Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #56

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00:03:24.060 Eric, if you can just pull it up real quick.

00:03:26.300 I have to reload it.

00:03:27.700 Oh, it got all messed up?

00:03:29.080 Yeah.

00:03:29.600 Okay, no worries.

00:03:32.340 You think you'll be able to get it or is it just bugging out?

00:03:35.680 Yeah, just as page unresponsive.

00:03:38.540 Just try to reload it.

00:03:42.200 Yeah, so, oh, let's see.

00:03:44.640 Last thing here.

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00:03:52.980 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:03:56.500 So, please tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:03:59.580 Go ahead.

00:03:59.820 And before you start, just move your microphone over a little bit.

00:04:03.520 Go ahead.

00:04:04.300 Hi, I'm Liz Myers.

00:04:06.380 I'm 24, and I own a car wrapping company.

00:04:10.140 I'm an IE.

00:04:12.960 I'm 21.

00:04:13.980 I go to SVCC, and I'm a nanny.

00:04:18.600 I think we need another seat booster for you.

00:04:21.640 Actually, you know what?

00:04:22.620 Tilt the microphone down.

00:04:23.740 Her neck is like, what? 0.78

00:04:24.800 Yeah, tilt the microphone down. 0.99

00:04:28.620 There you go.

00:04:29.300 Perfect.

00:04:30.340 Go ahead.

00:04:30.520 My name is Brianna.

00:04:32.080 I'm 18 years old, and I go to UCSB.

00:04:34.960 My name is Kaylin.

00:04:36.240 I'm 19 years old, and I also go to UCSB.

00:04:38.860 My name is Faith.

00:04:40.100 I'm 21 and recently unemployed.

00:04:43.080 My name is Daisy.

00:04:44.460 I'm 26, and I'm an associate banker.

00:04:48.740 Yo, my name is Thomas.

00:04:50.120 I'm a singer and rapper, Captain Bamalam.

00:04:54.380 I also go to school for business and marketing.

00:04:58.080 I'm studying to get my personal certification and nutritionist certification, and my mission

00:05:03.320 for living is to help people become a little bit better than they were yesterday.

00:05:06.780 Let's go.

00:05:07.400 Thank you for having me on.

00:05:09.600 Well, thanks, everyone, for coming.

00:05:11.900 You said you're a rapper?

00:05:13.500 All right, let's hear it.

00:05:14.240 I mean, okay.

00:05:15.260 Let's hear it.

00:05:15.940 We got to hear it.

00:05:17.600 Captain Bamalam, riding on the wave again.

00:05:19.500 I'm rowing gently down the creek of this life I'm living flowing.

00:05:21.700 Everybody got the rise of me.

00:05:23.080 They wonder what I'm doing.

00:05:24.100 Don't have time to stop a mama on it. 1.00

00:05:25.480 Don't have time to show them.

00:05:26.320 I'm the man with the plan.

00:05:27.460 No, I can.

00:05:27.980 That's my slogan.

00:05:28.560 Never rank.

00:05:29.020 You say I can't.

00:05:29.580 I'm on a rant.

00:05:30.140 I'm about to go.

00:05:31.040 And everything you thought you knew about life erased.

00:05:33.680 Just forget it.

00:05:34.280 It is time to change our lives and start a new beginning.

00:05:36.260 Life ain't about that new watch, stack of cash, or stolen bins.

00:05:38.480 It's about family, love, happiness, couple kids.

00:05:40.880 Gotta help them, not just watch them when they're growing up.

00:05:42.780 Show them what life's about.

00:05:43.900 Being kind and out of love.

00:05:45.040 They will be what's left of you when it's time to rise above.

00:05:47.040 Know your role so they don't live their whole life feeling stuck.

00:05:51.840 Cool.

00:05:53.040 I was like, we beat up.

00:05:55.900 Thank you.

00:05:56.860 Thank you.

00:05:57.160 Cool.

00:05:58.000 What's that term in the music industry?

00:06:00.840 A&R?

00:06:01.980 Or no, it's something in repertoire.

00:06:05.040 It's like people that are scouting for musicians. 0.99

00:06:08.260 I forgot the fucking name. 0.99

00:06:09.140 In any case. 1.00

00:06:09.360 I'm not that smart.

00:06:10.640 Okay.

00:06:11.760 So, we're going to go around the table.

00:06:13.680 Actually, before we do that, let's see here.

00:06:17.080 Yeah.

00:06:17.360 No, we'll go around the table on this.

00:06:19.600 So, current relationship status, longest relationship, and yeah.

00:06:23.800 Also, just, I need you to move your microphone that way because the microphone is like blocking

00:06:27.240 your face.

00:06:27.940 There we go.

00:06:28.380 Oh, yeah.

00:06:28.700 I'm 27, by the way.

00:06:29.820 I forgot to say that.

00:06:30.640 Cool.

00:06:32.960 The rap took over?

00:06:34.700 Yeah, music.

00:06:35.360 Yeah.

00:06:38.220 Oh, I'm in a relationship.

00:06:39.700 And it's the longest relationship I've been in, about four years.

00:06:43.600 Right now, I'm in about a two and a half one.

00:06:47.420 I'm single.

00:06:48.800 Longest relationship I was in was a year, I believe.

00:06:54.840 I'm not single.

00:06:55.760 I'm dating somebody.

00:06:56.680 And I think this is the longest relationship I've been in, almost a year, in April.

00:07:00.180 So, was it a high school relationship?

00:07:02.540 Yes.

00:07:03.080 Because you're a freshman in college, correct?

00:07:06.120 Yeah.

00:07:06.460 By the way, did you two say what you're studying?

00:07:09.220 I'm a sociology major.

00:07:10.700 Sosh? 0.99

00:07:11.080 I'm also sociology.

00:07:13.040 Okay.

00:07:14.040 All right.

00:07:15.540 So, okay.

00:07:16.620 One year.

00:07:17.460 So, you met him in high school?

00:07:19.280 Yes.

00:07:19.540 Is it long distance relationship?

00:07:21.140 Right now, yes.

00:07:22.180 Where is he?

00:07:23.180 He's back home.

00:07:24.320 Where's that?

00:07:25.240 In San Bernardino.

00:07:26.560 Okay.

00:07:26.880 It's not too far.

00:07:27.600 That's like a medium distance relationship.

00:07:29.620 Yeah.

00:07:29.960 Medium distance.

00:07:30.560 Two hours.

00:07:30.980 What about you?

00:07:33.500 I'm currently single.

00:07:34.800 The longest relationship I've been in has been nine months.

00:07:39.180 Okay.

00:07:41.880 I'm married.

00:07:43.320 And the longest relationship I've been in was like three and a half-ish years.

00:07:48.600 It was off and on, so it's hard to count.

00:07:50.580 How long have you been married?

00:07:52.120 Six months.

00:07:53.420 Okay.

00:07:53.700 And how long were you dating him before you got married?

00:08:04.240 Go deep.

00:08:05.000 Eight months.

00:08:06.900 So, total time together is like about a year and a half-ish.

00:08:10.880 Yeah.

00:08:11.040 Okay.

00:08:13.040 I am in a relationship, and my longest relationship was six years.

00:08:18.240 Um, and the relationship I'm in now, it's been like a year and a half.

00:08:25.180 Don't.

00:08:26.360 I'm single, and the longest relationship that I've been in is a year and a half.

00:08:31.820 Okay.

00:08:32.280 Rock and roll.

00:08:33.340 Kayla, by the way.

00:08:35.440 Oh, you're Kayla.

00:08:36.900 Kaylin.

00:08:37.700 Kaylin.

00:08:38.180 Yeah.

00:08:39.060 Kaylin.

00:08:39.980 All right. 0.91

00:08:40.400 I'm going to butcher all your names, I'm sure, by the end of the night. 0.95

00:08:42.520 It's okay. 0.79

00:08:42.800 Uh, I, I looked at some of your guys' Instagrams, and Kaylin, I noticed you have a lizard.

00:08:51.100 I do, yeah.

00:08:52.220 What's his or her name?

00:08:53.560 Her name is Cleo.

00:08:55.260 I kind of pegged you as, well, not in that way.

00:08:57.480 I pegged you as, like, as a reptile chick. 1.00

00:09:00.080 Oh, yeah.

00:09:00.940 Like, you know how there's snake people, and there's, like, dog people and cat people?

00:09:05.520 She's a, she's a reptile chick. 1.00

00:09:06.940 I am.

00:09:07.220 Yeah, definitely.

00:09:07.800 I can, I get that impression from you.

00:09:10.820 I understand Cleo, for sure.

00:09:12.220 Yeah.

00:09:12.380 We love her.

00:09:12.800 We love her. 0.99

00:09:13.300 Like, reptile, like, what is it, a monitor lizard or some shit? 0.99

00:09:16.560 She's a bearded dragon. 0.99

00:09:17.260 A bearded dragon?

00:09:18.080 Yeah.

00:09:18.940 Okay.

00:09:19.340 I feel like lizard people are cool, but watch out for snake people. 0.64

00:09:22.700 No.

00:09:23.260 Yeah.

00:09:23.500 Snake people are kind of weird.

00:09:25.300 Yeah.

00:09:25.800 I love snakes.

00:09:27.260 Yeah.

00:09:27.980 You want to hear a sad story about a lizard?

00:09:30.140 I don't know.

00:09:30.900 Do I?

00:09:31.400 No.

00:09:31.940 Okay, then no.

00:09:32.640 Okay.

00:09:34.400 All right.

00:09:35.760 Okay, cool.

00:09:36.580 So, I want to start this show off with an easy question.

00:09:40.880 Easy question here.

00:09:41.600 So, would you guys date?

00:09:44.700 Let's say, like, you, who, first off, who here is on a, has been or is on a dating app?

00:09:49.700 Show of hands.

00:09:50.780 Has been.

00:09:51.240 Has been.

00:09:51.880 Has been at some point.

00:09:53.080 Okay.

00:09:53.280 Let's say you match with a guy on a dating app.

00:09:56.800 Really attractive, right?

00:09:57.920 You're into him.

00:09:58.840 You meet up with him on the date, and he's wearing, hold on.

00:10:03.180 He's wearing a fanny pack.

00:10:05.000 Okay.

00:10:05.440 Like, around his waist.

00:10:11.800 Is it, is it a wrap?

00:10:13.380 Is it a, is it done?

00:10:15.460 We'll start with you.

00:10:16.280 Sorry.

00:10:16.760 Z, pay attention.

00:10:17.480 This one particular, this is kind of like a very, it's like a, how would you explain

00:10:23.620 this?

00:10:23.900 It's kind of like a.

00:10:24.760 Like the same color.

00:10:26.040 Trans, not translucent.

00:10:27.220 It's like.

00:10:27.920 Holographic.

00:10:28.780 Iridescent.

00:10:29.580 Iridescent.

00:10:30.200 Yeah.

00:10:30.320 There's like a.

00:10:30.940 It is chrome.

00:10:31.500 A shimmer to it.

00:10:32.760 It's just my chrome.

00:10:33.260 Pink.

00:10:33.940 So, your dude's wearing this.

00:10:36.360 It depends if it's like.

00:10:37.740 Is it a wrap?

00:10:38.380 It depends if it's a joke or not.

00:10:41.120 Like, if I would ask him, be like, what's up with the fanny pack?

00:10:43.640 It depends on his answer.

00:10:45.620 Okay.

00:10:46.280 I would give it.

00:10:47.380 I would go on the date.

00:10:48.540 I wouldn't just be like, no, and screw him over.

00:10:50.940 But, I would definitely ask what it's about.

00:10:56.040 Would you make him put it away?

00:10:57.700 Like, he has to stop. 0.99

00:10:59.940 I mean, if he's got shit to hold, then keep it. 0.99

00:11:03.420 Okay. 0.99

00:11:03.820 What about you?

00:11:05.020 I mean, I'm not a fan of the fanny pack, I guess.

00:11:08.620 But, I don't know.

00:11:09.700 I feel like, I don't, I really don't know.

00:11:12.660 Like, it depends, too.

00:11:13.740 Like, what is he doing with that?

00:11:15.760 What does he have in there?

00:11:17.220 What kind of things does he need to put in there?

00:11:19.420 Let me up the ante a little bit.

00:11:21.080 Oh, absolutely.

00:11:21.940 What about this one?

00:11:22.980 No.

00:11:24.520 No.

00:11:25.180 Done deal?

00:11:26.080 Yeah.

00:11:26.360 Okay.

00:11:26.820 We'll continue on.

00:11:27.640 Go ahead.

00:11:27.900 What about you?

00:11:28.860 I agree.

00:11:29.500 I wouldn't, like, completely just, like, let him go, you know.

00:11:32.620 But, I would be very curious, for sure.

00:11:35.380 By curious, do you mean judgmental?

00:11:38.940 Yeah, I guess.

00:11:39.820 100% judgmental.

00:11:41.020 Like, why?

00:11:42.440 Okay.

00:11:42.980 It's a first date.

00:11:43.780 Take it off.

00:11:44.680 Save it.

00:11:45.560 Okay.

00:11:45.860 Hide everything until, like, the third date, maybe.

00:11:47.460 All right.

00:11:47.980 What about you?

00:11:48.580 I agree with what she said.

00:11:49.960 I think, I don't think I'd be totally judgmental, but I think I would definitely have, like,

00:11:54.040 a different perspective on him after I saw it.

00:11:56.780 Okay.

00:11:57.400 Yeah.

00:11:57.620 If he was meaning it as, like, a joke, then I'd be, like, fine, whatever, but. 1.00

00:12:01.660 No, he, that shit's serious. 1.00

00:12:02.960 He's dead serious. 1.00

00:12:04.080 I mean.

00:12:04.820 It's convenient storage for.

00:12:06.440 I'd be, like, let's be friends.

00:12:07.500 I just.

00:12:08.120 It's a wrap.

00:12:09.000 Sorry, it's a wrap.

00:12:09.960 Let's say, so you're married, right?

00:12:11.460 You have a husband.

00:12:12.480 You said six months?

00:12:13.700 Mm-hmm.

00:12:15.060 Your husband just starts wearing, like, a pink floral fanny pack.

00:12:20.340 How many fanny packs have you got?

00:12:21.160 I know.

00:12:21.620 Yeah, I'm really wondering.

00:12:22.860 How many fanny packs are underneath there?

00:12:23.840 It's because he wears them.

00:12:25.020 Do you buy these for the video?

00:12:26.820 No, he already doesn't.

00:12:27.320 How much money did you spend on this?

00:12:28.480 I just had them, you know, just for real.

00:12:31.220 Do you take those on your first dates?

00:12:32.380 Oh, are we talking about you?

00:12:33.500 Are you the man that we're talking about?

00:12:35.220 Is the fanny pack the man in the room with us right now?

00:12:37.920 Listen, sometimes you need a couple extra pockets.

00:12:39.660 Hey, women are allowed to have purses. 1.00

00:12:41.020 Why can't a man have a purse? 0.97

00:12:42.180 It's a man purse.

00:12:42.360 Because our pockets are so big.

00:12:44.020 Yes, exactly.

00:12:45.620 Our pockets are small.

00:12:46.760 So your husband, your husband just starts wearing pink flanny packs.

00:12:52.300 I would tell him to take them off and hide them or throw them away.

00:12:59.180 Would you divorce your husband?

00:13:01.480 Of course I would not divorce my husband for that. 1.00

00:13:04.300 That's stupid. 1.00

00:13:05.380 But it's a conversation. 1.00

00:13:06.200 But it's a conversation I would definitely be having.

00:13:09.380 I'd be like, what's up with the fanny pack?

00:13:11.940 And if it's like, I don't know, it's a conversation.

00:13:14.800 And thankfully the man respects me that he would listen to my opinion.

00:13:18.120 Okay.

00:13:18.460 I wouldn't completely blow him off.

00:13:22.920 Same thing.

00:13:24.080 Just wonder why he's using it.

00:13:27.940 But if it's something he starts doing, maybe, I don't know, not a pink one.

00:13:33.140 A black one maybe. 1.00

00:13:34.880 Okay.

00:13:35.480 As long as it matches your outfit.

00:13:36.780 Yeah.

00:13:37.200 It has to look good.

00:13:40.780 Thomas, if you're...

00:13:42.300 Okay.

00:13:43.220 Lay it on me.

00:13:43.940 Well, I was going to...

00:13:46.640 You're straight, so I don't suspect you'd be dating a man who wears a fanny pack.

00:13:51.260 Absolutely not.

00:13:52.500 That's a deal breaker for me.

00:13:53.580 Last one.

00:13:54.340 Last one here.

00:13:58.200 Here, hide this, Eric.

00:14:00.000 Would you date a guy who had like a satchel?

00:14:03.780 You know, a satchel?

00:14:05.880 He wore a satchel.

00:14:06.980 I like the satchel.

00:14:07.820 I like Jack Black.

00:14:08.620 I like it.

00:14:09.200 Satchel?

00:14:09.860 Yeah.

00:14:10.140 Satchel?

00:14:13.700 Yeah.

00:14:14.340 Shows he's...

00:14:15.160 Maybe he got books in there or something.

00:14:16.820 Yeah.

00:14:16.980 What if he has a firearm in there?

00:14:18.580 Oh, absolutely not.

00:14:19.840 What?

00:14:20.540 Like for protection.

00:14:21.800 Um, no.

00:14:22.460 He also has some...

00:14:23.760 What?

00:14:24.280 No, I think that would scare me if he has a gun randomly on him.

00:14:27.360 Well, like for protection, you know?

00:14:29.820 Is this still...

00:14:30.340 Protect him from what?

00:14:31.140 Is this still the question of like a first date and he has a gun?

00:14:35.100 Well, he's...

00:14:35.640 Or he just like...

00:14:36.420 He's a firearms instructor and...

00:14:38.640 Oh, I like it.

00:14:39.460 Oh, keep working.

00:14:40.420 Okay.

00:14:40.820 Yeah, then.

00:14:41.580 I guess it's fine.

00:14:42.280 So, forget the firearm part.

00:14:43.520 Just satchel.

00:14:44.660 I like the satchel.

00:14:45.580 Satchel's cool.

00:14:46.240 I do like it.

00:14:46.540 I like the satchel.

00:14:47.500 It's not a little questionable?

00:14:49.300 Um, I think they just like...

00:14:51.260 It might seem like they're more smart or like educated with a satchel.

00:14:54.360 Have you seen Tangled?

00:14:56.120 Oh, you are so right.

00:14:57.880 Yes, Flynn Rider.

00:14:58.760 Flynn Rider with a satchel.

00:15:00.360 Um...

00:15:00.760 Instead of a gun, he has a frying...

00:15:04.760 Who is Flynn?

00:15:07.880 Flynn Rider?

00:15:08.640 A picture of Flynn Rider.

00:15:09.380 Who?

00:15:09.820 Flynn Rider from Tangled.

00:15:11.840 You know who's... 0.99

00:15:12.320 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

00:15:13.320 I have no idea who that is. 1.00

00:15:15.080 Okay.

00:15:15.460 Anyway, someone pull a picture.

00:15:17.200 But, um, satchel's not a big deal for me.

00:15:19.220 Oh, okay.

00:15:19.800 All right.

00:15:20.400 Go ahead.

00:15:20.600 Satchel's good.

00:15:21.520 Satchel is good.

00:15:21.600 All right.

00:15:21.820 She's down with the satchel.

00:15:22.980 Okay.

00:15:23.860 Whatever he wants in there too, that's good.

00:15:26.480 Okay.

00:15:27.100 Cool.

00:15:28.220 All right.

00:15:28.700 Um, so, we only have two, I think two single people here.

00:15:33.540 Because relationship, married, dating a guy, relationship.

00:15:39.060 Is it a relationship?

00:15:40.380 Oh, yeah.

00:15:41.260 I thought it was funny.

00:15:41.860 You're like dating a guy.

00:15:43.240 And you're like...

00:15:43.720 I don't know if you...

00:15:44.320 Did you say it's a relationship?

00:15:45.980 Yeah, it is.

00:15:46.500 Oh, okay.

00:15:47.240 All right.

00:15:47.680 Got it.

00:15:48.160 100%.

00:15:48.440 Just wanted to double check on that.

00:15:50.920 All right.

00:15:51.180 Cool.

00:15:51.900 Uh, Eric, can you, uh...

00:15:53.320 Actually, let's, uh, just get these super chats really quick.

00:15:56.400 Um, hold on.

00:15:57.360 By the way, guys, all super chats...

00:15:59.020 By the way, that's why everyone turns in to the stream week after week to know women's opinions on men wearing fanny packs and satchels.

00:16:08.620 All right.

00:16:09.620 Uh, so, all super chats will be...

00:16:13.080 All super chats, $20 and up, will be read.

00:16:15.720 All super chats will be displayed in the stream overlay.

00:16:17.780 50 and up triggers TTS.

00:16:20.340 All right.

00:16:21.260 So, uh, we'll start with this one really quick.

00:16:23.580 Uh, ask the ladies to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10. 1.00

00:16:26.040 We'll go around the table on this.

00:16:27.280 Go ahead.

00:16:28.340 I don't know.

00:16:29.060 Like, a 7.

00:16:30.580 Okay.

00:16:32.340 A 10.

00:16:34.460 All right.

00:16:35.360 What about you?

00:16:36.220 I would say, like, a 7 1⁄2.

00:16:40.080 I also think 7 1⁄2.

00:16:43.080 I don't know.

00:16:43.880 Uh, 6.5.

00:16:48.560 Okay.

00:16:49.920 I think a solid 6.

00:16:52.580 Should we rate ourselves?

00:16:54.100 Yeah, go ahead.

00:16:54.780 We'll do it.

00:16:56.120 What do you rate yourself?

00:16:57.340 I'm an 8.

00:16:59.880 All right.

00:17:00.360 Honestly.

00:17:00.780 I give myself 6, 6.9 on a good day.

00:17:04.280 Okay.

00:17:05.840 So, you're a 10.

00:17:06.720 Why are you a 10?

00:17:08.120 Because I'm pretty.

00:17:09.800 Look at her.

00:17:10.340 She's definitely a 10. 0.96

00:17:11.260 Well, you can, you can be pretty.

00:17:12.400 I think all of us here are 10s.

00:17:13.680 Oh, thank you.

00:17:14.380 I'll bring that back up again.

00:17:16.080 What?

00:17:16.640 But you can, you can be pretty without being a 10.

00:17:20.880 Like, you could be a 7 and pretty.

00:17:22.420 Why would I rate myself lower?

00:17:23.700 I'm going to ask you that.

00:17:24.660 Why would I do that to myself?

00:17:26.040 Why would I think of myself lower?

00:17:28.140 That, I'm, I have respect for myself.

00:17:30.360 Like, truth.

00:17:31.020 And I value myself.

00:17:31.760 That whole thing.

00:17:32.880 So, honesty.

00:17:34.160 I feel, I'm sorry.

00:17:35.300 I'm sorry.

00:17:35.540 Go ahead. 0.99

00:17:35.800 But I feel like rating yourself is kind of like, in my head, kind of bullshit. 0.99

00:17:40.540 I feel like other people should be rating you. 0.97

00:17:42.740 You can rate yourself a 10 as long as you want.

00:17:44.840 But in reality, the, it's results that get you what your rate is.

00:17:50.600 So, I don't know.

00:17:52.440 At the same time, why would you care?

00:17:53.820 It's opinionated.

00:17:55.200 Yeah, people don't have to care.

00:17:57.040 But still, rating yourself is not a reality.

00:17:59.600 It's fantasy.

00:18:00.860 So, one of the reasons I give myself an 8 is because I don't necessarily think I'm necessarily ugly.

00:18:05.560 I also don't think I'm kind of like useless as a person either.

00:18:10.580 You know what I'm saying?

00:18:11.200 So, that would be like a 0.

00:18:12.420 Someone ugly kind of doesn't do nothing. 0.99

00:18:14.460 He just kind of like sits on their butt and plays video games all day. 0.99

00:18:16.940 No disrespect to anybody out there. 0.99

00:18:18.520 Well, we're talking just looks.

00:18:20.680 We're talking just looks.

00:18:22.040 If we're talking just looks, I keep up with myself.

00:18:24.280 You know what I'm saying?

00:18:25.080 Take care of myself.

00:18:26.100 Skin care.

00:18:26.560 All that stuff.

00:18:27.280 As a 10.

00:18:28.460 And Martin super chatted $50.

00:18:31.240 Nanny misunderstood. 1.00

00:18:32.880 It's 1 to 10 on a beauty scale.

00:18:35.160 Not a delusion scale.

00:18:36.860 Oof.

00:18:37.840 Your response.

00:18:39.460 I'm still a 10.

00:18:40.740 Sorry, Martin.

00:18:43.420 Sorry that I'm being myself a 10 and that bothers you.

00:18:46.640 Well, I think, Anae, you said you respect yourself, but I mean, I respect myself too and I rate

00:18:53.500 myself a 6.

00:18:54.420 I feel like I'm not, you know, 10.

00:18:58.080 I mean, what is a 10 anyway?

00:18:59.580 Like, can we see an example of a 10?

00:19:01.600 We could.

00:19:02.440 I definitely don't think I'm up there, but I respect myself and I, you know, accept myself,

00:19:08.660 my flaws, and I feel confident in myself.

00:19:11.840 Hold on.

00:19:12.220 Dante Jackson super chatted $49.99.

00:19:17.580 Bangs, stop the cap. 0.67

00:19:19.700 You look like Tina from Bob's Burgers.

00:19:21.300 Eric, you gotta fix that.

00:19:25.720 You look like Tina from Bob's Burgers.

00:19:29.120 Do you have a response?

00:19:30.100 I don't think I look like Tina, but no, I'm still gonna root myself a 10.

00:19:36.460 Dante Jackson.

00:19:37.500 Is this Davon Jackson's evil twin brother?

00:19:40.120 Okay, so continue with your point.

00:19:44.500 You were saying about the 10?

00:19:45.660 So a 10 would be considered perfect.

00:19:48.200 Do you consider yourself perfect?

00:19:50.100 I mean, of course.

00:19:52.540 I mean, I have my flaws, of course, but I think it's about confidence.

00:19:57.000 It's about having confidence in my...

00:19:58.580 Super chatted $50.

00:20:00.360 In reality, when a man rapes you honestly on your looks, you call us insecure and get hurt.

00:20:06.760 None of you ladies are 10s, especially the delusional nanny. 1.00

00:20:10.480 If you are a 10, where is your Vogue contract?

00:20:13.900 You barely deserve an average guy.

00:20:16.340 Bangs.

00:20:17.220 All right. 0.98

00:20:18.520 Do you want to shoot shots back at Cheeks? 0.96

00:20:20.840 Beaten Cheeks. 0.75

00:20:21.920 Beaten Cheeks.

00:20:23.320 I love your name, bro.

00:20:25.280 Your name's a name.

00:20:26.180 No, I really don't care.

00:20:28.240 To be honest.

00:20:29.100 Can I say it for real?

00:20:29.920 I think that people thinking, like, if you're a 10, you're on Vogue, I think that's kind

00:20:36.440 of dumb because not everyone who is on Vogue is absolutely gorgeous.

00:20:41.640 It's just they're, you know, rich enough and famous enough to be on there. 0.99

00:20:48.540 And I also think that, like, rating ourselves is kind of not beneficial because, I mean,

00:20:54.980 I'm a Christian so I think that we are made in God's image and so therefore we are, he

00:21:02.920 is perfect and we are made in his image.

00:21:05.040 It doesn't make us perfect but we're still all beautiful in our own ways.

00:21:09.120 That's all I got to say.

00:21:09.840 Do you think that those models have flaws?

00:21:13.800 You said.

00:21:14.400 Of course I think they have flaws.

00:21:15.780 Everyone in the world has flaws.

00:21:17.220 We're not perfect.

00:21:17.920 And you said they're not 10s.

00:21:20.280 I wouldn't say, I mean, no, I wouldn't say they're 10s.

00:21:24.780 If to be a 10 you have to be absolutely perfect, then I would say that no one can technically

00:21:33.280 be a 10 because no one is perfect.

00:21:35.400 We all have our flaws.

00:21:36.440 Well, we're arguing semantics right now but 10 is, like, approaching exceptionally attractive.

00:21:44.320 Let's remove perfect from this conversation but a 10 would be someone that is exceptionally

00:21:49.540 attractive and either has or could have, say, a modeling contract.

00:21:54.160 Can you help me understand why you said you're a 10?

00:21:56.780 If you said that you had flaws.

00:21:59.320 I mean, I already told you guys I'm going to rate myself a 10.

00:22:01.980 And I think it would be silly of me to rate myself anything lower because that's just

00:22:07.320 it.

00:22:07.860 Like, I don't know why you guys are so bothered by that.

00:22:09.940 Like, just move on from it.

00:22:10.960 I said I was a 10.

00:22:12.440 Well, we don't think you're a 10, then I don't know.

00:22:14.500 We're trying to understand kind of the thought process of rating yourself a 10.

00:22:19.140 Yeah.

00:22:19.340 And I'm telling you, I look in the mirror and I say, wow, I'm beautiful.

00:22:23.000 I'm a 10.

00:22:23.940 And I'm not going to have you guys tell me that I'm not.

00:22:26.880 Like, I don't care what you guys think.

00:22:28.380 Like, okay, I'm not a 10 in your guys' eyes.

00:22:30.280 I'm not a 10 to the eyes of the people in the chat.

00:22:32.360 But I'm not.

00:22:33.480 Why would I let that affect me?

00:22:34.940 But the context of the question is, I suppose anyone could say or claim that they're a 10.

00:22:43.880 Anyone could claim they're a 10, but it's about reality.

00:22:47.980 So you can't really dictate your own, how other people view you.

00:22:54.340 Whatever you think, that's in your head.

00:22:55.960 But how other people view you is going to be very different.

00:22:59.020 Because I can say that I'm a humble 10.

00:23:00.660 You know what I'm saying?

00:23:01.240 Shout out to the humble 10s in the chat.

00:23:02.540 But the thing is, is that I know the market dictates my value as far as, like, what I would rate myself.

00:23:08.780 So the reason why I'm rating myself an 8 is because I've been told that by other females.

00:23:13.120 And that's where I get that statistic from.

00:23:18.700 Like, I'm not going to put you on the spot.

00:23:21.040 But for me personally, if I was walking into a club or a bar with a person who in everybody's eyes is a 10 and I'm not a 10,

00:23:27.080 they're going to get the most attention, not me.

00:23:29.280 So if somebody prettier than you is with you in a public place, the results are they're going to get more guys hitting on them. 0.75

00:23:37.140 The only one.

00:23:38.080 The only one.

00:23:38.340 But that still isn't going to change my answer.

00:23:41.020 It's about confidence.

00:23:42.240 It's about, you know, feeling good in yourself, feeling good in your own body because this is the only body we have. 0.73

00:23:48.160 So, yeah, I think it's silly. 0.94

00:23:49.920 I think the question is silly. 0.85

00:23:51.100 And I don't know.

00:23:51.900 I don't know what else you guys want me to say because I'm going to stay by that.

00:23:56.480 Well, so you mentioned confidence, right?

00:23:58.400 Wouldn't the true confident thing to be to just acknowledge that you're not a 10 and being humble?

00:24:06.720 No, because you want me to say that and I'm not going to.

00:24:08.960 Well, you can say whatever you want.

00:24:10.480 No, I'm not going to.

00:24:11.880 I'm a 10.

00:24:12.840 I'm not.

00:24:13.180 I'm not requesting.

00:24:14.780 I'm not.

00:24:15.140 You guys need to, like, get over that.

00:24:16.880 Like, I don't know why it hurts you.

00:24:18.420 No, I'm not hurt.

00:24:19.380 Not hurt.

00:24:19.800 Well, you seem like a little.

00:24:21.500 Not hurt.

00:24:22.580 So I haven't.

00:24:23.560 Just trying to understand the thought process.

00:24:26.020 Yeah, and I'm telling you, I want, I believe I'm beautiful.

00:24:30.720 I think every girl here is beautiful.

00:24:32.300 I think every girl here is a 10. 0.98

00:24:33.860 Every girl here is a 10. 1.00

00:24:34.920 Yes.

00:24:35.200 Is every guy here a 10 too?

00:24:38.820 I don't know why.

00:24:40.120 Oh, oh.

00:24:41.880 You can be honest.

00:24:42.780 I'm not going to answer that.

00:24:43.820 But yes, I am for the woman.

00:24:45.800 I am for the woman.

00:24:46.780 And I think every girl here is beautiful.

00:24:48.300 The sisterhood.

00:24:48.860 The sisterhood.

00:24:50.080 Okay.

00:24:50.560 So all the women here are 10s. 1.00

00:24:53.440 Yeah.

00:24:53.740 Why can't, why are me and Thomas and Eric over there?

00:24:56.260 Why aren't we 10s?

00:24:57.500 How dare you?

00:24:58.860 How dare you?

00:25:01.220 How dare you not affirm my identity as a 10?

00:25:06.400 Well, Brian.

00:25:06.820 I consider myself a 10.

00:25:07.860 How dare you?

00:25:09.240 How dare you?

00:25:10.720 I'm offended.

00:25:11.860 Hold on, guys.

00:25:12.940 Now you're a 10.

00:25:13.660 Dan Clark super chatted $50.

00:25:15.680 You can feel like a 10th, but it's about how you are seen and how attractive you are.

00:25:20.700 Like I said the last time Bangs was on, if you are fat, you are less attractive than

00:25:25.360 someone that isn't.

00:25:27.360 Word?

00:25:27.960 Hey, yo, what's up?

00:25:29.200 I think that's, oh no, that's Bryce.

00:25:31.040 Thank you, Bryce.

00:25:31.620 Appreciate it.

00:25:32.580 Do you have a response to Dank Naked? 0.97

00:25:34.040 I mean, the fat thing is shameful.

00:25:39.760 I don't think that's true.

00:25:41.340 I don't think being, having like a little extra fat on your body makes you less attractive.

00:25:47.140 There's lots of beautiful women out there. 1.00

00:25:50.440 I think that's a little shallow to say.

00:25:53.600 What's shallow about it?

00:25:55.460 Saying that just because somebody is fat makes them less attractive.

00:26:01.300 I don't know.

00:26:02.920 Hold on.

00:26:03.460 Hide that.

00:26:03.560 Jen's donated $50.

00:26:05.680 Fanny Packers is real.

00:26:07.540 Also to define yourself as a 10th subjectively doesn't change objective reality.

00:26:12.380 Humble 10th.

00:26:13.740 Yo, shout out Jen Z. 1.00

00:26:15.340 Thank you, man.

00:26:16.020 Appreciate it.

00:26:16.500 By the way, guys, that came through as a Streamlabs donation.

00:26:20.640 Once again, YouTube takes 30% cut.

00:26:23.520 So if you want more of your contribution, your patronage to go to whatever, check out the

00:26:28.500 Streamlabs link in the description.

00:26:30.120 We'll treat it just like a super chat in terms of the triggers.

00:26:34.240 Just more of your patronage goes towards us.

00:26:37.600 So, okay.

00:26:38.460 So you were saying that something about, oh, oh, Martin.

00:26:42.640 Thank you.

00:26:43.060 Ben Martin super chatted $50.

00:26:45.360 Nanny, pay close attention. 0.97

00:26:47.740 The more you share off kilter opinions, the more people respond unfavorably to you.

00:26:53.620 You don't really believe the bankrupt perspectives you espouse.

00:26:57.140 It's a poor attempt at individuality.

00:27:00.340 It's the lowest form of attention seeking.

00:27:03.700 Response to Martin.

00:27:06.120 No.

00:27:06.840 Double M. 0.90

00:27:07.540 Oh, did you have something?

00:27:08.780 No.

00:27:09.220 It's just saying like Martin keeps talking.

00:27:11.260 Martin keeps talking?

00:27:12.440 Yeah.

00:27:13.340 Yeah.

00:27:13.760 He's very opinionated.

00:27:16.160 Maybe he should be here.

00:27:17.280 Maybe.

00:27:17.840 All right.

00:27:18.240 It's in the works.

00:27:19.080 It's in the works.

00:27:20.180 So continue with your point.

00:27:21.340 You were saying that something about women who have a couple extra pounds on them. 1.00

00:27:26.400 Mm-hmm.

00:27:27.280 Continue.

00:27:28.300 What was your?

00:27:29.040 That's all I got to say.

00:27:30.660 Is there like a limit to like the weight that makes them less attractive?

00:27:35.000 Or is it like any weight?

00:27:36.960 There's still a 10.

00:27:38.300 Well, I mean like.

00:27:39.080 Like we live in a society where Lizzo is really overweight and people think that she's a 10. 0.99

00:27:44.840 Would you rate her a 10?

00:27:47.100 Yeah.

00:27:47.720 I guess.

00:27:48.260 Like I think all women are a 10 to be honest. 1.00

00:27:50.660 Oh.

00:27:52.200 All women. 0.74

00:27:53.480 Yeah.

00:27:54.100 But.

00:27:54.260 I think.

00:27:54.480 I go outside and honestly like I see like 10 beautiful girls.

00:27:59.220 I see like a fine man like every two and a half years if I'm going to be honest.

00:28:03.080 So.

00:28:03.320 I go outside and I see beautiful women everywhere. 1.00

00:28:04.840 I mean this is a this is kind of interesting so not all men are 10s but all women are 10s. 0.91

00:28:14.000 Yeah.

00:28:14.600 It sounds like you have a thing against men.

00:28:16.740 No, I don't really have a thing against men.

00:28:18.460 You can be honest.

00:28:19.540 You can be honest.

00:28:20.060 No, I love men.

00:28:21.240 I don't hate men.

00:28:23.560 If the roles were reversed they'd call them misogynistic but you can say that and it's okay.

00:28:29.140 Yeah, I guess.

00:28:31.200 So you see a good looking man how often every two years?

00:28:35.720 Every two and a half years.

00:28:36.420 Two and a half years.

00:28:37.760 Okay.

00:28:38.200 Wow.

00:28:38.560 That's that's pretty rough.

00:28:39.780 I mean like.

00:28:40.880 Who is there a guy in your mind that's a 10?

00:28:44.320 Yes.

00:28:44.940 You guys wouldn't think he's a 10.

00:28:46.960 Who is it?

00:28:48.380 Oh, jeez.

00:28:49.280 I don't know if you guys know who that is.

00:28:51.120 I have no idea.

00:28:52.080 He's a rapper. 1.00

00:28:52.620 Who the fuck is that guy? 1.00

00:28:53.680 He's a rapper. 1.00

00:28:54.500 He was on Shoreline Mafia.

00:28:56.240 In Shoreline Mafia.

00:28:56.880 Oh.

00:28:57.900 Beaten cheeks super chatted $50.

00:28:59.760 Thank you, man.

00:29:00.780 Is the nanny legally blind? 1.00

00:29:03.020 She must be. 0.93

00:29:04.060 This is impossible to realize women are this delusional. 1.00

00:29:07.600 Fat is not shallow. 0.96

00:29:08.860 It is unhealthy and unattractive.

00:29:11.220 Beauty in the eye of the beholder is for poor people and lack of character of S.I.M.P. folk. 1.00

00:29:16.320 By the way, cheeks, I think you got to change your name to, well, you don't have to do anything,

00:29:22.280 but you should consider changing your name to your actual name because you got a good name.

00:29:27.020 Anyways, so not all guys are 10, but all women are 10. 0.89

00:29:32.100 Yeah.

00:29:33.460 Why?

00:29:34.680 Just my opinion, Brian.

00:29:36.660 Just my opinion.

00:29:37.800 I don't know what you want me to say.

00:29:39.660 What does that come from?

00:29:39.960 I just told you.

00:29:40.740 I just, I go outside and honestly.

00:29:42.480 Do you think I'm a 10?

00:29:44.420 Brian, well, I don't know if you want me to answer that.

00:29:47.380 Answer it.

00:29:47.880 That's fine.

00:29:48.540 I don't think you're a 10, but I do think you are attractive.

00:29:52.700 Yeah.

00:29:53.100 I do.

00:29:53.600 I like the beard.

00:29:54.560 I like that you're tall.

00:29:55.680 Oh, okay.

00:29:56.180 I wouldn't say that you're ugly because you're not.

00:29:58.960 Beards are in. 0.54

00:30:00.020 Yeah.

00:30:00.240 Beards are in.

00:30:03.440 Oh.

00:30:06.320 It's a match made in head.

00:30:07.600 With the satchel?

00:30:08.480 No.

00:30:08.640 Flynn Rider?

00:30:09.300 Oh, wow.

00:30:09.980 All right.

00:30:10.320 Yeah, but the satchel is throwing me off guard.

00:30:12.080 Brian, I'm not going to lie.

00:30:12.880 Why did you buy all those satchels?

00:30:15.800 Protection.

00:30:16.480 No.

00:30:17.620 Is that the good inside of it?

00:30:18.960 Protection.

00:30:20.480 No, so, okay.

00:30:21.840 So.

00:30:22.160 So, give me a rating.

00:30:26.820 Just go ahead.

00:30:28.120 Rate me.

00:30:28.900 Like seven, maybe.

00:30:30.600 Seven?

00:30:31.020 Yeah.

00:30:31.260 Okay.

00:30:32.740 Rate Thomas.

00:30:34.240 I didn't ask for this.

00:30:37.240 I'm subjecting you.

00:30:38.720 Okay, if he doesn't want me to rate him, I'm not going to.

00:30:40.180 You can rate me.

00:30:40.900 You have my permission.

00:30:41.620 Okay.

00:30:42.500 Can you move the mic a little bit?

00:30:44.080 Or like, just go like that.

00:30:46.760 Thing is.

00:30:48.740 I just.

00:30:49.400 Okay, the thing is, um, I'm, I'm like, you know, if you, you think you're high, that's

00:30:57.180 good, but I'm not going to say that you're like the most attractive man, but you're not

00:31:01.320 like ugly, you know?

00:31:03.080 I think you're a good seven. 0.91

00:31:04.000 You can call me a four and I'll be fine.

00:31:05.900 I'm not going to say that.

00:31:07.440 No, I think you're like a seven or a six or something around there.

00:31:11.480 Thanks.

00:31:12.660 Yeah.

00:31:12.820 Yeah.

00:31:13.360 KD63.7 Super Chatted.

00:31:15.380 Thank you.

00:31:16.040 $49.99.

00:31:18.620 Nanny, you have an of on your Instagram care to explain you strong woman you.

00:31:23.580 Yes, I do have an OF, but I don't post anything naked.

00:31:28.520 Um, kind of just got a lot of people asking me for it after I caught that on the show the

00:31:34.760 last time.

00:31:35.520 Um, so I was like, might as well, um, make some money off of it.

00:31:39.540 So I did it and I made a lot of money.

00:31:42.400 Wait, did people, how many people subbed to your own?

00:31:44.520 I got like around 80, I think.

00:31:47.440 80 subscribers.

00:31:49.300 Yeah.

00:31:49.560 And how much is the subscription?

00:31:51.340 I just $20.

00:31:52.960 But I'm not posting anything like bad on there.

00:31:57.900 Can, yo, chat, can you guys do the math for me?

00:32:01.180 What?

00:32:01.720 20 times 80?

00:32:03.560 Chat.

00:32:04.240 Y'all gotta stop doing this.

00:32:05.940 This is, this is what we're fighting against.

00:32:08.180 You gotta stop that.

00:32:09.700 Can anybody, any, what's the math on that?

00:32:11.640 How much money did you guys spend on her OnlyFans? 0.99

00:32:14.700 Did anyone tip you and shit too? 0.98

00:32:16.860 PPP, uh, what's it called? 0.99

00:32:18.040 PPV?

00:32:19.200 Um, I think so.

00:32:20.580 I don't know.

00:32:21.260 I didn't really like, I got a bunch of messages and stuff.

00:32:23.740 I think some people were a little disappointed because they were expecting a little bit more.

00:32:28.120 But, I didn't.

00:32:29.020 Dang, they donated $50.

00:32:30.680 Thank you, Dang.

00:32:31.220 Things you can stop capping about not having a prejudice against men.

00:32:34.960 You started last show with, I don't listen to men.

00:32:37.820 You give the benefit of doubt to women, but will never show the same to men around you.

00:32:41.640 Yo, they're, they're going for you tonight.

00:32:44.140 Yeah, everything is being asked for me.

00:32:47.960 Um, yeah, so, what did it say?

00:32:52.720 Um, uh, I said I don't listen to men.

00:32:54.960 I did say that.

00:32:55.720 I don't really listen to anybody.

00:32:57.300 Don't listen to my mom.

00:32:58.240 Don't listen to my dad.

00:32:59.140 I don't, I don't know why you guys want me to listen to, I'm so sorry.

00:33:02.400 You want me to listen to, like, all of my boyfriend or something.

00:33:05.260 Cameron Loyola, $67.93, donated $50.

00:33:09.260 Showing support.

00:33:10.400 Love the channel, Brian.

