Dating Talk #80
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5 hours and 14 minutes
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183.89125
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152
Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, Brian and Kiki are joined by special guest Eric to talk about the new Nintendo Switch Pro, the new MacBook Pro Pro, and more. They also discuss the new Tesla Model Y, and how to get over a hangover.
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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves.
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So please tell us your name, age, occupation, and also where you're from.
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When you say you're in your 20s, what's your actual age?
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I feel like as a Twitch streamer and as a content creator, because you put so much of yourself, you know, in public, there are certain things to keep private.
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Well, it's because I have a personal life and I like to keep it personal, certain things.
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But other things I'm completely fine revealing.
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What are the other things that you're completely fine revealing?
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Well, I mean, you do adult content, so I mean, you're comfortable sharing your body, but not something as arbitrary as your age.
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Just for personal reasons, for comfortable reasons, you know, privacy.
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Well, I mean, you speak of privacy, but isn't, like, posting nude photos quite the antithesis of privacy?
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I guess it's whatever you feel comfortable showing, and there are certain things you're not.
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Like, for example, specific things about your past.
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But I'm comfortable sharing my body, showing my body, so let's go.
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Well, I mean, the reason I give you pushback is because if you're uncomfortable sharing your age, what...
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Most likely you're going to figure it out by the end of the stream anyway, so...
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How would I figure it out by the end of the stream?
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Well, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not particularly interested in doing some, asking you about historical facts to try to decipher what your age is, but...
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Because I don't, I don't, as far as I'm aware, I don't think there's any potential security concerns when it comes to revealing one's age.
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But again, it's about just what I feel comfortable sharing.
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I am born and raised in Los Angeles, California.
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And you said you're from, like, grew up in LA, born in LA?
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I'm 26, and I'm from Colorado, and I live in LA currently.
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Oh, content creator, and I dabble with music, acting, modeling, stuff in the entertainment
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Also, we're going to get to it, so I have an OnlyFans.
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Okay, well, first off, Julia, thank you for disclosing your age, and, uh, thank you for
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Yeah, I do, like, everything in a bikini, so I'll, like, cook in a bikini.
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Uh, I don't even use a hot tub at this point, because kick doesn't require a body of water
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Are you from the French-speaking or the English-speaking?
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No, I'm from Vancouver, so that's, like, two hours north of Seattle.
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I have a different reason than you, though, because I feel like I'm a little bit older, but
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And I feel like, just, like, women are, like, always, like, given, like, an expiry day.
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Like, if you're after, like, a certain age, then suddenly your content is no longer, like,
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I feel like I'm relevant in my own bubble, but I just don't.
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Okay, I'm just gonna write down 40 for you, and then you're...
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Well, I mean, I've definitely heard that from women where, you know, typically women who
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are perhaps a bit older might feel a little hesitant to share their age, but for you,
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Typically, you don't hear that from women who are in their 20s who are uncomfortable sharing
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I'm from San Luis Obispo, California, and I'm in college.
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Are you single, friends with benefits, talking stage, situationship, relationship?
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And if you're single, how long have you been single?
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So, I'm single and my longest relationship has been four years.
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And I have been single for one and a half years.
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I have never been in, like, a relationship in my life.
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I don't think I've ever been on, like, a romantic dating date.
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I don't think I've been on, like, a romantic date ever in my life.
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Like, I don't think I count, like, friend hangs.
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And in your bio that you provided to us, I mean, maybe you undersold yourself.
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It says that you were a, you got gold five times as a U.S. ice skater.
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Are you still skate, or did you have a knee injury, or what happened?
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I've accomplished as much as I wanted in skating.
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And I could, because I'm very ambitious, I wanted to try to keep driving up, and that
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And after pageantry, I went straight into modeling and acting.
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Like, I was Maxim, I was on the cover of Maxim Magazine, I think in 2021, and then I worked
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I mean, I've heard of it, but like, were you one of the...
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But so, you're 23, and you said you've been single your whole life, never had a boyfriend,
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As you can see, like, I'm just very, like, goal-driven.
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Like, I've been so occupied throughout my life with just accomplishing things, and I think
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figure skating definitely took a lot of my, you know, discipline, right?
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I learned discipline at a very young age, so, like, I remember, like, waking up at 6 a.m.
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I woke up at 6 every morning to go hit the skating rink, and then I went straight to school.
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After school, I went back to the skating rink, did homework in the car, and then repeat.
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I slept at, like, 8 and repeated again every single day, and this was at 7.
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Was there, like, piano lessons anywhere in there?
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So, but, okay, so you've been, you said one younger brother, one younger sister?
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So, it sounds like you think you were single because you were incredibly preoccupied.
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What is the longest period of time that you've, I mean, you've seen a guy?
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You said you've never been on a romantic date, but it's plausible that you could have had like
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I guess I was close to like a friend that was a guy for like a little period of time.
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I just, it's for me, I categorize you as a friend or not.
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Because I want to like, if I was to put myself down into a relationship, I want to, I guess,
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because actually like anybody that I meet, this is just my habit.
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I would like to know them as a friend first because I want to know who they really are
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Like, when I see somebody, honestly, the last thing I think about is to sleep with them.
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Um, I want to save myself to like, to my number one person.
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And you haven't found your number one person yet?
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So not waiting till marriage, but you want to be in love or someone who you have commitment
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I'm sure some guys have shown interest in you, but you just curve them.
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Every time I go out, it's more with a group of friends.
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It's not really like to where it's like one-on-one.
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And kind of also the thing is like I have very protective parents, you know?
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I mean, like, I know, like, you could probably like me.
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So, I mean, what is the, is there any romantic experience you've had in the sense of, I mean, you said you've never been on a date.
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But then I would, like, usually explain to them that I'm into looking to, like, becoming friends first.
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Like, I prefer that way before jumping start into a relationship.
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Because, like, if I do want to jump start, I kind of, like, want to make sure that, because also the truth is, like, I don't want to break the other person's heart or either my heart, right?
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And, like, if it was to jump into a relationship, I want to know for sure you are my guy and him to know that you are my girl, right?
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So then, basically, if I was to jump into a relationship, it would lead to marriage, you know?
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Well, first, congrats on all your accomplishments.
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And you have a very good head on your shoulders.
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I'm in my, I have my first relationship, actually.
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I was very similar to you, where I had never really had a boyfriend.
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I'm 26 or really gone on a date much until I moved to L.A. two years ago.
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And I've been with my boyfriend now for seriously, like, in a committed relationship for about four months.
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So, since the last time I was on the show, I'm still in there.
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Were you single when you, when you were on the show last?
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No, I came on and I was like, I'm actually, this is my first relationship ever.
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Okay, so, and you said it's been about four months.
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And that's, that's your first ever anything, or not, maybe not anything, but your first ever relationship.
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Kind of would, you know, talk to people online, stuff like that.
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But I moved to L.A., and then I started kind of going on dates a little bit more.
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And, yeah, two years later, I found someone who's.
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Is this properly a relationship, or is it a situationship?
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So, you guys are committed to each other, exclusive?
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So, I'm single, and my longest relationship was five years.
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Oh, I've been single since October of last year.
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I used to watch him play World of Warcraft on Twitch.
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You used to watch him play World of Warcraft on Twitch.
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He was, do you know, are you familiar with World of Warcraft?
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My husband is, do you know about, like, raids and stuff like that?
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Well, I mean, I'm more of like a, I'm like a classic Andy when it comes to World of Warcraft.
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So, okay, he's, do you want to drop his, can you drop his?
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I mean, he's retired now, but he's Alan on Twitch.
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So if you are familiar with Twitch and you type the Brokeback emote, that's his face.
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He's, like, low-key on my stream, but he's, like, retired.
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Well, like, you said he was, like, a Chad Raider?
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So did you, like, how did you, were you already on his realm?
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So he flew me out that same week to San Diego to come meet him.
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And, oh, I thought, because I thought maybe you also played World of Warcraft.
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I was, I was watching him like a fan would watch.
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But so did you, like, create a character on his realm and, like, send him a whisper?
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This is, that's like the early days of Twitch and stuff.
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And then we streamed together for, like, 10 years.
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What, what class did you play in World of Warcraft?
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I've actually known him since elementary school.
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And then when I graduated is when we kind of just, like, reconnected.
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Because Twitch takes 50% off your subs and stuff.
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Like, five figures a month, six figures a month?
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So, I don't do, like, I don't post nude exactly on my homepage.
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So, I don't make as much on OF as I do streaming.
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And then, are any of you in, like, the top percent, you know, top 0.1?
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But isn't that, like, doesn't that include all accounts on the platform?
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Like, that includes people that don't even make content, right?
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They say that that percentage is based also on engagement.
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So, like, if you have likes and stuff like that and not necessarily tips and stuff like that, it can boost your percentage.
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So, if you were, like, if someone was only making, say, like, $300 a month on OnlyFans, would that put them in, like, the top 2% or something?
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Majority of people have a hard time monetizing from friendly sites, for sure.
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Yeah, that kind of reminds me of, I mean, I guess, I'm sure the girls that are, like, top 0.1% are making good money.
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But, like, I feel like people that try to claim, and I don't know if they do this, they'll claim top 5%.
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It's, like, people who are self-employed, who have no employees or one employee, who call themselves CEO.
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You guys probably see dudes who are, like, I'm a fucking CEO.
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Well, like, for example, you can take Amaranth as an example.
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I had, I think I had something here that I wanted to ask.
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So, on your Instagram, you're in a relationship right now.
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I took five minutes to look at it before the show, so.
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No, okay, on your story, but are you ever going to post him in the actual, like, a little
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Yeah, I think when we, we're planning on traveling a bit, so I'm down to, like, do, because the
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Like, it's, like, a majority of my photos, it's something I would want to be able to
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be painted and put on a wall, if that makes sense.
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Like, it's more of an aesthetic, like, female body art vibe, and so, yeah, for sure.
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I'm down to, I've taken photos of him and stuff like that.
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Yeah, but he does a lot of fitness content, so his business is, like, centered around
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So, majority of his content is, like, him working out.
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I think we've done one video together, and I shared it, too, of us, like, working out
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Have you done content with guys in the past, or is this the first time you've done BG content?
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Yeah, I'm trying to avoid, I'm trying to, yeah, I'm trying to avoid, you know?
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So, I think, and maybe we'll touch on this a little later on in the show.
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But then you got, like, on this fitness kick, and you got super into shape.
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Not my Instagram, but on my Facebook, I have, like, photos from high school.
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But when you say you were, like, bigger, like, were you obese, or just, like, a little...
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Brian, good to you see that aren't stressed out like a mofo and that the panel is in good faith.
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You might have to do an Instagram review, buddy.
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name 10 books okay so badzxe would he's invited you for an opera date do you accept honestly
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i'm kind of open like i feel like i've kind of like trapped myself for a bit you know you've
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trapped yourself as in like kind of like not not like giving guys a chance right because like i
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always okay maybe it's my habit friend zoning someone you know i mean so maybe so you're ready
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to mingle not mingle let's just talk you know get to know who you are i'm okay with that she's ready
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to start a conversation wait you friend zoned so you friend zoned a lot of guys is that what what's
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up yeah i guess you could see how many men oh sorry go ahead honestly like only because like i'm so
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busy with my work to where i feel like i would like do i feel bad like just giving in like
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i don't know 30 of my time you know what i mean if it was to jump into like dating i feel like you both
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have to be set in your career to where you could date like 100 is what i feel okay um how many guys
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would you say you've friend zoned quite a bit like 100 plus 200 a thousand like give us a number
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my dams are a lot should i say like well i don't know if can you count just a random dude dming you
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as a like friend zoning that like if you turn them down is that a friend zone probably not
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friend zone or you mean like a connection with i mean i'd say a friend zone there would at least be
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some in-person connection whether it was a guy meeting you on somewhere in the public or at a
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bar yeah probably i don't know if you do that thousands and thousands of plus thousands and
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thousands but friend but friend zoning isn't necessarily like a bad thing yeah because it
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doesn't mean you're stuck there that's the thing yeah that's why you're kind of stuck there no no
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no you're stuck in the friend zone there's no getting out of the friend zone not at all it depends
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on the duration but this is good like i feel like like i'm talking to my younger self a little bit
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talking to you because i always thought that like i'm never gonna find someone like immediately it's
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the immediate attraction and like yeah like if i'm not into them right away like no if like someone
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came to me and they were like into me and i was kind of attracted to them like that would be the
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person but literally like how i got into a relationship was it was somebody i got to know their values and
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who they were as a person and obviously they were attractive but it was just friends and then
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now we have such a sturdy foundation but i think you bring up a good point you had the initial
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attraction but you had the initial attraction i feel like if you didn't have the initial attraction
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they would be in a friend zone and stuck there i don't think they'll be able to get out i didn't
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have the initial no because there's different types of attraction there's the like holy shit i want
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to rip your clothes off right now attraction and then there's like that he's super cute and has a good
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body and i'm not gonna lie and i haven't told my boyfriend this like i was like i always thought
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you were attractive never in a million years did i think we'd be right here and he even felt the same
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way about me doing bg content on of hell yeah okay
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for me it's like just that term friends i'm like i don't even like saying that term it's more like can
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you just be friends first you mean like that's why i like to stay and like kind of get to know who
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you are i but i think there's a difference between let's try to be friends first and friend zoning
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i think friend zoning is like it's pretty apparent it's pretty apparent that there's no like you're
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not attracted to them and i suppose it's plausible maybe they level up or maybe the woman's
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circumstances change where they're like oh fuck i'm 35 i'm desperate as you know whatever the fuck
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it is no no offense to anybody um but like uh whereas to start as friends is like
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he's he's attractive let's see yeah yeah i guess you could say i think that's terrible though i think
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that's i'm not i don't agree with starting as friends i think it should be romantic
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from the start yeah really because i just feel for me i feel like i feel like you always need some
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sort of foundation to even continue a relationship like don't you want your like significant other to
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be like technically your best friend i feel like it turns into that like the more you date but like
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if you're it's always every time like you're friends with like the person you might like be dating
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it's like oh but we don't want to ruin our friendship and it always that's like that's always said i i don't
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think your approach is wrong i'm just saying i my personal view is i don't i don't think uh i i don't
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think it's necessary to start as friends okay so what would you call them yeah what do you mean
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as in like if you see a guy and then you just like you see him like what would you call him
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friendly you're friendly but you're like flirting well it depends what your your goals are i mean it
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says like i mean you're remind me did you say you were religious or not not religious i'm catholic
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you're catholic okay um so and you didn't as far as i recall you didn't say you are waiting till
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marriage yeah i want to wait you want to wait till you're in love but not till you're married yeah
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till i'm love yeah okay okay but marriage is not necessary no marriage is not necessary how strictly
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catholic are you i'm a straight catholic but okay not like not wait till marriage not to like to the
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pedestal yeah you know to the top tier yeah not like that okay so as far as how you would start off
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with a guy but not start just being friends i mean because there's a difference between hanging out
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someone who's a friend and hanging out someone that you want to pursue things with romantically
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now that doesn't mean that you have to immediately have sex with them that can that can wait but
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yeah yeah i understand so would you call it like a situationship like what would you call that no it
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doesn't even have to be a situationship but there can be there can be a clear there could be a very
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clear understanding by both parties that yeah this is a romantic relationship not a platonic
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relationship yeah like we are dating each other and as far as like the even if you're waiting
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however long to become intimate you know that's that's another conversation i think like your
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guys's view on like friends and like ours maybe a little bit skewed and that's what's like i think
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we all agree but it's the friends like the definition of friends like for me uh i was going to a gym
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that my boyfriend started and he was training there he trained me and that's how i got to know
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bradley martin is that your boyfriend no no all right that's how uh i got to know him okay and so
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of course it was a professional environment we're friends it's not like i'm like going and eating
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lunch with him and like we're like besties you know but it's friendly and so maybe that's kind
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of what you mean i think that's it's friendly and it's a it's in a situation where i get to see this
00:39:21.240
person's values and get to know him and at his core yes opposed to like him coming up to me and being
00:39:26.540
like hey like what's your number like let's go to dinner like it was just it was it's not like we're
00:39:32.060
friends but it was friendly so yeah so friendly so the relationship got to develop okay yeah yeah
00:39:37.940
would you still put a label like as friendly just like for friends or like because like i'm friendly
00:39:42.740
with you guys i feel like we're not but you're not we're not friends i mean yeah but there's no
00:39:48.260
potential that you might date one of us it's kind of like that well it's like when you're seeing
00:39:52.720
someone who's friendly a guy right you're like okay i'm kind of interested in him like more than just
00:39:58.720
friends like romantically right so i do find some sort of attraction not like rip your clothes off
00:40:04.280
but some sort of attraction you know and it's like yeah you just try to get to know each other you kind
00:40:09.060
of flirt and stuff like that and then once you're like okay this is actually a cool person then you
00:40:13.820
move on to like let's be actually like romantic romantic yeah but i wasn't used to like what i was
00:40:19.440
used to is like a guy would ask me out and i think he was like hot and then i'd get to know him
00:40:24.220
and like see what his values were like what i did differently this time and what landed me in a
00:40:28.020
relationship that i actually see a future a long long future with is the fact that we were friendly
00:40:33.720
and i got to know his values were so attractive to me that like i wanted more of it and i was like
00:40:40.000
and he's really cute but that wasn't the cute and like the looks was not the initial thing yes i'm a
00:40:45.300
personality person so it's like really hard for me yeah i think we're like it was just yeah she
00:40:50.780
understands me i don't i don't care how cute you are like we are if your personality is not there
00:40:55.960
it's not for me not for me personality is huge well i mean yeah true i think i think that's the case
00:41:03.780
but i mean would you agree that the looks have to be there oh no to begin with no no yes no no
00:41:10.880
anyone that says no is not the cap but like no there has there has to be an initial like attraction
00:41:17.460
there has to be i'm like 100 a personality person i am you say that okay no why wouldn't you find
00:41:24.280
attractive because of your personality hold on let me look up alan here let's see he's probably he's
00:41:29.440
probably a giga chad listen i'm not gonna lie though like sex is a very large part of a relationship
00:41:35.360
and like you have to be physically attracted no but like the thing is like it can be so good that
00:41:40.660
it like it just changes the game it does like i'm not gonna lie that's a giga chad right there
00:41:44.920
he's a handsome guy he's a handsome guy i mean that first off he's making a ridiculous face
00:41:50.580
that that's not a fair i'm sure he's a very handsome i can't even find him on who am i i don't know okay
00:41:57.660
in any case alan zoka no it's not alan zoka no okay there's another alan on twitch apparently i can't
00:42:03.440
alan okay alan okay well in any case um i think attraction does play a role like uh you know if
00:42:12.920
you don't find a guy attractive when he approaches you sometimes you're kind of like i kind of don't
00:42:18.740
want to even talk to you i feel like there has to be some sort of level of like all right you're kind
00:42:23.120
of cute yeah well i just feel like you say you're a personality person and so don't you find them
00:42:29.300
attractive because of their personality 100 so it's like they build that they build that all up
00:42:35.040
for me it's like their personality just makes them even more exactly because i fall for a guy's
00:42:40.660
funny right but i genuinely have this thing and i looked it up and i forget what the name of it is
00:42:46.480
and maybe you guys relate where like i could see anyone could walk down the street and my friends
00:42:51.500
would literally be like holy shit that guy is so hot and i'm like not even like notice and then i get to
00:42:57.480
know someone i'm like wow he's so hot what the fuck like or just has like attractive energy like
00:43:03.660
not like physical like sexiness but just like he pulls you in he's got that riz right i feel like
00:43:09.480
the physical attraction is good for like okay maybe i'll give this person a chance but like personality
00:43:14.240
plays a role in i want to actually like potentially date them like it elevates them yeah so i don't think
00:43:20.380
you can necessarily completely avoid the physical attraction yeah but how many girls will ignore red flags
00:43:26.680
if a guy is exceptionally attractive like you often get any like you'll see you'll see people
00:43:32.600
who say talking about me right now well you'll see for example you'll you'll see these uh either
00:43:37.500
tiktok videos or you'll hear it from from women themselves and look men do this too but if if he's
00:43:43.720
over six three like i'm gonna start ignoring red flags like that that type of shit like girls will
00:43:48.760
overlook certain negative personality characteristics if a guy is exceptionally attractive and certainly i think men
00:43:54.980
will do that too like if a girl is really fucking hot a lot of dudes if if the chick if she's kind of
00:44:00.580
bitchy or whatever they might be like ah yeah she's kind of i mean i think that's i don't think men
00:44:05.600
should do that but there are men out there who will disregard so for example say a woman who's kind of
00:44:10.680
bitchy uh they'll disregard that if she's really hot they'll tolerate it for an unaware individual yeah
00:44:16.360
for sure you could do that with personality too like i don't mean to like talk my husband down
00:44:20.400
because he's amazing and i love him to death but like you can overlook certain things physically too
00:44:25.420
my husband's five five like based wait how tall are you i'm five three okay all right two inches but
00:44:32.140
i wear like five i'm literally wearing like five inch shoes yeah but he's like he has king energy
00:44:36.940
though yeah i mean he's it sounds like he's like a giga chad world of warcraft player so like i mean
00:44:41.740
it makes sense he hasn't played wow in forever it makes sense that doesn't define him okay fair enough
00:44:46.100
um but you were saying that that does apply to you like you'll ignore red flags if the guy's
00:44:52.720
really attractive and i mean look i think um girls know if their dtf went like immediate almost
00:45:01.000
immediately i think it's more so in my mind i'm like i can change him even though i know that's like
00:45:06.220
toxic and i shouldn't that's my toxic toxic trait is i feel like oh i can change him but like there's
00:45:13.420
this one guy who took me out for valentine's day and he literally told me first date um i've broken
00:45:20.600
up with every girl that i've ever dated and my longest relationship was six months and i was like
00:45:24.780
oh okay and i still you know when's our second date yeah yeah when's our second date i had i had sex
00:45:32.100
with him for like two months and then he ended things with me and i was like super sad about it but i was
00:45:37.140
like you know but were you just like with him for sex or were you like actually ready to date date he
00:45:45.820
like love bombed me like he was telling me oh you know i don't want to abandon you like i want to
00:45:51.360
um meet all your needs i like you to the point where it scares me blah blah blah and i was like oh okay
00:45:59.200
but but then i should have known from the start because of what he said so yeah i don't know i like
00:46:07.520
just going back to the whole friend thing i don't think that you're going to be able to friend your way
00:46:11.400
into romance into like turning a girl on or moving it into a romantic thing yeah there's a spark
00:46:21.380
there's gotta be a spark yeah no i feel like once your friend's out you won't be able to escape it
00:46:26.260
sorry sorry repeat that yeah i think if you're as a guy if you're in a friend zone you're gonna be
00:46:32.060
stuck in a friend zone i don't think you can actually yeah i think you're fucking done yeah
00:46:35.340
it's better to move on something big would have to happen to get exactly yeah so you have to be like
00:46:39.960
friendly but never get into a friend zone if you're friends on you're fucked you're done you won't be
00:46:45.300
able to actually move into a romantic relationship with the girl yeah i disagree well look it's so
00:46:51.520
circumstantial it's possible look it's possible to get out of the friend zone however i think the the
00:46:57.520
practically speaking it's better to just find another girl as a guy like it's just play the
00:47:04.040
numbers game for sure but it's not it's not uh if the girl actually has like uh isn't aware human
00:47:11.480
being and actually has more substance to her than just what she looks like then you can definitely
00:47:15.440
friend zone isn't like like but you have to have shit going on for you too and you guys have to
00:47:21.480
match up lifestyle wise and there's more to it but yeah like i don't say friends and like i friend
00:47:27.360
someone only because i'm always traveling like i cannot like i could barely see you you know i mean
00:47:32.380
i probably will see you like once in four months like i can't i can't be how much are you traveling
