Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #79

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00:05:32.160 Also, just an announcement.

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00:05:50.460 You guys know.

00:05:51.400 Some of you might not know, but I've been having chronic neck pain issues, and that's

00:05:56.600 been pretty bad.

00:05:57.420 So, honestly, probably the most stressful couple weeks of my life. 0.98

00:06:00.320 So, I've got people I consider friends betraying me, backstabbing me, people talking shit, people 0.97

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00:07:19.580 Anyways, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:07:23.820 So, please, tell us your name, age, and occupation.

00:07:26.740 Go ahead.

00:07:27.400 I'm Natty Snow.

00:07:28.480 I'm 26, and I'm an OnlyFans model.

00:07:31.960 I'm Erica Latticer.

00:07:33.680 My occupation is social media, and I prioritize, sorry, prioritize my time on OnlyFans, Instagram,

00:07:40.540 and TikTok.

00:07:42.180 Sorry, I'm so nervous.

00:07:43.220 No, it's fine.

00:07:43.720 You're fine.

00:07:44.160 You're fine.

00:07:44.700 Did you say your age?

00:07:46.020 I don't say my age.

00:07:47.540 Why is that?

00:07:49.200 Because I believe that people try to determine my knowledge based off my age.

00:07:53.840 Well, we're not, no one here at this table is making any assumptions.

00:07:57.100 But that's okay.

00:07:57.820 So, you are declining the age question?

00:08:01.800 Yes.

00:08:02.640 Are you saying you're more knowledgeable than you look, or which way are we going?

00:08:07.260 No, because I think that I'm younger, and I believe that most times when you're having

00:08:12.260 an intellectual conversation with somebody, it is very hard to state your points without

00:08:18.560 having, sorry, I'm so nervous right now.

00:08:24.080 Do you have an accent, by the way?

00:08:25.260 I'm from Canada.

00:08:26.480 Oh, you're from Canada. 0.96

00:08:27.920 Yeah.

00:08:28.300 No, my heart's beating like a thousand miles per second.

00:08:30.260 Are you from the French-speaking part?

00:08:31.440 I'm part French, but I don't speak French.

00:08:33.300 But I just, like, sorry, what I was saying was, like, basically, like, growing up, having

00:08:39.060 people look down at me because I'm younger, I've learned a lot in how to speak to people

00:08:43.380 and properly speak, in the sense of, in person, this is a little new, but.

00:08:49.200 You, I mean, you are at least 18, and I'm.

00:08:51.700 Yes.

00:08:52.080 Okay.

00:08:53.040 Okay.

00:08:54.660 So, you don't want to be judged because of your age when it comes to how people perceive

00:09:00.320 your intellect?

00:09:02.120 Yes.

00:09:02.620 What if you told people your real age, I don't know, let's say you're 20, and then they're

00:09:06.120 like, wow, I'm blown away by how smart this 20-year-old is.

00:09:09.300 It could actually do you a big favor, right?

00:09:11.580 Huge favor.

00:09:12.180 I, yeah, I think you can go both ways, but that's just my preference.

00:09:16.920 Um, are there any other basic biographical things that you're going to choose to omit

00:09:23.060 during this stream?

00:09:24.140 Oh, well, I just started making music, so.

00:09:26.620 That's not entirely what I meant, but.

00:09:28.800 Um, let me see if, uh, let me see if, let me ask, if a celebrity were to ask you to reveal

00:09:33.260 your age right now, would you do it?

00:09:35.880 Yeah.

00:09:36.280 For example, um.

00:09:38.000 Do it!

00:09:39.360 Shia LaBeouf?

00:09:40.180 Yeah.

00:09:40.380 Just do it!

00:09:41.600 Can you just tell us your age, please?

00:09:46.340 This is going to keep playing until you.

00:09:48.140 So just do it!

00:09:49.880 Shia is very persistent. 1.00

00:09:51.600 Make your dreams come true!

00:09:52.340 So am I.

00:09:52.920 Just do it!

00:09:55.020 Should we guess?

00:09:55.860 And like, whoever wins.

00:09:57.260 That's right.

00:09:57.780 Some people dream of success.

00:09:59.180 While you're going to wake up.

00:10:00.020 It's going to keep playing, I mean.

00:10:01.660 Nothing is impossible!

00:10:02.960 Nothing is impossible!

00:10:04.520 Does your social media say you're 20?

00:10:06.800 Um, I have a famous birthday, so I'm pretty sure that says it, but not in my bio.

00:10:12.200 Oh, okay.

00:10:12.540 Can you give us a range?

00:10:16.820 A range?

00:10:17.760 Yeah.

00:10:18.000 Into the mic, please.

00:10:19.860 All right.

00:10:20.460 Like, are you 25?

00:10:21.600 I'll say 18 to 25 is my range.

00:10:24.480 There you go.

00:10:25.040 So, okay.

00:10:25.980 Why don't you want to share your age?

00:10:28.940 Because I don't want people to judge me based off my intellect.

00:10:31.420 I think we had that conversation.

00:10:32.380 I mean, aren't there plenty of other reasons why people could judge you?

00:10:36.180 Yeah, but I think that...

00:10:37.360 Like, is age really the primary factor that people are going to judge you by?

00:10:43.000 No.

00:10:43.260 There's not one other thing that someone might judge you by?

00:10:46.080 But that's just something that I hold, like, close to myself, right?

00:10:47.100 So, and I stand by that.

00:10:48.540 You what?

00:10:49.160 I stand by that.

00:10:50.020 But the reason I'm kind of being persistent and pushing back on you on this is if you're

00:10:56.060 so prepared to refuse to answer such a simple biographical question, I mean, what other,

00:11:02.900 you know, questions are you going to choose to not engage in?

00:11:06.920 That depends on the question.

00:11:08.940 What if more people are judging you because you won't say it than if you had just said it?

00:11:12.640 That's okay.

00:11:13.520 Oh, okay.

00:11:15.220 Well, she's not going to say it, so...

00:11:16.920 People are entitled to their own opinions, and I'm open to hearing other people's opinions.

00:11:21.300 All right.

00:11:22.020 Okay.

00:11:22.680 Well, we're going to let it slide.

00:11:24.080 We're going to keep moving.

00:11:24.760 Go ahead.

00:11:25.140 Okay.

00:11:25.340 I'm Tiffany Madison.

00:11:27.040 I'm 30, and I'm an adult film star and an OnlyFans model.

00:11:30.520 Okay.

00:11:31.220 Thank you for disclosing your age.

00:11:33.000 Appreciate it.

00:11:34.140 What about you?

00:11:35.260 Hi, I'm Alia Bryn.

00:11:36.560 I'm an adult film star, and I'm 23.

00:11:39.140 Okay.

00:11:39.680 Thank you for sharing your age.

00:11:41.100 Appreciate it.

00:11:42.600 Hi, I'm Eliza Eves.

00:11:44.080 I'm 24, and I'm an adult film star.

00:11:47.120 Thank you so much for sharing your age.

00:11:49.380 Much appreciated.

00:11:50.140 What about you?

00:11:52.960 I'm Bernadine.

00:11:54.080 I am a dating and marriage coach.

00:11:58.120 You can find me on Instagram, fearless.femininity.

00:12:01.640 Did you say your age?

00:12:03.460 32.

00:12:04.260 32.

00:12:04.660 Thank you for disclosing that.

00:12:06.040 Appreciate it.

00:12:06.740 What about you, Kelly?

00:12:08.080 Hi, I'm Kelly.

00:12:09.240 I'm 21, and I'm a branded stylist through Nordstrom, and I do content creation and social media

00:12:15.280 for them, and I'm also a student at Cal State Northridge.

00:12:18.440 Brock, you said 21, right?

00:12:20.120 Yep.

00:12:20.300 Thank you for disclosing your age.

00:12:21.760 Appreciate it.

00:12:22.360 What about you?

00:12:23.640 My name is Matt, or Stay Safe Online.

00:12:25.960 That's my streamer name.

00:12:27.660 I'm a Twitch streamer.

00:12:28.860 I'm 29, and I also own a caffeine gum business.

00:12:33.240 It's called Power Gum.

00:12:34.280 Power Gum.

00:12:34.880 Yeah.

00:12:35.640 Check that out, guys.

00:12:36.920 Check out his stream.

00:12:38.480 Is it twitch.tv slash staysafe.tv?

00:12:42.000 Staysafe.tv.

00:12:42.680 Staysafe.tv.

00:12:43.760 Check out his stream, guys. 0.98

00:12:44.700 He's a fucking Chad World of Warcraft gamer. 0.97

00:12:47.820 You play other games, too, right? 1.00

00:12:49.880 No.

00:12:50.560 Just World of Warcraft.

00:12:51.580 Just World of Warcraft.

00:12:52.320 Why else would you ever play a different game?

00:12:54.360 Are you going to be...

00:12:56.920 You're currently playing hardcore, right?

00:12:59.160 Yeah.

00:12:59.760 Hell yeah.

00:13:00.540 Okay.

00:13:01.040 Warlock?

00:13:01.780 Yeah.

00:13:02.440 Warlock?

00:13:03.240 Gnome?

00:13:03.900 Gnome.

00:13:04.380 What do you play, though?

00:13:05.700 I quit.

00:13:06.580 So, I used to play in vanilla back in, like, 2005, 2006.

00:13:10.140 You're not playing classic.

00:13:11.200 Well, I played classic.

00:13:12.540 I played it from launch, and then I quit right before AQ40.

00:13:16.540 Okay.

00:13:16.840 That's a good time to quit.

00:13:17.700 That's when the game kind of gets stale.

00:13:20.060 I got...

00:13:20.540 Dude, I was in a hardcore raiding guild, and we had loot council, and I got screwed over

00:13:28.440 on a couple loot decisions, so I was like, you know what?

00:13:32.080 What class did you say you play?

00:13:33.360 So, I mained a rogue.

00:13:34.680 A rogue, okay.

00:13:35.240 I mained a rogue, and I had an alt warrior.

00:13:39.600 Okay.

00:13:39.920 Are you, like, parsing, you're speedrunning, you're pumping 99?

00:13:43.160 We were speedrunning.

00:13:44.060 We were speedrunning.

00:13:44.620 And you had good times?

00:13:46.840 We were...

00:13:47.860 It was a horde guild.

00:13:48.660 We were, like, top 10 NA.

00:13:50.720 What server were you on?

00:13:52.260 I don't know if I want to...

00:13:53.320 That's a secret?

00:13:54.080 Were you on Fairlina?

00:13:55.180 I was not on...

00:13:55.820 Okay.

00:13:56.160 I wasn't streaming.

00:13:57.080 I wasn't on Fairlina.

00:13:57.940 It was, like, a mid-pop realm. 0.99

00:14:01.160 It wasn't, like, white main or Harad or any of that shit. 0.98

00:14:03.300 But you were, like, full bisqueer. 1.00

00:14:05.040 You were killing it.

00:14:06.140 I was... 0.98

00:14:07.400 I mean, I got screwed on some loot decisions, but I was...

00:14:10.440 I had a...

00:14:11.240 Hold up.

00:14:11.880 Why?

00:14:11.980 What's the drama?

00:14:12.280 Wait, wait, wait.

00:14:12.740 What's the drama?

00:14:13.920 Why did they screw you out of the loot?

00:14:18.160 So, okay. 1.00

00:14:18.980 Get this shit right. 0.99

00:14:20.200 Uh-huh. 0.99

00:14:20.420 So, it's, like, the first few...

00:14:23.200 Like, we were one of the first guilds to clear MC.

00:14:26.080 Okay.

00:14:26.400 And I'm a rogue, right?

00:14:27.300 Okay.

00:14:27.640 And I've got...

00:14:28.320 I crafted Heartseeker.

00:14:30.140 I was a dagger rogue.

00:14:31.000 Okay.

00:14:31.340 I crafted Heartseeker, and I had the blue dagger from... 0.95

00:14:35.960 This is so ridiculous.

00:14:37.960 I had the blue dagger from Strat. 0.96

00:14:41.680 From Baron Rivendare.

00:14:42.900 Okay.

00:14:43.400 All right.

00:14:43.760 The offhand.

00:14:44.360 Yep.

00:14:44.540 And another rogue in the guild who was...

00:14:47.500 It was me and him in line for...

00:14:49.660 For...

00:14:50.620 Perdition?

00:14:51.440 Perdition's blue.

00:14:52.060 Ooh.

00:14:52.320 Yeah, yeah.

00:14:52.500 Ooh.

00:14:52.980 That's big drama.

00:14:53.640 He had CHT, Core Hound Tooth.

00:14:56.960 Yep.

00:14:57.420 And he had the Fel Striker.

00:14:59.760 So, he had two epics, and I'm here with two blues.

00:15:02.160 Yep.

00:15:02.460 And they gave him Perdition's, but he has CHT.

00:15:04.680 No shot.

00:15:05.240 And we started raiding at the same exact time.

00:15:08.320 Wow.

00:15:08.820 So, it was, like, favoritism, because, like...

00:15:10.940 But I stuck with it, because I was, like...

00:15:14.520 Whatever, you know, but...

00:15:15.740 And you stuck it out through all of BWL.

00:15:17.740 All of BWL.

00:15:18.880 Then there was a few other shitty loot decisions, and I was, like... 0.85

00:15:21.500 Unbelievable. 0.51

00:15:22.200 I think the officers didn't like me, so...

00:15:24.080 Okay. 0.73

00:15:24.460 They did you dirty, bro.

00:15:25.720 That is true.

00:15:26.920 I've done... 0.99

00:15:28.260 There was some other shit, too. 0.99

00:15:30.120 There was some... 0.99

00:15:30.660 We'll talk about it after the show.

00:15:31.420 We'll talk about it after the show.

00:15:33.120 Okay.

00:15:33.560 So, we're going to go around the table once more.

00:15:37.360 Yeah.

00:15:38.200 We're going to...

00:15:39.000 We're going to go around the table.

00:15:42.100 Well, we're going to have everybody share their relationship status.

00:15:46.000 So, are you...

00:15:48.560 What's your current relationship status?

00:15:50.080 Are you single?

00:15:51.240 Do you have a friends with benefits?

00:15:53.360 Are you in a situationship, talking stage?

00:15:55.420 Are you in a polycule?

00:15:57.920 Do you get married, fiance, boyfriend, whatever it may be?

00:16:00.860 Go ahead.

00:16:01.360 Oh, and your longest relationship, please.

00:16:04.060 I have a boyfriend, and my longest relationship was eight years.

00:16:09.200 Yes.

00:16:10.320 Okay.

00:16:11.200 Yeah.

00:16:11.980 Wait, eight years.

00:16:12.900 Is that your current relationship, is the eight-year one?

00:16:15.380 Yeah.

00:16:16.240 Okay.

00:16:16.700 So, you guys pretty much met...

00:16:18.520 Was it like high school?

00:16:20.000 Yeah.

00:16:20.360 Or right after high school or something?

00:16:21.440 Yeah.

00:16:21.900 Okay.

00:16:23.460 Okay.

00:16:23.920 I'm single, and I've never been in a proper relationship.

00:16:27.900 Single, never been in a proper relationship.

00:16:30.660 What's the longest period of time that you've seen a guy?

00:16:35.420 Oh, six months.

00:16:36.340 Or a girl? 0.74

00:16:36.800 Well, I mean, that's...

00:16:38.600 That's not...

00:16:38.880 But you wouldn't consider it a proper relationship?

00:16:40.860 No.

00:16:41.900 Was it a situationship?

00:16:43.960 I'd say so, yes.

00:16:46.880 Why was...

00:16:48.400 Did you not want something more?

00:16:50.120 Was it long distance?

00:16:51.060 What was going on there?

00:16:53.060 No, I just found some things that I shouldn't have, and I'd like to keep that private.

00:16:58.060 I feel like I could.

00:16:59.560 Like you like to wear women's underwear? 1.00

00:17:01.760 What did you find?

00:17:02.460 No, just a video I shouldn't have.

00:17:04.400 It was him with someone else?

00:17:06.780 Was he cheating or what?

00:17:07.640 Was he cheating?

00:17:09.120 Well, I wasn't allowed to see anyone else, but he was, so that's okay.

00:17:13.320 Okay.

00:17:13.840 But you said you were in a situationship, so I mean, were there any conversations about commitment?

00:17:18.280 Yeah, I was told I wasn't allowed to see anyone else, so I didn't.

00:17:23.000 But he actually came forward and said, listen, I'm going to see other people.

00:17:25.940 Or was he sneaking around?

00:17:26.960 No, he was sneaking around.

00:17:27.520 Oh, he was sneaking around.

00:17:28.000 Okay, so he wasn't allowed, but he did.

00:17:30.220 I was at where we were staying, and I was taking care of our dog.

00:17:34.180 Okay, okay.

00:17:35.200 Was it Andrew Tate?

00:17:36.620 No.

00:17:37.320 Were you dating Andrew Tate?

00:17:38.500 No, I was not.

00:17:40.060 Okay, so six months, and how long ago, was that recent that that ended?

00:17:45.420 It was a while ago, about a year ago.

00:17:48.220 A year ago.

00:17:48.980 Was that in Canada?

00:17:50.260 That wasn't in Canada.

00:17:51.500 It wasn't in Canada.

00:17:52.580 I've never had a relationship in Canada.

00:17:54.040 It was in L.A., right?

00:17:57.240 L.A. is a fail.

00:17:58.620 Okay.

00:17:59.460 I could get into that, too.

00:18:01.060 Yeah, L.A.

00:18:02.020 A lot of you are from L.A., right?

00:18:03.540 Well, not from, but lit in L.A., at least, right?

00:18:05.720 I grew up here.

00:18:06.820 I was born here.

00:18:08.560 Word.

00:18:09.160 Okay.

00:18:09.780 Well, we'll get...

00:18:10.880 Actually, question.

00:18:13.160 When's the last time you were on a date?

00:18:16.080 I've never been asked on a date.

00:18:17.700 You've never been asked on a date?

00:18:19.340 I've been out with friends, but I've never been on a date.

00:18:23.180 But, like, have you ever been on a dating app?

00:18:25.620 No.

00:18:26.720 Okay.

00:18:27.280 I don't like dating apps.

00:18:28.280 Well, okay, let's, for all practical purposes, let's include, like, a date.

00:18:31.960 It could also include Netflix and chill.

00:18:35.180 Have you...

00:18:35.740 I wouldn't even say that, no.

00:18:38.020 No, Netflix and chill?

00:18:39.140 Mm-hmm.

00:18:40.040 But you say you go out with friends, so do you...

00:18:41.840 I assume you mean you go out, like, to party and go to bars and clubs and stuff?

00:18:45.100 I'm not a big fan, if I'm being honest.

00:18:46.680 Um, I like going out in the sense of, like, the beach or, you know, dinner with a group

00:18:51.280 of people or home with a group of people, but...

00:18:53.940 You've never just had a guy say you want to go see a movie?

00:18:56.760 Never?

00:18:57.540 Like, not even in high school?

00:18:58.660 Never.

00:18:59.000 I had a hard time in high school.

00:19:00.040 I went to five different schools.

00:19:01.440 Oh, okay.

00:19:02.640 Five different schools?

00:19:03.620 I went to four.

00:19:03.940 Yeah.

00:19:04.300 That's crazy.

00:19:04.880 Military-related or moving around?

00:19:07.220 No.

00:19:07.320 You just got...

00:19:07.900 I got bullied.

00:19:08.680 You got bullied?

00:19:09.380 Yeah.

00:19:09.720 That's how I started social media, so...

00:19:12.320 You got bullied out of five different high schools?

00:19:14.220 No, two different grade schools and then three different high schools. 0.99

00:19:19.520 Were you getting detention and shit? 0.99

00:19:22.820 No. 0.99

00:19:23.660 Were you, like, smoking weed in the bathroom or what?

00:19:25.660 Like, what was the deal?

00:19:27.340 I just...

00:19:28.160 I dressed differently than people and I was just more outgoing and it kind of just slowly

00:19:33.960 changed over time until I kind of got a chance to come out to California and meet

00:19:37.740 people who understood it.

00:19:39.020 I know why you got bullied.

00:19:39.820 Why?

00:19:40.120 You refused to disclose your age and high... 1.00

00:19:43.460 And people were like, what the fuck? 1.00

00:19:44.500 Why wouldn't she, like... 1.00

00:19:45.280 Is she, like, a plant? 1.00

00:19:46.760 Is she, like, a narc or some shit? 1.00

00:19:48.580 Or... 1.00

00:19:48.780 I don't know.

00:19:49.200 Well, hold up.

00:19:49.580 Was it other girls bullying you or was it boys?

00:19:52.620 It was girls. 1.00

00:19:53.900 It was girls. 1.00

00:19:54.460 Mostly, yes.

00:19:55.320 It was, like, the feminine, catty bullying. 0.94

00:19:57.540 I think I kind of got both ends of it, but I think it was worse with girls. 0.62

00:20:00.780 Okay.

00:20:01.320 Okay.

00:20:02.100 Well.

00:20:02.300 So, how did you meet the six-month situationship?

00:20:08.980 I was at an event, actually.

00:20:12.260 What kind of event was it?

00:20:13.700 Like a social media event.

00:20:14.880 Oh, okay.

00:20:15.240 Like a party or something.

00:20:16.120 Sure.

00:20:16.820 But, yeah.

00:20:18.040 Yeah.

00:20:19.680 What about you?

00:20:20.640 I'm single and my longest relationship was three years.

00:20:23.520 Three years?

00:20:24.080 Okay.

00:20:25.440 What about you?

00:20:26.280 I'm single and my longest relationship was two years.

00:20:29.760 Single, two years.

00:20:30.780 All right.

00:20:32.240 I'm in an open relationship, and my longest relationship was over a year.

00:20:37.480 How long have you been in your open relationship?

00:20:39.720 A few months.

00:20:40.640 A few months.

00:20:41.700 So, when you say open relationship, can you give us a little details on that?

00:20:48.260 Like, we are both free to do what we want.

00:20:52.040 I mean, I do porn for a living and have a porn agent and stuff, so I told him from the start

00:20:58.120 I'm going to continue doing that. 0.89

00:20:59.440 So, when you say porn, you mean, like, you're having intercourse with other men? 0.98

00:21:03.460 Yeah. 0.98

00:21:03.860 Okay, okay.

00:21:04.700 And women? 1.00

00:21:05.740 Yeah.

00:21:07.520 And he's totally cool, your boyfriend?

00:21:08.980 He's totally cool that we've been friends for a while. 0.90

00:21:09.900 Is he doing porn also? 0.95

00:21:11.540 No. 0.98

00:21:12.000 No.

00:21:12.440 But he's promiscuous?

00:21:14.060 No.

00:21:14.980 Wait, is he loyal to you?

00:21:17.840 He's pretty, like, by his own choice, loyal to me.

00:21:20.200 Like, he doesn't sleep with other people?

00:21:21.440 No.

00:21:22.200 That's how my boyfriend is, too.

00:21:25.240 You're in an open relationship, too?

00:21:28.120 You're in an open relationship, too?

00:21:29.640 You guys speak into the mic, please.

00:21:32.340 It's, I don't know how to explain it.

00:21:33.980 I wouldn't call it that.

00:21:36.500 So, it's open on your end, closed on his?

00:21:40.500 Yeah, basically.

00:21:41.960 But, just a point of clarification, because you do adult content, right?

00:21:46.120 So, when you say it's open on your end, it's open on your end to facilitate you doing your work,

00:21:52.780 but are you also hooking up with civilians?

00:21:56.800 No, not really.

00:21:58.020 Just for, like, my content.

00:22:00.160 Okay, I see.

00:22:01.160 Just military.

00:22:02.140 Do your men have jobs?

00:22:04.140 Do they work to make money?

00:22:05.340 Yes.

00:22:05.520 They do?

00:22:06.320 Mine does.

00:22:07.040 Okay.

00:22:07.940 They do?

00:22:08.700 Yeah.

00:22:09.320 Okay.

00:22:10.320 Oh, fascinating.

00:22:11.040 Are you trying to parse why they...

00:22:12.740 I'm just like, are they sticking around because they want the porn money, or are they...

00:22:16.720 Okay, no, they're making their money.

00:22:17.760 Well, I think some men are submissive, and...

00:22:19.740 So, your man is submissive.

00:22:21.780 Yeah, he is.

00:22:23.000 Did you peg him?

00:22:25.040 Mine's not.

00:22:25.800 You're just going in.

00:22:27.480 Jeez.

00:22:28.280 Just like you.

00:22:28.840 My man is not submissive at all.

00:22:29.780 Getting to the meaty questions.

00:22:31.680 Are you just with him because he lets you do all of that?

00:22:34.940 No, we've been friends for a long time, and he's a really good person, and I like him. 0.99

00:22:38.820 Do you like having sex with him? 0.99

00:22:42.400 Yeah, we have good sex. 1.00

00:22:43.640 Kelly, you can take your microphone down towards you and a little closer, please. 0.50

00:22:45.600 And so you knew him before you got into this line of work?

00:22:47.960 No, I've been doing this line of work for four years.

00:22:49.740 I met him a year ago.

00:22:50.700 Okay, okay.

00:22:51.860 Yeah.

00:22:52.320 Wait, so, but are you, like, hooking up with other people outside of your work?

00:22:56.880 No.

00:22:57.460 I mean, I could, but I don't.

00:22:58.840 But, so it's an open relationship to facilitate you being able to do the work that you do?

00:23:04.380 Okay.

00:23:04.800 Did you meet him as a result of this line of work?

00:23:06.940 No, not at all.

00:23:08.140 How'd you meet him?

00:23:09.420 I met him through friends, who's roommate, was one of my friends.

00:23:12.960 Okay, just like kind of normally.

00:23:13.660 Okay.

00:23:13.820 Yeah.

00:23:14.360 All right.

00:23:15.560 And you said you're also in a situation like that, kind of.

00:23:18.480 Yeah.

00:23:18.620 Is your boyfriend, is he sleeping with other? 1.00

00:23:23.980 Hell, fucking no. 1.00

00:23:25.380 Chicks? 1.00

00:23:25.940 No.

00:23:26.820 Would you be upset if he did?

00:23:29.180 If I'm involved, I'm cool with it, but.

00:23:31.280 No, well, if you're not involved.

00:23:34.160 Hell no.

00:23:35.060 What if he was getting paid to do it?

00:23:36.140 Can I have you straighten your mic, please?

00:23:37.740 Just straighten it.

00:23:39.020 Oh, yeah.

00:23:40.240 Yeah, perfect, perfect.

00:23:41.920 What was that? 0.99

00:23:42.960 Well, you're getting paid to have sex with other men. 1.00

00:23:44.660 What if he got a job getting paid to have sex with other women? 0.99

00:23:47.980 I don't usually have sex with other men, no. 0.99

00:23:50.980 Oh, okay.

00:23:51.420 I just do like girl, girl.

00:23:52.940 Ah, okay.

00:23:53.420 In solo, yeah.

00:23:53.820 Okay.

00:23:54.160 What if he did guy, guy?

00:23:56.980 Yeah, what if he did guy, guy?

00:23:58.140 He's making money.

00:23:59.340 He doesn't like men.

00:24:00.640 Okay.

00:24:01.280 So that wouldn't happen.

00:24:02.300 All right.

00:24:02.700 Excellent.

00:24:03.080 Fair enough.

00:24:03.780 So for you, you're sleeping with other men, though, correct?

00:24:09.060 Yeah, for work.

00:24:10.840 Okay.

00:24:12.240 And would you be upset if he was sleeping with other women?

00:24:16.240 No.

00:24:17.020 No?

00:24:17.260 No, as long as he was safe about it.

00:24:19.680 Fair enough.

00:24:20.460 Fair enough.

00:24:21.720 And just a point of clarification, so all five of you do OnlyFans and porn.

00:24:27.420 Not, some of you don't do porn, but you do OnlyFans.

00:24:29.820 Right. 0.79

00:24:30.380 You five.

00:24:30.900 Okay.

00:24:31.920 Can you just clarify, who, excuse me, which of you does BG content, show of hands?

00:24:37.380 So boy, girl content.

00:24:39.620 And who does solo content?

00:24:41.560 Solo, girl, girl, and I'm a stripper. 0.99

00:24:43.700 Stripper. 1.00

00:24:44.100 Anyone else a stripper, dancer?

00:24:45.620 I started as a stripper.

00:24:46.640 Started as a stripper. 0.94

00:24:47.460 I used to be, yeah.

00:24:48.760 Okay.

00:24:49.320 Got it.

00:24:50.680 Okay.

00:24:51.540 All right.

00:24:52.140 So we have, you three do BG.

00:24:55.780 Is that right?

00:24:56.940 Oh, yeah.

00:24:57.760 Okay.

00:24:58.060 How many scenes do you guys do per week?

00:25:01.680 Um, it's not like that.

00:25:02.980 It's pretty sporadic.

00:25:04.100 Sporadic?

00:25:04.620 Yeah.

00:25:04.820 Okay.

00:25:06.200 Um, I try to shoot, like, one to two, um, OF collabs a week.

00:25:10.600 Okay.

00:25:11.060 But with, as far as porn goes, it's pretty sporadic.

00:25:13.800 Sure.

00:25:14.220 What about you?

00:25:14.960 No, maybe like a handful a month.

00:25:16.100 Here, into the mic, please.

00:25:17.200 Tilt the mic up, so it's, uh, yeah.

00:25:19.860 Like a handful a month.

00:25:21.100 It depends on the month.

00:25:23.340 What is the difference between porn and an OnlyFans collab?

00:25:29.740 Um, well, the difference is, like, porn is more like a set.

00:25:33.460 Okay.

00:25:33.680 And there's usually some kind of script, or they're telling you, basically, you know, what

00:25:37.820 to do, and positions, and that kind of thing.

00:25:39.880 OnlyFans, you can kind of do what you want to.

00:25:42.660 Is this with other men that have their own pages?

00:25:45.280 Yes.

00:25:45.740 Or guys that you're meeting on Tinder or something?

00:25:48.620 Uh, no.

00:25:49.160 No, I, right now, I only collab with guys that have OF as well, or women that are on OF.

00:25:54.840 Yeah.

00:25:55.100 Okay.

00:25:55.500 Okay.

00:25:56.460 Oh, Eric, can you scoot the pop-up chat over here?

00:25:59.120 I think I'd rather just see the pop-up chat.

00:26:01.920 Maybe.

00:26:02.380 We'll see.

00:26:02.980 Um, yeah, let's, let's have that one up. 0.84

00:26:06.620 Um, yeah.

00:26:08.840 Um, okay, so, uh.

00:26:12.720 I started dancing really young.

00:26:16.240 Same.

00:26:16.640 I was fresh out of high school, and I hit the pole.

00:26:18.780 Why did you get into it, if you don't mind me asking?

00:26:21.780 Uh, money?

00:26:23.380 Um, yeah, money.

00:26:25.020 It was kind of like my only path, so I took it.

00:26:28.380 Speaking of money, um, how much, how much do you make per month?

00:26:31.920 On?

00:26:32.960 Like, uh, from adult content?

00:26:36.500 I don't really like to say exactly how much I make, to be honest.

00:26:39.940 Do you want to give us, uh, five figures a month?

00:26:42.600 Six figures a month?

00:26:43.700 Um, a little under six figures, yeah.

00:26:46.460 A little under six figures a month.

00:26:47.480 Yeah, I don't like to, like, be completely, like, this number.

00:26:50.980 IRS, I get it.

00:26:51.940 Um, are you making seven figures a year?

00:26:56.960 Um, yeah.

00:26:58.780 Over a mil a year?

00:26:59.760 Yeah.

00:26:59.980 Okay.

00:27:00.620 Uh, what about you?

00:27:01.260 Um, I'd prefer not to share mine, but I make enough to live my life.

00:27:07.360 You'd make, okay, um, six figures a month?

00:27:09.440 Mind you, I travel a lot, so.

00:27:11.020 Five figures a month, six figures a month?

00:27:12.680 Sorry, it's just personal.

00:27:14.060 Fair enough.

00:27:14.660 Okay, what about, well, it's so funny, like, you say personal, but, like, what, you say you

00:27:18.580 post your nudes online, it's just, like, isn't that very intimate, but, like, you're.

00:27:23.720 Wait, who said that?

00:27:25.040 What, oh, well, I mean, you do OnlyFans, perhaps I misunderstood.

00:27:27.820 What, what do you post on OnlyFans?