00:33:11.900 Keep up the good work.

00:33:13.060 Hey, Cameron, thank you so much for your patronage, man.

00:33:15.280 Really appreciate it.

00:33:16.580 Um, really appreciate it.

00:33:17.340 Thank you for using Streamlabs, by the way, so that, uh, YouTube doesn't take their cut.

00:33:21.180 But, um, so, okay, I want to wrap up the 10 thing really quick.

00:33:26.300 Um, you're a 10.

00:33:29.940 You're a 10.

00:33:31.460 Yes.

00:33:32.080 I'm going to be honest with you.

00:33:33.200 You're not a 10.

00:33:34.040 All right.

00:33:34.720 I'm not saying that to be mean, but you're not a 10.

00:33:36.760 Okay.

00:33:38.460 It's only fair, right?

00:33:39.480 You've, you rated me.

00:33:40.660 Yeah.

00:33:41.000 I'm not going to, I'm not even going to rate you, but, uh, I'll just say that you're not

00:33:44.240 a 10.

00:33:44.880 Okay.

00:33:45.200 Um, that doesn't hurt me.

00:33:47.300 I'm not, I'm not trying to hurt you one.

00:33:49.180 Okay.

00:33:49.340 One question.

00:33:50.220 Um, one question.

00:33:54.260 What, uh, what are you down to revise your answer?

00:33:56.920 If we've got makeup remover.

00:33:59.140 No, my makeup's expensive.

00:34:00.480 Why would I want to take it off?

00:34:02.480 No.

00:34:02.720 Is there a difference?

00:34:03.800 I'm not taking it off, Brian.

00:34:05.320 Is there a difference in your rating with makeup, without makeup?

00:34:10.100 No, I told you, Brian, it's all about confidence.

00:34:12.780 Why would I do any, why would I, I don't know what you want me to do.

00:34:17.660 Okay.

00:34:19.260 Good to know.

00:34:20.360 Um, so.

00:34:21.920 And I'm not using those makeup wipes either.

00:34:24.420 Oh.

00:34:24.840 Get better ones.

00:34:25.460 If you're Missler water or something, maybe.

00:34:27.320 You're so above Neutrogena, right?

00:34:29.580 We all are.

00:34:30.340 Yes.

00:34:30.840 Is that what is it?

00:34:31.580 I take care of my skin.

00:34:32.480 I spent, I like spent so much money at Ulta the other day getting a bunch of skincare products.

00:34:37.940 Wow.

00:34:38.640 Yeah.

00:34:38.920 What's wrong with Neutrogena?

00:34:41.200 Everything.

00:34:42.360 What's wrong with it?

00:34:43.600 It's just like not safe for your skin at all.

00:34:45.840 They like recalled a bunch of products a few months ago.

00:34:48.160 Yeah, like bleach and stuff and like on your face.

00:34:50.120 That's not okay.

00:34:50.880 Yeah, it gives you cancer or something.

00:34:52.200 They like recalled it a while ago.

00:34:55.740 So like.

00:34:55.940 That really can't.

00:34:56.560 Because they had really good sunscreen.

00:34:57.980 Katie 6 3.7 super chatted $49.99.

00:35:03.800 So tell me nanny and all you girls listen when you are on your deathbed. 1.00

00:35:08.060 If you had no parents or husband or children who will be there, what would your life amount

00:35:12.900 to with no one to share your life at the end?

00:35:15.980 This answers only.

00:35:18.420 Yo, chat savage, bro. 0.59

00:35:20.220 I hate us so much. 0.97

00:35:21.700 No husband.

00:35:22.200 What makes you think I'm not going to have no parents, no husband, no children?

00:35:24.800 It's mean.

00:35:32.580 The cat food.

00:35:33.540 Okay.

00:35:34.040 Yo, invest in cat food, guys.

00:35:36.080 Okay.

00:35:36.760 So.

00:35:38.080 Can I ask a question?

00:35:39.200 Yeah, go for it.

00:35:41.860 What did you guys get for Valentine's Day?

00:35:45.060 And did you have a Valentine?

00:35:46.660 I'm assuming.

00:35:47.400 Good question.

00:35:48.060 Good question.

00:35:50.420 Start with you.

00:35:51.060 Yeah, yeah.

00:35:51.540 Start over here.

00:35:52.100 Go ahead.

00:35:53.780 Also, you're hiding behind the microphone like this.

00:35:56.220 Sorry, I keep looking this way.

00:35:57.640 So I'm like, naturally, I'm like.

00:35:59.480 Yeah, look straight on.

00:36:01.880 Or look in the monitor if you want.

00:36:03.800 I have a follow-up.

00:36:04.740 I have a follow-up question as well.

00:36:05.240 Yeah, yeah.

00:36:05.620 Look in the monitor when you speak, okay?

00:36:07.300 Also, you said that's your better side.

00:36:08.980 So if you're looking in the monitor.

00:36:10.620 He's out of here, Brian.

00:36:12.840 Expensive.

00:36:13.440 I know.

00:36:13.880 I spent it with my man.

00:36:17.360 I don't know.

00:36:18.780 I slept over at his house.

00:36:20.660 We've been dating for a while.

00:36:22.140 So I'm not a big Valentine's Day person.

00:36:25.760 Did you guys go to dinner?

00:36:26.620 I had dinner.

00:36:27.820 And then that was it.

00:36:28.840 Flowers?

00:36:29.520 Mm-hmm.

00:36:30.660 For him, you got him flowers?

00:36:31.740 From him, yeah.

00:36:33.240 Chocolate?

00:36:34.080 No.

00:36:34.760 Just flowers?

00:36:35.060 I don't eat chocolate.

00:36:36.380 Oh.

00:36:36.940 Yeah.

00:36:37.060 Can I have a follow-up question?

00:36:38.180 Yeah.

00:36:38.560 For everybody as well.

00:36:39.580 Well, let's.

00:36:40.320 Do you want everyone to answer the question?

00:36:42.000 Yeah, it goes with it.

00:36:43.060 You want to add it?

00:36:43.660 Okay, go ahead.

00:36:45.540 What is the most extravagant slash expensive gift that you've ever received for Valentine's

00:36:51.140 Day?

00:36:51.820 So, like, think about that, too.

00:36:53.680 So I just want to see.

00:36:58.140 Honestly, I haven't.

00:37:00.300 It's just, you know, the average chocolates, if that's what he gets, flowers and dinner.

00:37:07.480 Okay.

00:37:07.920 I don't ask for anything, nor do I expect anything.

00:37:10.820 Okay.

00:37:11.680 You, Tim.

00:37:12.380 I didn't have a Valentine this year.

00:37:16.260 I didn't really do anything for Valentine's Day.

00:37:18.260 I was out of the state with my sister.

00:37:21.380 Brian, did you do that?

00:37:22.600 Huh?

00:37:23.400 No, no, no.

00:37:23.940 That was Eric.

00:37:25.200 That was Eric.

00:37:25.880 My bad.

00:37:26.540 Eric, you're not going to be a 10 anymore if you do that.

00:37:29.140 Oh, Eric.

00:37:29.540 Watch out.

00:37:30.260 Eric is a 10.

00:37:30.880 Watch out.

00:37:31.360 You're a humble 10.

00:37:32.040 No, I didn't.

00:37:34.760 I was out of state visiting my sister, so I didn't do anything.

00:37:37.960 But the most extravagant gift, it wasn't expensive, but it did take a lot of time and effort, and I had a lot of value behind it, and I really appreciated it.

00:37:49.100 And my ex-boyfriend made me for Valentine's Day.

00:37:53.100 Jolly Ranchers were kind of our thing.

00:37:54.820 Like, we would always eat Jolly Ranchers together.

00:37:56.400 The first time we hung out, we had a bag.

00:37:58.140 He got me a bag of Jolly Ranchers.

00:38:00.380 And...

00:38:00.980 Is your ex-boyfriend Little Xan?

00:38:03.160 Why did you guys break them?

00:38:04.460 Or wait, no, Skittles.

00:38:05.280 That's...

00:38:05.760 Yeah, Little Xan is Skittles. 0.70

00:38:07.040 Anyways, so the...

00:38:09.840 He handmade me for Valentine's Day.

00:38:12.240 He made Jolly Rancher flowers, and he made a bouquet out of them.

00:38:16.480 That is adorable.

00:38:17.120 That's cute.

00:38:17.440 I love that.

00:38:17.740 So I love that.

00:38:18.560 That was my favorite gift.

00:38:20.100 You?

00:38:20.780 I did have a Valentine, but because my boyfriend and I are long distance, we did it the weekend before.

00:38:25.500 I think it's technically medium distance relationship.

00:38:27.800 Okay, sorry.

00:38:28.680 Medium distance relationship.

00:38:30.180 Like long distance...

00:38:30.480 Whatever you want to call it, Brian.

00:38:31.480 Go ahead.

00:38:31.520 I feel like long distance, you got to hop on a plane.

00:38:34.540 No, I get it.

00:38:34.600 I get it.

00:38:35.080 Absolutely.

00:38:35.600 That makes sense.

00:38:36.080 Medium distance.

00:38:36.560 I don't want to play.

00:38:37.360 I agree.

00:38:37.980 Medium distance.

00:38:38.040 So you're taking like a three-hour drive to see your man?

00:38:40.000 Yeah.

00:38:40.300 It's like two, right?

00:38:41.380 Two and a half, three.

00:38:43.020 So medium distance relationships can work.

00:38:45.460 Yeah, I totally agree that it can work.

00:38:46.760 Long distance?

00:38:48.160 I mean, if both people want it hard enough, then it'll work.

00:38:51.620 Okay.

00:38:52.360 They want what?

00:38:53.380 I was just curious.

00:38:54.360 Oh, stop.

00:38:55.960 Huh?

00:38:56.840 Oh, okay.

00:38:57.660 Go ahead.

00:38:57.940 We start falling in love with our pen pals.

00:38:59.460 Wait.

00:38:59.760 Pen pals.

00:39:00.720 Okay, so Valentine's.

00:39:02.020 Go ahead.

00:39:02.280 Yes, my medium distance boyfriend.

00:39:04.660 Ben and I did it.

00:39:05.740 I have to be correct.

00:39:07.100 We did it the weekend before.

00:39:08.680 We did like the classic like chocolates, flowers, favorite stuff, you know?

00:39:15.020 And you got him flowers?

00:39:16.840 No.

00:39:18.000 You got him chocolate?

00:39:18.960 He doesn't really like chocolate.

00:39:21.480 I did like a bag of like stuff he likes, like his favorite snacks.

00:39:24.140 Okay.

00:39:24.680 Stuff for like, why are you laughing?

00:39:27.840 No, I was just laughing.

00:39:29.060 He was laughing at me.

00:39:29.920 Don't worry about it.

00:39:30.560 Okay, so.

00:39:33.780 I did not have a Valentine this year.

00:39:36.840 I think, yeah.

00:39:40.760 Yo, candles in the chat for Kaylin.

00:39:43.260 Can we get some skull emojis, candles in the chat?

00:39:45.300 She's really hot. 0.91

00:39:46.240 You guys should date her.

00:39:47.500 I was so heartbroken because I didn't have a Valentine, but it's okay.

00:39:49.960 You were distraught?

00:39:50.860 I was.

00:39:51.560 I was crying in bed.

00:39:52.660 Oh, one thing.

00:39:53.240 You guys said you had dinner for Valentine's, right?

00:39:55.400 No, we didn't.

00:39:56.000 Oh, no dinner?

00:39:56.760 No, just like a little lunch.

00:39:58.100 So, have you ever had a Valentine's?

00:39:59.960 I did last year, yeah.

00:40:01.260 Last year.

00:40:01.820 Yeah.

00:40:02.020 Okay.

00:40:02.640 And the most extravagant gift you've ever gotten?

00:40:05.000 I don't think anything I've gotten has been like extravagant, but I'd say like, you know,

00:40:09.100 like the bear, like bouquets that are like flowers.

00:40:11.760 Are we talking like jumbo size bear or like little teddy bear?

00:40:14.140 It was like this big.

00:40:15.640 Okay.

00:40:15.820 But it's like flowery.

00:40:16.200 You put his cologne on it?

00:40:17.360 Huh?

00:40:17.660 You put his cologne on it?

00:40:18.720 I don't know.

00:40:19.920 I threw it away.

00:40:20.440 That's important stuff.

00:40:21.320 Yeah.

00:40:21.900 It's gone now.

00:40:23.100 I mean, good.

00:40:24.600 What about you?

00:40:26.320 So, I did have a Valentine's this year.

00:40:29.880 We went to a string quartet candlelight concert, and then he took me to a fancy speakeasy afterwards.

00:40:38.140 That is adorable.

00:40:39.420 That's cool.

00:40:39.940 He slays.

00:40:41.020 We all stan her husband.

00:40:43.720 W's in the chat for her.

00:40:46.140 A what?

00:40:47.380 To where?

00:40:48.160 A speakeasy?

00:40:49.000 What's that?

00:40:50.140 So, it's kind of like a more old-fashioned bar club.

00:40:54.740 You said your husband did this?

00:40:55.960 Yeah, my husband.

00:40:56.580 Okay.

00:40:56.760 Where was this?

00:40:57.380 Anaheim.

00:40:58.200 Anaheim.

00:40:58.820 That's cool.

00:40:59.860 Yeah.

00:41:01.040 Is that the most extravagant gift you've ever received?

00:41:03.980 Yeah.

00:41:04.860 Okay.

00:41:05.820 What about you?

00:41:06.320 W's in the chat for her boyfriend.

00:41:07.520 W in the chat for her husband, for sure.

00:41:08.920 Oh, yeah.

00:41:09.180 Husband.

00:41:09.540 I'm sorry.

00:41:09.940 Husband.

00:41:10.180 So, my boyfriend and I don't celebrate Valentine's Day.

00:41:12.780 Um, so, we didn't do anything.

00:41:15.700 Um, we were actually watching this podcast on Valentine's Day.

00:41:19.240 Yo, W's in the chat.

00:41:21.860 W.

00:41:22.560 Wait, you said your husband?

00:41:25.280 No, my boyfriend.

00:41:26.080 Oh, for some reason, I thought I heard husband, for some reason.

00:41:28.400 Okay.

00:41:28.900 You and your boyfriend, you and your boyfriend were watching the whatever podcast.

00:41:34.200 That's right.

00:41:34.620 I mean, I mean, we did have a show on Valentine's Day, which was fantastic, I must admit.

00:41:39.560 Um, okay, cool.

00:41:40.680 That's a good way to spend Valentine's Day is enriching me personally.

00:41:45.260 Um, okay.

00:41:46.900 And the most extravagant gift you've ever received?

00:41:49.940 Um.

00:41:50.780 Or you don't celebrate it at all?

00:41:54.620 Before him, I, it's not that I didn't celebrate it, but I never really had anything extravagant.

00:42:01.620 Just, like, teddy bear and flowers type of thing.

00:42:05.600 Nothing crazy.

00:42:06.880 My last question is, what have you given to your boyfriend or husband?

00:42:11.520 What's the most extravagant thing you've ever done for them?

00:42:14.780 Like, on Valentine's Day or just in general?

00:42:17.700 On Valentine's Day.

00:42:18.680 Um, I bought my boyfriend flowers, like, a while ago.

00:42:24.340 And the, I don't know, I haven't really gotten, again, Valentine's Day.

00:42:31.620 It wasn't important to me.

00:42:32.740 Okay.

00:42:33.840 What about you?

00:42:34.820 Um, I love giving gifts, actually.

00:42:37.120 Especially when I really like the person.

00:42:39.320 I will literally buy them everything and anything.

00:42:42.340 Every two and a half years, you see an attractive man.

00:42:45.580 Yes!

00:42:46.580 Okay, you know what?

00:42:47.340 Let me, let me go back because to that, if I can real quick, because I don't want you guys to think that I have something against men.

00:42:53.200 I just feel like I'm not really attracted to men too often to the point where I'm like...

00:42:58.660 Are you bi?

00:42:59.860 Maybe.

00:43:00.260 Well, have you ever, like, dated a girl, been with a girl?

00:43:03.440 No, but I would be open to it, yeah.

00:43:06.520 Okay.

00:43:07.200 But, yeah, I don't know, maybe I'm just not that, that, that attracted to guys.

00:43:11.220 But, yeah, I do see...

00:43:12.660 Oh, thank you.

00:43:18.000 Ryan, why do you try so hard to red-billied these modern women? 1.00

00:43:22.120 Just let them live alone.

00:43:23.740 Men in USA and Western world should make money and move to other country. 0.85

00:43:28.600 Modern women's behavior are situational, so just don't give second change to all modern women. 1.00

00:43:34.700 Yo, thank you for the 6,980 Japanese yen.

00:43:38.320 Thank you, man.

00:43:41.300 I appreciate it.

00:43:44.000 So, yeah, pretty much, Passport Bros, are we up?

00:43:48.340 Okay, so...

00:43:49.300 You were saying, did you finish your...

00:43:54.880 Oh, no, I didn't say the gift.

00:43:56.980 But, I don't know, honestly, like, I kind of forgot for, like, what I got him exactly for Valentine's Day.

00:44:03.620 But I think I got him, like, a bunch of clothes that he wanted, a bunch of Ralph Lauren.

00:44:07.680 It was really expensive.

00:44:09.360 I think I got him pants.

00:44:11.280 Simp.

00:44:12.560 Yes, I do simp.

00:44:13.740 When I like somebody, I will simp real hard for them.

00:44:17.240 Do it.

00:44:17.760 Women should simp more. 1.00

00:44:20.020 Yeah, show appreciation to you, man.

00:44:21.640 Somebody paid for my gas tank right before I got here.

00:44:24.760 Oh, my gosh.

00:44:25.640 Yeah.

00:44:25.860 One of whatever viewer?

00:44:28.160 No.

00:44:28.780 I went to the gas station.

00:44:30.360 I got on my car, and this man came up to me.

00:44:32.540 He said, can I please pay to fill up your gas?

00:44:35.960 What?

00:44:36.660 And I said, of course.

00:44:39.240 And he filled it up for me.

00:44:40.580 He was an older man.

00:44:41.620 He was a vaquero, like, cowboy in Mexican.

00:44:44.520 He's a lot older, though.

00:44:48.060 And Brian.

00:44:52.440 Did you at least give him a kiss?

00:44:55.320 No, I don't give him a kiss.

00:44:57.360 Come on, man.

00:44:58.140 Dude, stop doing this.

00:44:59.880 This is why they think the way they think.

00:45:01.480 Come on.

00:45:02.180 No, he was so attractive, like, super attractive.

00:45:05.700 The men he was with were, like, they invited me to go out with them, but I was like, oh, I'm sorry.

00:45:09.620 Brian, I honestly might not have been here.

00:45:12.740 Wow.

00:45:13.160 Because they were really attractive.

00:45:15.260 I'm not lying.

00:45:16.080 He had a nephew.

00:45:18.080 Wait.

00:45:18.460 Hold on.

00:45:18.900 How many dudes was it?

00:45:19.960 It was three of them.

00:45:21.040 Three dudes?

00:45:21.680 Yeah.

00:45:22.120 Dang.

00:45:22.360 And you said one of them was in his 50s?

00:45:24.960 I don't know.

00:45:25.540 So you were going to flake coming on the whatever podcast to get spit-roasted by three attractive.

00:45:32.040 Spit-roasted?

00:45:32.440 What does that mean?

00:45:33.720 Good question.

00:45:34.660 I want to know what it means, spit-roasted.

00:45:35.960 Use your imagination.

00:45:39.320 It's like, that sounds a little suspect.

00:45:42.840 I'm not going to lie.

00:45:43.620 They said that they were having a party.

00:45:46.180 Okay.

00:45:46.700 I wanted to go.

00:45:48.080 They were like, we're going to a party.

00:45:49.320 We're, like, right here.

00:45:50.620 Then they were like, you want a beer?

00:45:52.380 And I was like, oh, like, I'm sorry.

00:45:53.760 I got somewhere to go.

00:45:55.020 But thank you.

00:45:56.000 Wait.

00:45:56.600 Just on this topic really quick, then we'll come back to the Valentine's Day thing.

00:46:00.460 Ladies, has something like this just ever happened to you?

00:46:04.580 Like, these kind of situations?

00:46:06.080 Like, some random dudes?

00:46:08.240 All the time.

00:46:09.300 All the time.

00:46:10.080 Paying for your gas.

00:46:11.200 Hey, come to our party.

00:46:12.780 Yeah.

00:46:13.240 I mean, after the show, some guy messaged me.

00:46:16.160 This happens to you.

00:46:17.420 Yeah.

00:46:17.640 It happens to us.

00:46:18.180 Raise your hand a little bit if this has happened to you.

00:46:20.420 Okay.

00:46:23.560 Bro, guys, no dudes get these opportunities.

00:46:26.160 Like, we don't get this at all.

00:46:27.780 You're 21 in San Ynez, right?

00:46:31.100 Yes.

00:46:31.560 You're in Hickville.

00:46:32.840 Yes.

00:46:34.000 You're, like, Santa Barbara is, like, the last, I'm trying to think of the term.

00:46:41.020 It's, like, the last defensive against Central California.

00:46:45.480 Yeah.

00:46:47.060 Yeah, I live in Hickville.

00:46:48.200 I mean, you're technically in Santa Barbara County, but you're up there near Santa Maria 0.99

00:46:51.440 and shit. 0.98

00:46:52.060 No, don't compare it to Santa Maria. 1.00

00:46:53.380 Well, that's methamphetamine's capital of Santa Barbara.

00:46:57.060 But maybe Lompoc is, I don't know.

00:46:59.780 But, okay.

00:47:00.580 So, and you're getting, like, that's crazy that you're getting just randomly.

00:47:06.980 Yeah.

00:47:07.400 Just before the show.

00:47:08.720 Oh, let me pay for your gas.

00:47:10.400 Yeah.

00:47:10.860 And after the last show, some guy DM'd me.

00:47:13.180 He's, like, send me your Amazon wish list.

00:47:15.180 I'm going to buy everything.

00:47:16.120 He bought me, like, $500 with this stuff.

00:47:18.100 From the show.

00:47:18.680 Oh, my gosh.

00:47:19.220 Yo, yo. 0.99

00:47:20.280 Where is he at in the chat?

00:47:21.240 Eric, pull up the chat.

00:47:22.220 Pull up the chat. 0.75

00:47:23.200 I need a freaking... 0.95

00:47:24.160 She's telling on herself. 0.99

00:47:25.360 She's literally a finesser. 1.00

00:47:26.460 You guys are sad.

00:47:27.540 Yo, guys.

00:47:28.240 You guys have got to stop, man.

00:47:30.860 She'd probably find you attractive if you stopped buying her stuff. 0.98

00:47:33.280 I mean, if you want to hit my Amazon wish list.

00:47:35.040 Right.

00:47:35.220 Go ahead and look at our Amazon.

00:47:36.100 I know some of you are in the chat.

00:47:38.100 If you're in the chat right now that just...

00:47:40.200 How much he spent?

00:47:40.920 He bought your entire Amazon wish list?

00:47:42.800 Yes.

00:47:42.820 Hold on.

00:47:42.840 It was, like, $500.

00:47:47.180 Get out of here. 1.00

00:47:49.940 Keep it change, you filthy animal. 1.00

00:47:53.360 I'm disappointed. 0.99

00:47:54.200 I'm not upset.

00:47:55.800 I'm just disappointed.

00:47:57.000 That's the worst, guys.

00:47:57.800 I'm just disappointed, guys.

00:47:59.600 There are some good guys out there.

00:48:01.880 We get taken advantage of.

00:48:03.620 If anybody's some sort of nice, they get taken advantage of, and you literally just proved it.

00:48:07.780 I don't think so.

00:48:08.400 How?

00:48:08.860 They're nice guys.

00:48:09.880 But would you date them?

00:48:11.400 Huh?

00:48:11.800 They're nice guys, but would you date them?

00:48:13.500 Of course.

00:48:14.040 The guy who paid for my gas tank was so attractive.

00:48:16.900 He was old.

00:48:17.520 I don't think I would date him, honestly.

00:48:18.960 Okay, good point.

00:48:19.600 I don't think I would date him because he was really old, but he had a nephew, and the nephew

00:48:22.620 was really attractive.

00:48:24.220 Did you get the digits?

00:48:25.440 No.

00:48:25.960 I was on a rush.

00:48:26.780 I was going to be late.

00:48:27.880 I was really going to be late.

00:48:29.100 I was, like, house-sitting.

00:48:30.440 I had to go house-sit and, like, all this stuff.

00:48:32.140 Respect for not flaking, though.

00:48:33.540 You had your priorities straight.

00:48:34.200 Respect.

00:48:34.880 You had your priorities straight.

00:48:36.260 Yes.

00:48:36.780 And I'm proud of you for that one.

00:48:37.600 Yeah.

00:48:37.800 Wait, so hold on.

00:48:39.780 How much was your gas?

00:48:41.600 I think it was, like, $55 or something.

00:48:44.080 Did you drive a Hummer?

00:48:45.620 What did you drive?

00:48:46.280 A Nissan.

00:48:47.300 Oh.

00:48:47.860 Yo, gas is expensive out here.

00:48:49.300 It is.

00:48:49.860 I'm telling you right now.

00:48:50.720 It is.

00:48:51.420 Hold on. 0.68

00:48:51.820 I need to excorciate.

00:48:55.160 Is that the word?

00:48:56.300 Excorciate the chat a little bit.

00:48:57.480 Excorciate.

00:48:58.660 Excorciate.

00:48:59.180 Can someone...

00:48:59.940 Is that a word?

00:49:01.740 If it is a word, you have to wear the...

00:49:05.800 You have to wear one of the fanny packs the rest of the show.

00:49:09.220 Oh, okay.

00:49:09.460 Yeah.

00:49:09.720 That's totally fine.

00:49:10.720 Excorciate.

00:49:11.380 Oh, hold on.

00:49:11.960 I'll get to that.

00:49:13.400 Hey, Zentians.

00:49:14.180 Thank you, man.

00:49:15.600 BBC train rider bangs will end up alone because she is egotistical and dismissive of men, which 1.00

00:49:20.700 means she feels like she leads the relationship. 0.99

00:49:24.120 Any man who associates with her has no spine nor balls. 0.91

00:49:28.420 No surprise she had no valentines this year. 0.94

00:49:31.600 But every 2.5 years, yo, Zentians, good to see you back in the chat, man.

00:49:34.860 Shoot me a DM on Instagram if you can.

00:49:37.440 Let's get you a call in.

00:49:40.740 Yeah.

00:49:41.220 So, I want you to respond to Zentians. 0.68

00:49:44.940 I don't know what BBC train rider is.

00:49:46.260 Hold on.

00:49:46.680 I got something for you.

00:49:47.980 Hold on.

00:49:49.800 Uh-oh.

00:49:51.640 Okay.

00:49:53.000 All right.

00:49:53.340 The BBC, big black clock.

00:49:59.360 Big black clock.

00:50:01.040 All right.

00:50:02.280 I'm not sure where he got that from, but Zentians, thank you for the TTS, man.

00:50:07.360 Appreciate it.

00:50:08.340 Do you have a response to Zentians? 1.00

00:50:09.880 He's dying to hear from you.

00:50:11.720 Keep in mind.

00:50:12.560 I don't even remember what he said, to be honest.

00:50:13.980 Let me give you a little backstory on Zentians.

00:50:16.320 He's a brain surgeon.

00:50:18.100 Brain surgeon.

00:50:19.680 Okay.

00:50:21.520 That's a good job.

00:50:22.660 Okay.

00:50:24.200 Just letting you know.

00:50:26.000 But I don't remember his question, to be honest.

00:50:28.180 I think Zentians, confirm or deny, do you secretly have a crush?

00:50:31.340 On bangs.

00:50:33.080 Confirm or deny.

00:50:35.360 Confirm or deny.

00:50:38.660 Okay. 0.99

00:50:39.200 What the fuck were we talking about? 0.99

00:50:40.660 So right here, what is the most extravagant thing that you've given to your significant 0.99

00:50:45.300 person?

00:50:45.380 Oh, wait.

00:50:45.400 Really quick.

00:50:47.320 Excoriate.

00:50:48.280 To censor or criticize severely.

00:50:51.840 Is that what you said?

00:50:52.960 That's not what you said at all.

00:50:54.000 I think I added in an extra C.

00:50:56.160 Yeah.

00:50:56.640 Accidentally.

00:50:57.720 You need to wear the fanny pack.

00:50:58.880 Let me see.

00:50:59.720 Wait.

00:51:01.260 Wait.

00:51:01.520 Hold on.

00:51:01.600 Go ahead, Brian.

00:51:02.080 Put it on.

00:51:02.520 Don't be scared.

00:51:03.300 Come on.

00:51:04.140 It's like a Stewie out of that extra A. 0.62

00:51:05.560 Yeah, you're the one on the bottom to spend your hard-earned money on it.

00:51:07.600 One sec.

00:51:09.680 Excoriate.

00:51:10.040 That's not what you said.

00:51:11.740 Okay.

00:51:12.140 If you want me to wear it, I'll wear it proudly.

00:51:14.980 I will find another opportunity.

00:51:16.840 All right.

00:51:17.160 But let me excoriate the chat really quick, and also the guys who paid for your gas.

00:51:22.100 Whoever paid $500 to pay for Bangs' Amazon thing and her OnlyFans. 0.99

00:51:29.880 That's a fucking 50 DKP Minus. 1.00

00:51:33.320 What the fuck was that shit? 1.00

00:51:36.460 Guys, on our next raid into Onyxia's Lair, you guys are, honestly, you're benched. 1.00

00:51:41.800 You're benched, and you're definitely loot banned for at least a month. 0.90

00:51:44.800 So if any of you are trying to get, shit, what's the one? 0.96

00:51:47.760 I know a couple of you guys are trying to get Toe Up, Talisman of Ephemeral Power. 0.99

00:51:52.100 You're done.

00:51:52.920 You're benched.

00:51:53.640 You're not getting it.

00:51:54.560 You're not getting loot for at least a month.

00:51:56.880 Sorry.

00:51:58.140 Minus 50 DKP.

00:51:59.400 Okay, go ahead.

00:52:01.180 Yeah, the last time I played a game was like two years ago, two, three years ago, and that's

00:52:07.120 a big deal.

00:52:07.960 So stop doing that, guys.

00:52:09.860 Big deal, guys.

00:52:10.800 Stop.

00:52:11.980 Hold on.

00:52:12.440 Wait.

00:52:12.580 One thing really quick.

00:52:13.400 Stop it.

00:52:15.560 Get some help.

00:52:16.660 Okay, go ahead.

00:52:17.380 Get some help.

00:52:18.600 This was my boyfriend and I's first Valentine, so we didn't really do anything.

00:52:23.300 I haven't gotten experience with expensive gifts yet.

00:52:26.720 Taking it slow.

00:52:27.520 Yeah.

00:52:28.120 Understood.

00:52:29.220 And you've never given a gift ever on Valentine's Day?

00:52:32.820 No.

00:52:33.380 No, I definitely have.

00:52:34.320 What is the most extreme, extravagant gift that you've given to a man?

00:52:41.720 I don't.

00:52:42.600 I think like the same thing.

00:52:44.080 We've just gotten like favorite like things.

00:52:45.880 You got him flowers and chocolates?

00:52:47.320 No, not like flowers and chocolates, but his favorite snacks, stuff that he needs for

00:52:50.740 like his job and stuff.

00:52:51.820 What about you?

00:52:54.060 I wouldn't think it's like extreme, but like shoes, a chain, I bought like with my ex a

00:53:00.260 chain.

00:53:00.540 We're talking like diamond chains?

00:53:02.740 Yeah.

00:53:03.780 It wasn't like super expensive.

00:53:05.160 It was like maybe like a hundred bucks.

00:53:06.760 You bought him a chain?

00:53:08.120 Yeah.

00:53:09.340 Was your boyfriend a rapper?

00:53:11.000 No.

00:53:12.960 Only rappers can wear chains?

00:53:14.640 Yeah?

00:53:15.860 It's exclusive.

00:53:16.320 Was he a white guy?

00:53:17.700 Was it the white guy?

00:53:18.380 No.

00:53:19.360 Was he?

00:53:19.900 Why does it matter?

00:53:21.120 But it wasn't like, it wasn't like a big chain.

00:53:23.120 Peruvian.

00:53:23.840 Peruvian? 0.69

00:53:24.320 Okay.

00:53:24.500 Yeah.

00:53:25.280 It wasn't like a big chain. 0.58

00:53:25.720 I don't think white guys can pull off chains. 0.64

00:53:28.080 Is that racist? 0.89

00:53:29.460 Is that a little racist?

00:53:30.820 I think so.

00:53:31.820 Well, you're a rapper.

00:53:32.500 Where's your chain?

00:53:34.420 I mean, the only chain I'll ever wear. 1.00

00:53:36.800 Oh, fuck. 1.00

00:53:37.160 Oh, he does have a chain. 1.00

00:53:38.940 Oh, there it is.

00:53:39.840 So, hold up.

00:53:40.520 Little story.

00:53:41.400 This is my dad.

00:53:42.520 He died of cancer.

00:53:43.900 And I'm going to say it straight up.

00:53:46.000 But this is the honest story.

00:53:47.920 So, it's the only chain that I'll ever wear.

00:53:49.900 I'll never spend like $100,000 like some of these rappers wear.

00:53:52.940 This is the only chain I'll ever wear.

00:53:54.400 Ever.

00:53:54.960 It's the sentiment value.

00:53:56.160 That is so sweet.

00:53:57.400 So, shout out my father.

00:53:58.420 Love you said that.

00:53:59.960 That is sweet.

00:54:01.080 Thank you.

00:54:02.160 Bachi.

00:54:03.040 This is actually my first Valentine's Day that I did anything.

00:54:07.720 I hate Valentine's Day, but my husband likes it.

00:54:11.680 Quick question.

00:54:12.540 I'm sorry.

00:54:13.720 Why do you hate Valentine's Day?

00:54:15.520 Because I think it's like a Hallmark holiday.

00:54:17.780 I think that every day you should tell your person that you love, how much you love them.

00:54:22.520 I agree.

00:54:22.820 And that you shouldn't, I mean, have you seen Hallmark cards and how much they are during

00:54:27.320 Valentine's Day?

00:54:28.080 Six to seven.

00:54:28.580 For when they're not Valentine's Day.

00:54:30.760 It's kind of just seems like a money scheme.

00:54:34.400 I didn't mean to interrupt you.

00:54:35.700 Oh, no.

00:54:35.980 You're good.

00:54:36.300 Yeah.

00:54:36.400 So, and a little backstory, I guess, is for this Valentine's Day, my husband didn't want

00:54:42.520 me to get him anything.

00:54:43.620 And I'm a person that doesn't dress up.

00:54:46.780 Like, I would be in sweatpants if I was allowed to be.

00:54:49.320 But, um, this one said Faith's down the gap.

00:54:54.360 No, it's true.

00:54:55.580 Um, so I actually made a dress for him from scratch.

00:55:00.300 Yo, he was wearing the dress?

00:55:01.760 No, I wore the dress.

00:55:03.140 No, I made, I made, for him, because I don't dress up nicely normally, I made a dress for

00:55:08.940 me to wear so that I matched him in his suit.

00:55:11.400 It was a pretty dress.

00:55:12.720 Do you know how to sew?

00:55:14.000 I do.

00:55:14.800 Hold on, guys.

00:55:15.800 I don't know nor care who Bangs is. 1.00

00:55:18.180 That vapid vitriolic orifice has about as much worth and substance as her circus clown makeup. 1.00

00:55:23.980 Nightmare fuel is more comforting than her misandrist's opinions.

00:55:28.440 Brian, I don't do social media at all.

00:55:31.220 Um, I think he just excoriated you.

00:55:36.380 Word of the day.

00:55:37.020 Good use of the word.

00:55:38.200 Excoriated.

00:55:39.100 Finally used to write.

00:55:39.660 Do you have a response to sentience?

00:55:41.760 Nah.

00:55:42.720 Come on.

00:55:43.360 You got that.

00:55:43.520 What?

00:55:43.940 I don't know what to say.

00:55:45.600 What do you want me to say? 1.00

00:55:46.960 Fuck you. 1.00

00:55:48.360 What do you want me to say? 1.00

00:55:50.680 Like, I'm not going to say anything.

00:55:52.500 I really don't care.

00:55:53.500 She spoke her mind.

00:55:54.240 Oh, by the way, Eric, can you star any memberships just so I can pull them up?

00:55:59.720 Okay.

00:56:00.440 Valentine's.

00:56:01.220 Uh, you.

00:56:03.280 Me?

00:56:03.780 Um.

00:56:04.020 You said.

00:56:04.640 You can show there.

00:56:05.600 Yeah.

00:56:05.700 You dressed up for him.

00:56:06.760 Yeah, I made a dress.

00:56:07.580 Actually, I think this is a good point.

00:56:09.120 I think a lot of men would actually appreciate if their SO would dress up for them more frequently, 0.54

00:56:13.420 even if it's just to hang around the house.

00:56:15.600 Because a lot of women don't do that, and men like to look. 0.99

00:56:17.820 So, if a man can look at you and actually be able to only see you while you're not going

00:56:22.400 out, I think that would be attractive for you.

00:56:24.940 I looked at his comment.

00:56:26.400 Can I answer his comment?

00:56:27.860 I'm sorry.

00:56:28.420 I looked.

00:56:29.420 He said she made a dress for herself, but for him, LOL, the logic.

00:56:33.460 Can I answer it or no?

00:56:35.400 Just go.

00:56:36.220 Okay.

00:56:37.220 Um, well, him and I share joint bank accounts, so technically I paid for the Valentine's Day

00:56:42.100 as well, so.

00:56:45.980 Okay.

00:56:46.500 Um, I also like giving gifts, um, so I kind of go all out, um, for my boyfriend, um, I've

00:56:56.600 done quite a few different things, um, it may not always cost a lot of money, but like

00:57:02.420 I've made, like, like I made a mason jar with little, um, little things for him to read

00:57:12.060 and like on the, on the lid it says like to make you smile, like, and so.

00:57:16.500 So I just do little things like that.

00:57:19.060 I packed it in his lunch the other day just cause he hasn't gone in there in a while,

00:57:22.780 but, um, I'm always doing small thoughtful things.

00:57:26.920 Um, but I would say maybe the biggest thing was his birthday.

00:57:30.500 Um, his birthday is on the 5th.

00:57:32.400 So every day until the 5th, I give him a present and then on the 5th, uh, I threw him a surprise

00:57:37.820 party.

00:57:38.800 Um, but yeah, I, I go all out with gifts.

00:57:42.180 So, and I've gotten him flowers before too.

00:57:45.060 Um, yeah.

00:57:47.180 Um, I noticed that you were giving me a look.

00:57:49.920 Can you explain why you gave me that look?

00:57:51.880 About like the dressing up?

00:57:53.120 Yeah.

00:57:53.840 I mean, like a girl should be able to wear whatever she's comfortable in.

00:57:56.620 Like about her wearing sweats all day, if I could, I would too. 0.91

00:57:59.100 So like, I think it's more, um, like the quality time that you're going to spend with your boyfriend,

00:58:03.620 not like what you're wearing or how you look or if your makeup's good or if you're wearing

00:58:06.780 a fancy outfit or like lingerie or something.

00:58:08.720 I think as long as you're with, with them, like you're spending time with them and like

00:58:12.240 if you feel comfortable in what you're wearing, that should be enough for them to love you

00:58:15.860 and like to feel loved.

00:58:17.200 Okay.

00:58:17.800 I don't think that's true.

00:58:19.000 I think that's true.

00:58:20.000 But I think also, at least for me, like I feel good when I feel a little sexy around

00:58:25.880 him.

00:58:26.860 Um, like I've gotten cute pajamas.

00:58:28.960 Like I have my like big sweats or his big sweats, big t-shirts, but then I've also bought

00:58:34.040 cute pajamas and I wear them for when he comes home from work.

00:58:37.360 Like, you know, I'm looking cute.

00:58:38.680 I'm not looking crazy all the time.

00:58:41.480 So, I mean, I think, I think you made, you both made good points.

00:58:46.500 Um, but yeah.

00:58:48.340 So you think that your boyfriend or a boyfriend should not have any say or input in terms of

00:58:56.040 the partner's attire?

00:58:58.960 Um, I mean, you can add your input if you want.

00:59:01.500 Like if my boyfriend told me that he wanted me to wear a certain thing or like he didn't

00:59:04.580 like the way I looked in something, I would take it into like consideration.

00:59:06.700 But at the end of the day, it's like whatever I want to wear and whatever I feel comfortable

00:59:10.000 in.

00:59:10.280 Um, okay.

00:59:11.160 So have you ever, um, told your boyfriend, maybe he wasn't wearing something good and

00:59:16.680 you told him to change out of it?

00:59:19.440 Um, he's never really asked me, but he's asked me for like input on like dinner date outfits

00:59:23.180 and I've given it to him, but I've never said like, you have to wear this when we're going

00:59:26.580 out.

00:59:27.320 Cause I've definitely had girls tell me like, bro, don't wear those sweatpants to the 1.00

00:59:32.560 fucking dinner. 1.00

00:59:33.440 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:59:35.360 Oh, it's okay.

00:59:37.500 It's okay.

00:59:38.320 No, stop.

00:59:39.580 Okay.

00:59:39.740 No, what I'm saying is my boyfriend has never like worn sweatpants out to dinner, but if

00:59:44.380 you were, yeah, I would have something to say about it.

00:59:46.480 But if that's what he felt comfortable in.

00:59:47.960 Oh, but you're kind of controlling.

00:59:50.100 No, I'm not really controlling.

00:59:51.320 If he asks for my opinion, I'm going to give it to him.

00:59:53.440 But if he doesn't and he wants to wear whatever he wants to wear.

00:59:56.040 Okay.

00:59:56.440 See what I'm going to, oh, go ahead.

00:59:58.840 I didn't mean to cut you off there.

00:59:59.760 That was it.

01:00:00.080 Oh, okay.

01:00:01.220 I'm wearing sweatpants to dinner.

01:00:03.560 Slight.

01:00:03.880 We're going to have hibachi.

01:00:05.360 Okay.

01:00:05.900 I don't care.

01:00:06.680 Wherever we're going, I'm wearing sweatpants.

01:00:08.340 Yeah.

01:00:08.700 Deal with it.

01:00:09.600 Go ahead.

01:00:10.180 For your tummy to breathe.

01:00:11.240 Yeah.

01:00:11.840 Hibachi.

01:00:12.160 Deal with it.

01:00:12.820 Hibachi?

01:00:13.320 Yeah.

01:00:13.580 Sure, yeah.

01:00:14.120 Okay.

01:00:15.280 By the way, are you writing notes or do you need this on the table, this thing?

01:00:19.080 I can put it down.

01:00:20.020 Okay.

01:00:20.160 Do you want to wrap up on your Valentine's Day thing?

01:00:24.800 Were you arriving?

01:00:25.140 That was my question.

01:00:26.020 I was just curious.

01:00:26.680 I just wanted to ask.

01:00:27.840 Okay.

01:00:28.120 Yeah.

01:00:28.780 Basically, I feel like modern Valentine's Day has pretty much nothing to do with the love.

01:00:33.360 It's, and I think I kind of resonated with you on this.

01:00:35.420 It's basically a commercial gimmick manufactured by corporations, compelling men, sometimes women

01:00:42.480 too, to spend money on things they neither need nor want.

01:00:48.000 Also, they just ramp up the cost of things.

01:00:50.020 So, like, the same flowers that normally cost $10 cost $100 on Valentine's Day.

01:00:54.620 That same restaurant reservation costs $500, whereas maybe costs $50.

01:01:00.360 So, it's, like, very commercial.

01:01:02.840 It's pretty gimmicky.

01:01:03.680 So, you know, if you love each other, you don't need a day and hundreds of dollars to show it.

01:01:10.880 So, let's get these soup chats here.

01:01:13.300 By the way, guys, get your soup chats in.

01:01:14.720 Thank you to everyone who's supported so far.

01:01:16.140 Really appreciate it.

01:01:16.840 Thank you for the patronage.

01:01:18.280 It means the world.

01:01:19.080 So, one last note for everyone who's doing the TTS, if you look in the description, we

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01:01:26.540 You don't have to, but YouTube takes a cut, 30%.

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01:01:36.580 And it takes PayPal.

01:01:37.560 It takes, I think, regular credit cards.

01:01:40.060 But, yeah.

01:01:40.400 So, all right.

01:01:41.440 We have Alvin Sam.

01:01:42.840 Hey, good to see you back in the chat, man.

01:01:44.040 And by the way, Alvin, you've been constant supporters.

01:01:46.100 Shoot me a DM on Instagram.

01:01:49.000 Yeah, just shoot me a DM.