00:47:38.840
i travel a lot and i also run an international business so what's the business uh i run uh
00:47:45.720
supermarkets throughout asia so you run supermarkets yeah i'm a business girl my whole family do it all
00:47:51.900
asian countries vietnam just throughout asia china east east asia vietnam yes vietnam laos yeah all over
00:47:59.600
there how's thailand looking yep philippines philippines all down there you are you the owner uh is this
00:48:07.260
like a family business or like oh it's my brother and i started it and then we kind of branched out
00:48:12.220
to my parents so then we all take care of it it's a supermarket what is it grocery stores or like
00:48:17.360
convenience what do you sell just food just it's like a normal it's not like a niche like you import
00:48:23.760
american food no no no okay it's not like okay specialty things okay and but so it's your family's
00:48:29.740
business or you said you and your brother started it yeah okay so that's why we're always so busy
00:48:35.560
just a question so you're you're 23 yes and in your only i mean i don't know when you start when
00:48:44.540
did you start the business five years ago when you were 18 probably like six years ago so you were 17
00:48:50.880
yeah i was like right right after skating yeah in this so in a six-year period you've you've managed to
00:48:59.420
build a multi-country what's the term for that a multi-country successful international is it is it
00:49:08.400
is it international it is yeah if it's outside of the right it's pan pacific wait pan pacific
00:49:16.100
what's the term there's like a specific term but 33 he's 33 and he's he's a pharmacist right now he's a
00:49:25.900
pharmacist he's a pharmacist yeah bro how do you have how do you have time for all this shit
00:49:29.380
you're an ice skater i'm telling you i don't have time give me a time management course
00:49:34.440
but wait so okay hold on how many how many individual stores do you own like hundreds like a lot
00:49:43.600
hundreds yeah how do you in a i mean most business i mean how do you have time they own it they don't
00:49:50.380
run it you know what i mean like they have people running for sure i'm sure you have yeah there's
00:49:55.260
there's a hierarchy there's managers probably the siblings are but i i've never heard i mean i i don't
00:50:02.540
know how uh efficient you guys are but for a business that just started six years ago to have
00:50:07.320
to be established in multiple uh countries and have over a hundred stores is did you take over in a
00:50:16.120
pre-existing business um it's i guess you could say like my because my brother he has friends like
00:50:24.060
it's kind of like when you kind of grow because it's like him and his friend they had an idea yeah
00:50:29.780
so then it branched out basically ideas clashed and did you did you do acquisitions of pre-existing
00:50:36.280
stores yeah you'd take over you'd take over a store that's already there okay i see yeah are you
00:50:42.300
able to share the name of this and if i'm ever if i'm ever in family things like my brother's
00:50:49.720
gonna kill me i was gonna say if i was ever in uh if i was ever in uh he's like a hacker and
00:50:56.060
everything i'm like if i was ever in ho chi min i'll fucking stop by your grocery store and buy
00:51:01.480
some shit i'll be a patron of your store i go to ho chi min yeah what are the best goods you don't
00:51:07.420
think so what are the best candy no is it still called is it promotion is it still called ho chi ho chi
00:51:11.720
minh city that's the capital right of vietnam yeah they call it ho chi minh yeah sweet yeah
00:51:17.160
okay good job used to be saigon used to be saigon but yeah it used to be saigon yeah uh okay actually
00:51:23.800
my parents they escaped from the vietnam war like we we didn't grow you know i mean you're vietnamese
00:51:29.540
yeah yeah they escaped from the vietnamese on vietnam war yeah um i remember they had to leave
00:51:36.620
their parents behind my dad he basically um he went to the shelter camp he remembered he had to
00:51:44.400
leave his dog i think his friends all are like he had like 10 people on the boat i think only
00:51:50.840
two survived him and someone else and the rest wow gone yeah i mean that's that's certainly the story
00:51:57.380
of a lot of vietnamese american immigrants i mean that's it was uh they were escaping the vietnam war so
00:52:03.000
um but i mean well i don't want to dig too far but i mean that's quite uh i mean to in a six-year
00:52:09.820
time period to scale up a business uh to have be in multiple countries and have hundreds of stores
00:52:17.240
that's that's quite remarkable so i'm not surprised that you're quite busy but so you're traveling most
00:52:22.260
of the year you're also doing modeling and yeah and acting um so you're you're 23 do you want the
00:52:29.300
family at down the road for sure you want to have kids yeah um how long do you want i mean you're
00:52:37.200
still young but i mean do you think that being do you have any intentions at some point in your 20s to
00:52:44.800
scale back how much time you're you're putting towards your enterprises your business making money
00:52:51.840
and pursuing like putting more towards actually trying to pursue a relationship um i think probably
00:53:00.220
within the next like maybe one or two more years and i'll start committing into a relationship okay
00:53:06.860
all right gotcha yeah so give me like a few more years okay so you're you'd have time once once a
00:53:14.740
month once every four months to hang out with a guy currently no like i i feel like
00:53:21.340
like is that what you said like once every four months like to like guy like i do like you know
00:53:26.260
what i mean like you'll make time yeah it's it's so hard that's the thing it's really hard to even
00:53:31.960
make time okay for like someone that you do potentially think yeah okay once she makes her
00:53:40.680
multi-millionaires she'll be able to like you know dedicate time to actually go on the dates and
00:53:45.780
pursue a relationship seriously for sure from what i feel like i'll know when i'm ready yeah
00:53:51.100
you know got it uh okay gotcha so uh let's get a couple chats here we have from tj king
00:53:57.800
ladies would you smash kratos like kratos from like what is god of war kratos is that right is
00:54:05.320
that kratos what is there kratos in god of war i'm not i'm not sure who uh kratos is but
00:54:09.700
unfortunately i don't know any of those terms yeah i don't know who that is um oops let me hide
00:54:16.720
that okay we have uh tj king here i don't sorry tj i don't know if they know who that is uh what is
00:54:23.480
the benefits the man gets from being friend zoned and that's from tj king hey thank you so much man
00:54:27.620
appreciate the uh soup chat what is the benefits the man gets from being friend zoned well i'll let
00:54:32.600
the ladies answer this sure first i can go uh no no benefit zero zero benefit here's the deal i
00:54:40.660
feel like no no no no hold on companionship no no no you have more value than just what you
00:54:45.700
like yeah no no no here's the deal though i feel like uh this guy who's asking most likely he doesn't
00:54:52.780
want to be in the friend zone right he actually wants to be romantically involved and i am going to
00:54:58.000
be from my perspective a girl knows right away who she's willing to date and who she's actually
00:55:05.120
friend zoning so in my opinion if you're friend zone i feel like it's pretty much closely impossible
00:55:10.580
to get out of the friend zone so um if you're thinking oh potentially we might become romantically
00:55:16.300
involved i think you're wasting your time okay but you get their friendship forever so like if you
00:55:22.900
really like her that much wouldn't you want to be in her life forever i think a guy who's romantically
00:55:25.740
interested in you is not really interested in friends or like if having friendships with you
00:55:30.960
because he's actually just wants to romantically date you i would disagree there's a bunch of people
00:55:36.640
in my kick chat that would love to just like talk to me every day and be friends with me i would be
00:55:42.620
careful because that's a parasocial relationship we're talking about so but isn't like isn't friend
00:55:48.340
zone just a parasocial relationship in real life kind of no i don't think the person that gets
00:55:54.200
friend zone should have their all their eggs in one basket on this one girl but like if you have
00:55:59.820
like you care about her yeah leave her in your life but like you do need to go out and pursue
00:56:03.840
other people because that you're just she's clearly stating or stating her boundaries and showing her
00:56:09.940
boundaries and so you should also like be aware of that and respect that i think but well said yeah
00:56:14.500
i feel like that's what the benefit would be from being friend zoned um is just not being with that
00:56:20.640
girl then because how is that a benefit i would say because then you can go find someone that's
00:56:25.880
actually gonna like obviously she doesn't want you you can go find somebody that actually wants you
00:56:30.300
will respect you and you won't have to wait in the friend zone forever you've been freed yeah
00:56:34.600
you're free now like you sure there's no way that you're gonna get in so like yeah you are now
00:56:40.460
like lose that attraction and go find somebody here's one thing that i would come back to you with
00:56:44.880
though i feel like if you're friend zoned right as a guy you're romantically attracted to the
00:56:49.600
girl right but she doesn't isn't interested in you romantically so what if she starts talking to
00:56:55.180
you about her current boyfriends that she's dating the guys that she's interested in if she's flirts
00:57:00.860
with other guys in front of you and stuff like that wouldn't that hurt you and like it kind of will
00:57:05.720
bring your confidence level down because i've been in situations where i had a crush on a guy but
00:57:11.040
you know he he wasn't interested back in me or whatever and like seeing him with other people
00:57:16.460
kind of hurt me and so i just feel like in that case it's better to actually just split off and
00:57:23.320
just try to pursue other ladies yeah just so you're not wasting your time you're not killing
00:57:29.600
your confidence you know absolutely i wouldn't stay friends honest i yeah you're not my friend
00:57:34.140
anymore are you friends on me but actually we're just not friends anymore at all i i kind of agree with
00:57:37.900
yeah word okay we have we have uh uh thank you for the dono man ladies name three countries besides
00:57:47.940
the u.s mexico or canada no repeating other people's answers okay go switzerland france and
00:57:53.940
uh new zealand okay vietnam thai thailand and china okay uh geography was uh what the fuck just fell
00:58:04.480
off of you my brain's off just kidding hold on uh what about you go ahead nicaragua uh colombia
00:58:14.320
chile how many three three uh norway denmark uh i think there's another scandinavian country
00:58:25.080
iceland oh okay i don't even really want to attempt to try russia you got this you got this
00:58:32.880
that's one russia okay ukraine is that like kind of yeah there you go russia ukraine okay one more
00:58:39.860
europe europe did someone say that already um that is a continent yeah that is a continent you
00:58:47.080
meant to say egypt that's i think what you meant i got the two i'll say two out of three yeah for
00:58:54.080
three countries go quick quick quick you got this i believe in you i honestly don't even know what was
00:59:03.200
currently said just name three countries yeah but i don't know what these other everyone else
00:59:08.980
already said just throw three out i did northern europe even even if you copy she did uh she did
00:59:14.460
some asian countries asian so you've got you've got africa africa's wide open of countries africa's
00:59:21.280
wide open middle east here middle east is open any african country is yours for the taking uh not
00:59:28.800
literally because that would be colonization okay okay um let's see oceanic countries are open too
00:59:35.460
well i don't know i don't know if they're a country or not but like it's go for it is haiti
00:59:39.680
yeah yeah haiti yep one um padre islands is that a country i those islands the padre most likely
00:59:47.860
their territories so yeah what else you got two more we believe in you is saudi arabia yep well done
00:59:55.840
and you got this julia you got this you got this you got this beautiful well done all right you guys
01:00:07.340
all passed congratulations congratulations and we have curtis here uh curtis says elizabeth can you read
01:00:14.520
this one okay to elizabeth you're a very beautiful a pretty lady my question is hold on you're putting
01:00:24.120
words in his sentence how dare you how dare you please here let me pull it up again go ahead
01:00:30.120
here we go okay to elizabeth you're a very pretty lady my question is because of all of your
01:00:37.080
accomplishments in life so far do you feel like it will intimidate men and make it harder
01:00:42.380
good question sad sad sad to say but yes well i don't yes i don't think you're going to intimidate
01:00:53.060
men is the thing i think that for example i mean would you you're a successful woman would you want
01:00:59.900
for a partner maybe a guy who you eventually date or marry would you want a guy who uh in terms of his
01:01:06.900
success is at least as successful as you or more i like a guy that has ambitions right i like a guy
01:01:14.040
that's driven has a goal in mind because honestly that's that's like sexy to me like seeing a guy that
01:01:20.240
has a goal in life and seeing him achieve it sure that's attractive to me but then like you don't have
01:01:27.380
to be on my level you know i mean like you don't have to accomplish that much but like just seeing
01:01:31.100
the process of it is nice okay what what is your level by the way you make a million over a mil a
01:01:39.900
year what's the boss babe status millionaire i guess well okay millionaire that's a little different
01:01:46.860
but how much i mean how much do you make a year range you don't have to say exact more that you make
01:01:52.040
more uh six seven figures a year um yeah eight figures probably like you make eight figures a
01:02:00.520
year oh shit wait can i ask you get me on those flights with you is it you specifically making
01:02:05.920
that money or is it your family so like you don't necessarily see that money i the thing is no matter
01:02:12.100
what job that i book that's the thing of my family it's like all of our money comes together you
01:02:19.740
know what i mean yeah because like my family support is very you know i mean my family's a
01:02:24.380
tight bond that's pretty based like it's pretty like anything that i book like with american horror
01:02:29.940
story or with maxim or estee lauder all that that paycheck i'm like mom this is yours like i give it
01:02:37.320
to my mom you give it to your mom yeah what bank accounts like you guys all share a bank account then
01:02:41.980
and like have a yeah like we have access to wow to the what what do you do to your hand by the way
01:02:48.140
you got a band-aid on your hand did you get in a fight with somebody or what's up i cut myself
01:02:52.880
wow that's i'm just like do we need to call like a line for you or something
01:02:57.840
no i'm a tough girl don't worry if you get married are you gonna send a prenup
01:03:02.520
um you're gonna sign a prenup you're gonna have a print like what if guys she hasn't even gotten
01:03:08.700
you guys are you both interested or what's going on over here your family has wealth right and you're
01:03:20.980
saying yeah i would date a guy with ambitious but not on the same level as me so he doesn't
01:03:24.960
necessarily have to be like a multi-millionaire so if you were to marry would you send a prenup
01:03:29.900
um i don't know i know i don't know i think i'm like i haven't thought about that elizabeth
01:03:40.000
if if i were to marry you if i were to marry you if i were to propose to you right let's say let's
01:03:46.720
say i propose to you would and and let's say you're earning more than me if you're you're saying
01:03:51.140
you're making eight figures a year you're earning more than me is there gonna be a prenup between us
01:03:57.060
is there gonna be a prenup sorry bads slide i'm okay is there a prenup because i'm listen if you
01:04:05.120
really cared about me you wouldn't make me sign a prenup like if you really loved me yeah the truth
01:04:09.620
yeah like honestly if i do like it's forever elizabeth you and me it's forever you you and me
01:04:15.000
yeah it's forever like we're not getting divorced so like no pre no prenup needed there's no prenup
01:04:20.480
needed because it's true love it's true if it's true love you know what i mean like i wouldn't yeah but
01:04:26.380
money can change anyone and i'm that's how would you know it's true love like you never really
01:04:30.440
know like monogamous relationships have 50 failure rate so how do you feel about that wait which
01:04:36.360
monogamous relationships like marriages have 50 failure rate all close oh you're talking you're
01:04:41.340
talking married like the divorce rate divorce sorry yeah divorce rates wait why do you say monogamous
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uh because polyamorous relationship they have a higher higher chance of divorce or
01:04:51.380
separation oh okay yeah failure rate why i don't suspect she's interested in the polyamorous
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yeah so yeah yeah yeah no i i no prenup for you and me
01:05:01.580
i said if it's true love then of course it is of course it is of course it is with you all right
01:05:09.720
boys i got the bag let's go okay how did how did you like what's that man you like go okay
01:05:16.480
okay she's like i don't know are you down like um for me to be like a stay-at-home dad is that
01:05:24.280
cool with you like i just do nothing and you just no you gotta do something that's no i'll just like
01:05:29.120
you gotta do something i'll just take care of the kids and shit yeah and the house and shit
01:05:33.080
but you said do nothing i'll take care of the kids she brings up a very interesting point you did
01:05:38.000
say do nothing but taking care of kids taking care of you're saying a wife does nothing then
01:05:42.880
well i i didn't mean doing taking care of the kids is doing nothing no no what i was saying is
01:05:47.880
do nothing in terms of work in terms of consistently work yeah like stay-at-home dad yeah i'll drive the
01:05:57.200
minivan it's all good i got you some of the breadware yeah how many how many kids do you want
01:06:01.740
seven i got you jesus is that are you gonna birth them too no um i'll be there for like the first
01:06:11.900
three deliveries but after that i'll probably like be kicking it at home and shit he'll be on
01:06:16.720
that yeah like you're good after like three deliveries like i can be in hawaii or something
01:06:20.640
and you're just you know okay anyways what okay i don't know where i was going with that
01:06:27.780
hey stay at home dads are hot thank you okay we have let's get through a couple uh let's see here
01:06:34.720
by the way we were gonna have bottom g on the show but unfortunately he couldn't make it so maybe
01:06:39.200
we'll get him on the next show um let's see uh julia i have just a couple specific notes for each of
01:06:45.260
you here from some of our conversations uh via uh before the show uh julia you were previously on
01:06:52.800
with lav she was wearing the beret do you have any choice words for lav because i think you guys had a
01:06:58.320
little um you guys had a little please hold please what you are you wait what she's cold oh you're
01:07:08.400
cold okay please hold please hold okay she's putting on her undersized leather jacket oh what
01:07:17.920
the oh shit oh she came in the cosplay listen bro okay let's go what's happening i have no words
01:07:25.780
for you oh wow okay i hope you're having a good day though honestly i am that's all i hope you can
01:07:32.440
also name three countries with me sometime lav the beret girl yeah that's my girl i think there's a
01:07:37.680
little sexual tension between you two oh my brian that's so scary i think you guys might have had
01:07:44.880
like a something no i'm extremely straight but you know she wasn't she wasn't they want to own
01:07:52.020
supermarkets together there you go that part okay i'm here today to be lav's higher self okay
01:07:59.960
beret really brings out the color of your the beret really brings out my personality
01:08:06.060
that's exactly what i was about to say yeah okay um let's see here uh we had some i have
01:08:12.460
something for you mercedes um so you said in your pre-show messages to us that you used to go out
01:08:19.540
and party every weekend with your friends and that they would hook up and have sex with multiple guys
01:08:24.900
at night sometimes within meeting them for only a few minutes and uh your friends would try to get
01:08:31.440
you to do the same thing yeah but you you said you remained virgin until meeting your boyfriend
01:08:37.200
um can you speak a little bit about that were you going were you going out to iv here to party or was
01:08:43.420
this back in slow no it was like the pretty much the frat's in slow okay the frat parties in slow okay
01:08:48.560
or just like any house party in the slow county area and just i've never i'm kind of not too much
01:08:56.680
friends with the people anymore but i've never seen someone just like meet somebody and automatically
01:09:02.020
like go to a bedroom like that was like crazy to me i grew up christian so i was not i don't know i've
01:09:11.380
never been in this world like that and so it was crazy to see and i just thought it was gross so you're
01:09:17.240
not into hookup culture no i'm not i think it's there's just no need i don't know sorry i'm just
01:09:24.040
changing it up okay um but so you witnessed your friends and when you say friends like how many of
01:09:29.920
your like most of your friend group was there one or two girls in particular that would go to these
01:09:35.000
parties and like most of my friend group if they didn't have boyfriends that were already there and
01:09:40.500
they're hooking up in a different room then it was all it was all my friends all your friends i was
01:09:46.540
like count how many of your friends would have sex with multiple guys a night
01:09:51.080
multiple guys a night yeah five ten fifteen no i mean three i wouldn't go with that many people
01:09:59.280
to a party it was probably like four well to to any given party but maybe you had a new friend circle
01:10:05.440
into the group or and maybe you witnessed not girls who are your friends but you saw other girls at
01:10:12.320
the party like doing this oh then yeah like seeing other people do it too probably like at least hold
01:10:18.620
on just a second score x donated one hundred dollars and sixty nine cents bricks and i can't believe this
01:10:25.420
betrayal elizabeth the offer for the opera still stands but we gotta go to venice also is your family
01:10:31.380
involved in the snake what is the snake what is the snake
01:10:41.180
so he's the opera i'm so he wants to he wants to bring you to the opera
01:10:51.180
you i mean you said you used to play violin so what if he takes you to like a
01:10:55.720
orchestra you know he takes you what was like a good uh like a bach piano concerto maybe a
01:11:03.480
legends of zelda soundtrack you know something like that game of thrones
01:11:08.540
orchestra you know what instead of opera how about alexander hamilton the play
01:11:14.480
oh that's a good one yes broadway broadway do you have a response you're inviting my first
01:11:20.740
elizabeth for you hey i trust you guys no wait so but he's he do you accept his invitation to the
01:11:29.260
opera in venice does the venice have a fucking symphony i'm guessing if you would offer it then
01:11:35.240
it must exist it's italy they probably have it can you do like a research and make sure it's like real
01:11:41.060
like i don't want to be kidnapped what do you mean the guy no as in like the location oh the
01:11:46.980
location well let's disregard the location do you accept his invitation assuming that
01:11:52.100
the uh you know assuming that it's legit if it's legit i will accept the invitation i guess yeah
01:12:01.960
okay by the way so he is i i am familiar with who this guy is i his name's victor
01:12:08.380
and uh he did save me from a bear once i should let you know it's very impressive we were camping
01:12:15.480
he's a bad dx he's like kind of a friend of mine so one time we were camping there was a bear
01:12:20.780
and um he saved me from a bear he saved you from a bear he saved me from a bear how like what did he
01:12:28.200
do well so we were camping and there was like um we were actually with um there was like some
01:12:34.500
girls camping with us and uh they they left out some doritos and the bears are attracted to the
01:12:41.000
food nocturnally so they the the bear you know got into the food and uh so the bear rummaging
01:12:48.020
through the camp and he like jumps out of the tent and like fucking like scares the bear off what if
01:12:55.540
it was a brown bear that would like attack you if you tried to like boom you know like victor is ready
01:13:00.740
to die to defend his homies that's a goddamn bro right there he's a bro yeah that's a guy you don't
01:13:06.200
sign a prenup with so elizabeth he will he will definitely uh he's capable of protecting you
01:13:14.340
from bears okay i can vouch for that are you down to to date victor and have his babies and marry him
01:13:24.760
the guy that will take a bullet for you i'll know like not sign a prenup with him though
01:13:29.420
are you not have babies and marry but like i'm down for a day i guess yeah okay cool i'm down for
01:13:37.320
that okay cool but not like i have babies i'm married for now for sure for sure okay um so bringing
01:13:42.220
it back to you uh how many how many of your friends were hooking up with multiple what what's
01:13:48.360
the most amount of guys that one of your friends hooked up with in the night three four um more
01:13:54.580
give me like two seconds yeah four one one of your girlfriend one of your girlfriends hooked up
01:14:06.020
with four guys in one night yeah it's like it's insane like go from one and then i'm like hey like
01:14:14.180
let's leave they're like hold on and they start making out with another person and then they just
01:14:18.220
go into the bathroom go into the room do it on the couch like anything so you believe they
01:14:24.460
actually had sex with multiple guys maybe they were just doing drugs no no i i walk in every
01:14:31.600
time oh shit did they like a thing you last do yeah yeah why are you walking in on them
01:14:36.400
did they get tested that's no i that's what i think like is ridiculous is the not getting tested
01:14:44.260
did she did she use a condom no oh shit wow i don't even think she was on birth control
01:14:50.180
oh she just got lucky every single time okay that's a yikes that is a yikes but it's not just
01:14:59.500
one of your friends that's doing this it's multiple of your friends if they see this are they going to
01:15:03.760
be upset with you i mean i know you're not naming them but i can hear my phone buzzing already wait if
01:15:08.080
you were single wait okay first and foremost like who you surround yourself with the five closest
01:15:14.460
people to you is like where you're moving in your future so absolutely with love and kindness because
01:15:19.740
you seem like such a great girl what the fuck i know i know i've moved on i have i've moved on from
01:15:26.580
that because it's just not something i it doesn't match up with my beliefs like i said like i'm christian
01:15:33.740
i'm not it's great hardcore by the book also like but you said yeah but i love god and i'm just not
01:15:42.880
going to say around that so now like my core my like five core i she waited one of my friends waited
01:15:49.440
until she was also after 18 and so that's what i did too i waited till i was after 18 yeah because
01:15:55.240
can't really give consent be low 18 so do any of you guys have similar stories to this have you
01:16:01.440
witnessed any of your friends just like putting up numbers at like a party just like got jumping
01:16:08.440
from dude to dude to dude no i wouldn't say that crazy no not four dudes like maybe two dudes in
01:16:14.420
the night no just literally like i have a hook up one with one guy you know what i mean when you go
01:16:20.260
out per night yeah but one guy per night yeah okay let's change it to this if any girls here at the
01:16:25.700
table either you or a friend has in a 24-hour period hooked up with two dudes within the 24-hour
01:16:35.140
period anybody here i haven't i haven't i'm just i'm just you know i'm prompting them to raise their
01:16:41.180
hand i have not but i have friends who have i mean i don't know about actually yeah sex wise and they
01:16:46.700
were just belligerently drunk and very young and like just immature and not in their right mind like
01:16:52.160
just a very immature like yeah mindset and just extremely drunk have y'all never just been to
01:16:58.860
parties never that you've never like this is normal no i i've i've seen that shit go down at
01:17:05.240
parties like a girl like a dude will hook up with a couple chicks a girl will hook up with a i feel
01:17:10.800
like not at the same time i don't know i my my friends are not really drama so like i feel like if
01:17:16.100
something like that happened that would be instigating drama like you're gonna deal with crying
01:17:20.960
girls and being like i would like him and he's sleeping with her like i think besides that like
01:17:26.140
if we see one of our friends being super drunk and you know moving on doing something that they
01:17:31.200
might regret we might be like let's let's go yeah right um yeah definitely yeah but none of my friends
01:17:37.440
have actually hooked up with multiple people on the same night okay i feel like i would talk to my
01:17:43.480
friends if they were doing that oh yeah for sure especially because also like if they're drunk like
01:17:47.460
are you sure like this is what you want to do like yeah i don't know like are you actually i don't i
01:17:52.280
don't let to it yeah i'm not like i'm trying to control people but like you know exactly create a safe
01:17:56.380
space safety yeah yeah and the the friend of yours who did four guys in the night would she would you
01:18:03.120
say that if you had to like rate her on a scale of one to ten or i mean you could do binary you could
01:18:08.480
just say if she was attractive not attractive or that's crazy i was actually talking with my
01:18:13.280
friends last night we're hanging out in the hot tub and we were talking about rating people we
01:18:18.220
rated her actually she's i mean honest from five being average yeah she's like a like a seven and
01:18:27.380
eight like she's she's not just average so all right but i feel like but i feel like during that
01:18:34.400
situation the rating doesn't really matter because everyone is like drunk and absolutely that's what
01:18:38.720
you know what i mean so it doesn't matter if she was seven or ten what matters is like there were
01:18:43.580
like multiple drunk people and they just wanted to hook up it's more like that because i've seen
01:18:49.760
people go down like you know kind of like lower their standards when they're drunk she did yeah she
01:18:56.860
did well i think the difference is though like a girl who's average or even below average in terms of
01:19:03.900
her physical appearance could pretty i think pretty easily sleep with a couple dudes at night
01:19:09.960
if she wanted to any girl could probably anyone there's never a girl by choice i mean other than
01:19:16.560
by choice it's not hard to find sex it's just it's not as a girl i felt i felt like i was meant there
01:19:21.940
there's so many people in the world if you go out on the street though i think it's easier for girls
01:19:26.460
to get late it is easier but i'm saying like i lost my virginity when i was 20 because i felt like
01:19:31.480
if i didn't have sex then i would never have sex and i literally like i had a boyfriend and we were
01:19:36.500
like together for like three months and we never like did anything and i like basically was like
01:19:41.020
all right we're doing this because like i just can't go through life without going past this like
01:19:45.380
wall by the way we're twins i lost my virginity at 22 let's go so did i yeah oh damn let's go i think
01:19:53.040
the difference is though is that for i'd say almost any woman if she was so inclined
01:19:59.060
well for starters could certainly get laid pretty much any night she wants but i'd say
01:20:06.020
to bring it forward even any girl could almost any girl could probably sleep with two three four guys
01:20:11.680
a night whereas for a guy to be able to do that you gotta be like you gotta be i'd say pretty good
01:20:17.880
looking or have some like pretty serious game yeah i don't think any boy can sleep with any girl i think
01:20:22.940
some men will totally divergence because like if you walk there's so much more like
01:20:29.460
if you're a girl you walked up to a guy on the street i think you guys did that video one time
01:20:33.600
and you're like do you want to come have sex with me they would probably be like okay right now okay
01:20:39.280
let's go and then a boy did that they'd be like get away from me yeah you freak yeah totally i feel like
01:20:45.980
when it comes to girls girls can get easily laid but i think it's harder for girls to find a guy who
01:20:51.140
is willing to have a relationship with her i feel like for guys it's more uh they have a harder time
01:20:57.560
getting laid but they have an easier time once they find a girl to get into a relationship
01:21:03.280
disavow i disagree i mean i think it's i think it's uh i think they both kind of especially in today i
01:21:11.980
think they one follows the other if you have difficulty getting laid you're going to have
01:21:17.540
difficulty getting relationship i think i think women have the event the advantage in both realms
01:21:24.380
both getting sex and getting a relationship i think where women have trouble when it comes to
01:21:29.380
getting a relationship it's getting a relationship from the guy you want yeah well besides that i also
01:21:34.840
feel like a guy who's getting laid is also a guy who's not really ready to settle down and have a
01:21:40.540
relationship because he's like oh i'm getting laid so i can probably get laid multiple times why commit
01:21:44.800
yeah you know what i mean yeah but i feel like for a guy though um let's just say you found a girl
01:21:51.220
who is able you you able to get laid with her right and you're able to talk i feel like a lot more girls
01:21:57.940
are actually willing to commit and have a relationship compared to guys so i feel like if a guy is ready
01:22:04.900
and he finds a girl who's you know willing to sleep with him and just pay him attention
01:22:10.880
um they could potentially build that relationship wait you think can you repeat that first part you
01:22:16.460
think that it's easier for sorry repeat the first part of that uh i forgot you're saying you said like
01:22:24.000
uh you said it's harder okay i'll try to say it so for girls for ladies yeah it is easier to get laid
01:22:36.320
it's easy for ladies to have sex it is harder for them to find someone who's ready to settle down and
01:22:43.660
have a relationship with okay okay for a guy if you are ready to settle down and have a relationship
01:22:52.420
with you can find a girl who's ready to sleep with you and have a relationship that's true i feel like
01:22:59.280
i'm not so sure about that here's why i'm not sure about that they're kind of guy
01:23:04.340
well of course because majority of the guys probably would not want to settle down if they're
01:23:08.940
willing if they're able to get late multiple times right like a guy who is able to get late every week
01:23:15.260
with a different girl is probably not going to be able not want to like settle down and stuff like
01:23:19.980
that but if a guy does want to settle down he can go find a girlfriend get late and also be able to
01:23:27.640
manage to build a relationship with that girl because more girls are willing to have a relationship
01:23:34.000
than men i agree yeah i'm not i'm actually not sure if i'm actually not sure if that's true i think
01:23:40.040
there's plenty of men that would that are very prepared to have relationships i just think a lot
01:23:45.680
of women overlook a lot of men and i think a lot of a lot of women are looking at like a pretty high
01:23:53.680
tier of men and disregarding a large yeah i was about to say not even high tier it could be like
01:23:59.660
average guys like it's just well hold on are you talking about online dating or irl because that
01:24:05.540
plays a role well yes there's certainly differences between online dating and irl but for example if you
01:24:11.260
look at online dating which is actually how most people are actually meeting nowadays uh they've
01:24:17.180
released some statistics on this and i think the majority of relationships originated online so whether
01:24:22.780
that's a dating app or meeting through instagram whatever it may be instagram's kind of a dating
01:24:26.880
app but um it's it's not clear to me that men have an easier time getting relationships perhaps the top
01:24:33.560
20 top 10 of men uh they could easily get a relationship but i think a lot of them don't
01:24:41.800
have the incentive because that category of men that uh cohort of men as you said it's it's fairly
01:24:48.820
relatively easy for them to get laid uh so so when it comes to online dating i think we have to be a
01:24:55.740
little bit more careful because um when you look at online dating there's actually more men using it
01:25:01.140
compared to women so there is a very small pool of women who are actually using online dating to find
01:25:06.600
partnership and typically those small percentage of women are willing to swipe right to very small
01:25:13.420
percentage of men hold on just a second would you be interested in a guy who looks in his 20s but is
01:25:20.680
actually in his 40s just to i guess i'll know who this is directed to if you all want it yes or no
01:25:25.880
answer sure definitely yeah sure i i had sex with this guy who was like 36 and he looked like he was
01:25:32.740
late 20s and i would so do it again i actually know an older guy that looks younger for sure i know
01:25:38.540
who jesse is for sure jesse's uh he's famous he's uh jesse hyman he's the world's greatest extra he
01:25:45.820
uh kissed bar raffili and the called daddy jesse hyman but what you can type in like a you can type
01:25:54.820
in oh i guess that's true but it's not he's been talking in chat i see him oh well i guess confirm or
01:25:59.920
deny in any case um thank you jesse for that tts much appreciated man um so you were saying uh yeah
01:26:05.780
so um those pool of women actually swipe right to one percentage of men because those one percentage
01:26:12.320
of men are considered to be better looking uh probably have more you know well written down
01:26:18.000
bios and etc uh because again majority of the time when it comes to online dating you're judging them
01:26:23.040
off uh profile what they look like so uh that's why very small percentage one percent of men actually
01:26:30.120
get swept right and majority of men actually get lost in the online dating uh which is true uh so
01:26:37.260
when it comes to online dating you have to work on your profile picture you have to actually work on
01:26:42.080
your bio because that's what you're based off um but if you if that doesn't work out then you should
01:26:46.840
try irl well i mean it depends what dating app but i mean i think majority of them well like tinder i i
01:26:52.220
think i think actually women are pickier when it comes to physical appearance than men are
01:26:57.020
yeah again but but again when you actually have only the physical attraction to basis off base
01:27:03.320
everything off of of course you're gonna choose that well but i mean that that kind of just
01:27:08.400
reinforces that women women are even though you say women are more desirous of relationships well
01:27:14.940
then they're wired do they continue to keep chasing after this like top five top 10 percent of men on
01:27:21.680
the dating apps because they believe they can settle them down that they can find that one that they
01:27:26.620
