Whatever Podcast - HEATED Debate With Woke Feminist？! Boss Babe Picks Career Over PERFECT Man？! ｜ Dating Talk #229

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00:03:48.160 a little bit later on in the show with that said without further ado we're going to have the guests

00:03:52.880 introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location so where you're from occupation and

00:03:58.800 education go ahead my name is brenda i am 24 i am from los angeles and i am a digital artist in

00:04:05.520 electronic music dancing and i create content all right any like school college anything like that

00:04:12.880 associates degree yeah associates yeah okay what did you get uh bachelor's or bachelor's i'm sorry

00:04:19.920 or like what was the major so i went in pre-med and then i changed to nutrition and then just general

00:04:27.200 education got it okay and you said you do rave content yeah you're a raver i am a raver yeah we

00:04:33.760 should have had you come in rave gear you should have told me i i would have i would have brought

00:04:36.880 some i would have brought some stuff i would have yeah right over my head didn't even all right it's

00:04:41.200 okay uh next time uh that's cool and how often do you go to raves and stuff um so i work in the scene

00:04:46.640 so it's pretty often but uh recently i took a break and now i just go like once a month or whenever i have

00:04:52.480 to work then i go for work got it okay cool what about you my name is patrice i just turned 26 years

00:05:00.080 old i'm from new jersey for a while i was for the last year i was a stay-at-home fiance but

00:05:09.040 currently i'm going back to my right after this trip i'm going back home to my job as a waitress

00:05:13.360 bartender um i have a little bit of schooling i've changed my i've changed my life path so many times

00:05:18.960 but i started as pre-law and political science that didn't work out so then i spent like a year

00:05:25.040 and a half studying health and nutrition doing bodybuilding competitions i did some macro fitness

00:05:30.800 work personal training as a side job for a while and currently my i have like a lot of things that

00:05:36.880 i'm thinking of doing but i was thinking of going back to school to work in air traffic control especially

00:05:41.920 with every all the planes crashing and everything happening it's a consideration so we need it we need

00:05:46.800 those atc uh people and uh so you're from jersey you said yes okay and any education any school i

00:05:54.640 don't have any official degree no i have some qualifications but did you go to college i did

00:05:58.560 yes i did university i went to coastal carolina for a year and then i did community college for a year

00:06:04.400 gotcha damien did we recently have someone on who also went to that i could have somebody went to that

00:06:10.400 school recently who was it was it was it last show someone from who went yeah okay well cool welcome

00:06:18.960 what about you hi i'm kelly like a california and i'm from south korea okay and i moved out here about

00:06:28.080 this october gonna be seven years and i used to fashion stylist in korea for kpop idol and any

00:06:38.240 other fashion brand after graduated um university school with the fashion major so working for five

00:06:47.760 years then when i was 27 i just decided to move out here to explore and any entertainment thing music

00:06:57.120 industry any other art industry for yes so right now this i just turned 33 you're 33 okay got it

00:07:08.080 and i see you have some gems in your teeth uh what what do you call that what is that it's a tooth gem it's a tooth

00:07:17.520 gems so since i think 2019 like was started at that moment and then i got this certificate about

00:07:29.440 five years ago five years ago in l.a yeah so i'm a tooth gem technician nice technician yeah okay cool cool

00:07:39.920 uh and uh you you offer this though as a service yes i do my location is downtown l.a and there's the plus

00:07:50.080 add to the teeth whitening nails and pedicure and grills and grills yes grills okay and you're uh when did

00:08:00.480 you move from south korea about seven did you say seven years ago 2018 oh okay got it okay and uh i looked

00:08:08.960 at your instagram like you have uh a lot of posts on there like it's over a thousand oh yeah it is i went to

00:08:17.280 the very bottom by the way yes thank you i don't know if that's uh if you're like kind of frightened

00:08:24.640 by that like whoa he knows what that looks like like 10 years ago oh yeah honestly you've had more

00:08:31.440 hair styles more hair colors i think in the history of ever um you've single-handedly propped up

00:08:40.960 the hair dye industry so i want to congratulate you oh thank you so much i never tried to board

00:08:50.240 hair but i want to try someday i don't know one day yeah um sorry guys i'm getting some bullshits going

00:08:59.120 on um okay cool welcome what about uh what about you oh i'm bailey i'm 23 and i'm my bsba from philadelphia

00:09:08.320 in marketing and international business all right welcome back what about you hi i'm steph i'm 24 i'm

00:09:15.360 from houston and i'm currently going to uhd and i work at a makeup store and i'm a sub

00:09:22.880 you're uh sorry i'm sorry age again 24 and you work in a makeup store and am a sub

00:09:30.080 missive substitute teacher oh i thought i was too i was like period girl no i understand

00:09:40.960 and uh all right any school or anything like that i go to uhd all right what are you studying i'm

00:09:46.080 studying to be a teacher teacher okay all right what about you um my name's mary grace i'm from

00:09:52.640 santa barbara i have a aaa in music and then a bachelor's in science and i work in medical supervision

00:10:00.480 okay um what about you my name is alina i'm 20 years old i'm originally from russia i currently

00:10:08.480 live in philadelphia and i'm a student studying business and information systems all right welcome

00:10:14.480 everybody sorry mary your your age again 23 all right sorry audience for them having to repeat it we

00:10:20.640 uh a little little bs going on um a lot of flakes today eight six six flakes people running late

00:10:29.440 so i had to turn some people away um all right so we're gonna go around the table once more what

00:10:34.880 what is everybody's current relationship status and then if you're single how long have you been single

00:10:40.400 and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead i am single okay and i have been in

00:10:46.960 a three-year relationship that was off and on and then a two-year relationship that was also off

00:10:52.800 and on okay how long have you been single for um since like may so however long that is

00:11:00.800 last year eight months seven months okay and the relationship that ended eight months ago was that

00:11:07.600 the two-year the three-year one that was two-year the two-year and both of them were on again off again

00:11:12.000 oh no i'm so sorry it was a year yeah it was a year ago no no like the relationship was a little

00:11:17.840 bit over a year it wasn't even two years like a year the most recent one yes most recent one yeah

00:11:22.480 okay so you had a one year and a three-year yes and a two-year or there was no no no i'm sorry it's

00:11:28.240 just we spent so much time together it felt like a long time but both of them were on again off again

00:11:32.880 you said towards the end yes towards the end how many times for the for the longest one the three-year

00:11:37.280 one how many times was it off and on oh so many times i i can't over 10. probably 20. no i don't

00:11:45.920 think that much 10 to 20. 15. i don't i don't know this is 10. this is okay yeah uh who would be

00:11:55.920 ending it putting it in the off oh i was so bad i i i would uh end it and but deep down i wanted it

00:12:04.800 so that's why i would always like end up going back and he obviously he's for it because he wanted

00:12:09.280 me he's for it no he was for like he was for like he wanted he was he would apologize and then i would

00:12:16.400 be like no like i don't want your apology and then wait so he would end things with you no no i would

00:12:23.120 end things with him okay and then he would apologize and then i would like ghost and then i would come

00:12:28.320 back okay yeah uh does that not make sense yeah no no i'm sorry i'm fucking um so uh and then what 0.93

00:12:38.240 about the other one that was also on again off again yeah okay and uh that one was twice on again

00:12:45.600 off who so for both these relationships i guess the final breakup who ended things in each of them

00:12:50.640 was it you for both it was mutual mutual okay all right what about you

00:12:55.120 so my longest relationship i ever had was four and a half years we had a great four years and a

00:13:03.200 terrible half a year and i'm recently single for the last two weeks not from that relationship from

00:13:08.640 another relationship i was engaged and we were together about a year and a half okay uh so you've

00:13:16.720 been single sorry for how long like two weeks oh two weeks yeah i landed in california single so eight

00:13:23.120 months is that your longest relationship my longest relationship was four and a half years no the

00:13:28.240 fiance was not my longest relationship okay uh four and a half years who broke up with him the longest

00:13:34.720 one oh so he broke up with me i've at the end so we were we were together consistently living together

00:13:42.480 for almost four years and then the last six months it was we'd had one breakup at the two-year mark but

00:13:48.000 it wasn't serious it was like three days i went and stayed at my mom's house and then we were back together

00:13:51.440 lived i moved in after like date one night one and we spent four years four years were great and then

00:13:57.600 we spent six months together where it was on again off again on again off again so i he i broke up with

00:14:04.880 him he broke up with me i broke up with him he broke up with me he cheated on me okay that was kind of

00:14:10.800 the final stroll the most is that the four and a half year one that's the four and a half year one yes okay

00:14:15.680 and then this most recent one you were dating uh a red pill guy as you called it yes we were engaged

00:14:21.440 okay um but you my understanding you don't want to share your name is that okay and uh so and you were

00:14:28.800 where were you i guess when this all went down australia okay uh so you moved to australia i've moved

00:14:36.240 so we spent a year pretty consistently traveling where we were in europe we were in the united states we

00:14:41.520 were all around the united states back in europe australia europe so it ultimately ended in

00:14:45.920 australia 12 hours after i got there yes after i was i mean this was the final push like i was gonna

00:14:52.320 have to go back home and get my pets and move them over but besides that like i shipped we shipped stuff

00:14:56.880 to australia uh yeah this was supposed to be like we were picking a place to rent while we built home

00:15:02.480 and as soon like 12 hours after landing jet lagged tired yeah we ended up yeah he left i was i spent two

00:15:08.800 weeks in australia alone uh what was there a reason given um i like i think there's always a

00:15:15.680 straw that breaks the camel's back and the communication and the relationship really

00:15:19.760 lacked and it was really bad uh and then i would do like this push-pull thing where i would just like

00:15:24.080 beg for like the communication and any red pill guy is gonna find that annoying but if you lack the 0.56

00:15:28.240 ability to communicate there's no relationship so i think you know there was just a straw that broke

00:15:32.720 a camel's back there was an argument that escalated one day and that was just that was it like

00:15:37.120 there was no communication so it was things piling on top of things on top of things on top of things

00:15:41.840 and then one day it was just done okay wow good times good times yeah fun fun times fun times uh all

00:15:50.640 right um what about you um so all right how long have you are you single yes singer how long have you been

00:16:02.880 single uh about this year gonna be three years this year three years okay longest relationship um always

00:16:11.920 the longest like one two years almost two years yeah two years how many two-year relationships have you

00:16:21.760 been um like one to two let's say one to two yeah how many four times four times four times and of those

00:16:36.880 four one to two year relationships who would break up with who uh usually i said broke let's break up i mean

00:16:45.680 like you do the breakout yes okay all right what about you um i'm single i have been for a year and a

00:16:52.880 half my longest relationship was a one year been single for a year and a half longest one year all

00:16:59.760 right what about you i'm currently in a relationship and my longest one has been a year is that the current

00:17:06.800 relationship no how long has your current relationship been uh i'd say about 10 months now

00:17:13.840 10 months all right in your one year relationship who broke up with you i did okay your 10 month

00:17:19.840 relationship how did you guys meet uh through church through church okay what denomination catholic catholic

00:17:25.840 all right what about you i am in a relationship thanks to you that's right and my longest ever

00:17:35.040 relationship is not the current relationship that i'm in what's that my longest relationship is not

00:17:41.440 not the current one um but three years was the longest how long have you been dating this new guy

00:17:46.240 i have been dating this new guy for two months two months best two months of my life i owe it all to you

00:17:52.880 all right nice and um let's see here uh so he's a he watches the show he watches is he watching right

00:18:00.400 now i think he is you know what how old is the guy 35 is he doing pretty well what's he do for work

00:18:09.520 he he is a financial officer oh that's wait the chief chief financial a cfo correct oh uh well and

00:18:18.080 he's watching right now he's like he knows you're coming on he knows i'm coming on and he wished me

00:18:21.840 good luck and he said don't worry you're gonna do great so he saw your previous appearance

00:18:27.440 slid into the dms and now you're dating one of my viewers yes you're invited to the wedding i'm

00:18:35.120 wet i'm invited to the wedding i'm this is a matchmaking show it is all these girls come on 1.00

00:18:41.680 i'm not actually exaggerating there's been probably we've had over something like 2 000 guests i think

00:18:48.480 like a hundred of them have dm'd me and said hey i'm dating one of your viewers

00:18:54.720 uh so that's pretty wild um a lot of people find love i mean we had our show on sunday

00:19:02.400 uh the boyfriend and the girlfriend came on uh mason and alexa they actually they were both they were

00:19:07.760 both guests on the show and they kind of met through that so it's the uh hold on let me play something

00:19:13.360 here you're welcome you're welcome thank you you know what though because uh because of my assistance

00:19:28.560 because i helped my my viewer find love i think a champagne pop is in order and you know what i

00:19:34.720 think it should be the crystal pull up the crystal damien does he do does he do does he do crypto does

00:19:41.200 he does he's a crypto guy look my ethereum wallet my ethereum wallet is in the description you have to

00:19:47.760 send in a super chat too if you want to indicate that you're going to do the the crystal ethereum pop 0.98

00:19:53.200 one ethereum it's it's low right now fucking crypto's in the trash who lost money on the trump 0.99

00:19:59.120 fucking coin by the way uh that was rough um everything else the pepe fucked um but uh i think 1.00

00:20:08.080 a little ethereum pop i mean you know what i mean you're making me sweat a little champagne pop so uh 0.99

00:20:17.040 let's see here um that's cool though uh and what about you i'm in a relationship for four years

00:20:24.480 it is my longest and only the longest and only sweet and um how often do you nag him 0.86

00:20:33.520 never you never nag him have you ever slashed his tires no have you ever burned any of his clothes no

00:20:39.600 have you ever beat him with a belt no have you ever why did you why did you have to pause to think

00:20:45.840 about that it's been four years it's a long time so i had to think about it have you ever hit him

00:20:50.560 with a frying pan no have you ever fucked up his dinner i've only made him the best dinners of his 0.99

00:20:57.440 life you know you didn't fuck it up once you know i could never burnt the turkey or chicken or no 0.97

00:21:07.440 have you ever yelled at him in russian no comment that's does he speak russian no white guy yes okay

00:21:18.640 all right all right guys that's everybody's relationship status uh we have a chat coming

00:21:23.680 through here in just a sec thank you guys sam thing for the tier one rebel thing for the prime

00:21:27.760 appreciate it uh let's see here we have oh here we go okay here's an interesting one coming in 0.89

00:21:35.680 peter griffin donated 200 chat would you rather get a massage from a gay man or surgery from a female 0.95

00:21:43.440 doctor serious surgery so basically would you rather get a massage or die ladies what decade was world 1.00

00:21:52.000 war one it's 1914 to 1918 yeah period yeah we did this on sunday oh

00:22:01.840 i don't know oh oh a little bit all right i'll take a sip on that you're putting on a different

00:22:09.760 oh yeah

00:22:16.480 did you guys answer the question no yeah what was the question as for the first question i think i'd

00:22:20.800 rather get a massage instead of dying yeah right why the question is would you rather get a massage

00:22:26.400 from a gay man or serious surgery from a female doctor also what decade was world war one well that 0.69

00:22:31.920 that one's not to you guys it's to the chat right that's what um what decade was world war one it was

00:22:37.760 1914 yeah she said it oh who said it wow totally ruined it yeah good job marries failed all right uh

00:22:48.000 let's see how about you know what uh what what what was the primary decade of world war ii i wouldn't be

00:22:57.200 able to answer that guess guess 50s 50s okay 1940s okay

00:23:09.360 oh my god just guess just guess um nine um 1990 1990 okay all right

00:23:18.000 um 40s 50s it was 39 to 45 so primarily 40s yes 1935 to 1945 there you go when was the korean war

00:23:32.400 i'm sorry 1945 sorry i didn't get the word that you know the word i'm still learning english guys

00:23:42.080 sorry about that so yeah 1945 yeah 1950 oh me so horny me love you long time what the

00:23:50.480 why was that played that's crazy um when was the korean war 1940 1945 oh five don't don't touch the

00:23:59.520 go ahead no when was it 6 25 june 25th wait what i actually don't even know

00:24:10.480 it was like the 50s it was like the 50s it was the 50s right wait so korean war yeah it's a year 0.50

00:24:17.440 it's the 1945 it was 19 it was i didn't know the exact years but i know it was the 50s yeah 19 i 1950

00:24:24.320 1953 that's cool that's cool uh uh that's everybody's relationship status so that's awesome we're gonna get

00:24:33.360 into some of the pre-show notes here so why don't we do this uh callie uh you said uh wait hold on uh

00:24:43.920 in most of your time when you've dated someone for the first time they're taking you to dinner then

00:24:48.000 trying to i'm going to just read it verbatim taking you to dinner then trying to straight to 0.81

00:24:54.640 fuck you after dinner uh so i should have surprised that who ain't touch me for first time date in la 1.00

00:25:06.160 oh yeah yeah oh yeah yeah because you know like usually also la culture is different yes so i 0.99

00:25:13.760 learned the situation she worked when i'm out here and in korea i i had a good relationship with like

00:25:23.200 101 i prefer 101 i got asian korean culture so i always like be ready to be monogamy you know so um

00:25:35.360 when i was young still like making good career and still dating with god but at the same time it's

00:25:42.000 hard to make it but um so but i made this some long-term relationship though but when i move out here

00:25:51.520 it was a long-term relationship it's just two weeks one month or sometimes on and off for

00:26:00.480 two years three years something like this so um i'm 33 i just turned 33 i'm ready to make my own

00:26:10.080 family but i'm struggling yes you're struggling with the dating scene yes would you um what was it

00:26:19.600 you know dating in south korea versus dating in the united states different and do you prefer american

00:26:27.760 men versus south korean men um just i have a type sexy tall well you have a type yes okay you're

00:26:36.320 describing okay tall tall sexy sexy athletic do they have to have a grill oh do they have to have a

00:26:43.040 grill no hair no no tattoo please no tattoo yeah no grill no grill wait so tall sexy have to have what 1.00

00:26:49.760 like something athletic something strong yeah something strong strong because do you work out

00:26:55.040 yes okay you want a guy who works out uh do you erase do you prefer white black uh

00:27:00.160 uh native american uh i think i mostly prefer like i mean been dating with african america

00:27:13.200 but also mixed with white oh you want uh half mixed half black half white yeah i think i have a date to

00:27:24.080 the way i've been you know kind of situation she with black guy yes but uh mixed with white when you 0.61

00:27:31.280 say mixed though do you mean um the man is half or like some black guys and you did some white guys

00:27:38.800 first one first one you like half yeah half black half white half white what about blasian

00:27:44.720 oh half black half asian well i never you know dated with blasian but

00:27:54.320 i don't know happens it happens yeah exactly okay can i ask you said no tattoos but you have tattoos why

00:28:01.040 why is that right uh yeah i know right kind of opposite the type is a you know kind of like i'm very

00:28:09.120 look wild but this is kind of just for you know style fun i try to like so i don't mind who got the

00:28:16.800 tattoo but i prefer like who got no tattoo or that's more like you know i don't know just the

00:28:22.960 i don't care for the tattoo it's just i'm saying you don't like it too much how tall does that you said

00:28:29.120 tall right tall how tall six to six six to six two six foot to six foot two yes please yes please

00:28:39.760 okay you're so specific wait i have a question too yeah go ahead so if you want a guy that doesn't have

00:28:46.400 a girl but you have gems and he doesn't want a girl that doesn't have gems would you take them off for 1.00

00:28:52.560 him of course no problem but he he will be understand why why i have actually like some

00:29:01.200 guys doesn't like me have this tooth jam so i tried the remover but they also respect my you know style

00:29:09.920 for business making so to be honest they understand so i don't have to do but when they mention i can

00:29:17.920 consider to remove it it's easy to go so okay that is uh cool so okay black six foot to six foot two

00:29:28.000 uh well yeah tall sexy uh strong strong do you care about money or not really money we can grind

00:29:36.400 together good money yeah we can grind together so right wait so you moved how old were you when you

00:29:41.920 moved here so that you would have been 26 27 27 yeah and so uh but you were and you had pretty much

00:29:49.280 lived in south korea your whole life up until that point right yeah were you uh did you date uh south

00:29:56.320 korean men when you were in south korea or were you dating foreigners oh yeah of course i dated with

00:30:01.040 us korean men and also i'm korean american yes okay what city were uh were you in seoul oh seoul okay and uh

00:30:12.800 okay uh that's some interesting stuff there i do uh before i i want to wait for well uh i guess going

00:30:21.120 around the table what is everybody else's type why don't we start there starting with uh brinda so i'm

00:30:25.840 always going to be the first one yeah okay yeah my type a lot of pressure yeah right um you need it

00:30:32.720 to be like goal orientated you have to have a path in mind you don't have to be there but you have to be

00:30:40.720 just like passionate for yourself and um having a routine of like health is obviously really attractive

00:30:48.640 like if you work out but you don't have to be like fit and muscular as long as like you're consistent

00:30:53.120 um and you're disciplined and i think it's really hot when like uh people are

00:31:01.120 like they they study and like they learn and they're open to like new ideas even if it's like

00:31:05.680 different from their own perspectives and then like in terms of uh any like physical traits is there

00:31:11.520 anything there that you're looking for so i don't think so but all my friends tell me i always go for

00:31:16.080 the same type of guy where it's like yeah what's that what would your friends what would they say they

00:31:22.240 say the awkward awkward either white man uh that's like also hispanic and mixed um but tall but not

00:31:30.400 too tall yeah i don't know but when you say tall what are we talking about here um well not not too tall

00:31:39.120 like five nine five yeah so half white half do you prefer do you have a preference on like are they

00:31:48.240 mexican or puerto rican dominican no so it's dominican like that's latino right uh is dominican

00:31:56.080 thank you thank you yes i don't know if i'm just talking to someone and we click or if i know you

00:31:59.920 for a while and then there's just like some type of energetic connection i'm into it sure so yeah okay

00:32:06.160 and you do um a big thing that you do is a raving i almost want to let's just pull up your instagram

00:32:10.720 pull up your instagram i just went to a rave this weekend i just went to a rave so there are some

00:32:16.400 recent rave i'm gonna send it to damien okay in the private chat but i am more tamed that the

00:32:21.920 outfits that i used to wear were much worse so i have a question for you on this and this has come

00:32:26.960 up on the show before okay uh do you do you consider yourself more like traditional um yes and no i'm

00:32:34.320 i'm open to all ideas and perspectives what about like when it comes to relationship relationship dynamics do you

00:32:40.080 prefer more 50 50 do you prefer prefer the guy leads do you prefer uh maybe are you more dominant

00:32:46.320 are you more masculine what what's your preference there um so in the past i actually sought out

00:32:51.520 relationships where i wanted the man to be more dominant and i was willing to be more submissive

00:32:56.400 but then um kind of like after like my last breakup because it was so messy and i was like all right

00:33:01.520 we need to pause and we need to like just really figure out our values here and i'm i just came to now

00:33:06.880 this new kind of like way of thinking of doesn't really matter who's um taking care of who as long

00:33:13.840 as like there's value on both ends and it could be 50 50 it could be if he needs help i'll help him out

00:33:19.360 i recently paid for a man's dinner and i had no issue with it you know and um but in the past i would

00:33:26.160 have never thought about that i would have never wanted to do that so it just depends i guess on um

00:33:33.040 where i'm at and right now it's yeah whatever okay and uh so um how about though like think think to

00:33:44.160 your future husband do you want to get married yeah eventually you want to have kids yeah okay

00:33:48.800 so you're married you have a husband uh are you gonna any so we're gonna have our own empires

00:33:56.880 and own separate empire we're gonna have our own separate empires and we're gonna um help each other

00:34:01.840 and encourage each other by supporting each other and giving each other ideas and if i were to have

00:34:06.400 a kid um with with having empire i would not mind putting a pause on it because i feel like if i'm

00:34:12.960 making the decision to have a kid then um i will then prioritize that okay uh damian pull up the

00:34:20.000 instagram all right so she's a waver uh scroll down scroll down keep that's my brand right there

00:34:28.080 cyber waiver scroll down scroll down scroll down scroll down have a clothing brown wow scroll down

00:34:32.000 i'm trying to find like a rave photo they're all right oh how about the one where i'm wearing the

00:34:36.080 cross no no i'm at a rave and i have a cross on in a rosary i might uh i have pasties on i think that

00:34:41.840 that one's epic these are so down now at this point just keep going just go to the very bottom

00:34:48.480 okay they're getting worse they get worse they get worse oh no you still got this okay

00:34:55.440 were you squatting in a rave outfit i was squatting in a rave outfit

00:34:59.840 okay so how many how many raves have you been to i can't tell you but i won i went through an era where

00:35:08.640 i was going to a rave every weekend and traveling just to go to the raves i was getting paid for it

00:35:12.400 of course but like still like it it was uh yeah wait wait wait scroll back up oh there you go

00:35:18.320 there you go wait no go down go down go down down down down keep going down down down down keep going

00:35:25.120 oh god uh it just never stops it's not okay yeah this keeps going well i've been doing this for about

00:35:32.400 three years now this is my job i made it my job up up up no down down down just go down i remember

00:35:37.840 seeing one keep going keep going down down down down there's one video in particular where i was

00:35:42.880 like what is it like describe it i didn't i probably know what it is i don't recall to be honest uh if i

00:35:49.120 see it i'll know it i'll know it when i see it but at this point that's okay some raves all right cool

00:35:57.760 this is when i first got into it so now at this point now i'm just an attendee i'm not working here

00:36:01.840 now okay now we're going i'm gonna attend i'm in college college era working college era so question

00:36:07.680 for you point blank yes you're dating a guy you love him this could be the one you've only been

00:36:13.840 dating for three months though but you're like this is the guy and he's like now that you guys are

00:36:19.680 serious now you're in a relationship he's like yo i don't want you going to raves anymore it's over

00:36:25.920 do you say yes or is it the end of the relationship well that that would never happen we would have never

00:36:30.560 met what do you mean he could have you could have met in the library what are you talking about

00:36:34.800 we wouldn't have a line we wouldn't have connected what do you mean did you go shopping at trader

00:36:39.200 joe's he could have hit you up at trader joe's no i do uh instacart uber eats i only go he's the

00:36:44.080 instacart guy i only go he's the fucking instacart guy i i don't know him so i would never connect with 0.98

00:36:48.320 him i would never connect with anyone he's so hot he's dropping off your i don't care chia seeds from 1.00

00:36:53.360 costco he's dropping off some fucking chia seeds a flirt yeah he's the one he's the one he's doing 0.99

00:36:58.480 instacart he's grinding and then he hit he hits a pump on some crypto and now he's rich and he's 1.00

00:37:05.200 like i'm taking care of you fuck this rave shit fuck this work shit i got you i i'm holding it 1.00

00:37:11.200 down no but you you can't be doing this rave shit this is my empire that i'm building you're going 1.00

00:37:15.760 to be wearing i have two companies because of it so i would never no he's in the billions 1.00

00:37:20.320 fuck that shit you don't gotta work another day in your life i i want to work no no he wants 1.00

00:37:25.360 he wants to pump out seven kids with you oh i'm good i'm good you're good i'm good on that that's 1.00

00:37:31.280 a real dynasty is seven kids not i have two businesses no that's the dynasty for me my

00:37:37.520 my dynasty or just i care about my goals and that's where i'm at right now so you could have 0.92

00:37:43.520 whatever the fuck you have and i will support you good for you you know but it's like um i i don't chase 0.99

00:37:49.600 that i used to i i would i would have said yes fuck it i don't want to work a day in my life 0.99

00:37:55.120 let's do it okay but um i just and so your business is it's like relate rave related it's 0.90

00:38:01.520 well it's for the edm community so it's like yeah like rave related but so you're this is the love of

00:38:06.240 your life love of your life we would have never met you could you could meet him some other way i

00:38:12.320 don't think so you could meet him some other way on my mind can i ask a question yeah go ahead

00:38:15.840 so you said that you wouldn't stop going to raves for him but what if the same scenario like he's

00:38:21.600 he's fine i never said that i said we would have never met okay yeah so you meet this guy and he's

00:38:28.160 great you meet him at a rave and he's wonderful fantastic you guys really hit it off and he says

00:38:33.520 babe i want this instagram down like i want these posts down then like we can still go to raves together

00:38:39.200 you just can't post photos like this i want them deleted if we're gonna have a kid together in the

00:38:43.120 future if we're gonna have a future and you want me to take you seriously you have to delete these

00:38:46.000 photos would you take them off of instagram so that's an interesting question and i see where

00:38:52.400 your head is at with that question but because this is my job um i don't just go to raves just to rave

00:38:57.680 i go to raves because this is how i'm going to make my living and if i meet someone at the rave and

00:39:03.600 they decide okay i don't like your instagram i don't like the way that you're posting

00:39:07.200 um and we are um at like a at a point of our relationship where i do like them and i do see

00:39:14.400 a future i do see like value on both ends then i will consider changing what i wear i will consider

00:39:21.440 changing what i post but ultimately like if it doesn't impact like the growth of my business then

00:39:28.160 um yeah i'll consider but again um it's not about the raving it's about i enjoy the music i love the

00:39:34.720 culture and i'm grateful for it so you can still go and you can post like stories with the rave in 0.97

00:39:39.920 the story and you can post photos from like waist up but he says i want the photos of your ass off 0.96

00:39:44.960 of instagram cool would you take them down yeah of course yeah that was a question yeah yeah yeah 0.94

00:39:50.640 would you stop raving well no well no because so she had asked if we had met at a rave and then he

00:39:58.640 was like i we could still go to raves together but you have to take your photos down but if if if

00:40:04.640 in that hypothetical if we met at a rave why why why would he want to stop raving let's say he this is

00:40:12.560 the first time he's ever been to a rave and he's there in an employment context because you're really

00:40:18.000 stuck on i would have never so you you're saying absent you going to raves you never meet men

00:40:24.720 well so when i am at a festival i am in a mode where um i am talking and i am connecting with

00:40:36.480 people and i honestly just spend a lot of time alone or with my friends that i already have

00:40:41.760 connections with so i i don't really connect with anyone other than when i'm working at these like

00:40:47.280 public events okay um and uh so i'm gonna go ahead and chime in so on your instagram you have gym post

00:41:00.720 you're saying that you don't really go out besides raving but you have gym posts let's say a guy comes

00:41:04.640 up to you at the gym hits on you and y'all hit it off would you like still keep going to the gym i mean

00:41:10.880 sorry keep going graving um i mean maybe i'll just keep it like of us working out at the gym

00:41:17.360 if he doesn't like raving and i would i wouldn't further like the relationship with him so i'm not

00:41:23.520 familiar with with raves i've never been to one i just know people like i know people who have been

00:41:27.040 to raves yeah they're notorious for being very druggie alcohol-y kind of events so

00:41:34.240 when a child you meet a guy he's great and you guys hit it off and he wants to have a baby with

00:41:41.920 you are you like leaving the baby at home with a babysitter to go to a rave and get messed up on

00:41:47.680 like i'm not saying that you do ecstasy i'm just saying it comes with the territory or any kind of

00:41:51.520 drug are you leaving this baby home with a babysitter to like go raving when you're 30 35 so i'm currently

00:41:59.840 24 and i do not plan to um i mean if it happens it happens but i i'm setting it for what i'm like

00:42:07.360 in 10 years from now and at that time i have a kid there is one thing to say actually that not all

00:42:16.080 ravers take substances um oh wait you have a kid no no no she gave me a hypothetical that i have a kid

00:42:20.960 oh okay yeah yeah um that and i was just giving some context so not all ravers take substances um

00:42:27.280 a lot of people are there for the music but the culture is big and it does exist and um when you

00:42:32.480 do get into raving that is the first thing that you hit because that's just like what raving is known

00:42:38.320 for and i feel like you a lot of people do fall into a cycle and a lot of people do end up coming out of

00:42:43.760 it because they generally love the music that being said i am in that phase where i generally just love

00:42:49.760 the music and i don't take anything anymore so if i have a kid and my kid is already at an age where

00:42:56.880 they don't need me to be there and me and my significant other want to go to a show because

00:43:04.480 whatever we're gonna go maybe but um it's not to get fucked up or it's not to just like 0.92

00:43:12.240 you know it's just to spend time with each other and maybe we haven't gone out for about a year we 0.85

00:43:16.720 want to go to do you think you'll still enjoy raving when you're 40 and you're married with children or

00:43:20.960 do you think that because you're you're kind of like i don't know you so i'm not saying it's your

00:43:24.480 entire personality but you're saying it's your job and that's what you're trying to do with your

00:43:27.200 life is make a career out of raving but do you see yourself at 40 or 50 years old still like doing

00:43:32.880 this no i i no no i don't see myself like um like hardcore raver uh like so then it's not a career

00:43:41.760 well i have an entertainment company where we have a podcast in the scene and we have artists that come

00:43:46.480 on to our podcast so no matter what uh we're going to be passing down the reins and so the career has

00:43:52.960 nothing to do with actually going to raves like you said earlier that's just the market the market

00:43:57.520 that uh that we're in is the edm dance scene so they're ravers and i'm a rave i was a hardcore

00:44:04.800 raver here look i'll just ask the question again so it's okay i think we're kind of avoiding the

00:44:10.880 question by saying well in this hypothetical scenario i would just never meet this guy in this

00:44:16.000 hypothetical scenario we're going to go ahead and grant that you did meet this guy he's not in the rave

00:44:21.760 scene whatever he's the love of your life we have to grant it he says i want you to stop raving

00:44:28.400 do you stop raving well then you would have to define what you oh what i mean by stop no what

00:44:35.840 do you mean by raving what is your perspective on raving like what what is it that if i were to go to

00:44:40.640 a rave what am i doing that you want me to know music festivals no raves buying a ticket and entering

00:44:46.000 it doesn't matter what your purpose is there can't go to them that's that's what he wants do you do

00:44:51.680 it um if if me if in that moment me going to a rave has nothing to do with what i'm currently doing

00:45:02.160 for work then i'll consider but if it's going to impact my bank account then i will not consider

00:45:10.160 he makes a million dollars a year i don't care i want my own money what do you mean your own money

00:45:14.320 i don't understand like i want my own money sure sure let me um i have a question on this so um

00:45:20.400 do you mind me asking like how much money you make right now

00:45:25.120 yeah i don't want to put that six figures you want to do a range i don't want to put that on the

00:45:28.560 internet okay yeah let's say your husband makes double what you make and he'll whatever point in

00:45:35.120 life however much money you would make in that point in life he'll be earning double it at at

00:45:40.640 any given point so he makes what you make and then he basically makes what you're making anyways

00:45:48.480 he says i want you to stop working you guys are married

00:45:53.840 you're still generating the exact same amount of money that you would generate do you stop working

00:45:59.600 well legally i can't do that because one company that i have i have it with three other i have i

00:46:05.040 have i have legally because i have a company with three other people so if i just stop then it would

00:46:10.240 be a whole show so i can't just completely stop what do you mean what are you talking about so i

00:46:16.800 me and three i want buy out my shares problem solved well then then that's just me probably not

00:46:22.480 wanting to do that i i what do you mean like i just i wouldn't want to i wouldn't do that

00:46:27.120 like that's my baby and i what's your baby what is it what's the business an entertainment company

00:46:31.840 entertainment yeah what is it what do you guys do it's a podcast eating a podcast and it's okay yeah

00:46:38.080 and this moment i love it and it's it's my baby so it's hard for me to like think about letting it go

00:46:44.960 okay it might change it might it might change so just to be clear like um let me ask you this

00:46:50.240 between having your podcast and your business and making your own money if like here's the two trade-offs

00:46:56.320 husband children or rave podcast and your business and being a boss babe and making your own money

00:47:04.320 which do you pick

00:47:07.680 if you have to pick one in in this moment you have to pick in this moment if it was today and

00:47:11.600 i had to pick one but for life for life it's all situational i feel like that's the i just explained

00:47:20.000 the situation no like my mindset will change i can't put i i i this is what i can't do

00:47:26.160 the situation is right now right oh yeah right now i would keep what i'm doing i wouldn't have

00:47:29.920 a kid right now no but so the entailment is if you pick right now you're here your podcast is going

00:47:36.480 to be insanely successful you're going to have the most popular raving podcast ever you're going to be

00:47:41.920 making a million dollars a year doing it but that's it that's your business for life and you're going to

00:47:48.160 be uh single for the rest of it or and and i have a clothing brand too okay your clothing brand is

00:47:54.160 does good too or or and you have to select you have a crossroads and you can't there's no going back

00:48:01.840 or husband children which do you pick in this moment i am picking what i'm currently doing okay so

00:48:08.800 but the entailment of that is that you die single and oh okay i see what you mean die single

00:48:14.080 and alone well i love myself so that i will be okay with that you'd be okay dying single and

00:48:20.160 alone but i will have friends yeah i still have friends right sure you can okay then that's all

00:48:25.920 i need yes you can have relationships you can have friends that's all i need but they're going to get

00:48:29.440 married and have kids and they're probably by the time they're in their mid-30s they're probably not 1.00

00:48:33.680 your well i mean can i still like flirt with people and like yeah you can fuck oh you can 0.99

00:48:40.000 then like you know what i'm gonna limit you i'm limiting you to one person three months 0.99

00:48:45.280 situationship that's it i'm cool you get three months situationship and then let's do it they're

00:48:50.400 and then they're gone cool okay new experiences okay so all right i come from a place of attachment

00:48:55.920 with love um so i feel like with that in mind i i'll be okay with that okay yeah huh and so i guess

00:49:04.000 my question is though uh hmm do you like working like do you enjoy it now i do if if you weren't

00:49:14.080 making any money though would you would you do it yeah i don't you would still do it okay i was 0.81

00:49:18.480 fucking eating because i was thinking about this the other day i was thinking about this the other day 0.91

00:49:22.560 it's like women when it comes to like if you meet a guy who's capable of saying hey i want you to 1.00

00:49:27.760 stay at home he's a high earner and he's like just stay at home you don't have to work take care of

00:49:32.320 the kids take care of me take care of the family and i was thinking like a lot of women would say no 1.00

00:49:38.240 to that but then i was thinking what if an employer came and said i'm gonna pay you a hundred thousand

00:49:45.600 dollars to do exactly what your husband wants you to do in the home my obviously mine like not sex

00:49:53.520 or anything but like an employer comes and says okay we want you to take care of this household

00:49:58.240 and you're gonna be a nanny and you're gonna raise these kids and we're gonna pay you a hundred 0.73

00:50:02.000 thousand dollars a year and i was thinking like it's interesting to me that women would take the 1.00

00:50:08.000 hundred thousand dollar a year job i wouldn't well because that's not that's not what i want to do

00:50:12.560 that's not what fulfills me so i'm not gonna go do that i'm not gonna go clean a house if someone

00:50:18.160 that fulfills you then hell yeah go off go off but like that's that's not me um so i wouldn't i would 0.52

00:50:24.560 want to make the money in in the field that makes me happy or let me ask you this then let's say you

00:50:31.360 already have kids and then there's some circumstance where you need to stop working

00:50:39.440 it's either your kids or your job kids if i made the decisions all right that's right

00:50:45.520 um we have a new guest who just joined us welcome welcome uh here's what i'm gonna have you do i'm

00:50:50.240 gonna have you scoot into the table and if you can scoot your microphone that way okay this one scoot 0.79

00:50:55.440 it uh scoot it push it nope uh that way which one forward can somebody help her please forward yeah 1.00

00:51:03.040 uh yeah uh so tell us your name age occupation location hi my name is ivy i'm 24 sorry i'm 24 and

00:51:14.800 i used to be a public school teacher in oakland and now i'm currently transitioning to marketing and

00:51:20.560 social media um so yeah that's my name age occupation all right and uh where are you from i'm from the

00:51:28.320 626 or like san gabor valley yeah sgv yeah sgv okay and uh any education college university oh yeah

00:51:37.040 i graduated from ucsd oh it's san diego okay nice and what was your major i majored in literature and

00:51:44.160 political science double major oh sorry uh literature international literature and then minor in minor

00:51:51.840 science yeah political science okay and let's see uc san diego were you in a sorority uh no i had no

00:51:58.880 social life no social life you think ucsd is pretty good party school i've never been to any parties at

00:52:05.520 ucsd you never went to any what's that not really oh yeah it's like called uc socially dead or is it san

00:52:12.400 diego state i think it's san diego state i mean but they're yeah well whatever um okay cool and uh

00:52:18.400 what's your relationship status uh right now i'm single okay single how long have you been single

00:52:24.480 for right now it feels like it's a long time but i think it's just been 2023 so two years yeah two

00:52:33.200 years all right so it is a long time and then what's the longest relationship that you've been in two

00:52:38.000 years two years and is that the one that ended two years ago no that was it yeah okay uh when was the

00:52:45.120 two year relationship uh i've been in like i think like three no two two-year relationships okay

00:52:51.520 and so that that was a long time ago like right before covid so like high school i know uh high

00:52:58.080 school one and then college when i was at ucsd one uh so those were both two years and then the other

00:53:04.240 ones after that were just one year okay the the one that ended two years ago how long was that one

00:53:10.160 um the one that ended a little bit less we knew each other for exactly one year but maybe we were

00:53:15.680 dating for like six months six months okay and uh of the two two-year relationships who broke up with

00:53:23.040 who i think uh it was like the first one was me i broke up with the first one to date the second one

00:53:31.120 and so the second one broke up with me to go to the military yeah because he was korean so he had to go to

00:53:38.160 the military service got it okay uh and let's see and the most recent relationship that ended two

00:53:46.000 years ago who broke up with who um he broke it with me okay why uh it was a tough decision but maybe

00:53:54.320 it was about i think i'm like a little bit high maintenance when it comes to relationships and at

00:54:00.400 first he was like really gung-ho about it but over time i think i probably exhausted him yeah okay all

00:54:08.000 right rock and roll and uh so everybody here is single except for alina and mary and steph yeah oh

00:54:17.200 and steph sorry wait oh that's right my r looks like an s somehow not sure uh okay so single single

00:54:26.240 single single single um what does that actually mean though to be single so eight months two weeks

00:54:33.040 three three what was it three years you've been single three months i don't know three years three

00:54:38.400 years you've been uh single for two years one and a half is there currently a guy in the picture

00:54:47.360 um as of recently yeah yeah but like there he's not like a guy in the picture he's just someone who i

00:54:53.440 had uh the first interest in in a long time and i was like okay so i asked him out okay one before i have

00:54:58.800 you answer i'm gonna let the chat come through old man marine donated two hundred dollars thank you

00:55:06.000 brian for helping me get my balls back after a horrible marriage i have a new girlfriend now and

00:55:12.080 she's expecting congrats young man daddy soon oh great show keep fighting against feminism oh thank you 0.98

00:55:20.400 marine appreciate it uh congratulations on the uh the kid man that's uh that's awesome

00:55:28.640 that's awesome man congrats al 777 donated 199 dollars this chick is a gingerly and the most 1.00

00:55:39.120 delusional i have ever seen on your show also that asian chick from sunday about the serbian guy was 0.92

00:55:45.760 totally lying and crying fake tears these chicks crazy any responses from any of the panelists on this 1.00

00:55:53.280 one ginger hair i don't do she has reddish hair i don't know who does that make sense i'm so very 0.91

00:56:03.760 confused i think you need to donate again and specify yeah huh okay well uh 777 i do appreciate it man

00:56:15.040 and then we have here why not uh meet the kaiser thank you man brian how are you man very happy to hear

00:56:20.640 see six chair six found love here as much fun as it is to watch andrew square up with feminists people 1.00

00:56:25.840 sometimes forget this is first and foremost a dating podcast congratulations to uh you you want

00:56:32.560 to say anything where's the champagne pop i'm so happy you're a boyfriend you know i don't know if

00:56:36.400 he might call him right now give me my phone i will yeah okay uh well we can't have it we can't have it on

00:56:41.760 you got to call him behind the scenes okay it's technically a felony to record somebody's uh

00:56:49.120 conversation but oh text them for you text them yo give her get her phone do you have her phone 0.98

00:56:53.840 what's your phone look like it's it's pink all right yeah no the other that one all right here just

00:57:00.080 pass it to me over here all right we're gonna we're gonna peer pressure him we're gonna

00:57:04.240 bully so what are we what should i text him yeah text him be like brian is demanding okay brian is

00:57:09.920 demanding a champagne oh no i don't i don't like him spending money on me to be quite honest

00:57:16.480 he's not spending money on you on brian on a cause okay yeah he owes me he owes me a favor you know he

00:57:23.280 owes me oh my gosh i got you guys linked up i'm a matchmaker over here that's actually my fee i

00:57:28.240 forgot to tell him my fee uh it's one one ethereum here's the story though any men watching who want

00:57:34.560 to date any of these women it's a one ethereum we have rather have flowers technically but what 1.00

00:57:39.760 wouldn't you rather have flowers huh flowers not roses that are orange what's his favorite flower

00:57:46.240 dandelions yeah good times good times she brought me flowers as a gift i was watching

00:57:52.880 the podcast a couple weeks ago and he he seemed so upset that nobody ever brought him flowers i was

00:57:56.880 very upset yeah so as a thank you for having me on the show i brought up ryan flowers she look at

00:58:02.400 that she actually brought me but you are you gonna give are you gonna take are you gonna give them to

00:58:08.240 another girl tomorrow you said that on the podcast a couple weeks ago i'm giving them to to damien my

00:58:13.360 producer that's so sweet and then he's gonna give them to hit to whatever his girlfriend okay cool yeah

00:58:19.920 oh uh just put it back there thank you though appreciate it that's very nice very nice uh thank

00:58:27.520 you thank you very much okay uh where were we uh we're talking about stuff relationships dating

00:58:34.880 podcast something you're asking what yes we started going around like with our types and we also started

00:58:40.080 going around with what a single mean oh yes are you actually thank you thank you uh so you're currently

00:58:45.760 involved how long have you been seeing this guy i've known him for about a year but um just been

00:58:51.520 on two dates three dates three dates do you have a roster so my version of a roster is i don't sleep

00:58:58.880 with all of them but there are oh i only i only ever sleep with one person at the same time i would

00:59:04.640 never do more than that but it doesn't mean that i'm not open to talking to new people so my roster

00:59:09.360 has maybe like four guys that i could just say hi to like text hey you want to go work out

00:59:15.760 um yeah and you've dated you're dating them all though well i wouldn't say a workout's a date uh

00:59:25.200 well hi i mean hanging out but the potential they're so that's the thing they're they're potential

00:59:30.880 lovers potential lovers potential lovers yeah huh okay and uh so you have a roster four and then one

00:59:39.920 and then there's like the main hoe you have a main hoe i don't have it it's not a main hoe it's 1.00

00:59:44.800 it's a main piece this sounds so bad it's just just the one person that i'm that i'm actually

00:59:53.520 investing more time um and opening myself up more to be more vulnerable with got it and have you guys

01:00:03.360 had carnal knowledge

01:00:04.320 i asked him out and i yeah you asked him out yeah wait what do you mean you asked him like you

01:00:14.000 like like like yes i don't know what that question is sorry that question is too much on the internet

01:00:20.880 wait when you say like you guys are exclusive no no no no sorry that was just my brain whenever

01:00:26.800 sorry that's okay wait so you you asked him like you want are you boyfriend girlfriend no no no no

01:00:32.320 like i asked him on a date oh when i'm talking carnal knowledge no i know what you mean and

01:00:39.920 again that was just my brain i don't want to put that on i don't know it's just weird to say i'm sorry

01:00:45.440 okay that's fine um do the other three or four guys that you're seeing know that 0.93

01:00:51.360 that you're fucking another dude i don't know how else to say it yeah well like um 0.96

01:00:59.600 it's it's it's not really like their place to to judge like we're not is but do they know 0.98

01:01:06.240 regardless of judgment do they know this is not their need to know so it's not their place to know 0.94

01:01:11.280 another place to know i would want to know but if i'm not fucking you then why why do you care 1.00

01:01:16.400 well i don't i don't date women who are fucking other men what then well then there you go yeah 0.99

01:01:23.680 but that's why i want to know so i don't take a girl out on a date who fucked a guy the night before 1.00

01:01:29.600 well okay but i would i would never let a guy take me out so these guys you said you'd go on gym dates

01:01:35.040 or whatever yeah because i just text me i want to go work out or they text hey you want to go work

01:01:38.480 out and it's just hanging out with a guy who um that could be a potential lover like potential

01:01:45.360 lover so but then in addition to the guys who you're going on these like dates with but you're

01:01:49.920 not hooking up with them what about the guy who you are hooking up with and he's like oh what the 0.99

01:01:54.160 fuck she's going on dates with other dudes but i'm not fucking them no you said you were 1.00

01:01:58.640 fucking no i'm not fucking them i'm not no you're fucking a singular man yeah one guy yeah sure but he 1.00

01:02:04.720 might feel a type of way like oh she's dating other dudes and i was inside of her yesterday 0.99

01:02:11.600 i don't know how i feel about this then bye really damn cool heartless well yeah like we're not

01:02:19.040 exclusive because once i'm exclusive like we're exclusive so if we're not then it's like

01:02:24.720 do you think most guys would not care about that i don't know if you were sleeping with somebody

01:02:29.920 else and also going out with them do you think most of them would not care or most of them would

01:02:33.840 care i'm not sure keep it yeah i've honestly haven't really um like i guess quote unquote

01:02:41.440 dated to like really know that i've always just been in relationships so this is like my first time

01:02:46.160 ever single and on my own do you think that a guy would want to take you seriously if you're not

01:02:51.360 taking him seriously because if you're not like even if you guys aren't exclusive if you're dating

01:02:56.080 other guys like how serious could you be about him well yeah so like the energy that i put out is

01:03:00.320 the energy that i receive so if i'm putting out the energy and intention that i don't want anything

01:03:03.680 serious then i of course expect the same energy back i'm not looking for a boyfriend so you're just

01:03:09.440 having fun you're just i'm just enjoying life like i yeah okay so this energy that you give out don't

01:03:15.920 you think it should be like vice versa yeah so i'm not saying it's wrong what you're doing but don't

01:03:20.800 you think don't you think it's like i know it's not their need to know but let's say one of those four

01:03:26.800 guys wants to take you serious i know you don't want anything with them but don't you think they

01:03:31.760 should know as a form of like respect as just a person because if i was in your situation and i

01:03:38.320 was a girl and a guy that i was fucking but i wanted to be serious with i found out that he's talking to 0.89

01:03:43.520 four of the girls i would be hurt and i would want to know because i wouldn't want to waste my time

01:03:48.000 um especially if it's just like even if it's just going to the gym i wouldn't want to waste my time

01:03:52.320 when i could be getting to know someone that i could actually have a future with yeah 100 that's

01:03:57.520 that's a beautiful question because um i i totally hear that and that's that's the beauty of communication

01:04:03.360 you know like when someone actually communicates that okay we're starting to like see each other

01:04:09.120 more and i'm having a more a bigger interest in you or whatever um and then we would talk and we

01:04:15.280 would communicate and that's between us and then yeah but of course i would never lie if someone like

01:04:19.920 i'm open book do you want to ask me a question ask me a question i'll answer and then yeah oh so

01:04:24.800 they don't know until they ask you yeah and that's like vice versa like i'm not gonna if i don't want

01:04:29.840 to know something or i don't feel the need to know i'm not going to ask and if i want to know that i'm

01:04:33.840 going to ask and that's the beauty of communication what is the threshold where you view a situation

01:04:41.360 reaching something serious where you do need to have that discussion of what's the expectation

01:04:48.960 between your dynamic i honestly don't know because i've um this is again like dating is

01:04:57.120 like new for me or like this the way that i'm dating is like is the way that dating was able to

01:05:02.160 like make sense with my lifestyle and it's new for me so i don't know okay i guess moving on uh you've

01:05:10.240 been single for two weeks do you have have yet a rebound yet no i i'm a serial like long-term relationship

01:05:16.480 type person i have options but i'm not i think i always believe in taking time to heal yourself and

01:05:22.000 figure your i don't i don't think that it's i don't think it ever turns out well when you immediately

01:05:26.960 jump into another relationship without working on yourself and healing yourself first i think that you

01:05:31.520 just take listen am like am i sad on some level of course i am am i on some level also relieved yes i

01:05:39.760 am but that being said i don't anybody that gets into a relationship right after they've left somebody

01:05:46.320 else i don't care what they say they're still like a week after that person you're still thinking about

01:05:50.560 that person two weeks after that person you're still thinking about that person and a month after

01:05:53.680 that person you're still thinking about that person so i don't think it's right to enter into another

01:05:58.320 relationship and start trying to learn somebody else when you're still thinking about

01:06:01.360 Well, ex, whoever.

01:06:03.560 So, options, yes.

01:06:05.800 Rebounds, no.

01:06:06.720 Boyfriends, no.

01:06:08.160 I usually try to give it, like, at least three to six months.

01:06:10.960 And I don't enter a sexual relationship until, like, it's exclusive.

01:06:14.580 If there's no exclusivity, it's not.

01:06:15.820 It's not happening.

01:06:17.840 So, how long do you typically wait?

01:06:21.060 Like, what if the guy's like, I'm not dating anybody else.

01:06:24.920 This is the first date.

01:06:25.820 Let's be exclusive.

01:06:26.640 Like, will you smash right away?

01:06:28.260 No.

01:06:29.440 Second date?

01:06:30.500 Maybe.

01:06:30.840 I mean, I was with my, I was with the ex-fiance on the first, like, night one.

01:06:34.220 And it was, like, but he was just.

01:06:35.920 Oh, wait, hold on.

01:06:36.940 Wait, wait, wait, wait.

01:06:37.820 Hold on.

01:06:40.260 It's the first night.

01:06:41.520 Yeah, but.

01:06:41.860 I thought you need exclusivity.

01:06:42.720 So, I had seen his content and he was basically, like, if you want a girl to take you seriously,

01:06:47.220 like, she has to be just, my, after the first date, my Instagram was down.

01:06:51.800 And he, this was just, like, fun and giggles to him.

01:06:54.440 But after date one, my Instagram was down.

01:06:57.640 Like, I was borderline getting ready to quit my job.

01:07:00.020 I was, like, anything he wanted, I would have given him.

01:07:03.240 So, I mean, he was just, like, an extraordinary circumstance.

01:07:07.720 But I wanted him to take me seriously.

01:07:09.480 And I knew that, like, my time with him in the United States before he bounced to wherever

01:07:12.760 he was going next was, like, this.

01:07:14.740 So, we spent a whole week together after, like, it was night one.

01:07:18.100 And then we spent, like, five days together.

01:07:19.620 It was our first encounter.

01:07:20.660 But I wouldn't, that's not, like, my norm.

01:07:23.240 Got it.

01:07:23.820 Okay.

01:07:24.380 And, um, wait.

01:07:26.420 So, how about before that, though?

01:07:29.960 So, before that, the first boyfriend I ever had in my life, going back to types, like,

01:07:35.660 my friends have this joke that I strictly only date balding men in their mid-30s.

01:07:40.280 Um, they all look pretty.

01:07:42.980 Yes.

01:07:43.660 That's awesome.

01:07:46.040 So, the first boyfriend that I ever had, we were together, like, the first person I

01:07:49.680 had ever been with, we were together probably, like, three months before we, before there

01:07:54.880 was any type of, like, sex.

01:07:56.360 And then the next boyfriend, the long-term, the four-and-a-half-year one, we were together,

01:08:01.420 it must have been two, three dates.

01:08:03.500 Was your, uh, fiancé, was he loyal to you?

01:08:05.900 Like, did he tell me he was loyal, or what do I think?

01:08:11.340 You said it was, like, a red pill guy.

01:08:12.840 I don't know who, but, like, isn't it, uh, the case, like, closed on the woman's end,

01:08:19.260 open on the guy's end? 1.00

01:08:20.720 I think, like, you can't fuck other dudes, he can fuck other dudes, no, other chicks. 1.00

01:08:25.620 Yeah, yeah, got that. 1.00

01:08:26.180 I think that I chose to be proactively oblivious in the relationship a lot of the time, so

01:08:29.580 he could, I think he was just telling me what I wanted to hear.

01:08:31.660 Do I think that he was sleeping around?

01:08:33.180 Absolutely.

01:08:33.660 Like, especially just knowing his, completely.

01:08:36.540 Okay.

01:08:36.940 But there is something that's, like, eh, if I'm not gonna leave the relationship, so

01:08:41.260 I can have these insecurities, but if I'm gonna sit there and harp on it over and over

01:08:44.680 and over again, he's just gonna lie anyway, so I'd either exit the relationship, like,

01:08:48.040 if you're still following girls on Instagram every day, and I see, like, these Insta-hoes 1.00

01:08:52.540 that you're following, I assume, like, there's, you're not following them because you want

01:08:56.820 to see what they're up to this weekend.

01:08:58.400 There's intent, so.

01:09:01.280 Okay, uh, what about you?

01:09:03.060 Do you, uh, you got, is there a guy in the picture? 0.55

01:09:05.900 A half-white, half-black, tall, sexy African man? 0.91

01:09:15.160 Who's tall?

01:09:16.420 Oh, actually, he's my crush.

01:09:19.760 You have a crush?

01:09:20.620 Yeah, I have a crush.

01:09:21.900 Have you guys met in person?

01:09:24.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah so after —

01:09:29.820 So after my ex, about three years ago, I made him throw the hinge, the dating app.

01:09:37.060 He's so cute.

01:09:38.060 He's so cute.

01:09:39.060 Yeah?

01:09:40.060 So, um, so he's four years older than me, and in Korea, we have the culture who—

01:09:49.060 Do you bow?

01:09:50.060 Huh?

01:09:51.060 Do you bow to him?

01:09:52.060 Because he's older.

01:09:53.060 He's your elder.

01:09:54.060 Why would she don't bow? 0.90

01:09:55.060 She's, uh-uh, he's—

01:09:57.060 Bow.

01:09:58.060 Bow.

01:09:59.060 Do you bow down?

01:10:00.060 Oh, bow. 0.90

01:10:01.060 Oh, yes.

01:10:02.060 Yeah, why not?

01:10:03.060 Why not?

01:10:04.060 I mean, yes, I did it.

01:10:06.060 I'm sorry.

01:10:07.060 I was a little nervous to talk about this.

01:10:10.060 That's okay.

01:10:11.060 So, he's—is he a half white, half black guy?

01:10:14.060 Right.

01:10:15.060 So, he's actually—

01:10:16.060 Right, yeah.

01:10:17.060 Yes.

01:10:18.060 Yes.

01:10:19.060 No more information.

01:10:20.060 So, and—

01:10:21.060 So, you're dating him?

01:10:22.060 Uh, kinda.

01:10:23.060 I would say the situation shift in positive way.

01:10:28.060 Wait, what?

01:10:29.060 Say that again. 0.71

01:10:31.060 So, actually, situation shift is negative word.

01:10:35.060 Kinda like, like, people don't wanna say, I'm in situation shift, you know?

01:10:40.060 Yeah.

01:10:41.060 So, you're in a situation shift?

01:10:42.060 In positive way.

01:10:43.060 With him?

01:10:44.060 Yes.

01:10:45.060 So, how long have you been seeing him?

01:10:46.060 Oh, three years.

01:10:47.060 What?

01:10:48.060 Wait, hold on.

01:10:49.060 You said you've been—

01:10:50.060 No.

01:10:51.060 You said you've been single for, what did you say?

01:10:53.060 Three years.

01:10:54.060 But you've been—you've been—when's the last—hold on.

01:10:57.060 Situation shift.

01:10:58.060 Hold on.

01:10:59.060 When—when is the last time you saw him?

01:11:01.060 Oh, it's about one week ago.

01:11:03.060 A week ago.

01:11:04.060 A week ago.

01:11:05.060 Yeah. 0.97

01:11:06.060 Did you guys have sex? 0.97

01:11:07.060 Oh, yeah, of course.

01:11:08.060 And you've been seeing him for three years, but you've been single for three years?

01:11:11.060 Yes.

01:11:12.060 Sounds like you're dating the guy.

01:11:13.060 Yeah.

01:11:14.060 No, kinda like—so, he's actually not American.

01:11:19.060 He's sexually not American? 0.61

01:11:20.060 He's not American. 1.00

01:11:21.060 Oh, not American.

01:11:22.060 He's not American. 1.00

01:11:23.060 Okay.

01:11:24.060 American, yeah.

01:11:25.060 Where's he from?

01:11:26.060 So, gosh.

01:11:28.060 Too much information, Maya.

01:11:29.060 Yeah, yeah.

01:11:30.060 Too much.

01:11:31.060 No, it's too little.

01:11:32.060 Too little.

01:11:33.060 Okay.

01:11:34.060 He's Canadian? 0.87

01:11:35.060 Okay.

01:11:36.060 He's Canadian? 0.87

01:11:37.060 Okay.

01:11:38.060 Okay.

01:11:39.060 Okay.

01:11:40.060 Say it one more time.

01:11:41.060 One more time.

01:11:42.060 Okay.

01:11:43.060 I think everybody missed it.

01:11:44.060 Okay.

01:11:45.060 Okay.

01:11:46.060 Okay.

01:11:47.060 Okay.

01:11:48.060 Okay.

01:11:49.060 Okay.

01:11:50.060 Okay.

01:11:51.060 Okay.

01:11:52.060 Okay.

01:11:53.060 You had a three-year situationship with the Jamea Yeakin.

01:11:56.060 Yes.

01:11:57.060 Jamea Yeakin.

01:11:58.060 For three years.

01:11:59.060 I love that.

01:12:00.060 Yeah.

01:12:01.060 And so, during that three-year period, were you dating other guys the past three years?

01:12:04.060 Oh, I mean, so, it's a situation, like—

01:12:08.060 Do you want a relationship with him?

01:12:09.060 I would, but not ready for—

01:12:13.060 You're not ready or he's not ready?

01:12:15.060 We both.

01:12:16.060 Both.

01:12:17.060 Why aren't you ready?

01:12:18.060 Oh, we were talking a lot, so we—so, when I started some relationship with him, it's

01:12:31.060 actually—

01:12:32.060 It was Mr. Timing.

01:12:34.060 Oh, wait.

01:12:35.060 Sorry.

01:12:36.060 Sorry.

01:12:37.060 I meant the girl in chair number one is a unicorn and is the delusional one, not gingerly

01:12:41.060 autocorrect.

01:12:42.060 Oh, that autocorrected a word.

01:12:44.060 Unicorn.

01:12:45.060 It was not unicorn.

01:12:46.060 777, he dropped the redacted word.

01:12:54.060 Okay.

01:12:55.060 Go ahead.

01:12:56.060 Sorry.

01:12:57.060 Keep going.

01:12:58.060 Keep going.

01:12:59.060 Go ahead.

01:13:00.060 So, what is that?

01:13:01.060 So, after I broke up with my ex, I tried to start another serious relationship.

01:13:07.060 But, kind of, also, I tried to look it up on other men's or so, not only him.

01:13:14.060 So, I missed to focus on him and I tried to date with multiple guys, to be honest.

01:13:23.060 And, but after doing this for, after a year, we were talking more, like, how we are serious,

01:13:33.060 but we cannot make, we cannot build up for now that serious relationship.

01:13:38.060 So, we've been just to, like, try to make some happen, like, to see more, share some moment,

01:13:48.060 but not, yeah, not, like, seriously, so far.

01:13:53.060 But, who knows, for the future.

01:13:55.060 Do you want kids?

01:13:56.060 Of course.

01:13:57.060 Two or three.

01:13:58.060 Two or three?

01:13:59.060 Do you want it with him?

01:14:01.060 I'm, I'm, I'm really interested to know, right?

01:14:04.060 Like, why is it that people think that they can't have a relationship?

01:14:08.060 If you, I feel like if you guys love each other, then, like, what's the problem?

01:14:13.060 Um, I think I'm, I'm a Korean, I still figuring out my accent?

01:14:21.060 Yeah, something like, you know, still learning, still need to, I don't know, something like,

01:14:26.060 so, kind of like, he also figuring out his status, like, I don't want to say that.

01:14:33.060 Immigration status?

01:14:34.060 Yeah, something like, more, yes.

01:14:36.060 More serious.

01:14:37.060 Something paperwork thing, first, should do it as a non-American. 0.99

01:14:42.060 So, we are, we both are doing it, and so that's why, like, yeah, so many reasons.

01:14:49.060 It's complicated, but, yeah, anyway.

01:14:52.060 But you guys can just do those problems together.

01:14:54.060 Like, you can just, like, do life together.

01:14:56.060 Like, three years is quite a while.

01:14:58.060 I, actually, I was also not a good woman for him.

01:15:02.060 I like to party with the girls. 0.89

01:15:04.060 I like to go out, and then, yes.

01:15:08.060 You're not, you're not a good woman for him. 1.00

01:15:10.060 So, did you really like him?

01:15:12.060 Wait, but hold on.

01:15:13.060 When you say you're not a good woman for him, in what ways were you not a good woman?

01:15:18.060 Like, the part, okay, so partying, what else?

01:15:21.060 I think he's a U.K. guy, so I heard that U.K., he is, don't want to say, don't do it, don't do it.

01:15:30.060 Just he want to see how I'm moving.

01:15:34.060 I understand.

01:15:35.060 Yeah, how I'm acting, yeah.

01:15:37.060 So.

01:15:38.060 He doesn't want to have to tell you what you should do.

01:15:41.060 You should just do it.

01:15:42.060 But, like, you can have fun.

01:15:43.060 I don't get it.

01:15:44.060 Did you want him to tell you, like, you can't do this?

01:15:47.060 Like, did you want that?

01:15:48.060 The, don't do this, don't go here.

01:15:50.060 Like, did you want to be told what to do?

01:15:52.060 Or?

01:15:53.060 Oh, I.