01:01:50.300 Ladies, pick only one to keep, a marriageable man or your Instagram. 1.00

01:01:53.500 Good question.

01:01:54.380 I had to increase the dollar amount of my soup chat for brunch.

01:01:57.840 It's actually a very good question.

01:01:59.560 I don't think it is.

01:02:02.300 Marriageable man or your Instagram.

01:02:05.200 Go ahead.

01:02:06.340 Marriageable man.

01:02:07.020 My boyfriend already said, for him, I'm going to delete my Instagram soon, actually.

01:02:14.880 Because I see Instagram as just a dating app.

01:02:17.660 Whoa.

01:02:19.820 Based.

01:02:20.480 Answer.

01:02:21.460 Based.

01:02:22.040 Okay.

01:02:23.180 And was that something that you arrived at on your own?

01:02:27.300 Or was it kind of...

01:02:28.080 Yeah, because, I mean, again, if you're a certain level of attraction, even for girls, even if

01:02:31.540 you're unattractive, you're still going to get guys in your DM. 0.98

01:02:33.680 It doesn't matter, because we can get a guy easier than a guy can get a girl.

01:02:38.160 And so, for me, I just, I want to make him feel like he's the only man.

01:02:42.680 And that comes with making him feel like he has a certain level of status.

01:02:47.260 So, I'll gladly delete my Instagram.

01:02:50.500 What's your first name again?

01:02:51.840 Liz.

01:02:52.400 Liz.

01:02:53.100 Yo, can we get W...

01:02:54.680 Yo, can we get Wiz in the chat?

01:02:57.240 I want spam Wiz in the chat.

01:03:00.040 I don't think I've ever heard a girl say that on this show.

01:03:02.480 And we've interviewed over 100 people.

01:03:05.420 Wiz in the chat.

01:03:06.300 W Liz.

01:03:07.140 W Liz.

01:03:07.860 I want to see it.

01:03:08.560 I want to see it in the chat.

01:03:09.400 Thank you.

01:03:09.720 He's coming out.

01:03:10.320 Thank you, man.

01:03:11.020 Wiz.

01:03:11.880 Wait, I have a question for you.

01:03:13.680 Yes.

01:03:14.180 Is he going to delete his Instagram, too?

01:03:17.000 Oh, good question.

01:03:17.800 For a man, status is a big deal for a man.

01:03:21.080 And so, I'm not going to ask him to delete his Instagram.

01:03:24.540 As long as I have access to be able to kind of see and I trust him fully, I don't see any

01:03:28.480 problem.

01:03:28.860 For a girl, it's completely different because guys and girls are wired biologically completely

01:03:33.660 different to react to certain things.

01:03:35.140 Girls like attention. 1.00

01:03:36.940 So, guys being in DMs, that's still, you know, a temptation and I just would rather get rid

01:03:42.900 of it altogether.

01:03:44.500 Yo, Flynn Life, thank you for the five gifted memberships.

01:03:47.500 Wow, that's very impressive.

01:03:49.660 Thank you.

01:03:50.020 By the way, the microphones, you can actually go a little further back from the mic just

01:03:53.900 because it's blocking your face a little bit.

01:03:56.140 I was, like, kissing it.

01:03:56.680 Yeah.

01:03:57.840 You're doing fantastic.

01:03:59.740 You're following my instructions, but it does seem to be blocking you slightly.

01:04:03.460 Sorry.

01:04:04.120 So, you can go just a little further back.

01:04:06.380 So, marriageable man or Instagram?

01:04:08.600 I got fans on Instagram.

01:04:12.040 But, of course, if I love him.

01:04:14.260 Cringy.

01:04:14.280 What wrong?

01:04:15.100 If I, if I, I don't know, honestly, I'm not in that situation yet, I guess.

01:04:22.140 If I really, really love the man, I get really obsessed when I like somebody a lot.

01:04:27.200 But, um, I don't know.

01:04:30.160 I think in order for me to delete my Instagram, he would have to do the same thing, too.

01:04:34.260 And that's the only way I would allow it.

01:04:35.840 If he was just telling me, don't, like, go delete your Instagram and stuff.

01:04:40.640 Um, I was like, no.

01:04:43.960 When you're in a relationship, do you see that man as your equal?

01:04:47.760 Or do you, do you see him as, like, a leader?

01:04:53.500 Jerry, do you guys, are you, like, 50-50?

01:04:55.520 Or is he 100?

01:04:56.220 Like, what, what is, you know?

01:04:57.720 Alan Jones donated $50.

01:04:59.820 Leather jacket needs to stop hiding behind the mic.

01:05:02.920 No way to hide the beak.

01:05:04.580 Oh, my God.

01:05:05.680 Hooked noses can be sexy sometimes. 0.71

01:05:08.160 But she pretends she would delete her Instagram when she pays for followers on it.

01:05:12.420 Her like counts are all hidden.

01:05:13.820 Ooh.

01:05:14.520 Cap?

01:05:16.200 So you're stalking her Instagram?

01:05:17.720 So you're obsessed.

01:05:18.800 I don't buy my followers.

01:05:20.160 Do you have a response to Alan Jones?

01:05:22.100 No, I can take whatever he wants.

01:05:23.280 It's fine. 1.00

01:05:23.820 Damn, Alan. 1.00

01:05:24.120 That's. 1.00

01:05:26.220 Oh, Zentians. 0.90

01:05:27.360 Thank you.

01:05:28.000 Zentians super chatted $50.

01:05:30.040 I know I have a beak.

01:05:30.940 Brian, I'll have to email you about calling in.

01:05:33.700 Before I go, to the traditional woman, much respect to your husband, and well done honoring

01:05:39.160 him in public.

01:05:40.560 He who finds a wife finds a good thing. 1.00

01:05:43.800 Ladies need to be wives before a husband finds them. 1.00

01:05:46.920 Yo, Zentians, thank you for the $50 soup chat. 0.92

01:05:50.180 Is this directed at you or at?

01:05:52.680 I don't know.

01:05:53.040 Because you're the one with the husband. 0.99

01:05:54.560 Yeah.

01:05:55.260 I don't know.

01:05:55.820 It seems like it's in response to you, maybe.

01:05:57.540 So, yeah.

01:06:00.440 Well, hey, Zentians, thank you so much for the support, man.

01:06:04.120 Really appreciate it.

01:06:05.140 And my email is, it's just brianatwhatever.com.

01:06:09.500 Brian with an I.

01:06:11.960 And, okay.

01:06:13.320 So, you want, I think you were in the middle of responding to her about marriageable man

01:06:18.260 versus Instagram.

01:06:19.180 Yeah.

01:06:19.340 I was just asking if you saw the man as equal to you.

01:06:23.320 I don't know.

01:06:24.200 I guess, yeah.

01:06:25.760 I don't really know how to answer that.

01:06:26.960 I haven't really been in a relationship in a while, to be honest.

01:06:30.620 Last time I was in a relationship was, like, a year and a half ago.

01:06:36.380 I don't know.

01:06:37.680 When did you start your OnlyFans?

01:06:40.000 I had it, like, I made it a while ago.

01:06:44.940 But, because I had TikTok and I got a lot of followers on TikTok, and everybody was asking

01:06:52.060 me to make one.

01:06:53.440 And all my friends were asking me to make that one, too.

01:06:56.280 And I made it, but I didn't, I don't remember exactly what happened, but I just never really

01:07:02.580 posted that much or something.

01:07:05.120 I did make a little bit of money off of it, but everybody was, like, asking for nudes and

01:07:10.160 all this stuff.

01:07:10.820 And then I got asked for the OnlyFans again after I went on this podcast.

01:07:17.240 So I just, like, started.

01:07:18.840 Do you think that whenever you started your OnlyFans, there was a correlation between you

01:07:23.020 staying single and having that OnlyFans?

01:07:26.200 What do you mean?

01:07:26.580 Because you didn't tell me exactly when you started your OnlyFans, but do you think there's

01:07:30.560 a, like, I'm not saying causation or correlation, but do you think there's any?

01:07:34.140 No.

01:07:34.720 I didn't, I only really made the OnlyFans because everybody was, like, asking me for it,

01:07:39.500 and people were, like, dude, just do it, like, you're going to make money.

01:07:42.120 So I just didn't.

01:07:43.040 I didn't do it because I was, like, oh, I'm single.

01:07:45.160 Are they, are your friends single?

01:07:47.320 No, some of them are in relationships.

01:07:48.500 Some of them are in relationships.

01:07:49.580 The ones that asked?

01:07:50.820 The ones that asked?

01:07:52.520 For you to have OnlyFans.

01:07:55.000 Yeah, like, yeah, I guess.

01:07:57.620 Y'all are relationships and asking for OnlyFans?

01:07:59.440 That's weird.

01:08:00.320 They're, like, where they're girls.

01:08:02.300 They're telling me they're, like, dude, make an OnlyFans.

01:08:04.460 I see, I see.

01:08:05.200 By the way, OnlyFans.com slash whatever, we have our first picture set of Kiki before

01:08:12.580 she became an uwu waifu.

01:08:16.320 Uwu?

01:08:17.960 Yeah, so OnlyFans.com slash whatever, check it out. 0.98

01:08:22.380 It's fucking lit. 0.99

01:08:23.980 There's going to be more shit there. 1.00

01:08:26.040 Okay, marriageable man or Instagram? 1.00

01:08:29.120 Marriageable man.

01:08:29.900 You're not just saying that because she said it, right?

01:08:33.520 Okay.

01:08:33.720 No.

01:08:34.420 Because most, well, okay, continue?

01:08:36.060 Most, no.

01:08:36.920 Okay.

01:08:37.240 No, go ahead and continue.

01:08:38.740 You were going to say that most women would pick up their Instagram, right? 0.97

01:08:41.020 Yes.

01:08:41.580 I wouldn't.

01:08:42.120 Most of the girls we've had on, well, not, we don't ask the question every show, but 0.98

01:08:45.240 a lot of girls say, no way I'm giving up my Instagram, but.

01:08:49.160 I think marriageable man versus Instagram?

01:08:51.820 You're tainting, you're tainting all the answers.

01:08:54.040 No, I don't think she does.

01:08:54.500 No, keeping honest, keeping honest, but you're tainting the answers.

01:08:58.320 I can do devil's advocate.

01:08:59.900 If you want me to.

01:09:00.920 No, no, no, you're fine.

01:09:01.760 Okay.

01:09:02.080 Okay, so marriageable man.

01:09:04.260 Marriageable man, yeah.

01:09:05.200 Okay.

01:09:05.760 All right, wow.

01:09:07.120 I am impressed by this panel.

01:09:09.240 Okay, go ahead.

01:09:10.560 Marriageable man.

01:09:12.220 You guys are all going to be accused of being pick me, by the way.

01:09:15.020 Okay, no, because I'm actually married.

01:09:16.720 Well, you're actually married.

01:09:17.360 If my husband asked me to get rid of my Instagram, I 100% would do it.

01:09:20.040 You do have your Instagram, though.

01:09:21.640 Yeah, but.

01:09:22.080 But it's pretty tame, I think.

01:09:23.580 I don't know.

01:09:24.040 I haven't really reviewed it, but.

01:09:25.860 I think I have like six posts, maybe.

01:09:27.980 Oh.

01:09:28.080 That's it.

01:09:28.560 What about you?

01:09:30.440 Definitely marriageable man.

01:09:32.880 Wow.

01:09:33.320 I didn't have social media for a really long time.

01:09:35.780 I only really activated it more recently.

01:09:40.140 So, yeah.

01:09:42.060 Definitely marriageable man.

01:09:43.660 Do you want to cook a little bit longer on why?

01:09:48.540 Why, what exactly?

01:09:49.260 Do you want to qualify your answers?

01:09:50.520 Because you picked marriageable man. 1.00

01:09:52.320 Yeah.

01:09:52.960 Why is that?

01:09:54.380 I feel like as a woman, we're called to be submissive to our husbands or boyfriends, even.

01:09:59.520 If they're, you know, qualified or to the standard of husband.

01:10:02.920 Because there are still, you know, there are some guys out there that are just like mojo.

01:10:06.640 And then there's ones like my man who is a one to five percenter.

01:10:09.480 And I would do anything for him.

01:10:11.680 So, for me, getting rid of my Instagram is easy.

01:10:18.320 You said your boyfriend's a one to five percenter.

01:10:21.300 Yeah.

01:10:21.500 Are you talking socioeconomically?

01:10:23.240 What, how are you?

01:10:24.140 All the above.

01:10:24.920 Everything.

01:10:25.480 Everything.

01:10:25.700 Okay.

01:10:26.400 Well, if you guys are, if you're down to come back on, I know you wanted to try to

01:10:29.280 get him on this panel, but we would love a bit full, but let's get him on the show.

01:10:32.580 Yeah.

01:10:32.720 He would love to.

01:10:34.020 Yeah.

01:10:34.380 It's just pretty tight as you see.

01:10:37.600 I see.

01:10:38.440 Next time.

01:10:39.500 Okay.

01:10:40.140 So, did you want to, did you guys want to explain why or just.

01:10:45.020 No.

01:10:45.460 Okay.

01:10:45.700 I think.

01:10:46.240 Yeah.

01:10:46.400 I need to move along with the soup chats here.

01:10:47.820 Yo, Michael Matroke the four.

01:10:49.580 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:10:51.700 Appreciate it, man.

01:10:52.460 Question for the ladies. 0.99

01:10:53.500 Do you regret who you lost your virginity with?

01:10:55.960 Yes or no.

01:10:56.900 Why?

01:10:58.880 We can do that.

01:10:59.780 Sure.

01:11:00.020 Why not?

01:11:02.060 I'm going to skip that one.

01:11:03.900 Don't want to answer.

01:11:04.720 It wasn't my choice.

01:11:06.280 Oh, Michael Matroke asking difficult questions.

01:11:11.040 Go ahead.

01:11:12.160 No, I don't regret the person that I lost my virginity to because I was definitely in love

01:11:17.640 with them.

01:11:19.060 We had been dating for a while.

01:11:20.780 We actually didn't sleep with each other.

01:11:23.500 Um, until a few months into the relationship, actually.

01:11:27.080 Okay.

01:11:27.520 But, um, yeah, I, I was like 19 at the time too.

01:11:31.940 So, I think I was like mature and yeah, I don't regret it at all because he loved me

01:11:36.720 and I loved him.

01:11:38.520 Don't regret it.

01:11:39.380 Um, my first time also was not consensual, but I wouldn't count him as losing my virginity,

01:11:48.920 I guess.

01:11:49.940 So, the recent one that I did, I guess, lose my virginity to, I don't think I would regret.

01:11:55.860 Okay.

01:11:56.100 Yeah.

01:11:57.580 It was not consensual either.

01:11:59.360 Wow.

01:11:59.980 Yikes.

01:12:00.420 This is so sad.

01:12:01.480 Yes, I did.

01:12:01.980 Men do better.

01:12:03.260 Don't do this to girls.

01:12:04.840 Women do better. 1.00

01:12:06.120 This is three girls so far that have had, that said that.

01:12:10.040 On the same podcast.

01:12:11.120 That's really bad, you guys, L, for that.

01:12:16.060 Yeah, I mean, that's, that's certainly terrible that that's happened to you guys.

01:12:19.000 What about you?

01:12:20.240 Um, I don't regret it.

01:12:21.680 And we were in a relationship, so no, I don't regret it.

01:12:26.680 Okay, moving on.

01:12:28.000 Yo. 1.00

01:12:29.780 Jesus fucking heaven. 0.99

01:12:31.220 Michael, thank you for the heavy question there. 0.99

01:12:33.420 Or it wasn't a heavy question, but it certainly elicited a heavy response.

01:12:36.980 Uh, Immorality Kid, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:12:39.380 Have all the women named 10 books.

01:12:42.120 Why?

01:12:43.080 Uh, bangs.

01:12:44.620 Name 10 books.

01:12:45.560 Go, quick. 0.96

01:12:46.160 I don't have to name 10 books.

01:12:46.820 Go, quick. 0.96

01:12:47.560 Go, go, go.

01:12:47.960 You got it.

01:12:48.480 10 books, go.

01:12:50.160 Down the Rabbit Hole.

01:12:52.120 Um, Frederick Douglass.

01:12:53.840 Narrative.

01:12:54.960 Um.

01:12:56.580 You're doing good.

01:12:57.320 I don't know what else.

01:12:58.220 You're doing good.

01:12:59.020 I don't know what else.

01:12:59.920 Fifty Shades of Grey.

01:13:00.920 There's a whole bunch of books right there.

01:13:02.400 Oh, yeah.

01:13:02.820 I can't just read them that far.

01:13:05.460 Squint.

01:13:06.140 I read a lot of books, though, but I can't, I took a break from reading.

01:13:09.720 But the last book I read was Down the Rabbit Hole.

01:13:12.200 Wait, here's a better question.

01:13:13.320 Here's a better question.

01:13:14.180 Colleen Madison.

01:13:14.880 Name three countries excluding North American countries.

01:13:21.500 Lexington.

01:13:22.200 Oh, sorry.

01:13:22.680 No, no, no, countries.

01:13:24.960 Countries, that's a country.

01:13:25.860 Oh, yeah, we'll start with you.

01:13:27.020 And that's a country.

01:13:27.840 Lexington.

01:13:28.560 I'm pretty sure it's a country.

01:13:30.220 Um, and Europe.

01:13:31.300 Um, Germany.

01:13:32.760 France.

01:13:34.160 Um, Egypt. 0.67

01:13:35.800 Um, Italy.

01:13:38.520 Um, Brazil.

01:13:40.620 Nicaragua.

01:13:41.660 Costa Rica.

01:13:42.920 Well, I said three.

01:13:44.260 Oh, three. 1.00

01:13:44.880 Damn. 0.99

01:13:45.340 You're not so sorry. 1.00

01:13:47.360 I can do more.

01:13:47.920 Yeah, I saw the thing about ten.

01:13:50.080 I'm so sorry.

01:13:51.220 I was still thinking about ten books.

01:13:52.520 Your geography is good, but your math needs a little work, I think.

01:13:55.580 Um, okay, so.

01:13:56.840 The numbers.

01:13:57.740 Yeah, so, okay.

01:13:58.480 Uh, that was, Lexington?

01:14:03.140 That's a country.

01:14:04.480 I think.

01:14:04.860 No, it's a small little country.

01:14:06.880 I'm pretty sure.

01:14:07.780 Luxembourg, I think.

01:14:08.940 What is it called?

01:14:10.740 Luxembourg.

01:14:11.700 Maybe.

01:14:12.420 I don't know.

01:14:13.980 It's, it's Luxembourg.

01:14:15.420 Okay, I'm sorry, Ryan.

01:14:16.460 Apology accepted.

01:14:17.380 How dare you?

01:14:18.440 How dare you?

01:14:19.300 As a native of Luxembourg, I'm deeply offended.

01:14:21.880 You are?

01:14:22.900 If, for you to confuse, what is it, Lexington, Oklahoma?

01:14:26.920 Where's, where's Lexington?

01:14:28.320 No.

01:14:28.700 Oklahoma.

01:14:30.220 There's a Lexington in Oklahoma.

01:14:31.920 Oh, where's that?

01:14:32.880 Luxembourg.

01:14:33.880 Luxembourg.

01:14:34.440 I'm so sorry.

01:14:35.540 Okay, name three countries.

01:14:37.240 Ugh, Romania.

01:14:37.920 You can hide it.

01:14:38.640 You can hide it.

01:14:39.060 Um, Moldova, and, um, Italy.

01:14:43.000 I don't know.

01:14:43.540 Those are some Andrew Tate countries.

01:14:47.000 Okay.

01:14:47.680 I do love me and some Andrew Tate. 0.99

01:14:49.640 Oh, shit. 1.00

01:14:50.340 Oh, she likes Andrew Tate. 1.00

01:14:51.360 Okay.

01:14:51.780 Oh.

01:14:52.840 Oh.

01:14:54.740 Oh.

01:14:55.640 Okay.

01:14:56.560 I.

01:14:56.880 Oh.

01:14:57.580 Oh.

01:14:58.260 Hmm.

01:14:58.760 Hmm.

01:14:59.280 Go ahead.

01:15:00.000 Um.

01:15:00.580 Three countries.

01:15:05.080 Don't do it.

01:15:06.400 Yeah.

01:15:06.960 Okay.

01:15:07.220 Um, isn't like, like, France, Italy, is Puerto Rico a country?

01:15:20.480 It's part of the, no, it's part of the United States.

01:15:22.580 It is?

01:15:23.220 It's a territory of the U.S.

01:15:24.840 It's a territory of the U.S.

01:15:26.600 Can I still count it?

01:15:27.900 Cause like that, I didn't know that.

01:15:29.340 It's not a country.

01:15:30.160 Is that, but like, is that common knowledge?

01:15:31.960 Yes.

01:15:32.980 It's a U.S. territory.

01:15:34.240 I didn't know that.

01:15:35.080 It's okay.

01:15:35.420 I love getting educated.

01:15:41.020 Go ahead.

01:15:41.820 You can't name any previously named countries, by the way.

01:15:44.460 Greece.

01:15:45.060 I don't think Greece was said.

01:15:46.180 Nope.

01:15:46.720 Peru.

01:15:47.800 You're doing so good.

01:15:49.300 Yeah.

01:15:49.720 Okay.

01:15:50.380 Um.

01:15:51.520 One more.

01:15:52.120 Hide that, Eric.

01:15:55.340 And Brazil.

01:15:56.160 Did somebody say Brazil?

01:15:58.380 I did.

01:15:59.040 You did?

01:15:59.560 Okay.

01:16:00.080 You named 10.

01:16:01.480 Yeah, you did name 10.

01:16:02.340 All right.

01:16:02.480 I'm moving on from this question.

01:16:04.560 Yo, Frankie K.

01:16:05.180 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:16:06.280 Appreciate it, man.

01:16:07.060 Would you rather have a fabulously wealthy man who cheats or a loyal man who loves you,

01:16:11.120 but is cruising the poverty line?

01:16:13.320 Yeah, we'll go around on this.

01:16:15.400 Uh, let's start over here.

01:16:16.880 Go ahead.

01:16:18.740 Um.

01:16:22.260 A loyal man who loves me.

01:16:24.680 I mean, wealth is not something I really care about.

01:16:42.560 I just want someone who will love me and protect me and always be there for me and I will do

01:17:00.220 the same to them.

01:17:00.920 I agree with loyal man.

01:17:03.360 I feel like I'm comfortable making the income.

01:17:07.580 If I have, like, a good, stable job, I would try to encourage them to, like, look for work

01:17:12.860 just so I'm not the only income and we can, like, work together to make income, but I would

01:17:17.600 definitely prefer a loyal man.

01:17:18.640 So, wait, you, you want to make the income?

01:17:21.340 Like, you'd hold up, hold down a guy?

01:17:23.280 I would encourage them to try to make an income.

01:17:25.660 Okay.

01:17:26.060 But I would be comfortable with holding an income as well.

01:17:28.920 You're a sociology major, right?

01:17:31.620 Yeah.

01:17:34.080 Uh-oh.

01:17:34.540 Uh-oh.

01:17:34.880 Oh, here it comes.

01:17:35.520 Here it goes.

01:17:35.920 Do it.

01:17:36.360 Do it.

01:17:36.700 Do it.

01:17:36.940 Do it.

01:17:40.760 Little Brian Jr.

01:17:42.140 Donated $50.

01:17:44.040 Oh, Jesus.

01:17:47.080 Be nice, guys.

01:17:48.220 Be nice.

01:17:48.540 Be nice.

01:17:49.160 Please stop talking. 0.83

01:17:52.060 The word vomit spilling out of your mouth is overflowing worse than your muffin towel. 0.98

01:17:57.160 Wow. 0.50

01:17:57.720 Okay, guys.

01:17:58.320 Keep it.

01:17:58.660 Keep it.

01:17:59.000 Let's avoid the ad.

01:18:00.240 Let's keep it simple.

01:18:00.860 $50 just to insult me.

01:18:04.040 Okay.

01:18:04.760 Let's just try to, you know.

01:18:06.300 That was fun.

01:18:06.960 Attack the argument, you know.

01:18:08.420 Let's keep it nice.

01:18:10.160 But, all right, so.

01:18:12.700 We were right here.

01:18:13.880 Oh, yeah.

01:18:14.560 This, what do you want to do for work?

01:18:17.960 I either want to, like, work with criminals, criminal sociology, or educate, like, people

01:18:22.040 on animals.

01:18:22.740 Animal sociology.

01:18:22.820 Work with criminals?

01:18:23.840 Like, in corrections, or, like, how would you work with criminals, besides selling drugs

01:18:31.400 and being a human trafficker?

01:18:32.900 Oh, whoa.

01:18:33.700 Oh, wow.

01:18:34.300 Okay.

01:18:34.740 That's a heavy topic.

01:18:35.660 Yeah.

01:18:36.300 Um, I just, like, see how it affects society.

01:18:39.120 Criminals in society.

01:18:40.260 I feel like sociology majors make good income.

01:18:43.180 They do?

01:18:44.480 Do sociology majors make...

01:18:44.920 Yeah.

01:18:45.120 I mean, I wouldn't be in school for sociology if they didn't make a good income.

01:18:49.260 Sociology majors make a good income?

01:18:51.160 What's a good income to you?

01:18:52.840 I feel, like, $100,000 a year.

01:18:56.320 A year?

01:18:56.940 You think you're gonna, with a sociology degree, you think you're gonna make $100,000 a year

01:19:01.980 upon graduation?

01:19:03.860 Not, not upon God, no.

01:19:05.520 From one job?

01:19:06.380 I mean, I'm not an expert in this.

01:19:07.720 I don't know how much...

01:19:08.580 Well, I also...

01:19:09.200 Well, not maybe from one job, but I believe that, like...

01:19:12.140 OnlyFans?

01:19:12.660 In the works?

01:19:13.420 No.

01:19:13.940 Oh, dear.

01:19:14.740 Restaurant.

01:19:15.340 Oh.

01:19:15.460 Like, waitress, stuff like that. 0.99

01:19:17.880 Oh, okay.

01:19:18.080 I've done that, yeah.

01:19:20.420 You?

01:19:21.820 I would say a little man who loves me, but is on, like, the broker side.

01:19:27.200 But I do...

01:19:27.960 I would understand why some ladies would choose the other option. 1.00

01:19:31.900 Like, she was having a completely...

01:19:33.160 Wait, I just really quick on the sociology major thing.

01:19:35.780 You both are sociology majors, correct?

01:19:37.600 Yes.

01:19:37.960 So, look, we do live in California.

01:19:39.840 Obviously, wages in California are higher than in the rest of the country.

01:19:43.660 However, it says here, sociology major graduates in the U.S. make an average $40,000 a year

01:19:49.160 or $19.40...

01:19:52.800 Sorry, $19.40 per hour.

01:19:54.700 You're definitely having another job.

01:19:58.800 Here, let me look...

01:19:59.520 That's fine.

01:19:59.700 Let me do California.

01:20:00.620 Hold on.

01:20:02.500 Oh, well, $41,000 in California and $19.65 an hour.

01:20:11.140 Okay.

01:20:12.180 Sorry to crush your dreams.

01:20:13.640 You're okay.

01:20:14.480 Your guys are first years.

01:20:15.700 You can always...

01:20:17.620 Change majors?

01:20:20.380 Possibly.

01:20:21.820 Here, don't listen to me.

01:20:23.420 Chase your dreams.

01:20:24.380 Oh, dear.

01:20:27.220 Just do it!

01:20:29.400 And we will.

01:20:30.240 Don't let your dreams be dreams.

01:20:32.700 True.

01:20:33.260 Yesterday, you said tomorrow.

01:20:35.200 So just do it!

01:20:37.040 Okay.

01:20:39.000 Jin's donated $50.

01:20:41.120 Look, I get being upset with people, but just hate and to just hate is haram.

01:20:46.040 I have a question.

01:20:47.380 What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?

01:20:51.020 What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?

01:20:55.380 Hmm.

01:20:56.500 I suppose this is directed at us.

01:20:58.640 I mean, I suppose...

01:20:59.600 I would say so.

01:21:00.540 What is the biggest double standard that women have for men?

01:21:04.640 I think the only thing...

01:21:06.380 Let me answer that like this.

01:21:09.180 So, the one double standard that most women tend to argue is that men can sleep with more, like, a lot of women and not be called a hoe. 0.88

01:21:18.660 Whereas women that sleep with a lot of men are definitely a hoe. 1.00

01:21:21.780 Is that what you think? 0.79

01:21:26.600 Oh, hold on.

01:21:27.540 KD-63.7 Super chatted $49.99.

01:21:33.800 Ladies, my sister was assaulted in SB by the SH Tri-Kitty. 1.00

01:21:38.440 I worked at Cottage ER and was working the night it happened.

01:21:42.120 I wanted to find the men to know ends of this earth, believe me.

01:21:45.820 Please be safe.

01:21:46.800 That town has many predators.

01:21:48.960 Nanny 3 guys triggered.

01:21:50.480 Yeah, definitely be careful out there.

01:21:55.900 Be safe.

01:21:57.980 Oh, another one came through?

01:22:00.140 Why did this?

01:22:00.960 Oh, okay.

01:22:01.480 I see.

01:22:03.280 Yeah, we'll need to do that one.

01:22:04.780 Okay, so a whole bunch came in.

01:22:06.560 Let's come back to the double standards thing.

01:22:09.360 He was asking us...

01:22:10.240 What was the question again?

01:22:11.820 The question was, like, is there any double standards that women have for men?

01:22:17.160 No, that wasn't...

01:22:18.640 Eric, did you start that one?

01:22:21.760 Eric?

01:22:23.060 The double standards one?

01:22:25.460 Oh, no, it must have...

01:22:26.160 I think it came through as a...

01:22:29.180 Oh, what is the biggest double standard that women have for men?

01:22:34.480 Hmm.

01:22:36.380 That women have for men? 1.00

01:22:38.580 I mean, you mentioned the body...

01:22:39.880 Like, the body count thing or promiscuity.

01:22:41.960 Yeah.

01:22:42.200 That's the only thing I can think of, because society really benefits women in a lot of different ways. 1.00

01:22:48.280 And a lot of women tend to, like, fight against the patriarchy. 1.00

01:22:51.540 It's like, hold on.

01:22:52.600 Is there really a patriarchy whenever women have all these benefits? 1.00

01:22:55.380 I think the big double standard that I can think of that kind of, like, goes both ways is women have plenty of physical preferences that they have in men.

01:23:09.320 Often, those preferences are not things that are in men's control.

01:23:12.680 For example, having a full head of hair.

01:23:14.940 Height.

01:23:15.440 Height.

01:23:16.620 Peen size.

01:23:18.380 There's probably a couple others.

01:23:19.700 So, those three are things that are totally out of men's control, whereas, like, men, if we say, like, oh, we don't want to date a girl who's, like, overweight or obese, it's like, oh, my God, how dare you? 0.89

01:23:32.860 You're a misogynist.

01:23:33.280 But, like, almost, like, the vast majority of women have a height preference. 1.00

01:23:37.680 Right.

01:23:37.940 Nobody bats an eye when women, like, want to date a guy who's tall. 1.00

01:23:42.340 But, like, if a guy were to say, I don't want to date a woman who's overweight, oh, my God. 1.00

01:23:47.100 Oh, yeah.

01:23:48.660 Actually, you would get women on dating apps say they like tall guys or they don't like short guys all the time.

01:23:54.580 I see it all the time.

01:23:55.420 But if a dude on a dating app were to say, I don't like fat women, he would get banned from the dating app, even though one you can control and the other you can't.

01:24:03.820 So, I would say that's when it comes to judging physical characteristics, nobody shames women for their preferences in men when it comes to physical characteristics. 0.98

01:24:12.780 However, if men even open their mouth about things that they find attractive in women, it's always, like, misogynist, body shaming, some sort of shit like that.

01:24:22.680 I think that, to me, is the biggest double standard that exists. 0.95

01:24:26.460 People get canceled, like Andrew Tate.

01:24:28.380 We get thrown away for a while, like Andrew Tate.

01:24:32.160 People get demonetized.

01:24:35.240 There's a lot of double standards whenever it comes to that aspect.

01:24:38.220 But, yeah.

01:24:40.100 Okay, so we were doing, I'm trying to pull back up the super chat that we were on.

01:24:47.300 Let me see.

01:24:47.940 It was, I believe, this one.

01:24:51.520 Yeah, okay, really quick.

01:24:52.720 I think we were going around on this one.

01:24:55.820 Did you get to go?

01:24:56.860 Yeah, I did.

01:24:57.500 On this one?

01:24:58.700 Yeah, a loyal man who loves me, for sure.

01:25:00.560 Okay, this, go ahead.

01:25:01.840 Definitely a loyal man who loves me.

01:25:03.860 Sure.

01:25:04.100 I want to say loyal as well, but I feel like if I was in a specific situation, I would think of myself and choose the other.

01:25:12.900 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted, $49.99.

01:25:18.560 Respect to Bangs for coming back on the pod after her roast. 1.00

01:25:22.360 If she humbled herself, actually learned something, and gave herself a more realistic beauty rating,

01:25:28.040 she would literally go up by about two points in attractiveness. 1.00

01:25:32.300 Your response?

01:25:34.960 Um, I don't know.

01:25:38.340 I don't know how to respond to these.

01:25:40.940 You guys are just losing money.

01:25:43.900 No, they're losing money when they're subscribing to your OnlyFans and not subscribing to the whatever OnlyFans.

01:25:50.920 They're getting finessed.

01:25:53.200 By the way, full disclosure, there's not much on the whatever OnlyFans, but there's a little...

01:25:57.260 Go find out.

01:25:58.460 Yo, question for the ladies. 1.00

01:25:59.780 Hold on.

01:26:01.700 Let me know what it is, but we got to get caught up in the soup chats.

01:26:04.560 What is it?

01:26:05.900 How long would you stay in a relationship where that man wasn't making any bread?

01:26:11.000 If we have time, we'll come back to that.

01:26:12.420 I understand.

01:26:12.640 All right.

01:26:13.420 Dank Naked, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:26:15.020 Thank you, man.

01:26:16.320 Thanks, Bryce.

01:26:17.100 She still thinks she's a 10. 0.91

01:26:18.200 Oh, my God.

01:26:18.760 She hasn't learned anything from the past show.

01:26:20.980 There is no saving this woman. 1.00

01:26:23.280 Your answer to that?

01:26:25.000 Yeah, there is no saving me.

01:26:26.380 Hurrah!

01:26:28.660 Okay.

01:26:30.060 We have...

01:26:31.060 This one came through.

01:26:33.340 How's your speaking voice?

01:26:34.960 Actually, can you read these?

01:26:36.260 My throat's getting a little parched.

01:26:38.520 No such thing as a 10.

01:26:40.200 Nobody is perfect.

01:26:42.060 Cameron, thank you for the $20.

01:26:43.700 Appreciate it.

01:26:45.340 This one came through.

01:26:48.180 All right.

01:26:49.720 Go for it.

01:26:52.700 Do you want to read it?

01:26:53.660 Rather have $10 million instead.

01:26:57.840 Yo, Northern Viking King.

01:26:59.040 Thank you for the Australian 30.

01:27:00.140 Appreciate it.

01:27:01.640 Apologies that we're just getting to these super chats now.

01:27:04.340 Not sure exactly what this is in context to, but appreciate it.

01:27:08.520 Yo, Cal.

01:27:08.980 Thank you for the membership.

01:27:10.140 Appreciate it.

01:27:11.180 All right.

01:27:11.640 That one came through.

01:27:14.320 Go for it.

01:27:15.720 I'm from New Zealand.

01:27:17.220 These American girls are built different. 1.00

01:27:19.900 Yo, thank you for the $20 New Zealand dollars, man.

01:27:22.200 Appreciate it.

01:27:23.140 Pray for us.

01:27:23.580 Yo, All Blacks.

01:27:24.880 What's up?

01:27:26.180 Yo, Target.

01:27:28.680 I will do a haka. 0.61

01:27:31.180 I will do the haka, the All Blacks haka.

01:27:36.420 Do you know the haka?

01:27:37.340 I don't.

01:27:38.040 I'm unfamiliar.

01:27:38.600 I'll teach you how to do it.

01:27:40.420 I need $500 New Zealand dollars to do the haka.

01:27:43.600 He'll teach me $500.

01:27:44.900 I'm just saying.

01:27:45.420 I'm just saying.

01:27:46.260 All right.

01:27:46.760 We have, let's see here.

01:27:51.580 Cheeks.

01:27:52.320 Go for it.

01:27:53.720 Nanny is for sure a 10. 0.94

01:27:55.880 10 out of 100 scale.

01:27:57.540 I can live with that.

01:27:58.460 I have to go to bed.

01:27:59.400 It's late here on the East Coast.

01:28:01.820 For the men in the chat, stop subbing to OnlyFans girls and quit following IG girls that don't

01:28:07.280 appreciate you.

01:28:08.300 Yo, Cheeks. 1.00

01:28:08.820 Thank you, man.

01:28:09.180 Appreciate it.

01:28:09.720 If you truly love your SO, then every day should be Valentine's Day, for better or worse.

01:28:19.600 Yo, Cameron.

01:28:20.380 Thank you for the $20 soup chat, man.

01:28:21.860 I really appreciate it.

01:28:23.220 Yeah, definitely.

01:28:23.680 I mean, like I said, Valentine's Day is kind of a gimmick.

01:28:28.020 Go ahead.

01:28:29.240 Brixton, are you looking for companies to sponsor the pod or do you want sponsors or do you don't

01:28:34.520 want sponsors?

01:28:35.540 Also, bangs almost got ganged by some...

01:28:38.400 Faisarancheros.

01:28:39.780 Ooh, can you say that again?

01:28:40.940 I can't say that properly.

01:28:41.580 You know that?

01:28:42.060 Faisarancheros.

01:28:42.820 You should have been the one reading that.

01:28:44.820 Yeah.

01:28:45.280 Yo, Mr. K, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

01:28:48.600 Yes.

01:28:49.540 I love vaqueros.

01:28:51.740 Okay.

01:28:52.460 Yeah, so I'm open to sponsorships.

01:28:57.140 I turn quite a few of them down.

01:28:59.400 Some of them I'll take, but yeah, if you have a business or company, feel free to reach out

01:29:05.880 and yeah, it's something I'm open to, but I don't take every single deal.

01:29:13.160 Just, I don't know.

01:29:13.740 I kind of feel like once you start taking advertiser dollars, it can, I don't know, compromise

01:29:21.180 the integrity of the show.

01:29:25.600 I've had sponsorship deals in the past not work out and even though, yeah, they compensate

01:29:31.920 you well, it's just at the end of the day, it's sometimes it's more of a headache.

01:29:37.100 Nothing.

01:29:37.940 This was like years ago, years ago.

01:29:40.120 There was just like, um, I don't want to say, I'm not going to say anything bad.

01:29:45.240 I probably should shut my mouth while I'm ahead.

01:29:47.460 Um, yo, joy.

01:29:49.320 Thank you for the, uh, $20.

01:29:51.120 Oh, this is, that's my mother.

01:29:52.700 Yo, what's up?

01:29:53.820 W mom in the chat.

01:29:55.740 Yo mom in the chat.

01:29:57.260 W mom.

01:29:58.120 W mom.

01:29:58.740 I love her selfie too.

01:29:59.920 Yeah.

01:30:00.240 That's all.

01:30:00.780 You don't look like her at all.

01:30:03.020 Whoa.

01:30:03.480 Hey man, that's my mom.

01:30:05.960 Oh, come on. 0.87

01:30:07.940 That was there.

01:30:08.720 That was there.

01:30:09.260 No, but for real.

01:30:10.400 Thank you mom for everything you've done.

01:30:11.820 Shout out to you.

01:30:12.940 Yo, Tuna. 0.87

01:30:13.420 Thank you for the membership, man.

01:30:14.780 Uh, yo, Dre Atkinson.

01:30:16.500 Thank you for the 20.

01:30:19.160 Go for it.

01:30:19.980 25 year old married mom here.

01:30:21.840 Hubs is high value.

01:30:23.020 Six, four, six figs, loyal, protective, handsome.

01:30:26.020 You ladies have high value men telling you what they want, but it doesn't matter. 1.00

01:30:30.100 Why should what you want matter then?

01:30:32.860 Especially bang.

01:30:35.060 Um, why should what you want matter then?

01:30:39.560 Because it's me?

01:30:41.880 What do you mean?

01:30:43.780 Um, what do you mean?

01:30:44.860 My opinion doesn't matter.

01:30:46.440 What?

01:30:46.740 That's so weird.

01:30:48.160 Well, she's saying they're high value and they're telling you, they're telling you,

01:30:54.260 they're telling you what they want.

01:30:56.060 So I guess in a easier question, what value to you, do you bring to them?

01:31:02.300 Um, I, I don't know.

01:31:04.160 I think I do a lot of stuff when I'm in love.

01:31:06.280 I go over the top all the time.

01:31:08.560 But so does everybody.

01:31:09.740 So what specifically do you bring to the table to satisfy a one to five percenter man?

01:31:14.780 Well, by the way, she rejects that we're high value, but.

01:31:19.300 Right.

01:31:20.560 Um, I don't know.

01:31:21.780 I, what would I do? 0.99

01:31:23.320 Um, honestly, if I had a high value man, like this man's bringing in the fucking money. 0.98

01:31:31.680 I'm sorry to say this. 1.00

01:31:32.580 I'm gonna be his bitch. 1.00

01:31:34.200 Like, I'm gonna be completely honest. 1.00

01:31:35.760 I would be his fucking bitch. 1.00

01:31:37.240 Like I would fucking cook, clean everything. 1.00

01:31:39.780 And what if he wasn't bringing money? 0.99

01:31:41.860 Oh, well.

01:31:42.820 I don't know.

01:31:43.280 Well, not only that, but in order to get a high value man, you have to be a high value woman, which means you need to do things that other girls don't do. 1.00

01:31:54.500 So, for example, do you go out to clubs or bars?

01:31:56.820 No.

01:31:57.740 Do you're on OnlyFans, though?

01:31:59.580 Yeah.

01:31:59.940 Okay.

01:32:00.200 That isn't something a high value woman does. 1.00

01:32:02.820 Doesn't matter.

01:32:03.740 OnlyFans is known for that.

01:32:05.900 And you're subscribed.

01:32:07.060 Yeah, you're associated with it.

01:32:08.380 So, if you associate yourself with the wrong crowd, people are gonna take you and put you in that wrong crowd, even if you're really not.

01:32:14.460 So, you have to continue to be a high value woman, but you can't do that if you're subscribing or having men subscribe to what you're selling on the internet. 1.00

01:32:22.520 I'm just trying to make my money.

01:32:24.080 There are other ways to make money.

01:32:25.600 Okay.

01:32:26.280 So, I don't know what to tell you.

01:32:27.900 If you have a problem with me having an OnlyFans, I don't know.

01:32:30.500 Do you want me to delete it or something?

01:32:31.500 No, you can do whatever you want.

01:32:33.080 You can do whatever you want.

01:32:34.380 Because if you're not, if you want to stay in a relationship with a high value man, you need to be able to bring more than just the basic things that you should already be doing.

01:32:45.920 You need to be adding value to the relationship.

01:32:49.660 So, it's not just about the very bare minimum of cooking and cleaning and being his, whatever you said.

01:32:58.660 Like, it's not just that.

01:33:00.120 It's a lot more.

01:33:01.820 And it's not that she has a problem.

01:33:03.900 We don't have a problem with you, but it's just a different way of looking at a healthy relationship.

01:33:11.160 That's my question.

01:33:12.720 Like, what makes a high value woman? 1.00

01:33:14.680 I think I asked that last time.

01:33:16.680 I feel like that's something that men should answer.

01:33:18.960 I mean, I have an answer, but.

01:33:20.160 Do you think you're a high value woman? 0.97

01:33:21.740 I do.

01:33:22.660 Good.

01:33:22.960 So, a high value woman would be, she cooks, she cleans, keeps the traditional mindset for the most part. 1.00

01:33:32.820 Doesn't go out.

01:33:33.580 What I say, not necessarily goes.

01:33:36.700 It's like, I can take what you say into consideration, but if you're going to, like, argue with me, give me a hard time.

01:33:43.260 Like, from what I'm seeing from what you say that you have to offer is you have the OnlyFans account.

01:33:49.380 You demand him to have the same, whenever he asks you to delete your Instagram or something like that, he would have to do it as well.

01:33:55.360 So, there's a landscape that is difficult to traverse with you, and so, like, honestly, like, if a man was going to try and take you seriously, he would probably just smash and pass.

01:34:05.740 I think you have to be a good follower to your partner.

01:34:09.800 You have to be able to submit to him and follow.

01:34:14.300 And if I was really in love with a man, I.

01:34:16.720 I don't think you need to be in love with him because are you doing these things in the dating stage or in the getting to know stage?

