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00:04:34.540 further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name

00:04:39.240 age location so where you're from occupation and education go ahead my name is bailey jane i'm 25

00:04:46.060 and my occupation is a creative because i do many things to make money all right and where you're

00:04:52.820 where you from oh illinois all right and uh you do many things you're uh i think i saw on your

00:05:00.560 instagram i don't know if you still do this you're a dancer um i took a break from it so right now i'm

00:05:05.740 just doing reselling um many other things but more so i can't say what do you mean you can't say

00:05:14.160 um drugs you sell drugs no no no no just like say secret superhero like only fans or like a

00:05:22.940 superhero and i do get money from it but just in magical ways wait superhero what

00:05:33.060 what's that i don't know i was that mean you'll find out no i don't want to sounds like a threat

00:05:42.980 but like what what do you mean like um like i'll do things like you're a witch like you sell

00:05:51.880 hexes and shit no no no like i will hmm do you think because i can't say it's kind of it's secretive

00:06:03.540 it's secretive okay so i do reselling i'm uh music what is reselling um collectibles

00:06:11.860 okay like pokemon cards um funkos clothes okay and uh wait you you do music are you a singer

00:06:23.080 rapper rapper singer i make beats okay the chat's gonna hate me for this but um

00:06:29.540 um we need to hear a freestyle a rap go ahead anybody here know that how to do a beat

00:06:37.340 anybody i can beat box a little bit too but i can't we need a rap though but since i'm the first

00:06:43.420 i gotta i gotta wait we gotta wait on that till later i gotta warm up you gotta warm up we gotta warm

00:06:50.160 warm up listen the flow if you have the flow you have like a one shot yeah um okay uh all right so

00:07:00.340 okay 25 uh any college or anything like that yeah um i took one year of community college and i was

00:07:08.380 in high honors but i dropped out because i realized that all the jobs i really want to do and that i'm

00:07:14.820 pursuing i don't necessarily need to go to school and if anything just take a business class so

00:07:19.380 okay so like associates or anything like that um so i have inventions i'm working on i just can't

00:07:28.040 really speak about that at all so that's why i was kind of trying to avoid that too you have inventions

00:07:31.920 yeah

00:07:32.500 inventions what do they have to do with inventions one of them has to do with sleeping

00:07:40.380 one of them has to do with woman one of them has to do with cooking and then one of them is a game

00:07:46.560 are they physical inventions or are they inventions of your mind both both for which ones uh or all of

00:07:57.900 them um they're all in the beginning processes like you know that uh mark walberg from transformers

00:08:04.800 he was like at the beginning like he had all these ideas and inventions but he didn't have like the

00:08:10.260 support yet to really get them going or the money but we're everything else it's they're all written

00:08:18.180 down they're all now i just need the prototypes the prototypes yeah except for two of them sleeping

00:08:27.960 and a sleep invention hey don't try to get them out of me because

00:08:33.640 that's one thing about inventing you never want to say too much do you have a patent

00:08:38.840 i'm working on one of them because you have to take one at a time

00:08:42.440 and it costs like you can a few thousand you can only do one patent

00:08:47.160 well it's easier to do them once at a time because then it'll get too confusing if you're doing

00:08:51.540 a lot at once wait you're doing the patent application you don't have a lawyer doing it

00:08:56.360 oh no never mind just

00:08:59.260 i don't know you're being mysterious i i know that's that's the whole point

00:09:04.280 well see the more mysterious you are the more we have to like dig into it so if you were just like

00:09:10.620 just answering the questions sure we would ask less of them true true all right next you're right

00:09:15.860 what about you for next time my name is felicity okay i'm 18 from santa barbara i'm a student and i'm

00:09:23.860 also a dental assistant all right and uh do you are you in school or yes at dentistry school no i'm in

00:09:31.820 business school business school okay uh hold on one sec guys we have a couple chats coming

00:09:38.960 through here real quick cheeks donated 202 dollars and two cents mace alexa brian my personal message

00:09:47.540 better be fixed or mason and alexa are leaving wait no dude cheeks you screwed it up it's two zero

00:09:54.600 zero zero point zero two cheeks you screwed it up cheeks but uh beating cheeks love love that

00:10:02.460 you're here love that you're watching hi yeah you also misspelled alexa's name i'm not gonna hold

00:10:08.120 that against you rude but so rude you know uh okay uh are you at the city college or um do i have to

00:10:16.440 answer which school no you don't have to um but you said you're studying what again business business

00:10:21.900 okay cool what about you hi i'm bailey i'm 23 and i just got my bsba in marketing and international

00:10:28.460 business from a school in philadelphia okay uh where are you from uh central pa okay and are you

00:10:35.720 working right now or um currently looking unemployed yes okay and you just got it yeah so i graduated

00:10:44.500 early i was supposed to graduate this june um but i was able to streamline that process okay got it and

00:10:50.580 um let's see if there's no i think 23 okay we got everything what about you um my name's ariel i'm

00:10:58.400 23 well i'm 24 now my birthday was yesterday so happy birthday yeah thanks aquarius queen you said 23

00:11:05.100 24 now oh 24 i was 23 yesterday okay yeah anyway um i'm from arizona okay uh and then i live in santa

00:11:13.280 monica now all right what do you do for work um i bartend bottle service freelance modeling and

00:11:19.360 i i do a bunch of things future background whatever yeah you were she was uh for the chat she was the

00:11:26.940 background character briefly on the last episode so chat if you want her back maybe convince her

00:11:32.360 she's on the fence about it maybe um anyways uh what about you my name is alina i'm 20 years old

00:11:37.880 um i am originally from russia but i currently live in philadelphia city of brotherly love

00:11:43.920 um and i'm a student all right and uh when did you move to the u.s um 10 years ago do you speak

00:11:53.160 russian yes any other languages no okay what do you do for work or no work just a student right

00:12:00.100 just student what are you studying business and information systems all right cool what about you

00:12:05.100 my name is emily i am from western washington uh i just turned 24 getting old not thrilled about it

00:12:12.540 um it's all downhill it really is i have come watch out ariel i i know that dude it kind of sucks i'm in

00:12:19.780 touch with reality fortunately um i have a bachelor's in psychology i currently work as a social worker for

00:12:27.560 child protective services okay um made it through about a quarter of u-dub social work program master's

00:12:34.180 level uh could not handle the wokeness of that so dropped out pretty fast all right cool what about

00:12:41.540 you my name is ashley i'm 25 i don't go to school at the moment but i um i'm a lash technician and a

00:12:48.600 nail technician and i'm a barista all right uh and uh where were you from i'm from san diego okay cool

00:12:56.840 go ahead hi i'm alexa i'm the old one at this table but i just had a birthday so i'm 29 now

00:13:03.300 hey uh i live in i live in silicon valley and i work for eb vertical airlift company all right and

00:13:11.300 uh education like did you graduate from university or yeah i went to i got my bachelor's of science in

00:13:16.620 business okay rock and roll all right yeah uh my name is mason um i'm 28 years old uh also an aquarius

00:13:27.340 uh but uh yeah i actually right now i have no job i'm a failure at life don't say that

00:13:35.160 you're neat yeah yeah i'm neat i'm neat you know what the need is no i have no idea what uh it's

00:13:41.120 like an acronym for not in employment education or training fair yes yes yes i'm i'm a lazy dude

00:13:46.920 yes you're neat okay i'm neat i'm neat yeah but uh yeah um where are you from originally from arizona

00:13:53.440 um uh my family my family lives in north africa uh lived in the south for a while uh people in the

00:14:01.440 south hey how's it going wait you're you got family from north africa my uh some of my family

00:14:06.100 lives in north africa oh like algeria morocco or where oh one of those areas oh okay yeah you know

00:14:11.960 you're being mysterious too like being mysterious like this girl over here indeed um and uh education

00:14:16.660 yes i have my uh bachelor's in mechanical engineering um and bachelor's in uh pre-engineering

00:14:23.760 all right uh welcome everyone and i think the people are curious to know um i'll kind of let you

00:14:29.580 uh tell the story but um before we do that we have a couple chats that i'm just going to

00:14:35.500 let through here here why not we'll do this i should wait a bit brian loves roast beef punani to

00:14:41.260 make it two hundred dollars big lady my sprinkler goes like this

00:14:45.040 oh

00:14:51.040 comes back like this oh oh nice okay wow nice that was good thank you thank you um we haven't had

00:15:03.460 the sprinkler in a minute i can tell you did a lot of research on like figuring that out it was wild

00:15:08.980 sir gwayne bone tower donated two hundred dollars yes it seems university and college

00:15:14.600 for all its privileges may in fact be a less than salubrious environment for the forming of young

00:15:20.760 women ladies what decade was world war salubrious wow big word there from from gwayne bone tower

00:15:28.840 um what decade was world war one starting with you i should know this because of who i am but i

00:15:36.360 honestly what do you mean because of who you are actually history is one of my do you have like

00:15:42.160 a past life as a world war ii or sorry world war one world war one no but nurse or something

00:15:49.640 yeah i was never good in school decade decade just guess just guess 1910s 1920s 1930s 1940s 1950s

00:16:09.940 you're close you're close you're close just decades 1850s perfect okay what about you go ahead

00:16:19.280 you gotta guess you have to guess go ahead guess it i'll guess same thing 1850s okay sure uh 1910s

00:16:27.080 okay i can say like 1920 okay can i say the years we're coming back to you i know the years too

00:16:35.700 okay ashley um 1910s yeah 1910s teens okay go ahead elena 1914 to 1919 no i mean close

00:16:46.040 1914 to 1918 1918 1918 but you were close okay 1850s all right there you go that's a good one

00:16:52.520 and then felicity doubled down on it right you're like wait did you did you also say like 1850s or

00:16:59.640 i just said the same thing as you because i really don't know fair enough did you say you work in

00:17:03.740 history history no i said history is my second least favorite subject but wait what did you say

00:17:08.540 wait what i should know what did you say at the beginning there i said i should know you should

00:17:12.900 know about war but i don't because it's a wait are you a are you a war buff yeah she said she really

00:17:20.660 loves war she's you know she goes to war she loves going to war goes to war no i don't like going to

00:17:25.580 war but i should know you she likes the aspects of war it's kind of strange yeah okay sure um

00:17:32.300 oh hold on we have one more mason and then we'll uh hold time marine donated 200 why isn't keeping

00:17:40.980 your legs closed the best method of birth control is it oh wow abstinence it's probably pretty

00:17:50.800 effective right probably probably what what's another good form of uh birth control besides

00:17:58.160 abstinence playing world of warcraft yeah speaking of which um you know just uh

00:18:04.000 never mind um all right uh oh yeah so mason why don't you give us like kind of the rundown

00:18:13.180 uh like what happened then because uh really quick though damian pull up pull up uh mason's

00:18:18.520 instagram page because uh mason's gonna explain it but you were involved in a pretty catastrophic

00:18:25.640 accident um yeah really bad you can x out of that and then uh yeah so what tell us what

00:18:31.660 happened then yeah sorry if i get emotional um yeah so uh on a uh day in september uh one

00:18:41.900 that will live in infamy uh it's a small joke on september 11th i got in a really bad motorcycle

00:18:48.280 accident um i i don't actually remember i lost memory um but i hit a car uh at an intersection i was

00:18:58.260 going about 50 miles an hour um don't know exactly what happened but i had a ton of major injuries

00:19:05.880 happen to me um you guys just saw my picture um up there that was me a couple days after they

00:19:11.400 put me in they put me in the hospital um i had injuries all from head to toe uh most significant

00:19:17.500 being uh an aortic tear a grade four aortic tear uh which the people out there who know what that

00:19:24.480 means it's pretty significant about 90 percent of people who get that die before they get to the

00:19:29.640 hospital and about five people for five percent of people um die after they get to the hospital

00:19:35.700 so or yeah survive well i guess technically yeah yeah either way but yeah um so that um open book

00:19:44.300 pelvic fracture i had a few other fractures in my left leg um very significant things happened um

00:19:50.340 i was supposed to die a handful of times um the doctors actually don't have any explanation for

00:19:55.660 why i'm up and moving um they actually i'm the main topic at a few medical conferences right now

00:20:02.920 um they don't they're like this is what we did um he was supposed to die a handful of times

00:20:10.340 um for some reason he's not mentally or physically disabled

00:20:14.180 yeah but um the day i got in my crash um alexa was down here and she stayed with me at the hospital

00:20:24.220 for three weeks just making sure massaging my arms making sure blood was flowing through them

00:20:29.600 anytime alarms would go off in the room she's calling the nurses and doctors hey you need to

00:20:34.100 get in here right now make sure mason is okay um yeah i mean there's so many other aspects to this

00:20:41.260 my church family was there um i've heard i mean i i got a glimpse into the body of christ around the

00:20:49.160 world i mean i'm guessing probably a bunch of people that have seen me on this podcast before

00:20:53.500 reached out to me all the way from south america asia africa um just uh plenty of places um getting

00:21:02.480 to see the body of christ work my elders every single day in the in the room with me making sure

00:21:07.820 that i'm okay my teaching pastor uh he gives me the account of uh the day uh they in they took me

00:21:14.920 into the hospital um uh he remembers seeing me on uh bed as they're wheeling me into operation

00:21:23.600 and um he said he'd never seen so much blood in his life that there's no way that he was going to

00:21:33.700 see me again and he wished that uh he told me he'd be praying for me but in his own mind he was

00:21:41.820 thinking the next time i see mason is going to be in the kingdom of heaven and uh i am so thankful

00:21:49.100 to the lord that i'm here today and i've been incredibly blessed um by my church christ body

00:21:55.940 family members alexa yeah yeah well i mean it's uh it's really great to have you back on the show

00:22:04.020 you were on i don't know i think uh i mean you're one of our top reoccurring guests i don't recall the

00:22:10.020 exact number but you've been on the show a whole bunch and can you give us uh like i guess a

00:22:14.380 timeline so you said it happened in uh it was the it was uh early september september 11th oh september

00:22:21.640 11th so and then how long were you in the hospital for timeline yeah so i was on in the hospital for

00:22:26.360 50 days so you got out like around christmas time no no like uh november math is bad like beginning

00:22:33.440 november beginning november and like how many different operations so i had like surgeries yes

00:22:40.420 i don't know about surgeries um operations i had 12 operations 12 operations okay um yeah and were you

00:22:46.600 in a you were in a coma for i was in a coma for a while um from when i got in the accident to around

00:22:52.780 the end of september gotcha yeah and you've been have you been doing like physical therapy yes um

00:22:59.300 yeah so did a bunch of physical therapy um i can't emphasize how much uh going to the gym and

00:23:06.520 being physically fit um helps you just in general but in this case in particular um you know uh like

00:23:14.800 my past of lifting a whole lot of heavy weights getting trying to get into air force special warfare

00:23:19.960 um i had incredible cardiovascular endurance so when i had that aortic tear in my heart

00:23:25.320 um being able to me running so much and having that cardio uh made it so my heart my heart didn't

00:23:32.280 have to work as much to make sure that my rest of my body was getting blood um yeah i mean just in

00:23:38.260 so many things so many ways that the lord provided for me so you know hitting a metal wall at 50 miles an

00:23:44.700 hour my muscles looked at it and were like oh that's kind of like lifting 700 pounds um my so funny fact

00:23:51.860 um none of my tendons or uh muscles tore nothing like that those were fine uh my bones broke

00:23:58.920 so that was kind of wild but um and uh when it comes to the like the air force stuff is that

00:24:06.160 potentially down the road or is that on hold for now what so that's pretty much off the table

00:24:11.800 because yeah it sucks i've got the aortic stint so i'm i'm a very young man to have an aortic heart

00:24:18.700 stint um however there's no complications with that that's going great um every time they uh check

00:24:25.180 out my internals they're like well you're doing surprisingly well when they look at my stint

00:24:29.700 they're like yeah nope no problems nothing um so but it just essentially kind of how i'm looking at

00:24:36.780 it is very much god has a different plan for me i mean it was i mean plenty of people were on or for

00:24:43.960 or against me going to air force special warfare um i was even on a air force special warfare podcast

00:24:49.080 called one's ready give them a look if you're interested um but uh yeah um that wasn't god's

00:24:56.080 plan and uh i mean i don't know if this is any i don't know if this is the right word conciliation but

00:25:01.620 uh in the same time period i was not in a catastrophic motorcycle uh accident but you're still in better

00:25:10.200 shape than i am and that's crazy and you're wild you're still freaking jacked and yeah i mean i hit

00:25:15.260 um starting to get my numbers back up in the gym i just hit a 200 pound squat uh for those who don't

00:25:20.660 know um my best squat was around 575 um so slowly but surely getting back up there i can't wait to

00:25:28.040 get back to that point i mean so i can look back at this and i mean i'm i'm also a i'm trying to get

00:25:34.600 some clients for coaching uh just because it's something it's something i want to grow so like

00:25:38.440 right now fitness coaching fitness coaching yeah but i'll do a shout out like if anybody

00:25:42.260 i mean like if anyone watching wants me to help coach him uh my you can go to my instagram give

00:25:47.620 me a message pull it up pull up his instagram really quick just uh let's i just want to see

00:25:52.700 one other thing here yeah scroll down a little bit yeah so you were a competitive competitive

00:25:59.320 power lifter so i was my so this means little to nothing to nobody but um my dot score was

00:26:06.780 485 484 um so you have to have a 500 pound or a 500 dot score to be considered a professional

00:26:14.460 power lifter so i was really close and i'm trying to get there scroll back up to the very top

00:26:19.100 and then uh and i mean so at in the center there you got uh it's you and alexa yes and so you guys

00:26:27.500 kind of met through the show yes so yeah the funny story uh what's the story there because this is the

00:26:34.060 first time you'll hear about it yeah yeah um alexa you want to tell the story or i mean yeah go for

00:26:40.380 it go for it yeah you pick you pick yeah go ahead alexa okay yeah so we i think he was on so i've been

00:26:49.080 on the podcast a few times and i i think he was on the pod it's like one of those things like friends

00:26:55.220 were watching it and then i was watching the one i was in and then the following week what he was on

00:27:00.600 and so i was watching the podcast and i was like wow i really like what this guy has to say

00:27:04.960 um he's he's a god-fearing man and i i i really appreciated the fact that even though there were

00:27:11.120 people at the table that have very different values in the way that they look at things he was very

00:27:15.420 respectful to them because i think that's one of the things i really have a hard time with and i was

00:27:20.060 like wow you know this guy is a strong he's so strong in his faith but he's so respectable to those

00:27:25.640 that have differing opinions and so i i slid into his dms and we messaged each other back and forth

00:27:32.760 for a couple months i mean it was probably like six months or something like that and i live in

00:27:38.320 silicon valley he lives in orange county and i happen to be coming down um i'm originally from

00:27:43.900 san diego so i have a lot of friends in this area so i was coming down to visit some friends and i said

00:27:47.860 i was like well here's my shot and i was like hey i'm gonna be in town if you're interested in

00:27:52.160 meeting for a coffee uh and i was like if it honestly if nothing panned out from it i just

00:27:57.420 i just wanted to talk to him i had questions about his faith and you know how he's able to

00:28:01.860 go on a podcast so publicly and you know strongly represent what he believes in um so that that

00:28:09.160 yeah and we ended up spending four hours together i mean yeah from my point of view i mean i was

00:28:13.480 getting ready for air force special warfare so like i told myself mason you're gonna be single

00:28:17.720 probably for the next half decade um so you go on dating podcasts every once in a while but you

00:28:23.180 know probably not going to be in your future um so when she started reaching out to me i was like my

00:28:27.820 gosh i'm really into her she seems really nice she's not like posting super provocative pictures on

00:28:33.160 you know social media uh something i kind of i i like um or i don't like the provocative pictures i

00:28:39.320 want to be clear on that i like that she didn't um she seems really intelligent i was like my

00:28:44.580 goodness do i have to make an exception here do i want to start seeing her i was like okay lord if

00:28:48.700 you want me to see her if you want me to start dating her she has to randomly just message me

00:28:53.020 and say hey i'm gonna be randomly just in your neck of the woods uh would you like to meet up i was

00:28:57.640 like there's no way it's gonna happen um a week after that she sends me that message i was like

00:29:02.440 oh my gosh this is ridiculous and so we hung out and yeah four hours into it yeah yeah and how long

00:29:10.120 had you guys been dating like before the accident like a month three months it's like two and a half

00:29:16.260 three months i mean alexa i mean you've been on the show a couple times and i mean we've had some

00:29:21.480 like back and forth some disagreements and i've probably been tough on you a couple times but

00:29:25.620 actually like you know mason i'm fairly close with and um at least through the podcast and i mean

00:29:32.980 i actually gained like kind of a massive amount of i mean i respected you before

00:29:37.260 i gained like another like a pretty massive amount of respect for you because like how you

00:29:43.100 stood by mason and like helped take care of him um while he was going through probably i mean i've

00:29:48.340 seen this is the worst thing that's ever happened to you you know so a little bit so uh just wanted

00:29:52.720 to give you props for that and by uh by all reports it's you know everything i've seen seems

00:29:58.920 like you've been like fantastic and there for him so thank you really uh good to hear that so

00:30:03.480 um anyways um any final thoughts before i bring it back to uh the show or no no no okay perfect

00:30:09.780 do you think you'll ever get back on a motorcycle after that that is the one question everyone asks

00:30:15.300 um i mean obviously like it's not lost on me this this caused me as well as most people that i know

00:30:22.500 incredible pain um people flew from i mean from around the world to see me from different states

00:30:28.920 um i got a lot of financial support from people like this really impacted uh motorcycle riding

00:30:36.360 really impacted my life as well as people i know um so that's definitely not lost on me

00:30:41.100 um on the other hand yeah i do enjoy riding um but if anything i'm going to make changes if i do get

00:30:50.060 back to riding um that's a big if um it's going to be very specific times of day probably i'm not

00:30:56.600 going to ride as much um not like as often as i did i would ride pretty much every day that was

00:31:00.900 like my regular vehicle um i also wrote up that the crash happened at five in the morning so you

00:31:06.240 know probably not when people are sleepy in their cars probably not a great idea um yeah uh so maybe

00:31:13.160 dirt biking i don't know yeah cool well we'll get uh back into the show but uh mason thank you for

00:31:19.300 sharing all that man appreciate it thanks for having me back on yeah of course really good to have

00:31:22.620 you back um guys some w's in the chat for mason w's in the chat uh all right we have a chat coming

00:31:30.080 in here speaking of which ogle donated 200 he's coming for you chair one please stop with the

00:31:36.620 freshman level attempts at getting attention for being underscore weird underscore or underscore

00:31:41.580 mysterious underscore it's not cute and doesn't make you interesting just answer question or don't

00:31:48.020 plaza t8 checks thank you agent smith uh thank you for the 200 donation agent smith okay um ogle

00:32:00.220 appreciate the um guys w's in the chat for ogle because he has another one coming in

00:32:03.660 ogle donated 200 bro is convinced he's him hey he is but let's move on and we just did

00:32:14.040 uh thank you ogle thank you appreciate it man um all right we have another chat here coming in from

00:32:20.900 our good friend gloctavius yo ogle good to see you in the chat man it's it's been when when's the last

00:32:27.480 time two weeks ago three weeks ago thank you ogle appreciate it man all right we have another chat

00:32:31.980 coming in from gloctavius thank you gloctavius donated two hundred dollars how many my parents

00:32:40.300 would rewards points does this panel have ladies have you ever lied about your body count to a guy

00:32:46.940 oh that's an interesting question okay going around the table have you ever lied about your body count

00:32:51.380 to a guy go ahead i don't think i've ever had a guy ask me so no straight if you can though oh sorry

00:32:57.280 you don't have to do that no no okay like have you here's another way like have you ever maybe told

00:33:05.780 a guy two-part question have you ever told a guy you're a virgin but you weren't no okay

00:33:12.420 what about you no and no no and no okay no and no no and no

00:33:16.460 no

00:33:20.100 oh i see yeah yeah okay all right what about you no i haven't okay no and no no absolutely not

00:33:29.740 no no to both no okay okay yeah because you only said no yeah i'm sorry mason have you ever lied

00:33:37.080 about wait are you uh huh uh still yeah why don't you tell them so yeah i mean yeah so i'm i'm a virgin

00:33:48.920 um yeah never been with a lady i don't know why i pressed that but why not yeah i'm saving it for

00:33:58.340 marriage um it's extremely important to me i know the statistics behind uh however many partners you

00:34:04.580 have you're less likely to have a successful marriage in the future um the more you have the

00:34:09.240 less likely you're gonna have successful marriage um so that's pretty important to me as well as you

00:34:13.200 know god's word um yeah he says something about it so yeah sweet uh we have another chat coming in

00:34:21.340 from jay dude jay good to see you man mason my brother and alexa this makes me so freaking happy

00:34:29.200 to see you guys i'm ready to rip some doors off some hinges love you guys that's awesome yo jay thanks

00:34:37.140 jay really good to see you in the chat jay it's been a minute so thank you so much for your uh

00:34:41.340 stream labs message and then we do have let's see uh do we do we'll here i'll read this one really

00:34:50.940 quick uh the crucible limited thank you is this from rachel uh mason the wilson's love you we're so

00:34:56.720 happy to see you up around always take faith and know even on the bad days you will get back to your

00:35:01.120 old self andrew and rachel hey that's from uh andrew and uh rachel wilson thank you so much

00:35:05.400 andrew rachel i mean it's been it's been great knowing that you're out there praying for me you're

00:35:09.840 with me helping me out and uh if if this is from uh andrew and rachel i hope you guys they're over

00:35:16.040 in new jersey for like a debate convention so i hope that went well for you guys thank you so

00:35:20.660 much for the uh super chat really appreciate it guys and uh okay we need to get into everybody's

00:35:25.860 relationship status so going around the table starting with you what is your current relationship

00:35:32.040 status uh if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship

00:35:36.360 you've ever been in go ahead i'm single single and the longest single yeah nothing and then um the

00:35:45.340 longest relationship i was in was almost two years two years and it's been about two years since i was in

00:35:51.460 that relationship so you've been single for two years about yeah there's no guys in the picture

00:35:57.060 or girls so wait you've been celibate for two years

00:36:01.520 no but you you currently have like a situation ship no you don't have a situation ship maybe

00:36:11.040 spiritually but like physically no so like let's not yeah huh wait what i feel like you have a

00:36:19.180 spiritual situation ship like the soul the soul of my ex he keeps trying to like come back in and

00:36:24.520 then yeah that's like i'll talk about that later because i know you're going to ask me a question

00:36:30.060 that has to do with this later so i'll get more into that later okay yeah that's fine um so not in

00:36:37.940 anything right now there's no guy in the picture in any capacity or girl or female or they is there a

00:36:44.800 they don't leave them out no no not there's no theys i love being single like this i love being

00:36:53.740 single like no sir no you don't have a sir a zay do you have a zay okay just checking all right yeah

00:37:00.340 i know you we gotta see check all of them though sure yeah uh what about you i'm in a relationship

00:37:04.880 and my longest one is this one about almost two years two years okay and uh any other relationships

00:37:12.460 or is this pretty much the only one i had one before for like a year one year okay who broke up

00:37:17.960 with who i broke up with him you broke up with him okay and uh also i forgot to do this during the

00:37:23.000 intro you were dubbed uh you made it onto mug shoddies yeah they dubbed you taylor drift yeah do you

00:37:32.220 want to tell us the story real quick um like about my arrest or what led up to it how about this

00:37:38.040 we'll play the video oh no the video i think the tiktok we'll do the tiktok full screen it we'll pull

00:37:45.200 that up oh my gosh year old girl from ventura county driving an infinity g37 or as police are

00:37:54.060 now alleging a deadly weapon this is chased by cops at over 100 miles per hour after also crashing into

00:37:59.500 cops before being taken into custody by cops in a dead end after she took a wrong turn in a pursuit that

00:38:05.480 ironically started as a speed violation chp officers were notified of a pursuit coming into the ventura

00:38:10.680 area from Santa Barbara County just before 9 p.m. Saturday. The driver at the wheel is alleged to

00:38:15.760 be Felicity Hughes of Camarillo. She eventually exited the freeway and went towards Auto Drive

00:38:20.300 Mall before she turned down a dead-end road onto a private lot. She then made a U-turn and hit the

00:38:25.260 gas before striking a patrol vehicle, leaving that cop car undrivable and an officer with minor

00:38:30.640 injuries. She was then taken into custody without further incident. Hughes was charged with a baby

00:38:35.060 police and willful disregard and assault with a deadly weapon. She was transported to Todd Road

00:38:40.420 jail in Santa Paula with a $50,000 bail set. An on-scene photographer who's tagged below captured

00:38:46.020 the scene because when the news breaks... Good times. Okay and then like this

00:38:51.780 this uh Instagram page mug shot is which did you get it did they post your mug shot was that mug shot

00:38:59.160 or no? So I was arrested in Ventura County so mug shots and stuff you have to like request it through

00:39:04.960 CHP or something. So that wasn't released but there was a photographer on scene that took

00:39:10.400 that video and that was what was posted. Wait so how many different cars cop cars did you crash into?

00:39:16.000 Just just the one. Oh just one? Yeah. Okay and what I guess what was going on like were you

00:39:21.680 chasing your boyfriend or? Um no I just I didn't want to pull over. Nice. Were you out of the influence?

00:39:30.960 No no I don't do drugs or anything. I just I got I think I just got scared and I was like

00:39:34.720 whatever I'll just drive. Do you have a like a fast car or? Uh it's a G37 it's like stock doesn't have

00:39:41.920 that much horsepower. Okay. Okay nice um all right cool um but you got dubbed to Taylor Drift. I don't

00:39:50.560 know I thought that was amusing. Yeah. And um is that all like settled though? All the um the ongoing

00:39:58.480 case or? No I still have court but all of my criminal proceedings have been suspended. Oh suspended.

00:40:04.960 Not dropped but suspended. Oh okay like what does that mean if they suspend it? Um so I'm on something

00:40:11.200 I don't know if I can say I think I can say I'm on something called diversion. Yeah. So I have to do

00:40:17.040 whatever the judge requests me to do for a certain amount of time and then my if I complete it without

00:40:22.480 any violations then my charges will be dropped but right now it's just suspended. Got it and I think

00:40:28.240 there was a like related to dating kind of a lot of the guys and this is that you'll see this on the

00:40:35.360 mug shoddy's thing is they're like man they got to drop the charges. Yeah. Like they're kind of simping

00:40:39.920 a little bit you know. Yeah. So have you gotten like because of that because it went kind of viral

00:40:44.640 a little bit on the internet has a have a bunch of dudes like slid into your dms like

00:40:49.600 you know hitting on you basically? Yeah definitely. I mean before this I didn't post for like four years

00:40:56.240 not big with social media I had like 200 followers and then I gained like 13 000 from that and I still

00:41:03.600 barely post. Yeah I get a lot of creepy interesting dms all the time. Good times. Good times. Yeah. Yeah. Fun fun.

00:41:12.240 Um that's cool and uh well okay you're in a relationship for two years so what about you?

00:41:17.680 Um I'm single my longest relationship was about a year um and that was a year and a half ago.

00:41:24.560 One year and so you've been single for a year and a half. Yes. Any any guys in the picture

00:41:29.920 though in that time period? Situationship anything like that? No. Nothing? Um not even has there been a date?

00:41:38.560 Been on dates? No. Um. Sneaky link? Maybe. Maybe sneaky link. Do you currently have a- Maybe in the- No.

00:41:46.320 No. Currently sneaky link? No. Currently situationship? No. Nothing? Currently no. No.

00:41:51.280 Zilch? Zero. Nothing. No. Okay and uh who broke up with who? The one year relationship? Um he broke up with me.

00:41:58.560 Why? Um well I I am still wondering. You don't? What do you mean? You don't know? It was very left unresolved in my opinion. Uh-huh.

00:42:11.920 So yeah I mean I came back from being out of the country for five months so yeah. And then were you guys communicating?

00:42:21.440 Yeah yeah yeah yeah. And then within two weeks you know things ended. Huh interesting. Hmm. How long was the relationship?

00:42:32.400 About a year. Most of it was like distance but. Okay. Yeah. Most of it? Yeah. Because you you said you were gone for five months.

00:42:41.680 Yes. But was it a longer period beyond five months long distance? Yeah part of it um because I was in

00:42:50.800 another state. I was like six hours away. Oh okay all right. Were you visiting at all during that time?

00:42:56.480 Uh being six hours away yes um but. How frequently?

00:43:02.720 Maybe once or twice a month um but in Australia I was not visiting here. You were in Australia? Yeah.

00:43:10.480 Got it. Yeah. Okay all right uh well we we have some notes on that that we'll get into later but uh

00:43:15.680 what about you? Um I am currently dating a girl. All right. Uh we've been together for like five

00:43:23.600 months doing a long distance so that's interesting. And then before that I was single for a year. I did

00:43:28.800 date a girl for two years like. Gotcha. And are you bi? Are you lesbian? What how do you categorize

00:43:34.240 yourself? Um I would say I'm bi but I lean towards women. So I feel like a lot of women are bi but they

00:43:40.080 lean more towards men. But I've really most of like my long relationships have only been with

00:43:45.760 women. Have you ever been in a relationship with a guy? I have. Okay um when's the last time you were

00:43:51.760 like with the guy in any capacity? Um probably uh like over the summer. This summer. Okay so

00:44:01.200 six seven months ago something like that? Yeah it was nothing nothing crazy. Just a little fling or

00:44:05.920 something like that? Yeah we talked for like a week. Okay. Two weeks. He was super nice. Um got it.

00:44:10.720 Just a little bit older than me. So you know our values and stuff were just a little bit different.

00:44:15.680 Nothing personal. Um I mean I was he was like 34 and I was 23. Oh so you wanted like kids? Yeah.

00:44:22.160 Settle down? Yeah. And you wanted not to have that? It's not that I don't want that just like not right

00:44:29.680 now. At the moment. Yeah. And your two-year relationship with the female who broke up with who?

00:44:34.560 Um she broke up with me. Was this an on again off again relationship? No. No. Okay she broke up

00:44:40.240 with you. Why? Yeah. Uh we were doing long distance and just um other personal reasons. But

00:44:46.560 yeah I moved to San Diego from Arizona and we were together for a while. So it was just a lot. Okay.

00:44:55.200 And um your current relationship is also long distance. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yep. How far?

00:45:03.200 How far? She lives in Colorado. Colorado. Okay. How many times have you guys seen each other in

00:45:07.600 person? Uh like six seven times. Six seven times. Do you see her? Does she come here? We do like we

00:45:12.240 do both. But we're both so busy that it's completely fine. Like I'm in school and stuff and she's doing

00:45:17.120 her thing. So it's you know I feel like it's pretty. Do you want kids down the road? I do. Okay. And I

00:45:23.040 mean in terms I don't know if you've given that much thought but. I want to adopt. Adopt. I do not want my own

00:45:28.160 kids. You don't want even if you end up with a male partner. I mean if that is a discussion for

00:45:32.480 later down the road. Sure. I wouldn't be opposed to that but preferably I'd like to adopt. Adopt.

00:45:36.480 Okay. Yeah. All right. And uh I think that's it for uh what about you? I'm in a relationship

00:45:42.960 for four years. All right. It is my longest and only. Four years uh and so you guys met in high

00:45:51.520 school then? Yes. Okay. Is it going good? Pretty good. Is it long distance or you guys in the same

00:45:57.840 area? Pretty much same area. Pretty close. Same same college? No. Okay. Is he in college or is he in

00:46:06.880 school? No he just he has a full-time job. So he didn't go to college? No. Okay. Blue collar. But you

00:46:13.040 guys both went to high school together? Uh I went to his high school for a little while for like a month

00:46:18.800 and that's when we met. Got it. Okay. And then so together for four years any has it ever been like

00:46:25.840 off? Sort of. Is it? There's been issues. You know everyone has issues. What do you do to him?

00:46:33.040 But did you beat him? I knew it. No comments. I have Russian temper. Um so but it's been on again off

00:46:42.160 again a little bit or? No it's it's good. It's good? Yes. Okay. But there have been periods where it was off?

00:46:47.520 Yes. And you cheated on him? No. Can you cheat on somebody if it's you're on a break? I don't

00:46:54.080 know. We were on a break huh? It depends. I mean I guess uh it depends on the roles that you set with

00:47:01.680 that person the boundaries that you have and this the nature of the relationship that you have.

00:47:08.080 Okay. It is a monogamous relationship though right? Yes. Okay. All right. Cool. What about you?

00:47:13.440 I have been in a relationship for five years and eight months. We just got engaged. We lived together.

00:47:20.000 Oh. Thank you. Sweet. Wow. He's the man. Is this your longest relationship? Yeah. Okay. And uh

00:47:29.040 all right. How did you guys meet? Uh through a friend of a friend. Okay. Sort of. And then going to you

00:47:36.640 really quick with your uh five month relationship. How did you guys meet? Dating at? Um no. In person?

00:47:42.800 I actually saw her on TikTok. Oh. And then I went to her Instagram. Okay. And then I was like

00:47:51.360 yo. No actually I messaged her. I was like oh I think you're so pretty. And then she was like

00:47:57.200 I'm talking to somebody and I was like oh my bad. And so then we just like you know we followed each

00:48:02.160 other but I was going to be respectful of course. And then like months down the later she was like

00:48:06.000 hey you want to run it back? And I was like no. And then we started to flirt. So it was like it was

00:48:12.080 like a couple month like period of us like just like messaging each other back. And then yeah.

00:48:18.160 Okay. Nice. And uh what about you? I'm currently single. My last relationship was almost a year ago.

00:48:25.600 My longest was almost three years. All right. And the three-year relationship was that the one that

00:48:31.360 ended one year ago? No that one ended a couple years ago. And okay. And then how long was your

00:48:37.760 most recent relationship? Like a year. One year. Which one? I you've been on the show before.

00:48:44.080 You'll have to jump start my memory a little bit. But so there's a guy who I don't know if this is the

00:48:50.800 guy. Who's the love of your life? Is that the one year guy? The last relationship. The last

00:48:55.680 relationship. But that ended. And it's been over for a year. Is he still the love of your life?

00:49:02.320 I don't want to embarrass myself again. So I'm going to say no. Wait. We need the truth. No. So many

00:49:08.400 people came for me like my friends were like why would you say that? Yeah. But it's the truth.

00:49:12.800 That's why. Well the truth is I still have a lot of love for him. But I wouldn't say he's still the

00:49:16.960 love of my life. Are you the one whose boyfriend cheated on you like 17 times? No. That's not me.

00:49:24.000 Oh. It's not? It's really not? No it's really not me. Okay. No. Okay. I was like girl don't love

00:49:30.880 that. Um. No. Okay so but that was a year ago. Are you guys still in contact? You guys still talk?

00:49:38.000 No he's the one that ghosted me remember? Yeah I forgot all the details but um. It's okay we don't

00:49:42.480 want to get into it. We now we can that's the show we get into it. Uh so okay he ghosted you um

00:49:50.080 and have you been dating at all in the past year? Um I've tried to see other people. Okay sure. It

00:49:59.280 just didn't work out. Sure. All right and uh well I mean we know that you guys are in a relationship so uh

00:50:07.280 yeah there you go. I guess uh longest relationship for you Alexa before? Three and a half almost four

00:50:13.520 years. And then Mason did you have previous uh yeah my longest relationship was a year. Got it. Okay

00:50:18.640 cool. Uh we have a couple chats coming in here in just a sec. We have uh let's see let me do this one.

00:50:27.200 Thank you. Whatever whenever. Thank you for the uh Streamlabs tip. Appreciate it. The Treaty of Versailles

00:50:35.920 was signed in June 1919 which officially ended World War I so little Russian mama was correct.

00:50:44.800 Ah but hold on hold on. The uh in in 1918 is when the armistice was uh in France was signed.

00:50:57.200 So in Compiègne France. So you know you want to do these technicalities. Uh my understanding is

00:51:05.760 there were there was no more like belligerent action beyond 1918. There wasn't actual warfare

00:51:12.160 going on. I'm pretty sure right? Am I chat chat can you help me out there? I don't think there was like

00:51:19.520 ongoing like military conflict beyond 1918 but maybe like the official official they figured out all the

00:51:26.640 negotiations and the terms of the finalized terms of the end of the conflict perhaps was in

00:51:35.280 1990. I don't know anyways whatever dating podcast. Hello. Uh but I'm pretty sure yeah the

00:51:40.400 armistice was in 1918. So uh the end of actual fighting uh so we have Ogle here. Dark late. Oh.

00:51:48.640 Ogle donated two hundred dollars. Dark Lavia just heard that call out. Dark?

00:51:56.880 Oh was that?

00:52:00.320 Are you the one? He cheated on you 17 times? Darkavia?

00:52:05.600 Was that was that you? Oh my god. Queen. Oh shit. Sorry. Damn.

00:52:14.400 I want to go home. Okay cool. Uh we have another chat here. Okay we have Mr. Ruski.

00:52:21.520 Question for the panel. Would you rather be in a long-term relationship

00:52:24.880 with a man in his mid-20s who is a virgin or a man the same age who lost his virginity

00:52:31.360 younger to an escort and why? Okay so would you rather be in a long-term relationship with a man in his

00:52:38.320 mid-20s who is a virgin or a man the same age as you who lost his I mean a lot of these girls are

00:52:46.000 in their early to mid-20s so I mean I'm kind of confused a bit here but with a man in his mid-20s

00:52:51.200 who is a virgin or man the same age who lost his virginity younger to an escort. Okay uh and why

00:52:57.440 going around the table which do you pick? Um the man that is in his 20s that is a virgin because it

00:53:03.920 shows that he has a lot of self-discipline and that's like really important thing that a lot

00:53:08.640 of guys kind of lack I feel like this day and age. Sure. What about you Felicity? Um I would say

00:53:15.680 the man in his 20s not because he's a virgin but just because I usually date guys that are a couple

00:53:22.320 years older I'm 18 so yeah. Okay. Um I agree with the other Bailey. Oh wait we have two yeah I just

00:53:31.120 said Bailey Jane though just to make it less confusing. Um cool. And spelled the same. Why

00:53:36.080 why do you agree with her? Um just the discipline aspect and yeah. Yeah okay. Um I'm gonna have to

00:53:43.760 say it depends on the person just because you lose your virginity to an escort years prior doesn't make

00:53:48.640 you like a bad person. We'll say they have the same personality traits. The only difference between

00:53:53.280 them is one lost its virginity to a escort the other is a virgin. Probably the virgin. Okay. Yes. What

00:54:03.200 about you? I pick the virgin in his mid-20s um because I'm repulsed by anyone who's been with an escort.

00:54:10.720 There you go. I'm sorry um if you pay for bucks I don't want you. You heard it here if you pay for box

00:54:18.240 can you add can you repeat that but say comrade at the end? If you pay for box I don't want you

00:54:23.760 comrade. Nice okay what about you? I'm gonna echo that I'm also like I I believe in God and I'm also

00:54:30.560 somewhat familiar with the research done on the the likelihood of your your relationship lasting with

00:54:36.640 increased amount of partners um you know past behavior predicts future behavior so I choose a virgin.

00:54:41.920 I would also choose the man in his 20s who's a virgin. Okay. Alexa what about you?

00:54:49.280 I chose the man who's a virgin.

00:54:52.080 Oh man. It does take a lot of self-discipline so I respect it. Okay. I think it was that was supposed

00:54:59.600 to the ladies right? Uh I would choose the man in his 20s.

00:55:03.440 Yes uh well if we flipped it you pick the slightly older woman like cut she's a couple years older

00:55:13.200 couple years older virgin versus like do women don't really get escorts but what is the opposite

00:55:19.200 version of this? High body count? I don't know something like that. Sugar daddy? Oh that's a good one.