01:15:54.060 Because it seems like you knew what you were doing, like, was not good for the relationship.

01:15:56.060 I think I used to do dating with who is insecure, who is trying to lash on me.

01:16:03.060 But this guy is old enough.

01:16:07.060 I think 38.

01:16:09.060 This year gonna be 38.

01:16:10.060 And I'm 33, 37.

01:16:12.060 Oh, you look young.

01:16:14.060 Thank you, baby.

01:16:15.060 Wow.

01:16:16.060 Yeah.

01:16:17.060 So that's why, like, we try to, like, also, I don't like, also, like, I don't want to

01:16:23.060 talk about what I don't like about his, some point of his life.

01:16:28.060 But I cannot say, also, like, don't do it.

01:16:33.060 You know what I'm saying?

01:16:34.060 So, just, we try to be patient to each other, but try to talk, be honest.

01:16:40.060 Okay.

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01:17:24.060 And then, guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

01:17:26.060 Drop us a quick follow and a prime sub if you have one.

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01:17:34.060 All right, there it is.

01:17:35.060 Thank you guys so much for all the support over there on Twitch.

01:17:38.060 Appreciate it, guys.

01:17:39.060 Okay, cool.

01:17:40.060 All right, let's see here.

01:17:42.060 We're gonna get that back up.

01:17:44.060 Not too late, guys.

01:17:45.060 I got it, I got it.

01:17:47.060 So, going to you, Ivy.

01:17:50.060 Oh, wait, can I ask one more question?

01:17:52.060 Go ahead.

01:17:53.060 I'm curious, like, your dating history sounds really cool.

01:17:56.060 Have you ever tried dating a Korean guy?

01:17:59.060 Oh, I tried it, but kind of attractive with more sexist one.

01:18:08.060 Wait, what's the sexist?

01:18:09.060 I don't know.

01:18:10.060 I don't know.

01:18:11.060 Korean guys, I love it.

01:18:12.060 Are not sexy.

01:18:13.060 But kind of look too pretty for me.

01:18:15.060 Pretty boys, you know.

01:18:16.060 They look too Korean then or too pretty? 0.96

01:18:17.060 They look feminine.

01:18:18.060 Yeah, too pretty for me.

01:18:19.060 I like, like, ugh.

01:18:20.060 Why?

01:18:21.060 You look, you look.

01:18:22.060 I love it.

01:18:23.060 Like, it's a savage vibe, so.

01:18:25.060 So, it's just a look thing?

01:18:27.060 How about personality and, like, mannerisms?

01:18:30.060 First thing is a visual.

01:18:32.060 And second thing, mind.

01:18:34.060 But, yeah.

01:18:36.060 And attractive, any vision thing.

01:18:38.060 Yeah, visually, yeah.

01:18:39.060 So, how is it different, like, dating, like, a Korean guy versus, like, the guys that you date now?

01:18:44.060 Like, mentally, like, mindset-wise?

01:18:46.060 Oh.

01:18:47.060 For the guys.

01:18:48.060 Of course, I wish I have that Korean guy who is, like, my crush, you know.

01:18:54.060 Then, I'm, ugh.

01:18:57.060 Because Kurt, when we have a conversation, of course, I have a language barrier.

01:19:02.060 He need more patience with me.

01:19:05.060 I should, sometimes, he using something word-to-word, then I don't understand.

01:19:10.060 I should look it up.

01:19:11.060 Oh.

01:19:12.060 So, kind of, I miss the conversation sometimes.

01:19:14.060 So, I wish, but culture doesn't matter.

01:19:18.060 Yes.

01:19:19.060 Okay.

01:19:20.060 I want to say, like, going off of that, like, the language barrier part.

01:19:24.060 Like, there was one point in my life when I was, like, a college student, and I was working full-time at a Korean restaurant, and I started dating the chef there.

01:19:31.060 And it's funny, yesterday, he just posted that he's getting married, and so, but, but, but, the chef, the reason why I mentioned him is because he actually did not speak any English, and I didn't speak any Korean.

01:19:42.060 And so, there was, like, a language barrier, but we dated for, like, more than a year.

01:19:46.060 Yeah.

01:19:47.060 So, language barrier doesn't matter.

01:19:49.060 So, okay, anyways, so, you've been single for how long, Ivy?

01:19:53.060 Oh, I've been single for, like, two years now.

01:19:55.060 Two years?

01:19:56.060 Okay.

01:19:57.060 Have you been, but in that two-year period, have you dated any guys?

01:20:00.060 Um, in that two, oh, like, going on dates?

01:20:03.060 Yes.

01:20:04.060 Like, uh.

01:20:05.060 What about situationships?

01:20:06.060 Sneaky link, anything like that?

01:20:07.060 Actually, no, no, no situationships or anything.

01:20:09.060 Nothing.

01:20:10.060 I've been traveling the past two years, so I've been, like, traveling around, bouncing around different countries.

01:20:14.060 So, you've been 100%, like, single, no dudes, two years?

01:20:19.060 Um, like, it's, like, sometimes if I meet some guy, it's, then, you know, we like each other, then, yeah, we'll go on a date.

01:20:26.060 But, um, it never really goes beyond, like, two dates.

01:20:29.060 Yeah.

01:20:30.060 Wait, so have you been celibate for two years?

01:20:32.060 Um, I was celibate for one year, and I just broke it last October.

01:20:36.060 Oh, okay.

01:20:37.060 Yeah.

01:20:38.060 And it's so funny.

01:20:39.060 It was, oh, can I say this?

01:20:41.060 Oh, God.

01:20:42.060 Yeah, you can say it.

01:20:43.060 No, you're good.

01:20:44.060 It's the whatever podcast.

01:20:45.060 You can say it.

01:20:46.060 You can say whatever. 1.00

01:20:47.060 Oh, shoot. 1.00

01:20:48.060 Oh, shoot.

01:20:49.060 But I, like, broke my celibacy with this, like, guy that I met through my ex.

01:20:54.060 And so, it was pretty bad.

01:20:56.060 Yeah, it was, like.

01:20:57.060 And that was October.

01:20:58.060 It was back in October.

01:20:59.060 But you've been, have you been celibate since then?

01:21:01.060 Um, I mean.

01:21:02.060 Or are you still seeing that guy?

01:21:03.060 I mean, I wasn't seeing him.

01:21:05.060 Well.

01:21:06.060 Like, yeah.

01:21:07.060 Spending time with him.

01:21:08.060 No, no, because he lives in New York, and I live in LA, and I've been traveling around.

01:21:13.060 Yeah.

01:21:14.060 We ended up in Korea together.

01:21:15.060 Like, he was there at the same time as me.

01:21:17.060 And so, we hung out one more time.

01:21:19.060 And then, that was the last time I saw him.

01:21:20.060 When was that?

01:21:21.060 That was in December.

01:21:22.060 So, you've been celibate since December.

01:21:24.060 Yes.

01:21:25.060 Okay.

01:21:26.060 Got it.

01:21:27.060 Oh, it's not that long, actually.

01:21:28.060 Okay.

01:21:29.060 Okay.

01:21:30.060 Uh, Bailey, what about you?

01:21:31.060 You've been single for a year and a half, but.

01:21:33.060 Yes.

01:21:34.060 No, there's been no, no guys in the picture.

01:21:37.060 Tilt your mic down, please.

01:21:39.060 Situationship, sort of.

01:21:43.060 Uh-huh.

01:21:44.060 For just a little, but celibate since September.

01:21:48.060 Okay.

01:21:49.060 Celibate since September.

01:21:50.060 Yes.

01:21:51.060 September.

01:21:52.060 Okay.

01:21:53.060 All right.

01:21:54.060 What about you?

01:21:55.060 Well, you're dating a guy?

01:21:56.060 Mm-hmm.

01:21:57.060 Well, you three are dating guys, so there you go.

01:22:00.060 I did want to, who here lives in LA?

01:22:02.060 Well, this isn't LA.

01:22:04.060 You mean, like, just, sorry.

01:22:06.060 Because you said here in LA.

01:22:07.060 That wasn't the question.

01:22:08.060 Sorry.

01:22:09.060 Wait, did I say here in LA?

01:22:10.060 Yes.

01:22:11.060 Did I say here?

01:22:12.060 You said who lives in LA.

01:22:13.060 I said who lives in LA.

01:22:14.060 Oh, sorry.

01:22:15.060 It's all right.

01:22:16.060 Um, who, so, who lives in LA?

01:22:19.060 Okay.

01:22:20.060 You live in LA.

01:22:21.060 You live in LA.

01:22:22.060 Anybody else?

01:22:23.060 Oh, wow.

01:22:24.060 Girlfriend.

01:22:25.060 They're going to be girlfriends.

01:22:26.060 Hey, watch out, though.

01:22:28.060 She's going to bejewel your teeth. 1.00

01:22:29.060 Bejewel?

01:22:30.060 I want.

01:22:31.060 She's going to get them.

01:22:32.060 She's going to give you a grill. 1.00

01:22:35.060 That's going to be crazy.

01:22:37.060 Yeah.

01:22:38.060 Yeah. 1.00

01:22:39.060 Your hair's going to be all shit, too. 0.99

01:22:42.060 I actually have, like, a burn, too. 0.99

01:22:44.060 My hair used to look like that.

01:22:46.060 So, okay.

01:22:47.060 So, and I mean, I guess, who's from Southern California?

01:22:52.060 Are you in, yeah.

01:22:54.060 So, like, a lot of people, I guess, when it comes to, like, LA dating, we got three people

01:22:58.060 who live in LA here.

01:23:01.060 A lot of people seem to have a lot of complaints when it comes to dating in LA.

01:23:06.060 It's very superficial.

01:23:07.060 There's so many people. 0.96

01:23:09.060 Distances can sometimes be a problem just because LA is so fucking big. 0.84

01:23:13.060 Oh, I live in LA. 0.81

01:23:14.060 Oh, but you're an hour away.

01:23:16.060 You know, whatever.

01:23:17.060 So, do you guys think that LA, at least in the United States, is the worst city?

01:23:26.060 Like, big city.

01:23:28.060 Because, I mean, maybe you could say, like, oh, some town with, like, 20 people. 0.93

01:23:32.060 That probably sucks to date in that town. 0.78

01:23:34.060 I live in a town like that. 0.50

01:23:36.060 But I'm curious, like, is it the worst, like, larger city to date in?

01:23:41.060 I think New York is the worst.

01:23:42.060 Yeah.

01:23:43.060 Why?

01:23:44.060 Why is New York the worst?

01:23:45.060 Because I think for my friends that live there, it's, like, everyone thinks that they

01:23:47.060 could do so much better.

01:23:49.060 And even though they meet someone that would match them, like, 100%, they just keep, like,

01:23:53.060 swiping on their apps and, like, oh, we'll see, like, what I can get.

01:23:56.060 And it's just, like, so sad.

01:23:57.060 So, I have, like, really smart, beautiful friends in LA.

01:24:00.060 I mean, sorry, in New York.

01:24:01.060 And I'm just, like, they are, like, almost going to be doctors and, like, they're really

01:24:04.060 successful and they have really good morals and still they have trouble dating.

01:24:08.060 And so, like, they're literally a catch in, like, a dozen.

01:24:11.060 Like, I don't know how they have a hard time.

01:24:13.060 And then I just look at the guys there and then they're just, like, they'll say, they'll

01:24:16.060 love bomb.

01:24:17.060 Like, I was only there for, like, what?

01:24:18.060 I was there for three days and I did meet a guy there.

01:24:21.060 Oh, yeah, I did meet someone there.

01:24:23.060 And so, yeah, I forgot about that guy.

01:24:25.060 But anyways, he was saying the most to me, doing the most.

01:24:28.060 And then once I left New York, then bye.

01:24:30.060 And then I see him, like, you know, taking some other girl out to court-sized seats to

01:24:34.060 watch, like, the NBA game.

01:24:35.060 I see.

01:24:36.060 And I'm like, okay.

01:24:37.060 And so, you're telling me that, like, you have a couple female friends who live in LA.

01:24:41.060 No, no, New York.

01:24:42.060 Oh, sorry, sorry.

01:24:43.060 Yeah, I mixed up my words.

01:24:44.060 That live in New York and they're catches, as you would say.

01:24:48.060 They're successful, whatever.

01:24:50.060 But they are struggling to find men.

01:24:52.060 I'm going to, I want to come back to that later, but I'm going to just keep it right now

01:24:55.060 in, like, worst city to date.

01:24:57.060 By the way, chat, what do you think is the worst city to date?

01:25:02.060 You're in LA.

01:25:05.060 Do you think LA is pretty bad when it comes to dating?

01:25:08.060 I know club culture is pretty bad.

01:25:11.060 Like, dating in, like, club culture.

01:25:13.060 Because it's just, like, one night stands.

01:25:15.060 So, I would say that part's bad.

01:25:16.060 Yeah.

01:25:17.060 Okay.

01:25:18.060 And you're in LA.

01:25:19.060 Pretty rough.

01:25:20.060 Yeah.

01:25:21.060 Rough.

01:25:22.060 Rough.

01:25:23.060 Rough.

01:25:24.060 It's hard out there.

01:25:25.060 Yeah.

01:25:26.060 It's hard out there.

01:25:27.060 Very rough.

01:25:28.060 Yeah.

01:25:29.060 Okay.

01:25:30.060 You know, I want to do a segment called Worst Cities to Date In.

01:25:36.060 And so, Damien, I need you to Wikipedia.

01:25:39.060 Wikipedia, you know what, we have a Korean here.

01:25:42.060 So, we're going to do, pull up Pyongyang.

01:25:45.060 Oh, my God.

01:25:46.060 Pyongyang.

01:25:47.060 Let's look up Pyongyang.

01:25:49.060 Find a Wikipedia article.

01:25:50.060 I think Pyongyang's pretty bad, probably, for dating.

01:25:53.060 Oh, Harry.

01:25:54.060 Yeah.

01:25:55.060 Oh, Harry.

01:25:56.060 And then, I'm trying to think where else is a bad city.

01:25:59.060 Chat, what is the worst city?

01:26:00.060 And you can't, like, be at least, be a bit trollish, but not, like, somewhat realistic.

01:26:05.060 Like, don't say Antarctica, because that's not fair.

01:26:08.060 All right.

01:26:09.060 Chat, what's the, somebody said in the chat, somebody saying Phoenix, St. Louis, North Korea

01:26:15.060 is pretty bad.

01:26:16.060 Korea, for sure. 0.93

01:26:18.060 Oh, somebody saying Mobile, Alabama.

01:26:21.060 Did I say Mobile?

01:26:22.060 I don't know how to say it.

01:26:23.060 Cleveland is bad.

01:26:25.060 Ohio.

01:26:26.060 They're saying Bellevue.

01:26:27.060 That's pretty bad.

01:26:28.060 Phoenix.

01:26:29.060 I got another Phoenix.

01:26:30.060 Miami.

01:26:31.060 Ooh, Miami's bad.

01:26:32.060 Miami's probably, my, that could be the worst.

01:26:34.060 Atlanta.

01:26:35.060 Oof.

01:26:36.060 Fresno.

01:26:37.060 Yep.

01:26:38.060 Vegas.

01:26:39.060 Yeah, Vegas is probably pretty bad.

01:26:41.060 I'm wondering, what about Wuhan?

01:26:43.060 That could be a pretty bad pook.

01:26:45.060 Why would it be bad?

01:26:47.060 Cause, viruses. 0.71

01:26:49.060 Hey, what the heck?

01:26:51.060 That's where it started. 0.89

01:26:52.060 It's okay now.

01:26:54.060 I would imagine, like, India would be tough.

01:26:56.060 Like, anywhere in India.

01:26:57.060 Yeah, that would probably be tough.

01:26:58.060 I would imagine so many people, though.

01:26:59.060 It would be a little rough.

01:27:00.060 What about, like, Africa?

01:27:02.060 What about, uh, where's, like, a bad place to date, chat?

01:27:08.060 They don't need to date. 0.93

01:27:09.060 Damn right. 0.98

01:27:10.060 Right.

01:27:11.060 Where, where's, oh, um, can you also Wikipedia the, I think it's the North Sentinelese Island.

01:27:18.060 Look that up.

01:27:19.060 Uh, so we're, we're gonna look that up.

01:27:21.060 That's probably a pretty bad place to date.

01:27:23.060 Uh, Bakersfield, Dallas.

01:27:25.060 They're saying Dallas is bad.

01:27:27.060 Uh, Bangladesh. 0.99

01:27:29.060 Oh, Iraq. 0.98

01:27:31.060 You know what?

01:27:32.060 Let's do, uh, also Baghdad.

01:27:34.060 I want to, I want you to pull up Baghdad. 1.00

01:27:36.060 And what's the capital of Afghanistan?

01:27:38.060 Is it Kabul?

01:27:39.060 Wait.

01:27:40.060 Kabul?

01:27:41.060 Kabul?

01:27:42.060 Kabul.

01:27:43.060 Yeah, let's just pull up the Wikipedias.

01:27:44.060 So these are the top five worst places to date.

01:27:49.060 Um, where's also Chernobyl.

01:27:51.060 Let's get Chernobyl, too. 0.92

01:27:53.060 That's a, that's a bad place also.

01:27:55.060 Keep people are saying Kiev, Russia, Detroit, Missouri, Chernobyl, a couple of the Congo.

01:28:00.060 Congo, not so great.

01:28:02.060 Yo, did anybody see that video?

01:28:03.060 It was a guy, I don't know which African country.

01:28:06.060 And he's, it's the creepiest video I saw.

01:28:08.060 I saw it a couple of days ago.

01:28:10.060 It's a guy who's, a black guy with like blonde hair, who's leaning out the back of like a Jeep.

01:28:15.060 And he's like driving down a path.

01:28:17.060 And then there's this like African tribesmen with like white body paint, like chasing him down. 1.00

01:28:25.060 Do you guys know what I'm talking about?

01:28:27.060 Did you guys see that?

01:28:29.060 It was very, it's the scariest video.

01:28:32.060 I'm going to try to find it.

01:28:33.060 Hold on.

01:28:34.060 Maybe Damien can find it.

01:28:36.060 Wait.

01:28:37.060 It's called, uh, wait, maybe I saw it on Reddit.

01:28:40.060 Reddit.

01:28:41.060 Uh, guy getting chased in. 1.00

01:28:45.060 Fuck. 1.00

01:28:46.060 What is it? 1.00

01:28:48.060 Maybe it was an AI video and I got bamboozled.

01:28:52.060 Can somebody find that video for me?

01:28:56.060 Please.

01:28:57.060 Por favor.

01:28:58.060 Oh, Houdini.

01:28:59.060 Thank you for the gifted 20 subs, dude. 1.00

01:29:01.060 You're a fucking legend. 0.99

01:29:02.060 Thank you, man. 0.98

01:29:03.060 Uh, here, let's put, let's start pulling up the wikis.

01:29:06.060 Hey, X out of that ad though.

01:29:08.060 That's on top.

01:29:09.060 Thank you, Houdini for the gifted.

01:29:10.060 Yeah.

01:29:11.060 Let's pull it up one by one.

01:29:13.060 Yeah, that's fine.

01:29:14.060 We'll look at it.

01:29:15.060 Pyongyang, not a great place.

01:29:17.060 Let's scroll down so I can see the photo.

01:29:20.060 You know, Hey, it kind of looks nice though.

01:29:22.060 That's cute.

01:29:23.060 It looks nice.

01:29:24.060 It's, it's literally a dictation though.

01:29:26.060 I would click the monument to party founding.

01:29:29.060 Mm-mm.

01:29:30.060 I would take a girl on a first date here. 0.62

01:29:32.060 Oh my God.

01:29:33.060 This is, would be so romantic.

01:29:34.060 Even you cannot land it.

01:29:35.060 Like if I took you to, to there, that would be good.

01:29:37.060 We cannot land it.

01:29:38.060 We gotta go some basement, basement.

01:29:41.060 Basement.

01:29:42.060 Oh, in the basement.

01:29:43.060 Yeah.

01:29:44.060 While you're here, you're gonna go.

01:29:45.060 All right.

01:29:46.060 Next.

01:29:47.060 Can I say that?

01:29:48.060 Miami.

01:29:49.060 Well, of course.

01:29:50.060 Yeah.

01:29:51.060 Next.

01:29:52.060 Miami's terrible.

01:29:53.060 Wuhan.

01:29:54.060 Oh, is Wuhan actually bad?

01:29:56.060 That's Wuhan.

01:29:57.060 It actually kind of like, doesn't look so bad.

01:30:00.060 You know.

01:30:01.060 Next.

01:30:02.060 Oh yeah.

01:30:03.060 This place.

01:30:04.060 Hold on guys, guys, guys.

01:30:06.060 Stop, stop, stop.

01:30:07.060 Uh, this place would be, I will pay somebody $10,000 to go here.

01:30:14.060 I'll do it.

01:30:15.060 You'll, you'll do it.

01:30:16.060 Wait, why?

01:30:17.060 I will do it.

01:30:18.060 I will go.

01:30:19.060 No, you, but you can't do any research on this place.

01:30:22.060 Okay.

01:30:23.060 You can't do any research.

01:30:24.060 No, hold on.

01:30:25.060 Actually, I'll pay you $100,000.

01:30:26.060 How bad is it?

01:30:27.060 And you have to go, you have to go on a date here.

01:30:29.060 I'll do it.

01:30:30.060 You'll do it?

01:30:31.060 I'll still do it.

01:30:32.060 Oh, okay.

01:30:33.060 Would we even leave or like, would we?

01:30:34.060 Yeah.

01:30:35.060 Scroll, scroll down.

01:30:36.060 No, you, you just have to spend 24 hours on the island and a date with one of the islanders.

01:30:42.060 Scroll down.

01:30:43.060 Well, I don't actually wait.

01:30:44.060 I'm taking my statement back.

01:30:45.060 It says that that guy was killed after making eye contact with somebody.

01:30:49.060 I think I'm, I'm going to recant my statement.

01:30:52.060 Wait, hold on. 0.95

01:30:53.060 Wait, don't scroll down further because I'm pretty sure these guys have their cocks out. 0.81

01:30:56.060 Cause they're like, they don't wear clothes for some, so I don't know if we can.

01:31:00.060 Wait, let's just do the next Wikipedia article.

01:31:01.060 It's basically, I don't know if they're cannibals, but.

01:31:05.060 They're protected.

01:31:06.060 They're a protected tribe. 0.99

01:31:07.060 They'll kill like, they'll kill outsiders. 1.00

01:31:10.060 Like they're, they're totally isolated. 0.99

01:31:12.060 Yeah.

01:31:13.060 I'm not, I'm going to change my mind.

01:31:14.060 I'm not going.

01:31:15.060 We wouldn't even get your money then.

01:31:16.060 I just saw, I just saw a patch of green grass.

01:31:17.060 And I was like, oh, I can go there for two hours.

01:31:18.060 Sure.

01:31:19.060 Kabul in Afghanistan.

01:31:21.060 Scroll down.

01:31:22.060 Hey, that's kind of nice there.

01:31:24.060 I don't know.

01:31:25.060 It looks nice.

01:31:26.060 Oh, the shrine.

01:31:27.060 Okay.

01:31:28.060 All right.

01:31:29.060 Next.

01:31:30.060 Kabul.

01:31:31.060 Afghanistan.

01:31:32.060 Pripyat.

01:31:33.060 Ghosts.

01:31:34.060 Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:31:36.060 Scroll down.

01:31:38.060 The bottom right one.

01:31:41.060 That picture.

01:31:42.060 Oh, it's just, okay.

01:31:43.060 It's like a montage or whatever.

01:31:46.060 Okay.

01:31:47.060 Yeah.

01:31:48.060 It looks romantic.

01:31:49.060 Next.

01:31:50.060 Can.

01:31:51.060 Oh, scroll down.

01:31:54.060 Can somebody on my Instagram send me that video of the guy being, the black man in the 0.97

01:32:00.060 Jeep being chased by, can somebody send that to me?

01:32:05.060 Because that has nothing to do with dating, but whatever.

01:32:08.060 Is that it, Damien, I think?

01:32:09.060 Yeah.

01:32:10.060 Okay.

01:32:11.060 We have a message from Houdini also.

01:32:12.060 Hey, Brian.

01:32:13.060 Love the show.

01:32:14.060 Last week's episode with Mason was great.

01:32:15.060 Loved hearing about him dating with intention for marriage.

01:32:17.060 It gives me hope for humanity.

01:32:19.060 That's dope. 0.93

01:32:20.060 Thank you so much, Houdini.

01:32:21.060 Thank you for the 20 gifted subs, man.

01:32:23.060 Really appreciate it.

01:32:24.060 And there's some interesting feedback when it came to that.

01:32:31.060 But anyways, we were going around the table.

01:32:36.060 Oh, no.

01:32:37.060 We already finished with everybody's like roster and situationships and whatnot.

01:32:40.060 Did you?

01:32:41.060 Are you actually single though?

01:32:43.060 Yeah, we already did it.

01:32:44.060 So I wanted to go back to something you were saying, Ivy, if you can like scoot into the table.

01:32:49.060 You're too far back.

01:32:50.060 Oh, yes.

01:32:51.060 I like to sit weird.

01:32:52.060 Okay.

01:32:53.060 So you said that you have a bunch of girlfriends in New York who you said they're a catch.

01:33:03.060 They're attractive.

01:33:04.060 You said successful.

01:33:06.060 Yeah.

01:33:07.060 Some of them are doctors or going to be doctors.

01:33:10.060 Is that right?

01:33:11.060 In their medical school.

01:33:12.060 But they can't find a guy.

01:33:14.060 But so are you saying what makes them a catch is that they're really successful and some

01:33:21.060 of them are doctors?

01:33:23.060 No, no.

01:33:24.060 I'm saying they're also like really pretty and think that they have a very high EQ and they're

01:33:29.060 very caring.

01:33:30.060 But yeah, I think that it's just like rough out there in the dating scene.

01:33:34.060 Everyone, guys and girls, maybe there is some problems with the girls, right?

01:33:38.060 They also maybe think that they can do better sometimes.

01:33:40.060 I think it goes both ways because I hear guys and girls do the same thing.

01:33:44.060 Like I was only in New York for three days.

01:33:45.060 So why do I hear both of them complaining?

01:33:47.060 And they're just saying that like it's impossible to date in the city.

01:33:49.060 No one wants to commit.

01:33:50.060 And I hear guys and girls saying that.

01:33:52.060 So I'm like someone messed up.

01:33:55.060 Okay.

01:33:56.060 Gotcha.

01:33:57.060 Because the way it sounded earlier was you're saying like, oh, you know, they're so successful.

01:34:01.060 They're doctors.

01:34:02.060 No, no, no.

01:34:03.060 I look at people's personalities and then people around me, they just happen to be like working

01:34:07.060 professionals.

01:34:08.060 I think I'm the only one that probably has like a more unconventional lifestyle.

01:34:11.060 What is that?

01:34:12.060 Like I just wasn't someone that like, well, I was at one point where I was like a school

01:34:17.060 teacher and then I decided like, oh, I did it for two years.

01:34:20.060 You know, I did TFA for two years.

01:34:22.060 And so it's time for me to like, while I'm young and I can still do this, I just like go

01:34:26.060 around and travel and explore and see what else is out there.

01:34:29.060 Yeah.

01:34:30.060 So I like don't really stay in the States that often.

01:34:33.060 So I don't really have a lot of roots in the States, but I do know people abroad a lot.

01:34:37.060 So that's, that's unconventional.

01:34:38.060 I guess.

01:34:39.060 Okay.

01:34:40.060 We have a chat here from Yarmouth.

01:34:41.060 One last thing before I go, Gavin McInnes once said that New York was an elephant's graveyard

01:34:46.060 for ovaries from Yarmouth.

01:34:49.060 Thank you for the super chat.

01:34:50.060 Does anybody want to respond?

01:34:51.060 He's saying it's a graveyard.

01:34:53.060 What's the difference between a regular graveyard and an elephant graveyard?

01:34:58.060 Maybe bigger?

01:34:59.060 It's just a big, it's a big graveyard.

01:35:02.060 Uh, so yeah, it's hard for the women to date in New York. 1.00

01:35:07.060 Yeah.

01:35:08.060 I hear about like girls asking guys out on dates and that shocked me.

01:35:11.060 I was like, why are you asking them out?

01:35:14.060 And then, yeah, the guys are saying it's so fun.

01:35:16.060 Good.

01:35:17.060 So guys definitely have a lot more fun in New York.

01:35:19.060 And I think in LA it's like kind of equal.

01:35:21.060 So I think we have it a lot more easier, but nothing compares to Asia. 1.00

01:35:25.060 Cause I think that like definitely girls are chasing guys like in all over Asia. 0.91

01:35:29.060 There's like just more girls than guys, I think in like Southeast Asia. 1.00

01:35:33.060 Yeah.

01:35:34.060 Oh, let's do this also for, can you guys grab one of the questionnaires and get a pen?

01:35:39.060 And we're going to have Ivy fill it out. 0.84

01:35:41.060 Oh God.

01:35:42.060 Why do I have extra work?

01:35:43.060 Yeah.

01:35:44.060 You got, you got a homework.

01:35:45.060 Okay.

01:35:46.060 Thank you.

01:35:47.060 It, there should be some just at the table, I think.

01:35:50.060 Right.

01:35:51.060 Maybe.

01:35:52.060 Huh?

01:35:53.060 Yeah.

01:35:54.060 Let's get her a pen too. 1.00

01:35:56.060 Uh, no, no, no, no.

01:35:57.060 Just pass it, pass it to her.

01:35:59.060 Just no, no, no.

01:36:01.060 You, you can literally pass it to her and then pass it down.

01:36:04.060 Efficiency.

01:36:05.060 We love.

01:36:06.060 Okay.

01:36:07.060 So I do this.

01:36:08.060 Yeah.

01:36:09.060 We'll just have you fill it out while we're continuing on with the conversation.

01:36:12.060 So it's put your name at the top.

01:36:14.060 Yes, no for all these, and then answer the questions at the bottom.

01:36:17.060 All right.

01:36:18.060 So here's what we're going to do.

01:36:20.060 Uh, I'm going to continue on with the pre-show notes.

01:36:23.060 Let's do, let's skip to Brenda. 1.00

01:36:27.060 Brenda, you said you dated someone with public allegations and it turned into a crazily online

01:36:32.060 debacle because honestly you're, we were both just drama and trauma.

01:36:37.060 It was messy and looking back, you see how much of it was fueled by unresolved wounds

01:36:43.060 rather than anything real.

01:36:45.060 Yeah.

01:36:46.060 Uh, so when you say you were dating this guy, was this one of your boyfriends or whatever?

01:36:50.060 Mm-hmm.

01:36:51.060 Yeah, my last relationship.

01:36:52.060 And what do you mean public allegations?

01:36:53.060 Um, well in the pre-show there was like certain things that I can't say.

01:36:57.060 So.

01:36:58.060 Oh, okay.

01:36:59.060 So just like allegations.

01:37:00.060 Yeah.

01:37:01.060 Sure.

01:37:02.060 Allegations that were up.

01:37:03.060 But you, was it involving you or somebody else?

01:37:04.060 No, no, no.

01:37:05.060 Like from his past.

01:37:06.060 Okay.

01:37:07.060 Other people from his past.

01:37:08.060 Um, mm-hmm.

01:37:09.060 He had wounds, didn't, never communicated and people just made allegations about him.

01:37:14.060 So, um, his reputation was, um, already like dented, I guess. 0.99

01:37:19.060 And then when I got into it, um, I obviously like, was like, fuck, fuck the allegations, 1.00

01:37:25.060 you know? 0.99

01:37:26.060 Um, and then I just learned that they're just based off of patterns.

01:37:30.060 Okay.

01:37:31.060 Yeah.

01:37:32.060 You said also pertaining to this, that the situation taught you firsthand how social media

01:37:36.060 can be weaponized in relationships and he tried to exploit you online after you guys

01:37:41.060 broke up.

01:37:42.060 Yeah.

01:37:43.060 But you did the same.

01:37:44.060 Um, yes.

01:37:45.060 To defend myself.

01:37:46.060 Okay.

01:37:47.060 But he started it.

01:37:48.060 Yes.

01:37:49.060 Well, so actually I did.

01:37:51.060 Um, so, but I had quickly deleted it.

01:37:54.060 So what had happened is, um, he had falsely imprisoned me and, um, I had then posted something

01:38:00.060 online about like what had actually, like what, what had happened.

01:38:04.060 And basically saying all the allegations are, I found out to be true because something happened

01:38:09.060 to me.

01:38:10.060 And then I quickly deleted it after 10 minutes.

01:38:12.060 But then by that time, because our circles are so close, um, he was already getting calls

01:38:17.060 and DMS.

01:38:18.060 And, um, then a couple hours later he makes a post, um, and, uh, falsely exploits me says,

01:38:25.060 I did X, Y, Z and immediately I, um, create a post and I have video and I posted the videos

01:38:33.060 and like everything that stated basically what he was saying was false.

01:38:38.060 And this is the real story because I have friends with me that day and their videos.

01:38:43.060 You said he did what?

01:38:44.060 He falsely imprisoned you or what, what, what was it that you said?

01:38:47.060 So I don't want to, I don't want to get you because there's a lot of, I would have to

01:38:52.060 say every single thing in order for it to make sense.

01:38:54.060 There's a lot of layers for the contacts.

01:38:56.060 Okay.

01:38:57.060 Yeah.

01:38:58.060 So he, he, what was the word that you used?

01:39:01.060 I'm just trying to recall.

01:39:02.060 It was imprisoned or what?

01:39:03.060 Falsely imprisoned.

01:39:04.060 Falsely.

01:39:05.060 Yeah.

01:39:06.060 Okay.

01:39:07.060 What is that?

01:39:09.060 I'm not sure what that is.

01:39:12.060 He, he called, um, 911 and stated that I was doing something that I wasn't doing.

01:39:19.060 And, and both of us were non coherent.

01:39:22.060 So, um, and I, I was less in, I was more in and out of it than he was, but still because,

01:39:31.060 um, I was so in and out of it when I had like woke up from a blackout, I was like talking

01:39:36.060 to the cops and then the process of imprisonment.

01:39:40.060 Was he, wait, the, the process of imprisonment started after the cops came or?

01:39:47.060 Well, yeah, because, so we were in my apartment.

01:39:51.060 Did the cops, the cops detained you?

01:39:53.060 Yes.

01:39:54.060 We're fighting.

01:39:55.060 Did they arrest you?

01:39:56.060 Yes, I did.

01:39:57.060 They transferred me over, uh, to the hospital.

01:40:00.060 Oh, did you, you got 5150?

01:40:02.060 Yes.

01:40:03.060 I see.

01:40:06.060 And then how long were you in like the, what is it?

01:40:09.060 The psych hold or what's that called?

01:40:11.060 Yeah.

01:40:12.060 So it was like at 3 a.m.

01:40:13.060 And, um, the moment that the psychiatrist came in, um, she did an evaluation and then deemed

01:40:19.060 that I was fit to go.

01:40:20.060 And so just let you go.

01:40:21.060 Yeah.

01:40:22.060 How long were you held?

01:40:23.060 I'm sorry.

01:40:24.060 How long were you held?

01:40:25.060 Um, just until the physician came in, which was.

01:40:27.060 So a couple hours maybe.

01:40:28.060 A couple hours.

01:40:29.060 Yeah.

01:40:30.060 But it was rough.

01:40:31.060 Okay.

01:40:32.060 Uh, and were, were there substances involved?

01:40:34.060 Like.

01:40:35.060 Well, no.

01:40:36.060 So it was my birthday and we had just went out to the club and, um, alcohol was involved.

01:40:40.060 Okay.

01:40:41.060 So you had been drinking a little bit.

01:40:42.060 Okay.

01:40:43.060 So wait, I'm a little confused though.

01:40:46.060 So he, are you saying that the police falsely imprisoned you?

01:40:50.060 No.

01:40:51.060 So, so basically, um, what had happened is we're in my apartment, we're fighting and it got physical

01:40:56.060 on both ends.

01:40:57.060 Um, and to.

01:40:58.060 Who started?

01:40:59.060 Who initiated?

01:41:00.060 Um, he did.

01:41:01.060 Okay.

01:41:02.060 But I would, I was the one who put my hands on him first, but he was the one who shoved me 0.91

01:41:07.060 first.

01:41:08.060 So it was like.

01:41:09.060 You put your hand.

01:41:11.060 All right.

01:41:12.060 So, so he shoved me.

01:41:13.060 Okay.

01:41:14.060 So I, let me just say the story.

01:41:15.060 Yeah.

01:41:16.060 Yeah.

01:41:17.060 Okay.

01:41:18.060 So, um, we're in my apartment.

01:41:19.060 Um, we had just got into a fight because, uh, we were in a relationship and then he, and

01:41:23.060 then we were out of the relationship and then we started talking again and he didn't want

01:41:27.060 to be exclusive.

01:41:28.060 So I, um, was already in this mindset of, all right, on my birthday, like, cool, we're

01:41:32.060 gonna have fun.

01:41:33.060 And, um, I'm just gonna live.

01:41:35.060 And, um, on my birthday, I was trying to get, um, backstage faster.

01:41:38.060 So I was like trying to flirt with the bouncer and I'm just kind of very mad, got angry,

01:41:43.060 um, started to, uh, get aggressive with the bouncer.

01:41:46.060 Um, my friends were there.

01:41:47.060 So then we're driving home.

01:41:49.060 Um, he's drunk.

01:41:50.060 We're all drunk.

01:41:51.060 And, um, this is when he starts yelling at me while we get to my apartment and, um,

01:41:56.060 my friends, uh, leave because they see me go into my apartment.

01:41:59.060 But then because we are in an argument and, um, I wanted him, I wanted to talk about it.

01:42:04.060 Uh, I call him up and I was like, I need help to get into my apartment.

01:42:08.060 Um, can you help me?

01:42:09.060 Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

01:42:10.060 And then he helps me.

01:42:11.060 He get into my apartment and his laptop is in my apartment.

01:42:14.060 Um, and this laptop was a gift, but, um, he wanted to take the gift back.

01:42:19.060 And I was like, no, all my stuff is in here.

01:42:21.060 Like, you need to give me time.

01:42:22.060 And he was like, no, like I want my stuff now and I want to leave.

01:42:24.060 And I was like, you can leave, but I'm going to keep your, keep your laptop.

01:42:27.060 We're fighting off the laptop.

01:42:28.060 I'm holding it.

01:42:29.060 I get shoved.

01:42:30.060 It's a gift or he was loaning you his laptop.

01:42:33.060 It was a gift.

01:42:34.060 He said, this is your laptop.

01:42:35.060 You could have this laptop.

01:42:36.060 Was it brand new?

01:42:37.060 No.

01:42:38.060 So he gave you a used.

01:42:40.060 Yeah.

01:42:41.060 But he cleared it.

01:42:42.060 He cleared it out.

01:42:43.060 Well, yeah, I needed one because, um, he, well, he loaned.

01:42:45.060 Are you sure it was a gift?

01:42:46.060 Yeah.

01:42:47.060 No.

01:42:48.060 Yeah.

01:42:49.060 For you.

01:42:50.060 No.

01:42:51.060 For you as a loaned laptop.

01:42:53.060 No, he said like, this is for you, but he wanted it back.

01:42:56.060 He wanted it back.

01:42:57.060 And you wanted to keep it.

01:42:58.060 I wanted to keep it.

01:42:59.060 Okay.

01:43:00.060 So you guys started fighting.

01:43:01.060 Okay.

01:43:02.060 I put my hands on him first is when he shoved me, um, I was holding laptop and I fell to

01:43:07.060 the ground.

01:43:08.060 And, um, because I have like concrete floor or not concrete floor, like tile floor.

01:43:12.060 Um, I took it as if like, oh, like, okay, like we're, we're going to go.

01:43:16.060 And, um, then I, I just started going.

01:43:20.060 We started going and yeah.

01:43:21.060 Yeah.

01:43:22.060 And then it got really bad.

01:43:23.060 Um, and so how long were you guys doing like MMA or whatever?

01:43:30.060 I wish I could tell you how long it was, but so he called, then he called the cops.

01:43:34.060 So there's a, so I have an audio recording and it was 10 minutes long.

01:43:37.060 So for 10 minutes, that's how long it took, uh, the cops to get here to get to my place.

01:43:42.060 And then was he arrested also?

01:43:45.060 No, just me.

01:43:46.060 Just you.

01:43:47.060 Yeah.

01:43:48.060 Cause I was crazy girl.

01:43:49.060 I was the girl who, um, who was trying to hurt him when it was, uh, back and forth.

01:43:55.060 Uh, we were fighting over. 0.99

01:43:56.060 Was he fucked up? 0.99

01:43:57.060 Yeah. 0.99

01:43:58.060 No.

01:43:59.060 I mean like, what's his face?

01:44:01.060 Like, were you, you guys, were you guys throwing punches at each other?

01:44:04.060 So because he was like choking me, I started to bite him.

01:44:07.060 Like that's how I had nothing else to do.

01:44:10.060 Like there, there's an arm on my throat, you know? 0.83

01:44:12.060 You bit him.

01:44:13.060 Like what do I do? 0.94

01:44:14.060 I bit him.

01:44:15.060 So because there were, because of that.

01:44:17.060 Was it like a Mike Tyson situation?

01:44:18.060 Like you took off his ear?

01:44:20.060 Like you bit his ear off?

01:44:21.060 There were pieces of his, of his arm, like skin, skin out. 0.93

01:44:26.060 I did.

01:44:27.060 I don't think I ate it.

01:44:29.060 Wait.

01:44:30.060 You have, I have nothing to do besides like, no matter what, he's stronger than me.

01:44:34.060 You know?

01:44:35.060 So you, how you bit him multiple times on the arm?

01:44:37.060 Yeah.

01:44:38.060 Okay.

01:44:39.060 Like took his flesh off basically.

01:44:40.060 Yeah, I did.

01:44:41.060 Well, you seem kind of happy about that.

01:44:43.060 No, no.

01:44:44.060 I don't know.

01:44:45.060 You were like, yeah.

01:44:46.060 Oh no.

01:44:47.060 Yeah.

01:44:48.060 That is just, that's just my energy.

01:44:49.060 I'm sorry.

01:44:50.060 No, you're good.

01:44:51.060 You're good.

01:44:52.060 Oh yeah.

01:44:53.060 I don't know.

01:44:54.060 But I'm going to get clipped now.

01:44:55.060 It's when it's not like.

01:44:56.060 No, you're fine.

01:44:57.060 Wait.

01:44:58.060 So, okay.

01:44:59.060 So anyways, wait.

01:45:00.060 It has you in the chokehold.

01:45:01.060 Is it like he's trying to choke you out or is he like, it's like a more restraining

01:45:07.060 you?

01:45:08.060 Like.

01:45:09.060 So I thought it was more choked out, which is why I ended up like making that post.

01:45:13.060 But, um, because we got ended up talking after it was him trying to restrain me because,

01:45:19.060 um, when I finally told him like, I can't breathe dude.

01:45:21.060 I can't like, I was like, then he stopped. 0.96

01:45:24.060 Uh, he was like, Oh, but like we were both in like fucking effed up mode. 0.93

01:45:33.060 Uh, okay. 0.96

01:45:34.060 Um, so, okay. 0.99

01:45:37.060 Who, if, if, uh, you were like rewind the tape, who looked more fucked up? 0.98

01:45:44.060 Like, like drunk? 0.99

01:45:45.060 No, no.

01:45:46.060 Like, uh, bloody bruises.

01:45:49.060 Who looked more beat up?

01:45:51.060 Um, because the bruises on my neck came later on. 0.99

01:45:54.060 I did not really look fucked up. 0.98

01:45:56.060 Um, okay. 0.97

01:45:57.060 He was, cause he had literal pieces of his arm, you know, and like he looked more.

01:46:05.060 So that's why when the cops came, that's why they made the assumption.

01:46:08.060 But were you, were you, you said, because you said that the cops said that you were like

01:46:12.060 acting crazy or whatever.

01:46:13.060 Were, uh, were you acting kind of crazy?

01:46:16.060 Well, I was fighting him and. 0.99

01:46:19.060 But were you trying to fight the cops and shit? 0.99

01:46:21.060 Oh, no, no, no, of course not. 0.99

01:46:22.060 Okay.

01:46:23.060 No, the, um, so the moment the cops came in, he was on top of me and then, uh, the cops

01:46:27.060 was like, uh, get off of her.

01:46:28.060 And then I, I, I, I didn't. 0.99

01:46:30.060 Did you kick him in the balls like as they were pulling him off you? 0.99

01:46:33.060 Right? 0.99

01:46:34.060 No, no.

01:46:35.060 Okay.

01:46:36.060 The cops come on top of me and they put handcuffs on me.

01:46:38.060 And then I'm just like, what the, what's happening right now?

01:46:41.060 Cause I thought the cops were coming to stop the situation.

01:46:43.060 I thought, I thought they were coming to like, you know, like stop it.

01:46:46.060 Cause we were both fighting.

01:46:47.060 And I didn't think that I was going to be the one getting detained.

01:46:51.060 Huh.

01:46:52.060 And you said there was audio recording of this.

01:46:55.060 Yeah.

01:46:56.060 Oh, I'm not sharing it.

01:46:57.060 No, no, no.

01:46:58.060 I'm not.

01:46:59.060 No, I'm not asking you.

01:47:00.060 I'm not asking you.

01:47:01.060 It sounds really bad.

01:47:02.060 It sounds really bad.

01:47:03.060 I don't want to.

01:47:04.060 Yeah.

01:47:05.060 I kind of want to hear it, but not appropriate for the stream.

01:47:08.060 Yeah.

01:47:09.060 Um, okay.

01:47:10.060 So that's wild.

01:47:11.060 Um, were you charged or were charges dropped?

01:47:14.060 Um, what were their charges?

01:47:16.060 So the state didn't put any charges on me and he didn't put any charges on me.

01:47:20.060 I just, I went to, um, I went to the holding cell.

01:47:23.060 They, and this is where I didn't cooperate with the cops because I didn't.

01:47:26.060 Oh, wait.

01:47:27.060 So, but first you went to the hospital.

01:47:29.060 No, first, first I went to a holding cell.

01:47:31.060 Holding cell.

01:47:32.060 Oh, wait, hold on.

01:47:33.060 So they didn't, they didn't 5150 you at the scene.

01:47:36.060 They arrested you because they brought you to the, the jail.

01:47:40.060 Yes.

01:47:41.060 And how long?

01:47:42.060 And then from the jail, they 5150 to you.

01:47:44.060 So how are you, were you like losing your mind in the jail?

01:47:48.060 No.

01:47:49.060 So, so, so that's why I will, I wasn't cooperating.

01:47:51.060 I was like, I didn't do anything wrong.

01:47:52.060 I was like, this is not right.

01:47:53.060 Cause the, here's the thing.

01:47:54.060 I just moved into this apartment and I'm literally going to get dragged down in handcuffs on my

01:47:57.060 birthday in this new apartment.

01:47:59.060 On the birthday.

01:48:00.060 That's rough.

01:48:01.060 How, how could that?

01:48:02.060 How dare.

01:48:03.060 On her birthday.

01:48:04.060 Like not like the day after, like, come on.

01:48:05.060 But anyways.

01:48:06.060 She's the birthday.

01:48:07.060 If you commit a crime on your birthday, they, you know, even if it's alleged, right?

01:48:11.060 I'm not saying you did anything.

01:48:13.060 They got to let you go.

01:48:14.060 They got to let you go.

01:48:15.060 That's the get out of jail free card.

01:48:18.060 Hey, excuse me, excuse me, officer.

01:48:21.060 I'm Luigi Mangione. 0.99

01:48:23.060 It's my fucking birthday today. 0.99

01:48:25.060 I just assassinated the healthcare CEO. 1.00

01:48:27.060 I get to not go to prison.

01:48:29.060 Anyway.

01:48:30.060 So, okay. 1.00

01:48:31.060 You're, you're causing shit. 1.00

01:48:32.060 You're beefing, you're beefing with the other cellies, the people in the cell. 1.00

01:48:36.060 So maybe it's not a cell cause I was alone in there.

01:48:38.060 Okay.

01:48:39.060 You were in your own cell.

01:48:40.060 I was in my own.

01:48:41.060 Okay.

01:48:42.060 So yeah.

01:48:43.060 And then, but you weren't being cooperative.

01:48:44.060 No, cause they wanted my insurance and I wouldn't give it to them.

01:48:47.060 Wait, give your what?

01:48:48.060 My insurance.

01:48:49.060 Like my health insurance.

01:48:50.060 Health insurance.

01:48:51.060 Oh.

01:48:52.060 In jail.

01:48:53.060 Wait, that's.

01:48:54.060 Yeah.

01:48:55.060 They were asking because they needed to know what hospital to send me to.

01:48:56.060 So they were asking for what my insurance.

01:48:57.060 Oh, because they were going to 5150 you.

01:48:59.060 Yeah.

01:49:00.060 Um.

01:49:01.060 But they were going to 5150 you because why?

01:49:05.060 I was blacked out with whatever he said.

01:49:07.060 Oh, you were.

01:49:08.060 Okay.

01:49:09.060 You were still drunk.

01:49:10.060 No.

01:49:11.060 So.

01:49:12.060 So you said you blacked out.

01:49:13.060 Yes.

01:49:14.060 Yes.

01:49:15.060 So when we were fighting.

01:49:16.060 No, no.

01:49:17.060 So, so when we were fighting, I was blacking in and blacking out and blacking in and blacking

01:49:20.060 out.

01:49:21.060 So I would.

01:49:22.060 So wait, if I'm black out, wake up, bite, black out.

01:49:25.060 I don't remember.

01:49:26.060 Wake up.

01:49:27.060 I don't remember biting.

01:49:28.060 I just remember getting choked.

01:49:29.060 And then that.

01:49:30.060 Yeah. 1.00

01:49:31.060 Did you remember the taste of flashy fucking cannibal? 1.00

01:49:33.060 No, I don't. 1.00

01:49:34.060 You cannibal. 0.94

01:49:35.060 I don't. 0.82

01:49:36.060 This is, you know what?

01:49:37.060 Here's what I think happened. 0.90

01:49:38.060 Secretly, she's a cannibal. 0.98

01:49:40.060 And she's like, I want his flesh. 0.97

01:49:42.060 Take me to the island.

01:49:44.060 There you go.

01:49:45.060 You're telling me.

01:49:46.060 She wants the flesh. 1.00

01:49:47.060 And she's like, this is, I have to stage a domestic violence situation so I can bite 0.99

01:49:52.060 him. 0.86

01:49:53.060 And then it's because I think cannibalism, that's pretty serious.

01:49:58.060 But if you're just like, I bit him in self-defense, it's not a big deal.

01:50:02.060 That's what it was.

01:50:03.060 No, I get it.

01:50:04.060 I know.

01:50:05.060 I know.

01:50:06.060 But it was my subconscious mind because I was not coherent.

01:50:08.060 Did you guys end up pressing towards them against each other?

01:50:10.060 Tell us, in the jail cell, you were not being cooperative.

01:50:15.060 What happened?

01:50:16.060 Then they called him and they asked him for what my insurance was.

01:50:19.060 And he told them and they took me to the nearest hospital.

01:50:21.060 No, but because you, first they brought you to the jail cell.

01:50:25.060 But then you were not being cooperative in jail.

01:50:27.060 I was not being cooperative in the beginning.

01:50:28.060 So they're like, yo, she's got to go to the hospital.

01:50:30.060 We're going to 5150 her.

01:50:32.060 Psych eval.

01:50:33.060 Why?

01:50:34.060 So I think that was the initial intention.

01:50:37.060 Whatever he said on the phone.

01:50:39.060 So I don't want, I don't want to get. 0.72

01:50:42.060 So there's something that he had said on the phone.

01:50:45.060 You could, you could, you could look it up.

01:50:47.060 Like self harm stuff.

01:50:49.060 Yeah.

01:50:50.060 Okay.

01:50:51.060 Okay.

01:50:52.060 So that's a better way.

01:50:53.060 Yeah.

01:50:54.060 And, um, because he had said that on the phone, um, already the cops came in with that

01:50:57.060 intention.

01:50:58.060 Then they were going to take me.

01:50:59.060 Were you banging your head on the glass door of the cell?

01:51:03.060 No.

01:51:04.060 Oh no.

01:51:05.060 Because if somebody is hurting themselves that way, they're going to.

01:51:08.060 No, I was just crying.

01:51:09.060 Were you in a straight jacket?

01:51:11.060 You're funny.

01:51:12.060 No, I'm just curious if they put you in a straight jacket.

01:51:14.060 No.

01:51:15.060 Okay.

01:51:16.060 So, so when I was actually in there, they, they'd restrain me because I tried to leave.

01:51:19.060 I was like, I'm going to walk out.

01:51:20.060 And I was like, I know how to get home.

01:51:22.060 So I was like, I'm not.

01:51:23.060 You said that to the police officers in the jail.

01:51:25.060 No.

01:51:26.060 So this is when I'm already in the hospital.

01:51:27.060 Sorry.

01:51:28.060 My brain goes in.

01:51:29.060 When I was in the hospital, I was like waiting.

01:51:30.060 Oh, in the hospital.

01:51:31.060 Yeah.

01:51:32.060 I was in the hospital.

01:51:33.060 I was like waiting.

01:51:34.060 So you got restrained to the bed?

01:51:35.060 After I tried to walk out, I was like, I'm leaving.

01:51:36.060 I know how to leave.

01:51:37.060 Oh, okay.

01:51:38.060 And then they're like, nope, you can't leave.

01:51:39.060 And I was like, yeah, I can't.

01:51:40.060 You were like a police guard at the hospital, right?

01:51:42.060 No, they had left.

01:51:43.060 They had left me with them.

01:51:44.060 Okay.

01:51:45.060 Yeah.

01:51:46.060 You, you're shaking your head.

01:51:47.060 You've been through this before.

01:51:48.060 The 5150. 0.94

01:51:49.060 No, I feel her pain.

01:51:50.060 No.

01:51:51.060 Oh, you feel her pain.

01:51:52.060 Oh, I, I, I am.

01:51:53.060 Anybody else here been 5150'd?

01:51:55.060 Mary.

01:51:56.060 Admit it.

01:51:57.060 God.

01:51:58.060 You, you were about to say yes.

01:51:59.060 About to say yes.

01:52:01.060 But no, you haven't been 5150.

01:52:03.060 No.

01:52:04.060 Okay.

01:52:05.060 But I am so grateful for that experience because I wouldn't have what I have right

01:52:08.060 now. 0.98

01:52:09.060 And I wouldn't have learned like to like not make stupid decisions and get myself into 1.00

01:52:12.060 situations. 1.00

01:52:13.060 I see.

01:52:14.060 Wow.

01:52:15.060 That is complicated.

01:52:16.060 Yeah.

01:52:17.060 That is a complicated.

01:52:18.060 That's, that's cool.

01:52:20.060 Or you know what?

01:52:21.060 Not cool.

01:52:22.060 Not cool.

01:52:23.060 It is cool because again, a lot of growth came from that and I'm like forever grateful

01:52:27.060 that I, it sucks that yeah, I had to be like that to that degree to where I had to 0.94

01:52:31.060 like learn something, but like that's just fucking happened. 0.99

01:52:35.060 And. 0.98

01:52:36.060 Wow.

01:52:37.060 Cool.

01:52:38.060 Cool.

01:52:39.060 Um, hmm.

01:52:41.060 So it sounds like that didn't work out.

01:52:43.060 No.

01:52:44.060 Sorry.

01:52:45.060 Well, we tried after we went back to each other for a couple months.

01:52:47.060 I made a public statement to like protect him because obviously like the stuff that I

01:52:50.060 said was like.

01:52:51.060 You.

01:52:52.060 What?

01:52:53.060 I'm sorry.

01:52:54.060 If a girl takes a flesh out of my body. 1.00

01:52:57.060 Well, hold on.

01:53:00.060 If she takes outer flesh out of me, I think I have to break up with it.

01:53:06.060 No, I think that's a break up.

01:53:07.060 Because I'm actually not crazy.

01:53:08.060 That's the thing.

01:53:09.060 No, I'm just saying.

01:53:10.060 I know maybe, you know, stuff happens, whatever.

01:53:12.060 Just cannibal, like casual cannibalism in a relationship.

01:53:16.060 But I feel like once she takes, once a girl bites your flesh off, it's, oh, it has

01:53:24.060 to be a, that's a breakup.

01:53:25.060 Well then like, then they'll choke the girl and then she won't bite you. 1.00

01:53:29.060 Sometimes girls ask for that though. 0.99

01:53:30.060 Okay.

01:53:31.060 Well, in bed it's different and totally different in bed.

01:53:34.060 By the way, I don't, who here wants to be choked?

01:53:38.060 Not now.

01:53:39.060 Like in bed?

01:53:40.060 No.

01:53:41.060 Why have you sex?

01:53:42.060 Right? 0.96

01:53:43.060 Why have you sex?

01:53:44.060 Yes. 0.82

01:53:45.060 In bed.

01:53:46.060 Yes.

01:53:47.060 Yes.

01:53:48.060 Yes.

01:53:49.060 I don't know.

01:53:50.060 What if they tuck you in after and then they cuddle you?

01:53:51.060 Alina is more like, you're Russian, right Alina?

01:53:52.060 I just want to hug.

01:53:53.060 No.

01:53:54.060 In bed.

01:53:55.060 In bed.

01:53:56.060 What's the, what's the, she does combat sombo in bed. 1.00

01:54:08.060 That's like the like Russian MMA shit. 0.99

01:54:10.060 She like, she like, whoa. 0.99

01:54:12.060 Hey.

01:54:13.060 Hey, do that again. 0.99

01:54:14.060 Do it again.

01:54:15.060 Then you left again.

01:54:17.060 Yeah.

01:54:18.060 Just imagine. 1.00

01:54:19.060 No, fucking Alina here. 1.00

01:54:20.060 She like goes, she spars before she has, she gets down because she's a combat sombo. 1.00

01:54:26.060 Right?

01:54:27.060 You did sombo?

01:54:28.060 Sure.

01:54:29.060 Okay.

01:54:30.060 Good talk.

01:54:31.060 Um, that's cool.

01:54:32.060 So anyways, that's crazy.

01:54:35.060 That's a doozy.

01:54:36.060 That's what, that's quite a story.

01:54:38.060 Um, over a laptop, right?

01:54:40.060 Well, yeah, it goes deeper than that.

01:54:42.060 Like our, just our relationship entirely, you know, what's up with all y'all wanting

01:54:45.060 to be choked?

01:54:46.060 I don't know.

01:54:47.060 Something happened in like 2017.

01:54:49.060 Like it went from like wholesome, wholesome to like choke me daddy.

01:54:57.060 Oh my God.

01:54:58.060 What happened to y'all?

01:55:01.060 Y'all got something.

01:55:03.060 I think you guys got like a violence or something.

01:55:05.060 The internet exploded.

01:55:06.060 No, but like it, it like reduces, like, it's like a euphoria feeling cause it does.

01:55:11.060 It reduces, it's, it's, you can like look into it.

01:55:14.060 It's, it reduces oxygen.

01:55:16.060 So it's like a euphoric, like lightheaded, like it's, there's a reason behind it.

01:55:20.060 It's not just because like, oh, I want to say that I like to be choked cause it makes

01:55:23.060 me more fun.

01:55:25.060 Do you feel like it comes from trauma?

01:55:26.060 Like you'd like to get choked in bed because there's like a deep part of you that's like

01:55:29.060 wounded?

01:55:30.060 No.

01:55:31.060 I don't have trauma, but that's not why I like to get choked.

01:55:32.060 I did not like it until I met my current boyfriend.

01:55:35.060 I would never allow it until I was with my current boyfriend.

01:55:39.060 Yeah.

01:55:40.060 The whatever.

01:55:41.060 Enjoyer.

01:55:42.060 Yes.

01:55:43.060 Freaky.

01:55:44.060 Yeah.

01:55:45.060 Freak.

01:55:46.060 Um, and he didn't send it and he, I don't think he sent it.

01:55:49.060 No, I don't think you did. 0.98

01:55:51.060 Pathetic. 0.95

01:55:52.060 Um, because to me it's not like, yeah, it's freaky, whatever, but it's literally like I 0.99

01:55:58.060 would give you control over my last breath.

01:56:01.060 I trust you that much.

01:56:03.060 And that's not something I, it's, and it's hot.

01:56:05.060 And then I was withdrawing off of nicotine too.

01:56:07.060 So I needed a little head rush.

01:56:09.060 Um, I was like, I'm about to go to work.

01:56:14.060 Daddy, um, may you please make me feel alive.

01:56:21.060 And, and he doesn't, he's fine.

01:56:25.060 And I'm like, amen.

01:56:26.060 Hallelujah.

01:56:27.060 But I feel like also there's a right and a wrong way to do it.

01:56:28.060 Like some guys just don't know how to do it.

01:56:29.060 So like, if you're not doing it.

01:56:30.060 A hundred P's. 0.98

01:56:31.060 You gotta meet a man.

01:56:32.060 Okay.

01:56:33.060 And they know.

01:56:34.060 There's a difference between trying to make it an enjoyable experience and trying to

01:56:39.060 like off you.

01:56:40.060 Like it's just never, there's a right and a wrong way to do it.

01:56:43.060 Like it's fine line.

01:56:44.060 You're having somebody with both hands and like, that's not how you do it.

01:56:47.060 Okay.

01:56:48.060 Wow.

01:56:49.060 You don't like that?

01:56:50.060 What?

01:56:51.060 The choking for like for you and your.

01:56:53.060 Like, here's the thing, right?

01:56:55.060 Is it depends.

01:56:58.060 Like if it's like a, just the hand on the neck and I can put a little weight on it.

01:57:05.060 Like a little, I think I'm okay with that.

01:57:07.060 But when it's like, it goes into breath play, then I'm a little nervous.

01:57:12.060 Yeah.

01:57:13.060 Like if a girl just wants a hand on like, and it's like a lip, that's okay. 0.53

01:57:16.060 But then you gotta be careful.

01:57:18.060 Like some of these girls, man, if you're doing that, at least for advice for men, if you're 1.00

01:57:22.060 doing that with a chick, you gotta get her to text you that shit. 1.00

01:57:26.060 Like she has to text you. 1.00

01:57:28.060 I want you to do this shit because I ain't gonna, I'm not gonna be in a position dealing 1.00

01:57:32.060 with a chick. 1.00

01:57:33.060 And she's like, I want you to smack me around. 1.00

01:57:35.060 You gotta like say that shit on camera. 1.00

01:57:38.060 If you, and first off, I don't want to, I'm not, I wouldn't smack a girl around. 1.00

01:57:41.060 Like that's, that's a boundary. 1.00

01:57:42.060 Even if she wants it, fuck you. 1.00

01:57:44.060 Yeah. 1.00

01:57:45.060 I ain't doing that shit. 1.00

01:57:46.060 But like a choke or something, hair pulling, whatever, spanking, I'll do it. 1.00

01:57:49.060 Yeah. 0.54

01:57:50.060 But there's a fine line. 0.99

01:57:51.060 But like, you want to, you want fucking bruises on your body. 1.00

01:57:54.060 You gotta be on fucking camera telling me that shit, but I'm not doing it anyways. 1.00

01:57:58.060 I'm not putting bruises on a girl. 1.00

01:58:00.060 Um, but, uh, some more like more tame stuff I'm okay with.

01:58:05.060 Um, but any, any guys out there who like are into the, that stuff and the chicks like,

01:58:12.060 maybe you're a little naive and she's like, Oh, I want you to put bruises on me, hit me, 1.00

01:58:16.060 whatever, bro. 1.00

01:58:17.060 You got to get her to say that shit on camera. 1.00

01:58:19.060 You got to protect yourself in that kind of situation. 1.00

01:58:21.060 Cause you know what I mean, chat, you know what I mean?

01:58:27.060 She knows what I mean.

01:58:28.060 You know, they know what I mean.

01:58:30.060 Uh, I don't know.

01:58:31.060 Look, if, if it turns my partner on, right, there are things that don't do anything for

01:58:36.060 me, but if it, it helps them out, I'll do it.

01:58:39.060 And, and so like, if it turns them on, it'll turn me on.

01:58:42.060 But there are just some certain things I'm not going to do.

01:58:45.060 So, yeah.

01:58:49.060 What if you just like try everything once and if you don't like it, you don't have

01:58:52.060 to try it again.

01:58:53.060 There's some things I just will not do a hundred percent boundary.

01:58:56.060 Like if she wants me to, I don't know.

01:58:59.060 I wouldn't like smack a girl across the face. 0.97

01:59:01.060 I wouldn't do that.

01:59:02.060 No way. 1.00

01:59:03.060 I will spit in her mouth. 1.00

01:59:05.060 Oh, sure. 1.00

01:59:06.060 That was guttural.

01:59:11.060 Why not?

01:59:13.060 Not my thing.

01:59:15.060 But if it, whatever, if you know, look, sometimes you care about your partner.

01:59:19.060 You care about your partner's pleasure.

01:59:22.060 They got something a little quirky or interesting.

01:59:25.060 If it's not anything that's a boundary, you can kind of, I think it's fine.

01:59:29.060 I think it's fine.

01:59:31.060 Yeah.

01:59:32.060 Good talk.

01:59:33.060 Okay. 0.98

01:59:34.060 Sick.

01:59:35.060 Yeah, exactly. 0.66

01:59:36.060 So, okay.

01:59:37.060 We have Jay and Nico here.

01:59:38.060 We have a couple of chats.