01:34:22.720 Because that's where you build that foundation of a healthy relationship because if you're already saying that you don't want to delete your Instagram or you're going to keep your OnlyFans, even if you would.

01:34:33.460 I'm not saying I'm going to keep my OnlyFans.

01:34:36.020 If I got in a relationship or even I was, like, talking to somebody or something and he told me to delete my OnlyFans, out of respect, I would do that.

01:34:45.820 But how are you going to get into a high-value relationship if you have an OnlyFans? 0.98

01:34:49.860 Because it puts you in that same crowd that Liz was saying.

01:34:52.720 I'm going to follow up on that point right there.

01:34:54.340 So OnlyFans girls can't have a high, like, can't find high-value men? 1.00

01:34:58.540 Hold on just a sec.

01:35:00.360 Nanny, your value is Oslo. 0.99

01:35:02.600 Walmart wouldn't even stock you.

01:35:06.700 Okay.

01:35:07.560 Do you have a response to him?

01:35:09.160 Maybe you are stocked in Walmart.

01:35:11.180 Who knows?

01:35:11.900 Like, Target?

01:35:14.500 Target's a more reputable establishment.

01:35:16.860 Target.

01:35:17.600 Target.

01:35:19.120 Kmart?

01:35:20.600 Kmart.

01:35:21.480 You don't know Kmart?

01:35:22.720 No, I do, but Kmart is out of business.

01:35:25.520 Come on, Brian.

01:35:26.240 Oh, Sears?

01:35:27.420 Yeah.

01:35:27.900 Sears is awesome.

01:35:29.320 R.I.P., boys.

01:35:30.880 So, I wanted to piggyback on what you had to say.

01:35:33.620 So, shout out Zentience. 0.99

01:35:34.940 He's a brain surgeon, right?

01:35:37.320 You said he's a brain surgeon?

01:35:38.140 Yeah, brain surgeon and, believe it or not, rocket scientist also.

01:35:41.280 Rocket scientist. 1.00

01:35:41.920 Like, he first got into rocket science, and then he's like, this shit's too easy. 0.99

01:35:46.080 Is this a real person? 1.00

01:35:47.460 Yeah.

01:35:47.900 I don't think this is a real person.

01:35:49.220 I have a feeling that you're lying.

01:35:49.340 I have to give up for a sec, but continue the conversation.

01:35:51.540 Of course.

01:35:52.320 So, W's Zentience.

01:35:53.580 So, to be a brain surgeon, rocket scientist at that as well, he had to go through trials,

01:35:58.740 tribulations, go to school, had to get, what is it, the degree?

01:36:02.700 I don't know the degree.

01:36:03.760 A doctorate?

01:36:04.260 So, he had to go through a lot of effort to become that, and before he got a job as that

01:36:11.060 doctor, in order to do that, you have to fill out the prerequisites, and you have to

01:36:16.180 do that before you are actually a brain surgeon, before you get hired, before you shoot a rocket

01:36:21.580 into space or play a part in it.

01:36:23.840 So, why should a man take you seriously if you don't take the prerequisites to become

01:36:28.860 a high-value woman before you're in a relationship, before you're even in one? 0.99

01:36:35.020 I just live my life, man.

01:36:37.200 I don't care if, I will, I, I don't know how you want me to answer this.

01:36:41.820 I think it's.

01:36:42.180 I want you to answer how you feel.

01:36:43.500 And I'm going to answer, and I'm answering you.

01:36:45.340 I'm telling you, I just do whatever I want.

01:36:47.620 If a man is going to, I think I want to be with a man that's going to respect me, and

01:36:52.500 if, I don't know, like, hopefully not have a problem with OnlyFans.

01:36:56.220 I know a lot of guys probably do, but I don't, I don't know.

01:36:59.920 I think if I'm, if I really like somebody, I'm trying to pursue them, trying to get in

01:37:04.300 a relationship with them, then yeah, I would.

01:37:06.160 So, if you're trying to get in a relationship with them, I understand that you don't care

01:37:09.520 what most people think, and shout out, like, most people shouldn't care what other people

01:37:12.660 think if they want to strive to their goals and stuff, and dreams, aspirations.

01:37:16.500 But in order to get a relationship with someone that you want, typically high value, probably

01:37:22.180 makes a lot of money, I would assume, can take care of you, or you would

01:37:26.200 want to delete all your social medias, et cetera, and be loyal to him, wouldn't you

01:37:31.220 want to actually, like, do what you need to do prior to meeting that person?

01:37:35.320 So, I should delete my Instagram and my OnlyFans?

01:37:38.600 I'm not saying delete it now.

01:37:39.980 I'm single right now, and I'm having fun.

01:37:42.220 I'm not looking for a relationship, so no, I don't.

01:37:44.180 How old are you?

01:37:44.820 I'm 21.

01:37:45.440 You're 21.

01:37:46.280 Yeah.

01:37:46.560 I understand.

01:37:47.020 Do you think?

01:37:47.100 I'm still really young.

01:37:48.340 You are, and you're, and I want to, you know, I want to, yeah, I want to experience

01:37:51.800 new things, um, yeah, I think, and honestly, like,

01:37:56.720 Oh, hold on a minute.

01:37:57.640 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.

01:38:01.020 Thank you, man.

01:38:01.380 Appreciate it.

01:38:01.920 Women used to keep other women in check with wisdom and sometimes shame. 1.00

01:38:06.200 That is sorely lacking in the West these days. 0.94

01:38:09.300 Older slash wiser women don't do enough to keep younger, more naive, narcissistic women 1.00

01:38:15.000 in check. 0.99

01:38:16.100 Men have become soft and weak, too.

01:38:18.260 Um, yo, thank you for the, uh, TTS, man.

01:38:22.340 Really appreciate it.

01:38:23.960 Uh, well, I mean, there's a different order to the world now.

01:38:27.320 We're in, I guess, a new world order, so to speak.

01:38:29.960 So, um, uh, let's bring it back to high value really quick.

01:38:32.960 So, I, you were saying something about kind of, the original was like, I think, just a regular

01:38:40.420 soup chat.

01:38:41.280 Yeah.

01:38:41.680 Um, trying to find it here.

01:38:44.520 Uh, let me see if I can find it.

01:38:47.420 Well, uh, so I, I, and I'm not saying this to criticize you, but, you know, based off of

01:38:55.640 like your appearance on the last show, I think you're going to give your guy a lot to wrestle

01:39:03.000 with.

01:39:03.780 Like, because you're, you're a little bit combative.

01:39:05.940 And I don't think a lot of men like that.

01:39:11.660 Well, I think, honestly, like, when you're in a relationship, you shouldn't just want

01:39:17.580 like a very submissive person that isn't going to, like, help you grow.

01:39:21.860 A woman helps you grow. 1.00

01:39:23.120 A woman will, um, challenge you pretty much. 1.00

01:39:26.540 And it's gonna, and it's trying to make you better, but I feel like it would, it's just

01:39:30.580 very submissive.

01:39:31.720 Like, if you're in a relationship and you're just like the head and you're like, oh, I

01:39:34.920 got to stay in this and the woman doesn't. 1.00

01:39:36.980 I think that's very unfair.

01:39:38.960 Um, I think it's really important to like, um, compromise and people for both people to

01:39:44.720 communicate and express the way they feel.

01:39:46.640 But I don't think the man should just be like telling the girl what to do in the relationship.

01:39:50.900 I don't think that's right.

01:39:52.980 Well, do you want a leader?

01:39:55.100 Um, I think so.

01:39:56.640 Maybe.

01:39:57.240 Well, cause I feel like you can't have the best of both worlds.

01:40:00.160 Like if you want a guy who's a leader, in other words, a guy who takes initiative, because

01:40:04.040 a lot of women will say, I want a guy who has a plan, who knows what he's doing. 1.00

01:40:08.940 You know, for example, for a first date, a lot of girls, and I'll see this on dating apps. 1.00

01:40:13.660 They say, I don't want a guy who asks me what I want to do.

01:40:17.720 Um, they were like, meet here this time, this place, be ready then, like all that stuff.

01:40:23.460 Right.

01:40:23.740 So you don't want that?

01:40:25.640 Personally, no.

01:40:26.540 Yeah.

01:40:26.900 Same.

01:40:28.040 Well, how, I mean, most call, I feel like most college relationships are typically like

01:40:31.200 come over.

01:40:32.980 There's not like, there's not, I mean, I could be wrong, but, um, everyone's different, but,

01:40:40.340 uh, the, the big thing is, is that men want peace and.

01:40:47.720 You disagree with that?

01:40:48.300 No, no, no, no, no, I don't.

01:40:49.560 Oh.

01:40:50.000 I don't.

01:40:50.760 It's fine if you do.

01:40:51.980 Yeah.

01:40:52.220 Just you laughed, so I.

01:40:53.100 No, I just, no.

01:40:55.220 Yeah.

01:40:55.540 It's okay if you disagree.

01:40:56.560 I'm not, I'm not going to be upset.

01:40:57.280 Well, no, because who doesn't want peace in the relationship?

01:40:58.420 Yeah, everybody wants peace.

01:40:59.080 You want to be safe and you want to feel loved by that person.

01:41:01.920 And like, if you're like always fighting, then like, why be with that person?

01:41:06.580 But I mean, is that, is that a common trope?

01:41:10.060 Typically men don't nag women, for example. 0.98

01:41:13.080 You don't often hear men nagging women. 0.99

01:41:14.860 Oh, my ex, he would always fucking nag all the time. 1.00

01:41:18.080 All the time. 0.99

01:41:18.360 Don't slam on the table.

01:41:19.520 Sorry, babe.

01:41:20.300 And I just, I want to give, and I feel like my previous comment, I do want to kind of give

01:41:25.700 you some credit.

01:41:26.460 When I say you're combative, I mean, obviously you've been invited on a podcast to debate

01:41:32.140 these issues.

01:41:32.740 So, you know, obviously the way that you or anyone else on the panel conducts themselves

01:41:37.800 in this specific environment is going to be to some degree different than how they conduct

01:41:42.740 themselves with a partner.

01:41:44.760 Thank you, Alvin, man.

01:41:45.400 Thank you.

01:41:46.160 Shoot me a DM.

01:41:46.580 Nanny, you can't expect to be with a high value man without him enforcing his standards.

01:41:53.200 He will put you to work if you want him to provide.

01:41:56.760 HVMs do not have tolerance for your incompetence.

01:42:00.060 You struggle to answer very basic, fundamental questions.

01:42:03.580 So, yeah, I mean, by the way, Alvin, thank you, man.

01:42:08.100 Shoot me a DM on Instagram at whatever.

01:42:10.300 So, obviously the way that someone is going to engage when intentionally invited on a debate

01:42:17.320 format like this is going to be different than how one conducts themselves with a romantic

01:42:24.140 partner, for example.

01:42:25.300 Like, the way I'm discussing these topics with you is not particularly how I would, for example,

01:42:30.420 conduct myself when I'm with a partner, for example, or with a girl I'm dating.

01:42:35.420 Frankly, these sort of topics are the last things that I want to talk about with a romantic

01:42:40.140 partner.

01:42:40.560 But I do sort of get the impression that, and perhaps in some ways it's good.

01:42:50.920 I think being disagreeable, for example, if you want to be successful in business, that's

01:42:56.880 a trait that you need to gather.

01:43:00.420 However, I think when it comes to relationships, it's not something that men want or look for.

01:43:07.920 Because the biggest thing that you can bring a guy, the biggest thing, don't forget looks,

01:43:12.200 is if you can bring him peace.

01:43:14.300 That is the biggest thing.

01:43:16.080 Because, like, for example, a guy who's really, let's say he's very successful.

01:43:21.600 He's going out into the world, and he's, it's a struggle. 0.97

01:43:24.940 Business is fucking hard. 0.84

01:43:25.980 And if he makes a lot of money, and maybe some, some of you girls here don't really care 0.96

01:43:30.220 about that, maybe at some point you will, especially if you want children, finances are

01:43:34.220 going to become a much bigger factor for you as you get a bit older.

01:43:37.180 But we're already combating with the world, going out there fighting in the business world,

01:43:44.120 in the corporate world.

01:43:45.280 The last thing we want to do is, like, have to come and contend with our partner.

01:43:49.160 We want our partner to be our peace.

01:43:51.320 So, some people may disagree on that, some people may agree, but I think that's the biggest

01:43:55.520 thing that a girl can bring to a relationship is peace. 0.99

01:43:58.760 One of the biggest things, anyways.

01:43:59.960 Go ahead.

01:44:00.700 Well, I believe in, like, a relationship, there's roles.

01:44:03.560 And we, I feel like, and nowadays we've forgotten these roles.

01:44:07.400 Can you speak just a tad louder?

01:44:09.040 Sorry.

01:44:09.620 I have a loud voice, and I didn't want to overpower anyone.

01:44:12.080 You said you're a Christian?

01:44:13.200 Yeah, I am.

01:44:13.720 Shout out to you.

01:44:14.440 Thank you.

01:44:14.820 So, I think that with these roles, God gave these roles to us.

01:44:19.800 The man's supposed to provide and protect, and we're supposed to submit to them.

01:44:24.420 And that doesn't mean that they can be a, you know, a person that just tells you what

01:44:29.420 to do and you have to do it.

01:44:30.740 I mean, there's still conversation within that.

01:44:34.640 And so, you're supposed to give 100% into a relationship, and they're supposed to give

01:44:39.880 100% into the relationship.

01:44:41.160 And it's not 100%, 100% with both, like, it's not just one role, and you both are paying,

01:44:47.740 playing 50, and say, excuse me, you're not putting 50, and he's putting 50.

01:44:52.560 He's putting 100% in his role, and you're putting 100% in your role.

01:44:56.680 And that's how you keep peace.

01:44:59.180 Because he provides, and I'm not saying you can't make money, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:45:03.420 I'm not saying that.

01:45:04.440 But he should still be the sole provider and take care of you and protect you, because

01:45:09.500 that man is going to protect you and your children and keep bread on your table, and

01:45:14.160 you can help out when you can.

01:45:15.700 But, like, our job is to submit and to help him to become the best version of who he can

01:45:23.680 be.

01:45:23.980 And he will help us be the best version of us.

01:45:26.120 But we still have to submit.

01:45:29.740 Okay.

01:45:30.260 Do you have a response to her?

01:45:31.780 Before I have you come in, do you have a response?

01:45:33.240 I mean, that's her opinion, but I think everybody, like, maybe your husband is that way, but

01:45:37.620 there's a lot of guys that aren't that way either, and...

01:45:41.500 That's the problem.

01:45:42.780 But who...

01:45:43.300 I was not a problem.

01:45:43.880 Okay, who should pay...

01:45:44.960 Those guys are subscribed to your OnlyFans.

01:45:46.300 Who should pay on the first date? 0.95

01:45:50.500 I guess the man.

01:45:52.700 Okay.

01:45:53.200 Well, you want a man to adhere to his more traditional gender roles there. 1.00

01:45:56.820 I want to give you guys an opportunity to come in.

01:45:59.320 I feel like I am a pretty traditional person other than, like, the...

01:46:04.740 OnlyFans.

01:46:05.240 I have OnlyFans.

01:46:06.280 Like, I don't post nudes on there, like I said.

01:46:08.600 I'm just trying to make my money.

01:46:11.240 And I feel like I am pretty traditional.

01:46:13.360 I feel like in a relationship I am, at least.

01:46:16.020 Like, maybe that might...

01:46:17.380 You guys can't see that right now, but in a relationship, I think I am pretty submissive

01:46:23.220 or whatever.

01:46:24.600 I don't know if you guys can't tell, but I think I am.

01:46:27.820 I think it's just the way that you have gone about the conversations and disagreed about,

01:46:34.080 you know, a lot of the topics that have been talked about.

01:46:36.380 And I think you mentioned something about not having to be submissive.

01:46:44.700 And you said something negative about being submissive.

01:46:47.640 That you didn't listen to your mom, your dad, any man.

01:46:50.180 You do you.

01:46:51.340 Yes.

01:46:51.540 That's what you said.

01:46:52.540 And so I think that's what makes us, you know, it makes everyone see you as someone that's

01:46:57.260 not traditional or even...

01:47:00.060 By the way, traditional.

01:47:01.540 I think if I really, really, like, if I love the person, I want to be in a relationship

01:47:05.560 with them.

01:47:06.540 And I'm saying this because I feel like when I like somebody, I, like, I love them and

01:47:12.040 I would do anything for them.

01:47:13.960 And I don't know, like, I'm just, I don't know.

01:47:18.080 I would, I don't know how to answer this, to be honest.

01:47:20.900 I feel like I need to experience this more.

01:47:24.000 I haven't been in a relationship in a while.

01:47:26.260 So, so are you ready to submit to someone?

01:47:30.680 Like, if you are looking for a relationship, what can be...

01:47:32.700 I'm not looking for a relationship.

01:47:34.620 Okay.

01:47:35.060 I feel like we're trying to convert.

01:47:36.500 Yeah.

01:47:37.320 You guys want me to be in a relationship?

01:47:39.180 Well, I hope that you don't feel like we're, we're dogpiling on you.

01:47:43.000 But, and I, I do, it's difficult because on one hand, I do invite people on the show

01:47:49.140 to basically engage in a conversation and in a debate.

01:47:52.740 So on one hand, I don't know if it's fair for me to characterize you.

01:47:59.220 So I think there's been maybe perhaps a few moments in the show where there's been a bit

01:48:03.780 of a combativeness.

01:48:05.440 Uh, but I, I don't know if it's, if it's fair to characterize you as combative because

01:48:11.740 we have intentionally invited you on what is essentially a debate show about dating.

01:48:17.700 And, uh, and like I said already, the way you conduct yourself in this environment may

01:48:25.980 very well be different than how you conduct yourself in a relationship, much in the same

01:48:29.580 way that we're all sort of actors.

01:48:31.960 We're all actors in the sense that the way you conduct yourself in the classroom, for

01:48:36.620 example, when there's someone of authority, a teacher is very different than when you

01:48:40.060 conduct yourself amongst your friends or the way you conduct yourself in front of your

01:48:43.720 parents, for example, go ahead.

01:48:45.140 You wanted to come in.

01:48:46.020 I was saying maybe she feels a little bit, not attacked, but kind of out of place.

01:48:50.240 Jacob underscore W donated $50.

01:48:53.080 This short term gain will last until it doesn't be, you age out of your market.

01:48:57.920 You will be independent until you're not all.

01:49:00.120 You'll be left with when you're older.

01:49:01.960 It's yourself and the fact you will fully close all opportunities towards a relationship.

01:49:07.180 Yo, Jacob, thank you for the, uh, soup chat.

01:49:09.000 Do you have a response to that?

01:49:12.500 I want you guys, I want you two to come in because maybe you guys have her back a little 0.98

01:49:16.860 bit or maybe not.

01:49:17.740 I don't know, but, oh, hold on.

01:49:19.880 Frankie case, super chatted $50.

01:49:23.060 A high value woman is considered a homemaker, agreeable, submissive, pure, loyal, honest, 0.80

01:49:30.140 feminine, and brings her man peace. 1.00

01:49:32.840 Few men who know their worth would be okay with his woman selling herself on the internet. 0.86

01:49:37.940 Of is a huge yell.

01:49:39.000 You got a response to these.

01:49:42.300 Go ahead.

01:49:43.020 I don't know what to say.

01:49:44.600 Like, they're just hating.

01:49:46.220 They're losing their money hating because I don't care what they have to say.

01:49:50.240 I'm going to do me.

01:49:51.380 I'm single.

01:49:52.780 I want to make my money.

01:49:53.980 Hot girl winter?

01:49:55.640 Yeah.

01:49:56.220 Hot girl.

01:49:56.640 Is it spring coming up?

01:49:57.880 I don't know.

01:49:58.220 It's been hot girl summer for a while.

01:49:59.160 It's been hot girl. 0.86

01:50:00.080 All right.

01:50:01.060 She was saying something.

01:50:02.420 Yeah.

01:50:02.640 Oh, I was just going to say that you had already said it.

01:50:05.720 Just they're really quiet.

01:50:07.020 So maybe they kind of have her back too.

01:50:09.060 Just so that, I don't know, there's more conversation to agree and disagree on.

01:50:14.740 I agree with what you were saying about like the 100%.

01:50:17.280 Like, I can give 100% and then my boyfriend can give 100% as long as like we're both contributing

01:50:22.960 to the relationship.

01:50:25.440 If she wants to have an OnlyFans like letter, I don't understand why everybody's like being

01:50:29.160 so combative and why the chat keeps like flaming.

01:50:31.540 I would say the reason is because she also said she, you want to get married, right?

01:50:36.740 Yeah, I guess.

01:50:37.540 But is she married right now? 0.93

01:50:38.520 I'm not married right now.

01:50:39.140 That's what I'm talking about.

01:50:39.780 Is she in a relationship right now? 0.54

01:50:40.520 I don't think she is.

01:50:41.140 So right now her value is at her peak.

01:50:43.540 So between like the ages of 18 to 24 would be about her peak value because men find your

01:50:49.480 youth to be a high.

01:50:50.860 Yeah, and that's sad to be honest.

01:50:52.240 In society, women have an expiration date. 1.00

01:50:55.480 We do.

01:50:55.760 Here's the part where if a man has a standard.

01:50:59.160 It's demonized and looked down upon.

01:51:01.020 Whereas if a woman had a standard and where she can just do whatever she wants and the 1.00

01:51:04.140 man just accepts me, that that's not demonized.

01:51:07.220 Go ahead.

01:51:08.420 But the thing is, is that men actually do care a lot about these things.

01:51:11.420 And it sounds like you don't care because you also said you don't listen to men.

01:51:14.660 And I'm not, I promise I'm not trying to attack you, but you're one of the people that

01:51:17.480 really disagree with the most values.

01:51:19.640 And I'm really honestly trying to understand why you think the way you do.

01:51:24.420 Continue with your point.

01:51:25.380 Go ahead.

01:51:25.560 Um, well, I was saying that, like answer him or say what I was saying before.

01:51:31.120 You can do both.

01:51:31.680 Go ahead.

01:51:32.040 Okay.

01:51:32.200 Well, I was going to say that in the eyes of society, like in society, like women have 1.00

01:51:36.060 an expiration date.

01:51:37.160 Like once you reach a certain age, you're not valued that much anymore.

01:51:40.520 Like as women get older, um, like in, like in society, like art, we're not seen as beautiful.

01:51:47.920 Like, why is it like, it's always like younger girls that are seen as beautiful. 0.93

01:51:51.140 And that's really unstoppable.

01:51:52.920 Aging is unstoppable.

01:51:54.300 People are going to age, you know, but, um, to, uh, to like, to answer your question, which

01:52:01.200 I kind of, well, let me, let me answer that.

01:52:03.480 So, I mean, it's kind of all rooted in biology and evolution.

01:52:07.000 So, um, men are fertile pretty much until the day they die.

01:52:10.240 Whereas women's fertility window is much narrower. 0.99

01:52:13.820 Once you get to 35, that's when you enter high risk pregnancy territory, much higher risk

01:52:18.040 of miscarriage, birth defects, more difficulty actually getting pregnant.

01:52:22.840 So, and as you start getting into your late thirties, early forties, by the time you're

01:52:27.720 45, the likelihood that you can get pregnant and bring that, if you, even if you do get

01:52:32.640 pregnant, being able to bring that pregnancy to term, uh, is so greatly diminished.

01:52:38.020 So, um, men have, for evolutionary reasons have, they're more attracted to younger women,

01:52:46.040 for example, because younger women are more fertile. 1.00

01:52:48.740 So, and since, like, I'm going to say it like this, uh, since most women live life on easy 1.00

01:52:53.320 mode, that's one of the negative things that women have to face. 1.00

01:52:56.300 You're going to get some pushback on that one, I think.

01:52:57.960 Yeah.

01:52:58.460 Define easy mode.

01:52:59.300 Right.

01:52:59.440 I'm just interested.

01:53:00.300 I'm not going against you or anything.

01:53:01.600 So, uh, women have, uh, the basic outlet of OnlyFans, whereas if a man were to go on OnlyFans,

01:53:07.460 not saying that some men can't, but the likelihood that he's going to make a significant amount

01:53:12.140 of income on that site is diminished.

01:53:14.900 You're going to get canceled for this one.

01:53:16.280 That's fine.

01:53:16.840 So you're saying pretty privileged, right?

01:53:17.820 Kind of?

01:53:19.100 Like, you're not, you're not wrong.

01:53:20.600 You're not wrong.

01:53:21.340 Because, oh, there's a lot of beautiful girls out there. 1.00

01:53:23.960 Oh, sorry.

01:53:25.100 Birth control alarm.

01:53:26.280 There's a lot of beautiful girls out there. 1.00

01:53:27.900 I would say that there's more beautiful women than there are. 1.00

01:53:30.700 Is that, is that what it is?

01:53:31.320 Yeah.

01:53:31.620 Birth control alarm?

01:53:32.520 Yeah.

01:53:33.120 I called it.

01:53:33.640 I think you should take it.

01:53:34.200 So I'm going to, I'm going to.

01:53:35.820 Wait, wait, wait, just do it later.

01:53:37.020 Do it later.

01:53:37.460 Do it later.

01:53:37.800 It's fine.

01:53:38.240 Two hours.

01:53:38.780 She has time.

01:53:40.000 You have to take it.

01:53:41.160 Yeah.

01:53:42.280 It's fine.

01:53:43.300 You got to just get pregnant with your husband. 1.00

01:53:45.020 I'll speak loud enough so she can.

01:53:46.300 She will.

01:53:46.780 All right.

01:53:48.960 So where was I?

01:53:50.160 Okay.

01:53:50.500 Typical night in the world.

01:53:52.240 Okay.

01:53:52.900 So a woman can also post on Instagram, like, a really pretty picture or whatever. 1.00

01:53:56.800 And she gets bunches of likes.

01:53:58.280 And most women actually use Instagram for dating, I would say. 1.00

01:54:02.200 But they also use it for, like, you said you have your OnlyFans in your description.

01:54:06.460 So it's also, like, a fishing tactic to try and, like, lure men in.

01:54:10.180 So you could post whatever you want and then men see it.

01:54:12.180 It's like, oh, I wonder if she has an OnlyFans.

01:54:13.640 Actually, that's one of the first things that men should do.

01:54:15.620 As soon as you, like, find a girl attractive, go into her Instagram or any of their social

01:54:20.860 media sites and see if she has an OnlyFans and really, like, decide if that's something 0.81

01:54:23.840 you want to be involved with.

01:54:26.060 So another thing.

01:54:27.040 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.

01:54:31.780 Thank you, man.

01:54:32.380 Self-reflecting on what?

01:54:51.380 Because I have OnlyFans?

01:54:53.520 Yeah, so.

01:54:53.980 I've got to get over that.

01:54:55.080 I'm so sorry, but there's men in the real world that don't think like this.

01:55:01.040 I've met men that are, like, I don't know, like, you guys are, some of the guys in the

01:55:05.440 chat, too, they're like, oh, I would never pay on the first date.

01:55:08.540 Some random dude just paid for my tank of gas.

01:55:11.220 Like, I'm sorry, but I've been around.

01:55:13.660 I have really high standards because that's what I've experienced.

01:55:16.560 You have high standards?

01:55:17.120 That's what I'm going to hold men accountable for.

01:55:21.640 Thank you, Dink.

01:55:21.980 Women have life on easy mode because they will never have the true feeling of being alone. 1.00

01:55:26.360 So many men and their problems are invisible to pretty much everyone else.

01:55:30.140 A woman will be wanted at her worst. 1.00

01:55:32.080 A man will be ignored.

01:55:33.580 Yo, Bryce, that good point.

01:55:36.020 True.

01:55:37.060 I don't know if the girls are happy about that one. 0.96

01:55:39.300 Actually, I have a photo pulled up that kind of illustrates this.

01:55:43.980 Eric, can you pull up that comic book photo really quick?

01:55:47.120 Um, yeah.

01:55:50.020 Uh, so, this is kind of like, Eric, can you, can you, uh, control mouse wheel up?

01:55:55.180 Just, no, yeah, that's fine.

01:55:57.080 Um, so, like, yeah, that's kind of like, I feel like, women's experience, you know?

01:56:02.920 Like, I think I see the guy that paid for her gas in there.

01:56:06.980 You're so funny.

01:56:07.960 Oh, my gosh.

01:56:09.280 Who, him?

01:56:10.040 Or?

01:56:10.580 I just don't understand why, if you think that a woman is pretty, that you need to go to 1.00

01:56:14.120 her Instagram, make sure that, that, like, the shit that she has an OnlyFans. 0.98

01:56:16.980 Like, what is the big deal about OnlyFans? 0.98

01:56:18.560 So, I get, like, the high value woman and being, like, in, like, that kind of category

01:56:22.740 when you have an OnlyFans.

01:56:24.660 I know, I understand all of that.

01:56:26.520 I just don't understand why it's such a big deal.

01:56:28.760 Do you want to go first, or?

01:56:30.020 Of course.

01:56:30.180 Yeah, you go first.

01:56:31.040 Oh, yeah.

01:56:31.260 I got you.

01:56:31.680 Yeah, yeah.

01:56:32.000 I'll go after you.

01:56:32.880 Oh, okay, yeah, you're going to go after you?

01:56:33.860 I'm ready for this.

01:56:34.420 I'll go after you.

01:56:34.980 Some guys, wait, can I say something?

01:56:36.420 Some guys that I've even talked to.

01:56:38.240 Thank you.

01:56:38.940 Some guys that I've even talked to have encouraged me to make OnlyFans, and they're like, they're

01:56:43.340 like, dude, like, let's make content together.

01:56:45.780 Those aren't high value men, then.

01:56:47.200 You said men.

01:56:47.520 You said men.

01:56:48.560 They want to see you naked without doing the work.

01:56:50.900 Huh?

01:56:51.400 They want to see you naked without doing the work. 0.88

01:56:52.960 Or promiscuous photos with you covering up very minimal. 0.81

01:56:58.400 What? 0.83

01:56:58.640 A man would rather pay to see a girl half naked or naked than do the work himself and 0.99

01:57:06.380 see it for himself.

01:57:07.680 Make sense?

01:57:08.580 So, like, with OnlyFans, there's a predisposition where there's obviously naked pictures all over

01:57:14.340 in OnlyFans.

01:57:14.840 Like, yo, so my OnlyFans, it's with the underlying tone that you have naked pictures on there.

01:57:19.460 I don't have naked pictures. 0.72

01:57:20.260 Right.

01:57:20.680 So, what you're doing is you're finessing men.

01:57:22.480 I'm proud of you.

01:57:23.220 You know what I'm saying?

01:57:23.620 Do what you do.

01:57:24.660 You know what I'm saying?

01:57:25.120 You got to get your back somehow.

01:57:26.240 Yes, I do.

01:57:26.520 But the thing is that you're going to do it in a negative way and you're going to do

01:57:29.760 it, the money's going to go to your head.

01:57:31.300 You're never going to be able to get more and more money because OnlyFans is going to 1.00

01:57:34.200 pay your whole lifestyle.

01:57:35.580 It can.

01:57:36.600 And then you're growing up at 21, you said?

01:57:38.820 You're at 21.

01:57:39.420 So, you have this, like, level of ego that is going to be crazy astronomical the older

01:57:44.440 you get, the more money you make.

01:57:45.860 And you won't see it now because obviously you're not 25 yet.

01:57:48.920 You're still 21.

01:57:49.900 So, whenever that hit, you're going to hit what's called a wall and you're going to be

01:57:53.700 crying.

01:57:54.260 You're going to be worried about, like, I don't have any man to love me for me and all

01:57:58.260 this stuff.

01:57:58.540 I don't want to do OnlyFans forever.

01:57:59.680 I'm just doing OnlyFans because I wanted to make money.

01:58:02.440 Right.

01:58:02.820 Because I just wanted money.

01:58:04.580 I'm not taking it seriously.

01:58:05.780 I'm not like, oh my gosh, like, I'm an OnlyFans model.

01:58:08.280 Like, I don't know why you guys are thinking that.

01:58:09.500 Like, I literally have just pictures of me on there.

01:58:13.340 Like, I don't know what the problem is.

01:58:14.480 And this comes to where it's like, to answer your question, this comes to the fact that

01:58:17.860 men have standards and whenever we enforce them, because you said, I don't understand

01:58:21.540 why you think the way you do.

01:58:23.860 Whenever a man has standards and he actually puts his foot down and abides by them, he's

01:58:28.240 going to keep them and he's not going to take you seriously.

01:58:30.780 He will smash you. 0.80

01:58:31.680 He'll absolutely get it. 0.95

01:58:32.700 Even some men go as far as to get relationships with women just so they can smash.

01:58:37.180 I've done it. 0.99

01:58:38.160 And those are horrible men. 0.98

01:58:39.900 Yeah, you are terrible for doing that. 0.93

01:58:41.060 And those men should not be boyfriends and they should not be in a relationship if that's

01:58:43.920 the only standard for women. 1.00

01:58:45.300 Just have sex with them and then move on. 1.00

01:58:47.120 But that's what you just said. 1.00

01:58:48.200 That some men will only get into a relationship to have sex with a woman and then move on. 0.90

01:58:51.680 Absolutely. 1.00

01:58:52.780 And those are horrible men is what I'm trying to say. 0.92

01:58:55.760 Period. 0.99

01:58:56.380 Those are horrible men. 0.96

01:58:56.840 This is the reality.

01:58:57.960 This is what we're-

01:58:58.480 I understand that.

01:58:59.120 I'm well aware this is reality.

01:59:00.080 And so, like, I understand, like, if you don't understand why, but I'm telling you

01:59:04.120 why.

01:59:04.540 No.

01:59:04.740 It's because you're doing actions that a man would not want to take seriously. 0.99

01:59:08.160 But you don't understand the insatiable need for a man to have sex with a real woman, 0.97

01:59:12.580 not just sit there and beat his meat on an OF account in front of Pixels. 0.99

01:59:16.200 Like, that's gross.

01:59:17.500 It's more of, like, a simple comment.

01:59:19.400 But what you put out there is what you receive.

01:59:21.860 And if you're going to put out that you're on OnlyFans or any kind of platform that sells

01:59:27.240 yourself to people, you're going to receive low people.

01:59:31.320 That's a normal thing.

01:59:32.580 So, if you want a high-value man, you can't- you can't- why don't you want to keep your

01:59:38.100 purity for that person?

01:59:39.840 And to add on that, you're saying that the content on your OnlyFans does not have you

01:59:45.240 naked or anything, which is- I get that.

01:59:47.920 But just with you having it, people are going to have that thought about you.

01:59:52.420 So, that's the problem of why it's such a big deal.

01:59:54.840 And I got demonized just now for saying-

01:59:57.380 Like, I don't know why you guys are trying really hard to make me care. 0.99

01:59:59.640 And I'm here to tell you, I don't give a fuck. 1.00

02:00:02.140 And I don't give a fuck what you guys think. 1.00

02:00:04.040 Because I'm gonna- I'm living my life- like, I- like, I just met you guys today. 0.99

02:00:08.440 Hot girl summer.

02:00:08.900 I just met, like, some of you guys today.

02:00:11.680 And I'm probably never going to see you guys again.

02:00:13.640 Oh, don't say that.

02:00:15.060 Whenever you say you want to get married, though.

02:00:17.480 Thanks.

02:00:18.060 Okay, thanks.

02:00:18.700 I have a name, Brian.

02:00:19.920 Call me by my name.

02:00:21.080 What-

02:00:21.520 What was your name again?

02:00:22.580 What's your name?

02:00:23.060 What's your name?

02:00:23.660 Brian!

02:00:24.540 You invited me here.

02:00:26.600 Brian, you invited all of us here.

02:00:28.100 You should know all of our names.

02:00:29.160 You should be a respectful host and know our names.

02:00:31.220 Oh, here it comes.

02:00:31.900 And not refer to us as our appearance.

02:00:33.980 Okay?

02:00:34.260 Wait, so-

02:00:38.740 Well, first off, first off, there's a lot of you and a few of me.

02:00:44.680 I can't commit everyone's name to memory.

02:00:46.840 Thank you, man.

02:00:51.200 Oh, my gosh.

02:00:53.380 This man is a chat.

02:00:54.780 He realizes that if all a woman would offer is just her box. 1.00

02:00:58.320 Not all, but if all she is worth is her body.

02:01:01.180 The relationship wasn't going to work out either way.

02:01:03.860 Chat guest.

02:01:04.720 Yo, thank you for the Streamlabs donation.

02:01:07.000 Appreciate it.

02:01:07.660 Appreciate it, bro.

02:01:08.140 Okay, so let's get back to what you were saying.

02:01:10.760 I don't even remember what I was saying.

02:01:12.420 You were actually talking about how what I did was terrible.

02:01:17.440 No, I never said that what you did was terrible.

02:01:19.660 I'm saying that men- 0.98

02:01:20.240 No, she was saying that men who bait women into relationships strictly for sex is terrible. 0.99

02:01:26.060 Yes.

02:01:26.440 Do you think that OnlyFans creators that actually don't post nudes are manipulative to those men that want to pay for the nudes?

02:01:35.820 I never said-

02:01:36.320 There is an option on there where you make your account.

02:01:38.020 You don't have to post nudes.

02:01:39.200 Yeah, you don't have to post nudes.

02:01:40.460 Yeah, there's an option on there where you put, if it's a pornographic account or not, mine isn't pornographic.

02:01:47.680 Okay, so-

02:01:48.260 Okay, go ahead.

02:01:49.340 They can also leave her OnlyFans if they don't like what she's selling. 1.00

02:01:52.940 That is a man's decision if they want to subscribe to her OnlyFans, yes or no.

02:01:58.220 A man's decision to subscribe to her OnlyFans?

02:01:59.860 Yeah, absolutely.

02:02:00.440 Okay.

02:02:00.660 Yeah, freedom of choice.

02:02:01.280 Okay, so if she's not posting pornographic photos and her account or her page says non-pornographic content, that is a man's decision to subscribe.

02:02:09.460 I mean, here's the other thing.

02:02:10.560 So you mentioned she can always delete her account.

02:02:14.300 The thing is, the internet's forever.

02:02:15.700 No, I said that, like, if the guys don't like what she's posting, they can always unsubscribe.

02:02:21.600 Oh, okay, I see what you're saying.

02:02:22.700 Yeah, that's what I was meant.

02:02:23.220 So one of the reasons, even if she's not posting lewd photos, one thing that, yeah, go ahead.

02:02:32.400 You're getting-

02:02:33.320 Oh, hold on.

02:02:34.280 Notice I've donated $50.

02:02:36.340 The difference between Bangz and Leatherjacket knows is that Bangz makes money off her and knows pays to buy followers on her 20-year account. 0.80

02:02:44.340 Leatherjacket has been shopping all night when she's no better than Bangz. 1.00

02:02:48.640 She's jealous- 0.99

02:02:49.340 Wow, shots fired.

02:02:51.120 Do you have a response to them?

02:02:52.060 Shots fired. 0.99

02:02:52.600 You got to shoot some shots back. 0.99

02:02:53.800 I am getting a nose job, actually. 0.98

02:02:56.300 I like the meaning.

02:02:57.100 But I don't know.

02:02:57.840 People have an opinion.

02:02:58.460 That's fine.

02:02:59.260 Okay.

02:02:59.800 Wow.

02:03:00.180 All right, guys.

02:03:02.120 The chat is spicy tonight.

02:03:03.960 Okay, so one of the things with OnlyFans, though, even if you're not posting lewd content, is you're-

02:03:10.340 I mean, one of the ways you make money is by interacting with the people.

02:03:13.540 You're, like, you're chatting with them and stuff.

02:03:15.980 Okay, well, a lot of OnlyFans creators, they're, like, chatting with the guys, and it's almost like this parasocial relationship that you develop, and there's definitely a finesse component to it.

02:03:24.080 I mean, if you really wanted to start money, you'd actually be talking to and interacting with the guys.

02:03:29.140 So, I think the big thing with social media and OnlyFans is you are fulfilling your need for male attention, and, like, typically the way that, at least before social media, OnlyFans, all this stuff, typically women would get that through a romantic partner, but women are already getting that need filled by the dudes in her Instagram, the dudes on her OnlyFans.

02:03:54.260 So, your romantic partner is no longer kind of- his attention is- becomes less valuable.

02:04:04.020 So, there's that.

02:04:05.020 Also, a big thing when it comes to OnlyFans is it's kind of a respect thing, and I feel like a-

02:04:10.260 Oh, hold on.

02:04:12.720 I'll get to it.

02:04:13.200 10 out of 10.

02:04:14.220 Thank you, man.

02:04:15.020 Super chatted $50.

02:04:17.040 The woman in the leather jacket gets it. 0.74

02:04:19.600 Men respect her, and she will find a high-value man in life.

02:04:22.900 Please understand, young ladies, respect is given for doing what is honorable slash hard.

02:04:29.900 Selling your honor-honor is not respected by marriageable men. 0.74

02:04:34.160 Yeah, so I think one of the big things that men want is we- respect.

02:04:41.940 Respect is huge.

02:04:44.320 And so, we want respect from our peers, our friends, family, etc.

02:04:50.420 And for men, like, you think about the men who are in jail for violence crimes, for example.

02:04:58.980 A lot of that's about respect.

02:05:01.020 And you hear, like, in prison, if you disrespect someone, you're getting shanked.

02:05:05.620 Now, I'm using kind of an extreme example here.

02:05:08.360 But respect is like, men will kill other men over being disrespected.

02:05:13.360 Whether, obviously, I think violence is abhorrent.

02:05:17.020 But men will act on being disrespected.

02:05:20.940 So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, that's how important to men respect is.

02:05:25.600 And I think a lot of men, when it comes to OnlyFans,

02:05:28.060 they feel like they are not going to be able to get respect from their peers

02:05:33.700 if they're significant to other, for example.

02:05:36.400 There's videos of her out there getting gangbanged by 10 men.

02:05:40.820 Their peers are not going to respect them.

02:05:42.780 Now, I will say this, though.

02:05:45.060 So, a lot of guys just won't date a girl who does OF outright.

02:05:49.400 And I've said this on the show, and I actually get a lot of heat from my viewers.

02:05:53.440 I would date a girl who does OF contingent upon the fact that it's solo content.

02:05:58.580 If she's, like, doing anything boy-girl, anything like that, I wouldn't do it. 0.97

02:06:02.960 But would it be my, ideally, would I prefer a girl to not have OnlyFans?

02:06:09.520 Yes, 100%.

02:06:10.940 Like, if I had to pick the two exact same girls, one has an OnlyFans and one doesn't, 0.99

02:06:15.540 even if the OnlyFans that she does, it's solo content, I'd prefer the girl without the OnlyFans.

02:06:21.320 But I would be willing to date a girl who does have an OnlyFans where she posts solo content.

02:06:27.300 I'm going to get excoriated.

02:06:29.400 Can I ask you a question, Brian?

02:06:30.400 Hold on.

02:06:30.680 I'm going to get excoriated in the chat for this.

02:06:32.740 But, like, come on, guys.

02:06:34.760 Come on.

02:06:35.460 Come on.

02:06:35.980 Anyways, what's up?

02:06:37.040 Would you marry her?

02:06:39.300 See, that's where it becomes a bit more complicated.

02:06:42.380 What if she, can I ask you something?

02:06:44.040 Sure.

02:06:44.460 What if she was, like, let's make content together?

02:06:46.500 Would you do that?

02:06:46.880 Well, I would never do content to me.

02:06:49.680 Oh.

02:06:50.000 Like, I would never be in the content because I don't want to be out on the internet like that.

02:06:53.540 What if, like, you didn't even have to show your face or anything?

02:06:56.100 No, I'm not.

02:06:56.640 None of my body is going to be, I'm not going to do any pornographic stuff. 0.55

02:07:00.860 But, I mean, I would be, would I shoot for a girl and take 50%? 0.93

02:07:05.960 Sure.

02:07:06.820 50%?

02:07:07.640 I'm taking 50%.

02:07:08.620 That's right.

02:07:09.520 Okay.

02:07:10.960 Listen, look at it this way, right?

02:07:13.400 What would you rather have?

02:07:14.840 100% of $1,000 or 50% of $20,000?

02:07:21.080 Because if you work with me, we're going to be making $20,000.

02:07:24.800 If you work by yourself, you're going to be making $1,000.

02:07:28.500 50% of $20,000 is $10,000.

02:07:31.080 I can't do math.

02:07:31.840 Don't tell me these percentages.

02:07:32.880 Yeah, hold on.

02:07:33.460 I got this for you.

02:07:34.200 Hold on.

02:07:35.080 All right.

02:07:35.860 Math is difficult.

02:07:37.440 I can't with math.

02:07:39.800 So, yeah.

02:07:42.520 I mean, obviously, like, it's just, would I prefer a girl that just doesn't have OnlyFans?