00:55:25.280 That's really common. There you go there you go that is probably the opposite uh yeah definitely

00:55:30.480 virgin oh yeah I'll take the virgin who's a couple years older so all right uh let's see here and oh

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00:56:32.400 much for the cash app contributions all right guys we're gonna get into the first topic of the show

00:56:38.320 here so you know what do we do oh man yeah i guess we could just get into like the elon musk ashley st

00:56:45.840 claire stuff so um man this went viral on twitter on valentine's day kind of interesting how the timing

00:56:52.640 works so uh let's pull up actually let me preface this by saying so uh ashley st claire is a i guess

00:57:01.280 conservative she's primarily active on on twitter a conservative conservative political commentator

00:57:09.200 pundit uh influencer whatever you want to call it she doesn't really have a platform anywhere else besides

00:57:14.800 on twitter where she has a substantial following uh elon musk elon is it ellen elon i'm saying it

00:57:22.800 right uh elon musk has signal boosted the shit out of her since 2023 constantly replying to her tweets

00:57:29.760 quote tweeting retweeting etc etc uh so pretty substantial following over there on uh x and uh

00:57:37.680 interestingly enough this is a individual who has talked massive amounts of shit uh about me and

00:57:43.840 the podcast and uh surprisingly as a supposed conservative she's advocated that i be de-platformed

00:57:50.640 uh from uh youtube and other uh well primarily just on youtube but she's advocated for de-platforming

00:57:58.080 canceling so forth and uh but the big news is and we're gonna pull up some articles here in just a sec

00:58:03.920 is she made a tweet on valentine's day so this was just two days ago that she has a love child ellie

00:58:14.640 with elon musk's i think 13th child baby mama number five uh and by the way she's a single mom single mom

00:58:26.400 now she's got another baby daddy the world's richest richest man hello hypergamy hello

00:58:33.760 and so uh let's pull up the the articles on this really quick or no uh do we have her um her tweet

00:58:41.840 where she like the tweet from her first let's do that

00:58:47.280 so it's a tweet from her account we do it we do have it

00:58:54.720 oh her tweet her tweet it's from her account

00:58:57.280 but you need like photo or wait no but but do you my tweet with her tweet like did i took a photo

00:59:05.040 yeah let's do that one my bad uh make this bigger a little bit

00:59:11.760 no this is wrong this is wrong no no her tweet

00:59:15.440 the one time i like uh her welcoming yeah yeah yeah that's the one okay make it a little bigger

00:59:38.080 just click on her photo click on the photo all right uh five months ago i welcomed a new baby into

00:59:44.160 the world elon musk is the father i have not previously disclosed this to protect our child's

00:59:47.920 privacy and safety but in recent days it has become clear that tabloid media intends to do so regardless

00:59:54.640 of the harm it will cause i intend to blah blah blah okay whatever five months ago well so i don't know

00:59:59.840 what the deal is some people thought it was a a meme a joke whatever um but i'm pretty sure it's

01:00:06.400 completely valid the question is is if it was through a surrogacy i don't know if it was like ivf or

01:00:12.240 whatever but uh it's really interesting because um she's she's already a single mom which

01:00:26.880 is typically not the most appealing thing for like men who are dating no offense to date a single mom

01:00:35.280 and he's the world's richest man like he could probably get somebody who's not a single mom

01:00:42.080 in any case single mom kind of unremarkable average looking woman who's kind of quarrelsome and nagging

01:00:49.520 online chronically online um she got knocked up and was in some sort of situationship with the world's

01:01:00.400 richest man and very powerful man i guess what do you guys think about this

01:01:09.520 i am not surprised for the amount of shit that she talked

01:01:16.400 hypergamy seems to be rampant these days here let me ask the question like this do you guys think an

01:01:24.080 average looking single mom like in what world is she getting with and having a child with the world's

01:01:31.840 richest man like do you think that that makes sense well i think the fact that he is so rich he

01:01:39.600 doesn't really care also he has 12 children so i think in this specific situation it's a little different

01:01:47.600 just because he's like i mean he she could have 10 kids and it doesn't really affect him i i understand

01:01:52.800 it from like his position in in so far as like okay he's just trying to like repopulate the earth or

01:01:58.960 some shit but it's like that's you're rolling the dice that's winning the lottery you're already a

01:02:05.360 single mom and then you're gonna i mean some people i don't think it's a w necessarily because

01:02:11.520 for a couple different reasons but to be a single mom and then be able to lock it's not i mean she's

01:02:18.640 not gonna marry the dude like that's not on the table but to be able to she'll be taking care of

01:02:24.160 for the day yeah like she's she she's not gonna have to work another day in her life and in fact

01:02:29.200 and in one of the news articles we're gonna pull up uh he moved her into a ten thousand dollar

01:02:35.760 penthouse apartment in new york city he's probably paying her child support she has a security

01:02:40.800 detail like she is set for life and so i just think that's crazy like as a woman you can be

01:02:49.360 like not in the top one percent of prospective partners and she's gone ahead and locked down

01:02:57.920 look i'm not saying i mean when it comes to his value like his status and his money

01:03:03.680 he is the apex he's the world's richest man i mean he's not a bad looking guy but he's he's

01:03:11.520 you know in his 50s you know whatever i just think that's crazy it's pretty crazy like that's okay here

01:03:18.240 ladies let me let me paint a picture that's like you know the the neck beard cheeto dust in his mom's

01:03:26.400 basement playing video games smoking weed that's like if he lands a super who's like a really hot

01:03:34.960 um giselle man she's old um she's beautiful and she's anyways um who who's like a big supermodel

01:03:46.240 i don't know you like women who's who's like a hot chick jessica alba she's i think she's pretty no

01:03:54.080 she's very pretty or like megan fox like 15 years ago wait would you would you argue taylor swift

01:03:58.800 is probably not for looks but because of power and influence that she has honestly that's a good

01:04:04.480 i feel like they're because it's again it's not yeah he has money there's a lot of there's people who

01:04:09.440 have money the power that man has like her her life is always going to be with security detail now

01:04:14.720 with the rest of her life i think that's actually like i feel like it would be like the equivalent

01:04:18.240 of taylor's like the influence of how many people i think it's a decent controversy and all i think

01:04:24.880 it's a decent parallel i do think there's differences between men and women in terms of like what men

01:04:30.800 care about i think men don't care that much about like status and money in a woman for example but

01:04:36.960 but i think that's a decent parallel so but yeah so we'll just use that uh who's another i don't know

01:04:42.400 sabrina carpenter i mean she's on the come up ariana grande we could look at it like that

01:04:48.320 um i'm trying to i don't know i like billy eilish billy but i feel like i don't know that's like

01:04:54.720 that's oh no let's just say a victorious a victoria's secret model like do you think that's a fair shake

01:05:01.680 for the victoria's secret model to like she's gonna be dealing with the cheeto dust neck beard you

01:05:09.280 know gamer yeah felicity maybe she likes what they're into how about oh my wait wait how about

01:05:15.440 this i'll just make it super simple let's do it you end up with the obese mom's basement cheeto dust

01:05:23.360 neck beard playing video games smoking weed no ambition broke you think that's a fair shake for

01:05:29.680 you to end up with him i will say this it depends who they are too on the inside and their soul because

01:05:35.520 sometimes like who someone was in their past life or their soul also influences things which we don't

01:05:40.320 really think about stuff like that because yeah like maybe she's so maybe she was someone powerful

01:05:48.480 maybe she was a powerful ruler in her past life and that's why he's like trying to get with her to

01:05:52.480 watch to gain like that type of influence in the spiritual way you never know you never know

01:06:04.000 okay felicity your thoughts um if that's what they're into personally i wouldn't go for someone

01:06:10.560 like that but if you're into that i guess sure yeah same i i mean i don't see it but if that's their

01:06:20.240 thing then i guess is there a thing okay but yeah sure some girl out there might get into that

01:06:29.520 situation but if you were to look at that on surface and be like is she out of his league yes

01:06:38.960 oh my god everyone's pulling teeth tonight

01:06:42.880 uh here let's look at the uh actually wait we have a chat coming through and then we'll look at the

01:06:46.240 articles 24 7 exotics donated 200 chat please check out my youtube channel and show me some love

01:06:56.320 i've given away over four hundred thousand dollars so far girls if you were a fruit what would you be

01:07:02.560 and why wow okay um 24 7 exotics thank you bro uh if you're fruit what would you be and why really

01:07:09.920 quick answer a peach because that's my favorite fruit list nice felicity uh cherry i just like cherries

01:07:17.200 uh blueberry because i like them uh pineapple a strawberry they're sweet i like them lemon i'm not

01:07:25.280 for everybody mango mango why because i like mango okay i'd be a pomegranate hard to get too but sweet

01:07:36.160 and on the inside rock and roll okay cool um here we have another tweet we're gonna pull up so let's

01:07:41.920 pull up the the first one that you pulled up now she uh there's a whole bunch of other stuff with this

01:07:49.040 story but um she kind of got some she got a bit of praise like a bunch of conservative people were

01:07:57.920 like congratulating her on the kid but then she got a bit of uh kind of pushback because one of the

01:08:04.000 like components of conservative the conservative movement is like kind of not to put on a pedestal

01:08:11.120 like single motherhood and it's clear like going in if you're going to be dating elon musk like this

01:08:16.400 man's not going to marry you um it's difficult because on one hand yeah he's going to be more than

01:08:22.880 capable of financially providing for a child but he's like an extremely busy individual and in terms of

01:08:29.760 his like capacity to actually have a uh presence in the child's life as the father that's kind of he

01:08:38.480 already has 13 different children he's running like tesla spacex twitter like other companies super

01:08:45.840 busy guy he's involved with the government now with doge and being an advisor to donald trump so

01:08:50.880 uh let's pull it up uh now here's the crazy thing bruv i she deleted the tweet so i it you can't really

01:09:00.960 tell it's a little jumbled but she wrote this in 2022 kamala can't help herself from bending over

01:09:07.760 for a man to get ahead and i caught that and i said this didn't age well but she deleted it scroll

01:09:13.920 down just a little bit i don't know if it's gonna click show this thread

01:09:22.240 oh huh deleted it did you oh okay but uh yeah so that kind of uh you know

01:09:34.160 kind of talking on kamala i don't know

01:09:36.560 and she she she's saying she you know said kamala was bending over to get ahead

01:09:46.560 let's pull up that news article about the ten thousand dollar um apartment that elon musk is

01:09:56.000 yeah let's just start with the first one we're we're not going to check out the whole article but

01:09:59.120 uh all right ashley st claire influencer had uh reveals life of c4c blah blah blah let's scroll

01:10:05.840 down a little bit there's a component here scroll down scroll down uh find the part with the uh

01:10:12.160 like the apartment so keep scrolling uh scroll down

01:10:22.800 at the time she didn't particularly have much interest in elon yeah okay whatever scroll down

01:10:29.520 scroll down scroll down

01:10:34.960 so there's a sex keep going oh wait there it is musk allegedly provided her with a lavish

01:10:40.880 apartment in the financial district where rent for a two-bedroom can sort to nearly 40 000

01:10:46.800 uh and she also got a hefty security detail but no romance st claire claimed and the next tab

01:10:54.160 he breaks silence after conservative influencer ashley st claire claims okay scroll down a little bit

01:11:02.000 man they got so many ads on this website it's crazy scroll down

01:11:06.880 oh yeah this one's really interesting scroll down a little bit uh go ahead and click on actually we can

01:11:12.480 see it from here so i guess there's or click on the image in the tweet just click there

01:11:17.280 okay uh click up click on the image okay something at the very top i needed i needed to get elon musk's

01:11:26.160 attention for a marriage proposal please greg greg says he's got a kid with a woman already seems

01:11:31.120 unlikely to work out so this is in reply to ashley st claire which so i i don't know if i i'm maybe he's

01:11:38.320 responding to her at the very top but then this is in 2020 okay and their whole love affair i think

01:11:46.000 started in mid 2023 something like that and she says well he actually has seven kids and goes through

01:11:50.640 women pretty fast so she chose to to be in a situationship with this guy and date him and then

01:11:58.640 proceed to have a child with him knowing that he goes through women pretty fast and she you know she

01:12:04.720 claims to be conservative but like it seems kind of like a little counterintuitive or counter to

01:12:10.720 conservative values to like consciously get with a man who is not doesn't seem particularly monogamous

01:12:18.960 is kind of polygamist and she knows she has foreknowledge that he goes through women pretty

01:12:25.760 fast so she got with a man and let him impregnate her i guess we still don't know if it was like ivf

01:12:32.560 surrogacy whatever uh goes through women pretty fast i found that interesting uh he says ashley

01:12:40.160 st claire plotted for half a decade to ensnare elon musk um let's ask exile that and then go go to the

01:12:47.280 other um oh scroll down here so he responds or go back to the post actually wait wait wait hold on uh

01:12:53.840 uh did did we open this in the new tab or did it like redirect huh i don't think it was surrogacy

01:13:03.040 though because she looked pregnant in that other photo i think that was from her first pregnancy

01:13:06.880 like a couple years back okay yeah i think that was a different oh it was a new tab so can we go back

01:13:14.240 to the pull that up real quick oh so he he was like whoa so he's like oh this is all playing out

01:13:24.160 he planned it it's all playing out on twitter yeah and so uh and then let's just go to the next article

01:13:30.320 i think that's the last one

01:13:36.720 fits into mind you she also did a post saying if you recall like going back to the post you can leave

01:13:43.200 it here but she said please respect our privacy literally the next day the next day she's talking

01:13:49.600 to the new york post which is kind of like a tabloid mag a little bit um goes to the new york post and

01:13:56.720 has a interview i just find that pretty remarkable scroll down honestly like this going into this

01:14:03.200 answered like the question i had and the question was is she an influencer yes yes exactly so that answered

01:14:10.000 the question because immediately i know exactly why she did all this oh yeah i mean because she's

01:14:14.960 an influencer she just wants attention i mean she even referenced like it's the the fake hey i didn't

01:14:19.680 want attention all these tabloids are uh reporting it so like i just want to give my my point of view

01:14:25.600 whatever uh like i never would have heard of this uh you know most people don't read tabloids

01:14:31.920 never would have heard of it if she didn't chase this down um i mean obviously like she's like

01:14:37.440 cha-ching in 2020 like you can if you can have a baby with elon musk you're set yeah like she knows

01:14:44.160 she knows this and now she was you said monetarily but then as an influencer my goodness this is just

01:14:51.280 like perfect publicity well and like as far as how does she as a single mom not being you know something

01:15:00.000 brian touched on is like she she's not lower value to put it lightly um i guess he yes uh elon musk a

01:15:10.160 thousand percent is someone to do this just for the memes and just for the tweets so i also wouldn't

01:15:15.440 be surprised how much of it might have to do with that but i don't know yeah i think it's kind of

01:15:22.240 counterproductive where she said i want my child to have a normal private life but then she proceeds to

01:15:28.160 tweet about it yeah yeah i mean that's that's what uh oh gosh what were the the uh two in the royal

01:15:34.000 family um from britain oh megan and mary yeah megan markle yes they they they essentially was the

01:15:40.160 south park episode where like they they go around saying do not pay attention to us and they have this

01:15:44.800 whole tour and like leave give us our privacy do not bother us uh don't look at us yep but uh

01:15:50.720 it's the same thing it's the same thing like your actions speak a whole lot louder than your words

01:15:54.880 it's not counterproductive if that's a load of crap exactly let's pull back up that article the

01:16:00.080 same one that we were just on scroll down a little bit all right that's her in her swanky

01:16:04.880 new apartment scroll down oh wait claim she's given birth okay so i mean in this article she

01:16:12.000 because i thought there was maybe a surrogacy ivf involved but i guess okay so she gave birth so

01:16:18.000 let's scroll down uh let's see scroll down keep going keep going keep going that's his other baby

01:16:25.040 mama scroll down though keep going there was another picture keep going keep going all right okay uh oh

01:16:34.800 this girl oh that's what calls what emily wilson calls saint claire a grifter that's funny this i that

01:16:42.320 i've got i've dealt with this girl too man uh she was gonna come on the show but uh that's another

01:16:47.760 comment anyways that's another conversation um she got i'll just say she got run over by dean dean

01:16:56.480 withers who's like a left-leaning progressive liberal debater totally destroyed abs dean smoked her

01:17:03.840 she's not a debater though she went on steinie's podcast and just got smoked i mean she shouldn't be

01:17:08.880 debating people she's like uh the thing with like here's the thing with debating is like even if

01:17:15.520 you're right a skilled debater will make you look wrong like you could be a hundred percent right but

01:17:22.160 because of like their ability to use like debate tactics and certain rhetoric they will make you

01:17:28.160 not only look wrong look like an idiot yeah um so and that's exactly what he did so uh

01:17:34.880 uh we have a oh wait so we have a couple tweets can you just uh pull up the first tweet that's

01:17:41.440 related to this and we'll go through them so the first in the in the line maybe even if we already

01:17:50.160 pulled it up just pull up the first one we'll just tap through them uh okay we did we did this one uh

01:17:56.560 uh next okay yep next yeah oh yeah this is just the vendetta she's talked here while we play uh click

01:18:07.280 on the video yeah full screen it uh start from the beginning and put uh let's do video tab

01:18:16.400 okay let's nope uh very beginning okay entertains not the problem because if you take entertain away

01:18:22.400 you still have this massive group of young men who are clinging to that message uh-oh on shows

01:18:29.760 they're bringing them on for this humiliation porn why is all of this content allowed on youtube

01:18:36.400 youtube who has been you know at the forefront of we need to protect those who are you know a

01:18:42.320 protected class and women typically fall into that class so why all of a sudden is all of this content

01:18:48.080 allowed on you you can pause it it's terrible pause it uh next is there a next tab or actually i don't

01:18:53.520 think there is but um so i mean that's her video proof advocating for de-platforming conservative by

01:19:00.720 the way conservative like cancel wants to cancel de-platform kind of crazy um and uh let's see we do

01:19:07.040 have we're gonna get into one other thing then we'll get into the dating topics mr basement says you

01:19:12.800 know what felicity can have you read this one brian strategy into the mic of you brian strategy for

01:19:19.360 whatever 2025 bring on violent criminals l fug mug shotties diversion equals life on easy mode and

01:19:27.360 female privilege sent asteroid also l dark labia

01:19:34.640 that's damn yo base man appreciate man learn to leave cheaters he also quote wow that's crazy uh

01:19:41.440 sent the asteroid she's not hold on there's no violent criminals here at this table

01:19:48.080 she panicked right you panicked yes and then you ran into just it was just one cop car it was just

01:19:55.760 one and he was okay yeah it's you know what that cop car just came out of nowhere yeah it came out

01:20:02.880 of nowhere like it ran into you yes obviously yeah that's a girl right yeah that's what your lawyer said

01:20:09.200 right just she's just a girl just a girl can i ask you another question about that yeah do you have

01:20:14.000 any mental health diagnoses what the fuck yes are you on any like psychiatric medication or anything no

01:20:21.040 uh does everybody want to just like one by one just disclose all your like uh diagnoses from doctors

01:20:28.560 okay yeah well how long you got

01:20:33.600 oh right because yeah yeah do you have the elephant titus peniolus penile elephant titus i don't know

01:20:44.320 what that means okay i'm not that smart yeah so wait going around the table what are your um also what

01:20:50.720 mind-altering medications are you saying or not mind just what medications do you take

01:20:54.960 um i was only diagnosed with add now adhd but i'm not on any medications and i know i have

01:21:04.160 other things but i don't want to be on medication for it because yeah i just don't trust what i don't

01:21:08.880 trust medications like that sure what are the other things that you have what i think yeah um mild

01:21:14.640 autism that kind of goes with the add and then a few other things and what a few other things

01:21:21.760 a few other things possibly well on there that's what they would tell me but i think it's just

01:21:26.800 normal bipolar i think most of us are on the scale of like everything some of us less and more

01:21:33.360 i'm just gonna say that for now because that's all i think but okay what about you uh ptsd and i'm

01:21:39.680 not medicated okay uh depression anxiety probably bpd on zoloft uh went through lexapro went through

01:21:47.680 other ones but yeah you said probably bpd or diagnosed bpd um it was talked about um i think

01:21:55.520 i fit the symptoms but what what are the uh the symptoms that you have it's just like negative

01:22:02.320 self-image um bad with relationships kind of like that's a lot of people that's not just exactly but

01:22:08.640 you know you know the internet and just make my web md everyone does exactly yeah

01:22:16.400 um i was diagnosed with anxiety when i was like 16. okay that's it any like bipolar or anything like

01:22:22.800 that uh not that i know of alina i don't have any diagnosis no medication okay i love that for you uh

01:22:29.840 i have adhd and ptsd i just started taking adderall so that's been fun did you pop an addy

01:22:37.840 absolutely i did are you i've never been on the internet i have like 100 followers on instagram

01:22:43.520 nice what about you i've never been diagnosed with anything do you think you have anything no okay

01:22:48.960 alexa uh i was diagnosed with ptsd many years ago but i'm not on any medication or anything got it

01:22:54.880 mason well i mean uh other than the physical stuff yeah no no i i don't have any no mental

01:23:02.160 disabilities nothing nice nice good times okay uh how did we get there oh wait i asked her about her

01:23:10.080 accident oh oh yeah okay that's yeah got it okay um good times where oh we the the i think we're off of

01:23:20.800 that unless anybody has any further thoughts on the whole elon musk richest man in the world how

01:23:27.200 about this i'm gonna ask a question would you would you

01:23:34.160 get the same situation would you do the same situation like you're set for life so you're

01:23:39.280 set for life but elon musk is gonna bang you a couple times and you're gonna get pregnant and then

01:23:44.400 have his kid but then you get first dibs to go to mars with him if you want to and you're set for

01:23:51.840 life do you get knocked up by elon musk go ahead no because i feel like the child is gonna have issues

01:23:59.760 because of like the father not really being present and no amount of money can really

01:24:04.320 equate to that i feel like what if what if he would date you though like he would marry you would you

01:24:10.720 date him then just be a friend maybe really you passing on elon musk yes okay yes so how yeah i

01:24:19.680 want to reframe the question so how about just he he's going to be monogamous to you and he will marry

01:24:25.360 you world's richest man and you're gonna have a bunch of kids with him felicity um i would only

01:24:30.320 have children with someone that i'm married to so yeah we're married you you would do it but you would

01:24:34.560 date elon musk if you were single if you were single um i don't know world's richest man you're

01:24:42.880 you're set for life never have to work not not just that this is like millennia dynasty

01:24:51.360 like your children's children's children's like etc etc set for life

01:24:56.480 thousand year dynasty i wouldn't have a baby with him if we're dating but if we're no no so you you

01:25:03.920 date him and then you guys get married and then have a baby yeah multiple babies sure he wants to

01:25:09.840 pump out like 10 um that's too much okay how many do you want like two or three okay he wants three

01:25:15.600 kids with you okay you'll do it yeah do you will you go to mars with him for like the 10th honeymoon or

01:25:23.120 something yeah okay sweet what about you um for the money not seeing him maybe being married

01:25:29.600 now because he kind of scares me have you seen him jump it's scary you're concerning about his

01:25:36.560 jumping i will not stand for this slander let's see you jump oh stand up let's see you jump oh no i'm

01:25:44.720 good i'm retired basketball player exactly wait let's go ahead do a little job let's see you jump

01:25:50.480 no come on do a little jump okay it's okay ah you should not be so quick to pass judgment on the

01:25:56.560 man's jump okay i have a bad jump too oh into the mic um yes so okay you won't marry him because but

01:26:04.240 you'll know you date him no just for the funsies no like you would be his sugar baby no what if he was

01:26:11.920 like i'll bailey i want to smash one time with the lights off for a million bucks do you do it um

01:26:19.120 um in this moment maybe because i'm poor but morally no but maybe um a million dollars

01:26:33.760 maybe 10 million dollars uh probably i'm very poor yeah 10 million you're set for life but then you're

01:26:42.000 also a prostitute so you gotta kind of kind of makes you a prostitute it's like a okay all right

01:26:49.760 uh would you uh marry and have children with elon musk dude i'd be like loaded and then i don't have

01:26:57.680 to like talk to him and then i have my girlfriend and then i'll be like later you can't you can't

01:27:03.120 f around on elon musk no why i just no i'm good he's like old what about just like like a smashing

01:27:11.440 pass like just one time just to like see 10 10 million dollars you do it for 10 mil what's the

01:27:17.360 lowest you would do it for 10 mil you would come on you wouldn't do for five if i'm gonna like have

01:27:22.720 the the thing about being a prostitute for 10 million dollars yeah i can buy my mom a house my

01:27:28.880 dad a house my family a house all right sweet alina what about you would i marry him yes if you

01:27:36.400 were single i know you're in a relationship just hypothetically right um well i would prefer to be

01:27:41.600 married to someone who actually loves me let's say he does love you does he spend time with his child

01:27:47.520 sometimes no uh no he does in the white house he does but like keep in mind he's got his multiple

01:27:55.600 businesses so he's a very busy very limited time but like let's just say he has all these those

01:28:00.160 other kids you get the uh priority your kids get priority and he loves me yes yes okay nice okay

01:28:08.640 cool what about you i don't think so i quite i despite being on this podcast right now i quite

01:28:15.840 enjoy my private life oh okay because if you dated him it would be pretty yeah i'm good on that you'd be

01:28:21.760 thrust into public sphere yeah no nothing you never not for the money not with the lights on

01:28:27.680 no but if he's saying if he's seeing this and he's feeling generous i am also poor

01:28:35.040 gosh so i have no handouts he needs your womb okay he needs your room no i have i have friends that

01:28:42.880 have worked with him directly he is a nightmare of a person oh let's come on let's be nice no i i respect

01:28:48.560 what he's built i'm not saying i respect him as a businessman but there's a difference between

01:28:53.600 what you want to be with long term and what you want your child like if you would sign up for your

01:29:00.160 life is never your own you do what he wants and what he how he has it he's never going to be there

01:29:05.600 your child doesn't get a say and it's one of those things like do you really want to you you get paid

01:29:10.800 to lose your freedom and i don't think that's worth it personally uh mason would you go be gay for

01:29:18.800 pay gay for pay billions billions he's giving me billions no he's got to do the 10 million

01:29:25.520 too billions this is gonna be super

01:29:30.480 mason super sus question you get to pick though bottom or top

01:29:35.840 oh my god oh goodness this is a great question to ask a devout christian yes yes

01:29:43.520 a devout christian virgin man but but you know money the money yeah i mean yeah i mean think about

01:29:51.120 it like if you married him you would also be the one of the world's richest true true men you got

01:29:58.320 to think about that especially using a billion dollars a lot of money that is a whole lot of money man

01:30:03.440 yeah yeah well i mean this is not gonna surprise too many people but it's not gonna

01:30:08.960 yeah no no no i'm good yeah i would like kick it with him in like a header in like a heterosexual

01:30:17.120 straight bromance male bromance relationship i mean even if i was like dead in poverty like needed

01:30:24.000 like i'm super in debt uh i would know because like you know i usually uh i generally hold morality

01:30:30.560 over like how much money i have yeah good shit yo chat what do you do chat are you gonna you know

01:30:38.320 you know what i mean uh yeah i wouldn't do that uh oh there's one more tweet that's kind of came

01:30:45.280 up from the ashley st claire thing but like kind of unrelated i'll just talk about it for 30 seconds

01:30:50.080 then we'll get into some of the dating stuff uh let's pull that up it's uh

01:30:54.400 yeah yeah yeah make it bigger yeah so uh scroll down to the very bottom so i was talking so she

01:31:05.680 quote tweeted sarah stock there at the bottom i was just talking about the ashley st claire thing

01:31:10.800 and i actually think me and sarah well sarah we agree on the whole ashley st claire situation

01:31:16.000 but i was like man you know uh ashley st claire been trying to de-platform me talking

01:31:21.440 shit for a long time and she's like said and she's been on the show she was on the show and

01:31:26.640 she says to be fair your show sucks mind you we've had me and this girl we've had like a cordial

01:31:32.880 like yeah yeah cordial interaction she came on the show um but so she said to be fair your show

01:31:40.000 sucks scroll up to the very top so i quote tweeted i was like is that why you begged to be on it

01:31:44.800 multiple times pull up the first one click on the first one boom no the first one yeah and then uh

01:31:53.200 so uh there she is hey i'd like to go on the podcast go the next one really quick

01:31:58.480 hey i'd like to go on the podcast i'm 20 blah blah blah blah uh next

01:32:03.680 so that was in october of 2023 then november she follows up again hey if you need anyone extra for

01:32:08.560 this sunday i'm going to be in santa barbara anyways and free all day that's where we shoot and then uh

01:32:13.200 next one and then this is a couple months later january 29th hey shooting my shot again i very

01:32:19.920 much want to go on your podcast as a conservative woman and tell these only fans girls to turn to

01:32:24.160 crap blah blah blah uh so she reached she asked three times to be on the show and then she said as

01:32:30.480 you see on the right there to be fair your show sucks so i was kind of that got thrown into the

01:32:35.520 whole ashley st claire thing just kind of crazy guys crazy so uh and here's the thing with um

01:32:43.360 with me is like i will never talk about anybody first i'll never do it but if you're gonna like

01:32:51.200 if you ever see me going at someone it's in response to them and even when like the people

01:32:57.200 that talk shit on twitter or whatever even then 99 of the time i just don't respond um there's a lot

01:33:03.360 of people in the space who have talked to me and i mostly just ignore it but uh i felt compelled

01:33:09.440 how dare you you i invite i graciously invited you into my studio we had a cordial uh you know

01:33:18.160 uh interactions you and then the show sucks why did yes why did you practically beg

01:33:24.720 to come on the show i mean well obviously she thinks she sucks so she wants to be on a show that

01:33:30.240 sucks yes that makes the most sense to me yeah if you're gonna go logic that's it yeah anyways i

01:33:36.160 i often often many many such cases where this happens so um yes i feel like that's when a guy

01:33:44.400 like hits on a girl and then if she like politely declines he's like you're ugly anyway

01:33:50.000 no but we had her we had her come on the show she came finally we we invited her on the show she came

01:33:56.560 on and then afterwards uh i think she there was another message in there said something like

01:34:02.000 we always thank people after the show hey thanks for coming on and she was like oh yeah thank you so

01:34:06.000 much uh thanks for having me yeah i'd love to come back on and then your show sucks probably it's like

01:34:12.400 okay and then whatever anyways okay let's get into the dating dating talk here let's get into the dating

01:34:18.480 talk oh wait okay i do have a question related to dating though would you date a guy who listens

01:34:25.680 to joe rogan starting with you um like religiously like all the time or just here and there like he

01:34:35.440 doesn't listen to every podcast but he listens like consistently consistently yeah like how often does

01:34:42.240 he once or twice a week he does a show i think it's like three or four right now he probably say he

01:34:47.760 watches it like twice a month two or three times a month yeah yeah okay all right yeah and oh but his

01:34:54.560 favorite episode was the trump episode no just kidding all right would you date a guy who listens

01:34:59.280 to the joe rogan podcast okay yes yeah sure really i mean it doesn't really affect me if he wants to

01:35:08.400 watch that how about this would you date a girl who listens to the joe rogan podcast uh yeah would you

01:35:17.120 date a girl who's a trump supporter no okay what about you uh we listen together so there you go you

01:35:23.520 and your boyfriend listen together what about you um i don't really what's the joe rogan podcast about

01:35:28.240 oh joe rogan i mean he's been podcasting for a really long time he brings on people and has like

01:35:33.120 typically two to three hour conversations with them he he's he's not or like he's not really a republican

01:35:42.960 i don't really think he's conservative but he does probably slide more in that he's sliding a bit more

01:35:49.200 in that direction so like a lot of people who are maybe a bit more left-leaning or democrat uh kind

01:35:54.560 of view his podcast in negative light so he he has guests on that are scientists everything from

01:36:01.440 influencers scientists and he just he just asks questions very long conversations he voted for trump

01:36:07.120 too okay and he endorsed trump oh i have conservative values so yeah i would would be okay with it then

01:36:13.280 wait sorry you yeah i would be why i lean towards that way too so okay uh not a deal breaker for me

01:36:21.840 okay cool all right that was just an interesting question i had so because i've seen on like

01:36:29.120 even going back a couple years ago i used to be on dating apps like hinge uh i haven't been on

01:36:34.080 dating apps in a long time girls would put in their prompts on hinge like i don't know if it's something

01:36:38.960 like it's a deal breaker if you listen to the joe rogan podcast and i've seen these tick tocks like

01:36:43.840 if he listens to the joe rogan podcast it gives me the ick or something so curious to see the room

01:36:49.600 temperature the the temperature of the panel on that one we're going to get into the uh pre-show notes

01:36:55.520 here for everybody there's definitely some interesting stuff so let's start with uh why don't we do felicity

01:37:02.480 felicity you said that you and your ex have a lot of interesting stories one of your favorites

01:37:09.600 is the time you crashed your car in a chase with him do you want to tell us that that story really

01:37:14.080 quick uh so that was actually my current boyfriend we were on a little break at the time but okay we're

01:37:20.720 back together um yeah we we started arguing and then he left the house and then i was sitting there

01:37:29.360 and i was like oh now i want to go home too so i left and then he was it was dark he was like

01:37:34.480 waiting in like this little pocket of like a hidden street in his neighborhood and i see him come behind

01:37:39.520 me chasing me and i ran to and then i like jumped around about and i destroyed my bumper but my car's

01:37:47.120 fine was this wait sorry this is a different car accident yeah this is before after it is before how

01:37:54.880 many have there been just a two wait he was chasing you in the car yeah he was he was chasing me you

01:38:00.400 were both in cars yeah so it's like a okay like a need for speed or what's that uh drive what's is it

01:38:07.680 need for speed that's the video wait what what is the what's the movie franchise oh fast and fury

01:38:14.400 duh duh okay uh okay wait why was he chasing you um because we had argued and i think i told him like

01:38:22.080 i just wanted to go home and he like freaked out thought i was breaking up with him or something

01:38:25.680 and wanted me to pull over and if we know one thing about this lady is that if you pull up behind

01:38:31.600 her in a car she's gonna go she's going going i get scared it's the fight or flight it's the

01:38:38.000 fight or flight she is a flight she is flight flight yeah oh man that's interesting okay um cool cool

01:38:45.680 and uh so let's see here um we have notes from we're gonna get into bailey so this bailey bailey

01:38:59.120 s yeah uh you said that you're this is an interesting one your ex broke up with you two

01:39:07.680 weeks after you came back from studying abroad in australia he was an international student from from

01:39:14.080 where serbia serbia okay and he was at your school yes he was on a full ride for rowing yes and you're

01:39:23.040 caught off guard when you returned back you guys i think you said it was a year you were in this long

01:39:27.680 distance relationship broke up with you two weeks after you got back did he do it in person or uh yes

01:39:35.680 in person yeah yeah okay how long was the the convo um well we got into an argument the one night

01:39:44.080 oh and then um the morning so the night before the breakup you got into an argument yes about

01:39:49.600 what um well we were all drinking and my friends were over and he was just you know getting a little

01:39:58.800 um i don't know he was just getting where he was kind of coming at me for things and making fun of me

01:40:06.880 just like kind of playing because like we're very like sarcastic playful um but it was kind of getting

01:40:11.440 yeah but like getting like past the teasing point um so i was like hey like chill out and then he

01:40:16.480 didn't and then i was like okay go home like you're way too drunk um and then he was like oh well in my

01:40:23.040 country you can't tell a guy to leave like you kick me out in front of your friends and i didn't think

01:40:29.840 that you should have done that and so then um i gave him some time i didn't contact him and the next

01:40:35.520 morning he came over with all my stuff from his place and goes i want to break up with you

01:40:40.560 oh because earlier you said that you were kind of you didn't know why he broke up with you i don't

01:40:45.840 think this was the biggest motivator but i think it obviously played a part wait so to be clear you

01:40:50.800 were in your dorm room um in my apartment on campus your apartment yes okay and you guys are friends

01:40:55.840 right so were you that were you there i met her after this relationship yes so a couple clarifying

01:41:00.880 questions here um so you guys it was like a friday or saturday night yes and you guys were at your

01:41:06.560 apartment how many people were there i only had like two friends over two or three friends and it

01:41:11.040 was it it was him and then a few other female friends or what um so i had i think two of my

01:41:18.000 girlfriends um a guy friend and then him and we were over just making cocktails and was he friends with

01:41:25.280 them too or um not really not really like here and there they've hung out but not and is he a heavy

01:41:30.960 drinker not really i mean it depended i guess um he also he would have to be up at like 6 a.m every

01:41:40.480 morning for rowing practice so he never really drank too much okay so this was like a rare occurrence

01:41:46.960 yeah yes but then also he thought that that that i sometimes you know wanted to drink like more than

01:41:53.760 he would and like that was so would you guys roast each other oh yeah so it was like kind of you guys

01:41:58.560 would tease each other yes but the teasing went too far yes did you go too far also no so question um

01:42:06.480 when during the breakup conversation because you guys had a conversation right i mean not really he

01:42:12.000 kind of just said that over here's your shit and left well yes and then you know i'm helping having

01:42:17.360 my meltdown and then wait when you say you're having your meltdown during the breakup yes okay

01:42:23.280 um but during that conversation did you uh did he say like did did you guys have a conversation

01:42:32.640 about the previous night um yeah it was basically just about he was like oh like in my country if you

01:42:39.440 can't do that you can't kick a guy out especially in front of your friends that was like yeah let's go

01:42:44.000 into that okay so you kicked him out of your place i just said go home because he was like way too drunk

01:42:48.960 and like okay so when you say he was going too far like what was he saying i don't even remember

01:42:55.440 most of it because i honestly didn't think it was that big of a deal um because i thought like him

01:43:00.080 just going home would have been like you know i'll see you tomorrow but um it's okay you guys were

01:43:05.360 teasing each other back and forth it starts getting a little too maybe a bit insulting and this is all in

01:43:12.560 front of your there's two girls and a guy there right okay so there's five people total okay and

01:43:18.720 so uh how so is there like an argument that's had then you kick him out in front of your friends um so

01:43:28.720 we went to this place across the street for pizza and i like talked to him separately i was like hey

01:43:33.040 like can you like calm down you're being very like obnoxious and he was like yeah yeah for sure and then we got

01:43:38.960 back and it continued and then i was like i want you to go and like obviously it's an on-campus

01:43:46.000 apartment it's not that big so like people heard they heard um was there were you guys yelling at all

01:43:52.160 either of you i don't no not really i think maybe just i was like you need to leave like go like i don't

01:43:58.720 think it was really yelling maybe like raising the tone that you told him you need to go can you repeat

01:44:04.480 it like pretend i'm your ex-boyfriend how did you say it just like well we were very drunk i think it

01:44:10.080 was just like like you need to go like and then did he immediately leave no he uh he went um to my room

01:44:18.560 and then i went there and i was like what are you still doing here go home and then i guess he got mad

01:44:26.160 so and then he when you said that he left yes okay and uh let's see here but that's not the end of the

01:44:36.880 story um so you guys break up yes um you what did you do after that um well i kind of was like taken

01:44:48.400 aback and this was like my first relationship and um i you know was kind of you know unsure of

01:44:56.080 things that were happening so i was like he had a lot of stuff going on in his life that was stressing

01:45:01.680 him out so he was like okay let's just like take a break and then like we'll talk and then after like

01:45:08.080 a month or something it was like nothing's happening so like that was that was it but i was also

01:45:15.120 i guess very resentful towards him so no but what did you do oh oh yeah um so i decided i knew of some

01:45:29.440 shady things he was doing he was here in the u.s um full ride to a very to our schools you know pretty

01:45:37.360 expensive and all of his like his apartment and everything he needed you know money and as an

01:45:43.920 international student he's not allowed to um like work if it's not like a campus job or something so

01:45:51.200 he was really struggling financially um so where we met at our past job he was stealing um a bunch of

01:46:00.800 the products um and then selling them online on different retailers and so i was very mad about this

01:46:08.480 whole situation um so i decided uh you know without like doing anything really like i didn't know what

01:46:19.760 would happen but without like kind of confronting him like in person something i decided through our

01:46:25.200 anonymous ethics portal to report him in hopes that he would get kicked off their own team and the

01:46:33.680 college ethics yes you reported to him to the college yes to the police or no just the college

01:46:40.160 just the college yeah because the job was some was like it's kind of tied to our college i see okay and

01:46:46.400 so you did that to try to get him kicked off the rowing team well i thought like maybe it would be

01:46:51.360 because he was already kind of on the rocks with you know not really taking school seriously even he was

01:46:57.680 though he was there for free um so like he was kind of on um like suspension i guess from

01:47:05.760 participating in some of the this was before or after this was like before this is one of his like big

01:47:13.520 like stressors no i meant like before or after you broke up no she did it after the breakup after

01:47:19.520 yeah that was after so yeah you were in your notes you just said um he had a full ride for rowing

01:47:24.480 you were caught off guard because of the breakup you were upset so you submitted him to your college

01:47:29.280 uh ethics portal since you knew he was doing something illegal to try to get him kicked off

01:47:35.840 the team and sent back to his country yes did he get kicked off the team because of your report

01:47:41.520 i don't know i don't i don't think he did um i know he was in very like his standing like his

01:47:47.120 suspension everything academically it was like kind of rough so i don't know if it had any impact and

01:47:53.280 there was because it was anonymous i have no way to check he did graduate though i don't even know

01:47:57.520 if he's still in the u.s i don't know where he is when was this um summer of 23 okay um did you feel

01:48:08.560 guilty for doing that uh yes why now i do more so just because like well what if he actually did get

01:48:18.320 deported um i would feel bad especially because you know it takes a lot to i guess move here alone

01:48:25.360 and you know start your life and everything but in the moment i was just so mad at him why didn't you

01:48:30.960 i mean i'm a little confused though um you knew he was doing this illegal thing i'm not saying you

01:48:36.480 should have done this but uh i mean it's obviously you did it out of revenge because he broke up with you

01:48:42.400 mm-hmm yeah what's the question i mean do you it seems like well there was also other personal

01:48:53.120 issues that were going on but what do you mean other personal issues just stuff that we didn't see

01:48:58.080 eye to eye with such as um such as such as such as such as uh like values and no no just answer

01:49:07.760 answer my question yeah such as such as like intimacy um going out um you know just things of

01:49:18.880 that nature what what do you mean by intimacy um just the fact that you know i one of the big things

01:49:28.000 was that i just got back into the country my medicine was changed i like didn't feel like doing

01:49:33.680 much i guess and then he kind of always kind of pushed to that on me wait sorry he pushed what

01:49:42.400 what did he push just like being intimate like sex and stuff like he that he was always very pushy

01:49:48.880 he what do you mean he was pushy like would like be like oh come on like it's been like x amount of

01:49:55.200 time what do you mean x amount of time like blank amount of time since like you guys were you guys in

01:50:00.800 a monogamous relationship yes and you did you ask for the monogamous relationship yes like you

01:50:07.120 wanted to be in a monogamous sexual relationship with him and early on in the relationship was the

01:50:14.000 frequency with which you were having sex more frequent um earlier yes also you said you guys

01:50:19.440 were in a long-term relationship so you guys wouldn't see each other very much right yeah

01:50:23.920 so then it was like when i got back like he expected everything like kind of right away

01:50:27.760 you wait what do you mean right away when i got back from australia you guys had been dating for

01:50:32.720 nine months or something right yeah i know but when i got to australia like you know i'm getting

01:50:37.360 back into this time zone like it took him two weeks since he basically moved in without like saying he was

01:50:42.960 gonna move in and expected me to like drop everything to be with him every two seconds which

01:50:47.680 of course in the beginning i was like yeah but like i also have to study i also want to see my

01:50:52.720 other friends so you're upset that your boyfriend wanted to have sex with no i'm upset because

01:50:57.120 sometimes when i'd say no he wouldn't well okay that's non-consensual but i'm my confusion here a

01:51:06.240 little bit is it's like he you're saying he would force himself on you is what you're saying

01:51:15.840 okay well that's not appropriate that's not consensual the way you were originally explaining

01:51:20.320 it though was he was pushy like he would be like babe i really want to have sex yeah but do you

01:51:27.200 consider like if he wanted to like would you consider him being pushy just verbally like hey

01:51:34.240 babe i really want to have sex we haven't done it no but it wouldn't it wouldn't just be that is the

01:51:39.280 issue but i explained it like that because i didn't really want it okay um well i'm uh

01:51:50.320 just i guess my confusion and i'm not excusing if i mean if there's not not consent that's in

01:51:56.640 absolutely unacceptable but um if there was this mismatch in terms of the frequency with which you

01:52:03.920 guys wanted to have intimacy uh it doesn't sound like this is was a good fit um

01:52:11.760 uh so yeah i guess um any other questions i'm just curious how soon into the relationship

01:52:25.040 did he start forcing himself um i don't know um like when i got back because everything was like

01:52:36.640 fine i think it was the distance so how and so you guys were together for a year yes but i it was

01:52:43.840 very you know uh distance like long but like had you not been with him for five months well yeah

01:52:50.880 she was she was an australian well yeah yeah but like you didn't see each other physically for a

01:52:55.040 while for yeah wait but so hold on hold on so you had been intimate previously correct and every

01:53:02.240 single time prior to that was consensual correct yes okay um and then you'd so you'd been with him

01:53:09.040 for a year all your sexual encounters were consensual yes but then he forced himself when you came back

01:53:18.000 yes okay and because you didn't want to have sex with him he forced it yeah i mean i was changing

01:53:22.640 my medication and like getting back on the time zone so it's like can i ask a quick question uh was

01:53:30.720 he financially providing for you at all while you were away no any any time throughout the relationship

01:53:36.640 um like he'll pay for dinner like dates and stuff yeah standard that he paid for dates yes and no

01:53:43.600 depending sometimes i would but like i would get him lots of gifts um like i would be the one to drive

01:53:50.560 down um when we were doing a little bit of the distance when i was in massachusetts to visit him

01:53:57.040 um like all of that was on me i drove down like i would get groceries i would like do all this stuff

01:54:04.480 because he's the only one he was i don't know he's still here was only one in his family in the u.s

01:54:11.600 um he didn't have like very much help financially wise like fine yeah if that makes sense um and then

01:54:19.520 i mean first off i'm sorry to hear that this happened but uh did this happen multiple times

01:54:27.920 um i would say

01:54:32.320 did you go like did you go the police did you go to the university no i mean i'm gonna cut out real

01:54:37.360 quick here some of these questions are a little hard like this is this is a lot for someone to talk

01:54:42.000 about so thank you for sharing first of all what happened to is not okay and it happens far too often

01:54:47.440 and yeah i'm just gonna put my foot down on this one and ryan you can be mad at me but there are

01:54:53.200 certain things that she probably didn't want to come up and talk about this it's not a fun subject

01:54:58.720 you never most of the time girls don't come forward because it's you're dating the person so it's like

01:55:03.360 how do you even tell people especially if you was consensual at one point so it's it's one of those

01:55:10.000 things like it's hard to go through thank you for sharing because it's not easy that you're talking

01:55:16.480 to someone about i have one final question yeah you were so upset you were so upset

01:55:25.120 at him because he broke up with you that you wanted to get revenge on him and you reported him to the

01:55:32.080 campus for a minor petty theft if your intention was to get revenge on him why did you not accuse him of

01:55:40.960 something more serious i think because in the back of my head i still cared for him a lot

01:55:50.320 but i mean your intention here

01:55:54.480 i mean you said you wanted to get you wanted to get him kicked off the team and sent back to his country

01:56:02.640 it's very vindictive i'm sorry i just think it's a little different when it's someone that you were in a

01:56:07.920 relationship with and there's background there's history um obviously this was just a random guy

01:56:15.600 i'm sure that different actions would have been taken but this is just a complex situation where

01:56:23.920 you know you can't really criticize somebody too much for how they reacted because because of the

01:56:31.040 severity of the situation also it's one of those things it's i'm just going to be honest with it

01:56:38.080 it's it's you can go forward with it and it's what you can prove and when you go forward you get

01:56:46.320 pounded by people having to relive it over and over and sometimes you just don't want to do it

01:56:52.080 i get it i agree well i mean that's kind of the extent of my questions you did tell us this story

01:57:00.320 about your ex uh you had not disclosed in your notes here that there was this other uh component of

01:57:08.400 the uh relationship um

01:57:12.960 um interesting did you i'm sorry i feel bad because it's like i don't want you to think that

01:57:22.880 i'm questioning you because i want like if you don't want to talk about this no you're fine okay

01:57:26.000 okay okay okay i mean i it's fair um i asked about the financial thing earlier partially because i think

01:57:33.120 it's just just to kind of understand what's going on in his head you know going five months assuming he

01:57:37.680 was you know not cheating on you during that time um yeah you know men have needs and stuff and not

01:57:43.520 by no means to justify but just kind of understand what's going on in his head but i'm curious when

01:57:47.760 that happened um you know following the incident at what point did you like did you immediately were

01:57:56.560 you immediately like wow i was just s8 or did it take time to kind of come to that conclusion um i think

01:58:03.840 it did come take time because he was my first relationship and he would say you know you're my

01:58:10.960 you can't you're not you know raping a girl i don't know if i can say no yeah you're sorry i'm sorry

01:58:18.240 uh essay essay you are not um essaying someone if you're in a relationship um even if you're not

01:58:25.520 married was that his yeah is that a cultural thing for him um okay i don't know okay just curious

01:58:32.240 okay well um uh i'm trying to think but so i guess like yeah i'm you know obviously uh he he went

01:58:44.400 on he went down on um down some roads that he should never have gone down um this is obviously essaying

01:58:51.840 somebody or forcing yourself upon somebody um there is there is a the level of i mean of course as

01:58:58.720 as when you're in a relationship with somebody when you're married to somebody and trying to pursue

01:59:04.560 them physically it's you want to make sure that they're okay with this so forcing himself that's

01:59:10.880 terrible um but i also want people to realize like you said you regretted the oh gosh the the aspect of

01:59:20.320 you anonymously telling that uh he did these terrible things after you guys broke up i mean

01:59:28.560 knowing that you have regrets for that that it's not something you practice now like if you went if

01:59:33.840 you're in the same position you wouldn't do the same thing correct uh no i would not exactly so i mean

01:59:41.040 you learned your lessons obviously he like it's never something he should have done those couple times

01:59:46.640 um but you know well i appreciate there is that growth we have a chat coming in ogle donated two

01:59:53.200 hundred dollars lalexa you can't put your foot down if it's not your show go to youtube.com and start

02:00:00.640 your own show friend anyways um we're just gonna move on but we have another chat here i do appreciate

02:00:07.280 the uh message ogle we have uh oh we do have this this came in a little earlier uh see brian i told you

02:00:14.800 alexa was one of the good ones thank you infinite singularity for that and then we have another

02:00:19.440 message coming in from mr baseman more female privilege this is from 30 minutes ago before

02:00:25.360 we got into this topic more female privilege zero accountability downplaying felonies injure injuring leo

02:00:31.760 brixton white knight defensor i was scared crime should be punished l california l society

02:00:37.840 send another asteroid there you go sending it for you man appreciate it uh let's see here thank you for

02:00:44.160 that ryan ryan said oh that's below the threshold there it is for the read though uh okay cool thank

02:00:50.640 you for that appreciate it guys uh let's get into some of the other pre-show notes here um we'll get

02:00:56.320 into your other notes bailey you sent some other notes but we'll get into those a little bit later on

02:01:01.840 in the show let's go to the other bailey really quick why don't we switch over to the other bailey

02:01:06.560 uh you describe yourself as a godly girl in your instagram yes oh it keeps going my bad uh are you christian

02:01:12.800 no i grew up catholic um i even went to a catholic high school where we had monks as teachers and then

02:01:21.760 also just catholic alumni um i agree in a with a lot that's in the bible but since i don't agree on

02:01:30.400 everything that's why i'm no longer catholic and i'm no longer anything just yeah existing can we hear

02:01:38.240 that rapper numb probably not because i'm not gonna lie i gotta be in a more like upbeat state and yeah

02:01:46.800 i'm kind of sad right now okay all right uh do you let's see uh are you a witch is in my notes i don't know

02:01:58.800 why wait what made you think that i don't know i saw somewhere in your instagram that could indicate