00:27:29.860 That's for everybody else to figure out, you know, gotta buy the content.

00:27:33.660 Okay, is it nude?

00:27:34.580 I've got Eric Lattiser, by the way.

00:27:35.980 Is it, is it, is it, is it, okay.

00:27:39.080 Yeah.

00:27:39.820 Is it, um, nude?

00:27:42.340 I don't know, is it?

00:27:44.180 She's like, I'll find out.

00:27:45.980 Sorry.

00:27:49.680 Madison, can you prepare one of the Spartan elements for me?

00:27:52.340 Can you just get one of them, just get them ready?

00:27:55.220 Wouldn't you want people to know that so they can decide whether or not to subscribe?

00:27:58.680 Guys, do not go to her OF unless she discloses what she posts.

00:28:03.440 Oh.

00:28:03.680 I'm sorry, that's, it's personal, it's between me and whoever messages me, you know?

00:28:10.940 But do you post nude, like, is it, is it tasteful lingerie photos, is it nude?

00:28:15.760 Like, what do you post on that?

00:28:16.600 I do post some tasteful, yeah.

00:28:18.280 What is the average price of an OnlyFans subscription?

00:28:21.680 How much is that?

00:28:22.560 Mine's 15 a month, and then, like, they can buy stuff in the DM.

00:28:27.200 Okay.

00:28:28.460 But that's, like, private content with them?

00:28:30.740 I can get customs, custom videos, and then, like, unlock videos that I send to them.

00:28:36.440 What's the most frequent custom type of thing you're doing?

00:28:39.560 What is that?

00:28:40.040 Do you say their name or what?

00:28:41.000 Oh, yeah.

00:28:41.660 That's what they usually like.

00:28:43.500 Okay.

00:28:43.980 Wow.

00:28:44.640 How much do they pay for that? 0.99

00:28:47.500 Or do they, like, depend?

00:28:48.500 It really depends on, like, what they want, but if they, like, you know.

00:28:52.180 The freakier it is.

00:28:53.120 Yeah.

00:28:54.120 Everyone's saying, yeah.

00:28:56.180 You get to pick, you know.

00:28:57.800 Okay.

00:28:58.380 What about you?

00:28:59.100 How much do you make?

00:29:00.760 I'd rather not say exactly how much I make.

00:29:02.900 Range?

00:29:03.700 Range?

00:29:04.300 Six figures?

00:29:04.380 I definitely make six figures.

00:29:06.280 A month?

00:29:06.960 No, a year.

00:29:07.560 A year?

00:29:08.060 Okay.

00:29:08.240 I'm newer to it.

00:29:09.600 What about you?

00:29:10.460 Quick question.

00:29:11.260 What is a figure?

00:29:13.660 Like, how many numbers?

00:29:14.620 A figure?

00:29:15.160 Like, six figures would be.

00:29:17.460 Like, this one figure would be what?

00:29:18.880 One figure would be $1.

00:29:20.400 One dollar?

00:29:21.140 Two figures would be $10.

00:29:22.280 Three figures would be $100.

00:29:23.180 Six figures is $100,000.

00:29:24.280 Six figures is $100,000 and up.

00:29:26.300 So, what would three figures be?

00:29:28.780 $100.

00:29:29.980 Are you trolling right now?

00:29:31.140 No, no.

00:29:31.720 I literally, like, have never figured out.

00:29:33.580 Three figures is at most $999.

00:29:35.160 Can I just give a number instead of the figure thing?

00:29:36.820 Yeah.

00:29:37.140 Hold on.

00:29:37.460 Okay.

00:29:37.940 Like, $10,000 to $20,000.

00:29:39.660 You know?

00:29:40.060 Yeah.

00:29:40.460 That's me right now.

00:29:41.860 All at once.

00:29:43.000 How much do you say?

00:29:44.220 Like, $10,000 to $20,000 a month.

00:29:45.740 A month.

00:29:46.040 Okay.

00:29:46.320 Yeah.

00:29:46.560 Okay.

00:29:46.920 Six figures a year.

00:29:48.280 And you said you stripped?

00:29:50.660 I started as a stripper, yeah. 1.00

00:29:52.200 Did you drop out of high school?

00:29:53.740 No.

00:29:54.180 I graduated, actually, from a continuation school, but I still got the same diploma as everybody

00:29:58.440 else.

00:29:59.700 Okay.

00:30:01.260 Okay.

00:30:02.620 All right.

00:30:03.240 What about you?

00:30:03.820 How much do you make?

00:30:05.040 I would say the same, like, $10,000 to $20,000 a month, six figures a year.

00:30:08.580 Okay.

00:30:08.780 Can you stop that, please?

00:30:09.800 Oh.

00:30:10.820 Sorry.

00:30:11.180 You don't need to make faces.

00:30:15.280 I'm just, it's audible, it's distracting.

00:30:19.020 I already stopped.

00:30:20.680 Okay, but I, look, if I, you don't need to make faces if I'm asking you to stop doing something.

00:30:25.340 Like, we gave pre-show instructionals to not tap on the table.

00:30:28.500 I asked you to stop, and you made, like, a whole face about it.

00:30:33.780 Do you want me to leave?

00:30:35.360 No, I'm not asking you to leave, but, huh?

00:30:38.420 Okay.

00:30:40.300 You know what I do?

00:30:41.000 I just bite my fingernails.

00:30:42.240 I don't even have them.

00:30:43.480 Then you can't, then you can't even do it.

00:30:44.900 Just to eat them off.

00:30:48.440 It's the best way to do it.

00:30:50.920 Okay.

00:30:52.600 Here.

00:30:53.620 Relationship status.

00:30:55.680 You, go ahead.

00:30:56.360 Who?

00:30:58.980 You.

00:31:00.380 Married for 11 years, going on 12.

00:31:04.260 Okay.

00:31:05.100 Married.

00:31:06.360 Kelly, what about you?

00:31:08.280 I'm in a relationship, and this is my longest one.

00:31:11.920 It's a year and five months now, Brian.

00:31:14.640 Wait.

00:31:16.520 Your longest one now?

00:31:17.960 A year and five months now.

00:31:19.580 Last time was four.

00:31:20.260 One year, five months.

00:31:21.560 Okay.

00:31:22.980 Boyfriends.

00:31:23.840 And, Matt, what about you?

00:31:24.920 I've been married for two and a half years, which I, I don't know, that's probably about

00:31:30.000 as long as I've ever been in a relationship.

00:31:31.980 So, we've been married two and a half.

00:31:33.140 We've got a two-year-old toddler, right now a daughter, and we've got my firstborn son

00:31:37.940 in three months.

00:31:39.820 Firstborn son three months from now.

00:31:41.520 Oh, congrats.

00:31:42.320 Are you soon?

00:31:43.660 Huh?

00:31:44.060 Are you leaving?

00:31:44.880 Yeah, I'm going to leave.

00:31:45.780 Y'all have a good evening.

00:31:47.780 All right.

00:31:48.320 Peace out.

00:31:49.120 Bye.

00:31:49.500 This is Sparta! 1.00

00:31:53.960 Hold on, I've got to fix this shit. 1.00

00:31:55.780 Later. 1.00

00:31:57.600 Oh, my God.

00:31:58.480 Peace out.

00:31:59.100 Peace out.

00:31:59.680 You too, homie. 1.00

00:32:01.700 Keep the change, you filthy animal. 1.00

00:32:04.280 Bro. 1.00

00:32:05.200 Wow.

00:32:05.900 Silk Castle.

00:32:06.660 Oh, there's no more.

00:32:07.540 I think we just got to...

00:32:08.420 Yeah.

00:32:09.860 Okay.

00:32:10.820 Do we have Madison join the...

00:32:13.020 I think we have Madison join the table, right?

00:32:15.460 Oops.

00:32:15.900 Bro, did she really get triggered because I asked her to not tap her nails on the table?

00:32:25.380 Bro.

00:32:28.160 I mean, I was a little harsh.

00:32:29.640 Was I harsh?

00:32:30.480 Was I a little stern?

00:32:33.280 Was she doing that last time or something? 0.99

00:32:34.860 Is this a recurring thing?

00:32:36.220 No, no.

00:32:36.600 Just like...

00:32:37.860 No.

00:32:38.700 I don't think you were harsh.

00:32:40.720 Yeah, I think he was cool about it.

00:32:42.300 Yeah.

00:32:43.480 You just told her to stop and...

00:32:45.420 Well, I told her to stop because I was pretty stern.

00:32:48.700 I was like, hey, can you stop tapping your nails on the table?

00:32:51.660 And she kind of gave me a look. 0.53

00:32:53.960 Yeah.

00:32:54.420 Because the mic picks her up.

00:32:55.100 And then I was like, I don't need the attitude.

00:32:57.660 She wanted to be combative about me trying to have control over the show.

00:33:02.780 And it's like, I don't need the attitude. 0.99

00:33:05.700 I just told you to stop fucking banging your nails on the table. 1.00

00:33:08.760 Whatever, bro. 1.00

00:33:11.340 Let me see the chat.

00:33:12.720 By the way, feminine, hello. 0.99

00:33:16.500 Super combative.

00:33:18.400 I thought we had moved on.

00:33:24.540 Seemed fine to me.

00:33:25.440 She had... 0.99

00:33:26.040 Okay, whatever.

00:33:27.300 All right, moving on.

00:33:29.080 Madison, your relationship status?

00:33:32.000 Very taken.

00:33:33.580 Is that your child?

00:33:35.260 Yeah.

00:33:35.940 Oh, wow.

00:33:36.920 Marquavius.

00:33:37.900 Marquavius.

00:33:38.440 Yeah.

00:33:38.600 Wow.

00:33:39.400 He just got a name today.

00:33:41.100 That's great.

00:33:42.020 Yeah, let me just...

00:33:42.980 Hold on.

00:33:43.260 Let me just address the kickoff.

00:33:44.860 Yo, AB Check.

00:33:45.840 Thank you, man.

00:33:46.660 Hey, appreciate the 20 gifted, man.

00:33:49.380 Really appreciate it.

00:33:50.440 Okay, let me just address the kickoff really quick.

00:33:52.240 Just to give you guys context.

00:33:54.080 This is her second time on the show.

00:33:56.220 Before both of the shows she's been on, we give a pre-show instructional.

00:34:00.480 And we pretty strictly say, hey, please don't make any audible fidgets.

00:34:04.760 So don't be tapping on the table.

00:34:08.620 It's a little harder for you guys to hear it on the microphones, but we hear it here,

00:34:12.240 and it's distracting.

00:34:13.800 I would have to go back and play it back and see if I was a little like, yo, can you stop tapping?

00:34:18.260 Um, but, like, she gave me attitude when I asked her to stop tapping. 1.00

00:34:25.900 So, like, she did a little eye roll.

00:34:29.140 She did, like, a little, oh, okay, like...

00:34:32.240 You weren't harsh at first, then it got a little bit harsh.

00:34:34.140 Well, no, I, okay, so, and if you guys think I was harsh, that's fine.

00:34:38.900 When I first asked her to stop, oh, my God, thank you for the 20 gifted.

00:34:43.140 I was harsh when she started making faces, I think. 0.84

00:34:47.520 But, like, when I asked her to stop tapping, was I, like, a dickhead about it? 0.91

00:34:50.720 No, that's what I'm saying.

00:34:51.500 Like, at first, it was just, like, stop tapping, but...

00:34:53.760 And then you were, like, can you not make a face?

00:34:56.020 Yeah, she made, like, a face that I asked her to stop tapping. 0.68

00:34:58.920 It was reasonable.

00:34:59.840 I don't know.

00:35:00.800 Um, whatever.

00:35:02.480 Um, but, I mean, if she... 0.95

00:35:05.400 Isn't she, like, a... 0.98

00:35:06.820 Like, teaches women to be, like, feminine and, like... 0.88

00:35:10.200 Sorry.

00:35:11.320 Whatever.

00:35:11.680 I think she was kind of offended at all of her answers.

00:35:15.080 No, I think she's offended by your presence.

00:35:17.260 Yeah, I noticed her face. 0.87

00:35:18.720 She's a friend.

00:35:19.400 Did she judge her?

00:35:20.780 Oh, my God.

00:35:21.100 That's rude. 0.93

00:35:21.220 Yeah, when we were talking about porn, she did give a face.

00:35:23.920 Yeah, she gave a look, like, judgey look.

00:35:26.580 All right, well, welcome, Madison.

00:35:27.840 Goodbye, then.

00:35:29.040 You're a well-suited replacement.

00:35:31.020 Thank you, Madison.

00:35:31.660 Everyone say hi to Madison.

00:35:33.280 And also Marquavius.

00:35:35.900 Madison's baby boy.

00:35:38.080 Um, what's...

00:35:38.680 Eric, have you been reading chat?

00:35:41.180 What's the consensus?

00:35:42.580 Was I...

00:35:43.080 Was it a little harsh of a kickoff?

00:35:44.660 I don't know.

00:35:45.540 Uh, I don't know.

00:35:46.320 Or not a kickoff, but was I harsh when I was like, hey...

00:35:49.040 People were saying to kick her off anyway. 0.93

00:35:51.780 No, people...

00:35:52.520 I think people were saying to kick her off.

00:35:54.320 No, like, once you left...

00:35:55.500 Yo, George.

00:35:56.760 Thank you for the 20 gifted.

00:35:58.260 Um, Nick, can you, uh...

00:35:59.460 It's a little overexposed, eh?

00:36:00.680 Can you, uh, lower it just a bit?

00:36:03.220 All right.

00:36:05.860 Last stream of the...

00:36:07.360 Last stream for a while.

00:36:08.840 It's, uh, already been interesting.

00:36:10.120 Okay, so, uh, let's see where we left off here.

00:36:13.220 Did you...

00:36:13.800 You gave your relationship status, right?

00:36:15.300 You're married?

00:36:16.140 Married.

00:36:16.860 Toddler.

00:36:17.420 Another kid coming soon.

00:36:18.440 Yep.

00:36:19.380 Yep.

00:36:19.840 Wait, what...

00:36:20.320 Can we remove the super chat?

00:36:22.420 Wait, where's Nick?

00:36:23.220 Is he gone?

00:36:24.660 Oh, okay.

00:36:26.260 Um, oh, whoops.

00:36:28.540 All right.

00:36:28.860 One sec, guys.

00:36:29.460 We're just getting a couple things situated here.

00:36:31.440 Uh, Madison, did you share your relationship status?

00:36:33.980 Do you want to introduce yourself?

00:36:35.480 Uh, my name is Madison.

00:36:36.320 You gotta come into frame.

00:36:37.260 Scoot into the table, please.

00:36:38.620 My name is Madison.

00:36:39.660 I'm 18 years old.

00:36:40.000 Can you scoot your chair into the table?

00:36:41.240 And I'm taken.

00:36:43.520 Madison, though, can you scoot your chair?

00:36:45.420 Not really, no.

00:36:46.120 There's no space?

00:36:46.760 No.

00:36:47.160 Okay.

00:36:49.340 All right.

00:36:50.160 Um, okay.

00:36:50.980 Sorry about that, guys.

00:36:51.840 Just...

00:36:52.520 Bro.

00:36:53.760 Okay, so...

00:36:55.400 Drop it.

00:36:55.940 Hello.

00:36:56.080 Hello.

00:36:58.040 I'm trying to remember where we left off at.

00:37:00.480 So, for those of you who are single, which is you,

00:37:03.980 you and you, um, what does being single really mean?

00:37:10.340 Because, I mean, come on.

00:37:11.780 You guys are attractive girls.

00:37:13.580 There must be some guy in the picture, right?

00:37:16.540 There's no guy in the picture.

00:37:18.040 There's no...

00:37:18.820 Are you texting a guy?

00:37:20.220 No.

00:37:20.940 Nothing.

00:37:21.420 I could promise you right now I'm not.

00:37:24.820 Let us read every text message on your phone right now.

00:37:27.580 Give me your cell phone.

00:37:29.180 My cell phone is over there, and I prefer...

00:37:31.380 That's okay.

00:37:31.900 He's, I...

00:37:32.320 He's joking.

00:37:33.040 He's joking.

00:37:33.140 Yeah.

00:37:33.800 So, there's no guy in the picture?

00:37:36.100 Um, I just try to focus on work and myself.

00:37:38.900 So, yeah.

00:37:39.500 I mean, guys will hit me up, of course.

00:37:41.300 But, I just try to focus on, you know, doing my shoots.

00:37:45.360 So...

00:37:45.800 Okay.

00:37:46.860 What about...

00:37:47.200 Pretty much same.

00:37:48.340 Like, I don't have any...

00:37:49.980 Can I have you scoot your mic that way?

00:37:51.840 Yeah.

00:37:52.560 Like that?

00:37:53.840 A little more?

00:37:55.060 That's good.

00:37:55.640 Perfect.

00:37:55.900 Okay.

00:37:56.100 Um, yeah.

00:37:57.880 Like, I don't last long with guys.

00:38:00.380 They last, like, a few days sometimes.

00:38:01.900 And then I end up not thinking they're attractive after, like, spending too much time with them.

00:38:06.720 So, it's you generally that is, like, ending things with them after a couple days?

00:38:10.740 Um, or a couple months, but yeah.

00:38:13.140 Okay.

00:38:13.540 Do guys get, like, um...

00:38:15.240 Do they get turned off when you tell them what they do?

00:38:17.480 Or do they, like, get scared of that?

00:38:19.380 Sometimes they get really excited and they start asking a bunch of questions.

00:38:22.360 Like, they're a fan, but I actually don't want to date those guys, like, because they're...

00:38:26.840 I don't feel like they see me as a real human.

00:38:29.780 So, you don't like men that consume the content you make?

00:38:33.180 I love men that consume the content that I make, but when they start treating me like

00:38:37.920 a fanboy and asking me a bunch of questions about my job, then it becomes, like, I am my

00:38:43.560 job instead of asking me, like, how are you?

00:38:45.400 You know?

00:38:45.680 Like, get to know me as a person.

00:38:47.040 What's a question that they might ask that you don't like?

00:38:50.440 Um...

00:38:50.760 There's so many.

00:38:51.340 There's so many, uh, like...

00:38:53.220 I just don't know, so...

00:38:54.160 How much do you make?

00:38:55.480 Okay.

00:38:56.240 Did they ask you that?

00:38:57.440 Weird.

00:39:00.000 Can you give me a second?

00:39:00.500 They always say, like, do you like your job?

00:39:03.300 Um, are you in it for the money or because you actually like it?

00:39:06.140 What's the craziest thing you've ever done?

00:39:09.060 Stuff like that.

00:39:10.140 Yeah, there's a lot of curiosity.

00:39:10.940 They have, like, a list.

00:39:11.700 They all take out the same list or something.

00:39:14.060 Yeah, I noticed that.

00:39:15.160 They do.

00:39:15.380 Do you guys take, like, guys that are in the same, like, kind of field?

00:39:20.480 Or not even just, like, porn in general?

00:39:22.080 Do you, like, in social media or something like that? 0.99

00:39:23.920 Or do you guys like regular guys who be low-key and shit? 0.99

00:39:27.360 I've dated, like, two guys in porn and two guys out of porn. 0.99

00:39:32.060 So, there's pros and cons to both, I think.

00:39:35.620 I feel like those questions are, like, kind of common.

00:39:37.840 Let's say you were working as a secretary at a bank or something, right?

00:39:42.840 A guy might ask, do you like your job?

00:39:44.800 You know, where do you want to be 10 years from now?

00:39:46.240 And how much money do you make?

00:39:47.280 Are you satisfied there?

00:39:48.560 That's fair.

00:39:49.120 Do you have a boss?

00:39:49.640 Do you like your boss?

00:39:50.180 I feel like guys don't ask how much money you make.

00:39:52.980 I've never been asked that.

00:39:54.800 I feel like if you're dating, if you've gone on, like, five or six dates,

00:39:57.100 I think that probably comes up, right?

00:39:59.040 Really?

00:39:59.340 Maybe not a first date question.

00:40:00.740 Do you have a man ask how much money a guy makes? 0.99

00:40:02.940 Yeah, probably.

00:40:04.060 Yeah, I think so.

00:40:04.660 Normally, when you tell them mainstream porn,

00:40:06.580 they'll ask, like, how much do you make in a shoot,

00:40:08.280 and what's a shoot like, and blah, blah, blah, blah.

00:40:10.480 Oh, okay.

00:40:10.820 That makes more sense.

00:40:12.040 Yeah.

00:40:13.300 Word.

00:40:14.060 Okay.

00:40:14.660 Let me get a couple chats here.

00:40:17.180 So, we have...

00:40:18.200 Yes, we're real corn stars.

00:40:20.560 Yes, we are.

00:40:22.220 Okay.

00:40:22.740 Matthew Self.

00:40:23.560 Thank you, man, for the hundred.

00:40:25.700 Appreciate your super chat, man.

00:40:27.540 Just, by the way, just a reminder, guys,

00:40:28.920 if you missed it during the intro,

00:40:31.420 YouTube takes 30%,

00:40:32.740 so if you want more of your patronage to go towards whatever,

00:40:36.540 please do it through Streamlabs, streamlabs.com slash whatever. 0.96

00:40:40.780 So, Matthew Self, late and gay.

00:40:44.320 Yeah, we started the show a little late today.

00:40:47.620 You know, it is what it is.

00:40:48.680 It happens. 0.99

00:40:50.400 Your old jerk-off juggernaut. 0.99

00:40:53.160 Okay. 0.99

00:40:54.200 Whoa, okay.

00:40:54.920 That's... 1.00

00:40:55.520 Damn. 1.00

00:40:56.420 Okay. 1.00

00:40:56.940 More busted.

00:40:58.000 You know what you should do?

00:40:58.940 These guys are going in.

00:41:00.760 I know.

00:41:01.220 You should have a show where it is like six gay OnlyFans guys. 0.99

00:41:04.700 Six dudes? 0.83

00:41:05.480 Yeah, that would be insane.

00:41:06.780 That would be...

00:41:07.920 You haven't done that one yet.

00:41:08.720 I think...

00:41:09.100 Yo, the...

00:41:10.280 Hold on.

00:41:12.060 Okay.

00:41:13.560 Good thing you're going on break.

00:41:14.800 Seems you're reaching to the...

00:41:16.400 Anyways.

00:41:17.080 Oh, well, we can talk about the flaking issue later.

00:41:19.360 Anyways, why don't you ever ask the real questions in life like Pennell's thoughts on aliens?

00:41:24.360 What?

00:41:25.260 It's a dating show.

00:41:25.980 Everyone else's non...

00:41:27.440 Bro, I do talk about aliens. 1.00

00:41:29.020 What the fuck are you talking about? 0.99

00:41:30.400 I was going to say I love that question. 1.00

00:41:32.560 That's true.

00:41:34.660 Brian, any gears moving to get Sam Hyde on the podcast?

00:41:37.500 That would be easily one of the most viewed shows.

00:41:39.880 Ask chat.

00:41:40.400 They'll agree.

00:41:40.880 Conan 19.

00:41:42.180 Hey, thank you, man, for your super chat.

00:41:45.400 I'm familiar with who Sam Hyde is.

00:41:47.300 I haven't conversated with him at all, but we'll see.

00:41:52.660 Yo, Jerka. 1.00

00:41:54.300 Okay.

00:41:54.700 I think I can hear the women drying up. 1.00

00:41:56.380 I think this is when we were talking about World of Warcraft.

00:41:58.780 Oh.

00:41:59.320 Who cares?

00:41:59.860 We're talking about WoW.

00:42:00.780 Yeah.

00:42:01.360 That's more important.

00:42:02.260 More important.

00:42:02.740 Way more important.

00:42:05.720 Curtis Reynolds.

00:42:06.520 Dude, been watching for a while since Bangs was on the podcast.

00:42:08.940 Seemed like that one girl tonight.

00:42:10.060 Had a major attitude.

00:42:11.180 Keep it up, bro.

00:42:12.140 The girl who got kicked off?

00:42:15.080 Major attitude.

00:42:15.680 Now it feels like it needs to be.

00:42:18.480 It's, I don't know.

00:42:19.460 I'll take a look at it.

00:42:20.700 Hey, but Curtis, really appreciate your super chat, man.

00:42:25.940 Get some pro wrestlers.

00:42:27.180 Oh, wait.

00:42:27.540 Sorry.

00:42:27.760 I got to hide these.

00:42:28.400 Okay.

00:42:28.600 Thank you, guys.

00:42:29.300 And then we have, let's see what we have.

00:42:32.120 I think, oh, we have another one coming in.

00:42:34.300 Bring Milo on.

00:42:35.240 I don't think that's going to happen.

00:42:36.420 Everybody wants me to kick Erica. 1.00

00:42:37.860 I don't, not yet.

00:42:38.740 It's got to turn the negatives into positives, you know?

00:42:41.900 Is that, is that a platitude?

00:42:45.620 Okay.

00:42:46.380 Player 11.

00:42:47.080 Thank you, man.

00:42:47.440 As a truck driver looking to quit his pee addiction, what advice could these girls give

00:42:52.300 to me if I want to reestablish intimacy with my partners?

00:42:55.340 My dude, you are asking the wrong group of girls this question.

00:42:58.840 But girls, if you want to answer, go for it. 0.86

00:43:01.640 I got to check something. 0.98

00:43:02.220 Why don't you watch porn with your partner? 0.82

00:43:04.820 It's just like any other addiction. 0.99

00:43:06.660 Go to rehab.

00:43:07.420 Or just stop, yeah, just stop watching it.

00:43:10.260 Then you'll be able to reestablish your intimacy with your partners.

00:43:13.680 Because if you keep watching porn, it's going to ruin it.

00:43:17.020 Wait, I don't understand.

00:43:18.260 Like, what's the, what does he mean?

00:43:20.060 Like, he can't do it with his?

00:43:21.760 He's a porn addiction, and he doesn't like, I don't know if it's like he doesn't like 0.95

00:43:26.640 having sex with his partner, or there's no, like, intimacy with his partner. 0.91

00:43:30.140 So how does he fix that? 0.91

00:43:32.220 Sam.

00:43:33.300 Uh, I have no idea, dude.

00:43:35.680 That's, that's a lot.

00:43:37.640 That was a good suggestion, to watch it with your partner.

00:43:39.820 Yeah, watch it with your partner.

00:43:41.880 That's kind of one of, yeah.

00:43:44.160 Combine both.

00:43:44.840 Would you women date a man that's a porn addict that's watching porn every single day? 1.00

00:43:49.140 If it's of me. 1.00

00:43:50.440 So not if he's jerking off to other girls? 0.99

00:43:52.940 Me with other girls is cool. 1.00

00:43:54.800 Like, if he's addicted?

00:43:56.300 He does it every day.

00:43:58.060 I think most men watch porn almost every day, am I wrong?

00:44:00.460 Yeah, it depends on if it gets in the way of the relationship.

00:44:02.480 Unfortunately, probably, yeah.

00:44:03.740 I think it's human nature to be attracted to more than one person.

00:44:08.040 I love it when guys watch my stuff.

00:44:10.100 Wait, what did, hold on, repeat, repeat that.

00:44:12.020 I said, I think it's human nature for people to be attracted to more than one person, even

00:44:16.740 though they're in a relationship, but it comes down to the commitment within the relationship. 0.67

00:44:21.120 I think it's probably not human nature to jerk off while staring at a phone screen two 0.52

00:44:26.300 or three times a day, every single day. 0.99

00:44:27.840 And I have no normal sexual intimacy with real life human females. 0.99

00:44:32.000 That's probably not good for me.

00:44:33.080 No, no, no, no, okay, so I misunderstood what you were saying, but I'm saying more like

00:44:36.260 a standpoint, like, if you're going to, like, walk down the street and look at another woman,

00:44:39.180 like, there's a possibility that you could be attracted to that other woman, even though

00:44:42.680 you still are with someone.

00:44:44.400 I suppose that's fair.

00:44:46.260 I mean, you could, like, even if you're in a relationship, you can acknowledge, like,

00:44:49.820 this person is physically attractive.

00:44:52.120 I think the differential is, like, if you're acting on it. 0.99

00:44:55.480 You're acting on it, and so if you're jerking off to porn featuring another woman, you're 0.99

00:44:58.940 acting on it in some capacity, right? 0.99

00:45:00.460 Well, I wasn't thinking about, like, the full, you know, I saw watching, that's it.

00:45:04.140 Sure.

00:45:04.400 I used to watch porn with my ex. 0.83

00:45:06.340 It was pretty fun. 0.59

00:45:07.440 Isn't that sad?

00:45:08.720 No.

00:45:09.160 That you guys can't sexually enjoy each other? 0.98

00:45:11.260 You can't be intimate without watching other people have sex on a TV screen on a bunch of 0.98

00:45:14.860 illuminated light bulbs in your face? 0.96

00:45:16.820 That is a false statement.

00:45:17.580 What's false?

00:45:18.360 That we can't have intimacy without watching other people, because we can.

00:45:22.260 We just chose to, like, watch porn for fun.

00:45:24.200 And he was showing me girls that can, like, deep throw, and, like, trying to teach me

00:45:27.460 how to deep throw.

00:45:28.100 It was kind of exciting.

00:45:29.540 That's cute.

00:45:30.180 I like that.

00:45:30.620 Right?

00:45:30.920 It's like you're a part of it, so it's nice, you know?

00:45:32.960 Yeah.

00:45:33.760 I think that that guy should take videos of his girl and jack off to those. 1.00

00:45:39.760 I'm sorry, say it again? 0.99

00:45:40.740 That guy, he should take videos of his girl and jack off to those. 0.83

00:45:45.860 Did he have a girl? 0.93

00:45:46.980 That's what he said, right?

00:45:47.860 Oh, he had a girl.

00:45:49.120 Okay.

00:45:49.920 He said that.

00:45:50.480 Yeah, he should.

00:45:51.520 Yeah, right?

00:45:52.240 I think that's a good idea.

00:45:54.200 All right, we have Mike Davis here.

00:45:55.880 Yo, Brian, females fall into place when Mike Davis gives instruction, because that's Mike 1.00

00:46:00.220 Davis in his natural element.

00:46:02.240 Brian, no disrespect, King, but you come across as snappy and out of element.

00:46:06.460 We'll sit down one-on-one and show you how a true alpha male conducts business.

00:46:12.900 Oh, and then Rippy here.

00:46:13.720 Erica, it's sad that no one has taken you on a date.

00:46:16.140 Someone should take you to a vineyard to do wine tasting, although you've got to be 21+.

00:46:20.320 Would you be able to go to something like that?

00:46:24.540 You want your age so bad.

00:46:25.620 Would you be able to go to something like that?

00:46:29.040 What if she's like low-key 30 and she's just embarrassed?

00:46:32.160 Huh?

00:46:32.500 In Canada, I could.

00:46:33.740 So you're not 21+, is what you're saying?

00:46:36.640 I didn't say anything.

00:46:38.460 Pretty much what she said.

00:46:39.000 Okay.

00:46:39.840 What is a 304?

00:46:41.460 What does that mean?

00:46:42.360 It's a hoe, a hoe. 1.00

00:46:43.560 It'd be upside down.

00:46:44.940 It's a hoe? 1.00

00:46:45.660 So you know how in the calculator...

00:46:46.500 You guys are all 304s? 0.96

00:46:47.820 Well, it means prostitutes are technically, to be honest. 0.99

00:46:50.760 Sorry? 0.98

00:46:51.140 It technically means prostitute. 1.00

00:46:53.500 Prostitute. 1.00

00:46:54.080 Isn't hoe short for hooker? 1.00

00:46:56.100 Maybe. 0.99

00:46:56.720 I don't know.

00:46:57.880 At least all allowed words. 0.99

00:46:59.800 I mean, I just figured hoe, hooker. 1.00

00:47:02.360 Well, okay. 0.99

00:47:03.220 I don't know.

00:47:03.860 Let me ask you your opinion. 0.97

00:47:04.920 Do you guys consider yourselves prostitutes? 0.96

00:47:07.280 I mean, with a camera, it's not anymore. 0.96

00:47:09.420 It's the same thing.

00:47:10.680 It's the same thing.

00:47:11.500 I think sex work is a blanket term. 0.96

00:47:14.160 So like prostitutes, strippers, porn stars, OnlyFans, girls, people that sell feed pictures. 1.00

00:47:18.380 If you're making someone bust, you're doing sex work. 0.99

00:47:22.060 If you make somebody bust? 0.82

00:47:23.560 For money, yeah.