01:59:39.060 There aren't, you know what?

01:59:42.060 Uh, Patrice, excuse me.

01:59:45.060 Can you read it?

01:59:46.060 Can you be the reader?

01:59:47.060 There aren't enough red flags for chair one.

01:59:50.060 This is why no decent man will date a raver, he thought chair eight. 0.94

01:59:55.060 Can we clone you?

01:59:58.060 You must be protected at all costs. 0.61

02:00:01.060 Oh, no, you're cherry. 0.80

02:00:03.060 You're cherry.

02:00:04.060 Thank you.

02:00:05.060 Look into that camera and wink.

02:00:06.060 Is it OJ?

02:00:07.060 Oh.

02:00:08.060 Hey, clip it and chip it, boys.

02:00:11.060 Clip it and chip it.

02:00:12.060 Let's see here.

02:00:14.060 We have a chat.

02:00:15.060 And I think, is Andrew? 1.00

02:00:16.060 Oh, shit. 0.99

02:00:17.060 Sorry. 0.99

02:00:18.060 I haven't been checking my phone.

02:00:19.060 I think Andrew's ready.

02:00:20.060 We're going to try to get him on.

02:00:22.060 Yo-ho.

02:00:23.060 Can Alina read Mike Davis for us?

02:00:26.060 What's up, y'all?

02:00:27.060 It's Mike Davis.

02:00:28.060 I hope y'all been in the lab working on your craft instead of sitting behind the screen busting

02:00:33.060 nuts and dropping your welfare checks on these degenerate 304s. 1.00

02:00:37.060 Stop making excuses and feeling sorry for yourselves.

02:00:40.060 Time to level up.

02:00:41.060 First off, Mike Davis, I, uh, Mike Davis is the, the OG.

02:00:48.060 Hold on, let me.

02:00:49.060 That's what I'm talking about!

02:00:52.060 That's why he's giving me!

02:00:54.060 That's why he's the GOAT!

02:00:56.060 The GOAT! 0.82

02:00:57.060 He is the GOAT.

02:00:58.060 He's a brave and a decent man.

02:00:59.060 He's a pioneer.

02:01:00.060 Mike Davis, I don't know.

02:01:02.060 Here, I'm gonna pull it back up.

02:01:03.060 I don't know the last time you've sent in a super chat, but it's really good to see you,

02:01:08.060 man.

02:01:09.060 I hope your 2025 is off to a great start.

02:01:11.060 I hope you've opened up a bunch more Burger King franchises.

02:01:16.060 Maybe you can like get Quiznos up and running again, too.

02:01:19.060 Uh, thank you so much, man.

02:01:20.060 Really appreciate the super chat.

02:01:22.060 This guy is the OG.

02:01:23.060 He's been here since, I don't know the exact number of the episode when you first started,

02:01:28.060 but I think it was like the first 10, first 20.

02:01:31.060 You're an OG back in, I mean, it was for sure back in 2022.

02:01:36.060 Uh, you've been with us for a while.

02:01:38.060 Uh, I know you don't stop by as often as you used to, but it's really good to see you.

02:01:42.060 Uh, you, pretty much you single-handedly kept the show going early on because you were like our number,

02:01:48.060 or kind of like our, you, Davon Jackson, uh, were like our kind of really initial patrons.

02:01:54.060 Uh, but primarily you, Mike.

02:01:56.060 So I want to do a big shout out to you.

02:01:57.060 It's good to see you.

02:01:58.060 We haven't seen you in a bit, but thank you so much, man.

02:02:00.060 I hope you're off too.

02:02:01.060 I hope you're doing well, man.

02:02:02.060 Uh, let's see.

02:02:03.060 We have, do we have Andrew?

02:02:05.060 Do we got, do we have him?

02:02:07.060 Oh, oh, look who it is.

02:02:09.060 Hey, Andrew.

02:02:10.060 Good to see you, man.

02:02:13.060 Oh, yeah.

02:02:14.060 I'm sorry.

02:02:15.060 I'm late.

02:02:16.060 Yeah.

02:02:17.060 I was on a, I was on a trip all weekend and I, I just didn't get much sleep.

02:02:20.060 So no, it's all good.

02:02:21.060 How was the debate comment?

02:02:23.060 It was great.

02:02:24.060 It was great.

02:02:25.060 We, uh, we hijacked the entire thing.

02:02:27.060 It was fantastic.

02:02:28.060 Uh, we, uh, we basically took it over strong arm, James pretty proud of that.

02:02:33.060 So yeah, it was good.

02:02:34.060 Did you, I, I didn't see, get to see much just cause I had my own show going, but, uh,

02:02:39.060 did you debate with Brianna Wu or was that somebody else?

02:02:42.060 That was Witsit Austin Witsit.

02:02:44.060 Okay.

02:02:45.060 Woo.

02:02:46.060 Got it.

02:02:47.060 I have debated with Wu before.

02:02:48.060 Yeah.

02:02:49.060 Good stuff.

02:02:50.060 Good stuff.

02:02:51.060 Well, welcome to the panel.

02:02:52.060 This is Andrew Wilson.

02:02:53.060 Welcome.

02:02:54.060 Welcome.

02:02:55.060 All right.

02:02:56.060 Uh, we're going to get into, I don't know if you were listening, but we're just going

02:02:57.060 to get into some of the rest of the show here.

02:03:00.060 Um, so let's see.

02:03:02.060 Uh, oh, oh, last thing for this guy, you said to make it a bit more juicier.

02:03:09.060 Oh yeah.

02:03:10.060 This same man had an only fan subscription to your best friend and would use it anytime

02:03:16.060 you had an argument.

02:03:18.060 Huh?

02:03:19.060 What?

02:03:20.060 Yeah.

02:03:21.060 Huh?

02:03:22.060 Huh?

02:03:23.060 That's right.

02:03:24.060 Yeah.

02:03:25.060 Yeah.

02:03:26.060 To be fair.

02:03:27.060 Um, so I, I want to just like put it on the table so he doesn't look like some like, 1.00

02:03:30.060 like, or my ex doesn't look like some like weird, weird man, but I also had an OF and I

02:03:35.060 wouldn't utilize it.

02:03:36.060 Yeah.

02:03:37.060 I wouldn't use it, but it was just there to like, uh, collect the money that was from

02:03:40.060 the subscribers that were like already, um, like there.

02:03:44.060 And, um, I got it before we got, wait, wait, hang on, hang on before you continue.

02:03:50.060 What do you mean?

02:03:51.060 It was just there to collect money from subscribers who were already there.

02:03:54.060 Oh, like I don't post on it.

02:03:55.060 I don't send out anything.

02:03:56.060 I just, um, I've had subscribers cause when I posted about it, a lot of people ended up

02:04:00.060 subscribing and ended up staying and they just pay per month waiting for me to post.

02:04:05.060 Oh, but you don't post anything.

02:04:08.060 Uh, at that time, no, because we were in, we got into a relationship and he felt uncomfortable

02:04:12.060 with it.

02:04:13.060 So I stopped.

02:04:14.060 I see.

02:04:15.060 Yeah.

02:04:16.060 Okay.

02:04:17.060 Yeah.

02:04:18.060 Thanks.

02:04:19.060 Yeah.

02:04:20.060 Um, so because that existed, um, I think probably like it triggered him in his mind to

02:04:23.060 like think that it was okay to like do that.

02:04:26.060 Um, and yeah, he did that.

02:04:30.060 He, uh, she was a good friend of mine and anytime we had an argument, he would go

02:04:35.060 and look at it and he admitted to it.

02:04:37.060 And, um, yeah.

02:04:38.060 Hmm.

02:04:39.060 Isn't that kind of a good strategy though?

02:04:42.060 If you think about it from the angle of the boyfriend.

02:04:44.060 So like, if you're doing, if you're doing OF, then you can't really have any moral problems

02:04:50.060 with him if he's watching other OF girls.

02:04:53.060 Right.

02:04:54.060 You know what I mean by that's what he was probably thinking.

02:04:56.060 That's why like you want, he was okay with doing that, but I was really hurt in the moment.

02:05:01.060 Of course, when I found out I was like, you know, F you, like, we're not going to talk

02:05:06.060 anymore.

02:05:07.060 And, um, yeah, so it actually gets really juicy and I'm down to share it.

02:05:13.060 So when we were fighting during that moment, um, I had, I was already back at my apartment

02:05:18.060 and we were texting this argument and, um, he wanted to talk so bad with me.

02:05:23.060 I was like, we're not going to talk.

02:05:24.060 Like, I don't want to talk to you.

02:05:25.060 And then I actually blocked him.

02:05:27.060 And then, um, he was like anything.

02:05:29.060 He called me again and he was like, anything that you need, like from a private number,

02:05:33.060 anything that you need, like this, like, I want, I go, I want to work on this.

02:05:36.060 I want to fix this.

02:05:37.060 Um, because around this time is when I was like making a public statement to try to like

02:05:41.060 defend what had happened before, like what I had said, him, like, you know, abusing me

02:05:44.060 and stuff like that.

02:05:45.060 And I was like, all right, then I'll send me, send me my rent, send me three K and I'll

02:05:49.060 talk to you.

02:05:50.060 And, um, he sent me my rent and then we had a conversation and then we got back together

02:05:53.060 again.

02:05:54.060 So that's, that's yeah.

02:05:56.060 Happy ending.

02:05:57.060 Messy girl. 1.00

02:05:58.060 That was messy.

02:05:59.060 Messy.

02:06:00.060 Get your bags.

02:06:01.060 Wait, so are you still talking to him?

02:06:02.060 No.

02:06:03.060 God, no.

02:06:04.060 God, no.

02:06:05.060 Okay.

02:06:06.060 But the best friend though that he was subscribed to, like, did y'all still keep in contact?

02:06:09.060 Oh yeah.

02:06:10.060 She's my girl.

02:06:11.060 Like she's like, yeah, I'm not going to get mad at it.

02:06:13.060 It wasn't her fault.

02:06:14.060 Yeah.

02:06:15.060 It's not her fault.

02:06:16.060 Yeah.

02:06:17.060 It's not her fault, but wouldn't you still feel uncomfortable though?

02:06:18.060 Like if I catch my man, like I would have an OnlyFans, but let me say like I would be

02:06:23.060 in your situation where it happened to me.

02:06:25.060 Wouldn't you still feel uncomfortable?

02:06:26.060 He's, if you have OnlyFans, he can go subscribe to any girl, but that he specifically chose your best

02:06:32.060 friend.

02:06:33.060 Yeah.

02:06:34.060 It's weird on his end, but like.

02:06:35.060 It's not her fault.

02:06:36.060 Yeah.

02:06:37.060 It's not her fault.

02:06:38.060 I'm not saying it's her fault.

02:06:39.060 I'm just saying, wouldn't you feel uncomfortable?

02:06:40.060 Like around like my girlfriend?

02:06:41.060 Yeah.

02:06:42.060 Some people might.

02:06:43.060 Yeah.

02:06:44.060 I mean, maybe it took me a while to like reconnect with her on like the level that we

02:06:49.060 were at, but it just came naturally.

02:06:51.060 It's kind of like going with the flow and not really thinking too much about it.

02:06:54.060 Sure.

02:06:55.060 If anything, he, he told on himself, like there's guys that hang out with their, with

02:06:59.060 their girlfriend and her friends all the time.

02:07:01.060 And they secretly are thinking probably nine times out of 10.

02:07:05.060 Oh, that friend, I would do this, that, and the other thing with.

02:07:07.060 He told on himself.

02:07:08.060 He told exactly what friend and exactly, he made her more perceptive to the situation

02:07:13.060 probably.

02:07:14.060 Yeah.

02:07:15.060 I actually really liked that story because I think I went through like a similar problem

02:07:21.060 with two guys that I dated and they both liked like my friend first.

02:07:25.060 And so it was really tough for me because like, Oh no, one of them was the ex I was talking

02:07:29.060 about.

02:07:30.060 The one that I broke up with to go to the military.

02:07:32.060 We met up again after we broken up in Korea.

02:07:34.060 And then like he said, he, you know, wanted to like, you know, still be with me.

02:07:38.060 But then as soon as he met my friend, they started talking and he was like, Oh, you know,

02:07:43.060 I didn't see a future with Ivy.

02:07:44.060 I really like you.

02:07:45.060 Like, can we go out?

02:07:46.060 And then she, I only knew her for a week at that point, but I really liked her a lot.

02:07:50.060 And so I'll be honest.

02:07:51.060 It is really tough.

02:07:52.060 And the same ex, he also hit on my best friend in college at UCSD two years prior.

02:07:57.060 And so, and I still stayed with that guy, but it's like, it is tough.

02:08:00.060 I will say like these friendships, like the girls, like as long as the guy's out of the

02:08:04.060 picture, you can still be friends with the girl.

02:08:05.060 But like when I was still dating that guy, I like lost that best friend at UCSD.

02:08:10.060 And so I don't talk to her anymore.

02:08:11.060 And so it's really sad.

02:08:13.060 I'm like, Oh, I really resonate with that a lot.

02:08:15.060 It's all like the mental mind game, you know, like if you tell yourself like this person

02:08:18.060 is, I'm going to be uncomfortable around this person, you're going to be uncomfortable.

02:08:21.060 But like, if you just don't really think about it that in that way, then you just, you're

02:08:25.060 just shoving it down though.

02:08:26.060 No, no.

02:08:27.060 Well, I, I went to therapy and I talked about it.

02:08:30.060 Yeah.

02:08:31.060 No, I, I'm, I journal.

02:08:32.060 I meditate every day.

02:08:33.060 Like I, I, I'm still dealing with like the whole like healing process, but I'm at a place

02:08:38.060 where I could talk about it and not like, um, did you say, um, did you say that you journal

02:08:44.060 and you what?

02:08:45.060 Oh, I journal and I practice mindful meditation.

02:08:48.060 It, it.

02:08:49.060 On your journey.

02:08:50.060 Yeah.

02:08:51.060 I guess on my journey.

02:08:52.060 Of self healing.

02:08:53.060 Yeah.

02:08:54.060 I guess.

02:08:55.060 Yeah.

02:08:56.060 Yeah.

02:08:57.060 Yeah.

02:08:58.060 I mean, it's helpful.

02:08:59.060 Like, uh, I looked into a stoicism and a Taoism and a lot of like these philosophies have

02:09:02.060 really like rewired my brain to like, not be, um, toxic.

02:09:07.060 What's your favorite thing about stoicism?

02:09:10.060 The fact that you're not attached to someone's decision and, um, it doesn't just a, I feel

02:09:17.060 like I'm more in tune with my, with my inner emotion because I don't let my actions become

02:09:23.060 be dictated off of someone else's actions.

02:09:25.060 And I think that's something that I struggled with in the past of like, I needed to be validated.

02:09:30.060 I needed to control a situation and it would lead me into like what had happened, you know?

02:09:35.060 And the moment that I detached and detached, but still like with love, I was able to just

02:09:42.060 fully, um, feel like more peace of mind and more calm and just, yeah.

02:09:50.060 More calm.

02:09:51.060 Are you like the oldest child?

02:09:53.060 No, I'm the youngest.

02:09:55.060 Oh, wow. 0.98

02:09:56.060 What the heck? 0.95

02:09:57.060 Yeah. 0.95

02:09:58.060 You put a lot of burden on yourself.

02:10:00.060 Yeah.

02:10:01.060 How so?

02:10:02.060 Yeah.

02:10:03.060 Yeah.

02:10:04.060 It seems like you did a lot of self work.

02:10:05.060 Cause you know, like when you're younger, you felt like you had to control the situations

02:10:08.060 and that's like a very older child mentality to have.

02:10:10.060 Cause I feel like younger kids are just like, you know, they're the last one.

02:10:13.060 So the parents like really chill with them.

02:10:15.060 They don't have to like hide things or like care about like-

02:10:18.060 More spoiled.

02:10:19.060 Yeah.

02:10:20.060 A little bit more spoiled.

02:10:21.060 They tend to be.

02:10:22.060 Well, I was 5150.

02:10:23.060 So it's like, I'm at rock bottom and I thought I couldn't go any lower and I just kept getting 0.99

02:10:27.060 lower and I'm like, all right, Brenda, like let's figure this shit out. 0.97

02:10:30.060 Let's actually like try to be a good person and, um, learn from this. 0.94

02:10:35.060 And so I feel like I had to, like, there was no other way.

02:10:38.060 I was just going to keep, I was going to keep going lower.

02:10:40.060 Keep going lower.

02:10:41.060 Wait, your name is Brenda?

02:10:42.060 Uh huh.

02:10:43.060 I'm so sorry.

02:10:44.060 I didn't get everyone's name.

02:10:45.060 Can everyone like say their name again for me?

02:10:47.060 Brenda.

02:10:48.060 And then.

02:10:49.060 Patrice.

02:10:50.060 Patrice.

02:10:51.060 Kelly.

02:10:52.060 Kelly.

02:10:53.060 Oh, hi.

02:10:54.060 Bailey.

02:10:55.060 Bailey.

02:10:56.060 Steph.

02:10:57.060 Steph.

02:10:58.060 Mary.

02:10:59.060 Mary.

02:11:00.060 Alina.

02:11:01.060 Oh, you look like Alina from like Vampire Diaries.

02:11:03.060 Alina.

02:11:04.060 Alina.

02:11:05.060 I like how you, uh, how you repeated all of their names so that.

02:11:08.060 Okay.

02:11:09.060 Brenda.

02:11:10.060 Patrice.

02:11:11.060 Patrice.

02:11:12.060 Kelly.

02:11:13.060 Cor.

02:11:14.060 Did you almost say Korea?

02:11:16.060 No, no, no.

02:11:17.060 Karina?

02:11:18.060 No.

02:11:19.060 Not even close.

02:11:20.060 Bailey.

02:11:21.060 Bailey.

02:11:22.060 Bailey.

02:11:23.060 Bailey.

02:11:24.060 And then.

02:11:25.060 Steph.

02:11:26.060 Wow.

02:11:27.060 Mary.

02:11:28.060 Mary.

02:11:29.060 Helpful.

02:11:30.060 And last one.

02:11:31.060 Alina.

02:11:32.060 Yes.

02:11:33.060 Alina.

02:11:34.060 Yeah.

02:11:35.060 Thank you.

02:11:36.060 I love that.

02:11:37.060 Good job.

02:11:38.060 That's a really good strategy.

02:11:39.060 And you.

02:11:40.060 Ivy.

02:11:41.060 Ivy.

02:11:42.060 What's my name?

02:11:43.060 Bailey.

02:11:44.060 Yes.

02:11:45.060 It feels uncomfortable.

02:11:46.060 I don't.

02:11:47.060 I'm talking to like random people right now.

02:11:49.060 But now I have your names out.

02:11:50.060 Right.

02:11:51.060 You got it Ivy.

02:11:52.060 All right.

02:11:53.060 Uh, somebody take that pen from her because it's a menace. 1.00

02:11:56.060 Oh shoot.

02:11:57.060 I do fidget a lot.

02:11:58.060 I'm going to just chuck it.

02:11:59.060 Watch.

02:12:00.060 Oh no.

02:12:01.060 Oh, I wasn't trying.

02:12:02.060 Oh.

02:12:03.060 I wasn't trying to throw it to you.

02:12:04.060 But I was just going to throw it and let it, let the chips fall where they may.

02:12:08.060 Uh, good.

02:12:09.060 He did a good catch though.

02:12:10.060 It was a good, he used to play baseball.

02:12:11.060 Um.

02:12:12.060 All right.

02:12:13.060 So let's get into the notes.

02:12:14.060 Sorry guys.

02:12:15.060 I had to step away there for a sec.

02:12:16.060 Uh, let's see.

02:12:17.060 Uh, here.

02:12:18.060 I'm going to do.

02:12:19.060 I almost want to just jump into the questionnaire because it's kind of more interesting.

02:12:22.060 And then we'll do some of your guys's, uh, notes.

02:12:25.060 Ivy.

02:12:26.060 You said you dated a guy for a month and then he broke up and stole your dog and $3,000.

02:12:30.060 Oh my God.

02:12:31.060 Yeah.

02:12:32.060 I told you that.

02:12:33.060 Yeah.

02:12:34.060 What's the story?

02:12:35.060 Uh, this, the story is, um, it's really traumatizing actually.

02:12:37.060 But yeah, so this guy also I was telling you about another guy that liked my friend first

02:12:42.060 as well.

02:12:43.060 And so we had met on the streets in Hongdae.

02:12:45.060 I don't know if you guys have been to Korea, but there's like a street.

02:12:47.060 It's really popular for like clubs, people shop, walking.

02:12:50.060 Okay.

02:12:51.060 You met there.

02:12:52.060 What happened?

02:12:53.060 And then we didn't meet there.

02:12:54.060 He just like, he asked my friends out on the street.

02:12:55.060 So he went up to my friend.

02:12:56.060 Thought she was pretty.

02:12:57.060 Asked her out.

02:12:58.060 And then she was scared to go on a date with him because he was a random guy on the street.

02:13:02.060 So then you went on a date with him?

02:13:03.060 So she asked me, Ivy, can you and Manami, which is her Japanese roommate, can you two 0.76

02:13:07.060 girls come with me on a date? 1.00

02:13:09.060 So it's one guy and we only met him the day before and it was three girls.

02:13:14.060 And then during that date, or it wasn't a date, it was like a hangout then.

02:13:17.060 He like picked us up from our school.

02:13:18.060 We were studying at Yonsei.

02:13:20.060 And then he took us to this really beautiful pasta restaurant in Yongnam-dong.

02:13:24.060 And then yeah, it was really nice.

02:13:25.060 And then we actually hit off really well because he studied at UIUC.

02:13:29.060 So it's like, you know, a college in the States.

02:13:32.060 He studied abroad most of his life.

02:13:33.060 So he spoke fluent English.

02:13:34.060 And so I think that's why we hit it off because he's like, oh, I haven't used this much English

02:13:37.060 in so long.

02:13:38.060 And then at the time I was actually dating a guy in LA.

02:13:42.060 It was like this Korean chef that didn't speak English.

02:13:45.060 And so, yeah, it was pretty bad.

02:13:48.060 But then I started to like him.

02:13:49.060 And then I broke up with the boyfriend I was dating in LA to date that guy.

02:13:54.060 And yeah, from the minute we met to us dating, it took us like a week.

02:13:58.060 And we went on a trip with all our friends to Busan.

02:14:01.060 And then, yeah, it was a pretty good time for a while.

02:14:03.060 But we fought a lot.

02:14:04.060 And then the breakup story.

02:14:06.060 Oh, I'm ADHD.

02:14:07.060 I'm sorry.

02:14:08.060 I always get so much details.

02:14:10.060 Okay.

02:14:11.060 The end of the story.

02:14:12.060 Yeah, sorry.

02:14:13.060 I just kind of checked out there after like 20 irrelevant details.

02:14:16.060 So, what?

02:14:17.060 I get so many details.

02:14:18.060 Okay.

02:14:19.060 So, you met him in the street in Korea.

02:14:21.060 And then, da, da, da.

02:14:23.060 So.

02:14:24.060 Wait a second, Brian.

02:14:25.060 I was very interested in what type of street lights were there.

02:14:28.060 And what color was there.

02:14:30.060 What color was there. 1.00

02:14:31.060 You're in a good garage of the same shit. 1.00

02:14:32.060 Do you have ADHD? 1.00

02:14:33.060 Yeah, I think so.

02:14:34.060 Yeah.

02:14:35.060 That's why I was a school teacher.

02:14:36.060 It fit me.

02:14:37.060 So, I tell like very vivid details.

02:14:39.060 Wait, you were a school teacher?

02:14:41.060 I used to work in a school in Oakland.

02:14:43.060 Yeah.

02:14:44.060 You taught children things?

02:14:45.060 I taught like 120 kids.

02:14:47.060 I was a 7th grade teacher.

02:14:49.060 Yeah.

02:14:50.060 An English teacher.

02:14:52.060 And I went to San Francisco too.

02:14:54.060 So, I lived in the Bay before I moved back to LA.

02:14:58.060 Okay.

02:14:59.060 Yeah.

02:15:00.060 So, this is some.

02:15:01.060 Continue your story.

02:15:02.060 Thank you.

02:15:03.060 Yeah.

02:15:04.060 So, this is all before I became a teacher.

02:15:05.060 And then, yeah.

02:15:06.060 I kind of knew it was like eventually like going to be long distance.

02:15:08.060 Because I had to go back to America where I had the teaching job lined up.

02:15:12.060 But, yeah.

02:15:13.060 We tried to like make things work.

02:15:14.060 We hung out every single day.

02:15:15.060 It was a very intense relationship.

02:15:17.060 But, it only lasted a month.

02:15:19.060 Because towards the end, I was like, oh, you know.

02:15:21.060 He said like, it'll be cute.

02:15:22.060 We got a dog together.

02:15:23.060 So, like I'll like take care of him while you're gone in the States.

02:15:26.060 I was like, oh, yeah.

02:15:27.060 That's a cute idea.

02:15:28.060 So, we went to the premium pet store.

02:15:29.060 And we saw a dog.

02:15:30.060 And the dog was like $600.

02:15:32.060 It was like cute little Palm Spitz.

02:15:34.060 And I really loved it.

02:15:35.060 We named it like Dushik at the time.

02:15:37.060 It was, well, I mean.

02:15:38.060 And it, of course, was a really tiny one of those.

02:15:40.060 Yeah, yeah.

02:15:41.060 One of those fluffy white dogs.

02:15:42.060 I love fluffy white dogs.

02:15:43.060 Yeah, of course.

02:15:44.060 I freaking love them.

02:15:45.060 Of course.

02:15:46.060 And you came, hang on.

02:15:47.060 And you gave it a zany name, didn't you?

02:15:48.060 Yeah, Dushik. 0.98

02:15:49.060 Yeah.

02:15:50.060 I don't even know what it means to this day.

02:15:51.060 Of course.

02:15:52.060 Yeah.

02:15:53.060 Because he chose that name.

02:15:54.060 I don't know what that name means.

02:15:55.060 And so, it was a really cute dog.

02:15:57.060 Basically, he was living with a roommate.

02:15:59.060 Like, not a roommate.

02:16:00.060 Like, they lived in the same room.

02:16:01.060 But like, they had like, it was a two bedroom, right?

02:16:04.060 And his roommate was like, oh, I actually don't like having Ivy over all the time. 0.93

02:16:07.060 And at the time, I was living in the dorms in Korea.

02:16:10.060 And so, I can't have guests over.

02:16:12.060 And I can't have a dog either.

02:16:13.060 And so, I thought it was a lot.

02:16:17.060 Yeah, I know.

02:16:18.060 This is really funny.

02:16:19.060 You're getting this.

02:16:20.060 Go ahead.

02:16:21.060 And so, the roommate was like, oh, can she not come over anymore?

02:16:26.060 And I was like, I'm literally going to leave back to the States soon.

02:16:28.060 So, I don't know why he cares.

02:16:30.060 And also, I bought you guys a dog.

02:16:31.060 So, I should like, be able to come out and see the dog.

02:16:33.060 And so, he fought with me about that.

02:16:35.060 Saying like, oh, I can't do anything about that.

02:16:37.060 It's like my roommate.

02:16:38.060 And so, I told him like, can you just man up a little bit?

02:16:40.060 And then, he got really upset.

02:16:41.060 And I kind of like, compared him to my ex-boyfriend.

02:16:43.060 Which is like, not good on my part.

02:16:45.060 And it's so funny.

02:16:46.060 Because the entire time, we were on the drive up to Namsan Tower.

02:16:49.060 To do like, a love lock.

02:16:51.060 I don't know if you guys know what that is.

02:16:52.060 But, it's like, oh, we'd be in a relationship.

02:16:55.060 Like, serious.

02:16:56.060 Like, oh, it's like cute.

02:16:57.060 You just go up and you lock it in.

02:16:58.060 And then, we were going to do that.

02:17:00.060 And so, on the way up, we got into a fight.

02:17:02.060 And so, he was like, I'm just going to drop you off at your dorm.

02:17:04.060 And then, on the way drive back.

02:17:06.060 We stopped on the streets of Sincheon.

02:17:08.060 And so...

02:17:09.060 I don't want to interrupt your story.

02:17:10.060 But, I just wanted to let you know, I'm eating some of my daughter's birthday cake.

02:17:13.060 And you can't have any.

02:17:15.060 I really love cake.

02:17:17.060 You don't get any.

02:17:18.060 Happy birthday.

02:17:19.060 Happy birthday.

02:17:20.060 I want you to ask, can you say the following?

02:17:22.060 Say the following.

02:17:23.060 This one time?

02:17:24.060 At band camp?

02:17:25.060 No.

02:17:26.060 I actually was in band camp too.

02:17:28.060 Wow.

02:17:29.060 Called it.

02:17:30.060 I did color guard.

02:17:31.060 I did color guard.

02:17:32.060 I did color guard.

02:17:33.060 I am a psychic.

02:17:34.060 If you're appreciating detail, tell us about band camp.

02:17:37.060 Oh, it was traumatizing.

02:17:38.060 Did you play the flute?

02:17:39.060 No, I was a color guard.

02:17:40.060 Color guard.

02:17:41.060 Color guard.

02:17:42.060 Yeah.

02:17:43.060 Oh.

02:17:44.060 Why?

02:17:45.060 Wait, hold on.

02:17:46.060 I got to get into this.

02:17:47.060 You did color guard?

02:17:48.060 Yeah.

02:17:49.060 Red flag?

02:17:50.060 Wait, what?

02:17:51.060 How was that a red flag?

02:17:52.060 What?

02:17:53.060 Massive red flag.

02:17:54.060 You were around a red flag too, right?

02:17:55.060 Yeah, my flag was red.

02:17:56.060 See?

02:17:57.060 It was because we were doing some show.

02:18:01.060 What was it called?

02:18:02.060 The theme was like...

02:18:03.060 Were you the flag carrier?

02:18:04.060 Wait, no.

02:18:05.060 Every girl has a flag. 1.00

02:18:06.060 Every?

02:18:07.060 Oh, that's...

02:18:08.060 Duh.

02:18:09.060 Okay.

02:18:10.060 Yeah.

02:18:11.060 That's skill.

02:18:12.060 I wasn't trying to...

02:18:13.060 I wasn't like...

02:18:14.060 What's the word for that?

02:18:16.060 No, it is actually a red flag though.

02:18:18.060 Yeah, it was a red color flag.

02:18:19.060 And my costume was all red.

02:18:21.060 It's a red flag.

02:18:22.060 Wait, I want to know why.

02:18:23.060 I don't think I'm a red flag.

02:18:25.060 Why?

02:18:26.060 It's like theater...

02:18:28.060 It's like one step removed from theater.

02:18:31.060 So Dede's a red flag?

02:18:32.060 And that's a red flag.

02:18:33.060 Hmm.

02:18:34.060 But that...

02:18:35.060 Well, you don't want to...

02:18:36.060 If you heard my list of red flags, that's like 70% of like everybody, but...

02:18:39.060 Can we hear them?

02:18:40.060 Huh?

02:18:41.060 Can we hear some of them?

02:18:42.060 Cheerleader?

02:18:43.060 A dancer?

02:18:44.060 We'll come right back to your story.

02:18:47.060 Hopefully we can finish it before the end of the show, but...

02:18:50.060 I don't know why, but what makes you feel like it's a red flag?

02:18:53.060 There's just certain interests where I'm like, you know...

02:18:59.060 Like guided meditation.

02:19:00.060 Uh oh.

02:19:01.060 How many red flags can you overlook before they're out?

02:19:04.060 Oh, I don't know.

02:19:05.060 Let's see.

02:19:06.060 For you?

02:19:07.060 That's a red flag?

02:19:08.060 Okay, here's some red flags. 1.00

02:19:09.060 Any of that goofy ass hippie cult shit is always a red flag. 1.00

02:19:13.060 Very. 1.00

02:19:14.060 It's always like...

02:19:15.060 My interpersonal journey to heal my trauma.

02:19:18.060 From the time that my dog was kidnapped by my ex-boyfriend's best friend.

02:19:22.060 Huh?

02:19:23.060 Is that me?

02:19:24.060 It enslaved my heart for decades.

02:19:26.060 I'll never get over...

02:19:27.060 Yeah, it's like all of them.

02:19:28.060 Yeah, well that...

02:19:29.060 Honestly, that's a lot of strength, you know?

02:19:30.060 The fact that you're able to just like not...

02:19:32.060 Yeah, yeah.

02:19:33.060 But how about neuroscience? 0.99

02:19:35.060 Do you fuck with science? 0.99

02:19:36.060 Neuroscience? 1.00

02:19:37.060 What?

02:19:38.060 What's science?

02:19:39.060 Neuro...

02:19:40.060 Like the brain?

02:19:41.060 The science of neuroscience? 0.99

02:19:42.060 Do you fuck with the war, Andrew? 1.00

02:19:44.060 Oh. 1.00

02:19:45.060 Do you fuck with the war? 1.00

02:19:46.060 Do you fuck with science, Andrew? 1.00

02:19:48.060 Look, I do be fucking around with a little bit of neurosis. 1.00

02:19:50.060 Wait, Andrew, but aren't you... 0.99

02:19:51.060 Andrew, aren't you...

02:19:53.060 Do you believe in that?

02:19:54.060 We have to apply the proper controls.

02:19:56.060 Actually, yeah.

02:19:58.060 Anyway, alright.

02:19:59.060 Anyways.

02:20:00.060 Anyways.

02:20:01.060 Eh, red flags, whatever.

02:20:03.060 You wanna hear my list of red flags?

02:20:05.060 Yeah, I wanna hear some of them.

02:20:06.060 Okay, Pitbull owner.

02:20:07.060 Okay.

02:20:08.060 Pitbull...

02:20:09.060 Maybe a Pitbull apologist.

02:20:11.060 So you don't own a Pitbull, but you're just like, oh, it's the owner.

02:20:14.060 And it's like an enthousie.

02:20:15.060 It's like, oh, that's so cute.

02:20:16.060 It's the owner.

02:20:17.060 It's not the breed.

02:20:18.060 Oh, oh, oh, I see what you're saying.

02:20:19.060 Eh, nah, they're dangerous dogs. 0.73

02:20:21.060 Bell bottoms.

02:20:22.060 Red flag.

02:20:23.060 Bell bottoms.

02:20:24.060 I mean, this is for...

02:20:25.060 I mean, this isn't even a red flag.

02:20:27.060 I would just walk out.

02:20:28.060 If she looks at her phone on the first date.

02:20:31.060 Like, it's okay if it's like this.

02:20:33.060 Yeah, yeah.

02:20:34.060 Because some people take it like, oh, really?

02:20:35.060 No, it's like, if she's like, hey, sorry, I just gotta text my mom that I'm here.

02:20:38.060 Or, you know, something like that.

02:20:39.060 That's cool.

02:20:40.060 But if she's like scrolling on Snapchat, scrolling on Instagram, I'm literally, I've done this

02:20:45.060 on a date.

02:20:46.060 I won't even say anything.

02:20:47.060 I'll just get up and walk.

02:20:49.060 I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna say anything to you.

02:20:53.060 I'm not gonna be like, yo, what are you doing on your phone?

02:20:55.060 I'm not trying to have an argument for you. 1.00

02:20:57.060 You've already demonstrated that you're fucking rude. 0.99

02:21:00.060 I ain't dealing with it. 1.00

02:21:01.060 Goodbye.

02:21:02.060 It was nice knowing you.

02:21:03.060 Yeah.

02:21:04.060 So I'm just out.

02:21:05.060 I've had to do that two times, actually.

02:21:07.060 And the girls are pissed off afterward. 1.00

02:21:09.060 Oh my God, that was so rude.

02:21:10.060 I'm like, you were on your phone.

02:21:11.060 Right.

02:21:12.060 Yeah.

02:21:13.060 Well, I mean, it displays that they're not interested in my, like, if you have to scroll

02:21:15.060 through your phone or you're scrolling through Instagram or something, unless you were having

02:21:18.060 a conversation, like, oh, I have a, like, I have a Belgian Malmoth, for example.

02:21:21.060 And like, I would always kind of use that as a talking point on a date.

02:21:23.060 And I'll be like, oh, like, yeah, I could, I could show you a photo.

02:21:25.060 I mean, that's a little different, but if you just blank out on the date and you're like scrolling.

02:21:29.060 I'll give you some more of them.

02:21:30.060 Okay.

02:21:31.060 Van Lifer.

02:21:32.060 Yeah.

02:21:33.060 She does Van Lifer.

02:21:34.060 I would agree.

02:21:35.060 That's a red flag.

02:21:36.060 If she does acro yoga, red flag. 1.00

02:21:37.060 Just acro yoga or all yoga?

02:21:38.060 That's Van Lifer.

02:21:39.060 Acro yoga.

02:21:40.060 Okay. 1.00

02:21:41.060 Because that's when they're doing that shit with a dude. 1.00

02:21:42.060 Yeah. 1.00

02:21:43.060 I don't like that.

02:21:44.060 I don't like that.

02:21:45.060 Let's see here.

02:21:47.060 Hairstylist, works in HR, flight attendant, travel nurse, any career where she travels frequently, 0.99

02:21:54.060 physical sales, because they're traveling a ton and fucking doctors, flirting with doctors 1.00

02:22:01.060 so they can. 0.99

02:22:02.060 Right.

02:22:03.060 Can I add a conflict resolution management?

02:22:07.060 Conflict, CRM?

02:22:11.060 Conflict resolution.

02:22:12.060 Like HR?

02:22:13.060 HR can be a type of job that does conflict resolution management.

02:22:18.060 Okay.

02:22:19.060 A teacher does conflict resolution.

02:22:20.060 Many, many firms have been adding conflict resolution managers to make sure that their

02:22:27.060 employees can resolve conflicts.

02:22:30.060 Got it.

02:22:31.060 Yeah, that's a good one.

02:22:32.060 That's a good one.

02:22:33.060 Oh, what else?

02:22:34.060 Let's see.

02:22:35.060 Oh, and then some tattoos don't mind, but no offense, Brenda, sternum tattoo. 1.00

02:22:41.060 Red flag.

02:22:43.060 Wait, what tattoo?

02:22:44.060 Sternum tattoo.

02:22:45.060 Sternum.

02:22:46.060 Oh, I do.

02:22:47.060 Sternum piece.

02:22:48.060 That was my first one too.

02:22:49.060 Me too.

02:22:50.060 Oh.

02:22:51.060 There it is.

02:22:52.060 He looked at her shirt.

02:22:53.060 Red flag.

02:22:54.060 I can already do that.

02:22:55.060 Red flag.

02:22:56.060 Let's see.

02:22:57.060 Spider, any spider web tattoos, especially on the...

02:23:00.060 Are you happy?

02:23:01.060 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

02:23:02.060 If they have spider web tattoo on the elbow, that, yeah, that, be careful there.

02:23:08.060 Or a spider tattoo, or a snake tattoo.

02:23:11.060 Those are usually a little...

02:23:13.060 Any snake tattoo enjoyers here?

02:23:16.060 Havers.

02:23:17.060 Havers.

02:23:18.060 And I think...

02:23:19.060 That's pretty much it.

02:23:23.060 What is it?

02:23:24.060 Is having a cat a red flag?

02:23:25.060 I feel like that's a red flag.

02:23:26.060 No, I like cats.

02:23:27.060 Oh, okay.

02:23:28.060 Oh, good.

02:23:29.060 I like dogs and cats.

02:23:30.060 Anyways.

02:23:31.060 So, okay.

02:23:32.060 I don't know.

02:23:33.060 Whatever.

02:23:34.060 So, your guy stole $3,000 and stole your dog.

02:23:39.060 What's the...

02:23:40.060 What happened?

02:23:41.060 What happened?

02:23:42.060 What happened?

02:23:43.060 Did you already finish the story?

02:23:44.060 I just kind of...

02:23:45.060 I know.

02:23:46.060 It takes me a long time to tell stories.

02:23:47.060 Wait, you got into the mic.

02:23:48.060 Oh, it takes me a long time to tell stories.

02:23:50.060 That's why I don't usually...

02:23:51.060 But did you get to the part about the $3,000 and the dog?

02:23:54.060 I was getting to it.

02:23:55.060 It was almost there.

02:23:56.060 It was almost there.

02:23:57.060 I have to get backstory.

02:23:58.060 Like, you know, you got to understand, like, who they are and, like, how you met them.

02:24:02.060 Like, for you to, like, be involved in the story.

02:24:04.060 A little bit more.

02:24:05.060 Where we emphasize the last thing we say. 0.77

02:24:08.060 You're a hater.

02:24:09.060 Oh, come on. 0.87

02:24:10.060 That was funny.

02:24:11.060 That was funny.

02:24:12.060 Do I talk weird?

02:24:13.060 No.

02:24:14.060 No, no.

02:24:15.060 Why are you laughing?

02:24:16.060 Because you're a hater.

02:24:17.060 Damien, play the clip.

02:24:18.060 Play the YouTube thing.

02:24:19.060 Wait.

02:24:20.060 You know what?

02:24:21.060 I think this is the appropriate time.

02:24:22.060 We're not going to pull up the video.

02:24:24.060 Sorry.

02:24:25.060 Okay.

02:24:26.060 Just, you know what?

02:24:27.060 Okay.

02:24:28.060 Pull up the video.

02:24:29.060 The video.

02:24:30.060 The, the, the.

02:24:31.060 Not the TikTok, okay?

02:24:32.060 Okay.

02:24:33.060 You know, the YouTube video.

02:24:35.060 Yeah.

02:24:36.060 Yeah, we're going to.

02:24:37.060 This is not dating related.

02:24:38.060 Actually, you know what?

02:24:39.060 It is dating related.

02:24:40.060 It is dating related.

02:24:41.060 Go ahead.

02:24:47.060 No, but I like to hang out with my family a lot.

02:24:49.060 I hang out with my sister.

02:24:50.060 We'll go get our nails done.

02:24:51.060 Any ladies in here get your nails done? 1.00

02:24:55.060 Nice.

02:24:56.060 Crowd.

02:24:57.060 How about any guys?

02:24:58.060 Any guys down from Annie Petty?

02:24:59.060 Don't lie.

02:25:00.060 Sir, don't lie.

02:25:02.060 Don't lie.

02:25:03.060 I can see your nail polish gleaming in the lights right now.

02:25:05.060 Don't lie.

02:25:06.060 It's all sparkly.

02:25:07.060 You take them with you, huh?

02:25:09.060 Yeah.

02:25:10.060 See?

02:25:11.060 She ratted you out, dude. 0.93

02:25:12.060 I'm just kidding.

02:25:13.060 I'm just kidding.

02:25:14.060 No, me and my sister, we go over.

02:25:16.060 It's a place called Beautiful Nail.

02:25:18.060 I was kind of confused when I first read the sign though.

02:25:21.060 Beautiful Nail.

02:25:27.060 Just one.

02:25:29.060 Just one nail.

02:25:31.060 Do I get to pick which one?

02:25:33.060 Or...

02:25:34.060 Now with these ladies, they're so nice. 0.99

02:25:37.060 You know, they make you feel like it's all about you and customer service.

02:25:40.060 You know, whatever you like, we do for you.

02:25:42.060 I am Vietnamese too. 0.94

02:25:46.060 What the heck?

02:25:47.060 Really nice.

02:25:48.060 Really nice.

02:25:49.060 Yeah.

02:25:50.060 As soon as I walk in, they greet me right away.

02:25:53.060 Hi, honey.

02:25:54.060 What you need today?

02:25:59.060 Oh, um...

02:26:00.060 Can I get my nails done?

02:26:02.060 Okay, honey.

02:26:03.060 Do you like pedicure too?

02:26:06.060 Uh, no, no.

02:26:07.060 Just my nails.

02:26:08.060 Honey, why you don't lie?

02:26:14.060 Pedicure, it may look nice.

02:26:15.060 It's so sexy.

02:26:16.060 It's better for you.

02:26:20.060 Oh.

02:26:21.060 Oh, alright.

02:26:22.060 Sure then.

02:26:23.060 I'll get a pedicure too.

02:26:24.060 Thanks.

02:26:25.060 Okay, honey.

02:26:26.060 Sit down.

02:26:27.060 Number six.

02:26:28.060 My Ling.

02:26:29.060 She do for you.

02:26:30.060 Good job.

02:26:31.060 Oh, okay.

02:26:32.060 Thanks.

02:26:33.060 So my Ling starts doing my nails right away.

02:26:36.060 By the way, her American name is Tammy.

02:26:42.060 Tammy.

02:26:43.060 You have a friend?

02:26:44.060 Wow.

02:26:45.060 That's a good start.

02:26:46.060 Um...

02:26:47.060 No, no.

02:26:48.060 I don't have a boyfriend.

02:26:49.060 Honey, why you don't have?

02:26:50.060 You look so pretty.

02:26:51.060 Like, model. 0.75

02:26:52.060 Cheerleader.

02:26:53.060 Something pretty.

02:26:54.060 I don't know why.

02:26:55.060 I don't know why.

02:26:56.060 I don't know why. 1.00

02:26:57.060 Okay, just fuck it. 1.00

02:26:58.060 Yeah. 1.00

02:26:59.060 She did a great job. 0.95

02:27:00.060 Yeah.

02:27:01.060 Is she really?

02:27:02.060 I hope she's Vietnamese.

02:27:03.060 Is she Vietnamese?

02:27:04.060 No, I don't think so.

02:27:05.060 No, I don't think so.

02:27:06.060 I think that's really weird that she got the accent. 0.95

02:27:07.060 What the heck?

02:27:08.060 Do you know how to do the accent? 0.99

02:27:09.060 Wait, wait, wait.

02:27:10.060 Hang on.

02:27:11.060 Back up, back up.

02:27:12.060 Can we just acknowledge the fact that there was a female comedian up there, and when she 1.00

02:27:15.060 was done, you didn't say she was funny, you said she did a great job.

02:27:19.060 Has anybody in the history of the world ever walked away from a comedy show and been like,

02:27:36.060 well, yeah, they did a great job.

02:27:39.060 I've never heard that once.

02:27:40.060 Oh, really?

02:27:41.060 I think because some of my friends are comedians.

02:27:44.060 to be like they were hilarious they were super funny we were dying laughing I've heard all that

02:27:48.780 I've never heard they've done it they did a great job yeah no it's because I understand how comedy

02:27:54.520 works some of my friends work as comedians so I see the way she wrote her joke and the way she

02:27:59.180 paused and I'm like oh that was a really good job like she scripted it really well and then her

02:28:03.740 accent like her voices I think that she portrayed that character really well as well so I just look

02:28:09.520 to be fair yeah we didn't we didn't finish the whole bit because it was wait there was more

02:28:14.840 yeah there was more it was I'm sure it would have gotten way funnier if you would have just let it

02:28:18.520 I probably yeah probably um but Andrew you weren't a fan it sounds like you didn't think it was very

02:28:23.460 funny he said I thought it was hilarious I was laughing the whole time her accent is the is good 0.81

02:28:29.560 can anybody she did a great job right we all get used to we did that late my nails are done by

02:28:37.400 Vietnamese lady in Vietnam in in wait I just came back from Vietnam yesterday oh from yesterday

02:28:43.520 okay that's cool rock and roll okay well uh I don't I have no idea why I pulled that up just just

02:28:51.360 I think you said like because I sound like that is that why no no it was Andrew's fault

02:28:59.180 Andrew told me to pull it up Andrew told me that Andrew sent me the video Andrew sent me the video

02:29:05.840 he's like Brian play this right now because he was saying he was commenting about your voice

02:29:10.360 people comment about that my students in Oakland were like Miss Ivy you sound like you have a list

02:29:15.580 you sound like you have an Asian accent I always get I have an Asian accent but I was born in America

02:29:20.420 like a little bit a little bit I think the past like few years I spent more time in Asia than in

02:29:28.060 the States so I think I adapted their like yeah okay uh all right let's see we okay the here stole

02:29:36.420 your dog $300,000 no 30 seconds imagine 300 oh sorry 3,000 my bad oh my god how did he steal the dog

02:29:43.660 was it just like you couldn't have it at your apartment so he ended up like ultimately taking

02:29:46.900 it like I had my dog really stolen like really went to domestic violence court

02:29:50.080 wait wait wait wait let's just have her tell the story go ahead no no that's true actually I guess

02:29:55.280 you know on paper it was technically his dog because he was Korean so he put the dog under his 0.82

02:29:59.760 name and then we were on the street so he was like I'm gonna drop you off for your dorm and I told him

02:30:04.120 don't drop me off my dorm drop me off at this cafe and so it's a cafe next to our college and my

02:30:08.280 friend was waiting for me already there the girl that he'd originally asked out on right here so I'm

02:30:13.120 just gonna okay I'm gonna just ask questions so that we can get to the bottom of the story

02:30:18.380 I was almost done no no how long were you guys doing a great job right yeah I think I was doing

02:30:22.440 a good job how long were you guys dating um a little over a month okay and so you guys bought

02:30:29.020 a dog together uh technically I paid for all of it you paid for the dog okay but it was in his name

02:30:35.220 yeah oh you guys were dating for a month and you bought a dog together yeah he I really liked him

02:30:43.760 at the time the guy put a how does one put a dog in their name okay but have you guys ever dated

02:30:49.080 like a Korean guy they're very like fast they move very fast and they're very were you guys living 1.00

02:30:54.260 together no as it happens neither myself nor Brian have dated Korean guys yeah it's like you know like

02:31:00.800 I hate to say but it's like very similar to those like movies that you see like they'll say a lot of

02:31:04.940 stuff and they'll do a lot for you but anyways um we weren't living together but we basically were

02:31:09.620 because I was kind of staying with him every day at his uh at his apartment how much was the dog

02:31:13.480 uh it was like six hundred dollars and then whose idea was it to it was um his idea he was like oh be

02:31:20.920 cute we got a dog I was like oh my god yeah I've always wanted a dog and so that's why okay so you

02:31:26.780 paid for it and then so you but you guys broke up or whatever it was a really bad breakup yeah

02:31:32.860 what do you mean bad oh a little over a month I was like when you say it was a really bad breakup

02:31:38.380 yeah like I I've never like been so heartbroken like my friends were like you're going crazy Ivy

02:31:44.200 I was kind of going crazy yeah I like when you say you're going crazy what were you doing uh just

02:31:49.400 like I think every day just like crying a lot I think that's crazy to me and the breakup he initiated

02:31:54.860 it uh no uh basically like I would say at the time I was still young so when he had done that to

02:32:00.720 me where he just dropped me off I have this like back then I don't have it now I have this toxic

02:32:05.100 trick where if they do something bad to me I immediately blocked their number like even though

02:32:09.160 we didn't break up yet so we didn't break up he just said like oh just I'm gonna drop you off

02:32:13.120 and then he took the dog I was like wait today's like my day with the dog I'm gonna take her but

02:32:17.720 he just like you know he's pretty strong so my friend and him were actually fighting so my best

02:32:21.880 friend and him were fighting together for the dog he took it and then she ran after him he was

02:32:26.700 driving actually and she actually ran after him she's very very good friend and then

02:32:30.680 she got into his car she actually opened the door so hard that she slammed his um window 1.00

02:32:35.420 thing against the pole and he got really mad and then yeah but then she told me like oh he'll be

02:32:40.640 back later he'll talk to you and I said oh I don't want to talk to him ever again after what he did so

02:32:44.640 I blocked him and then he tried to call me text me but I still blocked him sure how did he steal

02:32:48.860 three thousand dollars um so that was like um two weeks after the breakup yeah okay how did he how did

02:32:55.740 he do it so there was a period of time like maybe like a week we just went without talking but

02:33:00.040 like every day we'll kind of like text each other like oh hi like something like that and then one

02:33:05.420 day he was like oh can we meet I was like yeah sure and he was like oh I'm going to do something I was

02:33:09.780 like what's up and he was like can we like meet up in person and then yeah so he we went to his car

02:33:15.000 pick me from the dorm and then he was like oh I have like this large credit card bill and like I can't

02:33:20.020 take money out of my bank account and I was like I felt bad because you know yeah at the time I was

02:33:24.780 making quite a bit of money in Korea so I was like oh how much do you need he's like oh this much oh

02:33:28.780 oh yeah I have that like in my purse right now and then you had just you had three thousand in cash

02:33:33.400 yeah in my purse wait was and just uh oh this is like in Korean money this is so it's like three

02:33:39.020 thousand three thousand dollars equivalent in Korean money where it's just like maybe four point five

02:33:45.400 million four yeah four million what's the name of the currency and uh one one Korean one okay but

02:33:51.520 so converted it's three thousand USD um okay and you just had that in your purse and this was in

02:33:58.340 Korea yeah yeah and we were in his car and then um I was like oh yeah and then I was thinking about

02:34:04.440 it for a bit I was like what exactly use it for he just let me pay off my credit card bill I'll pay

02:34:08.200 you back when my brother goes to college and now he'll Venmo you and I was like okay yeah because I

02:34:12.780 know both of the brothers they studied abroad and stuff so I know that they're good for it and then

02:34:17.040 yeah he just took it and then I like reminded him like a couple months later when I was back in like

02:34:22.160 the bay wait hold on really quick from for the rest of the show can you whatever the question is

02:34:28.600 and you're like about to tell a story I want you to start this story by saying this one time at band

02:34:33.360 camp so I'm gonna I interrupted it so we'll we'll do the interest so so say this one time at band

02:34:38.800 camp and now continue on with the story but this didn't happen at band camp I know but just you just

02:34:44.480 have to do it I'm sorry just do it go go go go go say it this one time at band camp that's it yeah

02:34:50.940 but but say it for real no this is one time yeah no no this one time at band camp and then continue

02:34:56.620 with your story this one time at band camp okay keep going and then to keep going with the story

02:35:03.520 yeah um I left Korea and then I never saw him again since then and I never saw the money and I

02:35:09.400 hear to this day that he uses the dog to pick up other girls on the streets yeah so wait a couple

02:35:14.340 things here so from the day that you gave him the money and then how soon after did you leave

02:35:20.560 um I left maybe a month after and it was did he tell you he was going to pay you back yeah of course

02:35:27.320 he said I'm gonna pay back I wouldn't have given it to him if he did and did you ask him I asked him

02:35:31.300 many times to pay me back even after you came back to the USA yeah yeah I called him no we we got

02:35:35.640 into a call it was really cute I was in San Mateo I was like in San Mateo why does it matter 0.74

02:35:41.760 you could have been in fucking Antarctica it doesn't matter where you were but okay my friend tells me 0.97

02:35:50.640 that she's like I'd be like when you like do your video sometimes you start off with like the time 0.99

02:35:54.180 in the place and no one cares what what uh what um was it autumn or fall wait that's the same

02:36:01.800 fall this was fall oh it's fall okay was it was it uh what was the temperature it was like 8 p.m

02:36:07.560 that day what was the temperature it's quite chilly was it chilly it was a chilly San Francisco yeah

02:36:12.500 weather fall day okay color were his socks that day yeah what did you have for lunch on that

02:36:19.180 I had salmon with rice but okay uh you called him I don't know I did we got into a call so basically

02:36:27.160 my friend had threatened him she texted him saying that like if you don't reply to Ivy or if you don't

02:36:31.340 give her back her money then I'm gonna tell like all your friends something what you did and then he

02:36:34.780 was like okay so he actually called me back he messaged me in cacao talk and was like oh Ivy let's

02:36:39.540 talk and then we got into cacao talk um and we called each other and it was really fun we talked for

02:36:44.280 like two hours we laughed he said like oh I'm gonna pay you back and all that stuff and I'm like

02:36:48.360 awesome and then yeah I followed up with him a year after that he didn't and actually a year

02:36:53.100 after that I went back to Korea with the new guy I was dating so I was dating this new guy and they

02:36:57.600 had the same last name and then I told him I told my ex I was like I'm back in Korea I'm here if you

02:37:02.320 can give me the money that'll be great and he was like yeah let me get it to you and then he just 0.65

02:37:05.840 ghosted me yeah yeah that's what happened that um damn but my mom said that there's karma and so

02:37:16.100 she said that you shouldn't worry about that because yeah I don't get him uh well I mean but 0.97

02:37:21.300 hold on when it comes to the dog you were in Korea but you knew with intention you were going back to

02:37:28.340 the United States right yeah so it seems like well hold on I mean I wasn't take the dog with me to

02:37:34.740 America it's so hard to import pets in and out of the country I just tried to do this in Australia

02:37:40.260 and it's literally insane they have services it costs like ten thousand dollars per pet they have

02:37:46.120 to be quarantined same thing in America for like 30 days it's so stressful and it's really

02:37:51.380 honestly it's okay here's my assessment yeah the dog thing yeah you paid for it but like you

02:37:56.940 you bought it in his country it's his dog and it was it was his idea were you were you gonna you

02:38:03.140 were gonna pay to have the dog flown it's so they have like puppy carrier services so a lot of a lot

02:38:08.580 of families in America like a lot of Korean families they import the dog from Korea it's 1.00

02:38:13.060 really regardless of what okay could you afford that for like ten grand no it's a it's one one

02:38:16.980 thousand it's different it's one you could have just bought a new dog wait you bought all the way

02:38:22.080 stop stop stop stop stop stop you bought the dog for six hundred dollars why would you ship I mean look

02:38:31.800 I know you get it you had the dog for like a couple weeks you could just buy a new dog I know but this

02:38:37.760 I thought was really cute what yeah it's a pump spit and it was really quiet so like I know all

02:38:43.160 the dogs that in the town like this one didn't bark that okay cool so did you like bomb with it

02:38:48.440 though you just said it was really cute if I lost my dog I would be distraught she's like my best

02:38:53.340 yeah this was two years ago I was that's why I said it was really bad for me I lost a lot of weight

02:38:57.280 my friends were like oh Ivy you seem like pretty like yeah I was like half the size I was now

02:39:03.140 basically yeah okay um so okay the dog thing whatever the three thousand I think you're in

02:39:11.840 the right there you loaned him the money he said he would pay you back he should pay you back that's

02:39:17.160 wrong he didn't steal it from you though no you have no he didn't but you said he stole your stole

02:39:22.360 your dog and the 3k I don't think I don't think he stole the dog uh there's a dispute a civil dispute

02:39:30.360 hold on hold on hold on hold on there's a civil dispute over the dog there's a civil dispute over

02:39:37.500 through the 3 000 if he went into your purse and took the money out of your purse that would be

02:39:44.300 stealing 3 000 civilly I think he would if you went in front of a court or something he would owe you

02:39:50.500 three thousand dollars you loaned him money he either isn't able to or is unwilling to pay it back

02:39:56.040 I don't think that that's theft or stealing um I am a little confused though on the dog front

02:40:01.820 despite your feelings towards him and the love bombing or whatever it was why you would purchase

02:40:08.140 a dog with somebody with the intention of like wanting to keep it knowing that you were leaving

02:40:14.360 the country in one month time that's a little bit confusing to me you probably I mean this guy

02:40:21.320 maybe does this to other women though this could be like a tinder swindler sort of thing 1.00

02:40:25.600 like do you think do you know what's so funny is that you mentioned that because the day after he

02:40:30.260 asked my friend out she swiped on tinder and she saw him on tinder wow yeah are you um are you do you

02:40:36.140 consider yourself a bit naive uh I think I think I took good care of myself I don't think so

02:40:42.180 I don't consider myself just but people might say so people might say I don't I wouldn't like if I

02:40:49.540 was in a foreign country it wasn't that foreign to me because I went there so well you're you're

02:40:55.040 Vietnamese right it's I'm American Vietnamese Chinese American right but you don't have 1.00

02:41:00.880 citizenship in Korea no I do have citizenship in Vietnam or no uh no I don't okay and I was living

02:41:07.020 there too okay um I think citizenship doesn't matter there's people that have American citizenships

02:41:13.720 and they wouldn't say they're American but I mean you you had a plan you were coming back to the

02:41:17.820 United States I don't think you like if you're about to leave a country I don't think you give

02:41:24.320 somebody three thousand dollars oh about to leave yeah he said he was an event mommy bag

02:41:29.380 I have a question about the dog would you still have been upset about it if he gave you back the

02:41:34.100 three thousand dollars and said listen I really want to keep the dog like I was the one that wanted

02:41:37.400 the dog the dog I don't know boy girl she it he I don't know lives with me I will give you thirty

02:41:42.080 six hundred dollars to let the dog go would you have said okay yeah I just told him if you can keep the

02:41:45.620 dog if you want just like you know give me the six hundred dollars and he couldn't yeah all right

02:41:50.760 um I'm very reasonable how be honest though how how often were you harassing him oh I was not a good

02:42:01.400 girlfriend yeah oh sorry I would say yeah I wasn't like a good girlfriend back then because like I

02:42:07.240 think that he promised me a lot of stuff so I was like oh since you promised this you know I can demand

02:42:11.200 it I was kind of like that so I was a little bit high maintenance and that but were you like

02:42:14.960 the with the whole dog thing the three thousand dollars even like I imagine you were blowing up 0.99

02:42:22.640 his phone oh sending him messages fuck you like oh no no I don't do that no no no I don't I don't 0.99

02:42:29.440 say me messages because I think those things can be like yeah I don't like that blow up all right we 0.99

02:42:34.640 have a chat here from Jason oh my god who the hell cares chair for okay thank you uh Jason Cassell thank

02:42:40.300 you for the uh hundred man I do really appreciate the message thank you so much we have stifler ask

02:42:45.800 actually yeah that's fine ask everyone oh no I have to wait until she's back one moment uh one moment

02:42:51.620 there oh we have hold on oh damn this guy sent it in three wait hold on sorry for the delays on this 0.55

02:42:58.300 donated two hundred dollars what is bro yapping about right now is that me yapping I'm not sure I think 0.99

02:43:05.320 you're the bro yeah I do like penis guys w's in the chat for peanut oh no oh oh my god 1.00

02:43:16.540 oh he got me penis oh yeah 1.00

02:43:23.460 uh yo anna thank you for being here right now is that me right right now is that me right right 0.99

02:43:24.960 dude bro bro he has donated two hundred dollars he sent it in three times what is bro yapping about 0.99

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02:43:38.840 oh my god unbelievable oh my god freaking he what a trickster penis he got me okay let me shout out 1.00

02:43:50.120 people on venmo and cash app really quick uh yo anna thank you so much for the ten dollars on venmo 0.99

02:43:55.620 thank you so much jeffrey chong thank you for the 25 he has donated two hundred dollars

02:44:00.400 what is bro yapping about how do they have this much money you just send it like that

02:44:06.080 they got they got crypto pumps and stuff uh yo joffrey chong thank you for the 25 w's in the chat

02:44:13.400 for joffrey lannister and then cash app mc rocker thank you for the 10 man colin thank you for the 20

02:44:19.300 appreciate it guys all right then mo cash app if you want 100 of your patronage and contribution to

02:44:24.160 go to the whatever podcast whatever pod on there links in the description read 100 tts 200 guys like

02:44:30.540 the video if you can all right uh i do have to wait for that one really quick so i'll just do a quick

02:44:35.840 note from somebody else here while does anybody here have plastic surgery fake boobs lip filler i have

02:44:45.100 lip filler lip filler lip filler i want it though my lips are uneven i want to consider that plastic

02:44:52.360 surgery though because it um it dissolves after after like six to 12 months okay cool yeah uh ask

02:44:59.100 everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to ten you cannot pick seven rate your own looks on

02:45:03.780 a scale of one to ten starting with you brinda go ahead okay eight eight okay i think that's a really

02:45:09.040 objective question i know this is a long-winded answer for something that revolve like and should just be

02:45:12.840 short but objectively compared to what like there's women that have plastic surgery that don't really 1.00

02:45:19.200 look like that in miami who are objectively tens but if they didn't have that plastic surgery they'd be 0.99

02:45:23.460 a five so like there's this joke where i live i live in a very small town and the joke is like for

02:45:29.480 that small town they're a nine but if you put them in miami they'd be a four so it's like uh the

02:45:35.020 entirety of the united states so like this encompasses media so it's not just who you can visually see in

02:45:41.820 person but who you've been exposed to your entire life in the media in print in journalism you saw

02:45:48.060 a beautiful woman on the front of a magazine cover you saw her on a tv show you got a celebrity crush

02:45:53.080 uh an athlete whatever it is it's encompassing media but i'm primarily just looking at the united

02:45:59.060 states because there's people always oh okay so it includes like plastic surgery and girls who have 0.81

02:46:03.140 like pinched and photoshopped well i mean the thing is with plastic surgery if you ask men of their

02:46:06.800 assessment of women with plastic surgery i think it actually lowers their ranking so this idea that oh 0.99

02:46:11.240 okay she has giant fake titties i think she's worse looking i would agree with you so yeah uh i i 1.00

02:46:17.240 think it's just uh i guess your own assessment and then what you think men would rate you on average 0.99

02:46:22.520 okay now how about just your own assessment let's just do that an eight okay what about you seven

02:46:27.640 into the mic i like a number seven seven into the mic guys what i can't pick seven okay uh i can't pick

02:46:36.460 seven okay eight okay ivy i think if you're putting that standard i would say six sorry if you what

02:46:43.260 was if you're using that standard i would say i'll rate myself like a six what what other standard do

02:46:48.940 you know you said the standard where you're comparing yourself to other people in the media like if you

02:46:52.460 look at like jenny rose like what the heck i can't okay sure what about you still six okay yeah eight

02:47:00.940 six six point nine six point nine that's good i give myself a five andrew what about you

02:47:10.140 uh uh four probably four wow well once again andrew i am uh probably one of the i have the best

02:47:17.820 connections in the modeling industry i've gathered a remarkably attractive uh panel today so there is