02:02:07.440 are you i don't know um so i guess more by birth um it's like something i never really wanted to get

02:02:15.760 into like magic and stuff like that i always try to avoid it but it came to the point where so many

02:02:21.360 people around me were getting attacked to where i like if i didn't get into it i know things would be a

02:02:27.360 lot worse for those around me and myself than they are now so i do godly magic though i don't do

02:02:33.200 gray i mean um black or white magic i do gray magic which people don't really know it really even exists

02:02:39.520 and how to do it but that's what i do so just for protection magic no no gray magic gray magic or

02:02:45.760 purple magic like if you watch star wars just like that lightsaber that's purple lightsaber yeah mace

02:02:52.880 windows okay uh are you a satanist um no but i know he exists you know satan exists yes okay uh all right

02:03:05.840 sure uh we're gonna um oh you did write something here in ig post then we'll get you have other notes

02:03:13.440 too that we'll get into okay you said before patriarchal times friday the 13th was a day to honor the divine

02:03:18.880 feminine in the cycles of creation and rebirth the number 13 was revered as a symbol of femininity

02:03:24.480 reflecting the 13 moon cycles in the calendar year friday the 13th was a powerful day to manifest

02:03:29.840 honor creativity and to celebrate beauty wisdom and nourishment of the soul yeah so a lot of things

02:03:34.960 what um a lot of like satan-ness i would say and like just people in general in positions of power

02:03:42.000 they're trying to like reverse a lot of things and they're using like the same type of magic but just

02:03:47.920 in reverse and reverse just they're trying to yeah they're doing a lot it's it's a lot it's a deep

02:03:54.080 rabbit hole very deep okay uh let's see why don't we get into we'll do uh trying to confuse trying to

02:04:03.040 yeah we'll uh why don't we go to ashley ashley uh you were engaged at 19 you got a dog a car apartment

02:04:10.160 and he cheated on you with a girl that he knew from high school and tried to father her baby yeah

02:04:19.760 okay um cheated on you multiple times yeah sent letters to multiple women yeah uh he was in the

02:04:27.680 military yeah okay that's the uh that was like my longest three-year relationship right okay how'd you

02:04:34.720 find out um you know you just i kind of just had a feeling and then he would always take his phone

02:04:43.200 everywhere and then like two weeks before i actually found out he told me to stop wearing my engagement

02:04:48.160 ring because he didn't feel like we were in a good place yeah now when it comes to the i guess moving

02:04:55.520 on to the the most recent ex that you dated for a year you've brought you've been broken up for

02:05:00.320 a year at this point uh the love of your life as you describe him yeah um you said that you wait you

02:05:08.640 got if i recall you got ghosted by him is that correct yeah like no contact yeah okay you said that

02:05:17.840 did did you say i love you to him on your second date is that what i recall from someone said that in

02:05:23.520 the notes no i feel like last time i told the story i really explained it horribly but um i did tell

02:05:29.440 him that i loved him like about like three months after we oh three yeah somebody here said said it

02:05:36.480 was the second time you met him well it was long distance so i guess yes okay uh that's okay that's

02:05:43.360 different i thought it was like the second date you guys been talking for no no no that wasn't the

02:05:47.200 second date uh yeah uh you said that you love him but you're not waiting for him something like that

02:05:55.360 did i maybe i don't know uh does that ring a bell not really uh so you got and you've had no contact

02:06:04.160 with him for a year no it's gonna be a year and i have not spoken to him and he ghosted you yeah okay

02:06:11.040 um you're still are you're still in love with him though i still have a lot of love for him what is i

02:06:17.200 don't know what that means it means that like i'll still have a lot of love for him okay how about this

02:06:23.200 if he contacted you and he was like hi ashley i want to get back together would you get back with him

02:06:31.200 i don't think so but i can't tell you that for sure i don't know how i would react i mean it's a

02:06:36.480 hypothetical so it's like you can't picture yourself in hypothetical like you look at you pull up your

02:06:43.520 phone you look at it now well hypothetically i want to tell you no and i would have enough self-respect

02:06:48.880 but emotionally i don't know okay i could say like yeah no bye i'd want an explanation

02:06:58.720 why he ghosted you like i yeah okay all right um and uh i'm trying to think if there's anything else

02:07:07.440 uh do you have anything you want to add to that no not really okay um any other dating related topics

02:07:18.720 that you wanted to hit on

02:07:22.400 not ones that we're not gonna hit on some though what do you mean like i feel like if if there's

02:07:29.040 one thing that you wanted to contribute to this podcast tonight what would it be

02:07:35.200 that

02:07:38.640 i'm not sure about dating i'm not sure no

02:07:42.640 it's a dating discussion i don't have like a specific topic i would talk about i think the last

02:07:49.520 time i was on the podcast we like super deep dive into that story and i feel like

02:07:54.240 like i explained it horribly wrong but i like other than that i don't know sure okay um let's

02:08:02.960 see what else there is we have uh i actually need to get up momentarily i need to use the restroom uh

02:08:10.480 mason can you uh like ask them a question or something while i uh get up i need for sure we

02:08:16.080 could figure something out do you guys have any takes because i've been here at the table for two

02:08:22.000 hours i need to get up for a moment okay i'm i know i've been carrying this entire conversation

02:08:28.000 but if you guys can like carry for five minutes while i just get up for a moment i would appreciate

02:08:33.040 it thank you guys i have a hot take i have a lot of hot takes actually i'm kind of scared of like

02:08:38.000 pissing brian off so that's like i'm like oh spooked um but i i see my my not my lack of

02:08:43.760 participation i know my lack of participation um so i one of the things that are what that's in the

02:08:52.080 paper is uh whether or not men and women have equal rights and i don't think that we have equal rights

02:08:57.680 but i actually think men get hoed a lot legally i live in washington and i am in social work um and

02:09:05.120 i definitely see uh i see a lot of women with a tremendous amount of power when it comes to their

02:09:13.120 children and you know men are still legally responsible for their children but meanwhile

02:09:18.000 women you know get to make the decision about whether or not they're going to have an abortion

02:09:20.960 without a man having any say in that whatsoever um but can still hold him accountable for child

02:09:26.480 support if she wanted to um and women tend to be the uh first first caretaker that um the courts might

02:09:34.560 look at um in the event that you know a parent separate um i i do deal with a lot of cases where

02:09:41.920 you know there's both sides are you know saying oh i suffered domestic violence from the other party

02:09:48.800 and uh i i've certainly dealt with my fair share of women who have uh been manipulative with that um

02:09:55.840 and seem to to be aware and that's not all just to clarify that's not all i wouldn't even say that's

02:10:00.720 necessarily most um but yeah that's that's my that's my hot take right now uh also women don't

02:10:07.120 get drafted so the next time i hear someone say where is the law about men like what laws control

02:10:12.640 men's bodies um there it is so i just want to get that out on the table now any takes on that guys

02:10:22.160 um i don't work in that field so i'm probably not going to be the best like of interest i feel like

02:10:33.680 i don't think you have to be i think it's i think it's a pretty broad uh societal issue in western

02:10:38.640 world i feel like i feel like it's a it's different in each like area because i feel like for me this is

02:10:48.480 just my personal um i feel like with the whole like abortion i feel like it depends on the

02:10:55.280 situation but i do feel like what depends on the situation like you know there's like there's women

02:11:00.080 who get essayed and there's a bunch of other i mean yeah that's a very small portion of abortions

02:11:05.440 i just like to make that note not that it's not important but you know i feel like with this

02:11:09.120 conversation we tend to look at the exceptions to the rule and i think that's where you know i i don't

02:11:15.920 think it's a fair argument because of a very large majority i think it's like 97 or 98 of

02:11:22.160 abortions uh i'm not super updated on the statistics in the last year or two maybe that's

02:11:26.240 about right is that about right okay uh that's the case so you know if you're if we're gonna have

02:11:30.880 a conversation especially about contentious topics we have to speak generally um so yeah okay

02:11:37.520 is is your only point about the that's literally my only point okay gosh yeah yeah man nobody has any

02:11:42.400 else hot nobody has hot takes on this i feel like this gets me really hated a lot i didn't tell my

02:11:47.920 co-workers about me being on this podcast for this reason yeah fair fair fair do they watch it do you

02:11:52.480 know uh no i i i for a couple months like planted the seed trying to see who was responsive to like

02:12:01.440 hey do you know brian atlas or like andrew wilson or anything like that nobody nobody took the bait so

02:12:07.760 i was like i'm clear i did double check with my supervisor to make sure my job would be safe

02:12:11.920 because i love my job but yeah goodness yeah it's kind of wild it is wild you you checked with him

02:12:19.120 but you know you never know maybe you just said those things and when you get back i'm sorry you're

02:12:23.600 fine brian no no i was saying your supervisor oh my supervisor she's like yeah i'm sorry yeah sorry

02:12:30.480 no she she knows a lot of my hot takes i'm very vocal with her about them all right that's cool

02:12:35.120 it's cool yeah she's she's cool lady yeah i have a feeling you'll have people come to you later and

02:12:39.120 be like i saw you on the show that's i have several co-workers that wouldn't if they watch it but

02:12:43.360 they're like i saw you on the show oh god yeah people did that to me they're like i didn't know

02:12:49.760 you're gonna be on i was like i didn't even know i was gonna be on my goodness i was just in the back

02:12:53.760 and my like the next morning my brother calls me and he's like are you were you like in the back

02:12:57.920 of the whatever podcast just like standing there i'm like yeah i was and he's like what i was like i

02:13:04.320 didn't know he watched it exactly yeah and also anybody who ever watches the podcast they never

02:13:10.160 say they watch the full episode it's always i always watch clips i just see clips i saw you on

02:13:14.320 tiktok i saw i saw a clip of this it just popped up i just saw that yeah yeah kind of hilarious no hot

02:13:19.600 takes you guys does anyone else have hot takes has anybody been a cheater no no i feel like even if

02:13:28.960 you did probably most people are not gonna say okay guys i'm trying to have you no oh i love that

02:13:35.200 for you hey i'm curious uh are the relationships that you have been in with these women that are

02:13:39.440 you know just so happen to be long distance which i have so many questions about um it's really hard

02:13:45.680 are you monogamous yes have you always been monogamous yes by choice or necessity by choice

02:13:52.240 monogamous are they monogamous are any of them involved in like of or anything like that no

02:14:00.720 i know it's it's just mind-blowing like are that are you you're from here i'm from arizona

02:14:05.920 arizona we're in arizona i'm from like tempe tempe phoenix okay okay there's like there's so many

02:14:11.920 people like what's wrong with those people um i dated a girl in college and she lived in my neighborhood

02:14:16.800 we went to high school together and then uh we went to college together and then i actually moved and

02:14:21.600 she stayed there so i made the decision to leave my hometown and to move to california were you like

02:14:27.120 seriously like was this a partner that you considered a long-term relationship with like

02:14:32.720 lifelong yes and no i needed a experience life in my early 20s and go do other things i loved being

02:14:41.360 with her but we tried to do long distance because i loved her so much but it just was it was so hard

02:14:47.600 being who ended the relationship she did she did okay so it was hard on her yeah okay it was really

02:14:53.520 hard on me too it was hard i mean yeah it sounds hard i just think it's like i was just curious

02:14:58.320 because you've you're in these long distance relationships now and i'm like well i don't

02:15:03.040 know i just don't know how you know i i've only been in like one technically long distance relationship

02:15:08.400 and that's the one i'm like with now okay well i guess just it turning into a long distance

02:15:13.920 relationship interesting do you and your ex still talk huh no no no no okay hard no on that one no

02:15:21.920 can i ask you um like you being a virgin did that affect your past relationship

02:15:29.440 uh yeah so i mean yeah yes it did um not because like uh they all wanted to lay with me um

02:15:40.320 um no no no it's more my my point of view on relationships is very much um i'm focused on

02:15:47.920 getting married uh so that's primary focus for me most of the people in the u.s their primary focus on

02:15:54.080 in dating um even though dating is not a thing that's even mentioned in the bible um yeah it their

02:16:00.240 primary focus in dating is am i having good time do i like this person it's do i have fun with them uh

02:16:06.080 i'm having this fantastic time um in the secondary maybe even tertiary thing they consider is uh do i

02:16:12.800 want to get married with this person it's more of like an afterthought yeah um so most of the time

02:16:17.600 when i get in a relationship with somebody or i even go on a first date the first second date like i'm

02:16:23.920 you can say hammering them with i'm hammering them with these like really specific like involved

02:16:30.160 questions that need like really detailed answers um like i'm asking them like their church life um

02:16:37.280 how many kids they want um things like that like how many people have you been with in the past

02:16:42.800 um yeah just various questions like that because i'm trying to figure out it's kind of like a job

02:16:48.320 interview like do you want the job to be my wife um i mean in our first in our first date we

02:16:55.760 like we grilled each other we grilled each other my goodness like it i was asking her um so i'm a

02:17:02.000 i'm a reformed baptist so i was asking her about the um five points of calvinism she didn't know what

02:17:07.040 that meant but like um so i'm like i'm grilling her about like doctrinal questions uh things like

02:17:12.000 that i mean of course we talk about we talk about fun stuff we enjoyed each other's company it was four

02:17:16.720 and a half hours so we got we got four and a half hours you know it's not all grilling but like

02:17:20.960 i mean the most important part of being in a dating relationship to me is definitely

02:17:28.480 is this person someone i want to marry so so far uh as far as i know i really want to get married

02:17:34.480 to alexa i'm pretty sure she feels the same way about me as far as as far as we can tell

02:17:39.200 and that is our primary goal i mean that's been our primary goal from day one um that usually means

02:17:44.720 like my my longest relationship was a year uh exactly a year um and then uh most of the other

02:17:53.360 relationships have only been a few months very short just because we figure out pretty quickly

02:17:59.520 um they realize oh mason's really into getting married uh is and they kind of realize their goal

02:18:06.480 in being in a dating relationship is very much kind of superficial so did it turn you off to them or

02:18:12.400 did it turn them off to you yes okay okay there have been times where it turns me off to them

02:18:17.760 um sometimes the girl's pretty enough to her like you know you don't want to break up with them but

02:18:23.120 eventually you come to the realization like it's time it's time because it's your primary focus yeah

02:18:29.360 well and i think too so like for me i grew up in an environment where i didn't see a lot of really

02:18:35.520 healthy relationships and i used to do research studies and research so for me i'm like i need to see

02:18:41.440 the data okay what is the probability for having a really good relationship what are the things you

02:18:45.520 should look for maybe the things that i don't know because if you really ask people how do they date

02:18:49.680 for marriage or what are they looking for people have a really hard time articulating what they

02:18:54.720 want in a life partner so there's a saying there's a lot of people you can love there's few people you

02:18:58.720 can build a life with and like so there's actually a study that was done a couple maybe like 15 20

02:19:05.920 years ago that said and the research showed if you can agree on they're called the four pillars

02:19:11.120 and if you can agree on these four topics with your partner the probability of your relationship

02:19:15.520 lasting is i think 95 but for each one you don't have obviously it's extremely detrimental and it's

02:19:23.120 funny because like anyone that i know that broke up it's usually two of four and so like number one

02:19:28.080 so the number one reason people get divorced in the u.s is money fights and money problems

02:19:31.840 how do you value money do you think that your partner should only work do you think you do you

02:19:35.680 want to stay home what are their thoughts on that um what is their you know opinion on debt how do they

02:19:41.520 view the future do they spend everything today and hope hope things work out tomorrow or are they a planner

02:19:47.360 number two is in-laws so that's parents siblings you know all those different your friends you

02:19:54.000 know having people in your life that really love and support the person that you're dating

02:19:57.280 um three is kids whether or not to have them and how to raise them and four is um religion

02:20:04.560 and so like i knew a lot of people they great couple but and it's one of those things like you

02:20:10.320 can be religious and you maybe can say oh i don't need to date someone religious we that we respect each

02:20:15.520 other but then once you bring a kid into the mix well okay well now how do we do it because i want my

02:20:19.920 kid to go to church and they don't want their kid to go to church or like i had one of my friends

02:20:25.040 it was funny we were talking about this and i was talking to his girlfriend they're no longer

02:20:28.240 together but we were talking about this and they've been dating for a while and she goes oh like i like

02:20:32.720 his family and she goes i don't really get the money thing and i said and i looked at my friend and i

02:20:36.640 said hey and he's he was raised by a single mom too and i said where's your mom living when you're

02:20:41.040 older he's like oh with me as the first time she heard it she goes i'm sorry what so it's it's really

02:20:47.360 like you know you there are things like people i think always think that you have to have the same

02:20:51.440 hobbies as your partner when in fact like for me i actually want someone who has different hobbies

02:20:55.440 i want someone who's open to learning mine and i want to be open to learning theirs but it's yeah

02:21:00.720 it's do we do our values align on the things that we want so like for him and i we talked about okay

02:21:07.440 what are your thoughts on marriage do you expect your wife to stay home and do all the cooking and

02:21:12.480 cleaning um what are your thoughts on kids do you want them to be homeschooled do you want them to be

02:21:18.240 you know going to public school private school christian school um what were the other questions

02:21:22.960 we grilled each other on i mean it was yeah it was like church life so you're diving into religion i

02:21:28.880 mean oh yeah it seems like that's probably something we would probably talk about oh yeah i was like

02:21:32.560 i was like do you have debt and you don't have to give me numbers but like what are your thoughts on

02:21:36.800 it because i think it's one of those things like if someone says hey like i have student debt's a

02:21:40.720 reality like a lot of people do but it's okay are you when it like i met someone who was dating a girl

02:21:46.320 who thought you can use a credit card max it out and cut it up and be fine

02:21:50.640 oh and i was like she doesn't realize you eventually you're gonna have to pay that

02:21:54.800 she's like no i just cut it off and she'll call me but that's a bad i think that's my issue with

02:21:58.560 dating like i want to leave california yeah because i don't think anybody here has intentions of

02:22:04.960 marriage and that's all i want to be a mom and get married it is very defined yeah some girl had to

02:22:11.200 find me through this podcast and uh my goodness gracious and it was a lot i have a quick question

02:22:17.520 for both of you guys um do you guys find that it's common um that a date gets scared away by

02:22:25.200 you bringing up a conversation about the future and important values like children and financials and

02:22:32.400 stuff like that yeah oh yeah i think i think it's how it's not what you say it's how you say it and so

02:22:37.280 like how he said it kind of comes off as a job interview i think if you're dating with intention

02:22:43.200 that's a very clear thing that you can set that as a boundary but like the way that i would always

02:22:46.880 bring it up on a first date is like hey i read this study that said you know if you agree on these

02:22:51.200 four things it's very different bringing that up versus like but yeah do you expect your mother to

02:22:54.960 live with you in your exactly yeah you're not really going to that i mean like on our first date

02:22:59.440 we're having a great time we got coffee like great views it was nice weather yeah we're enjoying each

02:23:04.400 other's company we're talking about ridiculous stuff funny stuff but then like just bringing

02:23:08.400 that kind of stuff up just naturally and i mean but the thing is if your priority is i'm going to

02:23:15.120 get married one day i need to know like is this going to work out or am i wasting my time dating you

02:23:21.040 like because when when you like eventually someone else there the random topic comes up oh do you want

02:23:26.000 to have kids and you guys never talked about that it's been like three four or five years into the

02:23:29.920 relationship and your guys like i've already invested so much time into this person like it's

02:23:35.360 kind of like what do i do i think that's the thing you have to be strategic about when you date is the

02:23:42.080 longer you spend people have this idea of like the zero sunk cost where it's like well i've spent five

02:23:48.080 years if i lose that i have to start over it's like well you should have started in the beginning

02:23:52.880 with okay i'm going down this path with this person i like asking there's a saying that i really like

02:23:58.080 that says people picture their their future as a painting but they say it with their words

02:24:05.680 so it's asking someone hey what like paint the picture for me of what you want your future to

02:24:09.760 look like because if you i think that's a way that you can ask people like what do they want because if

02:24:14.480 if they tell you oh i want you know i'm super entrepreneurial i want like seven companies you're

02:24:18.720 like okay well that's someone's that probably is going to have to work 60 to 80 hours a week

02:24:22.560 you know if if no kids are mentioned or like you know how do you view your life with your family do you

02:24:27.840 see your christmas with your parents do you want to start your own traditions how do you want to

02:24:32.640 you know see that like we we asked all those questions and it was you know i asked him i said

02:24:37.360 because his can i i won't say where but like yeah go for his family's in north africa so i'm like okay

02:24:43.360 are you expecting like every holiday to go back to north africa to see them or you know do you want

02:24:48.320 to make your own traditions and it's it's asking those questions and really seeing like what kind of life

02:24:52.560 do you want to build with this person and from there you have to choose okay do i want to sign up for that life

02:24:57.440 yeah again it really all is just what is your primary goal when you get into a dating relationship

02:25:04.080 if you want to be married in the future your primary goal probably should be is this person

02:25:09.280 someone i would want to marry and i think a big thing to know about and i would say this but i have

02:25:14.080 a lot of you know i work in tech i'm primarily surrounded by by men like they'll talk about their

02:25:19.200 relationships here and there and i can't tell you how how surprised i am when a guy goes oh i've been

02:25:23.280 with this girl for six years we're just kicking it and i was like she has no idea like does she know

02:25:29.760 that did she sign up for that or is she just kind of waiting around hoping one day he's going to marry

02:25:34.240 her and she's going to have a brutal awakening yeah getting into some of the notes uh so alina

02:25:41.200 uh you say that it's okay to go through each other's phones

02:25:46.400 yes so you and your boyfriend you guys go through each other's phones yes you go through his

02:25:51.360 yes we have the same password on our phone so it's just open to whatever it's not like

02:25:59.520 you just grab it and go through it it's more like you know it's just it's not like a secretive thing

02:26:06.560 that it's like my private property it's just like a phone you know what i mean and uh any other people

02:26:14.080 on the panel here do you think but i mean when you say go through each other's phones you're saying you

02:26:18.480 do it with permission is that correct i think if you have suspicions um of somebody being unloyal then

02:26:27.040 you can say hey this is really bothering me like i've been thinking about this and this is impacting

02:26:34.400 my ability to trust you um i think the other person the i guess the correct thing for them to be

02:26:41.840 um to do is to allow their partner to go through it to ensure that their trust stays solid do you

02:26:49.360 think that there are better ways to go about that or is that like the the optimal uh i don't think it's

02:26:56.800 the optimal i think maybe the optimal would be to have a honest conversation about your trust problems

02:27:03.200 um yeah i i don't think i would recommend if i had a daughter or something or a son i wouldn't recommend

02:27:11.280 to go through your partner's phones but maybe if there are suspicions then you can have that conversation

02:27:18.160 and um see what see what they say well do you think it's okay to go through it with this is something

02:27:24.640 that happens without their permission no okay just to grab it and to go through random details who

02:27:31.840 who here at the table has gone through a guy's phone without permit like you just oh it's there

02:27:38.960 i know the passcode whatever who's who's done that no you've never come on bailey you've done that

02:27:44.640 shit no be honest you've done not even once okay it's happened to me felicity and then he was cheating

02:27:50.080 you've done that yeah i knew my girl felicity yeah she's going through those yes first date

02:27:55.760 she's looking is he talking to some other dudes dudes oh other other guys other girls whatever

02:28:02.240 bailey number one number two i don't know you guys have to think one thing you guys have to fight to

02:28:07.040 the death no just bailey jane all right what about you um i have in the past but i wouldn't do that now

02:28:13.840 can you tilt your uh oh yeah down just a little bit but uh okay you did in the past okay alina have you

02:28:19.120 done it i have what did you find did you find anything i did but did you dump him no it wasn't

02:28:26.800 cheating or anything like that it was like just a little like hurt feeling whatever well what did

02:28:31.440 you find there's traps oh it was photos yeah okay it was he wasn't like talking to a girl no no but it

02:28:40.960 was in the past even this type of thing nowadays would not hurt me nearly as much as it did in the past

02:28:46.960 this was a couple years ago so yeah my mindset has changed on a lot of things since then okay

02:28:54.320 i have not looked through a phone but i did look through a journal probably the biggest mistake of

02:28:58.480 my life that was it was it was way worse definitely way worse and it was also it was like the thing he

02:29:04.640 valued the most like i trust he he trusted me to never look at his journal when he was sitting next

02:29:09.920 to me i was 17 i was a real piece of shit back then nice my current partner shout out to my man he

02:29:17.280 i never did that to him or anything but he's had to he's forgiven me for a lot of of shitty things that

02:29:23.760 i used to to do and be so ashley well that's how i found out my fiance was cheating on me but i don't

02:29:29.840 think i'd do it again it was a one-time trauma that i wouldn't do again okay alexa that's how i found out

02:29:37.280 my ex was cheating on me so there you go i feel like this i think like we have each other's

02:29:42.480 passcodes and i think it's one of those things if you have suspicions you we had that conversation

02:29:46.400 pretty early on in dating too it's like hey how do you what are your thoughts on that because i got

02:29:50.720 burned that way and it was one of those things he kept changing the passcode and to me that was like

02:29:54.240 the first sign i was like that's weird um but like we talked about that and it's like hey like i i have

02:30:01.200 nothing to hide and i think that's the biggest thing is i i will give you permission and if

02:30:05.040 something feels off you i would ask that you would ask me in in like in front and just be like hey

02:30:09.760 can i just go through your phone but like you have the passcode we have each other we have permission

02:30:13.760 to do that so it's it's one of those things i think you need to have the conversation about it

02:30:18.080 and if in that agreement you say like if someone has suspicions you give them the phone right then

02:30:22.880 and there you don't go through and start deleting things or anything like like you got to both have

02:30:26.240 that trust and that respect for each other i think it's the respect aspect of it it's how you approach it

02:30:31.040 okay uh we're gonna get into alina's other notes here you said alignment on political views is

02:30:37.680 important for relationship i do think it's important because nowadays i think your political views can

02:30:44.800 say a lot about your moral values as well so which is very important if i could rephrase that i would say

02:30:52.160 moral values obviously are very important in a relationship but i do think political values are

02:30:59.360 important as well because i could not date personally somebody with opposing political views yeah that's

02:31:05.680 my stance on it i don't disagree you said porn ruined dating why do you say that because um well

02:31:17.360 if you give men material to be lustful they're going to be lustful if you make that easily accessible

02:31:23.680 the more easily accessible that it becomes the worse the problem will get and i think

02:31:29.360 that um the amount of porn even like soft can i say the p word or corn or yeah so the amount of just

02:31:39.360 like things like that on the internet it's uh it desensitizes men i think and i think it takes away

02:31:45.840 from the purity of a traditional relationship would you guys would you women be willing to do the following

02:31:52.000 trade uh porn is banned completely banned men can't watch it this conceivably would have positive impacts on

02:32:01.760 your romantic relationships but and i suppose it would be i want to make this kind of like

02:32:09.120 one thing bans for men one thing banned so i guess y'all can keep watching women can keep watching porn

02:32:14.560 um porn gets banned for men but social media in exchange gets banned for women would you take that

02:32:23.600 trade fuck yeah hell yeah do you take the trade for what say it again my bad i have a zone okay uh corn

02:32:31.120 for social media so like men men can no longer watch corn you can no longer be on social media

02:32:37.600 i would not you keep you keep it as is what about you felicity um i would get rid of both get rid of

02:32:44.640 both okay i think that's fine i have both okay man i don't know i'm gonna say for me no just because

02:32:55.360 if my partner is going to do that they're going to do that they shouldn't do that even if it's

02:32:58.800 accessible but that's just my like is it like wait is it saying like that they're going to watch porn

02:33:08.400 like my significant other is going to do that no so it could men are banned from watching it like

02:33:15.040 they are no longer allowed to watch it well it can't even be made or well hold on we didn't ban it

02:33:19.760 for the women though yeah i don't know i don't know it's kind of women have the one

02:33:22.960 question exactly i guess women can still uh watch it although it seems to be i mean look i think

02:33:29.680 porn can be an issue for women but i think it tends to have like the vast majority more like negative

02:33:36.240 outcomes when it comes to male consumption by far i think it's still bad if women watch 100 yeah it's

02:33:41.840 bad but yeah reasonable expectation unreasonable expectations go both ways but um i was just

02:33:47.680 going to say women women statistically watch some really aggressive things that is true like

02:33:52.240 extremely like non-consensual type stuff and and like uh the what's it called like the violent yeah

02:34:00.000 like like the bdsm and stuff like bdsm yeah like rough like rough sex porn yeah uh would would you take

02:34:07.200 the trade i think we should do it anyways yeah okay do you take the trade yeah a hundred percent alexa

02:34:12.000 do you take the trade yeah i would okay uh who do you think though i'm wondering on this question

02:34:18.240 do you think this is like uh men should stop watching it or should women stop uh participating

02:34:26.320 in its creation oh both of course it takes one for the other to happen it takes but if all women

02:34:31.200 stopped right like it it starts with the women and then the men consume if men there was no supply

02:34:37.760 there would be no consumption yeah if there's no demand there's no supply i mean there's still supply

02:34:42.240 yeah because i was going to say to the black market they're going to still do it even if you

02:34:46.000 ban it yeah it's uh might as well make it legal and try to force it out of the black market and

02:34:52.960 probably do things but it's not regulated at all no i'm saying we should regulate it way more than it

02:34:58.320 is for sure yeah way more next thing here though uh alina you said uh fem cells exist i do believe

02:35:06.400 that they're very rare but um i think there are some girls that just cannot get laid well so can you

02:35:12.880 explain what a fem cell is a fem cell is a woman who is involuntarily celibate okay and that's your

02:35:21.200 definition yes okay because i've heard some people say um because incel involuntarily celibate that

02:35:30.400 applies to men fem cell it's basically a female involuntarily celibate uh i've heard people have

02:35:35.760 different definitions though of what a fem cell is they'll they'll describe it as a woman who um

02:35:43.760 can't get sex from the particular man or men that she deems attractive right my which isn't the same

02:35:54.240 but you're right it's not the same but my thing about this is if you can get laid by men who you

02:36:01.440 are just so disgusted by that you just can't do it you still can't get laid because that's you know

02:36:08.320 yeah we'll go into that you still have to respect yourself a little bit uh going around the table

02:36:12.160 i don't know if you guys are even like really familiar with this phenomenon whether it's on

02:36:15.520 the male side or the female side uh do you think that there are fem cells so these are women who just

02:36:21.200 they can't get laid um i'm sure of course there has to be a decent amount of women out there not

02:36:29.440 decent i'd say yeah thousands maybe sure what about you do you think there's a woman out there

02:36:34.800 yeah yeah do you guys know you have friends okay what about you i'm sure there is okay sure yeah

02:36:42.480 i mean statistically it seems like impossible that it would be zero but the number i'm sure is very

02:36:48.080 very low and even then it's like are they using the resources at their disposal to really get it sure

02:36:54.720 yeah i agree with that i think they're random yeah yeah i want to i'm going to challenge you alina

02:37:00.160 so i i don't think it's actually possible for a woman to be a fem cell to be involuntarily celibate

02:37:05.360 i think it's just uh it's impossible what if they have like a what if they got on like a terrible

02:37:11.120 fire and they got like all these rashes and stuff and like their vagina is all messed up and sure yeah

02:37:16.160 well i mean look i i think here's here's the interesting thing though here's the interesting thing is

02:37:22.720 there there are these women who will post on social media on tick tock and they actually garner

02:37:28.320 massive followings who are significant like very deformed and i'm not look i'm

02:37:37.120 i'm empathetic to their uh some some of them have birth defects some of them were terrible accidents

02:37:43.120 some of them were victims of like um what's that called sorry sorry sorry sorry i don't i don't

02:37:53.600 sorry toaster brain um are you talking about the acid yeah the acid attacks and this sort of thing

02:37:58.640 but uh some of these women who are um very deformed and i'm not saying that to mean just like it just

02:38:05.200 as a matter of fact they have substantial followings on social media and they get quite a bit of uh

02:38:13.760 romantic and sexual attention from men so even like even granting this like crazy scenario where the

02:38:21.280 woman is like among the most unattractive women to have ever existed even these women can get short-term

02:38:29.760 sexual access now but when we're talking about involuntary men who are involuntarily celibate we

02:38:36.880 aren't using extreme examples of like whoa these men are like in the bottom percentile of ugliness

02:38:43.520 they're in the bottom percentile a lot of these men are maybe like anywhere from average to admittedly

02:38:51.360 uh unattractive right so they're they're in that frame uh these men despite their efforts they

02:38:58.720 cannot get laid um the difference is though when it comes to women um this idea of like a female

02:39:05.680 fem cell female involuntarily celibate is sort of this implication that they cannot find men who are

02:39:11.360 sexually interested in them but that's just not the case it me the way i think you probably are using it

02:39:18.720 or at least should use it is that they can't find men of the correct standard that are more than

02:39:25.600 sexually interested in them so there's two components there meeting the correct standard

02:39:31.040 that the woman has for men and then more than just sexually interested in them so a man who's willing

02:39:38.160 to give her a relationship because there's a bunch of women who are like well i don't want to just have

02:39:42.640 a one i want a loving relationship involuntarily celibate celibacy pertains strictly to sex it doesn't

02:39:51.040 pertain to access to relationships it doesn't pertain to at whether it's a even a continuity of a

02:39:58.480 short-term relationship even if it's purely sexual celibacy sex that's it can you have sex one time with

02:40:05.680 one individual my position on this is is that even if you're a remark if you're in the bottom percentile

02:40:13.440 of appearance when it comes to a woman you can get sex easily easily do you disagree with this well

02:40:21.760 i agree with your definition of a fem cell that it only has to do with sexual relationships not

02:40:27.520 anything more than that um and i do think like you said if a woman was to go on social media and say

02:40:35.600 i'm a fem cell i cannot get later if she i think you talked about this in the past too if she had a sign

02:40:41.280 on her like holding up a sign she went on the street and she said that said like i want to have

02:40:46.240 sex with somebody yes maybe she could find somebody she's not an incel then right let's say she did

02:40:53.520 that for like three years she was posting on social media trying to look for guys she was going on the

02:40:57.520 street with the sign trying to look for guys and eventually she did find someone who would like to

02:41:02.080 sleep with her up until that point she would have been a fem cell well have you has have you or has

02:41:08.640 anybody conducted this experiment where they were actively seeking out a sexual encounter and for a

02:41:15.760 female for a period of three years wasn't able to get it i've never heard such a thing here's the

02:41:22.080 here's an interesting thing when you you brought up the whole online thing is there were i guess there

02:41:27.360 still are but there are fem cell communities there was one on reddit for example i think they either had

02:41:33.120 to private it or shut it down because these women were complaining about not getting sex and the men

02:41:39.600 on reddit were sending hundreds of men were sending these women uh dms direct messages making themselves

02:41:48.320 sexually available to these women to have sex with i think even many of them were offering these women

02:41:54.880 conceivably relationships not just hey i just want to you want no like hey oh i'd be willing to go on a

02:42:00.000 date with you i'd be willing to like you know and so as a woman if you're turning down dozens or

02:42:07.280 hundreds of men who are making themselves sexually available to you even if you consider your fem cell

02:42:12.320 how could you possibly be involuntarily celibate you would have to be voluntarily celibate

02:42:20.080 so everyone has um standards on what they would accept to sleep with

02:42:25.840 but sure you know what i mean but i would argue i'll here i'll even i'll even bring it there i

02:42:33.520 believe any female uh incel any uh fem cell i believe that if she makes a good faith effort to try

02:42:42.720 to get sex she can get sex with a guy who is at least as attractive as she is if she's a two she can get

02:42:51.520 a two if she's a four she can get a four if she's a six she can get a six but what you have happening

02:42:58.320 is you got women who are twos and fours who want the eight or the ten and those eights and tens aren't

02:43:04.400 get hell they might even be able to get that guy to be honest but so this idea that oh well he does he

02:43:11.520 just doesn't mean my like insanely high standards like if a girl was holding out for a billionaire

02:43:17.120 and a guy who looked like brad pitt is she a fem cell well i'm not talking about extremely high

02:43:25.120 standards i'm just talking about like maybe hygiene um maybe no stds something like that and like you

02:43:32.640 said with the reddit messages um a message is one thing it's another thing if they were to actually

02:43:38.400 go out of their way to meet this woman and you know go through that whole process sure you know let me

02:43:44.400 ask you a question though who who here at this table has received a dm from a guy who was like

02:43:48.720 willing to fly you out somewhere and he was gonna pay for it yeah how many times probably actually not

02:43:56.320 that much but recently a lot recently a lot but a dozen just ten yeah felicity yeah you've had that

02:44:02.880 no have you had that yes fly out offers have you had that no have you had that no actually yeah okay so i

02:44:10.320 mean there there's a lot of differentials between men and women like men

02:44:19.280 a man is if a male is an intel

02:44:26.160 and a girl reaches out to him to fuck he'll pay for the trip he'll pay for the trip bro how how many of you

02:44:35.120 as women you've gotten all these offers to be flown out have you ever like slid into a dude's dm

02:44:43.280 and you said i'm gonna pay you to come see me have you done that not pay but i said he could come stay

02:44:48.800 with me right but you didn't you weren't pushing it you weren't at the level where you're like i'll

02:44:53.840 take care of everything i'm gonna make this happen i'm gonna pay for you to come see me that's how much

02:44:58.080 i want you have you have you done that nope nope have you done that nope nope nope nope nope nope okay

02:45:07.840 so it's like there's just these differentials here so if a if a male incel had an offer on the table

02:45:16.160 he would move mountains to get it women y'all don't move mountains to get dick

02:45:20.800 you won't move mountains to get dick even normal dudes move mountains to get dick you don't think

02:45:25.280 oh these guys trust me they'll move mountains to get some pussy trust me but it's not classy of a

02:45:34.000 woman to move mountains to get dick and every woman knows that but okay i mean this is i mean this

02:45:41.440 this is what drives me nuts about most most people when they claim that gender equality is something we

02:45:46.240 should be pursuing like yes you should have the same rights and i think we do in america first time in

02:45:51.040 history where equal rights have been granted to men and women fantastic i love that however it goes to

02:45:57.360 the the equality of outcome the equity argument um people who pursue that uh they will say that out

02:46:05.600 of one side of their mouth but the other side of the mouth they're totally fine with uh knowing that

02:46:10.480 like their practice is very much men uh it's okay if men pay for me to fly out there pay for me to come to

02:46:18.080 them they're paying for all the dates doing all these things for me i would never do something like

02:46:22.560 that for them though because i'm a woman why would i ever do that they would probably never say that

02:46:26.800 that's how they act so it's very much it's very concerning to see most of america most of the world

02:46:32.960 generally have take that point of view where they want the equity they say they want equity but their

02:46:39.680 life is nothing like that they because i mean everyone realizes inside of them they know god created them

02:46:45.920 men and women very differently and you're programmed intimately differently and that men and women are

02:46:53.040 going to pursue relationships the way god programmed them to and it takes extreme deprogramming and extreme

02:46:59.360 work there are very fringe people on the outside who can actually who have actually worked hard enough

02:47:05.200 to where they've cut that out of them but uh most of the time you can say something you can say you

02:47:10.880 believe this but you act in a very specific way because god programmed you that way he's programmed

02:47:15.600 women to look for a man who can provide who can protect uh who is going to lead the family that

02:47:21.120 that is in you intimately and for a man he wants a woman uh i guess the the practice we see nowadays is

02:47:28.640 sinful where it's very much i only look for her i only look at her looks am i attracted to her but men

02:47:34.480 uh you once you boil it down they're looking for someone who is going to nurture and take care of

02:47:39.440 the family um i mean you turn to proverbs 31 those are like the initial uh instigations that passage

02:47:45.920 however it talks about a woman who is uh revered by the elders of the city someone who invests who

02:47:55.920 does things out in the world but ultimately submits herself to his her husband's leadership i mean that's

02:48:02.960 intimately programmed and you see these things these practices in the dating relationship they mirror that

02:48:08.320 that and no matter what people say you see that so much and that actions speak louder than words you

02:48:15.280 can say until you're blue in the face that you disagree with that however

02:48:21.280 like most of society's actions say otherwise alina i have a question for you yes let's say um a male

02:48:28.000 incel came up to you like maybe it was a male i don't know if you'd be friends with a male incel but

02:48:32.560 whatever uh comes up to you and he's like oh man i want to i want to get a girl like what would you

02:48:39.520 ask of him like what would you tell him he needs to do to like make that happen like bullet point it for

02:48:46.000 me i would ask him a lot of questions about his lifestyle currently uh what do you do on a daily

02:48:51.680 basis do you have a career going are you working out are you working on yourself sure do you have a

02:48:58.320 faith of some sort are you doing self-improvement sure yeah and but in terms of taking actionable

02:49:04.800 steps to actually get laid like you can level up as a guy you can get your money up you can get ripped

02:49:12.480 you can you can do all these things but as a guy you have to take some actionable steps to like talk

02:49:17.840 to women meet women so like for example do you do you want to bullet point a couple things that the

02:49:22.880 guy would have to do to get the girl well i think self-improvement would be the step that he would

02:49:29.120 have to take before he is able to go and speak to women okay let's say he self-improves wait no no

02:49:34.720 hold on that no let's say he does that he doesn't have to self-improve he's like look um i've got

02:49:41.440 the dad bod right now whatever uh i just want to get laid men with dad bods other men with dad bods

02:49:46.880 can get laid i just want to get laid what does he actionably have to do to make that happen i would

02:49:53.200 say bro most women don't like dad bods that no no okay here here should he hop on some dating apps

02:50:02.080 sure if he sees women out in public that he thinks are attractive should he approach them

02:50:06.640 if he's at a low point where he's not reaching he's not working on reaching his full potential to

02:50:11.680 where he can attract a woman that he that's a high value woman that he wants it doesn't matter

02:50:16.960 no he just wants to who cares high value whatever he's low value he wants to what's he got to do he's

02:50:22.960 got to approach girls right he's got to approach women right he has to have the things that women

02:50:27.840 find attractive which is strength status money things like that okay but there's like average

02:50:32.480 women who ostensibly should date average men right yeah okay not every woman's gonna get like

02:50:38.960 a man with status and strength and all that right right but status doesn't have to be like you're a

02:50:43.040 millionaire like you're the ceo of something it can be like you're assert you're assertive and you're

02:50:48.480 dominant in a relationship fine here look i'll go ahead and grant fine he levels up he needs to level

02:50:54.080 up now that he's leveled up what does he actionably have to do to get the girl get on dating apps dating

02:51:00.480 apps cold approach girls maybe approach girls in public maybe go to the bars and clubs right okay and

02:51:06.160 then when he's at the bars and clubs he has to approach the girl right well women don't usually

02:51:11.920 approach that often so unless he's very attractive so okay so he has to approach the girl right he's

02:51:17.440 got to learn how to like talk and not be socially awkward yeah okay what do you ask of the woman then

02:51:24.320 the fem cell what does she have to do the fem cell yeah um i also asked that she would work on

02:51:30.720 herself because there are she did what does she have to do now that she's worked on herself

02:51:34.720 does she have to do the same things that the man does she has to approach men yeah that's you have

02:51:42.240 to okay take that step yeah she has to if men are not if men are not approaching her then she has to

02:51:46.800 approach men okay so i guess here's my confusion here is as a woman if you approach a man and you

02:51:53.600 make yourself sexually like apparently sexually available to him he's maybe it's not the first guy

02:52:00.080 maybe it's not the second maybe it's not the third maybe it's the 10th maybe it's the 20th maybe it's

02:52:04.320 the 30th maybe it takes you a couple days maybe it takes you a couple weeks you're gonna land on

02:52:08.800 the dude who's gonna fuck you right but most women don't want to have that type of that nature of

02:52:14.480 interaction then they're not fem cells yeah well it's not the question well the thing is it's voluntary

02:52:20.400 like if you're voluntarily celibate but it's involuntarily so like i'm gonna drop every everything i'm

02:52:27.280 actually looking forward to try to see if i can get with somebody so i mean ultimately i think this

02:52:32.400 is built upon and there is gender inequality in this which is i think it's good like i think god

02:52:39.360 programmed men and women very differently they have different roles that they're supposed to play and

02:52:44.320 it's programmed into them before like as they were born because you're a man or a woman and for for men

02:52:52.080 like because women naturally want that provider protector there is that you have to go into those

02:52:58.560 areas where you have to be working out because you won't need to protect people you have to be

02:53:02.640 making money because you need to be providing for people however for women it's little it's harder

02:53:07.600 to see whether they can be nurturing to a family so and then generally guys they just look at a woman

02:53:13.360 like oh my gosh she's so attractive i want to be with her so that's why it's impossible to find an

02:53:18.400 actual fem cell because guys like their initial their initial attraction to a woman is very much

02:53:26.480 oh my gosh she's super physically attractive and for a for a woman she's attracted to a guy

02:53:31.920 maybe they do find her him attractive however immediately turns them off when they realize oh

02:53:36.960 he's lazy he has no work ethic he's not a provider protector like if someone is gonna go try to beat

02:53:43.280 alexa up i'm gonna definitely step in and i'm gonna like i'll beat the crowd at him but it's

02:53:50.240 doing those things but when you figure out that those aren't something that got that guy provides

02:53:54.880 like that takes it's a lot more steps that the man has to take to be able to get into that position

02:53:59.360 than a woman has to take to get into the position where men will want her and yeah that's you mean

02:54:04.400 just sexually right yeah yeah yeah i i am kind of like taking it in this argument like the sexual

02:54:09.600 argument and i agree with that and you know men have lower men are less picky obviously when it

02:54:15.120 comes to oh boom okay so they can't be fem cells or do you are you gonna do grant or no no i don't

02:54:21.680 okay well i'll continue then here how about this i brian i'm only offering this to united states fem cells

02:54:30.400 i will not fucking buy international flights i brian atlas will fuck one time you get one thrust that's

02:54:39.360 it any united states i'm gonna you know what hawaii and alaska fuck off continental united states

02:54:47.840 bitch um i will make myself sexually available to any fem cell i've just there's no longer any

02:54:56.720 fem cells in the united states when she shows up they're not they're no longer involuntary like i've

02:55:01.760 just i've put forward an offer for sex for sex and are you gonna do it when she shows up and she's

02:55:08.400 looking like she look all she just shower before that's it shave the bush if it's a jungle

02:55:16.480 whatever listen an incel would be willing to shave the bush what if she doesn't put for some

02:55:21.280 pussy what if she doesn't have arms even better bro there are men that are not only into that which

02:55:28.480 like my partner was in the military and they are into some crazy shit but there are men that will

02:55:33.200 have competitions with each other on who can get the the least attractive woman so i feel like there's

02:55:40.000 girls that will do this too though there are again i i live near the military folks they do i'm just

02:55:46.880 saying i'm making myself this is an offer i'm making myself i don't care if there's a 100 000 fem

02:55:52.960 cells i will service you i need 30 minute break in between three per day that's my max oh my gosh

02:56:01.120 listen there now that this is out there in the continental united states there's no longer any

02:56:07.920 fem cells i've eradicated them with my what if there's too many of them for you available i don't

02:56:13.520 think what if there's too many of them any any self-identified fem cells boom checkmate

02:56:20.320 fucking lawyered you're no longer fem cell i'm offering myself for you know there it is it's done

02:56:26.240 it's done but look ultimately you mentioned that thing in the street if hey a little quiet back guys

02:56:33.280 a little quiet okay um you mentioned that thing in the street where you know they're holding a sign or

02:56:38.960 whatever i'm telling you like if a girl did that man like the average like a below average girl she

02:56:48.160 can get laid like you go to the club like every single girl here and i'm not saying like you guys

02:56:54.080 are attractive girls whatever every single girl here you could fuck three dudes tonight you know how

02:57:01.760 you know how much of uh how high in the apex of men you have to be to be able to fuck three

02:57:08.720 fucking women on a whim you got to be drake you got to be a celebrity you got all of us know that

02:57:14.560 right but every even average like we we had a girl this is like from a year ago we had a girl on the show

