Whatever Podcast - Dating Talk #80

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00:05:25.220 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.

00:05:27.680 So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and also where you're from.

00:05:33.500 Yeah, go ahead.

00:05:34.140 I'll start it off.

00:05:34.860 Sure.

00:05:35.300 Hey, my name is Bella.

00:05:36.620 I go by Bellarama TV.

00:05:39.380 I'm from the state of Arizona.

00:05:41.220 I'm in my 20s.

00:05:42.460 And my occupation is I'm a Twitch streamer.

00:05:45.620 When you say you're in your 20s, what's your actual age?

00:05:48.540 69.

00:05:50.080 What's your actual age, though?

00:05:53.300 Over the age of 21.

00:05:55.420 Okay.

00:05:56.220 Yes.

00:05:56.460 Why do you not want to reveal your actual age?

00:05:59.020 Here's the deal.

00:05:59.840 I feel like as a Twitch streamer and as a content creator, because you put so much of yourself, you know, in public, there are certain things to keep private.

00:06:11.000 Exactly.

00:06:11.420 I don't really, can you explain that further?

00:06:15.000 Well, it's because I have a personal life and I like to keep it personal, certain things.

00:06:20.940 But other things I'm completely fine revealing.

00:06:22.920 What are the other things that you're completely fine revealing?

00:06:28.540 Like, for example, where I went to college.

00:06:31.500 Say it again. 1.00

00:06:32.280 I said that ass. 1.00

00:06:33.600 Yeah. 1.00

00:06:34.800 Well, I mean, you do adult content, so I mean, you're comfortable sharing your body, but not something as arbitrary as your age.

00:06:43.680 Correct.

00:06:44.420 Why?

00:06:45.100 Just for personal reasons, for comfortable reasons, you know, privacy.

00:06:49.300 Well, I mean, you speak of privacy, but isn't, like, posting nude photos quite the antithesis of privacy?

00:06:57.560 I guess it's whatever you feel comfortable showing, and there are certain things you're not.

00:07:02.020 Okay.

00:07:02.280 Like, for example, specific things about your past.

00:07:04.800 But I'm comfortable sharing my body, showing my body, so let's go.

00:07:07.940 So you said you're in your 20s.

00:07:10.680 Yes.

00:07:11.300 Mid-20s, late-20s, early-20s?

00:07:13.580 Yes.

00:07:14.960 Okay.

00:07:16.320 Okay.

00:07:17.640 Well, I mean, the reason I give you pushback is because if you're uncomfortable sharing your age, what...

00:07:26.340 It's a pretty basic biographical information.

00:07:31.880 Most likely you're going to figure it out by the end of the stream anyway, so...

00:07:35.060 How would I figure it out by the end of the stream?

00:07:37.160 By asking the right questions.

00:07:38.300 Well, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not particularly interested in doing some, asking you about historical facts to try to decipher what your age is, but...

00:07:47.640 So...

00:07:48.740 Yeah.

00:07:49.260 It's more so just a curiosity why.

00:07:51.260 Absolutely.

00:07:51.720 Because I don't, I don't, as far as I'm aware, I don't think there's any potential security concerns when it comes to revealing one's age.

00:07:59.100 True.

00:07:59.940 Yeah.

00:08:00.380 But again, it's about just what I feel comfortable sharing.

00:08:03.380 Fair enough.

00:08:04.200 Okay, what about you?

00:08:05.200 Okay.

00:08:07.180 My name is Elizabeth.

00:08:08.760 Okay.

00:08:09.540 I am born and raised in Los Angeles, California.

00:08:13.260 I am a model and actress.

00:08:17.220 Age.

00:08:17.920 Age?

00:08:18.280 23.

00:08:19.080 23.

00:08:19.440 23.

00:08:19.900 Thank you for sharing your age.

00:08:21.260 Much appreciated.

00:08:22.220 I'm not afraid of my age.

00:08:22.780 Thank you.

00:08:23.160 Much appreciated.

00:08:24.360 Thank you for that.

00:08:25.440 A text.

00:08:26.080 And you said you're from, like, grew up in LA, born in LA?

00:08:29.540 Yeah.

00:08:29.880 I'm born and raised here.

00:08:31.240 Gotcha.

00:08:31.580 Yeah.

00:08:31.800 Okay.

00:08:32.880 What about you?

00:08:34.800 Sorry, she's shy.

00:08:40.140 This is Bella.

00:08:41.580 She's turning five in July.

00:08:43.220 She's a Leo. 0.99

00:08:44.160 She loves long walks on the beach.

00:08:45.840 She's single.

00:08:48.040 Just kidding.

00:08:49.080 Hi, I'm Julia.

00:08:50.160 I am 26.

00:08:53.340 Thank you.

00:08:54.500 I needed that.

00:08:55.560 Tough crowd.

00:08:56.180 I'm 26, and I'm from Colorado, and I live in LA currently.

00:09:02.820 What else did you want to know?

00:09:04.800 Name, age, occupation, and where you're from.

00:09:07.080 Oh, content creator, and I dabble with music, acting, modeling, stuff in the entertainment

00:09:16.680 industry.

00:09:17.540 Also, we're going to get to it, so I have an OnlyFans.

00:09:20.840 Yes.

00:09:21.340 Link is in the bio.

00:09:22.380 Adjali, Lynn Sandoval on Instagram.

00:09:23.740 Um, and, uh, That's lovely.

00:09:29.300 What about you?

00:09:30.080 What about you?

00:09:32.400 My name is Taylor.

00:09:34.580 Um, I'm 25.

00:09:36.040 I'm from Florida, and I'm a kick streamer.

00:09:40.280 What do you stream on kick?

00:09:42.260 Bikini content.

00:09:43.420 And, sorry, your age was 25, you said?

00:09:45.220 Yes.

00:09:45.960 Okay, well, first off, Julia, thank you for disclosing your age, and, uh, thank you for

00:09:49.280 disclosing your age.

00:09:50.040 Much appreciated.

00:09:51.320 Um, sorry, and you stream what on kick?

00:09:55.280 Bikini content.

00:09:56.220 Bikini content.

00:09:56.880 So, like, hot tub streams, or?

00:09:59.160 Yeah, I do, like, everything in a bikini, so I'll, like, cook in a bikini.

00:10:02.440 Uh, I don't even use a hot tub at this point, because kick doesn't require a body of water

00:10:07.380 like, Twitch, which is really cool.

00:10:09.460 So, I just have, like, a whole...

00:10:10.800 L-Twitch.

00:10:11.600 L-Twitch.

00:10:12.460 Twitch is whack.

00:10:13.300 Okay.

00:10:13.800 Uh, got it.

00:10:14.680 What about you?

00:10:15.560 Uh, I'm Victoria.

00:10:16.760 I am a Twitch streamer and OnlyFans creator.

00:10:20.140 I am Canadian, but I live in San Diego.

00:10:22.880 Are you from the French-speaking or the English-speaking?

00:10:25.160 No, I'm from Vancouver, so that's, like, two hours north of Seattle.

00:10:27.600 Okay.

00:10:27.840 Uh, age?

00:10:30.580 I have a different reason than you, though, because I feel like I'm a little bit older, but

00:10:35.060 not, like...

00:10:35.840 And I feel like, just, like, women are, like, always, like, given, like, an expiry day. 1.00

00:10:41.100 Like, if you're after, like, a certain age, then suddenly your content is no longer, like,

00:10:45.200 relevant, and I don't...

00:10:47.500 I feel like I'm relevant in my own bubble, but I just don't.

00:10:54.860 Range?

00:10:56.320 I'm in my 30s.

00:10:58.220 So, you're 40?

00:11:00.080 No.

00:11:00.940 Definitely not 40.

00:11:01.460 Okay, I'm just gonna write down 40 for you, and then you're...

00:11:04.620 I'm just gonna say you're 30.

00:11:05.800 How about that?

00:11:06.500 69.

00:11:07.160 It's all downhill from there.

00:11:09.000 Okay.

00:11:10.300 Well, I mean, I've definitely heard that from women where, you know, typically women who 1.00

00:11:14.760 are perhaps a bit older might feel a little hesitant to share their age, but for you,

00:11:19.900 for example, I suspect you're in your 20s.

00:11:22.360 Typically, you don't hear that from women who are in their 20s who are uncomfortable sharing

00:11:27.420 their age for those reasons.

00:11:29.780 So, what about you?

00:11:32.080 I'm Sadie.

00:11:33.140 I'm 20.

00:11:34.220 I'm from San Luis Obispo, California, and I'm in college.

00:11:40.020 Occupy.

00:11:40.260 What do you study?

00:11:41.340 I'm a communications major.

00:11:42.720 Comm major.

00:11:43.440 Okay.

00:11:43.820 Rock and roll.

00:11:44.540 Yeah.

00:11:44.980 Okay, cool.

00:11:46.100 We're gonna go around the table one more time.

00:11:49.400 So, what is your current relationship status?

00:11:51.620 Are you single, friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship, relationship?

00:11:55.280 And also, what's your longest relationship?

00:11:58.680 And if you're single, how long have you been single?

00:12:01.200 Yes.

00:12:01.680 So, I'm single and my longest relationship has been four years.

00:12:06.180 And I have been single for one and a half years.

00:12:11.040 Okay.

00:12:13.280 What about you?

00:12:14.120 Right there?

00:12:14.960 I am technically single.

00:12:17.080 I have never been in, like, a relationship in my life.

00:12:20.500 I never had a boyfriend.

00:12:23.060 Technically single?

00:12:24.620 Yeah, as in single.

00:12:25.780 Okay.

00:12:26.640 So, single.

00:12:27.980 Single.

00:12:28.480 Never had a boyfriend?

00:12:29.740 No.

00:12:30.500 I don't think I've ever been on, like, a romantic dating date.

00:12:34.020 Is there a girlfriend?

00:12:35.100 No.

00:12:35.480 No girlfriend.

00:12:36.080 Okay.

00:12:37.300 I'm straight.

00:12:38.320 You've never been on a date?

00:12:39.900 I don't think I've been on, like, a romantic date ever in my life.

00:12:44.200 Like, I don't think I count, like, friend hangs.

00:12:45.980 That's, like, not, you know?

00:12:47.120 I don't think I've been.

00:12:48.160 Yeah.

00:12:48.740 Okay.

00:12:49.300 So, no.

00:12:50.820 Sure.

00:12:51.180 And in your bio that you provided to us, I mean, maybe you undersold yourself.

00:12:56.560 It says that you were a, you got gold five times as a U.S. ice skater.

00:13:01.300 Yes.

00:13:01.520 I'm a two-times double gold medalist.

00:13:03.520 I'm a five-time U.S. national competitor.

00:13:05.540 Okay.

00:13:06.480 Yeah.

00:13:06.740 Congrats.

00:13:07.760 Thank you.

00:13:08.220 Are you still skate, or did you have a knee injury, or what happened?

00:13:12.260 No.

00:13:12.800 I've accomplished as much as I wanted in skating.

00:13:15.520 Okay.

00:13:15.860 And I could, because I'm very ambitious, I wanted to try to keep driving up, and that

00:13:22.120 introduced me into pageantry.

00:13:24.980 I was Miss Orange County.

00:13:26.580 Okay.

00:13:27.040 Miss O.C. 1.00

00:13:27.820 Miss O.C., yes.

00:13:28.960 Rock and roll.

00:13:29.520 And after pageantry, I went straight into modeling and acting.

00:13:38.740 Like, I was Maxim, I was on the cover of Maxim Magazine, I think in 2021, and then I worked

00:13:46.800 with American Horror Story, Nick's...

00:13:48.900 American Whore Story? 1.00

00:13:50.100 American Horror Story.

00:13:51.560 Oh, horror.

00:13:52.500 Horror.

00:13:52.780 Sorry, I miss her.

00:13:54.120 I miss her.

00:13:54.680 You mean the series.

00:13:55.560 Yeah, yeah.

00:13:55.960 Yeah.

00:13:56.340 Yeah, that thing.

00:13:57.200 Okay, that's cool.

00:13:57.840 Like, were you one of the...

00:13:59.360 I've never seen the show.

00:14:00.360 I mean, I've heard of it, but like, were you one of the...

00:14:03.180 Are there monsters?

00:14:04.440 I was the creepy doll.

00:14:06.260 I was bald.

00:14:07.360 You were bald?

00:14:08.140 Yeah.

00:14:09.300 Okay, good times.

00:14:10.620 That must have been fun.

00:14:12.360 It was.

00:14:12.640 And so, were there any Olympic ambitions?

00:14:15.320 Is there ice skating in the Olympics?

00:14:16.920 Olympics?

00:14:17.440 I think so.

00:14:18.040 Yes, yes, yes.

00:14:18.640 I was in the Youth Olympics.

00:14:20.560 Okay.

00:14:20.780 I didn't do the Olympic Olympics.

00:14:22.700 Sure.

00:14:22.920 I didn't do the Olympics, yeah.

00:14:23.760 Okay, gotcha.

00:14:24.520 But so, you're 23, and you said you've been single your whole life, never had a boyfriend,

00:14:30.480 never even been on a romantic date.

00:14:32.940 Why do you think that is?

00:14:34.460 I think it's because of my...

00:14:37.260 As you can see, like, I'm just very, like, goal-driven.

00:14:41.300 Like, I've been so occupied throughout my life with just accomplishing things, and I think

00:14:47.000 figure skating definitely took a lot of my, you know, discipline, right?

00:14:51.180 I learned discipline at a very young age, so, like, I remember, like, waking up at 6 a.m.

00:14:56.380 every morning, and I was, like, 7.

00:14:58.340 I was 6 or 7.

00:14:59.660 I woke up at 6 every morning to go hit the skating rink, and then I went straight to school.

00:15:05.000 After school, I went back to the skating rink, did homework in the car, and then repeat.

00:15:08.900 I slept at, like, 8 and repeated again every single day, and this was at 7.

00:15:13.500 Was there, like, piano lessons anywhere in there?

00:15:15.400 Of course.

00:15:15.680 I had piano.

00:15:16.440 Okay.

00:15:16.680 I learned piano.

00:15:17.500 Cello?

00:15:18.380 Any cello?

00:15:19.220 Violin.

00:15:19.820 Piano, violin.

00:15:20.380 Got it.

00:15:21.540 Ballet, gymnastics. 1.00

00:15:23.400 Oh, shit. 1.00

00:15:24.020 Okay. 1.00

00:15:24.500 Track and field.

00:15:25.420 Are you an only child?

00:15:26.940 No.

00:15:27.880 Brother or sister?

00:15:29.140 I have one younger sister, two older brothers.

00:15:31.480 One younger sister.

00:15:32.380 Oh, I misheard that.

00:15:33.640 Did anybody else hear something?

00:15:35.020 I know what you're talking about.

00:15:35.320 What do you even think I said?

00:15:37.280 Never mind.

00:15:38.160 Okay.

00:15:41.000 So, but, okay, so you've been, you said one younger brother, one younger sister?

00:15:45.040 No, one younger sister, two older brothers.

00:15:48.040 Okay.

00:15:48.540 Gotcha.

00:15:48.820 Yeah.

00:15:48.940 So, it sounds like you think you were single because you were incredibly preoccupied.

00:15:56.980 You still are preoccupied.

00:15:58.180 You're very busy with your work and whatnot.

00:16:01.200 What is the longest period of time that you've, I mean, you've seen a guy?

00:16:07.780 You said you've never been on a romantic date, but it's plausible that you could have had like

00:16:11.040 a situationship or something.

00:16:14.200 I guess I was close to like a friend that was a guy for like a little period of time.

00:16:18.720 That's like a pretty reason.

00:16:19.640 Like a friends with benefits or?

00:16:22.500 I wouldn't call it that.

00:16:23.540 I just, it's for me, I categorize you as a friend or not.

00:16:28.480 You know what I mean?

00:16:29.320 Okay.

00:16:29.780 Because I want to like, if I was to put myself down into a relationship, I want to, I guess,

00:16:36.220 because actually like anybody that I meet, this is just my habit.

00:16:40.760 I would like to know them as a friend first because I want to know who they really are

00:16:45.480 as a person, right?

00:16:46.700 Sure.

00:16:47.240 To get to know them.

00:16:48.080 Like, I'm not one.

00:16:48.880 Like, when I see somebody, honestly, the last thing I think about is to sleep with them.

00:16:53.560 You know what I mean?

00:16:54.000 Like, I don't really don't care about that.

00:16:55.780 About sleeping with somebody?

00:16:57.100 Yeah.

00:16:57.520 I don't care about that.

00:16:58.540 Are you waiting until marriage?

00:16:59.420 Um, I want to save myself to like, to my number one person.

00:17:04.220 You know what I mean?

00:17:05.020 So.

00:17:05.380 And you haven't found your number one person yet?

00:17:07.840 Yeah, basically.

00:17:09.080 Okay.

00:17:09.600 So not waiting till marriage, but you want to be in love or someone who you have commitment

00:17:13.380 with or something like that?

00:17:14.900 Yeah, basically.

00:17:15.900 Okay.

00:17:16.160 So you've never hooked up with anybody?

00:17:19.020 Um, I think no.

00:17:21.700 Yes, you have or no you.

00:17:23.500 Okay.

00:17:25.040 Good for you.

00:17:25.920 Good times.

00:17:26.800 Don't hear that every, every day on the show.

00:17:29.060 Oh, congratulations.

00:17:30.300 Um, okay.

00:17:31.760 So never even a date?

00:17:33.920 Because, I mean, you're an attractive girl.

00:17:35.340 I'm sure some guys have shown interest in you, but you just curve them.

00:17:39.640 I've been with, um, I don't know.

00:17:43.400 Every time I go out, it's more with a group of friends.

00:17:45.660 It's not really like to where it's like one-on-one.

00:17:49.880 And kind of also the thing is like I have very protective parents, you know?

00:17:54.020 You still live at home?

00:17:55.140 Yeah, I do.

00:17:55.740 Okay.

00:17:56.020 That's the thing.

00:17:56.680 Protective parents, protective brothers.

00:17:59.060 Mm-hmm.

00:17:59.880 Like, kind of good luck, you know?

00:18:01.160 I mean, like, I know, like, you could probably like me.

00:18:03.320 I'm like, but then I have my mom and dad.

00:18:06.760 Okay.

00:18:06.960 You know, like, yeah.

00:18:08.220 Gotcha.

00:18:09.340 Um, interesting.

00:18:11.580 Okay.

00:18:11.820 So, I mean, what is the, is there any romantic experience you've had in the sense of, I mean, you said you've never been on a date.

00:18:19.680 Has a guy asked you out and you said no?

00:18:21.840 I assume that's happened.

00:18:23.960 Yeah, I guess so.

00:18:24.820 But then I would, like, usually explain to them that I'm into looking to, like, becoming friends first.

00:18:31.460 If that's okay with you, you know?

00:18:33.000 Like, I prefer that way before jumping start into a relationship.

00:18:37.460 Because, like, if I do want to jump start, I kind of, like, want to make sure that, because also the truth is, like, I don't want to break the other person's heart or either my heart, right?

00:18:47.380 Isn't, like, our feelings on the lines?

00:18:49.300 You know what I mean?

00:18:49.580 And, like, if it was to jump into a relationship, I want to know for sure you are my guy and him to know that you are my girl, right?

00:18:58.460 So then, basically, if I was to jump into a relationship, it would lead to marriage, you know?

00:19:03.940 Okay.

00:19:04.320 Yeah.

00:19:04.700 Gotcha.

00:19:05.740 Okay.

00:19:06.180 So, I'm just saying, what about you, Julianne?

00:19:08.920 Well, first, congrats on all your accomplishments.

00:19:12.380 And you have a very good head on your shoulders.

00:19:14.340 And I'm very proud of you.

00:19:15.580 You're 20?

00:19:16.660 23.

00:19:17.380 23?

00:19:17.660 That's awesome.

00:19:19.580 For me, I am currently in a relationship.

00:19:23.520 I'm in my, I have my first relationship, actually.

00:19:26.860 I was very similar to you, where I had never really had a boyfriend.

00:19:31.960 I'm 26 or really gone on a date much until I moved to L.A. two years ago.

00:19:39.820 And I've been with my boyfriend now for seriously, like, in a committed relationship for about four months.

00:19:49.960 So, since the last time I was on the show, I'm still in there.

00:19:53.800 Were you single when you, when you were on the show last?

00:19:56.260 No, I came on and I was like, I'm actually, this is my first relationship ever. 0.99

00:19:59.960 Oh, shit. 0.99

00:20:00.660 Okay. 1.00

00:20:00.880 So, you guys are still together.

00:20:02.280 Uh-huh.

00:20:02.600 Okay, so, and you said it's been about four months.

00:20:05.860 Yes.

00:20:06.580 And that's, that's your first ever anything, or not, maybe not anything, but your first ever relationship.

00:20:12.640 I've had situationships before.

00:20:14.560 Okay.

00:20:15.000 I was very, you and me are very similar.

00:20:17.520 When I first moved to L.A., I was the same.

00:20:19.400 I hadn't really been on a date.

00:20:21.840 Kind of would, you know, talk to people online, stuff like that.

00:20:25.400 But I moved to L.A., and then I started kind of going on dates a little bit more.

00:20:30.940 And, yeah, two years later, I found someone who's.

00:20:34.620 So, is this properly.

00:20:36.120 Sorry to cut you off there.

00:20:37.140 Is this properly a relationship, or is it a situationship?

00:20:40.000 No, this is a relationship.

00:20:40.920 Proper.

00:20:41.380 Okay.

00:20:41.580 So, you guys are committed to each other, exclusive?

00:20:45.280 Yes.

00:20:46.700 Okay, congrats.

00:20:48.060 Thank you.

00:20:48.320 What about you?

00:20:50.800 So, I'm single, and my longest relationship was five years.

00:20:57.500 What was the other question?

00:20:58.620 How long have you been single?

00:21:00.360 Oh, I've been single since October of last year.

00:21:04.300 October of 2022?

00:21:06.760 Yes.

00:21:07.440 Okay.

00:21:07.800 So, what, eight months, nine months-ish?

00:21:10.820 Yeah.

00:21:11.780 Okay.

00:21:12.260 Yeah.

00:21:12.520 Got it.

00:21:13.680 What about you?

00:21:14.620 I'm married.

00:21:17.760 How long have you guys been married?

00:21:19.980 Five years?

00:21:21.080 Probably longer than that.

00:21:22.120 I can't count anymore.

00:21:22.880 Married five years.

00:21:23.880 Six years?

00:21:24.140 Okay, and you're 40, so you got married at 35.

00:21:27.440 Is that right?

00:21:30.760 We've been together for, like, ten years now.

00:21:32.680 Okay, ten years.

00:21:33.820 Got it.

00:21:34.300 Okay.

00:21:34.820 How did you guys meet?

00:21:36.520 I used to watch him play World of Warcraft on Twitch.

00:21:39.300 I was a fan.

00:21:40.600 You used to watch him play World of Warcraft on Twitch.

00:21:44.460 Yeah.

00:21:44.580 Is he, like, a big Twitch streamer?

00:21:45.880 He was, do you know, are you familiar with World of Warcraft?

00:21:49.000 Yeah.

00:21:50.580 Hold on.

00:21:51.240 Did you play?

00:21:51.800 Am I familiar with World of Warcraft?

00:21:54.240 My husband is, do you know about, like, raids and stuff like that?

00:21:58.580 Lich King World First is my husband.

00:22:00.880 He was in Blood Legion.

00:22:02.200 He's eSports.

00:22:03.540 Well, I mean, I'm more of like a, I'm like a classic Andy when it comes to World of Warcraft.

00:22:07.540 Yeah, me too.

00:22:07.640 So I'm not like.

00:22:08.080 I'm a WoW nerd too.

00:22:09.560 I quit kind of before TBC, you know?

00:22:11.900 So, like, not really my thing.

00:22:13.380 Okay.

00:22:14.080 So, okay, he's, do you want to drop his, can you drop his?

00:22:17.760 I mean, he's retired now, but he's Alan on Twitch.

00:22:20.200 He's who?

00:22:20.740 Alan.

00:22:21.220 Alien.

00:22:21.920 Alan on Twitch.

00:22:22.600 He's one of the original four from Justin TV. 1.00

00:22:24.780 Oh, no shit. 1.00

00:22:25.500 Yeah. 0.99

00:22:25.720 That's awesome.

00:22:26.060 So if you are familiar with Twitch and you type the Brokeback emote, that's his face.

00:22:30.020 He's the first Twitch emote that's not stuff.

00:22:32.620 Oh, okay.

00:22:33.440 Wait, so, but he doesn't stream anymore.

00:22:35.380 He's, like, low-key on my stream, but he's, like, retired.

00:22:38.620 He's retired.

00:22:39.220 Okay, gotcha.

00:22:40.620 But does he still play World of Warcraft?

00:22:42.640 No, he plays Lost Ark now, though.

00:22:44.280 Oh, okay.

00:22:44.940 Well, like, you said he was, like, a Chad Raider? 0.81

00:22:48.760 Yeah.

00:22:49.120 When he was, like, playing?

00:22:50.000 He quit that, though, like, in, like, 20.

00:22:53.840 What class did he play?

00:22:55.060 A hunter.

00:22:56.060 He pretty much quit as soon as I moved.

00:22:58.440 Irredeemable.

00:23:00.120 Irredeemable.

00:23:01.060 No, that's cool.

00:23:01.980 Cool, cool.

00:23:02.560 All right.

00:23:03.060 That's very cool.

00:23:03.760 So, but you met him through World of Warcraft.

00:23:06.120 Yeah.

00:23:06.220 So you were watching his streams.

00:23:07.760 So did you, like, how did you, were you already on his realm?

00:23:13.000 No, he, I was in his Twitch chat.

00:23:15.200 Okay. 1.00

00:23:15.460 And someone said, oh, shit, she's a girl. 1.00

00:23:18.060 And he said, let me check her out. 1.00

00:23:20.840 And then he was, like, she's fake.

00:23:22.520 And I said, no, I'm real.

00:23:24.100 He's, like, well, then come see me.

00:23:25.420 So he flew me out that same week to San Diego to come meet him.

00:23:29.700 Wait.

00:23:30.220 Okay.

00:23:30.420 So you were, you were in his Twitch chat.

00:23:32.940 Yes.

00:23:33.100 He was streaming World of Warcraft.

00:23:35.380 Yes.

00:23:35.920 I love this.

00:23:36.380 Yeah.

00:23:36.720 And, oh, I thought, because I thought maybe you also played World of Warcraft.

00:23:41.180 I do play well.

00:23:41.640 I was, I was watching him like a fan would watch.

00:23:43.680 Okay.

00:23:43.920 Sure.

00:23:44.240 But so did you, like, create a character on his realm and, like, send him a whisper?

00:23:48.260 No, no, I didn't.

00:23:48.300 No, no.

00:23:48.520 I was in his Twitch chat talking.

00:23:49.620 You were in his Twitch chat.

00:23:50.600 Okay.

00:23:50.740 Yes.

00:23:51.340 Okay.

00:23:52.260 And so he flew you out a week later.

00:23:54.760 Yeah.

00:23:55.160 And now y'all are married.

00:23:56.740 Yeah.

00:23:56.900 And then we streamed together.

00:23:58.120 Yeah.

00:23:58.340 This was in 2012.

00:23:59.600 This is, that's like the early days of Twitch and stuff.

00:24:02.560 Okay.

00:24:02.800 Wow.

00:24:03.800 Good times.

00:24:04.660 Wow.

00:24:04.940 And then we streamed together for, like, 10 years.

00:24:06.800 And then during COVID, he retired.

00:24:08.900 And now I'm doing all the things.

00:24:11.160 Okay.

00:24:11.580 What, what class did you play in World of Warcraft?

00:24:13.900 I play a prot warrior.

00:24:15.480 Prot?

00:24:16.080 Yeah.

00:24:16.380 Okay.

00:24:16.540 I'm a tank.

00:24:17.120 Tank.

00:24:17.440 Okay.

00:24:17.780 Gotcha. 1.00

00:24:18.540 Good shit. 1.00

00:24:19.300 Okay. 1.00

00:24:19.640 Well, what about you?

00:24:20.580 I'm in a relationship.

00:24:22.460 Relationship?

00:24:22.900 Yeah.

00:24:22.920 For almost two years now.

00:24:24.200 Two years.

00:24:26.080 Okay.

00:24:26.880 And you said you're 20, right?

00:24:28.360 So.

00:24:28.480 20, yeah.

00:24:28.980 Did you guys meet in high school or?

00:24:30.720 I've actually known him since elementary school.

00:24:33.500 He was my brother's friend.

00:24:35.420 Okay.

00:24:35.820 And so he's two years older than me.

00:24:38.240 And in high school, we didn't, like, talk.

00:24:40.780 It was, like, nothing.

00:24:41.860 And then when I graduated is when we kind of just, like, reconnected.

00:24:47.540 And we started dating.

00:24:48.700 And he's my first boyfriend.

00:24:50.100 So.

00:24:51.320 First boyfriend.

00:24:52.200 Yes.

00:24:52.680 Gotcha.

00:24:53.200 Gotcha.

00:24:53.760 Okay.

00:24:54.100 Cool.

00:24:54.780 All right.

00:24:55.040 That's everybody's relationship status.

00:24:56.880 So a couple of you do adult content, right?

00:24:59.060 I believe you, you, you, and you.

00:25:01.580 And then not you.

00:25:02.920 And then not you.

00:25:04.480 Really quick, just because I'm curious.

00:25:07.500 How much do y'all make on the OF?

00:25:13.740 Not enough, but more than Twitch.

00:25:16.140 Because Twitch takes 50% off your subs and stuff.

00:25:20.000 Okay.

00:25:20.600 So, like, range?

00:25:23.060 Like, five figures a month, six figures a month?

00:25:25.960 Let's just say, well, it really depends.

00:25:28.400 But it depends on month, right?

00:25:30.480 Per month.

00:25:31.440 Wait.

00:25:31.700 Do you want just, like, on a web per month?

00:25:34.180 Is that what you're looking for?

00:25:35.620 Mm-hmm.

00:25:36.520 So, like, it can range from, like, 2K and up.

00:25:41.080 Okay.

00:25:43.040 Julia?

00:25:44.520 I do well.

00:25:46.420 I do well.

00:25:48.560 Okay.

00:25:49.100 You do well.

00:25:49.860 All right.

00:25:50.960 Six figures a month.

00:25:52.280 Have you had a six-figure month?

00:25:55.560 Close, but no.

00:25:57.160 Close, but no.

00:25:58.040 What about you?

00:25:59.440 So.

00:26:00.080 A little closer to the mic.

00:26:01.380 Oh, sorry.

00:26:02.020 It's fine.

00:26:03.240 So, I don't do, like, I don't post nude exactly on my homepage.

00:26:10.420 So, I don't make as much on OF as I do streaming.

00:26:14.320 So, streaming's your primary.

00:26:16.300 Okay.

00:26:16.780 Yeah, streaming is my.

00:26:18.360 Got it.

00:26:19.020 Okay.

00:26:20.680 And then, are any of you in, like, the top percent, you know, top 0.1?

00:26:26.920 0.69.

00:26:28.060 Like, the gamber at the level?

00:26:30.040 Yeah.

00:26:30.920 But isn't that, like, doesn't that include all accounts on the platform?

00:26:35.640 Like, that includes people that don't even make content, right?

00:26:38.160 They say that that percentage is based also on engagement.

00:26:42.220 It's not all monetary.

00:26:43.780 So, like, if you have likes and stuff like that and not necessarily tips and stuff like that, it can boost your percentage.

00:26:50.660 So, if you were, like, if someone was only making, say, like, $300 a month on OnlyFans, would that put them in, like, the top 2% or something?

00:26:59.440 Probably.

00:26:59.900 No, that would be, like, top 6%.

00:27:01.760 Yeah.

00:27:02.160 Top 6%.

00:27:02.820 That's still, I mean.

00:27:03.880 That's pretty easy.

00:27:04.640 Top 6%.

00:27:05.520 That's nothing to scoff at.

00:27:06.800 Majority of people have a hard time monetizing from friendly sites, for sure.

00:27:11.260 Okay.

00:27:11.720 Yeah.

00:27:12.400 Yeah, that kind of reminds me of, I mean, I guess, I'm sure the girls that are, like, top 0.1% are making good money. 1.00

00:27:19.940 Yeah.

00:27:20.180 But, like, I feel like people that try to claim, and I don't know if they do this, they'll claim top 5%.

00:27:25.640 It's, like, people who are self-employed, who have no employees or one employee, who call themselves CEO.

00:27:32.680 It's, like, you're not a CEO, you know?

00:27:34.880 True.

00:27:35.520 I don't know. 0.99

00:27:35.800 You guys probably see dudes who are, like, I'm a fucking CEO. 0.99

00:27:38.120 Yeah. 0.99

00:27:38.200 It's, like, no, you're not.

00:27:39.200 Well, like, for example, you can take Amaranth as an example.

00:27:42.100 She was very open about it.

00:27:43.320 She actually makes around 1 mil per month. 1.00

00:27:46.840 Oh, yeah.

00:27:47.500 From her.

00:27:48.080 Yeah.

00:27:48.400 OnlyFans alone.

00:27:49.420 Oh, yeah.

00:27:50.020 Exactly.

00:27:50.840 Yeah, she's doing good.

00:27:52.260 Yeah, she's rolling. 0.99

00:27:52.980 She's probably one of the popular ones, yeah.

00:27:54.460 She's doing good.

00:27:55.740 Okay.

00:27:56.800 Let's see.

00:27:57.540 I had, I think I had something here that I wanted to ask.

00:28:01.120 Let's see.

00:28:03.300 So, on your Instagram, you're in a relationship right now.

00:28:08.600 When are you going to post your boyfriend?

00:28:10.080 Because it's been four months.

00:28:12.040 Are you watching my stories every day?

00:28:13.720 Because you would see him.

00:28:14.740 No, I don't watch your, I mean.

00:28:16.400 I need you to stop my account hard, Brian.

00:28:18.340 I took five minutes to look at it before the show, so.

00:28:23.180 I don't see your boyfriend anywhere.

00:28:24.780 What's up?

00:28:25.400 He's there.

00:28:26.040 I post him on my stories.

00:28:26.740 No, okay, on your story, but are you ever going to post him in the actual, like, a little

00:28:31.860 photo, you know?

00:28:32.680 Yeah, I think when we, we're planning on traveling a bit, so I'm down to, like, do, because the

00:28:39.600 content that I post is very.

00:28:42.220 You?

00:28:43.100 Yeah, but it's, like, an aesthetic.

00:28:44.360 Like, it's, like, a majority of my photos, it's something I would want to be able to

00:28:49.220 be painted and put on a wall, if that makes sense.

00:28:51.760 Like, it's more of an aesthetic, like, female body art vibe, and so, yeah, for sure. 0.99

00:28:57.040 I'm down to, I've taken photos of him and stuff like that.

00:29:01.700 Does he post to you on his Instagram?

00:29:04.560 Does he have an Instagram?

00:29:05.880 Yeah, but he does a lot of fitness content, so his business is, like, centered around

00:29:10.580 that, so.

00:29:11.180 Sure, okay.

00:29:12.020 So, majority of his content is, like, him working out.

00:29:14.060 I think we've done one video together, and I shared it, too, of us, like, working out

00:29:18.460 together, because I'm a fit girl, too.

00:29:21.740 Are you going to create OF content with him?

00:29:24.900 I already have.

00:29:25.940 Oh, you have?

00:29:26.700 Yeah.

00:29:26.920 Okay.

00:29:27.460 Have you done content with guys in the past, or is this the first time you've done BG content?

00:29:31.800 Good lingo.

00:29:34.700 You got the lingo, Tom.

00:29:35.980 Yeah, I'm trying to avoid, I'm trying to, yeah, I'm trying to avoid, you know?

00:29:39.800 Yeah, this is my first time.

00:29:41.520 Okay.

00:29:43.240 I didn't plan on doing it, either.

00:29:45.300 Who has more followers?

00:29:47.000 You or him?

00:29:48.340 Oh, my gosh.

00:29:50.320 Come on now, bro.

00:29:51.640 I'm just doing the calculus of, uh...

00:29:54.320 We both have good platforms.

00:29:58.260 We both...

00:29:59.440 Who makes more money? 0.99

00:30:00.820 You or him?

00:30:01.800 We both do well, Brian.

00:30:04.400 It's you, isn't it?

00:30:05.520 You're digging.

00:30:06.680 You make more money, right?

