Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #74

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00:04:27.400 gonna have the guests introduce themselves please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead

00:04:31.200 hi i'm nala ray i am the ahago queen and an only fans creator on top and i'm 24 years old what is

00:04:42.760 the how's it pronounced ahago ahago ahago ahago ahago ahago you're the what i'm the queen of it

00:04:53.100 oh you're the queen so you're just like really skilled incredibly skilled at doing that ahigao

00:05:01.020 the cum face basically is that oh that's what it is yeah that's basically what i use it for at least

00:05:05.560 okay and so did you say your age 24 24 right okay um are you has was there like a pull for the

00:05:13.140 to to get the rank of queen or no i just dominated and i took over you know what's mine is mine it was

00:05:19.420 a conquest yeah it was for the throne yeah of the ahago did i say ahago ahago queen yeah what aren't

00:05:26.640 there like some other do you what how's your uwu uwu okay okay that that's the other that's the other

00:05:35.460 one okay um and uh okay all right what about you good evening my name is lara i'm 33 and i wear

00:05:53.240 a mask and a week in my free time so i prefer to do to keep secret my identity um so i'm not going

00:06:03.000 to say what i do as a as a job what's your fake job um a twitcher that's what i would like to be

00:06:11.640 a twitcher yeah a twitch streamer like a gamer i don't think they're called twitchers maybe they

00:06:18.160 well actually i want to i want to specify something right away i'm a foreigner like

00:06:23.400 an alien as the government likes to to to call me and so english is definitely my second language

00:06:30.940 exactly so i'm i apologize in advance because um i will make a lot of grammar mistakes and i will

00:06:40.120 probably not understand 100 of what you guys say so i apologize in advance what country are you from

00:06:45.400 i cannot disclose that oh well actually it's estalia it's what estalia

00:06:51.880 estalia yeah does anybody here have any idea what is that like a make-believe country on google

00:07:02.520 estalia maybe jenovia i think they have pink hair there right

00:07:08.680 where i don't have pink hair there oh yeah sure that's that's from warhammer

00:07:16.560 you can google it are you talking about warhammer on like the game

00:07:21.140 no it's not a game it's a country italia estalia bro that's not the only thing i'm getting for

00:07:29.800 estalia is something from warhammer i'm trolling you brian well i'm italian i'm italian i'll say that

00:07:37.000 great joke okay um what about what about you my name is heather can you hear me

00:07:43.200 yeah okay my name is loud and clear i'm 20 i'm i'm just a part-time student and i work

00:07:50.820 rock and roll not really uh where do you go to school um i'm at a junior college so cc cc yeah

00:07:57.200 what do you study psychology rock and roll yeah my name is madison vu i'm 18 a student at santa

00:08:05.040 barbara city college studying econ and accounting

00:08:07.840 okay

00:08:11.080 okay hi i'm lindsay i'm 36 i work for a local company that does psychedelic therapy

00:08:20.560 uh called lucid therapeutics and i'm the care coordinator there but i can go into more detail

00:08:28.420 if needed you said psychedelics so it's a company that does what

00:08:33.260 right now because it's the only one that's legal and it is a doctor administering it it's ketamine

00:08:38.820 or the party drug special k um but we're going under the name

00:08:43.780 but um it's it's helping people it's helping people who are severely depressed or anxious or

00:08:50.880 wanting to deepen their spiritual journey or yeah or for someone who wants to derail a podcast but

00:08:58.240 um sorry no no no i'm not it's an inside joke um but uh so uh and it's uh is it psycho act like

00:09:09.820 do people get high or is it like a micro dosing thing it's a shot it's intramuscular or ivy

00:09:14.800 yeah i just did it on tuesday so i can be able to talk about it but i don't mean to derail

00:09:20.040 no no no i wasn't i it's it's not related to you um so do you get like you personally you do the

00:09:28.700 special k no it's people call in who are severely depressed suicidal anxious we get a lot of life

00:09:37.480 coaches who want to deepen their spiritual journey and it's a anesthetic that puts you in a very crazy

00:09:46.480 like a video game in your mind and you can it works on the brain on a neuroplasticity level

00:09:51.620 so you can really rewire your brain to not have the negative beliefs uh think of a traumatic

00:09:59.220 situation in a whole different light it's a very special medicine similar to psilocybin

00:10:08.180 if i were to compare it to anything can you can you have a bad trip on that so we curate the

00:10:14.660 experience so that you feel very safe and held it's uh it's a doctor and then therapists on staff

00:10:20.020 and you're in a therapy room uh you have some amazing music going you have an eye mask uh the

00:10:26.000 therapist can hold your hand through your experience so we believe that you're not going to have a bad

00:10:33.220 trip because it's a very controlled environment as opposed to an ayahuasca journey or crazy music

00:10:39.420 festival burning man um but some people have severe ptsd so the medicine does possibly bring you to

00:10:48.860 those memories but you'll think of them in a different light okay interesting all right what about

00:10:55.080 you hi everyone my name is gloria i'm 25 years old and i do lyft uber uber eats and i'm a student part

00:11:05.560 of time doordash uber eats no hub no only uber eats okay i got yeah and i'm from san diego but i'm

00:11:13.960 mexican okay and didn't you like win some award or something or i like one pageant i'm a pageant queen

00:11:22.940 winner two times in my country so yeah but in mexico in mexico but i didn't follow that path

00:11:29.500 all right very cool very cool john um jonathan i'm known as mld online i'm a youtuber 37 and i'm here

00:11:39.340 to uh help out with the show today rock and roll good to have you back man uh thank you yes um i'm

00:11:47.320 right here uh i'm mary i'm 22 and i'm a commentator at timcast media um and if you want to find me

00:11:59.120 there the show's called pop culture crisis and you went viral for roasting nicolette yeah i did

00:12:06.560 appearance i did so this is my second time in the show did you get any heat uh oh we should pull up

00:12:11.980 the clip but in any case did you get any heat from that or mostly positive comments it was mostly

00:12:17.020 positive but some people thought that i was being too harsh on her okay and i don't want to come off

00:12:22.860 that way i don't want to come off like preachy or antagonistic but i'm not gonna like not say what

00:12:29.700 i think you know sure because i i posted it like a month later or something just on my own twitter

00:12:35.820 and like it it kind of got caught up in the wrong side of twitter and i got heat even though i'm not

00:12:43.000 even talking i just asked her a question and then you roasted her i got all the heat they didn't even

00:12:48.440 bother to watch the clip so um what were they saying literally one of the most viral like response

00:12:55.480 tweets in response to me posting the video was i'm not even gonna watch the whole clip but this guy

00:13:02.060 in the zara jacket like the faux i don't know what if they were just like roasting me but it's i'm not

00:13:07.920 even saying anything bad so it's just it's ridiculous but maybe we'll pull that up later on

00:13:12.360 in the show canceled it's done i'm done it's over okay um so we're gonna go around the table

00:13:18.940 once more so what is your current relationship status are you single do you have a friends

00:13:24.140 with benefits are you in the talking stage do you have a situationship relationship

00:13:27.900 fiance marriage go ahead so i'm actually super single right now i've been single for like 10 months

00:13:34.100 very very happy with my current life situation um and i'm really not looking for anybody so

00:13:40.060 okay and if i do find someone it has to be a regular person cannot be anyone famous i don't

00:13:45.280 give a fuck about status has to be regular regular normal regular person because i'm so not normal

00:13:51.880 i need someone to equalize me if they're crazy and i'm crazy it just doesn't work so yeah how are

00:13:57.460 you crazy i'm dominant you're dominant yes like you want to i'm daddy your daddy whoa wait show

00:14:04.540 the tattoo to the camera right here it just says daddy yeah did that hurt no it was actually on

00:14:12.080 my halloween party and i was streaming on my halloween party night and they gifted so many subs i was

00:14:18.020 like you know what i had a tattoo artist in my house i was like do you have your stuff with you

00:14:22.060 so i got tattooed in my game room during a halloween party and then just went back downstairs and

00:14:26.540 partied okay so you're daddy i'm daddy i fuck girls with strap-ons this is what makes me more

00:14:33.560 dominant i would fuck a guy but they're too scared wait eric can you use but it's an idea i don't

00:14:42.160 know it sounds a bit low um and you're do you date men or women oh men both i'm so so so attracted

00:14:49.060 to men like i need dick but like when i'm drunk like women obviously but i feel like that's every

00:14:56.220 woman's answer correct is it like when you're drunk okay no maybe it's just me then i'm sorry

00:15:00.620 but i'm speaking for myself when i get drunk it's like titties okay um and you so you said you're

00:15:07.680 crazy okay and more of like a controlled crazy so i feel very fiery and spicy and i really just want

00:15:14.340 to live my life and be very very happy but i'll do whatever the fuck i want and it's really hard for

00:15:20.300 me to take advice from people that i don't respect and i don't respect a lot of people so

00:15:24.340 okay um so on the scale of one to ten if you had to put your where do you fall in terms of

00:15:30.940 craziness crazy oh my goodness like i said it's more of a controlled crazy so i feel like i'm probably

00:15:35.080 a seven eight on the definitely not uncapped yet okay um so and you said you need a normal person to

00:15:43.260 balance out your yes i need a reg a regular yeah okay so you uh does that mean that you don't date

00:15:49.160 for example other content creators other people i did once and it um it really ended very badly

00:15:55.880 because of the content we were creating and how it interfered in our relationship personally and

00:16:01.920 sexually and you know i could pull out a camera any fucking time and film and it doesn't like

00:16:07.260 affect my relationship status with you or anything like i don't feel like it's interrupting

00:16:11.960 don't don't worry about nobanaga he's i think he's talking about kiki don't worry about him oh it's

00:16:18.140 okay i've been called psycho okay i'm not but you know okay so so seven eight yes okay um have you

00:16:26.980 been diagnosed with no and i really don't think i should go to the doctor to be like yeah you're

00:16:31.860 probably told i'm something and then be put on what exactly like there's no point in ruining my

00:16:37.700 perfect body fair point um and you said you like you're dominant i'm very that's that's one of the

00:16:43.700 ways in which you're not normal i guess or that you say you're not normal um and when you say

00:16:49.360 you're dominant do you mean uh what are we talking here she's alpha i am alpha female

00:16:56.340 i feel like my masculine energy is higher than most men's masculine energy and i'm so

00:17:02.840 like competitive so if i have a partner who's even an alpha male i'm competing against you in every way

00:17:10.520 like i need to make more money than you and i need to learn more than you i need to travel more

00:17:16.740 it's like i can't just be a team sometimes i need to be like the best sure can i ask a question please

00:17:23.400 i love this to you what is masculine wow that's a really good question uh protection is something i

00:17:29.880 hold very highly like security um a lot of men don't ever make me feel secure in fact they make me

00:17:35.660 feel like i can't trust them if i can't trust you where are we going you know and i need to know

00:17:40.880 that you would literally beat the living shit out of someone for me if i needed you to not that i'm

00:17:45.300 just gonna ask on a regular day but you know if i needed you to be my clyde okay so i mean despite

00:17:51.100 the fact that you consider yourself fairly dominant you need someone who supersedes you in their dominance

00:17:57.640 you wouldn't even though you consider yourself perhaps leaning a bit more dominant or masculine

00:18:02.280 you don't want a feminine guy i can't date a female and no i don't want a more feminine guy

00:18:07.280 okay um it's like okay that's cute but like if you start crying in front of me i'm just gonna

00:18:11.240 like laugh i really will like that's like really weird for me okay so you need a have you thought

00:18:17.200 about dating an mma fighter maybe or no listen because i'd fucking wrestle them all the time

00:18:21.920 you wrestle them i would fucking grapple all day long like i would wear them out like again talking

00:18:27.820 like jujitsu or oh anything like jujitsu is not on the ground really most of the time i don't feel

00:18:32.520 like or more like karate but like anything like even in bed i would literally fuck you until you

00:18:39.040 were doubting your sexuality like i feel like my ex literally went gay because of it i think she just

00:18:45.580 needs somebody to match her energy like you're just like yeah but then when they match my energy

00:18:49.620 no i don't i think you need someone calm and mellow see exactly i feel like i've learned this about

00:18:53.740 myself and until i find someone that i respect enough to be in my life it's like yeah i'm just

00:18:59.160 gonna be me okay will they be down for all that see that's what i'm saying would who be like somebody

00:19:05.060 more calm and balanced i feel like it would scare them away yeah i think it is very scary maybe they

00:19:10.640 don't want to deal with it that's what i'm saying and you know what this actually just happened i had

00:19:14.880 this guy that i was seeing just not even seeing it was like we started like um we started talking for

00:19:20.680 like three weeks he hit me up at like three in the morning when i was in miami and he was like hey

00:19:24.660 i just googled you and saw that you did porn and i don't want this that was a regular person and i

00:19:29.820 was like oh okay so i tried you know i tried i also tried someone who did what i did and it i turned

00:19:36.280 them basically gay so like the fuck you you turned a guy i told you it was my ex like i fucked him until

00:19:41.600 he became gay or something i swear to god when you say you effed him like you mentioned pegging

00:19:47.320 before were you pegging him or no he wouldn't let me but it's like a death by snoo snoo do you know

00:19:52.640 that futurama reference oh you do basically just these like amazon giant like muscular women just

00:20:00.580 like would crush the pelvis it's okay well listen i'm not trying to hurt anybody okay i just fuck you

00:20:06.460 and fuck you i'm sorry lay you and lay you until you know like you're like oh my god i have no more

00:20:13.480 come inside my body anymore the fuck is wrong with this lady like you'll never want to cheat on me

00:20:18.380 you'll be drained like there's nothing left in you to cheat but i will cheat because i'm bored

00:20:22.740 wait so wait wow that just got deep what about you oh my god so this actually okay so i was on

00:20:32.320 another podcast and this clip went viral with me saying that i love cheating it's actually my biggest

00:20:36.320 fantasy so yeah hold on i can't even keep up okay i know your biggest fantasy i told you i was a

00:20:42.800 fucking seven if you want to write that higher you go right ahead wait your biggest fantasy is

00:20:47.160 not even my biggest it's like one of my fantasies i'm a little fucked up so you're listen

00:20:53.220 yes yes yes yes explain the cheating polyamory explain that word wait can i buy a vowel

00:21:02.260 okay so listen cheating it's not that fucking difficult you're with someone or they're with

00:21:09.400 someone i don't even have to be with someone but if you're with someone and you have a girl

00:21:13.080 i'm gonna sit on your fucking dick and be like isn't my pussy tighter isn't it better isn't that

00:21:19.360 just hot oh you want the competition i'm a competition in myself like i just have to

00:21:24.600 it's not even that i have to win you want hold on you want to cheat on the guy or you want the guy

00:21:29.620 to cheat on you either it's so hot either way picture so he can say who he prefers not even i've been

00:21:36.300 in relationships and i'm like cheating with someone else and i'm like this is so hot oh so

00:21:41.320 wait is this like a cuck queen thing yes is it yes well so cuck cuck queen is the opposite of well

00:21:47.000 the female version of a cuckold where you derive pleasure from by being senior partner cucked like

00:21:52.300 basically being cheated on oh okay okay wait here's a scenario and i mean this is a bit haram but um

00:21:59.260 what okay here's a scenario i heard once that from a cuck queen she wanted to be placed on the

00:22:06.760 bed laying like her back on the bed have another girl placed on top of her and then have her her

00:22:13.020 boyfriend fuck the other girl oh i've done that at my halloween party actually so that you could

00:22:19.340 feel on bottom and the boyfriend was fucking me in doggy style while i was sucking on her

00:22:23.760 yeah okay so the girl was getting cut queened is that what it is maybe this was just a threesome

00:22:29.260 i don't know it could be but they were together and i wasn't with what was the thing about the dry

00:22:34.000 you would dude what dry it would be so you would oh like i'd suck all the come out of a guy after

00:22:40.840 like fucking them multiple times a day every day for like weeks dude yeah you'd be dry too like

00:22:45.760 you have no babies left inside of you this is a lot and like if i may interject please do please

00:22:51.680 this uh thing kind of feels inauthentic and like put on i actually get that a lot like like i feel

00:23:01.420 like tina faye right now like you can stop with the sexy baby act like well like not i know you're

00:23:06.200 not going to your idea okay what no go ahead what'd you say finish first well i i basically did but

00:23:14.000 what were you saying i was talking i think you're gonna meet people in the world that are just going

00:23:18.320 to not fit your idea of and expectations of like what people are gonna say and it's not that it's

00:23:23.700 unexpected i expected all of this it's just it feels inauthentic but if you expected it why does

00:23:28.620 it feel inauthentic it can be both of those things at the same time i'm saying like this feels like an

00:23:35.580 hyper sexualized persona that you put on what i am and you're not really letting your authentic

00:23:43.220 self ever be shown to people i don't think i would be my authentic self if i was with somebody

00:23:47.780 i'm being authentic by being completely single and letting myself be alone and be this crazy i mean

00:23:53.980 it's not about your relationship status it's just about how you're interacting but i feel like it is

00:23:57.640 just in a little bit because it has so much to do with like he's just asking about it like i mean

00:24:03.500 your persona that you're using like on camera right now it honestly even feels different than how you

00:24:09.280 were acting before we started recording oh girl it doesn't you weren't talking to her outside i don't

00:24:14.320 think you were like okay hold on hold on are you guys really here yeah yeah hold on one thing yeah

00:24:18.980 yeah we just met i'm the door either way like i'm just saying this feels like i do understand that

00:24:26.020 you might feel a certain way some people it feels unauthentic because they're so like and especially

00:24:30.520 if you've never been introduced to someone like i mean even if you keep this persona up 100 of the

00:24:35.500 time with all the people that you meet i still think it's a persona i think you're entitled to

00:24:40.800 that opinion yeah i know i am let's just like do you have a response okay hold on we can continue

00:24:46.820 that thread in just a sec eric people are saying that the tts is not working have you been noticing

00:24:51.780 this in the chat yeah but you haven't it hasn't been you haven't seen them chat you gotta let me

00:25:00.800 know way sooner guys i apologize our tts uh you okay chat for some reason i thought i had fixed our

00:25:08.520 tts the tts is not working i do not know why it's not um showing up i'm trying to trigger it um

00:25:16.080 so for those of you who did i'm gonna try to fix it now i apologize for the all of you because we have

00:25:23.200 like at least five tts's that attempted to come through i'm very sorry guys um who i mean for what

00:25:32.520 you're contributing i apologize that we're having these technical issues with the tts i'm gonna go

00:25:36.520 working on it right now um if you guys want to continue with your back and forth on this to say

00:25:42.720 maybe maybe she is a person she acts she has a but it might be part of her personality to i mean if

00:25:50.740 your personality is just an amalgamation of like porn you've watched or some like actually it just

00:25:57.420 comes from my happiness like i'm so bubbly and happy and i have so much but i'm saying your

00:26:02.100 bubbliness your happiness flirtiness on the sexuality it doesn't everything authentic okay to other people

00:26:08.780 can i at least not can i interject and i think a lot of people really don't know anything about me

00:26:13.440 other than what i've just said so how i know i don't i don't know anything about you but i know that

00:26:17.400 what i'm encountering right now isn't who you really are okay when it comes to college i really

00:26:23.220 that's okay so many um people i feel like i come off so intimidating because of i'm just happy and so

00:26:31.080 many people don't understand that that's just simply it and i'm so fucking sexually driven by a lot of my

00:26:37.700 choices my horniness has gotten me here like really has and i'm so proud of it so how many guys have you

00:26:44.460 slept with i actually don't know my number because i'm not a freak and i don't count i know but you

00:26:48.180 men aren't like i've counted you help me yeah okay well i'm trying to gauge no no because i'm trying

00:26:54.060 to gauge how much you like sex because you're talking about how much you like sex i do i really

00:26:57.920 do you can enjoy sex a lot and not have a bunch of multiple multiple multiple i know i'm asking her

00:27:03.160 though i think that i totally agree with exactly fair to say you're still trying to figure out who

00:27:08.940 you truly are so this is right now your phase yeah i mean not even a phase i've had red bright hair for

00:27:15.140 over five years like i haven't changed much other than getting bangs two years ago so i've always been

00:27:21.060 into anime i've always been into learning i've always just had i moved from a very close-minded space

00:27:27.340 family friends to burst out and be me something you said earlier is you won't take advice from

00:27:34.240 people that you don't respect so can you explain who it is that you respect and does that include

00:27:40.200 either of your parents my dad and my business partner my mom i actually don't respect that much

00:27:46.220 because she was a huge part in keeping me so caged so much of my life my dad i was raised very

00:27:53.380 christian my dad was a pastor i was homeschooled it doesn't get more caged than that i had no

00:27:58.640 fucking life for the longest time my dad majority of the comments your relationship with your dad

00:28:05.600 so that's actually yeah yeah so me and my dad are really really good friends he he knows what my whole

00:28:10.480 family knows what i do the rest of my family choose to not speak to me and that's something i've accepted

00:28:15.540 but my dad and i have a really good connection because he's like he's like the one male in my life that

00:28:20.720 it's given me some of the best advice i've ever gotten and continue to encourage me to be positive

00:28:26.580 no matter what happens does he encourage you in your line of work though absolutely he encouraged

00:28:31.240 me to be safe why is that bad for her father to encourage her in her line of work just because

00:28:35.080 you know what you don't respect something i actually send my parents money every month so

00:28:40.760 why wouldn't he encourage me like i i help my family i don't know who to listen to right now

00:28:45.420 she makes money that's a profession so i mean uh i don't know if i would call it i mean a drug

00:28:51.580 dealer makes money is that a really bad job i don't just do only doing is illegal yeah i don't

00:28:57.540 do anything illegal but look at this like prostitution is illegal okay i'm not a prostitute isn't only

00:29:04.000 fans that's consensual and that's on a platform i like that this is getting brought up people call

00:29:08.580 prostitution the oldest profession and i i don't think of it as a profession you sound like my mom my mom

00:29:14.440 thinks i'm literally out on the sidewalk selling myself when i'm like doing only fans but not

00:29:18.340 but it's so different because it's 2d right 2d okay so on a screen you guys will maybe come back

00:29:24.920 to that just one point of clarification you said you did when you say you do only fans are you doing

00:29:29.380 boy girl girl girl solo content everything have you been have you done anything in the traditional

00:29:35.200 porn industry no i don't work for or have done anything for mainstream porn got it by the way guys i

00:29:41.400 think we have tts figured out so i'm gonna start um i'm just again i apologize that we uh

00:29:48.180 missed some of these tts's i know i feel bad um can you hide that eric i need to uh

00:29:53.300 let me see okay good black socrates donated 200 what's good brian hope you had a good week

00:30:03.280 looking forward to the conversation also glad modern science has advanced to the point where we can bring

00:30:10.220 plastic dolls to life girl with red hair legitimately freaking me out with that face

00:30:15.640 yikes uh how many people don't understand that and i love that commentary because

00:30:20.700 so i do the ahago face based off of anime and anime culture and what i've learned and what i've observed

00:30:26.340 and a lot of people who don't understand anime or do anything like that they don't understand it

00:30:31.900 and they think it's just a dumb face which listen if i came from your perspective i would think the

00:30:36.560 same thing so really don't blame anyone for having that opinion all right black socrates thank you for

00:30:42.440 the tts once again sorry that it didn't come through right away i'm gonna get through all of

00:30:46.220 these by the way why don't you can you turn your your uh phone case so it's like facing the camera

00:30:51.180 yes a little more so it's like yeah there we go okay all right we have um yeah i want to get

00:30:58.340 that for my little brother which is all right we have john galt here thank you for the

00:31:02.260 i want to get a girlfriend hold on mary from a conservative catholic perspective do you think

00:31:06.240 red pill menisphere values like from the tates and rollo are better worse or equal compared to

00:31:10.160 woke leftist and feminist values would be interesting to hear you debate farha kalidi

00:31:14.860 i've never heard of that person but um oh gosh i wish i could hear the question again um

00:31:21.500 do you think i am menis for menis for values yeah i'm credit i'm definitely critical of the

00:31:26.980 red pill dating coach whatever like masculinity e-course thing for sure so the question is is it

00:31:33.460 better worse or equal compared to woke leftist and feminist values not as bad but still bad still bad

00:31:41.220 okay they are both bad from my they are they're both sides of the same coin too extreme like some of it

00:31:47.100 feels like you're just selling the girl boss feminism but repackaged for men exactly it's like

00:31:53.440 get your bag king it's a response to feminism but on an extreme level again but it's just the same

00:31:59.660 thing no because i i'll tell you this if you're not red pill you are blue peeled so there are just two

00:32:06.840 phase of reality and that is oversimplification so it's like fascism but basically either you are with

00:32:13.580 me or you are against me so i'm i'm not necessarily blue peeled i like to be in the middle i'm purple

00:32:18.520 peeled well it's interesting you bring up fascism given your italian um that's weak that's because

00:32:24.160 i mentioned that because i'm italian but uh okay we kind of interrupted the circle all right we have

00:32:29.740 a hybrid here thank you for the canadian 250 man appreciate it 150 canadian dollars question for

00:32:35.740 everyone on the panel what was your lowest moment in your life thus far and how did you overcome it

00:32:41.320 most likely your answer will be linked back to your self-belief and your purpose

00:32:46.220 cheers brian for the podcast and mld being back on um okay for uh hybrid thank you for the canadian

00:32:53.560 250 much appreciated um certainly appreciate uh and my apologies that your tts was an instant

00:33:00.600 um what was your lowest moment in your life thus far frankly um one of the things that we

00:33:06.700 actually i might have forgotten to instruct this before the show um one of the things we instruct the

00:33:12.760 rules to not do actually i don't think we did it this show but uh we're not going to allow any

00:33:17.720 trauma dumping on the show anymore because like i'm just i'm sorry man like i appreciate the 250 but

00:33:24.380 i'm not going to let people come on the show and trauma dump it's just not it's a fucking buzz kill

00:33:29.380 so lowest point in your life people are going to fucking trauma dump so i just say like summarize

00:33:34.020 the worst point in your life in 10 words drunkest point

00:33:37.540 um so uh but i mean shout out uh shout out to uh for the support and obviously thank you for

00:33:46.720 supporting uh me and mld so appreciate it but yeah we just can't have people trauma dumping but lowest

00:33:53.440 point in your life and how did you overcome it

00:33:55.780 where's davon jackson when you need him he he left it okay um

00:34:01.960 i do i i feel bad because he donated 250 but it's like you answer the second one we also

00:34:10.720 know our relationship status when we interrupted well yeah but i because these were tts's i need

00:34:15.720 to get caught up but we will continue around on that um hybrid tell you do you want to submit

00:34:21.720 another question i mean i don't know something i feel i don't know um let me know okay um we do

00:34:27.540 have to move on though so uh if if uh okay let's just whatever oh here we go um okay bad dxe thank

00:34:37.460 you man can you lower the volume a little bit just put it to uh brian good job perfectly mixing the

00:34:43.820 podcast of based and cancer big ups to mld bust in you a girl please for the love of god don't

00:34:50.620 procreate what i have no plans on it i hate kids like you're not gonna have kids no listen this is

00:34:57.320 another reason why i'm single i don't need a man to have a child yes technically you do no no okay

00:35:04.300 listen i don't want a child so that's what i'm saying i don't need a man do you want a husband

00:35:08.400 i actually don't know that's a really good question i i haven't figured that out yet

00:35:12.340 and she's allowed to have a decision because your age is in a good spot for that i'm pro

00:35:18.600 woman figuring it out before 30 yeah bad zxe thank you for the at that donation man really

00:35:24.700 appreciate it and then we have uh oh wait did you did you do this one twice he might have done it

00:35:30.080 twice i'm good i'm gonna trigger it twice because you're fucking fucking chad dude thank you so much

00:35:34.720 man holy shit thank you man brian great job mixing the podcast between based and cancer

00:35:45.640 big ups to mld bust in you a girl please for the love of god don't procreate he sent it twice

00:35:52.100 yeah is that her voice i see your super chat man thank you thank you man sounds exactly the same

00:36:01.580 okay so yeah um sorry about the tts is not coming through guys my bad um okay cool we're caught up

00:36:08.080 on the tts's so we're gonna you guys we can have you guys continue with that after i actually want

00:36:12.500 to hear other people's opinions yeah we'll come back to that so uh oh and did you what was your

00:36:17.320 longest relationship you said uh two years and eight months two years i was engaged okay good

00:36:26.480 times relationship status in our relationship it's been nine months okay and is that your longest