02:57:20.960 who was on uh below average she was chubby at like below average like i give her three four whatever

02:57:28.000 tough crowd hey it is what it is whatever she was look she was not i'm not gonna i'm not saying

02:57:33.120 it to be mean but just for the purposes of the conversation she was an unattractive woman she was

02:57:38.560 able to she had a sex addiction she was able to six dudes in a day and she did that for like a month

02:57:43.840 straight i'm sorry there's no guy without like some sort of intervening characteristic like massive

02:57:51.760 amounts of status i don't know even money fuck he has to have status that's it you got to be brad pitt

02:58:00.880 you got to be a like top one percent like you can't be some average musician you have to be like top top

02:58:07.520 top musician athlete actor to have sexual access to six new different women per day every single girl

02:58:15.280 here here at this table no offense we got like this is this bro y'all normal grit y'all are normal

02:58:23.760 girls none of you are fucking rock stars or any of this shit except this rapper girl who refuses to

02:58:30.960 all of you could fuck 10 dudes tonight if you wanted to it's a fucking sunday yeah it's true but

02:58:38.320 none of us see themselves none of us no i i get that but like your me all of y'all males equivalents

02:58:44.800 like whatever your male equivalent is who would he wouldn't be a incel either he can't fuck 10 chicks

02:58:50.960 in a one night he can't do that i don't disagree with that that's a different you disagree wait what

02:58:54.640 do you mean you just said i don't disagree with that but that's a different topic that's not well

02:58:58.960 it's it's a different topic but it's related because the level of sexual access that women have

02:59:05.760 compared to men is completely disproportionate like an average looking woman has the same sexual

02:59:11.920 optionality as an a-list celebrity like in order for me to do what every single one of you girls here

02:59:19.520 can do i have to be a one percenter it's even it's probably more i gotta be fucking i yeah seriously okay

02:59:27.840 the average woman you got the same sort of sexual optionality as rock stars as celebrities professional

02:59:38.880 athletes so of course there's going to be a differential and of course this is going to be

02:59:43.200 related to this supposed fake phenomenon of fem cells because even unattractive women can get laid with

02:59:52.720 such simplicity i just refuse to acknowledge that there could ever conceivably be some woman woman

02:59:59.520 who's so objectionable uh that she could not get a guy to fuck her once well and you could even explain

03:00:07.120 this biologically because men are biologically wired to spread their seed and and their genes and

03:00:11.760 reproduce as much as possible whereas women are are substantially pickier so like even if you

03:00:16.240 you i don't know i can't get on i can't get on board with the idea that that there is one because

03:00:22.880 he's he's right we had um a long time ago this was over a year ago we had a woman who described herself

03:00:30.400 as a former fem cell and i started i i was asking some inquisitive questions and uh she was saying

03:00:38.640 something something along the lines of how uh uh and by all means she was i think an above average

03:00:46.160 looking woman um she wasn't a 10 out of 10 but she was i i above average looking

03:00:55.520 and she was saying oh you know i just i went to college and you know no guys were really interested

03:01:01.440 in me but once you start peeling back the layers you start asking some questions i'm like okay well would

03:01:06.800 you like make an effort to go out no were you on any dating apps no did you ever like go up and talk

03:01:12.480 to guys no were there any guys you friend zoned yes were there any guys who showed interest in you

03:01:18.720 yes were there any guys like as a woman if you can't get a certain tier of guy and you're turning down

03:01:27.120 men who want relationships with you you got to reconsider like are my standards too high i don't think

03:01:33.920 there's anything wrong with having high standards but if you can't actually get that dude you got to

03:01:39.040 reconsider like what you're actually bringing to the table so have i been have i convinced you

03:01:47.840 or are you unconvinced you remain unconvinced i still think that a woman can be so objectionable

03:01:55.440 that um she would be a femme cell and i i agree like you said if she took those some extreme measures

03:02:03.040 and she was sitting up a bunch of guys and uh extreme measures well it's not that's not an extreme

03:02:07.440 measure um the extreme measure would be going out on the street with the sign right honestly but with

03:02:12.560 dating apps you don't got to do that in fact i think it would be easier on a dating app than just

03:02:17.600 going out on the street with the signs like who wants to fuck if as a woman you go on a dating app

03:02:22.880 who here's been on show of hands who's been on a dating app who's been on the dating app tinder

03:02:27.440 whatever no have you guys gotten sexually propositioned on dating apps by men you might

03:02:34.400 find that like super tacky and gross and icky whatever but you've all been like had guys say

03:02:40.720 i want i want to fuck basically dude my friend he just like swipes like he doesn't even look he just

03:02:46.560 swipes like as much as he can i've seen men like that i'm like you're not gonna even like look he's

03:02:50.720 like no let me ask you a clarifying question do you think that there are more incels than there

03:02:56.320 are femcels of course why because women have much higher standards and men are more focused on

03:03:03.040 physical appearance rather than other things that are much more difficult to obtain okay so you think

03:03:09.440 femcels can only exist if they're like super like really bad looking yes like they have to be really

03:03:17.040 really bad yes and most women who say who claim they are incels they're not incels or i mean femcels

03:03:22.560 do you think any girl here based on how they look could be a fem cell no no no no girl here could be

03:03:28.400 no no no okay not even close okay because there are women who claim femcell and they're like average

03:03:33.600 looking girls they're not femcels okay so you're saying it's only like really really

03:03:39.920 like the most atrocious thing that you can ever imagine can i argue like sorry go ahead i was just

03:03:45.200 going to ask if you could describe what the most objectionable woman that would meet the criteria

03:03:49.840 like to be a fem cell in in your hypothetical would be okay she's 800 pounds there's chubby chasers

03:03:57.520 there's chubby places though yeah there is i was on uh one of the last times i was on this podcast

03:04:03.760 we had a lady who literally took up two seats and i mean gorlock the destroyer no no no different

03:04:09.600 different lady um but i mean she she was she definitely got around she's 800 pounds she has

03:04:16.880 like any man lumps moles big on her face hairy moles big lumps like paperback all over um her eyes

03:04:24.800 are like yellow poking out of her skull she's no see people love star wars

03:04:31.280 i'm telling you she can still get some dick they probably make like so brian they probably make

03:04:35.760 corn look i already eliminated i already said they most definitely said i've eliminated all the fem

03:04:41.360 cells in the continental united states with my offer i'm gonna find alexa i was gonna say i would think

03:04:46.720 someone who actually would maybe be a fem cell is not necessarily based off of the looks but if they

03:04:51.120 had like an std of some sort i think that would be the thing that would if it's just for sleeping with

03:04:55.520 someone but how did they get the std but saying they have say they have like a life altering one i'm

03:05:00.960 not going to go into details of one but just okay that is the thing afterwards that people are like oh i

03:05:05.440 would have a one night stand with you but now they're like oh no i can't do that but so i feel

03:05:10.560 like that would be more realistic than someone being unattractive i'm just saying i think that

03:05:14.720 person will actually have a hard time i have a couple rebuttals to that so i think the first would

03:05:19.040 be that people like for example like people who have herpes will seek out other people with herpes and

03:05:24.000 like date each other so i don't think just because you have an std that that precludes you from

03:05:28.480 like dating somebody who also has that same std there's like certain uh you could even disclose to a

03:05:34.320 partner and they might accept it i think most people are like not okay with it but there's

03:05:38.240 actually people who are like you know what i'm willing to take the risk if you're like if it's

03:05:43.280 with herpes if you're taking that uh i forgot what it's called like there's a drug that can reduce the

03:05:47.440 outbreaks or whatever um some people might be willing to take that risk and like avoid having sex like

03:05:53.520 during outbreaks or whatever i've heard of this as a thing but i don't think that would necessarily

03:05:57.200 preclude you from from getting sex and then also i i think the the measurement here would be

03:06:03.280 more so like i feel like it's a perhaps a bit unfair to bring in like stds into this because

03:06:08.960 i think it's like totally valid to not want to sleep with somebody if they have an std but like

03:06:15.040 absent the std would this person still be able to sleep with people oh yeah i think it's more that's

03:06:21.040 kind of more so where i'm but you can't say absent std because it's because she has the std and she

03:06:26.480 cannot get laid so she's a fem cell i just don't think that that actually exists there's gonna

03:06:32.000 always be some fem cells and incels they're always going to be both because some people don't have

03:06:36.640 access to the internet and also the money to get see it so there's always going to be there there's

03:06:41.200 like normal like there's normal dudes there's normal dudes who are like average or maybe below

03:06:47.200 average looking who don't have stds who live in the united states who got the internet who have

03:06:53.040 who live in major cities y'all are trying to like okay she's got super hiv super herpes she's got

03:07:00.080 every std there is she's 800 pounds she's severely deformed and she lives a hundred she lives on the

03:07:07.440 abandoned island a hundred kilometers from anybody else you guys are you like using the most extreme

03:07:15.200 examples whereas like you can go to any city and find men who are incels it's totally different i i agree

03:07:22.400 with that but that woman that lives on an island she's 800 pounds and everything's wrong with her

03:07:27.840 that's a fem cell she cannot get laid so she no listen yeah you know what if you're a woman no

03:07:32.240 internet how's she gonna get flown out or like how's anybody gonna know she is yeah that's why there's

03:07:36.800 always gonna be i'm actually willing to grant for like these extreme super extreme examples that there

03:07:43.200 are women who can't get sex but like male incels you don't have to like look at like super extreme

03:07:50.080 outlier cases so like yeah i think but like you can find people who are like really really in like

03:07:57.600 the top or bottom percentiles of all sorts of different like really uh i think i don't know if

03:08:03.120 the term is sparse just really uh like small minute groups of people like there there's some women with

03:08:11.680 double vaginas okay cool but it's like i'm interested in like discussing like phenomena that

03:08:20.720 is like kind of common i guess and like the the incidence rate of male involuntary celibacy is like

03:08:29.200 far higher than female involuntary so involved in some what the so so you're willing to concede that

03:08:35.120 it might not be zero yes of course there's like crazy insane yeah there's crazy insane outliers

03:08:41.920 but i'm more interested in like arguing the like conceptually this idea that there's like

03:08:50.240 average to below average women who would be happy like dating a guy who's pretty much on her level

03:08:57.760 and like having sex with him like the okay there's male incels for example who would be willing to

03:09:05.840 actually like date a girl who's maybe one or two points below him just to get sex

03:09:12.640 this idea and that's super common and maybe their standard let's just say the male incel standard is

03:09:18.240 they want to have sex with a girl who's like at least as attractive as him whether and so if he's like

03:09:23.520 below average in looks he'll have sex with a woman who's below average in looks he can't even get

03:09:29.120 that right i think that specific phenomenon where there's women who like who can't get sex from men

03:09:39.280 on their level or maybe one point below i don't think that exists

03:09:46.480 so you don't think that if the woman is extremely ugly you think that she can get sex from a guy who

03:09:51.280 is also extremely ugly sure yes yes i i think so i think it happens all the time but is i mean

03:09:57.920 look is there some is she's so fat you can't even reach her vagina okay fine she's a

03:10:03.440 fucking even though she's no no hold on i don't i don't even want to concede to that position

03:10:10.160 because of some like literal like if there's a what if the flesh is willing if the man is willing to

03:10:19.280 fuck her she's not but she's her it you would need a fucking two foot dick to reach her vagina

03:10:26.960 because of how fat she is she's not a femme cell she's just fat i mean you even see on like the

03:10:34.640 shows like my my 600 pound life or whatever it'll be a you know a woman who's incredibly morbidly obese

03:10:41.520 and then her like you know maybe a little bit overweight partner who like helps her shower and helps

03:10:48.000 or go to the bathroom in buckets and it's like i mean there's evidence everywhere that i i think is

03:10:54.320 very strongly in support of brian in this case thank you i'm not arguing that it's common my point is

03:11:00.720 if you're a woman and you're trying to get laid even if it's for one week and you cannot get laid

03:11:05.200 and you're failing for one week you're a fem cell i think i don't think that's fair i think there needs

03:11:11.040 to be a money more technically than alexa's been a fem cell for the whole time we've been dating

03:11:16.640 you know i'm not talking about that i i think there needs to be

03:11:21.280 i i so i don't think one week is a fair enough timeline because i honestly even for like an average

03:11:28.960 dude who can get laid like i think bro it you can't you can't always get laid within a week like

03:11:37.200 y'all girls okay you meet on a dating app you gotta talk to her for a couple days boom get the

03:11:42.000 number okay plan a date for friday oh she flakes two hours before okay boom i can't get a replacement

03:11:48.000 date boom it takes a minute like for most average guys we can't just go get some replacement pussy

03:11:55.680 like average dude it could take you a couple weeks it could take you a couple months even for like an

03:12:01.520 average dude i agree with that that's right but but i don't think it's fair to oh a woman can't get

03:12:07.120 laid no she's got to put in she's got put in three months she got to be on all the dating apps i don't

03:12:14.560 care if she's not asian she's got to be on the asian dating apps too she's got to be on every dating app

03:12:19.040 she's got to be hitting people up she's got to be going out to bars and clubs trying to get some dick

03:12:23.840 excuse me sir can i have some dick excuse me sir may i have some penis please that's what

03:12:28.800 she gotta be doing if she ain't going down to the club being like excuse me i want to put your

03:12:35.120 penis in and around my vagina if she's not fucking doing that fuck that shit she ain't a fem cell

03:12:40.560 if like i'm sorry if a little bit chopped girl um was going around to clubs and she was chopped like

03:12:47.680 not is that like ugly is that like zoomer for ugly chopped okay she's coming up to guys like this

03:12:54.320 most guys are gonna get scared away by that they're not gonna have you ever talked to men

03:12:58.800 like genuinely how like do you have many interactions with men 800 pound lumpy like

03:13:03.120 hairy moles black teeth she's going to clubs and she's coming if she's got large labia i'll i'll hit

03:13:09.280 but i'm gonna find you a fem cell i want to see proof of you having making her not a fem cell in the

03:13:15.200 room you want to be in the room i want a camera in the room you want no you have you have to be in

03:13:19.840 the room i'll be in and you have to have fucking pom-poms and cheerleading and shit in the corner

03:13:24.400 you gotta pay for my flight here because it's a lot you gotta pay for my flight to get here

03:13:28.880 nah bro get out of here with that i'm not doing it um oh ogle i do need to apologize this came in

03:13:34.320 ogle we were i i got really heated about the so heated i was so upset these feb cells um

03:13:42.880 this i apologize i missed this one ogle i the tts came in a while ago i'm sorry man

03:13:48.320 two hundred dollars mason it's just these woke american and western european women who look

03:13:54.240 at the world like that go to asia or eastern europe and they have much more traditional

03:13:59.360 values that are at least sensical this came in like 20 minutes ago ogle i apologize for that

03:14:04.240 man my bad do you want to respond really quick to that or not uh i mean yeah i don't disagree with

03:14:09.360 that yeah you're gonna run across more traditional women when you go to east oh yeah sorry gotta speak

03:14:13.840 into the microphone something yeah you're gonna yeah definitely when you go around uh asia um you're

03:14:19.840 gonna find women who are more traditional i don't disagree with that latin america i agree same thing

03:14:24.560 yeah yeah but um wait what were we what was it fem cells fem cells proof of you making a fem cell no

03:14:32.560 longer a fem cell yeah i don't know look i just feel like guys doesn't that mean that she was never a

03:14:38.480 fem cell to begin with which is kind of the point it would make her no longer from cell if brian went

03:14:43.280 through with his promise i'll do it but if he doesn't for the for the podcast oh my god look i

03:14:50.640 find it so hard to believe that i could see how it could be intimidated she doesn't even have to go to

03:14:56.480 the club she could i mean that's how people get laid but whatever just get on a dating app it's so

03:15:02.640 easy on the dating app she has to message every single dude and she doesn't have to be super crass with it

03:15:08.400 like i mean i was kind of joking around like she doesn't have to be like want some pussy no but

03:15:13.600 she can be like message guys be like oh hey like i think you're really attractive do you want to

03:15:19.200 like um i don't know if this is too forward like netflix and chill tonight she could even be more

03:15:24.800 reserved with it she could be like hey i just think you're really cute do you want to um

03:15:30.080 get dinner tonight i definitely think like she's getting more of the argument is there are guys who

03:15:36.640 say are a five from one to ten there are five there is no there are there are guys who no matter

03:15:43.760 what if they try to approach a woman who's a five or even a four they will never get one of those that's

03:15:49.920 an incel so but there if you're a woman who's say a two there are plenty of twos out there who are men

03:15:56.880 like who are going to put out for them like that does it doesn't exist for a woman who's a two

03:16:02.080 would not be able to get a man who's a two because a man's a man's desire is not so much

03:16:08.400 like are they successful do they go to the gym all these things it's i mean i hate to say this man

03:16:15.600 sorry but it's very physically driven like very sexually physically driven and it's very it's not

03:16:24.000 nearly um i mean women very much look at the non-sexual things when it comes to a relationship

03:16:29.600 and men that's just not their natural proclivity sinfully they that's what they they air towards

03:16:34.000 ariel you got something you got something what you got i remember my mom telling me when i was like

03:16:39.040 growing up my mom would be like a hole is a hole like i'm sorry i'm sorry but like not all men are

03:16:45.600 like that but i i genuinely feel like yes majority of men will yeah if anything if they'll do anything

03:16:54.240 like not saying for all men but yeah not all men no as a woman if a woman is or makes herself

03:17:02.000 sexually available even if that guy otherwise wouldn't have a relationship with her he will

03:17:06.480 smash he he'll take that opportunity absolutely you could tell like let me ask you girls a question

03:17:11.920 uh you get spawned into a bedroom and like a guy who's two or three points below you in terms of

03:17:20.400 appearance maybe he's like a little bit chubby not exactly your type but he's like seems really

03:17:27.200 really pleasant and like enthusiastically wants to have sex with you would you would you smash and

03:17:36.800 nobody can ever nobody can ever find out do you smash no anybody do you smash oh i was gonna say

03:17:44.160 you got that come on no i was gonna say how long have you no just random totally random dude smash

03:17:50.160 one nobody ever finds out it's like totally private no no no no no nobody i think not all guys are gonna

03:17:57.440 take that but like and no std no pregnancy none of that risk i think there's a good amount of men who

03:18:05.120 are gonna be like sure i'll hit i agree i'll hit why not i'll bust a nut so so it's it's different

03:18:14.080 it's different um two two final things on this and then we're gonna move it on um i almost want

03:18:20.080 to test this out also i mean this kind of delved into something else but like when it came to the

03:18:24.640 ease with which women can get laid versus men i want to do another test check it although some of

03:18:32.080 y'all in relationships i can't really fuck it whatever i'll just you know what i'm just asked the

03:18:36.960 single girls single single single single uh after the show tonight would you like to have uh

03:18:43.600 carnal knowledge with me what carnal knowledge sexual p in the v maybe some s-ing the d i'll accept

03:18:52.960 that i'll accept it i don't think you can handle my energy so no and not like right away without

03:19:00.640 getting to know me and then no so no she's gonna peg you she's gonna eat her that's crazy

03:19:08.560 no no i'm not talking about physically anything physical i'm talking about like yeah is it this

03:19:13.680 gray magic you speak oh no no no no no no no no no voodoo nothing voodoo nothing just sure

03:19:20.160 that's fine i can't handle the pussy my energy is very crazy can't handle the pussy the

03:19:23.920 pussies whatever too magical uh okay bailey bailey probably hates me but oh would you would you

03:19:29.840 smash still no still no and then the only ashley would you hit no see look at that brutal brutal

03:19:39.920 damn even single women it's hard it's hard out here go on your dating app it's hard i don't know

03:19:46.000 that was just an experiment just an experiment just kind of i'm just kidding to uh paint a picture

03:19:52.560 when it comes to the differentials between men and women so um oh final thing here somebody sent

03:19:58.240 sent this into me when it came to definitions of average male incel versus average female

03:20:04.800 they refuse to use the term female incel so they call it female vol cell average male incel is

03:20:11.920 just an average looking guy that might be a little bit shy that is deemed unattractive for factors

03:20:17.520 entirely outside of his control or that despite his best efforts doesn't feel right about gaming

03:20:24.160 pursuing women in the culture um i don't know that well whatever i'll finish it that is inherently

03:20:29.120 hostile towards them towards them ah that last part i mean it's valid but also like you gotta you

03:20:36.320 gotta make an attempt before you consider yourself and so but um average female vol cell an average to

03:20:42.800 obese looking woman that puts little to no effort into finding men while also actively dismissing the

03:20:49.760 men who are interested in them and maintaining maintaining this entitlement that they should

03:20:56.320 be able to treat men like garbage okay i don't know a little bias there but uh okay whatever where did

03:21:02.480 they get that definition from i don't know somebody sent that in it was in my notes um question

03:21:08.480 have you been convinced or no are you i think you're trying to say that it's not a common phenomenon

03:21:16.080 which i agree with i'm saying they exist they can they have the potential to exist and i think they

03:21:21.920 do exist in this world as we speak yo chat what's the defeater here what's the defeater to

03:21:28.560 well you know there's one incel out there in the world or one female incel like what what is uh

03:21:35.360 uh i don't know if this is a fallacy can somebody in the chat help me out with this

03:21:41.920 you know what i mean chat what what would it uh we're on normal latency so this is going to take

03:21:47.360 forever it's going to take like probably 30 seconds before they see it yo i'm just going to test this

03:21:52.560 out one's in the chat one's in the chat i'm going to see the the latency on this okay uh let's see

03:22:01.200 here i don't know whatever uh we need to read a couple chats a couple chats okay uh is it is it

03:22:12.880 oh man there's a crate it's like a 30 to see it's a 30 second delay 20 20 30 30 second delay all right

03:22:23.440 doink think for the prime we have another chat here oh boy lulu can we go back to challenging that

03:22:28.640 oh boy manipulative asian chick with the crazy eyes do you have crazy eyes here look do you see

03:22:34.240 this camera forget forget that other shit do you have crazy look into this camera right here open

03:22:38.400 your eyes wide i'm really wide is that is it is that racist i like your eyes thank you i love your

03:22:47.120 eyes you bigot oh no um wait do it again look into the look looking look into this camera well look

03:22:53.840 deep wait no right here what right here right here look deep into this camera deep really wide

03:22:59.040 eyes and say wait what should we have her say she should say some crazy like this don't get me

03:23:04.400 canceled i no no i'm not canceled i want to peg you say it oh my gosh hey guys i think i'm good say it

03:23:14.800 say that's it have you have you pegged a guy no good times okay good talk uh let's see here what

03:23:22.640 what do we have what do we have guys reminder reed is 100 tts is too you know what

03:23:30.160 not for the crystal home that's still an ethereum champagne pops are 50 off for the rest of the show

03:23:36.320 500 499 499 for a little champagne pop we need a little champagne except wait two people are not

03:23:45.520 over 21 that's okay sorry felicity no one no crimes for you tonight um don't worry there's no car involved

03:23:53.600 guys if you're enjoying the stream like the video also guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drop us a

03:23:59.120 follow in a prime sub if you have on twitch.tv slash whatever guys there's 1 200 guys can you get

03:24:07.440 us to 97 600 followers i need nine followers drop me nine followers doink think for the prime killer

03:24:15.840 think for the tier one zentar think for the prime picard think for the prime appreciate it brother

03:24:19.520 appreciate appreciate it uh let's see here we have uh oh then really quick let me shout you guys out

03:24:27.680 some of you guys 100 if you want 100 of your contribution to go to the whatever podcast

03:24:34.880 go to venmo cash app whatever pod youtube takes 30 stream labs takes uh like three to four percent so

03:24:44.400 angelina uh thank you so much for the ten dollars on that is venmo thank you so much angelina guys w's in

03:24:52.400 the chat for angelina joe lee anna says uh given some love to alexa and mason yo anna thank you so

03:25:01.120 much for the uh 25 dollars on uh venmo thank you so much man man sorry woman anna and i apologize i

03:25:09.280 miss pronouned you or whatever um all right we have you know what here's what we got to do wait what

03:25:15.920 david brian brian brian i can pull three in 24 hours if i want women can pull 100 but they don't

03:25:22.880 oh that's fair that's fair good good for you man this what a what a giga chad okay uh stifler ask

03:25:28.800 everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to ten you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead

03:25:36.800 um what most people would probably say then if i can't pick seven eight but i personally think a 10

03:25:42.800 one for myself because i look exactly how i wanted to look period all right 10 sweet what about you

03:25:49.280 felicity like a five i don't know five okay sure like that's how you rate yourself in terms of your

03:25:58.400 looks what if we throw just i never ask this if we throw in personality what would you what are you

03:26:05.280 cranking out i don't know like is it higher or lower maybe a six a six okay all right what about

03:26:13.200 you bailey uh six six okay i'm gonna say 8.5 but i've worked really hard 8.5 you know what though what

03:26:24.080 what were you when you were a background character last show because i don't have some things i would

03:26:29.520 feel like saying wait what do you mean what do you mean like what what was i i was like i feel

03:26:34.720 like you kind of your hair was on point i know i did my makeup for that show oh you didn't do your

03:26:40.240 makeup no i didn't have time today send this girl yeah i'm kidding my roommates in the er so i was like

03:26:48.320 yeah sorry i like turned did you uh like attack them um yeah actually no i'm just kidding um his

03:26:56.400 his parents flew out so i took them to the yard so i didn't really have time to get that's that's

03:27:00.320 fine no your hair was all i crimped it it's good and i like put foundation on and stuff it looks right

03:27:06.640 now this is like pretty natural this is okay but so 8.5 thank you alina what about you 6.9

03:27:15.600 nice freaking alina probably like a five a five ash ash ashley six and a half a six and a half okay alexa

03:27:25.600 i'm gonna go with personality and eight no personality you can't factor in personality

03:27:29.520 just looks 6.9 then 6.9 all right uh nason what about you uh i probably think i'm gosh i'm not

03:27:38.480 allowed to say seven uh i guess i have to go up to a 6.9 then okay i think i mean i lost like i mean

03:27:45.600 i guess i'm doing a lot better but i lost like 50 pounds i'm slowly getting back here show us the biceps

03:27:51.920 again bro come on do it do it somebody do it find his old bite double bicep do a comparison it's not

03:27:59.520 that bad yeah well i have gained a lot of weight back i'm probably i'm in the 190s right now so

03:28:03.840 technically speaking i'm still a victim in my weight class once i get above 200 we can okay and we can

03:28:10.320 talk about it sure i get i give myself a five a five um wait i don't know oh yeah this is pretty

03:28:20.880 reasonable so we got the only 10 here at the table uh we've been she's gracing us with her

03:28:27.440 superior beauty no no no i just said i think i look exactly how i wanted to look my avatar

03:28:33.600 your avatar okay that's cool even though i don't look yeah what people anybody else would consider

03:28:41.040 you are a legend and a scholar so you don't have any like any things about yourself in particular

03:28:46.480 you're self-conscious about um of course like physically um yeah actually at first i have but

03:28:51.920 then i got to like really love like every part so i'm like yeah but at first definitely like nose job

03:28:57.600 or this that like yeah but now i'm not anymore because i see why i chose what i chose to look like

03:29:05.760 um i have a follow-up question on this um

03:29:12.160 so oh i'll just okay i'll just do the uh do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time so

03:29:19.680 you're 25 will you be better looking 10 years time 35 yes because i'll have more money but

03:29:24.000 yeah yeah physically yeah um better looking 20 years time 45 yeah

03:29:34.800 probably um yeah okay uh 30 years time 55.

03:29:41.280 no we we have audio only listeners so if you shake your head yeah um no

03:29:46.720 okay you said 40 to 50 years from now so if you're 30 30 so 55 oh yeah no okay what about you

03:29:58.880 so you're 18 better looking in 10 years time at 28 i hope so yeah probably what about uh 20 years

03:30:04.880 time 38 no no okay you're 23 better looking in 10 years time at 33 yeah yes better looking in 20

03:30:13.120 years time at 43 no okay so 33 peak yes 33 peak okay um same here same here i think well you're 24

03:30:24.640 better looking in 10 years time at 34 yes 20 years time at 44 no okay alina you're 20 better looking in

03:30:31.200 10 years time at 30 better most likely not most likely not okay uh 24 better looking in 10 years time

03:30:37.840 i'm at 34. highly unlikely highly unlikely uh ash 25 better looking in 10 years time 35 no okay

03:30:45.760 alexa 29 better looking in 10 years time 39 sadly no but i'm working on anti-aging

03:30:52.800 and then going 10 years back were you better looking at 19 versus now at 29. i look better now better now

03:30:58.320 okay uh okay i think those were all pretty pretty reasonable pretty reasonable nothing too crazy do we

03:31:07.440 have the age advancement though and kate we always do this in case i mean you said 20 better wait 30

03:31:13.840 and no wait did i actually say 45 i said no i meant no to 45. oh well now you're changing 20 years

03:31:19.920 i didn't hear you i thought no i misunderstood you at first i'm not gonna lie but like 40 maybe but then

03:31:26.400 no past 40. where's your cutoff point 40. yeah that's when you think you're gonna be most attractive

03:31:30.800 as 40 years old oh from definitely 33 to 40. i don't know what age do you think you're gonna be

03:31:38.560 your most attractive like if you had the same like you're the same life practices about the same as

03:31:44.240 everybody else yeah okay so what what age do you think like 38 38 that's gonna be your most attractive

03:31:54.640 i mean i feel like that's for a lot of guys that's kind of their inner girls if they have money i feel

03:32:00.800 like yeah wait if the guy has money or i can low-key b-box huh wait what i was just like staring at

03:32:09.600 you i was like oh you want her to rap oh my god yeah low-key i'm scared what i'm gonna say to be

03:32:18.000 break it down come on bro no because like a lot of people are out there a lot of people

03:32:24.240 i've heard it you don't even have me freestyle what kind of music is it on your instagram you

03:32:28.720 post oh i do a little bit yeah i definitely nothing like stuff yeah i bought a dj board

03:32:34.640 here oh my god okay not right now the audience is gonna be like please no i think oh before i start

03:32:42.080 freestyling like that i'll have to really start to trust some people more trust people more and i

03:32:47.920 really don't right now so that's like how people judge and how people don't don't worry about the

03:32:52.800 rap shit um so the one day we'll get the the peak is 39 though yeah into the mic into the mic

03:32:59.920 yeah peak is 39 yes wait question but you like you're a stripper right i used to yeah oh used to

03:33:06.160 do you think like if you started stripping again at 39 years old do you think you make more money

03:33:10.720 at 39 versus when you're stripping i don't know at 20 or whatever maybe what do you mean what about

03:33:16.320 the same you think it'd be the same yeah honest i don't know yeah either the same or actually maybe

03:33:21.920 more because i guess maybe you know what you're right you think the same wait but not more like

03:33:30.320 okay but your own experience in the club like were the younger more track well you you might not

03:33:36.960 current did you ever run into someone younger women make more money than the older women oh

03:33:41.760 no it's all over the place okay all over the place they like those some of the some of the guys just

03:33:46.800 like there was this one that was like almost she was she was in her 50s and she would get a lot just

03:33:55.200 because of that the fact that she was yeah so old and everybody had you know everybody has their kinks

03:34:03.440 and it's like rare to see a dancer that's that old so i feel like that's why they're all like

03:34:08.400 dope i mean yeah but is that the rule like do you think it's more i think i'm sure there's more guys

03:34:14.080 that would like the younger looking women no matter if they are not for sure wait uh getting back into

03:34:21.120 the show notes but i'm a little bit different so you are i didn't know this um alina you why do you

03:34:28.480 call me brain bro that's kind of rude calling you out here that's just your nickname big brain big big

03:34:35.440 she in the dm she's like calls me brain so i was like is this chick trolling like what the

03:34:41.680 fuck um that's cool what guys chat since she gave me a nickname what do we nickname her her name is alina

03:34:52.640 the russian soviet spy what do we call her russian body i don't know if there's any like how do you

03:35:00.880 clown on alina you can't you can't it's fucked uh somebody in the chat does they're gonna figure it

03:35:09.040 out watch out okay uh let's see here you also wrote in your notes alina that uh women wear makeup for

03:35:16.960 themselves because even if she attracts a man with with it she's attracting him for herself

03:35:24.320 right so there's a common opinion that women wear makeup for men and i used to agree with that but

03:35:31.280 then i thought about it and i'm like okay if she wears the makeup she looks good she goes out and she

03:35:36.560 attracts the man of her dreams because she looks good she's still doing that for herself that's a

03:35:42.160 benefit that's benefiting her you know what i mean in the end that's still benefiting her so it's

03:35:47.520 like was she wearing it for herself in the end i feel like this is going to be like the fem cell

03:35:52.720 argument where it's just like you're just arguing this kind of like niche position um so basically like

03:36:03.120 women wear wear makeup for men but they're doing that to get the men so they're doing it for themselves

03:36:10.560 themselves because they're getting the man for themselves yes is that the logic yes okay so it's

03:36:16.480 like okay i'm not gonna it's giving feminist for sure but still still regardless they're they're

03:36:21.600 putting the makeup in that even in that logic they're still putting the makeup on to get the men

03:36:26.880 even if it's for themselves they're still putting it on to get the man it's this roundabout yeah yeah

03:36:32.800 sort of i don't yeah well i mean that's the whole point of the argument anyways it's like are they

03:36:37.040 doing it because they're trying to attract men or are they or they're just doing it because i want

03:36:41.120 to look pretty which is a total load of crap i think the feminist argument for this would be

03:36:45.760 women wear makeup for themselves just because they like it just because you know they they just like

03:36:50.800 it that's what i like putting on makeup for myself right and that can be true it can like it can be fun

03:36:55.680 that can be the case for a lot of people but in general the point of makeup is to make you look more

03:37:00.880 attractive i mean but but when you say attractive to who to the gender that you're attracted to and

03:37:09.840 so if most women are heterosexual they're trying to make themselves more attractive to men yes yeah

03:37:17.760 and i look i don't think there's only one answer to something so like i think two both things can exist

03:37:25.040 i think women are in competition with other women and you want to look presentable to other women but

03:37:32.480 you also want to look presentable to men so i don't think it's like you're just doing it for men you

03:37:38.720 are also wanting to look presentable to your female friends or your female competition whatever it is

03:37:44.480 but you're also doing it for men if you're straight or bi or mostly a lesbian but sometimes you

03:37:52.000 fuck men i feel like there's multiple answers to this question you could do it for men you could

03:37:55.760 do it for yourself you can do it for both i don't really feel i feel like every person is different

03:38:00.320 the benefit of the man the what is the benefit that the man is getting from the woman wearing the

03:38:05.520 makeup he just gets to look at her and she looks good okay i mean yeah men are yeah but the

03:38:10.880 benefit that the woman is getting is that she can attract a man for herself it's attention

03:38:15.280 uh you said attention or intention attention fundamentally at the end of the day that's

03:38:20.960 like the currency i don't disagree with that okay yeah anyways uh you said that women shouldn't be

03:38:26.960 drafted why is that it would make a weak army and it the other um side could essay the women on the

03:38:37.360 woman's side and impregnate them it would demoralize the army and it would weaken it

03:38:44.480 so women shouldn't be drafted no well how about this though women should be drafted but they can't

03:38:50.960 have access to frontline combat positions are you in favor then is there a limit on how many women

03:38:57.200 are getting drafted because someone has to stay home and make babies you know what do you mean if more

03:39:03.040 women are getting killed then that's it's hard so you're talking in some like total war

03:39:09.040 like world war two situations um like world war ii a big war yeah that would kill millions of people

03:39:17.520 um

03:39:21.360 nah they should still be drafted just for non-combat roles that's your

03:39:25.600 sure argument for equality so no combat for women no combat for women okay i mean i'm fine with that

03:39:31.760 look here's the thing and um i'm trying to remember the exact number but in order to field

03:39:38.720 one combat soldier so one person in the field in combat it takes 10 other people uh in the military

03:39:45.600 like soldier soldiers but their administration their cooks their mechanical repair uh it takes 10 people

03:39:53.040 to field one soldier so women can occupy positions of support in the military um i don't see a problem

03:40:02.160 with that how should that be regulated though should the men be drafted first and then once there's no

03:40:07.760 men who qualify the women get drafted i have at the same time i'll answer that question immediately but

03:40:12.560 i have one question for you so you're saying in war that a man's duty like when it comes to forced

03:40:19.120 military conscription in the draft is to fight in the actual war right right and women should be

03:40:27.120 exempt from military draft and their duty their duty so man's duty is what in the war yeah to fight

03:40:37.280 to fight and potentially die right that's that's their duty that's their responsibility that's their

03:40:44.000 burden right i'm gonna go ahead and say women shouldn't be drafted for the military

03:40:49.120 but what about this actually before i ask the question you said women's expectation is what

03:40:56.800 their expectation and where well you said well the reason we don't draft women in the military

03:41:04.160 is so that they can repopulate the country they can give birth right that's the women's duty that's

03:41:10.880 the women's duty so would you be in favor then of a draft for women where they're forced to get pregnant

03:41:19.760 are they getting s8 no they can do it consensually but they are compelled like you have to do this

03:41:27.680 well a lot of people can have health complications with that so oh you know what's a really bad

03:41:32.640 health complication is getting killed on the battlefield okay it's fine we can do that okay so

03:41:38.560 you're fine with a a draft they they can pick a partner maybe they're already with a partner they

03:41:44.320 need to get pregnant and if they're if they don't i look in the i'll even say in the situation they

03:41:50.240 can't be uh they wouldn't be like forced by the government to have like actually you have to

03:41:55.200 fuck but there would be penalties if they didn't have children right and like the same as a war is an

03:42:00.640 extreme situation that the humans going extinct that would also be an extreme situation so both

03:42:07.840 of those require extreme measures like war requires drafting them so you are in favor of a birth draft

03:42:14.960 if if humans were going extinct yes human well well what would be the point of the birth draft the

03:42:22.960 population is not at replacement rate no just it's like hey we're we're in times of war and let's say

03:42:29.520 these countries that are at war know that they're going to be in a prolonged like multi-decade conflict

03:42:35.360 as some conflicts are um we need women to start birthing people today so that in 20 years 18 years

03:42:43.840 we can field more male soldiers and more women to get pregnant yeah that's an extreme situation that

03:42:50.560 requires extreme measures and i think i'd be down for that okay so you're in favor yeah so you're against

03:42:55.840 like uh women's bodily autonomy i'm not against anyone's bodily autonomy i'm just saying pro-life

03:43:01.600 or pro-choice um i don't have i still struggle with that argument because there are some but but

03:43:09.840 so just to be clear you could not get an abortion if you were birth drafted so this would be taking

03:43:16.400 away a woman's choice so are you pro-choice or pro-life i will i lean more towards pro-life but i still have

03:43:22.320 some you know some struggles with that argument i do lean more towards pro-life so i would be in

03:43:28.720 favor birth draft is a bit more extreme than like being pro-life i think well yeah of course that would

03:43:35.920 be like compelling uh because being pro-life just means you don't have access to abortions whereas in

03:43:43.040 this case you're you're because a woman can just choose to not get pregnant okay like you can move

03:43:50.640 through life as a woman absent like essay of course and like just i never want to get pregnant there's

03:43:55.760 nothing that ever forces a woman to have sex get pregnant whatever but this is actually like going

03:44:00.880 a step beyond pro-life position which is like birth draft you have to try to get pregnant and give birth

03:44:08.240 well in case of a war both genders are doing something extreme to help the country out sure

03:44:14.080 i mean i think you're logically uh consistent so who else is in favor of the birth draft anybody

03:44:20.160 any other ladies in favor of the birth draft birth draft in the event of like in how about this we're

03:44:26.160 kind of like overpopulated right now no that is actually quite opposite of the issue and that was

03:44:31.840 actually going to be my next question is like if if the basis is that we're in a state of emergency i could

03:44:36.320 argue that we very much are because our birth rate is not even remotely close to replacement it's a

03:44:40.640 huge issue which is another reason i'm sure actually i mean actually uh china the reason their country

03:44:46.800 is going to crash is because they don't have enough people being born their population is declining

03:44:51.760 incredibly most of their population is too old i mean their economy is going to fall in the next what

03:44:58.240 was it like decade because they don't have enough people coming from families they're also not balanced um

03:45:05.200 by gender because of exactly because of the one yeah exactly so now you've got a bunch of men and

03:45:10.720 not that many women and women are already i didn't know that it's a huge issue it's a it's seriously

03:45:16.960 a critical issue yeah it is kind of interesting though because all the argument i hear when it

03:45:21.120 comes to the draft is like oh well the reason that is is because women are expected to serve like

03:45:26.160 we need to protect the women so that they can like repopulate or whatever um but it's interesting

03:45:31.680 that like so women are not expected or forced to have children during war but that's the entire

03:45:37.520 reason why they are protected to begin with but they won't do the thing they were protected

03:45:45.200 for them to do i mean i would be interested to see like if we actually went into war sometime soon

03:45:52.320 domestically anyways if that would actually end up a birth draft no not like a birth draft

03:45:58.480 but the military draft just to be clear i'm not in favor of a birth oh i'm not i'm not saying that

03:46:04.240 you are just to be clear but i'm it's just a interesting conversation to to have so uh but

03:46:10.720 okay you're in you don't think women should be drafted but you're fine with the birth draft

03:46:15.440 uh good good job lena you're a legend um i'm sure a lot of women are going to love you for that take

03:46:21.440 um you said uh let's see uh if any girl gives you dating advice to spend as much time with your girl

03:46:29.200 as you can and to go above and beyond for just a regular girlfriend don't listen to her women like

03:46:33.280 mystery whether we admit it or not so this is if a girl is giving a uh male dating advice do you want

03:46:38.720 to elaborate a little bit i need to get up i think a lot of men who have female friends get really bad

03:46:43.840 dating advice from their female friends a lot of women say you should go above and beyond get her flowers

03:46:50.080 on a first date like get her all these gifts and try to impress her that's that's their point i don't

03:46:56.000 think a guy's goal on a first date should be to impress the woman i think it should be to get to know

03:47:01.760 the woman and vet her out and see if she's a good choice for a long-term relationship or whatever he's

03:47:06.880 looking for to see if she's a good choice for him are you are you saying that the advice that you're

03:47:13.280 referring to is specifically for long like obtaining a long-term relationship or is this

03:47:20.880 go for anything even if the guy is not even looking for a long-term relationship he's not that type of

03:47:25.360 guy um still it comes down to attraction what women are attracted to most i would say yeah most women

03:47:32.880 would not be attracted even if they say they would be to a guy who's just going all in like putting all

03:47:40.080 of his effort in right away from the first date even if they say they do a lot of the time deep

03:47:46.480 down subconsciously it can be a turn off because it takes away an aspect of mystery that they're

03:47:51.920 seeking in in a partner i think it's also not necessarily a piece of mystery it's it's anything

03:47:58.720 that's a it's anything too available it seems a little too good to be true so it starts putting

03:48:04.480 off alarm bells because it's if someone's coming up and they're giving you everything right off the bat

03:48:08.000 people admire things they've had to put a little effort into so it's the thing of not being too

03:48:13.840 available but also don't suffocate the person like 30 texts why do you think ladies generally like real

03:48:18.960 gucci bags they're harder to get they're more expensive they're more desirable instead of a fake

03:48:24.320 gucci bag which anyone could get really cheap very affordable you'd easily get it it's not so much

03:48:30.080 the mystery aspect to it i definitely think it is the like it's hard to get so it's it's when

03:48:37.680 you're dating a guy who's like this is a this is a guy that other women would want because he is

03:48:43.360 hard to obtain he is very picky he's very particular and when you do get him it's like

03:48:50.080 it's essentially you being able to show him off oh sorry mr microphone but yeah it's essentially

03:48:55.040 showing them off yeah and when a guy is doing something like that right off the bat especially

03:48:59.600 on the first date for you you know that he's doing that for every girl so you're not even special

03:49:05.120 you know what i mean if you meet a guy and he's kind of you know laid back at first and then

03:49:10.160 once you become more serious with him he starts to put on put in more effort then you know that

03:49:15.520 you're actually special because he's willing to put in that effort for you if he does that for anybody

03:49:20.640 it's it's not special you know and we're talking about like just in the beginning of a relationship

03:49:27.200 yes just in the beginning i mean do you expect to be treated like you're special in the beginning of

03:49:31.440 relationship like first day you expect to be treated like because he doesn't know me yet so

03:49:36.160 he doesn't know if i'm special for him you know i could just be a regular girl like he doesn't know

03:49:41.840 me so why should i get special treatment well then i guess why is the argument against you know being

03:49:49.600 you know showered with gifts and whatever that you don't feel special i'm just trying to work that

03:49:55.840 i'm not necessarily disagreeing with you i'm just trying to work that out no the argument is not that

03:49:59.680 she doesn't feel special i mean that's what you just said maybe i misunderstood but did i

03:50:06.720 didn't anyone else understand it that way i'm a little bit confused because my point is um she's

03:50:13.840 not going to feel less special if he doesn't do that she's going to be more attracted to him if he

03:50:18.560 doesn't put in a bunch of effort right off the bat well he's not she's more attracted to him because

03:50:24.880 he he could pick from a bunch of women who are definitely attracted to him there's like the

03:50:29.680 maybe there's no woman who are definitely attracted to him like when i went on my first

03:50:33.280 date with alexa like uh there weren't like billions of women pouring themselves into my dms like throwing

03:50:38.880 themselves at me she was pretty much the only one so like uh but the thing is is it's showing that um

03:50:46.560 i'm not gonna like throw myself away because i want to be with you no i have some standards so

03:50:52.480 generally women want to see a man with standards someone who's going to hold strong in what they believe

03:50:57.360 what they like their being ability to provide protect um and stand for their morals like having

03:51:05.120 those lines um so when it comes like the first few dates a woman wants to see a man who is like

03:51:13.360 holding themselves back initially really seeing is this someone who i want to be with and eventually

03:51:19.040 like once you make that decision once that decision has come to um i'm gonna open myself up to you

03:51:25.280 but yeah really quick we're gonna get into a couple things here really quick just shout out for cash

03:51:32.080 app kyla thank you so much for the 10 on cash app kyla you're my best friend i know for sure shout

03:51:38.800 out to you kyla what's up thank you so much w's in the chat for kyla i think for the 10 over there on

03:51:45.040 cash app guys venmo cash app whatever pod if you want 100 of your patronage to go towards us guys like

03:51:51.920 the video uh let's see here we're gonna pull up the photos but then did you get that private chat damien

03:52:01.040 yeah that was my rating some uh cj yo shout out to cj he's a new mod shout out to him he sent me my chat gpt

03:52:10.080 chat gpt rated me boom it's kind of yeah let's see it let's make it bigger

03:52:21.840 based on general online discussions brian atlas would likely receive an average rating of five to

03:52:26.480 seven out of ten from women on this one to ten scale breakdown looks six to seven he's tall decent

03:52:32.880 facial features but not a universally recognized heartthrob personality four to six some find him

03:52:42.320 confident and assertive others see him as overly confrontational uh not wrong there status and

03:52:49.280 success six to oh six to eight host of a popular podcast financially stable not on the level of billion

03:52:55.920 yeah no shit kind of hilarious but not on the level of the world you know yeah nobody's on the

03:53:03.680 level um public image polarizing due to his podcast that's fair content final uh four to six for the

03:53:11.120 public image final estimate women who like his confidence and pot oh seven to eight okay this is

03:53:17.120 total women who dislike his approach hey you know what i'll take it four to five what's up i'll take it

03:53:24.400 general average around oh my goodness okay okay chat gpt you know what we got to do grok though i

03:53:30.480 think they got grok 3.0 beta that just dropped uh let's do the age age do we have how many batches damien

03:53:41.120 okay perfect we'll do that and double uh afterwards double check the discord see if there are any other

03:53:45.840 batches but i'm sure yeah let me know if you see any okay so this is an age thing damn okay

03:53:54.400 what's up um i like it it's like three steps i like it when did you guys take these pictures

03:54:02.160 or something i already knew it was gonna do me really wrong she's blind in her right eye what the

