Diagnosed Psychopath E-Girl？! Doomsday Desiree DESTROYED By Based Grace & Shina？! ｜ Dating Talk #186
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This week on Whatever, we talk about Andrew Wilson's recent attack on a woman in a coffee shop, and how to deal with it. We also talk about how to become a master debater, and what to do about it.
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lengthy. Okay, we have a private Patreon members only. Discord. Discord.gg slash whatever.
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Link is in the description. Guys, me and Andrew Wilson, Maddie Vu, and Desiree, we were, there
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it is. It's in our behind the scenes. If you want to see Desiree's- Is that ass out?
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If you want to see Desiree's vicious and brutal, heinous attack on Andrew Wilson- It was so awful.
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It was very- You need to go to our Discord. Very dangerous. Cellulite was out and the whole
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thing. I think you scarred our audience, to be honest. I really traumatized. I mean, it
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was just awful. Yeah, we had a, me and Andrew actually- My children found out about it. My
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children found out about it. That's disturbing. They saw the footage. Anyways, me and Andrew
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had to go to therapy together for that one. No, they were like, get it, girl! They actually
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asked me how many subscriptions we got. They're your kids. They're not your friends. Anyways,
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My kids are my kids and my friends. We switch back and forth. Also, if you want to learn
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how to become a master debater, do we have that pulled up? I did. Okay. Debateuniversity.com,
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Verbal Combat is the course. There's about six hours of instruction, 80 plus different educational
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videos. Debateuniversity.com if you want to become a master debater. Disclaimer, the views
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expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever channel. With
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that said, without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So
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please tell us your name, age, location, and occupation. Go ahead.
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My name is Shirley Ju. I'm 33 years old. I'm based in Los Angeles. I'm a journalist on camera
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host. I have my own show called Shirley's Temple on YouTube. Go subscribe.
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Okay. And what you, do you do anything else besides the podcast? Like you do interviews too,
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right? Yeah. I'm a journalist. So I do a lot of interviews. I've been doing interviews for like
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14, 15 years. Any specific genre or? Uh, hip hop is where I got my start, I guess.
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Are you still involved in hip hop or? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. All right. Cool. What about you?
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My name is Desiree Noel. Tell your mic down for me. I am 38 from Southern California. I don't know.
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So I was thinking about this, like what to call myself. It was almost causing me a panic attack
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yesterday. And then I thought, well, I'll just tell Brian to give his synopsis of who he thinks I
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am. And then we'll just go with that. But then I had a mastermind with the ladies pre-gaming.
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Well, I came up with a job title. It is, what did we, what did we call it? I am a, I'm a single mom
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survivor of the plandemic. So basically I'm like the vice president at this point. Anyway, I'm ready
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to run. All right. Um, wait, can you pop your, pop your glasses off? It's casting a little glare.
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Yep. I can't see. It's probably for the best that you can't see what the chat is saying.
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Okay. Well, that's, that's not a lie. It's probably, honestly, that's probably for the
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best. Just if I get a headache, I'll put it back on for a little while. Sounds good. Sounds
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good. All right. What about you? I'm Vic. I'm 23 and I'm a content creator on TikTok.
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Where are you from? The East Coast. Okay. And, uh, what kind of content do you make?
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Um, I mostly do like social commentary and a lot of my pages centered around educating people
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on, uh, mental health, most usually ASPD, which is what I'm diagnosed with and ADHD.
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That's good. But, but so you have ASPD, but how do you typically frame it?
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I typically frame it as psychopathy because that is, um, what it was called in the past. Um,
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ASPD kind of encompasses both psychopathy and sociopathy.
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Right. I literally just was coming to this conclusion myself. Sorry.
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Can you not like grab the mic and like put it in your mouth, please? That I prefer you
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not to do that. It's just a knee jerk reaction. Sorry. So can you allow her to finish her introduction?
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I'm so sorry. Okay. I mean, I don't know that there's more to introduce. I mean, that that's
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basically the crux of my content. And so diagnosed psychopath. Correct. And, uh, although you said
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that psychopathy can't be diagnosed, is that correct? Yes. Okay. Um, and just curious. So
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how does your, uh, psychopathy manifest itself for you? Um, I'm not a hundred percent sure. Like
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what, what the question for that is, like, do you mean how do my symptoms like of ASPD present or
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why do I call myself a psychopath? Well, yeah. So I guess let's go to the ASPD. So antisocial
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personality disorder, what diagnostic metrics did you meet to get that diagnosis? Okay. So
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there's like, I'm not a mental health professional, by the way, everybody that's listening, but you
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were diagnosed with that, correct? But I was diagnosed with that. So, um, there's a lot of
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criteria for it. Um, but the main ones that I met, which are the ones that present like the most in me
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is, um, manipulation, lack of empathy, um, impulsivity to an extent, kind of like risk seeking
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behaviors. Um, that's kind of why I went and got my diagnosis to begin with. Cause I was doing like
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so many risky behaviors for no reason. Um, so yeah. At what age were you diagnosed? Um, 19. 19.
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Mm-hmm. Okay. And so, and the risky behaviors, was that throughout the course of your whole life or
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did it start a little bit later on? It was pretty much the same, like throughout my whole life, except
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for it got really, like really extra during the pandemic because, um, I was really, really bored.
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Chronic, chronic boredom is part of the, part of the, um, disorder, but really bored, had nothing to do.
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Um, kind of got myself into a lot of really not good things. Um, and then decided I didn't want to
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die young. So I needed to change something. What, what kind of, if you're fine with sharing,
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what kind of, uh, risky behavior? Um, like basically I would, I would put myself in really
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like life-threatening positions. Like, um, I would go travel a lot and just like sleep on the streets
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or stay with like random people that I just met, like whatever, probably should have gotten trafficked.
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Um, but then, I don't know. I, I, uh, also like got into, um, a lot of like heavier drug abuse and
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things like that, which, um, that is like what ended up with me, like almost dying, being in the
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hospital. Um, I don't know. I, a bunch of other random things. I, you know, being, just being in
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risky situations and like exacerbating the risk instead of taking myself out of it, if that makes sense.
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And is there, when it comes to the risky situations, like for example, a normal person
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might have like a fear response, but are you lacking in fear response? Like you don't have
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fear basically? Yeah. So it's, it's basically like, it's like a lack of a fear response. Um,
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the way that I like to describe it when I like talk to people about it is it's, it's kind of like a
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video game. It's like you're playing a video game and, um, a prompt comes up on your screen and tells
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you, okay, if you continue with this, like this could happen. Are you okay with that? Yes or no?
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And then you click yes or no. And I always click, I always click yes. Cause I always think, oh,
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that's not gonna, nothing bad's ever going to happen. Like I'm fine, you know? And I'm not really
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like afraid of it. So it's kind of like, it's very, it's a very non-emotional. It's an adolescent,
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it's an adolescent kind of mindset where you're invincible. Yes. Okay. Overinflated sense of just
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that you'll live. I don't even want to say overinflated sense of self. It's just an
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overinflated sense of like, I'm not going to die. So what's the worst that can happen? I'll go
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bankrupt. Like who cares? It's just like very like almost manic in a way. It's, it's grandiose,
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which is also part of the criteria, but it's just like having, having like this idea that like
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everything, like everything, you can control everything and nothing bad will ever happen
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to you. And so you're not scared of anything because you don't think anything could happen.
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And you mentioned, uh, one of the ways it manifests itself for you is manipulation.
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So how might that, when you say manipulation, is it with friends, family? Yeah. Like strangers,
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all of the above. So how might you manipulate somebody or have you, I suppose? How have I
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manipulated people? Yeah, sure. I mean, like I, I think talking about manipulation is like difficult
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because I mean, everybody's manipulative in their own ways. They're just not, you know, conscious
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of it. Um, but I think the point of being manipulative is obviously getting the things that
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you want out of life. And so I always know how to get what I ultimately want, um, out of a situation.
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Like how, how do I maneuver the situation to get the outcome that I want from it? Um, and
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people pleasing, essentially. Yeah. That's, that's a big, that's one, that's one that happens.
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But, um, yeah, I don't, I, I mean, maybe, maybe I'll think of examples or I'll demonstrate or
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something. I mean, it's not a topic I'm super familiar with. Who are some like famous psychopaths
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in history? In history? Jeffrey Dahmer, maybe? Jeffrey Dahmer's actually not, uh, he's not like
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considered a psychopath. Actually, there's like a whole debate on, um, I think he would be considered
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a sociopath. Well, because a psychopath doesn't need relationships with anybody else. They can,
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they will manipulate literally through algorithms. That's a psychopath. A sociopath needs, they're
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more along the lines of a narcissist, like just an extreme narcissist. So they need an energetic
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supply from actually human sources. They're not happy just being the puppet masters. So Jeffrey
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Dahmer was a sociopath. Jeffrey Dahmer, um, definitely. Ted Bundy is a great psychopath. Now I don't like
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promoting like, uh, criminals as like mascots for my disorder because that's really. But that's what
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people usually know. That's what people usually know. Well, let's think of a female one maybe or
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something that's less. Anna Delvey, have y'all seen Inventing Anna? Yeah. Great, great. Now, okay,
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of course the, the TV show Inventing Anna is, it's a fictionalized version of like real events. So
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the fictional character Anna Delvey in that show, I think is like a really, really good
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example of a real life psychopath. Oh, and then, um, Elon Musk, I believe he's a, he's a psychopath.
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You heard that. For sure. I mean, he could live on Mars. He doesn't give a fuck about human contact.
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So when it comes, so when it comes to this, is, um, is there a tendency towards criminality
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for people who have this diagnosis? Yeah. More so than the general population. Yeah. But the
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intelligent ones learn how to do like white collar crimes, basically. They basically learn
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how to, how to fly under the radar. It's the less intelligent ones that are like actually getting
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into prison and stuff like that. And are there, is there a tendency for like to have violent
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inclinations or? No, that's not a part of the diagnostic criteria for psychology. But that,
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that is actually a misnomer that will be caught up with very soon. The next DM, DSM coming out will be
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updated because now we are learning that psychological tactics, psychological manipulation,
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verbal assaults, or whatever you want to call them, emotional abuse, narcissistic abuse,
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those things damage you just as much as not worse than physical violence. Cause when you have a
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physical violence, you can see right there, the trauma that's caused. So everybody knows how to
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tend to you, right? You have a broken bone. We're going to reset it. It'll be better. Here's pain
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medicine. You have coherence between what your eyes saw happen and what your body is experiencing.
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When you have a verbal assault, emotional assault, anything like that, the, it's like a thousand
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cuts. You, you start to just spontaneously combust yourself. You start to use drugs, abuse your own
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body. So you, they get you to essentially off yourself slowly. So it's even worse. It's like making
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you go through this torture and then you off yourself. So yes, there are, I suppose there
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are different forms of violence. There can be physical, mental violence. So all I'm saying is
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that it's a tactic. Okay, sure. But when I'm, when I'm saying violent, I'm just speaking about
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physical violence. So clinically, clinically, um, violent tendencies are not a part of the ASPD
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criteria. Um, it's not inherent to the disorder. Um, and most people think it is because that's like
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what the media media portrayal is. And you know, it can be comorbid, but that's just classic sadism.
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Right. And sadism and psychopathy are not the same thing, but they can go hand in hand. And when they
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go hand in hand, that's what makes a really dangerous person. And that's like why we know
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these people in the media, because those are the people that everyone's interested in learning about.
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A lot of women, a lot of women that do only fan in their subconscious, they're being sadistic to
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themselves because they're over and over raping themselves by letting all this guy abusing them.
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Exactly. And that's, that's an example of what I'm talking about. Their own dads did that damage to
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them. So their dad literally acted as a intro. Go ahead. Oh, hi, my name's Riley. I'm 31 and I'm a
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recording artist. Where are you from? I'm from LA. All right. Welcome. Uh, what kind of music do you do?
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It's like some witchy. Oh, it's witchy, like R&B. Witchy. Yeah. What does that mean? Dark, moody,
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creepy. Like emo, emo. It's not necessarily emo. More of it is like, it's like something bad's
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going to happen, but we don't know yet. And intriguing in a way. Are you a rapper? Are you
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singing? Sing. Yeah. Can we hear something? Yeah. Sing right now. Yeah, go for it. I don't know what
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is. What should I sing, guys? Your number one single. Yeah, what's your favorite song right
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now? What's your favorite song? Like stuck in your head. Like my favorite song that's stuck
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in my head. Oh my God. Something that you can sing the lyrics to. Oh, okay. So this is random,
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but I've been listening to Michelle Branch's like throwback music. I don't know if anyone else
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likes Michelle Branch as much as I did. Wait, what's her big song? Like I'm. Sing it. Can you
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sing it? I think I know what you're talking about. She has a song. It's called Are You Happy
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Now? And I've been feeling like that on the inside. So it's what's the word? Look, don't
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just walk away. Pretending everything's okay. And I don't care about it. Oh, yeah.
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You remember that one? There you go. That's it. That's my shit right now. I'm so glad you
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sing on the spot. She's a throwback. That's it. Yeah. That's really cool. Thank you.
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You have a good voice. Thank you. Wait, do you know how to sing everywhere? Everywhere?
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By Michelle Branch? No, no. Oh, okay. I thought you may need Michelle. You could. You could. Yeah.
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More like emo song. She has like a song. Like dark aesthetic. Yeah. Like that one was everything.
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Like the video. What about you? Well, hi, I'm Giselle. I'm 20 and I'm just a student here at UCSB.
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Yay. Yay. Not just a student. That's a big deal. That's everything. Right.
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Yes, it is. Very, very. I went to UCSB. Wait, you went to UCSB? I was here for two
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years. I drowned in alcohol and I transferred. No, I'm serious. No joke, right? No, I became
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an alcoholic. It was bad. What year are you? I'm a third year. Okay. Yeah. What's your
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major? What do you study? I'm a double major in psych and brain sciences and sociology and
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a minor in a class. Oh, yes. Yes. Okay, okay. You're like, oh, it's a girl fan right here.
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Thanks. Psych was hard. It was. You got a C in that class. No, I can't. I can't do it anymore.
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And it's probably harder now because like everything's so crazy right now. Yes, I know. I can't do it
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anymore. Everyone's crazy. They're just, everyone's crazy. My theory is that the mentally healthy
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among us are the ones that seem crazy. Hold on. We don't need like a quip. Okay, sorry. We don't need
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a quip. Every single person. Where are you from originally? Originally from Guanacuato, Mexico.
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Oh, yeah. But I stay in LA. I stay in LA. Okay, gotcha. Yeah, sorry, sorry, sorry. What about you?
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I'm Sheena. Welcome back. How are you? I'm 50 and I'm an entrepreneur. I was an actress for 20 years
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in Israel, but I'm doing a whole bunch of things now. I'm a motivational speaker and my book coming out.
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What's the title for the book? I don't have it. Can you believe it? We're still debating.
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All right. Isn't it so stressful, right? Yes. All right. Welcome back. Thanks. Hi. What about you?
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My name is Jennifer. I'm 26, almost 27. I'm coming from Thousand Oaks, originally from El Salvador.
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So, yeah. Hola. You said you're a student? No. Well, I have a general degree in psychology in child
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development. So, yeah. And what do you do for work? I do. I'm a Lyft driver. Lyft driver. Okay. Got it.
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Okay. What about you? My name's Allison. I am 30 and I am an evangelist and I work for a technology
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company. All right. Where are you from? I grew up in Wisconsin, but I live in Texas for the last nine
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years. All right. Welcome back. Thank you. It's nice to be back. Go ahead. My name's Grace. I'm 19.
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I'm a student at UCSB. I'm originally from Sacramento. So, California. Okay. Nice. And what are you
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studying? I'm studying math. Oh, my gosh. Oh. Damn. That was sense. Oh. You got like that
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man brain going on over there. Tell me a fraction of you. Math. Like. I'm a math major. Oh, there
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you go. Okay. But it was too hard. You could do anything. It's no freaking joke. It's no freaking
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joke. Well, if you enjoy math. I mean, math is just puzzles. It's just fun. True. But
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algebra. But those of us with an art brain and a love for math, we have to go more with
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like formula logic. Okay. We can't do like. We don't have to. I'm just saying our brain
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computes it better. Love it. Thinking in almost like universal code rather than like little
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tiny. Yeah. Book. Yeah. We have to be able to apply it to life. Otherwise, we don't give
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a fuck. Desiree, what's two plus two? Divided to four. Four. Okay. You've changed your answer
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on that one. I mean, I would have said infinite atoms, but nobody knows how to do actual math
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anymore. So, I mean, they switched the math though. Legit. You guys, they switched. I don't
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know if y'all have kids. I do. They switched the fucking math. In like. I can't even help
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my kids with their math. In elementary school, they're going to like common core now. I don't
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even understand how to do the math of the kids. Like they changed their way of like. Hold
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on. Guys, guys, guys. Only one person can speak at a time. So, if somebody starts speaking
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before you, you got to let them finish. Go ahead. You know, you're excited. I was just
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going to say they did change it just because I have cousins that are like elementary school.
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Now they're like middle school level and they changed it to like common core math. So,
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now it's like a completely different way of like actually solving math, like trying to
00:22:27.700
divide now. They're like doing some weird like tree way or something instead of like
00:22:32.080
the normal. And they started it literally right before the pandemic when we all had to homeschool
00:22:36.980
our kids. So, we literally like. I was just talking. Guys, guys. Only one person can be
00:22:43.860
speaking at a time. Whoever starts first, you got to let them finish. Go ahead. Let me tell
00:22:49.520
you in Salvador, it's completely different math. When I got here in high school, it was just
00:22:53.260
like, what? Like everything is backwards. I'm like, no. Difficult. In America, they work hard
00:23:01.480
to destroy everybody's brain. So, going around the table once more. Actually, before we do that,
00:23:08.140
we need your dog to be introduced. I forgot. Oh, yeah. This is Slim. Slim? Hi, Slim. Oh, my goodness.
