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00:03:23.920 the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead

00:03:29.680 hi i'm gianna i'm from los angeles i'm 18 and i'm a model all right uh any school you go to school

00:03:39.800 at all or i study psychology at uh a university city college online right now okay all right what about

00:03:47.460 you and well hang on uh what kind of model um i do runway runway yes

00:03:54.060 hi i'm sina i'm 18 my occupation i do only fans and i'm in school for engineering

00:04:03.860 all right welcome back and you're from where again canada canada what province or whatever

00:04:12.620 montreal or ontario do they speak speak french there you're taught french yeah okay got it

00:04:19.800 what about you um my name's lexi i'm from california and i'm a student at ucsb and i'm 18

00:04:26.880 all right what are you studying at ucsb bio bio you want to be a doctor a pa

00:04:32.460 physician assistant okay got it what about you hi um i am pos i am 21 i currently work at a dental office

00:04:43.240 not taking courses in school at the moment but i will be back next semester

00:04:48.340 what were you studying um i was studying math and architectural engineering

00:04:54.700 very different we're getting audio issues

00:04:58.080 sorry guys oh how long has the audio issues been bad man

00:05:03.820 you gotta you gotta be keeping an eye on that you would have guys has it been bad since the uh

00:05:12.380 has the audio been bad since the beginning right side oh i know what's going on okay hold on guys

00:05:21.160 give me just a sec uh tiffany won't you like uh do a dance or some is it only it's only that one

00:05:28.800 camera i'll get it fixed tiffany do like a dance or like a a irish jig or something

00:05:34.660 do you like disco i don't know we can do the macarena

00:05:42.700 there's a lot there's a lot of writing on you right now tiffany

00:05:45.940 like we're counting on you keep the show going ryan fixes his problem

00:05:50.560 we can start a worm

00:05:52.660 that might be mine

00:05:56.100 sorry guys

00:05:59.820 somebody forgot to silence the phone too good job

00:06:04.180 okay

00:06:05.740 okay

00:06:06.060 we'll wait for ryan

00:06:09.400 we'll wait for this dance

00:06:10.860 we're not doing the dance

00:06:13.560 what angle ask the audience if it's this angle

00:06:20.880 is this is this the angle

00:06:23.220 i don't see the chat so

00:06:26.600 wait that's considered right side this is left

00:06:36.780 i think so

00:06:38.200 i don't know i still have to do like the whole left

00:06:40.800 yeah from the viewer's perspective you're on the right

00:06:43.880 and then brian's side of the table would be the left side

00:06:48.820 that should be fixed

00:06:52.140 all right

00:06:52.760 uh okay we're doing a quick test was it on this angle here

00:07:00.640 so chat was this the uh was this the issue

00:07:03.540 and is apparently andrew still echoing

00:07:06.180 uh testing testing testing testing

00:07:11.000 there's an echo is there an echo for andrew

00:07:15.000 i'm trying to think what that could be

00:07:17.640 hmm

00:07:18.880 i think i know what it is

00:07:21.520 i will be right back

00:07:23.120 okay keep dancing

00:07:23.920 i'm not gonna dance

00:07:27.380 you're terrible tiffany

00:07:28.700 do you want to sing instead 0.90

00:07:31.300 does anyone else want to dance

00:07:32.740 i mean can we get some music

00:07:35.580 i think all these are pretty good dancers actually

00:07:38.080 no uh i i think there's no dancing happening here

00:07:51.740 he left it to you guys to carry the show

00:07:56.560 andrew how about you dance

00:07:58.440 yeah

00:07:59.520 i don't know how to dance

00:08:01.560 well you can start by learning

00:08:04.800 everyone starts somewhere

00:08:06.900 yeah but shouldn't i learn how to do it before i try to do it

00:08:09.620 no not necessarily

00:08:11.460 jump right in

00:08:12.720 yeah

00:08:13.220 oh well i mean i'll tell you what that sounds like a good idea

00:08:17.360 how about you go ahead and show me and then i'll know

00:08:19.500 okay

00:08:21.240 all right guys is it better

00:08:24.200 is it better

00:08:25.640 one in the one in the chat if it's better it should be

00:08:30.640 um

00:08:31.940 do we need to redo the uh

00:08:35.700 entire introduction or

00:08:37.680 like were you chat were you guys able to hear the intros

00:08:41.940 yes if you were able to hear the intros or two

00:08:44.980 one in the chat uh that's not going to make any sense

00:08:48.100 uh

00:08:49.060 no

00:08:50.920 redo

00:08:52.740 redo intros

00:08:55.260 do we have to redo the intro

00:08:58.780 don't redo okay uh okay what about you

00:09:08.980 uh my sorry guys

00:09:11.180 my name is unoya i'm 20 years old

00:09:15.060 i live down in korea so i actually am only here temporarily

00:09:18.660 um and then i'm a model and dancer but i studied psychology when i was in

00:09:24.420 university

00:09:25.020 you studied dancing you said

00:09:27.680 i studied psychology when i was in uni

00:09:30.140 okay and you're you like grew up in korea

00:09:33.800 um no i kind of moved like every

00:09:37.560 couple years

00:09:38.980 wait like south korea yeah yeah yeah no way

00:09:41.520 what other korea would she have 0.98

00:09:43.540 i would think she was in north korea

00:09:45.360 one of your parents a soldier or missionaries

00:09:48.020 um no for

00:09:49.940 to put it politely my mom had lovers so we moved a lot

00:09:53.780 wait your mom had what

00:09:55.520 many lovers

00:09:56.420 uh

00:10:00.300 okay

00:10:02.180 like what about vietnam or like cambodia also any other like asian countries or

00:10:09.280 um

00:10:10.260 uh not not asia

00:10:12.800 no i chose to move to korea of my own accord

00:10:15.520 um

00:10:16.740 but you said you're from korea right

00:10:19.020 no i live down in korea it's my home now

00:10:21.600 you live there currently yes yes

00:10:22.940 when did you move there um

00:10:24.920 the second time around about four months ago

00:10:29.600 okay but like where did uh i guess when you grew up where it was it like california or

00:10:35.960 um no um i grew up partially between missouri and then um the czech republic

00:10:43.700 okay and you said your mom uh dated a lot or can you clarify what you mean by that

00:10:49.660 um she is 42 and is on her fifth husband and that is basically what that is

00:10:54.820 are they all korean 0.97

00:10:55.600 um no they're all white

00:10:57.440 oh

00:10:58.280 so she meets white guys in korea

00:11:00.260 she lives in florida

00:11:02.300 oh

00:11:03.120 you're really stuck on this korean thing

00:11:06.560 well yeah because i'm because i'm korean

00:11:08.420 oh okay

00:11:09.180 i was there this summer

00:11:10.700 if she's in florida how'd you end up in korea though

00:11:14.080 um i moved out of my family's home when i was about 14 because i graduated high school at the age of 14 and went to university

00:11:21.580 yeah but how did you end up in korea though

00:11:25.420 i wanted to move there so i got up and i moved there

00:11:28.700 what made you want to move there

00:11:29.800 um i've always been fascinated with the culture

00:11:32.960 um my grandpa was stationed there for a while when he was in the military

00:11:37.620 and he always told me stories so i really liked it

00:11:41.180 and uh you said she had five husbands 0.97

00:11:45.840 i think she's on her fifth husband 0.97

00:11:48.320 on the fifth husband

00:11:49.340 yeah

00:11:49.620 and then in between the husbands she was like dating

00:11:52.500 a lot

00:11:54.380 i guess so

00:11:56.380 okay

00:11:57.320 all right

00:11:58.640 what about you

00:11:59.920 my name is ellen

00:12:01.860 i'm 18 years old and i'm a student at ucsb

00:12:04.860 all right where are you from

00:12:05.900 i'm from la

00:12:06.560 la

00:12:07.240 and uh what are you studying at uc

00:12:09.840 psych and brain

00:12:10.800 psych and brain

00:12:11.660 all right 0.92

00:12:12.300 what about you

00:12:13.280 my name's avantika

00:12:15.040 i'm 23

00:12:16.080 i live in la and i'm a nursing student

00:12:18.540 all right

00:12:19.780 did you do uh undergrad somewhere

00:12:21.620 what did you study

00:12:24.000 um i just did pre-reqs for nursing

00:12:27.100 i guess nursing is my main degree

00:12:29.540 yeah

00:12:30.400 so you got a bachelor's in

00:12:32.400 um health care

00:12:34.000 health care

00:12:34.440 okay

00:12:34.860 and uh okay and you're from la

00:12:38.100 23

00:12:38.760 all right

00:12:39.480 what about you

00:12:40.200 um my name's alissa

00:12:41.740 i live in san diego

00:12:43.500 i model

00:12:44.180 um do only fans and playboy

00:12:46.100 so

00:12:46.820 all right age

00:12:47.720 i am 26

00:12:48.960 all right

00:12:50.480 welcome

00:12:51.560 what kind of uh stuff do you do on of

00:12:54.780 is it bg content solo content

00:12:56.680 both

00:12:57.560 both okay

00:12:58.660 have you done any work in the traditional

00:13:00.580 adult entertainment industry

00:13:02.940 um i have a porn hub account

00:13:04.840 but i don't upload anything on it

00:13:06.780 so

00:13:07.560 okay but have you shot for any of like

00:13:09.740 uh i guess any of the big production companies

00:13:12.080 or anything like that

00:13:12.800 oh no i haven't

00:13:13.660 okay

00:13:13.860 all right tiffany what about you

00:13:15.660 hi i'm tiffany

00:13:16.640 i'm 19

00:13:17.420 i go to ucsb

00:13:18.600 and i'm double majoring in poli-sci and econ

00:13:20.840 all right

00:13:22.420 welcome everybody

00:13:23.380 uh andrew what about you

00:13:25.500 yeah my name is uh andrew wilson

00:13:30.260 i'm the host of the crucible

00:13:31.340 it's popular entertainment channel on youtube

00:13:33.160 i'm political analyst

00:13:34.780 political satirist

00:13:35.740 and i enjoy doing conversations

00:13:37.020 and uh debates of all types across the internet

00:13:39.440 and uh welcome all of you to the whatever studio

00:13:41.880 looking forward to the conversation

00:13:42.920 yeah welcome everybody

00:13:44.140 going around the table once more

00:13:45.660 what is everybody's current relationship status

00:13:47.620 if you're single how long have you been single

00:13:49.800 and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in

00:13:52.780 go ahead

00:13:53.140 currently single

00:13:55.400 um

00:13:56.340 i've been single for a few years

00:13:59.520 i'd say

00:14:00.300 um and longest relationship was four years

00:14:03.400 longest relationship four years you've been single for

00:14:07.160 uh how old were you when i mean so you were like 14 when you guys broke up

00:14:12.300 yeah

00:14:12.580 so you've been single since

00:14:13.820 no no no like 14 to like 18

00:14:16.860 you just said you've been single for a few years

00:14:19.620 yeah

00:14:20.300 you're 18

00:14:21.160 yeah i mean like

00:14:22.700 it was my longest but

00:14:25.940 i've been single for that long

00:14:28.580 you get what i'm saying

00:14:29.260 like

00:14:30.180 when did the relationship end

00:14:31.580 when i was 18

00:14:32.800 but you're 18 currently

00:14:34.100 yes

00:14:34.580 and you said you've been single for a few years

00:14:36.540 make that make it make sense for me okay

00:14:39.460 um i guess i'm more so saying

00:14:43.080 that i was single and then that

00:14:46.140 but that was my relationship prior

00:14:48.660 i guess i'm trying to explain more

00:14:51.300 so how long have you been single for then

00:14:53.360 i guess we could say a few months then i feel

00:14:57.500 oh okay

00:14:59.160 for

00:15:00.520 you mean so the

00:15:02.780 relationship that ended a few months ago then

00:15:05.280 that was your four-year relationship

00:15:07.180 yes

00:15:07.580 hello

00:15:09.340 can we

00:15:09.900 i'm just curious

00:15:13.520 who

00:15:14.040 can somebody just say whose phone was that

00:15:15.680 i think it might be mine

00:15:17.400 um okay so you've been single for

00:15:20.480 a few months

00:15:22.800 the four-year relationship ended a few months ago

00:15:26.240 yes

00:15:26.540 who broke up with who

00:15:27.280 it was mutual

00:15:29.140 it was mutual

00:15:30.060 okay

00:15:30.580 uh

00:15:31.960 so you guys met at like 14 then

00:15:34.320 yeah

00:15:34.800 and then

00:15:35.560 like baby

00:15:36.960 was it

00:15:37.300 was it on again off again

00:15:38.780 no

00:15:39.740 okay so it was consistent for the four-year period

00:15:42.700 it ended a few months ago

00:15:44.840 so three months what does a few months mean

00:15:47.120 three months ago

00:15:47.740 yeah i would say

00:15:49.340 a few

00:15:50.540 five maybe

00:15:51.600 okay

00:15:52.620 okay all right

00:15:53.420 and it was a mutual breakup

00:15:55.100 yes

00:15:55.920 for what reasons was it

00:15:59.000 uh did the breakup occur

00:16:00.100 um he moved away

00:16:02.200 so

00:16:02.740 long distance

00:16:04.200 okay

00:16:04.560 all right

00:16:05.280 have you been dating at all since uh

00:16:08.300 the end of the relationship

00:16:09.420 no

00:16:10.520 i like single

00:16:11.860 i prefer it

00:16:13.240 okay

00:16:14.240 um

00:16:15.020 so there's been no guys

00:16:17.780 there hasn't been a rebound

00:16:18.720 there's

00:16:19.140 nothing

00:16:19.920 you haven't even hung out with somebody

00:16:21.960 at all

00:16:23.460 no

00:16:24.960 nothing

00:16:25.480 okay

00:16:25.860 no

00:16:26.300 all right

00:16:27.120 what about you

00:16:28.700 um

00:16:30.080 my longest was a year and a half

00:16:32.280 i've been single

00:16:33.480 since high school

00:16:36.520 so

00:16:38.680 a year

00:16:40.140 okay

00:16:41.320 all right

00:16:42.800 what about you

00:16:44.200 um

00:16:45.280 i've been single for about a month or two now

00:16:48.880 and my longest relationship was two years

00:16:51.720 was that the one that ended two months ago

00:16:54.760 no

00:16:55.160 that relationship was uh almost a year

00:16:57.600 okay

00:16:58.580 uh so the one that most recently ended who broke up with who

00:17:02.880 um

00:17:04.460 i kind of more so broke up with him

00:17:08.220 okay

00:17:08.980 and then the two-year relationship who broke up with who

00:17:11.380 i also broke up with him

00:17:14.240 why

00:17:14.960 um

00:17:17.120 bad comms

00:17:18.260 for both of them i'd say

00:17:20.020 bad comms

00:17:20.880 bad communication

00:17:21.940 okay

00:17:22.340 uh in what way were you a bad communicator

00:17:25.060 i don't know just things weren't

00:17:27.160 my two-year relationship was a while ago but

00:17:29.880 the more recent one it was

00:17:32.060 um

00:17:33.100 he was still in high school and we just got into long distance

00:17:37.720 and so yeah it just made things hard

00:17:40.920 he's he's still in high school

00:17:42.040 yeah

00:17:42.520 and you're in college currently

00:17:44.600 yes

00:17:45.140 okay all right

00:17:46.160 and i'm trying to think here

00:17:48.900 uh you've been single for two months

00:17:51.200 any other prospects in the picture

00:17:53.480 i mean i've made friends

00:17:55.760 what does that mean

00:17:56.860 like i've made friends and i hang out with people

00:18:01.200 but nothing super serious

00:18:03.620 like sneaky link

00:18:04.380 uh i wouldn't say that just like oh do you want to go here and like like going to parties and stuff and just hanging out

00:18:12.940 okay

00:18:13.800 but is there a

00:18:16.340 a romantic interest an underlying romantic interest in

00:18:19.580 any of these people you just hang out with or

00:18:22.580 i'd say there could be but i'm still pretty fresh off a breakup so not

00:18:26.520 okay

00:18:27.580 right now

00:18:28.260 all right

00:18:29.500 okay

00:18:30.500 pos

00:18:31.780 what about you

00:18:32.940 what's the update

00:18:34.020 i was gonna say that's so sweet because you meant like genuine friends i was like friends you do you mean like friends with benefits

00:18:39.960 yeah what do you mean like friends with benefits it's okay

00:18:43.440 no

00:18:43.920 you've not hooked up with any of them

00:18:46.140 no

00:18:46.320 okay

00:18:46.780 um i mean i've been dating my longest relationship was two years

00:18:53.400 um i've never been broken up with that ended because we got to the point where he wanted an open relationship but it was just like one-sided

00:19:02.360 so i don't know no go for me it's 50 50 for doing that

00:19:07.420 yeah and so you were kind of uh last time you were on the show you were talking about how you were

00:19:14.820 uh like in this sort of long-term complicated situationship 0.99

00:19:20.280 with the fuck boy 0.99

00:19:22.140 seven year 1.00

00:19:23.620 it's a seven year situationship

00:19:25.560 uh and he recently

00:19:27.500 post show asked you to be his girlfriend

00:19:30.800 yeah

00:19:32.040 was it because he watched the show

00:19:33.660 that's what i'm thinking i'm kind of like suspicious about that

00:19:36.700 i've had a lot of people that i know watched my last one

00:19:40.120 um including my dad so if you're seeing this hi dad

00:19:43.220 shout out dad

00:19:45.220 yeah

00:19:46.680 w dad

00:19:47.320 i'm actually really close with him

00:19:48.760 but um yeah

00:19:49.820 no um i hung out with him a little bit ago

00:19:53.080 and um

00:19:54.700 i was just like on on top of him and he just was staring at me and i was like what