can change them like exactly but even women know that like a lot of these guys are fuck boys or
01:27:32.100
whatever whatever the term you would hope so but i feel like a lot of um ladies especially at the
01:27:37.240
young age might be a little immature might have well lacking experience when it comes to dating not
01:27:41.800
really aware of uh what people really like well i think a lot of people and me personally being one
01:27:48.180
of these people into the mic i think a lot of females don't realize that they're actually the
01:27:52.400
emotionally unavailable one which is why they attract emotionally unavailable men me being one
01:27:57.600
of the people who had to look myself in the mirror and be like wow why is this is weird why are things
01:28:02.500
like this coming up and i'm like oh shit literally it's because i was the emotionally unavailable one
01:28:07.060
because i was always like looking for the next best thing or looking for something else or intrigued and
01:28:11.620
trying to go find something else and da da da so yeah so you're saying you were looking for something
01:28:16.820
besides a relationship you're because as with an immature mindset you're constantly looking for
01:28:21.900
the next best thing whether that's of a yes superficial point where it's like a financial
01:28:27.660
means like can i do better i mean yeah that's a very immature immature i agree yeah instead of looking
01:28:33.920
for a person that's going to fit perfectly with your life and that's why i got out of my five-year
01:28:37.880
relationship is because i constantly i started looking for the next best thing even though like i had
01:28:43.780
everything you know pretty much yeah and so that is like an emotionally unavailable mindset it's an in
01:28:50.600
la everyone's out here to advance in very superficial careers and you're constantly looking to find an
01:28:57.360
opportunity to become the next best thing so typically how you do one thing to the offended
01:29:02.320
ladies what are your thoughts on women who use retroactive consent okay that's a doozy um
01:29:12.000
basically okay what what he's yeah how would you define it yeah i mean basically i think what
01:29:20.580
he's getting at is a woman consents and then later she regrets it either the guy was a jerk or
01:29:26.880
there was some social fallout from hooking up with the guy so she's trying to
01:29:32.080
so she consented in the moment but then she regrets it or she wants she's vindictive because whatever the
01:29:39.520
guy didn't want to keep seeing her whatever it may be um i mean alcohol and other things
01:29:44.480
yeah i was gonna say as long as she's sober if she's consenting while she's sober
01:29:48.100
then going back on that at that point yeah you can rip consent away while in the action
01:29:55.000
absolutely if you say yes and then you don't like it and you say no they should stop
01:29:58.120
but after you've already done it and then weeks years months go by
01:30:01.860
and then you're like no they they did this and i didn't want it to happen
01:30:06.160
like i think i really attract my the only factor that changes that is age that's it yeah what because
01:30:14.000
an immature if the brain is not fully developed and you think you want it wait sorry go ahead go
01:30:19.260
ahead if the brain is not fully developed if it's a younger like let's say it's a young girl or
01:30:23.760
something and there's an older man trying to basically hook up with her and she's a vow
01:30:27.300
she's into it and your brain isn't fully what's the age are you talking you're talking about an
01:30:32.100
adult woman right no so the brain typically when you say woman that doesn't matter adult it doesn't
01:30:38.240
matter 18 and over so you're saying like a 19 year old who's dating like a 27 year old it doesn't
01:30:42.800
matter i think whatever and i don't have the exact age but there's it's 25 25 where yeah so women
01:30:48.940
under 25 can't consent to sex no i think um i think that legally if they're still um consenting to
01:30:56.940
it legally if they feel let's say like years down the line they're like huh why am i feeling some
01:31:03.520
sort of emotion around this interaction with this person i hooked up with this person why do i feel
01:31:07.620
weird about it it feels yucky it's because typically when you're under the age of 25 your brain isn't
01:31:13.680
fully developed therefore you may have felt a certain way in that moment but as you grow older
01:31:20.200
and your mindset changes and you have a mature brain you can actually feel a different way well you can
01:31:25.620
okay you can feel a different way but it's legally still it's still legal like you okay yeah you get
01:31:31.860
what i'm saying but that's the only factor that i feel would change it yeah but i mean so you're
01:31:37.520
hold on hold on i mean you're making it about age but isn't it plausible that someone could
01:31:41.420
hook up with someone and have been totally into it and then maybe they date for three months
01:31:47.480
everything's totally chill but then there's some gnarly breakup and then you obviously regret having
01:31:53.520
been involved with this person because i'm just going based on my own experience so i'll just be
01:31:57.340
i'm very blunt so you did like a 70 year old when you were 21 so i was i was um i want to say
01:32:04.460
18 or 19 and i didn't have sex with the person at all okay but i was still legal but the the person
01:32:11.240
was 40s or something and we made out and stuff like that and okay i was completely fine i was like wow
01:32:17.360
this is so great like at the time like he's so like and then years later i was like wow why am i like
01:32:23.160
crying why am i crying around this situation why does it like feel yucky and feel weird and i'm like
01:32:29.080
huh and i did research and i realized that the brain is fully whatever uh done developing at 25
01:32:36.560
and i'm like huh why am i feeling so emotional around this you know when i did consent to it and
01:32:42.840
i did feel okay at the time but i do feel like i was taken advantage of and but this doesn't make
01:32:49.100
sense because i was okay with it and so then i had to look at the facts and look at science and i'm
01:32:53.640
like hmm maybe that's why so that's all i'm saying i'm not sitting here and saying that's
01:32:58.300
correct or incorrect but i'm just kind of giving my experience okay but you see but
01:33:04.340
you you years later felt uncomfortable by the situation correct okay i mean you're entitled to feel
01:33:14.920
uncomfortable yeah with with the situation down the road i mean we're his question was very something
01:33:20.860
very specific when it comes to retroactive i mean that'd be like uh you basically like down the road
01:33:26.600
you were there was consent in the moment but like for whatever reason you retroactively okay anyways
01:33:34.140
but that's the same thing right well i mean i mean saying like because i don't feel like i do feel
01:33:39.840
like in a sense i was taken advantage of because i was so young with a older dude i was 18 years old
01:33:44.780
and i was so young and this guy groomed me he knew what he was saying he knew what he needed to do
01:33:49.520
to make me feel some type of way i do feel like i was groomed at 19 at 18 years old i do feel like i
01:33:58.180
was groomed in a sense and because it doesn't make sense that i would feel so emotional about that
01:34:03.300
situation like why but i mean grooming usually is like in in the context of like okay well let me
01:34:09.460
chill like children let me let me help you understand this situation more i was getting
01:34:14.100
into modeling he's a photographer he's very has a high status in that area oh so this is like casting
01:34:20.760
couch so it's like well it's not porn no but it's like a casting couch type of fucking he abused his
01:34:27.120
power in a sense but i consented so like i can't sit here and take it back because legally
01:34:31.580
speaking it was it was legal right but i feel funky about it so what could be the calm denominator
01:34:37.500
the factor that is is creating that i mean i suppose age maybe my brain's not fully developed
01:34:43.880
and like so that's just a personal experience and i'm like because if you think about it what else
01:34:48.900
would it be that's weird why am i feeling like well i don't think i mean if he was didn't fully
01:34:54.240
consent like i wasn't in my i feel like it wasn't like well you consented right but but i think you're
01:35:00.660
not wrong for feeling if he was using the fact that he's this established photographer and he
01:35:06.640
was perhaps misleading you like he was like oh come come hang out because i want to shoot with you and
01:35:12.360
then he starts like hitting on you i think that's kind of scummy but now at this age though and like
01:35:16.860
being and maybe it's not even but i don't know if you did that maybe it's not even an age thing but
01:35:20.940
now looking back at it like i don't feel like i was the person i am today would have made that
01:35:28.880
decision and so maybe it's age so you think the age of consent should be increased um no i'm not
01:35:35.180
trying to debate any of that i'm just telling you my personal are you saying that women shouldn't vote
01:35:39.400
until 25 wow julia that's really sexist of you i know i came here with that uh is it beret i came
01:35:46.380
here with that beret but like i'm not on that team currently okay yo everybody in the chat say that
01:35:51.800
julia is a raging misogynist how dare you want to rage the uh age that women can vote at to uh 25
01:36:00.540
you should run as a politician and that's your platform women can only vote yeah okay um okay what
01:36:07.900
jesus okay that was an interesting one so we have something here from uh let's see uh wait
01:36:14.820
doc vanables can you read this one elizabeth okay um elizabeth would brian have to convert to
01:36:23.580
a capitalism brian can you name three catholic saints catholism isn't it catholicism it's okay i'll
01:36:31.920
i'll excuse you it's okay i couldn't get i'll give you a pass can you're gonna you're gonna make
01:36:36.340
three catholic saints is this to me oh yeah this is to me three saint petersburg saint patrick
01:36:46.320
aunt jemima i don't know um i don't know all right i'm not catholic so okay we got nape snake
01:36:55.320
good need good evening everyone long time fan supporting the stream what's everyone take on
01:37:00.280
adam 22 oh good question from no jumper being a cuck oh okay uh do you all agree he should have
01:37:06.820
allowed his girl to do a scene with another man lastly we need another protest troll picket sign
01:37:11.200
video eric can you google the video actually i don't think we can show the video with with alina
01:37:15.500
and the dude coming into frame i don't think it's let me i'll look at it on my stream to see if
01:37:20.440
it's kind of no i don't think it's inappropriate it was on twitter it was completely inappropriate
01:37:24.260
inappropriate stuff on twitter lena hold on twitter uh i can't quite lena uh video adam 22
01:37:33.760
okay so just to give the panel the context adam 22 uh post of no jumper youtuber creator whatever
01:37:40.260
uh he's married his they do like only fans him and his wife they do scenes with other women but they've
01:37:48.020
never done a she's never done a scene with another guy at least while they've been together
01:37:52.400
he allowed his now wife to do a scene a adult scene with another dude
01:38:01.000
your thoughts on this i think the unique thing about it is he claimed that he didn't want her to
01:38:10.060
do it originally and then right after marriage a couple weeks after that she did it so i think that's
01:38:16.560
the controversial thing about it yeah i mean it's for them to define what their boundaries are in
01:38:22.180
their relationship yeah exactly you know as long as they're comfortable and they're happy and they
01:38:27.420
feel like they're secure in the relationship more power to them make your own choices don't let
01:38:31.680
everybody else define it for you yeah people change their opinions like adam might have changed his
01:38:36.100
opinion about who his wife can sleep with uh they obviously have an open relationship um they have a
01:38:42.420
very specific podcast where you know they can sleep with other people i don't think creating content
01:38:46.940
those necessarily means you have an open relationship because you're that's part of
01:38:50.180
your like job at creating content down just a tad turn it down tilt it down no no just back pull it up
01:38:57.380
there you go go ahead you're good you're good all right i don't think i don't think uh creating content
01:39:04.240
means you have an open relationship how would it not well because it's not it's not worse yeah if
01:39:10.940
you're having sex with other people in a relationship and you both are like okay it's not for personal
01:39:15.280
pleasure it's for a monetary but that's the whole thing about open relationships it's like you have a
01:39:19.880
relationship with someone but then you can have sex with others right it's more of a just just sex
01:39:25.960
it's no feelings attached exactly right but then that's not that's not an open relationship no it's not
01:39:30.520
like an open relationship i would say is you're having like um you're taking personality into
01:39:36.120
account you know you're having feelings with other people as well like if i do something with taylor
01:39:41.060
yeah and we and it's just content it's just content i'm not in a relationship i don't call her my
01:39:46.160
girlfriend i'm not like thinking about her in the middle of the night being like damn i mean you know
01:39:50.080
i mean maybe i might i might think of victoria in the middle of the night you still are getting pleasure
01:39:54.400
out of it though i don't know i mean it's just the fact that they're doing it for money
01:39:59.260
is the reason why it's for but if i like my boyfriend me and him monogamous but if there's
01:40:05.920
another guy who's just like i'll pay 20 bucks to have sex with me i have sex with him there that's
01:40:09.680
that's cheating like there's a different context for that like i mean but you're not but yeah it's
01:40:14.560
still like it's but they would have gone into a relationship already knowing each other's
01:40:18.980
boundaries i'm sure careers careers i'm sure there was much discussion so i think with elena and adam
01:40:24.900
they actually were pretty open about you know elena's actually saying that she's bisexual
01:40:28.760
she's actually interested in girls so i think for them when they actually do content there's
01:40:34.940
actually emotions and feelings involved i mean that would be for them to say i can't yeah i don't
01:40:39.040
think we can say that well they actually did i think speak about it on their podcast and stuff
01:40:43.380
like that so i think in their definition it would be technically considered and open i mean it's it's
01:40:48.240
not surprising to me that adam was okay with his wife doing that i mean adam does he's in the adult
01:40:56.420
correct uh content business they're both they both do that sort of content so i mean you you
01:41:03.140
have to have some to some degree fairly uh progressive views on relationship dynamics um
01:41:11.700
i don't have anything against adam um his life his decision me personally i would 100 percent not be
01:41:20.480
okay with my wife like having sex with another dude right and that's that's 100 i don't care how
01:41:28.180
much money you're gonna make i don't care i'm not letting my wife would you want to do things with
01:41:34.280
another girl though no why not would you say that wait wait would you date a friendly girl
01:41:39.420
would you date a friendly girl damn brian would you wife up a girl who has a wife well i can be here's
01:41:45.700
the thing i could be monogamous but like i'm not gonna sit here and lie and be like if if my wife
01:41:51.240
was 100 okay with me and she remained strictly loyal to me but if she was okay with me sleeping
01:41:58.580
with other women i'm not gonna sit here and lie and be like no i would never like come on like um
01:42:04.260
i feel like majority of guys would probably say that to be honest yeah i mean well i think a lot of
01:42:09.180
guys might lie about that but um i think most men like if your wife would not leave you and would be
01:42:14.520
totally okay with you having like a uh what's the uh a guma i'm thinking of the sopranos term a uh
01:42:21.680
what's the term for uh not your wife uh there's a specific term for it concubine no not concubine
01:42:27.180
mistress thank you mistress if your wife is okay with you having a mistress like
01:42:31.640
yeah why not apparently i'm tom sandoval's mistress who the fuck is that oh my gosh raquel yeah
01:42:39.100
yeah apparently you're okay no no no they're looking for julia never mind they're looking for
01:42:46.100
julia and you got speaking to mike if you want people to hear we're looking for a what what show
01:42:50.680
is it even from the vanderpump rules are you about is are you going to do something to your dog right
01:42:54.700
now why are you putting your hair in a ponytail oh i was just like feeling it oh okay
01:42:58.760
because normally when someone puts a hair tie into their hair okay i'm like i don't get it
01:43:06.020
they're getting ready to kneel down yeah chill out wait so okay hold on wait so were you gonna say
01:43:11.400
something i was gonna say that something about consent and thing but then i think yeah no we're
01:43:16.560
talking about the adam 22 thing adam 22 like would you actually date a woman and then potentially marry
01:43:22.060
her if she were to do adult content yeah okay so i mean i've answered this before quite a few times
01:43:27.460
um i'm starting to actually think about changing my answer to this shit i previously i said i'd be
01:43:34.420
okay dating a girl who did of f so long as she's never done with another content with other men
01:43:39.520
that was my previous answer although after some recent experiences with uh do you guys see that
01:43:46.080
feather what the you see that little feather thing i did i did see um i i'm starting no offense to
01:43:52.880
some of you guys here who do only fans but i there's been a true a pattern of behavior from some
01:44:00.100
of the only fans girls we've had on the show and you guys have been wonderful so far but
01:44:04.120
uh i think i just would not i'm starting to lean towards like even if she she's never done anything
01:44:10.840
with a guy before on camera i'm starting to lean towards i would not date a girl who has done only
01:44:16.580
fans even if it was solo content my previous answer was if she's done solo content never done
01:44:21.300
anything with a guy that's fine you didn't provide the reasoning yeah but i think it's
01:44:25.260
situational yeah what change because a lot of only fans girls are very rude one very very entitled to
01:44:32.320
very um make so much money doing nothing that they have literally no sense of reality and yeah just
01:44:39.500
fucking rude and based oh and so but like i know i'm not any of that at all and i have an only fans
01:44:48.880
and we've had very good interactions um so i think not not trying to say like
01:44:53.420
i don't think you can but what would be your reasoning together it's well you're done julia i
01:44:59.400
mean you you've done content with your now boyfriend so it's over i'm out it's over i just had to make
01:45:04.040
sure i was out that was all it's it's it's donezo for us but uh i was trying to friend zone you
01:45:09.000
friend zone good times good times um sorry so what was the question though so what's your reasoning
01:45:14.800
she provided her reason but what's yours what would you why wouldn't you nowadays date an of
01:45:19.840
girl what changed yeah so i mean well first off just kind of to touch on my previous answer there's
01:45:26.040
obviously a spectrum right i mean you can be only fans there could be even no nudity it can be like
01:45:30.580
lingerie shit uh so all the way to like fucking bad dragons i don't know if you guys are like bad
01:45:37.560
dragons just like doing some like doing some like really uh kink related requests that might you know
01:45:44.200
um not not that there's necessarily anything that i have anything against certain kinks but like
01:45:50.000
that's a that's a that's more than taking tasteful lingerie photos um but i think it just
01:45:59.020
i don't know i've had some some bad experiences recently with some only fans girls so it's left a
01:46:06.840
bad taste in my mouth not not romantic not romantic anything but just like on this show
01:46:12.760
behavioral behavioral and i i think that um like unprofessional
01:46:17.580
unprofessional um and it's a value thing their values are very different it's a little bit of a
01:46:24.420
value i think that should come down to the people though and not that they're of the i kind of agree
01:46:29.500
with that yeah i think it's a value yeah yeah because there's some girls who are trust fund
01:46:34.120
girls correlation doesn't equate to causation right and they haven't posted a taking a picture
01:46:39.460
may even still be versions but yeah it's also perception thing too and i yeah for sure i mean
01:46:45.060
what's become apparent to me is like in the same way that women have a lot of options and you know
01:46:51.340
you're going to probably you're going to pick the best option as a guy why if if you have options as a
01:47:00.580
guy why pick a girl who does only fans versus a girl who does who doesn't because i don't think
01:47:12.340
it can be in neutral but i don't think it's ever going to be like oh a girl has an only fans that's
01:47:18.440
a pro now perhaps the money you make from it might be i think a lot of guys don't if i can be honest
01:47:25.060
frankly don't care about a woman's income i agree most men don't care about that but i disagree
01:47:31.900
about the fact that they don't care if a girl is an only fans i i dated this guy who was really
01:47:37.940
about it like he wanted to make content with me i never made content with him but he wanted to make
01:47:43.020
content well sure there's definitely guys out there that will certainly will and do date women who
01:47:48.020
no he promoted it he promoted it to me like he's like let's do this like it's he was excited
01:47:53.020
yeah sure but i i mean i mean that's also a low key way people try and get in like hey baby you
01:47:58.640
want to collab and they have like one follower like well it's just it's just almost a question
01:48:02.960
of of optimizing and i'm not trying to like this no it's being logical it's just optimizing your
01:48:08.900
your potential partner so in the same way like everything being equal would you rather date a guy
01:48:14.220
who makes a hundred thousand dollars or a guy who makes a million dollars everything being equal
01:48:18.300
you're going to pick the guy that makes a million dollars same way as would you rather date a woman
01:48:22.740
who doesn't have only fans doesn't have her nudes unfortunately love and feelings are not logical
01:48:28.540
and it's not based off of sure a factual thing um but i will say that being somebody who does have
01:48:36.300
an only fans and being in a very healthy relationship um the pros of having an only fans i have become so
01:48:42.880
much more in touch with my sexuality like my boyfriend is beyond in heaven with sex like for
01:48:48.840
sure he's huh beyond in heaven in heaven with sex i also feel like it also too like makes you like more
01:48:55.260
aware of other people's personal space and what people have like boundaries like like you have to
01:49:00.180
have that kind of communication with somebody in order to like create content with others and like
01:49:05.140
you bring that to all your like relationships because you become like mentally aware of like so many
01:49:09.560
things that you know people are comfortable i don't necessarily think you have to do only fans
01:49:14.420
to be aware of that but i see what you mean like it just because it helps sure you definitely think
01:49:18.940
about it yeah you see a different side of people um through of that you wouldn't see otherwise like
01:49:24.740
i have people who you seem normal and they'll come into my chat and then they'll come to my only
01:49:28.020
fans and it's like oh so you're like this all right but i will say that i have met a lot of only
01:49:33.020
fans girls and i think you're got you're like if we were to group it and like think of on average
01:49:38.320
yeah i i would not as a guy would not date the average stereotype of an only fans girl i would
01:49:43.960
not either however i'm not most only fans girls yeah and through my actions it's very like loud
01:49:49.960
and clear yeah and i i don't think that every single like obviously there's there's some of girls that
01:49:55.540
are fucking hustlers that are like gonna play dudes or they're gonna be that they might have
01:50:00.640
certain uh dark triad personality traits i don't think that's you could be like a super cool like
01:50:06.980
even you know low body count girl with a only fans i mean there's some girls who claim virgin
01:50:13.060
only fans i mean it's sure i'm sure i'm sure it's the case but the first time i did put like uh like
01:50:20.360
the first time anyone had ever seen a nude photo of me was on only fans but did you start out doing
01:50:25.880
only fans first or did you do other things before you did i've done i've been the reason why i started
01:50:30.320
it was because i needed to make enough money to move to los angeles but were you doing like content
01:50:35.500
before then i think that makes a difference because like we're twitch streamers and then
01:50:39.980
we progress from doing twitch to creating only fans content because the audience is there exactly
01:50:45.740
so it's kind of different exactly yeah when you start out like just i already had a platform so i
01:50:52.120
was like i need to monetize this and to be able to move and start the life right i think that's a
01:50:56.600
little bit of the difference when there's somebody who just doesn't only fans and they're an only fans
01:51:01.860
girl right i'm not like oh my god i want to be on porn hub like i want to go like that's my goal
01:51:06.400
in life it's not like you know not a not a not a dig at only fans girls in general but just like i
01:51:12.100
think it's different when you're starting off being a content creator from a different platform and then
01:51:16.100
transitioning yeah i mean i think the other thing too is is that if you want to have children there's
01:51:23.880
a concern there i don't so i mean if yeah yeah i mean i mean have you seen the meme about the girl
01:51:29.000
saying like my kids can just cry in a ferrari i was like bitch like true but like that's fucked up
01:51:35.520
i mean i had this whole conversation with my aunt she's a private investigator oh hold on just a
01:51:41.700
second the offender donated 99 dollars the thing about some of girls is that they fail to consider
01:51:48.100
that if they have a child they think it will not impact that child i mean i don't think that's a
01:51:54.220
that's a fair take no we are aware that there's going to be consequences we'll have to face but you
01:51:59.180
know what we and we will face those consequences once i mean yes human that will actually come to
01:52:04.700
be as humans but it's like make all kinds of choices good choices bad choices everything like
01:52:09.340
that everything has consequence yeah trying to say that because you're an only fans person that
01:52:15.120
like that's going to be the one thing that your kids just going to like be like like hold on to
01:52:18.780
yeah no like there could be abusive home or like all kinds of things that could be so negative in
01:52:24.040
their life like i don't think like you could just i think it's so funny though like honestly like how
01:52:29.660
there's people who go out there and will sleep with like 10 people in one night and then a girl will
01:52:34.100
post like a nude photo that's what i'm about yeah actually you do things behind closed doors
01:52:40.820
and at least this person is real and can actually and if you're a good parent you're not exposing your
01:52:47.020
child to that you're not like but i'm sharing your social media with them and forcing them to look at
01:52:51.920
your photos and everything like that it's just not gonna happen okay men don't want either of those
01:52:56.700
no but i'm actually thinking no but i know what you're saying i'm thinking about men but i'm not
01:53:01.120
saying in regards to what men want well i know what you're saying like a girl who doesn't have only fans
01:53:06.220
she could have like a sordid past like super high body count and like meet a new guy and the guy
01:53:11.780
might not be privy or aware of like how promiscuous she previously previously was whereas like he might
01:53:19.400
compare that girl to a girl who does only fans who slept with one guy and be like no no no to the
01:53:24.900
only fans girls versus the girl who's like slept with a hundred men before but doesn't have only fans
01:53:30.040
like majority of your viewers will probably still value the girl who doesn't have only fans as
01:53:35.540
higher compared to a girl who has only fans wouldn't you agree i have a feeling that majority
01:53:43.340
of your viewers most likely will still value the girl who doesn't have only fans but me but has a
01:53:50.140
hundred body count high body count let's just say that's ridiculous i mean i don't know a lot of
01:53:55.980
these viewers a lot of these viewers are keeping my lights on so i i i mean if the choice if the
01:54:04.060
choices between a girl who has a body count of a hundred and doesn't have only fans versus
01:54:09.020
a girl who does have only fans but she's been with one guy that's a fight that's shitty either way but
01:54:16.760
like i think i'd in that scenario if those are the only two options i have i think i'd prefer the goal
01:54:22.060
the girl with only fans 100 i would prefer the girl but again that's a select amount of girls because
01:54:29.980
majority of the girls how they are on only fans is what actually what they are in real life and
01:54:34.260
they're not just select choosing to be that girl with sure guy yeah but there are girls like that
01:54:39.220
but i mean i think the difference between only fans though and just like having sex is there's like
01:54:44.660
i'm gonna say like a high number like 200 000 people that have seen your guys as like naked body
01:54:51.020
and maybe only like the girl who has 100 body counts yeah 20 body count even like that's only 20
01:54:58.100
people but do you think there's a difference between somebody seeing your naked body versus
01:55:02.980
somebody having an experience well actually there's a difference but it's still like they're you know
01:55:07.140
what's there's actually supposed to be sacred like what's sacred one is a business woman and the
01:55:11.900
other one is giving it out for free that's how i see it well yeah they're both bad they're both bad
01:55:17.500
it's like when you wear a swimsuit you're in your bag i mean there's also a lot of girls on only
01:55:22.040
what's that hold on one at a time go ahead there's also a lot of girls on only fans who don't
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like show certain parts of their body and are doing but i get what you're saying completely
01:55:32.780
um again it's just kind of like the whole like open relationship thing or whatever like
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they're doing it for work so it's really just a perception and a mindset thing and if i was a man
01:55:42.960
honestly i'd probably be brian's views on it like i completely understand it however like like i said
01:55:50.040
there's a select girl select percentage of girls who are not actually the only fans girl yeah but
01:55:56.480
also everyone has this mindset like how you're saying that all girls like do the same show and
01:56:00.820
only fans or like they do porn like my home page is not nude it's mostly just like lingerie cosplay
01:56:06.980
perception though like it's just perception yeah that's that's what if you have an only fans people
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are going to just assume what it is i mean i think the other reason why i think men can be hesitant when
01:56:16.100
it comes to only fans you are to some degree deriving validation from somebody else so or you're you're
01:56:23.020
you're receiving male attention from these dudes on only fans and that sort of like lessens the
01:56:32.380
attention that your partner is going to give you like you're you're getting you're fulfilling your
01:56:36.640
need for male attention and male validation through these other ways so the attention that you get from
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your partner is kind of diminished to some degree so i mean there's that makes sense i mean no no no i
01:56:50.440
actually disagree with you because i think you are putting the same value when it comes to both types
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of validation i think like sometimes we as humans we probably weigh the validation from our parents
01:57:03.700
from our husbands boyfriends higher than from strangers wouldn't you agree so but you're saying
01:57:08.840
they're on the same level and because we receive so much attention from random man that the attention
01:57:14.160
that we get from our husband boyfriend is going to be valued less but again you it's the only reason
01:57:19.460
you're saying this because you're weighing them on the same level but i disagree with yeah well it's not i
01:57:23.480
don't think it's on the same level necessarily but it's on the scale somewhere so uh yeah you know
01:57:29.880
all it does is make me more confident as a woman that i know like there's all these people out here
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who like find me attractive and would pay for my shit but it doesn't diminish the value of someone
01:57:41.820
i mean look at the end of the day i mean i think my two big arguments would be is that when given two
01:57:51.600
options the girl with only fans all things being equal is a better option men value sexual purity
01:58:01.280
men value innocence and women for sure no not all men sure okay not yes not all men but generally
01:58:09.360
speaking men value sexual purity and innocence and women i feel like when it comes to like wifing them
01:58:14.800
up i think they do is that what you guys want yeah well i think that's over general but but earlier
01:58:20.400
you said earlier you said that women desire relationships more than men so i mean wifing
01:58:26.320
someone up isn't that well cucks have wives cucks have wives what is it well that's i don't know
01:58:33.600
what i don't know what they have to be in a relationship to be a cuck right that's a huge
01:58:38.100
cucks cucks have wives meaning like you know cucks like for their women to be with other people
01:58:42.380
so but okay the the other thing too is it's a denial of something also just like if you do want to have
01:58:49.480
kids then you're you are subjecting your child to to bullying so how would you solve that if you
01:58:55.820
were married to a only fans model and she had a kid what would you how would you what kind of
01:59:02.060
conversation would you have with your kid and how like well i just that's a conversation if you look
01:59:07.500
at if you look at things like for example a chess board and you're like okay i'm gonna make the
01:59:12.040
best move possible yeah i'm pulling out hold on i'm pulling out the andrew tate here hold on
01:59:16.300
all right take your time all right we got the uh andrew tate's joining the panel
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sorry uh marrying a girl who does only fans is not an optimal move in life i mean if it just
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happens it just happens to happen like that's just how love love works in mysterious ways in any case i
01:59:37.980
don't i don't foresee myself i just again it just comes down to optimum suboptimal choices
01:59:46.120
answer the question what's the question well neither what would i do what would i do i would
01:59:50.300
i just wouldn't be i would not be in the position to begin with but we don't know what love and
01:59:54.740
respect we can ask this question all the time i think any of us have kids but we're always asked
01:59:59.020
this hypothetical question it's a hypothetical question what would i do yeah what would i do yeah
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so in a hypothetical situation if you were to marry an only fans girl and have a child with her
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and that child's friends discovered your wife's only fans and started bullying your child what kind
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of conversation would you have with your child that's a tough one i mean that's kind of like you
02:00:21.540
deal with it's a bridge you cross when you have to cross it um as a father you're saying i'd be like
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i'm sorry your mom used to your mom used to be a hoe i'm sorry oh she still does okay your mom is
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still a hoe i'm sorry i'm still a hoe she's still a hoe me and your mom sometimes you know film us
02:00:42.700
getting intimate but you know we do it for your brighter future would you say that so you can go
02:00:48.480
to college for free it's like you have no student debt there jimmy just it's timmy it's paid for
02:00:55.100
yeah mommy and daddy sometimes film their intimacy and you know we pay for your college money with
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that money you know for your college degree with that money i don't think that what you're gonna say
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honestly wipe the fucking internet scrub that shit or don't have you can't that's just permanent
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internet is i feel like i feel like you can delete it but people download people download that shit
02:01:16.240
it's gonna get leaked i feel like just life is changing like you know we used to have for
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example music you know back then uh music used to be better no i was just saying the other day
02:01:29.040
like the 303 song my first kiss i was like oh this is so like racy and now it's like oh this is so
02:01:34.760
simple we have like songs talking about pussy and this and wow and wow i just feel like in today's
02:01:40.660
things are changing as humans our whole fucking lives revolve around sex and being
02:01:45.920
sexy and everything like that i just think to this day and age i think it's stupid i don't know
02:01:50.560
hot take it's just stupid that it's so it's just like this and it's taboo i just feel like it's
02:01:55.940
stupid what's taboo like it's like it's just it's just everything like sexualized but it was before
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even it was before yeah it's haram it is women were allowed to show ankles before bro can you believe
02:02:10.740
that these ankles it's haram oh god that's top chief it's haram oh shit yeah but uh okay how
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here let's let's uh hold on let's do a couple chats here all right we have uh i'll pull that
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joseph thank you for the donation man dear ladies what insights can we gleam from
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the interplay of physical desires and emotional connections how does the intimate dance of human
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sexuality shape our understanding of ourselves and the world around us curiously joey
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how does the intimate dance of human sexuality shape our understanding bro that's a i think he's
02:02:55.940
trying to say can i mean having sex i think what he's trying to say is can having sex help you
02:03:02.360
understand more about yourself and who you are as a person i mean yeah you can figure out if you're
02:03:07.660
actually straight or not you can figure out who you're interested in what your fetishes type of
02:03:11.200
things are so yeah it kind of makes you you know a little bit more aware about who you are and what
02:03:17.060
you're interested in i feel like it helps you feel more in touch with yourself yeah yeah that layer of
02:03:22.580
yourself this is such a vague nebulous question how does the intimate dance of human sexuality
02:03:30.100
shape our understanding of ourselves and the world around us
