how many body counts you have.

02:57:25.200 It's statistically proven.

02:57:26.700 It doesn't matter, but I'm saying like...

02:57:28.260 Oh, my...

02:57:28.860 I just want to chime in.

02:57:30.360 It's probability, Sydney.

02:57:31.700 I'm just saying like...

02:57:32.300 Wait, let me finish my sentence.

02:57:33.820 That's also the truth.

02:57:34.520 Hold on.

02:57:34.820 Let me just adjust that really quick and then I'll have you go on.

02:57:37.860 Sydney.

02:57:38.300 Can you technically, the first time ever...

02:57:42.060 Yes. 0.93

02:57:42.220 You have sex, get an STD? 0.98

02:57:44.120 Yes. 0.99

02:57:44.500 Yes.

02:57:44.940 Just like the first time you have sex, you can also get pregnant. 0.97

02:57:46.840 It's a matter of like safety-wise.

02:57:48.240 Yes, but we're talking about probability, not possibility.

02:57:52.560 But I'm all...

02:57:52.940 Okay.

02:57:53.580 So you could, but if you...

02:57:56.600 Okay, who's more likely to get an STD?

02:57:58.560 Someone who sleeps with someone one time or someone who's slept...

02:58:01.760 Who's had sex 10,000 different times?

02:58:04.520 Obviously depends on safety-wise, but yeah.

02:58:06.460 Yeah, 10,000 times.

02:58:08.740 Yes.

02:58:08.960 Come on, Sydney.

02:58:09.560 Yes.

02:58:09.720 Come on.

02:58:10.180 All right.

02:58:10.420 Go ahead, Kazina.

02:58:11.140 I mean, obviously it's going to depend on safety. 0.99

02:58:13.280 If I had raw sex with you, I am way more likely to get an STD with you who probably 1.00

02:58:17.400 doesn't get tested all the time versus me who gets tested every 7 to 10 days, right?

02:58:21.800 Because that's my profession, so I have to get tested frequently.

02:58:25.580 Honestly, even statistically, if you have raw sex with someone one time, you're less

02:58:30.880 likely to get an STD than if you have sex with... 0.95

02:58:34.340 If you have sex 10,000 times with a condom. 0.91

02:58:37.260 Women are also... 1.00

02:58:38.400 It also takes women a longer time to find out if they have an STD, depending on the STD 0.69

02:58:42.760 versus men.

02:58:43.700 I would like to know why you brought up STDs.

02:58:47.140 Well, what was the...

02:58:48.140 I'm trying to find the...

02:58:49.460 That last...

02:58:51.020 Oh, the body count one.

02:58:52.360 Okay, so let's say...

02:58:53.480 Okay, well, anyways, we know what you're...

02:58:54.980 Hold on, hold on.

02:58:56.120 We know what you're trying to say, right?

02:58:57.900 You're trying to say that if I have a high body count, I am more likely to get an STD.

02:59:02.960 Yeah, but I'm also a grown-ass woman, and as I age and I have more sexual experiences, 0.75

02:59:08.680 I am simply just going to continually have more sex with people, and it's my right as 0.97

02:59:14.040 a person to explore myself sexually. 0.99

02:59:16.540 Now, do sometimes shit happens? 0.99

02:59:18.740 Yeah. 0.98

02:59:19.320 Like, sometimes I'll get...

02:59:20.200 People will get pregnant. 0.99

02:59:21.120 Sometimes the people will get an STD, but as long as we are educated on these topics and

02:59:25.940 the stigma is removed from it, we're able to have better conversations on making sure

02:59:29.640 that these issues aren't permanent issues, right?

02:59:32.340 Well, I guess...

02:59:32.740 Okay, so the reason I bring up STDs is because if a girl were to get... 1.00

02:59:38.680 Herpes, for example, I don't suspect she would be so quick to defend promiscuity or defend

02:59:46.500 having a high body count.

02:59:47.680 That has nothing to do with it, though.

02:59:50.400 If you're promiscuous, you're more likely to get an STD.

02:59:53.000 Okay, but just because a girl has herpes doesn't mean that she's going to tell all the girls 0.92

02:59:57.520 in her life to be a nun and not partake in any sexual activity.

03:00:01.060 It's unfortunate that she has herpes, but that in no way should dictate the way other 1.00

03:00:07.680 women in her life live theirs. 1.00

03:00:10.080 I think ultimately the better conversation is how often does one get tested?

03:00:16.600 I mean, if someone got herpes from a hookup... 0.87

03:00:19.960 It wouldn't matter if I fucked a bunch of guys if I got tested tomorrow and then I was 0.99

03:00:24.680 clean, right? 0.99

03:00:25.880 Because literally...

03:00:26.940 This chair is annoying me so much.

03:00:28.720 I've been like...

03:00:29.320 No, no, no.

03:00:29.680 Not you.

03:00:30.160 It's just... 0.99

03:00:30.600 I should have addressed it at the beginning of the fucking show. 0.99

03:00:33.320 Way more insane conversations talking to civilian men who don't do porn, asking when was the 0.99

03:00:38.740 last time they got tested, and realizing that most of you men don't get tested. 0.99

03:00:42.880 I don't want to fuck a guy with a body count of 10 who has never gotten tested his whole 0.98

03:00:48.460 life versus a porn star who got tested seven days ago. 0.99

03:00:52.260 It's more so a matter of how sexually responsible and educated are you.

03:00:56.780 Like, as a porn star, we have to get tested every 14 days max.

03:01:00.900 Full panel?

03:01:01.940 Full panel.

03:01:02.500 How long does it take for those test results to come back and then like...

03:01:07.760 A day.

03:01:08.520 A day.

03:01:09.500 Yes.

03:01:09.940 I got tested today, and I'm getting my results back tomorrow.

03:01:13.040 Okay, but can I ask you a question?

03:01:14.820 I mean, most people are not in the sex work industry.

03:01:18.780 And most people engaging in hookup culture and who...

03:01:23.420 You don't need to be a sex worker to have a high body count.

03:01:25.980 No. 0.72

03:01:26.360 No. 0.97

03:01:26.540 But even when I was a person that was just a slutty girl in college, I still got tested 0.70

03:01:31.120 every time I introduced a new partner in my life, which is something that... 0.88

03:01:34.660 Come on.

03:01:34.680 Really?

03:01:35.040 Yeah.

03:01:35.540 Yeah.

03:01:36.060 Do you not? 0.98

03:01:36.660 Safe sex, bro. 0.96

03:01:37.680 You don't do that? 0.98

03:01:39.500 Where did you go to college?

03:01:40.860 I went to...

03:01:41.660 I'm not going to say that.

03:01:42.940 Well, was it in California?

03:01:44.080 Yes, I did.

03:01:45.080 Was it a state school or a UC?

03:01:46.700 I don't want to say it on here.

03:01:48.160 Okay.

03:01:48.300 It's irrelevant. 0.99

03:01:49.180 I was a slut and I've been a slut, but what mattered was that I was a safe and ethical 1.00

03:01:53.920 slut. 1.00

03:01:54.300 Are you saying that you don't get tested every time you have a new sexual partner? 1.00

03:01:57.500 Because that's nuts.

03:01:58.460 You mean before?

03:01:59.800 At each instance?

03:02:01.500 Yes. 0.97

03:02:01.740 I've gone on dates with guys before getting fucked, before getting tested. 0.72

03:02:05.640 And if I wasn't able to get tested with them before, then I would get tested like right 0.86

03:02:10.100 after, like the week after.

03:02:11.560 That should be normal protocol.

03:02:13.300 You get tested after you have sex?

03:02:15.540 Yes.

03:02:15.880 Well, that wouldn't preclude you from contracting an STD, but most...

03:02:21.600 Do you think that most people that hook up, in each instance that they do hook up, are

03:02:26.820 getting STD tests beforehand?

03:02:29.400 Are you saying that you don't get frequently tested?

03:02:33.120 I get tested, but that's not the point I'm trying to make.

03:02:36.340 In general, when it comes to hook up culture...

03:02:37.820 The more important part, above all hook up culture, is the fact that you are sexually educated

03:02:42.700 enough to know that every time you have sex with someone, you are putting yourself at

03:02:46.120 risk.

03:02:46.380 Yes.

03:02:46.620 So are you taking the right protocols to make sure that you are not keeping yourself safe

03:02:51.600 and others safe?

03:02:52.420 And the best thing you can do about yourself is to have protected sex and to continually 0.84

03:02:56.760 get tested.

03:02:58.220 Now, maybe you're not a sex worker and maybe most people in hook up culture do not do that,

03:03:03.120 but they really should.

03:03:04.840 Exactly.

03:03:05.440 They should, but we have to live in reality.

03:03:08.940 And the reality is that we should.

03:03:10.380 Most people in college who are hooking up...

03:03:13.580 UCSB also has a very, very high STD.

03:03:15.580 Yeah, UCSB.

03:03:16.480 I think we're one of the highest.

03:03:18.520 UCSB, which is...

03:03:19.720 Well, we're here in Santa Barbara.

03:03:21.400 Woo! 0.99

03:03:21.620 ...is like one of the number one party schools.

03:03:24.220 From first-hand experience and from hearing from a lot of people, and it's just kind of

03:03:29.300 almost obvious to me, most people who like will go out to a club or a bar or party, they

03:03:35.500 will spontaneously hook up with someone, did not get tested beforehand.

03:03:40.220 But they should.

03:03:41.060 They should.

03:03:41.620 Like that's...

03:03:41.980 But that's not how it...

03:03:42.920 They should.

03:03:43.140 But you know what?

03:03:43.860 You know the reason why they don't?

03:03:44.900 There shouldn't be war.

03:03:45.260 The reason they don't is because they...

03:03:46.620 There shouldn't be war.

03:03:46.820 The reason why they don't is because they are not sexually educated enough.

03:03:49.920 There's a stigma around testing.

03:03:51.840 Yes, there is.

03:03:52.360 Because a lot of guys are like, oh, I have to get tested?

03:03:55.200 But even you...

03:03:55.760 Why?

03:03:55.820 You don't trust me?

03:03:56.600 Even you said that you...

03:03:58.040 You would...

03:03:59.120 You didn't get tested before being with a new guy.

03:04:00.640 No, I was saying usually I would if it was a plan.

03:04:03.020 You would afterwards.