00:47:24.540 Like in any way, shape, or form.

00:47:27.320 I don't know.

00:47:27.680 I'm sure I could think of some example where like some dudes...

00:47:30.440 Don't bust.

00:47:31.060 Chastity. 0.99

00:47:32.140 No.

00:47:33.100 I don't know.

00:47:34.360 Well, let me ask you this.

00:47:35.160 Let's say you're a female streamer on Twitch. 1.00

00:47:36.800 You're playing games and you're wearing a sweater every single day. 0.99

00:47:39.220 You're not revealing yourself, but there's some guy with a crazy fetish and he's jerking 1.00

00:47:42.920 off to you every day. 1.00

00:47:43.880 So is that female Twitch streamer who's not intentionally making sexual content because 1.00

00:47:48.800 some guy's jerking off. 1.00

00:47:49.980 Is she a 304? 1.00

00:47:51.620 If it's not intentional, no.

00:47:53.240 Okay.

00:47:53.440 So the intent is what matters.

00:47:54.680 Okay.

00:47:54.860 Yeah.

00:47:55.060 If you want to make people come.

00:47:56.240 Okay.

00:47:57.160 That's a compliment?

00:47:57.980 Yeah.

00:47:58.240 She should be like flattered. 1.00

00:48:00.000 She should be flattered that some weirdo in Malaysia is jerking off to her? 1.00

00:48:03.580 Yeah. 1.00

00:48:04.520 If she's in just a sweater, do you think she's that hot? 1.00

00:48:05.780 Let's not throw the Malaysians under the bus. 0.91

00:48:08.100 Okay. 0.98

00:48:08.460 Sorry.

00:48:08.900 Sorry.

00:48:09.160 Let's be sensitive to the Malaysians. 1.00

00:48:10.980 It's some guy in Indiana.

00:48:12.100 She's hot and she's in a sweater.

00:48:13.640 Okay.

00:48:14.680 Wait, but so you said that if someone is, you're making money from someone busting to your content, 0.94

00:48:22.200 that makes you a sex worker? 0.97

00:48:23.880 Yeah. 1.00

00:48:24.520 Bro, there's probably dudes masturbating to this shit right now. 1.00

00:48:27.280 Well, that's what I said about intent. 1.00

00:48:29.340 Am I a sex worker?

00:48:30.220 No.

00:48:30.680 Because like I already said, if your intent is to be like...

00:48:34.300 Hold on.

00:48:34.500 Let me ask the chat.

00:48:35.220 Let me ask the chat really quick. 0.96

00:48:36.140 Um, one in the chat if you're masturbating right now. 0.98

00:48:39.760 Oh my God. 1.00

00:48:42.180 There's probably some dude just whipped out his dick and started masturbating. 1.00

00:48:46.600 Don't do it guys. 1.00

00:48:47.600 What the fuck? 1.00

00:48:48.100 No, I'm soft. 1.00

00:48:48.700 I guess it's kind of a gray line, honestly, because you do have a bunch of sex workers

00:48:53.060 on the podcast.

00:48:54.000 Guys, would you stop?

00:48:55.280 Oh my God, bro.

00:48:56.340 Oh my gosh, they're joking at it.

00:48:57.320 Oh my gosh, they're joking at it.

00:48:57.380 Oh my gosh, they're joking at it.

00:48:57.400 Oh my gosh, they're joking at it.

00:48:57.520 There's people that come on and on. 1.00

00:48:58.860 This is fucking harang. 0.99

00:48:59.820 I wonder if you guys are watching. 1.00

00:49:01.840 Yeah, this shit's harang, bro. 1.00

00:49:02.280 It's not sex work, it's modeling. 1.00

00:49:05.260 Look at these guys fucking... 1.00

00:49:07.460 Wait, what's modeling? 1.00

00:49:08.500 What?

00:49:09.060 I was saying like, at least you guys own it.

00:49:10.940 There's some people that are like, I don't do sex work.

00:49:13.200 I model.

00:49:13.960 I'm a model.

00:49:15.140 Yeah, that was my next...

00:49:16.160 Yeah.

00:49:16.740 I was going to ask, because I'm not talking OnlyFans girls. 0.61

00:49:19.580 Do you think most OnlyFans women would say that they're prostitutes? 1.00

00:49:23.340 No. 0.97

00:49:23.920 No, okay. 0.98

00:49:24.360 I think prostitute is like, not a PC term, it's a very dirty term. 1.00

00:49:28.840 A prostitute is someone who sells pussy for money. 1.00

00:49:31.100 Wait, a prostitute is a dirty term? 1.00

00:49:33.020 To a lot of people, I don't think it's that dirty of a term. 0.99

00:49:35.240 Well, I mean like, wouldn't whore be more offensive? 1.00

00:49:38.040 It's the same thing as a prostitute. 1.00

00:49:39.620 I like that, I think it's hot. 0.97

00:49:40.680 I think prostitute's a little more charitable of a term, don't you think? 0.84

00:49:44.940 I mean, it's a little more proper. 0.98

00:49:46.320 Wait, why is whore offensive? 1.00

00:49:48.440 I mean, I think whore is more disparate. 1.00

00:49:50.820 I like that. 1.00

00:49:51.900 Yeah, call me a whore. 1.00

00:49:53.020 I think whore is a bit more disparaging than prostitute, but, you know, whatever. 1.00

00:49:56.940 Okay, well, there you have it, folks. 0.99

00:49:59.460 It's true, they prefer escort, yeah, that's like the nicest way to say it.

00:50:02.940 Yeah, escort's a nicer term.

00:50:04.720 Is it?

00:50:05.200 Fair enough.

00:50:05.680 All right, Eric, could you pull up, there's a tweet from someone named Gia McCool, which I

00:50:11.780 thought was interesting that we're going to read to.

00:50:15.380 Okay, so, can you mouse wheel up just a tad, make it a little bigger?

00:50:20.840 Okay, oh, too big, too big, too big.

00:50:23.480 One down, yeah.

00:50:25.060 Scroll up just a tad, up, scroll up, yeah.

00:50:28.560 So, Gia McCool, there's this misconception that when you're married, you must be boring,

00:50:33.580 dress like the Amish, never post photos online. 0.98

00:50:36.720 We need to move forward from this while keeping the positive aspects of tradition, plus adopting

00:50:42.660 the positive aspects of modernism.

00:50:45.700 Scroll down.

00:50:46.060 We don't need to split into two groups.

00:50:49.600 We need to merge the best parts of each group.

00:50:52.220 Scroll down.

00:50:52.840 And then she posted a photo of herself.

00:50:56.300 I think she considers herself kind of trad, but she's a coach, author.

00:51:01.360 I think she's trad, but she's saying, scroll back up really quick.

00:51:07.280 Sorry, scroll down just a tad.

00:51:09.020 We don't need to split into two groups.

00:51:10.780 We need to merge the best parts of each group.

00:51:12.420 Adopt the positive aspects.

00:51:13.720 I mean, this is kind of interesting to me where, and I'm going to open it up to the

00:51:17.880 panel on this, where basically people want the benefits of tradition, but they want also

00:51:25.680 the benefits of modernity.

00:51:28.760 So I guess my question to you related to that is, I mean, I know some of you guys do this

00:51:33.920 for work, but maybe if you didn't, do you think it's fair to demand men act traditionally, but

00:51:43.000 not be a traditional woman?

00:51:47.260 I think men should be men, yeah.

00:51:50.140 How so?

00:51:50.640 I think it's important for their own, like, minds to be, like, masculine men.

00:51:59.700 I think, like, if a guy's paying for the date, the girl paid, like, for her hair, nails, makeup, outfit.

00:52:05.940 So it is equal in that sense.

00:52:08.300 I think men are happy with themselves when they're masculine.

00:52:11.780 I agree.

00:52:12.820 When it comes to sex outside of the relationship, if they're not getting paid for it, I don't

00:52:17.200 think they should do it.

00:52:18.260 If I'm only doing it for work, it's not as enjoyable as sex would be just for fun.

00:52:23.300 Okay.

00:52:23.620 So if we stay loyal in the relationship together, then I wouldn't count me going to my job as

00:52:29.940 cheating.

00:52:31.260 And hopefully I could find someone that feels that way, but not everyone agrees.

00:52:35.240 I think that it's fair to look at it as a mutual standpoint.

00:52:38.520 If somebody's asking you to do something, you should be able to do things in the way that

00:52:42.640 they're asking.

00:52:43.780 Sure.

00:52:44.220 So if a guy were, if you, like, met a guy and he was, like, you know, you were into

00:52:48.040 him and you wanted to be in a relationship with him and he asked you to stop your OnlyFans,

00:52:52.160 would you do it?

00:52:52.720 Yes.

00:52:53.620 But only given that he was an actual traditional man, that he was fulfilling his masculine role.

00:52:59.700 If that's what he was asking of me, yes.

00:53:02.800 Mutual, like, or vice versa.

00:53:04.320 If you found your dream guy and you said, listen, I need you to stop OnlyFans, you would

00:53:08.140 stop in a heartbeat.

00:53:09.340 Yeah.

00:53:09.740 If it was my dream guy, yes.

00:53:11.080 My dream guy would never ask me to quit.

00:53:11.960 Okay.

00:53:12.820 My dream guy would never say that.

00:53:14.540 Literally.

00:53:16.400 That's messed up.

00:53:18.260 What's going on back there, guys?

00:53:19.600 Everything okay?

00:53:21.040 Well, would you want them to at least provide?

00:53:23.280 Like, the amount of money that you were making that you'd be missing out on?

00:53:25.900 Wouldn't you end up presenting them?

00:53:28.000 Well, I mean, if, I think that in a relationship it's, like, a mutual, like, half and half sometimes.

00:53:34.080 You would go 50-50 with a man? 0.98

00:53:35.980 Yes.

00:53:37.060 Personally, that's just my own opinion. 0.99

00:53:38.620 So what if he was, like, I want to have sex with another girl? 0.98

00:53:41.040 You would be, like, okay? 0.99

00:53:42.500 But I don't think that's going 50-50 unless he's asking me to go have sex with another 0.99

00:53:46.740 guy. 0.62

00:53:47.420 Like, if it's, I'm okay to ask.

00:53:48.860 You know what I'm saying?

00:53:50.020 Well, here, let me ask a couple clarifying questions here.

00:53:52.800 Okay.

00:53:53.060 And we'll do hand-raise on this.

00:53:55.220 So who here considers themselves traditional?

00:54:03.820 Commit to the hand-raise.

00:54:05.020 I'd say yes and no.

00:54:06.560 I mean, there's certain things that I do for myself, but I'm not in a relationship.

00:54:10.420 So there's, if you're talking relationship-wise or as an individual?

00:54:15.800 Relationship.

00:54:16.360 That was the question.

00:54:17.100 But I've never been in a relationship.

00:54:19.380 Is it a goal of yours to become a wife and a mother and a home taker and a nurturer of

00:54:24.420 children and your husband?

00:54:26.180 Well, I'd say that's a part of it, yeah.

00:54:28.380 But I'd also like to have, like, my own job and be able to take care of myself, too, because

00:54:31.760 I don't want to rely on anybody in my future.

00:54:33.620 So do you plan on doing OnlyFans for the rest of your life?

00:54:35.740 No.

00:54:36.900 Just because, say, you were asking, if I was with him and he asked me to stop doing

00:54:41.380 OnlyFans and I chose to stop doing OnlyFans, I would get another job.

00:54:45.040 And I think that's reasonable.

00:54:45.700 So in my mind, when we're talking about traditional gender dynamics, we're talking about a mutual

00:54:49.400 reliance.

00:54:50.140 The husband is in the service of the woman, the wife, and the wife is in the service, 0.98

00:54:53.560 mutualistically, in the service of the husband.

00:54:55.760 It's not one person is totally reliant on the other.

00:54:58.820 So why would you not, if you really want a traditional man in a traditional relationship,

00:55:05.560 why would you not step into that role?

00:55:07.780 Why would you also need to have a job or something like that?

00:55:10.820 Well, I think that, like, if I'm with somebody, say we're going out for dinner, right?

00:55:16.620 I would want to be able to pay for half the meal or if he, say, forgot his wallet.

00:55:20.320 That's not traditional.

00:55:20.980 Say you've been married for five years.

00:55:22.660 Yeah.

00:55:23.080 His money is your money.

00:55:24.940 He's making money for you and the kids.

00:55:26.740 That's fair.

00:55:28.080 So that's, okay, just, that's good.

00:55:29.900 Sounds good?

00:55:31.260 Okay.

00:55:31.500 I mean, if it came down to it, I think that at the end of the day, being in a relationship,

00:55:35.300 it's important to have, like, an understanding of each other and each other's values.

00:55:38.720 And, like, that's what makes a committed relationship important.

00:55:41.940 You know what I'm saying?

00:55:43.340 Well, okay, one thing here related to Trad.

00:55:46.000 So, would, if a guy, do you want a guy to pay for you on the first date?

00:55:53.940 Oh, yeah, absolutely.

00:55:56.600 Yeah.

00:55:57.380 I'd say no, if I'm being honest.

00:56:00.380 I mean, if he offers, maybe, but I'd like to offer myself, too.

00:56:05.580 But then would you let him?

00:56:06.320 I've never been on a date where a guy wanted me to pay, ever.

00:56:09.180 Because that's not, yeah, that's not how it should be.

00:56:10.820 A guy should take, if you're courting a woman, you're supposed to take your... 1.00

00:56:14.200 Actually, they would be insulted if I even reached for my bag.

00:56:17.300 Oh, yeah, for sure.

00:56:18.320 Yeah.

00:56:18.820 You think so?

00:56:19.780 Yeah.

00:56:20.360 Okay.

00:56:21.320 So, let's go around the table on this.

00:56:23.680 So, what was your answer to that?

00:56:26.400 Well, if he offers, I'd allow it, but I would also offer for that, or I would pay for dessert

00:56:31.120 or something like that after.

00:56:33.380 But, I mean, would you...

00:56:34.440 Okay, if...

00:56:35.540 Let's say the...

00:56:36.200 Here's a better question.

00:56:38.500 Let me ask two questions.

00:56:39.700 One, just point blank period, who do you think should pay on the first date?

00:56:43.500 And then the second question is, if, on the first date, the guy said, hey, let's split

00:56:49.460 the bill, would that be a turn-off?

00:56:52.640 Would it be a deal-breaker?

00:56:54.140 So, just going back to you, would that be a deal-breaker?

00:56:56.820 What?

00:56:58.680 Which part?

00:56:59.200 What I just stated.

00:57:00.160 If he asked to split the bill.

00:57:01.500 If the guy asked to split the bill.

00:57:02.600 Um, it depends on their reason, but I...

00:57:08.240 If they had a good reason, I wouldn't be insulted.

00:57:10.860 He didn't give a reason.

00:57:11.880 He just...

00:57:12.180 Let's say that he doesn't even...

00:57:14.200 Okay, let me...

00:57:14.940 You're on a date with the guy, the waiter comes, and he tells the waiter two checks.

00:57:19.840 And it's the first date?

00:57:21.240 First date.

00:57:24.940 Separate checks, please.

00:57:26.180 That would...

00:57:26.820 I would be very surprised.

00:57:29.880 Deal-breaker, would it be?

00:57:31.460 I would not date them again, unless they were, like, gonna, like, make it up to me somehow.

00:57:38.300 Okay, so it would be a red...

00:57:40.420 Maybe not a red flag, but it'd be a deal-breaker.

00:57:44.560 They would have to, like, really, like, make it up to me.

00:57:48.300 For me to, like, you know.

00:57:50.440 Sure.

00:57:50.960 What about you?

00:57:52.100 I would be willing to split it.

00:57:54.800 Okay.

00:57:56.420 So then, who should pay on the first date?

00:57:58.440 Or split?

00:57:59.060 I'd say half and half.

00:57:59.600 You're fine with split?

00:58:00.580 Yeah.

00:58:00.780 And you'd be fine if the guy asked for two checks when the waiter came?

00:58:04.360 You'd be cool with that?

00:58:05.640 Okay, what about you?

00:58:06.680 I think the guy should pay on the first date.

00:58:08.940 Okay.

00:58:09.560 Why is that?

00:58:12.280 Because they asked me out, and I spent my money, like she was saying, like, on the hair, the

00:58:16.580 makeup, getting ready, the clothes, everything like that.

00:58:19.420 So I am investing in myself as well.

00:58:22.660 Okay.

00:58:23.000 And if a guy did ask for separate checks, what would you do?

00:58:28.520 I just probably wouldn't see him again.

00:58:30.540 Even if he was interested in seeing you again, and the date otherwise went okay?

00:58:34.900 Yeah, I wouldn't see him again.

00:58:36.040 Done?

00:58:36.420 Okay, fair enough.

00:58:37.080 What about you?

00:58:38.060 I would prefer the guy to pay on the first date, but I just went on a date recently, and

00:58:42.700 he paid for dinner, and I paid for dessert.

00:58:45.500 So you paid $50, and you paid $10, something like that?

00:58:48.440 No, it was actually, like, both at stands, like food trucks, so it was cheap for both

00:58:52.760 ends, and I offered to pay for dessert, because I felt bad.

00:58:55.920 See, I think that's so fair.

00:58:57.180 That's, like, what I was saying, you know?

00:58:59.780 But normally I'd want them to pay.

00:59:01.720 Normally you'd want the guy to pay.

00:59:02.940 Yeah, but it wouldn't be, like, a deal breaker.

00:59:04.700 Like, I wouldn't, you know.

00:59:06.720 But would it be, like, slightly negative brownie points or whatever?

00:59:09.740 If they want me to pay, then that's weird.

00:59:11.440 If I offer to pay, then that's cool.

00:59:13.720 Sure.

00:59:14.040 Because I've had a guy want to do 50-50, and I thought he was so unattractive, and I

00:59:17.760 was like, that is just so lame. 0.88

00:59:19.220 Like, you're so lame.

00:59:20.900 But, like, I will offer to chip in. 0.95

00:59:22.600 Like, just don't make me, I guess.

00:59:25.600 I have a problem with authority.

00:59:27.340 You have a problem with authority.

00:59:28.920 Just to be clear, why is it lame if he wants to go?

00:59:31.400 Because I agree with you, but why do you think it's lame if he goes 50-50?

00:59:33.880 Honestly, I couldn't pinpoint it, but I literally remember, like, how I felt last time this

00:59:38.180 happened, where the dude was around my age.

00:59:40.100 I thought he was so cute, and then he wanted to go 50-50, and I was just disgusted.

00:59:43.860 Like, any chance of sex happening was gone.

00:59:47.720 Why do you think that is, though?

00:59:49.020 I don't know.

00:59:49.580 I didn't feel taken care of.

00:59:50.740 You need, like, a man to take care of you. 0.67

00:59:52.380 You don't need that, but it feels good.

00:59:54.920 We'll come back to it.

00:59:55.840 Did you have more?

00:59:56.980 No, no.

00:59:58.020 Actually, I'd like to hear the answers from these other women on that. 0.61

01:00:00.600 We'll come back to that, though.

01:00:02.800 Um, I think whoever asks for the date pays for the date, but I would prefer a man paid 1.00

01:00:08.420 for the date.

01:00:09.060 Like, I'm going on a date with some random man.

01:00:11.060 I think a woman's time is valuable. 1.00

01:00:13.140 Like, I would...

01:00:13.620 A woman's time is valuable. 1.00

01:00:15.020 I wouldn't want to pay for the date, obviously.

01:00:16.640 So your time is more valuable than his time?

01:00:19.820 Yeah, I think women are, like, art and gorgeous and beautiful. 1.00

01:00:22.400 What if he makes 10 times more money than you?

01:00:24.440 Great.

01:00:24.840 Then that's even more the reason he should be paying for the date.

01:00:27.420 But his time would quite literally be, I suppose, more valuable than yours.

01:00:30.880 Yeah.

01:00:31.860 Well.

01:00:33.000 Well.

01:00:35.320 But continue...

01:00:36.220 Okay.

01:00:37.240 Continue on with your train.

01:00:38.260 You said, well, I believe women are... 1.00

01:00:40.360 What were you saying?

01:00:41.640 Beautiful and what?

01:00:43.360 Like, it takes a lot of money to be a woman, and I think women are beautiful. 1.00

01:00:46.960 It takes a lot of money to be a woman. 1.00

01:00:48.460 It does.

01:00:49.340 It does.

01:00:49.600 To be a pretty girl, it costs money. 0.99

01:00:51.700 Not necessarily.

01:00:53.400 Do you think...

01:00:54.460 Do you think that...

01:00:56.300 Like, if you're going on a date, like, you're going to, like...

01:01:00.600 You're going to maybe have to get your hair done, you have nails, you have makeup, you

01:01:05.440 have clothes.

01:01:06.620 Let me ask you a question, though.

01:01:08.120 Do you wear makeup for men, or do you wear it for yourself?

01:01:11.440 Both.

01:01:12.680 Because oftentimes, if a man were to say, women wear makeup for men, you'd be like, no,

01:01:18.360 no, no, no, no, I wear it for myself.

01:01:20.520 I mostly wear makeup just to go to work.

01:01:22.520 I don't usually wear makeup on my days off.

01:01:24.540 But what if the guy gave you a pass, and he said, I don't want you to wear makeup?

01:01:27.900 Then I wouldn't wear makeup.

01:01:28.680 But it's you choosing to put that on.

01:01:32.260 So why should he be financially responsible for the $3 of...

01:01:36.160 I didn't mean it, like, so transactional like that.

01:01:38.580 I don't know.

01:01:39.100 I just think a gentleman would pay for a woman. 1.00

01:01:41.340 What if when he asks you out...

01:01:42.160 A gentleman would pay for a woman. 1.00

01:01:43.900 What if when he asks you out, he says, listen, I want to go on a date, but I want to go 50-50,

01:01:48.200 so don't wear makeup.

01:01:50.380 And don't get your hair done.

01:01:51.780 I've never heard of it. 0.99

01:01:52.340 I'm not doing that bullshit. 0.99

01:01:53.480 I've actually done that. 0.99

01:01:54.020 That doesn't sound like a funny name.

01:01:55.700 I'll tell you.

01:01:56.520 I don't like makeup.

01:01:57.400 You'll tell her that on the first date?

01:02:00.640 I'll tell a girl.

01:02:01.620 I'll say, like, you don't need to wear makeup.

01:02:03.760 I don't like makeup.

01:02:05.040 And I'll say, don't wear perfume either.

01:02:06.680 That's, like, so random, though.

01:02:08.000 You're just going to say that out of nowhere?

01:02:09.840 Yeah.

01:02:10.220 This is the reality.

01:02:11.100 A lot of men don't like a really made-up woman. 1.00

01:02:13.940 Seriously.

01:02:14.580 I don't like makeup.

01:02:15.880 Same.

01:02:16.340 Not a fan.

01:02:17.140 Not a big fan.

01:02:17.680 Would you be offended if, like, you went on a date with someone, and then she came with,

01:02:20.980 like, a full face of makeup, like, fully, like, done up?

01:02:23.680 I wouldn't be offended.

01:02:24.500 There would be no second date.

01:02:25.840 Really?

01:02:26.360 Yeah.

01:02:26.800 Turn off.

01:02:27.640 Yeah.

01:02:27.940 Would you be scared of, like, what she looked like under her?

01:02:29.480 There was a girl I dated probably six years ago, probably three or four months.

01:02:33.940 She never, over the course of this relationship, never let me see her without makeup.

01:02:37.960 She would wake up, get out of bed early, sneak out of bed.

01:02:40.820 I'm still sleeping.

01:02:41.480 She's in the bathroom doing makeup and doing her hair.

01:02:43.560 She would not.

01:02:44.640 Turn off.

01:02:45.620 That, that dedication, no.

01:02:46.980 She cared a lot what you thought of her.

01:02:47.300 But what if it was, like, your first date, and she just wanted to, like, make her best

01:02:50.560 impression, and she actually really liked you, and, like, you genuinely liked her, but

01:02:54.080 then, like, it's, like, not, you said not a second date, right?

01:02:56.920 But what if she was, like, willing to, like, what if she wasn't that insecure about herself,

01:03:00.560 and she was willing to not wear makeup for the second date?

01:03:03.280 I think there's a difference between, like, an oak, for me, for my preference, an okay amount

01:03:06.940 of makeup, and too much over-the-top makeup.

01:03:09.100 That's, that's the problem, yeah.

01:03:11.080 But every man has got his preference.

01:03:13.500 It's true.

01:03:14.840 Okay, so I had a couple questions here.

01:03:18.160 There's, there's a lot to touch on.

01:03:20.540 And I, I suppose we'll have Madison and Kelly, you guys answer yours really quick.

01:03:23.940 So, as far as who pays for the date?

01:03:26.420 I'd prefer the man to pay, because it's the norm, but I also don't mind paying.

01:03:30.320 I like spoiling.

01:03:31.960 Sure.

01:03:32.660 My man.

01:03:33.460 Kelly, what about you?

01:03:34.320 Um, I think that the man should pay for it, just because they, that's, I feel like when

01:03:40.140 you're dating somebody, that's a part of being a man in a relationship.

01:03:44.420 Um, but like I said, um, you know, a woman can pay for, like, some things, like, oh, if 1.00

01:03:48.940 we go to dinner, you can pay for that.

01:03:50.500 If we go to McDonald's, yeah, sure, I'll pay for it, no problem.

01:03:53.060 And we go to dessert, like they said, like, that's not a problem to pay for.

01:03:56.040 You're in a relationship for a while.

01:03:57.460 Yeah, yeah, but like, the courting, the courting stage, yeah, if you're trying to make this

01:04:02.440 woman your girlfriend, you, why wouldn't you pay for her, that you're, you're doing your 0.70

01:04:06.460 duty as a man.

01:04:07.180 It's a polite thing to do.

01:04:08.240 Right, I agree.

01:04:09.080 It's the polite thing to do?

01:04:10.680 Why?

01:04:11.120 I wouldn't say polite, it's just the, the, if you, like, it's the traditional way of going,

01:04:16.240 it's, you're being.

01:04:17.580 Sure.

01:04:18.780 Um, okay, so, uh, I think you said that you would be, you were disgusted when,

01:04:26.040 when the guy offered to split the bill, was it?

01:04:28.820 That sounds harsh now, but like.

01:04:30.580 That's what you said, though.

01:04:31.760 I guess disgusted is the wrong word, but definitely turned off.

01:04:35.800 I mean, some girls are, are disgusted by men who are not prepared to provide. 0.76

01:04:41.340 I would say turned off is a more fair way to put it.

01:04:43.780 I was being a little harsh.

01:04:44.880 That's, that's fine, that's fine.

01:04:46.360 Um, and then I think you said whoever asks should pay, correct?

01:04:50.640 Um, yeah, I mean, I've paid for dates before.

01:04:53.040 I mean, I think in a relationship, like they were saying.

01:04:55.060 No, but let's, let's first date.

01:04:56.720 First date.

01:04:58.220 Is it whoever asks should pay?

01:05:00.180 Yeah, but I, usually the man would be asking me.

01:05:02.680 Well, that's what I'm going to ask, so just.

01:05:04.940 Who here, who here says whoever asks should pay?

01:05:07.860 Show of hands.

01:05:09.500 Well, I mean.

01:05:11.400 That's fair.

01:05:12.320 Yeah.

01:05:12.740 Okay.

01:05:12.980 Like for first date.

01:05:14.120 But like a girl. 0.97

01:05:14.700 We're talking strictly.

01:05:15.480 First date, first date.

01:05:16.740 Whoever, whoever asks should pay.

01:05:18.300 Yeah.

01:05:18.620 Is that your.

01:05:19.260 Man should pay.

01:05:20.140 The man should pay.

01:05:20.840 Oh, the man should pay.

01:05:21.460 Okay.

01:05:22.180 Because some people's position is, well, whoever asks.

01:05:24.220 But my, my thinking on that is, well, women don't really ask men out on dates. 0.89

01:05:30.660 Generally speaking.

01:05:31.540 Yes.

01:05:31.800 Do some women occasionally rarely ask men out on dates? 1.00

01:05:34.900 Yes.

01:05:35.300 But generally speaking, women are the ones who are asking men out on dates.

01:05:39.220 So, your answer may as well be, I mean, men are de facto the initiators.

01:05:44.160 So, your answer may as well be men should pay. 0.68

01:05:47.400 Yeah.

01:05:47.560 But, I mean, it kind of ignores.

01:05:49.980 It's, it's a bit of a naive look.

01:05:51.480 If, if your position is whoever asks.

01:05:53.320 I just think when a guy likes you, he wants to like take care of you and like show you,

01:05:58.240 I got you, babe.

01:05:59.040 Like, no worries.

01:06:00.560 Like, it ain't no thing.

01:06:01.640 It's dinner.

01:06:02.220 You know?

01:06:02.560 Like, I got you.

01:06:04.300 Like, when a guy likes you, he's not like, oh, pay.

01:06:06.920 Like, that's kind of weird.

01:06:08.620 Let me tell you how I think this plays out in reality.

01:06:10.960 I think if a man is asking and paying, he sees some long-term value in you.

01:06:15.660 I think any man that is saying, hey, let's go 50-50.

01:06:18.560 Hey, can you pay this time?

01:06:19.640 Hey, my wallet's in the car.

01:06:20.680 Hey, can you buy dessert?

01:06:22.140 That man doesn't really see something long-term with you.

01:06:25.440 That man is, that man is looking to get laid or that man is looking for a one and done.

01:06:29.260 That man is, that's what I think.

01:06:30.780 I disagree with you.

01:06:32.060 I disagree with you a little bit.

01:06:33.740 Okay.

01:06:35.000 Now, in a traditional world where women moved traditionally, I would agree with you.

01:06:42.140 However, I think, at least in California, I don't know how it is in, I mean, I think in most of the Western world,

01:06:49.460 women are definitely not moving in a traditional way. 1.00

01:06:52.640 No doubt.

01:06:53.040 So I don't feel obliged to hold to traditional, my traditional gender roles of paying for the first date

01:07:00.580 because women are not traditional. 0.95

01:07:02.600 So I don't want to be a sucker. 0.97

01:07:06.160 And a lot of these chicks, they're doing foodie calls. 1.00

01:07:08.800 They're not serious about pursuing anything.

01:07:11.620 They're bored on a Friday.

01:07:12.840 Oh, okay.

01:07:13.900 Sure, I'll go on a date.

01:07:17.120 And like foodie calls is a big thing. 0.99

01:07:19.440 I've had a foodie call where the girl just went on a date for fucking free food. 1.00

01:07:24.360 Yeah, a lot of girls do that. 1.00

01:07:25.500 Well, listen, I'll tell you this.

01:07:27.400 Really? I feel like I'm not going to waste my time.

01:07:28.620 I know a lot of girls that do that. 1.00

01:07:30.320 No, some wouldn't, but some chicks do. 1.00

01:07:31.660 And then the other thing.

01:07:32.880 You have like a whole roster.

01:07:33.620 I'll let you go in just a second.

01:07:34.660 I'm hungry. Let's go here.

01:07:36.000 The other thing is that.

01:07:37.420 Wow, I have a lot of time.

01:07:37.960 I just don't want to be a sucker because a lot of people are sleeping and seeing multiple people.

01:07:43.680 So I don't want to be the guy that pays for you, pays for your date, 0.99

01:07:47.880 and then you go and hang out with your fuck buddy who, by the way, never has paid for you, 1.00

01:07:54.080 and you fuck him after I just provided for you. 1.00

01:07:58.520 That's basically like a low-tier cuck situation. 1.00

01:08:05.680 Okay, so women, do you think it's fair for Brian to ask a woman on a first date, 0.99

01:08:10.900 do you have a fuck buddy, are you doing foodie dates? 0.97

01:08:13.800 Is that a fair question for a man to ask on a first date? 0.99

01:08:16.180 Yeah.

01:08:16.620 Because if that's the case, I'm out of here, I'm not paying for you, go 50-50, I'm gone.

01:08:21.160 Is that fair?

01:08:21.700 I don't think most girls would. 0.99

01:08:23.500 I think she'd ask that before the day if it's really a deal breaker.

01:08:26.060 Yeah.

01:08:26.900 But here's the thing.

01:08:28.700 I think if she really likes you, she wouldn't do that.

01:08:32.080 Do what?