00:19:59.580 oh

00:19:59.920 yeah

00:20:00.640 wait

00:20:01.960 oh okay

00:20:03.320 not even like in a sexual way but i was just like on top of him

00:20:06.260 and um he was just like staring at me i asked him like what's up

00:20:09.600 and he literally just whispered i think i

00:20:13.420 i like

00:20:14.140 he said i think i'm in love with you

00:20:16.400 and then went on and on

00:20:18.560 about how he was thinking about um

00:20:21.200 like wanting to

00:20:22.900 you know be my boyfriend and stuff

00:20:25.480 ask me out and all this jizz

00:20:27.360 i froze i didn't say anything for maybe five minutes

00:20:30.300 wait all of this what

00:20:30.380 all of this jizz

00:20:32.900 i don't know

00:20:33.660 wait all of this what

00:20:35.500 is that

00:20:37.120 just like like i just meant like um

00:20:39.360 all of whatever he was saying

00:20:41.800 all of no but what was the conversation

00:20:43.540 yeah what was the word

00:20:44.460 jizz

00:20:45.160 is that like a

00:20:46.560 it's a new term

00:20:47.840 are people saying that

00:20:49.020 it's a saying

00:20:49.680 new jizz 0.99

00:20:51.440 bro that's fucked up 1.00

00:20:53.680 okay 0.98

00:20:54.200 all right um 1.00

00:20:55.660 fuck 1.00

00:20:57.340 uh okay so um 1.00

00:20:59.740 no i said no

00:21:02.880 um even though i've wanted it for so long

00:21:05.480 wait if i recall

00:21:06.480 weren't you guys like done done

00:21:08.600 like done

00:21:09.440 last time you were on the show

00:21:11.020 uh probably

00:21:12.400 but you know we come back

00:21:13.820 oh you said he was like over

00:21:16.240 finito

00:21:17.920 and you were on top of him

00:21:21.020 yeah

00:21:22.060 and there was jizz

00:21:23.040 not literal

00:21:25.700 figurative

00:21:26.960 not literal

00:21:27.440 figurative jizz

00:21:28.320 maybe later but

00:21:29.960 wait

00:21:30.380 is this a word

00:21:31.760 is she just

00:21:32.300 is she pulling my

00:21:33.300 it's my first time ever hearing it

00:21:35.340 this is like

00:21:36.140 zero term

00:21:36.900 like

00:21:37.140 i feel like it's like my first time hearing it

00:21:38.980 but it makes so much sense

00:21:40.140 yeah

00:21:40.520 i say it all the time

00:21:41.820 i don't know

00:21:42.340 there you go

00:21:42.860 i think it's like kind of like old school

00:21:44.460 kind of like

00:21:45.300 no

00:21:45.740 it means

00:21:47.500 like the net what's the next term going to be like all that queef

00:21:53.220 like man all that queef just being 1.00

00:21:56.540 yeah the old term is all that jazz not all that jizz

00:22:00.220 did you mean jazz

00:22:00.940 i think she meant jazz

00:22:02.880 the old term

00:22:03.740 the old term is all that jazz

00:22:05.760 oh maybe

00:22:06.540 definitely

00:22:07.040 definitely not all that jizz

00:22:09.000 those are very different meanings there

00:22:11.260 similar

00:22:13.020 no

00:22:14.980 not similar

00:22:16.280 okay that's crazy

00:22:17.160 um all right

00:22:18.020 well

00:22:18.280 okay so um all right

00:22:20.700 you guys got back together or whatever

00:22:22.300 for the 50th time

00:22:23.960 um

00:22:24.600 yeah probably the most committed

00:22:25.980 and all that

00:22:26.460 you know

00:22:26.940 brian and all that jizz

00:22:28.160 and all that jizz

00:22:29.020 uh you said in your notes here

00:22:31.540 you said

00:22:32.080 you said no to him

00:22:33.180 yeah

00:22:33.980 ask me again

00:22:35.900 when you're sober

00:22:36.780 has not happened

00:22:38.420 so he was

00:22:40.100 drunk

00:22:40.860 or on drugs

00:22:41.720 yeah

00:22:42.500 or both

00:22:43.300 yeah

00:22:44.060 um

00:22:44.840 no he

00:22:46.160 didn't

00:22:47.660 like

00:22:48.060 what was he on

00:22:48.660 just alcohol

00:22:49.780 we've had like two bottles of wine

00:22:51.760 just a casual

00:22:53.400 two bottles

00:22:54.300 how much

00:22:55.460 how much does he weigh

00:22:56.140 i don't know

00:22:57.900 he's like pretty beefy though

00:22:59.600 two bottles

00:23:01.860 i like what you like

00:23:03.100 you're less than 100 pounds right

00:23:05.120 yeah

00:23:05.640 yeah

00:23:05.980 okay

00:23:06.500 yeah

00:23:07.520 okay anyway

00:23:08.100 um

00:23:08.900 so

00:23:09.520 he was drunk

00:23:14.020 he was like i think i love you

00:23:15.780 mm-hmm

00:23:16.860 but then you're like no you're drunk

00:23:19.460 ask me when you're sober

00:23:20.400 and he hasn't asked you since

00:23:21.540 is that the last time you saw him

00:23:23.160 no i actually

00:23:24.740 he dropped off a book

00:23:25.860 this morning for me

00:23:27.380 so i saw him earlier today

00:23:29.520 just a book

00:23:30.500 just literally just a book

00:23:31.760 yeah

00:23:32.000 just before he went to work

00:23:33.280 okay

00:23:33.920 and um

00:23:35.620 you were recently

00:23:38.480 actually we'll come back to your ankle 0.97

00:23:40.540 your sexual 0.93

00:23:41.460 ankle injury 0.98

00:23:42.920 we'll come back to that

00:23:43.860 um

00:23:44.820 was it with him

00:23:45.460 or different

00:23:45.940 different guy

00:23:46.680 um

00:23:48.140 no it was

00:23:48.780 definitely with him

00:23:50.660 i feel like he's watching this

00:23:51.700 i haven't told him

00:23:52.480 i gave him like a whole different story

00:23:54.500 because i didn't want to embarrass him

00:23:55.840 oh okay

00:23:56.800 well we'll get into that in a bit

00:23:57.940 but um

00:23:58.700 relationship status

00:23:59.780 um

00:24:00.640 i am taken

00:24:01.560 i'm in a relationship

00:24:02.620 um

00:24:03.540 but my longest relationship

00:24:04.600 was about three years

00:24:06.320 give or take

00:24:07.140 maybe two and a half

00:24:08.180 how long is your current

00:24:09.140 um

00:24:10.160 it's about a month now

00:24:11.580 and

00:24:12.800 is he in korea or

00:24:14.600 yes

00:24:15.000 okay

00:24:15.440 is he korean

00:24:16.960 yes

00:24:17.700 okay

00:24:18.080 uh

00:24:19.140 and your three-year relationship

00:24:20.220 who broke up with who

00:24:21.500 um

00:24:22.620 we kind of just stopped

00:24:24.120 seeing each other

00:24:25.180 i don't think anyone

00:24:26.100 said like

00:24:27.320 i'm breaking up

00:24:28.180 or i'm breaking up

00:24:28.780 we just kind of went

00:24:29.540 no contact

00:24:30.240 so

00:24:30.940 all right

00:24:33.300 what about you

00:24:34.220 um

00:24:35.280 i'm currently single

00:24:36.380 but wait

00:24:37.140 this is like

00:24:37.740 low-key embarrassing

00:24:38.680 my longest relationship

00:24:40.220 was only for

00:24:41.060 three months

00:24:42.240 three months

00:24:43.120 okay

00:24:43.400 yeah

00:24:43.600 and you've been single

00:24:45.340 for how long

00:24:45.920 for probably a couple years

00:24:48.180 then

00:24:48.520 yeah

00:24:49.040 so that was like

00:24:50.060 maybe you were 15

00:24:50.900 or 16

00:24:51.400 yeah

00:24:52.600 three-month one

00:24:53.280 so you've been single

00:24:54.200 for three years

00:24:55.600 you said

00:24:55.940 or

00:24:56.760 i just had a couple years

00:24:58.120 maybe several years

00:24:59.160 at that point

00:24:59.820 so you've been single

00:25:00.760 for a couple years

00:25:01.760 yeah

00:25:02.160 okay

00:25:02.580 uh

00:25:03.660 longest any

00:25:05.080 anything

00:25:05.700 was three months

00:25:06.760 is that correct

00:25:07.300 or have you had like

00:25:07.920 situationships

00:25:08.740 complicated for longer

00:25:10.580 i had like a

00:25:11.300 situationship

00:25:12.240 for how long

00:25:12.960 um

00:25:14.240 since like

00:25:15.520 december

00:25:17.040 2023

00:25:19.440 yeah

00:25:20.360 is that ongoing

00:25:21.380 sort of

00:25:22.880 okay

00:25:23.720 that's in la

00:25:25.100 yeah

00:25:26.280 we just go to

00:25:27.040 different schools

00:25:27.740 so we were like

00:25:28.540 we weren't quite sure

00:25:30.420 okay

00:25:31.400 so when's the last

00:25:32.480 time you saw him

00:25:33.140 um

00:25:34.940 i saw him right

00:25:35.600 before i came

00:25:36.400 here to school

00:25:37.540 so

00:25:38.140 september

00:25:38.920 okay

00:25:40.120 and are you guys

00:25:41.820 i mean

00:25:42.280 holidays are coming up

00:25:43.460 maybe you're going

00:25:43.940 back to la

00:25:44.460 you guys gonna link up

00:25:45.520 or

00:25:45.760 yeah i think we're

00:25:46.980 gonna meet sometime

00:25:47.780 this week

00:25:48.540 okay

00:25:49.440 and are you wanting

00:25:51.560 more from this

00:25:52.460 does he want more

00:25:53.940 what's the status

00:25:54.920 i just feel like

00:25:56.480 we need to like

00:25:57.140 see where we are

00:25:58.940 because

00:25:59.640 you know

00:26:00.340 college is like

00:26:00.820 a big adjustment

00:26:01.500 so

00:26:01.980 i don't want to get

00:26:03.440 into something

00:26:03.900 if i'm not fully ready

00:26:04.900 and i think

00:26:05.280 likewise for him

00:26:06.240 okay

00:26:06.960 while you've been here

00:26:08.740 since you've been here

00:26:09.400 since september

00:26:10.380 maybe you've been here

00:26:11.060 for about two months now

00:26:12.080 uh

00:26:12.820 have you been seeing

00:26:13.800 anybody here

00:26:14.440 no i haven't

00:26:15.900 no first date

00:26:17.320 um

00:26:18.780 i went on

00:26:19.620 one date

00:26:21.020 i don't know if it was

00:26:21.900 actually a date

00:26:23.220 but it was like

00:26:24.360 okay

00:26:24.920 we just went to like

00:26:26.060 we just went to grab food

00:26:28.040 so

00:26:28.880 okay

00:26:29.220 maybe

00:26:30.100 have you hung out with him

00:26:31.460 subsequently

00:26:32.480 or was it just that one time

00:26:33.620 no it's just that one time

00:26:35.020 has he been wanting to hang out

00:26:36.220 with you again

00:26:36.760 i think i like cut it off

00:26:38.940 after the first time

00:26:39.960 yeah

00:26:40.400 all right

00:26:41.740 and um

00:26:42.580 are you in a sorority

00:26:44.080 or anything like that

00:26:44.900 no i'm not

00:26:45.740 anybody here in any greek life

00:26:47.400 or anything like that

00:26:48.240 sorority

00:26:48.760 okay

00:26:49.620 and

00:26:50.800 what about any

00:26:52.200 like casual

00:26:53.160 things

00:26:54.340 any sneaky links

00:26:55.500 not

00:26:57.040 nothing

00:26:57.580 nothing right now

00:26:58.720 you only got eyes

00:26:59.960 for the guy in la

00:27:01.260 i guess

00:27:01.700 um

00:27:02.140 okay

00:27:03.180 and

00:27:04.180 you said

00:27:05.180 that's been going on

00:27:05.900 for a year

00:27:06.460 yeah

00:27:07.380 but so

00:27:08.920 you were

00:27:09.840 in the same city

00:27:12.240 for a period of

00:27:13.100 eight months

00:27:13.900 ten months

00:27:14.420 ten months

00:27:14.980 yeah

00:27:15.600 how often would you guys

00:27:16.680 hang out

00:27:17.080 like every day

00:27:18.800 every day

00:27:19.300 like nearly

00:27:20.760 well we lived really

00:27:22.040 close together

00:27:22.740 did you guys go to

00:27:23.580 like high school together

00:27:24.480 yeah we went to high school

00:27:25.460 together

00:27:25.800 okay and you guys would

00:27:26.480 hang out every single day

00:27:27.360 pretty much

00:27:28.620 or like we'd hang out

00:27:29.520 yeah like pretty much

00:27:30.960 and

00:27:31.940 even during the summertime

00:27:33.360 yeah i think it was just

00:27:35.080 like proximity

00:27:35.820 like he just lived really

00:27:37.120 close

00:27:37.600 leading up to you

00:27:38.640 coming to school here

00:27:39.640 back in september

00:27:40.520 like for the month

00:27:41.940 before you coming here

00:27:43.380 were you hanging out

00:27:44.320 with him every single day

00:27:45.160 like nearly

00:27:46.820 nearly

00:27:47.260 almost every single day

00:27:48.260 yeah

00:27:48.380 okay

00:27:49.080 um

00:27:50.160 i mean so

00:27:51.760 you guys hung out

00:27:52.760 almost every single day

00:27:53.800 for like ten month period

00:27:55.080 uh

00:27:56.320 you said

00:27:56.800 but you said your longest

00:27:57.720 boyfriend girlfriend

00:27:59.220 you were boyfriend girlfriend 1.00

00:28:00.640 for three months

00:28:01.380 is that correct

00:28:01.940 but this was in like

00:28:02.960 high school

00:28:03.360 early high school

00:28:04.440 yeah

00:28:04.780 okay

00:28:05.240 but the

00:28:06.100 situationship

00:28:07.020 you did not consider him

00:28:08.060 boyfriend

00:28:08.580 yeah i don't think

00:28:10.200 he's like

00:28:10.740 my boyfriend

00:28:11.620 because

00:28:12.160 you guys hung out

00:28:12.820 every single day

00:28:13.340 but we didn't like

00:28:14.120 make it official

00:28:14.900 uh

00:28:16.480 did you want it

00:28:17.640 to be official

00:28:18.140 and he turned you down

00:28:19.160 or was it mutual

00:28:20.260 um

00:28:21.580 i think it was just like

00:28:23.260 i needed time

00:28:25.240 and i think

00:28:25.940 he gave me that time

00:28:27.300 to kind of

00:28:27.900 think about it

00:28:28.900 wait so he was pushing

00:28:30.060 for a relationship

00:28:30.840 and you turned him down

00:28:32.140 um

00:28:33.520 it wasn't like

00:28:37.780 like that

00:28:38.860 i just feel like

00:28:39.740 we had this

00:28:40.800 understanding

00:28:41.660 that i needed

00:28:42.360 more time

00:28:43.060 how much time

00:28:45.480 well i want to get

00:28:47.440 into college first

00:28:48.380 and adjust

00:28:49.520 and then think about it

00:28:51.800 so you wanted to

00:28:52.840 leave your options

00:28:53.500 open

00:28:53.960 while you went out

00:28:55.000 to you know

00:28:56.120 number one party school

00:28:57.140 ucsb

00:28:58.100 i get it

00:28:59.100 i feel like that's

00:28:59.840 what you would

00:29:00.240 initially think

00:29:01.160 but i just want to

00:29:02.400 i think i wanted to

00:29:04.040 just like adjust

00:29:04.920 and like

00:29:05.940 make friends

00:29:07.720 first

00:29:08.260 and then get my

00:29:09.200 grades in check

00:29:10.020 and then think

00:29:11.100 about other things

00:29:11.820 when you say friends

00:29:12.720 do you mean

00:29:13.120 friends of the

00:29:13.800 opposite sex

00:29:14.460 no

00:29:15.240 just like

00:29:15.940 like girlfriends

00:29:16.640 well why

00:29:17.020 i mean why would

00:29:17.760 why would

00:29:19.420 being involved

00:29:20.080 with him

00:29:20.480 preclude you

00:29:21.100 from making friends

00:29:22.420 um

00:29:23.540 i don't think

00:29:25.180 it necessarily

00:29:26.500 would

00:29:27.420 it's just like

00:29:28.120 i feel like

00:29:29.860 i was kind of

00:29:30.600 like stretched thin

00:29:31.440 and i didn't want

00:29:32.460 to put him

00:29:33.100 on like the back

00:29:34.460 burner

00:29:34.720 and then just like

00:29:35.640 ruin a relationship

00:29:36.620 i just want to

00:29:37.920 come back to it

00:29:38.840 when like

00:29:39.320 i've like adjusted

00:29:40.960 um

00:29:42.180 to school essentially

00:29:43.480 and then

00:29:45.080 while you've been

00:29:45.960 here

00:29:46.360 are you guys

00:29:47.180 communicating

00:29:47.800 do you guys

00:29:48.240 speak on the phone

00:29:49.120 text

00:29:50.060 yeah we text

00:29:50.960 and like talk

00:29:51.920 how often do you

00:29:52.440 guys speak on the

00:29:52.980 phone

00:29:53.160 um

00:29:54.340 well

00:29:54.920 okay so like

00:29:56.540 in september

00:29:57.520 i kind of just

00:29:58.080 told him like

00:29:58.660 let's take a

00:29:59.620 little bit of a

00:30:00.120 break

00:30:00.480 and then

00:30:01.940 just go

00:30:02.700 no contact

00:30:03.980 for a while

00:30:05.220 and then

00:30:06.100 we'll

00:30:06.660 you know

00:30:07.400 we'll see each

00:30:07.820 other in person

00:30:08.380 and then

00:30:08.940 we'll kind of

00:30:10.040 pick it up from

00:30:10.680 there

00:30:10.840 you said that

00:30:11.520 yeah

00:30:12.240 and what was

00:30:12.900 his response

00:30:13.460 to that

00:30:13.880 he was okay

00:30:15.380 with that

00:30:15.880 he was like

00:30:16.420 yeah okay

00:30:16.880 yeah

00:30:17.440 there was no

00:30:17.900 pushback

00:30:18.440 yeah i think

00:30:20.120 like

00:30:20.480 i don't know

00:30:22.260 i just

00:30:22.600 i just needed

00:30:23.420 a little bit

00:30:23.780 of time

00:30:24.000 were there

00:30:24.240 yeah were there

00:30:24.960 any terms

00:30:25.520 to the break

00:30:26.180 like overt

00:30:27.840 conversations

00:30:28.560 like we're

00:30:29.800 gonna take a

00:30:30.440 break

00:30:30.860 but we're not

00:30:32.040 gonna see other

00:30:32.540 people like

00:30:33.200 were there any

00:30:33.640 terms

00:30:34.000 i think he said

00:30:36.780 that he's not

00:30:37.260 really gonna see

00:30:37.880 other people

00:30:38.420 and i told him

00:30:39.740 likewise like

00:30:40.500 i wasn't really

00:30:41.220 looking for

00:30:41.980 a relationship

00:30:42.840 when you came

00:30:44.040 here

00:30:44.240 when i came

00:30:44.720 here

00:30:45.080 like when you

00:30:45.740 say you weren't

00:30:46.100 looking for a

00:30:46.580 relationship

00:30:46.900 you mean with

00:30:47.760 him or like

00:30:48.700 when you came

00:30:49.360 here you weren't

00:30:50.120 gonna really be

00:30:50.900 trying to date

00:30:51.880 yeah i wasn't

00:30:52.600 the guys here

00:30:53.200 i wasn't really

00:30:53.760 trying to date

00:30:54.300 the guys here

00:30:55.140 okay

00:30:55.900 but like

00:30:56.900 yeah

00:30:57.940 but you want

00:30:58.900 you initiated

00:30:59.580 the break

00:31:00.180 conversation

00:31:01.040 yeah i initiated

00:31:02.560 the break

00:31:02.940 conversation

00:31:03.260 would it upset

00:31:04.220 i mean he told

00:31:05.320 you he wasn't

00:31:05.840 gonna see other

00:31:06.280 girls uh you

00:31:07.660 go to see him

00:31:08.400 in a couple days

00:31:09.040 now i guess

00:31:09.600 for thanksgiving

00:31:10.520 around that time

00:31:12.280 he tells you

00:31:13.160 i have had sex 0.99

00:31:14.620 with half of 1.00

00:31:15.900 uh the sgv 0.99

00:31:17.580 do you feel

00:31:18.720 upset about

00:31:19.160 this

00:31:19.500 um well

00:31:20.820 that's his

00:31:21.220 choice

00:31:21.720 so san gabriel

00:31:23.040 valley for the

00:31:23.740 non los angeles

00:31:24.920 people

00:31:25.300 um i think

00:31:27.020 riverside too

00:31:27.700 half of riverside

00:31:28.600 also

00:31:28.820 is that sgv

00:31:29.540 that's not sgv

00:31:30.860 but it's in

00:31:32.400 la

00:31:32.760 isn't riverside

00:31:34.160 like so much

00:31:35.560 further away

00:31:36.400 he gets around

00:31:37.640 he has a car

00:31:38.440 right

00:31:38.760 yeah i guess

00:31:40.400 yeah he drives

00:31:41.040 there for

00:31:41.660 the ucr

00:31:42.560 girls 0.98

00:31:42.940 i mean he's

00:31:43.620 an adult

00:31:44.100 that's his

00:31:44.740 choice

00:31:45.140 that means

00:31:45.860 it wouldn't

00:31:46.520 bother you

00:31:47.000 well that

00:31:47.980 just means

00:31:48.440 that we

00:31:48.780 won't i

00:31:50.040 won't like

00:31:50.420 think about

00:31:50.860 like officially

00:31:51.760 starting a

00:31:52.320 relationship

00:31:52.700 but you guys

00:31:53.320 are on a

00:31:53.600 break

00:31:53.920 yeah but

00:31:55.600 like like

00:31:56.260 have you seen

00:31:56.760 friends

00:31:57.200 well anybody

00:31:58.460 here seen

00:31:58.780 friends they

00:31:59.840 were on a

00:32:00.160 break okay

00:32:00.660 all right

00:32:01.080 boomer show

00:32:02.220 no i i know

00:32:03.580 the show i

00:32:04.200 just okay

00:32:05.040 i don't i

00:32:06.360 haven't watched

00:32:06.840 it yet

00:32:07.260 okay um

00:32:08.260 but so like

00:32:11.100 you guys were

00:32:11.520 seeing each

00:32:11.940 other at

00:32:12.680 almost every

00:32:13.660 single day

00:32:14.160 for a period

00:32:14.580 of 10

00:32:14.900 months

00:32:15.320 um it

00:32:17.080 it sounds

00:32:17.840 to me and

00:32:18.240 maybe the

00:32:18.720 other girls 0.95

00:32:19.280 on panel

00:32:19.640 can weigh

00:32:19.980 in here

00:32:20.260 maybe i've

00:32:21.380 read this

00:32:21.900 wrong it

00:32:22.840 seems to

00:32:23.220 me like

00:32:23.700 maybe he

00:32:24.220 was a

00:32:25.500 bit more

00:32:26.000 into her

00:32:27.360 than she

00:32:27.680 was into

00:32:28.000 him is

00:32:28.740 that fair

00:32:29.180 or

00:32:29.820 thoughts

00:32:31.880 seems that

00:32:33.020 way it's

00:32:33.340 a long

00:32:33.720 wait

00:32:33.980 i don't

00:32:34.000 know

00:32:34.480 because men

00:32:35.400 are very

00:32:35.720 territorial

00:32:36.260 if they

00:32:36.760 want the 0.55

00:32:37.080 girls 0.98

00:32:37.380 he's gonna

00:32:38.220 make the

00:32:39.320 move and

00:32:40.520 ask you to

00:32:41.280 be his

00:32:41.540 girlfriend

00:32:41.820 no but

00:32:43.080 also could

00:32:43.560 be like he

00:32:44.040 didn't want

00:32:44.400 to push

00:32:44.780 her into 0.58

00:32:45.180 a corner

00:32:45.660 right he

00:32:47.000 didn't want

00:32:47.360 to force

00:32:48.140 you to

00:32:48.420 say yes

00:32:48.960 right for

00:32:49.580 10 months

00:32:50.200 though but

00:32:50.980 i feel like

00:32:51.460 he's like

00:32:51.940 very mature

00:32:53.380 in that sense

00:32:54.040 and like he

00:32:55.200 knew that i

00:32:55.780 wanted time

00:32:56.680 and that like i

00:32:58.040 was going to

00:32:58.560 college and we

00:32:59.200 were going to

00:32:59.620 different colleges

00:33:00.280 so you know

00:33:01.580 him being

00:33:02.140 respectful of

00:33:02.720 my time and

00:33:03.560 like my

00:33:03.980 decisions i

00:33:05.560 think that was

00:33:06.000 very mature of

00:33:06.720 him

00:33:06.980 did he ask

00:33:08.120 you uh

00:33:09.140 at any point

00:33:10.040 in that 10

00:33:10.620 month period

00:33:11.040 or whatever

00:33:11.440 or the year

00:33:12.780 or whatever

00:33:13.100 you guys were

00:33:13.500 together um

00:33:14.860 like hey i

00:33:16.840 want things to

00:33:17.420 be more serious

00:33:18.060 and you turned

00:33:18.840 him down or

00:33:19.440 we like title

00:33:21.540 we kind of

00:33:22.320 discussed it at

00:33:23.100 some point

00:33:23.700 um but it

00:33:25.600 was just like

00:33:26.380 who brought it

00:33:27.680 up um

00:33:29.560 um i honestly

00:33:31.840 don't remember

00:33:32.920 i'm so sorry

00:33:33.620 i'm like on

00:33:34.100 low sleep

00:33:34.600 so um

00:33:36.240 but i

00:33:36.960 we talked

00:33:37.740 about it

00:33:38.080 at some

00:33:38.340 point

00:33:38.700 yeah

00:33:40.240 okay

00:33:40.760 all right

00:33:42.200 that's my

00:33:42.540 only input

00:33:42.960 sure uh

00:33:44.280 okay what

00:33:45.000 about you

00:33:45.440 i'm single

00:33:47.300 i think my

00:33:48.300 last relationship

00:33:49.040 was like

00:33:49.740 out of high

00:33:51.040 school it was

00:33:51.520 like maybe six

00:33:52.220 months and

00:33:52.980 then since

00:33:53.520 then i've been

00:33:54.380 single i mean

00:33:55.160 so like you're

00:33:56.020 23 so you've

00:33:57.660 been single for

00:33:58.120 five years and

00:33:59.360 then your longest

00:34:00.160 relationship six

00:34:00.920 months and that's

00:34:02.640 the one that ended

00:34:03.140 five years ago

00:34:03.840 yeah who broke

00:34:04.980 up with who

00:34:05.400 i did it was

00:34:06.920 just for school

00:34:07.900 i was getting

00:34:08.540 for school

00:34:08.940 okay uh so

00:34:11.560 during this entire

00:34:12.720 time you've been

00:34:13.220 single for and

00:34:13.820 you're you live in

00:34:14.560 la right and

00:34:16.100 you've been living

00:34:16.540 in la the past

00:34:17.440 five years

00:34:17.900 uh yeah with my

00:34:19.580 parents and my

00:34:20.260 sister okay

00:34:21.180 uh what's what's

00:34:24.320 the longest period

00:34:24.960 of time you've

00:34:25.520 seen any guy

00:34:26.480 regardless of

00:34:27.400 the maybe it

00:34:28.760 was complicated

00:34:29.300 situationship casual

00:34:30.680 friends with

00:34:31.100 benefits what's

00:34:32.020 the longest period

00:34:32.520 of time you've

00:34:32.920 seen somebody in

00:34:33.480 that five-year

00:34:33.900 period it was

00:34:35.040 the same six

00:34:35.560 months it was

00:34:35.980 that same different

00:34:36.620 guy oh same

00:34:37.500 guy okay that's

00:34:38.840 the longest

00:34:39.340 okay um besides

00:34:41.360 him any three

00:34:42.520 months a three

00:34:43.320 month thing in

00:34:44.160 there no fortnight

00:34:46.260 two weeks no

00:34:49.260 nothing no i

00:34:50.960 don't 30 72

00:34:51.820 hours i don't do

00:34:53.180 situationships or

00:34:54.120 casual it's

00:34:54.640 either all or

00:34:55.100 nothing so so

00:34:56.600 you've been

00:34:56.840 celibate for

00:34:57.380 five years no

00:34:59.760 well hold on

00:35:00.640 pump the brakes

00:35:01.240 okay uh but i

00:35:02.940 thought hold on i

00:35:03.420 thought you don't

00:35:03.740 do casual i mean

00:35:05.220 like i don't like i

00:35:06.220 guess casual but i

00:35:07.460 don't like go like

00:35:08.520 oh like oh no i

00:35:10.360 don't know it's like

00:35:10.800 a month or two i

00:35:11.740 don't like drag it

00:35:12.360 along so you just

00:35:14.020 have sex once and 1.00

00:35:14.920 then ghost them 0.99

00:35:15.480 i mean isn't that

00:35:19.020 casual i mean i 0.99

00:35:20.960 guess damn 0.99

00:35:21.680 ruthless she's 1.00

00:35:23.360 ruthless these guys 0.95

00:35:24.900 are dying to put a 0.97

00:35:25.920 ring on it she's 1.00

00:35:26.840 like get the fuck 0.99

00:35:27.520 out of here so 0.99

00:35:28.320 okay you you have 1.00

00:35:29.240 sex once and then 0.96

00:35:30.540 you're like be gone 0.97

00:35:31.320 i've i've had my my

00:35:33.000 fill right that's what

00:35:35.020 happens i just i feel

00:35:36.920 like i'm someone who

00:35:37.660 just gets like the

00:35:38.320 ick really easily 0.99

00:35:39.280 after the sex you have 0.99

00:35:41.060 the sex you have the 0.99

00:35:41.240 sex then you get the 0.99

00:35:42.620 ick yeah i don't know 0.99

00:35:44.920 is it because of the 0.98

00:35:45.680 sex you get the ick i 0.95

00:35:46.940 just i don't know i 0.99

00:35:47.760 can't see them in the

00:35:48.580 same light after the

00:35:49.940 sex yeah wait so you 0.81

00:35:52.580 see them in a good 0.89

00:35:53.360 light and then you have 1.00

00:35:54.820 the sex and then you 0.99

00:35:56.320 get the ick is that 0.94

00:35:58.360 fair i'm it's not i

00:35:59.860 mean it's not like that

00:36:00.880 i guess it's just i

00:36:03.620 don't know are they bad

00:36:04.400 in bed kind of they're

00:36:06.440 bad i just don't see

00:36:07.860 the point of like

00:36:08.680 stringing along further

00:36:10.420 at all stringing them

00:36:11.540 along yeah because i

00:36:12.820 mean also like i'm i

00:36:14.280 don't want to do like a

00:36:15.680 relationship because i

00:36:16.720 was in school and i i

00:36:19.140 don't know it's just

00:36:19.780 kind of like a one-time

00:36:20.500 thing so okay don't

00:36:22.260 want relationship don't

00:36:24.260 want semi-casual but

00:36:27.120 you want super casual

00:36:28.080 basically like so

00:36:29.640 essentially like you'll

00:36:30.360 hook up once and then

00:36:31.400 that's cut off basically

00:36:33.400 basically is it because

00:36:35.320 it's because you get

00:36:36.440 the ick i i don't know

00:36:39.040 i sometimes i just feel

00:36:40.160 like i guess since that

00:36:41.340 one relation like i

00:36:42.320 don't know i i'm just

00:36:43.500 like a naturally really

00:36:44.540 anxious person you're

00:36:45.780 naturally anxious yeah

00:36:47.040 and okay i don't like

00:36:49.080 kind of i don't know i

00:36:49.940 don't want to like i just

00:36:51.700 kind of want to prioritize

00:36:52.400 myself and i don't want

00:36:53.740 to i just don't want to

00:36:54.540 be in a relationship and

00:36:55.940 sure that's yeah that's

00:36:57.940 been pretty much it yo

00:36:59.340 robert thank you for the

00:37:00.080 gift of 20 um okay you

00:37:01.700 don't want a relationship

00:37:02.580 what if you just had

00:37:04.120 like uh every fortnight

00:37:06.140 just you had a casual

00:37:08.700 sexual encounter with

00:37:09.620 the same person is that

00:37:10.820 doable for you or no

00:37:11.940 every two weeks i mean i

00:37:16.400 just like i don't i

00:37:17.880 haven't like slept with

00:37:18.720 so many people it's like

00:37:19.940 literally so i don't know

00:37:21.700 wait you sorry repeat

00:37:22.740 you haven't i haven't

00:37:23.820 like had like so many to

00:37:25.240 like base like the casual

00:37:28.300 thing out of okay it's

00:37:30.560 just like once in like a

00:37:31.720 blue moon once in a blue

00:37:33.700 moon and then that's it

00:37:35.220 you're in you said you uh

00:37:37.120 are in uh nursing nursing

00:37:39.940 school are you an rn yet or

00:37:42.000 soon to be like five months

00:37:44.320 in five months um and of

00:37:47.240 the kind of casual encounters

00:37:48.320 you have had any surgeons

00:37:50.240 any surgeons in there or do

00:37:53.280 you stick with the the

00:37:55.780 physicians no or are you you

00:37:58.160 kind of slum it with the pa's 0.66

00:37:59.660 no offense no offense the

00:38:02.600 physician assistants you know

00:38:03.980 like you can't quite get the

00:38:06.080 doctors and like the surgeons

00:38:08.080 are like out of reach so

00:38:10.000 you're just like you're just

00:38:11.200 going for the the pa's no 0.86

00:38:12.520 offense i don't really date in

00:38:15.680 the medical field just okay you

00:38:19.440 date farmers are you on

00:38:21.880 farmers only i think you told

00:38:22.960 us that before the show didn't

00:38:24.540 she got she said far she dates

00:38:26.460 i don't know she uses farmers 0.99

00:38:28.460 only like people in my like

00:38:29.840 mutual circles like the gym or

00:38:32.280 something the gym okay all

00:38:33.980 right

00:38:34.540 wait sorry could i ask a

00:38:36.120 question by chance sure it's

00:38:37.780 back to the pa thing why do you

00:38:39.480 how do you bring them down so

00:38:41.100 much why did i bring down the

00:38:42.560 physicians because if you think

00:38:44.080 about it a pa has like a work

00:38:46.320 life balance that's like

00:38:47.420 incredible but like is that what

00:38:48.720 you want to be a no i don't even

00:38:49.540 want to be a no it's not even

00:38:52.460 what do you want to do again i

00:38:53.920 want to um get a doctorate in

00:38:56.420 clinical psychology in clinical

00:38:58.080 psychology yeah i don't have

00:39:00.820 anything against physician's

00:39:02.020 assistance i'm just uh kind of

00:39:03.860 like a call back

00:39:04.520 they just make less money right

00:39:06.880 than surgeons well yeah i mean

00:39:09.580 uh even doctors make less money

00:39:12.120 than surgeons but um no i don't i

00:39:15.140 don't have any beef with pa it's

00:39:16.560 just a call back humor to pa over

00:39:18.760 there future pa um all right what

00:39:22.160 about you

00:39:22.480 i have thank you robert tanner i

00:39:26.220 just completely like my bad i've

00:39:29.140 never been in a relationship i don't

00:39:31.540 claim anybody so you've never been

00:39:34.420 in a relationship no you've never

00:39:36.680 uh called somebody a boyfriend

00:39:38.260 girlfriend or boyfriend okay i have

00:39:41.120 but in my world i know they're you're

00:39:44.460 gone like they're gone yeah wait

00:39:47.160 wait wait what so in your world

00:39:50.680 if i were yeah go ahead go ahead so

00:39:56.120 i just once we're over or like you're

00:40:00.620 out of my life you no longer really

00:40:02.480 exist so the relationship and all the

00:40:04.300 memories are kind of like gone like

00:40:06.220 gone vanish period yeah like erase them

00:40:09.220 yeah erased yeah never wait how old are

00:40:14.400 you again i'm 26 what's the longest

00:40:17.580 period of time you've not had a

00:40:19.500 boyfriend or wait hold on that doesn't

00:40:22.040 make sense 26 years life yeah but you

00:40:24.940 say like you say you kind of like tune

00:40:28.340 them out like you want to pretend that

00:40:30.140 they didn't exist right oh they don't

00:40:31.860 exist yeah i have like a graveyard in my

00:40:34.540 phone i don't know if anyone's seen

00:40:35.860 that like once you're gone like you get

00:40:37.980 three three cells you get what three

00:40:41.020 tombstones three tombstones that's what

00:40:42.960 i change your name into and you're gone

00:40:44.700 like you do that too no okay you're just

00:40:47.560 acknowledging okay uh so if we were to

00:40:51.940 like look into your brain what would be

00:40:55.020 the longest not that you're going to

00:40:57.080 admit it you know what would be the

00:40:59.580 longest period of time you were involved

00:41:02.540 with a tombstone person or whatever

00:41:06.000 uh four years oh four years okay all

00:41:08.920 right worst four years of my life which

00:41:10.480 is why they don't exist no more

00:41:11.760 all right and when did that end

00:41:15.240 2022 so you've been single for two years

00:41:20.080 then yep unless there's been other

00:41:22.180 non-existent but existent relationships

00:41:28.120 yeah have there been additional

00:41:29.820 tombstones yeah on your phone since no

00:41:33.080 there has not okay single for two years

00:41:35.480 who broke up with who in the four-year

00:41:36.960 non-existent quasi sort of relationship

00:41:41.320 um it was kind of just i guess mutual

00:41:45.020 like you said it was a horrible relate it

00:41:48.200 was horrible yeah it was was it toxic it

00:41:51.080 was very toxic it was it abusive yes it

00:41:53.340 was how did you abuse him tell us oh no i

00:41:55.720 wasn't the abuse tell us the abuse that

00:41:58.040 you inflicted upon him i would have not

00:42:00.680 had a you didn't do anything nothing so

00:42:02.480 you slash his tires beyond oh actually i

00:42:05.160 did put water in his tank um that's bad

00:42:07.680 well he was at my best friend's house

00:42:09.680 while i was pregnant with our son and

00:42:11.220 they were sleeping together so i put

00:42:13.080 water in his tank i took some milk wait

00:42:15.060 you how many kids do you have just one

00:42:16.880 yes okay with him yeah and he was 0.99

00:42:20.320 fucking another lady friend my best 1.00

00:42:23.260 friend your best friend yeah while you 1.00

00:42:25.380 were pregnant how far along were you

00:42:27.080 how far along um which which time because

00:42:30.780 it was multiple times so oh when you say

00:42:35.060 you by chance um were you in the adult

00:42:38.660 film industry at the time no i was not

00:42:41.860 so you weren't doing any of you weren't

00:42:45.060 doing anything wait no i worked as a

00:42:48.000 debt collector actually oh okay oh wait

00:42:51.500 so okay you were you've been you've been

00:42:53.280 pregnant how many times once i have one

00:42:56.200 i was wait did i miss here

00:42:57.800 wait you said didn't you say multiple

00:43:02.000 times no he slept with my best friend

00:43:04.440 multiple times oh i thought you were

00:43:06.180 pregnant i mean because i asked how far

00:43:08.320 how far oh you've what i've had

00:43:10.540 abortions but plural yeah how many two 0.98

00:43:13.540 two yeah and uh abortion check any

00:43:17.340 anybody i mean i feel i'm the oldest

00:43:19.460 one here anybody anybody else had a

00:43:23.360 smush motion

00:43:24.040 nope anybody pos i just have an iud does

00:43:30.660 that count like no ways no like you had

00:43:33.740 the procedure though anybody ellen no no

00:43:37.960 abortions no tiffany no okay tiffany if 1.00

00:43:41.940 you say so i would never get an abortion

00:43:43.620 all right um so uh but okay uh when he

00:43:49.280 cheated on you how far along were you

00:43:51.820 with your current kid it was probably the

00:43:54.660 entire relationship so but when did you

00:43:57.820 catch him were you like six months

00:43:59.400 pregnant 0.80

00:43:59.800 four four months pregnant okay all right

00:44:03.740 what made you want to keep the kid

00:44:05.980 versus your two other abortions i wasn't

00:44:08.660 supposed to i was supposed to get an

00:44:09.760 abortion um and it didn't happen so but

00:44:13.580 happened my son is my life like i love

00:44:15.580 him to death and if i didn't have him

00:44:17.520 then i probably wouldn't be here so he

00:44:20.140 saved me for sure everything you were 0.97

00:44:22.380 gonna but you were gonna kill him well it 0.86

00:44:26.900 was before he was here um but yes 0.97

00:44:29.900 essentially yeah i was going to get an

00:44:32.740 abortion that didn't change your mind 0.67

00:44:34.360 i didn't um well i guess later on i was

00:44:39.820 supposed to go and get it and i just he

00:44:41.820 never took me and he never like did

00:44:45.220 anything that he was supposed to do for

00:44:46.460 me to get the abortion i lived in 0.77

00:44:48.520 missouri at the time um so abortion is 1.00

00:44:51.320 legal i mean legal there um so yeah i

00:44:54.360 wasn't able to um so while he did some

00:44:57.380 bad things you did save a man's life

00:44:59.020 yeah i did i saved his son's life

00:45:01.360 no no he said he saved he saved his

00:45:04.720 son's life right but no i did how did

00:45:08.160 you do it you were going to you were 0.97

00:45:09.480 going to kill his son right and then he 1.00

00:45:11.080 well he was going to kill him too he 1.00

00:45:12.020 didn't take you to do it no it's not he 0.92

00:45:14.440 didn't take me to do it he is just his

00:45:16.360 alarm didn't go off and this is why he

00:45:18.820 is abortion appointment in the um yeah

00:45:21.080 this is why he's in the graveyard okay

00:45:22.960 wait oh you're he's in the graveyard and

00:45:26.320 he no longer exists so i don't even know

00:45:27.780 what you're talking about i thought you

00:45:29.320 killed him i should have the boyfriend 0.98

00:45:31.980 he's he is alive though unfortunately 1.00

00:45:35.560 yeah damn okay um does he pay you child 0.90

00:45:40.300 support no he doesn't do anything have 0.99

00:45:43.500 you filed for child support no how old's

00:45:45.940 your kid he's three he'll be three okay

00:45:47.920 all right uh and so is he in missouri and

00:45:51.520 you're now in la or is that i have no idea

00:45:53.400 where that man is i don't okay i don't

00:45:55.860 know huh no communication um my son

00:46:00.880 actually had a heart murmur and told him

00:46:02.600 about it and he told me that he didn't

00:46:04.180 care basically if if something happened

00:46:06.460 to him it was on my watch um and so all

00:46:08.840 communication was cut off so no i don't 0.98

00:46:11.800 know damn yeah that's fucked up okay uh so 0.99

00:46:16.560 tiffany why don't you tell us about uh your 0.99

00:46:18.840 steamy relationship and dating life i'm

00:46:23.720 taken i've been in a relationship for a

00:46:25.900 year that's my longest one it's my first

00:46:27.740 one

00:46:27.960 all right rock and roll and it's long

00:46:30.840 distance correct

00:46:31.600 yeah he lives in antarctica or sorry

00:46:34.580 alaska or something or no i'm louisiana

00:46:37.940 louisiana louisiana all right okay that's

00:46:41.560 everybody's relationship status rock and

00:46:44.840 roll um uh i'm trying to think what else

00:46:49.060 we had here one sec guys let me see if

00:46:51.080 there's any messages we have no i think

00:46:53.900 we're one sec guys where is it are we all

00:46:58.980 good yeah we're all good oh robert did

00:47:01.940 this come through robert i don't know if

00:47:03.180 it did my apologies robert tanner thank you

00:47:04.860 for the you've gifted this twice now thank

00:47:07.320 you for the 40 gifted memberships really

00:47:09.060 appreciate it thank you so much man and

00:47:11.200 then we do have dina here coming in 1.00

00:47:13.720 dina thank you for encouraging open

00:47:15.420 dialogue and encouraging thinking dina

00:47:18.300 thank you very much for the uh message

00:47:20.480 much appreciated all right that's

00:47:23.720 everybody's relationship status pos going

00:47:25.660 back to you tell us you can you show us

00:47:28.680 the ankle can you do like put it up on 0.99

00:47:31.080 the chair show us the fucked up ankle i 0.99

00:47:34.300 mean you can't i see it it's in the boot we 0.95

00:47:35.960 need a boot check this is a bit uh boot 0.86

00:47:39.620 damn so wow and you that happened um you 0.96

00:47:46.640 can go ahead and scoot back in uh that 0.99

00:47:49.420 was with the seven-year situationship dude

00:47:52.000 yeah what um what happened um well he

00:47:57.100 was just grabbing me off from the bed um

00:48:01.680 and because i guess the like amount of

00:48:05.020 drinks like we've had there's like a

00:48:07.660 nightstand like drinks drinks yeah okay

00:48:10.760 there's like a nightstand like right next

00:48:12.700 to um his bed that we kind of just like

00:48:16.860 tripped over yeah and i guess like when i

00:48:21.100 landed back down i kind of just like i

00:48:24.020 fell but then i um kind of did some like

00:48:27.380 weird like kick back onto the floor and

00:48:29.960 my right side is like more dominant so i

00:48:31.900 landed with my left i don't know if that

00:48:34.400 makes sense but but because in your notes

00:48:36.700 you said you depending on who asks you tell

00:48:41.860 a different story so is this the true

00:48:43.640 story yeah i'm not going to tell my boss 0.98

00:48:45.940 that i got an injury from having sex with 0.97

00:48:48.340 someone yeah what do you what do you tell 0.94

00:48:49.960 him you're just like oh that i just like

00:48:52.100 tripped over a curb okay uh but you said

00:48:57.360 there was a stunt you guys were trying to

00:48:59.140 do a stunt yeah no i was just like um in

00:49:02.420 like an upside down like straddle hold on

00:49:06.020 what is upside down straddle like he's

00:49:11.380 picking me up i'm like upside down so

00:49:14.520 this is him you're here yeah like i'm

00:49:18.460 like hugging him but i'm like upside down

00:49:20.100 okay does that make sense i don't want to

00:49:22.900 try that like that soon sounds fun i've

00:49:25.060 it is fun if you have a strong partner

00:49:28.440 so he's standing upright like this yeah

00:49:33.180 and so you guys are engaging in oral

00:49:38.760 compilation i'm yeah yeah because right so

00:49:43.920 normally it like starts kind of like

00:49:46.480 imagine like a standing up like 69 but

00:49:50.800 then is that it is that what you guys

00:49:52.800 were doing pretty much but then how does

00:49:54.420 it become a straddle how's it become a

00:49:56.540 straddle because um i have like later

00:49:59.800 like when i come back down it's like my

00:50:02.480 legs like grab onto his body does that 1.00

00:50:05.560 make sense

00:50:06.080 so i'm pretty much like doing a handstand

00:50:09.900 like when i come back down a handstand and

00:50:14.520 were you guys having to describe you guys

00:50:16.400 were like 0.98

00:50:16.780 not orals then it was like fucking yeah so 0.97

00:50:22.160 it's like it's both it goes like kind of 0.99

00:50:24.100 high tai chi fucking pilates shit are you 0.98

00:50:27.900 guys doing all right that's cool um in any 1.00

00:50:31.320 case so then that goes wrong you bang your 0.72

00:50:34.180 ankle against something the nightstand yeah

00:50:37.720 something i don't know so you broke it or

00:50:39.600 what happened it's um it's just like maybe

00:50:42.360 fractured a little bit kind of uh um i 0.99

00:50:45.200 did you fuck your achilles i don't remember 0.99

00:50:47.560 the name of the bone but it's like right 1.00

00:50:49.400 above my heel

00:50:50.240 yeah but anyways i made it worse because i

00:50:54.480 refused to wear it the like my boot the

00:50:56.560 first week

00:50:57.180 um and then i went to new york walking

00:51:00.120 around for like a little over a weekend

00:51:02.060 and and then yep and i have to wait longer

00:51:04.940 karma and this was your dad your dad

00:51:10.860 watches you on here yeah

00:51:13.060 i'm super open with him you know he there's

00:51:18.600 not anything he doesn't already know 0.72

00:51:20.480 damn i just don't know how i mean you're 0.96

00:51:25.120 open enough to talk about your sex jitsu 0.99

00:51:27.100 that led you well okay so it's like i

00:51:31.940 have already like kind of told him like

00:51:33.620 the gist but i haven't given him like

00:51:35.300 details you know so i guess he's getting

00:51:38.940 that today if he's watching this which

00:51:41.420 probably is that's that's crazy all right

00:51:45.020 cool um has anybody else here ever had a

00:51:48.600 sex related injury

00:51:49.940 um i have i had to go to the hospital

00:51:54.660 on the same day

00:51:56.220 um i'm tiny and um i'm like barely five

00:52:04.480 three and i have a genetic disorder and

00:52:08.520 so it essentially in short pushed too

00:52:11.840 deep and it ruptured part of my um what's

00:52:15.520 it called i guess it caused well okay how

00:52:18.420 do i word this a previous a previous

00:52:20.880 experience caused an ovarian benign cyst and

00:52:23.880 then the later experience popped that

00:52:26.300 cyst and i had to go to the hospital 0.98

00:52:27.960 wait so one penis caused a cyst no the 0.99

00:52:32.200 same one the same one same penis it was 1.00

00:52:36.040 too what too deep yeah what that can 1.00

00:52:41.640 cause a cyst um you can get ovarian cysts

00:52:45.040 for like a plethora of reasons ph unbalances

00:52:48.000 and just like if you have unprotected sex and

00:52:51.760 then you leave it in there for too long you

00:52:53.740 can it upsets your body so um okay so you

00:53:00.040 went to the hospital and then what happened

00:53:01.720 um essentially they said um we can't do

00:53:05.540 anything about it you popped a cyst go back

00:53:08.480 home and rest were you did you have to

00:53:11.420 refrain from having it was recommended did

00:53:16.480 you follow the doctor's recommendation i mean

00:53:21.600 because the thing is it's gonna hurt

00:53:23.980 regardless so like it might as well hurt when

00:53:26.180 i'm still enjoying myself in my life you

00:53:29.760 couldn't like take a two-week breather i'm

00:53:32.760 young i don't need a break we we heal fast what 0.99

00:53:36.020 the fuck uh wait aren't ovarian cysts often 0.99

00:53:39.820 caused by stds um not really they can like 0.99

00:53:45.340 i said they can be caused by a plethora of

00:53:46.940 reasons i've always had a bunch of issues

00:53:49.620 since i was young my mom actually had ovarian 0.52

00:53:52.600 cancer so we get cysts very easily huh so

00:53:55.700 it's genetic yes yeah you said you mentioned

00:53:58.440 you had a what is it a genetic disorder um

00:54:02.460 it's called ehlers-danlos syndrome it's pretty rare i'd say

00:54:07.420 what's called ehlers-danlos syndrome e-h-l-e-r-s-d-a-n-l-o-s syndrome

00:54:14.320 oh it's a connective at first it was thought to be a bone disorder or a joint disorder but

00:54:21.100 it's been rediscovered as and reclassified as a full body genetic disorder um mostly affecting

00:54:27.220 your connective tissue but your whole body is connective tissue so

00:54:30.280 and what um what are like the symptoms of that

00:54:33.380 um part of it's fun i'm really naturally flexible so i can dislocate my bones in and out of place at

00:54:40.100 will for the most part um but we also get injured really easily

00:54:44.380 um i'm actually blind in my left eye and that's because of the disorder as well

00:54:49.000 and uh i see here online that your skin can be like stretchy

00:54:55.920 uh yeah we can stretch our skin kind of like damn that's kind of wild okay um but we also it's

00:55:06.880 because we have thin skin also the doctors call it velvet skin some people think it's nice because

00:55:11.120 we have soft skin but it's because our skin is very very thin so any cut looks 10 times worse any

00:55:16.860 bruise looks 10 times worse yeah damn good times okay and uh oh we got a chat here from uh on this 0.92

00:55:25.600 topic ogle oh that's weird shout out to those with eds it sucks i have it too and i can tell you as 0.96

00:55:31.860 you get older you're gonna get really effing achy vision issues get worse etc yes i'm not sure why

00:55:39.340 it didn't come in as a tts ogle my apologies off to check on that what what would any of that have to

00:55:44.840 do with i mean isn't eds a rectile disorder is that what that is what is it no that's ed

00:55:50.780 what's that ed is erectile dysfunction eds is ehlers-danlos syndrome yeah different uh yeah

00:55:59.600 there's an extra letter there if you want to read that all right we have cole here again sorry guys

00:56:05.560 i don't know why these just came in but i don't know why the tts isn't triggering i'll have to check

00:56:09.700 on that yo brian check your dms i've lost 360 pounds no surgery no drugs just hard work and

00:56:15.040 dedication i sent you some recent before and after pictures ask the girls how they feel about

00:56:19.840 all the loose skin okay i guess going around the table would you date a guy who is currently fit but

00:56:26.660 he used to be a big dude and he's got some loose skin but he's fit he's fit he's not fat but he's got

00:56:34.380 loose skin of course i mean personalities what matters not sure go ahead what about you what do

00:56:41.760 you mean by like loose skin but he's fit like have you ever seen somebody who used to be like obese and

00:56:47.180 then they lost all the weight and their body fat percentage is normal now but because they were so

00:56:52.260 big the skin is super loose like hangs i can't i can't pull up a picture but robert tanner thanks for

00:57:00.060 the gifted 20 memberships i appreciate it yes okay what about you i think it depends but um overall

00:57:08.020 that's really great i think it would also depend like how much like flap are we talking about you

00:57:14.100 know uh well he was 360 pounds so that's fairly obese so there's probably going to be substantial

00:57:20.620 okay like tummy tuck stuff yeah similar yeah um i don't think i would and it's not necessarily

00:57:30.360 because of the loose skin it's more so about like them having been big before i would be scared that

00:57:36.880 they would get big again and i i i can't i don't i won't uh it's not really about the fact that they

00:57:44.640 are obese it's that i live a very active lifestyle and if you are as active as me you are not going to

00:57:50.840 be that heavy set so i want someone who suits my lifestyle i would um like i mean just like you said

00:57:59.280 like personality is what matters the most and i really appreciate like the dedication the person has

00:58:04.300 for you know working on themselves and working out and trying to balance out their health yeah i would

00:58:10.720 um i would um i think it just depends though like you said how much loose skin is there i i would not

00:58:19.280 because i mean i'm all about making yourself better but if you've been that size that means you have the

00:58:25.560 fat gene and i want my kids to be skinny that's a genetic thing it can be you can be naturally

00:58:33.540 can you imagine yourself being 360 pounds no it's a genetic thing

00:58:38.880 okay that's not just like how maybe you were like raised yeah it can be multiple factors but

00:58:47.480 some people are naturally prone to being very heavy set that's why you see a lot of families being all

00:58:54.880 big there's lots of families that everyone in the family is very big and it's not necessarily even

00:59:00.240 because they eat a lot i know plenty of people who are very big who don't really eat a lot and they

00:59:04.380 do exercise but they're just naturally heavy are you is it like because of a slow metabolism um thyroid

00:59:11.940 issues sometimes is a big issue with it yeah did we get everybody's answer for the

00:59:16.720 loose skin one okay all right and uh let's see here we were okay pause you had your whole

00:59:24.580 boot thing uh let's see um oh really quick for you you so you've been living in you were in korea right

00:59:32.820 yes how long were you live or how long have you lived there total um i visited there as a kid

00:59:40.120 but i didn't live there as a kid so four months in total of actually living there not just visiting

00:59:45.060 okay uh do you speak korean i'm still learning um i can understand it spoken to me for the most part

00:59:52.960 but i can't speak it myself because i get too nervous okay so we could we can't get like a demo

00:59:59.080 right now or maybe you and tiffany can exchange a couple no okay all right what's your favorite

01:00:10.680 part of korea um so i lived down in unpyong and um but i'd have to say my favorite part is

01:00:19.300 wait where is that um just upwards of hongdae like i think 35 40 minutes upwards uh pretty close to

01:00:27.280 sinchon and it's a very more like rural area most of the people are a lot older it's right next to

01:00:34.060 this historical um like traditional village yeah yeah so it's really pretty i'd have to say that

01:00:39.960 where i live is my favorite place all right i'm gonna get through everybody's pre-show notes here

01:00:46.280 and then we're gonna get into some of the uh questionnaire stuff so let's see um tiffany

01:00:52.140 actually i guess related to the korean thing tiffany previous on previous shows you said that

01:00:56.400 you should date within your culture and nationality given that uh chloe over there is uh 1.00

01:01:02.840 dating uh somebody in korea do you have any objections to her not dating within her nationality

01:01:08.320 and culture i mean it's not preferable but you can do what you want i think korea should be

01:01:15.600 maintained korea at the same time korean and korea has the lowest birth rate ever also and so koreans

01:01:23.960 aren't being with koreans also um also i have over 10 siblings i have 11 biological siblings 23 siblings

01:01:33.660 in total and they're all by different white guys i have every breed of white guy in my family every

01:01:39.440 white person for the most part looks like one of my siblings i cannot do it you wait you can't do what

01:01:44.500 i can't date someone who looks like one of my siblings so you don't want to date anyone who's 0.97

01:01:48.280 white there are exceptions but almost every white guy i meet looks like one of my siblings yes wait 0.64

01:01:56.540 i've heard this from asian women they're like oh i couldn't date an asian guy because 1.00

01:02:01.100 he looks like my brother for all but i don't understand i don't really get three siblings though

01:02:08.080 it's she's an exception no it's not an exception she has 23 siblings i i just don't um

01:02:14.480 i don't get that but okay so wait you can't date a white guy because your siblings are white

01:02:19.700 i could with very few exceptions if they did not look like one of my siblings the odds though of

01:02:26.980 me finding one that does not look at all like any of my siblings is very slim because they're all

01:02:33.100 with different guys i don't get this phenomenon because like okay if you think of throughout

01:02:37.320 like if you're having sex hold on let me finish if you're if you look at like the vast uh the vast

01:02:44.440 history of humanity um you're like if you had an unwillingness to procreate with your own race

01:02:50.580 your genes would just be wiped out because historically most people did not get exposed to

01:02:56.680 other races like all your dating prospects everybody looks like your brother like wherever you lived like 0.99

01:03:03.460 most people probably didn't go further than like five miles from wherever the fuck they lived this

01:03:08.440 is like a you know modern travel is fairly a recent thing but so i don't that's just look it's i get i 0.74

01:03:15.700 well i don't get it but like when i hear asian women say i couldn't date an asian guy it's like

01:03:20.300 and what do you mean uh that you have did you say 23 siblings yes my mom gave birth to 11 of them

01:03:27.600 but because of all the marriages i have lots of step siblings as well yeah but at your age even if

01:03:34.020 she had been married five times these step siblings couldn't have been in your life for very long

01:03:37.700 they're still my siblings though yeah but they i mean you go to school with people who are white for

01:03:43.780 instance right you probably have more interpersonal relationship with many of them than you did with

01:03:48.280 your step siblings if you had such a limited time frame right where i lived as a kid and grew up at

01:03:53.640 the area was mostly african-american um so my family was one of like three or four families in

01:03:59.660 the area that were white um we lived down in jennings missouri um so it's that area is predominantly

01:04:10.500 african-american and the school was mostly that as well so that doesn't really apply in this case

01:04:17.980 yeah i mean it would still apply right so the the idea here is even if uh predominantly the culture

01:04:27.200 is dominated by uh you know black people instead of white people you still have tons and tons of

01:04:31.840 interaction with white people right but the idea that you've formed interpersonal bonds in such a

01:04:37.440 limited amount of time with step siblings seems kind of silly right i mean the whole gist of it is at

01:04:43.500 the end of the day they are your siblings whether they're blood related or not i think because i even

01:04:49.220 grew up with adopted siblings too blood to me is not really a factor as soon as someone is in my family

01:04:56.240 they are in my family and it's they have always been my sibling that is my sibling so then by this

01:05:01.940 logic if you have this many siblings and they let's say marry black people and asian people and every

01:05:10.240 different race in between and they all start having children does this mean that you won't date at all 0.98

01:05:15.000 because some of your people who you're genetically related to happen to be the very race that you

01:05:21.060 would be then forced to date that is also in the future i would already be with my partner i'm one of

01:05:28.340 the oldest of my siblings so the likelihood of the three-year-old getting married and having a child

01:05:34.060 before me is probably not likely well you can't be wait you can't be the oldest of 11 if the

01:05:40.680 next one line is three hang on if the next in the line is three the oldest of the ones that i am

01:05:47.980 related to is 24 the oldest of all of them in total is i believe 27 so no then if you have a 24 year old

01:05:57.840 they could easily uh you know marry off or and and create relations with i mean by the in other

01:06:04.460 words by the time you're of marriageable age multiple of your siblings could date outside of

01:06:08.520 the race have children then you'd have nieces and nephews who are a different race then you just

01:06:12.540 wouldn't date then because you would consider them to be genetically related my older siblings

01:06:19.820 um there's only three or four of them i don't even know what one of them looks like to be honest

01:06:25.860 um never met them in my life um what the one guy is already married to this other white girl 1.00

01:06:35.560 my older sister is not being with anytime anytime soon she has the mental capacity of someone much 1.00

01:06:44.100 younger than her age um and then my older brother has no interest in anything like that so yeah but

01:06:53.160 there isn't that i mean don't you have like nine more to go right the one after that everyone

01:07:00.020 after that is still like 13 no no that that would be a mathematical impossibility that everybody after

01:07:08.660 that was like 13 right no because they're step siblings too yes i understand but even then it

01:07:16.020 would still be mathematically impossible that all of them were like 13 i just want to let you know you

01:07:22.100 may not be aware of this but if you were pregnant 11 times that would require 11 years of your life

01:07:26.880 therefore you can't have like you know 11 kids or nine kids or eight kids or seven kids who are like

01:07:32.960 13 that makes like you forgot about multiples as in twins and triplets oh you say you wait so now you

01:07:41.500 have a ton of twins and triplets i said siblings i didn't specify whether they were all born at the

01:07:46.700 same time or not and some of them are adopted so how many twins and triplets do you have

01:07:53.060 two sets of two so that would be four out of the 11 yes yeah so they still couldn't all be like you

01:08:02.160 know 13 right that still wouldn't make any sense if there are four people if there are four people older

01:08:08.120 than me that's four yeah and then there is my one brother who is my age well not my age a year younger

01:08:20.680 than me he is married to this white girl um he's just turned 19 um the one after that um he is 14

01:08:32.600 so aiden logan's 14 then cassidy is 13 um and then um there's avery he's even younger there's why am i

01:08:46.080 counting like that there's um karina connell avalon cordelia um and then kieran i don't know how that

01:08:58.780 any that is um but i and then there's some that i haven't even met so i mean if you haven't met

01:09:07.460 those people then why would it poison the well for your dating preferences if you haven't even met them

01:09:12.420 they're still my siblings yeah but but how do you even know what they look like to draw a comparison

01:09:17.760 i guess the simplest way to sum it up is imagine you are having sex with someone and you look at

01:09:24.220 them and you see your sibling that's weird that's uncomfortable like i don't know anyone who would

01:09:30.000 find that an enjoyable experience yeah but but if they're if if your extended family were to marry

01:09:36.720 out including your step siblings to other races then wouldn't you see then like your nieces and

01:09:42.420 nephews in the faces of those people you were dating i think the only way this works is because

01:09:47.560 i'm not close with most of my family so i'm not going to get to meet their kids i'm not going to

01:09:53.320 get to know that you're not close to them but for some reason they inform your dating preferences

01:09:58.780 that's super weird i mean many people have toxic relationships with their family and they don't

01:10:03.740 talk to their family anymore but that's made them who they are so a lot of who they are is based off of

01:10:08.320 them yeah but this is a this is literally the first time i've ever heard somebody say that their dating

01:10:14.720 preferences are informed by the fact that they might see a brother's face they have never met in the face

01:10:19.840 of the person they're dating that's bizarre i hear it all the time so i don't really know okay

01:10:26.540 all good all right okay uh we were going were we going around on the question there or

01:10:40.980 do you date do you date asian guys yes asian guys the guy you're seeing is he uh asian guy or

01:10:50.360 white guy okay tiffany i would get an asian guy okay my boyfriend's not asian current boyfriend's

01:10:56.240 white yeah okay got it uh let's get into the rest of the notes here i think we were talking about

01:11:01.620 what were we on before we got into that well we do have ogle once again let me see if this works

01:11:07.140 there we go that should be fine ogle donated 200 tell me if the audio is okay we're related by our

01:11:12.420 eds so i have one percent lenience but my sister you must stop the cap was there an echo on that or 1.00

01:11:20.580 was that okay chat chat was there echo or no echo um thank you ogle uh response to ogle i guess

01:11:28.680 there's a lot that was said so what part is the cap i mean i feel like there was too much said that

01:11:37.620 was you can just state an overall blanket statement rock and roll all right we're gonna get back into

01:11:44.220 the pre-show notes while we go to lexi here lexi you've been in two long-term relationships um you

01:11:50.240 were being with two you say being with two different guys for that long i feel like you have a good idea

01:11:55.320 on how guys view relationships and get comfortable during long term uh with that also the tactics or

01:12:01.460 things as they say to keep you there which are what um i just feel like if there's multiple points

01:12:09.520 in a relationship where things get kind of rocky and stuff um not necessarily guilt tripping but always

01:12:16.420 just reflecting back on the memories and kind of just like oh but like we've made it this far and if

01:12:23.400 like we're supposed to be together then we have to get through this too and like in the moment in

01:12:29.680 the time it it makes sense and you're like yeah if i do like if you are my future then i am gonna have

01:12:35.460 to we're gonna have to understand each other here but then again it's you can only understand and

01:12:41.320 understand so much until you just have to realize really quick robert it is below the threshold but i will

01:12:48.980 just uh just a reminder it's a hundred and for a read uh really quick just by show hands though um

01:12:56.300 does anybody here have a mental health diagnosis from robert tanner show of hands any mental health

01:13:03.780 diagnosis cena what you got gina gianna excuse me my bad what you got gianna um no i haven't i haven't

01:13:13.580 i have insomnia insomnia okay cena what you got i didn't raise my schizo lexi bpd bipolar what you 0.99

01:13:22.480 got pos what you got nothing sex uh well uh you sex addiction you've been diagnosed as a sex addict 0.99

01:13:30.540 okay chloe what about you adhd adhd ellen um psychopath i feel like no i have asthma asthma that's valid 1.00

01:13:40.860 she's got asthma don't um you have an inhaler i do have an inhaler can you take a hit right now

01:13:46.680 of your inhaler i don't it's exercise induced asthma what happens if you take a hit of an

01:13:52.000 inhaler when you're not actually having an asthma attack you can cause problems is it it's it's not

01:13:58.660 good i don't know why you would do that but i only took it like i used to be a competitive swimmer so i

01:14:03.340 don't i don't need like backstroke or i'm also breaststroker breast breast it's like the frog

01:14:08.680 one the frog one yeah do you think anybody's ever abused an inhaler i was asked if i wanted to hit

01:14:16.000 someone's inhaler when it was actually like two nights ago what it's not psychoactive right i don't

01:14:23.660 know inhaler i think it was like a joke because he like offered me um his vape and then he offered

01:14:30.340 me his pen and then he offered me his inhaler this guy vapes and has asthma yeah it seems like a bad

01:14:36.900 combination do you vape ellen no i don't are you a vapor no okay um can does it can you abuse

01:14:45.400 an inhaler though i don't know yeah for sure of course you can but like does it get you

01:14:50.500 it doesn't get you high no i don't know maybe it was placebo i used to steal i used to steal my

01:14:57.760 brother's inhaler when we were kids um because i don't know you used to steal inhalers no i didn't

01:15:05.520 steal inhalers i would like sneak my brother's inhaler when we were children because so i thought

01:15:11.520 i was doing something i don't know okay um mental health diagnosis just adhd adhd what about you

01:15:19.680 anything over here mental health bpd bpd borderline borderline personality disorder all right tiffany

01:15:27.720 what about you besides that one thing um nothing okay all right uh let's see thank you robert tanner

01:15:38.040 for that really appreciate it man thank you thank you uh we have techno trooper one sec guys getting

01:15:43.000 this pulled up sorry for the delay here uh he says techno trooper donated two hundred dollars

01:15:50.260 ladies who is the oldest you would marry for an age gap okay uh answer first yeah tell us uh just 0.83

01:15:58.240 remind us your age and then the oldest i guess you would date or marry go ahead that i would date or

01:16:02.640 that like i think is a good in general uh that you would date okay i'm 18 um my parents are 10 years

01:16:11.140 apart so i already think 10 years is pretty normal um and i would date up to like 40 or 50

01:16:20.720 so 40 or 50 yeah okay so that's like what is that like 30 years age gap about yeah because you're 18 so

01:16:32.420 yeah okay all right cena what about you 10 years 10 years okay all right what about you right now i would

01:16:40.040 say four or five but if i'm in my 30s and like there's a bigger age gap like 20 my grandparents

01:16:46.980 are 19 years apart but they met later in life are you planning to be single in your 30s i mean

01:16:53.160 what's the plan what's the plan lexi i don't know okay uh pos what about you age gap uh well i'm 21

01:17:01.180 um i think max maybe like 45 like early 40s okay all right chloe what about you i'm 20 i've always

01:17:12.160 been very firm on the five-year rule so no one older than five years of me at any given time

01:17:17.860 all right sure uh what about you ellen i'm 18 right now like for dating at this age maybe a couple years

01:17:24.120 older than me but then later in life like lexi said like my 30s then i'd be more open to like

01:17:30.800 10 to 15 years older than me so if you're 30 you would date a guy up to 45 yeah okay what about you

01:17:36.740 um i'm 23 so maybe 33 right now but 10 years okay sure what about you um i'm 26 um i don't really

01:17:47.580 care honestly like maybe you'll date 70 yeah like 50 60 all right okay tiffany i'm 19 so maybe

01:17:56.900 28 and 29 is kind of pushing it all right we have verne tang tangway i had a friend who kept pushing

01:18:05.580 sex i inevitably gave in although i wanted to just be friends can men be s8 if they're on top love the 0.86

01:18:12.920 show you had a friend who kept pushing sex you inevitably gave in although i wanted and you 0.97

01:18:20.940 were on top huh well uh can i think that's just like pure how would you get on top how would you get

01:18:31.320 on top uh i don't think it's that i don't think that's sa you consented i right did you consent

01:18:42.340 if you consented it's uh even if you maybe regretted it that's not sa but uh uh even if they're on top

01:18:52.200 like but like how would like how would you non-consensually get on top like i could maybe

01:19:00.280 see it like you're you're laying down as the guy and it could happen what if you were like

01:19:07.920 nobody put on the person well you got all kinds of crazy crazy different angles and shit but what 0.89

01:19:15.460 what what is it like what if um someone just like places you on top how strong is she i don't know 0.89

01:19:22.020 like i think we need to like like she's an mma fighter and she's like get over here and she 1.00

01:19:29.580 we need more detail i think i don't know that's um verne tangway thank you for that um she's maybe 0.99

01:19:42.400 she has a gun oh well fucking get on top bitch some people find that kinky that's crazy dude 1.00

01:19:50.280 that's wild i'm sorry to hear that verne that you um i'm sorry to hear man i'm sorry to hear was she 1.00

01:19:58.780 was she big

01:19:59.920 how did you get never mind okay that's crazy um

01:20:06.700 where were we we're talking to lexi right yeah uh and then a couple things came in uh the tactics

01:20:17.360 the men say to keep you there so they've been using some tactics kind of just like things that

01:20:23.800 keep coming up you know a lot about like

01:20:26.420 like destiny and using like god and stuff yeah god meant us to be together yeah all right so you

01:20:35.440 have a cross is are you christian catholic you're catholic okay yeah um okay hmm were they religious

01:20:43.220 yeah oh okay uh well next thing you said run one rule you're always going to implement from now on

01:20:50.420 is a two-strike rule and that's basically just that you will give a person one more chance

01:20:54.820 if you find out that they lie to you and if they do it again it's an automatic cutoff

01:21:00.040 yeah um do you have people in the graveyard like her over here i mean pretty much i guess um i really

01:21:07.760 have a big thing with like lying and trust because i mean i feel like if you've been lied to once why

01:21:13.740 can't they just do it again and that did happen and then it's just like okay i found this out and

01:21:19.880 then of course forgive and forget and then it just keeps coming up and coming up okay um and then you

01:21:27.780 said uh hold on you there's a rule in your household do you mean like with amongst your

01:21:35.580 friend group or no just like um my mom has always said like no breakup and makeup game she thinks like

01:21:43.120 you know that can lead to a lot of toxicness on and off again yeah yeah so that's always been

01:21:48.860 something that's like yeah if we're like done done done then it's over yeah okay i tend to agree

01:21:55.480 with you on this because you can have disagreements and you can work through disagreements and stuff

01:22:00.680 but like once even even if a breakup has been teased i think like it's because people will

01:22:07.420 sometimes use that they don't actually they're not actually genuinely breaking up with you they're

01:22:12.040 using it as leverage to get you to behave in a certain way i think you can instead of doing that

01:22:17.200 you can just have a conversation about what you want changed in the relationship if there is an

01:22:23.080 issue but when people do this thing like okay well we're gonna break up yeah it's kind of like

01:22:28.820 okay yeah you want to break up it's over then yeah like there is no yeah you know just like calling

01:22:35.680 bluff yeah like it's a bluff a lot of time it's a bluff and then it's just like well

01:22:40.460 let's just have a conversation about the actual issue instead of just like

01:22:45.740 just doing the breakup you know so yeah okay uh and then uh you said why you should not tell a girl

01:22:53.700 thing she wants to hear and how it sets her up for disappointment uh did you want to expand on that

01:23:00.100 yeah so basically if you have a girlfriend and you just keep telling her everything she wants to hear

01:23:07.260 and promises and eventually it it just it it's a bad idea in the end because you just set up these like

01:23:15.200 false expectations and me personally i have like i don't know i kind of really really dislike being

01:23:22.860 let down and disappointed so it just keeps happening and happening like be honest if something did happen

01:23:30.280 just be honest about it because if i find out you lied about it then it's even worse or if you keep

01:23:36.020 saying you're gonna do things and you don't just don't bring it up there's like there's no reason

01:23:41.320 okay all right uh we're gonna before we we're gonna skip ahead to the questionnaire stuff but

01:23:46.940 before we do while we go to hmm who do we go to

01:23:52.140 hmm while we go to chloe here uh you moved away for a man you'd only known for a month 0.92

01:24:00.460 um yes so we met when i was living down in hawaii and um he kind of made it seem like down where

01:24:16.220 hawaii hawaii why the hell are you saying it like that because people in hawaii you're supposed to

01:24:24.340 pronounce it hawaii that is true yeah didn't a comedian make a joke about the w in the hawaiian

01:24:29.880 language is a v kind of kawaii hawaii oh anybody see that thing in new zealand with like in the

01:24:39.500 parliament with the she does the haka and they rip up the thing for equality it's like when obama says 0.58

01:24:46.120 pakistan you know what i mean when obama would go in pakistan and i'd be like what the hell just

01:24:51.800 just saying how everybody says it somebody in the chat called me a weeb because i said kawaii

01:24:57.560 that's literally one of the hawaiian islands but whatever okay um okay so anyways what's the story

01:25:06.160 um he made it seem like he lived there i even like went over to quote unquote his house turns out it was

01:25:13.100 his friend's house i found that on later on um but when i start seeing someone i get very very attached

01:25:20.220 very very quickly um so in my head i was like well i'm in too deep once i realized he was going back

01:25:26.580 to arkansas um he gave me like a one week notice if even that and so i decided you know i really like

01:25:35.320 this guy i'm not doing much here right now i'm always moving around anyway let me move to arkansas

01:25:41.980 for this dude um only then towards the end of it it was a one year relationship um turns out he was

01:25:50.860 cheating on me the entire time even while i was working on moving down there and he looked me in

01:25:56.600 my eyes at the end of it and told me that he knew he was letting me ruin my life um there is a distinct

01:26:03.920 message i remember i went through his snapchat um and he there was a message from i think near the

01:26:10.940 beginning of a relationship he had with this girl um about her asking oh well do like do you like

01:26:16.400 her like what's going on with your relationship and he said it's not that i don't like her but there's

01:26:22.560 just so many more bodies out there

01:26:24.700 yes

01:26:29.140 yes

01:26:32.560 that's awesome

01:26:34.560 nice good times yes so wait you met him in hawaii yes you flew out there or wait you met him

01:26:46.180 online or i met him in hawaii we had a mutual group of friends okay but then you came back

01:26:52.500 yes i moved to arkansas no no wait you were you stayed in hawaii i stayed in hawaii and then you

01:26:58.940 moved he moved to arkansas he went back to arkansas he was um honduran okay just checking

01:27:05.800 okay wait he was a honduran living in hawaii he wasn't living in hawaii he made me think he was

01:27:13.860 living in hawaii but he was in hawaii he was visiting hawaii he was visiting hawaii okay that's cool

01:27:19.920 uh and then arkansas that's a downgrade yes that's a massive downgrade i'm never going back

01:27:25.700 to arkansas okay that's cool and then um you've done that for other men too maybe what about this

01:27:30.640 current korean man um i did not move for anyone else after that i decided i'm never moving for

01:27:35.920 anyone else um i met my current partner in korea when i was living down there um i actually included

01:27:43.440 it kind of in yeah you said a pretty funny story tell us the story yeah so i was actually we met at

01:27:50.160 a pub um i was out with this other guy though um it wasn't explicitly a date um but more or less it

01:27:59.800 was a date we didn't exclusively call it a date though um but i later found out he he kind of thought

01:28:06.560 of it as that um anyway we're hanging out we're not really talking at all i guess the guy's like shy

01:28:12.380 or something and my friend's djing he's playing a careless whisper like a dj remix of it um and i go

01:28:22.500 to talk to my friend and he my current boyfriend i guess goes up to the guy who's who um i was hanging

01:28:31.320 out with that night and starts asking him like if it's okay for him to hang out with us if he's

01:28:36.300 dating me or something like that and then he just basically like swoops in and hangs out with us

01:28:43.320 the whole night and kind of just it it made my the other person uncomfortable um to be fair but the

01:28:50.780 other person actually wound up texting me throughout the hanging out like oh you guys seem to be getting

01:28:54.240 along do you want me to just leave yikes oh my god that's that's hilarious but so basically it's

01:29:02.860 just funny because i think it's just funny when someone's so bold to just go up to two people

01:29:07.700 especially like opposite gender they're out together there's no one else and you just what

01:29:12.400 you go up to them and like you're like oh by the way is she taken can i basically have a shot at her 1.00

01:29:17.900 and i just said that or that's the underlying that's the underlying yeah he asked if me and

01:29:24.040 that other guy we're dating and if it was okay for him to hang out with us um yeah so just i'll

01:29:31.700 summarize i guess here so you're out with another you're but you made it seem like so was it not

01:29:38.200 clear that it was a date with the guy the first guy i knew that the guy probably liked me and

01:29:47.480 we were gonna hang out it was our first time hanging out that night it was our first time meeting how did

01:29:53.000 you guys know each other um we met each other on like instagram so we had also mutual friends he

01:30:01.920 slid into your dms um no we were in a group chat okay and then he dms you privately he says what

01:30:10.120 well i'm just talking about i was gonna go out and i go out to this one place often and he also goes

01:30:15.880 there often so we just decided we were going to hang out and meet up down there and you had you guys

01:30:21.280 hung out in person no was was he like hey can i take you to dinner no we just met up at uh at the

01:30:31.000 pub down there okay

01:30:33.060 in any case so you he a totally random dude who you'd never met he comes up to you and hits on you

01:30:44.900 he i actually have left to go talk with my friend who's djing and he comes while i'm gone to talk to

01:30:52.040 the guy i'm hanging out with oh wait he goes up to the guy yes and then you come back yeah and then

01:30:59.900 he starts talking to you yes and then does he start like edging out the dude like this is the dude this 0.94

01:31:05.860 is you to lay it out him out like get the fuck out of here kind of we're at this table there's me 0.89

01:31:12.100 and then there's the other side which the original guy is sitting at he is originally over there and 0.96

01:31:17.300 then he just kind of slowly makes his way to sitting on my side of the table and then it winds up being

01:31:23.220 a situation where just me and him are talking because we're getting along and i wasn't really

01:31:26.240 getting along with the other person so conversation just naturally flowed between us and not did he talk

01:31:32.520 to you guys in korean or english um which one were they both korean they're both korean the original

01:31:39.900 guy his name his name is jimin he's my friend now um but he doesn't speak much english so it was also

01:31:47.880 harder to communicate that was definitely one factor um but my current boyfriend yuhuan he is um

01:31:57.620 oh he's your boyfriend yes yes you've been dating him for one month yes he um he speaks fluent english

01:32:06.600 um he actually didn't grow up in korea um he's a korean citizen his parents are from there

01:32:12.400 uh but he grew up in mongolia and germany

01:32:15.320 huh interesting okay and then this other guy he was just like shy not really making but you said

01:32:23.840 you're korean's pretty poor yes okay um in any case you guys agreed to meet up although it doesn't 1.00

01:32:32.660 it sounds like he wasn't super direct about it but it was clear to you in any case that he was

01:32:39.160 romantically interested and then you spend the rest of the night talking with this other man who's more

01:32:44.580 fluent in a language that you both understand it wasn't really about how do i word this it wasn't

01:32:52.060 necessarily about fluency because there's other ways you can also try to communicate um like what

01:32:59.520 i've had tons of hangouts with my friends who don't really speak almost any english down there and we

01:33:05.340 just talk through papago okay um for those who don't know it's like a translation app um okay

01:33:15.000 uh hmm this is an interesting phenomenon i mean it's like it was kind of like a vague hangout

01:33:24.280 he was not really like carrying much of a conversation with you he kind of it sounds like invited this to

01:33:31.100 happen but that's pretty brutal bro you take a girl out on a date and like on the date essentially

01:33:37.040 she like ends up fucking another dude and like dating him well no one said anything about the 0.97

01:33:43.060 latter but oh you guys haven't had sex yet now we have oh well you didn't have sex that night but 0.88

01:33:48.700 like right the guy who like that's like uh what's that term for it that is a uh canon what's that term

01:33:57.400 that's like a canon event like you're out on a date with a girl and some dude like starts talking the

01:34:02.680 girl that you're out on a date with and then like oh she's my girlfriend now peace out dude wait how

01:34:08.820 is that a canon event did that happen to you no that that has not happened to me uh to my knowledge