03:04:03.560 Now, if I met you at a club, at a bar, first of all, I don't have... 0.99

03:04:06.180 You said you were like going through a slut phase, right? 0.99

03:04:08.300 I always... 0.99

03:04:09.040 There was no phase.

03:04:09.780 Your words.

03:04:10.000 Your words, not mine.

03:04:11.180 Clearly she's saying that she gets tested like...

03:04:13.560 Really frequently.

03:04:14.520 Very frequently.

03:04:15.600 So she's being safe.

03:04:16.480 Okay, but you had girlfriends, right?

03:04:17.820 Were they getting tested frequently?

03:04:19.260 Yes, dude.

03:04:20.220 In college.

03:04:20.940 Yes.

03:04:21.340 We are in California in a very liberal state with good sexual education.

03:04:24.720 If you are not getting tested, I beg you to.

03:04:26.640 The vast majority of people are not getting regularly tested.

03:04:29.300 Then you really should.

03:04:30.760 Like, it's like, okay, majority rule.

03:04:32.840 I agree.

03:04:33.060 You should start getting tested.

03:04:34.540 I'm not going to die on this hill.

03:04:36.120 And the thing is, if you do get an STD, luckily, we are in a world in America with great ways to solve it or mitigate the risk.

03:04:48.500 So if you do pop, you should know that it is, not to say fine, but it is something that is curable and it is not something that makes you dirty or evil or bad.

03:04:59.540 It is something that you are able to fix and people shouldn't treat you.

03:05:02.760 That's not true.

03:05:04.040 Herpes, HPV, HIV.

03:05:05.600 The things that I'm talking about, like gonorrhea and chlamydia, these are things you should be able to fix.

03:05:10.500 And even if you did have HIV, you should still be treated with respect and you are not a dirty, evil, bad person.

03:05:17.000 We should remove the stigma of STDs.

03:05:21.060 You shouldn't be rude.

03:05:21.340 Well, I mean, sure, but it's going to impact your life.

03:05:25.500 When was the last time you got tested, Brian?

03:05:26.660 Hold on.

03:05:27.320 It's going to impact your life.

03:05:28.680 It's going to impact your health.

03:05:30.160 And it's going to, honestly, if you have herpes, I assume you agree that you should disclose to a potential partner.

03:05:36.760 Of course.

03:05:37.120 Okay.

03:05:38.040 You're going to, a lot of people are going to, if you disclose, they're not going to want to pursue anything with you.

03:05:45.760 And that's fine.

03:05:46.560 I actually.

03:05:46.940 Okay, so dating is hard enough as it is, especially for men.

03:05:51.160 I don't think men should handicap themselves by getting herpes.

03:05:54.560 Same with women. 1.00

03:05:55.260 They should not handicap. 1.00

03:05:55.840 So you should probably get tested, dude.

03:05:57.220 Yeah, just get.

03:05:57.840 I'm not talking about me.

03:05:59.220 Yeah, we're talking in general.

03:06:01.060 Okay, to those men, women, whatever, if you don't want to get an STD, then just practice safe sex.

03:06:06.140 Like two plus two.

03:06:06.940 Condoms don't, condoms don't prevent herpes. 0.55

03:06:09.060 Okay, get tested.

03:06:10.880 Require tests from your partner.

03:06:12.360 Two plus two equals four.

03:06:13.440 If you don't want an STD, practice sex as safely as possible.

03:06:16.920 And that means going to a local clinic or your primary physician and getting tested and asking your sexual partners to do the same.

03:06:24.080 It is not that hard.

03:06:25.320 Most people in civilian life, if they do get an STD test, it's not a full panel test.

03:06:30.860 People can be asymptomatic. 0.99

03:06:32.140 And that shit can pop, like, down the road. 1.00

03:06:35.040 It might not pop right away, but you might be contagious, I guess is the term. 1.00

03:06:40.220 So I feel like the solution isn't not having sex at all or looking for a person who's never had sex.

03:06:47.460 What? 0.68

03:06:48.060 Like, the solution is to just practice safe sex.

03:06:51.060 If this is something you want to continually explore, you have to just make sure that the people you're playing with are also playing safe games.

03:06:58.640 That's an adult concept.

03:07:01.060 And it's something that we should preach and have a more open conversation about.

03:07:04.640 But this is one of the reasons why body count matters.

03:07:07.800 Body count doesn't matter when you're literally...

03:07:10.420 It quite literally matters when it comes to STDs.

03:07:14.040 It quite literally doesn't.

03:07:15.600 It quite literally does.

03:07:17.260 It doesn't matter as much as the fact that you cannot tell me when was the last time you got tested versus the fact that I care.

03:07:22.820 I think I got tested in December. 0.97

03:07:24.460 And how many people have you fucked since then? 0.99

03:07:26.940 Actually, zero. 0.98

03:07:28.160 Or, okay, cool.

03:07:29.280 But the fact of the matter is...

03:07:30.580 Because I'm selective with who I want to sleep with.

03:07:32.040 That's absolutely fine.

03:07:33.100 And you're able to have your own preferences.

03:07:35.020 I get tested frequently. 0.92

03:07:36.420 And I would much rather having sex with someone who has a test a week old versus someone like you who hasn't gotten tested since December. 0.98

03:07:43.360 Because you could easily lie. 1.00

03:07:45.160 You know, not to say you are, but I don't fucking like... 0.99

03:07:47.000 Someone could... 0.95

03:07:47.800 You review their tests?

03:07:49.260 Yes, I show it on my phone.

03:07:50.760 Yeah, but you're...

03:07:51.160 Okay. 0.96

03:07:51.820 Even before porn.

03:07:53.640 You're in the industry.

03:07:54.680 Even before porn, it's a normal thing to do.

03:07:56.280 Okay, but promiscuity necessarily means that you're at a higher risk of getting an STD.

03:08:02.320 Not if you practice it safely.

03:08:03.700 Like, that doesn't equate...

03:08:04.820 Herpes.

03:08:06.080 You can get herpes without a condom.

03:08:08.680 Yeah, you can get herpes off a fork. 1.00

03:08:10.320 Like, what the fuck? 1.00

03:08:13.120 You... 1.00

03:08:13.560 Do you...

03:08:14.900 What?

03:08:15.520 Yeah, you could.

03:08:16.500 The body count has nothing to do with that.

03:08:18.480 Do you mean safe sex is just wearing a condom because a condom...

03:08:21.240 No, safe sex is not just wearing a condom.

03:08:24.400 It's making sure that your partner is getting tested. 0.95

03:08:27.340 Like, what the hell? 0.95

03:08:28.300 Like, asking them about their sexual history. 0.89

03:08:30.700 And I understand that a lot of men believe, okay, higher body count equals a higher risk for me.

03:08:35.780 But that is not necessarily true, especially if that person has been practicing safe sex.

03:08:40.920 The CDC.

03:08:41.320 I told you...

03:08:41.900 The CDC.

03:08:42.440 I told you my body count last time, right?

03:08:44.640 Do you remember what it was?

03:08:45.480 It was like 300, right?

03:08:46.680 It was like 300 something because that's all...

03:08:47.960 I've never gotten an STD in my life.

03:08:49.800 Ever.

03:08:50.860 With all of those bodies.

03:08:52.060 That's fine.

03:08:52.580 Nothing.

03:08:52.820 Because the amount of people that I've slept with and have chosen to have a relationship sexually with,

03:08:58.700 that doesn't put me at higher risk.

03:09:00.780 I've made sure to be safe with all of my sexual partners.

03:09:03.380 And that is what really matters.

03:09:05.040 It's not the numbers.

03:09:06.020 It's how you practice.

03:09:07.800 Okay. 0.99

03:09:08.880 The more people you have sex with... 0.73

03:09:11.680 I don't think we're going to reach an agreement here. 0.66

03:09:13.680 So maybe let's move on.

03:09:14.760 Well, I'll just say my point and then we're going to continue.

03:09:18.260 So it's been proven statistically.

03:09:21.840 The CDC has done studies on this.

03:09:24.880 The more sexual partners you have, the greater likelihood of getting an STD.

03:09:30.680 The more people you sleep with, it's almost self-evident.

03:09:33.380 The more partners you have, the more people you sleep with, the greater chance, the greater risk of getting an STD.

03:09:41.080 The same way, if I'm in a log cabin all by myself, and maybe like one person comes and visits me a year,

03:09:47.780 let's say, let's compare this to COVID.

03:09:50.760 Your chance of getting COVID, if you only encounter one person, is much lower than if you're going out to nightclubs and parties and meeting 100 people a day.

03:10:00.980 That same thing applies to STDs.

03:10:02.940 The more sexual partners you have, the more opportunity to get an STD.

03:10:07.840 Now, you can practice safe sex and you can mitigate the risk, but the risk is still there the more partners that you have.

03:10:14.000 It's fantastic that you've had as many partners as you've had and you've not caught anything.

03:10:18.180 Congratulations.

03:10:18.660 You've been safe.

03:10:21.020 But it is something to consider. 0.97

03:10:25.680 Well, luckily, Brian, you're not fucking, so it's fine. 0.95

03:10:30.040 Just keep your body count as low as possible so you'd never get anything. 0.96

03:10:34.260 Well, I don't really follow on that one, but let's move on with these super chats.

03:10:39.080 Go ahead.

03:10:40.700 Saying men...

03:10:41.620 Wait, I'm bored about talking about body count, so let's talk about something else.

03:10:46.620 Derpington701, $20 super chat.

03:10:48.000 Saying men shouldn't care about body count.

03:10:49.400 Oh, whoa, that's awfully convenient for women with a higher body count. 1.00

03:10:53.480 It is.

03:10:54.860 Yeah.

03:10:55.720 The USSR, okay. 0.95

03:10:57.600 All right.

03:10:58.160 Alvin, this came in.

03:10:59.140 Thank you, man.

03:10:59.520 Appreciate it.

03:11:00.100 Derek.

03:11:00.660 Yo, thank you, man.

03:11:01.740 You're the chick.

03:11:01.980 I can't grow to 6'5", but you can control your body count.

03:11:05.120 Remember, Prince said it best.

03:11:06.900 P-control?

03:11:08.720 P-control?

03:11:09.520 I'm not sure.

03:11:10.700 Derek, clarify?

03:11:11.780 Clarify?