01:08:32.720 Like what you said, like make you pay for all this stuff,

01:08:35.440 and then just like, that's a thing you never know. 1.00

01:08:37.380 Peace, I'm going to go fuck the loser like down the street. 1.00

01:08:39.540 She ain't going to say it, but she's going to give you the ass out, hug goodbye, 1.00

01:08:42.440 oh, I had a really good time, 1.00

01:08:43.700 and then she's going to go over to the guy who she's fucking. 1.00

01:08:47.240 But can you tell when a girl like really loves you? 0.96

01:08:50.480 On a first date?

01:08:52.500 I mean, some women are pretty coy. 1.00

01:08:54.460 I keep forgetting it's like only first date.

01:08:56.460 Yeah, that's hard to tell on a first date, you're right.

01:08:58.940 Yeah, it's a first date.

01:08:59.800 Maybe there's nerves involved, some people, whatever.

01:09:01.740 But after a while, I think, yeah.

01:09:03.140 I got to say, like, maybe I'm out of the loop.

01:09:04.860 Maybe you're in the California bubble.

01:09:06.880 Maybe it's a different world down here.

01:09:08.260 I feel like it's really easy to tell on a first date.

01:09:12.380 Granted, I've been out of the game for a while.

01:09:14.100 I feel like it's easy to tell when a girl's kind of playing that game. 0.99

01:09:18.080 Do you think?

01:09:19.080 Like a foodie call?

01:09:20.240 Yeah, yeah.

01:09:21.080 But by the time our hour-long date is done at the restaurant,

01:09:24.480 I think I've got a pretty good idea if this girl is living that life, 1.00

01:09:28.920 or she's just like a normal human female. 1.00

01:09:31.040 I mean, I think there's a lot of very sophisticated women, 1.00

01:09:35.240 and I don't think we should underestimate the level of sophistication

01:09:39.340 that goes on.

01:09:40.920 I don't know.

01:09:41.720 I think women are much more socially attuned than men,

01:09:44.220 and they're much more capable of pulling off this manipulation.

01:09:47.320 I don't know how many master manipulator women are running that life. 1.00

01:09:51.380 I don't know.

01:09:52.280 Really?

01:09:53.020 Eric, can you pull up that story of that chick on TikTok

01:09:56.500 who's going on 16th a week for free food?

01:09:59.540 Is it that bad? 0.94

01:10:01.000 These hoes out here are crazy. 1.00

01:10:04.020 Well, listen, we are. 0.97

01:10:05.180 Here's the thing, but here's the thing.

01:10:06.680 They think they, like, I feel like a lot of it nowadays,

01:10:09.560 like, as they get older, like, they try to get married, too.

01:10:12.020 So it's like they're trying to play this trick to get married.

01:10:16.220 Keep in mind, we are in, right now,

01:10:18.200 we're in the most progressive, hellhole, satanic place in the world.

01:10:23.340 So if you're basing your dating situation off of this area, SoCal,

01:10:30.440 it's probably not representative of how the rest of the world is operating, right?

01:10:36.900 Yeah, LA is, yeah.

01:10:38.540 It's pretty bad down here.

01:10:39.320 It's really bad.

01:10:43.000 Scroll up so we can see the title.

01:10:45.520 Yeah, this is it.

01:10:47.360 I went on six dates a week and didn't have to grow streets for two years.

01:10:51.240 Scroll down.

01:10:51.920 Hold on.

01:10:53.980 Wait, wait, wait.

01:10:54.460 Sorry, scroll up.

01:10:55.820 I'm going to read the text.

01:10:57.400 When they say women are bad with money, 1.00

01:10:59.460 but you used to go on six dates a week to avoid paying for groceries.

01:11:02.800 So this chick lived in New York,

01:11:04.420 and she boasted about going on six dates a week.

01:11:07.440 And scroll down, Eric.

01:11:08.440 I think she said how much she saved.

01:11:10.220 She said she was saving 100, probably saved about $150 a week.

01:11:15.420 Scroll back up.

01:11:16.080 Let's look at what she looked like. 0.85

01:11:18.260 This is a very average-looking woman. 1.00

01:11:20.220 She is not remarkable in any way.

01:11:23.380 And she's able to go on six dates a week and basically game men. 1.00

01:11:27.480 Look, I'm not saying, look, most women are not doing this. 1.00

01:11:30.260 But what I'm saying is, as a guy, you do have to be cautious.

01:11:34.580 Foodie call is more a little on the rare side.

01:11:38.080 But I would say what's fairly common is people are dating multiple people.

01:11:43.940 I think that's pretty common for people to, like, have multiple people they're dating,

01:11:49.360 both men and women, by the way.

01:11:51.220 And so my hope, but here's the thing.

01:11:53.120 On the first date, there's not an expectation that the woman should be paying for the first date. 1.00

01:11:57.060 So as a guy, if the expectation is you should be paying on the first date,

01:12:00.460 but she's dating three other dudes, she's sleeping with three other dudes, 1.00

01:12:02.980 I'm not going to, like, I feel like a sucker if I'm paying for a girl. 0.76

01:12:08.060 Even if it's ten bucks, it's not about the money.

01:12:10.200 I'm good on money.

01:12:11.180 It's a matter of principle. 0.85

01:12:12.460 I don't want to feel like a sucker. 1.00

01:12:13.980 I don't want to pay for a girl and she's fucking other dudes. 1.00

01:12:16.800 Okay, so let me ask you. 0.99

01:12:17.800 What's the solution then?

01:12:18.760 Are you just never going on dates?

01:12:20.280 Are you that demoralized out of the dating game?

01:12:22.780 You're just never doing it? 0.99

01:12:23.600 Bro, I'm so, I'm, like, so jaded from fucking dating. 0.98

01:12:28.760 Like, it's bad, but... 0.99

01:12:30.520 Not every girl fucks multiple guys. 1.00

01:12:32.960 I know it's hard to believe, but I literally, like, when I find a guy that I really like, 0.99

01:12:36.800 I only fuck him and I only think about him and want to be around him. 0.98

01:12:39.780 I get really obsessed. 1.00

01:12:40.760 On the first date, though?

01:12:42.940 Yeah, the first, my last boyfriend, I met him on the first date. 0.89

01:12:47.040 Yeah, but you do sex work, right? 0.99

01:12:49.020 So, I mean, you're, like, fucking within your work, right? 0.99

01:12:51.520 Well, I thought I didn't meet him at work. 0.98

01:12:53.020 I met him on his podcast.

01:12:55.000 Okay. 1.00

01:12:55.440 And then I ended and Keem started tweeting for him to wash his ass. 1.00

01:12:58.600 Okay. 1.00

01:13:00.380 You just said that's her work, though.

01:13:02.140 Can I ask you, do you think it's reasonable for a man to not want to date a sex worker?

01:13:07.480 Is that fair for a man to say, I just don't want to date a woman that's sharing her body 1.00

01:13:10.660 with other men?

01:13:12.580 Well, like, my dude, he's cool with me, like, doing solo content and girl-girl.

01:13:17.900 And because, just because, like, I have respect for him, I choose to not do, like, dude content.

01:13:24.200 Well, let's dig deeper.

01:13:25.180 So, the content you are making, you are making exclusively for other men around the world 0.99

01:13:29.360 to play with their penises, right? 1.00

01:13:31.500 You are, you are, that's, that's your clientele, right? 0.99

01:13:34.460 So, is it okay for a man you're potentially dating to say, listen, I don't want my woman 0.99

01:13:38.940 making content like that?

01:13:40.120 Is that fair?

01:13:40.600 Um, like, just solo and girl-girl he's not cool with?

01:13:46.120 He doesn't want you uploading naked photos, sexy photos on the internet.

01:13:49.300 Insecure.

01:13:50.040 Wait, why is he?

01:13:50.560 You think that's insecure?

01:13:51.560 Very.

01:13:52.460 You think so?

01:13:53.520 Yeah.

01:13:54.200 Explain why.

01:13:54.680 Why isn't he cool with girl-girl?

01:13:55.760 Because why is what someone else is doing with their body bothering him so much?

01:14:00.120 Because he's looking to have a wife and have kids.

01:14:02.300 But, like.

01:14:02.980 Wait, it's insecure?

01:14:03.960 What?

01:14:04.520 It's insecure for a guy to not want to date a sex worker?

01:14:07.080 Well, I think it's insecure for someone to think that's someone without their clothes

01:14:11.800 on.

01:14:11.980 So, this is one of the beautiful things about monogamous relationships.

01:14:14.820 Two people have come together and said, listen, this is, this is an aspect of our life, of

01:14:18.360 our being, that we are going to give exclusively to each other, and that's why it's special.

01:14:22.120 We've agreed on that.

01:14:22.780 Those are our terms. 0.97

01:14:23.460 But you can be monogamous and still post, like, slutty photos.

01:14:26.100 So, I'm asking you, is it reasonable if a guy doesn't want you, if you do that, though?

01:14:29.100 Is he going to be completely, like, monogamous to her?

01:14:31.680 Totally. 1.00

01:14:32.120 All about her obsessed, like, you're my bitch. 1.00

01:14:34.160 He's not, he's not fucking side chicks. 1.00

01:14:36.760 Is that fair? 0.98

01:14:37.540 No, I want a guy that's cool with it, that is confident with it.

01:14:39.960 But what if he's doing everything else that you want him to, like, what do you, like,

01:14:42.820 what do you want your man to do?

01:14:43.680 You want him to pay for everything?

01:14:45.020 Like, if he's paying for everything already, and then you're, he's saying that he doesn't

01:14:47.940 want you to do this, how come you can't make that sacrifice for him?

01:14:51.080 Because I don't want to.

01:14:51.300 If he's doing everything else.

01:14:52.480 I'd rather find someone that will pay for everything and will also show me off and be

01:14:56.160 cool with it.

01:14:56.700 There's too many people in the world to not find someone that I like every aspect about,

01:15:00.220 or at least most of them.

01:15:01.260 You value helping random men all over the world bust nuts more than the comfort of

01:15:05.660 your spouse?

01:15:07.080 No, I value my income and my roof over my head and the food that goes in my mouth.

01:15:10.960 Okay, what if he says, listen, marry me, you're a stay-at-home wife, we're having kids, 0.81

01:15:16.420 and you're my wife, we're taking, I'll take care of you.

01:15:18.540 I can't trust him.

01:15:19.320 I will dedicate my life to you.

01:15:20.300 You could leave one day.

01:15:20.640 What if he leaves?

01:15:21.520 What if he dies?

01:15:21.920 Why would he leave if you're doing everything he wants you to do?

01:15:25.140 I've known men that are married for 10 years, and then they decide, I'm going to go to

01:15:28.960 the strip club, I'm going to cheat on my wife, I'm going to give all our extra money to this 1.00

01:15:33.140 porn star. 0.98

01:15:34.120 I mean, you know a guy's going to give you a lot of money when you hear he's married. 0.97

01:15:37.720 Like, that's just the facts.

01:15:39.420 Say the rules for like the first.

01:15:40.920 I agree.

01:15:41.500 Yeah, it's true.

01:15:41.960 I think that men are cheating less than women, right? 0.92

01:15:45.060 I think so many men are cheating. 0.99

01:15:48.920 It's ridiculous. 0.99

01:15:49.960 Yeah, but I think that more women are cheating, statistically, right? 1.00

01:15:53.780 No.

01:15:54.460 I think you could find a guy that's like cool with what, you know, what you want to do,

01:15:57.900 and he'll still love you.

01:15:58.880 A hundred percent.

01:15:59.840 You know, the type of guy that doesn't is like, no, no, no, you can't do this, you can't

01:16:03.700 do that.

01:16:04.180 He's just not for, he's not for me, and he's not for you.

01:16:06.560 Like, I'm personally cool with girl, girl, and solo content, because that's just, I'm

01:16:13.360 cool with that, because like, my dude, he's cool with me doing that, so like, I'm cool

01:16:17.360 with that, you know what I'm saying?

01:16:18.480 But he's not ever like, no, you can't do this, you can't do, he's not like that.

01:16:24.160 Do you want to get married?

01:16:25.480 Yeah.

01:16:26.380 How come you haven't, like, because you said you were together for eight years, but like,

01:16:30.460 what's stopping marriage?

01:16:32.300 Do you not like, you know?

01:16:33.020 It's a long story.

01:16:34.100 It's like, too long to get into.

01:16:36.800 But yeah, eventually, yeah.

01:16:38.460 Say though, like, if your boyfriend, was it?

01:16:42.380 Your boyfriend was doing the same things that you were doing, and you weren't, and you were

01:16:46.380 in his position, like, and if he was, what am I saying right now?

01:16:53.080 Sorry, I lost my train of thought.

01:16:53.880 If the roles were reversed.

01:16:54.680 Yeah, just, if the roles were reversed, would, oh my god, I'm like.

01:16:58.320 Like, if I was a guy, and he was the girl?

01:17:00.420 No, if he was doing.

01:17:01.120 If he was doing the content that you're doing, and you weren't okay with it, is that a deal breaker?

01:17:06.500 That's what I'm trying to say.

01:17:07.120 I think it's different, though, for guys.

01:17:09.140 Eric, can you hide the pop-up chat?

01:17:10.480 But it's the same actions, same ideas, same...

01:17:13.780 I think maybe at a base level, the concern you women have is that if you forfeit your 1.00

01:17:19.000 income source, which happens to be sex work, then you're really concerned that what if

01:17:23.680 the man I dedicate my life to, and I sacrifice my income for, what if he betrays me, then 0.99

01:17:27.760 I'm fucked. 0.99

01:17:28.180 And that's, like, at a base level, what the concern is. 1.00

01:17:30.680 Yeah, then you get half.

01:17:31.240 Yeah.

01:17:31.960 Lady Gaga.

01:17:33.280 I don't know.

01:17:33.900 That thought doesn't really cross my mind.

01:17:36.100 Like, you know, if, like, you're my dude, I trust you, straight up.

01:17:41.380 Yeah.

01:17:42.420 You know, but I think that does come with time, also.

01:17:45.600 Yeah.

01:17:46.500 So.

01:17:47.300 Just to bring it back really quick to the who pays thing.

01:17:49.420 So, I guess, look, my main issue is, and I guess explain to me why I, as a man, should

01:17:59.480 pay for a first date when a lot of women are out here sleeping with multiple men at the 1.00

01:18:05.720 same time, and sleeping with multiple men at the same time.

01:18:11.660 Like, a lot of you said the man should pay, right?

01:18:14.340 Which is him adhering to his traditional gender role. 0.78

01:18:16.660 Do you agree with that?

01:18:17.680 Yes.

01:18:17.960 Do, how many of you are traditional women? 0.96

01:18:25.320 Absolutely not.

01:18:26.180 You're not traditional, though.

01:18:27.660 No, I'm, I'm way different than traditional, yeah.

01:18:30.240 So then isn't it, I'm afraid to ask for the man to be traditional if you're not traditional?

01:18:34.120 I mean, they go above and beyond, usually.

01:18:36.380 I get, we get experiences that are not what the average person would get, like.

01:18:41.220 Oh, sure.

01:18:41.780 You don't have to be traditional to be feminine and to give, like, a guy, like, your feminine, 1.00

01:18:46.440 your femininity.

01:18:47.960 I mean, I, like.

01:18:50.700 Well, let's pause.

01:18:51.380 What do you mean by traditional femininity?

01:18:52.880 Because when I think of traditional woman or traditional femininity, I think of modesty,

01:18:56.120 I think of self-sacrifice, I think of discipline, I think of motherhood, I think of being a good

01:18:59.540 wife, I think of dedicating your, your physical being to your husband exclusively and solely.

01:19:04.480 So I'm, I'm, I'm hearing the word traditional femininity or traditional woman, and I'm like, what's

01:19:10.260 going on here?

01:19:10.800 Maybe, I think we have different definitions, right?

01:19:12.640 Well, like, like, like me personally, I like to, like, cater to my man, like, cook for 0.92

01:19:19.420 him, like, clean for him, like, have his, all his shit ready for him, like, be there for 0.98

01:19:24.960 him. 0.99

01:19:25.220 You know what I mean?

01:19:25.720 That's pretty good.

01:19:26.540 There's some kind of bug.

01:19:27.220 It's literally a fly.

01:19:28.220 It's, don't worry, it's not going to bite you.

01:19:30.440 It's just like a little, no, it's just a little fly.

01:19:32.480 It's a little fly.

01:19:32.640 Okay, you guys are all scared.

01:19:33.800 I thought it was a bee.

01:19:34.760 It's, it's not a bee.

01:19:37.180 It's not going to sting you guys.

01:19:38.180 It's just a little bug.

01:19:39.020 But, yeah. 0.98

01:19:41.500 Look, it's just like, look, we have, we have girls who are sex workers on the show. 0.99

01:19:47.940 We have strippers. 1.00

01:19:48.620 We have porn stars. 1.00

01:19:49.440 We have OnlyFans girls. 1.00

01:19:50.460 That's, that's cool.

01:19:51.160 But it's just, to me, it's like, why are you holding men to these traditional

01:19:57.020 standards when you're, I mean, sex work is not traditional.

01:20:02.200 But you don't have to be super traditional to be feminine.

01:20:05.640 I just don't think that, like, sex workers want to have sex with a lot of different people

01:20:12.260 that casually, because we have sex for a job.

01:20:14.740 From my personal experience, I hate having sex, like, that doesn't have a connection. 0.98

01:20:18.600 You hate having sex? 0.90

01:20:19.540 That doesn't have a connection. 0.99

01:20:20.900 Oh, okay.

01:20:21.680 Like, I like to be really close with someone.

01:20:23.500 Sure.

01:20:23.900 Like I said earlier, I get really obsessed and just want to be with them.

01:20:27.020 So, like, there are those girls out there, whether they're sex workers or not, that 1.00

01:20:30.320 will be loyal to you and be really into you.

01:20:33.140 You just have to find the right girl. 0.98

01:20:36.080 But, I mean, just, okay, but here's the thing.

01:20:37.820 Just by virtue of being in the adult entertainment industry, you are immediately classed as not

01:20:46.720 being traditional.

01:20:48.180 So?

01:20:49.360 But the point I'm trying to make is, is if you are not traditional yourself, you ought

01:20:54.340 not expect men to be traditional.

01:20:56.620 Are you talking about paying for dinner?

01:20:58.340 Yeah, I'm talking about paying for first dates.

01:21:00.380 But I think from a perspective of this...

01:21:02.380 Why are we doing traditional as a blanket?

01:21:04.780 Sex work versus paying for dinner, what has that got to do with each other?

01:21:07.600 Well, he's basically the traditional men pay for dinner. 0.68

01:21:08.920 I'm saying you expect men to be traditional, yet you are not traditional yourself.

01:21:13.720 I don't expect men to be traditional.

01:21:14.960 I want to go to Nobu.

01:21:16.140 I want them to spend thousands of dollars.

01:21:17.740 But that...

01:21:17.780 Wait, that man paying for dinner, that's a function of traditional masculinity.

01:21:21.180 I don't want traditional, I want rich, high rollers. 0.62

01:21:24.280 That...

01:21:24.600 Wait, hold on.

01:21:27.140 I like that.

01:21:28.080 So, but you're...

01:21:29.760 That's traditional.

01:21:30.920 You're...

01:21:31.720 You want a guy to be provider.

01:21:34.380 You said you want a guy to take you to Nobu and pay for a thousand dollar dinner?

01:21:38.160 I mean, that...

01:21:39.120 Yeah.

01:21:39.500 Can I ask you, what do you feel like you have to offer?

01:21:41.100 That's provider. 1.00

01:21:42.180 Some really good pussy, some really good head. 1.00

01:21:44.740 But a guy can get that from anybody. 1.00

01:21:46.760 But what if you never, ever say no?

01:21:48.660 What do you mean, what if you ever, never say no?

01:21:49.920 I mean, I can do things, but some girls say no to him.

01:21:52.560 But what is...

01:21:53.220 But I don't think you guys understand that men look at sex completely different than, like,

01:21:58.860 how women do. 1.00

01:21:59.880 And, like...

01:22:00.420 I'll tell you, any...

01:22:01.300 That type of man you're describing, that attractive, successful, tons of money going...

01:22:04.860 I'm seeing him this weekend.

01:22:06.200 I'll see you soon, baby. 1.00

01:22:07.340 I'll tell you, that type of man can fuck as many women as he wants. 1.00

01:22:10.100 It's true. 1.00

01:22:10.340 You're not special to him.

01:22:11.400 It's true, but the money is special to me.

01:22:14.200 But he's never gonna...

01:22:15.340 Does it offend you guys that that man will never marry you?

01:22:19.920 I don't care.

01:22:20.740 He's already married, actually.

01:22:22.320 Yeah, I see.

01:22:23.100 I told you.

01:22:24.260 So you're helping a man cheat on his wife?

01:22:26.780 Well, no, because it's my job.

01:22:29.080 Yeah.

01:22:29.880 What's your job?

01:22:31.140 To...

01:22:31.820 Escort? 0.76

01:22:32.040 To make men bust nuts. 1.00

01:22:37.700 You're comfortable helping this man violate his marriage.

01:22:41.000 I'm comfortable making money, because he's gonna go do it from another girl if he doesn't 0.96

01:22:45.100 get it from me, so I might as well make this bank, because this man is, like, double my age,

01:22:49.240 maybe triple, I don't really know.

01:22:50.620 No moral qualms for you at all.

01:22:52.740 She's not married.

01:22:53.780 I'm not the one that got into a relationship.

01:22:55.680 But you're implicated in his transgression, right?

01:22:58.320 Why do I have responsibility for what he...

01:22:59.700 He's the one that, if anything...

01:23:01.760 Imagine I'm a methamphetamine dealer, and I said, well, if I don't sell meth, someone

01:23:05.180 else is gonna sell meth to these drug addicts, so it's not my problem.

01:23:07.820 My mom's actually a meth dealer that's been in out of prison. 0.86

01:23:09.680 Your mom is a meth dealer.

01:23:10.740 And she's been in out of prison my whole life. 0.90

01:23:12.720 Your mom's meth.

01:23:13.620 That's good.

01:23:14.320 She was.

01:23:14.780 Let me just write that down.

01:23:15.740 Hold on.

01:23:16.280 Mom's a meth dealer.

01:23:17.380 Hold that down.

01:23:18.280 Yeah.

01:23:19.900 Was.

01:23:20.740 Was.

01:23:21.120 Excuse me.

01:23:21.720 Was a meth dealer.

01:23:22.500 I think she's just an addict now. 1.00

01:23:23.840 She's turned her life around.

01:23:24.760 That's right.

01:23:24.840 No, no.

01:23:25.460 Absolutely not.

01:23:26.300 But it's okay.

01:23:27.120 I'm sorry to hear that.

01:23:27.600 Thank you.

01:23:28.020 It's okay.

01:23:29.020 Welcome to California.

01:23:30.220 I love California. 0.95

01:23:31.240 I gotta get the fuck out of here ASAP. 0.91

01:23:33.160 Sorry for this word. 0.97

01:23:34.280 Where are you guys from?

01:23:35.120 Washington.

01:23:36.080 D.C.?

01:23:36.680 North.

01:23:37.440 Washington C.

01:23:38.120 Northwest, yeah.

01:23:38.840 I'm from the East Coast, actually.

01:23:40.560 Where on the East Coast?

01:23:41.980 Pennsylvania, New York.

01:23:43.160 Pennsylvania.

01:23:43.600 You could have been Amish. 1.00

01:23:45.420 Wow.

01:23:45.800 You should have been Amish. 1.00

01:23:47.020 Interesting how life works out from there.

01:23:49.240 Interesting how life works out.

01:23:51.160 But, okay, so you escort.

01:23:54.160 Is that correct?

01:23:55.380 I don't want to answer that.

01:23:57.400 That's a yes.

01:23:58.540 Well, I mean, you've already, I mean, you've basically. 0.99

01:24:00.940 She's a sex worker. 1.00

01:24:02.120 Is escorting illegal?

01:24:03.440 I have no idea.

01:24:03.940 By definition, it's legal in California, and it's, you're not paying for an act.

01:24:08.100 You're paying for time.

01:24:09.120 She's paying for, or he's paying for her time, not her sex. 0.57

01:24:12.920 Yeah. 0.95

01:24:13.400 But they do have sex. 0.99

01:24:13.840 And then whatever happens, happens. 0.74

01:24:15.140 Yeah, whatever happens, happens.

01:24:16.280 Wink, wink, wink, wink, wink, wink.

01:24:17.900 It's high end.

01:24:19.300 How much do you make?

01:24:19.920 What makes it high end versus low end escorting? 0.98

01:24:22.060 I think it's the dollar amount you're making per hour, or like who you're fucking with. 0.95

01:24:26.100 So, how much? 0.95

01:24:27.460 Because anybody can scrape up the money, you know, it doesn't matter who you are, whether

01:24:30.660 you're the president or, you know.

01:24:33.120 How much is a low end escort, and how much is a high end escort?

01:24:35.900 What's the difference?

01:24:36.620 Like a hundred to like a thousand to fifteen hundred to two thousand an hour.

01:24:42.520 What, per hour?

01:24:43.300 Per hour.

01:24:44.120 Wow.

01:24:44.300 Yeah, a thousand and up would be a high end escort.

01:24:46.640 Yeah, a thousand and up.

01:24:47.160 And so you're a high end escort.

01:24:48.460 Yeah.

01:24:48.920 Okay.

01:24:50.020 I gotcha.

01:24:50.860 You admitted to it.

01:24:51.760 You're an escort.

01:24:53.400 You know what?

01:24:55.920 You know what?

01:24:57.540 Stay safe.

01:24:59.540 Okay.

01:24:59.780 Someone said I got five dollars, final offer.

01:25:06.120 Can we split the five?

01:25:07.360 Each of us gets a dollar.

01:25:12.420 I don't know.

01:25:13.060 Amazing.

01:25:13.800 Yeah.

01:25:14.060 I mean, just so for my personal thing, look, I know it actually does lose me women that 0.99

01:25:19.040 I'm not willing to pay for first dates, but at the end of the day, I'm just, I don't

01:25:25.640 want to feel like a sucker.

01:25:26.640 I've been there before. 0.88

01:25:27.580 I don't want to do it.

01:25:28.120 Is this something you're dealing with personally?

01:25:29.900 What do you mean?

01:25:30.680 Like, is this a problem?

01:25:31.260 This is something that pretty much all men are dealing with.

01:25:34.800 Let me ask you, how do you get out of this?

01:25:37.020 Where do you go from this? 0.90

01:25:38.180 You don't want to feel like a sucker.

01:25:39.260 I don't know if this happened in the past.

01:25:40.720 What now?

01:25:41.460 How do I get you married? 0.99

01:25:42.920 Well, so, okay, we'll get to the marriage thing in a little bit because I know you wanted

01:25:46.160 to talk about marriage.

01:25:48.200 So, I'm not necessarily opposed to falling into more of a, like, taking care of a girl. 0.74

01:25:55.600 I certainly have the finances to do it.

01:25:58.120 Down the road.

01:25:59.340 Okay.

01:25:59.520 But up front, no.

01:26:00.760 You need to, like, I need to know, I need to get to know you before I'm prepared to do that.

01:26:06.800 Okay, but what is that?

01:26:07.640 So, you need to get to know her in a way where you're not spending money on her because if 0.99

01:26:11.200 you are, then you might get bit in the ass or what? 0.99

01:26:13.440 It's really just a matter of principle to me. 1.00

01:26:17.220 It's not about the loss of money.

01:26:19.360 I know, but I actually get the principle.

01:26:21.040 I respect that.

01:26:21.740 But how do you, as a man, because you're a single guy in this crazy market right now,

01:26:27.560 how do you move on?

01:26:28.640 How do you navigate this?

01:26:30.000 Do you go to the park and you hang out at the park?

01:26:32.540 Oh, like, how do I do dates?

01:26:34.320 How do you do dates and also invest no money because you're scared that she might?

01:26:38.680 Sure.

01:26:39.100 Okay, I'll put you on some game.

01:26:40.740 What did you have to say?

01:26:41.760 So, if you want so badly to be fair and not pay the girl's meal, doesn't that kind of make

01:26:48.220 the girl have less respect for herself and less self-esteem to be willing to go half and 1.00

01:26:52.660 half on a first date?

01:26:53.720 So, like, does that mean you're setting yourself up to be with less lower value girls because

01:26:57.840 you refuse to appreciate their value from the beginning?

01:27:00.920 What do you mean appreciate their value?

01:27:02.300 Like, pay for the dinner.

01:27:03.520 Why is that appreciating someone's value?

01:27:06.380 From a traditional standpoint.

01:27:09.600 From a traditional standpoint, but, like, women are not really traditional anymore. 0.95

01:27:14.440 I mean, you mentioned men should be gentlemen.

01:27:17.640 Where are the ladies? 0.97

01:27:19.620 We're right here.

01:27:21.140 You just said you're an escort.

01:27:22.480 I mean, like, you're not a lady. 0.99

01:27:24.780 Excuse me?

01:27:26.520 You're a female, but you're not a lady. 1.00

01:27:28.880 What makes me not a lady?

01:27:30.700 Well, I don't consider, I'm not, I suppose I'm not a gentleman.

01:27:33.640 Because I got in a shitty situation at 18 and did what I had to do to survive and pay

01:27:38.220 my bills. 0.92

01:27:39.040 That doesn't, I mean, that doesn't undo the fact that, look, you are not a lady. 0.99

01:27:42.120 That does make me not a lady.

01:27:43.460 I'm a survivor.

01:27:44.640 I'm someone that's really strong.

01:27:46.460 Like, I don't understand how I wouldn't be a lady.

01:27:48.960 Sure, you can be strong, but when I say lady, I'm sort of talking about traditional gender 0.71

01:27:54.440 roles.

01:27:55.160 So, a gentleman versus a lady. 0.99

01:27:58.020 But traditionally, like...

01:27:59.440 A gentleman is someone who pays for your date, who protects you, who provides, who's

01:28:03.660 a gentleman.

01:28:04.200 Do you think we don't deserve that because we're sex workers?

01:28:06.960 Do you think we don't deserve that because we're sex workers?

01:28:10.280 It's not a question of deserving and not deserving, but what I'm trying to point out is that as

01:28:15.420 sex workers, you are not traditional women. 1.00

01:28:18.320 What I feel like you're saying...

01:28:18.900 If you find that offensive that I don't consider you traditional women, I'm sure you can admit 1.00

01:28:23.280 yourself you're not a traditional woman.

01:28:24.860 Well, you don't even consider me a lady.

01:28:25.220 I just figure you think that I should go, like, beyond the street corner or something.

01:28:29.380 Well, that's not what I said, but you're not...

01:28:30.980 What do we mean by lady?

01:28:32.080 What's a lady? 1.00

01:28:33.020 Yeah, what is a lady? 1.00

01:28:34.060 A lady would be the counterpoint of a gentleman. 1.00

01:28:36.080 Okay.

01:28:36.280 So, basically, just adhering to decorum and traditional gender roles. 1.00

01:28:42.460 Okay, so then...

01:28:43.280 So, by virtue of being a sex worker, and this isn't me trying to attack sex workers, but

01:28:49.020 you are not traditional, ergo, you are not a lady. 0.96

01:28:53.960 Well, you're not a gentleman.

01:28:55.240 You do a podcast.

01:28:55.820 That's fine.

01:28:56.260 That's not traditional.

01:28:57.920 Well, I don't think my specific...

01:29:01.760 Let me ask you this.

01:29:03.060 What job ought a traditional man have, if not podcasting?

01:29:08.100 A business.

01:29:09.260 A business.

01:29:10.240 He's running a business?

01:29:11.060 This is his business.

01:29:11.660 He could provide for a woman and five kids.

01:29:14.160 He's a CEO of whatever.

01:29:15.280 Well, so could I.

01:29:15.920 I could provide for kids, too.

01:29:17.400 And I'm a man.

01:29:17.680 But the metric...

01:29:18.400 I mean, you're...

01:29:22.200 The profession of selling yourself...

01:29:26.620 Either way, a man's paying.

01:29:28.880 What's the difference, then?

01:29:29.780 If a man pays for an escort or pays for dinner?

01:29:32.120 Well, if a man is sleeping with escorts, he's not a gentleman.

01:29:36.780 Yeah, they end up paying somehow.

01:29:38.740 I disagree.