03:54:06.480 fuck they fucked you up i took some milf next i look like george washington whoa

03:54:11.600 oh oh okay you look like the lunch lady wait i'm scared i don't want to see it okay nice next oh

03:54:26.080 wait hold up bro wait hold up you went from asian to native american

03:54:31.680 oh my goodness that's kind of hilarious navajo i wonder if i'm gonna look like my mom she's a

03:54:38.320 navajo uh next oh hey oh my goodness all right not bad i feel like they did you really dirty with

03:54:48.240 that one like especially i don't know i mean okay anyways next oh goodness that's yikes oh so red that

03:55:00.240 is that's rough that's okay next oh i'm you know a little tiny bit i look like my grandma in the middle

03:55:10.000 maybe the middle next oh okay daddy okay that's bad not bad abuela

03:55:18.000 oh lord are you are you mexican yeah abuelita what is it abuela abuelita abuelita abuelita okay there

03:55:26.560 you go there you go next oh okay wait honestly mason you're looking at me i don't know really

03:55:36.560 all right next

03:55:42.240 that picture is so funny you still have a full it hates us girls

03:55:49.120 oh boy let's see what about next

03:55:51.200 hey darkavia uh do we no darkavia okay next oh this is the gender so here's oh my here's the

03:56:00.480 question here's the question right with the gender with the gender change do you date are you willing

03:56:07.040 to date the male version of you if he looks like a master chief from halo yes it's right here no but i

03:56:15.520 feel like realistically i would look more like master chief from halo but don't ask you would be in a

03:56:19.920 green you'd be like six nine no like 300 pounds super muscular oh i don't know i didn't see that

03:56:25.760 shit anyways it doesn't matter okay how about this no would you date this guy no you wouldn't date them

03:56:31.760 no okay next oh

03:56:35.040 that's what's the big did you turn it with a bowl cut i look like my dad

03:56:41.440 like you're in a boyfriend i feel like you have to say no to their hair do you date uh so in the

03:56:45.920 middle it's just no beard uh the other ones with the beard because some people they just got your

03:56:50.640 bangs that looks like my dad i could never date that person because okay so no no would not date okay

03:56:58.000 next oh that's kind of hilarious wait that's that's a good job honestly like the you wouldn't

03:57:07.440 do it why not that's scary that's your looks equivalent no that's your looks equivalent okay no

03:57:16.320 damn best one so far wait i feel like yeah that's pretty yeah not bad i know a guy that looks kind of

03:57:21.280 like him but as long as i say no you haven't seen my friend do you do you have a type like do you date

03:57:28.320 asian guys i haven't but i've only dated one person you've won't oh i've been in one relationship

03:57:33.360 but what about like smashing paths probably not like have you had like a one-night stand or like

03:57:40.240 a fling or friends with benefits okay all right next she wouldn't shoot that's a decent looking

03:57:47.280 dude i look like my brother let's go that looks like my brother okay oh my god he's probably

03:57:54.320 watching it right now would you date sorry would you date my brother no one of these guys one of

03:58:00.640 those dudes would you do low-key you you're looking dude nah nah okay just because it looks like my

03:58:08.800 brother it would freak me out i date the guy version okay thank you a little hard on the filter on the

03:58:14.400 left though yeah that's not even like one of those dolls also she's got you got blue eyes or what

03:58:20.080 color no i don't have like they gave you a porn stash uh into the mic oh would you would you date

03:58:28.960 no would you why sure would you date smash anything date only but not smash well it's like an asexual

03:58:36.960 yeah okay yes but he's not hot enough to just smash i don't do that okay okay if you say so lena uh

03:58:45.360 next oh my goodness shut up that also looks like my brother absolutely not my brother my brother

03:58:52.560 ew okay to my buds at home that looks like ben okay did you hit whoa no absolutely not

03:58:59.120 ew except my brothers are bald so all right next i didn't know that oh god oh oh that's all right

03:59:07.440 did they take the bangs do you absolutely not absolutely not damn what they do with the hair

03:59:13.680 the hair is pretty bad uh next oh okay wait this is actually kind of looks like mason a little bit

03:59:23.120 it's like ryan gosling yeah i would date me with the beard yeah for sure would you i think you are

03:59:34.160 would you would you would you yes i would go out with him there you go all right next it's a handsome

03:59:42.720 guy that's not a that's not that's a trans woman that's true um right there okay no no no

04:00:02.320 darkavia do you smell honestly it looks like my goodness

04:00:06.240 shit she says no she says no next sorry dude dude you look like you're gonna complain at the

04:00:14.880 restaurant yeah he's gonna definitely talk to the manager it's not fair look i know i'm a little

04:00:21.760 chubby right now but man 20 pounds on a few pounds yeah you added 30 pounds on her i'm a little chubby

04:00:28.000 i know it oh come on you made her fat bro that's crazy okay next that's it oh that's it wow that's

04:00:34.240 great wait you never said i don't know i feel like if you got rid of the beard no no i wouldn't

04:00:40.240 i guess hey wait what is that called female fem cell what if that was your fem cell

04:00:46.480 wait what oh i could pull 10 people out of my phone would i like actually ignore the question i don't

04:00:53.600 know i have like the thought and then i said it i'm like you know what okay let's good talk

04:00:58.560 it's backspace we have a message coming in michael jones donated 200 thank you michael

04:01:04.560 chat gpt is wrong brian you're a 10 oh never down play yourself king thank you also some of these

04:01:12.560 women are delusional ask them to collectively name 16 countries to each michael jones okay we can do that

04:01:21.040 starting with you two countries and you can't repeat two oh only two yeah two okay um japan and

04:01:30.880 china yeah can you tilt your mic down just a little bit felicity what about you

04:01:35.040 uh spain and greenland uh greece and vietnam

04:01:39.440 dang it i was gonna say um country countries yeah um it's kind of no i know a lot of country guys

04:01:51.040 um okay venezuela and um

04:01:58.720 wait no wait venezuela and brazil

04:02:00.720 switzerland laos iraq iran israel mexico iceland cuba

04:02:10.880 oh that was 16 i think it's just for the women i don't know i want to name continents

04:02:18.080 that's what i was thinking in my head yeah um let's get oh we have another one here from

04:02:25.760 whatever whenever question for the table is ambition and a man attractive if yes why if

04:02:30.480 not if no why not are you ambitious and do you think it makes you attractive love to this

04:02:34.960 podcast yo thank you so much for the uh message man really appreciate it w's in the chat for him

04:02:39.840 uh so is ambition and a man attractive if yes why if no why not of course um

04:02:49.440 because if he's not i mean for me personally i'm working towards a lot of things so if who i'm

04:02:55.840 with is not then i yeah it's definitely just a turn off because i'm doing it so i feel like

04:03:00.160 he's the guy and if anything he should be even more ambitious than me or about the same

04:03:05.840 sure uh yes i like someone who wants to be successful okay i agree i think if he's goal

04:03:15.440 oriented i i like that uh i also agree uh just because i have a lot of goals and i want you to

04:03:22.880 have a lot of goals and we can work on our goals together so yeah i think it's one of the most

04:03:27.360 attractive things is ambition because it shows that he's willing to work towards his goals and

04:03:31.680 i am ambitious but i don't think it makes me that much more attractive yeah of course i like an

04:03:37.680 ambitious man um especially with inflation these days um i mean i think it shows that they have the

04:03:44.400 ability to even if they might lack in other areas like intelligence or skill in some capacity that they

04:03:52.960 still have some motivating factor that can drive them forward because sometimes that can you can

04:03:58.320 outperform someone who might be more intelligent than you but less ambitious and less disciplined

04:04:02.160 um i do think that my i am very ambitious i do think that it does to some extent make me more

04:04:09.040 attractive but only because it's in the context of modern dating western society where a woman if she

04:04:17.200 isn't to some extent ambitious then she's more likely to be a burden um but i'm also coming from

04:04:25.520 the perspective that i don't want kids so neither does my partner i think yes my man should be

04:04:31.600 ambitious and i think because i have big goals and i would want him to have also big goals and if we

04:04:37.360 want to have a family someday i feel like that needs to if he wants to be the provider of the family which

04:04:42.240 i would hope so needs to have some ambition okay absolutely i think ambition is something that

04:04:49.360 i i mean i graduated high school at 16 i work in tech like i i want someone who has goals and

04:04:55.680 aspirations they don't necessarily have to be equivalent to mine but i think ambition doesn't

04:05:00.560 necessarily always have to mean something monetary i just want to see someone who wants to live the

04:05:05.120 most fulfilling life so that that to me i do like someone who says i want to make the most of today

04:05:12.240 okay uh i'm going to get into the other show notes here we have going back to alina you said

04:05:19.120 dating is difficult because gender roles are upside down making it harder for men and women

04:05:22.640 to understand each other's needs do you want to elaborate well i mean the gender roles are upside down

04:05:29.680 women a lot of the time act more dominant and in relationship dynamics that can demasculate the

04:05:36.880 men and make him feel um kind of powerless and puts him in a position where he submits and to the woman

04:05:46.400 and that makes him unattractive to the woman and the relationship usually falls apart

04:05:53.200 all right uh and then final thing from you you said passport bros

04:05:57.280 men beware of these chicks man why why should why beware of these chicks because uh i understand

04:06:05.760 being a passport bro i understand their reasoning for it but i think a lot of um girls who are in

04:06:12.880 these nations that these men are going to they're also aware very much aware of what a passport bro is

04:06:18.080 wait what is a passport bro sorry i don't know it's someone it's a man usually from the western

04:06:23.840 side of the world who goes to the other side looking for a long-term partner a woman who has

04:06:30.160 more traditional values than maybe a lot of his options in the west and i understand the reasoning

04:06:35.040 for that but a lot of these women are aware again of what that is and they are looking to take advantage

04:06:41.760 of some of these western men and um you know a lot of them are very good at selling the man purity and

04:06:49.440 um you know it's just selling him the dream kind of and then he's like okay she she's attractive

04:06:57.120 she's feminine she seems traditional let me take her home to my mom next thing you know they get

04:07:02.480 married next thing you know she's like i need green card i need money so you know he's getting taken

04:07:10.880 advantage of and that's exactly what he was trying to prevent in the first place so i think there has to

04:07:16.000 be a time period of vetting the women out and to really figure out what they're about before you

04:07:21.840 commit to her yeah it's a fair point there's definitely a lot of people looking to uh perhaps

04:07:28.240 take advantage of a guy get the green card get the citizenship whatever it is um so yeah and then they

04:07:37.920 switch up they come to america or whatever become a feminist real quick with the quickness so uh let's

04:07:46.160 see we have uh bailey you wanted to talk about asian interracial dating stereotypes internal racism maybe

04:07:52.960 what do you mean by that um just like i feel like it's um like one side or the other like there's the

04:08:00.080 oxford study if you guys know what that is yeah like asian woman asian woman yes so there's either that or to

04:08:07.280 the other end of the spectrum there's like um like you think of men who kind of like fetish

04:08:13.360 fetish hello um women from asian countries um so it's like kind of just those stereotypes are where

04:08:20.400 they're i just wanted to discuss like not having middle ground i guess i mean um are you do you have

04:08:27.600 a preference of your own when it comes to dating uh no not really okay um you said you've had like some

04:08:36.960 shorter term relationship or like hookups or sneaky links or anything like that sure

04:08:46.560 was there a pattern were they white not really it was kind of a mix more more so okay not asian or

04:08:54.480 not black so i guess i'm proving the theory but but like still like i i don't know i just want to

04:09:02.320 discuss because do you think it's you oh go ahead i was gonna say do you think it's fair that asia

04:09:08.080 there's a lot of asian girls that will not date an asian guy um no but like i don't have a good i

04:09:15.920 know i like i obviously understand that but i think everyone has if they want to admit it or not has their

04:09:23.040 own preference um so i think that's just and like specifically in the u.s growing around um the

04:09:30.640 traditional media here or who do you see in hollywood who do you who do young kids of maybe

04:09:35.840 asian descent look up to it's predominantly you know white actors uh white actresses singers those

04:09:43.280 type of things so i think you know when people are thinking about that um that that's why they

04:09:49.680 gravitate gravitate towards towards them i mean but there's been an increasing amount of asian

04:09:55.760 representation in various films and especially in the music industry you see this with like

04:10:00.080 k-pop j-pop yeah this sort of thing i mean pretty much anytime i watch tv and i see a white man who's

04:10:06.080 like a dad they paint him as like an idiot he's stupid so like an older white guy like he's painted

04:10:14.160 as dumb but as far i guess as far as like the race thing goes so you said like you've you've

04:10:20.400 have you dated like uh latino guys uh no because i i mean technically is i've only ever been with like

04:10:28.000 three people so oh you're talking body count no no no body count no higher than three

04:10:35.440 oh she's just gone out with i'm just yeah you've and it's like who like i've you know

04:10:42.560 kind of yeah i don't know how to explain it like accepted you know when they talk to me i like the

04:10:48.960 they initiate reciprocate yes but have you had men from other races like asian black latino they've

04:10:55.920 hit on you yes and you're just not feeling it or i think i mean i'm more of a i know this cliche

04:11:04.160 but a personality person um so i guess i'd have to know them and i i'm also the type person that

04:11:11.920 doesn't really put herself out there like that so that's also you know my issue um so i used to have

04:11:18.480 them but i would never respond people would message me and it was more so just i guess

04:11:26.000 an ego boost but also like i wouldn't want to respond because i don't know just being like self

04:11:32.000 conscious and like not wanting to i guess pursue a long-term relationship maybe from off of that but

04:11:39.760 that's also of the you said there's like three guys you've been involved with in varying different

04:11:45.760 different ways uh how did you meet them was it ever any of them from a dating app or no no okay so it's

04:11:52.400 like in person yes friends or yeah um does anybody here have like racial dating preferences like you

04:12:01.120 prefer to date like white guys black guys white and black mixed whenever anybody we can go around

04:12:08.640 the table here i'll start if you guys feel like it's like oh i can't uh like for me it's primarily uh

04:12:14.480 white asian and latina women i'll date a black girl i just don't think black girls you know i'm too

04:12:20.720 too i'm too i'm not you know i don't have i don't have that you know i mean what the

04:12:30.000 fuck does that mean i get it but yeah it's like white asian latina and that's it i mean i i i'd

04:12:39.760 certainly find a wide array of people attractive although i do find that i've i've only ever dated

04:12:48.000 of of all of the people i've dated almost all of them have been white except for a filipino guy

04:12:54.320 and a black guy and everybody else has been white but i you know i i was 18 and i'm still

04:13:00.480 in this relationship i don't know if it'd be the same now what about you you got you prefer black guys

04:13:05.920 white guys um black guys um i think i've been with as many hispanic guys as black

04:13:17.200 um i've dated every almost every race i feel like now but i i know that most of my soulmates

04:13:24.880 just have been black so maybe that's why i gravitate towards that more because i feel like

04:13:31.280 my child will be so that's like the only reason more of like um you want your child no no i said i

04:13:38.000 feel like i've already had this like i'm a psychic kind of but i felt like wait you're a psychic psychic

04:13:44.720 kind of kind of what do you mean kind of like i am but i'm not the ones that like actively try to do

04:13:50.400 it it just comes to you yeah and i try to push it away and then i can't what has come to you about me

04:13:57.920 not not like not not like that but just like i don't know you're like yo brian tomorrow you're

04:14:04.720 gonna trip on a banana peel like some shit like that you know um what what have you detected nothing

04:14:10.240 yet other than some spiritual things but i don't know spiritual oh it's it's too it's too heavy it's

04:14:16.240 too deep not a little bit you know what i'm also kind of a psychic and i actually i have a perfect read

04:14:22.000 on you because that shit it doesn't just come to me son like that shit is constant it's not like

04:14:28.320 intuitions it's like i know your fucking future lady you ready for this shit no here's what's gonna

04:14:34.000 happen you are going never mind um anyways i don't even know so you can you here's what's gonna happen

04:14:46.560 you are gonna meet a charming man named gustavo charming you know and you're gonna meet him in

04:14:56.400 a uh uh what's it called salsa salsa class yeah yeah and he's gonna grind up on you a little bit

04:15:02.960 and that's gonna excite you in a way that you haven't been excited in a minute son because you've

04:15:08.240 been you've been a bit repressed sexually i can feel the energy like i can feel that sexual repression

04:15:13.600 and this this guy is gonna grind up on and just talk to you whisper in your ear like a little

04:15:19.200 little spanish a little bit of spanish she's gonna be like mamacita and you're gonna be like

04:15:24.800 dude i'm seeing this like beaming light like just like i literally see it do you see that

04:15:29.920 shit yeah bro it's ariel's crazy she's also she's a clairvoyant over there she she knows this

04:15:36.160 shit and then but here's the thing right he's gonna be um deported but it's crazy

04:15:43.440 it's crazy he's gonna be deported but that's not gonna that's not gonna stop your love you're

04:15:47.200 gonna go visit him in venezuela you're gonna don't stop there you're gonna go visit him and then but

04:15:52.160 you find out he's got two other chicks and he's got like a family there but you still trying to

04:15:58.080 fuck oh no so then you're gonna i still want it because i i need wait i'm not done you didn't get

04:16:03.360 the rest of it chill out bro so okay you're gonna go to venezuela you're gonna chase him

04:16:08.320 invasive and then you get pregnant but here's the crazy part this is a really bad reading because

04:16:15.680 hold on you get pregnant venezuela they gonna deport you though you get deported back to the united

04:16:23.360 states and then um that's your life and then you die i'd be surprised if even i would be surprised

04:16:29.680 if even one of these things come true honestly one of the things next man she meets his name

04:16:35.040 watch it because thank you for that story that sounds too much like gaston and that's already

04:16:39.360 right flag so already i'd be like no thanks yes i also have intuitions about the other women

04:16:47.120 felicity felicity i hope some of these are you're gonna actually be a congresswoman and your life's

04:16:54.080 gonna go cool uh i like that to uh to bailey bailey number one i hope he gets that's right you got

04:17:01.520 downgraded to bailey number two bailey number one you are going to hold on let me i need to look at

04:17:11.040 i need to look deep in your eyes deep in your contact color contact wait what i'm not wearing

04:17:18.320 color oh are you you're are you wearing eye color no everyone thinks i am but i can pull up my 23and

04:17:23.280 me these are my real yeah yeah they actually have like ask wait wait you're not wait you're 100 uh

04:17:31.600 what's your ethnicity 100 chinese or i should have had people guess because people get it wrong wait

04:17:37.520 question hold on hold on hold on i'm a psychic i'm getting some intuitions here

04:17:43.360 you are your mom and dad still together no so going back to the one child policy i was actually

04:17:48.560 adopted from china oh so wait do you know your have you taken like a dna yes yeah and you got

04:17:56.880 you got 100 chinese wow yeah i can pull it up if you don't believe me

04:18:04.320 you sure you didn't have like a friend of yours spit in that tube i'm positive so you got

04:18:09.520 a hundred percent chinese yeah there might be like a 0.003 you're not wearing color contacts no

04:18:17.440 and your cut your eyes are like they're hazel hazel and you're 100 chinese yes wait can we google

04:18:24.560 this is this i could it could be it might be a thing but like a hundred percent chinese you can have

04:18:30.560 colored eyes yeah is this yeah yeah because because i'm like you were adopted

04:18:43.600 because you you sure you took a dna test yes i actually took 23 and me twice because

04:18:49.760 because you were doubting no because i wanted to do the medical one there was a sale oh

04:18:53.680 dope um because i was about to say like what's your mom might have fucked a white guy i'm just

04:19:02.640 saying bro i don't know it's crazy son it's not what the dna says your mom was white and you're

04:19:10.080 definitely chinese dad bucked your white mom what the fuck i don't know what that means

04:19:15.200 is it a thing though can we did you google that uh it seems like can i don't know yeah can yeah is

04:19:26.880 it just google can asian people have like anybody yeah yes it's like jeans it's yeah within your um

04:19:35.360 eye color it is very rare though that's cool i didn't know that do you do you know that famous

04:19:41.120 photo of that girl she's like yeah any girl with the water crystal eyes wait but she hold on

04:19:47.360 but i don't think afghans are asian no no but i'm just saying it's like it's such a rare thing to have

04:19:52.880 within that oh but i i know that like there's like white people in middle eastern countries like

04:20:02.800 i'm pretty sure afghanistan i know the picture you're talking about the girl who has like the

04:20:06.400 the sorry the thing and she's fucking super intense and it's from the 90s or some

04:20:10.800 shit yeah i know what you're talking about that's why that photo was so famous is because like no

04:20:14.240 she no one in her family has really that it's always like you can get it like weren't there i

04:20:19.360 thought there's groups of people in afghanistan that are like have light colored eyes though and

04:20:23.760 it's not like i don't know whatever i don't know

04:20:28.000 same to that it's rare it's rare that's cool okay um how oh i was doing predictions

04:20:34.640 oh yes i don't even know how i got to that that's crazy you are going to be married

04:20:44.480 good to an asian man but then that might be my journey then you're going to divorce him

04:20:50.400 maybe that's my journey as well you're going to divorce him and then you're at 23 somehow you're

04:20:57.120 going to become an olympian in the bobsled oh so you should start you should probably get on that

04:21:04.640 i have a family member who helped out with the olympic bob flooding the one year

04:21:07.920 see you knew dude it's real that's crazy though i might actually be a psychic bro

04:21:17.600 ariel over here is going to marry taylor swift um no wait yes you you wouldn't you wouldn't mess

04:21:27.600 what's your type i feel like you like thickies like a thicky icky i'll take a shot like a baddie

04:21:35.600 like what's your type in a girl you like like a fat ass well let's let's get into it like just

04:21:40.320 fucking i honestly just like women like who are like pretty to me i'm more like personality i don't

04:21:46.880 know but when it comes to looks like let's say the personality is dope but if you had a pic like are you

04:21:52.720 want you want like kind of a 90s heroin chic thing going on or do you want like like my girlfriend

04:21:59.600 now has like curly like long pretty hair is she white she is more masculine is she a white girl

04:22:06.000 black or she is white okay white girl but curls yeah okay is she um stacked she's pretty ripped she's no

04:22:16.560 stacked oh like cleavage stacked you know what i mean no she's not big she's not okay but i i've been

04:22:23.680 with i've been with a variety of women yeah i do not have a type no type no when it comes to i gotta

04:22:30.080 ask because i'll take a big old booty that's fine with me no i was gonna ask um but because i always

04:22:38.000 like to ask like bi women or like lesbian women when it comes to um like you do you have a preference

04:22:44.560 with the labia like you prefer innies or outies probably an innie um that's whack bro

04:22:55.840 you're not you're not down for the cause big labia matter

04:23:00.400 sorry that was cringe all right i hated that alina what kind of labia do you like in women

04:23:07.920 whatever she got no okay uh chat should i do some more um i don't know i'll do the rest later i guess

04:23:17.280 because it's it's getting ridiculous um we have what what were we gonna do we're talking about

04:23:22.480 wait brian where are you from where am i from yeah like where are you from well i'm technically african

04:23:26.880 american because i was born well hold on my dad was born in africa north africa okay and my mom was

04:23:35.920 born in america but like where did you grow up at like where are you from yeah i grew up in the mean

04:23:41.280 streets of santa barbara let's go mean streets of yeah i grew up i was gonna say like i was gonna say

04:23:48.080 you're like from like minnesota or something minnesota i don't know how are you gonna throw

04:23:52.640 me in with those cheese people man that's crazy wait just just to interject real fast on that note uh

04:23:58.240 i did look at your merch shop and you don't have any of these so i made you one and i thought maybe

04:24:03.600 it's more for me but i thought it was hilarious african-american wait here let me do this it's

04:24:09.680 like on a technicality on a technicality i like it i'm gonna i'm gonna you know what i'll have you

04:24:17.680 design some other things too oh lucky me i actually oh my god in two different sizes oh wow yeah that's

04:24:29.360 dope thank you you're so welcome that's awesome here i'll pull it up to the camera uh

04:24:35.760 i really enjoy doing that that's that's wonderful it's a good time you're very talented

04:24:40.480 should start a hundred bucks on a polaroid printer man that's dope um wait okay i don't know what i was

04:24:46.960 starting i don't know we're talking about race and dating and what race we went down oh like our

04:24:51.200 types we were going around on the race thing wait what i think we did that though i think we're done

04:24:56.320 with that yeah where are we going around wait didn't you only go i don't know yeah did i ask

04:25:02.400 felicity no yeah no do you have a type wait i don't think you answered she didn't go did she even

04:25:07.520 did you even answer there's only like two of us oh i'm so confused and then he started doing the

04:25:11.600 readings i got excited i got a little excited autism was going on dude taylor swift huh oh that's right

04:25:20.720 that taylor swift are you more like sabrina carpenter no no what about like like kehlani

04:25:27.440 oh okay kehlani okay i see you i see you what about that girl or like she's from south africa

04:25:32.960 do you know who i'm talking about charlie's throne tyla ty ty oh tyla tyla gosh yeah you'd hit

04:25:39.200 or like sizza sizza i don't know dude what are you 50 years old sizza just before i'm not the super

04:25:47.200 ball i'm almost i'm 69 all right um yeah okay good talk good talk uh let's see here we need to

04:25:59.760 we're i don't know inter oh we asian interracial dating stereotypes um did you say who you would date

04:26:05.440 though like your type or whatever yeah oh felicity oh like who what's my type and yeah like black guys

04:26:12.320 white guys latina i don't i don't have a type no i don't have a type but my current boyfriend is

04:26:17.040 white white guy okay uh you said white girls i think alina white if i was single i wouldn't have

04:26:24.160 a race preference is your uh your boyfriend though is he white guy yes okay mine's white actually

04:26:30.800 i like my white boys white boys okay alexa oh i'm a fan of it all i actually like here's the funny thing i

04:26:36.800 i have a thing for like half white half asian and so he actually is part asian

04:26:44.960 there you go all right there you go mason japanese really yeah yeah my grandmother yeah so like 25

04:26:53.120 a quarter yeah no i think she was she was half japanese um oh interesting okay uh let's see here

04:27:01.120 bailey you said you think men should get married in your eyes it is the framework of a more stable

04:27:06.720 relationship and commitment also it is important to note the legal aspects such as power of attorney

04:27:11.280 survivor benefits insurance medical etc that comes with a marriage lastly if you divorce there's a

04:27:15.520 legal documentation of separation of assets okay is this in response to my like anti-marriage

04:27:21.440 position i don't know if you want i guess i only saw a few clips and saw that and didn't know how

04:27:25.280 an answer so i want that um you want to get married i'm assuming yes yeah okay um

04:27:33.360 how long do you think you should date before you get married um i think that depends on the

04:27:38.160 relationship and the person um i mean for me i'd probably want to date maybe like at least like

04:27:47.840 three years um but obviously that's different for every couple so okay uh all right uh oh ariel let's

04:27:59.440 get into your notes uh let's see did i write notes huh did i write notes yeah from like a while back

04:28:06.880 yeah you said going out in a relationship and what are the rules for this type of thing uh your hot take

04:28:12.320 would be if someone is going to cheat on you they're going to do it regardless of you trying to stop it

04:28:16.240 from happening if someone loves you and themselves they will not cheat on you and that is just my

04:28:20.240 opinion you should be able to have a life outside of your partner as well you've seen so many of your

04:28:24.400 friends get into these relationships and make their significant other their world to the point where

04:28:28.480 they're they lose their individuality i do think there comes a time where you shouldn't be outside

04:28:34.000 all the time like if you want to be single then go be single so you're kind of talking like if the

04:28:38.400 boyfriend doesn't want the girlfriend like going out to bars and clubs yeah i feel like i feel like

04:28:43.200 there's like a a solid line for respect for your partner but also it's like but this is also just

04:28:49.520 like my hot take you should also have your own friends you guys don't have to have all of your

04:28:53.600 friends together all the time because then it's like after i've seen people like break up after like

04:28:59.760 10 years or you know get divorced and they literally don't know who they are like they they don't have

04:29:05.520 their individuality so i think it's i think it's healthy to have your own friends also the same friends and

04:29:10.960 you know they have their own friends but again that's like different for everybody and then i

04:29:14.800 also feel like it's okay to like go out with your friends but also you don't you don't need to be

04:29:20.240 going out every single night you know what i mean question for the panel on this um i know some of you

04:29:26.160 are currently in relationships uh but who like goes out to either parties i know some of you aren't

04:29:32.160 21 maybe you have fake ids who goes out to either parties or goes out to bars or clubs nightlife type

04:29:40.080 stuff you do okay what about you felicity occasionally occasionally maybe do you do it

04:29:45.920 with your boyfriend or um he's come with me or he knows that i'm going okay does he ever have issues

04:29:50.960 with you like going out or he doesn't care no doesn't care what about you how you go out yeah

04:29:57.360 is that choking yeah uh do you well no but you go out like once twice three times a week how often

04:30:02.960 uh like on the week it would depend back when i was um in school it was more so like every weekend

04:30:12.080 so when you were in college you'd go out like friday saturday or thursday friday saturday friday

04:30:17.120 saturday yeah every weekend okay what uh what about you did you go out um yeah it's part of my job

04:30:22.720 um are you uh uh no i actually work for this um app and i have to um i'm actually the queer

04:30:31.120 representative for it um and i go around to different hosts and i have them sign with me so

04:30:36.240 i have to be going to events sure um but yes i do go out got it what about you i'm not 21 so i can't

04:30:43.120 really go anywhere but you you're in college right yes so do you she goes out so you go out

04:30:49.360 uh is your your boyfriend is it it's not long distance right if i recall no you guys are close

04:30:54.480 ish um but you go out to parties not part like friend get together like get like get together with

04:31:00.560 friends she she goes out you go out group hangouts things like that yes group hangouts not like a rave

04:31:07.760 i can't i've never had a fake id like a college party maybe there's 100 200 people

04:31:12.960 like a frat party sure i've never been to a frat okay uh what about you uh infrequently i usually

04:31:20.960 go out with my partner but he probably wouldn't care ashley do you go out um rarely and if i do i'm

04:31:24.880 the dd because i i on your instagram it seems like almost every other picture it's like you're at the

04:31:30.960 club yeah yeah maybe whoa what instagram are you looking at your instagram there's a lot of like at the

04:31:37.440 club i've never posted at the club pull up right now maybe it's a bar really really 100 you're

04:31:45.440 looking at someone else where are you taking all these what do you mean pictures man that's

04:31:50.240 crazy i don't have any titties out pictures not titties out but titties out my last picture i was

04:31:55.360 just in georgia i think the one before that it was like a selfie what are you talking about

04:32:02.400 oh you don't have to pull it up right now it's okay we don't have to pull it up but all right

04:32:06.320 whatever uh alexa do you go out to bars and clubs partying anything like that yeah i'm super

04:32:10.240 social i i go out a lot i love jazz bars though specifically so like live music yes like that's

04:32:16.320 like my favorite that's like my favorite that and tiki bars i love i love tiki bars san francisco

04:32:22.240 is known for those so i really enjoyed doing that and he's been with me all right so well how

04:32:26.800 about this if your boyfriend say you've been dating the guy for six months and some of you maybe

04:32:32.720 you go out more some of you go out less if your boyfriend was like listen i love you babe i love

04:32:38.720 you i see a future with us together but i've got this boundary i'm just you know maybe he kind of

04:32:45.680 accepted it tolerate it for a period and he's like look for me to be comfortable in this relationship

04:32:53.920 i don't want you going out anymore do you defer i don't know if defers the right word do you agree

04:33:01.520 to this boundary of his or is this going to cause conflict in the relationship is or is the

04:33:06.240 relationship even over go ahead um conflict i'd say because wait what do you mean by go out like

04:33:12.480 everything we mentioned or just clubbing clubbing clubbing bars oh yeah yeah you can go to trader joe's

04:33:18.240 conflict still no club no bars no raves no like nightlife he doesn't want to go together

04:33:25.440 nope nope he's introverted doesn't do that shit doesn't drink for me yes deal breaker yeah okay

04:33:32.400 what about you i rarely go out anyways but if he really didn't want me to i wouldn't as long as

04:33:38.000 long as he's not okay sure i yeah i agree with her with yes with felicity felicity so you would stop

04:33:47.040 yeah because i it was only like the last few months that i was going out like frequently um and you

04:33:54.320 know you can have a fun night in so wait um while you were in australia did you ever

04:34:02.800 cheat no okay i don't know why that no i'm a psychic okay i'm not always right all the time

04:34:11.120 but sometimes with my psychic psychic powers like i might be getting that from somebody next to you

04:34:17.680 like it's kind of coming from your direction but i'm looking at ariel and i feel like

04:34:25.120 like you got you you got the girl right but you you're you've got a voracious

04:34:30.080 sexual appetite and you gotta be you got like a harem of 10 chicks like you just need multiple

04:34:35.680 pussy multiple multiple pussies plural right like you got game too right so you know how to like

04:34:42.800 like like if you wanted to if you wanted to it depends on the day you could get something like

04:34:50.080 you could get a lot of thanks big um right like be honest bro you are are you more it depends on

04:35:01.200 like how i dresser with so like some days i wear button-ups and baggy jeans and i wear like fitted hats

04:35:06.320 with my hair slicked back but but are you kind of the initiative in a like in a lesbian relation

04:35:12.960 by relationship like is there one that's a little more like the dominant i don't know if dominant's

04:35:18.800 the right word more like the top it depends on like the person you're with so like the like

04:35:24.960 the yeah girl tori i'm being the girl i'm dating she's more masculine so obviously she's gonna play

04:35:31.280 more of like the masculine and you're more feminine but i'm more feminine but then i have like more

04:35:35.520 masculine traits like she like i like if we go out i don't want her paying for anything i open the

04:35:40.160 door i can drive like but then there's like certain things i don't know it's all so you you top from the

04:35:47.680 bottom right i would i would i would consider myself a switch so like i just do both and also i've been

04:35:54.720 with guys and if i'm with a guy i expect him to be a man you want him to be but if i'm with a girl

04:36:01.040 she doesn't have to do that interesting i know it is an interesting take on it wait question you

04:36:05.840 know how like with gay men like there's no different uh what's the word there's there's

04:36:11.520 different categories of gay dudes like you got twinks and bears and is there is there stuff like

04:36:17.680 that with lesbians dude yes like there's like there's crazy it's like what's the category so

04:36:24.960 it goes like what are the categories like lipstick like lipstick lesbian butch yeah stud um stud

04:36:32.480 i've obviously you're the stud yeah obviously no i'm not a stud oh my bad i don't know what that is

04:36:37.920 i don't know so um a stud is a um a queer person of color so oh um i just recently learned that as

04:36:44.640 well so i was not um educated about that and white so white people can't be studs um no

04:36:51.200 white's not wow i feel dis i feel it's like it's something originated i'm not going to speak on it

04:36:56.080 because i'm not educated about that so i'm a white man as i okay never mind never go ahead um sorry

04:37:07.120 i don't know i'm what was the question no the the different categories so like

04:37:12.560 there's like yeah mask femme lipstick lipstick what do you i would consider myself a stem

04:37:19.120 because like stem like a stem so i like i do like i'm a switch it's like it's like i can dress in boy

04:37:25.760 clothes but i can also dress in girl clothes i i like to be masculine but i also like to be feminine

04:37:32.160 i do both i've been told like people like either want to like throw a football with me or like give me

04:37:36.960 kiss like i'll dab you up but i'll also be like hey okay i don't know that's just who but that's

04:37:42.960 just right can you dap up alina real quick i don't know wait hold on wait you gotta like go

04:37:49.760 more she's russian she it's she's learning she's still learning uh what about dap up our girl bailey

04:37:56.960 next to you let's see it all right let's go oh oh my gosh oh shit okay uh so wait question for

04:38:05.920 you ariel yes i'm putting you on the spot here no that's fine we got a panel of some lovely ladies

04:38:11.920 tonight who you pick if you had to take if you were single if you yeah i know if you were single

04:38:19.040 like who you got who you who you interested in okay honestly i'm not gonna say because i'm

04:38:30.160 gonna be respectful to my girlfriend so that's fair that's fair that's fair yeah that's but i think

04:38:36.000 everyone here is beautiful so you're gorgeous as well and you're gorgeous as well too wait are

04:38:42.320 do you guys do like threesomes or is it monogamous it's monogamous okay i've never done any of that i'm

04:38:47.360 very hell it freaks me out that's cool what how did we get okay oh the going out thing did we go

04:38:54.720 wait the going out yeah oh if your boyfriend was like hey this is this is gonna be a deal breaker uh

04:39:00.560 if you keep going out do you accept his uh boundary so i think i went um i it could be a girlfriend i

04:39:09.040 would say bye you you're out bye no then i'll find someone else that wants to go out with me and

04:39:14.480 respects that with me no i'm what if this is the love of your life like her that's not the love of

04:39:20.480 my life huh i feel like the love of my life is gonna have similar interests what if

04:39:27.840 never mind um okay what about you i accept the boundary as long as me and him can go out and have

04:39:33.360 fun talk okay what about you as long as he buys me a pool table ashley if my man didn't want me to go

04:39:40.240 i wouldn't go you'd stop beautiful okay alexa i love the jazz bars can i get can i keep my jazz

04:39:47.280 mason's like i fucking hate jazz

04:39:52.000 it's so nice he no mason puts his foot down he he looks at you he's like alexa i'm tired of this

04:40:01.760 fucking scat morally against yeah i'm done no jazz bars i'd be devastated no blues you can't do blues

04:40:10.400 either i'll give up no blues how about that that's the no no blues no jazz no kenny g it's over

04:40:18.960 i don't know we'd have to talk about it whoa no no no hold on hold on as first off but at first

04:40:28.800 i don't know if you know this i am you see this right here yes alexa you see this right here yeah

04:40:37.040 i'm on i'm the cock block okay alexa you want this you gotta come through me you gotta come through

04:40:44.640 you want that you want that package no no no so listen if mason and nason in his biblical judgment

04:40:54.800 puts down the the gavel and he's like listen alexa

04:41:02.720 you're not going to jazz bars anymore if he said it like that we'd have a problem

04:41:06.480 but if he said if we had an actual conversation about it please alexa will not like that please

04:41:11.840 don't go to jazz bars look he said it in the way that would be um respectful yeah respectable and

04:41:21.280 yeah no he he he's not respectful he's like you know what i've been he's like fuck that no no jazz

04:41:28.000 bars and i don't even want to have the conversation he doesn't even he doesn't even want he's just like

04:41:33.680 nope this is my decision no jazz bars

04:41:39.440 that's a question i would i would give up the jazz bars oh wait oh we have a clip related to this

04:41:48.480 i don't oh you know what here let's react to this really quick i'm going to send this in the private

04:41:53.120 chat it's from our good friend andrew wilson we're oh yeah let's do that and then damien we're gonna once

04:41:59.520 we have the full panel back once ariel's back here we're gonna do the all those instagram tabs too

04:42:04.160 okay so pull that clip up this one went viral and i want the girls uh pot i want the girls here you

04:42:12.320 pay attention you got to react to this oh yeah

04:42:20.400 do it

04:42:23.520 that's funny uh perfect all right go ahead and uh put the volume up a little bit on the

04:42:28.240 yeah you two uh i think maybe like three-fourths of the way should be fine yeah go ahead and play it

04:42:35.280 how do you show respect to your wife yeah oh all sorts of ways i basically give her whatever the

04:42:40.560 hell she wants i adore her but here's the thing the reason that i do this is because if i say this is

04:42:45.920 what ultimately is going to happen that's the last word in it and i don't even want to have a

04:42:49.600 conversation we don't now she may really want to and i can tell sometimes that she really does but i

04:42:55.200 don't can care because it's my decision ultimately so you don't care about how she feels no i didn't

04:43:00.480 say i didn't care how she feels i just don't care to have her question my authority autonomy over the

04:43:05.280 marriage was there initial conversation prior to that or is it just like we're doing this

04:43:08.880 don't ask it depends on the context i would say more for like bigger decisions in life not necessarily

04:43:14.240 like little things even larger decisions if ultimately let's say i went home and i said we're

04:43:19.280 moving to nevada in three weeks get your bags packed and i'm not going to have a thing i don't

04:43:23.280 want to hear a word about it you're doing it and that's the way it's going you think that's

04:43:26.960 respectful w i think that ultimately it's my choice okay and how she shows me respect yeah

04:43:32.000 that's how she shows me respect w sorry w uh who who's on board alexa so i would say it this way so

04:43:43.920 in a marriage yes i i do think the woman should submit to the husband and he is ultimately the

04:43:49.760 leader i think that's why it's so important for a woman while you're dating to see okay is this someone

04:43:56.720 i would submit to if and if i trust his judgment and his decisions we have this conversation it's

04:44:01.520 funny sometimes i'll say like we'll be talking and i have a strong personality and i'll say something

04:44:06.880 and then i'll catch myself and i'm like you know what you're a grown man you didn't ask for my opinion

04:44:11.600 on this and i like will catch myself and sometimes he goes why are you saying that he goes i do want

04:44:16.320 your opinion he goes if i'm talking to you about it and like we have a really good relationship in the

04:44:20.960 sense of i trust that he would lead us well and it's like over time that's what you have to look

04:44:25.920 at but it's also that balance of yeah if you're in a marriage yeah you have to submit but you have

04:44:30.640 to trust that you're dating someone or marrying someone with good character and good values that

04:44:34.640 would actually say like if he said hey we're not doing this he's such a like introspective thinker

04:44:40.560 i know he's already given it a lot of thought he's not someone who does things on a whim very

04:44:44.560 much so i definitely think what andrew's trying to articulate right here is like the most extreme

04:44:51.680 circumstances yes he probably talks to his wife about certain things about most things but it's

04:44:56.240 like the most extreme situation in the most extreme situation do you actually do you actually

04:45:03.040 honor the authority of your husband and if that answer is yes in the time where he says we are

04:45:08.880 doing this no questions asked i don't whatever i don't care what your opinion is this is what's

04:45:13.440 happening in that in that situation if you say that the man has all the authority or has the ultimate

04:45:18.960 authority you submit to him but if you don't then yeah i think that's kind of what he's articulating

04:45:26.080 and i'm sure there has been have been times in his relationship where he just he says he's thought

04:45:30.960 about this i like i understand if it upsets you but this is our decision and andrew probably like

04:45:37.040 he'll consult of course with his wife but he if there's a situation where i mean that maybe it's even

04:45:45.680 goes beyond this but let's say there's a an impasse you guys just you've had the convos you've had

04:45:53.040 multiple convos he wants one thing you want the other

04:46:00.560 is that the end of the relationship or as the man of the house do you defer to your man and let him

04:46:08.800 like i guess the question is in a situation where it's just 50 50 you guys the impasse who gets the

04:46:15.840 final say because you can't just be in perpetual conflict if there's just no oh i want this no i

04:46:23.040 want this no there's no compromise perpetual conflict it's either the end of the relationship

04:46:28.720 or one person has to cede to the other who do you guys think in the relationship has final say

04:46:35.360 or maybe you don't think you might think no it should there's no such thing starting with alina

04:46:42.080 okay um my husband would have the final say because i think an optimal marriage is one where the man is

04:46:48.320 able to lead and the woman trusts him to lead and that's the marriage that i would want to be in

04:46:53.840 okay we're gonna start you with you go around this way go ahead who do you think someone has final say

04:46:59.680 in a relationship yeah especially if he's providing more maybe financially or

04:47:07.280 physically yes physically like protection wise i mean

04:47:11.760 not like no no not like that um yeah in that case yes if it's 50 50 though

04:47:17.520 yeah that's different felicity um i if it was something like we're moving in three weeks and you

04:47:26.880 don't have a say i don't care how you feel i would be really upset by that i would want to

04:47:30.320 mind you he's he's married too right yeah i think that'd be maybe a big ask if it's just like a girl

04:47:35.280 you've been dating for a year he's married you know yeah um i think i think i would prefer a compromise

04:47:41.600 but if he was expressing something to me that i could tell he really felt strongly about then i would

04:47:48.800 i would be open to his perspective i think in a marriage um he ultimately would get final say if it

04:47:55.920 had to come down to that okay ariel what do you think um for that specific situation if i'm married

04:48:04.000 to somebody i want them to be able to lead and me be able to trust them um that's why we got married

04:48:10.960 in the first place i wouldn't be with you okay what about you ideally yes although i do question whether

04:48:19.120 or not i would follow through on that consistently i'm not married yet you you question if you would

04:48:25.440 actually submit is that what you're saying yes your boyfriend's like do the laundry and you're

04:48:34.800 like well here's the thing here's the thing about my boyfriend or my fiance he's very introverted and he

04:48:41.360 is very agreeable so and i'm almost completely the opposite you're disagreeable for a woman yes i'm very

04:48:50.400 disagreeable so yeah so he's he's like go with the flow yeah but the problem with that is that it'll

04:48:58.960 degenerate into him not communicating things when he ought to communicate them and then i also have

04:49:07.200 to like pick up the end of that of like trying to look for things that he's not communicating

04:49:11.920 and then i'll be like and then it'll be like oh i've been pissed off about this for eight months and

04:49:15.600 i'm like why the hell did you say anything yeah okay yeah um but so wait in that situation if he

04:49:22.320 is someone who's so good with the flow because like he's he's that way too like he's very very

04:49:26.960 chill about most things so if your fiance actually does vocalize hey this does bother me i i do really

04:49:33.040 feel strongly about this oh yeah don't you think you hold it in higher regard because you're like

04:49:36.960 wow he really doesn't ever give his opinion yeah way more i'm like oh crap i really

04:49:40.400 fucked up by like not noticing this and now i i absolutely have to follow through on it because

04:49:44.480 i'm like uh but yeah i just can't i just can't even imagine a situation in which he would come

04:49:48.320 to me like we're doing this i'd probably laugh at him because i'm like oh okay what's what's going on

04:49:56.240 five years and eight months but he's my fiancee but uh yeah i just he would well you're so unaccustomed

04:50:02.480 to it you would laugh because of that yeah because i wouldn't think he was serious oh wait i have a

04:50:06.800 question for you is he the type who's like he's like uh maybe maybe you would ask hey what do you

04:50:15.120 want for for dinner and he would say whatever you want babe would he say something like that does he

04:50:19.760 is he like that okay well i would say more recently after watching the podcast sometimes i'll just not

04:50:27.680 eat like what i'm not you're letting your man starve yo are you no no i don't make him starve

04:50:35.840 by no means he sometimes he's just like is he like chained up in the basement like what's going on

04:50:41.520 no no no like to be more dominant in the relationship and it works i mean when i met him he was he has an

04:50:47.680 eating disorder what no okay so i'm pretty sure he's autistic sweet yeah so i i think a lot like

04:50:54.240 genuinely i think a lot of things stem from that but it's a good point he he doesn't eat no no it's

04:50:58.960 not that he doesn't eat he's just like he'll just be like oh i'll just eat a protein bar is he like

04:51:02.800 on a a fast no like it's just is he um okay protesting like a political thing like he's he's fasting

04:51:10.240 right now he's protesting not getting what he wants right in that moment but not wanting to go

04:51:14.880 and get the thing has he ever done what it's what what's it called when you you won't eat it's a

04:51:20.160 is it a fast no no but like in a form of protest it's a food protest i know what you're talking

04:51:26.640 about but uh uh wait hunger strike thank you w guys w's in the chat for fucking damien

04:51:34.160 fucking 300 iq back there no one no one should um wait has he ever done a pussy strike

04:51:41.920 i'm that's so out of pocket i am one of two people he's ever slept with and so it's like like wait to me

04:51:48.400 yeah uh like you know how sometimes girls be withholding sex no he's like he's withholding

04:51:54.320 dick has he ever done that like like maliciously like sometimes you gotta put a girl in check

04:51:59.040 and you gotta withhold the dick no no like you ain't acting right no dick for you he's not no he's

04:52:04.560 not like that you gotta you gotta use that tool ariel knows what i'm talking you gotta use that tool

04:52:08.560 like no dick for you lady with withheld withheld do the dishes do the laundry bow i actually bow and