00:23:14.700
You have a nice haircut. Thank you. The Real Slim Shih Tzu on Instagram, inspired by my favorite
00:23:23.240
rapper, Eminem. Thank you. Wait, guys, guys, guys, guys. For the third time, only one person
00:23:30.180
speaking at a time. You jumble the audio for the viewers. She's speaking. Let her talk. Go
00:23:36.080
ahead. Inspired by my favorite rapper, Eminem, The Real Slim Shih Tzu on Instagram. He's my
00:23:42.640
co-host in my interviews. He says hi. Hi. And it's a service dog? He's a service animal,
00:23:49.340
yes. Okay. That's why he's so well-behaved. He helps me. And is it because of a disability?
00:23:59.280
I have a lot of mental illnesses, I do, but you don't have to go into that. I know that
00:24:05.140
this... So, the second question I have is, so what work or task has the dog been trained
00:24:11.000
to perform? I just saw this coming. I'm ready. I'm ready for this answer. What you got?
00:24:14.820
He helps me with my medication. Helps you with your medication? Let's see. I didn't need
00:24:20.000
that. To regulate your medications or... Don't worry about it. It seemed to me like... Like
00:24:26.340
he delivers the medication to you. It's working for them, obviously. They're here, so... He's
00:24:31.280
trying to figure out what she means. We don't have to pry. I mean, in reality, he saved my...
00:24:36.280
He likes my what? He likes your bong? Like, what do you mean? My bong? Yeah. How does
00:24:40.280
he help you with your medication? Are you saying that because I smoke weed? Yes. The judgment.
00:24:47.020
The judgment. Why am I judging? You said, isn't weed medication? He's helping you with your
00:24:52.140
medication. Oh, wow. You took it there. That was a great connect. Wow. That was a good one.
00:24:56.280
That was your own trauma. That was your own trauma. That was your own trauma. I mean, if I'm being completely honest...
00:24:59.280
She was projecting. Projection. He helped... He saved my life mental health-wise, if I'm being
00:25:03.940
completely honest. Like, can I be completely honest about something? It seemed to me like
00:25:09.140
in America, it's like fashionable or trendy in a lot of women's mind, right, to say that
00:25:14.940
they have mental illnesses. And I didn't really understand it until my son came from college
00:25:20.500
and said, Mom, I'm not going to date American girls because everybody either on Xanax or any
00:25:25.080
psychiatric pills. Everybody talked about their mental illness. Nobody thrived to be
00:25:28.880
normal anymore. Everybody just ride on that crazy horse. It's ridiculous. I mean, I don't
00:25:34.200
like playing crazy, but I'm an addict and I've been to rehab twice, so...
00:25:39.700
And we're basically... I don't disrespect your addict because I used to work with addicts. Just a second,
00:25:43.740
I'm speaking. I'm not disrespecting you being an addict, but I just think when you leave and surround
00:25:49.040
yourself by women that always talk about their mental illness and the pills they're taking,
00:25:53.120
you're going to stay in this paradigm of loop of being psycho. But if you surround yourself by
00:25:58.880
women who don't talk about their mental illness and them being a mother and have to do OnlyFans
00:26:03.040
and all this sorry bullshit, then you're going to become more normal and stabilize.
00:26:07.280
I actually think it's healthy to speak about your mental illness because I think the more we talk
00:26:11.060
about it, the more people are going to not feel ashamed about it.
00:26:14.420
It's not about being a shame. You lost my... Wait a second.
00:26:18.000
Sorry, I'm not disregarding what you're saying,
00:26:20.760
but it's really important for me that you understand
00:26:22.620
my point. It's okay to talk about your mental illness,
00:26:44.260
bad childhood, this, that... That's not what I'm talking about, though.
00:26:48.460
called Shirley's Temple with a focus on mental health
00:26:58.720
I shouldn't be alive right now. The healing journey.
00:27:00.540
It's basically... It's amazing that you do that.
00:27:04.600
care of your mental health. It's amazing that you do that.
00:27:08.300
You don't want to... People throw around the word depression
00:27:12.240
Because when you talk about it, you just bring it into your life
00:27:18.320
I was on a little bit of issue because she's jumping
00:27:26.360
surrounding with women all the time, all the time,
00:27:28.540
talk about their mental illness, you're going to stay
00:27:30.380
mentally ill. But you're saying about it, you're talking about it
00:27:32.340
in a negative way. You're talking about pills and Xanax.
00:27:36.080
If you're an addict, maybe you struggle with pills and Xanax.
00:27:38.260
When you... I'm talking about the regular person
00:27:41.440
There's no regular people. Everybody's taking pills
00:27:44.980
That's not true. I've struggled with my mental health
00:27:51.580
I feel bad for the people because I was that person too.
00:28:15.360
Desiree, do you have a quick response to the TTS?
00:30:32.100
I'm this and I'm this and I'm this and I'm this,
00:33:51.720
so I don't think he would have even brought it up.
00:51:58.180
And the period thing is so fucking funny because I literally started my period before,
00:52:14.620
So now it proves that I'm in sync with him because people are saying he's on his period
00:52:29.340
Brian and I see that you get excited when you look at her.
00:52:38.660
a little baby chick is born and looks and sees whatever is around.
00:52:48.360
Do you ever do meetings in the mirror when you get up every day?
00:52:53.640
Do you talk to yourself in the mirror every day?
00:53:15.400
I really like your personality cause you're really bubbly,
00:53:20.560
And I get secondhand embarrassment for you because I feel like you just say
00:53:37.220
But what I'm trying to tell you is you need to take accountability for the
00:53:40.200
fact that sometimes you just say whatever the fuck you're thinking.
00:53:53.420
but you just talk out of your ass and it's like,
00:54:07.560
Like you're really sabotaging yourself for no reason.
00:54:16.360
she's very outspoken and she used to embarrass the fuck out of me.
00:54:25.360
she used to be like you and she doesn't do that anymore.
00:54:36.080
because it's like you're 38 and you're supposed to be at like this level of
00:54:40.660
evolution to where you have more respect for yourself.
00:54:50.300
You're going to look at this shit five years from now.
00:54:58.560
you need to take three hours in the mirror every fucking day and tell
00:55:01.960
yourself what you want to hear and manifest what you fucking want.
00:55:10.920
I smoke like every day and like that shit helps me.
00:55:39.580
we had a cute little conversation earlier and it was just like eating up in my head.
00:55:44.080
like this girl is really embarrassing the fuck out of herself.
00:55:58.660
I would want her to call me while she's watching was like,
00:56:33.080
they're telling you that it's annoying them or whatever it is,
00:56:38.560
it's something that I'm part of my personality.
00:56:50.140
You're recognizing the problem and you're continuing to do it anyways.
00:56:53.360
That's what honestly is kind of bringing back to your,
00:56:59.220
I think it kind of ties in with your mental illness state.
00:57:01.740
I'm not saying you're not just like in general,
00:57:15.640
If you see a problem and you're recognizing it,
00:57:25.660
Queen Michelle Branch had to say the same today.
00:57:31.260
but the service dog is no longer allowed to stay.
00:57:46.980
I guess technically we could kick a dog off the panel,
00:59:19.120
I do appreciate the feedback about the interrupting.
00:59:37.760
Even if you offered to pay me money to have sexual intercourse with you.
00:59:42.280
I wouldn't even do it under those circumstances.
01:00:01.220
because I think you've been sexually abused so bad.
01:00:23.420
I think you've been so much through hell in your childhood
01:00:27.700
and the way you had to kind of understand who you are as a woman.
01:00:32.720
And I think this is your way to come up to the world.
01:00:41.640
I'm saying this to you because I really feel bad.
01:00:45.840
Ryan just doesn't like to keep going on and on.
01:01:14.860
I really think you need to disconnect from the world,
01:01:31.280
I could see so much pain in your face right now that you always have to explain
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I think you really need to disconnect from everything,
01:02:05.120
it's start to peel all the layers like an onion and figure out who you were
01:02:11.280
Because this is the only time that you can really repair yourself from the
01:02:18.200
you're going to either do something to yourself,
01:02:23.300
or you're going to damage yourself on the media that you could not live with
01:02:51.720
You can't be in a relationship with somebody if they don't want to be in a
01:03:00.100
She's in a relationship with you without your knowledge.
01:03:19.760
didn't you like years ago go to somebody who drew a picture?
01:03:24.420
bring up that picture and tell me that this is not freaking creepy.
01:03:29.440
So I was having like one of those lonely nights.
01:03:38.060
You know those psychic soulmate sketch artist things?
01:04:11.940
I didn't even put it together until I was connecting that I was imprinting on you.
01:04:21.240
but it's a literal like imprinting on a daddy dog.
01:08:56.800
but you've had like friends with benefits or more casual things.
01:09:01.380
are you just seeing this one friends with benefits or do you have?
01:09:19.960
it's everybody has their own like opinions on how they,
01:09:40.180
so you said you're currently have a couple of friends with benefits.
01:10:06.960
but I don't see them like very often cause they're all in different places cause I'm a traveler.
01:10:31.180
Probably I would guess maybe like five or five or six.
01:10:37.360
I'd have to really like actually think about it.
01:10:42.020
going back to you with this new definition of single,
01:12:14.120
I'm sure we can dive a little more into detail a little bit later on,
01:12:21.800
your diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder,
01:12:29.380
How does this manifest itself in your relationships?
01:12:36.880
So like psychopaths cannot really feel like love or like a true,
01:12:49.800
really struggle with trying to have in my life,
01:12:52.220
have like real genuine connections with people.
01:12:56.340
but it's not something that I really like that just like comes to me.
01:13:02.820
within like my relationships I think it's been,
01:13:23.920
obviously my like longest relationship is six months.
01:13:25.780
I've never had like a longterm relationship because it's like really
01:13:28.660
difficult to have it when you like aren't feeling like you're in love with
01:13:45.140
that's why I really enjoy friends with benefits relationships.
01:13:47.460
Cause it's like all the benefits of relationship,
01:13:53.240
When you have basically severe attachment traumas,
01:14:03.120
you have to kind of water down your relationships a little bit so you can
01:14:07.320
And then you slowly integrate that more and more at a time.
01:14:10.540
And pretty soon you'll be able to actually form attachments.
01:14:36.280
very hard to be conscious of my behaviors and actions.
01:14:45.660
And I was like a very toxic person in that relationship.
01:14:49.700
And so I did like a ton of like self-reflection and work and stuff so that I
01:14:57.400
which was the most recent one as like a much healthier minded individual to
01:15:06.780
manipulative in nature that wasn't me just like using him to get what I
01:15:34.880
Do you disclose pretty early on to partners that you are a psychopath or?
01:15:42.420
I don't talk about it unless it has to do with like my social media.
01:15:55.620
And like a lot of people found out like through finding my social media after it went viral
01:16:02.560
I don't talk about it in real life with like people in my real life.
01:16:14.060
I would disclose eventually because I think that's,
01:16:16.940
if you're trying to have like an authentic relationship,
01:16:46.040
especially like if I'm having a committed relationship.
01:17:09.000
I've only had one relationship in which that I could have disclosed it.
01:17:12.400
I never ended up doing that in that relationship.
01:17:21.640
I don't know if I even have a position on this just because this is kind of a rare circumstance,
01:17:27.980
do you think that there is a duty to disclose to a potential person?
01:17:33.900
If you have like something that could impact the relationship in this case,
01:17:47.640
I think it's kind of like a thing you should definitely tell them when you date them.
01:17:58.920
That's the point of having my disorder is that I,
01:18:00.780
I like don't have a lot of emotions so I can have like real conversations with people.
01:18:11.260
because my son is have to date girls from your generation.
01:18:14.960
And if all of you are having these issues and opening your body and your soul to so many guys without thinking of the outcome in the future,
01:18:36.340
you started it with emotional problem emotionally.
01:18:41.420
You're not going to have the enthusiasm you have now.
01:18:43.860
And when in your forties and fifties and late thirties,
01:18:47.860
you're going to be even more damaged emotionally,
01:18:52.560
Because you don't understand that what you're doing is going to be a lot of things.
01:18:58.080
it's like you're taking this cup and put another thing in another thing.
01:19:00.660
And I think you add in more psychological and emotional damage on yourself.
01:19:10.660
instead of sitting and talking about your mental illness,
01:19:37.880
like literally the whole point of my disorders,
01:19:45.060
Like disorder that I don't have emotional attachment.
01:19:47.840
I think you have a lot of emotion from what I see.
01:19:50.760
I think the only thing that repair you and correct you with this line to yourself constantly,
01:19:56.380
it's to get a real love that somebody really love you and caress you.
01:20:10.420
If you had a man in your life that protect you and wanted you only for himself,
01:20:18.740
Do you think a woman's only purpose is for men?
01:20:24.260
do you think a woman's only purpose in life is to be for a man?
01:20:45.220
You know why a lot of men laugh at women and treat us like we're idiots?
01:20:51.340
Majority of men have to deal with women like this.
01:20:55.220
but if majority of men today have to choose to have the mother of their children,
01:21:01.860
that you both can build something together for the future,
01:21:06.640
And you need to deal with somebody that has so many mental issues and so many body counts.
01:21:27.920
I can't hear this bullshit and I'll tell you why.
01:21:35.620
I don't want to hear this shit because literally you're disrespecting your kids.
01:21:39.700
That your kids needs to see you in this podcast talking about yourself like that.
01:21:45.520
You are a mother before you're something in this world.
01:22:13.760
It doesn't matter because soon as you have the baby,
01:22:19.040
Your baby and your kid is the most important thing.
01:22:43.760
these ideas of being so fixated on these ideas of,
02:56:07.900
so will you be better looking at 48 as compared to 38?
02:56:11.380
Will you be better looking at 58 as compared to 38?
02:56:15.860
I don't ascribe to like the traditional views of beauty.
02:56:22.600
I have little like scars and things on my face that remind me of like memories and seasons.
02:56:43.840
I'll keep getting more and more beautiful until I meet my creator.
02:56:54.260
So I'm judging myself based on my whole internal being,
02:57:13.920
Will you be better looking physically in 10 years time?
02:57:21.300
I believe I will feel more beautiful every decade than I did the decade before.
02:57:29.900
Do you think you're better looking now as compared to when you were 20?
02:57:33.220
Do you think you're better looking now as compared to when you were 18?
02:57:41.580
will you be better looking in 10 years time at 33 as compared to now at 23?
02:58:31.800
are you better looking now at 31 than you were at 21?
02:58:37.540
Do you think you'll be better looking at 30 than you are now at 20?
02:58:42.140
Better looking now as compared in 10 years time?
02:58:47.260
but I think because I'm doing what needed to an older age,
02:58:50.920
it's just a privilege to age because some people don't get to 40.
02:59:00.640
I don't think I'm going to look better than now.
02:59:06.420
were you better looking for 10 years ago as compared to now at 50?
02:59:24.040
but I definitely had really bubbly personality,
02:59:26.560
but people always thought I'm like sexy and you know,
03:00:02.960
and then were you better looking at 20 as compared to now at 30?
03:00:11.320
do you think you'll be better looking at 29 as compared to how you look now?
03:00:21.860
you'll be better looking at 39 as compared to now at 19?
03:02:02.180
we at the whatever podcast believe in diversity.
03:02:36.180
in my Christian days when I was an evangelist and I was doing a lot of missionary work.
03:02:44.180
because I had read The Grapes of Wrath and at the end of The Grapes of Wrath,
03:02:48.040
stop because Riley's going to shut the fuck up.
03:02:53.260
There's a man who's starving a mess and the woman's baby dies and so she literally breathes the man like back to nursing life and it just always hit me.
03:03:06.980
well if I'm making the milk I'll just go sit there and feed starving babies all day.
03:03:11.160
So do you have like a story of the mental kids?
03:04:08.380
I'm going to get your reactions to this and we're going to have Grace read this.
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I think I destroyed our relationship trying to compliment my boyfriend.
03:04:22.500
my boyfriend and I are both 28 years old and together for 2.5 years.
03:04:26.660
Yesterday night we were drinking and one thing led to another and I tried to compliment him by saying he is not someone who I would hook up with or be friends with benefits with,
03:04:41.800
I realized how he understood it and tried to clarify it,
03:04:46.740
He told me he needs space to think for a while and left the house.
03:04:49.880
All my friends tell me I messed it up with the guy and tells me it's not a compliment and most men will understand it differently.
03:04:55.640
I think I destroyed our relationship and I am panicking right now.
03:05:00.000
So we're going to go around the table and we're going to,
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he's not someone who I would hook up or be a friends with benefits with,
03:05:45.400
He was upset to the point where it's on the brink of a breakup.
03:05:51.300
I just think guys are scared of like longterm commitments or relationships.
03:06:12.000
like I'm not hot enough for you to do like a one night stand or something.
03:06:19.000
Then we'll actually pull up the responses to the reddit.
03:06:22.920
I think he's just presenting with obviously a narcissistic agenda in the relationship,
03:06:28.400
he was in the relationship to get a certain feeling from her.
03:06:34.140
And when she presented him with that didn't align with what he was wanting from her,
03:06:52.660
And so I think it fucked with him where he took it.
03:06:56.960
And that's why he was in the relationship to feel good about himself.
03:07:01.240
So that didn't make him feel good about himself.
03:07:03.500
And he was done with it because a real relationship,
03:07:13.520
I was confused upon first read because my thought process is not the same as this man's,
03:07:20.580
but I think this man is just upset that she says that she would hook up with people.
03:07:28.860
because obviously her compliment and her eyes was,
03:07:31.720
you're the type of guy that I would take seriously,
03:07:35.920
And I think maybe he's upset that she would take any guy not seriously.
03:07:40.840
My comprehension is he probably felt like she wasn't as sexually attracted to him.
03:07:53.780
And she kind of made it seem like he's just kind of the nice guy.
03:08:13.100
It kind of dumbs down the whole excitement of him being with you.
03:08:16.720
I would feel kind of shitty if I heard that too.
03:08:31.020
Like I don't see you as some like one night hookup,
03:08:44.100
The man finally realized after being in a relationship with this woman,
03:08:48.220
that he's with a hoe and not with a good woman.
03:08:50.400
Cause she do have the capability to have one night stands and random sex.
03:09:37.660
I would just think that if I gave that type of compliment to a guy and he got
03:09:42.380
I probably wouldn't want to be with him anyway.
03:10:07.200
which I feel like is the highest compliment in my opinion,
03:10:09.840
and I was misunderstood and it hurt their feelings.
03:10:29.440
She revealed to him that she has the capability to just,
03:10:34.800
F a guy one night stand and not what she did with him,
03:10:39.260
I didn't do those mental gymnastics in that thought though.