01:29:39.780 I think a man paying for dinner is looking for something more out of a woman other than 1.00

01:29:42.560 just her sweet pussy. 1.00

01:29:44.020 Well, I disagree. 1.00

01:29:44.580 I disagree.

01:29:45.680 Actually, I disagree.

01:29:46.640 I disagree. 1.00

01:29:47.060 Most men are looking just for pussy. 1.00

01:29:47.960 I disagree, because here's why. 0.99

01:29:48.500 Because a guy who is going to pay for a first date, he's trying to do everything to stack

01:29:55.040 the cards in his favor in order for it to get to the finish line.

01:29:58.780 It's competitive.

01:29:59.540 He's being competitive, so he's...

01:30:01.740 But what's that finish line? 0.89

01:30:02.680 Is it necessarily just having sex?

01:30:04.100 I think genuinely most men want to get married, want to have kids, want to have a family.

01:30:08.860 I agree.

01:30:09.480 I think that's what most men want.

01:30:10.960 And you're right.

01:30:11.560 It's very hard right now to do that.

01:30:13.300 Incredibly challenging.

01:30:13.940 Yeah, but I don't think that if you don't want to pay for the first date as a guy, that 1.00

01:30:19.660 that necessarily means you just want the pussy. 1.00

01:30:21.720 But it gives the impression to the girl that you don't like her. 1.00

01:30:25.420 Like, you don't like her.

01:30:26.580 Wait, do you not talk to girls before you take them on a date? 1.00

01:30:30.000 Oh, right.

01:30:30.340 This comes back to your question.

01:30:31.420 Like, okay, how do I actually...

01:30:32.800 How does this actually play out?

01:30:34.220 How does it look?

01:30:35.020 Sister Act.

01:30:35.540 Okay, so, well, first off, no dinner dates.

01:30:39.120 Okay.

01:30:39.400 Never dinner dates.

01:30:40.280 So, it's either meet for, like, a tea or a coffee or something.

01:30:44.560 Or you meet for a drink.

01:30:46.440 I'm not a big drinker, but, you know, occasionally I'll have, like, a glass of wine or a beer.

01:30:49.960 And I'm not really, like...

01:30:52.320 I mean, this has changed throughout the years.

01:30:54.080 But here's the game plan.

01:30:55.720 I'm giving you guys some game.

01:30:57.760 So, first off, you show up early.

01:31:01.040 Or you just show up on time because most of the time the girls are going to be late anyways. 1.00

01:31:04.600 Five, ten minutes late.

01:31:05.660 That's my experience.

01:31:08.020 I'd say 90% of the time the girls are going to be ten minutes late on the first date. 1.00

01:31:12.520 So, if you get there early, you just talk to the...

01:31:14.900 It depends.

01:31:15.520 If it's a sit-down place and they come to you, even if it's for a drink, sometimes there's waiters that will come to you for a drink.

01:31:22.160 You just say, before she's there, you talk to the waiter and you're just like, hey, at the end, just bring two checks.

01:31:27.760 Boom.

01:31:28.560 So, it's not even, like, a thing.

01:31:29.840 So, he puts a check in front of you, puts a check in front of her.

01:31:32.500 You don't even have to say anything.

01:31:34.520 The other thing is if it's, like, at a bar, you go up to the bar.

01:31:37.380 If you get there early, you just pay for your drink up front.

01:31:40.640 And you only have that one drink the entire night.

01:31:43.320 And then when she comes, you're like, oh, hey, I'm holding this table.

01:31:46.440 I already got my drink.

01:31:47.280 Boom.

01:31:47.520 You drink your drink.

01:31:48.580 And then, hey, go to the bar.

01:31:49.980 Get your own drink.

01:31:51.640 So, the goal is, the meta is to preempt...

01:31:54.200 The meta.

01:31:54.820 The goal, yeah.

01:31:55.320 You have to get your world buffs.

01:31:56.640 Get the world buffs.

01:31:57.300 Yep.

01:31:57.960 No, the meta is to kind of, like, preemptively reduce your risk or your investment.

01:32:02.900 Yeah.

01:32:03.220 I mean, basically, just get there a few minutes early.

01:32:05.560 Okay.

01:32:05.920 Play the little game.

01:32:08.200 Tell the waiter you want two separate checks.

01:32:10.440 Boom.

01:32:11.060 Maybe...

01:32:11.460 That way, it's not awkward on the date when you're like, oh, two checks.

01:32:14.240 There's not, like, this confusion.

01:32:15.560 The waiter already knows what to do.

01:32:17.460 You don't have to make a scene about it.

01:32:19.160 Boom.

01:32:19.380 He puts a check here.

01:32:20.160 He puts a check there.

01:32:21.640 Maybe I'm a big-time cuck lord.

01:32:23.040 I don't know.

01:32:23.620 I think with dating, I acknowledge there is a risk.

01:32:26.060 And that risk might be that she's just not going to work out for me.

01:32:29.020 And as the man, that's the burden I'm comfortable to accept.

01:32:31.320 Sure, sure, sure.

01:32:32.200 And, I mean, even that applies to my situation, too.

01:32:35.000 I mean, the other thing you can do is go do something free.

01:32:36.780 Go for a walk.

01:32:37.400 Go to the park.

01:32:38.140 Now, some chicks are not down with that. 1.00

01:32:39.660 Some girls are going to be like, oh, you've got to take me to dinner. 1.00

01:32:42.640 You've got to get me this.

01:32:43.760 Nah, like, if a girl's not down with a free date, if she's not down for a walk on the pier,

01:32:48.720 not down for a walk at the park, she's playing some game.

01:32:53.520 Sure.

01:32:53.960 She wants a free meal or she wants something.

01:32:56.260 So then you've already vetted her.

01:32:57.640 On to the next one.

01:32:58.500 Okay.

01:32:59.000 Right?

01:32:59.920 Yep.

01:33:00.900 Wait, I have a question.

01:33:01.960 What's that?

01:33:02.760 Okay.

01:33:03.100 So can you be, like, a dominant man and not be, like, super traditional?

01:33:07.440 Because I think that's what I like.

01:33:09.260 I like dominant men, but that, like, they don't expect this, like, super, like, covered

01:33:14.520 up, like, none.

01:33:15.820 Same.

01:33:16.380 You know what I mean?

01:33:16.960 Like, they're dominant.

01:33:17.900 Yeah, same.

01:33:18.060 So, like, they're, like, masculine men.

01:33:20.740 They're just not so traditional to the point where they're, like, you need to be completely

01:33:24.560 covered this and that.

01:33:25.940 Or, you know.

01:33:26.780 I like guys that are dominant.

01:33:28.940 Some guys, like, don't, some guys really don't care that, like, that much.

01:33:33.060 Obviously, they're not going to want you to go out.

01:33:34.760 No guy wants you to go out with your titties out or even, like, just in a bikini in general.

01:33:38.900 Like, a man doesn't really want. 0.90

01:33:40.420 That's not true.

01:33:41.240 Well, let me ask you.

01:33:42.680 Because men, a lot of the time, like, men want their woman to themselves.

01:33:46.600 And that's a big part.

01:33:47.560 There are women out there that are, like, confident, masculine men that are, like, my 0.99

01:33:51.300 bitch is fine. 1.00

01:33:52.940 That's why, like, how do you know about, how do you know where all the men's opinions are 0.99

01:33:56.320 coming from?

01:33:56.860 How do you know every man and what they think?

01:33:59.040 I never said every man.

01:34:00.000 I was just most men.

01:34:01.620 Some men don't really, like, so, like, how do you know?

01:34:03.800 I said most men would not, would prefer their girlfriend.

01:34:06.540 How do you know that most men, though?

01:34:07.080 Hold on.

01:34:07.400 Let her finish, please.

01:34:08.120 Go ahead.

01:34:08.680 Most men would prefer their woman to not be showing off their bodies 24-7. 0.88

01:34:16.500 How do you know that?

01:34:18.560 Some guys think it's wrong.

01:34:19.500 Most men.

01:34:20.060 Some guys do.

01:34:20.860 But, like, based on what evidence.

01:34:21.920 Some guys.

01:34:22.600 My friend, she's been married for, like, 15 years.

01:34:24.420 You guys are saying some.

01:34:25.420 We're saying most.

01:34:26.300 And her husband is, like, like, such a study.

01:34:27.360 Can I see this statistic?

01:34:28.520 Yeah.

01:34:28.900 Like, we want evidence.

01:34:30.280 We want proof.

01:34:30.980 Isn't it almost self-evident?

01:34:32.200 What's the percentage?

01:34:32.500 This is your opinion.

01:34:33.560 But, okay, don't you think, don't you think it's, don't you think it's a little self-evident?

01:34:38.060 Like, can you at least, can you at least concede that most men don't want to date a sex worker?

01:34:44.400 No.

01:34:45.080 You think most men, so more than that.

01:34:47.540 150% of men are okay with dating sex workers.

01:34:50.240 I think, like, because I have 150,000 followers, and I know most of them would love to date

01:34:53.940 me.

01:34:54.480 So, that's, like, a lot of people. 1.00

01:34:55.380 They would love to fuck you. 1.00

01:34:56.720 They would also love to date me. 1.00

01:34:57.340 But think about how every single man watches porn and fantasizes about porn stars. 0.56

01:35:01.880 Wait, wait, wait, pause, pause, pause.

01:35:03.360 Go ahead. 0.99

01:35:03.520 If you think most men jerking off to you would want to date you, why is this man cheating 0.99

01:35:08.300 on his wife with you and not dating you instead of breaking up with his wife? 0.99

01:35:11.360 I don't want him to do that.

01:35:12.240 I don't want him to do that.

01:35:12.580 I'm talking to her.

01:35:13.460 I agree with her, though.

01:35:14.480 I wouldn't want that because that would be a lot of responsibility for me, and I don't

01:35:17.820 want to be tied down to any one person.

01:35:19.920 So, then you must acknowledge that these men don't want to date you. 1.00

01:35:22.160 They just want to fuck you or jerk off to you. 1.00

01:35:23.940 I mean, no, because I think a lot of them do want to date me, the way they talk to me 1.00

01:35:27.320 on OnlyFans and how close we get in our relationship.

01:35:29.200 Well, because of the way that you're making them feel, like, a certain way.

01:35:33.100 You're presenting yourself easily, which is why a lot of men hate me.

01:35:34.880 Yeah, but that's not real. 1.00

01:35:35.680 You don't care about them in a way, and all they want you to do is pop your pussy open. 1.00

01:35:38.860 That's not true. 1.00

01:35:39.540 I do care about them.

01:35:40.560 You have no idea how I feel about them.

01:35:42.200 You care about your, um, I care a lot about them.

01:35:45.140 Cook, Kelly.

01:35:45.600 You care about your customers like that?

01:35:47.380 I 100% care.

01:35:49.020 I've had customers pick me up from my house and, like, go on dates with them. 1.00

01:35:52.380 Because they want to fuck you. 1.00

01:35:54.640 Where's the ring? 1.00

01:35:56.060 There's no ring.

01:35:57.060 I'm nice to my friends.

01:35:58.500 Exactly.

01:35:59.180 And that's the goal.

01:36:00.160 That should be the goal.

01:36:01.000 That should be a goal, to get married and have kids. 1.00

01:36:03.080 Why should that be a goal?

01:36:03.580 I have bigger dreams for my life than being a housewife.

01:36:06.980 Let me ask you this. 0.99

01:36:07.680 How many men have you had escort meetings with that you didn't end up fucking? 0.99

01:36:14.880 And then subsequently had a second meetup? 0.97

01:36:18.240 I have.

01:36:19.020 Have you?

01:36:19.520 Yeah. 0.99

01:36:20.220 So you meet up with a man, you don't fuck him, and then you meet up with him again. 0.99

01:36:24.020 Oh, yeah. 0.99

01:36:24.460 He comes back.

01:36:25.140 Yeah, he's hopping in.

01:36:25.920 Really?

01:36:26.320 Yeah.

01:36:26.940 Amazing.

01:36:29.040 I'm sussy. 0.97

01:36:29.760 And I have about sex all the time. 0.98

01:36:31.240 Yeah, and I have... 0.99

01:36:31.800 Sometimes they're, like, their balls bumped on. 0.95

01:36:33.660 So this is... 0.96

01:36:33.680 Because I'm totally... 0.99

01:36:34.760 What the fuck? 0.99

01:36:35.980 I'm totally foreign to this world. 1.00

01:36:37.360 You can, like, have a, you know...

01:36:38.600 People like being around us.

01:36:39.100 Did you just say squish?

01:36:39.980 They're just, like, lonely and they just want to hang out.

01:36:42.820 Haram!

01:36:43.720 Honestly, like, there's, like, dudes that, like, can get women that just like us for us.

01:36:52.360 And it's not always all about sex.

01:36:54.940 And they...

01:36:55.400 And they take you out, spend money on you.

01:36:57.860 And they just want to have dinner and then part ways.

01:36:59.280 Yeah.

01:36:59.500 I think, like, 18 years or something like that.

01:37:03.680 And he's, like...

01:37:04.820 He would be considered, like, a traditional man.

01:37:08.000 And a masculine man.

01:37:09.400 And she does OnlyFans. 0.99

01:37:10.700 And he's...

01:37:11.140 No.

01:37:11.420 There was a slip.

01:37:12.120 I had a nip slip.

01:37:13.860 Yeah, let's just move on.

01:37:15.300 Well, everyone's talking about it.

01:37:16.540 So it's a pretty big deal.

01:37:17.560 What were we talking about?

01:37:19.220 I'm just going to get drunk. 1.00

01:37:22.380 What the fuck? 1.00

01:37:23.560 Bro, can I get a fucking easy show? 1.00

01:37:25.180 Hello? 1.00

01:37:25.720 What the fuck? 1.00

01:37:26.260 Hey, we're just going to keep rolling. 1.00

01:37:27.400 Fuck it. 1.00

01:37:28.200 Anyway, here's... 1.00

01:37:28.820 Here's my concern.

01:37:29.900 I think that if you are...

01:37:31.380 Sorry, didn't on the mic.

01:37:32.580 If you're looking to do sex work for 10 or 15 years

01:37:36.340 and then you're 35

01:37:37.000 and you're looking to get out of it

01:37:38.300 and settle down and find a nice traditional man,

01:37:40.340 I think you're going to find those men are gone.

01:37:42.200 Those men are already married.

01:37:43.480 Those men are already having kids.

01:37:44.600 Those men have already found someone else

01:37:45.780 that didn't kind of dilly-dally.

01:37:48.440 Or now you're competing with all the women 0.99

01:37:49.960 that they are going for now.

01:37:51.560 So they're not looking at you as the prize anymore.

01:37:56.200 Because they can go for you,

01:37:57.520 but you're older now

01:37:58.440 and now you want to try to get married

01:38:00.220 and these men are going to have other options.

01:38:03.740 They're going to have younger options too.

01:38:05.200 So...

01:38:05.600 Thank you.

01:38:07.540 Okay.

01:38:08.600 Yeah.

01:38:10.320 Good job.

01:38:11.120 I don't know.

01:38:13.040 I don't really agree with that

01:38:14.240 because not every man is looking for a girl that's young.

01:38:17.320 You know, there's some guys that are looking for women 0.91

01:38:19.140 in their 30s, 40s, 50s.

01:38:21.020 It's not all about, oh, you have to be 21.

01:38:23.100 Well, I guess what I'm trying to say is

01:38:25.380 I think any traditional, attractive, successful man,

01:38:29.740 any man that you would want, 0.55

01:38:31.020 by the time they're 35, 40,

01:38:33.300 they've already settled down.

01:38:35.200 But what if they got divorced?

01:38:37.200 Then maybe you find a divorced dad.

01:38:39.980 Yeah, totally possible.

01:38:41.360 If you're comfortable with that.

01:38:43.720 Yeah, that probably can happen.

01:38:49.540 What's going on back there?

01:38:51.020 She just killed the fox. 0.97

01:38:52.100 Oh, the fox.

01:38:53.480 The fly was murdered.

01:38:54.140 She killed it. 0.64

01:38:54.500 She got the fly. 0.92

01:38:55.140 It can just stay there.

01:38:56.340 It's whatever.

01:38:57.240 All right.

01:38:58.800 Here, let's get a...

01:38:59.940 Eric, can you pull up Twitch really quick?

01:39:01.920 Let's shout out our Twitch homies. 1.00

01:39:03.000 Okay, yo, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:39:08.500 Drop us a follow in the Prime sub if you have it.

01:39:11.540 Yeah, let's see.

01:39:12.800 Oh, mods, can you spam it in the chat?

01:39:14.480 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:39:16.700 Twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:39:21.400 Go drop us a follow in the Prime sub.

01:39:23.360 Thank you for the bits.

01:39:24.640 Stay safe, base.

01:39:25.660 Thank you for the follow, guys.

01:39:26.460 Appreciate it.

01:39:27.500 Okay, and then we have a couple...

01:39:30.040 Let's see, chats here.

01:39:31.220 We have Feeling Dangerous.

01:39:33.300 Thank you, man.

01:39:37.160 Thank you, man.

01:39:38.060 Some of these women make absolute bank. 1.00

01:39:40.820 Didn't one of them say she makes over a million a year, 0.99

01:39:43.620 but I got to pay on the first date.

01:39:45.580 That is absurd.

01:39:46.800 Love the show, Brian.

01:39:47.800 Can't wait for it to come back in a few weeks.

01:39:51.800 Hey, Feeling Dangerous.

01:39:52.560 Thank you, man.

01:39:55.080 Yo, don't forget my tier four perk.

01:39:57.180 I sent in the IGDM.

01:39:58.380 I'll get to it.

01:39:59.280 You forgot last show.

01:40:00.080 Also, thank you for kicking Bernadine. 0.95

01:40:01.780 I hope she gets divorced. 1.00

01:40:03.500 Bro, come on, bro.

01:40:05.420 That's...

01:40:06.100 She's a good person. 0.97

01:40:08.020 Kick Erica, please. 1.00

01:40:09.320 She's a virgin with childish opinions. 1.00

01:40:12.040 Are you a virgin? 0.99

01:40:13.620 I don't kiss and tell.

01:40:17.380 She don't tell anything.

01:40:19.700 Have you...

01:40:20.920 Okay, you were dating a guy for six months, right?

01:40:23.260 Or in a situation for six months?

01:40:24.760 Yes.

01:40:26.360 Yes.

01:40:27.480 I mean, have you hooked up with a guy before?

01:40:30.460 I don't kiss and tell.

01:40:32.620 Okay.

01:40:33.260 Hold on.

01:40:33.900 I'm not a virgin.

01:40:34.580 It's a part.

01:40:42.340 I'm giving you one opportunity.

01:40:43.820 Like, you've been really evasive this entire show.

01:40:47.080 Like, you've willingly come on a dating podcast, yet you refuse to, like, answer just basic

01:40:53.800 dating questions.

01:40:55.820 I feel some things that are just more personal to people than others.

01:40:59.400 But, like, you've come on a dating podcast.

01:41:01.360 Like, we talk about sex.

01:41:02.500 We talk about relationships. 0.99

01:41:03.500 Like, I don't need you to, like, tell fucking details about, like, I don't need the details 1.00

01:41:10.740 of your sex life. 0.99

01:41:11.560 I'm just asking if, like, have you hooked up with somebody before?

01:41:14.140 I just believe that's personal, and I don't think that I should be forced to show you that.

01:41:17.080 Well, can I ask you this?

01:41:18.100 Before the kick happens, let me ask you this.

01:41:20.480 Is, do you market yourself as a virgin?

01:41:22.780 Is this part of your marketing technique for OnlyFans?

01:41:25.800 Okay, so are you concerned that your OnlyFans customers would have a different opinion

01:41:31.840 if they knew you weren't a virgin?

01:41:35.280 That's not what I'm worried about.

01:41:36.660 It's more so the fact that I just want to show myself in, well, I feel as a representative,

01:41:43.440 like, a person.

01:41:43.780 Like OnlyFans?

01:41:45.160 But you don't know what I do on OnlyFans, so it's like, for you to say.

01:41:48.760 We kind of have a clue here and there, right?

01:41:50.380 Do you think not being a virgin decreases your value or something?

01:41:53.220 Why are you hesitant to say?

01:41:56.600 I just, it's personal to me, and I think that that's okay.

01:42:00.200 And I don't think that there's anything wrong with that.

01:42:02.700 And if somebody, it's the same way as if you thought that it was personal, I asked you

01:42:06.200 a question, I would completely think that's okay with you.

01:42:08.480 Yeah, no, I'm, I think you're totally within your right to not say you are on a dating show,

01:42:12.180 so I think it's kind of expected you would say, to be fair to Brian.

01:42:15.520 But I think if you don't want to say, that's totally fine.

01:42:17.920 Like, there are private things about my life that I wouldn't say in front of 10,000 people.

01:42:21.700 That's fine.

01:42:22.240 Did you just come on here to advertise your OnlyFans then?

01:42:24.920 No.

01:42:25.140 Because what's the point of coming on a dating podcast if you're not going to talk about your dating life?

01:42:29.140 I've never, I, he knew, I messaged him, and I told him that I've never been on a date before.

01:42:33.420 So then why would you, I mean, no, you said you've never been in a long-term relationship.

01:42:36.780 Well, it's the same thing as dating, is it not?

01:42:38.840 You said you were in a situationship for six months, so you have some dating experience. 0.95

01:42:42.060 So you were fucking somebody, and then not, like, what? 0.92

01:42:45.080 Like, that doesn't make sense. 0.98

01:42:46.340 I just don't.

01:42:46.800 How are you in a situationship, and then you've never, like, that doesn't, what are you talking about?

01:42:52.100 No, but that's okay, you were entitled to your own opinions, and that's completely fine,

01:42:55.120 but I just am to mine as well, and I personally don't want to share some things, and that shouldn't be an issue,

01:42:59.600 and that's completely up to you guys.

01:43:01.040 So then what are you going to share?

01:43:02.620 What are you going to share?

01:43:05.020 Well, there's other questions that you can ask based off of, rather than just my body count.

01:43:10.620 We didn't ask you that.

01:43:11.640 You don't need to tell us your body count.

01:43:13.440 Let me ask you this.

01:43:14.200 She didn't even tell us her age.

01:43:15.220 Are you saving yourself for marriage?

01:43:17.740 No.

01:43:18.340 No.

01:43:18.900 So she's not.

01:43:19.360 Okay.

01:43:20.540 So are you just saving yourself for the right person, but you don't need to be married?

01:43:24.160 Yes, and I personally don't want to go past that point because I respectfully, like, I don't want to share,

01:43:30.700 and if you guys want me to leave, I'm more than welcome to leave right now.

01:43:33.620 I just, I'm not comfortable with that, and I think that should be respected,

01:43:37.820 and I would respect you guys if that was the same situation, regardless of who was saying it.

01:43:43.160 And that's just how I personally feel.

01:43:44.780 It's one thing, like, it's just there's been at least three different instances where you're like,

01:43:50.520 I don't want to share that, I don't want to share that, I don't want to share that.

01:43:53.340 You didn't want to share your age, which is pretty bad faith, because, like, who isn't open about sharing their age?

01:44:00.820 Well, and that's the thing is, I just don't want to be belittled by me telling you my age.

01:44:05.200 I don't want you to look at me in a different perspective, and I think that's...

01:44:07.580 Madison over there is 18.

01:44:08.720 I'm 18, and that's okay, but she's entitled to her own opinions, and I'm entitled to mine, right?

01:44:13.520 But I think it makes it really obvious that you're really young if you say something like that.

01:44:16.340 Yeah, for real, that's what I was going to say.

01:44:17.680 We kind of can tell by your age, just by the way.

01:44:19.680 You're trying to be very mysterious, but it's just like, why?

01:44:22.960 I think it is totally within your right as a woman and a person to say, I don't want to share something,

01:44:27.140 but you're on a dating show, right?

01:44:29.240 And so I think that's the frustration.

01:44:30.500 And I think that there's other questions that can be involved when it comes to a dating podcast.

01:44:35.260 It doesn't have to be, like, your sex life or love life or age or...

01:44:40.180 Well, love life is different.

01:44:42.080 Sex life is different, two different things.

01:44:44.500 You know what I'm saying?

01:44:46.100 So it's like, personally, that's just my preference.

01:44:49.540 I'll save it for later.

01:44:51.760 I mean, you're right insofar as, like, you don't have to answer that question, but it's just...

01:44:58.180 If you're just not comfortable answering, that's fine, but I'm trying to loop you into the conversation here.

01:45:07.980 I'm trying to loop you into the conversation, and you're just not making it easy.

01:45:10.800 If I look at it this way, and it's a lose-lose situation, personally.

01:45:14.880 What's lose-lose?

01:45:15.820 If I were to say it, right, and coming from somebody who's done social media for a long time, personally, I've done TikTok for a very long time, if I were to...

01:45:24.660 I understand this is a very different platform, and I completely get that it can have different perspectives, but I've watched your podcast before I came on here.

01:45:32.120 I just learned about it yesterday, watched a few different videos, and I saw some girls say a number and say it was low, and you guys still considered it high.

01:45:41.860 I would be judged here if it was low, but if it's online, now I'm being judged in a different perspective from other people.

01:45:50.460 You know what I'm saying?

01:45:51.540 So it's like, I'm being judged no matter what I'm saying.

01:45:53.220 I didn't ask for your body count.

01:45:54.540 I didn't ask for your body count.

01:45:55.580 I just, like, if I were to ask some sex-related question, like, you know, if we started talking about, like, you know, favorite position, would you just omit answering that question?

01:46:09.600 Yeah, she would.

01:46:13.280 What's your favorite sexual...

01:46:14.520 Like, that's a fun, light-hearted question to ask on a dating podcast.

01:46:18.200 What's your favorite position?

01:46:20.160 I've just, honestly, I've just...

01:46:22.600 When it comes to the bed questions, like, being in bed...

01:46:26.320 No, I'm seriously...

01:46:27.020 I've...

01:46:27.380 Sorry, I've had some very traumatic experiences myself, so...

01:46:30.080 What's a pile driver?

01:46:31.080 I shouldn't have to share the bed questions.

01:46:33.340 You know what I'm saying?

01:46:33.920 But when it comes to going on a date and having those conversations of, like...

01:46:38.040 You know what I'm saying?

01:46:39.320 Like, I was more than willing to answer, and I did respond to those, so it's like...

01:46:45.920 Isn't it kind of silly that you would answer that question, but you can't answer your age?

01:46:52.100 You have your own opinion, and I have mine, and that's okay.

01:46:55.040 And I completely respect it, and I'm open to understanding other people's perspectives, and I'm not against it.

01:46:59.520 And that's just the way that I view things.

01:47:03.280 And if that makes other people uncomfortable, then I can leave.

01:47:06.500 I have no issue with that.

01:47:08.020 You're over 18, correct?

01:47:09.720 Yes.

01:47:10.140 Okay.

01:47:11.140 All right.

01:47:12.700 I'll let...

01:47:13.260 I'm going to let it slide, but...

01:47:15.180 Okay.

01:47:15.760 We have Ripley Glass here.

01:47:21.020 Don't forget my Tier 4 perk.

01:47:22.260 Oh, did I read this one already?

01:47:23.620 Yeah, I did.

01:47:24.240 My bad.

01:47:24.620 My bad.

01:47:25.260 Hold on.

01:47:25.780 Let me skip that.

01:47:27.840 Okay.

01:47:28.200 We have...

01:47:30.560 Hold on, guys.

01:47:31.680 I'm triggering this.

01:47:34.140 I are...

01:47:36.440 None of you 304s are ever getting married. 1.00

01:47:38.540 How many dudes have come in or on you, and then your partner touched, kissed, effed you?

01:47:44.120 What?

01:47:44.800 How many dudes have came in?

01:47:46.420 Bro.

01:47:47.080 Okay.

01:47:47.700 You guys don't have to answer that.

01:47:48.920 Guys, come on.

01:47:49.560 At least keep it semi-decent and respectful.

01:47:53.480 Jesus Christ. 1.00

01:47:54.560 What a fucking shit show of a stream. 1.00

01:47:56.980 All right. 1.00

01:47:58.160 We have Davon Jackson.

01:48:00.200 Thank you, man, for the rescue here with this message.

01:48:02.380 Hold on.

01:48:02.660 Let me see if I... 1.00

01:48:05.620 What the fuck? 0.99

01:48:08.180 It's not getting... 1.00

01:48:08.760 Oh.

01:48:09.360 None of you...

01:48:09.880 Wait. 1.00

01:48:10.340 What the fuck, bro? 1.00

01:48:11.980 Shit. 1.00

01:48:13.180 You're going to hammer that one home, huh? 1.00

01:48:14.840 Yeah.

01:48:15.860 Hold on.

01:48:16.400 Let me skip.

01:48:17.820 I think it's because I clicked it twice.

01:48:19.340 Okay.

01:48:19.560 Here we go.

01:48:22.080 Davon Jackson.

01:48:22.840 Hello?

01:48:23.140 Why isn't it triggering?

01:48:23.840 There we...

01:48:24.520 What the frick, bro? 0.87

01:48:25.560 Okay, dude. 0.95

01:48:27.260 I don't know.

01:48:28.020 Hold on.

01:48:28.440 It's going to...

01:48:28.960 It's...

01:48:30.960 Davon?

01:48:33.100 I don't know why it's not triggering, Davon.

01:48:36.200 Here, I'll get some regular soup chats.

01:48:37.640 I'll come to your...

01:48:38.080 I'll come back to yours, Davon.

01:48:40.240 What's up?

01:48:40.900 Just pop up.

01:48:41.820 Oh, there we go.

01:48:42.600 These women are wholeheartedly arguing for why they think it's okay that they are getting 1.00

01:48:46.400 busted open on Twitter.

01:48:47.980 And I should accept that as a man and spend thousands on her so I can get the same BJ the

01:48:51.880 BBC on the bird app got.

01:48:53.240 Get real.

01:48:54.180 Oh, great.

01:48:54.440 Now it's going to pop up like a billion times.

01:48:56.800 Thank you, Davon Jackson.

01:48:57.880 Good to see you in the chat, man.

01:49:00.720 Okay.

01:49:01.160 We have...

01:49:02.180 Hold on.

01:49:02.740 Let me see what I have here.

01:49:06.080 What's the bird app?

01:49:07.520 Twitter.

01:49:08.260 Yeah.

01:49:09.940 How long has she been gone in the bathroom?

01:49:11.820 Can we pull a super chat up?

01:49:26.520 Yeah, pull a super chat up for me.

01:49:28.500 I'll read it.

01:49:33.920 The 304 one. 0.98

01:49:35.320 I'll ask a question.

01:49:35.940 I went to the corn convention.

01:49:37.600 There's one.

01:49:39.040 Would you guys consider yourselves an alpha female?

01:49:42.500 No.

01:49:43.200 No?

01:49:43.920 I'm submissive.

01:49:45.280 I don't like that word.

01:49:46.800 I'm going to switch.

01:49:47.600 How many times is that going to trigger? 1.00

01:49:49.080 Holy shit. 1.00

01:49:50.460 What's an alpha female? 1.00

01:49:52.060 Well, I was going to ask you what you think an alpha female is. 1.00

01:49:55.180 I don't know.

01:49:55.660 It sounds manly.

01:49:57.720 It does.

01:49:59.560 What sounds manly about it?

01:50:00.800 Alpha?

01:50:01.320 Yeah.

01:50:02.140 Alpha just means...

01:50:03.420 That's not really manly.

01:50:06.420 Because there's an alpha male, there's an alpha female.

01:50:09.000 Oh, okay.

01:50:09.440 No, I wouldn't consider myself one.

01:50:11.820 Would you date...

01:50:13.200 You're the one that said you made like a million dollars a year, right?

01:50:15.700 Mm-hmm.

01:50:16.100 I have before.

01:50:17.220 Okay.

01:50:17.860 Meth check.

01:50:20.360 Okay.

01:50:20.820 Would you date a man that made one-tenth as much as you?

01:50:25.240 Is that a problem for you, the finances?

01:50:26.740 No.

01:50:27.540 You would not date him or...

01:50:29.500 No, it's not a problem.

01:50:30.240 Oh, not a problem.

01:50:30.760 As long as he's like a go-getter and loves what he does and he can handle business, then I'm

01:50:36.640 cool with it.