04:52:18.160 and he laughed he loved and then i think he bowed back that's interesting it was super yeah i know

04:52:24.080 that's what i'm saying i'm just saying super interesting he's an interesting guy any guys in

04:52:29.040 relationships right now i'm just to try it try out the the dick strike just try it i'm just saying just

04:52:36.160 try it out it works it seems to be working with the exception of my partner please you gotta make the

04:52:42.240 dick less available because if you make the dick less available then then she's gonna get with the pro

04:52:47.040 she's gonna get on the program you know what i mean like felicity knows like your boy your your

04:52:52.480 boyfriend's been like he's done a couple dick strikes right no never dick strike no never no

04:53:02.160 that's why you chased him yeah or he he chased you or in the streets um with the car

04:53:08.480 oh well hold on the story's changing look i'm just i'm just saying sometimes you gotta get a girl

04:53:17.280 in check withdraw the dick it works withdraw the dick is it working well she's still here

04:53:27.040 she loves me draw the dick question has a guy ever dick striked any of you

04:53:31.440 no no no you've never the guy's never been like i've got a headache i'm tired i feel gross okay wait

04:53:43.920 no that it did happen to me in a different relationship oh but also i actually read about

04:53:47.840 this i was like the the guy who was like my best friend but he said he was gay but then

04:53:53.360 definitely not gay like to say the least and he was like super manipulative though and i ended up

04:54:02.560 so yeah he would he would be like oh well you can't be in a bad mood or then he would start treating

04:54:07.760 me shitty and then yeah it was weird it was very short-lived but he was also like a pred so

04:54:14.080 yeah i didn't feel too bad about it goodness gracious so we wait we were going around the table

04:54:18.880 on shit i forgot oh if yes i would do whatever my husband felt right for our family you would do

04:54:26.160 whatever okay that's dope wait but how did we get she went into detail about her husband and how her

04:54:33.200 husband's introvert okay well if it comes to me i'll come back to it but uh let's do the insta wait

04:54:41.200 the instagram reacts or we're gonna react to something no we did we did the clip let's do the

04:54:45.360 instagrams oh before we before you pull it up we'll do one at a time so ladies some of you are

04:54:51.120 single some of you are in relationships these are uh male friends of these are friends of mine

04:54:56.880 acquaint some acquaintances some some uh i'm i'm trying to get these guys a date you know so i'm

04:55:03.680 i'm gonna set you guys up i'm gonna show you a couple guys you tell me if you'll date them okay

04:55:07.920 okay let's pull it up uh so this is zach scroll down a little bit scroll down um great guy he's in

04:55:16.640 texas but he'll come to you or actually no you probably have to go to him uh scroll down just

04:55:24.160 scroll down to the very bottom he seems silly so this is zach and click the one with the axe so

04:55:31.200 look a lot of you guys want a guy who can protect you perfect he's got it he's got this on lock so

04:55:36.880 going around the table would you date zach can't handle me huh can't handle me can't handle me

04:55:44.080 can't handle what he can't handle her what about you what do you mean can't handle my energy your

04:55:50.400 energy my being your being he can't how do you know because what if you can't handle him none of

04:55:57.520 my soulmates could even my past soulmates could so they couldn't handle you i what does that mean

04:56:03.200 i guess she's unlovable truth and something is deeply wrong with her i'm just kidding i don't

04:56:08.560 know what that's i mean do you think something's deeply wrong with you um i think it's like

04:56:13.600 really just my truth is hard for them to accept even if it's their truth in a way too

04:56:18.640 and they just aren't ready what is your truth everybody does it align with objective truth

04:56:24.400 by chance wait what i feel like that's a good place to start

04:56:33.120 i don't know but anyways next i don't want to get too deep into all this because i feel like

04:56:37.600 people are not ready slow and steady my back hurts i don't know slow and steady okay uh would

04:56:50.640 you date him i have a boyfriend if you're single if you're single no no no no no i'm happy in a

04:57:00.080 relationship okay next sorry zach i tried to next time i'll get it you know we've had success in the

04:57:06.000 past you can't can't win them all okay this is uh felix scroll scroll down um yeah there's there's

04:57:17.680 some photos uh ripped shredded who are these guys he's a streamer yeah oh all right that's felix

04:57:26.000 good guy he's a canadian or something that's his ex-girlfriend don't worry about we don't talk about

04:57:31.840 her we don't we don't talk about her would you date him i'm gonna say maybe he actually for him

04:57:37.920 maybe can he handle your energy or whatever the fuck it is that needs to be handled more than a lot

04:57:42.880 of people wait how do you know what's the metric like i'm intrigued because brian can't handle your

04:57:47.840 energy you don't know what it is what is he lacking well oh this is hard oh please share with the class

04:57:56.480 um all podcasts he's more in the public eye i guess but really who he hangs out with and who

04:58:04.240 he's hung out with recently and i'm not getting into that because again it's crazy oh it's crazy

04:58:10.480 that's like the perfect word yeah he's not in the public eye felicity um he actually kind of looks like

04:58:17.120 my boyfriend in some of the pictures okay but i'm gonna say no because i have a boyfriend he kind of

04:58:21.600 looks like you a little bit like that picture like that picture that we did i can kind of see

04:58:26.960 it yeah yeah okay maybe maybe okay yeah no because i have a girlfriend he has to unbleach the hair

04:58:35.040 and delete the instagram no in soviet russia can you say that in russian

04:58:42.480 all right what about you no no you're so okay next like we got some maybes felix so if you want

04:58:58.000 reach out i'll get you guys connected y'all have matching hair like eccentric hair it could work

04:59:02.960 all right this is kai sanat uh let's scroll down kai sanat are there any actual photos that like oh wait

04:59:11.120 there like show there he is there he is with drake scroll down aubry scroll down

04:59:18.240 13 million followers yeah he's a he's a he's a famous uh okay scroll back up to the top

04:59:22.480 yeah what is what is he famous for streaming he's a streamer like gaming like twitch uh click

04:59:28.080 click on the center one let's see the rest of the images

04:59:35.120 just scroll okay that's what he looks like let's see some more let's see some more i like the hat the

04:59:40.160 hat is good oh that watch is kind of cool yeah yes he got some so go around the table do you would

04:59:46.080 you date kai also same thing with the last guy yeah i feel like they can handle me more and the

04:59:52.800 kai's more my type physically but the other guy i've actually been with someone that looks almost

04:59:56.880 exactly like him which is kind of crazy wait no the other guy the last guy i actually been with

05:00:04.080 someone that kind of looks like him but kai is more my type physically but i think both of them since

05:00:09.280 they're in the public eye and they hang around the certain people they hang around they can handle

05:00:13.760 me more more more easier i still can't say maybe they can't handle my life but it's okay

05:00:21.040 what about you um i think i actually used to have a crush on him oh not that long ago but i wouldn't

05:00:26.560 now because a boyfriend if you if you were single hype this is totally hypothetical um if i was single

05:00:34.960 yeah and we got a long sure okay no because i think he's in the public eye too much too much

05:00:42.400 okay um he has a good style i like somebody that can dress but no delete the instagram

05:00:52.000 so no flip phones no no all right next one you got like two more okay uh we have uh speed here all

05:01:01.840 right uh scroll down a little bit we'll just see i think he's actually a friend this guy yeah all

05:01:06.720 right there he is uh so young all right that's fine you can scroll back up okay so uh what do you

05:01:14.160 do to speed he's too crazy for me and that's that's saying something for me because my life is crazy you

05:01:19.440 couldn't handle him is what you're saying in a physical sense no in a physical what the okay felicity

05:01:27.280 i used to have a crush on him too oh wow you got a type or something okay i know you lied earlier wait

05:01:32.960 so yes or no uh maybe maybe okay um no he's crazy like very eccentric is he like 19 yeah he's 19 no

05:01:43.600 all right if he was a bit older no okay he screams a little too much i like to be quiet and mellow

05:01:50.960 say it in russian nice what about you no actually okay is there there's one more i think all right last

05:02:04.720 one all right scroll down scroll down it's like y'all uh oh that's who is this diva he's all they're all

05:02:14.080 i feel like i like all right so i've never watched okay oh i don't there you go it's got he's got

05:02:21.680 style it's got some whoa okay i don't know what that was um

05:02:26.880 he he he's you know the hoodies and stuff and that's good all right we get we get the idea uh

05:02:36.000 do you date him no because he's playing games too much too much video games and i love game

05:02:41.200 i love gaming but what about you would you date him uh yeah because i like the videos of his cat

05:02:45.600 that i see on tiktok whoa this is the most enthusiastic you've been anybody oh boy so there

05:02:52.160 you go what about you um no no he seems silly though so yes no not even one date not even one

05:03:00.640 date we're just like dude i feel like i'd go get like ice cream with him or something

05:03:05.280 just a tip just for a second just to see how it feels

05:03:09.120 alina chill guy but no okay maybe to meet the cat but no ashley no you don't like chubby guys

05:03:14.960 i i just don't like guys who sit at home and play with you okay all right that's fair that is fair

05:03:22.960 oh we have a chat that came in here michael jones sorry for the delay on this i do apologize we were

05:03:28.240 in the middle of the stuff michael jones donated 200 thank you man kings have advisors husbands have

05:03:35.440 wives w elon musk w autism w asmongold w darkavia w mason super w brian rate osmo on a scale of one to

05:03:48.480 ten you can't say three uh asmongold here pull it back up if you still have it uh he's that first guy

05:03:54.960 that we looked at so uh just we'll give you guys a little reminder in case uh yeah there he is um

05:04:02.480 rate him on a scale of one to ten if he's funny a little bit more but i'm gonna say i'm gonna say

05:04:10.720 a three you you can't say three oh four my bad um one because he looks like my stepdad oh no he

05:04:19.440 looks like your stepdad yeah i mean shouldn't he be a 10 then no yeah what are you saying i don't know

05:04:27.440 okay what about you um two two how tall six feet six okay four a two damn four damn okay all right

05:04:42.560 i give him a you know he's a 10.

05:04:46.400 he needs to condition his hair yeah i don't like the line

05:04:48.640 no it's just a lot of dead ends i feel like if he cut his hair or managed

05:04:51.680 is this like a notable dude yeah it's pretty notable uh guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever

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05:05:23.520 this guy is on fire oh my god oh wait what the i don't know i don't know oh that i set that up for

05:05:32.000 somebody okay that that's fine yo black rw blackbird you you read my mind dude because there's a delay so

05:05:37.760 he might have got to this that's crazy a hundred subs dude yo w's in the chat on twitch and youtube

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05:06:00.400 i think for the follow appreciate it uh yo that's a big huge w for uh blackbird thank you so much man

05:06:06.400 you're a fucking legend that's like what a sub is five did they boost the price for the subs isn't it

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05:06:18.160 also can you pull up the twitch or not the venmo cash out i need to shout out some people guys if you

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05:06:43.200 so much sean w's in the chat for sean and then we have a couple on cash app oh ryan you canceled it

05:06:50.880 bro wait oh wait did he resend it what the uh ryan wait was canceled okay uh mitch will think

05:07:00.800 mitch jones wait what is this the mitch jones i don't know thank you for the dollar if this is

05:07:06.160 the streamer mitch jones thank you man ryan sent 50 thank you so much man w's in the chat for ryan

05:07:13.600 you should add a b to your name though that's the superior spelling um hold on i gotta like approve

05:07:18.880 that shit i gotta accept it okay confirm thank you ryan so much man you're a legend w's in the chat for

05:07:24.000 ryan okay let's get into finish up the pre-show notes we'll do a bit of the questionnaire

05:07:29.760 uh and then we'll try to get this uh wrapped hopefully on the sooner side uh we did ash's

05:07:37.520 notes we did bailey we still have some of your other stuff to do but uh we did this bailey's

05:07:44.720 notes oh we the marriage yeah i'm anti-marriage i mean we could have like a two-minute quickie

05:07:52.480 you're you're good yeah okay i don't think men should get married okay i think they should

05:07:59.760 okay why i think most people here would agree with me why yeah most women would agree with you

05:08:05.440 why do you want to get married yeah he's he's christian but he's not a woman what no um no uh

05:08:13.440 the legal aspects also um how kind of it shows commitment um that sort of thing um and well

05:08:20.320 what's the reason why you don't want to get married or why you think it's not i mean i'll address the

05:08:25.440 commitment thing what couldn't i just make the reverse argument a woman who's willing to stay

05:08:29.840 with you absent marriage is more committed to you um i mean and i think that yeah like i i think

05:08:42.400 getting married i think that's like a big step towards you know being like what's it called like

05:08:49.920 being one like i i think that's what do you mean so you're talking on the spirit like unity like just

05:08:56.640 no but um i mean yes i mean that's a biblical reference yeah are you yeah are you christian

05:09:02.240 oh yeah you oh okay all right what denomination um non-denominational

05:09:10.320 okay uh yeah i mean so i understand i guess the justifications for why like the i mean the sole

05:09:16.880 justification for a christian man to get married is because of the faith but in terms of like if

05:09:21.600 you actually look at the uh uh in addition to faith benefits there are really none that would weigh

05:09:33.040 against the negative outcomes did you go ahead i was gonna say do you want kids yeah why do i do

05:09:41.280 do i need to get married to have kids um it's just i feel like more likely than not the woman's not

05:09:46.560 gonna want to i'm sure you can find one that will but it's just like that extra security yeah sure

05:09:52.960 she might be more willing to want to have kids with the protection of marriage but also there's

05:09:56.560 the all these marriage sets that can keep coming out recently and they're all like men are happier

05:10:01.680 in marriages than women usually and if that's what you're kind of worried about her not being as happy

05:10:06.480 then i get that in that sense maybe but not in the sense that i think you're trying to make

05:10:11.200 yeah i'm not sure what that means but um hold on i'm gonna answer that i just want to let this chat

05:10:18.160 come in oj simpson donated two hundred dollars yeah thank you great to see you mason chair five i

05:10:27.600 appreciate your posture you seem good at following instructions i have selected you to bear my children

05:10:34.320 oh the boys will be soldiers the girls will be ballerinas did you do any ballet oj simpson i did

05:10:41.600 dance but no ballet but thank you and my boys will be soldiers the girls might be ballerinas if they

05:10:47.280 weren't there you go be careful he allegedly may harm you in the future oh yeah the soldier oj simpson

05:10:54.640 oh he killed his wife he killed his wife um okay really quick on marriage i don't we won't linger

05:11:02.480 too long on the marriage topic but so what was your so there's a lot of stats coming out recently that

05:11:07.280 say that men are supposedly more happier than in marriages than women because of a lot of things

05:11:12.560 that are happening within these marriages but that's what i was saying i guess and i was saying well maybe

05:11:16.960 if you care about the woman's happiness then therefore i could see maybe not wanting it and

05:11:25.120 having like a reasonable yeah i mean so i guess what i'm trying to get though because you say well it's

05:11:30.480 for the for the woman for the woman for the woman you i think you also said that um the woman if you're

05:11:36.800 not willing to marry her she might be hesitant to like yeah pursue some like have children with you

05:11:41.840 because she has concerns there but i'm still not actually hearing a reason like a compelling

05:11:47.200 argument for a guy for why the guy i know how that's good for you guys the woman like and you

05:11:52.640 could say by proxy by extension like if it's good for her it's good for you or whatever but like where's

05:11:58.080 the actual benefit to the guy because i can give you all the negatives but one one of you if you're

05:12:03.680 trying to convince me give me a positive yeah i feel like women also are more willing to submit

05:12:09.440 if they're in a marriage of course they probably won't as much and or do as much that's just

05:12:13.760 something or they should anyway do that if they love themselves but you're right nowadays there's a

05:12:18.720 lot of women that don't that aren't doing that and they should be i mean i think a woman should submit

05:12:23.120 right away um yeah it depends i mean y'all it depends how much money you guys are making and your

05:12:31.040 energy levels well let me ask the girls here a question just quick show of hands uh do you want a

05:12:35.680 guy to pay for the first date on the date show of hands raise them hi please yes yes yes yes you

05:12:42.800 don't care yes yes so it's like hold on but you're not married why do you expect the guy to fall into

05:12:48.880 his traditional gender roles you're not married yet if i'm using your logic all the girls here would

05:12:54.240 have to be like oh okay we're gonna go 50 50 until we're married but most women don't move like that

05:12:58.880 right so this idea that oh i'm only going to submit when we're married okay then you can protect

05:13:04.240 yourself until we're married you can we we can share leadership until we're married so you got

05:13:10.160 to ask me out at the same rate that i asked you out i'm talking more broadly speaking with you know

05:13:14.800 women uh you guys have to initiate dates you guys got to initiate sex you got to initiate the first

05:13:19.840 kiss you got to do all the things that you guys kind of look to men to do that's got to be 50 50 now

05:13:24.960 you got pay for dates you got to do everything in that case i feel like also if you do get married it

05:13:30.000 should be the same then because if you're dating someone that is going 50 50 the whole time

05:13:36.640 i don't know i had it in my head sorry i just kind of brain fart but yeah i just feel like if you're

05:13:41.360 only going 50 50 the whole time until marriage i wouldn't even want to marry that person if i wanted

05:13:47.120 him to provide more because i would want to see it before the marriage but you're just so your argument

05:13:52.160 for why a guy should get married is she's going to be submissive in the marriage well like if she was

05:13:56.960 like combative before the marriage in the relationship and she's like no no no but just

05:14:02.800 you wait and see make this massive commitment to me then i'll be submissive i'll be like i guess it

05:14:07.360 kind of yeah two-way street i guess a little bit like you should also

05:14:14.080 we're talking about financially only are we talking about like everything well now i'm talking you said

05:14:17.440 submission you were talking about the woman being submissive yeah it's like you gotta you gotta lead

05:14:23.120 with that as a woman oh you'll be submissive three months into the relationship you'll be submissive

05:14:28.320 uh when we're married

05:14:31.840 it ain't gonna materialize once we're married trust me like if you're combative now it's going to be

05:14:38.400 way worse once you got me on lock once you have me locked down and then i get fucked if i divorce you

05:14:44.560 it's got to be up front with submission what's up what if we got rid of no fault divorce without

05:14:48.560 change your mind oh what do you mean no fault no fault so she's like whenever they like you'd have

05:14:54.400 to be you have to you'd have to you know essentially i'm actually not in favor of that because like

05:14:59.040 women would just like fucking lie oh i can't get out of marriage okay he abused me okay what if this

05:15:04.560 was like 150 years ago what do you mean would i mean i'm trying to understand if you disagree with

05:15:10.080 the fundamental basis of marriage or if it's just in the context of western modern i don't know about

05:15:15.040 the dating meta 150 years ago i'm just talking about do you believe in god how what how is that

05:15:20.400 relevant just as it pertains to like religious faith you're gonna have to before i answer that

05:15:25.040 question you're gonna have to explain to me how it pertains at all to the conversation of marriage

05:15:30.400 because i think if you i mean if i'm i'm secular okay wait but i have a question because i know that

05:15:35.840 you want like a high value woman and i feel like high value women want to be married before they have kids

05:15:41.440 and i don't know how you're gonna find someone to have kids with if that's the kind of woman you're

05:15:48.240 looking for but you don't want marriage uh she's gonna have to fall into my frame like are you

05:15:54.880 submissive okay here's how it's gonna be you're not getting married sorry like for example even in

05:16:00.160 the christian faith i'm pretty sure look i'm not a theological expert or anything uh if there was like

05:16:05.600 a state entity the government that was like okay we're gonna basically persecute christians because you

05:16:11.280 guys desire getting married in order for men to get married they have to cut off their arm

05:16:16.080 okay and then if you do get married even privately we're gonna persecute you anyway like if you try to

05:16:22.080 do it like you can't get a marriage license if you're christian so look i don't know what the

05:16:27.760 theological answer to this is but i'm pretty sure like actually i feel like me and andrew debated this

05:16:33.280 and he was like no the christian men were just like in some crazy hypothetical scenario where it was

05:16:39.360 impossible for them to get married and fuck whatever this is so niche whatever um the the

05:16:47.120 my position is the state the state of affairs when it comes to the law and marriage is so

05:16:55.360 biased against men and just totally destroys men it is not it's just not the right move

05:17:01.920 it's a massive liability and because the state it's all fucked up i think i i have no qualms with

05:17:10.800 men not wanting to be married what about the legal aspect power of attorney um survivor benefits we

05:17:17.040 just met today could i give you power of attorney over me no yes i could i could literally give you

05:17:23.040 power of attorney right now can you i don't know okay yes we don't you you can all of the um

05:17:32.240 there's a i think it's called an advanced

05:17:36.640 shit something like an advanced medical directive or something i don't know there's a different term

05:17:41.200 for it i don't know the exact term uh yes i could give somebody uh

05:17:45.280 uh what's the there's a specific term for it hmm essentially yes i can make somebody my power of

05:17:54.880 attorney well what if you're in the hospital and you're not married and like your significant other

05:18:00.560 like would want to visit you in the hospital like or make a call for sorry a medical emergency or

05:18:06.880 something would you want that um i mean i'm pretty sure that uh i look i'm not i don't know the

05:18:14.240 different hospital hospitals to have different policies can somebody who's not like immediate

05:18:19.760 family or your spouse can they visit you in the hospital i don't know um this still isn't really

05:18:26.080 a compelling enough reason to get married like okay in the event that i'm fucking dying like

05:18:31.520 like i'm dead whatever do you think you feel that way because of like the way society is today

05:18:37.600 like if you were like if it was like the 50s would you still feel that way about marriage uh i'd probably

05:18:43.120 feel differently about it sure yeah um but uh yeah there's just certain legal ramifications but um

05:18:51.920 i mean pretty much with the legal stuff though i could give i could write can somebody in the chat

05:18:57.680 tell me is it like an advanced health care directive or something that would allow like a

05:19:02.880 girlfriend i could be like here you can come see me in the hot i don't know um are there any other

05:19:08.880 compelling arguments for why men should get married though or just like because if you're married when

05:19:13.360 you do divorce you know having that contract i guess um you know if it's like a prenup or like

05:19:19.440 splitting assets or maybe splitting debt or like who gets what that's like contractually there

05:19:24.720 um so you're in favor of prenups i think it depends on the relationship but i think if people

05:19:32.400 want it then i would get a prenup your boyfriend's the breadwinner he's like i want you to sign this

05:19:37.040 prenup you're gonna sign it yeah you won't feel like you don't trust me blah blah no okay um

05:19:43.440 some women will feel that type of way but uh so but if if i'm not married i don't need a prenup i don't

05:19:52.960 need any of that so why should i get married well i'm just saying like i don't know i feel like the

05:20:02.320 legal aspects is like kind of secondary and then the most important part is like i guess it's just

05:20:06.640 like the unity and then also um you know just having that trust and everything and being a um

05:20:15.280 you know like like you said um like a more how did you phrase it like what like a powerful woman or i

05:20:24.000 don't know the exact oh high value yes a high value just like high value oh yeah sure i think that play

05:20:29.360 is the most important important yeah so so yeah i i actually agree with this point so i agree with

05:20:34.400 ashley that by virtue of me not not wanting to get married i'm gonna probably lose certain dating

05:20:41.040 prospects don't care okay don't care okay plenty of fish in the sea okay and i mean if she's really

05:20:48.720 about me here's the thing like she has to she has to come into like you might you guys might not agree

05:20:56.640 with this but what here's my view when it comes to a relationship it's got to be my way you might

05:21:02.800 think brian that's fucking crazy look you guys want us to lead you want us to take the initiative

05:21:08.880 you want us to provide like if with the girl like just to be clear i'm not like some playboy that's

05:21:14.880 trying to fuck 10 different chicks dan bilzerian that type of shit i like relationships right but

05:21:24.320 i don't feel like i could have a lifelong date or uh be with this woman for the rest of my life have

05:21:29.280 kids all that i don't think i need marriage to have that though and if you're really about me you're

05:21:36.960 gonna be like i don't i love you i don't need it i've seen this work before oh my bad um but

05:21:45.840 they don't have kids but yeah there's a lot of people that do and i get it like i think there's

05:21:50.800 something valuable in the sense of in especially in relationships a lot of people everyone always

05:21:57.520 says when people break up like oh communication wasn't like the strongest or like that's usually

05:22:01.120 an issue that people have i think there's something very pivotal about saying i am going to make a

05:22:05.840 public declaration that you are going to be the person that i choose to go through life with i

05:22:10.880 think that alone a lot of people in relationships will pause and go i don't know if i want to make

05:22:16.640 that commitment to the person that i'm dating right now i think i think for two reasons it's beneficial

05:22:20.880 in the sense of really saying one really having you analyze is the person that you're spending your

05:22:25.520 time with and the person that you're committing your your valuable time the one thing you can never

05:22:29.200 get back the thing you're choosing to build a life with someone i'm willing to put it all in front of

05:22:34.880 everyone put my heart in line to to say to you this is the commitment i'm making to you as a person

05:22:40.800 because you can say yeah you can build a life with someone without getting married i know people

05:22:45.200 that have been dating for a long time but the thing about it is usually when life gets hard that's

05:22:52.480 their they don't have to stay with you they've never made that commitment if if you get into a

05:22:57.200 motorcycle accident and you don't know if you're going to be walking again like i mean i had a lot of

05:23:02.080 people tell me hey you're not married to this guy like you can walk away so i think i think it's

05:23:07.120 more of like when life gets hard when you lose your job because if you're if you're really with

05:23:11.040 someone and you're not married when you lose your job and you can't provide if you're the breadwinner

05:23:15.440 the girl can leave and you know it's it's those things of actually having someone say no i'm choosing

05:23:20.880 to go through life with you stand by your side and i've made that commitment to you i think that's that

05:23:27.120 holds a lot of weight and a lot of people look at their relationships differently when they do that

05:23:31.200 because i know guys who will build a life with a girl and then they're like but i can't make that

05:23:34.720 commitment to marry her because i just i don't see her as that and i'm like wow that's even like

05:23:41.200 i think even guys who don't get married often hold so much value and weight on marriage for that reason

05:23:48.560 i mean you can make the public statement without getting legally married well and that's the thing that

05:23:53.680 a lot of people like you can you can have the entire wedding you can do it if you if the celebration

05:23:57.840 is what the girl wants and i can't no one ever goes to you and says hey let me see your marriage

05:24:01.120 license like i want proof you did it so you technically could actually do the entire ceremony

05:24:05.840 and everyone thinks that you're married you call them your wife the only thing is you don't do the

05:24:09.120 taxes you know you would file as single but like past that you've you've made that public declaration i

05:24:14.800 think that would even be really interesting for people to see like i but i do think there's something

05:24:18.560 that really holds weight to say i am going to i'm going to stake my claim and i'm going to put

05:24:24.000 myself out there and say this is the person that i choose to go through life with and i think that's

05:24:28.160 where it's really valuable secular or not like well i mean i guess but the issue is is that if you look

05:24:35.600 at the divorce rate people make this declaration they have the they get the marriage license they

05:24:42.000 do the um the ceremony the wedding ceremony and the divorce rate is still really really high but

05:24:50.960 so you know that divorce rate is actually skewed because majority i think it's what 58 percent of

05:24:56.560 people that get divorced there's like people who remarry well no no here's the thing it's like it's

05:25:00.880 like 50 or six it's 58 or 68 percent i think of people remarry within five years of getting a divorce

05:25:06.640 so if someone's already gone through something that is so tragic so heartbreaking all this why are these

05:25:11.200 people signing up to do it again there is some value in that because think if you've got burned

05:25:16.880 and you've touched the stove and you got burned but you choose to do it again and so many people

05:25:21.680 choose to do it again there is that weight and that that commitment they they actually can speak to the

05:25:26.640 fact they're like no i actually want to get married again i do think there's a difference in that because

05:25:31.120 i think there's a difference when you can say like there's a saying like if you want to if you want

05:25:36.320 to take the island you got to burn the boats when people say oh i want to move in together before we get

05:25:40.640 married because i want to see if we would get along that's very different than if you say hey we're

05:25:43.920 married we have to get along so how are we going to make this work there's a very different level of

05:25:49.680 i can just go or i can dip out it's no okay now we're married now we live together i don't like the

05:25:55.520 way you fold your clothes and you don't like the way i put the dishes you can't just leave now we

05:25:59.520 actually have to figure this out and i think that's a very different weight that you have like if you

05:26:03.840 have siblings and you're a kid and you fight with your sibling your parents are like figure it out

05:26:07.120 you have you don't have a choice y'all are under the same roof you can't go and leave so i think

05:26:11.200 i think that's where marriage really holds a lot of value is you're not only saying hey i'm going

05:26:15.440 to go through life with this person but i'm choosing to figure this out and go through the

05:26:19.360 hard things with you versus just tapping out and starting over let me let me ask you a question

05:26:23.840 though um what do you think about this scenario uh men women they get married there's no abuse he

05:26:30.640 treats her well treats the kids well um no abuse reminder there she's just vaguely unhappy vaguely

05:26:40.720 unhappy should she get a divorce no and so okay one thing i will say so this is where this is one of

05:26:47.920 the hard conversations that him and i had to have is what are your thoughts on a prenup and we actually

05:26:52.240 differ i'm for a prenup and he's not and i think that a prenup should actually yeah

05:27:00.640 and it was something that he was really surprised when i brought it and get the prenup but so here's

05:27:04.320 the thing i think marriage is is as a law-abiding you are signing a contract i think you have every

05:27:11.600 right in the contract to make divorce as hard as possible so like in my prenup i want to say

05:27:16.240 if you want to divorce me if you want if you want if you choose to cheat on me and leave me for another

05:27:20.400 woman you got to you leaving me with everything the only way i'm gonna sign up for a divorce

05:27:25.920 yeah so no no like so unhappy is not a reason so generally when she when we had this argument

05:27:31.280 this disagreement and she said she wanted a prenup generally what people assume from a prenup i know

05:27:36.080 this is like to protect the man to protect well yeah so it's to protect the man but like to be like

05:27:41.760 okay we're gonna we're gonna prepare for the divorce before before it even happens when she explained

05:27:47.040 what she meant by a prenup i'm actually more on board with it because essentially her version of the

05:27:52.720 prenup is to make the divorce as hard as possible it's making like the decision if i wanted to get

05:27:59.040 a divorce it would make it infinitely more difficult for me to get the divorce like if i initiate it i

05:28:06.720 would give up everything that i own it all become hers or if she initiated the divorce she would lose

05:28:12.400 everything yeah and i was like i'm totally for that i actually love that idea the thing with a prenup

05:28:17.280 too is that if you get legally married it's a contractual obligation it's just whether or not

05:28:21.920 the state makes it or whether or not you make it and the state changes the laws all the time which

05:28:25.680 is another thing especially with how this the laws have been changing in women's favor i i kind of like

05:28:31.520 i mean i go as far to say that um i i don't believe that there should be a government uh like litigation

05:28:40.240 in marriage like i think that make you in support of a prenup then i mean but then arguably you could

05:28:46.880 there's no registering with the government that you're married like i think it only should be

05:28:50.720 something that the church deals with i think the government should have no say nothing like

05:28:55.360 there's no benefits that the government gives you no like contractual contractual obligations i

05:29:01.120 actually support that i'm only for like the church because i mean uh nowhere in the bible does the god

05:29:09.360 talk about uh getting married as something that the government should be involved with it is literally

05:29:14.240 only between the church god and the two people getting married well yeah and i can definitely

05:29:19.040 understand why brian doesn't want to get married because and i used to have different feelings about

05:29:22.720 this but i mean women are arguably depending on the state that you you're in arguably incentivized to

05:29:29.440 get divorced especially if they're dating up like we tend to because again you i mean you can say

05:29:34.320 hypergamy isn't a thing you can say you don't care about this and that you do generally it's a thing

05:29:40.000 um so you know if that's the expectation if that's how relationships tend to go and then the other

05:29:46.000 side of it too is that women initiate most divorces because they experience higher rates of negative

05:29:51.840 emotions so they tend to be at any given time the unhappier person in the relationship that's why like

05:29:57.840 relationships between like lesbian relationships have like a 90 or a 75 percent separation or divorce

05:30:04.800 rate once they get married it's it's absolutely insane well and i think that's going back to like

05:30:09.920 what i was saying earlier about with the marriage i i think people one i think people need to do a much

05:30:14.960 better job about vetting the person that they marry i think you really have to think like okay you know

05:30:21.040 everything is good right now but if when push comes to shove when life goes bad is this person resilient

05:30:26.000 is this do i like their characters are these the things that i'm focusing on i think a prenup is

05:30:30.640 something that like you can make it into in favor of the marriage i think a lot of people always look

05:30:35.360 at it as like worst case scenario but it's like no i want i want it to say if he decides to leave me 30

05:30:40.240 years from now for a 22 year old he has to sign he has to forfeit everything like i want him to

05:30:45.040 really think about those things and i think that's where people don't necessarily view a prenup i think

05:30:50.000 they always think of it as just in like division of the assets but there's so much more that you can

05:30:54.480 actually say like hey no i i want to make sure that you are going to stick by me through and through and

05:30:59.520 you are going to it's going to be so hard for you to you can't just walk away and i think because a lot

05:31:04.080 of women and it is sad that a lot of divorces are initiated by women it's they're not leaving

05:31:09.840 because they're unhappy it's because they think they can be happier somewhere else the grass is

05:31:13.200 greener where you water it not where it not on the other side you got a chat coming in here from

05:31:17.600 chris i see your super chat too chris we'll get to it 200 41 make 2 million a year not married to my

05:31:25.360 girl she can make financial and medical decisions for me if i am unable thank you by the trust and

05:31:31.600 power of attorney yep men who are winning and aware do not get married are you aware yo chris

05:31:38.960 thank you for the tts it's a good point and i do think i was correct i wasn't i was a little uncertain

05:31:44.880 but i do believe it is called an advanced medical directive and then the power of attorney would

05:31:50.000 also grant the advanced medical directive would be simply if you wanted somebody to be able to make

05:31:55.040 medical decisions for you the power of attorney they can make decisions about pretty much everything

05:31:59.120 you know money health uh maybe i don't know what the other uh areas of that would be but um yeah so

05:32:09.040 um anyways look really quick with the prenups i think um it's kind of like prenups if the woman's

05:32:17.360 motivated enough bro oh i it was uh i was coerced to sign it like bro you can get out of it you can

05:32:27.040 challenge it anything can be legally challenged and especially in the united states it's fairly uh

05:32:32.640 actually i heard maybe this isn't the case but it's fairly litigious and um you know people are

05:32:38.080 kind of sue hungry so you can challenge it it'll just create conflict i'm just personally not in

05:32:43.520 favor of marriage i think there's the divorce rates really bad women overwhelmingly initiate breakups

05:32:48.480 they overwhelmingly initiate divorces and ultimately when it comes to marriage marriage is a contract

05:32:54.320 uh even if you're religious if you're married the state presides over your marriage not the church

05:33:01.920 not god when you go and get divorced you're going to go talk to some atheist attorney who doesn't give a

05:33:07.920 fuck about your biblical values the state presides your attorney is going to try to get as much money for

05:33:14.560 you and by proxy for him as possible because a lot of these divorce attorneys they're going to do like

05:33:20.800 okay we're going to get some i mean you could pay them hourly but they're going to get some portion

05:33:24.480 of the uh the uh potential proceeds in the divorce and uh there's just a lot of negative

05:33:31.600 consequences and yeah just not really in favor ready chris also wrote it here as a super chat so

05:33:37.200 we'll read it here 41 make 2 million a year not married to my girl we have a daughter i created

05:33:41.680 a trust and gave her power of attorney she can make financial and medical decisions for me if i am not

05:33:46.560 able to men who are winning and aware do not get married only simps who don't know the law so yeah

05:33:54.000 um i just think look you never sign a contract with somebody who's rewarded for breaking a contract if

05:34:01.040 you actually were to like let's say it wasn't a marriage but you propose that same exact contract

05:34:09.120 to somebody in like a business sense it makes no fuck it doesn't make sense it literally doesn't make

05:34:14.480 sense and i don't know it to me it's kind of crazy um but yeah which is like i i don't understand i mean

05:34:23.600 i for someone who's not a christian i don't understand why they do get married and if they

05:34:28.320 if they truly believe that there is no god there is no uh gender order like god created man as a leader

05:34:35.920 woman is the person to submit and he made that order if you don't believe that why are we getting

05:34:41.440 married why does that make sense like why is that what people continually chase after i mean

05:34:49.200 yeah that honestly i mean it's more logical if you if you say you're not a christian if you don't

05:34:54.400 believe in that stuff then i totally get why you wouldn't get married because i mean in our society

05:35:00.000 right now there is great punishment to getting married if you're a man yep um and if you're not a

05:35:04.960 christian like there's no you you shouldn't have that uh that theological uh feeling that you need

05:35:12.480 to as well that order from god and and to my point when it came comes to the contract thing marriage is

05:35:17.440 a contract and so again like you do not sign you cannot sign a contract that there's like terms in

05:35:24.240 the contract that if you breach it the other if if the other party breaches the contract they get

05:35:31.680 financially rewarded so if you're just like oh i'm just not gonna i i want a divorce divorce starts

05:35:39.040 looking really enticing if you're dating a guy who's earning decent money good money or if he's rich

05:35:45.920 it starts looking really really enticing to hmm okay i'm vaguely unhappy there's no abuse but i want

05:35:53.760 new dick whatever it is whatever it is oh okay i i'm gonna get um half of what he earned during the

05:36:00.960 course of the marriage i'm gonna get the house i'm gonna get xyz um material um assets i'm gonna

05:36:07.360 get alimony for five years and he's gonna pay me uh five thousand dollars a month oh okay yeah that

05:36:12.000 sounds good makes total anyways whatever i do have to move it on thank you chris for that uh super chat

05:36:18.480 you're a fucking legend thank you man guys reed is 100 tts is 200 oh houdini sent in sorry if it won't

05:36:25.040 let yo houdini i apologize i can't like do the little display but it looks like you gifted 20 members

05:36:30.880 uh subs over there on twitch so thank you man you're a legend okay we have a couple more show

05:36:36.000 notes here we did alina we did felicity we did bailey we did uh bailey jane we got a bit more from bailey

05:36:44.000 jane we got your notes we did that okay uh oh ariel we got more from ariel what's up uh let's see

05:36:51.200 um we did we finish the talk about all the club stuff i think we did uh you said you consider

05:37:01.440 yourself bi but you're leaning more towards women so you feel it's a little harder to talk to women

05:37:05.920 as opposed to talking to a guy like you got to sprint a little bit more than a light job

05:37:11.040 jog maybe i don't know oh and we have emily your notes too there's a lot i don't know if we'll be

05:37:16.880 able to get to everything no that's fine i mean i tend to agree with you on the majority of things

05:37:20.560 anyway so yeah um really quick before i get into questionnaire stuff uh does anybody just have

05:37:26.880 like actually you know what it's probably here in the notes so let's see here what would you want

05:37:31.520 the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband i said a hundred thousand because i know

05:37:36.960 i'm going to be making a ton so like even that is that's not much to how much i'm going to be making

05:37:45.840 oh yeah you see it yeah in your future okay what if but i'm a psychic too and i see something

05:37:52.480 different there's no way okay what if it's his truth this is my truth there you go we're not in

05:38:01.280 the same dimension like 150 150 000 okay what about uh 200 000 just to you know adjust for inflation

05:38:10.960 just for inflation so you're thinking like in 10 years type shit five years ten years

05:38:18.480 maybe so how wait okay so so like 150k now or like you were to yeah i would say that yeah 200k all

05:38:29.440 right um what about you ariel um i said minimum 100k um just because i'll be working as well

05:38:37.040 okay you know just flexible whatever i said it depends on our location but enough to for me to

05:38:45.600 be able to be a mother a stay-at-home mother okay i think roughly 70k minimum maybe i don't know

05:38:57.840 that's a hard question to answer okay ashley i also said 100k but i also want to be a stay-at-home

05:39:03.120 mom so honestly whatever however much to financially provide for our family okay that's cool uh alexa

05:39:10.640 what about you minimum yearly income for a future husband 130 130 yeah oh final thing on the marriage

05:39:19.600 marriage thing uh just to be clear like in terms of because people like oh why would you you know

05:39:25.200 high value woman blah blah oh wait can i do it this way is this going to show it oh there we go houdini

05:39:31.440 there we go i figured it out tech illiterate here i guess um uh like if i'm with a girl i'm going

05:39:38.960 to be taking care of everything so i ain't going to do some 50 50 oh you gotta work no like

05:39:45.360 she's gonna be taken care of marriage though that's out of the question anyways um that was

05:39:50.240 the final thing on that um how tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date

05:39:54.880 um five three and i said five four i don't really care felicity five five and minimum five nine um

05:40:01.680 five six and minimum five ten ariel i guess this goes for what you did um so five so i've only ever

05:40:10.400 had one boyfriend and he was six three um i'm five six that's the bar um six no uh for like woman it

05:40:18.320 doesn't really matter i prefer somebody to be taller than me just because i like to wear heels and stuff

05:40:22.880 but for a guy i'd say like five ten five eleven alina i'm five five i would date five seven how

05:40:29.120 tall is your boyfriend six feet interesting felicity how tall is your boyfriend five ten okay uh what

05:40:37.760 about you height i'm five ten um probably keep it there for a minimum for my partner he's about five

05:40:43.760 eleven okay ashley i'm four eleven and i prefer someone taller so like five ten minimum hold up

05:40:51.280 actually listen i know everybody's taller than me but i i always thought this through because

05:40:56.960 people ask me that all the time i want my kids to have a shot okay my mom's other family they're all

05:41:03.120 short but wait but what if the guy you're with he wants his kids to have a shot and he's dealing with

05:41:08.560 you yeah but like what if his genes are stronger you know what i mean like what if all his family is

05:41:13.520 tall you know the 50 50 chance it's either it's but if i date someone short it's like there's no

05:41:19.200 50 50 chance we're just all gonna be short i get okay so he he got to take the sacrifice on the height

05:41:24.800 yeah like he got to take the l yeah on the height i guess okay all right um uh

05:41:31.600 uh alexa five ten is minimum okay mason how tall are you somewhere between six two six three okay uh

05:41:42.560 what preferences stating standards do you have let me see if there's anything i might not have you

05:41:48.160 guys even answer this um because they're probably just gonna be you know be nice blah blah blah uh

05:41:55.440 is there anything crazy here oh uh emily wants a low body count that's kind of interesting i guess

05:42:00.240 um how so your boyfriend what was his body count it's one yours no mine you took his oh it was one

05:42:13.360 when you met him was his or mine no his body sorry his yeah your body counts i hope he doesn't get mad

05:42:20.320 at me for sharing that information yeah yeah yeah his was his was one mine was not but i also

05:42:25.840 for the respect of my partner don't feel comfortable sharing that uh but it was definitely

05:42:32.960 higher that's fine uh would you rather cross paths with a man or a bear in the forest going to you

05:42:38.240 i said a bear because i like bears but um i don't know i've just had a really bad experience with most

05:42:46.080 guys in my life like basically all of them so yeah um and everybody i'll just save a little time

05:42:52.000 everybody else answered man unless anybody change any changers oh there's only one i will i will

05:42:58.080 see this statistically you are less likely to be harmed by a bear just based on the stats because

05:43:06.800 you run into less bears you see men everything i mean and i and i and i and i get the statistical

05:43:12.480 likelihood if you ran into bears as many as many times you ran into dudes uh the bear is going to get

05:43:17.600 you a lot more yeah i mean i i'm controlled no no i get i get that i'm controlled i think well i

05:43:24.560 honestly i don't because if you're just comparing the incidents of bear attacks to the incidents of

05:43:30.640 like uh male on female violence i don't think that's a fair comparison like you'd have to be like so i

05:43:35.680 think when it's scaled no but it would have to be like per encounter yeah well and yeah and i understand

05:43:40.720 that but and that's the that's the only i i said man i said man yeah but that's an argument i hear a

05:43:46.800 lot and i can understand why people feel that way but i i also i agree with you i think it's right

05:43:51.680 i don't think the stats are right like per encounter like if you walked past as many bears as you walked

05:43:57.600 past men you're dead like you you'd be dead as a as a woman you're dying like your death rate is a

05:44:04.720 hundred percent if you by the time you're like i don't know how many men you encounter you're

05:44:11.760 i mean like by the time you're like three weeks or some shit yeah but it's like well because for a

05:44:17.840 man to decide that they're going to do something very terrible to you uh they have to go through

05:44:24.000 like there's a whole lot of boundaries they have to overcome like there's the moral boundary there's

05:44:28.000 a societal boundary like if someone saw me do this it'd be very very bad a bear has to go through

05:44:34.000 one boundary am i hungry or do i feel in danger two boundaries do i feel in danger well and yeah and i

05:44:40.480 understand it's like oh my gosh yeah not even close uh i would definitely run into a man yeah

05:44:46.560 uh possibly uh it could be the wrong dude but it's more than likely that the bear is going to be

05:44:53.280 somewhat savage this is this is also if you're not in public though that's the question because

05:44:57.280 that's a whole i would answer it differently if it was like out in public and it was a bunch

05:45:01.600 of bears or you know i'm saying uh what am i trying to say that's fine

05:45:06.000 uh well i'm gonna move off of the bear but uh just because i'm gonna blast through this super

05:45:11.120 quick uh we have it's ariel to one the statement is men are not insecure for caring about a woman's

05:45:18.480 body count to which you disagree why is that like i disagree for so you think men are insecure for

05:45:26.400 caring about a woman's body count um crap uh

05:45:34.880 i i don't know honestly i i i know but now that i'm like kind of thinking of it she's thinking about

05:45:40.800 it i feel like she's thinking as you imply logic okay when i circled it i was like i was like i was

05:45:48.480 like don't be a pussy but but now that i'm like you know like in terms if i want to get like married to

05:45:53.120 somebody or something i i could understand why it is important to that individual yeah well since

05:45:58.800 we're on the body count conversation um what's your body count what's my body count yeah um i'm not

05:46:07.520 gonna say that how about do you want to do range and then like you can break it down like women men days

05:46:13.440 they's they's they's they thems they's thems they thems non-binary for like like like as a general

05:46:22.480 well you have you have men women they thems like if you've like you like to tap like non-binaries

05:46:30.080 um i personally you said you're queer right yes but i i personally don't like to be with somebody that

05:46:36.640 is non-binary that's just a personal preference because yeah yeah i don't know nothing like me but

05:46:42.720 you want to do range range body count for like oh oh okay like um 10 10 to 20 but i'm not saying

05:46:49.840 i'm gonna say i've been with more women than men okay i would say i don't know i don't want to i

05:46:58.080 don't want to say it how about just for for start with women range for women i don't know

05:47:04.800 see i knew she was a player but she'd be running through these chicks dude she's running through them

05:47:09.360 i'm gonna just leave that as idk did i tell you she had riz bruv sorry i'm just gonna leave it as

05:47:15.520 i don't know and i feel like that's a hundred right that's not that is not you be these girls you be

05:47:22.880 turning them straight they like i deal with this girl and she i thought that's like you love bomb

05:47:27.440 these chicks and then turning them straight that's like you turn that wait what i'm like no but like

05:47:33.600 you know how like some girls be like i dated a dude and he that dude turned me gay like lesbian

05:47:39.040 they're like she was so horrible yeah dude i had a dream last night i had i had a really bad dream

05:47:44.800 that i was like oh okay yeah that i was like really bad in my bed or something you were bad in bed and

05:47:50.640 then they hated me the girl i literally had this dream last night whoa isn't that weird you are psychic

05:47:58.480 it was a really bad dream was it with a girl hated it yes it was with a girl she like got up and walked

05:48:03.120 on she's like you suck i swear i had this dream and it happened wait but it didn't happen in real

05:48:08.880 life question for you though yes would you rather hear that from a man or a woman like oh you suck in bed

05:48:17.760 i feel like for women there's a lot more work for men it's not so it's worse if a man says you

05:48:23.920 suck in bed because it's like you gotta up real bad to be bad in bed with a man honestly yes w yes