00:36:35.740 relationship you've ever been in yes you're that's your at 33 your longest relationship you can use that

00:36:41.760 is now in the near future yes please use it against me in the near future yeah what about you um i'm

00:36:51.180 currently single and my longest relationship's been like two and a half years i think and right now

00:36:58.440 yeah i'm not really looking for a relationship not like um like naya said like i think it's easier to

00:37:06.120 be focused on yourself when you're not focused on somebody else and i'm also somebody who just like

00:37:09.860 care so much about my partner and i sorry and i tend to give so much of my time um and loyalty to

00:37:16.880 them and not focus on myself so it's been really good to take a break sure focus on school and myself

00:37:21.060 how long have you been single um like only like four months okay i'm currently in a very committed

00:37:29.700 relationship um my longest relationship was about 10 months but that's not the current when i'm in

00:37:36.640 my first boyfriend my last boyfriend okay i am single uh i've been single for a while because

00:37:46.780 i've been traveling not traveling living a lot of different places not the girl that ever felt

00:37:53.340 like she needed to be in a relationship i'm from wisconsin tried to go against the grain with the

00:37:58.920 whole getting married right out of college um but right now i did a lot of work on myself

00:38:04.360 uh took courses on how to be more feminine be the queen kind of stuff and i'm trying to welcome

00:38:10.520 in my king be the queen yes and welcome in your king correct so you're trying i don't subscribe to

00:38:19.560 that kind of language either but it what i mean by that is i'm a straight woman i've had to learn to

00:38:24.360 say it like that because i did date up in silicon valley and things got very convoluted up there

00:38:30.100 wait silicon valley's got some interesting stuff going on with the money what tell us some stories

00:38:37.940 um three guys i met from the apps i started the apps when i was up there that was completely new for

00:38:45.020 me like dating apps dating apps yes um it's all apps in silicon valley bumble hinge isn't that like

00:38:52.920 tinder tinder was the one i actually had the most success with like serious contenders yeah so isn't it

00:38:59.080 all like silicon valley like tech startup people so did you meet like kind of interesting people

00:39:03.540 just a second dollar on this core boy is donated two hundred dollars

00:39:09.640 lady just needs someone extremely masculine and stoic in a traditional sense to bring out

00:39:15.220 femininity and submissiveness that's what i was saying who claims to respect her father

00:39:20.400 god help us all if this the modern example of respect are you an only child no i'm the middle of five

00:39:27.640 none of my brothers and sisters are like me okay 40 boys uh thank you for the uh donation man appreciate

00:39:37.360 it go on with your you're telling us about the silicon valley tragedy yeah uh polyamory so we were

00:39:43.460 talking about this before um there i know three marriages where they opened it up to polyamory

00:39:48.960 the guy wanted to date me because his wife wanted him to have a girlfriend i am more the jealous type i

00:39:57.880 i'm not into that all of those marriages have fallen apart because the woman had a girlfriend the wife

00:40:04.920 did and she ended up falling in love with the woman so that's what i mean by convoluted it was it was

00:40:11.420 very they all got divorced they all got divorced yeah because they opened it up yeah and in their

00:40:18.280 mind they thought one person can't fill all my needs so they invited in other people and then the

00:40:25.240 woman was usually the one to get a girlfriend because that's what's most comfortable i feel for

00:40:30.620 people and then the woman ended up falling in love with the woman which made the man feel very

00:40:35.940 emasculated and they tried to make it work with other people and they didn't yeah how did you feel

00:40:43.480 in that situation i was curious i'm a curious person i try not to judge yeah it's good to be open yeah

00:40:51.360 very you know through your whole life i feel like it's why i moved to california because i was

00:40:56.060 in green by wisconsin yes illinois yep um but with that what i what i hear is the um sacredness

00:41:05.280 that i see in partnership and the sacredness i see in sex and this isn't a christian thing or a

00:41:10.080 religious thing i'm more along the lines of spiritual it's getting very messy and that and

00:41:16.060 that's where a lot of people aren't very clear on what they actually want um i feel like that's why

00:41:21.520 we're in an existential crisis uh fertility has completely dropped uh marriage is falling off do

00:41:29.400 you think that's just in california or really kind of all over because you said you're from wisconsin

00:41:34.680 how is it over there versus like better prospects from guys in the midwest um if i were to go to the

00:41:41.160 midwest and i saw a comment about that i am weathered i know i look older but i'm weathered because i

00:41:45.920 spend a lot of time in the ocean and the sun um i would be one of the few people single that's never

00:41:52.380 been married doesn't have kids i'd probably be an old hag there i don't know how i see myself

00:41:59.900 in that world men would be it's just it's a very different environment because most people do

00:42:07.700 marry right out of college okay so i i don't know i i've been out here more so it's probably

00:42:13.660 longest relationship uh three to four years three to four years yeah we broke up is it the ketamine

00:42:20.960 i might still have ketamine brain yeah okay okay um and when was your last relationship

00:42:29.880 so this one's tough and i this isn't trauma bonding or dumping not trauma bonding is a very

00:42:37.380 different thing um but the last one he did pass on so wow sorry to hear that yeah sorry so it's been

00:42:46.660 a very long time because i did have to grieve that sure and i that's what kind of sent me on my

00:42:52.040 own healing journey uh so i it's hard but yes it's been four to five years you dated him for four to

00:43:01.160 five years or that was four to five years ago four to five years ago okay right around that shooting

00:43:05.640 that i was telling you okay what about you um mine the longest is the one that i'm right now

00:43:12.560 one year and six months and it's kind of complicated because we are trying to find how to match

00:43:19.380 our goals so what when you say it's complicated what do you mean um like i said we're trying to

00:43:25.340 match our goals like i want maybe because i'm like things could get really fast so i'm i want kids and i

00:43:33.100 want to be married i think what i want is just like um security so sometimes i tend to like you know

00:43:41.300 maybe when i turn 25 something happened in my body that i needed like the security they needed of

00:43:48.060 like taking care of so me trying to figure out how to raise kids have kids in this crazy world so

00:43:57.040 it's kind of complicated to find a way with the men i love but at the same time if it's not working

00:44:04.180 probably just the best it's just to move on each other so that's why it's complicated just trying

00:44:10.240 to figure out he doesn't want to have kids he does but not the same time i want to how old is he

00:44:15.680 34 how and you're 25 i'm 25 yeah how do you want kids now you may after before before 30 yeah before

00:44:24.460 30 okay yeah but he's you said he's 34 yeah and he doesn't want kids yet no because how long is he

00:44:30.900 asking you to wait um he it's like he's maybe old school he's like i need to find a really good job

00:44:36.920 first and then we are gonna have a buy a house and then after the house then we can plan a wedding

00:44:42.000 and then having kids when i'm like yeah but i want to have kids before 30 so with that how long is

00:44:47.640 gonna be for you to find that kind of work you know what i'm saying well i mean you have five years

00:44:53.260 until 30 but uh and what kind of what line of work is he in he's a filmmaker filmmaker so

00:45:00.560 broke what is the stable job he's looking for uh um company work i'm kidding i'm kidding no it's

00:45:09.420 fine maybe it is what it is no yeah it's true it's what it is that he's an artist artists you know

00:45:15.660 they're going after their passion yeah sometimes that means not making a lot of money yeah yeah

00:45:22.160 but um but i support him so is he a director or what yeah he he run a company to uh with kids of

00:45:31.640 not kids adults with autism so he was the director of that company that teach that um they teach kids

00:45:38.800 without autism how to um do like film things pretty much is he american no he's mexican like me

00:45:46.140 born in in mexico no he was born here but basically he was right in me raised in mexico okay okay okay

00:45:52.640 yeah and you said it's complicated so are you having second thoughts about being in this relationship

00:45:58.740 yeah and you're saying this is he i mean damn is he listening right now bro that's yeah he's saying

00:46:05.000 that's a yikes and i told him what you want me to tell like to tell like he's okay with you

00:46:10.600 yeah we talked about it before this your relationship well nobody knows who he is yeah

00:46:15.540 nobody knows who he is i mean but he knows he's watching that's uh yeah it's complicated but i think

00:46:24.920 what's his name or maybe not like first name um give him a fake name um pablo pablo yeah yo l just

00:46:34.620 like um rips in the chat for pablo um that's wait so are you against him wanting to be um more

00:46:44.440 financially stable before having kids or yes and no because in in inside me i want stability i want

00:46:54.980 him to have a decent job no like geeks or be like freelance but but in my hair it's like it's okay for

00:47:02.780 him to like follow his dreams because that's his passion but you know like my feminist side or like

00:47:09.440 my my womanhood i don't know it's like oh did you say did you say feminist side or feminine feminine

00:47:15.020 oh okay okay maybe feminine side so when you're a mom do you want to work or first i want to stay

00:47:20.940 home or maybe part-time okay but mostly like taking care of my kids or maybe something not because i it's

00:47:28.480 it's hard to be at work and a mom at the same time well i mean the the economic realities of

00:47:35.240 if you do want to stay home and take care of the kids he will have he certainly does have to be in a

00:47:41.800 good financial position so i mean it's not i don't think it's wrong of him to want to wait until

00:47:46.440 he because i mean if you guys have kids now and you want to stay at home it sounds like to me

00:47:51.920 although he's pursuing his passion which is wonderful and perhaps one day it might be

00:47:57.280 become fruitful at this point it's not so um it's not a best idea it makes sense to me that he wants

00:48:04.000 to wait given that you you don't want to be working while you're raising the kids so um okay um and then

00:48:10.760 also just going back to you do you want kids i do you do okay um

00:48:15.360 soon i know i'm in early 40s having children and i've made changes in my life to be able to still

00:48:27.680 be fertile like like what diet diet okay some things that are very controversial that i'm not

00:48:38.180 going to say and then i want to know is it the jab yeah okay we won't talk about that but um

00:48:48.060 yeah bye-bye bro this show's already been a little a little on the fence you're asking the lowest point

00:48:54.660 of my life i think is this show right now but uh yeah brian's winning over here

00:49:02.100 jeez every show every show just okay um fair enough uh john what's your uh current relationship

00:49:12.600 status and uh longest relationship uh single and longest relationship uh four years weren't you in

00:49:20.400 uh you're single now but you had something going on last show or didn't you or yeah recently single

00:49:25.260 recently single oh shit our rip's in the chat for uh for our boy john um and uh how recently did you

00:49:32.800 guys break up it's between me and her fair enough fair enough how long were you guys dating though

00:49:38.240 uh several years several years okay so you're you're you're back on the streets unfortunately yes

00:49:45.460 unfortunately have you had a couple rebounds or um playboy back in the playboy i don't know do i

00:49:51.940 include all the crazy women who disagree with me from this podcast to send me like 17 voice messages

00:49:56.580 in a row telling me how much they don't care that's a one-sided relationship for sure yeah uh mary what

00:50:04.140 are you okay yeah um i'm currently in my first and only relationship which is 10 months and are you

00:50:10.520 guys engaged no okay um but and can you give people a little more uh context when it comes to your

00:50:18.160 relationship uh well could you be more specific like a question i don't know well you're waiting

00:50:25.500 until marriage correct yeah so the and that's your only relationship yes okay so and your first name

00:50:32.220 is mary and my first name is mary thus you're virgin she's the virgin mary i haven't met a virgin

00:50:39.080 like ever what you haven't met a virgin i mean you have well like no okay yeah it's not like i just

00:50:45.500 asked people hey you're virgin but like perhaps some of your subscribers on only fans most likely

00:50:50.500 okay we won't go into that yeah we won't uh yeah i didn't ask for that moniker but yeah i asked i'm

00:50:58.060 sorry go ahead is it a male or a female what yeah it's a male okay hey it wasn't specific i'm just

00:51:04.020 asking yeah mary's a woman of god she is mary magdalene was not air god that's actually a widespread myth

00:51:12.880 about mary magdalene yeah i didn't know that yes well because we had someone on the show last

00:51:20.480 time that said that she was some one of these people was a prostitute yeah they say that a lot

00:51:25.640 about mary magdalene but that's not actually fake news yeah actually be fake news okay it is fake news

00:51:34.120 all right so those are uh all the details that you wanted or no that's that's it yeah okay good times

00:51:42.480 um wait did this one come through okay let me get a super chat in here while we have them

00:51:46.640 uh okay we have uh scott servini thank you for the hundred uh can i have you read this go ahead

00:51:53.840 brixton glued to this podcast i'm learning so much about people and myself at the same time

00:52:01.320 keep up the good work thank you for your service scott thank you uh very much really appreciate

00:52:07.520 your support man thank you so much um yeah by the way guys thank you for all the support uh we got

00:52:12.400 we got temp temporarily banned by the way i thought i'm just why i'm not going to get into it but after

00:52:19.040 last show um i'm just i'm not going to address what happened i'm just moving on just another day in

00:52:25.340 the fucking you're not going to trauma dump about last show yeah it's just another chaotic day in

00:52:32.240 the whatever studio but uh yeah we got temp banned so i appreciate you guys uh supporting us because

00:52:38.120 we need it now more than ever and uh we have more eyes on us so um why did you get banned bro

00:52:46.260 he's not gonna get into this girl literally not listening okay puffy vegas thing for the hundred can

00:52:52.200 have the girls can have the girls rate me uh bruv you're i mean which which one are you in the

00:52:58.980 picture are you the middle are you the girl or the left man or woman you're um puffy if you submit

00:53:05.940 another one another uh super chat if you link your instagram we'll have the girls rate you oh um just

00:53:14.200 make sure it's over the threshold so we catch it uh dylan lolly thank you for the hundred um can i have

00:53:18.480 you read this please yeah brian i didn't think you could top the apple girl but here we are with

00:53:23.680 an effing cat girl shout out mld and mary please drop the nukes for me oh here you go hold on i got

00:53:30.440 the nuke for you um that didn't make any noise okay no

00:53:35.580 all right by the way guys if any of you in the super chats or in the who's the apple girl i need

00:53:46.320 to know don't worry about it um i have i have a missile too i can send the mist like the uh

00:53:53.120 does it have any noise because i want to see if it doesn't have any the missile one has noise the

00:53:56.320 missile one has noise all right we have right ryan the eating warrior uh

00:54:01.480 oh this is a good one all right yeah that 304 in fox ears is so broken jesus can't even save her

00:54:09.300 that's funny because i was a pastor's kid for the longest time what's a 304 i love being judged

00:54:14.760 area code it's an area code that's mean um pipeline wow they're really uh they're really

00:54:20.400 just love you ryan please tell me they're really coming for you hey oh you can come for me

00:54:26.720 something with yo dave on i i don't know if you saw me when i summoned you but but uh skip these

00:54:39.060 lame-ass open-ended questions are you kidding we're getting somewhere yeah it's uh look i i don't want

00:54:47.500 to come off like i'm unappreciative and look i'll try to accommodate some of the questions as best as i

00:54:53.980 can um and if you ask a good question it's good but if you're like asking the girls like what was

00:54:59.980 um there's there was one that was like it was from a couple shows ago and it was just like

00:55:05.100 does anyone remember what it anyone uh the chat chads remember what it was it was just like some

00:55:11.880 ridiculous question that would have anyways whatever um okay uh okay now i want to know what it was

00:55:19.680 okay he's gonna say it's too trauma dumping okay no i i forgot what it was but it was just like

00:55:25.440 what's your favorite color oh can we answer jesus what's your favorite color mary pink okay

00:55:32.160 john is it green ooh money pink blue blue like the ocean yep and like your eyeballs thank you okay

00:55:41.200 well like white i don't know if that's considered a color but it is i think it's like all the colors

00:55:45.800 colors or no colors yeah white's my favorite iron man's wife i like blue yeah blue and purple

00:55:53.180 eric can you pull up his instagram is that why you wanted to mix the pills because it made purple

00:55:56.580 exactly exactly mine's just red as you can tell you got a fan you got a spirit animal fan too where

00:56:04.360 what a comment oh oh okay i don't know you want to make me into a housewife oh

00:56:12.540 i can do laundry we're pulling up his uh instagram so the girls can rate him oh we are

00:56:18.920 oh wait why does he want this though before you pull it up just do a look over make sure it's

00:56:25.100 it looks okay what's your hometown um it's wow everywhere because you said you moved to here

00:56:32.780 born in uh decatur illinois i lived all in the midwest like missouri kentucky ohio illinois and then i

00:56:38.880 moved to florida for like five years and then i moved to california like two years ago okay okay

00:56:43.820 okay where in florida uh sarasota okay yeah i didn't want to be in like tampa or anything like

00:56:50.520 miami i can't deal with it i like the piece yeah i'm from florida too yeah uh miami orlando okay okay

00:56:58.480 miami's i like sunny isles sarasota's nice yeah it's it's kind of building up there's nothing to us

00:57:03.620 they have the utc mall and shit like they're so proud of it it's really cute very gulf community

00:57:09.340 yeah very quiet okay um go ahead pull it up eric is it like a furry is he a furry huh huh

00:57:18.000 oh you were the man in the middle scroll up to the top what's that video

00:57:21.660 please okay puffy vegas content follow me okay scroll down scroll down scroll down

00:57:27.380 super shout out why does he want that oh he says he's a dating coach okay scroll down very much so

00:57:32.060 ladies these videos these random pictures i don't see a lot of it is the lady or the man

00:57:37.080 is it the blonde is he paying them to take pictures i don't know what these videos are

00:57:41.500 okay um hit wait wait eric you hit the mute button right

00:57:56.060 just hit hit the mute button it's it's the red mute button

00:58:03.240 yeah her microphone is 10 yeah she's

00:58:06.880 okay unfortunately you have been eliminated no i'm kidding your your microphone is muted for the

00:58:13.360 next seven you're no no you're it's uh you're i know like your microphone's muted for seven minutes

00:58:21.080 all right rips don't worry it'll be right back it'll be back okay um

00:58:27.700 it's it's fine i i'm keeping track um

00:58:33.700 or just put it back on and then tell us um pull his instagram back up

00:58:38.440 by the way bad zxe thank you for the uh big pro you're in

00:58:42.080 you're insane dude in a good way thank you man really appreciate the support

00:58:45.680 yeah we're gonna rate this guy scroll down let's get an actual proper photo of him

00:58:49.600 um okay pull the one up the video with the three chicks

00:58:54.260 actually wait it's a video don't no never mind never mind scroll down scroll down

00:58:58.380 uh okay all right i mean there's a lot of photos of you with chicks dude yeah who are they scroll

00:59:05.860 down keep scrolling keep going down down down one year olds where do you live they look american

00:59:10.360 he looks like he's in vegas 24 7 what is going on okay okay um club crawl okay there you go there's

00:59:18.800 his face um this guy obviously a giga chad he has a million vegas chicks okay all right um

00:59:27.480 one to ten what do you rate him

00:59:29.540 uh whoops okay now just go ahead i don't rate people

00:59:36.700 so i have no number to give i find it i find it pretty serious that's bullshit it's bullshit to

00:59:45.000 give a number to people it's not bullshit yeah it is let me ask you would you date someone shorter

00:59:49.560 than you i it happened actually i actually most of my dates were shorter than six feet well i don't

00:59:58.900 know how you're not six feet tall answer the question no no i mean definitely yes i thought

01:00:04.240 it happened at least once for sure of the men that you've had relationships with that that i dated

01:00:10.520 yeah are they short would you okay would you date a short guy oh my god the chat is on fire holy shit

01:00:18.260 flan life thank you for the 50 gifted um we will do the fit check in just a sec we need to uh get

01:00:24.660 through the rating thing of of our gentleman here um how is it related with me not wanting to rate

01:00:29.680 the story well i mean you object to someone putting a numerical value judgment on someone's

01:00:35.380 total physical appearance however someone's height is quite literally a numerical value judgment and

01:00:43.880 most women happen to have a height preference so for you to say that well i object to i don't want to

01:00:50.660 give i don't want to touch hold on let me finish if if you're saying you object to this one to ten rating

01:00:56.700 scale then surely you must also object to women who won't date men who are shorter than them sure

01:01:02.000 because that's quite literally a numerical value judgment i think it's potentially offensive to give

01:01:08.700 a number to a guy as much as it's offensive i mean he's asking wait oh my is that again holy shit this

01:01:16.800 flan life he is he is uh on fire thank you man holy shit the guy in question is asking for a rate

01:01:22.600 though so it's okay to give you a number yeah yeah he's asking but i don't want to i don't like

01:01:27.300 i can i can rate the next girl but not the others okay i'm so sorry but i would give you like a two

01:01:33.860 or one all right she's honest one or two which one is it one one okay that's a bit harsh that's the

01:01:40.440 lowest that's pretty tough that's like enjoy the way that he's exploiting himself on an interim like

01:01:46.760 that with thousands of different women what do you mean exploiting himself projecting himself

01:01:51.700 oh project okay okay like so what do you give him though one to ten a one i i don't know him

01:01:57.200 personally so i i'll say one just for you know a little bit but not not a man okay what do you

01:02:06.500 give him one to ten his page needs updating um if that was a dating app i'd swipe left but uh

01:02:15.240 i'm gonna give him a four because he's trying he's trying to dress well he's trying to smile

01:02:23.060 for the camera and a photo so he's that potential guy a lot of girls will follow what about you

01:02:28.760 a four i think he's wearing a suit so i think that's a nice point it looks nice

01:02:34.800 john what do you i'll give him a six because if five is average i think he's above average at least

01:02:40.920 he's putting on a suit he's out there trying you know i'm not just doing strictly on looks i'm

01:02:47.280 doing like the whole idea he's out there he's trying um i'm gonna have another like contrarian

01:02:54.320 answer but um i rate men on a binary of zero or one and that was a zero okay so not attractive

01:03:02.860 not attractive that's the binary yeah you're muted i uh i think it's just you find that person

01:03:10.860 attractive or you don't and that's all that really matters i think only guys are really into like

01:03:17.040 rating on a scale of one to ten because it's more visual but women just kind of they either like

01:03:22.920 the guy or they're decisive yeah i i disagree with that i think women have a rating scale whether

01:03:28.760 they like to admit it or not in fact you hear this the this game on tiktok he's a 10 but he wears

01:03:35.140 flip-flops so i mean i think both men and women tiktok sound though what's not it's people both men and

01:03:41.980 women uh determine whether they want to partner with someone or not based on physical appearance and

01:03:48.900 we you can like sort people by more attractive less attractive um yeah but it's like you either

01:03:58.560 pick them or you don't you know so it's zero but so okay so mary i have a question for you though so

01:04:04.140 okay you let's say there's two two guys that fall within the binary of say yes so is that a one for

01:04:13.520 you if it's a yes or zero i assume zero is no one is a yes one is yes so within the group of men that

01:04:22.260 could potentially fall into a one you wouldn't say that some might be more attractive than others

01:04:28.020 they're all just equivalent attractiveness i mean the decision you make to date a guy or not is a

01:04:35.420 zero or a one so she's right whether you give a guy a chance it's a zero or a one that's how i

01:04:40.760 calculate it i mean maybe you like somebody a little bit more than another guy but you both

01:04:45.560 like them and you both i've never really liked two people at once or multiple people so right that's

01:04:51.420 how i see it it's a good for you okay good thing it's a good okay good good times i think because

01:04:59.000 the scale for guys in one to ten it's like the guys are like saying yes but it's like what degree

01:05:03.600 of enjoyment you know it's like one is like oh i'd have to tolerate this in like 10 is like okay i'll

01:05:08.600 do anything to do this again you know it's just a degree of enjoyment not so much a yes or no sure

01:05:14.200 because for most guys 95 percent of the time the answer is yes you know he says my average rating

01:05:20.660 in person is usually a 10 no bullshit good for you it looks like it congratulations my average rating

01:05:25.740 in person is that are you saying your own self-assessment or the rating that women

01:05:30.960 he's laying out with that white women in the photos that's what i'm saying they're not all fat

01:05:34.140 the uh the the like office workers from the midwest who are like in vegas for

01:05:42.660 for a week at least he's trying at least he's trying to even know they're being filmed at least

01:05:48.860 he's trying at least he's trying no no maybe that's why i gave you the one point all right puffy vegas

01:05:53.820 thank you man appreciate it um okay you can unmute her mic i believe the seven minutes has elapsed welcome

01:05:59.140 back to the conversation it's more like i just have commentary i like when people say things like

01:06:07.140 i really am so intrigued to listen that'd be so funny if you just came in right again just like

01:06:11.480 you'd again okay um were we going around on something i'm single or not i think we got yeah

01:06:18.180 we got everybody well related to the rating thing we have stifler here ask everyone to rate their

01:06:22.300 looks on a scale of one to ten let's start with you go ahead i don't even want to rate my looks i

01:06:29.060 just want to rate my fucking personality well i feel like my personality is like an eight

01:06:33.180 how about sure we we can open it up to that so rate your looks on a scale of one to ten and then

01:06:38.260 rate your personality on the scale my looks change all the time and there are so many times where i'm

01:06:43.060 like looking in the mirror without makeup on or i'm just completely raw and i'm like you know

01:06:47.040 i'm not feeling that great right now myself so it's it just varies all the fucking time i can't

01:06:51.840 give a direct answer sure okay how about this fresh out of the shower um not disheveled but fresh

01:06:57.580 out the shower no makeup and then how you rate your appearance on instagram fuck i hate instagram um

01:07:04.600 i think my appearance out of the shower i love i oh fuck i hate this i'd say i'm a six out of the

01:07:13.140 shower okay and then on instagram my instagram is like i hate this question my instagram's like a nine

01:07:23.660 your instagram's a nine yeah okay okay what about you 5.4 oh okay all right i want to know why the

01:07:31.880 point very specific why the like the point four uh because i'm um uh like spiritually a six but i

01:07:43.880 really don't get it i don't know how to explain that anything hold on we got something coming in

01:07:48.580 here oh there it is oh my god like just watch something else listen i'll leave that's totally

01:07:58.580 fine no no listen i will i'm so hungry right now i don't need to talk i know uh what do you rate

01:08:07.960 yourself on the scale of one to ten i would say i'm like uh seven or i'd say like an eight i would

01:08:13.800 say an eight because i think i'm like naturally beautiful yes and i think that goes pretty far

01:08:18.820 how old are you i'm 20 yeah um my i feel like my answer changes every time i come on here because

01:08:29.420 kaiser wilhelm what's your rating people always bash me when i say a 10 but i would say a solid eight

01:08:37.300 okay okay in truth i'm gonna go with seven that you're lucky number seven i know what i'm working

01:08:44.320 with um four or five okay yeah no i don't understand no yeah well based on uh i don't think that's low

01:08:55.980 either you're you're you're eight yep sorry i don't i don't know it's it's four or five uh john

01:09:03.720 four out of the shower five sure john i give myself a six mary i think a seven okay i give

01:09:13.140 myself six six point nine on a good day it's been a minute since i've had a good internationally

01:09:18.640 internationally i'm a seven but i think in states where their people are just delusional okay six

01:09:23.120 what what about in japan uh i'm like seven eight in japan okay got it got it i wanted to go back to

01:09:31.020 you you mentioned something about queen and king shit um and it sounded like and you said you you

01:09:38.600 took a course or something to get more into your feminine what did you rate yourself yeah oh i didn't

01:09:44.100 hear seven okay yeah oh fit check i'm sorry uh let's do a quick fit check why not so we're gonna just

01:09:50.420 have everyone stand up we're gonna get a look at everyone's fit so if everyone wants to do a little

01:09:55.160 quick stand up i'm not gonna do that fair enough yeah everyone stand up so we can see like you know

01:10:01.940 what what kind of uh okay cool um that's a red dress um that is uh where's waldo i think over there

01:10:10.600 this is her waldo um madison over there wearing the is that a jean a dream crop top

01:10:17.940 uh a little spin a little spin

01:10:21.820 okay that was a lovely fit check thank you guys um and then flan flan life i think uh

01:10:32.000 hold up let me i got you bro i got you all right so uh

01:10:36.860 every fucking time let's go everyone's wanting to know why you have seven on your shirt

01:10:44.980 i don't know if i'm gonna ever reveal that that's maybe uh

01:10:50.760 i'll reveal it i'll reveal it for a bitcoin um

01:10:57.100 i'm a greedy son of a bitch okay uh yo flan life thank you so much for those uh gifted memberships

01:11:04.060 appreciate it man you're a fucking legend really appreciate the support like i said especially

01:11:07.740 appreciate the support after that shit show last stream um like i said we got we got temp banned

01:11:13.640 on twitch and youtube but it was it was resolved or whatever so we're we're all good um okay

01:11:19.560 we're doing the rating you kind of objected to this rating thing so i wanted to go into that a