00:30:09.300 We both do well.

00:30:10.460 Okay.

00:30:10.900 Fair enough.

00:30:11.900 Fair enough.

00:30:13.720 Okay.

00:30:14.540 So, I think, and maybe we'll touch on this a little later on in the show.

00:30:19.100 Last show, you said...

00:30:20.780 Actually, I don't want to go there.

00:30:22.960 Go in.

00:30:23.800 Well, you said that you used to be...

00:30:27.800 Larger.

00:30:30.140 Yeah.

00:30:30.380 Previously.

00:30:31.160 But then you got, like, on this fitness kick, and you got super into shape.

00:30:37.560 I don't know where I'm really going with that.

00:30:40.120 It's there.

00:30:40.940 Just take a second.

00:30:41.720 Is there a photo?

00:30:42.380 Is there a photo on your Instagram?

00:30:44.640 Not my Instagram, but on my Facebook, I have, like, photos from high school.

00:30:47.900 But when you say you were, like, bigger, like, were you obese, or just, like, a little...

00:30:52.720 Oh, hold on just a second.

00:30:53.580 That's underscore X donated $100 and 69 cents.

00:30:58.600 Brian, good to you see that aren't stressed out like a mofo and that the panel is in good faith. 1.00

00:31:03.940 Great to see Julia back. 1.00

00:31:05.480 I missed the 40 is the new 26 vibes.

00:31:09.140 Figure skater chick, do you like opera?

00:31:10.920 Do you like opera?

00:31:15.880 Opera?

00:31:16.560 Yeah.

00:31:16.800 I'm listening to opera.

00:31:17.640 He wants to take you to the opera.

00:31:19.660 Do you accept his invitation?

00:31:23.240 Who is he?

00:31:23.720 He's the guy, bad ZXC, in the chat. 0.61

00:31:29.840 He should be...

00:31:30.960 You might have to do an Instagram review, buddy.

00:31:33.380 Okay.

00:31:34.160 Would that be a good first date, though?

00:31:37.720 Honestly, I'm into the weird.

00:31:39.820 Like, I don't mind.

00:31:40.600 The Destroyer donated $100.

00:31:42.540 $77777777777777777777777777777777777777777777777777777777777

00:32:05.640 Bro, what?

00:32:08.360 Who keeps doing this?

00:32:10.320 name 10 books okay so badzxe would he's invited you for an opera date do you accept honestly

00:32:25.200 i'm kind of open like i feel like i've kind of like trapped myself for a bit you know you've

00:32:30.520 trapped yourself as in like kind of like not not like giving guys a chance right because like i

00:32:39.140 always okay maybe it's my habit friend zoning someone you know i mean so maybe so you're ready

00:32:46.120 to mingle not mingle let's just talk you know get to know who you are i'm okay with that she's ready

00:32:52.100 to start a conversation wait you friend zoned so you friend zoned a lot of guys is that what what's

00:32:56.700 up yeah i guess you could see how many men oh sorry go ahead honestly like only because like i'm so

00:33:04.180 busy with my work to where i feel like i would like do i feel bad like just giving in like

00:33:09.840 i don't know 30 of my time you know what i mean if it was to jump into like dating i feel like you both

00:33:17.520 have to be set in your career to where you could date like 100 is what i feel okay um how many guys

00:33:26.020 would you say you've friend zoned quite a bit like 100 plus 200 a thousand like give us a number

00:33:35.720 my dams are a lot should i say like well i don't know if can you count just a random dude dming you

00:33:45.100 as a like friend zoning that like if you turn them down is that a friend zone probably not

00:33:48.760 friend zone or you mean like a connection with i mean i'd say a friend zone there would at least be

00:33:52.500 some in-person connection whether it was a guy meeting you on somewhere in the public or at a

00:34:00.920 bar yeah probably i don't know if you do that thousands and thousands of plus thousands and

00:34:05.480 thousands but friend but friend zoning isn't necessarily like a bad thing yeah because it

00:34:11.860 doesn't mean you're stuck there that's the thing yeah that's why you're kind of stuck there no no

00:34:16.200 no you're stuck in the friend zone there's no getting out of the friend zone not at all it depends

00:34:20.340 on the duration but this is good like i feel like like i'm talking to my younger self a little bit

00:34:25.440 talking to you because i always thought that like i'm never gonna find someone like immediately it's

00:34:30.860 the immediate attraction and like yeah like if i'm not into them right away like no if like someone

00:34:36.380 came to me and they were like into me and i was kind of attracted to them like that would be the

00:34:40.180 person but literally like how i got into a relationship was it was somebody i got to know their values and

00:34:45.720 who they were as a person and obviously they were attractive but it was just friends and then

00:34:50.640 now we have such a sturdy foundation but i think you bring up a good point you had the initial

00:34:55.760 attraction but you had the initial attraction i feel like if you didn't have the initial attraction

00:35:00.560 they would be in a friend zone and stuck there i don't think they'll be able to get out i didn't

00:35:05.520 have the initial no because there's different types of attraction there's the like holy shit i want 0.67

00:35:09.920 to rip your clothes off right now attraction and then there's like that he's super cute and has a good

00:35:13.920 body and i'm not gonna lie and i haven't told my boyfriend this like i was like i always thought

00:35:19.300 you were attractive never in a million years did i think we'd be right here and he even felt the same

00:35:22.720 way about me doing bg content on of hell yeah okay

00:35:27.700 okay she's like can't relate to that part

00:35:33.780 for me it's like just that term friends i'm like i don't even like saying that term it's more like can

00:35:39.520 you just be friends first you mean like that's why i like to stay and like kind of get to know who

00:35:42.780 you are i but i think there's a difference between let's try to be friends first and friend zoning

00:35:49.040 i think friend zoning is like it's pretty apparent it's pretty apparent that there's no like you're

00:35:55.340 not attracted to them and i suppose it's plausible maybe they level up or maybe the woman's 0.99

00:36:00.260 circumstances change where they're like oh fuck i'm 35 i'm desperate as you know whatever the fuck 0.88

00:36:05.180 it is no no offense to anybody um but like uh whereas to start as friends is like 0.99

00:36:12.020 he's he's attractive let's see yeah yeah i guess you could say i think that's terrible though i think

00:36:17.560 that's i'm not i don't agree with starting as friends i think it should be romantic

00:36:20.760 from the start yeah really because i just feel for me i feel like i feel like you always need some

00:36:27.960 sort of foundation to even continue a relationship like don't you want your like significant other to

00:36:33.960 be like technically your best friend i feel like it turns into that like the more you date but like

00:36:39.220 if you're it's always every time like you're friends with like the person you might like be dating

00:36:45.080 it's like oh but we don't want to ruin our friendship and it always that's like that's always said i i don't

00:36:51.580 think your approach is wrong i'm just saying i my personal view is i don't i don't think uh i i don't

00:36:58.780 think it's necessary to start as friends okay so what would you call them yeah what do you mean

00:37:04.940 as in like if you see a guy and then you just like you see him like what would you call him

00:37:11.200 friendly you're friendly but you're like flirting well it depends what your your goals are i mean it

00:37:17.300 says like i mean you're remind me did you say you were religious or not not religious i'm catholic

00:37:23.440 you're catholic okay um so and you didn't as far as i recall you didn't say you are waiting till

00:37:30.740 marriage yeah i want to wait you want to wait till you're in love but not till you're married yeah

00:37:36.160 till i'm love yeah okay okay but marriage is not necessary no marriage is not necessary how strictly

00:37:42.720 catholic are you i'm a straight catholic but okay not like not wait till marriage not to like to the

00:37:49.040 pedestal yeah you know to the top tier yeah not like that okay so as far as how you would start off

00:37:57.460 with a guy but not start just being friends i mean because there's a difference between hanging out

00:38:04.680 someone who's a friend and hanging out someone that you want to pursue things with romantically

00:38:11.560 now that doesn't mean that you have to immediately have sex with them that can that can wait but

00:38:17.680 yeah yeah i understand so would you call it like a situationship like what would you call that no it

00:38:21.580 doesn't even have to be a situationship but there can be there can be a clear there could be a very

00:38:26.580 clear understanding by both parties that yeah this is a romantic relationship not a platonic

00:38:31.800 relationship yeah like we are dating each other and as far as like the even if you're waiting

00:38:38.940 however long to become intimate you know that's that's another conversation i think like your

00:38:45.400 guys's view on like friends and like ours maybe a little bit skewed and that's what's like i think

00:38:49.660 we all agree but it's the friends like the definition of friends like for me uh i was going to a gym

00:38:56.000 that my boyfriend started and he was training there he trained me and that's how i got to know

00:39:00.620 bradley martin is that your boyfriend no no all right that's how uh i got to know him okay and so

00:39:06.280 of course it was a professional environment we're friends it's not like i'm like going and eating

00:39:10.780 lunch with him and like we're like besties you know but it's friendly and so maybe that's kind

00:39:14.940 of what you mean i think that's it's friendly and it's a it's in a situation where i get to see this

00:39:21.240 person's values and get to know him and at his core yes opposed to like him coming up to me and being

00:39:26.540 like hey like what's your number like let's go to dinner like it was just it was it's not like we're

00:39:32.060 friends but it was friendly so yeah so friendly so the relationship got to develop okay yeah yeah

00:39:37.940 would you still put a label like as friendly just like for friends or like because like i'm friendly

00:39:42.740 with you guys i feel like we're not but you're not we're not friends i mean yeah but there's no

00:39:48.260 potential that you might date one of us it's kind of like that well it's like when you're seeing

00:39:52.720 someone who's friendly a guy right you're like okay i'm kind of interested in him like more than just

00:39:58.720 friends like romantically right so i do find some sort of attraction not like rip your clothes off

00:40:04.280 but some sort of attraction you know and it's like yeah you just try to get to know each other you kind

00:40:09.060 of flirt and stuff like that and then once you're like okay this is actually a cool person then you

00:40:13.820 move on to like let's be actually like romantic romantic yeah but i wasn't used to like what i was

00:40:19.440 used to is like a guy would ask me out and i think he was like hot and then i'd get to know him

00:40:24.220 and like see what his values were like what i did differently this time and what landed me in a

00:40:28.020 relationship that i actually see a future a long long future with is the fact that we were friendly

00:40:33.720 and i got to know his values were so attractive to me that like i wanted more of it and i was like

00:40:40.000 and he's really cute but that wasn't the cute and like the looks was not the initial thing yes i'm a

00:40:45.300 personality person so it's like really hard for me yeah i think we're like it was just yeah she

00:40:50.780 understands me i don't i don't care how cute you are like we are if your personality is not there

00:40:55.960 it's not for me not for me personality is huge well i mean yeah true i think i think that's the case

00:41:03.780 but i mean would you agree that the looks have to be there oh no to begin with no no yes no no

00:41:10.880 anyone that says no is not the cap but like no there has there has to be an initial like attraction

00:41:17.460 there has to be i'm like 100 a personality person i am you say that okay no why wouldn't you find

00:41:24.280 attractive because of your personality hold on let me look up alan here let's see he's probably he's 0.80

00:41:29.440 probably a giga chad listen i'm not gonna lie though like sex is a very large part of a relationship 0.72

00:41:35.360 and like you have to be physically attracted no but like the thing is like it can be so good that 0.62

00:41:40.660 it like it just changes the game it does like i'm not gonna lie that's a giga chad right there 0.89

00:41:44.920 he's a handsome guy he's a handsome guy i mean that first off he's making a ridiculous face

00:41:50.580 that that's not a fair i'm sure he's a very handsome i can't even find him on who am i i don't know okay

00:41:57.660 in any case alan zoka no it's not alan zoka no okay there's another alan on twitch apparently i can't

00:42:03.440 alan okay alan okay well in any case um i think attraction does play a role like uh you know if

00:42:12.920 you don't find a guy attractive when he approaches you sometimes you're kind of like i kind of don't

00:42:18.740 want to even talk to you i feel like there has to be some sort of level of like all right you're kind

00:42:23.120 of cute yeah well i just feel like you say you're a personality person and so don't you find them

00:42:29.300 attractive because of their personality 100 so it's like they build that they build that all up

00:42:35.040 for me it's like their personality just makes them even more exactly because i fall for a guy's

00:42:40.660 funny right but i genuinely have this thing and i looked it up and i forget what the name of it is

00:42:46.480 and maybe you guys relate where like i could see anyone could walk down the street and my friends

00:42:51.500 would literally be like holy shit that guy is so hot and i'm like not even like notice and then i get to 0.62

00:42:57.480 know someone i'm like wow he's so hot what the fuck like or just has like attractive energy like 0.99

00:43:03.660 not like physical like sexiness but just like he pulls you in he's got that riz right i feel like 0.98

00:43:09.480 the physical attraction is good for like okay maybe i'll give this person a chance but like personality

00:43:14.240 plays a role in i want to actually like potentially date them like it elevates them yeah so i don't think

00:43:20.380 you can necessarily completely avoid the physical attraction yeah but how many girls will ignore red flags 1.00

00:43:26.680 if a guy is exceptionally attractive like you often get any like you'll see you'll see people

00:43:32.600 who say talking about me right now well you'll see for example you'll you'll see these uh either

00:43:37.500 tiktok videos or you'll hear it from from women themselves and look men do this too but if if he's 0.98

00:43:43.720 over six three like i'm gonna start ignoring red flags like that that type of shit like girls will 1.00

00:43:48.760 overlook certain negative personality characteristics if a guy is exceptionally attractive and certainly i think men 0.97

00:43:54.980 will do that too like if a girl is really fucking hot a lot of dudes if if the chick if she's kind of 1.00

00:44:00.580 bitchy or whatever they might be like ah yeah she's kind of i mean i think that's i don't think men 1.00

00:44:05.600 should do that but there are men out there who will disregard so for example say a woman who's kind of 0.97

00:44:10.680 bitchy uh they'll disregard that if she's really hot they'll tolerate it for an unaware individual yeah 1.00

00:44:16.360 for sure you could do that with personality too like i don't mean to like talk my husband down

00:44:20.400 because he's amazing and i love him to death but like you can overlook certain things physically too

00:44:25.420 my husband's five five like based wait how tall are you i'm five three okay all right two inches but

00:44:32.140 i wear like five i'm literally wearing like five inch shoes yeah but he's like he has king energy

00:44:36.940 though yeah i mean he's it sounds like he's like a giga chad world of warcraft player so like i mean

00:44:41.740 it makes sense he hasn't played wow in forever it makes sense that doesn't define him okay fair enough

00:44:46.100 um but you were saying that that does apply to you like you'll ignore red flags if the guy's

00:44:52.720 really attractive and i mean look i think um girls know if their dtf went like immediate almost 1.00

00:45:01.000 immediately i think it's more so in my mind i'm like i can change him even though i know that's like

00:45:06.220 toxic and i shouldn't that's my toxic toxic trait is i feel like oh i can change him but like there's

00:45:13.420 this one guy who took me out for valentine's day and he literally told me first date um i've broken

00:45:20.600 up with every girl that i've ever dated and my longest relationship was six months and i was like

00:45:24.780 oh okay and i still you know when's our second date yeah yeah when's our second date i had i had sex

00:45:32.100 with him for like two months and then he ended things with me and i was like super sad about it but i was

00:45:37.140 like you know but were you just like with him for sex or were you like actually ready to date date he

00:45:45.820 like love bombed me like he was telling me oh you know i don't want to abandon you like i want to

00:45:51.360 um meet all your needs i like you to the point where it scares me blah blah blah and i was like oh okay

00:45:59.200 but but then i should have known from the start because of what he said so yeah i don't know i like

00:46:07.520 just going back to the whole friend thing i don't think that you're going to be able to friend your way

00:46:11.400 into romance into like turning a girl on or moving it into a romantic thing yeah there's a spark

00:46:21.380 there's gotta be a spark yeah no i feel like once your friend's out you won't be able to escape it

00:46:26.260 sorry sorry repeat that yeah i think if you're as a guy if you're in a friend zone you're gonna be 0.90

00:46:32.060 stuck in a friend zone i don't think you can actually yeah i think you're fucking done yeah 0.99

00:46:35.340 it's better to move on something big would have to happen to get exactly yeah so you have to be like 1.00

00:46:39.960 friendly but never get into a friend zone if you're friends on you're fucked you're done you won't be 0.98

00:46:45.300 able to actually move into a romantic relationship with the girl yeah i disagree well look it's so 0.77

00:46:51.520 circumstantial it's possible look it's possible to get out of the friend zone however i think the the

00:46:57.520 practically speaking it's better to just find another girl as a guy like it's just play the

00:47:04.040 numbers game for sure but it's not it's not uh if the girl actually has like uh isn't aware human 1.00

00:47:11.480 being and actually has more substance to her than just what she looks like then you can definitely

00:47:15.440 friend zone isn't like like but you have to have shit going on for you too and you guys have to 0.63

00:47:21.480 match up lifestyle wise and there's more to it but yeah like i don't say friends and like i friend

00:47:27.360 someone only because i'm always traveling like i cannot like i could barely see you you know i mean

00:47:32.380 i probably will see you like once in four months like i can't i can't be how much are you traveling

00:47:38.840 i travel a lot and i also run an international business so what's the business uh i run uh

00:47:45.720 supermarkets throughout asia so you run supermarkets yeah i'm a business girl my whole family do it all

00:47:51.900 asian countries vietnam just throughout asia china east east asia vietnam yes vietnam laos yeah all over

00:47:59.600 there how's thailand looking yep philippines philippines all down there you are you the owner uh is this

00:48:07.260 like a family business or like oh it's my brother and i started it and then we kind of branched out

00:48:12.220 to my parents so then we all take care of it it's a supermarket what is it grocery stores or like

00:48:17.360 convenience what do you sell just food just it's like a normal it's not like a niche like you import

00:48:23.760 american food no no no okay it's not like okay specialty things okay and but so it's your family's

00:48:29.740 business or you said you and your brother started it yeah okay so that's why we're always so busy

00:48:35.560 just a question so you're you're 23 yes and in your only i mean i don't know when you start when

00:48:44.540 did you start the business five years ago when you were 18 probably like six years ago so you were 17

00:48:50.880 yeah i was like right right after skating yeah in this so in a six-year period you've you've managed to

00:48:59.420 build a multi-country what's the term for that a multi-country successful international is it is it

00:49:08.400 is it international it is yeah if it's outside of the right it's pan pacific wait pan pacific

00:49:15.300 that would include

00:49:16.100 what's the term there's like a specific term but 33 he's 33 and he's he's a pharmacist right now he's a 0.99

00:49:25.900 pharmacist he's a pharmacist yeah bro how do you have how do you have time for all this shit 0.99

00:49:29.380 you're an ice skater i'm telling you i don't have time give me a time management course 0.99

00:49:34.440 but wait so okay hold on how many how many individual stores do you own like hundreds like a lot

00:49:43.600 hundreds yeah how do you in a i mean most business i mean how do you have time they own it they don't

00:49:50.380 run it you know what i mean like they have people running for sure i'm sure you have yeah there's

00:49:55.260 there's a hierarchy there's managers probably the siblings are but i i've never heard i mean i i don't

00:50:02.540 know how uh efficient you guys are but for a business that just started six years ago to have

00:50:07.320 to be established in multiple uh countries and have over a hundred stores is did you take over in a

00:50:16.120 pre-existing business um it's i guess you could say like my because my brother he has friends like

00:50:24.060 it's kind of like when you kind of grow because it's like him and his friend they had an idea yeah

00:50:29.780 so then it branched out basically ideas clashed and did you did you do acquisitions of pre-existing

00:50:36.280 stores yeah you'd take over you'd take over a store that's already there okay i see yeah are you

00:50:42.300 able to share the name of this and if i'm ever if i'm ever in family things like my brother's

00:50:49.720 gonna kill me i was gonna say if i was ever in uh if i was ever in uh he's like a hacker and

00:50:56.060 everything i'm like if i was ever in ho chi min i'll fucking stop by your grocery store and buy 0.98

00:51:01.480 some shit i'll be a patron of your store i go to ho chi min yeah what are the best goods you don't 0.97

00:51:07.420 think so what are the best candy no is it still called is it promotion is it still called ho chi ho chi 0.99

00:51:11.720 minh city that's the capital right of vietnam yeah they call it ho chi minh yeah sweet yeah

00:51:17.160 okay good job used to be saigon used to be saigon but yeah it used to be saigon yeah uh okay actually

00:51:23.800 my parents they escaped from the vietnam war like we we didn't grow you know i mean you're vietnamese

00:51:29.540 yeah yeah they escaped from the vietnamese on vietnam war yeah um i remember they had to leave

00:51:36.620 their parents behind my dad he basically um he went to the shelter camp he remembered he had to

00:51:44.400 leave his dog i think his friends all are like he had like 10 people on the boat i think only

00:51:50.840 two survived him and someone else and the rest wow gone yeah i mean that's that's certainly the story

00:51:57.380 of a lot of vietnamese american immigrants i mean that's it was uh they were escaping the vietnam war so

00:52:03.000 um but i mean well i don't want to dig too far but i mean that's quite uh i mean to in a six-year

00:52:09.820 time period to scale up a business uh to have be in multiple countries and have hundreds of stores

00:52:17.240 that's that's quite remarkable so i'm not surprised that you're quite busy but so you're traveling most

00:52:22.260 of the year you're also doing modeling and yeah and acting um so you're you're 23 do you want the

00:52:29.300 family at down the road for sure you want to have kids yeah um how long do you want i mean you're

00:52:37.200 still young but i mean do you think that being do you have any intentions at some point in your 20s to

00:52:44.800 scale back how much time you're you're putting towards your enterprises your business making money

00:52:51.840 and pursuing like putting more towards actually trying to pursue a relationship um i think probably

00:53:00.220 within the next like maybe one or two more years and i'll start committing into a relationship okay

00:53:06.860 all right gotcha yeah so give me like a few more years okay so you're you'd have time once once a

00:53:14.740 month once every four months to hang out with a guy currently no like i i feel like

00:53:21.340 like is that what you said like once every four months like to like guy like i do like you know

00:53:26.260 what i mean like you'll make time yeah it's it's so hard that's the thing it's really hard to even

00:53:31.960 make time okay for like someone that you do potentially think yeah okay once she makes her

00:53:40.680 multi-millionaires she'll be able to like you know dedicate time to actually go on the dates and

00:53:45.780 pursue a relationship seriously for sure from what i feel like i'll know when i'm ready yeah

00:53:51.100 you know got it uh okay gotcha so uh let's get a couple chats here we have from tj king

00:53:57.800 ladies would you smash kratos like kratos from like what is god of war kratos is that right is 1.00

00:54:05.320 that kratos what is there kratos in god of war i'm not i'm not sure who uh kratos is but

00:54:09.700 unfortunately i don't know any of those terms yeah i don't know who that is um oops let me hide

00:54:16.720 that okay we have uh tj king here i don't sorry tj i don't know if they know who that is uh what is

00:54:23.480 the benefits the man gets from being friend zoned and that's from tj king hey thank you so much man

00:54:27.620 appreciate the uh soup chat what is the benefits the man gets from being friend zoned well i'll let

00:54:32.600 the ladies answer this sure first i can go uh no no benefit zero zero benefit here's the deal i 1.00

00:54:40.660 feel like no no no no hold on companionship no no no you have more value than just what you

00:54:45.700 like yeah no no no here's the deal though i feel like uh this guy who's asking most likely he doesn't

00:54:52.780 want to be in the friend zone right he actually wants to be romantically involved and i am going to

00:54:58.000 be from my perspective a girl knows right away who she's willing to date and who she's actually

00:55:05.120 friend zoning so in my opinion if you're friend zone i feel like it's pretty much closely impossible

00:55:10.580 to get out of the friend zone so um if you're thinking oh potentially we might become romantically

00:55:16.300 involved i think you're wasting your time okay but you get their friendship forever so like if you

00:55:22.900 really like her that much wouldn't you want to be in her life forever i think a guy who's romantically

00:55:25.740 interested in you is not really interested in friends or like if having friendships with you

00:55:30.960 because he's actually just wants to romantically date you i would disagree there's a bunch of people

00:55:36.640 in my kick chat that would love to just like talk to me every day and be friends with me i would be

00:55:42.620 careful because that's a parasocial relationship we're talking about so but isn't like isn't friend

00:55:48.340 zone just a parasocial relationship in real life kind of no i don't think the person that gets

00:55:54.200 friend zone should have their all their eggs in one basket on this one girl but like if you have 1.00

00:55:59.820 like you care about her yeah leave her in your life but like you do need to go out and pursue

00:56:03.840 other people because that you're just she's clearly stating or stating her boundaries and showing her

00:56:09.940 boundaries and so you should also like be aware of that and respect that i think but well said yeah

00:56:14.500 i feel like that's what the benefit would be from being friend zoned um is just not being with that

00:56:20.640 girl then because how is that a benefit i would say because then you can go find someone that's

00:56:25.880 actually gonna like obviously she doesn't want you you can go find somebody that actually wants you

00:56:30.300 will respect you and you won't have to wait in the friend zone forever you've been freed yeah

00:56:34.600 you're free now like you sure there's no way that you're gonna get in so like yeah you are now

00:56:40.460 like lose that attraction and go find somebody here's one thing that i would come back to you with

00:56:44.880 though i feel like if you're friend zoned right as a guy you're romantically attracted to the

00:56:49.600 girl right but she doesn't isn't interested in you romantically so what if she starts talking to 1.00

00:56:55.180 you about her current boyfriends that she's dating the guys that she's interested in if she's flirts 0.98

00:57:00.860 with other guys in front of you and stuff like that wouldn't that hurt you and like it kind of will

00:57:05.720 bring your confidence level down because i've been in situations where i had a crush on a guy but

00:57:11.040 you know he he wasn't interested back in me or whatever and like seeing him with other people

00:57:16.460 kind of hurt me and so i just feel like in that case it's better to actually just split off and

00:57:23.320 just try to pursue other ladies yeah just so you're not wasting your time you're not killing

00:57:29.600 your confidence you know absolutely i wouldn't stay friends honest i yeah you're not my friend

00:57:34.140 anymore are you friends on me but actually we're just not friends anymore at all i i kind of agree with

00:57:37.900 yeah word okay we have we have uh uh thank you for the dono man ladies name three countries besides 0.53

00:57:47.940 the u.s mexico or canada no repeating other people's answers okay go switzerland france and 0.97

00:57:53.940 uh new zealand okay vietnam thai thailand and china okay uh geography was uh what the fuck just fell 0.98

00:58:04.480 off of you my brain's off just kidding hold on uh what about you go ahead nicaragua uh colombia 0.93

00:58:14.320 chile how many three three uh norway denmark uh i think there's another scandinavian country

00:58:25.080 iceland oh okay i don't even really want to attempt to try russia you got this you got this

00:58:32.880 that's one russia okay ukraine is that like kind of yeah there you go russia ukraine okay one more

00:58:39.860 europe europe did someone say that already um that is a continent yeah that is a continent you

00:58:47.080 meant to say egypt that's i think what you meant i got the two i'll say two out of three yeah for

00:58:51.280 sure for sure what about you julia

00:58:54.080 three countries go quick quick quick you got this i believe in you i honestly don't even know what was

00:59:03.200 currently said just name three countries yeah but i don't know what these other everyone else

00:59:08.980 already said just throw three out i did northern europe even even if you copy she did uh she did

00:59:14.460 some asian countries asian so you've got you've got africa africa's wide open of countries africa's

00:59:21.280 wide open middle east here middle east is open any african country is yours for the taking uh not

00:59:28.800 literally because that would be colonization okay okay um let's see oceanic countries are open too

00:59:35.460 well i don't know i don't know if they're a country or not but like it's go for it is haiti

00:59:39.680 yeah yeah haiti yep one um padre islands is that a country i those islands the padre most likely

00:59:47.860 their territories so yeah what else you got two more we believe in you is saudi arabia yep well done

00:59:55.840 and you got this julia you got this you got this you got this beautiful well done all right you guys

01:00:07.340 all passed congratulations congratulations and we have curtis here uh curtis says elizabeth can you read

01:00:14.520 this one okay to elizabeth you're a very beautiful a pretty lady my question is hold on you're putting

01:00:24.120 words in his sentence how dare you how dare you please here let me pull it up again go ahead

01:00:30.120 here we go okay to elizabeth you're a very pretty lady my question is because of all of your

01:00:37.080 accomplishments in life so far do you feel like it will intimidate men and make it harder

01:00:42.380 good question sad sad sad to say but yes well i don't yes i don't think you're going to intimidate

01:00:53.060 men is the thing i think that for example i mean would you you're a successful woman would you want 0.90

01:00:59.900 for a partner maybe a guy who you eventually date or marry would you want a guy who uh in terms of his

01:01:06.900 success is at least as successful as you or more i like a guy that has ambitions right i like a guy

01:01:14.040 that's driven has a goal in mind because honestly that's that's like sexy to me like seeing a guy that

01:01:20.240 has a goal in life and seeing him achieve it sure that's attractive to me but then like you don't have

01:01:27.380 to be on my level you know i mean like you don't have to accomplish that much but like just seeing

01:01:31.100 the process of it is nice okay what what is your level by the way you make a million over a mil a

01:01:39.900 year what's the boss babe status millionaire i guess well okay millionaire that's a little different

01:01:46.860 but how much i mean how much do you make a year range you don't have to say exact more that you make

01:01:52.040 more uh six seven figures a year um yeah eight figures probably like you make eight figures a 0.92

01:02:00.520 year oh shit wait can i ask you get me on those flights with you is it you specifically making 0.96

01:02:05.920 that money or is it your family so like you don't necessarily see that money i the thing is no matter 0.99

01:02:12.100 what job that i book that's the thing of my family it's like all of our money comes together you

01:02:19.740 know what i mean yeah because like my family support is very you know i mean my family's a

01:02:24.380 tight bond that's pretty based like it's pretty like anything that i book like with american horror

01:02:29.940 story or with maxim or estee lauder all that that paycheck i'm like mom this is yours like i give it

01:02:37.320 to my mom you give it to your mom yeah what bank accounts like you guys all share a bank account then

01:02:41.980 and like have a yeah like we have access to wow to the what what do you do to your hand by the way

01:02:48.140 you got a band-aid on your hand did you get in a fight with somebody or what's up i cut myself

01:02:52.880 wow that's i'm just like do we need to call like a line for you or something

01:02:57.840 no i'm a tough girl don't worry if you get married are you gonna send a prenup

01:03:02.520 um you're gonna sign a prenup you're gonna have a print like what if guys she hasn't even gotten

01:03:07.440 her serious relationship yet

01:03:08.700 you guys are you both interested or what's going on over here your family has wealth right and you're

01:03:20.980 saying yeah i would date a guy with ambitious but not on the same level as me so he doesn't

01:03:24.960 necessarily have to be like a multi-millionaire so if you were to marry would you send a prenup

01:03:29.900 um i don't know i know i don't know i think i'm like i haven't thought about that elizabeth

01:03:40.000 if if i were to marry you if i were to marry you if i were to propose to you right let's say let's

01:03:46.720 say i propose to you would and and let's say you're earning more than me if you're you're saying

01:03:51.140 you're making eight figures a year you're earning more than me is there gonna be a prenup between us

01:03:57.060 is there gonna be a prenup sorry bads slide i'm okay is there a prenup because i'm listen if you

01:04:05.120 really cared about me you wouldn't make me sign a prenup like if you really loved me yeah the truth

01:04:09.620 yeah like honestly if i do like it's forever elizabeth you and me it's forever you you and me

01:04:15.000 yeah it's forever like we're not getting divorced so like no pre no prenup needed there's no prenup

01:04:20.480 needed because it's true love it's true if it's true love you know what i mean like i wouldn't yeah but

01:04:26.380 money can change anyone and i'm that's how would you know it's true love like you never really

01:04:30.440 know like monogamous relationships have 50 failure rate so how do you feel about that wait which

01:04:36.360 monogamous relationships like marriages have 50 failure rate all close oh you're talking you're

01:04:41.340 talking married like the divorce rate divorce sorry yeah divorce rates wait why do you say monogamous 0.91

01:04:45.940 uh because polyamorous relationship they have a higher higher chance of divorce or

01:04:51.380 separation oh okay yeah failure rate why i don't suspect she's interested in the polyamorous 0.79

01:04:57.180 yeah so yeah yeah yeah no i i no prenup for you and me

01:05:01.580 i said if it's true love then of course it is of course it is of course it is with you all right

01:05:09.720 boys i got the bag let's go okay how did how did you like what's that man you like go okay

01:05:16.480 okay she's like i don't know are you down like um for me to be like a stay-at-home dad is that

01:05:24.280 cool with you like i just do nothing and you just no you gotta do something that's no i'll just like 0.96

01:05:29.120 you gotta do something i'll just take care of the kids and shit yeah and the house and shit 0.97

01:05:33.080 but you said do nothing i'll take care of the kids she brings up a very interesting point you did 0.99

01:05:38.000 say do nothing but taking care of kids taking care of you're saying a wife does nothing then 1.00

01:05:42.880 well i i didn't mean doing taking care of the kids is doing nothing no no what i was saying is

01:05:47.880 do nothing in terms of work in terms of consistently work yeah like stay-at-home dad yeah i'll drive the

01:05:57.200 minivan it's all good i got you some of the breadware yeah how many how many kids do you want

01:06:01.740 seven i got you jesus is that are you gonna birth them too no um i'll be there for like the first 0.97

01:06:11.900 three deliveries but after that i'll probably like be kicking it at home and shit he'll be on 0.92

01:06:16.720 that yeah like you're good after like three deliveries like i can be in hawaii or something 0.91

01:06:20.640 and you're just you know okay anyways what okay i don't know where i was going with that

01:06:27.780 hey stay at home dads are hot thank you okay we have let's get through a couple uh let's see here

01:06:34.720 by the way we were gonna have bottom g on the show but unfortunately he couldn't make it so maybe

01:06:39.200 we'll get him on the next show um let's see uh julia i have just a couple specific notes for each of

01:06:45.260 you here from some of our conversations uh via uh before the show uh julia you were previously on

01:06:52.800 with lav she was wearing the beret do you have any choice words for lav because i think you guys had a

01:06:58.320 little um you guys had a little please hold please what you are you wait what she's cold oh you're

01:07:08.400 cold okay please hold please hold okay she's putting on her undersized leather jacket oh what 0.94

01:07:17.920 the oh shit oh she came in the cosplay listen bro okay let's go what's happening i have no words 0.95

01:07:25.780 for you oh wow okay i hope you're having a good day though honestly i am that's all i hope you can 0.99

01:07:32.440 also name three countries with me sometime lav the beret girl yeah that's my girl i think there's a 0.93

01:07:37.680 little sexual tension between you two oh my brian that's so scary i think you guys might have had

01:07:44.880 like a something no i'm extremely straight but you know she wasn't she wasn't they want to own

01:07:52.020 supermarkets together there you go that part okay i'm here today to be lav's higher self okay

01:07:59.960 beret really brings out the color of your the beret really brings out my personality 0.92

01:08:06.060 that's exactly what i was about to say yeah okay um let's see here uh we had some i have

01:08:12.460 something for you mercedes um so you said in your pre-show messages to us that you used to go out 0.94

01:08:19.540 and party every weekend with your friends and that they would hook up and have sex with multiple guys 0.99

01:08:24.900 at night sometimes within meeting them for only a few minutes and uh your friends would try to get 0.55

01:08:31.440 you to do the same thing yeah but you you said you remained virgin until meeting your boyfriend

01:08:37.200 um can you speak a little bit about that were you going were you going out to iv here to party or was

01:08:43.420 this back in slow no it was like the pretty much the frat's in slow okay the frat parties in slow okay

01:08:48.560 or just like any house party in the slow county area and just i've never i'm kind of not too much

01:08:56.680 friends with the people anymore but i've never seen someone just like meet somebody and automatically

01:09:02.020 like go to a bedroom like that was like crazy to me i grew up christian so i was not i don't know i've

01:09:11.380 never been in this world like that and so it was crazy to see and i just thought it was gross so you're

01:09:17.240 not into hookup culture no i'm not i think it's there's just no need i don't know sorry i'm just

01:09:24.040 changing it up okay um but so you witnessed your friends and when you say friends like how many of

01:09:29.920 your like most of your friend group was there one or two girls in particular that would go to these

01:09:35.000 parties and like most of my friend group if they didn't have boyfriends that were already there and

01:09:40.500 they're hooking up in a different room then it was all it was all my friends all your friends i was

01:09:46.540 like count how many of your friends would have sex with multiple guys a night 0.72