03:11:12.320 Hello?

03:11:12.840 Yeah, tip again and tell us.

03:11:13.960 These girls dislike probability and generalities so much that if they were told if they jumped 1.00

03:11:20.840 off this building, they have a 90% chance to die, but a 10% chance to live, they would

03:11:25.240 still jump.

03:11:25.900 Generalities help mitigate risk.

03:11:27.620 Well, I don't live my life by numbers, and I've been fine.

03:11:30.380 You should just educate yourself further.

03:11:33.440 Okay.

03:11:34.080 Deva, thank you, man.

03:11:34.860 Appreciate it.

03:11:35.880 Scafone?

03:11:37.460 I am sorry, Brian.

03:11:38.640 The girls are making lots of sense. 0.90

03:11:40.560 Why are you being dense about it?

03:11:42.400 Whoa.

03:11:42.900 Dense about what?

03:11:43.560 What?

03:11:46.840 Okay.

03:11:47.620 Wow.

03:11:48.280 Dobscafone.

03:11:49.380 DM me. 1.00

03:11:50.460 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:11:51.160 All right. 0.99

03:11:52.080 Add to the 300 plus, right?

03:11:54.720 YOLO.

03:11:55.640 301.

03:11:56.160 YOLO.

03:11:56.680 Get the test first.

03:11:58.060 Yeah, get tested first.

03:11:59.600 Okay, so we were talking about, I'm trying to remember what it was.

03:12:07.780 Man, that chair. 0.99

03:12:08.880 Fuck, we should have swapped it out at the start of the show. 0.99

03:12:10.820 I'm so sorry. 0.99

03:12:11.380 Oh, well.

03:12:11.720 I thought we had addressed the chair situation, but whatever.

03:12:16.020 Chat, can you guys hear the chair?

03:12:17.720 Yo, here, I'll do this.

03:12:18.680 William Nelson, $30 soup chat.

03:12:20.060 Actually, go for it, Kazumi.

03:12:21.680 Shame, insult, need to be right. 0.98

03:12:23.460 Every time she speaks, it's to insult him because he is triggered.

03:12:26.560 I don't think I insulted you. 1.00

03:12:27.940 I think I just said don't fuck people. 1.00

03:12:28.900 Because he or she is triggered. 1.00

03:12:31.060 Yeah.

03:12:31.420 I think he meant she, but okay.

03:12:33.060 Because, oh.

03:12:33.920 Go ahead. 1.00

03:12:34.200 Speaking of safe, Kazumi, didn't you claim to fuck with 50 men in a single night and call 0.99

03:12:38.820 it empowering? 0.99

03:12:39.540 Sounds pretty unsafe to me.

03:12:41.040 Who is alive and walking?

03:12:42.500 Me.

03:12:44.940 So.

03:12:45.520 Were you at least sore the day after?

03:12:47.800 No.

03:12:48.380 A little sore? 0.98

03:12:48.700 It's not like they all had men, dingo, cocks, bro. 1.00

03:12:51.260 They were very average size.

03:12:52.800 Oh, all right.

03:12:54.700 Yo, by the way, Cody, thank you for the membership, man.

03:12:57.060 Stifler asks, ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten. 0.96

03:12:59.940 Yeah, we can do that.

03:13:00.520 Go ahead.

03:13:01.580 We'll start with you, Kazumi.

03:13:02.840 Actually, wait.

03:13:03.400 Sorry.

03:13:03.920 No.

03:13:04.840 Sydney, you first.

03:13:05.880 You do this every time.

03:13:07.260 Go ahead, Sydney.

03:13:08.320 Go ahead.

03:13:10.140 I say ten, and I say it every time. 0.91

03:13:13.240 Go crazy. 0.79

03:13:14.160 Don't hit a button. 0.53

03:13:15.760 I'm going to give you the same answer I gave you last time, which is I do not participate.

03:13:20.620 Okay.

03:13:21.200 What about you?

03:13:22.480 Ten.

03:13:23.400 Ten?

03:13:23.900 Okay.

03:13:24.180 I think.

03:13:24.600 Yeah, mama. 0.97

03:13:25.360 I mean, I think it depends on, like, where I'm at.

03:13:27.440 You know, like, if I'm in, like, a world full of women with the same body type as me, 1.00

03:13:31.520 then I feel really good.

03:13:32.660 But if I feel like I'm around a bunch of, like, Victoria's Secret supermodels, then I'll

03:13:37.000 feel a little insecure.

03:13:38.520 And if I'm around a bunch of other types of people, then I'll feel good.

03:13:42.220 I think, generally, I feel okay.

03:13:44.300 I think I'm kind of, like, a five sometimes.

03:13:47.000 Okay.

03:13:47.480 I think it fluctuates.

03:13:48.480 It's like some, I feel like the way I rate myself is I'm a base average, you know, because

03:13:52.760 I look at myself all the time.

03:13:53.980 And then when I look at other people, it's either better or worse than, like, me right

03:13:57.160 now.

03:13:57.420 But I don't think five as in, like, F for fail.

03:14:00.260 I just think, like, I'm just an average-looking woman, just coasting the world.

03:14:08.100 Rate yourself.

03:14:09.760 Six.

03:14:10.380 Six?

03:14:10.900 No.

03:14:11.340 6.9.

03:14:12.060 Why?

03:14:12.380 On a good day.

03:14:13.360 It's just the truth, I reckon.

03:14:15.620 But, okay.

03:14:17.580 So, Sydney.

03:14:18.940 Come on, tens? 0.90

03:14:24.420 Both of you?

03:14:25.940 I love to self-love.

03:14:27.580 Self-love, yeah, man.

03:14:28.820 Sometimes I don't care what anybody else says about the way that I look.

03:14:32.220 Like, obviously, everyone cares a little bit about, like, what other people's opinions

03:14:36.220 are of them, but ultimately, when it comes down to the, like, at the end of the day,

03:14:40.780 like, I'm confident in the way that I look and the way that I present myself.

03:14:45.480 Don't you think it's hubris, though?

03:14:47.680 Delusion?

03:14:48.160 It's, like, a bit of delusion, though. 1.00

03:14:50.020 Shut up. 0.99

03:14:50.960 No. 1.00

03:14:51.300 To think you're a 10.

03:14:52.280 They can practice self-love.

03:14:53.600 Sometimes I feel like a 10.

03:14:54.700 So, what is a 10?

03:14:55.720 Like, yeah, like, you can't.

03:14:57.320 For me, I.

03:14:58.540 It's a 10.

03:14:59.100 I feel like, also, everyone else has their own opinion of what a 10 is.

03:15:03.000 Right.

03:15:03.560 We're talking looks.

03:15:04.160 I'm saying 10 because I don't want, I don't leave.

03:15:06.220 Leave any room for opinion from another person.

03:15:09.820 Like, from these people, I'm not leaving room for opinion because, like, at the end

03:15:13.480 of the day, it's, like, me.

03:15:14.340 It's, like, with myself.

03:15:15.620 And I don't know.

03:15:17.220 That's how I am.

03:15:17.700 But, like, the market kind of dictates your rating.

03:15:24.540 You can't just say, like, for example, I can't just say I'm a 10 and then step into

03:15:28.820 Calvin Klein and say, yo, give me a modeling contract. 0.73

03:15:31.860 I can't do that.

03:15:33.580 I'm a 10.

03:15:34.320 I deserve a modeling contract because I believe I'm a 10.

03:15:39.100 So, thus, I would say.

03:15:41.380 Like, what if you could?

03:15:41.960 Someone who's a 10 has or could have a modeling contract.

03:15:47.380 But I feel like it's a mindset.

03:15:48.880 Like, if I feel like, if I feel like a 10, then that confidence will speak for itself and

03:15:53.440 I can do many different things. 0.68

03:15:55.520 You know, if I feel like a 2 or whatever the fuck that means, then that insecurity is 0.94

03:16:00.460 way louder than however I could look. 0.94

03:16:02.220 But that your confidence doesn't undo the fact that there might be a certain symmetry to

03:16:09.100 your face.

03:16:10.040 There might be a, you know, your height.

03:16:12.700 Yeah.

03:16:12.980 I mean, also, like, the people, like, the world is full of different types of people that are

03:16:17.540 beautiful in their own different ways.

03:16:18.880 Like, of course, there's an industry standard.

03:16:21.260 But I've been with people who've looked all types of ways and I thought they were all

03:16:25.740 beautiful somehow or some way.

03:16:28.060 Okay.

03:16:29.560 All right.

03:16:30.200 Why did you rate yourself a 6.9?

03:16:32.760 Because that is my, what I believe, a reasonable self-assessment of my physical attractiveness.

03:16:38.880 Do you feel like you're, like, shy of, like, saying, like, oh, I'm an 8 or a 9?

03:16:41.760 Like, you feel embarrassed?

03:16:43.020 Like, you don't want to be cocky?

03:16:44.780 It's not about being cocky.

03:16:45.980 Like, I genuinely, like, I've looked at myself in the face.

03:16:48.320 I know what my face is like.

03:16:49.540 I know what my potential flaws are.

03:16:51.680 And I'm like, okay, I'm, like, a 6.

03:16:54.320 Your potential flaws?

03:16:56.020 I know.

03:16:56.360 I've got flaws.

03:16:57.860 I got flaws.

03:16:58.720 I mean, it's like, if you walk, if you feel like you're a 10, then you'll walk like a 10.

03:17:04.260 It's not.

03:17:05.160 Yeah, I agree.

03:17:06.040 Look, there's a difference between confidence and thinking that you're on par with the most

03:17:10.560 beautiful and attractive people in the world.

03:17:13.000 I'm, if I thought I was a 10, like, I'm not as attractive as Brad Pitt was in his youth.

03:17:20.940 I mean, I'm not.

03:17:22.160 I'm just not.

03:17:22.920 To some other people, you know?

03:17:24.980 But I would never, I would never, okay, I've compared myself a lot, right?

03:17:29.380 Especially as, like, a big girl.

03:17:30.640 It's very easy for me to fall into that mindset.

03:17:32.640 But it's, like, you deserve to be happy and confident with the way that you look.

03:17:39.220 And you shouldn't dictate, you shouldn't let society's standards dictate that for yourself.

03:17:44.740 That's literally it.

03:17:46.840 What Kazumi said stands true.