02:07:47.140 Sure.

02:07:47.840 And thus far.

02:07:48.400 And there's some men out there that are completely fine with their girls having OnlyFans.

02:07:52.660 Yeah, of course.

02:07:53.440 This girl, like, she's, like, the top OF model in Australia.

02:07:58.200 Her boyfriend's completely fine with it.

02:08:00.380 Like, he's fine.

02:08:01.920 And he's, like, and they have been together since she was, like, in high school.

02:08:06.640 We're not saying that it precludes you from ever finding a man.

02:08:10.260 There's just certain men that, it's just men that do this.

02:08:12.580 Hold on.

02:08:12.880 Don't interrupt.

02:08:13.680 Don't interrupt.

02:08:14.360 Please, let me finish my thought.

02:08:15.820 Okay.

02:08:16.040 Can you still find a guy?

02:08:19.660 Can you still get married?

02:08:20.780 Yeah, sure.

02:08:21.740 Although, it is going to be a roadblock for a lot of men.

02:08:27.320 It is going to be an issue for a lot of men.

02:08:29.000 If you're okay with that, if you're going to do the calculus and say, well, I'm okay with that risk, then that's totally fine. 0.93

02:08:35.560 But, you do have, in the same way that me having this podcast, some women don't want to fuck with me because I've got this controversial podcast. 1.00

02:08:42.840 Napoleon Middleton super chatted $49.99. 0.94

02:08:47.660 Bangs, I would love to see you go on to Fresh and Fit podcast and watch Myron last you for hours.

02:08:53.880 We can get that arranged.

02:08:54.960 Thank you, Napoleon.

02:08:55.720 Appreciate it.

02:08:56.340 I've never watched Fresh and Fit.

02:08:57.940 I don't know who Myron is.

02:09:00.560 Yeah, that would be interesting.

02:09:01.900 No.

02:09:02.140 Oh, what makes you think I'd go on there?

02:09:04.580 For the same reason why you came on here.

02:09:07.060 You don't know the reason why I came on here.

02:09:08.940 Why did you come on here?

02:09:10.180 I'm not going to say.

02:09:11.020 Oh.

02:09:11.460 Okay.

02:09:12.000 So, did you guys want to come in on something?

02:09:14.620 I want to give you guys more of an opportunity to speak.

02:09:19.980 Okay.

02:09:21.020 I mean, I do see what you're saying about how you would prefer a girl that doesn't have an OnlyFans.

02:09:25.320 I understand that and, like, very understandable.

02:09:29.280 Which, oh, really quick on that.

02:09:30.780 I've never dated a girl thus far who has an OnlyFans.

02:09:34.820 So.

02:09:35.320 Wait, what's your dating situation?

02:09:37.740 I just want to know.

02:09:38.540 What do you mean?

02:09:39.220 Like, are you in, like, when was your longest relationship?

02:09:42.980 Like, I'm just curious.

02:09:43.860 I've just.

02:09:44.100 Okay, I've had three long-term relationships.

02:09:45.760 I've had a five-year relationship, a two-year relationship, a one-year relationship.

02:09:49.280 My most recent thing was about six, seven months.

02:09:52.000 That ended a couple months ago.

02:09:56.340 I'm, like, super busy with work.

02:09:57.880 I'm trying to pay off my parents' mortgage.

02:09:59.700 Solid goal.

02:10:02.220 I've been.

02:10:03.380 I've had.

02:10:04.700 I move on quick.

02:10:05.920 I mean, I've had relationships.

02:10:08.780 It's not my first rodeo. 0.98

02:10:10.980 So, like, yeah, it sucks.

02:10:12.600 But it's just, I mean, I'm a stoic. 0.94

02:10:15.840 So, but.

02:10:18.360 What was the question, though?

02:10:20.480 My.

02:10:21.160 Oh.

02:10:21.420 Oh, I'm just so busy with the podcast.

02:10:23.700 Like, I'm trying to make, like, I mean.

02:10:26.420 So, you.

02:10:26.980 A lot of money.

02:10:28.160 Well, yeah, that's my primary focus.

02:10:29.900 Yeah.

02:10:30.040 So, my situation right now is, like, I really haven't been dating a whole bunch.

02:10:34.580 Um, and, uh, honestly, dating kind of feels like a bit of a waste of time for me right

02:10:39.560 now.

02:10:39.900 Like I said, I'm trying to retire my parents.

02:10:41.860 I'm trying to pay off my parents' mortgage.

02:10:43.560 I'm trying to, like, make enough money to, like, would I be able to provide for a girl 1.00

02:10:52.300 and so she just doesn't have to work. 0.61

02:10:54.460 Like, that's, that's the goal.

02:10:55.940 Oh, that's what you want to do?

02:10:57.380 Yeah.

02:10:57.480 You want to provide for a girl so she doesn't have to work? 1.00

02:10:59.700 Well, my partner, if she's the right girl, then I retire us. 1.00

02:11:06.200 Well, I retire myself at 40, 45.

02:11:09.380 Maybe I continue the podcast.

02:11:11.300 But, uh, yeah, just retire early probably.

02:11:14.280 That's good.

02:11:14.780 And, uh, sorry, guys, you only have me for another decade.

02:11:16.560 Um, but, uh, who knows?

02:11:19.600 We'll see.

02:11:19.960 We'll see how things hold up.

02:11:21.920 Can I ask you a question on that one?

02:11:23.520 Yeah.

02:11:24.280 Um, if a man wasn't in a breadwinner position and you were taking care of your man, how long

02:11:29.760 would it last?

02:11:30.720 If, like, if your man's.

02:11:31.960 Wait, what was the first thing you said?

02:11:33.300 So, if you were the primary, if you were the primary breadwinner in your relationship,

02:11:38.600 how long would you supply life for that man?

02:11:41.980 Like, say that he had no job, for example.

02:11:45.880 I don't know.

02:11:46.280 It depends on my job, I guess.

02:11:47.600 Like, your man just lost his job.

02:11:49.320 How long?

02:11:49.940 Um, why were you asking about my relationship status?

02:11:52.540 Oh, I just wanted to know, to be honest.

02:11:54.280 I was just being nosy.

02:11:55.060 You were asking all of us.

02:11:56.060 Oh, sure.

02:11:56.640 Yeah.

02:11:56.840 I don't reveal too many details.

02:11:58.600 But, um, yeah, honestly, I just, I found that dating just seems kind of, uh, at this

02:12:05.240 point, I don't know.

02:12:06.800 So, are you, can I just ask you this real quick?

02:12:08.500 Sure.

02:12:08.740 Are you dating?

02:12:09.720 Look, not dating.

02:12:10.980 Okay.

02:12:11.500 I guess.

02:12:11.860 What's up?

02:12:11.980 I don't know how to, like, word it.

02:12:13.140 Like, I don't know how to word it, but I'm saying, like, when you date, like, are you

02:12:16.700 thinking, like, this is going to be my wife?

02:12:19.280 Like, I don't know.

02:12:20.180 I'm not going to be, I'm probably not going to get married.

02:12:23.140 You're not going to get married?

02:12:24.200 No, I could have a life partner, but I don't need the government, I don't need the government

02:12:28.020 involved in my love life.

02:12:29.860 That's true.

02:12:31.160 I don't know.

02:12:31.660 There's no benefits to a man getting married. 0.89

02:12:32.400 Yeah, and also, it's just like, it's a big L for men in the United States.

02:12:35.920 Financial suicide.

02:12:36.920 It's, yeah, it's.

02:12:38.280 Self-delusion.

02:12:39.320 It's, it's, it's pretty bad.

02:12:41.560 Yeah. 0.97

02:12:41.760 And I'm a high earner, so it's a big fucking L for me if I get married. 0.99

02:12:45.520 Go ahead. 0.97

02:12:45.840 A lot of girls do want to get married, and I think it would be really hard for you to 0.99

02:12:49.840 find a girl that's going to be a lifelong partner with you if you're not going to put

02:12:54.340 a ring on her finger.

02:12:55.520 And it's also hard to find a lifelong partner.

02:12:57.900 I was just saying, like, without the ring, like, she's not going to want to be with you

02:13:01.300 forever.

02:13:01.860 She's going to dip. 1.00

02:13:03.580 Trust me.

02:13:03.960 If you find a girl like that. 0.55

02:13:04.440 Girls love commitment. 0.73

02:13:05.600 What do you think, Kaylin?

02:13:07.360 I think the same thing.

02:13:08.540 If you're not going to commit to her fully, like, in marriage, she's not going to want

02:13:11.600 to stay with you, because why would she want to stay with you if there's, like, a chance

02:13:15.120 you're not going to tell other girls you're married, so other girls are going to think,

02:13:17.980 like, they can have a chance.

02:13:19.160 Well, I can be, I'm not, I can be monogamous.

02:13:22.240 Yeah, you can.

02:13:23.120 What, what is, what is, you can be monogamous outside of a marriage.

02:13:27.660 Again, if there's no ring on your finger, though, a girl can assume whatever she wants. 0.83

02:13:31.340 That's a bigger problem for women than it is men. 1.00

02:13:33.920 It shows lack of commitment.

02:13:34.920 It's lack of commitment.

02:13:35.620 It doesn't show that you're as interested in the girl as they are probably in you.

02:13:39.680 Well, women don't hit on guys. 1.00

02:13:41.760 I don't think you realize this.

02:13:42.760 Sometimes I hit on guys.

02:13:43.840 I just hit on Eric right now.

02:13:45.320 Modern day women hit on guys. 1.00

02:13:47.600 I have.

02:13:47.960 I know I have.

02:13:49.460 Women do not, women do not regularly hit on men, approach men, match with men on dating 0.55

02:13:54.800 apps, send the first message, send DMs, hold on, stop interrupting, with the same frequency

02:14:00.900 that men do to women.

02:14:04.600 So it's actually, if I don't have a wedding ring on my finger, women don't approach me. 1.00

02:14:11.600 Like, women don't approach dudes. 1.00

02:14:13.880 Yo, women, you think women approach men? 1.00

02:14:19.180 Okay, I'm speaking in generalities here.

02:14:21.260 Okay.

02:14:21.660 When I say, do you think women approach men?

02:14:23.840 I mean, to the same degree that men do.

02:14:26.980 Yeah, and I agree with you.

02:14:27.800 Generally, no.

02:14:28.540 Okay.

02:14:28.860 Most women don't. 1.00

02:14:29.780 Sure.

02:14:30.880 But.

02:14:31.740 So a ring on my finger is kind of irrelevant.

02:14:34.660 And also, I just point to a girl. 0.56

02:14:36.160 That's my wife. 1.00

02:14:37.040 I'll need the government to say.

02:14:39.400 Fair enough.

02:14:39.960 Because I'm very anti-government.

02:14:42.200 Okay.

02:14:42.500 So I don't need the government involved in my love life.

02:14:45.880 I actually think it's the girl's job to try and get the ring. 1.00

02:14:48.980 Um.

02:14:50.920 Okay.

02:14:51.660 She has to be marriage material for her to get the ring. 1.00

02:14:54.140 Yeah.

02:14:54.320 So I understand what you're saying with that.

02:14:55.740 Absolutely.

02:14:56.320 She has to abide my master.

02:14:57.660 Go ahead.

02:14:58.100 I'm sorry.

02:14:59.220 About 80% of divorces happen because of women. 1.00

02:15:02.460 So I understand why men do not want to get married.

02:15:05.660 Good.

02:15:06.140 But with that aside, would you consider a prenup?

02:15:09.960 Since you can like choose what percentage you get and what percentage she gets if something

02:15:15.080 were to go down.

02:15:16.040 Yeah.

02:15:16.740 Um.

02:15:17.040 You mentioned, you mentioned a prenup.

02:15:20.160 Nein, nein, nein, nein, nein, nein, nein, nein.

02:15:23.800 Absolutely not.

02:15:25.440 Because prenups are thrown out.

02:15:28.220 Oh.

02:15:28.520 Hold on.

02:15:29.100 Jen's donated $50.

02:15:31.140 A man using a woman for her body is demonized in a cancel label offense.

02:15:34.920 While a woman using men for their wallet is considered acceptable. 1.00

02:15:38.480 Question is for all.

02:15:40.760 Is dating a man for money that he worked hard for equal to getting in a relationship to smash?

02:15:47.220 Wait.

02:15:47.660 What's the question?

02:15:48.440 I don't know.

02:15:48.600 Is dating a man for money that he worked hard for?

02:15:50.760 It was just a common question.

02:15:51.460 Is dating a man for money that he worked for?

02:15:55.220 We're going to have to come back to that one just so I can finish off on this prenup thing.

02:15:58.100 Okay, so prenups are regularly thrown out all the time.

02:16:05.260 They're typically non-enforceable, especially the longer the marriage goes on, the less likely

02:16:10.880 they are to be enforced.

02:16:13.320 So, you know, you hear a lot of these stories.

02:16:15.760 Prenups just get thrown up, excuse me, thrown out.

02:16:18.480 I think it happened to Dr. Dre.

02:16:19.960 He had a prenup with his wife. 1.00

02:16:21.320 He got took to the fucking cleaners by his wife. 0.99

02:16:26.260 So, like, to me, it just, it doesn't make sense. 0.99

02:16:30.560 The United States and a lot of Western countries are going to have to rewrite the marriage laws

02:16:35.780 to incentivize men to get married because men are waking up to the fact that men get absolutely

02:16:41.720 destroyed in marriage and in divorce.

02:16:45.100 Financially, when it comes to the kids, women are more likely to get custody. 1.00

02:16:50.800 And then, also, if you do get a divorce, you're going to, the financial cost of just getting

02:16:57.400 the attorney, getting all that involved, if it's a contested divorce, you're going to spend

02:17:02.620 mid five figures, six figures on attorneys.

02:17:05.500 And you've got to pay for her attorney, too, if she's not, if it's not a 50-50 relationship.

02:17:09.900 So, I mean, 50% of marriages end in divorce.

02:17:13.820 I think you said 80% of divorces are initiated by women. 0.99

02:17:17.520 90% if she's college educated.

02:17:18.740 Yeah, 90% if she's college educated. 0.99

02:17:20.500 90% of child support payments go from men to women.

02:17:23.460 97% of alimony payments go from men to women.

02:17:27.240 So, it's just marriage, if you're a betting man, it's not a good bet for men.

02:17:34.640 And we've done away with, you know, you have no fault divorce.

02:17:37.420 So, a woman can cheat on you, she can get spit-roasted, and infidelity, and she can still get half 1.00

02:17:49.200 her shit if she cheated on you, which would be a perfectly, perfectly justified reason 1.00

02:17:55.080 for wanting to divorce someone. 1.00

02:17:57.520 Imagine that, cheating, you caught your wife cheating, and then now you have to pay her

02:18:02.900 alimony for the next 20 years.

02:18:04.700 Like, that's absurd.

02:18:06.120 Yeah, man, don't get married.

02:18:06.980 There's actually this case in Canada, Eric, I think you've looked it up before.

02:18:10.320 In Canada, this guy was dating a woman, and they weren't married, and somehow he had to

02:18:18.420 pay, it was just a girlfriend, didn't have children, he had to pay her support.

02:18:23.800 He was a wealthy guy, went to court, not married.

02:18:28.160 He had to pay her, like, alimony, basically.

02:18:31.240 So, marriage is an L for dudes.

02:18:35.800 I don't know if, I think it's the first one, Eric, if you want to pull it up.

02:18:39.580 I actually have something for this.

02:18:42.520 May I?

02:18:42.960 Hold on, just while we pull this up.

02:18:47.240 Of course.

02:18:47.400 Eric, do you got it?

02:18:52.720 Can you scroll up?

02:18:54.620 Scroll up.

02:18:55.780 The title, the title.

02:18:58.620 Canadian court asks man to pay $53,000 per month to ex-girlfriend as spouse support.

02:19:03.420 Scroll down a little bit.

02:19:07.460 Scroll down.

02:19:08.100 There was something about, like, they were no children.

02:19:11.500 Oh, here, I'll get this.

02:19:12.680 Alvin Sam super chatted $49.99.

02:19:17.060 These women are viewing marriage from an idealistic view, but the guys are viewing it from a pragmatic

02:19:23.400 view.

02:19:24.480 My co-worker is paying off his ex-wife's $42,000 gambling debt she acquired because of community

02:19:30.860 property.

02:19:32.080 Ladies, let that sink in. 1.00

02:19:34.960 Damn. 0.99

02:19:35.640 Yeah, there's no, there's, like, if we were in a traditional social order, say how things 0.99

02:19:41.280 used to be 50, 60, 70 years ago, where both legally, well, I think, I don't know if much

02:19:48.000 change has actually changed legally.

02:19:50.260 There's been a couple shifts legally, but societally, also it was frowned upon to get divorced. 0.99

02:19:57.280 Now it's like, go girl, like, get fucking divorced. 0.98

02:20:01.020 So, now it's not a big deal. 0.97

02:20:03.680 So, if there's no incentive to continue the relationship, to stay divorced, if there's

02:20:10.260 no stigma to being divorced, then what is the incentive for women to get married and 1.00

02:20:17.200 to stay married?

02:20:17.920 Because, here's one thing in both business and in love, you do not enter into a contract

02:20:24.820 where the other party is rewarded for breaking it.

02:20:28.320 And the fact of the matter is, women are rewarded financially for breaking their marriage contract. 1.00

02:20:36.460 Substantially rewarded, in fact, for breaking their marriage contract.

02:20:41.080 Now we're speaking...

02:20:43.080 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.

02:20:47.040 Respect to you, Brian.

02:20:49.360 Stoicism is something that all men need. 1.00

02:20:52.520 Marcus Aurelius, best Roman emperor, book, meditations, helped me get over my divorce.

02:20:59.240 Your chat co-host will find happiness.

02:21:02.220 Thank you for what you do.

02:21:04.000 Big W to Christian woman, too.

02:21:07.180 Yeah.

02:21:07.400 Oh, here, I'll hold it up here.

02:21:13.740 Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, good book.

02:21:15.800 Do the audio book, it's a bit easier to get through.

02:21:18.500 Thanks, bro.

02:21:20.020 Yeah, appreciate it.

02:21:21.100 Go ahead, what were you saying?

02:21:22.280 I was going to say, divorce is speaking in a very worldly...

02:21:26.180 Thank you, Bryce.

02:21:28.140 Thank you, Bryce.

02:21:28.620 I'd like to ask the girl who said she was Christian, do you believe in saving yourself from marriage?

02:21:33.740 If so, is it in the sense of spirit or the law?

02:21:36.820 You are married when you have sex, not because of the government.

02:21:40.380 So saving yourself is for the right guy to do it with.

02:21:44.120 Yeah, so the question is, do you believe in saving yourself from marriage?

02:21:50.860 That's a good question.

02:21:52.040 It actually is a good question.

02:21:53.400 And yeah, I do believe in saving yourself from marriage.

02:21:55.640 Sadly, I didn't have that chance to save myself from marriage.

02:22:01.160 But when my husband and I both got engaged, we decided that we were going to save ourselves

02:22:07.360 in that aspect where we weren't going to have sex and wait until we got married to have that

02:22:12.120 sort of communion together.

02:22:13.300 And it does, the government, yeah, how do I explain this?

02:22:20.220 The question was, can it be asked one more time, the question?

02:22:24.960 I want to make sure I get it right.

02:22:26.560 Well, let's keep it moving, I think.

02:22:28.440 Okay, never mind.

02:22:28.620 I mean, it was about staying until...

02:22:31.220 I think it's important to stay pure because you should be giving everything to the man

02:22:36.340 that you marry.

02:22:38.480 Everything as in your thoughts, emotions, and your body as well.

02:22:44.360 Word.

02:22:44.960 And just really quick on the marriage thing.

02:22:46.940 Women disproportionately initiate divorce more often because divorce outcomes disproportionately 0.99

02:22:53.160 favor women. 0.97

02:22:55.920 So it's just, look, in the United States, it's not a good bet for men to get married.

02:23:02.640 It's a big L to get married. 0.99

02:23:05.240 May I say?

02:23:06.400 Go for it.

02:23:06.940 Okay, so imagine, like, you have a corporate job, right?

02:23:10.060 You have a corner office, right?

02:23:12.380 You have a corner office, you got plenty of PTO benefits, full medical, dental, everything

02:23:17.760 you can think of.

02:23:18.900 If you want to go to school, it's paid for.

02:23:20.880 Now you get a promotion, right?

02:23:24.240 You get a promotion.

02:23:25.480 You lose the corner office, you're in the middle of a public office space with everybody

02:23:30.180 else.

02:23:31.100 You lose your PTO benefits, you lose your health insurance, you lose half of your salary.

02:23:36.300 You were making 100K before, now you're making 50K.

02:23:39.100 Do you think that's a good promotion?

02:23:43.620 I see where you're going with this.

02:23:46.260 Oh, whoops.

02:23:47.040 I was talking.

02:23:50.740 I see where you're going with this and using it as a...

02:23:54.440 Real quick, I'm sorry to interrupt.

02:23:56.260 Can I get a quick raise hand if you think that's a good promotion?

02:24:02.680 I just don't see, like, the promotion with, like, the salary and, like, your benefits and,

02:24:06.840 like, your office space, the exact same thing as a marriage.

02:24:09.000 I see, like, the metaphor that you're going with and how...

02:24:11.420 Yeah, like, yeah, I see, like, the divorce and, like, you know, I just don't agree.

02:24:16.160 I didn't mean to interrupt what you were saying.

02:24:17.480 You're good.

02:24:20.120 That is only one aspect of the job, though.

02:24:23.500 What else does a promotion entail, though?

02:24:25.860 I mean, yeah, you're in the middle of a space, but what else do you get?

02:24:29.400 Nothing?

02:24:30.400 No.

02:24:30.920 Because that's not what a marriage is.

02:24:32.320 I agree.

02:24:32.420 You don't get nothing in return.

02:24:34.420 We're talking about finances here.

02:24:36.240 But finance is only one part of a marriage.

02:24:38.320 And people are raised that money over everything.

02:24:41.760 So a lot of people have been skewed to, like, focus on the bag, focus on money.

02:24:47.040 I'm just trying to get my money.

02:24:48.100 You hear it every day.

02:24:49.780 And this is what society has gotten to.

02:24:52.420 It's not love anymore.

02:24:53.720 It's money.

02:24:54.800 I know.

02:24:55.240 And money plays a huge factor in finding a potential mate.

02:24:58.300 Because you look for, correct me if I'm wrong, you look for safety, security.

02:25:02.660 Security is going to be financial gains, essentially.

02:25:05.520 Safety, you want to have a man that knows what he's doing, can fight, hold him up, like, stick up for you in the middle of confrontation.

02:25:13.460 You want that from your man.

02:25:15.060 But if you don't get the stuff, you would be turned off, correct?

02:25:19.280 Yeah, but that comes off with a high-value man.

02:25:21.640 Correct.

02:25:22.140 So, yes.

02:25:22.760 You found one.

02:25:23.480 Yes, I did.

02:25:24.300 Congrats.

02:25:25.040 There's a lot of men out there that don't do this.

02:25:27.320 But there's also a lot of women that think that this is the way society should be. 1.00

02:25:31.920 And if you want love, if you want marriage, you're not going to find it doing OnlyFans and not submitting it.

02:25:40.300 Get over the OnlyFans.

02:25:43.140 Get over it.

02:25:43.860 I'm sorry.

02:25:44.500 Get over it.

02:25:45.120 But, yeah.

02:25:47.020 Well, let's keep it respectful, guys.

02:25:48.620 Okay, so.

02:25:49.020 I apologize for that.

02:25:49.840 No, no, no.

02:25:50.420 You're fine.

02:25:51.000 Okay, you're honestly way more respectful, like, than the last dude I had to deal with.

02:25:57.240 Yo, flan life.

02:25:58.600 Thank you.

02:25:58.960 I like, I like.

02:25:59.600 Hold on.

02:26:00.300 Flan life.

02:26:00.760 Thank you for the 10.

02:26:01.460 What were you about to say?

02:26:02.420 Oh, I was just going to say, I like the way you carry yourself and deliver your opinions.

02:26:05.360 Like, you don't come out as disrespectful or anything.

02:26:07.920 Okay, last thing.

02:26:08.720 I appreciate it.

02:26:08.740 Last thing on marriage here.

02:26:09.800 Last thing on marriage here.

02:26:10.600 So, I have a list here of some men who have been divorced.

02:26:14.700 And these are exceptionally attractive men who are high status, high earners.

02:26:21.000 So, here we go.

02:26:22.120 Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Dr. Dre, Ryan Reynolds, Tom Brady, Lance Armstrong, Alex Rodriguez, Channing Tatum, Chris Rock, Ben Affleck, Chris Pratt, Liam Hemsworth, Ben Stiller, David Duchovny, Orlando Bloom, Tiger Woods, Sean Penn, Sylvester Stallone, Paul McCartney, Ryan Felipe, Jason Momoa, Michael Jordan, and did I say Tom Brady, right?

02:26:45.860 If those men can't hold on to a girl, what chance do you think a regular guy has?

02:26:53.480 Why are you laughing?

02:26:55.980 I just think it's funny.

02:26:56.960 Like, the way you worded it.

02:26:57.920 Like, if they can't hold on to a girl. 0.66

02:26:59.580 I'm not.

02:27:00.420 I just think it's funny.

02:27:01.540 Mark Evengames super chatted $49.99.

02:27:05.760 I love it.

02:27:06.620 Money is everything, yes, but money can be found anywhere.

02:27:09.500 Love and appreciation can only come from few.

02:27:12.260 I agree.

02:27:13.320 All right.

02:27:14.020 There you go.

02:27:14.840 I like that.

02:27:15.380 He worded it very well.

02:27:15.940 Thank you, man.

02:27:16.900 Thank you, man.

02:27:17.600 Yeah, Dr. Dre had to pay his wife over $100 million in the divorce settlement, and they had a prenup.

02:27:23.440 And then Kim K, a billionaire in her own right, is getting $200,000 a year from Kanye West in child support.

02:27:32.120 So, the laws do not benefit men.

02:27:36.100 I don't think men should be getting married. 0.86

02:27:38.520 That's your opinion?

02:27:39.440 That should be a law that changes as well.

02:27:41.120 It shouldn't be a percentage based on how much money you make.

02:27:43.760 It should be a set amount to live an average life.

02:27:47.520 You know what I'm saying?

02:27:48.080 An average, normal life.

02:27:49.220 The government shouldn't be doing that.

02:27:51.140 It shouldn't be percentage based. 0.96

02:27:52.100 That's ridiculous. 0.67

02:27:52.500 That's what we're fighting for, man. 0.99

02:27:53.320 That's ridiculous. 0.99

02:27:54.180 That's ridiculous. 0.98

02:27:54.680 We need to have this change. 0.76

02:27:55.720 We need to all speak up.

02:27:56.760 If you can start a channel or something or whatever and speak your mind.

02:28:00.000 And actually, like, be based.

02:28:02.180 Don't just attack women because attacking women ain't going to get us nowhere. 0.98

02:28:05.080 You can't make change with hate.

02:28:07.300 You know what I'm saying?

02:28:07.900 Like, I promise I wasn't attacking you.

02:28:11.300 I didn't want to, like, come off as that.

02:28:12.620 No, it's okay.

02:28:13.060 I think you are.

02:28:13.900 Actually, I think it would be a really good either a one-on-one episode or to bring on a panel would be to bring on a divorce attorney to the show to talk about this.

02:28:42.300 It's because they know firsthand, okay, prenups get thrown out.

02:28:47.080 Here's how much you can expect to pay an alimony after this many years.

02:28:50.800 So, yeah, it's, and I actually know a couple, I know one or two, not, I've never been divorced, but I know one or two attorneys, like, that represent some pretty, like, high-earning people here in Santa Barbara.

02:29:06.100 So, I've been trying to get them on, but, like, it's attorneys are, like, professional-type people.

02:29:10.760 So, go ahead.

02:29:12.040 Just a comment.

02:29:12.940 I do think it's super sad that marriage is, I mean, for you guys, is just affiliated with money.

02:29:19.000 It's not affiliated with the true meaning of being married.

02:29:22.620 It can destroy our life.

02:29:24.200 I know it can, but it's sad that the world has come to that.

02:29:26.640 So, I do agree with you in saying how it, you know, it costs a bunch of money, but that shouldn't be what, you know, marriage is about.

02:29:34.580 Okay, well, I mean, idealistically, yes, but we have, as men, we have to be pragmatic, especially if we're the breadwinners, because we have a lot to lose.

02:29:44.620 A lot to lose.

02:29:46.680 How many men have their lives absolutely ruined because of divorce?

02:29:52.380 It's...

02:29:53.340 You named off a huge list.

02:29:54.980 Yeah, it's like, it's bad.

02:29:57.820 And it's, look, the marriage laws in the West, in the United States, need to be rewritten. 0.97

02:30:03.920 There's no fucking scenario where your wife should cheat, and she still gets alimony. 1.00

02:30:09.720 That's fucking absurd. 0.99

02:30:11.900 But there's no law that's... 1.00

02:30:13.160 And I, the same should apply if the woman's the breadwinner and the dude cheats, he shouldn't get shit either. 0.96

02:30:18.480 I don't have a double standard on this, but it's just, it's not a good proposition. 0.97

02:30:23.560 This is what we're fighting for.

02:30:24.440 Also, the court system's incredibly biased against men, so.

02:30:27.120 Did you want to come in?

02:30:27.840 Yeah, so I was going to say that the percentage of people who get divorced, like I said, are, you know, initially by a woman by 80%, but that's also in a worldly aspect.

02:30:38.340 So, me being a Christian as well, when you take Christians as a, in a marriage standpoint, the percentage is extremely low, because we don't believe in divorce.

02:30:48.560 I thought that was Catholics.

02:30:49.820 No. 0.99

02:30:50.700 Cheating, cheating, and there's one more. 0.51

02:30:55.060 Christians don't get divorced? 1.00

02:30:56.280 Well, there's only reasons why you can get divorced. 1.00

02:31:00.180 There are only specific reasons, cheating being one of them, on both sides, if the man cheats or the woman cheats.

02:31:05.200 Sure.

02:31:05.940 So, do you think that in society that if you don't have that religious compass, that moral compass, that that's why it's falling down?

02:31:15.260 Because they just think like, oh, like, religion's not a thing anymore.

02:31:18.260 There's no, there's no moral balance.

02:31:20.000 Cheating is fine.

02:31:20.700 It's not a big deal.

02:31:21.640 Blah, blah, blah. 0.97

02:31:22.320 I think there's a lot of fake Christians out there, too. 0.85

02:31:24.520 People that say they believe in God but don't hold any values as standards or any morals.

02:31:28.540 It's true, and that's a big problem.

02:31:29.660 I think, I mean, my personal view is you can be a secular individual and still have good morals and good values, but I would say that marriage, that originated from a religious context.

02:31:47.160 And so, I do think there's certainly more incentive to stay married because that's what the book says.

02:31:58.080 That's what is expected of you as, you know, whether you're Muslim or you're Jewish or you're Christian.

02:32:05.400 Again, there is a greater social pressure that exists within these communities.

02:32:12.820 Well, there's a greater social pressure, and then also just in terms of the faith itself, there's a greater pressure to remain married.

02:32:20.460 And I suspect that's a good thing, but, well, yeah, so I would say I would agree with you there.

02:32:29.980 But, I mean, you know, when it comes to religions, the trends are definitely pointing towards, you know, more and more people are becoming or are secular or less religious or not identifying as religious.

02:32:42.000 Let me get this moving.

02:32:42.920 We do need to continue on with the Super Chats here. 1.00

02:32:44.900 All right, yo, we got your mom in the chat. 0.97

02:32:46.480 What's up, Joy?

02:32:47.220 Yo, shout out my mom. 1.00

02:32:48.300 Yo, Joy, you got some badass glasses. 0.92

02:32:50.040 What's up?

02:32:50.940 Those sunglasses, what you got?

02:32:52.540 You got a little pink, a little thing going?

02:32:54.560 All right, what's up?

02:32:55.360 Yo, shout out to Thomas.

02:32:56.240 I'm so proud of you, and I know your dad would be too.

02:32:58.540 Yo, when's the dad going to be in the chat?

02:33:01.060 What's up?

02:33:01.780 My dad's not with us anymore.

02:33:03.620 Oh.

02:33:04.200 We talked about this in his chain in the beginning.

02:33:08.500 Brian.

02:33:09.780 I've become very spiritual, you know, I'm from beyond the grave.

02:33:13.720 No, I understand.

02:33:14.420 I mean, from beyond the grave.

02:33:15.280 He's watching over this chat.

02:33:17.140 I believe that he's saying it, too.

02:33:19.460 I actually have a song dedicated to him when I found out about it.

02:33:23.540 If you want to check it out, Captain Bama Lamb.

02:33:25.640 I'm sorry to plug like that.

02:33:26.700 That's all good.

02:33:28.320 Shout out to my mom. 0.99

02:33:29.400 Thank you for everything.

02:33:30.900 I'm grateful to call you my mom.

02:33:32.640 And, Dad, if you're looking, thank you for everything you did.

02:33:37.460 Wholesome podcast moment.

02:33:40.820 Family over everything.

02:33:41.980 Yo, Ninja Smoke.

02:33:43.200 Thank you for the $20 soup chat.

02:33:44.780 I'm going to have you continue reading it.

02:33:46.400 Go ahead.

02:33:46.900 Actually, I think of, go ahead.

02:33:50.480 This question.

02:33:51.480 Oh, you want me to read it?

02:33:52.300 Oh, Jesus Christ.

02:33:52.740 I'm really, really sensitive. 0.98

02:33:54.200 I didn't fucking see that. 0.98

02:33:55.040 I didn't see it. 0.99

02:33:55.960 Jesus.

02:33:56.360 We're just going to skip that.

02:33:56.940 Yeah, we're going to skip that one.

02:33:57.640 I'm just going to skip that.

02:33:58.860 I'm going to skip it, man.

02:33:59.700 If you want to ask something else.

02:34:00.760 We did that one already.

02:34:01.520 I didn't even see it.

02:34:02.380 My bad.

02:34:02.800 I just pulled it up.

02:34:04.440 All right.

02:34:05.740 Oh, Jesus.

02:34:06.420 I think, yeah.

02:34:07.220 Sorry, Derek.

02:34:07.800 We're just going to skip that.

02:34:08.800 And then you just want to keep it.

02:34:10.300 Yeah, Derek.

02:34:10.960 Mr. K.

02:34:11.800 Oh, hold on.

02:34:12.820 Alvin Sam super chatted $49.99.

02:34:17.160 To the Christian guests, women don't marry for love. 0.93

02:34:21.000 They marry for financial security and lifestyle. 0.64

02:34:24.560 Love does not mean anything without financial security.

02:34:27.900 You wouldn't marry a broke man.

02:34:29.700 Yeah, and I broke that down.

02:34:31.160 Yeah.

02:34:31.680 Based.

02:34:32.880 All right.

02:34:33.180 We have.

02:34:35.140 Go ahead.

02:34:35.740 This one's definitely for you.

02:34:36.840 Go ahead.

02:34:37.960 How would you do this?

02:34:39.000 Packet chick ruined my life. 1.00

02:34:40.960 Oh, her boyfriend here. 0.89

02:34:42.140 Oh, hold on.

02:34:42.800 Jared has super chatted $50.

02:34:45.000 Yo, Jared.

02:34:45.840 Thank you, man.

02:34:46.320 Appreciate it.

02:34:47.560 No message attached, but really appreciate the patronage, man.

02:34:50.460 Shout out, Jared.

02:34:51.360 Is that your homie? 0.98

02:34:52.480 No.

02:34:52.900 Oh.

02:34:53.280 I don't know him.

02:34:54.660 He supports you, man.

02:34:56.360 Hey, yeah.

02:34:56.860 No, thank you, man.

02:34:57.680 Thank you.

02:34:58.020 Really appreciate it.

02:34:58.920 Hold on.

02:34:59.200 I'm going to wait until that disappears.

02:35:01.580 No, that's fine.

02:35:02.400 All right.

02:35:02.760 Go for it.

02:35:03.760 I ain't going to lie.

02:35:04.740 That was one of my opening lines when I had dating apps.

02:35:07.800 I was like, yo, ruin me respectfully.

02:35:12.120 Game for y'all.

02:35:12.880 Go for it if you want to read it again.

02:35:14.340 Oh, again?

02:35:15.120 Oh, God.

02:35:16.460 I'd let the leather jacket chick ruin my life. 1.00

02:35:19.060 Okay.

02:35:19.820 There we go.

02:35:20.720 Yo, Mr. K.

02:35:21.300 Thank you, man.

02:35:21.640 Appreciate it.

02:35:22.140 I stole the game from my boy.

02:35:23.420 Ether.

02:35:24.940 Oh, yeah.

02:35:26.100 Go ahead.

02:35:27.940 Do you want to read it?

02:35:29.760 Hello?

02:35:30.300 Oh, me again?

02:35:31.000 Yeah.

02:35:31.240 Oh, my God.

02:35:31.800 I'm like, ugh.

02:35:32.420 Congrats on the ABBA and Preach Spotlight.

02:35:35.980 Hensley has been my favorite female on the show so far.

02:35:39.280 Yeah.

02:35:39.920 Guys, I don't know if you know ABBA and Preach, but they did a little reaction to our video.

02:35:45.400 I think it was yesterday.

02:35:46.260 So, thank you, Ether, for the soup chat.

02:35:48.500 Appreciate it.

02:35:49.360 That one came through.

02:35:51.200 Yo, Target for Rage. 0.94

02:35:53.060 Thanks for the New Zealand 20.

02:35:55.960 Yo, Brixen.

02:35:57.420 Cheers for the shout out.

02:35:58.760 Been watching from your 10-year-ago prank days.

02:36:02.800 Come to New Zealand.

02:36:04.060 The women here from watching your videos are what you need, mate. 1.00

02:36:08.380 Yo, bruv.

02:36:09.580 Check this.

02:36:12.380 I was in New Zealand for the Rugby World Cup 2011.

02:36:17.760 Rugby is the superior sport.

02:36:20.100 El Super Bowl.

02:36:22.280 Shout out Rugby.

02:36:23.020 Shout out Rugby.

02:36:24.260 Shout out All Blacks. 0.98

02:36:25.320 Yo, Target.

02:36:25.900 Thank you, man.

02:36:26.340 Like I said, bruv, 500 New Zealand. 0.98

02:36:30.240 I'll fucking do the haka right now. 0.99

02:36:32.460 I'll do it with them. 0.99

02:36:33.380 Do you know it?

02:36:34.240 No.

02:36:34.420 The commentate?

02:36:34.880 No, you got to teach me.

02:36:35.740 I'll teach you.

02:36:36.220 We'll do it right here.

02:36:36.960 I'll teach you.

02:36:38.280 All right.

02:36:39.280 Thank you, man.

02:36:40.840 Appreciate it.

02:36:41.540 By the way, there's a bunch of sheep in New Zealand just saying.

02:36:43.840 All right.

02:36:45.140 Yo, Ulti Nate, 20 Love Soup Chat.

02:36:46.760 Thank you, man.

02:36:47.400 Go for it.

02:36:48.920 Boys, Bangs is a lost cause.

02:36:50.920 She's too far gone in her mind.

02:36:52.300 Just let life and its consequences humble her when she's a single mother reflecting on her

02:36:57.060 let-me-make-my-own-choices lifestyle.

02:37:00.360 Do you have a response?

02:37:02.760 Real men out in the world do not think like this.

02:37:07.180 And it's scary that you guys believe that because I've met so many men that don't think

02:37:12.500 that way.

02:37:12.960 And they are amazing.

02:37:13.960 And I, in my eyes, I think they are high-value males.

02:37:17.420 And I'm sorry if you don't think that.

02:37:18.640 But that's just my opinion.

02:37:21.140 I wouldn't be going for men like that.

02:37:23.580 There's men willingly, like, willingly asking to pay for my Amazon wish list.

02:37:32.380 So.

02:37:32.960 Amazon wish list.

02:37:33.940 Yo, by the way, guys, we have, right now, we have the most amount of people watching that

02:37:39.260 we have ever, ever had.

02:37:42.180 W chat.

02:37:43.040 Yeah.

02:37:43.460 W's in the chat.

02:37:44.260 W chat.

02:37:44.520 We have two, I think we went down a little bit, but I think we hit 2,000 concurrent.

02:37:50.180 Yo, that's crazy, dude.

02:37:51.580 Thank you guys so much for the support.

02:37:53.080 Shout out chat.

02:37:53.780 They wanted to see bangs.

02:37:55.500 I think it was bangs that did it.

02:37:56.800 Yeah.

02:37:57.220 She's back, baby.

02:37:58.240 Round two.

02:37:59.200 Here we go.

02:37:59.760 Hold on.

02:38:02.080 All right.

02:38:03.100 Fireworks.

02:38:04.240 Yo, hey, hit the like button, guys.

02:38:06.320 Hit the like button.

02:38:07.120 There's 2,000 people watching.

02:38:08.620 Can we try to get to 1,000 likes?

02:38:10.740 Just 1,000 likes.

02:38:11.820 Thank you guys.

02:38:12.780 Really appreciate all the support.

02:38:14.100 1,000 likes.

02:38:14.600 We can do it.

02:38:15.520 Let's go.

02:38:16.040 1,000 likes.

02:38:16.760 Let's do it, guys.

02:38:17.480 Really appreciate all the support.

02:38:20.340 It's been, you know, it was a struggle there with the first 50 shows, but glad to see that

02:38:25.220 it's really picking up.

02:38:26.280 Welcome to everyone new who is tuning in and watching.

02:38:31.120 Okay.

02:38:31.300 We have, this one came through.

02:38:33.160 That one came through.

02:38:35.040 Harry, 20, let's do chat.

02:38:36.140 Is this the same channel that used to do pickup pranks back in 2015? 1.00

02:38:39.560 Damn, you guys got blackpilled to hell. 1.00

02:38:42.380 What the fuck happened? 1.00

02:38:43.440 I think I'm more maroon-pilled than black-pilled, but yeah, thank you, man. 0.99

02:38:48.140 Let's see here.

02:38:48.860 We have Marquavian Gaines.

02:38:52.200 I love the name, dude, especially when it comes to his TTS.

02:38:56.220 Wiz.

02:38:57.500 W Wiz.

02:38:58.520 W Liz.

02:38:59.260 You want me to read it?

02:39:00.080 Go for it.

02:39:00.540 I truly think we don't take into consideration there are levels to peace coming from family

02:39:05.680 with equal earning partners with two independent people that can make a wonderful partnership

02:39:10.400 with still submissive wife, with a still submissive wife. 1.00

02:39:14.420 Yeah, there are people that can do it.

02:39:17.260 Definitely.

02:39:17.880 Definitely.

02:39:18.320 I mean, I'm not saying that just because a woman has a job that she's not going to be 0.75

02:39:21.540 peaceful, you know, but.

02:39:23.420 It's the respect thing that might be the issue.

02:39:25.300 Oh, are we talking about OnlyFans now or?

02:39:27.460 No.

02:39:27.740 No.

02:39:28.100 No.

02:39:28.580 No, no, no, no.

02:39:29.840 Yeah.

02:39:30.460 But I do think, though, like if you're like a really ambitious woman, not always, but in

02:39:37.020 order for you to be ambitious, there is a certain degree of cutthroatness and ruthlessness

02:39:43.320 that you need to adopt to be good in business because business is cutthroat and like corporate

02:39:50.300 situations. 0.98

02:39:51.460 There's fucking backstabbing and like politics, office politics. 0.99

02:39:55.200 So and also just working is fucking stressful. 0.99

02:39:57.600 So like, I mean, I could certainly I mean, look. 0.95

02:40:03.440 Could I support a girl and she's kind of like stay at home girlfriend? 0.99

02:40:06.100 That's fine.

02:40:06.660 Could I date a girl? 0.91

02:40:07.760 Most of the women I date, they have their own careers. 1.00

02:40:10.120 Totally fine.

02:40:10.940 It's not it's not an issue for me.

02:40:12.480 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.

02:40:16.820 Thomas, I can see the emotion in you talking about your late father.

02:40:21.160 I completely understand.

02:40:23.220 My dad was born in 1931.

02:40:25.640 He raised me and showed me what it's like to live with honor.

02:40:29.960 BTW, the NZ hacker is awesome.

02:40:32.940 Brian, you will make a good father.

02:40:35.680 Well, thank you, man.

02:40:37.180 I appreciate that.

02:40:38.340 You want kids? 0.85

02:40:39.280 Well, that's.

02:40:40.040 Shout out to you, bro.

02:40:40.520 Yeah.

02:40:40.980 Thank you.

02:40:41.540 10 out of 10, humble.

02:40:43.420 The thing is, though, I'm not.

02:40:46.280 I'm I'm on the fence about kids.

02:40:48.540 Why?