03:10:43.900
Women don't understand at all how a guy thinks.
03:11:05.640
you're the type of guy I want to marry and not just hook up with.
03:11:21.460
don't want girls to hook up and being in a one night stand.
03:11:32.820
you would want to be the guy that she wants a long-term relationship with,
03:11:37.660
but you would also want to be the guy that she would be,
03:11:43.980
or be attracted to enough or be turned on enough to also want casual sex or one night stand from you.
03:11:56.780
I promise you all that man heard was you're the type of guy.
03:12:01.440
even though I've let men who are obviously worse than you hit it without even needing to take me on a date.
03:12:11.720
she's that type of girl that's had those kinds of experiences,
03:12:14.260
but I do think it's kind of more like a dig at him.
03:12:20.660
we want to be the type that you would have a one night stand or have casual sex.
03:12:28.740
but I also want a serious relationship with you.
03:12:34.820
I don't find you sexually desirable enough to have a one night stand with you.
03:12:48.980
So my commentary is just that women want that same equality.
03:12:56.320
And we're your wife that you would want to like do all the things with.
03:13:38.700
I completely understand what you're trying to say,
03:13:40.900
but as all other commenters here have pointed out,
03:13:43.880
what you've actually said is something along the lines of,
03:13:46.420
I've hooked up with better people who are more my type before.
03:13:58.320
said it will make her boyfriend believe that he was her safe beta male option
03:14:01.640
after she got to discover herself with the 1010 guys that she knows that
03:14:07.120
That's one of the worst things you can say to a guy.
03:14:26.420
You were supposed to be saying dumb shit like this in high school,
03:14:35.660
I'll be 100% honest as I would with any guy friend I have.
03:14:38.820
What you said and how you said it makes it look like you had your fun,
03:14:41.640
got to fuck the cool guys you'd want just for sex,
03:14:43.860
and after you decided to go to him because he's a safe option,
03:14:49.620
and make him feel as nothing more than the safe choice.
03:14:53.420
You made him think you're not attracted to him,
03:15:03.320
that you don't feel a raw animal attraction to him.
03:15:07.800
The thing is that meant as settling for someone most of the time,
03:15:15.220
You implied that you don't think he's good looking
03:15:19.320
I would not hook up with you instead of the your husband material.
03:15:22.300
You make him feel like he's not sexually attractive.
03:15:28.840
Makes it look like you settled for him after a life of fun.
03:15:45.240
Davon, thank you for the TTS from earlier, man.
03:15:51.540
You better hit it or her werewolf ass will eat you.
03:16:06.940
Yes, women going around telling us that it's her body,
03:16:09.080
her choice, but gets disgusted when men see them
03:16:29.880
And appreciate what you do for the transporting things in your truck.
03:16:58.920
Well, if we were chatting with a guy and then it comes out into the, you know, like, talking
03:17:06.620
about, like, yay, you know, flaring to each other, then I definitely go straight up and
03:17:11.480
be like, hey, I'm not looking for any materials and da-da-da-da.
03:17:16.660
If you're not, I'm not going to, you know, get into it.
03:17:37.780
So you were saying that if you're just horny or whatever, then?
03:17:47.460
But if it's, like, if it clicks, like, both of us are consenting and both of us are looking
03:17:55.200
You said you have many interesting dates, living hell, but that's still not the best.
03:18:04.960
You start dating at 12 years old, and this is back in El Salvador.
03:18:15.280
So you have stories of pretty interesting types of relationships of different cultures,
03:18:19.200
So I guess really quick, what's the difference dating in El Salvador as compared to this dog?
03:18:46.300
So what's the difference dating Salvador, El Salvador, United States?
03:18:51.360
Well, my experience is I like, first of all, I like more the relationships I had in El Salvador
03:18:59.320
And I'm talking about over when I was 15, not 12.
03:19:12.780
Like, we actually have, like, some type of love.
03:19:22.600
But, like, in here, it's been a lot of more sexualized.
03:19:35.140
It's more like, let's bring another one, another person.
03:19:38.860
But when you get into it, the other persons don't like it.
03:19:54.800
You said that they asked you to bring another person to the relationship?
03:19:58.640
And I'm just like, if I'm not into it, I say no.
03:20:13.740
You can start something with two people and then you want to bring someone else.
03:20:20.260
It's embarrassing that people know that that's what guys are offering you.
03:20:26.560
I said, when that has happened and I'm not, I don't want it, you know, I don't want it,
03:20:36.000
You don't need to be associated with this type of people.
03:20:41.520
They think you're weak and they saw something in you.
03:20:46.840
I don't allow that to put myself in that position.
03:21:26.500
Shirley, I hate bailing on the fence mostly because I hate when people bail on me.
03:21:35.080
Dude, it was been so hard to get you scheduled.
03:22:06.500
Oh, and this is, was this after your Jesse Lee Peterson thing?
03:22:40.600
When a man threatens a woman or when a woman threatens a man or is it equal?
03:23:00.000
So Riley, I'm going to have you just read them for us and then we'll.
03:23:06.620
I really try to be supportive and keep low, keep my low vibrations away from everyone, but
03:23:37.940
J. Cole looks so hot right now after that speech.
03:23:44.880
All the men are mad and that's because they're losers.
03:23:48.580
J. Cole just got a whole new set of groupies from that speech.
03:23:55.700
He wasn't afraid to just be like, yo, this isn't my vibe.
03:24:11.580
When men come in the elevator, they always look you up and down.
03:24:17.640
When I see a man coming towards the elevator, I'm like, close.
03:24:37.300
If any person is approaching, you have to keep it, right?
03:25:07.320
White women, y'all gonna have to get up and stand for something.
03:25:14.700
As a white woman, I find this incredibly fucking disrespectful.
03:25:43.240
If you don't know business, you vote for Kamala Harris.
03:25:44.680
So you don't have the same experience I have when Trump was in office and people were calling
03:26:09.660
Yeah, when he was in office, they put spray paint on my uncles.
03:26:24.000
Wait, I thought Trump, didn't Trump do a lot for the black community?
03:26:28.180
He's the only one that did for the black community.
03:26:33.280
Honey, the Black Lives Matter owned by Jews, not by black.
03:26:53.640
I don't understand how white people just cast a bunch of white people and say they aren't
03:27:00.780
How many black people are way more racist than white people?
03:27:06.780
We don't have the power to oppress white people.
03:27:09.800
My grandfather is black and I'm just black and white people.
03:27:14.800
Do I have the power to stop you from getting a job?
03:27:22.820
All the best jobs literally owned by black people.
03:27:34.100
We should probably change this because this isn't going to go over well.
03:27:54.420
All these countries racist toward each other and everybody hypocrite talking behind each other's
03:28:36.380
I thought you didn't know what they were talking about.
03:29:00.100
His point that he was making is that big franchises have been casting people of color in white
03:29:06.900
It benefits them now, but society has always told black people that they weren't good enough.
03:29:15.660
They constantly tell them that over and over when they put...
03:29:18.740
I'm talking about not just that one show, but there are shows that I've watched with
03:29:23.220
a full cast of white people, and you sit up here and tell me that you guys go a full
03:29:28.120
year of filming, and you tell me you don't cast a single black person, or a single Asian
03:29:32.820
person, or a single Spanish person, any person of color, and there's no person of
03:29:36.880
color in the whole entire show, and you can't tell me that that's not systematically racist?
03:29:46.220
You guys have the privilege to pretend like it's not happening.
03:29:53.740
In every country that the basic is white, naturally, the basic, not just white.
03:30:02.780
Okay, I come from a country that in America, everybody thinks Israel, it's white privilege.
03:30:07.980
Most of the people in Israel are actually black and dark skin, right?
03:30:14.600
If a white person would go to Africa right now, the African are going to be racist to
03:30:22.640
But America, in particular, I'm telling you as an immigrant here, this is the most racist
03:30:30.320
I've seen black that are so racist to white, and I've seen white that's so racist to black.
03:30:36.240
Both of you racist to each other and talk shit about each other.
03:30:39.640
I can say that because I didn't born in this country.
03:30:42.440
Okay, what I'm saying to you is you're absolutely right.
03:30:44.900
Everyone has prejudices, and everyone says little racist things here and there.
03:30:48.500
But what I'm saying is, systematically, white people benefit from the system.
03:30:52.400
They've always been able to benefit from the system in America.
03:30:57.500
I've seen, I've gone to work with the same qualifications as other white women, and they
03:31:04.720
And not because I'm not qualified, not because I'm not this, or I don't look a certain way,
03:31:14.200
And I'm not saying I'm absolved from being racist.
03:31:17.300
I'm saying black people don't have the power to act on their racism.
03:31:28.560
Like, I identify as Jewish, even though I'm half Muslim, right?
03:31:32.140
And I cannot hide, I mean, I can hide my Judaism, whatever, because, you know, I don't
03:31:39.580
When you go to the street, people, of course, are going to prejudge you and assume stuff.
03:31:45.480
But with that being said, I'll give you an example.
03:31:48.280
When the Jews finished the Holocaust, they come to America.
03:31:50.940
Well, let me just finish this sentence, please.
03:31:55.300
When the Jews come to America after the Holocaust, they didn't sit and cry about it.
03:32:01.360
Unfortunately, it's up on you to prove people with your brain.
03:32:07.080
This is the same tired thing I hear from every person that is.
03:32:17.340
People are going to be always judgmental towards your skin color.
03:32:20.340
They're going to judge you that you're not smart, that you're this, that you're that.
03:32:26.440
But it's nothing to do about it except being better, learn more, and prove yourself more to the society.
03:32:36.780
But every black person, we all have the same saying.
03:32:45.120
Because you're always going to have to deal with the little microaggressions.
03:32:49.420
When you go to school, oh, you're pretty for a black girl.
03:32:58.080
Like, people that weren't black, they would say the N-word.
03:33:01.040
To make fun of the fact that black men used to line their hair up a certain way.
03:33:07.400
So, what I'm trying to explain to you is, okay, yeah, cool.
03:33:13.400
But do you have the power to stop a generation or a demographic of people from succeeding in a society like this?
03:33:29.860
I do want to say, though, even though House of Valerian, it's not canon, they're not black in the books.
03:33:47.380
I actually think they cast the actor, Steve Toussaint.
03:34:03.720
It just, it does change the story a little bit.
03:34:06.940
Well, I think it adds to the point of the story that...
03:34:15.800
Well, it makes it more obvious that they're bastards.
03:34:31.380
Making that racial change in the show makes it very obvious...
03:34:38.640
By the way, they totally dropped the ball with season two of House of the Dragon.
03:34:47.440
They let the fucking showrunner from season one...
03:35:16.820
White people are less than 9% of the world's population, and we are forced to be multicultural.
03:35:23.260
You are more likely to get a job in America if you're not white.
03:35:44.420
It seems at every corner, they let me down when I need them the most.
03:36:13.000
It means that the world was developed upon, like, white science.
03:36:17.780
A lot of, like, skin care and stuff that is diagnosed in America does not necessarily apply
03:36:24.760
Yeah, but in Africa, all skin care is for black and not for white people.
03:36:28.000
But it depends on the majority of the population.
03:36:35.500
Listen, Brian is really scared of twerking, for example.
03:36:37.460
Black people proved themselves in the last 50 years not to be stupid.
03:36:41.260
Brian was super traumatized that I had twerking on my Instagram, though.
03:36:44.260
I wouldn't know, but before slavery suppressed black, didn't let them read and write, treat
03:36:50.980
But evolution proved that they are not like that.
03:36:53.380
They're smart, they're capable, they can do anything.
03:36:56.060
So, you know, if somebody's racist, they're stupid.
03:37:01.020
I didn't say it was on me, but I'm saying it affects generations.
03:37:06.680
It affects the collective consciousness that you can't do anything about.
03:37:08.820
You should take that pain and you should take that and prove them wrong.
03:37:17.640
I need a man, not these little-ass boys around these parts.
03:37:26.920
A man who's going to be assertive and speaks with intention and moves with intention.
03:38:00.720
Like, my friends going through shit all the time and they do so much for their men.
03:38:04.980
Or you're with a man for four years and you spend all this energy and you put all this time.
03:38:12.680
You can't even have- a lot of men, when I go on dates with them, they can't even have a conversation.
03:38:20.420
Because you pick, to begin with, the low-level men.
03:38:26.900
It's just more like, where are you finding these types of men?
03:38:39.960
And I'm saying, like, you pick up people you're around more.
03:38:42.860
So, if you're at a bar, if you're at a party, you're probably not going to find the most, like, straightforward man like that.
03:38:49.300
But I think that's the whole concept of, like, dating.
03:38:52.120
You get to know people and you find out you don't like them, so you don't talk to them anymore.
03:38:57.740
Not necessarily saying, I want a man right now.
03:39:00.120
But what I am saying is, yeah, I feel like it's very hard to communicate with men just from the whole, the gender wars.
03:39:07.260
The women talk too much or women don't know how to please men.
03:39:10.280
And then it's, I hate men because men don't do this and don't do that.
03:39:13.600
Like, I feel like the conversation with men can, I feel more superior sometimes when I'm speaking because I feel like, yo, like, I could talk to a man that's 45 and then talk to a man that's 28.
03:39:25.740
And they both have the same intellect, the level of intellect.
03:39:29.160
And it's, like, what's going on where I'm online and I'm seeing men say these really small, immature things.
03:39:38.060
The man where they feel like they, like, my friend, she was going on a date with this guy and she thought he was a really nice guy.
03:39:45.240
And he sits up and he tells her that he's not going to open the door for her because she's spoiled and she needs to.
03:39:58.780
But it's just, like, why are men thinking like this?
03:40:01.860
That is a very inferior way to think when you feel like you have to.
03:40:24.680
You're dating a woman and you tell her that you're not going to open the door for her.
03:40:40.440
You want to parade me around the city with you.
03:40:48.760
Stuff like that makes me feel like, yeah, the male species is inferior.
03:41:00.900
Listen, there's so many good men, hardworking men.
03:41:03.580
The problem that women, sorry, I'm not saying it in a bad way, but the majority of women
03:41:07.520
today, that they are low-level women, they aim into a high-level man, and they expect
03:41:16.780
You need to aim to men that are in your level and not be above your level, and then you won't
03:41:28.260
Men that, sorry, like if it's your level, you go with men, because honestly, high-level
03:41:33.300
men, high-level men would never date a girl, they're going to have sex with six multiple
03:41:47.120
I thought we were going to talk about like personality and intellect and like that.
03:41:50.520
But that's your personality to sit with multiple guys, they're not going to want to.
03:41:57.940
If you can't find a good man literally means I'm not good enough to attract a good man.
03:42:05.160
If you're surrounded by bad men, it's because you're low-level yourself.
03:42:14.000
Put a dash between the end of Giovanni and the C.
03:42:18.260
Just put a dash, it'll change the pronunciation.
03:42:22.360
Just, thank you for the TTS man, really appreciate it.
03:42:25.600
It was also crazy, I let it, just a funny story, I let a guy drive my car and like, it was fine.
03:42:32.020
I let a man drive my car and like, I sat, I stood at my door and he walked around to the other side.
03:42:37.320
Like, I gave him the keys and he walked around to the other side and I just stood at my door and I was just like, direct icon to the key.
03:42:42.760
And he was all like, get in the car, what are you doing?
03:42:55.500
I was like, every man in my life opens my door, but I'm a very independent woman also.
03:43:23.520
If you believe in equality, why should a guy open the door for you?
03:43:31.480
Because, so, I feel like if we're doing equality based on, like, equal amounts of give, then,
03:43:38.860
like, that's just, that's not how the world works.
03:43:41.100
The way that relationships are supposed to be equal is that men bring certain things to
03:43:46.980
relationship, women bring certain things to relationship, and it makes a whole.
03:43:50.200
Like, all those things together come together and make a whole.
03:43:53.260
Everybody provides something different to the relationship, and that's, like, the equality.
03:43:56.480
You don't want a partner that's doing everything in the relationship and then another partner
03:44:01.600
You need two partners that are both doing different things.
03:44:04.760
Okay, question with the equality thing, because I don't understand it, to be honest, which is
03:44:11.480
why I can't say I want equality, but I always feel like when I hear, like, the equal thing,
03:44:16.580
I feel like it's more about, like, you guys having, like, equal, like, jobs and, like, equal pay
03:44:22.460
I didn't know that it was more about equal in a relationship, because a lot of women,
03:44:28.200
there's also women that are gay that want equality from men, too.
03:44:56.500
It got an emotional support animal, service animal, the best training.
03:45:07.220
So, will you, like, if a man tells you to do something, will you do it?
03:45:11.980
If I trust him, and, like, we're in a relationship, yes.
03:45:14.440
In the past, like, I feel like I've had troubles with that, like, kind of letting a man...
03:45:21.540
If a man is leading, and we're in a relationship that's equal, and we trust each other,
03:45:28.520
Like, if we're in a relationship where I'm with him, he's with me, we're with nobody
03:45:35.160
else, we live together, we're, like, building a relationship, and we're meeting each other
03:45:42.220
Like, we meet each other halfway with, like, our...
03:45:50.560
No, I don't think I've ever been with a man that hasn't paid all my bills, but that's
03:45:56.680
No, no, no, that's not equal, but I'm saying, like, emotionally equal.
03:46:00.480
Like, if I'm with a man, and he meets my intellect at the same level, and he...
03:46:06.140
If we share the same, if we're compatible, and we love each other, F, yeah, like, he's gonna...
03:46:12.640
I'm submissive anyway in relationships, so for me, it's, like, yeah, definitely.
03:46:23.540
First of all, there's no such a thing as equality between men and women.
03:46:36.920
Men can have children until they're 60 or 70 and get a younger woman.
03:46:40.420
So, women have 40 years to utilize their youth and beauty and brain in order to build something
03:46:46.880
for the future that brings them a completely different value.
03:46:50.240
The problem today in the world, that women try to compete men, be like a man, be equal
03:46:55.000
to a man, and they forget about it and don't realize it.
03:46:58.440
And the problem, when they wake up, it's way too late.
03:47:04.200
And then they got miserable and go take Xanax and come here and talk in shit.
03:47:09.580
No, I get what you're saying because, no, I don't believe in the equal thing.