01:11:24.840 little bit so what i guess what's your qualm with the rating thing um i don't like well i don't like

01:11:30.340 numbers in general and in the in this what you like failed calculus or something in this red red

01:11:36.500 pill sphere there are too many numbers that are attached to people and i think exactly i already

01:11:42.640 i already get confused just looking at that so the point is that if for example i give her a five

01:11:49.620 it's like a number that gets attached to her and she will have even if she doesn't care she will think

01:11:56.180 about it and i don't i don't think i don't see why i have to judge people that way yeah definitely i have

01:12:02.720 an opinion inside my mind but i don't i don't see why i have to like say it so explicitly even if i

01:12:09.440 want to give her a 10 you know i mean i don't like the numbers attached to people we are more than that

01:12:15.520 and as also the story of the six feet five points you know like those are other numbers that are

01:12:22.900 attached people so i agree i agree with you 100 when you say that we are unfair when we uh like

01:12:29.460 exclude a guy just because he's not six feet uh because that's just a number another number that

01:12:35.860 i hate the fucking body count sorry i swear the body count yeah we will get there of course but we

01:12:41.380 can start off we can behind the number there is a person that's what i mean and so like like try to

01:12:47.520 understand what the person is not not do not stop to the body count well i mean that's can i i mean we

01:12:55.500 can talk about other numbers too i mean for example we can talk about if you object so much to using

01:13:00.880 numbers to categorize people let's talk about someone's income for example let's talk about penis size

01:13:06.520 for example so i mean to say that to suggest that men are these creatures that are overly superficial

01:13:14.100 and judgmental when it comes to women's appearance i didn't say that well you well you're objecting to

01:13:19.060 the one to ten rating scale but i mean you you're and and you're also objecting to the body counting

01:13:25.360 which is actually beyond something that's physical it's actually speaks to someone's um uh someone's i

01:13:31.640 guess you could say to their uh behavior which i think is critically important so and i mean there's

01:13:37.760 a mirror it doesn't explain you what's behind that number it just gives you the number but if you

01:13:43.120 get stuck stuck there and so you judge a person if she or he has a seven or or 27 you are not actually

01:13:51.120 knowing that person you're stuck to the surface what's behind the number so for example okay can

01:13:56.860 i give you an example go ahead like let's suppose a girl is 30 years old and she has uh 100 as body

01:14:03.100 count that's immediately a slut right immediately uh according to the red pill vision but that's the

01:14:09.480 the mind that she was a slut way before 100 that's that what you get in your mind immediately but you

01:14:15.900 don't know what's her story so that story can confirm your bias or not confirm your bias sometimes the

01:14:22.440 story doesn't matter right if you're looking for a partner well let's if that person is here's a

01:14:27.140 number about somebody their weight if somebody is 500 pounds i don't need to find out the story

01:14:31.940 behind why they're 500 pounds and well you should you shouldn't instead you should you should know the

01:14:36.400 story because you don't know the physical condition of that person you don't know why should i care

01:14:39.740 though if i'm not interested well if you are not interested you just stay stuck to the number and

01:14:44.260 move on so the guy is not interested in someone with 100 body count that's a number and he's no no

01:14:49.280 it's like they are they are over interested yeah but the problem i mean the problem with me you can

01:14:54.140 definitely judge based on the numbers the problem with me is that you don't get to know that person if

01:14:59.200 you stay stuck or if you just judge on what they how many 500 pound guys have you given a chance

01:15:04.180 no no i mean i respond to the reverse i dated only two guys that were six feet

01:15:09.960 in all my dating history all there all the others are there are some things where like someone doesn't

01:15:15.640 even get through the door based on something superficial and that's okay that's fine that's

01:15:20.060 fine but he asked me why i object the numbers and i'm responding because i get stuck stuck to the

01:15:26.960 surface and i don't go beyond that and i don't like that so if i want to refuse a person i want to have

01:15:32.200 a more deep idea of what their person is at that point i can say okay maybe it's better not to date

01:15:37.680 that person but if he just like if brian tells me i am 45 as a body count and for me it's too high

01:15:44.020 and i tell him explicitly i'm not going to date you because you're 45 that's bullshit i mean i get to

01:15:51.300 know what's behind that why he got 45 i get to know what's his life experience if i don't like it

01:15:57.920 i at that point i would be like but people are entitled to their thing that disqualifies a

01:16:02.540 potential partner like they're entitled to that without an explanation or a story they are entitled

01:16:07.560 i'm telling you what i do nobody asked me my opinion so i don't like to stay stuck on the

01:16:12.580 numbers well it's also the reason why i did not rate that guy well i don't think it's i don't think

01:16:17.080 it's bullshit nobody is obliged to date anybody you could have the most arbitrary reason to not want

01:16:23.980 to date someone i don't want to date them because their favorite color is purple it's a ridiculous

01:16:29.940 maybe this isn't the perfect example but nobody is entitled to a relationship with someone else no

01:16:36.140 one is obliged to date anyone else whether it's rational or rational i happen to think though when

01:16:41.340 it comes to body count that body count matters a lot so even if you even if you think it's irrational

01:16:49.100 even if you think it's a bullshit someone is entitled to not want to date someone for any

01:16:54.640 number of reasons i mean you're free to do whatever you want i'm telling you my perspective

01:17:00.380 i don't like to get stuck to the numbers yeah have you been with a virgin i have yeah how did you feel

01:17:07.560 about the lack of inexperience the lack of inexperience lack of experience what um i mean

01:17:17.980 i i don't really care about a girl's sexual experience guys don't care about that and here's

01:17:27.260 the other thing when it comes to experience most women whether they're virgins or not look to men

01:17:34.080 to initiate and to lead so if you're a guy who has even some level of experience and you know what

01:17:40.720 you're doing whether that's in within the context of a relationship or sexually in the bedroom

01:17:45.120 if you know what you're doing you can have really good sex with a girl who's a virgin who's never had

01:17:51.820 sex before a woman need not have ever had sex for me to have good sex with her however for most women

01:17:58.340 they're gonna look at a guy who's a virgin and be like he's gonna be bad in bed i don't most women

01:18:03.720 now there are some women who are more dominant for example who are okay with leading but most women are

01:18:10.120 going to be turned off by a guy who they have to teach how to fuck them whereas most guys it would

01:18:14.960 actually be a turn on it's it's a turn on to like teach a girl

01:18:20.440 i also believe that women need the time to how do i put this um a man really seems to get into a woman

01:18:33.080 fully releasing and women who lack experience don't really know how to do that quite yet well

01:18:41.920 i mean i i don't think you're wrong insofar as a woman who's inexperienced perhaps might be nervous

01:18:47.960 or might be a bit in her head however i don't think that's a given i don't think that's necessarily

01:18:53.420 a given and i would actually argue that that women who have less experience who have had fewer sexual

01:18:58.460 partners are actually more capable of being fully immersed in the experience whereas women who have

01:19:04.160 had a hundred hold on women who have had a hundred previous partners it's like okay here again the it's

01:19:10.880 gone the the i'm not it's not exciting anymore like what's a high with body count i'm genuine i mean

01:19:16.420 it varies based on age so you know someone who's in their 30s it's perhaps you give a bit more leeway

01:19:23.480 uh but i mean i think honestly anything uh okay as far as the statistics show i think it's anything

01:19:32.620 over six is like really bad for long-term commitment um if you what's up yeah yes you can you should

01:19:42.440 have you should have go ahead what what do you mean i know but you muted you should you unmuted her then

01:19:52.060 another one came in so did you mute you muted her she's been mute this whole time yes didn't the

01:19:59.580 time's up now so you can but the time's up yeah yeah the time's up don't you don't need to ask you

01:20:03.400 can just do it um do you say do you have sources for what you're saying like is it a statistics yeah

01:20:09.340 they've done do you have sources for what you're saying what what i might say you're saying that it

01:20:14.880 doesn't matter what what it doesn't matter the body counts i love the point you made though because

01:20:21.180 he's saying something very precise sorry something very specific um a person that has gone with more

01:20:28.620 than six people uh has what very low chance to get a long relationship that's not exactly what i said

01:20:35.380 your soul ties with people marital satisfaction soul ties with people when you have sex with them like

01:20:40.600 emotional hormonal connections with people the more people you have sex with the less and less

01:20:46.520 like where are the studies like testify that i believe it there's been they have done studies on

01:20:53.420 this i mean and the they've also uh asked people they've asked people who are divorced for example

01:20:59.620 this what's that who is the scholar that conducted those studies yeah i don't well we can pull up the

01:21:07.380 infographic maybe i'm just maybe there's just like a bunch of people that don't well i'll tell

01:21:10.940 you i'll tell you one of the one of the most popular sorry no i i agree david bass steven pinker

01:21:16.580 sure what is it um those are um evolutionary psychologists that are often mentioned by the

01:21:22.400 i don't know pick-up artists red red pick-up artists let's say pick-up artists it's actually

01:21:27.700 the other guys yeah it's the red pill we're not actually we're not picking up artists

01:21:31.100 what what they say is that uh promiscuity because that's what we are talking about

01:21:36.440 changes uh and again these scholars when you actually read the scholars and you don't read

01:21:42.740 i don't know rollo tomasi or and company when you actually read the scholars they are very careful

01:21:48.460 at saying that our studies my study has limitations and we are offering a model that explain the majority

01:21:57.560 of the situation but not all of them so they they show the macrocosm but the single individuals may

01:22:04.520 definitely behave in a different way so for what concerns from promiscuity they said that women are

01:22:11.960 actually they behave very differently during their life so in a range of time between 18 19 20 until uh 27

01:22:21.880 they are 27 26 there is not a specific age but basically they have they are more promiscuous they

01:22:28.920 tend to be more promiscuous on a general term after the age they change uh sometimes even drastically

01:22:36.920 their behavior so what i make what i mean is that if a girl is 26 years old and she has been for

01:22:43.320 with 30 guys there is the possibility and it's actually the studies these are scientific studies

01:22:49.720 what does the study say what does it say they say that basically there is an uh a range of age

01:22:55.400 around 30 years old where women have a lower libido so less desire to have sex and they want to

01:23:02.840 settle and have longer relationships so also their body count that is like doesn't raise as before so

01:23:10.120 in level of promiscuity is not stable like men because the the desire for men is stable and also

01:23:16.520 the body counts than to get up that i mean what you just said does nothing to disprove the fact that

01:23:22.440 people who have the the more premarital sexual partners you have the greater likelihood of

01:23:27.320 infidelity hold on the greater likelihood of infidelity the greater likelihood of divorce the

01:23:32.040 greater likelihood of reporting relationship can you stop interrupting the greater likelihood of

01:23:36.840 reporting relationship to satisfaction and the greater likelihood of std yeah but that's the same for

01:23:42.600 so what i'm saying is that that is okay that's the same for men though it's so it's different actually

01:23:48.360 how is it the the men's pair bonding can be impacted and these it it is also the case for men but i

01:23:57.720 believe what the studies show is that this impact of having more premarital sexual partners is actually

01:24:03.880 more pronounced in women yeah no yes no because men wants to i mean sorry but what what studies did

01:24:11.720 you did you read so i'm telling you just listen listen there's multiple studies can you start

01:24:16.280 multiple infographics folder stating that like the more sexual partners women have she has higher

01:24:22.360 instances of anxiety higher instances of depression higher instances of relationship uh unsatisfaction as

01:24:29.960 well as marriage and divorce as well and it's common sense like like i don't know why everybody's

01:24:34.600 trying to pretend like being a hose okay like the average guy doesn't sit down and do like yeah i really

01:24:39.560 want a girl who's been ran through oh jesus christ okay 8.52 guys 8.52 okay unfortunately your mic notes for for her

01:24:55.000 her microphone's been muted can i uh number nine number nine um eric so you're gonna pull up

01:25:03.320 your there's a cdc study it's called sex partner cdc and then the proceeding there's four um it's

01:25:10.600 alphabetical order so there's four other ones after that actually sorry there's five other ones after

01:25:15.400 that it's a divorce less stable marriage marriage satisfaction promiscuity and sti um so you can pull all

01:25:23.240 those up um laura uh what you were saying about how women's promiscuity uh is different over time

01:25:31.800 as they age sorry repeat is this unfair i feel like the mute a microphone thing is unfair i don't know

01:25:37.640 okay well go on what you were saying about how women's levels of promiscuity change as they age

01:25:43.640 like going through their 20s and then their 30s i don't i don't say that it's for all i mean if that's

01:25:48.600 if that's i'm sorry bro she stole the bike if that's the case um if anything i would see that

01:25:56.280 as an argument um if true for women in their 20s being in a monogamous relationship marriage

01:26:03.320 uh when their sex drive is at the highest and their fertility is at the highest

01:26:08.120 that's not what the studies show they they actually show that they're pretty horny you're

01:26:13.000 actually wrong the women's libido goes up i can give you even no no women's libido typically goes

01:26:19.400 up as you get older because their estrogen goes down their testosterone goes up um here let's do

01:26:24.840 this let's do this we're gonna pull up i'm talking about women not i'm sorry bad zxc she stole the mic

01:26:29.800 i can't do anything i can't do it highest in your 20s then there's no let's no more mute a microphone

01:26:35.000 please guys no more mute a microphone as the women yeah it happens to some women that they get menopause and

01:26:39.880 then they get like right before menopause then yes they can't even deal with in the like in their

01:26:45.640 60s i feel like it's not fair you know um here let's pull up the studies um eric can you pull them

01:26:50.280 up please all right so this is from the cdc uh and eric can you zoom in so we can see the top ones

01:27:02.520 so women who have more non-marital sexual more not of non-marital sexual partners are more likely to be

01:27:08.360 infected with sexually transmitted diseases as you see the lower your pre uh non-marital sexual

01:27:13.640 partner count it increases the more 21 plus it's up there 41 or scroll up a bit there that's if you

01:27:19.640 don't have safe sex though because you can easily wear a condom yeah condoms condoms don't prevent you

01:27:25.400 from that's true getting stds necessarily uh the the next one says women who have more non-marital

01:27:31.640 sexual partners are less likely to have stable marriages so uh let's see and the the source is

01:27:38.520 the cdc um scroll down women who have more non-marital sexual partners are less likely to

01:27:47.720 be happy say that i would never you can say that then women who have more non-marital sexual partners

01:27:53.240 are more likely to be depressed that's one go to the next one eric oh my god uh chance of divorce

01:27:59.960 after five years of marriage um and the first one is zero partner and then it peaks goes up to it's

01:28:07.960 interesting how it kind of dips i so this particular data set might not be the most reliable and they

01:28:13.320 don't cite anything but um there is uh well just because it's an odd there's an odd dip there or a peak

01:28:20.840 at two and then a dip and then back 10 plus it peaks and 1980s 1990s and then yellows 2000s i'd be

01:28:28.200 curious to see this i think probably the end count on this one is pretty low but let's see the next one

01:28:35.160 oh i think this is from the uh uh institute for family studies and so the uh oh this is from the gss

01:28:43.240 and they from 1986 to 2016 um and the total end count is it looks like about 12 000 people they

01:28:50.600 surveyed um which is it's pretty good and the microphone's muted just saying i'm just saying

01:28:58.440 it's still muted hello um wait um okay so she look she grabbed the other microphone i'm sorry guys um

01:29:06.920 okay so sexual history marital satisfaction uh the more partners you have lower your marital satisfaction um

01:29:16.520 um holy they're really spamming refund my bad her microphone's still muted i think so we're good

01:29:23.640 we're good you know bad zxc dm me after the show if you want a refund okay uh next one

01:29:32.120 uh female promiscuity over time partner count uh and then this just shows scroll down i don't know the

01:29:39.400 source on this but why does this matter marriage stability happiness and stds scroll down what are the

01:29:44.520 sources all the way at the bottom family studies dot org okay i mean we don't have those pdfs on hand

01:29:51.960 but it's an infographic whether you want to believe it or not i mean you don't have to uh i think you're

01:29:59.080 still muted yeah so uh does hold on we'll let you come in but let's you're muted so we're gonna get

01:30:05.640 we'll have uh do you did you have something you wanted to say on this pair bonding

01:30:09.320 so i just i agree with your topic because i do feel like i've experienced it but i'm really okay

01:30:17.960 with the experiences i've had i love sex and i can just enjoy sex as is because i'm not looking for a

01:30:24.280 partner but for someone who might be looking for a partner and they're continually having sexual

01:30:29.080 experiences with different people that they might meet um it is going to be harder for you to bond with

01:30:34.200 them over time because maybe you don't trust them because you're like how many people have you slept

01:30:38.360 with or you know i haven't slept with that many but you know what i mean your pairing is just very

01:30:42.280 different it's very hormonal and men or women are very different so i feel like this is a real thing

01:30:47.640 and soul bonding soul ties you know if you're really trying to get connected to somebody trying to have

01:30:52.840 a relationship with somebody having sex with multiple partners is definitely going to affect that

01:30:57.240 like i said i feel it i connect very differently with people because maybe not because of the amount of

01:31:02.680 people i've slept with but because of how i view men and i don't i don't know it's not how do you

01:31:09.960 that's it i knew you were gonna fucking ask that so anyway it's not like i view you we need an

01:31:15.720 ahi gal face right now by the way there you go

01:31:21.720 you're missing the tongue hello oh okay so sometimes you can add that sometimes you can't

01:31:25.160 sometimes i drool you know there's different versions of it so many okay depends on how excited i

01:31:30.120 what i want to i'm curious for her view on men so wait wait yeah yeah your view on men what was it

01:31:36.200 so i view men pay pigs very in like they're all in the same box at the end of the day doesn't matter

01:31:44.040 about like your stature or how much you make i feel like you're all very very similar and very

01:31:49.640 simple-minded but if a guy said the same about women you know all yours which i am i am very simple

01:31:55.400 minded i feel like in some ways and just i mean but men and women are so different so that's not even a

01:31:59.640 conversation i feel like but i feel like men are i just what i don't connect to someone like

01:32:06.440 i mean i was engaged for a little while and then i broke off the engagement because of how caged i

01:32:11.000 was feeling and i burst it out of that and like i'm really happy but i just i don't know men are

01:32:17.320 just so all over the board because after i after i dumped that guy he got married like a year later

01:32:22.600 so it wasn't even about me it was like you just want to get fucking married you know so i just don't feel

01:32:27.560 like tell us tell us how you really feel yeah just do it tell us how you really feel go on i thought i

01:32:36.440 just did oh was that not clear i feel like you're being a bit vague as far as how you feel about men

01:32:43.160 i love men you love me i do i really hate all men because your ex what's that you hate all men

01:32:48.760 because of what your ex did i never said i hated men i fucking love men i need dick in my life like

01:32:53.640 if a man were speaking about women the way that you just spoke about which they do what is the

01:32:58.840 difference i'm just on a podcast talking about it no i never said i would what what would they say

01:33:05.400 about me i'm simple okay no if they were saying not about you but about all women that they're all

01:33:09.640 the same and they're simple-minded i think you'd find it i just feel like men are so simple like

01:33:14.680 like what's like the main podcast yeah i agree what's like the main thing you hear about men

01:33:19.880 men are like feed me fuck me and you know take care of me like i always hear that that's how

01:33:25.480 simple it is when anyone talks about all men or all women why don't you go run offense towards those

01:33:30.600 men and try to like tell them not to do that then why do you choose to only because the person in

01:33:34.760 front of me just talked about men so i'm talking to the person in front of me okay but it seems like

01:33:38.440 what am i gonna be like the warrior you're trying to say but if men do that it's so wrong and it's like

01:33:43.720 men do do that all the time girl all the time all the time that's what i'm saying it's fair play

01:33:48.920 how is it wrong it's just an opinion just listen listen listen first of all that's sexist uh listen

01:33:55.160 no we get you and that's fine that you said that even if men generalize even if men even if you like

01:34:01.720 generalize men you understand that men generalize women too oh million percent so i want to ask you

01:34:06.680 a question no because i want to talk about you so you said you're in this phase right now where you're

01:34:10.680 just enjoying sex you're enjoying multiple you know things do you ever want to settle down have

01:34:16.600 a long-term partner or is it just not in your plan you know i really thought i did and it's not that i

01:34:21.480 don't it's that i just don't know yet because in my mind i can't envision a relationship that would be

01:34:28.760 healthy for me okay do you want to have kids or is that absolutely not it's a hard no for the rest of

01:34:34.680 life no um a lot of what you were saying bringing a child into this world it's my own views on

01:34:41.800 children it's me as a person not being able to parent correctly i feel like it's a lot of different

01:34:47.560 things and i just i love being a dog mom that's it like i'm so happy that's it cool

01:34:54.600 so since you recognize this reality of like soul ties as this common sense thing that the people that

01:34:59.800 you have sex with you have a bond with them that's never going to be broken don't you think that in

01:35:04.520 the future if you eventually do start looking for a partner that your amount of promiscuity now is

01:35:09.400 going to negatively affect your it already has and i've accepted it it's really okay you know because

01:35:14.600 i feel like there's supposed to be people like me in the world where you're just supposed to be alone

01:35:18.040 and you're supposed to make an impact based on being kind of sad i'm not sad at all though

01:35:23.960 that really does why because society tells us you're supposed to be in a relationship i'm so curious now

01:35:28.760 because all my brothers and sisters out of five kids they all are married and they all have

01:35:33.480 children i'm the only one that is single and doesn't have kids and i'm like living living living

01:35:39.400 living my life things that they've never done and that is so you never want to have a long-term

01:35:44.920 partner relationship you're just i'd say three years is almost long term no i'm saying like in

01:35:49.240 like you just never want to have a life partner oh i never said never um i just feel like yes it will

01:35:54.040 be difficult for me to find somebody but what you're doing right now may make it even more

01:35:59.480 difficult but that's fine well i'm not looking no i'm not asking but when you are looking why would

01:36:03.640 i love you when why i don't understand why you think i'm gonna change not interested in that people

01:36:09.000 that you don't have the same life as and that think very differently from you and that's that's what

01:36:13.800 life is you're gonna meet people who you're like why how do they feel like this is the culture we're

01:36:24.360 creating and i don't mean to oh please i love everyone's open thoughts but all on the table

01:36:29.720 this is what men are wanting no this is what no no i disagree this is what men don't want

01:36:37.000 i wish i could tell you how many men don't approach me like if this is not what men

01:36:42.920 she literally said she's not looking for a relationship men want she literally said she's

01:36:46.600 not men want to feel like they can take care of a lot of things she doesn't want a relationship

01:36:56.280 thank you nick okay you're trying to educate her that this isn't what men want and she's

01:37:04.040 literally stated so many times that she doesn't want a relationship no what i'm seeing i'm the

01:37:09.000 woman that men don't want she is the woman that i disagree completely and she thinks no so what were

01:37:16.280 you saying like why is that what men california superficiality what my viewpoint is is this is

01:37:24.360 what is sought after it's just because she's young and hot like women that are virgins well it's not

01:37:31.320 that it's not that deep the men on the show have actually said that they prefer women that don't

01:37:34.920 have a lot of sex this show you you i mean i've known that you said that yeah men do prefer women

01:37:40.600 with yeah like oh yeah yeah that's kind of prefer women with maybe less sexual partners is what

01:37:45.720 i thought you guys yeah i would say generally speaking men prefer women so i don't think it's

01:37:49.400 like this is what men want this is what you have to say about it you've been very quiet yes i want to

01:37:54.280 hear her by the way we should we should she's in a relationship we should also address her by her

01:37:59.400 her desired name arch duke arch duke france fernand okay say what yeah please please use her preferred

01:38:07.800 first name you can call me um arch can i call you archie sure wait on this topic of body count really

01:38:13.560 quick because i don't know if we've made some assumptions here didn't you say that you have

01:38:16.760 a low body count relative she said that i just decided not to speak about my body count did did that

01:38:22.600 come up it did um i believe you asked me was it that you said you like sex i don't understand i love

01:38:28.120 sex but i feel like you can love sex with a couple of partners you can rail their brains out with one

01:38:33.240 person but you know i love to cheat so it's not like yeah so i just i just if i'm being honest i

01:38:39.480 just never counted i never thought of men as like oh you're number one you're number two you're number

01:38:44.600 three you're number four no i just i really don't count well i mean the high body count thing is one

01:38:49.080 thing but the you love to cheat it's not even a love for it it's a fantasy it's just my sexual fantasy

01:38:55.240 preference one of them okay um i hold on i'm gonna send the missile hold on oh it's making noise

01:39:12.600 bro she loves to cheat hello okay um i like a lot of are you are you just name them i have a question

01:39:19.800 for you though and mary kind of brought this up at the beginning to what degree is this an act okay

01:39:27.880 well when i go to sleep i don't have my fucking ears on well no but i mean like i mean are you the way

01:39:32.840 you're emoting and the top and the i think she's like i have so many different voices i am a character

01:39:39.320 in one i can be so many things so many people i aspire to be just that but i'm not sure if i i i i mean

01:39:47.160 i perhaps i'm i could be wrong but i'm not sure i understand it's hard to understand someone like

01:39:51.720 me sitting in front of you but but it's very hard i don't think i've ever heard someone articulate that

01:39:58.040 they love to cheat most people would not openly admit to such a thing i'm single what am i hiding

01:40:02.840 from i don't have parents that are gonna be like you're rounded i can say whatever the fuck i want

01:40:06.840 can i not but i i almost wonder if you're just it's like i mean that's such an just sounds like

01:40:14.680 astonishing thing to say like almost intentionally have you ever cheated but why would that be bait

01:40:19.960 why would somebody go like why would people lie to the wrong like i mean it's a bit she could be

01:40:25.320 telling you you could be telling a lot of other sexual fantasies if you'd like to hear them and

01:40:29.160 we can dig into those this is just one of them hey oh he's just saying one mic at a time guys um

01:40:35.400 meaning you haven't actually cheated or it's not a fantasy it's just something you gave an example

01:40:41.080 so it's is that a question that you actually do yes okay this is a very strange is it rage bait

01:40:49.320 though like rage bait that's what i'm like i'm not sure what that is yeah well just like trying

01:40:53.560 to make you're just like saying something kind of controversial which actually isn't true angry

01:40:58.120 i just feel like it's my sexual fantasy and that's all it comes up to and you guys are making it bigger

01:41:03.240 than it is but you're saying that you do it in real life so it's not really just a fantasy is it you

01:41:07.000 actually but it's a sexual she said it's a fetish fantasy like you have fan you're a virgin never

01:41:12.520 mind but like when you feel like or you're just bad at explaining yourself really not i feel like

01:41:18.440 i've explained myself very clearly you don't understand you've been in exclusive relationships

01:41:24.200 where you lie to the person how is it lying it's just having sex with someone else and then i break

01:41:29.640 up with them they don't ever find out okay that's cheating that's cheating i didn't say it wasn't

01:41:34.840 cheating she said i've lied about it i said i didn't lie it's not like cheating and i said no

01:41:39.720 that's called but lying okay but here's the here's my question for you i think we can all acknowledge

01:41:44.440 that it's one like a sexual fantasy is one thing but cheating is something that can really substantially

01:41:51.560 hurt somebody so they can but so why it's one thing if like you have you want to wear a furry costume

01:41:59.560 right you have a sexual kink sexual fetish whatever that's fine but like when it comes to cheating

01:42:04.920 your openness with admitting it is a bit i'm trying to understand i'm not trying to judge you

01:42:11.720 i'm just trying to understand it telling the truth and being open and honest is like the biggest step

01:42:16.120 to having happiness in your life and i'm all about being happy and joyful and open and honest but

01:42:22.280 cheating is a very specific thing it really is but cheating would would be for example cheating is

01:42:29.000 different than being in an open relationship cheating is different than being polyamorous

01:42:33.240 cheating is being in a an overtly communicated monogamous relationship where there's exclusivity

01:42:41.160 and you basically being uh having sex with somebody else when there's an expectation way

01:42:48.360 more than it actually is it's a sexual fantasy and you're like digging into this whole big oh my god

01:42:53.400 oh my god i'm not married to any of these fuckers they were boyfriends very temporary boyfriends that i

01:42:58.600 got bored with because they were not supplying my sexual needs why didn't you just break up with

01:43:03.560 them that's easy but again it's a sexual fantasy it wouldn't be a fantasy if i broke up with them

01:43:07.320 well if it was fantasy to betray them betrayal but i mean just because so deep yes not that deep it's

01:43:14.120 just sex but but okay let me let me ask you a question but you just admitted that sex is soul ties and