02:40:49.640 I'm.

02:40:51.200 I'm just.

02:40:52.180 I'm having 100 kids.

02:40:53.900 I'm a nanny.

02:40:54.760 I can't.

02:40:56.220 I'm not an army of mini me's.

02:40:57.920 I'm 50 50 on it just because.

02:40:59.720 I mean.

02:41:02.640 You don't want little Brian's running around.

02:41:05.360 Doing their own podcast.

02:41:06.800 What's that?

02:41:07.440 Doing their own podcast.

02:41:08.220 What if your kids take over your podcast?

02:41:10.240 Come on, man.

02:41:10.580 We got to spread good genes.

02:41:11.460 We need more.

02:41:12.280 We need more masculine men in this world.

02:41:14.400 Am I mad?

02:41:14.980 I don't know if I'm like.

02:41:16.560 Come on, man.

02:41:17.240 I'm pretty agreeable.

02:41:18.360 I feel like I'm not.

02:41:21.100 Well, in any case.

02:41:24.240 I don't know.

02:41:25.200 Like I said, I'm 50 50 on kids.

02:41:27.020 I've just had some difficulties in my life.

02:41:28.620 And I, I feel like in some ways I, my life is already stressful enough as it is.

02:41:33.860 So I don't know if adding kids to the equation is the right move. 0.98

02:41:38.780 If I came into an obscene amount of wealth where I could have like fucking nannies and 1.00

02:41:43.800 support and chefs and cooks and shit. 1.00

02:41:47.140 Don't give up, Brian. 0.99

02:41:48.340 You're making your own.

02:41:49.020 Well, I'm hustling.

02:41:49.320 I'm hustling to try to get there.

02:41:51.380 But like if, if I was like, I would not have kids under the following circumstances.

02:41:56.600 If I was struggling financially, no, no, no, no, absolutely not.

02:42:01.060 Won't have kids.

02:42:02.100 But if like me and my partner, if she's making money or I'm just the sole breadwinner and

02:42:06.400 I'm killing it under those circumstances, I will have kids.

02:42:09.320 That's where I'm trying to get, but we'll see how the, you know, how the, uh, what's 0.91

02:42:14.580 it called? 0.99

02:42:15.900 The, uh, fuck. 1.00

02:42:16.920 What's the term? 1.00

02:42:18.140 The dice fall.

02:42:19.440 Can someone help me?

02:42:20.360 I don't know.

02:42:21.680 How the cards may fall.

02:42:23.520 What's that from fight club?

02:42:24.620 Hello, anybody?

02:42:25.240 Oh, okay.

02:42:25.800 I don't know the saying.

02:42:26.700 Okay.

02:42:26.860 Um, did we do this one?

02:42:29.460 We did this one.

02:42:30.260 We did this one. 1.00

02:42:31.080 Damn humble. 0.99

02:42:31.800 Dude, you've been super supportive tonight, man. 0.99

02:42:33.940 Thank you.

02:42:34.400 By the way, we will get the stream labs, super chats too.

02:42:37.520 Um, yo, Mango King, if you want to go for it. 0.95

02:42:41.840 Today, you only pursue money and it's fine, but at the end of the day, or at the end, you'll

02:42:46.760 realize how informal and empty that it is.

02:42:50.460 Been a millionaire through honor, but could be a billionaire without joy or peace.

02:42:54.560 Had I ignored my morals?

02:42:58.720 Thank you, man.

02:42:59.780 Uh, yeah, I mean, definitely more money, more problems.

02:43:02.420 Um, there's certain stresses that come with making more money.

02:43:06.160 Um, but, uh, yeah.

02:43:09.260 Yeah, yeah, money's pretty important though.

02:43:12.280 Come on, Mango King. 0.97

02:43:13.200 Come on.

02:43:13.740 You know, money's very important.

02:43:15.940 Um, Ahmad, Ahmad Chayibi, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

02:43:20.620 Um, I learned somewhere on YouTube, a woman cares about a man's future while a man cares 1.00

02:43:27.480 about a woman's past.

02:43:28.700 It's a man's job to attain a woman and it is a woman's job to retain her man. 1.00

02:43:34.620 Yep.

02:43:35.340 What do you guys think about that?

02:43:36.600 Agree?

02:43:36.940 Disagree?

02:43:37.480 I agree.

02:43:41.280 So, a woman cares about a man's future. 1.00

02:43:43.840 A man cares about a woman's past. 0.99

02:43:46.020 I agree.

02:43:46.260 And typically this is used within the context of promiscuity and body count.

02:43:51.260 Mm-hmm.

02:43:51.600 So, women are typically a bit more concerned about a guy's ambition. 1.00

02:43:56.420 Is he going to be successful? 0.74

02:43:57.460 Men care about a woman's sexual promiscuity. 1.00

02:44:00.240 Hide this here.

02:44:00.680 My question was what if the woman was the breadwinner? 0.97

02:44:05.840 So, what if, uh, because your previous soup chat didn't have anything attached to it.

02:44:13.120 Um, well, thank you, man.

02:44:14.020 Um, what, I'm just, what's the context of the question?

02:44:18.500 If the woman was the breadwinner? 0.76

02:44:20.420 Like, for me, I guess, here, we'll take it, like, would we be cool if a woman was the breadwinner in the relationship? 0.53

02:44:27.940 So, whenever I see that, I think the woman is not necessarily trying, per se, but it's emasculating me. 1.00

02:44:36.060 Like, if a woman, like, says, why are you holding a door for me type stuff? 0.90

02:44:40.200 It, no, no, I do not like that.

02:44:43.620 Because if I'm supposed to be here and I'm supposed to be the man of the situation, then I'm going to take initiative.

02:44:49.800 And be the breadwinner.

02:44:51.440 She can make her own money cool, but the real, the reality of the situation is that I ain't seeing none of that money.

02:44:58.380 I might see it in, like, a form of, like, a gift here and there or whatever, but she's not going to pay my rent.

02:45:02.680 She's not going to pay my bills. 1.00

02:45:04.060 If she does, it's probably for, like, a month or two.

02:45:06.280 But after that, she's gone.

02:45:08.000 She's like, this man ain't doing nothing for me.

02:45:09.740 So, why would, why would I allow myself to be in a situation where a girl's making more money than me? 1.00

02:45:15.660 I'm not saying, like, a girl can't do that.

02:45:18.020 But the thing is, is that there's a timer on that relationship.

02:45:20.840 If she's, like, because what, what people don't understand, what women don't understand is that a woman, a woman, a woman is going to typically date equal to or more than her current income status. 1.00

02:45:33.240 And so, whenever women want to, like, make all this money and think that that's what attracts a man, it's not. 1.00

02:45:40.020 It's not.

02:45:40.820 No.

02:45:42.140 No.

02:45:42.660 I would say no.

02:45:43.640 What's your response because you were making a little face when I was talking?

02:45:48.020 Lay it on me.

02:45:48.940 You're fine.

02:45:51.140 What?

02:45:52.020 What did you just say?

02:45:52.840 I just said lay it on me.

02:45:53.740 Oh.

02:45:58.620 Cook it.

02:46:00.120 Like, you want me to talk over the laughs?

02:46:02.900 Oh, no.

02:46:03.380 Just someone laughed kind of funny, so I don't know.

02:46:05.660 Do you think it was me?

02:46:06.440 I don't know.

02:46:07.140 Was that you who was laughing?

02:46:08.400 No.

02:46:09.040 Oh, somebody was.

02:46:09.760 I've been very serious.

02:46:11.140 Very serious.

02:46:12.100 Serious.

02:46:14.400 And what really just got me was, like, the whole, like, timer on the relationship.

02:46:17.560 If the woman wants to be the breadwinner and you allow her to be, I think then that's up to her. 1.00

02:46:22.940 Like, that's her decision.

02:46:24.600 And that's fine.

02:46:25.400 She can have that.

02:46:26.120 She can have that.

02:46:26.740 I'm not taking that power away from her.

02:46:28.180 I refuse to take a power away from a woman. 1.00

02:46:30.060 However, I will not stay in that relationship.

02:46:32.460 That's not something I understand.

02:46:33.360 Is it a masculine?

02:46:33.760 Right.

02:46:34.220 Like, is it not masculine?

02:46:35.520 I was just about to say that.

02:46:36.760 It's a masculine. 0.89

02:46:37.720 I mean, that's just, that's the honor.

02:46:38.980 Then make money to support your woman.

02:46:41.000 No, no.

02:46:41.020 You can make your own money to support yourself.

02:46:44.160 I mean, that's essentially what society is right nowadays.

02:46:47.020 You know, you have to make money to support yourself.

02:46:48.520 But whenever you're in a situation where a man can and will take care of you, why have 0.96

02:46:53.160 a job?

02:46:54.120 You know what I'm saying?

02:46:55.200 To be independent and make money for yourself.

02:46:57.060 Right.

02:46:57.140 So independent of what?

02:46:58.160 In case something ends up going wrong.

02:46:59.200 Independent of what?

02:47:00.560 If something goes wrong, you get a divorce, you're screwed at the end of it.

02:47:04.480 You didn't work.

02:47:05.040 I understand your point.

02:47:06.060 Not even if-

02:47:06.820 Independent of what?

02:47:07.580 Not even if you get a divorce, just if a breakup happens, if something goes wrong,

02:47:11.840 like, why would you want to slowly depend on a man?

02:47:14.060 No, well, not even a man.

02:47:15.560 Why would you want to slowly depend on anyone?

02:47:17.460 So my question was, in order to be independent, you have to be independent of something.

02:47:23.100 So what would you be independent of?

02:47:26.800 The answer is a man.

02:47:28.120 And so if you're independent of a man and you don't need a man, then continue to do

02:47:31.140 your thing.

02:47:31.600 But I'm not going to stay with you.

02:47:33.180 And that's your decision.

02:47:34.280 Absolutely.

02:47:34.880 And of course, everyone has their own decisions.

02:47:36.700 Yeah.

02:47:36.840 Of course.

02:47:37.320 You have your decision to make all your money.

02:47:39.360 Not everyone is going into a relationship because a man has a lot of money.

02:47:43.240 It's because of love.

02:47:44.240 Well, statistics show that the majority of women are. 1.00

02:47:46.700 Is money all you have to offer?

02:47:47.600 Oh.

02:47:48.120 Oh my gosh.

02:47:49.460 Yes.

02:47:50.080 Go ahead.

02:47:51.300 So you don't bring anything else to the table other than your money?

02:47:54.640 I bring a lot more.

02:47:55.360 Money is not everything.

02:47:56.860 Like, we keep going back to, like, statistically, financially.

02:47:59.480 If you love a person, then that should be enough to stay with them.

02:48:02.620 Will you be homeless with that person?

02:48:04.240 Yeah.

02:48:04.620 Maybe.

02:48:05.340 Maybe.

02:48:05.560 If I love them enough, I think I would.

02:48:08.960 And I love hard. 0.96

02:48:09.740 When I like somebody, I get fucking obsessed with them. 0.95

02:48:12.960 Okay. 0.96

02:48:13.240 Yeah.

02:48:13.380 Earlier in the show, you guys all stated that you wouldn't stay in there for long periods.

02:48:16.580 Hold on.

02:48:17.080 Hold on.

02:48:17.240 We'll come back to that.

02:48:18.480 A man has to feel that he is needed. 0.97

02:48:20.840 If he feels that he can't provide anything to the woman he is with, there is no reason

02:48:24.880 for him to be there.

02:48:26.280 Dude's like being useful and needed.

02:48:28.140 If that isn't there, you move to some girl that doesn't need you. 0.98

02:48:31.160 Good night.

02:48:31.640 Yo, Bryce, thank you so much for the TTS man.

02:48:36.540 I really appreciate it.

02:48:39.260 It's just like a question of masculinity, like, just like that comment said.

02:48:42.960 Like, a man needs to feel needed and a man needs to feel like he can support his woman.

02:48:46.520 So, for me personally, I would actually have no issue dating a woman who makes more than 1.00

02:48:50.300 me or who's the breadwinner.

02:48:51.500 The reality is, though, is that most women aren't going to want to date a guy that makes

02:48:58.500 less than them.

02:49:00.100 And the primary reason that there's divorces is due to financial reasons. 1.00

02:49:06.260 Like, finances are a huge reason why people break up, why people get divorced.

02:49:11.880 So, money is absolutely a factor in all this.

02:49:14.720 It's a factor, but I don't think that it's everything.

02:49:16.700 It's a huge factor.

02:49:17.960 Yeah, a huge factor could be a...

02:49:19.700 Here's the thing, though.

02:49:20.740 Like, women typically are not prepared to hold a man down long term. 1.00

02:49:26.620 Like, we as men, we will be the sole breadwinner in the entire relationship, but a girl would 1.00

02:49:32.880 not be prepared for, like, on a long timeline to continue supporting a guy in the same way

02:49:38.940 that a guy would just be willing to continue supporting a woman.

02:49:42.380 Can I say something?

02:49:43.960 Yeah, go ahead.

02:49:45.120 So, I kind of say this out of experience, too.

02:49:48.800 So, being in a relationship with a guy who doesn't have a job, that was my last relationship

02:49:57.500 for a long time.

02:49:58.860 And I was in that relationship for six years.

02:50:00.880 He didn't have a job for almost the entirety of our relationship.

02:50:05.940 And that was a very unhealthy relationship.

02:50:08.600 I think, like, he wanted me to be a girl boss and get the promotion and be the provider.

02:50:17.560 And he would say maybe he'll be the stay-at-home dad.

02:50:20.780 And so, I kind of, like, was in a way seeing it like that, but that's not in our nature.

02:50:26.020 Like, for me, I want a family and I want to be able to be at home and take care of my kids

02:50:31.420 and be a stay-at-home mom.

02:50:33.380 That's what, and so, being in that relationship and being in a relationship like that,

02:50:38.420 like you said, it is very emasculating.

02:50:42.340 And it's just not in our nature for us to be in a relationship that way.

02:50:48.980 Like, you were even saying earlier, like, we have our roles for a man to provide 0.81

02:50:53.860 and for the woman to submit and they'll be the home teacher. 1.00

02:50:58.060 These are such outdated, like, roles, though.

02:51:00.480 But they work.

02:51:01.620 No.

02:51:02.340 Not everybody is like that.

02:51:02.680 That's what works in a healthy relationship, though.

02:51:05.220 That's what works.

02:51:06.440 If you want to have a healthy relationship, that's what works.

02:51:10.080 Because I don't think that works.

02:51:12.060 That's why divorce is at a whole-time high right now. 0.96

02:51:14.600 I'm a nanny, and I work for this one family, and the mom is the breadwinner.

02:51:18.860 She has her own, well, I don't want to say what she has, but she has, like, a well-established business.

02:51:25.780 Like, she is up there.

02:51:28.220 And her husband, like, I don't know if he works, to be honest, but anytime I'm there, he's, like, always home,

02:51:35.800 always cleaning, taking the kids to school.

02:51:38.520 And it works.

02:51:39.600 They have an amazing relationship.

02:51:41.720 They've got a lot of kids.

02:51:43.360 And he is, like, in love with this lady, and I've seen it, and I've experienced it.

02:51:48.900 So it's not, I don't know where, like...

02:51:50.700 But she may not feel the same.

02:51:52.280 She might not see him the same with him.

02:51:54.140 But she's with him.

02:51:54.760 She clearly, like, she talks to me.

02:51:56.520 Like, she's very clearly in love with him.

02:51:58.900 They are very clearly in love with each other.

02:52:01.700 I think at the end of the day, it all just boils down to who you choose to be with.

02:52:04.520 Yeah, it's not...

02:52:05.800 It's all about who you choose to love, and if you choose to support them, then that's fine.

02:52:09.580 Like, if you choose to slowly support your husband, or if you choose for your husband to slowly support you,

02:52:13.940 I think it just boils down to who you love and who you want to be with.

02:52:17.020 Like, if you want to be taken care of, that is completely fine.

02:52:20.400 But other people, they want to be proud of themselves, and they want to be like,

02:52:24.620 wow, like, I have this business.

02:52:26.580 I did this.

02:52:27.380 I accomplished this with, you know?

02:52:29.860 Like, some girls want that. 1.00

02:52:33.440 So...

02:52:33.800 That's a fun face you're making.

02:52:35.220 Oh.

02:52:35.720 Go ahead and add.

02:52:36.780 Well, yeah, I think just to bring it back to my original point, like, I think a girl will hold you down for a little bit, 0.99

02:52:41.060 but it won't be long-term.

02:52:42.920 Some women are okay with being breadwinner, but, like, the vast majority of women, 1.00

02:52:46.900 even if they're decent earners, and they have the ability to hold you down,

02:52:52.180 there's going to be, like, a time limit.

02:52:53.840 Find a job.

02:52:54.260 Find a job.

02:52:54.960 Get a job.

02:52:55.500 Get a job.

02:52:56.020 Get a job.

02:52:56.820 They're going to lose respect for you.

02:52:57.860 Ten out of ten.

02:52:59.040 Humble, super chatted $50.

02:53:01.800 Yo, thank you, man.

02:53:02.540 Denated about $300 now.

02:53:04.660 Dude, thank you.

02:53:05.300 Which shows how valuable I consider this show to be,

02:53:07.580 and what Brian does for the world, tilting the scales in the right direction.

02:53:11.880 Thank you.

02:53:12.260 Bangs, I can tell you're a good person at heart.

02:53:15.200 Please don't disregard prior Jen's wisdom.

02:53:18.260 Oh.

02:53:19.520 Oh, wholesome.

02:53:20.940 Wholesome TTS moment.

02:53:22.700 Wait, so.

02:53:24.600 Shout out, Humble 10.

02:53:25.500 Kaylin, do you want to come in on this?

02:53:26.780 I want to try to get you in a little bit more.

02:53:28.440 No, I just want to say.

02:53:28.940 Would you hold down a guy?

02:53:30.640 I wouldn't hold down a guy, but if a guy wants to provide whatever he wants for me,

02:53:34.480 then I will let him.

02:53:35.960 Like, if a guy wants to come into my life right now and be like,

02:53:38.660 oh, like, I want you to be a stay-at-home mom, or if I want you, 0.99

02:53:41.320 I want to make all the bread, I will let him do that.

02:53:43.260 But until then, I'm going to hold my ground, and I'm going to provide for myself.

02:53:47.260 Can you hide that, Eric?

02:53:49.920 Kaylin?

02:53:51.040 Yes.

02:53:51.320 Will you marry me?

02:53:53.400 Are you going to provide for me?

02:53:56.100 Like, three months down the road, probably.

02:53:58.180 Okay.

02:53:58.600 Oh, my God.

02:54:03.480 I'm engaged now.

02:54:05.400 Oh, my gosh.

02:54:07.320 Okay, moving on.

02:54:08.380 Just like that, boys.

02:54:09.340 All you got to do is bring a ring.

02:54:10.400 There you go. 1.00

02:54:11.340 Shit doesn't say yes or no. 1.00

02:54:12.480 Yeah, you might be able to convince me to put a ring on it. 0.99

02:54:17.180 Okay, so did anyone want to continue on that, on the money thing?

02:54:23.820 I think we kind of...

02:54:25.960 Okay, let's continue with these soup chats here.

02:54:28.140 Actually, let me get to the air.

02:54:29.440 Can you pull up the Streamlabs chats, because we need to get to those?

02:54:33.680 Jeez.

02:54:34.260 Okay, we had a...

02:54:36.600 Let me know when you can pull it up.

02:54:38.020 Can you zoom in on that?

02:54:40.860 Go all the way to the bottom.

02:54:42.460 So, not a simp donated 25 bangs is...

02:54:44.700 Oh, Jesus.

02:54:46.040 It's annoying, but she's honest in her beliefs.

02:54:48.340 Leather jacket.

02:54:49.100 Girl is just trying to say whatever. 1.00

02:54:50.360 Won't get her in trouble with chat.

02:54:52.320 Why would she have bought 25K fake...

02:54:54.560 Oh, did this one already come through?

02:54:56.060 Yeah.

02:54:56.440 I think he doubled down on it with another soup chat.

02:55:00.080 All right, and then we have Dex2, all the way to the top, Eric.

02:55:04.020 Yo, Flan Life.

02:55:04.740 By the way, thank you for all the gifted memberships, man.

02:55:06.760 Dex2 donated $22.

02:55:08.080 Hello, Brian and podcast participants.

02:55:10.140 Oh, I'll do this in French.

02:55:11.640 Bonjour, Brian.

02:55:12.520 Et les Pocats participants from... 0.99

02:55:15.140 Shit, I butchered that. 0.99

02:55:17.120 Je suis from Paris. 0.99

02:55:18.100 J'aime beaucoup le... 0.99

02:55:20.100 Shit, how do you say show? 1.00

02:55:21.500 J'aime beaucoup le... 1.00

02:55:24.420 Histoire.

02:55:26.260 Continuer...

02:55:27.060 Continuer...

02:55:28.060 Dans ce... 1.00

02:55:29.900 Shit, fuck. 1.00

02:55:31.600 I moved... 1.00

02:55:31.960 Brian.

02:55:32.540 I moved from France when I was five.

02:55:34.560 Dans cette direction...

02:55:36.700 Sur le subjet...

02:55:39.820 This is so bad.

02:55:42.180 Okay.

02:55:43.320 Question pour les filles.

02:55:46.020 Si tu...

02:55:47.060 Si tu...

02:55:49.060 Aller...

02:55:50.060 Pregnant...

02:55:51.780 Pregnant...

02:55:52.780 To a...

02:55:53.480 To a...

02:55:54.180 99% chance of...

02:55:56.620 Holy... 1.00

02:55:57.520 Wait, hide that shit. 1.00

02:55:58.960 Oh my... 1.00

02:55:59.520 God.

02:56:00.520 That's my boyfriend.

02:56:02.700 Yo, man, sir.

02:56:03.860 Shout out to Daisy on the left. 1.00

02:56:06.300 Yo.

02:56:06.620 What's more important, ladies?

02:56:08.400 Having a successful career or a successful family?

02:56:12.120 Boom.

02:56:12.620 Yo, man, sir.

02:56:13.740 Thank you.

02:56:14.160 That's my boyfriend.

02:56:14.660 Shout out to him.

02:56:15.840 Yo, W...

02:56:16.380 W boyfriend.

02:56:17.780 Yo, in the chat, I want Wmancer or Wancer or Welton.

02:56:24.420 I want Welton and Wancer in the chat.

02:56:27.340 Dude, thank you, man.

02:56:28.180 I really appreciate the support.

02:56:29.180 That's sweet.

02:56:30.020 Yeah.

02:56:30.320 By the way, my French...

02:56:31.580 I speak it at a five-year-old's level.

02:56:34.160 Absolutely butchered.

02:56:36.620 Yo, Dex, do though.

02:56:37.420 Thank you, man.

02:56:37.880 Okay.

02:56:38.040 Let's continue on with these super chats.

02:56:39.920 So, we have...

02:56:42.320 Okay.

02:56:43.760 We have Ravi.

02:56:45.460 Ooh.

02:56:46.520 Yo, Kaylin.

02:56:47.680 Let's have you read this one.

02:56:48.980 Okay.

02:56:49.820 This whole debate is pointless.

02:56:51.740 They've been exploiting men from early age. 1.00

02:56:54.080 Banks is just there to say shit. 1.00

02:56:56.480 I'm assuming that's what it means. 1.00

02:56:57.900 She won't be on OEV if she didn't know that reality.

02:57:00.820 Ask them to rank not a number but rank most to least looks on the panel.

02:57:07.420 No.

02:57:07.820 I think we're going to pass on that one, Ravi, but I appreciate the $20 soup chat.

02:57:11.240 I just...

02:57:11.620 I don't think the girls would want to do that. 1.00

02:57:13.160 Thank you, man.

02:57:14.180 Yo, Gecko Jesus.

02:57:15.220 Thank you, man.

02:57:16.060 I think this is...

02:57:17.220 Is this your...

02:57:17.900 Is this your bearded dragon?

02:57:20.680 No.

02:57:21.360 Is that a photo of him?

02:57:22.340 Oh, okay.

02:57:22.700 No.

02:57:23.340 Maybe someone perused...

02:57:24.900 Cleo's a girl. 0.83

02:57:25.820 Punani used to cost...

02:57:27.900 Wait.

02:57:28.400 Here.

02:57:29.140 I think we need... 0.63

02:57:30.140 We need bangs to read this one. 0.61

02:57:31.820 Go ahead. 0.61

02:57:33.200 Third girl... 1.00

02:57:34.400 Into the mic.

02:57:35.240 Oh, sorry.

02:57:36.560 Apology accepted.

02:57:37.280 Third girl, right? 0.81

02:57:38.700 Punani used to cost marriage. 0.85

02:57:41.960 Why would we buy the cow when women are giving up their milk for free modern women finessed 1.00

02:57:47.640 themselves?

02:57:50.700 Ooh.

02:57:51.980 Good times.

02:57:53.960 Good times.

02:57:56.860 Well, I mean, when you...

02:57:57.880 It's kind of like one of the reasons marriage was a thing is like, at least historically...

02:58:04.460 Oops.

02:58:04.740 Oh, no. 1.00

02:58:05.240 Fuck. 1.00

02:58:05.520 The wedding ring. 1.00

02:58:06.280 You dropped my ring.

02:58:07.560 I'm sorry, Kayla.

02:58:08.800 Wow.

02:58:09.500 Show us how little you care about this engagement.

02:58:10.980 All right.

02:58:12.100 Can somebody grab that?

02:58:13.280 Hello?

02:58:13.740 Grab your wedding ring.

02:58:14.040 You guys can just leave it on the floor?

02:58:15.500 It's under you guys.

02:58:16.560 I don't even know where it went.

02:58:17.740 I don't know where it went.

02:58:18.560 There you go.

02:58:18.980 It's under...

02:58:19.520 Show us how little you care about my friend here.

02:58:21.160 Here, I want to just...

02:58:22.480 Here, I'm going to have someone apologize on my behalf.

02:58:25.340 I'd like to take this chance to apologize to absolutely nobody.

02:58:30.200 Okay.

02:58:30.920 All right.

02:58:31.540 All right.

02:58:31.980 There you go.

02:58:33.280 Actually, you know what?

02:58:34.440 Kalen, can you just put that on your...

02:58:37.700 I want to back up to the show.

02:58:38.900 Okay.

02:58:39.340 Isn't it bad luck to put it on your ring finger when you're not?

02:58:41.520 Put it on your right hand.

02:58:41.980 Eh, just do it.

02:58:42.720 All right.

02:58:42.980 No, do it on your left.

02:58:44.000 Do it on your left.

02:58:44.880 Can I put it on my middle finger?

02:58:45.740 By the way, we're not...

02:58:46.580 No, no.

02:58:47.100 It has to be on the legit.

02:58:48.620 Yeah, there you go.

02:58:49.360 It's going to fall off.

02:58:49.820 By the way, Kalen, we're technically...

02:58:51.160 We're technically engaged now.

02:58:51.660 Okay.

02:58:51.920 Congratulations.

02:58:52.380 Oh, my gosh.

02:58:53.400 Congratulations, guys.

02:58:53.920 We're technically engaged.

02:58:55.560 All right.

02:58:56.040 Show it to the camera, actually.

02:58:57.880 Can you do the little...

02:58:58.540 That is a big rock.

02:58:59.980 Can you do the Beyonce, like, you know, the single ladies one? 0.91

02:59:03.420 I'm not single anymore, though.

02:59:04.780 Oh.

02:59:05.300 Wow.

02:59:05.820 Okay.

02:59:06.220 You got her, Brian.

02:59:07.160 All right.

02:59:07.980 You got her.

02:59:08.820 Okay.

02:59:09.260 There we go.

02:59:09.700 Thanks, can't read.

02:59:11.200 I really can't read.

02:59:12.460 I saw...

02:59:12.900 I'm sorry.

02:59:13.280 I just saw that.

02:59:14.060 Yo, Mr. K, thank you for the membership.

02:59:15.720 All right.

02:59:15.920 That one came through.

02:59:16.580 Yo, we have...

02:59:17.400 Wow, God.

02:59:17.840 Dude, thank you guys so much for the support tonight.

02:59:20.080 Like, it really means the world.

02:59:22.100 Your patronage...

02:59:23.340 I'm, like, blown away by all the support tonight.

02:59:25.480 Thank you so much, guys.

02:59:27.480 All right.

02:59:27.960 We have Jade in here. 1.00

02:59:29.100 Thank you, man.

02:59:30.040 $20 soup chat.

02:59:31.060 I think the chat is requesting Liz on this one.

02:59:35.080 What?

02:59:35.660 Oh, you want me to read it?

02:59:36.380 Yeah.

02:59:36.580 Why so much emphasis on high-value men or women?

02:59:41.080 What happened to, if you can't love me at my lowest, you don't deserve me at my highest?

02:59:46.280 Also, funny how Brian says, don't interrupt.

02:59:49.020 Meanwhile, he interrupts quite often.

02:59:51.820 Called you out.

02:59:54.400 Side eye.

02:59:56.820 I'm Jade, and I'm not sure what you're talking about there, but I would like to take this opportunity

03:00:01.860 to apologize.

03:00:03.320 I'd like to take this chance to apologize.

03:00:05.020 I'd like to take this chance to absolutely nobody.

03:00:07.920 Okay.

03:00:08.960 Thank you, Jaden.

03:00:10.500 Biva, $25 soup chat.

03:00:13.060 Marriage in the eyes of the government and church are two separate things.

03:00:16.500 Talking Catholicism.

03:00:18.160 One can be divorced legally, but not in the eyes of church.

03:00:21.680 Okay.

03:00:21.860 You can be legally separated, though.

03:00:23.660 All right.

03:00:25.480 Okay, we have, let's see, Frank Brubb here, 20 euro.

03:00:29.300 Thank you, man.

03:00:30.660 Why don't you let us know which European country you're in?

03:00:32.740 Um, go for it.

03:00:35.800 Hello, Brian and podcast participants.

03:00:38.180 On the subject of marriage, question for the girls.

03:00:41.100 If you get pregnant, you have a 99% chance of losing the baby.

03:00:45.140 Will you have babies?

03:00:47.140 Is that a correct percentage?

03:00:48.600 Well, I can't.

03:00:49.260 No, he's, he's a hypothetical.

03:00:51.160 Yeah, it's a hypothetical.

03:00:51.960 Uh, yeah, I would.

03:00:52.840 I would, too.

03:00:53.500 I would.

03:00:53.980 I would, too.

03:00:54.720 If you get pregnant, you have a 99%. 0.99

03:00:55.900 You'd still have, okay, I see it.

03:00:57.440 Um, wow.

03:01:01.460 Okay.

03:01:02.500 Thank you, Frank, for that 20, excuse me, 20 euro soup chat.

03:01:07.960 Sailing, okay.

03:01:08.660 Thank you for the Canadian $25 soup chat.

03:01:11.220 Merci beaucoup.

03:01:11.920 I don't know if you're from the French-speaking part of Canada, but common law in Canada can wreck your life in 12 months.

03:01:17.420 Oh, this is in response to the, uh, yeah, I think so, and we have that in the U.S. too.

03:01:22.160 There are some, by the way, men, I want you to Google this right now.

03:01:26.080 There are certain states in the U.S., it's called common law marriage.

03:01:29.860 Even if you don't go to court and get married or have a ceremony, if you've cohabitated with a person for a certain period of time,

03:01:38.460 the state will view you as having de facto been married, and you can be on the hook for alimony if you've been cohabitating with a boyfriend or girlfriend for a period of time.

03:01:50.480 They'll basically treat it as if you were married, so just be careful if you're in a common law marriage state or in Canada.

03:01:57.600 Um, 10 out of 10.

03:01:59.940 Thank you, man.

03:02:01.560 PonchX, 20 dollar soup chat.

03:02:02.880 Brian, love the show.

03:02:03.540 Brother, keep it up.

03:02:04.500 Bangs, I disagree with 90% of what you say, but I respect you for sticking.

03:02:08.460 To your beliefs, those high value men you speak of, they'll probably only want to smash you, not respect you.

03:02:13.920 Do you have a response to PonchX into the mic?

03:02:20.080 Into the mic, into the mic.

03:02:21.420 Sorry.

03:02:22.180 I just can't see.

03:02:24.180 It's like the mic is just right in the way, so.

03:02:26.400 Mine?

03:02:27.000 Yeah.

03:02:27.480 I'm sorry.

03:02:27.980 I know, it's okay.

03:02:29.320 Those high value men can speak of, though, probably only want to smash, not respect you.

03:02:37.520 Maybe.

03:02:38.820 Yo, Praxis, actually, Liz, excuse me, go for it.

03:02:43.280 What's up, Bangs? 1.00

03:02:44.080 Glad to see you back.

03:02:45.160 You seem like a sweet girl who sadly had a negative experience that poisoned your views towards men.

03:02:50.380 You'll find a HVM no problem if you ditch the wage gap nonsense.

03:02:56.620 When have I ever talked about the wage gap nonsense on here? 0.53

03:02:59.540 Anyways, you'll find a high value male, no problem. 0.99

03:03:04.380 I don't know.

03:03:05.440 Yo, Joey Tribbiani.

03:03:07.720 Thank you, man.

03:03:08.340 $20 soup chat.

03:03:09.560 I assume Friends is your favorite movie.

03:03:12.440 You can still get married and don't have to pay alimony.

03:03:14.220 Just don't sign the marriage certificate.

03:03:15.720 I think it's a character.

03:03:17.320 Okay.

03:03:17.740 It's a contract, man.

03:03:18.960 You're signing it away.

03:03:20.380 I was like, I know, right?

03:03:23.460 Yo, we got our boy Andrew here in the chat.

03:03:25.680 Thank you for the $20 Canadian soup chat, man.

03:03:27.760 Go for it.

03:03:28.360 Actually, I should read it because it's Canada and stuff.

03:03:31.260 El Mayo, boys.

03:03:32.440 Bangs will figure it out.

03:03:33.880 Is this like a Minnesota?

03:03:35.100 That doesn't sound as good as I mean.

03:03:37.060 Bangs.

03:03:37.760 It's like some.

03:03:38.860 Hold on.

03:03:39.160 Let me try.

03:03:39.700 Let me try.

03:03:40.040 Bangs will figure it out when men are turned off by her attitude. 1.00

03:03:54.060 I just don't abide by bullying.

03:03:57.160 I would never simp for bangs.

03:03:59.080 I only simp for Brian.

03:04:01.280 I know. 1.00

03:04:01.740 That was like Scottish as fuck. 1.00

03:04:03.000 You guys would be surprised. 1.00

03:04:03.840 A lot of guys like an outspoken girl. 0.67

03:04:07.580 They think it's hot.

03:04:09.140 They like it.

03:04:10.240 Erroneous.

03:04:11.560 Erroneous.

03:04:12.360 Well, Brian, maybe not you, but there is men out there.

03:04:15.820 I don't know.

03:04:17.100 This is just a strange, strange show.

03:04:20.840 That's all I have to say.

03:04:22.180 I don't know.

03:04:22.700 I'm promising if there's any girls watching, half the men don't think like this in the real world,

03:04:29.420 at least from what I've experienced.

03:04:31.320 Erroneous.

03:04:32.640 Erroneous.

03:04:33.040 Like, they don't.

03:04:35.740 I think it's because, so you said men don't like what?

03:04:40.360 Outspoken women? 1.00

03:04:41.360 Yeah.

03:04:41.740 I guess they don't like it when, like, women have a voice. 1.00

03:04:44.460 They gotta be you.

03:04:44.840 No, it's not that.

03:04:46.180 We don't want a doormat, but we want women who are peaceful and cooperative and submissive. 1.00

03:04:52.480 And, oh, disagree?

03:04:54.260 Wait.

03:04:54.380 And I'm all those things in a relationship.

03:04:56.320 I'm sorry that I'm not all those things right now, but you haven't seen me in a relationship.

03:04:59.220 Are you that way in a relationship?

03:05:01.460 Yes.

03:05:01.700 Ryan, when I'm... 1.00

03:05:02.220 I bet you have gnarly fucking arguments with your boyfriend. 1.00

03:05:05.460 You have the most fucking... 1.00

03:05:06.960 I bet you fucking throw shit. 1.00

03:05:09.000 I was about to say, there's glass breaking. 1.00

03:05:11.500 Yo, she's laughing.

03:05:12.540 Okay, I'm gonna be honest.

03:05:13.980 Here it comes.

03:05:15.380 One time, me and my ex-boyfriend got into a really bad fight while he and I were at urgent care.

03:05:21.060 Oh, man. 0.97

03:05:21.740 To the point where people, we were, like, fighting in the parking lot, and I was, like, fucking hitting him with my purse and shit, because he wouldn't give me back my keys. 0.98

03:05:31.380 And, like, we were, like, yelling at each other, like, really fucking hard. 0.98

03:05:35.040 And people stopped their cars to, like, tell us to calm down.

03:05:40.920 But I think that, I think he and I, honestly, like, it was a really good relationship for a while.

03:05:47.220 Minus the domestic violence.

03:05:49.000 Okay, that only happened one time.

03:05:50.400 But, um...

03:05:52.040 Just once. 0.98

03:05:54.040 One time, actually, one time I pulled over and I told him to get the fuck out of my car. 0.97

03:05:58.380 And I was gonna make him walk back to his house. 0.98

03:06:01.260 Because he was being disrespectful.

03:06:04.800 But, yeah, um, I think it, he just kind of almost brought out the worst in me a few times.

03:06:11.100 Have you ever slashed a dude's tires?

03:06:13.040 No, but I've wanted, I've wanted to.

03:06:15.380 Have you?

03:06:16.100 No.

03:06:16.640 Oh, just the way you laugh.

03:06:17.560 But I wanted to.

03:06:17.900 Oh, you've wanted to.

03:06:18.920 What about you, Kaylin?

03:06:19.680 Have you ever...

03:06:20.240 I have not.

03:06:20.820 My ex-boyfriend and I, though, were, like, I was, like, very in love with him, though.

03:06:25.940 Like, I would literally, like, go to his house. 0.99

03:06:27.920 Like, stab him with a butcher knife? 0.91

03:06:28.820 No, I would go to his house and I would, like, I would open up the window and I would go into his room while he was sleeping and I'd wake him up. 1.00

03:06:36.520 And, like, that was, like, the most romantic shit to him ever. 0.90

03:06:39.280 Like, he and I were both, like, equally the same. 0.99

03:06:42.140 Crazy? 0.51

03:06:42.900 Yes.

03:06:43.920 Okay.

03:06:44.240 How long ago was that relationship?

03:06:47.360 Like, a year.

03:06:48.520 Well, we were together for much longer, but officially we were together for a year.

03:06:53.620 Okay.

03:06:54.260 And I ended it with him.

03:06:57.780 That's all.

03:07:00.000 Go on.

03:07:00.580 Go on, Thomas.

03:07:01.000 Okay, so, a year ago, so this question might not hold any bearing, but you just said that you would do, be submissive in a relationship and you were in one and you did that.

03:07:12.420 Yeah, I was mad.

03:07:13.740 Okay.

03:07:14.280 What?

03:07:14.560 You want me to be submissive when I'm not mad?

03:07:17.060 Like, do you want me to just take it?

03:07:18.800 I mean, there's healthy ways to go about being angry and handling your emotions and then there's toxic ways.

03:07:23.240 Yeah, I get that.

03:07:23.540 So, you think that you should just bottle it all up?

03:07:25.540 Yeah.

03:07:25.780 Until it gets to be too much?

03:07:27.260 No, you should have a conversation and be like, yo, this is how I feel.

03:07:30.080 But if he's not being nice to her, then why should she be nice to him?

03:07:33.360 Because that's a healthy relationship where you can actually.

03:07:35.200 That's a healthy relationship?

03:07:36.140 That's a healthy relationship where you can have civil discourse and actually come together with your problems and talk about, like, yo, this is the problem.

03:07:42.100 Let's solve this problem.

03:07:43.440 It's not an attack on each other.

03:07:44.500 It's an attack on the problem.

03:07:45.620 Wait.

03:07:45.980 I don't know what got me to those lanes.

03:07:46.820 Was that a song lyric?

03:07:49.080 Was that an ice cube?

03:07:52.100 If it was, it wasn't my intention, was it?

03:07:55.040 That was your intention.

03:07:55.900 What's his song from Ice Cube?

03:07:57.460 Let the DJ revolve.

03:07:58.680 It sounded like me.

03:08:00.960 I don't know, man.

03:08:01.680 I have no idea.

03:08:02.660 I am derailing the conversation as usual.

03:08:04.240 So you think a civil relationship is when a woman just keeps her motions to herself and, like, lets the man keep attacking her?

03:08:09.680 No.

03:08:10.280 I don't think that she has to.

03:08:10.820 That's what you just said, though.

03:08:11.820 No, it's not.

03:08:12.120 No, that's not what he said.

03:08:13.180 I'm sorry.

03:08:13.820 Can I say something?

03:08:14.740 Go ahead.

03:08:15.020 One second.

03:08:15.940 You're done.

03:08:16.160 Go ahead.

03:08:16.480 Yeah.

03:08:16.680 Go ahead.

03:08:16.900 So a civil relationship is where, I'm going to say it again, where the problem is the issue, and we have an issue.

03:08:24.500 Like, if you had an issue, you would be like, yo, we need to have a conversation right now.

03:08:29.040 Yeah, and sometimes you just get.

03:08:30.300 You guys go outside, and I know emotions get tense, emotions get erratic, and you act on them.

03:08:37.360 But a healthy relationship understands, like, yo, this is my emotion that I'm having right now.

03:08:42.620 Let me calm down for a second.

03:08:45.000 Yo, babe, I have an issue with what's going on, of how you're acting right now, what's been said, what you said.

03:08:51.960 It bothered me.

03:08:53.220 We need to have a conversation right now.

03:08:55.280 Can we go talk?

03:08:56.800 Whatever you're doing, it has to stop, because it doesn't matter anything going on.

03:09:01.540 Because if you love that person, you'll say, everything else doesn't matter, but the issue that we're having right now actually matters.

03:09:06.780 So you attack the problem, not each other.

03:09:09.340 Where if you're throwing things at your man, that's a toxic trait.

03:09:12.700 You've got to work on that.

03:09:13.860 Yeah.

03:09:14.320 I agree, but.

03:09:15.900 Have you ever hit a guy with a frying pan?

03:09:19.180 No.

03:09:19.440 No, but.

03:09:20.420 My.

03:09:21.100 I'm just kidding.

03:09:21.740 My, my, what you don't understand is that my ex took me to some certain lengths where I couldn't.

03:09:26.600 Oh, hold on.

03:09:27.620 10 out of 10, humble, super chatted $50.

03:09:31.640 Look on the Christian woman's face while Bangs was telling her boyfriend fight story was priceless. 1.00

03:09:37.760 Christian girl has a gem of a smile.

03:09:40.480 Her husband must be a very happy man. 1.00

03:09:43.280 Bangs, damn emotional self-control is attractive. 0.99

03:09:47.360 Yo, thank you, man. 1.00

03:09:48.360 Appreciate the support, dude.

03:09:49.900 Thank you.

03:09:50.840 You actually had a point and I interrupted.

03:09:52.600 Oh, one thing really quick.

03:09:54.220 By the way, guys, get your last, get some super chats in if you want.

03:09:56.960 We're going to end to wrap up here pretty soon.

03:09:59.620 I do need to get through the rest of the super chats.

03:10:01.580 We have a couple final things to go over.

03:10:03.720 By the way, guys, if you, if you submit your super chats or not super chats, your donations through stream labs, YouTube does not take their cut.

03:10:12.400 YouTube takes 30%, so if you want more of your patronage to go towards whatever, that's one way you can do it.

03:10:17.560 The link for that is in the description.

03:10:18.940 They take PayPal, et cetera.

03:10:20.140 So thank you, man.

03:10:21.560 Or, yeah.

03:10:22.940 This one got a.

03:10:24.440 It got cut off?

03:10:25.540 Yeah.

03:10:27.080 Really?

03:10:27.440 Okay, here, we'll have Liz be our honorary TTS voice. 1.00

03:10:37.000 Gladly.

03:10:38.680 Thank you for, ask her.

03:10:39.720 Thank you for the Canadian 50 man.

03:10:41.000 Appreciate it.

03:10:41.620 Go for it.

03:10:42.040 Men need respect, for a man with self-respect, activities, and behavior like OnlyFans are a deal breaker.

03:10:49.340 Guys with no respect for you or themselves are all that's left.

03:10:53.020 I do believe in redemption, not condemnation, just facts.

03:10:56.960 Props the Christian, or, yeah, props the Christians, misspelled.

03:11:01.980 Shout out to Jesus.

03:11:03.760 Yo, Jesus.

03:11:04.640 Amen.

03:11:05.180 Now, he's a 10.