02:47:25.100 yes the uh most beautiful women who exist on planet earth seem to always find themselves in their way 1.00

02:47:31.180 to the whatever podcast and we know this because we asked them so we know for sure yeah no tens though

02:47:37.500 so i mean that's could be worse a lot of eights but not tens i mean tens yeah you know what i mean

02:47:49.340 uh yeah okay uh well i honestly i don't really honestly unless somebody says nine or ten i don't really

02:47:56.460 feel like if they give themselves an eight it's not that bad right andrew like you know what i mean

02:48:03.260 and they said we can't pick seven like i'm not going to debate the the 10 the rating question if

02:48:08.140 they if unless it's like a nine or ten you know but maybe andrew's a little more uh less forgiving than i

02:48:15.420 am well i just am wondering uh very briefly do raise your hand if you agree with all the girls answers

02:48:23.980 if you agree yeah yeah if you agree with all the girl's assessments i heard six six is above average

02:48:36.140 on a scale of wait so andrew's question is just raise your hand if you like you agree with like all

02:48:43.020 the girls were spot on with their assessment oh you're why are you shaking your head who's wrong

02:48:47.900 who's wrong especially you said that six okay hang on hang on hang on hang on wait wait wait before

02:48:57.420 you say that raise your hand if the girls should have rated themselves higher if you think the girls

02:49:03.340 should have rated themselves higher oh yeah yeah raise your hand if you think the girls should have 0.99

02:49:10.780 rated themselves lower okay anyone else you okay so you chair chair two which ones should have rated

02:49:20.860 themselves lower do i have to answer that god yes yes oh boy okay so can i start on a positive note

02:49:30.940 and then a negative i think that you're objectively an eight or a nine especially you have no you don't

02:49:35.100 look like you have any work done you rated yourself under a seven men i think would have a lot of men

02:49:40.060 watching this would rate you near the top of this panel so i think that you giving yourself a 6.9

02:49:45.180 was very humble but i think deep down too you know you're not a 6.9 i would have rated you lower than

02:49:52.140 an eight she's wearing a wig yeah she's wearing a wig what was that she's wearing a wig would you have 1.00

02:49:57.660 rated her a five or six i mean now uh for you we just got rated a five or six i mean uh what would

02:50:09.500 you rate her um i mean like a six i kind of i guess she rated herself an eight lower rated you a little

02:50:21.020 lower too but then didn't you raise your hand and say that you thought the girls should have rated 0.99

02:50:25.740 themselves higher there were some people that like i thought not yet hang on i'm sorry not you the um

02:50:31.980 the the gal i was just speaking to i'm sorry i didn't mean to cut actually for go everybody rated

02:50:35.660 themselves like the number they chose they should have rated themselves higher uh me yeah i didn't

02:50:42.140 say every single one should have rated themselves higher i think it's not the one who rated you lower

02:50:46.780 right yeah i mean i'm not going to rate her lower just because she rated me lower i kind of forgot

02:50:52.940 everybody's like numbers but there is specific people that i would have like chose to rate themselves

02:50:57.580 higher okay which ones would you have chosen to rate themselves lower lower yeah no one

02:51:05.660 no one then how could you call the woman who gave herself an eight a six

02:51:13.820 i said six because i forgot she didn't choose six i thought that was the number she chose

02:51:17.980 oh okay strange all right that's all i had okay um i do actually you know what i want the panel to rate

02:51:29.420 me i will not be offended you can give me a zero i won't be upset will not be offended whatsoever don't

02:51:37.100 pull any punches be brutally honest i will not be upset i won't insult you back or anything like that

02:51:46.780 i'll take it on the chin go ahead is it just off a look just looks just looks i mean obviously my

02:51:52.060 personality is going to tank the rating so um yeah that's why yeah yeah i have to just i have to let

02:51:58.220 my looks carry me uh okay go ahead look me deep in the eyes when the eyes actually bring the number

02:52:07.580 up so look me deep in the eyes seven good okay look look into my soul when you say this go ahead so

02:52:15.340 you're like precisely my type except for the fact that you're not balding yet i have i have hair but

02:52:20.220 the facial like the facial hair and everything like the way that you have it that that is my type

02:52:23.660 i would give you an eight okay i'll take it seven point seven seven point seven

02:52:30.860 hands are shaking oh my she's a little nervous okay uh seven point seven okay all right go ahead

02:52:37.180 id oh just because i i don't really find like um white guys yeah no no no no no i just like i only

02:52:44.700 ever dated asian guys so that's why i don't have like i don't see people outside of like no you do any 1.00

02:52:50.780 just to say oh yeah so i might be like a little bit lower maybe like six yeah sure

02:52:56.460 seven as well okay six six

02:52:58.940 mary i have i i can't even say the only person i think of is my boyfriend period

02:53:10.060 okay that's fine alina do i know you have a boyfriend so what i pass on rating that's fine

02:53:14.780 uh wait hold on so i have a question wait wait one one question before yours inch one question before

02:53:20.460 yours going to you yeah uh you said you're an eight oh yeah and i'm a you said six you gave

02:53:28.860 me a six so just to be clear you would be you're settling for me what do you mean like you would

02:53:38.060 be settling like if we were to date like you're doing me a favor i just yeah you're dating you're

02:53:43.740 dating down right i mean i have settled i have settled for guys that like and have dated guys that

02:53:50.140 are like now what i would typically go for so i mean i'm not sitting i wouldn't send but i want you to

02:53:55.420 look me deep in my eyes i'm not i'm gonna look at the camera though look me look me deep in my eyes 0.98

02:54:01.500 from the side and say brian you fucking uggo i i would say i'm settling for you you 0.99

02:54:09.660 fucking mid say it that's so mean that is mean but you can say it conductively and then do that 1.00

02:54:18.540 i have very thick skin that's not appreciating content for a while um you have to you you should 0.99

02:54:26.220 see my my dms um like they're really mean oh yeah people tell me that like they want to murder

02:54:32.940 me that's so mean is it men is it men or women no i literally get death threats so a girl telling

02:54:38.220 me i'm mid is like the least of my worries you get death threats oh yeah what messages i get

02:54:43.180 death threats like every day okay men or women who do you get worse from uh mostly dudes but like 0.97

02:54:48.700 a lot of girls too oh okay go ahead i'm ready i'd fucking settle for you you'd say wait you would 0.99

02:54:58.860 fucking that would be like the words they asked for right oh i don't know i forgot what that 0.99

02:55:05.660 wow so would i have to wait one one last thing what so because you would be settling for me when 0.98

02:55:13.100 it comes to our looks like i'm just i'm way too mid for you do you think that i would have to really

02:55:19.260 make up for it like if i wanted to land you if i wanted to get you on a date and have some carnal

02:55:25.580 knowledge like i would have to like i would have to be really like i'd have to make up for it so

02:55:31.660 like really funny really good personality rich right like do i have to make up for it my lack

02:55:41.420 of commensurate physical attractiveness

02:55:46.060 sorry am i understanding your question right are you asking if you would have to make up for it and

02:55:50.380 look wise for both looks and he looks worse he's saying if he looks worse than you objectively by

02:55:57.180 your standard you're an eight he's a six wouldn't he need to compensate for his lack of looks with some

02:56:02.220 other quality for you to like hypothetically if you were single to date me right so i would say no

02:56:11.100 that you wouldn't have to make up for a big time i would have to make up for a big time that you wouldn't

02:56:15.900 have to make up for a big time not big time but a little bit a little time not big time big time

02:56:23.180 big time little time what would you rate tom brady

02:56:32.380 what would you rate tom brady five just because he's not my type wait what do you prefer so you

02:56:37.020 would you would you would be settling for tom brady yeah yeah yeah makes sense would you uh is your

02:56:44.380 type white latino black do you have a latino okay plus so what's his name plaso pluma peso pluma would

02:56:53.580 you would you rate peso pluma is he your type yeah he's my type because he's like complected i he's

02:57:02.140 wait what what like light complected lights skins latino yeah and that's my type but i'd give him i

02:57:09.660 guess like a an eight okay so he's like you you league like same league like that's a that's a fair

02:57:20.540 matchup okay yeah you're so you're just as good looking as for a woman as he is for a man yeah

02:57:27.340 oh i'm trying to think of a hot what about who's that guy who joe rogan beefed with

02:57:36.620 carlos mencia would you who is that i should probably that's like beyond their time what carlos 0.98

02:57:43.580 mencia do you know who that is he's an ugly fucker though i don't know i'm just trying to think of 0.98

02:57:48.700 famous latino man okay how about this how about this who's in his prime antonio banderas do you 0.99

02:57:55.020 do you know who that is uh a bit i forgot how he looked like in his prime wait who's like a is

02:58:00.220 johnny depp bad bunny tino maluma i think he's white johnny depp is white okay how about this

02:58:08.940 how about an easier one yeah give us a famous actor who you think is who you're really attracted to who

02:58:15.820 you think is about equal and attractiveness to you that's a good question andrew give us a give us an

02:58:22.140 actor

02:58:33.260 so i don't know i don't know his name exactly but i know like the band that he's a part of

02:58:38.140 and what's he yeah what's the 30 seconds to mars jared leto no i mean like a hispanic band

02:58:44.060 okay what's it called yeah we'll we'll find it what it's called eslabon e-s-l-a-b-o-n

02:58:53.660 e-s and what does he play what's his position he's a singer singer of it's just eslabon armado

02:59:01.340 eslabon i don't speak spanish bro help me out here eslabon eslabon pedro tovar yeah

02:59:15.340 okay pedro pedro tovar can you google image him

02:59:20.300 big d on the ones and twos pedro

02:59:29.580 i mean why are we i don't know oh hey wait he's he's with peso pluma

02:59:36.860 oh yeah they have a song together uh

02:59:43.740 do you have it damien

02:59:48.620 all right you got it

02:59:49.660 well don't open the image just google images uh whatever his name is okay pedro tovar

03:00:04.140 i mean

03:00:09.900 the team

03:00:12.380 i mean he's not exactly a male model i mean those aren't really pictures of his

03:00:15.420 what i would specifically go for because those are old pictures but yeah that's him you just

03:00:20.140 really have a type i do have a yeah and i mean y'all can look at him and be like okay well he's

03:00:26.460 overweight but i mean i've dated guys that like have some stomach to him i mean he cannot be all

03:00:32.140 y'all's type and be like i'd rate that guy a five y'all can rate me all y'all's numbers that y'all

03:00:37.180 want but it's the level of type of confidence that i am it's not just going based off of looks that

03:00:42.380 i feel like i am but going based off my personality that i know of myself yeah but it's not the

03:00:48.220 question about looks

03:00:52.860 it's about looks i know and i still stand at eight because i mean i know what i had to work on and

03:00:59.580 i mean become beautiful like naturally wait how about this well what do you have to work on losing

03:01:05.580 weight what what and then so i i would guess then that when you lose the weight i guess from your

03:01:13.420 perspective you would then be a 10. um yeah

03:01:22.300 i don't know if it's like a weight issue right because i feel like you don't i didn't think it

03:01:26.780 was about weight i don't think you don't look overweight at all oh thank you but no i i would like

03:01:32.220 like i think that's the why i would rate myself an eight because if it's a weight pop you can get

03:01:36.780 it like literally zapped out and you can just like look like a 10 tomorrow but when you lose weight 0.98

03:01:41.340 you lose weight in your face so like your face sorry i got fucking i'm yeah he's dying yeah 1.00

03:01:47.820 so i was overweight i was like almost 200 pounds and my face was like 0.98

03:01:52.380 completely different wait you used to be 200 pounds yeah yeah photo

03:01:55.820 um when i was like 190 yeah yeah yeah but i don't have a lot of photos when i was like bigger

03:02:03.180 high school can i ask a question features you have a nice nose yes ask a question who is a woman 0.99

03:02:09.900 any anybody celebrity celebrity influencer or whoever that you would consider a 10 right now

03:02:17.020 like anyone anyone that you would like who what woman do you consider a 10 it could be anybody 1.00

03:02:21.420 megan fox bro yeah like her too so you're saying if you lost weight that you think you would be on

03:02:27.740 the same level as megan fox i don't think i'd be the same level but what you're rating you're saying

03:02:32.540 if you lost weight you'd be a 10 because i'd be confident to be a 10 once i lost the weight so i

03:02:36.780 don't have to look the same as her i don't have well you wouldn't you wouldn't look the same as her

03:02:40.620 but your appraisal of attractiveness despite differences in in look obviously you would be as

03:02:47.100 attractive as her yeah because i mean it's about how i feel like nobody else can feel that same way

03:02:52.860 but i mean it's the type of level of confidence that i'll have when i'm a 10 to be like okay i'm

03:02:57.020 just a pretty as her she can have blue eyes i can have brown eyes and i can view myself in a different 0.99

03:03:01.900 type of way do you think you would be able to track the same kinds of man men that megan fox can 1.00

03:03:06.540 i mean no because everybody has their own time

03:03:08.540 yeah and i mean it's clear that you're not you're not seeing it you're not seeing it in your eyes and

03:03:17.260 it's pretty obvious but i'm not really looking for like the approval of anybody here to be like oh yeah

03:03:22.300 i know i see what like or anybody that's viewing being like oh yeah i would view you the same way

03:03:27.260 that i would view like megan fox or whatever i'm just asking you personally like i know that doesn't

03:03:31.660 matter like i could go get a hundred thousand dollars of plastic surgery and i don't personally think

03:03:35.340 that i would ever be on megan fox's level but you're saying that if you just lost a little bit

03:03:39.420 of weight you would be the same levels of attractiveness as her not that you would look

03:03:43.340 the same as her but that you would be objectively to the world and to yourself to the same level

03:03:48.140 that she is the same number as her i wouldn't look the same as her or be on the same level i

03:03:52.940 understand what you're saying i'm just confused on like your your gauge that's all

03:03:57.500 whoa this is a real debate i think it's just a number on like i'm not saying that you're that

03:04:03.100 you're not like dateable or you're not attractive i just don't think like i don't think anybody on

03:04:06.940 this panel including myself is on megan fox's level and i don't think anything that they could

03:04:10.940 really do would get them there no that's fine but you can do anything you can do anything with money

03:04:16.940 do you see lindsey lohan lindsey lohan yeah yeah yeah she changed she changed a lot like

03:04:23.420 probably surgery regenerative therapy is very very good now and then it's also it's it's an argument of

03:04:28.060 it's fake and it's a lie and megan fox i'm sure she's had a little bit of work done but i don't think that

03:04:32.300 she's i don't think that she's changed her entire look or anything i mean we could we could also just

03:04:37.180 say like young megan fox when she was like 20 or something yeah she was a 10 then too we don't even 0.61

03:04:41.580 have to say like current megan fox like how do you how do you compare to like prime megan fox

03:04:47.820 not you yeah i'm just insane doesn't she still looks like almost the same no no i don't see any

03:04:53.020 difference it's crazy you don't see any age well like obviously she's aged but i still see her as like

03:04:58.940 it's like a hot chick oh i think a lot of people would say she's still very attractive but i mean 0.99

03:05:03.180 i don't think if you put them together i don't know is it because of her age like uh no it's well

03:05:10.620 i mean the age there's a physical manifestation of her age that like she doesn't look as good as

03:05:17.740 she did when she was younger before less makeup but lately so chair two so then chair two what are

03:05:23.420 the like if you if you were to say uh to the guy you were just talking to about this about the

03:05:30.060 objective beauty standard what are the things that you would say she would need to change to fit your

03:05:35.500 criteria of a 10. is that a question for me yeah that's for you oh okay what for her to be a 10 1.00

03:05:44.220 yeah she can't be a 10 no he asking what can she change like oh like you think that if she changed 1.00

03:05:51.020 something about her face she can't physically possibly be a 10 i think you do anything with

03:05:54.620 plastic surgery you can literally do anything yeah no i think that there's everybody here could do

03:06:00.220 something to enhance their appearance i i don't like i don't really think that anybody here is going to be

03:06:07.980 a 10 nine maybe a 10 is keep in mind a 10 is like basically unattainable the top 0.5 percent of the

03:06:14.860 world maybe maybe lower than that is a 10 so i don't think that there's anything anybody on this

03:06:20.460 panel is going to do to be a 10 there you go uh okay we have sharon chair two and seven thank you for

03:06:26.220 being honest so tired of girls trying to protect girls that they just met feelings this is why men are 0.67

03:06:32.780 way more trustworthy than women sharing with the hundred uh that's chair two and then chairs seven 1.00

03:06:41.820 i believe and then we have a message coming from michael jones thank you man michael jones donated

03:06:47.100 two hundred dollars chair six is delusional megan fox is a ten this chick is an adjustable five six 1.00

03:06:55.260 after losing weight based chair two brian you need to reel in these three hundred and fours also hey

03:07:03.260 chair eight what's up michael dude you need you need a wink hey michael oh wow okay all right there it

03:07:11.980 is thank you michael for the tts guys w's in the chat for michael jones mike jones are you going to drop

03:07:16.860 some more lyrics from uh i don't know what song all right uh final thing on the rating thing do you think

03:07:22.220 you'll be better looking in 10 years time you're 24 better looking at 34 0.91

03:07:28.540 fuck yes okay better looking in 20 years time at 44 no okay you're 26 do you think you'll be better 0.94

03:07:36.220 looking in 10 years time at 36 i think i'll be just really i think i'll be just taking my my dip 0.98

03:07:42.060 from my peak like down yeah i don't think i'll be better looking at 36 i think i'll be on the

03:07:46.140 on the downturn okay uh so not better looking at 46 no okay but you'll be you think you'll be a bit

03:07:54.540 more attractive than you are now or at 30 probably okay uh you're 33 better looking in 10 years time

03:08:00.700 at 43 43 oh i'm gonna enjoy my you know age the moment i believe that i'm fine

03:08:08.860 so uh better looking at 43 a better looking a better looking to be honest can i guarantee but i

03:08:20.300 will try to you know keep this looking yeah so just a yes yes or no yes yes okay 20 years time 53

03:08:28.700 53 53 yeah uh 53 i'm not gonna you know like but uh i'm not no better looking no okay and then

03:08:42.060 going back 10 years time were you better looking at 23 than you are now at 33 oh i love me looking

03:08:49.100 right now 23 okay so better looking now 33 uh ivy you're 23 better looking in 10 years time 33 oh

03:08:55.180 i'm 24 but yes um i think at 34 yeah i think i will be better looking at 34 okay and then 10 years

03:09:02.380 uh 20 years time excuse me 24 to 44 do you think you'll be better looking uh no i don't think so

03:09:08.460 okay so 34 but okay all right and then bailey you're 23 better looking in 10 years time at 33 yes 20 years

03:09:15.500 time 43 no okay uh you're 24 better looking in 10 years time at 34 no okay you're 23 better looking

03:09:24.700 in 10 years time at 33 no okay alina you're 20 better looking at 30 better probably not okay all

03:09:31.740 right there it is do we have the age and gender swaps just age for now okay keep an eye out if there's

03:09:38.220 any other batches or the gender swap all right guys we've age advanced you is it ready to go yeah okay

03:09:45.100 we've aged advanced all of you i know some of you said no some of you said yes but let's take a look

03:09:50.140 oh my god wow wow why do i look so old that's so hot you're cute you're eating hot it was in the

03:10:00.380 beginning it was i wasn't even posing okay you're cute you look fine in the first one okay uh all right

03:10:07.900 next whoa oh you know what you look like that lady who smokes at like a 1.00

03:10:15.180 let me hear the hold on you gotta hear the rest at like not like a premiere casino but like a casino

03:10:22.220 in reno oh that's hilarious like that's where i would see you my mom my mom is in her trailer park 0.97

03:10:28.460 grandma trailer park i know i know i do but i think i look just like my mother my mother's had like no

03:10:32.780 work done or anything and she's objectively incredibly attractive for her age so i think if i age like her

03:10:37.180 i'll be all right to your credit the tits still look great oh yeah no aging there do you know my 1.00

03:10:44.780 fiancee wanted me to get fake ones it was like a sticking point in our relationship he wanted me to 0.99

03:10:48.140 get a bbl he wanted me to go he told me i didn't have any boobs he wanted me to get a bbl and giant 0.99

03:10:53.100 fake tits wow this is a fake no they're real wow wow period oh my god i'm still rockstar 0.99

03:11:02.140 i like that i like that all right next that's quite cute actually i like oh i can't i don't 0.99

03:11:11.020 think i can age well you don't look like you age much in the middle one though you look like just

03:11:17.580 a little bit but you know there's no way that's 31 34 there's no way that ai was the

03:11:24.140 next oh that's cute that's cute oh what's this doll oh my god next oh okay okay abuelita

03:11:38.140 next oh oh that's crazy wow it's for fun enjoy it while it lasts yeah i love this

03:11:56.060 i love this uh is there is there more 0.99

03:11:58.220 what the fuck oh that's funny oh yeah where's yours yeah where's yours thank you that's funny 0.97

03:12:05.020 one uh let's see oh that's pretty not bad that's really nice that's really nice 1.00

03:12:11.740 andrew fucking gandalf over here that looks exactly like my father oh oh really what the heck 0.96

03:12:20.620 looks like his dad okay what about you i mean like spitting image of my old man next 0.99

03:12:28.220 oh my god looks like a godfather w 1.00

03:12:31.500 bro yo you guys fucking at least your eyes are so blue so do we have gender swap 1.00

03:12:41.660 holy fuck bro i gotta lose some weight okay um you got this uh okay well let's keep keep an eye 1.00

03:12:48.780 out on it though damien in case we get gender swap or another badge uh we have oh no he needs 0.99

03:12:54.700 donated two that's funny i like that right don't don't don't don't don't do that don't do that oh

03:13:01.580 no not to my knowledge no

03:13:07.020 just happen to be blind i think he was referencing the oh the yeah yeah yeah sweet uh let's see here uh

03:13:15.580 okay that's it for the rating thing uh we're just gonna get into the uh actually no we have a react i've

03:13:19.820 been wanting to react to this since december we're finally gonna do it i think we have enough time to

03:13:25.180 do it uh so damien pull up the tick tock yeah uh you might have to adjust the volume a little bit

03:13:31.580 we're gonna be reacting to this video some of you might have seen it was this viral video

03:13:35.820 uh a woman was broken up with go ahead and pull it up we're gonna get uh started from the beginning

03:13:42.300 we have audio too imagine you live in la with your boyfriend and everything's going amazing

03:13:52.700 till he says babe i want to move back to texas to be closer to my dad so you give up half of your

03:14:02.140 career quit your improv troop and have a goodbye party take off months of work deplete your savings

03:14:10.140 to pay for movers and drive to texas so worth it for the love of your life that wants a future with 0.99

03:14:17.980 you because he said so so you spent a month waiting for your shit to arrive and then another month of 0.97

03:14:23.260 moving in and building furniture and stuff and you're so happy till he comes back from a family 0.99

03:14:30.540 vacation he sits on your couch which just turned into the mail and hits you unknown it says we have

03:14:36.860 nothing in common we're incompatible oh no hi how did i have known this this whole time during the happy

03:14:47.260 years of happiness we've been incompatible this whole time and that we had nothing in common

03:14:54.380 for three and a half years how did i not notice well what a surprise thank you for informing me that

03:15:03.100 this whole time we had nothing in common so you back up your girl who are reconfitted just gonna get

03:15:08.380 crying to her so we have to bag it for you and then you drive to florida to live with your mom

03:15:13.660 mom all right um so this went viral uh and so basically she was dating this guy for what three

03:15:24.540 and a half years they move he breaks up with her we don't know the exact timeline shortly thereafter

03:15:30.620 maybe a month couple months after the move uh your reaction starting with you oh well sorry that she

03:15:42.380 went through that if you end up watching this i'm sorry but like it was like there's no communication

03:15:47.340 you know because i feel like if you're communicating constantly with your partner um you'd be able to

03:15:51.420 know whether or not like they're into the relationship or they're like taking a step back so i just feel

03:15:57.020 like okay yeah your take if i just lived that i was moving to another country halfway across like all

03:16:03.340 the way across the world so uh i think that was a little bit over dramatic like it doesn't even seem like

03:16:10.620 she gave up her her job or anything it sucks like that's always gonna suck but i would never want to 0.92

03:16:14.460 be with somebody who didn't want me or didn't see so it's it completely sucks but you pick yourself up 0.64

03:16:20.860 make a little joke out of it and you move on it's traumatic but that makes us who we are so okay yeah

03:16:25.260 what about you yeah it is what it is just you know god saved her from you know somebody else i think

03:16:31.820 it's a good chance for her moving another chapter start another chapter what about you oh i i felt like that

03:16:39.260 was really that was really traumatizing i think i went through a similar experience and so i think

03:16:43.500 i can understand that it was wait it's traumatizing yeah it's traumatizing okay what happened to her

03:16:49.820 like it was traumatizing i think that she like gave up her whole life for this guy that said that he

03:16:55.580 loved her and then yeah i think that it still happens when you know it's i think they were

03:17:00.140 communicating i think honestly he just probably found someone better and was like oh there's like

03:17:03.420 options out there for me he didn't realize there was well we don't know that she didn't say anything

03:17:07.020 about that and he went on a family vacation like he left her for a bit comes back like i want to

03:17:11.580 break up like what yeah maybe he talked to his parents and the parents were like yeah this is not

03:17:16.380 the girl but um okay what about you bailey what do you think is he a bad guy what do you think i think

03:17:21.100 um i think everything happens for a reason and i think that there's someone better out there 0.99

03:17:27.580 for which for her okay but like is he a dick breaking up with her after the moon like what 0.92

03:17:34.540 i mean you ultimately can't control what your partner does so i think that she um just needs 0.97

03:17:39.660 to move on like yes it's gonna hurt but she's gonna be able to find someone who values her and

03:17:44.220 everything so i say that sucks because i moved all the way to new jersey for a guy and he broke up with

03:17:51.260 me and um we had to move back to texas while we were broken up in the plane so i kind of get what

03:17:56.380 she's feeling so she's had to pick herself up he's in therapy and she'll get better okay i mean they were

03:18:02.780 incompatible so it's unfortunate alina your thoughts i mean there's definitely more to the

03:18:09.020 story than we're seeing my question is why are you posting on social media about a three-year

03:18:15.420 relationship breakup that seems like too much um private information out there that um might

03:18:21.500 reflect some things that she did in the relationship that made him break up with her

03:18:25.020 it's pretty pretty base take um she did i mean she like blocked his face but like total strangers 1.00

03:18:36.300 won't know who it is but like they obviously probably had like shared friend shared social circle

03:18:41.180 kind of putting them on blast like that kind of it really quick before i give my take though pull up

03:18:45.820 the comments i think this is like what i thought you know you can criticize the video or whatever but

03:18:50.700 like some of these comments are crazy so uh make it a little bigger for me

03:18:58.140 sending him generational curses from africa scroll down you gave him wife privilege is without being 0.98

03:19:04.620 the wife okay whatever that means sending him stress from the engineering world sending so they're

03:19:10.780 literally cursing the guy sending him sleepless nights of regret from germany uh he tried to so they

03:19:17.980 want they want the guy to suffer it's yeah he tried to dump you politely when he said he wanted to

03:19:24.060 move whatever uh do not do anything for men until he puts a ring on your finger oh that's a whole nother

03:19:30.300 that's a whole nother conversation we could get into but scroll down a bit he gave you okay whatever

03:19:35.420 uh if you're so hurt why do you film yourself and upload it on the internet michael jones i'll get your

03:19:39.740 tts in just a sec here uh this whole production makes you queen he owes you financial compensation 1.00

03:19:45.580 wrong um scroll down um imagine doolingo hold on

03:19:54.060 sending him black magic from kolkata india sending him an eternity of chapped lips scroll down i'll do 0.68

03:20:00.220 a couple more i see balding in this future wow hit the plus scroll down sending him generational

03:20:08.060 curses from africa wait guys guys please don't talk while somebody else is talking scroll down uh or he

03:20:14.300 owes you financial competition oh did it just duplicate it he cheated blah blah blah okay go

03:20:19.660 to the tick tock i want to see the comments on tick tock there's a few more uh so you can criticize

03:20:27.260 like what she did but like these comments going after him are kind of crazy imagine he has to read

03:20:32.700 it huh that's fine it's fine uh make it bigger though so i can read the comments

03:20:37.980 also the internet's bigger they probably found his bigger bigger bigger stuff scroll scroll up let me

03:20:44.460 start it from up up up uh okay boyfriends aren't husbands blah blah blah uh he made you move then 1.00

03:20:50.780 handed you a note i thought okay thank you for uh uh scroll down never let them take you to a second

03:20:58.940 location okay that's weird uh it seems like the instagram ones were worse uh oh can't you 80 000

03:21:06.460 likes can't you sue him for something and then uh let's see if there's anything take amanda there 1.00

03:21:12.940 with the verified check take him to court sending them send him the moving costs and furniture to pay

03:21:20.060 if he doesn't sue him and claim he used you so the i don't know if these women are joking or they 0.86

03:21:26.540 genuinely think that there's actually some sort of like legal avenue that she can take here which 0.98

03:21:31.980 i think is completely ridiculous isn't there palimony like no that's not i mean in canada it's 0.99

03:21:37.740 fucking oh it's canada canada has some weird cuck shit like that but scroll down hire an attorney i 0.99

03:21:43.660 did and my ex had to pay that's but totally bogus um maybe in a marriage there's i mean not whatever 1.00

03:21:51.900 uh so multiple people saying sue him get money ask for money scroll down scroll down

03:22:01.100 the uh let me see if there's any more that are interesting scroll down scroll down scroll down

03:22:05.820 deserves to go viral uh let that man okay uh anyways so there's like different comments there's 0.98

03:22:12.620 some comments about money there's some comments like fuck this guy we're we hope he 0.99

03:22:17.180 gets cursed and that's kind of weird hoping but brian he was on a journey and all he was doing was 0.99

03:22:27.660 finding himself for self-discovery and then he came home and he told her that he didn't want her

03:22:32.780 anymore because they weren't compatible and she freaked out i don't really understand because all

03:22:37.020 he really needs is therapy and then he'll find himself okay can we make that go viral too that's

03:22:42.300 not a little auto tune maybe a little auto tune in there the interesting thing for me here is at

03:22:47.020 least with the comments right before i get into like my reaction to her video the people that are

03:22:51.580 calling for her to sue him first off i'm not a i'm not an attorney but there's no i mean look maybe

03:23:01.580 some attorneys in the chat can clarify do we have any andrew maybe you have attorneys in your chat

03:23:06.460 there's attorneys in our chat there's no legal cause of action you can't do anything there's no

03:23:12.140 legal cause of action where you could like oh you spent money on your boyfriend your boyfriend breaks

03:23:17.900 up with you he owes you money no absent absent him like you loaning him money in her case for example

03:23:24.460 you actually would have a legal claim i don't know the laws in korea though but uh if you spend money on

03:23:30.700 somebody in this sort of way that's essentially a relationship you cannot recuperate the spent

03:23:39.900 invested money on them in addition to that i think it's really interesting because most of those women 1.00

03:23:46.300 80 000 it was like 80 000 likes oh you he should be financially responsible you should sue him

03:23:52.620 how would women feel if we took y'all on a date and paid for the date and you didn't 1.00

03:23:58.780 fuck us and we're like oh give me my money back you guys would be like what the fuck no that's crazy 1.00

03:24:04.780 to even think like that so the same goes for women though just because you invest in us we don't owe 1.00

03:24:11.260 you like in the same way you don't owe us anything in the same way that women if we take you to dinner 1.00

03:24:16.300 you don't you don't owe the guy sex i don't i don't think that if you if a guy takes you out he

03:24:22.460 pays the bill you don't owe him sex if a guy takes you out for a first date you don't you don't owe him 0.87

03:24:27.420 a second date you don't owe him you don't know him anything what the point someone in my chat

03:24:33.580 points out what about common law marriage i think they were in california i don't think there's

03:24:40.300 cohabitation well some states i think you only have to cohabitate for a few months before it applies to

03:24:44.940 you well so i don't know the specifics of that but you are right that there is a there is a common

03:24:49.420 law marriage where the even though you're not actually married if you've been holding yourself

03:24:53.580 i think it's if you there's like cohabitation but you also there's there's other prongs

03:24:59.980 to falling in the snare of common law marriage it's not necessarily just cohabitation i think you

03:25:06.540 also have to be holding i could be wrong again i'm not a lawyer it's not and it's it's state-specific

03:25:12.700 too and i believe they were in california right i don't know i think you have to also be holding

03:25:17.100 yourself out as if you were married to i think that is one component of it but nevertheless if

03:25:24.380 you're cohabitating in a common law state you might get ensnared neither neither state has it though

03:25:29.900 california does not recognize common law marriage yeah so and nexus nexus also there has to be certain

03:25:35.660 even relations so even then though when it comes to her out-of-pocket expenses moving

03:25:40.860 she wouldn't that wouldn't even be a claim to like recoup her actual expenses she could attempt 0.97

03:25:47.020 to make a claim for uh under the state's law if there is common law marriage for alimony

03:25:54.460 but they were together for only three and a half years the alimony would

03:25:58.620 if it was even granted would be for a very short period of time most states i think you have to be

03:26:03.100 married beyond for a certain length seven years well it depends on the state but you have to be married

03:26:08.060 for a certain period of time before you can get alimony and the length of the marriage would

03:26:11.900 determine how long the alimony payment uh is being made in any case she can't recuperate the money for 0.74

03:26:19.660 the cost of the move this sort of thing but it's really interesting that all these women saying this

03:26:24.940 would like laugh in a dude's face if as a guy you take a girl out on a date and she's not interested

03:26:32.860 and you're like oh can you just venmo me the 20 bucks that i spent on you for the burgers or whatever

03:26:38.700 so like i think that's really interesting that component and then i think the other component is um

03:26:45.660 is uh what is it oh i don't think it's interesting like y'all women you'll you'll if you're not into a

03:26:54.220 guy like it's done yeah and like if you'd probably clown on a dude if he was kind of upset oh like i took

03:27:01.420 you on a date oh we've been dating for a month oh we've been dating for three months oh we've been

03:27:04.540 dating for a year it's like if he's all butthurt about the breakup like he can obviously be upset

03:27:09.900 but if he's gonna like go and make some video or get all bent out of shape over the breakup

03:27:15.900 you're not most women are not gonna be pleased with that sort of situation but it's weird to me

03:27:21.980 like why do you and look i know it's not all women but why do y'all feel so entitled to a

03:27:28.220 relationship because and i'll paint it like this in the same way that women are not vending machines 1.00

03:27:35.900 that you put niceness tokens into or date tokens into and it pops out sex women are not sex vending 1.00

03:27:44.220 machines men are not relationship vending machines so regardless of the investment that you've put into

03:27:50.620 us we don't owe you any sort of continuity i don't care if we've been dating four years if i've made a

03:27:56.540 determination that i don't want to date you you're gone and i don't owe you anything in the same way

03:28:03.420 that if you wanted to dump me for any reason or no reason at all you would do it and you don't owe me

03:28:09.740 anything so i don't think just because you've been in a relationship for three three years and that she

03:28:16.300 made this move and she totally exaggerated like okay she took off months of work to move 1.00

03:28:26.620 it doesn't take what about her her improv true her improv true and she she only gave up andrew half 0.94

03:28:34.300 of her music career only she said she gave up half of it whatever the fuck that means i don't know what

03:28:39.740 about what about her improv troupe though brian you seem to be forgetting these strong bonds that

03:28:44.780 happen inside of improv troops very strong life altering life-changing bonds that last forever

03:28:52.300 and ever from your improv troupe yeah but i i think uh i don't know it's to me because and i got i

03:29:00.300 actually i know i could never leave my improv troupe brian it's hard you i actually used to do improv

03:29:06.060 when i was like 19. i thought theater was a red flag i am a red flag so anyways um but uh

03:29:13.420 no it's uh well you used to used to yeah i gave it up no longer have the red flag could you imagine if

03:29:19.660 that video was to the flip side and it was her like with a little tune like and then i packed up and then

03:29:25.260 i left him because whatever i didn't like what color socks he was wearing on tuesday the internet and

03:29:30.140 the comments would be like hell yeah you go girl boss babe like the comments would be so different

03:29:34.700 if the video was her leaving him instead of him breaking up with her when she got there yeah and

03:29:39.340 also if he would have made that video the whole internet this is so wrong and the view to make

03:29:44.620 this video of her like how dare you put her on the internet even though you blurred her face like 0.95

03:29:49.500 if the shoe was on the other foot it would be so different yeah it would be like oh he's kind of

03:29:54.620 like whoa he's really intense like yeah she won look tough tough buddy she wanted to break up with

03:30:00.460 you like that it's a really good point and it's the point i'm trying to make like imagine a guy's like 0.98

03:30:06.540 man i i i took her out on three dates and she didn't give me pussy they'd be like so like a girl doesn't 1.00

03:30:14.860 owe you sex because you took her on three dates a guy just because you put some sort some degree of 0.97

03:30:21.180 investment into the guy doesn't mean he owes you continuity in the relationship i think uh the

03:30:27.340 big thing though is like look the criticism here is like why did he do this after the move maybe he

03:30:33.020 could have dumped her before but we don't know like maybe he was all in on the move and wanted to keep

03:30:38.860 seeing her i think people reserve the right to end a relationship at any time and so maybe he made

03:30:44.940 the determination after the move maybe he saw like hmm living with her in one location where 0.97

03:30:51.340 she's comfortable she's cool but like she's a fucking head case when we're actually stressed out 0.98

03:30:56.700 and have to do a move i don't want to deal with a girl like that who knows post move and then he ends 1.00

03:31:01.900 it but we don't look we don't know if that's actually the case but what is interesting is there is

03:31:07.100 look people could say look he should have broken up with her before but if like he only came to the

03:31:12.700 determination let's say he only came to the determination that he was over the relationship

03:31:18.380 after the move how can you fault him for ending like what is he supposed to do hmm i guess i'll

03:31:24.780 keep her for three months and then i'll dump her what's he supposed to do also like you don't know

03:31:31.180 like anybody there's there's missing context like clearly i mean i do think it's weird that he wrote

03:31:35.900 her a note after three years like that's pretty weird like maybe this guy exuberated some red flags

03:31:39.740 before that happened you should i don't think you've been dating for three years and you live

03:31:44.300 together you're you pass them a note like it's first grade like do you like me check yes or no

03:31:49.820 demonstrates so he just doesn't know how to communicate so he just writes it on a letter

03:31:53.340 but that being said if he didn't know how to communicate like i knew that my ex didn't know

03:31:56.540 how to communicate prior to me moving to australia and i just accepted that i either accept that he

03:32:00.460 can't communicate or i'm out and i accepted that he can't communicate she must have known but three

03:32:05.420 years in prior to moving that this guy is a little goofy in his communication skills so you could tell

03:32:11.340 that she was all for him she literally started building furniture for him like she was all in

03:32:15.740 and maybe she was like oblivious to the little signs that he was like giving that he's not in it

03:32:21.340 because she really wanted it and then she got the note who's to say he wasn't in he wasn't yeah he

03:32:26.860 was so i mean he could have met somebody all assumptions he could have met somebody that he deemed a

03:32:30.540 better option he could have she could have done said the wrong thing on the wrong day and it was

03:32:34.780 just again like that straw that broke the camel's back anything could happen but because it's from

03:32:38.780 her point of view and her perspective there's missing context in that video it's that video and little

03:32:43.260 tune was made just to like shame him for breaking up with her yeah also if that guy if anybody if anybody

03:32:52.060 knows who he knows who he is i want him on the show i'll fly you out a little vacation from texas

03:33:00.300 yes to santa bar i will fly you out because the internet dragged this guy i want his side

03:33:07.820 of the story right i will fly you out i'll cover your expenses we'll have him on the show yeah because

03:33:12.620 she painted like such a nasty narrative especially like making it with the tune she's like i i obviously 1.00

03:33:17.820 i don't know if she knew like how the algorithm algorithm works but like you know like that's how

03:33:21.980 you get people to like you like this to be funny and witty and you know painting that narrative is

03:33:26.940 like fucked up i think crying funny and witty part though well her emojis um her uh the emojis in the 0.96

03:33:33.260 song like that that was her way that was her comedy or her um her way of being funny and dealing that 0.99

03:33:39.020 song sucked didn't it it was terrible it was some like artsy hipster you know thrown together

03:33:47.740 kind of thing i i also think that women that cry on the internet i think that women's tears are only 0.88

03:33:53.020 truly like true honest to god tears when they're by themselves if you can cry into a camera i don't

03:33:58.540 find it to be like very legit yeah it's like oh my god it's like let me yeah it's like

03:34:04.780 and then they put the phone down and they're like all right what are we going for dinner it's so like

03:34:08.860 it's women's tears are only real when they're by themselves like into their pillow having like a real 1.00

03:34:14.780 actual meltdown that's you know and you don't call anyone you don't call your best friend you

03:34:17.660 don't call your mom you have your little emotional meltdown and cry in your bed alone if if you're

03:34:21.660 posting on the internet it's they're fake tears or yeah it's just i don't know can you uh damien can

03:34:27.260 you google wait i'm gonna send it to you there's a beautiful socrates quote go ahead pull that up uh

03:34:34.300 there's a socrates quote i wonder if there's an image search for it uh go to the image search

03:34:40.940 show show me the image search for this oh my god there's wait that's funny tab over just go ahead

03:34:49.100 tab over that's funny there's actually a fucking clip from look at the tiktok clip the fourth one 0.88

03:34:57.100 over that's from my that's hey that's a ryan terriban um that's funny that's from my podcast uh click on 0.97

03:35:03.580 the first one by wait what oh next one over my bad trust not a woman when she weeps for it is her

03:35:16.380 nature to weep when she wants her will whoa that's really a little bit of toxic masculinity from socrates 0.96

03:35:25.420 going around the table do you uh you agree with this you disagree honestly i need to read the

03:35:33.500 the the pull it up i'll get the tts's in just a sec guys i apologize for the delay trust not a woman 1.00

03:35:41.580 when she weeps for it is her nature to weep when she wants her will um yeah i mean i i do see

03:35:50.860 a lot of like philosophy um you know ideas and i do believe in a lot of them so like when i see this

03:35:58.300 i i see it as like a possible like a possibility to like yeah like be true you know especially just

03:36:03.900 like knowing um like me being a woman i could definitely find myself like you know doing something

03:36:11.100 like attention well brian didn't even give you the good one you see the one of the um students of of

03:36:20.460 socrates to plato and then from plato to aristotle aristotle said wherefore women are more compassionate 0.99

03:36:26.380 and more ready to weep more jealous and quarrelsome more fond of railing and more contentious

03:36:32.540 the female is also more subject to depression of spirits and despair than the male she's also

03:36:37.340 shameless and false more readily deceived and more mindful of energy or of injury more watchful more

03:36:43.180 idle and on the whole less excitable than the male on the contrary the male is more ready to help

03:36:47.180 and uh as it has been said more brave than the female and even uh in the malaysia if the sepia is

03:36:55.900 struck with the trident the male comes to help the female but the female makes her escape if the male is

03:37:00.940 struck so just saying the philosophers of old did not seem to have well i mean they had a high opinion

03:37:09.500 of women i guess but they seem to understand the nature pretty well didn't they i just think that 1.00

03:37:15.180 overall like obviously these philosophers like they're all male but the one that you reference

03:37:20.380 i like that he mentioned that women are more compassionate because generally women are more

03:37:23.660 compassionate than men so we tend to feel a lot more thing yeah yeah you understand he's not saying

03:37:28.380 that he's saying that you're a slave to passion like he's saying that we're a slave to passion like

03:37:33.020 we have like no emotional agility that we can't control our emotions oh compassion in and of itself

03:37:38.300 um he's he's making a reference here wherefore women are more compassionate and more ready to weep 0.88

03:37:45.900 more jealous more quarrelsome right he's saying actually that they're a slave to their passion

03:37:51.260 in this case that their compassion is often misplaced because it's a part of their nature right

03:37:57.420 i think that you do that's what he's saying you do see that comment a lot towards girls like oh

03:38:02.140 you're being too emotional right now or like oh you can't control your emotions and that's not usually

03:38:06.460 towards guys i do see that a lot more i literally said it to my sister last night because she was

03:38:10.780 crying but it's like she cried because she didn't know how to express herself so i don't know some

03:38:15.980 women they feel helpless that they actually can't do anything and so their only other alternative is to 1.00

03:38:20.780 cry not and i guess it kind of does play into socrates where he's like a woman cried to like get their

03:38:25.740 way and i could see that as well i think that it's like they don't see any other action that they

03:38:31.020 could take in that moment than to just cry and it's just like a way for them to relieve like

03:38:36.060 stress or built up tension within um and also women i think that you know we feel like it's a

03:38:41.740 lot easier to cry i have not seen that many guys cry in my life and it's like an asian saying like

03:38:47.260 guys only cry three times in their life it's like when they're born when their dad dies and when

03:38:52.140 i don't know their grandma mom i forgot you know the saying right yeah can i ask like would you guys

03:38:58.060 feel as if like um like you know most definitely not the saying isn't that the saying no that is

03:39:04.620 most definitely not the same yeah it's the same no she knows it it's in korean yeah yeah but that's

03:39:11.500 not the three times they cry though oh sorry yeah yeah that i think i did it wrong i think i did it

03:39:15.820 wrong it was like when they're born when someone dies and then for the last one when they went to

03:39:20.300 the military i think it was i think guys mostly view crying as a sort of manipulative thing or i guess

03:39:27.420 most guys because i can say all guys as a manipulative thing of girls to do to just get 1.00

03:39:32.620 their way but i think most girls are emotional don't really know how to control their emotions 1.00

03:39:40.700 or they're just super emotional and just end up crying because they're hurt not necessarily for

03:39:45.660 wanting to like get their way or wanting to like manipulate their way in their situation

03:39:49.980 because it's only sorry i have to kind of give you a firm disagreement here so i think um i think

03:39:57.100 women don't have much in the way of recourse except two ways vicious slander or through manipulation and 1.00

03:40:04.300 here's why i think this so men always have an option women don't which is force women don't even 1.00

03:40:10.060 really have a force option against other women right it's not really something they did now it has 1.00

03:40:15.180 become more prominent now that women fight or are willing to go fisticuffs with each other but it's 1.00

03:40:20.540 still not nearly as common as it is with men and uh on top of that they can't do that with men so what

03:40:27.420 they do instead is their kind of ways of fighting back are either through emotional machinations or

03:40:35.340 through the idea of slander right those are kind of the two pathways that they have because what else do

03:40:40.700 they have so if bob is giving me a bunch of trouble i can punch bob in the mouth and that's totally

03:40:46.780 socially acceptable i can't punch linda in the mouth that's totally not socially acceptable on the other 1.00

03:40:53.100 hand if linda punches me in the mouth that's laughable right it's just like uh okay well what did you

03:40:59.820 accomplish here um did you know perhaps you hurt your hand right so the thing is is like they don't really

03:41:06.620 have much but two options and so i think that that's uh i i do think it's a form of manipulation

03:41:12.780 now you could argue that that manipulation is necessary because that's what's at their disposal

03:41:17.100 but i do think it's manipulation for sure i think it's the only defense mechanism that women really 1.00

03:41:21.900 have besides what you just said like going on a on a smear campaign just like a skunk gets scared

03:41:27.260 and sprays or a porcupine gets scared and puts their their spikes up women's only real defense 1.00

03:41:32.060 mechanism is crying like that's all they can do i wouldn't agree with that because i i would say

03:41:38.700 we could as you know women kind of put in the work and control our emotions and maybe come from a place 1.00

03:41:45.900 with logic and conversation you know and not just quiet cry and i get it like but a man who's decided

03:41:51.260 to break up with you that guy that like that video that's how this conversation all started that

03:41:55.180 video of that girl crying there besides her smear campaign and her tears there's nothing that she 1.00

03:41:59.580 can do to that guy she could leave he left her that's why she made the video and she was upset 1.00

03:42:03.980 he he gave her to tear one's point i don't think she's wrong i think that women are capable of logical 0.90

03:42:09.820 discourse and reason everything else i don't think they're incapable of this at all uh i just think

03:42:15.580 that ultimately what backs it with men if if men have like a logical dispute or a reason dispute or

03:42:23.100 something like this we ultimately have something that we can defer to for stalker yes okay i we both 0.59

03:42:29.340 think we're right uh so one of us can always just beat the shit out of the other right so we can

03:42:35.340 decide it that way we have a threshold breaker completely that doesn't exist that doesn't exist

03:42:39.660 for women i also think a lot of times just like simply isn't there so so chair one like what do you 0.98

03:42:45.340 do to get revenge right i know what men do to get revenge oftentimes like if i ever see that guy again

03:42:50.860 i'm gonna punch him right in the mouth and then they do it right they actually do it women don't really 1.00

03:42:55.340 have that available to them so what they do is they run slander campaigns or emotional manipulation 0.99

03:43:01.420 like what are the choices available to them they could not to get revenge at all take accountability

03:43:07.340 i agree with that i'm just saying that if if they were to want to for whatever reason that would be

03:43:13.980 the the option available to them yeah yeah yeah or there's the option of walking away evolving

03:43:19.580 becoming the absolute best version of yourself i mean they might never they might never care but

03:43:23.820 there is like if there was all these issues in the relationship and you step away from their

03:43:27.420 from a relationship or from whatever the dispute is and you fix it and you work on yourself and you

03:43:31.980 become a better person at some point i i do believe in the theory that like they always come back i

03:43:37.740 mean and they it might not always be a good thing and they might not always come back in the capacity

03:43:41.020 that you want them back in but women i mean women do possess the ability to take well here let's well

03:43:49.580 let's try it this way okay just uh just quick show of hands do you think that women plot and scheme 1.00

03:43:57.580 more than men do by a show of hands oh yeah we just women we'd rather do that a lot of women definitely 1.00

03:44:05.580 so definitely women plot and scheme uh more than men do so let me um let me ask you this think about

03:44:13.340 this from a man's perspective women often uh don't don't think of it from our perspective but

03:44:18.220 universally from theirs and why wouldn't they right they're not men they're women so they're going to

03:44:23.180 think of things from their from their perspective it's hard to actually put yourself in the other seat

03:44:27.660 but when women say like men are emotionally closed off they're emotionally closed off they don't want

03:44:33.420 to talk they don't want to talk about their feelings they don't want to talk about things like this

03:44:37.180 did you guys ever think that because if they do it actually gives you ammunition

03:44:42.380 so if they tell you their deepest darkest fears or they tell you or they become vulnerable with you

03:44:46.860 about anything which is emotional since they know that you scheme and plot as a way to either defend

03:44:54.460 yourself or hurt other people whereas they would just like punch them in the mouth right uh by them 0.89

03:45:00.620 actually being vulnerable to you that that lays open the trap for your scheming and plotting so in in many

03:45:08.060 ways wouldn't that be a great defense mechanism like wouldn't you actually give men advice don't 1.00

03:45:13.580 tell women very much because they scheme and plot and will do bad things to you with the information 0.93

03:45:20.780 if they get upset right like that makes sense from a man's perspective well yeah because like society

03:45:25.100 makes it to wherever man cries immediately he's weak immediately he you know is like less of a man because

03:45:31.340 he can't control his emotions and then naturally like because i i have done this like years ago to

03:45:39.020 uh to my first relationship where uh he was vulnerable with me and i do remember mention

03:45:43.900 mentioning to him like when i was crying i was like well when you were crying when you cried i was there for

03:45:48.300 you you know so that's like that i was kind of like using his vulnerability as a way for him to

03:45:53.900 like be there for me and um like so it was a it was a bit of plotting and scheming and manipulation

03:46:00.300 right yeah 100 so this is so this is the case right it's like so in many ways probably the best

03:46:06.380 advice to give men is to not open up to women just open up to the right one the right one and so so

03:46:13.180 well wait it gets worse it gets worse what if it's the case that the reason women are always complaining 1.00

03:46:18.860 that men don't open up and aren't vulnerable to them is because what they really mean is this 0.98

03:46:24.460 fucking guy isn't giving me ammunition to hurt him with in some cases i would agree that probably 0.97

03:46:30.300 maybe most cases i have no idea actually but um like i feel like like when you think about it so 0.99

03:46:34.940 you think about it from the man's mind he's like wait a second now that we know they scheme and plot

03:46:38.620 more and they're going to use what i say is emotional ammunition and they get upset if i don't

03:46:44.700 emotionally become vulnerable for them if you put that together in the man's logical brain doesn't

03:46:49.420 he think to himself wait a second this chick just wants me to be emotionally vulnerable and give her 1.00

03:46:53.260 my darkest secrets so that she can hurt me with them if she wants to because what other recourse does

03:46:57.660 she have yeah i would say that means you just got to get to know the person that you know you're

03:47:01.660 investing yourself with to like understand their mindset and where they would come from or how they

03:47:05.660 would treat you and trust that they wouldn't do that to you michael jones donated two hundred dollars

03:47:12.380 i used to get dissed by the chicks in the club now they want to rub my belly want to show your boy 1.00

03:47:18.140 some love who mike jones shout out to the passport brothers also hi chair eight hi yo michael jones

03:47:27.980 i apologize for the i had to step away from the table for a moment i apologize for the delay i'm so

03:47:35.180 sorry in fact that um i don't know how to make it up to you pick something because i apologize for

03:47:44.060 the delay also we have a few more coming in oj simpson donated two hundred dollars chair eight i missed

03:47:51.900 you so great to see you again wink for uncle oj yes chair four why are you talking like that weren't you

03:48:00.460 born and raised in the u.s chair one we all know that sweaty rave slit stank wait wait what was it

03:48:07.260 was uh you need to donate more and let me know what does sweaty rave slit stink mean oh okay yeah

03:48:14.860 what what happened were you born in the united states yeah i have an american passport what the

03:48:19.420 heck yeah i was born in modern what was your first language uh first my first language was um

03:48:25.500 cantonese okay that's why it's like a little twangy all right we have this um uh you can yeah

03:48:34.060 he needs donated two hundred dollars i am a god enjoy andrew's beautiful song

03:48:41.740 um i think it's fine play it don't show it just play it

03:48:48.220 brian he was on a journey and all he was doing was finding himself for self-discovery and then he

03:48:55.660 came home and he told her that he didn't want it anymore because they weren't compatible she freaked

03:49:00.300 out i don't really understand what we're going to do we're just talking about what the heck

03:49:09.020 thank you very much thank you uh wow that was be andrew do you want to say anything about that i don't

03:49:13.740 know it was a it was a brilliant masterpiece yeah i'm sure it'll go viral um and uh you know we'll

03:49:20.380 catch there we'll catch all the right algorithms i did want to just quickly uh let me finish this

03:49:24.460 conversation very quickly just one sec v donated 200 does anyone feel a family member wrote the note

03:49:34.700 and agreed no one should give with strings attached hey v thank you very much i do appreciate that yeah i

03:49:41.180 i i mean feel a family member wrote the note like his mom his mom his yeah i don't know um i do

03:49:47.740 sorry guys i i'm the one who controls all like the tts is coming through i was i stepped away for about

03:49:53.180 10 minutes so some of these came in a little you know 10 minutes ago 10 15 so i apologize for that uh

03:49:59.580 go ahead andrew yeah yeah no problem um so i just wanted to just briefly kind of wrap this up with

03:50:06.460 uh have any of you ever been with a person who like switched on a dime they changed on a dime

03:50:14.460 and suddenly you found yourself having to defend yourself from like vicious allegations or rumor

03:50:21.020 mongering or things like that or even had a close friend by a raise of hands who's done that to you

03:50:28.380 only two of you have ever had a friend of yours or a person you were with

03:50:32.460 ever change very quickly or rapidly oh oh you're talking about like a partner like someone you're

03:50:37.660 dating oh okay yeah of course i think that over a relationship you should yeah it's pretty common

03:50:43.580 pretty common i would say right so if that's the case for you should men would probably think that

03:50:49.180 that would be the case for them too so again why would they be vulnerable but i think men yeah i didn't

03:50:55.740 mean to cut you off i think men do the same thing to women men like to men are fixers so if you complain

03:51:00.460 about something they'll try to fix it for you but they also kind of store that complaint in the back

03:51:04.300 of their mind and they start using anything that you say to like psychoanalyze you and a lot of times

03:51:09.820 try to convince you like why you're messed up and like why they can like fix you men take this the

03:51:16.620 same thing that you're saying women do to men men do to women and they like in my opinion 0.79

03:51:21.100 it's what what i don't know wait what about women you're talking about women when women are 1.00

03:51:27.820 vulnerable about women bitching about problems no no like literally anything like if women are 0.99

03:51:31.820 vulnerable about something that's happened to them like for example if a woman's parents got

03:51:36.620 divorced let's say or something like that and she says like oh like i you're married or whatever and 0.91

03:51:42.380 she's like i'm insecure in the marriage about this like because my parents got divorced that guy will

03:51:46.460 take that and he will use that to the end of the earth it doesn't matter what you say he'll be like

03:51:50.540 that's because your parents got divorced and now you're messed up like guys do the same thing to

03:51:55.100 women they take something that you've said and you were vulnerable about and they like twist it for their 1.00

03:52:00.060 their own like evil maniacal good in the relationship or to justify something completely unrelated they

03:52:06.620 store that away in the back of their head and they use it against you too like men also why did you

03:52:11.180 say earlier that you think that women are more manipulative and have more nefarious machinations

03:52:17.100 when it when it comes to these manipulations than men i think the difference i think that women will

03:52:22.460 after a relationship they will do more of a smear campaign they'll they'll do more of like the 0.99

03:52:26.780 getting with their friends or mutual mutual friends mutual partners and doing like the oh well here's 0.97

03:52:32.140 you know he did this and he did that and he sucks because of this and he sucks because of that 0.94

03:52:35.740 i don't think men really go to their friends after a relationship or after something bad 0.97

03:52:40.140 has happened and do that to the woman they do it or like do it behind her back they do it directly to

03:52:45.660 her so i think that men are more like kind of calculating in the relationship to make vulnerable

03:52:53.980 things a woman has said fit the narrative women don't usually use it against him like to his face 0.81

03:52:59.820 they take it and they do a smear campaign with it after like okay behind their back which is worse

03:53:04.380 so men are talking to them about the actual problem and saying here's why the problem may exist which

03:53:09.740 makes sense and women will go behind the back of the man in order to smear them doesn't that way 1.00

03:53:16.940 worse yes yeah so then when you're talking about this i would put this in the category of bitching 1.00

03:53:22.860 right so it works like this men do to each other they gripe to each other occasionally but if there's

03:53:27.740 too much griping we look over the other guy and we say hey shut the up i don't want to hear your 0.87

03:53:32.220 bitching anymore shut up i don't want to hear it be quiet go away right this kind of thing and then we 1.00

03:53:37.180 make fun of them and clown on them and and then what that does is it prevents them in the future 0.98

03:53:42.780 from bitching anymore right because they know that there's going to be a bunch of negative feedback 1.00

03:53:47.020 from men yeah but we can't do that with our women right we can't we can't just be like ah you know 0.98

03:53:53.980 why don't you shut the up because i'm tired of hearing your bitching because that's not socially 1.00

03:53:57.820 acceptable but that's how we do it with other men right that's how we do it my ex-fiance literally 0.98

03:54:02.780 would do that he would literally be like us imagine hang on hang on almost done so from our

03:54:06.860 perspective imagine you're dealing with a woman and she's in this category of bitching all the 1.00

03:54:11.500 time of course it's going to be categorized and when you're trying to fix the problem which is making 0.92

03:54:15.980 her bitch right uh you're going to try to analyze what's causing the problem so you can fix it right 1.00

03:54:22.460 that makes that makes sense that does make sense but i've had it before like we're like i was just 0.98

03:54:26.300 saying my ex-fiance would literally look at me and he'd be like shut the up i had a long day at work

03:54:29.820 like i don't care like i don't want to hear about your problems but i've also had it where

03:54:33.180 well i mean he sounds awesome yeah you would like him actually i think um

03:54:39.420 i i would i would rather that though than a guy taking something that i told him like that i was

03:54:45.260 confiding in him in and being vulnerable with and take it and use it against me and be like

03:54:50.060 well you have trust issues because x y and z i don't i don't have a specific example like off the 0.99

03:54:55.900 top of my head but i would rather just be like shut the fuck up your bitching is annoying me 1.00

03:55:01.260 than having something like that i told them what the fact that women are always psychoanalyzing 1.00

03:55:07.180 themselves to the men that they're with constantly to them and telling them why they think they're 0.75

03:55:12.620 fucked up so women are notorious for doing this the reason that i talk so much about blah blah blah 1.00

03:55:17.660 blah is because this awful thing that happened to me four years ago when i was walking over a park 0.99

03:55:23.020 and i was jump scared by you know random like they do that all the time so they're constantly

03:55:28.380 giving descriptive explanations and psychoanalyzing themselves and why they do certain behaviors

03:55:34.380 and then when a man turns around and says wait a second aren't you doing that because by your own

03:55:38.940 descriptive statement you said you're all up because a b and c and then a woman's like you shouldn't

03:55:44.780 say that that's mean that's messed up you're using it against me but it's like you you said that 0.95

03:55:49.180 shit right oh that's so true that's a good point i really like what you just said it's a fair point 0.91

03:55:55.980 yeah i mean they're always psychoanalyzing themselves that is yeah yeah yeah i think so 0.71

03:55:59.980 i think we tried to like help each other out but oh maybe you did this and it's like something that

03:56:04.700 happened like 10 years ago because this happened and then we don't really want to take like full

03:56:08.620 responsibility for what we did yeah they like narrate their behavior yeah right they narrate their

03:56:13.340 behavior all the time like don't you guys narrate your behavior show of hands if you narrate your own

03:56:18.460 behavior like you've been narrating your behavior most of the night right yeah you guys just kind

03:56:22.780 of like narrate your behavior and so we catalog the narration and then we're like okay well it sounds

03:56:27.900 like she needs a b c and d fixed they just they don't use that against me it's like uh well i mean

03:56:33.980 i wouldn't even know it except you just decided to catalog your entire life's work of events to me

03:56:43.420 i remember when i was working as a teacher i had one student that tried to beat me up

03:56:47.420 and then all the other kids were like oh don't get mad at him like i heard that his mom is in

03:56:50.780 the hospital i was like what does his mom being in the hospital have to do with him like threatening

03:56:54.460 me and the kids are just like don't take it personally i was like oh what the heck you forgot

03:56:59.340 you forgot to start with one time at band camp yeah every time you talk you're supposed to do that

03:57:05.340 uh yeah anything did you have more on that andrew or good to move things on okay all right uh aka the

03:57:14.220 closer andrew on the back of what you said about men being able to use force with other men as means

03:57:18.380 of conflict resolution what recourse do men have against malignant women if any they don't have 0.96

03:57:26.140 anything the only thing that they have is counter reputational damage which makes them look mean

03:57:30.540 makes women look like victims so the problem especially in modernity is that when women begin 1.00

03:57:36.860 slander campaigns and men defend themselves usually the only way that they can do so is to be vicious back 0.98

03:57:43.100 this is unfortunately the side effect of slander campaigns is the without in order to uh to defend

03:57:50.940 yourself like let's say for instance a woman is abusive to you and she's hitting you things like

03:57:56.460 this and one night you physically grab her and move her or move her out of your way so you can leave or

03:58:01.260 something like this she files a police report um and now you're being slandered as being abusive this type of

03:58:07.660 thing well oftentimes the only way that you can defend yourself from such slander is to be like no

03:58:12.940 this lady was hitting me constantly she was awful this type of thing but it makes you because you're 1.00

03:58:18.700 you're determined socially by uh what is called the schrodinger feminist phenomenon which is i'm a very

03:58:25.900 empowered badass woman or the worst victim you've ever seen depending on which situation benefits me most

03:58:32.060 in this case uh women will often uh portrayal while they're slandering you that they themselves are 0.99

03:58:39.420 the victim if you hit back right so this is this would be the same thing in the context of if a woman 0.93

03:58:45.420 punches you in the face and you punch her back in the face she still immediately gets the victim status

03:58:50.460 even though really she doesn't deserve it can i ask a question one second one second also on this

03:58:55.740 is like this is basically a holdover from chivalry essentially also the the issue with uh when it

03:59:01.980 comes to like reputation destruction stuff here while we keep it center is uh let's just i mean this

03:59:10.540 what i'm about to say maybe doesn't necessarily apply so much if you're just like a normie but if

03:59:15.500 you have like hey guys guys this is why we need people to show up on time because we called you on

03:59:22.700 the phone so that you can be listening you cannot be having sidebar i've had to shush you multiple

03:59:28.060 times if somebody else is talking don't lean over to your neighbor and start talking to them it's

03:59:33.980 disrespectful and rude to whoever's talking it distracts them it's rude and it fucks the audio 0.95

03:59:39.980 so please don't do sidebars so anyways back to this page out of andrew's book um back to this

03:59:48.140 i already lost my train of thought wonderful that's exactly why we don't want people doing

03:59:53.500 talking about reputational damage yeah so let's say you're like a somebody and the girl's a nobody 0.99

04:00:00.300 i'm not saying this from an ego perspective but if you're a fucking nfl nba player you can't even 0.97

04:00:05.740 resort to counter reputation destruction really because you have everything to lose and they have 0.97

04:00:11.820 nothing to lose that's the second thing maybe they're doing it for attention you actually making some

04:00:17.340 sort of sort of definitive statement about it gives them the attention the precise attention that

04:00:21.580 they want and then furthermore given the lack it's interesting how there's talks about imbalances of

04:00:29.820 power a guy who's like really famous or who has a lot of money or resources dating a woman who has