01:43:19.240 i did just say that and then i also said that i'm not looking for that rip i was about to propose

01:43:25.160 to you but unfortunately you keep like going back and forth with what you're saying about sex though

01:43:30.040 i can though well i'm so confused uh that's nice is it real

01:43:39.800 wow the spotlight and everything did you buy it for somebody and have to

01:43:43.160 you should do the missile now yeah because it bombed you know do the missile whatever because

01:43:47.800 you're not gonna propose i also don't get this whole like red pill blue pill don't worry about

01:43:52.440 it um well you say it's a sexual fantasy right but for example if if someone had a sexual fantasy that

01:43:59.000 involved like uh like this is like an extreme but committing like a war crime like wow like a nuclear bomb

01:44:08.200 like literally holy my bad like literally a nuclear bomb oh i'd sent it too soon my bad um

01:44:19.720 do you know what i mean like you're you're saying that you're you're cheating is justified because

01:44:24.040 it's a sexual fantasy it's justified i don't think what i'm doing is right i never said i'm doing what

01:44:30.120 i think is right i said it's a sexual fantasy i get off i come to

01:44:35.160 fucking someone who has a girlfriend or me having a boyfriend it's actually rarely me having a

01:44:41.400 boyfriend and me cheating on them because i don't want to hurt people i don't go out of my way to

01:44:45.400 hurt people of course i have that's how i ended my that's you going out of your way to hurt people

01:44:49.160 so you do that yeah it's going out of my way to have a you're hurting the girl if you're having sex

01:44:52.600 with a guy who's in a relationship what's that you're hurting the girl if you're sleeping with a

01:44:57.000 guy who has a girlfriend bro hold on i don't know why you're taking this like arsenal but i don't know how you

01:45:03.080 guys are so prepared to defend defend i'm not defending i would never do that i don't have

01:45:09.640 the same thing it's not just it's like all of this you go girl like i love it

01:45:13.400 oh my god stop stop wait nobody said you go girl i'm just trying to stop you from bending

01:45:19.960 over backwards and trying to understand why somebody has a fetish hold on hold on it's a

01:45:25.240 fetish like what they're not always great like sex only while coveting virginal women to be potential

01:45:32.440 mothers of our legacy their past 100 matters along with youth loyalty beauty etc wise menus social

01:45:41.000 media to disqualify single serving blue ear bukake buckles yo zentians is it me the red dress

01:45:49.320 zentians thank you for the two honestly you have to explain me that i have to reread that do i have to

01:45:54.040 answer i'm grandma please that's it did you have a response what's what's going what's going on

01:46:01.240 over here what's the deal we were just talking about chipotle what what were you actually saying

01:46:06.440 though i said i'm so bored and she said let's go get let's go get chipotle it's kind of rude don't

01:46:13.400 you think are you kind of rude to be asking a woman to explain something that she's explained so many

01:46:17.640 you're on a dating podcast we're on a dating podcast and you think that you're dating comparing

01:46:22.920 it to like it's not up for discussion has a point like i'm on a podcast where men are begging women

01:46:29.400 to explain themselves and i'm complaining about how women are having to explain themselves constantly

01:46:33.640 that is kind of like dumb someone has a but also is driving five hours from washington to be on this

01:46:38.920 podcast that's dumb drive here i fly here whatever for work this is my job well what what respect i have

01:46:46.440 for you bro okay was that why are you shaking bro okay you're literally chill out i don't know why

01:46:53.880 you're so angry maybe i'm not maybe i'm just bored and i've been sitting here for like you want to leave

01:47:02.360 bro we're at i'm trying i'm not judging her i'm just trying to understand i just think you're coming

01:47:07.720 at it like i'm doing a serious crime that i should be in jail for and it's like a crime we're just saying

01:47:12.680 it's wrong no you okay i never said you're coming at it like i'm a criminal and it's just like no

01:47:17.960 no that's not literally just like an orgasm that's not well that's not what i'm saying i let me ask

01:47:22.360 you a clarifying question here so you have this cheating uh fantasy what do you call it the kink a

01:47:28.920 fetish yeah either or yeah so is it i here here's my clarifying question that perhaps could give me a

01:47:38.200 bit more guidance on this when you're with a partner a boyfriend for example do you tell them

01:47:43.800 that you have this fetish i have told is it something that they for example so this is within

01:47:49.480 the realm of consent i can open up to a partner and i've been having sex with them long enough to share

01:47:53.720 some of my sexual fantasies which are somewhat dark sometimes um i can like simulate a cheating

01:48:01.000 scene when i cosplay like when i'm in a completely different wig i'm like hey nala's not here right now

01:48:06.440 but i'm her sister like it's it's a cheating fantasy you guys like i feel like i will cheat

01:48:13.080 sometimes for sure or make someone cheat sometimes but like a lot of it's in my cosplays and i feel

01:48:19.640 like this is just like what are you doing what is this oh nothing that was just on my phone oh like

01:48:25.480 you told us not to be don't worry about it go on i had to check i had to check something okay what's

01:48:34.520 that was it huh i said the vibe is so bad it's really not you're the one who made it all it's been

01:48:40.040 bad the whole time and i'm sorry it was bad when people started disagreeing right coming on sorry

01:48:44.680 it was my fault okay well you can go really you can leave get up leave you're shaking too now

01:48:50.040 hey we're not shaking okay wait you're literally can't watch your camera you can leave you can

01:48:54.280 leave wait what i thought she said you were shaking no i'm shaking what no no baby hey get out

01:48:59.800 i gotta give her my number first rage quit she's leaving wow i'm trespassing you you now have to

01:49:06.360 leave get out of my studio hey get out i can't give her my number no you have to leave damn

01:49:12.920 um this is a bad look oh my god this is so weird it's poor liability

01:49:24.040 only in america what are your thoughts from the sidelines um what's going on i'm ready to go home

01:49:28.360 yeah we still got some time to go but like this the the vibes are bad because people are disagreeing

01:49:36.920 with you this is like the clip that went viral from my appearance last time is like i disagreed with

01:49:42.120 a girl and then she said oh that's bad vibes when i'm just trying to have a back and forth because

01:49:47.000 we're on a show yeah that's the whole point of the podcast i've done it plenty of times yeah

01:49:52.120 and people just think that they can go on a dating podcast and then not talk about their dating life

01:49:56.280 and not talk about personal things you knew that you were going to get asked personal questions and

01:50:01.000 this is what that's why i have the mask exactly like you took your your precautions yeah boundaries are

01:50:08.600 important say what you are going to say um i don't know i just uh just happy to be here

01:50:18.200 expecting this conversation though like i think she really is like who she's saying to be she never said

01:50:23.800 she was like right for doing it like she knows that she's wrong for doing it but um ah bro why can i get

01:50:32.040 like just a break like one show no can i just get like a chill show like it wasn't really that heavy

01:50:39.560 but she was i said like you're gonna end and you're gonna become more red pill just by doing this show

01:50:44.440 and like tolerating with the craziness that's gonna like jade you bro i'm so i'm so like this is like a

01:50:50.120 heated environment especially if people aren't normally on shows all right we're gonna take her out of the

01:50:54.840 uh description um deleted uh let's can we clear i think what they're just saying though is like we

01:51:01.880 think you're kind of putting on a personality to get people i understand just let me look like right

01:51:06.280 now just let me finish let me finish i'm not attacking you i'm just saying they they think that

01:51:10.680 you're putting on an axe so you can get guys to sign up for your only fans because like this is a common

01:51:14.840 business model no no i completely understand that i really really do but but if that's what you're doing

01:51:19.880 that's fine because these guys are pathetic they're gonna do it anyways you know that you said that not me

01:51:24.280 well you know what i'm talking about you know why are you let's be honest you you don't really

01:51:29.240 respect your only fans base and your heart no i don't care like whatever i just feel like i am

01:51:34.840 who i am and i don't know i'm not knocking who you are i'm just saying your respect towards the kind

01:51:39.000 of guys that simp and beg for you do you really respect those guys like i said madison can i have

01:51:44.120 you i want to be with a normal person so yeah i do no yeah i'm not right what number is it but yeah

01:51:49.400 those kind of guys are not your type which one your only fan subscribers there are normal

01:51:54.040 people aren't they so i'd say they qualify okay i think a guy would have to be a little

01:51:58.840 bit abnormal to at least a little bit abnormal million percent i don't disagree so are you going

01:52:04.280 to find a normal guy i don't care about finding a guy so i don't know that work well you said that

01:52:09.000 if you if you end up looking for a relationship it's going to be a someone who's normal and not

01:52:13.800 yeah absolutely i don't feel like it should be anyone in like a celebrity stance or singer rapper i don't

01:52:19.960 care i feel like it should just be i can't even explain who it is because i don't know like it

01:52:25.240 should just be completely themselves normally in the sense that he will not be in the like this

01:52:30.680 youtube world or social media yeah but that's kind of a lot to ask for right now so okay probably not

01:52:37.560 not going to happen i feel like the ordinary average guy wouldn't be interested in

01:52:44.040 dating a highly promiscuous woman or a woman no i completely agree with you or an old woman

01:52:49.480 that's what i'm gathering it's yeah old women are out those three things yeah

01:52:54.520 old women are out that's i from what i'm gathering i'm too old well we can address that we can address

01:53:05.560 that let me just address the kick out really quick yeah she's asking why i was filming so after what

01:53:10.120 happened last show we're just having a new policy where if we're doing a kick out granted she looked

01:53:16.040 like she was getting her she was leaving um so if we're doing a kick out we're going to record the

01:53:22.840 entire thing we're going to you know cross what is it cross reliability cross reference cross our t's

01:53:28.040 daughter i's i don't know um yeah we're just going to film the whole thing because listen bro you know

01:53:33.880 you just need to have everything on camera recorded with with these kinds of situations she didn't want

01:53:39.240 to leave like she was giving us an attitude so yeah she kind of you know yeah so okay um i don't think

01:53:46.920 it was that heavy but i wanted to address something in the chat they said someone asked the girls

01:53:51.080 defending her if they would like to be the girl on the other side of her fetish um she already stormed

01:53:55.960 out but she's not defending i was not defending but i i mean she explained what it's definitely a kind

01:54:03.000 of fetish that can hurt a lot of people maybe there are other types of shade of fetish that can do that

01:54:07.560 i don't know things we can't even say and i'm not saying that let's move on hold on let's move on

01:54:11.640 because i feel like we've dug in enough as it is um okay so uh let's see here let's do a couple super

01:54:19.240 chats here because uh we need to get caught up oh let's shout out twitch really quick eric can

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01:55:26.520 you guys can okay cool uh let's do some super chats here and that's going to take a while to get through

01:55:32.440 all those um let me see here one sec guys holy shit and the chat is on fire we have 10 000 people

01:55:40.040 watching live right now thank you guys so much for all the support that's a lot of people that's uh

01:55:47.240 i think we've have we had this is like our third show uh in a row where we've had 10 000 so sweet hell

01:55:54.920 yeah guys thank you guys so much for all the support guys really means a lot especially after that

01:55:58.840 all the shit show tonight and the fucking shit show last show um okay let's do some super chats

01:56:06.120 oh did that one wait what the frick sorry guys my thing's all bugged out

01:56:11.160 i'll just read it um ready to settle down i'd like to take foxy red on the right and blonde virgin

01:56:15.400 wednesday adams on the left off the market together what do you what did it say uh what do you say ladies

01:56:21.960 thruple for life and i'm not on the market she's okay she's in a relationship uh

01:56:30.520 no thanks i appreciate it okay let's go no thanks and then we have uh all these from uh

01:56:38.040 let's see we have let me trigger it

01:56:43.960 darth perditious thank you for the hundred man um madison do you want to read this one

01:56:48.280 sure brian love the show keep up god's work saw nala on another podcast and my fan too but ask her

01:56:54.280 about her cheating fetish yikes also the average guy you sleep with is not average and all oh disappeared

01:57:01.000 uh forgot the last sentence yes biblically mary mag was never a worker that was the rest of it darth

01:57:09.160 darth perditious thank you man um also the average guy you sleep with is not average

01:57:14.280 knowledge you have a response to that um yeah they're i feel like they're pretty average

01:57:20.680 like no one knows who they are they don't have a big social press presence um i don't know i feel

01:57:26.520 like they're pretty average okay thank you darth perditious appreciate it man we have uh

01:57:33.880 the ginger menace knowledge you want to read this one yeah okay thank you brian for all you do you have

01:57:39.880 to be a good man to do what you do the fake redhead has to go don't say that that's fine real redhead

01:57:45.160 here i don't think she ever grew up she's a serious nut job she tries too hard wow no don't okay don't

01:57:52.440 say that it's really okay i really don't care is everyone gonna leave oh mine's not out of bad though

01:57:59.400 like this is do you want to read this one do you want to read this one the reason this question has

01:58:02.920 drug on so long is because the responses too often are obtuse or trying to play it off as something

01:58:07.880 innocent or just a fetish meanwhile brian is trying to get to the root of your whole cheating thing

01:58:13.320 you have but i feel like i've actually explained that as much as i can to like the best level i

01:58:17.960 understand that it's a little bit hard for people to understand and yes it is hurtful and yes it may

01:58:21.960 be wrong oh no i'm so sorry you guys we're all taking the pills now anyway so i'm really sorry

01:58:29.400 paper towels thank you my guy what's your name all right everyone give a big thanks to nick for the

01:58:36.280 paper towels here pass pass a bunch over here just roll it on there just toss it don't don't put it

01:58:45.880 in the she's doing the best she can brian she's putting the whole roll it's fine it's fine it's

01:58:51.880 fun jesus christ what is happening to my life bro can i get like a chill show yeah i'm done bro i'm done

01:59:01.400 is the nuke still coming hold on i need to i don't know what did you just put the whole thing don't

01:59:06.360 put the whole thing in the wet spot um i don't really want to explain this anymore i feel like it's

01:59:14.440 been explained can you can you do the rest of it please that's funny

01:59:32.520 oh i thought that was eric laughing for a second i was like why are you laughing

01:59:36.120 okay um and and just to put a little cap on that um i i just the one question the one question i was

01:59:49.720 really getting to which she got i don't know i i well whatever we already talked about it but i i just

01:59:56.200 wanted to ask because i suppose you could have a fetish like that or a kink like that and if your

02:00:03.560 partner's cool with it and and there's disc disclosures then and they're fine with it then

02:00:09.400 by all means that's that's what i was arriving to it's not okay well i mean why oh god are we let's

02:00:17.000 not gonna get into that or do we want to change the subject let's move on but i was i was genuinely

02:00:21.480 just i was genuinely trying to you were being genuine it's an honest question to ask i understand

02:00:26.840 no but i was genuinely just trying to understand i wasn't like trying to sit here you're attacking

02:00:30.600 me yeah i have every right to explain like the statement i've just never i've never heard of

02:00:35.160 that so i was just curious so i hope you don't feel like i was like how old are you 33 okay yeah what

02:00:41.080 i'm just wondering you said like i've never heard something like that so oh okay got it okay

02:00:47.560 she called you 45 earlier i did not no no no no no okay i don't think she's not old no no no the

02:00:53.800 one that's sitting right here she was like well you're like what 45 wait the waldo where's waldo yeah

02:00:59.320 yeah she called me no not waldo the oh the grumble red dress yes i thought you caught that but

02:01:08.360 okay um let me do some super chats here you guys mute the mic all right we have uh let's see john c

02:01:18.360 here jesus christ do you want can you read this nala please i just jorked it to nala let's go

02:01:25.400 oh god let's let's go john yes yes yes yes yes hope it felt good can we get an ahi

02:01:31.880 cow like a he gal

02:01:38.520 i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm just like what i'm just okay

02:01:44.040 so how long have you been doing only fans uh two and a half years oh yeah two and a half years and

02:01:48.200 you're 24 24 when did you meet that business partner of yours that you look up to like um

02:01:53.080 i'd say a year and a half ago and he's your business partner and only fans mentor uh no not only fans

02:01:59.000 he's like my social media business partner helps me with a lot of my endeavors okay okay oh how much

02:02:05.320 do you make on only fans i'd prefer not to say six figures yes a month why is it that you don't

02:02:11.560 want to seven seven figures because i don't feel like saying a number means really anything have you

02:02:15.640 have you had a seven figure month yes eight figure probably not seven figure sometimes seven

02:02:23.080 figure okay you've had a seven figure month impressive right okay do you not want to say

02:02:28.200 because of tax fraud i don't even know what that is you don't want to share your you don't know what

02:02:34.360 tax fraud is no no i don't handle any of my tax i handle it off to a bookkeeper who hands it off to

02:02:40.040 my cpa and then talks to my fa so no i don't do it who is that just do it i think we just want to

02:02:49.080 know how much you make but um that's shia labeouf oh from holes yes what's your from holes my instagram

02:02:55.560 is fitness underscore no but i do have three holes what whoa good times okay um what the

02:03:07.320 frick uh adamantium australian hundred thank you man appreciate it uh nala can i have you read this

02:03:13.320 one please literally saving lives again with the mute mic or the mic mute question for the women on

02:03:19.240 the panel what do you think are the top five things that men seek in women for a long-term relationship

02:03:24.760 with the intent of leading to marriage and children

02:03:29.080 what top five things that men seek in women for a long-term relationship

02:03:34.920 we can bring it down to three if you can even think of them uh let's go around the table let's

02:03:39.320 start with you here we'll start with you and then we'll come back to you go to mary

02:03:44.200 can we do mary let's start here go ahead just relax um um you need to tell them you need to

02:03:49.960 tilt the mic no just yeah i'll tell you calm down tilt the mic so it's facing you please there you go

02:03:56.280 yeah um it depends on the men i would say but the men that that date me usually they look well physical

02:04:07.240 appearance yes for sure but also mental affinity um and i don't know about the third one it's not what

02:04:14.280 it's not it's not what you're looking for me well in general they look for the physical well

02:04:19.720 specifically it says men seeking long-term relationship yeah so i think that of course

02:04:26.520 the man has to like here so the physical attraction is important um i think that the the mental affinity

02:04:34.120 like if you don't get along with that person there isn't even if she's beautiful you will not stay with

02:04:39.080 hair um not sure about the third one is there a third one i would say i would say something that

02:04:47.880 uh yeah like men need um usually they look for a woman they care care for them so like that they

02:04:54.920 can feel comfortable with here nurturing uh like a kind of psychological comfort uh so these three things

02:05:01.640 i think all right yeah i would say purity that's a big one yep huge purity is a big one uh femininity

02:05:14.680 is another big one just like being uh maternal and whatever and loyalty i guess yeah okay solid

02:05:25.000 purity purity youth um and somebody who's easily moldable what do you mean what do you mean um

02:05:36.840 doesn't really is is agreeable fully agreeable like submissive like yes yes yes sir yes sir okay

02:05:43.000 no i i mean that's a kind of demeaning way to say it that's not necessarily what agreeable means that

02:05:51.000 you just don't have reason women can continue being disagreeable until they're no longer capable of

02:05:56.600 having kids if it works out for them um yeah what about you um um i want to say that they want to

02:06:03.960 feel safe honestly when they come home safe yeah when they come home to their they see when they're

02:06:11.640 seeking a woman to get married they look the person they're looking for it someone to be

02:06:17.560 they come home and they want to feel safe safe i'm sorry and then providing comfort do you mean

02:06:23.080 comfort not comfort but safe is like they come here well i don't i don't think most men look to

02:06:27.880 women to provide safety i think it's not not safety been meaning that they come home and then

02:06:33.640 they want to receive like a good meal you know like your wife just to sure how's your day going

02:06:39.080 like take like taking care off like oh sure like a mother but not in the sense of maternal

02:06:44.520 um maternal weight but not like a mother on a child so those are the things that i think men are

02:06:52.040 really looking for even though today's uh dating it's not deep down men are looking for that yeah

02:06:58.040 because men still are like um bail biological like a you know uh back in the day they were like

02:07:05.800 the woman stay and then the men can go in and do things it's the same thing but sure what that what else

02:07:12.760 any other things that men are looking for for uh a woman um like this to set a purity thing that's

02:07:19.400 something that men are looking even though they say they don't want to deep down they do like want

02:07:26.200 something to look um like an angel face i don't know how to say it honestly but that's what i think

02:07:33.560 they're looking for gotcha rip oh precipitous drop there okay um by the way guys just one one quick

02:07:41.080 thing um i always mention this at the beginning of the streams but i feel like a lot of people tune

02:07:47.800 in midway through um this is just a reminder appreciate all the super chats but youtube takes

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02:08:53.480 go ahead you you want uh the three things that you think men look for in a woman when it comes to

02:08:59.160 long-term commitment i think that they might be looking for kindness like a softness um i think

02:09:07.000 they're definitely looking for humility in a woman and like a nurturer someone who's gonna maybe not just

02:09:15.000 take care of them but make them feel warm inside and someone who's going to like welcome them into their

02:09:20.920 home i think we're peeling back the layers yeah i have some okay um mary what about what do you think

02:09:27.880 um well the normal answer is like youth purity beauty but um one thing that i guess normally would

02:09:34.840 go without saying is like a guy looking for a long-term relationship with marriage and children

02:09:39.480 needs to find a woman who also wants that which um i'm only mentioning because it's kind of hard to find

02:09:46.200 that these days as a woman that has the same goal um because eventually if you force someone to go

02:09:51.800 along with your plan they're going to resent it um and they're going to resent you and that leads to

02:09:56.920 failed marriages um so that's one thing i'd mention um

02:10:04.120 yeah word and then we have a puffy vegas here who came in and i'll get the other super chats too

02:10:09.640 i've been trying to rate the girls since they rated me but i can't it won't let me do it it uh i mean

02:10:16.040 if you want you could just send a super chat with your ratings i guess if you want um but puffy vegas

02:10:22.840 thank you for the uh he's still in the chat okay he's loyal um yeah okay my average okay we have uh

02:10:33.160 robert oh this is when i mentioned the canadian 100 thank you merci beaucoup i don't know if you're

02:10:38.760 in the french speaking part uh i don't see a btc address anywhere brian without oh to reveal the

02:10:44.040 seven i'll do it for a bitcoin uh to me and then i mean if you're legit about it shoot me uh actually

02:10:50.840 you know what i'll give it to you as an exclusive you'll be the only person who knows i won't disclose

02:10:55.480 it publicly i will tell you privately via instagram or myspace he's gonna spread it whatever you want

02:11:02.920 yeah you fine i'll give you the exclusive yeah the you can sell it to vice um it's all to wikileaks

02:11:10.120 fucking vice don't get me started on vice um by the way hit piece by the way um okay uh shoot me a

02:11:17.880 uh dm on instagram bd underscore atlas um if if you're legit about it okay we have uh john c think for

02:11:24.200 the hundred just wait do we again that one did he say it twice oh i almost skipped over it holy

02:11:31.320 shit um read that one yeah we read that one can i have you read this one go ahead yeah cat girl is

02:11:37.400 beautiful but guys don't want her because of her profession and lifestyle they will lie down with

02:11:41.960 her though men don't want it old lady because you're old a bag of bad milk that is very hateful i feel

02:11:49.960 like i see a lot of men with old women it's it's well but the thing is you are still technically in

02:11:57.640 your childbearing years so i look old to them because here in california it's botox over over

02:12:05.560 botox i love botox it's because of social media and pictures and this people are used to women you all

02:12:14.760 are much younger than me no not me you're you look fantastic though thank you but because i have

02:12:21.240 wrinkles because i maybe i'm carrying it's hard to keep a oh it's hard to keep a fit body into your 30s

02:12:29.240 you're all gonna age and this is what happens and this is how we're going to be judged yeah

02:12:34.840 you know why because we're induced in social media yeah it's perfect and then when they see you in real

02:12:41.400 life the expectations get lowers yeah yeah because well and not to be insensitive um i i think when it

02:12:50.840 comes to age though um you take care of yourself i'm 37. i don't look 37. do i not take care of myself

02:12:58.840 no but i think when it comes to your romantic pursuits um there are certain just biological realities

02:13:08.280 when it comes to being able to have a child right and because of your age again i'm not saying this

02:13:16.440 to be insensitive but there there's just certain biological realities once you get past 35 you are

02:13:23.240 in high risk pregnancy territory what about emotional stability look i'm not saying that you can't be you

02:13:30.280 you may very well be a fantastic person but like for example a guy who is 38 and he wants to have

02:13:37.560 children and that's one of his like he really wants to have kids and he's determining hmm this is the

02:13:43.480 person that i'm i i want to have a family with he's going to look at someone again i'm not saying this to

02:13:49.240 to slight you or anything i'm just trying to don't shoot the messenger here a guy who's in his who's

02:13:55.160 in his late 30s is going to look at a woman who's 36 and say

02:13:58.360 you know if i really want to have kids and like you know i have limited time too well when i say

02:14:08.200 limited time it's just like he wants to start a family at a certain period in time a guy could have

02:14:12.920 kids into their 60s but the point i'm trying to make is he's going to look sperm though what's that

02:14:17.560 sperm declines i mean you can style with that's seed oils with we can get into all steroids well

02:14:25.720 in any case a guy who's for example 38 who's perhaps a guy in your age range who you you would

02:14:31.560 be looking to potentially have children with he's going to be looking at a woman who's

02:14:38.600 late 20s what's interesting is here in california i'd agree with midwest you're on point i'm screwed

02:14:45.560 in midwest out here the the norm i'm finding is 35 plus because men are seeing and no offense this

02:14:54.440 is what i'm hearing from the dating scene when men date younger women 10 plus year difference

02:15:03.640 it's very emotionally unstable it's very toxic those men are turning into disagree i'm the perfect

02:15:08.920 disavowal disavow really disavow interesting these are 40 year old men though

02:15:15.240 dating dating like a 23 24 year old based and how does it get toxic on whose end is it this

02:15:21.560 is it all the men's fault i don't know where i heard this and no offense ladies but they're both

02:15:26.840 people looking for extremely shallow things out of a relationship usually so that's why it doesn't

02:15:31.160 work out exactly yeah no no yeah yeah there's nothing shallow about a guy wanting to date a young

02:15:37.000 woman but all those young women are putting out when they shouldn't be that just doesn't make it

02:15:41.240 bad for the guys hold on hold on one sec one sec it sounded like you had more to your point hold on

02:15:47.400 hold on go continue with your point i don't know where i heard this so please it's fine but emotional

02:15:53.400 stability women have to hit a certain age to be able to be in a space to actually be truly nurturing and

02:16:00.840 caring to an infant i don't agree so what what about all of like humankind that has

02:16:07.320 not you know what age it is look at the state we're in what is like we're not in a healthy

02:16:13.240 society you guys what is the america is 25 right correct yeah i know extremely nurturing fantastic

02:16:19.480 moms out there happy mother's day we're under 25 there's exceptions to everything and i know women

02:16:24.520 in the early 40s who are having beautiful healthy children so that's what i'm trying to saying there's

02:16:29.640 exceptions to everything but we're talking about the norm i wouldn't call it an exception to be a

02:16:33.720 good mom under 25 yeah that's been all of human history yeah that's that's happening would you also

02:16:39.480 say that a woman post 35 can still have children though yes okay i didn't deny that so but this is

02:16:46.360 what we're trying to promote but what's promoted by all this is no offense i'm going to use your

02:16:52.760 persona is this is what's being pursued we're creating maybe like less of men looking for

02:16:59.560 marriage and children are not pursuing that though no but i mean she could get knocked up

02:17:06.440 that's what's happening yeah if she's not on birth anyone could get knocked up yeah if you're pursuing

02:17:12.280 a long-term relationship with the person that knocks you up i don't think so but but most people

02:17:16.520 aren't pursuing long-term relationships anymore that's what i'm saying is the main problem when it

02:17:20.920 comes to a guy in his 40s and a girl in her early 20s both of them are in that relationship usually

02:17:27.560 especially in an area like la for shallow reasons yeah so obviously it's not going to last she

02:17:33.960 shouldn't be putting out and he shouldn't be pouring money on her to keep her around for company

02:17:39.080 and status we're agreeing a lot those things are shallow yeah um if you're looking for a long-term

02:17:43.720 relationship oftentimes the people looking for a long-term relationship are getting together close in

02:17:48.920 age young people close in age i've seen it happen yeah no i agree with that completely but what

02:17:56.600 you well hold on you said that most guys are going for her but i disagree because look at the

02:18:02.760 comments everyone wants to mute me yeah i disagree object a lot of men are very distracted

02:18:08.600 a lot of men are very lost she well okay i mean she's young very attractive yes but i would say