03:17:48.640 If you feel like, if you consider yourself a 10, you'll walk like a 10.

03:17:52.440 If you consider yourself a 4, you'll walk like a 4.

03:17:55.160 Like, who, like, why would you let anyone else dictate your confidence in what you have to offer? 0.99

03:18:01.700 Confidence is also fucking hot.

03:18:04.720 Me believing I'm a 10 is not going to impact an outsider's view of my physical attractiveness. 0.68

03:18:14.000 Now, I will admit that if you carry yourself in a certain way, if you're smiling a lot and you're, you know, it can make you more appealing.

03:18:26.400 And it can to some degree, like, for example, a man or a woman who's more, has a positive disposition, smiles, for example, are generally actually rated more attractive than if they were frowning, for example.

03:18:37.240 However, that, that's kind of a very minor thing, whereas, like, someone who, like, it'll give you a slight boost, but it's not going to take you from average looking to supermodel.

03:18:50.320 I mean, I've been around a lot of, first of all, so I see, I do porn.

03:18:54.320 And you would maybe assume that every person that does porn is, like, the sexiest person in the world.

03:18:59.140 And it's just really not true.

03:19:01.020 There's so many different types of sexy, you know.

03:19:04.740 And I've seen people, like, run walkways and get booked for things.

03:19:08.340 And it wasn't because they were, quote, unquote, conventionally attractive.

03:19:11.720 They just had their own unique look that was sexy to somebody.

03:19:16.420 Okay.

03:19:17.400 You're like, okay.

03:19:18.300 I need to get up really quick.

03:19:20.260 Guys, get your last-minute super chats in.

03:19:22.100 We are going to try to wrap up here pretty soon.

03:19:24.700 I need to get up momentarily.

03:19:27.140 Eric, can you pull up all the super chats and we'll have Kazumi read them. 0.84

03:19:32.540 And you guys, don't talk too much shit about me while I get up.

03:19:37.340 I'm in, like, this super chat world. 0.99

03:19:40.040 You're killing it.

03:19:40.880 Right? 0.82

03:19:41.720 You're the announcer.

03:19:42.660 Dude, because I'm just a roaster. 0.99

03:19:44.340 I'm just, like, shut up. 0.98

03:19:45.880 Anyways. 0.81

03:19:50.640 Quick and we'll tell you.

03:19:54.000 Oh, we're definitely past this.

03:19:55.720 Yeah, we're way past that.

03:19:57.660 Past this.

03:19:58.440 Bro is pissing hard.

03:20:02.760 Way past this.

03:20:03.860 Dude, I would, wait.

03:20:04.540 Could everyone hear me pee when I was peeing?

03:20:06.600 No.

03:20:06.860 Oh, my God.

03:20:07.760 I get pee shy.

03:20:08.680 Not that.

03:20:09.980 We're past that.

03:20:11.160 Lower, lower, lower.

03:20:12.320 There you go.

03:20:12.900 Yep.

03:20:13.160 Keep going.

03:20:13.960 Lower, lower, lower.

03:20:16.920 No, I think we almost.

03:20:19.200 We stopped at that one.

03:20:21.040 We stopped at that one.

03:20:21.260 Okay, so it's on Zubu Mafu.

03:20:23.060 Okay, Brian, you need to.

03:20:28.000 Zubu.

03:20:30.380 Yeah.

03:20:31.740 Brian, you need to let these women talk more. 1.00

03:20:33.700 I'm also sad by the comments here.

03:20:35.180 Y'all need to step up your game and become real man, not Tate.

03:20:37.980 These women suffered to be in the position they are in, so grow up. 1.00

03:20:41.440 You almost got it.

03:20:42.520 I don't think I really suffered much.

03:20:44.060 You had it in the first half.

03:20:45.480 I was like, you almost had it.

03:20:47.040 Thank you.

03:20:47.720 Okay, next one.

03:20:49.520 Surviving Russian roulette playing it 100 times doesn't mean the person playing was

03:20:53.160 being safe.

03:20:53.820 Just lucky.

03:20:54.660 So Tara obviously has a body count of zero because he doesn't play the game at all. 1.00

03:20:59.400 Okay, next.

03:21:01.000 Derek, body count control, side control.

03:21:04.040 I mean, control the numbers of men you deal with.

03:21:06.880 I still don't get it, but he's tipped a lot, so I guess he really wants to make sure

03:21:11.840 his voice is heard right now.

03:21:14.880 Okay, go down.

03:21:16.020 Would love to hear more from Sydney and Michaela.

03:21:19.300 Sorry, guys.

03:21:20.300 I never shut the fuck up, so sorry.

03:21:24.360 I think that's it. 0.87

03:21:25.580 Is that it?

03:21:26.080 I think that's it.

03:21:27.020 All right, cool.

03:21:27.980 Guys, get your last minute super chats in here.

03:21:30.280 Okay, so I wanted to bring it back to something here.

03:21:36.340 Kind of, I guess we'll bring it back to body count really quick, and then we'll wrap up

03:21:41.820 on this other thing.

03:21:42.620 So a lot of you, you said body count doesn't matter.

03:21:45.700 You said body count doesn't matter.

03:21:47.140 Sydney, Michaela, your thoughts?

03:21:49.640 I think this is very, I think it's tough because I've been thinking about this for like the

03:21:56.880 last couple days now and trying to get like the right answer, and honestly, I can't really,

03:22:02.440 my conclusion is that I think that it does matter because I personally don't feel like

03:22:10.540 it's anyone's business.

03:22:13.280 Like, that's where my head goes.

03:22:14.660 Like, I don't want to share that number, whether it's high or low, like no matter what.

03:22:20.100 Like, that's my personal business, and if I decide to be with somebody sexually and they

03:22:24.420 ask, I will be honest with them, but that's not something I'm going to like openly walk

03:22:28.580 around telling people.

03:22:30.300 She kind of said exactly how I feel, honestly.

03:22:32.880 That's why like I've never said it on this show, and I don't plan to.

03:22:35.680 There's just, why?

03:22:36.620 Why does it matter?

03:22:37.640 For me.

03:22:37.980 I thought you said, I thought you said body count.

03:22:39.800 It does matter because it's like, that's why I'm saying.

03:22:42.040 It's like, it's confusing the way to answer it because it's like, it matters because like,

03:22:46.460 you know that it does matter.

03:22:48.560 It matters to other people.

03:22:49.460 Yeah, exactly.

03:22:50.660 And they're going to judge you, but like it also doesn't.

03:22:52.280 But you think it shouldn't matter.

03:22:54.740 Do I have that right?

03:22:55.780 I don't think that a person should be judged on their body count, and unfortunately, society

03:23:05.700 judges people based on that number, no matter if it's low or high.

03:23:10.660 Well, I agree with you there.

03:23:12.040 That people are judged on their body count if it's low or if it's high.

03:23:21.600 So, Sydney, your take?

03:23:23.820 Yeah, exactly what she said, honestly.

03:23:26.320 And I'm also like, right now, I'm also interested in doing like, like I've thought about doing

03:23:30.040 like a year of celibacy to kind of like keep myself on track and like just.

03:23:33.820 I'm doing celibacy right now.

03:23:35.300 Yeah, that's something I'm interested in, but I agree.

03:23:38.280 Yeah.

03:23:41.380 I love that sound.

03:23:42.520 So you guys are doing a year of celibacy?

03:23:44.900 Not a year.

03:23:45.680 No, I'm a very sexual person.

03:23:47.220 It's like, but I'm not like, I'm not going to give, what do you mean?

03:23:52.520 Like about what?

03:23:53.380 About the celibacy.

03:23:54.640 No, I am.

03:23:55.400 I haven't had sex. 0.88

03:23:56.300 When's the last time you had sex? 0.96

03:23:57.920 In? 0.62

03:23:59.500 A fortnight?

03:24:00.340 A month.

03:24:01.380 January 1st was the last time I had sex.

03:24:03.740 I wasn't, that's not, I suppose for some people that's a long time.

03:24:07.500 It is, it's a long time because I was in a relationship and we had sex all the time.

03:24:12.620 And it was like, whenever I wanted to, I could just have, just have sex.

03:24:16.400 But now it's not like that.

03:24:17.940 I'm single and I feel, this just personally has nothing to do like with any, like everyone's

03:24:23.920 different.

03:24:24.420 But for me, I feel like sex is such a huge energy exchange and I don't want to give my

03:24:31.260 energy away like that to just anyone.

03:24:33.240 So you're doing a year of celibacy?

03:24:34.800 I am not doing a year.

03:24:35.820 Oh.

03:24:36.260 I am starting off at four months and, or three months, I said three months.

03:24:40.660 And then if it lasts longer, then great.

03:24:42.660 If, if I find somebody who like I actually feel, you know, deserves, I guess, or like

03:24:51.820 who I want to have sex with, then like I'll break that.

03:24:54.820 But I'm going three months no matter what.

03:24:56.640 Like I just really want to take the time to focus on myself and I have some things that

03:25:00.920 I need to like work on to become a better person.

03:25:04.080 So that's what I'm doing.

03:25:05.440 Uh, no strings attached unless I'm pretty sure we got your super chat.

03:25:11.620 Yeah.

03:25:11.980 We said it.

03:25:12.840 Yeah.

03:25:13.120 We talked about it actually for quite a while.

03:25:15.240 So I don't know if you missed that, but unless we missed a different one, um, you'll have

03:25:19.120 to let us know if it was the 300 K one, Sydney, you're celibate for how long?

03:25:22.880 Um, yeah, no, honestly, I kind of, like I thought about doing like this year of celibacy, but

03:25:27.600 I do like the idea of just being celibate until I do find someone that I want to be with.

03:25:33.500 I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship right now, but I don't know, like having sex

03:25:39.880 is an intimate thing and it always kind of leaves me feeling unfulfilled at the end because

03:25:44.520 like there's no like emotional connection.

03:25:47.260 So I'm kind of just waiting for that emotional connection.

03:25:51.320 I'm also a cute, I'm a simp.

03:25:53.440 So I'll catch feelings real quick.

03:25:55.460 I mean, I just, I just don't like the feeling like I am in college, you know, I'm 22. 0.97

03:25:58.460 I don't like the feeling like at UCSB, like everybody is sex, sex, sex. 0.82

03:26:02.700 And I don't like the feeling of just like a, like 15 minute, like hookup and then they 0.97

03:26:06.520 just like dip out the room.