03:47:17.240
But what I do agree with, I don't agree with, I feel like sometimes the whole masculine-feminine
03:47:27.280
I feel like sometimes it's okay for the woman to lead, and I feel like sometimes it's okay
03:47:34.440
Like if you guys are really meeting each other halfway in a relationship and you trust each
03:47:38.280
other, my ex, like sometimes like we'd be at a restaurant and he'd like, they'd mess
03:47:50.620
Wait, your boyfriend, he would ask you if they got the order wrong that you should say something?
03:47:58.820
Like, because I would always talk to them and we don't, they'd fix it.
03:48:12.920
Yeah, but that's because it comes so naturally.
03:48:31.000
I said three words and she can't fucking help herself.
03:48:48.920
Have you ever been like jumped or beaten up for saying stuff like that?
03:48:52.400
No, I don't because I have hot white privilege.
03:48:55.700
So people are actually very nice to me usually.
03:49:02.200
I didn't have to play by the normal rules of society.
03:49:14.480
No, it's like, I think I was just going to say it's if there's something wrong with the
03:49:17.440
order, you can just be like, oh, hey, excuse me.
03:49:26.480
No, you just say, oh, I didn't want ketchup on my burger.
03:49:28.780
No, sometimes they're like, no, you didn't say no ketchup.
03:49:35.840
I would never ask my girlfriend to like, can you please talk to the waitress for me?
03:49:50.220
Riley, can you please talk to the waitress for me?
03:50:01.620
You guys can't take a back seat if a woman is in control.
03:50:04.600
No, even if I was with a male friend, I would be like, oh, Connor, can you please talk to
03:50:23.780
It's just like, oh, hey, I think there's a mix up.
03:50:26.260
If it's that big of a deal, honestly, if it's a minor thing, I'm just going to be like,
03:50:44.160
You were just like, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, boo, man.
03:50:50.180
So let's say you go to a restaurant where you have to go to the counter to order.
03:50:55.280
And if your boyfriend was like, babe, can you order for me?
03:51:05.760
It's just, he's like, they didn't bring us the thing or they didn't put this here.
03:51:16.180
And we'll be like looking at the mill if the mill is trash.
03:51:24.020
So when you go and you get bad service, it's like, he doesn't want to be the angry.
03:51:28.740
He just doesn't want to be the angry black man going off on like the waiter.
03:51:37.520
Like, but to them, they don't see it as angry black woman.
03:51:43.440
So I don't think if a black man makes a complaint about the food, I don't think that doesn't
03:51:50.700
But you got to understand he's like, that's what I'm saying.
03:51:54.360
The black experience is so intricate because like to black men, they don't want to come
03:52:00.820
Because it's like, it's a thing within the black community.
03:52:03.300
You don't want to over talk or you don't want to sound assertive because people might
03:52:09.120
I've never been in your place, so I cannot judge you.
03:52:13.680
If they fuck up your wing order, you're going to be like, oh, babe, babe, can you talk to
03:52:23.380
You just don't want to come off like the angry black man.
03:52:28.840
This is why actually when I go to restaurants and I'm, you know, if like I'm out of the
03:52:33.400
restaurant with a girl, um, I don't want to come off as an angry white man because of
03:52:40.640
So any, I actually instruct, I tell my girlfriend, like my girlfriend, if I'm, you know, whatever,
03:52:48.480
I'll be like, Hey, can you just, can you just order for me?
03:53:14.120
He's in love with Desiree secretly, but he just doesn't want to stay in the apartment.
03:53:33.860
People, even Andrew was like, Oh, so Brian, you're going to hit it?
03:53:55.800
But I do want to ask the girls like question about if you like start liking a guy, but
03:54:14.200
And when you deny them, they try to go talk to your friends after.
03:54:19.160
Like, they're going to tell us about that also.
03:54:31.840
Would you rather be stuck in the woods with a random man or random bear?
03:54:38.960
Now, the scenario here is there's no motivations as to why the man's in the forest.
03:55:00.240
I have a question about, is it like a forest as in it can't be a polar bear?
03:55:28.000
Maybe, but honestly, I think it's just because, like, what if, what if I can, like, tame the bear?
03:55:34.500
Like, what if I can, like, actually teach it to do, like, what I need it to do?
03:55:37.920
Get the Russian, get the Russian, get the Russian, get the Russian, you guys, I was
03:55:44.040
on the show, like, maybe, what, two weeks ago or something, and there was a, there was
03:55:47.560
a Russian girl on here that's not racist, like, that's what, like, and she was saying
03:55:51.760
She was saying that she would, like, pet bears, cuddle with them in Russia.
03:55:55.920
I mean, bears aren't, like, actually, like, inherently aggressive.
03:55:58.280
But she went to the extent of saying she would rather go to a bear cave with a mama and a
03:56:05.740
papa bear and cubs than go to a frat house and ask for directions.
03:56:10.720
She was full, full-heartedly was, like, a 30-minute conversation.
03:56:16.840
Because, like, I can tame it, like, I can tell it what, like...
03:56:34.680
What if I do have skills and you don't even know about them?
03:56:49.620
I mean, you can learn anything on YouTube these days, so it's not impossible.
03:56:58.540
If you ask any survivalists, I think they would rather pick a man than a bear.
03:57:02.500
I mean, why are they on there teaching the youth of America?
03:57:05.180
Has anybody in this room, like, actually come face-to-face with a bear before?
03:57:13.060
And I chose a man reluctantly, but, like, bears aren't really, like, that aggressive,
03:57:20.720
They're really not, like, inherently aggressive.
03:57:23.620
They only become aggressive when you're, like, threatening them or in their territory
03:57:28.720
But I do think it's, like, more likely that the man's probably not going to harm you
03:57:34.320
But, like, I don't think it's, like, that crazy of a leap for people to say bear over man
03:57:43.860
And all of you guys can, like, say, oh, my God, bears are so scary.
03:57:47.620
None of you guys have come across a bear in the woods.
03:57:50.800
But bears are more unpredictable being dropped in the woods with egg beans.
03:57:58.300
Like, if I had to defend myself, I would want to defend myself against a man.
03:58:05.880
Like, the odds of you being dropped in the woods with a bear and it eating you is, like, this,
03:58:10.180
you know, much higher than being with a man who ends up being Ed Gein, who's going to
03:58:21.960
But for the last 45 minutes, you have screeched into the mic after every remark.
03:58:26.980
You were only annoyed you were getting less attention.
03:59:12.940
Like, what, like, scares you from being in the woods with a man?
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It's not that I'm, like, scared of being, like, not being with a man.
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Like, in my head, it was honestly, like, the question was just like, you know what?
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It was just like, it was not that freaking serious.
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You're going to probably walk up to the damn bear.
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So, do you think that there's a greater risk of being attacked by the man as compared to
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There is a greater risk of being with the bear.
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I don't think labeling it was like, that's right.
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Like, if I did want to pick the bear, like, okay, whatever.
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The point I was trying to make is you don't have to justify it.
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I was just giving her permission because everybody was attacking her.
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But she doesn't know how to have a normal conversation.
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Who is the primary victim of war, men or women?
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Who is the primary victim of war, men or women?
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Aren't there more men than women in the military?
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Well, I would say in like civilian victims, probably women, but in like total victims,
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Having negative thoughts towards men, having bias against men.
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Like, I mean like, telling them not to do something, they cannot do something?
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So, can you be, can people, can men or women be sexist towards women?
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Does she know what, do you know what sexist means?
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Give me some time to think, because, damn, hold on.
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Basically, it's like, for example, if a girl tells you that, oh, you're a girl, if they
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Be like, you can't do that because you're a man.
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What do you, what do you think about when you're like, when you're like, oh, that,
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Well, they can't wear, like, feminine stuff because of a man.
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Like, even heterosexual men are starting to see their nails.
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Like, they feel that you're feminine because you're a man.
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So when we should not be a man, no nail polish.
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I feel like there's not even a majority of men in the country.
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That's not the men that you're going to date on in everyday life.
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Well, there's a lot of influencers now, though.
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You want to follow the cattle or you want to be individual?
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I'm sure, like, Trump and all these political figures are getting a little bit of makeup
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But in everyday life, you want to date a man that before he goes out, he wears makeup.
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So all you're saying is that there are the outliers who have reasons.
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Men, listen, men that would take care of you and treat you like a queen and do everything
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for you and be like a real, real man, caveman, it's not a man that would dare to wear makeup.
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You don't have benefits if he's a friend with benefits.
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It was benefits because he would pay for everything for me.
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He would give me money for things that I wanted.
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But, hold on, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.
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And you're saying that these types of men aren't providers?
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I have a real-life example of a man being a provider.
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Let me educate you, this man, not just that he's not a provider, right?
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This man, okay, is a man that literally uses you as a sexual tool.
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If he wears makeup, he's bisexual, and he gives you money for having sex with him,
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you're just a little hoe that he keeps on the side to satisfy these sexual needs.
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Who do you think is getting more out of this relationship?
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I wouldn't be with someone that's my preference.
04:07:16.420
You don't want to be with a man that his feminine mentality controls.
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You don't want to be with a man that his feminine mentality controls more than his masculine mentality.
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Because if you want to be with a man that has feminine mentality,
04:07:38.980
They used to wear the white powder on their face and the wigs because it was just a cultural trend.
04:07:47.320
Whether it's makeup or it's a certain style of dress, a certain haircut, a certain beard or no beard,
04:08:01.980
I have a question going back to the original point.
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But who do you think is getting more out of a purely sexual relationship where the man is providing financially for the woman?
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Do you think the man is getting more out of the relationship or the woman is getting more out of the relationship?
04:08:20.180
Because a man, listen, when a guy have, I wanted to tell you that before.
04:08:25.260
For him to spend on a girl $10,000 or $5,000 and keep her as a side hoe, it's no problem.
04:08:31.600
The girl, the desperate that for her $10,000, it's a lot of money.
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She think, she put her value like, oh my God, he spent $10,000 on me.
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But when a guy have so much money, for him, it's nothing.
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And he can take you, he can take her, he can take another guy.
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Do you think the girl isn't benefiting at all from that financial aspect?
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Because let's say you got used to have a guy that spent a lot of money on you for sex, right?
04:09:02.700
When you get a little bit older, you're not going to have this market of men anymore.
04:09:06.560
They want to spend money on you because you lost your youth.
04:09:08.700
Then you're going to stand there and you have no other qualification and you're going to
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feel so depressed and so bad because the only trade you had, it's your youth to sell your
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And then you're going to wake up when you're used to the good life.
04:09:20.500
You used to buy the Chanel bags and to go to vacation and to take pictures on private
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They're going to replace you for a younger model and why are you going to have nothing?
04:09:30.180
So do you think men and women have sexual inequality?
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The majority of problem of women, you want to know what it is?
04:09:40.000
Women are so stubborn, they don't want to accept reality.
04:09:48.060
Women cheat with their makeup, with their nails, with their plastic surgery.
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It's not necessarily really bad because it's happened since the Bible time.
04:09:59.920
But with that being said, because women have that ability to lie and manipulate more to
04:10:05.840
attract certain men into their life, they're more in a problem when they get older.
04:10:11.520
Either I'm successful, having money, I can, you know, change multiple women or whatever
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He's giving you, he's giving it to you straight, right?
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Or, you know, if he wants you for a serious relationship.
04:10:25.360
Women, okay, the opposite of thinking, women say, oh my God, I got a sugar daddy.
04:10:34.080
But they don't understand that just one of a whole trail of women that they can buy with
04:10:46.200
So do you feel like you're attracting a certain type of man with that?
04:10:54.700
When I had my son, when I had my son, my boobs fell to my knees, so I had to cut them and
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My whole life, my boobs were like this, if you want to know.
04:11:12.460
It doesn't mean if I'm sexy and I like sex and I like to dress a little bit sexy, not
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You could be sexy, you could be intelligent, you can be a businesswoman, but the most important
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thing to understand what is the woman before you're bringing all this to the table.
04:11:32.140
So you said that men and women aren't sexually equal.
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Because, I told you this before, you didn't understand.
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Because the woman value, it's in the first 40 years of her life, right?
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I'm not talking about 20 years ago, 40 years ago.
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Now, in our days, the prime of a woman, it's her 40s, right?
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In America, listen, I see this in a lot of podcasts, Brian.
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I see it in a lot of podcasts that you guys are very extreme.
04:12:18.460
I'm not talking about a woman that needs to get married when she's 24 and have kids.
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A woman that had kids and become to her 40 and got divorced and want to date men,
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she still have a little bit of time when she's in her 40s.
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If she is a young woman like her and she needs to get married and have kids,
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But what I'm trying to say in general, that the woman, her trade, it's her youth.
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And when you pass the prime of the youth, it affects how you bring kids.
04:12:50.760
It affects how many ones want to date you and be with you.
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And if you don't have an extra value like your brain, who you are as a person,
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if you're a nurturing woman, if you have patience, if you know how to treat a man,
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I'm not saying that women in her 50 and her 40 and her 60 don't have value.
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Obviously, they're not going to look for a young man.
04:13:12.220
I see a lot of women in my age that we go out and say,
04:13:21.460
They only want to put you in bed and use you and have the experience
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by having sex with an older man, with an older woman.
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And they're going to tell their friends, oh, look, I'm banging this 50-year-old.
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they want to tell themselves because you look good.
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It's like I would go out and I would say, oh, I'm sexy.
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I'm not going to do it, first of all, because I have a man in the house.
04:13:49.860
I think you're attractive, but I think you're young.
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But I think your producer is way more attractive.
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He could be my son, so I don't even look at him like that.
04:14:06.400
We have a couple more things we got to cover here.
04:14:08.680
So going back to some of these questions, can you be racist towards white people?
04:14:25.360
I feel like racism is one of those things where it only works if it affects the demographic
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And I say that when I mean that, I say, if I'm going to work a job, I don't have the
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I don't have the power to stop a white girl from getting into college.
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And don't use that affirmative action shit, because I don't even know what, I've never
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even seen affirmative action and how it helps people of color.
04:15:06.920
Let me get everybody to answer this first, and then I'll think about it.
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I'll give you 30 seconds to give an answer, but then I'm going to move it on.
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I think in the African-American society and black society in general, in America, I'm not
04:15:23.720
talking outside of America, a lot of the people, what I've seen, they go against each other.
04:15:34.520
Like, everything is about money and how much they get.
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And I've seen it, and I say, how this society could grow if everybody against each other?
04:15:41.160
Like, if you see the Jewish society or the Arab Muslim society, everybody's Spanish, exactly.
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When you see a black homeless on the street, they just want to take money.
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And when you see a Mexican, they would never stand and ask for money.
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They would give you flowers, give you something.
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Spanish people have always had my back, by the way.
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And a lot of intelligent people that I met here were from the African-American community.
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And I'm like, that's too bad that you guys don't support each other.
04:16:13.620
I do want to get on to the topic of body count.
04:16:16.380
So, earlier on in the show, I think, Riley, you said something about this topic vaguely.
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Like, why is it that women get judged for this?
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Or I don't want to put words in your mouth, but you had a pretty strong position on it.
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I hate body count because I feel like you don't even really know a person.
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Like, just somebody telling you that they've been with...
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Like, if I date a guy and he tells me he's been with a hundred...
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I feel like a lot of times the whole body count thing, it's like, it doesn't even really
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Like, I'm not going to know how many people you've actually been with.
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If you're being a hundred percent honest with me and I ask you the question, okay.
04:17:16.860
I don't really feel like it's my place to judge somebody for who they were with or what their
04:17:22.380
I'm not going to sit here and diminish a person or a man that's like, oh, well, I've been
04:17:27.120
with 150 women, but that was a part of my past and they're trying to work towards their
04:17:32.400
How can a person evolve and grow if we're going to constantly judge them for their body count?
04:17:38.600
The reason for me would be it would give you an insight if you're going to date somebody
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and it has nothing to do with judging them, but maybe this would show you an insight of
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their life, how promiscuous they are, how many, you know, what kind of sexual habits
04:17:54.740
Like, it just shows you, do I want to be with someone like this?
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If you're looking for commitment and see like what, you know, I, what I'm asking for,
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And if someone else just has red flags, you know, high body counts like that, it's probably
04:18:11.900
not for me because they're probably, you know, patterns repeat themselves.
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I get the guy who has a more sex positive outlook could think it's a red flag if the
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It's literally just side of the same whole point.
04:18:28.520
If a guy comes at me and he's a virgin, I'm like, no thank you.
04:18:34.880
I think the whole thing about body count, I think the important thing about body count is
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that you and your partner have the same view on body count.
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And I think that's the only important fact about body count.
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The only thing that matters is that you and your partner both agree on your views on body
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That's all that matters for a successful relationship.
04:18:53.860
How many times have you dated a man and asked him like how many women and he told you the
04:18:59.520
Like, I just feel like most times when those questions come up, a lot of people are insecure
04:19:12.120
I've never, I haven't been with that many men, so I can't necessarily say where I'm at
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Cause I don't think I've ever asked a guy like, how many women have you been with?
04:19:20.660
Like, like my last relationship, I'm sure my ex, he was out there.
04:19:25.820
Um, but I don't think that that reflected him and like how he treated me.
04:19:30.740
I think how he treated me was a reflection of how he felt about me or how he felt like
04:19:38.740
Like if you date a guy and you know, he's been with a lot of women, but he's trying
04:19:42.560
his hardest to change and he wants to have a lot.
04:19:45.000
I think, I just think it helps you get like, kind of take your own perspective.
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But yeah, I just feel like it's a case to case thing.
04:20:02.660
Like if you're uncomfortable with a man who's been with 150 women, I'm pretty sure a lot
04:20:08.500
But then if you see like, oh, he's a nice guy, like he's trying to do this.
04:20:18.320
Obviously an ex-addict can find redemption and forgiveness, but I rather date a non-ex-addict.
04:20:24.260
Same way a hoe can find redemption and forgiveness, but it's not preferred.
04:20:35.060
Do you think that men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count?
04:20:47.540
You're sleeping with every person that person has slept with and it's true promiscuously leads
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Well, I'm going around the table right now on this, so.
04:21:06.720
Do you think a man is insecure if he asks you about body counts?