01:09:51.080 multiple guys a night yeah five ten fifteen no i mean three i wouldn't go with that many people

01:09:59.280 to a party it was probably like four well to to any given party but maybe you had a new friend circle

01:10:05.440 into the group or and maybe you witnessed not girls who are your friends but you saw other girls at

01:10:12.320 the party like doing this oh then yeah like seeing other people do it too probably like at least hold

01:10:18.620 on just a second score x donated one hundred dollars and sixty nine cents bricks and i can't believe this

01:10:25.420 betrayal elizabeth the offer for the opera still stands but we gotta go to venice also is your family

01:10:31.380 involved in the snake what is the snake what is the snake

01:10:36.680 um elizabeth

01:10:41.180 so he's the opera i'm so he wants to he wants to bring you to the opera

01:10:51.180 you i mean you said you used to play violin so what if he takes you to like a

01:10:55.720 orchestra you know he takes you what was like a good uh like a bach piano concerto maybe a

01:11:03.480 legends of zelda soundtrack you know something like that game of thrones

01:11:08.540 orchestra you know what instead of opera how about alexander hamilton the play

01:11:14.480 oh that's a good one yes broadway broadway do you have a response you're inviting my first

01:11:20.740 elizabeth for you hey i trust you guys no wait so but he's he do you accept his invitation to the

01:11:29.260 opera in venice does the venice have a fucking symphony i'm guessing if you would offer it then 0.90

01:11:35.240 it must exist it's italy they probably have it can you do like a research and make sure it's like real 0.91

01:11:41.060 like i don't want to be kidnapped what do you mean the guy no as in like the location oh the

01:11:46.980 location well let's disregard the location do you accept his invitation assuming that

01:11:52.100 the uh you know assuming that it's legit if it's legit i will accept the invitation i guess yeah

01:12:01.960 okay by the way so he is i i am familiar with who this guy is i his name's victor

01:12:08.380 and uh he did save me from a bear once i should let you know it's very impressive we were camping

01:12:15.480 he's a bad dx he's like kind of a friend of mine so one time we were camping there was a bear

01:12:20.780 and um he saved me from a bear he saved you from a bear he saved me from a bear how like what did he

01:12:28.200 do well so we were camping and there was like um we were actually with um there was like some

01:12:34.500 girls camping with us and uh they they left out some doritos and the bears are attracted to the

01:12:41.000 food nocturnally so they the the bear you know got into the food and uh so the bear rummaging

01:12:48.020 through the camp and he like jumps out of the tent and like fucking like scares the bear off what if 0.96

01:12:55.540 it was a brown bear that would like attack you if you tried to like boom you know like victor is ready 1.00

01:13:00.740 to die to defend his homies that's a goddamn bro right there he's a bro yeah that's a guy you don't 0.98

01:13:06.200 sign a prenup with so elizabeth he will he will definitely uh he's capable of protecting you 1.00

01:13:14.340 from bears okay i can vouch for that are you down to to date victor and have his babies and marry him

01:13:24.760 the guy that will take a bullet for you i'll know like not sign a prenup with him though

01:13:29.420 are you not have babies and marry but like i'm down for a day i guess yeah okay cool i'm down for

01:13:37.320 that okay cool but not like i have babies i'm married for now for sure for sure okay um so bringing

01:13:42.220 it back to you uh how many how many of your friends were hooking up with multiple what what's 0.91

01:13:48.360 the most amount of guys that one of your friends hooked up with in the night three four um more

01:13:54.580 give me like two seconds yeah four one one of your girlfriend one of your girlfriends hooked up 1.00

01:14:06.020 with four guys in one night yeah it's like it's insane like go from one and then i'm like hey like

01:14:14.180 let's leave they're like hold on and they start making out with another person and then they just

01:14:18.220 go into the bathroom go into the room do it on the couch like anything so you believe they

01:14:24.460 actually had sex with multiple guys maybe they were just doing drugs no no i i walk in every 1.00

01:14:31.600 time oh shit did they like a thing you last do yeah yeah why are you walking in on them 1.00

01:14:36.400 did they get tested that's no i that's what i think like is ridiculous is the not getting tested 1.00

01:14:44.260 did she did she use a condom no oh shit wow i don't even think she was on birth control 1.00

01:14:50.180 oh she just got lucky every single time okay that's a yikes that is a yikes but it's not just 0.99

01:14:59.500 one of your friends that's doing this it's multiple of your friends if they see this are they going to

01:15:03.760 be upset with you i mean i know you're not naming them but i can hear my phone buzzing already wait if

01:15:08.080 you were single wait okay first and foremost like who you surround yourself with the five closest

01:15:14.460 people to you is like where you're moving in your future so absolutely with love and kindness because 0.81

01:15:19.740 you seem like such a great girl what the fuck i know i know i've moved on i have i've moved on from 0.93

01:15:26.580 that because it's just not something i it doesn't match up with my beliefs like i said like i'm christian 0.94

01:15:33.740 i'm not it's great hardcore by the book also like but you said yeah but i love god and i'm just not

01:15:42.880 going to say around that so now like my core my like five core i she waited one of my friends waited

01:15:49.440 until she was also after 18 and so that's what i did too i waited till i was after 18 yeah because

01:15:55.240 can't really give consent be low 18 so do any of you guys have similar stories to this have you

01:16:01.440 witnessed any of your friends just like putting up numbers at like a party just like got jumping

01:16:08.440 from dude to dude to dude no i wouldn't say that crazy no not four dudes like maybe two dudes in

01:16:14.420 the night no just literally like i have a hook up one with one guy you know what i mean when you go

01:16:20.260 out per night yeah but one guy per night yeah okay let's change it to this if any girls here at the 0.97

01:16:25.700 table either you or a friend has in a 24-hour period hooked up with two dudes within the 24-hour

01:16:35.140 period anybody here i haven't i haven't i'm just i'm just you know i'm prompting them to raise their

01:16:41.180 hand i have not but i have friends who have i mean i don't know about actually yeah sex wise and they

01:16:46.700 were just belligerently drunk and very young and like just immature and not in their right mind like

01:16:52.160 just a very immature like yeah mindset and just extremely drunk have y'all never just been to 0.99

01:16:58.860 parties never that you've never like this is normal no i i've i've seen that shit go down at 0.99

01:17:05.240 parties like a girl like a dude will hook up with a couple chicks a girl will hook up with a i feel 1.00

01:17:10.800 like not at the same time i don't know i my my friends are not really drama so like i feel like if

01:17:16.100 something like that happened that would be instigating drama like you're gonna deal with crying

01:17:20.960 girls and being like i would like him and he's sleeping with her like i think besides that like

01:17:26.140 if we see one of our friends being super drunk and you know moving on doing something that they

01:17:31.200 might regret we might be like let's let's go yeah right um yeah definitely yeah but none of my friends

01:17:37.440 have actually hooked up with multiple people on the same night okay i feel like i would talk to my

01:17:43.480 friends if they were doing that oh yeah for sure especially because also like if they're drunk like

01:17:47.460 are you sure like this is what you want to do like yeah i don't know like are you actually i don't i

01:17:52.280 don't let to it yeah i'm not like i'm trying to control people but like you know exactly create a safe

01:17:56.380 space safety yeah yeah and the the friend of yours who did four guys in the night would she would you 1.00

01:18:03.120 say that if you had to like rate her on a scale of one to ten or i mean you could do binary you could

01:18:08.480 just say if she was attractive not attractive or that's crazy i was actually talking with my 0.98

01:18:13.280 friends last night we're hanging out in the hot tub and we were talking about rating people we

01:18:18.220 rated her actually she's i mean honest from five being average yeah she's like a like a seven and

01:18:27.380 eight like she's she's not just average so all right but i feel like but i feel like during that

01:18:34.400 situation the rating doesn't really matter because everyone is like drunk and absolutely that's what

01:18:38.720 you know what i mean so it doesn't matter if she was seven or ten what matters is like there were

01:18:43.580 like multiple drunk people and they just wanted to hook up it's more like that because i've seen

01:18:49.760 people go down like you know kind of like lower their standards when they're drunk she did yeah she

01:18:56.860 did well i think the difference is though like a girl who's average or even below average in terms of

01:19:03.900 her physical appearance could pretty i think pretty easily sleep with a couple dudes at night 1.00

01:19:09.960 if she wanted to any girl could probably anyone there's never a girl by choice i mean other than 1.00

01:19:16.560 by choice it's not hard to find sex it's just it's not as a girl i felt i felt like i was meant there

01:19:21.940 there's so many people in the world if you go out on the street though i think it's easier for girls

01:19:26.460 to get late it is easier but i'm saying like i lost my virginity when i was 20 because i felt like

01:19:31.480 if i didn't have sex then i would never have sex and i literally like i had a boyfriend and we were

01:19:36.500 like together for like three months and we never like did anything and i like basically was like

01:19:41.020 all right we're doing this because like i just can't go through life without going past this like 0.53

01:19:45.380 wall by the way we're twins i lost my virginity at 22 let's go so did i yeah oh damn let's go i think 0.56

01:19:53.040 the difference is though is that for i'd say almost any woman if she was so inclined 0.94

01:19:59.060 well for starters could certainly get laid pretty much any night she wants but i'd say 1.00

01:20:06.020 to bring it forward even any girl could almost any girl could probably sleep with two three four guys 1.00

01:20:11.680 a night whereas for a guy to be able to do that you gotta be like you gotta be i'd say pretty good

01:20:17.880 looking or have some like pretty serious game yeah i don't think any boy can sleep with any girl i think

01:20:22.940 some men will totally divergence because like if you walk there's so much more like

01:20:29.460 if you're a girl you walked up to a guy on the street i think you guys did that video one time

01:20:33.600 and you're like do you want to come have sex with me they would probably be like okay right now okay 0.95

01:20:39.280 let's go and then a boy did that they'd be like get away from me yeah you freak yeah totally i feel like 0.93

01:20:45.980 when it comes to girls girls can get easily laid but i think it's harder for girls to find a guy who 1.00

01:20:51.140 is willing to have a relationship with her i feel like for guys it's more uh they have a harder time

01:20:57.560 getting laid but they have an easier time once they find a girl to get into a relationship

01:21:03.280 disavow i disagree i mean i think it's i think it's uh i think they both kind of especially in today i

01:21:11.980 think they one follows the other if you have difficulty getting laid you're going to have

01:21:17.540 difficulty getting relationship i think i think women have the event the advantage in both realms

01:21:24.380 both getting sex and getting a relationship i think where women have trouble when it comes to 1.00

01:21:29.380 getting a relationship it's getting a relationship from the guy you want yeah well besides that i also

01:21:34.840 feel like a guy who's getting laid is also a guy who's not really ready to settle down and have a

01:21:40.540 relationship because he's like oh i'm getting laid so i can probably get laid multiple times why commit

01:21:44.800 yeah you know what i mean yeah but i feel like for a guy though um let's just say you found a girl

01:21:51.220 who is able you you able to get laid with her right and you're able to talk i feel like a lot more girls 0.96

01:21:57.940 are actually willing to commit and have a relationship compared to guys so i feel like if a guy is ready

01:22:04.900 and he finds a girl who's you know willing to sleep with him and just pay him attention

01:22:10.880 um they could potentially build that relationship wait you think can you repeat that first part you

01:22:16.460 think that it's easier for sorry repeat the first part of that uh i forgot you're saying you said like

01:22:24.000 uh you said it's harder okay i'll try to say it so for girls for ladies yeah it is easier to get laid

01:22:36.320 it's easy for ladies to have sex it is harder for them to find someone who's ready to settle down and 1.00

01:22:43.660 have a relationship with okay okay for a guy if you are ready to settle down and have a relationship

01:22:52.420 with you can find a girl who's ready to sleep with you and have a relationship that's true i feel like

01:22:59.280 i'm not so sure about that here's why i'm not sure about that they're kind of guy

01:23:04.340 well of course because majority of the guys probably would not want to settle down if they're

01:23:08.940 willing if they're able to get late multiple times right like a guy who is able to get late every week

01:23:15.260 with a different girl is probably not going to be able not want to like settle down and stuff like

01:23:19.980 that but if a guy does want to settle down he can go find a girlfriend get late and also be able to

01:23:27.640 manage to build a relationship with that girl because more girls are willing to have a relationship 0.99

01:23:34.000 than men i agree yeah i'm not i'm actually not sure if i'm actually not sure if that's true i think

01:23:40.040 there's plenty of men that would that are very prepared to have relationships i just think a lot

01:23:45.680 of women overlook a lot of men and i think a lot of a lot of women are looking at like a pretty high 0.99

01:23:53.680 tier of men and disregarding a large yeah i was about to say not even high tier it could be like

01:23:59.660 average guys like it's just well hold on are you talking about online dating or irl because that

01:24:05.540 plays a role well yes there's certainly differences between online dating and irl but for example if you

01:24:11.260 look at online dating which is actually how most people are actually meeting nowadays uh they've

01:24:17.180 released some statistics on this and i think the majority of relationships originated online so whether

01:24:22.780 that's a dating app or meeting through instagram whatever it may be instagram's kind of a dating

01:24:26.880 app but um it's it's not clear to me that men have an easier time getting relationships perhaps the top

01:24:33.560 20 top 10 of men uh they could easily get a relationship but i think a lot of them don't

01:24:41.800 have the incentive because that category of men that uh cohort of men as you said it's it's fairly

01:24:48.820 relatively easy for them to get laid uh so so when it comes to online dating i think we have to be a

01:24:55.740 little bit more careful because um when you look at online dating there's actually more men using it

01:25:01.140 compared to women so there is a very small pool of women who are actually using online dating to find

01:25:06.600 partnership and typically those small percentage of women are willing to swipe right to very small 1.00

01:25:13.420 percentage of men hold on just a second would you be interested in a guy who looks in his 20s but is

01:25:20.680 actually in his 40s just to i guess i'll know who this is directed to if you all want it yes or no 0.66

01:25:25.880 answer sure definitely yeah sure i i had sex with this guy who was like 36 and he looked like he was 0.70

01:25:32.740 late 20s and i would so do it again i actually know an older guy that looks younger for sure i know

01:25:38.540 who jesse is for sure jesse's uh he's famous he's uh jesse hyman he's the world's greatest extra he

01:25:45.820 uh kissed bar raffili and the called daddy jesse hyman but what you can type in like a you can type

01:25:54.820 in oh i guess that's true but it's not he's been talking in chat i see him oh well i guess confirm or

01:25:59.920 deny in any case um thank you jesse for that tts much appreciated man um so you were saying uh yeah

01:26:05.780 so um those pool of women actually swipe right to one percentage of men because those one percentage 1.00

01:26:12.320 of men are considered to be better looking uh probably have more you know well written down

01:26:18.000 bios and etc uh because again majority of the time when it comes to online dating you're judging them

01:26:23.040 off uh profile what they look like so uh that's why very small percentage one percent of men actually

01:26:30.120 get swept right and majority of men actually get lost in the online dating uh which is true uh so

01:26:37.260 when it comes to online dating you have to work on your profile picture you have to actually work on

01:26:42.080 your bio because that's what you're based off um but if you if that doesn't work out then you should

01:26:46.840 try irl well i mean it depends what dating app but i mean i think majority of them well like tinder i i

01:26:52.220 think i think actually women are pickier when it comes to physical appearance than men are 0.98

01:26:57.020 yeah again but but again when you actually have only the physical attraction to basis off base

01:27:03.320 everything off of of course you're gonna choose that well but i mean that that kind of just

01:27:08.400 reinforces that women women are even though you say women are more desirous of relationships well 0.99

01:27:14.940 then they're wired do they continue to keep chasing after this like top five top 10 percent of men on

01:27:21.680 the dating apps because they believe they can settle them down that they can find that one that they 1.00

01:27:26.620 can change them like exactly but even women know that like a lot of these guys are fuck boys or 0.98

01:27:32.100 whatever whatever the term you would hope so but i feel like a lot of um ladies especially at the 0.97

01:27:37.240 young age might be a little immature might have well lacking experience when it comes to dating not

01:27:41.800 really aware of uh what people really like well i think a lot of people and me personally being one

01:27:48.180 of these people into the mic i think a lot of females don't realize that they're actually the 1.00

01:27:52.400 emotionally unavailable one which is why they attract emotionally unavailable men me being one

01:27:57.600 of the people who had to look myself in the mirror and be like wow why is this is weird why are things 0.73

01:28:02.500 like this coming up and i'm like oh shit literally it's because i was the emotionally unavailable one 0.64

01:28:07.060 because i was always like looking for the next best thing or looking for something else or intrigued and 0.85

01:28:11.620 trying to go find something else and da da da so yeah so you're saying you were looking for something

01:28:16.820 besides a relationship you're because as with an immature mindset you're constantly looking for

01:28:21.900 the next best thing whether that's of a yes superficial point where it's like a financial

01:28:27.660 means like can i do better i mean yeah that's a very immature immature i agree yeah instead of looking

01:28:33.920 for a person that's going to fit perfectly with your life and that's why i got out of my five-year

01:28:37.880 relationship is because i constantly i started looking for the next best thing even though like i had

01:28:43.780 everything you know pretty much yeah and so that is like an emotionally unavailable mindset it's an in

01:28:50.600 la everyone's out here to advance in very superficial careers and you're constantly looking to find an

01:28:57.360 opportunity to become the next best thing so typically how you do one thing to the offended

01:29:02.320 ladies what are your thoughts on women who use retroactive consent okay that's a doozy um 1.00

01:29:12.000 basically okay what what he's yeah how would you define it yeah i mean basically i think what 0.98

01:29:20.580 he's getting at is a woman consents and then later she regrets it either the guy was a jerk or 0.94

01:29:26.880 there was some social fallout from hooking up with the guy so she's trying to 0.96

01:29:32.080 so she consented in the moment but then she regrets it or she wants she's vindictive because whatever the

01:29:39.520 guy didn't want to keep seeing her whatever it may be um i mean alcohol and other things

01:29:44.480 yeah i was gonna say as long as she's sober if she's consenting while she's sober 0.99

01:29:48.100 then going back on that at that point yeah you can rip consent away while in the action

01:29:55.000 absolutely if you say yes and then you don't like it and you say no they should stop

01:29:58.120 but after you've already done it and then weeks years months go by

01:30:01.860 and then you're like no they they did this and i didn't want it to happen

01:30:06.160 like i think i really attract my the only factor that changes that is age that's it yeah what because

01:30:14.000 an immature if the brain is not fully developed and you think you want it wait sorry go ahead go

01:30:19.260 ahead if the brain is not fully developed if it's a younger like let's say it's a young girl or

01:30:23.760 something and there's an older man trying to basically hook up with her and she's a vow 0.94

01:30:27.300 she's into it and your brain isn't fully what's the age are you talking you're talking about an

01:30:32.100 adult woman right no so the brain typically when you say woman that doesn't matter adult it doesn't

01:30:38.240 matter 18 and over so you're saying like a 19 year old who's dating like a 27 year old it doesn't

01:30:42.800 matter i think whatever and i don't have the exact age but there's it's 25 25 where yeah so women 1.00

01:30:48.940 under 25 can't consent to sex no i think um i think that legally if they're still um consenting to

01:30:56.940 it legally if they feel let's say like years down the line they're like huh why am i feeling some

01:31:03.520 sort of emotion around this interaction with this person i hooked up with this person why do i feel

01:31:07.620 weird about it it feels yucky it's because typically when you're under the age of 25 your brain isn't

01:31:13.680 fully developed therefore you may have felt a certain way in that moment but as you grow older

01:31:20.200 and your mindset changes and you have a mature brain you can actually feel a different way well you can

01:31:25.620 okay you can feel a different way but it's legally still it's still legal like you okay yeah you get

01:31:31.860 what i'm saying but that's the only factor that i feel would change it yeah but i mean so you're

01:31:37.520 hold on hold on i mean you're making it about age but isn't it plausible that someone could

01:31:41.420 hook up with someone and have been totally into it and then maybe they date for three months

01:31:47.480 everything's totally chill but then there's some gnarly breakup and then you obviously regret having

01:31:53.520 been involved with this person because i'm just going based on my own experience so i'll just be

01:31:57.340 i'm very blunt so you did like a 70 year old when you were 21 so i was i was um i want to say

01:32:04.460 18 or 19 and i didn't have sex with the person at all okay but i was still legal but the the person

01:32:11.240 was 40s or something and we made out and stuff like that and okay i was completely fine i was like wow

01:32:17.360 this is so great like at the time like he's so like and then years later i was like wow why am i like

01:32:23.160 crying why am i crying around this situation why does it like feel yucky and feel weird and i'm like

01:32:29.080 huh and i did research and i realized that the brain is fully whatever uh done developing at 25

01:32:36.560 and i'm like huh why am i feeling so emotional around this you know when i did consent to it and

01:32:42.840 i did feel okay at the time but i do feel like i was taken advantage of and but this doesn't make

01:32:49.100 sense because i was okay with it and so then i had to look at the facts and look at science and i'm

01:32:53.640 like hmm maybe that's why so that's all i'm saying i'm not sitting here and saying that's

01:32:58.300 correct or incorrect but i'm just kind of giving my experience okay but you see but

01:33:04.340 you you years later felt uncomfortable by the situation correct okay i mean you're entitled to feel

01:33:14.920 uncomfortable yeah with with the situation down the road i mean we're his question was very something

01:33:20.860 very specific when it comes to retroactive i mean that'd be like uh you basically like down the road

01:33:26.600 you were there was consent in the moment but like for whatever reason you retroactively okay anyways

01:33:34.140 but that's the same thing right well i mean i mean saying like because i don't feel like i do feel

01:33:39.840 like in a sense i was taken advantage of because i was so young with a older dude i was 18 years old

01:33:44.780 and i was so young and this guy groomed me he knew what he was saying he knew what he needed to do

01:33:49.520 to make me feel some type of way i do feel like i was groomed at 19 at 18 years old i do feel like i

01:33:58.180 was groomed in a sense and because it doesn't make sense that i would feel so emotional about that

01:34:03.300 situation like why but i mean grooming usually is like in in the context of like okay well let me

01:34:09.460 chill like children let me let me help you understand this situation more i was getting

01:34:14.100 into modeling he's a photographer he's very has a high status in that area oh so this is like casting 0.99

01:34:20.760 couch so it's like well it's not porn no but it's like a casting couch type of fucking he abused his 0.95

01:34:27.120 power in a sense but i consented so like i can't sit here and take it back because legally 0.95

01:34:31.580 speaking it was it was legal right but i feel funky about it so what could be the calm denominator

01:34:37.500 the factor that is is creating that i mean i suppose age maybe my brain's not fully developed

01:34:43.880 and like so that's just a personal experience and i'm like because if you think about it what else

01:34:48.900 would it be that's weird why am i feeling like well i don't think i mean if he was didn't fully

01:34:54.240 consent like i wasn't in my i feel like it wasn't like well you consented right but but i think you're

01:35:00.660 not wrong for feeling if he was using the fact that he's this established photographer and he

01:35:06.640 was perhaps misleading you like he was like oh come come hang out because i want to shoot with you and

01:35:12.360 then he starts like hitting on you i think that's kind of scummy but now at this age though and like

01:35:16.860 being and maybe it's not even but i don't know if you did that maybe it's not even an age thing but

01:35:20.940 now looking back at it like i don't feel like i was the person i am today would have made that

01:35:28.880 decision and so maybe it's age so you think the age of consent should be increased um no i'm not

01:35:35.180 trying to debate any of that i'm just telling you my personal are you saying that women shouldn't vote 0.95

01:35:39.400 until 25 wow julia that's really sexist of you i know i came here with that uh is it beret i came 0.54

01:35:46.380 here with that beret but like i'm not on that team currently okay yo everybody in the chat say that

01:35:51.800 julia is a raging misogynist how dare you want to rage the uh age that women can vote at to uh 25 1.00

01:36:00.540 you should run as a politician and that's your platform women can only vote yeah okay um okay what 1.00

01:36:07.900 jesus okay that was an interesting one so we have something here from uh let's see uh wait

01:36:14.820 doc vanables can you read this one elizabeth okay um elizabeth would brian have to convert to

01:36:23.580 a capitalism brian can you name three catholic saints catholism isn't it catholicism it's okay i'll

01:36:31.920 i'll excuse you it's okay i couldn't get i'll give you a pass can you're gonna you're gonna make

01:36:36.340 three catholic saints is this to me oh yeah this is to me three saint petersburg saint patrick

01:36:46.320 aunt jemima i don't know um i don't know all right i'm not catholic so okay we got nape snake

01:36:55.320 good need good evening everyone long time fan supporting the stream what's everyone take on

01:37:00.280 adam 22 oh good question from no jumper being a cuck oh okay uh do you all agree he should have

01:37:06.820 allowed his girl to do a scene with another man lastly we need another protest troll picket sign 0.99

01:37:11.200 video eric can you google the video actually i don't think we can show the video with with alina

01:37:15.500 and the dude coming into frame i don't think it's let me i'll look at it on my stream to see if

01:37:20.440 it's kind of no i don't think it's inappropriate it was on twitter it was completely inappropriate

01:37:24.260 inappropriate stuff on twitter lena hold on twitter uh i can't quite lena uh video adam 22

01:37:33.760 okay so just to give the panel the context adam 22 uh post of no jumper youtuber creator whatever

01:37:40.260 uh he's married his they do like only fans him and his wife they do scenes with other women but they've

01:37:48.020 never done a she's never done a scene with another guy at least while they've been together

01:37:52.400 he allowed his now wife to do a scene a adult scene with another dude 0.90

01:38:01.000 your thoughts on this i think the unique thing about it is he claimed that he didn't want her to

01:38:10.060 do it originally and then right after marriage a couple weeks after that she did it so i think that's

01:38:16.560 the controversial thing about it yeah i mean it's for them to define what their boundaries are in

01:38:22.180 their relationship yeah exactly you know as long as they're comfortable and they're happy and they

01:38:27.420 feel like they're secure in the relationship more power to them make your own choices don't let

01:38:31.680 everybody else define it for you yeah people change their opinions like adam might have changed his

01:38:36.100 opinion about who his wife can sleep with uh they obviously have an open relationship um they have a 0.57

01:38:42.420 very specific podcast where you know they can sleep with other people i don't think creating content

01:38:46.940 those necessarily means you have an open relationship because you're that's part of

01:38:50.180 your like job at creating content down just a tad turn it down tilt it down no no just back pull it up

01:38:57.380 there you go go ahead you're good you're good all right i don't think i don't think uh creating content

01:39:04.240 means you have an open relationship how would it not well because it's not it's not worse yeah if

01:39:10.940 you're having sex with other people in a relationship and you both are like okay it's not for personal

01:39:15.280 pleasure it's for a monetary but that's the whole thing about open relationships it's like you have a 0.94

01:39:19.880 relationship with someone but then you can have sex with others right it's more of a just just sex

01:39:25.960 it's no feelings attached exactly right but then that's not that's not an open relationship no it's not

01:39:30.520 like an open relationship i would say is you're having like um you're taking personality into

01:39:36.120 account you know you're having feelings with other people as well like if i do something with taylor

01:39:41.060 yeah and we and it's just content it's just content i'm not in a relationship i don't call her my 0.91

01:39:46.160 girlfriend i'm not like thinking about her in the middle of the night being like damn i mean you know 0.99

01:39:50.080 i mean maybe i might i might think of victoria in the middle of the night you still are getting pleasure

01:39:54.400 out of it though i don't know i mean it's just the fact that they're doing it for money

01:39:59.260 is the reason why it's for but if i like my boyfriend me and him monogamous but if there's

01:40:05.920 another guy who's just like i'll pay 20 bucks to have sex with me i have sex with him there that's 1.00

01:40:09.680 that's cheating like there's a different context for that like i mean but you're not but yeah it's 0.93

01:40:14.560 still like it's but they would have gone into a relationship already knowing each other's

01:40:18.980 boundaries i'm sure careers careers i'm sure there was much discussion so i think with elena and adam

01:40:24.900 they actually were pretty open about you know elena's actually saying that she's bisexual

01:40:28.760 she's actually interested in girls so i think for them when they actually do content there's

01:40:34.940 actually emotions and feelings involved i mean that would be for them to say i can't yeah i don't

01:40:39.040 think we can say that well they actually did i think speak about it on their podcast and stuff

01:40:43.380 like that so i think in their definition it would be technically considered and open i mean it's it's

01:40:48.240 not surprising to me that adam was okay with his wife doing that i mean adam does he's in the adult

01:40:56.420 correct uh content business they're both they both do that sort of content so i mean you you

01:41:03.140 have to have some to some degree fairly uh progressive views on relationship dynamics um

01:41:11.700 i don't have anything against adam um his life his decision me personally i would 100 percent not be

01:41:20.480 okay with my wife like having sex with another dude right and that's that's 100 i don't care how 1.00

01:41:28.180 much money you're gonna make i don't care i'm not letting my wife would you want to do things with 1.00

01:41:34.280 another girl though no why not would you say that wait wait would you date a friendly girl 0.99

01:41:39.420 would you date a friendly girl damn brian would you wife up a girl who has a wife well i can be here's 0.99

01:41:45.700 the thing i could be monogamous but like i'm not gonna sit here and lie and be like if if my wife 1.00

01:41:51.240 was 100 okay with me and she remained strictly loyal to me but if she was okay with me sleeping

01:41:58.580 with other women i'm not gonna sit here and lie and be like no i would never like come on like um 1.00

01:42:04.260 i feel like majority of guys would probably say that to be honest yeah i mean well i think a lot of

01:42:09.180 guys might lie about that but um i think most men like if your wife would not leave you and would be

01:42:14.520 totally okay with you having like a uh what's the uh a guma i'm thinking of the sopranos term a uh

01:42:21.680 what's the term for uh not your wife uh there's a specific term for it concubine no not concubine 1.00

01:42:27.180 mistress thank you mistress if your wife is okay with you having a mistress like 1.00

01:42:31.640 yeah why not apparently i'm tom sandoval's mistress who the fuck is that oh my gosh raquel yeah 0.99

01:42:39.100 yeah apparently you're okay no no no they're looking for julia never mind they're looking for 0.99

01:42:46.100 julia and you got speaking to mike if you want people to hear we're looking for a what what show

01:42:50.680 is it even from the vanderpump rules are you about is are you going to do something to your dog right

01:42:54.700 now why are you putting your hair in a ponytail oh i was just like feeling it oh okay

01:42:58.760 because normally when someone puts a hair tie into their hair okay i'm like i don't get it

01:43:06.020 they're getting ready to kneel down yeah chill out wait so okay hold on wait so were you gonna say

01:43:11.400 something i was gonna say that something about consent and thing but then i think yeah no we're

01:43:16.560 talking about the adam 22 thing adam 22 like would you actually date a woman and then potentially marry

01:43:22.060 her if she were to do adult content yeah okay so i mean i've answered this before quite a few times 0.87

01:43:27.460 um i'm starting to actually think about changing my answer to this shit i previously i said i'd be 0.91

01:43:34.420 okay dating a girl who did of f so long as she's never done with another content with other men 0.91

01:43:39.520 that was my previous answer although after some recent experiences with uh do you guys see that

01:43:46.080 feather what the you see that little feather thing i did i did see um i i'm starting no offense to

01:43:52.880 some of you guys here who do only fans but i there's been a true a pattern of behavior from some

01:44:00.100 of the only fans girls we've had on the show and you guys have been wonderful so far but

01:44:04.120 uh i think i just would not i'm starting to lean towards like even if she she's never done anything

01:44:10.840 with a guy before on camera i'm starting to lean towards i would not date a girl who has done only

01:44:16.580 fans even if it was solo content my previous answer was if she's done solo content never done

01:44:21.300 anything with a guy that's fine you didn't provide the reasoning yeah but i think it's

01:44:25.260 situational yeah what change because a lot of only fans girls are very rude one very very entitled to 1.00

01:44:32.320 very um make so much money doing nothing that they have literally no sense of reality and yeah just 0.91

01:44:39.500 fucking rude and based oh and so but like i know i'm not any of that at all and i have an only fans 0.93

01:44:48.880 and we've had very good interactions um so i think not not trying to say like 0.97

01:44:53.420 i don't think you can but what would be your reasoning together it's well you're done julia i

01:44:59.400 mean you you've done content with your now boyfriend so it's over i'm out it's over i just had to make

01:45:04.040 sure i was out that was all it's it's it's donezo for us but uh i was trying to friend zone you

01:45:09.000 friend zone good times good times um sorry so what was the question though so what's your reasoning

01:45:14.800 she provided her reason but what's yours what would you why wouldn't you nowadays date an of

01:45:19.840 girl what changed yeah so i mean well first off just kind of to touch on my previous answer there's

01:45:26.040 obviously a spectrum right i mean you can be only fans there could be even no nudity it can be like 0.93

01:45:30.580 lingerie shit uh so all the way to like fucking bad dragons i don't know if you guys are like bad 0.99

01:45:37.560 dragons just like doing some like doing some like really uh kink related requests that might you know 0.99

01:45:44.200 um not not that there's necessarily anything that i have anything against certain kinks but like 1.00

01:45:50.000 that's a that's a that's more than taking tasteful lingerie photos um but i think it just

01:45:59.020 i don't know i've had some some bad experiences recently with some only fans girls so it's left a

01:46:06.840 bad taste in my mouth not not romantic not romantic anything but just like on this show

01:46:12.760 behavioral behavioral and i i think that um like unprofessional

01:46:17.580 unprofessional um and it's a value thing their values are very different it's a little bit of a

01:46:24.420 value i think that should come down to the people though and not that they're of the i kind of agree

01:46:29.500 with that yeah i think it's a value yeah yeah because there's some girls who are trust fund 1.00

01:46:34.120 girls correlation doesn't equate to causation right and they haven't posted a taking a picture

01:46:39.460 may even still be versions but yeah it's also perception thing too and i yeah for sure i mean

01:46:45.060 what's become apparent to me is like in the same way that women have a lot of options and you know

01:46:51.340 you're going to probably you're going to pick the best option as a guy why if if you have options as a

01:47:00.580 guy why pick a girl who does only fans versus a girl who does who doesn't because i don't think

01:47:05.960 i don't think for most guys only fans is

01:47:12.340 it can be in neutral but i don't think it's ever going to be like oh a girl has an only fans that's

01:47:18.440 a pro now perhaps the money you make from it might be i think a lot of guys don't if i can be honest

01:47:25.060 frankly don't care about a woman's income i agree most men don't care about that but i disagree

01:47:31.900 about the fact that they don't care if a girl is an only fans i i dated this guy who was really

01:47:37.940 about it like he wanted to make content with me i never made content with him but he wanted to make

01:47:43.020 content well sure there's definitely guys out there that will certainly will and do date women who

01:47:48.020 no he promoted it he promoted it to me like he's like let's do this like it's he was excited

01:47:53.020 yeah sure but i i mean i mean that's also a low key way people try and get in like hey baby you

01:47:58.640 want to collab and they have like one follower like well it's just it's just almost a question

01:48:02.960 of of optimizing and i'm not trying to like this no it's being logical it's just optimizing your

01:48:08.900 your potential partner so in the same way like everything being equal would you rather date a guy

01:48:14.220 who makes a hundred thousand dollars or a guy who makes a million dollars everything being equal

01:48:18.300 you're going to pick the guy that makes a million dollars same way as would you rather date a woman 0.80

01:48:22.740 who doesn't have only fans doesn't have her nudes unfortunately love and feelings are not logical

01:48:28.540 and it's not based off of sure a factual thing um but i will say that being somebody who does have

01:48:36.300 an only fans and being in a very healthy relationship um the pros of having an only fans i have become so

01:48:42.880 much more in touch with my sexuality like my boyfriend is beyond in heaven with sex like for 0.90

01:48:48.840 sure he's huh beyond in heaven in heaven with sex i also feel like it also too like makes you like more

01:48:55.260 aware of other people's personal space and what people have like boundaries like like you have to

01:49:00.180 have that kind of communication with somebody in order to like create content with others and like

01:49:05.140 you bring that to all your like relationships because you become like mentally aware of like so many

01:49:09.560 things that you know people are comfortable i don't necessarily think you have to do only fans

01:49:14.420 to be aware of that but i see what you mean like it just because it helps sure you definitely think

01:49:18.940 about it yeah you see a different side of people um through of that you wouldn't see otherwise like

01:49:24.740 i have people who you seem normal and they'll come into my chat and then they'll come to my only

01:49:28.020 fans and it's like oh so you're like this all right but i will say that i have met a lot of only