03:11:05.760 So what I was saying to, I'm sorry, I'm, it seemed like they didn't understand the question that you gave them,

03:11:17.040 so I wanted to reiterate what you were saying, but you ended up making it sound perfect, so you're good.

03:11:21.440 All right, let me just continue on with the soup chats here.

03:11:23.680 Yo, Lake Show, thank you for the $20 soup chat.

03:11:25.840 Go for it, Liz.

03:11:27.700 A lot of these modern women don't understand. 1.00

03:11:30.040 It's nature.

03:11:30.880 It's the nature of a man to provide security, safety, et cetera.

03:11:34.260 The Western culture enables competition rather than completion.

03:11:39.680 Western civilization fights nature. 1.00

03:11:44.400 That was some esoteric shit. 0.99

03:11:46.000 Thank you, dude. 0.98

03:11:46.520 Appreciate it.

03:11:47.180 I don't think I used that word right, but thank you, Lake Show.

03:11:49.780 Appreciate it.

03:11:50.400 Brian JR.

03:11:51.200 Brian Jr.

03:11:52.480 Oh.

03:11:53.400 Wait, what?

03:11:54.360 Yo.

03:11:55.140 You got a kid?

03:11:56.040 You got a kid already? 0.86

03:11:57.520 Brian.

03:11:57.860 Who's it with?

03:11:58.560 I'm a little jealous now, Brian. 1.00

03:12:00.200 Shit. 1.00

03:12:01.040 It's with you. 1.00

03:12:02.480 It's in the future.

03:12:03.220 He came back.

03:12:05.060 Oh, my gosh, Katie.

03:12:06.840 He came back.

03:12:08.080 Y'all got a happy family in the future.

03:12:10.080 Brian, I am your son from the year 2069.

03:12:12.700 I time-traveled back to 2023 to tell you that you better ask Brianna out on a date or else

03:12:18.560 I cease to exist.

03:12:20.440 Who's Brianna?

03:12:21.740 I guess you'll find out in the future.

03:12:23.540 Yeah. 1.00

03:12:23.860 Oh, shit. 1.00

03:12:25.360 That means you two aren't going to laugh. 1.00

03:12:26.840 Yeah.

03:12:27.620 We'll see.

03:12:28.420 All right.

03:12:28.840 Is that like one of those AI artificially generated-

03:12:32.560 I was going to say maybe he got us mixed up.

03:12:34.340 What if you accidentally get a girl pregnant? 0.89

03:12:36.220 Oh, because she's Brianna.

03:12:38.100 And that's Kaylin.

03:12:39.000 And I'm cute.

03:12:39.300 So maybe he got us mixed up and thinks that she's-

03:12:41.960 Oh.

03:12:42.100 Oh, well, I mean, I already proposed to her, so it's kind of-

03:12:44.820 Oh, that's so fine.

03:12:46.440 That's fine.

03:12:47.200 Okay.

03:12:47.600 I'm just talking to your future.

03:12:49.640 Yeah.

03:12:50.280 Wait, Brian.

03:12:51.900 I have a question. 0.97

03:12:52.880 Brian Jr. is cock blocking me here, by the way. 0.98

03:12:55.380 If you accidentally get a girl pregnant- 0.98

03:12:57.660 What's up?

03:12:58.440 Are you-

03:12:59.240 Bro, where's this going?

03:13:00.640 Are you dipping or are you staying?

03:13:02.920 Wait, if I-

03:13:03.260 Because you said you don't want kids, so I'm just like wondering, to be honest.

03:13:05.800 If I accidentally get you pregnant, I'm out. 1.00

03:13:08.480 Whoa.

03:13:09.080 Oh, gosh.

03:13:09.560 Okay.

03:13:10.120 Not me.

03:13:11.560 I'm kidding.

03:13:12.080 What makes you think I'd want to sleep with you?

03:13:14.460 I'm saying just any girl, if you got her pregnant, okay? 1.00

03:13:18.620 I would tolerate your OnlyFans, but what?

03:13:21.220 Huh?

03:13:21.820 As long as you got 50%.

03:13:23.080 As long as I got 50%. 1.00

03:13:24.300 Shit. 0.99

03:13:25.460 I'm sorry, Kaylin. 0.99

03:13:26.700 I'm sorry.

03:13:27.660 Gotta share.

03:13:28.040 Wait, so what's the question?

03:13:29.080 Would I-

03:13:29.320 Are you going to be a deadbeat dad if you get a girl pregnant? 1.00

03:13:32.420 That's all I'm going to-

03:13:33.540 That's what I'm asking.

03:13:35.440 Would I stick around?

03:13:36.580 What do you mean?

03:13:37.140 Yeah.

03:13:37.160 Because you said you don't want kids, so I'm just wondering, like, would you stick around?

03:13:41.020 Even-

03:13:41.100 Well, I mean-

03:13:41.760 What if you didn't-

03:13:42.700 You didn't even, like, you just hooked up with this girl, and now she's coming.

03:13:45.520 It's like a one-night stand?

03:13:46.840 Yeah.

03:13:47.500 And now this girl's coming, she's like, I'm pregnant.

03:13:48.220 I'd hope that we're more safe than that, but I mean-

03:13:52.980 Well, not all birth control is-

03:13:55.640 Whether a woman gets pregnant or not, especially if it's, like, a one-night stand or, like, 0.97

03:14:00.840 we've been dating for a very short period of time, I mean, the relationship is the factor.

03:14:07.080 So, if she's an awful person, I'm not going to-

03:14:12.860 Am I going to have to pay child support?

03:14:16.160 Yes.

03:14:17.520 Will I want, you know, am I going to be involved in the child's life?

03:14:22.620 Oh.

03:14:23.520 What?

03:14:24.080 You wish.

03:14:24.980 I know. 0.96

03:14:25.740 So, you're going to be a deadbeat.

03:14:27.320 That's-

03:14:27.800 No, a deadbeat would not pay child support.

03:14:29.580 I suppose I would pay child support.

03:14:32.200 So, you just wouldn't be in that kid's life?

03:14:34.740 Well, I mean, off of a one-night stand?

03:14:39.940 Well, that's your-

03:14:41.380 I feel like this is a loaded question.

03:14:42.980 That's your kid.

03:14:43.180 Like, you wouldn't even want to meet the kid, get to know him.

03:14:46.300 I don't know.

03:14:46.980 I've never been in that scenario before.

03:14:51.080 I mean, yeah, I mean, I haven't really given this question much thought, so I'd want to

03:14:56.820 maybe meditate on it for a little bit, but I would certainly pay child support.

03:15:08.280 If it was like a one-night stand and she's a horrible human being, for example, then I 0.99

03:15:13.120 don't know how involved I'd want to be just because I don't want that toxicity in my life.

03:15:22.620 No, but not even for the kid.

03:15:24.600 You wouldn't do it for the kid.

03:15:26.820 I wouldn't do it for the kid?

03:15:28.200 Like, I'm asking, would you-

03:15:29.360 Oh, this is actually a rather good question.

03:15:31.360 You may have stumped me here.

03:15:35.900 It's hard to say.

03:15:37.180 Because then you're just putting a kid without a father figure.

03:15:40.980 Oh, so kind of like what you're saying, basically like what abortion is.

03:15:47.520 What?

03:15:48.160 No.

03:15:48.520 No one's talking about abortion.

03:15:49.660 What are you talking about?

03:15:50.240 Oh, I thought this was like almost coming from the framing of an-

03:15:52.980 Because this is like often like, well, it can be framed from an abortion point of view,

03:15:57.120 but I don't know if you guys want to talk into that.

03:16:00.900 I mean, I think we may have some people who are pro-life at the panel.

03:16:03.960 But I have a question.

03:16:06.120 What's that?

03:16:06.640 I'd rather not.

03:16:07.140 This is a dating podcast, not an abortion where it's health, reproductive organs, you know?

03:16:14.140 I have a question.

03:16:15.900 So you asked him if he got a girl accidentally pregnant, if he would stay.

03:16:20.380 Well, if a man cheats on you, would you stay for the kid?

03:16:25.680 This is a question for everybody.

03:16:27.300 Like if your man cheated on you and you guys had a kid, yeah, and you guys had a kid, would you stay for the kid?

03:16:32.800 No.

03:16:33.520 It depends.

03:16:34.520 It depends on if it's cheating as a habit.

03:16:36.660 Oh, what?

03:16:37.200 Sorry.

03:16:37.400 One thing, Eric, by the way, sometimes-

03:16:39.020 Hold on.

03:16:39.400 Hold on.

03:16:40.000 Eric, one thing.

03:16:41.040 If I forget to, sometimes I forget to take down these soup chats.

03:16:45.640 Just after 20 or 30 seconds, you just feel free to hide it.

03:16:50.560 Sometimes I forget to hide them.

03:16:52.960 Go ahead.

03:16:54.280 So my question was, if you found out your man was cheating, whether he told you or you found out, would you stay for your kid?

03:17:01.460 If I found out, I wouldn't stay married to him.

03:17:05.120 If he told me, I would.

03:17:07.740 Okay.

03:17:08.740 Oh, my gosh. 0.84

03:17:10.600 Because I'm not going, like, he's done, if he's taking care of me, if he's providing for me, if I'm his number one girl, if there's no other person, yeah, okay, you had sex with somebody, if you came out to me and said, hey, I fucked somebody and I'm so sorry, yeah, it would hurt and I would have trust issues and we'd have to go above and beyond to make it work so that I do end up trusting you again. 0.79

03:17:29.720 But if I had to find out in another way and he was hiding it from me, then no.

03:17:34.960 Okay.

03:17:35.420 Okay.

03:17:35.740 So just to answer your question really quick, I would want to be involved in the kid's life contingent upon the fact that the relationship that I have with the girl, whether we're continue dating or not, so long as that is a positive relationship.

03:17:52.960 If she's, like, just super toxic, I'd probably have to opt out, honestly.

03:17:58.440 But so long as it's, like, there's no conflict in the relationship with the bio mom, then, but I don't, I'm going to be, well, I don't have, men don't really have any reproductive rights, so I don't have, I mean, I've made it far enough that it's never been an issue so far.

03:18:18.200 But I would try to avoid being in that situation to begin with, and thus far I've not had that be an issue.

03:18:27.720 So I would be in the kid's life.

03:18:29.660 I'd definitely pay child support.

03:18:31.380 You said deadbeat dad.

03:18:32.460 That has to do with men who don't even pay child support. 0.51

03:18:34.980 I would certainly pay child support at the minimum.

03:18:38.760 Would I be, perhaps, frustrated by it?

03:18:40.700 Sure.

03:18:40.940 But I would still, you know, obviously I wouldn't have an obligation to the children.

03:18:45.680 We can have a conversation about how child support needs, in much the same way that the marriage laws needs to be adjusted.

03:18:53.300 Because, for example, women, I think child support payments should be put in the same way, like, with EBT, like, food stamps or whatever.

03:19:03.960 CalFresh, I think it's called in California.

03:19:06.360 You can only buy food with the money that the government gives you.

03:19:10.320 You can't, like, go buy video games with the money that the government gives you for food, CalFresh, EBT, food stamps or whatever it's called.

03:19:20.180 Much the same way, if you pay a woman child support, it should be, like, a separate account she can only use towards the kid. 0.97

03:19:28.440 You can't go get your nails done with the money from the child support.

03:19:31.560 Like, show receipts type.

03:19:33.440 Yeah, you should be able to show, like, receipts that the money that you're getting.

03:19:36.260 Taxes type.

03:19:36.780 Yeah, like, because you shouldn't.

03:19:37.820 That's an addition to the overall problem.

03:19:39.420 Yeah.

03:19:39.680 Because, like, there's nothing kind of regulating how women spend the money they receive from child support.

03:19:47.540 It's literally just going into her bank account that I suppose she could spend towards child support.

03:19:54.340 But, you know, so here we go.

03:19:57.100 Thank you, man.

03:19:57.580 Ten out of ten, humble, super chatted $50.

03:20:00.860 Obviously, Brian has morals.

03:20:04.520 He would probably do the right thing and be as involved as possible while being as separated from the woman as possible if she were toxic.

03:20:12.580 However, probably wouldn't have hooked up with the toxic girl in the first place. 1.00

03:20:17.040 Yeah, I mean, safe sex, birth control, there's, you know, being careful.

03:20:24.140 Yeah, so, okay, let me continue on with these soup chats here because we do have quite a few and I want to try to get through them.

03:20:28.740 Yo, humble gains.

03:20:29.540 Thank you for the 20 to the last soup chat.

03:20:30.760 That being with a woman that makes more isn't a problem. 0.99

03:20:33.920 It's those same, it's that, it's those some of women that don't appreciate those inverted roles is where divorce and conflict comes. 1.00

03:20:42.080 That's where love and respect comes to play that lacks currently.

03:20:47.100 Also, the divorce rate is higher when the woman is the breadwinner. 0.98

03:20:53.540 It's also higher if she's college educated, interestingly enough. 0.54

03:20:57.800 Oh, this already came through. 1.00

03:20:58.680 Oh, look at that fucking Chad. 1.00

03:21:01.520 Yo, look at that. 1.00

03:21:03.140 Daisy, right?

03:21:04.060 Yeah.

03:21:04.860 Is it D?

03:21:05.540 How do you spell it?

03:21:06.240 It's just Daisy, but it's with an E, okay.

03:21:08.000 Yeah. 0.99

03:21:08.660 Yo, look at that fucking Chad. 1.00

03:21:09.880 Yo, he's got some flow. 1.00

03:21:10.980 Yeah, he's a really good looking man. 1.00

03:21:13.020 And he's got the little backwards cap going on, shit. 1.00

03:21:15.460 That question came in. 1.00

03:21:17.040 Dude, he's got some flow.

03:21:17.920 No, no, I'm just, I'm big upping Mansur.

03:21:20.420 He's admiring her man.

03:21:21.320 Mansur.

03:21:21.480 I'm admiring.

03:21:22.340 Exactly.

03:21:23.480 Yo, Manoworld.

03:21:24.520 Oh, I think I know who the...

03:21:26.520 Oh.

03:21:27.560 David Meads, super chatted $50.

03:21:30.720 Just like AF is short-sighted for a woman. 1.00

03:21:34.040 Not having kids is short-sighted for you, Brian.

03:21:37.160 Longest lasting joy for both men and women will come from building their families together and staying loyal to each other.

03:21:43.280 Yeah, I mean, like I, again, I'm kind of on the fence when it comes to kids.

03:21:48.280 It's not a definitive yet, but I feel like I've just, I've had a lot of difficulties in my life and I, some of those are health related.

03:21:59.460 And I'm not sure if I were, I don't know.

03:22:05.920 It's, I would want to be there as much as I possibly could for kids because obviously your kids are dependent on you.

03:22:17.620 And I've been in, I've had experiences in my life, not currently the case, but for example, I broke my back a couple years ago at L5S1.

03:22:25.520 I was confined to a bed for like nine months.

03:22:28.860 That was, that would have not been a good time to have children. 0.98

03:22:34.340 And obviously shit happens, people get in car crashes and stuff. 0.95

03:22:39.000 But I, I, that experience made me realize like kind of how vulnerable humans are. 0.94

03:22:45.960 And, you know, you're, like I said, your kids are dependent on you.

03:22:49.620 So to deal with the stress of like a chronic injury and then, I don't know.

03:22:53.980 So I'm kind of on the fence with it, but yeah.

03:22:57.300 But thank you for the super chairman.

03:22:59.300 All right, we have, oh wait, this one.

03:23:02.240 Okay.

03:23:02.780 Bangs, why so quiet today?

03:23:04.240 We got to get a little heated, I think, before the end.

03:23:06.540 No.

03:23:07.020 You said, what's, what can I get you upset about?

03:23:09.320 Let's see.

03:23:10.100 No, why would you want to get me upset?

03:23:11.420 Bangs.

03:23:11.940 Should we, should we save it for round three, you think?

03:23:14.080 Oh, round three.

03:23:15.200 Round three.

03:23:16.160 Yeah.

03:23:17.080 Okay.

03:23:17.700 Sure.

03:23:18.360 Okay.

03:23:18.680 Uh, yeah, we'll, we'll save it.

03:23:20.780 Or no, we could do it.

03:23:21.820 We'll do it.

03:23:23.280 Wait, show of hands.

03:23:24.900 So the big thing I think people were talking about is, do, do I bring it there?

03:23:29.300 What?

03:23:29.720 No.

03:23:30.380 No?

03:23:30.720 No?

03:23:31.260 No, not abortion. 1.00

03:23:32.540 No.

03:23:33.040 Not abortion.

03:23:33.880 What?

03:23:34.460 Uh, you said last show, the big spat that you had with John was about oppression.

03:23:42.040 And you said you got quite, uh.

03:23:45.320 Yeah, because I'm going to, I already know what you're going to ask me.

03:23:47.560 And I'm just going to tell you this now.

03:23:49.460 Google.

03:23:50.280 Oh, Google.

03:23:51.100 Google.

03:23:51.220 Oh, Google.

03:23:52.120 But it's not my job to school you on something that you should have learned in school.

03:23:55.580 Women have been oppressed and women still are oppressed because there are little child 0.97

03:23:59.840 slaves.

03:24:00.640 There are black women, um, disabled women that experience, um, oppression all the time. 1.00

03:24:07.060 And Native American women as well. 1.00

03:24:09.380 Huh.

03:24:09.640 And.

03:24:10.580 Native American women. 0.83

03:24:11.560 It's also Native American men as well.

03:24:13.580 Aren't they oppressed?

03:24:15.260 I'm talking about women right now. 1.00

03:24:16.920 Oh.

03:24:17.140 Okay.

03:24:17.540 Oh, you're talking about women? 0.98

03:24:18.400 Yeah, because the question was how, uh, was how women have been oppressed. 1.00

03:24:22.560 And I'm just going to say it's not my job to educate you and school you on that.

03:24:27.140 And if you don't know.

03:24:27.720 If I reject your presuppositions, then you do need to explain to me.

03:24:35.880 No, I'm telling you this.

03:24:37.480 I'm like, I'm telling you, like, it's not my job to school you.

03:24:41.540 Like, you should have learned this in school.

03:24:42.820 And honestly, it's a little scary that you don't know how women have been oppressed in

03:24:47.200 the past because, like, this country was, like, built for men and these, like, laws and 0.96

03:24:54.140 rules, like, all, they all, um, they're, it's all to, like, for men, you know?

03:25:00.980 Like, it was built for men. 0.95

03:25:02.860 And, like, this podcast enough is showing me that sexism is still really alive.

03:25:09.600 Can I ask you?

03:25:10.280 Oh, wow.

03:25:10.800 You think this podcast is sexist?

03:25:13.160 There, I was posted on so many Red Pill and Cell accounts.

03:25:16.300 Yes.

03:25:16.620 It's giving incel a lot.

03:25:19.520 Oh, man.

03:25:20.040 Okay.

03:25:20.340 All the buzzwords are coming out.

03:25:21.800 I don't even know where to start tackling this.

03:25:23.780 Okay.

03:25:24.080 So, um, women were oppressed in history, but so were men.

03:25:32.540 It's not, it's not.

03:25:33.820 Not as much as women were. 0.99

03:25:34.960 See, now this is interesting because if I say how were women were oppressed, you're like, 0.99

03:25:41.380 well, it's self-evident, Brian.

03:25:43.580 I shouldn't have to educate you.

03:25:44.980 Yet, you've just asked me the same question.

03:25:47.280 You've just asked how were men oppressed.

03:25:50.100 Shouldn't you know?

03:25:51.540 No, because that wasn't taught in school.

03:25:53.640 Ah.

03:25:54.320 So, isn't that interesting?

03:25:55.540 Male oppression was never taught in school, but women, females oppression was. 1.00

03:26:00.700 Isn't that interesting?

03:26:01.600 So, who's really oppressed then?

03:26:03.380 Oh, my God, Brian.

03:26:04.300 If, if men's grievances throughout history are overlooked, who's the real one that's oppressed?

03:26:13.160 Perhaps you don't even believe men are oppressed.

03:26:14.960 Don't, to be honest.

03:26:17.400 You don't?

03:26:17.980 Yeah.

03:26:18.920 Okay, hold on.

03:26:19.840 There's men, men.

03:26:21.060 Can you think of one?

03:26:21.840 Give me one.

03:26:22.960 So many men literally kill women all the time over domestic violence and domestic abuse to the point where.

03:26:31.520 That's irrelevant, but okay.

03:26:33.620 Okay.

03:26:34.700 That happens.

03:26:35.760 There's certainly violence.

03:26:37.020 Sure.

03:26:37.720 Yeah, there is a lot of violence against women. 1.00

03:26:39.180 But when you think of oppression, what, what is your definition of oppression?

03:26:44.340 Um, I don't know really how to explain it, to be honest.

03:26:48.500 I mean, you use the word, you ought to know how to define it, if you just use the word.

03:26:53.540 Yeah, I just don't know exactly how to, like, why do you want me to explain that?

03:26:57.180 That's what I'm getting at.

03:26:57.920 Well, I mean, you've used a word, you ought to be able to.

03:27:00.140 Yeah, you're just putting me on the spot.

03:27:01.320 You just want to embarrass me, and I'm going to tell you this now.

03:27:03.600 It's not going to happen, Brian, because guess what? 0.99

03:27:05.740 I'll, I'll fucking dip right now. 0.87

03:27:08.720 Because we're, because we're having a polite conversation? 0.98

03:27:11.260 No, because I already know what this is about.

03:27:13.520 We talked about this last podcast, so why do you want to bring it up again?

03:27:16.200 Well, we didn't really talk about it.

03:27:17.500 Okay, well, I'm not going to say anything else, because it's not my job to school you and educate you, Brian.

03:27:21.840 Well, I mean, that's a very convenient.

03:27:22.880 And I'm not going to say anything else, and I'm going to stay quiet now.

03:27:24.820 I mean, that's, that's a very convenient way to shut down an otherwise polite conversation.

03:27:30.700 I, I gave you an opportunity to speak, so I, I think you should.

03:27:38.880 You're just not going to talk?

03:27:40.680 Why, why is this such a sensitive subject for you?

03:27:43.460 Because.

03:27:44.680 Can't, but let me ask you a question.

03:27:46.060 Can we engage in this?

03:27:47.340 I don't want to, Brian.

03:27:48.200 Hold on, hold on.

03:27:49.180 I didn't even want to come here in the first place.

03:27:49.740 Stop interrupting.

03:27:52.860 You literally asked me to be here.

03:27:54.960 I said, no, thanks.

03:27:56.300 And you're like, come on.

03:27:57.200 Okay, well, and, but what, but why don't you want to have this conversation?

03:28:03.980 Like, we can have a, can you stop interrupting?

03:28:07.160 We can have a good faith conversation about this.

03:28:11.360 Like, I don't understand why we can't just have a.

03:28:13.340 I'll just have super chatted $49.99.

03:28:17.040 Nanny, you condemned domestic violence, but openly admitted to assaulting your ex-boyfriend with your purse. 0.77

03:28:23.580 Like, we can, it's totally okay to have a conversation about, I suppose, what, what is for you an uncomfortable subject.

03:28:33.700 But I don't see why you need to shut down the conversation.

03:28:36.340 Like, I've been perfectly polite to you.

03:28:38.500 Yeah, but I just don't want to answer it, Brian.

03:28:41.860 Can you respect that?

03:28:42.680 Sotero super chatted $50.

03:28:45.380 Crazy.

03:28:46.220 Anytime that I see females bring up women oppression on podcast, they never give examples, but instead they just say, look it up all that you should already know. 1.00

03:28:55.040 Because it's true.

03:28:56.140 So many, like, why do, why would I have to explain it to you, Brian?

03:29:00.600 Like, just be respectful.

03:29:02.400 I'm not going to say anything more about it because I feel uncomfortable talking about it.

03:29:06.300 Why, why?

03:29:07.020 But you weren't uncomfortable until I started pushing back on you.

03:29:10.320 Yeah, because it's coming from a place of hate.

03:29:13.760 Hold on.

03:29:14.840 It's not.

03:29:15.760 It's not coming from a place of hate.

03:29:17.240 Okay, my super chat budget is getting a bit strained now.

03:29:21.040 However, Bangs, please watch the documentary, The Red Pill by Cassie J.

03:29:26.880 It made a very good impression on my previously negative and feminist girlfriend. 1.00

03:29:31.940 Eco chamber.

03:29:33.100 Let me ask you something.

03:29:35.040 So, like, not, hold on.

03:29:37.140 Let me rephrase my thoughts.

03:29:38.540 A lot of people in both Red Pill, Blue Pill community could benefit from this conversation.

03:29:47.920 And this is, again, back to the previous conversation where this is the problem.

03:29:51.180 Let's have a civil discourse.

03:29:52.360 Let's talk about it.

03:29:53.420 And most people resort to shutting down.

03:29:56.680 People are trying to understand.

03:29:58.480 He's not trying to understand.

03:29:59.920 He's trying to get some views.

03:30:01.280 He literally said, let's make it, let's make it spicy or whatever.

03:30:05.440 Like, let's get you heated because he knows that's going to get him good revenue.

03:30:08.760 And this is.

03:30:09.280 He knows that.

03:30:10.320 Well, I didn't say that.

03:30:11.220 Here's the thing.

03:30:11.520 It's because you want to know why it gets so many views?

03:30:14.100 It's because this is the problem that we're facing.

03:30:16.160 Conversations like that.

03:30:16.720 So, if we're able to actually have this conversation, I would also like to understand your point of view.

03:30:21.920 I understand, like, it could come off as a bit, like, attacking.

03:30:24.660 But a lot of people out there, a majority of people, are trying to understand the situation, men and women.

03:30:31.640 So, if you're for women, help us out. 1.00

03:30:33.220 But no matter anything I say, it's still not going to change your guys' beliefs because you guys, like, live by this.

03:30:39.740 Like, Brian has this podcast about it.

03:30:42.480 Let me just address that, of course.

03:30:43.580 Okay, so, the purpose.

03:30:45.620 Let me just explain something.

03:30:46.680 The purpose of debate isn't necessarily to convince the person that you're debating with.

03:30:54.200 It's to convince the audience.

03:30:56.240 I don't want to convince the audience, bro.

03:30:58.080 This is a bunch of, like, incels.

03:31:00.360 I don't want to.

03:31:01.100 No, okay, first off, don't insult my audience.

03:31:02.780 They're not incels.

03:31:03.920 Okay, so.

03:31:05.060 Okay.

03:31:05.860 No, don't disrespect the platform, okay?

03:31:08.180 So, the purpose of a debate is not necessarily to convince the other person.

03:31:14.180 It's to convince the viewer, the listener.

03:31:17.820 But it's just interesting because you, I gave you a minute, two minutes to explain your position.

03:31:25.220 And then when I push back a little bit, you're like, no, we're done.

03:31:29.040 Yeah, because I don't, I just, I don't have the time.

03:31:30.940 Brian, it's so late.

03:31:31.960 I have, like, a long drive back home.

03:31:33.580 And honestly, I don't want, I don't want to, like, argue right now, to be honest.

03:31:36.940 Maybe if you brought it up, like, a little bit sooner, like, I'm kind of worn out, to be honest.

03:31:40.660 Well, maybe we'll have to do round three.

03:31:44.480 I will end it on this, though.

03:31:46.100 I think I will, I don't expect you to respond, and you don't have to respond, but I will at least address the points that you brought up.

03:31:53.820 So, you said that, you said that, basically, the patriarchy theory, that men built this country for other men.

03:32:03.460 Now, I agree with you on the first part.

03:32:05.880 Men did build this country.

03:32:08.240 However, men didn't build it for the benefit of other men.

03:32:12.340 They built it for their families, their wives, their sons, their daughters.

03:32:18.140 So, I agree with you that, yes, this country and all countries, in fact, have been built on the backs of men. 0.90

03:32:25.420 But it's not for the benefit of other men.

03:32:28.320 In fact, they've actually done studies on this.

03:32:30.540 Men have an out-group bias.

03:32:33.560 So, men have an out-group bias for women, whereas women have an in-group bias for other women.

03:32:40.400 In other words, the sisterhood.

03:32:42.180 There's a sisterhood amongst women. 1.00

03:32:43.880 There's not a brotherhood amongst men, at least to the same degree that there's a sisterhood amongst women.

03:32:51.400 Every single thing that you see around you, the buildings you live in, the streets you drive in,

03:32:56.960 the infrastructure that you rely on to survive, was all built, created, and is maintained by good, honest, hardworking men that simply want to provide for their family.

03:33:08.300 It's not men wanting to oppress women.

03:33:12.120 It's just men that want to work and provide for their family. 0.90

03:33:16.940 Then why couldn't women vote? 1.00

03:33:19.020 Because men were subject to military conscription.

03:33:22.640 Because women didn't want to vote, either, at some point. 1.00

03:33:25.500 Because if they voted, then that means they have to be drafted, too.

03:33:29.360 Isn't that correct?

03:33:30.500 Yes.

03:33:31.440 Yeah, the reason...

03:33:32.380 By the way, throughout the vast majority of human history, men didn't have the vote, either.

03:33:37.020 There was a small percentage of men who had power.

03:33:40.100 The rest of the men were also oppressed, alongside all of the women that were oppressed.

03:33:45.060 It was like, you know, previously you had tyrants and kings and dictators.

03:33:51.160 Men couldn't vote. 0.94

03:33:52.240 This is like a...

03:33:53.700 Voting came around in, like, broadly speaking, in the 1900s, the late 1800s, 1900s, and now obviously.

03:34:02.740 Well, in 1920 is when women got the right to vote. 0.93

03:34:07.580 So, this voting thing is very new.

03:34:10.680 Democracy is very new.

03:34:12.800 Most people never had the right to vote.

03:34:14.180 The way men had the right to vote was because of warfare. 0.74

03:34:17.560 Because men could be drafted and sent to fucking the Maginot line in France and go in the trenches and get trench foot and get chemical gassed. 0.61

03:34:26.800 And to this day, women were able to secure the vote without the corresponding responsibility. 0.98

03:34:33.780 Women have a right without a responsibility. 1.00

03:34:36.120 Men have a right with a responsibility.

03:34:38.580 That responsibility is you have to die for your country.

03:34:41.180 Dex, you donated $50.

03:34:42.740 Thank you, man.

03:34:43.140 It's crazy when we don't go in her direction or we put forward an argument.

03:34:47.360 She closes.

03:34:48.440 This is not a debate.

03:34:49.420 She uses words that she doesn't know the definition.

03:34:52.760 Female oppression. 1.00

03:34:53.560 Yo, Dex, dude.

03:34:55.860 Thank you for the $50 super chat.

03:34:57.440 So, just to wrap this whole thing up.

03:35:00.000 Yeah.

03:35:00.560 When it comes to voting, basically, men to this day are subject to military conscription.

03:35:05.560 I have this here.

03:35:06.300 You want to talk about systematic oppression.

03:35:08.940 I don't know if you've heard of the selective service system.

03:35:10.900 So, I don't know if you can read this.

03:35:14.080 Men, 18 to 25 years old.

03:35:17.240 Sorry, I need to eat. 0.98

03:35:18.600 My hands are fucking shaking. 0.97

03:35:21.040 So, this is a draft. 0.99

03:35:23.460 Ignore the bright colors.

03:35:26.120 If you open this up.

03:35:28.580 Here, take a look at that.

03:35:29.800 Here, take it.

03:35:31.160 Take it.

03:35:31.540 This is a draft registration form.

03:35:34.720 It says, 18 to 25 year old men.

03:35:37.360 Only men are subject to military conscription.

03:35:39.660 That's why men got the right to vote before women. 1.00

03:35:44.120 I think still to this day, women don't want to be drafted. 1.00

03:35:47.040 Well, they don't.

03:35:47.560 And they can't.

03:35:48.380 And they can't.

03:35:48.820 They can't.

03:35:49.300 And so, they're fine with that.

03:35:50.760 No one.

03:35:51.180 You don't see any women pushing back saying, I want to be drafted. 1.00

03:35:54.580 Exactly.

03:35:55.080 Nobody wants to be drafted.

03:35:56.100 Yeah, but if women were oppressed, they would be doing that. 1.00

03:35:59.760 No, because the reason why women aren't drafted or put on the front line is because women 1.00

03:36:07.260 aren't seen as intimidating to the enemy.

03:36:13.320 They're putting men because men are stronger, biologically stronger, biologically.

03:36:18.160 They don't want women there for a reason. 1.00

03:36:20.540 Sure.

03:36:20.820 Well, okay.

03:36:21.580 You're not totally wrong.

03:36:23.360 Yes, men, generally speaking, are more suited for warfare.

03:36:29.760 Men are, it's a biological reality.

03:36:33.740 Men are physically stronger than women. 0.98

03:36:36.060 Now, I mean, in today's modern warfare, does someone, does someone, well, physical strength

03:36:41.180 is still a factor, but, you know, I mean, the way we conduct warfare now is very different.

03:36:47.860 So, women can participate much more to some degree. 0.99

03:36:50.340 In combat roles, it's still, I mean, in any case, we don't need to get into the whole military

03:36:57.280 thing, but the difference is, if we're talking about equality, though, disregard, well, maybe

03:37:05.740 men make better soldiers.

03:37:06.820 There's, let's say an 18-year-old man who doesn't want to go to war, doesn't want to go get 0.84

03:37:12.500 sent, take Ukraine, for example.

03:37:14.740 All the women could leave the country. 1.00

03:37:16.480 All the men had to stay.

03:37:18.040 You could not leave the country.

03:37:19.960 You could not leave Ukraine if you were a man between the ages of 18 and like 60 or 65. 0.99

03:37:24.540 While all the women in Ukraine, actually, I matched with some girls on fucking Tinder, 1.00

03:37:30.540 like when the shit was heavy as fuck in Ukraine, when Kiev was getting scorched up, I was matching 1.00

03:37:36.980 with chicks on fucking Tinder and hinge and shit. 1.00

03:37:41.920 If you're a Ukrainian woman, you get to go to Stockholm, you get to go to Great Britain, 1.00

03:37:46.420 you get to continue your hot girl summer.

03:37:48.900 You know what the Ukrainian men were doing? 1.00

03:37:50.780 Getting fucking massacred. 0.99

03:37:54.540 So let's talk about privilege. 1.00

03:37:56.300 Let's talk about privilege.

03:37:58.060 And who are the people making them go to war?

03:38:01.220 Men.

03:38:02.080 It doesn't matter.

03:38:04.020 It doesn't matter.

03:38:07.200 And I mean, the Ukrainian military brass or the, you know, the president, they don't want

03:38:16.860 to be in war.

03:38:18.100 That was something that Russia instigated. 0.94

03:38:19.840 So, I mean, but they have to defend their country.

03:38:27.780 Okay.

03:38:28.440 We live very, very privileged lives.

03:38:31.200 Very privileged.

03:38:33.480 If World War III, I'll tell you this, if World War III is around the corner, there's no feminists 1.00

03:38:40.540 when Russia invades.

03:38:41.940 There's no feminists when China invades. 1.00

03:38:44.140 I'll tell you that much.

03:38:47.520 Okay.

03:38:48.660 Nobody wants to go to war, right?

03:38:49.700 But what I'm saying is, is that, what I'm saying is, is that all these things that you 0.96

03:38:57.480 often complain about, like when society, when shit hits the fan, we revert to our traditional 0.99

03:39:06.560 gender roles. 1.00

03:39:07.420 You can't have feminism when, when there's a military conflict. 1.00

03:39:14.700 I would say y'all fought for equality for the longest time and then society overcorrected.

03:39:19.620 And now women have a little bit more privilege than men do. 1.00

03:39:23.140 Because like you said, men are drafted first. 0.70

03:39:25.520 Now listen, I'm not, women were absolutely. 1.00

03:39:27.480 We're drafted to the thing.

03:39:28.140 Hold on.

03:39:28.740 Yeah.

03:39:29.200 Yeah.

03:39:29.920 Absolutely.

03:39:30.360 Don't ever worry.

03:39:31.060 Look in front of you.

03:39:32.020 No, I just, I'm just asking, like genuinely asking, because I thought like the military was

03:39:35.640 so big, they didn't have to do drafts anymore.

03:39:37.560 When it comes to a world war three, they're going to have to draft.

03:39:39.660 There would be a draft.

03:39:40.720 And also, also, even if the likelihood, there hasn't been a draft in a long time.

03:39:46.660 However, there are still men alive today that were drafted.

03:39:50.620 Many of those, many of those men got sent to Korea, got sent to Vietnam.

03:39:54.960 Those men came back with catastrophic post-traumatic stress disorder.

03:39:59.580 They saw horrific things. 1.00

03:40:01.860 I don't know why the fuck we were in Vietnam to begin with. 0.98

03:40:04.040 That's a whole nother conversation. 0.97

03:40:05.720 But there are other, if you don't, as a man, if you don't register for the selective service,

03:40:11.360 if you don't register for the draft, it's technically a felony.

03:40:14.440 You can get fined $250,000.

03:40:16.420 Also, if you don't register, you can't apply for federal student aid.

03:40:23.320 You can't get like student loans or whatever.

03:40:25.900 Also, you're barred from certain federal jobs if you don't register for the selective service

03:40:32.060 as a man.

03:40:32.900 Again, there is no equivalent requirement for women to have to register, for example. 0.92

03:40:39.640 So, and just to add to this thing, women were absolutely oppressed, but as were men.

03:40:47.280 I don't want to make it a competition.

03:40:49.620 I guess what I'm trying to say is, and I think it's a terrible kind of shifting of history.

03:40:56.360 For the longest period of time, life was so incredibly difficult for both, for everyone.

03:41:03.440 We live the most coddled, privileged, easy lives.

03:41:08.140 Modernity has created, like, the comforts of modernity cannot be understated.

03:41:16.560 Life was brutal even 100, 200 years ago.

03:41:21.580 It was difficult.

03:41:23.500 Think about the things we take for granted.

03:41:26.120 Electricity, plumbing, running water, hot water, showers 200 years ago.

03:41:33.520 Imagine, people get grumpy if they can't have a hot shower after a couple days. 0.99

03:41:37.400 And motherfuckers didn't have a hot shower their entire life. 1.00

03:41:41.620 So it's just, what I'm trying to arrive at is that life was incredibly difficult for both men and women. 0.99

03:41:47.920 Men and women fundamentally were partners.

03:41:51.860 Men and women cooperated throughout all human history.

03:41:54.680 And I think it's a disastrous retelling of history to say, men oppressed women, women were the oppressed.

03:42:02.360 It teaches women to basically have contempt for and hatred for men, when in reality, it was a very small, very, very small percentage of men.

03:42:11.360 And it's not necessarily because they were men that had all the power.

03:42:17.360 So women had it hard in their own unique ways. 1.00

03:42:21.180 Men have had it hard in their own unique ways.

03:42:23.880 But I don't like this retelling of history that men were always the oppressor and women were the oppressed.

03:42:30.000 Martin, thank you, man.

03:42:30.860 Nanny, you probably don't have to explain yourself to the kids you care for. 0.90

03:42:35.820 However, in the real world, you cannot make aimless, ludicrous statements and not substantiate them.

03:42:42.840 That hurts the validity of her claim.

03:42:45.460 The oppressed nanny of girl, God bless you. 1.00

03:42:49.960 Yo, Martin, thank you, man.

03:42:51.560 And I'm preempting.

03:42:52.440 And then I need to get through all these Super Chats. 0.96

03:42:54.140 And then we're going to wrap up here.

03:42:55.140 So get your last minute Super Chats in.

03:42:56.920 Before this DTS comes in, does anyone here, like, and it's going to come up here pretty soon, unless it was cock blocked by the previous one.

03:43:05.360 Does anyone here have, like, a question that they want to pose to the panel?

03:43:09.300 Something dating related? 0.99

03:43:10.280 Oh, shit. 0.98

03:43:14.100 Yo, thank you, man. 1.00

03:43:14.760 High voltage sign, Lord Blitz.

03:43:17.660 High voltage sign, Super Chatted, $99.99.

03:43:23.240 At Bangs, what are some privileges that men have that women don't have now? 0.90

03:43:29.340 I'm done talking about the whole privilege and oppression thing.

03:43:32.740 Do you want to just entertain the...

03:43:35.200 Thanks for spending $100 for nothing.

03:43:38.880 Yikes.

03:43:39.440 In good faith, can you at least just answer it?

03:43:42.440 Just come on.

03:43:43.280 Why?

03:43:43.820 I don't want to, Brian.

03:43:45.160 I told you I'm so tired.

03:43:47.000 Just...

03:43:47.660 All right.

03:43:48.560 Fine.

03:43:48.860 We'll move on.

03:43:51.040 Let's see.

03:43:51.820 Honestly, the only thing I can think of is...

03:43:54.580 And it depends on the city.

03:43:58.600 Women can't go topless. 1.00

03:44:02.680 I think that's the only thing I can think of.

03:44:04.900 I wouldn't want to go topless.

03:44:07.260 Okay.

03:44:07.960 There you go.

03:44:08.540 All right.

03:44:08.740 Let me try to run through these soup jazzes as quick as I can.

03:44:12.540 All right.

03:44:12.780 We have this one, this one.

03:44:15.480 Did I do this one?

03:44:18.800 Martin.

03:44:21.580 Can you read this one, Liz?

03:44:23.760 Yeah.

03:44:25.580 Brian, please explain to the 20-year-old child sitter that men put women into two categories.

03:44:31.980 I'm assuming that word is supposed to be sex only or relationship potential.

03:44:36.580 She's conflating the latter for what men are actually giving her attention for.

03:44:40.740 Utterly clueless.

03:44:42.260 Yeah.

03:44:42.520 Really quick, I'll just say it.

03:44:43.520 So, I mean, basically, don't get sexual attraction confused with relationship attractions.

03:44:49.100 And this applies to everyone, right?

03:44:50.140 So, men who will sleep with you, they may not necessarily be in a relationship with you.

03:44:57.640 Yeah, that's completely true.

03:44:59.300 Yeah.

03:44:59.500 So, but sometimes people will get that confused because I feel like for a lot of women, in order for you to sleep with a guy, in terms of physical attraction, he has to be at least attractive enough for you to consider being in a relationship with him.

03:45:13.400 Whereas for men, it's pretty much the opposite.

03:45:15.860 We will sleep with women who we would never have a relationship with. 1.00

03:45:21.520 Yeah, men will stick their pee-pee in anything. 1.00

03:45:25.100 Their pee-pee in anything. 0.75

03:45:26.640 Absolutely.

03:45:27.660 Anything.

03:45:28.080 Not me.

03:45:29.020 I saw a video of a guy.

03:45:29.820 Not me.

03:45:30.940 I have standards.

03:45:32.100 I saw a video of a guy doing something to a rat. 1.00

03:45:34.880 What the fuck? 1.00

03:45:36.400 Yo, what kind of weird shit are you looking at? 1.00

03:45:38.200 It was on Twitter. 1.00

03:45:39.320 Like, okay, it's Twitter.

03:45:40.420 Like, you can't. 1.00

03:45:41.820 Shit comes up on Twitter. 1.00

03:45:42.520 Into the mic? 1.00

03:45:43.180 It was on Twitter. 1.00

03:45:44.120 Like, shit comes up on Twitter. 1.00

03:45:45.260 You can be honest. 1.00

03:45:46.240 You have.

03:45:46.820 Were you on Rat Hub?

03:45:48.140 No.

03:45:49.380 Rat Hub.

03:45:50.020 Rat Hub.

03:45:50.520 It's the premier.

03:45:51.300 No, it was like a, it was like.

03:45:52.340 You got a sneaker kink? 0.84

03:45:53.640 No, it was like a, I think it like had. 1.00

03:45:55.980 He was fucking a rat? 1.00

03:45:57.080 Yeah. 1.00

03:45:58.140 It was a rat.

03:45:59.600 Ugh.

03:46:00.240 Like, men will stick their holes in anything. 0.84

03:46:01.840 It's kind of scary. 1.00

03:46:02.480 What the fuck? 0.99

03:46:03.620 I remember when I was like a little younger, like back in high school, guy sent me a video 1.00

03:46:08.440 of him fucking a couch. 0.99

03:46:10.380 Good times. 1.00

03:46:11.500 Hey, sometimes.

03:46:11.940 Sent you a video of that?

03:46:12.680 Good times.

03:46:13.940 Brian.

03:46:14.700 I didn't even ask.

03:46:15.180 Come on, guys.

03:46:16.020 Do better.

03:46:17.040 What is going on?

03:46:18.320 Good times?

03:46:19.640 Listen.

03:46:20.520 Oh.

03:46:20.920 Have you ever seen like a, just a thick loveseat?

03:46:23.200 Stop.

03:46:23.740 Stop.

03:46:24.200 Keep going with the super chats.

03:46:25.400 Keep going with the super chats.

03:46:26.560 Keep going with the super chats.

03:46:27.180 Hey, yo.

03:46:27.480 Yo, you see that Grace couch over there I have?

03:46:29.640 Get.