04:00:36.060 nothing i actually think in some ways a woman who has nothing who is involved with a man with immense amount

04:00:44.780 of power is actually severely disadvantaged in some ways because the woman has nothing to lose 0.99

04:00:53.500 nothing to lose if she opts to slander slander or destroy his reputation he has everything to lose so

04:01:00.780 this idea that there's some power dynamic i find kind of almost laughable when actually women in many 0.63

04:01:07.180 instances have substantial power in the sort of uh in the way that they can wield it when it comes to

04:01:12.700 any sort of false accusations or slander but i guess going back to my point if you have a platform of

04:01:19.420 any kind and you're a guy and some whether it's relationship or just somebody talking about you

04:01:25.100 you can respond but you've just put all your audience's attention on something that maybe many

04:01:31.740 of them wouldn't even hear about or wouldn't care about so it's a two-edged sword yeah you can resort to

04:01:37.180 like uh you can resort to a sort of rebuttal of uh reputation destruction but honestly it really

04:01:47.820 doesn't help you that much and i think the other thing here is oh shoot i'm trying to think what the

04:01:52.860 other thing was related to uh are you like touching on cancel culture no not really uh when it comes to

04:02:00.060 oh there's something else when it comes to reputation destruction um oh related to his original

04:02:07.660 point what recourse do men have against malignant women and i think the thing the interesting thing

04:02:14.060 andrew in society society has broadly recognized that the method by which men uh activate aggression

04:02:25.260 through typically physical violence that has been legislated against thoroughly for hundreds of

04:02:30.620 years but there's actually no mechanism to police the ways in which women display their aggression 1.00

04:02:39.500 there's really nothing there's not even really much civil remedies there's no criminal remedies except

04:02:45.100 for very severe cases where there's been like they make a false criminal complaint and it's provable that

04:02:51.340 she's lying you know you can get them with this uh even even many times when they do like a false police

04:02:58.620 report the district attorney opts not to really prosecute it they get off with probation or something

04:03:05.020 you know slap on the wrist um and then there's really nothing in in modern society that has any sort of

04:03:13.340 enforcement mechanism when it comes to female aggression in the realm of reputation destruction 0.99

04:03:19.260 and this sort of thing so i think that's interesting well there used to be there used to be just so you

04:03:24.540 know there used to be defamation laws and uh defamation laws were actually enforced readily and let me

04:03:31.500 give you an example of a of a defamation law which um which was pretty common uh when the country was founded

04:03:39.340 if you talk about a man you would uh end up sword fighting with him in the morning and one of you could die

04:03:45.180 or you would go out with a duel with a pistol and blow each other's brains out perhaps uh as part of a

04:03:51.660 legal remedy for uh having your honor in some way besmirched or your wife's honor in some way besmirched

04:03:59.580 there's many famous cases of this happening however uh there was legal remedies against women who did this 0.84

04:04:07.100 as well and here's what the legal remedy was you could challenge her husband to a duel right and so that

04:04:14.780 was a great remedy because that would take care of her security so she had to be very cautious about

04:04:19.740 who she was running her mouth about because then that the other guy decided to besmirch her honor

04:04:26.780 her husband was obligated then to duel with him or become honorless so that was a great way to keep

04:04:33.580 that in check right oh well you're gonna be homeless and penniless without your husband's fortune

04:04:39.020 uh because i shot him because he he dishonored me right that was uh that was a significantly

04:04:45.980 good way to keep some of that in check but unfortunately that's gone like if you brought

04:04:50.060 dueling back in modernity 90 percent of society would correct itself in weeks

04:04:57.740 bring dueling back bring it back i agree there we go bring dueling what does it um but somebody can 0.98

04:05:05.420 like turn down the duel i'm pretty sure but then you look like a bitch and they're labeled a coward 1.00

04:05:10.620 yeah right the whole point of honor was that uh you didn't the reason people didn't run their mouth 0.99

04:05:16.060 is because either you showed up to the duel or you're labeled a coward who turned down a duel

04:05:21.260 right so every time the other person saw you regardless of what you said you'd just be like

04:05:25.100 well you're a coward so who cares and that's the end of that right but if a if a person's woman wouldn't 1.00

04:05:31.100 uh so that i mean this is actually so common the honor culture uh came back over to the turn of 0.97

04:05:36.860 the 20th century that's why when you watch black and white movies where men will look over and say

04:05:41.020 hey quiet that woman down if she's like running her mouth sometimes the husband would turn and smack 1.00

04:05:46.620 her right and the point of that was it was part of uh the honor culture of saying look you're about

04:05:52.220 to get me in hot water here right so there was a corrective lens or a corrective action which used

04:05:58.300 to be able to be taken so can i ask the panel a question sure okay so like going around i guess

04:06:05.660 starting here if if you hit a man like you full on as hard as you can close fists punch a man in

04:06:12.620 the jaw or the eye or whatever you might do do you think that he should be allowed to hit you back

04:06:18.860 or are you expecting to get hit back you've chosen to hit like a man can he hit you back or should he

04:06:23.820 hit you back depends on who hunted p you hit first oh i hit first 0.68

04:06:30.380 yeah just don't like beat me beat me up no no you hit him as hard as you hit him as hard as you can 0.98

04:06:35.500 now he gets to hit you as hard as you can should oh as hard as he can yeah you hit him with full

04:06:39.820 force close fists can he use that same degree of force on you that's a good question this is why you

04:06:47.980 don't hit a man i agree as a woman let's get the answers though let's get the answers first can we

04:06:53.020 come back to me okay what do you uh well before we get you what do you think um of course should be

04:07:00.620 expected but after before even i hit i tried to also like my anxiety whatever they

04:07:11.420 like that that gage is really the gagey like the gage is too much so

04:07:23.020 so anyway i should expectation and yeah so yes yes okay okay yo elder thank you for the membership um

04:07:33.900 um what do you think um i think that men should not hit women yeah yeah even if a girl hits you as

04:07:41.740 hard as they can so even in the situation she presented the woman hits him first 0.87

04:07:51.260 do you think i mean but if the guy did would you think that that was wrong if a guy hit the girl after

04:07:57.660 she had hit him the hardest that she could yes i think it's wrong for him for the guy to hit her what

04:08:03.340 about is it wrong for the girl i think uh is it wrong for the girl to hit the guy okay is it wait

04:08:08.300 is that yeah is it wrong is that wrong is it no i don't think so you don't think it's wrong for a

04:08:12.780 woman to hit a man i mean depends it's just like one time like she was mad she hit him and it's like 1.00

04:08:17.900 the hardest she could right well that's quite the concession um yeah or a concession yeah i think 0.67

04:08:23.260 you said it right yeah i think i conceded there yeah so he's expected to can no go ahead he's

04:08:30.860 expected to control his rage and his emotions and his like but the woman she just got mad hit 1.00

04:08:35.900 okay if you think about it right like i think that's one of the questions on the questionnaire

04:08:39.420 like are men physically stronger than women and i and sometimes i'm like yeah men are like built

04:08:44.060 physically to be stronger than girls that's why we have different olympics men and women cannot

04:08:47.820 compete in the same olympic team wait have you ever hit somebody have i hit somebody yeah i have

04:08:52.460 like a guy yeah uh and did he hit you first no have you hit a guy multiple times no so you hit a guy

04:08:58.700 like you won't tell us the story what happened uh we just fought about something and i was just like

04:09:03.500 so frustrated like i think she said i was like oh and i was just like slapped him and then how hard

04:09:08.940 did you slap him i i think the hardest i could yeah and that was the only time you put hands on

04:09:13.340 a guy or have you done it before no that was the first time and last time in my life did he smack you

04:09:17.580 back did he hit me back no he just like left he just left the apartment and i didn't see him the

04:09:22.540 whole night what did he do oh um i honestly don't remember what he fought about what we fought about we

04:09:28.300 talked about it again was it cheating or no no no no never what he just didn't take out the trash

04:09:33.900 or something it was like something like it was something i forgot she's like a 1950s wife beater 1.00

04:09:39.260 you fucking you overcooked my fucking uh roast beat wait what what was like a common what uh 0.99

04:09:47.420 uh my iris possible you overcooked the pot roast oh no yeah i was like very petty and no no but no the 1.00

04:09:56.780 fight was very serious it was about something but i don't remember i think it was about weed i

04:10:00.460 told him to stop smoking yes i'll tell you it was about weed yeah did you guys stay together yeah we

04:10:06.060 lived together at the time yeah oh domestic violence it was domestic my favorite oh we were in college

04:10:12.380 oh wow yeah that's a that's a position of privilege right so the same thing with when when chair one

04:10:19.500 has to think about this right she goes hmm this is uh this is a tough question uh there's actually a

04:10:25.180 position of privilege that women have that uh um i don't really understand why they have it because 1.00

04:10:31.420 if you want equality and egalitarian i just oh sorry sorry yeah if you want equality and egalitarianism

04:10:37.100 the idea here is going to be based around the fact that chivalry is gone we are now equals chivalry

04:10:43.580 would always put women in a position where they needed to be a protected class and in exchange for that 1.00

04:10:49.020 men men got virtues right like chased virgins and things like this they don't get that anymore so

04:10:54.780 they don't really need to give out chivalry if a man hits you in the face and you can punch them back

04:11:00.780 why is it if a woman punches you in the face you can't punch her back that actually doesn't make any 0.53

04:11:05.020 sense wait can i add something can i say something yeah because that's exactly why just you just missed my

04:11:11.580 whole point then if you weren't if you're saying that you don't understand it what i'm saying is that

04:11:15.580 men are physically stronger than women like for example like physically stronger than other men

04:11:20.620 so if a man who is less strong than me punches me in the face and i punch him back in the face as

04:11:25.660 hard as i can um i'm still punching somebody weaker than me in the face why is that socially acceptable

04:11:33.500 hang on hang on but not socially acceptable to punch a woman who's weaker that makes no sense

04:11:37.900 no cousin like that guy who's weaker than you that you mentioned is because like maybe he chose to be

04:11:42.460 weak he could like bulk up and get stronger right but the strongest he's not stronger then he's not

04:11:47.740 stronger when i punched him and that's still socially acceptable like for instance if a man who's only as

04:11:52.940 strong as you punches me in the face it is completely socially acceptable even by you for me to punch him

04:12:00.140 back why is it not socially acceptable to punch you back though that makes no sense if you think about

04:12:06.780 it in the olympics like i said like why don't women and men compete together like it just we just don't

04:12:11.500 it's like there's different standards and levels like even when you play golf there's like a lady 1.00

04:12:15.180 team yeah well where are the female boxers trying to punch the male boxers then what if it's a male 1.00

04:12:20.540 boxer female boxer yeah you saw a punch male boxers if and if they do punch a male boxer then male 1.00

04:12:26.940 boxer has right to punch them back right why don't they have mma with between women and men they don't 1.00

04:12:31.740 showcase because they don't want to get hit by men therefore they don't want to hit men men are in a

04:12:38.620 different weight class if you go if you go let's go to an mma fight the woman's conceivably going to 1.00

04:12:44.460 be punching you in the face right and you're going to be punching her in the face so the way that they 0.85

04:12:48.940 avoid the man punching her in the face is to not have that fight just like a way for women to avoid 1.00

04:12:53.820 getting punched in the face is by not punching men in the face right pretty simple if you walk outside

04:13:00.380 right now and there was a tiger outside and you threw like a rock at it what would you expect would

04:13:06.060 happen if there was a tiger outside right outside right now and you threw a rock right at the tiger

04:13:11.180 what do you think it would probably like chase me no so why would you throw the rock i don't know

04:13:16.940 to aggravate i don't know i don't know i just throw this wrong you're telling me to aggravate the tiger

04:13:25.340 you you teach seventh grade right i taught seventh grade yes hot seventh grade okay isn't it the case

04:13:31.260 that between about fifth sixth and seventh grade often the girls are much stronger than the boys

04:13:36.540 because they go through puberty first um i think that the girls are i know i've never seen girls 1.00

04:13:44.060 stronger than the boys like they were skinny a lot of the girls were skinny and smaller yeah sure sure 0.96

04:13:48.860 but it is often the case women reach puberty before men do and so in many cases they they're stronger 0.79

04:13:54.860 than men are okay i can see that actually yeah there's so in those so in those cases wouldn't

04:13:59.980 you have to say that if those girls punch those boys or if the boys punch those girls the girls

04:14:05.740 shouldn't hit them back oh actually i think that it's like different because then like i was thinking

04:14:09.820 about it as like we're all adults and then they're hitting each other but it's like they're kids i feel

04:14:13.980 like it's fair game like the guy and the girl and like the little boys and little girls they can fight

04:14:18.060 each other they're like the same level yeah i think that it's like i've seen girls beat up guys i've seen

04:14:22.700 guys beat up girls like not guys sorry like little boys like in seventh grade let's get the answers

04:14:26.700 from the rest of the panel for your question what about you um i think if a girl wants to hit first 0.94

04:14:32.620 then you've opened it up for a guy to respond sorry what's the question if you hit a man full force

04:14:40.780 haul off and punch him in the jaw or the face or whatever as hard as you can should he be able to hit

04:14:45.020 you back yes yes i don't think i should be surprised because that would be self-defense everyone 0.99

04:14:52.460 should have self-control when it comes to anger and everything else i think uh i guess really quick

04:14:58.460 on this uh i think a guy would be within his right to do it as a woman if you hit a guy i don't think 0.71

04:15:05.740 you should be surprised but i would also have to advocate proactively pragmatically speaking as a man

04:15:13.260 uh even in like a self-defense situation you got to just extract yourself from the situation

04:15:18.860 practically speaking because even if you're 100 she hits you first maybe you're 100 in the right

04:15:25.340 whether it's well i was going to say legally or at least from a societal view you can even if she's 0.99

04:15:33.260 the initiator as the man you still put yourself at like significant peril when it comes to the criminal

04:15:39.980 justice system if you strike a woman so you just look it's unfair but that's how it is you got to remove 1.00

04:15:46.700 yourself from the situation if you can that's why when i say i don't think men should hit women even

04:15:52.060 they shouldn't hit women in that situation you got to remove yourself from that situation and it has

04:15:57.020 to be done with that girl once a girl ever puts hands on you it's over it has to be done

04:16:03.180 so but as a woman you should not be like if you hit a man don't be surprised nobody should hit anybody

04:16:11.740 but don't be surprised if you get a smack back also gentlemen if it's in public you definitely

04:16:19.020 should not smack back because a bunch of white knight simps will intervene on her behalf even if 1.00

04:16:23.980 they see her smack you first you gotta you gotta be cautious about the the surrounding environments

04:16:31.420 and you're gonna put yourself not just in legal peril in legal jeopardy but also they're gonna 0.98

04:16:36.620 fuck you up the other men are gonna fuck you up if they see you smack a girl even if it's well if 0.98

04:16:41.660 it's in return even if it's in return the city will come after you and they'll press charges on you 1.00

04:16:46.940 yeah so um did you have something else on this i do want to try to get things moving on though

04:16:52.940 i mean i i don't think they should but i think if you're gonna hit like a man i think that you should

04:16:56.300 be expecting to get hit back and i was just gonna tell a funny story it's like quick i know one time at

04:17:02.060 band camp no i know i know a guy who was getting hit like literally beat by his girlfriend like

04:17:07.500 bloody face and he's like stop hitting me stop hitting me stop and he ends up calling the cops

04:17:12.380 on her this woman was crazy she takes her head bashes it into like a granite countertop now she's 1.00

04:17:18.620 all bloody she's like what are you gonna tell him i'm gonna tell him you hit me first like women are 1.00

04:17:22.860 many such cases many such cases that was my situation really quick guys uh reed is 100 tts is 0.96

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04:18:05.820 w's in the chat for big david thank you put a bunch of champagne emojis in the chat for him 0.86

04:18:10.620 excuse me um oh fuck am i crazy here brian i feel like the gas the chat's gaslighting me but 0.91

04:18:22.460 in in like elementary school or something like isn't there this tiny window where the girls are 1.00

04:18:28.380 taller taller yeah this type of thing and then i think like come back yeah you know what i mean and

04:18:33.420 then you come back two summers later or whatever the boys are all way bigger and stronger and this

04:18:38.220 kind of thing i'm pretty sure that i'm correct about that i think it's a little bit younger yeah

04:18:42.860 like fifth sixth grade fourth fifth six yeah blackbird that might be the case yo guys w's in the chat over

04:18:49.100 there on twitch for blackbird gifted 100 subs oh my god it is on fire over there on twitch yo blackbird 0.81

04:18:57.180 excuse me choked on some water there uh you're fucking legend dude guys yo can we vip him let's let 0.99

04:19:03.420 me give him a vip that's that's a legend uh it's rwb can mods do vip or dude i don't know okay vip r w 0.96

04:19:13.820 black blackbird oh my god i can't type right now did i v blackbird type in the chat uh yo barry

04:19:21.820 gooseman thank for the gifted five subs also on twitch you're a legend blackbird type in the chats

04:19:28.300 on twitch so i can tell if uh if i got you the vip uh sorry guys one sec can i ask a question there it

04:19:38.540 is i think i got them vip thank you man yeah what's up what what did these subs do for you

04:19:44.060 uh what do the subs do for me like they're just my slaves they worship him

04:19:47.980 are they your submissives no a sub a sub is just it on twitch uh if you have a sub a twitch sub it's

04:19:57.660 like five or six dollars a month you can watch ad free there's a couple other perks you get a little

04:20:02.380 badge or something like that um it's just a way to support the person but how does one person give

04:20:07.900 you a hundred oh so other people can gift it out to the community so you can buy one for yourself or you

04:20:15.980 can buy one for other people so he get he bought a hundred of them so that's like what are the twitch

04:20:23.820 how much are oh my god he's on fire i think he's done it again this oh my goodness wait hold on

04:20:31.900 oh my god he is on fire yo guys w's in chat for blackbird wait is it wait did he wait did he do it again

04:20:41.020 yes wait how can you tell it twice oh what the heck okay so is that the equivalent of just like

04:20:50.140 five hundred dollars then i think so oh look at the tiger or whatever that was set up for somebody

04:20:57.420 specific uh black i'll do maybe i'll do a custom blackbird one you're you're a legend man guys w's in

04:21:03.500 the chat man this guy are you an oiler what what's that called for the gamers like the guys who

04:21:10.220 oh like the whalers whaler like he's from one of the oil states right in the middle east maybe

04:21:17.900 right is it i don't know dude guys w's in chat that's not why they call them oilers right they call

04:21:23.420 them oilers because they're whales yeah because you get oil from whales right isn't that oh isn't

04:21:29.500 that why they call them oilers yeah not because they're rich in oil but because they're you're

04:21:35.100 making a reference to whales like yeah i love that yeah well blackbird thank you so much man your

04:21:41.980 patronage is uh i think that's like he gifted 200 so that is it chat is it five dollars for twitch or

04:21:49.180 six or seven i don't know they bumped it or something uh he's a soddy oil prince uh yeah thank you so much

04:21:57.980 man yeah i think that's a thousand dollars what a giga chat what a giga chat what oh my god what a 0.91

04:22:04.620 fucking legend boys hold on i got it i'm gonna play it only counts if he does it twice there you go 0.98

04:22:09.500 well he did do it twice it only counts if he does three times there you go he's a brave and a decent 0.98

04:22:14.540 man he's a pioneer there you go thank you man oh well i gotta end that and then wait what else was

04:22:20.460 i gonna play for him is there something else i can play for him i don't know uh here i'll just

04:22:25.900 thank you man appreciate it okay let's get into the

04:22:33.580 what what oh my god he's wow oh my god this man is on fire oh my god oh my goodness

04:22:43.740 oh my god he's on fire i can't even see if anybody's sent in oh no it's there we go okay 1.00

04:22:52.620 that's cool yo blackbird you're crazy you're crazy you're wild you're insane 0.99

04:23:00.620 you're not you're not insane oh he gifted he also gifted one 0.99

04:23:04.300 he also gifted thank you thank you thank you for the three hundred and one oh three hundred speaking

04:23:09.500 of it only counts if he does

04:23:10.700 yo bang thank you for the prime for four months thank you dude gritty bang uh i'll shout oh ogle oh

04:23:21.980 my god these guys are on foot pull it up 50 gifted on youtube gifted memberships oh my god ogle you're

04:23:29.740 on fire this guy's a legend sandwich chef thank you for the membership uh and then we have starbridge

04:23:37.500 gifted three subs twitch.tv slash whatever thank you so much man thank you star you're a legend uh

04:23:43.580 blackbird really appreciate it man um let me hook you up if you want uh send me a message on instagram

04:23:50.380 at whatever or you could send a message on the twitch i'll get you like a i don't know if you're

04:23:56.220 on discord i'll get you like a complimentary uh legendary i'll do complimentary legendary role

04:24:03.260 for you because that's a quite a substantial amount of patronage man so thank you so much

04:24:07.100 they say tier one sub is five so okay it's five it's five per sub i thought they raised the price

04:24:12.300 on the subs i don't know i thought they were going to raise it whatever okay uh let's get back into the 0.70

04:24:18.060 show thank you so much um thank you so much uh blackbird you're a fucking legend all right let's get into the uh 0.95

04:24:26.700 questionnaire questionnaire here brinda actually no hold on this is for oh she's gone damn okay uh 0.87

04:24:35.100 here we're just gonna start i have to wait until she's back uh you know what here we'll go into some

04:24:42.220 of the pre-show notes then uh brinda no we did all of brinda's notes do we have a sophia here that was

04:24:49.260 one of the no shows and angela do we have an angela no those are the flakes uh let's see patrice

04:24:56.620 oh no that's she's gone hold on i think it's just patrice we did all of ivy we did all of brinda

04:25:03.660 we did callie uh let's see uh you want to talk about what is real love because hard to find real

04:25:13.580 love what you're dating a jamaixican jamae jamae ukian jamae uk okay yeah real love real love

04:25:25.660 do you feel guilty for saying that you're single while knowing you're in like a well i think i said

04:25:32.140 the singer because we never decided to get into the relationship okay since today let's do one

04:25:39.580 on one it's kind of relationship right like but hold on wait wait for it uh-oh uh-oh sorry sorry sorry

04:25:51.420 ogle ogle ogle good sir hold on we have a champagne pop here so

04:25:57.900 pop champagne whoever enjoyed the champagne um also i don't know why it's not triggering

04:26:12.380 yo ogle guys w's in the chat for ogle he's a he's a legend and then i don't know why these aren't

04:26:19.180 oh get me

04:26:22.540 get me the yeah that's fine period wow

04:26:27.900 i'm so happy right now my my youtube memberships were disabled

04:26:33.740 yo kat thank you for the gifted 50 memberships guys w's in the chat for cat she's a homie

04:26:38.060 and then ogle thank you again for the gifted 50. uh cat is a legendary member over there

04:26:46.140 in the discord uh yeah we'll do we'll get cups going uh i feel like i

04:26:55.260 hold on somebody want to like ask a dating question while i'm dealing with the the champagne

04:26:59.900 the champagne i'm doing with the champagne i'm doing it i'm doing it and i'm doing it

04:27:04.540 i'm doing it and i'm doing it and i'm doing it and i'm doing it and i'm doing it and i'm doing it

04:27:06.460 oh god no no i i need a translator um what is love yeah oh no i said the singer but like you know

04:27:16.860 i like him more than friends so um that looks dangerous but unless here they pop 0.90

04:27:25.100 i can open it oh what the fuck oh really yeah i took a wine glass oh but this is champagne there 0.97

04:27:32.540 we go i feel like it's gonna spill three two one oh really oh 0.98

04:27:42.620 it wasn't quite a pop oh i got it at least i got it off right chat all right

04:27:48.860 uh here just pass just pass him uh wait everybody wait hold on alina you already failed um

04:28:01.820 you're not a baby oh everybody's over 21 besides alina right you are not 21. she's 20. yes she's a

04:28:10.060 vampire why are you guys why would hold on i'm no the alcohol the why are you the bottle is here

04:28:21.980 why are you passing empty cops down i'm sorry give it to him or the cops yeah why would you okay sorry

04:28:30.780 i'm ocd here pass the out brian you're perfect pass the champ here pass it down pass it down pass it

04:28:41.180 she you cannot pass an empty cup oh my god i'm sorry i'm losing my mind who does anybody not want

04:28:47.660 champagne patrice me want

04:28:52.380 does anybody not want champagne who don't want thank you i did you you want champagne

04:28:57.020 can you teach them how to pass cups like they're seventh graders real quick

04:29:03.020 i don't think seventh graders could pass cups that well either what they're pretty it's pretty

04:29:08.700 rough after covet they lost two years of learning yeah so they didn't have a lot of good skills like

04:29:14.380 motor skills some of them didn't have motor skills

04:29:16.460 you're welcome very sweet we don't have motor skills

04:29:25.740 all right uh there it is so

04:29:31.020 uh cheers to ogle

04:29:34.300 thank you ogle appreciate it um okay yummy thanks let me just get caught up here on a couple

04:29:48.780 things and then we'll get into some of the stuff oh man ogle you're a legend thank you so much man

04:29:54.140 thank you thank you good good talk good talk okay where were we oh here we go um let's get into the

04:30:03.900 questionnaire uh brenda actually wait no this is first going to patrice and cali the statement is

04:30:13.580 are men insecure for caring about a woman's body count you both say yes no i oh i was confused earlier

04:30:20.220 like that was the first yeah no they're not insecure okay so it's just uh cali you think men

04:30:24.620 are insecure if they care about the woman's body count of course they um i mean like most guys i don't

04:30:31.900 know kind of like when i see so many um guys in la or random on tiktok social media they talking about

04:30:41.900 the guys care the body body count especially for um especially for um especially for yeah yeah they

04:30:51.580 do be honest they do they do what they care the body count they're insecure oh they're insecure for

04:30:59.180 that and uh so you think it's like what why are they insecure uh of course you know like some type of

04:31:10.780 men love to have a woman like trophy or something like you know oh this is my girl like okay look like

04:31:22.460 i'm a relationship with this girl or before that he wanna he wanna show you one day to his friends family

04:31:31.100 i think yeah who like who dated with over 50 or more like a lot of people like share the like

04:31:50.860 something body count means like having sex so um even we don't like no body count is not i mean like

04:32:00.860 even like in relationship so how many how many relationship you have and then if more count and

04:32:08.140 then you feel possible to insecure possibilities are lower so how does it make him insecure oh like oh you

04:32:16.620 still talk with the ex and then like kind of like when i have that highest body count like they assume

04:32:26.620 like um they try to judge you know i think definitely judge but is it wrong to judge somebody that you're

04:32:35.100 looking to be in a relationship with wouldn't it be the correct thing to do to judge their past i'm saying

04:32:40.780 is like just not generally just some type of insecure man and even i have that experience or so

04:32:50.540 so yes i said yes so you think that men shouldn't care how many bodies a woman has i hope not i hope

04:32:58.780 not but they insecure for the body count uh who here cares about body count 0.99

04:33:04.620 um um you know what no yeah like on a girl or a guy like on a guy on a guy yeah yeah on a guy

04:33:15.580 all right uh what what is uh what's your body count my body count let's see i'm 33 and i would say

04:33:25.580 say i got a lot of body count since i moved to la once i moved to la i would not say

04:33:40.540 i'm not good at math but i let's say we can arrange yeah let's say 30. okay let's let's wait let's say

04:33:55.580 i can't i'm not good at math yeah i'm not good at math baby so 30 30. what if you're does uh

04:34:08.380 what's the number in korean oh two oh it's korean is in my laptop two wait what two for my

04:34:17.100 every sex work no no they want to say the number in korean like the real number

04:34:22.140 what is like oh before i move by here yeah in the korean language oh korea ah

04:34:27.180 samshimmyung samshimmyung samshimmyung samshimmyung no she just said 30. she just said 30 in korean

04:34:32.540 oh yeah something something wrong no oh sounds like a something wrong

04:34:39.740 all right um okay i guess going around the table we'll go around brenzo

04:34:43.500 what's your body count so it's it's in the high single digits so nine and i maybe like seven eight

04:34:54.620 nine maybe seven eight nine liar uh what about you can you guess nope

04:35:02.860 uh all long-term relationships but four okay ivy that's a tough question

04:35:12.780 yeah i remember i was a teacher there are kids and i might watch this i will pass on this

04:35:18.220 i don't think they watch i don't know they're not up until 11 and a half yeah they're not watching

04:35:22.860 nobody watches the show nobody watches the show like it's it gets pretty bad views

04:35:28.700 uh it does it does i mean it's really we're on the and we we're only going down

04:35:34.220 you're good okay uh seven okay two one seven oh elena two hey come back here

04:35:46.380 did you say you said it last show right what did you say last show

04:35:51.980 i think i need a range under 30 under under 30. multiply it by three and that's the real number

04:35:57.500 all right there he is okay for everybody for everybody i don't want to single out mary 0.92

04:36:02.140 i'm honest at least four okay uh i feel like a whore 0.92

04:36:11.500 so the next statement wrong for man to refuse to date a woman because she is overweight patrice 0.88

04:36:16.940 you said yes that is wrong no i was so confused by your yes no but at what point did you get this

04:36:23.580 figured out or is this all just i don't know honestly all right um that's probably why you

04:36:29.340 got dumped in oh gosh yes that was why your your poor reading comprehension uh he actually made me take

04:36:37.020 an iq test like before i was allowed to date him and a dna test i like that i'm gonna make all my

04:36:43.020 future prospect girls take iq tests he made me get an ancestry genealogy test and also take an iq test a

04:36:49.180 a paid one and a free one that's impressive okay who is this guy i'm doing that ship from

04:36:54.860 i'm stealing what what was the point of the of the ancestry test he only wants like i mean he's not

04:37:01.180 wrong for this he wants children that looks like that look like him so he was looking for somebody 0.87

04:37:04.780 who's kind of the same mix as he is so english irish uh so that was the point of that and then

04:37:11.660 kids inherit iq is and is inherited through genes and he was objectively high q high iq so he would

04:37:17.580 only have children with somebody who was also high iq otherwise you're dulling down your your gene pool

04:37:22.860 like it's the same thing if you're six five and you date a girl who's five foot one 0.76

04:37:27.260 your kids probably aren't going to be six five anyways i got to move this on but um the statement

04:37:31.740 is wrong for a man to refuse to date a woman because she is overweight uh stephanie can you clarify what's

04:37:38.780 it's not wrong oh no okay because both remarks okay uh let's see here brinda do men put in more 0.53

04:37:45.740 effort oh it depends more effort when it comes oh should men pay on the first date you say no

04:37:51.660 patrice you say yes callie you say yes yes ivy equal bailey stephanie you say yes uh mary didn't

04:38:03.420 respond to that one alina says yes should men pay on the first date yeah just show of hands who's yes on

04:38:09.500 that one okay uh it depends on who who asked who out you know like if a girl's asking a guy out like

04:38:17.660 you're the one taking him out and if he offers to pay then sure like yeah except women don't ask men 1.00

04:38:22.220 out i just did i wanted a guy and i wanted to ask him out so i asked him out and took him out

04:38:27.100 yeah so i don't dispute that women occasionally perhaps even rarely ask men out uh but if i were to

04:38:35.340 ask you of all the dates you've been on did you ask them out or did they ask you out i'd probably

04:38:41.740 wager that they asked you out more frequently and i think this would be the case for almost all women

04:38:46.140 um so the whole whoever i should pay thing is kind of that would be a fair statement if women asked men

04:38:53.420 out it was 50 50. yeah i get it it's it's i mean look it is it is what it is but women just don't be 1.00

04:38:58.300 asking men out like that but um i do have one question on the who should pay thing um

04:39:04.700 hmm well it's not really super related to this but um just show again who who said yes

04:39:13.500 boom boom boom boom boom boom will you take your husband's last name absolutely i would take my

04:39:18.940 non-husband's last name you put a ring on my finger i like i'm okay what about you huh

04:39:24.300 full you literally just rose your hand full would you take your husband's last name oh yes are you 0.98

04:39:31.740 wait wait let me try something are you a fascist raise your hand 0.94

04:39:39.020 forgive me champagne effect 0.96

04:39:40.620 wait wait wait wait let me try something should north korea annex south korea raise your hand

04:39:54.620 okay um will you take your husband's last name i would but i want to keep my last name

04:40:03.260 wait what like you would yeah i would keep my last name okay all right what about you um i would like

04:40:09.980 to do the hyphen thing too because i have a very cool last name right so okay uh who else will you

04:40:16.620 take i would take it yeah yeah i would it's all i want yes how about this just those of you who are

04:40:22.540 like pretty uh positive about that what if the his last name's bad but he still wants you to take his

04:40:27.980 last name you still take it absolutely i already have a bad last name okay he already has a bad last

04:40:32.300 name so i'll take it beautiful beautiful so wait going to you two you won't take your husband's last 0.94

04:40:37.500 name hi oh are you but you guys i mean do you could ivy do you consider yourself more traditional

04:40:42.620 uh am i traditional no i'm not that traditional you're a modern woman okay cali my career yeah

04:40:49.180 chong my korean family name is chong yeah chong so i want to put the chong chong i want to keep 1.00

04:40:57.020 the chong oh chong chong chong yes chong okay uh that's cool um don't you think it's fair i mean 1.00

04:41:08.940 like so how would if a guy you were on a date with and he takes you to dinner i don't know it's a

04:41:16.380 hundred dollar dinner and then the waiter comes anything else he's like no that's it two checks

04:41:20.460 please oh would there be a second date no nope yeah no no well here's the funny thing about what

04:41:27.740 you guys just said if i was dating a girl and i was wanting to marry her why oh hold on just okay for

04:41:33.980 the sake of it if i wanted to marry her and she was like well i want to hyphenate our last names i'd be

04:41:39.420 like uh goodbye um can i ask you guys ever at least offer to pay for half the bill always okay first date i

04:41:49.900 always offer to pay but then if if he was like okay cool and then you guys just wouldn't talk we

04:41:54.780 got in a fight of who could pay i i wanted to pay on our first date so badly and he refused but going

04:42:02.700 look going back to my point here why do y'all want to keep all the traditions that benefit you guys

04:42:10.300 man takes initiative man takes the lead man has to ask you out man has to move things forward physically

04:42:15.100 etc etc etc man pays for the date man protects you man provides

04:42:20.860 but you won't take his last name what i didn't say that we said we want hyphen yeah that's not

04:42:27.340 taking his last name but then like see for example like some times if you combine my name

04:42:32.140 with someone else's name it sounds cute don't care what what i don't care if his name is the

04:42:37.180 worst i don't care if his last name is hitler you're taking his hold on wait hold on

04:42:42.140 i don't know about oh yeah that was never mind okay uh let me just get out of the 0.86

04:42:49.980 fucking oh no um okay let me walk that one back um but anyways look if his name is really bad i 0.87

04:42:58.220 don't know it's like corn buggy corn dongle you take his last name yep but so what about your kids 0.98

04:43:06.780 though do they get his last name or you hyphenate the kids names too hyphenate hyphenate hyphenate the

04:43:12.300 kids or you you know what that's fine but you gotta deal with a guy who's gonna go 50 50 you gotta

04:43:19.980 you gotta take initiative you gotta lean in for the first kiss i don't know is it an asian thing but

04:43:26.460 most asian moms don't take the husband's last name i mean l l for asian guys i guess i don't know yeah

04:43:33.580 like my parents my mom has like a separate last name from my dad my grandma as well my aunts and

04:43:38.780 uncles like i don't it's not common in my culture wait so in in um you're vietnamese right vietnamese

04:43:46.060 chinese yeah yeah but you're american so who cares okay i guess i don't know i don't know am i american

04:43:53.740 i don't know well i mean you i mean people on this chat say i'm not american but i mean you have american

04:43:59.580 citizenship i have american citizenship yes but i would say like if words come to shove like maybe

04:44:04.540 people in asia would accept me a lot more than american people so it's like is home where like

04:44:09.180 you know you were born or is it where you make it right is my country where i was born or is it where

04:44:14.220 i can make it to yeah like i don't specifically know the culture in china or in vietnam i think it's i

04:44:22.060 don't know if it's a vietnamese thing or chinese thing but i don't know in my like a lot of my friends

04:44:27.180 in asia like yeah i think it's some some east asian like it's like you don't always have to take

04:44:31.580 the guy's last name and it's always it's like totally fine so it's so funny when like my friends

04:44:35.660 are like oh my god happy birthday to like miss chi and i was like oh it's miss chung because like

04:44:40.540 her last name is chung wait so i just i mean look i'm i google this when it comes to chinese names

04:44:45.260 it says traditionally patrilineal so children usually take their father's last name oh okay but hold

04:44:51.580 on however women do not legally change their names after marriage but the children take

04:44:56.620 the father's last name okay and then uh do they take the last name in vietnam uh in most cases

04:45:05.420 fathers pass their last names to their children and when couples marry women typically don't take 1.00

04:45:11.100 their husband's last name okay yeah but the children take the father's yeah i have my dad's last name

04:45:16.220 yeah so are you fine with your kids having the father's last name i guess so i didn't know that

04:45:22.620 was actually that's like the first time i never actually researched it but it's like the typical

04:45:26.860 i'm like okay i don't want to make it difficult so i guess they can just take their dad's last name

04:45:31.820 okay yeah brian i have a question for you so i know that you're not on the premise of like legal

04:45:36.620 marriage and legally doing all that you i've seen your other some of your other stuff would the woman 0.96

04:45:42.300 that you chose to be with long term and the mother of your children would you still

04:45:45.260 want her to take your last name obviously you'd want the kids to but would you want her to it is 1.00

04:45:51.100 sort of a convention of marriage the children would take my last name as far as the the woman

04:45:58.060 uh if we weren't married like would you want her to change her facebook name and her instagram 1.00

04:46:02.540 name or and all of that her credit cards would you want her to go by whatever then your last name

04:46:07.900 but you're not marrying her that's a good question i actually i don't i'm not sure

04:46:11.980 her the kids 100 yeah take the last name i don't know if i would honestly

04:46:20.060 it would be better if she did take it i don't know how much i would care would you still put a

04:46:26.220 ring on her finger and like never marry her like long-term forever engagement type thing like does 0.99

04:46:30.700 she still get the ring even if you're not getting legally married no ring but she has to ruin her body 1.00

04:46:35.420 and push out kids like not that that that's an honor by the way like i think that that's the best

04:46:38.940 thing a woman can do with her life is to have children but yeah but she like she has yeah i 1.00

04:46:43.980 work i work to provide i ruin my body too but she doesn't even get the ring or anything that says

04:46:48.940 like just to be clear i know you're laughing over there but like for the vast majority of human

04:46:53.100 history men were laborers and literally ruined their bodies much worse than women going through pregnancy 0.97

04:46:59.420 and honestly i can make the argument that like most a lot of work that both well men and women have

04:47:06.940 today involves like copious amounts of sitting which is actually absolutely terrible for your body

04:47:13.100 and so this idea that men through their work and labor don't like hurt their body yeah like and men die

04:47:21.180 much earlier because of all the additional stress that men have as compared to women so well yeah can i add

04:47:26.300 something to that then okay so i like how you mentioned that oh men labor and so they do hurt

04:47:30.860 their bodies but that's like physical like external stuff when women have kids their bodies like never 1.00

04:47:36.060 the same after that what do you mean like like uh like if i don't oh i'm not a gynecologist but i just

04:47:41.820 know that one of my doctor friends told me that you know he wanted to have kids with his wife and his

04:47:45.500 wife was like he was like how many kids you want the wife was like oh i can't have more than two it will 0.99

04:47:50.060 like physically ruin me what does that mean i don't know what that means it just means that like the more kids you

04:47:53.900 have the more risk you are at like your health declining and also like you know like uh death

04:48:00.860 at birth it's like i know like obviously technology is like more advanced now but there are still

04:48:05.420 mothers that will die in childbirth i mean but my understanding though is like the the greatest risk

04:48:11.740 of like death or like some sort of complication is going to come in the first or second but once a

04:48:18.300 woman's been pregnant once there's a like i'm pretty sure the if she's she went through the 1.00

04:48:23.580 pregnant the first one or two pregnancies fine the outlook for her subsequent pregnancies i don't think

04:48:30.700 it's it's worse the more kids you have in fact i think it would be an indicator okay you've been

04:48:35.740 through this before like i actually think you're probably better suited to continue having more kids

04:48:39.980 oh i think you should do some research about this because like actually that's why they kept

04:48:43.260 that women like surrogate women that make money off of getting pregnant they kept them at like eight 1.00

04:48:47.260 or something like if you have any more than eight kids like through surrogacy or like

04:48:51.580 giving birth to eight or more kids you might die well you should you could look this up i'm not denying

04:48:56.220 that there are health consequences to pregnancy uh it does take a toll on your body probably in terms

04:49:02.940 of if you're looking at the cortisol uh women are under uh more uh chemical stress during pregnancy

04:49:09.260 it's a stressful process uh so that certainly has an impact and there could be some degree of

04:49:13.820 accumulation that goes on but uh i mean i think you could say this about it i suppose the more times

04:49:20.300 you do anything you know there is in each instance there's going to be a chance of something bad

04:49:27.180 happening if you play russian roulette well i mean i it's i don't think that's a fair uh comparison

04:49:32.860 eventually you're gonna die but uh if you know if you you know the more times you get into a car it

04:49:40.380 probably statistically increases your chances eventually of getting into a car crash if you

04:49:44.860 only drive once or twice you know chances are low but if you drive a lot so but uh i'm not

04:49:54.220 anyways i don't know you're not sold on that like that idea well the original point the original point

04:49:59.740 was what i think the original point you're saying oh you were asking me no you were saying oh okay well

04:50:05.100 women ruin their bodies i'm not like ruin them but she's you know okay so you enter into this 1.00

04:50:11.180 agreement okay i'm gonna like let's just hypothetical scenario you and i are dating i'm gonna submit to

04:50:15.740 you i'm gonna listen to you i'm not gonna talk back to you i'm gonna cook i'm gonna clean i'm gonna

04:50:18.860 take care of the kids i'm gonna do everything i'm gonna make you very happy and you're not gonna marry

04:50:24.060 me i'm not taking your last name so i get provided like the providing and protecting and i get to have

04:50:29.500 i get the privilege of having your children or whatever agreement you don't get that much protection

04:50:33.580 because you get to take the bullet so my question was like i don't like i don't even get like the

04:50:40.860 ring like the symbol like like i'm his like he claimed me put a ring on it she's mine on it that's

04:50:46.780 it boom mine mine you're mine you're mine that's it how'd you feel about a caller what the excuse me

04:50:56.540 would you ever cheat on your like the mother of your children the one that you said that you're 1.00

04:51:00.060 going to be with forever would you step out no even if she was like old 1.00

04:51:06.300 they won that ring for home even if she was old no i would be old too i don't care period uh yeah 0.97

04:51:13.900 i don't know

04:51:18.540 what's complicated oh we have it here let me do some chats here uh

04:51:22.700 uh christopher murthy rather rather rather okay all right there it is boom all right we have boom

04:51:29.740 boom boom beautiful uh i'm just gonna move on to the next thing then uh you know what let's start from

04:51:35.740 down here uh do transgender individuals have a duty to disclose to romantic partners uh i think everybody

04:51:42.300 says oh no callie you said no on that um why is that oh can can you tell me the question again i will

04:51:55.260 yeah i get it but can you tell me the transgender thing that

04:51:58.940 i kind of don't want to i kind of don't want to let me read um so okay do transgender individuals 1.00

04:52:12.220 have a duty to disclose so does a transgender person should they tell the other person that 1.00

04:52:18.300 they're transgender you think no um well like ah i try to think about if the transgender is my friend 0.84

04:52:31.420 you know like but sometimes the transgender so beautiful like lady boy not lady boy but i'm like 0.99

04:52:39.580 they are more beautiful than seriously they are 10 10 i can tell yes but just to have a deep just

04:52:46.300 that's it so i'm just um well that's up to the partner even the transgender didn't mention about it

04:52:56.540 but later after the conversation in person then if the partner tripping about it that's not work but um

04:53:06.860 if it possible to understand that so i think i don't have to yeah you don't have to say that just

04:53:15.020 speak for me you're like oh me so horny me love you long time bro damien why did you play that

04:53:23.660 excuse me damien how could you oh my god oh wait really quick 0.94

04:53:32.140 dark omen 42 donated 200 if you have kids in your 20s your body snaps back much quicker and better

04:53:40.140 but feminism convinced you all you had to wait till your 30s and you recover more slowly and not as

04:53:45.820 well overall that's true oh just gotta start pumping out kids right away all right dark omen thank you

04:53:54.140 for the uh thank you for the uh stream labs message man really appreciate it uh okay i think i understand

04:54:02.940 your position um uh i have a question sure to you do you think that kind of takes away the choice that

04:54:18.860 people should have when choosing their partner like i have a preference a sexuality preference

04:54:25.420 to be straight so do you feel like you're robbing me of that well that that gets into our next

04:54:33.580 question which is is it straight for a man to date a transgender woman to which uh you wrote yes and

04:54:39.820 then ivy you also said yes uh so we agree oh well do you want to answer mary's question though oh

04:54:52.060 first of all i'm straight i love it i love man first of all just um i trust 0.92

04:55:02.220 i love to yeah i love dick you know what i'm saying but um i'm saying it's just 0.55

04:55:07.420 i'm saying it's just um try to literally represent them you know i'm not a transgender but i'm like

04:55:15.900 i try to understand them their life so um of course yeah just that's it like do you like girls at all

04:55:23.580 or just men just hell man okay okay so you're you go you're you're at a bar you out to a bar you're

04:55:30.620 talking to a guy you find a super pretty boy totally your type you guys are hitting it off really well 1.00

04:55:36.860 you go back to your room yeah pants come off it he i don't know has no vagina oh yeah how would you 1.00

04:55:45.580 feel well absolutely before go to before taking to my room i got attractive from him right from her 0.99

04:55:56.700 from the partner so that's why i took him her to my place after i did um

04:56:06.700 i'm straight but i'm gonna talk to her like baby

04:56:09.340 i don't know whoever but maybe i'm a straight but you know since i took her to my place i'm gonna

04:56:20.780 enjoy you know just the bug is just a bug you know i don't know maybe i'm open i'm not sure no

04:56:27.260 what of course i'm gonna feel it like how she's i know like oh i think i i think i know where you're

04:56:36.220 coming from i think i understand i think i understand yeah it's like you're um there's

04:56:40.700 like a type for it like you're um like a type of in like the rainbow where like you like someone for

04:56:45.100 the personality autism spectrum

04:56:48.860 you know the lgbtq plus community there's a things like you i think it's called demisexual pansexual

04:56:57.500 yes yes that's the one stop it wait so hold on time sexual but ivy you said it's straight for a 0.96

04:57:06.140 man to date a trans woman yes okay you think that's straight yes yeah i said so yeah why is that um

04:57:17.100 because i think that like now that trans woman or yeah like that person the uh that woman yeah that 1.00

04:57:24.220 woman now identifies a woman and she like got the surgery and so she has the female parts and so 1.00

04:57:29.900 i think that that's like straight if the guy like likes that woman then he likes her if they still 0.88

04:57:35.100 have a penis oh no but you said trans women so i'm assuming trans women no i think that transgender 0.97

04:57:40.940 people like i think they fully in my head i think that they fully went through with the surgery so you 0.99

04:57:46.060 don't think if they don't have the surgery that they're not trans or they're not women yeah like 0.99

04:57:50.540 like what if they dress up like a woman like the lady boys like they still have penis true those 0.99

04:57:55.820 lady are they women are they women or are they still men oh they're actually like physically 0.98

04:58:00.620 strong like men though and so i think they're ones that have had the gender reassignment surgery

04:58:05.500 they're biologically men they have the chromosomes of a male but then they can't reproduce they can't 0.99

04:58:11.260 have children well some women can't reproduce and have children do you do you think that uh 1.00

04:58:17.660 uh transgender women are they female uh transgender women are they female yes

04:58:25.100 but you do you understand the differentiation i'm making here between woman and female right

04:58:29.660 so woman would be gender uh female would be sex oh so do you think they're they've changed their sex 1.00

04:58:37.100 um what were you teaching these seventh graders i don't touch on this subject actually they would

04:58:43.100 go into a separate class to learn about this wait how old were they they were i taught um fifth

04:58:47.580 graders fifth grader wait fifth graders were learning trans stuff yeah there's like a community like

04:58:52.540 they it's it's actually required all like california schools you have to have the lgbtq flag in the 0.98

04:58:57.420 back of your class what what no fucking wait what's wrong with that wait wait wait hold on what's wrong 0.98

04:59:03.260 with that don't worry about that but is it true i mean that's why the they made us put it up in our 0.97

04:59:07.660 rooms wait hold on do you do you um question was there written communication about this uh what do

04:59:14.780 you like a memo did the memo go out an email no no they just gave us a flag and was like oh it's who's

04:59:20.300 that who's they the administrators la usd no i taught in the bay area was it a public school yeah no it's

04:59:27.500 a it's a charter school so public private school so did the parents understand that this was occurring

04:59:32.380 yeah of course and they sent they signed written consent in that i i consent to my child being

04:59:37.500 taught these parents these parents want their kids to go to that school they can't get in unless they 0.98

04:59:42.620 apply but wait but hold on it's a you said a private school a public charter school so it's public

04:59:48.220 school it's publicly funded but privately run i'd like a tech school publicly funded but what is that

04:59:56.300 maybe that's a thing but i don't it's a i taught there it's a thing but what does it mean privately

05:00:01.420 so it's privately run so it's like they're not connected to sf usd they have different rules

05:00:06.620 so if fs usd do not want to have the flags and they have a separate rule the school that i worked

05:00:11.660 at was a private charter school so they have their own law i thought it was a public it's a public

05:00:16.380 charter school so it's publicly funded so they use taxpayers money and they also take funds from like

05:00:23.100 other companies and stuff so they can it's like very weird and then they can like so teachers usually

05:00:29.500 like they have a contract so if you're at a public school it's really hard to fire teaching no matter

05:00:33.500 what they did but if you're at a charter school it's like you're at will you're like a tech employee

05:00:37.580 it's like the minute they don't like you they're like we're gonna fire there so they said you had

05:00:41.020 to put up a gay pride flag it's not like they said it they just gave it to us and then they just put

05:00:46.140 it up for us didn't she did she not just say that they they like had to put up the flags and all

05:00:50.460 yeah oh yeah we have to put up the flags like they went to a separate room to learn about like trans 0.84

05:00:54.460 no there's the kids some kids opted in to like during the lunch during their lunch time which

05:01:00.940 is like their own time then they can take this class and it's 30 minutes every wednesday and then

05:01:06.380 they just go and they give them a pass about what and then it's like a space for them to talk about

05:01:11.100 stuff i wasn't a part of this i don't know yeah but you brought that up in the context of the

05:01:16.140 conversation about trans stuff oh i brought it up because i think someone asked me about seventh

05:01:20.860 graders yeah yeah see what you taught the seventh wait i said that i didn't teach any of this stuff

05:01:26.380 to seven because i don't like touching on this yeah because i actually was really bad i got like

05:01:30.620 their pronouns mixed up sometimes and so i was like not someone that they would listen about like you

05:01:35.340 know sometimes these students like they change their names like every other month yeah one minute

05:01:40.460 they're like christian the next is like i'm milo okay i'm gonna interrupt you that really catches me

05:01:45.340 by surprise because in the classes that i'm in right now to be a teacher in texas nowhere whatsoever

05:01:51.500 if anything the contrary i mean you said texas right i taught in california i know that i know that

05:01:56.460 i'm just saying it catches me by surprise yeah she was teaching sf which is the most liberal

05:02:02.940 san francisco is like totally ideologically captured so um damn that's okay anyways we can't

05:02:10.300 linger too long on that but i guess really quick on the whole straight thing um so can people change 0.96

05:02:15.980 their sex yes how i think you just said they get surgery yeah okay i'm just gonna go ahead and say

05:02:22.220 yeah you can change your your gender but i don't think you can change your sex i mean you can change 0.69

05:02:26.060 your gender and i think i mean right now i can say i'm a boy i'm a he but then sex wise it's a part

05:02:31.820 it's a part of your body so then you're actually physically changing a part of your body and so you

05:02:35.660 change your sex that part is dictated by genetics you cannot it's a part of your biology you can't 0.60

05:02:43.980 you can't change your chromosomes you can't change that you can chop off whatever you want i can chop 0.95

05:02:48.540 off one arm and i can become a one-armed person doesn't mean i was born a one-armed person you know

05:02:53.020 what i mean i can go tomorrow and go get a bunch of plastic surgery and morph myself into a different

05:02:57.180 person but it's not who i am and it's not what i look like just like you can't be a man and go get

05:03:02.300 some surgery and then the next day you wake up and you're a woman but they also do like 0.99

05:03:05.580 hormone therapy as well it doesn't matter you're still a man you still have the wrong chromosomes 0.81

05:03:09.660 you still can't reproduce you're still a man but there's some women that can reproduce some men 0.99

05:03:13.420 that doesn't that's not pertinent that's a fault it's not what they were biology

05:03:19.580 yeah if some of this like oh go ahead go ahead if a man okay if a man put his put a bag over his head

05:03:28.460 and you throw him into a room and another guy penetrated him and they just you know you just

05:03:32.460 called john jill but it's really a guy and it's friction based is that guy straight he is that guy

05:03:38.540 straight screwed another man is that guy straight is that so he but then does he know that's a man 0.73

05:03:45.100 no i can do i i think i'll do this really simply okay yeah so i'm dating a trans well hold on 0.99

05:03:50.220 i don't want it i don't want to say it in the way it will get fucking clipped a man 1.00

05:03:57.100 a cis i hate this term cis man is dating a trans woman they proceed to he has anal sex with her 1.00

05:04:05.740 her is that straight yeah that's still straight i mean you have anal sex with a woman yeah but that 1.00

05:04:12.540 would be that would be straight to have sex what if you suck your girlfriend's dick is that straight 1.00

05:04:17.020 what if you what well she's so your girlfriend's dick is that straight but andrew her her position 1.00

05:04:23.740 that we have to contend with is that she she only acknowledges that it's a transgender woman 1.00

05:04:29.340 if they've had the post-operative like they've their post-op so there would not be a penis 0.95

05:04:35.500 so but she keeps saying but wait these are these are non-reproductive right and you say well wait a 0.65

05:04:41.500 second there's some women who can't reproduce that's fair what makes those women women 1.00

05:04:47.900 i don't know like they were you don't know what makes women who can't reproduce still women 1.00

05:04:53.180 wait you said they were born women their chromosomes yeah okay yeah they were born female yeah so when

05:04:59.740 you say there's some women who can't reproduce you're just affirming her position that they're 1.00

05:05:04.220 still women even though they can't reproduce right yeah like they were born yeah so what makes them 1.00

05:05:10.540 women i guess like if a man can't reproduce is he still a man yeah he's still a man okay yeah right

05:05:16.620 so then what makes them a woman if it's not about reproduction there must be i think it's also 0.81

05:05:20.380 about your experience right like if you identify as a woman then you get all the experiences that a 0.89

05:05:26.620 woman would get same if you're a transgender woman then you're gonna identify as being black i mean 0.99

05:05:31.340 you can't because you aren't black you don't get all the same you don't get all the same hang on what 0.98

05:05:36.540 if i had all the experiences of a black man could i then identify as being black uh do you have like 0.90

05:05:41.500 that skin color well wait wait wait wait why would i need this skin color i thought it was about

05:05:46.300 experience yeah but you're saying that why would you get those same experiences if you didn't have

05:05:50.700 the same skin color how are you going to get the same experience when you look like a dude with a 0.99

05:05:55.500 wig on how are you going to get the same experience as a woman i mean a dude with a wig on is going to 0.98

05:05:59.740 have a there but depending on their race so you don't have the same experience as opposed to like

05:06:03.740 different races and ethnicities yeah but why do you think that like okay so what you're saying then by this 0.84

05:06:09.180 logic is that really really really ugly women right can't be women because they don't have the 1.00

05:06:16.220 experience of women wait what do you mean they have an experience of being oh i never said anything 0.93

05:06:20.700 about an experience that i think like something that women literally bond over and every woman goes

05:06:25.500 through an experience that a trans woman would never in their life experience surgery or not they 0.67

05:06:31.100 would never have a monthly cycle ever so all of these experiences i'm i'm confused what you're

05:06:36.220 referring to because that's a pertinent experience to being a woman i think like there's some questions

05:06:40.700 on there about like how you know do women have equal rights to men like are they treated equally

05:06:46.060 or like about gender pay gap so i'm thinking about those type of experiences as opposed to like 0.94

05:06:51.020 genetic experiences bear with me here bear with yeah let's say a woman is really ugly and just looks like 1.00

05:06:57.820 a man so everybody treats her like a man okay that's what she experiences hang on that's what she

05:07:04.380 experiences is she's still a woman i mean but then even though she's treated like hang on hang on 0.95

05:07:08.700 can you answer my question she's still a woman i think you're asking me a question i'm trying to

05:07:12.220 answer it yes i'm answering right now i feel like you're going to answer a question i didn't ask you

05:07:16.860 but go no no no okay let me okay i'm going to say the answer if it's not the else then then say it's not

05:07:21.900 okay but i think that you're saying that i'm going to reiterate so this woman is looks like a man and 1.00

05:07:28.220 so she's treated like a man right right and that's is is that what she wants some women want to be 1.00

05:07:33.580 more masculine and then they oh so she wants to be a woman so she okay okay so in that case even 0.73

05:07:40.460 though she looks like she looks like a man but she is a woman but then that means like biologically 1.00

05:07:45.420 she's a woman so she'll have these monthly cycles so she has a similar experience what makes her a 0.99

05:07:49.740 woman is her biology i mean in that instance yes what okay i'm super confused so help me out here

05:07:57.260 yeah it's not like super black and white wait it can't be about sweet it can't just be about the

05:08:02.860 experience because it's just about the experience then if you experienced only being treated like a

05:08:07.740 man you would be categorized as a man by your logic but if you say wait a second no there's still

05:08:13.820 a woman because you default to biology then the default is the biology right no i'm saying that her 1.00

05:08:19.100 experience is going through monthly cycles of having a period so that's why i would say yeah and i

05:08:25.500 think that because she's had that so then what makes them a woman is their biology no no again i 0.99

05:08:30.140 didn't say that either i'm just saying that it's like all these combined experiences of how people

05:08:34.700 interact with you and how i guess like your body works then i think those combined you know create

05:08:40.780 the experiences of daily of women in general i guess yeah do you not think that's like supporting

05:08:47.740 delusional people we should just give them what they want uh because they feel like it wait what do you

05:08:53.420 mean because it's operating out of reality uh like the mindset is not aligned should we support

05:09:00.060 delusional people okay so i think if someone were like i was born as a male in this lifetime but i

05:09:06.460 believe i was meant to be female then i don't think that's delusional it's like they really believe this

05:09:11.820 and there's like movies about it too right where like some people go crazy they want to die because

05:09:15.980 they want to become a woman right and it has that really famous actor in it i forgot what it was

05:09:20.540 what if i wanted to be a cat um because i feel like you may know this there is actually i think

05:09:26.060 a study where they took the brain scans of uh transgender women and males and like um basically

05:09:32.700 like the parts of the brain lit up of the people who like wanted to be the opposite gender in the way

05:09:38.220 that they wanted it of the gender they wanted it to be do you know anything about that yeah a lot of

05:09:44.140 them were gaming so here here's the question right it's like if you had done that same study with the

05:09:50.300 same sample right and they weren't game in would you get the same result and we don't know right

05:09:56.060 because many of these studies are biased and then the second is brain scan technology really doesn't

05:10:01.580 tell us very much because the sample sizes are so small right you're talking about different areas

05:10:06.780 which are affected in the brain especially they're talking about things like gray matter or various

05:10:11.820 chemicals this type of thing what you would need is you would need a sample size large enough where

05:10:16.700 oh i scanned your brain you feel like a man and your brain supports that we just don't have that

05:10:21.740 kind of this is not enough studies there's not enough data but the reason why i brought that up

05:10:25.580 we're going to be enough data there's not enough data because when you donate to

05:10:28.860 like that they don't use the money for unbiased scientific relevant data what makes that unbiased

05:10:35.980 so or they follow a scientific method because they're all they're all funded many of them are

05:10:41.420 funded by lgbtq groups but don't you feel like bias don't you feel like having data though in areas

05:10:47.740 that we don't have enough information is no matter what is important and like vital for just our social

05:10:52.860 experience could be but there's there's publishing bias which happens and there's other biases which go

05:10:59.260 into a lot of the ways these studies are conducted so in other words you don't want to do science

05:11:03.500 uh by trying to affirm a world view and so then adjusting for the affirmation of the world view

05:11:11.100 supposed to run an experiment the results are what the results are and that's it but that's not the

05:11:16.140 way that many times in sociology these things are conducted and what you're talking about is a mixture

05:11:21.820 of sociology and then a little bit of neuroscience when it comes to the scanning so the results are

05:11:27.580 uh so let's just put it this way i'll be i'll be the most charitable i can be

05:11:30.700 those results for all brain scan studies right now are inconclusive and since they're inconclusive

05:11:37.020 they're not really showing us anything we're not going to bank on them because uh they're not science

05:11:42.060 right it's not we we can't get something conclusive out of them yet well this is not enough data but again

05:11:47.500 if if there were more studies that we could conclude you know something that's factual but right now it's

05:11:52.700 all like it's it's he says to say aren't and we can't conclude then we're not going to defer to it

05:11:59.100 right like that would be like me saying well what if we had a bunch of studies that affirmed my bias

05:12:04.460 worldview yeah well then i guess we'd have to believe your bias that's just your perspective

05:12:09.500 based off of your yeah situations yeah yeah yeah yeah i just brought that up that would be no good

05:12:14.460 yeah i i only brought that up because i wouldn't agree that um that people are delusional if they

05:12:21.820 truly feel something and they're to the degree of like wanting you know to harm themselves and there

05:12:26.460 has to be something that happened during development where it's like you know like it's literally inside

05:12:32.860 of them in their chemicals to where like you know this is something that they truly need you're

05:12:37.900 trying to intellectualize something that is not based in reality well the only because there's studies

05:12:42.700 even though they're inconclusive there's still some i understand what you're saying what you're

05:12:47.500 saying what you're saying makes sense and if you don't mind i'll uh i'll reiterate the position you

05:12:52.780 can tell me if i get this wrong but i think your position is just this that clearly this isn't delusion

05:12:58.940 these people obviously are feeling this in a very big way or they wouldn't be so adamantly pursuing it

05:13:05.340 right so this this probably is not delusional right yeah i do feel like some people do take advantage

05:13:11.100 of you know those who who deal with this and that definitely you know creates situations where

05:13:15.740 people feel like oh yeah they are delusional because they take a situation and define an entire

05:13:20.460 group i don't think it's like fair to like do that you can feel however you want to feel but don't make

05:13:24.860 it my problem like don't let it negatively impact my choices wait a second so schizophrenics are not 1.00

05:13:31.340 delusional right yeah they're not i don't think i just what wait a schizophrenic by your logic would

05:13:40.700 not be delusional i mean they really really feel that way they really really hear the voices they

05:13:46.620 really really want to do what the voices say so therefore they're not delusional i don't i don't know

05:13:51.900 the case studies on schizophrenia so i wouldn't be i do medical assessments and delusions are

05:14:00.780 actually one of the symptoms that we use as a marker to to dictate and help us assess a medical

05:14:07.980 the scale of a medical emergency or the probability of one and a schizophrenic episode is actually one of

05:14:14.860 the markers like scientifically in medicine is delusions um so i mean just so you know like that

05:14:24.460 is an aspect of the way that we would measure if something was delusional or not would be only the

05:14:30.460 only way i could think of is if we were looking towards behavior which was abnormal otherwise how

05:14:35.900 would you know it was delusional or not like if somebody came over to you and said that gremlins were

05:14:41.420 visiting them at night and you know stealing their socks my assumption is you would think that this

05:14:47.740 was such abnormal uh belief or abnormal behavior that they were suffering from some kind of delusion

05:14:53.420 right so why wouldn't we map that on also to other groups like this and uh well we do and that's why

05:15:02.460 we have things like gender dysmorphia and other uh kind of clinical uh psychoses for this is because

05:15:09.100 we're trying to describe this delusional behavior right i mean there's a reason that it's actually

05:15:16.460 categorized as a mental illness gender dysphoria i think oh graffito tact donated two hundred dollars

05:15:25.500 yo graffito thank you sorry for the delay man do you really think surgically created the harj is

05:15:29.980 identical to a real one come on if a man lays pipe and goes to town on that thing it's tearing apart

05:15:36.460 into a bloody disgusting mess like what the heck that's so graphic yes just just very brief oh

05:15:44.060 sorry okay do i have to answer that do you really think sure why not oh i mean because i have a lot of 0.92

05:15:52.460 friends that are transgender and then i think so yeah like i've seen them and i'm like you've seen 0.99

05:15:57.580 the pussy no i like i mean not i've seen it like in my face you've seen the vagina yes like we change 1.00

05:16:03.180 in front of each other and like yeah but have they been like spread no no i don't even see my real 1.00

05:16:09.900 female like not real but like you've got you oops oops Freudian slip oops oops you said real but uh 1.00

05:16:18.700 just real quick uh back back to this chair what just i just have one more question for you um if you had a

05:16:24.940 person who walked around all day on all fours and barked like a dog and ate out of a dish but

05:16:32.940 refused to act any other way than that would you say that that was delusional

05:16:40.300 is that for who you say you say chair one yeah chair one you yeah well so i i know why you're asking