01:49:33.020 fans girls and i think you're got you're like if we were to group it and like think of on average

01:49:38.320 yeah i i would not as a guy would not date the average stereotype of an only fans girl i would

01:49:43.960 not either however i'm not most only fans girls yeah and through my actions it's very like loud

01:49:49.960 and clear yeah and i i don't think that every single like obviously there's there's some of girls that 0.99

01:49:55.540 are fucking hustlers that are like gonna play dudes or they're gonna be that they might have 0.99

01:50:00.640 certain uh dark triad personality traits i don't think that's you could be like a super cool like 1.00

01:50:06.980 even you know low body count girl with a only fans i mean there's some girls who claim virgin 1.00

01:50:13.060 only fans i mean it's sure i'm sure i'm sure it's the case but the first time i did put like uh like

01:50:20.360 the first time anyone had ever seen a nude photo of me was on only fans but did you start out doing

01:50:25.880 only fans first or did you do other things before you did i've done i've been the reason why i started

01:50:30.320 it was because i needed to make enough money to move to los angeles but were you doing like content

01:50:35.500 before then i think that makes a difference because like we're twitch streamers and then

01:50:39.980 we progress from doing twitch to creating only fans content because the audience is there exactly

01:50:45.740 so it's kind of different exactly yeah when you start out like just i already had a platform so i

01:50:52.120 was like i need to monetize this and to be able to move and start the life right i think that's a

01:50:56.600 little bit of the difference when there's somebody who just doesn't only fans and they're an only fans

01:51:01.860 girl right i'm not like oh my god i want to be on porn hub like i want to go like that's my goal

01:51:06.400 in life it's not like you know not a not a not a dig at only fans girls in general but just like i

01:51:12.100 think it's different when you're starting off being a content creator from a different platform and then

01:51:16.100 transitioning yeah i mean i think the other thing too is is that if you want to have children there's

01:51:23.880 a concern there i don't so i mean if yeah yeah i mean i mean have you seen the meme about the girl 0.99

01:51:29.000 saying like my kids can just cry in a ferrari i was like bitch like true but like that's fucked up 1.00

01:51:35.520 i mean i had this whole conversation with my aunt she's a private investigator oh hold on just a 0.99

01:51:41.700 second the offender donated 99 dollars the thing about some of girls is that they fail to consider 0.95

01:51:48.100 that if they have a child they think it will not impact that child i mean i don't think that's a

01:51:54.220 that's a fair take no we are aware that there's going to be consequences we'll have to face but you

01:51:59.180 know what we and we will face those consequences once i mean yes human that will actually come to

01:52:04.700 be as humans but it's like make all kinds of choices good choices bad choices everything like

01:52:09.340 that everything has consequence yeah trying to say that because you're an only fans person that

01:52:15.120 like that's going to be the one thing that your kids just going to like be like like hold on to

01:52:18.780 yeah no like there could be abusive home or like all kinds of things that could be so negative in

01:52:24.040 their life like i don't think like you could just i think it's so funny though like honestly like how

01:52:29.660 there's people who go out there and will sleep with like 10 people in one night and then a girl will 1.00

01:52:34.100 post like a nude photo that's what i'm about yeah actually you do things behind closed doors

01:52:40.820 and at least this person is real and can actually and if you're a good parent you're not exposing your

01:52:47.020 child to that you're not like but i'm sharing your social media with them and forcing them to look at

01:52:51.920 your photos and everything like that it's just not gonna happen okay men don't want either of those

01:52:56.700 no but i'm actually thinking no but i know what you're saying i'm thinking about men but i'm not

01:53:01.120 saying in regards to what men want well i know what you're saying like a girl who doesn't have only fans

01:53:06.220 she could have like a sordid past like super high body count and like meet a new guy and the guy 0.52

01:53:11.780 might not be privy or aware of like how promiscuous she previously previously was whereas like he might

01:53:19.400 compare that girl to a girl who does only fans who slept with one guy and be like no no no to the 1.00

01:53:24.900 only fans girls versus the girl who's like slept with a hundred men before but doesn't have only fans 1.00

01:53:30.040 like majority of your viewers will probably still value the girl who doesn't have only fans as

01:53:35.540 higher compared to a girl who has only fans wouldn't you agree i have a feeling that majority

01:53:43.340 of your viewers most likely will still value the girl who doesn't have only fans but me but has a

01:53:50.140 hundred body count high body count let's just say that's ridiculous i mean i don't know a lot of

01:53:55.980 these viewers a lot of these viewers are keeping my lights on so i i i mean if the choice if the

01:54:04.060 choices between a girl who has a body count of a hundred and doesn't have only fans versus 1.00

01:54:09.020 a girl who does have only fans but she's been with one guy that's a fight that's shitty either way but

01:54:16.760 like i think i'd in that scenario if those are the only two options i have i think i'd prefer the goal

01:54:22.060 the girl with only fans 100 i would prefer the girl but again that's a select amount of girls because 0.99

01:54:29.980 majority of the girls how they are on only fans is what actually what they are in real life and 0.99

01:54:34.260 they're not just select choosing to be that girl with sure guy yeah but there are girls like that

01:54:39.220 but i mean i think the difference between only fans though and just like having sex is there's like

01:54:44.660 i'm gonna say like a high number like 200 000 people that have seen your guys as like naked body

01:54:51.020 and maybe only like the girl who has 100 body counts yeah 20 body count even like that's only 20

01:54:58.100 people but do you think there's a difference between somebody seeing your naked body versus

01:55:02.980 somebody having an experience well actually there's a difference but it's still like they're you know

01:55:07.140 what's there's actually supposed to be sacred like what's sacred one is a business woman and the 0.75

01:55:11.900 other one is giving it out for free that's how i see it well yeah they're both bad they're both bad

01:55:17.500 it's like when you wear a swimsuit you're in your bag i mean there's also a lot of girls on only 0.56

01:55:22.040 what's that hold on one at a time go ahead there's also a lot of girls on only fans who don't

01:55:28.040 like show certain parts of their body and are doing but i get what you're saying completely

01:55:32.780 um again it's just kind of like the whole like open relationship thing or whatever like

01:55:37.020 they're doing it for work so it's really just a perception and a mindset thing and if i was a man

01:55:42.960 honestly i'd probably be brian's views on it like i completely understand it however like like i said

01:55:50.040 there's a select girl select percentage of girls who are not actually the only fans girl yeah but

01:55:56.480 also everyone has this mindset like how you're saying that all girls like do the same show and

01:56:00.820 only fans or like they do porn like my home page is not nude it's mostly just like lingerie cosplay

01:56:06.980 perception though like it's just perception yeah that's that's what if you have an only fans people

01:56:11.580 are going to just assume what it is i mean i think the other reason why i think men can be hesitant when

01:56:16.100 it comes to only fans you are to some degree deriving validation from somebody else so or you're you're

01:56:23.020 you're receiving male attention from these dudes on only fans and that sort of like lessens the

01:56:32.380 attention that your partner is going to give you like you're you're getting you're fulfilling your

01:56:36.640 need for male attention and male validation through these other ways so the attention that you get from

01:56:43.740 your partner is kind of diminished to some degree so i mean there's that makes sense i mean no no no i

01:56:50.440 actually disagree with you because i think you are putting the same value when it comes to both types

01:56:56.980 of validation i think like sometimes we as humans we probably weigh the validation from our parents

01:57:03.700 from our husbands boyfriends higher than from strangers wouldn't you agree so but you're saying

01:57:08.840 they're on the same level and because we receive so much attention from random man that the attention

01:57:14.160 that we get from our husband boyfriend is going to be valued less but again you it's the only reason

01:57:19.460 you're saying this because you're weighing them on the same level but i disagree with yeah well it's not i

01:57:23.480 don't think it's on the same level necessarily but it's on the scale somewhere so uh yeah you know

01:57:29.880 all it does is make me more confident as a woman that i know like there's all these people out here 0.91

01:57:35.580 who like find me attractive and would pay for my shit but it doesn't diminish the value of someone 0.98

01:57:40.540 who i'm actually interested in 0.98

01:57:41.820 i mean look at the end of the day i mean i think my two big arguments would be is that when given two

01:57:51.600 options the girl with only fans all things being equal is a better option men value sexual purity

01:58:01.280 men value innocence and women for sure no not all men sure okay not yes not all men but generally

01:58:09.360 speaking men value sexual purity and innocence and women i feel like when it comes to like wifing them

01:58:14.800 up i think they do is that what you guys want yeah well i think that's over general but but earlier

01:58:20.400 you said earlier you said that women desire relationships more than men so i mean wifing 0.87

01:58:26.320 someone up isn't that well cucks have wives cucks have wives what is it well that's i don't know 0.99

01:58:33.600 what i don't know what they have to be in a relationship to be a cuck right that's a huge 0.99

01:58:38.100 cucks cucks have wives meaning like you know cucks like for their women to be with other people 1.00

01:58:42.380 so but okay the the other thing too is it's a denial of something also just like if you do want to have 0.95

01:58:49.480 kids then you're you are subjecting your child to to bullying so how would you solve that if you

01:58:55.820 were married to a only fans model and she had a kid what would you how would you what kind of

01:59:02.060 conversation would you have with your kid and how like well i just that's a conversation if you look

01:59:07.500 at if you look at things like for example a chess board and you're like okay i'm gonna make the

01:59:12.040 best move possible yeah i'm pulling out hold on i'm pulling out the andrew tate here hold on

01:59:16.300 all right take your time all right we got the uh andrew tate's joining the panel

01:59:21.560 sorry uh marrying a girl who does only fans is not an optimal move in life i mean if it just

01:59:32.080 happens it just happens to happen like that's just how love love works in mysterious ways in any case i

01:59:37.980 don't i don't foresee myself i just again it just comes down to optimum suboptimal choices

01:59:46.120 answer the question what's the question well neither what would i do what would i do i would

01:59:50.300 i just wouldn't be i would not be in the position to begin with but we don't know what love and

01:59:54.740 respect we can ask this question all the time i think any of us have kids but we're always asked

01:59:59.020 this hypothetical question it's a hypothetical question what would i do yeah what would i do yeah

02:00:03.860 so in a hypothetical situation if you were to marry an only fans girl and have a child with her

02:00:09.640 and that child's friends discovered your wife's only fans and started bullying your child what kind

02:00:16.120 of conversation would you have with your child that's a tough one i mean that's kind of like you

02:00:21.540 deal with it's a bridge you cross when you have to cross it um as a father you're saying i'd be like

02:00:26.400 i'm sorry your mom used to your mom used to be a hoe i'm sorry oh she still does okay your mom is 1.00

02:00:36.440 still a hoe i'm sorry i'm still a hoe she's still a hoe me and your mom sometimes you know film us 1.00

02:00:42.700 getting intimate but you know we do it for your brighter future would you say that so you can go

02:00:48.480 to college for free it's like you have no student debt there jimmy just it's timmy it's paid for

02:00:55.100 yeah mommy and daddy sometimes film their intimacy and you know we pay for your college money with

02:01:02.280 that money you know for your college degree with that money i don't think that what you're gonna say 0.99

02:01:06.560 honestly wipe the fucking internet scrub that shit or don't have you can't that's just permanent 0.99

02:01:10.980 internet is i feel like i feel like you can delete it but people download people download that shit 0.99

02:01:16.240 it's gonna get leaked i feel like just life is changing like you know we used to have for 0.93

02:01:22.740 example music you know back then uh music used to be better no i was just saying the other day

02:01:29.040 like the 303 song my first kiss i was like oh this is so like racy and now it's like oh this is so 0.67

02:01:34.760 simple we have like songs talking about pussy and this and wow and wow i just feel like in today's 0.99

02:01:40.660 things are changing as humans our whole fucking lives revolve around sex and being 1.00

02:01:45.920 sexy and everything like that i just think to this day and age i think it's stupid i don't know 1.00

02:01:50.560 hot take it's just stupid that it's so it's just like this and it's taboo i just feel like it's 0.99

02:01:55.940 stupid what's taboo like it's like it's just it's just everything like sexualized but it was before 0.99

02:02:02.420 even it was before yeah it's haram it is women were allowed to show ankles before bro can you believe 1.00

02:02:10.740 that these ankles it's haram oh god that's top chief it's haram oh shit yeah but uh okay how 0.98

02:02:18.200 here let's let's uh hold on let's do a couple chats here all right we have uh i'll pull that 0.98

02:02:26.880 one up in a sec hold on we have

02:02:29.380 joseph thank you for the donation man dear ladies what insights can we gleam from

02:02:36.320 the interplay of physical desires and emotional connections how does the intimate dance of human

02:02:41.380 sexuality shape our understanding of ourselves and the world around us curiously joey

02:02:46.260 how does the intimate dance of human sexuality shape our understanding bro that's a i think he's 0.96

02:02:55.940 trying to say can i mean having sex i think what he's trying to say is can having sex help you

02:03:02.360 understand more about yourself and who you are as a person i mean yeah you can figure out if you're

02:03:07.660 actually straight or not you can figure out who you're interested in what your fetishes type of

02:03:11.200 things are so yeah it kind of makes you you know a little bit more aware about who you are and what

02:03:17.060 you're interested in i feel like it helps you feel more in touch with yourself yeah yeah that layer of

02:03:22.580 yourself this is such a vague nebulous question how does the intimate dance of human sexuality

02:03:30.100 shape our understanding of ourselves and the world around us 0.99

02:03:34.600 i think i'm just too stupid to understand your question 0.99

02:03:38.860 there's so many ways that we could go with that that's like some advanced philosophy shit in college 0.98

02:03:44.960 okay but thank you for the uh the the message man okay we got bad zxe here uh teatro la finis would be

02:03:51.620 the opera house we would go see cavalleria rusticana and then i go to taverna la finis

02:03:58.260 afterwards for dinner brian just forwarded elizabeth my details hopefully her family doesn't put a hit

02:04:03.320 out on me okay all right there you go elizabeth that's cute all right jesse miller thank you for

02:04:11.000 the 69 tip appreciate it man first time watching live just wanted to give a shout out and show some

02:04:14.940 support thank you man appreciate it props to making good content appreciate it brian good stuff into the

02:04:18.920 girls you've been a good panel so far cheers jesse miller hey thank you man yeah it's been it's uh

02:04:23.040 been a good panel man much appreciated did the it did pop up though the exe one you saw it pop up the

02:04:29.120 one with the venice it popped up okay just want to make sure it actually showed all right we have uh

02:04:35.180 cheeks here uh yo cheeks thank you man

02:04:38.600 uh to the viewers in here don't subscribe to these of or streaming services they don't show you any

02:04:47.060 real value and do not care nor even will care for any of you no matter the amount and no real man

02:04:52.920 will ever want to be with an of more wow okay he's roasting beaten cheeks like question yeah can you

02:04:59.720 explain that because he's never been beaten cheeks oh wow shots fired shots fired um on that note

02:05:08.920 isn't it true that um you so four of you have of of i mean you guys don't really uh you guys don't

02:05:19.660 really respond to your messages do you you have like some some person in like kazakhstan writing

02:05:24.420 i want 100 respond to all my messages so you gotta you know you have you guys have a company

02:05:29.680 on my grandmother's grave i respond to all my messages so i think a lot of people are not really

02:05:35.060 aware of how the business works but if you're a small individual right and you actually don't have

02:05:40.280 money to pay other people to do your job you actually respond to it yeah majority of people

02:05:45.780 cannot afford especially if you're like i'm not paying a management company yeah i'm not doing 0.86

02:05:49.840 that shit i just don't want someone else like posing as me and like talking to people and it's 0.97

02:05:53.960 not actually me how do you how do you ensure control at that point exactly and i don't want 0.99

02:05:58.760 to give some of my login like i don't i i talk a certain way and i talk a certain way to certain

02:06:04.100 people so like they would know also we already take so much of a hit on twitch why would i want to

02:06:09.940 give more and on olf the platform actually olf takes 20 20 20 20 20 20 20 well you can say that

02:06:16.900 but i mean if it just frees up a whole bunch of your time to like do other shit i mean it's kind

02:06:22.200 of just the trade-off of paying someone to respond to your messages for you and then you've just freed

02:06:27.400 up all of your time yeah and some of these guys a very small minority of people who can actually

02:06:31.400 afford to buy a management you have to be the upper echelon but also no one's gonna be if i mean

02:06:35.620 if you're smart and actually have brain cells no one's gonna be able to maximize your business

02:06:40.000 like you are yes exactly especially i mean maybe there's like some dude out there who's just like 0.99

02:06:45.000 really good at fucking pretending to be a chick and like finessing the fuck out of these dudes 1.00

02:06:49.860 like sexting the dudes but i mean so hot is it you brettan yes i i'm the guy typing for all these 0.99

02:06:56.160 of chicks you've caught me that's what i was doing a year ago but uh look i don't think it's all

02:07:01.900 it's certainly not all of girls uh who have like a management who's responding on their behalf but

02:07:08.920 like let's be real there are definitely and i don't think it's a small proportion of women who 1.00

02:07:13.280 do have only fans who are charging people for to message back and forth and it's not actually them

02:07:19.000 messaging it's like somebody doing it on their behalf i would say that there's some there's a lot

02:07:25.360 i think the really big one it could even be you guys and you guys obviously you wouldn't admit to

02:07:29.500 it if you were doing it well here's another thing i think when it comes to uh us we also stream on

02:07:35.280 twitch and majority of us actually stream on twitch for at least five to eight to twelve hours right so

02:07:42.380 we have a very intimate relationship with our viewers we actually respond to them directly on

02:07:47.360 twitch so i feel like they're way more familiar with us so if they did send something um when it

02:07:53.800 comes to only fans chatting like something was off it didn't sound like us they would figure it out

02:07:58.360 right away yeah what happened on the stream exactly exactly to also sit there and watch your

02:08:03.620 whole stream yeah absolutely uh golock the destroyer donated 100 oh thank you the only fans girls all

02:08:11.000 look like they have failed asmr channels on youtube i should start one i've actually never done mine is

02:08:17.440 pretty successful i just started it confirm or denied did is that you get any of you have a failed asmr

02:08:22.660 channel on youtube no i should start one okay do these mic work just to just to wrap up really quick

02:08:29.020 just to wrap up really quick on the of stuff um sorry friendly yeah yeah just to just to wrap up on

02:08:35.120 that i mean the big thing though as far as it being a negative if if you ever like if you're thinking

02:08:40.180 long term with somebody um if you have kids with them the kid the potential that the kid gets

02:08:47.340 fucking bullied is just not like avoid it it's better to avoid it by not dating someone who has

02:08:53.180 only fans here's the deal if you're so big as a friendly girl right that people recognize you and 0.98

02:08:58.920 know who you are probably at that point you can afford to provide the child with a private education

02:09:03.700 so they don't even that's not going to preclude them from bullying are you just going to like we're

02:09:08.620 assuming that this is something that kids are going to be bullied like you know i don't have a kid

02:09:14.220 yet but if i were to have one like in a few years or so we're assuming that they're going to get

02:09:18.260 bullied for this situation you think 13 year old boys are brutal yeah like they're gonna okay but

02:09:27.720 like why would they be like oh my god that's so cool your mom's like a milf or something you know 1.00

02:09:31.880 like i would be like that's not gonna happen do you think in like 10 or 15 years there's just

02:09:37.480 gonna be this huge influx of kids that are all like most likely yeah well maybe embarrassing 0.95

02:09:42.640 like i for sure that that's a hard one because if i had children i would no way in hell would i want

02:09:48.360 my kids or any of their friends to know about that but again i don't know kids i don't i don't have

02:09:54.920 only fans so then like i girl i'm so out of this conversation like yeah let's uh let's move on to

02:10:01.260 we've talked about it for a while so let's move on to something else so um let's see um and i think

02:10:07.600 we're going around the table on this um i think i already asked it related to like if you had any

02:10:12.980 friends that have hooked up with like multiple dudes in like in a night um i know you wanted to

02:10:20.180 touch on unrealistic standards for men and women so why don't you expand on that i don't even know

02:10:27.380 where to start i just think there are unrealistic standards on like do anyone want to start besides

02:10:33.500 me then i could probably when it comes to men i would say the salary expectation is unrealistic

02:10:38.260 a lot of people assume that by the certain age you should be earning like hundred thousand dollars a

02:10:43.360 year or like six figure right well let's be honest that's very unrealistic because majority of men 0.90

02:10:48.280 majority of people in general will have a very hard time earning hundred thousand dollars

02:10:53.140 in their 20s even in their potentially like mid 30s and stuff like that i think that's going to be

02:10:58.760 probably one of the unrealistic expectations for men i would say for women having children uh i'm 25

02:11:06.000 last year i was told that 24 is when you're the most fertile which i could just not see myself having

02:11:13.480 kids right now whatsoever i don't care like who you are some women do but that is just not me like 1.00

02:11:19.820 and i think um as time progresses like women are having kids at later ages now 1.00

02:11:26.080 yes yeah it's true yeah wait so say it again so what's uh what's the um unrealistic expectation

02:11:34.760 for women say it again that they're supposed to have kids like in their 20s basically no i disagree 0.99

02:11:41.800 i think nowadays it's actually not encouraged that's what well that's what i'm saying but a lot of men

02:11:46.800 will say you're your most fertile at 24 so you should be honest that's like red pill guys saying that

02:11:53.060 but yeah wasn't that what this podcast well yeah i think we're talking about like societal general

02:11:59.400 expectation like unrealistic expectations well yeah i mean you're most fertile in your early to mid 20s

02:12:06.940 and then once you you know i think once you start getting into your 30s uh fertility decreases once you

02:12:13.840 get over 35 then you're in high risk you start getting into uh it's called geriatric pregnancy territory

02:12:20.620 high risk pregnancy territory so after 35 the one the likelihood that you get pregnant or are able to

02:12:27.800 even get pregnant starts to diminish quite significantly there's a higher likelihood of birth defects there's

02:12:34.260 a higher likelihood of miscarriage uh so i mean biologically speaking the best time to get pregnant

02:12:42.020 you could argue say between the age of most likely 20 to 30 in that age range yeah so i would probably

02:12:49.960 say 23 and above but yeah 20 i think it's pretty young well yeah it's it's young but i mean just

02:12:55.620 speaking purely on the biological level i believe it's it's in the range of 20 to 30 if just to give

02:13:02.100 it a range not i don't want to say like a specific age because i don't know but um so yeah it's just

02:13:07.980 like you know we have a society where more women are going to colleges and they're graduating so that's 1.00

02:13:12.820 actually extending the time when they get married and have kids people are having marriage later

02:13:17.780 um you know people actually wanting to work and actually build a career and stuff like that

02:13:23.260 so because of that the age of having children is actually increasing to now i would probably argue

02:13:30.980 29 to 35 i would say so which is not necessarily a bad thing again but it's just but i think the

02:13:39.280 and now the consequence of that though is people are now having less kids as well because you know the

02:13:45.220 the age is increasing it's becoming more expensive so now we're having less kids which is did you want

02:13:51.340 to weigh in on this i got to get up for a sec but yeah sure um i think a lot of too like what i meant

02:13:57.100 with the unrealistic standards between like men and women is the commenting on bodies oh i think that

02:14:05.840 we and i agree like it's very upsetting when boys comment on our bodies but i think it's been more

02:14:13.880 sexualized you without yeah and i think it's been normalized more lately to do that to men do

02:14:19.300 you think it's the internet i do because like just even being like oh like if they're not six foot

02:14:24.480 then i'm i'm not touching them it's like that's saying it's like if you're over 150 pounds sometimes

02:14:30.380 being like oh then i'm not so i'm not touching you have a living breathing um example of that being

02:14:36.380 not true right here yeah so i i i like for you guys like for you guys does height matter to you

02:14:42.560 guys or no no no that's five five i know right like for me it doesn't really matter i think the

02:14:47.040 biggest issue happens is you know what we typically hear those stories from tiktok from youtube you know

02:14:53.660 all of that stuff which in my opinion is a very niche percentage of women majority of women 0.97

02:14:58.860 they don't care about like a guy who's just taller than that you know what i mean they don't specifically

02:15:03.700 looking for six foot and above they just want hey yeah i just said that as a male

02:15:08.200 it's natural as a female to want to be with a male that's going to make you feel safe because

02:15:18.060 in history they are you know the protectors protectors that's the word yeah exactly so i think

02:15:24.600 looking for a taller man like i just said like even like the weight thing and the height thing

02:15:29.980 as a very like basic start off i don't like i'm i don't mean like oh if they're over six foot like

02:15:39.440 i'm just pulling i think it's just more so like like less of less about the gender and it's more so

02:15:45.800 like a lack of awareness and empathy among our generation and people these days like yeah that's

02:15:52.900 really the issue to be honest with you i think the most annoying thing is like the whole thing of

02:15:58.040 mid coming about and people being so easy to call people mid i think that's like the most infuriating

02:16:03.760 thing ever i hate it when people call others mid i just yeah i get so triggered yeah but i guess when

02:16:09.820 it comes to guys like guys in all honesty there's no reason for you to be concerned if you're actually

02:16:14.600 not above six foot or six foot or above you just have to be taller than the girl you're seeing you're

02:16:19.240 dating and you should be fine like i feel like guys they probably you should be able to talk yeah

02:16:24.080 some guys like they lose confidence because they're not the six feet that they're i don't know

02:16:31.560 they they compare themselves to it's called six six six six foot six uh demonic six figures six

02:16:38.380 six figures and six inch i believe keep me away from some six six six six six foot six pack six 0.86

02:16:46.000 figures six inches six inches yeah no that's not true wait what what was i think i've heard a little

02:16:54.800 bit about what you said in terms of uh the myth comment what was it oh i i feel like the most like

02:17:01.080 recent thing that's infuriating is the whole concept of mid like just being able just to toss that out and

02:17:06.940 like label somebody just like completely dismiss them and everything and just call them mid like

02:17:11.340 when someone else gets called mid or whatever like i i hate it like i feel like it shouldn't exist like

02:17:16.400 i feel like it's so like it's just you're just tossed away yeah i think it's more of a projection

02:17:21.740 thing yeah they're just projecting it you know just yeah but she was talking about labels so i was

02:17:26.780 like i don't i feel like that's like the worst thing right now sure i think that's also a streamer

02:17:32.300 thing because i mean they're on the they're watching no yeah but that's a streamer thing

02:17:37.380 you know it's a it's an internet culture thing yeah somebody call somebody mid just mid like

02:17:42.100 completely dismissive like oh she's mid she has no opinion because she's mid yeah but any sort of

02:17:47.760 it has to do with physical appearance i think i feel like it goes but you could say someone has a

02:17:52.060 mid personality like it could be applied to so many things or has anything negative to say it's

02:17:57.460 literally always a projection because our perspective is all based around our own reality

02:18:03.440 our own brain the way yes i feel like everything in life is like mental seriously what do you mean

02:18:09.380 it's like the mindset like even though you're not should i say you're not tall right if you're

02:18:15.200 confident within yourself to say you know like i am a good looking dude no matter or like even you

02:18:20.460 don't even have to have the looks the confidence speaks a lot but not cocky i don't think people

02:18:24.560 should be confident but not cocky though there's a difference confident no confident as in they

02:18:29.200 know themselves i was gonna say confidence confidence just be confident that you're mid

02:18:34.500 just be like yeah i'm a five i accept my i accept my shitty hand in life yeah right confidence like

02:18:44.500 as in like they know who they are you know i mean like as in even having morals is attractive to me 0.53

02:18:51.160 you know what i mean having morals having family morals know your upper hand and flaunt it like for

02:18:56.100 me i'm the type that like i'm attracted to guys that are like family guys you know if you're close

02:19:00.460 to your parents that's like i'm like oh wow because like i'm very close to my parents that just shows

02:19:05.800 that you want to probably have kids in the future right you want to you're a family guy would you date

02:19:10.180 a single dad probably not that's the truth probably there's nothing wrong with that nothing wrong with

02:19:18.920 that actually you know what eric can you um eric in the dropbox folder we have something related to

02:19:24.020 the single dad single mom thing um i i might have to go over there to the computer really quick

02:19:29.140 to go find it but if you guys want to uh continue on with the uh conversation uh the single dad

02:19:36.720 conversation or the height and weight conversation yeah okay so i guess when it comes to the weight

02:19:44.880 conversation right um i think a lot of people would actually prefer like a healthy body set

02:19:51.460 right you don't have to be like ripped and stuff but uh you know we're talking about not being like

02:19:56.380 morbidly obese or whatever you know what i mean you can have a dad bod but i just want to see effort

02:20:01.240 that you're trying to take care of yourself because if i'm going to be in a relationship with you

02:20:04.120 like i don't want you to die on me you know like from a heart attack no yeah just at least take care of

02:20:09.960 yourself yeah no it's important to like yeah work out take care of yourself because if you

02:20:14.260 physically take care of yourself your confidence will increase it's just good for your mental health

02:20:18.320 as well uh it's just yeah i think that's important but a lot of people have different body type

02:20:22.640 preferences like a lot of girls like skinny tall like gamer boys while other girls like wrist up 1.00

02:20:28.900 like ripped up guys but other girls like dad bods and stuff like that so yeah it's uh it's but it's

02:20:34.740 important to stay healthy i think that's the key point well it's like how am i supposed to know that

02:20:39.000 you're going to take care of me if you can't even take care of yourself exactly it's a good point

02:20:43.200 word word um really quick just since we've talked about height um do you who here at the table has

02:20:54.120 a height preference we just said we don't we just want taller than us technically yeah we don't have

02:21:01.060 like none of you care about like she's a living you could be like an inch higher and i'll be okay

02:21:05.540 you know i mean okay so you do care about height like i guess like it has to be higher than me

02:21:09.240 yeah just an inch that's fine that's fine you know what like like i care i said more within who

02:21:16.080 they are like you know respect is is very strong in like having but if you're not physically attracted

02:21:22.180 to the guy then they have to be like passable and i'm cute like normal passable like normal mid

02:21:28.020 it's fine seriously as long as he's mid it's okay okay guys all the mid dudes no nothing below mid

02:21:35.240 like can we just pass the physical appearances maybe because i work with like male models like 1.00

02:21:41.900 on the daily like i see i see like the looks like all the time it's like who are you like surpass all

02:21:50.380 that look like who are you as a person that's that's who i that's that's my goal like when i meet

02:21:56.620 somebody i it's kind of surpassed the physical appearance hold on okay so hold on just the whole

02:22:01.600 table um and i kind of want to wait until julia's back but okay you're married you're single right 0.99

02:22:08.180 but you're and you're single too correct um you've never even dated any guy so i can't really ask you

02:22:14.500 this question but um you had an ex-boyfriend before right how tall are you i'm five two how tall

02:22:20.740 was your ex-boyfriend which one how about the most recent three uh so one of them i believe was uh

02:22:29.280 five five the other one was uh i believe six the other one is six three so they literally went up

02:22:39.780 so i don't know what the average of all of those is but in any case i think that they're

02:22:43.800 six okay two of two of the three of your ex-boyfriends one was two inches higher than

02:22:50.440 the average and the other was five inches taller than the average but here's my deal i feel like

02:22:55.900 tall guys just look for short girls you see what i mean it's not it's not even me picking them

02:23:00.680 because of their height it's them picking me for my height what what about that brian but it's

02:23:05.340 interesting that you state that you don't really you said you don't really care about height i just want

02:23:10.220 them to be taller than me and sorry you're five three five two five two okay but your two boyfriends

02:23:18.500 i mean one of them was granted one of them was five five but two of them one of them was six feet and

02:23:25.380 the other was six foot three okay oh what about you height doesn't matter right no it doesn't how

02:23:31.520 how tall was your ex-boyfriend so most recently was five eight and there goes my argument most

02:23:39.800 recently was five eight before that was six foot and before that was six two all right okay two of

02:23:46.040 three two but most recently it was five eight so most presently so your standards are lowering is what

02:23:53.040 you're saying so the standards go are equal to height is everything well you've lowered your

02:23:59.240 height standards in any case okay is that lowering it though are you saying not necessarily i mean

02:24:04.860 it's plausible that it just it just so happened to be the case uh you you in actuality never had

02:24:11.060 high preference but it happens to be the case that two of the three of your past ex-boyfriends were

02:24:15.880 uh above average in height the average is five eight though right the average is five nine or five

02:24:21.860 ten i think it's five eight i think it's five five i think somebody needs to look i think it's five

02:24:26.840 eight is average yeah yeah for man no i think five six is average in the u.s in no no five four is

02:24:32.120 average for women five ten is average for men so i'm average depends on race race is it breaks down

02:24:37.460 yeah i'm five nine five nine and a half five nine and a half yeah yeah but uh so typically it's like

02:24:45.860 average and above and stuff like that but like i feel like the issue becomes as unfortunately the

02:24:51.600 guys who are short they lack the confidence and they probably do not really put themselves out

02:24:57.080 there to begin with you know because they lack confidence and stuff but besides that you see a

02:25:02.940 lot of people dating shorter guys and actually marrying shorter guys too that's not true

02:25:07.620 shorter guy like shorter no no no not shorter than them but short guys yeah short guys yeah

02:25:15.180 yeah short guys yeah okay i again i think when it comes to internet we focus on the niche of women

02:25:20.620 who have a specific preference of six foot and above but again there isn't a specific niche

02:25:25.780 there's not like some small niche of women that prefer men who are taller the vast majority of women

02:25:31.840 six foot and above that's what a lot of girls like that's what we assume is a lot of 1.00

02:25:36.840 that's a stereotype yeah that's a stereotype it's not just a stereotype it happens to be true

02:25:41.560 no i disagree there's also i think it's a very small percentage of women you literally have a table 1.00

02:25:44.740 of women saying we disagree yeah you're going to give diplomatic politically correct answers 1.00

02:25:50.460 oh hell no no no hold on let's let this come in 100 it's very simple to a good man who knows his

02:25:58.540 worth a woman is worth the lowest price any guy has to pay for her privacy all women start off 1.00

02:26:04.700 priceless but some end up 4.99 anyone with any experience knows how that ends dot free college

02:26:11.960 isn't worth it sorry 7.99 right now oh yeah let's go yo chum thank you uh don't know man much

02:26:21.020 appreciated um so it look maybe you are all outliers and maybe you all don't excuse me don't really

02:26:29.580 care about height but um the reality is generally speaking i'd say most women would prefer to date a

02:26:38.260 tall guy a taller than her guy yeah i agree and i would say most women like if you ask them

02:26:43.320 find taller men more attractive than shorter men because on average women are just shorter than 1.00

02:26:52.020 average men so that makes sense if you're literally taking only that into account then sure but if you

02:26:58.120 put a guy who's shorter who has more personality next to a guy who's like six and he's you know a

02:27:04.000 nimbo or something i'm gonna choose the guy with the personality well yeah but you can you can create

02:27:08.560 these hypothetical scenarios but but would you if again like all things being equal you're gonna

02:27:15.020 pick the taller guy for sure i mean yeah all things i would say all things again generally speaking

02:27:22.600 women are attracted to tall men it's it goes back to it's a evolutionary i mean yeah there's an

02:27:29.020 evolutionary basis because a guy who's physically larger who's taller is more capable of defending

02:27:35.500 you i agree and hunting and gathering yeah yeah for sure no i agree so and also tall guys are

02:27:43.540 attractive i mean they've done like there's all these videos where a guy will interview a girl would

02:27:49.560 you rather date a guy who's ugly but tall or like a handsome guy and short and a lot of women will 1.00

02:27:55.400 pick the ugly tall guy they'll pick ugly and tall over i need more detail yeah i need more yeah when 0.90

02:28:01.240 you say short short how short i need more description like shorter than me then yeah i would not date a 0.61

02:28:06.020 guy who's shorter than me but so height does matter i said that a height matters she likes tall okay i

02:28:12.220 want a person to be taller than me absolutely yes what i'm dating i don't yeah but i don't have a

02:28:17.120 specific like number preference i ain't got no type

02:28:20.560 wait so you have a boyfriend how tall is your boyfriend um maybe like six foot maybe six foot

02:28:31.980 under six foot he's taller than me but he's not like super duper tall all right well we'll move

02:28:36.700 away from the height thing but uh we have body though that's funny let's go let's go girl

02:28:42.400 we have stiffer here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten

02:28:48.460 okay we'll do that uh we'll start with 0.99

02:28:52.620 you uh i oh fuck it i think eight okay what about you solid eight okay 0.99

02:29:05.020 um i'd say i'm we're rating we're rating ourselves we're rating ourselves i don't know why um i'd say 0.99