04:21:10.260
Well, do you think a man's, not asks, do you think a man is insecure if he cares about
04:21:25.600
So let's say, for example, he wouldn't date you or another woman because of her body count.
04:21:35.940
But would you think it would be immature or wrong for a man to make that determination?
04:21:43.260
I mean, everyone's entitled to their own opinion.
04:21:49.600
Wait, instead of just, so just, you can state your own position instead of just saying
04:21:53.980
Well, I was going to say agree, but my position is that it's not inherently insecure for somebody
04:22:00.160
Again, I'm going to reiterate that I think the only thing that matters about body count is
04:22:03.760
that you and your partner agree on your views on body count.
04:22:14.380
It's just like if you like girls that don't work, like there's a thing where some men that
04:22:21.080
are professional don't like women that wear fake nails.
04:22:24.560
Like, I don't think, I feel like if you're not comfortable with dating a girl who's been
04:22:31.720
If you've only been with two women, yeah, you're going to be like, nah, that's not myself.
04:22:40.740
I think men and women completely different because when a man have sex, he goes inside the woman
04:22:46.840
and take it out of himself and forget about it.
04:22:48.920
When a woman have sex with a man, I know you're going to laugh, but it's a scientific fact.
04:22:52.600
When a woman have sex with a man, whatever the man live inside her, it stays in her DNA
04:22:56.860
forever and changes her, changes her emotion, changes her feeling.
04:23:04.360
So if a woman been with 100 men along the road, 10 years later, 20 years later, psychologically,
04:23:10.860
she's not going to be balanced because of all the men she's been with.
04:23:14.380
So of course it's matter because men are completely different from a woman.
04:23:17.580
Men can sleep with a woman and he completely don't have feeling.
04:23:21.820
He's taken it out and he's going about his way.
04:23:28.660
Unless she's working in the prostitution business and she see him as a dollar.
04:23:40.900
I think it's how you value yourself and your partner.
04:23:47.360
I would prefer a guy to not want me to have a high body count.
04:23:54.920
If body count doesn't matter, if body count doesn't matter, what's your body count?
04:24:06.600
So honestly, I'm not 100% sure, but I would say probably around 50.
04:24:36.620
Well, I want to say I'm a billionaire, but it's not true.
04:24:47.800
Out of respect to my son, because he's watching the show, I'm not going to answer that, but
04:24:51.780
I only say that I haven't been with a lot of men.
04:25:05.200
I don't have a specific number, but I was more than 25.
04:25:14.300
I wonder if I would have to count and I have to like...
04:26:03.860
There's not like birth certificates in the El Salvador?
04:26:26.560
I'm not going to say it on the internet, but it's single digits.
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Multiply it by three and that's the real number.
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They're not coming out of the woodworks anymore, you know?
04:27:17.940
You said, it's a thing for us genius, black ghetto slave souls inside sexy white bodies.
04:27:30.540
I just meant that there is a white privilege that comes with looking this way.
04:27:37.360
However, I was born in a very similar family to you with the psychopath dad and getting kidnapped and the whole situation.
04:27:48.760
Like, I literally would go try to talk to school counselors, police, counselors, everybody, friends, parents, everything.
04:27:54.700
And it's like, they just looked at this pretty little white girl who does really good in school and it was like it wasn't computing.
04:28:29.320
I've seen more ghettos of white here than black.
04:28:34.260
I've seen white talking shit about black, but then I saw the difference between the family.
04:28:40.100
Like, the black go to church, they raise the kids really nice, and then the white were completely trashed.
04:28:47.940
I understand that not everybody fits into the stereotype.
04:28:52.020
I'm just making a huge generality based on systemic racism.
04:29:00.400
And it's always an excuse for the way that you act.
04:29:03.220
There's always these, like, I was raised in racism and trauma and this.
04:29:06.320
Well, you all asked me what my trauma process was.
04:29:07.980
You still know why everybody in this life has a trauma just from being born.
04:29:13.440
Literally, I have been being asked what my thought process was, so I was just explaining it.
04:29:17.180
And you have not once taken accountability the entire night.
04:29:20.720
What do you want me to take accountability for?
04:29:22.080
Just when someone tells you something, just be like, you know what?
04:29:23.740
That was really wrong, or that was messed up, and I'm sorry.
04:29:25.880
If I don't believe there's anything wrong with it, I'm not going to apologize.
04:29:41.920
You said, it's a thing for, when it came to your different personas, it's a thing for
04:29:46.140
us genius black ghetto slave souls inside sexy white bodies.
04:30:05.040
Their DNA stayed inside of you, and you think you're black.
04:30:07.380
You have too much black DNA inside of you, so you think you're black.
04:30:27.700
So all the white guys didn't like me, the black guys...
04:30:38.660
Literally, my whole family of white women were starving themselves.
04:30:41.920
I had horrible eating disorders from the time I was, like, seven years old, starving my ass off.
04:30:48.700
My asses only came back because of the fucking Kardashians.
04:30:50.720
Desiree, I'm only three years younger than you.
04:31:00.100
I believed that there was something wrong with me.
04:31:06.880
I literally grew up, like, with everybody being, like, worshipping me because I was a white girl with ass.
04:31:21.240
Basically, the subtext of what you're saying...
04:31:23.240
I had women of my family getting liposuction, like, getting their asses sucked out.
04:31:28.480
Basically, the subtext of what she's saying is, I've been with so many guys, so many black guys.
04:31:34.660
I'm overused myself emotionally, sexually, vaginally, whatever you say that word, right?
04:31:47.080
I would not talk about it because what you do, you bring in all the predators towards you.
04:31:51.180
When you get out of here, all the black men and white men and everybody, what else?
04:32:12.840
I changed it to doing OnlyFans so that I completely control my own sex.
04:32:19.000
It's the way that I'm making something good out of my fucked up pen.
04:32:25.040
Because OnlyFans legitimize you being sexually abused over and over again.
04:32:30.420
When you get money, you don't think you're being sexually abused, but you are.
04:32:33.860
Because if you were not being sexually abused, you wouldn't feel comfortable.
04:32:36.720
I felt way more sexually abused being fucked by my husband that I couldn't stand inside my marriage.
04:32:42.440
When I got out of my marriage, I actually started having fun having sex.
04:32:47.180
And I learned that these fuckers out here were just basically training a date for a fuck anyway.
04:33:07.500
Riley, can't you just say, I'm sorry, that was a racist comment, and I shouldn't have said that.
04:33:12.200
Well, I'm sorry to the white women that I was...
04:33:17.460
That we need to stand up for what we believe in.
04:33:23.560
I'm just trying to understand what the slave souls is.
04:33:26.820
Also, I do want to point out that Desiree dropped the hard R.
04:34:01.900
Like, black people say it amongst each other with the A.
04:34:06.180
A at the end, but like, slave masters used to say it with the E-R.
04:34:11.240
So we say it to each other as like a term of endearment.
04:34:16.360
But like, when people say the hard R, it's like...
04:34:23.820
I couldn't have gotten away with this up until 38.
04:34:27.540
Why the fuck do you think I still enrolled with it?
04:34:28.900
Because one day, three, guys can take you in the street to rape you.
04:34:31.980
Obviously, I get away with it enough of the times that I don't give a shit.
04:34:34.440
Obviously, you don't give a shit about yourself.
04:34:42.060
Obviously, you don't give a shit about yourself.
04:34:49.500
Grew up in a little crack house of whites until I was adopted by a black woman at 13.
04:34:55.380
I still acknowledge no part of me is black or has black experiences.
04:35:09.020
I don't know where the fuck it came from then, if not black.
04:35:16.240
So, wait, Desiree, do you consider yourself black?
04:35:23.140
She thinks black guys like her because she has a big butt and she don't.
04:35:32.640
I hope you're not going to put a week next week.
04:35:34.880
You probably shouldn't say this in a room where there are black people present.
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Don't just do it with your attitude in front of people.
04:35:47.720
Your attitude is the most ghetto I've seen, more than any black girl.
04:35:51.520
I knew I was going to get it up if it wasn't brought to my attention to speak on.
04:35:55.940
Just because you feel like you have some close proximity to blackness does not give you the right to say that.
04:36:07.200
This was never supposed to be an exploited, out-in-public conversation.
04:36:20.580
A private message between us that I never knew was going to get blasted out there.
04:36:29.040
Don't say it right there because that's the problem I have.
04:36:33.620
That's the problem I have with people like you.
04:36:35.820
Because you say it in private and then you think, oh, well, I wasn't going to say it.
04:36:45.020
So do you say this to your other friends that aren't black?
04:36:51.920
My personal friends or yes, nobody gives a shit.
04:36:56.500
I just hope you're going to get a shit out of you.
04:37:03.140
I'm like came up from the day when it didn't...
04:37:04.520
Did you guys see that white girl on TikTok that went viral for saying the N-word and
04:37:10.660
She said it with the A and she didn't say it with the E-R.
04:37:15.500
I just hope you're not going to be in the night lonely in some corner and some black girl
04:37:19.280
is going to corner you and beat the shit out of you.
04:37:28.040
Like it's just offensive to even want to say the word.
04:37:36.260
Why do you want to say the word to show my love?
04:37:37.860
Why do you want to say the word to show my love?
04:37:38.200
Because it's fucking words out of generation to generation to generation to generation.
04:37:45.680
I've been born into a culture that gave a shit about these words.
04:37:49.400
You're proving the point that the majority of black women who go with black men, it's
04:37:54.420
It's not high level white women that go in with black men.
04:38:02.040
No, I don't feel like that because my brother, his girlfriend, she's so sweet.
04:38:08.280
And like she's the sweetest person I've ever met.
04:38:15.500
And if they're treating him like crap or like talking crap to him, it's because he's
04:38:22.940
He deserves to be shitted on by these women because he treats them like trash.
04:38:27.160
But it never comes about to where they get to say the N-word with an E-R at the end.
04:38:39.900
All the other white women that I'm friends with...
04:38:43.420
It's a waste of time to argue with you because you're so dumb and flat.
04:38:51.940
No, but she said that she should be able to say the N-word.
04:39:00.800
This 19-year-old girl here, way smarter than you.
04:39:06.020
You could be her mother and she can school you with her brain and you're just so stupid.
04:39:12.920
I've never met anybody who's more stupid than you in my life.
04:39:16.720
This 19-year-old girl, 100 times more smart than you.
04:39:19.760
And you have the audacity to sit here and try to think you're schooling either woman.
04:39:31.000
I just think it's crazy to say you've made it this far.
04:39:33.700
Because what are the accomplishments that you have?
04:39:44.500
Because you're just saying that you've made it this far.
04:39:54.760
I have a graduate degree in counseling ministry.
04:40:05.020
When you say you made it that far, but you made it onto OnlyFans and you're heading a
04:40:22.220
It kept me a fucking slave for 20 goddamn years of my life.
04:40:25.920
And I fucking made something out of myself after I left that shit.
04:40:35.420
I was counseling your fucking type and your miserable type.
04:40:38.960
And I left that shit and I started having orgasms.
04:41:33.760
Like I said, everyone has prejudices, and they're going to say racist stuff.
04:41:37.700
Everybody, once they get educated and they understand, okay, if this affects a group of people,
04:41:53.420
Also, just by you yelling and screaming and all of us stop talking to you, it's not that
04:42:13.380
No one is that pretty that can talk whenever they want.
04:42:16.240
You have to give everyone the respect that you want.
04:42:18.680
If you want to be heard, you have to just shut up when people are talking.
04:42:22.580
You realize what the point of the show is, right?
04:42:29.960
That's why you showed your ass on a 19-year-old.
04:42:33.480
To get your point across, you don't have to scream at the top of your bloody lungs.
04:42:46.640
You're repeating ideologies that you literally learn from your parents or grandparents.
04:42:51.940
At least I have original fucking thought, bitch.
04:43:12.740
Screaming psycho against the one Christian at the table.
04:43:23.900
That called you a spitting, demonic, possessed girl.
04:43:27.680
If you're not paying attention to the fucking hole, that is literally Andrew because I know
04:43:43.260
Anytime I talk to you, you just totally go nuts.
04:43:44.760
Who's not a good looking like you, dumb as you, that think that she's a genius.
04:43:55.140
You are phenomenal because you were so dumb that you knew you were a genius.
04:44:00.840
So you said that your story when it came to the military is you went in as a four.
04:44:06.080
I enlisted as an E4, which is basically I had my college degree.
04:44:12.060
They wanted me to go in as an officer and be a combat surgeon.
04:44:18.920
So any military people who are watching, maybe you can like help guide us.
04:44:24.820
So you said that the military was going to fast track you due to your test scores, your
04:44:31.640
Because of, yes, all of that and because I had a college degree.
04:44:35.640
Military doesn't give a damn about college degree.
04:44:41.740
Well, in America, when you have a college degree, you can enter out a lot of ways in
04:44:45.680
I come from a country that a woman obligated to do the army for two years.
04:44:49.480
So we're listening to U.S. military practices by a non-American.
04:44:54.780
Because in the army, the first thing they check, it's your mental capacity under pressure.
04:44:59.720
You don't have any mental capacity under pressure.
04:45:03.420
I hate to break it to you, but your type wouldn't make it.
04:45:08.000
You literally wouldn't make it in the military.
04:45:23.700
If there's any people in the military watching, she says that they were going to fast track
04:45:33.940
But I had multiple people after you said that who are in the military reach out to me.
04:45:45.160
Somebody, like, Brian, Brian, you want to see how I get her as a liar, why she's lying?
04:45:51.020
Because in the army, okay, the first thing they do, they give you all these IQ tests,
04:45:57.220
Somebody who had a lot of body count obviously cannot restrain their impulse.
04:46:03.700
And in the army, as an agent, like you say, whatever, CIA, whatever you say, you cannot
04:46:07.560
restrain yourself because you cannot control yourself, not sexually, not mentally.
04:46:11.100
So how are they going to take you to a high-level job in the army?
04:46:18.060
You can maybe tell the same story for 20 years so people believe your lie.
04:46:21.380
Because when you tell a lie for so long, it's become the truth.
04:46:35.560
So anybody in the military, I mean, you can DM me.
04:46:44.720
But apparently, multiple people DMed me after that and said it's basically, what's that word
04:46:55.100
Because they're saying like, that's not possible.
04:46:57.660
You're not going to fast track to becoming a combat surgeon.
04:47:12.420
So Shirley and Riley unfortunately have to leave.
04:47:17.780
But unless you want to stay a little bit, you're welcome to stay.
04:47:21.920
We'll get you back on the show some other time.
04:47:39.560
Guys and girls, please warn the men you know not to get vasectomies.
04:47:44.560
It's actually a scam that destroys their health even a few years.
04:48:03.140
I don't know if there's anything else we can do with you.
04:48:23.140
I want to say something before I leave because I have to leave soon.
04:48:29.600
I just want to say that I'm so proud and happy for my mentor, Bruce Cardina, that he's the
04:48:37.800
He's mentoring me, and because of him, I come a long way, and I love you, Bruce.
04:48:53.620
Is, I didn't think about, man, she takes the worst times to, all right.
04:49:09.900
We're going to get Morgan and Madison to take the seats here.
04:49:29.240
Morgan, why don't you introduce yourself for the viewers?
04:49:36.680
And I go to Santa Barbara City College majoring in political science.
04:49:52.880
Oh, going to you, Vic, you had a, I don't know if you had, I couldn't really tell from
04:50:00.560
So do you have an issue with age gap relationships or?
04:50:04.920
I, yeah, I do think age gap relationships are pretty sus.
04:50:09.340
Um, obviously I don't think that people, you should be able to police age gap relationships
04:50:15.020
beyond obviously like child adult relationships, but I, I think that they're worthy of judgment.
04:50:28.060
Relationships where there's like a large disparity.
04:50:30.780
No, I just understand what is worthy of judgment mean.
04:50:41.200
Brian, I can, you can sit there and let the crazy IT flirt with you to try to trick you
04:51:17.580
I was explaining what judgment meant or whatever.
04:51:22.660
Because I, I think it's very suspect and it's telling of a person's mental state or like
04:51:29.880
character when they participate in a large age gap relationship, especially with a much
04:51:36.840
So wait, just before we get into the age gap stuff, just because we brought up the whole
04:51:42.480
I'm going to read a couple of messages I received.
04:51:48.100
The blonde chick is, wait, she, she can fast track to officer joining with a college degree.
04:51:56.140
However, fast tracking to surgeon is fucking crazy.
04:52:02.440
I will say that people did tell me that maybe they were just telling me that.
04:52:05.680
She needs her medical degree and surgeon license, basically passing the surgeon board.
04:52:13.720
And this is, so he, this is the guy, he said he served four years as a medic in the military.
04:52:21.780
So I got automatically E4, no degree, just a dumb high school kid.
04:52:26.240
Women do not serve as combat medics, by the way, and we're not allowed into that role
04:52:30.820
until, and we're not allowed into that role until 2016.
04:52:39.820
Okay, well, again, it's possible that they were lying to me, and I did have several people.
04:52:45.380
They were saying that the recruiters get paid, obviously, and that they might have been telling
04:52:51.680
Wait, did you actually, were you in the military?
04:52:53.780
So I enlisted, and I swore in, and the whole thing, but back then there was a wait period
04:53:02.820
Okay, no, they made us, they were making us wait four months before we were getting
04:53:08.780
So there was tons of people trying to get in the military.
04:53:10.760
You told yourself this story for so many years, you believe in it, actually.
04:53:27.160
The Army will never fast-track you to be a, quote, combat surgeon.
04:53:37.460
The Army will either pay for that, or you were already a doctor.
04:53:41.060
That's what they were telling me they were going to do.
04:53:43.420
Hold on, she can go to OCS, officer candidate school, with a degree, but going in as an E4, no, fast-track, no, I scored a 95 on the ASVAB.
04:53:55.140
Almost perfect, and there is no fast-track, just different jobs that are open to you.
04:53:58.800
As a different guy, as a USMC veteran, I can show what a veteran, hold on, never made it through MEPS, M-E-P-S.
04:54:09.560
She carries around a fucking ID that grants her no fucking respect or recognition.
04:54:13.420
As a USMC, United States Marine Corps veteran, I can show what a veteran's ID looks like, and what it looks like on a regular driver's license as a veteran.