05:16:46.380 that question and it's like there's also gender identity that plays you know it's a big role um

05:16:53.500 when it comes to just yeah this person identifies as a dog but that but their gender identity or

05:17:00.860 their sex like they're i mean just their identity they're now a dog i i don't i don't i don't know i

05:17:08.540 i i wouldn't compare a person to someone barking like a dog but they feel like they are they want to

05:17:14.860 be they feel if they feel like that and that's the way they're living their life that's all that they want

05:17:19.660 to be and they're on all fours all day and they bark like a dog they act like a dog they eat out

05:17:25.260 of a dog dish would you say that that's delusional

05:17:30.860 well yeah because they're acting like a dog but it's it's not like it's not it's not the opposite

05:17:36.060 sex they're not trying to act like the opposite sex and identify what makes that delusional though

05:17:40.140 what makes that actually delusional because it's not it's not a male or female it's not a human it's

05:17:45.820 what about people that want to identify it right right it's so it's what makes delusional is not

05:17:50.140 the thing right what about people that say that they don't have a gender and they're a they or an

05:17:56.300 it what do you think of that is that delusional what do i think of it yeah oh i don't that's the

05:18:00.380 reason why i wasn't really in the beginning of conversation because i i don't know how it feels

05:18:04.140 to be in the position of needing uh of needing to to identify as you know it or they and i'm not

05:18:09.980 really one to like judge on that um so i i don't i mean i don't have any delusional because it's not

05:18:16.300 true like that's what makes it delusional right i don't have any like opinion on it because i don't

05:18:22.140 know how it feels i feel like um i i do believe if they if they want to identify that way i'm not

05:18:27.420 one to judge i know other people are going to and cool that's how you want here's a less here's a less

05:18:31.900 rare example then let me let me just try it this way are you aware that there are many many people

05:18:37.420 on this earth who believe they are vampires literally they believe that they are cool and

05:18:43.180 they live a vampiric life they live in coffins not kidding right they won't go out in the sunlight

05:18:49.260 they won't do any of those things because they believe that they're vampires they even drink blood

05:18:54.220 not kidding they even drink blood um are they delusional

05:19:01.020 they're trying to be a fictional

05:19:03.260 character or whatever perhaps but yeah it's not fictional they are vampires they are drinking

05:19:11.660 blood they are acting as though a vampire would act 100 percent they are doing all of the things

05:19:18.700 that vampires do what what what makes them fictional oh no no like like vampires are like 0.73

05:19:25.500 unless vampires exist and i'm just sounding dumb but

05:19:28.220 i mean the type that you're talking the bram stroker dracula vampire right but these people

05:19:36.620 are vampires i mean they must be because they act identical to them well yeah they're they're acting

05:19:44.700 as if like they're not a human so like yeah no vampires are human well then

05:19:50.540 what where are we getting this information from what if tomorrow i'm honestly i'm confused i just

05:19:58.300 for time management stuff i have to move it on andrew do you have a final thing on this or

05:20:02.460 good to move it yeah it's just a vampire is human a vampire would meet all of the criteria that you would

05:20:07.580 have for an identity you believe that you are the thing you act as though you are the thing 100 you

05:20:15.180 are a human right why are you not delusional what would make that not delusional i come from a place

05:20:22.140 where it's male and female that's it and i just i don't judge and that's it okay all right uh two

05:20:28.380 things really quick the previous thing from graffito tagged i want to come back to it briefly graffito

05:20:33.900 thank you for the tts i apologize for the delay i had to i was up for a bit uh he said it's not the same

05:20:39.980 is it your position that i don't know how else to say natural i guess i don't know what better term 0.89

05:20:49.100 it do you think it's the same as trans pussy wait have you have you experienced it so that's why they 1.00

05:20:59.180 fuck with the inner they fuck with inner they not make the watch i'm a transgender i heard it 1.00

05:21:07.500 what the fuck okay that ivy do you think it's the same um i actually don't like to comment things i 1.00

05:21:14.780 don't have knowledge about so i actually don't know about this like if it's the same or not because i am 0.94

05:21:19.100 not a male i've not tried well here that's fine you you don't know about it but perhaps if i provide

05:21:24.620 some descriptive uh some sort of descriptions that might help so okay so and and you do know

05:21:32.940 at least you're a biological female right like you're not trans right no would you be upset if 0.55

05:21:39.580 somebody thought you were trans i wouldn't you wouldn't find that they just think i have like

05:21:43.260 masculine features then but you have your own experience as a woman you have your own self-awareness

05:21:48.540 there um do you think that for example if say i don't know where we would put it but um let's say

05:21:59.740 somebody put a hole in your armpit oh a hole oh surgically they put a hole where your armpit is 1.00

05:22:08.780 and then you had to keep that hole open and then a man stuck its penis inside your armpit hole 1.00

05:22:18.540 do you think it would feel the same you think it would be the same as pussy i don't know i'm not 1.00

05:22:25.420 a man i really cannot say how about this how about this then um so i believe the procedure that they 0.99

05:22:31.980 do is they surgically put a hole in that area where the penis once was and they use tissue from the 0.87

05:22:42.780 penis and the testicles and the the scrotum they like fold it they like cut and like fold and like 0.96

05:22:49.500 and then i only know growing up i watched this screwed up show called i am jazz i am jazz and she 0.97

05:22:56.620 went to get this like plasty and they explained it all in great detail on a kid like a kid's family show

05:23:01.340 on tlc and i remember like i just remember it and it's and then you have to do this thing called dialing

05:23:07.100 where you put these like giant things in every day to like create yeah so but so let me ask you this

05:23:15.660 let's say that uh somebody had um they didn't identify as trans but they uh maybe they're they got i 0.98

05:23:25.980 don't know how this would ever happen they they're they landed on a a pole oh and it forced their balls 0.99

05:23:40.620 and penis inside of them oh and like would you think that that's a vagina i mean i don't know i again i 1.00

05:23:50.940 have not experienced that myself okay yeah i cannot say i'm look i've not encountered 1.00

05:23:58.540 trans pussy pussy yeah that's not pussy it's not it's not the same i mean you can't say it unless 1.00

05:24:05.660 you try this okay well let's put it this way no but so so forget i have hold on hold on hold on 1.00

05:24:13.020 forget the impale thing sure they go to the best trans doctor the best the most uh the best trans

05:24:21.100 surgeon and they get the the surgery and there's no complications whatsoever aside from the uh the

05:24:28.060 dilation that they constantly have to keep up with but no out of the norm uh complications still not 0.99

05:24:34.780 pussy that's not pussy let me ask you would you do you feel like it would feel like pussy no it would not 1.00

05:24:41.260 feel like it wouldn't smell like it wouldn't is that it's supposed to be a gotcha oh yeah what no 1.00

05:24:49.500 it's not supposed to be a gotcha it's just we're just talking just yeah it would not it would not feel 0.99

05:24:57.180 the same it wouldn't look the same it wouldn't uh smell the same it's not pussy that's not pussy so 1.00

05:25:03.900 what makes pussy pussy for you or for like most men somebody who was born with a vagina with the 1.00

05:25:10.460 correct chromosomes uh oh yeah go ahead what uh i was gonna say but let's say let's say they like 1.00

05:25:17.820 they um like you don't know that that they're that they're not you know you don't and so they essayed

05:25:22.780 me yeah i i don't know what that anyways whatever go ahead um and like how would you be able to tell

05:25:32.380 like just like just genuine like questions how would i be able to tell yeah like would you be able to 0.98

05:25:38.220 tell if they didn't tell you well i've not encountered trans pussy but i'm pretty confident 1.00

05:25:44.540 i'd be able to tell so in fact i can make the friends hold on i'm pretty confident if i was face 0.98

05:25:50.620 to face with a man who's dressed up as a woman i don't need to undress they don't need to be undressed 0.96

05:25:57.580 i can tell before it even gets to anything sexual but what if there's a hypothetical where you just 0.59

05:26:04.620 you didn't unfortunately and you're okay so they tricked me they tricked me into having sex 0.96

05:26:09.180 well yeah that's that's a hypothetical and so i'm what's the situation oh like like you're 0.99

05:26:17.820 about to do the deed and the pussy's in front of you like yeah i'm i'm genuinely curious you want me to 0.99

05:26:23.420 articulate like the the the uh visual differences the smell yeah i'm just wondering the feeling yeah 0.99

05:26:32.140 i'm just wondering like if if um no you could like teach me on the difference yeah so so i think it's

05:26:38.060 i think actually both men and women can actually make determinations on this so i'm a man i have

05:26:45.420 tools of my own and then i've been with a woman's surprise surprise been with a woman sexually i know

05:26:52.780 what vagina is i know what my own tools look like feel like whatever if you were to invert that it 1.00

05:26:59.500 would not it would not feel the same it wouldn't visually it wouldn't look the same physically the 1.00

05:27:05.420 lubrication would be different they're deaf i don't know what the fucking smell is like trust me 1.00

05:27:09.740 pussy does have a distinct smell unless you're asian okay but at the end of the day it is it is an 1.00

05:27:16.780 assumption because you've never like encountered uh because they don't have well i mean you know 0.99

05:27:22.620 they some asian people don't have the body odor anyways whatever never mind yeah they don't really 1.00

05:27:28.300 sell deodorant in asia either i mean some people have bought some asians have body odor but many of 0.52

05:27:33.260 them uh it's like a genetic thing don't have body odor okay so i'm gonna go ahead and ask my question so

05:27:37.980 you're saying that you're not able to answer because you can't feel from a man perspective so i'm 0.98

05:27:41.660 going to put it to you like this you're saying that you can't really know how a fake vagina looks 1.00

05:27:46.380 like because and again you can't feel it so let's say that the fake penises looks like a sausage wiener 0.99

05:27:54.060 that you put on a hot dog i've never seen one and i don't want to see one but let's say it looks like 0.99

05:27:58.460 that and it's the closest that they can make it look to it do that does that still make it a woman 1.00

05:28:04.940 i don't know why it did i shut the hopefully the champagne is tasty enjoy some more also can we

05:28:14.700 get some phosphorylina what is kvass it's a really good drink i drank it my whole childhood it tastes

05:28:20.700 like beer but it's no alcohol it's really uh w's in the chat for ogle if you who wants more champagne

05:28:27.660 anybody please go ahead why you're pouring that out isn't isn't there an easy distinction to make um

05:28:34.540 you ladies agree that uh there are women who are lesbians right yes okay don't you think they 1.00

05:28:41.820 would be able to tell the difference yes i guess so that's a good one yeah but i'm not lesbian so i

05:28:49.580 don't know yeah yeah but but wait a second so they could determine very very quickly even if men couldn't

05:28:56.300 right um i guess so i feel like if they're like i mean also not all vaginas look the same either 1.00

05:29:03.820 yeah so maybe it's like a different type that's like saying all pizza doesn't look the same all

05:29:09.500 pizza doesn't look the same but pizza is pizza if you try to give me a taco i would know it was

05:29:15.420 different i don't even care if even if you put sauce and cheese inside of a taco like i would know it

05:29:20.140 was different i'll be honest i'm sorry steph you gave me that question right about like the sausage

05:29:25.500 wiener like on a hot dog i like date a guy who's like you know thing looks like that so that's why i was like

05:29:31.740 oh i didn't think that's a ex-girlfriend 0.91

05:29:39.100 oh no i can't open it

05:29:43.500 you got it all you

05:29:49.660 you should have brought one of my

05:29:50.940 how do those bottle girls do at the club every night gotta like jingle the top i know i know how 1.00

05:30:00.700 oh you know how they do it well i just i took one glass oh my god you should tell him

05:30:06.220 it twist and pull at the same time it's struggling no it's funny 0.99

05:30:15.180 bro who super glued this shit bro 0.99

05:30:19.900 yeah that was just some 0.99

05:30:23.820 i don't know it's our cage

05:30:25.100 i don't want to continue this conversation it's a little bit uncomfortable

05:30:30.940 it's so uncomfortable i'm not trans i cannot speak on this

05:30:35.740 your personal

05:30:38.700 are you uh are you the president of the united states am i what

05:30:43.500 the president of the united states am i the president of the united states i'm not

05:30:48.060 can you speak about the president of the united states i honestly don't even speak about him i don't

05:30:54.220 yeah but can you can i yes i can yeah and but i choose not to can wait can people wait wait can

05:31:01.500 people competently talk about the president of the united states even if they themselves are not

05:31:05.820 the president of the united states yeah i mean people can do what they want like i said they have

05:31:11.100 their own experience and they want to talk about things that they're they want to talk about but i

05:31:15.500 think that it's a personal choice i'm like oh if i don't really know that experience i don't think

05:31:19.260 i should facilitate like or like pass around like false knowledge and news and like make people

05:31:24.780 like you know misconstrued you know i think it's important to have like all the information and then

05:31:29.500 you make an informed judgment or some informed um argument and i just don't have that in this case

05:31:36.380 with about this topic do you want it in this okay okay okay

05:31:40.140 anybody so then you should defer to those that do in this case us right um i guess i can defer yeah

05:31:50.300 i mean like i'm not gonna take on great well then if you're deferring to those who do have the

05:31:56.380 information you're willing to concede that trans oh it's not saying that i don't have women no no

05:32:02.140 it's not saying that i don't have the information i just don't i've never touched a physical like i've 0.62

05:32:06.140 never touched a trans woman's that part like a vagina so i cannot say what it feels like and 0.99

05:32:11.340 doesn't and i'm pretty sure everyone here hasn't as well so i don't know if anyone here has better 0.84

05:32:16.060 knowledge of what that would feel like so in that case i can't defer on that aspect because i'm saying

05:32:20.940 that i'll only defer if someone else has actually personally experienced it wait i have a question 0.96

05:32:24.940 have you ever been to antarctica does brian wait wait wait hold on hold on what a penis looks 0.97

05:32:29.340 wait hold on have you ever been to antarctica i've never been to antarctica yeah would you have like 0.94

05:32:34.860 an intuition that it would like how it would feel in terms of the temperature i think it'll feel

05:32:39.820 cold okay how do you know that you've never been to antarctica i think that people that have been

05:32:44.700 told me it was cold that's the only reason yeah maybe or like no it's not social media or is it

05:32:50.860 common sense that was it doesn't really quick we need to do uh cheers to ogle cheers to ogle

05:32:59.820 cheers um wait okay really quick what pronouns does a baby have before they can speak um i don't

05:33:17.500 know what did the parents say or the child well before you can even conceptualize the ideas of gender

05:33:24.060 gender identity and sex um what what do you uh what pronouns are the baby given um i think like

05:33:32.380 they're probably given because they cannot speak yet they're probably given the pronouns that they

05:33:35.660 were assigned to at birth i mean assigned to at based on their sex at birth yeah i think for a while

05:33:40.780 though i don't don't quote me on this but i think there was a birth certificate where you could circle

05:33:44.380 like there was like another like unassigned yeah oh but it's just i this is more so related to pronoun

05:33:52.060 usage so it's because with babies we don't use we don't refer to their gender we refer to sex and we

05:33:59.820 use he him she her but that's related to sex so i think kind of with pronoun usage even no yeah that's

05:34:11.900 why that's why i said i was like oh before they can speak and you know when the baby is born i think

05:34:16.620 everyone assumes that their pronouns are going to be what sex they were at birth yeah i don't know

05:34:22.540 anyways i gotta move it on just for the sake of time but um are men physically stronger than women i

05:34:28.060 don't actually know if anybody anybody disagree with that i don't think so okay uh can women be sexist 1.00

05:34:34.300 towards men to which uh ivy you disagree yeah why is that i can women yeah i think that so like i think

05:34:46.540 because i went to like a social justice warrior college i was like you know like we learned about

05:34:51.340 like the study of um like gender studies and like um like not yeah mostly did a lot of gender study 0.82

05:34:57.580 club courses as like part of my ge's and i learned a lot from it and one of the things is like unless

05:35:02.620 you're in this like a a i don't call me it's been a while since i took those classes but like unless you're

05:35:07.500 in a position of like power or you have a hegemonic status or like you have some influence to like

05:35:14.700 inflict like to influence another social group or another group you know below you or something then

05:35:20.620 you can't really like be is towards them you know whether it's like race is or sexist so in our

05:35:27.340 society we could say like the cisgender male would be someone that has a higher social and that's not

05:35:33.260 in in society like they have more power and so as a result then they would be able to be racist and

05:35:40.300 sexist or as i think that a female even if they were to say sexist things like oh i don't know for 1.00

05:35:46.380 for example what like i can't even think of off the top of my head but they would just say something 0.99

05:35:49.660 sexist then all men are pigs oh all men are pigs okay is that sexist what that's a sexist 1.00

05:35:55.820 thing all men are pigs do you do you think it's sexist is it sexist all men are pigs how 1.00

05:35:59.820 about if all women are pigs i don't know because i've heard guys say like oh don't trust men like 1.00

05:36:03.820 all men are animals all men are pigs like i've heard men say that so is this are all women 0.99

05:36:08.300 gold diggers is that sexist i've heard oh i actually heard it i've heard that is it sexist no i don't 0.99

05:36:14.300 think that's sexist i think being sexist is saying that like because you are a female you have only

05:36:21.340 you're only capable to do this i think that is sexist you know and then you're saying that because

05:36:26.140 of your gender then we're not going to give you this race right then i think that's sexist it's 0.95

05:36:31.500 when your sex or your um identity as a woman or as a man or no identity as a woman is going to

05:36:37.900 influence the way people treat you in a life in a negative way what's your definition of sexism

05:36:43.100 i think sexism is like um i i don't know the the i don't want to say like something that okay what

05:36:49.180 i think it is um it's like basically someone that has a is in a position of power is um basically

05:36:57.900 prejudice towards somebody based on a specific like based on their gender yeah showing prejudice

05:37:03.900 based on their gender that is sexism in my in my definition so if a woman um a female nurse 1.00

05:37:13.020 has prejudice towards uh men and um she's she has access to certain medications in the hospital

05:37:21.500 and uh this is actually something that happens and then she either overdoses these men on the 0.99

05:37:26.540 medications they are taking or gives them medication that they're not taking but would

05:37:30.860 would other would kill them for whatever reason um and they're she's specifically targeting them 1.00

05:37:35.500 because they're men she's not doing it to women she has some sort of like gripe specifically against

05:37:40.220 men uh would this be sexism i think that because she is in a position of power right in that specific 1.00

05:37:46.460 circumstance i do believe so but i think what if she's treating a a really rich person oh i don't

05:37:52.140 think we're talking about wealth at all right it was just mainly about you know yeah

05:37:55.820 yeah male okay what about a woman who uh let's say a woman uh kills a bunch of men 0.92

05:38:06.300 but there's not some sort of nurse patient dynamic there's nothing like that she just goes out into

05:38:11.980 the street and just shoots three men because she hates men oh so she's just like a serial killer 1.00

05:38:16.060 or something like a male serial killer uh sure okay is that sexist is she being i mean in my definition 1.00

05:38:22.460 it's like oh sorry in my in my head it's like did she do anything in her life to like basically make

05:38:28.860 these men's life worser like she just ended it right yeah she just ended it all right worse worse 0.65

05:38:35.180 wait so is it does that make their life worse um i don't know it just ended like what is there

05:38:40.540 oh so is it not a big deal i don't know what what do they think right i don't know who they're dead

05:38:44.940 they don't think anything exactly so it didn't make their life worse some people some people believe

05:38:49.660 that living is to suffer so maybe she ended their suffering it's the shame how about how about

05:38:54.140 this let me let me let me ask you this a different way maybe my face is right i say if i say the

05:38:59.820 following phrase is this sexist all women are good for is childbearing is that is that sexist

05:39:08.140 yeah i believe so yes okay is the following phrase sexist all men are good for is working

05:39:14.540 um i don't think so what right okay so now why is phrase one sexist but phrase two is not sexist

05:39:25.740 even though they meet the same criteria okay so hang on hang on um if i could yeah target hey wait a

05:39:32.460 second oh both target a specific group after they've targeted the entirety of that specific group

05:39:38.940 they give specific qualifiers to that group expressing that they're only good for x thing

05:39:45.100 and not other things which meets your definition of prejudice so why is the first one sexist but the

05:39:52.140 second one is not i think for me um like prejudice is like yes it's like come some sort of preconceived

05:39:58.940 notion but what i think is like the next step to make it like sexist is for that saying to actually

05:40:05.180 impact their life so like if a woman is thought to be only good at childbearing that any job she 1.00

05:40:11.100 applies for she will not get it because then the labor will be like the employer will be like just 1.00

05:40:15.580 go have a kid like don't work you know but if a man is all he wants to do is to work i was sorry if

05:40:21.500 what if society thinks that all a man can do is to work and the man wants to be like i don't know what

05:40:26.940 else could they if they want to be like a singer like they can still do that right it's like they can work

05:40:32.220 and oh yeah so if the man wants to like i don't know like relax i don't even know like being a

05:40:37.740 worker everyone works perhaps do other things like i don't know be looked at as a sage or giving good

05:40:43.260 advice or things like this which are not in the category of work there would become a social stigma

05:40:50.380 against men in those positions right i feel like it's giving advice and if there's a social stigma in

05:40:57.020 those positions by you making the statement affirmatively that men are only good at working

05:41:02.140 that would definitely be sexist right um i believe that the the saying of that all men are good at

05:41:08.700 working i don't think it's sexist just because i don't think it's gonna no no no yeah men are only

05:41:13.740 good for work they're only good for work if saying that i don't think that would negatively impact

05:41:20.140 their life like i don't think it would change their quality of life that much so if a woman 1.00

05:41:24.860 or a collective of women think that my only use in life is to work that would not negatively impact 0.84

05:41:32.060 my life and like can you give me an example how it would negatively impact your life

05:41:38.060 you're dating whatever so any any example that you would give for how the following phrase all women 0.94

05:41:45.100 are good for is bearing children however that would negatively affect women is the exact same way the 1.00

05:41:49.980 other statement would negatively affect men by the same criteria whatever it is i just think it

05:41:54.860 wouldn't be the same because like if you use the first thing where like women are only good for 1.00

05:41:58.220 childbearing and then they try to apply for a job then the employer's like no you can't then the woman's 1.00

05:42:02.140 like screwed like they have no money they can't feed themselves they don't have a home like they

05:42:05.020 don't have to move over their head about men and if you only say that about men uh then they could be 0.89

05:42:10.380 disqualified from other things like sagely advice being looked at uh as beacons of honor whether

05:42:16.460 then i don't think that's bad i don't think that's not as bad yeah let me finish beacons of honor

05:42:22.940 instead of workhorses there's all sorts of negative impacts which could happen to them

05:42:26.940 because they're only viewed as being work mules how is that not the same thing it's a negative impact

05:42:32.860 right a social negative impact from the perspective of men just like that's a social negative impact

05:42:37.500 from the perspective of women so i could make the counter argument to you and say nah it's actually 1.00

05:42:42.460 good that employers are discriminating against them because then they don't have to work ha based 1.00

05:42:48.940 right but that wouldn't make it you would you would say no you would dispute that because you'd say well

05:42:53.180 women don't want that well men don't want to be viewed as only being workhorses so how is it that

05:42:58.220 that's not sexist to men because i think about the base i'll let you respond michael johnson that's

05:43:03.340 i have to let it come in thank you michael is prejudice or discrimination based on a person's

05:43:08.940 sex or gender the whole idea that sexism is prejudice plus power is only held by people with room

05:43:15.180 temperature iq chair four is delulu high chair rate thank you michael jones sorry for the delay on

05:43:23.180 that go ahead yeah so i i want to respond to that two biases in the court for you being a good father

05:43:28.700 things like that because your only view of course is being good for work okay i can see that like

05:43:35.100 that impacting and like the court of law like usually maybe children are given to the the like

05:43:41.100 the mom because they think yeah you're only good for work i can see that yeah but i would say like

05:43:47.180 the fact that i think that as humans wouldn't that be sexist i mean i think about like your experience in

05:43:54.380 life right as humans we basically just need like like i said money food shelter so if a woman cannot 1.00

05:44:00.300 get a job based on like this stereotype or this prejudice then that actually affects our ability

05:44:05.100 to access those necessities whereas a man access to their kids because they're only viewed as being 1.00

05:44:10.700 workhorses and not as being paternal yeah then that would negatively affect men and that is what is

05:44:16.300 currently happening yeah yes and i believe how's that not sexist and i'm not i'm not saying that's like

05:44:22.060 a bad yeah i guess so i guess i can concede to that yeah it is sexist yeah because it's like he did it

05:44:28.060 yeah i think so wow that's a first i think by the way by the way that that argument that came in from

05:44:36.940 the chat that wasn't mine i was going a different direction somebody else threw it out there credit

05:44:41.420 where credit's due i uh i let me tell me if this meets your definition though of sexism uh let's say

05:44:49.020 let's say you have a really powerful woman let's say kamala harris did you vote for kamala i didn't 0.88

05:44:53.340 vote at all okay uh let's say she became the united states president she would be you know very powerful 0.99

05:44:59.900 uh she is in the white house and she wants to hire a janitor and she turns down all the male janitors 0.98

05:45:07.420 because she refuses to hire a male janitor she refuses to hire a male janitor uh because they're men 0.99

05:45:14.300 would that be sexist um i think so because she's in a position of power okay yeah i guess that's 1.00

05:45:21.100 consistent though uh let's see here and then going to uh the next one can people be racist towards white

05:45:30.380 people uh brinda which are you a yes or no on this one honestly i don't know enough about all right

05:45:37.340 yeah uh ivy you say it's the same you say no he's like i'm done no no no i still agree i think that

05:45:46.540 one i agree more with that than the sexism one because that one's like so like i think that race

05:45:52.300 and like sex is so intertwined it's like that's what we call it intersectionality so it's really hard

05:45:56.860 to talk about it separately you know like someone's like race and gender and their intersection of that

05:46:02.620 really creates their real experience in life and so it's really it's like in the questionnaire we

05:46:07.100 like separate that and so but i think that race is obviously more like prominent than sex so i think

05:46:13.180 above that i am more like more adamant about my stance there you go so can people be racist against

05:46:19.820 white people um we define the type of person like what people a black person can a black person be

05:46:26.220 racist towards a white person i think that in um and it's very tough i mean i said no yeah on the

05:46:34.540 questionnaire i think like as a society like we cannot but as like an individual i think that this

05:46:40.620 person can can asian can asian people people be racist towards white people um i think that asian

05:46:48.380 people i like we can say things like we'll say stuff right like oh right like we can say

05:46:55.660 that that we so even the word for white person in chinese or for incanties is very like mean it's

05:47:01.020 like they don't even have a word for a white person it's just like that monster you know wait really

05:47:05.500 yeah yeah so wouldn't that be there's no wait there's not a like what about the color white there's

05:47:11.180 they don't use it they say yeah so it's like they just say the word why and i think that probably

05:47:18.860 maybe when they first visited china when the asian people saw them they're like oh that looks like a 0.99

05:47:22.700 ghost you know so monster i don't mean monster i mean ghost sorry i said it wrong it's not monster

05:47:27.820 it's ghost why it means ghost yeah but what about just in like the united states can asian people be

05:47:32.780 racist towards white people i think that asian people like they can say racist things um they 0.99

05:47:38.540 can say racist things but they cannot be racist can they be racist towards black people i think that

05:47:45.260 yes they can why um because we've seen people like asian people with like power and they've like

05:47:51.900 you know killed black people yeah uh like the la riots weren't you in san francisco yeah wait the 0.91

05:47:57.500 la you mean the roof koreans yeah the la they were defending their businesses in korea town they were 0.98

05:48:05.580 completely justified that was not from a they were in a position of self-defense not authority they were

05:48:11.820 being they were being attacked their businesses were being burned to the ground they were being

05:48:15.900 shot at and they defended themselves that wasn't a position of power i'm talking about the incident

05:48:20.620 that sparked that i'm not talking about them defending their business oh she's talking about

05:48:24.060 the police brutality yeah she's talking about rodney rodney king no no so i'm not sure you know like

05:48:29.980 what happened what it was like latasha harlan's like she was the girl that got murdered by the the

05:48:34.940 store owner because she went in and she uh the store owner was like thought that she was doing 0.89

05:48:39.660 do something dangerous but she just stole a bag of chips it was it was that i don't know that's 0.51

05:48:43.580 pretty dangerous so she was robbing the place and got shot she stole a bag of chips or something

05:48:48.380 she was robbing the place and got shot yes yeah that's what happens when you rob places you get shot

05:48:53.420 oh gosh but like tell me why i was in oakland my phone got robbed why did why did no one shoot

05:48:58.540 that guy you know wait i don't know why i don't know why californians absolutely demand that they

05:49:03.660 have no right to defend themselves when they're getting robbed but in the rest wait you got robbed

05:49:07.980 stage i got i got mugged by by um like a person in the convenience store what what race were they

05:49:16.700 i they were wearing a ski mask i can't tell really i really don't know they're wearing a ski mask like

05:49:22.380 i was on the phone my friend and also i don't know ski mask you can see a little bit no and by the way

05:49:27.420 by the way hang on she was shot by a woman yeah she was shot by a woman yes yeah so she was robbing a 0.75

05:49:32.940 place where there was a woman who felt to justify and again we're not talking about gender right

05:49:37.820 now we're talking about race that's why i said that i feel more strongly about race than i do about

05:49:41.980 gender they are so interconnected yeah but wait a second she got robbed in oakland doesn't know that 1.00

05:49:48.700 okay at 10 a.m in the morning yeah she's robbing the place she's robbing it this woman feels like

05:49:55.420 she needs to defend herself why does she need to defend herself she's just robbing the place like 0.99

05:49:59.740 she's not oh she's just rob so i could rob your house you don't feel like i you you you need to

05:50:05.340 defend yourself it's it's like it's like it's material items you're not defending yourself like

05:50:10.780 they're just robbing you it's like you just give it up like take my stuff but you know give me my

05:50:15.260 life it's like they're not physically harming you they're just taking your things and i think

05:50:19.500 that maybe because i'm buddhist but i think that in this world we just how about how about 1.00

05:50:23.660 fuck that commie bullshit this is the united states america here if you try to rob our ship 1.00

05:50:30.220 we blow you away that's how it works like what what country you think you moved to lady i didn't move 1.00

05:50:35.580 anywhere i was born here this is america do you have like a religion right now like for one thing when

05:50:42.940 it comes to force doctrine if a person's willing to rob you there's no reason to assume that they will

05:50:48.700 not do other horrible things to you when a person in the commission of a crime they can easily

05:50:53.500 escalate that commission of a crime like why would i wait for you to pull your gun out if you're

05:50:58.460 already in the commission of crime against me i think that was like oh yeah i think that was like

05:51:03.420 the debate like some people were like oh what if like latasha was gonna pull a gun on her and then

05:51:06.940 like actually look at security cameras like there was no instance of her doing anything she just like

05:51:11.180 stole a bag of chips and yeah but you know what you know how all of that could have been avoided

05:51:15.900 tell me how all of that could have been avoided if one person did one thing differently what would 0.95

05:51:20.940 have happened if one person hadn't been oh i don't know fucking robbing somebody the whole situation 0.92

05:51:27.820 would have been avoided right i think it was like it's like there's also an understanding right like 0.89

05:51:33.340 what human life is worth a bag of chips you know it's like a moral ethic question i think

05:51:39.980 in that case it's like you're saying that you're willing to kill someone because they took

05:51:44.220 a bag of chips from you that's really okay well let's take it to the to the other extreme how

05:51:49.260 much of of everything that i have can a person steal before i'm justified in protecting myself and

05:51:55.900 my valuables can they steal my entire life savings and my house where my children sleep

05:52:01.900 can they steal the car that i that might can they steal all of this so that we're left penniless

05:52:06.940 and out in the snow am i allowed to defend my property then i really hope that if you were

05:52:12.060 getting robbed that much that you have renter's insurance and that you will be able to come

05:52:15.980 yeah i don't have renter's insurance let's say i think that you were just not that bright like

05:52:19.740 you need renter's insurance if somebody really answer the question if somebody were stealing my 0.99

05:52:25.580 house if they were literally they came in they stole everything in my house right and burned the damn 0.85

05:52:32.540 house down and then stole my car right and drained my bank account am i justified then i mean now it's 0.96

05:52:41.660 going off topic because we're talking about race and now this is about like answer my question

05:52:45.820 please i was saying that if a person did all that are you justified in killing them like in the act

05:52:51.500 of him doing all of that you want to shoot them yeah okay yeah i think that's totally fine then why 0.52

05:52:57.340 is it not fine for a bag of chips all you're doing oh my god it's so different you're like scaling it 0.90

05:53:03.260 so all you're doing you're saying a person's life isn't worth

05:53:06.060 uh 50 cents it's worth a hundred thousand dollars or two hundred thousand dollars you're actually

05:53:13.020 assigning the value of the life to money i'm signing the value of life to bodily harm that's

05:53:19.660 why your position doesn't make any sense and my position does i never said you never sent them a

05:53:24.140 bodily harm because i just said that she didn't show any way of hitting on this call when i'll let 0.99

05:53:29.100 you i'll let you come in there's two there's two i have to let come in okay she was a teacher 0.97

05:53:33.420 hitting women young boys go to school to learn math hear this trash and learn to hate themselves 0.98

05:53:39.980 her brain twisted up in knots she could be trained to believe up his down or anything else 0.99

05:53:47.180 hitting women that's terrible why is that your name bro that's only andrew's position just kidding i'm

05:53:54.060 i'm kidding um yeah that just like that make that actually makes no big pull out guy donated

05:53:59.260 two hundred dollars big chair one has the look to attract a man but the neutral position on every

05:54:04.780 topic makes her personality terrible and will not keep a guy that's the point how much want to keep any 1.00

05:54:11.580 guy oh nice thank you big black guy i can't believe i just said that out loud um

05:54:18.860 oh going back to the racism thing i have a question if i mean i think i wanted to answer

05:54:27.660 uh sorry i think he mentioned something about bodily harm and then i want to say that that was

05:54:31.820 something that we had not established because in the case of what happened at that at the la or the

05:54:38.140 latasha harland's case was that she didn't show any signs of going to inflict bodily harm or any harm 1.00

05:54:43.340 was going to be done on the owner but the owner had just you know done a really rash decision and

05:54:47.820 decided to kill her on the spot and so i agree but that makes your position more inconsistent

05:54:52.940 that makes my position is that yeah it makes your position worse even because your position is you're

05:54:57.980 not allowed to kill somebody over 50 cents but you can't over a couple hundred thousand dollars

05:55:01.820 no no no my position is that you should not kill someone over things then how come if they're taking

05:55:06.700 unless unless they are hypothetical i gave you all they're doing is taking my things and it was okay

05:55:11.660 to kill them in that no you said they were burning down your house what if you were in the house

05:55:15.740 that's a thing no that's a thing that is so for example like people die in fires like your life 0.80

05:55:21.580 is at stake i'm out of the house i'm out of the house i i explained that i'm not in the house oh

05:55:26.460 outside okay they burn they burn the house down they steal everything in my bank account they take 0.89

05:55:32.220 off with my car yeah leave us in the snow okay i think that you don't have the right to kill them

05:55:37.100 your life is not injured like you're not in direct harm yeah okay because i was assuming you're in the 0.93

05:55:42.220 house hang on do i have the right to call the police to come stop them of course what the heck

05:55:47.580 if the police show up and kill them were they justified um i think that the police will face

05:55:53.420 those repercussions but i don't think the police was justified either okay so then all that we've

05:55:57.900 established is that we should let people steal yeah anything that we do to stop people from stealing 0.99

05:56:05.340 shit could lead to their death if you try to stop them from stealing shit yeah i don't think it's 0.99

05:56:10.300 worth it to kill someone over things uh okay last question bernie made off he took off with the life 1.00

05:56:15.500 savings of tens of thousands of people who were dependent on it okay police officers should not have gone

05:56:22.540 and arrested him because it could have led to a standoff in which he died correct um wait i'm very

05:56:30.540 confused so you're saying that the police should not arrest him because the police could kill him

05:56:35.020 or the wait the police i mean i think that it's just stuff i mean if the cops come to arrest you

05:56:41.900 that escalates the situation it could lead to your death

05:56:45.980 it could but it didn't i don't know like it's just like but it could yeah but it could it could

05:56:51.100 and the police and whoever kills him is going to face repercussions for doing that yeah yeah because you've

05:56:57.740 had you have people shoot up schools and they don't like get killed like what the heck no yes

05:57:03.180 they do all the time they don't know unless they surrender unless they can unconditionally

05:57:08.220 surrender drop their weapons and then get and go peaceably but if they shoot at the police guess

05:57:14.700 what the police oh yeah they shoot at the police yes but i'm saying that like i don't know i just

05:57:18.700 think about like all these like school shooting cases i've seen and heard and also experience like

05:57:23.660 the shooter that comes onto the campus i don't see them get shot yeah that's because they do all the

05:57:29.820 time what it happens all the time no wait the school shootings happen but i don't think about i

05:57:35.820 don't i've never heard about school shooters getting shot well what are you talking about

05:57:40.700 i can give you a so much of a list of these various shooters who've been shot in the commission of these

05:57:46.700 crimes i also a lot of them just self-delete before that can even happen if they don't self-delete

05:57:52.540 there's a very high probability they would have been killed by police but the thing is is that the

05:57:56.940 police show quite a lot of restraint in some of these situations because what they do these school 1.00

05:58:02.700 shooters who are total cowards and disgusting and pathetic they put down their guns and surrender 0.99

05:58:09.740 and that's kind of if you're not an immediate threat your hands are up you've you've surrendered your 1.00

05:58:17.740 uh firearm i mean there's still a chance they could get shot but the police are gonna take you

05:58:23.340 into custody and then they're gonna you're gonna face justice in the court system you had a question

05:58:28.780 then i gotta move it on so so just going back to the racism thing really fast if i'm applying for

05:58:33.660 a job any job let's let's call it i'm going in to be an attorney for a certain law firm and there's two

05:58:41.660 candidates i'm one of them and the other woman is black the woman doing the hiring is also black 0.90

05:58:48.300 the other candidate applying for the job is less qualified than me came from a worse grad school

05:58:55.980 worse else uh lsat scores everything everything is everything is worse they scored worse on the bar

05:59:01.980 exam and the black woman hires the black candidate over me is that racist um i don't think it's racist 0.93

05:59:09.820 because there are people with more highly better stats than like for example like i don't know

05:59:15.100 i think that stats are really irrelevant at the end of the day it's about your experience and the

05:59:18.700 impact that you leave on the interviewer so i don't know about the impact that you left on her and so

05:59:24.380 one last question on this um what do you think about for like do you think it would be racist for

05:59:29.020 example if in order for harvard or another ivy league school to allow more uh like black minorities into

05:59:35.740 university they actually uh reduce the amount of asian candidates that they accept into harvard

05:59:42.220 do you think that that would be a racist policy um i should have debate with my friend about this i

05:59:47.740 end up crying but i don't think it's racist yeah i was on he was on the other side it wouldn't be

05:59:53.980 racist towards asian people i know so asian people if they score really high in the sats and they otherwise

06:00:00.940 uh you know would have gotten in but the university is like we're capped we're capped right is refusing

06:00:10.380 to let them in even though you know via merit they're more deserving of it they're more intelligent

06:00:15.340 whatever it is and they're letting in people who have scored worse in certain uh tests like the sats

06:00:21.900 you don't think that this would be evidence of uh racism towards asian people i think that schools

06:00:27.420 and similar with companies everyone wants diversity and so it's not up to us on what their criteria for

06:00:33.020 diversity is well if it's publicly like a lot of these uh universities receive public funds so i mean

06:00:41.020 you would be discriminating on the basis of uh race in this situation which is not allowed by the united

06:00:47.740 states government so i think in my experience i also was like a college financial coach as well but

06:00:53.900 i do think that um certain schools will reject students that seem too perfect and because they

06:00:59.340 want to make sure that their acceptance rate is like very um competitive so if a student has like

06:01:04.460 these amazing stats they might think that oh if we even we accept this kid there's no way this kid's

06:01:08.380 gonna accept our our acceptance letter anyway so they might reject them out of that so that's actually

06:01:13.260 like uh like a would you be okay if uh you you were applying for a job and you were clearly more

06:01:18.940 qualified but the job was given to somebody else who was clearly less qualified than you and the

06:01:23.740 sole reason they were given the job was because they were uh like a different minority um you'd be

06:01:29.260 fine with that i think i definitely would be fine with it just because like yeah that maybe they have

06:01:33.500 a similar life experience or like they had that candidate had something more aligned with what

06:01:37.820 that employer was looking for like even though because i know friends that like get these senior

06:01:43.100 roles and they have no experience that much experience but like they have like this one thing that they

06:01:47.020 did at like 20 different things that they've done and because of that one experience and now

06:01:51.660 they're able to lead teams where people are like you know double their age yeah i just want to ask

06:01:55.980 one final question so you're in favor of racism against asian people am i in favor of racism against

06:02:01.420 asian people no i'm not what i have a question it seems like you are i have a question oh um so i'm

06:02:09.100 asian but i have a white last name where would i fall um i think that you're you look asian but if

06:02:14.940 you're looking at my resume where would i fall uh i think that i don't if you wait what do you tick

06:02:20.860 on the box though yeah i tick asian but if you're just looking at bailey slaughter what would like

06:02:26.780 what what would you say i will say you're a recruiter i mean if you take asian then you're asian yeah but

06:02:32.940 you're up blackbird donated 200 thank you blackbird i think one more time i swear also chair one

06:02:45.820 sup ma exclamation mark dot dot dot lol oh he's he said sup ma what's that mean do you want to say

06:02:54.620 something back to blackbird look into this camera give him a wink i am a virgin what

06:02:59.900 okay oh i don't i didn't mean to trigger it twice um santa claus really quick bailey go ahead

06:03:10.780 quick questions i gotta move it on you have something for oh okay go ahead i think yeah go

06:03:15.740 ahead my last question for you is can you just give us one example of something that you would consider

06:03:20.060 racist can i get one example of something that would be racism to you um i think it's because based

06:03:26.380 on my race then even though it's like a okay so what happened to me as a teacher the reason why i

06:03:31.580 no longer teach is because something happened to me and i felt like it was really racist actually

06:03:36.220 and we're both minorities in this case but a situation happened where both of our family

06:03:40.620 members had passed away um two weeks apart actually um and then she was able to get one month off and i

06:03:46.780 only got and i actually got in trouble for even asking for a day off and so i felt like that experience

06:03:52.620 in itself was racist and the principal has sent out a newsletter saying like oh this teacher's

06:03:58.060 family member had passed so we need to like give her our condolences like say like you know help her

06:04:03.500 out whatever but then in my experience like they're like oh sorry you don't have enough pto just because

06:04:08.060 i'm actually curious um what was the was it a race part it was the race i'm asian no no hold on

06:04:15.900 hold on hold on hold on hold on who died for you uh uncle uncle who died for them uh i have no idea

06:04:23.100 they wouldn't disclose that so maybe it was like their husband or their they weren't married they

06:04:27.580 were so she was okay a father a mom they wouldn't disclose it so i don't know yeah well then you can't

06:04:33.500 make any determination here because like i'm not trying to be insensitive towards your uncle but like

06:04:38.300 a cousin three times removed i think is like less of a grievance than like your mom your father but

06:04:46.380 i was just asking to go to the funeral so i asked to go to the funeral can i get a day off to go to

06:04:51.100 the funeral i'm not asking for like a week off a much of uh like a fp mpra i'm not asking for that

06:04:58.220 which is what she had asked so there was unfair treatment i think it was unfair so you didn't get to

06:05:02.060 go to the funeral no i went and when i came back the repercussions were i got fired yeah

06:05:08.140 but okay what does it have to do what what does it have to do they actually say the termination

06:05:13.580 was for the what sorry what did they actually say you were terminated for um they said it was for

06:05:19.740 a month prior a kid has shown a tiktok video to the class and i didn't stop him and the tiktok video

06:05:25.340 was lionel messi kicking off soccer ball so they put inappropriate use of social media in the classroom

06:05:30.940 because they couldn't fire me for that yeah okay so what you're doing is just making this up right

06:05:37.340 i'm not making this up because it was my experience you were fired for a legitimate reason

06:05:42.540 and then you're saying no i just think that they were trying to get revenge against me because i

06:05:47.580 went to a funeral oh but like what actually demonstrates that other than you just uh because

06:05:53.580 i didn't have any problems with admin or anything like legality wise until i'd asked to go to that

06:05:59.820 funeral and then when i came back from that funeral so it was on a friday and so i stayed in la friday

06:06:05.660 saturday sunday and i flew back to sf and then when i flew back and the first day of school like

06:06:10.860 they were like oh miss ivy weren't taking to like the office and then they said that you're not allowed

06:06:14.700 to like talk to anyone we're putting you on administrative leave so that's what happened

06:06:19.340 and then when i come back from my ministry wait hold on hold on hold on yeah a couple questions here so

06:06:26.140 did you ask to get the time off and they told you no and you went anyways yes i said i was sick i called in sick

06:06:32.540 okay um so i used my sick days yeah what and so why do you come to the conclusion that it has anything

06:06:44.860 to do with race oh so what happened was i thought the treatment was unfair okay yeah yeah sure i'm gonna

06:06:51.420 i'll go ahead and grant it was unfair how did you come to the conclusion it has anything to do with race

06:06:56.220 i okay this is my experience so i don't want to like generalize that this is like i just think

06:07:01.980 that what happened to me i felt like it was racist because the principle okay the principle was afro

06:07:08.060 latina and then the co-worker was afro latina that's it and i was asian i have a question what's your

06:07:14.700 stance on affirmative action where's the racism part wait she i think she's like saying there was

06:07:20.700 favoritism yeah to this other race and she got less favorable treatment but it's still that that 1.00

06:07:26.060 wouldn't indicate that there's actually any racism i mean i just think that because of so like what if

06:07:31.340 they just liked the other person more had nothing to do with race that could be it but i talked around

06:07:38.060 to other teachers and another asian teacher a grade below me she taught fourth grade she taught math

06:07:44.460 and she was also asian and then she had another teacher that was teaching english and he was

06:07:50.780 black and then what i heard from her experience was like oh yeah miss ivy like i heard about what

06:07:54.780 happened with your family i'm so sorry but i'll be honest like the just you know this happened to me

06:07:59.740 where i showed up to school with 108 degree fever and i wasn't allowed to go home meanwhile my co-teacher

06:08:05.660 got a week off sorry i don't know what the fever was but she had a bad fever and she asked to go home

06:08:10.220 and she wasn't allowed to but meanwhile the co-teacher was able to take a week off to go to

06:08:14.940 japan for vacation so that's why i'm just because wait just this demonstrates a racial element okay

06:08:22.300 sorry he was able but just but just speak like let me ask you a question bad thing happens to black

06:08:28.620 person did that bad thing happen because the person was black no okay i because i don't know what that 0.77

06:08:37.100 but like just because something bad happens to you and you happen to be whether you're white black

06:08:43.500 asian latino doesn't matter you can't immediately jump to it happened because i'm of my race it

06:08:50.700 happened because of racism i would need some sort of evidence yeah yeah what was the uh what was the

06:08:56.860 tiktok video it was she said it was messy yeah kicking soccer ball so the kid did like an edit and it

06:09:05.100 was a month prior and during that time actually an admin was in my class to watch because i had

06:09:11.020 like a they were doing a walkthrough and so they saw that i you know i was showing that and then so

06:09:16.620 they didn't say anything to me after that like they didn't say that was wrong nothing and so it's so

06:09:20.860 funny that month later they had said like oh that was the read that's the reason why you're getting

06:09:25.580 fired now even though i didn't get so an administrator was coming through your class and inspecting it

06:09:31.580 yeah saw that something was inappropriate which was happening launched an investigation after the

06:09:37.420 investigation was done right when you came back from this trip they coincidentally fired you for a

06:09:42.940 legitimate reason no i think you're getting the timeline wrong i think you're getting the timeline

06:09:48.540 wrong i'm saying that the month ago this had happened and then a month later right between this

06:09:58.060 between the video being shown and between me getting fired was a month apart they launched an

06:10:03.260 investigation two days before they had fired me i mean sorry two days before they fired me so then

06:10:08.940 like it was like not related at all right but then they need a reason all right that's cool um i have

06:10:15.500 to move on to the next thing so uh are men the primary victims of war to which i think it's only you

06:10:22.060 you or actually callie you uh say no and then ivy you say no why is that well um

06:10:36.620 oh what was the question i'm so sorry it's okay ivy ivy was listening go ahead

06:10:41.100 uh i think she might have a good answer i feel like i talked a lot no she didn't hear it

06:10:45.020 after i listen okay so i think that in war i think women and children are the primary victims

06:10:51.340 of war yeah question let's remove children from it who's the primary victim of war men or women 0.98

06:10:56.700 um that's tough because i guess i guess it i guess there'll be more casualties with men

06:11:02.380 so men in that case i was thinking about women and children combined yeah okay well let's just

06:11:09.580 split it why do women immediately get the social status of children i mean just because like we 1.00

06:11:15.340 think about people that were able to fight in wars back then and then the ones that carried weapons and

06:11:19.900 were able to fight were men because they were sexist they're saying because you think that's

06:11:23.900 wait you think that's bad i mean no i didn't say it's bad no no sorry so i'm using sexism as in a

06:11:29.980 term where it doesn't include power now so i'm using but wouldn't this sexist sexism benefit women 0.99

06:11:35.740 a sexist feminism no this you said it's sexist that women couldn't fight i mean it's like back 0.97

06:11:42.460 then maybe there were some women that wanted to fight and they couldn't and they couldn't don't 1.00

06:11:45.900 you think that's privilege isn't that privilege i guess is it privilege a woman can't fight in wars 1.00

06:11:52.220 yeah they yeah i think so to protect you yeah to protect you i wouldn't want to go to the military

06:11:57.420 but so i'm just confused here you said uh between men so if it's just men and women you think it's

06:12:03.420 men that are the primary victims of war but if you include children then it's women and children

06:12:09.740 women and children yeah because like i think that like oh sorry yes why so i think that you know

06:12:15.260 during wars like a lot happened like i don't know you because i watched like human rights film and

06:12:20.460 like you know the rape of like nanking and stuff like that like you learn a lot about like comfort

06:12:24.700 women being used in like all these asian countries japan korea vietnam um you know and you just think 1.00

06:12:31.820 like oh wow like women and children are being used like it was like you know underage children so i

06:12:37.180 think that uh men being used men were like fighting each other yes also the infirm and elderly and the

06:12:44.700 ones who couldn't fight were used experimentally just like women were in those particular instances 1.00

06:12:50.220 that you're talking about like nanking but let me ask you this question let me ask it in reverse

06:12:54.540 who's a primary victim of war uh men and children or women um i think i already said men so men and

06:13:02.540 children then right yeah yeah children yeah i don't know i just didn't understand why why children

06:13:07.580 instantly get lumped in with women i know right i think that always happens like when you're evacuating

06:13:12.460 it's like women and children first i like i think that so female that's that whole chivalry thing 1.00

06:13:17.420 that yeah i guess so yeah yeah yeah like a carryover yeah yeah yeah um well yeah so i mean

06:13:23.900 definitely bad things absolutely do happen to women in war that are kind of more specifically gendered

06:13:29.260 when it comes to their victimization but uh even going ahead and granting that and yes of course

06:13:36.140 absolutely terrible um how can you and also one typically the war front is pretty far away women have 0.60

06:13:44.060 time to like escape that uh sometimes like invading armies if they're moving really quickly they can

06:13:48.460 go through so like civil uh areas of civilization where there are still popular there's still like

06:13:53.900 civilian population um but i mean you see this especially like world war ii when the russians were

06:13:59.420 going through germany but so but so so so so what well i mean what where do you um like would you if

06:14:11.980 if you could put a hundred men to death to prevent one woman from being uh s-aid would you do it 0.64

06:14:18.140 what who am i my girl or guy i'm confused oh am i like the person in power that's like doing this like

06:14:24.220 if you had to put a hundred men to death to prevent one woman from getting s-aid would you do it i think

06:14:30.780 that um you know what what does that call i forgot what it's called but there's a word for it but

06:14:36.060 it's like you want to have the greatest amount of good for like the greatest amount of people and

06:14:39.260 i think in that case it's like a hundred men versus one woman yeah so what's your answer so

06:14:44.060 the the hundred men you would i would not kill them brenda it seemed like you actually had a

06:14:48.620 position on this oh no i'm sorry would you kill the hundred men i was just fidgeting i'm sorry but 0.98

06:14:53.980 would you kill the hundred men to save one woman from essay would i kill 100 men to save one woman 0.99

06:15:00.540 i wouldn't kill anyone you if you had to choose 0.99

06:15:10.780 i don't know i can't i can't kill i wouldn't kill anyone you have to choose though

06:15:16.380 who says a woman is getting killed she just said he just said essay

06:15:20.860 who's saying the woman's getting killed no no he's don't confuse it more uh which one did you pick

06:15:26.380 yeah well you're wait wait no no no no no hold on hold on just a button just push a button 100

06:15:33.100 men die or a woman gets essayed it's hard for me to push the button because one person eventually 0.97

06:15:39.580 gets hurt and one person eventually 100 people versus one person they either or people yet end

06:15:46.620 up getting hurt because i've been essayed before so it's hard for me to to make that decision to like

06:15:51.500 have that happen i know it's a hypothetical it's just i think this is like digital footprint you

06:15:56.700 know what i mean so it's like i can't make that decision

06:16:02.380 so you would let 100 men die then i never said that well if you had to pick one

06:16:07.580 i can't pick i'm sorry i'm not juicy right now for this how about let me make it simpler would you

06:16:12.860 send 100 innocent men to prison to prevent one man from walking free who 100 essayed a woman

06:16:19.420 to prison to prison uh

06:16:27.180 yeah but are they gonna get like the dad's penalty no no but uh they spend three years

06:16:33.820 do they do anything they spend three years but they do anything to put themselves in prison or

06:16:37.900 they're innocent okay let me repeat the question i'll repeat the question would you send 100 innocent

06:16:43.020 men to prison for three years to prevent one man from walking free who 100 percent provably

06:16:52.140 essayed a woman first of all i'm sorry for getting you frustrated it's okay

06:16:57.660 well yeah i just i said yeah i said yeah i would send them 100 innocent men how about a thousand

06:17:02.780 innocent men

06:17:09.340 i don't i'm not good with these i i don't i don't it's hard for me what's the limit it's hard i don't

06:17:15.260 know it's hard for me to to like yes i know it's hard to answer the question

06:17:21.420 what i don't understand what's hard about it you you answered it for a hundred well it's hard because i i

06:17:25.740 think about my digital footprint and like i also what is what is your definition of essay

06:17:33.180 what do you mean oh i mean i'm just using that as a filler for grape i know that no but i'm asking

06:17:38.220 her like what is it like you were held at knife point by some random guy or like i mean i'm just

06:17:43.500 asking her personally hang on the granular details there we can't really discuss because the nature of

06:17:48.060 the program oh okay um i don't think i don't think anybody's particularly confused about i did have

06:17:52.620 one question for you though chair one i do tend to ask this a lot how would you feel if you didn't

06:17:58.540 eat breakfast this morning i would feel hungry because yeah i like to eat so you can't engage with

06:18:09.900 hypotheticals i'm sorry so you can't engage with hypotheticals the ones where i could put myself in that

06:18:16.540 position like i what do you mean digital footprint like what's the what what is this digital footprint

06:18:22.460 thing what does that mean oh well this is going on the internet and if if i truly don't believe

06:18:27.980 like in a serious like like these topics are serious you know what i mean and if i truly like

06:18:33.740 can't answer it with like the full capability that that i should answer these serious topics with and

06:18:39.340 i'm not going to do that because then well you did i mean you you won't say a thousand men but you did

06:18:43.820 say you'd send a hundred innocent men because i could comprehend that and i'm just like what's that quote

06:18:50.620 about better to let like a hundred i don't know what is it anybody know what i'm talking about

06:18:58.060 better to let a hundred uh guilty oh better to let like a hundred guilty men walk free than to jail

06:19:04.700 like to uh deliver injustice to one innocent person something like that but okay but you said it was in

06:19:10.780 i thought you said that the guy who the guy actually did something he did do it yeah okay no so in this

06:19:16.860 scenario it's almost the inverse so it's better to let a hundred guilty men go than to imprison one

06:19:24.860 innocent person and that's actually i think the basis for the united states criminal justice

06:19:30.780 uh system bailey what do you think about this one would you send a hundred innocent men to prison to 0.99

06:19:37.100 prevent one man from walking free who 100 essayed a woman um in my opinion no i would not i would um

06:19:46.860 i would save the innocent men but that that's my opinion where did ivy go we were talking about the 0.97

06:19:53.340 primary victims of war um interesting uh and then there's a super chat coming for her in just a sec

06:20:00.140 well while we're doing that by the way blackbird she's gone from the table so i'm waiting for your

06:20:04.460 message to i apologize for the delay uh let's do a couple shout outs here real quick read is 100 tts

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06:20:23.180 contribution to go towards us we have joseph thank you for the 10 man really appreciate it pulled it

06:20:27.740 from his ammo fund thank you so much joseph really appreciate it mitchell sent a dollar thank you so much

06:20:32.860 man appreciate it uh okay let's see here uh we have do we have anything there's a few more but i'll

06:20:39.260 wait until ivy's back so we have uh let's see why don't we get finish up the pre-show notes uh we did 0.63

06:20:46.540 everything for brinda everything for cali uh oh patrice we need to still do yours uh let's see

06:20:55.020 uh worst breakup of your lives worst uh you were a fine dining waitress you also strip strip club 1.00

06:21:04.460 bartender yeah i'm off the fine line and you're so your ex-fiancee asked you requested for you to

06:21:10.940 stop doing that into the mic closer to the mic yeah all of it quit everything quit all my jobs move

06:21:15.500 be with him travel with him travel with him for work everything just drop it and i i did you know what

06:21:21.580 really quick going back to you brinda like at least with the killing one don't you almost think

06:21:28.620 not answering like wouldn't that almost have a worse impact on your digital footprint because

06:21:37.660 it seems so obvious that the answer ought to be like i'm gonna save a hundred people from death 0.94

06:21:44.380 death look uh essay's fucking terrible it's a disgusting crime but like a hundred dead people 0.99

06:21:53.980 like yeah it's really like like oh would you rather save your son or your daughter it's like a really 0.99

06:21:58.540 fucked up hard thing to think about right yeah no i i hear where you come from and i i think it's because 0.90

06:22:03.660 i it's not so when i say digital footprint it's not that i care what people think from like from like 0.81

06:22:10.140 their perspectives it's um i'm answering is what it's with what aligns with how i feel about myself

06:22:15.740 and if i don't know if i don't know the answer to the question then and someone wants to view

06:22:20.540 me not answering it in in that way then cool because like that that i don't care but um i'm

06:22:26.380 just i'm not gonna answer it because that's what aligns with what's inside of here yeah but if you i

06:22:30.540 guess what i'm trying to say is if you do have an answer but you're like i don't want to share the

06:22:34.540 answer because i'm worried about the digital firm no i just don't know i just i but i think people can make

06:22:38.300 an inference by like the refusal to answer the question like that could be almost worse i don't

06:22:45.260 know anyways whatever another big thing and then it's worse but i just it's because i just don't

06:22:49.020 know i can't answer it uh patrice can you read this for us actually no alina you you need to talk go 0.86

06:22:58.140 ahead speak chair i can't really see chair one you don't realize it but you're fascist it is better to 0.70

06:23:04.140 let 10 guilty free than to imprison one innocent man this is the foundation of western justice that

06:23:11.980 is the foundation of western justice your lack of education shows do you want to respond to

06:23:17.900 christopher thank you christopher the hundred i would say like thanks for um thanks for like the

06:23:24.460 information and yeah maybe i should go home and i should learn some more think about it think about

06:23:29.100 ivy we need you back we have a chat for you somebody wants to say something to you ivy

06:23:34.140 they here it comes all right

06:23:40.060 blackbird donated 200 ivy just be talking like that girl let the girls next to you get a chance 1.00

06:23:49.100 to speak too you just keep talking and talking oh shit i know i talk a lot but that's why i was like 0.97

06:23:56.620 oh let her talk let her answer the question wait so fine just really quick on the primary victims of 0.99

06:24:01.500 war thing uh men or women um i think it was like men or women i think i said you said women and

06:24:08.620 children oh then men yeah okay yeah i guess one final i i mean you've already maybe you've changed

06:24:14.140 your position on this but like would you say that for example if a woman is going through birth and

06:24:19.820 there's a lot of physical pain uh what do you think she's the primary i wouldn't call her a victim but 0.96

06:24:26.780 like she's the primary sufferer of physical pain but as a man watching your wife give birth that could

06:24:34.700 be difficult and you would suffer too to some degree seeing her in physical pain so do you think the man is

06:24:42.300 the primary victim of or primary sufferer of the pregnancy no what the heck oh no she squeezed my 1.00

06:24:51.260 hand really hard when she was giving birth you know this actually was a video with this two beautiful

06:24:56.700 couple in la like but the girl was like filming the husband because he was crying so much and she was

06:25:01.900 like dude it's not even as painful as him like seeing him cry like she wasn't crying but he was crying a lot and so i think that reminds me of what you say but i think overall that was just like a very special case

06:25:11.420 uh just a few more of these we won't be able to hit all of them do women have equal rights to men in the usa brinda 1.00

06:25:16.620 you marked both so i don't really know is that like a maybe um yeah i think because i i had listened to

06:25:25.820 this podcast of how like um like rights have like changed but i just i said maybe because i don't know

06:25:31.900 oh okay uh patrice you say yes uh callie you say no ivy you say no uh

06:25:47.580 bailey says she says yes stephanie you say yes so i think it's just callie ivy

06:26:01.900 i'm your friend uh so i guess really quick like uh you think women don't have equal rights to 1.00

06:26:10.940 men in the united states how so um i don't think that uh how do you say i said that right but i

06:26:19.020 would say i can't think about specific laws right because i i didn't really study that but i think about

06:26:24.700 the experience experience yeah i think it's really about experience and i think that maybe it's like

06:26:29.900 more like a not what was it it's like more of a de facto law like you know a society law like rather

06:26:35.980 than a de jure law made by like our government um and which i will i would say like maybe women aren't 1.00

06:26:42.300 given the same equal rights as men de facto wise not de jure yeah what's an example um an example would be

06:26:56.140 can't think of one right now oh gosh um i think about overall i guess i guess i'm thinking about

06:27:02.060 more about back then like um i think about my grandparents like my grandma wasn't allowed to

06:27:08.140 like read or write like this like in her wherever she grew up like they just didn't let women read 0.99

06:27:13.340 or write but then men in the united states i know she didn't but this yeah she grew up where she grew

06:27:19.980 up in like a small village in vietnam i mean look i don't know the specifics of the vietnamese policy in

06:27:28.380 the but we didn't say equal rights in the united states did we it is in the united states yes it says it

06:27:34.700 says yes in the united states oh i didn't read that it says equal rights so i guess in america

06:27:40.380 i can't think of one so i guess i will have to default you said it was your grandma yeah she

06:27:44.140 couldn't she wasn't able to learn was it wasn't that also the case for like most of the peasantry 0.73

06:27:51.580 in like almost all countries like i would say most of the men were illiterate too

06:27:57.740 i think that it's like different because my grandpa and her came from the same social class

06:28:01.500 class but like wait how how's your grandma this is your grandma yeah my grandma in vietnam yeah she's

06:28:06.940 like 60. 65. so how old was she in the late 1960s do you know when she was born i actually have no

06:28:16.860 idea wait i don't even know her birthday we don't talk about that vietnam was like late 60s early 70s

06:28:22.540 right are you talking about the war yeah but i don't know if they would have been how old's your

06:28:26.460 grandpa uh my grandpa is like 70 70. so wait 70. how old would he have been during vietnam the vietnam

06:28:36.540 war i think he was probably like 35. hold on 30. no hey guys i just want to let you know it was nice

06:28:45.660 to meet all of you i appreciate it coming on this fine fine evening and having this great discussion

06:28:51.740 you're all very very kind tonight thank you andrew that felt like we had some really good back and

06:28:56.060 force and uh it was nice to meet all of you andrew thank you uh for joining us shoot us over a raid

06:29:01.420 appreciate it man thank you thank you gotcha take thank you good night uh so i wait maybe the chat's

06:29:07.660 going to be able to tell me this chat do you have the number how old how old would the grand grandfather

06:29:12.620 be at this age i don't know 15 was he would he have been vc i don't know or not vc the uh it's

06:29:21.500 vietnam that that's the yeah yeah it would have been he would have been like the nva or wait hold

06:29:28.220 on am i getting i'm getting my shit mixed up my family was not really involved in the war yeah it's 0.84

06:29:33.100 like there's people like neutral but they were in vietnam yeah they're in vietnam yeah you don't have to 0.89

06:29:37.340 pick a side you can just yeah but i don't know if it's like okay my mom she couldn't read and write but

06:29:41.340 like my dad was getting education no he's getting like gunned down by vcs yeah but again i said my

06:29:49.420 family didn't uh participate in the war i don't know if it was my the choice was between like living in

06:29:55.260 a tunnel in the jungle of vietnam versus not being able to read i think i and then just like getting 0.98

06:30:02.780 fucking napalmed by the united states government but fucking agent orange and shit no yeah sure there was 0.99

06:30:09.340 indiscriminate yeah there's indiscriminate napalm bombing yeah in the vietnam war but it's like 1.00