01:50:37.080 I mean, what if he loved what he did, he was passionate about it, but it made him like $35,000

01:50:41.460 a year?

01:50:42.980 But usually people that love what they do and they're passionate about it, they make good

01:50:48.540 money because they're passionate.

01:50:50.860 And people that are passionate do well, usually.

01:50:54.100 I don't know.

01:50:54.460 What if he's like an ice cream car driver and he sells ice cream and he makes $35,000 a

01:50:58.880 year and he loves it?

01:50:59.540 Then he doesn't have the type of drive that I like in a guy.

01:51:02.820 Okay.

01:51:03.120 So you're saying the drive you like would necessarily mean he's making a lot of money, but it's not

01:51:08.660 about the money, it's about the drive that got him there.

01:51:10.700 Like I would, I would be with, I don't mind dating like a guy who's like a plumber.

01:51:15.380 Okay.

01:51:15.720 If he like, you know, has a plumber business and like likes doing it because like it's

01:51:19.840 a family business.

01:51:20.720 Like I'm cool with that.

01:51:22.000 Okay.

01:51:22.960 Yeah.

01:51:23.120 All right.

01:51:23.300 Let me get some super chats here.

01:51:24.400 We have a Puffy Vegas.

01:51:25.600 Hey, thank you, man.

01:51:26.260 I went to the corn convention.

01:51:27.600 I met 22 entertainers and put them on my IG.

01:51:29.980 Will any of the girls be at the convention next year?

01:51:32.260 Will any be there next?

01:51:36.680 This is Avian or something.

01:51:37.960 Thank you, man.

01:51:38.360 Thank you, Puffy.

01:51:38.920 Good to see you back in the chat.

01:51:40.560 Mike Davis, thank you.

01:51:41.520 You redirected the convo way too quick.

01:51:43.080 Let's talk about how you got to level up.

01:51:45.140 Plus, I've heard my name spoken with disrespect, simp, et cetera.

01:51:48.680 Listen, you scrubs.

01:51:49.780 I've never sent a dollar or DM to any of these hoes. 1.00

01:51:52.480 I prob them up to fuck with their heads, prop them up to fuck their heads only to leave 1.00

01:51:57.240 them to free fall. 1.00

01:51:57.860 Okay.

01:51:58.340 Thank you, Mike Davis.

01:51:59.060 For you.

01:52:05.080 Really?

01:52:05.440 I don't know.

01:52:10.280 Okay.

01:52:11.160 We have, let's see here.

01:52:16.620 Oh, sorry.

01:52:17.120 Let me pull that one back up.

01:52:21.380 One sec, guys.

01:52:22.780 Yo, stay safe.

01:52:23.380 Can you tell us more about your gum product?

01:52:24.760 I'm a gamer and deficient in vitamin D.

01:52:26.680 Maybe this product could help.

01:52:27.820 I hate having the main...

01:52:29.180 All right.

01:52:29.620 The sponsor plug.

01:52:30.980 Okay.

01:52:31.220 Caffeine drinks and the sharp drop-off you get from other caffeine products.

01:52:34.240 Any promo codes I could use?

01:52:35.940 Hey, listen. 0.98

01:52:36.520 Many such cases, all the caffeine products suck. 0.94

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01:52:42.660 And promo code hardcore, 10% off.

01:52:44.580 There you go.

01:52:45.460 Power-gum.com.

01:52:47.000 Okay.

01:52:47.540 Rock and roll.

01:52:48.760 We had a chat from before.

01:52:51.460 He asked everyone to rate themselves on a scale of 1 to 10.

01:52:56.440 So do you guys want to rate yourselves on a scale of 1 to 10?

01:53:02.960 Go ahead.

01:53:06.560 Six.

01:53:08.400 I'd say six as well.

01:53:09.620 Eric, just a heads up.

01:53:11.680 Just a reminder what we talked about.

01:53:13.400 If there's any plants, I need you to go to Sony cam, okay?

01:53:18.120 That's eight.

01:53:19.000 I believe that's...

01:53:19.700 Do you know what number that is?

01:53:21.780 I know the number eight.

01:53:22.620 Okay.

01:53:23.120 Just...

01:53:23.440 Well, just...

01:53:24.380 Is that eight on the...

01:53:25.720 Yeah.

01:53:26.160 Okay.

01:53:26.780 Just be caught... 0.99

01:53:27.880 Be wary if there's any other fuckery. 0.96

01:53:31.200 Like, if you see it coming, just... 0.83

01:53:33.420 I need you to...

01:53:35.180 Yeah.

01:53:36.760 Okay.

01:53:37.160 So we have...

01:53:39.800 Let's see.

01:53:42.420 Blah, blah, blah.

01:53:43.640 Let's see.

01:53:45.380 I think that was it.

01:53:47.140 Yeah.

01:53:47.360 I think we're good there.

01:53:48.300 Okay.

01:53:48.540 What was I going to touch on?

01:53:51.880 Sorry, guys.

01:53:53.200 A little...

01:53:53.680 A couple things going on behind the scenes here.

01:53:55.420 So hold on.

01:53:59.480 Save them later.

01:54:03.880 Should we keep going around the table for that question?

01:54:06.180 What was the question?

01:54:07.060 Rate yourselves 1 to 10.

01:54:08.060 Rate out of 10.

01:54:09.040 Oh, yeah, yeah.

01:54:10.000 Sorry.

01:54:10.700 Let's just start again.

01:54:12.420 On a scale of 1 to 10,

01:54:13.560 what do you rate your looks on a scale of 1 to 10?

01:54:15.400 Go ahead.

01:54:15.660 Like a 5 or a 6.

01:54:19.820 I'd say 6 because I feel as if I'm above average,

01:54:22.660 but there's more that I could do to make myself better.

01:54:26.880 6.

01:54:28.600 I would say like a 4 because I have a big forehead.

01:54:33.340 I would say 7.

01:54:36.600 8.

01:54:37.740 8.

01:54:39.940 I guess the guys we can answer to.

01:54:41.880 10 to my wife.

01:54:43.200 That's all that matters.

01:54:43.980 I'm emancipated.

01:54:45.360 It doesn't matter what anyone thinks.

01:54:46.800 Okay.

01:54:47.300 Yeah, I give myself a 6.

01:54:48.920 6.9 on a good day.

01:54:51.020 Okay.

01:54:51.960 You'd be a 10 if you had a wife. 0.99

01:54:53.620 Think about it.

01:54:56.440 Well, okay.

01:54:57.240 So, sure.

01:54:58.520 We'll talk about that.

01:54:59.400 Marriage, right?

01:55:03.340 You said you wanted to convince me to...

01:55:05.820 Yep.

01:55:06.380 That's why I'm here.

01:55:07.040 To get married.

01:55:07.540 That's my sole purpose.

01:55:08.200 That's why he's here,

01:55:08.860 is to convince me that I should get married.

01:55:10.480 Yep.

01:55:11.340 Do you want to get married?

01:55:12.600 He doesn't.

01:55:13.460 I don't.

01:55:13.740 You don't want to?

01:55:14.600 No.

01:55:15.200 Okay, why don't you want to get married? 1.00

01:55:17.740 It's a loss for men.

01:55:19.000 It's bad for men.

01:55:20.260 What does that mean?

01:55:24.960 Divorce, financial repercussions,

01:55:27.560 alimony, lawyers, estates involved.

01:55:31.820 What if you found a girl that you really loved

01:55:33.860 and she wanted to get married?

01:55:35.140 Isn't that how most people feel about their partner

01:55:38.160 before they get married?

01:55:38.900 Yeah, but are you just going to, like, date forever?

01:55:42.620 Why?

01:55:43.080 I don't understand this idea, like,

01:55:44.960 okay, if you don't want to get married,

01:55:46.800 then that means you just want to be a player

01:55:48.220 the rest of your life.

01:55:49.460 I didn't say you were going to be a player.

01:55:50.880 I said you want to just date forever.

01:55:52.700 Like, date the same girl.

01:55:53.660 I could be in a long-term relationship,

01:55:56.160 but I don't need to get married.

01:55:57.460 Okay.

01:55:58.120 Let me give you this.

01:55:59.120 Yeah.

01:55:59.440 I heard, yes, a couple days ago on the podcast,

01:56:03.040 I think a guest said that the national divorce rate

01:56:05.420 is 55%.

01:56:06.240 I think in reality that national average is 45 to 50,

01:56:11.080 but that number is super heavily stat padded

01:56:14.020 by people that are getting divorced multiple times.

01:56:16.700 These are people that get divorced two, three,

01:56:18.000 four, five, six times.

01:56:19.200 They are kind of clogging up the numbers.

01:56:21.680 The real number you want to look at

01:56:22.980 is the rate of first-time marriage divorce.

01:56:25.100 Okay?

01:56:25.400 So you've never been married.

01:56:27.080 Your wife has never been married.

01:56:28.400 What is that divorce rate? 0.99

01:56:29.860 Okay?

01:56:30.280 That's 35%.

01:56:31.460 So now we're talking, like, one-third

01:56:33.880 rather than over one-half.

01:56:34.880 We've already bumped that number down a ton.

01:56:36.520 Beyond that, you can break it down demographically.

01:56:39.520 You're a white man.

01:56:40.480 If you married a white woman, 0.75

01:56:42.440 that first-time marriage divorce rate

01:56:43.980 for two white people marrying in the country

01:56:45.360 is around 13%.

01:56:46.900 Oh, wow.

01:56:48.040 It's nowhere near as high as 55%.

01:56:50.340 And I focus on the demographic

01:56:52.120 because that's you and that's me

01:56:53.040 and my wife is white. 0.99

01:56:54.220 Neither of us married before.

01:56:55.240 You said it's 35% for first-time marriages

01:56:57.500 for white people?

01:56:59.360 For white, white, 13%. 0.52

01:57:01.500 Yeah.

01:57:02.340 Wait, 13% divorce rate?

01:57:05.140 13% first-time marriage divorce rate

01:57:06.880 is 13% for white man, white woman, 0.77

01:57:09.660 given they've never been married before.

01:57:11.720 Okay?

01:57:13.180 Really? 0.71

01:57:13.600 If you marry a white woman 0.88

01:57:14.660 and she's being married for the first time,

01:57:16.720 your divorce rate's only 13%. 0.98

01:57:18.240 That's still pretty fucking terrible, 0.98

01:57:20.480 not gonna lie. 0.97

01:57:20.880 That is not terrible. 1.00

01:57:21.800 13% is dog shit. 1.00

01:57:23.380 Well, listen. 1.00

01:57:24.600 13% drop rate?

01:57:25.980 Like, hello?

01:57:26.980 Listen, if I go to Vegas

01:57:28.260 and I'm betting

01:57:29.820 all the benefits of marriage,

01:57:32.100 the downsides of divorce,

01:57:33.200 we can talk about those in a minute,

01:57:34.600 and the odds are 13% to, what, 87%.

01:57:37.440 I put all my money on the 87%.

01:57:39.220 You mentioned alimony.

01:57:40.600 10% of divorces result in alimony.

01:57:42.880 So, if you've got a 13% divorce rate,

01:57:44.880 white man marrying white woman,

01:57:47.420 13% divorce rate,

01:57:48.580 you're alimony.

01:57:49.020 What do you,

01:57:49.340 I'm not a statistician,

01:57:50.360 it's like a 1.3% alimony role

01:57:53.720 if you're getting married,

01:57:55.720 on that marriage, right?

01:57:56.780 Mm-hmm.

01:57:58.060 It's not as bad as people think it is.

01:58:00.500 I think there's been a lot of

01:58:01.600 anti-natalist, anti-marriage propaganda.

01:58:04.820 It's not as bad as people think it is.

01:58:08.760 It really is not.

01:58:10.460 Who lives their lives by statistics?

01:58:12.880 I would have to see the stats on that, but...

01:58:16.020 I do.

01:58:18.260 Probably a lot of people should, yeah.

01:58:21.580 I've done the maths.

01:58:23.480 I've done the maths.

01:58:24.620 I don't know.

01:58:25.060 It's just, I don't...

01:58:27.520 I want to see the stats you're citing, but...

01:58:30.800 So, if it doesn't work out for other people,

01:58:32.660 you just don't do it

01:58:33.540 because it's like, oh, it didn't work, like...

01:58:35.440 Well, then I ask him, okay, so it's...

01:58:37.420 Let's say it was 50%.

01:58:39.180 Let's say the divorce in the country was 50%.

01:58:41.800 Sure, sure.

01:58:42.120 First-time marriage, whatever.

01:58:43.780 Are you, as a man, you're a smart guy,

01:58:46.260 are you better at vetting a partner

01:58:47.580 than... 1.00

01:58:48.940 Think of all the morons in the country. 1.00

01:58:50.540 Are you better at vetting a partner, 1.00

01:58:51.740 a life partner,

01:58:52.860 than most other people?

01:58:54.160 I look at you and I'd say, yeah, probably.

01:58:56.940 Just because it's...

01:58:57.620 To her point,

01:58:58.260 just because it's national average 50

01:58:59.680 does not mean you are 50. 1.00

01:59:01.640 There's a lot of dumb people in the country 1.00

01:59:03.040 that are reckless, impulsive. 1.00

01:59:04.620 They go to Vegas, they get married.

01:59:06.120 It's a fact. 0.99

01:59:06.820 You're not a dumb guy. 0.98

01:59:08.440 Yeah, why can't you think so? 0.97

01:59:09.480 I agree with that.

01:59:10.260 Flattery is not going to get me married,

01:59:11.860 but, yeah.

01:59:13.940 Listen, you have a lot of women here 1.00

01:59:15.860 that you could get married.

01:59:16.560 Think, you could start a relationship

01:59:17.680 and you could get married

01:59:18.380 and be happy today, right now.

01:59:19.540 Maybe you're looking at your future wife

01:59:20.660 at this moment.

01:59:21.720 I highly doubt that.

01:59:23.140 It could happen.

01:59:23.640 I highly doubt.

01:59:25.180 Well, I mean,

01:59:27.400 there's like four of the girls here 1.00

01:59:28.780 are in a relationship.

01:59:29.660 No, no, no, no, no, no.

01:59:30.960 You need a traditional girl. 1.00

01:59:32.400 You see Kiki over there?

01:59:33.800 That's my wife. 1.00

01:59:34.960 Do you want to have kids?

01:59:35.880 I've not slept with her, but...

01:59:37.000 Do you want to have kids?

01:59:38.180 That's so sad.

01:59:40.660 Yes.

01:59:41.940 With...

01:59:42.340 But...

01:59:43.140 It has to be the right person.

01:59:44.340 Do you want a baby mama? 1.00

01:59:47.000 A baby mama? 0.97

01:59:48.980 Like a...

01:59:49.280 You don't want a wife? 1.00

01:59:50.040 Like who's...

01:59:50.540 She's... 1.00

01:59:51.640 I mean, it's...

01:59:53.300 You're putting like a label on it.

01:59:56.020 Isn't baby mama reserved

01:59:57.380 for like you're not involved with her?

01:59:59.940 No.

02:00:00.360 Well, I mean...

02:00:01.800 It's not your wife. 1.00

02:00:03.600 But it's your mama. 1.00

02:00:05.140 Hold on just a sec, guys.

02:00:06.480 Bats underscore X donated $199.

02:00:10.480 Eh.

02:00:11.020 Bricks and great job controlling the show today.

02:00:14.480 If adult content became outlawed in the US tomorrow, 0.95

02:00:17.560 how would any of survive besides being a parasite with a V? 0.97

02:00:20.840 The lifestyle you perpetuate is toxic and just overall terrible for young women. 1.00

02:00:26.840 Send the deluge. 0.98

02:00:28.220 You sound like you're very full of hate.

02:00:30.360 The deluge?

02:00:36.500 Is that the deluge?

02:00:37.840 I don't know.

02:00:38.660 Victor, thank you, man.

02:00:39.880 Appreciate it.

02:00:41.480 I don't know if I've controlled it as well as I would have liked,

02:00:44.420 but thank you, man.

02:00:46.860 Do you guys have a response to Victor? 0.98

02:00:48.460 Victor, he's talking mad shit about you guys. 0.98

02:00:52.100 Why would it be outlawed tomorrow? 1.00

02:00:54.680 You have some weird...

02:00:55.460 I'd probably be...

02:00:56.300 Oh, sorry.

02:00:56.780 Go ahead.

02:00:57.520 There's some weird hatred going on.

02:00:59.060 Yeah, it's very intense feelings.

02:01:01.620 But we like that you're feeling things about us.

02:01:04.040 We like any energy directed at us.

02:01:05.960 We love attention, so...

02:01:07.300 Do you guys think that pornographic content is good for society or bad for society?

02:01:13.820 I think it's a double-edged sword.

02:01:15.640 Either they're getting out their urges through porn and someone who's consenting, 0.99

02:01:21.300 or it's encouraging fucked-up urges. 0.99

02:01:26.200 It's a double-edged sword. 0.99

02:01:27.740 I would be kind of fucked up, though, if there's an apocalypse, because I have a podcast. 0.98

02:01:33.620 I feel like that's not going to be top-tier fucking survival skills, you know? 0.99

02:01:38.400 You need to make a homestead and build a bunker. 0.98

02:01:43.200 That's the dream.

02:01:44.100 I'm down. 0.99

02:01:44.660 I'm fucking going to do it. 0.94

02:01:46.000 Okay, yeah, we'll do it together. 0.98

02:01:46.980 When, when, can we be like a, I used to be in, I don't know if, well, like a survival group.

02:01:54.760 Same. 0.99

02:01:55.260 Like when shit hits the fan, when shit hits the fan, you need like, okay, we're going to meet here, 1.00

02:01:59.620 we're going to do this, boom, boom, boom, here's the plan. 1.00

02:02:01.840 But you're in Arizona, no, no, no, you're in Washington, excuse me, excuse me, yeah.

02:02:06.340 We are so, like, we're both sitting here wearing flannel talking about doomsday prepping.

02:02:09.800 This is the most stereotypical thing in the world.

02:02:12.180 I need a flannel, like, aviator hand or something.

02:02:14.580 Have you, have you seen The Last of Us on HBO?

02:02:18.540 No, I haven't.

02:02:19.560 There's like, one of the episodes, there's a, like, guy who prepped before the zombie apocalypse. 0.78

02:02:25.940 He ends up being gay, so. 0.98

02:02:30.340 All right. 0.94

02:02:31.220 Yeah, okay.

02:02:32.300 Then what happened?

02:02:33.960 And then they survive for.

02:02:36.720 Nice.

02:02:37.120 They grow old and they die.

02:02:38.940 That's good. 0.99

02:02:39.760 As a gay couple. 0.91

02:02:41.380 Oh, you got a boyfriend in the zombie apocalypse. 0.84

02:02:43.960 Yep.

02:02:44.580 Okay.

02:02:46.220 Thank you for the, whatever that was, where was it?

02:02:50.060 Oh, Victor, thank you, man, appreciate it.

02:02:51.960 We were talking about marriage.

02:02:53.900 You were asking me what, I'm trying to remember, the stats.

02:02:58.580 Yeah, we got the stats out of the way.

02:03:00.120 Oh, yeah, do you want kids?

02:03:01.180 Oh, kids.

02:03:02.380 Yeah, I think that's where we left off.

02:03:03.740 Um, is that for us?

02:03:10.120 That'd be interesting.

02:03:13.260 I don't think so.

02:03:14.500 Um, sorry, guys, there's like a siren outside.

02:03:16.560 Uh, yeah, I do, I do want kids, but I'm like a little slightly on the fence, but yeah, I do, I do want kids.

02:03:28.440 Would you have kids, um, whilst unmarried?

02:03:31.620 Yes.

02:03:32.280 You absolutely would?

02:03:33.180 Sure.

02:03:34.600 Okay.

02:03:35.200 Um, do you think that that would negatively impact the kids in any way?

02:03:38.880 No.

02:03:39.700 You don't think so?

02:03:40.680 No.

02:03:40.960 I mean, what, what, I guess, what changes?

02:03:46.040 I think that, I think having that foundational lifelong oath with your partner, knowing that you will not break that, right?

02:03:54.260 Making, swearing that oath is a very, very big piece of the relationship.

02:03:58.560 Knowing that failure is not an option.

02:04:01.660 But it is, because people get divorced all the time. 0.75

02:04:04.240 Not to you, it can't be.

02:04:05.420 Huh?

02:04:06.400 I'm saying for you, failure cannot be an option.

02:04:08.620 If you want to be a good parent, failure cannot be an option.

02:04:10.620 You need to not let that marriage fail.

02:04:11.680 No, but I mean, like, but I mean, people get divorced and it's not in your control.

02:04:18.320 I think what is happening right now in society, I think a lot of people are getting married a little bit too flippantly.

02:04:24.140 I think there's not enough emphasis on finding and vetting that proper partner, and as a result, people are marrying too recklessly, and they're marrying bad partners.

02:04:31.680 And also, I think people, it's easy to point the finger at, you know, modern women and say you're not living up to your, you know, traditional feminine role.

02:04:39.460 Men are down bad too.

02:04:41.420 How many men are truly traditional and good partners? 1.00

02:04:45.180 I look at men, I see a bunch of fat, fat porn addicted addicts. 1.00

02:04:49.820 They're addicted to alcohol, drug. 1.00

02:04:51.440 They're like, men are down bad also.

02:04:53.280 How can, how can you blame, I'm going to simp for a minute. 0.98

02:04:55.400 How can you blame these women for transgressing from traditional femininity when so many of their potential suitors, these men, are absolute losers? 1.00

02:05:05.340 They're fat, they're addicted, they're jerking off to hardcore pornography all day. 0.99

02:05:09.480 If you think the role of a man, a traditional man, is to lead and set the pace and build society and maintain what it is, we have failed, men have failed. 1.00

02:05:16.900 Men have failed, men are done bad.

02:05:18.260 And as such, the women have, have, have changed also. 0.97

02:05:23.100 I think, I think first it's a failure of men.

02:05:25.120 And so, I think we need to fix that.

02:05:29.240 And I think that starts with men.

02:05:32.020 It starts, it starts with the patriarchs. 0.93

02:05:34.020 If you think that women are so propagandized by liberal college professors and are fucked up modern society, then you've, then you've accepted the premise that propaganda can work and that their minds can be distorted. 0.97

02:05:44.120 Then, propagandize them back, then fix them. 0.97

02:05:47.660 As the man, then fix them, then help them.

02:05:50.960 But first, I think you need to fix yourself.

02:05:52.620 And I'm not, I'm not talking to you specifically, but I'm talking men in general.

02:05:55.720 Men need to fix themselves as well. 1.00

02:05:57.640 It's not, the problem is not just solely women. 1.00

02:06:00.280 Yeah, you're so right.

02:06:00.860 Right, exactly.

02:06:02.460 Agreed.

02:06:02.820 I mean, I think responsibility, both people have responsibility.

02:06:10.700 Both men and women have responsibility in this.

02:06:13.760 And idealistically, yes, I think there should, there ought to be a return to tradition, a return to modesty.

02:06:22.440 But I feel like the cat is kind of out of the bag.

02:06:26.120 I don't think there's, I don't think it's, we're going back.

02:06:30.180 Let me tell you something.

02:06:30.760 So, so we have, so, so because I don't think we can have a return to tradition, I think.

02:06:36.500 Bats underscore X donated $199.

02:06:40.640 Meth head mama girl, you only like attention and energy from simps. 1.00

02:06:45.500 Because the energy you got from actual men made you cry in the bathroom for the last 20 minutes.

02:06:50.960 Weak men have allowed this behavior too long and will create hard times.

02:06:55.100 Thus, the cycle goes on.

02:06:58.080 You have a response to Victor?

02:07:00.760 I wasn't listening.

02:07:04.160 What?

02:07:05.100 I tuned it out.

02:07:07.220 Sorry, Victor.

02:07:08.120 She tuned it out.

02:07:09.180 Here, I'll repeat it.

02:07:10.060 I'll repeat it though.

02:07:11.560 He says, meth head mama girl, you only like attention and energy from simps. 1.00

02:07:17.620 No response.

02:07:18.380 No comment.

02:07:21.560 No comment.

02:07:22.320 Okay.

02:07:22.900 Sorry, Victor.

02:07:23.480 No comment.

02:07:24.520 Okay.

02:07:25.540 So bringing it back to the discussion on, on marriage, the cat's out of the bag.

02:07:32.980 So because of that, because women move differently, men have to adapt. 0.98

02:07:39.520 I don't think men have changed all that much.

02:07:45.300 I think it's women who have changed. 1.00

02:07:46.740 I think men have deteriorated quite a bit. 1.00

02:07:48.980 I think men have facilitated the change in women as well.

02:07:51.100 I'm not saying men haven't changed, but okay.

02:07:57.340 You have the sexual revolution in the 1960s.

02:08:00.160 You have the, you have hormonal birth control.

02:08:04.200 Okay.

02:08:04.660 So you have the sexual revolution and look, women, I, I believe that women control access 1.00

02:08:11.440 to sex.

02:08:12.260 No doubt. 0.98

02:08:13.380 So if we want to see a return to traditional values, since women are the gatekeepers of sex, 1.00

02:08:20.140 they determine when sex happens. 0.99

02:08:21.820 So if this, if, if the threshold is marriage and then I'll have sex with you, that would 0.89

02:08:29.440 be the threshold. 0.99

02:08:30.440 Men have always been like trying to sleep with women. 0.99

02:08:34.660 Now you could argue like, okay, well in like strict Christian societies, chastity has been 0.93

02:08:40.480 valued in both men and women, but.

02:08:44.140 Let me, let me float an idea.

02:08:45.360 There's a very cool book.

02:08:46.200 It's called Men Amongst the Ruins.

02:08:47.500 And the sort of key principle is if society is irredeemably messed up right now, if things

02:08:54.120 need to get way worse before they get better, if society is destined to crumble and crumble

02:09:00.000 down and become a rubble, ruinous rubble, would you not want to be one of those beacons of

02:09:08.720 traditional, traditional masculinity standing amongst those ruins to help fix society after 0.85

02:09:14.160 it's crumbled with, with you and your trad wife and you and your trad family? 0.94

02:09:18.700 I think that's a noble goal.

02:09:19.620 You can say, listen, it's a very bad environment right now, but I need to persevere still.

02:09:23.740 Well, sure.

02:09:24.620 Well, the thing is, is I don't know if I'm like perfectly a trad guy.

02:09:29.780 I think there are some things about me that are traditional.

02:09:33.260 However, I'm not, I'm not a perfectly trad conservative guy.

02:09:38.620 I'm not really, I can serve myself kind of politically moderate, but.

02:09:41.640 Yeah.

02:09:41.740 Um, so yeah, I mean, look, I, I just, just to kind of bring it back to divorce, though.

02:09:49.660 I mean, I look alimony payments, child support.

02:09:54.480 It's just not, it's not a good move.

02:09:59.380 Well, okay.

02:09:59.960 We could talk about those individually.

02:10:01.400 Like I said, 10% of divorces end up in, with alimony payments. 0.89

02:10:04.740 Now I'm going to give a very, very unpopular take here.

02:10:08.780 I think sometimes alimony payments are totally warranted.

02:10:10.740 Um, I'll give you my personal example.

02:10:12.640 Uh, my wife was climbing the, she worked at a, uh, she worked in the finance industry

02:10:17.100 in Stockholm.

02:10:18.100 Uh, we married when she was 25.

02:10:20.280 We said, listen, we're going to get married.

02:10:21.560 We're going to pursue a traditional marriage.

02:10:22.860 You're going to stay at home.

02:10:23.480 We're going to have kids.

02:10:24.260 Um, and I'm going to be the sole income provider.

02:10:26.500 Okay.

02:10:26.880 We're both happy with that.

02:10:27.820 We agree to those terms.

02:10:29.140 She sacrificed what otherwise already was and could have been even more so a lucrative career 1.00

02:10:32.980 in order to be my stay at home wife and take care of me and the house and the kids. 1.00

02:10:35.980 If 10 years from now I start beating her and divorce her or, or sorry, I beat her up and

02:10:42.180 I cheat on her and she would rightfully so divorce me in that scenario. 1.00

02:10:46.560 Would she not be morally, uh, uh, uh, deserving of some recompense?

02:10:51.520 Because I think, I think she would be because she made quite a big sacrifice to be my, my 0.96

02:10:55.660 wife and I'm the one that fucked it up. 1.00

02:10:57.660 Yeah.

02:10:57.880 So, I mean, there are definitely scenarios where alimony is, is justified.

02:11:03.360 Um, obviously I kind of understand the, the reason for alimony.

02:11:07.620 For example, if, if she disregards pursuing a career in pursuit of having children, raising

02:11:17.120 a family, taking care of the household.

02:11:18.860 I get it, I get it because, you know, and then to just dump her into the workforce with 0.99

02:11:24.500 no resources, I, I get it.

02:11:26.520 However, I guess I would say though, for example, like, let's say that was the case, but let's

02:11:33.860 say instead of you, the, the guy being abusive, let's say she cheated on the husband, but she, 0.99

02:11:41.520 all those same criteria are the same and she, or she just got bored and she wants out of

02:11:45.380 the marriage.

02:11:45.780 Yeah.

02:11:46.000 So the guy didn't, the guy doesn't, didn't do anything to warrant the divorce.

02:11:52.460 Exactly.

02:11:52.960 Yep.

02:11:53.280 So, so, so in those scenarios, it's just, I agree with you.

02:11:56.720 That's, that's a problem.

02:11:57.900 I am, I would say personally against no fault divorce.

02:12:00.420 I think we need to get rid of no fault divorce.

02:12:01.980 And I would say cheating or spousal abuse is fault for divorce.

02:12:06.940 But yeah, in that scenario, there was no fault and she leaves and gets an alimony. 1.00

02:12:10.640 That's a problem.

02:12:11.160 You're right about that.

02:12:11.780 Well, I would like to ask a lawyer this.

02:12:13.440 I'm not sure what, what it is, but in, in at fault divorces, is alimony still awarded?

02:12:18.900 I don't know if the courts even consider if there's fault anymore.

02:12:21.800 Or, oh, people just, I think it depends on the agreement if there's a, if there's a prenup.

02:12:27.220 Well, prenups get thrown out.

02:12:29.400 I think if a wife cheats on her husband, he did something like wrong. 0.80

02:12:33.640 Yeah.

02:12:33.900 He made a fault.

02:12:34.540 I think so.

02:12:35.060 Like, I disagree.

02:12:35.800 She's not just going to say.

02:12:37.100 I disagree.

02:12:37.260 I'm sorry.

02:12:37.480 I'm sorry to make sure I heard.

02:12:38.440 If, if a husband cheats on a wife, you said?

02:12:39.920 No.

02:12:40.200 No.

02:12:40.320 If a wife cheats on her husband. 0.61

02:12:41.960 Oh, no, I disagree with you.

02:12:43.320 He did something like.

02:12:44.740 Oh, come on. 0.87

02:12:46.000 Yeah.

02:12:47.280 So, so if the woman does something bad, she has no agency. 1.00

02:12:51.100 It's the man's fault.

02:12:52.400 If a woman does something. 1.00

02:12:53.700 No, no, no, no.

02:12:54.560 She's at fault too.

02:12:55.660 But like, she was probably telling him like for a while, like you're doing something.

02:13:00.780 Like, let's work on this.

02:13:01.200 Well, you say probably.

02:13:01.800 What if she wasn't? 0.78

02:13:02.820 What if she's just, is a sociopath?

02:13:04.920 Well, that's, I mean, I wouldn't believe in like a marriage that works.

02:13:09.280 You would talk about things and try to, marriages aren't easy. 1.00

02:13:12.920 So you have to talk about things.

02:13:14.280 You're not just going to like not tell your husband if he's like upsetting you.

02:13:16.740 But what if she, what if she did it and she just cheats on him? 1.00

02:13:18.600 Would you guys do that?

02:13:19.040 If you were married to someone, would you guys like, if they were upsetting you for a while,

02:13:22.180 would you just not say anything?

02:13:23.680 No.

02:13:23.900 I would talk about it.

02:13:24.800 Yeah.

02:13:25.060 You talk about it and try to talk about it.

02:13:26.240 I wouldn't cheat on him.

02:13:27.920 Yeah.

02:13:28.240 I wouldn't cheat either.

02:13:29.480 But what about the woman that does? 0.97

02:13:31.780 What do you mean?