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i think i'm just too stupid to understand your question
02:03:38.860
there's so many ways that we could go with that that's like some advanced philosophy shit in college
02:03:44.960
okay but thank you for the uh the the message man okay we got bad zxe here uh teatro la finis would be
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the opera house we would go see cavalleria rusticana and then i go to taverna la finis
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afterwards for dinner brian just forwarded elizabeth my details hopefully her family doesn't put a hit
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out on me okay all right there you go elizabeth that's cute all right jesse miller thank you for
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the 69 tip appreciate it man first time watching live just wanted to give a shout out and show some
02:04:14.940
support thank you man appreciate it props to making good content appreciate it brian good stuff into the
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girls you've been a good panel so far cheers jesse miller hey thank you man yeah it's been it's uh
02:04:23.040
been a good panel man much appreciated did the it did pop up though the exe one you saw it pop up the
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one with the venice it popped up okay just want to make sure it actually showed all right we have uh
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uh to the viewers in here don't subscribe to these of or streaming services they don't show you any
02:04:47.060
real value and do not care nor even will care for any of you no matter the amount and no real man
02:04:52.920
will ever want to be with an of more wow okay he's roasting beaten cheeks like question yeah can you
02:04:59.720
explain that because he's never been beaten cheeks oh wow shots fired shots fired um on that note
02:05:08.920
isn't it true that um you so four of you have of of i mean you guys don't really uh you guys don't
02:05:19.660
really respond to your messages do you you have like some some person in like kazakhstan writing
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i want 100 respond to all my messages so you gotta you know you have you guys have a company
02:05:29.680
on my grandmother's grave i respond to all my messages so i think a lot of people are not really
02:05:35.060
aware of how the business works but if you're a small individual right and you actually don't have
02:05:40.280
money to pay other people to do your job you actually respond to it yeah majority of people
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cannot afford especially if you're like i'm not paying a management company yeah i'm not doing
02:05:49.840
that shit i just don't want someone else like posing as me and like talking to people and it's
02:05:53.960
not actually me how do you how do you ensure control at that point exactly and i don't want
02:05:58.760
to give some of my login like i don't i i talk a certain way and i talk a certain way to certain
02:06:04.100
people so like they would know also we already take so much of a hit on twitch why would i want to
02:06:09.940
give more and on olf the platform actually olf takes 20 20 20 20 20 20 20 well you can say that
02:06:16.900
but i mean if it just frees up a whole bunch of your time to like do other shit i mean it's kind
02:06:22.200
of just the trade-off of paying someone to respond to your messages for you and then you've just freed
02:06:27.400
up all of your time yeah and some of these guys a very small minority of people who can actually
02:06:31.400
afford to buy a management you have to be the upper echelon but also no one's gonna be if i mean
02:06:35.620
if you're smart and actually have brain cells no one's gonna be able to maximize your business
02:06:40.000
like you are yes exactly especially i mean maybe there's like some dude out there who's just like
02:06:45.000
really good at fucking pretending to be a chick and like finessing the fuck out of these dudes
02:06:49.860
like sexting the dudes but i mean so hot is it you brettan yes i i'm the guy typing for all these
02:06:56.160
of chicks you've caught me that's what i was doing a year ago but uh look i don't think it's all
02:07:01.900
it's certainly not all of girls uh who have like a management who's responding on their behalf but
02:07:08.920
like let's be real there are definitely and i don't think it's a small proportion of women who
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do have only fans who are charging people for to message back and forth and it's not actually them
02:07:19.000
messaging it's like somebody doing it on their behalf i would say that there's some there's a lot
02:07:25.360
i think the really big one it could even be you guys and you guys obviously you wouldn't admit to
02:07:29.500
it if you were doing it well here's another thing i think when it comes to uh us we also stream on
02:07:35.280
twitch and majority of us actually stream on twitch for at least five to eight to twelve hours right so
02:07:42.380
we have a very intimate relationship with our viewers we actually respond to them directly on
02:07:47.360
twitch so i feel like they're way more familiar with us so if they did send something um when it
02:07:53.800
comes to only fans chatting like something was off it didn't sound like us they would figure it out
02:07:58.360
right away yeah what happened on the stream exactly exactly to also sit there and watch your
02:08:03.620
whole stream yeah absolutely uh golock the destroyer donated 100 oh thank you the only fans girls all
02:08:11.000
look like they have failed asmr channels on youtube i should start one i've actually never done mine is
02:08:17.440
pretty successful i just started it confirm or denied did is that you get any of you have a failed asmr
02:08:22.660
channel on youtube no i should start one okay do these mic work just to just to wrap up really quick
02:08:29.020
just to wrap up really quick on the of stuff um sorry friendly yeah yeah just to just to wrap up on
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that i mean the big thing though as far as it being a negative if if you ever like if you're thinking
02:08:40.180
long term with somebody um if you have kids with them the kid the potential that the kid gets
02:08:47.340
fucking bullied is just not like avoid it it's better to avoid it by not dating someone who has
02:08:53.180
only fans here's the deal if you're so big as a friendly girl right that people recognize you and
02:08:58.920
know who you are probably at that point you can afford to provide the child with a private education
02:09:03.700
so they don't even that's not going to preclude them from bullying are you just going to like we're
02:09:08.620
assuming that this is something that kids are going to be bullied like you know i don't have a kid
02:09:14.220
yet but if i were to have one like in a few years or so we're assuming that they're going to get
02:09:18.260
bullied for this situation you think 13 year old boys are brutal yeah like they're gonna okay but
02:09:27.720
like why would they be like oh my god that's so cool your mom's like a milf or something you know
02:09:31.880
like i would be like that's not gonna happen do you think in like 10 or 15 years there's just
02:09:37.480
gonna be this huge influx of kids that are all like most likely yeah well maybe embarrassing
02:09:42.640
like i for sure that that's a hard one because if i had children i would no way in hell would i want
02:09:48.360
my kids or any of their friends to know about that but again i don't know kids i don't i don't have
02:09:54.920
only fans so then like i girl i'm so out of this conversation like yeah let's uh let's move on to
02:10:01.260
we've talked about it for a while so let's move on to something else so um let's see um and i think
02:10:07.600
we're going around the table on this um i think i already asked it related to like if you had any
02:10:12.980
friends that have hooked up with like multiple dudes in like in a night um i know you wanted to
02:10:20.180
touch on unrealistic standards for men and women so why don't you expand on that i don't even know
02:10:27.380
where to start i just think there are unrealistic standards on like do anyone want to start besides
02:10:33.500
me then i could probably when it comes to men i would say the salary expectation is unrealistic
02:10:38.260
a lot of people assume that by the certain age you should be earning like hundred thousand dollars a
02:10:43.360
year or like six figure right well let's be honest that's very unrealistic because majority of men
02:10:48.280
majority of people in general will have a very hard time earning hundred thousand dollars
02:10:53.140
in their 20s even in their potentially like mid 30s and stuff like that i think that's going to be
02:10:58.760
probably one of the unrealistic expectations for men i would say for women having children uh i'm 25
02:11:06.000
last year i was told that 24 is when you're the most fertile which i could just not see myself having
02:11:13.480
kids right now whatsoever i don't care like who you are some women do but that is just not me like
02:11:19.820
and i think um as time progresses like women are having kids at later ages now
02:11:26.080
yes yeah it's true yeah wait so say it again so what's uh what's the um unrealistic expectation
02:11:34.760
for women say it again that they're supposed to have kids like in their 20s basically no i disagree
02:11:41.800
i think nowadays it's actually not encouraged that's what well that's what i'm saying but a lot of men
02:11:46.800
will say you're your most fertile at 24 so you should be honest that's like red pill guys saying that
02:11:53.060
but yeah wasn't that what this podcast well yeah i think we're talking about like societal general
02:11:59.400
expectation like unrealistic expectations well yeah i mean you're most fertile in your early to mid 20s
02:12:06.940
and then once you you know i think once you start getting into your 30s uh fertility decreases once you
02:12:13.840
get over 35 then you're in high risk you start getting into uh it's called geriatric pregnancy territory
02:12:20.620
high risk pregnancy territory so after 35 the one the likelihood that you get pregnant or are able to
02:12:27.800
even get pregnant starts to diminish quite significantly there's a higher likelihood of birth defects there's
02:12:34.260
a higher likelihood of miscarriage uh so i mean biologically speaking the best time to get pregnant
02:12:42.020
you could argue say between the age of most likely 20 to 30 in that age range yeah so i would probably
02:12:49.960
say 23 and above but yeah 20 i think it's pretty young well yeah it's it's young but i mean just
02:12:55.620
speaking purely on the biological level i believe it's it's in the range of 20 to 30 if just to give
02:13:02.100
it a range not i don't want to say like a specific age because i don't know but um so yeah it's just
02:13:07.980
like you know we have a society where more women are going to colleges and they're graduating so that's
02:13:12.820
actually extending the time when they get married and have kids people are having marriage later
02:13:17.780
um you know people actually wanting to work and actually build a career and stuff like that
02:13:23.260
so because of that the age of having children is actually increasing to now i would probably argue
02:13:30.980
29 to 35 i would say so which is not necessarily a bad thing again but it's just but i think the
02:13:39.280
and now the consequence of that though is people are now having less kids as well because you know the
02:13:45.220
the age is increasing it's becoming more expensive so now we're having less kids which is did you want
02:13:51.340
to weigh in on this i got to get up for a sec but yeah sure um i think a lot of too like what i meant
02:13:57.100
with the unrealistic standards between like men and women is the commenting on bodies oh i think that
02:14:05.840
we and i agree like it's very upsetting when boys comment on our bodies but i think it's been more
02:14:13.880
sexualized you without yeah and i think it's been normalized more lately to do that to men do
02:14:19.300
you think it's the internet i do because like just even being like oh like if they're not six foot
02:14:24.480
then i'm i'm not touching them it's like that's saying it's like if you're over 150 pounds sometimes
02:14:30.380
being like oh then i'm not so i'm not touching you have a living breathing um example of that being
02:14:36.380
not true right here yeah so i i i like for you guys like for you guys does height matter to you
02:14:42.560
guys or no no no that's five five i know right like for me it doesn't really matter i think the
02:14:47.040
biggest issue happens is you know what we typically hear those stories from tiktok from youtube you know
02:14:53.660
all of that stuff which in my opinion is a very niche percentage of women majority of women
02:14:58.860
they don't care about like a guy who's just taller than that you know what i mean they don't specifically
02:15:03.700
looking for six foot and above they just want hey yeah i just said that as a male
02:15:08.200
it's natural as a female to want to be with a male that's going to make you feel safe because
02:15:18.060
in history they are you know the protectors protectors that's the word yeah exactly so i think
02:15:24.600
looking for a taller man like i just said like even like the weight thing and the height thing
02:15:29.980
as a very like basic start off i don't like i'm i don't mean like oh if they're over six foot like
02:15:39.440
i'm just pulling i think it's just more so like like less of less about the gender and it's more so
02:15:45.800
like a lack of awareness and empathy among our generation and people these days like yeah that's
02:15:52.900
really the issue to be honest with you i think the most annoying thing is like the whole thing of
02:15:58.040
mid coming about and people being so easy to call people mid i think that's like the most infuriating
02:16:03.760
thing ever i hate it when people call others mid i just yeah i get so triggered yeah but i guess when
02:16:09.820
it comes to guys like guys in all honesty there's no reason for you to be concerned if you're actually
02:16:14.600
not above six foot or six foot or above you just have to be taller than the girl you're seeing you're
02:16:19.240
dating and you should be fine like i feel like guys they probably you should be able to talk yeah
02:16:24.080
some guys like they lose confidence because they're not the six feet that they're i don't know
02:16:31.560
they they compare themselves to it's called six six six six foot six uh demonic six figures six
02:16:38.380
six figures and six inch i believe keep me away from some six six six six six foot six pack six
02:16:46.000
figures six inches six inches yeah no that's not true wait what what was i think i've heard a little
02:16:54.800
bit about what you said in terms of uh the myth comment what was it oh i i feel like the most like
02:17:01.080
recent thing that's infuriating is the whole concept of mid like just being able just to toss that out and
02:17:06.940
like label somebody just like completely dismiss them and everything and just call them mid like
02:17:11.340
when someone else gets called mid or whatever like i i hate it like i feel like it shouldn't exist like
02:17:16.400
i feel like it's so like it's just you're just tossed away yeah i think it's more of a projection
02:17:21.740
thing yeah they're just projecting it you know just yeah but she was talking about labels so i was
02:17:26.780
like i don't i feel like that's like the worst thing right now sure i think that's also a streamer
02:17:32.300
thing because i mean they're on the they're watching no yeah but that's a streamer thing
02:17:37.380
you know it's a it's an internet culture thing yeah somebody call somebody mid just mid like
02:17:42.100
completely dismissive like oh she's mid she has no opinion because she's mid yeah but any sort of
02:17:47.760
it has to do with physical appearance i think i feel like it goes but you could say someone has a
02:17:52.060
mid personality like it could be applied to so many things or has anything negative to say it's
02:17:57.460
literally always a projection because our perspective is all based around our own reality
02:18:03.440
our own brain the way yes i feel like everything in life is like mental seriously what do you mean
02:18:09.380
it's like the mindset like even though you're not should i say you're not tall right if you're
02:18:15.200
confident within yourself to say you know like i am a good looking dude no matter or like even you
02:18:20.460
don't even have to have the looks the confidence speaks a lot but not cocky i don't think people
02:18:24.560
should be confident but not cocky though there's a difference confident no confident as in they
02:18:29.200
know themselves i was gonna say confidence confidence just be confident that you're mid
02:18:34.500
just be like yeah i'm a five i accept my i accept my shitty hand in life yeah right confidence like
02:18:44.500
as in like they know who they are you know i mean like as in even having morals is attractive to me
02:18:51.160
you know what i mean having morals having family morals know your upper hand and flaunt it like for
02:18:56.100
me i'm the type that like i'm attracted to guys that are like family guys you know if you're close
02:19:00.460
to your parents that's like i'm like oh wow because like i'm very close to my parents that just shows
02:19:05.800
that you want to probably have kids in the future right you want to you're a family guy would you date
02:19:10.180
a single dad probably not that's the truth probably there's nothing wrong with that nothing wrong with
02:19:18.920
that actually you know what eric can you um eric in the dropbox folder we have something related to
02:19:24.020
the single dad single mom thing um i i might have to go over there to the computer really quick
02:19:29.140
to go find it but if you guys want to uh continue on with the uh conversation uh the single dad
02:19:36.720
conversation or the height and weight conversation yeah okay so i guess when it comes to the weight
02:19:44.880
conversation right um i think a lot of people would actually prefer like a healthy body set
02:19:51.460
right you don't have to be like ripped and stuff but uh you know we're talking about not being like
02:19:56.380
morbidly obese or whatever you know what i mean you can have a dad bod but i just want to see effort
02:20:01.240
that you're trying to take care of yourself because if i'm going to be in a relationship with you
02:20:04.120
like i don't want you to die on me you know like from a heart attack no yeah just at least take care of
02:20:09.960
yourself yeah no it's important to like yeah work out take care of yourself because if you
02:20:14.260
physically take care of yourself your confidence will increase it's just good for your mental health
02:20:18.320
as well uh it's just yeah i think that's important but a lot of people have different body type
02:20:22.640
preferences like a lot of girls like skinny tall like gamer boys while other girls like wrist up
02:20:28.900
like ripped up guys but other girls like dad bods and stuff like that so yeah it's uh it's but it's
02:20:34.740
important to stay healthy i think that's the key point well it's like how am i supposed to know that
02:20:39.000
you're going to take care of me if you can't even take care of yourself exactly it's a good point
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word word um really quick just since we've talked about height um do you who here at the table has
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a height preference we just said we don't we just want taller than us technically yeah we don't have
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like none of you care about like she's a living you could be like an inch higher and i'll be okay
02:21:05.540
you know i mean okay so you do care about height like i guess like it has to be higher than me
02:21:09.240
yeah just an inch that's fine that's fine you know what like like i care i said more within who
02:21:16.080
they are like you know respect is is very strong in like having but if you're not physically attracted
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to the guy then they have to be like passable and i'm cute like normal passable like normal mid
02:21:28.020
it's fine seriously as long as he's mid it's okay okay guys all the mid dudes no nothing below mid
02:21:35.240
like can we just pass the physical appearances maybe because i work with like male models like
02:21:41.900
on the daily like i see i see like the looks like all the time it's like who are you like surpass all
02:21:50.380
that look like who are you as a person that's that's who i that's that's my goal like when i meet
02:21:56.620
somebody i it's kind of surpassed the physical appearance hold on okay so hold on just the whole
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table um and i kind of want to wait until julia's back but okay you're married you're single right
02:22:08.180
but you're and you're single too correct um you've never even dated any guy so i can't really ask you
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this question but um you had an ex-boyfriend before right how tall are you i'm five two how tall
02:22:20.740
was your ex-boyfriend which one how about the most recent three uh so one of them i believe was uh
02:22:29.280
five five the other one was uh i believe six the other one is six three so they literally went up
02:22:39.780
so i don't know what the average of all of those is but in any case i think that they're
02:22:43.800
six okay two of two of the three of your ex-boyfriends one was two inches higher than
02:22:50.440
the average and the other was five inches taller than the average but here's my deal i feel like
02:22:55.900
tall guys just look for short girls you see what i mean it's not it's not even me picking them
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because of their height it's them picking me for my height what what about that brian but it's
02:23:05.340
interesting that you state that you don't really you said you don't really care about height i just want
02:23:10.220
them to be taller than me and sorry you're five three five two five two okay but your two boyfriends
02:23:18.500
i mean one of them was granted one of them was five five but two of them one of them was six feet and
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the other was six foot three okay oh what about you height doesn't matter right no it doesn't how
02:23:31.520
how tall was your ex-boyfriend so most recently was five eight and there goes my argument most
02:23:39.800
recently was five eight before that was six foot and before that was six two all right okay two of
02:23:46.040
three two but most recently it was five eight so most presently so your standards are lowering is what
02:23:53.040
you're saying so the standards go are equal to height is everything well you've lowered your
02:23:59.240
height standards in any case okay is that lowering it though are you saying not necessarily i mean
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it's plausible that it just it just so happened to be the case uh you you in actuality never had
02:24:11.060
high preference but it happens to be the case that two of the three of your past ex-boyfriends were
02:24:15.880
uh above average in height the average is five eight though right the average is five nine or five
02:24:21.860
ten i think it's five eight i think it's five five i think somebody needs to look i think it's five
02:24:26.840
eight is average yeah yeah for man no i think five six is average in the u.s in no no five four is
02:24:32.120
average for women five ten is average for men so i'm average depends on race race is it breaks down
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yeah i'm five nine five nine and a half five nine and a half yeah yeah but uh so typically it's like
02:24:45.860
average and above and stuff like that but like i feel like the issue becomes as unfortunately the
02:24:51.600
guys who are short they lack the confidence and they probably do not really put themselves out
02:24:57.080
there to begin with you know because they lack confidence and stuff but besides that you see a
02:25:02.940
lot of people dating shorter guys and actually marrying shorter guys too that's not true
02:25:07.620
shorter guy like shorter no no no not shorter than them but short guys yeah short guys yeah
02:25:15.180
yeah short guys yeah okay i again i think when it comes to internet we focus on the niche of women
02:25:20.620
who have a specific preference of six foot and above but again there isn't a specific niche
02:25:25.780
there's not like some small niche of women that prefer men who are taller the vast majority of women
02:25:31.840
six foot and above that's what a lot of girls like that's what we assume is a lot of
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that's a stereotype yeah that's a stereotype it's not just a stereotype it happens to be true
02:25:41.560
no i disagree there's also i think it's a very small percentage of women you literally have a table
02:25:44.740
of women saying we disagree yeah you're going to give diplomatic politically correct answers
02:25:50.460
oh hell no no no hold on let's let this come in 100 it's very simple to a good man who knows his
02:25:58.540
worth a woman is worth the lowest price any guy has to pay for her privacy all women start off
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priceless but some end up 4.99 anyone with any experience knows how that ends dot free college
02:26:11.960
isn't worth it sorry 7.99 right now oh yeah let's go yo chum thank you uh don't know man much
02:26:21.020
appreciated um so it look maybe you are all outliers and maybe you all don't excuse me don't really
02:26:29.580
care about height but um the reality is generally speaking i'd say most women would prefer to date a
02:26:38.260
tall guy a taller than her guy yeah i agree and i would say most women like if you ask them
02:26:43.320
find taller men more attractive than shorter men because on average women are just shorter than
02:26:52.020
average men so that makes sense if you're literally taking only that into account then sure but if you
02:26:58.120
put a guy who's shorter who has more personality next to a guy who's like six and he's you know a
02:27:04.000
nimbo or something i'm gonna choose the guy with the personality well yeah but you can you can create
02:27:08.560
these hypothetical scenarios but but would you if again like all things being equal you're gonna
02:27:15.020
pick the taller guy for sure i mean yeah all things i would say all things again generally speaking
02:27:22.600
women are attracted to tall men it's it goes back to it's a evolutionary i mean yeah there's an
02:27:29.020
evolutionary basis because a guy who's physically larger who's taller is more capable of defending
02:27:35.500
you i agree and hunting and gathering yeah yeah for sure no i agree so and also tall guys are
02:27:43.540
attractive i mean they've done like there's all these videos where a guy will interview a girl would
02:27:49.560
you rather date a guy who's ugly but tall or like a handsome guy and short and a lot of women will
02:27:55.400
pick the ugly tall guy they'll pick ugly and tall over i need more detail yeah i need more yeah when
02:28:01.240
you say short short how short i need more description like shorter than me then yeah i would not date a
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guy who's shorter than me but so height does matter i said that a height matters she likes tall okay i
02:28:12.220
want a person to be taller than me absolutely yes what i'm dating i don't yeah but i don't have a
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specific like number preference i ain't got no type
02:28:20.560
wait so you have a boyfriend how tall is your boyfriend um maybe like six foot maybe six foot
02:28:31.980
under six foot he's taller than me but he's not like super duper tall all right well we'll move
02:28:36.700
away from the height thing but uh we have body though that's funny let's go let's go girl
02:28:42.400
we have stiffer here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten
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you uh i oh fuck it i think eight okay what about you solid eight okay
02:29:05.020
um i'd say i'm we're rating we're rating ourselves we're rating ourselves i don't know why um i'd say
02:29:16.360
a nine or a ten i'm not gonna lie nine or a ten yeah nine ten i am nine point five or do you just
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nine point five nine nine point five ten i don't know i'm sorry i would say i'm an eight
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okay what about you i don't like the numbers thing because i feel like it's so hard to like
02:29:41.080
put yourself to a number especially like when you're like how i feel about myself and how others
02:29:46.600
perceive so like i would give out a number that i feel like people would be like oh she's so
02:29:51.560
she's so like full of herself and and that so like any number i give wouldn't be a true
02:29:56.880
representation of like how i feel about myself does that make sense i would give you a political
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number even though like i'm not really in myself like okay pick a number yeah just pick a number
02:30:06.960
69 i don't know i don't i don't like the numbers thing i don't like being just like it's just like
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being like called mid like i'm just gonna take me and just make me a number i don't think you're
02:30:18.440
a mid i think you're a great solid eight maybe it's just you're rating like what is the rating
02:30:23.120
but like what's your parameters of being a number is it just like
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fine let's just i think we're getting too deep yeah let's just not we're getting too deep
02:30:34.860
i don't know keep it surface i've never thought
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6.57 i think you're seven seven yeah okay i because i don't know brian your turn brown hair
02:30:56.080
and the green eyes like it's a little above average i'd say you guys should see my butt and
02:31:01.900
then it'd probably go higher that was a fucking excuse me camera that was a 12 no let's go don't
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do her like that i don't know she kind of like barked at me or whatever which makes her a 13
02:31:11.920
oh wow she's protective okay brian your turn go yeah i give myself six 6.9 on a good day
02:31:18.740
you know i think i threw the nine in there i would say 6.9 yeah 6.9 on a good day wait
02:31:24.820
you were about to say something no oh you're like saying something about 10 or
02:31:29.280
no i'm saying she is a 10 because i felt like she was like lacking confidence you know
02:31:34.440
oh you think no but it's strictly looks strictly but you were you're rating her as a 10 okay yeah
02:31:40.020
got it can we go typing my girl like what about like do something else like let's rate ourselves
02:31:45.040
on something else too could we give like it needs to be like a scale like there needs to be like a
02:31:48.640
questionnaire like looks okay now let's pick another ass is like this what about ass yeah let's rate our
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asses you would destroy us all you would literally destroy yep she wins congratulations yeah wait i
02:32:01.740
don't think they could see you i think elizabeth was kind of blocking i blocked bro would you come
02:32:06.320
do it again oh excuse us all right haram my turn haram wait you wanted to do that no okay okay check
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hello all right there you go ladies and gentlemen um okay so we have let's see actually hold on let me
02:32:23.700
uh oh uh okay we did rating oh uh while we're at it um who here thinks body count should matter
02:32:31.620
i do or does matter it does matter it does matter elizabeth oh sorry i was using off body count yeah
02:32:40.300
that thing i think the lower the number the better seriously okay it's unattractive knowing
02:32:48.780
when someone has a high body count okay in my opinion okay i think that's so just like
02:32:57.100
surface i think it i don't think it matters i think it's about the human i also don't think it
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matters yeah i think as long as you're having safe sex if you're a hoe you're a hoe but like
02:33:09.600
having like empty sex i feel like what's what's the point but what is that hold on what does that
02:33:14.400
mean that it's empty but people can people also can change and awaken and maybe that was a past
02:33:19.760
that's the thing like i have some friends that are like that so i'm like do you think they could
02:33:25.660
what is yours what do you think again it's a high body count like what would be your number where
02:33:29.660
you'd be like no like knowing their past are you asking her for a guy or for a friend you're
02:33:35.860
dating a guy and he's like 15 girls would you know like more than i think knowing his past like he
02:33:41.640
basically slept maybe like a different girl every single day but if a guy he's you know bagged at
02:33:49.580
least 15 to 20 girls would you be like probably that's passable definitely that's fine that's fine
02:33:55.280
that's fine but not like multiple you mean just too much how do you know the truth how are you
02:34:00.300
gonna know what if he lies to you then you got a liar that's the thing i feel like hey i've actually
02:34:06.460
fucked 600 girls and is literally fucked 700 yeah like i feel like because um these are this group
02:34:15.740
of friends that i know and like the reason why i was friends with him was was because i thought he
02:34:20.920
was a good person or very innocent he came very innocent to me he treated me very nicely
02:34:24.780
um but then knowing that he's been hiding that he has been like a player that player mentality
02:34:33.460
so he was trying to get at you he was trying to get on my good side definitely so you just don't
02:34:39.200
want a player i mean there could be guys i definitely don't want a player for sure because
02:34:43.000
it shows that i feel like love in essence is like basically commitment and or should i say like
02:34:50.760
sacrifice like if you because maybe for me i believe in like one lover you don't mean like
02:34:55.260
the one person for you like a soulmate basically yeah like a soulmate i don't believe in that you
02:35:01.560
don't believe in that so you so you huh you don't believe in soulmates no i think it's kind of but
02:35:06.420
you believe like there's eight billion people in this world and there's only one person made for you
02:35:11.080
yes because i feel like i don't believe there's a perfect person you have to work on your relationship
02:35:14.840
if you find that one person for you you could basically look around at other people and say
02:35:20.800
like my girl's the best you mean or like you mean your eyes only on for your girl yeah but i don't
02:35:27.420
know i just this the soulmate thing because how many people think there's someone's a soulmate and then
02:35:32.140
two years later they're broken up or two years later they're divorced if you're broken up within
02:35:36.320
the next two years and basically she's he's not the soulmate for you yeah but what if you thought
02:35:40.920
they were your soulmate they weren't your soulmate yeah how do you know you have to work on your
02:35:45.700
relationship you can't just be like yeah that's right that's the thing like if you have fights
02:35:49.560
within a relationship a soulmate would know how to solve it you know you you would know how to solve
02:35:56.480
it to continue the relationship i definitely believe like and not just call it quits not just
02:36:00.860
call it quits and just really run off yeah like if you can fight and figure it out and i think i think
02:36:05.380
you need to be not like not like fighting like screaming yelling like you need to be able to do
02:36:09.140
conflict resolution but i think it's more so two individuals having the uh level of maturity and
02:36:15.620
ability to communicate in order to problem solve that is exactly create a healthy relationship like
02:36:20.100
right relationship takes effort and i very much think it's like an everyday thing and you have to
02:36:24.380
work for that every single day it's not like it's never going to be easy you're going to have your
02:36:28.900
happy days you're going to have your sad days and you just need to like you should be sad days than
02:36:34.120
happy days that should be a red flag that should be a red flag yes maybe maybe this too because
02:36:39.980
i am thankful to have like should i say uh an amazing upbringing my both of my parents
02:36:46.440
my mom violin lessons yeah my mom met my dad like like i think um she was a virgin when she met him
02:36:53.420
the one and only lover you know so then i had a really good support they they thought yes but they
02:36:59.520
knew how to um resolve every single problem how long they're married was your dad like they've
02:37:04.460
married for 38 years was your dad just a player no he wasn't you said your mom was virgin but like
02:37:11.060
he wasn't was he just like running through chicks and i think you know i think he only had like
02:37:16.240
three girlfriends in his life okay i mean like normal normal so i i believe like the upbringing of
02:37:24.980
someone plays a huge role into who they are right like i understand like okay in order like my friend
02:37:32.620
they're a player right i understand probably their upbringing wasn't the best right probably a bad
02:37:39.640
maybe the girlfriend previous previous ex i meant like cheated on him to where he's heartbroken you
02:37:47.700
know that time that's understanding to where you can't trust anybody anymore and then you just want
02:37:51.840
to have but that's understanding but there comes to a point where it's like you're an adult and you
02:37:55.620
have to take ownership in your life i have never seen a relationship work out at all and my family
02:38:00.920
is in my upbringing was extremely toxic and i've done so much self-development to be able to get
02:38:06.100
where i'm at and so i do think that yes childhood shapes you absolutely you're more likely to end up
02:38:13.200
in that situation however have some ownership and fucking strength to get up and create a life
02:38:17.860
that you want yeah but i think one of your toxic psycho one of your viewers is bringing up a very
02:38:22.460
interesting point where i think culture also plays a very big role as to what kind of individual you'll
02:38:28.900
be in the dating so i feel like when it comes to the western society we are very much of a hookup
02:38:34.480
culture where you know hookup is in a way kind of promoted and stuff like that encouraged even
02:38:39.560
it's like yeah explore your sexuality tv and movies yeah but i feel like in a lot of other countries
02:38:45.680
uh eastern uh asian countries middle east and etc um i think uh you know there is no such a thing as
02:38:53.340
hookup culture it's more like try to find a person try to build a relationship marry and etc so uh i think
02:38:59.720
culture also plays a very big role definitely like word so that's that's the word because maybe i had a
02:39:07.640
good influence in my life to where that's the reason why i'm the way i am you know well question for
02:39:13.280
the whole panel um who here uh just show of hands parents still together parents still together still
02:39:21.440
married best friends parents uh who here uh who here parents divorced some point in childhood
02:39:31.440
and anybody here just father never there at all anybody bueller anybody okay okay um
02:39:42.140
word what about mother brian why is it just the father true because my mom wasn't really there
02:39:51.800
but oh is your dad yeah my dad well my dad but like that go ahead my dad was there but like
02:39:59.060
were either parents there like question mark but like oh wow okay that's yeah yeah yeah no but but uh
02:40:05.880
pull the microphone they're both there now they're both there now and they're amazing i love them both
02:40:10.320
yeah i also have like question mark we're either there closer relationship with my father than i do
02:40:15.080
with my mother you have a closer relationship with your father correct okay all right uh well someone
02:40:21.460
mentioned red flag so uh maybe we could actually no before we do no hold on let's stick we we didn't
02:40:27.000
finish the body count so a couple of you said body count doesn't matter i think you you and you
02:40:32.020