02:29:16.360 a nine or a ten i'm not gonna lie nine or a ten yeah nine ten i am nine point five or do you just

02:29:22.660 want to go with the ten

02:29:23.360 nine point five nine nine point five ten i don't know i'm sorry i would say i'm an eight

02:29:36.220 okay what about you i don't like the numbers thing because i feel like it's so hard to like

02:29:41.080 put yourself to a number especially like when you're like how i feel about myself and how others

02:29:46.600 perceive so like i would give out a number that i feel like people would be like oh she's so

02:29:51.560 she's so like full of herself and and that so like any number i give wouldn't be a true 0.99

02:29:56.880 representation of like how i feel about myself does that make sense i would give you a political

02:30:01.840 number even though like i'm not really in myself like okay pick a number yeah just pick a number

02:30:06.960 69 i don't know i don't i don't like the numbers thing i don't like being just like it's just like

02:30:14.180 being like called mid like i'm just gonna take me and just make me a number i don't think you're

02:30:18.440 a mid i think you're a great solid eight maybe it's just you're rating like what is the rating

02:30:23.120 but like what's your parameters of being a number is it just like

02:30:27.680 fine let's just i think we're getting too deep yeah let's just not we're getting too deep

02:30:31.740 just keep it surface skip me keep it surface

02:30:34.860 i don't know keep it surface i've never thought

02:30:39.020 um five being dead average i would say

02:30:45.400 6.57 i think you're seven seven yeah okay i because i don't know brian your turn brown hair 0.99

02:30:56.080 and the green eyes like it's a little above average i'd say you guys should see my butt and 0.98

02:31:01.900 then it'd probably go higher that was a fucking excuse me camera that was a 12 no let's go don't 0.99

02:31:07.760 do her like that i don't know she kind of like barked at me or whatever which makes her a 13 1.00

02:31:11.920 oh wow she's protective okay brian your turn go yeah i give myself six 6.9 on a good day

02:31:18.740 you know i think i threw the nine in there i would say 6.9 yeah 6.9 on a good day wait

02:31:24.820 you were about to say something no oh you're like saying something about 10 or

02:31:29.280 no i'm saying she is a 10 because i felt like she was like lacking confidence you know 0.99

02:31:34.440 oh you think no but it's strictly looks strictly but you were you're rating her as a 10 okay yeah

02:31:40.020 got it can we go typing my girl like what about like do something else like let's rate ourselves

02:31:45.040 on something else too could we give like it needs to be like a scale like there needs to be like a 0.99

02:31:48.640 questionnaire like looks okay now let's pick another ass is like this what about ass yeah let's rate our 0.99

02:31:53.660 asses you would destroy us all you would literally destroy yep she wins congratulations yeah wait i 1.00

02:32:01.740 don't think they could see you i think elizabeth was kind of blocking i blocked bro would you come

02:32:06.320 do it again oh excuse us all right haram my turn haram wait you wanted to do that no okay okay check

02:32:14.480 hello all right there you go ladies and gentlemen um okay so we have let's see actually hold on let me

02:32:23.700 uh oh uh okay we did rating oh uh while we're at it um who here thinks body count should matter

02:32:31.620 i do or does matter it does matter it does matter elizabeth oh sorry i was using off body count yeah

02:32:40.300 that thing i think the lower the number the better seriously okay it's unattractive knowing

02:32:48.780 when someone has a high body count okay in my opinion okay i think that's so just like

02:32:57.100 surface i think it i don't think it matters i think it's about the human i also don't think it 0.99

02:33:03.440 matters yeah i think as long as you're having safe sex if you're a hoe you're a hoe but like 1.00

02:33:09.600 having like empty sex i feel like what's what's the point but what is that hold on what does that 0.98

02:33:14.400 mean that it's empty but people can people also can change and awaken and maybe that was a past 0.58

02:33:19.760 that's the thing like i have some friends that are like that so i'm like do you think they could

02:33:25.660 what is yours what do you think again it's a high body count like what would be your number where

02:33:29.660 you'd be like no like knowing their past are you asking her for a guy or for a friend you're

02:33:35.860 dating a guy and he's like 15 girls would you know like more than i think knowing his past like he

02:33:41.640 basically slept maybe like a different girl every single day but if a guy he's you know bagged at

02:33:49.580 least 15 to 20 girls would you be like probably that's passable definitely that's fine that's fine

02:33:55.280 that's fine but not like multiple you mean just too much how do you know the truth how are you

02:34:00.300 gonna know what if he lies to you then you got a liar that's the thing i feel like hey i've actually 0.99

02:34:06.460 fucked 600 girls and is literally fucked 700 yeah like i feel like because um these are this group 0.99

02:34:15.740 of friends that i know and like the reason why i was friends with him was was because i thought he 1.00

02:34:20.920 was a good person or very innocent he came very innocent to me he treated me very nicely

02:34:24.780 um but then knowing that he's been hiding that he has been like a player that player mentality

02:34:33.460 so he was trying to get at you he was trying to get on my good side definitely so you just don't

02:34:39.200 want a player i mean there could be guys i definitely don't want a player for sure because

02:34:43.000 it shows that i feel like love in essence is like basically commitment and or should i say like

02:34:50.760 sacrifice like if you because maybe for me i believe in like one lover you don't mean like

02:34:55.260 the one person for you like a soulmate basically yeah like a soulmate i don't believe in that you

02:35:01.560 don't believe in that so you so you huh you don't believe in soulmates no i think it's kind of but

02:35:06.420 you believe like there's eight billion people in this world and there's only one person made for you

02:35:11.080 yes because i feel like i don't believe there's a perfect person you have to work on your relationship

02:35:14.840 if you find that one person for you you could basically look around at other people and say

02:35:20.800 like my girl's the best you mean or like you mean your eyes only on for your girl yeah but i don't

02:35:27.420 know i just this the soulmate thing because how many people think there's someone's a soulmate and then

02:35:32.140 two years later they're broken up or two years later they're divorced if you're broken up within

02:35:36.320 the next two years and basically she's he's not the soulmate for you yeah but what if you thought

02:35:40.920 they were your soulmate they weren't your soulmate yeah how do you know you have to work on your

02:35:45.700 relationship you can't just be like yeah that's right that's the thing like if you have fights

02:35:49.560 within a relationship a soulmate would know how to solve it you know you you would know how to solve

02:35:56.480 it to continue the relationship i definitely believe like and not just call it quits not just

02:36:00.860 call it quits and just really run off yeah like if you can fight and figure it out and i think i think

02:36:05.380 you need to be not like not like fighting like screaming yelling like you need to be able to do

02:36:09.140 conflict resolution but i think it's more so two individuals having the uh level of maturity and

02:36:15.620 ability to communicate in order to problem solve that is exactly create a healthy relationship like

02:36:20.100 right relationship takes effort and i very much think it's like an everyday thing and you have to

02:36:24.380 work for that every single day it's not like it's never going to be easy you're going to have your

02:36:28.900 happy days you're going to have your sad days and you just need to like you should be sad days than

02:36:34.120 happy days that should be a red flag that should be a red flag yes maybe maybe this too because

02:36:39.980 i am thankful to have like should i say uh an amazing upbringing my both of my parents

02:36:46.440 my mom violin lessons yeah my mom met my dad like like i think um she was a virgin when she met him

02:36:53.420 the one and only lover you know so then i had a really good support they they thought yes but they

02:36:59.520 knew how to um resolve every single problem how long they're married was your dad like they've

02:37:04.460 married for 38 years was your dad just a player no he wasn't you said your mom was virgin but like

02:37:11.060 he wasn't was he just like running through chicks and i think you know i think he only had like

02:37:16.240 three girlfriends in his life okay i mean like normal normal so i i believe like the upbringing of

02:37:24.980 someone plays a huge role into who they are right like i understand like okay in order like my friend

02:37:32.620 they're a player right i understand probably their upbringing wasn't the best right probably a bad

02:37:39.640 maybe the girlfriend previous previous ex i meant like cheated on him to where he's heartbroken you

02:37:47.700 know that time that's understanding to where you can't trust anybody anymore and then you just want

02:37:51.840 to have but that's understanding but there comes to a point where it's like you're an adult and you

02:37:55.620 have to take ownership in your life i have never seen a relationship work out at all and my family

02:38:00.920 is in my upbringing was extremely toxic and i've done so much self-development to be able to get

02:38:06.100 where i'm at and so i do think that yes childhood shapes you absolutely you're more likely to end up 0.52

02:38:13.200 in that situation however have some ownership and fucking strength to get up and create a life 0.96

02:38:17.860 that you want yeah but i think one of your toxic psycho one of your viewers is bringing up a very 0.98

02:38:22.460 interesting point where i think culture also plays a very big role as to what kind of individual you'll

02:38:28.900 be in the dating so i feel like when it comes to the western society we are very much of a hookup

02:38:34.480 culture where you know hookup is in a way kind of promoted and stuff like that encouraged even

02:38:39.560 it's like yeah explore your sexuality tv and movies yeah but i feel like in a lot of other countries

02:38:45.680 uh eastern uh asian countries middle east and etc um i think uh you know there is no such a thing as

02:38:53.340 hookup culture it's more like try to find a person try to build a relationship marry and etc so uh i think

02:38:59.720 culture also plays a very big role definitely like word so that's that's the word because maybe i had a

02:39:07.640 good influence in my life to where that's the reason why i'm the way i am you know well question for

02:39:13.280 the whole panel um who here uh just show of hands parents still together parents still together still

02:39:21.440 married best friends parents uh who here uh who here parents divorced some point in childhood

02:39:31.440 and anybody here just father never there at all anybody bueller anybody okay okay um

02:39:42.140 word what about mother brian why is it just the father true because my mom wasn't really there

02:39:51.800 but oh is your dad yeah my dad well my dad but like that go ahead my dad was there but like

02:39:59.060 were either parents there like question mark but like oh wow okay that's yeah yeah yeah no but but uh

02:40:05.880 pull the microphone they're both there now they're both there now and they're amazing i love them both

02:40:10.320 yeah i also have like question mark we're either there closer relationship with my father than i do

02:40:15.080 with my mother you have a closer relationship with your father correct okay all right uh well someone

02:40:21.460 mentioned red flag so uh maybe we could actually no before we do no hold on let's stick we we didn't

02:40:27.000 finish the body count so a couple of you said body count doesn't matter i think you you and you

02:40:32.020 said body count doesn't matter you three said body count shouldn't doesn't matter if i don't want

02:40:37.700 to misquote anybody here uh just curious uh what's everybody's body count okay so i say one and a half

02:40:47.660 the reason why is because me and my part and one of my partners like you know did things but it never

02:40:52.860 involved like full-on but then with my recent acts it was actually like a full-on thing

02:40:58.300 fine go to i don't know why you're looking at me like this she's been with a hundred we already

02:41:07.300 know this no no 1.5 1.5 so is that like a tug job in the back of a 7-eleven parking lot what are we

02:41:16.460 talking about no it's more like you know making up finger i don't know i don't know yeah but it's

02:41:21.980 like but not no penetration no you know a blowy was there a blowy on me but i never did there was

02:41:29.640 a blowy on you no blowy on him though no blowy you no no and yeah it's a plus but then uh with my

02:41:38.640 recent one it was uh like a actually full-on relationship so that's why i say one and a half 0.95

02:41:44.360 but yeah okay um elizabeth what about you body count zero she's a virgin zero yeah okay uh what 1.00

02:41:57.060 about you 18 18 what about you six six what about you one one what about you julia um i can count on

02:42:05.700 two hands i think it's i think it's nine you think it's nine yeah i don't understand how people just

02:42:12.880 sit here and are like counting and tallying and like like i don't just sit here and like but if i

02:42:17.900 were to bro your dog is she has a collapsing trachea be nice to her what the my earring keeps falling

02:42:27.200 i feel bad for your dog multiply it by three and that's the real number what i mean whatever the 0.99

02:42:31.040 number is you gotta multiply that shit by three for all of you that's funny okay that's that's not 0.98

02:42:35.040 fair no mine's like legit because then i'm gonna say i'm gonna say one then because i know i've been 0.98

02:42:40.020 with less than i can count on two hands less than 10 absolutely okay all right so i'm gonna go ahead

02:42:47.260 and say two wait you just said nine yeah because you're about to multiply it so i'm gonna say two now

02:42:52.740 that'd be six hello yeah but six is better than anything at college okay um just not math or

02:43:01.280 geography good times uh okay so we're gonna react to a video um of a uh this was on tiktok recently

02:43:10.360 kind of got a little bit of attention basically single mom and she's upset with the dating landscape 1.00

02:43:15.980 as a single mom let's go ahead and play that video 1.00

02:43:18.380 uh oh pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause uh video tab please

02:43:26.340 you're gonna have to uh do the thingy oh sorry i thought you were talking to me

02:43:32.640 yeah uh start it start it from the beginning sorry there guys so i want to talk about something

02:43:41.460 that's been really really annoying me lately this is going to be it's about men but single mom version

02:43:47.960 so something that's been getting under my skin is men not understanding what it means to be a single

02:43:55.560 mom so as a single mom a single working mom i have my plate full to the maximum right i don't have

02:44:02.700 free time the time that i do have free i just want to relax so one i get it i'm single yes do i want

02:44:09.320 a date sure if i meet the right person right but if you invite me out for a dinner um or drinks

02:44:15.440 especially during the weeknight come on you know i have things to do i'm sure you have things to do

02:44:20.240 the next day i have a child to take care of i can't just go out late at night just whenever right

02:44:28.600 um so you have to take that into consideration so if you're really going to invite me out one make it

02:44:34.380 worth my time and what do i mean by make it worth my time just just don't invite me out to dinner and

02:44:40.260 drinks get creative invite me out for an activity do something different do something that's going

02:44:45.860 to be worth my time and effort i am taking time out of my evening to meet with you to go and enjoy

02:44:52.820 your company you know to see how things work if we're compatible i'm making an effort so i expect you

02:44:59.240 to make an effort so don't just assume that i'm going to be able to drop off my child somewhere

02:45:05.200 because most likely i'm not so unless you're offering to pay for the babysitter i'm not going

02:45:10.500 on that date also and offer to pay for the babysitter that's going to make me more receptive to want to

02:45:16.680 go and spend my time with you and another thing do not just assume that you can invite me and my

02:45:22.400 daughter out no i do not introduce my daughter to guys that's a no-no so there's that and also

02:45:30.600 don't just assume that you're going to invite me out for drinks and i'm going to show up

02:45:34.640 um what makes you think that i'm going to put my safety in jeopardy by drinking and driving so

02:45:41.400 unless you're going to film the video while she's drinking driving it's a no on the drinks during the

02:45:47.400 week so moral of the story is how she's driving she already has a lot on her plate so don't add

02:45:55.540 to her plate don't make her life more stressful don't make her plan out the date that you want

02:46:00.820 to take her on like that's not going to happen so all i'm going to say is do better and to everyone

02:46:07.440 asking me out on freaking dates lately literally if the shoe fits then it fits okay so i gotta say 0.96

02:46:15.260 yikes okay um i don't even want to go on a date with her damn i feel like she's just 1.00

02:46:23.340 she's in her masculine she just needs somebody who fits exactly into what she there's a sense of 0.98

02:46:29.740 entitlement there i feel like um which is i mean i feel like she knows what she wants

02:46:35.000 for sure she she wants what she wants but she expects a lot yeah she's expecting way too much 1.00

02:46:41.180 her standards are way too high unrealistic yeah too much yeah well i mean a couple of the things

02:46:46.260 she said is she she doesn't want to just do dinner and a drink stage she it sounded like she wanted 0.79

02:46:51.760 something a bit more elaborate she also says you should pay for the babysitter and she also says

02:46:57.320 if you do invite me out for drinks and i think i mean i maybe this is not the most charitable

02:47:03.760 understanding of what she said she says don't expect me to even show up for the date but i'm not

02:47:10.900 sure if that's what she meant it sounded like i mean he she's asking the person whoever this video

02:47:16.200 is directed to value my time but she's now saying in the video i don't value yours by not showing up

02:47:22.300 no i don't think she meant i think she meant like i'm not gonna show up while like driving to the

02:47:27.620 drinking place i think she is expecting for the guy to pay for the uber invitation has been extended

02:47:32.400 and she's accepting it so she's not showing up i just think it's literally exactly what i was trying

02:47:37.060 to say to the beret girl on the last episode it's like not what you say it's really how you say it

02:47:42.460 that matters and like really coming and just like bitching in someone's ear is really not gonna get 1.00

02:47:48.200 you what you want so like maybe lean into your feminine and be like cute and sweet about it you

02:47:52.980 know it's very easy but don't bitch because even i don't want to listen and i'm a girl clearly yeah 1.00

02:47:59.220 but i think it's again at the end of the day it's like uh she did she is the one who has a child

02:48:04.280 right it's her full responsibility it's not the guy that potentially might full-time date her like

02:48:09.700 that's not his responsibility it is yours to find and pay for the babysitter if you actually want to

02:48:14.840 participate in the dating world and etc and uh i think for the first date yeah but i think actually i

02:48:22.760 kind of do again there are a lot of things she said that i agree with however how you say it matters

02:48:27.880 but what do you agree with for the first date like yeah you barely know the guy why but i think it is

02:48:33.000 also very um sweet and kind and it shows that you're very interested to be like hey like i know

02:48:39.660 you have daughters like if i feel like if you offer to pay for a babysitter i would be so flattered 0.95

02:48:44.300 yeah that's sweet but don't expect but if someone does it that's so sweet but don't expect i think

02:48:51.000 that's well said yeah don't expect that yeah don't make that then you're entitled at that point and

02:48:55.080 it's just not cute yeah yeah i think i i think i understand you yeah and also like um for me when

02:49:01.320 it comes to first date it's like both people are trying to get to know each other there's we don't

02:49:06.060 know if there's going to be chemistry or not so i think like hey let's go on a coffee date and so you

02:49:11.760 know see how it's going and there's you know a very good open uh chance if i don't like this i could

02:49:17.640 leave right away but when you say hey let's do something elaborate something in private i think that's

02:49:23.160 stranger danger one and two it's uh what if there's no initial chemistry like what about that

02:49:29.320 it's like both people are wasting their time it's kind of cuck territory i think to pay for 0.93

02:49:35.180 a babysitter for a woman's child from another no please tell me what a cuck is i seriously i 0.93

02:49:42.080 legitimately do not know well i'm not i'm not literally saying it's cuck but it's like kind of 0.86

02:49:46.480 to okay you are basically fulfilling the provider role for a woman who has been impregnated impregnated

02:49:58.360 and has a son from another man so you're you're basically it's not cuck but it's like it's like 0.77

02:50:03.900 it's a step down yeah you're saying a step down is a cuck you like like watching somebody else please 0.95

02:50:08.620 a cuck is enjoying yeah like someone else pleasing your woman no i i yes i know i'm not using it 0.96

02:50:15.320 strictly in the literal sense but it is like as a man it's kind of an l to fall into the provider 0.98

02:50:22.540 role i i think personally saying that's a stepdad is a cuck i agree with that some stuff that's our

02:50:29.880 heroes my look i think hey if you want to be a stepdad i think that's wonderful i think it's great

02:50:35.500 however just looking at it from a guy's perspective if you don't have kids of your own there are much

02:50:42.560 more optimal mating choices you can make than a single mom i think it depends on like what your 1.00

02:50:49.740 boundaries are and what you're trying to invest in if you're really like the girl and you're super

02:50:53.160 down to you know pay for the kid and all stuff like that it's like almost saying like you're you're

02:50:58.780 open to sharing the responsibility of the kid it is so it's a boundary thing if you're not trying to

02:51:02.880 give that impression then definitely don't offer but like you know if you're someone who wants to come

02:51:07.660 in and like you know if you go out to dinner you're paying for the child as well then yeah for sure

02:51:12.280 but just be mindful and have boundaries to you know i don't know it's just like you're you're

02:51:17.960 provisioning for another man's child it's like a little suboptimal majority of guys don't want to

02:51:26.220 do that majority of men don't want to and i think a lot of women probably i don't think though some do

02:51:30.260 though my boyfriend's uh brother did that and his uh his dad also did that so like some do and some

02:51:39.480 are cool with that but i don't also uh i don't think that's actually a cock move to pay for babysitter 0.99

02:51:46.840 on the first date because it's like you're not necessarily taking care of the child you like hey

02:51:50.980 i want to date this woman so i'm gonna try to make it possible to actually date her um and get to know 0.83

02:51:59.300 her i don't think that's necessarily hey i'm not providing for this child you know what i mean i

02:52:03.840 just feel like it's not his responsibility to have to find child care for his like someone that he

02:52:08.800 wants to take on a date if she doesn't want to go on the date then whatever but if she does why 0.99

02:52:13.480 wouldn't you find your own like i think that's why i agree with what julia said i think it's nice

02:52:18.020 if he does that but it should never be an expectation yeah especially on the first date that's like

02:52:23.000 ridiculous like he doesn't even know you why is he gonna invest in you already you know i mean and

02:52:27.520 and then also if if that single mother leans a bit more traditional in her values let's say the 0.98

02:52:33.920 relationship you know develops she is probably down the down the road in the relationship she is

02:52:40.200 probably going to look at you to be a provider for the kid do you think somebody should be telling

02:52:46.040 you before the first date if they have kids or not yes yeah i've actually i've uh i think i think

02:52:51.520 most women are pretty forthcoming about if they have a kid or not however i've definitely there was one 1.00

02:52:56.960 time i went on a date with a girl and she reveals it on the date which i'm like she was nice and

02:53:04.240 everything but it's like you should you ought to disclose that i think before like as early on as

02:53:10.560 possible so well it depends on the intentions though too because let's say you're swiping up on tinder and

02:53:15.220 you're there just you know trying to you're gonna go get food and you're just like down to hook up

02:53:19.340 after like it depends on the intentions if you're she's looking for a relationship yeah absolutely

02:53:23.380 yeah i think but uh i mean i mean yeah yeah i suppose yeah if you're just trying to have a

02:53:28.940 one-night stand it's like well what does it matter if i have a kid but um you know i mean but it kind

02:53:34.200 of goes back to what you said you said most women are looking for relationships but i don't know i think 0.99

02:53:39.320 a lot of women are perfectly happy engaging in hookup culture and casual sex and i think more women 1.00

02:53:45.460 participate in hookup culture and casual sex than do men i heard that nowadays and i think it also

02:53:52.240 depends on um it also depends i think what city you're from and etc like um i think specific cities

02:53:59.620 like you know new york um la and stuff like that women are more sexually open and way more okay with 1.00

02:54:08.820 hooking up i'm not really into hookup culture i think there's a lot of issues with hookup culture but

02:54:14.140 if you want to participate in it just be responsible know what you're putting yourself into

02:54:17.900 i think a lot of females are a little bit like love to play the whole like woe is me like oh my god i 1.00

02:54:24.460 just wish a guy would treat me right when really like she doesn't even isn't able to step up and 0.88

02:54:29.680 actually be a wife like truly and that's because i had to take a hard look in the mirror and be like 0.83

02:54:36.360 wow like no i want to be a wife like why you know i kind of agree in the sense where like i think a lot

02:54:41.440 of individuals uh women as well uh especially when they're younger they're not very self-aware

02:54:49.040 and they don't really want to acknowledge what they want they might want a relationship but they

02:54:54.400 might say oh no i'm just looking up for a hookup but then expect maybe a guy to change his opinion 0.99

02:54:59.220 and actually have a relationship but they're not very forthcoming and open with themselves and with

02:55:05.040 the guys but i think that comes with the maturity level yeah i think a lot of girls just like to play 0.95

02:55:09.680 the woe with me like they want the attention they're like oh my god this guy just ruined my

02:55:13.400 life like this one did too i just want a boyfriend so bad and like really no this also this also goes

02:55:18.700 to the other as well like vice versa to the guys as well what do you know like but guys aren't saying 0.89

02:55:24.620 that what do you mean guys are trying to be cool and like yeah dude i fucked like three girls last 0.89

02:55:29.380 night like not all of them because i see that eyes i see those eyes but typically no i think it's kind 0.97

02:55:36.080 of lame for a dude to brag about i i feel like i think it is kind of fucking yeah but a lot of 0.76

02:55:41.240 them think it's a lot of them think but i think to elizabeth's point in my opinion like i feel like 0.96

02:55:46.160 guys might sometimes say hey i want a relationship but they actually don't to get a girl to bed 0.96

02:55:51.280 yes yeah that's what i think no they they literally do on tinder all the time i think that's

02:55:56.760 that's manipulation they'll say like they kind of use oh wait do you use tinder i don't use tinder

02:56:02.400 oh okay wait they say what they'll say i'm open to a relationship or like yeah i'm looking for

02:56:06.480 relationship just to hook up with you yeah oh really yeah i don't do the yeah well i'm banned

02:56:12.600 on tinder now so yeah i mean that i i do think that for women that that's a uh and i i don't really

02:56:23.060 know what the answer is but i i think a lot of women will encounter men who will basically

02:56:27.800 front that they're looking for a relationship but in actuality they just want to hook up

02:56:34.400 uh so i don't think men should lie about their intentions but they do um yeah and so some women 1.00

02:56:42.180 can definitely get tricked in so far as but i don't know how many of those women like are genuinely 1.00

02:56:51.100 strictly holding out for a relationship and then they get duped versus women who who are interested

02:56:57.400 in having a relationship but are also sort of simultaneously kind of engaging in casual sex so

02:57:03.840 perhaps they get they got duped by a guy but they would have actually they were already open to like

02:57:10.700 a casual casual arrangement anyways sure but it's about the intentionality you still have to be

02:57:16.840 honest thank you man donated 99 the thing about stepdads is that the stepdad has no discipline

02:57:26.300 over the child yeah i mean that's another thing too like that's very interesting something they have

02:57:31.540 to figure out yeah yeah as a couple yeah here's the thing though that i would say to that is that

02:57:37.140 a single mom she might start looking for her boyfriend to start being fall into the provider role 1.00

02:57:45.620 without having the corresponding authority so all the responsibility but none of the authority

02:57:52.920 so because she's probably not going to be like okay you can here you can pay for his babysitter but 0.54

02:57:58.840 don't you dare discipline him so it's like as a guy it's like well i have all the responsibility but

02:58:05.480 none of the corresponding authority that would normally come with being a father so right it's just like

02:58:11.420 your buddy and then also the difference is is that like if you do like let's say you're a stepfather

02:58:15.880 and you start like building a bond or relationship with your stepson or step stepdaughter which you

02:58:21.200 would i assume you would hope that the bond if you do intend on pursuing something long term with

02:58:26.600 this person um if she breaks up with you um you know if you do build a bond then it's kind of like

02:58:33.100 if if the child is biologically yours then you have some you know you can have uh split uh what's the

02:58:41.240 term uh split custody but if it's like her kid um obviously look it's her kid fine but uh you you

02:58:49.040 would have no uh so it's like kind of a double breakup like not only in the same way like if she had a dog 0.97

02:58:56.000 and you really like the dog and then there's a breakup it's like fuck i'm not gonna see bella anymore 0.93

02:59:01.680 i'm not gonna see max do you guys have step parents do any of you have a stepdad i do stepmom yeah i do 0.98

02:59:07.740 yeah same okay there's someone here that's a good relationship with them oh yeah like a bonding like

02:59:14.180 a parental oh yeah like he um i would say like i have two dads i don't even say stepdad at this point

02:59:20.480 no oh that's cute i it's a friend i met my stepdad when i think i was like nine okay because my dad was

02:59:29.200 just like never there i don't know where he went so how did you guys feel about them disciplining you

02:59:34.540 well it's awkward because my stepdad and my dad are best friends like they whole they started out

02:59:40.520 as best friends that's funny it's a oh my gosh damn it not at first not at first not at first

02:59:47.940 also just just to bring it back what is wrong with your earring hello 0.69

02:59:53.900 um i i think just to bring it back really quick to to um men duping women like saying they want

03:00:03.420 commitment but not really i think i think women play a role in that because i think a lot of women 0.78

03:00:09.720 will sometimes guys will be will be honest and say hey i'm not looking for anything serious i just

03:00:15.500 want something casual and then the girl will be like okay that's totally cool because maybe the 1.00

03:00:19.240 guy's like super attractive um and he's he's upfront about his intentions and the girl will

03:00:25.140 hope well okay i'm he's really attractive so i enjoy the casual this at least i can get this with

03:00:31.540 this guy they enjoy the casual thing with the hope that down the road he'll have a shift in what he

03:00:37.860 wants but he was honest from the jump he just wants something casual so i think in some cases a lot of

03:00:43.940 women don't want to scare off like a high value guy by saying she wants commitment right away the 1.00

03:00:50.080 mentality of she's gonna say i'm open i'm open to uh casual no i 100 make it known from the start

03:00:57.520 that i'm looking for a relationship every single time yeah i think people need to take personal

03:01:01.680 responsibility and actually communicate that yeah by the way how do you define a high valued man brian

03:01:07.620 high high value man yeah how would you define it well i mean there's there's different realms

03:01:13.840 with which you can look at i mean first off there's i think a physical appearance can be one so a guy

03:01:18.900 who's like really physically attractive that can add to his uh how high value it he is it can be his

03:01:25.480 care well it can be his character it can be his values it can be the way he conducts himself um it can

03:01:32.200 be his masculinity it could also be his success it could be his ambition so it just has to be one of

03:01:38.960 those things instead of not necessarily i think it's a holistic i think it's uh it can be multiple

03:01:43.700 things one could you know if uh maybe he's uh for example i would say like jeff bezos um he might not

03:01:52.320 be like the most super good looking guy although he's been working out i i guess but he's he's one

03:01:58.840 of the richest men on on the planet he's built in an insanely successful business i mean this guy's a

03:02:04.700 high value guy but he may not be like you know a 10 out of 10 male model so it's kind of like there's

03:02:10.480 various components to it but you're also bringing up an extreme a billionaire but sure yeah so like

03:02:15.680 when it comes to you know everyday guys like how would you define like do you have an example of

03:02:20.380 someone like a an everyday guy well how could i give you an example if you don't know who they are

03:02:25.120 like for example like what would be his salary what would be his look like how would you rate

03:02:29.200 like what would be his um values like how would you classify that sure i mean well again look it

03:02:36.880 could i think if he's i think physical attractiveness is can be a component to it but it's it's sort of

03:02:44.320 the total package right um and if you excel in one dimension of this then you can if if you perhaps

03:02:52.000 lack in another you can make up for it but um you know i think having good good values being

03:02:58.740 successful so monitor success sure okay yeah yeah gotcha how would you define a high valued woman then

03:03:07.200 i call myself a high value woman like do you know i mean just like at the end of the day

03:03:15.580 it's the different qualities that you contribute to society and to others so it can be from an

03:03:21.640 internal standpoint uh from a mental standpoint from a monetary standpoint from a intellectual

03:03:26.980 standpoint from a just like it has a whole package physical standpoint yeah yeah i mean i think it my

03:03:34.300 answer is fairly similar when it comes to women the only thing i would differentiate is um i think a 1.00

03:03:40.440 woman's uh income or financial success is less important than it is for a man gotcha but she still 1.00

03:03:48.480 should be able to contribute something i think her character yeah um physical appearance uh values i

03:03:56.260 think yeah that that can be the difference yeah between them you know i don't really i i think the

03:04:02.440 term high like high value what is it you know it's kind of nebulous yeah a little vague but um by the

03:04:09.540 way i just want to do a shout out to uh vermilion typo and uh rps uh okay so um yeah so i i mean like

03:04:20.240 you could say like for example high value woman is like an attractive woman with high relationship 0.99

03:04:25.680 potential um and so that that comes down to some personality things her character her values her morals

03:04:32.040 etc um so yeah gotcha yeah thank you word word uh so yeah i guess just to bring it back to the guy

03:04:42.660 you could say finance like physical prowess abilities skills social value reputation

03:04:49.680 so word word um wait what were we talking about before that though stepdad the girl that's the girl 0.99

03:04:57.960 was just bringing the oh yeah stepdad no we were talking about shit it slipped my mind um the it 0.94

03:05:03.080 was the girl the clip of the video of the no yeah we were talking about the the mom but then we got 0.99

03:05:06.880 into a conversation about the dad oh having a stepdad yeah yeah okay having authority of the kid

03:05:13.720 yeah okay well i think we kind of i think did anyone else have a reaction to that that video

03:05:20.980 why is she she's driving while she's talking while driving she'd be banned on twitch if she did that 1.00

03:05:28.040 yeah yeah i'm i mean so just i'll give my take on this i i've i don't think i've dated a

03:05:37.820 i haven't had like anything long term or even short term with a single mom well when i say short term 1.00

03:05:44.300 like a month or two months or something i have gone on and besides the one date where i went out with a

03:05:49.940 girl and she didn't tell me there was one other girl who i dated i think i met her one time single 1.00

03:05:55.680 mom and then on our second date we had a date planned out and then she texted me like 30 minutes

03:06:02.320 before the date saying oh my god there's something wrong with my kids you know whatever some excuse

03:06:06.220 can't make it so i mean i think that's another reason why it's just like suboptimal to data

03:06:11.160 some like a single parent because like they're and justifiably so their primary focus is going to be

03:06:18.960 their kid you're going to be lower priority in their life versus someone who doesn't have a kid

03:06:24.460 and of course justify your kid should be your priority but like if if you're dating someone

03:06:32.140 who doesn't have a kid they're going to give you more of their time and you're going to be a much

03:06:37.080 higher priority on the totem pole so yeah if you have like an option to date again a single

03:06:42.780 woman with no kid versus yeah of course you're going to go with a single woman okay yeah i think i would

03:06:48.480 apply out of curiosity um how have you i just i would love to know how you have approached a

03:06:55.300 female and asked them on a date or just give me like a couple scenarios of how you've asked a female

03:07:00.100 out when where is who what when where why and how like only does the whole the whole story yeah okay

03:07:06.040 well i mean recently or like when i was younger because when i was younger this was like before

03:07:11.220 dating apps so i'd like i'd like approach a girl somewhere but um like on a dating app no i haven't

03:07:18.280 been on dating apps for a minute recently like in your past let's just say you're like they dm me

03:07:22.760 hello oh really yeah they're raising you let's say you're at a bar the past five dates that you've

03:07:29.440 gone out on or tried to go out on or five girls that you have approached they dm'd me yeah you

03:07:34.820 didn't approach any of them though in person anything the huh you don't approach girls in person

03:07:40.120 i used to he doesn't need to anymore that's what he's saying he's like i don't need to

03:07:46.080 the podcast no i mean okay so for example if i if i met a girl on a dating app what would i

03:07:51.040 like what would i get the bar at the barley no i want to know the last time just to just

03:07:56.220 approach a girl the last time you approached a girl what have you said and how have you said it

03:08:00.220 i don't want to i don't want to know how well i used to so i mean i used to do like uh when i was

03:08:04.560 younger before dating apps i would approach girls but like after dating apps i was uh

03:08:09.600 yeah so you were like how would i do it i mean it's been a minute since i've like approached a

03:08:14.700 girl in person but i used to do it okay so now it's been girls dming you because of the podcast

03:08:18.980 before this era dating apps dating apps prior to that do you how old were you roughly what do you

03:08:25.140 mean prior to the dating apps when you approached prior to the dating apps i think dating apps i was

03:08:30.780 probably uh i think i was 23 when like tinder came around yeah so

03:08:38.920 yeah like i was 18 to 23 i was like properly approaching like i'd approach a girl at a

03:08:46.980 i don't know at school or something that's great so tell us what you'd say what i'd say

03:08:52.440 yeah let's say you're out of the bar you're out of the bar a few drinks honestly i'm super direct

03:08:56.820 so i'd just be like hey what's up thought you were cute are you single okay have you ever said 0.99

03:09:01.620 how to like a a punny like pickup line in person that you can remember oh i've said some dumb shit 0.98

03:09:06.540 yeah can you tell us i've said some dumb shit i mean i did a video on this when i was doing like 0.95

03:09:10.360 the prank stuff but like um no but real realistic not for a video i mean this is a good one like i'd 0.99

03:09:16.780 you know you could go up to a girl and um you just go up and you say i would love to smear green 0.95

03:09:23.240 paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado oh my god that's a great one don't say 0.98

03:09:29.480 that don't say that um i feel like i did a video on this maybe we could watch the video you know 0.99

03:09:35.860 what thank you for bringing that up eric can you go into the dropbox folder go into the video

03:09:39.360 the uh podcast folder go into the video folder and then there's a video of me with it's called