03:26:07.780 Like that is not enjoyable for me.

03:26:10.660 And I'd rather wait until I could have that, like, you know, I don't know, not necessarily

03:26:18.460 like a boyfriend, but I'm just kind of figuring it out right now.

03:26:22.580 Okay.

03:26:23.100 I see.

03:26:23.900 No strings attached.

03:26:25.000 I do.

03:26:25.360 I do see you're missing super chat here.

03:26:27.480 It must've been when I went up to go to the bathroom.

03:26:30.180 I sent a second one.

03:26:32.260 Yeah.

03:26:32.560 Hold on.

03:26:33.420 I said that.

03:26:35.500 You read this one?

03:26:36.360 Yeah.

03:26:37.740 Hold on.

03:26:38.440 It's, I believe it's this one.

03:26:40.660 Uh, I think we said this.

03:26:45.240 I don't think we did.

03:26:46.620 No, we didn't.

03:26:47.740 If men all stopped watching porn tomorrow, the whole industry would collapse.

03:26:53.460 Kazumi, you are bugging if you think they pay because they want to support your art. 0.92

03:26:56.580 Trust me, men would not pay if they were slaying.

03:26:59.740 I don't know.

03:27:00.420 Do you have an OnlyFans account?

03:27:01.680 No.

03:27:02.100 So I don't think you would know.

03:27:05.020 The thing is, is just to really touch on that quickly.

03:27:08.540 If men were, were getting women, they would not be consuming OnlyFans at the rate that 0.99

03:27:16.680 they are.

03:27:17.380 I think.

03:27:17.660 We already had this discussion.

03:27:19.080 I know.

03:27:19.380 We already discussed it, but you mentioned it again.

03:27:22.540 All right.

03:27:22.680 We have, uh, Andre Colbin.

03:27:24.340 If I think it's the parents' faults for men, women.

03:27:26.640 We saw it.

03:27:27.220 We did this one.

03:27:27.880 We did this one, but I also think that you, that like the point was skipped over.

03:27:32.660 Like, like it was, you guys went and talked about body count, but you didn't talk about

03:27:36.800 like the quiet, the point he's trying to make is he thinks that it's the parents' fault

03:27:41.040 for men or women having a high body count.

03:27:43.000 I don't really understand it.

03:27:45.660 I, I do.

03:27:46.640 And we'll, I mean, when you grow up and we talked about it a little, a little bit,

03:27:50.140 but when you, when you, okay, no, go ahead.

03:27:52.320 When you have, um, parents or when you have parents that are maybe single parents or they

03:28:02.440 are very much more open to their sexuality than, you know, most people are, most parents

03:28:08.580 are, then I feel like it could be different.

03:28:10.760 Like, uh, the child could grow up thinking about sex differently.

03:28:13.900 I don't think the parents have anything to do with it because I came from a really Catholic

03:28:19.220 household where sex was like literally talking about the devil.

03:28:22.320 And I still ended up the way that I am.

03:28:24.360 So, you know, I don't, I don't think the environment that you're raised in has anything to do with

03:28:29.120 it.

03:28:29.740 Well, but like also, cause I, I get where you're coming, like, I understand where you're coming

03:28:34.640 from a hundred percent.

03:28:35.660 And I also have a friend who was told that, you know, same thing, sex is this, this, and 0.57

03:28:41.080 you want to like not have sex with and whatever. 0.57

03:28:44.480 And, um, because of that, it was like, they were kind of even more tempted as opposed to

03:28:51.200 being in a, in a family that's neutral on it or doesn't like shame you about it.

03:28:56.400 And then you grow up and you just have your own opinion on what sex is to you.

03:29:01.500 Well, that's just it.

03:29:02.400 Right.

03:29:02.640 I think that as parents, well, as children, you know, you, as a, as someone, oh my God,

03:29:09.540 words.

03:29:09.800 When you are being raised in a household, your parents will obviously project and install

03:29:15.540 you with certain values.

03:29:16.640 But ultimately I do think that it is up to you as an individual, whether you carry those

03:29:21.080 values with you into adulthood or if you exercise them in your everyday life.

03:29:26.140 So, you know, maybe somebody comes from a single parent home.

03:29:30.000 My parents, my parents have, have always been married, never divorced.

03:29:32.880 Um, you know, different situations, that's just a value I chose to not live with myself

03:29:38.300 because it felt very like not me, you know what I mean?

03:29:41.040 So I think, so I think it really is just up to the individual and how they carry themselves

03:29:44.360 and what they, what values they deem, what values they decide to carry into their life.

03:29:50.280 Did you, did like when you were, when would you say you, cause I, up to a certain age,

03:29:57.980 you like believed everything that your parents said.

03:30:00.300 Right.

03:30:01.180 And so how old do you think that you were when you started to form your own values and

03:30:06.320 opinions on things?

03:30:07.360 Probably like 14.

03:30:08.680 Okay.

03:30:09.140 And then can I ask you when you lost your virginity or when you like started to.

03:30:15.240 The most I had ever, I still didn't really do anything like that.

03:30:19.800 I mostly, my opinions are mostly about like God and how I just really don't believe in

03:30:24.300 God.

03:30:24.980 Uh, but most of the sexual activity that I had has actually been in like the last year or

03:30:30.040 two.

03:30:30.580 Wow.

03:30:32.900 Good times.

03:30:33.900 Yeah.

03:30:34.540 Good times.

03:30:35.220 Good times.

03:30:36.100 Okay.

03:30:36.480 So we need to just touch on a few things here before, uh, we wrap up.

03:30:40.160 So let me get the soup chat.

03:30:42.560 Yo, Derek, good to see you in the chat, man.

03:30:44.640 Welcome back.

03:30:45.620 Uh, control your body counts.

03:30:47.440 P control.

03:30:47.940 Can't spell it.

03:30:48.500 Will block me.

03:30:49.140 He said Psy control Psy control in a chat earlier.

03:30:52.780 I still was confused.

03:30:55.680 I see.

03:30:56.800 Yo, Derek, thanks for the support, man.

03:30:58.640 Love you.

03:30:59.140 You got a killer beard, by the way, Myron.

03:31:01.360 All right.

03:31:01.960 So I meant to bring this up sooner, but we, we kind of got into a heated moment there and

03:31:08.380 I, we kind of meandered to various topics.

03:31:13.200 So Kazumi, you, you mentioned Tate and you mentioned quite a few buzzwords.

03:31:17.820 One of the words you mentioned was the patriarchy.

03:31:20.560 Yeah.

03:31:21.640 Okay.

03:31:22.100 So, um, what, what is your sense of the patriarchy?

03:31:26.040 What is the patriarchy?

03:31:27.120 I think it is a system, um, created by men, you know, not necessarily purposely, but, you 0.59

03:31:35.160 know, throughout time, throughout history that is meant to necessarily serve you guys

03:31:39.980 and prioritize and give you guys more, uh, more of a privileged leg up in the world.

03:31:46.120 I could be butchering it.

03:31:47.380 So if you really want to, we could Google it.

03:31:50.140 Well, I mean, the, the common one that I hear is it's a system of society or government

03:31:55.160 in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. 0.98

03:32:00.100 Do you feel like we don't live in one?

03:32:02.620 Well, I, I reject the sense of the patriarchy.

03:32:05.760 I reject that there is a patriarchy.

03:32:07.720 So you feel like you and I are like equals right now.

03:32:11.620 In, in what way are we equals?

03:32:13.640 Like just in general.

03:32:14.220 Well, in terms of rights and privileges, I w I would say we are equals.

03:32:18.300 In fact, I would say, I would say women have certain rights and privileges that men don't. 0.99

03:32:23.380 Like what?

03:32:24.440 Like what?

03:32:25.380 Like what?

03:32:25.820 Well, for example, in the court system, you, there's, uh, women are more likely to receive 1.00

03:32:30.200 custody of their children.

03:32:31.700 We often hear this term systemic, systematic.

03:32:34.780 The court system throughout this country is a system and that system oppresses men because

03:32:40.440 men are not awarded custody of their children, children at similar rates to women.

03:32:45.060 Men are deprived of their children in this country and in most Western countries and actually

03:32:49.440 most countries in the world.

03:32:51.160 Even.

03:32:51.980 It's not assumed 50, 50 custody.

03:32:54.480 Would you change place?

03:32:55.540 Would you trade places with me?

03:32:57.220 What do you mean?

03:32:57.860 Like, would you be a woman? 0.96

03:32:59.420 I don't see how that's like, what do you feel like my life is easier?

03:33:02.420 So you would want to become me.

03:33:04.180 I think in some ways men have benefits and I think in some ways women have benefits, 0.97

03:33:09.160 but I'm, I'm in my body.

03:33:10.580 I'm.

03:33:11.360 Yeah.

03:33:11.540 But I'm saying.

03:33:11.980 Would you trade with me?

03:33:12.980 No, I, I mean, well, I, if I wanted to be taken seriously in certain places, I feel

03:33:18.100 like I would like to be a man.

03:33:19.960 You know, I feel like it's really hard to navigate the world sometimes as a woman, because there's

03:33:24.040 always, almost always like a sexual intonation with everything I do.

03:33:27.960 Obviously I put myself in a position by being a sex worker. 0.99

03:33:30.520 Do only fans and porn. 0.98

03:33:32.540 Yes, I just said that. 0.71

03:33:32.560 And then before that, but even before I was a sex worker, I was always sexualized, whether

03:33:36.860 I was, worked at Shake Shack or when I was an office girl or when I was in college or

03:33:41.100 when I, when I was a child, regardless, regardless if it was consensual or not, people always

03:33:45.720 exploited that part about me.

03:33:47.060 So of course, right now I am going to profit off of it because it's my choice, right?

03:33:51.100 But whether it was my choice or not, that has always been a thing that has happened

03:33:55.040 in my life.

03:33:55.460 And it's something that I'm sure a lot of other women can agree with. 1.00

03:33:57.840 Would you, would you prefer it that you were not sexualized the way you are?

03:34:03.760 Because I mean, at this point I monetize off of it, right?

03:34:07.300 So that's what I'm, I enjoy it now, but there was a period in my life where I did not enjoy

03:34:11.240 it because I had different goals and I wanted to do different things.