said body count doesn't matter you three said body count shouldn't doesn't matter if i don't want
02:40:37.700
to misquote anybody here uh just curious uh what's everybody's body count okay so i say one and a half
02:40:47.660
the reason why is because me and my part and one of my partners like you know did things but it never
02:40:52.860
involved like full-on but then with my recent acts it was actually like a full-on thing
02:40:58.300
fine go to i don't know why you're looking at me like this she's been with a hundred we already
02:41:07.300
know this no no 1.5 1.5 so is that like a tug job in the back of a 7-eleven parking lot what are we
02:41:16.460
talking about no it's more like you know making up finger i don't know i don't know yeah but it's
02:41:21.980
like but not no penetration no you know a blowy was there a blowy on me but i never did there was
02:41:29.640
a blowy on you no blowy on him though no blowy you no no and yeah it's a plus but then uh with my
02:41:38.640
recent one it was uh like a actually full-on relationship so that's why i say one and a half
02:41:44.360
but yeah okay um elizabeth what about you body count zero she's a virgin zero yeah okay uh what
02:41:57.060
about you 18 18 what about you six six what about you one one what about you julia um i can count on
02:42:05.700
two hands i think it's i think it's nine you think it's nine yeah i don't understand how people just
02:42:12.880
sit here and are like counting and tallying and like like i don't just sit here and like but if i
02:42:17.900
were to bro your dog is she has a collapsing trachea be nice to her what the my earring keeps falling
02:42:27.200
i feel bad for your dog multiply it by three and that's the real number what i mean whatever the
02:42:31.040
number is you gotta multiply that shit by three for all of you that's funny okay that's that's not
02:42:35.040
fair no mine's like legit because then i'm gonna say i'm gonna say one then because i know i've been
02:42:40.020
with less than i can count on two hands less than 10 absolutely okay all right so i'm gonna go ahead
02:42:47.260
and say two wait you just said nine yeah because you're about to multiply it so i'm gonna say two now
02:42:52.740
that'd be six hello yeah but six is better than anything at college okay um just not math or
02:43:01.280
geography good times uh okay so we're gonna react to a video um of a uh this was on tiktok recently
02:43:10.360
kind of got a little bit of attention basically single mom and she's upset with the dating landscape
02:43:15.980
as a single mom let's go ahead and play that video
02:43:18.380
uh oh pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause pause uh video tab please
02:43:26.340
you're gonna have to uh do the thingy oh sorry i thought you were talking to me
02:43:32.640
yeah uh start it start it from the beginning sorry there guys so i want to talk about something
02:43:41.460
that's been really really annoying me lately this is going to be it's about men but single mom version
02:43:47.960
so something that's been getting under my skin is men not understanding what it means to be a single
02:43:55.560
mom so as a single mom a single working mom i have my plate full to the maximum right i don't have
02:44:02.700
free time the time that i do have free i just want to relax so one i get it i'm single yes do i want
02:44:09.320
a date sure if i meet the right person right but if you invite me out for a dinner um or drinks
02:44:15.440
especially during the weeknight come on you know i have things to do i'm sure you have things to do
02:44:20.240
the next day i have a child to take care of i can't just go out late at night just whenever right
02:44:28.600
um so you have to take that into consideration so if you're really going to invite me out one make it
02:44:34.380
worth my time and what do i mean by make it worth my time just just don't invite me out to dinner and
02:44:40.260
drinks get creative invite me out for an activity do something different do something that's going
02:44:45.860
to be worth my time and effort i am taking time out of my evening to meet with you to go and enjoy
02:44:52.820
your company you know to see how things work if we're compatible i'm making an effort so i expect you
02:44:59.240
to make an effort so don't just assume that i'm going to be able to drop off my child somewhere
02:45:05.200
because most likely i'm not so unless you're offering to pay for the babysitter i'm not going
02:45:10.500
on that date also and offer to pay for the babysitter that's going to make me more receptive to want to
02:45:16.680
go and spend my time with you and another thing do not just assume that you can invite me and my
02:45:22.400
daughter out no i do not introduce my daughter to guys that's a no-no so there's that and also
02:45:30.600
don't just assume that you're going to invite me out for drinks and i'm going to show up
02:45:34.640
um what makes you think that i'm going to put my safety in jeopardy by drinking and driving so
02:45:41.400
unless you're going to film the video while she's drinking driving it's a no on the drinks during the
02:45:47.400
week so moral of the story is how she's driving she already has a lot on her plate so don't add
02:45:55.540
to her plate don't make her life more stressful don't make her plan out the date that you want
02:46:00.820
to take her on like that's not going to happen so all i'm going to say is do better and to everyone
02:46:07.440
asking me out on freaking dates lately literally if the shoe fits then it fits okay so i gotta say
02:46:15.260
yikes okay um i don't even want to go on a date with her damn i feel like she's just
02:46:23.340
she's in her masculine she just needs somebody who fits exactly into what she there's a sense of
02:46:29.740
entitlement there i feel like um which is i mean i feel like she knows what she wants
02:46:35.000
for sure she she wants what she wants but she expects a lot yeah she's expecting way too much
02:46:41.180
her standards are way too high unrealistic yeah too much yeah well i mean a couple of the things
02:46:46.260
she said is she she doesn't want to just do dinner and a drink stage she it sounded like she wanted
02:46:51.760
something a bit more elaborate she also says you should pay for the babysitter and she also says
02:46:57.320
if you do invite me out for drinks and i think i mean i maybe this is not the most charitable
02:47:03.760
understanding of what she said she says don't expect me to even show up for the date but i'm not
02:47:10.900
sure if that's what she meant it sounded like i mean he she's asking the person whoever this video
02:47:16.200
is directed to value my time but she's now saying in the video i don't value yours by not showing up
02:47:22.300
no i don't think she meant i think she meant like i'm not gonna show up while like driving to the
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drinking place i think she is expecting for the guy to pay for the uber invitation has been extended
02:47:32.400
and she's accepting it so she's not showing up i just think it's literally exactly what i was trying
02:47:37.060
to say to the beret girl on the last episode it's like not what you say it's really how you say it
02:47:42.460
that matters and like really coming and just like bitching in someone's ear is really not gonna get
02:47:48.200
you what you want so like maybe lean into your feminine and be like cute and sweet about it you
02:47:52.980
know it's very easy but don't bitch because even i don't want to listen and i'm a girl clearly yeah
02:47:59.220
but i think it's again at the end of the day it's like uh she did she is the one who has a child
02:48:04.280
right it's her full responsibility it's not the guy that potentially might full-time date her like
02:48:09.700
that's not his responsibility it is yours to find and pay for the babysitter if you actually want to
02:48:14.840
participate in the dating world and etc and uh i think for the first date yeah but i think actually i
02:48:22.760
kind of do again there are a lot of things she said that i agree with however how you say it matters
02:48:27.880
but what do you agree with for the first date like yeah you barely know the guy why but i think it is
02:48:33.000
also very um sweet and kind and it shows that you're very interested to be like hey like i know
02:48:39.660
you have daughters like if i feel like if you offer to pay for a babysitter i would be so flattered
02:48:44.300
yeah that's sweet but don't expect but if someone does it that's so sweet but don't expect i think
02:48:51.000
that's well said yeah don't expect that yeah don't make that then you're entitled at that point and
02:48:55.080
it's just not cute yeah yeah i think i i think i understand you yeah and also like um for me when
02:49:01.320
it comes to first date it's like both people are trying to get to know each other there's we don't
02:49:06.060
know if there's going to be chemistry or not so i think like hey let's go on a coffee date and so you
02:49:11.760
know see how it's going and there's you know a very good open uh chance if i don't like this i could
02:49:17.640
leave right away but when you say hey let's do something elaborate something in private i think that's
02:49:23.160
stranger danger one and two it's uh what if there's no initial chemistry like what about that
02:49:29.320
it's like both people are wasting their time it's kind of cuck territory i think to pay for
02:49:35.180
a babysitter for a woman's child from another no please tell me what a cuck is i seriously i
02:49:42.080
legitimately do not know well i'm not i'm not literally saying it's cuck but it's like kind of
02:49:46.480
to okay you are basically fulfilling the provider role for a woman who has been impregnated impregnated
02:49:58.360
and has a son from another man so you're you're basically it's not cuck but it's like it's like
02:50:03.900
it's a step down yeah you're saying a step down is a cuck you like like watching somebody else please
02:50:08.620
a cuck is enjoying yeah like someone else pleasing your woman no i i yes i know i'm not using it
02:50:15.320
strictly in the literal sense but it is like as a man it's kind of an l to fall into the provider
02:50:22.540
role i i think personally saying that's a stepdad is a cuck i agree with that some stuff that's our
02:50:29.880
heroes my look i think hey if you want to be a stepdad i think that's wonderful i think it's great
02:50:35.500
however just looking at it from a guy's perspective if you don't have kids of your own there are much
02:50:42.560
more optimal mating choices you can make than a single mom i think it depends on like what your
02:50:49.740
boundaries are and what you're trying to invest in if you're really like the girl and you're super
02:50:53.160
down to you know pay for the kid and all stuff like that it's like almost saying like you're you're
02:50:58.780
open to sharing the responsibility of the kid it is so it's a boundary thing if you're not trying to
02:51:02.880
give that impression then definitely don't offer but like you know if you're someone who wants to come
02:51:07.660
in and like you know if you go out to dinner you're paying for the child as well then yeah for sure
02:51:12.280
but just be mindful and have boundaries to you know i don't know it's just like you're you're
02:51:17.960
provisioning for another man's child it's like a little suboptimal majority of guys don't want to
02:51:26.220
do that majority of men don't want to and i think a lot of women probably i don't think though some do
02:51:30.260
though my boyfriend's uh brother did that and his uh his dad also did that so like some do and some
02:51:39.480
are cool with that but i don't also uh i don't think that's actually a cock move to pay for babysitter
02:51:46.840
on the first date because it's like you're not necessarily taking care of the child you like hey
02:51:50.980
i want to date this woman so i'm gonna try to make it possible to actually date her um and get to know
02:51:59.300
her i don't think that's necessarily hey i'm not providing for this child you know what i mean i
02:52:03.840
just feel like it's not his responsibility to have to find child care for his like someone that he
02:52:08.800
wants to take on a date if she doesn't want to go on the date then whatever but if she does why
02:52:13.480
wouldn't you find your own like i think that's why i agree with what julia said i think it's nice
02:52:18.020
if he does that but it should never be an expectation yeah especially on the first date that's like
02:52:23.000
ridiculous like he doesn't even know you why is he gonna invest in you already you know i mean and
02:52:27.520
and then also if if that single mother leans a bit more traditional in her values let's say the
02:52:33.920
relationship you know develops she is probably down the down the road in the relationship she is
02:52:40.200
probably going to look at you to be a provider for the kid do you think somebody should be telling
02:52:46.040
you before the first date if they have kids or not yes yeah i've actually i've uh i think i think
02:52:51.520
most women are pretty forthcoming about if they have a kid or not however i've definitely there was one
02:52:56.960
time i went on a date with a girl and she reveals it on the date which i'm like she was nice and
02:53:04.240
everything but it's like you should you ought to disclose that i think before like as early on as
02:53:10.560
possible so well it depends on the intentions though too because let's say you're swiping up on tinder and
02:53:15.220
you're there just you know trying to you're gonna go get food and you're just like down to hook up
02:53:19.340
after like it depends on the intentions if you're she's looking for a relationship yeah absolutely
02:53:23.380
yeah i think but uh i mean i mean yeah yeah i suppose yeah if you're just trying to have a
02:53:28.940
one-night stand it's like well what does it matter if i have a kid but um you know i mean but it kind
02:53:34.200
of goes back to what you said you said most women are looking for relationships but i don't know i think
02:53:39.320
a lot of women are perfectly happy engaging in hookup culture and casual sex and i think more women
02:53:45.460
participate in hookup culture and casual sex than do men i heard that nowadays and i think it also
02:53:52.240
depends on um it also depends i think what city you're from and etc like um i think specific cities
02:53:59.620
like you know new york um la and stuff like that women are more sexually open and way more okay with
02:54:08.820
hooking up i'm not really into hookup culture i think there's a lot of issues with hookup culture but
02:54:14.140
if you want to participate in it just be responsible know what you're putting yourself into
02:54:17.900
i think a lot of females are a little bit like love to play the whole like woe is me like oh my god i
02:54:24.460
just wish a guy would treat me right when really like she doesn't even isn't able to step up and
02:54:29.680
actually be a wife like truly and that's because i had to take a hard look in the mirror and be like
02:54:36.360
wow like no i want to be a wife like why you know i kind of agree in the sense where like i think a lot
02:54:41.440
of individuals uh women as well uh especially when they're younger they're not very self-aware
02:54:49.040
and they don't really want to acknowledge what they want they might want a relationship but they
02:54:54.400
might say oh no i'm just looking up for a hookup but then expect maybe a guy to change his opinion
02:54:59.220
and actually have a relationship but they're not very forthcoming and open with themselves and with
02:55:05.040
the guys but i think that comes with the maturity level yeah i think a lot of girls just like to play
02:55:09.680
the woe with me like they want the attention they're like oh my god this guy just ruined my
02:55:13.400
life like this one did too i just want a boyfriend so bad and like really no this also this also goes
02:55:18.700
to the other as well like vice versa to the guys as well what do you know like but guys aren't saying
02:55:24.620
that what do you mean guys are trying to be cool and like yeah dude i fucked like three girls last
02:55:29.380
night like not all of them because i see that eyes i see those eyes but typically no i think it's kind
02:55:36.080
of lame for a dude to brag about i i feel like i think it is kind of fucking yeah but a lot of
02:55:41.240
them think it's a lot of them think but i think to elizabeth's point in my opinion like i feel like
02:55:46.160
guys might sometimes say hey i want a relationship but they actually don't to get a girl to bed
02:55:51.280
yes yeah that's what i think no they they literally do on tinder all the time i think that's
02:55:56.760
that's manipulation they'll say like they kind of use oh wait do you use tinder i don't use tinder
02:56:02.400
oh okay wait they say what they'll say i'm open to a relationship or like yeah i'm looking for
02:56:06.480
relationship just to hook up with you yeah oh really yeah i don't do the yeah well i'm banned
02:56:12.600
on tinder now so yeah i mean that i i do think that for women that that's a uh and i i don't really
02:56:23.060
know what the answer is but i i think a lot of women will encounter men who will basically
02:56:27.800
front that they're looking for a relationship but in actuality they just want to hook up
02:56:34.400
uh so i don't think men should lie about their intentions but they do um yeah and so some women
02:56:42.180
can definitely get tricked in so far as but i don't know how many of those women like are genuinely
02:56:51.100
strictly holding out for a relationship and then they get duped versus women who who are interested
02:56:57.400
in having a relationship but are also sort of simultaneously kind of engaging in casual sex so
02:57:03.840
perhaps they get they got duped by a guy but they would have actually they were already open to like
02:57:10.700
a casual casual arrangement anyways sure but it's about the intentionality you still have to be
02:57:16.840
honest thank you man donated 99 the thing about stepdads is that the stepdad has no discipline
02:57:26.300
over the child yeah i mean that's another thing too like that's very interesting something they have
02:57:31.540
to figure out yeah yeah as a couple yeah here's the thing though that i would say to that is that
02:57:37.140
a single mom she might start looking for her boyfriend to start being fall into the provider role
02:57:45.620
without having the corresponding authority so all the responsibility but none of the authority
02:57:52.920
so because she's probably not going to be like okay you can here you can pay for his babysitter but
02:57:58.840
don't you dare discipline him so it's like as a guy it's like well i have all the responsibility but
02:58:05.480
none of the corresponding authority that would normally come with being a father so right it's just like
02:58:11.420
your buddy and then also the difference is is that like if you do like let's say you're a stepfather
02:58:15.880
and you start like building a bond or relationship with your stepson or step stepdaughter which you
02:58:21.200
would i assume you would hope that the bond if you do intend on pursuing something long term with
02:58:26.600
this person um if she breaks up with you um you know if you do build a bond then it's kind of like
02:58:33.100
if if the child is biologically yours then you have some you know you can have uh split uh what's the
02:58:41.240
term uh split custody but if it's like her kid um obviously look it's her kid fine but uh you you
02:58:49.040
would have no uh so it's like kind of a double breakup like not only in the same way like if she had a dog
02:58:56.000
and you really like the dog and then there's a breakup it's like fuck i'm not gonna see bella anymore
02:59:01.680
i'm not gonna see max do you guys have step parents do any of you have a stepdad i do stepmom yeah i do
02:59:07.740
yeah same okay there's someone here that's a good relationship with them oh yeah like a bonding like
02:59:14.180
a parental oh yeah like he um i would say like i have two dads i don't even say stepdad at this point
02:59:20.480
no oh that's cute i it's a friend i met my stepdad when i think i was like nine okay because my dad was
02:59:29.200
just like never there i don't know where he went so how did you guys feel about them disciplining you
02:59:34.540
well it's awkward because my stepdad and my dad are best friends like they whole they started out
02:59:40.520
as best friends that's funny it's a oh my gosh damn it not at first not at first not at first
02:59:47.940
also just just to bring it back what is wrong with your earring hello
02:59:53.900
um i i think just to bring it back really quick to to um men duping women like saying they want
03:00:03.420
commitment but not really i think i think women play a role in that because i think a lot of women
03:00:09.720
will sometimes guys will be will be honest and say hey i'm not looking for anything serious i just
03:00:15.500
want something casual and then the girl will be like okay that's totally cool because maybe the
03:00:19.240
guy's like super attractive um and he's he's upfront about his intentions and the girl will
03:00:25.140
hope well okay i'm he's really attractive so i enjoy the casual this at least i can get this with
03:00:31.540
this guy they enjoy the casual thing with the hope that down the road he'll have a shift in what he
03:00:37.860
wants but he was honest from the jump he just wants something casual so i think in some cases a lot of
03:00:43.940
women don't want to scare off like a high value guy by saying she wants commitment right away the
03:00:50.080
mentality of she's gonna say i'm open i'm open to uh casual no i 100 make it known from the start
03:00:57.520
that i'm looking for a relationship every single time yeah i think people need to take personal
03:01:01.680
responsibility and actually communicate that yeah by the way how do you define a high valued man brian
03:01:07.620
high high value man yeah how would you define it well i mean there's there's different realms
03:01:13.840
with which you can look at i mean first off there's i think a physical appearance can be one so a guy
03:01:18.900
who's like really physically attractive that can add to his uh how high value it he is it can be his
03:01:25.480
care well it can be his character it can be his values it can be the way he conducts himself um it can
03:01:32.200
be his masculinity it could also be his success it could be his ambition so it just has to be one of
03:01:38.960
those things instead of not necessarily i think it's a holistic i think it's uh it can be multiple
03:01:43.700
things one could you know if uh maybe he's uh for example i would say like jeff bezos um he might not
03:01:52.320
be like the most super good looking guy although he's been working out i i guess but he's he's one
03:01:58.840
of the richest men on on the planet he's built in an insanely successful business i mean this guy's a
03:02:04.700
high value guy but he may not be like you know a 10 out of 10 male model so it's kind of like there's
03:02:10.480
various components to it but you're also bringing up an extreme a billionaire but sure yeah so like
03:02:15.680
when it comes to you know everyday guys like how would you define like do you have an example of
03:02:20.380
someone like a an everyday guy well how could i give you an example if you don't know who they are
03:02:25.120
like for example like what would be his salary what would be his look like how would you rate
03:02:29.200
like what would be his um values like how would you classify that sure i mean well again look it
03:02:36.880
could i think if he's i think physical attractiveness is can be a component to it but it's it's sort of
03:02:44.320
the total package right um and if you excel in one dimension of this then you can if if you perhaps
03:02:52.000
lack in another you can make up for it but um you know i think having good good values being
03:02:58.740
successful so monitor success sure okay yeah yeah gotcha how would you define a high valued woman then
03:03:07.200
i call myself a high value woman like do you know i mean just like at the end of the day
03:03:15.580
it's the different qualities that you contribute to society and to others so it can be from an
03:03:21.640
internal standpoint uh from a mental standpoint from a monetary standpoint from a intellectual
03:03:26.980
standpoint from a just like it has a whole package physical standpoint yeah yeah i mean i think it my
03:03:34.300
answer is fairly similar when it comes to women the only thing i would differentiate is um i think a
03:03:40.440
woman's uh income or financial success is less important than it is for a man gotcha but she still
03:03:48.480
should be able to contribute something i think her character yeah um physical appearance uh values i
03:03:56.260
think yeah that that can be the difference yeah between them you know i don't really i i think the
03:04:02.440
term high like high value what is it you know it's kind of nebulous yeah a little vague but um by the
03:04:09.540
way i just want to do a shout out to uh vermilion typo and uh rps uh okay so um yeah so i i mean like
03:04:20.240
you could say like for example high value woman is like an attractive woman with high relationship
03:04:25.680
potential um and so that that comes down to some personality things her character her values her morals
03:04:32.040
etc um so yeah gotcha yeah thank you word word uh so yeah i guess just to bring it back to the guy
03:04:42.660
you could say finance like physical prowess abilities skills social value reputation
03:04:49.680
so word word um wait what were we talking about before that though stepdad the girl that's the girl
03:04:57.960
was just bringing the oh yeah stepdad no we were talking about shit it slipped my mind um the it
03:05:03.080
was the girl the clip of the video of the no yeah we were talking about the the mom but then we got
03:05:06.880
into a conversation about the dad oh having a stepdad yeah yeah okay having authority of the kid
03:05:13.720
yeah okay well i think we kind of i think did anyone else have a reaction to that that video
03:05:20.980
why is she she's driving while she's talking while driving she'd be banned on twitch if she did that
03:05:28.040
yeah yeah i'm i mean so just i'll give my take on this i i've i don't think i've dated a
03:05:37.820
i haven't had like anything long term or even short term with a single mom well when i say short term
03:05:44.300
like a month or two months or something i have gone on and besides the one date where i went out with a
03:05:49.940
girl and she didn't tell me there was one other girl who i dated i think i met her one time single
03:05:55.680
mom and then on our second date we had a date planned out and then she texted me like 30 minutes
03:06:02.320
before the date saying oh my god there's something wrong with my kids you know whatever some excuse
03:06:06.220
can't make it so i mean i think that's another reason why it's just like suboptimal to data
03:06:11.160
some like a single parent because like they're and justifiably so their primary focus is going to be
03:06:18.960
their kid you're going to be lower priority in their life versus someone who doesn't have a kid
03:06:24.460
and of course justify your kid should be your priority but like if if you're dating someone
03:06:32.140
who doesn't have a kid they're going to give you more of their time and you're going to be a much
03:06:37.080
higher priority on the totem pole so yeah if you have like an option to date again a single
03:06:42.780
woman with no kid versus yeah of course you're going to go with a single woman okay yeah i think i would
03:06:48.480
apply out of curiosity um how have you i just i would love to know how you have approached a
03:06:55.300
female and asked them on a date or just give me like a couple scenarios of how you've asked a female
03:07:00.100
out when where is who what when where why and how like only does the whole the whole story yeah okay
03:07:06.040
well i mean recently or like when i was younger because when i was younger this was like before
03:07:11.220
dating apps so i'd like i'd like approach a girl somewhere but um like on a dating app no i haven't
03:07:18.280
been on dating apps for a minute recently like in your past let's just say you're like they dm me
03:07:22.760
hello oh really yeah they're raising you let's say you're at a bar the past five dates that you've
03:07:29.440
gone out on or tried to go out on or five girls that you have approached they dm'd me yeah you
03:07:34.820
didn't approach any of them though in person anything the huh you don't approach girls in person
03:07:40.120
i used to he doesn't need to anymore that's what he's saying he's like i don't need to
03:07:46.080
the podcast no i mean okay so for example if i if i met a girl on a dating app what would i
03:07:51.040
like what would i get the bar at the barley no i want to know the last time just to just
03:07:56.220
approach a girl the last time you approached a girl what have you said and how have you said it
03:08:00.220
i don't want to i don't want to know how well i used to so i mean i used to do like uh when i was
03:08:04.560
younger before dating apps i would approach girls but like after dating apps i was uh
03:08:09.600
yeah so you were like how would i do it i mean it's been a minute since i've like approached a
03:08:14.700
girl in person but i used to do it okay so now it's been girls dming you because of the podcast
03:08:18.980
before this era dating apps dating apps prior to that do you how old were you roughly what do you
03:08:25.140
mean prior to the dating apps when you approached prior to the dating apps i think dating apps i was
03:08:30.780
probably uh i think i was 23 when like tinder came around yeah so
03:08:38.920
yeah like i was 18 to 23 i was like properly approaching like i'd approach a girl at a
03:08:46.980
i don't know at school or something that's great so tell us what you'd say what i'd say
03:08:52.440
yeah let's say you're out of the bar you're out of the bar a few drinks honestly i'm super direct
03:08:56.820
so i'd just be like hey what's up thought you were cute are you single okay have you ever said
03:09:01.620
how to like a a punny like pickup line in person that you can remember oh i've said some dumb shit
03:09:06.540
yeah can you tell us i've said some dumb shit i mean i did a video on this when i was doing like
03:09:10.360
the prank stuff but like um no but real realistic not for a video i mean this is a good one like i'd
03:09:16.780
you know you could go up to a girl and um you just go up and you say i would love to smear green
03:09:23.240
paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado oh my god that's a great one don't say
03:09:29.480
that don't say that um i feel like i did a video on this maybe we could watch the video you know
03:09:35.860
what thank you for bringing that up eric can you go into the dropbox folder go into the video
03:09:39.360
the uh podcast folder go into the video folder and then there's a video of me with it's called
03:09:45.440
bad lines bad lines let me know when you get that but um yeah as far as just like what my normal
03:09:51.760
go to i'd just be like go up to girl hey think you're cute are you single because i like a girl
03:09:57.120
might engage in conversation with you and actually have a boyfriend like if you approach her like you
03:10:02.540
know some sometimes they're quick with it but sometimes uh if you're trying to like talk to
03:10:06.960
a girl kind of indirectly oh do you know how to get to the library and they'll talk to you and then you
03:10:12.600
can like i think that's kind of i just rather i just rather get the rejection really quick oh you
03:10:17.880
have a boyfriend okay nice to meet you didn't know have a good day so when these girls have
03:10:23.440
messaged you recently are you the the like are you moving the needle forward like are you the
03:10:28.660
aggressor that's like let's go get food or like i also feel like chill or do you even have to put in
03:10:33.840
a lot of effort nowadays because i feel like you know you're more well known or because of this
03:10:38.040
podcast so you kind of consider high value man tell us how the conversation i don't know if i'm high
03:10:42.600
value but you wouldn't identify as high value just tell us i think in some dimensions i am
03:10:48.320
in other dimensions i'm lacking i don't think i'm i think i don't think i'm like the uh total package
03:10:54.920
no but overall i feel it's just like an overall feeling it doesn't have to be you have to be superior
03:11:00.700
in every single level yeah like i would call you a high value man or high thank you very much
03:11:05.960
appreciate it why do you say that the blush i'm just being honest okay i don't want to speak the
03:11:15.480
truth like it's just you have a successful podcast you know you're an independent man who lives on his
03:11:23.620
own your parents yeah you could take a girl out for dinner um you could potentially settle down and
03:11:30.960
have a kid and stuff like that yeah like all the aspects are there you're funny you're hilarious you
03:11:35.440
have a personality you know you're going to talk to one i have i have my moments i have my moments
03:11:39.500
but thank you thank you very much for the endorsement that's very nice of you that was a cute moment i
03:11:43.300
hope so next clip out that that was the cutest moment of my life good times but but do you have to still
03:11:52.400
put an effort like when it comes to like you know hooking up with girls and stuff like that or is it
03:11:57.120
effortless now what do you mean put in effort so i feel like um like you know how does the conversation
03:12:02.700
go this is my question yeah how does it no i'm getting grilled right now yeah do the last the
03:12:08.120
recent girls that have messaged you how does the conversation go they say hey are you they like
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hey let's hang out let's go to dinner or are you like hey oh hey you're cute i i'd rather not get
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into uh like i'd rather not get into any specifics about uh about that but but um unfortunately but uh
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i'm just eager to know i'm intrigued but i mean i would say uh that started in in like january
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when people like girls started messaging me okay because that's when we started having like clips
03:12:40.100
from the podcast go viral but even though i've been doing youtube for 10 years like even even though i
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had like a kind of popular channel before the podcast girls really weren't dming me because most
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my audience was men and it still is but i would say that uh i'm like subscribe to my oaf i would say
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that uh link in bio i mean i even though i did youtube and i was kind of i was a content creator
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i would say my dating experience up until very recently has been like pretty like pretty normal
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like the normal average guy's experience because i think a lot of women honestly don't give a fuck about
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that i have a youtube channel and you you could actually argue i mean you're saying well you have
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a successful podcast i think a lot of women view this podcast as a little controversial
03:13:28.040
and a lot of i think a lot of women are like bro every he's just another dude with a podcast like
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it's almost a meme like oh it's like a white dude with a podcast you know so like there's definitely
03:13:38.180
there's definitely haters too but i think you putting yourself out there because you just
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like being in your presence you definitely come across as a very like confident well-rounded
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like great morals like a guy who would be very good to a female and like you have confidence too
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so putting yourself out there and displaying more of that is definitely gonna real women and more
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to basically am i confident yeah you are for sure the fact that you have the podcast means
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you're confident because you're putting yourself on camera like all the time i mean you're trying
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to get into some like controversial stuff and ruffle feathers but in your no i think you're a little
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shy and stuff like that right so like i'm introverted you are i'm introverted introverted
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doesn't necessarily means you're shy or not that's actually nothing to do with it introverted means
03:14:23.520
you lose energy when you hang out with a lot of people and stuff like that i think you're a little
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shy and stuff like that at the beginning and then like you know we kind of have to like talk to you
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and stuff like that to open you up and shit but i feel like fuck that just go for it
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yeah you just you just gotta do it isn't there there's some uh quote something like
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i'm not saying this to be cocky but i feel like people who are uh
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oh fuck i it's something like people who are like dumb have the are are uh or people who are ignorant
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have the blessing of being sure of themselves but people who are intelligent are mired in self-doubt
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constantly questioning themselves there's like a quote can anybody in the chat help me find it but
03:15:11.180
but yeah i mean i i uh and i i consider myself a bit more of a creative so i think creatives tend to
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have uh are a bit more fuck there's a there's a word for it what victoria said imposter syndrome
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yeah no it's not imposter syndrome it's like in order to be a creative individual you have to be
03:15:27.580
sensitive um and not sensitive in the way of like you get offended really easily by things but you're
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more you're more sensitive to things you're more perceptive i guess how people interpret yeah what
03:15:39.540
you're so um what's good what's bad what's going to be popular what your audience want kind of yeah
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so but uh thank you very much for the endorsements i'm i very much appreciate it i'm going to put that on
03:15:49.540
my my resume but did you have another question for what was it the uh
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you had a question about how i oh we were going to watch the video yeah you didn't yeah the video
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we'll pull up the video yeah you wouldn't answer a fool thinks he knows it all a smart man knows he
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has much to learn i think that's kind of it um let's see what else do we have the problem with the
03:16:11.880
world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts while the stupid ones are full of confidence
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um yeah so good times wait will you repeat that where did we go what say one more time i was
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focused plus i i don't know if i'm that like anyways i don't know what i'm saying okay okay let's watch
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the video let's do it okay these are some these are some banger pickup lines go for it i think you
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dropped something oh your standards hi i'm brian oh my god my uh sister's in town tonight um would you
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like to have a threesome no no that was a bad one is it because of the whole incest thing do you like
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daggers like knives have you ever been with a premature ejaculator
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i'm brian i'm bruh do you think that'd be a problem between us no hey are you guys feminists
03:17:08.560
sure i would like to uh smear green paint all over you and spank you like a disobedient avocado
03:17:19.920