02:13:32.520 What about the woman that doesn't talk about it and she just decides to go cheat? 0.98

02:13:36.120 That's not the man's fault.

02:13:36.920 That, I mean, why would she not talk about it though?

02:13:41.420 What if she's just a bad person?

02:13:44.800 Why would someone rob a bank?

02:13:46.360 Why would someone murder someone?

02:13:48.260 They're just, they're just bad people.

02:13:49.060 But that guy married her. 0.98

02:13:50.460 So he loved her, right?

02:13:52.820 Yeah.

02:13:53.460 So then he knew what she was when he married her.

02:13:57.060 Well, that's maybe not always the case.

02:13:59.860 If she's just a bad person.

02:14:01.460 What if, what if they, what if they've been married for like a week and then she cheats 1.00

02:14:04.200 on him, right?

02:14:05.560 So they really don't know each other as well as someone that's been married for 20 years.

02:14:08.140 But wouldn't you be with someone for a while before you marry them?

02:14:11.300 A lot of people don't.

02:14:12.120 Unfortunately.

02:14:12.660 That's not true.

02:14:13.180 Unfortunately, a lot of people don't.

02:14:14.060 You're not like always a cheater.

02:14:15.160 Like you're not like born like a cheater and like in the future, like, like.

02:14:20.200 Why would you just like marry someone you barely know?

02:14:23.920 My brother got married within three months of knowing his wife.

02:14:30.500 That's weird.

02:14:31.400 But he barely knew her and he married her?

02:14:33.400 Yeah.

02:14:33.680 And they're still together.

02:14:34.620 It's been three years.

02:14:36.220 The point is.

02:14:37.180 So then it's not always bad then.

02:14:38.140 It's not out of the realm of possibility or reality that a woman could cheat on a man

02:14:42.340 and have it not be the man's fault.

02:14:44.540 I think, I think you're saying.

02:14:45.480 So he's just doing everything right and she just loves him so much and she goes and cheats?

02:14:49.800 Let me ask you this.

02:14:50.540 Let's, let's say the man did do something wrong.

02:14:51.980 Let's say the man, um, let's say the man beat her. 1.00

02:14:55.720 Worst case scenario.

02:14:56.500 Okay.

02:14:57.120 Is she justified in cheating? 0.97

02:14:58.840 Yes.

02:14:59.420 For.

02:14:59.820 Do you think so?

02:15:00.380 I would, I would say she should get a divorce from him and not, you know, not cheat.

02:15:02.460 Some people.

02:15:02.940 She should get a divorce and then cheat. 1.00

02:15:03.960 Some people I've actually heard when they're being abused, they cheat to get out of the relationship

02:15:08.160 to make them fall out of love with them.

02:15:10.540 Like.

02:15:10.700 Why wouldn't you just get a divorce? 1.00

02:15:12.640 Because some, um, divorces from abusive people and didn't, can you say the D word?

02:15:18.520 Like.

02:15:19.360 Like the man might.

02:15:20.420 Yeah.

02:15:20.600 We get the idea.

02:15:21.700 Yeah.

02:15:22.840 Um, so I mean, look, as far as getting married, I guess my question to you is, and if any of,

02:15:29.420 any of you at the table want to try to convince me or change my mind, what benefit do I get

02:15:35.480 in marriage that I can't get in just a long-term relationship?

02:15:39.600 Okay.

02:15:40.080 So.

02:15:40.920 Nothing.

02:15:41.720 Like, let's say I'm a secular guy.

02:15:43.380 I don't, there's no religious component to getting married for me.

02:15:46.580 Um, what, what is the benefit?

02:15:49.580 That, or even if I am religious, I don't want to make it a religious argument.

02:15:53.620 Let's keep it a secular argument.

02:15:55.760 What benefit do I get by being married that I can't get out of a long-term relationship?

02:15:59.760 I think the best chance I can give you is, I mean, it's, there's like tangibles and intangibles.

02:16:04.860 I'll try to give you some tangibles because the intangibles are a little bit more loosey-goosey.

02:16:08.440 Every single stat we have suggests that people that get married, they live two years longer

02:16:12.340 on average.

02:16:13.000 They make money.

02:16:13.960 You make money.

02:16:14.700 You make more money if you're married.

02:16:16.300 Um, you're, there's been a lot of longitudinal happiness indexes suggesting people that are

02:16:20.720 married are happier.

02:16:21.580 I don't know if that same data has been gathered for people that are just cohabitating, uh,

02:16:26.140 long-term.

02:16:26.800 We know that people that are married have better, happier, more successful children.

02:16:31.420 I don't, I don't know about that compared to cohabitation though.

02:16:34.140 But yeah, wouldn't that be, you're saying people who are married are faring better in

02:16:39.580 all these, um, different ways, but wouldn't that just be comparing it to the general

02:16:44.220 population?

02:16:45.480 Well, it would be general population and people that are cohabitating, but maybe you're

02:16:49.340 right.

02:16:49.640 But we don't have the one-to-one.

02:16:51.420 I don't think we have a one-to-one.

02:16:52.420 As far as I know, we don't have the data for people that are cohabitating just because

02:16:55.220 there's not so many of those.

02:16:56.540 Yeah.

02:16:56.680 I don't know.

02:16:57.160 But like from personal experience, you're kind of right.

02:16:59.360 I've noticed like married couples are happier and then people who've been together a while

02:17:03.500 but don't get married, like it's not as happy of a relationship or secure as a marriage.

02:17:08.720 I fail to see what the difference would be.

02:17:11.140 Like if, take a girl that I'm in a seven-year relationship with, or maybe let's say three-year

02:17:16.100 relationship, and then it continues, you have two different paths, right?

02:17:21.980 One, it continues.

02:17:22.980 One, it is a marriage.

02:17:24.900 What changes?

02:17:26.100 I'll say, I think, I think like.

02:17:27.540 Besides the ceremony.

02:17:28.100 I think deep down subconsciously, I'll talk about the intangibles now.

02:17:30.620 I think that knowing that you have sworn a legal lifelong oath of fidelity, a contract 0.99

02:17:34.940 with this person reduces the chances that you'll break up over some stupid argument. 1.00

02:17:38.260 Well, yeah. 0.99

02:17:38.940 I think it increases your longevity as a relationship.

02:17:41.640 Another really strong tangible, it just popped in my brain because I have a stay-at-home spouse

02:17:45.040 who has no income.

02:17:47.800 Like the tax benefit of having a no-income stay-at-home spouse is way better.

02:17:53.340 Way better.

02:17:53.640 I make more money because of that.

02:17:55.440 There's tax benefits.

02:17:56.800 Yeah.

02:17:57.060 She like kind of artificially bumps me down because she has no income. 1.00

02:18:01.420 Yeah.

02:18:01.940 Okay.

02:18:02.920 Yeah.

02:18:03.120 That's fair, I guess.

02:18:05.480 But I don't think the financial, at least for me, I recognize that that might be a benefit

02:18:13.060 of marriage.

02:18:14.560 That financial component is not incentive enough for me to want to get married.

02:18:20.880 I agree with that too.

02:18:24.500 But you're going to consider having kids regardless?

02:18:27.660 Yes.

02:18:28.240 Yes.

02:18:28.620 Open to kids.

02:18:30.620 Leaning towards kids.

02:18:31.800 Yes.

02:18:32.920 But marriage... 0.99

02:18:35.080 I don't think so.

02:18:37.900 How do you explain to your kids like why you didn't marry, like, why didn't you marry

02:18:42.080 mommy like when they ask you that? 1.00

02:18:43.900 I tell them that I'm deeply in love with her and I just chose not to get the government

02:18:49.440 involved in my relationship.

02:18:51.040 I don't need the state involved in my relationship. 1.00

02:18:55.540 I don't need to have some fucking bullshit ceremony where we waste... 0.99

02:19:01.180 Some people spend $50,000 on a marriage more. 1.00

02:19:06.160 I don't think...

02:19:07.420 As far as the marriage ceremony goes, I think it's a waste of money.

02:19:12.880 And...

02:19:13.120 You can get married on the beach and it not be, like, super, like...

02:19:16.140 I just point to a girl and that's my wife. 1.00

02:19:18.640 I don't need the government to tell me that that's my wife. 0.98

02:19:21.040 But, like, so you would wear the rings and stuff.

02:19:26.100 No, I mean, we don't need to play dress up, but that's my girl.

02:19:30.740 But kids ask, like, why a lot?

02:19:32.780 Like, why would you...

02:19:33.800 Why don't you guys do that?

02:19:34.960 Why don't, like... 0.99

02:19:35.700 Homeschool, let's fucking go. 0.99

02:19:37.440 But, um... 0.99

02:19:37.600 That's, like, you know...

02:19:38.760 Let me ask you this.

02:19:39.500 Would you personally, privately, no state entity involved, no religious entity involved,

02:19:43.560 would you, one-on-one with the woman you've chosen to spend your life with in an unmarried

02:19:49.160 way?

02:19:49.400 Would you have a private conversation where you swear your loyalty to her until the day

02:19:54.380 you die?

02:19:55.260 Would you have that conversation off the record, no paperwork?

02:19:59.920 Sure.

02:20:00.520 Would you, like, I'm asking, like...

02:20:01.660 I don't know if that exists, but...

02:20:03.440 No, it's just a conversation.

02:20:05.680 Brian, I swear my life to you until the day I die.

02:20:08.760 Sure.

02:20:09.320 You do that?

02:20:09.780 Sure.

02:20:10.280 So, it's not...

02:20:11.120 It's not that oath of long-term commitment you're worried about.

02:20:15.720 It's entirely the construct of marriage.

02:20:17.920 The legal construct of marriage.

02:20:18.460 No, I'm full...

02:20:18.840 Well, here's the thing.

02:20:19.880 Like, when it comes to marriage, what are the words they say?

02:20:22.460 Till death do us part.

02:20:23.860 Till sickness and in health.

02:20:27.200 That...

02:20:27.760 Everybody says that before they get married.

02:20:30.380 Look at the divorce rate.

02:20:31.340 Look at how many people get divorced. 0.93

02:20:33.140 So, people's words mean nothing.

02:20:34.920 People's commitment mean nothing.

02:20:36.320 People's bond means nothing.

02:20:38.160 Well, once again, your divorce rate is 13%.

02:20:40.420 How low would that number have to be for you to feel comfortable?

02:20:43.880 It doesn't matter.

02:20:44.580 If it was 5%, I'd probably just...

02:20:48.040 If it was 5%, I probably just wouldn't even bother.

02:20:54.860 1%.

02:20:55.260 It's just not...

02:20:57.180 The financial risk is just not worth it.

02:20:59.740 See, because...

02:21:00.460 Look, my thing is, is that I'm a businessman.

02:21:03.100 You know I'm a business, quoting Tupac here.

02:21:05.260 You know I'm a businessman because you find me at my places

02:21:08.000 as a business.

02:21:09.220 And so, I'm not gonna sign a contract with someone

02:21:15.980 who is rewarded for breaking it.

02:21:18.800 I don't sign contracts that don't benefit me.

02:21:22.540 Well, I mean, it does.

02:21:23.480 We talk...

02:21:23.800 I mean, I'm trying to give you a number.

02:21:25.640 Like, I probably make like...

02:21:26.900 People are gonna do the math.

02:21:29.200 I make a lot more money per year by being married.

02:21:31.640 It bumps me down significantly into another tax bracket.

02:21:34.520 Make a lot of money.

02:21:36.380 And so, I guess you could do the math.

02:21:37.420 You could average that yearly extra income

02:21:39.640 that gets padded as a result of my marriage.

02:21:41.460 Single household income.

02:21:44.180 Average that out.

02:21:44.820 We're gonna be married 50, 60 years until one of us dies.

02:21:47.360 Okay, how much would I lose if we got divorced?

02:21:49.160 You do that comparison.

02:21:51.080 Divorce rate is 13%.

02:21:51.780 13%, but I'm probably smarter than most people,

02:21:54.500 so maybe it's even lower than that.

02:21:56.000 Alimony, 10%.

02:21:56.960 If I'm at Vegas, I bet on getting married.

02:22:01.820 I put my money on marriage.

02:22:03.440 That's totally fine,

02:22:04.280 and maybe we've done the calculus

02:22:05.760 a little bit differently.

02:22:06.860 And at the end of the day, for me,

02:22:08.700 it's just not worth the risk.

02:22:11.460 I don't need the state.

02:22:12.960 I don't need the government involved

02:22:14.320 with my love life.

02:22:15.860 It's just...

02:22:16.780 If we were in traditional times,

02:22:20.040 if we were in times where, broadly speaking,

02:22:22.220 society respected marriage,

02:22:24.240 there's also no societal...

02:22:27.040 What's the term?

02:22:30.380 There's no shame to be divorced.

02:22:33.320 You're right about that.

02:22:33.400 So there's no social pressure

02:22:34.800 for people to stay married, really.

02:22:37.800 In fact, people are really quick to just be like,

02:22:40.800 eh, just get divorced, whatever. 1.00

02:22:42.580 But the other thing is just...

02:22:46.340 And also with the court system,

02:22:47.980 men are so disadvantaged

02:22:50.320 in the family court system.

02:22:52.560 There's bias against men

02:22:53.600 in the family court system.

02:22:55.040 And look, I've heard from countless men

02:22:57.780 who have just been dragged...

02:23:00.180 I don't know.

02:23:00.520 What's the saying?

02:23:01.100 Dragged across the coals?

02:23:02.080 I don't know.

02:23:02.560 But who have just been destroyed in marriage.

02:23:08.180 And even if that's a minority

02:23:09.880 of people that get married...

02:23:11.320 Yeah.

02:23:11.480 I know we had some disagreements,

02:23:13.940 perhaps, on the actual...

02:23:16.140 I mean, I think 50% is the total number.

02:23:19.240 But then, yes, if you break it down,

02:23:20.500 like first-time marriages,

02:23:21.480 it's a bit lower.

02:23:22.620 And then you made a same race thing.

02:23:25.900 That's even lower.

02:23:27.040 I'd have to look at that.

02:23:28.140 But I'll take your word for it

02:23:29.100 for the sake of the conversation.

02:23:30.920 It's just even that smaller percentage chance,

02:23:33.940 it's just not worth it.

02:23:35.880 To you?

02:23:37.340 Yes, to me.

02:23:38.040 Okay.

02:23:39.020 And look, I'm not prepared

02:23:42.360 to take on the financial risk of marriage.

02:23:48.480 And again, I don't need the government

02:23:50.160 involved in my thing.

02:23:51.140 I don't want to be dragged through court

02:23:52.500 and have to pay for her attorney 1.00

02:23:54.300 and then fucking go in front of a judge 1.00

02:23:57.520 and then fucking... 1.00

02:23:59.360 It's just not worth it. 0.99

02:24:00.280 But I would like to move on a little bit,

02:24:02.180 but let's come back to the marriage

02:24:03.160 a little later on in the conversation.

02:24:04.780 Yeah, no doubt.

02:24:05.920 So, okay, let's get some super chats here.

02:24:07.860 We have... 0.97

02:24:08.580 Oh, man, the super chats are fucking brutal tonight. 0.98

02:24:11.040 All right, ratings. 0.97

02:24:11.660 The girl starting from PrinkDress,

02:24:13.440 677-5576.

02:24:15.420 Yo, PuffyVegas. 0.81

02:24:16.120 Thank you, man.

02:24:16.500 Appreciate it.

02:24:18.020 Okay, we have...

02:24:19.500 Hold it. 1.00

02:24:19.880 The fucking chat is roasting tonight. 1.00

02:24:22.400 Okay. 1.00

02:24:24.180 Let's see here.

02:24:25.900 Okay, I had one question.

02:24:28.300 Let's see.

02:24:32.160 Yeah, I don't know.

02:24:33.740 Did any of you girls want to weigh in on the marriage? 0.95

02:24:35.800 I know we were talking there for a little bit.

02:24:37.240 The marriage stuff.

02:24:38.340 I think if you're going to be with someone forever,

02:24:39.980 be with them forever.

02:24:41.560 So get married?

02:24:42.420 I just think that since you are choosing

02:24:44.900 a long-term relationship rather than marriage,

02:24:48.080 it allows for a bigger area for your wife to leave you 1.00

02:24:51.320 or for you to leave your wife.

02:24:52.460 I think that marriage adds security to a relationship.

02:24:54.980 It's just, okay, like, I'm a high earner.

02:24:59.560 So if I marry a woman who's not... 0.94

02:25:04.640 Is that what you want, though?

02:25:06.940 Well, not necessarily,

02:25:08.240 because I don't really care about a woman's finances. 0.77

02:25:10.380 But it is something I have to consider

02:25:11.960 if I am potentially marrying a woman

02:25:14.680 who doesn't make money, 1.00

02:25:16.820 that, like, bro, I'm going to get fucked financially. 0.99

02:25:19.760 Actually, so... 0.99

02:25:21.760 Yo, Alton, thank you. 0.94

02:25:23.140 Oh, shit, I haven't seen him in a while. 0.98

02:25:24.360 Alton, $2,200. 0.99

02:25:26.000 Stay safe.

02:25:26.980 You need to get over the premise

02:25:28.320 that marriage is commitment.

02:25:30.260 It's not.

02:25:31.400 It's financial security for the wife 1.00

02:25:33.560 who stopped working to fulfill her domestic duties. 0.99

02:25:37.080 Marriage is strictly wealth transfer.

02:25:39.620 Let me tell you this.

02:25:40.700 I think probably the key foundational axiomatic issue

02:25:43.980 we have in our society

02:25:44.900 in the Western world, America, Western Europe,

02:25:46.900 is the absolute deterioration and degenerate rot

02:25:50.360 that has taken place in the family unit.

02:25:52.880 The traditional man-woman-raising-children-happy-household 0.99

02:25:56.720 family unit is the key foundation

02:25:58.840 to a healthy culture, to a healthy society.

02:26:01.220 And every single problem you see right now,

02:26:03.060 drug addiction, violent crime,

02:26:04.900 mass shootings, all of this stuff,

02:26:06.280 there's one thing in common.

02:26:07.940 All of these people come from single-parent households.

02:26:10.200 If you want to fix culture,

02:26:11.360 if you want to fix our country,

02:26:12.460 if you want to fix the Western world,

02:26:14.440 you need to fix marriage.

02:26:15.520 So if you want to talk about getting rid of no-fault divorce,

02:26:18.960 I'm with you.

02:26:19.820 But to act like a stay-at-home spouse or wife does nothing 0.78

02:26:24.140 and all of them are only doing it to steal money from men. 1.00

02:26:27.360 Listen, as a man who's married,

02:26:30.020 you are in the service of your wife. 0.96

02:26:31.960 You have to be.

02:26:32.980 And the woman who's engaged in that relationship, 0.71

02:26:34.880 she is in the service of the husband.

02:26:36.680 Only that type of symbiotic, mutualistic,

02:26:39.560 like you need relationships like this

02:26:43.160 to keep society operating.

02:26:44.720 The second you have a breakdown of family units like this,

02:26:48.100 you end up where we are right now.

02:26:50.160 Well, I definitely agree with you that, yes,

02:26:52.440 there's a breakdown of the family unit.

02:26:54.920 I mean, just my pushback on that is you can have a family,

02:26:58.720 two-parent household, but not be married.

02:27:01.280 You can, yeah.

02:27:02.020 I think the odds of long-term success are lower.

02:27:05.540 Perhaps, perhaps.

02:27:06.820 But I don't think marriage is,

02:27:09.560 you can have a partner for your whole life,

02:27:14.500 have a kid, have the nuclear family,

02:27:16.640 just not be married.

02:27:17.520 Let me ask you this.

02:27:18.160 If no-fault divorce was overturned tomorrow,

02:27:22.340 would you be more eager to get married?

02:27:24.740 Could I still potentially be on the hook for alimony?

02:27:29.180 No, honestly, I'm kind of like,

02:27:30.940 if you get rid of no-fault divorce,

02:27:33.000 then like there's probably a risk

02:27:35.880 that people are going to just lie about.

02:27:37.640 Fault.

02:27:39.480 Fault.

02:27:39.940 Yeah, yeah, no, sure.

02:27:41.060 So that's a concern.

02:27:42.880 Yeah, I believe it was like the 70s

02:27:44.700 when no-fault divorce was ushered in.

02:27:46.760 That's when you saw the absolute explosion in divorce rates. 0.98

02:27:49.320 Curiously, divorce rates are the lowest right now

02:27:50.920 they've been in 50 years.

02:27:52.060 Divorce rates are plummeting.

02:27:53.340 Tied to our marriage rates being as low as they've ever been.

02:27:56.440 But it is true,

02:27:57.680 divorce rates are the lowest they've been since the 1970s.

02:27:59.700 Sure.

02:28:00.920 Well, let's move on from marriage here.

02:28:03.520 Let's spice it up with,

02:28:04.980 we can come back to it, though.

02:28:07.640 Should body count matter?

02:28:09.200 Let's talk about that.

02:28:12.200 Should body count matter?

02:28:13.380 Let's go around the table,

02:28:14.980 starting with you.

02:28:15.800 Go ahead.

02:28:17.620 For the guy or the girl? 0.58

02:28:20.200 Here, let me ask a different question.

02:28:21.760 Do you object to men caring about women's body count?

02:28:31.820 I don't know.

02:28:37.640 I don't think they should care.

02:28:41.820 Yeah, no.

02:28:44.380 Okay.

02:28:45.020 What about you?

02:28:45.680 I mean, personally,

02:28:46.660 personally, if I don't want to say mine,

02:28:48.560 I feel like a man shouldn't have to say his,

02:28:50.060 therefore, like, I care.

02:28:51.280 And if he cares, he does too, you know?

02:28:54.480 Wait, that doesn't parse.

02:28:56.940 Well, restate your question for me,

02:28:58.760 if you want me to.

02:28:59.500 Do you object to men caring about body count?

02:29:02.840 Um, let's say no, I don't object to it.

02:29:05.180 Okay.

02:29:05.380 But I mean, like, I wouldn't,

02:29:07.180 I don't know how to explain it.

02:29:08.520 I'm sorry.

02:29:09.140 I'm just...

02:29:10.380 So, for example, like, let's say,

02:29:12.360 let's say your body count was 11.

02:29:14.200 Yeah.

02:29:14.660 And the guy was like,

02:29:15.820 well, that's a bit high for me.

02:29:16.880 I'm not, he's not rude about it,

02:29:18.420 but it's just,

02:29:19.920 and obviously this conversation

02:29:21.460 might play out more organically,

02:29:23.120 but he took an issue

02:29:24.880 with your high body count

02:29:27.100 and for perhaps he wasn't interested

02:29:28.740 in dating you

02:29:29.900 because you had a body count of 11,

02:29:31.780 for example.

02:29:33.540 Would you object to that

02:29:34.680 or would you be like,

02:29:35.360 hey, that's preference, whatever?

02:29:37.240 Well, that's preference.

02:29:38.900 I mean, I don't have that,

02:29:40.460 so I don't know.

02:29:41.820 Don't have what?

02:29:43.140 That's not my body count,

02:29:44.300 so I wouldn't know.

02:29:44.820 Well, I wasn't saying it was,

02:29:46.240 but as an example.

02:29:47.080 In a sense of if,

02:29:48.040 say, he came up to me

02:29:49.100 and he had 11 ask me the same question,

02:29:51.080 like, I would give him the same respect

02:29:52.260 that he would be giving me.

02:29:53.640 You know what I'm saying?

02:29:54.860 Which is what?

02:29:56.220 I wouldn't care if he didn't care.

02:29:58.120 If he cared, I care.

02:29:59.060 But in personal preference,

02:30:00.940 because I'd say I didn't want to share mine,

02:30:03.600 it does matter to me personally.

02:30:05.800 Body count does matter to you?

02:30:07.440 Personally, yes.

02:30:08.460 Okay, got it.

02:30:09.560 So you wouldn't have an issue

02:30:12.440 with a guy caring about your body count?

02:30:14.720 No, I would not.

02:30:15.480 Okay.

02:30:17.140 I feel like everyone's entitled

02:30:18.780 to their own opinions on this,

02:30:20.640 but I don't feel like body count should matter

02:30:23.600 because in turn,

02:30:25.260 like, I wouldn't care about a guy's body count either.

02:30:27.960 So say if I was dating a guy, right,

02:30:30.740 and he was doing the same type of work as me,

02:30:32.320 he was in porn,

02:30:33.100 I wouldn't care what his body count was,

02:30:35.060 so I don't feel like he should care about mine.

02:30:36.800 But that's not very traditional.

02:30:39.680 I don't think body count should matter at all,

02:30:41.880 but someone in the chat

02:30:42.820 made a really good point earlier,

02:30:44.220 and they said you're a high roller,

02:30:46.640 but you don't want to pay the bill,

02:30:49.580 and I think that's funny.

02:30:51.500 Wait, what?

02:30:52.420 Like you called yourself a high roller earlier,

02:30:54.480 a top earner, whatever.

02:30:55.160 I didn't call myself a high roller.

02:30:56.020 You said something about yourself making money,

02:30:58.260 and then they said that,

02:31:00.120 but he doesn't want to pay the bill,

02:31:01.940 and I thought that was a funny point.

02:31:03.240 Are you redirecting the conversation here?

02:31:06.100 Kind of.

02:31:06.660 I just never got a chance to put that point in earlier.

02:31:09.360 Why is it funny?

02:31:11.440 Because, like,

02:31:12.360 why are you talking about how much money you make

02:31:13.700 if you don't want to pay the bill?

02:31:14.680 I wasn't bragging.

02:31:15.520 We were talking about marriage,

02:31:16.940 and I said because I'm a high earner,

02:31:19.180 I have certain concerns when it comes...

02:31:21.280 So why don't you pay the bill on the first date?

02:31:22.440 That's funny.

02:31:23.840 Why is that funny?

02:31:24.920 Because you're someone that feels the need

02:31:27.000 to call himself a high earner,

02:31:28.100 but doesn't want to pay on the first date.

02:31:28.860 I didn't feel the need.

02:31:29.900 We were having a conversation about marriage,

02:31:32.200 and I was...

02:31:32.540 I just think it's funny.

02:31:32.960 I was context.

02:31:33.740 I wasn't, like, bragging, 0.99

02:31:34.940 oh, I'm a fucking high earner. 0.99

02:31:36.940 Like, I'm not bragging. 0.99

02:31:39.320 It was just in the context of the conversation about marriage,

02:31:41.820 and I was making my argument

02:31:43.660 that because I do make a decent amount of money,

02:31:46.240 I have greater risk than a guy 1.00

02:31:47.940 who's making an average salary.

02:31:51.520 You and your money.

02:31:52.600 Also, his...

02:31:53.120 What do you mean, you and my money?

02:31:55.000 You think I'm, like,

02:31:55.980 I got a big ego about money.

02:31:57.520 I really don't. 0.99

02:31:58.360 I wear fucking $20 flannels. 0.99

02:31:59.880 No, you just don't want to pay the bill. 0.99

02:32:01.680 You do kind of have a weird thing around money

02:32:03.540 and, like, women and stuff 1.00

02:32:04.660 and how much you make.

02:32:05.600 Yeah, for sure.

02:32:06.280 There's some, like, stuff going on.

02:32:08.420 100% there's stuff.

02:32:09.140 What do you mean there's stuff going on?

02:32:10.340 Like, with not wanting to pay the bill

02:32:12.040 and, like, worrying about how much money you're making.

02:32:13.700 Why don't you want to pay the bill?

02:32:14.940 Maybe there's something going on with you.

02:32:16.960 You don't want to pay the bill.

02:32:18.380 Are you a feminist? 1.00

02:32:19.600 Do you believe in gender equality?

02:32:23.020 I'm asking you a question.

02:32:24.980 Anyways, you're a high earner,

02:32:26.460 but you don't pay the bill.

02:32:27.320 See, it's so funny.

02:32:29.420 Like, it's not a question of the money necessarily.

02:32:33.500 It's not about me not being able to afford it.

02:32:36.580 That's not the issue.

02:32:38.020 I just don't want to waste my money

02:32:39.380 on someone who doesn't deserve it.

02:32:40.960 I actually wrote a song about it.

02:32:43.100 Wrote a song about what?

02:32:44.180 He's a high earner, but he doesn't pay the bill.

02:32:52.640 Did you do, like, cocaine in the bathroom or something?

02:32:58.300 No.

02:33:01.400 That was a lovely song.

02:33:02.700 Well done.

02:33:03.240 Thank you.

02:33:03.780 You should try out for American Idol.

02:33:04.960 Thank you.

02:33:06.000 That's well.

02:33:06.620 Look, point, look.

02:33:09.140 When it comes to paying the bill,

02:33:10.980 we as men, we don't know you.

02:33:14.160 We don't know if you're worth it yet.

02:33:16.240 So we're not going to pay to find out.

02:33:19.160 I don't get this pushback

02:33:20.640 against equally investing

02:33:22.240 into the start of a relationship.

02:33:24.500 I bet most of you would describe yourselves

02:33:26.240 as feminists. 0.80

02:33:27.680 I bet most of you would say

02:33:28.980 you believe in gender equality,

02:33:31.220 equality between the sexes.

02:33:32.720 But it's funny,

02:33:33.540 when that check comes,

02:33:34.800 y'all are really quiet

02:33:35.680 about being feminists 1.00

02:33:36.840 and believing in equality.

02:33:38.920 My gender equality

02:33:39.820 goes straight out the door

02:33:40.860 when it's time to take the trash out.

02:33:43.000 I believe that.

02:33:43.820 I stand by that.

02:33:44.880 Yeah, I don't consider myself a feminist. 0.68

02:33:46.580 I don't either.

02:33:47.660 But back in the day,

02:33:48.600 they used to provide for women

02:33:49.640 because they worshipped women,

02:33:51.080 not because...

02:33:53.460 Yeah, like,

02:33:54.140 if I'm going to be a feminist 1.00

02:33:55.480 and think that women should be worshipped,

02:33:57.660 then I think the man should pay.

02:33:59.120 Back in ancient times,

02:34:00.560 they used to worship women.

02:34:01.480 I don't think it's because

02:34:02.300 they worshipped women.

02:34:03.080 It's because women provided 1.00

02:34:04.000 something very unique

02:34:04.900 solely and exclusively

02:34:06.340 to their husband

02:34:07.240 that is not really happening today.

02:34:09.100 For instance, their body.

02:34:11.280 What?

02:34:11.900 Oh.

02:34:12.680 Women are still the bearers of life. 1.00

02:34:14.980 Yeah, but a woman's body 1.00

02:34:16.480 is supposed to be a temple

02:34:17.280 for the man.

02:34:22.820 Okay.

02:34:23.560 So much disagreeance.

02:34:25.140 I think it is entirely reasonable

02:34:27.300 to take Brian has

02:34:28.220 where he doesn't want to invest money

02:34:29.940 into a woman

02:34:30.640 that he has no idea

02:34:32.700 what her motives or intentions are.

02:34:34.280 But that's a bad way

02:34:35.200 to go into something,

02:34:36.640 being, like, suspicious

02:34:37.640 of someone like that.

02:34:40.060 Aren't women suspicious of men? 1.00

02:34:42.340 Yeah.

02:34:43.000 When they go on first dates?

02:34:45.160 If I...

02:34:45.800 I'm not, like,

02:34:46.980 going into it being, like,

02:34:48.040 suspicious, no.

02:34:49.660 I would be suspicious.

02:34:50.420 Most women are like... 1.00

02:34:51.420 It's normal to be suspicious.

02:34:52.640 If a guy invited you over

02:34:54.480 to his house

02:34:55.100 before meeting him,

02:34:56.680 like, out in public

02:34:57.480 on the first date,

02:34:58.160 would you do it?

02:34:59.320 Or would you prefer

02:34:59.920 to meet him in public first?

02:35:01.540 I would prefer

02:35:02.200 to meet him in public first.

02:35:02.960 Why is that?

02:35:03.640 What are you suspicious of?

02:35:05.820 Or is it just being...

02:35:06.640 No, I just wouldn't want

02:35:07.500 to give him any ideas

02:35:08.520 because if you go over

02:35:09.520 to a guy's place like that,

02:35:10.640 they're going to assume 0.99

02:35:11.240 you want to have sex with them. 0.98

02:35:12.360 Could it also be a safety thing? 0.99

02:35:14.340 You'd rather meet him in public

02:35:15.300 for safety reasons?