01:34:15.380 if i recall but like that's got to be a canon event for that dude like

01:34:20.660 i don't know i think he's the kind of person who just wants a relationship and it doesn't matter who

01:34:28.420 with because even though we didn't talk that night like basically at all it was our first time ever

01:34:34.520 meeting he texted me the next day being like i think i'm in love with you and but we had like

01:34:40.340 zero conversation with each other oh it's even worse now he's in love with you but he's not but he

01:34:46.500 said it he said he was and then you did you go home with that other guy like did you leave the bar

01:34:52.560 with i'm not saying you had sex with him did you leave the bar or whatever with that guy

01:34:56.620 he so he actually left not so the the guy the original guy he left early so he left us to keep

01:35:04.140 hanging out the rest of that night what did he say when he left he was like oh it seems like you guys

01:35:07.960 are getting along he actually lives pretty far away from that exact area so he had to take a taxi back

01:35:14.140 home because he was also kind of a little drunk i i don't know probably like an hour damn that's like 0.54

01:35:21.240 an hour long taxi ride to just contemplate like how some other guy just swooped in and

01:35:26.120 mr steal your girl bro okay that's crazy good times um and then you ended up leaving with the dude

01:35:33.860 yes you went back to his place yeah did you guys no we actually stayed up all night i think 0.98

01:35:40.560 and we got back and talked about deep feelings and shit we got back probably like maybe 2 a.m 0.94

01:35:47.680 2 to 3 a.m to his place yes cuddle we actually stayed up all night just literally talking about 0.95

01:35:53.900 life and like stuff like that so it was actually really romantic

01:35:58.140 wow that's so terrible for that other guy who's watching this now i've been yeah so the next day

01:36:09.080 after that one hour taxi cab ride back he texts you i love you yeah damn that's that's a but we had

01:36:19.840 no conversations between each other so no you don't he might have liked how i looked but he didn't love

01:36:25.000 me so he was in love he was in love with wanting to be in love is how i what does that i don't even

01:36:32.320 know what that means but he just wants to date somebody it doesn't matter i think he's gay 0.61

01:36:36.500 you think so yeah why do you think he's gay tiffany because men don't like love they don't love love 0.62

01:36:46.660 that that guy you're talking about sounds like he loves

01:36:50.540 i guess the way to put it would be men aren't really into romance and stuff like that women are 0.94

01:36:58.000 i don't know i feel like men are too and he let that guy steal you from him why didn't he man up

01:37:08.060 he's shy he's like passive he's an introvert okay well now i have a question for avi because we

01:37:15.400 actually had a similar moment where i tried hooking her up with someone and then i actually ended up

01:37:20.900 dating him so you stole like so what happened i feel like this happened multiple times we just 0.93

01:37:31.360 saw him what the fuck wait she stole multiple dudes from you i mean but that i hooked her up 1.00

01:37:36.700 boy she's like oh i think that you should like hang out with this guy and she'll set me up but then 1.00

01:37:41.620 but then she fucks him first bro fucking goblin what the fuck you're you're dude this is your friend 1.00

01:37:49.620 here no remorse i have no words no regret okay um so how many men has this happened to like maybe 1.00

01:38:00.820 three three dudes three so she's posses like wait she's trying to set you up with them like she hasn't 1.00

01:38:07.260 hooked up with them yet no i and then she's like oh you should hang out with this dude no it's more

01:38:12.720 like oh you should hang out and then i mean i don't really live close to her so it just nothing

01:38:17.800 nothing ever really ends up happening and then later on she just i don't know hangs out with

01:38:22.080 them that's it it's more like people i've like hooked up with and i'm just like actually i'm just

01:38:27.880 gonna maybe toss you to someone else oh you've already smashed yeah and then you're like

01:38:34.780 had my fun you can have my my sloppy seconds or whatever no it's just like i don't like my friends

01:38:45.680 like third wheeling while we're like hanging out so i'm always trying to like make the groups even

01:38:49.940 even if it's just like not like to date or like even to hook up you know just odd numbers are always

01:38:56.220 like really awkward how do you feel about this i don't mind i mean i feel like whenever anyone sets

01:39:03.760 me up i just i don't like it like it just kind of puts a pressure on things so i mean i'll talk to

01:39:09.820 them i'll be friendly but it's not like i'm like oh like she stole them or i have like a weird

01:39:14.620 complex about it okay we've been like this close to being like eskimo twins wow interesting okay

01:39:23.820 all right um here i'm gonna let a couple chats go through uh techno trooper who do you think has

01:39:29.180 done more harm to society mark zuckerberg or tim stokely and why i don't does anybody here know

01:39:35.160 who tim stokely is no all right um who the i tim stokely

01:39:41.840 british businessman oh they uh he founded only fans he started only fans so okay who's done more

01:39:51.980 damage to society uh mark zuckerberg founder of facebook and you know there's instagram whatever

01:39:58.020 or all he owns instagram through meta and uh or the creator of only fans

01:40:04.520 the zuck or of guy i'm not sure because i don't know much about mark zuckerberg

01:40:12.420 either i don't know much about facebook no instagram well they bought instagram but

01:40:20.020 okay i guess um okay how about this which one has done more damage to society facebook and

01:40:27.780 instagram okay or only fans only fans okay and not in a bad way i'm just saying wait it made more of

01:40:35.360 an impact no damn done more harm okay so in a bad way facebook and instagram or only fans 0.63

01:40:42.400 um i don't know pick one i would say only fans maybe okay facebook okay only fans i would say facebook

01:40:56.960 facebook how about facebook that encompasses instagram too which one i feel like like both

01:41:06.740 i don't know in different ways okay i'd say facebook into the mic into the mic sorry i'd say

01:41:13.120 facebook and instagram okay tiffany probably only fans hmm andrew what do you think

01:41:19.080 definitely only fans has done more damage

01:41:23.920 you could say you could so here's how i would think of it i think that you could make an argument

01:41:31.880 that facebook has been completely co-opted by the government in order to curtail speech

01:41:37.640 do tracking do data mining and all sorts of horrible things

01:41:41.420 but you can also make the argument that a lot of good comes from it

01:41:45.880 um people can communicate with each other at lightning speed especially when it was

01:41:50.520 early on it was kind of a marketplace for ideas uh only fans doesn't produce anything which is good

01:41:55.720 it basically produces nothing like one one or two percent of its content which is not

01:42:00.360 nude related or whatever it is or the small percentage is not nude nude related it produces nothing good

01:42:06.200 we have uh two only fans girls here at the table do you guys want to 0.98

01:42:11.480 make a counter argument or

01:42:13.820 i'd say yeah so i don't think only fans made like a worse just because people are going to that to

01:42:23.940 like they have to pay to see anything most of the time like so they're wanting to see that

01:42:29.420 on facebook it's just open like you can open up your facebook and see anything

01:42:34.400 you know that you don't want to see it's well no i mean you can't right like you can't see nudes on

01:42:40.360 facebook and yeah you can't they have moderate well they have moderation policies there right where

01:42:45.560 they remove that stuff don't they yeah but you can still see it andrew let me uh wasn't there a

01:42:50.300 story in like for the 2020 election that facebook stifled a pretty big story like right before the

01:42:57.820 election yeah it was it was it the hunter biden zuckerberg admitted to the entire scheme and said

01:43:03.240 that they were co-opted by the federal government and that they weren't going to allow it in this

01:43:07.240 next election cycle and that they didn't want to work with the feds anymore in policing speech on the

01:43:12.140 platform but that was too little too late but still while i concede that zuckerberg has done many

01:43:18.600 many bad things with facebook and that it's been a data mining kind of uh plethora and lots of bad

01:43:24.480 come from it i can still at least point to a lot of good having come from it i can't point to any

01:43:29.980 good having come from only fans no good no good comes from that i think there's good that comes

01:43:33.860 from only fans because if you think about it the reason why men or women like are subscribing or

01:43:40.820 purchasing those to those only fan girls are because they're probably afraid to approach real

01:43:47.760 girls in real life and or like maybe you know they're embarrassed or something something along

01:43:54.980 the lines of that and them subscribing to them us is basically us helping them prepare for that

01:44:02.660 situation oh yeah well thanks it's a service it's quite the public service you go out here we're just

01:44:08.540 you're really you're just trying to help society benevolence of your own heart has nothing to do with

01:44:13.100 wanting to fill your pockets with lonely men who uh you then create a parasocial relationship with

01:44:19.280 and have a chinese dude or uh you know some foreigner uh chat with him at three o'clock in the morning

01:44:25.680 while you're soundly sleeping on your behalf in order to create and entail this parasocial relationship

01:44:31.520 you're a saint when in fact i mean when can we canonize you you are fantastic what you i know that

01:44:38.200 you're just doing this out of the goodness of your heart what was i thinking thank you yeah you're 0.64

01:44:44.740 just trying to help those poor 50 year old men who were just a little lonely and wanted to jerk off to 0.79

01:44:49.980 a young girl you know you're just trying to help them in fact i'd go so far as to say you would

01:44:54.660 definitely do this for no charge whatsoever because that's how benevolent you are right no no i didn't

01:45:01.540 think so sounds like the benevolence goes out the window the second the money goes out the window

01:45:06.220 all right there you have it we have a chat here from oops robert tanner i'm concerned especially

01:45:14.120 with the relationship part how this panel views a man so far i have heard about abortions random sex

01:45:19.720 acts or absolutely not good men question for the panel what's your ideal man also if andrew had an

01:45:25.820 input would love to hear it to help bridge a gap on this so we'll ask the question to the panel what's

01:45:32.800 your ideal man i suppose um perhaps the question could be uh what does a guy have to bring to the

01:45:41.380 table to get you actually one quick preamble preface question on this one uh if you got 80 percent of

01:45:52.620 everything that you want in your ideal partner would you be happy with that going around the table

01:45:58.600 starting with you go ahead no no okay it would be settling it would be what would it be settling

01:46:04.640 i think it should be equal i don't think i'd be happy if it was you know zero 80 i think it should

01:46:11.580 be fair either way wait can you repeat the question back to me just so you said if i got 80 percent of

01:46:18.880 the whole relationship you're saying no you got 80 so like let's say you have 10 things you want

01:46:25.340 a partner you want a guy who's funny you want a guy who makes this much money you want a guy who's

01:46:29.460 uh tall you want a guy who is charismatic whatever you have a list of 10 things and you get 80 of those

01:46:37.080 things so uh you get eight of the 10 things that you want um this list could be longer it could be

01:46:44.460 shorter in any case you get 80 of everything you want in your ideal partner would you be happy with

01:46:49.300 that i would be satisfied okay what about you yeah yeah what like i'd be satisfied okay um i think so

01:47:00.000 i think that'd be good i would be happy you know there's always room for improvements over time

01:47:06.360 oh no well then no there is no improvement is it 80 flat or is it 80 working up you get 80 all the

01:47:14.560 things you want in your perfect partner you get 80 i feel like a hundred perfect partner would grow

01:47:21.400 for me yeah yeah

01:47:22.780 it's not it's not your perfect partner it's 80 of your perfect partner so there's no growth

01:47:32.000 so that's zero percent if i want my partner to be able to grow and if he's they grow they only grow

01:47:39.540 80 percent though okay so it's capped at 80 yeah sure no one's perfect i'll still be happy

01:47:46.800 okay well chloe what about you i think it would depend if we're assuming there's 10 things it

01:47:51.940 would depend what of the 10 things they have checked off because some things are more important than

01:47:56.200 others yeah that's what i was gonna say too yeah i agree with that like core values have to be there

01:48:01.760 like the eight has to be or the core values have to be within the eight but then the other two like

01:48:06.520 i don't like someone's height or someone's like yeah i don't know okay uh your answer so

01:48:12.860 it was like the same thing that she said okay what about you it has to be 10 it has to be 100

01:48:18.540 it has to be everything okay all right what about you i'd be okay with that 80 tiffany probably not

01:48:25.180 like 90 you need not oh 90 okay yeah all right so then going around the table the question was uh

01:48:32.160 what what i guess what is what's your ideal man what does a guy need to bring to the table to get

01:48:37.380 you you can talk looks you can talk personality whatever good um personality comes first i just

01:48:45.000 need somebody to match my type of lifestyle pretty much because i travel a lot so that's one of the

01:48:52.120 main reasons why i don't really go out of my way to find somebody right now is because i would like to

01:48:57.900 give my person 100 as i would like to receive 100 so number one would be matching my lifestyle and

01:49:04.060 then secondary would come looks so yeah uh can you be a bit more concrete just like list out some things

01:49:12.180 um i would say has to be compatible of course um has to be has to have good humor okay funny sure

01:49:23.080 funny yeah um and be able to understand my like sarcasm and my um like personality because i'm

01:49:33.620 i have a unique personality and i think some people don't understand it but yeah okay that and um

01:49:42.520 i would say

01:49:44.240 confidence confidence okay what about you um they have to be tall how tall

01:49:52.760 at least above five ten five eleven and how tall are you five two okay what else um they have

01:50:02.340 to be understanding they like she said follow your lifestyle but willing to like both ways both of

01:50:11.480 you guys should be willing to adapt to each other's lifestyle lexi what about you um i'm the same way

01:50:20.420 with my height preferences and i'm also about five two um minimum height you said five ten right yeah

01:50:28.180 okay like better but you know taller would what taller would be better six feet yeah okay um but yeah i like

01:50:37.620 athletes i like someone who's fit um are you do you do any sports i did do softball softball

01:50:45.000 any current i just lift just lift okay anything else um honesty humor fun effort effort okay anything

01:50:55.980 else i don't think so plus what about you um i like people who are social funny has a job dress as well

01:51:04.720 tall um and i don't know just likes to try new things i guess any physical traits

01:51:11.700 um you said tall right yeah okay like fit you know moderately fit anything else um on top of my

01:51:21.620 head that's pretty much it okay chloe what about you um someone who has appreciation for the arts

01:51:26.860 whether that be music or dance acting that's important to me um someone who loves animals i don't trust

01:51:33.720 someone who doesn't like animals uh nor do i trust someone who animals don't like them

01:51:38.100 um but then i honestly prefer people who are closer to my height um so i'd say my ideal range is

01:51:46.260 anywhere from like five five to five eight um but uh my the honduran person i had dated they were about

01:51:53.340 five two so they were a bit shorter than me um and that was completely fine as well um but yeah someone

01:51:59.700 funny someone mature um who has good communication skills okay what about you yeah i think mental maturity

01:52:07.440 is like the most important thing for me and along or what comes with that maturity is um being able to

01:52:14.800 see like multiple perspectives like maybe you don't have my opinion but like you can see my side

01:52:20.920 uh i like them wait what do you mean by that what what do you mean well like so you're saying

01:52:28.160 let's say you're in a disagreement with your boyfriend or whatever uh and so he's like no this is the way

01:52:36.680 and you're like yeah but i still want you to see my side like i like i want him to acknowledge that he

01:52:44.040 or like recognize that i have like a different opinion and then like be okay with that and he can

01:52:49.180 have a different opinion do you know what i mean like but he like he's open to seeing multiple

01:52:54.040 perspectives of things and he's not closed-minded what if he he's like no this is the way like this is

01:53:01.220 the truth i disrespect your opinion i then i'm gonna he's a opinion disrespecter that's that's a

01:53:10.240 no-go no-go no i think that's hot no i think that's hot he's a professional opinion disrespecter

01:53:18.240 i feel like you should or at least in like women wait let her finish let her finish good i just feel

01:53:23.480 like you should be able to see multiple perspectives like your life view is not everyone's life view

01:53:28.380 and you need to be able to see other people's lives view but what if there is like a central truth

01:53:35.240 like what if there is a truth can you give me yeah should you well yeah should you see a serial

01:53:41.420 killer's life view no but no you should see like how they grew up and like maybe things that affected

01:53:50.540 them to be that way and try to give them help yeah but understanding understanding the the idea of

01:53:58.220 like um you know i i can rationalize why you made a decision or rationalize why you didn't make a

01:54:04.580 decision is different from agreeing or accepting those things i'm not saying you have to agree with

01:54:11.020 them i'm just saying that you should or accept them right i'm not saying you should accept them i'm just

01:54:15.260 saying that you should listen to them and not like cut them off um and just like understand that

01:54:22.460 other people have different views and that your way is just like not the highway you know what i mean

01:54:26.760 what if it is the right way like your way is obviously better than the way of a serial killer

01:54:31.180 right i mean i guess there are like general morals but i'm just saying more in terms of what we're

01:54:37.600 talking about a relationship so she just wants him to be understanding yeah i want him to be

01:54:41.460 understanding essentially yeah you had something on that no no i thought she was going to say something

01:54:46.980 different okay all right uh okay what about you um i would say honest empathetic um athletic or

01:54:57.820 leads at least an active lifestyle are you yeah i lift i do rock climbing i do jujitsu what belt are

01:55:05.820 you i just started so it's been like six months but i just like picking up back to hobbies and actually

01:55:10.740 ellen going back to you i don't know if we finished if you you had more in fact in your notes you said

01:55:15.200 uh you're open to many topics such as what you look for in a guy so maybe there's a bit more

01:55:20.680 as far as what you look for in a guy um i guess like i like humor did i mention that i like humor

01:55:26.360 i feel like okay like my dad's very funny i feel like so like i want a partner that's funny sure

01:55:32.680 anything um i like ambitious men like they strive for something and they're always working on

01:55:39.880 themselves and doesn't have to be like money or like career related it can be just you know

01:55:45.420 lifestyle or working on bettering like communication or anything like that all right anything else or

01:55:53.800 that's pretty much it or that's pretty much it anything on the physical front on the physical

01:55:58.820 front yeah high um ripped shredded not really i mean chubby chaser i like guys like fat guys i like

01:56:07.800 guys that um or i would prefer if like they like worked out because i like to you work out too

01:56:13.360 i i do yoga all right okay cool anything else for you um just i guess like the our moral values have

01:56:23.060 to align are you religious no okay and i wouldn't want my partner to be really religious either i just

01:56:30.040 don't think that works are you agnostic atheist um just atheist okay is your family religious at all

01:56:37.220 yeah they're religious what are they hindu hindu okay all right were you raised hindu or okay

01:56:44.560 do your parents have any objections to your uh atheism or um no i mean they want me to date you know

01:56:52.080 more or less within my race do you do you eat beef in front of them no i just i mean i respect what

01:56:57.840 they want if they say don't cook beef in my house i'm not gonna do that okay uh what are you looking

01:57:02.480 for um i would say honesty for sure um and someone who is like fit i guess or average like and

01:57:12.040 like goal oriented and i don't know i don't really do relationships so i don't really yeah and then

01:57:21.360 tiffany uh tiffany for me the most important thing is being smart and then being tolerant

01:57:28.580 you being tolerant like be like being tolerating of me because you're annoying sort of yeah they

01:57:38.780 have to tolerate your they have to be calm contact and they have to be smart there's nothing more i 0.99

01:57:44.840 hate more than dumb men just pisses me off okay a lot of dumb men at ucsb and providers they have to 0.99

01:57:52.820 and a provider okay uh i had a uh quick follow-up to this right i do also perhaps we have the same 0.99

01:57:59.660 one but right before i um there's a couple chats coming in here i'm gonna play one and then guys we

01:58:07.200 do have a bit of a delay on these but they'll come in and well met just a second paladins donated

01:58:12.240 200 paladins thank you man you like a man who tells you what to do and is never wrong hit me up

01:58:19.720 is this for tiffany she does unfortunately she does have a a boyfriend so um sorry law paladins

01:58:28.080 but um any other girls maybe i don't know thank you law paladins really good to see in the chat 1.00

01:58:33.580 uh andrew you had a follow-up was it what do they bring to the table no it was uh just to piggyback

01:58:39.700 on this actually before you asked that question i'm just going to ask what their what their core

01:58:43.700 values are so what your just very quickly what your core values are and then you can piggyback

01:58:48.620 with the question of what you bring to the table is this for the whole panel or yeah yeah just very

01:58:54.060 briefly what are your core values core values core values core values chair one um i would say

01:59:03.020 i think just

01:59:07.020 love is like the most important beautiful so beautiful i mean i think just being there for

01:59:17.520 somebody is most important i think intelligence like she said is also very important

01:59:21.920 so intelligence is a core value andrew just to help them out what would be an example of a core value

01:59:31.640 i actually uh i actually don't want to help out on this uh i just want to know the answer to what

01:59:36.680 they think i don't i don't i don't think people are confused as to what a core value is right so

01:59:42.700 uh chair two what's a what are your core values i think i agree with chair one like mainly love

01:59:49.520 okay chair three um like the core values of what i look for in a person like no no your core values

01:59:59.400 oh myself um i would say that i think religion is pretty important i think if you're kind of

02:00:07.700 i don't know but i think not pressuring into anything is really important to me

02:00:13.360 yeah that's all i can think of right now okay chair four what's what are your core values i think i

02:00:20.680 missed a little bit oh just what are your core values that's the question um i mean i i gift give

02:00:28.900 a lot she's a gift giver she gifts gives gifts gifts gifts okay gifts chair five what are your core

02:00:36.660 values um probably compassion um as well as i like to call myself a lifelong learner so that just

02:00:45.440 means every day making sure you go out there and you learn something new and you better yourself in

02:00:49.920 some way okay chair six core values um empathy i really look for like kindness um i always and then

02:00:59.760 like self-improvement it's not it's not what you're looking for sorry sorry my core values like

02:01:03.920 core values yeah empathy kindness um and then self-improvement just being like a good-natured

02:01:10.880 human being that's okay core values um they have to be on the same page no your core values oh mine

02:01:18.860 yeah okay i guess your core values um uh like kind yeah empathetic uh like i guess politically

02:01:32.880 like i care about women's rights i care about reproductive rights things like that okay next

02:01:40.480 core values um i'd say always trying to be better like never just giving up and there's something that

02:01:47.700 you know you can always work on okay core values positivity family life um christianity

02:01:58.520 and being self-aware i would like to point out before brian asked his next question that none of

02:02:05.600 you said duty none of you said anything that was duty related uh but anyway brian go ahead yeah sure

02:02:12.520 so uh you guys all listed kind of what you want men to bring to the table you guys had various answers

02:02:21.160 to that different answers uh what do you bring to the table go ahead i bring exactly what i expect them

02:02:28.980 to bring so passion commitment um just everything i would want i would bring as well do you want a guy

02:02:40.040 to pay for the first date no i don't think you need to i mean yeah all right uh cena what about you

02:02:48.680 i bring wait hold on just to be in your uh questionnaire you disagreed that women should go 50 50 on the 1.00

02:02:56.800 first date um yeah sorry so the man should pay on the first date no i i don't think they should go 50

02:03:04.040 50 50 i think it doesn't really matter doesn't matter whether she pays the full bill or he pays

02:03:10.160 the full bill so kind of i guess i could have put 50 50 on that one but yeah so you don't you're fine

02:03:18.020 with you're fine with it being 50 50 then sure you just don't think it doesn't matter to be 50 50 okay

02:03:25.900 all right cena um what do you bring to the table the fact that i'll be a housewife for them 0.98

02:03:32.180 because if it's a provider man like i don't think this might be controversial like i don't think

02:03:38.760 woman if you're not providing for your men you can't bring much to the table so like if i'm willing 0.84

02:03:45.600 to be a housewife for them i'm willing to cook and clean for them while they work i think that's enough 0.54

02:03:50.800 okay hold on i'm gonna let you and well met lol paladin's donated two hundred dollars and two cents

02:03:58.180 she has a boyfriend doesn't bother me just send me a whisper i'm playing on the night slayer server

02:04:05.340 he doesn't need to know if we clear wailing caverns together

02:04:08.620 by the way guys the whatever guild andrew needs to freaking create his mage uh we are playing there's

02:04:17.120 the whatever guild we're playing on night slayer for the anniversary world of warcraft classic realms

02:04:23.040 we're on horde side join the discord discord.gg slash whatever if you want to join the uh the

02:04:28.740 guild is that hardcore though brian no not hardcore just uh regular regular pvp pvp okay yeah not hardcore

02:04:36.060 um where were we uh what do you bring to the table um loyalty for sure i also i don't want to be in a

02:04:47.980 marriage where i solely depend on my husband because i feel like that gives him a lot of

02:04:54.420 things like that he can hold over my head so i definitely want to be able to be financially

02:04:59.960 independent and take care of myself and my kids and give them the life i want for us aside from my

02:05:06.640 husband's salary why do you assume that he would hold things above your head just if like if i don't

02:05:13.240 have anything and i solely rely on him for everything i have to ask him can i get this can i get that

02:05:22.080 um i feel like also like with prenups or anything like that if i probably wouldn't divorce a man i

02:05:32.940 didn't want to be with if i knew i would be homeless or i wouldn't be in that great of a state after

02:05:39.260 so you wouldn't sign a prenuptial agreement

02:05:41.780 um i don't i think i would because i would have my own money so it doesn't matter i mean

02:05:51.640 if you're do you plan on having children at some point yes and it's probably going to be optimal for

02:05:57.680 you to stay at home with them right i don't think so you're going to outsource it what do you mean

02:06:04.340 i'm going to outsource you're going to outsource your children's raising being raised by other people 1.00

02:06:08.640 or would you rather raise them i'm definitely going to be a big influence in my children's life

02:06:14.820 that's also part of why i want to go to the pa program for the lifestyle balance so i'm definitely

02:06:22.300 going to feel like i can also with the help of my partner my partner and i should both be able to

02:06:28.800 raise our kids yeah but i mean for just talking about what's optimal let's say man he has enough

02:06:34.740 money so that you can stay at home with the kids it would be optimal for you as the mother to stay 0.99

02:06:40.720 home with the kids rather than outsourcing their raising to somebody who's not their mother right 0.99

02:06:45.120 i don't think i would need to rely on someone else that's not their mom i think like of course you might

02:06:53.040 need day care and nanny well that's outsourcing right okay but i would probably go with one of

02:07:00.620 my family members and i that's still outsourcing right how many kids do you want probably just like

02:07:06.600 two two kids okay um all right can i ask something yeah is are you saying it's not possible to have a

02:07:14.480 career in kids that's like no of course not it's possible talking about what's optimal you think that

02:07:20.640 it's a good idea to outsource the raising of your children to other people it's not a good idea

02:07:24.120 i'm sorry i mean men do it all the time so i don't really see what your point what do you mean what do

02:07:28.360 you mean men do it all the time can men not have a career and raise kids no no so that's the that's

02:07:33.540 the optimal portion right is that man has a career right so last i checked in case you don't know this

02:07:39.340 but men can't breastfeed for instance women can do that it's the healthiest way to raise a child on 1.00

02:07:44.300 breast milk not with formula we have all the scientific data in planet earth at this point to prove that so

02:07:49.580 at least within the first year of the child's life the mom probably should be at home with the child 0.99

02:07:53.840 if that is the case then the father probably is going to be working right

02:07:57.300 yes but i mean yeah i've been doing it for centuries can you not breast like breast pump and give the 0.98

02:08:03.560 milk out yeah sometimes sometimes women have all sorts of different troubles with this they can't 1.00

02:08:07.760 produce enough milk they can't pump enough milk they can't there's all sorts of things which come up

02:08:12.360 when it comes to breastfeeding so i mean optimally the best thing to do is to let the baby latch on

02:08:16.960 and drink right that's the that's how that's how we've been doing this for several thousand years

02:08:21.940 now it works pretty good and they get very healthy uh because they get the correct nutrition from their

02:08:27.400 mom and by the way a baby's entire immune system is essentially formed uh off of those nutrients so

02:08:34.200 yeah it's it's pretty good for the children if that's your view on it then what well i mean what's

02:08:41.180 controversial about that view a baby's entire they're literally like this will affect their

02:08:47.640 iq it'll affect their development it affects everything it affects their immune system if you

02:08:52.920 give a child who's developing poor nourishment you're setting them up for failure you'll set

02:08:57.460 them up to be lower iq have behavioral issues have all sorts of problems of course it's optimal for

02:09:01.720 their mom to be there with them giving them affection and feeding them right okay but where's the

02:09:06.320 dad at if he's the dad is working to enable the fact that the mom can do that but it takes it takes

02:09:12.560 two to take to take a kid right so it should take two to raise that kid and if you need to reach out

02:09:18.480 and if like if she wants to work because she doesn't want to depend on her husband then her getting 1.00

02:09:25.120 care for her child shouldn't be a problem at all well it's that's not what we're talking about though

02:09:31.240 you're just you're just switching the issue talking about what's optimal not what is possible there's

02:09:36.360 all sorts of arrangements which are possible you could technically uh raise a kid in the playboy

02:09:41.200 mansion but do you think that that's going to be good for the kid no of course not no of course not

02:09:45.520 right so it's not optimal so the thing is is like if we're talking about what's optimal not what's

02:09:49.760 possible how are you going to say what's best for a kid is if mommy can stay at home with baby 0.88

02:09:54.940 and feed baby breast milk and take care and nurture baby obviously that that's optimal but can you give me 0.67

02:10:01.180 a single scenario where where there's a bet where there's actually optimal than that so no i'm not

02:10:05.280 saying more optimal but what if that's not a possibility so my son had a tongue tie and that's

02:10:10.540 a medical problem as a tongue tie it's a medical problem as to why he couldn't latch on it is

02:10:16.100 underneath your tongue it's the thing that is like right there it's too long so you have to get it cut

02:10:22.260 you have to go through a procedure to be able to latch on to your mother okay so there are reasons and

02:10:30.380 there's you know it's not just yeah breast milk is best well i don't i don't even understand in

02:10:35.400 that context didn't you just get the procedure and then breastfeed the kid i mean yeah you could

02:10:39.880 but do you want to cut your child's tongue what's the problem what do you mean is cutting your child's

02:10:44.940 tongue optimal but oh well let's assume for a second that in this one case where almost nobody has

02:10:49.980 this problem sorry you go okay we'll make yes i had this problem hang on hang on let me make a case

02:10:55.420 and i'll let you respond i promise right uh let's say in this one case you had to make alternative

02:11:00.940 arrangements or you had to pump or something like this it was less than optimal uh pointing at the

02:11:05.420 outlier and saying that that's a standard we should promote seems silly to me yeah i'm sure that there's

02:11:10.040 going to be individual cases of health issues with children where you're going to have to make

02:11:13.340 less than optimal decisions because you're in a less than optimal situation but for the vast vast vast

02:11:18.060 majority of all of humanity who exists right this second clearly a woman staying at home with her

02:11:23.880 children is optimal in comparison to outsourcing their children that that that seems obvious right

02:11:29.900 no it doesn't it doesn't because you can't just say that everything like that it's up like the world

02:11:38.400 is ridiculous right now like it's not like it was back in the day it's not it that's not how things go

02:11:45.620 anymore it because bill yeah it's not how it goes if you say well i just demand that i go work and 0.78

02:11:51.520 outsource my child care then yeah but the truth is is that there's tens of thousands hundreds of

02:11:57.200 thousands and millions of families all over uh all over the world all over the united states all over

02:12:02.740 south america all over north all over the place who have dad go to work for very little money and still

02:12:09.520 because they do all sorts of budget cuts in their homes maybe they only have one vehicle

02:12:14.080 right it's tough but they make sure that mom can stay at home with kids because well they're going to 0.86

02:12:19.360 get the best nutrition possible and they're going to have their mom what could possibly be more

02:12:22.920 important to a baby than having their mom so let me ask does that change how the child turns out

02:12:28.560 oh yeah significantly changes so then how does dad how does dad

02:12:34.700 can i add something so here's the examples here's the examples yes uh not only does it affect their immune

02:12:43.960 system it affects their iq it affects their physiology it affects their height it affects

02:12:48.620 their weight it affects long term uh problems inside of a human being's health it also affects

02:12:55.620 behavior it affects behavior because you have detachment problems you have all sorts of issues

02:13:00.060 that come uh with the feeling of abandonment when child care is outsourced away from the mom

02:13:04.940 and this is one of the most psychologically studied phenomenon on planet earth along with the

02:13:10.760 nutritional values and we see the results of mass inflammation in children adhd at all time

02:13:17.180 highs depression all of these different things much of this has been linked to the idea of the

02:13:22.080 plastics that are inside of food the lack of nourishment lack of breastfeeding and formula feeding

02:13:27.100 um so i would say i would agree maybe in the first year a child is born that a mother could take

02:13:37.240 time off to really really tend to her child but my mom has worked a full-time job since forever 1.00

02:13:46.220 and i mean i are you i feel like i turned out pretty good i got my yeah but but here's the thing

02:13:54.560 nobody's disputing that you can't have good results by doing things in a less than optimal way

02:14:00.840 nobody's disputing that like for instance i suppose that i could start a bonfire with a

02:14:06.880 hand grenade right or i can start it with a match i would just say that starting it with the match

02:14:12.100 would be more optimal than starting it with a hand grenade so the idea here hang on the idea here

02:14:17.120 is just to say right that yes you can have you can have good results and good children and people who

02:14:23.740 are even even with that but i'm just saying that if we look at the stats and the data we can clearly

02:14:29.940 see that most people have less than good results and who knows how you would have turned out had

02:14:35.720 mommy stayed home with you the entire time could be vastly different can i say something did you do

02:14:41.900 everything the optimal way and did your parents do everything the optimal way if you're putting the

02:14:45.700 standard on everyone else let's say for a second they didn't do you understand that when you make

02:14:51.200 an argument a two-quo fallacy which what you're doing right now what about you

02:14:55.300 wouldn't matter let's say for a second my parents did the opposite they were both feminazis and they 0.99

02:15:00.640 ran around with blue hair right they hated their children they thought i was complete scum and they 0.99

02:15:05.880 completely malnourished me what in the world would that have to do with what was optimal or what 0.99

02:15:09.980 wasn't i'm just saying that you're holding everyone to this ridiculous standard of every single

02:15:14.720 thing not holding anybody to any standard all i said was what is optimal what is not looking for

02:15:19.720 an argument for why i'm wrong what standard have i held you to you guys agree that it's optimal

02:15:25.920 hang on let me answer the question okay ideally if u.s gave longer maternity leave and we were able to 1.00

02:15:33.040 be with our children for that full one year i guess i would say it's optimal but many families cannot

02:15:37.800 survive on one person's salary especially with the economy so right now it's not yeah well then you need

02:15:43.060 to explain why it is that it's the uh least rich demographic the poorest people have the most amount of

02:15:47.840 children what if what if people have the most amount of children also right have mom stay home while dad 1.00

02:15:53.820 works right they're underneath that income threshold most of the time and interestingly enough what

02:15:59.740 happens is the opposite when you have middle class they try to do tend to do what's called family

02:16:03.860 planning right and so they want to have kind of a posher lifestyle and oftentimes they do that at the

02:16:08.960 expense of the children

02:16:09.840 i have a question i mean the demographic as most kids is poor poor people though right

02:16:17.920 how long do you think then a woman should optimally stay home with their child what age is it okay for 1.00

02:16:28.400 them to then resume their work i think that they should stay home with them until they're nearing

02:16:33.840 adulthood but we send kids to school for the whole day when they're in kindergarten do you guys want

02:16:39.700 to work i think they hang on i think i think they should be homeschooled okay that was and i think

02:16:44.480 instead of using our best i think that instead of using our breast or best and brightest to go into

02:16:50.040 office buildings all the time right and uh you know go work as uh you know sandwich makers and work

02:16:56.340 in the service industry which is where we send them all the time right most of them aren't aren't being

02:17:00.580 the doctors and lawyers they're mostly working as waitresses and in the service industry i think

02:17:04.760 instead of wasting women there we should take our best and brightest and have them raising the next 0.98

02:17:08.600 generation of the best and brightest that's what i think i i say that because i i actually was

02:17:13.220 homeschooled um my entire life essentially um but there's definite bad things to homeschooling as

02:17:22.860 well um you don't get the social connect you need between people of your own age so that

02:17:29.140 hinders you completely no completely opposite in fact the public school system because of the way

02:17:34.620 that it's set up if you homeschool all of the extracurricular activities which your property taxes

02:17:39.600 go to pay for you can enroll your children in all of them without ever sending them to that school

02:17:44.120 so if you want them to be on the wrestling team the football team the volleyball team with the

02:17:47.700 cheerleading squad or any of these different things guess what you can just send them right

02:17:51.740 along because your tax dollars pay for all that the school can't tell you anything different if

02:17:56.620 you're inside the curriculum so that's completely wrong the socialization aspect of it has been

02:18:01.340 well studied they're not antisocial they graduate much earlier than children outside the homeschool

02:18:06.300 curriculum they do better long term and most longitudinal studies than people go to public

02:18:11.060 school but i was homeschooled yes and that was not the case where i lived not to mention i was not

02:18:19.840 homeschooled by my parents i was homeschooled by a computer which is what a lot of homeschoolers are doing

02:18:24.640 nowadays they get they sit in front of their computers their family what do you think you do

02:18:28.160 in a public school okay but that raises the same point then do you not feel more neglect if you're

02:18:34.400 being kept at home away from everyone else and your family is then also not being kept away from

02:18:38.860 anyone else these are these are this is full of uh red herrings and kind of false anecdotes

02:18:43.680 how are you being kept away from everybody else because you don't have to go to a peewee prison 0.99

02:18:50.260 where you're locked in a room for eight hours a day right and forced to learn shit you don't care 0.96

02:18:56.120 about let's assume that seems like it's completely suboptimal in fact let's assume you know why that 0.96

02:19:00.840 exists that system exists for the because working parents need babysitters that's why school lasts 0.98

02:19:06.860 eight hours even though every single study we look at shows that young children do not do well

02:19:11.300 when you go past somewhere around three to four hours of daily education they don't do well

02:19:16.040 but but we make the work the uh the day that long so that parents can go and work and be

02:19:21.780 cogs in the economy does that sound like it's a good deal doesn't sound like a good deal to me

02:19:25.800 speaking from my own personal upbringing and experience as someone who was homeschooled my

02:19:32.120 entire life when you're growing up and you see the quote unquote let's say a normal childhood you see

02:19:39.040 kids going off to school hanging out with their school friends participating on these clubs that are in

02:19:43.400 school doing all this when you don't get that as a child and you were not allowed to get that

02:19:48.300 as a child in that normal experience you feel a certain way about it almost anyone i know who

02:19:54.340 is also homeschooled also has felt that certain way about and it takes a little bit to get over that

02:19:58.320 because you're jealous for a while of people who got to do that what what i'm sorry didn't you say

02:20:05.200 that you graduated at 14 and went to college yeah i guarantee you that most of these public school kids

02:20:10.980 who had to stay in the peewee prison until they were 18 and their senior year in high school they

02:20:15.640 were taking nothing but electives because they just needed a warm seat so the school got federal

02:20:20.280 funding would vastly have preferred to have graduated at 14 years old and gone on with their life and

02:20:26.140 every day i wish i had stayed behind and gotten to live a normal what was the advantage of staying

02:20:32.040 behind why couldn't you live a normal life at 14 after you graduated because being a 14 year old in

02:20:36.900 a class with a bunch of 20 something year olds you're not going to make many friends you weren't

02:20:41.600 going to what classes were you going to with 20 something year olds at 14 college classes you

02:20:47.740 what you weren't enrolled in college going to college at 14 that's ridiculous what did i do in

02:20:53.180 between the years i graduated i have no idea but you weren't going to college and and hanging out

02:20:58.580 in rooms with 20 year olds in college room that's what happens show me a single picture of this so

02:21:04.160 show me show me any any anything backing up that at 14 years old you were going to college rooms with 0.99

02:21:11.120 20 year olds and learning advanced calculus are ridiculous the most ridiculous thing you've said 0.97

02:21:15.560 all night when kids graduate early are they then expected to just sit there and wait until they are 0.93

02:21:21.860 of the normal college age to then attend college no the learning doesn't doesn't end just because

02:21:27.780 you graduated that is also absurd you can take i didn't say that college you can you can take what

02:21:33.060 are called college pre-prep classes you can go to trade schools you can do all sorts of different

02:21:37.380 things with your education college preparatory why why is the expectation that you sit there like a 0.99

02:21:42.720 drooling idiot looking at the wall why can't you okay well you're saying why can't you pursue art 0.97

02:21:46.960 why can't you pursue cooking in other interests hang on let me ask a question you can answer 1.00

02:21:51.360 why can't you pursue all of these things that you want to pursue exactly because i want to get if

02:21:57.500 i graduate early and my goal is to graduate with a degree you know then in my head how it was when i

02:22:06.820 was graduating and went off to college if i don't go straight into college i have now wasted my extra

02:22:14.180 years of graduating early why because i want college isn't for everyone out of the way yeah

02:22:21.260 first of all college isn't for right it's not and it's not and it's not even a boon for most people

02:22:25.460 go through it most people go through it they end up with a lot of debt and they only make a slight

02:22:30.260 a slight amount more of money and that's after years of still being at an entry level job that's one so

02:22:36.600 the second thing is is having your your general schooling general education behind you at 13 14 years

02:22:41.920 old and you're on par with your 18 year old peers gives you every advantage to start doing other

02:22:46.720 pursuits earlier be it music be it trade schools be it cooking pursuits hobbies whatever it is that

02:22:52.560 you want to do this idea that you have to be perpetually schooled is nonsense it's nonsense most

02:22:58.020 people run on passion and when they work around things that they're passionate about they tend to

02:23:02.920 make the most amount of money and have the highest in the happiness indexes so it's like why do we have

02:23:07.340 to continuously push down everybody's throat that they need to get a degree in something worthless

02:23:12.880 you know how many political science degrees have sat here and they don't know anything about

02:23:17.200 about politics how many women with different degrees have sat here and and they have a degree 1.00

02:23:22.020 in psychology don't know anything about psychology this is not college is not about rewarding the

02:23:27.180 best and brightest if it was not everybody could go

02:23:30.420 could I ask a question did you go to um like public school private school were you homeschooled

02:23:39.420 uh it was a mix I didn't like school school's not for smart people school's not where smart people 0.93

02:23:46.360 go school is where smart people leave that's what smart people do they get the fuck away as fast as

02:23:51.220 they can so that they can go pursue things that are it's like I remember watching a video the guy owns 0.86

02:23:56.760 virgin okay you know you might have heard of virgin virgin travel virgin uh mobile all of this

02:24:03.000 and I remember him sitting down a room full of suits who were multi-millionaires and he laughed at

02:24:07.280 him because they all went through their entire life getting degrees and playing the stock market

02:24:10.780 and this and that he said I'm the only billionaire in the room and I'm a ninth grade dropout

02:24:13.820 the thing is is like no I don't think that uh education has to do with a school room I think

02:24:19.780 that you need to teach kids how to read write do arithmetic basic english uh right now your graduation

02:24:24.940 rates at 12th grade they're they're walking out they can't read at a sixth grade level

02:24:29.740 who's this helpful to does society seem like it's smarter than it was when people only had an eighth

02:24:35.120 grade education because it doesn't seem like that to me

02:24:37.300 I'm gonna let a couple chats come through because there's a bit of a backlog here sorry for the delay

02:24:45.480 on some of these guys metro matt we got two of yours coming in the cut we I just wanted to allow

02:24:50.560 the conversation to play out so gonna let uh there's about 10 chats coming through so

02:24:54.980 metro matt donated 200 this panel's last two brain cells are fighting for third place right now

02:25:05.100 have a burrito tonight brian that is for the discord game we're playing uh metro matt thank

02:25:12.000 you for the tts man do appreciate it no burritos for me tonight I already had one earlier today so

02:25:16.600 uh we will I'll have something else you know but thank you metro matt shout out to the discord

02:25:21.200 hope you guys are enjoying uh are you playing world of warcraft is that what it is

02:25:25.460 metro matt donated 200 ladies would you date a man that subbed to enough girl

02:25:33.460 when are we going to start blaming the men that support of girls andrew has been stewing

02:25:39.460 shout out discord fam that did come in uh you know a while ago but uh ladies would you date a man 1.00

02:25:46.700 that subbed to an only fans girl uh yes or no going around the table really quick please

02:25:53.020 sure yeah yeah okay no you wouldn't have an issue no what's the issue he's he's dating you but he's 0.52

02:26:01.180 like jerking off at the same time he's he's just saying while you're dating he just said if he did 0.57

02:26:08.220 no would you date a man that subbed to an OF girl so I assume the question here is not at the same time 0.98

02:26:13.660 uh going into the relationship he would continue subbing to an OF girl I think that's my sense of 0.99

02:26:20.360 the question well you're an OF girl so I think he's asking if he did in the past yeah that's what

02:26:26.780 I thought it was right yeah oh that subbed to an I don't think that's the question I thought it was

02:26:34.180 because when you say subs because subs is like a past subbed a man that's subbed in the past

02:26:41.000 yeah couldn't subs subs to be current tense is that the right word that subs to that would be

02:26:48.000 current subs yeah subs to not subbed to has subbed he's subbed data man that data man that

02:26:57.440 subbed to an OF girl unless unless I think that's current unless he's saying he's subbed to them during

02:27:04.960 your relationship just answer both I feel like if you just the operative word that is very important

02:27:10.560 here that subbed which current yeah right current tense that subbed prior there was no prior he didn't 0.94

02:27:19.360 say prior get metro map bro can you clarify what the fuck dude uh okay here I'm just gonna take it my 0.94

02:27:27.800 way then he's currently subbed to an OF girl and you're dating him is it an issue go ahead 0.99

02:27:33.800 no I would not date him okay pause what about you no issue okay Chloe no no is it that it is an issue

02:27:42.800 or hello okay skip yes yes issue okay all right Tiffany no I would not date Tiffany it's an issue

02:27:50.580 okay all right we have bender the offender uh including brian and andrew hypothetical question

02:27:57.000 would you support a bill that if a woman chooses to keep the right to an abortion she would have to 0.98

02:28:01.400 be signed up for a draft civil service okay dumbest question ever wait um would you support a bill that 0.98

02:28:09.960 if a woman chooses to keep the right to an abortion 0.99

02:28:11.720 oh uh okay sure um so you guys for in perpetuity get to keep the right to an abortion but you would

02:28:21.780 have to also be subject to military conscription do you make that trade-off how about this wait first

02:28:26.980 off who's pro-life just show your raise of hands pro-life you're in the middle who's pro-choice

02:28:32.820 raise your hands aren't you catholic yeah but I mean I feel like if it's a right in their circumstances

02:28:39.080 okay um so

02:28:43.320 sounds like what what circumstances do that does the catholic church support

02:28:49.500 I'm not necessarily representing the catholic church but just

02:28:54.820 but I mean you're part of the catholic church right so uh incest essay essentially okay life

02:29:00.740 doesn't support that okay okay so the question is uh would you support a bill that uh if a woman 1.00

02:29:08.760 chooses to she she can abortion rights are protected but for the individual but they have

02:29:15.100 to sign up for the draft they have to be eligible for the draft or civil service in favor um I think

02:29:23.140 that's okay okay no not in favor so you give up the abortion rights okay I don't think I would

02:29:28.980 support that bill so you give up the abortion rights okay um same give up the abortion rights okay

02:29:36.760 I it wouldn't personally ever apply to me but like I support other people having abortions I would

02:29:47.880 never have one sure um I think would mentally affect me too much um but I don't know I also don't see

02:29:56.900 the correlation between the two how they would make just hypothetical um but so if if they signed it

02:30:05.620 at all like if they signed the bill at all I gotta keep things moving what about you Ellen I don't

02:30:10.140 have a comment on that what do you mean like I don't I feel like I need to think about it a little

02:30:15.480 bit more like I don't really want to express my opinion currently uh okay uh what about you

02:30:22.900 yes I would support that yes okay no I wouldn't support it all right and I do have actually kind

02:30:29.960 of a follow-up question on that um would you rather have a democracy or access to abortions 0.99

02:30:36.440 I don't have a answer for that one I you gotta pick you have to pick one I don't know I would need

02:30:47.200 more detail can you give me more detail democracy yeah democracy is gone and you can have abortions 0.91

02:30:53.680 or you can have abortions or you can't have abortions but you have democracy I think you

02:30:59.840 can have abortions I don't know well Andrew would this be like a fair scenario so you can still have 0.91

02:31:05.700 an abortions but you have like a uh you have a a Trump monarchy and then like Trump becomes like

02:31:13.580 god king and then all his like his firstborn son then becomes president and then like it's just uh

02:31:22.580 what's the progenit what's that term for no it'd be but but there's a specific term for like

02:31:29.400 progenit progenitur

02:31:31.680 progenitur I don't fucking know okay whatever it goes from father to son goes from father to son okay 0.94

02:31:40.360 so it's like Trump for obviously I wouldn't want that so you don't like baron you're not like a 0.98

02:31:46.900 baron stan a karen baron baron trump no no no okay what do you pick same as her

02:31:54.080 so what is your answer um okay do you pick democracy or do you pick democracy abortion

02:32:04.580 democracy okay all right whatever they got in Canada I don't know what they have in Canada

02:32:10.340 annex Canada I think I'm a little lost on the question but I think I'd pick democracy okay pause

02:32:17.180 democracy or abortions um democracy okay Chloe probably abortions okay why I just you're like 0.98

02:32:28.860 anarchist I feel like you're like fuck democracy the democracy we have anyway is like hardly even 0.98

02:32:34.780 so what do you mean by that I don't have the U.S. for me has not painted a good picture of what 0.99

02:32:40.480 democracy is um so given that I don't like this democracy that we're in not that I'm like

02:32:49.580 not if if Kamala had just won would you would your answer be different no okay you'd still be like 0.99

02:32:57.860 fuck I just don't like the U.S. wait what you just prefer the South Korean democracy I just don't 0.99

02:33:07.140 like the U.S. why I never have I've lived abroad before and why don't you like the U.S. the people 1.00

02:33:15.940 here and the culture here and the government here South Korea is an American port I mean they literally

02:33:24.280 imported all of the values of America they have the same democracy they have the same types of

02:33:28.540 constitutional rights like it's basically an American port it's a lot more conservative though

02:33:34.060 the cultural the culture is different though it's very different yes yeah um what about America do you

02:33:42.880 dislike I just don't like it all in all the way the government does things like what here the police

02:33:51.440 forces not that I don't like the police I have plenty of friends who are police men and police

02:33:58.680 women do you think we should defund the police not defund it's just like better training needs to 1.00

02:34:03.740 happen okay what are your objections though when it comes to the police just they're not trained well