05:48:30.800 i agree i agree um okay uh

05:48:36.240 body count

05:48:39.440 body count what's your body i'm not gonna answer but i just know it's less than all my soulmates and

05:48:44.720 my twin flame so it doesn't matter stop the cap no it's been less than all my soulmates and my twin

05:48:50.800 flame so is it isn't the whole point of a soulmate there's an there's one soulmate like that's that's

05:48:56.720 the whole point she's had multiple twin flames no no i think there's only one you only have one

05:49:01.760 okay twin flame is when your soul separates into two different bodies so you only have one

05:49:07.520 and not everybody has one i wrote this so what's your twin flame body count oh i just i don't even

05:49:14.000 want to know his and i don't really care of the twin flames you've only have one because you can

05:49:21.200 only have one i thought that's i thought you have multiple flames soulmate lovers hold on this is a

05:49:26.720 misconception that almost everybody gets wrong soulmate and twin flame same shit no they're different i

05:49:31.680 was asking your twin flame yeah body count him what do you mean i only have one twin flame

05:49:37.520 confused you can only have one twin flame because it's when your soul from another life

05:49:42.480 goes into two different bodies so you can only have one on in this life in the current life that you're

05:49:48.720 in and it's very rare i have only met like a handful of people that actually have one so far what okay

05:49:55.280 that's cool um two two two two two two i don't know my body count are you disappointed by my

05:50:05.840 i'm disappointed in me no like mine's true for girls what's your man dude there's like both

05:50:11.680 genders like i don't know no but just the man body count what let's just do that

05:50:17.600 because you you say you deal more with women so i feel like it maybe it's lower it maybe it's lower

05:50:22.560 with men so it's easier to remember that it's easier to remember it's easy to remember because

05:50:27.200 probably like five five yes and like the with the females like 50 or what are we talking like 100

05:50:34.160 no no it's not a bad thing good for you you're like adding numbers and like multiply i'm just

05:50:40.560 i don't know i'm just i don't know probably like seven there's been some oh okay cool yeah congrats

05:50:46.400 lucky number seven uh alina two and how many days have you been with zero oh okay beast uh pass

05:50:53.920 boo boo boo me all you want okay range you want to do range no ashley but pass give us a range come

05:51:01.760 on i'm not giving you range i don't think i answered this last time either bailey i was with one and a

05:51:06.720 half women wrong i'll answer that one because i'm also i'm bisexual so i will give you a two dollar bill

05:51:14.640 if you answer the question one and a half with full numbers full numbers one of them didn't really

05:51:23.600 count but also it did at the same time it's like really complicated you know how you said like all

05:51:29.760 right you know how you said oh i'll just put the put it in once and then take it out it's like that

05:51:34.240 situation so would you count that yes i'm sure but it wasn't actually wait let me finish it wasn't

05:51:40.640 actually all right that it was a it was with a girl so thank you that's nice so is it like a three

05:51:46.320 some oh i don't know where fuck i can't find it one girl where's that uh wait what am i trying to

05:51:55.360 play wait i thought you said one and a half um oh okay moving on to the next thing here's a statement

05:52:00.800 women should pay 50 50 on first dates bailey you disagree other bailey oh wait bailey number

05:52:07.600 asian bailey and then pixie bailey i guess i don't know uh the two baileys disagree alina disagrees

05:52:20.160 ashley disagrees and maybe sorry alexa that we didn't have you do the questionnaire maybe you

05:52:24.640 disagree on that too uh women should pay 50 why do you disagree um because men should pay why

05:52:30.720 actually not even exactly sure why i said that i said for most women for for most women yes but

05:52:39.840 for me i feel like i'll probably be making equal money as my partner so i guess if i'm not by the

05:52:45.440 time i meet him then him okay uh bailey why should men pay for first dates um i just think it's you know

05:52:51.520 showing leadership and then also it doesn't have to be like that after that date but i think for the

05:52:56.080 first one yeah it should be okay and then ash i think you also yeah why should men pay for first

05:53:02.080 dates um because i think the man should pursue the woman and he should pay for okay provide just

05:53:12.240 curious though those of you who said men should pay or well you disagree that women should pay 50 50 on

05:53:16.720 first dates which would imply men should pay for for first dates are you guys fine with like other

05:53:21.200 should statements about women like women should cook and clean yes women should be virgins are you

05:53:26.400 guys okay with those should statements just want to check

05:53:32.880 i just answered that because i think it depends well you you didn't you didn't circle this one

05:53:38.160 oh i thought you were the ones that didn't circle it no for the women who did uh disagree with the

05:53:43.920 statement okay should women be virgins any virgins at the table it's optimal

05:53:53.760 that's actually amazing so sweet okay next one uh men the statement is men put in more effort than

05:54:02.240 women when it comes to dating bailey you disagree felicity you disagree bailey you disagree ariel you

05:54:08.320 disagree alina agrees emily agrees ashley agrees uh so for you first four uh you think women put in more

05:54:20.480 effort than men when it comes to dating why everyone i dated yes it was either equal or me more and it

05:54:28.720 just happened that way and i dated a lot of guys so okay but i'm a little confused because you say you

05:54:33.680 disagree about the women should pay 50 like the first date yeah and that's because what i'm

05:54:40.080 personally looking for like myself but if you're a man paying for the first day wouldn't that be him

05:54:45.680 putting in at least in that specific thing i in totality he could pay for the first date but you

05:54:50.960 could still be putting him in more effort but like in that dimension that's him putting in more effort

05:54:56.240 yeah one day that's nothing what about this who should be uh one day is easy of all the guys you've

05:55:02.160 dated who asked out who typically um the guy always asked me out guy always asked you out okay who

05:55:09.600 sets up the date don't ask me all these questions they're really sad i honestly i did not love myself

05:55:17.760 for a while like i accepted less just because of spiritual connections okay so you would set the date

05:55:23.280 up then um i would pay for them more oh you paid for more dates i would to be fair though i mean you

05:55:31.520 were we would equally pick and then i would pay for it more how much were you making when you're

05:55:35.440 stripping though um not that much it's they make good can make good money in reno but i that's the

05:55:40.960 only time when when i was there nevada sorry it's in nevada when i was there i wasn't even in a

05:55:47.360 relationship though so when i was making when i was making the most money dancing i wasn't even in

05:55:52.240 a relationship sure so actually yeah okay um felicity you disagree you think men uh women put in more

05:56:00.240 effort why is that no i think it's equal oh you think it's equal uh bailey do you think women put

05:56:04.560 in more effort why is that i i agree i think it's equal it's equal yeah okay equal ariel you also think

05:56:10.240 it's um you disagree with the statement men put in more effort you think it's equal you think women put

05:56:16.080 in more effort i think it's 50 50 depending on the person okay um and just really quick what like

05:56:23.680 why i guess i'll ask bailey here uh why do you think it's equal like how so i guess so like i don't

05:56:30.800 know say i plan a date he financially will pay for that first date or any date i guess um or just you

05:56:40.240 know maybe planning a trip versus maybe getting her something special like for that trip or like

05:56:50.400 i don't know just different things can go back and forth it doesn't have to be like the man just

05:56:54.640 pays like it could be different categories of different things that they split okay and that's

05:57:00.160 how your relationships have been yeah my one yes um so are you saying kind of like once you're

05:57:08.560 actually in the relationship then it's kind of equals out uh yes but it can also be like depending

05:57:16.160 on you know the couple it could also be that way leading up to officially being together but more

05:57:21.280 often than not more often than not leading up it's mainly the guy yes like i think yeah certainly when

05:57:27.360 you're actually in the relationship i think things can equalize a little bit maybe not necessarily like

05:57:32.160 certain more traditional things like paying for dates but like in terms of like uh messaging

05:57:38.160 initiative like the girl's gonna start being a bit more hey let's hang out like i think girls will be

05:57:43.120 a bit more uh taking initiative to start hangouts and whatnot spending time together but initially it

05:57:50.800 seems like it's way more common for the guy to be pursuing asking the girl out getting the phone

05:57:56.560 number planning the date paying for the date going for the first kiss moving things forward sexually

05:58:03.120 dealing with rejection um so kind of seems like men put in more effort than yeah in the beginning i

05:58:10.160 would agree but then equals out yeah but if you right but it equals out so if like the first month

05:58:16.560 or even longer three months it's like man puts in 90 effort then they coast in the rest of the

05:58:21.520 relationship it's 50 50 the man in totality still has put in more effort than the woman but what if

05:58:26.800 the woman makes up for that later how puts in more effort plans a trip um plans trip that was one

05:58:34.640 example um or okay no i mean it's just like i think the like where it really counts i do think it's the

05:58:44.080 beginning like that's that's the that's the i think that's the effort because y'all don't really deal with

05:58:52.880 rejection like you don't put yourselves out there like that i i agree with that so i think like there's

05:59:01.360 more like it's really easy because there's no um for a guy to approach you or shoot a shot like there's

05:59:10.240 there's the effort entailed in that and then there's like the rejection risk and women typically

05:59:15.360 aren't doing like there's multiple steps along the way before you're in like a long-term relationship

05:59:20.400 where the girls can can and may very well reject you like oh no there's there's a lot of rejection

05:59:27.840 points men deal with it's not just go up like okay we got okay i get your number oh okay but now

05:59:33.440 you're stringing me along for two weeks now you're giving me the runaround for two weeks okay that's

05:59:37.440 another rejection okay we go on the first date it goes okay cool second date you turn that down

05:59:42.000 that's another point of rejection go for the first kiss uh she's not feeling it okay that's a point of

05:59:47.440 rejection it's probably i mean at that point it's pretty much over if she rejects i mean unless it's

05:59:52.240 like she could still be into you after that but i feel like if she rejects the first kiss like

05:59:58.320 that's kind of it's over like she's into you she wants to kiss you unless you do it like in some

06:00:03.600 weird like really weird timing yeah i don't know whatever uh okay i'm moving on then unless anybody

06:00:10.880 has any other objections dating is easier for women to which bailey you disagree uh oh felicity agrees

06:00:21.360 okay it's just bailey you disagree dating is so is dating harder for for women i guess i should have

06:00:27.440 thought about all women for me yes all women probably not oh for you dating is harder for you

06:00:32.560 but like let me ask um yeah i didn't even i guess i kind of answered that one fast my bad okay that's

06:00:39.600 fine uh getting laid is easier for women to which you disagree also wait what the statement is getting

06:00:49.840 laid is easier for women you disagree because i always think of things like black and white like it

06:00:54.480 just depends i guess you mean in general yeah no it's easier for girls to get laid yeah i guess i

06:01:01.680 was just thinking about myself the whole time when i was answering sure uh let's see women care more

06:01:06.800 about women care more about looks than that some of you hold on some of you agree with me on this

06:01:13.120 that's a rare one uh when i'm not even yeah it only only bailey you're the only one that uh disagrees

06:01:20.880 i'm actually surprised by that but this one huh oh me yeah you're right so you think men care more

06:01:29.120 about looks than yeah okay okay well you're the only one who disagrees so i'm just not even going to

06:01:34.880 argue it um let's see anything for the woman's career money status we have emily here a woman's

06:01:41.920 career money status does not make her more attractive to men you disagree with that statement why is that

06:01:46.560 all right i mean i spoke a little bit about this earlier i think in the modern context it does

06:01:51.680 matter a little bit more because women i mean labor is half the cost now because women are in the

06:01:56.480 workforce um so i think it it a woman who doesn't have some sort unless she's going to be a traditional

06:02:04.960 woman and you know the expectation is that she you know she's looking for you know maybe a godly man to

06:02:10.480 you know raise children for him that's one thing but i think generally speaking now in western

06:02:15.440 society yeah it makes a difference because otherwise she's a burden and i i at least in my

06:02:20.160 experience anecdotally i've found that it has become significantly more important and so yeah well i

06:02:26.800 think that in terms of this so the prompt does say does not make her more attractive i agree with you

06:02:33.680 that kind of the economic reality is that in order to kind of get by for a lot of people you need a two

06:02:39.200 income household just because you know the man's not earning enough um and so if you want to have

06:02:45.760 a certain standard standard of living oh my god sorry standard of living or quality of life yeah

06:02:53.440 you need two incomes right you need to especially southern california california depending on where you

06:02:58.800 live like yeah you need two incomes um i mean i don't think it's a deal breaker but here's what i think

06:03:04.240 though is that pragmatically speaking a guy might look in terms of like the girl's position when it

06:03:10.480 comes to money he might look at it and be like it would be helpful but i don't think what's necessarily

06:03:18.640 helpful in a relationship means he's more attracted to her so when it comes to attraction like i don't

06:03:23.680 really think a guy cares like and i don't think a guy's gonna reject a girl for example like if she's

06:03:28.640 attractive and she's like got a good personality and pleasant she could work at chick-fil-a he's

06:03:35.680 still gonna deal with her he's still gonna date her but i don't know if the same applies to women like

06:03:40.400 most women if they're actually like eyeballing somebody for a long-term relationship like her

06:03:44.720 for example she wants to be a stay-at-home mom she can't i don't care how much she likes the dude

06:03:50.000 if that's what she wants it's an immediate it's a deal breaker if the guy's a bum if he's broke

06:03:54.960 it's a deal breaker yeah the girl doesn't even need a good personality if she's pretty enough

06:03:59.280 sadly well yeah that's like the crazy but like in terms of more attractive like and even a guy who

06:04:06.800 like for his standard of living or quality of life he needs to have a partner to who who works

06:04:14.080 i still think at the end of the day he's still going to prioritize the more attractive woman

06:04:20.480 whether it's looks whether it's personality a amalgamation of both he's still going to pick

06:04:25.120 that uh attractive girl with the good personality who doesn't make much money or no money at all

06:04:31.680 over the maybe less attractive girl maybe there's a couple personality flaws who's like killing it

06:04:37.840 yeah no i mean i get that and i i would agree with you i guess in my head i'm thinking okay let's

06:04:43.440 take that particularly attractive woman that he would pick if she had you know a shitty job or something

06:04:48.480 or like no money or whatever um if she had some sort of again it's kind of contingent on you know

06:04:56.960 it's either the month the the family or the career thing i think if she doesn't want to have a family

06:05:01.760 then you know they're the if she doesn't want to have a family and she does i'm sorry my brain is not

06:05:09.600 working if she doesn't want to have a family then i think it would increase at least at least a little

06:05:19.360 bit but i agree i mean i don't think it's going to be a deal breaker and i again the more attractive

06:05:24.160 physically she is the more likely um yeah okay uh ariel you said you disagree adult age gap relationships

06:05:31.920 are 100 okay example like a 30 year old dating a 19 year old you nobody else here disagreed with the

06:05:37.920 age gap stuff everybody's cool with it okay that's fine um ariel why do you disagree with age gap

06:05:44.320 relationships um into the mic oh yeah um this is i mean just for me but i've seen

06:05:53.600 specifically in like uh family my own family um age gaps you know when they're two when they're two

06:06:00.080 like yeah when they're like over 10 years apart from each other i mean i guess it doesn't matter

06:06:05.280 no they were never together but she's had boyfriends or something that are like older

06:06:11.840 or yeah um but even like my grandparents they have an age gap yeah are they together

06:06:18.880 no they're not together so yeah i don't know just from my personal experiences it gives you the ick

06:06:25.600 it just is like weirds me out like does it give you the ick though it does give me the ick like

06:06:30.720 okay i don't know i like to have some kind of similar like age group but that's like a preference

06:06:36.080 and i also feel like now that i just turned 24 i used to feel very strongly about this when i was

06:06:40.480 younger but now that i'm 24 i'm like i've gone on dates with like 32 year olds i'm like i'm all on

06:06:46.000 the same like age like it doesn't matter as much i have a question for you when it comes to you dating

06:06:51.680 would like do you have a cutoff for the age of the person you would date and does it differentiate

06:07:00.320 based on that like you'll date like a milf but like a guy like five year max that type of shit

06:07:08.080 um i would prefer to date like a girl closer to my age but i don't mind dating maybe an older guy

06:07:14.800 yeah oh so girl you prefer younger not younger but like same age like younger than i know it's

06:07:23.040 interesting these are just like my no that i'm not judging it um but so guy you're willing to date

06:07:28.560 a little bit older basically yes females you want them to be like kind of the same age

06:07:37.600 oh my you're such a misogynist i'm kidding i'm kidding how dare i that's so icky no i'm kidding

06:07:43.280 how's that icky no i'm kidding i'm joking i just like if a guy's younger than me i'm like

06:07:48.160 no like ew gross for me personally yeah it's just like they're like i don't know that's just my own

06:07:56.560 opinion no that's fine okay um yeah all right well nobody else really disagreed so i won't

06:08:02.400 go there we have women have equal rights to men in the united states to which we did have one

06:08:08.160 disagreement emily you disagree oh yeah i touched on this while you were gone earlier i

06:08:12.960 don't think that well i think overall yes we have for the most part equal rights but i tend

06:08:19.920 to think men get screwed over a lot more legally than than women do and like that touches on marriage

06:08:25.760 abortion um parental rights in the court system because like i'm a social worker so i you know

06:08:31.600 i see that wait i'm also in washington though and state laws are different wait so are you saying that

06:08:37.200 women have more rights is that what you're saying i think the law is tends to air more on the favor of

06:08:46.400 women generally yes in modern currently yes oh and that's not necessarily speaking i i guess i'm thinking

06:08:53.360 because like i've lived in washington my whole life but are there like rights that men have that women don't

06:08:59.040 no but okay you're taking it i'm taking you don't disagree you don't disagree in the sense that

06:09:06.400 women are like deprived rights no you're actually going a step further and saying women have more

06:09:12.800 rights yeah okay that's why you disagree sorry yeah no that makes sense i mean you can still typically

06:09:18.480 though with this question when it comes to the disagreements it's like women who their position is

06:09:22.960 yeah women don't have equal rights okay well all right nothing to debate uh bailey kind of because

06:09:28.640 i actually want to change that because around the world it's actually a lot of women still do have

06:09:32.960 less rights but i was just thinking the u.s when i answered that yeah i mean mostly we are talking

06:09:37.600 about the u.s so i don't think you were wrong there but uh bailey you uh the the statement is men are

06:09:43.520 physically stronger than women to which you disagree why is that um of course not all are but i guess on

06:09:51.520 average yes but that's why i said most of my answers that i was just thinking of the whole

06:09:56.000 truth and that's why most i circled i most or circle i did for most of them okay but so how about

06:10:01.520 this if i were to change it to say uh generally oh you know what that's still actually you know what

06:10:05.840 still sorry my bad okay because even emotionally i feel like a lot of women are stronger so i still

06:10:10.320 you know i keep that and that's yeah on average in general so it is about physical it is about

06:10:15.520 physical does say physical physical strength men are physically stronger than women uh so then i'm

06:10:19.920 assuming you agree with this generally speaking men are physically stronger than women yes okay

06:10:24.800 nothing to nothing to really argue i was just more so thinking about like myself every yeah when i

06:10:30.720 answered well that's pretty much i mean i'm surprised there's not a lot yeah i mean that's it actually for

06:10:35.200 the questionnaire that i've rapid fired that normally we it takes a bit longer um we have a message here

06:10:40.400 from juice 69 uh can the girl in red read this i can't read that small girl in oh girl in red wait

06:10:51.120 juice six i think it's for you alexa girl in red is strung up on mr v-neck she keeps looking at his arm

06:10:57.360 on the table like it's a steak i call for a five second stare off and bet she can't resist biting her

06:11:03.200 lip or smiling uncontrollably well juice 69 i don't know if you missed this part but they are in a

06:11:08.400 relationship but um do you guys want to do a five minute stare off five five minutes five second

06:11:15.440 my bad five seconds five seconds zero yeah whoa all right yeah whoa i feel like i didn't like

06:11:30.480 okay here's what we have to do um we have your notes

06:11:38.400 okay but before we do um i'm gonna have you grab your phone which is right behind you just

06:11:44.400 make sure not to hit the tripod oh boy uh let's see here we have you're not gonna go through my

06:11:49.680 phone are you or is it just like something i have to look up no you're you're just gonna read off of

06:11:54.880 your phone so it's gonna be super simple okay so um you sent in a ton of notes yeah i don't even i'm

06:12:03.600 not gonna even read it you're just gonna you're gonna read it though yeah so here's what you're

06:12:08.240 gonna do you're gonna hold the phone right here and into the mic you're gonna read everything

06:12:14.000 everything i'm okay because it's slow and steady

06:12:17.440 slow and steady hey you've been making excuses you know what i don't want to do that you know

06:12:23.280 i don't want to do that 12 o'clock because i was just like you know what i'm just gonna say all of

06:12:28.160 it and then whatever he picks out but you didn't pick out much that's good i would have picked

06:12:31.600 shit out but you literally sent me a fucking novel really i said more than them was it more

06:12:36.640 than me yes really you know what i was also also there's not like breaks in your paragraphs and

06:12:43.680 shit so it's a fucking wall it's a block oh my god how about this just it's like an essay for

06:12:48.720 you just read it but it'll take like five minutes to just read the whole thing let's just read it

06:12:53.920 yeah we want to hear it just read it you spent all that time writing it let us hear it no

06:12:57.200 yeah but i wasn't like you have a i do but it wasn't intended for all of that to be read it

06:13:02.400 was more so like give the people what they want wait you didn't even ask any of us those questions

06:13:07.600 what what was that about what do you mean or did we all answer different no all the pre-show notes

06:13:12.240 i got into it with everybody you went through it yeah no i asked oh yeah okay so i'm trying to

06:13:17.840 divert like crazy dating stories wait wait so like crazy dating stories and yeah and we don't

06:13:24.240 i don't remember anybody i think that's like the beginning felicity had her thing with the car

06:13:28.320 chase or whatever yeah no i some people didn't no one said like what bro bro just read your

06:13:35.520 shit read your okay stop wait because i just realized nobody else answered any of theirs really

06:13:39.520 they did yes they did but but they gave me like a sentence bro mace hold on let me turn my

06:13:46.720 shit we chat i don't know if they're gonna be able to see this shit the security the you have

06:13:53.120 the privacy screen no you can see this you'll see how long did this take you yeah so wait it doesn't

06:13:59.040 end there and by the way no fucking formatting this is like do you know how many sentences are supposed

06:14:03.760 to be in a paragraph son get your shit together bro and then yeah of course it's not holy shit bro

06:14:09.440 i had to holy fuck it's crazy that you wrote all of this but i feel like you said so little

06:14:16.000 no it was very it was little but um what were you doing voice to text or did you type this out i was

06:14:23.040 typing it that's why it's not in like the correct formatting because i could see if you're doing voice

06:14:28.560 to text but okay can you read it well of course i'm passionate about all the questions but i don't

06:14:34.240 remember too many people answering a lot of them i'm not going to go through and read everything

06:14:37.760 because that's going to take way too long darkavia is doing it then darkavia is going to read it

06:14:41.520 oh no i can't i have dyslexia uh bro who's a good reader oh yeah yeah i was like i can read something

06:14:48.480 this i've talked a lot i mean they can read someone could read it but it's just a lot i don't i don't

06:14:52.800 think i would love to read it because like i'm gonna have alexa read it i did not come into this

06:14:56.560 thinking oh everything was gonna be read out i came thinking okay he's gonna pick out maybe one or two

06:15:01.120 things because i said a lot um do you have it in your notes can she just look at your phone and read it

06:15:08.160 of course okay actually there's some things that i don't even want to be bro you wrote it you

06:15:13.200 i know but there's one person particular just one out of all of them that i'm like they don't even

06:15:18.080 deserve me to speak about that and that just happened today kind of situation so other than that

06:15:27.120 how about what if okay that first part the really long one words on my story for people to go and

06:15:32.400 read on instagram here not look how about this so there's three questions right yeah there's three

06:15:38.240 questions i'll answer some of them loosely why don't you read the answer to three so that's not

06:15:43.600 you're not talking about the per like you're the the specific dudes or whatever uh just do read three

06:15:50.880 okay how about that gosh yeah i know i just have a lot to say and i do say okay that's that's cool just

06:15:57.120 just read it read it um you're the last notes here said pretty much stance on moderate dating yeah that

06:16:03.280 one yeah read any hot takes don't change anything i said you have to read the whole no i'm not gonna

06:16:07.440 read it all like exactly okay okay like here alexa do you want to sit where i'm sitting and i'm gonna

06:16:12.880 i'm gonna go over pretty much everything for me personally it's been hell because either guys are

06:16:20.240 trying to move way too fast for me and like love bomb without seeing even half of me um and then a

06:16:27.680 lot of times they'll get upset when i don't want to already like submit like that um i really good i

06:16:34.000 really answered thoroughly because i thought that's what you said to do anyways but yeah um also most of

06:16:38.480 the guys i met they even if they were like a soulmate lover and we've known each other in a past life

06:16:44.560 or like we were meant to be for a lot of i'm sorry alexa just here come sit in my chair yeah

06:16:50.080 i'm not gonna i'm not gonna read all of this because that's too much like look at it i'm gonna have

06:16:54.080 you start okay fine alexa you're a more capable woman i just don't have that i only got three hours

06:17:00.000 of sleep last night so i'm in the host chair guys i only got three hours of sleep please someone

06:17:06.560 else i don't have the energy all right go for it okay guys quiet quiet so for those people watching

06:17:13.200 that's what i'm saying people watching i'm the new brian she's reading alexa's the new brian

06:17:17.920 just read the last one just read the last the answer so today i feel like i'm in hell when it

06:17:22.880 comes to modern dating anywhere from guys trying to move way too fast and if you if you don't they

06:17:27.760 just disappear many guys don't actually take me on dates or pay for things but then get upset if i

06:17:32.560 don't want to keep dating them none of the guys who have been asking me to date them i feel like

06:17:38.160 uh even ever really see me or know me but yet they still want to date which i find confusing

06:17:44.880 and yes you don't have to know everything about someone before dating them but at least you have

06:17:49.200 to know their main secrets and things about them that they think are important many things my thing

06:17:55.280 is to if i tell you and if i tell you and you still don't seem to see or understand i won't date you

06:18:02.480 date you and it says date you date you and that's why i that's why now i have been single for a long

06:18:08.480 time that and sadly the guys i find physically attractive are usually emotionally unavailable

06:18:13.280 and only on the ugly and on the ugly on the inside sorry that was like and those i'm reading it the

06:18:19.840 right way i would like to say i know it was the last question i rushed yeah and that's why now i have

06:18:24.560 been uh okay uh me yeah that's why me what's on the inside as well i think it is because i have a

06:18:29.840 pretty strong feminine and masculine energy equally in me and because i'm a libra as well

06:18:34.640 i love balance in every way and aesthetically pleasing things now back to why it's been hell

06:18:39.760 most male friend groups out there or girlfriend groups because i'm bisexual try to date all or try

06:18:46.880 to all date me and because then they all try to date me and not know about it usually there's always

06:18:54.960 one who doesn't care and is like and is like may the best one win and when and one who is like i

06:19:03.360 would never want to date uh date you i would never yeah i would never want you to be dating my friends at

06:19:08.720 the same time as me or right after the situation i ran this situation i ran into a lot then they usually

06:19:16.160 always make me seem like the bad guy in the end of our friendships and take no accountability at least i

06:19:22.000 always am honest with them and don't try to date a friend behind their back but yeah eventually both

06:19:27.440 or all three will block me or stop hanging out doing fun things like we used to before the drama

06:19:33.840 one thing though is that they always come back actually every guy i have dated or hung out with

06:19:38.960 has come back to me but my last ex physically although his soul bothers although his soul bothers me

06:19:47.360 the most lol but i think that these friend groups just need to communicate better to each other for

06:19:53.360 sure also i don't know what this is about i don't know what this is about but but most guys i have

06:19:58.960 dated or been in friends with benefits relationships with even just have been either physically abusive or

06:20:06.480 way too mentally and verbally abusive like why be with me or constantly stalk me or hit me up if you

06:20:14.000 you can't treat me how i deserve to be treated i wasn't out here cheating or being disrespectful or

06:20:18.160 doing weird things to you that i deserve to get yelled at or physically hurt that if anything it was

06:20:24.800 them so it would have been more fair if i did it to them but even then i never did all of my exes

06:20:32.400 cheated on me and i caught them all and i caught all of them except my last ex with physical and spiritual proof

06:20:39.200 proof usually i would dream of my exes when they cheated and then then the universe would start to

06:20:46.240 show me the physical proof too my last ex i never caught him cheating it was just dreams that you had

06:20:52.160 but i had so many dreams of him doing it i'm bisexual though and they all knew that they all knew so they

06:20:58.480 could have just brought in a girl for both of us if it was just sex like they all claimed even if they

06:21:04.320 were by and wanted to bring a guy for us fuck it let me pick both both and we have to make sure for

06:21:13.600 both of us we keep it sexual no poly relationship lastly i know that for a fact i took better care

06:21:20.080 of them protected them more love my exes more than they loved me did more cleaning and equal cooking

06:21:25.200 and pleased them better so the only good reason for them to cheat was so that they could find another

06:21:29.840 girl to possibly be with after i broke up with them and for me to find out so i can finally leave

06:21:36.160 which ended happening every time besides my last ex who accidentally almost got me killed and that's

06:21:41.440 why i had to break up with him it seems like a valuable reason okay so now i will never be with

06:21:46.320 a man who doesn't love himself who doesn't love the universe and all it and no matter the bs of

06:21:54.160 others to put us through and most importantly i won't ever be with a woman or man that can't love

06:21:59.840 me just as much or more than i am loving them and that was sorry that was also the question that i

06:22:06.080 did last that's why i had the most errors that was wait a second that was one question that was one

06:22:11.360 answer one answer that was one chapter to her book and i didn't go into detail really should we do uh

06:22:19.920 maybe we can do no don't do the other ones that's enough if you that's enough did you say in there

06:22:25.760 that every relationship you've ever been in with a man was abusive yeah i guess we gotta change it

06:22:32.880 like we gotta change that way we gotta change your picker i know yeah we gotta change your picker

06:22:36.560 i'm just like that's why i've been single for so long i definitely

06:22:40.800 maybe your psychic powers aren't as strong as you think they are

06:22:43.360 no it's like it's like but it's not at her will i think it was me like break like also trying to

06:22:48.560 break karma relationships that i had in past life so i think that's why i had to go through

06:22:54.000 these or break through them but it just hasn't been easy it's not i think you lose me at the past

06:22:59.440 life stuff i don't think i totally understand what i know that's why it's hard because most people

06:23:03.760 either do you think they don't remember or they didn't have any either they didn't have one or they

06:23:07.680 they don't remember so it's hard did we meet in the past life you and me

06:23:14.080 i don't know like i'm not gonna lie and say yes but i don't know not i'll find out

06:23:18.080 i feel like we met during like the holy roman empire you think so yeah you actually kind of

06:23:23.600 look like

06:23:28.880 like you know before like german unification like before like the german state like there's

06:23:34.000 all these like that different vassal states and stuff like the holy roman empire like i feel like

06:23:38.640 that's when we we kick it maybe like you're the psychic yeah we were both like peasants and

06:23:44.400 shit toiling in the fields and the roman maybe wait holy roman empire not the roman empire that's

06:23:50.800 different what what bc or what it was like what the 15 16 hundreds my dates are oh you're talking

06:23:58.400 about oh roman my dates are iffy oh well you have like the roman yeah empire

06:24:03.840 yeah that's old that's old like maybe we also did some shit like byzantine empire like i'm

06:24:09.360 pretty sure you may have in the byzantine like in the byzantine empire like we were definitely

06:24:14.320 smashing but like i met you in the brothel so that didn't count oh my god i was a soldier

06:24:20.480 for it for italia this is the past life right yeah yeah yeah i just wanna track anymore yeah but

06:24:27.920 like also mesopotamia like we definitely like shit went down though the og we may have met but like

06:24:33.360 honestly i wouldn't know until until what soul tie you're my soul tells me or shows me

06:24:41.280 when it's when we're ready if we actually did i'm telling you or it shows me in a dream we

06:24:46.320 definitely kicked it in mesopotamia and also somehow what was mexico a little bit of a spiritual

06:24:52.000 connection i just don't know definitely i'm with you but like what was mexico city called before it was

06:24:56.960 it was it was like quetzal like the the aztec son you're mexican you know this no well no let's not go

06:25:05.280 there you don't you said mexican son as huh son son aztecs yeah the aztecs the

06:25:12.880 mayans bro oh i was latino i met someone that helped make the mayan calendar in this no i was aztec and

06:25:20.800 mayan what i did meet someone that in a past life they helped make the mayan calendar how do you know

06:25:27.040 that so what happens is if you do like if you do awaken and you're you're and you did have a past

06:25:35.680 life and if you actively physically and your soul want to know your soul will start to tell you show

06:25:40.880 you and make it known right but also some people there's some children that are born with past life

06:25:47.760 memories and some adult like well children children that come to adults now that didn't forget these

06:25:52.880 past life memories but that's way more rare i feel like that's super that didn't happen to me personally

06:25:58.160 but super rare there's some like little kids will be like oh yeah i was a i was a pirate i

06:26:05.200 yeah i was a pirate on a ship in the sea and she started talking like how she did back then

06:26:10.720 that's yeah what wait what about the pirate what because energy cannot be destroyed it could just be

06:26:16.000 shifted so that's yes i agree yeah that's true this happens that's true um we have a few more

06:26:22.400 things for you but emily do you instead of me like reading out the notes do you want to like bullet

06:26:28.560 point a couple of them that you think are most important for you i can okay i don't have my phone

06:26:33.200 with me oh do you recall like i guess off the top of my head i feel like we talked about a lot i feel

06:26:38.960 like there were i don't think there's any like are any of you you were stripping nobody on here i think

06:26:44.240 does of or anything i'd strip just kidding nice um you're a six now for sure for that um i don't

06:26:52.400 know i think pair bonding comes up a lot in this show i've been watching this show for like three

06:26:56.080 years um and yeah i love you guys i think you're doing a good thing but um i feel like that comes

06:27:02.560 up a lot but it seems like everybody on this panel seems to agree with a lot of things that brian

06:27:06.640 says and that the show talks about so it like i'm super disagreeable and most of my things are

06:27:11.920 you wanted to talk to a strumpet i really that i mean she does off the show right felicity no

06:27:19.520 i know but you got a thought maybe what you got fan fix it's not the same what's that oh my bad i

06:27:25.360 got oh but fan fix isn't it kind of like of it's very similar but there's no nudity oh no oh okay i

06:27:31.520 had the wrong reading i don't know it's tough to go from lily phillips last week to this so yeah

06:27:36.000 that was but you have an of i used to nice i i've sold some feet pics how much like three bailey

06:27:45.040 have you ever sold feet pics nope have you ever had a sugar daddy nope how much how much did you

06:27:54.000 get for your feet pics no i know that's what i'm wondering bailey how much do you sell your feet

06:27:57.600 pics for no it was ariel no i but if you were like if you i don't know what's the average going price

06:28:07.840 i don't know ariel dude it was like some guy that messaged me on in on like i think it was like

06:28:11.680 instagram or twitter and he was like 50 for a foot pic and i was like 18 and i was like yeah yeah you

06:28:18.000 can get a fucking picture it was like 50 dollars for like you sell would you sell uh would you sell

06:28:23.920 feet pics for any amount of money while in a relationship or single i guess i mean i would

06:28:27.680 talk to him first if someone's willing to offer a million dollars send him send them his picture

06:28:33.440 so you don't have anything like morally against it as long as like it doesn't interfere with your

06:28:37.440 current relationship it's interesting i think because you know where you know what he's doing

06:28:42.400 yeah so you're like fulfilling that sexual desire and then you're complicit in that i don't care

06:28:47.840 okay if you were single i've never no i've never done it i would you do it if you're single

06:28:53.120 20 dollar roast he's under feet guy no my snap job well but if some guy reached out to you like

06:28:58.880 some guy i've had guys oh okay okay i love that for you no i've never done it very respect actually

06:29:05.280 actually here's something i had a guy also out of guy actually that reminds me i had a guy he kept

06:29:11.440 reaching out offering to sell or well to buy my feet photos and then when he was in the hospital

06:29:17.440 he goes you can use this money to help pay for this he's trying to help and i was like i was like

06:29:29.360 really tested your morals all right guys we're gonna do a roast session 20 dollar roast for the tts

06:29:35.760 um there's gonna be a brief pause while we get through i guess some of the things

06:29:39.840 um here i'm just gonna let let me look at if there's anything on emily i can prompt you in

06:29:45.840 uh let's see you dropped out of university because of woke

06:29:49.440 bullshit 16 you dated your manager at chipotle who was way older than you that's a major yikes but um

06:29:57.280 um on his part she was yes major yikes on his part but she was from uh oh fuck um

06:30:06.800 oh micronesia she was from micronesia and she her whole family like it was a safety issue for me

06:30:12.560 because her family was very violent and she actually tried to kill somebody else that he tried to sleep

06:30:18.480 with at some point okay he so he had a kid and you're talking about the baby yes okay yes that was a

06:30:23.520 that was a bad bad news bears and everybody like called me a whore and like didn't do anything

06:30:27.440 about it even though that was technically illegal because of power difference what state were you in

06:30:30.720 here i've been here my whole life yeah no no it's not here sorry washington yeah i forgot i'm in

06:30:35.280 california i'm in california right now that's crazy because i know like isn't it some states that like

06:30:40.320 there's different ages yes in washington it's 16 as with a few exceptions and one of those includes

06:30:46.240 they're not being like a power differential and that would include being someone's boss a manager at

06:30:51.520 chipotle yeah yeah my first job i thought with power differentials it was like more so like

06:30:56.240 professor or like therapist i mean if those are included chipotle those are someone who has

06:31:03.440 authority over you like yeah they can you you could lose your job potentially so that person does have

06:31:08.240 a say yeah he ended up getting but so in the law it's like it does apply to like it would apply to

06:31:12.640 the manager yeah okay yeah all right um let's see okay body count matters you say women have

06:31:19.440 ridiculous standards today and think way too highly of themselves in general yeah i feel very

06:31:25.600 passionately about that she feels very passionately about that so uh what are the like crazy if you had

06:31:33.440 a list off like through i mean i think it's a lot of what we've already talked about like a lot of women

06:31:38.720 that i've either spoken to or seen on podcasts and stuff want a traditional man but aren't traditional

06:31:44.480 themselves and like oh well body count doesn't matter but then they don't actually like it's just

06:31:48.880 a lot of stupid arguments that don't actually have any evidence to back it up and then the minute

06:31:52.800 they're challenged on it they whine and cry and sometimes they'll rage quit others start screaming and

06:31:57.200 i'm like that in and of itself is a perfect example of by the way why we need to get rid of the

06:32:02.080 department of education that's right no critical thinking skills i saw that comment super base

06:32:08.480 yeah um yeah i mean it's it's stuff like that it's a massive double standards very little

06:32:15.360 accountability overall i feel like for for modern women um and i used to myself be that way and i

06:32:20.640 didn't i didn't even know it and it was just reinforced by everybody around me it took a lot of

06:32:25.360 took a lot of shit for me to get my shit together and i'm glad i did but now it's like i can't unsee

06:32:30.240 it man it sucks okay uh we have our first roast of the night coming in here in just a moment from

06:32:38.240 michael jones i knew the first one was gonna be about me oh what did he say michael jones donated

06:32:43.520 twenty dollars astrology is fake share one i bet you can't guess my sign based only on this sentence

06:32:52.000 how does that that's more so me being a psychic than astrology being fake but you're probably a leo or

06:33:02.320 capricorn or scorpio hopefully it's one of those do you wait do you genuinely you genuinely believe

06:33:06.800 you're a psychic um yeah just not like the traditional where like they give readings or

06:33:13.680 they use cards me i like try to actually try not to listen so when i really get like an insight i'm

06:33:19.920 like okay it must be because i really try to block it all out even if someone yeah nevermind i'm gonna stop

06:33:25.280 do you do you kind of like you're talking and you kind of like you start questioning not questioning

06:33:34.800 it's just i don't want to say no it's just like i don't want to so this is why i believe my own

06:33:41.200 no i believe everything it's just like i don't want to say too much because when i learn too much at

06:33:45.840 one time my head starts to hurt so i don't want to over that's the pathways man i don't i don't

06:33:52.000 want to i guess over stimulate anybody by what i have to say whether they believe it or not i'm

06:33:59.680 just trying not to say too much at one time that's like i don't think you'll over you like to take it

06:34:04.560 slow yeah slow and steady is what i've heard oh steady six hours and i need to work on that because

06:34:10.400 are you sure it's not just you that's overstimulated when you talk about this stuff

06:34:15.760 um no it's definitely everybody when i talk actually them more so than me it's me that's more

06:34:20.000 like calm but most people start freaking out get abusive or that's why i'm also scared to freestyle

06:34:27.200 until people actually see who i am more i guess we've seen who you are you should freestyle no okay

06:34:33.920 you maybe and you might not look at that she's opening up although i think

06:34:40.400 um nevermind i think you know somewhat because you've said things and done things with your

06:34:47.760 actions even if physically you're not aware your soul knows at least so even if you don't actually

06:34:53.040 see me you you're i see you i'm looking you deep in your own eyes i see you um emily you said that

06:35:00.720 the real gender pay gap is in dating not workforce is this similar to like arguments i've made

06:35:05.120 dark wall go ahead yeah i mean well number one the the the the all the pay gap studies that have

06:35:12.720 been done are all fucking skewed and i think i'd like to think that that's common knowledge by now

06:35:16.960 recently i found that it's still not that's unfortunate um some again critical thinking

06:35:21.280 skills would be great here um it's like one percent and and even that you know people

06:35:27.520 be like oh they're one percent but it's like it's it comes back to the you know who's paying for

06:35:31.600 more in a relationship what does what do women tend to look for or find more attractive um and

06:35:38.160 then yeah i know you've talked about like even if there is it even if you can see that there's a pay

06:35:42.160 gap it's driven by women's hypergamy and i i i could concede to that but the you know the payback

06:35:47.520 the pay gap doesn't even exist to begin with but you know women have extremely high expectations

06:35:52.400 and then it's like the double standard thing that comes up it's like oh well you know if i should

06:35:56.640 have if my husband if my partner wants me to have a high body or a low body count then he should

06:36:00.560 have a low body count it's like really because you want a man who makes two hundred thousand

06:36:04.960 dollars and like what do you make here's like here's the question if she makes just as much

06:36:11.760 i think women who make ask for what if if she makes if she's requiring a certain amount of money

06:36:18.000 because she makes that and she doesn't do it in a provocative way no only fans know nothing

06:36:23.120 is she allowed to require that as an equal she's allowed to require whatever she wants i'm just saying

06:36:28.080 again that again speaks to the hypergamy thing it's like women tend to not want to be the the

06:36:32.480 breadwinners among their partners they they tend to respect men more when they make more than when

06:36:40.880 they're when the man makes more than them god my brain bro just if you can just try not to ban

06:36:46.400 oh yeah sorry sorry um here i'm gonna let a couple chats come through we'll get a few more notes in from

06:36:51.360 you we have a bunch coming in andrew wilson andrew wilson donated i'm not sure if it's him

06:36:58.080 finding out your 16 year old daughter is getting clapped by a 40 year old chipotle manager and they

06:37:04.720 wonder why we don't want daughters no yeah that's actually it so it's crazy so i have a history of sa

06:37:10.560 and i think that's at least partially where it comes from um it is i really hope my parents aren't

06:37:17.200 watching this my dad actually asked me about it at some point when i was a teenager i i have a long

06:37:21.520 history of like drug abuse and mental health issues and i take full responsibility for that and i also

06:37:26.160 have made it my life goal to to not be that way anymore i have a question for you is your boyfriend

06:37:30.320 based extremely yeah he he wasn't when we first started dating i saw this tick tock recently i feel like

06:37:38.160 i'm doing you a solid maybe the boyfriend a solid i don't even know if he's watching this

06:37:42.400 you got a septum piercing i know no i know i think it's gotta go you think so you're way too

06:37:49.360 based to have a fucking septum so it's funny you take that shit out right now i have gauges too

06:37:55.040 gauges are not as bad as the septum now that you think so really

06:37:58.960 gauges are like hungry gauges are kind of punk music thing oh what do we think oh you took it out

06:38:05.680 no i just shoved it up honestly i want this this will be a huge moment in the whatever podcast

06:38:12.320 if we get a girl to just drop the septum piercing is it why is it the septum specifically it's just

06:38:19.200 is it just like really cringy or something it aesthetically i think it's bad and then also

06:38:25.440 it's kind of like i mean you're based so it'd be a bigger w if we got a feminist to like

06:38:32.560 not do the septum piercing anymore yeah i mean i just took out one of my piercings for my partner he

06:38:38.160 he said he's the type it's like oh do whatever makes you happy also i would prefer this but i

06:38:43.360 have to like drag out of him what he prefers so i took i had another piercing i took that one out

06:38:48.400 and i stopped i stopped gauging my ears because of him okay that's that's a step i mean yeah and

06:38:53.520 that took me a while i used to have i used to have an upper frenulum too i got a gum infection

06:38:59.040 though i'm never doing that again no don't do that that was a bad time i think get rid of it though

06:39:03.360 young crazed panda donated twenty dollars brian was the barnito bandito in his last life

06:39:09.920 what does that mean sure it was that i uh they yeah breathe yeah okay thank you thank you gun

06:39:16.720 panda appreciate it uh got a tip here from josh donated twenty dollars thank you josh thankful you

06:39:23.200 are healthy mason praise be to our lord and savior jesus christ i wish you and alexa blessings in your

06:39:30.720 relationship and strength as you both wait for marriage god bless you together thank you michael

06:39:37.840 jones donated thank you josh thank you michael jones i'm either leo scorpio or capricorn

06:39:46.400 yeah i'm okay what do you think he is i don't know what do you think i am nine guesses what do you

06:39:51.040 think i am you know what i really you're so tapped in either you knew me in a past life or definitely

06:39:57.600 were similar signs has to be one of the two what do you think i am leo taurus or libra you only pick

06:40:05.200 one no i always pick three no okay only the only time i ever get it right just first time just pick

06:40:10.880 one it's if i'm like touching the person usually oh it's time brian not like no wait but usually if

06:40:17.760 i'm like it's like physical touch felicity is my touch proxy i know i'm i'm not gonna lie i only got

06:40:23.840 three hours of sleep last night i'm barely here right now thank you for sharing what just pick

06:40:26.960 one huh just pick one pick one pick one it was one of those wasn't it yeah just no no just pick it is

06:40:32.880 it was just pick one pick one it doesn't even have to be one of those three just pick one what do you

06:40:38.480 think i am yeah i'm hoping that you're my sign libra i did say it earlier wrong sorry so much for

06:40:52.400 that i thought i was hoping i'm not saying um leo sons of liberty donated 19 dollars thank you 99

06:40:59.440 sons of liberty so happy to see mason alive and looking healthy bummer about the pjs but evidently

06:41:06.480 god has different plans indeed side note we need more not less whatever i'm mad yeah wait what thank

06:41:15.520 you wait what is there more need more what oh i don't know is he talking to me uh thank you sons of

06:41:21.760 liberty we have this dabamonian donated twenty dollars if astrology has any efficacy then you

06:41:29.200 should be able to offer a test and reliably know their sign sometimes she thinks after she talks i

06:41:35.760 don't know oh my god i've never met you 69 donated twenty dollars you just asked a question the purple

06:41:44.320 hair explains the lack of acknowledgement from decent guys get a life learn to be normal i know i

06:41:50.960 i knew i was going to get the most because the agent smith and just yeah agent smith yeah

06:41:57.040 share one cut the crumb i know it's stank does it stink does it stink i don't know okay good talking

06:42:06.240 um this one's for me they hate the truth six foot nine feet metal donated 19.99

06:42:13.280 cents quit playing brian let me hit that what's the difference between the sprinkler and brian's dad

06:42:20.640 wow the sprinkler actually came

06:42:24.800 wow do you not have a dad i don't have a dad i mean

06:42:29.680 it's in your life i mean sorry yeah my parents are still happily married and