06:30:13.900 they were like a little more insulated more more protected so i mean i think it's kind of probably

06:30:20.060 worse like yeah your grandma couldn't like read and write or wasn't allowed to do that i don't even

06:30:25.740 know what the case is there but like your grandpa was like getting napalmed like what no again my my

06:30:32.700 grandpa did not find no i'm not saying that he would have maybe he would have been of the age where he

06:30:37.820 would have been oh he was of the age he's way older like than that like when the war ended i

06:30:42.860 think they had my mom at that time so like they were able to i mean the war was like what 10 years

06:30:48.460 i think it was a long time yeah so i don't know 10 years maybe they were like above yeah they were

06:30:53.820 like 16 yeah they're probably 16 so they probably would have been able to fight but he didn't

06:30:59.740 well wait if you were 20 in 1970 that would make you 75 yeah so i guess he's 75 we don't really

06:31:10.380 celebrate his birthday so i don't know how old he is he's like 70 75 yeah we don't keep track so

06:31:15.100 he would have been fighting age during the vietnam war yeah i said that he was supposed to yeah i don't

06:31:18.860 know look your your grandma couldn't she wasn't allowed to learn how to read and write your grandpa 0.95

06:31:24.620 was of the fighting age where he was getting he well i don't know what side of the fucking conflict 0.97

06:31:29.100 no no again they didn't pick us like they were just like affected by the war like they were just 0.93

06:31:33.420 trying to not get killed right but there were vietnamese there were like vietnamese fighting on

06:31:37.900 both sides uh no it's like i think it's a majority of people like in any war-torn country like you can

06:31:43.740 think about like in germany like are they fighting like actively fighting or there's people that are just

06:31:49.020 living and going about their daily lives yeah but i feel like being forced to fight in a war is worse

06:31:53.500 than not being allowed to learn how to read or write no one was forcing my grandpa to fight in

06:31:57.740 a war you're saying there wasn't a military conscription in vietnam i mean it depends on

06:32:02.060 what side of vietnam you lived in i'm look i'm not an expert in the vietnamese conflict i'm pretty sure

06:32:07.980 whether you're vc i don't know if the the other side is called the nva i'm pretty sure there's military

06:32:13.660 conscription yeah they were like taking boys and like sending them off to like fight oh that's

06:32:17.820 oh they're sending boys were they sending girls oh that's even worse thank you for bringing that up

06:32:22.620 yeah they're sending child child soldiers that's even and they were just boys right yeah oh that's

06:32:28.620 what what were the the children uh girls doing i don't know they're probably forcing them to like 0.99

06:32:34.540 they weren't getting napalmed they're probably forcing them to become comfort women and yeah the 1.00

06:32:39.740 most famous picture of getting napalm was like of that girl running you know so she's here in the

06:32:45.180 states now yeah good talk um all right i gotta move it on to uh i think maybe this is the final

06:32:53.740 one are women oppressed in the united states to which uh i think it's just you guys again

06:33:02.380 ivy you said yes women are oppressed in the united states why are they oppressed 1.00

06:33:05.580 why that why are they oppressed yeah why women how how are women oppressed i guess maybe it's about

06:33:11.260 our experience i mean because i grew up in a very asian family where my mom was like you have to do

06:33:16.060 this because you're a woman and so that's why i think i had that experience where i think women are 1.00

06:33:19.900 getting oppressed yeah but like isn't there a massive amount of pressure on men in asian families

06:33:27.180 i don't know they get treated like royalty what are you talking about you got to succeed

06:33:30.780 same with me i have to succeed everyone has to succeed to be from an asian family regardless of

06:33:34.460 gender okay yeah who's the main provider usually in an asian family um in vietnamese families it was 0.56

06:33:42.220 funny women because the men are bad with money really vietnamese culture yeah i think because of 1.00

06:33:48.380 some trauma or whatever but like usually it's like a common thing where like vietnamese dads will

06:33:54.060 like gamble and be very abusive and the moms work at nail salons to provide for the whole family 1.00

06:33:59.100 yeah uh well here maybe i can that's like very racist i mean that's a stereotype would you say

06:34:04.460 when it comes to the oppression do you think the gender pay gap is evidence of female oppression um 0.96

06:34:09.740 yeah i guess there are instances of i mean i you know in my experience do i feel like there's gender

06:34:15.260 gay i said yes because like yeah you believe in the i did say i believe in it just because in my

06:34:20.300 experience i don't i haven't had that experience where like i get paid less because i'm female

06:34:24.940 but i just read about these other people's experiences and i think that overall i cannot

06:34:29.580 you know yeah say i'm like oh i guess there is like a gender pay gap i don't think there is like

06:34:35.820 like think about i think like people in like director roles and stuff like you see mainly men and like

06:34:41.660 these like high level positions of like their ceo directors and so i think that these um opportunities

06:34:47.980 where you can grow within a company oftentimes are given to males and i think like coming from

06:34:52.780 asia why do you say given why don't you say earned oh i mean it's like yeah yeah earned i earned earned

06:34:59.580 by males yeah you know well do you think that maybe you think it's just given to men on a no i don't

06:35:04.460 think so i think they definitely have to earn it like not just like any guy can get this like level

06:35:08.940 position but i would say yeah they definitely earned it but maybe there are some women that were like 1.00

06:35:13.740 overlook for that role because of their gender yeah could be i would lean more towards they earned 0.98

06:35:19.020 it okay they earned it i don't i don't actually dispute there that there's a greater proportion

06:35:23.980 i mean the data reflects this there is a greater proportion of men that are more in positions of

06:35:29.420 power or who have these kind of more lucrative jobs and corporations executives so forth um but it's

06:35:35.580 not clear to me if it was handed to well it isn't it's not the case that it's handed to them simply

06:35:40.140 because they're men no yeah yeah no man they definitely have the credentials they're able

06:35:44.700 to but maybe if it's like a woman or a guy like up for the same role maybe they might be leaning to 0.54

06:35:49.100 give it to a guy but i i there's a lot of ways to approach the gender wage gap discourse but i think

06:35:56.380 one of the most interesting novel ones that i don't really hear other people talking about this besides

06:36:01.340 me to be honest is uh the social and mating pressure component here so didn't you say you want a

06:36:08.540 guy to pay for the first date okay do you want a guy to provide for you like in a relationship you

06:36:13.500 want a guy that like second third date you want a guy to pay for the date those dates okay yeah and

06:36:18.060 then like you you want kids right uh yeah i think so okay and so do you want to take time off work

06:36:25.740 um to when you have kids i think it's like yeah like you said go ask the question like who is providing

06:36:32.380 then because like if you know the guy is like doing all this and yeah yeah so i guess like yeah

06:36:39.820 i think that's important to take off time do my friends like they get maternity leave for their 0.99

06:36:43.500 little dogs like you should have it for kids too but so

06:36:49.980 in your own personal life even though it seems like you're maybe a bit more

06:36:53.260 more would you consider yourself more liberal progressive i don't know i guess i guess liberal

06:37:01.020 i guess progressive yeah okay but you still want a man to kind of be traditional in some

06:37:07.500 ways like pay for dates etc uh i want just to bring in the entire panel here we're i'm gonna ask you

06:37:13.420 like 10 different questions i just want show of hands for each uh are you attracted to men with status

06:37:19.180 show of hands status raise them high raise them high so we can see oh no uh raise your other hand

06:37:26.620 just because we're on this camera subconsciously though i do do okay uh are you attracted to men

06:37:31.900 who are successful show of hands are you attracted to men who make a lot of money

06:37:38.860 do you want a man who is a leader

06:37:40.060 no okay do you want a man who takes charge 1.00

06:37:49.580 no okay do you want men to take initiative

06:37:54.860 is that yeah initiative do you have have you ever asked a guy out on the first date

06:37:59.180 um on a first date i don't think i've ever asked a guy out and it's like this is a date it's like oh

06:38:03.820 let's hang out and i don't know if it was a date or not like it was just like oh let's get let's hang

06:38:07.980 out like to because i like because when i first moved to la i just wanted to hang out with like

06:38:11.500 a lot of people uh do you want a man to make the first move for everybody show of hands

06:38:17.500 make the first move okay uh do you want a man to plan the date

06:38:22.700 the first one yes yeah do you want a man to pay for the first date show of hands

06:38:29.180 no for you brinda uh do you want a man to go for the first kiss 1.00

06:38:32.940 like they should ask for permission right that would make it a little bit not sexy

06:38:39.900 oh really okay uh do you want a man to move things forward physically beyond just a kiss so

06:38:47.660 sex yeah uh do you want a man to go 50 50 do you want to go 50 50 with a man financially

06:38:55.660 do you want a man to take care of all the bills 1.00

06:38:57.820 wish wish do you want do you want to take do you want to take a few years off work when you have

06:39:06.780 kids um years is a long time years uh but years is a long time how about the cut do you want to take

06:39:17.980 months off work yeah yeah final one uh do you want to be a stay-at-home mom while your husband works 0.99

06:39:24.620 okay so you see all these show show of hands right i'll relate this to one the gender pay gap and

06:39:32.620 then two why men hold these positions of uh these executive positions leadership positions more so in

06:39:39.980 company couldn't it just be the case that because when it comes to romance and dating we're just

06:39:48.940 more experienced because of your own preferences like all the things i just listed leader take

06:39:57.100 charge initiative plan for first dates these would all translate to leadership positions we're more

06:40:06.620 practiced in making the first move taking initiative being leaders in our personal private

06:40:14.380 lives when it comes to romantic relationships i think that this is going to translate itself to being

06:40:21.420 more and i'm more attractive to employers so if you practice a certain like trait uh

06:40:32.780 like you're going to become good at it women don't have that same ability to practice for certain 1.00

06:40:40.540 traits that are deemed valuable in the corporate world in their romantic life so for example for

06:40:47.580 example and i'll let you come in just a sec uh somebody who's a skateboarder if they could become

06:40:54.220 really good at skateboarding that's going to translate to like snowboarding or surfing other board sports

06:41:01.180 so i don't know it just seems to me like or maybe like you're a really good swimmer that's going to

06:41:06.620 translate in a couple different ways you're going to be really you're going to be better at surfing

06:41:10.780 because surfing requires paddling so these skills that men develop in romantic pursuits lends themselves

06:41:20.300 to the corporate world and in addition to that in addition to that you all want you all said you're

06:41:27.500 attracted to men with status successful make money leaders you're attracted to all those traits

06:41:33.340 so you reward men who develop those traits that translate to the corporate world men don't

06:41:42.380 really care about your status your success your money it might be a nice little bonus but i don't

06:41:48.540 think it makes you actually more attractive to men and so when it comes to the gender pay gap or men

06:41:55.580 occupying there's a men are more likely to occupy these positions uh executive positions

06:42:04.140 it's because of you guys it's because of women oh you exert a mating pressure on men that we don't 1.00

06:42:14.060 exert on you like i would never a girl doesn't want to pay for the first date okay i don't care oh you

06:42:21.100 can't you're broke i don't care you're hot and broke don't care uh oh you work at chick-fil-a and 1.00

06:42:29.740 i'm an i'm an attorney don't care really but like a female attorney you think she's gonna date the guy 1.00

06:42:35.420 who works at chick-fil-a even if he's handsome i don't think so i don't think so and so we just value

06:42:42.060 different things so i think the wage gap just be completely explained away by by that you put such

06:42:50.220 a massive mating pressure on men they have to earn more they have to work harder because we we both 0.94

06:42:59.660 have to survive men and women that's that's a huge motivating factor

06:43:03.900 can y'all still get laid if you're broke king guys yes some broke guys yeah whatever but like

06:43:15.900 if the guy's not gonna take if the if 50 of the women are like the guy has to pay for the first date 1.00

06:43:22.700 that's a massive mating pressure like oh i have to as a guy we're not just thinking about our survival

06:43:29.100 we're thinking in order for me to attract a woman i need status i need money i need success i don't

06:43:36.700 think that probably crosses your like you probably don't think about like when it comes to attracting

06:43:40.940 men you don't think like the first step i gotta do or one of the steps i gotta do is like i gotta get

06:43:46.140 my money right before i can get a dude yeah i don't think you guys think that yeah oh you think that

06:43:50.700 yeah well it's not to get a dude it's because eventually like if i have if i am on pursuit to my

06:43:56.140 goals eventually i will attract a man who is also on pursuit to his goals but like i i do recognize

06:44:02.940 that like it is a little bit unconventional to like feel that way but that that's i was gonna ask

06:44:07.260 you the question if like do you feel as if like it is pressure on the male if the woman is also putting

06:44:14.540 pressure on herself and that's just what she wants in a relationship she wants she wants she wants someone 0.99

06:44:20.860 who's going to be a leader and and have these like ceo um traits because um she as well like 1.00

06:44:27.660 wants to learn and wants to have that do you feel like that is also putting pressure on the woman no

06:44:35.020 like like like like in her situation is that her is is that putting pressure on on males that she's 1.00

06:44:41.660 also putting pressure on herself like wouldn't that make it equal if she's putting what pressure 1.00

06:44:46.860 on herself um to have status to have money to have whatever yes i mean but it it wouldn't be for 1.00

06:44:55.980 romantic reasons like she wouldn't be like she'd be doing it for her own ambition her own ambition

06:45:02.620 but like the ambition is not fueled by like if i don't do x i won't be able to get a man i don't

06:45:11.180 think that thought crosses women's head but like as a guy you're thinking about that all the time and

06:45:17.740 like one of the considerations huh oh sorry oh you don't have to apologize but like as a guy oh you're

06:45:24.780 wait okay sorry sorry default i'm sorry it's okay like as men we are considering like okay

06:45:32.940 if i want to look economically financially attractive to a woman i have to be this successful i have to

06:45:38.860 make this much money i want to provide for a girl there's like maybe let's say it's 20 of women 1.00

06:45:45.420 want to be stay at home stay at home that means that if they want that 20 of the men have to make

06:45:53.340 enough money to be able to provide that for the woman so that's going to create such a significant 1.00

06:45:58.460 pressure on men to do that and then there's just downstream of that okay maybe she doesn't want 1.00

06:46:04.540 to be stay at home mom she wants guys to pay for dates she doesn't want to pay for dates massive 1.00

06:46:12.300 amount of social and mating pressure exerted from women to men yeah so it's interesting to hear that

06:46:20.060 because like in the area that i grew up um it was like very like like low like low income so

06:46:26.380 a lot of the times it was always 50 50 or it was always even sometimes i've had had friends who

06:46:32.780 have taken care of their partners um so like that's that's that's what i that's where i come from of

06:46:38.860 like seeing that and then i also seen the most extreme because i got into it of just like having a

06:46:43.340 male like fully take care um of a woman so it's just it's it's just interesting to hear that it's

06:46:49.100 like uh the kind of like embedded in like society it's like to to to feel the need to feel like you

06:46:55.260 have to do that in order to gain or to have a relationship yeah all right we're gonna do a roast

06:47:02.860 session here 20 uh we'll do 20 dollars we're gonna do 20 dollar roast session uh roast away let me get

06:47:10.460 that all set up though any uh there's a few more notes that we need to get through but any thoughts

06:47:15.100 from any of the panelists any topics you want to hit on maybe men are pissing you off in some way

06:47:19.260 you want to ask for advice i don't know uh anybody any but we're on air i do want to ask for advice

06:47:26.860 oh yeah what is it huh oh what you want to ask for advice go ahead do it okay okay i'm gonna do it

06:47:40.380 so so there's this guy who um i had we had seen each other uh twice and he's a guy who i asked out

06:47:48.700 and um i went to it with the intention that you know like i'm not in a place today and i'm not

06:47:56.540 gonna make the assumption that he is so i just wanted to like you know just like enjoy his company

06:48:01.980 i was really energetically attracted to him and it was the first time i ever felt this way so i um

06:48:07.820 really wanted to go out i had a product drop and i wanted to celebrate and i wanted to celebrate with

06:48:11.740 him and um i took him out to dinner and i paid for his dinner and um then he sends me like this text

06:48:19.820 um about like trying to like cut it off saying like i think we'll be just better off friends

06:48:24.300 but our friends but our friends and then i told him like what my stance was i was like okay like i

06:48:28.060 i totally understand your boundaries i thought we were just friends too um blah blah blah blah and

06:48:33.340 then he takes it back he's like oh actually i didn't know that you you felt this way actually like

06:48:39.820 okay that like we're good with where we're at and my question is um this is the first time where like

06:48:46.380 i've ever felt okay to like um contribute financially like in any type of like um like

06:48:54.860 obviously we're not in a relationship but just any type of like something that could be something

06:48:59.820 and i'm not attached to that feeling but i just know that okay so if we go with the flow like whatever

06:49:03.900 happens happens but because i did that i just i feel like maybe it might have scared him and i'd last

06:49:10.460 thing i want is to scare like a man away um so i was my advice my need for advice would be like

06:49:19.820 do i need to like lay back and not be so kind of like not assertive but um like i don't know like like

06:49:29.820 like do these things that society states a man should do if i if i want if a man wants to be with

06:49:39.580 you you'll know if a man men are hunt like we do live hunter-gatherer that it's biology if a man wants 0.78

06:49:47.020 you he will chase you if a man wants you he will let you know if a man wants to talk to you he will

06:49:51.580 text you if a man wants to be with you he will take the initiative to be with you a men a man who

06:49:56.780 actually wants you isn't going to play a game with you on this texting back and forth like

06:50:02.700 like oh today we're just friends but now because you said we're just friends now i want more

06:50:06.700 if a man wants you you will know i love that i agree with that thank you for sharing that was so

06:50:12.700 powerful like we touched on the subject earlier that men don't really express their emotions and

06:50:18.940 how like we tend to cry the most so i think whenever a guy decides to express their feelings and

06:50:24.620 say that they want to take you serious that we should uh like be like okay well he decided to

06:50:29.900 actually like express to me like about his feelings so therefore he must actually want me oh i don't

06:50:35.100 know that's a hot take it's like guys are you know they can be manipulative too they can fear that you're

06:50:40.060 leaving and they're like oh shoot i don't want to be alone so they can just say whatever they want

06:50:44.060 or you know say anything just to get you back but i think that yeah if you if he wants you like you

06:50:48.860 definitely would feel it by his actions not only his words but also his actions as well what made you want to pay for

06:50:54.300 dinner is he like a brokie no it was just i was was celebrating a product dropped and um i just

06:51:00.060 wanted to say i'd like to take care of the people that are around me and um i didn't do it in a way

06:51:04.540 where it's like oh i want something from this like it just i just enjoy taking people taking care of

06:51:08.460 people that are around me if i could do it yeah if i can do it i won't do it but if i could you know

06:51:16.460 chair four i can't hey guys what comment

06:51:21.020 this is

06:51:21.340 wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

06:51:29.340 no don't read that's not me the roast what was the roast what was the roast

06:51:34.140 no i guess okay can i ask a question then yeah if we do you want advice still or she gave you good

06:51:41.820 advice especially she gave you oh i'm almost all all advice i don't know this is new oh i gotta i'll

06:51:47.020 move it on though uh or did you have to ask something okay go ahead okay i know this is like

06:51:52.460 really like touchy subject but would would girls these days be interested in going on a like getting

06:52:00.780 paid to go on a date but it's not sexual so the guy's not allowed to touch you kiss you or do anything

06:52:07.340 you just he just wants someone to eat dinner with him and watch the movie or play golf and he pays

06:52:11.980 you for your time would you do it that's a sugar daddy it's not sugar daddy because i feel like you

06:52:17.260 have to give sugar to get that money the sugar is your presence have you done that have you done that

06:52:22.460 have i done that um no comment you don't know that is a big fat yes but i'm just wondering is that like

06:52:29.580 a bad thing if it's nothing sexual it's because i don't know if i should disclose that to like

06:52:35.340 future partners is that sex work does that would that be considered sex work like walking the fine

06:52:40.060 line between like escorting and not escorting like i feel like it is but it isn't like i don't know

06:52:45.180 yeah i would probably disclose that like i would i wouldn't be like i don't have to talk about this

06:52:49.260 this is so serious i used to be an escort i would be like haha like men used to i don't think i don't

06:52:53.900 think it would be sex work no if you're not actually it's getting close it's like they just pay you

06:52:59.980 for like like your companionship like oh it's someone to talk to because they feel lonely and

06:53:05.180 they just like like talking to me like i'll be honest i met this random guy on craigslist and sf

06:53:09.180 and i was like looking for furniture and then basically what happened was like he's like oh

06:53:13.260 my god you're so cool like do you want to get dinner and i was like oh yeah we can get dinner

06:53:16.620 like i'm broke like you know i was working the teacher on a 50k salary living in the bay area of

06:53:20.460 course i'll take a free dinner and so we went to go get dinner he paid he was like you know what i

06:53:24.860 really like your presence i have a couple events i have to go to i wouldn't mind paying you just to

06:53:29.340 come along with me and so yeah i just did that and so i was like is that like an escort thing

06:53:34.700 i don't know because it was never anything sexual yeah i think he's trying to smash yeah really no he

06:53:41.740 was so nice and he would like send my kids stuff buy us like crispy cream donuts like every week and

06:53:47.340 like buy for my co-workers too and i never saw him he dropped it off and he leaves i never get to see

06:53:52.300 him but you literally just said that a strange man i'll let you come in a strange man

06:53:59.020 dropped stuff off at an elementary school like he knew i worked there because we like we talked

06:54:04.460 he was like oh so like what do you do so i'm a teacher in oakland and so he would like give us

06:54:08.220 like pencils notebooks he gave the kids gifts i didn't need to let a couple chats come through

06:54:13.340 sons of liberty donate i'll let you come in on this though listening to the woke leftist teacher and

06:54:19.180 chair one proves how the left doesn't think for themselves they just regurgitate liberal ideology

06:54:25.580 can a confederate flag fly to or just the gay flag uh oh god i think like the confederate flag like it 0.70

06:54:33.740 implies like so many other things besides like you know the ideology i feel like it was like not just

06:54:38.940 towards one group it's like towards like different groups that they're really like prejudiced against

06:54:42.540 and they try to kill so steph you had something yeah so you mentioned um i said if a guy we were

06:54:49.580 saying that if a guy wants you he will make it known earlier you mentioned guys don't really express

06:54:55.180 their feelings so if they ever tell you and express their feelings like hey i want you we should take

06:54:59.340 it serious since they don't really express it you said that they may just be saying things to manipulate

06:55:04.540 you yet you don't think it's manipulation all the gift buying and things that he was doing to you

06:55:09.260 um i don't think it was manipulation because he never said that these gifts are tied to something

06:55:13.180 and because i give you these gifts i expect the behavior from you it was literally like oh here

06:55:17.260 this is enjoy it like you know have fun as a parent i would feel some type of way about a random man

06:55:22.780 buying donuts for my child in elementary can you please say how much signal i need to cut across eight

06:55:28.380 lane i turn now good luck everybody else what how much signal i need to cut that's chair three oh i know

06:55:36.620 i'm just reading for myself huh oh my god i dude

06:55:44.220 it's okay can you say it how much huh here i'll play it i'll play it again randy randy you

06:55:53.180 you owe me one for this bro chair three can you please say how much signal i need to cut across eight

06:55:58.860 lane i turn now okay just read it everybody else chair three can you please say how much

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07:02:19.260 fuck bright underscore eyes donated nineteen dollars and ninety nine cents care for you are insufferable 0.98

07:02:30.540 that's all why we hate comments see that one worked a little better i think it was just too many 1.00

07:02:36.060 ams before it's a roast session brian if you could be a billionaire but never have any kind of

07:02:43.660 physicality with a woman ever or you could sleep with three different women a week forever all sevens 0.76

07:02:50.860 or eights what would you choose dot why i want the chat to answer this one also because that's an

07:02:57.660 interesting question so i mean this would entail can can i still have kids like ivf artificial

07:03:05.820 insemination or whatever um if i could still have kids 0.98

07:03:13.180 fuck that's hard can't sleep with them can i still what can i still have kids that's the big thing 1.00

07:03:21.740 chat what do you pick would billy chat billionaire but you can never sleep with a woman 1.00

07:03:27.820 or you can sleep with how many women did he say three it was three different women different women 1.00

07:03:35.580 a week forever all sevens and eights that's not bad though

07:03:41.740 some people are saying take the billion i think that when men have a lot of money what do they go

07:03:46.940 for it's women like they just want to be surrounded by oh man that's a hard one everything in the 1.00

07:03:50.940 world is tied to money and sex does anybody in the chat take the women does anybody in the chat take 1.00

07:03:57.340 the women uh to be fair if you were a billionaire you could well oh i guess he said you can't right 0.98

07:04:03.180 yeah i think yeah no you can't you would never be able to have sex again can you what about like 1.00

07:04:09.420 like brain though can you get oral sex 0.99

07:04:12.460 or does it no it's probably it's always sex in general like you can't feel it and said that 1.00

07:04:19.260 oral isn't sex so yeah you can okay all right there you go bill if bill clinton said it then uh 0.96

07:04:25.340 okay we have a couple more i declined donated twenty dollars the best girl there is the one in the 1.00

07:04:32.860 back with the blue hair because she kept to str8 face during ivy's ranting no blue hair oh sorry

07:04:39.260 it's a blue towel okay chris sierka donated 20 dollars sooner or later you'll see extreme

07:04:47.180 progressive views of chair four three and one will cause social collapse chair eight will have a family

07:04:53.660 before any of you that's a cute comment nice nice toast donated 20 dollars escorting does not always lead

07:05:07.100 to sex and so still consider this courting and this courting is considered sex work

07:05:15.020 well put i guess so randy donated 20 dollars fine brixton i'll give an extra 20 for the same

07:05:23.180 thing but she share three better say this time i turn now good luck everybody else 0.97

07:05:30.540 wait say it again i turn now good luck everybody else is that from what is that from it's a

07:05:38.460 family guy i know now it's the asian woman and family oh my god she's like i think she's korean or 1.00

07:05:46.540 chinese yeah underscore vagina underscore podcast donated 20 dollars eight woman and the top one says 0.90

07:05:53.500 literally there's literally nothing for seven hours just sits and looks pretty is that about me yes 0.86

07:06:01.420 it's about you thank you fake vagina podcast there you go all seven s donated twenty dollars seven 1.00

07:06:11.900 two a dollar to really in seven hundred and seventy seven and a silly in seven hundred and 77 t 0.99

07:06:32.620 777,777,777,777,777,777,777,7777.

07:06:46.140 Kokomo donated $20.

07:06:48.600 Thank you.

07:06:49.020 We've all lost so many brain cells from today's show team. 0.92

07:06:51.680 Hi, what the hell?

07:06:55.460 I teach. 0.83

07:06:56.540 I literally teach people.

07:06:57.960 I taught people for a living.

07:06:59.980 Oh, is it not going to play?

07:07:00.960 Coastal Operator donated $19.99.

07:07:05.740 Brian, when you're going to go to Andrew's property and do some shooting,

07:07:09.840 you could make an in-person appearance on his show for a change, too.

07:07:14.240 Yeah, that'd be cool.

07:07:14.920 I'd like to do that sometime.

07:07:16.740 Yeah.

07:07:17.980 I'm just so tied up with everything here in California,

07:07:20.520 but eventually I'd like to do that.

07:07:24.160 Maybe we'll get Andrew in California, though.

07:07:25.840 Who knows?

07:07:26.820 We'll see.

07:07:27.860 Let's see.

07:07:28.340 We got...

07:07:29.920 Uh-oh.

07:07:30.300 What's it?

07:07:38.020 Uh-oh.

07:07:38.320 If these are the women I had to choose from, 0.99

07:07:40.980 I'd take the money.

07:07:43.560 What the...

07:07:44.400 The Big Bonk donated $20.

07:07:47.880 Mmm...

07:07:49.200 Mmm...

07:07:50.080 Hello?

07:07:51.740 Brian?

07:07:52.680 Answer the phone.

07:07:54.620 Oh...

07:07:55.300 I like it.

07:08:10.980 That was a good one.

07:08:11.920 Oh, thank you, Vinny.

07:08:15.420 Chairs 1, 2 and 8 are the best looking on this panel.

07:08:19.380 Oh.

07:08:19.640 Chairs 1's views can be fixed.

07:08:21.300 2, 8.

07:08:22.300 2, 8.

07:08:23.580 Okay.

07:08:24.480 Thank you, Vinny.

07:08:25.820 Rue Blackbird donated $20.

07:08:28.560 So...

07:08:29.320 What the...

07:08:30.160 What did we learn?

07:08:32.020 Yup.

07:08:32.660 Less talking and way less UM, I think.

07:08:35.320 I gotta think.

07:08:36.480 I don't wanna, like, say stuff I don't mean.

07:08:40.680 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:08:43.520 Chair 1, learn a thing or two from Chair 8, and you will find happiness and fulfillment in life.

07:08:49.500 Chair 4, not my quote, but someone in the chat called you Japanese.

07:08:54.700 Response?

07:08:57.320 Sons of Liberty donated $19.99.

07:09:01.480 Take the billion all day. 0.99

07:09:03.940 Get a sex doll if need be. 0.98

07:09:05.980 Plus, the hand is efficient, knows what to do quickly, and goes away after. 0.99

07:09:11.200 You can surf, hire a chef, cleaner, hunt, shoot.

07:09:15.340 Chair 1's dad is sad.

07:09:16.720 Sons of Liberty donated $20.

07:09:20.700 Modern women want 666. 1.00

07:09:23.660 Six foot six, figures six in Penith.

07:09:26.620 Notice how men and God have three letters, while women and the devil have five. 0.95

07:09:31.420 Chair 3, can you say?

07:09:33.140 I'm not real lady, I'm lady boy.

07:09:35.860 Oh my god.

07:09:38.620 Can you say it?

07:09:40.540 I'm not real lady, and lady boy.

07:09:44.260 You was there?

07:09:45.280 Whatever.

07:09:45.540 Okay, that's, thank you, Thor.

07:09:47.700 Thank you, Sons of Liberty. 0.99

07:09:48.400 Oh shit, she did it again. 1.00

07:09:49.780 So cute. 1.00

07:09:50.480 She did it again. 0.97

07:09:53.180 You know what?

07:09:54.240 I feel, with the billion thing.

07:09:57.680 Are you still thinking about that?

07:09:58.800 I'm still thinking about that.

07:09:59.900 I think, no.

07:10:00.580 If I was younger, I think I would have taken the billion.

07:10:03.000 Because I didn't have money when I was younger.

07:10:05.920 But I'm already doing, I'm doing okay.

07:10:09.480 So I'd just keep working a bit.

07:10:11.220 Yeah, I think you can achieve a billion.

07:10:13.080 Yeah.

07:10:13.640 No, I can't achieve it.

07:10:14.960 You can achieve it.

07:10:16.100 You can literally achieve it.

07:10:17.400 Self-limiting mindsets.

07:10:18.740 Oh yeah.

07:10:19.240 Self-limiting mindsets.

07:10:19.820 It's a mindset.

07:10:21.020 You know what?

07:10:22.380 You're so right.

07:10:23.240 Why don't we take a bet?

07:10:24.400 Yeah.

07:10:24.740 I don't know. 1.00

07:10:27.160 I think now, shit. 0.99

07:10:30.240 I'm doing okay. 0.99

07:10:31.520 Honestly, once you make beyond a certain amount of money.

07:10:34.820 Like, look, I know a billion is a lot.

07:10:36.860 I know how much, like, that's life-changing.

07:10:39.140 Like, in an insane way. 1.00

07:10:41.440 But, uh, shit, man. 1.00

07:10:45.280 Take the billionaire's money and then get the women. 1.00

07:10:48.280 No, you can't.

07:10:50.140 This girl was not listening. 0.76

07:10:51.340 Get the lady boy. 0.99

07:10:52.820 Get the lady boy. 0.99

07:10:53.720 Oh, get the lady boy. 1.00

07:10:55.680 Get the lady boy. 0.99

07:10:56.220 No, you know, it was sex in general. 0.99

07:10:57.940 Sex in general. 0.97

07:10:58.740 Oh, he played. 0.81

07:11:00.680 Uh, okay.

07:11:02.200 We, oh, let's do the supers.

07:11:04.720 Alina, I'm going to have you read the supers.

07:11:07.280 Go ahead.

07:11:08.960 Chair five, stay in the course. 0.96

07:11:10.960 Chair six, less injections.

07:11:12.780 Chair seven, gone, good.

07:11:14.960 Chair eight, stay in the course. 0.68

07:11:16.560 Brian, keep it up.

07:11:19.760 Read this one.

07:11:20.400 Chair one, you're hands down the most beautiful girl I have ever seen.

07:11:23.240 And I'm Australian.

07:11:24.880 There's hotties everywhere.

07:11:28.200 Thank you, Andrew.

07:11:30.260 Cruella, Deville, Betty Boop, Tokyo, Rose, Petty, Manny, Pass, Pass, Pass, Wednesday,

07:11:36.660 Adams, Ozempic, Poster Child.

07:11:38.800 Wait, are they calling us that?

07:11:40.020 Bailey, what do you, what do you, why are you making that face, Bailey?

07:11:43.760 Well, I don't understand.

07:11:45.820 Oh, okay.

07:11:46.660 Which one am I?

07:11:47.400 Oh, okay.

07:11:49.000 Uh, last one.

07:11:51.180 Chair eight, marry me.

07:11:52.340 Chair four, oh, mm, chair three, say, you go now, you've been here four hours.

07:11:58.740 You go now, you've been here four hours.

07:12:01.300 All right, guys, $20 TTS.

07:12:02.660 We have a few more things to get through.

07:12:04.780 Really quick, we have this thing.

07:12:06.680 Uh, what would, what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? 0.68

07:12:11.940 For you?

07:12:12.760 Brandy?

07:12:13.320 Brenda?

07:12:13.740 Sorry.

07:12:15.560 Brandy?

07:12:16.680 Brenda?

07:12:18.200 As long as they're working towards a billion.

07:12:21.600 Or, they don't have to have it, but as long as that's in their mind.

07:12:25.820 I know, what?

07:12:26.940 Maybe, I, I understand, like, billion.

07:12:29.240 Whoa, it's crazy.

07:12:30.480 Then let's say, maybe it's something that's more comprehensible, like, uh, millions.

07:12:34.680 But at least if they're working towards that, and they know how to, and they, they know how

07:12:38.340 to get there, and they're willing to put in the work, that's what I care about.

07:12:41.920 Okay, because, I mean, I don't think, like, a man is lacking confidence if he's just realistic,

07:12:47.120 and he's like, I'm not going to be a billionaire.

07:12:52.300 Like, I think that's kind of realistic.

07:12:53.880 Okay, then let, then let's say, let's say, in the millions.

07:12:57.160 Yeah, I think millions.

07:12:58.320 Because I have that mindset.

07:12:58.840 I want, I, I, I know I can get there, and I want my partner to have that same mindset.

07:13:05.000 Sure, yeah, okay.

07:13:07.540 Uh, what about you?

07:13:09.360 So, ultimately, I want to be a stay-at-home mother.

07:13:11.900 I want, like, the submissive, normal, like, from, like, a 1960s relationship with gender roles.

07:13:17.280 But in the interim, like, I don't, I don't mind working.

07:13:19.680 I've never had a problem working.

07:13:20.840 I'm someone that'll work 80, 90 hours a week if I have to.

07:13:23.180 So, while that goes on, I would not date somebody that made less money than me, so.

07:13:27.080 All right, what about you?

07:13:28.520 Uh, she wasn't listening.

07:13:34.680 My husband.

07:13:35.240 My future husband.

07:13:36.640 Yeah.

07:13:38.020 Um.

07:13:39.040 You wrote 120K here.

07:13:40.780 Oh, yeah, I did, right?

07:13:41.820 Is that the number?

07:13:42.880 What about you, Ivy?

07:13:44.960 I don't think I put down a number.

07:13:46.620 Because I would think that he doesn't have, like, a definitive income.

07:13:49.640 You know?

07:13:49.940 It's, like, whatever you can achieve.

07:13:51.880 And if it's enough, then you're happy.

07:13:54.120 Yeah, but what do you date a guy that makes 50K?

07:13:57.500 Um, like, he makes 50K from, like, one job.

07:14:00.900 Or, like.

07:14:01.240 That's it.

07:14:01.680 He makes 50K.

07:14:02.820 Um.

07:14:03.100 And then by the time he retires, he's making 60K.

07:14:05.700 I mean, maybe it's, like, his family's taking care of him.

07:14:08.500 I think as long as you have the necessities, you know?

07:14:10.440 Oh, okay.

07:14:10.900 So, you do something you love.

07:14:12.180 All right.

07:14:12.720 Uh.

07:14:13.280 How tall are you?

07:14:13.980 And what's the minimum height of a man you would date?

07:14:18.160 Is this for me still?

07:14:19.720 No, it's everybody.

07:14:20.580 Oh, everybody.

07:14:22.700 Oh, I'm so sorry.

07:14:24.320 I'm just a creeper.

07:14:25.160 Okay.

07:14:25.500 What about you?

07:14:26.280 I'm 5'6".

07:14:27.440 I've dated as short as, like, 5'10".

07:14:30.540 But ideally, I would want him to be, like, 6'2".

07:14:32.740 Okay.

07:14:33.180 What about you?

07:14:33.880 Yeah, 6'2".

07:14:34.960 6'2".

07:14:35.960 And you're?

07:14:36.420 How tall are you?

07:14:38.260 I am 5'3".

07:14:39.740 Okay.

07:14:40.440 Ivy, what about you?

07:14:41.360 I think, um, I've dated, like, short guys.

07:14:43.620 But I would say, like, 5'10 is my new minimum.

07:14:46.800 It used to be, like, way lower.

07:14:48.480 Okay.

07:14:49.960 Hmm.

07:14:50.640 Yeah?

07:14:51.700 I go?

07:14:52.240 Okay.

07:14:52.600 I'm 5'6".

07:14:53.440 I've only been with guys who are at 6'5".

07:14:55.620 But I would go to 5'10".

07:14:56.940 Hmm.

07:14:57.860 Okay.

07:14:59.460 I'm 5'4", and I put 5'8".

07:15:01.740 Mm-hmm.

07:15:02.020 Minimum.

07:15:02.820 I'm about 5'5".

07:15:04.200 I would date 5'7".

07:15:05.740 My homecoming date was 5'7".

07:15:07.520 My boyfriend is 6'0".

07:15:08.920 And then I think this will just be the final thing from the questionnaire.

07:15:11.560 Have you ever had a sugar daddy and or sold pics?

07:15:14.420 Yes.

07:15:15.360 What did you have?

07:15:16.420 Or what did you do?

07:15:17.820 Uh, I didn't, well, I mean, I have an OF.

07:15:20.660 Well, I had an OF.

07:15:21.860 Oh, I didn't know that.

07:15:22.920 Okay.

07:15:23.240 Yeah.

07:15:23.420 I'm surprised.

07:15:24.240 Don't you guys do your research?

07:15:25.960 Yeah, but.

07:15:26.580 Irrespectively.

07:15:26.980 Sorry.

07:15:27.740 Do you still link to it?

07:15:29.680 You still do it?

07:15:30.720 Uh, I don't do it actively, but it's, I take it on and off my beacons whenever, like.

07:15:35.820 I didn't see it on any of your link tree or anything like that.

07:15:38.200 Oh, yeah.

07:15:38.420 It's hidden.

07:15:39.000 You have to, like, really be looking for it.

07:15:40.460 Yeah.

07:15:40.960 I thought you said that you don't post on it anymore.

07:15:43.380 I remember we talked about it, right?

07:15:45.020 Yeah.

07:15:45.160 Yeah.

07:15:45.380 So, I actually just posted on it.

07:15:47.420 Well, when I was in a relationship, I didn't post on it.

07:15:49.600 But I actually recently just, like, I post, like, once every month just to, like, keep

07:15:53.420 the subscribers there because people always, they funnel from my platform.

07:15:58.400 Okay.

07:15:58.760 Were you doing BG content on there?

07:16:00.760 No.

07:16:01.280 Okay.

07:16:01.520 No.

07:16:01.680 Uh, Patrice, you said you sold feet pics for, like, one week?

07:16:04.640 Way back in, like, when COVID first hit and everyone was getting on OnlyFans, like, way

07:16:08.120 before Foot Finder and nobody had a job and everyone was home doing nothing, I had an

07:16:12.200 OnlyFans where I sold foot pictures.

07:16:13.800 I think there might have been, like, a bikini photo, similar, comparable to my Instagram

07:16:17.360 on there.

07:16:18.040 Okay.

07:16:18.260 And then, I don't know how, but the thing ended up with, like, 200 subscribers at $10 a

07:16:22.520 month and it was, it was literally just pictures of my feet.

07:16:26.580 Um, and then I got the weirdest request ever, which would have permanently turned me off

07:16:31.300 to doing anything like that ever in my life, so.

07:16:34.320 Stephanie, uh, you said yes, you've had a sugar daddy and or sold pics?

07:16:38.540 No, I didn't sell pictures, but I had a sugar daddy.

07:16:41.360 You, wait, you currently have a sugar daddy? 0.99

07:16:43.400 No, not anymore.

07:16:43.900 Oh, you had a sugar daddy. 1.00

07:16:45.240 Mm-hmm.

07:16:45.500 How much did you make?

07:16:47.060 Mm-hmm.

07:16:47.740 I mean, you would send, like, about two.

07:16:50.100 No, how much did you make from the sugar daddy?

07:16:51.740 Mm-hmm.

07:16:53.700 Say about 400 each month.

07:16:56.580 For how long?

07:16:58.180 Mm, it'd be, like, on and off for, like, a year.

07:17:00.840 So, maybe in total you made a couple thousand or something like that?

07:17:03.840 Mm-hmm.

07:17:04.920 Hm.

07:17:05.660 Interesting.

07:17:06.400 Interesting.

07:17:06.900 Okay, I'm gonna let the rest of the roast come through.

07:17:09.040 Randy donated $20.

07:17:11.360 Chair 4's fake Asian voice is worse than Demi Hawk's fake little girl voice. 1.00

07:17:16.080 I had to use my Google machine quite a bit to find her name, despite remembering her on

07:17:21.200 the pod.

07:17:21.940 Stop being fake, Biatch. 1.00

07:17:24.020 Oh, wow. 0.96

07:17:25.120 Me?

07:17:25.520 I'm being fake?

07:17:26.800 Are you?

07:17:27.260 I don't know.

07:17:27.360 Wait, like, they found my name, or what are they saying?

07:17:30.400 I guess I don't think you're Asian or something.

07:17:31.920 I am Asian.

07:17:33.380 The Big Bonk donated $20.

07:17:34.980 She's black. 0.97

07:17:36.100 I'm good.

07:17:37.020 I do not.

07:17:37.720 I'm not.

07:17:37.900 I'm not.

07:17:40.440 That's good.

07:17:41.140 Oh, my God.

07:17:50.060 Wait, that was pretty good.

07:17:52.000 That part's pretty good.

07:17:53.000 That part's pretty good.

07:17:56.640 Kind of went down, though.

07:17:58.680 Nice.

07:18:00.580 Oh, no.

07:18:02.580 Oh, no.

07:18:02.620 Oh, no.

07:18:03.920 Chair 5, don't worry, you're safe.

07:18:06.640 Shovel face.

07:18:07.860 Can you say slick shoes?

07:18:11.140 What?

07:18:12.360 Wait, why is Chair 5 safe?

07:18:14.640 What do you mean by that?

07:18:15.460 Thank you.

07:18:16.220 Safe from the roast?

07:18:17.420 What do you mean?

07:18:18.880 What does that mean?

07:18:20.120 Explain.

07:18:21.260 Can they explain?

07:18:22.280 Or do they have to pay more money?

07:18:24.360 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:18:27.240 In all seriousness, good panel.

07:18:29.400 Well, I think there are some things most of the panel should research after today.

07:18:34.400 To Chair 1, I can fix you.

07:18:36.820 Brian, your attendant personality.

07:18:40.160 Thank you.

07:18:41.040 Jay donated $20.

07:18:41.820 Thank you, Michael Jones.

07:18:42.760 Appreciate it.

07:18:43.200 Brian, can you show Ivy, the Asian lady in white, the iconic full metal jacket scene with

07:18:48.780 the Vietnamese hook? 0.87

07:18:50.260 Look.

07:18:50.780 She sounds exactly like her.

07:18:52.540 What?

07:18:53.640 You know, I can't, Jay, I can't do that, but I can play this.

07:18:57.020 Oh, me so horny, me love you long time.

07:19:00.960 Sorry, Jay, it's going to have to do.

07:19:02.380 What movie is that from?

07:19:02.880 It's going to have to do.

07:19:04.500 I think you all did all right, ladies.

07:19:07.180 Some of you have some cooked views, but you took the criticism in stride, so kudos.

07:19:13.200 Chair 3, please say you cheat Dr. Jones.

07:19:16.480 You cheat Dr. Jones?

07:19:18.340 Blackbird donated $20.

07:19:20.800 And Chair 1 lost me.

07:19:23.260 I make good money, but like.

07:19:25.280 Huh?

07:19:25.900 Like?

07:19:26.660 Huh?

07:19:27.300 A billion?

07:19:28.420 Bill yen?

07:19:29.540 Like a billion dollars.

07:19:31.340 Nah, hashtag drunk lol.

07:19:34.600 Pastey George donated $20.

07:19:37.520 There are 15 years left.

07:19:39.360 Give or take a few years until the magnetic pole shift event.

07:19:43.420 What is that?

07:19:43.780 Brian, you always have such an epic beard.

07:19:46.780 I am jealous.

07:19:48.340 You know, I trimmed it today, so I don't know.

07:19:53.140 I cut it a little too short, I think.

07:19:55.120 I fucked it up a bit, but thank you. 0.97

07:19:56.260 I, Pacey George, appreciate it, man.

07:19:59.020 Let's see.

07:20:00.720 Giga Huang donated $20.

07:20:03.160 Chair 4 is so indoctrinated she's willing to support a program, DEI, that steals opportunities 0.93

07:20:09.580 from her own race.

07:20:10.940 LaMau.

07:20:12.260 She's dated so many white dudes, she thinks she's one of them.

07:20:15.860 I've never.

07:20:16.480 I just said my type is Asian. 0.97

07:20:18.260 What the heck?

07:20:22.560 GMD Jim donated $20.

07:20:24.580 Thank you, Jim.

07:20:24.960 Wilo.

07:20:25.260 Ritson, you might Wilo.

07:20:27.480 Missing lately cause I was out of commission same time as Mason.

07:20:31.080 I told you what it was earlier.

07:20:32.600 Only reason for women is to birth and raise your children. 1.00

07:20:34.360 A white person. 0.95

07:20:35.360 Have not touched one IN 17 years and don't miss them.

07:20:39.220 Oh.

07:20:40.380 Gold diggers much donated $20.

07:20:42.400 Why is the value not weight based on family dynamic and not the amount in his wallet?

07:20:49.140 Hmm.

07:20:50.380 That's fair.

07:20:50.980 That is a good question.

07:20:51.620 Can't have a family without money.

07:20:54.160 Good question.

07:20:55.340 Guess underscore who donated $19.99.

07:20:59.600 I knew it.

07:21:01.100 I knew chair one did of.

07:21:03.080 She literally had all the symptoms.

07:21:05.800 Thought I was confused.

07:21:07.720 Glad to hear everything still makes sense.

07:21:10.040 Squeeps donated $20.

07:21:14.120 Chair four.

07:21:15.180 Get in touch with your Vietnamese roots.

07:21:18.220 I literally just wanted to know.

07:21:20.840 Chair three.

07:21:21.900 Now I understand why South Korea is going through a population replacement crisis.

07:21:27.580 Holy fuk. 0.92

07:21:28.660 It's cause it's too expensive to have kids there. 1.00

07:21:30.240 Merd 594 donated $20.

07:21:33.800 Goonies never die.

07:21:35.200 So how about them slick shoes?

07:21:38.560 That guy's Vietnamese.

07:21:39.480 You know, Ki Hui Quang is Vietnamese.

07:21:41.680 I don't know what they're talking about.

07:21:43.220 Slick shoes?

07:21:44.340 What is that?

07:21:44.940 Coastal operator donated $19.99.

07:21:49.380 From the chat, chair three must have been left in a hot car as a kid because she is absolutely 0.96

07:21:54.560 cool. 1.00

07:21:55.060 What the fuck? 1.00

07:21:55.640 From me, chair two, I can fix you. 1.00

07:21:58.800 What's your hat?

07:22:02.040 It's my name.

07:22:03.500 Spelled like Pat Rice.

07:22:05.100 99.

07:22:06.140 Instagram.

07:22:06.540 How are you going to fix me?

07:22:08.660 Look, if she...

07:22:09.780 Look, you speak Korean.

07:22:13.580 Yes.

07:22:14.000 It's your... 0.99

07:22:15.040 You should curse him out in Korean. 1.00

07:22:16.440 Curse him out. 0.99

07:22:17.000 No.

07:22:17.560 Kaseki.

07:22:18.400 Yeah.

07:22:18.860 Or him.

07:22:20.580 It's like English is her second language, maybe.

07:22:24.400 Yeah. 0.99

07:22:24.660 So it's like, you know, maybe she's fucking like 300 IQ in Korean. 0.98

07:22:31.340 Like, she would be so eloquent. 0.96

07:22:34.620 But like, if a language is your second language, it's harder, you know?

07:22:38.520 Like, French is my first language.

07:22:40.660 Oh, wow.

07:22:41.220 Oh. 0.98

07:22:41.480 So that's why I'm so dumb in English. 0.94

07:22:45.020 You're good. 0.88

07:22:45.700 Yeah.

07:22:46.240 Wait, can you speak some French?

07:22:49.020 Uh, voulez-vous coucher avec moi ce soir?

07:22:51.300 Oh, you have an American accent, though.

07:22:52.820 What's the song?

07:22:53.700 Huh?

07:22:53.880 Oh, what's the song?

07:22:55.060 But you have an American accent.

07:22:56.560 There's a lot of French-Vietnamese people.

07:22:58.320 Like, food people.

07:22:58.640 Well, that's because the French invaded... 0.80

07:23:01.720 Comment ça va?

07:23:02.360 I cannot speak French.

07:23:03.600 Comment ça va?

07:23:04.360 Bonjour.

07:23:05.040 Bonjour.

07:23:05.860 Ça va? 0.79

07:23:06.400 Ça va bien?

07:23:06.880 Comment ça va?

07:23:07.680 Oh, chair one.

07:23:08.800 Oh, chair one.

07:23:09.640 You're getting a little love.

07:23:11.320 Oh.

07:23:11.860 Chair one, you are stunning.

07:23:13.460 Ah.

07:23:13.840 Your smile is contagious.

07:23:14.600 I need to be fixed.

07:23:15.920 I make six figures.

07:23:16.340 Yeah, you gotta fix her first.

07:23:17.500 I gotta get two dollars.

07:23:18.000 He makes six figures, but you gotta compete.

07:23:21.080 She's got...

07:23:21.640 She's already got a main piece.

07:23:23.000 She's got a couple side pieces, so... 0.98

07:23:25.140 I don't...

07:23:25.440 They're not side pieces.

07:23:26.960 They're not...

07:23:27.180 Find her at a rave, chair one simp. 0.91

07:23:28.920 You gotta find her at a rave. 1.00

07:23:30.000 Okay, what is this?

07:23:31.180 I...

07:23:31.540 No.

07:23:31.960 Uh-oh.

07:23:32.680 Oh, boy.

07:23:33.820 I don't know what...

07:23:34.760 Oh, boy.

07:23:35.200 Oh, boy. 1.00

07:23:35.240 What the fuck? 1.00

07:23:52.660 That's... 1.00

07:23:53.080 That's interesting.

07:23:57.280 Wow.

07:23:58.280 That was...

07:23:58.760 That was really good.

07:23:59.700 You're really talented, Bonk.

07:24:01.820 Thank you, man.

07:24:02.980 All right.

07:24:03.320 Let me...

07:24:03.860 There's...

07:24:04.240 We didn't do all of Patrice's notes, so we'll get...

07:24:06.580 We'll get those.

07:24:08.720 Let's see.

07:24:09.260 Where did we leave off?

07:24:12.280 So, you were in this two-year relationship.

07:24:14.320 We talked about that.

07:24:15.560 You wanted to speak a lot about the red pill space. 0.79

07:24:17.780 You're incredibly red-pilled, but a lot of the men in this space are so fake.

07:24:23.140 You're very Republican and red-pilled. 0.82

07:24:26.540 Yeah.

07:24:26.800 I just, like, said...

07:24:27.540 I wasn't sure what I was supposed to send, because you sent, like, a list of, like,

07:24:30.280 what are things that you would speak...

07:24:31.620 Yeah.

07:24:31.900 So, I was just, like, giving, like, general, kind of, like, answers to topics.

07:24:34.760 What makes you...

07:24:35.540 Like, if you had to just fire off three ways you're red-pilled, how...

07:24:39.700 I believe in traditional gender roles. 0.98

07:24:43.020 That would be, like...

07:24:43.740 That would be probably my main one.

07:24:47.420 And then...

07:24:48.060 I can't...

07:24:48.480 I'm not going to give, like, sub-examples of, like, I think I should stay home and cook

07:24:52.560 and clean, and he should make the money.

07:24:54.400 I think that would be...

07:24:56.280 Yeah.

07:24:57.680 Like, my main one.

07:24:58.440 Okay.

07:24:58.680 I think that, like, I do think that, like, I would rather have a male doctor than a female 1.00

07:25:04.700 doctor.

07:25:05.200 I want a man to be... 0.81

07:25:06.360 Not that I would be upset if a woman was actually qualified. 0.99

07:25:10.060 Like, if my options were Joe Biden or a qualified woman, I would pick the qualified woman, but 1.00

07:25:14.280 I would prefer to have Donald Trump or somebody like him in office.

07:25:17.400 How did...

07:25:18.320 And did you slide into his DMs?

07:25:21.760 I followed him, and then he slid into my DMs.

07:25:25.060 Oh.

07:25:25.420 Oh.

07:25:27.060 Donald Trump.

07:25:27.540 How long ago was this that you met him?

07:25:29.560 Donald Trump.

07:25:30.200 A year and a half ago.

07:25:31.940 Did you follow me a year and a half ago?

07:25:34.760 Yes.

07:25:35.600 Oh, okay.

07:25:36.540 That was, like, one of the first reels I saw him on was yours, and he was like, oh, I have...

07:25:40.300 Oh, I'm going to...

07:25:41.560 Yeah, I'm not going to.

07:25:43.060 Nothing.

07:25:43.380 Wait, what?

07:25:44.720 I was going to, like, give away identifying details, and I'm like, oh, I see.

07:25:48.180 I see what you're talking about.

07:25:48.960 Okay.

07:25:49.840 You said...

07:25:50.560 So you...

07:25:50.960 But this guy who you were engaged to, but that's off, like, as of two weeks ago.

07:25:55.400 Wait, if he reached back out to you, he's like, let's make it work?

07:25:58.820 Or is this done?

07:25:59.760 I just took a 27-hour flight home from Australia after I got left there alone.

07:26:03.600 I don't really think that's something that is...

07:26:06.760 You left me there high and dry.

07:26:08.320 I didn't care about me.

07:26:09.040 Like, didn't care what happened to me.

07:26:10.380 You just left me there alone.

07:26:11.560 I mean, I did, like...

07:26:12.060 What did you do?

07:26:12.780 Did you do something?

07:26:13.820 I swear I didn't do anything.

07:26:15.160 I was just trying to have a...

07:26:16.000 Did you stick a...

07:26:17.040 Never mind.

07:26:19.380 I was just trying to have, like, a conversation about some things in the relationship, and

07:26:24.280 he didn't want to have a conversation about it.

07:26:25.620 So it was just, like, I don't know.

07:26:27.600 I guess I annoyed him too much one night, and he just packed up and left.

07:26:29.980 I kept the ring, and he paid for my flight home, so...

07:26:32.320 Oh, okay. 0.99

07:26:33.040 Damn, that's crazy. 0.99

07:26:33.920 So is it really high and dry? 0.99

07:26:36.180 I mean, like, I was there.

07:26:37.620 Literally, I flew 27 hours to live in a different country with this man.

07:26:41.420 And leaving my family to go start my own family with him, and I...

07:26:47.240 Again, like, he was like, oh, it's just a flight.

07:26:49.840 No, it was 27 hours.

07:26:51.280 I get there.

07:26:51.880 I'm not even 12 hours into this trip.

07:26:54.060 I'm also, at this point, incredibly jet-lagged.

07:26:56.180 I'm sick.

07:26:57.080 Like, and he just up and, like, leaves me there by myself.

07:26:59.680 And I don't think that's indicative of somebody who's gonna constantly, like, say, oh, I provide

07:27:03.840 and I protect.

07:27:04.860 No, you walk out.

07:27:05.760 Wait, he didn't even meet you at the airport?

07:27:08.120 No, no, he did. 0.99

07:27:09.300 Okay, so you guys spent some time together, but then, like, some shit went down. 0.97

07:27:12.220 We spent some time together. 0.97

07:27:13.080 We had an argument that wasn't even really an argument.

07:27:15.000 It was, like, me stating some things that, like, weren't really...

07:27:17.780 They were incongruent in the relationship, asking for some clarification on some things.

07:27:21.780 He didn't want to have the conversation.

07:27:23.100 Oh, like, he had other women, is what you're saying?

07:27:25.000 No.

07:27:25.480 No, that's not what the conversation was about.

07:27:27.460 Like, pegging?

07:27:28.400 Like, you wanted to peg him and...

07:27:30.000 No, no, it was...

07:27:31.440 He was just not about it?

07:27:32.920 No, it was more, like, the direction that the relationship was heading in, and we were

07:27:37.340 finally at this final destination of these plans, and...

07:27:39.880 Can you tilt your mic down just a little bit?

07:27:42.720 There you go.

07:27:43.200 Go ahead.

07:27:43.740 So it was more like we were now at the final destination.

07:27:46.240 Like, we're really gonna live in this other country away from my family.

07:27:49.540 Wait, like, you know how earlier you said maybe the girl was a basket case when she got 1.00

07:27:52.720 taken out of her environment in that video?

07:27:55.160 Not that I was a basket case, but I was like, I can't...

07:27:57.820 I suddenly had this, like, realization.

07:27:59.940 I knew I was going there, and he knew I was gonna have...

07:28:01.740 I didn't have a freak out.

07:28:02.620 I was just like, I can't drive, because they drive on the opposite side of the road.

07:28:06.480 I don't have a single friend here.

07:28:08.020 I don't have a single family member here.

07:28:10.000 Yeah.

07:28:10.320 I don't...

07:28:10.640 And it's not that I was complaining about that.

07:28:12.480 I was, like, asking for some, like, reassurance.

07:28:14.320 Like, can I get, like, a cuddle and a hug when we're sleeping?

07:28:17.120 Can I get something that proves to me that you actually want me here?

07:28:20.660 Can I have something?

07:28:21.580 Can you give me something?

07:28:23.060 And he's like, well, you have a ring on your finger?

07:28:24.080 I'm like, yeah, but I'm just not...

07:28:24.900 Were you guys living together previously?

07:28:26.980 So, what would end up happening is...

07:28:28.440 Or was this long distance?

07:28:29.840 What would happen is we would spend, like, six weeks together.

07:28:33.700 Six weeks.

07:28:34.500 And then we would maybe not see each other for, like, two...

07:28:36.460 I can do, like, a weekend with a girl.

07:28:38.060 Yeah, we would maybe not see each other for, like, two to four weeks, and then we would

07:28:41.100 see each other for another month or two.

07:28:42.640 So, yeah, we were...

07:28:43.840 Of the 18...

07:28:44.780 Or, of the year and a half, we lived together for probably more than half of it.

07:28:49.680 Ten months, I'd say.

07:28:50.820 Consistently.

07:28:51.300 Okay.

07:28:51.700 And I was also...

07:28:52.560 So, I'm somebody that prior to him, I had multiple jobs.

07:28:56.400 Multiple...

07:28:56.760 Like, I was somebody who was working, like I said earlier.

07:28:59.180 It wasn't uncommon for me to pull 60 to 80 hour weeks.

07:29:02.260 My...

07:29:02.780 I also have a very high-strung breed of dog.

07:29:05.300 I have a Belgian Malwa.

07:29:06.120 She has to be walked in the morning, at night.

07:29:07.740 I have cats.

07:29:08.260 I have my own place.

07:29:09.220 I have a lot going on.

07:29:10.040 So, I'm somebody who was constantly, like, go, go, go, go, go, go, go.

07:29:13.300 And I'm also...

07:29:14.440 I go to the gym.

07:29:15.320 I work out.

07:29:16.380 I cook basically all my own food just for, like, the health value.

07:29:19.440 So, I was always busy.

07:29:20.780 Yeah.

07:29:21.220 Demands I quit my jobs.

07:29:22.860 Well, now, all of a sudden, I have all this time.

07:29:25.260 And then he doesn't want me...

07:29:26.440 I'm not allowed to go...

07:29:27.020 I don't want to go out and club or anything.

07:29:28.600 But I have all this time on my hands.

07:29:31.720 He doesn't want to talk to me and occupy my time.

07:29:33.760 Which I get.

07:29:34.400 Because he still has to work.

07:29:35.580 And he has...

07:29:35.880 So, it ended up being this, like...

07:29:39.060 Not that I was intentionally being annoying.

07:29:40.960 But the end of the night would come around and I would make dinner.

07:29:43.040 And he wanted to, like, sit out and zone out, watch a show on his computer.

07:29:47.580 And I wanted to talk and get, like...

07:29:49.880 Oof.

07:29:50.780 Not, like...

07:29:51.480 I didn't want to...

07:29:52.100 I'm with him.

07:29:52.960 I get it.

07:29:53.740 Like, I do truly get it.

07:29:55.080 But you've taken me away...

07:29:57.120 Let me just watch The Walking Dead.

07:29:59.020 I get it. 1.00

07:29:59.780 I want to see some zombies get fucked up. 1.00

07:30:01.620 I do get it. 1.00

07:30:02.880 But you've...

07:30:03.460 What do you want to talk about?

07:30:04.500 You've taken me...

07:30:05.400 Like, you've taken me away from my family, my friends, and everything else.

07:30:08.100 No, it's like...

07:30:08.780 And you don't want to talk to me.

07:30:09.840 Just come lay next to me. 1.00

07:30:11.000 Let's watch some zombies get fucked up. 0.99

07:30:12.500 It wasn't even like that either. 0.99

07:30:13.700 It wasn't even like that either.

07:30:15.860 Oh, my God.

07:30:16.300 What do you mean by he took you away?

07:30:18.740 I just want to see some zombies.

07:30:20.400 I made the decision to go.

07:30:21.920 And I was...

07:30:22.240 But I still...

07:30:23.040 I want, like, reassurance from my partner.

07:30:24.920 Let me let these come through, but we can come back to it.

07:30:28.040 Guys, $20 TTS.

07:30:29.860 Get it in.

07:30:32.620 Is this the last call?

07:30:34.500 Is this the last call?

07:30:35.680 Great posture.

07:30:36.460 Very nice.

07:30:37.460 Oh.

07:30:38.860 Wow.

07:30:39.140 Is this chair one simp?

07:30:40.920 You've got a fan.

07:30:42.500 $20.

07:30:43.800 Over 4,000 watching live and 1.7K likes.

07:30:48.200 Wait.

07:30:48.360 Come on, team.

07:30:49.240 We're better than that.

07:30:50.300 If...

07:30:50.680 Question for you.

07:30:51.740 If chair one simp pops a ball of champagne right now, will you go on a date with him?

07:30:57.880 Whoa.

07:30:59.280 I don't know how old he is.

07:31:01.920 He makes six figures.

07:31:02.980 Here, tell you what.

07:31:03.660 To be fair, chair one simp, give us some details about you.

07:31:08.860 How tall...

07:31:09.400 What do you want?

07:31:09.900 You want height?

07:31:10.780 What do you want?

07:31:11.220 I just need to know age and...

07:31:13.920 Age and...

07:31:14.920 Age?

07:31:15.260 And...

07:31:15.660 Ethnicity? 0.84

07:31:18.100 No. 1.00

07:31:18.560 Penis size? 1.00

07:31:19.400 Oh, no. 0.99

07:31:21.500 Ball size?

07:31:23.120 Age?

07:31:23.840 Age and...

07:31:25.040 Age?

07:31:25.380 Wait, this is scary.

07:31:26.480 I don't know.

07:31:27.000 You can say occupation.

07:31:28.640 Age, occupation.

07:31:29.500 Okay, yeah.

07:31:30.040 Age, occupation.

07:31:30.680 Where he lives.

07:31:31.580 Where he lives.

07:31:32.140 Where do you live?

07:31:33.300 And I would need your Instagram to know who your friends are.

07:31:38.060 I don't know if it's confirmed on LinkedIn.

07:31:39.260 Oh, no.

07:31:39.580 Not here, but if...

07:31:41.360 Okay.

07:31:42.400 Or what do you mean?

07:31:43.820 I don't know.

07:31:44.300 Whatever.

07:31:44.720 Oh, just so I can do my research for safety. 0.98

07:31:46.160 I fucked my beard up today, boys. 0.99

07:31:50.000 This is ridiculous. 0.99

07:31:50.860 I totally ruined it. 1.00

07:31:53.240 It's fucking terrible. 0.98

07:31:56.020 By the way, have I been doing the mmm thing? 0.99

07:31:58.660 I feel like I do the mmm thing, too, a little bit.

07:32:01.220 I don't know.

07:32:02.580 Rue Blackbird donated $20.

07:32:05.680 Share 2, she pulled an IV on him. 0.81

07:32:08.240 So I get it lol.