02:35:16.580 No, I just honestly

02:35:17.580 don't want to give someone

02:35:18.500 the idea that I want 1.00

02:35:19.220 to fuck them if I don't. 1.00

02:35:20.240 So you're not even thinking 1.00

02:35:21.960 about the fact that

02:35:22.800 he could literally

02:35:23.520 do something? 0.99

02:35:24.820 Kill you? 1.00

02:35:25.600 Murder? 0.99

02:35:26.180 No, not really.

02:35:27.920 Okay.

02:35:28.360 There are, listen...

02:35:29.340 I'm more trusting in men than that. 0.98

02:35:31.520 There are crazy people. 0.59

02:35:32.680 This is not a men or women thing. 0.96

02:35:33.760 I think there's a lot

02:35:33.880 of really good guys out there

02:35:35.040 that want to protect

02:35:35.780 and provide for women.

02:35:36.880 You're totally right.

02:35:37.660 In fact, most men are,

02:35:38.380 but there are really...

02:35:38.980 That don't want to hurt women.

02:35:39.600 There are really bad guys.

02:35:40.840 When my daughter's 18,

02:35:41.780 I tell her, listen,

02:35:42.840 like, you need to know someone

02:35:44.720 before you are

02:35:45.760 in a private place with them.

02:35:46.860 That's like basic safety 101.

02:35:49.120 I'll give her a...

02:35:50.040 I'll buy her a gun 1.00

02:35:50.620 and give her a can of bear mace. 0.99

02:35:51.780 You need to take care of yourself.

02:35:52.800 You need to be careful.

02:35:53.380 There are just 0.99

02:35:53.860 twisted psychos out there. 0.98

02:35:55.780 It's true. 0.91

02:35:56.100 There are predators out there.

02:35:57.500 That's just a safety thing.

02:35:58.720 It's true.

02:35:59.080 Yeah, but I wouldn't go

02:35:59.960 to someone's house

02:36:00.960 just to, you know,

02:36:02.060 like if I didn't know them first.

02:36:05.200 That's good.

02:36:05.720 That's smart.

02:36:06.420 Yeah.

02:36:06.660 That's smart.

02:36:07.180 Yeah.

02:36:08.760 Yeah.

02:36:09.000 So wait,

02:36:12.460 what was your thing?

02:36:13.560 Where were we? 0.99

02:36:14.120 Fucking hell. 0.98

02:36:15.660 Like, it's just so funny. 0.99

02:36:17.200 Like, I don't get this pushback.

02:36:19.760 Like, I believe in egalitarianism.

02:36:23.040 I believe in equality.

02:36:24.060 Like, I know you guys

02:36:25.400 didn't want to take the,

02:36:27.840 what's it called?

02:36:29.860 The title of feminist, 0.99

02:36:31.820 but do you guys all believe in equality?

02:36:33.800 There's no such thing as equality. 0.52

02:36:36.700 We're made differently.

02:36:38.100 Our brains think differently.

02:36:39.200 Our bodies work differently.

02:36:40.740 There's no equal, 1.00

02:36:41.920 but there's fair as we can get,

02:36:43.880 but there's no, like,

02:36:45.280 really equal.

02:36:46.840 It's like comparing apples to oranges.

02:36:48.580 I don't know.

02:36:48.920 I think that there's personally,

02:36:50.260 like, things that women can do 1.00

02:36:52.620 that men can't do 0.90

02:36:53.620 and things that men can do

02:36:54.500 that women can't do. 1.00

02:36:56.200 And I say that in the sense of

02:36:57.340 even, like, a woman having a baby

02:36:59.280 and a man getting her pregnant. 0.99

02:37:00.880 Okay, so do you let your man

02:37:02.280 lead into the relationship?

02:37:03.700 Do you submit to him?

02:37:06.360 I did, and I do.

02:37:08.320 I do.

02:37:08.740 Naturally, I do.

02:37:09.520 And I wish I didn't.

02:37:11.420 But I, yeah.

02:37:12.820 100%.

02:37:13.340 So let me ask you guys a question.

02:37:15.120 In your relationships with men,

02:37:17.180 would you consider your,

02:37:19.620 let's say, long-term partner,

02:37:20.920 is he the head of the household?

02:37:23.260 Does he have final say?

02:37:26.000 Yeah, definitely.

02:37:27.800 Yeah, I trust him.

02:37:28.700 If he's adamant about something

02:37:30.180 and is like,

02:37:31.040 this is what it is,

02:37:31.920 then yeah.

02:37:32.400 Fair enough.

02:37:32.820 All right, baby, you're right.

02:37:34.320 It depends on the point, though,

02:37:35.600 because if I'm feeling

02:37:36.220 really passionate about it,

02:37:37.240 I won't let him get his way.

02:37:39.100 Let me ask you a question.

02:37:41.320 Would you let him tell you

02:37:42.240 to stop doing sex work?

02:37:44.180 Yeah, I mean...

02:37:44.360 He puts his foot down

02:37:44.940 and says, no more sex work.

02:37:46.260 No.

02:37:46.840 Okay, so then he's not...

02:37:47.840 I'm feeling really passionate

02:37:48.600 about that one.

02:37:49.340 He's not the head of the household,

02:37:50.160 is he?

02:37:50.340 He's not the head of the household.

02:37:51.840 I just don't think

02:37:52.700 he would ask me to do that.

02:37:54.160 Yeah, exactly.

02:37:55.000 The head of the household

02:37:55.640 doesn't want me to quit sex work.

02:37:56.860 He loves that I do sex work.

02:37:59.260 What if everything else

02:38:00.040 about him is perfect?

02:38:01.320 So your conceptual

02:38:02.580 head of the household man

02:38:04.040 just is...

02:38:06.340 Man, this is hard

02:38:08.620 to wrap your head around.

02:38:09.320 He's cool with it.

02:38:09.920 I mean, I've found guys like that

02:38:11.480 that don't care about what I do.

02:38:12.780 I mean, is he like a millionaire?

02:38:13.740 I mean, is he like a millionaire?

02:38:13.760 If he's a millionaire,

02:38:15.260 then maybe I'd consider it.

02:38:16.440 Usually they're also

02:38:17.220 in like an entertainment industry

02:38:18.620 of some kind.

02:38:19.240 You're totally okay

02:38:20.140 with this conceptual,

02:38:21.200 dominant head of the household man

02:38:22.260 as long as he's okay

02:38:23.700 with you doing everything

02:38:24.880 that you do

02:38:25.360 whenever you want to do it

02:38:26.260 and there's no give at all. 0.84

02:38:27.380 Well, you said sex work.

02:38:28.420 No, it's not like that.

02:38:29.540 There's obviously like

02:38:30.600 you don't do whatever you want

02:38:31.980 whenever you want.

02:38:32.640 That's not how a relationship works.

02:38:34.960 They're cool with certain things

02:38:36.080 and there's some things

02:38:36.880 they're not cool with

02:38:37.540 and that's it.

02:38:38.400 As far as, look,

02:38:39.340 the whole paying for the date thing.

02:38:41.340 So women want men 1.00

02:38:43.220 to do all this traditional stuff,

02:38:44.760 opening the door,

02:38:45.720 paying for the date,

02:38:46.500 gifts, flowers, providing.

02:38:48.600 In my view,

02:38:49.540 these are reserved for women

02:38:51.080 who are worthy of them.

02:38:54.700 Just like, okay,

02:38:55.340 just like women 1.00

02:38:56.060 are not obliged to sleep

02:38:57.740 with you on the first date,

02:38:59.220 so too are men not obliged

02:39:03.300 to provide for you

02:39:05.020 on the first date.

02:39:08.780 You make a good point.

02:39:10.680 Yeah.

02:39:11.260 I feel like, you know,

02:39:13.080 both stances could be right.

02:39:15.040 Like, men who are comfortable paying 0.91

02:39:16.720 and men who are not, you know?

02:39:18.360 It's up to your discretion

02:39:19.600 what you want to do

02:39:20.400 with your money.

02:39:21.900 If you don't want to pay

02:39:22.900 on the first date,

02:39:23.620 then that's fine.

02:39:24.540 Then you're not going to go out.

02:39:25.740 But, okay,

02:39:26.380 for a lot of women, 0.99

02:39:27.240 it's like you want a guy,

02:39:28.280 well, there's,

02:39:30.620 this falls into a few

02:39:32.060 different categories,

02:39:32.840 but just like we as men

02:39:34.520 have to prove ourselves to you

02:39:36.160 before you sleep with us,

02:39:38.100 I'm of the opinion,

02:39:40.080 and I'm instructing men

02:39:41.460 to do this,

02:39:42.440 you should be screening women 1.00

02:39:43.920 just as hardcore

02:39:44.780 as they're screening you.

02:39:45.840 So, I think

02:39:47.760 you should wait

02:39:49.520 to provide,

02:39:50.860 men should wait

02:39:51.800 to provide

02:39:52.520 until you've proved

02:39:53.980 yourselves to us.

02:39:56.340 You don't get the benefit

02:39:57.360 of my provisioning

02:39:58.740 until I know

02:39:59.700 you are only talking to me.

02:40:02.400 Because, like I said earlier,

02:40:03.700 one of the main reasons

02:40:04.440 I don't want to pay

02:40:05.020 for a girl on the first date

02:40:05.940 is these girls 0.99

02:40:06.740 are dating multiple dudes.

02:40:08.200 They're sleeping

02:40:08.800 with multiple dudes. 0.85

02:40:10.260 You don't get my provisioning

02:40:11.900 until I know

02:40:12.600 you are only talking to me.

02:40:14.380 I think that's fair.

02:40:17.220 How do you know

02:40:18.180 they're sleeping

02:40:18.660 with other dudes, though?

02:40:20.360 You have to make

02:40:20.940 that assumption in 2023.

02:40:22.780 That's how people move.

02:40:23.420 But, like,

02:40:23.720 some of them really are not. 1.00

02:40:25.380 Like, dead ass. 1.00

02:40:26.660 Oh, they are. 1.00

02:40:27.660 You can't...

02:40:27.960 That's just the thing, though.

02:40:29.020 You have to take your caution.

02:40:31.280 Look, so if they're not,

02:40:32.340 then you still do

02:40:33.160 the vetting process,

02:40:33.920 maybe two or three dates,

02:40:34.940 and you determine they're not,

02:40:36.020 and then you feel comfortable,

02:40:36.940 and then you move on

02:40:37.860 in the relationship as normal.

02:40:39.120 Yeah.

02:40:39.480 So you're saying

02:40:40.260 that they go out

02:40:41.100 just to eat

02:40:41.720 and they don't actually like you?

02:40:43.000 What do you mean?

02:40:45.740 Like, you're saying

02:40:47.020 you're worried

02:40:47.720 that someone's just gonna,

02:40:48.780 like, you don't want

02:40:49.600 to give your, like,

02:40:50.700 provisioning and providing

02:40:51.860 for until you know

02:40:52.780 that she's, like,

02:40:53.820 just with you, right?

02:40:55.560 Pretty much.

02:40:55.880 But you're saying, like,

02:40:56.700 you're worried that

02:40:57.600 someone who would

02:40:58.540 go out with you,

02:41:00.100 that they don't actually

02:41:01.640 like you,

02:41:02.100 they just want the meal?

02:41:03.420 A lot of girls do that. 1.00

02:41:04.740 Some girls do that. 1.00

02:41:05.600 A lot of girls do that. 1.00

02:41:06.740 Look, the main,

02:41:07.280 look, I know how people move.

02:41:08.980 People have, like,

02:41:10.100 five dates in a week

02:41:11.320 with different dudes.

02:41:12.340 Even average chicks 0.99

02:41:13.340 can fucking get. 0.99

02:41:14.520 Did you remember that 0.99

02:41:15.240 the thing that he pulled up?

02:41:16.960 She literally said

02:41:17.800 that she went on

02:41:18.440 six dates a week

02:41:20.120 just to pay for groceries.

02:41:21.700 Thank you for bringing

02:41:22.320 that up, Kelly.

02:41:23.020 Yeah, but some guys 0.91

02:41:23.700 are okay with, like,

02:41:24.840 paying for dates,

02:41:25.680 you know,

02:41:25.920 but he's not personally,

02:41:27.480 so it's like,

02:41:28.060 I would think that the girls 1.00

02:41:29.160 that would date you

02:41:30.080 would know, like,

02:41:31.100 oh, he's not cool

02:41:31.980 with paying for dates,

02:41:32.920 so, like,

02:41:34.080 I'm not gonna do that

02:41:35.120 with him, you know?

02:41:36.080 He's not cool

02:41:36.600 for dates on the first date.

02:41:38.680 He doesn't want

02:41:39.180 to waste his money.

02:41:40.540 Like, a man doesn't want 1.00

02:41:41.220 It's not about the money.

02:41:42.020 It's not about the money.

02:41:42.960 Ten bucks, I don't,

02:41:43.820 ten bucks, twenty bucks,

02:41:44.660 I don't care.

02:41:45.440 It's about principle.

02:41:47.640 Go ahead, Kelly.

02:41:48.160 It's about deserving.

02:41:48.440 I would just think

02:41:49.100 girls, like,

02:41:49.900 that want, like,

02:41:51.300 free dates,

02:41:52.060 and, like,

02:41:52.860 they would just

02:41:53.520 do that with guys

02:41:54.600 that are cool

02:41:55.120 with stuff like that.

02:41:56.280 Yeah, but a lot of them

02:41:57.480 most girls assume 0.79

02:41:58.840 that the guy's gonna pay

02:41:59.880 because that's how

02:42:02.140 it is for most,

02:42:03.760 the most part.

02:42:04.740 Look,

02:42:05.120 a lot of women 1.00

02:42:05.920 are just so accustomed

02:42:07.100 to men doing 1.00

02:42:07.920 all this extra shit, 1.00

02:42:09.540 moving mountains 1.00

02:42:10.340 just for a chance

02:42:12.300 at you

02:42:13.040 because, look,

02:42:14.140 there's no shortage

02:42:14.840 of simps.

02:42:17.620 That's your clientele.

02:42:20.180 So, look,

02:42:21.500 I mean,

02:42:22.200 also,

02:42:22.840 I want to point out

02:42:23.680 one thing.

02:42:24.180 A woman who requires 1.00

02:42:25.320 romance

02:42:25.940 just really doesn't

02:42:28.260 like you that much

02:42:29.500 because she never

02:42:31.620 required that, like,

02:42:32.760 really hot dude,

02:42:33.800 that really exciting

02:42:34.800 dude to be romantic,

02:42:36.600 to pay for anything.

02:42:38.880 Wait, what?

02:42:40.000 So, like,

02:42:40.980 Like, when you're

02:42:41.940 really into a guy, 1.00

02:42:42.720 you'll just fuck him 1.00

02:42:43.380 because he's so hot 1.00

02:42:44.180 kind of thing, right?

02:42:46.560 Yeah, girls. 1.00

02:42:47.520 And he doesn't do

02:42:47.940 anything for you at all?

02:42:49.060 I've definitely been there

02:42:51.040 done that.

02:42:51.860 Definitely.

02:42:52.940 Yeah, girls, 1.00

02:42:54.620 like, the super hot guy,

02:42:57.140 they don't need him

02:42:58.080 to pay

02:42:58.540 because they're happy

02:42:59.780 to get with him.

02:43:00.940 But, like,

02:43:01.580 the guy that they think

02:43:02.780 they're settling for,

02:43:03.860 even though most of these

02:43:04.620 guys are actually

02:43:05.220 on their level,

02:43:06.280 because,

02:43:06.680 excuse me,

02:43:07.500 because a lot of women 1.00

02:43:08.380 view themselves

02:43:09.860 as more attractive

02:43:10.540 than they actually are,

02:43:11.660 they have an

02:43:13.620 overinflated sense of self,

02:43:14.940 they have a big ego, 1.00

02:43:15.860 they have fucking 1.00

02:43:16.620 a hundred simps 1.00

02:43:17.280 in their DMs,

02:43:18.040 they have,

02:43:18.740 they download Tinder,

02:43:19.720 there's a thousand dudes.

02:43:20.760 But that guy's paying for some girl. 1.00

02:43:22.660 He might not be paying

02:43:23.840 for all the girls 1.00

02:43:24.560 that are just fucking him, 1.00

02:43:25.660 like, 1.00

02:43:26.580 just to do it,

02:43:27.320 but he is paying

02:43:28.460 for some girl 0.95

02:43:29.180 out there.

02:43:30.600 I guess.

02:43:31.400 For sure.

02:43:31.800 So,

02:43:33.820 you expect men to pay? 0.92

02:43:38.640 No,

02:43:39.320 it's not,

02:43:39.820 it's not black or white

02:43:41.200 thinking with me,

02:43:42.000 okay?

02:43:42.460 Okay, whatever.

02:43:43.080 It's based on,

02:43:43.420 like,

02:43:43.600 the situation.

02:43:44.480 Well,

02:43:44.640 earlier you said

02:43:45.200 it was disgusting.

02:43:46.820 No,

02:43:47.400 I said I was turned off,

02:43:48.760 I changed my wording,

02:43:49.820 remember?

02:43:50.300 I said,

02:43:50.860 saying disgust

02:43:51.480 it was too harsh,

02:43:52.440 and that I wish

02:43:53.700 that I would have said,

02:43:54.540 you know,

02:43:54.740 I retracted the statement

02:43:55.700 and said,

02:43:56.200 you know,

02:43:57.160 yeah.

02:43:59.000 Well,

02:43:59.440 okay,

02:43:59.760 a lot of women, 1.00

02:44:01.160 I think,

02:44:01.520 a couple of you,

02:44:02.440 you guys. 1.00

02:44:02.940 The guys that I want to fuck 1.00

02:44:04.020 are guys that are going to pay 1.00

02:44:04.960 on the first date.

02:44:05.860 It's like,

02:44:06.200 it's my preference.

02:44:08.220 Sue me.

02:44:08.740 Hey,

02:44:08.940 look,

02:44:09.540 you're entitled

02:44:10.780 to have your preference.

02:44:11.660 I guess my issue is,

02:44:13.260 is that

02:44:14.040 you expect men to pay, 0.86

02:44:16.880 yet, 0.96

02:44:17.880 you do sex work. 0.53

02:44:19.460 My issue is, 1.00

02:44:20.400 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

02:44:21.820 Like, 0.99

02:44:22.040 I can do sex work 0.85

02:44:23.100 and I can expect men to pay.

02:44:24.460 I'm still a human being

02:44:25.420 and I'm allowed to have preferences.

02:44:27.260 Well,

02:44:27.540 this is so degrading.

02:44:29.180 It's not,

02:44:29.520 it's not degrading.

02:44:30.380 It's just,

02:44:30.820 your problem is that 0.75

02:44:31.900 I do sex work 0.78

02:44:32.600 and that's not degrading.

02:44:33.480 I didn't say that.

02:44:34.820 Wait,

02:44:35.020 I just don't get it.

02:44:35.900 Why do you say,

02:44:36.620 I said that,

02:44:37.120 hold on,

02:44:37.500 just a point of clarification.

02:44:38.500 I said that your problem is,

02:44:39.680 is that you expect men to pay, 0.87

02:44:41.880 yet you do sex work.

02:44:43.600 What I'm trying to get at,

02:44:44.520 what I'm trying to get at is,

02:44:46.400 is you have a rather traditional stance

02:44:48.520 on who should pay,

02:44:50.180 yet you are quite non-traditional.

02:44:52.180 Okay,

02:44:52.540 and my problem is

02:44:53.400 that you expect girls 1.00

02:44:54.400 to go halves on the first date

02:44:55.680 and you're not even that attractive.

02:44:56.880 Okay,

02:44:59.000 ad hominem.

02:45:00.980 I don't know what that means.

02:45:02.260 All right,

02:45:02.500 bro.

02:45:03.120 Wait,

02:45:03.700 so I just want to clarify,

02:45:05.340 you're saying because she does

02:45:07.000 and we do.

02:45:07.900 Hold on,

02:45:07.920 hold on,

02:45:08.180 hold on,

02:45:08.520 hold on.

02:45:09.280 So,

02:45:09.860 you've just attacked my physical appearance.

02:45:11.960 Well,

02:45:12.120 you attacked my career.

02:45:15.000 I didn't attack your career.

02:45:16.240 Your problem with me having a preference

02:45:17.620 because of my job.

02:45:19.420 Because,

02:45:20.080 yeah,

02:45:20.320 because you have

02:45:21.900 a rather traditional stance

02:45:23.700 on who should pay,

02:45:24.920 yet you are quite non-traditional.

02:45:26.440 I didn't ad hominem

02:45:28.160 attack your physical appearance.

02:45:30.100 What does ad hominem mean?

02:45:32.660 Ad hominem,

02:45:33.540 it's like a personal attack.

02:45:35.080 Oh,

02:45:36.020 yeah.

02:45:36.480 So,

02:45:36.620 so,

02:45:36.980 so what you're saying is

02:45:38.260 if I was more physically attractive,

02:45:39.960 then I could get away

02:45:41.260 with demanding equality?

02:45:44.860 That's what you're saying,

02:45:45.860 isn't it?

02:45:47.240 Guys,

02:45:47.840 that I'm.

02:45:48.180 You think,

02:45:48.320 you think I'm wrong

02:45:49.400 because of my physical appearance

02:45:50.880 to want to split the bill?

02:45:55.220 I think she was saying that.

02:45:56.340 Or do you want to walk back

02:45:57.220 what you just said?

02:45:58.000 Do you want to let her answer?

02:45:59.920 No,

02:46:00.060 no,

02:46:00.420 it's,

02:46:01.100 the words came out of your mouth.

02:46:02.580 She's not going to defend you. 1.00

02:46:03.440 but my mouth goes on her pussy 1.00

02:46:05.180 so she knows what I'm thinking. 1.00

02:46:11.600 I think she was saying

02:46:12.740 that it was a low blow

02:46:13.620 to talk bad about her career

02:46:15.020 so she did a low blow back. 1.00

02:46:16.840 Exactly.

02:46:17.120 It's really not though.

02:46:18.460 It's totally different.

02:46:19.900 So,

02:46:20.480 I'm going to

02:46:21.560 kindly ask you to

02:46:23.820 leave. 0.99

02:46:26.080 This is

02:46:27.020 Sparta!

02:46:29.020 All right,

02:46:29.500 I have to take her with me.

02:46:31.020 That's fine.

02:46:32.500 All right,

02:46:33.020 well,

02:46:34.280 just be prepared,

02:46:35.120 Eric.

02:46:35.780 Okay,

02:46:36.240 see ya.

02:46:36.940 Thanks for having us.

02:46:38.120 A few more minutes

02:46:39.220 or something.

02:46:40.200 A few more minutes.

02:46:41.040 Okay.

02:46:41.240 Not yet.

02:46:41.840 Do you think she tried

02:46:43.260 to do it the first time?

02:46:44.500 Like an hour and a half ago?

02:46:45.380 People were saying

02:46:45.680 it was intentional.

02:46:46.440 Do you think she did?

02:46:47.040 So,

02:46:47.320 I don't know.

02:46:48.620 I looked up

02:46:49.540 and I was like,

02:46:50.120 oh.

02:46:50.420 Yeah,

02:46:50.800 I didn't see it

02:46:52.020 until I read the chat.

02:46:53.020 That is such a 0.99

02:46:58.780 fucked up thing to do. 1.00

02:46:59.580 It's so fucked up 1.00

02:47:00.380 for Brian, 1.00

02:47:01.600 yeah.

02:47:02.000 How did I miss that?

02:47:03.140 He could lose his job.

02:47:04.540 So,

02:47:04.820 she was mad about

02:47:05.720 him saying

02:47:06.480 that she shouldn't have to,

02:47:07.780 that she should

02:47:08.380 go half

02:47:09.500 on the first date

02:47:10.360 because she had sex work, 1.00

02:47:11.760 right,

02:47:12.020 basically,

02:47:12.540 and then

02:47:12.800 she said something

02:47:14.200 about his looks

02:47:15.520 and then

02:47:16.020 she said that

02:47:17.360 he's not good enough

02:47:18.240 looking not to pay,

02:47:19.780 basically.

02:47:20.000 I saw it pop up there

02:47:20.860 for a second,

02:47:21.420 so.

02:47:23.020 Bro.

02:47:28.080 Wow. 0.94

02:47:29.280 What a terrible person.

02:47:30.620 Can we all agree here? 0.95

02:47:32.060 What a terrible person.

02:47:32.940 That's terrible to do.

02:47:34.480 That's terrible to do.

02:47:35.240 That was so disrespectful.

02:47:36.140 That was disrespectful.

02:47:37.540 Very.

02:47:38.180 You should just walk away.

02:47:41.760 Did she flash? 1.00

02:47:42.940 Some people see it.

02:47:44.140 That's what I was saying,

02:47:44.420 I missed.

02:47:44.680 Did she take something?

02:47:45.820 Yeah, she did.

02:47:46.480 She literally walked out here. 0.78

02:47:48.240 No, she literally

02:47:49.180 pulled them down. 0.91

02:47:50.400 Did you see the titties? 0.98

02:47:52.140 She got kicked out 0.98

02:47:52.960 and you linked her shirt down.

02:47:53.880 She packed it down

02:47:54.440 as she was walking out of here.

02:47:56.140 Yeah, I missed that.

02:47:56.940 I think we were not

02:47:57.560 talking.

02:47:59.460 Yeah.

02:48:01.340 It was probably there

02:48:02.180 for like 0.3 seconds.

02:48:03.020 We can end it

02:48:03.680 and restart the stream.

02:48:06.200 But that's a whole 0.99

02:48:07.100 nother fucking... 1.00

02:48:08.060 That sucks. 1.00

02:48:11.980 Half... 1.00

02:48:12.540 Fuck. 1.00

02:48:14.140 Do you have... 1.00

02:48:14.440 Just have mods,

02:48:15.380 delete clips.

02:48:16.000 Just spam delete clips.

02:48:17.220 I don't know if my mods...

02:48:18.280 Well, I have Twitch

02:48:18.960 and I have YouTube.

02:48:20.080 I don't know if I can do it 0.99

02:48:20.800 on fucking Twitch, bro. 0.99

02:48:22.780 I don't know if he's gonna... 1.00

02:48:23.420 Bro.

02:48:26.460 I think you should just...

02:48:27.540 Oh, my God, bro. 0.98

02:48:29.620 That's so fucking like... 1.00

02:48:31.900 Childish. 1.00

02:48:32.820 So fucking childish. 1.00

02:48:33.980 She's like fucking 1.00

02:48:34.720 with my business there, bro. 1.00

02:48:36.060 Yep. 1.00

02:48:38.300 Bro, delete this shit. 1.00

02:48:39.600 Oh, my God, bro. 1.00

02:48:40.560 I kicked her... 1.00

02:48:41.140 Bro. 0.94

02:48:41.360 Bro.

02:48:44.940 I don't know what to do, guys.

02:48:46.440 It showed.

02:48:48.900 I think we have to end it

02:48:49.800 and maybe we have to restart. 0.96

02:48:51.180 I don't fucking know, bro. 0.98

02:48:53.420 Millisecond, bro. 1.00

02:48:57.380 Fuck. 1.00

02:48:58.400 Nick, can you find them? 1.00

02:48:59.660 Can you find it?

02:49:02.760 Bro.

02:49:03.340 Yo, if anybody watching knows her,

02:49:05.120 I'm gonna...

02:49:05.740 I'm gonna actually sue her 0.62

02:49:08.440 because that was malicious.

02:49:10.600 That was malicious

02:49:11.400 and she's intentionally

02:49:12.920 interrupting my business.

02:49:15.000 Malicious,

02:49:15.600 tortious interference. 1.00

02:49:17.880 So, fuck it, bro. 1.00

02:49:19.040 We're gonna fucking sue her. 1.00

02:49:21.000 It's one thing 1.00

02:49:21.680 if you have a nip slip,

02:49:22.460 but to intentionally do that, 1.00

02:49:24.200 to try to fuck 0.99

02:49:24.920 with someone's business, 1.00

02:49:26.600 yeah.

02:49:27.200 Guys, if anybody knows her,

02:49:28.960 get me her full, 0.87

02:49:30.280 legit name

02:49:30.880 because we're gonna 0.99

02:49:31.520 fucking sue her, bro. 0.99

02:49:32.480 Bro. 1.00

02:49:37.300 Can I take a picture

02:49:39.440 with the doll?

02:49:41.040 When the stream ends, yeah.

02:49:42.660 When it's...

02:49:43.180 Yeah, let's take

02:49:43.940 picture of the doll.

02:49:45.500 Yeah, wait till the stream ends

02:49:46.800 and then you guys are good.

02:49:50.580 I like your relatch.

02:49:51.860 Do you ever...

02:49:53.000 Do you ever get that

02:49:54.760 you look like Paris Hilton?

02:49:55.740 Yeah, I get that.

02:49:56.740 I don't try to.

02:49:57.880 I don't try to look like it.

02:49:58.080 Yeah, I know,

02:49:58.640 but literally,

02:49:59.240 my first thing when I saw you

02:50:00.580 was like,

02:50:00.860 oh my god,

02:50:01.160 she looks like Paris Hilton. 1.00

02:50:01.880 Dude, we were at dinner

02:50:02.540 the other day

02:50:03.100 and some guy literally goes,

02:50:04.360 you look like Paris Hilton.

02:50:05.480 I like thought you were her.

02:50:06.880 She is not exactly

02:50:10.660 representing her side

02:50:11.620 very well.

02:50:12.440 That's the unfortunate thing.

02:50:14.520 That's the worst thing about it.

02:50:17.560 Yeah.

02:50:18.620 A separate after show?

02:50:20.840 It's just like...

02:50:22.160 We don't have to do

02:50:23.040 the after show.

02:50:24.680 It's fine.

02:50:26.980 Okay.

02:50:30.340 We gotta take care of the clothes. 0.98

02:50:33.780 Okay.

02:50:34.480 Let's just do it.

02:50:36.880 Listen, I'll tell you what.

02:50:41.800 You can delete the VOD.

02:50:42.840 You delete the clips.

02:50:43.740 Someone's already made

02:50:44.480 a streamable, though.

02:50:45.400 Like, someone's already got that.

02:50:46.880 It's done.

02:50:47.620 It's done.

02:50:48.200 What's that?

02:50:48.700 You can delete all the clips.

02:50:49.740 You can delete the VOD.

02:50:50.640 Someone's already got that.

02:50:51.960 Yeah.

02:50:52.240 They've already reported it.

02:50:53.560 Okay.

02:50:54.180 End the stream.

02:50:56.120 All right, guys.

02:50:56.740 We gotta end the stream.

02:50:57.400 We might...

02:50:58.280 If you guys wait a little bit,

02:51:00.100 we might start up

02:51:00.920 an after show.

02:51:02.000 I don't know.

02:51:03.360 Sorry, guys.

02:51:04.060 That's abhorrent.

02:51:08.980 I knew... 0.99

02:51:09.620 Brew, I fucking had a feeling 0.97

02:51:11.480 she was gonna do 1.00

02:51:12.220 some shit like that, bro. 0.99

02:51:14.660 Like... 1.00

02:51:14.980 Did it show on there?

02:51:16.280 Yeah, it did.

02:51:17.460 Eric, can you end the stream?

02:51:18.600 It's the first time.

02:51:19.500 All right, guys.

02:51:20.140 We're gonna...

02:51:20.580 Oh, hold on.

02:51:21.060 Hold on.

02:51:21.320 Hold on.

02:51:21.480 We're gonna start another stream.

02:51:24.320 We're probably gonna lose

02:51:25.440 half our viewership, 0.99

02:51:26.400 but there was some other shit 0.99

02:51:28.280 I still wanted to talk about, 0.98

02:51:29.360 but it is what it is.

02:51:30.500 All right.

02:51:31.120 If you guys just chill around

02:51:32.560 on the channel,

02:51:33.320 it should pop back up

02:51:34.320 in, I don't know,

02:51:36.400 a little bit, but...

02:51:38.700 Yo.

02:51:39.780 Nobody should ever have 1.00

02:51:40.960 that fucking chick 1.00

02:51:41.660 on any stream. 1.00

02:51:42.660 Like, okay, whatever.

02:51:43.920 All right, guys.

02:51:44.660 Just stick around

02:51:45.560 on the channel.

02:51:46.620 We'll redo a stream.

02:51:47.800 We'll get another...

Whatever Podcast - June 06, 2023

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