which of you two has uh low standards that could be so problematic
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does the carpet match the curtains yeah that's me
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okay that's that's it that's great i didn't realize it was you i was like oh yeah that was me
03:17:45.760
like a couple years ago okay like a long time ago cky shirt sends the facial hair um i feel like
03:17:55.320
when it comes to dating like pickup lines never work like pickup lines are cringe and stuff you
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should just go to a girl approach up being like hey my name is brian nice to meet you do you mind
03:18:04.320
if i buy you a cup of coffee or yes drink good no but if they're cute if you think they're attractive
03:18:09.960
yeah like the pickup line could pick up line could yeah that means they're funny you know well i think
03:18:15.760
it's just better i think some guys what they'll do is they'll approach a girl with like a sub optimal
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they'll either intentionally i'm trying to articulate this properly they will intentionally
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do something a little off to like preempt the rejection so if they do get rejected it's because
03:18:35.320
oh i did this kind of silly thing and it's not because they actually get rejected for them so i
03:18:41.900
think some guys when they do something a little off it's like almost a protection mechanism to protect
03:18:47.060
them because it's like they can just blame like their kind of strange behavior instead of like
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actually truly getting rejected for who they are in that moment do you think somebody's actually
03:18:58.080
paying attention i don't know where these feathers are coming from do you think in that moment
03:19:01.120
they're actually paying what's that oh shit what the fuck bro you are raining feathers from your top
03:19:09.260
like you could be like saying the most ridiculous pickup line but in that moment when that's happening
03:19:13.940
do you really think the person's paying attention to the pickup line or are they looking you up and
03:19:18.420
down and deciding whether or not they want to carry on with the conversation both i think it's like
03:19:22.860
i don't think i would be paying honestly i would it would just be like womp womp womp and i'd be like
03:19:27.120
yes because i feel like so you have adhd too literally with sonar i'd be like thinking about
03:19:33.060
like what what is this guy asking do i just like laugh and then we just like move on to the next
03:19:37.720
thing you know i feel like when some if somebody approaches you like this like just straight away
03:19:43.380
right without you kind of seeing them approach but if they do it right away you kind of like so
03:19:47.880
shocked that you're focusing so much on their question or whatever i don't think i would be paying
03:19:52.400
attention i know that when they're approaching me that there's something something's happening like
03:19:56.360
he's asking me because he's interested in having a conversation and you look and they're like
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yo what's up girl i don't think the content of the plug of line matters i just think it's not what you
03:20:06.060
say it's how you say it plus there's a lot in it plus i i think you know what i think it is i think
03:20:12.020
step one be attractive step two don't be unattractive so like a guy and this is also kind of kind of relates
03:20:20.000
to uh women's assessment of men's creepiness like if the guy is a like creepy behavior it's it's kind
03:20:29.300
of a very thin line like creepy behavior from one guy would be like flirting from another guy but if
03:20:35.960
you find him attractive yes but also it depends to like how you're standing like your body energy like
03:20:42.140
there's so much that is happening in that specific moment when you are like doing your first like
03:20:47.160
encounter with somebody 100 yeah but yeah i agree like if if a creep if like sometimes not the best
03:20:54.260
looking guy approached you and said yo that's a very nice dress or whatever you could be like oh
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okay he's looking at my body and stuff like that but i feel like if a really attractive guy said that
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a lot of girls would be like oh my god thank you like you know and they would take that as a compliment
03:21:07.320
and stuff for sure yeah yeah 100 i think appearance is very important everybody needs to work on their
03:21:14.260
appearance for me like if someone compliments me i maybe it's just me like i like continuing
03:21:20.640
conversation whether you are good looking or not that's just me like i like being a good person like
03:21:26.220
why not chat right and then many times they're like oh thank you so much for this conversation like
03:21:32.180
they were having a fight at home or something i'm like no problem yeah but if they're
03:21:35.660
kind of they're giving you a compliment like you gotta i know i know you would i think you would
03:21:40.260
know you would you would know you would you would know when the vibe is off for sure so that's why
03:21:47.840
we're saying energy is like you can you know if you just know right yeah yeah word word okay we have
03:21:56.820
some chats we have to read here so we have uh curtis thank you man uh if you hire an api developer
03:22:04.320
they can make an api that can integrate all your app accounts brian i have a back and neck injury from
03:22:08.740
afghanistan uh so i know how you feel hey sorry to hear that uh curtis ask your doctor about
03:22:14.140
meloxicam and a chiropractor it worked wonders for me um honestly i'm kind of i i'm kind of a little
03:22:20.820
sketched out but from chiropractors because i've heard stories of like chiropractors like great uh will
03:22:26.640
like paralyze people and shit because with neck adjustments so i'm very hesitant to uh see a
03:22:32.220
chiropractor i've not heard of melexo what's wrong with your neck oh i've got some i've got like a
03:22:37.980
neck injury and a back injury so i've got i literally just finished a month of chiropractor
03:22:42.060
and i don't recommend it yikes working with a personal trainer helped me more than the chiropractor
03:22:46.780
and the first time i went and saw a chiropractor i literally like had a panic attack and like cried
03:22:51.160
because i was like i feel like i'm gonna die yeah majority of them don't even like scan you or
03:22:56.100
whatever they just do it and you can like do like i don't know in california you can like go and see
03:23:00.660
like a chiropractor for 10 bucks and i'm like yeah honestly i think i need one i got into such
03:23:07.160
a bad isn't chiropractor like uh isn't it a pseudo science like i feel like it's quackery
03:23:13.440
i think it's quackery like you don't have to go and do something else is your dad a chiropractor
03:23:17.840
no okay just i hope i'm not insulting anybody's like family yeah you don't have to like go to
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medical school or anything i think it's just a certificate and stuff like that but if you
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actually like look up stories there are people who have had chiropractic adjustments to their
03:23:31.540
neck because you know they do like the neck cracking there have been people who have been
03:23:35.240
paralyzed from the neck down from chiropractors so um it look i know it works for some people
03:23:41.560
and perhaps part of that's placebo maybe they're they are doing something i don't know but for me
03:23:46.360
i'm just like bruv just gonna leave it there just leave yeah just leave it there you can get it at
03:23:50.740
the end of the show but uh i know chiropractors some people swear by them it works for them but i just
03:23:55.360
for me i i agree physical therapy is better in my opinion um but api developer they can api
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integrate all your app accounts okay well thank you man uh you got from afghanistan were you uh
03:24:11.220
curtis confirm or deny were you a what's it called when you uh airborne when you jump out of the plane
03:24:18.840
parachute what's it called if you're in the military and you navy navy seal when you're
03:24:24.740
is it when you jump out of the plane what's that called airborne what's that chat hello
03:24:31.380
paratrooper paratrooper is that what it is paratrooper i think it's paratrooper
03:24:35.520
i'm talking about like something in the military jumping out of oh wait chumley octonated 100
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wait did we it's very simple oh this one already triggered this one already came in right a woman
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did that one already come in i think so i think so okay uh we have paratrooper okay we have adam
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we have adam barnett thank you for the uh it's about to pop up here thank you for the uh
03:24:59.280
69 donation man i appreciate it awesome podcast wait is it gonna trigger hello still waiting hold on
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guys sorry it's gonna take a sec um while we do that i'm just gonna pull up one other thing here
03:25:12.180
oh there you go awesome podcast hey adam barnett thank you very much man appreciate it uh
03:25:18.400
and then we had that one from bender okay and then we have a couple here from youtube we have hold on
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one sec we have this one from tj king ladies what would you do if of disappeared and you could no
03:25:31.560
longer make money off of it and it never returned oh i can go really quick you just adapt and move on
03:25:38.480
you just you know continue focusing on streaming and youtube and um other ways to monetize you just
03:25:44.180
have to adapt okay i don't rely on only fans yeah i don't have one julia what would you exactly what
03:25:53.200
she said uh pull the mic a little closer to you exactly what she said yeah only fans is not my main
03:25:59.900
income so i'll be fine okay twitch boom twitch there you go hey tj thank you for the uh super chat man
03:26:07.740
i appreciate it prometheus venom hey thank you man there's different versions of confidence
03:26:12.860
rational and rational i tried to go for the rational aspect that came in a minute ago um but prometheus
03:26:19.240
thank you man is the irrational confidence like the alpha male kind of like aggressive like macho man
03:26:26.660
confidence is that what it is the irrational one oh i think this was related to when we were talking
03:26:33.420
about rating ourselves on the scale of one to ten and we were talking about being confident in
03:26:37.240
yourself and your physical appearance so there's rational and irrational and he goes for the rational
03:26:42.880
aspect of confidence because you could argue well when it comes to rating yourself you could say well if
03:26:48.180
you rate yourself a 10 that means you're confident but you could also argue well if you have you have a
03:26:53.000
accurate self-assessment of yourself and you say i'm confident being a six that's also confidence so
03:26:59.600
we have prometheus venom here i disagree i'm 5'10 i don't see that as negative i accept
03:27:05.300
my height well 5'10 is the average male height so something wrong but uh 15 is good you're doing
03:27:12.020
good but there are definitely like people out there that say hey i only want to date a guy who's six
03:27:16.120
feet plus yeah but that's just ridiculous yeah that is ridiculous they were an amazing human being
03:27:21.380
oh yeah really connected with them that's unrealistic standards yeah if the majority of the guy's gonna be
03:27:25.760
five eight whatever at the end of the day you give some you take some whatever like exactly what fits
03:27:31.140
with your life and what you know you vibe with lots of my friends they say that but then the one they
03:27:36.580
end up basically marrying and are not six feet literally always say i agree yes yes all right we have
03:27:44.520
john crotteau merci beaucoup for the 50. uh if you don't sound like you want to enjoy yourself
03:27:51.240
in relationship you want to attract anyone she sounds like she's just interviewing men for a
03:27:56.180
husband we want to be married but also have fun facts oh he's talking about the video i think
03:28:01.820
100 it's not a job oh yeah the dating video yeah that's why i was saying it's not how you say what
03:28:09.000
you say it's how you say it because a lot of females especially moms which like rightfully so
03:28:13.760
single mothers like they really have to take on like both mom and dad energy but you have to
03:28:18.700
understand as even a business owner i know when to tap into my masculine energy but like at home
03:28:24.420
especially with your man like there's a way to say things like being feminine and understanding the
03:28:30.300
difference of the two dynamics is very important
03:28:33.020
word all right we have uh sticks and bones here hey thank you man for the big
03:28:40.480
hundred dollar soup chat man thank you brian when are you going to bring destiny back that would be fun
03:28:46.140
uh it was really interesting seeing him stand toe-to-to-toe with the red pill agenda from
03:28:49.980
most of your normal guests also a question for the ladies what's one thing you would want to change
03:28:53.840
about yourself and why yeah we can go around the table on this let's start with you um i would
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probably be able to see without my glasses i want to you know what's your correction level
03:29:05.740
okay it's a negative four okay out of 20 20 who anyone here wearing contacts right now yeah
03:29:12.900
yeah contacts you too good vision yeah okay lucky all right good vision too okay all right yeah i'm
03:29:22.100
negative 6.5 oh my gosh yeah it's bad i'm pretty close to being blind no i think i think you're still
03:29:29.240
wearing contacts yeah i'm wearing doesn't it make it worse that's crazy what do you mean like uh because
03:29:33.520
there's no air going into your eye and stuff like that it actually makes your eyes worse so you're
03:29:38.420
so it's going to get worse worse and worse well normally i just wear glasses if i'm not wearing
03:29:43.060
like i'll wear contacts for the show but normally i wear glasses like the vast majority you can't get
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lasik uh i'm kind of hesitant to get it you say the best place to get lasik is san diego
03:29:54.420
oh good to know i i'd like to do it in the future because glasses and contacts are kind of annoying
03:30:00.200
but okay that so you change your terrible vision yeah i'm not sure if that's really what he was
03:30:05.160
getting out of the question but fair enough like personality wise yeah like what do you well he
03:30:11.020
didn't clarify but so however you want to interpret the question so we'll say with your eyes what about
03:30:16.340
you um down with social anxiety so okay you have social anxiety you'd like to but i do like things
03:30:24.520
to like purposely like i like to like my like motto in life is do something that scares you like
03:30:30.220
every day just so like you can grow yeah you know it's a good one but before we finish up with this
03:30:36.700
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03:31:36.020
to uh this one thing you'd want to change about yourself and why um i think i'd get boobs
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get boobs like get fake boobs actually really quick on that just show of hands does does anyone here
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okay anyone here have any plastic surgery i have a nose job nose job anybody i want to get a chin thing
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that's all that's it so nose job and then boobs anything else i mean like botox and lip filler
03:32:12.680
but you would get a boob job i totally yeah why it's just for bigger boobs or smaller no yeah like
03:32:18.140
kind of smaller or the same size but just like up oh like a lift anything yeah and then like
03:32:23.880
just look like perfect like pretty okay yeah boob jobs are fun yeah okay i want to i i do i'm gonna
03:32:33.260
we're gonna finish up the soup chat but i do actually want to talk a little bit about plastic
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uh surgery really quick um so you would get your boobs done you got you got some boobs
03:32:47.420
you don't need a boob job what are you talking about before i got mine i had like double a
03:32:54.660
so okay yeah no i don't get hold on you would get uh you'd get i don't want anything massive
03:33:01.360
reduction you'd get implants implants i get implants yeah a reduction no i want to get a reduction
03:33:07.740
back problems maybe i don't know yeah that's if you have like back problems really big boobs yeah
03:33:13.340
yeah yeah no that's if you're i'm not uh i gotta be honest i'm not a i'm not a fan of uh
03:33:20.060
a fake of what of plastic surgery why i'm not a fan why some girls plastic surgery is not i'm not a
03:33:27.580
fan either too much it doesn't look good but yeah it's never the answer you have to get a good one
03:33:32.620
like some of them can be good yeah i feel like it's my plastic and is it plastic surgery like what'd
03:33:39.180
you say like an implant yeah like that's i yeah i'm not huge like i don't like plastic surgery i
03:33:45.200
like agree with brian but totally would get my boobs done like but like
03:33:52.940
it's good like means like like i wouldn't like amplifying your own like personal beauty and like
03:33:58.920
the way you want it to be amplified in but like when you literally just change your
03:34:02.560
if i could snap my fingers i would do it i don't think i would ever go under the knife
03:34:06.160
do you think like all with all the plastic surgery like should i say like the expectations
03:34:12.460
of being a certain way like has increased i feel like you shouldn't do certain plastic surgery until
03:34:18.200
you're older i agree yeah i agree because i waited so long to get my nose done like you have to know
03:34:24.160
that you actually want it and for the right reasons and not because you know you want to look like
03:34:29.000
kardashians or whatever like you need to do it because it's going to increase your confidence
03:34:33.340
going to make you feel good and then do it and then then it's not worth it and i think like
03:34:37.760
as you get older you feel more and more confident when it comes to making that decision
03:34:42.700
i agree yeah like beauty standards definitely rose up i think because of all the surgery
03:34:51.040
uh i would probably argue it's more due to social media but
03:34:56.440
yeah yeah yeah it's not surgery itself it's social media social media yeah yeah yeah not a fan
03:35:02.660
of the plastic surgery it's not something i need it's something that i'm like someone is natural
03:35:07.940
if i had to do anything to myself like but not saying i will i mean i i've said this before my
03:35:15.580
stance on it is so take even a girl who you you said you had what a what double a is that what is
03:35:25.120
that is that just very small it's like negative basically flat yeah okay i would prefer a girl
03:35:31.900
flat like that versus her with fake tits really okay so i would prefer you as you were
03:35:41.840
i'm an ass man i'm an ass man what if she has no ass let's be yeah then what there's more important
03:35:59.060
things than yeah but what if she's the perfect girl and then you could also pick with yeah there's more
03:36:03.900
important things like i said would you would you support a bbl because bbl is technically not
03:36:07.700
plastic no bbl is absolutely it's using your own fat oh yeah but that's so considered a plastic
03:36:12.620
cosmetic surgery it's within the realm of yeah plastic surgery it's not body modification it's not
03:36:17.220
an implant although some women do get butt implants yeah so whether it's a bbl or it's a
03:36:23.060
butt implant i think it looks it's terrible okay it looks so bad i would prefer i would prefer
03:36:30.040
to double down on it i'd prefer a girl who's got a flat butt than a bbl or uh what if like flat
03:36:37.040
everywhere i mean i'll you're dating a chopstick for example no but in this sense it just means that
03:36:44.400
like appearance doesn't matter you know i mean according to you no well yeah don't get me wrong
03:36:48.600
like no he he wants a woman to be attractive and so i meant like early as attractive
03:36:54.040
no but there's there's never there's never an instance for example where if i met a girl
03:36:59.980
whatever her origin point was whatever her starting point was that i would prefer her i don't care how
03:37:06.780
flat her boobs are i don't care how small her butt is that i would prefer her with a cosmetic enhancement
03:37:12.680
of fake tits or a bbl or lip injections or um i don't know what what other things women do oh here's
03:37:22.580
another one liposuction i would prefer i would actually prefer a girl with a little bit of belly
03:37:26.480
fat than having that that lipo belly i've seen it it doesn't it looks weird so no offense to anybody
03:37:32.180
okay so my question to you is what if you're dating this girl and she's like babe i are married i just
03:37:40.060
really want to get my boobs done i like when i'm so bad like why we're already in what what do you
03:37:45.660
mean but what she's already got me like it's for me she's already got me oh she wants to get it done
03:37:51.200
for herself yeah i would i would lead her to not getting i would i would say look you don't i would
03:38:02.040
i would try to coach her to just be comfortable with how her appearance well what if at the end of
03:38:08.200
the day she still is like this is gonna make you reassure you would you like support her if she
03:38:12.240
wanted to yeah yeah ultimately it's her decision so what if you like her body let's say let's say
03:38:18.180
you're just i can't imagine i i feel like the women i date are tend to not be particularly vain so
03:38:23.480
why would she yeah hypothetically what if she are you calling me vain brian
03:38:28.500
well i mean there is having tits well there is there is a degree of
03:38:36.660
there's degrees to vanity but i mean i i think if you're so if you are compelled to get plastic
03:38:45.400
surgery you're doing it for aesthetic and cosmetic reasons i mean there there is a component of vanity
03:38:50.760
to it but it's like dying your hair is the same thing what's that dying your hair is the same thing
03:38:55.040
somebody like literally said piercings and stuff like that so is that a no-no for you what do you
03:39:01.480
mean what's because so like a woman changing her hair color or um you know wearing extensions or
03:39:09.880
having an ear piercing and stuff like that because she's doing it for the aesthetics like it's technically
03:39:15.680
vanity so how would you feel about that okay well we can talk for example we can start with makeup i
03:39:21.900
actually prefer women to wear little makeup or no makeup even for sure and in the same like just
03:39:27.120
with the same with my other answers give me a woman who's got a full face of makeup versus no makeup
03:39:32.420
even if you could argue that she's more physically attractive wearing the makeup i would prefer the
03:39:39.700
truth i would prefer reality and i guess you think girls who wear makeup are lying i think to some degree
03:39:45.240
yes it is a lie it's probably the most accepted lie look but and i'm not saying this i mean you have
03:39:51.500
to have the features there in order to enhance them i feel like what about wearing heels because
03:39:56.220
you're lying about your height okay we're just going down a rabbit hole well okay so like
03:40:02.380
i mean there's there's there's levels to this shit like a girl who wears a little bit of eyeliner
03:40:09.920
or yeah you know uh but if you're like wearing lipstick that's another layer if you're wearing
03:40:17.640
uh if you're like contouring your nose if you're painting your entire face uh then you know then
03:40:23.700
like i i'll tell a girl like i you don't have to wear makeup for me like you don't have to wear
03:40:27.840
makeup around me like i actually prefer a girl not to wear makeup because bro i got black pillows like
03:40:32.180
you're gonna get your shit all over my shit like hello oh my god bro i don't want your makeup
03:40:37.060
also i don't want any makeup that could rub off onto my skin no thank you why do you have black
03:40:43.860
pillows yeah yeah that's kind of vibey he's a guy is it because it's like black silk pillows it's the
03:40:50.460
pillow case but why is it black color what about the well i got white too that shit's gonna get on
03:40:55.200
the white pillows too sometimes the duvet yeah what color is your duvet so okay i've got i've got a
03:41:00.680
white sheet set and then the black sheet set i interchange i you know i do my sheets like once or twice
03:41:05.240
whatever mood you're in it shows on your bed yeah the black slime is a bad day
03:41:10.400
okay well i don't know why we're talking about duvetes but um wait i have a question do you think
03:41:16.100
if there was a male penis enlargement plastic surgery would guys get that there is wait there
03:41:23.160
is yes yeah what the hell since when i don't think men should like undergo dangerous and
03:41:29.120
unnecessary unnecessary surgeries just the way i think women shouldn't undergo dangerous and
03:41:34.280
unnecessary surgeries like bbl like i think well i think all any surgery that requires you to go
03:41:41.540
under anesthesia is by definition risky yes has high risk plus i mean uh breast implants there are
03:41:50.680
some risks i you know you got one the anesthesia there's a risk there's and then there you have to
03:41:55.980
every what 10 years do you have to get the implants changed or something so you have to redo the
03:42:02.220
surgery um there's there's maybe the in the past maybe they weren't as uh there's some risk of like
03:42:09.080
leaking or something like look at the statistics on that like now we're just sure it's low it's pretty
03:42:13.680
low yeah ridiculous do your research go with a good doctor if you go with some freaking idiot who's
03:42:18.260
charging you 700 like what do you think you're gonna get or just find a guy who's gonna like you
03:42:22.480
for you but what if it's not about the guy yeah maybe it's about you it's about confidence i got my
03:42:27.180
boobs on when i was 18. okay from my dad actually a gift from your dad yeah
03:42:32.840
no support him no crumbs yeah graduation gift if my daughter wants fake tits one i'm gonna
03:42:40.680
try to convince her not to but there's no way i'm paying for it
03:42:45.220
i think that's fair i didn't even ask for it it was a gift he gifted it to you yeah my older sister
03:42:49.820
got hers done and so she's like dad please and i did bikini bodybuilding at the time i was competing
03:42:55.100
so i didn't really care at all because i'm a gym girl like i'm in the gym working out yeah those
03:42:59.600
things like maybe they're getting in the way whatever um still got them so glad i did i feel so
03:43:04.720
much more feminine and so your dad like felt guilty about bestowing upon you he's like our jeans
03:43:10.440
he was like i'm sorry here let me pay let me let me pay for it or feel happy about yourself so yeah
03:43:17.020
no i mean this shows that he supports you no matter what yeah yeah i think it's he wants his
03:43:23.320
girls to feel confident and good with themselves and da da da you know his delivery on things sometimes
03:43:29.120
wasn't always the best especially when i was had weight gain but you know he's he's just he loves us
03:43:34.480
and supportive and wants us to feel good yeah and it's it's not like i have like ill like ill will
03:43:39.280
towards women who have plastic surgery just as a matter of preference yeah preference for me like
03:43:43.760
it i'd prefer a woman who who doesn't and i get in trouble i feel like with everybody when i when i
03:43:51.840
say that but that's okay it seems it's almost like kind of a pro woman's it's weird because on one hand
03:43:59.780
it's all it's sort of pro woman to say you don't need to wear makeup you don't need fake you don't need
03:44:06.660
to spend all this money on plastic surgery you don't need that's like you telling us what but
03:44:11.480
it's like also the patriarchy but i think it's more about like a female being able to have her
03:44:16.160
own decision and feel confident with it whether it's to have the boobs to not have the boobs like
03:44:20.220
exactly girl you do you yeah i kind of like though i kind of like i think it's attractive
03:44:25.440
like your stance because um i want a man who's gonna like me for me no matter what right you know
03:44:32.760
but like our jobs require us to like look good so i wouldn't just do it for my job i would do it
03:44:38.160
because like it's something that i really feel like makes me look prettier but at the end of the
03:44:43.460
day i would want my man to be like you know you don't need all that right yeah of course yeah that's
03:44:49.060
so like i find that attractive that's a green flag that's a green flag yeah
03:44:53.140
but uh yeah i don't know i'm not a big fan of plastic surgery that's okay that's yeah that's
03:45:03.200
understandable yeah that's understandable it's good that you have your i know right like you have
03:45:08.120
what you think it's right for you that's good you found that that's that's nice word
03:45:13.640
but it's like here i'm trying to the way i view plastic surgery like would what would you guys think
03:45:22.040
about a guy who got like calf implants i've seen that that's so random that is random like ab implants
03:45:31.500
if they're looking sketch well okay well there's a lot of things about that because one i think
03:45:35.420
again you didn't earn it exactly like that that um it's very attractive um a man's work ethic and
03:45:46.800
their daily routine for me because knowing someone is going to the gym daily great we're gonna fit in
03:45:52.620
each other's lives perfectly however if you're here just you know buying your abs okay well sounds
03:45:57.760
like you may have money to buy those abs but also are you do you though because what's your work ethic
03:46:03.660
like so there's a few ways to look at it if we look really deep into it but if we're just looking at
03:46:08.900
surface level do they look good okay then i don't really care and i mean the the other thing i would
03:46:14.320
point out is like if you if you do get plastic surgery is that an indicator of potential like
03:46:22.580
so i mean to some degree you have body dysphoria i don't think that's necessarily true dysmorphia
03:46:29.220
yes and no i think because you're you you are so uncomfortable with however your whether it's your
03:46:37.740
butt or your stomach or your lips or your your breasts that you are spending or in i mean i suppose
03:46:45.700
some people get gifted this you're spending thousands of dollars you're undergoing a dangerous
03:46:51.160
potentially dangerous surgery you're getting cut up there there there is no medical indication for
03:46:59.100
any cosmetic surgery well hold on excuse me that's job breast reduction again at the end of the day it's
03:47:06.280
like enhancing yourself though right can i just want to clear there there are some medical
03:47:11.260
indications for cosmetic surgery or plastic surgery i mean generally speaking though i'd say most
03:47:18.860
plastic surgery is done for 99 of them is for purely cosmetic reasons there are some women for example who
03:47:27.420
have breast cancer and have a breast removed who you know to they'll get a breast job to like even it
03:47:34.220
out you know and i think that's that's reasonable but i mean most women who are undergoing uh breast
03:47:39.620
getting breast implants are not doing it because they've had breast cancer you know it's like i want
03:47:46.160
big tits for sure so there's that i think at the end of the day it's like hey you want to you're okay
03:47:53.580
with your body but if you want to enhance it to increase your confidence do it if you have the money for
03:47:58.020
but i think every human to a certain degree has some sort of body dysmorphia too it's a it's i think
03:48:04.400
it's a spectrum for sure but i think it can be a proxy for like okay what else what else is here i don't
03:48:13.080
know i see like the fake lips i obviously there's scales to it right like like i wouldn't put
03:48:18.680
like i think bbl is a more of a let's say red flag than like a girl who's had a nose job
03:48:26.560
there's a scale to it like and then if you've had multiple surgeries and you have a bbl you have lipo
03:48:33.800
you have uh they did the hip thing or i don't know what the fuck i think it's ridiculous you have fake
03:48:38.400
tits yeah what else is there but also it's like okay let's take a girl who just has nothing literally
03:48:43.000
done to them at all okay great well there is still probably something else there that's like well what
03:48:47.460
else is there that you could find do you get what i mean mental illness yeah well you're like yeah
03:48:52.000
sure yeah you could you could have no plastic surgery like maybe her house is literally repulsive
03:48:55.800
and she doesn't know how to clean 100% her hygiene well what else is there like there's so many
03:48:59.540
different ways 100% but it's just plastic surgery is so like easy to see that people just like it's
03:49:06.080
such a controversy you know yeah so teach their own i guess yeah it's about preference okay we have
03:49:12.400
wait we were something about plastic surgery oh we were going around the table on the
03:49:16.900
it was this one uh what's one thing you'd want to change about yourself so you answered you want
03:49:23.180
boobs did you answer this one no um i would say i would be a little more logical i just have such a
03:49:34.660
yeah i have such a big heart that sometimes it can it can be taken advantage of or i can just be
03:49:40.800
a softy for times that what was that did you hurt or are you stifled uh hiccup okay i thought you're
03:49:49.360
laughing no it was a hiccup it was a hiccup i feel like that's more of a naivete though you're just
03:49:53.640
naive and you like trust people easily um yes and no i think it's more of like uh i have i've been
03:50:01.200
through a lot and so i i have a very like i'm very intuitive um i see the best in people and i think
03:50:09.140
um i have a very big heart and so i'm i try to understand people so i guess you could look at
03:50:14.320
it as naive i guess a little bit um but even with people who have track records that are proven to be
03:50:20.540
you know i can trust them or whatever sometimes it's like i don't necessarily always assert the
03:50:26.280
best boundaries for myself because i just have such a big heart if that makes sense so i think
03:50:30.500
that would probably resonate so you would change you would just want to be a cold too big of a heart
03:50:36.900
to where you kind of like forgive you forgive too much i guess or like you know i mean you see the
03:50:43.000
best people no matter but it's like what about you where are your boundaries and that's what i'm
03:50:46.900
learning i have a life coach she's helping me wow deep um what about you i don't know it's a bad
03:50:53.440
thing but like one thing you'd want to change about yourself i don't know i hear this sometimes
03:50:57.340
i i could possibly care too much to where it might turn as like annoying i don't know like
03:51:04.640
you care too much i don't know like to where it kind of distracts me um because i usually when i wake
03:51:11.180
up i go straight to work right and the first thing when i go home is because i cook because i cook um
03:51:17.760
i usually cook for my siblings when i go home i cook lunch that's like the first thing on my mind
03:51:22.120
like hurry up and cook lunch for my brothers and my sister you know i mean i never have downtime
03:51:26.020
for myself to where i just care too much and then right after that do emails whatnot whatnot right
03:51:32.020
and go grocery shopping then go back home same thing cook dinner like i help my mom and things
03:51:36.740
just like to where i feel like i never put myself door dashing you could get like someone to deliver
03:51:43.840
some food you guys i don't i don't we don't really order food really yeah like everything i make at home
03:51:51.080
like we cook everything oh yeah it's healthier because i feel like i had such a similar issue
03:51:55.900
to you because so i was still living at home until two years ago and my life was like centered around
03:52:01.400
sorry hold on just a second donated 99 dollars i have a defamation in my chest called bector's
03:52:08.020
excavatum which is basically a concave chest i have never felt the need to have surgery for it even
03:52:14.060
though it would be beneficial doesn't elon musk has that i think he literally has that chest thing
03:52:20.220
he's he's like built like it he's built interestingly for sure yeah he's got like uh
03:52:29.060
i think elon musk has that he's peak human potential are you ready to see him fight
03:52:34.880
mark that's gonna be pretty that would be funny i think zuck i feel like it's got like a year head
03:52:40.360
start on him though so he's probably but i think elon is taller but well uh go ahead um
03:52:47.640
oh no i just i relate to you and i think a lot of it um comes like when you are like you hold
03:52:59.160
yourself to a standard that and you want to be successful or you want to build certain things
03:53:04.260
whether it's that your parents like you know in like instilled like success or whatever
03:53:09.240
i think a lot of times we do have to sit back and like take time to actually find ourselves and find
03:53:15.680
what makes us happy outside of like meeting other people's needs or you know becoming successful in
03:53:22.100
different areas and because so it's kind of just sounds to me like you need to like possibly take time
03:53:29.540
to kind of explore you a little bit more so you can do things that like fill you up and
03:53:34.320
you get me wait who are you talking to her yeah oh okay wait but okay so what you know maybe maybe
03:53:44.960
the term is like a people pleaser or like people pleaser but wait i'm just you you have you said
03:53:50.460
two brothers two brothers and one sister are they younger than you are you the oldest child
03:53:55.100
no one younger sister two older brothers two older brothers yeah wait so they call me like mommy
03:53:59.640
number two and and you so wait it's uh and you live with your mom and dad correct yes is it and the
03:54:05.340
the brothers and sisters also are in the household yeah we we're still all together um why is the
03:54:11.280
cooking falling on you maybe it's just like me like like liking to take the lead or like you mean
03:54:20.340
getting things done i like getting things done yeah so like maybe you like do you like to cook or
03:54:26.180
yeah i do like to cook it's definitely a hobby it's a passion of mine i cook and bake you said you're so
03:54:30.560
busy so like to go work and then yeah like it's kind of like non-stop non-stop to where yeah okay but i
03:54:37.680
like take pleasure when i feel like someone is i don't know make i don't know like every time i cook
03:54:44.680
and i give it to like my siblings and if they enjoy it yeah it gives me like a high i guess
03:54:49.920
satisfaction satisfaction okay so you would change about yourself that you would do less is what you're
03:54:56.040
saying i don't i think it's a boundary for you yeah maybe what i'm trying to say is i think it'd be
03:55:01.700
very good for you to take time more to yourself to really understand yourself on a different level
03:55:06.740
because there's needs for your own self that aren't being met because you're so busy fulfilling
03:55:10.680
needs for others is your like love language services because that's what it sounds like
03:55:14.680
based and gifting word what about you uh i'm a very impatient person so that's one of the things
03:55:21.880
i would change impatient do you have a temper are you quick to anger no never you said you're impatient
03:55:28.860
i am well i have to work on it yes okay yes definitely all right so you'd change you could be
03:55:36.820
more patient i think we could all everyone could use a little more patience you know it's good it's
03:55:40.620
good all right we have sticks and bones here thank you man brian when you say that you'd rather just
03:55:44.440