03:46:30.200 Stop.

03:46:30.960 Ew, Brian.

03:46:31.740 What?

03:46:32.340 Stop.

03:46:32.680 I know my couch.

03:46:34.180 Yo, hey, yo.

03:46:36.140 No, let's keep going with the super chats.

03:46:37.000 Don't shame my sexuality.

03:46:38.420 I'm a couch.

03:46:39.540 Oh.

03:46:40.400 I don't know.

03:46:40.640 Okay.

03:46:41.040 All right.

03:46:41.580 Let's keep going.

03:46:42.580 I'm kidding.

03:46:42.820 I think you are.

03:46:43.700 Yo, Canadian 25.

03:46:44.860 Thank you, man.

03:46:45.300 And can I have you read it?

03:46:48.560 Yeah.

03:46:49.900 Regarding common law marriage in Canada, you can also be held responsible for child support

03:46:54.800 for children that aren't yours if they see you as a father figure.

03:46:58.660 Something else to consider if you date and live with a single mother. 0.97

03:47:02.480 We'll hope.

03:47:03.220 Canada. 0.81

03:47:03.940 Failed society.

03:47:05.000 Failed society.

03:47:05.980 Yo, Andrew Flan life.

03:47:07.640 We're not moving there.

03:47:08.340 Dreyf, I think you guys got to come to the U.S. or let's all, I don't know.

03:47:13.860 We got to move.

03:47:14.580 We got to move, boys.

03:47:16.080 All right.

03:47:16.900 Thank you, man.

03:47:17.460 Lawrence Bullock.

03:47:19.680 Yo, thank you, man.

03:47:21.400 Do you want me to say that?

03:47:23.080 Huh?

03:47:23.420 You want me to read it?

03:47:24.160 Yeah.

03:47:24.480 Okay.

03:47:25.160 The fact that a woman on the panel openly had admitted to beating her ex and no other

03:47:30.280 woman called her out is proof we don't live in a patriarchy. 1.00

03:47:34.040 Haram!

03:47:35.400 All right.

03:47:35.960 I didn't beat him up.

03:47:37.020 I just smacked him with my purse, okay?

03:47:39.820 That's some Amber Heard. 0.99

03:47:40.260 You guys are acting like I fucking, like, keep this dude up. 0.98

03:47:45.020 Yo, that's. 0.99

03:47:45.560 Either way.

03:47:46.200 That's some Amber Heard.

03:47:46.540 Well, he had my keys and he wouldn't give them back. 0.99

03:47:48.480 That's some Amber Heard shit. 0.99

03:47:49.880 All right. 1.00

03:47:50.480 No.

03:47:51.340 Alvin Sam, $20 soup chat.

03:47:52.880 I wasn't, what did she, Amber Heard, what did she say?

03:47:55.180 She was like, Johnny, I wasn't, I wasn't punching you.

03:47:59.080 I was hitting you.

03:48:00.000 Yeah.

03:48:00.800 There's a difference.

03:48:01.880 Yeah.

03:48:02.220 I'm like.

03:48:02.640 Yeah.

03:48:03.000 Well, yeah.

03:48:03.640 Closed.

03:48:04.320 Open.

03:48:04.920 That makes a big difference.

03:48:06.100 Okay.

03:48:06.460 All right.

03:48:07.720 Okay.

03:48:08.000 Go for it.

03:48:08.740 Ladies, why should a man provide relationship security when unconditional love does not exist? 0.99

03:48:15.520 Unconditional love does exist.

03:48:17.740 Love is an action.

03:48:20.100 Unconditional love?

03:48:20.500 Yeah.

03:48:20.720 From a dog.

03:48:21.760 Okay.

03:48:22.100 Well, unconditional love.

03:48:23.160 Unconditional love.

03:48:23.340 Shout out puppies.

03:48:24.460 Yeah, that's correct.

03:48:25.280 I misspoke.

03:48:25.940 Unconditional love, it does not exist because love is a choice.

03:48:29.600 You have to choose to love.

03:48:31.200 Only dogs will love unconditionally.

03:48:32.980 But then there's also like a certain level.

03:48:34.840 And bearded dragons.

03:48:35.540 There's also like a certain level.

03:48:37.380 Like unconditional love, I mean, that person can do anything to you, but you will continue

03:48:41.300 to love them no matter what they do.

03:48:43.360 There's always conditions.

03:48:44.620 Yeah.

03:48:44.980 But if they're like, they're constantly cheating on you or beating you or whatever, then unconditional

03:48:52.320 love no longer exists.

03:48:53.680 Right.

03:48:53.860 So there's conditions.

03:48:54.760 Yeah.

03:48:55.020 There's always conditions.

03:48:56.260 You have to be loyal.

03:48:56.840 Yeah.

03:48:56.920 Yes.

03:48:57.660 So only God does unconditional love.

03:48:59.340 Eric, can you close the door by the way?

03:49:00.540 And that's correct.

03:49:01.240 Yo, Keegan Bichel.

03:49:04.280 I'm sorry if I'm butchering your name.

03:49:06.340 Bichel.

03:49:07.500 By Shell.

03:49:08.560 Bichel.

03:49:09.560 Yo, thank you for the Australian 3099.

03:49:13.020 Let me see if I can do an Australian accent.

03:49:15.020 Oh no.

03:49:15.920 Afternoon.

03:49:16.680 Is it going to be Scottish again? 0.99

03:49:18.140 Do it.

03:49:18.520 Afternoon, Brian, here in Australia. 0.99

03:49:22.200 Good to see there's still, fuck, there's still some hope in the dating scene. 0.99

03:49:27.820 Oh my God. 1.00

03:49:28.400 That's how, that's Irish or something. 1.00

03:49:30.040 That's like Irish. 1.00

03:49:31.240 That is not Australian at all. 1.00

03:49:32.320 Hello, matey.

03:49:33.180 Is that a thing?

03:49:33.860 For the good men out there.

03:49:34.880 Matey?

03:49:35.260 Out here.

03:49:36.580 Pirate.

03:49:37.380 Good afternoon, Brian.

03:49:38.500 It's like pirates.

03:49:39.420 That's embarrassing.

03:49:39.840 Good to see that there's still some hope in the dating scene for the good men out there.

03:49:43.040 Wow.

03:49:43.560 Yo, that's weird.

03:49:44.040 There we go. 1.00

03:49:45.140 Fuck. 1.00

03:49:45.540 I forgot about that. 1.00

03:49:47.000 Hell yeah.

03:49:47.340 H2O mermaids.

03:49:50.060 Yo, man of worlds, $20 soup chat. 1.00

03:49:52.540 Brian said, fuck them kids. 1.00

03:49:55.640 Yeah, he did. 1.00

03:49:57.040 I am Ryan.

03:49:57.540 Yeah, I'm kind of, what's up?

03:49:59.360 Wait, what?

03:50:00.700 Nothing.

03:50:01.480 Okay.

03:50:02.280 All right, David Meehan, thank you, thank you.

03:50:04.060 Alvin Sam, thank you.

03:50:05.860 10 out of 10.

03:50:06.560 Thank you, man.

03:50:07.060 Thank you, thank you, thank you.

03:50:08.920 Wait, did this, wait, did this one, did we, this one come through as a TTS?

03:50:14.520 I didn't.

03:50:15.220 Look it up for, yeah.

03:50:16.340 I think this came in as a TTS.

03:50:17.980 Yo, Sotero, good to see you, man.

03:50:19.640 Yo, Timbo Slice, thank you for the membership.

03:50:21.280 Appreciate it, man.

03:50:22.540 Yo, Flynn Life Canadian, $20 soup chat.

03:50:24.960 Merci beaucoup.

03:50:26.160 I have some sympathy for her.

03:50:27.980 That's probably why I was called a simp earlier.

03:50:29.600 She can still learn, boys.

03:50:30.620 Sometimes, one needs to face a sobering reality in order to grow as a human being.

03:50:37.560 Thank you, Andrew.

03:50:38.320 Appreciate it.

03:50:38.880 Gideon Newman, $20 soup chat.

03:50:40.240 Thank you, man.

03:50:41.240 Appreciate it.

03:50:42.420 All right, last few here.

03:50:43.780 Yo, Timbo Slice.

03:50:44.680 Thank you, man.

03:50:45.640 Go for it, Liz.

03:50:46.660 Liz, sorry. 0.98

03:50:47.380 I'm fucking out of it. 0.88

03:50:47.960 No, it's okay. 0.99

03:50:48.720 It's 11 o'clock.

03:50:49.620 I just have to say that I appreciate that you'll still respect everyone on here, Brian,

03:50:54.560 even when you don't agree.

03:50:56.320 You argue logically and show them respect, not comment.

03:51:00.760 Hey, thank you, man.

03:51:01.420 Yeah, a lot of people say my patience is pretty good.

03:51:07.420 But yeah, I mean, I try to just keep a level head when it comes to debating, and I just argue

03:51:14.120 the point.

03:51:14.680 I don't get emotional if someone disagrees with me.

03:51:17.340 It is what it is.

03:51:20.240 So thank you for the support, man.

03:51:21.840 Appreciate it.

03:51:22.940 Yo, Marn.

03:51:23.840 Thank you, man.

03:51:24.480 That came in already.

03:51:25.860 That came in.

03:51:27.020 All right.

03:51:27.560 I believe that is it for the super chats.

03:51:32.040 Okay.

03:51:34.940 Before we wrap up here, final thoughts, anybody?

03:51:37.860 Does anyone have a final thought before we wrap up?

03:51:43.400 No.

03:51:44.580 No.

03:51:44.960 Do you think the man is valuable in the relationship?

03:51:49.540 Of course.

03:51:49.960 Do you think the man is the prize in the relationship, or is it the woman?

03:51:55.760 Yeah, it's like the same.

03:51:57.340 I think the man would be the prize, and he could be like, well, she's the prize.

03:52:02.020 Can I ask you why you think that?

03:52:03.440 I want to dig a little deeper.

03:52:05.200 I'm not going to keep near to it.

03:52:06.800 Well, of course I wouldn't be with them unless I thought, like, all this, like, amazing stuff about them.

03:52:12.580 So in my eyes, yeah, they're the prize, I guess.

03:52:15.680 Okay.

03:52:15.940 I think if I was, like, in a relationship with somebody that I really liked, I'd be like, yeah, I hit the jackpot with them, because I just would love them so much, you know?

03:52:27.860 Okay.

03:52:28.320 That's a based answer.

03:52:29.300 Yeah.

03:52:29.340 I think they're both prizes in their own different ways.

03:52:35.020 If you had to pick one.

03:52:36.620 You can't.

03:52:37.220 You can't.

03:52:38.860 A relationship should be equal.

03:52:39.760 I don't think that this world would be the same without a man, if that's what you're saying. 0.98

03:52:44.600 Like, I think this world is better that men are in it. 1.00

03:52:47.260 I agree.

03:52:48.140 A relationship should be equal.

03:52:50.120 Well, in, like, in the way that, like, the woman should view the man as a trophy and the man should view the woman as a trophy.

03:52:56.500 Like, it should be equal in that sense.

03:52:58.000 That, like, you should both adore each other and love each other the exact same amount.

03:53:01.720 Right.

03:53:01.980 For it to work and, like, to be, like, a healthy relationship.

03:53:04.380 Sorry.

03:53:04.860 One person shouldn't be, like, the only valuable person in the relationship, you know?

03:53:10.640 It has to be equal.

03:53:11.760 Agreed.

03:53:12.160 Okay.

03:53:12.460 Didn't last show you said women are the prize? 1.00

03:53:15.340 No.

03:53:15.740 I don't even think you asked that last time, to be honest.

03:53:17.960 Well, what do you think?

03:53:19.320 I don't know.

03:53:19.560 Because you said all women are tens, but not all men are tens.

03:53:22.560 Well, I'm telling you this, Brian.

03:53:24.160 If I was in a relationship, to me, and I really like them.

03:53:29.620 Go ahead.

03:53:30.180 Go ahead.

03:53:30.420 I'm just saying, like, if I was in a relationship and I really like them.

03:53:32.420 Into the mic.

03:53:33.320 Sorry.

03:53:33.620 If I was in a relationship and I really like them, then, yeah, like, to me, like, that person's a prize.

03:53:37.860 That person's a trophy, and I love them, and I'm happy to be with them.

03:53:41.560 Okay.

03:53:42.220 Good answer.

03:53:42.920 Last question.

03:53:43.480 Or two last questions here.

03:53:44.880 How many, or how long do you wait until hooking up with a guy? 0.94

03:53:48.180 Okay.

03:53:49.560 We'll start.

03:53:52.340 Over here.

03:53:52.960 I think not immediately, but if you feel like you have a connection with him right off the bat,

03:54:02.240 and you think that it's something real, and, like, it's not just going to be, you know, like, a one-night thing.

03:54:11.400 I don't know.

03:54:13.680 I guess it just depends on how quickly your relationship moves.

03:54:17.660 Sometimes they can move pretty fast, so it just depends on the connection you have with the person, I think.

03:54:24.520 Yes.

03:54:25.220 Yeah.

03:54:25.900 I feel like you already know my answer.

03:54:27.780 Marriage.

03:54:28.380 Okay.

03:54:28.680 What about you?

03:54:29.380 Kaylin?

03:54:29.620 I think I do, like, the three-month rule.

03:54:32.660 Let's see if they're actually committed to you.

03:54:36.700 You look so shocked.

03:54:38.540 Sounds like a lot of work.

03:54:40.660 You got to wait.

03:54:41.140 Three months?

03:54:41.840 You got to wait, bro.

03:54:42.760 Kaylin.

03:54:43.140 Wait.

03:54:43.500 Question for Kaylin.

03:54:44.400 So, explain your rule, the three-month rule.

03:54:48.940 So, it's, like, a rule, like, if they really wanted to commit to you and not just use you for your body,

03:54:53.700 then they'll, like, be with you longer than three months or up to three months.

03:54:57.660 Have you ever had a one-night stand?

03:54:59.260 I have, yeah.

03:55:00.820 Oh.

03:55:01.280 Interesting.

03:55:01.840 Kaylin.

03:55:02.440 So, why does the person that you find actually valuable, that you actually want to commit to and share life with,

03:55:07.720 have to wait and be punished for that?

03:55:09.280 I just want to make sure they're worthy of it.

03:55:11.240 I don't think they're being punished.

03:55:12.620 I just want to think.

03:55:13.340 Waiting to have sex is a punishment? 0.51

03:55:15.620 So, all men are talking to women because we all want to procreate. 1.00

03:55:20.580 They're talking to you because they want to fuck. 1.00

03:55:22.100 That's. 1.00

03:55:22.600 And so, if you had a one-night stand and you're going to make the man that you actually want to have, like, a life with,

03:55:28.960 you're going to make him wait.

03:55:30.300 Why?

03:55:31.120 Because.

03:55:31.700 Someone else got the prize quicker.

03:55:35.780 I wouldn't say.

03:55:36.280 Help me understand.

03:55:37.300 I would just say that if I wanted, like, if I saw this man, I feel like I date for marriage.

03:55:43.500 So, so far I've only had one ex that I planned on marriage.

03:55:46.320 Stop the count.

03:55:47.400 But it didn't work.

03:55:49.220 I made him wait more than three months, actually.

03:55:52.060 I made him wait six months.

03:55:54.060 But I feel like if I was looking for something in that specific man that I would want, like, to last for marriage,

03:56:02.400 then I would make him, I guess, feel like I could trust him in that kind of way.

03:56:08.800 So, like, be able to commit to him and only him.

03:56:11.820 So, you've had a one-night stand.

03:56:13.920 Mm-hmm.

03:56:14.300 However, you're making a man wait.

03:56:16.720 I'm not making anyone wait right now, but yeah.

03:56:18.600 Right, but you said you have a three-month rule.

03:56:20.500 So, you find a guy and he knows this information.

03:56:25.380 Why would you make him wait?

03:56:27.360 Just, I mean, I said it to see you.

03:56:29.700 But then you don't make these one-night stands wait.

03:56:33.780 I think that's where it doesn't make sense.

03:56:35.780 Is she looking for a relationship with that one-night stand? 1.00

03:56:39.200 Or does she just want to hook up with him? 0.99

03:56:41.780 That's the difference.

03:56:42.640 Because there is a big difference with pursuing a relationship with somebody and just wanting to hook up with somebody.

03:56:50.080 But I don't like how we compartmentalize how we treat sex. 1.00

03:56:55.680 Like, okay, if you don't want anything from the guy and you just want casual sex, oh, just fuck him right away. 0.99

03:57:02.600 Whereas the guy who you actually value and he values you and he wants a relationship with you, make him wait. 0.99

03:57:09.640 Like, why can't you just either – I think you honestly should have the same standard across the board.

03:57:15.980 I think you're – look, you're free to move however you want.

03:57:19.440 But it should either be, like, if your standard is, hey, make a guy – make guys wait.

03:57:26.380 You shouldn't be giving it – like, giving it up to some guy who's not worthy of a relationship.

03:57:30.360 Wow, the TTS scuffed that one up.

03:57:55.680 Hey, thank you for the $50 soup chat.

03:57:57.240 Appreciate it.

03:57:57.800 So, we were talking about, you know, this whole hooking up thing.

03:58:03.340 So, you've had one-night stands.

03:58:05.620 Have you had, like, hookups, just casual hookups or friends with benefits or anything?

03:58:08.820 So, when I – like, I guess the one-night stand that I've had, I was looking for something more than just a one-night stand.

03:58:16.180 But in order to, like, I guess, feel like they wanted me, I felt, like, obligated to sleep with them, if that makes sense.

03:58:24.060 Okay.

03:58:24.460 So, in that case, I feel like in order to see if, like, they actually wanted something, like, long-term with me, I had to sleep with them just because – not had to.

03:58:35.740 That's a bad choice of words.

03:58:36.840 But, like, I felt obligated to just to see if they, like, actually wanted me for me.

03:58:40.820 So, you said one-night stand. 0.91

03:58:41.920 You – one-night stand, you met the guy the same night you had sex with him. 0.51

03:58:45.600 No, I met, like, hookups, sorry.

03:58:47.000 No, I met him, like, I met him before.

03:58:48.440 Okay.

03:58:48.680 But you only slept with him one time?

03:58:50.580 Yes.

03:58:51.580 Was that – he just ghosted you afterwards?

03:58:55.140 Yeah.

03:58:55.240 What happened?

03:58:55.760 Mm-hmm.

03:58:56.120 Okay.

03:58:56.820 I mean, did you have – did he mislead you?

03:59:01.300 I – yeah.

03:59:01.980 We had talked – like, we had been talking for a while before.

03:59:04.780 So, I guess, in a sense, it, like –

03:59:07.020 Okay, it wasn't a one-night stand, but go ahead.

03:59:08.940 Yeah.

03:59:09.180 So, we had been talking, like, a while, but I guess, like, we only, like, hooked up once, if that makes sense.

03:59:14.160 So, how long had you been talking to him before you guys hooked up?

03:59:16.060 It was, like, two months.

03:59:18.020 So –

03:59:18.340 Ah, so even talking to a guy for two months did not prevent him from –

03:59:22.720 See, I think, I mean, there are definitely guys out there that will mislead women into thinking that they want a relationship.

03:59:30.060 I think that's wrong.

03:59:31.340 I think that's wrong.

03:59:32.080 But I also think that the way most adult relationships start nowadays, it's not, hey, let's wait three months, let's go on ten dates, and then have sex.

03:59:43.780 It's, let's hook up, continue hooking up, and then we've now found ourselves in a relationship.

03:59:49.260 I think that's how it plays out most.

03:59:50.920 There's some guys, at least for me, some guys definitely judge – like, if a girl hooks up too soon, they'll judge a girl.

03:59:56.860 Me, personally, that's not the case.

03:59:58.940 Because all of my long-term relationships, I've had a five-year relationship, two-year relationship, one-year relationship, all those girls, like, it was either the second or third night.

04:00:08.620 I think one of them we hooked up, like, the first night even.

04:00:11.480 So, I don't think hooking up early on necessarily means that you can't – a long-term relationship can't flourish from that.

04:00:22.520 So, and, yeah, I don't know.

04:00:26.000 Did you want to come – did you want to respond?

04:00:27.620 I was done saying what I had to say, yeah.

04:00:30.700 So, a thing that a man thinks whenever – the reason why I asked if it was a one-night stand specific – real quick, did you have a one-night stand?

04:00:37.840 Finish the question off.

04:00:38.640 Never.

04:00:39.400 You have a one-night stand?

04:00:40.260 Yeah.

04:00:40.900 You have?

04:00:41.520 Mm-hmm. 0.71

04:00:41.780 Okay, so, for the next man that you have, and if – this goes for any female that had a one-night stand before, a man's going to think, like, oh, my God, so this girl's had sex with one guy the day she met him. 1.00

04:00:54.360 Why can't I do that?

04:00:55.500 So, it's going to emasculate him internally in his mind and be like, okay, this girl's not someone I can really take seriously because if she's having one-night stands with that guy, probably do it with somebody else.

04:01:06.400 And not only that, it could put a seed in his mind.

04:01:09.280 Like, she'll bounce whenever she's not entertained enough.

04:01:12.360 I actually think men nowadays are supposed to be, like, modern-life jesters for people because if a girl's not entertained, she gets bored, she leaves him, and that's not cool.

04:01:21.960 Yeah, also, like, if a girl – like, I've actually had this experience.

04:01:27.100 I actually had a recent dating experience where this girl – I hung out with her, like, three or four times, and, look, not – ultimately, your decision, like, it's not going to be, like, you know –

04:01:41.360 it's her call if she wants to hook up or not.

04:01:43.520 But, like, I had a conversation with her, and she was telling me, like – hold on.

04:01:47.960 I'm so – I'm sorry.

04:01:49.120 We're going to wrap here soon.

04:01:50.320 We're just wrapping on this point.

04:01:51.620 So, she told me that she hooked up, like, a month earlier.

04:01:59.820 Like, the first night she met the guy, she hooked up with him.

04:02:02.800 I've had this experience with so many girls. 1.00

04:02:05.440 Like, they make me wait, and then they tell me, hey, like, I had a hoe phase. 0.98

04:02:11.360 I've had one-night stands.

04:02:12.880 I've done X, Y, Z.

04:02:14.540 And I'm like, the way it makes me feel is you just aren't attracted to me in that way.

04:02:21.420 Like, you're just not into me.

04:02:22.980 If you're attracted to a guy, you never tell them about your past, to be honest.

04:02:27.140 Well, no, it's not about her telling me my past.

04:02:29.140 She's probably just trying to hurt you, Brian, if I'm going to be honest with you.

04:02:32.800 No, no, no.

04:02:33.260 That's not it because I was asking.

04:02:35.120 But, like, the thing is, is that my sense is, is if she had genuine burning desire for those men.

04:02:42.740 Hold on.

04:02:42.820 Dragon Stallion, 1,001.

04:02:44.960 Thank you, man.

04:02:45.280 She chatted $50.

04:02:46.840 Why would a man think you are the prize when hundreds of other men have already unwrapped you?

04:02:53.220 Look, Pete.

04:02:54.100 Okay.

04:02:54.440 Thank you, man.

04:02:54.940 Appreciate it.

04:02:55.440 Like, people can change how they move, like, previously if you had a hoe phase and party phase, whatever, and then now you want to wait. 0.88

04:03:02.920 That's your prerogative.

04:03:04.120 But I feel like a lot of men are going to feel a certain type of way about that.

04:03:07.460 And just don't tell them.

04:03:09.280 Well, I think you should be honest, for sure.

04:03:11.220 I feel like.

04:03:11.600 I think you should be honest with men.

04:03:12.920 To be honest, I don't think a guy has ever asked me this or has been respectful about my past.

04:03:19.820 Like, I know you guys, like, tend to ask about body count.

04:03:23.600 And I just wanted to say, no guy has ever asked me about body count until I went on this podcast.

04:03:29.060 What's your body count, by the way?

04:03:30.540 I'm not going to say it.

04:03:31.520 I'm not going to say it because I'm not sleeping with any of you guys.

04:03:34.520 So, I think that's a discussion for the person that I will be sleeping with.

04:03:38.160 Sure.

04:03:38.600 And, okay.

04:03:40.060 But I was just saying, like, I don't know.

04:03:42.840 Like, just the men that I've encountered have never been that way.

04:03:47.720 So, I just think it's really funny.

04:03:49.660 Well, okay.

04:03:50.180 Just to bring it back to the waiting thing.

04:03:51.380 Like, I'm just going to assume that she's just not that into me.

04:03:53.640 Or she's playing a game.

04:03:56.520 Here's the thing.

04:03:57.220 Like, if it's her standard across the board and, like, all the guys she's been with, she waited.

04:04:02.540 Then, 100%, like, I understand that.

04:04:04.840 But it's like, I've had girls tell me, yeah, I've previously hooked up with, like, 30 dudes.

04:04:11.480 And then now, like, you want to make me wait?

04:04:14.020 Look, that's your prerogative.

04:04:15.260 It's not, I'm not.

04:04:15.900 That's totally your right.

04:04:18.600 However, I also have the right to feel a certain type of way about that.

04:04:22.160 I feel like you're playing a game now.

04:04:24.100 Because, also, as a man, you want a girl who has genuine burning desire for you.

04:04:30.220 If she doesn't have that kind of desire for you, like, if she doesn't want you as much as you want her, here's what I start thinking.

04:04:37.240 I'm like, okay, she's going to leverage sex in the relationship for compliance. 0.98

04:04:43.580 She's using it to get me to commit. 0.88

04:04:46.140 How else is she going to leverage sex to do chores? 1.00

04:04:49.520 If I, you know, we have some, like, debate, or if we have some argument.

04:04:54.400 You never, you don't want to be with a girl who leverages sex against you to get compliance. 1.00

04:04:59.820 You want a girl who wants to fuck you. 1.00

04:05:02.260 You want a girl to have burn. 1.00

04:05:04.060 If I have to, I don't want to convince a girl to sleep with me. 1.00

04:05:07.820 I want a girl who's, like, wants me as bad as I want her. 0.99

04:05:12.800 And if you don't have that, it's just, like, why, I don't know, why play these games?

04:05:16.380 But, anyways, go ahead.

04:05:17.240 You were going to say something?

04:05:18.380 Like, in some sense, like, waiting with a guy instead of just, like, hooking up with them right away could be, like, like, you, like, want to wait and see if he's committed. 0.53

04:05:26.160 With other guys, like, all you want to do is have sex with them.

04:05:28.720 Just, like, how some guys just jump into bed with, like, girls randomly. 0.94

04:05:32.300 Like, oh, yeah, I pick her. 1.00

04:05:33.220 I'm going to have sex with her. 1.00

04:05:34.160 Yeah, well, I mean, I think you have to look at the guy and try, and, look, some guys are sociopathic. 1.00

04:05:43.260 I don't know the right term.

04:05:44.560 But some guys will manipulate you.

04:05:46.360 They will lie.

04:05:47.380 And that's unfortunate.

04:05:48.260 Men will do anything to get laid. 1.00

04:05:50.020 Men will lie to get posted. 0.97

04:05:51.140 Oh, yeah.

04:05:51.500 Anything.

04:05:52.460 Absolutely.

04:05:53.260 And I agree most men.

04:05:54.240 That's why.

04:05:55.160 I'm just going to say this.

04:05:56.120 Here we go.

04:05:56.520 Let's go.

04:05:57.140 No, I'm going to say something, and you guys are probably.

04:05:58.960 Close, into the mic. 0.99

04:05:59.700 Okay, that's why you have to stop sleeping with loser men, because they will change. 1.00

04:06:05.700 They will do anything for pussy, and they will fucking change. 1.00

04:06:09.140 They will. 1.00

04:06:09.780 Okay, you got to look at how a guy moves.

04:06:12.080 You got to vet a guy properly.

04:06:13.660 Look, are there some manipulative men out there that are going to lie about that?

04:06:17.220 Yeah.

04:06:17.580 And also, like, a lot of guys, a lot of guys, and comedians have been talking about this.

04:06:22.740 Eddie Murphy had a special in the 80s.

04:06:24.780 Men will wait, and then they'll sleep with you, and then they're gone, and then they're 0.98

04:06:30.000 gone, and I think that's wrong.

04:06:30.980 Because they won the prize, and now they're done, and they want to go.

04:06:33.460 They'll stay in the DMs for 10 years.

04:06:36.200 Men will wait. 0.96

04:06:37.040 I know somebody personally that does that stuff, and it's, dude, like, come on, man.

04:06:40.360 But me personally, as someone who strongly prefers continuity, like, if I sleep with

04:06:46.300 a girl, I want to continue sleeping with her. 1.00

04:06:48.720 That's good.

04:06:49.400 Yeah, because, like.

04:06:50.000 You should want to.

04:06:50.780 You should want to.

04:06:51.580 To me, there's no point of having a one-night stand.

04:06:54.460 Like, it's a waste of time.

04:06:56.180 Okay.

04:06:56.780 For, there's a variety of reasons.

04:06:58.320 One, just because I don't, to me, it's a very shallow exchange.

04:07:01.440 I certainly value more, like, of a, honestly, the way a woman can impress me, it's not in 1.00

04:07:06.660 the bedroom.

04:07:07.220 Sure, that's great, and it's something I want.

04:07:09.160 But, like, the way you're going to impress me is outside the relationship. 0.92

04:07:12.340 But, okay, shit, sorry, I lost my train of thought. 0.99

04:07:16.640 So, I am not interested in casual sex, one-night stands. 0.99

04:07:21.300 Like, I've always, always wanted to, if I sleep with a girl, I want to keep seeing 1.00

04:07:26.440 her.

04:07:27.700 Sometimes.

04:07:28.120 You want a wifey without the wife. 1.00

04:07:30.700 Well, I mean, relationships have to develop, but, like, my philosophy is always, also, it's

04:07:35.460 just, there's a myriad of factors.

04:07:36.760 Even if sex was your primary motivation, first off, the first time you have sex with a girl 0.80

04:07:41.060 is not going to be the best time you have sex with her. 1.00

04:07:44.080 Also, once you have a connection, and if she loves you and you love her, the sex is going

04:07:48.860 to be way better.

04:07:50.320 It's going to be way better if you have that connection.

04:07:52.380 And specifically on a physical point, from a physical point, she knows exactly what you

04:07:56.860 like.

04:07:57.440 You know what she likes.

04:07:58.900 You have that comfort.

04:08:00.260 You have that connection.

04:08:01.160 And I think the sex just only gets better the more, the longer you've been with a girl. 0.63

04:08:06.580 So.

04:08:07.020 You start doing extra work in the bedroom whenever you know that you, like, have a passion.

04:08:11.420 Like, it's passionate.

04:08:12.200 It becomes passionate sex at that point.

04:08:13.800 I would say.

04:08:15.080 Yeah.

04:08:15.540 And from a purely practical point of view, too.

04:08:18.220 Like.

04:08:18.360 Making love.

04:08:19.240 Making love.

04:08:20.780 Yeah.

04:08:21.160 So, I mean.

04:08:21.680 At that point.

04:08:22.400 Yes.

04:08:23.260 Yeah.

04:08:23.460 Do you guys get post-net clarity?

04:08:24.980 I'm just going to.

04:08:25.660 I'm sorry.

04:08:26.040 I'm just wondering.

04:08:27.080 If a girl. 0.85

04:08:27.680 No.

04:08:28.160 You know what I'm talking about.

04:08:28.900 If a girl doesn't have any feelings for me, and she's sleeping with me, like, that pales 0.65

04:08:35.960 in comparison to a girl that genuinely loves you, and she's sleeping with you. 1.00

04:08:42.680 Yeah.

04:08:43.220 I agree. 0.98

04:08:43.620 Honestly, having sex. 0.99

04:08:45.340 Go ahead. 0.98

04:08:45.880 I was just going to say, having sex with somebody that you're genuinely attracted to and genuinely

04:08:49.680 love is uncomparable.

04:08:51.740 And I think that's the best.

04:08:53.800 Like, I think it's, like, sex is a beautiful thing.

04:08:56.100 And to do it with somebody that you really, really love is, I think, like, I don't know.

04:09:01.180 Like, when I was in a relationship and when I was in love, I thought that was, like, amazing,

04:09:05.040 you know?

04:09:05.480 And then I got out of the relationship.

04:09:07.480 I did have a hoe phase, whatever you want to call it. 0.98

04:09:10.820 And I didn't really like it, to be honest.

04:09:13.820 I would get posts on that clarity, literally.

04:09:16.120 Or, I don't know.

04:09:17.740 I didn't like it.

04:09:18.500 I kind of didn't see any.

04:09:20.200 I wasn't.

04:09:20.500 Like, I don't think I was really gaining anything from, you know, just hooking up with guys.

04:09:25.920 A lot of them were not great people either.

04:09:29.920 A few of them actually cheated on their girls with me.

04:09:33.680 And I had to find out a really bad way.

04:09:37.160 I mean, the advice I would give women to vet men is, one, you can just straight up ask them.

04:09:44.700 Some men are definitely going to lie. 0.99

04:09:46.260 The other thing I would suggest is just look at, are they a fuckboy? 1.00

04:09:51.880 Like, do they look like a fuckboy? 0.99

04:09:53.040 And then the other thing is, is, one, obviously you can avoid this situation by, for me, for example. 0.97

04:10:02.500 If I find, if I match with a girl on Hinge, for example, on a dating app, and I know she's a tourist.

04:10:09.000 Like, she's just in town for the night. 1.00

04:10:11.880 I've had girls that are down to fuck. 1.00

04:10:13.940 And I'll be like, I'm not interested. 1.00

04:10:16.140 It's not worth my time to fuck you one time and never talk to you again. 1.00

04:10:19.820 Yeah. 1.00

04:10:20.340 It's just, I have better things to do.

04:10:22.480 Yeah, and I agree.

04:10:23.220 To be honest.

04:10:23.680 That's why I don't.

04:10:24.740 But that's, I guess what I'm trying to say is, is like, obviously, if the guy's a tourist, if he's in town, you can look at, like, how he moves.

04:10:31.420 Does he party a lot?

04:10:32.280 Does he drink a lot?

04:10:33.040 Does he go to bars?

04:10:33.760 Does he go to clubs?

04:10:34.760 That guy's probably less likely to be looking for commitment than a different kind of guy.

04:10:39.760 So there's definitely a lot of ways you can sort of suss it out.

04:10:43.780 Are there still going to be manipulative men?

04:10:47.500 A hundred percent.

04:10:48.700 So, yeah.

04:10:50.620 One last thing to kind of try to explain why, this is an analogy here, why men, like, have an issue with this whole, oh, hold on.

04:10:57.840 Walt Mosher Super Chatting.

04:10:59.040 Thank you, man.

04:10:59.440 Thank you, Walt.

04:11:00.740 If a guy is just looking for a hookup, he doesn't care about your body count, so why bother asking?

04:11:07.060 I actually, I actually disagree.

04:11:09.560 I think even for a hookup or one night stand, like, would our preference even for a hookup be for a low body count?

04:11:17.600 Probably.

04:11:18.580 Before I even get with a girl, I ask her so many questions because I'm seeing which, like, I hate to say it, but where you sit with me.

04:11:28.860 So, like, if you, whenever I ask you questions, I ask you, like, what job you do, what's your body count, how many partners have you had, have you had a one-night stand?

04:11:35.840 I go in-depth.

04:11:36.760 I grill people.

04:11:37.700 And normally, after the first 5, 10, 15 minutes of talking with this girl, I know if I'm either putting her in a recreational use-only category or if I'm looking for a real relationship with her.

04:11:48.020 And that's how I do it because at the end of the day, like, if you're going to be my girl, you're going to represent me outside of the bedroom, outside of the house, et cetera.

04:11:58.140 So, if you make me look bad, I ain't keeping you around, like, be real with you.

04:12:02.540 But I'll definitely smash. 0.90

04:12:05.420 Okay.

04:12:05.860 That's honest.

04:12:07.420 Most men can't be honest.

04:12:08.780 All right.

04:12:09.040 It's getting pretty late here, so we're going to wrap.

04:12:10.840 Last thing, I'll just end it on this analogy.

04:12:12.820 So, kind of why, like, a guy might have an issue with, like, if a girl, if she's hooked up with a bunch of guys in the past, had a phase, party phase, ho phase, whatever you want to call it, and then wants to make the guy wait.

04:12:24.940 So, here's this analogy here.

04:12:26.140 And I might give, too, just to kind of give a different perspective.

04:12:28.920 So, and I've written this down here just so I don't scuff it up how I normally do.

04:12:32.520 So, making a man wait while you smashed Chad after a few beers on a slow Tuesday, and that could have happened numerous amounts of times, is like me going to McDonald's, and while everyone else eating there paid $1 for that cheeseburger, the clerk looks at me and says, it's $1,000 for you, sir.

04:12:51.260 Does that, is that helpful?

04:12:55.900 Yeah.

04:12:56.540 Sure.

04:12:57.420 Okay.

04:12:59.960 Here's the last example I can give.

04:13:03.180 Last example, and then we're going to wrap.

04:13:04.460 Ryan, it's 11.30.

04:13:05.000 I know, I know.

04:13:05.760 We're going to wrap.

04:13:06.380 Last example.

04:13:07.480 Okay.

04:13:07.840 So, what's your thoughts on the scenario?

04:13:09.920 Let's say you've been in a situation with a guy for six months.

04:13:12.540 You really like him.

04:13:13.880 You want him to commit to you.

04:13:15.300 You've hooked up with him already, right?

04:13:16.540 You guys are hooking up.

04:13:17.480 But, he says he likes to take things slow.

04:13:20.780 Somehow, you find out that the last three girls he had a committed relationship with, he initiated the commitment conversation after only three weeks of dating.

04:13:32.560 How does that make you feel?

04:13:35.000 I mean, it takes me back to what you were saying, how it makes you not feel good that somebody would wait to have sex with you.

04:13:41.020 But, it's like, I know this is commitment, not sex, but it's the same thing you were saying before.

04:13:44.960 Yeah, you'd be like, well.

04:13:46.360 You would feel like of a lesser value.

04:13:49.000 Yeah, like, oh, he doesn't put me on the same level as his previous girls.

04:13:53.520 Yeah, he doesn't find me as attractive or he doesn't put me on the same pedestal he did the other girls.

04:13:55.380 Yeah, another example I could give is basically like, let's say you were dating a guy.

04:13:59.920 Let's say you've been dating him for six months, a year, whatever.

04:14:03.800 And, you know, he's kind of a homebody.

04:14:06.460 Like, he doesn't do much.

04:14:07.440 He doesn't really take you out to dinner.

04:14:08.540 You like him, right?

04:14:09.300 You guys hook up.

04:14:10.220 Like, you guys have a relationship.

04:14:12.020 But, he doesn't really take you anywhere.

04:14:13.700 He doesn't buy you dinner.

04:14:14.700 He doesn't get you gifts.

04:14:15.720 He doesn't take you on vacation, whatever.

04:14:17.920 Then, you find out that with his last girlfriend or his previous girlfriends, he was buying her gifts.

04:14:25.740 And, by the way, his financial situation has not changed.

04:14:28.340 He was getting her gifts, taking her on vacations, doing all this extra stuff for his last relationship.

04:14:35.700 Maybe he didn't feel appreciated in the last relationship.

04:14:38.420 I like seeing stuff from both sides of the situation.

04:14:42.700 Cool.

04:14:43.440 All right.

04:14:44.260 Time to wrap up.

04:14:45.740 Speak now or forever.

04:14:47.040 Hold your peace if anyone has a final thought or question.

04:14:51.600 Anybody?

04:14:52.820 Yo, stop paying for this girl's gas. 1.00

04:14:56.160 For real.

04:14:56.880 Nah.

04:14:57.340 Keep paying for our Amazon wish list.

04:15:00.400 We love it.

04:15:01.960 Thank you to all the guys that sensed for me last time.

04:15:04.680 That's a good one.

04:15:05.260 That made me feel really good.

04:15:06.100 And, thank you for all the nice messages I got.

04:15:08.260 If you want to support me, I will marry you right now.

04:15:12.620 Wait, what?

04:15:13.180 What is it?

04:15:13.680 I said, if you want to, like, support me financially, everything, I will marry you right now.

04:15:17.980 Brian gave you the ring.

04:15:18.940 Brian, you down for that?

04:15:19.280 I thought, whoa.

04:15:20.000 Excuse me.

04:15:20.720 Show the ring.

04:15:21.100 Wait, it's on the middle finger. 1.00

04:15:22.120 What the fuck? 0.99

04:15:22.500 Yeah, because it was falling off. 1.00

04:15:23.400 She just said it was bad luck.

04:15:24.300 I told you it was falling off.

04:15:26.600 And it's bad luck.

04:15:27.420 Okay.

04:15:27.760 I'm married, though, so.

04:15:29.140 Yeah, she's taking boys. 1.00

04:15:30.360 She's taking boys. 1.00

04:15:31.380 Engage.

04:15:31.820 Engage.

04:15:32.060 Brian's an engagement.

04:15:33.180 Not a married person. 0.95

04:15:33.620 Brian, I was going to remember this, just to let you know.

04:15:36.980 Wait.

04:15:37.720 Remember that you gave a random girl on the podcast a ring, and you won't even put a ring on her finger.

04:15:43.180 This is going to be an argument, just in case.

04:15:45.720 In about four or five years.

04:15:45.940 Just letting you know.

04:15:46.540 In the future, when you finally find a girl, this might be an argument. 0.88

04:15:50.180 Yeah, this will certainly be the deal breaker.

04:15:52.500 For my future partner, I'm sure.

04:15:54.720 Okay.

04:15:55.680 All right, guys.

04:15:56.840 Thank you so much for tuning.

04:15:59.460 Oh, we didn't watch the video.

04:16:01.120 Oh, well.

04:16:01.660 It's two.

04:16:01.920 Oh, well, two.

04:16:02.660 That's fine.

04:16:03.100 It's fine.

04:16:03.460 I'll do it next show.

04:16:04.560 Tuesday.

04:16:04.940 Tuesday, guys.

04:16:05.680 All right.

04:16:05.960 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

04:16:07.460 Thank you all for watching.

04:16:09.240 Dude, really appreciate all the support tonight, guys.

04:16:11.500 You could have been doing anything else, but you were here with me.

04:16:15.300 I appreciate that.

04:16:16.640 I could have been. 1.00

04:16:17.700 Shut up. 1.00

04:16:18.580 Shut up. 1.00

04:16:19.680 Shut up. 1.00

04:16:19.900 I could have been with some hot men, but I decided to come back. 1.00

04:16:22.680 Yeah, she could have.

04:16:23.560 What was the term you used?

04:16:25.100 It was like a Spanish term or something.

04:16:28.960 Los vaqueros.

04:16:29.680 Los vaqueros.

04:16:30.540 Yes, they were vaqueros.

04:16:31.400 No, you said it was rancheros.

04:16:32.980 Oh, yeah.

04:16:34.300 Paisa rancheros.

04:16:36.500 She's like, end the show. 1.00

04:16:37.720 But let me just interrupt Brian's out there.

04:16:40.000 Shout out to the panel.

04:16:40.940 You guys are amazing.

04:16:41.960 Thanks for actually having a civil discourse with us.

04:16:44.160 Yeah, no, honestly, props to you, dude.

04:16:46.200 I had a bad experience last time.

04:16:47.760 Kind of did not want to come back.

04:16:49.060 But yeah, you're very respectful.

04:16:51.760 And I actually wanted to listen and like hear what you had to say. 1.00

04:16:54.800 Shut your fucking mouth. 1.00

04:16:57.620 Brian. 1.00

04:16:58.020 Round three.

04:16:58.980 I thought it was going to be nice.

04:17:01.080 Let's end it so respectfully.

04:17:03.860 Because it got a lot of views last time.

04:17:07.940 Okay.

04:17:08.660 Brian, don't lie.

04:17:09.880 Don't lie.

04:17:10.600 Okay.

04:17:10.940 We all know that podcast got so many views because of me.

04:17:14.860 Okay.

04:17:16.000 Cool.

04:17:16.460 All right.

04:17:16.780 So thank you to everyone who super chat and supports the show.

04:17:20.400 It means the world.

04:17:21.220 Shout out to all of you.

04:17:22.520 Shout out.

04:17:23.200 W chat.

04:17:24.520 Yeah, definitely.

04:17:26.340 So and thank you to the wonderful panel we had tonight.

04:17:30.460 I thought this this was one of my favorite panels.

04:17:32.780 I think it was quite diverse.

04:17:34.860 And I think you guys were great.

04:17:36.900 Very well.

04:17:37.360 Appreciate you guys's patience.

04:17:38.440 We did go a little late.

04:17:39.900 So thanks for sticking through it.

04:17:43.180 A little late, you know.

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04:18:04.160 Guys, we'll see you next time.

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Whatever Podcast - February 21, 2023

Dating Talk #56

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