04:54:23.060
Isabella says, you can join as an officer if you have a bachelor degree, but what she's saying is not true.
04:54:39.060
One sec, I'm just trying to read some of these other ones.
04:54:57.300
It's an enlisted, non-commissioned officer rank.
04:54:59.280
That's what I'm saying is I denied officer ranking to enter as an E-4 because I did not feel I had earned officer status before I had done my time.
04:55:07.700
So I purposely said, no, I won't be an officer.
04:55:13.820
I just got out of the Marine Corps as an E-5 sergeant recruiter.
04:55:17.160
There's no possible way she would enter as an E-4 and be fast-tracked to officer.
04:55:21.140
There's programs you have to go through to go from enlisted to officer.
04:55:26.100
A combat surgeon is mandated to be an officer with a specialized degree.
04:55:33.540
Do you really think that somebody with that short of a temperament can even be considered on a high-level army position?
04:55:46.320
Somebody who cannot wrap their thoughts together or control their impulse by going and taking care of people?
04:55:54.920
Army people are very specific, you know, with their mentality, with how they think, with how they act, with how they react, especially.
04:56:04.720
And you're calling yourself a genius because I think I feel sorry for you, but I think you told this story to yourself for so many years.
04:56:11.300
You lied to yourself and probably said to every guy that you met and been proud of this fictionary story.
04:56:16.740
So you're just saying it naturally because really you believe in it because you're delusional.
04:56:20.280
And now you sit here and he's telling the crowd from the army to actually give facts and I'm telling you stuff.
04:56:26.440
And you're sitting there still pretending and believing this lie, you know, and I feel really, really sorry for you because you don't have any leverage or any high level.
04:56:34.940
It's just like lazy people who want to be a millionaire and they're miserable on a millionaire who actually climbed the ladder.
04:56:41.120
You're like a person with no qualification, no talent, no brain, no nothing.
04:56:45.320
And you tell this fictionary story, try to represent it to everybody, you know, and you have the audacity to come here on a very popular podcast telling this lie and literally think we're dead dumb to believe this.
04:56:58.380
You can yawn all you want, but you just make yourself look stupid, liar, dumb, delusional.
04:57:14.820
I sleep eight hours a day, you know, I eat my veggies, I take my vitamins.
04:57:30.700
So do you want to continue making your argument?
04:57:34.220
I don't know if there's like a specific question.
04:58:06.080
I mean, you know, I think the older, the older you get, um, the more responsibility you
04:58:11.560
have like of yourself, but, um, young adults like in, in their early mid twenties are, are
04:58:17.280
Um, and so, you know, they're going through a very transformative period in their lives
04:58:23.660
and people that are in their thirties are, you know, past this period in their lives.
04:58:28.080
And it's very weird for them to find, you know, so much common ground with these early, early
04:58:36.440
Well, before I, I offer my point of view on this, we'll just get the whole panel's thoughts
04:58:46.860
What are your thoughts on age gap relationships?
04:58:52.220
I'm looking at the stage of life more than the particular age.
04:58:55.480
So I just think it's weird when one person is like barely starting out in life, creating
04:59:03.260
And then you have a person who's like already very well established, like has done all the
04:59:09.300
Whereas like maybe you have a late bloomer and like an early starter and the age gap might
04:59:14.780
be big, but like they're basically in the same phase of life.
04:59:20.400
Because maturity and thought process and stuff is not just a function of age.
04:59:25.680
It's also a function of life experience, which is going to be variable person to person.
04:59:34.380
So would you, um, Desiree, would you date some, would you date somebody younger than you?
04:59:41.440
I typically don't, but if they have accomplished more than me in like most areas of life, then
04:59:47.800
I would, because it could be somebody that I could look up to.
04:59:50.200
So when it comes to stage of life, and this isn't totally related, this isn't totally
04:59:54.500
related to age gap stuff, but like, for example, should average women be allowed to date men
05:00:05.480
For example, I think most women here at this table, if a guy who was a professional athlete
05:00:16.360
Assuming, you know, you thought he was attractive, you liked him, whatever.
05:00:23.560
Right, I don't think that that's healthy, because I usually think the one person's like
05:00:27.900
I think the people need to be on the equal level.
05:00:31.460
If, if, if that's the case, like if she's like clout chasing or she's only with him because
05:00:38.040
There's plenty of basic, there's plenty of basic, nobody fucking women who want to fuck
05:00:43.300
I think that they're not, they're not the match.
05:00:48.100
So I'm saying that people should be in the same phase of life when they're together.
05:00:52.580
That's why women who aren't funny shouldn't have as one of their requisites for dating
05:00:59.000
If you're not a funny woman, don't date a funny guy.
05:01:01.760
But every single woman, every single woman wants to date a funny guy.
05:01:12.680
I, almost every single woman says, I like funny men.
05:01:17.920
They're in a different stage of their comedic development.
05:01:24.080
Like I didn't get sarcasm for the longest time.
05:01:28.220
Let me go around the table, get everybody's thoughts here.
05:01:33.600
Here, Maddie, you're just, you're part of the team, fuck, whatever.
05:01:37.080
I thought you wanted me to just speak about it.
05:01:40.460
I don't really care, but I probably wouldn't do it for myself.
05:01:44.460
I just don't think that I would do it for myself either, but I do think that sometimes
05:01:48.460
like seeing an age gap of like 15 years, I guess I'm just kind of giving.
05:02:12.760
If I saw an 18 year old with like a 35 year old, 40 year old, I don't know.
05:02:16.840
I feel like personally, I don't think, I don't know.
05:02:23.940
But if like the other person would want to do that, then, you know, like that's all
05:02:29.860
Well, I don't think it's right or wrong, but I do state the facts that because I'm from
05:02:34.100
the Middle East, majority of men there prefer younger women.
05:02:37.800
A lot of women in America, they go, oh, they're pervert.
05:02:42.640
But usually in the Middle East and a lot of places in the world, when women hit puberty,
05:02:51.100
You know, I'm like, for me personally, I don't like dating younger guys.
05:02:55.060
I like dating guys my age, but the world is super diverse.
05:02:59.300
Everybody in America think America is the center and what they do here, it's normal.
05:03:02.920
But I can tell you firsthand, younger women in majority of the world, this is what guys
05:03:09.240
And a lot of the guys, when they marry the woman and she come to a certain age, they change
05:03:13.980
her for a better model that looks exactly like her.
05:03:16.740
Unfortunately, a lot of women don't want to accept that because they want to think, oh,
05:03:25.380
I actually don't think it's men that are opting out for a newer model.
05:03:29.560
Oh, no, not here, I'm saying in the middle, no, but in the Middle East, they do.
05:03:35.260
Oh, well, I don't know about the Middle East, but.
05:03:36.360
No, I'm saying in the other side of the world, you know.
05:03:39.380
Yeah, I don't care about the age, just for me, I like them older.
05:03:44.240
Okay, what do you, so you prefer to date older men?
05:04:00.000
And, but you don't think it's weird from the guy's part to want to date somebody younger?
05:04:07.000
I don't think it's weird, but in my opinion, in my experience.
05:04:12.320
But then I definitely seen other type of, like, people, like, other relationships where the girls are having, like, you know, those daddy issues.
05:04:27.880
I think if they're old enough to be your parent, I think that's kind of, like, the gap.
05:04:33.320
But I think a few years is fine, you know, five, six, seven years.
05:04:40.260
Wait, so you mentioned, like, what's the thing of, if it's the same age as your what?
05:04:47.940
Like, if they could be old enough to be your parent, technically.
05:04:50.720
Like, they could, like, they could be your mom or dad.
05:05:00.180
But society is hypocrite because you could see a young, gorgeous girl dating, you know, like, a famous celebrity.
05:05:06.960
But a lot of women say, no, I don't date an older man.
05:05:09.160
But if he's multimillionaire and famous, they would do it because it's hypocrite.
05:05:12.500
But I don't get this whole, like, it reminds me of, it's like dating your father.
05:05:19.600
For the guy, it's like dating the woman the same age as your daughter.
05:05:24.740
High-level men, let's put it like that, really high-level men would never date younger women.
05:05:29.660
Wait, high-level men wouldn't date younger women?
05:05:36.760
In America, a lot of men have new money, so they date young girl.
05:05:40.020
But if you go, for example, to Switzerland or Monaco or Russia, a lot of men won't date officially.
05:05:48.300
Officially, they would never marry or date a younger woman because they would be embarrassed.
05:05:51.980
Behind the scenes, yes, a lot of women have younger lovers.
05:05:54.520
Well, I don't know about the high-status dating in Switzerland, but...
05:06:00.180
It's the majority of the world, high-level, old money, generational money.
05:06:06.240
Well, I don't know about old money dating either, but...
05:06:09.020
But I just don't get this whole, like, daughter, like, father thing, because it's like, couldn't you just say the same...
05:06:17.060
Would you want to see your father dating a girl that's the size of your age?
05:06:21.720
Hold on, so it's like, similar age relationships are objectionable or sick because it's like you're dating your brother.
05:06:33.460
Either way, do you want to see your father dating some girl that could be in your sister age?
05:06:40.880
No, but I'm just saying, if your father was not...
05:06:43.140
My dad was engaged to a 26-year-old when I was in college, it was weird.
05:06:45.000
Wait a second, if your dad was not married, right, and he was, let's say, God forbid, and separated, and he wanted to date a girl that is in your sister age, would you feel comfortable with that?
05:06:53.340
So, like, in her 30s, I don't have actually any objections.
05:07:02.900
No, I would not want my father to date somebody.
05:07:06.200
But, you know, you cannot judge because life, you know, some people do it, some people don't.
05:07:11.340
I mean, I think when the age gap gets big, like, big enough, you do have to start thinking about the motivations, not so much of the man, but of the...
05:07:23.340
Because it's, like, a 20-year-old dating a 30-year-old, it's not immediately clear if it's, like, she's with him for the money.
05:07:36.740
You're, like, in your sexual prime, and you're really going to, like, shack up with this guy.
05:07:51.240
I, okay, I don't think my dad's going to watch this.
05:07:53.340
But my dad, when I was 24, he slept with a 22-year-old, and it made me feel some type of way.
05:08:08.060
I was like, what am I going to bring her to parents' day at college?
05:08:11.880
Well, Desiree, I don't know what you're saying.
05:08:18.360
It's just a creepy vibe, because then you start thinking, oh, God, what is the man thinking
05:08:25.640
I personally think it's weird if you're, like, over the...
05:08:29.160
If you're under the age of 25, dating someone, like, 10 years older.
05:08:35.320
When the woman in her 30, it's different, but she's right.
05:08:39.040
I think anyone under the age of, like, 25 should date someone within their range.
05:08:43.980
If they're, like, in their, like, 30s, dating someone that's older, that's fine, because
05:08:51.040
Their full frontal lobe is developed at that point.
05:08:53.040
But I don't think, like, let's say, like, someone my age, dating, like, a 40-year-old...
05:08:58.200
But can I hear an actual argument for why it's wrong?
05:09:03.320
Like, I get that it makes you feel, ugh, it's gross.
05:09:07.540
But, like, can I hear an actual argument for, like, how or why it's wrong?
05:09:15.240
Your energy when you're in your 20s and your 30s and your 40s, it's a completely different
05:09:25.240
Today, men in their 50s and 60s, they want to sleep with a younger woman.
05:09:29.260
They have to take Viagra or all these, you know, pills.
05:09:33.580
A lot of them, when they get older, they have to take pills in order.
05:09:41.240
But when they get a little bit more older, everything changes.
05:09:46.000
You know, she feel like she already raised a kid.
05:09:54.760
To get married to an older guy, for a woman, it sucks.
05:10:06.600
Like, make actual arguments besides it's gross and icky.
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What is your reason for being interested in a 20-year-old?
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And just to be clear, like, I would date a woman from 18 to 40.
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But what would be the reason to be interested in somebody that's that young?
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I think, so, like, but you said you would date somebody from 18 to 40.
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So, you can think 40-year-olds are also attractive and cool, right?
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There's probably older, I think when I was 32, 33, I dated, like, a 45-year-old.
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But if you're dating somebody that's, if you're dating somebody that's 20 years old, what do
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That's fine because I think a lot of men get into, like, the rhetoric of, oh, like, I want
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to date a young girl because she's in her prime, you know?
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And I think that that's, like, a stupid argument to make, but if you're making the argument
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that you would date somebody with such a wide age range, then that's fine.
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But I think that, like, what do you have in common, first of all, within your life, within
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your life, with your maturity level, with your interests, with life experience, what do
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Do you think having things in common is a high priority?
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Well, I think that it is a priority when you're dating people that are in formative, like,
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So, like, the person in your life, who's a male, who you've had the most in common with,
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Well, so it's clear to me, then, that commonality is not the ultimate, or even the penultimate,
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or even the tertiary, or even the 10th most important thing.
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But, like, why are you attracted to somebody that is so infantilized to you?
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They literally can't handle one wrong word, or they're going to die, I guess.
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Treat someone as a child, or in a way which denies their maturity and age or experience.
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So, infantilized doesn't mean they are a child.
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Wouldn't it be the opposite of infantilizing for me as a, or any man who's in his 30s,
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to view a woman in their 20s as worthy of a relationship?
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The statement I didn't make was that you are infantilizing them.
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I said they are infantilized in comparison to you.
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Okay, but you're using the definition in an incorrect way.
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What can a 35-year-old man have in common with a 30-year-old woman that he can't also have
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in common with a 20-year-old woman and you're an infant who's fucking six different men?
05:14:23.960
Okay, so what can a 35-year-old man have in common with a 30-year-old woman that he can't
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What stage in life are 20-year-olds in and what stage in life are 30-year-olds in?
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Like, what part of their life and their formative years are they in?
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I'll engage with you on the stage of life thing.
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Are you familiar with this term failure to launch?
05:14:57.780
They stayed at their home and kind of like fucked around and did nothing.
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35-year-old man who's just no college degree, failure to launch, never had a girlfriend,
05:15:10.220
And then compare it to like a boss babe, 22-year-old who just graduated college and she's going off
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And don't you find that suspect that a 35-year-old man would be a failure to launch and have
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something in common with an 18-year-old and that's what they would have in common is they're
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Don't you think that that man isn't a good role model?
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You need to now make the argument that a 22-year-old woman who's dating a failure to
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I said it's gross and icky because the relationship is not a compatible relationship.
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The man inherently has something wrong with him which makes him compatible with somebody
05:16:18.920
The man inherently has something wrong with him that makes him more compatible with people
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younger than them which makes it less likely for them to have a healthy relationship.
05:16:31.020
But for the majority of the time, when people are in very big age gap relationships...
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No, but you can't just make three different arguments.
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In fact, I said commonality, compatibility, irrelevant.
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You think I asked you, there's a guy who's been in your life who you stated you have
05:17:00.620
You didn't end up dating him because there were more...
05:17:05.600
Because there were more important things either to you or to him had nothing to do with commonality.
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But the reason that it's weird, is that the compatibility is weird, is because the man is not mature enough or not...
05:17:23.720
Here, actually, I'm not going to say the man because this could be a gender reverse situation.
05:17:29.400
The man or woman that is older, the party that is older in this relationship, does not have the emotional maturity of their age.
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And therefore, the relationship cannot be the healthiest relationship it can be.
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You can make any argument for any exception to the rule.
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Honestly, I think even this argument is useless, and I'll tell you why.
05:17:59.960
Because especially now, 2024, there's no more...
05:18:08.820
It's like a chaos out there in the dating world.
05:18:11.280
You could see really young girls with really older guys.
05:18:17.180
It's embarrassing, but it's like normal in their world.
05:18:23.120
Because majority of society, especially in America, is decay.
05:18:29.920
Like if you leave America and go for two months, for example, to Italy, to Eastern Europe, to the Far East, America, when you go and ask the question you would ask in America, they wouldn't even know what you're talking about.
05:18:50.760
Having less in common means you can actually have room to build things in common and share experiences together.
05:18:59.180
American society, American society in general, twisted, indoctrinated their own people to destroy them from the inside.
05:19:10.900
So you see a lot of confused women who wants to be a man.
05:19:16.100
You see a lot of confused women like you, for example.
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I am 36 years old and pulled a 21-year-old on Friday night.
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What can a 35-year-old man have in common with a 30-year-old woman that he can't also have in common with a 20-year-old woman and you're an infant who's fucking six different men?
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Let's not talk having things in common because you're taking having things in common as meaning, oh, my God, we both like going rowing.
05:20:18.040
I meant in common as in what is their maturity level, their mental states.
05:20:22.460
Why are two people in completely different age range?
05:20:25.840
Like their worldviews, their values, like the deeper things that you would need to have present
05:20:30.640
to have like a real long-term compatible relationship.
05:20:33.980
And in your 20s, you're kind of still forming it, right?
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Most of the time, I mean, younger people, I mean, don't have a good, you know, sense of the world because they have less experience.
05:20:48.820
And I think that if a person that's much older doesn't have that sense about them, then that's a red flag in them.
05:20:58.080
Well, that's why I don't think age is wild as a younger person.
05:21:04.540
But wait, but with that being said, yesterday I went out to a place in Beverly Hills, right?
05:21:09.120
All the women were young, dressing beautiful, having makeup, all of them dressed sexy.
05:21:14.420
And I didn't see a lot of younger guys under 50 or 45.
05:21:18.100
All the guys were really old, older compared to, sorry, not old, older compared to the women there.
05:21:24.120
So I think in general, when you go to Miami, to New York, and I travel a lot, I think majority of society of women in America and men,
05:21:32.040
but women specifically, it's a prostitute, only fan mentality, even if they don't do only fan.
05:21:38.120
Because the majority here of people thinking, he's men, I look good, I got this equipment of a body, I go to hunt men with money.
05:21:46.900
And women here don't want to hear or don't want to even look at men that they don't make a certain amount of money every month.
05:21:54.140
They're looking for specifically older guy with money, okay?
05:21:58.420
So it doesn't matter what we say or what we talk in this podcast, in the end of the day, majority of the people in this country have no value.
05:22:05.840
They traded their value a long time ago for money, specifically the women.
05:22:09.760
And men, because they realize they don't have a lot of marriage material women in this country, so the women in this country destroyed the men.
05:22:19.640
Remember that the girl here said before, oh, we're not in the 60s, we're not in the 50s.