have a natural woman so piercings and tattoos are our deal break for you because piercing be looking
03:55:50.620
good just saying my guy from my viewpoint tbh whatever makes her feel good and i still feel attracted
03:55:57.260
to her um again it's uh it's kind of scale so like bbl is pretty up there versus like she's got
03:56:07.480
that ear piercing is like pretty low on my priority list of things i care about um but uh i mean if you
03:56:14.920
start let's talk about tattoos like i mean i'd say generally speaking i lean more towards preferring
03:56:21.840
women who don't have tattoos uh i'm not like totally opposed to tattoos that's not a deal breaker for
03:56:29.240
me but like would i being honest generally speaking i would say no tattoos or the less tattoos i find it
03:56:38.120
more attractive but for me tattoos aren't a deal breaker but like if a girl had like fucking gnarly face
03:56:44.640
tattoos like yeah that's a little bit for me that's a little bit unattractive uh piercings
03:56:52.780
ear piercings i'm not what about tongue piercings and stuff like that
03:57:00.580
well like piercing in the intimate parts i think that's a red flag a little bit not necessarily red
03:57:09.120
flag but like a tongue piercing or nipple piercings or like a clip piercing it's a little like
03:57:13.200
i'm not into them i don't like i don't like them i have friends who have their nipples pierced but i
03:57:18.640
personally am not i would i'll say this i would prefer a girl who doesn't have piercings i think
03:57:24.340
it looks trashy no offense to anyone who has it i just ear piercings i don't like i don't really care
03:57:28.660
but like nipple piercings i'm kind of like why yeah what's her body count i know that has nipple
03:57:37.240
piercings their nipples stay like permanently hard so it's like i'm like same i don't know if i'd want
03:57:43.520
that it's kind of like you can sort of make a judgment call based off of i don't know if i see
03:57:51.860
a guy like totally blasted in tattoos with like face tattoos i'm like my immediate thing is going to
03:57:58.560
be like soundcloud rapper or like criminal like criminal history like something like that so it's
03:58:03.800
like we all make judgment calls based off of people's physical appearance no but have you
03:58:07.780
ever just seen a girl who is just like everything is like she looks like such a like this is going
03:58:13.260
to sound very like stereotyping but just so like goody two-shoe girl and then the nipples are pierced
03:58:19.680
and you're just like what like when like threw me something or like the tongue is pierced and you're
03:58:24.540
just like what yeah there's like wild like when we're wine house yeah yeah quiet ones have to be
03:58:30.560
yeah so uh yeah and you're like what are you hiding no yeah but i mean again it's a scale like
03:58:37.140
a girl who's dyed her hair a little auburn brown or something is a little different than like
03:58:43.260
pink you know like a blue hair green yeah you know so um you know what's actually crazy i i i actually
03:58:51.640
used to like girls who had like color in their hair like red or blue yeah i used to like it before it
03:58:58.280
was kind of associated with like like fucking far far left like sj like sjw like super liberal woman
03:59:09.620
it used to mean like it used to be more so tied to like women who are a bit more like punk or like
03:59:14.900
uh it had to do more with like maybe your music taste or less to do with your politics um and also
03:59:21.180
had to do with daddy issues you know so now it's like you know easy fuck he's into daddy issues
03:59:27.480
yeah i'm so confused but uh yeah now it's like now it's like okay this chick's like probably
03:59:38.400
you can maybe guess a couple things about her politics and whatnot but okay i'm not i'm like
03:59:44.260
i consider myself moderate guy but like i don't know i don't i don't like like super out in either
03:59:50.780
direction i don't like super outspoken people politically like if they're really like that's
03:59:55.920
their whole fucking personality it's so exhausting yes there's always some cause yeah there's some cause
04:00:02.000
that they're all up in arms about very sensitive people i think people are like really really invested
04:00:07.060
in politics exhausting i'm exhausted it's exhausting um and they may be righteous in their
04:00:14.580
political positions but it's like for a partner i don't want someone who's like really invested
04:00:20.360
in politics i don't consider myself super invested in politics i don't think i'd want
04:00:24.880
in either direction whether she's like super liberal super conservative it's like
04:00:29.840
yeah i don't know anyways um okay we have uh sticks and bones here again hey thank you for the hundred
04:00:34.860
haha sorry to be super chatting so much hey uh i don't i do not object man i appreciate your
04:00:39.600
patronage but general question ladies i'm single and i haven't dated anyone in about a year i'm trying
04:00:44.460
to get back out there and these dating apps are killing me so what's some recommendations on how
04:00:49.060
to improve my odds i mean that's a pretty general question but um please let me start jim get your money
04:00:56.420
up please let me start go ahead marketing nowadays is everything which means how you step out of the
04:01:03.340
house is so important the way you carry yourself how you approach someone body language but also
04:01:09.560
how what do you have to offer the female because the more you start focusing on that too the more
04:01:17.140
confident you will also be in situations where you can assert like more of an alpha i guess energy
04:01:23.520
it's like a confidence you know if you know what you have you get what i mean like you attract
04:01:29.140
life things yeah like if you if you know you have like value or you feel like you're valuable
04:01:35.160
then you're gonna naturally communicate with somebody and hold yourself in a confident light
04:01:40.800
and that's attractive anybody else have a answer to this so i think again like uh appearances matter
04:01:49.180
because that's the first judgment you're gonna make is the appearance so make sure
04:01:52.240
you know your outfits are clean um well fitted you're physically active groomed well uh when it
04:01:59.660
comes to like online dating make sure your profile picture is actually well because a lot of guys have
04:02:04.620
really bad profile pictures and you're gonna get swiped left and then it's very important to learn how to
04:02:10.660
talk to women i feel like a lot of guys cannot talk to women and like keep an eye contact which is
04:02:16.220
kind of a demonstration of lack of confidence you have to make sure to keep an eye contact with people so
04:02:22.120
i would try to work on those i feel like easier said than done you know what's really gangster though
04:02:26.880
never looking at a woman in the eyes that is just be like
04:02:30.840
just look at her tits just stare at her you're not even worth you're not even worthy of me looking
04:02:38.340
at you that's the most gangster shit if you're not looking at me i'm not you're misreading it the
04:02:43.040
guys that are scared to scared to make eye contact they're actually they just they're so confident
04:02:48.460
they're staring at the table i don't even need to look at you the table is more important i only
04:02:52.660
look at people that are that are a threat i will only glance at someone who's a threat to me
04:02:58.180
the table is a threat to you that's right the table will attack you well i'm just i'm so confident
04:03:05.660
i need i need not look at who i'm talking to because i can do my aikido makes sense totally word
04:03:12.600
anybody else on that super chat or anybody uh advice i mean i think the big one just get fit
04:03:21.560
get in the gym get your money up exactly those are those are some things within your control that
04:03:27.480
you can work on i feel like you can just talk to people too like so many people so much emphasis on
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like you have to talk to girls in a certain way i mean just talk she's a human talk to her like she's
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your bro exactly it doesn't have to always be on dating apps yes i think the best thing is just
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ask her questions and let her do the talking yeah if you're interested then ask a question back you
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know that's how you continue conversation i feel like guys feel like they have to riz a girl up all
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the time like it's not like that you mean talk to her like she's a person sometimes you keep rizzing
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just ignore her don't say anything yeah but if you have if you have riz you are 99 sure like
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100 you are going to get the girl then if you don't have riz that is just a fact and i think
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everyone can agree with that if you have riz the girl is going to be look at you what would you define
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like what's riz the way you carry yourself energy it's just yeah it's charismatic but that comes
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from like confidence and stuff that's that and that's my point that's why i was saying that i like
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a man who knows how to talk but confidence isn't like the only thing you know i mean yeah but are
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you gonna date an insecure man are you attracted to that no that is super important yeah yeah you
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could also go to never mind i was gonna say you could become a passport pro too um because you
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said you've been single for a year you haven't dated anyone in about a year no brian you are
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don't listen to brian no i'm not it's all good i'm just saying you know if you're if you're struggling
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to find to and you're not it's not clear if you've been trying to uh find somebody but you know if
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you're struggling in the marketplace in the u.s maybe think about latin america think about
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the you know uh east asian countries you know go to where you are appreciated yeah also you could
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potentially lower your standards a little bit make them a little bit more realistic no shoot for the
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stars go for your goals you're worth fight for your dreams you got this i believe in you i would just
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put down the dating apps and just go outside sure like go outside touch grass and go outside hang out
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hold on we have like go to the park one hundred dollars one sec get in my belly i want my baby
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back baby back baby back baby back baby back ribs i want my baby back baby back baby back baby back
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ribs chili's baby back ribs all right thank you for that pastor that's thank you um you were saying
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touch grass go outside go to the yeah like you said you go to the gym you probably can meet
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a woman at the gym okay you'll probably meet someone at work don't do the gym so so you
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don't do the gym yeah please your recommendation to him is to like just go and like approach a girl
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out in public absolutely yeah i think let's let's i think so many stories now it's hard for a lot of
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guys like we met on tinder it's like okay that's not the gym how sweet like i don't i don't think
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well yeah the gym is the worst place i think i wouldn't i wouldn't approach a girl at the gym just
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because it's like you're there for to put in work to work out like i think a lot of people
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i mean look if you're really fucking feeling her then no if you got it like that and you're hot do
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it if you like if you're lacking in the confidence and you don't know if you can don't just don't oh
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yeah if there's any doubts like then it's just gonna be awkward yeah it's gonna be awkward like
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because if you see them again it's just like yeah i don't know there's just so many places to meet
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people like if you're in like 20s you would go to like a bar a party like anything if you're older
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go on facebook group like facebook groups and like see where the parties are at for like 30 year olds
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yeah we'll make some friends there's gonna be girls there like it's gonna give you confidence
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it's okay i want to do a test so you said like just go out hit like pick up a girl out in the real
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in the streets uh so i want you to try to pick me up i'm gonna pretend to be a chick you be a dude
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let's do it oh gosh my name's brianna or actually here okay you you pick what's the context that
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we're meeting where where what's the context the park okay i'm so i'm at the park what what am i
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doing am i just like uh laying on a i'm reading a book i got my you're reading um a book on the bench
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okay cute and i never claimed to have rizz guys but um go for it is a seat taken
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there's i'm am i on the grass no you're on the bench oh there's a bench there's a bench you're
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on a bench reading a book um or like ask like can i sit next to you that's so
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no that's so weird it's a yes or no question let me try oh you want to rizz me up yeah i do okay
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okay what's the context same one park i'm at the park bench reading some fucking
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okay i'm a social i'm reading carl marx oh my god okay okay i'm gonna walk by you and i'm gonna
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literally compliment your shoes i'm gonna talk to you about your shoes because you're a guy guys love
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sneakers the sneaker game whatever i'm gonna be like no no but i'm the chick i'm the chick you're
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the dude you're the guy i'm kind of rising the girl oh shoot this is so hard that's what i mean
04:08:47.620
so hard to hit on girls i got it i got it i got it are you gonna go you go i'll take it after you
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go ahead all right you know um can i sit here uh i couldn't help but notice from across the park
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your smile's very very beautiful no no no no girls have no game no i got this i got this i'm not
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even gonna try okay hey do you mind hey is this seat open do you mind if i sit here no bro there's a
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wait wait let's start again okay go again go again uh excuse me miss uh do you mind if i sit here
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yes um uh say just say yes let me just get my answer this this is what a girl would say she'd be
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like uh there's like a seat over there no the sunshine is here but that's like let's just say
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yes okay let's move on hey this is like okay okay you're reading a book in in in the in the men's
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bathroom if there's three urinals you don't go up to the urinal like you don't take the urinal next to
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another dude there has to be a like if there's other uh benches at the park you can't go up to
04:10:05.200
the girl be like oh my god it's so crowded in the park but i'm making it obvious that i actually
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interested in you that's why i said yeah can i sit next to you even though there's too much
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that's like the best thing to do is to keep it nonchalant and be like oh i love that like i love
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that shirt something like your book i would just start talking to you about your book like okay fine
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i'll play along i'll play along go ahead sure sure okay risk me up so uh my name is bella what's
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your name oh it's brianna nice to meet you oh what book are you reading karl marx what is it about
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yeah like communism oh do you mind if i like maybe grab you a coffee and then we can talk about this
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book no i feel very interesting no if after all if after like that short of time they're asking to
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grab i think it's too quick i'll give you i'll give you my actual rebuttal i'll be like okay um i don't
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know i'm just kind of been like enjoying my communist reading session here can you uh
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it's social i don't even know you whatever uh well you know what that's okay have a great day and then
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i'm just gonna walk away no that's because i'm the confident man okay go ahead okay try i'm gonna
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you're wearing a green shirt or something i don't know i'm walking okay hey i love that green shirt
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that's so something i don't know just be natural oh thank you yeah uh what's your name brianna
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where are you from you can't actually say if you said you're a daddy okay hi i'm tim
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actually that i feel like a girl might laugh at that she probably would that could be funny
04:11:42.140
uh vermont vermont wow i've never been over there what's it like
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that's boring yeah i'm from colorado the mountains oh my god the snow let me tell you
04:11:54.120
horrible do you like la how long have you been living here it's just like three months i just i
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are you seeing are you seeing anybody yet am i seeing anybody yeah oh you know i'm like just
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you know chilling reading your book i'm just chilling okay well i think you're beautiful and
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i would love to take you out nothing just to hang out get to know each other maybe go
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get dinner on me obviously love to treat you to whatever you want oh i yeah i guess we could do
04:12:28.220
dinner oh let's go um are you gonna ask me for my number no i'm kidding no that's your job i know
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that's your job that was just joking and then i'm gonna be like okay yeah well um you know what
04:12:42.500
actually give me your phone i'm gonna put my number in oh i actually don't give out my number
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but i can give you my instagram oh that's smart that's when you know that's when you know actually
04:12:51.360
no that's not true it might not necessarily be a rejection it may not because she may be trying
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to see what you're about because i've done that before you kind of use the instagram as like a
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filter yeah yeah i think honestly though i think that the the way the the trajectory of that
04:13:06.780
conversation i think it moved way too quick there wasn't any like banter i don't think there was any
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like it's well but she's reading a book like you don't you don't want to take away for it that's
04:13:16.800
annoying well she already like put it down to talk to you in the first place like so she's already
04:13:20.280
putting in that effort shoot your shot don't take up her time here's why okay cool you want to
04:13:25.280
make sure she thinks about you because if it's short and sweet she's thinking about you but
04:13:28.840
don't make her uncomfortable you're not going to go get a coffee right away sure okay you don't want
04:13:32.460
to do something in that immediate moment okay cool so i've i've given you i've given you the instagram
04:13:39.820
uh now what so so it's later on in the day what what do you do you're gonna wait you do not slide
04:13:46.220
in immediately you wait till the next day because guess why you're busy you're a man of high value
04:13:51.520
you got shit going on you have friends you have life and you're gonna say hey what are you doing
04:13:57.080
this saturday i'd love to take you to dinner and then or don't i would be uninterested if he came
04:14:04.060
up to me and yeah and he asked me to like hang out and then he didn't text me i'd be like
04:14:11.760
whatever yeah what's your goal is your goal to like get laid
04:14:19.040
no that's not it but no my goal no i mean my goal is okay let's let's go back and forth with
04:14:28.140
the actual messages on instagram so you say what either way to to get laid or to get to know a girl
04:14:33.420
the beginning is still the beginning is still the same whether you want to get laid or get to know the
04:14:37.980
girl it's still the same sure 100 so that will work every time okay so so you wait a day then
04:14:45.200
you slide in what do you send um let's pretend we're texting cute something cute and funny about
04:14:50.740
the book so do you did you finish you finish something funny and do you finish here let's
04:14:56.100
just role play it okay role play you don't have to just go ahead so what's your message uh you finished
04:15:01.980
that book yet are you still glued to that book lol something cute fun i like that i actually really
04:15:10.560
um that sounds like a girl who's not interested if you're giving such a short answer it's like yeah
04:15:19.480
yeah what are you saying what's that book that from robin d'angelo about
04:15:25.820
it's like something about white privilege yeah i'm reading a book on white privilege now jesus
04:15:30.920
can you just give me a normal okay yes uh i finished the book it was wonderful how are you
04:15:40.240
oh um i'm gonna say you said i finished the book it was wonderful what'd you say how are you
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if this was like a conversation this is like zero riz no we're messaging so i have time brian
04:16:03.740
okay i'd say you're trying to get me out on a date right okay get me out on the date go um
04:16:11.920
what would be wonderful is what would be wonderful no don't say that i'd say oh that's something just
04:16:20.240
simple oh that's uh hold on hold on i can do this okay um um do it hold can you lower the volume just
04:16:31.860
just do it don't let your dreams be dreams yesterday you said tomorrow so just do it i loved that guy
04:16:41.500
um something you need to you need to say something a little flirty with her but not too flirty
04:16:47.120
so i would say something but then you okay but that was a good start yeah really good hey i was
04:16:54.220
committed okay i was committed to this what were you gonna say though okay here let's get some
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chats and okay we got matt jams 89 hey thank you man uh brian is so modest saying he's in the high
04:17:05.580
value man he actually saved me from a shark attack before some girls left out the fish we had caught
04:17:11.060
that day and attracted a shark brian out ran out of the boat cabin and scared the shark off 11 out of
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10 hey matt jams uh 89 thank you very much appreciate it oh one other quality i appreciate in women is
04:17:24.080
modesty i like modesty i like because i like to i try to be modest okay we have x falco here
04:17:30.140
uh thank you for the uh donation man appreciate it wonderful stream tonight guys good to see the
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these girls have their head on their shoulders please be careful to not go too far in the of
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route as to not disrespect yourself and your future family perception is everything in reputation and
04:17:45.380
legacy and last i would agree work based okay good times x falco thank you for that do you guys have a
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response to that or not really thank you of course draw your boundaries ladies and always stick to
04:18:00.280
them exactly wait we have yourself and have a little update here from um sticks and bones he says
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my problem is that i live in japan i work for the military been here for eight years now but the
04:18:18.320
dating scene be rough out here i'm a 5 11 dude covered in ink i go out a decent amount i've gone on
04:18:24.320
some dates work out five times a week bro you're already in japan are you you're 5 11 how are you
04:18:32.200
not just like killing it dude well the tattoos in japan are considered part of the uh the mafia or not
04:18:39.720
the mafia but well for native japanese but he's honestly wait clarify are you american are you
04:18:46.060
american i don't think he's like in the japanese military sticks and bones slide into some dms on
04:18:51.860
instagram honestly i'm not gonna lie i think that's gonna be your best bet what what is the term what's
04:18:56.920
not working out for him what's that what's not working out for him yeah sticks and bones can you
04:19:00.840
clarify um are you in the u.s military i assume you are but no the ink is still a problem because like
04:19:07.200
sometimes when you go to public places you still have to cover it up in japan it's a cultural thing
04:19:11.400
i thought that was changing though no i was just in japan and they're like that yeah it's still pretty
04:19:16.500
yeah okay and um i don't know i might be wrong but i feel like um when it comes to certain eastern
04:19:23.660
asian countries and stuff like that they actually would like to date like a japanese guy um in my
04:19:29.440
opinion like uh they like to stay within their own what's it called gaijin are you is he it's i think
04:19:37.040
that's the term gaijin what does that mean a gaijin is like isn't that what like uh the japanese
04:19:42.940
will call like uh a foreigner gaijin sure that's what they call the foreign like typically american
04:19:50.340
foreigners i think am i is it is that wrong to say gaijin i don't know i don't know what you're the only
04:19:56.780
one wait guy gaijin meaning hold on am i mean foreigner or outsider in practice gaijin are
04:20:06.160
commonly used to refer to refer to foreigners of non-east asian ethnicities gaijin i don't know if
04:20:13.900
yeah somebody also brought up an interesting point like no idea it's a it's a term for for foreigners so
04:20:22.720
maybe i don't know you got to find some i'm pretty sure there's like japanese women that are like
04:20:26.680
gaijin hunters but somebody brought up an interesting point hopefully you're actually
04:20:31.580
able to like speak in japanese like speak japanese and like communicate with them because that's
04:20:35.980
important i mean they speak i don't speak any japanese and everyone was like super eager to
04:20:41.180
practice their english but i feel like if you're going on a date like i think it's a little important
04:20:45.940
wait sticks and bones are you in like some remote like small population area of japan
04:20:52.300
i don't know are there u.s military bases and also how long do you know if you're going to be are
04:20:59.020
you going to be in japan this whole time like why don't you start deeming girls back where you're
04:21:02.560
going to be going to like or are you out in japan forever like what's the vibe i don't know
04:21:07.860
like girls on the base like slide into some girls dms back in colorado if that's where you're headed
04:21:14.080
back to you know true okay we have uh adam collins here you say that and it works up front meeting in
04:21:21.480
the streets which works short term however girls get sketched out by no social media
04:21:26.520
yeah yeah low-key yeah because we want to see like we want to like investigate a little we're a little
04:21:34.420
crazy so you think if the guy has like absolutely no social media presence he's something's wrong no
04:21:40.500
not that something's not wrong but it's like we're like why we want to know a little bit more about you
04:21:45.820
it's a little too the unknown is very he's like a technical for a lot of people well that's what i'm
04:21:50.160
saying like why why don't you have they want to do if that's the reason then that's not necessarily
04:21:54.540
a bad thing but if they got some like baggage then i mean they want to do a little bit of
04:22:00.100
or are they hiding or what if they're hiding they do have a social media they actually have a
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see we just want to see the vibes word okay we have uh tj king hey thank you for the 50 man ladies
04:22:11.340
would you smash henry cavill if he approached you with a date 100 henry cavill oh my god
04:22:17.860
only if he's dressing as the witcher can you find some photos of potential james bond
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no i don't see it i think he is going to be king's bond i mean i can't believe that they say
04:22:31.820
that he's too old to be a superman it just seems crazy to me by the way sticks and bones i don't
04:22:37.620
know if you uh if you're still in the chat if you've hit the uh because sometimes there's a maximum oh
04:22:42.080
yeah sticks you might have hit the uh i don't know if you hit the max actually but if you uh i think
04:22:47.600
on youtube there's a 500 limit for soup chats so you may have to if you want to get your message in
04:22:53.260
you may have to do it through uh stream labs uh that's henry cavill cavill i can't pronounce
04:23:00.020
anything okay so why what's ladies why is he the witcher i mean the just here show of hand show of
04:23:07.500
hands who here would accept a date from henry cavill i mean like a picture of what he looks like right
04:23:13.320
now because there's like yeah he plays world of warcraft by the way hello what do you mean a picture
04:23:20.280
those were pictures of him yeah i didn't get a good look please all right pull it up again really
04:23:25.420
quick uh i don't like that pick one that's like looks like him right now probably that i mean he
04:23:32.160
cavill don't like this is like 700 different looks like pick one that looks like right now
04:23:43.840
oh the superman guy and like what's the body looking like right now he's oh my gosh girl
04:23:55.300
all right okay we have uh sticks and bones i'm american u.s military and the issue tbh is that
04:24:03.720
most people nowadays aren't looking for anything serious nowadays hookup culture is huge out here
04:24:08.120
now i live about an hour away from tokyo i'm moving from japan next year okay he's an hour from
04:24:14.880
tokyo so he's like is would that be the suburbs maybe of tokyo i'm not super familiar with uh
04:24:20.300
with uh japan but uh well it looks like someone said japan is easy in the chat i know i'm not
04:24:26.720
no it's kind of interesting how he says i thought japan was more traditional no it's not even that but
04:24:32.060
people are not having sex in japan like their birth rates are going really down because
04:24:35.840
they're just not having sex and so i'm kind of interested that he said the hookup culture is
04:24:41.020
huge because i would have thought it was the opposite i would have thought that there would
04:24:44.860
be a lot more single women out there you know ready yeah i agree to whatever because men don't want
04:24:51.140
to have sex anymore so that's kind of interesting is there japanese tender that's what you're saying
04:24:57.880
for sure dating apps yeah that's your best hope hookup culture is huge and maybe try to get a
04:25:03.320
facetime in before you meet up well sticks and bones are you are you not trying to hook up with
04:25:07.200
i'm some japanese woman what's going on you don't want to hook up you want a relationship
04:25:12.380
he wants a wifey but he's leaving in a year isn't it the case though that like people
04:25:18.100
have to work a lot in japan like both men and women are like work a shit ton and so they don't
04:25:23.160
have a lot of time or something i mean like honestly bro you're gonna have to like
04:25:27.340
ride it out and wait till you move they have a very high rate of uh falling asleep dead because
04:25:33.040
of working so much yeah good very interesting culture uh do you think like hookup culture
04:25:40.440
will like ever go away or no that the cat is out of the bag on that i think no this guy should
04:25:47.020
actually look look wherever you're gonna move back to find girls and just like you know have a
04:25:52.100
little bit of a roster and then when you move back you can meet if they're still like single you can
04:25:56.400
meet up with them i find that tough though that's like because a lot of people say like a lot of
04:26:02.440
women in a lot of asian countries tend to lean more traditional so i don't know it's just kind of
04:26:07.580
surprising that you're struggling in japan when a lot of people say well if you're struggling in the
04:26:13.040
western countries go to an asian country so uh yeah i don't know but uh rip rip is in the chat for
04:26:23.900
our boy sticks and bones he's 5 11 ripped as fuck he's a fucking giga chad and he's struggling
04:26:30.400
in japan if there's any japanese ladies any japanese ladies watching his dms sticks and bones dms
04:26:38.000
are open um yeah maybe uh i don't know guaranteed in a week from now you'll already i think you gotta go on
04:26:47.620
a tear dude you gotta hit you gotta do the dating apps you gotta yeah go to social gatherings you
04:26:52.580
gotta meet you're probably not putting as much effort as you think approach girls are have you
04:26:57.680
been on the dating apps have you what have you tried what have you tried because uh if you're not
04:27:03.160
trying various avenues then you know i we have uh the cast man hey thank you man i'm an american who
04:27:09.800
lives in japan yo by the way guys i might go to japan at some point so uh you know to visit i've
04:27:17.280
never been so uh maybe i can uh i'll meet up with you guys a wingman for you i'm a good wingman okay
04:27:24.300
that's cute okay the cast man i'm an american who lives in japan it's it's extremely hard to date
04:27:29.580
japanese women if you don't speak japanese well yeah that could be a thing um most people don't speak
04:27:34.800
english okay yes tinder is in japan but you won't get any matches if you don't speak japanese
04:27:39.640
okay that's a good point yeah so you probably i mean if you're in a foreign country uh especially
04:27:47.020
like i think in japan my understanding is like there there are some like european countries where
04:27:51.500
a lot of them will speak english like the netherlands scandinavian countries a lot of them will
04:27:56.700
like very even though it's not the primary language like they speak english very proficiently or
04:28:03.060
fluently in japan like you got to speak japanese most likely so uh so basically you got to learn
04:28:09.540
japanese son sticks and bones you speak japanese a polyamorous relationship when you're dating
04:28:13.700
three people or more than one it's gonna be you your japanese girl and google translate that's what
04:28:20.920
you're about to be in yep but dude can't you find in the major cities can't you find like
04:28:25.920
gaijin hunters it's like natives uh the the maybe he needs to start his own dating service where he can
04:28:34.900
help his other like other people from outside of japan i mean you could say he could try to date the
04:28:40.680
uh fellow american u.s soldiers they're women but i've not heard good things about that okay um so uh
04:28:51.700
yeah good times okay we have let's see we have curtis here when i was in oh what's there's a lot of
04:28:58.080
people tuning in from japan right about now oh when i was in okinawa in the marine corps
04:29:04.240
i wasn't having much luck with the japanese chicks but then i took two semesters of japanese all of a
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sudden i was slaying japanese chicks got so good that the girl from tokyo would fly down to visit me
04:29:16.540
weekly and he was on okinawa which was is an island um in japan so bro you got yeah you probably got to
04:29:26.720
learn japanese exactly did he did stick say he's been in japan for eight years he said he's in the
04:29:31.540
military for yeah okay military yeah i think you gotta learn the language i mean i think that
04:29:36.720
it's a hard language to learn though i think so uh okay good luck with that thank you curtis for that uh
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donation okay we have i think that's it for the chats um uh we should try to wrap up here pretty soon
04:29:49.800
so uh before before that anyone any final thoughts on anything specifically japan or anything if you
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anything you wanted to uh touch on or get off your chest before we wrap
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i think bella who's bella me yeah you you said that your ex-boyfriend plotted to kill your current
04:30:08.460
yeah and then they're friends now no wait what what
04:30:15.240
so um i used to date this guy and uh he was a very interesting guy he was international chinese
04:30:24.020
guy actually uh i met him in college and we dated and he was uh one of my serious first
04:30:30.740
relationship boyfriends and uh i broke up with him um but before i broke up uh he was going through
04:30:38.260
some stuff so i suggested hey you know what why don't you write down things like i don't know
04:30:42.660
on your diary or whatever um so uh he did um once i completely broke up with him and i found his diary
04:30:50.480
i read it and he said that he would stop my next boyfriend in the eye yeah good times he didn't
04:30:59.300
how sweet yeah it's sweet it's a passionate love just loved you so much like no yeah he's good you
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don't want other people to see you yeah no he's good he's married like he's he seems happy
04:31:12.620
anyone else any final thoughts any last minute topics you'd like to touch on before we wrap up here
04:31:20.500
i don't think so i didn't think word you said you i think you wanted to touch on
04:31:29.780
modern dating has skewed our ideas of what a human connection relationship is i've talked to
04:31:35.360
friends who have said that is overwhelming risky and exhausting and it seems to have gone in this
04:31:39.720
way from hookup culture definitely i'm not a huge fan of hookup culture either yeah i think it does like
04:31:47.340
it you don't know now if hooking up like how are you going to go into a relationship
04:31:54.020
okay let me start over modern dating is hard now because i think everyone just wants to hook up
04:32:01.580
they like there's like why have one if you could have five that's i think very big and what people