03:09:45.440 bad lines bad lines let me know when you get that but um yeah as far as just like what my normal

03:09:51.760 go to i'd just be like go up to girl hey think you're cute are you single because i like a girl

03:09:57.120 might engage in conversation with you and actually have a boyfriend like if you approach her like you

03:10:02.540 know some sometimes they're quick with it but sometimes uh if you're trying to like talk to

03:10:06.960 a girl kind of indirectly oh do you know how to get to the library and they'll talk to you and then you

03:10:12.600 can like i think that's kind of i just rather i just rather get the rejection really quick oh you

03:10:17.880 have a boyfriend okay nice to meet you didn't know have a good day so when these girls have 1.00

03:10:23.440 messaged you recently are you the the like are you moving the needle forward like are you the

03:10:28.660 aggressor that's like let's go get food or like i also feel like chill or do you even have to put in

03:10:33.840 a lot of effort nowadays because i feel like you know you're more well known or because of this

03:10:38.040 podcast so you kind of consider high value man tell us how the conversation i don't know if i'm high

03:10:42.600 value but you wouldn't identify as high value just tell us i think in some dimensions i am

03:10:48.320 in other dimensions i'm lacking i don't think i'm i think i don't think i'm like the uh total package

03:10:54.920 no but overall i feel it's just like an overall feeling it doesn't have to be you have to be superior

03:11:00.700 in every single level yeah like i would call you a high value man or high thank you very much

03:11:05.960 appreciate it why do you say that the blush i'm just being honest okay i don't want to speak the

03:11:15.480 truth like it's just you have a successful podcast you know you're an independent man who lives on his

03:11:23.620 own your parents yeah you could take a girl out for dinner um you could potentially settle down and

03:11:30.960 have a kid and stuff like that yeah like all the aspects are there you're funny you're hilarious you

03:11:35.440 have a personality you know you're going to talk to one i have i have my moments i have my moments

03:11:39.500 but thank you thank you very much for the endorsement that's very nice of you that was a cute moment i

03:11:43.300 hope so next clip out that that was the cutest moment of my life good times but but do you have to still

03:11:52.400 put an effort like when it comes to like you know hooking up with girls and stuff like that or is it

03:11:57.120 effortless now what do you mean put in effort so i feel like um like you know how does the conversation

03:12:02.700 go this is my question yeah how does it no i'm getting grilled right now yeah do the last the

03:12:08.120 recent girls that have messaged you how does the conversation go they say hey are you they like

03:12:13.360 hey let's hang out let's go to dinner or are you like hey oh hey you're cute i i'd rather not get

03:12:19.280 into uh like i'd rather not get into any specifics about uh about that but but um unfortunately but uh

03:12:27.980 i'm just eager to know i'm intrigued but i mean i would say uh that started in in like january

03:12:35.280 when people like girls started messaging me okay because that's when we started having like clips

03:12:40.100 from the podcast go viral but even though i've been doing youtube for 10 years like even even though i

03:12:45.720 had like a kind of popular channel before the podcast girls really weren't dming me because most 1.00

03:12:50.880 my audience was men and it still is but i would say that uh i'm like subscribe to my oaf i would say

03:12:57.700 that uh link in bio i mean i even though i did youtube and i was kind of i was a content creator

03:13:04.080 i would say my dating experience up until very recently has been like pretty like pretty normal 0.92

03:13:12.440 like the normal average guy's experience because i think a lot of women honestly don't give a fuck about 1.00

03:13:19.000 that i have a youtube channel and you you could actually argue i mean you're saying well you have

03:13:24.340 a successful podcast i think a lot of women view this podcast as a little controversial 1.00

03:13:28.040 and a lot of i think a lot of women are like bro every he's just another dude with a podcast like

03:13:34.520 it's almost a meme like oh it's like a white dude with a podcast you know so like there's definitely

03:13:38.180 there's definitely haters too but i think you putting yourself out there because you just

03:13:42.320 like being in your presence you definitely come across as a very like confident well-rounded

03:13:47.780 like great morals like a guy who would be very good to a female and like you have confidence too

03:13:54.080 so putting yourself out there and displaying more of that is definitely gonna real women and more 1.00

03:13:59.680 to basically am i confident yeah you are for sure the fact that you have the podcast means

03:14:05.460 you're confident because you're putting yourself on camera like all the time i mean you're trying

03:14:09.600 to get into some like controversial stuff and ruffle feathers but in your no i think you're a little

03:14:14.760 shy and stuff like that right so like i'm introverted you are i'm introverted introverted

03:14:19.300 doesn't necessarily means you're shy or not that's actually nothing to do with it introverted means

03:14:23.520 you lose energy when you hang out with a lot of people and stuff like that i think you're a little

03:14:27.880 shy and stuff like that at the beginning and then like you know we kind of have to like talk to you 0.99

03:14:32.160 and stuff like that to open you up and shit but i feel like fuck that just go for it 0.98

03:14:37.100 yeah you just you just gotta do it isn't there there's some uh quote something like 0.99

03:14:45.340 i'm not saying this to be cocky but i feel like people who are uh 1.00

03:14:49.700 oh fuck i it's something like people who are like dumb have the are are uh or people who are ignorant 0.99

03:14:58.320 have the blessing of being sure of themselves but people who are intelligent are mired in self-doubt 1.00

03:15:05.480 constantly questioning themselves there's like a quote can anybody in the chat help me find it but

03:15:11.180 but yeah i mean i i uh and i i consider myself a bit more of a creative so i think creatives tend to 0.93

03:15:17.480 have uh are a bit more fuck there's a there's a word for it what victoria said imposter syndrome 1.00

03:15:22.840 yeah no it's not imposter syndrome it's like in order to be a creative individual you have to be 0.99

03:15:27.580 sensitive um and not sensitive in the way of like you get offended really easily by things but you're

03:15:33.540 more you're more sensitive to things you're more perceptive i guess how people interpret yeah what

03:15:39.540 you're so um what's good what's bad what's going to be popular what your audience want kind of yeah

03:15:44.480 so but uh thank you very much for the endorsements i'm i very much appreciate it i'm going to put that on

03:15:49.540 my my resume but did you have another question for what was it the uh

03:15:53.780 you had a question about how i oh we were going to watch the video yeah you didn't yeah the video

03:16:00.120 we'll pull up the video yeah you wouldn't answer a fool thinks he knows it all a smart man knows he

03:16:04.920 has much to learn i think that's kind of it um let's see what else do we have the problem with the 1.00

03:16:11.880 world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence 1.00

03:16:17.120 um yeah so good times wait will you repeat that where did we go what say one more time i was 1.00

03:16:26.960 focused plus i i don't know if i'm that like anyways i don't know what i'm saying okay okay let's watch

03:16:31.580 the video let's do it okay these are some these are some banger pickup lines go for it i think you

03:16:37.980 dropped something oh your standards hi i'm brian oh my god my uh sister's in town tonight um would you

03:16:46.100 like to have a threesome no no that was a bad one is it because of the whole incest thing do you like 0.99

03:16:52.660 daggers like knives have you ever been with a premature ejaculator 0.99

03:17:00.520 i'm brian i'm bruh do you think that'd be a problem between us no hey are you guys feminists 1.00

03:17:08.560 sure i would like to uh smear green paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado 1.00

03:17:19.920 which of you two has uh low standards that could be so problematic 0.99

03:17:23.120 does the carpet match the curtains yeah that's me

03:17:35.120 okay that's that's it that's great i didn't realize it was you i was like oh yeah that was me

03:17:45.760 like a couple years ago okay like a long time ago cky shirt sends the facial hair um i feel like

03:17:55.320 when it comes to dating like pickup lines never work like pickup lines are cringe and stuff you

03:18:00.260 should just go to a girl approach up being like hey my name is brian nice to meet you do you mind

03:18:04.320 if i buy you a cup of coffee or yes drink good no but if they're cute if you think they're attractive

03:18:09.960 yeah like the pickup line could pick up line could yeah that means they're funny you know well i think

03:18:15.760 it's just better i think some guys what they'll do is they'll approach a girl with like a sub optimal

03:18:21.780 they'll either intentionally i'm trying to articulate this properly they will intentionally

03:18:28.600 do something a little off to like preempt the rejection so if they do get rejected it's because

03:18:35.320 oh i did this kind of silly thing and it's not because they actually get rejected for them so i

03:18:41.900 think some guys when they do something a little off it's like almost a protection mechanism to protect

03:18:47.060 them because it's like they can just blame like their kind of strange behavior instead of like

03:18:52.620 actually truly getting rejected for who they are in that moment do you think somebody's actually

03:18:58.080 paying attention i don't know where these feathers are coming from do you think in that moment 1.00

03:19:01.120 they're actually paying what's that oh shit what the fuck bro you are raining feathers from your top 1.00

03:19:09.260 like you could be like saying the most ridiculous pickup line but in that moment when that's happening 1.00

03:19:13.940 do you really think the person's paying attention to the pickup line or are they looking you up and

03:19:18.420 down and deciding whether or not they want to carry on with the conversation both i think it's like

03:19:22.860 i don't think i would be paying honestly i would it would just be like womp womp womp and i'd be like

03:19:27.120 yes because i feel like so you have adhd too literally with sonar i'd be like thinking about

03:19:33.060 like what what is this guy asking do i just like laugh and then we just like move on to the next

03:19:37.720 thing you know i feel like when some if somebody approaches you like this like just straight away

03:19:43.380 right without you kind of seeing them approach but if they do it right away you kind of like so

03:19:47.880 shocked that you're focusing so much on their question or whatever i don't think i would be paying

03:19:52.400 attention i know that when they're approaching me that there's something something's happening like

03:19:56.360 he's asking me because he's interested in having a conversation and you look and they're like

03:20:01.320 yo what's up girl i don't think the content of the plug of line matters i just think it's not what you

03:20:06.060 say it's how you say it plus there's a lot in it plus i i think you know what i think it is i think

03:20:12.020 step one be attractive step two don't be unattractive so like a guy and this is also kind of kind of relates

03:20:20.000 to uh women's assessment of men's creepiness like if the guy is a like creepy behavior it's it's kind

03:20:29.300 of a very thin line like creepy behavior from one guy would be like flirting from another guy but if

03:20:35.960 you find him attractive yes but also it depends to like how you're standing like your body energy like

03:20:42.140 there's so much that is happening in that specific moment when you are like doing your first like

03:20:47.160 encounter with somebody 100 yeah but yeah i agree like if if a creep if like sometimes not the best

03:20:54.260 looking guy approached you and said yo that's a very nice dress or whatever you could be like oh

03:20:59.020 okay he's looking at my body and stuff like that but i feel like if a really attractive guy said that

03:21:03.280 a lot of girls would be like oh my god thank you like you know and they would take that as a compliment 1.00

03:21:07.320 and stuff for sure yeah yeah 100 i think appearance is very important everybody needs to work on their

03:21:14.260 appearance for me like if someone compliments me i maybe it's just me like i like continuing

03:21:20.640 conversation whether you are good looking or not that's just me like i like being a good person like

03:21:26.220 why not chat right and then many times they're like oh thank you so much for this conversation like

03:21:32.180 they were having a fight at home or something i'm like no problem yeah but if they're

03:21:35.660 kind of they're giving you a compliment like you gotta i know i know you would i think you would

03:21:40.260 know you would you would know you would you would know when the vibe is off for sure so that's why

03:21:47.840 we're saying energy is like you can you know if you just know right yeah yeah word word okay we have

03:21:56.820 some chats we have to read here so we have uh curtis thank you man uh if you hire an api developer

03:22:04.320 they can make an api that can integrate all your app accounts brian i have a back and neck injury from

03:22:08.740 afghanistan uh so i know how you feel hey sorry to hear that uh curtis ask your doctor about

03:22:14.140 meloxicam and a chiropractor it worked wonders for me um honestly i'm kind of i i'm kind of a little

03:22:20.820 sketched out but from chiropractors because i've heard stories of like chiropractors like great uh will

03:22:26.640 like paralyze people and shit because with neck adjustments so i'm very hesitant to uh see a 0.88

03:22:32.220 chiropractor i've not heard of melexo what's wrong with your neck oh i've got some i've got like a 0.98

03:22:37.980 neck injury and a back injury so i've got i literally just finished a month of chiropractor

03:22:42.060 and i don't recommend it yikes working with a personal trainer helped me more than the chiropractor

03:22:46.780 and the first time i went and saw a chiropractor i literally like had a panic attack and like cried

03:22:51.160 because i was like i feel like i'm gonna die yeah majority of them don't even like scan you or

03:22:56.100 whatever they just do it and you can like do like i don't know in california you can like go and see

03:23:00.660 like a chiropractor for 10 bucks and i'm like yeah honestly i think i need one i got into such

03:23:07.160 a bad isn't chiropractor like uh isn't it a pseudo science like i feel like it's quackery

03:23:13.440 i think it's quackery like you don't have to go and do something else is your dad a chiropractor

03:23:17.840 no okay just i hope i'm not insulting anybody's like family yeah you don't have to like go to

03:23:23.000 medical school or anything i think it's just a certificate and stuff like that but if you

03:23:26.920 actually like look up stories there are people who have had chiropractic adjustments to their

03:23:31.540 neck because you know they do like the neck cracking there have been people who have been

03:23:35.240 paralyzed from the neck down from chiropractors so um it look i know it works for some people

03:23:41.560 and perhaps part of that's placebo maybe they're they are doing something i don't know but for me

03:23:46.360 i'm just like bruv just gonna leave it there just leave yeah just leave it there you can get it at

03:23:50.740 the end of the show but uh i know chiropractors some people swear by them it works for them but i just

03:23:55.360 for me i i agree physical therapy is better in my opinion um but api developer they can api

03:24:04.740 integrate all your app accounts okay well thank you man uh you got from afghanistan were you uh

03:24:11.220 curtis confirm or deny were you a what's it called when you uh airborne when you jump out of the plane

03:24:18.840 parachute what's it called if you're in the military and you navy navy seal when you're

03:24:24.740 is it when you jump out of the plane what's that called airborne what's that chat hello

03:24:31.380 paratrooper paratrooper is that what it is paratrooper i think it's paratrooper

03:24:35.520 i'm talking about like something in the military jumping out of oh wait chumley octonated 100

03:24:41.240 wait did we it's very simple oh this one already triggered this one already came in right a woman 0.99

03:24:46.360 did that one already come in i think so i think so okay uh we have paratrooper okay we have adam

03:24:52.940 we have adam barnett thank you for the uh it's about to pop up here thank you for the uh

03:24:59.280 69 donation man i appreciate it awesome podcast wait is it gonna trigger hello still waiting hold on

03:25:06.900 guys sorry it's gonna take a sec um while we do that i'm just gonna pull up one other thing here

03:25:12.180 oh there you go awesome podcast hey adam barnett thank you very much man appreciate it uh

03:25:18.400 and then we had that one from bender okay and then we have a couple here from youtube we have hold on

03:25:26.180 one sec we have this one from tj king ladies what would you do if of disappeared and you could no 1.00

03:25:31.560 longer make money off of it and it never returned oh i can go really quick you just adapt and move on

03:25:38.480 you just you know continue focusing on streaming and youtube and um other ways to monetize you just

03:25:44.180 have to adapt okay i don't rely on only fans yeah i don't have one julia what would you exactly what

03:25:53.200 she said uh pull the mic a little closer to you exactly what she said yeah only fans is not my main

03:25:59.900 income so i'll be fine okay twitch boom twitch there you go hey tj thank you for the uh super chat man

03:26:07.740 i appreciate it prometheus venom hey thank you man there's different versions of confidence

03:26:12.860 rational and rational i tried to go for the rational aspect that came in a minute ago um but prometheus

03:26:19.240 thank you man is the irrational confidence like the alpha male kind of like aggressive like macho man

03:26:26.660 confidence is that what it is the irrational one oh i think this was related to when we were talking

03:26:33.420 about rating ourselves on the scale of one to ten and we were talking about being confident in

03:26:37.240 yourself and your physical appearance so there's rational and irrational and he goes for the rational

03:26:42.880 aspect of confidence because you could argue well when it comes to rating yourself you could say well if

03:26:48.180 you rate yourself a 10 that means you're confident but you could also argue well if you have you have a

03:26:53.000 accurate self-assessment of yourself and you say i'm confident being a six that's also confidence so

03:26:59.600 we have prometheus venom here i disagree i'm 5'10 i don't see that as negative i accept

03:27:05.300 my height well 5'10 is the average male height so something wrong but uh 15 is good you're doing

03:27:12.020 good but there are definitely like people out there that say hey i only want to date a guy who's six

03:27:16.120 feet plus yeah but that's just ridiculous yeah that is ridiculous they were an amazing human being

03:27:21.380 oh yeah really connected with them that's unrealistic standards yeah if the majority of the guy's gonna be 0.65

03:27:25.760 five eight whatever at the end of the day you give some you take some whatever like exactly what fits

03:27:31.140 with your life and what you know you vibe with lots of my friends they say that but then the one they

03:27:36.580 end up basically marrying and are not six feet literally always say i agree yes yes all right we have

03:27:44.520 john crotteau merci beaucoup for the 50. uh if you don't sound like you want to enjoy yourself

03:27:51.240 in relationship you want to attract anyone she sounds like she's just interviewing men for a 0.95

03:27:56.180 husband we want to be married but also have fun facts oh he's talking about the video i think

03:28:01.820 100 it's not a job oh yeah the dating video yeah that's why i was saying it's not how you say what

03:28:09.000 you say it's how you say it because a lot of females especially moms which like rightfully so 1.00

03:28:13.760 single mothers like they really have to take on like both mom and dad energy but you have to 1.00

03:28:18.700 understand as even a business owner i know when to tap into my masculine energy but like at home

03:28:24.420 especially with your man like there's a way to say things like being feminine and understanding the

03:28:30.300 difference of the two dynamics is very important

03:28:33.020 word all right we have uh sticks and bones here hey thank you man for the big

03:28:40.480 hundred dollar soup chat man thank you brian when are you going to bring destiny back that would be fun

03:28:46.140 uh it was really interesting seeing him stand toe-to-to-toe with the red pill agenda from

03:28:49.980 most of your normal guests also a question for the ladies what's one thing you would want to change

03:28:53.840 about yourself and why yeah we can go around the table on this let's start with you um i would

03:29:00.680 probably be able to see without my glasses i want to you know what's your correction level

03:29:05.740 okay it's a negative four okay out of 20 20 who anyone here wearing contacts right now yeah

03:29:12.900 yeah contacts you too good vision yeah okay lucky all right good vision too okay all right yeah i'm

03:29:22.100 negative 6.5 oh my gosh yeah it's bad i'm pretty close to being blind no i think i think you're still

03:29:29.240 wearing contacts yeah i'm wearing doesn't it make it worse that's crazy what do you mean like uh because

03:29:33.520 there's no air going into your eye and stuff like that it actually makes your eyes worse so you're

03:29:38.420 so it's going to get worse worse and worse well normally i just wear glasses if i'm not wearing

03:29:43.060 like i'll wear contacts for the show but normally i wear glasses like the vast majority you can't get

03:29:48.580 lasik uh i'm kind of hesitant to get it you say the best place to get lasik is san diego

03:29:54.420 oh good to know i i'd like to do it in the future because glasses and contacts are kind of annoying

03:30:00.200 but okay that so you change your terrible vision yeah i'm not sure if that's really what he was

03:30:05.160 getting out of the question but fair enough like personality wise yeah like what do you well he

03:30:11.020 didn't clarify but so however you want to interpret the question so we'll say with your eyes what about

03:30:16.340 you um down with social anxiety so okay you have social anxiety you'd like to but i do like things

03:30:24.520 to like purposely like i like to like my like motto in life is do something that scares you like

03:30:30.220 every day just so like you can grow yeah you know it's a good one but before we finish up with this

03:30:36.700 i need to make a quick announcement eric can you go over to the twitch guys go to twitch.tv

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03:30:48.080 rate is terrible i need to check in them with our chat because our twitch is probably scuffed but

03:30:52.560 uh guys go to twitch drop us a follow drop us a prime sub you know help us out help us out so 0.58

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03:31:19.520 the uh follow appreciate it guys and waltzy thank you for the prime much appreciated thank you guys

03:31:25.280 for the follow twitch.tv slash whatever mods if you can spam in the chat guys it's been a while since

03:31:30.220 we've streamed so if you want to re-up your twitch uh prime go for it okay um what about you in response

03:31:36.020 to uh this one thing you'd want to change about yourself and why um i think i'd get boobs

03:31:42.500 get boobs like get fake boobs actually really quick on that just show of hands does does anyone here 0.98

03:31:47.960 have fake boobs 0.99

03:31:49.920 okay anyone here have any plastic surgery i have a nose job nose job anybody i want to get a chin thing 0.98

03:32:02.880 that'd be cool

03:32:03.800 that's all that's it so nose job and then boobs anything else i mean like botox and lip filler 1.00

03:32:12.680 but you would get a boob job i totally yeah why it's just for bigger boobs or smaller no yeah like 1.00

03:32:18.140 kind of smaller or the same size but just like up oh like a lift anything yeah and then like 0.99

03:32:23.880 just look like perfect like pretty okay yeah boob jobs are fun yeah okay i want to i i do i'm gonna 0.53

03:32:33.260 we're gonna finish up the soup chat but i do actually want to talk a little bit about plastic 0.99

03:32:37.660 uh surgery really quick um so you would get your boobs done you got you got some boobs 0.98

03:32:47.420 you don't need a boob job what are you talking about before i got mine i had like double a 1.00

03:32:54.660 so okay yeah no i don't get hold on you would get uh you'd get i don't want anything massive

03:33:01.360 reduction you'd get implants implants i get implants yeah a reduction no i want to get a reduction 0.97

03:33:07.740 back problems maybe i don't know yeah that's if you have like back problems really big boobs yeah 1.00

03:33:13.340 yeah yeah no that's if you're i'm not uh i gotta be honest i'm not a i'm not a fan of uh 0.78

03:33:20.060 a fake of what of plastic surgery why i'm not a fan why some girls plastic surgery is not i'm not a

03:33:27.580 fan either too much it doesn't look good but yeah it's never the answer you have to get a good one

03:33:32.620 like some of them can be good yeah i feel like it's my plastic and is it plastic surgery like what'd

03:33:39.180 you say like an implant yeah like that's i yeah i'm not huge like i don't like plastic surgery i

03:33:45.200 like agree with brian but totally would get my boobs done like but like 0.56

03:33:49.680 red flag 0.97

03:33:51.640 some people

03:33:52.940 it's good like means like like i wouldn't like amplifying your own like personal beauty and like

03:33:58.920 the way you want it to be amplified in but like when you literally just change your

03:34:02.560 if i could snap my fingers i would do it i don't think i would ever go under the knife

03:34:06.160 do you think like all with all the plastic surgery like should i say like the expectations

03:34:12.460 of being a certain way like has increased i feel like you shouldn't do certain plastic surgery until

03:34:18.200 you're older i agree yeah i agree because i waited so long to get my nose done like you have to know

03:34:24.160 that you actually want it and for the right reasons and not because you know you want to look like

03:34:29.000 kardashians or whatever like you need to do it because it's going to increase your confidence

03:34:33.340 going to make you feel good and then do it and then then it's not worth it and i think like

03:34:37.760 as you get older you feel more and more confident when it comes to making that decision

03:34:42.700 i agree yeah like beauty standards definitely rose up i think because of all the surgery 0.96

03:34:51.040 uh i would probably argue it's more due to social media but

03:34:56.440 yeah yeah yeah it's not surgery itself it's social media social media yeah yeah yeah not a fan

03:35:02.660 of the plastic surgery it's not something i need it's something that i'm like someone is natural

03:35:07.940 if i had to do anything to myself like but not saying i will i mean i i've said this before my

03:35:15.580 stance on it is so take even a girl who you you said you had what a what double a is that what is

03:35:25.120 that is that just very small it's like negative basically flat yeah okay i would prefer a girl 0.98

03:35:31.900 flat like that versus her with fake tits really okay so i would prefer you as you were 1.00

03:35:41.840 i'm an ass man i'm an ass man what if she has no ass let's be yeah then what there's more important 1.00

03:35:59.060 things than yeah but what if she's the perfect girl and then you could also pick with yeah there's more 0.99

03:36:03.900 important things like i said would you would you support a bbl because bbl is technically not

03:36:07.700 plastic no bbl is absolutely it's using your own fat oh yeah but that's so considered a plastic

03:36:12.620 cosmetic surgery it's within the realm of yeah plastic surgery it's not body modification it's not

03:36:17.220 an implant although some women do get butt implants yeah so whether it's a bbl or it's a 1.00

03:36:23.060 butt implant i think it looks it's terrible okay it looks so bad i would prefer i would prefer 0.80

03:36:30.040 to double down on it i'd prefer a girl who's got a flat butt than a bbl or uh what if like flat 1.00

03:36:37.040 everywhere i mean i'll you're dating a chopstick for example no but in this sense it just means that 0.74

03:36:44.400 like appearance doesn't matter you know i mean according to you no well yeah don't get me wrong

03:36:48.600 like no he he wants a woman to be attractive and so i meant like early as attractive

03:36:54.040 no but there's there's never there's never an instance for example where if i met a girl

03:36:59.980 whatever her origin point was whatever her starting point was that i would prefer her i don't care how 0.84

03:37:06.780 flat her boobs are i don't care how small her butt is that i would prefer her with a cosmetic enhancement 1.00

03:37:12.680 of fake tits or a bbl or lip injections or um i don't know what what other things women do oh here's 1.00

03:37:22.580 another one liposuction i would prefer i would actually prefer a girl with a little bit of belly 1.00

03:37:26.480 fat than having that that lipo belly i've seen it it doesn't it looks weird so no offense to anybody

03:37:32.180 okay so my question to you is what if you're dating this girl and she's like babe i are married i just 0.83

03:37:40.060 really want to get my boobs done i like when i'm so bad like why we're already in what what do you 0.84

03:37:45.660 mean but what she's already got me like it's for me she's already got me oh she wants to get it done 0.97

03:37:51.200 for herself yeah i would i would lead her to not getting i would i would say look you don't i would

03:38:02.040 i would try to coach her to just be comfortable with how her appearance well what if at the end of 1.00

03:38:08.200 the day she still is like this is gonna make you reassure you would you like support her if she

03:38:12.240 wanted to yeah yeah ultimately it's her decision so what if you like her body let's say let's say

03:38:18.180 you're just i can't imagine i i feel like the women i date are tend to not be particularly vain so

03:38:23.480 why would she yeah hypothetically what if she are you calling me vain brian 0.96

03:38:28.500 well i mean there is having tits well there is there is a degree of 0.98

03:38:36.660 there's degrees to vanity but i mean i i think if you're so if you are compelled to get plastic

03:38:45.400 surgery you're doing it for aesthetic and cosmetic reasons i mean there there is a component of vanity

03:38:50.760 to it but it's like dying your hair is the same thing what's that dying your hair is the same thing

03:38:55.040 somebody like literally said piercings and stuff like that so is that a no-no for you what do you

03:39:01.480 mean what's because so like a woman changing her hair color or um you know wearing extensions or 1.00

03:39:09.880 having an ear piercing and stuff like that because she's doing it for the aesthetics like it's technically 1.00

03:39:15.680 vanity so how would you feel about that okay well we can talk for example we can start with makeup i

03:39:21.900 actually prefer women to wear little makeup or no makeup even for sure and in the same like just 0.96

03:39:27.120 with the same with my other answers give me a woman who's got a full face of makeup versus no makeup 1.00

03:39:32.420 even if you could argue that she's more physically attractive wearing the makeup i would prefer the 1.00

03:39:39.700 truth i would prefer reality and i guess you think girls who wear makeup are lying i think to some degree

03:39:45.240 yes it is a lie it's probably the most accepted lie look but and i'm not saying this i mean you have

03:39:51.500 to have the features there in order to enhance them i feel like what about wearing heels because

03:39:56.220 you're lying about your height okay we're just going down a rabbit hole well okay so like 0.99

03:40:02.380 i mean there's there's there's levels to this shit like a girl who wears a little bit of eyeliner 1.00

03:40:09.920 or yeah you know uh but if you're like wearing lipstick that's another layer if you're wearing 0.99

03:40:17.640 uh if you're like contouring your nose if you're painting your entire face uh then you know then

03:40:23.700 like i i'll tell a girl like i you don't have to wear makeup for me like you don't have to wear

03:40:27.840 makeup around me like i actually prefer a girl not to wear makeup because bro i got black pillows like 0.99

03:40:32.180 you're gonna get your shit all over my shit like hello oh my god bro i don't want your makeup 0.99

03:40:37.060 also i don't want any makeup that could rub off onto my skin no thank you why do you have black 1.00

03:40:43.860 pillows yeah yeah that's kind of vibey he's a guy is it because it's like black silk pillows it's the 0.98

03:40:50.460 pillow case but why is it black color what about the well i got white too that shit's gonna get on 0.82

03:40:55.200 the white pillows too sometimes the duvet yeah what color is your duvet so okay i've got i've got a 0.94

03:41:00.680 white sheet set and then the black sheet set i interchange i you know i do my sheets like once or twice

03:41:05.240 whatever mood you're in it shows on your bed yeah the black slime is a bad day

03:41:10.400 okay well i don't know why we're talking about duvetes but um wait i have a question do you think 0.99

03:41:16.100 if there was a male penis enlargement plastic surgery would guys get that there is wait there 0.99

03:41:23.160 is yes yeah what the hell since when i don't think men should like undergo dangerous and 0.98

03:41:29.120 unnecessary unnecessary surgeries just the way i think women shouldn't undergo dangerous and 1.00

03:41:34.280 unnecessary surgeries like bbl like i think well i think all any surgery that requires you to go

03:41:41.540 under anesthesia is by definition risky yes has high risk plus i mean uh breast implants there are

03:41:50.680 some risks i you know you got one the anesthesia there's a risk there's and then there you have to

03:41:55.980 every what 10 years do you have to get the implants changed or something so you have to redo the

03:42:02.220 surgery um there's there's maybe the in the past maybe they weren't as uh there's some risk of like

03:42:09.080 leaking or something like look at the statistics on that like now we're just sure it's low it's pretty 1.00

03:42:13.680 low yeah ridiculous do your research go with a good doctor if you go with some freaking idiot who's 1.00

03:42:18.260 charging you 700 like what do you think you're gonna get or just find a guy who's gonna like you 1.00

03:42:22.480 for you but what if it's not about the guy yeah maybe it's about you it's about confidence i got my 0.85

03:42:27.180 boobs on when i was 18. okay from my dad actually a gift from your dad yeah 0.99

03:42:32.840 no support him no crumbs yeah graduation gift if my daughter wants fake tits one i'm gonna 1.00

03:42:40.680 try to convince her not to but there's no way i'm paying for it 0.98

03:42:45.220 i think that's fair i didn't even ask for it it was a gift he gifted it to you yeah my older sister

03:42:49.820 got hers done and so she's like dad please and i did bikini bodybuilding at the time i was competing

03:42:55.100 so i didn't really care at all because i'm a gym girl like i'm in the gym working out yeah those

03:42:59.600 things like maybe they're getting in the way whatever um still got them so glad i did i feel so

03:43:04.720 much more feminine and so your dad like felt guilty about bestowing upon you he's like our jeans

03:43:10.440 he was like i'm sorry here let me pay let me let me pay for it or feel happy about yourself so yeah

03:43:17.020 no i mean this shows that he supports you no matter what yeah yeah i think it's he wants his

03:43:23.320 girls to feel confident and good with themselves and da da da you know his delivery on things sometimes

03:43:29.120 wasn't always the best especially when i was had weight gain but you know he's he's just he loves us

03:43:34.480 and supportive and wants us to feel good yeah and it's it's not like i have like ill like ill will

03:43:39.280 towards women who have plastic surgery just as a matter of preference yeah preference for me like

03:43:43.760 it i'd prefer a woman who who doesn't and i get in trouble i feel like with everybody when i when i 0.96

03:43:51.840 say that but that's okay it seems it's almost like kind of a pro woman's it's weird because on one hand

03:43:59.780 it's all it's sort of pro woman to say you don't need to wear makeup you don't need fake you don't need

03:44:06.660 to spend all this money on plastic surgery you don't need that's like you telling us what but

03:44:11.480 it's like also the patriarchy but i think it's more about like a female being able to have her 0.63

03:44:16.160 own decision and feel confident with it whether it's to have the boobs to not have the boobs like

03:44:20.220 exactly girl you do you yeah i kind of like though i kind of like i think it's attractive

03:44:25.440 like your stance because um i want a man who's gonna like me for me no matter what right you know

03:44:32.760 but like our jobs require us to like look good so i wouldn't just do it for my job i would do it

03:44:38.160 because like it's something that i really feel like makes me look prettier but at the end of the

03:44:43.460 day i would want my man to be like you know you don't need all that right yeah of course yeah that's

03:44:49.060 so like i find that attractive that's a green flag that's a green flag yeah

03:44:53.140 but uh yeah i don't know i'm not a big fan of plastic surgery that's okay that's yeah that's

03:45:03.200 understandable yeah that's understandable it's good that you have your i know right like you have

03:45:08.120 what you think it's right for you that's good you found that that's that's nice word

03:45:13.640 but it's like here i'm trying to the way i view plastic surgery like would what would you guys think

03:45:22.040 about a guy who got like calf implants i've seen that that's so random that is random like ab implants

03:45:31.500 if they're looking sketch well okay well there's a lot of things about that because one i think

03:45:35.420 again you didn't earn it exactly like that that um it's very attractive um a man's work ethic and

03:45:46.800 their daily routine for me because knowing someone is going to the gym daily great we're gonna fit in

03:45:52.620 each other's lives perfectly however if you're here just you know buying your abs okay well sounds

03:45:57.760 like you may have money to buy those abs but also are you do you though because what's your work ethic

03:46:03.660 like so there's a few ways to look at it if we look really deep into it but if we're just looking at

03:46:08.900 surface level do they look good okay then i don't really care and i mean the the other thing i would

03:46:14.320 point out is like if you if you do get plastic surgery is that an indicator of potential like

03:46:22.580 so i mean to some degree you have body dysphoria i don't think that's necessarily true dysmorphia

03:46:29.220 yes and no i think because you're you you are so uncomfortable with however your whether it's your 0.89

03:46:37.740 butt or your stomach or your lips or your your breasts that you are spending or in i mean i suppose 0.92

03:46:45.700 some people get gifted this you're spending thousands of dollars you're undergoing a dangerous

03:46:51.160 potentially dangerous surgery you're getting cut up there there there is no medical indication for

03:46:59.100 any cosmetic surgery well hold on excuse me that's job breast reduction again at the end of the day it's 0.98

03:47:06.280 like enhancing yourself though right can i just want to clear there there are some medical

03:47:11.260 indications for cosmetic surgery or plastic surgery i mean generally speaking though i'd say most

03:47:18.860 plastic surgery is done for 99 of them is for purely cosmetic reasons there are some women for example who 0.96

03:47:27.420 have breast cancer and have a breast removed who you know to they'll get a breast job to like even it 1.00

03:47:34.220 out you know and i think that's that's reasonable but i mean most women who are undergoing uh breast 0.99

03:47:39.620 getting breast implants are not doing it because they've had breast cancer you know it's like i want 1.00

03:47:46.160 big tits for sure so there's that i think at the end of the day it's like hey you want to you're okay 0.79

03:47:53.580 with your body but if you want to enhance it to increase your confidence do it if you have the money for 0.98

03:47:58.020 but i think every human to a certain degree has some sort of body dysmorphia too it's a it's i think

03:48:04.400 it's a spectrum for sure but i think it can be a proxy for like okay what else what else is here i don't

03:48:13.080 know i see like the fake lips i obviously there's scales to it right like like i wouldn't put

03:48:18.680 like i think bbl is a more of a let's say red flag than like a girl who's had a nose job

03:48:26.560 there's a scale to it like and then if you've had multiple surgeries and you have a bbl you have lipo 0.99

03:48:33.800 you have uh they did the hip thing or i don't know what the fuck i think it's ridiculous you have fake 1.00

03:48:38.400 tits yeah what else is there but also it's like okay let's take a girl who just has nothing literally 1.00

03:48:43.000 done to them at all okay great well there is still probably something else there that's like well what

03:48:47.460 else is there that you could find do you get what i mean mental illness yeah well you're like yeah

03:48:52.000 sure yeah you could you could have no plastic surgery like maybe her house is literally repulsive 1.00