02:34:08.620 systematic racism systematic racism oh yeah that's not a problem with South Korean police at all

02:34:14.500 that's like they're like known for it just like Japanese police are known for literally known for

02:34:23.120 it's one of the most common things that Asian police forces are known for is being the most racist on

02:34:27.580 planet earth and when I see that with my own eyes then I'll have a different opinion on that but I

02:34:33.440 have seen countless of my friends shot by police officers you've seen wait hold on do you know

02:34:38.060 you haven't you're full of it you haven't seen countless of your friends shot by cops you've

02:34:42.300 seen you've seen with your own eyes you've been hanging like what do you mean see I have seen a

02:34:48.520 couple of my friends get shot with my own eyes and then I've seen I know you haven't my friends who

02:34:54.100 okay I'll tell you what I'll tell you what I've got a $500 right now if you could give the scenario of

02:35:00.240 where you can prove that you're you were somewhere where you physically watched your friend get shot by

02:35:05.480 cops Brian pulls it up I'll give you $500 right now why would there be a video of it well you know

02:35:11.820 it's pretty high profile when somebody gets shot by the not in the area that some people live in yeah

02:35:17.200 you know even in predominantly black areas it's still actually rare that black men get shot by

02:35:23.140 police very rare they have body cams to the police and a lot of wait so you were hanging out

02:35:29.160 like when you say you've seen because some people might use the word seen like I knew somebody

02:35:35.060 and they were shot but I didn't see it you saw it with your own eyes you were there with them I

02:35:40.400 have seen probably two people with my own eyes get shot but then I have seen in passing as in like

02:35:46.320 heard from everyone seen it so you've seen you haven't you've seen you haven't seen anybody get

02:35:52.340 shot but at least two not just one you had to go with the two so now it's like there's one really

02:35:58.520 rare event that almost nobody ever witnesses you just happen to see it twice with your own eyes it's

02:36:03.980 like just stop are you counting it's listen you're embarrassing yourself literally it might be rare

02:36:08.600 for you where where are you it's rare for everybody the the mean streets of santa monica jennings

02:36:15.300 missouri jennings missouri i'm not familiar with jennings missouri wait but so um you and are you

02:36:22.540 counting taser or are you saying uh no like shot at yes shot at shot were they hit one of them was

02:36:30.520 shot at shot at yes with a gun yes huh i don't know how it goes maybe missouri i don't know missouri

02:36:39.260 is kind of crazy not gonna lie maybe it's true andrew it is missouri after all

02:36:43.840 you were there did you get shot too no you didn't get shot no was it the man who got shot

02:36:52.140 the man was it were you with a man or who was who got shot the man i was in a group of friends

02:36:58.300 and one of the guys got shot was he white or black black or asian or latino black polynesian

02:37:06.580 or indigenous or native american extra ones he was black yes and but you said two shootings 0.95

02:37:12.680 was the other guy also black yes this was the same day this is a very racist oh 0.56

02:37:20.300 um okay did they make it are they okay or um one of them had to get treated like i said one of them

02:37:29.420 actually got hit one of them was not hit but they were shot at were they did he run away or what

02:37:34.380 happened the other guy who made it who didn't get shot but got shot the guy who got shot at yeah

02:37:39.740 is he okay it wasn't i don't think that one was meant to hit them it was like a warning shot

02:37:45.560 i don't know what i'd call it to be honest are you sure it was a police officer not like gang

02:37:51.540 banging no i'm very sure it was a police officer outfit police officer what what was the crime that

02:37:57.020 the two men were like accused of or alleged to have committed because usually cops don't like just

02:38:02.900 start blasting like for no reason did they did wait question did they have guns on them no

02:38:08.540 we were all roughhousing you were roughhousing roughhousing how old were you guys when this

02:38:17.660 happened 13 the cops were shooting at 13 year olds we were 13 ish yeah and so the cops

02:38:24.340 drew guns on cop singular singular cop like a mall cop or like a cop cop we were we were in

02:38:33.480 this area there's this like almost abandoned parking lot next to where i lived and we'd all

02:38:37.900 we'd all hang out there um and we just like we all did fighting sports so we would legitimately be

02:38:45.260 fighting each other it's like it was like fight club kind of we even as a child we used to have

02:38:51.320 rock fights and we just get rocks and swing them at each other normally wait so okay cop pulls up

02:38:56.300 he's like pulls out the blicky and just starts blasting it's not like they started the last

02:39:02.720 starts blasting shot at them shot yeah it wasn't like the crime they were being accused like what

02:39:09.720 and violence mind you can we can we just point a couple of uh of stats out here for jennings missouri

02:39:15.780 that the entirety of the population of jennings missouri is 12 895 people it's extremely tiny

02:39:22.680 yeah yeah and do you know if you if you had to take a guess how many police shootings would you

02:39:28.940 say that there were last year in jennings missouri i have not lived in missouri since i was a child

02:39:34.220 so okay what year did this happen so i can look up the uh the stats and how many police shootings

02:39:38.860 this happened it wasn't reported and andrew it wasn't reported no if an officer discharged a

02:39:45.200 weapon and somebody was it was it was a corrupt police station the corrupt cops

02:39:52.620 went out and just started willy-nilly discharging their weapon at people at 13 year olds at the

02:39:57.100 time they were blasting at the 13 year olds not the wording i used but 0.87

02:40:01.240 in like a this is the most ridiculous thing i've ever heard in my life 0.78

02:40:09.000 that's just completely ridiculous are you sure like they didn't just shut their car door loudly 0.94

02:40:13.180 and you guys thought it sounded like gunshots we know what gunshots sounded like yeah did did you carry 0.94

02:40:19.700 back when you were 13 or i used to go shooting with my family

02:40:24.800 what so the gun just pulled the the cop pulls up to a bunch of 13 year olds in their fight club

02:40:32.700 and just starts blasting was he blasting like was he trying to hit someone specific or he was just 0.99

02:40:40.380 like kind of like fuck it if they die they die i'm not them so i wouldn't personally know what 0.99

02:40:47.340 was going through their head what do you mean them i say them when i refer to anyone like they them 1.00

02:40:52.200 are you talking they them no no no now do am i to assume that this 13 year old went to the hospital

02:40:57.440 at least to the hospital well one of them missed yeah one of them was not actually hit okay which one

02:41:05.060 was it was it the 13 year old they got like grazed in the arm it wasn't a serious serious did they go

02:41:11.020 to the hospital they went to the doctors yes like they went to the hospital so the by law if there's

02:41:17.200 a shooting of this type uh the hospitals have to immediately report it to the police department

02:41:22.800 and so we would have a record if you give me the year i can actually source it and find out if there

02:41:28.040 was any 13 year olds who were shot that year because the hospital reported it to the police that

02:41:33.700 never anything ever happened out of wait i got to read this really quick before it falls off

02:41:38.440 lol paladin says bro chicks are never happy 80 of infinity still infinity you could give them like 0.98

02:41:43.700 chris hemsworth and it wouldn't be enough for any woman though for those of you women who said

02:41:48.200 80 not acceptable although we had some pretty open-minded women here um so do we want to continue 0.99

02:41:53.960 with the the inquiry continue i want to continue about the inquiry to know this the cop shooting inquiry

02:41:59.540 so yeah so so this 13 year old he was grazed he went to the hospital and you're saying that the

02:42:04.840 hospital never reported it to the police department he went to a doctor was it a vet no like one of

02:42:13.500 those yeah a doctor don't also have to report a gunshot related injury to the police by law you know

02:42:20.360 those like shifty places that aren't really legal doctors but they know how to do some stuff like it's a

02:42:26.240 you took him to a veterinarian did you yeah she she it was like a vet doctor who like you took him to a

02:42:31.500 veterinarian like breaking that it was like in a casino right like you get popped right holy gets

02:42:36.780 popped and you see you take him over to the veterinarian and the veterinarian removes the

02:42:40.720 bullets and shows him up and then away he goes like it was like that no like those people who are

02:42:45.180 operating out of a weird building who don't actually have a license to be doing what they're doing

02:42:50.000 some meth heads i mean i don't know what they are but yeah i know exactly what you're talking about

02:42:55.580 i've often seen unlicensed doctor buildings where you can go in and have bullet holes removed from

02:43:01.900 you said nobody ever in the history of uh well all of my lifetime anyway uh it's just by the way if

02:43:08.480 i'm wrong quick show of hands how many of you have ever gone and visited one of these shifty

02:43:13.940 unlicensed doctors whose job is to remove bullet wounds from people you know what i of hands show of

02:43:20.880 hands anybody i actually take her word for it i've been to jennings missouri and it's

02:43:25.560 it's rough out there in jennings okay andrew let's not diminut let's not downplay

02:43:34.780 the mean streets of jennings because you might catch a beef you're you're not you're in michigan

02:43:40.120 andrew you might catch a beef in one of these gangbangers in jennings missouri they they don't 0.96

02:43:45.040 fuck around like you're disrespecting uh the j boys wait uh the jennings boys you've the jennings 0.98

02:43:52.860 boys the jen not andrew the jennings boys like that's the gang that is that the what's the name 0.99

02:43:58.340 of the gang from jennings it's the the the jennings the jennings boys and then also the

02:44:05.260 jen uh never mind okay um

02:44:10.480 you know what though maybe maybe you're right i knew a chick once she knew a guy who was walking

02:44:22.420 through or she knew a girl who was walking through a park and this chick was trained in mma and she 1.00

02:44:27.460 was attacked by a couple of muggers and she didn't just break one of their legs she broke all of their

02:44:32.400 legs she broke all of these muggers legs with her bare hands the most impressive thing i'd ever 1.00

02:44:36.500 heard of i remember that story i was the the breaking leg story that was a good one uh okay

02:44:43.600 we have joe murphy here bna let's cook a roast each lady defined feminism from a western perspective 1.00

02:44:49.220 and an eastern person that that's asking a lot joe uh ladies speak up against a master debater 1.00

02:44:55.580 don't be afraid to open up your world views uh how about this because i don't know i mean

02:45:01.860 western perspective eastern perspective i don't know how productive that'll be uh how about just

02:45:06.200 going around the table do you consider yourself a feminist starting with you yes okay no i'm not 0.59

02:45:12.340 sure i would need to look into do we want to give them a definition on this one just uh here's i think

02:45:18.500 this is andrew's definition uh a movement towards egalitarian with a rejection of patriarchy

02:45:26.780 okay so just equality yeah a movement towards equality which the form of equality we're talking

02:45:34.540 about here is egalitarianism um so that there's no confusion i use that word specifically because

02:45:41.240 egalitarianism is expressing that men and women are essentially interchangeable widgets

02:45:45.840 anything a man can do a woman should be able to do and anything a woman can do a man should be able to do 0.97

02:45:50.840 feminist yes no i'm still not sure i'd like to look into that more okay um pause what about you i think

02:46:02.120 yeah okay um i don't really know i think people can just do whatever they want i don't like if someone

02:46:14.380 wants to go like how do i word it equality yeah sure should that be a thing absolutely i don't think

02:46:23.200 it 100 is um at the same time i'm not going to put someone down for wanting to stay more

02:46:29.420 traditional and not be a part of a feministic movement are you feminist i don't do action 0.55

02:46:37.460 supporting one way or another i just live my life all right uh what about you i think i'd also have to

02:46:42.800 think about a little bit more but could i answer the second part of that what was it like comment

02:46:48.420 thing it was like talking more about like political views and who's the person you mean the previous

02:46:53.920 or no yeah the previous like comment well there was a question that can't we didn't go all the way

02:46:59.020 around the table we kind of started talking about america i think the question was uh democracy or

02:47:04.580 abortion so i don't think you had a chance to answer on that she's talking about that she's talking

02:47:10.120 about i know but why don't we just finish up that one then since she reminded me i don't think i have

02:47:14.160 a comment on that one you got to participate though to some degree in the show i mean this is

02:47:17.960 the second time i can participate because i want to talk about the education because we've already

02:47:23.040 moved off of the what do you mean the education homeschooling brian rachel did say that she'd like

02:47:29.180 to take the seat and uh discuss this very issue with uh with the dissenters uh if you'd like to see

02:47:36.500 that i'm happy to bring her down yeah i want to we can do that i just want to get through get caught

02:47:41.640 up on the chats no problem i'm just letting you know sure we can do that um so you had you wanted

02:47:47.060 to talk about the what like education like homeschooling versus um public school education

02:47:53.340 and that andrew that's what rachel wanted to come talk yeah well that because that moves into the 1.00

02:47:58.660 broader idea um as the gal said to i think from your perspective to your right she had said listen

02:48:05.500 we're talking about optimals and this type of thing um that's because it basically it opens up a

02:48:12.020 kind of broader conversation on the topic which is directly related to feminism and the idealism behind

02:48:18.160 it uh yeah we can come back to that but so i guess finishing up democracy or abortion abortion okay

02:48:26.220 i don't know what the question was oh if you so okay uh i guess

02:48:31.360 if you had to choose you can have one or the other you can keep democracy but you lose rights

02:48:38.640 to abortion or you can keep rights to abortion but you lose democracy abortion tiffany i don't really

02:48:47.700 care about either but i would go with democracy wait why don't you care you you don't care about

02:48:52.820 democracy just curious why no not really you're like a nationalist or wait not a national you're

02:48:58.420 some people's opinions matter more like a person who doesn't even know what the difference between

02:49:03.920 a country and a state is shouldn't be having the same weight on their vote for their vote okay

02:49:13.320 okay that's that's how it is in the u.s so what about me yeah on this question democracy or abortion

02:49:21.160 uh uh well i mean like i don't know kind of like if we got rid of democracy and then i could just be

02:49:28.820 dictator that would be kind of cool so i guess like i'd be down to be a dictator like authoritarian or

02:49:34.300 whatever me too so i'm like kind of if it's me that gets to become like the authority authoritarian

02:49:40.040 dictator what if no you don't you don't get to be oh yeah yeah i don't know that's a hard one then

02:49:45.760 uh i guess just like keep democracy then if i had to pick between one or the other um i'll move it on

02:49:52.380 just for the sake of time uh i did have one note here this came up in a previous conversation we won't

02:49:58.500 linger long uh you spend time in korea there's this uh thing that kind of propped up here recently in

02:50:05.380 the u.s related to something that's going on in korea the 4b movement are you familiar with this at all

02:50:10.400 i stay as far away from politics and anything to do with them as possible so i'll move on then uh we

02:50:17.940 do have a couple chats coming in there's quite a few guys sorry i'm trying to get to them as quick

02:50:21.860 as possible i'm just uh we got

02:50:23.660 tim underscore stokely underscore himself donated two hundred dollars what factors in your view have

02:50:31.880 led to declining birth rates in developed countries is this for the whole panel what factors in your

02:50:38.180 view have man you're asking some 0.82

02:50:40.340 uh this this uh okay what factors in your view porn porn feminism 0.78

02:50:51.680 anybody else want to weigh in why why are the birth weight there's only one there's just one factor

02:50:58.480 that's it's very simple uh white anime pillows some prioritization in western nations and in other

02:51:06.040 nations adjacent to western nations that prioritize education during women's reproductive years rather

02:51:12.360 than prioritizing reproduction that's it that's the that's the whole the sum of the entire game that's it

02:51:18.620 all right tim stokely appreciate the tts thank you very much we have one from our good friend

02:51:31.480 lol paladins oh god lol paladins donated two hundred dollars and two cents thank you man just want to

02:51:38.980 point out the obvious craziness of this if a black 13 year old was shot by police it would be national

02:51:45.100 news she didn't see anything she is so full of it that's what happened right yes was it a white

02:51:53.000 police officer yes well how long ago was it when i was about 13 so like was it before before the

02:52:00.360 uh covid was like 2019 it was before covid

02:52:05.600 white officer shoots it 13 year old black kid who was roughhousing with his friends

02:52:16.060 is there a news article we can maybe find on this or was it just not it wasn't reported without

02:52:25.200 putting out the name of somebody whose family i'm sure wants the situation to be respected no i mean if

02:52:30.860 it's already like a public you don't have to share it but i mean if it's already out there in the

02:52:35.940 public it's already out there in the public but that's totally fine we have a couple more chats

02:52:39.760 coming through here we have lol paladins how dare you support women feeding their children andrew 0.99

02:52:46.000 you miss you disgusting misogynist they should have total freedom to go work for a corporation 0.99

02:52:51.480 while a man stays at home giving them formula purchased with her money all right well this is this is the 0.99

02:52:57.920 idea is like okay little johnny don't worry uh mommy needed to work so that's why i sent you out

02:53:04.420 with venezuela and you have all of these inflammation issues in your body right it seems like um seems like

02:53:09.600 a very stupid thing to do um and i did i mean i made the insistence uh yeah i definitely wanted to see

02:53:16.200 my kids at home and i wanted to make sure that they were breastfed absolutely so that they didn't have 0.97

02:53:21.780 those types of issues all right we have a tts coming in three more tracy on tilt donated 200

02:53:29.600 thank you tracy andrew your wife is a savage i strive to be as great of a woman that she is and

02:53:35.740 she is a role model to women like me it's great to see a woman like her defending our beliefs in this 0.93

02:53:41.860 modern world yo tracy on tilt thank you so much for the uh tts i really appreciate it thank you

02:53:47.560 rachel's rachel's great she's always been great yeah uh so thank you tracy on tilt that name's

02:53:52.560 familiar did you dm us recently uh but thank you so much really appreciate it we have three chats

02:53:57.400 coming in here uh we have joe murphy he says cena can i have you read the hundreds ladies you can 0.89

02:54:06.140 catch a refund on the first couple of 50 50 dates once offering sexual access a boat bow about and

02:54:14.160 children contrary contrary to popular sexual revolution you might you might land a good man

02:54:22.140 for life thank you joe murphy that was beautiful i agree you got to hit the bow definitely hit the

02:54:31.620 bow on the first should we uh bow we'll do the bow video a little later but uh okay joe murphy

02:54:37.240 he also says go ahead cena the issue with feminist group think you can't be a rock star mother and have

02:54:43.420 a career it's impossible choose one mission to maximize your ability if your mission is to be

02:54:48.960 the best mother that's from joe murphy thank you for the soup chat man really appreciate it thank you

02:54:53.600 um any disagreements from any of the panelists here

02:54:55.660 but what's a definition of like the best mother because i think my mom works and that made me a better

02:55:05.040 person because i see that she's ambitious and career driven one question on that uh what that would 0.98

02:55:11.480 make me feel like shit make me feel like she was prioritizing career over me 1.00

02:55:15.120 well your parents are still together yes uh and both of them work yes and do they in terms of uh the 0.98

02:55:23.400 income brought to the household is it about the same your dad more your mom more um my dad makes

02:55:30.020 more that makes more okay and she works full-time she does and what about when you were young do you

02:55:35.620 have siblings no i'm an only child just you okay yeah uh was she working full-time even when you 0.89

02:55:41.260 were younger or what was your experience growing up i think she took off time for like maternity leave 0.90

02:55:47.480 uh but she was working like majority of my childhood so prior to having you she was working full-time yeah

02:55:53.440 she was what's her job uh she works for the school district uh she like a secretary or what is she 1.00

02:55:59.080 like a counselor what does she do no she works she like manages um like a foreign language program 0.98

02:56:05.060 okay and she's working full-time yeah okay and how how much time did she take off a year i'm not

02:56:11.820 quite sure you don't recall okay yeah all right um andrew it sounded like you maybe had something or

02:56:16.960 yeah so i was just saying the i understand there could be circumstances where women need to work 1.00

02:56:24.340 for the production of income for a household there's no doubt about that um and by necessity

02:56:29.160 i think that good moms of course will do that what i'm saying is that if they don't actually have to 0.99

02:56:35.160 work they don't have to they're hedging their bets against their own future thinking that it's possible

02:56:40.220 that there could be a divorce something like this they want to fall back on some income or career that

02:56:44.560 they have then they're prioritizing themselves over the future of their own children and i think that

02:56:49.260 that's uh in many ways despicable but i think my mom like i feel like the fact that she had a job 0.96

02:56:59.940 not only made me realize that you know i need to be ambitious and want like a great career in the

02:57:07.000 future as well but then she also had the time to take care of me um that's not possible why is that

02:57:13.260 not possible how many hours a week does your mom work um like it's probably like the standard like 1.00

02:57:20.180 eight to five okay so she works eight to five which means that she had to outsource your care 1.00

02:57:26.200 from at least the hours of eight to five right okay but when you say outsource yes somebody else

02:57:32.640 besides her had to do it between the hours of eight to five yes so okay so my grandma raised me from 1.00

02:57:38.640 those hours that she wasn't home why is that why is that optimal why is that optimal as opposed to

02:57:44.240 your own mother because she is a great woman too that influenced my beliefs and why can't that be

02:57:52.020 optimal for somebody else was it was it necessary like did she necessarily need to work in order to 1.00

02:57:58.900 support you or was it a choice that she made because she wanted the extra income i don't think

02:58:04.500 well she always told me this i don't think she wanted to work because of the extra income because 1.00

02:58:09.560 quite frankly we were okay financially but yeah well then why was she prioritizing that over you

02:58:14.800 that's weird because work gives you a sense of fulfillment in terms of you know raising your

02:58:20.320 own children but she did raise me so you want to know she didn't you want to work in the future so 1.00

02:58:25.560 that your grandma raised you i think my mom or my mom worked right and she gave me

02:58:33.360 seeing her work and also being able to raise me and spend time with me didn't she didn't raise you

02:58:39.580 she outsourced half of your raising to somebody else or more she did raise me you're defining

02:58:46.420 raising as a 100 percent your grandma at least raised you from the hours of nine to five right

02:58:52.220 and she was a great influence on me so that was she wasn't not saying that your grandma wasn't a

02:58:56.620 great influence okay i'm just saying that she outsourced your raising to a person who was not her

02:59:02.120 from at least the hours of nine o'clock five o'clock right but you're saying that what is

02:59:06.780 optimal answer my question before you ask me one sorry could you repeat the question one more time

02:59:11.000 your grandma raised you at least from the hours of nine o'clock in the morning to five o'clock in

02:59:16.160 the evening is that correct correct so then somebody besides your mom was actually raising you

02:59:22.900 between at least most of the block of the day correct okay correct so if that is the case

02:59:30.820 then i don't know what you're disputing with me saying that your grandma's a good person i'm not

02:59:35.040 disputing that grandma's probably awesome i understand that but you're saying that out or

02:59:40.580 not outsourcing is optimal yes that would have been optimal for you correct but i think

02:59:47.420 outsourcing was the optimal way to raise me because why why why so you're saying that you would

02:59:53.380 prefer to have had less time with your mother during your formative year i'm not saying i would

02:59:57.440 have rather had less time but i also would you rather have more time with your mother or less

03:00:01.500 time with your mother i was happy the way i grew up because yeah can you answer my question though

03:00:05.740 can would you rather have less time with your mother in your formative years or more time with

03:00:09.760 your mother in your formative years there's no less or more i was happy with what i had so you

03:00:16.540 can't answer my question right because the answer is you'd rather have more time with your mother

03:00:21.100 during your formative years than you know it right i know but i actually liked that my grandma

03:00:26.660 raised me because now I have an established relationship with my grandma that I wouldn't

03:00:30.660 have had. You wouldn't have had an established relationship with your grandma anyway. What guarantees that?

03:00:34.380 If she didn't raise me during those years. Maybe your grandma wouldn't have come and visited you because your mom stayed home with you or what? 0.98

03:00:38.460 But I had a deeper connection with my grandma because I spent those

03:00:42.180 number of hours with her. Yeah, that's the problem, right? That's the bad thing. It's like that deeper connection

03:00:46.520 aspect. When you say I have a deeper connection with grandma than I have

03:00:50.300 potentially with my own mother, right? So that's the thing that I'm disputing here. It's like

03:00:54.000 I'm not saying that your grandma's not a wonderful person and didn't do everything

03:00:58.600 she could possibly do to raise you. I'm not saying anything like that at all. I'm just

03:01:02.440 pointing out that if a woman is to prioritize outsourcing your care 0.90

03:01:06.720 to somebody else, then it sounds like she's not prioritizing

03:01:10.240 you. She's letting somebody else prioritize you. And I think that

03:01:14.480 that's ultimately fairly selfish. But you can prioritize

03:01:18.600 multiple things. Why do you have to just take one? Yes, you can, but I think that a good

03:01:22.460 mother prioritized her children above all things. 0.99

03:01:26.780 I can see your perspective. I may not necessarily agree with it, but...

03:01:30.900 Yeah, I think that that's fair. Like, listen, I understand

03:01:34.520 that people come from all different walks of life and have all sorts of contributing

03:01:38.340 circumstances to how they were raised. I most certainly did. I had a stay-at-home

03:01:42.360 dad rather than a stay-at-home mom because my father had multiple sclerosis. He couldn't work.

03:01:46.180 So he stayed at home with me. And those are the best years of my life. He was a fantastic

03:01:52.500 father, this type of thing. But always one of my parents was at home to take care of us. And

03:02:00.540 the reason that that was so important rather than outsourcing is because they valued us more

03:02:05.960 than they valued at any external gains.

03:02:10.560 So that's just my perspective.

03:02:12.280 I see your perspective. And I can respect it.

03:02:17.080 You mentioned that

03:02:18.160 because your mom worked, she was 1.00

03:02:20.460 a figure there in terms of

03:02:22.080 you saw her ambition.

03:02:24.200 She, I suppose, wanted to instill

03:02:26.380 ambition in you.

03:02:29.720 You know,

03:02:30.340 since we are talking about dating here,

03:02:31.760 I always found this interesting because

03:02:34.220 women are attracted to men who are ambitious.

03:02:38.020 And then I think women tend to think that, 0.97

03:02:40.220 well, I'm attracted to this in men.

03:02:43.400 Ergo, there's a symmetry there

03:02:45.160 in terms of what men certainly must find attractive

03:02:48.500 in me or in women.

03:02:51.640 Do you think that when it comes to finding a partner,

03:02:54.740 your ambition or success or

03:02:57.780 career goals will make you more attractive to men? 0.62

03:03:02.520 Oh, for me?

03:03:03.160 Yeah.

03:03:04.320 I don't think I am ambitious for men.

03:03:08.060 I'm just ambitious.

03:03:08.740 That's not what I'm asking, though.

03:03:10.960 You're ambitious for yourself, right?

03:03:12.480 I am.

03:03:12.980 Okay.

03:03:13.420 But you're saying, like, do you think it makes me more attractive?

03:03:15.960 Right.

03:03:16.240 In the way that, like, for example,

03:03:18.000 I think that when it, for women, 0.99

03:03:20.160 a man who's a doctor,

03:03:21.820 just by simply virtue of him being a doctor

03:03:24.180 because of the status,

03:03:25.700 because of the money that comes with it,

03:03:27.300 he's going to just be deemed as a more attractive partner to women

03:03:31.100 wholesale,

03:03:33.180 whereas it's not clear to me

03:03:34.680 if a woman who's a doctor,

03:03:36.780 if that's going to be, like, a substantial, like,

03:03:40.540 that's going to be, like,

03:03:41.680 make men really attracted to her 0.95

03:03:43.660 in the same way that a man who's a doctor

03:03:45.960 is going to be, like, really attractive to women.

03:03:48.920 Can I intrude for one second?

03:03:51.640 Well, I'll have her answer,

03:03:53.040 but then I'll let you go ahead.

03:03:53.900 So go ahead.

03:03:54.280 Yeah, I think me being ambitious makes me attractive.

03:03:58.060 To men?

03:03:58.960 To men.

03:03:59.880 How so?

03:04:02.180 Well, I guess it just kind of depends.

03:04:05.140 Like, I feel like I'm generalizing.

03:04:07.900 But, yeah, like, that I'm hardworking

03:04:10.180 and that I have goals,

03:04:12.000 I think that's attractive.

03:04:13.100 I think that's an attractive trait either way.

03:04:17.240 Your goals are related to your career, though, correct?

03:04:22.500 I mean, it can be any type of goals.

03:04:23.900 It can be, like, health goals.

03:04:25.780 It can be career goals.

03:04:27.480 It can be family goals.

03:04:30.000 Okay.

03:04:30.840 What are your family goals?

03:04:33.280 How many kids do you want? 1.00

03:04:34.940 I want two, I think.

03:04:36.820 Okay.

03:04:37.480 Yeah.

03:04:38.080 Do you know when you'd like to get married

03:04:39.440 and have children by?

03:04:41.880 Probably, like, my...

03:04:42.920 Do you want to get married?

03:04:43.880 I do.

03:04:44.500 Okay.

03:04:44.640 Like, my late 20s, maybe early 30s.

03:04:47.300 Early 30s.

03:04:49.500 Okay.

03:04:50.640 You had something on this?

03:04:52.580 Yeah.

03:04:53.100 So, I was thinking that men and what they do

03:04:58.480 doesn't necessarily make us attracted to them.

03:05:01.460 So, I don't really think that it applies to us either.

03:05:05.240 What do you mean?

03:05:06.240 Like, them having such a high job,

03:05:09.320 but let's say they're horrible people,

03:05:11.140 we won't find them attractive.

03:05:12.420 Them having not such a good job,

03:05:13.980 but still good,

03:05:15.140 but not being good people.

03:05:15.980 Sure.

03:05:16.180 Let me ask you a question.

03:05:16.780 Do you know who Chris Brown is?

03:05:18.640 Yeah, I do.

03:05:19.820 This man has...

03:05:21.260 He's wealthy, very high status.

03:05:23.560 Yes.

03:05:23.960 He also has a history of alleged domestic violence.

03:05:27.920 Do you think he has a shortage of women 0.98

03:05:29.300 who are attracted to him?

03:05:30.500 I think so.

03:05:31.320 I'm not attracted to him.

03:05:32.420 Yeah.

03:05:33.160 Well, just because you're attracted...

03:05:34.620 Really?

03:05:35.120 Yes.

03:05:36.840 You realize there are women 1.00

03:05:38.200 who pay, like, thousands of dollars

03:05:39.620 just to take a photograph with him?

03:05:41.420 I'm sure,

03:05:42.260 but I don't think that's all women.

03:05:44.060 Sure, it's not all women,

03:05:45.200 but, like, you said,

03:05:46.780 well, these men with a lot of status,

03:05:49.640 but they're horrible,

03:05:52.160 ergo, this precludes them 0.91

03:05:53.320 from having romantic or sexual interest

03:05:55.360 from women.

03:05:56.260 As many.

03:05:56.560 It's clear,

03:05:57.300 despite, like,

03:05:58.020 the mountains of news reporting,

03:06:02.380 and, look,

03:06:03.360 I don't know the full details

03:06:04.640 of the allegations

03:06:05.800 towards Chris Brown.

03:06:06.920 In any case,

03:06:08.040 it does seem to be the narrative

03:06:09.820 that he did attack Rihanna

03:06:14.040 or whatever,

03:06:15.000 and perhaps other women. 1.00

03:06:16.400 I don't know all the details.

03:06:19.880 So, you would say

03:06:21.720 that he's a horrible person?

03:06:23.600 No, I would say that career

03:06:26.920 and that statement that you made

03:06:29.900 is not necessarily based on...

03:06:34.120 Based on what?

03:06:34.780 ...on men.

03:06:35.160 You think...

03:06:35.980 So, just to be clear,

03:06:36.820 your position is

03:06:37.560 women do not find 1.00

03:06:39.360 men with status attractive?

03:06:42.680 Not all, no.

03:06:44.120 Well, I'm not saying...

03:06:45.060 I'm not making, like,

03:06:45.820 a totality claim.

03:06:47.080 I'm not saying all women

03:06:48.520 are going to prioritize this.

03:06:49.800 Most will, though.

03:06:51.000 Okay.

03:06:51.760 Okay, sure.

03:06:52.060 I'd say the majority of women 1.00

03:06:53.060 are going to find

03:06:54.460 high-status men attractive.

03:06:57.500 Sure.

03:06:58.260 I wouldn't say all,

03:06:59.160 but if you say some,

03:07:00.660 then I would agree.

03:07:01.740 Well, what percentage

03:07:02.660 would you attribute

03:07:03.300 this phenomenon to?

03:07:05.160 I would say 60%.

03:07:08.900 So, majority of women? 1.00

03:07:11.340 Sure, but not all.

03:07:13.120 Okay.

03:07:13.520 So, that when you apply

03:07:14.380 to women,

03:07:15.820 that's why I said...

03:07:17.240 What would be the reverse?

03:07:18.520 So, like, men who are, like,

03:07:20.780 seeking out high-status women? 1.00

03:07:22.740 Right.

03:07:23.100 When do they do that?

03:07:24.140 They don't.

03:07:24.800 Exactly.

03:07:25.460 Oh, so you agree with me?

03:07:26.680 That's what I'm saying.

03:07:27.520 Oh, okay.

03:07:28.340 All right.

03:07:29.140 Wait, so...

03:07:30.500 What's...

03:07:32.340 I'm confused.

03:07:32.880 I was just making a statement

03:07:35.220 on, like, both sides.

03:07:37.180 Oh, okay.

03:07:37.680 So, you're saying

03:07:38.220 not all women.

03:07:39.300 Right.

03:07:39.580 Sure, not all women, of course.

03:07:41.220 Plenty of women date, 1.00

03:07:42.440 like, average men or whatever.

03:07:43.760 Right.

03:07:44.540 But this does seem

03:07:48.020 to be a more common phenomenon

03:07:50.180 in women than it is in men.

03:07:54.720 Maybe.

03:07:56.280 Okay.

03:07:56.920 All right.

03:07:57.500 Let me see

03:07:58.080 if there's any other chats here.

03:07:59.320 We do have some, actually.

03:08:00.660 We have to get through.

03:08:01.200 We got four,

03:08:02.320 so I'll try to get through them.

03:08:04.740 I saw is code

03:08:06.200 for my 13-year-old friend

03:08:07.420 told me something

03:08:08.040 that they saw on John Wick

03:08:09.360 and I'm gullible.

03:08:11.080 Chloe, do you want

03:08:11.740 to respond to this

03:08:12.400 when you're not, like,

03:08:14.460 ripping your eye out?

03:08:15.600 I have a contact.

03:08:16.960 Nice.

03:08:17.760 W.

03:08:18.540 Contact.

03:08:19.940 Is it...

03:08:20.320 Do you wear one contact

03:08:21.240 because you said

03:08:21.760 you're blind?

03:08:22.340 Yeah, I only wear one contact.

03:08:24.020 Sweet.

03:08:25.060 You should just wear

03:08:26.160 an eye patch.

03:08:27.180 I did for a while.

03:08:28.760 You would look good

03:08:29.400 with an eye patch.

03:08:29.780 After my eye surgery,

03:08:31.000 I wore an eye patch.

03:08:33.760 Nice.

03:08:34.500 Yeah.

03:08:35.100 Pirate jokes.

03:08:36.040 Okay.

03:08:36.700 Do you want to respond

03:08:37.540 to low paladins here?

03:08:38.820 I mean, I feel like

03:08:39.480 we've gone over the topic.

03:08:41.020 All right.

03:08:41.540 There it is.

03:08:42.460 So, okay.

03:08:42.880 We have not a simp.

03:08:43.980 He says,

03:08:46.180 Sina, can you read these?

03:08:48.900 Oh, my God. 0.96

03:08:49.780 That goth baddie 0.97

03:08:50.680 with the dark lipstick 0.83

03:08:51.580 not being sus,

03:08:52.680 but I did anything

03:08:53.700 to get surprised

03:08:55.560 pegged by her.

03:08:57.660 Please.

03:08:58.220 I want to be a...

03:08:58.980 What?

03:08:59.520 So bad.

03:09:01.020 Bro.

03:09:02.960 Dude. 0.99

03:09:03.760 You gremlin.

03:09:04.980 What? 0.96

03:09:05.760 Do you want to respond

03:09:06.920 goth baddie?

03:09:09.880 Yeah.

03:09:10.260 Hit me up on IG

03:09:11.220 and we'll figure out

03:09:12.920 a time of day

03:09:13.720 for that.

03:09:15.540 But it's a surprise.

03:09:17.600 I'll figure it out.

03:09:19.360 Would you actually

03:09:20.200 peg a dude?

03:09:22.580 I mean,

03:09:23.820 sure.

03:09:26.140 Have you?

03:09:26.700 Pegging a dude?

03:09:27.260 Have you done it?

03:09:29.200 I have done it.

03:09:32.020 I don't know

03:09:32.680 what are you going to play.

03:09:34.320 Oh, boy.

03:09:39.880 Excuse me?

03:09:41.500 All right.

03:09:42.240 Wow.

03:09:42.600 Have you pegged a dude?

03:09:43.320 Show of hands.

03:09:44.500 Who else?

03:09:45.440 What?

03:09:45.840 Have you?

03:09:46.400 Have I pegged a dude?

03:09:48.240 Yeah.

03:09:49.000 We're asking each other

03:09:50.020 questions.

03:09:50.660 No, I have not pegged.

03:09:51.580 Anybody here

03:09:52.280 pegged a dude?

03:09:52.820 Pause.

03:09:53.140 You pegged a dude.

03:09:53.820 I have not.

03:09:54.360 You've definitely...

03:09:54.980 Okay.

03:09:55.140 Anybody?

03:09:55.760 Anybody?

03:09:56.840 Pegger?

03:09:57.400 Pegger?

03:09:58.640 Ellen?

03:09:59.760 Have you?

03:10:00.920 No.

03:10:01.400 Okay.

03:10:01.880 Sorry.

03:10:02.300 I'm spacing out.

03:10:02.860 Would you break out?

03:10:04.060 Break out?

03:10:04.740 Break up with a guy

03:10:05.680 if he was like...

03:10:06.500 Like your current guy

03:10:07.340 that you're in love with

03:10:08.520 or whatever?

03:10:09.000 Would you...

03:10:10.460 Like he was like,

03:10:11.480 hey, Ellen, 0.57

03:10:12.260 would you do things 0.98

03:10:15.200 in and around my anus? 0.99

03:10:16.840 Would you break up with him? 0.99

03:10:18.160 I don't really like

03:10:21.500 that question.

03:10:23.640 All right.

03:10:24.440 Okay.

03:10:24.880 Sorry.

03:10:26.860 Here.

03:10:27.600 Earmuffs.

03:10:28.300 Earmuffs.

03:10:28.840 All right.

03:10:29.780 All right.

03:10:30.420 She doesn't like the question.

03:10:34.280 Sina, go ahead. 0.93

03:10:35.120 Read this.

03:10:35.500 It was more optimal

03:10:36.300 for her mom to work 0.54

03:10:37.480 than her grandmother

03:10:38.240 because grandmother

03:10:39.120 wouldn't have made

03:10:40.140 much money

03:10:40.900 on the streets corner.

03:10:42.800 You don't get a premium

03:10:44.280 for gummos?

03:10:47.700 Gummos?

03:10:48.620 Oh, my God.

03:10:50.140 Do you have a response

03:10:51.040 to Low Paladins?

03:10:52.440 No, that makes no sense.

03:10:54.520 Yeah.

03:10:57.740 Okay.

03:10:58.260 Thank you, Low Paladins,

03:10:59.240 for that.

03:10:59.600 That was great.

03:11:00.260 Appreciate it.

03:11:01.680 Primary Matt,

03:11:02.460 thank you for the

03:11:02.840 gifted 10 subs on Twitch.

03:11:04.120 Thank you so much, man.

03:11:04.920 We have Vector coming in here.

03:11:07.260 Let's see.

03:11:08.580 Boom.

03:11:09.160 Here it comes.

03:11:10.000 Go ahead, Sina.

03:11:10.740 You got it.

03:11:11.520 We all have the same

03:11:12.540 ring structure

03:11:13.260 with the capacity

03:11:14.300 to love,

03:11:16.000 empathize,

03:11:17.260 empathize,

03:11:17.980 empathize,

03:11:19.040 learn,

03:11:19.520 understand,

03:11:20.140 et cetera.

03:11:21.740 Absent development,

03:11:23.300 abnormal talent.

03:11:25.000 There you go.

03:11:25.500 That's how you say it.

03:11:26.420 Go ahead.

03:11:27.280 Personal choice risk,

03:11:28.920 subverting your optimal

03:11:30.300 something.

03:11:32.020 Capabilities.

03:11:32.800 Thank you, Sina.

03:11:33.500 Thank you, Vector,

03:11:34.180 for the super chat.

03:11:34.780 Really appreciate it.

03:11:35.380 Thank you.

03:11:35.580 Thank you.

03:11:36.320 All right, guys.

03:11:37.320 Guys, if you want,

03:11:38.120 you can get in a TTS,

03:11:39.580 $200 TTS,

03:11:40.400 if you'd like.

03:11:41.140 And also,

03:11:41.600 we're doing the reads.

03:11:43.900 Andrew,

03:11:44.300 I think perhaps now

03:11:45.100 is a decent time

03:11:46.300 for,

03:11:47.520 or maybe we do

03:11:48.380 Stifler first,

03:11:49.120 then we have

03:11:49.580 Rachel come.

03:11:50.320 Okay, so,

03:11:51.300 Stifler,

03:11:51.780 ask everyone to rate

03:11:52.440 their own looks

03:11:52.860 on a scale of 1 to 10.

03:11:54.540 Starting with Gianna,

03:11:55.640 go ahead.

03:11:56.940 I would say

03:11:58.100 a decent

03:11:59.860 8.7,

03:12:02.840 9, maybe.

03:12:04.380 I'll say 9, okay.

03:12:05.740 Sina, what about you?

03:12:06.660 8.

03:12:07.220 8, okay.

03:12:08.300 8.

03:12:08.820 8?

03:12:09.780 I'm like maybe a 7.5.

03:12:11.560 7.5.

03:12:13.440 Maybe like

03:12:14.240 a 6.9 to 7.2,

03:12:16.880 somewhere in that range.

03:12:17.440 I'll just say 7,

03:12:18.400 all right.

03:12:19.020 If like average is 7,

03:12:20.560 then 7.

03:12:21.780 Well, average would be 5.

03:12:24.300 So you're a 5.

03:12:24.560 But I think like average,

03:12:25.180 like a C,

03:12:26.340 like C is the 70%.

03:12:27.740 What grading,

03:12:29.800 I'm not sure what grading

03:12:30.560 system we're using here.

03:12:31.980 So a C,

03:12:32.800 are you a C minus?

03:12:34.480 Or like a C plus?

03:12:35.720 Well, I guess

03:12:36.280 if it's an 8,

03:12:37.340 then that's a B, so.

03:12:38.400 Also, like were you

03:12:39.140 held back a grade

03:12:39.900 or back factors in?

03:12:43.320 And is it like

03:12:43.900 a gate class?

03:12:45.220 I think I'm just average.

03:12:46.840 Like are,

03:12:47.200 what's,

03:12:47.600 are you like AP class or?

03:12:49.660 In high school?

03:12:50.280 Like in high school,

03:12:50.940 did you take APs?

03:12:51.920 I did.

03:12:52.140 Or you like take

03:12:53.140 like this class

03:12:54.060 for like the slow people?

03:12:55.420 No, I took like

03:12:56.380 9 or 10 APs.

03:12:58.520 Like I took a lot of APs.

03:12:59.120 You read it at 12th grade level.

03:13:01.820 In 10th grade.

03:13:02.600 Okay.

03:13:03.640 Right?

03:13:05.100 I'm not.

03:13:06.060 I don't like mesh

03:13:07.000 that kind of stuff.

03:13:07.460 I don't know.

03:13:07.560 Okay.

03:13:09.500 Looks scale of 1 to 10?

03:13:11.020 I don't really want to

03:13:12.300 objectify myself

03:13:13.580 to a number.

03:13:14.660 So no,

03:13:15.140 I don't want to

03:13:15.660 answer that question.

03:13:18.120 Can I ask you

03:13:18.560 a different question?

03:13:19.600 Have you ever seen

03:13:20.440 a mid guy

03:13:22.480 with like a really

03:13:23.380 hot chick? 0.98

03:13:26.340 Have you seen

03:13:27.020 this phenomenon?

03:13:28.700 Ladies? 1.00

03:13:29.360 Yes.

03:13:29.560 You've seen the mid,

03:13:30.640 the mid guy

03:13:31.640 with the hot chick. 1.00

03:13:33.040 You've seen that?

03:13:33.960 Yeah, I guess.

03:13:35.860 You've seen that?

03:13:36.480 Yes.

03:13:37.220 Why are you

03:13:37.720 objectifying men?

03:13:40.620 I mean,

03:13:41.300 I don't know.

03:13:41.820 That's my personal opinion.

03:13:43.820 Yeah,

03:13:43.980 what's your personal opinion

03:13:44.840 of your own looks

03:13:45.840 on a scale of 1 to 10?

03:13:46.980 I just don't want to say it.

03:13:48.140 Can you not

03:13:49.000 respect my answer?

03:13:51.480 I mean,

03:13:52.300 you don't have

03:13:53.140 to answer the question.

03:13:54.360 It's like you've been

03:13:54.940 asked to come on the show

03:13:55.740 to like talk about

03:13:56.700 these subjects.

03:13:57.620 I don't really think

03:13:58.360 you would be

03:13:58.600 objectifying yourself

03:13:59.660 to answer this question.

03:14:02.600 In past questions,

03:14:03.700 people have said

03:14:04.180 they don't want to

03:14:04.620 give their opinion on it.

03:14:05.860 Yeah,

03:14:06.220 and I sometimes

03:14:07.180 give pushback

03:14:07.860 on their refusals,

03:14:09.560 but just so I'll,

03:14:12.580 you don't have

03:14:12.880 to answer the question,

03:14:13.500 but now I'm going

03:14:14.460 to open a different

03:14:15.020 line of inquiry.

03:14:16.060 Why is it objectifying?

03:14:17.860 I think I have

03:14:19.040 a lot more to offer

03:14:19.780 than just my looks,

03:14:21.580 like personality,

03:14:23.380 et cetera.

03:14:23.800 I don't want to go.

03:14:24.060 Sure.

03:14:24.380 I'll even grant

03:14:25.160 that you do,

03:14:26.460 but I don't see

03:14:28.460 how that pertains

03:14:29.340 to the question.

03:14:31.400 I just don't want

03:14:32.140 to answer it.

03:14:33.540 Okay,

03:14:33.840 so you have a lot more

03:14:34.480 to offer besides your looks?

03:14:36.220 Okay.

03:14:39.040 Not really.

03:14:41.580 I just don't want

03:14:42.380 to put myself on a scale.

03:14:43.540 I don't know

03:14:44.320 what the issue is with that.

03:14:45.940 Okay.

03:14:46.320 I'm just curious,

03:14:47.180 would you date a guy,

03:14:48.360 hold on, let me,

03:14:49.520 what's, your name is?

03:14:51.300 Avi.

03:14:51.900 Avi, hold on one sec.

03:14:53.180 Um, you didn't,

03:14:59.200 in this question,

03:14:59.980 you didn't say anything

03:15:01.240 about the man's height.

03:15:02.820 You don't,

03:15:03.220 you don't care about

03:15:03.740 height at all?

03:15:04.460 No.

03:15:04.860 You date a guy

03:15:05.340 who's five foot?

03:15:06.380 Sure.

03:15:06.920 Really?

03:15:07.500 Yes.

03:15:09.260 So you date a guy

03:15:10.240 who's six inches

03:15:10.900 shorter than you

03:15:11.480 because you're five six.

03:15:12.720 I said five six

03:15:14.560 and above.

03:15:15.040 It's not like a strict,

03:15:16.220 oh.

03:15:16.280 No, how tall are you?

03:15:17.400 I'm five foot.

03:15:18.300 Oh, you're five foot.

03:15:19.160 So you would date five,

03:15:20.080 okay.

03:15:20.880 So you do care about

03:15:21.800 height then?

03:15:22.800 They have to be

03:15:23.260 five six and above?

03:15:24.260 Sure.

03:15:24.720 You wouldn't date a guy

03:15:25.780 who's,

03:15:25.940 it's not a strict thing.

03:15:26.800 But you,

03:15:27.200 so would you date a guy

03:15:27.860 who's five foot?

03:15:28.920 Yeah.

03:15:29.880 Okay.

03:15:30.220 Well, right here,

03:15:30.780 you said five foot six.

03:15:32.940 I thought that was just

03:15:32.980 a preference.

03:15:34.800 Oh, but what's the nature,

03:15:36.000 why do you have that preference?

03:15:39.320 So five one.

03:15:40.700 I mean, yeah, five one.

03:15:41.680 Why do you have

03:15:42.080 the preference though?

03:15:44.880 I mean, ideally,

03:15:45.820 I think everyone wants

03:15:46.600 to date someone taller than them.

03:15:47.720 Why?

03:15:49.000 I don't know.

03:15:50.180 So looks,

03:15:51.260 you care about looks?

03:15:53.180 You just said you want

03:15:54.500 to date somebody

03:15:55.080 who's taller than you.

03:15:57.020 Height has to do

03:15:57.820 with their looks.

03:15:59.700 Like they're,

03:16:00.380 that's a physical

03:16:01.160 characteristic.

03:16:02.720 Is it?

03:16:04.100 You don't think,

03:16:05.440 is it a mental characteristic

03:16:06.680 somebody's height?

03:16:07.380 No, I mean,

03:16:07.960 it's a physical,

03:16:08.720 but I don't think that

03:16:09.560 looks necessarily

03:16:10.560 have to do with height.

03:16:12.240 Well, I mean,

03:16:12.600 there's some difference there,

03:16:13.800 but it is a physical

03:16:14.480 characteristic.

03:16:15.020 Yeah, I agree.

03:16:19.040 Okay.

03:16:24.080 Okay.

03:16:24.700 Well,

03:16:25.800 you think,

03:16:28.260 why would it be

03:16:29.500 objectifying though?

03:16:30.380 I just don't want

03:16:33.100 to assign myself

03:16:33.720 a number.

03:16:34.220 I don't know

03:16:34.660 why that's so

03:16:35.320 hard to understand.

03:16:37.440 But I mean,

03:16:37.960 it seems like you have

03:16:38.600 a preference for a man's height.

03:16:39.700 That's literally

03:16:40.300 a measurement of something.

03:16:41.940 It's a physical measurement,

03:16:42.940 right?

03:16:45.180 So you have a double standard?

03:16:46.900 No.

03:16:48.280 I mean,

03:16:48.680 you hold men 0.80

03:16:50.000 to a physical standard,

03:16:51.980 right?