03:34:14.020 But can I also, I'll, I'll let you come in in just a sec.

03:34:17.020 So you object to the sexualization.

03:34:20.220 However, if we were to do away with this sort of one, in the sense that women get this and 0.76

03:34:27.180 men really don't, you would actually be out of a career right now.

03:34:31.980 What are you talking about?

03:34:33.560 I'm saying, well, this is the, you know, there's a difference between choice, right? 0.70

03:34:36.420 So I am choosing to put myself, make myself a sex worker and become an object of sexual desire

03:34:41.100 when it was not my choice and that was not my job.

03:34:44.240 Then I didn't want to do that.

03:34:46.000 It is now.

03:34:47.140 So now I make my, so yeah, it is my life.

03:34:49.460 But let's say if I had a different, if I had different goals and I wanted to do different

03:34:54.120 things, like for example, what she said, you know, she wants to get into acting and I don't

03:34:57.520 necessarily always want to be sexualized despite the fact that I am a woman.

03:35:01.420 Then honestly, maybe being a man would be easier.

03:35:03.720 So that way I could navigate things without having to worry about the fact that sometimes my opportunities 0.97

03:35:08.000 come to me based off the fact, off of my own fuckability.

03:35:11.460 And actually I, maybe I just want to do things based off my skillset.

03:35:15.560 You know what I mean?

03:35:16.260 Like maybe I would want to be a man for certain reasons.

03:35:18.780 Okay.

03:35:19.180 So I'm, I see where, I see where you're going and I don't disagree with you that women tend 1.00

03:35:24.800 to be more sexualized than men are.

03:35:26.700 I think men to some degree are sexualized also. 0.53

03:35:29.260 And I think men are, women are viewed as sex objects and men are viewed as success objects.

03:35:39.680 And I know some of you disagreed there. 0.61

03:35:41.660 What do you mean by sex, sex?

03:35:44.100 Well, you, you've heard this term, you've, you've heard this term sex object, right?

03:35:48.640 Yes.

03:35:49.320 And women will say, well, we're viewed as sex objects. 1.00

03:35:52.940 Perhaps that's true, but it's also true that men are viewed as success objects.

03:36:00.260 I feel like both of those go both ways. 0.61

03:36:02.380 Like men can be seen as sex objects too. 0.98

03:36:06.080 And yes, they can.

03:36:07.160 But I think women can also be judged on how successful they are. 1.00

03:36:11.800 It's well, yes, but it has a greater impact on men in terms of your success.

03:36:19.920 Does it?

03:36:20.680 I think if you look at a, in terms, in terms of your ability to attract a mate, do you think

03:36:29.040 a guy's primary concern with you is how much money you make?

03:36:32.700 Do you think that's most men's primary thing they look for in a partner is how much money

03:36:37.080 a girl makes? 1.00

03:36:37.760 But then, but then it, I don't want to stay too long on, on that because I want to bring

03:36:41.420 it back to the patriarchy.

03:36:42.300 I do want to try to, so.

03:36:43.860 I don't, first of all, I think there are things that may, there are, there are parts of our society

03:36:48.180 where I guess it's easier to navigate as a man and easier to navigate as a female. 0.95

03:36:53.020 Now, if we look at across the board.

03:36:55.980 We're fine.

03:36:56.820 It's, there's a glitch.

03:36:57.900 Don't worry about it.

03:36:58.280 If we look across the board and look at like world leaders and people who are in positions

03:37:02.020 of power, are they men or women?

03:37:05.020 Generally speaking, I think there are more, there are more politicians and more CEOs who

03:37:08.640 are men.

03:37:09.080 So who are the people that make decisions?

03:37:11.820 Who are the people that make decisions?

03:37:13.020 Are they men or are they women?

03:37:14.920 Well, if there are more men.

03:37:16.400 Are they men or are they women?

03:37:17.100 If there are more men in power, then yes, they're men.

03:37:19.160 Yeah.

03:37:19.600 So I do feel like we are in a systemic place where most decisions are placed by men.

03:37:24.720 And obviously I feel like they are usually favoring men. 0.92

03:37:28.100 You can agree or disagree, but if there are, that's fine.

03:37:33.140 But if there was more women in power, then I'm sure there would be different decisions 1.00

03:37:37.540 being made.

03:37:38.320 If we talk about, first of all, our rights as women and our bodies, then yeah, I do feel

03:37:42.880 like there are, there are many multitudes of reasons where I feel like men are able to

03:37:48.520 get into positions of power easier and are able to make decisions that affect all of us,

03:37:54.280 men and women and in between.

03:37:55.740 Okay, so you touched on a lot of things there.

03:37:59.080 You talked about rights, women's rights, when it comes to, right, I'm assuming you're talking

03:38:05.340 about abortion.

03:38:08.100 There are more men in the higher positions of power, politicians, CEOs.

03:38:16.920 And entertainment.

03:38:19.600 Well, I suppose it depends which form of entertainment.

03:38:23.000 Yeah, but most mainstream media is controlled by men.

03:38:26.500 But here's the thing.

03:38:29.780 If men are at the top of, top of the pyramid, right?

03:38:36.380 The patriarchy posits that it's a society built by men for men.

03:38:43.220 I agree with the first part.

03:38:45.100 Society certainly was built by men, but it wasn't for the benefit of men.

03:38:49.080 What do you mean by that?

03:38:52.000 There's not some conspiracy.

03:38:54.120 There's not some cabal of men that got together that have all the power and said, we want to

03:39:00.060 empower our gender.

03:39:02.280 Powerful people want to empower themselves.

03:39:04.980 They want to empower powerful people.

03:39:08.940 People with power want to continue having power.

03:39:10.900 It's not about their gender.

03:39:11.800 I think if we look historically at the fact that, okay, like, for example, like women,

03:39:17.020 women over a century ago were finally given the ability to vote, right? 1.00

03:39:21.860 If we look at historically, women historically have not been able to create the roots of being 0.98

03:39:28.200 able to, I hate that chair.

03:39:30.720 Sorry, I like lost my voice.

03:39:31.840 I know. 0.98

03:39:32.440 We should have swapped it at the fucking beginning. 0.98

03:39:33.620 That just made me combust my point. 0.99

03:39:35.040 If women were able to, let's say, vote the whole time, right, and they were able to have 1.00

03:39:44.340 the same opportunities as men 300, 400 years ago, like, for example, when the U.S. was founded.

03:39:48.660 400 years ago.

03:39:49.720 No, I'm just saying like an arbitrary number of years ago, right?

03:39:52.380 Like, let's say like all parts of all governments in all parts of the world were like able to

03:39:58.880 give women this exact same opportunities to make decisions for everyone else as men are.

03:40:04.100 We would be in a completely different place.

03:40:06.380 Women are only recently able to do many things, the same things as men. 0.95

03:40:11.480 How long has civilization been around?

03:40:14.320 A long time, dude.

03:40:15.440 Thousands of years?

03:40:16.260 Yes.

03:40:17.020 How long have we had democracy?

03:40:20.980 In this country?

03:40:22.600 Sure.

03:40:23.800 Quite recently in the grand scheme of things.

03:40:26.020 Okay.

03:40:26.720 And who has made choices for most of history?

03:40:31.780 Men or women? 0.78

03:40:32.600 Men have made the majority of choices, but it's not, they didn't make the choices for

03:40:37.820 men.

03:40:38.100 By the way, there have been queens who are monarchs and whatnot.

03:40:41.880 Of course, but who is a majority?

03:40:43.060 Since we're talking about generalities, we're talking about men.

03:40:46.240 Men, but it doesn't mean that, it doesn't mean that they, they have somehow.

03:40:50.940 And who do people.

03:40:52.020 Hold on, let me finish.

03:40:52.840 It doesn't mean, just because men were in power doesn't mean that they oppressed women.

03:40:57.340 It doesn't mean that they made laws to benefit men at, and at the expense of women.

03:41:04.580 So why weren't women able to vote for such a long time? 1.00

03:41:07.440 I'll tell you why.

03:41:08.100 First of all, voting's a very new thing.

03:41:10.560 Well, why weren't they able to vote the same time as you?

03:41:12.180 Hold on.

03:41:12.660 Before there was voting, it was tyrants and kings and monarchs and dictators.

03:41:19.800 So voting is a very new phenomenon.

03:41:22.740 Okay, but...

03:41:23.740 I think you're like pretending to be dense about the point.

03:41:26.200 I'm not being dense.

03:41:27.040 No, it's all men, right? 0.67

03:41:28.720 And regardless, mostly men.

03:41:30.940 How long do you think all men have had the right to vote?

03:41:35.040 Whatever, dude.

03:41:35.380 Do you think it was when they were king?

03:41:37.000 Sorry, it's just so late.

03:41:38.580 And honestly, this is such a, this conversation is like, you understand what I'm saying.

03:41:43.240 And I'm pretty sure they understand what I'm saying.

03:41:45.480 It's really clear that for most of history, men have had power.

03:41:49.100 No, you're wrong.

03:41:50.360 Men, of course, have had the ability to really benefit people that were just like them, which are usually utter men.

03:41:57.740 Men had families and wives and daughters.

03:42:00.220 Was it always on love?

03:42:01.280 You said earlier that that is a new concept.

03:42:03.440 That's kind of irrelevant.

03:42:04.360 It is absolutely irrelevant because this is focused on power and not on...

03:42:08.280 You said men had power. 0.89

03:42:09.420 What percentage of men had power? 0.96

03:42:11.500 What are you talking about?

03:42:13.040 You think all men had power? 1.00

03:42:14.800 That is not what I said.

03:42:15.960 You said men had power. 0.89

03:42:17.380 Which men?

03:42:18.700 Generally speaking, right?

03:42:20.040 Most men had power, Brian.

03:42:21.580 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

03:42:22.580 A very small minority of men throughout all human history had power.

03:42:28.340 Yes, and they were men.

03:42:29.340 They were all men. 0.99

03:42:30.480 Yes, they happened to be men, but they didn't set up society for the benefit of men.

03:42:36.880 Okay, we're not saying that they purposely went out of their way to create a society where women are in a position to fail. 0.51

03:42:43.960 You're right.

03:42:44.580 The powerful only aim to make themselves more powerful, and the fact of the matter is that it was mostly men.

03:42:50.920 It's not really like they were making decisions with women in mind because there were no women around.