03:48:55.800 and she doesn't know how to clean 100% her hygiene well what else is there like there's so many 0.99

03:48:59.540 different ways 100% but it's just plastic surgery is so like easy to see that people just like it's

03:49:06.080 such a controversy you know yeah so teach their own i guess yeah it's about preference okay we have

03:49:12.400 wait we were something about plastic surgery oh we were going around the table on the

03:49:16.900 it was this one uh what's one thing you'd want to change about yourself so you answered you want 0.57

03:49:23.180 boobs did you answer this one no um i would say i would be a little more logical i just have such a

03:49:34.660 yeah i have such a big heart that sometimes it can it can be taken advantage of or i can just be

03:49:40.800 a softy for times that what was that did you hurt or are you stifled uh hiccup okay i thought you're

03:49:49.360 laughing no it was a hiccup it was a hiccup i feel like that's more of a naivete though you're just

03:49:53.640 naive and you like trust people easily um yes and no i think it's more of like uh i have i've been

03:50:01.200 through a lot and so i i have a very like i'm very intuitive um i see the best in people and i think

03:50:09.140 um i have a very big heart and so i'm i try to understand people so i guess you could look at

03:50:14.320 it as naive i guess a little bit um but even with people who have track records that are proven to be

03:50:20.540 you know i can trust them or whatever sometimes it's like i don't necessarily always assert the

03:50:26.280 best boundaries for myself because i just have such a big heart if that makes sense so i think

03:50:30.500 that would probably resonate so you would change you would just want to be a cold too big of a heart

03:50:36.900 to where you kind of like forgive you forgive too much i guess or like you know i mean you see the

03:50:43.000 best people no matter but it's like what about you where are your boundaries and that's what i'm

03:50:46.900 learning i have a life coach she's helping me wow deep um what about you i don't know it's a bad

03:50:53.440 thing but like one thing you'd want to change about yourself i don't know i hear this sometimes

03:50:57.340 i i could possibly care too much to where it might turn as like annoying i don't know like

03:51:04.640 you care too much i don't know like to where it kind of distracts me um because i usually when i wake

03:51:11.180 up i go straight to work right and the first thing when i go home is because i cook because i cook um

03:51:17.760 i usually cook for my siblings when i go home i cook lunch that's like the first thing on my mind

03:51:22.120 like hurry up and cook lunch for my brothers and my sister you know i mean i never have downtime

03:51:26.020 for myself to where i just care too much and then right after that do emails whatnot whatnot right

03:51:32.020 and go grocery shopping then go back home same thing cook dinner like i help my mom and things 0.92

03:51:36.740 just like to where i feel like i never put myself door dashing you could get like someone to deliver

03:51:43.840 some food you guys i don't i don't we don't really order food really yeah like everything i make at home

03:51:51.080 like we cook everything oh yeah it's healthier because i feel like i had such a similar issue

03:51:55.900 to you because so i was still living at home until two years ago and my life was like centered around

03:52:01.400 sorry hold on just a second donated 99 dollars i have a defamation in my chest called bector's

03:52:08.020 excavatum which is basically a concave chest i have never felt the need to have surgery for it even

03:52:14.060 though it would be beneficial doesn't elon musk has that i think he literally has that chest thing

03:52:20.220 he's he's like built like it he's built interestingly for sure yeah he's got like uh

03:52:29.060 i think elon musk has that he's peak human potential are you ready to see him fight

03:52:34.880 mark that's gonna be pretty that would be funny i think zuck i feel like it's got like a year head

03:52:40.360 start on him though so he's probably but i think elon is taller but well uh go ahead um

03:52:47.640 oh no i just i relate to you and i think a lot of it um comes like when you are like you hold

03:52:59.160 yourself to a standard that and you want to be successful or you want to build certain things

03:53:04.260 whether it's that your parents like you know in like instilled like success or whatever

03:53:09.240 i think a lot of times we do have to sit back and like take time to actually find ourselves and find

03:53:15.680 what makes us happy outside of like meeting other people's needs or you know becoming successful in

03:53:22.100 different areas and because so it's kind of just sounds to me like you need to like possibly take time

03:53:29.540 to kind of explore you a little bit more so you can do things that like fill you up and

03:53:34.320 you get me wait who are you talking to her yeah oh okay wait but okay so what you know maybe maybe 0.93

03:53:44.960 the term is like a people pleaser or like people pleaser but wait i'm just you you have you said

03:53:50.460 two brothers two brothers and one sister are they younger than you are you the oldest child

03:53:55.100 no one younger sister two older brothers two older brothers yeah wait so they call me like mommy

03:53:59.640 number two and and you so wait it's uh and you live with your mom and dad correct yes is it and the

03:54:05.340 the brothers and sisters also are in the household yeah we we're still all together um why is the

03:54:11.280 cooking falling on you maybe it's just like me like like liking to take the lead or like you mean

03:54:20.340 getting things done i like getting things done yeah so like maybe you like do you like to cook or

03:54:26.180 yeah i do like to cook it's definitely a hobby it's a passion of mine i cook and bake you said you're so

03:54:30.560 busy so like to go work and then yeah like it's kind of like non-stop non-stop to where yeah okay but i

03:54:37.680 like take pleasure when i feel like someone is i don't know make i don't know like every time i cook

03:54:44.680 and i give it to like my siblings and if they enjoy it yeah it gives me like a high i guess

03:54:49.920 satisfaction satisfaction okay so you would change about yourself that you would do less is what you're

03:54:56.040 saying i don't i think it's a boundary for you yeah maybe what i'm trying to say is i think it'd be

03:55:01.700 very good for you to take time more to yourself to really understand yourself on a different level

03:55:06.740 because there's needs for your own self that aren't being met because you're so busy fulfilling

03:55:10.680 needs for others is your like love language services because that's what it sounds like

03:55:14.680 based and gifting word what about you uh i'm a very impatient person so that's one of the things

03:55:21.880 i would change impatient do you have a temper are you quick to anger no never you said you're impatient

03:55:28.860 i am well i have to work on it yes okay yes definitely all right so you'd change you could be

03:55:36.820 more patient i think we could all everyone could use a little more patience you know it's good it's

03:55:40.620 good all right we have sticks and bones here thank you man brian when you say that you'd rather just

03:55:44.440 have a natural woman so piercings and tattoos are our deal break for you because piercing be looking 1.00

03:55:50.620 good just saying my guy from my viewpoint tbh whatever makes her feel good and i still feel attracted

03:55:57.260 to her um again it's uh it's kind of scale so like bbl is pretty up there versus like she's got

03:56:07.480 that ear piercing is like pretty low on my priority list of things i care about um but uh i mean if you

03:56:14.920 start let's talk about tattoos like i mean i'd say generally speaking i lean more towards preferring

03:56:21.840 women who don't have tattoos uh i'm not like totally opposed to tattoos that's not a deal breaker for 1.00

03:56:29.240 me but like would i being honest generally speaking i would say no tattoos or the less tattoos i find it 0.86

03:56:38.120 more attractive but for me tattoos aren't a deal breaker but like if a girl had like fucking gnarly face 1.00

03:56:44.640 tattoos like yeah that's a little bit for me that's a little bit unattractive uh piercings 0.97

03:56:50.960 you know

03:56:52.780 ear piercings i'm not what about tongue piercings and stuff like that

03:57:00.580 well like piercing in the intimate parts i think that's a red flag a little bit not necessarily red

03:57:09.120 flag but like a tongue piercing or nipple piercings or like a clip piercing it's a little like

03:57:13.200 i'm not into them i don't like i don't like them i have friends who have their nipples pierced but i 0.92

03:57:18.640 personally am not i would i'll say this i would prefer a girl who doesn't have piercings i think 0.99

03:57:24.340 it looks trashy no offense to anyone who has it i just ear piercings i don't like i don't really care

03:57:28.660 but like nipple piercings i'm kind of like why yeah what's her body count i know that has nipple 1.00

03:57:37.240 piercings their nipples stay like permanently hard so it's like i'm like same i don't know if i'd want 0.94

03:57:43.520 that it's kind of like you can sort of make a judgment call based off of i don't know if i see

03:57:51.860 a guy like totally blasted in tattoos with like face tattoos i'm like my immediate thing is going to

03:57:58.560 be like soundcloud rapper or like criminal like criminal history like something like that so it's

03:58:03.800 like we all make judgment calls based off of people's physical appearance no but have you

03:58:07.780 ever just seen a girl who is just like everything is like she looks like such a like this is going 0.88

03:58:13.260 to sound very like stereotyping but just so like goody two-shoe girl and then the nipples are pierced 1.00

03:58:19.680 and you're just like what like when like threw me something or like the tongue is pierced and you're

03:58:24.540 just like what yeah there's like wild like when we're wine house yeah yeah quiet ones have to be

03:58:30.560 yeah so uh yeah and you're like what are you hiding no yeah but i mean again it's a scale like

03:58:37.140 a girl who's dyed her hair a little auburn brown or something is a little different than like 1.00

03:58:43.260 pink you know like a blue hair green yeah you know so um you know what's actually crazy i i i actually

03:58:51.640 used to like girls who had like color in their hair like red or blue yeah i used to like it before it

03:58:58.280 was kind of associated with like like fucking far far left like sj like sjw like super liberal woman

03:59:09.620 it used to mean like it used to be more so tied to like women who are a bit more like punk or like 0.68

03:59:14.900 uh it had to do more with like maybe your music taste or less to do with your politics um and also 0.98

03:59:21.180 had to do with daddy issues you know so now it's like you know easy fuck he's into daddy issues 0.94

03:59:27.480 yeah i'm so confused but uh yeah now it's like now it's like okay this chick's like probably 0.99

03:59:38.400 you can maybe guess a couple things about her politics and whatnot but okay i'm not i'm like

03:59:44.260 i consider myself moderate guy but like i don't know i don't i don't like like super out in either

03:59:50.780 direction i don't like super outspoken people politically like if they're really like that's

03:59:55.920 their whole fucking personality it's so exhausting yes there's always some cause yeah there's some cause 0.89

04:00:02.000 that they're all up in arms about very sensitive people i think people are like really really invested 0.99

04:00:07.060 in politics exhausting i'm exhausted it's exhausting um and they may be righteous in their

04:00:14.580 political positions but it's like for a partner i don't want someone who's like really invested

04:00:20.360 in politics i don't consider myself super invested in politics i don't think i'd want

04:00:24.880 in either direction whether she's like super liberal super conservative it's like

04:00:29.840 yeah i don't know anyways um okay we have uh sticks and bones here again hey thank you for the hundred

04:00:34.860 haha sorry to be super chatting so much hey uh i don't i do not object man i appreciate your

04:00:39.600 patronage but general question ladies i'm single and i haven't dated anyone in about a year i'm trying

04:00:44.460 to get back out there and these dating apps are killing me so what's some recommendations on how

04:00:49.060 to improve my odds i mean that's a pretty general question but um please let me start jim get your money

04:00:56.420 up please let me start go ahead marketing nowadays is everything which means how you step out of the

04:01:03.340 house is so important the way you carry yourself how you approach someone body language but also

04:01:09.560 how what do you have to offer the female because the more you start focusing on that too the more 1.00

04:01:17.140 confident you will also be in situations where you can assert like more of an alpha i guess energy

04:01:23.520 it's like a confidence you know if you know what you have you get what i mean like you attract

04:01:29.140 life things yeah like if you if you know you have like value or you feel like you're valuable

04:01:35.160 then you're gonna naturally communicate with somebody and hold yourself in a confident light

04:01:40.800 and that's attractive anybody else have a answer to this so i think again like uh appearances matter

04:01:49.180 because that's the first judgment you're gonna make is the appearance so make sure

04:01:52.240 you know your outfits are clean um well fitted you're physically active groomed well uh when it

04:01:59.660 comes to like online dating make sure your profile picture is actually well because a lot of guys have

04:02:04.620 really bad profile pictures and you're gonna get swiped left and then it's very important to learn how to

04:02:10.660 talk to women i feel like a lot of guys cannot talk to women and like keep an eye contact which is

04:02:16.220 kind of a demonstration of lack of confidence you have to make sure to keep an eye contact with people so

04:02:22.120 i would try to work on those i feel like easier said than done you know what's really gangster though

04:02:26.880 never looking at a woman in the eyes that is just be like 0.99

04:02:30.840 just look at her tits just stare at her you're not even worth you're not even worthy of me looking 1.00

04:02:38.340 at you that's the most gangster shit if you're not looking at me i'm not you're misreading it the 1.00

04:02:43.040 guys that are scared to scared to make eye contact they're actually they just they're so confident 1.00

04:02:48.460 they're staring at the table i don't even need to look at you the table is more important i only

04:02:52.660 look at people that are that are a threat i will only glance at someone who's a threat to me

04:02:58.180 the table is a threat to you that's right the table will attack you well i'm just i'm so confident

04:03:05.660 i need i need not look at who i'm talking to because i can do my aikido makes sense totally word

04:03:12.600 anybody else on that super chat or anybody uh advice i mean i think the big one just get fit

04:03:21.560 get in the gym get your money up exactly those are those are some things within your control that

04:03:27.480 you can work on i feel like you can just talk to people too like so many people so much emphasis on

04:03:32.380 like you have to talk to girls in a certain way i mean just talk she's a human talk to her like she's

04:03:38.320 your bro exactly it doesn't have to always be on dating apps yes i think the best thing is just

04:03:43.000 ask her questions and let her do the talking yeah if you're interested then ask a question back you

04:03:47.780 know that's how you continue conversation i feel like guys feel like they have to riz a girl up all

04:03:53.000 the time like it's not like that you mean talk to her like she's a person sometimes you keep rizzing

04:03:57.200 just ignore her don't say anything yeah but if you have if you have riz you are 99 sure like

04:04:04.780 100 you are going to get the girl then if you don't have riz that is just a fact and i think

04:04:10.220 everyone can agree with that if you have riz the girl is going to be look at you what would you define 0.98

04:04:15.780 like what's riz the way you carry yourself energy it's just yeah it's charismatic but that comes

04:04:22.960 from like confidence and stuff that's that and that's my point that's why i was saying that i like

04:04:27.560 a man who knows how to talk but confidence isn't like the only thing you know i mean yeah but are

04:04:32.600 you gonna date an insecure man are you attracted to that no that is super important yeah yeah you

04:04:38.080 could also go to never mind i was gonna say you could become a passport pro too um because you

04:04:43.120 said you've been single for a year you haven't dated anyone in about a year no brian you are

04:04:47.020 don't listen to brian no i'm not it's all good i'm just saying you know if you're if you're struggling

04:04:53.900 to find to and you're not it's not clear if you've been trying to uh find somebody but you know if

04:05:01.840 you're struggling in the marketplace in the u.s maybe think about latin america think about

04:05:08.040 the you know uh east asian countries you know go to where you are appreciated yeah also you could

04:05:19.740 potentially lower your standards a little bit make them a little bit more realistic no shoot for the

04:05:25.240 stars go for your goals you're worth fight for your dreams you got this i believe in you i would just

04:05:30.540 put down the dating apps and just go outside sure like go outside touch grass and go outside hang out

04:05:37.460 hold on we have like go to the park one hundred dollars one sec get in my belly i want my baby 0.99

04:05:45.540 back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back

04:05:55.340 ribs chili's baby back ribs all right thank you for that pastor that's thank you um you were saying

04:06:01.400 touch grass go outside go to the yeah like you said you go to the gym you probably can meet

04:06:05.900 a woman at the gym okay you'll probably meet someone at work don't do the gym so so you 1.00

04:06:10.300 don't do the gym yeah please your recommendation to him is to like just go and like approach a girl

04:06:15.340 out in public absolutely yeah i think let's let's i think so many stories now it's hard for a lot of

04:06:21.240 guys like we met on tinder it's like okay that's not the gym how sweet like i don't i don't think

04:06:26.420 well yeah the gym is the worst place i think i wouldn't i wouldn't approach a girl at the gym just 1.00

04:06:32.800 because it's like you're there for to put in work to work out like i think a lot of people 0.97

04:06:37.880 i mean look if you're really fucking feeling her then no if you got it like that and you're hot do 0.90

04:06:43.780 it if you like if you're lacking in the confidence and you don't know if you can don't just don't oh 0.94

04:06:47.860 yeah if there's any doubts like then it's just gonna be awkward yeah it's gonna be awkward like

04:06:52.300 because if you see them again it's just like yeah i don't know there's just so many places to meet

04:06:56.540 people like if you're in like 20s you would go to like a bar a party like anything if you're older

04:07:02.600 go on facebook group like facebook groups and like see where the parties are at for like 30 year olds

04:07:08.740 yeah we'll make some friends there's gonna be girls there like it's gonna give you confidence

04:07:13.380 it's okay i want to do a test so you said like just go out hit like pick up a girl out in the real

04:07:19.380 in the streets uh so i want you to try to pick me up i'm gonna pretend to be a chick you be a dude 1.00

04:07:24.920 let's do it oh gosh my name's brianna or actually here okay you you pick what's the context that

04:07:33.980 we're meeting where where what's the context the park okay i'm so i'm at the park what what am i

04:07:41.160 doing am i just like uh laying on a i'm reading a book i got my you're reading um a book on the bench

04:07:48.020 okay cute and i never claimed to have rizz guys but um go for it is a seat taken

04:07:55.700 that's cute i mean that's a good start

04:07:59.260 there's i'm am i on the grass no you're on the bench oh there's a bench there's a bench you're

04:08:05.440 on a bench reading a book um or like ask like can i sit next to you that's so

04:08:10.760 no that's so weird it's a yes or no question let me try oh you want to rizz me up yeah i do okay 0.97

04:08:16.840 okay what's the context same one park i'm at the park bench reading some fucking 0.92

04:08:23.480 okay i'm a social i'm reading carl marx oh my god okay okay i'm gonna walk by you and i'm gonna

04:08:32.360 literally compliment your shoes i'm gonna talk to you about your shoes because you're a guy guys love

04:08:37.740 sneakers the sneaker game whatever i'm gonna be like no no but i'm the chick i'm the chick you're

04:08:42.600 the dude you're the guy i'm kind of rising the girl oh shoot this is so hard that's what i mean

04:08:47.620 so hard to hit on girls i got it i got it i got it are you gonna go you go i'll take it after you 0.81

04:08:52.940 go ahead all right you know um can i sit here uh i couldn't help but notice from across the park

04:09:01.500 your smile's very very beautiful no no no no girls have no game no i got this i got this i'm not

04:09:11.420 even gonna try okay hey do you mind hey is this seat open do you mind if i sit here no bro there's a

04:09:18.960 wait wait let's start again okay go again go again uh excuse me miss uh do you mind if i sit here

04:09:28.880 yes um uh say just say yes let me just get my answer this this is what a girl would say she'd be

04:09:35.700 like uh there's like a seat over there no the sunshine is here but that's like let's just say

04:09:44.800 yes okay let's move on hey this is like okay okay you're reading a book in in in the in the men's

04:09:51.640 bathroom if there's three urinals you don't go up to the urinal like you don't take the urinal next to

04:09:59.220 another dude there has to be a like if there's other uh benches at the park you can't go up to

04:10:05.200 the girl be like oh my god it's so crowded in the park but i'm making it obvious that i actually

04:10:09.980 interested in you that's why i said yeah can i sit next to you even though there's too much

04:10:13.980 that's like the best thing to do is to keep it nonchalant and be like oh i love that like i love

04:10:19.180 that shirt something like your book i would just start talking to you about your book like okay fine

04:10:25.060 i'll play along i'll play along go ahead sure sure okay risk me up so uh my name is bella what's

04:10:30.340 your name oh it's brianna nice to meet you oh what book are you reading karl marx what is it about

04:10:35.740 yeah like communism oh do you mind if i like maybe grab you a coffee and then we can talk about this

04:10:41.540 book no i feel very interesting no if after all if after like that short of time they're asking to

04:10:46.340 grab i think it's too quick i'll give you i'll give you my actual rebuttal i'll be like okay um i don't

04:10:53.820 know i'm just kind of been like enjoying my communist reading session here can you uh

04:10:58.360 it's social i don't even know you whatever uh well you know what that's okay have a great day and then

04:11:04.480 i'm just gonna walk away no that's because i'm the confident man okay go ahead okay try i'm gonna

04:11:09.260 you're wearing a green shirt or something i don't know i'm walking okay hey i love that green shirt

04:11:15.260 that's so something i don't know just be natural oh thank you yeah uh what's your name brianna

04:11:22.840 brianna oh nice to meet you i'm i'm a daddy

04:11:26.720 where are you from you can't actually say if you said you're a daddy okay hi i'm tim

04:11:34.880 actually that i feel like a girl might laugh at that she probably would that could be funny

04:11:38.560 where are you from brianna where are you from

04:11:42.140 uh vermont vermont wow i've never been over there what's it like

04:11:47.880 that's boring yeah i'm from colorado the mountains oh my god the snow let me tell you

04:11:54.120 horrible do you like la how long have you been living here it's just like three months i just i

04:11:59.880 just moved out here i think that's the way

04:12:02.560 are you seeing are you seeing anybody yet am i seeing anybody yeah oh you know i'm like just

04:12:10.840 you know chilling reading your book i'm just chilling okay well i think you're beautiful and

04:12:16.480 i would love to take you out nothing just to hang out get to know each other maybe go

04:12:21.040 get dinner on me obviously love to treat you to whatever you want oh i yeah i guess we could do

04:12:28.220 dinner oh let's go um are you gonna ask me for my number no i'm kidding no that's your job i know

04:12:38.160 that's your job that was just joking and then i'm gonna be like okay yeah well um you know what

04:12:42.500 actually give me your phone i'm gonna put my number in oh i actually don't give out my number

04:12:45.760 but i can give you my instagram oh that's smart that's when you know that's when you know actually

04:12:51.360 no that's not true it might not necessarily be a rejection it may not because she may be trying

04:12:56.940 to see what you're about because i've done that before you kind of use the instagram as like a

04:13:01.320 filter yeah yeah i think honestly though i think that the the way the the trajectory of that

04:13:06.780 conversation i think it moved way too quick there wasn't any like banter i don't think there was any

04:13:11.100 like it's well but she's reading a book like you don't you don't want to take away for it that's

04:13:16.800 annoying well she already like put it down to talk to you in the first place like so she's already 1.00

04:13:20.280 putting in that effort shoot your shot don't take up her time here's why okay cool you want to

04:13:25.280 make sure she thinks about you because if it's short and sweet she's thinking about you but

04:13:28.840 don't make her uncomfortable you're not going to go get a coffee right away sure okay you don't want

04:13:32.460 to do something in that immediate moment okay cool so i've i've given you i've given you the instagram

04:13:39.820 uh now what so so it's later on in the day what what do you do you're gonna wait you do not slide

04:13:46.220 in immediately you wait till the next day because guess why you're busy you're a man of high value 0.55

04:13:51.520 you got shit going on you have friends you have life and you're gonna say hey what are you doing 0.70

04:13:57.080 this saturday i'd love to take you to dinner and then or don't i would be uninterested if he came 0.99

04:14:04.060 up to me and yeah and he asked me to like hang out and then he didn't text me i'd be like

04:14:11.760 whatever yeah what's your goal is your goal to like get laid

04:14:15.360 no for me i like it when the guy

04:14:19.040 no that's not it but no my goal no i mean my goal is okay let's let's go back and forth with

04:14:28.140 the actual messages on instagram so you say what either way to to get laid or to get to know a girl

04:14:33.420 the beginning is still the beginning is still the same whether you want to get laid or get to know the

04:14:37.980 girl it's still the same sure 100 so that will work every time okay so so you wait a day then

04:14:45.200 you slide in what do you send um let's pretend we're texting cute something cute and funny about

04:14:50.740 the book so do you did you finish you finish something funny and do you finish here let's

04:14:56.100 just role play it okay role play you don't have to just go ahead so what's your message uh you finished

04:15:01.980 that book yet are you still glued to that book lol something cute fun i like that i actually really

04:15:06.940 like still glued to that book yeah yeah

04:15:10.560 um that sounds like a girl who's not interested if you're giving such a short answer it's like yeah

04:15:19.480 yeah what are you saying what's that book that from robin d'angelo about

04:15:25.820 it's like something about white privilege yeah i'm reading a book on white privilege now jesus

04:15:30.920 can you just give me a normal okay yes uh i finished the book it was wonderful how are you

04:15:40.240 oh um i'm gonna say you said i finished the book it was wonderful what'd you say how are you

04:15:51.880 if this was like a conversation this is like zero riz no we're messaging so i have time brian

04:16:03.740 okay i'd say you're trying to get me out on a date right okay get me out on the date go um

04:16:11.920 what would be wonderful is what would be wonderful no don't say that i'd say oh that's something just

04:16:20.240 simple oh that's uh hold on hold on i can do this okay um um do it hold can you lower the volume just

04:16:31.860 just do it don't let your dreams be dreams yesterday you said tomorrow so just do it i loved that guy

04:16:41.500 um something you need to you need to say something a little flirty with her but not too flirty

04:16:47.120 so i would say something but then you okay but that was a good start yeah really good hey i was

04:16:54.220 committed okay i was committed to this what were you gonna say though okay here let's get some

04:17:00.200 chats and okay we got matt jams 89 hey thank you man uh brian is so modest saying he's in the high

04:17:05.580 value man he actually saved me from a shark attack before some girls left out the fish we had caught

04:17:11.060 that day and attracted a shark brian out ran out of the boat cabin and scared the shark off 11 out of

04:17:17.040 10 hey matt jams uh 89 thank you very much appreciate it oh one other quality i appreciate in women is

04:17:24.080 modesty i like modesty i like because i like to i try to be modest okay we have x falco here

04:17:30.140 uh thank you for the uh donation man appreciate it wonderful stream tonight guys good to see the

04:17:34.760 these girls have their head on their shoulders please be careful to not go too far in the of 0.59

04:17:39.680 route as to not disrespect yourself and your future family perception is everything in reputation and

04:17:45.380 legacy and last i would agree work based okay good times x falco thank you for that do you guys have a

04:17:54.360 response to that or not really thank you of course draw your boundaries ladies and always stick to 0.97

04:18:00.280 them exactly wait we have yourself and have a little update here from um sticks and bones he says

04:18:10.280 my problem is that i live in japan i work for the military been here for eight years now but the

04:18:18.320 dating scene be rough out here i'm a 5 11 dude covered in ink i go out a decent amount i've gone on

04:18:24.320 some dates work out five times a week bro you're already in japan are you you're 5 11 how are you

04:18:32.200 not just like killing it dude well the tattoos in japan are considered part of the uh the mafia or not

04:18:39.720 the mafia but well for native japanese but he's honestly wait clarify are you american are you

04:18:46.060 american i don't think he's like in the japanese military sticks and bones slide into some dms on

04:18:51.860 instagram honestly i'm not gonna lie i think that's gonna be your best bet what what is the term what's

04:18:56.920 not working out for him what's that what's not working out for him yeah sticks and bones can you

04:19:00.840 clarify um are you in the u.s military i assume you are but no the ink is still a problem because like

04:19:07.200 sometimes when you go to public places you still have to cover it up in japan it's a cultural thing

04:19:11.400 i thought that was changing though no i was just in japan and they're like that yeah it's still pretty

04:19:16.500 yeah okay and um i don't know i might be wrong but i feel like um when it comes to certain eastern

04:19:23.660 asian countries and stuff like that they actually would like to date like a japanese guy um in my

04:19:29.440 opinion like uh they like to stay within their own what's it called gaijin are you is he it's i think

04:19:37.040 that's the term gaijin what does that mean a gaijin is like isn't that what like uh the japanese

04:19:42.940 will call like uh a foreigner gaijin sure that's what they call the foreign like typically american

04:19:50.340 foreigners i think am i is it is that wrong to say gaijin i don't know i don't know what you're the only

04:19:56.780 one wait guy gaijin meaning hold on am i mean foreigner or outsider in practice gaijin are

04:20:06.160 commonly used to refer to refer to foreigners of non-east asian ethnicities gaijin i don't know if

04:20:13.040 i'm pronouncing it right

04:20:13.900 yeah somebody also brought up an interesting point like no idea it's a it's a term for for foreigners so

04:20:22.720 maybe i don't know you got to find some i'm pretty sure there's like japanese women that are like 1.00

04:20:26.680 gaijin hunters but somebody brought up an interesting point hopefully you're actually

04:20:31.580 able to like speak in japanese like speak japanese and like communicate with them because that's

04:20:35.980 important i mean they speak i don't speak any japanese and everyone was like super eager to

04:20:41.180 practice their english but i feel like if you're going on a date like i think it's a little important

04:20:45.940 wait sticks and bones are you in like some remote like small population area of japan

04:20:52.300 i don't know are there u.s military bases and also how long do you know if you're going to be are

04:20:59.020 you going to be in japan this whole time like why don't you start deeming girls back where you're

04:21:02.560 going to be going to like or are you out in japan forever like what's the vibe i don't know

04:21:07.860 like girls on the base like slide into some girls dms back in colorado if that's where you're headed 1.00

04:21:14.080 back to you know true okay we have uh adam collins here you say that and it works up front meeting in

04:21:21.480 the streets which works short term however girls get sketched out by no social media 0.87

04:21:26.520 yeah yeah low-key yeah because we want to see like we want to like investigate a little we're a little

04:21:34.420 crazy so you think if the guy has like absolutely no social media presence he's something's wrong no

04:21:40.500 not that something's not wrong but it's like we're like why we want to know a little bit more about you

04:21:45.820 it's a little too the unknown is very he's like a technical for a lot of people well that's what i'm

04:21:50.160 saying like why why don't you have they want to do if that's the reason then that's not necessarily

04:21:54.540 a bad thing but if they got some like baggage then i mean they want to do a little bit of

04:22:00.100 or are they hiding or what if they're hiding they do have a social media they actually have a

04:22:03.620 see we just want to see the vibes word okay we have uh tj king hey thank you for the 50 man ladies

04:22:11.340 would you smash henry cavill if he approached you with a date 100 henry cavill oh my god

04:22:17.860 only if he's dressing as the witcher can you find some photos of potential james bond

04:22:25.400 no i don't see it i think he is going to be king's bond i mean i can't believe that they say

04:22:31.820 that he's too old to be a superman it just seems crazy to me by the way sticks and bones i don't

04:22:37.620 know if you uh if you're still in the chat if you've hit the uh because sometimes there's a maximum oh

04:22:42.080 yeah sticks you might have hit the uh i don't know if you hit the max actually but if you uh i think

04:22:47.600 on youtube there's a 500 limit for soup chats so you may have to if you want to get your message in

04:22:53.260 you may have to do it through uh stream labs uh that's henry cavill cavill i can't pronounce

04:23:00.020 anything okay so why what's ladies why is he the witcher i mean the just here show of hand show of

04:23:07.500 hands who here would accept a date from henry cavill i mean like a picture of what he looks like right

04:23:13.320 now because there's like yeah he plays world of warcraft by the way hello what do you mean a picture

04:23:20.280 those were pictures of him yeah i didn't get a good look please all right pull it up again really

04:23:25.420 quick uh i don't like that pick one that's like looks like him right now probably that i mean he

04:23:32.160 cavill don't like this is like 700 different looks like pick one that looks like right now

04:23:39.580 i don't know who is who scroll down

04:23:43.840 oh the superman guy and like what's the body looking like right now he's oh my gosh girl

04:23:55.300 all right okay we have uh sticks and bones i'm american u.s military and the issue tbh is that

04:24:03.720 most people nowadays aren't looking for anything serious nowadays hookup culture is huge out here

04:24:08.120 now i live about an hour away from tokyo i'm moving from japan next year okay he's an hour from

04:24:14.880 tokyo so he's like is would that be the suburbs maybe of tokyo i'm not super familiar with uh

04:24:20.300 with uh japan but uh well it looks like someone said japan is easy in the chat i know i'm not

04:24:26.720 no it's kind of interesting how he says i thought japan was more traditional no it's not even that but

04:24:32.060 people are not having sex in japan like their birth rates are going really down because

04:24:35.840 they're just not having sex and so i'm kind of interested that he said the hookup culture is

04:24:41.020 huge because i would have thought it was the opposite i would have thought that there would

04:24:44.860 be a lot more single women out there you know ready yeah i agree to whatever because men don't want 1.00

04:24:51.140 to have sex anymore so that's kind of interesting is there japanese tender that's what you're saying

04:24:57.880 for sure dating apps yeah that's your best hope hookup culture is huge and maybe try to get a 0.75

04:25:03.320 facetime in before you meet up well sticks and bones are you are you not trying to hook up with

04:25:07.200 i'm some japanese woman what's going on you don't want to hook up you want a relationship

04:25:12.380 he wants a wifey but he's leaving in a year isn't it the case though that like people

04:25:18.100 have to work a lot in japan like both men and women are like work a shit ton and so they don't 0.79

04:25:23.160 have a lot of time or something i mean like honestly bro you're gonna have to like

04:25:27.340 ride it out and wait till you move they have a very high rate of uh falling asleep dead because

04:25:33.040 of working so much yeah good very interesting culture uh do you think like hookup culture

04:25:40.440 will like ever go away or no that the cat is out of the bag on that i think no this guy should

04:25:47.020 actually look look wherever you're gonna move back to find girls and just like you know have a

04:25:52.100 little bit of a roster and then when you move back you can meet if they're still like single you can

04:25:56.400 meet up with them i find that tough though that's like because a lot of people say like a lot of

04:26:02.440 women in a lot of asian countries tend to lean more traditional so i don't know it's just kind of 0.98

04:26:07.580 surprising that you're struggling in japan when a lot of people say well if you're struggling in the

04:26:13.040 western countries go to an asian country so uh yeah i don't know but uh rip rip is in the chat for 0.99

04:26:23.900 our boy sticks and bones he's 5 11 ripped as fuck he's a fucking giga chad and he's struggling 0.99

04:26:30.400 in japan if there's any japanese ladies any japanese ladies watching his dms sticks and bones dms 1.00

04:26:38.000 are open um yeah maybe uh i don't know guaranteed in a week from now you'll already i think you gotta go on

04:26:47.620 a tear dude you gotta hit you gotta do the dating apps you gotta yeah go to social gatherings you

04:26:52.580 gotta meet you're probably not putting as much effort as you think approach girls are have you

04:26:57.680 been on the dating apps have you what have you tried what have you tried because uh if you're not

04:27:03.160 trying various avenues then you know i we have uh the cast man hey thank you man i'm an american who

04:27:09.800 lives in japan yo by the way guys i might go to japan at some point so uh you know to visit i've

04:27:17.280 never been so uh maybe i can uh i'll meet up with you guys a wingman for you i'm a good wingman okay

04:27:24.300 that's cute okay the cast man i'm an american who lives in japan it's it's extremely hard to date

04:27:29.580 japanese women if you don't speak japanese well yeah that could be a thing um most people don't speak 0.97

04:27:34.800 english okay yes tinder is in japan but you won't get any matches if you don't speak japanese

04:27:39.640 okay that's a good point yeah so you probably i mean if you're in a foreign country uh especially

04:27:47.020 like i think in japan my understanding is like there there are some like european countries where

04:27:51.500 a lot of them will speak english like the netherlands scandinavian countries a lot of them will

04:27:56.700 like very even though it's not the primary language like they speak english very proficiently or

04:28:03.060 fluently in japan like you got to speak japanese most likely so uh so basically you got to learn

04:28:09.540 japanese son sticks and bones you speak japanese a polyamorous relationship when you're dating

04:28:13.700 three people or more than one it's gonna be you your japanese girl and google translate that's what 0.68

04:28:20.920 you're about to be in yep but dude can't you find in the major cities can't you find like

04:28:25.920 gaijin hunters it's like natives uh the the maybe he needs to start his own dating service where he can 1.00

04:28:34.900 help his other like other people from outside of japan i mean you could say he could try to date the

04:28:40.680 uh fellow american u.s soldiers they're women but i've not heard good things about that okay um so uh 0.97

04:28:51.700 yeah good times okay we have let's see we have curtis here when i was in oh what's there's a lot of

04:28:58.080 people tuning in from japan right about now oh when i was in okinawa in the marine corps

04:29:04.240 i wasn't having much luck with the japanese chicks but then i took two semesters of japanese all of a 0.99

04:29:11.000 sudden i was slaying japanese chicks got so good that the girl from tokyo would fly down to visit me

04:29:16.540 weekly and he was on okinawa which was is an island um in japan so bro you got yeah you probably got to