03:16:53.260 Not a strict one.

03:16:54.280 I'm not saying

03:16:54.720 they have to be

03:16:55.600 taller than that.

03:16:56.340 Right, but

03:16:56.700 it seems to me

03:16:58.300 like you would

03:16:59.200 probably

03:16:59.980 be more attracted

03:17:01.360 to a guy

03:17:01.860 who's six foot

03:17:02.660 versus five foot.

03:17:03.720 Is that fair to say?

03:17:05.200 No.

03:17:06.600 Really?

03:17:07.960 Yes.

03:17:11.480 Truth is,

03:17:12.060 being evasive tonight.

03:17:15.120 What about you?

03:17:16.680 I'd say

03:17:17.320 an eight and a half.

03:17:19.760 Eight and a half?

03:17:20.460 Okay.

03:17:21.100 Eight.

03:17:21.300 Tiffany, what about you?

03:17:22.940 All right.

03:17:24.040 Eight.

03:17:24.760 Okay.

03:17:25.440 I give myself a five.

03:17:26.940 Andrew, what about you?

03:17:30.020 Well,

03:17:31.040 who here said

03:17:32.000 eight or above?

03:17:32.740 Raise your hand.

03:17:36.120 Oh, yeah.

03:17:36.820 Well, then I mean

03:17:37.280 I'm a ten for sure.

03:17:38.500 Andrew's a ten.

03:17:39.460 Okay.

03:17:40.520 There you go.

03:17:41.420 All right.

03:17:42.520 Why is that funny?

03:17:43.680 Why is that funny?

03:17:44.500 Why is everybody laughing?

03:17:45.500 You guys don't think

03:17:46.080 I'm a ten?

03:17:46.600 Would you agree

03:17:46.960 with everyone's answers?

03:17:49.660 Well, I'm just,

03:17:50.300 well, my question though

03:17:51.200 is real quick

03:17:52.060 and then I'll answer yours.

03:17:53.160 I think that's a fair question.

03:17:55.200 Why are people laughing?

03:17:57.380 You don't think

03:17:58.000 I'm a ten?

03:17:58.500 You don't think

03:17:58.920 that that's objectively true?

03:18:00.180 You're calling us ugly.

03:18:01.920 I didn't call you ugly.

03:18:02.740 You said

03:18:04.960 if everyone

03:18:06.280 who said eight or above.

03:18:08.740 So you're saying

03:18:09.480 that you look better than us.

03:18:11.720 That's what you're saying.

03:18:12.240 Well, no, no.

03:18:13.200 I'm just giving myself

03:18:14.260 a confidence-based

03:18:15.620 self-assessment

03:18:16.380 based on non-objective reality.

03:18:18.120 But you had us

03:18:19.300 raise our hands.

03:18:20.680 Yeah, because I wanted

03:18:21.680 to give myself

03:18:22.540 a non-objective

03:18:24.540 confidence-based

03:18:25.720 assessment of myself

03:18:27.000 which would then

03:18:28.000 force you to agree

03:18:29.060 that that is true

03:18:29.920 if you give yourself

03:18:30.760 such a high assessment

03:18:31.720 then mine must also

03:18:32.860 be the case

03:18:33.480 unless you want

03:18:34.500 to argue with that.

03:18:35.900 You don't think

03:18:36.680 I'm a ten?

03:18:37.540 No, I thought you would

03:18:38.320 think I was a ten.

03:18:39.420 For sure.

03:18:39.720 Yeah, that seems fair.

03:18:43.700 All right.

03:18:46.620 I guess going around

03:18:48.340 the table then

03:18:49.080 do you think

03:18:49.900 you'll be better looking

03:18:51.300 in ten years' time

03:18:51.980 starting with you?

03:18:53.220 So you're 18.

03:18:54.320 Do you think

03:18:54.660 you'll be better looking

03:18:55.280 at 28?

03:18:56.900 I think that'll be

03:18:57.960 probably peak

03:18:59.480 for most women.

03:19:00.560 So I think so.

03:19:01.460 Okay.

03:19:01.740 And then how about

03:19:02.300 20 years' time?

03:19:02.940 38 versus 18?

03:19:04.820 38.

03:19:05.980 38.

03:19:06.740 I think, yeah.

03:19:08.080 I think so.

03:19:10.180 More attractive?

03:19:11.180 Than 20 or than now?

03:19:12.740 Than 18?

03:19:14.320 Yes.

03:19:14.920 Okay.

03:19:15.320 How about 48?

03:19:16.280 30 years' time?

03:19:17.100 More attractive?

03:19:19.320 No.

03:19:20.440 No, okay.

03:19:22.100 Sina, what about you?

03:19:24.440 Will you be more attractive

03:19:25.200 in ten years' time?

03:19:27.820 Yes.

03:19:29.120 20 years' time?

03:19:30.060 No.

03:19:30.500 At 38?

03:19:30.960 Okay.

03:19:33.600 Lexi, more attractive

03:19:35.200 in ten years' time

03:19:35.820 at 28?

03:19:37.260 I think so.

03:19:39.060 More attractive

03:19:39.780 in 20 years' time

03:19:40.820 at 38?

03:19:44.120 I'd hope so,

03:19:45.100 but I don't know.

03:19:47.040 What do you think?

03:19:49.640 I mean,

03:19:51.360 I don't know.

03:19:52.980 A lot can change.

03:19:53.900 I think it also depends

03:19:54.880 on, like,

03:19:55.480 attracted to who.

03:19:56.520 Am I attractive

03:19:58.160 to teenage boys

03:19:59.900 still at 38

03:20:01.480 or attractive

03:20:02.320 to, like,

03:20:03.120 who?

03:20:03.980 Yourself.

03:20:04.780 Oh, myself?

03:20:05.180 Do you think you are?

03:20:06.360 Objective, I guess.

03:20:08.480 Then I'd say

03:20:09.640 probably.

03:20:11.180 Do you have a better chance

03:20:11.940 landing a modeling contract

03:20:13.720 now at 18

03:20:14.680 versus at 38?

03:20:15.940 Yeah.

03:20:16.780 Okay.

03:20:17.640 Well, that's one metric

03:20:18.420 you can use,

03:20:19.140 but, um,

03:20:21.700 POS,

03:20:22.280 you're 21.

03:20:23.020 Better looking

03:20:23.400 in ten years' time

03:20:23.980 at 31?

03:20:24.780 I think so,

03:20:25.580 considering, like,

03:20:26.400 my mom

03:20:26.920 and, like,

03:20:27.300 other family members.

03:20:28.840 My family age as well.

03:20:30.120 I plan to be.

03:20:32.880 Is she single?

03:20:33.460 My mom is single.

03:20:34.740 A lot of people ask.

03:20:37.320 Okay.

03:20:37.980 Uh,

03:20:38.560 better looking

03:20:39.200 in 20 years' time

03:20:40.000 at 41?

03:20:41.000 I think I'll, um,

03:20:42.300 stop

03:20:42.920 being attractive

03:20:44.620 maybe when I'm, like,

03:20:45.660 in my

03:20:46.240 late 60s,

03:20:47.900 when I'm, like,

03:20:48.820 wrinkly and short

03:20:50.020 and possibly

03:20:50.780 in a wheelchair.

03:20:51.580 What do you mean,

03:20:52.380 will be short?

03:20:53.600 I mean, like...

03:20:54.160 Like, you're already short, so...

03:20:55.360 No, I know,

03:20:56.060 but when you're old,

03:20:57.100 you, like,

03:20:57.560 get notched down

03:20:58.420 a little bit.

03:20:59.280 Yeah, when you're

03:20:59.940 in a wheelchair, yeah.

03:21:01.140 Some guys are into that.

03:21:02.560 Oh.

03:21:03.240 The wheelchair baddie. 1.00

03:21:04.520 I'll find those people.

03:21:06.280 But so, like,

03:21:07.460 uh,

03:21:08.520 the question isn't, like,

03:21:10.820 will you still, like,

03:21:11.880 it's not,

03:21:12.380 will you still be attractive?

03:21:13.480 Plenty of people

03:21:14.000 remain attractive

03:21:15.360 in their, you know,

03:21:17.560 late 20s, 30s,

03:21:18.620 40s, etc.

03:21:19.680 But it's compared to now.

03:21:21.960 Okay.

03:21:22.620 Yeah.

03:21:23.340 So, for more attractive,

03:21:24.520 will you be more attractive

03:21:25.500 at 41 versus now at 21?

03:21:28.040 Um, I think so.

03:21:29.660 Okay.

03:21:29.840 Because I think I have,

03:21:30.740 like, a better bone structure

03:21:31.740 when I'm older.

03:21:32.900 I don't know.

03:21:33.240 It's pretty good already,

03:21:34.360 I think.

03:21:35.160 Well, thank you.

03:21:36.380 Uh, 30 years time,

03:21:37.600 51 versus 21.

03:21:39.520 Um,

03:21:41.520 hmm.

03:21:42.460 No, I think that's

03:21:43.300 when the wrinkles were hit.

03:21:44.440 Okay.

03:21:45.040 Uh, you're 20, Chloe.

03:21:46.480 Uh, better looking

03:21:47.220 in 10 years time at 30.

03:21:49.080 Honestly,

03:21:49.520 I live day by day

03:21:50.760 hoping I don't develop

03:21:51.760 a cataract,

03:21:52.640 so I don't have much hope

03:21:54.280 for my looks in the future.

03:21:56.200 So, better looking now

03:21:57.340 at 20.

03:21:58.000 Better looking now

03:21:58.620 than at any age, yes.

03:21:59.580 Okay.

03:22:00.620 Uh, you're 18,

03:22:01.600 better looking in 10 years time

03:22:02.560 at 28?

03:22:03.180 Yeah.

03:22:03.920 Better looking in 20 years time

03:22:05.180 at 38?

03:22:06.600 I think so.

03:22:07.340 Better looking in 30 years time

03:22:08.640 at 48?

03:22:10.160 Yeah.

03:22:10.840 Better looking in 40 years time

03:22:12.400 at 58?

03:22:14.080 I think so.

03:22:14.940 Better looking in,

03:22:16.500 uh, okay,

03:22:17.660 40 years time

03:22:19.860 at 50,

03:22:20.580 did I already ask him?

03:22:21.060 No, 68.

03:22:22.160 Better looking in 50 years time

03:22:23.540 at 68?

03:22:25.620 Maybe not 68.

03:22:27.000 Where do you peak

03:22:27.560 of all these?

03:22:28.660 Where's the peak?

03:22:30.020 I think about 60.

03:22:32.460 Is that a troll answer?

03:22:33.780 Is that, like,

03:22:34.380 genuine?

03:22:36.180 Well,

03:22:37.320 like,

03:22:37.660 better looking,

03:22:39.340 okay,

03:22:39.700 but I think, like,

03:22:40.460 my fashion's gonna

03:22:41.520 get, like,

03:22:42.640 better.

03:22:43.660 Let's say you lived

03:22:44.560 in a nudist colony

03:22:45.600 for the rest of your life.

03:22:48.020 Um.

03:22:48.460 And you didn't wear

03:22:48.920 any clothes ever.

03:22:50.580 I like that.

03:22:52.960 I guess, like,

03:22:55.520 58 then?

03:22:57.180 Oh.

03:22:57.380 Comparing to now?

03:22:58.680 So, the nudist colony,

03:23:01.160 58 versus now?

03:23:02.220 I mean, it's what I think.

03:23:03.620 What you think?

03:23:04.500 Yeah.

03:23:04.760 Yeah.

03:23:05.760 I think I'll still be.

03:23:06.700 And then what about

03:23:07.180 with clothes?

03:23:08.240 So, with the fashion,

03:23:10.340 18-year-old you

03:23:11.360 versus 78-year-old you, 1.00

03:23:13.160 but she's fucking 1.00

03:23:14.180 killing it with the, 0.99

03:23:15.200 you're 78, 0.97

03:23:17.360 88,

03:23:18.980 Alzheimer's

03:23:19.960 coming in,

03:23:21.140 but the fashion

03:23:22.160 is on par, son.

03:23:23.700 No, like,

03:23:24.320 I would definitely

03:23:24.780 be more attracted

03:23:25.420 when I'm 78 then.

03:23:26.580 Like, if the fashion

03:23:27.280 was good,

03:23:27.900 then for sure.

03:23:28.980 You got Alzheimer's,

03:23:30.280 but the fashion

03:23:30.860 is on point.

03:23:32.000 Yeah.

03:23:32.740 Like, I'd physically

03:23:33.740 look good.

03:23:34.440 You'd look better.

03:23:35.300 You're just looking,

03:23:35.760 you're just talking

03:23:36.180 about physical appearance,

03:23:37.820 right?

03:23:38.120 Yeah, just physical appearance.

03:23:39.520 I would look better

03:23:40.020 at 78 than I do now.

03:23:41.340 Than you do now.

03:23:42.360 If I have, like,

03:23:42.960 incredible fashion.

03:23:44.720 You think the,

03:23:45.580 the fashion's gonna be

03:23:47.660 doing a lot of heavy lifting

03:23:48.840 at 78?

03:23:50.300 Well, it's just

03:23:50.780 in my perspective.

03:23:52.660 What is your perspective?

03:23:54.240 That, I think,

03:23:55.660 that I'll be, like,

03:23:57.300 or in my view,

03:23:57.840 I'll be, like,

03:23:58.280 beautiful no matter what age.

03:23:59.980 Can I answer your question?

03:24:00.660 So, you have a fitness model

03:24:02.500 versus, like,

03:24:05.060 an obese,

03:24:06.320 morbidly obese person.

03:24:07.920 But the morbidly obese person,

03:24:09.880 the fashion is, like, 1.00

03:24:11.200 fucking insane, bro. 0.99

03:24:13.140 And, like, 1.00

03:24:13.820 you've got, like,

03:24:14.740 this fitness model,

03:24:15.960 but she's wearing, like,

03:24:16.820 a sweatshirt

03:24:17.540 and sweatpants.

03:24:18.520 Who's more physically

03:24:19.420 attractive?

03:24:21.160 I think they're both

03:24:22.300 physically attractive.

03:24:23.140 You think being fat

03:24:26.020 is attractive? 0.73

03:24:27.920 She's a chubby chaser. 1.00

03:24:28.920 We established this.

03:24:31.500 Um,

03:24:31.980 I think

03:24:32.600 if you have great fashion,

03:24:34.500 like, you can't,

03:24:35.280 like, I think they're both

03:24:36.040 attractive.

03:24:36.560 Why can't they both

03:24:37.100 be attractive?

03:24:38.040 So, question for you.

03:24:39.340 Let's use you. 0.99

03:24:40.480 You, you're pretty fit,

03:24:42.240 right?

03:24:42.660 You do sports,

03:24:43.940 or you do,

03:24:44.500 I do yoga.

03:24:45.620 You do yoga.

03:24:46.260 You do yoga.

03:24:47.260 So, you're,

03:24:47.900 you're fit, right?

03:24:48.740 You're 18.

03:24:49.700 Do you think,

03:24:50.840 like, if we put you

03:24:52.140 in, like, sweatpants

03:24:53.260 and, like,

03:24:53.600 a baggy sweatshirt,

03:24:55.700 you versus,

03:24:57.840 uh,

03:24:58.800 it's Ellen, right?

03:25:01.060 Mm-hmm.

03:25:03.180 Uh,

03:25:03.820 so, you, Ellen,

03:25:05.220 versus morbidly obese Ellen, 1.00

03:25:07.400 but the fashion

03:25:08.280 is on point.

03:25:09.500 Like, on point.

03:25:11.020 Like, you look good. 1.00

03:25:12.560 Like, you're fat as fuck, 1.00

03:25:14.340 but you look good. 1.00

03:25:15.560 Like, mm, goddamn, 0.99

03:25:16.840 I don't know what you're wearing. 0.99

03:25:17.720 You're wearing some kind of

03:25:18.520 crazy, I don't know

03:25:19.660 what's in style for the ladies. 1.00

03:25:20.960 Like, some,

03:25:21.780 what's,

03:25:22.000 what's a good,

03:25:22.740 some good pause?

03:25:24.080 What's,

03:25:24.360 what's the fashion trend?

03:25:26.400 Uh.

03:25:27.000 I don't know,

03:25:27.280 your high-rise jeans

03:25:28.360 or something.

03:25:29.860 I think it's going back

03:25:31.220 to, like,

03:25:31.600 low-waisted now.

03:25:32.480 Low-waisted is back.

03:25:33.580 Yeah.

03:25:33.700 Okay, so you're,

03:25:34.560 you're morbidly obese. 0.61

03:25:35.960 You're 300 pounds,

03:25:37.220 but the fashion

03:25:38.120 on point, son.

03:25:39.960 On point,

03:25:40.660 you got the best heels

03:25:41.720 in the game.

03:25:44.120 They would break.

03:25:46.520 Is that a thing? 0.70

03:25:47.540 Can fat people 0.92

03:25:48.180 not wear heels? 0.98

03:25:49.520 Have you ever seen

03:25:50.100 a fat person wear heels? 1.00

03:25:51.120 They can pull it off 0.64

03:25:52.640 sometimes.

03:25:53.520 Oh, they do.

03:25:53.940 Yes, yes,

03:25:54.800 I actually have, yes. 0.53

03:25:56.440 Oh my God, gross.

03:25:58.040 That's got to be hard.

03:25:59.200 But you can say it's gross,

03:26:00.180 but I mean,

03:26:01.260 it definitely happens.

03:26:02.660 That's very bigoted of you,

03:26:04.880 Tiffany, 0.98

03:26:05.320 you bigot.

03:26:05.860 so current Ellen right here 1.00

03:26:10.080 sitting right here

03:26:10.800 versus 350 pound Ellen, 1.00

03:26:14.380 but fashion on point.

03:26:17.180 Who's hotter?

03:26:20.080 Okay, I think

03:26:21.340 the smaller me

03:26:22.820 is hotter

03:26:23.420 because I'm healthy.

03:26:24.700 Because if I'm morbidly obese,

03:26:26.360 I'm no longer healthy.

03:26:27.960 Okay.

03:26:28.600 If I'm a healthy weight,

03:26:29.920 then the fit

03:26:31.520 is always good.

03:26:32.040 But what about the fashion?

03:26:32.920 But the fashion obviously

03:26:34.680 is better for morbidly obese.

03:26:36.580 Like, let's say it's like

03:26:37.460 a group.

03:26:38.940 Are you in university?

03:26:39.900 You're in a university, right?

03:26:40.780 I am.

03:26:41.620 Are there frats

03:26:42.240 at your university?

03:26:44.020 There's frat part.

03:26:45.080 Yeah, like frats.

03:26:46.000 Oh, yeah.

03:26:46.220 She goes to UCSB.

03:26:47.240 Oh, dope.

03:26:47.340 I go to UCSB, yeah.

03:26:48.280 So think of like

03:26:49.320 five, six,

03:26:50.560 I don't know 1.00

03:26:50.780 what the fuck the frats are. 1.00

03:26:51.920 What's a frat here 1.00

03:26:54.780 at UCSB?

03:26:55.820 A pie. 1.00

03:26:57.680 Shut up, Tiffany. 1.00

03:26:58.440 Oh my God, Tiffany. 1.00

03:26:59.240 Tiffany, bro.

03:27:00.240 What?

03:27:00.500 Calm down, bro.

03:27:02.660 Calm down, Tiffany.

03:27:04.820 Tiffany, oh my God.

03:27:06.160 CBT.

03:27:07.760 What?

03:27:08.780 Sig Ep? 0.99

03:27:09.680 Is that a frat?

03:27:11.080 There's a Sigma Chi.

03:27:12.600 You know about them, Morgan?

03:27:14.940 All right.

03:27:16.400 Sig Ep. 0.92

03:27:17.240 Who do they pick?

03:27:18.680 I'm like being a dead horse.

03:27:19.940 Okay.

03:27:22.080 Ellen?

03:27:23.140 Or obese Ellen? 1.00

03:27:25.020 But with good fashion?

03:27:26.240 You already answered it.

03:27:29.660 To date.

03:27:30.260 I mean, I think

03:27:31.100 they would pick

03:27:32.260 something different

03:27:33.300 or they would pick

03:27:34.260 the smaller version of me

03:27:35.760 because that's just what

03:27:36.740 men, I feel like,

03:27:38.740 typically go for.

03:27:39.820 But I don't think

03:27:40.440 that's necessarily

03:27:41.080 always what I would think.

03:27:45.540 Okay.

03:27:46.120 All right.

03:27:46.740 So just to be clear,

03:27:48.180 you're peaking

03:27:49.480 at 78

03:27:51.160 when it comes to looks.

03:27:53.360 If I have great fashion.

03:27:54.600 Did that, yeah,

03:27:55.840 the great fashion.

03:28:00.760 Let me ask you a question.

03:28:04.340 Okay.

03:28:05.440 Would you rather date

03:28:06.900 an 18-year-old

03:28:08.440 or a 78-year-old

03:28:11.220 with really good fashion?

03:28:13.040 An 18-year-old.

03:28:14.600 Why though?

03:28:15.300 They're more attractive.

03:28:17.840 No, I think

03:28:18.600 I will personally

03:28:19.780 be more attractive

03:28:20.840 at that age.

03:28:21.520 I'm not saying

03:28:22.040 I see other people

03:28:23.560 attractive.

03:28:24.320 I'm also 18.

03:28:25.360 I'm not going to

03:28:25.940 date somebody.

03:28:26.860 But their fashion

03:28:28.080 is really good.

03:28:28.860 I can appreciate

03:28:29.480 their fashion from afar.

03:28:30.760 I don't need to think about it.

03:28:31.640 But wouldn't they be

03:28:32.200 more attractive?

03:28:34.400 Their fashion

03:28:35.280 makes them really cool

03:28:36.820 but doesn't mean

03:28:37.380 I want to date them.

03:28:38.560 How about this?

03:28:39.900 What do you think

03:28:40.920 all men would pick?

03:28:44.840 All men. 0.93

03:28:46.240 So like from 18

03:28:47.200 to like 100.

03:28:47.980 Do they prefer

03:28:49.480 78-year-old

03:28:51.220 fashionista Ellen

03:28:52.760 or 18-year-old

03:28:54.420 I mean you kind of dress

03:28:56.460 you know

03:28:57.400 whatever.

03:28:59.400 You dress good.

03:29:00.940 I'm sorry

03:29:01.280 I wasn't trying to insult you.

03:29:02.160 I'm just saying

03:29:02.440 like the fashion doesn't

03:29:03.740 I'm not like

03:29:04.280 you don't look 1.00

03:29:04.860 all fucked up and shit. 1.00

03:29:06.940 You don't look 1.00

03:29:07.700 fucked up. 0.99

03:29:08.980 No, but I feel like 0.99

03:29:10.020 You're put together.

03:29:10.660 You got a little polo.

03:29:11.240 Is that polo? 0.89

03:29:11.880 What is that?

03:29:12.620 It's Ralph Lauren.

03:29:13.800 You got Ralph Lauren.

03:29:14.980 That's nice.

03:29:16.220 It's a nice shirt

03:29:16.860 or blouse 0.98

03:29:17.840 or whatever the fuck 0.93

03:29:18.580 that is. 0.99

03:29:19.000 What is it?

03:29:19.460 A cardigan?

03:29:20.280 It's a cardigan.

03:29:21.100 That's very classy.

03:29:22.260 Cardigan.

03:29:23.040 Because I think at 78

03:29:24.260 I'll have very classy style.

03:29:26.180 You already got

03:29:26.600 you're wearing

03:29:27.520 a Ralph Lauren

03:29:28.320 whatever cardigan.

03:29:30.660 That's like what my

03:29:31.260 She's going to be

03:29:31.800 dripped out in Chanel.

03:29:34.920 Okay.

03:29:35.740 All right.

03:29:36.240 Good talk.

03:29:39.360 Okay.

03:29:39.940 What about you?

03:29:42.180 At 28

03:29:43.060 like 10 years from now?

03:29:44.120 Yeah.

03:29:44.300 So you're 23.

03:29:45.100 Will you be better looking

03:29:45.800 in 10 years time at 33?

03:29:47.460 Yes.

03:29:48.440 Better looking in 20 years time

03:29:49.640 at 43?

03:29:50.640 No.

03:29:51.440 Okay.

03:29:52.320 All right.

03:29:53.460 You're 26.

03:29:54.260 Better looking in 10 years time

03:29:55.340 at 36?

03:29:56.440 Yes.

03:29:56.940 I hope.

03:29:57.480 You hope?

03:29:57.880 Okay.

03:29:58.080 Better looking in 20 years time

03:29:59.020 at 46?

03:30:00.060 Probably not.

03:30:01.580 And then better looking

03:30:02.400 are you better looking now

03:30:03.380 at 26 than you were at 18?

03:30:05.540 Yes.

03:30:06.240 Okay.

03:30:06.980 Tiffany, you're 19.

03:30:07.960 Better looking in 10 years time

03:30:08.880 at 29?

03:30:09.760 Yes.

03:30:10.600 20 years time at 39?

03:30:12.180 Yes.

03:30:13.060 30 years time at 49?

03:30:14.600 Yes.

03:30:15.200 50 years time at 69?

03:30:16.880 Yes.

03:30:17.600 60 years time at 79?

03:30:22.340 No.

03:30:22.920 So you're peaking at

03:30:23.600 Wait, wait, wait.

03:30:24.100 69?

03:30:25.000 I meant to say no at 69.

03:30:27.560 Oh.

03:30:27.960 59.

03:30:28.620 59 is your, like,

03:30:29.620 that's the cutoff.

03:30:30.400 Okay.

03:30:30.580 Yeah.

03:30:32.700 Hmm.

03:30:34.080 Okay.

03:30:35.140 Do we have the Discord

03:30:36.280 ready to go on that?

03:30:37.460 Do we have the age forward?

03:30:39.800 Do we have multiples

03:30:41.160 multiples that have been sent in?

03:30:43.520 From who?

03:30:46.980 Okay.

03:30:47.540 Yeah.

03:30:47.660 Let's do his.

03:30:49.160 All right.

03:30:50.220 All right.

03:30:50.680 We have some chronically online

03:30:53.500 internet people

03:30:54.220 who are really good at AI.

03:30:56.440 Oh, my God.

03:30:57.300 Oh.

03:30:57.760 Whoa.

03:30:58.760 You look good.

03:30:59.720 What age is that?

03:31:00.680 What age is that?

03:31:02.140 Ghost.

03:31:04.440 Okay.

03:31:05.220 All right.

03:31:05.560 Next.

03:31:05.880 You looked at these first,

03:31:08.160 right, to make sure they're...

03:31:09.180 Oh, nice.

03:31:11.500 Okay.

03:31:12.200 All right.

03:31:13.620 Zerla, did you make the...

03:31:14.940 When were these captured?

03:31:17.000 Yeah.

03:31:17.760 During the show.

03:31:18.540 It's live.

03:31:19.280 What?

03:31:20.180 All right.

03:31:20.720 That's, I don't know,

03:31:21.300 that's like 10, 20 years

03:31:22.800 or something.

03:31:23.240 Right.

03:31:23.540 What age is this?

03:31:24.200 Next.

03:31:24.760 I don't know what they're doing,

03:31:26.060 but whoa.

03:31:27.500 I don't know about that. 1.00

03:31:28.480 Damn, you look mad. 0.99

03:31:29.480 I do. 1.00

03:31:30.500 What happened, bro?

03:31:31.440 Who hurt you?

03:31:32.620 Next.

03:31:33.040 Next.

03:31:33.100 Next.

03:31:33.160 Next.

03:31:35.880 Y'all did Chloe dirty, bro.

03:31:39.240 Come on.

03:31:40.000 Hey, put a...

03:31:40.880 Hey, ghost.

03:31:41.700 Ghost.

03:31:42.100 Are you still watching, bro?

03:31:43.620 Throw an eyepatch on her 1.00

03:31:44.760 just to see.

03:31:45.560 I just want to see, bro.

03:31:46.440 Just throw an eyepatch.

03:31:47.140 Everyone else is aged 0.75

03:31:47.920 like 20 years.

03:31:48.060 On the before and after.

03:31:48.980 Next.

03:31:49.620 Like 60.

03:31:51.780 Okay.

03:31:52.200 Hey, you know what?

03:31:53.060 Oh, I like that one.

03:31:54.120 I see it.

03:31:54.920 You kind of became

03:31:55.740 Asian, though.

03:31:56.460 I don't know what happened.

03:31:57.300 You became white 0.96

03:31:58.200 after a while.

03:31:59.640 Like, Asian, not white.

03:32:00.580 I like the bone structure

03:32:01.820 in that.

03:32:02.340 It looks...

03:32:02.900 Okay.

03:32:03.320 All right.

03:32:04.700 Next.

03:32:05.880 You look like you

03:32:09.680 got into politics.

03:32:13.520 No, but you're...

03:32:14.160 I don't know why.

03:32:14.660 I think your lips got bigger, too.

03:32:17.100 Oh, okay.

03:32:19.020 Well, I look bad.

03:32:21.020 Okay.

03:32:21.900 All right.

03:32:22.440 What have we got

03:32:23.160 for Tiffany over here?

03:32:24.640 Why do we look angry?

03:32:25.760 Why do you make them white, bro?

03:32:27.400 She's got blue eyes. 0.79

03:32:30.260 She's, like,

03:32:30.760 getting color contacts 0.99

03:32:31.520 or some shit. 0.97

03:32:32.120 Okay. 1.00

03:32:33.780 Next.

03:32:34.180 Eh, of course, bro.

03:32:35.940 Yeah.

03:32:37.480 Oh, no.

03:32:39.120 Oh, no.

03:32:40.360 What?

03:32:40.640 Did you combine them

03:32:41.340 with Jack Nicholson 1.00

03:32:42.420 or some shit? 0.99

03:32:43.120 Did you see that, Andrew? 1.00

03:32:44.460 That's like,

03:32:45.100 Andrew had a baby

03:32:46.620 with Jack Nicholson.

03:32:48.960 I like the hair.

03:32:50.260 It's good.

03:32:50.860 I think I got to move

03:32:51.840 towards that hairstyle

03:32:52.640 for sure.

03:32:53.240 You do.

03:32:53.580 All right.

03:32:56.600 Well, that's how

03:32:57.120 all of you look really old.

03:32:58.260 Keep an eye for the eyepatch,

03:32:59.560 by the way,

03:33:00.000 for that one.

03:33:00.800 Lucas.

03:33:01.580 Sina, can you read this?

03:33:03.000 Yeah, they teach statistics

03:33:04.240 in college.

03:33:05.360 Always a random

03:33:06.820 unflastical personal.

03:33:10.840 I can't read that.

03:33:11.920 Man, what's going on

03:33:12.520 in Canada, bro? 1.00

03:33:13.240 We got to fucking annex Canada. 1.00

03:33:15.920 Sorry. 0.99

03:33:16.760 But we will.

03:33:17.960 Under.

03:33:18.960 Like, did you know

03:33:19.620 that that's actually

03:33:20.260 like Trump ran on that?

03:33:21.540 What?

03:33:22.600 Trump's going to invade Canada.

03:33:23.920 Did you know that?

03:33:25.960 Yeah.

03:33:26.660 No, he's not.

03:33:27.180 It's ours now.

03:33:30.040 How do you feel about that?

03:33:31.780 I think I prefer Trump.

03:33:33.760 Oh, okay.

03:33:34.180 She's down for the annexation. 0.97

03:33:36.240 All right.

03:33:36.460 Here, I'll pull it back up again.

03:33:37.980 I bet Canadians

03:33:38.640 probably wish you would.

03:33:42.520 Okay, go ahead.

03:33:43.420 Give it another college try.

03:33:46.260 It's not that I can't read it.

03:33:47.520 It's too far.

03:33:48.720 That's why I know

03:33:49.300 it's kind of with a white table.

03:33:51.540 Always a random

03:33:52.420 unfalcifiable personal anecdote

03:33:54.200 to argue against

03:33:54.940 the rural population level studies

03:33:56.460 and data which have been

03:33:58.020 replicated over and over again

03:33:59.600 for decades.

03:34:00.660 That's from Lucas.

03:34:02.500 Do they teach statistics

03:34:03.560 in college?

03:34:05.100 I don't know.

03:34:05.960 Do they?

03:34:06.560 I think they do.

03:34:07.580 I don't know.

03:34:09.080 Sina, give this one a crack. 1.00

03:34:12.280 Rachel, please ask

03:34:13.380 these young women,

03:34:14.120 do they even know

03:34:15.680 what feminist is? 1.00

03:34:17.520 Really how it affects them.

03:34:19.400 It's like being

03:34:20.180 a communist

03:34:21.340 sympathizer

03:34:22.300 without knowing

03:34:23.240 they support it.

03:34:24.420 They support the cause.

03:34:27.620 All right, Joe Murphy.

03:34:28.720 Thank you so much

03:34:29.180 for the message, man.

03:34:30.220 Do really appreciate that.

03:34:31.780 All right.

03:34:32.420 Andrew,

03:34:32.940 do you want to bring Rachel?

03:34:34.300 You want to get Rachel in here? 1.00

03:34:36.440 Yeah, I'll grab her. 1.00

03:34:37.360 All right.

03:34:38.540 Sounds good.

03:34:39.320 Unless you had notes

03:34:40.160 on the conversation

03:34:41.340 that just occurred.

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03:34:48.040 for Rachel.

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03:36:33.500 i forgot if i thanked you mav for the prime appreciate it oh there she is in the flesh we 0.96

03:36:38.960 got rachel wilson in the building you wanted to talk about education did you have a you had

03:36:44.560 something on the education thing that i think was related it was just like related to like

03:36:52.380 what it's a public school education just one sec really quick can uh yo ab check thank you for the

03:36:57.560 gifted 20 memberships really appreciate it what was your thing um just like public school education

03:37:03.280 versus homeschooling education okay well i'll let rachel take over for a little bit and let you

03:37:08.500 guys have the conversation so take it away rachel hello ladies hey brian thanks for having me on

03:37:14.780 uh well since you had something i'll just let you go first with what you wanted to say and i'll just

03:37:19.440 respond oh me yeah i think oh didn't you say you had something about homeschool versus

03:37:27.400 public i just wanted to hear your um viewpoint on if you think that homeschooling education is better

03:37:33.460 or public school education is better and why so um well it's kind of funny you ask because i have

03:37:40.140 been homeschooling the kids for many years now um i did a little guest spot on tucker carlson's show

03:37:45.860 when he was still on fox to talk about the big spike in homeschooling during the pandemic

03:37:49.700 uh statistically homeschooled students do better overall like in pretty much every metric compared

03:37:56.720 to public school students um i think that there's a lot of big problems with public schooling now

03:38:03.520 not that it was ever great if you look into the history of public schooling and why it was started

03:38:07.940 and who started it uh it was never really about learning or making people smarter or preparing them

03:38:14.240 for adult life it was more so about preparing good little cogs in the wheel who were going to

03:38:20.880 follow you know the values of the state whatever the government wanted uh kids to do and it was

03:38:26.680 based on the prussian school system which was to make good soldiers for prussia so um i think

03:38:32.880 andrew's really spot on when he says school is not for smart people i think that's correct um

03:38:38.880 i think uh there's lots of ways to socialize kids and especially nowadays um there's homeschooling

03:38:45.880 co-ops homeschooling groups um there's more ways to connect and socialize than ever before and like

03:38:51.760 andrew said that our kids can do all the um like sports and the extracurricular activities they can

03:38:58.840 go to tech center vocational center all that kind of stuff so um it really just gives you the freedom

03:39:04.880 and with we have five kids so each kid has their own strengths their own weaknesses their own personality

03:39:11.460 their own way they prefer to learn one of the biggest weaknesses in public school is that

03:39:16.080 everybody you kind of have to cater to the lowest common denominator so if you're like a little

03:39:20.760 smarter you might have a hard time if you're somebody who has a different style of learning

03:39:24.880 that's not really adaptable to public school you're going to have a hard time

03:39:28.300 and especially boys uh public school is really catered to girls it's catered to girls doing stuff like 0.99

03:39:35.660 sitting still getting in line uh my cat's freaking out over there and he's trying to he's trying to

03:39:41.660 handle him but yeah so i i much prefer homeschooling for a lot of reasons we can get as much done in a

03:39:47.440 day at homeschool in about two hours as the kids would learn in you know seven hours of a regular

03:39:53.280 school day and i would say they retain a lot more of it and there's no need for like extra homework when

03:39:57.940 you get home things like that so i'm a huge homeschooling advocate and it's worked great for our

03:40:03.480 family i know that not every parent may be great at homeschooling but not every parent's a great

03:40:08.140 parent there's always going to be some people who don't do well regardless of what we're talking

03:40:12.940 about so yeah kind of where i would go with it i absolutely love your comment um i was just i think

03:40:20.160 it kind of like bothered me initially because i didn't really like the generalization that you know

03:40:25.400 homeschooling's best for everyone i think there are definitely like special cases like just like you said

03:40:30.880 like super super like geniuses or like prodigies like they should be homeschooled and you know develop

03:40:37.160 those talents and um knowledge but i think i went to public school um and then i also went to like a

03:40:44.880 small private school as well for high school and i just found so much or i feel like i learned so much

03:40:52.360 in public schools and private schools um not only kind of like obviously i think if i was homeschooled i may

03:40:59.740 have known more oh sorry he's over here wrestling the cat oh no worries i feel like maybe that would

03:41:08.000 have gone me like academically like further but i feel that the social um benefits like the socialization

03:41:16.460 was enhanced i guess in a way in public schooling because you know you're going to school every day

03:41:23.580 and you're forced to socialize so i feel like that grew my socialization skills um whereas i feel that

03:41:31.920 like homeschooling yes you can you know do activities like extracurriculars but you're not seeing the same

03:41:38.540 people every day because like you know soccer practice is like three times a week but i think there's a few

03:41:44.820 things you're not thinking about like for example uh most children's first exposure to violence is in a

03:41:50.660 public school uh public schools are more prone to violence um child sa incidents happening than even

03:41:59.440 private schools churches pretty much any other place uh schools are pretty dangerous on average now

03:42:06.240 and uh you then you have all of the indoctrination with certain gender ideologies like at least when i'm

03:42:13.060 homeschooling my child i know they're not going to come back a different gender right um they're gonna 1.00

03:42:18.060 they're gonna still be a girl if they were a girl that morning i'm not gonna put them on the bus and 0.63

03:42:22.400 they're gonna come back a boy so there's that um and the other thing is that we've only had compulsory

03:42:28.160 public education for about a century all of human history prior to that nobody had public school do you

03:42:34.940 think that people weren't socialized of course they were and one of the problems when we were talking

03:42:39.300 about women in the workplace and working moms earlier we used to have community uh everywhere

03:42:45.780 throughout all of history children were raised by their mothers but not just their mothers the

03:42:50.840 all the women were at home with the kids so mom had her sisters and her cousins and her neighbors and

03:42:55.880 her friends who were all also raising their children and so it was kind of done all together

03:43:01.180 everybody wasn't isolated you didn't have uh little boy number one in high school little daughter

03:43:06.580 number two in junior high and then mommy goes to work in her building and daddy goes to work in his

03:43:10.920 building and everybody's separated and atomized and then we have to try to come back together

03:43:15.160 for two hours at the end of the day before we all go to bed uh the socialization thing was never a

03:43:21.120 problem it's only a problem now because yeah the parents aren't home the family's not around

03:43:25.700 all the women are in cubicles so it's everything has changed so much in a century that it's it is tough 1.00

03:43:33.500 to talk about because all of you especially grew up in this modern world with the internet and with

03:43:39.300 working parents and strong independent boss moms who told you that the most important thing to do 1.00

03:43:44.360 was be uh ambitious and have a career right but i want to ask you guys a question what do you think

03:43:49.460 about this so do you guys think that the feminists who came before you or the strong independent women

03:43:55.600 you know your grandmas and your great grandmas did they fight for the right to be career women 1.00

03:44:01.100 and go to college like is that something that you think they had to fight for that was worth fighting for

03:44:06.460 okay we'll just start over here and chair one and go around do you think that it was a good thing

03:44:12.820 that women you know did they fight for their right to work and be educated and be independent

03:44:18.560 and was that a good thing yes i think they did and i think it was a good thing yes okay what about

03:44:26.160 number two i agree yes they did fight for it because they didn't get it in the past and it is a good

03:44:32.960 thing okay okay number three i agree same okay um my family definitely did fight i am from thailand

03:44:44.340 and a lot of um jobs are like either like you're a farmer or you work for the government so to them

03:44:52.600 school is very important whether it's homeschooling or private school or public school um and i have a

03:44:59.700 different viewpoint from my family completely because i don't think that um people who are

03:45:05.760 like can be successful and intelligent should always be in school i have family members who

03:45:12.420 never finished high school even college and they are thriving making a lot of money because they have

03:45:18.940 learned um like actual life skills things that you are not taught when you're in school

03:45:26.080 a good point okay what about number five um i think my family did i'd say overall it's a good thing

03:45:34.600 but i do think that some people didn't necessarily they may have fought too for it but maybe they

03:45:42.740 weren't fighting for themselves because i can recognize that plenty of people don't want to

03:45:46.280 have to go do that but nowadays you're expected to so i think it's definitely a mixture okay

03:45:55.000 what about you i think it's a mixture as well but i think some women did fight um to have you know 1.00

03:46:03.420 a career okay um i would say yes in india you know it's at least back then or when my mom grew up it

03:46:13.420 wasn't always a guarantee you get an education there's a range marriage you're expected to have 1.00

03:46:17.680 children she always wanted what's best for me and she's always been pushing me to get an education

03:46:23.240 um build a life for myself so i agree that um i think the the fight was for good and it is still

03:46:33.220 good now it's still applicable now wait was the question whether women fought for our education or 1.00

03:46:39.220 not or if it was a good thing women do you think that women had to fight for the right to be able to 1.00

03:46:44.120 have careers and do you think that was good um i guess historically women did fight i'm i'm kind of

03:46:54.660 torn on the good or bad part because i do believe in equal opportunity but i think it was overall a

03:47:03.180 detriment to society that women were sent to work okay i'm going to follow that up with a second 0.92

03:47:11.320 question so if women fought for the right to work and have careers and be able to be independent have 1.00

03:47:16.920 their own money and have an education do you think that it's a privilege for a woman to be able to stay 1.00

03:47:22.860 home with their children like if if i said oh well i stay home with my kids and my husband works would

03:47:28.120 you say well not all women have that privilege so is it i'm asking is it a privilege to be a stay-at-home

03:47:33.980 mom or is it are you oppressed if you're a stay-at-home mom

03:47:37.300 i think um people would look at it both ways personally i think it is a privilege because

03:47:47.600 as we were talking about earlier you know like she also said just now um most women were forced 1.00

03:47:54.480 to go to work which they didn't want to they wanted to stay home um so in that case it would

03:47:59.140 be a privilege but then for other cases it would be oppression but i would think it was a privilege

03:48:05.040 okay number two what do you think i agree i think it is a privilege for a woman to stay at home 1.00

03:48:12.200 but also i also think it depends on the woman like whether or not you want to like if the man is able to

03:48:20.260 be the one providing okay what about three um i think if your husband makes enough to where

03:48:31.720 you guys can do that i think that's a pretty good thing i think it's a privilege

03:48:35.740 okay what about number four i think if you're yes your husband is wealthy enough to support you and

03:48:45.280 your entire family and you can just stay at home take care of your kids like not really have to

03:48:50.840 worry about making money yourself in your career then that is a privilege okay i think overall i think

03:48:59.800 it's a privilege at the same time i know that if i had a child while i'd want to be able to stay

03:49:05.680 home with them and especially their more formative years i also would need some sort of other work

03:49:11.680 beyond just my kid because i wouldn't want to just feel like i lost myself

03:49:15.500 okay number six yeah i think sorry guys i don't have your names here so i'm just going by your chair

03:49:22.480 number um it always like depends on the case but i think it's a privilege in some cases as mentioned

03:49:28.180 before um yes i i think it's a privilege to stay at home i think it's a wonderful thing to be

03:49:35.320 stay at home all my housewife if your husband can support it then yeah a privilege 1.00

03:49:40.920 privilege okay so i want you guys to think about the fact that when we went around with both those

03:49:46.260 questions everybody said yes women had to fight for the right to be able to get an education and have 1.00

03:49:52.160 a career and then everyone also said but if you can stay home with your children you are privileged

03:49:57.920 how could that be the case how could it be both how could it be that uh you had to fight you know

03:50:04.700 women had to fight and blaze a trail and a path to be able to work outside the home and have their 1.00

03:50:09.740 own money and careers but also if you can stay home with your children that you're privileged

03:50:14.920 because wouldn't they only have been fighting for the right to have careers and education if they

03:50:19.540 were oppressed before when they were staying at home by the way i want to mention something else

03:50:23.700 in all my research in every culture around the world there has never been any law i'm aware of

03:50:31.360 where women were expressly forbidden from working so if you have this idea that women weren't

03:50:37.000 allowed to work or women weren't allowed to be educated there may be some countries like india

03:50:42.000 where perhaps uh girls can't go to school or parts of africa but i'm mainly talking about the western

03:50:47.660 world in america where where we all are uh women have always been allowed to work but before feminism 1.00

03:50:55.380 and before the industrial revolution it didn't make sense why because if you had the like the average

03:51:01.920 woman in the year 1800 had seven children seven births probably a few of them might not make it

03:51:06.720 to adulthood but if you had seven births why on earth would you want a career outside the house i

03:51:12.080 mean like why would you what are you going to do pay daycare for seven kids and here's the other thing

03:51:17.000 you guys are talking about um women should have a career if they're going to be moms and uh we can just 1.00

03:51:23.040 pay daycare or have family come in and it's like you realize that that's really stupid and here's why 0.90

03:51:30.260 because how does it make sense for me to say you know what i'm a mom but i deserve a career and i 0.88

03:51:36.300 i'm ambitious and i have career goals and i need to be able to work so i'm going to hire this other

03:51:41.500 woman to come in and do the mothering for eight or nine hours a day while i'm gone well what about 1.00

03:51:46.240 that woman she doesn't deserve a career you're just all you're doing is shifting the stuff over right 1.00

03:51:53.980 so earlier somebody said um you know well why can't the dad stay home i want to know what you

03:52:00.840 guys think about that what do you guys think it's the same if dad stays home do you think that it's

03:52:06.100 just as good if dad's staying home if everybody did that it'd be fine um can we address the entire

03:52:13.880 question or would you like sure okay whatever you guys want to say we can just kind of open it up

03:52:18.340 so um i kind of see like i see what you're saying it's kind of like a we look like we want to have

03:52:25.180 our cake and eat it too kind of concept but it's more so as i would say i think it is um that we

03:52:34.200 fight to go to work so that we have money to pay bills we have money to put food on the table and

03:52:39.200 do things like that that's why we get our jobs but then we would also like to be at home and stay

03:52:45.880 with our children and stuff like that so i see it in your way but then i also see it in mine

03:52:50.800 and um your other question was i'm sorry well do you think that it's the same if dad stays home

03:52:57.440 because that was something that came up earlier in the panel because i don't remember which one of

03:53:01.240 you said it to andrew but you were like well why can't the dad just stay home why does it have to be

03:53:05.080 me and why should it be mom that stays home do you think well i think personally um the dad can stay

03:53:14.360 home as well i think either either as long as there is a parent present it's you know great

03:53:20.840 both ways so what do you think would happen if society-wide let's say that you know women are 1.00

03:53:27.280 strong and they're rising they're getting more college degrees than men are today which by the

03:53:31.540 way that's not very new uh women have had higher literacy rates and higher high school graduation rates 1.00

03:53:36.500 in the united states since we started tracking those numbers in 1790 and i'll i can get to why later but

03:53:43.720 what if we shifted everything and suddenly the next generation 80 percent of the children are

03:53:49.780 raised by the dads the dads stay home and the moms go to work do you think that that would work for 0.56

03:53:55.600 society like on a society-wide level i see number two shaking her head no why do you think that might

03:54:03.380 not work because i believe that if your kid is raised like from a mother or a father it's different

03:54:15.060 like there's some stuff that a mother can't provide that a father can provide but there's also a lot of

03:54:20.880 stuff that a father can't provide that a mother can that's true but it's even simpler than that 0.95

03:54:28.460 do you know what the top 20 most important and dangerous jobs are like if you look at job statistics

03:54:35.860 the top 20 jobs that we need the most that that are most important to keeping this whole

03:54:41.900 infrastructure running so you guys are all sitting here in a studio there's lights there's camera

03:54:46.160 there's it's a concrete building you're up on the you know you're up in this building with windows

03:54:51.380 and there's electricity we have internet right all this infrastructure is built by men so all of the 0.95

03:54:58.840 stuff you need to keep society running logging engineering concrete mixing and laying all forms

03:55:05.860 of construction power line work uh cell phone towers everything infrastructure related those are the most

03:55:13.900 dangerous the most difficult and the most important jobs and they are occupied by anywhere from

03:55:21.180 80 to 99 men like if you look at concrete work it's 99.8 men women don't lay concrete do you think 1.00

03:55:30.960 that society would keep going if we had all the concrete layers at home raising the kids what if

03:55:35.800 all of the men who run the telecommunications your cell phone your wi-fi your high-speed internet what

03:55:42.480 if all the men who build those systems fix them when they go down what if they were all at home raising

03:55:47.840 babies what if all of the power linemen the guys who go out like we just had this massive bunch of

03:55:52.640 hurricanes in the southeast and knocked out the power to all of appalachia and all of florida for

03:55:57.640 a couple of weeks all the people who go in there and rebuild that and rescue people from the floods and

03:56:02.880 rebuild everything that's all men so what do you think would happen if we had an economy where all the 1.00

03:56:09.440 women went to work and the men stayed home do you know what the top 20 jobs occupied by women are 0.98

03:56:14.300 they're the same top 20 jobs occupied by women a hundred years ago so if you look at the top 20 0.81

03:56:21.320 most female jobs in 1920 and the top 20 most female jobs in 2020 they're almost exactly the same all we 0.99

03:56:28.520 did was swap hr and farm work so more women did like small time farm work back then and more of them do 1.00

03:56:35.460 hr now but other than that women are like early childhood educators teachers nurses bookkeeping retail 1.00