06:42:35.040 love that is a roast though most okay sons of liberty donated 19 and 99 cents elon is exposing

06:42:43.280 the horrid corruption of democrats and the deep state they are going to extreme lengths to discredit

06:42:48.880 him he is working for free to save our republic god bless elon michael jones donated 20

06:42:57.040 dollars chair one you're not psychic you have some experience and you can qualitatively reason

06:43:03.760 that's not psychic powers that's just intuition

06:43:07.520 based chair six same thing as being love a birthday card sweater thank you trad catholic

06:43:13.360 spot donated 20 dollars septum piercings are the worst piercings reminds of another popular it's

06:43:20.720 like a the cow wait okay would it would it increase me a whole point if i took it out yes

06:43:26.080 for most for most people yeah 20 shout out chair seven you are beautiful thank you

06:43:35.360 oh that's ashley there you go there you go next door

06:43:40.000 wait can we answer some of these yeah they're coming in quick but yeah you can

06:43:43.440 donated 20 my message went through first turned in a leo so it was probably a residual leo from a

06:43:50.240 past life relationship

06:43:55.520 facts randy donated twenty dollars bangs are the worst hairstyle for women other than the shoulder

06:44:03.840 chop please stop this trend do you want to respond to do it ladies i'm looking at you tamu trailer grift

06:44:10.560 oh god do you want to respond uh he's jealous he can't pull them off he can't pull off the bangs

06:44:17.840 sorry randy you can't pull it off randy can't pull it off

06:44:23.360 bluff is donated 20 dollars i find astrology to be a very useful tool when choosing dates and partners

06:44:30.320 if they are interested in astrology i am not interested in them that was really

06:44:35.600 counter to wait what that was like the opposite oj simpson donated twenty dollars

06:44:41.200 roast time baby chair five you're so pretty it makes me cry thank you i'm sorry i made you cry

06:44:48.240 say thank you same russian russian spasiba spasiba spasiba what's the what's that word for

06:44:56.560 shit when is it uh lulu uh normally we let most of these rows come through it's a little bit uh

06:45:05.440 i can't play this one lulu but um it's a little bit nasty so sorry like modify it and read it

06:45:12.480 can you give us the it's about you i mean i'll if i can play it if you want me to but it's a bit

06:45:18.960 i mean it's okay what do you think it's gonna i mean it's not if it was whatever if it was another

06:45:24.880 girl i would let it come up uh a little favoritism here um i mean mason i'll here it's this one you

06:45:33.680 i'll let you get to choose

06:45:40.640 gosh how long have you let it up that's right hey mason hey okay uh

06:45:45.760 uh biblical leadership all right there it is all right lulu donated 20 alexa i know so many guys

06:45:53.280 you let smash in the silicon valley i have receipts humble yourself you're literally the biggest 304

06:46:00.080 damn oh my goodness i'm not so i'm not bothered by that okay is it fake news it's 100 fake news

06:46:06.240 okay all right we have michael jones michael jones donated 20 better looking panels one of the

06:46:13.280 better looking panels it was a good mason and brian jessex is th our female version of comedian ryan good

06:46:20.560 case you're the comedian version of who's that wait the female ryan i don't know who that is i'm a funny

06:46:27.520 gal you'll probably never see me you'll probably never see me on the internet again ghost logistics

06:46:34.000 donated twenty dollars mason elated to have you back lady in red respect for staying bedside

06:46:42.240 don't fuck it up ladies have a sandwich ready at all times if you got a man and you will catapult

06:46:48.560 his trajectory be good there's no way a 304 would stay by a bedside for that long like knowing that

06:46:55.360 oh he's probably gonna die like no she was there the whole time uh i scored period yeah

06:47:03.440 we have some super chats here we have aaron chambers shout out from tuscaloosa alabama chasing

06:47:08.640 mason and my friend lars from alabama drew me to christ in august after a uh addiction so happy you

06:47:15.600 survived motorcycle accident mason you're such an inspiration christ is lord hashtag roll tide w's in

06:47:22.080 the chat for aaron chambers thank you man are those neck tats looks like neck tats right

06:47:28.960 like trap tats um like the trap peaseous okay uh it's not a septum ring it's a bull cattle ring it's

06:47:36.320 actually repulsive around 30 of men simply because it looks masculine yeah i can see that i i tend to

06:47:42.640 30 i tend to lean i used to anyways when i got this pierced i was 18 i was definitely more on the

06:47:47.440 masculine side i grew up with men so uh ramirez says the psychic quote unquote is a mess you guys

06:47:54.880 didn't even let me answer any of these questions you're not even answering them

06:48:00.480 that's what he said he said astrology doesn't make sense because if it did you would be able

06:48:05.120 to guess my zodiac sign because you're a psychic how does that no no i think everybody else saying

06:48:09.840 that you haven't predicted anything correct almost everything i've ever predicted and my intuition has

06:48:14.960 been correct actually more so than like i'm one of those psychics that will say like a lot of stuff

06:48:19.840 like the ones about the fires certain thing like that and certain like you knew big disasters

06:48:24.720 you knew that during fire season there were going to be fires i moved to l i moved to la five years

06:48:29.920 ago because of the fires you you wanted to move to i was one of the psychics that knew about the fires

06:48:37.040 basically yeah put guys fire emojis in the chat in the chair i'm just like i knew that they i knew it

06:48:44.800 wasn't going to be climate change and that's why i wanted to be here to help show that it wasn't

06:48:50.080 climate change what was it arsons almost every single one of them were caught as well it was

06:48:55.520 two blue beams the one in uh palisades they caught it on an infrared they're blue beams the one in the

06:49:00.240 hills someone caught it on camera as a blue beam shooting down and almost every single other one

06:49:04.880 other one was arson and someone caught it on camera there's only like two or three that were

06:49:09.120 not actually caught on camera and that was one of the reasons why i wanted to be in la for that

06:49:14.160 reason because i knew that they were planning this for five six years and what did you i guess what

06:49:19.360 was the purpose of you being in la like you were you called there did you do something about my god

06:49:24.960 yeah like that strip club was on fire yeah i was called by i guess i was called by like the universe

06:49:31.200 i mean i by the universe just to come here and that was part of the reason but there's many um

06:49:37.440 to be a superhero so essentially where like god was like where do you think in the u.s

06:49:43.520 needs you the most but what did you provide because like it seems to me from what you're

06:49:48.480 telling me the universe is trying to kill you like you're in all these abusive relationships you're

06:49:52.560 coming to la where it's on fire like torch to shit that's like record-breaking universe that's

06:49:58.000 just those that don't want me to spread the truth that's the ones that don't want me to spread the

06:50:02.160 truth what's the truth that you're trying to spread a lot of deletes a lot of illuminati there's people

06:50:06.320 that think that they're better than us there's people that think that they're better than us

06:50:12.160 no but i actually they take a lot of certain magical teachings from me and then they kind of switch

06:50:19.920 it or they just use the same freemasons no no i've i've had many past lives where i was

06:50:25.360 basically they'll take my numbers or certain things and they will like reverse it were you

06:50:30.960 like a rockefeller in the past life no okay wait can i ask you another question and this is completely

06:50:36.560 not out of naivety are you like a a popular person online um i'd say a little bit how many followers do

06:50:44.400 you have on instagram not as much i'd say since so people are so left and right right now like people

06:50:49.680 are so left and right so black and white like it's a number a couple thousand i have ten thousand

06:50:54.640 followers okay what for like what are you doing online that's notable verify trust but verify

06:51:00.560 1 000 i think are fake that's why i said 10. i might be like i'm not is this on instagram or

06:51:05.680 yeah and then tick tock i also had the same until they my she does tick tock was taken down i also had

06:51:10.720 the same i'm just kidding what are you what are you doing on the internet that's like getting you

06:51:14.800 followers speaking the truth more than anybody and then is that what it is yeah actually you know

06:51:22.080 what i don't even know exactly i just it's been for everything i do because i do so much so

06:51:28.240 all the job different jobs i've worked different things you know my girl

06:51:32.960 is that lady justice or what is it yeah that's cool it's actually a decent tattoo i mean i like that

06:51:38.720 tattoo like normally i don't like that it's actually very well done yeah very okay anyways

06:51:45.920 uh okay we got a bunch more chats coming through just a voice donated twenty dollars every human

06:51:52.320 that ever lived was you whenever you harmed someone you harmed yourself whenever you did good to someone

06:51:59.680 you did good to yourself all is in the all and the all is in all yes exactly that oj simpson donated

06:52:08.000 twenty dollars thank you chair four you thought you were all safe sitting in the corner over

06:52:12.960 there we all know it stank dead especially after taco night also high chair five what is

06:52:24.480 it's the f word yeah yeah okay that's cool when's the last time you said it liat yesterday nice

06:52:32.560 uh yo juice you put a phone number in this so i can't play it but i'm gonna read it okay juice 69

06:52:39.440 ask the girls to say why they should be considered for dating a top tier man seat for your smile is all

06:52:44.960 that poets dream about writing about holler at me 555 555 5555 sorry juice i can't i can't display a phone

06:52:56.160 number but yeah um do you want to respond he said your smile is all that poets dream about oh thank

06:53:02.640 you

06:53:03.520 can you look into this camera and just do a big smile there you go you have that what is that is

06:53:12.960 that bejewel what is that the little jewel thing oh tooth gem is that permanent or you just um

06:53:19.200 it's like semi-permanent i can get it removed whenever i want does the dentist have to do that

06:53:23.040 or uh no i went to a specialist though in arizona but i love it speaking of which randy donated 20

06:53:30.000 bring out the wipes those honest wipes are ewg verified i got these most wipes and because of

06:53:36.560 the waters aren't ewg verified if you refuse you either don't know what they're talking about or it's

06:53:45.520 so guys we do a segment called the makeup removal segment that's fine so we're gonna have everybody i

06:53:51.760 i mean you didn't wear any today you should have worn some but uh so you don't even have much makeup

06:53:55.760 on but uh who here is down to take their makeup off you have to do it you have to

06:54:00.400 she's gonna do it i can't believe you haven't got missler water yet she gave me the bad one i know

06:54:06.160 i'm wearing mascara i don't want to take my lashes yeah could i have so i guess just take them

06:54:10.560 wait felicity you're gonna take take the makeup off i'm not doing that it's like doing too much

06:54:16.080 nah i'll take everything else off you'll do it i mean you're not even wearing makeup really

06:54:20.720 are you maybe a little mascara alina i'm good it's very natural face is it yes i don't know just

06:54:28.000 yeah you're very natural it looks mostly natural take a makeup wipe alexa do you want to do this

06:54:32.000 maybe her eyebrows i mean i got lashes on but i would do the face not her okay okay let's do it

06:54:37.600 give it to alina alina's gonna do it you're gonna alina okay here let's see we have while they're

06:54:46.400 doing that dark oblivion one donated twenty dollars hey share one it's your marine bestie survive

06:54:53.120 lock in i don't know you're gonna do it felicity

06:55:01.040 catholic spud donated twenty dollars mason it is a blessing to see you back and healthy i prayed

06:55:08.640 a rosary for you when it happened keep your spirits up things are looking up for you may the most blessed

06:55:15.120 theotocos watch over you i appreciate it gun crazed panda donated twenty dollars pink hair your cold

06:55:22.480 reading is not impressive your head eye is leeching to your brain lol what cold reading i didn't give one

06:55:29.440 oh you mean about the zodiac sign yes that's not what i sons of liberty donated 19 dollars and 99 cents

06:55:37.920 was talking to you brian one whatever a week i'm mad septum piercing screams lunatic lip tart

06:55:45.360 feminist antifa anti-tradition 304 just bad damn hello honky donated twenty dollars oh ladies if the

06:55:56.160 choice in the woods is a random bear or brian choose the bear because i like brian the bear will eat

06:56:02.240 you oh this is like an oral sex thing oh my gosh wait deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you

06:56:12.800 really okay well yeah of course like what of course though but like yeah yeah what what okay we have some

06:56:23.680 more dabber monion donated 20 dollars in fairness even isaac newton spent the majority of his life

06:56:31.280 pursuing alchemy but at least he was a net positive there you go

06:56:38.160 he's talking about you no what is a net positive michael jones donated 20 dollars sorry the net positive

06:56:43.760 serious question do you believe in any of the following one crystals two sacred geometry three

06:56:51.920 santa claus all the above wait are you gonna take your makeup off will you take your makeup off um

06:56:58.720 um uh no only because i think other bailey number two here has her one proof that i do something

06:57:04.320 right after oh here wait hold it up hold it up oh wait you got she's worried she's working with two

06:57:09.920 dang she's still working on it oh she's working on it you're gonna take the lashes off too though

06:57:14.400 see that's what i'm saying they're keeping they're purple see yeah they're glued yeah it's like what's

06:57:18.960 the point like yeah i could take off all that too but i'm gonna keep my lashes on too so

06:57:22.320 that there's no yeah then just do the makeup then yeah yeah that's what she did it'll purify

06:57:27.520 your spirit use those don't use these my lips are really dry anyway word it'll purify the spirit

06:57:33.200 true yeah uh wait let's have you hold yours up hold it up to the camera or did you already do it

06:57:38.480 hold it up i put a lot on nice good amount all right it's a lot of damage right i feel like this is

06:57:45.280 the most to ever yeah take off my goodness makeup on a panel oj simpson donated twenty dollars blood

06:57:53.680 moved to la for the fires to do what about them nothing also blue beams you mean lightning you crack

06:58:01.840 head also hey chair five energy donated twenty dollars nobody thinks physics are better people

06:58:10.960 than they are it's not a jealous okay okay i'll play you are all later did yo big sass good to you

06:58:18.400 good to see you in the chat man thank you man it didn't even spell it right demorten donated twenty

06:58:24.080 where is andrew we miss you andrew come back he's he's in uh new jersey for like a debate convention

06:58:31.120 i'm sad i missed him uh oh uh thank you demore appreciate it demore demore juice 69 donated twenty

06:58:38.400 i'll play it i'll play it i didn't i didn't catch it it's the number to mike jones w-h-o mike jones

06:58:48.800 i'll play it juice okay here it is i'll i'll replay it then juice 69 donated twenty dollars

06:58:54.560 ask the girls to say why they should be considered for dating a top tier man seat for your smile is all

06:59:00.720 that poets stream about writing about holler at me two eight one three three no wait two eight one

06:59:08.320 three three three wait how does it go in the song two eight one three three oh eight zero zero

06:59:13.360 foe mike jones i'm about the bone i prefer tipping tipping on foe foes

06:59:22.960 okay paul wall okay whatever uh oh his question was what was the question i can't find it oh why

06:59:32.720 you should be like super quick answer why you should be considered for dating a top tier man go

06:59:37.120 ahead baileus maximus go yes hello

06:59:48.400 i can't even answer that right now hold on okay felicity go ahead i don't care date me if you want

06:59:54.560 i have a boyfriend okay um i guess my morals values okay um i have a girlfriend so i don't

07:00:06.400 know okay alina i would take care of him and cook for him every day do everything

07:00:13.760 how many children do you want though however many he wants that's a good answer okay oh lena's pretty

07:00:20.320 based okay what about you yeah i don't think i'd meet the criteria for a top tier man so i wouldn't

07:00:25.200 recommend it necessarily get rid of the septum you're halfway yeah maybe that there you go ashley what

07:00:30.960 about you um i think i have very motherly qualities loving qualities i'll cook clean do all the

07:00:38.160 household chores anything okay do you wear color contacts or that wasn't nice okay uh let's see here

07:00:46.320 uh can i answer that one what oh sorry yeah yeah i would say i'll nurse you back to health if you're

07:00:54.880 in a motorcycle accident and make sure all the doctors take care of you oh yeah

07:01:02.000 what's up all good or

07:01:07.040 hey uh we'll read that later hold on we're almost done by the agents underscore oj donated twenty dollars

07:01:15.520 chair one you need to provide a reliable test have some critical thinking brian send her into the

07:01:21.840 crystal realm mason happy to see you're alive and well w alexa w mason w brian w burrito

07:01:30.640 all right thank you agent oj donated twenty dollars mason i donated to your gofund page when

07:01:43.200 it was published i'm glad i got my money's worth if you had passed i would have been pissed glad you're

07:01:50.400 still with us oh thank you so much justin martin's donated twenty dollars chair one let's

07:01:57.200 hear a specific future prediction actual date then brian can have you back when it happens

07:02:03.760 i predict you won't have me um no one really predicts dates so i'm not going to i thought

07:02:12.000 you were psychic yeah but none of them none of them do except for yeah none of them really do like

07:02:16.640 all the ones i've been doing the same things i'm doing we're all kind of doing the same thing

07:02:20.400 okay no one's predicting dates we just say roughly jones donated twenty dollars rfk jr sees a girl

07:02:27.920 like chair four and says i can fix her chairs two three and seven you've been nice thank you brian

07:02:35.920 great show tonight keep it up yo thank you man hey chair five oh wow getting a lot of a lot of fan

07:02:43.360 favorite situations and fans josh donated twenty dollars mason i ride a ktm bike and had a close

07:02:53.520 call once your story will be on my mind as i ride this summer help keep me safer god is so amazing

07:03:00.960 yes he is there is only this life no past lives true live for christ live for christ fire psychic with

07:03:08.560 pink hair donated twenty dollars i didn't start the fire it was always burning since the world's

07:03:15.200 been turning also since i got the clap oh my god jesus yeah that's crazy michael jones donated twenty

07:03:23.920 dollars hit mike jones up on the low tipping on fofos who mike jones who mike jones shoot out to houston

07:03:34.640 love you paul wall baby oj simpson donated twenty dollars chair five i'm tired of this hard to get

07:03:43.280 game do you want me or not i won't accept no as an answer that's not okay you should accept no as an

07:03:51.120 answer are there any circumstances where you would break up with your boyfriend like is there one guy

07:03:56.880 like maybe a celebrity crush like you would break up with your boyfriend for that guy i've never had a

07:04:02.240 a celebrity crush like if brad pitt when he was young would you i don't know him i don't care about

07:04:10.160 him leonardo dicaprio i don't know young young leo i don't know him timothy shout no that's not worth

07:04:17.040 it joe rogan jordan peterson love joe but no roth donated twenty dollars the women that took off the

07:04:26.720 makeup look better beauty is natural now if we can just stop plucking eyebrows and fake lashes

07:04:33.760 hashtag eyebrows matter

07:04:37.680 wrath thank you so much man good to see you uh in the chat i appreciate it we have a couple supers over

07:04:42.480 here on the youtube side uh mason can you read this one or i can read it mason i'm not sure about this

07:04:47.680 but isn't your girlfriend the one who went on 50 dates if so be careful all that glitter isn't gold

07:04:52.720 chair one if every man you pick is abusive that means it's your fault do better yeah yeah i know

07:04:59.360 she she did the 50 dates uh well she never actually went on 50 dates but no she's extremely particular

07:05:06.400 with who she goes out with and i mean she's really really intentional about it so yeah like i generally

07:05:13.440 wouldn't suggest people go do the 50 dates first dates thing whatever but um yeah no she's i yeah

07:05:22.880 no i i kind of thought about that i listened to it but she shows me in her personality just who she is

07:05:29.840 how she evaluates me um yeah but that's that didn't really freak me out i was careful of course i was

07:05:37.280 careful but you know and i never picked any of the guys obviously since i'm the girl they asked me out

07:05:44.240 first but all like most of my relationships have been karmatic ones from past lives like we dated

07:05:49.680 because of certain things that happened in our past life how do you know that though because i'm

07:05:54.240 supposed to not everybody's supposed to or maybe they will eventually you know what hell yeah

07:05:59.280 like for instance my ex was emperor augustus in his past life and we dated in this life because i

07:06:07.360 have the same birthday as his dad in his past life yeah let me get into this real quick you're in a

07:06:15.120 past life you dated no no no augustus in this life emperor can you this life we dated no wait in this

07:06:22.240 in this life we dated and that life he was his past life he was emperor augustus

07:06:26.560 you dated the guy who in his past life he was emperor augustus and in this former roman emperor

07:06:32.000 yes can you find the wikipedia article for augustus did he tell you that i have the same birthday as

07:06:37.040 his dad in this life and he had daddy issues and people don't know this but he was actually

07:06:40.880 part of the reason why caesar augustus died people don't know this uh scroll back up really scroll

07:06:45.280 up okay okay born gays octavius founder of the roman empire he reigned oh that's his dad wait

07:06:56.080 that's his dad that's caesar augustus the one that has my birthday september k3rd so he had daddy

07:07:01.360 issues so one reason god wanted us to date and this life is so he can try to get over that

07:07:07.440 and for me it was other reasons i get it now because the ratio the relationship already ended

07:07:12.960 and i already saw all i was supposed to see and purge it but yeah it was crazy crazy relationship i'm

07:07:20.240 really not trying to be an asshole i'm just trying to understand like did he tell you that did you

07:07:24.000 see that yeah so at first so i can speak to the souls of the living and dead i think we all can

07:07:30.400 tap into that with dreams and other ways and we all do whether we see it or not whether we say it's

07:07:36.000 actually real or not we all do tap into this unless you don't dream um because we all see loved ones

07:07:42.720 that have passed and it means something um but so when he was asleep and when most i guess of my soul

07:07:50.320 mates were asleep they've at least communicated to me once for some reason i don't know why this

07:07:53.920 just kept happening and all he said to me was find out who i am for me it's not that hard and then

07:08:00.000 through time his soul and what he was his actions and everything that happened like holy

07:08:06.000 shit yeah it was him and it makes complete sense for example in his past life he changed his first name

07:08:13.040 so he wasn't emperor augustus at first he changed it he's emperor augustus in this life

07:08:19.440 his name was rakim and he changed it to king augustus his last name is augustus at the same birthday as

07:08:25.520 caesar augustus i could just keep going on it's like stuff like this like like on and on and on

07:08:30.320 keep going um yeah so we were alive in our past lives around the same time so that as well and

07:08:37.840 yeah i had to find out the secret about that he was involved in his dad's death which people don't

07:08:44.480 know in a past life or yeah and the past life i had to find that out through us dating in this life

07:08:49.840 for some reason i didn't have to but i did wait can i ask you i'm sorry to interrupt wait no no let

07:08:54.320 it go let it go she's cooking a little bit more and then you can a little bit more so then caesar augustus

07:09:00.640 i mean um emperor augustus was poisoned supposedly they think that he's poisoned in his past life by his

07:09:06.160 wife and that's how he died would you um give him a like the guy who was see what uh augustus

07:09:13.440 king augustus king emperor that's what he wants to be called in this life his name in this life he

07:09:17.680 wanted to be called king augustus yeah but he he didn't know about it though you had to tell him

07:09:21.760 yeah because i i'm usually do a roman salute to him were you busting roman salutes no

07:09:28.560 no you do you weren't doing roman salutes i know what you mean because that's how you greet

07:09:32.000 that's how you greet yeah i didn't know he was him at first that's how you greet caesar my soul

07:09:37.440 knew he was but i didn't know until later on can somebody play erica deal breaker um wait so go

07:09:42.880 ahead keep going i know it's just a lot okay and then so supposedly he got poisoned in his past life

07:09:48.640 by his by his wife because apparently he's kind of like a narcissist and to the people they loved him

07:09:53.360 that's why he's ruled for so long but then really he was kind of shitty to her so she poisoned him

07:09:58.960 and that was also skeptical but the reason why i found out that was true is because in this life

07:10:03.520 we watched a movie about a wife that poisoned her husband and usually he doesn't say too much after

07:10:08.400 watching the movies but he looks me down in the eyes and says you'll never poison me will you

07:10:12.240 like usually like why would why would somebody yeah why oh i mean but yeah this is so much stuff

07:10:17.920 it's like you know that's actually equally that's actually a common like i i'm always checking with my

07:10:24.000 girl i'm just asking i ask her if she preps me some food i'm like did you poison me are you like

07:10:29.440 i'm always asking like i'll ask a girl on a first date like would you poison like would you poison me

07:10:35.120 because i'd like to know yeah so i cannot date you that's crazy wait do you do you get anything

07:10:42.800 about me like past life about me right now i'm just trying to block all that because there's so

07:10:47.840 many people here i'm trying to block all this out i'm already overstimulated so i'm okay right now

07:10:52.560 if i do though if i get something i'll let you know give me one just give me one thing no like

07:10:56.400 even with everybody else besides one person you're doing with felicity it was through time so for

07:11:01.200 instance was she was she she was the queen of egypt wasn't she you know what there's actually wait

07:11:05.120 wait she was an egyptian goddess oh my god you're psychic can i say this real quick there's actually

07:11:09.200 psychics that do specialize in this where you could go to them and they'll say you were this that but

07:11:14.800 just really quick do you need to touch i just try not to do any of this i just try not to no no

07:11:19.600 touch the person sometimes it's easier the person to get a read on them it's easier but like i try

07:11:24.640 not to do any of this at all felicity give her your hand because i grew i grew up felicity come

07:11:29.440 on no no wait here do a little something for felicity do do something come on bro i'm already

07:11:36.800 overstimulated i'm not trying to oh bro don't be a don't i you've been copping out all night yeah because

07:11:42.560 it's a lot bailey it's a lot bailey it's a lot do a little thing for already my energy is like i need

07:11:49.040 a rap or a reading wait so okay here tell you what you don't have to do it i'll do it and you

07:11:58.960 tell me if we're on the same wavelength okay to me if we're like the same crystal okay so here's here's

07:12:04.640 my read on felicity right in her past life and her boyfriend in a past life he was uh you know

07:12:12.080 prohibition era he was running alcohol that's why she's always getting into the car chases and

07:12:17.920 shit with her boyfriend he was a he was a mafia like uh italian mafia running alcohol for the mob

07:12:25.920 right al capone shit so she's drawn to him all right i'm not picking up on anything and i know

07:12:30.720 let me finish bro relax bro that's accurate oh and then that's accurate and then right you know you

07:12:36.720 know about that shit felicity and then but felicity in her past life though so she she was an egyptian

07:12:44.880 like what how'd you know that hieroglyphic i was a mermaid i believe you kind of have i get mermaid

07:12:52.880 yeah i can see that i can see that you were ginger too in the past life because why do you call me

07:12:59.200 every single time and i get with taylor swift ariel i don't know are you trying to say something about

07:13:03.600 ginger you have wait question wait never mind something about like how do you have sex with

07:13:10.560 it i was like if you wait question if you had to pick when it comes to like mermaid intercourse do you

07:13:19.760 pick the bottom half to be mermaid or the top half to be mermaid the bottom you'd prefer the bottom so no

07:13:27.440 no no pee pee but like that's how you have your tail huh like you know they have tails i know but

07:13:34.240 it if you had like if there was a mermaid that the top was mermaid that that would just if you take

07:13:39.840 away the top like a fish so it's like a fish head but a human like lower body i would like that one

07:13:46.160 more honestly you whoa you should probably be investigating for that that's some bestiality crazy

07:13:51.920 shit right oh no no no but i would want to be that you would want to be i think i was one in

07:13:56.000 a past life you probably were yeah you probably atlantis was real she was a mermaid tempting all

07:14:01.200 the sailors passing by yes oh yeah okay i don't know how we um augustus what yeah that's crazy no

07:14:11.040 and really i have the same he had daddy issues so one reason where maybe god was trying to have

07:14:16.320 him get over his daddy issues maybe he will eventually but i have the same birthday caesar augustus no way

07:14:21.760 as well so september 23rd that's crazy like it was just like so much to where i was like

07:14:26.880 no ignore me oh wait and then one of the main things too the one of the one of my favorite

07:14:30.720 things the first clue was when he said figure out who i was or like who i am his soul like it wasn't

07:14:36.880 physically him it was his soul telling me when i was i just touching him and i felt it and we went to

07:14:43.120 the getty um villa and the whole time he would yeah we would talk about stuff but he didn't point

07:14:50.960 anything out until we got to the emperor augustus bust which i only saw one thing about him in the

07:14:56.640 entire place and before i even told him it was him and anything he points at that out of everything

07:15:02.560 he didn't point at anything else in the whole museum out to me he pointed at it do you do this

07:15:07.600 and it's at the very end by the way too and he pointed it did you feel that look at wait did you

07:15:14.000 feel that mason whoa does she like say holy shit i got a really dark energy from you just now when i

07:15:19.680 said that no just in jet like it just came in general wait i gotta read on you dude wait wait

07:15:25.280 bailey bailey no bailey in a fucking past life

07:15:31.920 you were adolf hitler no whoa yes i thought you're gonna say something else that's crazy because

07:15:36.960 ariel felt that too no because i was thinking of my heart goes out to you kind of thing and then you

07:15:41.680 were like adolf hitler and i was like should i were you feeling was i no no no okay so when when

07:15:48.800 you i'm in the hair when you said when you said i have a feeling like i know you were in a past life

07:15:55.120 i literally thought that's crazy for him bro that's two of us two of us two of us thought you were

07:16:02.320 not it oh no i i haven't get like stalin vibes from no hey wait russian girl i know what i'm

07:16:09.360 talking about there she was she gets it the last the last life i had on earth was about 2 000 years

07:16:15.520 ago so that wouldn't have been possible but wait 2 000 years the last life past life was around when

07:16:19.920 emperor augustus what were you doing wait so what were you doing for 2 000 years you were just nothing

07:16:24.640 no she was no i was in other dimension because there's several there's a bunch oh now we're talking

07:16:29.040 about dimensions how were you together in a past life if you're in another dimension bro no i said

07:16:33.840 after this life when there's an ac there's so where does so does nobody have souls but me am i the

07:16:40.640 only one you kind of look like hitler bro i'm i don't know how else to say it were you oh my gosh

07:16:46.640 were you hitler in your past i mean the hair's kind of i don't know all right here let me look

07:16:51.680 wait look him up look up a bit i have to let some chats come through oh my i think holy

07:16:55.840 you never know i might have missed some question for the table alone in a forest with a man or alone

07:17:04.480 in a restroom with a mentally ill cross-dressing man

07:17:09.840 uh huh wait i missed a bunch of shit let me uh

07:17:16.240 the woman that took off the makeup do the last one was wrath the makeup one i think

07:17:20.880 okay i got the money and donated twenty dollars chair one will any panel member end up with a

07:17:27.760 celebrity crush that they are currently denying quick answer what i think this is for me isn't

07:17:34.080 it and i'm not gonna answer that what rude big sass thank you mexican mommy

07:17:41.440 she does oh the very least go for the more natural look with your makeup ditch the hooker

07:17:49.040 red lipstick and let that dark hair shine in my defense i don't usually worry dark oblivion won

07:17:54.480 donated twenty dollars hate share one it's justin sending love your way thank you that's really

07:18:01.600 surprising because everybody's hating on me thank you thank you dakota or sorry thank thank you

07:18:07.680 dark oblivion thank you dakota donated twenty dollars absolutely love your show brian by the way keep up

07:18:14.320 the great work question for the panel what do you value more work ethic or looks uh raise your hand

07:18:20.560 if it's work ethics raise your hand if it's lux

07:18:27.280 of course okay sorry guys these are a little jumbled

07:18:31.760 agent donated 19 dollars and 99 cents question for the table alone in a forest with a man or alone

07:18:39.600 in a restroom with a mentally ill cross-dressing man wow um big sass energy donated twenty dollars

07:18:49.600 chair one i was genghis khan in a previous you know what's actually crazy i'm for some pillaging

07:18:54.560 and plundering and plundering no it's crazy i actually met him who he is in this life

07:19:02.160 genghis khan yeah no oh my she met genghis khan and abraham lincoln and taravan on together would

07:19:08.000 like to see them debate die to my cheeks them debate wait debate died oh okay i'm not sure what that

07:19:16.960 means but uh yeah orion's dope i we got to get him back on here pretty soon uh what about kubla

07:19:23.280 khan did you meet him no no no i haven't met that many people that actually are aware of who they were

07:19:29.600 and like it's obvious too not that many but yeah like at least ten what about like the khmer rouge

07:19:36.160 guy usually i'm the one to help people did you meet him no khmer rouge no why i don't know

07:19:42.800 okay whatever uh let's see oh there's a couple that we were going to go back to it was the question

07:19:48.560 for what was it oh alone in the forest with a man here or alone in a restroom with a mentally ill

07:19:54.800 cross-dressing man what the uh so who picks alone in the forest with a man who picks alone in a

07:20:02.400 restroom with a mentally ill cross-dressing man i think they need to be more interesting

07:20:07.200 okay all right you know he's crossed he can't move right like no no cross-dressing

07:20:19.280 oh you mean like never mind like stoned is it when you say crossed you know how like when they're

07:20:25.600 like tied up she's talking about a straightjack oh a straightjack oh my gosh that's wild that's

07:20:32.320 okay uh okay we have randy coming in here man they keep coming i donated twenty dollars

07:20:40.800 share one i'd say that you'll be a cat lady but the cats deserve better

07:20:45.280 tame trailer grift do us all a favor and stay off the roads no more suited for meth what the

07:20:51.360 i'd roast you but god already did yikes okay thank you bassett would say otherwise

07:20:57.680 well i have my license sons of liberty donated 19.99 pink hair the point is you need to get

07:21:06.640 boundaries and recognize red flags in men i've been single for a while yeah you'll keep getting

07:21:11.840 involved with toxic dudes yeah know your worth and don't vote democrat repeal the 19th donated 20

07:21:21.120 dollars share one you are full of nothing you have said makes any sense nothing i said was even

07:21:28.400 feminist everyone else more stupid feminism is evil feminazis are idiots live tarts suck huge floppy

07:21:36.400 donkey d bye i didn't know i was gonna get dissed the most but you guys are 20 dollars chair one i don't

07:21:43.120 have daddy issues but for you i wouldn't have daddy issues now i could for chair seven i could maybe yeah

07:21:50.320 sure yeah oh daddy issues for ashley michael jones donated twenty dollars thank you michael chair one

07:21:57.200 is the reason why we need to take the fluoride out of the universe told me that brian was emperor

07:22:03.760 chadius maximus in a past life i can't tell if he's lying or not but he's not justin martin's donated

07:22:10.560 twenty dollars that's right hey what do you know i'm a psychic too big w to mason good to see you

07:22:17.120 back and healthy good to be back

07:22:22.640 thank you justin appreciate it man thank you chair one last life donated twenty dollars

07:22:27.440 i was actually and before that and don't look a squirrel

07:22:33.200 uh chair one thank you we got three more coming through

07:22:39.760 emilk jones donated twenty dollars wait chair one now that i think about what you're saying it

07:22:46.160 actually kind of makes no effing sense to you because you want to be that way you're choosing

07:22:52.960 it to not know the full truth karmatic one twenty dollars chair one admitting she can't find anyone to

07:23:00.240 put up with her brand of crazy through multiple lifetimes and dimensions i i broke up with

07:23:06.080 everybody in all my past lives and in this one so again it's like do you have crystals donated 20

07:23:12.400 do you have crystals i was gifted a bunch i never buy any i was gifted a lot big titty fatters is not

07:23:17.200 interrupting the show every five minutes i make brian look skinny oh i go home and take care of other

07:23:23.840 men's kids i can make my tips hey uh hey rude absolutely oh we have another one coming in

07:23:32.800 sending michael jones donated twenty dollars yes sending positive vibes to chairs two three five

07:23:40.080 what'd she do seven and eight to mason and to brian why'd you skip aerial vibes to

07:23:46.160 chair neutral i get that nice because we're bisexual five hundred and twelve donated twenty dollars

07:23:56.320 would any of you ladies ever settle for being a stay-at-home baby mama i.e. husband's wife

07:24:02.080 can't give him any more kids but he'll take care of you one hundred percent

07:24:07.120 huh hard pass no no i'll like elon and we talked about that earlier we have uh

07:24:17.920 david brian use this money for ozempic ladies you look great with or without makeup i gotta lose

07:24:23.360 a bit of weight it's true uh michael jones i am mike jones he lost a mike jones lost a bunch of weight

07:24:30.400 right didn't he he lost a bunch of weight back then hose didn't want me now i'm hot hose all on me

07:24:39.040 that's a mike jones song okay back then okay back then mike oh we have robert f kennedy robert f

07:24:46.960 kennedy oh my god to twenty dollars share one you are the reasons i have campaigned so hard for the

07:24:53.600 country's health you have clearly been over vaccinated i haven't even been vaccinated at

07:25:00.000 all but okay oh like polio or any or nothing i'm the flu when i was younger you got the flu but then

07:25:08.560 i realized it was giving me the flu so i stopped taking bailey there's you have so many notes here

07:25:13.520 do you we should you should come back because you guys are too mean no honestly you've participated in

07:25:19.120 pretty good faith throughout the show and it's i don't think i mean they're they're assholes that's

07:25:23.360 kind of their job i mean i already knew i was gonna get the most hate i had the most hate in

07:25:27.600 everything so i already knew i was going to i think the thing that's tough with you is that like i could

07:25:31.280 respect your opinions more if you propose them as ideas instead of the truth and i think that's where

07:25:37.040 it gets a little bit like tough because you're like i'm just stating things that are just truth

07:25:42.000 am i not that are just happening am i not i mean do you believe in math somewhat oh okay

07:25:49.520 that's why it's my least favorite subject okay well i mean the reason i ask is because it's like

07:25:53.440 the probability of of the people that you have met their met their past life versions in the present

07:26:00.800 the likelihood of them being like these notable people is virtually zero unless i was me and i was

07:26:06.480 also a notable person wait hold on i'm not we're not going to do everything but you wrote here that

07:26:13.040 besides kind of dating abraham lincoln no way no way no way in but so um you dated in a past life

07:26:21.680 you dated abraham lincoln no in this life like we kind of almost did but he did some fuck shit and

07:26:27.360 actually everybody of course i didn't know i wasn't alive you dated a guy and in the past his

07:26:36.720 past life was abraham lincoln he was abraham lincoln yep you know what hell yeah wait

07:26:42.720 how fucking yeah we do need the balance yeah four score seven years ago we brought forth a new

07:26:53.600 nation founded and i can't i don't remember the rest um uh wait hold on i'm just speed reading this

07:27:01.840 because i'm trying there's a bunch of stuff about augustus because i just don't like how

07:27:06.400 what about dua lipa this is oh yeah so emperor augustus his twin flame in this life is dua lipa

07:27:13.360 wait can you explain it wait you said hold on just to be clear so if you uh passed like the

07:27:19.280 actual emperor augustus yeah like in the past yeah reincarnated no his future twin flame is

07:27:26.480 dua lipa no in this life because whoever he incarnates as no he just their soul split into two and and

07:27:35.360 also came here as a twin flame and that's his but yeah um usually what happens with so far all the

07:27:41.840 twin flame that the real real ones i met it's like one of them is famous first and the other one gets

07:27:46.640 famous or yeah that's i mean of course if one's famous and they get together then or people find out

07:27:52.800 but yeah it's always one that's like really like almost going through the complete opposite reality but

07:27:58.160 they're still like the same and they have to heal from the same things and have similar backgrounds

07:28:04.160 similar zodiac signs all this stuff but essentially one of them gets to a physical place first and one

07:28:12.720 gets to a spiritual place first and then they're supposed to kind of flop but the ones that i know

07:28:18.000 right now most of them are not there's only one that kind of has done that out of all the ones i know

07:28:23.840 that are real twin flame relationships have you taken psychedelics uh like i have um shrooms i have

07:28:32.720 here and there like actively um i think i've taken it taken them like maybe four or five times

07:28:40.640 and you said that there's only 144 000 twin flames i'm gonna say roughly but if if it's not that

07:28:46.480 i i it could be man how did you get that number just god just the universe showing me stuff like

07:28:54.080 over and over and over again there's only one god did you meet dua lipa and she told you that

07:28:59.520 it was her no i figured out the same way i figured out he was him it just came to you

07:29:06.080 how can you deny things when you're physically when you're seeing the truth in every single way like

07:29:11.440 how can you keep denying it you can and people do but it's just like i'm not the one that's going to

07:29:15.520 do that you gotta touch people have you touched dua lipa to confirm no no but this is just

07:29:21.200 since i was with him that and they're twin flames that they're real twin flames that's how i was

07:29:25.280 able to oh yeah really quick question has felicity ever dated a dictator

07:29:31.680 in a past life or something me and hitler i feel like she has at this point because you keep like

07:29:36.880 but you have the same birthday we almost do we're five days apart i'm one day apart from hitler wait so

07:29:43.440 brian what does that mean me and you in a past life because you were hitler right or she was

07:29:48.960 hitler who was hitler she's hitler can a psychic who's hitler can a future a past life psychic please

07:29:56.000 join somehow feel it enjoy tell us do you know who erwin erwin rommel is like the africa campaign

07:30:03.760 rommel the what did they call him what was his nickname rommel the i don't know um

07:30:15.840 there's a few more coming through then we're wrapping michael jones donated my gosh in all

07:30:20.800 seriousness i hope the best for all of you some of you are going to need the good vibes shares one and

07:30:27.600 four you can have a little bit of good vibes thanks as a treat to jillo donated twenty dollars

07:30:35.360 what caesar augustus was it do you realize five emperors had those names so which one so what was

07:30:41.040 the full name the dad of emperor augustus i don't know it's just up there it's like julius caesar

07:30:48.240 randy donated twenty dollars thank you randy share one thank you for proving the flaw of most women

07:30:54.240 you all think it's a flex to be the one to end the relationship versus being dumped in reality

07:31:00.720 it shows your lack of commitment self-cloud lulu donated twenty dollars

07:31:08.000 six one have you ever tried meth someone got a crystal yes or no into the mic no i just really

07:31:16.480 quick on the abraham lincoln thing you dated a guy who was abraham lincoln in this life we were

07:31:22.800 like kind of trying to do stuff but he did some super fucked up shit to me i don't want to talk

07:31:27.120 about it and i'm not going to say his name emancipate the slaves what did he want to like do like no in

07:31:31.920 this life he wanted to do like hit the complete opposite like basically just and he in this life

07:31:36.560 it was like more less serious and not doing like almost anything question did he ever like when he

07:31:42.160 you told him this because like if a girl told me this shit like i'm abraham lincoln in the past life

07:31:46.720 i would kind of be into that i'd be like i'd be into that i'd be like can i recite the

07:31:51.200 gettysburg address while i'm hitting it like doggy style four score and seven years you know i would

07:31:58.400 be i would be kind of into that see like that's what i thought when i was like when he when i told

07:32:03.200 him and i think for him it's just so much like holy shit like this is i was it was a lot to where

07:32:12.560 he kind of i would like also want to role play the assassin i guess he didn't want people to know

07:32:16.160 who he was my chick's john wilkes booth and i'm in like a theater up in the boot i think the main

07:32:21.360 thing is i think in this life he did not want to have the same responsibility in his past so that's

07:32:25.920 why he's kind of in this life not you should really try meth why because you want me to be a homeless on

07:32:33.280 the street so no one takes me or people take me less seriously okay have you ever been to the dimension

07:32:39.040 where walter white exists like great bad council 512 donated 20 dollars chair one is nuts maybe

07:32:46.640 abraham lincoln the vampire slayer she's clearly off her meds no do you take have you ever taken

07:32:54.880 med roth donated 20 dollars if you stand out in a crowd you will get the attention you might not like

07:33:02.240 all the attention but you will attract it you're doing fine all right guys if i'm going to say final

07:33:08.160 call on the tts uh thank you guys so much for all your super massive support during the roast

07:33:14.160 session that was wild guys final call guys final call on the uh tts 20 dollar tts if you want get

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07:34:13.680 young crazed panda donated 20 i have done psychedelics pink hair is schizophrenic get in

07:34:20.720 the crystal get in the crystal you sound like you've been there how do you know so much about

07:34:28.400 this crystal these crystals in this crystal kingdom brickson do you know how much weed

07:34:34.400 shrooms and acid hippies had to do to get as tardy as chair one i am calling bullshite on her saying

07:34:40.960 she has only tried it five times rommel was the desert fox the desert fox yeah that's what i was

07:34:47.200 thinking of past life psychic gmd jim good to see you man it's been a minute serious brian was john harvard

07:34:53.520 in the past life sorry everyone is so negative and training you bailey have i been draining you

07:34:59.760 yes everybody thank you though damn except for i thought we had donated twenty dollars for everyone

07:35:06.640 the name augustus means emperor for example gaius julius caesar was the first emperor of roman named

07:35:14.080 augustus caesar hope this helps chair one is a flat are you flat do you believe in flat earth as

07:35:20.640 it's not completely flat and stay out of little china with those green eyes or it will be big

07:35:27.440 trouble smiley face you want to respond to that i don't know what to say okay that's fine

07:35:35.440 thor donated twenty dollars shout out to all the shitty dads out there your daughters are the best for

07:35:41.360 meaningless sex remember you're here cause your daddy is not a queer what the chair one is the reason

07:35:47.600 therapists are rich again agent smith thank you goldstein donated twenty dollars charging interest

07:35:54.400 on loans used to be illegal but i what happened uh yeah cool that's dark as possible wait what about

07:36:01.680 agent smith what are you talking about that's crazy it's just like you know a demon just literally

07:36:05.920 castle 512 donated twenty dollars they're possession glad you're doing good has alexa

07:36:12.720 given you all her passwords for her social media accounts yet uh no she hasn't but uh i can look at

07:36:20.880 all of them because i have passwords for her phone okay um i don't know if we need a no one does

07:36:27.760 of here at the panel apparently so i don't think we need a call to action i used to but you

07:36:32.160 well you don't do it anymore so i guess that's uh gg well played to the panel last call hit the like

07:36:38.240 button please on your way out thank you for tuning in tonight you could be anywhere in the world but

07:36:42.240 you're here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who so generously super chats donates

07:36:47.760 and supports the show we're viewer supported no barely do sponsorships so uh really appreciate it

07:36:53.600 guys thank you that was a epic roast session guys absolutely epic thank you guys so much any girls

07:36:58.480 who want to be on the show you can dm out whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara

07:37:01.920 um i don't know if we're gonna do a i'll do a quick raid i'll see super quick uh let's see if

07:37:07.600 there's anybody to raid any final thoughts from any of the panelists while i just get this uh winded

07:37:11.520 down here over on twitch going once i'm just gonna say thank you for having us back on and thank you

07:37:17.600 everyone that donated and thank you for you for fundraising for mason when he was in the hospital

07:37:21.680 yeah we were able to get a decent amount uh sent over there to his uh gifts and go so uh yeah but

07:37:27.840 ultimately though the most important thing mason is uh you're healthy yeah you recovered pretty

07:37:33.840 miraculous from the sounds of it so uh congrats man good to have you back i appreciate you having

07:37:38.960 me back of course man this this podcast had somewhat of a massive impact on my life in more ways than i

07:37:45.840 could even imagine okay we're gonna do whoa grandma i'm gonna get the raid going to whoa grandma if you can

07:37:51.280 get that pulled up damien i feel like we're forgetting something but we're wrapping the show

07:37:56.080 up so uh get whoa grandma pulled up i'm gonna send a raid over to her really quick we'll just tune in

07:38:00.960 for 10 seconds here send okay thank you guys for watching on twitch i'm saying the raid right now

07:38:06.400 all right she is i think is it paused oh no i just she just wasn't doing anything she is playing

07:38:12.640 world of warcraft retail it looks like there it is there's the raid shout out hello whatever

07:38:21.280 guys she's 83 be nice to her she's the homey she's got a better stream set up than us she's

07:38:27.840 got a crazy stream it's nice it takes some advice from her anyway she's playing world of warcraft it

07:38:33.120 looks like she's playing a druid so uh anyways i hope she has a uh good good stream over there

07:38:41.600 sorry well grandma did me to cut you off there uh i honestly i think that's pretty much it so we're

07:38:47.120 gonna wrap there guys oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat let me just double check

07:38:52.240 make sure there are no other chats that came nope that's it okay oh sevens in the chat guys

07:38:56.800 we have a really good show on tuesday for you for you guys very good show on tuesday

07:39:00.960 be sure to tune in for that oh sevens in the chat good night guys we'll see you next time

07:39:17.120 here

07:39:35.760 you

Whatever Podcast - February 17, 2025

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