05:22:23.960
Yes, and it's really bad because in the 60s and in the 50s, women had values.
05:22:31.380
And I'm not saying women necessarily have to sit at home and not work and just raise the kids.
05:22:37.100
You can have your career, you can be ambitious, you can do things.
05:22:40.840
But still, majority of women in this country, they have a prostitute mentality, and it's really, really sad.
05:23:02.560
All right, let's go back to when I said there's exceptions to every rule, and I think that in...
05:23:14.760
Which of the six men you're seeing do you have deep intellectual conversations with about your stage in life and your future?
05:23:23.580
The six men I'm seeing I'm not having relationships, like romantic relationships with.
05:23:37.500
So is it better, then, for an older man to strictly have casual sexual encounters with young women, as opposed to a man who wanted a monogamous long-term relationship with a young woman?
05:23:53.320
Wait, just to be clear, so a 35-year-old man who just wants to fuck an 18-year-old once and then ghost-draft her is less objectionable than a 35-year-old man who has good intentions, wants to be monogamous with her, wants to be in a long-term relationship with her.
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Yes, because I think that a man that is a 35-targeting an 18-year-old...
05:24:24.320
So when you say targeting, so, for example, let's say he's desirous of dating a variety of age range, all the way from 18 to 50, whatever.
05:24:36.880
Would you say, would you use that framing targeting for if he was wanting to date a 30-year-old?
05:24:44.920
Is this disgusting 35-year-old man targeting 30-year-old women?
05:24:57.380
Men that specifically go after younger women, that specifically have a preference for younger women...
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You're the one that's talking about exceptions to the rule.
05:25:14.280
I'm saying, so, okay, I was using myself as the guinea pig.
05:25:17.440
Yeah, and I said, I would date a girl from 18 to 40.
05:25:23.540
I was like, okay, that's a little bit more valid, and I understand your preference because
05:25:31.500
No, but if I ended up dating a 20-year-old, you would object to it.
05:25:39.340
Yeah, so that's what I'm trying to have a conversation.
05:25:42.840
It depends, you know, on the relationship, but I would think it's weird for you to be
05:25:54.680
Like, you're okay with having a relationship with no commitment at all, but him having a
05:25:57.820
committed relationship with a 20-year-old, that's the problem?
05:26:17.440
If he wanted to just fuck you and never talk to you again, totally cool.
05:26:24.340
But if he wanted to be in a relationship with you and he had good intentions, more objectionable
05:26:36.540
So say you had like a daughter who's 18 years old.
05:26:39.720
Would you rather her be getting fucked by 35-year-old men or have a good relationship with
05:26:47.700
You'd rather her be getting fucked by 35-year-old men.
05:26:49.620
Having sex with older men, but no further relationship.
05:27:00.380
When you wake up, you're not going to have eggs.
05:27:07.300
I have a mental disorder that I think makes it irresponsible for me to have a child.
05:27:15.280
You think that you have one or you were diagnosed?
05:27:16.900
I have a diagnosis that I think makes it irresponsible.
05:27:19.260
But you said everyone found out through the internet, right?
05:27:35.440
Every time I went to the hospital, I had a problem with my implant.
05:27:38.100
But every time I go to the hospital, they tell me, oh, you have anxiety.
05:27:44.460
But every time I come to the hospital, they tell me, I need Xanax, but I'm mentally ill.
05:27:51.140
And if you have people, okay, around you that actually make you think that and put it into your head,
05:27:56.520
you can totally change your life, change your paradigm, change how you think, and live like a normal woman.
05:28:03.280
But first of all, I personally, just on a personal level, I don't want children.
05:28:11.380
Yeah, I mean, I could change my mind in the future.
05:28:14.880
But the specific disorder that I have, antisocial personality disorder, makes it very, very, pretty much impossible...
05:28:23.620
You're sitting here in front of many people speaking on the microphone.
05:28:26.740
Antisocial personality disorder is just the name of the disorder.
05:28:33.560
Anyways, having this disorder means that I am very bad at connecting with...
05:28:42.020
To the girl in black, not Morgan, you made a mistake.
05:28:46.160
Replace the six men with one sex doll and you should be good to go.
05:28:57.500
Ten times you keep saying to everybody, I'm mentally, I have this disorder, this disorder.
05:29:03.580
You only disorder for putting yourself down, not evaluating yourself, not appreciating yourself.
05:29:08.400
No, no, no, no, I'm not going to allow you guys to derail the conversation.
05:29:11.100
We're going to go right back to the itch gap conversation.
05:29:13.580
We're not going to go back to the psychopath conversation.
05:29:26.740
Because there is a maturity gap and you keep saying you fail to hear an argument.
05:29:31.400
I keep making the same argument and we just simply disagree on it.
05:29:35.080
But isn't it the case that women mature all day?
05:29:45.580
So, I hear from a lot of women, 18, 19, 20, 21.
05:29:50.300
I even remember back when I was in college, a lot of girls were like, these college boys ain't shit.
05:30:00.060
Maybe not like massive age gaps, but they date a guy in their late 20s or some shit.
05:30:05.780
It's true, but when they get to the 40s and 30s, they're sorry about that.
05:30:10.600
I was like, I can't keep doing younger men because they don't know what they want.
05:30:14.820
I mean, women typically are more mature than men if you guys are like the same age.
05:30:19.880
Like, if you bring like a 20-year-old man and a 20-year-old woman, typically the woman has a higher maturity level.
05:30:34.420
That's such a bad question for me because my disorder has, I don't really have like a lot of morals.
05:30:50.680
It's so uncomfortable to say it from this side.
05:30:52.920
Because I can see or I can observe people and how they act, how they can be influenced.
05:31:08.940
This generation of retarded Americans have been brainwashed beyond repair.
05:31:16.700
It has been like that throughout history until recently.
05:31:27.220
It's because I personally think that people that are much older should have a maturity level
05:31:34.200
that's a lot higher, at a higher level than somebody that's much younger than them.
05:31:39.160
And so I think it's weird when they have interest in our own same level.
05:31:47.020
Young females throw themselves at me all day for my bread.
05:32:04.120
I think that if an older man protects the younger woman.
05:32:09.880
So let's talk about the younger women throwing themselves at men with money.
05:32:16.060
This type of dynamic doesn't create an authentic relationship.
05:32:26.960
If you're throwing somebody at yourself for money.
05:32:29.200
So what do, what are men seeking for, looking for when they're like engaging in like same
05:32:42.000
No, men are not even, men your age, ladies, men your age are not looking for compatibility
05:32:58.700
Y'all don't give a fuck about compatibility and commonality.
05:33:09.760
But you're talking from your perspective to the rest of the world.
05:33:22.020
Okay, I think people my age or like younger, younger people typically are looking for out
05:33:30.180
But I think people typically, what they're actually looking for in a relationship is just
05:33:36.480
a sense of feeling that those hormones that comes with being in love, I think it gives
05:33:43.940
them a sense of, yeah, that's what I think that most people, young people that are seeking
05:33:55.360
They love having that feeling of being in love and being admired and being obsessed.
05:33:59.400
It's all about how being in a relationship makes somebody feel at our age.
05:34:11.600
They're looking for somebody to make them feel good emotionally, physically.
05:34:24.420
Men who are 10 years older are looking for what?
05:34:27.240
They're looking for somebody that can create a life, that they can create a life with.
05:34:32.900
That they should at least be looking for somebody.
05:34:37.720
Is that not all the time they're looking for that.
05:34:44.020
To your point about how you should be looking for higher value men, a higher value man would
05:34:50.940
be looking for somebody that can build a real life with and a real connection with.
05:34:56.680
Second of all, a lot of older men, when they go with young girls, they say, oh yeah, this
05:35:08.080
I'm looking for a younger, unburdened by what has been, attractive younger lady.
05:35:30.360
Psycho girl, but will draw on emotion and the ick when it's convenient to the argument
05:35:36.220
But when pressed for a justification, she resorts to my disorder means I can't understand.
05:35:46.580
So you said these are all the things that, at least what you think, younger men are looking
05:35:53.760
So, one, what would preclude an older man from desiring those exact same things?
05:36:01.320
And secondly, why could he not get those exact same things from a woman of any age?
05:36:15.840
I can't believe some of these $304 were the fastest spare.
05:36:29.140
So, an older man, all the things that you listed that a guy your age wants, who's to say that
05:36:35.600
an older man can't want those exact same things and he can't get those same exact things from
05:36:43.520
So I think that an older man would be looking for those same things.
05:36:48.400
But, on top of that, should be looking for somebody that they could build...
05:37:16.040
You're making a grave mistake to even concern yourself with the opinion of a female.
05:37:39.380
I'm 43, single, web dev, only date 25 to 30 year olds.
05:38:15.320
But anyway, what I wanted to say that a lot of the men, the older men, they want to date
05:38:20.860
It's either because they need to have a younger woman to have multiple children with her.
05:38:25.960
I know because I know a lot of personal people like that.
05:38:28.840
Second, women like it or not, they like younger body.
05:38:35.420
They like to go outside and be seen with a younger woman.
05:38:38.300
They want something fresh that lasts for a long time.
05:38:42.080
Even though, with that being said, a lot of the younger women, when they get to like
05:38:46.680
age like 35, 40, they usually want to leave this older man.
05:39:02.800
Just pour it into your cup and put it on the ground.
05:39:07.560
So a lot of men, let's be honest, a lot of men want to be with a younger woman.
05:39:11.280
As much as it hurts to the older women, a lot of guys just want a fresh body, want
05:39:20.320
A woman in her 30s, 40s, 50s, whatever, they already set their own ways, usually stubborn.
05:39:30.780
Just being a mom, there are a lot of guys that will not date women that don't have kids
05:39:36.300
So just saying that they only prefer women that don't have kids, that's not true at all.
05:39:43.580
I said majority of older men who want, the specific one who wants...
05:39:56.180
I just don't think having kids ruins, you know...
05:39:58.680
A lot of their vaginas, if that's very natural, I mean, it goes right back.
05:40:01.960
I despise underscore disordered underscore girl donated $69.
05:40:09.200
Refuses to open it for any man trying to build a society.
05:40:14.660
Every other girl far more interesting and coherent.
05:40:36.720
Why the hell would I have dated a 25-year-old woman W slash 40 bodies?
05:40:42.080
If you first had sex at 15, how is that fair experience?
05:40:55.400
Met my now fiancé when I was 25, 26, and she was 18, 19.
05:41:00.900
Seven years later, we are happy AF and driving our semi-hauling Tyson chicken working towards the house.
05:41:21.560
I think they were saying that sometimes it can work, but most of the time, there's usually another motive to it.
05:41:33.360
And a lot of men with kids, like you said, they don't want to date somebody that doesn't have kids because they don't understand them.
05:41:38.640
Right, like they don't want someone that goes out drinking and when they have kids...
05:41:44.340
And they want somebody who will be compatible with their kids and can nourish their kids and help them.
05:41:57.520
My anecdotal experience doesn't speak enough, but I mean, I was on the dating apps for a while.
05:42:05.240
I have plenty of experience dating women my age, a little bit older, around my age, what have you.
05:42:11.800
I've actually found no evidence that older women are more mature, more emotionally developed, more mentally developed, more intellectually developed...
05:42:27.960
I found no evidence for this from my own dating experience.
05:42:32.060
And that's why I think people around the age, mid-20s, age 25 is when your brain fully develops and then you can make your own decisions after that.
05:42:42.860
In the video that you referenced about age gaps, where I said that I don't like age gaps, I specifically clarified that if both people are 25 and older, you can do whatever you want.
05:43:16.300
Do you guys not remember me losing my fucking shit earlier?
05:43:19.200
When we started this conversation, the very first thing I said was, I don't think that it should be criminalized.
05:43:27.500
And I pass judgment on people who participate in it, but I don't think it should be criminalized.
05:43:32.280
Well, I think it's weird that you're currently having sexual intercourse with multiple different men at the same time.
05:43:37.580
Yeah, yeah, and you're allowed to have that opinion.
05:43:38.760
Just for your health, we concern you, and your mental health.
05:43:50.580
So should women not be allowed to vote until they're 25?
05:43:52.960
I think all people shouldn't be allowed to vote until they're 25.
05:43:55.440
Actually, genuinely, I actually don't think people should be allowed to vote at 18.
05:44:06.260
So if we were to only allow people 25 and older to vote, would this be to the benefit of Republicans or Democrats?
05:44:21.520
It would be to the benefit of, like, conservatives, Republicans.
05:44:32.200
But I'm pretty sure if you ban, like, 18, 19, 20, 21, like, college people, college-age people from voting...
05:44:48.080
As long as you can be on your parents' medical insurance, you shouldn't be allowed to vote.
05:44:53.140
Because you're still basically under your parents' care.
05:45:03.700
So if by doing this, though, raising the age of voting to 25 meant that abortion actually
05:45:09.760
ended up becoming illegal federally, would you still want to raise the voting age to 25?
05:45:22.120
I would still say we should raise the age, even if...
05:45:29.920
If you're putting that ultimatum on it, then probably I wouldn't push for that.
05:45:34.880
No, but I'm not sure it would, but if you knew that was a...
05:45:39.560
I mean, again, that doesn't change my opinion that I think that 18-year-olds don't really
05:45:47.900
have the same mental capacity as somebody that's in their mid-20s.
05:45:52.540
That doesn't change my opinion, and I think that...
05:45:55.480
So should 18-year-olds not be allowed to go to college?
05:46:01.880
They should be allowed to go to college because that's...
05:46:08.180
So a lot of 18-year-olds enter into predatory student loan contracts.
05:46:13.980
You've got to let me finish making the argument.
05:46:16.360
A lot of 18-year-olds, both men and women, enter into these student loan contracts, and
05:46:24.180
You can never discharge student loans in bankruptcy.
05:46:28.380
So a lot of people financially fuck themselves at 18.
05:46:36.780
And there's more 18-year-olds getting financially fucked than actually fucked.
05:46:42.060
Wait, and what about Qatar paying these billions of dollars to doctrinate them to go and do all
05:47:01.060
So let's put aside or even grant your arguments that it is icky, it's gross, it's creepy, it's
05:47:10.060
Can you make a compelling argument in terms of the benefits to the man for why he should
05:47:15.560
date, say, a 35-year-old instead of a 25-year-old?
05:47:23.780
And why are you, first of all, why are you putting this on men only?
05:47:29.980
Like, why are you making the hypothetical on 35-year-old men and not 35-year-old men and
05:47:38.340
Do you think there's a disparity, like, between 35-year-old men and 35-year-old women?
05:47:48.580
Is that why you're specifically saying men and not men and women?
05:47:53.580
Well, I'm making this disparity because there's a tendency...
05:48:05.400
Yeah, but if they were to, I still have the same opinion that it's weird.
05:48:09.340
Well, I could actually, I feel like, I mean, I could even make compelling arguments why
05:48:28.840
I'm going to just grant to you that it's gross, creepy, icky, whatever.
05:48:33.080
So why don't you make a compelling argument in terms of the benefits to the man, say,
05:48:39.960
a 35-year-old man, why he should date a 35-year-old woman over a 25-year-old?
05:48:45.780
See, that's, like, that's taking the whole argument out of context because the whole...
05:48:54.760
Because the whole point is that it's exploitative or predatory for the older man to go after
05:49:03.220
the younger woman because the benefits of going after a younger woman is that you have
05:49:07.560
somebody that's less experienced, doesn't really know what they want, so you can mold
05:49:11.440
them and form them into having the life that you want.
05:49:19.520
That's the benefit of dating a younger woman is that she is less, you know, set in her
05:49:29.080
Why would a man, aside from the things you just listed, can you actually think of anything
05:49:34.120
like good faith that, like, a reason why a man might want to date a younger woman?
05:49:48.380
For the side of why a guy who's 35 would prefer to date a 25-year-old as opposed to
05:50:05.340
Okay, so if I were a 35-year-old man, the reason that I would go after a young woman and
05:50:11.960
a woman younger than 25, the reason that I would go after a woman that young,
05:50:17.060
despite the, you know, maturity differences and stuff is because of her lack of life experience.
05:50:27.380
So you admit you would be predatory in this circumstance?
05:50:33.760
So for example, would you be willing to grant to me, if I'm willing to, I mean, again, I
05:50:39.240
disagree with you here, but would you be willing to grant that, for example, men might be more
05:50:44.640
attracted to younger women because they're just physically more attractive?
05:50:55.760
So it's all based on physical attraction, right?
05:51:00.920
So if going after a younger woman is entirely based on physical attraction, you want somebody
05:51:06.240
that's younger because you find them physically attractive, then that doesn't create a good
05:51:13.520
relationship because the relationship is primarily based on physical attraction and then it leads
05:51:18.940
to a relationship where the man, as the woman ages, he becomes less interested in the woman
05:51:24.160
as she ages and then he probably, presumably, dumps her for another younger model.
05:51:33.300
Because you just made the argument that they're like, oh, well, these younger women are really
05:51:40.280
You do realize that physical looks for both men and women is always the initial basis for
05:51:56.380
And like I said, if it is the primary reason, but you said, you said, given that it's weird
05:52:02.280
and creepy and you said, given all those things are true in this scenario.
05:52:06.640
So if we're giving all those things are true in this scenario and then the only basis is
05:52:13.880
Well, I shifted the topic and I just asked you to steel man the other side.
05:52:24.500
I'm going to let a couple chats come in, but we're going to continue.
05:52:42.200
Just don't make her wipe toilet with her own face.
05:52:56.680
Desiree, I agree with your two plus two math on a technical level, but most people will
05:53:06.320
I think third girl on right is at least a nine.
05:53:21.960
You clarify 25 because you are a woman and women are plagued with solipsism.
05:53:27.340
You have no because it is an advantage to you, which is all women care about.
05:53:47.820
Oh, we'll do Twitch after the TTS has come through.
05:53:51.040
There's three more coming through, and then we'll come back to the age gap convo for a bit.
05:54:09.340
It would be worse if you were 27 and she was 19, but 36 and 28 is perfectly fine.
05:54:18.260
I'm leaving, but I just wanted to say, last time I was on here, people thought I had OnlyFans
05:54:34.680
He won't admit it, but he's looking for your help.
05:54:41.400
Tell him, vote yes for Desiree to be his personal assistant.