02:18:18.200 that because of no offense but a lot of men and you probably i i actually like you as a person by the

02:18:24.360 way that's very kind i hope i get to know you better too i i i you i think you actually mentioned

02:18:30.440 this earlier because of the work that you do i granted it sounds like you're incredibly successful

02:18:35.400 you're making a ton of money you're probably if you were so inclined you could probably retire it

02:18:40.200 by the time you're 30 so however i think you probably acknowledge that because of the work

02:18:47.080 you've done some men perhaps most a lot of men wouldn't choose me in the long run absolutely want

02:18:53.160 to date you but and you accept that and it is what it is she doesn't care she's making millions

02:18:59.000 it's not even the millions i've sat in a room full of designer things and it's never made me happy

02:19:05.320 it's purely the fact that being in a relationship it's not even that it's too hard it's like our

02:19:11.160 generation is so different now i can't compete with it there's like i don't want to compete with

02:19:17.080 this like compete with what dating now it's all so superficial it's just it's not long term okay

02:19:25.560 i mean you disagree so like when you when you said you're gonna compete so like what do you

02:19:31.480 mean competing like well what am i not competing against the girls like how are you like what's

02:19:36.360 competition it's like sucking less dick social media social media how like you think guys care

02:19:41.800 about let's say i'm with someone and they're looking at other girls profile how is that not

02:19:44.920 competition already and i'm in a relationship with them so you want guys to not look at other

02:19:49.560 women's social media profiles i don't give a fuck so wait so what are you saying because you just said

02:19:54.360 that you've opted out of the dating pool yeah and this is the reason why you feel like you can't

02:19:59.960 compete in it i feel like it's not worthy to compete in it's not like a race i want to run in

02:20:05.480 what would make it worthy to compete in if i wanted to have a husband and a child that would be the end

02:20:11.400 goal but i don't want any of that so like right now so your version of competing is women with more

02:20:18.120 social media cloud than you that's one aspect no i don't think it has anything to do with cloud i think

02:20:22.360 it's like any woman on the internet who shows their body or whatever that men might be attracted

02:20:27.080 to it's already a competition it's like that it's just so frustrating just by looks it's competition

02:20:33.160 i feel like it isn't it not like not really because everyone is visually uh i can say you're beautiful

02:20:39.800 everyone you know but just a man is gonna love you that's a difference men's are visual persons so yeah

02:20:45.720 but why there's no way to not compete competition it doesn't women need to understand that there's

02:20:51.720 no competition because women are men are visually like animals so it's just broken

02:20:59.640 so it's just going off right sorry guys i didn't okay go ahead whatever is on the

02:21:04.840 instagram i don't even remember the original question you said you didn't want to compete with

02:21:09.000 women in the modern dating place no i don't want to compete in the dating world there's there i've

02:21:13.480 tossed my towel and like i'm done like i don't there's no end goal for me here okay you're done

02:21:19.240 with what exactly though like i'm not looking it's not even that i've done it but you're still having

02:21:23.720 sex right yeah when's the last time you had sex not that long ago like three hours ago like with

02:21:29.320 myself or with somebody somebody that requires someone i say like a week i think even the virgin

02:21:35.800 does that half ago it's almost been two weeks a fortnight that's 14 days a fortnight is 14 days

02:21:41.640 i didn't know that that's cool see i learned something new something new look your your appearance on

02:21:45.720 this podcast has been uh fruitful i guess um okay so uh i think so too okay uh let's let's move on to

02:21:54.520 the uh next super chat here we have uh we did this one we did this one right we did that did we read this one

02:22:02.200 yeah yeah that was the last one did we uh can you read this one for us yeah as a man we put women

02:22:09.000 into two boxes one being relationship material and the box two is just sex to the girl in the ears for

02:22:14.680 me i wouldn't take you seriously i put you as in the sex box only and to the woman in the red polka

02:22:21.400 dot dress we would not prefer her at all okay that's just sad all right lord blitz um we have

02:22:30.440 ryan can you read this one oh sorry ryan ryan the eating warrior thank you uh nala can you read

02:22:39.320 this one mld we're going to need a full psych breakdown of this on your show staff laughing my ass

02:22:45.720 off gonna do it confirm or deny will there be subscribe to my youtube channel my dating you'll find

02:22:52.120 out all right we have uh oh this one came through bads exe uh can you read this one yeah brixton

02:22:59.080 have the girls on the panel rape me uh there's their at i did you pull it up eric i un-privated

02:23:04.280 my profile for a bit just in expectation management i am about a three or four just based on looks

02:23:09.000 you sure victor ron are you sure you sure and what what is the thing called it's the

02:23:17.400 what his uh is it it's wojack yeah yeah yeah okay all right uh you can pull it up go ahead

02:23:23.240 um victor rad bro bro you're not a three or four shut the fuck up dude bro three or four did he

02:23:32.360 say he works out or shut the fuck up bro um wait on costume that's zero out of one bro that makes

02:23:38.040 him a 10 what are you talking about zero out of one because of the non-cost yeah is it haram

02:23:43.000 i mean catholics don't have haram oh sorry can you put it back eric my bad um that's a zero

02:23:48.280 here scroll down let's get a good photo what is that puff the magic dragon incredible

02:23:53.560 that's mona lisa i like his profile it's funny

02:23:56.040 fucking mona bro bro your physique is on you even lift bro is he fishing for um

02:24:06.440 i feel like some this is a lot of confidence

02:24:09.880 bro the nipple hello wait that's tos for sure scroll scroll back

02:24:14.280 give her the nip the cat what what about the cat wait go all the way back to the top

02:24:20.040 up to the top up to the top uh the first one click the first one

02:24:27.080 bro you're not a three or four bro he's got one like go go give him more likes

02:24:31.080 yo this is it by the way this is the difference 16 minutes ago this is the difference between men

02:24:36.120 men's and women's uh instagrams if if this was a chick's profile it'd be like

02:24:41.560 50 comments from your girlfriend i love gang slay 10 out of 10 you're the hottest blah i love italy

02:24:49.560 let's go exit out throwback me plastered in italy wait confirm or deny did you and victor smash

02:24:57.240 because you're from italy yes everyone that's what happens um yo bad zxc thank you so much man

02:25:03.720 um should i bring should i allow the wait oh eric can you pull up the regular chat so i can see it we

02:25:09.640 have this one chat but this other chat updates faster um yo one in the chat if i i mean that

02:25:17.880 that's the first person to ever mute a microphone actually i think it was the second person to mute

02:25:21.080 a microphone is it unfair to do the mute a microphone thing i mean i wasn't expecting

02:25:27.640 anyone to ever donate that much i just put in there for the memes but one is it kind of unfair to like

02:25:33.000 offer a mute a microphone function it seems like it's silencing someone i think you're not going to

02:25:37.240 change that option at all brian it seems you're not gonna you'll raise the price or two wait so

02:25:43.720 one is get rid of it two is keep it one is get rid of something two is keep mute a microphone one is

02:25:55.080 get rid of it fair unfair it's a bit unfair it's like bro it's a bit unfair like most of them are

02:26:01.480 saying two yeah i think they like the option you like mute a microphone guys we love censorship here

02:26:07.640 let's censor let's go censoring no first time in here masquerade ball wearing pink-haired

02:26:15.000 italians okay um is it muted no you're fine don't even trip although don't tempt him you just tempted

02:26:21.240 him great i'll give it you don't want more you jinxed it you jinxed it okay um let's do some super

02:26:27.640 chats here uh okay we have oh this one okay nobunaga can you read this one really quick nala

02:26:34.520 yeah it doesn't have to be quick you can do your normal talking okay when it comes to dating girls

02:26:38.840 that act like the asian girl in the corner and the mexican girl are actually prime targets for

02:26:43.320 relationships that's interesting they are pretty and don't come off as of narcissist and seem normal

02:26:49.560 cat girl is pure eye candy can we get an arara arara do you oh you do you speak john

02:26:58.440 can we get some japanese guys i'm not doing any weirdo

02:27:02.680 yo no weirdo i can speak a little bit she said she can speak a little let let them oh she speaks

02:27:08.680 japanese can you guys speak i can speak a little bit a little bit yeah it's just right

02:27:22.600 i want to know what they're saying

02:27:23.560 is she just saying like anime catchphrases no uh means nice to meet you

02:27:37.480 this is hi my name is nala yeah it's the person do you mean like dozo yoroshiku no

02:27:47.560 yeah no that doesn't that you're saying that's your name what you're saying nice to meet you was

02:27:50.840 what nice to meet you is no dozo yoroshiku no there's so many different forms of japanese

02:28:00.200 no yours there's a correct form i thought you said you can only speak it when you're drunk

02:28:03.560 maybe it's an anime version i don't know it's okay it's it's all right yeah

02:28:12.360 wait what oh yeah wait who the the cross guy we didn't even rate him

02:28:18.920 bad oh wait what that's true oh we didn't rate him my people are hyping him up now that's

02:28:23.720 exactly what did i say what did i say are

02:28:30.360 oh people are people are writing comments

02:28:34.040 oh dude pull it up pull it up pull it up let's read it yo guys go to his instagram

02:28:38.920 code to his fucking instagram i want you to put like heart eye emojis fire emojis slay queen i want

02:28:48.680 to see like slay queen in there um i also got like to be like oh my god you're the hottest thanks for

02:28:55.000 saving my cat from a burning building what um hello yeah guys blast his instagram guys okay um

02:29:04.360 um okay let's rate him rating on him oh dude you're a fucking seven i love that you work out

02:29:11.160 wait question could i hook you up with victor is that your name is that your name victor america no

02:29:18.600 no he lives in the u.s right he's in the military thing no like he's um he's like a viewer but like he's

02:29:26.280 my homie can i i'm being dead fucking serious i know we're like having fun on the show can i set you

02:29:32.280 guys up on a date low key i go on a date i'd be interested honestly i'm so down for whatever like

02:29:37.960 look yeah okay so and i just want to amp him up a little bit so one time me and him we were um we

02:29:46.200 were backpacking through um it was uh what's it's not luxembourg lichtenstein in europe very small

02:29:53.400 european country we were in licks lichtenstein backpacking it was summer time so we're doing like

02:29:58.360 the euro rail you know that's cool yeah and we were hiking right me and victor okay you following

02:30:07.400 along you keeping track yes i'm okay hi so there was a mountain lion i kid you not

02:30:18.440 jumped out because it's the cubs crossed the path wow like literally and we were the only ones on this

02:30:24.200 like trail in lichtenstein so babies crossed the path

02:30:31.320 he jumps into action the mountain lion see because you you don't want to turn your back to a mountain

02:30:36.920 line so he just boom stood there and so we were walking backwards on this path he's like brian

02:30:42.120 he's like a survival expert right wow really he's like a survivalist looks like he was in the military

02:30:47.160 he's kind of a prepper though so just fyi like if you guys do like ever get married he's gonna like

02:30:52.200 spend your money on like a underground bunker just saying like for like a zombie apocalypse

02:30:57.880 apocalypse yeah like have yeah he's gonna probably like spend your only fans money but like he'll

02:31:02.760 protect you in the event of a and that is something i'm looking for security so a lot of canned food

02:31:08.120 and an underground like there's gonna be uh what's it called when you store rain water what's that thing

02:31:14.600 called he's gonna build a reservoir on your property underground bunker lots of canned food okay just

02:31:20.920 saying but it sounds like you can afford it i know how to can in any case in any case victor

02:31:26.760 fucking saved us because the the mountain lion kept like pouncing at us right so we're walking

02:31:32.120 backwards we're like fuck because the babies right yeah we were in the mountain lions territory so he like

02:31:39.320 picks up a fucking a rock jesus is this like a crime i don't know maybe i shouldn't admit to this

02:31:45.080 he picks up a rock and just like fucks that mountain lion up just fucks him up takes the rock boom

02:31:53.400 fucks that mountain line up and i'm like is it okay though he has kids um i don't know what happened

02:32:00.280 to it but let's just say let's just say there was no longer any mountain lion i'm a little scared i'm

02:32:04.760 i'm sorry land the plane land the plane okay can i set you up with victor i'm a little freaked out

02:32:09.240 now no no no i thought you said you wanted like a super dominant guy but something that has kids

02:32:16.120 are you okay with it that he paid to mute your mic yeah oh he did yeah that's fine you can do it

02:32:21.000 she likes degradation right is that one of your kinks too no degradation explain the word to to be

02:32:28.440 degraded you like to be degraded i don't think i said that i like to be uplifted

02:32:35.480 okay moving on um thank you for i don't know where i don't know where that did we read this

02:32:40.200 one jesus christ we just yeah okay we have one from john doe here if you can read this one nola

02:32:46.280 john doe says if you never watch your brothers fall in a war zone don't even talk about pain and how

02:32:53.320 horrible this world is hard they're level two ptsd not just being called a bad name i understand that

02:33:00.040 i have a lot of buddies that play war zone it's intense by the way he also has a kink fed a

02:33:04.520 cheating fetish does he really yeah john doe no no victor victor oh really yeah so maybe it can

02:33:11.640 work out between you two it could you know why because i can interchange wigs and be different

02:33:15.320 people for you so perfect it works and he needs you said like you didn't you say earlier on in the

02:33:20.600 show that you have like an insane appetite let's just say for food no no for sex yes high sex drive

02:33:28.680 high sex drive he's got why because it wasn't not between like me and him it it wasn't like

02:33:35.800 you know it was like friends you know i'm glad you explained that i wasn't he told me he told me he

02:33:41.240 was like yeah my ex-girlfriend just like couldn't handle it it's like 16 hours you really want this

02:33:47.480 to work out what are you talking about mary look i'm just saying can you can you shoot him a dm right

02:33:53.560 now yeah i want you yeah pick up your phone and shoot him a dm what what is his what let me here

02:33:59.320 he's dominating her right now this is i'll send him a picture can you dm him right now instagram

02:34:04.440 right there can you dm him right now because if he dms you it's going to be in the swamp of dms

02:34:10.840 yeah am i people are saying i'm like making it i'm making it worse hello

02:34:15.320 am i over over selling here send him like a million comments now okay send him a dm oh she's

02:34:24.200 following him holy shit bro is he still in is he still even watching victor are you still watching

02:34:32.520 buddy that's cute dm him right now did you dm yeah i just sent him a photo of me and my girlfriend let's

02:34:38.840 go okay so like um will you take him out like will you treat him though i could totally do that

02:34:46.200 listen i have no problem spending money on anybody i don't give a fuck like i feel like i make money to

02:34:51.000 spend money and it's selfish to use it on yourself like what the fuck am i going to do with this much

02:34:55.240 money like it's so nice to give people experiences do you have um the youtube app speaking of do you have

02:35:01.720 the youtube app on your phone could you just like drop a 500 super chat right now what you said you're

02:35:09.560 trying to give i support this that much whoa if you're gonna give me chipotle maybe hey tell you

02:35:16.600 what in and out is open after this i will i will treat i'll treat you in and out but don't try to that's

02:35:23.240 kind don't try to so will you pay 500 for a burger and fries yeah that's that's not in and out

02:35:31.320 burger and fries that's that's what's open after the show five guys we don't unfortunately we don't

02:35:37.800 have a five guys in santa barbara yeah but i do love santa barbara though it's cool i thought you're

02:35:43.160 about to make a different kind of five guys joke okay um i can let you do it like i get that i'm

02:35:50.840 promiscuous but just okay um so do you want to do what can can you be like i want to do the reverse

02:36:00.200 finesse on you so you know you have like pay pigs and shit and like you do only fans whales i call

02:36:06.200 them whales whales okay you are wearing blue um can can you be my pay pig i could do that but what

02:36:14.680 am i getting every every single show from here on out i need you to donate 500 every single show for

02:36:21.800 what and i'll shout your instagram out every single show but you have to donate 500 and you have to be a

02:36:28.200 simp and you have to probably worth the i don't know if i could simp for this it's actually might

02:36:31.640 be worth it it might be worth it would you tell me what the number seven means personally bro that's

02:36:37.800 a bit privately that's a bit wait yeah why is it so mysterious if you do what donate every 500 in

02:36:46.680 perpetuity i would do it right now oh 500 right now to tell you what the seven means bro my bitcoin's my

02:36:53.880 price i don't have bitcoin i don't give a about that what is one but i'll tell you why don't you

02:36:58.120 care about actual money i'll tell you after the show if you do it right now though bitcoin is real

02:37:03.240 money that's like no i'm not saying it's not real what is it 20k i don't he's like 27k i kind of do

02:37:09.800 want to do the number seven bro it could be something so stupid this isn't even good information this is

02:37:14.600 justice this is justice every single show you need to super chat 500 i don't even okay can i be

02:37:24.600 honest i've never watched one of these before how did you find out about this show you wanted to come

02:37:29.640 on they reached out to me on instagram and i was like cool cool i'll be there i like to talk

02:37:35.000 where do you you live in la yeah oh wow okay you live in japan tokyo yeah

02:37:45.800 some grifting am i grifting hello okay wait did we do this one did we read this one

02:37:50.680 yeah you did did we address it is it a drink yeah it's kind of addressable okay all right let me get

02:37:56.920 some uh oh shit i might have missed some uh actually no i think we're good wait i'd like to take foxy red

02:38:03.320 on the night wait oh yeah we did that one hold on ivan jr thank you for the uh donation man really

02:38:10.760 appreciate it gloria is 100 win lindsay you're not too old imo come to the southeast la may like

02:38:17.320 botox but the rest don't want it oh wait we read that one yeah okay allie and joy donated 100 will

02:38:24.200 y'all rate us zero to 100 been married nine years ends to allie and joey and tanala thanks for the

02:38:29.160 free trial on the of you're welcome you have a free trial right now yeah based okay uh

02:38:37.000 guys in the chat should i i mean i'll do it but should we make the rating threshold a little higher

02:38:41.320 um eric can you pull up that instagram did you catch it yeah we'll do it but maybe we should make

02:38:47.880 that wait they're husband and wife if you wanna if you want us to rate you let's do two the threshold

02:38:52.040 has to be 200 just fyi guys here from both of them periods between the two okay you got it okay

02:38:59.400 we'll pull it up right now why not and then we need to get back to the heated discussion on wait what

02:39:08.760 they're the ones who just donated yeah i feel like we should next time we do this eric you need to just

02:39:15.240 look at it can you do a look at it make sure there's nothing sus on there no like see-through

02:39:22.120 tops or anything i don't want to rate a married couple go ahead pull it up oh are they married

02:39:26.680 or are they just boyfriend and girlfriend they're married nine years scroll down

02:39:33.720 you want us to wait rate us zero to ten so both of them separately they look super in love they look

02:39:40.920 happy yeah you guys travel together bro there's too many photos of the chick sorry man oh do you

02:39:46.680 guys game it's obviously her profile scroll down ooh blue hair oh it's a bulma it's a bulma i don't

02:39:53.320 want to show their kids wait yeah scroll up scroll up jesus christ you guys are

02:39:58.920 it's it's public though it's fine scroll back up eric there's barely any photos that scroll down

02:40:04.440 there's like one photo of the dude scroll back up but they're wearing sunglasses you can barely tell

02:40:13.560 uh i i think i'm not gonna lie i don't i think you as the dude you're a little more attractive than her

02:40:20.840 they stream on twitch just saying they play call of duty that's cool do you guys want to rate them

02:40:26.840 really quick i don't want to rate a cup i'm married thank you oh okay i'm the only dickhead here then

02:40:33.000 together i said they were nine they look happy together so okay wow i'm the only

02:40:37.320 asshole at the table all right okay um let's go back to uh and we i think we were having a good

02:40:43.480 conversation on this um oh really quick uh who here wants to have kids i you are you said no do you

02:40:52.120 want to have kids not really you guys scoot scoot into the table scoot into the table please

02:40:57.480 not really not not really okay i think i was born to have children born to have children okay yeah yeah

02:41:06.120 all right yeah for sure and then mary wants to okay what about john yeah what about john yeah of course

02:41:13.880 john cena john cena it's been in my head all night shia labeouf

02:41:25.160 um let's go back we were having a good i felt like we were having a good conversation and i don't think

02:41:30.120 we really finished it off on body count you got your microphone muted so let's talk about body count why

02:41:37.480 do you object to men caring about a woman's body count so first of all i don't object because

02:41:43.240 if a man wants to take care of that number that's fine if he takes like if for him is important i

02:41:49.880 probably have other parameters sure uh and i all actually i also consider the body count i just want

02:41:56.440 to know what's behind of it but i definitely consider the previous story of that person um so i don't object

02:42:05.000 um so what's uh it's just that i don't like the number when you get stuck in front of the number and

02:42:12.360 you actually don't investigate on what is the person who is who that person actually is so just

02:42:19.960 just a point of clarification for you do you think that for example someone has if someone has a high

02:42:27.000 body count it perhaps would be deemed more acceptable if they had some sort of like past trauma

02:42:34.840 uh like anything i'm not i don't know how to imagine now the story of that person but if there is

02:42:40.760 anything that can justify the number if they had the number is very high so if it might be justified

02:42:45.800 wait so just just one point of clarification if the high body count is justified by for example some

02:42:52.040 sort of traumatic experience then then it's more acceptable then they're just promiscuous there's

02:42:58.760 no justification they just like sleeping with a lot of people do you think it's something that

02:43:03.400 even needs to be justified wait a minute i think it makes the difference if there is a trauma or if it

02:43:09.000 was well i think it's worse if there's a trauma why it's worse because because because well there's

02:43:14.360 evidence of trauma well the point is that the body count is one of the various parameters that i would

02:43:20.840 use to judge a person so there are other parameters that has to come together if if i like that person

02:43:27.160 and if i feel there is a strong mental connection and i feel psychological good with that person i need

02:43:33.240 to investigate uh why that body count is is a lot because that person is valuable for me and i need

02:43:40.440 to know if it's if there is a crazy past or if it's something that can be explained i just need to know

02:43:46.760 more but if that but i i if i don't like the person already or or he's already not very much interesting

02:43:52.760 to me i would not i would not spend the time what number is is a crazy past for you that's a good

02:43:58.200 question well for me i don't need to have a really low body count but something around 20 it's

02:44:05.240 a little crazy anything about crazy it's like it's like crazy past the limit well crazy it's 150 oh over

02:44:12.040 50 over 50 from 50 on okay okay okay because if i imagine all the women put all those women put together

02:44:19.000 it's a lot of women of course of course for sure for sure so yeah more or less between 50 and

02:44:23.800 on but but that doesn't mean that if i found the person that is important for me and they're 65

02:44:31.160 you know it's the same thing i would i would i could make an exception

02:44:35.400 can i ask a question yeah one thing i mean what i would respond to you with that though is i think

02:44:40.120 generally speaking women tend to care far less about male promiscuity than do men care about women's

02:44:46.680 promiscuity i'm actually worried about male promiscuity because i again the studies show

02:44:53.400 that uh a man needs to have a multiple a more variety of partners during all his life so for

02:45:00.840 a man is actually kind of a more difficult always talking generally to have monogamy so to stay

02:45:07.560 sticking to monogamy so even if he loves his wife and even after 20 years of marriage he still he still

02:45:13.320 loves his wife there is a moment in the man's life in which he he would like to have another partner

02:45:20.120 sexual partner maybe not a like a a sentimental partner but a sexual partner so that is a pattern

02:45:26.920 that happen that happens pretty often uh and so i am worried about men's promiscuity

02:45:35.160 but again that i think that can happen that my uh like a hypothetical eyes husband can can cheat on me

02:45:43.000 both if he has two as a body count and if he has 25 as a body count because it's like of a

02:45:51.080 instinct biological instinct that just i guess many many many women many men can actually stop

02:45:57.880 but not all of them i don't know i just i just feel that i would be cheated on to a certain point

02:46:03.560 if he has a high body if he has a high body count no no no in any case yeah oh you just think like

02:46:08.120 it's an angry guy it's just like a ticking time bomb to cheating um i think uh like a specific moment

02:46:14.680 you mean no you just think you because you're saying i'm just trying to understand what you're

02:46:17.560 saying so you're saying that you think no matter the guy it's inevitable that he he's going to

02:46:22.680 eventually cheat on you i would not say inevitable but highly probable highly likely so more than 50 to

02:46:29.880 the point that you're kind of i would say that it's kind of more of 50 yeah yeah more than 50 that

02:46:35.640 a guy's going to cheat on well i cannot give you an actual percentage but it's at least 50 at least

02:46:41.640 do you think what could just be like based upon the the history of guys you've chosen or you think

02:46:45.720 no it's actually a study i do not want to believe that but it's a study that that meant that 50 of

02:46:51.080 men no no no 50 i don't know any specific um percentage but again it's david bass that says

02:46:57.720 that uh or is i mean i think it's is david david bass i can i can check the source but the point is

02:47:03.640 the males in general tendentially needs a more variety of sexual partners they get stuck to a

02:47:09.720 one partner sentimentally in fact they don't want to divorce they don't they don't want to leave their

02:47:15.320 wife to go with a lover but in many cases they look for a lover not right away i would say but after

02:47:22.280 20 years 25 years 30 years of marriage they are they want to have sex with somebody else is it wrong

02:47:29.240 jonathan i don't know i i mean i just think i don't think the majority of guys i think if they had the

02:47:35.160 opportunity yeah because guys like you know women need a reason to have sex guys need a time and place

02:47:41.400 right so like i think it's just a little bit different for for guys just from get-go but i mean i

02:47:48.120 don't know if i can say that every guy is just like this inevitable taking time bomb to cheating

02:47:53.320 i hope i'm wrong actually in that i think because the majority i think what already like one-third

02:47:58.200 of guys all men under the age of 30 like a third of them are having zero sexual experience that's

02:48:04.760 because they cannot like because they are ignored by women it's not their choice right right right

02:48:10.840 right but i just don't think like the majority of guys just taking that out alone because a lot

02:48:14.520 of those guys would just like to have one woman and be nice to her a lot of guys are simple they

02:48:18.920 have like lower standards you know i mean so i think like the majority guys i don't know if i

02:48:24.280 would think the majority of guys would like look forward to cheating on their wife

02:48:29.960 um i know that i mean it's not that i know again it's a it's a series of studies that testify that

02:48:37.480 man tends to cheat a little bit more than women women cheat definitely yeah and for slightly different

02:48:43.640 reasons like the woman gets unsatisfied after many years um because there is not the passion

02:48:50.840 anymore and she feels that she's not appreciated by the partner as she was before so when she cheats

02:48:57.080 she cheats with another person that has a kind of another relation another sentimental relation the

02:49:03.560 man apparently doesn't need that necessarily but just a sexual exchange um but the point is that

02:49:10.920 the need of a sexual exchange pop-ups more often that the need of a woman to have a new partner

02:49:19.160 um so tendentially men cheat more often but again that's i mean that's a study fine but it it shows a

02:49:28.360 model a pattern that is not the reality at 100 it shows up even if it's 70 of the reality there is a 30

02:49:36.280 percent that is an exception and in statistics 30 is a lot it's just an example so i'm not saying

02:49:43.400 that this happens every time stop it okay get some help well i just finished you clicked right on time

02:49:51.640 okay so you think i kind of left there for a sec so but you think most men are gonna cheat there's a

02:50:01.160 50 chance you're gonna get cheated on is what you're saying no no i didn't i mean i mean okay

02:50:05.320 maybe i missed what you said as far as i know you don't need to explain it again but yeah no so i

02:50:10.760 mean um you were saying that you were saying that the reason you don't hold on just one second you're

02:50:16.440 you're saying that the reason you don't get into relationships is because you think that the guy

02:50:20.920 the guy's gonna eventually cheat i mean i'm in our relationship so then what was the cheating

02:50:25.880 point you mentioned earlier she's just scared because she that she uh expects that along the

02:50:30.360 road oh even with this guy now you think this guy's gonna cheat on you wait wait wait a minute uh the

02:50:34.440 the discussion came from the body counts and the so the idea of promiscuity and though and he said

02:50:39.960 uh the man uh takes care about promiscuity a lot the promiscuity of women right because they

02:50:45.160 don't want to be cheated on etc and i said that's actually a problem that i myself as a woman have

02:50:51.240 because i know that probably even my partner will want to look for a for a for for another woman to

02:50:58.680 a certain point i believe that goes both ways though like as a woman yes i said in a relationship

02:51:04.120 always you're always going to be afraid that your woman's going to cheat on you as well

02:51:07.400 yeah yeah i i agree with that and definitely there are many women women that cheat i don't think that

02:51:12.040 should be seen as normal to be afraid of of getting cheated on all the time that means you're in a