03:42:57.740 It's literally that easy.

03:42:59.940 You mentioned voting.

03:43:01.840 So for the vast majority of human history, nobody had the right to vote.

03:43:06.720 A very small percentage.

03:43:08.220 During the ancient Greek and Roman history, people were voting, and they were men.

03:43:15.900 Are you talking about like the Senate and the Congress?

03:43:19.060 Yeah.

03:43:19.740 Okay, let's talk about the... 0.99

03:43:20.860 Okay, voting, whatever the fuck. 1.00

03:43:24.700 Men decided when women could vote. 1.00

03:43:26.800 I will tell you...

03:43:27.640 Because women fought for their rights to do that. 1.00

03:43:29.780 Let me ask you a question.

03:43:30.720 If men wanted to hold power, and men had all the power, then why would they have allowed women the right to vote? 0.98

03:43:41.140 It was men that granted women the right to vote. 0.82

03:43:44.080 Because it was the right thing to do.

03:43:46.260 Now...

03:43:46.900 Do you hear yourself, bro?

03:43:48.820 What do you mean?

03:43:49.700 I just said it was the right thing to do to give women the vote. 0.98

03:43:52.260 Of course I hear myself.

03:43:53.200 Thanks so much, dude.

03:43:54.680 But before that, men granted women the power to vote. 0.98

03:43:58.700 Because men were in power.

03:44:01.060 You just proved our point.

03:44:02.020 But I don't think you realize how different society was 100, 200 years ago.

03:44:07.360 It was very different.

03:44:08.480 But speaking on the right to vote...

03:44:11.260 So, Eric, if you can find in the infographics chart, there's a voting one.

03:44:17.600 So, the reason that men widely got the right to vote before women... 1.00

03:44:21.960 Who gave men the right to vote? 1.00

03:44:23.720 Huh?

03:44:24.160 Who gave men the right to vote? 1.00

03:44:25.680 Who gave men the right to vote? 1.00

03:44:27.040 Let me finish my point.

03:44:28.700 So, men got the right to vote before women because men were subject to military conscription.

03:44:36.560 Men...

03:44:37.360 If you elected a representative to represent you in the government, that representative could then vote to send you to war.

03:44:46.260 Men, being the exclusive, let's say, victims of forced military conscription, ought to have more of a right and a say.

03:44:55.700 And men got a privilege.

03:44:59.760 And that privilege came with a corresponding responsibility.

03:45:03.100 That corresponding responsibility was, you have to go to France and die in the trenches.

03:45:10.060 You have to go get trench foot.

03:45:12.200 You have to go get chemical gas by the Germans. 1.00

03:45:14.600 That was the corresponding responsibility.

03:45:17.840 That's how men got the right to vote before women. 1.00

03:45:20.520 There were women out there, too. 1.00

03:45:22.700 There were women in World War I? 1.00

03:45:25.020 Weren't there?

03:45:26.540 You think there were female soldiers in World War I? 1.00

03:45:29.740 I think that there were female workers aiding the military during war. 1.00

03:45:34.160 Were there women in the trenches in France? 1.00

03:45:37.260 Honestly?

03:45:38.120 Probably.

03:45:38.820 Maybe they cut their hair, blend it in.

03:45:41.400 Who knows, bro?

03:45:42.560 What I'm saying is that, what I'm saying is that, like, women were still a part of that, still a part of that process.

03:45:48.740 Even if they weren't out there fighting, which they could have been, they could have been out there fighting, you know, but they were oftentimes not.

03:45:57.000 But they were still a part of that system.

03:46:00.700 They were still out there.

03:46:02.020 They were still putting their lives at risk.

03:46:04.540 In World War I?

03:46:09.080 Do you think that there were women in Ardennes, the Ardennes Forest?

03:46:13.720 Also, Brian.

03:46:14.440 Gallipoli.

03:46:15.200 I will say.

03:46:15.840 Sinai, Suez.

03:46:16.780 It is quite late.

03:46:17.820 We're going to wrap soon.

03:46:19.360 Let's finish up this point, and then we're going to wrap.

03:46:21.360 So, okay, there were almost, besides there might have been, like, a very small Russian contingent of female soldiers. 1.00

03:46:30.780 I'm not even sure if that's the case.

03:46:32.180 It might have been, like, a thousand women in Russia. 1.00

03:46:36.080 There were no women in the trenches. 1.00

03:46:37.900 And why was that?

03:46:39.000 That could have been different.

03:46:40.500 There's probably a universe where there were women who were soldiers. 1.00

03:46:43.860 Wait, a universe where there were?

03:46:45.900 What are you talking about?

03:46:46.600 Are you talking about the multiverse?

03:46:47.800 I don't know what we're talking about.

03:46:48.620 Dude, what I'm saying is, like.

03:46:49.280 Women were not in the trenches in World War I.

03:46:51.360 Yeah, but they could have been.

03:46:52.380 Okay, do you know when World War I occurred?

03:46:54.860 No.

03:46:55.480 Okay, 1914 to 1918 is when World War I occurred.

03:46:59.260 Do you know what happened in 1918?

03:47:01.140 What happened?

03:47:02.080 And then in 1920.

03:47:04.200 Women's suffrage occurred conveniently after World War I.

03:47:09.640 Women secured the right to vote after one of the deadliest wars that had ever occurred in human history. 0.97

03:47:15.280 And women were able to secure the right to vote without the corresponding responsibility 0.99

03:47:20.100 because women, still to this day, are not subject to forced military conscription and the draft.

03:47:26.380 Didn't most of the women who stayed back home make up the majority of the workforce, 1.00

03:47:29.620 causing the economy to still continue, even though the men were away, and step up?

03:47:35.540 Women absolutely contributed to the war effort. 1.00

03:47:38.180 However, their contribution pales in comparison to the sacrifices that men made on the front.

03:47:46.520 I don't think.

03:47:47.100 Men died. 0.74

03:47:47.740 Okay.

03:47:48.160 Men returned.

03:47:48.600 So you're saying that a bunch of women had to have also died in order to have been treated with the same respect as men?

03:47:55.500 I don't think it's great that all those, you know, all those men died and like, you know, all that stuff.

03:48:00.620 But what I'm saying is like, it doesn't, like, I don't really understand.

03:48:04.880 And I don't think, I don't understand what the point that you're trying to get across because the reality is really simple.

03:48:11.780 And the generality is also very simple.

03:48:13.880 Men have had most of the power and women have had to fight for it. 1.00

03:48:17.140 And it's really that simple.

03:48:18.120 And that's really why the patriarchy exists.

03:48:21.440 It's not because men are malicious towards women and wanted to put us down.

03:48:24.960 That's just how it played out.

03:48:26.400 That's just how it is.

03:48:27.240 And we ended up here.

03:48:28.160 But we were talking about the right to vote and the way that men got the right to vote broadly.

03:48:35.140 Was because they were a part of the military and that, yes, we've heard you.

03:48:37.800 Because men were subject to military conscription.

03:48:40.000 Yes.

03:48:40.400 So that's why that inequality existed.

03:48:43.020 Women were granted the right to vote conveniently after one of the most brutal wars that humanity has ever seen. 1.00

03:48:50.100 However, they were able, women were able to secure the vote without the corresponding responsibility. 1.00

03:48:56.720 Women, to this day, in 2023, are not subject to military conscription in the USA.

03:49:03.740 They are not subject to the draft.

03:49:05.780 Really?

03:49:07.920 I thought that women were a part of the draft in 2019 or 2020. 1.00

03:49:13.240 I thought that happened recently.

03:49:13.860 Women can join the military, but if a war were to break out, women would not be subject to the draft.

03:49:19.400 Women would not be in the draft because we have to produce. 1.00

03:49:21.440 Like, we are the ones that can bear children.

03:49:23.220 Okay.

03:49:23.660 Well, then I guess that's just that.

03:49:25.960 Like, that's just how the cards played out then, I guess. 1.00

03:49:31.200 So, I want to, oh, shit. 0.99

03:49:32.860 Has that been going off this whole time? 0.97

03:49:34.520 Eric, can you go into, and I do need to pull up that infographics tab.

03:49:38.480 What's that?

03:49:39.900 What's up?

03:49:40.700 Oh, okay. 0.95

03:49:42.040 Eric, just in the infograph, actually, fuck, I don't know if it's in the documents. 0.98

03:49:45.580 Oh, what do you, oh, shit, you're going to have to, can you fix that? 0.98

03:49:48.240 Put it on a display. 0.98

03:49:49.520 Yeah, put it on the other one. 0.98

03:49:50.500 Shit, I'm trying to find it. 0.99

03:49:53.120 I don't know if I can find it. 0.99

03:49:54.860 Is it in study?

03:49:56.060 Brian, I am going to head out soon.

03:49:57.800 Yeah, we're going to wrap here soon.

03:49:58.800 Okay, it's 1120.

03:49:59.900 Yeah, yeah, we're going to wrap.

03:50:01.160 So, oh, this is the chart I was going to show you.

03:50:04.240 So, this is in the U.K., so not the U.S., but the U.S. is pretty similar to this.

03:50:11.260 So, if you look at the bottom there, men and women, men is the blue, women is the pink.

03:50:16.060 So, in the 1600s to the 1700s, men, a very small percentage of men did have the vote.

03:50:24.060 Very small percentage.

03:50:25.420 And then, as you see, it kind of gets into the 1800s, a bit more men have the right to vote.

03:50:30.400 Still, women don't, right? 1.00

03:50:31.800 Sure.

03:50:32.060 And then, in the early 1900s, that's when it just totally equalizes, and there's equality.

03:50:41.160 So, over the course of history, both men and women were oppressed.

03:50:45.100 Both men and women did not have the right to vote.

03:50:47.420 The reason men got the right to vote is because, once again, is because we were subject to military conscription.

03:50:54.360 And we are subject to military conscription to this day.

03:50:57.820 I'd like to show you guys something here.

03:50:59.680 Maybe, Eric, if you can hold it.

03:51:01.160 But, here, we'll put it right here so the girls can see. 1.00

03:51:03.560 Let me.

03:51:05.240 I don't know if that.

03:51:06.460 Was it men of 25 years or men in 25 years?

03:51:10.800 Wait.

03:51:13.080 Okay.

03:51:14.640 I'll read it.