04:32:09.180
are thinking now so they don't want to date it's harder to date i think i feel like it's hard yeah
04:32:15.580
like finding someone that wants commitment yeah it's hard yeah so yeah i think there's a lot of
04:32:21.160
very very hard yeah i think there's a lot of issues with the hookup culture um one is people
04:32:27.380
are not very honest and self-aware as to what their intentions are two i think there is an issue with
04:32:33.580
consent when it comes to hookups sometimes you know uh we might say one thing but then do another thing
04:32:40.220
and then there's an issue with that for example uh you know a girl might say hey um let's hang out
04:32:48.040
but we're not gonna sleep together but then you guys hang out and then you do end up sleeping
04:32:52.680
but it's like you said no at first and then you change your opinion so i think there's a lot of
04:32:57.460
like issues with how you phrase things and with consent specifically and uh yeah i just think
04:33:04.280
we just lost a human touch to it yeah and i also feel like people are more business focused these days
04:33:10.280
um so they're not really looking for relationships they're looking to further their career and that
04:33:16.700
gets in the way oh that's interesting point yeah like using sex to as a to get ahead kind of thing
04:33:23.280
i think that always existed though yeah also expectations now lay grossman donated 100
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dollars i'm gonna have to head down there and i will rain down an ungodly fucking firestorm upon you
04:33:37.880
you're gonna have to call the fucking united nations and get a fucking binding resolution to keep me from
04:33:43.480
fucking destroying you let's go i am talking scorched earth um okay let's uh less gross man okay thank you
04:33:51.720
very much is he talking to you damn that's passion that's hot that yeah that is um that is something
04:33:59.480
for sure that's that was certainly a choice that was that was okay thank you less grossman for that
04:34:06.680
that was that was beautiful okay um did you have a final thought on anything before we wrap up
04:34:13.320
i'm going for a minute um follow me on instagram at julia lynn sandoval link is in the bio
04:34:18.760
yeah okay only vic.com let's go taylor yeah i think that's it i mean the the only we've already
04:34:27.400
gone pretty long here uh red flags i don't know let's you know what we could do maybe i'll do uh if
04:34:35.080
any of you want to stick around i'll do like a uh 20 30 minute after show that's when we like turn
04:34:40.680
the lights down so uh maybe we can do that but uh maybe i don't know turn the lights down and then what
04:34:48.040
no it's like a what it's like you know turn off the lights it's like more it's like mood lighting
04:34:57.000
right it's mood lighting it's like the after show he just brings a bunch of of girls here and then
04:35:01.800
wants to turn down the lights whoa what are your intentions hitting ryan in gta it's a yellow card
04:35:09.880
for you that was okay cool um let's see here anyone red flags let's go around the table uh
04:35:19.880
red flags any red flags that either that you have or that are red flags for you in the
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i don't like sushi that's my dude that's a red flag okay yeah a lot of people think it's a red flag
04:35:35.320
um here i'll give one if she's a van lifer if she's a van lifer that's a red flag what's a van
04:35:44.520
lifer they they live in their van and they like travel around and shit like i've seen them on dating
04:35:50.920
apps and like you have to understand as a guy if you see a chick who's a van lifer on a dating app
04:35:57.640
and she's like oh i'm in town for two days and she's on a dating app she hooks up with she hooks
04:36:02.840
up with a new dude every new city she's in and she uses them for a shower for like a bed
04:36:10.440
okay i have one if she has an instagram but doesn't have an only fans and doesn't have another any other
04:36:19.080
job that you have like spoken with her about and is in a different country every month like sugar
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daddy's yeah isn't sugar daddy thing she's got a job all right i'll put it that way
04:36:33.960
yeah no that's not me are you calling ourselves out because it's not what i do let's make that loud
04:36:40.600
okay uh for me my personal red flag is again being impatient and i guess for a guy would be just very
04:36:47.800
insecure insecure any red flags for your guy into your guy yeah it's here okay anything anybody
04:36:55.480
i'm like when people are like rude to people that like at a restaurant they're rude to
04:37:01.000
or like just people that you nobody sees you like someone who's rude to wait staff
04:37:08.920
even though you're out in public and no one sees you or knows you and you have no like benefit from
04:37:14.440
react interacting with that person i think just kindness to all people that you all interact like
04:37:19.960
interact with is sexy and people who are just like rude and like not kind in general is just like a
04:37:25.080
really big turn off like i have one but it's kind of it's kind of mean but it's honest what is it if
04:37:31.480
he's a 10 and he's dating a girl that's a three that's a red flag there's many reasons why he's a
04:37:38.440
red flag i think what he's physically a 10 and he's dating a female who's physically a three
04:37:43.400
red flag what if it's love yeah red flag that's not love with a she's probably so nice red flag
04:37:49.960
what do you think is the issue like what do you think what do you think his intentions are
04:37:56.280
i don't know you think it's like a power thing i think i think it could be control i think it could
04:38:01.560
be the girl has a wealthy family i think it could be he's broke and she has money i think i think it
04:38:06.120
could be a lot of things but men think very logically and also tend to uh be more sexually
04:38:13.160
aggressive than females so that's all i think disavow disavow oh bender the offender donated 99
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or he's gay doesn't date guys with an android red flag would anyone here like would not date a guy
04:38:29.160
because of a phone no that's weird that's fine that's weird leave him alone i think it's because
04:38:37.400
maybe apple is associated with like wealth or something like more wealthy people have apple but
04:38:42.440
i think it's a stupid reason wait question what would you let's say like a guy he's he's risen
04:38:49.560
you up he's running some game and you're into him you're feeling him he's about to ask for your
04:38:56.680
number and you're you would be otherwise prepared to give him your number however when he pulls out
04:39:02.520
his phone it's a flip phone i knew he's got a flip phone oh shoot burn a razor crunch is it just done
04:39:11.800
do you do you reconsider giving him your number i gotta give it to him for the fun of it like
04:39:17.720
i'm gonna look around and see who's filming and where the joke is at this point no i feel like it's
04:39:22.760
like it's kind of no one has a flip phone it's the type of guy who's like oh i don't want to
04:39:26.760
participate in societal norms i want to be unique and different so i'm going to have a flip phone
04:39:31.640
so i don't yeah i think that's going to be cringe no one has nobody has a no one has a flip phone so
04:39:37.000
this isn't even happening he's come back no one's having a flip phone okay how about this how about
04:39:40.520
this same circumstances but he pulls out one yo miss me bro jesus no is that i'm gonna ask to borrow
04:39:49.000
it for an instagram photo shoot that's what i'm gonna ask trust in that in the in the 90s kind of
04:39:54.760
fire i'm not gonna laugh that's a weapon right there yeah that's funny okay i i know i know another
04:40:00.760
red flag what's a red flag what you got like a bad texter like doesn't right oh my god if you can't
04:40:07.400
text me good morning good night and and like throughout the day no not throughout the day just
04:40:13.560
like flow there's levels to the texting and the like in building a relationship you unfold it like
04:40:21.880
i don't want you up my ass the second we meet well no not it doesn't have to be the second you
04:40:25.960
meet but like eventually if like i'm dating that person for a while then i hope i'm the first thing
04:40:30.280
they think about when they wake up and the first thing they think about when they go to sleep yeah
04:40:33.720
that's sweet but but we're talking about red flags so i don't think we're even there yet right
04:40:38.280
because when they don't care about their appearance it's kind of a red flag
04:40:42.280
like yeah like if they're going out of the hygiene all the time you guys just like talking
04:40:45.800
about me right now like what's like when they just like gross like they don't shower you groomed
04:40:50.200
your dress you're fine i'm wearing sweatpants no i feel like a like yeah i totally agree with you
04:40:56.520
like i feel like even once you're in a relationship and stuff like that you should never settle down
04:41:00.440
when it comes to your looks you should always look good for your partner literally comfy life is
04:41:04.280
i have a good one i have a good one guys who are disrespectful to their moms or to animals
04:41:11.400
red flag everyone can agree on that you can be disrespectful to my parents you're like yeah
04:41:18.360
absolutely definitely yeah i also have another one yep men who put down other people's views and
04:41:24.600
can't have an open-minded conversation but just immediately knock it down can't even listen you
04:41:29.640
talking about me no just because i'm looking at you no you're a little headed for our conversation
04:41:34.440
with us yeah you're respectful that applies yeah um anything else ooh what do you guys think about
04:41:46.600
if you were to see get into a man's car that you're on a first date with and you see that he has condoms
04:41:51.880
in his middle console is that a red flag for you i feel like i if he should be able to see that and
04:41:58.840
know like yeah that can't yeah especially in this heat like at least you know that he's like using
04:42:03.880
them protecting yeah it could be a good thing also him having that that there on the first day is also
04:42:08.920
extremely presumptuous yeah maybe he just put them there just in case just in case like not in the car
04:42:15.320
what if he's a 10 but has an adhd then i have that's not a red flag i love adhd honestly it keeps the
04:42:29.960
conversation rolling truly good times good times okay i think that's it for the super chats and
04:42:41.560
everything all right sweet guys okay cool so we're gonna wrap up there um guys last call go over to
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04:43:25.480
button please on your way out we will do like a 10 minute 15 minute after show um and uh
04:43:33.480
yeah so actually elizabeth can you do the after show yeah okay cool um we'll have elizabeth run
04:43:39.640
the after show um thank you for tuning in tonight guys you could have been anywhere in the world but
04:43:43.800
you were here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who so generously and kindly uh super
04:43:49.640
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04:43:55.800
wonderful panel i i it was a i think it was a good chill show tonight uh much needed after some
04:44:01.800
of our very hectic wait can somebody play the uh simba uh okay um any women who want to be on the show
04:44:13.800
dm at whatever on instagram we will be live again tuesday at 7 pm pacific i have a good panel for us got
04:44:21.000
some interesting guests coming uh and can we get some oh sevens in the chat oh yeah madison she's
04:44:27.720
just gone for the week uh she will be back uh yeah she's just out of town for uh july 4th so we are
04:44:33.880
doing a july 4th uh show by the way guys this is a tuesday so uh if you guys uh finish up your july 4th
04:44:40.920
festivities be sure to tune in on tuesday 7 pm pacific we will be live you will probably hear the fireworks
04:44:47.240
going off outside of our studio in any case but uh yeah let me see some oh sevens or oh sevens yeah
04:44:54.680
oh sevens in the chat hope you guys have a good night we will see you next time good night guys
04:45:00.120
and uh yeah stick around for a few minutes we'll do a 10 to 15 minute after show eric if you can uh hit
04:45:05.880
the lights okay cool boom okay this is nice good show good show after show so what wait what are we
04:45:15.000
doing what's the after show you can get up if you want yes it's just like what happens behind the
04:45:22.440
can i open a prosecco on stream or no because i'm a professional prosecco opener your professional
04:45:37.400
prosecco yes is it allowed is it yeah okay all right but
04:45:51.400
i wonder what they're doing right now what's that i wonder what the guys
04:45:57.400
all right let me let me do this as a professional all right so that's how you do this
04:46:07.400
this thing i keep like looking over i think this is a human i know yeah it's scary i'm like every
04:46:15.960
time i'm like this i'm like jesus wait are you able to on twitch is it okay yes oh yeah yeah yeah
04:46:23.960
you just can't like pass out yeah but we're not we're definitely far away from that
04:46:29.160
oh they're just watching me open this up hi chat oh oh shoot that scared the out of me i forgot you're
04:46:46.600
doing that i don't know which one all right that scared me safe not dangerous who wants what what
04:47:02.040
i don't know where they're running with me home yeah yeah i'm so boring oh that's what you meant
04:47:19.640
no you're a good girl i don't drink or smoke i'm not driving we have yeah we have our my husband's
04:47:24.920
driving us i'm so boring guys i don't drink or smoke please you're holding my cup
04:47:32.040
oh this is your cup wait no this is no no the double cup oh okay okay
04:47:41.800
what oh my god oh how do you guys pass the taste can you help me
04:47:49.160
isn't it like bitter like super bitter really it really depends on the alcohol
04:47:53.640
yeah some wines can be really sweet some can be a little bitter it depends on
04:48:07.480
you want to i don't think you would like this one but this is a good try that's a good start
04:48:12.920
it's for a seco but a seco is typically a little sweeter it's used as a mix typically
04:48:18.840
like yes it's hello kid it's cringe as well shut up okay
04:48:32.760
do they only use one camera for the after night time or they're just taking a break guys i won't
04:48:42.440
drink it don't worry i don't know if i'm supposed to move or not yeah it's not an expensive bottle
04:48:46.680
i'm not i don't know what you're about to come back on
04:48:58.040
i literally had a chill during that while we were talking i was like no
04:49:12.040
oh it's like you're doing the harlem shake yeah i know
04:49:19.960
oh my god i can't remember the spell there you go jesus christ
04:49:30.440
zirka would demolish this podcast yeah it would be crazy i need a stand
04:49:37.240
i know i i kind of need a stand too just a little bit
04:49:58.200
i don't know the zirka likes to use girls as a content but i like it depends on the energy
04:50:13.720
wait can you hear me i i literally need to respond i would try one stop for you guys okay
04:50:17.880
wait can you guys hear me or are the microphones muted
04:50:25.240
can they hear no no they can hear it yeah okay where did he go where is this guy that has been
04:50:30.520
so sweet this whole stream the zirka guy yeah this is hurt no johnny johnny has been literally
04:50:36.360
like messaging me this entire stream just saying julia lynn julia lynn over and over and over and over
04:50:42.520
again how do you like it how do you like it where'd you go it was like johnny something different
04:50:47.800
what does different means different than water you're like can you guys hear us
04:50:55.160
yeah they can hear us johnny i'm drinking us up
04:50:59.080
yeah they can hear us thank you jesus yeah okay nice to meet you guys
04:51:13.800
okay i tried to say hi to you bye i'll bring christiana next time bye guys
04:51:18.120
who's christiana my friend i'll take care of myself guys bye girl
04:52:24.760
yeah yeah brian needs a wingman you could be his wingman
04:52:37.240
did i just hear the boyfriend is a stripper tj tj sometimes sometimes i do feel that way
04:52:44.200
i don't know i don't know i speak in spanish i speak english and rusa
04:53:08.760
yes my glasses are fake to everyone who is asking
04:53:16.920
i know it just makes you so mad it just made you so mad that my glasses are fake
04:53:22.920
why are we doing it because we're having fun it's a fourth of july weekend let's party it out
04:53:32.040
fourth of july happy fourth of july weekend everyone
04:53:45.960
we are gonna go on the boat right victoria i'm not sure i'm not sure yet
04:53:52.760
hopefully we're gonna go on the boat oh careful depends on uh hi nene on on things wait can they
04:54:00.600
hear like my nose if i'm like oh i don't know you have to speak up
04:54:09.480
day is good day is good it was great stream uh really enjoyed it great conversations it was really
04:54:15.880
good it is a little sad that bottom g couldn't come but it was great you heard my nose all stream
04:54:22.840
sweet you better be lying please please tell me you're lying the weather's a little chilly
04:54:28.920
hey guys i'm out of the show bye since we have to go
04:54:34.360
let's go crucify oh my god thank you thank you thank you hi
04:54:46.600
you guys come back on the show of course of course we come back on the show yeah yeah i feel like it
04:54:51.800
would be really cool to have um you know individuals with uh different opinions so we
04:54:56.920
can actually have a like a debate debate but it was great taylor do you have some italian
04:55:02.040
to you it was definitely very chill stream arranged
04:55:16.600
okay i got my fruit boys how long is this magna my name is taylor starlight
04:55:23.400
the after show starlight oh just like five minutes does somebody i'm back i feel like i'm
04:55:29.560
kind of like lonely over here thank you crispy does anybody want to want to join my side so it's
04:55:35.400
like more balanced oh okay wait what are we doing sorry on that side my name is taylor starlight
04:55:45.000
no definitely do that asmr let's after party is just like asmr that's not funny
04:55:49.800
by the way today was elizabeth's first day trying alcohol have you ever tried alcohol before like
04:55:56.920
any type of alcohol are you serious wait you've never had no i never had alcohol now you can say
04:56:03.480
your first alcohol was hello kitty prosecco yep it reminds me of like you've never even had like a
04:56:10.440
sip of wine or beer no i never had the intentions don't start wow you guys are i i leave her alone
04:56:16.680
for 10 minutes and you guys look what happened we were responsible it was a
04:56:24.760
liquored up it's starting within a week she's gonna have an only fan
04:56:37.480
bottom g is the guy who looks like under date but does really fun dances
04:56:41.000
yes he was gonna be on the show yeah he literally missed his bus
04:56:47.080
i'm fortunate he was gonna ride with you guys right and then he
04:56:51.640
yeah it was just a lot of back and forth and stuff and then he missed the bus he missed the bus rip
04:56:56.680
stop crafting our elizabeth we do apologize no they destroyed my innocence you destroyed
04:57:02.200
it was a sip it was one sip whatever next time we're gonna try dirty martinis oh gosh that's
04:57:10.920
like going from zero to a hundred exactly is that bad martinis is literally just straight
04:57:15.720
alcohol that's my favorite drink yeah it's just vodka and vermouth don't listen to these sinners okay
04:57:21.080
sinners we have to start off with something like get her like a coors light or something
04:57:27.800
hello bring zirka would you ever bring zirka i thought he said he's been yeah
04:57:35.080
he was supposed to be on today's show he was on another podcast
04:57:39.640
no honestly it's i might try to get him for the fourth maybe but i don't know he's
04:57:44.760
i think honestly it's because the traffic for the fourth of july and everything dude it's gonna
04:57:50.760
be so bad it was so it's gonna be really bad yeah yeah we drove all the way from wisconsin
04:57:57.240
wisconsin dolls shout out to wisconsin dolls so yeah it was just a long ass traffic yeah it's like
04:58:04.040
it was saying four hours and then we would like look at the thing and the time would just not change
04:58:08.760
it was supposed to be two and a half hours and it took four hours
04:58:11.240
long island iced tea that's when you want to forget about your past and welcome your new demons
04:58:17.000
that's when you drink long long i'll check my dms i check my dms guys
04:58:21.800
oh you actually respond she friend zones all of them though no no i read every single one
04:58:27.080
well you read them yeah of course on them would you did i'm not gonna say friends though i don't
04:58:32.120
like that term anymore i just say friend but would you friendly would you ever do
04:58:36.040
any of your uh would you date any of your fans i like like i prefer being obsessed with me i'm
04:58:43.800
serious i literally dated a summer when i was like i don't mind if a guy's obsessed with you
04:58:49.640
yeah alcohol out totally don't drink be responsible normal wait is it not normal like
04:58:57.320
i guess right wait what's don't you want him to be into you yeah yeah but i think obsessed is
04:59:05.640
different sorry brian go ahead oh i mean you did say you want a guy who's like constantly texting you
04:59:11.160
and like a good texter i'm a i feel like i'm a no you know like i feel like i'm a great texter boys
04:59:17.080
okay elizabeth i'm gonna marry sarcasm like all day but at any moment if you have a period of time
04:59:25.400
where you're just like it's the culture that's not doing anything or if i'm on your mind like
04:59:28.600
just pick up the phone and be like hey thinking about you i'm really busy right now but we can
04:59:33.720
talk later or maybe not but at least you said that at least you said something but i feel like
04:59:39.320
girls don't like clingy guys like if you're so clingy i don't know you gotta be careful again chad
04:59:46.280
it's all about having like you know your own love your own friends doing things you know like
04:59:52.040
not just constantly texting clingy is if he gets mad when you don't text back that's clingy
04:59:57.080
yeah that's weird yeah that's obsessive yeah she's narcissist too wait me totally yeah
05:00:10.360
elizabeth they're all fighting for you how are you gonna pick the best see now she's she's had a
05:00:15.800
sip of alcohol she's she's uh asking for some dms dm her guys i'm checking my id right now oh
05:00:26.600
this girl's a genius yeah she's checking her id right now
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she looks like ai generated bro how you guys feel about ai taking over very soon that's gonna be crazy
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shit literally already twitter is filled with ai um of girl bots yeah i mean
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how was yesterday where they were limiting everyone's uh tweets to just 600. oh my god
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by the way you have an accent where are you uh where are you from i'm from america you're born in
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the u.s yeah i'll tell you afterwards yeah oh yes it's uh you're very uh mysterious and
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um run i'm paranoid okay it's a paranoia okay you guys read that one good times you want to know
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like an embarrassing story yeah it's not really embarrassing it's more like i'm kind of lame okay
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like i was invited to like um comic-con the after party it was like a club party
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i like drove like an hour to go over because i knew the um because i worked for comic-con
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at that time as a model okay this was like a month maybe like three months ago so recent
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because i knew the owner that ran comic-con he invited me into the party i drove one hour i went
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to the club i i invited another girl so then we planned to meet up i was in the club for like
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five minutes and i left it was kind of sad like i walked around because the club's in my vibe
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that's the thing the club's in what isn't isn't isn't her vibe wait you were meeting a guy there
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no no no just to hang out and that was my first time ever at a club text messaging yeah my clubs suck
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clubs are overrated yeah they're overrated i was only in a club for five minutes first time i went
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but this for a different reason i got kicked out chat just because i speak russian doesn't mean i am
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russian she's kazakh from kazakhstan no you're belorussian no i'm not russian you're ukrainian nope
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why are you why are you guys trying to guess it's not it's secret she's very
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private she's very serious she'll tell us after the show yeah okay it's for your own protection
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love and respect borat borat is kazakhstan it's not the same bro i'm not russian god damn it thank
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you for starting that now everybody thinks i'm russian i speak only two languages how many languages
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do you speak um only english um sadly you don't speak vietnamese i understand vietnamese like every
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single word but when i try to speak it it's just it doesn't come out you know i'm the same way with
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with uh french a little well actually i speak french french well i was born in france and then i moved to
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the u.s when i was five see i'm kind of like that because in canada you have to learn learn french
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until like grade eight and then everything that you buy in canada is in english and french yeah yeah
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because what happened is i moved here when i was five to the u.s my dad would speak french to me
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but then i would respond in english so i understand french better than i can speak it so yeah i know a
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a little bit of spanish and that's it rip but you don't know you don't speak any vietnamese
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basic phrases you know like hi bye what's high in vietnamese what's it what's the language called in
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it's vietnamese it's called vietnamese yeah like xin xin tao means hi okay okay
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i know how to actually like because my mom taught me how to cook like all traditional vietnamese food
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so is i know how to make all of the vietnamese is that vietnamese yeah pho is vietnamese
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traditional vietnamese what's it how you pronounce the sandwiches bami bun bun me bun me yeah and then
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bun is like noodles right like cold noodles with stuff on top which one bun oh boon boon yeah yeah okay okay
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you guys like do you guys like vietnamese food or like i love you you love it pho is like my number
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one hangover food and i'll imagine we can have like a pho party i can yes if you start cooking it for
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me see my thing is i just don't like rice noodles i don't know why i like every other they're like the
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best one because no they're healthier for you it's less calories that's why i don't like them
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me bella is 35. yo bella are you 35. absolutely not somebody in the chat is saying that you're 35.
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i'm 69. you're a gilf i'm ready to uh-huh no it's a gilf we're gonna wrap in two minutes at 12 12.
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that is the lucky number okay uh interesting so what's everyone's here thoughts on you know the current
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border dispute in um in turkey whoa in turkey i don't i've been in a bubble so i don't know
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you should talk about paris the paris one is crazy and there's a twitchcon i know paris is happening
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yeah so they're protesting in paris and twitchcon is in paris the french love a good protest yeah
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it's true the french that's their whole it's part of their part of being part of the uh french it's
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part of the thing you know so it's like do you hear the feet sorry wait what do you know the
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canadian national anthem do you know how to sing it yeah can you sing it for us yesterday was canada
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today is there is there a french version there is okay when i was in school it would be like the
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first part would be english and then the second half they'd have us sing it in french but i can't
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remember it word i mean you like i feel like uh the the french national anthem is i don't know you've
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never heard the i'm sure i've heard it what oh uh it's a yes or no question oh shoot i'm putting
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brian you okay how you feel i mean it's just a it's a regular day at work you can answer it if you
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want yeah go ahead you said that he was a high valued man where are you taking me where are you
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taking wait hold on i shouldn't have been speaking right there you want to repeat it
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wait what did you say i would like seriously not going to lie oh okay where uh where are you taking
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me on our first date i'm adventurous adventurous i'm adventurous when you fly you say you fly all
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the time do you go private or are you first class are you economy what what's um
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um you know usually i'm like oh my god brian you've been friend zoned that was such an obvious
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friend zone huh huh wait what what wait what it's okay um go ahead no i i drive when i fly we fly
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regular we fly regular like normal fly regular yeah like southwest whatever is on sale because i mean
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you said go on an adventure like if you're gonna take did someone just oh like no adventurous as
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in like i'm like adventurous i'm like adventurous as in like horseback riding you know like horseback
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riding horseback riding yeah do something oh i like what about parasailing do you like oh parasailing
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is nice should you hiking yeah oh that's going to disneyland or something or whatever an amusement
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park adorable better totally that's a good 100 okay so we have a joke that it's holding the car on the
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way over um what's the joke one of our managers farted in the car you can say it's my husband it's
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okay whatever your husband wait your husband okay your husband farted in the car and the doors rolled
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up with with four people in the car well wait alan Disneyland Disneyland is nice guys and then i was
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like oh my dad doors up and then he says to everybody he's like i'm fortunate do you guys smell pizza
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no me and elizabeth are gonna hang out i'm sorry chat yeah yeah i got her good times i'm gonna take
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out elizabeth you said you said you said oh he said do you smell yeah you guys smell pizza guilty
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material i'm gonna wipe her up you fucking ass all the love and respect oh my god wait alan is he
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like involved with california avengers it doesn't matter in terms of is he employed by twitch no
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i don't know because you said he was one of the others um thank you what's he do for work is he
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retired or yeah he's not a first day it's fun guys he basically helps me manage no no he we work
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together i think it's nice we've been streaming together non-stop for 10 years
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vala knows how to seduce using that wait are you guys on kick or twitch we're both
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kids do both but yeah we do both i'm on do you have did you get a deal from kick elizabeth
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greatest adventure now it works well i mean bro you know what elizabeth the greatest adventure
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going to be you know hang out with me i'm gonna risk the shit out of her it's gonna be so amazing
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i'm sorry to say that but i feel like i'll do a better job that was funny actually they said that's
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an expensive first date i know disneyland is kind of expensive i'm not gonna lie universal is better
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you know what's like yeah sometimes something super nice is literally um
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i said you can go hiking or just stare at the sunset going down but that's like super cheap
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that's like what that's nothing that's a good date yeah good times like walking just talking
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like enjoying nature watching the sunset about like mcdonald's would you is that like a good
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first date you think she smiles definitely like that's classy it's it's kind of cute it's like
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it's different when people buy you a happy meal no just take the girl to a really cute coffee shop
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with like a really cool aesthetics and stuff there's no reason for mcdonald's coffee shop is gonna
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cost you less if not the same price word all right we have mert mex here uh do you like a guy who can
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cook i would cook you a really amazing dinner for you elizabeth i own a catering business okay
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do you want to answer that of course like a guy that knows how to cook that would be cool
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so then i don't have to do it all the time that would be good and you could cater your
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things your events that you have your secret cult meetings i feel like mcdonald's is a great place to
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go on a first date because if you can have fun at a mcdonald's then you can have fun anywhere
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but i feel like it should be a follow-up like do something and then i was gonna say like like
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yeah get mcdonald's maybe get like a whole thing and then do like a picnic with it and go like look
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at the stars or something you know i'll wrap on this point here uh i actually took a girl to mcdonald's
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once for a first date but that wasn't the initial plan like we we were gonna go to in and out which
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is a much more upscale bougie sort of place oh but the line was so long you didn't make a reservation
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you can't make a reservation it doesn't matter to me oh it doesn't matter what ethnicity doesn't
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matter no they're saying what elizabeth date from an another ethnic group yeah word doesn't matter
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word um so the line's too long at in and out so i'm like yo we could i mean it's not ideal but we
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could go to mcdonald's and she was so pissed off that we went to mcdonald's she was really
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upset i would laugh yeah i was like yo it's gonna take us like 45 minutes to get food i'm trying to
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eat some honestly right now mcdonald's is actually more money than in and out no no i don't know how
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to ski it's more expensive here's how you should have said that it's more expensive but it's the quality
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as well no here's how you should you should have said that but if that's like what you got that's
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what you got no brian here's what you should have said that hey let's grab some mcdonald's fries and
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then like mcflores because they're delicious we'll wait in the line you this way you're gonna get
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mcdonald's but you're also not gonna kind of like you know put her down but just taking her to mcdonald's
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on the first date so as long as i get fries in the mcflurry it's okay but it's not an official
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dinner dinner yes true true all right cool guys we're gonna wrap there uh thank you guys for
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sticking around for the uh little after show we did uh hope you guys have a good night let's see
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some oh sevens in the uh chat uh some oh sevens in the chat guys that'd be much appreciated did we
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get super chat that just came in or wait tj king's super chat is still up there that's weird hold on
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let me just wait here just a sec wait let me see sorry guys my chat's all scuffed uh oh sevens in the
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chat yep spam the oh sevens guys spam the oh sevens uh okay uh here i'm gonna put it over here and then
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oh it's like a little yeah yeah so you guys do some oh sevens
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oh all right all right all right thanks brian thank you for hosting us yeah thanks