02:51:17.320 low trust relationship cheating is very common so so you know it's common but i don't think that

02:51:23.240 that should be the rule is like everyone should just you know accept this as normal you're afraid

02:51:27.240 of getting cheated on have you ever cheated on anybody no no okay but you have been cheated on

02:51:33.560 no i don't know as far as i know no oh interesting but um well when your mic is muted this is what i'm

02:51:40.040 curious to hear from you is a response to the studies that we were talking about when your mic was muted

02:51:43.960 um talking about a number of premarital sexual partners being associated with as those numbers

02:51:51.640 climb being associated with stds infidelity marital dissatisfaction and divorce in women in women yes

02:52:00.200 yeah i mean i i think that probably so i don't know exactly at this point but i think that probably

02:52:07.480 that's true um because at first you were like no this there's no i mean i think it's

02:52:13.640 so i'm not i'm not sure but what i read is actually that there is a change in the women's behavior

02:52:19.160 and usually they be they they get less and less promiscuous simply because they change their uh target

02:52:26.600 and they don't want to have just a hookup but they want to have a long relationship so they start to

02:52:31.720 become more selective after a certain age and i was i was like interested in this study because i saw

02:52:38.360 that i i saw myself in that to be honest uh but again it was not talking about me it was talking

02:52:44.680 about a pattern but then he then you show showed the the graphics so i think that regardless of that

02:52:50.760 even if so the way to put the two things together i think is that even if you have been very promiscuous

02:52:58.040 and then you change your behavior because biologically that's what it happens your past

02:53:04.120 your past habit might still influence you in the future maybe less than before but still we are

02:53:09.480 talking about kind of desensitized to what sex really means and what it's for after that um and

02:53:14.920 if you're not really desensitized i mean yes though like because if you're in your 20s being super

02:53:20.040 promiscuous or serial monogamy is your thing uh and you're just getting ran through in your 20s and then

02:53:26.840 your preferences change as you say the statistics show and then you start looking for something

02:53:32.120 different which is a long-term monogamous relationship then you're kind of screwed

02:53:36.440 because guys don't want to be with someone with a high body count honestly so maybe if that's the

02:53:41.720 pattern we need to like kind of reverse course uh okay so they i mean in this show you keep on saying

02:53:47.560 that um i'm not sure i'm not sure because i myself honestly i don't have a very high body count so i

02:53:55.320 cannot really i don't mean you in particular but no no but the point is that i don't know how much

02:53:59.560 actually women with a high body count can get boycotted by the men i'm not sure about that many

02:54:04.920 women find but boycott like boycott the pussy we need one maybe we need a boycott well i mean that i

02:54:11.880 think the women generally uh if they i don't know i mean women generally can find a partner even if they

02:54:19.560 have a high body count i mean i know that in this show it exactly the part the opposite is said over

02:54:25.400 and over for weeks and months now but i still well women are the gatekeepers of sex but i would say

02:54:30.680 that men are the gatekeepers of commitment so if you're looking for commitment okay i agree you're

02:54:36.120 gonna need very redfield decide on that i think they want to commit to you yeah women choose the

02:54:43.640 sex like we say yes to sex men pursue the relationship yeah which is why sex needs to be delayed when when

02:54:51.480 you're looking for a long-term relationship it needs to be delayed i mean these are all rules that are

02:54:56.600 very fixed but then when you are in an actual relationship when are you with a human beings all

02:55:01.240 these rules are not necessarily followed exactly like that i'm following i mean you can follow in

02:55:07.160 they can work for you that's 100 fine what i'm saying is that everything i've read about the red

02:55:12.920 bill does not apply to my to my everyday experience not exactly there is a sometimes yes okay sometimes

02:55:21.800 yes but then there is a certain percentage that goes away from the main laws so that's not necessarily

02:55:27.800 true that if i have sex with a guy that i like that means that i will never get married with him

02:55:32.840 no i'm not saying that i thought you were saying like if if you're looking for a long-term monogamous

02:55:38.120 relationship having sex without commitment is not a good idea for you as a woman so how much how much

02:55:45.560 and commitment means how many days how many weeks do you have to wait before having sex until you're

02:55:50.680 married oh my that's and i know that that sounds crazy crazy and even you know what last time i was on

02:55:55.720 the show people were in the comments who people in the comments yeah even normally are like red pill

02:56:01.560 or whatever they were saying mary is taking this too far she's asking too much of men blah blah

02:56:06.120 i think women do need to have like have higher standards and they need to start delaying sex

02:56:12.440 in relationships whether it's marriage or something else that you wait for whatever do your thing but um

02:56:18.440 i'm saying that it's a necessary component of looking for commitment from a man i don't think it's wise not

02:56:23.880 knowing the person you're going to marry and spend many at least many years of your life together

02:56:30.120 not knowing him on a physical level before you you actually marry him i think that you can be very

02:56:36.680 sure that you have chemistry with someone yeah before having sex with them which means even even

02:56:41.160 the sex you know that you want to have sex with someone before you have sex with them which is why

02:56:45.160 you have sex doesn't mean the sex is good yeah exactly yeah i mean in general you need to know that

02:56:50.600 person his psychology but also his body and how he behaves in i mean this story of getting virgin

02:56:56.440 you never you never hear married women be like i really had to make sure my husband was good in the

02:57:00.600 bed that's what kept our relationship together it's usually a lot of other things typically the

02:57:05.080 only people i see hold on hold on yeah typically the only people i typically see defending like

02:57:09.880 sexual experience is important is like single women or women are like not locked down don't have

02:57:14.680 like a father or a husband and guys become a father too so i think like when it comes to

02:57:20.600 relationships though like sex is really like not as important as keeping a long-term relationship going

02:57:27.480 and another thing is this too if a woman has been ran through she's like desensitized to the whole

02:57:32.440 sexual experience she's more familiar with breaking up with a guy and getting over a guy than keeping a

02:57:37.240 relationship together closest you possibly can be to another person and i respond to him that that

02:57:43.400 relationship ends over and over again that does something to your brain that's that's the pattern

02:57:48.120 we were talking about before and i i kind of agreed like probably if you have a habit you will keep on

02:57:54.840 of having that habit in a way or another maybe even if it gets better maybe you still you still i don't

02:58:00.680 know i don't know about that okay i don't know what all the women out there are doing but to respond

02:58:05.960 to you yes i agree 100 i mean if you just have sex with that person and then you and then you

02:58:10.440 decide okay let's get married that's crazy what i'm saying is that you need to know that person

02:58:15.640 in all the like 360 like but they they've actually deep this the they've actually debunked that

02:58:21.320 there's like the myth of inexperience they're saying like oh you know these things will cause

02:58:25.240 you to have a bad relationship it's actually not statistically that who debunked i think it was

02:58:30.520 the pew research and like okay i don't fit in that research in my case i need to know that

02:58:35.720 guy physically that's called confirmation bias no no it's not confirmation yes it is you're saying

02:58:40.120 like this because this doesn't apply to me it doesn't apply to a generality no no i'm not saying

02:58:45.640 that she she is free to to keep her virginity until the end or i mean until she gets a marriage i'm not

02:58:52.760 saying i'm not judging her choice i'm saying that her choice is not the universal choice i myself i just

02:58:59.560 take me as an example because i know myself uh i that that pattern would would not work with me

02:59:06.200 so that choice is definitely fine legit but no universal you can i would need yeah i would say it

02:59:13.160 isn't universal which is what we're arguing about yeah no i mean i mean that's like how the majority

02:59:17.400 of cultures have been doing it sorry women are lying to themselves about what they want a lot of the

02:59:21.560 time yeah and they're using sex for a feeling of closeness but it's not gonna last right but i'm not

02:59:27.080 saying that you just have to fuck with your future husband you have to know them i mean you have to

02:59:31.560 know him psychologically his behavior his habits his daily life together with the the sexual

02:59:39.080 connection that you can have from my personal perspective okay so you think in a different

02:59:45.000 way and that's fine as long as you acknowledge that would make you the exception and not the rule

02:59:50.120 in terms of all women i don't think i make the exception that's the point i'm just a a certain

02:59:55.080 percentage i don't know what percentage is that but i don't think that i mean if you are a virgin

03:00:00.360 and you get married with your husband that means that your relationship is for sure going to be

03:00:05.480 successful 100 i'm saying it's a better chance higher probability yeah because we're talking about

03:00:10.680 because we're talking about long-term relationships and husband and then according to your

03:00:14.440 you know strategy you haven't even achieved success with that which is a husband

03:00:19.240 say the last sentence again so basically you're defending your train of thought but if the end

03:00:23.960 goal is to get a husband you don't have a husband so you're now if we're being totally fair i'm not

03:00:27.720 married either so but you're also not having no i'm not looking for a husband though i mean i'm not

03:00:32.280 i'm not i don't care about getting married i want to have a relationship then getting marriage is a

03:00:36.680 contract as you say i agree with that and i don't need i mean i don't need to have the contract we're

03:00:40.840 talking about over ranking the importance of sex in keeping someone long term like a husband and

03:00:46.280 you were saying that like you were afraid that your significant other was going to cheat on you

03:00:51.720 later on in your relationship right i mean i think that there is that pattern in males in maybe even

03:00:57.000 my my partner but um i don't know yeah but sorry but i think you called mary crazy but she is taking

03:01:04.920 those steps to make sure that that does not happen she's crazy from my point of view she's not

03:01:09.000 crazy in general okay like i would not choose uh when i was her age i i was virgin when i was your

03:01:15.400 age and i hated it but that's why i wasn't waiting for marriage you were an insect yeah yeah that's

03:01:21.880 fine i mean if you believe that that's completely fine i mean i i really wish you to have exactly that

03:01:27.080 what you're i don't think women can be incels because every time no no no i was a intel i'll tell you

03:01:32.680 that i all women have instant access to sex basically no no well you know you see you're very biased

03:01:38.440 you don't have instant access to commitment from a man but you do have yeah complete yeah there's

03:01:42.840 no such thing there's no such thing as fem cell listen you can't be a fem cell listen that's not

03:01:47.400 true there are i was ignored for years by men i'll tell you that well i i was not voluntarily

03:01:55.880 being a virgin i i swear i lost my virginity when i was 23 and until then i mean i know i know that

03:02:03.160 there are men out there it could have happened is the thing the thing is it could have happened a

03:02:08.520 guy could go out there and try try try and it could still not happen that's what it means insulin

03:02:13.080 it's involuntarily yeah celibate so you just maybe were not aware of the sexual power you had

03:02:19.480 in the marketplace so when anytime some a woman here a girl here in this podcast say something that

03:02:25.560 is against your ideas she's a cap or whatever you use like cap there's no such thing you cannot you

03:02:32.600 cannot be i mean perhaps there's some finish sorry hold on let me just let me say one thing

03:02:39.400 perhaps there's like an extremely you'd have to have severe some sort of severe deformity

03:02:47.080 even like severely obese women have no issue i'll tell you what i was i was very shy very introvert and

03:02:53.080 that doesn't attract to men now maybe no that's not true actually i think i think men are attracted

03:02:58.360 to shy shy introverted women i i spend i can i'll speak for myself i prefer shy quiet introverted women

03:03:05.800 same so as far and you know this let me ask during this period of time let's remove sex from it did any

03:03:14.200 men pursue you no uh in three years one and what did did you say no to him i didn't like him okay

03:03:22.840 so you're not involuntarily celibate because what happened once because here's i mean they were my

03:03:28.120 the girls of my age were having partners continuously and i got just one and i did not feel

03:03:35.480 like doing it i was also blocked you know but let me ask you a question here's the difference were you

03:03:40.360 trying to have sex with men yeah i was trying you were trying i was trying to become visible to men

03:03:45.880 yeah i was trying to be more social i guarantee if you had just gone up bro any random dude on the street

03:03:51.960 the likelihood is that yeah but you have to understand you're not can i can i okay go ahead

03:03:58.120 go ahead sorry and i'll let you speak later um you have to understand that i was i was virgin 20 years

03:04:07.240 uh 20 years 22 21 22 etc and i was being wait you said 23 before 23 what is it 23 is when i lost my

03:04:16.040 virginity okay but why are you saying 20 21 in those years i was a virgin and i was trying i was

03:04:22.520 going to the gym trying to uh talk to guys etc but never ever happened what can i tell you i also don't

03:04:30.200 don't think that it's easy for a virgin to go and and ask a guy out so easily that's convenient that's

03:04:36.040 very convenient as a woman to say that because as men it is convenient because as men we have to

03:04:42.600 initiate with women so i would have loved to initiate i was not able because actually i was reading a book

03:04:50.600 that's convenient for you to say once again i mean it's not convenient i'm just describing you what my

03:04:55.000 mental state was i was actually reading a book about how to flirt with men and and to see the strategies

03:05:02.920 wait a minute i did not finish and uh sorry but italian

03:05:11.480 basically i was reading these strategies because i was at a certain point i was getting crazy and i

03:05:17.640 thought no i kind of pick up artists for women though this is a lot yeah there is a lot it exists

03:05:24.280 i can send you the pdf i mean i'm not i'm not women women don't need game well i don't think you're

03:05:30.520 lying about the point is that actually the book was saying that we are we we have to initiate so i

03:05:36.040 was trying to understand how to initiate a conversation uh but because i was not able to

03:05:41.160 do that and men were not coming to me so i don't know i was feeling an an experience that was very

03:05:46.440 similar to that of the incels you can tell me no loneliness like brian said it was for sure it was

03:05:52.120 but when a man approached to you even though you were begging to men like come to you that man you

03:05:59.240 didn't like that man but i did not can you pull up that cartoon like the comic cartoon i think you

03:06:03.800 you know it's been a while since we pulled it up pull it up go ahead continue

03:06:08.440 but do you wanna do you wanna stay with i mean do you wanna you are a virgin you never had a

03:06:12.760 relationship you still want when i have a relationship with somebody that you like oh wait

03:06:17.640 so question let me ask you a question you say you want a relationship you said you wanted a

03:06:21.560 relationship before you had sex did you want to be in love before you had sex yes of course ah see

03:06:26.600 that's different we're talking about very different things here relationship but incel or femcel incel is

03:06:32.600 a very specific term it means involuntarily celibate so this is someone who desires to have sex but in

03:06:40.040 they cannot find someone who will have sex with them yeah but listen i it's not you're adding

03:06:45.640 you're adding on all these variables i needed to be in love i needed to be in a relationship well

03:06:52.040 that suggests to me and and you probably wanted a certain tier of guy you weren't ready to just

03:06:57.720 settle for anybody no no you were you were prepared to get into a relationship with just anybody wait a

03:07:03.160 minute because i i i did not go into a relationship for years after that so of course in your mind you

03:07:10.840 have the romantic thoughts so in that sense i wanted to be in love or whatever but i was very

03:07:17.160 uh obsessed by being me being a virgin i did not like it i didn't like so of course the sexual level

03:07:23.880 was very important very prevalent at that moment i i did not want to have sex with somebody i didn't

03:07:29.480 like i did not feel an affinity i don't know if you can call that love love is the idea but still but

03:07:35.000 still that you you are by definition you are by only basic sex by definition you are not or you

03:07:43.320 were not an in cell because if a fem cell were a thing it would be a woman who's not capable of

03:07:49.560 finding a man to commit to her it's all those 30 year olds on tiktok that are fem cells cell fem cell

03:07:55.480 in cell involuntarily celibate celibacy is in respect to sex we're not talking about love we're not

03:08:02.280 talking about relationships we're not talking about any of these things you just weren't able

03:08:07.880 to find a guy that was going to be that you found attractive and that would be in a relationship

03:08:13.000 with you and would date you for three four five six seven months eventually can you pull up that

03:08:17.560 comic book really quick and i'll have you continue your you know what i'm talking about right eric

03:08:24.840 okay scroll make it a little bigger make it a little bigger this is date women will say they're

03:08:31.240 lonely this is what that there were not so many this is what that means but i just told you that

03:08:37.000 one guy tried to flirt with me but i did not like him what can i do that's not so you're trying their

03:08:43.080 point it's not involuntary it's not involuntary the you don't have to have any children that women get

03:08:48.360 about men men don't have that yeah women get the ick factor with a man they do not want to sleep with

03:08:55.960 what is the ick factor but you don't want to have his children oh no but we have okay we're we're

03:09:01.560 speaking about something very precise here is it the case that some women struggle to find

03:09:06.920 relationships yes but we're speaking when you say the term incel that has a very specific definition

03:09:14.360 all right i was not an incel i was i guess i was being virgin for longer than i wanted i guess

03:09:21.320 perhaps you had too high standards no no no i don't think her standards are too high if she was

03:09:25.720 looking for a loving committed i was i was i was not being able to to relate with those are normal

03:09:30.600 in general you're they were social problems how is your confidence during that time confidence is

03:09:35.320 fucking irrelevant look no it is not in women you're 33 you're in you're in good shape you're not obese i

03:09:42.360 assume you were in much better shape when you were younger 10 years ago i'm better now there's no way

03:09:47.320 you were there's no way now i go to the gym more often i don't care now i'm more serious i was in

03:09:54.760 better i was i consider myself better looking and in better shape 10 years ago age that's how aging

03:10:01.160 works in any case for you to say like you're i you're an attractive woman you could have gone to a

03:10:08.280 nightclub and the dude yeah dude italian i i was i was very close i i was scared of even thinking about

03:10:15.880 going here's the crazy thing italian men oh my god yo ab check thanks don't really like me very

03:10:22.520 much i'll tell you that well italian men i i'm from my understanding are pretty aggressive well

03:10:29.880 they're uh i don't think they're shy about approaching women so you could have gone to

03:10:35.400 like there's definitely men in some other countries where they're a bit more shy but italian men are

03:10:39.800 pretty uh what's the direct let's say you could have gone to a nightclub gone to a bar and got

03:10:46.120 laid so for you yes but you didn't do it right my personality my personality prevented me to sure

03:10:51.800 and i don't like that sure i don't like bars and nightclubs and drinking too but if you were so

03:10:57.480 inclined if you were so pressed to get sex you could have done it i got it but you wanted the disney

03:11:04.040 fantasy fairy tale like the guy connection with the environments that i used to i mean

03:11:12.680 where i went school college and gym that the people there they're just didn't know so what you

03:11:19.320 wanted didn't come to you but the access to sex okay it was there that that is exactly that's what

03:11:25.240 incel means like involuntary yeah and brian i don't think it's fair to frame it as like a disney

03:11:30.600 level fantasy to want to have a loving committed relationship before you have sex with someone

03:11:37.160 especially for women that's what i think all women want whether they admit it to themselves or not

03:11:41.480 that's not an unattainable fantasy it's what i think all women should be pining for well and

03:11:46.600 this is more so in response to her claims of it being hard for her to get sex or hard or her

03:11:54.760 characterization of herself yeah as incel i i'm basically just saying look you wanted love

03:12:03.160 commitment the right the good perfect maybe not the perfect partner but you wanted that guy sure

03:12:11.480 yeah no girl like they don't they don't like i was not a relationship person for many years and when i

03:12:17.240 lost my virginity i did not look for a relationship i was just looking for somebody that i liked and that i

03:12:22.760 felt good mentally that's the if you don't feel good mentally you don't have sex with that person

03:12:28.040 that's how it works for women most of the times sure so that's probably so i'm not sure if i was

03:12:33.640 looking for love i don't even remember it very well but i was looking for the mental connection and the

03:12:38.680 physical attraction i guess but i i mean are you willing to share what your first experience was like

03:12:44.440 yeah it was nice interesting it wasn't it was very good is this trauma dumping

03:12:50.920 no no trauma dumping this is trauma dumping light it was good yeah it was good is madison still here

03:12:59.080 oh she had a dip oh shoot okay um let's maybe i'm wondering if we scoot let's scoot can can i have you

03:13:05.720 guys scoot over one that'll just be easier there's not many of us left yeah feels kind of lonely came

03:13:14.040 over no you can leave the mic there john can i have you just put that microphone on the ground this one

03:13:19.800 here yeah well just be careful the the wire i got you buddy yeah um your first experience oh it was

03:13:28.120 great i don't know what do you want to say exactly i mean what do you want to know okay how long how much

03:13:32.600 how long were you seeing him for um it was four months it was four months four months yeah see

03:13:40.440 that's it's it's how soon how soon did you have sex with him well we were friends first i already

03:13:45.560 liked him but we were friends first the front we did not see each other very often so it prolonged

03:13:53.080 and then eventually we actually started to be more active to a couple of weeks before and then we

03:13:59.160 finally had sex on what date well we were i don't know i did not count the dates it was more or less

03:14:07.480 the fourth months that i met him um so the actual dates were probably the last months wait don't let

03:14:15.080 the microphone block your face when you speak oh sorry you're fine you're fine you're fine you're fine

03:14:19.560 like this you're just kind of like edging out over here so edging out but i don't remember i mean this is

03:14:24.920 over um 10 years ago it's your first sexual encounter but okay so yeah but he's asking me the

03:14:30.600 number of the dates okay so but you from from when you met him to when you had sex with him was four

03:14:37.160 months is that correct yes yeah i mean it's your your complaints about being involuntarily celibate

03:14:46.120 are not particularly surprising well not sorry they're they're a bit surprising to me but why what is

03:14:51.320 it too long or too short as well let me ask you did he in that four month period did he want to have

03:14:57.480 sex with you and you said no no no let's wait no no never hold on i was i wanted to have sex with him

03:15:03.480 right away and he didn't want to the we were friends first and i did not i was not that explicit to tell

03:15:11.480 him i i'm okay and he was not explicit too then he was in the military so i did not see him very often

03:15:18.040 so it was a gradual thing that's the reason why all that time was wait so the four month period you

03:15:24.120 were friends and then yeah we were friends you're counting the friends the last the period where we

03:15:29.960 started to actually flirt and show show our interest was the last month more or less so the actual dating

03:15:38.760 was a month more or less uh the actual time when i when i showed that i liked him and he showed me that

03:15:47.720 okay so how did that go did you tell him i like you and no he told me and then you was he was so he

03:15:54.920 told you and then you did you immediately reciprocate and say i was happy yeah i like you too did you

03:16:00.600 fuck that night no no no because did did he try to no no he was very delicate okay he didn't know that

03:16:09.240 i was a virgin i did not tell him okay because i just didn't want him to know that uh i was i thought

03:16:16.680 he would i i would scare him i don't know um so yeah it was even that was a little bit gradual

03:16:25.080 sorry um i mean i think i think she's like conceded at this point that incel is not the

03:16:37.240 word to use for what okay okay okay um fair enough fair enough i just okay for some reason that bothers

03:16:43.960 me bro you don't know how hard right trigger well no because i mean i this this term like i don't think

03:16:52.520 women can honestly i don't think women can claim the term incel yeah i just yeah and and i i have

03:16:58.280 genuine empathy for men who consider themselves incel because these are not and and there's a lot of bad

03:17:04.680 fucking press about people who who are incels but really it's just typically i mean they're maybe

03:17:13.000 men who are not particularly physically attractive or they struggle socially and uh i think these men

03:17:19.000 deserve our empathy and compassion and not vilification in any case though i genuinely don't

03:17:25.480 think a woman can be an incel i just it's not you you need not look further than just hop on a dating

03:17:33.480 app swipe on a bunch of dudes and you could get laid if you were so inclined so i don't know all right

03:17:40.200 i'm not an incel sorry if i misuse the word but and but i suppose i also take cultural appropriation

03:17:49.960 you're appropriating incel culture yeah how dare you cultural appropriation sorry incel guys out

03:17:56.200 there i'm sorry yeah well i mean it's it's also just i think uh we uh we also don't have much empathy

03:18:04.040 or compassion for men who maybe aren't incels but who struggle when it comes to dating and uh

03:18:12.200 in any case uh so yeah uh well we're done let's do some super chats here let's get some super chats

03:18:20.600 that was a long convo okay uh wait we did this one yeah we did john doe i believe uh do you want to read

03:18:30.840 this one yeah bruh y'all crazy i'd commit to but also absolutely wreck the old lady y'all effed for

03:18:38.440 saying that love your eyes by the way also i'd let myself be thoroughly smashed by nala either way

03:18:43.320 she not she's not trying to commit and i wouldn't commit to her because cheating equals l so i guess

03:18:48.840 i'm a loser why is everybody promoting their fucking instagram wait what you gotta get a lot of okay

03:18:57.000 you did he's probably blowing up right now because of you go queen yeah let's see if he answered me

03:19:03.240 did did he victor he probably ghosted me uh do you want to read this one that would be the funniest

03:19:10.120 part he said i'm 16 deep when did you send that photo 16 beers hello oh 16 beers does he i don't

03:19:18.120 does he like that you don't like guys who drink oh i don't mind does he drink like that though i

03:19:22.360 don't know anything about i think but he looks like 16 beers or something else he can probably

03:19:26.680 beers can i ask my question though impressive let's just do the soup chat can you read the

03:19:31.320 soup chat really quick and we'll have you do a question go ahead bring chase back instead of

03:19:34.600 this overweight dude chase actually knows what the fuck are you talking about me i'm getting kind of

03:19:40.200 pudgy just saying i think he's talking about me he's calling me bro mld like he's looking you've

03:19:45.560 been working out man i don't know i guess i'm overweight mld's not overweight come on uh medina

03:19:51.160 thing for the uh we shall say how much we weigh yeah let's all wait check okay okay you go first

03:19:57.800 go i'm 120. okay that's good wait what is the the answer wait how much do you wait gosh i wasn't

03:20:04.440 serious but i know i know in kilos what is it 53 chat can you convert for us convert well it's 112

03:20:12.120 something something okay 112. i'm thick 141. 150. i'm surprised we're actually answering this john

03:20:21.800 yeah i am too me i'm 186 185 okay like that 107 last time i checked 107 i don't think anymore i'm

03:20:29.400 grandma i'm 180. that's right you're 180. really i need to lose weight he's a man i thought you're a

03:20:36.040 bit heavier like you look bigger in a good way not a bad way in a good way i need i need to lose a

03:20:40.600 little i need to lose like 10 pounds you know i got a little what's your weight sorry 180. i don't know

03:20:45.800 what it means but yeah yeah yeah i'm not obese no you're not you're not and by the way you're not

03:20:52.840 three you're not three oh thank you you're a full seven okay from my personal perspective oh she this

03:21:01.080 is we had a girl on the show like two shows ago uh lauren de laguna do you know her i'm not sure i

03:21:08.840 don't think so yeah well she basically came on the show because we always do this rating question and

03:21:12.440 she basically intentionally ranked me lower than she actually thought i was or maybe she was just

03:21:18.520 walking it back after i uh rebutted her i guess but yeah she ranked me a three rip rip rip's in the

03:21:26.200 chat for brian so good times um i think and i consider myself a six so yeah anyways um go ahead oh would

03:21:36.360 you rather uh would you rather we need a light question here yeah well maybe it's not like it's

03:21:44.680 hitting on okay go ahead go ahead go ahead go ahead it was go ahead with it all right a younger girl

03:21:51.160 20 25 high body count yeah 30 to 35 low body count that's a good question

03:21:57.640 what what's the uh give me exact age and exact body count

03:22:04.360 all right 24 24 i don't know my body count here give me let's do how about 21 and 31 how about that

03:22:14.120 there you go oh 21 year old versus 31 year old oh got it got it what's their body counts 21 and i've

03:22:21.240 heard this actually like 60 to 100 that's actually pretty common especially in l.a yeah yeah exactly

03:22:28.520 versus 31 that's seven like you said six you said yeah so you're six because girls have years so they

03:22:37.880 do wait what she's had some years to put herself out there some ex-boyfriends some okay but she her

03:22:44.680 her body counts six at 31 i'll take the 31 year old yeah yeah yeah john me i sue this is directed at

03:22:53.560 the men so i mean neither the high body count chicks are just hard to maintain in a relationship

03:22:59.960 yeah i don't i don't want it it's usually so you go with the 31 year old yeah are you kidding me

03:23:03.960 yeah 100 dudes that's like you know no i mean i'm just you're like a jaded war vet at that time like

03:23:10.440 the next dick doesn't even matter six is a lot too like i think six is a lot yeah but it's not a

03:23:16.520 hundred it's not a hundred it's not a hundred that's the that's what we're talking about it's

03:23:20.120 body count at some point i feel like you reach a certain place and then it just plateaus like

03:23:24.440 that's what i'm saying like a jaded war vet like after like you know what's it called the thousand

03:23:30.200 thousand cock stare like you know it's just like all the same thing you know wait can you do the thousand