05:54:55.720
Psycho girl is so low IQ hasn't formed a coherent thought even once.
05:55:01.100
Move on to the pretty Mexican girl or Grace or Heretic Red.
05:55:04.940
Wait, are you, don't, you're driving them up to LA?
05:55:26.920
I get the ICK whenever I see poor or middle class women with rich men.
05:55:31.620
These women should date within their salary cohort.
05:55:35.180
We're going to go like another 40 minutes probably.
05:56:02.480
Guys, it's been five minutes since we last got a Prime.
05:56:09.940
Also, if you're watching on YouTube, open up another tab.
05:56:13.420
If you're watching on Twitch, drop us a little follow in the chat.
05:56:20.740
Let me just, I want to just get through the age gap stuff.
05:56:31.840
So, again, make a compelling argument in terms of the benefit to the man for why he should
05:56:42.140
Because a 35-year-old should be, and I'm saying should be, should be more emotionally compatible
05:56:54.440
They should have, you know, similar values and an outlook on life and similar goals in
05:57:03.680
I mean, it's not clear to me as, I think there's a differential here between men and
05:57:08.900
And I think as men get more dating experience, granted, men can become jaded too.
05:57:14.480
As men get more dating experience, they tend to become more attractive to women.
05:57:19.280
As women get more dating experience, and this typically involves both positive experiences,
05:57:25.020
but also a lot of negative experiences, they tend to become more jaded, they tend to become
05:57:30.620
a little more, less pleasant, less, they have less zest for life.
05:57:44.540
Because that's what I said before, everything that women do, it stays inside of her.
05:57:50.040
For women, it's more damage on the plate, more damage, damage, upper damage.
05:57:53.700
Which, that's exactly my point, what I said before.
05:58:02.040
So, I mean, I've this idea that all 20-year-olds are immature retards without a fully developed
05:58:08.260
And 30-plus-year-old women are just super mature.
05:58:11.600
They've got their shit together, won't waste your time, and are just as or more physically
05:58:19.800
Won't be a headache and introduce bullshit to your life.
05:58:25.000
So, anecdotally, I found that older women in their 30s, whatever, late 20s, whatever.
05:58:34.200
They're just as, if not more likely to waste your time than younger adult women.
05:58:44.740
It's because all the women that aren't wasting their time are already taken by 35.
05:58:48.300
I'll give you, and I've written this down, I'll give you three examples from my own dating
05:58:56.500
And these are from a few years ago when I was about 30, 31.
05:59:00.220
A 29-year-old PhD student met on Hinge, set up a first date 30 minutes before we were supposed
05:59:06.380
She texts and says something came up, canceled.
05:59:10.700
35-year-old, I shouldn't say what, professor, met on Hinge, we talk on the phone, set up
05:59:16.640
A few days later, one hour before the date, she says she maybe jumped the gun about getting
05:59:22.280
It's just not a good time in her life to be dating.
05:59:30.420
I know, but something about how you speak or what you did.
05:59:36.500
In any case, she said that, you know, she jumped the gun.
05:59:40.940
Women have this experience where they get on a dating app and maybe they just got out of
05:59:45.400
a relationship and they schedule a date with a guy and then they're like, eh, do I really
05:59:51.840
I don't know why you're making some judgment that it was about something that I did.
05:59:54.140
Not you specifically, but what date is because I know how women are.
06:00:00.400
She's a pharmacist, got her pharmacy degree, whatever.
06:00:08.560
She's super noncommittal with making plans, just strangely evasive, playing hard to get.
06:00:14.660
After a few frustrating attempts to make plans with her, I just stopped texting her.
06:00:18.140
She texted me three months later asking why I stopped texting her.
06:00:29.060
27-year-old nurse met on Hinge 30 minutes before date.
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Texts me and says she isn't over her ex and needs more time to heal.
06:00:36.460
She should have figured that out before downloading a dating app and wasting my time.
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37-year-old orthopedic surgeon stood me up on the first date.
06:00:47.640
Actually had a boyfriend of like 10 years who she lived with.
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Look, I don't know what's up with these fucking women in the medical field.
06:00:56.180
In any case, I've had plenty of terrible experiences with women who have professional careers and they're in their 30s.
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Just because you're 30 and you have a career or whatever, it doesn't preclude you from being a fucking pain in the ass and a fucking headache to deal with from a dating perspective.
06:01:18.460
Actually, it's the more pain in the ass, I think.
06:01:20.800
I mean, if you want to pull up anecdotal evidence to prove your point, I can also pull up anecdotal evidence to prove my point.
06:01:30.720
Let's talk about people that are in age gap relationships.
06:01:42.820
But if I'm going to be dealing with bullshit from 30-year-olds, 35-year-olds, 40-year-olds, why don't I just date a girl who's more physically attractive who's 25 as opposed to 35?
06:02:00.300
I'll just go back to 20 then just to bother you.
06:02:04.280
No, but you can pull up the anecdotal evidence, and I said, let's talk about my anecdotal evidence, which is I have never met somebody in my life, experienced somebody in my life that had a large age gap relationship at a young age that didn't come out of that relationship with, like, severe trauma and didn't come out of that relationship.
06:02:22.680
And I hear from plenty of women who date men their own age who come out of the same age relationships with plenty of trauma.
06:02:28.920
But I also know a lot of people that have healthy relationships, but I don't know a single person that had an each gap relationship at a young age that had a healthy relationship.
06:02:44.800
I would argue most 18, 19, 20, 21-year-old women, they don't want – actually, just to be clear, if a younger woman doesn't want to – I'm not saying, like, young women need to date older men.
06:02:57.960
If you want to date a guy your age, totally cool.
06:02:59.960
And you only want to date a guy your age, no problem with that whatsoever.
06:03:04.200
However, because I think it's the case that most younger women, I think age gap relationships are in the minority.
06:03:11.340
So I've heard from almost every single woman that they've had a traumatic dating experience, and it's not with an older man.
06:03:23.740
That's because there's a larger pool to come from, but I – again, I've heard so many people my age that date people my age that have had healthy relationships, never heard of somebody my age or younger dating somebody significantly older that had a healthy relationship.
06:03:40.560
Yeah, but what does it really – I mean, when women say they've had, like, a bad trauma relationship, does it just mean that the guy didn't put up with your shit?
06:03:49.200
Sexual abuse, sexual abuse, financial abuse, financial abuse.
06:03:57.940
I had a friend, she was 19 at the time, dated a 29-year-old man.
06:04:11.660
She was 19 – she was 19 and impressionable and was able to be easily manipulated by this 29-year-old dude.
06:04:23.960
And that man targeted her because he knew that she was young and impressionable.
06:04:30.540
So if I – if a guy was inclined to financially abuse – wait, hold on, just to be clear.
06:04:35.920
So what was the – he was – she was paying his rent.
06:04:48.160
So you're saying that women, if a man pays of any age, pays a woman's rent.
06:04:54.960
She's being – or she's financially abusing the man.
06:04:58.360
I think that's – I think that's weird unless you're in a marriage.
06:05:07.160
Okay, you have 10 seconds, but then I'm going to ask you a follow-up question.
06:05:09.800
The difference is somebody that's financially secure deciding of their own accord to support another person that is financially insecure versus a financially insecure person being manipulated to support another financially insecure person.
06:05:24.900
There's a big difference in those relationship dynamics.
06:05:29.060
There's a big difference in those relationship dynamics.
06:05:30.920
What do you think – who's more likely to be financially abused?
06:05:35.700
Yeah, definitely in the scenario would be older men dating younger women.
06:05:40.500
Probably more often the older man would be financially abused.
06:05:43.840
Well, who's more likely to provide in a relationship, a man or a woman?
06:05:48.640
By your logic, a man providing for a woman is financial abuse from the woman directed towards the man.
06:05:56.300
So if a woman – if a man is providing for a woman, what is a woman providing to the man?
06:06:18.740
But isn't that like the type of relationship so many people aspire to have is the relationship where, you know,
06:06:24.740
the man is the breadwinner and the woman can take care of the children.
06:06:29.780
But isn't that like the tradeoff is that the man is providing so that the woman is able to take care of the home and the children?
06:06:49.860
Geriatric pregnancy, hence ID need to date much younger if I want the best outcomes for our children.
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I mean, my mom was 40 when she had me, and I feel like I turned out pretty decently.
06:07:09.420
Issue with a younger slash older relationship if they have children.
06:07:13.340
The older man, due to their life expectancy, wouldn't be around when the children becomes young adults.
06:07:21.840
Well, I mean, now you're talking like a 50-year-old dating a 20-year-old or something.
06:07:25.540
And I think like a 35 with a 25-year-old, I don't think it's going to have a massive impact there.
06:07:34.620
If you have kids, whoever the partner, well, if the man's older, yeah, won't be around as long.
06:07:45.060
This is BS coming from a female that has only had FWB relationships.
06:07:52.040
Panel, does Leonardo DiCaprio give you the ick?
06:08:07.320
Controlling ex means she couldn't go out to the club to get new peen.
06:08:13.260
Financial abuse means he isn't paying 100% of her bills.
06:08:16.480
Physical abuse means he holds her down when she tries to hit him.
06:08:30.280
I have a friend who's dated a 26-year-old at 18.
06:08:45.620
And that's an age gap relationship that I witnessed.
06:08:49.420
Was it because of the age gap that he did those things?
06:08:53.740
I think he targeted an 18-year-old that he could control.
06:09:05.940
So why do these predatory women target these high-status males, these NFL players, professional athletes, musicians?
06:09:23.300
I actually think that's just the natural order of shit.
06:09:27.220
Women are attracted to high-status, hyper-attractive men, and men are attracted to young, beautiful women.
06:09:44.400
Women like rich, successful, hot, attractive men with status.
06:09:50.280
So why would a man that's older not date a woman that's younger that's at his maturity level?
06:09:56.280
Because obviously the relationships that I just gave examples of, the women were not at the same maturity level as the man.
06:10:04.420
They were being exploited and manipulated by the man.
06:10:07.160
I can't speak to your anecdotes, but I have no objection.
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Let's assume that a 35-year-old deems that a 21-year-old is of an acceptable maturity level.
06:10:20.320
See here, like I said, there's exceptions to every single rule, but I personally have never seen the exception to this rule in my livelihood, and that's why I hold this opinion.
06:10:39.380
You may have no experience, but you keep talking about it.
06:10:44.880
You're giving every, you're like, oh, well, what about this and that?
06:10:47.060
She doesn't have experience, but she's talking about it.
06:10:50.100
I personally have never seen that happen in real life.
06:10:54.740
Why do you want to hear her opinion for two hours when she doesn't have experience?
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A topic that does not, she doesn't know about the topic.
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I think she targeted him because women are attracted to abusive, dominating me.
06:11:22.440
If he was a nice guy, he would have given her the, it can never even gotten a date.
06:11:31.140
So my friend that got financially exploited by the 29-year-old is now dating a man that's
06:11:38.780
her age, and they're in a very healthy, loving relationship.
06:11:43.780
And I'm actually going to hang out with them tomorrow.
06:11:46.400
The financial exploiting happened to me with my last partner, and there was an age gap.
06:11:50.480
He was 44, you know, and he, and he literally used my corporation to like be laundering
06:11:57.840
Giovanni James, $69, would love to hear the takes on abortion.
06:12:03.420
My assumptions from Brian's left, anti, anti, pro, anti, pro, pro, pro, pro, pro.
06:12:20.700
It is, because you can decide to end it before you go to the event.
06:12:23.540
We just have to think about the modifications, like the words.
06:12:57.220
Anyways, don't you guys think those people that financially abuse you guys, though, were
06:13:06.980
Well, I just think a younger person wouldn't even have the, I don't think a younger man
06:13:11.820
would have even thought to fuck me over that way.
06:13:17.360
The level of calculation of this man was high level shit.
06:13:25.300
No younger guy would have even known how to set me up in S-Corp and all this shit.
06:13:30.500
Like, he had to have been in the business world.
06:13:33.980
And then he purposely targeted a white female because he was Hispanic with the last name
06:13:40.520
It was very important to him that I change my last name to Dominguez.
06:13:45.280
So that way he could get all the loans and the grants that are for minor women.
06:13:50.620
Because now there's like money and stuff that females can get.
06:13:54.040
Female business owners, we have like privilege right now.
06:13:59.780
So he literally targeted me with this whole agenda.
06:14:06.080
If you did these loans for him, then you're an idiot.
06:14:14.360
Oh no, he wanted to fucking launder all his racketeering shit under my corporation.
06:14:20.940
I was a stay-at-home mom and like doing ministry.
06:14:29.240
But in a minute ago, you said he let me do the loans.
06:14:32.380
You told me a minute ago, he let me do all these loans for him.
06:14:36.700
No, he would work with the financial people and get them.
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But I'm just telling you, no younger guy would have known how to run that fucking con on me.
06:14:55.920
Or maybe you just weren't educated enough to know about it.
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I had no fucking clue that guys were running this shit.
06:15:06.620
It's almost like age and experience makes people understand life better.
06:15:15.040
I said it's almost like age and experience makes people understand life better.
06:15:41.300
You want to roast Vic, the path, the psychopath.
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Not as bad as Redhead, but both my siblings in Christ.
06:17:04.100
He's my religion and you literally disrespect him.
06:17:09.400
You're talking about having no self-control and it's embarrassing.
06:17:35.780
Yeah, I'm autistic, so if you want to call me retarded, that would be a thing.
06:17:46.760
Also, to all the ladies, would you bow to your man?
06:17:57.760
Also, we need to hear more from you, so you're going to talk for like 10 minutes straight.
06:18:47.180
Do you remember that time I DM'd you, talking to you about the bowing?
06:18:54.100
Do you remember that DM I sent you about bowing?
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I said I would bow to you only if I could blow you.
06:19:08.660
My back might break, so I'm going to get some shit done while I'm down there.
06:19:12.560
Didn't you say that you wanted to fellate me and Andrew?
06:19:42.640
He's like, I want you to greet me at the door with a bow.
06:19:45.960
Like, if I'm being funny and knock yourself out.
06:20:39.380
But do you want a guy to get down on one knee and propose to you?
06:21:10.160
Yeah, he wants to feel like he's your dominance.
06:21:23.800
Have you ever hooked up with the guy same night?
06:21:40.900
I've played it like three times over 200 shows.
06:21:48.320
What's crazy to me, I've said this every single time, is that a girl won't bow for a man,
06:22:06.860
But Grace, besides the couple L takes you, had your base T.F.
06:22:27.280
I found myself back home as a young child, at a time revealing forgotten memories, reliving
06:23:01.300
A man who wants a family does not go to the grocery store to look for expired eggs, nor
06:23:06.800
does it make sense to go down on one knee for a non-virgin.
06:23:16.960
From right to left, one, three, eight, three, ten, one, seven, nine.
06:23:30.340
What percentage of physical attractiveness for men is effort and how much is luck?
06:23:38.220
Hairline dot how much of your own beauty is genetic versus effort?
06:23:47.000
Grace was based until you admitted she loves pineapple pizza.
06:23:58.840
Can you find out what we're going to put in a number?
06:24:01.140
What were they trying to say with that physical attractiveness?
06:24:08.520
That's when they're trying to get the priest out of the kid.
06:24:24.020
What man would want them after this publication of their degeneracy?
06:24:27.520
Even based Grace publicly displayed she has near five bodies at 19.
06:24:48.040
What man would want you guys after you guys publicized your degeneracy?
06:25:02.800
What percentage of physical attractiveness for man's effort and how much is lack genetic?
06:25:23.380
Maddie, why weren't you the front line of defense during the flash?
06:25:27.720
If you can go back, how old do you have tackled her?
06:25:42.760
If you watched the video, I was just like, wait, for what?
06:25:53.600
Can you not do it in Hebrew so I can understand it too?
06:28:11.480
Hopefully she did not flash her dress this time.
06:28:45.700
Why you gotta interrupt this homegirl over here?
06:28:50.680
Tell us how you feel about the guys in Santa Barbara.
06:29:08.260
Tell us how you really feel about these fucking Santa Barbara boys.
06:29:31.340
But men always get shamed for their preferences.
06:30:28.300
It's weird because every single time I say HP, everybody's like Huntington Beach and I'm
06:30:31.840
like, bitch, where the hell did you hear the B?
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wow that is that is amazing what that's deep i feel more continous guys
06:31:09.220
deseree has not been roasted enough you guys need to roast deseree we need a roast
06:31:13.860
i only came to get roasted we need a roast on morgan she's been gone she needs to be roasted
06:31:19.860
maddie needs to be roasted oh i'm sensitive this week i want to be roasted
06:33:59.640
Desiree you want to be roasted like a marshmallow
06:34:17.800
My best friend and the most beautiful woman in the world to
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06:34:53.120
You all watch out she saw men so she would assault anyone
06:35:01.980
I would think anyone who needs to tell people they're a genius is not a genius
06:35:14.540
I just tell people because it explains the narrative
06:35:16.980
Crazy Desiree looks like she can bite through the medal of honor that she never earned
06:35:34.240
I shouldn't even have to bring up this man shit
06:35:57.820
It gives a false impression that I've just been sitting at home like not reading and not you know continuing my education when I have
06:36:05.320
So I bring in other things and you're right I'm over it
06:36:15.900
I'm a five tenths decent paying job socially awkward and not a lot of friends
06:36:40.360
I mean if he's a decent guy I'm sure you can find somebody
06:36:59.000
Your butt is so fat that you wouldn't even fit in the Vatican for the priest
06:38:54.560
They want their marquee mark backwards hat back
06:39:26.080
I was expecting her to be a progressive white genocide
06:39:43.680
Let's run away and start our own country together
06:39:47.240
We'll together imprison Desiree to the loony bin
06:40:26.400
Why does Sky Daddy enable young women to conceive
06:40:30.600
Doesn't he know a woman doesn't finish developing until 25
06:40:36.060
Why does Sky Daddy enable young women to conceive
06:40:39.380
Doesn't he know a woman doesn't finish developing
06:40:52.980
Why does Sky Daddy enable young women to conceive
06:40:56.000
Doesn't he know a woman doesn't finish developing until 25
06:41:07.620
Desire's head has been held in the toilet for too long
06:41:11.080
Yeah but then the argument can go in the other direction