07:32:09.780 She pulled an IV on him? 1.00

07:32:11.580 What does that mean?

07:32:13.800 That's going to be a new term.

07:32:15.080 That I wanted to talk?

07:32:16.020 To pull an IV.

07:32:16.580 To pull an IV. 0.97

07:32:17.840 What the heck?

07:32:18.620 Sons of Liberty donated $19.99.

07:32:22.280 My great, great granddad fought for the Confederacy at the Battle of Lookout Mountain.

07:32:27.860 To have a first-generation Vietnamese explain to me why the Confederate flag is wrong. 1.00

07:32:32.940 Ignorant woman. 1.00

07:32:33.980 Ooh, spicy. 1.00

07:32:35.240 Okay, $20 TTS.

07:32:36.560 We've got a few more things.

07:32:37.560 Really quick, I'm going to read some of the rest of your notes, Patrice.

07:32:40.560 So you said, excuse me, for the guy who you were engaged to, you said,

07:32:44.620 I gave up everything for him.

07:32:47.840 You said, your job, your family, your life, your social media, anything he asked, I did

07:32:52.980 at the drop of a hat.

07:32:54.140 You're a very submissive girlfriend. 1.00

07:32:55.660 But he constantly was showing me that I couldn't really totally relax around him.

07:32:59.580 Something was always missing and off.

07:33:01.680 I ignore all of that in an attempt to just want it to work and the potential of it working.

07:33:06.660 We spent a year constantly traveling.

07:33:09.920 Are you at liberty to say his profession or would you prefer, you don't know?

07:33:14.460 I would prefer not.

07:33:15.440 That's fine.

07:33:16.640 Okay.

07:33:17.880 So like he would ask you to like take, would you take down like revealing photos on your

07:33:22.500 Instagram?

07:33:22.820 I didn't.

07:33:23.080 So you'll notice when I first, when I first reached out to you, I had a different Instagram

07:33:26.540 with only like five posts and like 50 followers.

07:33:28.760 That was at his request.

07:33:29.860 And it was, it was like, he didn't even have to ask me.

07:33:32.740 I knew how he felt about stuff like that.

07:33:34.340 So like I was telling you earlier, we literally had gone on one date and there wasn't even

07:33:37.760 any conversation about like exclusivity or anything, but I knew how he was from like

07:33:41.960 seeing his content and stuff.

07:33:42.820 And I, it was gone.

07:33:44.180 Anything revealing was gone.

07:33:45.380 And then I still had the Instagram page, but with no posts on it.

07:33:48.560 And then he was like, I want this, like, I want the Instagram page down.

07:33:51.700 No problem.

07:33:52.200 It came down.

07:33:52.760 I want the TikTok page down.

07:33:53.920 No problem.

07:33:54.420 It came down.

07:33:54.840 I want you to quit your job.

07:33:55.700 No problem.

07:33:56.200 Done.

07:33:57.180 Like literally anything he asked, done.

07:34:00.160 But as the, as the relationship progressed, because I've given an inch, now he wants a mile 0.85

07:34:04.940 and the request became absolutely like ridiculous, like insane.

07:34:10.540 So like, I'll give you an example of one. 0.65

07:34:13.200 So I, I'm not somebody, I don't like milk.

07:34:16.340 I don't want to drink milk.

07:34:17.460 I don't like, I don't want to drink a glass of milk.

07:34:19.440 I don't like it.

07:34:20.840 But he would like demand that I would drink a glass of raw milk and I don't have anything

07:34:26.320 against raw milk.

07:34:27.140 I think it could be a superfood.

07:34:28.620 Sure.

07:34:29.120 I don't like milk.

07:34:30.540 Like I don't want to.

07:34:31.640 And he would get mad and tell me that I was being argumentative and combative because

07:34:34.860 I didn't want it.

07:34:36.120 It just, I don't know.

07:34:37.800 What's the reason?

07:34:38.760 Like, did he, but did he want you to get your protein intake or something?

07:34:42.520 It was just like a, it was just like a power move.

07:34:45.160 Even my, even my engagement ring was a power move and I didn't realize it at the time.

07:34:48.540 It took like, I realized it after not that I'm like, wasn't appreciative of it, but he

07:34:51.740 told me to pick out an engagement ring and I did.

07:34:53.940 And I picked out a, like I picked out a diamond and then he was like, no, not a diamond, like

07:34:57.380 anything else.

07:34:57.900 And he ended up getting me a ring that was like double the price of the ring I actually

07:35:01.460 wanted just to like, and I'm like, oh, that's so sweet.

07:35:03.920 But just like, to like, I don't know.

07:35:05.420 I feel like even in that moment, it was a power move.

07:35:07.680 I do.

07:35:08.120 Moving on to the next thing in your notes here.

07:35:09.720 You said you were in a 4.5 year serious living relationship your entire adult life.

07:35:14.480 You spent with this guy.

07:35:16.500 He was 13 years older.

07:35:18.740 Yeah.

07:35:19.600 Every guy I've ever dated has been like 12 to 14 years older than me.

07:35:22.060 You said he and his family own hotels and such.

07:35:25.800 You walked in on him in the hotel pool area in the steam room, literally cheating on you

07:35:30.120 with a 21 year old front desk girl.

07:35:32.920 And at the time you were 23.

07:35:35.360 Which is, yeah, I did.

07:35:38.440 That did happen.

07:35:40.020 I, that, so that like, you'll see right now I'm two weeks post breakup from across the country 0.96

07:35:46.260 and it sucks. 0.85

07:35:47.440 Like, I'm not going to lie and be like losing an engagement and you've, you're mourning the 0.98

07:35:51.380 loss of what you thought was going to be.

07:35:53.280 And I'm not going to sit here and pretend it doesn't suck and I'm not hurt because like

07:35:56.220 I am.

07:35:57.000 But that relationship, I was at this point in that breakup, I was still like in bed, couldn't

07:36:03.220 eat, couldn't sleep, couldn't like move, like just in physical agony.

07:36:07.920 So I feel like you go through that one time and like never again, ever again. 0.95

07:36:13.260 And then you said that this generation might be the most underfucked and most lonely. 0.98

07:36:18.680 What does that mean underfucked? 0.97

07:36:20.000 I mean, so, I mean, I think that this generation has, first off, I mean, we can pivot to multiple

07:36:25.200 different points in this on dating is difficult.

07:36:28.040 Now women all want to be with the top 1% of men and men all want to be with like objectively 0.96

07:36:33.800 the top 1% of women.

07:36:36.200 Men want the most attractive, most beautiful youngest woman that they can get. 1.00

07:36:39.960 And women won't even look in a man if they're not making, like we talked about earlier, like 1.00

07:36:44.500 most of the women here, six figures if they're not manly and masculine and all of these things. 1.00

07:36:51.660 So nobody, in my opinion, like nobody's having sex.

07:36:55.020 Women are posting revealing posts on the internet, on their Instagrams or whatever, and maybe 1.00

07:36:58.920 they have OnlyFans, but nobody is actually having sex.

07:37:02.120 Not like they were.

07:37:02.980 60 years ago, everybody was in a committed relationship and married by the time they

07:37:07.540 were 21.

07:37:08.780 Regularly, constantly having sex.

07:37:10.600 That's not the case today.

07:37:11.620 You might have a hookup every now and then.

07:37:13.280 Seems like that's kind of how most of the panel is.

07:37:15.100 It's nothing consistent.

07:37:16.640 People aren't having sex five, six times a week.

07:37:18.920 If you're under...

07:37:18.980 I think less men are having sex, but more women are.

07:37:23.600 That's a good point, maybe.

07:37:25.660 I think that was one of the questions.

07:37:26.880 Yeah, that's probably the case.

07:37:29.540 He looks like you're reflecting. 1.00

07:37:32.240 What the fuck? 1.00

07:37:36.260 What? 1.00

07:37:39.060 I missed my chance.

07:37:40.540 Okay, there's a few more chats coming through here.

07:37:45.580 Michael Jones donated $20.

07:37:47.620 Chair 4 and Brian, I used to have a stutter.

07:37:52.100 In speech therapy, they teach you if you are using filler words or sounds, just take a

07:37:57.880 pause.

07:37:58.760 You won't stutter and will sound smarter.

07:38:01.460 Yes, I was taught that too.

07:38:03.400 I appreciate that.

07:38:04.440 Thank you, Michael.

07:38:06.220 Uh-oh.

07:38:06.700 Wait, I need to wait for Chair 1.

07:38:08.120 Oh, it was for you and me?

07:38:08.680 That was great.

07:38:09.220 It was for both of us, yeah.

07:38:11.640 Joe McDonald donated $20.

07:38:13.660 I used to associate the red pill movement with men only until I realized it is for both

07:38:19.740 genders because we all head to the same grinder. 1.00

07:38:22.900 The 1% get to live life while the rest of us sleep until death. 0.85

07:38:28.620 Kmer 594 donated $20. 1.00

07:38:32.140 Chair 4, it's insane that you were around children, you lunatic. 0.97

07:38:37.000 Chair 5, I have nothing. 0.99

07:38:39.380 Chair 6, you're learning.

07:38:41.460 Chair 7, non-existent.

07:38:43.760 Chair 8, I wish I had something bad to say about you.

07:38:48.440 Chor XD donated $20.

07:38:51.300 Chair 2, you're pretty, based, ish, enough.

07:38:55.280 If you want to meet a nice guy who wants to start a family with you, what do you think

07:38:59.740 guys out there are going to think of your Instagram pictures?

07:39:03.340 Well, I would take my Instagram pictures down tomorrow if I met a guy that was worthy of

07:39:08.720 that.

07:39:08.960 So.

07:39:11.720 All right.

07:39:13.860 Lululu donated $20.

07:39:16.440 Chair 2, where are you from and what is your accent?

07:39:20.520 I'm from America and I'm from New Jersey.

07:39:23.780 New Jersey.

07:39:25.180 New Jersey.

07:39:26.860 Let's see, we have another one.

07:39:28.040 Thank you, Lulu.

07:39:29.100 Kmer 594 donated $20.

07:39:31.800 Are you ready for another rose?

07:39:34.880 Chair 1, no self-respecting man would wife you. 0.94

07:39:38.340 You're a mistress at best. 0.99

07:39:40.160 Chair 2, you think you're a good one, but you're fake. 0.99

07:39:43.920 Chair 3, just the shovel. 1.00

07:39:45.900 What the fuck? 0.99

07:39:47.980 What does that mean? 1.00

07:39:49.380 I don't know.

07:39:50.120 Randy donated $20.

07:39:52.440 Flan, Garrus, Josh, Aaron, Jonah, Bolton. 0.98

07:39:56.920 I miss Yarl, but I'm dealing with some shit RN. 1.00

07:40:00.480 Love you boys. 0.97

07:40:01.980 Am going more ghost than ever after this message.

07:40:05.100 Sorry how it's been slash is.

07:40:07.480 Hopefully you understand.

07:40:09.060 Yo, Randy, hope you're doing okay, man.

07:40:13.180 Yeah.

07:40:14.500 Hope you're doing all right.

07:40:16.860 I'm going more ghost than ever after this message.

07:40:21.060 Randy, I mean, shoot me a DM on Discord, man.

07:40:25.100 Hope you're okay.

07:40:25.720 Chair underscore one underscore simp donated $20.

07:40:29.760 $26.

07:40:30.760 This is for you.

07:40:31.520 Jacksonville, Florida.

07:40:33.000 Engineer.

07:40:34.080 My house has a pool and I own a boat.

07:40:36.140 I would love to watch the sunset on the waves with you.

07:40:40.240 All right.

07:40:40.740 What are you thinking?

07:40:41.500 What do you think?

07:40:43.680 Champagne pop?

07:40:45.200 He can take you on a date.

07:40:47.000 I don't know who he is, but a champagne pop and I will give you virtual kisses.

07:40:53.480 He'll fly you out.

07:40:54.540 He'll fly you out to Jacksonville. 0.96

07:40:56.520 I am not taking a random ass play. 0.98

07:40:58.420 No. 0.94

07:40:58.600 Well, first you guys get to know each other a bit.

07:41:00.960 Then you'll fly out.

07:41:02.580 Then you can get pregnant. 1.00

07:41:04.500 Wait, what?

07:41:05.300 Another whatever.

07:41:06.660 Maybe that's, hold on, maybe a little down the road.

07:41:09.280 Alina, can you read these?

07:41:11.560 Chair one has the least unrealistic minimum salary for a man we've seen in a while.

07:41:16.100 I've never said that they have to have a minimum.

07:41:17.820 She said, didn't she say a billion?

07:41:18.680 No, but that's not the minimum.

07:41:20.480 They could have 20K or a salary.

07:41:24.120 Can you scoot your mic to the edge and tilt?

07:41:25.960 Yeah.

07:41:26.720 Your salary could be 20K, but if you are in the pursuit of hitting your goals, whether

07:41:34.500 that be monetary or just actually succeeding with whatever that is, that's all I care about.

07:41:41.360 Okay.

07:41:41.780 Yeah.

07:41:42.120 Read this one.

07:41:42.960 What can I say?

07:41:43.700 I'm a man of the people.

07:41:44.820 Chair two is dangerously close to a pick-me girl. 0.93

07:41:47.080 Oh, I don't know what that means.

07:41:48.500 I don't know what that means.

07:41:48.520 I don't know the way you read.

07:41:50.340 Mm.

07:41:51.640 Response to that?

07:41:52.620 They're saying you're a pick-me?

07:41:53.800 I don't know what that means.

07:41:55.000 What is that?

07:41:56.160 Oh, that's tough.

07:42:00.540 Thank you, Blackbird.

07:42:03.760 Chair two, speak for yourself. 0.99

07:42:06.460 Lol, I stay getting sex. 0.99

07:42:08.620 And wait, wait. 0.99

07:42:10.000 Is Brian chair one sim?

07:42:12.840 No.

07:42:13.780 Got him.

07:42:14.220 No.

07:42:15.120 That is not me.

07:42:16.880 Maybe it's you, Blackbird.

07:42:18.540 Maybe you're the one who's, you got multiple accounts.

07:42:21.540 You got different accounts.

07:42:24.040 Wow.

07:42:24.760 How?

07:42:25.780 Wow, I'm hurt.

07:42:26.840 I'm hurt, Blackbird.

07:42:28.380 Okay.

07:42:29.280 I'm too broken.

07:42:30.080 I need to be fixed.

07:42:30.920 Yeah.

07:42:31.040 Okay, and then, Steph, did you have some notes or something you wanted to hit on?

07:42:38.160 No, not really.

07:42:39.620 You did have one disagreement, so I'll give you that one.

07:42:42.820 Steph, your disagreement was interrupting when trying to answer, and I think in your pre-show

07:42:50.380 notes, you said something along the lines of, in terms of disagreement with the show,

07:42:55.000 where you don't agree how, how at times they speak over the guests to not let them finish

07:43:00.860 what they're saying.

07:43:02.200 Mm-hmm.

07:43:03.660 I mean, it didn't happen in this podcast, but it's like something that I say in another

07:43:06.700 podcast.

07:43:07.520 It happens a bit.

07:43:08.440 Sorry.

07:43:09.900 No, she's talking about the hosts.

07:43:11.600 Oh.

07:43:12.040 Right?

07:43:12.360 Oh.

07:43:13.020 Oh.

07:43:14.280 Oh, okay. 1.00

07:43:16.100 Yeah, I do that shit. 1.00

07:43:17.820 It's hard when there's so many people, like... 1.00

07:43:19.960 Yeah.

07:43:20.300 Well, I mean, as the host, too, you have to direct the conversation, so sometimes I have

07:43:24.600 to interrupt people, cut people off, move things along, so...

07:43:27.780 Mm-hmm.

07:43:28.400 All right.

07:43:28.720 We have a chat here from Pasty George.

07:43:33.520 Uh, okay.

07:43:35.380 Pasty George.

07:43:36.580 Pasty George donated $20.

07:43:39.060 All right.

07:43:39.480 I am a proud MGTor member.

07:43:41.480 We don't hate women, but are cautious around them because of the rise of false allegations.

07:43:46.840 We never marry women who are influenced by feminism. 0.56

07:43:50.360 Traditional women FTW. 1.00

07:43:52.620 Yo, thank you, Pasty.

07:43:55.060 Yeah, man.

07:43:55.940 You gotta be careful, though, saying that you're...

07:43:57.980 Well, I mean, you're anonymous here, but...

07:44:00.540 Like, they, uh, they deleted the MGTor, MGTor, Reddit.

07:44:05.480 A lot of those communities online just get nuked by all the platforms, so...

07:44:10.040 Uh, okay, we got a bunch.

07:44:11.280 Three coming in here.

07:44:14.160 Submersible Honky donated $20.

07:44:16.820 Go to Bed Bath & Beyond and buy a lamp.

07:44:20.000 On your way out, scream, I'm stealing this lamp.

07:44:23.500 They'll stop you, but ultimately they can't do anything.

07:44:27.180 It's your lamp.

07:44:28.300 You can do whatever you want with it.

07:44:30.540 Yo, it was submersible.

07:44:31.720 Thank you, man.

07:44:34.380 Murph, $594 donated $20. 0.88

07:44:37.960 Brian, you're the goat. 0.82

07:44:39.660 Thank you. 0.96

07:44:39.900 Much love from the Crucible.

07:44:43.180 Let's see.

07:44:46.460 Thank you.

07:44:47.140 Oh, Murph, thank you so much, man.

07:44:49.100 Thank you.

07:44:49.760 Shout out to the Crucible crew.

07:44:51.420 Thank you, guys.

07:44:52.300 Long can't be me.

07:44:53.780 I've got a type.

07:44:54.680 She's got to make $95 a month, have bad vision, bad arch in her back, and got to drive stick 1.00

07:45:01.560 shift lol.

07:45:02.760 Lol jokes.

07:45:04.160 Wait.

07:45:05.800 Is that your...

07:45:06.400 Are you describing your girlfriend?

07:45:08.580 Bad vision, bad arch in the back, $95 a month.

07:45:12.340 All right.

07:45:14.560 Alina, can you read this one?

07:45:16.500 Just listening to y'all makes me tired of the dating game.

07:45:21.740 Doge.

07:45:22.340 Wow.

07:45:22.880 Thank you, man.

07:45:23.360 Appreciate the super chat there.

07:45:25.720 All right.

07:45:26.700 I'll do...

07:45:27.780 If there's any more that are coming through, feel free to get them in.

07:45:30.320 I guess any final thoughts from any of the panelists before we wrap this up?

07:45:34.860 Speak now, forever.

07:45:35.760 Hold your peace.

07:45:38.380 Oh.

07:45:39.660 Oh.

07:45:40.420 Oh.

07:45:40.880 Anything?

07:45:41.240 One more.

07:45:42.140 Anything?

07:45:42.720 Huh?

07:45:43.180 Ivy, you want to... 0.94

07:45:44.340 Yeah.

07:45:45.100 You guys are pretty mean.

07:45:46.140 She wants to go all night.

07:45:47.980 No.

07:45:48.780 I don't think I...

07:45:49.480 I talk a lot, but I was like, the comments are kind of me.

07:45:52.200 I was expecting that.

07:45:53.500 I didn't know what a roast was.

07:45:54.880 I knew it's like saying stuff.

07:45:56.860 Like...

07:45:56.960 Yeah.

07:45:57.260 But it's like...

07:45:58.000 Yeah, it's a roast.

07:45:58.580 But it's...

07:45:59.300 I don't know.

07:45:59.880 They were like, kind of like, out of pocket.

07:46:01.660 Yeah, there's a...

07:46:02.160 Yeah, that's kind of it.

07:46:04.340 Wait, question...

07:46:05.560 I guess, Bailey...

07:46:06.880 Huh?

07:46:08.140 Oh, I don't know.

07:46:08.480 Oh, my God.

07:46:09.160 What were you thinking about right now?

07:46:10.620 Anime or something?

07:46:11.840 What?

07:46:12.420 What?

07:46:12.780 No.

07:46:13.460 What were you thinking about right now?

07:46:15.360 Nothing.

07:46:15.900 To be honest. 1.00

07:46:15.920 Were you thinking about penis? 1.00

07:46:17.280 Or penis? 1.00

07:46:17.740 Yep. 1.00

07:46:18.240 Yes. 1.00

07:46:18.700 Penis. 1.00

07:46:19.020 How did you know? 1.00

07:46:19.960 I just could tell.

07:46:22.660 In your...

07:46:23.380 In the previous show, you wanted to talk a bit about, like, the Asian dynamics.

07:46:28.600 So, like, I want to ask what you think.

07:46:32.180 She doesn't date Asian men.

07:46:34.100 Oh.

07:46:34.540 No.

07:46:35.920 Busted.

07:46:36.760 What do you think about that?

07:46:37.980 Do you think she's racist? 0.99

07:46:39.820 You're so racist, Bailey. 1.00

07:46:42.060 I think, like... 0.99

07:46:43.440 I have white parents.

07:46:45.320 I think that, like, as a...

07:46:47.020 Depends on, like, who...

07:46:48.600 Is it racist?

07:46:49.580 Do you actually not wear contacts?

07:46:53.060 I don't.

07:46:53.720 Ask Alina.

07:46:54.700 No, she doesn't have color contacts. 0.74

07:46:55.860 Okay.

07:46:56.480 Wow.

07:46:57.320 My eyes are just...

07:46:58.280 I do think that there is, like, a...

07:47:00.180 Not, like...

07:47:00.540 If you watch Ali Wong, like, she's a comedian.

07:47:02.660 She talks about it a bit.

07:47:03.960 She's like, oh, I just like to date white men because it feels like I'm colonizing them. 0.73

07:47:07.080 You know?

07:47:07.440 You can like... 1.00

07:47:08.060 What the fuck? 1.00

07:47:08.460 Yeah. 1.00

07:47:09.400 And then she prefers the black... 0.96

07:47:11.620 Black guys. 0.99

07:47:13.420 Sexy. 0.99

07:47:14.700 One.

07:47:15.140 Oh, boy.

07:47:17.340 Chair One Simp again.

07:47:18.280 Here we go.

07:47:18.600 Chair underscore one underscore Simp donated $20.

07:47:22.480 Many thanks to Brian for bringing Chair One on the show to let her share her beauty with

07:47:27.120 the world.

07:47:28.040 Wow.

07:47:28.660 Chair One doesn't need to be fixed.

07:47:30.160 I gotta be honest.

07:47:31.040 I don't think anybody has simped.

07:47:33.060 I mean, it's...

07:47:34.000 I don't think anybody has simped this much for a girl on the show.

07:47:39.080 It's the rave girl energy, I think.

07:47:40.860 It's the rave girl.

07:47:41.820 Yeah.

07:47:42.320 Chair One Simp.

07:47:43.080 Will you go with...

07:47:44.080 What if he brings you to a rave or something for a first date?

07:47:47.060 I go to too many raves, man.

07:47:48.900 Oh, man.

07:47:49.620 Too many.

07:47:50.220 Too many.

07:47:50.860 Yeah.

07:47:51.580 Okay.

07:47:52.760 How about...

07:47:53.100 Well, Chair One, if you do a champagne pop, I will convince her to go on a date with you. 1.00

07:48:01.720 I will not fly anywhere.

07:48:03.900 It would happen.

07:48:04.240 He'll fly.

07:48:04.740 He'll fly here.

07:48:05.060 I'd have to be in LA.

07:48:06.260 He'll meet...

07:48:06.720 He'll come to LA.

07:48:07.220 I don't have to be on my terms of where I want to go to be safe.

07:48:10.860 Fine.

07:48:11.180 He'll take you to the...

07:48:12.460 He'll take you to Arby's.

07:48:14.340 Arby's.

07:48:14.660 That's your favorite restaurant.

07:48:15.060 We're going to 71 and above, baby.

07:48:17.780 I don't know what that is.

07:48:18.960 Is that like an expensive restaurant?

07:48:21.460 Ish.

07:48:22.040 Yeah.

07:48:22.460 Ish?

07:48:23.060 Ish.

07:48:23.340 Okay.

07:48:23.680 The food isn't good, though.

07:48:24.980 I would say...

07:48:25.440 Oh, you didn't know?

07:48:25.740 Yeah, it's yummy.

07:48:26.960 I think because I've been traveling around the world.

07:48:29.040 Okay, period.

07:48:29.700 Yeah.

07:48:30.080 It's not a Michelin star restaurant at all.

07:48:32.320 You pay for the experience of being a high up...

07:48:34.180 It's a high up...

07:48:34.840 Yeah.

07:48:35.820 Yeah.

07:48:36.060 Huh.

07:48:36.240 Try that.

07:48:37.460 Oh, how to find...

07:48:38.300 It's not a huge...

07:48:39.020 She's talking about 71 and...

07:48:41.080 Recent events.

07:48:41.780 We're all through the events.

07:48:42.540 I don't know.

07:48:43.600 Yeah.

07:48:44.620 You're not from here.

07:48:46.360 Messages attached to...

07:48:47.700 Alert box logs if TTS was triggered.

07:48:50.760 Oh, okay.

07:48:51.240 I'm trying to find that like deleted or denied TTS.

07:48:55.520 Wait, is there a way to...

07:48:56.260 Hold on.

07:48:56.520 Let me...

07:48:57.040 Is there a way to see declined TTS?

07:49:01.000 Let me see, boys.

07:49:04.640 Let me see.

07:49:05.980 Oh, one sec.

07:49:06.720 I don't want to screw this person over.

07:49:08.280 I feel bad.

07:49:10.240 Wait, where is it?

07:49:11.460 Where is it?

07:49:12.820 What's the term for it?

07:49:13.940 I don't know.

07:49:15.000 Eh.

07:49:15.380 Well.

07:49:17.220 Maybe you get...

07:49:18.100 Oh, hold on.

07:49:19.640 Another one?

07:49:21.100 Oh, wait.

07:49:21.460 No, this is it.

07:49:22.080 Okay.

07:49:23.480 I think we have to end the show there.

07:49:25.720 Oh, wait.

07:49:26.480 Hold on.

07:49:26.920 Hold on.

07:49:26.980 There's another one coming there.

07:49:32.960 Hats off.

07:49:34.880 OJ, Mike.

07:49:36.200 Whatever underscore whenever donated $20.

07:49:39.520 Hands off OJ and Mike.

07:49:41.700 Chair eight is my Russian queen.

07:49:43.840 Let's read Dostoyevsky and drink vodka by the fire.

07:49:48.560 Oh, whatever, whenever.

07:49:50.360 Thank you, man.

07:49:50.800 Appreciate it.

07:49:51.780 Thank you.

07:49:52.080 Thank you.

07:49:52.340 We have chair six here.

07:49:53.820 Chair six donated $20.

07:49:58.700 The Torta got a point.

07:50:00.280 Torta. 1.00

07:50:00.620 What the fuck? 1.00

07:50:00.640 Big, dumpy brain and a fat boy on small square interrupts and hold up the show all the time 1.00

07:50:05.700 on dumb shit stuff. 1.00

07:50:07.380 Also, chair one is the final boss simp. 1.00

07:50:10.720 Hold this cell.

07:50:11.920 Final boss?

07:50:13.320 I don't get it.

07:50:14.460 Yo, chair six.

07:50:15.200 Thank you, man.

07:50:15.600 Appreciate it.

07:50:16.360 Do you want to respond to the Torta allegations?

07:50:18.900 I mean, I don't know because that's not how I feel.

07:50:22.840 Oh.

07:50:23.240 What is Torta?

07:50:24.660 Yeah, what is Torta?

07:50:25.820 It's like the, like, have a big sandwich.

07:50:29.160 Sandwich.

07:50:29.800 It's like a sandwich.

07:50:31.040 Like a Mexican sandwich.

07:50:32.140 Yeah.

07:50:33.020 Is it spicy or just a Spanish? 1.00

07:50:35.000 It's like Guatemala people eat it.

07:50:35.800 Am I a Torta?

07:50:36.580 Yeah.

07:50:37.060 It's like what you call, like, big people.

07:50:39.400 Torta.

07:50:40.180 Am I a Torta?

07:50:41.040 If you want to be a Torta.

07:50:41.760 Am I a Torta?

07:50:43.240 Am I a Torta?

07:50:44.160 It's like a really big Torta.

07:50:45.740 Oh, my God.

07:50:48.520 Good times.

07:50:49.220 Good times.

07:50:50.160 Oh, wait, Bailey.

07:50:51.700 Bailey, you ready for this?

07:50:53.780 No.

07:50:53.920 Are you ready, Bailey?

07:50:55.580 Bailey.

07:50:56.100 No.

07:50:56.400 Are you ready?

07:50:58.000 No.

07:50:58.480 Are you ready?

07:50:59.340 Are you ready?

07:51:00.420 Still no.

07:51:00.820 Are you ready? 0.99

07:51:02.420 Bailey, are you fucking ready? 0.99

07:51:05.160 Can the other Bailey take my place? 0.99

07:51:09.040 Bailey.

07:51:10.540 Hold on.

07:51:11.000 Okay, Bailey.

07:51:14.320 Tell us what happened.

07:51:16.340 I don't know what you're talking about.

07:51:17.520 Tell us what happened, Bailey.

07:51:18.140 I don't know what you're talking about.

07:51:20.120 Where on the doll?

07:51:21.460 No, I'm just kidding.

07:51:22.500 Tell us what, Bailey, tell us, can you tell us what happened?

07:51:26.220 When?

07:51:27.960 You know, the whole situation.

07:51:31.340 I don't think I know what you're talking about.

07:51:32.760 The ex-boyfriend.

07:51:37.700 Do I have an ex?

07:51:39.380 The ex-boyfriend?

07:51:40.880 Do you have an ex?

07:51:43.340 What?

07:51:43.720 Alina? 0.80

07:51:45.840 I can't answer this for you.

07:51:49.120 I mean, I don't know what you're asking.

07:51:51.100 Somebody in the chat asked me to ask.

07:51:54.040 Okay, let's see the chat.

07:51:57.180 I don't have it.

07:51:59.220 Funny.

07:52:00.000 No, I swear, they were like, you know, wanting to know.

07:52:04.400 Then where is it?

07:52:05.660 Where's the chat?

07:52:06.580 Do you want to talk about it?

07:52:08.200 I don't know what you're asking me.

07:52:10.880 Well, there was some confusion last show.

07:52:14.320 Of?

07:52:15.240 About the situation.

07:52:17.000 Specifically what?

07:52:18.600 With the ex-boyfriend.

07:52:21.460 Specifically what?

07:52:23.020 Well, because they were like, Brian, you put words into her mouth.

07:52:27.580 That's what they told me.

07:52:29.020 Okay.

07:52:30.280 Words being?

07:52:31.880 Like, I was putting words into your mouth.

07:52:34.740 Specifically as an example.

07:52:37.220 Like, about the whole, like, the force thing.

07:52:41.500 Okay.

07:52:42.020 Like, I said that, and they were like, oh, you put words into her mouth.

07:52:45.980 I mean, it's true.

07:52:46.860 I mean, I don't know what you want to know about it.

07:52:51.400 Do you want to talk about it?

07:52:52.860 I don't really have much to talk about.

07:52:56.020 But, everyone in the comments.

07:52:59.320 He's not a good person.

07:53:02.740 Okay.

07:53:03.100 What do you want to know?

07:53:06.840 I don't know.

07:53:07.520 I don't know.

07:53:07.820 Do they want to know, like, the storm?

07:53:09.280 I just.

07:53:09.780 I don't know what you want to know.

07:53:10.840 Like, that night.

07:53:12.440 What do you mean, that night?

07:53:14.020 What happened?

07:53:15.760 Like, do you want the details?

07:53:17.200 Like, you want to, this is, this is a band camp.

07:53:19.700 This happened?

07:53:20.540 Is that what you want?

07:53:21.700 The one night we had an argument.

07:53:23.260 That was it.

07:53:23.920 No, the other thing.

07:53:27.380 Oh, I mean, I don't even know.

07:53:29.200 That was, like, three nights.

07:53:31.360 Wait, there was three separate nights where.

07:53:34.120 He was just very pushy.

07:53:36.520 I mean, I don't know what you want to know.

07:53:38.320 But, can you explain, like, what.

07:53:40.140 I mean, I'm not going to go into detail about, like, him and the whole situation.

07:53:45.680 Like, I'm not going to go into, like, detail about, like, the physicality of it all.

07:53:48.800 Like.

07:53:53.240 Crickets.

07:53:53.920 Crickets.

07:54:00.740 I'm just going to be silent until you.

07:54:03.140 I don't know what you want me to say.

07:54:05.240 Maybe, like, ask a more direct question.

07:54:07.180 Yeah, like, what do you want me to say?

07:54:08.320 Give me, give me, like, an actual, like, question.

07:54:10.520 Look, I just.

07:54:12.020 I know it's, like, a sensitive subject.

07:54:14.280 But, like, I, as a guy, I don't know.

07:54:17.120 And I feel, like, I'm not.

07:54:18.800 I'm asking so I can understand.

07:54:21.200 Is that fair?

07:54:23.080 Understand what?

07:54:24.220 What's the question?

07:54:24.920 I just want to, like, I want to understand, like, what happened.

07:54:29.500 Dex?

07:54:30.960 Did you, did you know?

07:54:32.800 I don't even know.

07:54:33.740 He just forced himself on me.

07:54:35.140 Like, I don't really.

07:54:36.020 Three times.

07:54:36.300 I don't want to rehash the details.

07:54:38.780 Yeah.

07:54:38.980 Three separate occasions.

07:54:39.960 But, like.

07:54:40.480 How did you end up with him on another occasion after the first, like.

07:54:44.100 Um, because first boyfriend didn't really have any other sort of judgment of what to expect.

07:54:51.560 So, you know, I have nothing to go off of.

07:54:54.100 So, I'm like, okay.

07:54:56.620 Boyfriend can't be.

07:54:58.420 People say all the time can't be SA.

07:55:01.060 So, it's like.

07:55:02.420 You just accept it at some point.

07:55:04.260 And then you realize.

07:55:05.220 Oh, wait.

07:55:05.500 No.

07:55:05.740 You shouldn't accept it.

07:55:06.940 Three times though?

07:55:08.140 Yeah.

07:55:08.380 What, why is that not a good number for you?

07:55:11.400 If somebody forced himself on me one time and I truly woke up the next day.

07:55:15.060 Like.

07:55:15.720 Okay.

07:55:16.100 But, how are you and I the same person?

07:55:17.980 How do we have the same experience?

07:55:19.560 Regret and grief are not synonymous.

07:55:21.640 But, I can guarantee.

07:55:22.660 Like, why would you go see him again?

07:55:25.000 Okay.

07:55:25.380 But, are you me?

07:55:26.640 But, why would you go see him again?

07:55:27.980 But, are you me?

07:55:28.760 Because I could have a separate situation and think.

07:55:30.720 Oh, maybe.

07:55:31.220 Can you answer the question?

07:55:31.800 If he forced himself on you and made you feel unsafe.

07:55:33.940 Why would you go see him again?

07:55:35.580 And then.

07:55:36.020 I'm trying to understand.

07:55:37.100 Okay.

07:55:37.320 But, can I talk?

07:55:38.020 Yes.

07:55:38.460 I'm trying to understand.

07:55:39.580 Okay.

07:55:39.980 So, being me.

07:55:41.280 Not having had any other relationship with someone.

07:55:43.720 Growing up in, like, a town of, like, literally, like, literally not many people.

07:55:48.800 I grew up in the middle of central Pennsylvania.

07:55:50.960 There's, like, no one.

07:55:52.020 I grew up adopted.

07:55:53.180 I grew up, like, where I was with white people who called me every other Asian kid's name.

07:55:59.220 Like, I didn't have the experience of being wanted.

07:56:03.560 Does that explain it?

07:56:05.400 So, you woke up the next day.

07:56:06.820 Oh, my God.

07:56:07.760 It wasn't the next day.

07:56:09.080 So, you woke up at some point, had time to process what had happened, realized, I didn't

07:56:12.900 want that.

07:56:13.460 I felt taken advantage of.

07:56:14.720 I feel.

07:56:15.820 No.

07:56:16.340 It didn't hit me.

07:56:17.600 But then.

07:56:18.000 It didn't actually hit me.

07:56:18.940 But then you went and saw him again.

07:56:20.060 And again.

07:56:20.840 Well, it didn't hit me, actually.

07:56:22.080 Because I didn't think about it.

07:56:23.200 Because I thought, oh, if you have a boyfriend, it's not SA. 0.69

07:56:26.300 But you went and saw him again.

07:56:30.920 You can think whatever you want.

07:56:32.160 I mean, you thought you couldn't drive in Australia when you can, so.

07:56:34.700 So, I mean, I think, like, you said no?

07:56:46.760 Yes.

07:56:48.140 I did say no.

07:56:49.800 I said, I got back from Australia.

07:56:53.020 And I basically said, I was like, I am tired.

07:56:58.000 I just, like, moved all my stuff.

07:57:00.680 This is not the time.

07:57:01.860 And, like, he didn't care.

07:57:06.580 Like, for one, he was like, you are gone.

07:57:09.600 Like, it's his right.

07:57:11.580 And then made me feel bad about it.

07:57:14.060 Wait, he said it.

07:57:14.760 Not verbatim.

07:57:15.640 I'm not going to put words in his mouth.

07:57:17.640 But he basically, like, it was like that.

07:57:20.160 And it was like, like, I was gone.

07:57:23.840 That was his right.

07:57:25.140 And me not having experience, I was just like, I'm not going to, like, say it wasn't.

07:57:31.560 And in the moment, it's very difficult.

07:57:33.860 I know you might argue with me.

07:57:35.380 But, like, for me, it was very difficult.

07:57:38.060 So, I mean, I'm not going to go into it.

07:57:41.040 And, yeah, that's it.

07:57:43.780 Okay.

07:57:44.160 But do you think it's fair?

07:57:44.920 But I think I'm done.

07:57:48.200 Okay.

07:57:50.380 I just wanted, because I know, like, the conversation got a little heated last time.

07:57:53.980 I was just hoping to get clarity.

07:57:56.080 Because, like, I know it's a super sensitive subject.

07:57:58.980 And it's, like, really intense.

07:58:02.460 And there's going to be, like, a lot of, like, feelings about it.

07:58:06.000 Yes.

07:58:06.420 And I'm just, like, and, again, it's a really hard thing to talk about.

07:58:10.800 I'm genuinely, like, I've never heard, like, the female perspective on this in terms of, like, what happened.

07:58:20.980 I mean, and I want to know what that, and if you're not comfortable sharing, I 100% respect that.

07:58:28.100 We don't have to go into the details.

07:58:30.000 But I'm just, I guess I'm just seeking clarity and then, like, understanding.

07:58:34.320 Because this is an opportunity to, like, I guess, talk about it.

07:58:42.480 And I don't want to do this again.

07:58:43.920 That's fine.

07:58:44.240 Ask someone else.

07:58:45.580 That's fine.

07:58:46.500 No problem.

07:58:47.280 I think she kind of, like, explained a bit of her background.

07:58:50.040 I don't want to speak for you.

07:58:51.200 But she did say she felt like she had nobody growing up.

07:58:54.700 If, like, she decided to go back, it's, like, her point of view, like, we're not anybody to judge.

07:59:00.620 And if you want to judge, just, like, keep it private and stuff.

07:59:03.220 But she did say that she felt like she had, like, no love growing up.

07:59:06.920 And that's enough for her to, like, felt like that was a reason for her to go back.

07:59:10.640 And I don't want to say it's the same criteria, but it's, like, women who stay in abusive relationships, 1.00

07:59:14.780 they have their own reasoning for it and a different background that, like, we're not one to speak on how they choose to stay in it.

07:59:22.740 I could share something.

07:59:25.160 I do want to say that your story is valid.

07:59:28.460 It's your experience.

07:59:29.140 You're good.

07:59:29.600 No, no, I'm just one of them.

07:59:30.340 Everyone has different experiences.

07:59:31.480 Well, yeah, I just want you, like, to feel like, you know, I do realize, like, the situation is a lot for you to talk about.

07:59:36.120 So I'm just letting you, giving you some assurance that your story is valid despite the views because it is a serious topic.

07:59:41.940 Oh, I welcome your experience to talk about it.

07:59:44.860 Yeah.

07:59:45.020 The only reason why, I just want to put in some input, just because, like, you know, you're asking.

07:59:50.980 Yeah, go ahead.

07:59:52.200 If you have any questions that you want.

07:59:54.860 Yeah.

07:59:55.100 No, I'm asking.

07:59:57.120 Do you have any questions about, like, the experience?

08:00:01.220 I mean, I don't want to, like, bubble up any sort of, uh...

08:00:05.060 Oh, I'm totally good, dude.

08:00:06.600 Oh, wait.

08:00:07.220 Hold on.

08:00:08.040 We have to do the makeup segment.

08:00:10.700 All right, who's down to take off their makeup?

08:00:12.480 I'm good.

08:00:14.640 Yeah?

08:00:16.660 I'll do it.

08:00:17.440 We'll do some over here.

08:00:18.720 Alina, are you going to take yours off?

08:00:21.180 All right.

08:00:21.560 Yeah, I put a lot of...

08:00:22.100 There's a couple chats coming through.

08:00:23.180 We're going to do the Patrice video.

08:00:24.680 We're going to do the Patrice video.

08:00:25.980 Did we do that one last?

08:00:26.940 Did we do the Patrice video? 0.60

08:00:30.220 What the heck?

08:00:31.140 Oh, it's a different Patrice. 0.95

08:00:32.860 I was like, it's one.

08:00:35.820 Had fun tonight.

08:00:36.960 Thanks for the laughs and ivy.

08:00:38.760 You talk a lot, but I hope you learned a bit.

08:00:41.500 I got a drive to Vegas in five hours.

08:00:44.520 G.F. graduates from cosmetology school.

08:00:47.620 So I got a deal.

08:00:49.220 Night all.

08:00:50.240 All right.

08:00:50.740 Thank you, Blackbird.

08:00:51.540 Appreciate it.

08:00:52.220 Thank you.

08:00:52.540 Thank you, man.

08:00:53.040 You're a legend.

08:00:53.740 Thank you for all the support on Twitch, by the way.

08:00:56.320 Sorry for the delay on these guys.

08:00:57.460 I've found more than one man like that.

08:01:17.780 Like, I've had three, probably.

08:01:20.040 I mean, it just doesn't...

08:01:20.860 It doesn't work because it doesn't work,

08:01:22.640 but it's not because I'm not finding these men.

08:01:24.780 I'm finding the men that I want.

08:01:26.240 It just, you know, sometimes things don't work

08:01:29.180 for whatever reason,

08:01:29.880 but it's not a lack of those men existing.

08:01:32.440 Like, it's pretty easy to find men like that.

08:01:34.880 You point, and then you get.

08:01:37.160 I want that for you.

08:01:38.100 Michael Jones donated $20.

08:01:40.680 Share one.

08:01:41.700 That simp might be your best option at this point.

08:01:44.480 NGL.

08:01:45.400 Brian, remember, life is like a sandwich.

08:01:48.980 No matter which way you flip it,

08:01:50.980 the bread always comes first.

08:01:53.340 Who?

08:01:54.040 Mike Jones.

08:01:54.720 Mike Jones.

08:01:56.240 How's that song go?

08:01:59.880 Joe McDonald donated $20.

08:02:02.740 In my teen years,

08:02:04.260 there was this girl who used to pick on me 1.00

08:02:06.560 and tease me to no end until one day.

08:02:09.080 I got mad at her.

08:02:10.780 She gave me a black eye that day,

08:02:12.600 but the next day,

08:02:13.920 she was really nice to me.

08:02:15.860 Lol.

08:02:19.700 Snap more donated $20.

08:02:21.520 People want to know if it's truly grape.

08:02:25.160 Because it is a heavy accusation,

08:02:26.980 and if you're anyone that knows you,

08:02:28.680 watch this or see clips of the accusations.

08:02:31.640 It can ruin him if it's baseless.

08:02:34.160 Push is valid.

08:02:34.860 Do you want to respond to that or no?

08:02:41.540 I'm good.

08:02:42.680 I'm good.

08:02:43.880 Okay.

08:02:44.680 Yeah.

08:02:45.560 All right.

08:02:47.260 I think that's it for all the chats.

08:02:49.900 I think that's it.

08:02:52.120 I always do a British accent at the end of my class.

08:02:54.340 You do a British accent.

08:02:55.160 Why are you making that face?

08:02:56.240 You don't like it.

08:02:56.720 That's not a good British accent.

08:02:57.840 I'm British friends.

08:02:59.120 You don't like it.

08:03:01.120 You don't like it.

08:03:02.400 She likes it very much.

08:03:06.460 I'm a water.

08:03:07.460 Whoops.

08:03:08.640 I like it.

08:03:09.740 She likes it.

08:03:10.540 Yeah.

08:03:11.140 Right.

08:03:12.060 Oh, that's great.

08:03:12.560 It's very Essex.

08:03:13.820 Essex.

08:03:14.700 Essex.

08:03:16.120 Blimey. 1.00

08:03:17.220 I don't know what the fuck. 0.99

08:03:19.080 How about, does anybody, 0.99

08:03:20.820 I can do Southern,

08:03:21.920 or I don't know, whatever.

08:03:23.940 Southern accent.

08:03:25.260 Southern accent.

08:03:27.240 Wait, can you do a French accent?

08:03:28.740 You said you speak English.

08:03:30.000 French-English accent.

08:03:32.560 I love those.

08:03:33.640 If I do that,

08:03:34.580 all the women will be just madly in love with me, 1.00

08:03:37.000 so I can't.

08:03:37.800 I won't do the French accent.

08:03:43.200 Anyways.

08:03:43.800 Okay.

08:03:44.140 Sorry.

08:03:44.880 I feel like,

08:03:46.280 here, we gotta end the show

08:03:47.820 on a little lighthearted thing, you know?

08:03:50.760 Let's play the Patrice clip.

08:03:52.500 Michael Jones donated $20.

08:03:54.120 Long show.

08:03:54.740 Long show.

08:03:55.200 Do you know where it is?

08:03:56.500 Do you know where the panel members find cries?

08:03:58.020 No.

08:03:58.160 Much love, and God bless.

08:04:01.180 Remember, the saint is not the one who...

08:04:03.460 I will find it.

08:04:04.480 I will find it.

08:04:05.200 GG.

08:04:06.280 I will find the Patrice clip.

08:04:08.560 It's videos.

08:04:09.740 One sec, boys.

08:04:10.780 One sec.

08:04:12.780 Patrice.

08:04:14.260 Patrice.

08:04:14.900 Here it is.

08:04:16.640 Oh my god, it's taking forever.

08:04:17.820 One sec, guys.

08:04:19.580 Dropbox.

08:04:20.120 Copy Dropbox link.

08:04:21.600 We're sending this to private chat.

08:04:25.680 Boom.

08:04:26.000 That should be it.

08:04:28.100 That should be it, sir.

08:04:31.500 Yo, Chris.

08:04:32.020 Thanks for the gifted 10 whatever memberships.

08:04:34.980 You are a legend, sir.

08:04:37.760 Thank you.

08:04:38.180 Thank you.

08:04:39.540 I got...

08:04:40.380 Maybe I could do like an NPR voice.

08:04:42.520 Hope you guys are having a great night.

08:04:45.060 While you're...

08:04:45.440 No, that's so cringe.

08:04:46.660 Never mind. 0.62

08:04:47.320 Big labia matter. 1.00

08:04:48.680 Big labia matter. 1.00

08:04:49.680 Any big labia...

08:04:51.000 I was gonna say... 0.78

08:04:52.540 Hey, bro.

08:04:53.360 Wait, did you take the makeup off? 1.00

08:04:54.500 What the fuck, Alina? 1.00

08:04:55.180 Take your shit off. 1.00

08:04:55.420 No, I was just gonna say that I agree that big labia matter. 1.00

08:04:59.500 Oh.

08:05:00.840 Your boyfriend is a lucky man.

08:05:02.600 Wait, hold on.

08:05:04.500 Wait, chat.

08:05:05.300 Do you think Alina should be a new... 0.99

08:05:08.920 Do you want to be a helmet girl for the whatever podcast?

08:05:12.100 I don't live in California.

08:05:13.500 You'd have to move.

08:05:15.500 I might have to.

08:05:16.900 Oh, there you go.

08:05:18.140 We're looking for somebody new.

08:05:19.600 What's a helmet, girl? 0.71

08:05:20.920 You sit in the background and we're...

08:05:23.180 We didn't have one today, but you wear a helmet.

08:05:26.360 Like a real wife. 0.99

08:05:27.340 And you're an assistant, basically.

08:05:28.860 Oh, assistant.

08:05:29.780 I mean, you really don't do much.

08:05:32.080 You help out with a bit of water.

08:05:33.200 That's pretty much it.

08:05:33.900 And then you just sit in the background.

08:05:34.900 It's for looks. 0.97

08:05:35.460 It's silly. 0.82

08:05:36.240 It's like aesthetics. 0.86

08:05:37.680 Yeah.

08:05:37.920 I guess you could say.

08:05:38.900 I guess you could say.

08:05:39.580 Do we have the Patrice clip?

08:05:40.880 Yeah.

08:05:41.680 All right.

08:05:42.120 Pull that boy up.

08:05:43.460 All right.

08:05:43.860 Hide that.

08:05:44.620 I'm so happy.

08:05:45.360 All right.

08:05:45.660 Watch this.

08:05:46.600 Watch this.

08:05:47.160 Let me ask you a question.

08:05:47.660 Here's a question.

08:05:48.340 Here's a serious question.

08:05:50.580 Okay, ladies. 1.00

08:05:51.440 If you didn't have a vagina. 1.00

08:05:55.480 Like, say it was a terrible train accident, right? 1.00

08:05:57.720 And the doctor was like, 1.00

08:05:59.520 We have to remove your pussy right away. 1.00

08:06:02.960 Or you're going to die. 1.00

08:06:06.640 How would you keep your man past... 0.73

08:06:09.780 You get a two-month guilty, 1.00

08:06:12.580 I can't leave the bitch right away 1.00

08:06:13.620 because she just lost the pussy in a train accident. 1.00

08:06:15.000 Can't just walk right out on him. 1.00

08:06:25.100 How would you keep your man past that 1.00

08:06:28.100 if you didn't have a vagina? 1.00

08:06:30.180 Pause it. 1.00

08:06:30.740 I don't know.

08:06:38.140 I don't know.

08:06:39.360 He's connecting.

08:06:40.340 Were you watching?

08:06:41.620 I'm not going to lie.

08:06:42.620 It's really late.

08:06:44.060 I was thinking about all this stuff I have to do.

08:06:46.560 I'm so sorry.

08:06:47.840 Okay.

08:06:48.640 You get in a terrible train accident.

08:06:50.920 Terrible train accident. 1.00

08:06:52.620 Lose the pussy. 1.00

08:06:54.260 You're in a relationship. 1.00

08:06:56.020 You get a three-month,

08:06:58.380 he can't break up with you.

08:06:59.560 What do you do to keep your man beyond that? 1.00

08:07:03.180 Oh, because he can't get pussy. 1.00

08:07:04.880 Because your pussy's gone. 1.00

08:07:06.460 It was a terrible train accident. 1.00

08:07:07.920 Choo-choo. 1.00

08:07:08.600 Motherfucker. 1.00

08:07:09.440 Well, if he's sexually active 1.00

08:07:11.520 and he needs the sex, 0.99

08:07:14.380 and I'll try to please him, 1.00

08:07:15.720 give him a massage, 0.98

08:07:16.900 you know, like blow drops. 0.96

08:07:21.440 A blowy? 0.99

08:07:22.940 If he needs the sex, 0.99

08:07:24.280 if he needs it, 0.94

08:07:24.760 but if he doesn't,

08:07:25.520 I'll try to find other ways.

08:07:26.980 A blowy? 0.92

08:07:27.600 Okay.

08:07:27.920 What about you?

08:07:28.700 I feel like there's at least three answers,

08:07:30.460 but I don't really like...

08:07:31.480 Give the answers.

08:07:32.600 Give the answers.

08:07:33.520 Go ahead.

08:07:34.760 Quick. 0.99

08:07:36.380 Oral, anal, and threesomes. 0.99

08:07:38.020 Okay. 0.99

08:07:38.980 Mouth.

08:07:39.760 Mouth.

08:07:40.460 Okay.

08:07:41.160 Ivy?

08:07:41.860 I think you can just let him sleep 0.62

08:07:43.260 with other women.

08:07:44.340 Oh.

08:07:45.840 Okay.

08:07:46.240 No way.

08:07:48.040 Bailey?

08:07:48.780 We'll answer when it comes to that.

08:07:51.600 Wait, what?

08:07:52.820 Well, no, no.

08:07:53.300 You gotta answer the question.

08:07:54.620 No, it hasn't come to that.

08:07:55.980 It's a hypothetical.

08:07:58.340 Wait, what?

08:07:59.560 What?

08:07:59.860 It's a hypothetical situation.

08:08:03.100 So I'm still thinking,

08:08:04.400 because it hasn't happened yet.

08:08:05.920 Next.

08:08:06.480 Wait, a train accident

08:08:08.080 hasn't happened yet?

08:08:09.260 To me, specifically.

08:08:11.420 Yeah, it's a hypothetical.

08:08:13.100 Yes.

08:08:13.580 So hypothetically,

08:08:14.480 I don't know yet,

08:08:15.240 because I'm not in that situation.

08:08:16.640 But what would you do

08:08:17.820 if you put yourself

08:08:19.000 in the situation

08:08:19.860 of getting hit by a train? 1.00

08:08:21.660 No, you just lose your pussy 1.00

08:08:22.900 and you gotta keep your man. 1.00

08:08:24.100 What would you do to keep him?

08:08:25.940 Do I want to keep him?

08:08:27.880 Yes.

08:08:28.640 Yes, you do.

08:08:29.260 You do.

08:08:30.420 I'm not sure about that.

08:08:31.860 Yeah.

08:08:36.340 Next.

08:08:36.740 Okay.

08:08:40.520 Steph? 1.00

08:08:42.620 Head, handjob, and anal. 1.00

08:08:44.680 Oh. 1.00

08:08:45.160 All right.

08:08:46.000 Wow.

08:08:47.160 Anal's good.

08:08:48.100 Alina? 0.80

08:08:49.580 I do anything he says.

08:08:51.460 He would never hear the word no

08:08:52.640 come out of my mouth. 0.69

08:08:54.780 Wait, say that.

08:08:55.520 Hold on.

08:08:56.000 That was pretty.

08:08:56.500 Say that one more time.

08:08:58.240 The whole thing?

08:08:58.940 Yeah, the whole thing.

08:08:59.640 I do anything he says.

08:09:01.020 He would never hear the word no.

08:09:02.280 Not bad.

08:09:04.360 Play the rest.

08:09:04.980 I will not do that.

08:09:06.360 Play the rest.

08:09:07.060 You guys got God.

08:09:12.680 Wow.

08:09:14.260 Nothing.

08:09:14.780 You can talk.

08:09:15.360 You can talk. 1.00

08:09:19.740 Suck his dick. 1.00

08:09:20.500 Okay. 1.00

08:09:21.120 Mouth. 1.00

08:09:26.100 Asshole. 1.00

08:09:26.620 Okay. 1.00

08:09:26.960 Great.

08:09:28.620 You see what I'm saying? 0.98

08:09:29.740 Now, I've been getting pussy bean 0.98

08:09:31.240 the whole show, right? 0.98

08:09:32.440 But I give women the opportunity 0.99

08:09:33.620 to say, I'm going to make myself

08:09:35.320 worth more.

08:09:36.160 But you just classified yourself

08:09:38.360 as a series of holes.

08:09:40.160 But, you know, I'm...

08:09:42.820 I'm supposed to teach you

08:09:46.100 special, but you're just 0.99

08:09:47.040 a bunch of holes to yourself. 0.96

08:09:48.540 Take your mingle.

08:09:49.180 You take it off?

08:09:50.400 You take it off?

08:09:51.140 No one said learn how to play

08:09:52.420 Xbox, learn how to play pool,

08:09:54.920 tell better stories, 1.00

08:09:56.360 get another bitch that got a pussy 1.00

08:09:57.620 to come on in. 1.00

08:09:58.520 You all think I throw it all off?

08:10:00.640 Yes.

08:10:01.040 All of them.

08:10:02.700 Everything.

08:10:03.820 Everything.

08:10:04.540 Everything.

08:10:05.840 Here, Steph, hold yours up. 1.00

08:10:08.140 Hold your little makeup wipe off. 0.89

08:10:09.380 I mean...

08:10:09.980 Wow.

08:10:12.580 Wow.

08:10:13.320 Wow.

08:10:13.940 All right, they're going to do it.

08:10:14.880 Can I get one?

08:10:17.240 Yes.

08:10:17.980 Thank you.

08:10:18.200 Chair underscore one underscore

08:10:19.780 symph donated $20.

08:10:21.980 Chair one would look cute in a helmet.

08:10:24.660 Chair one, we could build a life together.

08:10:27.440 You're adorable.

08:10:28.540 You look beautiful even without makeup.

08:10:31.400 You're perfect.

08:10:34.460 Rock and roll.

08:10:35.800 All right, we're going to do a shout out

08:10:37.180 on Twitch.

08:10:37.620 Pull up Twitch really quick, guys.

08:10:38.620 Go to twitch.tv slash whatever.

08:10:39.880 Drop us a follow and a prime sub.

08:10:42.140 If you have on twitch.tv slash whatever,

08:10:44.620 drop us a follow and a prime sub.

08:10:45.700 Before we wrap up the show,

08:10:46.880 I'm going to send, oh, a thousand subscribers.

08:10:49.220 Guys, get us to 98.

08:10:51.600 We're like 30 away.

08:10:53.240 Get us to 98,000 before the rest of the show.

08:10:55.520 I know there's 30 of you who aren't following.

08:10:58.020 A thousand viewers still.

08:10:59.420 Just get us 98,000.

08:11:02.520 Get us to the threshold.

08:11:04.180 Check if you have a prime sub available.

08:11:05.820 Who are we going to raid on Twitch? 0.98

08:11:07.200 Damn, not really anybody interesting. 0.99

08:11:08.880 I'll do fucking Woe Grandma again. 1.00

08:11:10.860 You can, let's see. 0.99

08:11:12.980 And then I'll just say GG.

08:11:15.780 Well played.

08:11:16.860 To the panel.

08:11:17.580 Last call.

08:11:18.120 Hit the like button, please, on your way out.

08:11:19.840 Thank you for tuning in tonight.

08:11:21.180 You could have been anywhere in the world,

08:11:22.420 but you were here with me.

08:11:23.820 Oh, Blackbird here.

08:11:24.880 Hold on.

08:11:26.100 Boom.

08:11:28.720 Blackbird.

08:11:29.180 Big 50.

08:11:30.020 Gifted.

08:11:30.500 Thank you so much, man.

08:11:31.800 You are a gentleman and a scholar.

08:11:34.240 Thank you so much, dude. 0.99

08:11:35.300 Fucking legend tonight, man. 0.98

08:11:37.820 Absolute legend. 0.99

08:11:38.640 Thank you so much, Blackbird.

08:11:39.740 Really appreciate it.

08:11:41.260 So, like I said, thank you, everybody, for tuning in.

08:11:45.200 Thank you to everyone who super chats, donates, and supports the show.

08:11:49.000 Couldn't do it without you guys.

08:11:50.160 We don't get any sponsorships or anything like that,

08:11:52.000 so I really appreciate it.

08:11:52.680 We'll be live again Sunday at 5 p.m. Pacific.

08:11:55.320 Guys, got some really good panels coming up.

08:11:58.100 I know I say that almost every week,

08:11:59.300 but next week should be, oh, we got like a couple return guests

08:12:02.440 that are going to be very interesting next week, Sunday.

08:12:05.360 Be sure to check that out.

08:12:07.240 And let's see if there's, hold on.

08:12:09.820 We have this.

08:12:13.660 Joe McDonald donated $20.

08:12:16.640 To everyone, what would you do if modern conveniences,

08:12:20.100 technology, and the Internet suddenly ceased to exist?

08:12:23.500 To the women, would you depend on men or other women or both to survive? 0.96

08:12:27.360 Well, that's a heavy question for the end of the show, man.

08:12:32.160 Not heavy, but it's like.

08:12:34.000 They made a movie about this.

08:12:36.060 It was on Netflix about how like a bunch of people got stranded on an island,

08:12:39.560 and then the only one that could help everyone was like the toilet cleaner,

08:12:43.600 and it was a woman.

08:12:44.840 So I think like women are very, you know. 1.00

08:12:47.260 Oh, yeah, of course.

08:12:48.420 Yeah.

08:12:49.180 That's the best.

08:12:49.980 Would you depend on men or other women to, wait, ladies, would you rather, 1.00

08:12:58.820 I can't even think, it's silly.

08:13:03.240 Hold up your, hold it up to the camera, the makeup line.

08:13:12.900 Did you do yours?

08:13:13.740 Hold yours up.

08:13:14.860 Oh, whoa.

08:13:15.840 Wide red lips.

08:13:16.860 Oh, wow.

08:13:17.320 Six.

08:13:18.680 Okay.

08:13:20.480 Chair one, are you still a simp for me?

08:13:22.460 Or not chair one, chair one simp, are you still a simp for me?

08:13:25.060 Maybe he simps more now.

08:13:26.340 He's like, wow.

08:13:27.660 Natural beauty.

08:13:28.920 Okay.

08:13:30.200 All right.

08:13:30.700 That's the end of the show, guys.

08:13:32.120 Like the video, please.

08:13:33.480 We're going to do the raid to Woe Grandma if you want to get her. 1.00

08:13:36.740 Oh.

08:13:37.860 What is she, wait, what is she doing? 0.92

08:13:40.280 Solomon, thank you, thank you for the bits.

08:13:43.000 I don't know.

08:13:43.960 Whatever.

08:13:44.720 I don't know.

08:13:45.640 Never mind on that.

08:13:47.320 Who are we going to do?

08:13:52.540 Oh, we're going to raid Guzu.

08:13:55.060 It's Guzu.

08:14:01.540 G-U-Z-U. 1.00

08:14:02.900 We're going to raid him.

08:14:05.260 Oh, it's, he's not even, his stream hasn't even started yet. 1.00

08:14:08.060 Fuck. 0.99

08:14:08.380 Okay. 1.00

08:14:08.540 Uh, we're going to raid, fuck. 1.00

08:14:12.920 We're going to raid Grayson. 1.00

08:14:18.960 We are raiding Grayson.

08:14:20.760 By the way.

08:14:21.280 I'm a variety streamer.

08:14:22.620 All right.

08:14:23.080 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

08:14:24.360 I hope you, oh, a little PVP there.

08:14:26.120 I play World of Warcraft Classic.

08:14:28.040 And other times, I play World of Warcraft Classic Hardcore.

08:14:32.580 All right.

08:14:33.180 Thank you guys for watching on Twitch.

08:14:34.620 We're raiding Grayson.

08:14:35.600 He's playing World of Warcraft Classic Anniversary Realms.

08:14:41.080 Uh, tell him to dance.

08:14:42.860 Tell him to slash dance. 0.99

08:14:43.900 Tell him to slash dance in the chat.

08:14:45.120 Thank you guys on Twitch.

08:14:45.840 Hope you guys have a good night.

08:14:46.680 All right.

08:14:47.900 That's being sent over.

08:14:48.860 Yeah, I definitely, I wish I had more so like a combat spec.

08:14:51.840 I just don't have it.

08:14:52.980 The combat spec definitely is going to be so much better.

08:14:55.920 Uh, PV damage for sure.

08:14:58.000 I mean, just the hit, dude. 0.99

08:14:59.900 Holy shit, boys. 1.00

08:15:01.340 We are getting fucking posted out the ass. 1.00

08:15:04.360 Holy. 1.00

08:15:05.760 Yo, whatever.

08:15:07.180 Thank you very much for the raid.

08:15:08.960 I appreciate it.

08:15:10.840 Yo, thank you.

08:15:11.760 What up, homies? 1.00

08:15:13.520 Hello.

08:15:15.340 Do slash dance. 0.58

08:15:16.280 Dance, dance, big boy.

08:15:17.440 Oh my God.

08:15:18.340 I'm ready.

08:15:19.060 I'm ready.

08:15:19.460 All right, guys.

08:15:20.080 I'm ready.

08:15:20.580 I'm ready.

08:15:21.220 I'm ready.

08:15:21.880 I'm ready.

08:15:22.460 I'm ready.

08:15:23.060 I'm ready. 1.00

08:15:23.420 What the fuck? 0.99

08:15:24.100 Okay, thank you. 0.99

08:15:24.760 Thank you for that, guys. 1.00

08:15:25.840 Oh, fuck. 0.99

08:15:26.420 What's like a nice dance song, dude? 1.00

08:15:29.200 Oh, okay.

08:15:29.880 Well, now we're, okay, never mind.

08:15:31.240 You can exit out of that, but all right.

08:15:33.600 Let me just make sure.

08:15:34.840 Oh, we just have this.

08:15:35.920 Okay.

08:15:38.040 Yeah, we're all good.

08:15:38.960 Okay, guys.

08:15:39.540 Oh, sevens.

08:15:40.700 Oh, I think.

08:15:41.600 Yeah.

08:15:41.760 Oh, sevens in the chat.

08:15:42.980 I hope you guys have a good night.

08:15:44.060 We'll see you on Sunday.

08:15:45.340 Good night, guys.

08:15:45.820 Mm-mm.

08:15:47.180 Mm-mm.

08:15:47.740 Thank you.

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