03:23:34.760 cock stare into this camera there you go no i haven't had sex with a thousand people well no no

03:23:39.320 no but what just a lifeless spit it's just like a lifeless um glazed over look i feel so full of

03:23:46.440 life though fair enough oh she's back okay um we're not necessarily saying a quick oh no i understand i

03:23:55.480 don't feel offended there's a couple why don't you tell us some more japanese phrases i would say

03:24:12.760 so mizu is water if i'm going to order chicken and rice it's uh chicken to rice soy taraki maska

03:24:18.200 um ocha is green tea i can ryokucha ryokucha is green tea right matcha no matcha is a specific

03:24:27.640 type of ryokucha okay it's powder you're right i mean i'd like to hear you speak some you live there

03:24:33.480 i just did matcha matcha is an american word too i can order it at starbucks i mean it comes from

03:24:39.880 japan okay speak some no i'm so curious well okay so speaking of body count um what is

03:24:45.960 everyone's body count john do you want to go first yeah let's go it's up there you you revealed

03:24:53.320 it before so do you want to reveal it again i don't know i'm a man of god no you're a man of god

03:24:58.120 now yeah you're a born again yeah watching all these watching all these shows has made me just like

03:25:03.880 but what's american pyroles don't we times it by seven oh yeah here i got you no divide divide it by

03:25:09.320 seven that's women no it's this one no no no that's the real number multiply by three that's the real

03:25:15.320 number he's saying that for girls oh really yes oh yeah huh uh okay john just just throw it out

03:25:28.360 there the number yeah yeah over 100. fair enough just trauma dump over 100 trauma dump okay how old

03:25:34.920 are you again let's start 37 37. what about you i don't know i've already said this over 100. well

03:25:40.760 give us a range i would actually say it's definitely over 50. okay definitely definitely

03:25:45.240 over 50. yeah definitely over 100. no yours is even higher i know you're a whore yes yeah maybe

03:25:54.920 all deserve each other thank you i would hope so i could retire i'll i'll tell i'll tell you when you

03:26:05.480 tell me yours oh so as far as i know i'm a woman of god nick just you got to make sure to i want to

03:26:14.680 know i don't reveal my body count me neither fair enough what about you oh damn why is it too high or

03:26:25.400 is it too low what's the problem with the look i'm i can neither confirm nor deny no i'm not tell you

03:26:31.080 what why don't you guess what why don't you guess what my body count is seven yeah um i was saying

03:26:35.800 something like that actually i was saying something almost 10 but not really i was saying something

03:26:40.440 like that that's it's probably seven it's seven that's a good number okay all right

03:26:54.280 six six yeah six

03:26:59.000 six i will not use the word incel but i did what's the word no don't use it but i i went on my own

03:27:10.200 sexual revolution of figuring myself out after being hurt by a very very cruel man and i didn't

03:27:16.920 have sex for about four years when uh what age did you lose virginia 18. okay body count less than five

03:27:29.240 mary oh that's i didn't know i had to answer but it's zero yeah zero okay missed opportunity okay um

03:27:40.200 what were we talking about i don't remember the body count no

03:27:48.440 so six

03:27:52.520 it's real real answer mm-hmm okay all right we're talking like p in the v though not like

03:27:59.480 not oral are we talking oral sex i know does oral sex count it's like it's like a half point probably

03:28:07.560 it's like half of our body i got more men when i was not doing p in the baby yeah what what's the

03:28:17.800 number i don't know if it's if it included that if it like just give it a one point one point for oral

03:28:24.040 sex but what's giving that number you got to give more info on your number on me come on brian yes yes yes

03:28:30.280 yes yes uh i'll tell you guys my body count how about this this is like the dumbest

03:28:37.960 this is becoming like a slumber party

03:28:44.280 what's that i i think the the best answer is um how about we sleep together and then you can tell me

03:28:49.480 what you think it is after we sleep together no no i understand it's like how much experience you

03:28:57.560 have how about you decide you can that's stupid is that a proposition is the proposition live live on

03:29:05.640 air proposition um okay so let's see we had oh i wanted to react to a tape video because it was

03:29:13.400 related to your question about experience this is controversial it's actually pretty wholesome not

03:29:18.520 gonna lie but and and i 100 agree with tate's take on this um when it comes because you asked this like

03:29:25.160 much earlier on in the show when it comes to a woman's experience that to me that doesn't really

03:29:30.440 matter like sex is not this uh and he says this in the video it's not a complicated operation it's not

03:29:37.320 a complicated procedure you know the the way that you're going to make me as a woman the way that you're

03:29:43.000 going to make me real fall in love with you is not the way in which you're able to gyrate your hips

03:29:50.280 on top of me it's not the the skills with which you can fillate me i don't really care um first off

03:29:59.080 because i can teach i can teach a girl i could take a girl who's inexperienced have great sex with her

03:30:04.680 do not give a about a girl's experience in terms of if she's inexperienced that that's that's a pro not

03:30:12.360 a con um so what really matters is does she care about me is like i don't give a fuck like is she

03:30:22.280 gonna is she my ride or die i don't give a fuck about all this other shit it doesn't matter to me

03:30:29.240 i like look i like sex i like i'd say i have a fairly high sex drive but you know

03:30:35.720 you don't do the gluck gluck 9 000 i don't fucking care you know what that is

03:30:41.640 i yeah i yes i'm i'm familiar yeah i bet you are what the fuck the call her daddy podcast i've heard

03:30:55.400 the call her daddy podcast by the way the way they describe it it's actually pretty dog shit

03:30:59.880 the gluck gluck 9 000 like with the turning there's also the 4 000 too

03:31:06.440 what is that that's so dumb i don't know no i just call it for like heavy dick suckers they

03:31:11.720 give the gluck gluck 9 000 i don't really look at it like a technique it's like okay well it kind of

03:31:16.920 is but like i don't want to get that graphic you know well the one thing they say is like you need to

03:31:22.200 like jesus christ oh yeah like spin bro spinning motion this motion no no that does nothing you're

03:31:34.360 like what yeah that's that's like the most toaster brain thing i've ever heard this very overweight

03:31:40.920 female who doesn't look like she ever has sex on the internet explain what she does when she gives

03:31:45.400 head i was like that looks so painful so painful and it was that exact motion she's like yeah i just

03:31:51.560 like really fast i'm like what does there should be afterwards only vertical only vertical no

03:31:57.800 horizontal i'm sorry uncircumcised like all that extra skin just like being twisted must hurt so bad

03:32:07.320 sorry mary sorry mary okay um let's pull up the tape clip let's watch the tape clip it's the uh tate

03:32:13.000 uh what is it what's it called hello it's the uh i don't have it pulled up right now let me find it

03:32:23.880 really quick uh speaking of which does anyone have anything dating related that they want to get off

03:32:28.840 your chest start thinking about it because i'm going to ask you that that's going to be our final

03:32:32.040 question for tonight all right it's called wait oh tate sex meh you've muted it's muted the audio is

03:32:56.840 muted by the way oh okay okay sex sex this position that position can you boost don't you feel like

03:33:11.400 you get to a point in your life there's something more than that don't you feel like maybe i'm going

03:33:15.400 to sound like a romantic don't you feel like you get to a position in your life where you'd rather have

03:33:18.360 a girl who you truly love and she truly loves you and it doesn't matter what she does because you know

03:33:22.360 she really loves you and she's trying her best where are those hats i know i know she's shaking

03:33:28.200 her head but i'm serious if you sleep with enough women yeah just like if you sleep with enough men

03:33:33.560 there's no move sex is not a complicated operation all right there's no move that's going to be like

03:33:38.760 wow i've never seen this before i've never seen this before my mind is blown no no no if you think the

03:33:45.400 way you keep a man happy is to move your in a particular way on top of his dick as opposed to

03:33:49.640 behave in a way which is respectful to him out in the real world and for him to know he has you

03:33:54.840 and your loyalty regardless of what's going to come up all the problems going to come into in his

03:33:58.840 life then you're wrong so the whole point of sex is a connection between two people and i think having

03:34:04.200 a genuine connection between two people is worth more than the sex so her question was what can a

03:34:08.040 woman do to truly blow your mind in the bedroom you'll blow my mind outside of the bedroom in a

03:34:13.480 relationship as a whole that's the truth that's the truth wouldn't you rather have a girlfriend

03:34:18.920 who truly loves you is absolutely loyal to you like no matter what happens she's going to be there

03:34:22.760 for you you catch a case six months she's waiting outside waiting for you she she okay she can't take

03:34:28.120 dick right whatever but she tries her very very best the poor the poor thing and she wants to

03:34:33.880 she wants to satisfy you and you know you you know she cares about you yeah wouldn't you be like well

03:34:38.280 i don't care that she can't take dick because that's actually a quality woman which is rare in the world

03:34:42.120 today but i am genuinely uninterested in sleeping with a woman who i don't have a connection with

03:34:46.360 i if a girl said to me i don't love you at all i don't feel anything for you at all

03:34:50.520 i don't want to sleep with you but i will i would say no the sex act in and of itself is is okay we

03:34:57.880 both have you had sex we've all had sex right do you really need to somebody who doesn't give a

03:35:01.720 shit about you at all we live in a world now right where we have a lot of narratives which are being

03:35:05.640 broken down and destroyed in real time and i think it's very very healthy for men and women

03:35:09.880 to look at sex as an act that happens between people who at least like each other the idea that

03:35:16.360 i don't like them at all but as long as they can suck dick this way then it's okay i don't give a

03:35:21.400 fuck right if a girl genuinely loves me with all her heart and gives me a fucking terrible blowjob i'm

03:35:26.680 still gonna be like well you love me i love you it is what it is it's more life's more important than

03:35:30.680 blowjobs and fucking blowing your nose this is the truth and if it's not love this if it's not love let me

03:35:36.360 tell you something women are the gatekeepers not men if it's not love you shouldn't be

03:35:40.760 fucking him anyway this is the reality of the world just because the modern world told you different

03:35:44.920 you shouldn't be any man you don't love that's the first fucking thing you shouldn't be sleeping with

03:35:48.680 him no but it's true okay you're right you're right no no because the interest in me whatever the

03:35:54.040 whatever you say interest in me whatever it's not there you will feel it okay um shout out to fresh and

03:36:00.440 fit that's uh from their podcast um your reaction to the clip um i think he's right about some of it

03:36:08.840 about the outside aspect of like you know if a woman's acting uh loyal and like that's attractive

03:36:15.320 you know for a man to see a woman acting like theirs you know they've claimed them like this is hot

03:36:20.200 whatever but like a man fucking a girl that's like or he's not in love with like i disagree with that

03:36:25.720 completely i have sex with people i'm not in love with i'm not in love with anyone you know what i

03:36:29.080 mean so i disagree with that but that's just my take on it it's more so i mean that was one

03:36:33.480 component of what he was speaking on i think the bigger thing though is yeah it was um having a

03:36:38.440 connection and not just having sex like sex is sex everyone can kind of envision it except for mary

03:36:43.640 like you know what i mean so it's just kind of like i get why he's saying that and it is attractive

03:36:49.880 when a woman acts uh in a certain way in a relationship to entice her man to be only hers

03:36:55.400 i completely agree with that yeah and i mean the the primary point is just you know there's this

03:37:01.480 talk of well a woman who has a low body count or is a virgin then she's sexually inexperienced she's

03:37:08.920 not going to be able to please you in the bedroom which i frankly disagree with but disagree um but i

03:37:15.720 often hear that as a rebuttal to typically men's position that men care about body count and i i don't

03:37:23.800 think it's a particularly strong rebuttal because i think well when it comes to what men and women

03:37:28.440 want in the bedroom yeah a man a man would be more turned on by a woman be having low body count than

03:37:34.360 any kind of sexual thing she does yeah that would be the most mentally stimulating thing for a man so

03:37:39.560 too but is that just because she's got a really tight pussy or because he can teach her to have sex

03:37:44.680 with him or is it selfish no it's just psychological it's just because that's what we want is men a woman

03:37:50.360 who hasn't been ran through no no it's not even it's not a physical thing because that's that's a

03:37:54.920 myth about women that is a myth women who get fucked have like uh loose you know i understand but

03:37:59.880 compared to someone who's never had sex it's a little different no because we're not i'm telling

03:38:04.040 you you're not listening guys are searching for purity in a woman not a tight vagina we are turned

03:38:11.240 listen we are turned i know listen i'll explain okay we're turned on by the idea that she has not done

03:38:18.040 this with anybody else and it's something special because that's what determines value scarcity determines

03:38:23.800 value right if everybody has some access to something that means it's not scarce and if it's

03:38:30.520 not scarce then it's not valuable because scarcity determines value

03:38:38.520 well that's the same for for some women some women would have the same logic so it's not only for men

03:38:44.760 it's not even if you think that it's only for men there are women that take i didn't say it was

03:38:48.760 only for men i just said that i'm saying in general in that context this is said over and over that

03:38:53.240 women don't care about the body count don't care about purity i mean there are definitely

03:38:58.440 women that would take that for sure for sure but women with high body counts they would

03:39:03.160 care about that because they now get so used to men to get fucked by them then now they get out

03:39:09.240 like a virgin man he's yeah i've never fucked a virgin man i have a my friend he she has like a

03:39:15.400 love body count and then when he got a like a virgin man he's like oh yeah he's virgin but i don't care

03:39:20.920 because he doesn't know anything but because she has been with a lot of men now she's having this

03:39:27.800 ideology of what men need to do i have to read this really quick we'll come back to that gloria is 100

03:39:33.480 win lindsay you're not too old imo come to the southeast l.a may like botox but the rest don't want

03:39:39.240 stop judging harshly and give a real man a chance nala i would be into you as i am certified certified

03:39:46.360 freak your of ruined you gloria is the best rip um sorry ivan i didn't mean to miss your super chat

03:39:55.160 there you're right we we didn't did we do that one or no did the one i just read did we do it like

03:40:01.960 previously yeah we did oh he's saying i didn't read it finished right oh did we skip over it my bad

03:40:08.040 maybe in any case we just read it now uh we have one here from joe's madness thank you for the uh

03:40:13.080 donation man uh nala can you read this yeah recently new viewer two to three months and love the format

03:40:19.320 my first top gotta say the redhead is gorgeous and the albino is a zero my question is would you date a

03:40:26.280 fat guy with a high sex drive high sex drive as in at minimum three times a day yes that is more than

03:40:33.960 enough and literal fat has absolutely nothing to do with it i have dated my not even dating the

03:40:40.680 people i have seen or slept with look like there's not one type so that makes sense wait you said

03:40:48.360 three times a day is more than three times a day more than enough but i mean you said earlier on in

03:40:53.400 the show that you're insatiable okay two to three times a day for a guy is a lot every day

03:40:59.960 a woman is very different that's true that's true okay um thank you sorry i want to say something

03:41:06.760 about the tape video and he's totally right men really don't care about the woman experience because

03:41:13.720 at the end of the day the man is the giver and the woman is the receiver you like it or not so they

03:41:20.760 are the in charge so and mostly it may not always like mostly doing all the work in the sex in my

03:41:29.480 experience or what i've seen in videos so i mean pretty much um they really don't care i'm honestly

03:41:37.320 think it's like based on the biology that they give what we all need so there's

03:41:46.280 you can say whatever you want but deep down you know um dna it's like he keeps us receive yeah and

03:41:53.880 i mean the other thing it's it's much harder for a guy to be to be good in bed than it is for a woman

03:41:58.440 to be good in bed you need not really do much yeah as a woman to and i totally disagree with that i work

03:42:08.440 so hard in the bedroom i feel like my main purpose is to make the guy come isn't that what sex is about

03:42:14.040 no one really cares if the woman comes i feel like but it's about the men ending well i disagree

03:42:18.280 with that okay that's fine mr if you take a dominant position you know you need to work if

03:42:25.080 you if you if you're dominant you need to work like you need right very hard how to move or stuff

03:42:29.800 like that i mean not again it's not relevant for men probably but yeah i mean sometimes also women

03:42:36.280 have to work hard it's just a choice you can be a pillow princess or you cannot be one or no

03:42:43.000 work hard but maybe drive the guy to how you like to be taught or like how to like touch yourself

03:42:50.920 in a way teach them not to just wait them to know right and then judge them to be oh kiss kiss

03:42:57.720 he's a fuck bite yeah so i mean sometimes it doesn't make any sense yeah what women want so i mean

03:43:05.480 that's my opinion wait so but you disagree yeah i feel like um if you're having sex you both should

03:43:12.200 be working at it you know it's both an effort you both should be sweating it's like animal

03:43:16.600 uh sweating i don't know about that your fucking like hormones are coming out of your sack like your

03:43:23.720 sweat glands like that's hot but let's uh before we continue on with that uh topic let's have everybody

03:43:30.440 react to that tape video john do you have a reaction to the tape video i think what he said is right you

03:43:35.160 know like a lot of women they just think that the quality of sex they give a guy is important as

03:43:41.320 like fidelity or like just not having to worry about her doing some ho-shit in the relationship

03:43:47.400 that's going to bother him the back of his mind oh by the way mary did you have a response he said the

03:43:53.560 albino is is a zero do you want to respond to joe's madness i don't really have a response can you call him

03:44:01.560 a zero i guess yeah he's a zero um sorry joe i don't know do you want to fight about uh mary will

03:44:12.280 fly to you and fight you in the cage did have thoughts on the tape video um i like that he's

03:44:19.560 ostensibly pushing people in the right direction and he's saying you know sex is about a connection

03:44:24.200 and that's uh more important than just the mechanical event that's happening here but um

03:44:32.360 on the other hand i have to i'm i'm critical of the idea that a girlfriend essentially should be your

03:44:40.520 ride or die totally loyal to you forever like if you're a girlfriend there's no reason to have

03:44:47.800 that attitude towards a guy because you're not committed to he has not given you a commitment

03:44:52.840 therefore you should not be giving him access to your intimacy

03:44:59.320 so you think a girl should not be a ride or die that's the best strategy to lock a guy down for

03:45:03.800 a marriage i mean what i'm saying is if he hasn't committed to you then you shouldn't be giving him

03:45:11.160 access to your intimacy and that's what he's saying sex is about is like the intimacy the closeness the

03:45:18.200 connection yeah you should be delaying that type of intimacy until after he has committed

03:45:25.400 so you're thinking ride or die is ride or die is connected to sexual intimacy i'm saying it's

03:45:29.880 connected to marriage right and marriage is the benchmark i say is wise for women to wait until

03:45:36.840 sex okay so not being ride or die before marriage is not good for women you think there's no such

03:45:43.720 thing as ride or die before marriage that's not a thing there's no commitment other than marriage

03:45:47.960 okay otherwise it's just like oh a vague idea like i'm committed to you john would you wait till marriage

03:45:54.680 uh i've already broken that so moving forward though since you're a new man of god

03:46:03.320 no all the crazies i'm meeting i don't want to have sex with any of them

03:46:07.000 it's wild out there right now it's is there not an abundance of marriageable women in japan

03:46:12.520 uh yeah there is but i'm just like not really talking to anybody right now got it all right um so

03:46:19.160 before we wrap up uh we have one more video to react to but i i pose the question is there anything

03:46:26.200 dating related that you want to get off your chest

03:46:31.160 i'm not dating but like uh or perhaps for example is there something

03:46:37.640 is there some way that men are pissing you off

03:46:41.640 in some way you're not dating okay let's say well no like i mean if someone asks me on a date

03:46:46.840 yeah like i'm interested by the way will you go on a date with victor is victor victor are you still

03:46:51.720 in the chat buddy yeah hello victor confirm or deny are you in the chat 16 or 20 and now

03:46:57.480 he was too yoked to be he's pretty yoked 20 is too young for you no i don't think i mean oh you

03:47:03.560 said 16 or 20. like beers we're talking about beers beers because you asked him if he was still

03:47:08.200 here oh because you want to get fucking blitzed you want to just get blitzed with the dude like

03:47:12.840 super tanked drink actually oh based okay me neither i'm swooping just kidding okay i don't

03:47:19.640 really think there's anything that's like pissing me off currently i can't like nothing comes to mind

03:47:23.320 i just feel like men and women are two very different things and like i don't know i just

03:47:28.840 want to be mad at anybody anything dating related you want to get off your chest uh it's too bad but i

03:47:34.760 can answer like uh the same question if there is something that bothers me huh sure because i don't

03:47:42.120 know what else what what other answer i can give well i am bothered by the red pillars you're bothered

03:47:48.120 by red pillars there's also feminists there are two set two basically both of them are pretty much

03:47:55.560 are you indicating the red or the blue i'm pointing towards the red pill yeah i don't like

03:48:02.760 the red pillars why is that because jesus yeah that's exactly what you deserve can you grab it

03:48:10.920 do you want me to grab that one sure can you yeah thanks um simply because i think it's a very

03:48:16.840 materialistic way mechanic mechanic i don't know how to say that in english but it's a very limited way to

03:48:22.840 see reality it's true i mean there is a partial reality but it's not only that so i don't want to

03:48:28.520 be judged only for my physical aspect i don't want to judge only based on money status or can you guys

03:48:34.200 have a little please get some air in here yeah so that's like i just find it very limiting the guys

03:48:40.280 that are red pill usually are pretty aggressive they are not kind usually i would say that okay i had

03:48:47.080 that experience um so um well actually in online not in person oh well actually i met once at red

03:48:56.440 pillars but i we were not even flirting so it was not even a thing but the attitude that they have is

03:49:02.680 pretty aggressive and i don't i don't like it which i mean who which ones the red pillars that's those

03:49:10.200 they are core like they really believe in everything the red pill pill well what what what is your

03:49:16.360 sense of the red pill well what i understood is those things that i told that i told you so basically

03:49:22.440 i'm i i went beyond the wall so i'm already not valuable anymore um the wall you know 25 years old

03:49:29.640 or whatever that's not really the wall but what is the wall well i mean look i'm i don't 25

03:49:35.640 25 is it 25 now in japan oh well in china or japan it is korea and and i i don't really sell myself

03:49:44.280 as someone who's uh pretty like uh like a guru in the space i i don't consider myself a guru i just

03:49:51.880 consider myself a guy who's somewhat has some knowledge of the topic thank you man

03:50:00.280 ten dollars i am a victor right here katha much love let's go thank you man really appreciate the

03:50:05.960 big uh donation man i appreciate your support all night it's been overwhelming and uh really

03:50:12.440 appreciate your patronage so thank you man um yeah i don't consider myself a guru i i've read some books

03:50:18.680 done a little research and i'm just more interested in having these conversations and um and i think i

03:50:24.360 ask sometimes some decent questions sometimes not but uh so and i think you're okay i don't think

03:50:32.040 you're one of those that are that pisses me off thank god because i think i think that you leave

03:50:40.680 some space to the the fact that reality can can actually show up in a different way from the main

03:50:47.720 role so you give space to that there are people that are very serious and they don't give opportunities

03:50:53.720 and they're very aggressive because red pill actually makes you more aggressive am i wrong

03:50:59.640 am i wrong because it's a reaction to the extreme toxic feminism that is definitely shitty and it's a

03:51:07.480 but it's the equivalent reaction so it puts on the table the same amount of toxicity i think

03:51:13.400 well i i mean i disagree and i mean let's and then there's oh oh shit thank you man

03:51:19.320 dr nabbley donated two hundred dollars appreciate it mary is a catch she is very intelligent and

03:51:26.680 mary you're our insightful and understand the significance of spiritual intimacy love to see you

03:51:33.080 back on the show brixton good show thank you man really appreciate the uh patronage really appreciate

03:51:39.640 it yeah mary's the goat okay um and mary i want you to come in here in a sec on the feminism stuff but

03:51:45.400 but but uh i i don't think red pill is necessarily the counter to feminism because because feminism is

03:51:54.760 red pill is really within only within the realms of dating really i mean many people are red pill look

03:52:01.640 towards for example men's advocacy and and there is some co relation but you know the the antidote to

03:52:11.320 feminism well i don't know if there's an antidote to it but the opposite side of it would well i was

03:52:16.840 about to say the opposite side of feminism is men's rights and men's advocacy but that's not true because

03:52:22.040 um i think people who consider themselves men's rights advocates are actually much more based in

03:52:26.920 reality than feminists which is uh feminism is this dogma and ideology that's the red pill can be

03:52:35.880 okay even the red pill can become an ideology a dogma but red pill is more so related to like

03:52:41.480 intersexual dynamics and dating it's not really like feminism is like wage gap and patriarchy which

03:52:49.960 red pill people are happy to to debunk however red pill is primarily concerned with dating but isn't

03:52:56.840 there and i'm asking you because i'm not sure the story of the guy gynocracy or so that the society

03:53:02.680 gynocentric yeah the society society is gynocentric yeah well isn't there a response to feminism in a way

03:53:12.200 well gynocentric society that that's not suggesting that society is ruled by women that would be a

03:53:17.960 matriarchy right um gynocentric what what i think the term gynocentric society is that society in there's

03:53:26.920 when it comes to the patriarchy okay men are privileged in society however gynocentric society

03:53:33.160 would suggest that actually we cater to women in in actuality yeah i don't know is that a fair

03:53:41.480 yeah guys call it gynocentric social order yeah um i don't know if you i i feel like i didn't define

03:53:47.960 it the red pill is basically understanding the truth of what's going on between men and women for sexual

03:53:53.960 attraction like typically guys used to think like you know women are sugar and spice and all that's

03:53:58.520 nice and they can never do anything wrong and happy wife happy life and a lot of guys have realized

03:54:03.080 like those little like sayings are actually a false reality and they equivalent they uh they compare the

03:54:10.680 blue pill with people who believe in that false reality but the reality is what we see in the modern

03:54:15.640 dating place today like you know women want guys of high status they're typically looking for a guy

03:54:20.360 that's better than them you know those are the certain things but women look also for other

03:54:24.440 things there are no mentioned by right though they that is actually mentioned in the red pill too yeah

03:54:29.480 like what for example apart the three things what do you mean like the money status and uh physical

03:54:35.800 attraction what else is taken into consideration when a woman gets attraction for a man ideally they want

03:54:43.880 a guy that can be have alpha qualities and also beta qualities which is like you know alpha seed which

03:54:51.480 is like you know providing a high quality mate high quality children and then the beta size which is

03:54:56.280 like financial provisioning ideally you want a woman wants a guy that turns around sexually and can also

03:55:01.320 be like a financial provider that's all but most guys typically fall into one category another and that's

03:55:07.480 all i mean women don't look for anything else when they look for a long-term relationship

03:55:11.480 just if you can provide for my future kids that's enough if you're attractive enough rich enough

03:55:17.000 that's fine for me that's a partial of reality factors sorry but they're for person to person

03:55:25.880 obviously smaller ones that matter yeah but what i'm asking you only these three things there is

03:55:31.080 no there's a lot more the red pill is just more than three things there's there's there's quite a bit

03:55:35.720 of nuance that's the problem i believe you but i what i read is i never see any uh mention to the

03:55:42.040 mental mental uh affinity any any mention to the psychology psychological affinity any mention to the

03:55:49.320 importance of kindness i mean if a guy's not kind with me i wouldn't i would just it just doesn't

03:55:54.840 matter yeah i think you're i think you're looking because i think like the red pill has like this

03:55:59.240 surface level identity that like women only want a high status guy who has a rolex and a ferrari and

03:56:05.400 he's six foot tall and he's perfect he's good looking chad i think humanizing so so yeah i

03:56:11.080 understand what you're saying so that's not what the red pill is about but a lot of people just like

03:56:16.520 the shortcut answer is like just become a high value man or a attempt to become a high value man the

03:56:22.600 real red pill answer is talking about like what's going on with the sexual dynamics between men and

03:56:27.560 women and then there's an extreme emphasis on guys in the red pill community to improve themselves

03:56:33.400 that's the huge component of the red pill community is to make like i say you know it's money for guys

03:56:39.720 if i could like uh summarize it it's four things money muscles game and frame right so guys have to

03:56:46.200 focus on making money making muscles is basically taking care of yourself not being fat game is

03:56:52.600 understanding how to identify a good woman that is like going to be a good partner for you versus a

03:56:57.560 woman who's just using you or won't be a good partner for you and then frame is just having like

03:57:02.600 an idea of boundaries and then understanding how to enforce those boundaries especially when

03:57:07.000 a woman or someone else comes in your life so you're not like just you know a doormat for the

03:57:11.720 majority of people in your life yeah and and the red the red pill it's an analogy that originates from

03:57:17.160 the film the matrix right where you take the blue pill you stay in wonderland you take the red pill we see