03:56:42.200 workers food service industry workers things like that so you men and women are not interchangeable

03:56:50.080 moms and dads are not interchangeable so this idea that like oh i can be a strong independent boss babe

03:56:56.080 and i'll just outsource the child care or dad can just stay home you could argue that that's fine on

03:57:02.340 some individual levels but if we make this the like society-wide expectation everything that allows you

03:57:08.720 girls to think that you are strong independent boss babes who can do it on your own crumbles it 1.00

03:57:13.560 disappears it turns to dust there's no more wi-fi there's no more electricity kiss your air conditioning

03:57:19.980 goodbye there's nobody to fix your car when it breaks you don't have gasoline because there's no oil

03:57:24.520 rig workers you know getting the gas that you use to drive your car so basically this is all kind of

03:57:31.920 delululand stuff this idea that like oh we can just do whatever we want it's just depends on my

03:57:37.580 personal preference and you know it'll all be fine so i mean a lot of what andrew tries to get you guys

03:57:43.920 to think about is what you want on a personal level is not the only question here it's not the only moral

03:57:49.960 question it's not it's not the only thing to consider there's a greater good society has to work

03:57:55.740 together as a whole so i know i just threw a lot at you but does anybody have anything they want to

03:58:00.840 jump in on um with me specifically my mom actually had to hide her pregnancy because in thailand when 1.00

03:58:10.940 you are found out that you are having a baby or has a baby you have to stop working completely and

03:58:17.760 you're expected to take care of the child and then later your expected child is supposed to help

03:58:23.800 support your family okay i mean i'm not sure if i would say that's good or bad there are some like

03:58:35.660 ethical issues or concerns i would have when we're discussing like kind of christian societies versus

03:58:41.120 non-christian societies and that's like a whole other topic but in general i would say that pregnant

03:58:47.220 women nursing mothers mothers of young children should be at home with those children if you look 1.00

03:58:52.160 at the statistics in 1940 only about six percent of american women who had children under five

03:58:58.700 worked outside the home now that number is like 58 it's like super high most little babies and little

03:59:06.760 children's moms spend most of their day at the office and as a mother 95 95 of all the time you'll 1.00

03:59:14.600 ever spend with your child is gone by the time they turn 18 you don't ever get those years back you don't

03:59:21.160 ever get to do that over you don't ever get that time so to me you're you're taking a precious finite

03:59:27.640 gift that you have you're taking this this limited time of your life a short time in your life that you

03:59:33.740 get to spend raising your own children and you're giving it away to somebody else some 11 12 an hour

03:59:39.900 daycare worker because you think being in the office is more important and i understand completely that

03:59:46.320 we're brainwashed and propagandized to think that i was told all the time from the time i was little

03:59:51.180 you have to go to college you have to have a career you have to have your own money because if you don't

03:59:56.060 what what do they say will happen to you if you don't have your own money if you don't have your own

04:00:00.300 job what's going to happen you'll get trapped a man could abuse you what if he leaves you what if he

04:00:09.040 dies what if he cheats but nobody ever asks uh wait what if i spend all of my years going to college

04:00:15.400 to be a surgeon right i want to be a neurosurgeon like a really important job i'm shooting for the

04:00:21.500 stars nobody ever says well wait a second what if you get in an accident and uh you know your arm gets

04:00:28.440 broken and you can't do surgery or what if you get arthritis and you can't use the scalpel anymore like

04:00:33.740 what if your eyesight goes bad and you can no longer perform surgery nobody fear mongers women 1.00

04:00:39.260 about all the things that can go wrong when you base your whole life around your career they only

04:00:44.740 fear monger women about what could go wrong if they base their life around being a wife and mother 0.99

04:00:49.500 and i just think you guys probably don't ever get a chance to hear anybody say that to you so i wanted

04:00:55.740 the chance to say it i actually really appreciate hearing a different perspective um and i

04:01:03.700 feel like you're very like well-knowledged so it's very interesting um what do you have to say

04:01:08.580 so thank you i just wanted to say that yeah thanks i'm glad that you guys wanted to listen but if

04:01:13.900 anybody has like an objection or like a a counter-argument or you're listening to me and you're

04:01:18.460 like well wait a minute but what about this rachel or what about that you know i'm happy to hear it if

04:01:23.600 you have any objections or other thoughts about that i think that it is perfectly fine like i agree

04:01:30.600 with your viewpoint you know you should be there in your child's formative years um i also think that

04:01:36.700 i want a choice that where maybe i don't know if i see a future with having kids in it and if i want

04:01:42.840 to be that neurosurgeon if i want to be an anesthesiologist whatever that i can do that without

04:01:49.920 having to worry about someone saying you're wasting all your childbearing years or you want to be a

04:01:55.020 stay-at-home wife like i mean i like i said again i my mom's a stay-at-home mom i love her um i think

04:02:01.960 being a stay-at-home mom's like amazing but i also think that a lot of women um their their mothers 1.00

04:02:08.720 weren't allowed to have the choice to do what they want or be who they wanted because they were raising

04:02:14.320 them and i think that if they you know maybe they don't want kids and they do want to pursue their

04:02:19.280 career goals that they should be free too okay so you guys were talking earlier about south korea and

04:02:25.320 how it has the lowest birth rate on planet earth right now which it does it's like 1.6 child per

04:02:30.480 woman uh but did you know that the whole world except for a handful of african countries and israel

04:02:36.400 are well below replacement and have been for a long time if you guys follow elon musk on twitter

04:02:41.260 he's probably the most famous person who's talked a lot about the birth rate collapse and what it could

04:02:46.160 mean um and so basically in in the year 2024 we've got uh planet-wide logistics that have

04:02:54.120 pretty much wiped out hunger the only places where there's still hunger there's um kind of like

04:03:00.200 extenuating circumstances reasons why that's still a problem but in all the developed nations like

04:03:05.520 nobody has starved to death in the united states for many decades it's not a thing and the reason that's

04:03:11.960 the case is because we had this big population boom during the industrial revolution another baby boom

04:03:18.040 after world war ii and with all of the time and human capital and um brilliance of people problem

04:03:25.240 solving and just more people in general we've been able to eradicate a lot of problems we used to have

04:03:31.440 with things like hunger getting resources where they need to go if we experience population collapse

04:03:36.600 which we are if it keeps going where it's going now we're going to start having problems and we're

04:03:40.920 already seeing that so supply chains we're already seeing some supply chain failures because there's

04:03:45.600 simply not enough labor we don't have enough people it's one of the reasons there's so much

04:03:49.640 illegal immigration but even the places where those illegal immigrants were coming from their populations

04:03:55.020 are now well below replacement rates so we're running out of people to even import places like japan and

04:04:01.700 canada don't have enough young people to uh support the elderly populations there's just not enough

04:04:07.740 young people to you know pay into the social security system or work at nursing homes or work

04:04:12.660 in senior health care to take care of the elderly so again we can say it's really nice oh i want the

04:04:19.800 chance to follow my dream of being a neurosurgeon and i'm sure there's always going to be some women 1.00

04:04:24.900 who do that but let me ask how many of the women here have a college degree everybody raise your hand if 1.00

04:04:32.140 you got a degree there's oh a lot of you okay what's your degree and just go around and just tell me

04:04:37.640 real quick what your degree is in to start i have my associates in social and behavioral sciences

04:04:44.640 okay and next um just associates okay in what what field um in like mathematical

04:04:57.260 okay uh next number five do you have a psychology but i don't really intend to use my degree i just

04:05:07.060 wanted to get it yeah psychology is probably the most oversaturated and most female field at the 1.00

04:05:13.860 moment so it's tough to get a good paying job and then next what's yours i'm currently obtaining a

04:05:19.240 ba in psych and brain okay and next health science health sciences okay next uh poli sci and econ

04:05:28.580 okay uh are all of you so one of you said you're not intending to work in the field are the rest of

04:05:35.440 you all intending to have careers in the field you're getting a degree in

04:05:38.820 okay and did you probably most of you said yes did you notice that it's usually the same stuff like

04:05:48.620 i was saying it's like health care it's psychology it's like behavioral stuff um most of you aren't

04:05:53.780 going to be like structural engineers most of you aren't going to be like building life-saving

04:05:58.520 medical devices or you know any of those like super essential jobs um i mean nursing there's some

04:06:06.040 things you could argue are pretty essential but men could do those jobs too so why would it not be

04:06:11.000 smarter to have all of you ladies here if we had raised you different if we had raised you to say 1.00

04:06:15.720 being a virtuous woman who is a good mother and a good wife and a good caretaker and a good member

04:06:23.440 of the community you know you're doing all the community stuff women used to do like uh organizing 1.00

04:06:28.580 community functions and church things and uh programs for kids and just all those support roles that

04:06:34.180 women used to do would it be a better world if we were raising all of you girls to do that instead 1.00

04:06:39.280 of raising you to start your only fans uh go to college earn a degree by the way i bet a lot of

04:06:46.240 you have some college debt the average woman has like forty thousand dollars in college debt after 1.00

04:06:51.140 she graduates so now you're having to go into your 20s with a whole bunch of debt and a degree that

04:06:56.920 you may or may not be able to find a job in that you may or may not like the job right and you're

04:07:02.920 forgoing all of the childbearing years to chase that stuff do you think that that's like a net

04:07:08.040 positive do you think that's a smart like if you were king of the nation or queen of the nation

04:07:12.560 would that be how you'd want to organize things um can i say i just wanted to say that i get why

04:07:21.320 you're asking this line of question i just don't see it being um asked to men a lot like why did you

04:07:27.440 choose to be a neurosurgeon why don't you just you know do this line of work and said why do you

04:07:32.020 choose to be ambitious like i feel like it's so directed at women like why did you choose to

04:07:37.520 like um leave your virtuous women duties and pursue a career but i really don't see that

04:07:44.000 costum and i i understand why you know i understand there's traditional duties assigned to men and

04:07:49.480 women but you know society's changed and i i don't understand why we still have to go through this line 0.93

04:07:55.380 questioning well i'll tell you why because the current state of things is completely unsustainable

04:08:01.180 people ask me all the time what do you think is going to happen how do we battle feminism how do 0.89

04:08:06.160 we battle the problems of in modernity that we have with falling birth rates and broken families

04:08:11.480 high divorce rates and people not even bothering to get married anymore and nobody having babies what

04:08:16.260 do you what should we do rage how do we fix this and i'm like it's a self-correcting problem

04:08:20.440 because this situation is totally unsustainable the future if everybody turns out if all the young 1.00

04:08:27.460 women are raised like you girls and they have your mentality and this is not a dig at any one of you 1.00

04:08:31.660 individually because i understand exactly the world you were raised in the propaganda you were raised with

04:08:37.740 everything from pop music to movies to every tv show you've ever watched tells you you need to be a

04:08:43.680 strong independent woman and have a career and follow your dreams and all that stuff i get it

04:08:48.180 but the future if everybody follows your path is there is no future there's no world because there's

04:08:55.000 no people there's nobody to keep the lights on uh and humanity dies out and the reason why when you

04:09:02.100 say why do we have to endure this line of questioning it's because only one of us can have the babies 0.69

04:09:07.320 the men can't have the babies they can't just date a child for nine months and birth it and nurse it 0.96

04:09:13.640 and raise it and we need the men to be making the world livable for the only people who can do that 0.60

04:09:19.900 which is women so all of the other jobs all the careers we've talked about those careers exist to 1.00

04:09:25.840 support one occupation one purpose which is being a mother the world around you the reason it's built

04:09:34.540 is so that future generations can be born that's the only reason for it what good is a world full of

04:09:40.180 technology and robots and wi-fi and electricity if no one's going to be born into it if if we're

04:09:46.400 having like one child per woman in fact in the united states we have uh rising mortality rates for the

04:09:54.180 first time since the industrial revolution we're the only developed nation in the world that has rising

04:09:59.420 mortality rates meaning more women are dying in childbirth than years past it's on the rise why would 0.98

04:10:05.840 that be anybody take a guess as to why mothers would be dying more in childbirth in america now

04:10:12.180 than they were the last like 60 70 years they start having babies later on their life you got it that's

04:10:18.600 exactly right the rising uh maternal age is the reason for that so having babies when you're 35 plus 0.86

04:10:25.960 is a lot riskier it's a lot riskier to the mom it's riskier to the child and what happens when we train

04:10:30.840 women to do education and career first and then think about family when they're in their 30s 40s 1.00

04:10:35.960 you maybe get one to two children that's it so i understand on an individual level you might be

04:10:43.140 annoyed and be like well but my dream of uh you know whatever you wanted to do i think you said uh some

04:10:49.060 kind of health care related field i mean that's cool and everything but you won't have a world there

04:10:55.320 won't be a world left for you to do anything in if we don't have kids so i've asked this question

04:11:00.760 before but i want to ask you guys going around if if it was the case that you had a choice you could

04:11:09.040 either do what you want with your life you could follow your dreams and have a career or and if you

04:11:14.000 do that if all of you did that the human race dies out in 300 years from now or if all of you decide

04:11:21.040 okay we're going to have children and be moms but you don't get to chase your personal dreams and your

04:11:27.080 your career goals and your material ambitions but the human race gets to survive which would you pick

04:11:33.460 personally i would choose my career just because i don't want children and although that doesn't really

04:11:45.420 matter to this exact question i think that we're all gonna die at some point and i mean if you're

04:11:54.400 not living your life for you then what are you living it for i mean i don't know that's my personal

04:11:59.120 opinion though everybody else can be different all right what what about number two well you said

04:12:06.840 something earlier about how like it's mainly men who are doing the engineering and like the lighting

04:12:13.460 and stuff but i i'm currently in engineering and there there's been like a lot of women in 1.00

04:12:20.020 engineering too and this might be like a sidetrack but what would happen like to those women who are 1.00

04:12:26.420 chasing after that degree would they just not achieve it then yeah so in the hypothetical scenario i just laid

04:12:35.200 out yeah um i'm just asking you personally if if they came to you and they said look ladies we're

04:12:41.300 recruiting moms because otherwise we're projecting that humanity is going to die out in 300 years 1.00

04:12:46.420 so we're asking you please stay home and have children but i mean we're going to let you choose 0.91

04:12:51.460 your career if that's what you want to do but if you do do that if most of you do that you know we only

04:12:56.440 got about 300 years left before humanity dies out what would you choose and i'll answer the question

04:13:01.280 about what would happen to the other women in a minute i would stay home and take care of my children 1.00

04:13:06.000 okay what about number three

04:13:08.720 i don't know i feel like that's a really really tough thing to decide on but

04:13:17.780 i feel like okay can i ask you a question and then depending on your answer do you think it's

04:13:28.000 smarter for women to have their kids and then once they hit 18 then start a life or do you think a 0.99

04:13:36.020 woman's life should just be raising her kids i think we give women uh bad advice because we tell them 1.00

04:13:43.720 to do everything backwards i think it's inverted so i think uh you should spend your early adulthood

04:13:49.440 finding a good husband and having your family and once your kids get older say your youngest is like

04:13:56.120 10 or 12 you can start making moves toward okay maybe i want to do this you know once they're out

04:14:01.620 of school maybe uh once they're all grown up and moved out maybe i want to do this occupation or i

04:14:06.440 want to go to college for this yeah you can start like going part-time to college paying it a piece

04:14:10.220 at a time you can start preparing yourself for other things because there's a lot of life after i'm 44

04:14:14.560 years old uh my oldest two are in their 20s and moved out the youngest two are still at home

04:14:19.680 and so i can do some stuff like this you know now i have a book that i wrote and i can come on and

04:14:25.140 talk to you guys i can do some more fun things but i put in you know what uh about 18 years of

04:14:32.560 child raising before i really got to that and everybody told me i was doing it wrong they were

04:14:37.680 like oh you're oh it's such a shame your life's going to turn out horrible you're you're making

04:14:42.660 the wrong choice you're going to regret it you're going to wish that you had your own money and your

04:14:45.820 own job and blah blah blah blah it's that's not how it turned out for me and i think that all women 1.00

04:14:51.260 could do it that way and they did like we have a lot of uh incorrect ideas about what life was like

04:14:56.600 for women before feminism they weren't all chained to stove and not allowed to leave the house and all 1.00

04:15:01.120 that shit that's all baloney but what i what i'm trying to get at here is like each of you when we 0.86

04:15:07.520 talk about which choice you'd make like the career or the babies we've asked this before and i'll let 0.99

04:15:13.840 you keep going around but usually it ends up being well i'm going to do what makes me happy

04:15:17.260 and if humanity dies it dies but men don't ever even really get that choice men don't ever

04:15:24.600 even contemplate that men are like well the world needs to be built you know men don't get value just

04:15:30.820 from being cute like you guys could do nothing you could just sit there and every word that comes out

04:15:36.180 of your mouth can be absolutely r-worded and you can be total airheads and be totally good for nothing

04:15:41.240 and as long as you're cute some man is going to love you and pay your bills and give you whatever you 0.85

04:15:45.740 want and do whatever he needs to do to make you happy men don't have that men have to provide value 0.82

04:15:51.420 or nobody gives a shit about them and even when they do provide value people still don't give a 0.85

04:15:55.900 shit about them men have always been expendable they're always going to be expendable according 0.97

04:16:00.380 to the world that's just how it is so men know like well if the concrete needs to be laid i'm gonna 0.99

04:16:05.800 lay the concrete if the power lines are down i'm gonna go outside and like figure out how to get them

04:16:09.840 back up men don't have this idea that there's no duty for them and that their life is just about

04:16:15.500 them and what they want to pursue it's just not like how how the male mindset works and the way

04:16:20.820 we raise women now it didn't used to be that way but the way we raise it now most young women have

04:16:26.700 no like if i asked you what's a duty you have to the world outside yourself i doubt you'd have anything

04:16:32.380 for me but if anybody does please let me know does anybody here think they have a duty to society

04:16:38.140 outside of themselves isn't it to birth kids and take care of them to produce more like to grow the 1.00

04:16:45.680 human humanity or whatever i would say that's what i would say i'd say we have a duty to continue the

04:16:52.500 human race but in times past when i've asked girls on this panel that question they all say no they say 0.88

04:16:59.280 i don't have a duty to have kids you can't tell me i gotta have kids chair one said she doesn't really

04:17:03.140 want kids uh the girl over here in the green top said she probably doesn't want kids how many of you

04:17:09.160 want kids okay a few of you do and several of you don't so i mean that would be great if women were 1.00

04:17:18.840 doing their duty but they're not they're the average american woman's having like 1.8 kids

04:17:23.920 and childlessness will reach an all-time unprecedented high within the next seven years the majority of

04:17:30.760 women of fertile age will not have children and will just be working in the future that's a huge 1.00

04:17:36.500 problem and i think that it's a big mistake to raise women and train them to have this mindset that 1.00

04:17:43.120 well it's just about me and what i want it's about me and my dreams and it's about

04:17:46.720 like don't you think that that's probably like a bad idea anybody

04:17:52.880 i think it might be a little unfair to put this extreme ultimatum on us that like um i get it what

04:18:02.980 you're saying you know the population has to go on i just don't want to like put this question on me

04:18:08.240 that like oh i'm not doing my part in saving humanity i just i don't know we might not want

04:18:13.780 to but that's reality and you know we so what if um men just what if we had a panel of men and they 0.81

04:18:20.540 were all like yeah you know what i really want to do i want to start my world of warcraft guild i'm

04:18:27.120 just really passionate about warcraft you know and i really don't feel like i should have to get up and

04:18:32.500 go to work and run things i just really don't feel like you know i know the water treatment plants need

04:18:37.840 somebody to like provide clean drinking water but what about me and my dreams what about me and my

04:18:42.720 goals do you think that society would be like well that's okay uh george don't worry about it just

04:18:48.940 just concentrate on your warcraft guild and if people start dying from you know untreated drinking 0.98

04:18:54.180 water fuck them you know i mean it's just like it's fine to sit there and say well i don't think this 0.99

04:19:00.320 is fair to me but that's completely delusional that's not reality 1.00

04:19:03.940 yeah i mean life isn't life isn't fair where'd you get this idea that like you should just be

04:19:11.300 able to do what you want and it's all about you i i mean i agree with that statement life isn't fair

04:19:17.380 i just i want to do what i want i mean if that involves being selfish and you know signing away

04:19:23.040 humanity so be it okay so why should a man marry you then that's your mindset if that's your attitude 0.57

04:19:29.260 why would any man on this planet ever marry you any guy who ever dates you should watch this podcast

04:19:35.040 wait and hear what you just said before i before you give it uh rachel the answer can you just repeat

04:19:41.080 that one more time just the way you said it what something about well i'm selfish and if

04:19:49.780 humanity has to wither away so i can get what i want so so i'm so selfish for pursuing a nursing degree

04:19:57.640 wanting to help others i'm very selfish and if i want to sign away humanity so be it if so if the

04:20:04.400 entailment is that humanity cease to ceases to exist but you get what you want uh fair trade-off

04:20:15.060 sure and like i said like i said you can you can do that it's a free country it's a free but if i

04:20:23.760 were any man who was gonna date you i would hear you say that and i would be like nope because this

04:20:28.640 chick is not gonna be loyal she's not gonna think about me she's gonna put herself first 1.00

04:20:32.240 she doesn't really care as long as she gets what she wants and she thinks that that's fine you can

04:20:37.600 go as far as to refer them to this podcast and put them on any future dating profile that i said this

04:20:43.620 and i literally will not give it like i'm just saying that like um my main goal in life is not to be

04:20:50.920 um a stay-at-home wife um or uh like uh a good wife or any for that matter of the fact i don't

04:21:00.480 want to like what's your goal if i never marry a man then so be it so i don't know what you are 1.00

04:21:06.560 saying with the whole um who wants to marry you i don't think i ever put it out that i want to marry

04:21:12.980 someone so all right so what's your what's your goal what's this big dream you have that's

04:21:19.380 worth you know humanity has to die i never get married i end up alone it's fine because i have

04:21:24.720 my dream what's the dream i mean i i like i like nursing i want to be a nurse anesthesiologist i want

04:21:33.140 to help out in the or room and with surgeries um i know that you're asking this as a hypothetical

04:21:39.000 question i just don't really think that the entire world revolves around me and what i do

04:21:44.920 um and so i i don't know where you're getting this oh i have to you know sign away humanity and like

04:21:51.260 end the world i know i know but you're putting these pretty heavy ultimatums on me that was the

04:21:56.740 common mindset we'd all be screwed but but let's just take you let's just say okay all the other women 1.00

04:22:02.160 are going to have the babies and you're the only one who decides not to uh how long do you think

04:22:07.680 being an or nurse anesthesiologist is going to be fun and fulfilling for you for the rest of my life

04:22:13.600 as long as i want it to be and then i'll travel i don't i i honestly i mean as as of right now i'm

04:22:20.940 not saying my viewpoint won't change later i just like having kids and being um a wife isn't my goal

04:22:27.420 it's not my dream and you know this is america we can say what we want and do what we want and

04:22:32.320 that's what i'm saying oh yeah i'm saying you absolutely can of course you have the option

04:22:38.500 i'm not going to stop you i'm not suggesting that anyone pass a law that prevents you from

04:22:43.340 following your dream of being an or nurse anesthesiologist but as someone much older than

04:22:49.600 you i'm going to tell you right now i will be shocked i will eat my hat if in 20 years you come 0.90

04:22:54.300 back to me and you say oh my gosh you were so wrong rachel being an or nurse anesthesiologist is

04:23:00.780 everything i thought it would be i love the grind it's so much fun it's so fulfilling for me i'm sure

04:23:07.140 i'm glad that i never got married and had a family because now like i can do this and travel

04:23:13.100 like i'll i'll just be shocked because all everybody 20 or 25 ogle donated 200 thank you

04:23:21.280 seven just disqualified herself from any future partner live on air if humanity ceases to exist but 0.99

04:23:27.880 i get what i want it's a fair trade off wtf thank you ogle we have another one coming in also from

04:23:34.440 ogle appreciate the uh tts do you have a response to ogle who said i want any man live on air

04:23:40.180 um disqualified herself from any future partner live on air

04:23:44.880 oval donated two hundred dollars chair seven wants to be an anesthesiologist but also doesn't

04:23:54.860 care about humans continuing to exist low-key scary combo 0.95

04:23:59.420 if you were like doing a surgery on like trump like would you like fuck up his anesthesia 0.80

04:24:06.280 no that's obviously not the duty of any health care worker is to treat every single person as 0.96

04:24:12.900 equal okay just check i'm just like looking out for trump you know because like

04:24:16.100 maybe okay good talk all right we have a chat uh cena read this one for us

04:24:24.120 rachel cook cook that rose these young ladies objectively have never been exposed to the history

04:24:31.240 of feminism western and eastern feminism russian chocolates for you and andrew

04:24:37.560 joe murphy thank you for the message man really appreciate it thank you so much man

04:24:41.160 i do appreciate it and then we have libertariat prime thank you so much for the 20 gifted

04:24:46.760 memberships really appreciate it uh rachel did you have more did you have a response

04:24:51.940 um i just think that you guys are taking it so literally when you're like oh what i do

04:24:57.440 dictates humanity i mean yes i know i said that in that extreme hypothetical if it was like

04:25:02.780 oh whatever i do that says you know then humanity's off but like i mean i'm doing what i want to do

04:25:08.660 at this moment and these are my career goals and my future goals and i i don't see why like

04:25:14.900 you're like i'm gonna threaten you with this oh you're you know not threatening you i'm not even

04:25:19.400 trying to shame you like i i get where you're coming from uh but how old are you i'm 23 23 and

04:25:26.160 do you have a job right now yes what kind of field of work are you working in right now i'm a nursing

04:25:32.140 assistant i work full-time okay is working awesome like are you do you get up in the morning you're

04:25:38.860 like oh my god work yes another 40 hour work week this is amazing can't wait genuinely yes i work in

04:25:46.540 one of the best hospitals um i love serving the population yes i do okay fair enough i'm just

04:25:54.760 saying usually by the time you get to be 40 45 50 years old and you ask people do you love working

04:26:01.380 they're generally kind of like i can't wait to retire this sucks i'd love to retire even if they

04:26:06.480 started in a career that they love i'm just saying there's a lot more to life than your job and i think

04:26:11.640 it's kind of sad if your whole life and your whole identity and your whole self-worth is tied up in

04:26:16.300 your job i just think there's more to life than that i agree when you're on your deathbed are you

04:26:22.860 gonna like look back to that like one like super dope oh uh like magnus opus like surgery that you 1.00

04:26:29.180 did like the anesthesia is just fucking on point like fuck dude i hit the i hit the fucking 1.00

04:26:35.240 the fucking vein like super proper and it was like the fucking boom the vein just boom right in 1.00

04:26:42.000 the fucking they're all passed out like and you're just like looking back at it you're like fuck yeah 0.99

04:26:46.680 i fucking killed that shit hey brian thank you for having me on thank you so much and by the way i 1.00

04:26:51.920 don't hold any of any of anything we talked about against any of you personally it's just we're all 0.99

04:26:56.080 just chatting right so thank you so much for entertaining my questions and conversing with

04:27:00.840 me totally appreciate it i'm gonna let mr andrew take back over so thank you rachel appreciate it

04:27:05.600 thank you thank you yeah like that one surgery if you're asking am i gonna uh remember a specific

04:27:12.700 surgery when i'm on my deathbed no but will i remember the happiness and fulfillment i bought

04:27:16.980 to people yeah when i was was serving them and serving the community then yes is there like a 0.98

04:27:21.300 specific kind of surgery like practice that you want to do like there's like you want to do shit for 0.86

04:27:26.740 like a plastic surgeon or um i'd probably want to work with trauma trauma okay so like trauma cases

04:27:34.360 like in missouri with gunshot wounds or something sure yeah yeah okay that's cool there i mean there's

04:27:40.780 like a lot of 13 year old 13 year olds getting um shot at by police officers in missouri in missouri

04:27:49.220 the need um anesthesiologists to um anyways good talk uh okay we're gonna get into some of the more

04:27:59.580 more of the show notes here um i'm trying to oh we got to do the bow video let's do the bow video

04:28:05.160 all right so this is a video of my ex-girlfriend i took it uh a while ago uh and this is my expectation

04:28:13.020 like on the first date kind of like what i expect from a girl go ahead play it 0.96

04:28:17.300 boom huge bow huge bow and then she you know she scampers to get the laundry done after this is 1.00

04:28:28.320 after one of the podcast day so um and then my my dinner was ready it was a long podcasting day she

04:28:35.460 had my um beer you know gets my beer opens it for me um has my dinner ready i had to scold her about 1.00

04:28:42.680 those just random tomatoes i don't i don't really i'm not a big tomato guy but yeah um so that and

04:28:49.400 then play the bow play it play it boom huge bow um so would you guys i'm just i guess going around

04:28:56.900 the table would you also point out how disappointed i am with your ex here that you know she she stirred

04:29:05.240 the noodles in front of you and it was just it was very light it was a very light stirring

04:29:09.620 the seasoning was on like i saw the seasoning and she really didn't didn't spread it out like she 0.62

04:29:14.720 should have prime it was i it was um i i was upset so i guess going around the table uh would you bow

04:29:21.840 for your man no yes in thailand yes not in america nope in alabama no alabama in maine

04:29:36.680 i'm thinking if this is a different if there's a different state no um i wouldn't bow to any guy

04:29:43.760 in like any country unless it's in thailand because it's actually custom what about thai town

04:29:49.660 no chinatown oh if it's like um family members here then yes you know like i don't mean to a

04:29:58.560 partner in general like maybe like a uncle or something okay you wouldn't do it okay that's

04:30:02.700 fine uh what about you chloe if it's a custom of some sort then it's disrespectful not to and in

04:30:09.640 other certain contexts maybe um on a day-to-day basis no don't you date a korean guy though do you

04:30:20.600 think we're bowing to each other every day throughout the day i don't know but like culturally it would

04:30:24.620 make sense like in that culture right no it wouldn't no why not wives don't bow to their 1.00

04:30:30.960 husbands in korea i don't know why people say that they don't it's like your elders i thought bowing was

04:30:36.180 like common in asian cultures uh yes they do if you're younger that's not true like that's literally

04:30:41.820 not true yes husbands in south korea most definitely do or do get bowed to by their wives and most

04:30:48.620 definitely in north korea as well that definitely is true um i have not seen that in south korea

04:30:55.620 you don't see them bow to their bosses ever okay to their boss it's a respect thing but not yes

04:31:01.040 spouse and it happens in individual homes just like it happens with the boss if you're a

04:31:05.520 traditionalist family it does happen of course it does no it doesn't yeah okay well that's fine you

04:31:11.180 can say that i mean my brother who was in the army came back with a korean wife and that chick 1.00

04:31:15.220 fucking bowed to him i can tell you that and uh her her family was very traditional and her parents 0.99

04:31:21.280 the mom bowed to her as well so i don't know what the fuck you're talking about that's probably why 1.00

04:31:26.020 he married an asian woman too because he because he's fucking awesome no no no because white men who 0.99

04:31:33.640 marry asian women like actual actual asian women in asia are like they kind of like the submissive 1.00

04:31:41.720 factor so you're not submissive good yeah good wait are you not yeah good 0.88

04:31:46.440 are you not submissive tiffany i could be to the right man you have a white boyfriend what are you 0.87

04:31:53.740 talking about okay but are you throwing your white boyfriend he's not into like asian women he's not 1.00

04:31:59.580 into asian women he's not into me because i'm more i'm more submissive than other women of other races 1.00

04:32:06.680 wait what

04:32:09.800 exactly what i said you're not yeah he's not fetishizing me

04:32:16.860 okay but i'm just like you're saying that white men date okay i don't know whatever

04:32:24.920 fetishization to be attracted to an asian woman that's not a fetish

04:32:29.020 i didn't say it was but in certain cases you know fetishization can apply to any woman 1.00

04:32:34.400 any yeah but it can apply to anything you could fetishize a table like but but somebody who says

04:32:39.680 well my preference of attraction is asian women that's not a fetish i'm a table i think there's 1.00

04:32:44.200 a stereotype that asian women are more submissive than other races and so sometimes men will definitely 1.00

04:32:50.480 go after them specifically because they think they're going to bow down to them not just them

04:32:55.000 eastern europeans too and good what what the hell is wrong with a man wanting a more submissive woman

04:32:59.800 from a culture where submission is taught into the woman that she's not going to be vexing and a

04:33:04.400 headache and a problem and things like this but rather she's going to do her duty to her family i

04:33:10.140 don't even understand the problem with that that seems completely fine to me they're both happy with

04:33:14.900 it then yeah yeah did we go around the table every on the bow would you bow i don't know where we left

04:33:21.080 off did we get ellen's answer uh did you give your answer would you bow i gave my answer i think we

04:33:28.140 might have said no we'll hear from her when she's back would you bow for uh your boyfriend no okay

04:33:35.060 would you bow for a boyfriend into the mic into the mic no sorry no tiffany you already conceded on

04:33:42.800 this argument last show yeah okay well all right um i want ellen's answer when she's back but uh none

04:33:53.420 of you would bow for a guy just curious i'm going reverse around the table should a guy pay for a first

04:33:57.940 date yes yes i think it depends on who asks the person out have you ever asked a guy out on a date

04:34:05.680 yeah more often than not how many first dates have you been on i don't know a couple i don't i don't

04:34:11.800 keep a tally of them can you move your who was more likely to pay move your mic this way for me

04:34:16.800 yeah um of all the first dates you've been on more often than not who pays for the date i don't i mean

04:34:25.700 most often it's 50 50 um okay i don't know i i thought you said it depends who asked often it's 50 50

04:34:33.660 most often i mean i yes i don't ask guys out a lot it's happened a couple times um but you've asked

04:34:38.940 guys out yeah so how many times have guys asked you out i don't know i'm 23 it's been like a long

04:34:45.480 time so you're going if you're going 50 50 on the dates where the guy asks you out yes i mean sorry

04:34:54.800 no if the guy asked me out then he would have to pay full and i asked the guy out then i would have

04:34:58.480 to pay full ideally but if he asked me to go getting very conflicting answers here but

04:35:03.240 so in what instances do you go 50 50 uh the times where you guys both simultaneously

04:35:11.600 ask each other out if he says i want to go 50 50 we'll go 50 50 how many times has that happened

04:35:17.060 a couple i'm not gonna disagree i'm not gonna say you should pay for it i'm sure sometimes guys will

04:35:23.700 whatever the mood whatever the situation is i don't know okay um uh ellen did you you saw the

04:35:29.380 i'll know did you give your response would you bow for a guy um like if it was like a traditional

04:35:35.800 thing and no he just wanted you to bow for him i don't see why i would need a bow

04:35:41.120 to be test your respect no and test your submissiveness i guess no wouldn't do it okay and

04:35:51.340 then uh who should pay on the first date i would prefer if the guy pays for me why is that

04:35:56.860 i don't i just that's my preference okay what informs your preference

04:36:03.880 traditional gender roles um i mean i i would be okay paying as well how many first dates have

04:36:15.120 you been on uh like four did you pay on uh did you go 50 50 on any of them i went 50 50 on one of

04:36:24.220 them and the other three the guy paid yeah did you say hold on sir no no no i insist on 50 50 or did

04:36:31.580 you let them pay we just we just split it oh like when the times they paid the three times they paid

04:36:37.780 i just let them pay you didn't you didn't protest out of your feminism or i said i can pay and then 1.00

04:36:44.480 they were like you didn't insist though i didn't insist you didn't insist okay i did suggest it

04:36:49.420 what about you who should pay on the first date um i'm the type of person to fight over me being

04:36:53.740 the one paying i don't like people paying for things for me i feel like i owe something to them

04:36:59.680 afterwards so i prefer to pay for myself regardless and even dates i go on with my partner i mean i'll

04:37:06.880 pay the full thing too and sometimes he'll pay the full thing it doesn't matter

04:37:09.840 mm-hmm okay pause i like to play card roulette

04:37:14.980 so what is that you kind of just like ask the waiter to close their eyes and whatever card they

04:37:23.300 pick that's who pays it's just like um okay oh come on and all the dates you've been on no not all of

04:37:31.840 you can tally up was the man way more likely to pay than you um actually no but i don't mind um and

04:37:40.180 the reason why that is is because usually i'm the one who picks the restaurant and i'm like a foodie so

04:37:47.360 we usually go to more high-end places and that's why i always offer like my did you say you were dating

04:37:52.860 somebody right now i'm going on dates but no yeah the last date you went on who paid

04:37:58.040 um it was 50 50 and the day before that um probably i don't know and what about the one before that

04:38:07.900 probably 50 50 probably or was well i don't know i don't really do you don't remember who paid on

04:38:16.340 on three dates ago um well i mean i haven't gone on many like as of recently so you've gone on many

04:38:23.300 great okay so if you've gone on many no not many she hasn't gone on many oh

04:38:27.880 oh it hasn't gone on many okay but well what does recently mean um recently like a day just a few

04:38:35.100 days ago but before that probably like like a while ago you know how long is that how long is a while

04:38:40.980 ago um probably two weeks before i got my ankle injury so around then well how long ago was that

04:38:49.860 like two weeks ago two weeks ago so so you went on a day two weeks ago and the day you went on before

04:38:55.420 that was how many weeks before that um when i came back from greece so which was how long ago like

04:39:06.560 four or five weeks ago okay so within the last five weeks you've gone on three dates and you're saying

04:39:12.020 that they've all been 50 50 except well i'm sorry two were 50 50 and one was not really yeah i don't

04:39:18.440 know i haven't been on like many dates i'm just like either at work or i'm traveling or doing my

04:39:23.880 own thing all right yeah i'm not concerned with the amount of dates you've been on i'm just curious as

04:39:29.520 to who has paid when you have been on them i mean it kind of it really just like differs depending on

04:39:34.580 like who chooses or who asks or you know if i want to play that game of card roulette okay all right

04:39:43.400 let's move on what about you i think the man is more likely to pay i think also that if it's like

04:39:51.080 a lot of first dates and stuff i think it might be a good idea for the guy to pay if he wants to like

04:39:55.980 put on this image that he can take care of you but i think once you're in a relationship especially

04:40:00.260 for a while like i've paid for things for my exes and i've had taking care of the food if we wanted to

04:40:07.200 go go out and eat but yeah sure what about you i think men should pay okay um i think i don't think

04:40:16.260 they have to but they usually do that's been your experience yes okay avantika going back to you you

04:40:24.420 said that women should you disagree that women should go 50 50 the entire relationship what do

04:40:29.600 you mean by that i'm saying that i mean it's an option you know whoever wants to pay can pay

04:40:35.580 like if i want to pick up all the bills for the rest of my relationship but he wants to do

04:40:40.360 something different i don't like if i want to pay for all the restaurants but then he wants to pay

04:40:44.080 for all the like movies and other outings they could do that uh so you disagree with going 50 50

04:40:52.400 the entire relationship or like it could be 60 40 you know 70 30 just depends on what you make it as

04:40:59.600 okay um so i guess my confusion here in relation to the bow video it's weird to me though like you

04:41:08.800 guys think that this is some grand grand ask but a lot of not all of you but a lot of women have an

04:41:17.240 expectation that men do certain tasks or men have certain uh duties when it comes to dating courtship

04:41:23.800 relationships uh some women might expect a man to open a car door for example might expect a man to 1.00

04:41:30.300 protect you in some sort of scenario but specifically when it comes to paying for first dates so let's

04:41:38.840 assume for a second that you're and i'm uh being charitable i guess on the cost of a first date let's say the

04:41:45.040 cost of a first date is the equivalent to one hour of work for the man

04:41:51.020 let's say makes 20 an hour the date is 20 this is actually probably very unlikely but

04:41:58.480 i don't know it takes you out for a hot dog or a burger or tacos or something

04:42:02.760 realistically i think a lot of men are probably going to pay 50 to 100 on the first date uh if he

04:42:09.660 works 20 hour 20 an hour a lot of men don't even make that much that's five hours of work for him to

04:42:16.140 treat you to a first date so if women's expectation is men should pay for first dates or if they're the 1.00

04:42:22.520 ones asking they should pay for the date

04:42:24.060 the translation there essentially what you're saying is men should labor for five hours to treat

04:42:31.780 me on a date but i can't do a bow which takes no effort that's where i'm confused so going to you

04:42:39.620 you very you were very much had a strong objection to the to the request if a boyfriend were to request

04:42:46.000 that you bow but you said the guy should pay for the first date the entailment of that is that if

04:42:51.360 he's working 20 an hour and he takes you out on a hundred dollar date you're saying he has to work

04:42:56.260 five hours he let's say he works a physical labor job construction job he has to physically labor for

04:43:02.700 five hours if he wants my time how is this not worse than a guy asking for a bow me specifically

04:43:11.700 because you said i would never do a bow but you want a guy to pay for the first date i said i'd prefer it

04:43:20.580 let me ask you a question you got you go on a date with a guy he asks you out you get a dinner i don't

04:43:27.280 know it's 40 60 bucks whatever the waiter comes and he says two checks

04:43:32.120 is there any a second date with that guy if i like his personality yeah so he has to make up for

04:43:42.060 a detriment in his conduct by being more charismatic

04:43:47.100 i mean or have a better personality you said you would prefer a guy to pay for the first date

04:43:55.100 i would prefer it why i think it's just like a nice gesture but i wouldn't be opposed to

04:44:02.160 paying myself okay but it is a traditional gender role right 1.00

04:44:08.280 i think it's yeah it's deemed that way let me ask the panel this uh for any of you here if a guy

04:44:16.300 wanted to go 50 50 on the first date waiter comes he says two checks you gotta pay is there gonna be a

04:44:22.660 second date no no no no second date

04:44:28.720 no not if he just says two checks like no if if he's like talks about it oh why why would he have

04:44:38.280 to talk about it he's got to have your permission to go 50 50 no i feel like it's more of like a

04:44:43.300 respect thing than just to what do you mean no we're gonna go 50 50 then just saying he needs to

04:44:48.440 confer with you no like if i wanted to pay he needs to check to make sure you're willing yeah

04:44:55.920 if i wanted to pay or if he wanted to pay for you guys are so it's so entitled totally entitled

04:45:02.000 behavior imagine if i as a guy said you know what she's got to check with like my expectation as a guy

04:45:09.260 is that you pay the entire bill for me and maybe i'll be considerate but you have to consult with me 0.98

04:45:16.240 first before i even consider going 50 50 with you you would fucking laugh at that dude you'd be like 0.99

04:45:23.600 what the fuck i mean if i want to pay do you pay i want to what do you mean i put my card on the thing 0.99

04:45:31.840 but they just they swap it out you know it's not but my confusion here is that you guys have all these 0.99

04:45:38.420 expectations on guys and it's like but if we look at something very simple look i know some of you are

04:45:45.360 okay with 50 50 some of you would be fine splitting the bill but there's enough women out there who 1.00

04:45:51.500 would be like absolutely not if he wants to go 50 50 there's not going to be a second date it's a done

04:45:57.300 deal it's like and those same women will be like they'll be total feminist too they'll be like no i won't 1.00

04:46:03.720 pay for the bill blah i won't split it's like okay so you won't bow for a guy which takes no effort

04:46:10.380 takes three seconds to do but you the entailment of you expecting a guy to pay for the entire bill

04:46:17.880 is that if he's working a 20 an hour job and the bill's a hundred dollars the entailment of that is

04:46:24.180 you expect a man to work five hours to be able to take you out so what's a bigger ask a guy saying 0.91

04:46:32.860 i would like a woman to bow to me or you saying every single time we hang out and we go to dinner 0.56

04:46:38.020 you have to work five hours of your life just for the privilege of getting to take me out what's a

04:46:43.180 bigger ask tell me the dinner why because it's five hours versus three seconds of your time

04:46:50.900 so is the fair i think is the fair proposition then for that women should bow to men 0.99

04:46:57.060 it's if i gotta fucking shovel some bull if i gotta shovel for fucking five hours to take you out 0.99

04:47:04.860 okay that's on you though why is that you're not you're not capable enough to make like fifty 0.99

04:47:11.140 dollars an hour or a hundred dollars bro y'all are hold on the average and y'all are 18 how many

04:47:15.900 and men and men actually want to pay for dates men naturally like providing yeah that's they like

04:47:21.680 sure women don't want to bow for men they don't women don't want to be submissive we don't want to 1.00

04:47:26.180 be that's a feminist mind virus not equal bowing bowing is weird it's like a form of worship 0.54

04:47:31.900 it's oh my bowing is bowing is not a form of worship wait so if an atheist weird okay and 0.81

04:47:40.320 actually men don't like maids when women bow bow to them and cook for them and clean for them and 1.00

04:47:46.780 take they don't like hold on what and and cater to them all the time no that's when men actually go 0.98

04:47:53.440 out and cheat men like the chase tiffany what the what are you talking about men just to be clear

04:48:01.780 so men don't like it when when women do all these things for them yeah they they think they do but 0.89

04:48:08.260 they actually don't i would disagree no my god this is this is this is like they think that they want 1.00

04:48:14.080 a non-vexing submissive woman but what they really want is a woman who acts like a bitch all the time 1.00

04:48:18.860 what was i what were we thinking we were no that's exactly right men love bitches there's a 1.00

04:48:23.860 whole book about it too here i was thinking that men prefer to have women who are completely non-vexing 0.97

04:48:29.520 and generally take care of their roles in the in the home because that's what all of them report

04:48:34.760 but as it turns out i was wrong what they really want is somebody to be an annoying brat and vex them

04:48:40.160 all day jeez i wish that i had known that earlier

04:48:43.400 total tiffany that's fake news bro that's fake news they so you're saying men want uh like

04:48:54.260 quarrelsome disagreeable non-helpful non-submissive women that's is that what you think men want 1.00

04:49:05.280 non you said like a submission doesn't equal bowing if i say if i'm i would argue wouldn't it be

04:49:15.940 wouldn't that exactly be submissive i want you to do this

04:49:19.480 wouldn't that be submissive and you don't you do it and you don't oh i want to have a conversation

04:49:27.780 about i want to question it wouldn't you just do it wouldn't that be submissive

04:49:31.340 men like submissive men like submission to an extent when it's too much and the girl doesn't

04:49:37.480 have her own mind and basically will bow down to them they don't like it what have you tried to do

04:49:47.480 this with a man like what evidence so what so what evidence do you have that this is true

04:49:53.880 i guess i did you just make it up in your head

04:49:59.320 no it's it just sounds good right common knowledge no it just sounds common knowledge

04:50:06.100 it's common it just sounds good no it's common knowledge from who the experience of

04:50:12.980 the experiences of many women wait so just to be clear wait one thing one thing really quick 0.94

04:50:18.040 one thing really quick so when you say experiences of women so the experiences of women are men

04:50:26.040 will like you less if you treat them well you do nice things for them you're helpful you help them

04:50:33.140 out with certain uh household duties you're saying men detest these these things in women

04:50:40.600 yes yes and they'd much prefer and they'd much prefer dealing with a woman who refuses to do these 1.00

04:50:46.580 yes they hate it they hate it they hate they hate they hate women who who are submissive 0.87

04:50:53.800 essentially no i think in a way to an extent no i think she's saying like they get bored 0.87

04:50:59.600 get bored yeah they do okay i have an input i'm sorry okay go ahead you're talking about a man

04:51:05.640 i think you're talking about a boy to be honest there's a difference wait me or no

04:51:10.400 like you're talking about a man so yes a man wants someone to be submissive yes a man wants to

04:51:15.680 take care of home and for the you know his woman to you know all that but a boy does not a boy is who

04:51:24.500 essentially likes the drama and the toxic and the back and forth and all of that chaotic

04:51:32.780 really good point like you're i think i would tend to i think yeah

04:51:36.320 there's two different things two two different things he's not a man that's why we in movies we

04:51:42.120 always see we always see um the portrayal of when the the the wife's at home and she's calling her

04:51:50.040 husband at work oh babe what are you gonna come home he's not a man i have dinner made for you

04:51:54.660 and then the guy no we don't see that in movies at all what we see in movies and what we see in media 1.00

04:51:59.320 is homer simpson and men are portrayed as bumbling fucking idiots that for some reason are uh just 1.00

04:52:06.620 happen to gallivant through life working at a nuclear power plant eating donuts right why everybody 1.00

04:52:12.460 ignores how incompetent they are and if only if only it weren't for that beautiful wife who is somehow 0.90

04:52:21.200 skinny and petite married to this big fat bald guy wasn't there to correct his endless bad behavior 1.00

04:52:27.240 why men just couldn't get along it's like give me a break with this shit men are portrayed in the 1.00

04:52:32.420 worst light possible let me give you an example there was a show when i was growing up called home 0.99

04:52:36.620 improvement right where the entire theme of this of the show was that uh the guy was an incompetent 0.93

04:52:44.800 moron who couldn't even handle the power tools on his own show and his wife had to run the entire 0.98

04:52:50.620 family dynamic in fact i can give you show after show after show where this is the case 0.99

04:52:55.380 tell me the show where the woman is the nice petite 1950 style housewife who greets him at the door

04:53:02.140 with dinner and modernity she could tell me tell me what that show is called also i don't think

04:53:08.700 hollywood hang on let her let her answer tell me what the show is called what is it called

04:53:12.200 i don't know yeah it's called it's called you just made it the fuck up that's what i did it though 0.78

04:53:17.420 anyway yeah they did it yeah they they did it in the 1950s with with the with the cleavers from leave

04:53:23.900 it to beaver maybe but they don't do it in modernity

04:53:26.820 men don't really know the psychology of themselves what like they don't understand themselves what book 1.00

04:53:35.160 what stupid book did you read that's just how men are what's the stupid book you read no it's not a 1.00

04:53:39.220 book that's you said it was a book it was like men love bitchy women or something it's it's titled 1.00

04:53:44.160 why women why men love bitches who wrote it i don't know a woman probably 1.00

04:53:50.180 yeah men understand the psyche of men better than men understand the psyche of themselves wait women 0.98

04:53:59.140 understand the psyche of men better than men understand this it's by a woman it is by one sherry

04:54:07.540 right of course it was made by a woman oh sherry twice divorced by the way twice right she knows 0.72

04:54:19.440 she knows what women want doesn't she 1.00

04:54:21.940 i want to ask the panel do you guys think that men want bitchy women 1.00

04:54:28.360 no no anybody here think men prefer bitchy women over they only prefer bitchy women because they 0.99