03:51:16.260 So, men 18 to 25 years.

03:51:19.400 You can handle this.

03:51:20.660 So, this here is a draft registration form.

03:51:28.580 And on the front, you see it says, men 18 to 25 years old.

03:51:32.640 Only men are subject to that.

03:51:35.740 Okay.

03:51:36.660 Okay.

03:51:37.560 I mean, it was men that decided that.

03:51:40.420 So, there are women, there are women in Congress. 1.00

03:51:45.340 Who's the majority?

03:51:46.720 Men.

03:51:47.240 It doesn't.

03:51:47.560 It kind of does.

03:51:48.440 Yeah.

03:51:48.840 It doesn't matter because that's a small minority of men that have power and women who have power. 1.00

03:51:54.200 But the exception doesn't make the rule right.

03:51:56.320 So, it's majorly men.

03:51:57.540 It's generally men who have this power and who decide I should do this.

03:52:00.620 You're almost victim blaming now.

03:52:02.200 It doesn't matter.

03:52:03.660 How am I victim blaming?

03:52:05.020 I'm saying that the.

03:52:05.920 Because men are oppressed in this country.

03:52:09.460 You disagree.

03:52:10.800 I've just provided you a systematic way.

03:52:14.640 Men oppressed men. 0.96

03:52:15.440 Cool.

03:52:15.500 I will not disagree with you, but you also.

03:52:18.520 Like, I will not disagree with you, but women are also oppressed. 1.00

03:52:21.180 Like, I don't understand the point here.

03:52:23.200 The system is flawed and it truly doesn't benefit anyone other than like the top 1% people of the world.

03:52:30.160 So, like what?

03:52:30.760 Every single man.

03:52:32.180 Okay.

03:52:32.420 The government agency that controls the draft registration is called the Selective Service System.

03:52:40.440 It's literally a system.

03:52:42.360 Add women on the draft, bro. 1.00

03:52:43.900 Do it.

03:52:44.560 Why isn't that happening then?

03:52:46.220 Like, I don't see.

03:52:48.120 You don't see feminists in the street protesting for women to be drafted. 1.00

03:52:53.840 I don't see a lot of men protesting in the street against the overturn of Roe versus Wade.

03:52:59.500 Like, what?

03:53:00.000 Well, men don't have any reproductive rights to begin with. 0.99

03:53:03.440 Okay.

03:53:03.800 But we are women and you interact with us every single day. 1.00

03:53:08.360 So, why do our bodies not matter?

03:53:11.200 But that's like a whole separate point.

03:53:12.520 Yeah.

03:53:12.540 We won't.

03:53:13.580 That's like a whole other thing.

03:53:14.400 We won't get into Roe versus Wade.

03:53:15.800 And I'm just saying like, okay, then add women to the draft, bro. 0.99

03:53:18.780 But like, we as civilian people do not have that power because that power is ultimately held by people in a certain group.

03:53:26.580 And, you know, if more people were like, okay, like, let's add women to the draft, like, then do that. 1.00

03:53:32.720 I don't, like, I don't understand the point trying to be made here.

03:53:36.600 The system is flawed and works for no one except for a select group of people.

03:53:39.700 And that's facts, whether you're a man or a woman.

03:53:41.540 Well, the only reason I bring it up is because you guys used women's inability at a period of time in history that they weren't able to vote.

03:53:49.640 And I was trying to explain to you why men got that privilege before women did.

03:53:54.760 However, women were able to secure the privilege of voting without the corresponding responsibility and duty, which men to this day still have. 0.74

03:54:05.080 Yeah.

03:54:05.360 So, you're agreeing that there is an inequality there.

03:54:09.000 Regardless of what it is, there is an inequality there.

03:54:11.540 Inequality towards men to this day, yes.

03:54:14.060 Inequality towards both genders, bro. 1.00

03:54:17.580 I mean, honestly, if women would have been subject to the draft in 1914, I don't suspect a lot of them would have been vying for the right to vote in 1914.

03:54:31.440 Well, we don't know how that, that didn't happen, so we don't know how that would have played out.

03:54:34.700 Well, it's a hypothetical situation, so.

03:54:37.200 Do you think that there are more women nowadays that, like, how do I put this? 0.80

03:54:45.040 Like, for instance, that you guys are speaking out, like, sharing your views about feminism and voting and all the things, but there are plenty of women that don't want that right, that don't, that think that, that still think in those, like, you know, the mom, the woman should stay home and be the wife and cook and clean and take care of the kids.

03:55:08.000 Like, there are those, that's, there, those people still exist.

03:55:11.580 Sure.

03:55:12.180 And they just don't have, they choose not to speak because that isn't, does that make sense?

03:55:20.440 Also, I don't mean to interrupt your phone, but it's about to be 1130.

03:55:24.020 Yeah, no, I'm planning on wrapping.

03:55:26.240 Let me do these last two Super Chats and then we'll wrap.

03:55:28.880 Yo, uh, strings.

03:55:31.820 Kazumi, do you got these?

03:55:32.900 You got these, Kazumi.

03:55:34.340 Anyway, men should stop watching corn and do like Kazumi said, all stream touch grass.

03:55:39.100 Huh?

03:55:40.060 All stream touch grass.

03:55:41.800 But no lie, it is sad that we live in a world where a very smart woman like Kazumi decides to do corn. 1.00

03:55:46.720 Okay, kind of complimented you.

03:55:48.140 It's a blessing I do corn for you guys.

03:55:50.740 Okay.

03:55:51.740 John Doe, thank you.

03:55:52.500 Michaela is wifey material. 1.00

03:55:54.760 Oh, there you go, Michaela.

03:55:56.120 Thank you, John Doe.

03:55:56.680 All right, Donovan Fletcher.

03:55:58.220 Men and women have struggled through immensely difficult obstacles throughout history to bring about comfort of modern society.

03:56:04.300 Men died, women provided. 1.00

03:56:05.960 It was a team effort.

03:56:07.200 I would say we all died and we all provided.

03:56:09.600 I think, yeah, I mean, just really quick to just address that.

03:56:12.860 I think both men and women have each, we've each had our own struggles and difficulties.

03:56:20.240 And I think trying to view the relationship between men and women as oppressor and oppressed,

03:56:27.460 I just, I think men and women fundamentally throughout all of history have cooperated with each other.

03:56:34.320 Life was certainly in the past a very difficult thing.

03:56:38.860 We don't have, we take some of the modern comforts that we have today for granted.

03:56:44.780 And I think men and women fundamentally cooperated throughout history.

03:56:48.280 And I think it's an unfortunate, it's an unfortunate view that we've basically pitted the sexes against each other by purporting that men as a class have oppressed women as a class.

03:57:01.280 And I think it teaches women to have contempt for men. 0.98

03:57:04.640 And it's no surprise.

03:57:06.120 Well, anyways, I, we don't, I'll get these last two super chats.

03:57:09.740 Okay.

03:57:10.640 Do you want to get this one?

03:57:11.900 Andrew Tate is about to, is about to, is the no strings attached like two puppets, like just talking?

03:57:17.080 That's kind of cute.

03:57:19.360 Andrew Tate is about to delete himself.

03:57:21.160 Like the girl said, he changed his will to give money to men falsely accused of R.

03:57:25.380 This is very dangerous for a woman because the Tate fans will blame feminism. 1.00

03:57:28.980 None of these words are in the Bible.

03:57:30.340 I don't know what the hell that means.

03:57:31.980 Yo, Donnie, Donnie Jep, thank you for the membership.

03:57:33.880 Okay, I'm going to wrap.

03:57:35.780 Anyone last words, last thoughts?

03:57:38.100 Otherwise, I'm going to.

03:57:39.340 That's it.

03:57:40.060 My OF is $3.

03:57:42.160 See you there.

03:57:43.100 Yo, guys, show, yeah, show them some love.

03:57:45.000 You know, we definitely went late.

03:57:45.980 Follow me on Instagram and TikTok.

03:57:47.620 My.

03:57:47.980 At Kayla Cakes.

03:57:49.280 I say my Venmo.

03:57:49.960 Oh my God.

03:57:50.960 Nobody's going to Venmo you, Sydney.

03:57:52.840 My Venmo is Bask of Sydney.

03:57:55.840 My at is Kazumi's World on OF.

03:57:59.180 Oh, what?

03:58:00.860 Click my link in the comments, y'all.

03:58:03.260 Wait.

03:58:04.260 Eric, why are you pulling this up?

03:58:07.040 Oh, okay.

03:58:07.780 All right.

03:58:08.060 Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.

03:58:09.900 All right.

03:58:10.320 Guys, thank you for tuning in tonight.

03:58:12.300 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

03:58:15.480 I appreciate that.

03:58:16.720 Thanks to everyone who super chats and supports the show.

03:58:19.340 I really appreciate you.

03:58:20.860 Like I said, YouTube demonetization kicked out the TikTok creator fund.

03:58:24.660 So guys, really appreciate your patronage.

03:58:26.960 It really means the world to me.

03:58:29.080 Thank you guys so much, especially all the recent support.

03:58:32.660 Yeah.

03:58:33.340 Thank you to all our chat mods.

03:58:35.020 Shout out to Chaz.

03:58:35.720 Thank you, man.

03:58:36.400 Thank you to the wonderful panel.

03:58:39.080 Thank you guys.

03:58:39.640 I know we had a couple of heated moments there, but it was, I thought there was a fun little

03:58:42.920 debate there.

03:58:43.620 And yeah, thank you guys for your patience there while we did go a little bit late.

03:58:48.480 And thank you all for coming.

03:58:49.380 And guys, we will be live again Sunday at 7 p.m. Pacific.

03:58:55.840 Be sure to tune in.

03:58:57.080 Anyways, guys, we will see you next time.

03:58:59.340 Good night, guys.

03:59:01.800 Oh, wait, wait.

03:59:02.440 Meow.

03:59:03.220 Body count?

03:59:04.420 What's your body count?

03:59:05.580 Body count?

03:59:06.100 What's your body count?

03:59:07.080 Kazumi, Kazumi, what's the body count?

03:59:08.460 We're at one million.

03:59:09.860 Good night.

03:59:10.260 All right.

03:59:10.580 See you guys.

03:59:11.060 Bye.

03:59:11.260 Good night.

Whatever Podcast - February 09, 2023

Dating Talk #53

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