03:57:22.760 how far the rabbit hole goes taking the red pill is and and often that truth is an uncomfortable truth

03:57:30.520 right uh and so basically just the red pill is the truth because there's men are told just be nice

03:57:40.120 just be yourself no that's definitely not enough do all this do do this do that for a girl

03:57:46.680 and in practice it doesn't work yeah it doesn't work women don't reward

03:57:52.040 these sort of traditional courtship things anymore i understand that and i definitely think

03:57:57.080 that there is a big part of reality that is actually explained pretty well by red pill and i

03:58:03.320 even when i heard these theories myself the first time i realized that it's true i mean i care about

03:58:09.240 money i care about status i care about attractive like the physical attractiveness uh the problem

03:58:15.880 with me is that there is a the way is usually framed and and spoken also in the like fresh and fit

03:58:23.320 whatever i mean not wherever but friendship fit um it's like the the short version of it i would say

03:58:30.040 at this point the short version in which women are dehumanized and also men so that we are genetic

03:58:35.960 machines that we want just that we are driven by biological instinct only there is no psychology in

03:58:43.640 these creatures we are like monkeys basically so that a man look for looks for a younger woman because

03:58:49.720 she's more fertile i mean are you a monkey are you going to mate with your gorilla mate i mean

03:58:55.800 what's so funny about that is when they're referring to those men those are the men who would

03:59:00.120 it's their absolute nightmare to impregnate one of those women so like it's not really about

03:59:05.640 reproduction it's never to be honest almost never about reproduction because they're not thinking i'm

03:59:10.920 going to have your kids like not right away at least yeah but you're it's always so funny whenever

03:59:16.600 we bring up the fertility thing yeah or or uh the paternity uncertainty component to it

03:59:24.840 why are women attracted to men who are tall yeah it has it has an evolutionary component

03:59:32.840 a man being tall has absolutely no bearing on his really on his like physical attractiveness like

03:59:39.720 he could still have a handsome face he could be fit it comes down to survival women back in the

03:59:45.240 day if a guy was physically big physically large physically strong that communicates he's more

03:59:51.480 capable of protecting you and providing for you so it has an evolutionary basis it's also not fun to

03:59:56.920 feel bigger than the man oh period i've been with men shorter than me but but why why is that

04:00:05.240 what is that feeling does it have an evolutionary basis because maybe you don't feel secure

04:00:10.920 and but but but do men look for security from their female partners in a different way i'd say no

04:00:17.800 but but we're talking no but we're talking about we're talking about physical safety here men don't

04:00:23.320 look for safety in from women physically no yeah right so that has an evolutionary basis

04:00:31.480 yeah definitely fine but it's irrational like you like to talk about the rational man like the book or

04:00:37.960 whatever uh it's irrational because it's not nowadays i don't need to look for the tall guys

04:00:43.960 because i don't need to be protected by the you don't need to you don't maybe you specifically you

04:00:48.920 don't need to that we have a choice like psychologically we can't contrast our our biological

04:00:54.360 and if given the choice most women would not date a man who's shorter than her they're mediocre

04:00:59.640 probably what probably the men the men are mediocre the women i mean women there are women are mediocre

04:01:06.920 no women they're only no biological women with the six foot standard fine but what i'm saying is that

04:01:13.560 when you are so you would exclude a guy that you like that would would be oh yeah with you if you

04:01:18.840 would let me answer his question i could downplay a lot of what you're saying right now and it's what i'm

04:01:24.040 seeing in this area women are giving up sex very easily here and these are young young women because

04:01:31.320 they want to feel there is super easy there is more women in this area than men that's what's driving

04:01:37.160 a lot of this casual sex yeah so women feel in competition with one another they're giving up sex sex is

04:01:45.880 sacred in my opinion men have this i have my pick of the litter closer to the mic please i have this

04:01:53.400 i have the pick of the litter men are being held to a standard that they once were held to

04:02:02.040 so what he's trying to say is the red pill is encouraging men to be these alpha hold yourself

04:02:09.560 accountable stoicism all that kind of stuff because women have really lowered the bar

04:02:14.920 wow and i get nervous no but so we we were doing a great job we were specifically okay we were

04:02:25.640 specifically talking about height here would you date a guy who's shorter than you i have i have twice

04:02:31.080 is that optimum because you you literally just said two minutes you literally just said two minutes ago

04:02:36.600 you don't want to feel small as a woman yeah that's what my issue was so you have i am an insecure

04:02:41.960 woman so i speak for a lot of women because it stems from when i was in my early 20s

04:02:49.080 and how sure okay what about you do you would you date a guy who's shorter than you i have dated

04:02:55.480 someone but um deep down i feel like something was missing that i didn't feel safe i don't maybe was

04:03:03.960 in conscience but here can you scoot your mic that way for me please there you go that's good so

04:03:10.040 i will yes but at the same time i do like to feel safe so i maybe that's why we're in a relationship

04:03:18.120 correct yes how long have you been dating one you said uh a year and a half one year and a half yeah

04:03:23.320 how tall is he um is he taller is he taller than you yeah he's like this how tall are you uh five seven how

04:03:32.920 tall is he six something mma guys are short yeah what jujitsu guys are short i used to work at gracie

04:03:40.760 baja you're right a guy a guy who's five foot seven who's a black belt in jujitsu or an mma guy

04:03:47.880 is much more capable of defending you than a six foot guy who's had no martial arts training um

04:03:53.480 okay how tall is you you said you're not you've been dating a guy for nine months how tall is he

04:04:01.000 well he's six feet oh there it is there it is yeah but i dated guys they were even like height

04:04:09.000 high like me shorts like me sure but your current boyfriend is six feet guys that were six feet yeah

04:04:16.520 but i mean it's that's well i swear i swear it's not related with that i was not looking for a

04:04:22.280 relationship some years ago that's the point that's fair that's fair enough but six feet is two inches

04:04:26.680 above the uh average male height in the united states so it happened it's convenient for you to

04:04:32.440 say well i don't really care about that yet your boyfriend is six feet tall i mean i've been attracted

04:04:36.600 by women that were shorter and because that's fine i mean it's definitely women are also worried

04:04:42.840 about the short man complex fair enough the point the point i'm trying the point i'm trying to make

04:04:48.360 is generally speaking look not all women however most women have a fairly strong preference to date

04:04:55.080 a guy who's tall yeah and if you ask just because of like they want their children to come out maybe

04:05:00.520 taller it might just be more maternal instincts rather than i have to have a six foot maybe they might

04:05:04.920 be attracted that because they want their kid their boy their whatever to have those kinds of

04:05:09.560 genetics right i think that like we're not discounting the fact that evolutionary psychology

04:05:15.000 plays into dating preferences i think we're all on the same page right yeah okay that plays into it

04:05:19.800 but it's not the only thing and then that this idea that we're just like electrified meat sacks

04:05:27.160 has only contributed more to the problems that we're facing in modern dating culture right now

04:05:32.840 specifically that everyone's not committing we're not seeing two bodies just basically masturbating

04:05:40.280 with one yeah exactly yeah and and you know what um birth control is a huge uh agreed part of that

04:05:48.520 agreed taking the entire risk yeah i'm not on birth control out of having sex yeah taking taking the

04:05:55.080 risk out of a higher risk activity when a woman comes off birth control she'll actually lose some

04:06:00.280 attraction yeah the man she was her attractions change so she's she's attracted to higher t guys

04:06:06.200 after she is off i heard yeah because shook me a little because like wow no because what i have

04:06:12.840 heard that birth control will make women more attracted to guys who are a bit more feminine but

04:06:17.160 it's because when you're on hormonal birth control your body basically is behaving as if you're pregnant

04:06:23.400 so you're looking for a guy who is more more nurturing lower t slightly who is able to protect

04:06:29.800 you and provide for you while you're in this vulnerable state of pregnancy and women can be

04:06:34.280 on hormonal birth control for years and years at a time your body thinks it's pregnant for years and

04:06:39.320 years at a time you're emotionally dysregulated you have weight problems digestion problems yeah

04:06:45.720 hormonal acne stuff like that um yeah yeah and it gives you basically a fake period which is not a

04:06:53.000 period because you're not ovulating um yeah and it's a huge problem i think morally as well a lot of

04:06:58.680 people would disagree with this but it's taken all of the moral hazard out of a high risk activity

04:07:05.880 which is casual sex yeah oh yeah so unless we somehow make birth control uh i don't know socially

04:07:14.040 stigmatized if not in my ideal world good luck then we're gonna stay in this mess we're gonna stay

04:07:21.240 sitting in our dirty diapers be free chat be free i took off members only mode so you guys can all jump

04:07:29.080 in now um word i the thing is though is like there's no way that at least the cat's out of the bag right

04:07:36.440 so that's where i get so black-pilled with modern dating is like as long as we have birth control

04:07:41.400 we're kind of screwed like it's driving all the risk control out of using women for the ship for

04:07:48.120 these standards so do you think it's men because i hear men actually trying to step up and take

04:07:53.720 accountability and women here are loud i'm gonna get a lot of hate for this and i still haven't brought

04:08:00.920 up the whole thing we talked about with that facebook group but the women population here we can

04:08:06.520 we'll talk about that yeah it's very loud with man hating they don't want the patriarchy they don't

04:08:14.040 want go start your own thing then let me know how that works out for you yeah i mean this this what

04:08:18.360 we're living in right now is is how it worked out for us yeah and no i don't think anybody is satisfied

04:08:23.240 with this no no i mean the problem is women the the market is flooded with pussy that's the bottom of

04:08:28.200 mine it's just flooded with pussy and like girls do girls go out with a guy like on a starbucks date and

04:08:33.960 and you know he's raw dog and her like an hour later you know first time meeting the guy like

04:08:38.680 knowing the guy within one to two hours it's because women look for connection and closeness

04:08:43.560 from sex and it's this simulacra of it that they get from good word well done mary simulacra well

04:08:51.160 men are are pursuing the big o from the woman a lot of men say that that they get off when the woman gets

04:08:57.240 off but a lot of women are faking it because they want the feeling of the man choosing them thinking

04:09:03.880 if i give him the sex and fake the orgasm he'll pick me that's terrible it's like giving him

04:09:09.240 this egoic don't fake don't fake orgasms ladies don't fake i don't know who is telling women that

04:09:14.280 having casual sex will make a man commit to them movies the feminist why the hell why do they

04:09:20.520 believe that but the feminist movement doesn't even frame it as something to be desired for a man

04:09:25.560 to commit to you so where does it come from this is maybe they don't want to have a relationship

04:09:29.560 just they want to have sex many women no i mean think about the reasons that women want to have

04:09:34.920 sex though it's not just pleasure yeah it's what andrew tate was just talking about in that clip

04:09:40.840 it's a deeper connection men are looking for it too but there are many it depends also on

04:09:46.040 what is your age like many guys they like many undergraduate here they just hook up men and

04:09:51.240 women and they're not really looking for sex that's because usually that's all they really analyze

04:09:56.120 their own motivations there is more freedom do they really think about their own motivations

04:10:01.080 for promiscuous sex freedom is a problem i don't know about that i don't i would never want to go

04:10:06.200 they have everything in their plate now so we were already screwed in the 30s and 40s because

04:10:11.640 birth control was possible what is the problem with the control was in the 60s it no that started in the

04:10:17.240 20s i don't know what's the problem with the birth and it was normalized especially with um even

04:10:22.760 like pastor families where the dad is a pastor the mom is she she takes for control because it's

04:10:30.760 part of their image like hormonal birth control didn't come around until the 60s no 1920

04:10:39.240 it was in the 20s and also parenthood was founded before the 60s that was in the

04:10:45.720 shouldn't be that was in the 20s shouldn't be any birth control

04:10:48.840 now well that's that's you don't want to talk about that so we'll leave that off the table but

04:10:53.400 like yeah next time next next show next show but uh i'll be here so we don't need we should not

04:10:57.880 you know what have you had feminism existed before birth control in the 1800s seneca falls convention

04:11:04.760 big l and if you want to go all the way back you can talk about the industrial revolution which

04:11:09.080 disrupted the home and if you want to go back even further we can talk about the enlightenment let's go

04:11:14.440 back yo and then if you want to go back before that let's go back to yo so really we need to

04:11:19.720 abolish the printing let's go back to mesopotamia son i sound schizophrenic right now but i don't

04:11:25.080 care did you read sex at dawn have you read that sex at dawn no oh that goes back okay yeah

04:11:32.360 um what's the problem with the printing press what the look okay so the printing press

04:11:38.280 is what made that's where it all started for let me hold on yeah hold on let me just make this more

04:11:43.800 relevant to today's time so basically like in america everything's like women are so hyper

04:11:49.720 sexualized here everything you hear like women actually have shame in other countries like not

04:11:55.320 to like put pictures of themselves revealing everything on their instagram like there is a

04:12:00.520 giant sway from like this culture having like modesty and just having like a healthy relationship with

04:12:07.000 shame to this like shameless culture we're like if you don't agree with everything that i want it's

04:12:12.200 because you're a terrible bad person and it's like no sometimes you just have fucking ideas and like

04:12:18.120 some of these girls they're hoes and they're like no i'm just like a a sapiosexual or whatever

04:12:23.720 fucking crazy term they need to make up to like justify the fact that they just want to get

04:12:27.720 fucked by a lot of bunch of dudes so the reality is like these girls they want men to change the you

04:12:34.600 know getting the like problems with the dating culture off of my chest it's that american women

04:12:39.800 their standards for men are way too high and american men their standards women are way too

04:12:45.160 you want to know why i feel like who's the fault though i'm sorry go i feel like it's because women

04:12:49.720 have become way more independent and we feel as though we may not need that man in our lives that

04:12:56.760 provides because we're providing for ourselves we became more selective yeah but how's that working

04:13:00.920 out for these women who are like crying on their on tiktok i don't know about you no i'm not talking

04:13:05.480 about you because you're happy and you're young and pretty now but you're not gonna be young and

04:13:08.520 pretty forever thank you like that's gonna that's gonna disappear eventually i'm excited for the

04:13:14.040 challenge of that no you say that you say that but i don't think anyone looks forward to being

04:13:18.600 older but you know if men i know that i say something that is banal it's obvious but it's men

04:13:24.600 lowing down their why are there younger magic well it doesn't need to be one or the other who is at

04:13:30.200 fault for it it's definitely everyone is but the problem is that this situation men even contributed

04:13:36.600 to create it well if listen if women listen no no no women set the bar for sexual access wait hold on

04:13:43.640 women set the bar for sexual access period if every woman in america said i'm not gonna

04:13:48.600 fucking have sex the man unless he wears a suit there would be fucking suits sold out across this

04:13:54.040 nation every dude would be wearing a suit no like ninth or i mean anything because women really do set

04:14:00.520 the tone like guys that's why there are simps right now but why are there younger men just hold on just

04:14:06.200 calm down come make my point okay that's why we have simp culture why women say i'm not gonna talk to

04:14:12.520 you unless you give me 50 bucks i never said that i will talk to you yeah but i'm talking to that's your

04:14:17.160 business model okay listen i know just relax just relax that is your business model that's a lot of

04:14:23.000 only fangirls business model right now okay they'd say to these guys okay you have to pay then i'll

04:14:29.640 talk to you you have to do this then i'll talk to you so they set the standard so the standard right

04:14:34.920 now for dating is 100 due to women's actions and the women are the ones giving out pussy like it's

04:14:40.360 fucking water it's for free and then that's what these guys like well guess what if a guy's you

04:14:46.120 know at the top of the totem pole too and all these girls are just like easily giving him

04:14:50.600 pussy why is he gonna change like i'm not gonna change these girls give it to me within the first

04:14:54.840 couple hours of meeting me and then you don't see the girl again like someone like me you might

04:14:58.920 not like see again because i don't give a fuck about you you would do that to me oh to you brian

04:15:03.720 but sorry but women are are still those that decide that women have the power on sex over sex

04:15:10.520 it's still a thing that is decided by men i mean not this not decided in the literal sense of the

04:15:16.440 word but in what i mean is that it's something that men contributes to create in a way yeah can we i

04:15:22.920 would say like men definitely share a culpability for casual sex being the norm hookup culture being

04:15:28.760 the norm now yeah i mean i don't think i don't say that i have a solution for that but i see that but

04:15:34.440 the solution has to it does have to start with women gatekeeping sex yeah they give it up so

04:15:40.440 easy it does have to start there but also to add more context like to certain think about what are

04:15:45.480 the motivations for women who are giving it up too easy what what is going on in them like

04:15:50.760 psychologically emotionally and spiritually that makes them give it up so easy and why are there

04:15:56.200 some women who don't because you have a whole culture there are a lot of men failing them like

04:16:01.000 there are a lot of fathers failing their daughters i agree i agree but when it comes back to that then

04:16:06.120 who's the one initiating these divorces in those broken households it doesn't necessarily even have

04:16:10.760 to be a broken household there are a lot of fathers who just emotionally fail their daughters and don't

04:16:16.920 affirm them as they're growing up and it's bad for their confidence i mean i'm sure that's a very basic

04:16:23.320 i don't think it's a niche problem i think it's a very it's a very niche example okay but when you have

04:16:27.800 the majority of households being destroyed in america totally by women initiating these divorces

04:16:33.160 and then what do they do typically they divorce the father and then they demonize the father to

04:16:37.240 the kids every day telling kid like your dad was a bad guy you know all this shit and then they keep

04:16:41.960 the kids like nine times out of ten too she's going to fight for custody and she's going to want to keep

04:16:46.440 the father away so she can have like more child support and all those things so then on top of that you

04:16:52.440 have a woman who is a mother now keeping the kid away from the father as well and then the kid

04:16:58.600 thinks like oh my dad abandoned me then they have you know and then it's become daddy issues like it's

04:17:02.440 a it's a joke in america like oh why is that girl so easy oh she has daddy issues i totally understand

04:17:08.040 that problem but then also look at the fact that people aren't even getting married anymore for the

04:17:12.280 divorces to happen right so there are a lot of deadbeat dads and deadbeat moms out there i totally

04:17:19.080 agree that what you just said is a problem guys are not the number one reason guys are not getting

04:17:23.880 married is because the divorce laws are crazy no guy wants to lose 50 of his stuff i don't think

04:17:28.600 they're even thinking about it like that they are they are i don't think a lot of guys are even

04:17:32.840 educated on that topic women you still hold the bar women used to give sex married you said this

04:17:38.680 women used to only give sex if the man would marry right then birth control came along yeah so now

04:17:45.480 women are not holding the bar and so men are getting the sex for free so that's why men are

04:17:50.680 not wanting to marry it's just it's supply and demand it's common market so is it about divorce

04:17:56.040 and courts favoring moms are dropping the ball about women's standards being lowered is it or is it both

04:18:02.920 i do want to say and this is something there are a lot of younger men here who want to date older women

04:18:07.160 and we haven't touched on this at all cougars no not the cougar thing i dated the 45 year old my my mom is

04:18:13.960 seven years older than my dad and they're still together they're happy and everybody wants to

04:18:17.960 say it's rare so wait what did you want to touch on you said we haven't younger men choosing old

04:18:24.520 older women no it's not the milf no no no but i mean the fact that the milf exists that's because

04:18:31.960 yeah that's because many men actually have ideas about uh older women yeah i mean yeah otherwise why

04:18:39.640 would you create a whole erotic category called milf you know men create all kinds of yeah they'll

04:18:45.000 find a reason yeah yeah well you you dated a 45 years old i did so you like in my defense no in my

04:18:59.240 defense she never had kids no kids right yeah you said that still good still and

04:19:04.120 she was i don't know this is gonna get me canceled i don't know if i should say it

04:19:12.280 you don't have to let's just say to justify anything let's just say she didn't raisin

04:19:19.640 oh the skin yeah her skin didn't raise

04:19:22.600 okay um here let me let me we gotta i want to wrap up soon here so um is it a deal breaker if

04:19:36.920 a guy won't go down on you no it's not based i love writing dick like it feels great like just

04:19:43.320 the dick inside like why does he have to like eat you out i mean i i know it's super controversial but

04:19:48.120 i just not a fan no one's like ever eating me out so good i'm like yep gotta have that every

04:19:53.400 fucking time based let's fucking go okay well my answer is a bummer compared to hers well i would

04:20:01.640 teach him he should do it no but do it no but let's say he just he doesn't enjoy doing it he's not

04:20:08.440 gonna do it is it the deal breaker it depends on the whole context but it might be it might let's

04:20:15.400 say he has like a neck injury yeah i got it like he cannot do it he's got a neck injury it was cut

04:20:23.080 okay what the fuck no i'd like his neck's all fucked and he just doesn't he doesn't like to do it you

04:20:27.960 know i mean all right what about you deal breaker a lot of men aren't really good at it that's what i'm

04:20:33.240 saying it's just like well let's is the deal breaker though if no i'm saying it's not a deal breaker for

04:20:39.880 me deal breaker no uh mary i'm not gonna even talk about sexual acts on this show that's fine

04:20:47.560 that's totally fine uh okay good times good to know okay um you last thing you wanted to bring up the

04:20:56.040 facebook thing oh yeah so you're in santa barbara there's this phenomenon called the the are we dating

04:21:05.240 the same guy and these are facebook pages that are populated primarily by well exclusively by women

04:21:12.600 and they post men they'll post photos they'll post biographical information and uh and i've heard

04:21:20.600 from people about this and honestly they're my understanding is they're quite toxic it happens

04:21:25.160 to be the case that you saw me posted on one of these groups so what did you want to say about these groups

04:21:31.960 i believe the intention for it started out good it was saving women who were on the apps from some

04:21:39.080 really bad men or men that were playing the field which men are going to do that unless you have a

04:21:45.800 conversation with them about it in that respect what i was witness to and the only reason i'm talking

04:21:51.800 about it is because i got kicked out because i was quote unquote defending men i wasn't just bashing men

04:21:58.120 the the topics really were about height yes a lot of women five two saying they will not date anyone

04:22:07.640 under six foot i stood up for men in that what you've been talking a lot about

04:22:13.160 money how much money should a man make this is all the toxicity and the feminine woman side that i saw

04:22:20.840 and i was trying to be a little red pill i guess i don't really know what red pill is either it's outside

04:22:26.040 the matrix and i got kicked out of this group of women because of what i was let's fucking go

04:22:33.960 well i've i've heard from so many men so many men will message me i've seen posts on forums about these

04:22:40.120 groups and while i think the initial intention as you said was to perhaps protect women from

04:22:48.200 really toxic men what it devolved into was basically just man bashing

04:22:53.560 chicks would just post dudes they're going on a doxing doxing addresses doxing phone numbers

04:22:59.240 doxing uh employers lying about men false accusations it's crazy it's just bullying also

04:23:05.080 like how you know if you went on a date with someone and like look sometimes how often is it the case that

04:23:12.040 if you broke up with someone look sometimes an ex just doesn't like you yeah like they're not gonna

04:23:23.560 say positive things about you you know one woman wanted us to look at a photograph to see if her ex

04:23:30.520 had someone else in his car and these are women that also have never had the conversation with a man

04:23:36.120 if it was exclusive yep that's another big problem here yeah there are tons of women sleeping with

04:23:41.960 men thinking it's exclusive and that the man situation yeah that was so many of them and i was

04:23:48.840 trying to empower these women like do better but a lot of women don't want to take accountability word

04:23:55.000 word um okay let's uh i think we should wrap up here um do we do the chat should we do the patrice

04:24:02.520 clip yes or no let's do the patrice clip um and then we're gonna wrap up what are you what are you

04:24:10.520 getting me uh double double no onions with fries okay but like i wouldn't like that wait i thought

04:24:17.640 you had to give 500 i do but for a in and out it seems like a fair trade right i don't hear yes yes

04:24:25.720 oh come on wait can you do it right now streamlabs.com whatever put in your credit card

04:24:32.360 you're lying no i will take you on the most romantic been worth 500 i will take you on the

04:24:37.720 most romantic date to in and out right now if you donate 500 it'd be the most bro get you what you

04:24:45.000 want girl vanilla shake shit french fries i got you it's done i want a lot of things brian hopefully not

04:24:52.520 500 where i'm gonna make if you order 500 worth of food i'm gonna make you eat it

04:24:57.240 and then you'll be obese and then your only fans career is hey still still going strong still going

04:25:02.920 strong uh okay do we have the uh patrice what the in and out okay uh go for it his question

04:25:14.200 this is a serious question okay ladies if you didn't have a vagina like say it was a terrible

04:25:22.680 train accident right and the doctor was like we have to remove your right away

04:25:29.160 or you're gonna die

04:25:32.520 how would you keep your man past you get a two-month guilty i can't leave the

04:25:39.240 bitch right away because you just lost a pussy in a train accident

04:25:45.800 can't just walk right out on

04:25:51.320 how would you keep your man past that if you didn't have a vagina

04:25:59.480 anal

04:25:59.880 terrible train accident i wouldn't keep him i don't know i don't know what what would you do

04:26:12.040 to keep your man though well probably what she said at that point you do also oral you have so

04:26:16.680 many options that's fair what about you go to work for him go to work war war um my idea of a power

04:26:24.600 couple is two people who go to war for each other all right okay all right what about you what do you

04:26:30.520 do to keep your man same the anal or the war the war the war uh mary i mean yeah it's funny because

04:26:43.400 i'm like currently in a relationship and i don't she's already doing it i'm already keeping him i guess

04:26:48.520 so i don't know uh the last time i said like become a good cook but i i don't know i think it's just

04:26:55.160 about being a pleasant warm presence sure sure okay good um let's play the rest of the clip

04:27:06.920 wow nothing you can talk you can talk

04:27:14.040 suck his dick okay mouth

04:27:18.520 asshole okay great

04:27:22.840 do you see what i'm saying now i've been getting

04:27:25.000 pussybeating the whole show right but i give women the opportunity to say i'm gonna make myself

04:27:29.800 worth more but you just classified yourself as a series of holes but but you know i'm

04:27:39.400 i'm supposed to teach you the special but you're just a bunch of holes to yourself

04:27:42.680 no one said learn how to play xbox learn how to play pool tell better stories get another

04:27:51.000 bitch that got a pussy to come on in

04:27:56.040 well look whatever

04:27:57.480 you got anything to say um i don't want to partner so i really don't care about maintaining

04:28:07.480 somebody so it really doesn't what how can you say that well i love sex so if i could please you

04:28:13.800 and like really what is it that men want they want to eat they want to sleep they want to come what

04:28:19.000 else wouldn't i keep you i could cook huh i can cook cool so really how about loyalty okay can't

04:28:29.240 they do all those things alone what they can do all of those things alone ain't only what the

04:28:34.520 fuck what huh you said they want to eat come and sleep they can do all those things alone yeah they

04:28:40.520 absolutely could so what does a woman bring to the table has everything to do with the question

04:28:44.600 like if you lost your pussy what would you do to keep your man if they can do that by themselves

04:28:48.360 why am i in the picture well answer the question i just did anally were uh do you have a response

04:28:55.560 to the patrice clip since he kind of got you that are men need sex right so i would try to find a way

04:29:01.160 to satisfy him sexually even without pussy so that's why i was thinking about that and i was not thinking

04:29:06.760 about cooking or older that's what i'm saying that doesn't make sense or or ex like playstation

04:29:11.880 power couple is brian and redhead how much you i think you out earned me so i don't know

04:29:18.040 you make a lot daddy brian the please never never call me daddy please i do not like to be called

04:29:24.440 daddy really master how about no i'm kidding that's hot okay sir works too i guess um okay so

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04:30:45.640 chat be the queen ladies

04:30:50.920 i feel like i had a question for you but it's slipping my mind it was uh

04:30:56.440 toxic feminism toxicity feminism i have borrowed slate all right okay guys um i feel like i'm

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04:31:38.360 guys madison uh she told me beforehand she had to leave around 10 p.m so uh that's all good but uh

04:31:43.960 yeah where's waldo she did not last long and she almost took you with her oh no i make my own

04:31:52.360 decisions well yeah that was less than an hour right i don't i don't think she lasted very long

04:31:58.760 maybe an hour hour and a half or something but i thought you were going to leave honestly at one

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04:32:32.040 matter hashtag big labia matter okay i changed it from all labia matter because i feel like it just

04:32:37.560 yeah you know that makes sense from from all labia matter to blm blm i'm a uh i'm an activist okay

04:32:47.880 uh guys we have a fucking amazing show on tuesday mary's gonna be there john's gonna be there

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Whatever Podcast - May 18, 2023

Dating Talk #74

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