04:54:36.880 can't get women 1.00

04:54:37.840 uh like if you think about it like those boys who are like oh like i don't want a girl who listens 1.00

04:54:48.020 blah blah like i'll bow down to this girl blah blah it's because they can't get women and once they 0.99

04:54:52.600 get a woman they're gonna do everything they can to keep her but a man if he has so many options 0.99

04:54:58.340 why would he tolerate yeah yeah no that's a good point i mean uh there are men out there who like

04:55:06.760 can't get anything else so they're gonna either they don't know what else is out there they think

04:55:12.800 that's normal or they just don't have any other options so they're just gonna tolerate men will put 0.98

04:55:18.260 up with a lot 1.00

04:55:20.400 for some pussy 1.00

04:55:24.040 like they will 1.00

04:55:25.960 they'll put up with a lot 0.99

04:55:28.520 if they don't get pussy if they get pussy they're not they're gonna put up very little and then you're gonna be gone 1.00

04:55:35.260 or they're just gonna keep you around for sex and then you'll never get a commitment from him 1.00

04:55:40.040 but if you fuck up and you know you 1.00

04:55:43.080 start uh 1.00

04:55:45.620 whinging or whatever the fuck he's like yeah i'm not gonna date the take this girl seriously 0.99

04:55:49.860 um anyways 0.98

04:55:50.980 where were we i forgot we were talking about

04:55:53.820 uh who should pay on the first date oh yeah you guys hate the bow for some reason

04:55:59.540 but you want the guy to pay for the first date it's like

04:56:02.160 kind of confusing we have two three chats we're gonna read

04:56:05.400 uh cena go for it 0.58

04:56:07.300 the reason why the women say i don't know when they are asked who paid 1.00

04:56:11.200 on the date is because

04:56:12.720 they just show up and they never

04:56:14.660 even notice that there is a bill

04:56:16.800 female privilege 0.99

04:56:18.020 female privilege 0.99

04:56:20.260 yeah lol paladins thank you for the uh message man

04:56:23.160 really appreciate it

04:56:24.040 we do have let's see that what the heck

04:56:27.280 okay um sure

04:56:28.500 read this one

04:56:30.160 ask the panel if china declared war under the moral authority of

04:56:34.520 dismantling whiteness and decolonization

04:56:39.720 directives

04:56:41.660 would you side with china or would you stand with the united states of america 1.00

04:56:46.160 that's a wild question but fuck it we'll do it 0.99

04:56:49.620 uh wildly awesome it's a wildly awesome question 0.99

04:56:52.400 so would you side with china or would you stand with the united states of america

04:56:57.460 if

04:56:58.900 starting with you

04:57:00.140 i don't do politics

04:57:03.040 you gotta pick one though

04:57:04.260 no

04:57:05.000 okay

04:57:05.800 um what was the full question because there was like

04:57:08.500 i mean it's not just would you side with china or united states

04:57:11.340 yeah here i'll pull it back up again and i'll have you read it for us

04:57:14.120 go ahead

04:57:15.260 ask the panel if china declared war under the moral authority of dismantling whiteness and

04:57:20.940 decolonization directives

04:57:23.680 would you side with china or would you side with the united states of america

04:57:26.980 okay um

04:57:29.040 china or the united states

04:57:35.480 can you reword it i wanted to read it one more time

04:57:39.980 okay china declares war

04:57:42.720 and the re the pretext the justification for the war

04:57:46.640 is they're just they want to dismantle whiteness 0.60

04:57:49.640 and they want to

04:57:51.380 they think america is a colonizer

04:57:55.380 and for this reason they're declaring war china declaring war against the united states

04:58:00.300 do you stand with china or do you stand with the united states

04:58:03.040 okay then i would stand with the united states

04:58:05.200 united states

04:58:08.640 united states

04:58:11.020 u.s

04:58:11.600 oh um would it be okay if i just don't answer this one

04:58:17.980 are you like you don't want to like offend the ccp or 0.98

04:58:22.120 i just don't really like to talk about like political stances

04:58:26.780 oh

04:58:27.620 uh

04:58:28.560 i mean i can't force you to answer the question so

04:58:30.980 uh

04:58:32.760 okay

04:58:33.220 i don't think i'm that informed on this topic specifically

04:58:37.740 there's nothing to be it's a hypothetical there's nothing to be informed

04:58:40.740 about

04:58:42.260 i mean i guess the u.s

04:58:43.820 sweet

04:58:45.760 okay i have a serious question

04:58:47.620 um i'm sorry i have a serious what is whiteness

04:58:50.420 like

04:58:52.340 from the progressive standpoint

04:58:54.680 or the actual standpoint

04:58:57.660 like what is

04:58:58.500 what is the question asking like

04:59:01.340 yeah so the question is asking from a progressive standpoint

04:59:03.900 uh whiteness would be the idea 0.92

04:59:06.140 that uh white men and women are privileged over every other class

04:59:10.320 and the reason that they are is because

04:59:11.980 uh throughout history

04:59:13.840 uh inside of the united states

04:59:15.960 everything has been favorable towards them

04:59:18.500 and so they have a leg up

04:59:20.580 over all other ethnicities that they wouldn't ordinarily have

04:59:23.720 if it wasn't due to colonialism

04:59:25.320 and uh essentially white power

04:59:28.040 i would stand with china 1.00

04:59:29.020 the u.s

04:59:32.660 well for all of you who answered that

04:59:38.060 uh and said that you would stand with the u.s

04:59:40.360 welcome to conservatism

04:59:41.560 glad to see you over here

04:59:43.700 based

04:59:44.840 all right we have lucas

04:59:47.300 uh

04:59:47.980 cena can you read it

04:59:49.380 bit late here but curious what language you'd be speaking today

04:59:52.960 if the unbased

04:59:54.740 unabashed

04:59:56.460 unabashed

04:59:57.340 solipsism

04:59:58.020 exhibited

05:00:00.100 by cherry seven during her convo with rachel

05:00:05.060 pervaded

05:00:06.740 those 17 to 23 boys

05:00:09.200 i'll pull it back up

05:00:11.020 on june 6

05:00:12.760 1944

05:00:13.480 as they prepared

05:00:14.600 wait what

05:00:20.700 all right

05:00:22.760 are you talking about the u.s

05:00:24.200 wait on june 6

05:00:25.400 is that

05:00:26.380 wait june 6

05:00:27.300 that was uh

05:00:28.160 d-day

05:00:30.060 i think that was it wasn't that the preparation for d-day

05:00:32.340 that was d-day right

05:00:33.940 i mean but like

05:00:35.160 what language

05:00:36.440 we wouldn't even it

05:00:37.820 honestly

05:00:38.300 andrew

05:00:39.340 oh no

05:00:40.620 this is a dating podcast

05:00:41.780 not historical

05:00:42.340 i even if

05:00:43.760 america didn't actually do 1.00

05:00:45.760 a land invasion of europe 0.77

05:00:47.260 r-

05:00:49.100 oh we would be speaking

05:00:51.060 wait hold on

05:00:52.420 we wouldn't be speaking german

05:00:54.120 because russia

05:00:55.000 behind there was

05:00:55.940 is you would be speaking german

05:00:58.080 but

05:00:58.420 well no

05:00:59.060 to your point

05:00:59.900 and to your point

05:01:00.880 likely no you still wouldn't

05:01:02.980 we still wouldn't

05:01:03.740 even if

05:01:04.380 america

05:01:05.000 yeah i mean russia was gonna

05:01:06.540 yeah so

05:01:07.820 um

05:01:09.040 it is an interesting question though

05:01:10.460 i mean would we

05:01:11.200 maybe speaking russian

05:01:12.680 like if

05:01:13.480 if

05:01:13.980 because

05:01:14.440 uh with america's help and intervention

05:01:17.500 we prevented

05:01:18.660 like russia would have just

05:01:20.000 look i don't know

05:01:21.120 wouldn't russia have just

05:01:22.540 taken

05:01:23.720 no

05:01:24.660 well no

05:01:25.260 i mean nothing would have happened right

05:01:26.800 like you can't

05:01:27.560 you can't externally invade

05:01:29.420 the united states and win

05:01:30.980 it's not

05:01:31.340 the whole world could do it

05:01:32.580 no

05:01:32.920 the whole world can land on the beaches of new york

05:01:35.060 and invade

05:01:35.600 and they wouldn't have a chance

05:01:36.600 no i'm not saying that

05:01:37.420 but russia would have taken

05:01:38.820 more territory in europe

05:01:40.460 yes that's correct

05:01:41.860 but to

05:01:43.120 i mean but

05:01:45.560 at that point russia was part of the allied powers

05:01:48.960 yeah

05:01:49.820 i don't know

05:01:52.120 i don't know

05:01:52.580 i don't know what europe would it be

05:01:57.180 europe would be speaking russian

05:01:58.880 europe would it would be very different

05:02:00.740 okay we have lucas here

05:02:02.220 uh with a follow-up

05:02:04.640 go ahead

05:02:05.600 seen

05:02:06.000 due to the storm

05:02:08.660 the beaches of normanity

05:02:10.600 duty

05:02:11.160 obligation

05:02:12.040 responsibility

05:02:12.860 accountability

05:02:13.460 etc

05:02:14.160 is non-existent in gen z women

05:02:16.580 truly the

05:02:17.380 apotheosis

05:02:19.660 apotheosis

05:02:20.500 did i say that right

05:02:21.160 female 0.86

05:02:23.160 yeah you got it

05:02:24.720 oh

05:02:25.020 hold on

05:02:25.640 pull it back up

05:02:26.420 narcissism

05:02:28.460 combined with the

05:02:29.780 malaise

05:02:32.780 malaise

05:02:33.940 of luxury

05:02:34.940 i didn't even say 0.98

05:02:35.900 damn bro 0.99

05:02:37.340 he's just throwing out those crazy words 1.00

05:02:39.000 just to trip you up

05:02:39.980 he's just throwing it out to trip you up

05:02:42.320 yo lucas

05:02:42.860 thank you for the chats man

05:02:43.840 really appreciate it

05:02:44.640 let's get into the questionnaire then

05:02:46.240 shall we

05:02:46.640 actually before we get to the question

05:02:48.480 questionnaire

05:02:49.360 uh for you

05:02:50.320 earlier on in the conversation

05:02:51.920 i heard you say

05:02:52.920 you you mentioned

05:02:53.860 i forgot the context

05:02:54.840 you mentioned women's rights

05:02:56.460 and reproductive rights

05:02:57.680 do you recall what the context was

05:02:59.760 i wrote those down

05:03:00.780 but what was the context

05:03:01.700 um it was just that

05:03:03.960 um what i look for in a man

05:03:05.580 and i said that

05:03:06.380 like he needs to be aligned

05:03:07.660 at least politically with me

05:03:08.700 he needs to be aligned

05:03:09.440 politically with you

05:03:10.220 he needs to be supportive

05:03:11.240 of women's rights

05:03:12.960 and reproductive rights

05:03:14.020 when you um

05:03:15.520 just for clarification

05:03:16.520 for any of the men out there

05:03:17.660 who might be interested in dating you

05:03:19.060 uh or just for the sake

05:03:20.540 of the conversation

05:03:21.200 when you say supportive

05:03:22.700 of women's rights

05:03:24.200 uh what do you

05:03:25.420 what do you mean by that

05:03:26.540 women's right to education

05:03:28.960 women's rights to

05:03:30.460 um an abortion 0.83

05:03:31.660 um uh

05:03:34.040 women's rights to be equal

05:03:35.440 with men

05:03:36.220 women's right to have a career 1.00

05:03:37.620 etc

05:03:38.200 sure

05:03:38.680 but so are you saying

05:03:40.600 that women don't have 1.00

05:03:41.760 those things currently

05:03:42.520 they do

05:03:43.400 i'm just saying

05:03:44.200 from your standpoint

05:03:44.900 you know

05:03:45.260 there's men who want

05:03:46.160 that submissive woman 1.00

05:03:47.140 and they want that

05:03:48.600 woman that wants to be 1.00

05:03:49.660 a stay-at-home wife 0.99

05:03:50.480 and i don't want that

05:03:51.640 and that's what i want

05:03:52.620 him to align with

05:03:53.460 i see

05:03:54.460 okay so you're not arguing

05:03:55.720 that women don't have 1.00

05:03:56.780 these rights

05:03:57.320 no

05:03:57.780 but there needs to be

05:03:58.740 a continuity of support

05:04:00.740 of existing rights

05:04:01.820 yes

05:04:02.200 okay

05:04:02.540 all right

05:04:03.860 um

05:04:04.520 uh i guess on that

05:04:08.520 going getting into the

05:04:09.640 questionnaire for the whole

05:04:10.380 panel

05:04:10.720 uh i know some of you

05:04:12.100 probably answered in the

05:04:13.480 negative on this but

05:04:14.640 uh

05:04:16.520 do you guys think that

05:04:18.560 when it comes to women's

05:04:19.420 rights are there any

05:04:20.300 right like do women have 1.00

05:04:21.580 equal rights to men

05:04:22.640 show of hands

05:04:25.100 do women have equal rights 1.00

05:04:28.160 okay let me reframe the

05:04:30.940 question then

05:04:31.480 uh

05:04:32.540 we do have equal rights

05:04:33.620 are there any rights that

05:04:35.760 a man has that a woman 1.00

05:04:36.840 does not

05:04:37.480 starting with you

05:04:39.220 i guess

05:04:39.920 um

05:04:42.120 not that i can think of at

05:04:44.760 the top of my head

05:04:45.600 uh

05:04:47.160 okay

05:04:48.840 um

05:04:49.840 going around the table

05:04:52.720 then

05:04:53.000 no

05:04:55.320 um

05:04:58.000 i'm assuming this is like

05:05:00.440 going towards abortion

05:05:01.720 so i'd say

05:05:02.740 if abortion was illegal

05:05:05.100 then

05:05:05.540 that would be one right

05:05:06.940 that a man has over a

05:05:08.380 woman is that 1.00

05:05:10.140 a woman doesn't get 1.00

05:05:11.540 full say in

05:05:13.300 health care

05:05:14.060 well i mean men don't have

05:05:15.460 any reproductive rights at

05:05:16.660 all so it's not wouldn't

05:05:17.900 wouldn't equality between men 0.86

05:05:19.580 and women be to um 1.00

05:05:21.980 have a national abortion ban

05:05:24.740 would that not be equality

05:05:27.860 i'm not sure

05:05:29.620 what do you mean

05:05:30.860 i'm just not sure

05:05:32.620 well

05:05:33.860 if men don't have any rights 1.00

05:05:35.580 when it comes to their

05:05:36.220 reproduction

05:05:37.220 wouldn't that entail that in

05:05:38.420 order for there to be

05:05:39.100 equality

05:05:39.540 women wouldn't be allowed to 1.00

05:05:41.100 have any rights when it comes

05:05:42.380 to their reproduction 0.56

05:05:43.220 ergo there would be

05:05:44.900 uh

05:05:45.980 no right to an abortion

05:05:46.920 would that not be

05:05:47.840 equality then

05:05:48.740 um

05:05:50.540 sure

05:05:50.900 okay so then you're in favor

05:05:53.180 of equality

05:05:53.800 on this topic

05:05:56.820 yeah

05:05:57.540 okay

05:05:58.280 so you're in favor of walking

05:06:00.120 back abortion rights for women 0.99

05:06:01.280 though

05:06:01.520 no

05:06:02.320 so you're in favor of

05:06:04.520 inequality between men and

05:06:05.860 women 1.00

05:06:06.080 in favor of women having 0.92

05:06:07.480 more rights

05:06:08.020 i just think a woman should 0.99

05:06:09.440 be able to decide and that's

05:06:10.620 just my stance

05:06:11.400 yeah but that just just to be

05:06:13.600 clear you're in favor of an

05:06:14.600 inequality of rights between

05:06:16.060 men and women

05:06:16.640 something that favors more

05:06:19.140 rights to women than to men

05:06:20.480 i guess

05:06:23.520 okay sure a lot of women have 1.00

05:06:26.480 that position

05:06:27.020 um

05:06:28.120 going around the table

05:06:29.420 um

05:06:30.660 i don't think there are any

05:06:33.020 rights that

05:06:33.500 men have more than women 1.00

05:06:35.040 okay

05:06:37.020 are we talking strictly

05:06:39.500 legally or also

05:06:40.720 privilege

05:06:41.720 like day-to-day base

05:06:43.080 i'm talking

05:06:44.360 like rights

05:06:45.620 but we could also have a

05:06:46.960 separate conversation

05:06:47.960 about i guess

05:06:49.100 privileges

05:06:50.160 if we are talking

05:06:51.460 from a legal standpoint

05:06:52.740 i don't think

05:06:53.640 there's much

05:06:55.020 nowadays

05:06:55.840 inequality as far as

05:06:57.000 that goes

05:06:57.800 okay

05:06:59.380 um i feel like i have to

05:07:02.920 think about this question a

05:07:04.160 little bit more

05:07:04.900 you mean

05:07:05.520 i mean you've had a minute

05:07:06.800 while we've gone around the

05:07:08.460 table

05:07:08.780 yeah then i just prefer not

05:07:13.500 to answer the question

05:07:14.500 i mean

05:07:15.920 it's like

05:07:17.060 i've given you quite a bit of

05:07:19.380 leeway already

05:07:20.140 on refusing to answer i mean

05:07:22.260 you've written no opinion on a

05:07:23.740 lot of these

05:07:24.200 things i feel like you do have

05:07:26.320 opinions

05:07:26.780 you're just kind of being

05:07:28.140 like intellect

05:07:28.840 uh it's like intellectual

05:07:30.460 cowardice

05:07:31.020 you just don't feel

05:07:32.180 comfortable stating your

05:07:33.480 actual opinion

05:07:35.020 is that fair to say

05:07:35.900 it's not intellectual

05:07:36.940 cowardice

05:07:37.520 i just don't really want to

05:07:38.920 publicize my views

05:07:39.980 so you do have an opinion

05:07:40.800 you're just

05:07:41.500 scared to share it

05:07:43.380 i'll accept that

05:07:44.840 but i mean

05:07:45.540 at least a concession

05:07:46.760 that you're

05:07:47.380 not willing

05:07:48.580 to state your opinion

05:07:50.040 i would just like a little

05:07:51.120 bit of privacy

05:07:51.780 if that's available to me

05:07:54.100 i suppose

05:07:56.520 excuse me

05:07:57.840 i suppose

05:07:58.400 it's just

05:07:58.840 you've come on a podcast

05:08:00.240 to talk

05:08:01.000 so

05:08:01.220 it's kind of

05:08:02.500 counterintuitive

05:08:03.140 but

05:08:03.600 um

05:08:05.240 what about you

05:08:05.840 what was the question

05:08:06.640 uh

05:08:08.460 it's

05:08:08.940 it's definitely a nuanced

05:08:10.040 question

05:08:10.660 i think that yes

05:08:12.140 on paper

05:08:12.940 women have equal rights 0.90

05:08:14.960 to men

05:08:15.420 um

05:08:16.400 but

05:08:17.120 you know

05:08:17.860 if you're in a country

05:08:19.260 where

05:08:19.820 yes like

05:08:21.040 if we're talking about

05:08:21.740 abortion

05:08:22.080 you know

05:08:22.740 your child has

05:08:23.620 um

05:08:24.120 uh

05:08:25.580 extreme deformity

05:08:27.180 they won't make it out

05:08:28.500 of the womb alive

05:08:29.620 and you're forced to

05:08:30.620 carry this pregnancy

05:08:31.440 and it kills you

05:08:32.680 in the end

05:08:33.260 the man did have more

05:08:34.740 right in this

05:08:35.360 and say in this

05:08:36.460 situation

05:08:36.960 well

05:08:37.800 wait a second

05:08:38.740 how so

05:08:39.320 well

05:08:40.260 when not only that

05:08:41.380 but

05:08:41.660 any

05:08:42.580 time

05:08:43.440 the abortion

05:08:44.200 argument

05:08:44.640 comes up

05:08:45.460 the argument

05:08:46.280 is never

05:08:46.800 between

05:08:47.220 the life

05:08:47.780 of the child

05:08:48.340 and the mother

05:08:48.960 for like

05:08:50.000 an entopic

05:08:50.440 pregnancy

05:08:50.960 or something

05:08:51.380 like that

05:08:51.900 that's already

05:08:53.080 been relinquished

05:08:54.060 it's always

05:08:54.920 the default

05:08:55.660 that if it's

05:08:56.280 going to be

05:08:56.800 that the baby

05:08:57.460 actually

05:08:58.200 has the chance

05:08:59.820 of killing 1.00

05:09:00.280 the mother 0.99

05:09:00.720 from some

05:09:01.440 sort of

05:09:01.780 delivery

05:09:02.200 at that point

05:09:03.120 uh

05:09:03.940 everybody agrees

05:09:04.780 religious and non

05:09:05.800 that you would

05:09:06.540 default for the life

05:09:07.440 of the mother

05:09:07.940 at that point

05:09:08.920 and there's good

05:09:09.860 reasons behind that

05:09:11.140 so like

05:09:12.020 but that's

05:09:12.600 that's not really

05:09:13.500 what's ever

05:09:14.020 entailed

05:09:14.360 in the abortion

05:09:15.020 question

05:09:15.500 almost no

05:09:16.560 abortion

05:09:17.040 ever happens

05:09:17.940 because of

05:09:18.480 those reasons

05:09:19.140 almost zero

05:09:20.100 of them

05:09:20.580 there have

05:09:21.120 been multiple

05:09:22.060 multiple cases

05:09:23.080 in red states

05:09:24.180 where a mom

05:09:24.920 has identified

05:09:25.700 that her child

05:09:26.500 has an abnormality

05:09:27.760 that it won't

05:09:28.380 live out of the fetus

05:09:29.120 and it's a danger

05:09:29.800 to herself

05:09:30.260 to deliver this

05:09:30.880 child

05:09:31.120 and she wasn't

05:09:31.940 allowed the access

05:09:32.520 to abortion

05:09:33.000 that's never

05:09:33.660 happened

05:09:33.900 you can literally

05:09:34.520 look it up

05:09:35.380 yeah I'll literally

05:09:36.540 look it up

05:09:37.060 right now

05:09:37.500 tell me where

05:09:38.220 there was

05:09:39.040 recently a 16 year

05:09:40.460 old

05:09:40.740 like it was

05:09:41.680 on the operating

05:09:42.380 table

05:09:42.800 she died

05:09:43.680 because it

05:09:44.440 was a risk

05:09:44.900 to her life

05:09:46.280 and this child

05:09:46.880 could not be

05:09:47.260 aborted

05:09:47.580 earlier on

05:09:48.700 I'm not sure

05:09:50.060 where

05:09:50.320 I read up on

05:09:51.440 the case

05:09:51.760 it was a while

05:09:52.100 ago

05:09:52.220 I don't remember

05:09:52.660 all the details

05:09:53.260 yeah no that

05:09:54.920 doesn't happen

05:09:55.700 if this is

05:09:57.000 and by the way

05:09:57.500 this is a matter

05:09:58.140 of law

05:09:58.720 they're supposed

05:09:59.940 to default

05:10:00.500 to the life

05:10:01.120 of the mother

05:10:01.560 in the case

05:10:02.320 in topic

05:10:02.840 pregnancy

05:10:03.320 where there's

05:10:03.780 a deformity

05:10:04.400 which could

05:10:04.780 kill the mother 1.00

05:10:05.340 they always 1.00

05:10:06.380 will do the

05:10:07.500 procedure to

05:10:08.280 save the mother's

05:10:09.340 life

05:10:09.660 so I don't

05:10:11.220 literally

05:10:12.300 that just

05:10:13.100 sounds like

05:10:13.620 propaganda

05:10:14.200 so to be

05:10:15.480 maximum charitable

05:10:16.540 16 year old

05:10:17.280 on operating

05:10:17.860 operating table

05:10:18.880 can't have

05:10:19.740 abortion

05:10:20.740 and it kills

05:10:21.980 her right 0.53

05:10:22.640 yes

05:10:23.300 okay and it 1.00

05:10:24.520 kills her

05:10:24.980 let's see 0.95

05:10:25.800 do you know

05:10:26.720 where this

05:10:27.140 happened

05:10:27.540 I don't know

05:10:29.200 I don't remember

05:10:29.760 I know it's

05:10:31.020 in a red state

05:10:32.080 where

05:10:32.480 I mean so

05:10:33.480 Andrew even

05:10:34.100 granting that

05:10:34.920 this happened

05:10:35.500 I still don't

05:10:36.180 think that this

05:10:36.660 is actually

05:10:37.120 evidence of

05:10:38.360 some sort of

05:10:39.800 because when

05:10:40.340 we're talking

05:10:40.760 about rights

05:10:42.940 and a comparison

05:10:44.780 of rights

05:10:45.380 between men

05:10:45.920 and women

05:10:46.220 equal rights

05:10:47.080 equal rights

05:10:47.980 would indicate

05:10:48.440 that there's

05:10:48.800 a comparison

05:10:49.260 being made

05:10:50.420 so here

05:10:51.480 I found

05:10:51.800 the case

05:10:52.720 okay

05:10:53.940 at least

05:10:55.280 this is the

05:10:55.780 only case

05:10:56.200 I can find

05:10:56.840 but this

05:10:58.360 was happening

05:10:58.940 due to a

05:10:59.580 miscarriage

05:11:00.300 and they

05:11:01.300 were suing

05:11:01.880 because of

05:11:02.640 a

05:11:03.140 the miscarriage

05:11:04.820 should have

05:11:05.100 been sped up

05:11:06.120 in order to

05:11:07.260 deliver the

05:11:07.820 fetus

05:11:08.320 exactly

05:11:08.840 at that point

05:11:09.420 that was

05:11:10.680 safer though

05:11:11.260 the doctors

05:11:11.700 say it was

05:11:12.060 safer to

05:11:12.700 deliver the

05:11:13.500 fetus

05:11:13.820 they were

05:11:14.080 unaware

05:11:14.560 of any

05:11:16.260 pre-existing

05:11:16.860 condition

05:11:17.400 that would

05:11:18.620 have affected

05:11:19.660 the health

05:11:20.100 of the mother

05:11:20.540 so she

05:11:20.920 was miscarrying

05:11:21.720 and they're

05:11:22.380 being sued

05:11:22.800 for malpractice

05:11:23.780 because they

05:11:24.320 didn't do

05:11:24.820 the correct

05:11:25.220 things they

05:11:25.520 were supposed

05:11:25.880 to do

05:11:26.420 but that

05:11:27.140 really doesn't

05:11:27.560 make your

05:11:27.860 case

05:11:28.320 but this

05:11:29.300 case is

05:11:29.840 happening more

05:11:30.460 literally in

05:11:31.380 Texas they're

05:11:32.180 not teaching

05:11:32.800 certain chapters

05:11:34.240 of the OBGYN

05:11:35.460 residency to

05:11:36.380 their residents

05:11:36.980 because it's

05:11:37.660 not in a line

05:11:38.220 with their views

05:11:38.780 and they have

05:11:39.240 to fly out

05:11:39.740 to different

05:11:40.080 states

05:11:40.540 like chapters

05:11:42.140 on abortion

05:11:42.600 on performing

05:11:47.520 abortions

05:11:48.300 Andrew let's

05:11:49.120 just grant

05:11:49.560 it though

05:11:49.920 for what

05:11:50.520 though

05:11:50.820 like but

05:11:52.100 for what

05:11:52.680 instances

05:11:53.380 the instances

05:11:55.840 is you

05:11:56.760 cannot physically

05:11:57.600 deliver this

05:11:58.180 child and it's

05:11:58.800 a detriment

05:11:59.180 to you

05:11:59.800 then you

05:12:00.600 have to

05:12:01.020 no there

05:12:01.740 is not

05:12:02.340 any

05:12:02.800 nobody is

05:12:04.440 refusing to

05:12:05.840 teach OBGYNs

05:12:07.300 in Texas

05:12:07.740 that if the

05:12:08.620 health of the

05:12:09.160 mother and the

05:12:09.660 welfare of the

05:12:10.220 mother is at

05:12:10.800 stake meaning

05:12:11.320 she's going to

05:12:11.920 die if she

05:12:12.560 goes into 0.99

05:12:12.980 delivery for

05:12:13.560 this kid

05:12:14.080 that they

05:12:15.540 can't do

05:12:16.260 an emergency

05:12:17.100 abortion

05:12:17.580 that is

05:12:18.360 completely

05:12:18.920 nonsense

05:12:19.900 I would love

05:12:21.000 to know

05:12:21.560 you can even

05:12:22.240 send it to me

05:12:22.740 after the show

05:12:23.300 but there's no

05:12:24.560 way that that's

05:12:25.200 true there's

05:12:25.780 no simply no

05:12:26.520 way that that's

05:12:27.100 true

05:12:27.300 but are or are

05:12:28.480 they not

05:12:28.800 omitting education

05:12:29.720 yeah I mean

05:12:31.520 it depends on

05:12:32.280 what the

05:12:32.540 it depends on

05:12:33.460 what the

05:12:33.720 education is

05:12:34.540 for like

05:12:35.600 okay public

05:12:36.740 schools probably

05:12:37.480 omit education

05:12:38.460 for how to

05:12:38.880 build a nuclear

05:12:39.440 bomb yeah

05:12:40.460 so what

05:12:41.260 like good

05:12:42.220 they should

05:12:42.900 omit that

05:12:43.360 education

05:12:43.900 so you

05:12:44.740 would need

05:12:45.360 to tell me

05:12:45.880 what the

05:12:46.540 education is

05:12:47.240 they're omitting

05:12:47.780 and how it

05:12:48.600 would be

05:12:48.860 pertinent to

05:12:49.900 this idea

05:12:50.620 one sec

05:12:52.640 or go ahead

05:12:53.720 go ahead

05:12:54.500 I'm saying

05:12:55.320 it's pertinent

05:12:55.860 because you

05:12:56.520 should teach

05:12:56.960 everything

05:12:57.400 I don't know

05:12:58.080 I know you're

05:12:58.840 asking me to

05:12:59.360 say specific

05:12:59.920 examples but

05:13:00.740 if you are in

05:13:01.960 any state in

05:13:02.660 the US

05:13:02.940 did you teach

05:13:03.220 kids how to

05:13:03.640 build UZIs 0.94

05:13:04.240 no because

05:13:05.580 I'm talking

05:13:06.260 about OBGYN

05:13:06.960 I'm talking

05:13:08.540 about

05:13:09.020 I'm talking

05:13:10.220 about the

05:13:10.600 OBGYN 0.64

05:13:11.100 residency

05:13:11.620 specifically

05:13:12.220 for medical

05:13:12.740 students

05:13:13.160 because that's

05:13:13.700 pertinent to

05:13:14.140 the situation

05:13:14.540 everything

05:13:15.040 if there's

05:13:15.900 a moral

05:13:16.220 dilemma

05:13:16.620 like would

05:13:17.600 you teach

05:13:17.960 a doctor

05:13:18.340 how to

05:13:18.620 poison

05:13:18.900 patients

05:13:19.420 no

05:13:19.940 right

05:13:20.640 so there's

05:13:20.980 all sorts

05:13:21.360 of things

05:13:21.660 that you

05:13:21.920 wouldn't

05:13:22.200 teach people

05:13:22.960 who are in

05:13:23.320 a residency

05:13:23.840 if there's

05:13:24.440 a moral

05:13:24.740 dilemma

05:13:25.120 so the

05:13:25.640 question is

05:13:26.320 like absent

05:13:27.720 whatever the

05:13:28.260 specific education

05:13:29.120 you're talking

05:13:29.500 about in regards

05:13:30.000 to abortion

05:13:30.520 if it's

05:13:31.520 outside the

05:13:32.180 scope of

05:13:32.700 the moral

05:13:33.060 dilemma

05:13:33.440 why would

05:13:34.220 you teach

05:13:34.560 it to

05:13:34.820 them

05:13:35.000 it's not

05:13:36.880 outside the

05:13:37.440 scope of

05:13:37.760 the moral

05:13:38.040 dilemma

05:13:38.360 though

05:13:38.660 then what

05:13:39.140 is it

05:13:39.580 I'm saying

05:13:41.020 they should

05:13:41.420 have full

05:13:42.020 access to

05:13:42.640 know

05:13:42.880 everything

05:13:43.380 whether or

05:13:44.060 not they

05:13:44.560 can perform

05:13:45.060 it that is

05:13:45.500 up to each

05:13:45.900 state

05:13:46.220 yeah why

05:13:46.980 you don't

05:13:51.740 know

05:13:51.960 you don't

05:13:52.600 know why

05:13:52.860 they should

05:13:53.160 have access

05:13:53.540 to all

05:13:53.800 that

05:13:53.940 you can't

05:13:54.440 tell me

05:13:54.680 what it

05:13:54.960 is

05:13:55.100 not being

05:13:55.440 educated

05:13:55.860 in

05:13:56.140 you can't

05:13:56.600 tell me

05:13:56.800 what state

05:13:57.240 it's in

05:13:57.600 you can't

05:13:58.140 tell me

05:13:58.360 any of

05:13:58.560 these specific

05:13:59.000 cases

05:13:59.360 but you're

05:13:59.940 adamant

05:14:00.360 that it's

05:14:00.640 happening

05:14:01.000 that doesn't

05:14:01.900 sound like

05:14:02.240 complete

05:14:02.500 fake news

05:14:03.020 to you

05:14:03.260 like

05:14:03.460 possibly

05:14:04.280 democrat

05:14:04.840 propagandizing

05:14:05.840 you can

05:14:06.580 look it

05:14:06.860 up

05:14:07.120 I just

05:14:08.380 looked it

05:14:08.820 up

05:14:09.100 I couldn't

05:14:11.040 find the

05:14:11.420 case anywhere

05:14:12.100 the only

05:14:13.540 case that I

05:14:14.040 could find

05:14:14.500 was in

05:14:14.980 this

05:14:15.160 miscarriage

05:14:15.780 I couldn't

05:14:16.760 find any

05:14:17.140 case of

05:14:17.540 the mother's

05:14:18.040 actual

05:14:18.720 body

05:14:20.380 going to

05:14:22.200 die 0.96

05:14:22.600 based on

05:14:23.240 a previous

05:14:24.040 diagnosis

05:14:24.760 of an

05:14:25.580 abnormality

05:14:26.620 that's

05:14:27.220 complete

05:14:27.500 nonsense

05:14:27.880 and by

05:14:28.220 the way

05:14:28.540 the reason

05:14:29.260 democrats

05:14:29.800 lost

05:14:30.140 the most

05:14:30.480 recent

05:14:30.780 election

05:14:31.160 is because

05:14:31.860 there was

05:14:32.120 women all 1.00

05:14:32.520 over the

05:14:32.780 place

05:14:33.000 saying 1.00

05:14:33.240 shit 1.00

05:14:33.440 like 0.99

05:14:33.660 this

05:14:33.940 and when

05:14:34.440 people

05:14:34.680 would

05:14:34.940 look it

05:14:35.800 up

05:14:36.040 they found

05:14:36.540 out it was 1.00

05:14:36.880 bullshit 1.00

05:14:37.280 it was total 1.00

05:14:37.940 bullshit 0.99

05:14:38.340 when we get 1.00

05:14:39.500 down to it

05:14:40.240 the real moral

05:14:41.560 dilemma of abortion

05:14:42.520 does not come

05:14:43.500 down to

05:14:44.100 000.1%

05:14:46.180 of them

05:14:46.560 which happens

05:14:47.600 when it

05:14:48.620 affects the

05:14:49.100 life of the

05:14:49.480 mother

05:14:49.680 almost no

05:14:51.020 abortion is 0.64

05:14:51.720 done that

05:14:52.120 way

05:14:52.320 can you at

05:14:52.760 least agree

05:14:53.140 with that

05:14:53.520 almost zero

05:14:54.300 abortion done

05:14:55.060 in the

05:14:55.220 united states

05:14:55.640 has anything

05:14:56.160 to do

05:14:56.600 with the

05:14:56.920 life of the

05:14:57.340 mother

05:14:59.620 okay but

05:15:00.140 what about

05:15:00.700 if it was

05:15:02.060 a 10 year

05:15:02.460 old

05:15:02.680 and then

05:15:04.680 you're not

05:15:05.200 agreeing with

05:15:06.600 the life of

05:15:06.960 the mother

05:15:07.280 it's not

05:15:08.180 detrimental

05:15:09.000 that's true

05:15:09.500 and i'll

05:15:10.060 i'll directly

05:15:10.880 contend with

05:15:11.380 this

05:15:11.620 okay then

05:15:12.240 we can

05:15:12.520 agree

05:15:12.760 if you

05:15:13.280 were

05:15:14.040 s8 at

05:15:14.760 a party

05:15:15.160 sexually 0.67

05:15:15.760 assaulted

05:15:16.140 at a

05:15:16.440 party

05:15:16.680 does that

05:15:17.380 mean that

05:15:17.640 you can

05:15:17.920 go home 1.00

05:15:18.320 and kill 1.00

05:15:18.640 another one 1.00

05:15:19.000 of your

05:15:19.180 kids

05:15:19.520 sorry what's

05:15:22.440 the question

05:15:22.800 again

05:15:23.120 if you were

05:15:24.400 s8 at a

05:15:25.040 party and

05:15:25.560 you had

05:15:25.840 two children

05:15:26.440 could you

05:15:27.200 go home and 1.00

05:15:27.680 then kill 1.00

05:15:28.000 one of them 1.00

05:15:28.380 because you

05:15:28.760 were s8

05:15:29.200 did you or

05:15:30.700 did you not

05:15:31.300 consent to

05:15:32.220 that child

05:15:33.720 i'll answer

05:15:35.120 yours but

05:15:35.520 answer mine

05:15:36.100 so to

05:15:36.980 start with

05:15:37.520 if you

05:15:38.400 are s8 at

05:15:39.060 a party

05:15:39.460 does it

05:15:40.320 give you

05:15:40.560 the right

05:15:40.820 to go

05:15:41.100 home and

05:15:42.020 unalive one

05:15:42.620 of your

05:15:42.820 kids

05:15:43.120 no

05:15:43.720 why

05:15:44.880 because that's

05:15:46.520 the life

05:15:46.800 you're taking

05:15:47.340 that that's

05:15:48.280 right and

05:15:48.800 so that's

05:15:49.220 the exact

05:15:49.620 counter argument

05:15:50.500 to the argument

05:15:51.460 of you being

05:15:52.120 s8 and

05:15:53.140 delivering you

05:15:53.940 don't have a

05:15:54.360 right to then

05:15:54.960 take the life

05:15:55.680 of somebody

05:15:56.100 else even

05:15:56.660 though a

05:15:56.960 horrible thing

05:15:57.460 happened to

05:15:57.920 you but

05:15:58.480 you're forced

05:15:59.000 to carry

05:15:59.380 through with

05:15:59.840 it you're

05:16:00.340 not forcing

05:16:00.900 him to do

05:16:01.440 anything you're

05:16:02.140 saying that

05:16:02.540 they're not

05:16:02.800 allowed to

05:16:03.120 kill somebody 0.95

05:16:03.600 else who's 1.00

05:16:04.140 external to

05:16:04.660 them but

05:16:05.680 you're forcing

05:16:06.180 the woman 0.98

05:16:06.580 to go

05:16:06.940 through

05:16:07.320 a traumatic

05:16:08.680 pregnancy

05:16:09.020 we force people 0.73

05:16:09.200 all the time

05:16:09.720 to not murder

05:16:10.260 people that's

05:16:10.960 true

05:16:11.180 okay well can

05:16:13.040 we can we

05:16:14.100 please move

05:16:14.520 on to another

05:16:15.040 topic

05:16:15.240 why does it

05:16:15.780 make you

05:16:16.040 uncomfortable

05:16:16.420 that there's

05:16:16.840 a counter

05:16:17.180 argument here

05:16:17.880 I mean I

05:16:21.220 we're having a

05:16:22.640 reasonable

05:16:22.940 conversation

05:16:23.600 you know I

05:16:24.540 would say

05:16:25.280 that yes I

05:16:26.120 would need to

05:16:26.700 do more

05:16:26.980 research on

05:16:27.460 the topic

05:16:27.960 that's all

05:16:29.800 I'm gonna

05:16:30.040 say

05:16:30.320 all right

05:16:31.340 so I mean

05:16:33.440 even granting

05:16:34.180 all that stuff

05:16:35.020 I'm you

05:16:36.680 wrote here

05:16:37.440 that women 0.97

05:16:39.820 you disagree

05:16:41.360 that women 0.97

05:16:41.740 have equal

05:16:42.320 rights to

05:16:42.840 men you

05:16:43.720 also disagree

05:16:44.340 that there

05:16:44.920 is no right

05:16:45.580 a man has

05:16:46.260 that a woman 0.98

05:16:46.660 does not

05:16:47.280 is there

05:16:50.180 anything I

05:16:50.700 mean you

05:16:50.940 brought up

05:16:51.280 the abortion

05:16:51.680 thing I

05:16:52.100 don't really

05:16:52.380 think that's

05:16:52.760 compelling is

05:16:53.320 there any

05:16:53.600 other right

05:16:54.860 no so just

05:16:58.220 that one I

05:16:59.560 mean that is

05:17:00.140 pretty major

05:17:00.920 one but yes

05:17:01.980 right but

05:17:03.160 so I mean

05:17:04.660 considering that

05:17:05.720 men don't have 1.00

05:17:06.560 any reproductive

05:17:07.240 rights it's

05:17:08.560 not clear to

05:17:09.160 me if this is

05:17:09.880 like an

05:17:10.260 inequality

05:17:10.940 between men

05:17:11.760 and women

05:17:12.140 does that

05:17:13.140 make sense

05:17:13.540 I mean it

05:17:14.420 takes two

05:17:14.880 people to

05:17:15.480 make a

05:17:15.740 child so

05:17:16.540 they both

05:17:17.140 should have

05:17:17.580 an equal

05:17:18.200 say so

05:17:19.580 if a man

05:17:20.000 wants a

05:17:20.680 woman to 0.98

05:17:21.000 have an

05:17:21.220 abortion but

05:17:21.820 she wants 0.85

05:17:22.660 to keep

05:17:22.940 the child

05:17:23.360 he should

05:17:24.560 be able to

05:17:25.220 force her to

05:17:25.600 have an

05:17:25.800 abortion

05:17:26.100 no

05:17:27.200 oh so he

05:17:29.220 doesn't have

05:17:29.720 a choice then

05:17:30.320 I don't know

05:17:33.120 why you're

05:17:33.520 throwing these

05:17:34.260 situations at

05:17:35.260 me right now

05:17:35.760 I mean this

05:17:36.400 is a pretty

05:17:36.880 frequent

05:17:37.280 situation that

05:17:38.340 occurs

05:17:38.820 I mean

05:17:40.040 obviously men 0.95

05:17:40.740 can't compel

05:17:41.360 women to get 1.00

05:17:41.800 abortions but

05:17:42.520 for example

05:17:43.040 like a guy

05:17:43.980 could be on

05:17:44.400 the hook for

05:17:45.100 18 years of

05:17:46.700 his life of

05:17:47.340 child support

05:17:47.960 if he you

05:17:48.620 know didn't

05:17:50.380 want to have

05:17:51.780 a kid and

05:17:52.380 she lies about

05:17:53.900 being on birth

05:17:54.340 control it was

05:17:55.080 a casual

05:17:55.440 encounter she 0.84

05:17:56.320 keeps the

05:17:56.680 kid I mean

05:17:57.540 these situations

05:17:58.500 do I'm not

05:17:59.720 in favor of

05:18:01.020 men being I

05:18:01.800 don't think

05:18:02.240 men should be 0.79

05:18:02.680 able to force

05:18:03.020 women to get 1.00

05:18:03.380 abortions but

05:18:04.500 like I'm just

05:18:05.380 a bit confused

05:18:05.880 there I mean

05:18:06.980 in that case

05:18:07.900 no it's not

05:18:08.780 fair to the

05:18:09.300 man right

05:18:10.400 but that's

05:18:10.860 why it has

05:18:11.280 to be their

05:18:12.240 body our

05:18:13.420 choice

05:18:13.920 okay um

05:18:18.920 okay but

05:18:20.900 again like I

05:18:22.000 just when it

05:18:22.860 comes to this

05:18:23.220 abortion thing

05:18:23.900 men don't have 1.00

05:18:25.380 a right any

05:18:26.160 reproductive rights

05:18:27.120 so you saying

05:18:28.000 that you

05:18:29.440 disagree that

05:18:31.180 women have 0.95

05:18:32.800 equal rights

05:18:33.240 to men there

05:18:33.760 is no right

05:18:34.160 a man has

05:18:34.600 the woman 0.98

05:18:34.960 does not

05:18:35.500 it doesn't

05:18:36.540 occur to me

05:18:37.320 that they're

05:18:38.660 like as it

05:18:39.920 currently stands

05:18:40.880 absent either

05:18:43.140 men being able

05:18:44.240 to compel a 0.85

05:18:46.080 female sexual

05:18:46.660 partner to get

05:18:47.220 an abortion

05:18:47.600 or just an

05:18:49.060 outright abortion

05:18:49.740 ban there

05:18:50.740 there is an

05:18:51.640 inequality between

05:18:52.580 men and women

05:18:53.180 and this

05:18:53.780 inequality is

05:18:55.280 to the I

05:18:56.220 suppose well

05:18:56.700 it depends on

05:18:57.180 your side

05:18:57.840 of the aisle

05:18:58.480 seems to be

05:19:00.800 a right that

05:19:02.320 women possess 1.00

05:19:02.920 that men

05:19:03.840 don't

05:19:04.380 in terms of

05:19:06.280 okay you

05:19:07.240 will you

05:19:07.780 will agree

05:19:08.060 okay so

05:19:08.560 Roe v.