04:29:26.720 learn japanese exactly did he did stick say he's been in japan for eight years he said he's in the

04:29:31.540 military for yeah okay military yeah i think you gotta learn the language i mean i think that

04:29:36.720 it's a hard language to learn though i think so uh okay good luck with that thank you curtis for that uh

04:29:42.160 donation okay we have i think that's it for the chats um uh we should try to wrap up here pretty soon

04:29:49.800 so uh before before that anyone any final thoughts on anything specifically japan or anything if you

04:29:56.800 anything you wanted to uh touch on or get off your chest before we wrap

04:30:00.340 i think bella who's bella me yeah you you said that your ex-boyfriend plotted to kill your current

04:30:08.460 yeah and then they're friends now no wait what what

04:30:15.240 so um i used to date this guy and uh he was a very interesting guy he was international chinese

04:30:24.020 guy actually uh i met him in college and we dated and he was uh one of my serious first

04:30:30.740 relationship boyfriends and uh i broke up with him um but before i broke up uh he was going through

04:30:38.260 some stuff so i suggested hey you know what why don't you write down things like i don't know

04:30:42.660 on your diary or whatever um so uh he did um once i completely broke up with him and i found his diary

04:30:50.480 i read it and he said that he would stop my next boyfriend in the eye yeah good times he didn't

04:30:59.300 how sweet yeah it's sweet it's a passionate love just loved you so much like no yeah he's good you

04:31:05.720 don't want other people to see you yeah no he's good he's married like he's he seems happy

04:31:09.860 yeah yeah somebody married him so it's good

04:31:12.620 anyone else any final thoughts any last minute topics you'd like to touch on before we wrap up here

04:31:20.500 i don't think so i didn't think word you said you i think you wanted to touch on

04:31:29.780 modern dating has skewed our ideas of what a human connection relationship is i've talked to

04:31:35.360 friends who have said that is overwhelming risky and exhausting and it seems to have gone in this

04:31:39.720 way from hookup culture definitely i'm not a huge fan of hookup culture either yeah i think it does like

04:31:47.340 it you don't know now if hooking up like how are you going to go into a relationship

04:31:54.020 okay let me start over modern dating is hard now because i think everyone just wants to hook up

04:32:01.580 they like there's like why have one if you could have five that's i think very big and what people

04:32:09.180 are thinking now so they don't want to date it's harder to date i think i feel like it's hard yeah

04:32:15.580 like finding someone that wants commitment yeah it's hard yeah so yeah i think there's a lot of

04:32:21.160 very very hard yeah i think there's a lot of issues with the hookup culture um one is people

04:32:27.380 are not very honest and self-aware as to what their intentions are two i think there is an issue with

04:32:33.580 consent when it comes to hookups sometimes you know uh we might say one thing but then do another thing

04:32:40.220 and then there's an issue with that for example uh you know a girl might say hey um let's hang out

04:32:48.040 but we're not gonna sleep together but then you guys hang out and then you do end up sleeping

04:32:52.680 but it's like you said no at first and then you change your opinion so i think there's a lot of

04:32:57.460 like issues with how you phrase things and with consent specifically and uh yeah i just think

04:33:04.280 we just lost a human touch to it yeah and i also feel like people are more business focused these days

04:33:10.280 um so they're not really looking for relationships they're looking to further their career and that

04:33:16.700 gets in the way oh that's interesting point yeah like using sex to as a to get ahead kind of thing

04:33:23.280 i think that always existed though yeah also expectations now lay grossman donated 100 1.00

04:33:30.920 dollars i'm gonna have to head down there and i will rain down an ungodly fucking firestorm upon you 0.99

04:33:37.880 you're gonna have to call the fucking united nations and get a fucking binding resolution to keep me from 1.00

04:33:43.480 fucking destroying you let's go i am talking scorched earth um okay let's uh less gross man okay thank you 1.00

04:33:51.720 very much is he talking to you damn that's passion that's hot that yeah that is um that is something 1.00

04:33:59.480 for sure that's that was certainly a choice that was that was okay thank you less grossman for that 0.98

04:34:06.680 that was that was beautiful okay um did you have a final thought on anything before we wrap up

04:34:13.320 i'm going for a minute um follow me on instagram at julia lynn sandoval link is in the bio

04:34:18.760 yeah okay only vic.com let's go taylor yeah i think that's it i mean the the only we've already

04:34:27.400 gone pretty long here uh red flags i don't know let's you know what we could do maybe i'll do uh if

04:34:35.080 any of you want to stick around i'll do like a uh 20 30 minute after show that's when we like turn

04:34:40.680 the lights down so uh maybe we can do that but uh maybe i don't know turn the lights down and then what

04:34:48.040 no it's like a what it's like you know turn off the lights it's like more it's like mood lighting

04:34:57.000 right it's mood lighting it's like the after show he just brings a bunch of of girls here and then

04:35:01.800 wants to turn down the lights whoa what are your intentions hitting ryan in gta it's a yellow card

04:35:09.880 for you that was okay cool um let's see here anyone red flags let's go around the table uh

04:35:19.880 red flags any red flags that either that you have or that are red flags for you in the

04:35:27.000 i don't like sushi that's my dude that's a red flag okay yeah a lot of people think it's a red flag

04:35:35.320 um here i'll give one if she's a van lifer if she's a van lifer that's a red flag what's a van 1.00

04:35:44.520 lifer they they live in their van and they like travel around and shit like i've seen them on dating 0.75

04:35:50.920 apps and like you have to understand as a guy if you see a chick who's a van lifer on a dating app 0.91

04:35:57.640 and she's like oh i'm in town for two days and she's on a dating app she hooks up with she hooks 0.99

04:36:02.840 up with a new dude every new city she's in and she uses them for a shower for like a bed 1.00

04:36:10.440 okay i have one if she has an instagram but doesn't have an only fans and doesn't have another any other

04:36:19.080 job that you have like spoken with her about and is in a different country every month like sugar

04:36:26.680 daddy's yeah isn't sugar daddy thing she's got a job all right i'll put it that way 1.00

04:36:33.960 yeah no that's not me are you calling ourselves out because it's not what i do let's make that loud

04:36:40.600 okay uh for me my personal red flag is again being impatient and i guess for a guy would be just very

04:36:47.800 insecure insecure any red flags for your guy into your guy yeah it's here okay anything anybody

04:36:55.480 i'm like when people are like rude to people that like at a restaurant they're rude to

04:37:01.000 or like just people that you nobody sees you like someone who's rude to wait staff

04:37:08.920 even though you're out in public and no one sees you or knows you and you have no like benefit from

04:37:14.440 react interacting with that person i think just kindness to all people that you all interact like

04:37:19.960 interact with is sexy and people who are just like rude and like not kind in general is just like a

04:37:25.080 really big turn off like i have one but it's kind of it's kind of mean but it's honest what is it if

04:37:31.480 he's a 10 and he's dating a girl that's a three that's a red flag there's many reasons why he's a

04:37:38.440 red flag i think what he's physically a 10 and he's dating a female who's physically a three

04:37:43.400 red flag what if it's love yeah red flag that's not love with a she's probably so nice red flag

04:37:49.960 what do you think is the issue like what do you think what do you think his intentions are

04:37:56.280 i don't know you think it's like a power thing i think i think it could be control i think it could

04:38:01.560 be the girl has a wealthy family i think it could be he's broke and she has money i think i think it

04:38:06.120 could be a lot of things but men think very logically and also tend to uh be more sexually

04:38:13.160 aggressive than females so that's all i think disavow disavow oh bender the offender donated 99 0.98

04:38:21.320 or he's gay doesn't date guys with an android red flag would anyone here like would not date a guy

04:38:29.160 because of a phone no that's weird that's fine that's weird leave him alone i think it's because

04:38:37.400 maybe apple is associated with like wealth or something like more wealthy people have apple but

04:38:42.440 i think it's a stupid reason wait question what would you let's say like a guy he's he's risen 0.87

04:38:49.560 you up he's running some game and you're into him you're feeling him he's about to ask for your 0.98

04:38:56.680 number and you're you would be otherwise prepared to give him your number however when he pulls out

04:39:02.520 his phone it's a flip phone i knew he's got a flip phone oh shoot burn a razor crunch is it just done

04:39:11.800 do you do you reconsider giving him your number i gotta give it to him for the fun of it like

04:39:17.720 i'm gonna look around and see who's filming and where the joke is at this point no i feel like it's

04:39:22.760 like it's kind of no one has a flip phone it's the type of guy who's like oh i don't want to

04:39:26.760 participate in societal norms i want to be unique and different so i'm going to have a flip phone

04:39:31.640 so i don't yeah i think that's going to be cringe no one has nobody has a no one has a flip phone so

04:39:37.000 this isn't even happening he's come back no one's having a flip phone okay how about this how about

04:39:40.520 this same circumstances but he pulls out one yo miss me bro jesus no is that i'm gonna ask to borrow

04:39:49.000 it for an instagram photo shoot that's what i'm gonna ask trust in that in the in the 90s kind of

04:39:54.760 fire i'm not gonna laugh that's a weapon right there yeah that's funny okay i i know i know another

04:40:00.760 red flag what's a red flag what you got like a bad texter like doesn't right oh my god if you can't

04:40:07.400 text me good morning good night and and like throughout the day no not throughout the day just

04:40:13.560 like flow there's levels to the texting and the like in building a relationship you unfold it like

04:40:21.880 i don't want you up my ass the second we meet well no not it doesn't have to be the second you 0.99

04:40:25.960 meet but like eventually if like i'm dating that person for a while then i hope i'm the first thing 0.99

04:40:30.280 they think about when they wake up and the first thing they think about when they go to sleep yeah

04:40:33.720 that's sweet but but we're talking about red flags so i don't think we're even there yet right

04:40:38.280 because when they don't care about their appearance it's kind of a red flag

04:40:42.280 like yeah like if they're going out of the hygiene all the time you guys just like talking

04:40:45.800 about me right now like what's like when they just like gross like they don't shower you groomed

04:40:50.200 your dress you're fine i'm wearing sweatpants no i feel like a like yeah i totally agree with you

04:40:56.520 like i feel like even once you're in a relationship and stuff like that you should never settle down

04:41:00.440 when it comes to your looks you should always look good for your partner literally comfy life is

04:41:04.280 i have a good one i have a good one guys who are disrespectful to their moms or to animals

04:41:11.400 red flag everyone can agree on that you can be disrespectful to my parents you're like yeah

04:41:18.360 absolutely definitely yeah i also have another one yep men who put down other people's views and

04:41:24.600 can't have an open-minded conversation but just immediately knock it down can't even listen you

04:41:29.640 talking about me no just because i'm looking at you no you're a little headed for our conversation

04:41:34.440 with us yeah you're respectful that applies yeah um anything else ooh what do you guys think about

04:41:46.600 if you were to see get into a man's car that you're on a first date with and you see that he has condoms

04:41:51.880 in his middle console is that a red flag for you i feel like i if he should be able to see that and

04:41:58.840 know like yeah that can't yeah especially in this heat like at least you know that he's like using

04:42:03.880 them protecting yeah it could be a good thing also him having that that there on the first day is also

04:42:08.920 extremely presumptuous yeah maybe he just put them there just in case just in case like not in the car

04:42:15.320 what if he's a 10 but has an adhd then i have that's not a red flag i love adhd honestly it keeps the

04:42:29.960 conversation rolling truly good times good times okay i think that's it for the super chats and

04:42:41.560 everything all right sweet guys okay cool so we're gonna wrap up there um guys last call go over to

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04:43:25.480 button please on your way out we will do like a 10 minute 15 minute after show um and uh

04:43:33.480 yeah so actually elizabeth can you do the after show yeah okay cool um we'll have elizabeth run 1.00

04:43:39.640 the after show um thank you for tuning in tonight guys you could have been anywhere in the world but

04:43:43.800 you were here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who so generously and kindly uh super

04:43:49.640 chats donates and supports the show your patronage is uh very much appreciated uh thank you to the

04:43:55.800 wonderful panel i i it was a i think it was a good chill show tonight uh much needed after some

04:44:01.800 of our very hectic wait can somebody play the uh simba uh okay um any women who want to be on the show 0.99

04:44:13.800 dm at whatever on instagram we will be live again tuesday at 7 pm pacific i have a good panel for us got

04:44:21.000 some interesting guests coming uh and can we get some oh sevens in the chat oh yeah madison she's 0.94

04:44:27.720 just gone for the week uh she will be back uh yeah she's just out of town for uh july 4th so we are

04:44:33.880 doing a july 4th uh show by the way guys this is a tuesday so uh if you guys uh finish up your july 4th

04:44:40.920 festivities be sure to tune in on tuesday 7 pm pacific we will be live you will probably hear the fireworks

04:44:47.240 going off outside of our studio in any case but uh yeah let me see some oh sevens or oh sevens yeah

04:44:54.680 oh sevens in the chat hope you guys have a good night we will see you next time good night guys

04:45:00.120 and uh yeah stick around for a few minutes we'll do a 10 to 15 minute after show eric if you can uh hit

04:45:05.880 the lights okay cool boom okay this is nice good show good show after show so what wait what are we

04:45:15.000 doing what's the after show you can get up if you want yes it's just like what happens behind the

04:45:22.440 can i open a prosecco on stream or no because i'm a professional prosecco opener your professional

04:45:37.400 prosecco yes is it allowed is it yeah okay all right but 0.92

04:45:47.560 damn i wonder what 0.94

04:45:51.400 i wonder what they're doing right now what's that i wonder what the guys 0.99

04:45:57.400 all right let me let me do this as a professional all right so that's how you do this

04:46:07.400 this thing i keep like looking over i think this is a human i know yeah it's scary i'm like every

04:46:15.960 time i'm like this i'm like jesus wait are you able to on twitch is it okay yes oh yeah yeah yeah

04:46:23.960 you just can't like pass out yeah but we're not we're definitely far away from that

04:46:29.160 oh they're just watching me open this up hi chat oh oh shoot that scared the out of me i forgot you're

04:46:46.600 doing that i don't know which one all right that scared me safe not dangerous who wants what what

04:47:01.080 you want yeah

04:47:02.040 i don't know where they're running with me home yeah yeah i'm so boring oh that's what you meant

04:47:19.640 no you're a good girl i don't drink or smoke i'm not driving we have yeah we have our my husband's

04:47:24.920 driving us i'm so boring guys i don't drink or smoke please you're holding my cup

04:47:32.040 oh this is your cup wait no this is no no the double cup oh okay okay

04:47:41.800 what oh my god oh how do you guys pass the taste can you help me

04:47:49.160 isn't it like bitter like super bitter really it really depends on the alcohol

04:47:53.640 yeah some wines can be really sweet some can be a little bitter it depends on

04:47:58.840 the grape and if the skin is used let's go

04:48:03.640 should i try one sip cheers

04:48:07.480 you want to i don't think you would like this one but this is a good try that's a good start

04:48:12.920 it's for a seco but a seco is typically a little sweeter it's used as a mix typically

04:48:18.840 like yes it's hello kid it's cringe as well shut up okay 0.85

04:48:32.040 i'll get you a cup 0.94

04:48:32.760 do they only use one camera for the after night time or they're just taking a break guys i won't

04:48:42.440 drink it don't worry i don't know if i'm supposed to move or not yeah it's not an expensive bottle

04:48:46.680 i'm not i don't know what you're about to come back on

04:48:49.960 look at that

04:48:52.920 you gotta give me a workout routine

04:48:55.320 your guys is uh

04:48:56.280 ive is for kids

04:48:57.320 oh yeah

04:48:58.040 i literally had a chill during that while we were talking i was like no

04:49:12.040 oh it's like you're doing the harlem shake yeah i know

04:49:15.160 he's friends with chase who's been on the show

04:49:19.960 oh my god i can't remember the spell there you go jesus christ

04:49:22.600 what's the goal thank you so much

04:49:30.440 zirka would demolish this podcast yeah it would be crazy i need a stand

04:49:37.240 i know i i kind of need a stand too just a little bit

04:49:42.840 sweetie

04:49:45.800 oh my god 0.99

04:49:49.720 damn 0.99

04:49:52.600 zirka would have all of us in tears 1.00

04:49:58.200 i don't know the zirka likes to use girls as a content but i like it depends on the energy 1.00

04:50:03.080 you give him back

04:50:06.120 who doesn't know zirka

04:50:10.760 ready are you ready

04:50:13.720 wait can you hear me i i literally need to respond i would try one stop for you guys okay

04:50:17.880 wait can you guys hear me or are the microphones muted

04:50:25.240 can they hear no no they can hear it yeah okay where did he go where is this guy that has been

04:50:30.520 so sweet this whole stream the zirka guy yeah this is hurt no johnny johnny has been literally

04:50:36.360 like messaging me this entire stream just saying julia lynn julia lynn over and over and over and over

04:50:42.520 again how do you like it how do you like it where'd you go it was like johnny something different

04:50:47.800 what does different means different than water you're like can you guys hear us

04:50:55.160 yeah they can hear us johnny i'm drinking us up

04:50:59.080 yeah they can hear us thank you jesus yeah okay nice to meet you guys

04:51:08.360 it's like bubbly in the back it's very bubbly

04:51:13.800 okay i tried to say hi to you bye i'll bring christiana next time bye guys

04:51:18.120 who's christiana my friend i'll take care of myself guys bye girl

04:51:23.160 thank you nice to meet you

04:51:27.480 ah

04:51:27.720 she doesn't want to say bye is it a pomeranian

04:51:48.680 that is so cute really oh

04:51:50.840 oh she's so cute she's like a pom pom 1.00

04:51:56.840 nice to see you

04:52:01.800 the dog's name is bella

04:52:03.000 this is elizabeth

04:52:16.760 i'm going restroom i'll be back

04:52:18.200 you guys all stay

04:52:24.760 yeah yeah brian needs a wingman you could be his wingman

04:52:37.240 did i just hear the boyfriend is a stripper tj tj sometimes sometimes i do feel that way

04:52:44.200 i don't know i don't know i speak in spanish i speak english and rusa

04:52:46.840 see lo siento

04:52:51.320 i'm in arizona

04:52:55.720 do you show suit

04:52:58.760 did they do the body count yeah we did

04:53:04.280 show the fit

04:53:08.120 thank you

04:53:08.760 yes my glasses are fake to everyone who is asking

04:53:16.920 i know it just makes you so mad it just made you so mad that my glasses are fake

04:53:22.920 why are we doing it because we're having fun it's a fourth of july weekend let's party it out

04:53:30.760 cheers

04:53:32.040 fourth of july happy fourth of july weekend everyone

04:53:35.480 we're reading youtube chat

04:53:38.760 we need jesus we totally do

04:53:45.960 we are gonna go on the boat right victoria i'm not sure i'm not sure yet

04:53:52.760 hopefully we're gonna go on the boat oh careful depends on uh hi nene on on things wait can they

04:54:00.600 hear like my nose if i'm like oh i don't know you have to speak up

04:54:09.480 day is good day is good it was great stream uh really enjoyed it great conversations it was really

04:54:15.880 good it is a little sad that bottom g couldn't come but it was great you heard my nose all stream

04:54:22.840 sweet you better be lying please please tell me you're lying the weather's a little chilly

04:54:28.920 hey guys i'm out of the show bye since we have to go

04:54:34.360 let's go crucify oh my god thank you thank you thank you hi

04:54:39.400 i'm trying to see if i know people in here 0.71

04:54:46.600 you guys come back on the show of course of course we come back on the show yeah yeah i feel like it

04:54:51.800 would be really cool to have um you know individuals with uh different opinions so we

04:54:56.920 can actually have a like a debate debate but it was great taylor do you have some italian

04:55:02.040 to you it was definitely very chill stream arranged

04:55:07.000 i love that i do make really good pasta though

04:55:12.280 but no i'm as white as white can be

04:55:16.600 okay i got my fruit boys how long is this magna my name is taylor starlight

04:55:23.400 the after show starlight oh just like five minutes does somebody i'm back i feel like i'm

04:55:29.560 kind of like lonely over here thank you crispy does anybody want to want to join my side so it's

04:55:35.400 like more balanced oh okay wait what are we doing sorry on that side my name is taylor starlight

04:55:45.000 no definitely do that asmr let's after party is just like asmr that's not funny

04:55:49.800 by the way today was elizabeth's first day trying alcohol have you ever tried alcohol before like

04:55:56.920 any type of alcohol are you serious wait you've never had no i never had alcohol now you can say

04:56:03.480 your first alcohol was hello kitty prosecco yep it reminds me of like you've never even had like a

04:56:10.440 sip of wine or beer no i never had the intentions don't start wow you guys are i i leave her alone

04:56:16.680 for 10 minutes and you guys look what happened we were responsible it was a

04:56:22.120 you've got her liquored up 0.78

04:56:24.760 liquored up it's starting within a week she's gonna have an only fan

04:56:33.800 we're dangerous who's a bottom g bad influence

04:56:37.480 bottom g is the guy who looks like under date but does really fun dances

04:56:41.000 yes he was gonna be on the show yeah he literally missed his bus

04:56:47.080 i'm fortunate he was gonna ride with you guys right and then he

04:56:51.640 yeah it was just a lot of back and forth and stuff and then he missed the bus he missed the bus rip

04:56:56.680 stop crafting our elizabeth we do apologize no they destroyed my innocence you destroyed

04:57:02.200 it was a sip it was one sip whatever next time we're gonna try dirty martinis oh gosh that's 0.93

04:57:10.920 like going from zero to a hundred exactly is that bad martinis is literally just straight

04:57:15.720 alcohol that's my favorite drink yeah it's just vodka and vermouth don't listen to these sinners okay

04:57:21.080 sinners we have to start off with something like get her like a coors light or something 1.00

04:57:27.800 hello bring zirka would you ever bring zirka i thought he said he's been yeah

04:57:35.080 he was supposed to be on today's show he was on another podcast

04:57:39.640 no honestly it's i might try to get him for the fourth maybe but i don't know he's

04:57:44.760 i think honestly it's because the traffic for the fourth of july and everything dude it's gonna

04:57:50.760 be so bad it was so it's gonna be really bad yeah yeah we drove all the way from wisconsin

04:57:57.240 wisconsin dolls shout out to wisconsin dolls so yeah it was just a long ass traffic yeah it's like

04:58:04.040 it was saying four hours and then we would like look at the thing and the time would just not change

04:58:08.760 it was supposed to be two and a half hours and it took four hours

04:58:11.240 long island iced tea that's when you want to forget about your past and welcome your new demons

04:58:17.000 that's when you drink long long i'll check my dms i check my dms guys

04:58:21.800 oh you actually respond she friend zones all of them though no no i read every single one

04:58:27.080 well you read them yeah of course on them would you did i'm not gonna say friends though i don't

04:58:32.120 like that term anymore i just say friend but would you friendly would you ever do

04:58:36.040 any of your uh would you date any of your fans i like like i prefer being obsessed with me i'm

04:58:43.800 serious i literally dated a summer when i was like i don't mind if a guy's obsessed with you

04:58:49.640 yeah alcohol out totally don't drink be responsible normal wait is it not normal like

04:58:57.320 i guess right wait what's don't you want him to be into you yeah yeah but i think obsessed is

04:59:05.640 different sorry brian go ahead oh i mean you did say you want a guy who's like constantly texting you

04:59:11.160 and like a good texter i'm a i feel like i'm a no you know like i feel like i'm a great texter boys

04:59:17.080 okay elizabeth i'm gonna marry sarcasm like all day but at any moment if you have a period of time

04:59:25.400 where you're just like it's the culture that's not doing anything or if i'm on your mind like

04:59:28.600 just pick up the phone and be like hey thinking about you i'm really busy right now but we can

04:59:33.720 talk later or maybe not but at least you said that at least you said something but i feel like

04:59:39.320 girls don't like clingy guys like if you're so clingy i don't know you gotta be careful again chad

04:59:46.280 it's all about having like you know your own love your own friends doing things you know like

04:59:52.040 not just constantly texting clingy is if he gets mad when you don't text back that's clingy

04:59:57.080 yeah that's weird yeah that's obsessive yeah she's narcissist too wait me totally yeah 1.00

05:00:10.360 elizabeth they're all fighting for you how are you gonna pick the best see now she's she's had a

05:00:15.800 sip of alcohol she's she's uh asking for some dms dm her guys i'm checking my id right now oh

05:00:26.600 this girl's a genius yeah she's checking her id right now 1.00

05:00:35.640 she looks like ai generated bro how you guys feel about ai taking over very soon that's gonna be crazy 0.92

05:00:43.880 shit literally already twitter is filled with ai um of girl bots yeah i mean 0.93

05:00:54.680 how was yesterday where they were limiting everyone's uh tweets to just 600. oh my god 1.00

05:01:02.840 that was ridiculous yeah that was ridiculous 0.85

05:01:05.080 and accounted comments too 0.99

05:01:14.600 by the way you have an accent where are you uh where are you from i'm from america you're born in

05:01:20.920 the u.s yeah i'll tell you afterwards yeah oh yes it's uh you're very uh mysterious and

05:01:27.240 um run i'm paranoid okay it's a paranoia okay you guys read that one good times you want to know

05:01:36.520 like an embarrassing story yeah it's not really embarrassing it's more like i'm kind of lame okay

05:01:41.800 like i was invited to like um comic-con the after party it was like a club party

05:01:49.400 i like drove like an hour to go over because i knew the um because i worked for comic-con

05:01:57.320 at that time as a model okay this was like a month maybe like three months ago so recent

05:02:03.000 because i knew the owner that ran comic-con he invited me into the party i drove one hour i went

05:02:11.320 to the club i i invited another girl so then we planned to meet up i was in the club for like

05:02:19.560 five minutes and i left it was kind of sad like i walked around because the club's in my vibe

05:02:26.120 that's the thing the club's in what isn't isn't isn't her vibe wait you were meeting a guy there 0.97

05:02:31.640 no no no just to hang out and that was my first time ever at a club text messaging yeah my clubs suck

05:02:36.840 clubs are overrated yeah they're overrated i was only in a club for five minutes first time i went 0.55

05:02:41.560 but this for a different reason i got kicked out chat just because i speak russian doesn't mean i am

05:02:47.240 russian she's kazakh from kazakhstan no you're belorussian no i'm not russian you're ukrainian nope

05:02:57.800 why are you why are you guys trying to guess it's not it's secret she's very

05:03:03.640 private she's very serious she'll tell us after the show yeah okay it's for your own protection 0.93

05:03:11.960 love and respect borat borat is kazakhstan it's not the same bro i'm not russian god damn it thank 0.71

05:03:18.920 you for starting that now everybody thinks i'm russian i speak only two languages how many languages

05:03:24.440 do you speak um only english um sadly you don't speak vietnamese i understand vietnamese like every

05:03:32.680 single word but when i try to speak it it's just it doesn't come out you know i'm the same way with

05:03:38.120 with uh french a little well actually i speak french french well i was born in france and then i moved to

05:03:43.960 the u.s when i was five see i'm kind of like that because in canada you have to learn learn french

05:03:48.920 until like grade eight and then everything that you buy in canada is in english and french yeah yeah

05:03:55.080 because what happened is i moved here when i was five to the u.s my dad would speak french to me

05:04:00.360 but then i would respond in english so i understand french better than i can speak it so yeah i know a

05:04:07.720 a little bit of spanish and that's it rip but you don't know you don't speak any vietnamese

05:04:15.400 basic phrases you know like hi bye what's high in vietnamese what's it what's the language called in

05:04:22.120 it's vietnamese it's called vietnamese yeah like xin xin tao means hi okay okay

05:04:29.640 i'm wondering if i know any vietnamese

05:04:31.800 i know how to actually like because my mom taught me how to cook like all traditional vietnamese food

05:04:40.840 so is i know how to make all of the vietnamese is that vietnamese yeah pho is vietnamese

05:04:46.280 traditional vietnamese what's it how you pronounce the sandwiches bami bun bun me bun me yeah and then

05:04:52.120 bun is like noodles right like cold noodles with stuff on top which one bun oh boon boon yeah yeah okay okay

05:05:01.800 you guys like do you guys like vietnamese food or like i love you you love it pho is like my number

05:05:11.800 one hangover food and i'll imagine we can have like a pho party i can yes if you start cooking it for

05:05:16.760 me see my thing is i just don't like rice noodles i don't know why i like every other they're like the

05:05:22.600 best one because no they're healthier for you it's less calories that's why i don't like them

05:05:26.840 me bella is 35. yo bella are you 35. absolutely not somebody in the chat is saying that you're 35.

05:05:39.960 i'm 69. you're a gilf i'm ready to uh-huh no it's a gilf we're gonna wrap in two minutes at 12 12.

05:05:54.600 that is the lucky number okay uh interesting so what's everyone's here thoughts on you know the current

05:06:03.880 border dispute in um in turkey whoa in turkey i don't i've been in a bubble so i don't know

05:06:11.960 you should talk about paris the paris one is crazy and there's a twitchcon i know paris is happening

05:06:19.080 yeah so they're protesting in paris and twitchcon is in paris the french love a good protest yeah

05:06:26.280 it's true the french that's their whole it's part of their part of being part of the uh french it's

05:06:36.120 part of the thing you know so it's like do you hear the feet sorry wait what do you know the

05:06:42.520 canadian national anthem do you know how to sing it yeah can you sing it for us yesterday was canada

05:06:47.320 today is there is there a french version there is okay when i was in school it would be like the

05:06:55.720 first part would be english and then the second half they'd have us sing it in french but i can't

05:06:59.560 remember it word i mean you like i feel like uh the the french national anthem is i don't know you've

05:07:08.680 never heard the i'm sure i've heard it what oh uh it's a yes or no question oh shoot i'm putting 0.99

05:07:18.600 you on the spot what the fuck 0.98

05:07:22.120 brian you okay how you feel i mean it's just a it's a regular day at work you can answer it if you 1.00

05:07:27.880 want yeah go ahead you said that he was a high valued man where are you taking me where are you

05:07:37.080 taking wait hold on i shouldn't have been speaking right there you want to repeat it

05:07:42.280 wait what did you say i would like seriously not going to lie oh okay where uh where are you taking

05:07:48.520 me on our first date i'm adventurous adventurous i'm adventurous when you fly you say you fly all

05:07:56.280 the time do you go private or are you first class are you economy what what's um

05:08:02.040 um you know usually i'm like oh my god brian you've been friend zoned that was such an obvious

05:08:11.800 friend zone huh huh wait what what wait what it's okay um go ahead no i i drive when i fly we fly

05:08:21.960 regular we fly regular like normal fly regular yeah like southwest whatever is on sale because i mean

05:08:28.520 you said go on an adventure like if you're gonna take did someone just oh like no adventurous as

05:08:32.920 in like i'm like adventurous i'm like adventurous as in like horseback riding you know like horseback

05:08:38.360 riding horseback riding yeah do something oh i like what about parasailing do you like oh parasailing

05:08:44.280 is nice should you hiking yeah oh that's going to disneyland or something or whatever an amusement

05:08:49.480 park adorable better totally that's a good 100 okay so we have a joke that it's holding the car on the

05:08:56.440 way over um what's the joke one of our managers farted in the car you can say it's my husband it's

05:09:01.320 okay whatever your husband wait your husband okay your husband farted in the car and the doors rolled 0.55

05:09:06.840 up with with four people in the car well wait alan Disneyland Disneyland is nice guys and then i was

05:09:13.400 like oh my dad doors up and then he says to everybody he's like i'm fortunate do you guys smell pizza

05:09:17.960 no me and elizabeth are gonna hang out i'm sorry chat yeah yeah i got her good times i'm gonna take

05:09:25.000 out elizabeth you said you said you said oh he said do you smell yeah you guys smell pizza guilty 1.00

05:09:30.600 material i'm gonna wipe her up you fucking ass all the love and respect oh my god wait alan is he 1.00

05:09:36.760 like involved with california avengers it doesn't matter in terms of is he employed by twitch no 1.00

05:09:41.880 i don't know because you said he was one of the others um thank you what's he do for work is he

05:09:47.720 retired or yeah he's not a first day it's fun guys he basically helps me manage no no he we work

05:09:53.080 together i think it's nice we've been streaming together non-stop for 10 years

05:09:57.960 vala knows how to seduce using that wait are you guys on kick or twitch we're both 1.00

05:10:03.080 kids do both but yeah we do both i'm on do you have did you get a deal from kick elizabeth

05:10:08.120 greatest adventure now it works well i mean bro you know what elizabeth the greatest adventure

05:10:13.400 going to be you know hang out with me i'm gonna risk the shit out of her it's gonna be so amazing 0.86

05:10:19.720 i'm sorry to say that but i feel like i'll do a better job that was funny actually they said that's

05:10:25.480 an expensive first date i know disneyland is kind of expensive i'm not gonna lie universal is better

05:10:29.960 you know what's like yeah sometimes something super nice is literally um

05:10:35.000 i said you can go hiking or just stare at the sunset going down but that's like super cheap

05:10:41.640 that's like what that's nothing that's a good date yeah good times like walking just talking

05:10:49.320 like enjoying nature watching the sunset about like mcdonald's would you is that like a good

05:10:55.960 first date you think she smiles definitely like that's classy it's it's kind of cute it's like

05:11:05.160 it's different when people buy you a happy meal no just take the girl to a really cute coffee shop

05:11:09.880 with like a really cool aesthetics and stuff there's no reason for mcdonald's coffee shop is gonna

05:11:13.880 cost you less if not the same price word all right we have mert mex here uh do you like a guy who can

05:11:19.080 cook i would cook you a really amazing dinner for you elizabeth i own a catering business okay

05:11:23.400 do you want to answer that of course like a guy that knows how to cook that would be cool

05:11:30.040 so then i don't have to do it all the time that would be good and you could cater your

05:11:37.640 things your events that you have your secret cult meetings i feel like mcdonald's is a great place to

05:11:45.240 go on a first date because if you can have fun at a mcdonald's then you can have fun anywhere

05:11:48.680 but i feel like it should be a follow-up like do something and then i was gonna say like like

05:11:53.480 yeah get mcdonald's maybe get like a whole thing and then do like a picnic with it and go like look

05:11:58.280 at the stars or something you know i'll wrap on this point here uh i actually took a girl to mcdonald's

05:12:05.720 once for a first date but that wasn't the initial plan like we we were gonna go to in and out which

05:12:12.040 is a much more upscale bougie sort of place oh but the line was so long you didn't make a reservation

05:12:21.000 you can't make a reservation it doesn't matter to me oh it doesn't matter what ethnicity doesn't 0.97

05:12:26.760 matter no they're saying what elizabeth date from an another ethnic group yeah word doesn't matter

05:12:32.040 word um so the line's too long at in and out so i'm like yo we could i mean it's not ideal but we

05:12:40.200 could go to mcdonald's and she was so pissed off that we went to mcdonald's she was really 1.00

05:12:48.120 upset i would laugh yeah i was like yo it's gonna take us like 45 minutes to get food i'm trying to

05:12:54.120 eat some honestly right now mcdonald's is actually more money than in and out no no i don't know how

05:13:00.040 to ski it's more expensive here's how you should have said that it's more expensive but it's the quality

05:13:04.200 as well no here's how you should you should have said that but if that's like what you got that's

05:13:08.040 what you got no brian here's what you should have said that hey let's grab some mcdonald's fries and

05:13:13.080 then like mcflores because they're delicious we'll wait in the line you this way you're gonna get

05:13:17.960 mcdonald's but you're also not gonna kind of like you know put her down but just taking her to mcdonald's

05:13:22.920 on the first date so as long as i get fries in the mcflurry it's okay but it's not an official

05:13:29.880 dinner dinner yes true true all right cool guys we're gonna wrap there uh thank you guys for

05:13:36.840 sticking around for the uh little after show we did uh hope you guys have a good night let's see

05:13:41.160 some oh sevens in the uh chat uh some oh sevens in the chat guys that'd be much appreciated did we

05:13:47.400 get super chat that just came in or wait tj king's super chat is still up there that's weird hold on

05:13:53.720 let me just wait here just a sec wait let me see sorry guys my chat's all scuffed uh oh sevens in the

05:14:02.680 chat yep spam the oh sevens guys spam the oh sevens uh okay uh here i'm gonna put it over here and then

05:14:10.520 oh it's like a little yeah yeah so you guys do some oh sevens

05:14:15.240 oh all right all right all right thanks brian thank you for hosting us yeah thanks

05:14:24.520 do a little uh yeah thank you guys bye

05:14:31.880 bye peace

Whatever Podcast - July 03, 2023

Dating Talk #80

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