05:19:09.140 Wade pushed

05:19:10.220 it back to

05:19:10.600 the states

05:19:11.020 so there are

05:19:12.020 states where

05:19:12.480 women can 1.00

05:19:12.900 still get

05:19:13.160 abortions

05:19:13.560 correct

05:19:13.940 yes

05:19:14.880 okay there

05:19:15.240 is there

05:19:15.860 any state

05:19:16.560 where a

05:19:17.840 man has

05:19:18.320 any

05:19:18.580 reproductive

05:19:19.020 rights

05:19:19.520 no

05:19:20.740 okay

05:19:21.500 so in

05:19:22.680 order to

05:19:23.140 create equality

05:19:24.420 between men

05:19:25.020 and women

05:19:25.380 you have

05:19:26.040 states where

05:19:26.460 women have 0.95

05:19:26.940 a right

05:19:27.360 correct

05:19:27.720 like for

05:19:28.660 example you

05:19:29.060 have a right

05:19:29.500 to get

05:19:29.840 an abortion

05:19:30.180 in california

05:19:31.180 yes

05:19:31.880 what corresponding

05:19:32.920 right do men

05:19:33.800 have in california

05:19:34.740 pertaining to

05:19:35.520 this topic

05:19:35.980 so you would

05:19:39.260 have to concede

05:19:39.880 then that women 0.99

05:19:40.580 have a right

05:19:41.140 that men

05:19:41.480 don't correct

05:19:42.260 right on i

05:19:44.600 guess yeah

05:19:45.220 on your terms

05:19:45.840 right because

05:19:46.300 men can't 0.98

05:19:47.780 again there

05:19:48.240 there is no

05:19:49.100 uh i mean

05:19:50.800 in your case

05:19:51.880 are can

05:19:52.640 are men

05:19:53.200 forced to

05:19:53.960 go through

05:19:54.560 that pregnancy

05:19:55.280 are they

05:19:55.940 forced to

05:19:56.400 carry the

05:19:56.840 child are

05:19:57.840 they then

05:19:58.240 forced to

05:19:58.680 make a

05:19:59.180 choice whether

05:20:00.020 to adopt

05:20:00.500 or then

05:20:00.800 raise this

05:20:01.280 child for

05:20:01.640 the next

05:20:01.900 18 years

05:20:02.480 so you

05:20:02.800 can't really

05:20:03.180 say that

05:20:03.560 we're equal

05:20:04.020 on that

05:20:04.400 standpoint

05:20:04.880 no there

05:20:05.420 is sure

05:20:06.100 there's

05:20:06.500 there's

05:20:06.760 biological

05:20:07.140 differences

05:20:07.720 but when

05:20:08.660 it comes

05:20:09.340 to rights

05:20:10.320 what right

05:20:12.260 does the

05:20:12.900 man have

05:20:13.580 in this

05:20:13.800 situation

05:20:14.160 that the

05:20:14.420 woman 0.99

05:20:14.580 doesn't

05:20:14.900 the woman 0.98

05:20:15.360 has the

05:20:15.640 right to

05:20:15.860 abortion

05:20:16.220 the man

05:20:16.860 has a

05:20:17.280 right to

05:20:18.160 nothing

05:20:20.920 on the

05:20:22.380 paper

05:20:22.720 on paper

05:20:23.440 yes what

05:20:24.500 you're saying

05:20:24.900 is right

05:20:25.240 i'm saying

05:20:25.760 this is much

05:20:26.400 more of a

05:20:26.820 nuance to

05:20:27.340 take than

05:20:28.020 you're putting

05:20:28.380 it out to

05:20:28.760 be it's very

05:20:29.240 black and

05:20:29.680 white how

05:20:30.000 you're saying

05:20:30.440 it right

05:20:31.020 now what

05:20:31.600 is the

05:20:31.900 nuance i'm

05:20:32.540 failing to

05:20:32.980 see the

05:20:33.240 nuance that

05:20:34.640 women have 0.95

05:20:35.440 they reproductively

05:20:36.700 we have a

05:20:37.280 uterus that

05:20:37.800 we're forced

05:20:38.280 to carry this

05:20:38.960 child if

05:20:39.880 yes it's in

05:20:40.880 terms of

05:20:41.380 well you're

05:20:41.700 not always

05:20:42.160 forced to

05:20:43.280 okay i'll

05:20:44.200 give you that

05:20:44.720 but if it's

05:20:45.440 rape essay

05:20:45.980 you're too 0.74

05:20:46.340 young then

05:20:46.920 you're forced

05:20:47.340 to carry

05:20:47.700 out this

05:20:48.360 pregnancy and

05:20:49.300 then decide if

05:20:49.780 you want to

05:20:50.020 keep it or

05:20:50.380 not and men

05:20:51.100 can just walk

05:20:51.620 away

05:20:51.920 i mean hold

05:20:55.320 on in

05:20:55.880 california in

05:20:57.380 any state i

05:20:58.460 mean you know

05:20:58.820 what i

05:20:59.640 agreed let's

05:21:00.500 just make the

05:21:00.900 concession for

05:21:01.680 the sake of

05:21:02.080 argument that

05:21:03.340 if you're

05:21:03.600 s8 underage or

05:21:05.360 s8 at all or

05:21:06.880 you have an

05:21:07.280 atopic pregnancy

05:21:08.100 where it would

05:21:08.600 affect your life

05:21:09.260 in those instances

05:21:10.460 only we will

05:21:11.720 go ahead and

05:21:12.160 grant that you

05:21:12.660 can go ahead and

05:21:13.200 have an abortion

05:21:13.820 you're saying

05:21:16.620 but you still

05:21:17.500 want abortion 0.96

05:21:18.740 absent those

05:21:20.480 things right

05:21:21.360 yes so you

05:21:23.420 only are arguing

05:21:24.300 those things as

05:21:25.100 the outliers

05:21:25.760 because because

05:21:27.060 you're demanding

05:21:27.700 based on those

05:21:28.460 outliers that

05:21:29.160 everybody has the

05:21:29.760 right to abort 0.71

05:21:30.400 anyway so we'll

05:21:31.940 just grant it for

05:21:32.700 the sake of

05:21:33.140 argument what

05:21:34.300 could your

05:21:34.600 argument possibly

05:21:35.380 be then

05:21:35.900 that there

05:21:38.400 is there's no

05:21:39.320 ban like uh

05:21:40.220 there's no um

05:21:41.740 rights infringing

05:21:43.760 upon abortion is

05:21:44.520 that what you're

05:21:44.900 saying no i'm

05:21:46.420 just saying that

05:21:46.960 even if brian

05:21:47.680 were to grant

05:21:48.200 for you okay

05:21:48.920 under cases of

05:21:49.780 s8 and if the

05:21:50.660 mother's life is 0.99

05:21:51.240 at risk you can

05:21:51.860 have an abortion

05:21:52.420 but all other

05:21:53.340 abortions are 0.99

05:21:53.840 outlawed why is

05:21:54.720 that problematic

05:21:55.260 it's because i

05:21:59.240 believe in the

05:21:59.820 woman's choice 0.89

05:22:00.420 that's right

05:22:01.320 that's it yes

05:22:02.660 that's it okay

05:22:05.080 that's my take

05:22:05.900 but so i'm just

05:22:07.820 again confused

05:22:08.940 because you said

05:22:09.920 you disagree that

05:22:11.160 women have equal 1.00

05:22:12.260 rights to men

05:22:12.880 there is no right

05:22:13.900 a man has the

05:22:14.540 woman does not 1.00

05:22:15.340 is there anything

05:22:17.280 besides the and

05:22:18.600 i it's not clear

05:22:20.880 to me that this

05:22:21.560 abortion conversation

05:22:22.560 it pertains at

05:22:24.020 all because men

05:22:24.900 don't have any

05:22:27.120 sort of reproductive

05:22:27.880 rights is there

05:22:29.080 anything else when

05:22:31.440 it comes to women 0.94

05:22:32.600 not having equal

05:22:33.380 rights besides this

05:22:34.480 no okay so do

05:22:38.380 you have equal

05:22:39.120 rights to men in

05:22:40.420 california in

05:22:41.560 california yes

05:22:42.560 in california yes

05:22:43.440 okay um what do

05:22:45.500 you think about just

05:22:46.140 really quick on this

05:22:46.760 topic then i'm gonna

05:22:47.380 move things along

05:22:48.140 um the man doesn't

05:22:50.480 want to have the

05:22:50.900 kid uh the woman 0.70

05:22:53.880 wants to keep the

05:22:54.620 kid what do you

05:22:56.060 tell to what do 0.61

05:22:56.720 you say to the

05:22:57.140 man if the man

05:22:59.500 doesn't want the

05:23:00.180 kid and the woman

05:23:01.020 what's his remedy

05:23:02.040 if any you should

05:23:04.380 sit down have a

05:23:05.220 conversation if that's

05:23:06.540 not working the

05:23:07.280 woman is steadfast and

05:23:08.920 she's made a choice

05:23:09.940 that she's gonna keep

05:23:11.120 the child and he

05:23:12.680 should concede his

05:23:13.740 rights to the child

05:23:14.560 what do you mean

05:23:15.160 concede his rights

05:23:16.500 like give up his

05:23:17.660 rights give up his

05:23:18.860 parental rights and

05:23:19.900 walk away okay so a

05:23:21.260 man and this is

05:23:22.100 applies to every single

05:23:22.940 state in this country

05:23:23.620 he can he can uh revoke

05:23:26.920 parental rights

05:23:28.740 uh paternal uh he

05:23:32.320 can revoke those

05:23:33.440 rights he's still on

05:23:35.340 the hook for child

05:23:35.860 support you realize

05:23:36.620 this right yes

05:23:38.040 doesn't seem very

05:23:39.500 fair does it no and

05:23:41.020 i would argue in that

05:23:41.920 case that um you

05:23:44.360 should not have to

05:23:44.840 pay for child support

05:23:45.520 but that's the way the

05:23:46.340 system's built that is

05:23:47.480 the way the system's

05:23:48.280 built i agree yeah

05:23:49.320 uh why don't you think

05:23:51.000 there's more feminists 1.00

05:23:51.740 fighting to abolish uh

05:23:53.440 child support given

05:23:57.340 the unfairness of it

05:23:58.400 for men i'm not sure

05:24:00.360 i mean i would i would

05:24:01.840 say that if he wants

05:24:02.900 no part in raising the

05:24:03.920 child then i don't want

05:24:05.320 his money either and

05:24:06.480 that this is my choice

05:24:07.780 to keep the child um i

05:24:10.080 don't know i don't know

05:24:10.740 why that's not the case

05:24:11.580 all right we have a

05:24:13.020 message here from

05:24:13.600 could it be that it's

05:24:14.660 the case oh sorry

05:24:15.480 i'll just read it

05:24:16.960 really quick uh brian

05:24:17.900 you ruined the theme

05:24:18.480 of my d-day question

05:24:19.340 yes i get it the

05:24:20.140 ussr after stalingrad

05:24:22.080 were likely on their

05:24:23.120 way to victory point

05:24:24.100 was that those young

05:24:25.040 boys did their duty

05:24:26.600 without question

05:24:27.520 equivocation okay that's

05:24:29.400 a fair point lucas i do

05:24:30.560 appreciate it thanks for

05:24:31.400 the message um so

05:24:33.780 couldn't it be the case

05:24:34.700 then that the reason

05:24:36.340 that the state

05:24:36.920 intercedes on this on

05:24:38.640 the behalf of making

05:24:39.520 the man pay the child

05:24:40.400 support is because if

05:24:41.220 he doesn't and the

05:24:42.300 woman who decides that 1.00

05:24:43.200 she's going to keep the

05:24:43.920 child even in lieu of

05:24:45.120 the man not wanting the

05:24:46.100 child the state says

05:24:47.540 well that burden

05:24:48.240 shouldn't go to

05:24:48.960 taxpayers who are not

05:24:50.240 his father or mother

05:24:51.920 it should go instead to

05:24:53.420 the parents so then

05:24:54.720 would you uh then

05:24:56.260 support cutting off

05:24:57.120 public assistance to

05:24:58.120 women so that men who 0.99

05:25:00.520 equally do not have any

05:25:02.240 paternity over this

05:25:03.300 child should not have to

05:25:04.980 then pay for this child

05:25:06.700 who's not theirs

05:25:07.480 i understand the question

05:25:12.580 i mean i know that's it's

05:25:14.180 very controversial um i i

05:25:17.160 think that in this stance

05:25:19.520 that we want to lower the

05:25:20.880 abortion rate and if if the

05:25:23.540 child does come out i think

05:25:24.540 that the mom would need to

05:25:25.860 get some support in some

05:25:27.080 type of way yes but now

05:25:29.780 she's now she's reliant not

05:25:31.760 on herself but is reliant

05:25:33.880 upon the taxpayer so the

05:25:35.520 reason the state intercedes

05:25:36.880 and says that the father has

05:25:38.560 to pay child support is so

05:25:39.900 that the woman's not reliant

05:25:41.180 on the taxpayer but instead

05:25:42.860 gives the responsibility to

05:25:45.000 the parents themselves so if

05:25:46.860 that's the case and you feel

05:25:47.860 like it's unfair that men

05:25:48.900 pay child support if women 0.99

05:25:49.920 get the right to choose then

05:25:51.380 how come the taxpayer doesn't

05:25:52.580 get the right to choose um i

05:25:56.340 would i would say it's unfair

05:26:00.140 i'm i'm i would say that if

05:26:07.260 the mom chose to get the

05:26:08.380 child and you know the

05:26:10.060 taxpayers really care about the

05:26:12.000 welfare of each and every child

05:26:14.520 fetus you know what like 1.00

05:26:17.020 whatever life that gets brought

05:26:18.900 into this world then they will

05:26:20.120 pay for that child to be raised

05:26:21.480 and i think it should remain

05:26:22.800 that way

05:26:23.100 this box the question

05:26:24.820 ogled donated two hundred

05:26:26.800 dollars i gotta move on i'll

05:26:28.660 let you ask your question

05:26:29.500 someone who's actually smart but

05:26:31.640 has been brainwashed it's sad to

05:26:33.980 see and i sincerely hope she 0.96

05:26:35.680 wakes up sometime life tip hang

05:26:38.460 around with people who disagree

05:26:39.980 with you ogle thank you for the

05:26:41.400 tts uh andrew i do have to move

05:26:43.460 it on but want i'll have you ask

05:26:44.680 your question and then we'll yeah

05:26:46.040 just very quickly the the

05:26:47.840 entailments the same if you say a

05:26:49.700 man shouldn't have to pay child

05:26:50.880 support because it's not his

05:26:52.400 decision to bring the child into

05:26:54.060 the world but yours then why would

05:26:55.960 this necessarily fall to other

05:26:57.500 people in order to take care of

05:26:59.960 this child other than the father

05:27:01.660 that makes no sense well you keep

05:27:04.340 bringing up the point that you know

05:27:05.920 this is a sacred life that we're

05:27:07.980 bringing this world then by your

05:27:10.060 stance everyone should cut you know

05:27:12.340 help yeah but i'm talking about

05:27:14.260 your stance your stance is my

05:27:16.360 father should have no

05:27:17.600 responsibility towards a child if

05:27:19.300 he chooses not to and so you

05:27:20.900 shouldn't have to pay child support

05:27:22.080 because the mother's choosing if

05:27:24.300 that is the case the attailment

05:27:25.720 there is why should other people

05:27:27.540 then have to pay if they don't want

05:27:29.240 to uh because it's not their child

05:27:31.520 right i think that if father doesn't

05:27:34.120 want to pay then i i am in support

05:27:36.380 for the government to pay and i

05:27:38.040 support the taxpayers well it's not

05:27:39.500 the government paying it's it would

05:27:40.960 be other so then in your so in your

05:27:43.940 scenario here's how here's how it

05:27:45.760 works honey i don't want you or i i

05:27:48.180 don't want this child well i do but

05:27:51.080 luckily you don't have to pay any

05:27:52.660 child support whatsoever because

05:27:54.180 that's what the law says so then you

05:27:55.820 go ahead and have the child and then

05:27:57.280 the taxpayer has to fund the child

05:28:00.240 that you chose to have how's that

05:28:02.280 fair i that's my stance okay

05:28:09.340 okay thank you for that appreciate

05:28:13.520 it guys okay uh let's see here we

05:28:15.680 are going to get into the

05:28:16.940 questionnaire more of the

05:28:18.020 questionnaire stuff uh what would you

05:28:20.320 want the minimum yearly income to be

05:28:22.300 for your future husband starting with

05:28:25.640 you go ahead um i would say more

05:28:31.280 than me okay um not a specific amount

05:28:34.580 just do you know how much you'll be

05:28:35.900 making around the time you do you know

05:28:38.520 how much you'll be making um i'm not

05:28:44.580 sure i'd move around but i would say

05:28:48.500 equal or more than i'm all right so you

05:28:50.620 know what about you

05:28:51.220 seven figures so what is that because i

05:28:56.820 mean nine million is different than

05:28:58.160 one million like one mil one mil is

05:29:01.260 fine one mil a year or did you say

05:29:03.800 month

05:29:04.120 a year okay all right no is that all

05:29:07.460 yeah that's just yeah uh what about you

05:29:11.280 i'd say eventually 150k all right but

05:29:15.840 you're not expecting that much early on

05:29:17.520 no okay what about you pause i was

05:29:20.480 actually going to say the exact same

05:29:21.920 thing because i think it's a little bit

05:29:23.300 more realistic

05:29:23.980 so 150k but not early on okay i think

05:29:29.500 considering and assuming we're both

05:29:31.600 going to be working um as long as

05:29:35.000 they're able to provide for their half

05:29:36.440 and i'm able to provide for my half and

05:29:38.440 we're not stressing about it that's all

05:29:40.880 that i care about

05:29:41.660 all right ellen what about you i would

05:29:44.420 prefer if they're like working up to

05:29:46.160 around six figures

05:29:47.240 okay what about you i would say i

05:29:51.360 prefer that they're working up to six

05:29:52.880 figures

05:29:53.180 yeah and you said a hundred thousand

05:29:54.940 plus because you will be as well all

05:29:57.940 right what about you

05:29:58.880 it doesn't matter doesn't matter really

05:30:01.160 yeah they can work at mcdonald's

05:30:03.420 been there

05:30:05.340 so so no then no okay tiffany

05:30:10.320 like 100 150k you said 100 to 200k

05:30:15.740 here

05:30:16.080 oh did i yeah yeah fair enough okay

05:30:18.860 all right um and then height question

05:30:23.820 how tall are you and what's the minimum

05:30:25.740 height of a man you would date

05:30:26.920 i'm 5 8 so i prefer somebody like six

05:30:32.060 foot and above especially because i'm

05:30:34.340 always wearing heels too so sure okay

05:30:37.200 5 2 and 5 11 and above all right what

05:30:42.960 about you lexi i'm almost 5 2 and i'd

05:30:45.640 say 5 10 and above

05:30:46.840 okay minimum height 5 10 what about you

05:30:49.660 pos i'm 5 2 i think my minimum height

05:30:53.080 like shortest would probably be like

05:30:54.560 5 8 something around that

05:30:56.760 um oh really quick just going back

05:30:58.860 here um last last boyfriend how tall

05:31:02.960 was he

05:31:03.260 he was six foot last boyfriend how tall

05:31:06.700 was he

05:31:07.000 i'm not sure 5 10 they use centimeters

05:31:13.940 in canada i don't know uh lexi how tall

05:31:16.360 was your last boyfriend six two six two

05:31:18.700 okay six two six two chloe uh height 1.00

05:31:23.800 um i'm roughly 5 3 and then you prefer

05:31:29.300 yeah i prefer people closer to my height

05:31:31.940 preferably like 5 4 to 5 8 um current boyfriend how tall is he i think about 5 6 5 7

05:31:39.280 something like something like that ellen how tall are you i'm 5 3 and you would date

05:31:43.340 anyone above 5 7 okay how how tall was your last boyfriend i think he was around 5 11 okay uh you're 5 6 or no sorry you're you're five what five foot even you're five foot and you want to date five so how tall was uh your six month i was he was actually like 5 4 good for him all right uh

05:32:13.340 is 5 5 5 i did it is 5 5 5 5 5 5 i would date 5 9 and above

05:32:19.800 all right and then moving on to the last one of the last questions before we get back to the disagreements would you rather cross paths with the man or bear in the forest starting with you go ahead

05:32:32.640 i really don't know

05:32:33.380 know what that entails but i would say a man i mean it's just a man so random man random bear

05:32:40.880 essentially what does that like what do you mean so you got the whole u.s population of men the

05:32:47.280 whole u.s population of bears could be a random man could be a random bear could be a black bear

05:32:53.120 brown bear grizzly bear oh and then could be like a serial killer sure it's a random man it could be

05:32:58.340 a serial killer could be kyle you pull up the meme really quick actually hold on we'll we'll wait for

05:33:04.380 the meme um man or bear i would say man okay cena what about you i said that i depended on one type

05:33:11.880 of man well it's random man you don't get to pick right random man random bear

05:33:17.460 man okay lexi what about you the man you says depends on what type of bear well since you said

05:33:27.900 it was like random bear random man i feel like the odds of you coming to like like if it's a brown

05:33:34.600 bear that kind of sucks if it's a black bear if you're just loud at all sure okay pause um when i

05:33:40.960 first came on i said bear but after talking about it a little bit i'm changing it to man all right 0.73

05:33:45.940 chloe a bear ellen i think i wrote a bear but bear yeah

05:33:52.780 bear a bear a man all right so i think it was uh let's see uh bear bear bear bear let's talk to

05:34:06.980 you guys a little bit uh why do you pick bear and why don't you pick man go ahead chloe

05:34:13.020 um i trust animals more than i trust people um i think there's more solid reasons why animals do

05:34:21.500 things than there are people do things but i also i will say part of it's just my delusions i like to

05:34:27.280 think i'm a little animal charmer so i like to make believe and think i could be friends with it

05:34:31.660 but okay and why don't you pick men i don't trust them you don't trust men yeah okay um

05:34:40.720 just don't trust them that's i think the average man is less trustworthy than the average bear

05:34:47.580 that's a pretty big indictment of men but um all right ellen why uh why do you pick bear and why

05:34:56.380 don't you pick man wait like where's the setting is it like a forest yeah forest yeah like a deep

05:35:03.520 set forest or like a camping ground like yosemite um it it is uh the argonne forest in france

05:35:15.060 so there's probably still some landmines so there's still like people no so you're either

05:35:23.540 scenario you're fully alone fully alone fully alone with either the man or the bear if it was a deep

05:35:29.980 set forest i think it's the bear because i don't see why just like a regular man would be well let's

05:35:35.700 assume there's a hiking path oh then the man then the man because then there's like a reason for

05:35:41.500 somebody or the man to like well there's also a reason for the bear to be there too oh no there's

05:35:45.380 like a reason or there's like that's where they live no but it's just like the general population

05:35:49.940 goes there but like i feel like a serial killer would just go to the random how about how about this

05:35:54.620 let me let me give you this one uh so you you randomly spawn in the forest you just get dropped

05:36:01.640 there randomly okay then there's two buttons that get presented in front of you you can randomly spawn

05:36:07.700 a random man or two buttons or you can hit the other button randomly spawns a bear

05:36:15.160 so there's not motives as to why they're there you just random man of the entire u.s population

05:36:22.800 random bear of the bear population in the u.s than a man oh okay yeah why did you pick bear

05:36:31.760 initially because i thought it was like a deep like dark forest and there's like no reason for

05:36:37.440 a human being to be there unless they're like kind of crazy okay all right um that's that's an

05:36:45.340 interesting interpretation of the question what about you so why do you pick bear why don't you pick

05:36:51.560 man um just don't trust the man's intention i mean even if it was a woman i don't think i trust any

05:36:57.060 person's intentions especially you'd rather be in the forest uh with a bear over a woman even yes

05:37:03.580 because i don't trust anyone's intentions in the middle of the forest i think you guys are letting

05:37:08.740 the forest part do a bit of heavy lifting yeah i mean if it's public

05:37:12.440 even so even in a forest you'd you'd rather come and also the scenario you're going to cross paths

05:37:22.260 you cross you will cross paths with either the man or the bear there's not like you can't hide from

05:37:27.940 them they become aware of your presence um so bear yes because you don't trust people in general

05:37:37.280 i mean a bear can't assuming the worst a bear can't like torture you and rape you and everything

05:37:44.060 you know and i mean they'd probably maul you and kill you but that's like aside from like i don't

05:37:50.180 know psychological torture i'm just talking about like the capacity each one has okay so just to be

05:37:56.120 um wait just to be clear even a woman you'd prefer to pick a bear over a woman a random woman yes

05:38:04.400 interesting this is a new one i haven't heard uh and then you picked bear why do you pick bear

05:38:10.180 why don't you pick men um i just feel like i would be better off with a bear than a man

05:38:16.360 all right uh so i guess those of you who said you changed your answer did you change your answer

05:38:23.300 too or you're still bear okay bear bear bear you said you don't trust men uh i guess a lot of you

05:38:29.320 are concerned that the man in this situation while the bear could murder you the man could try to

05:38:32.960 torture you before he could try to essay you before that seems to be a lot of the uh things

05:38:37.520 that women will say on this one uh i guess what percentage then of men do you think are inclined to

05:38:44.860 uh assault you in this way to pick bear over men starting with you chloe go ahead i actually wasn't 0.96

05:38:52.940 even thinking about them doing something per se i just i don't like the majority of guys like

05:38:58.920 really people too i do agree actually with you even a woman spawning there i don't really

05:39:04.020 i just don't really like people all that much you dislike people to the point that you'd rather

05:39:10.340 encounter a bear oh i'd love to test my luck i i love i love animals so the choices like have a 0.91

05:39:19.000 like like gossip about some shit with it like a like a bimbo like that could be a scenario like 1.00

05:39:27.580 she's just like paris hilton or some shit it's like haha no i don't want that you'd pick a bear 0.98

05:39:34.140 over paris hilton yes 0.96

05:39:35.960 if i wanted to talk with someone and like he he ha ha and chit chat i'd go to like a salon or go

05:39:45.800 somewhere where i'd want to talk to people if i'm in the woods can i ask you a question if you didn't

05:39:50.020 eat breakfast today how would you feel what do you mean if you didn't have breakfast this morning how

05:39:55.000 do you feel i'd be a little hungry okay um all right uh

05:40:05.040 so you pick a bear over any human what about a baby there's just a baby in the crib it's crying

05:40:16.460 maybe you pick the bear i'll pick the bear because i don't want the baby to spawn in the forest the

05:40:21.660 baby should be at home with its with its family all right good that's a great okay cool all right

05:40:26.400 uh and then why so you're you what's the percentage chance of a woman doing something bad to you to 1.00

05:40:36.100 the point that you'd rather pick a wild animal that's like four times as big as you over a woman 0.99

05:40:43.900 like what are you afraid that a woman's going to do to you i mean with an animal it's clear-cut you

05:40:50.380 know they're either going to eat you or they're not are they're going to go somewhere else i don't

05:40:55.160 you don't know a person's intentions especially in the middle of a forest so there's one two three

05:41:02.400 four five six seven eight women here um i mean like you would rather spawn with a bear than any of 1.00

05:41:09.460 the women here at the table i mean excluding paws so all the other women here at the table you'd rather 1.00

05:41:16.160 be in a forest with a bear than any of them i don't know who they are yeah you don't know i don't 1.00

05:41:22.180 know their capacity you don't know them like ellen over there she could fucking stab you bro she could 1.00

05:41:25.740 pull out her knife and just start shanking you live on on air yeah i don't know she could be violent 1.00

05:41:31.160 right okay um what if you changed it from a bear to a lion just by a show of hands would anybody's 0.98

05:41:41.720 would anybody's answer change random bear or random lion or random man

05:41:45.260 no no is this because like lions are maybe perceived as more aggressive yeah like 20 fold yeah

05:41:58.380 doesn't it doesn't change okay all right um tyrannosaurus rex random tyrannosaurus rex or a

05:42:08.040 random man yeah anybody's answer change t-rex or oh no yeah maybe a t-rex because they can't

05:42:14.620 really get to you what they have tiny arms yeah but they have i mean they're like big and they can

05:42:21.360 like run fast jurassic park bro random okay show of hands real quick random velociraptor

05:42:27.940 or a random man show of hands velociraptor or man you can just like climb the back and they can't

05:42:34.400 eat you okay pause i'm gonna get you in the cage with a velociraptor does it change it 0.94

05:42:40.620 velociraptor or man no it doesn't change it's still velociraptor yes velociraptor look i'll be honest

05:42:47.100 i'm damaged um so i would probably still the yeah velociraptor or man i don't know velociraptors 0.98

05:42:54.760 are cute what the fuck they're like what the fuck i used to call my little sibling a velociraptor 0.98

05:43:02.040 i don't know that's great okay a couple more clarifying questions then uh so okay going to 0.99

05:43:08.140 the men though to the men i know you said you don't even want the woman over the bear um what is the

05:43:12.960 risk assessment on like what percentage of men do you think would choose to like sa you

05:43:16.960 out of the random of the male population in the united states i don't know but am i willing to

05:43:25.300 take that risk in the middle of the forest you know someone who would well that i mean typically

05:43:30.400 when you're doing a risk assessment if like the risk of something is like 0.0001 versus say like 50

05:43:36.500 you're gonna like you know if the man chooses to say me and i have to live with that for the rest of

05:43:42.740 my life well there's no guarantee in this situation that you it's not a guarantee you get essayed

05:43:47.160 okay do you think that or do you think that it is a guarantee no i don't if you're alone with a man

05:43:52.920 he's gonna essay you i don't think that it's a guarantee okay so what's the what's your risk

05:43:57.640 assessment what's the percentage i'm going on the worst possible scenario so if it's like the man's

05:44:03.460 gonna say me what is the percentage of the worst possible scenario happening um i would say like

05:44:09.980 in the forest if we're talking about just in the forest it's a 50 50 because you don't know what

05:44:14.600 type of person they are they could be a hiker they could be someone who wants to get a person alone

05:44:18.360 um and do whatever they want with them what do you think it's a risk would want to do kill me 0.67

05:44:25.740 do you think do you think that uh you could like calm it down i could do it i don't know i mean

05:44:35.500 i haven't really i don't know wait so 50 50 of men though would in the forest in the forest okay

05:44:41.620 well let me just ask this real quick real quick brian yeah uh if you were assured death or a random

05:44:48.600 man in the forest which would you choose um probably death i just don't know what the person is capable

05:45:00.680 like i said not man it doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman if i'm in the middle of the forest

05:45:04.440 i just don't know what they'll do versus if a bear is mauling me in two seconds then i'm already gone

05:45:09.200 so what

05:45:11.800 what what is the percent risk of anybody trying to say you trying to hurt you in some way

05:45:23.340 what's the percent risk i would say it's 50 50 anyone 50 in the forest in the forest what about

05:45:30.820 in urban settings in urban settings probably i would say like 75 they're not going to do anything

05:45:38.700 and maybe 25 they are how about this um you're alone in a room with a man what's the percent there

05:45:50.660 what percentage of men would do something

05:45:55.040 if i'm alone in a room with the man the man yeah um

05:46:01.380 i would say

05:46:04.860 it's hard to say i don't know uh maybe

05:46:11.860 like 60 that they're not going to do something 40 they are i mean i don't know the true intentions of

05:46:19.140 someone okay so 40 of the time you've been alone in a room with a man you've been s ed no i mean so

05:46:27.440 how do you i'm not in a i can't like calculate probability have you ever been in a room alone

05:46:33.340 with a man yes have you i mean it sounds like from the previous statements you've made you have had

05:46:39.160 casual sexual encounters i'm assuming these were consensual maybe not all of them but yes

05:46:45.000 and it's just been with one person who's had good intentions

05:46:48.960 wait you've only had that i'm not saying i'm not saying like that i'm not like saying that like

05:46:55.060 oh it's like 100 people and then it's like 25 of them are like wrong and then you know what i mean

05:47:00.200 i don't okay so 40 of men so just to be clear um do you have any male siblings no

05:47:07.000 uh you have male cousins you have a father yes right uh 40 of your immediate family are uh essayers

05:47:15.180 no what makes your family superior to the general population

05:47:19.240 i mean i i don't know because i know them on a personal level i don't think they would do that

05:47:26.160 but i'm not saying it's limited to a man isn't it the case with some of these statistics that it's

05:47:29.800 more likely to be somebody you know who does this to you you're right on that i'm just saying

05:47:34.200 if it's any random person i'm not limiting this to a man or not i'm saying there's like a 60 40

05:47:39.940 chance percent of them being good versus bad what's the population the adult male population of the

05:47:45.440 united states it's 165 million 40 percent of 165 million sorry i'm fucking terrible of 165 let me 0.98

05:47:56.100 ask you a question real quick uh just another curiosity question i was wondering about you agree

05:48:00.680 with me that uh people can overcome horribly traumatic experiences they can overcome those

05:48:06.860 at least some percentage of people can some percentage yes yeah at least some percentage

05:48:11.600 can they do that if they're dead no no so if you had to choose on behalf of other women who were not

05:48:17.780 you you did not know the woman but you had to spawn them in the forest with a random man or a random

05:48:23.420 bear which one would you choose then i don't know look me personally yes i would choose the bear

05:48:31.580 for them yeah no but this is not you personally for them this is you choosing for somebody else

05:48:35.760 i don't know i mean i i guess if

05:48:38.120 i don't know i like you're asking me if i'm choosing between them being dead or having a traumatic

05:48:45.180 experience they're going to eventually overcome like well i'm not asking you that i'm asking if you

05:48:50.720 had to choose on behalf of another woman who was not you did not know what what the choice would be

05:48:56.040 that this woman would make but you could spawn her into a forest with a random bear or a random man 1.00

05:49:00.900 which one would you choose then i guess the man i'm just saying i couldn't deal with an extremely

05:49:09.880 traumatic experience i'd rather choose being mauled and like being dead in like two or you know like a

05:49:15.780 couple minutes if it was another woman and maybe she might be stronger than me i don't know 1.00

05:49:19.720 well just on your risk assessment really quick here you said uh 40 percent uh are you prepared

05:49:27.700 to say that 66 million men in the united states are uh inclined to this kind of crime no i didn't say

05:49:35.180 a hard fact like that i just you said 40 percent yeah that's based on my belief of whether or not i

05:49:39.640 trust a person alone in a room or alone in the forest right but the question was what percentage of

05:49:43.860 people would be inclined or what percentage of men would be inclined to do something like this

05:49:48.660 and you said to which you answered 40 percent so you have to say that 66 million men in the united

05:49:54.760 states are inclined to do this no that's not what i'm saying i'm saying that i am more cautious of

05:50:00.160 their attentions that's my belief i don't think that a lot of people are i think that's not the case

05:50:05.020 uh and then those of you who said bear i guess final thing that i'm going to move on

05:50:08.420 does it change anything if it's 10 men versus 10 bears

05:50:11.940 i don't know i still think it's kind of fun i don't know it's i don't know i just like them

05:50:22.720 i would take my chances for a little adventure

05:50:26.480 what would be fun like expecting to play around with the bear yeah or but what if they're all

05:50:33.280 attacking you at once could you survive like 10 bears versus 10 men for me it's not so much of a

05:50:39.840 concern of whether i'll survive or not if i do or don't that's just what happens but so what's

05:50:44.800 stopping you from just like right now you do you just not care about like living is that i just like

05:50:50.940 my life experiences and i would really like to experience possibly being able to befriend and

05:50:55.660 cuddle a group of bears at the risk of death i mean i would try to like play with all the wild

05:51:02.240 animals near me as a kid so what's stopping you right now from going to a zoo and jumping in the

05:51:07.520 gorilla enclosure there's literally nothing stopping when i was a kid my biggest dream in the world was

05:51:14.100 being able to like hang out and spend time next to a hippo i knew how dangerous they were but they're

05:51:21.280 just so darn cute maybe like a baby hippo no like an adult like the big chunky ones

05:51:27.900 want a hippopotamus for christmas that was my favorite song only hippopotamus will do 0.99

05:51:35.620 and i don't care if it bites me in half i don't give a fuck like what's wrong what do you mean you 1.00

05:51:43.380 gonna go hang out with the hippopotamuses what are you talking about yeah you're gonna be dead son 0.99

05:51:47.600 like one time i tried to befriend this coyote that was near us dead he wasn't so nice but 0.58

05:51:55.500 we came to a mutual understanding i think that's that's good um hmm does it change anything for

05:52:02.700 you if it's 10 men versus 10 bears i would take the 10 bears what about 100 men 100 bears

05:52:09.140 i would take the 100 bears i'm a little confused though so you said 60 like even using your own

05:52:18.940 number that you provided you said 40 of men would try to do something crazy 60 wouldn't so if the 60 0.90

05:52:28.120 percent of men even granting to you the ridiculous statistics no offense 40 of men are evil and they

05:52:35.200 want to attack you whatever there's a there's 60 men versus 40 men if 60 men saw you being attacked

05:52:42.560 by 40 men the 60 men would outnumber the 40 men you don't think that they would intervene in this

05:52:49.100 situation they just let it happen that would be kind of crazy to watch do you want to answer the

05:52:54.860 question though i i don't know i i'm just saying i don't like it's based on each of them i don't know

05:53:01.780 like i still would choose the bears yes that's my final answer you don't all right i mean what if

05:53:09.680 the 40 men had guns they that would change and then they shoot me like i don't like it's just like

05:53:15.360 average what if they had knives and then the other what the good men can't stop them like

05:53:19.240 we're putting crazy hypotheticals on this i'll add even more crazy hypotheticals

05:53:23.720 it's just it's just interesting to me because there's this fear here well if you're alone

05:53:32.580 well that you're alone but like you move through your life with other people around

05:53:39.140 you walk by men all the time in the street they don't do anything to you

05:53:43.460 you've probably encountered thousands tens of thousands of men they've done nothing to you

05:53:49.400 that you just walk right are you assuming that because like am i wrong yes like okay so the 0.98

05:53:54.920 majority of men that you literally just not the majority fucking slap you in the face the majority 0.97

05:53:59.760 but there has been times where i feel that people are like i don't care how you feel like stalked me 0.98

05:54:04.480 basically i don't care how you feel did they or did they not they made me feel uncomfortable yes how

05:54:09.360 did they make catcalling harassing walking behind you for like 10 minutes straight trying to figure out

05:54:15.160 where you live majority of men i'm not saying the majority you're twisting my words it happens

05:54:19.680 once a season some guy follows you how often have you been followed home i mean it happens to women 1.00

05:54:25.560 i literally work in la like yes i am scared okay so homeless homeless people i'm not saying homeless

05:54:31.580 people i just say like i'm scared on my walk to back to my parking lot like in a city yes it's scary

05:54:36.800 to me okay so i don't know what their intent but i grant that this happens but like how many men do

05:54:43.360 you walk past and there's no encounter whatsoever a lot of the times tens of thousands of men you've

05:54:50.540 walked past your entire life let me flip you've done nothing to you let me flip the question how

05:54:55.380 many times has a man been scared that any anyone's gonna do anything from him on the um actually there's

05:55:01.160 there's statistics to me like if you see in prison i'm not talking about prison i'm just talking walk

05:55:06.220 back to your car and like a crowded like suburban area actually as a man men are more likely to

05:55:13.180 be victims of violent crime so um yeah i think about my safety all the time i i just feel like

05:55:19.740 this question's asked a lot more towards women what do you mean i just answered your question

05:55:23.660 i know but i i fear for my safety that's that's all i'm cool i fear for my safety too okay i'm glad

05:55:29.940 we both agree okay i don't know if that was a really productive exchange there but i mean i don't know

05:55:36.200 men are just like oblivious to their surroundings i'm sorry i don't think you're i don't think it was a

05:55:41.580 productive exchange for you to ask me if i was trapped in a room with a hundred men and then

05:55:45.420 a hundred bears the forest fine hundred bears hundred men like like i don't know where this

05:55:50.840 conversation is going exactly well the reason i i bump up the amount of people is that there's a

05:55:56.780 component here of like well if you're alone but like even using your own stats that you said it was

05:56:02.440 60 40 if there's six men who are good men and then there's four men who have bad intentions

05:56:09.920 that's still more men that would intervene on your behalf to protect you from these four bad men

05:56:15.840 okay so i mean that's why i ask it yeah despite this you would still risk the bear over

05:56:25.880 it's just kind of crazy to me

05:56:30.260 um do you guys think that this is a sexist position to hold to pick a bear a bear over a man

05:56:40.640 is it sexist against men no not sexist okay i'm just saying i i've said any person do you think it's

05:56:49.120 sexist no i didn't choose a bear because of that reason oh okay do you do you think it's sexist

05:56:56.140 what was the question do you think if you pick the bear over the man do you think it's sexist

05:57:01.960 well i'm picking the bear because i think it'll be fun i'm not thinking it okay well just engage

05:57:07.060 for realsies what do you mean you asked if i would pick a man or a bear i said a bear i have my

05:57:14.800 reasons for that my reasons are i think it would be really fun okay i'm just gonna skip over you

05:57:19.300 not sexist question if um if we were to change this to be uh like include race so if people were

05:57:26.200 picking bear over black person would this be racist i feel like it would why

05:57:33.880 well because there's a people are scared of black people so to say there's the statistics and

05:57:43.960 so i feel like people would be more people would choose the bear because they would

05:57:49.860 okay would it be racist to pick a bear over a black person no it wouldn't be racist i would say that

05:57:59.800 about any race any gender okay i guess she's consistent i guess what if i would normally choose

05:58:07.820 a man over a bear but if it's specified that that man is black i would choose a bear would that make

05:58:13.760 be racist like if you're saying oh i you'd normally choose any other race man over a bear and then

05:58:19.980 the bear i mean the man is black just a normal man doesn't okay just well if you're i guess if 0.58

05:58:25.900 you're switching the question in that way yes if you'd like yes but i i know i've kept it consistent

05:58:33.280 it is it is interesting um okay all right i'm gonna move it off of the bear then let me see we do

05:58:41.520 have a chat here we have low paladins this woman is literally on this oh my god bro on the same mental 0.99

05:58:47.820 capacity as the four-year-old girl can i pet that dog can we get brian to play that clip i love that

05:58:54.140 clip you know what i don't know what that is can i pet that dog it's just a really cute little girl 0.61

05:58:59.680 yeah oh my gosh i love it so much all right um okay well we're gonna get into the uh rest of this

05:59:06.260 try to get through this quickly as possible um g giana i'm gonna start from the bottom and move my

05:59:12.940 way up uh like okay um you you disagree it's not straight for a man to date a trans woman it's not

05:59:23.240 it's straight for a man to date a trans woman i mean yeah you think it's straight yeah yeah so you

05:59:32.840 disagree it's not straight um going to cena you think it's 50 50 what do you mean

05:59:38.580 well like if that trans was a trans woman or trans man uh so it would be a man dating a trans woman

05:59:50.580 if that trans woman is like fully transitioned i'd be like it's it's straight but if it's when you say 0.91

05:59:59.680 fully transitioned you mean had bottom surgery yeah okay so it would be what if they didn't 0.96

06:00:04.600 have bottom surgery it would be what would it be gay i mean it depends on the man right like if he

06:00:13.420 thinks that's okay if he likes that then i'm gonna come right back to this i have two chats coming in

06:00:20.820 ogle donated two hundred dollars chair four is one of those people who thinks being counter or 0.92

06:00:28.420 quirky is cool but it's not you mean chair five an idiot would say it would be fun to be with bears 0.83

06:00:33.900 hanging out i think you mean she's not taking this seriously just skip her yeah yeah you're right 0.89

06:00:39.380 you're right ogle um i have another one coming in from ogle he does clarify he does clarify yo ogle

06:00:44.900 thank you for the uh tts man i really appreciate your support good to see you in the chat dude i knew

06:00:49.260 somebody named ogle a long time ago i don't know if it's the same donated two hundred dollars

06:00:54.820 last five my bad two hundred dollars penalty for clicking too fast hey thank you for the

06:01:01.380 clarification ogle i do appreciate it you're a legend sir thank you thank you for the tts and your

06:01:05.140 support of the show appreciate it uh okay we were you said it was uh 50 50 on that okay lexi you

06:01:15.340 did a little 50 50 squiggly thing uh so care to provide clarification i just feel like

06:01:24.540 if the other person doesn't have any surgery or whatever it's totally up to their partner to

06:01:31.480 say like oh yeah i am gay or i am straight i just think it's their business wait sorry uh

06:01:38.980 are you saying there's a duty to disclose or what do you mean like i'm just saying i'm not

06:01:45.380 gonna tell someone like if you're dating a trans woman you're gay i just think it's whatever he 0.78

06:01:51.140 wants to be oh yeah i don't really have a well you might not say that to them but like if you were

06:01:57.220 to have like if you were actually to analyze the situation i don't really have a stance on it i don't

06:02:01.960 think but i'm you do have a stance and your stance is that um i'm 50 50 you're 50 50 but you're not

06:02:11.980 prepared to outright say that it's not straight for a man to date a trans woman

06:02:17.600 i think it depends on a lot of factors i don't know yeah such as surgeries and what the people 0.95

06:02:26.560 let's just sure let's assume that the trans woman had bottom surgery had a neo vagina i guess they're 0.97

06:02:33.120 called uh would it be straight then yeah okay uh no pause nothing on for you going to you chloe you 0.91

06:02:43.740 said uh you disagree that it's it's not wrong or transphobic to not want to date a trans person

06:02:50.160 and then you were 50 50 on it's not straight for a man to date a trans woman i think people are

06:02:58.320 entitled to their own moral beliefs and i'm not in a position to say oh you're wrong for not wanting

06:03:06.380 to do that um but as far as whether or not it is not straight um it is for me more so dependent on

06:03:16.180 if they've had the surgery so going off what you said if they've had the full surgery

06:03:19.740 and whatnot then i don't think i think that would be straight otherwise though it's not so much in

06:03:26.220 my opinion about them being trans per se it's just if you're assuming you're dating someone or seeing

06:03:33.420 someone and they are trans and they have not gone through with that surgery and you engage in sexual 0.70

06:03:40.120 actions with them then you're doing that i assume because you enjoy it and are attracted to them which

06:03:45.280 means you're therefore then attracted to them as they are which includes their unchanged genitalia 0.90

06:03:52.460 which would then lead to question are you fully straight because you like what you're doing

06:03:58.120 and then you also did say um would you object for example to a man uh not wanting to date a trans woman

06:04:07.120 because they were trans i don't think i took it as in like because they are purely trans for me both

06:04:15.680 of those questions were 50 50s it's very dependent on you circled fully on 29 which is it's do you

06:04:22.340 disagree it's not wrong or transphobic to not want to date a trans person it's not wrong or transphobic

06:04:29.260 if that is not what you are attracted to everyone has their preferences like i said before it's not my

06:04:35.660 decision to decide whether or not it's okay for someone to you did not mean to circle that then

06:04:41.280 it's not that i was like oh it's good for you to not date someone just because they're trans no but

06:04:46.760 it wouldn't be for example if a man didn't want to date a trans person because they're trans regardless

06:04:53.480 of their if they're fully transitioned let's say they're fully transitioned they still don't want to 0.54

06:04:58.420 date them is there anything wrong with that i think there can be tons of reasons for that i'm not

06:05:02.620 going to say someone's wrong for that i wouldn't not date someone just because they are trans

06:05:07.980 but there could be religious reasons there could be moral reasons maybe their family wouldn't approve

06:05:14.120 and maybe that would affect them they don't want to go through that there's plenty of reasons okay but

06:05:17.900 it wouldn't be wrong it wouldn't be completely wrong ellen you have no opinion do you want to keep

06:05:23.660 no opinion or do you want to weigh in on this one i think i'd like to keep my answer

06:05:28.040 uh vantica you said uh you disagree it's not straight you disagree with it's not straight for

06:05:35.540 a man to date a trans woman i think um it is straight it would be straight for a man to date 0.60

06:05:42.560 a trans woman okay uh and is there any differentiation between uh what if a man is dating a uh pre-op

06:05:51.860 trans woman is that still straight i would say if they're still feminine presenting yeah 1.00

06:05:57.720 then um yes but still have a penis yes straight okay um she's up tiffany you have no disagreements 0.87

06:06:08.140 on that um i guess my confusion here whether post-op pre-op some of you had differentials 0.98

06:06:15.180 on there um and i any of you are welcome to if you have it oh going to you uh did you i don't know

06:06:22.300 what your answer was to this no you didn't have you did not disagree on that um

06:06:27.620 would you guys agree that uh homosexual means same sex

06:06:34.360 yeah and straight is short form slang for heterosexual

06:06:41.540 yeah and so when we say homosexual we mean same sex relationship

06:06:46.920 uh you would agree that trans people have not changed their sex correct 0.96

06:06:52.080 are you saying based on surgery or so just for the just for the sake of moving the argument forward

06:06:58.800 and not like getting too bogged down i'm gonna go ahead and grant this isn't actually my position

06:07:03.960 but i'll just grant for the sake of argument that transgender women have changed their gender

06:07:08.800 so they used to be a man but now they're a woman their gender but you wouldn't say that they 0.96

06:07:16.180 used to be male but they are now female correct they they have not changed their sex would you

06:07:22.340 guys agree with that uh yes yes okay so still male they're they're so they're a transgender woman

06:07:32.040 but they're still male correct um no i'd say now they're a female because they transitioned they're

06:07:38.240 female okay um i'll get i'll before i respond to that i'll get everybody here uh

06:07:44.260 are they a transgender woman is she male or female by gender identity they are a female by 0.81

06:07:53.060 biological identity they are a male well no by gender identity they're a woman 0.52

06:07:56.480 they're not female female pertains to sex okay female woman semi-interchangeable words

06:08:02.420 i say these are my female friends right but i mean female points when i'm using in the context that

06:08:11.020 i'm using it in fact i mean in any context male and female pertain to sex if i have trans friends

06:08:17.340 i might call them these are my part of my female friends i'm not gonna be like these are my woman

06:08:22.700 friends no i just say these are my female friends it's not gonna well i suppose that has to do with

06:08:27.140 the flow of language less so than like the actual definition right so i i say female and i don't tend

06:08:34.380 to say okay but assuming we're taught when we're talking about male and female assuming we're talking

06:08:38.060 about sex do you grant that the transgender woman is not female biologically due to what is

06:08:44.700 all going on in their body unless in some ways they might be this weird in between because estrogen

06:08:50.460 well there's intersex but i'm not talking about intersex i mean more so because parts of you change

06:08:55.580 and stuff like that your hormones and stuff like that goes more female biologically when you're on 1.00

06:09:00.540 estrogen so it really just depends but base by base they would be biologically male because if

06:09:09.740 they had to go to the doctors and get something done or if they had something it'd be viewed on a

06:09:13.980 male basis standpoint uh lexi going to you um is it transgender woman are they uh male or female

06:09:22.940 i honestly don't think i know much about this topic to have an opinion okay sure that's fine um

06:09:30.780 you would i mean perhaps i can reframe the question a little bit you would agree that uh when

06:09:35.580 people change their gender they're not changing their sex can you i i just don't i'm not i don't 0.96

06:09:43.420 really know the concrete definitions of gender how about this um you know like chromosomes right

06:09:49.980 yeah um is there any procedure to change your chromosomes from male to female not that i know of

06:09:56.220 but uh cena uh transgender women are they male or female 0.81

06:10:04.860 as it relates to their sex i guess the way that you said it they're still male

06:10:10.300 what about you female they're female yes okay so they change their sex then 1.00

06:10:15.500 however they see themselves as now i would i would go as as well so if they see themselves

06:10:26.220 as female now they're female now 0.89

06:10:30.460 if they see themselves as female

06:10:34.540 but what if they're not female and they're male but they see themselves as female well are they

06:10:39.020 male or are they transgender female they're trans no they're transgender woman uh-huh but are they 0.81

06:10:45.260 male or female i would say female so if you were to do a test for example and this is a test that you

06:10:50.860 can do which allows you to determine some of these chromosomes would they have xx or xy chromosomes

06:10:59.580 they would have male chromosomes so they're male then but i would say female but you can't change your sex 0.99

06:11:11.340 so okay how about this a couple more questions on this so if you're if two males are having sexual intercourse 0.97

06:11:20.780 is that heterosexual or homosexual sex 0.97

06:11:28.140 are you asking me yeah we'll go around this way if two males are having sex is that heterosexual or is 1.00

06:11:35.020 it homosexual homosexual it's homosexual okay homosexual i agree hello oh uh i guess you 0.96

06:11:42.540 if it's two two males if it's two males who both say they are males well so hold on it could be two males 0.98

06:11:54.700 one is i hate this term cis male cis man and the other is a transgender woman well then that changes it

06:12:02.460 for me would that change it for the rest of you too no i don't know that term what's the term

06:12:09.980 cis born male still male i don't like the term but uh like i normal i don't know i don't know what's

06:12:16.940 appropriate but born male like a regular okay man i'll know how to not be offensive but like how do we

06:12:25.340 differentiate between transgender like a not transgender we have to refer to normal male as

06:12:30.140 a not transgender man i don't know um man i suppose um going to you uh if two males are having sex is this

06:12:38.300 heterosexual or homosexual if they both identify as male and then their sex is male then one is a 0.89

06:12:46.540 man and the other is a transgender woman but they're both male no it's not homosexual but they're both 0.66

06:12:55.340 male medically yes biologically they're both male so just to be clear you you are you arguing that you

06:13:01.980 can change your sex no i guess i i realized what i said previously i would say no from a medical

06:13:08.700 standpoint you can't change your sex okay well there's i mean i don't think there's really

06:13:13.660 any context you can change your sex because sex points to your underlying me earlier okay i'm just

06:13:21.260 confused so like how can two males

06:13:24.140 who are engaged in a sexual relationship how can that ever be classed as anything but homosexual 0.92

06:13:34.620 if a guy says they like anyone who identifies as female or are female okay he would call 0.99

06:13:41.100 i'll engage a bit further then so how do i want to frame it um is it straight for a male who is not 0.98

06:13:50.140 trans to have sex with a male who is a transgender woman it's straight is it straight yes because you 1.00

06:14:00.380 are saying that you like someone who is identifying as a female and presenting as a female um 1.00

06:14:09.740 that's an interesting one uh

06:14:11.260 one sec uh what about um 1.00

06:14:22.860 a man giving oral sex to a transgender woman with a penis is that heterosexual or homosexual 1.00

06:14:32.060 no heterosexual i mean you're i'm my strict basis and it's not going to change no matter what position 1.00

06:14:37.580 they're in is that if you like someone if i like someone that is identifying as a male

06:14:44.860 or any any male then i would be a straight it would be straight okay so uh i guess going to you

06:14:51.820 you you you and you i'll ask this question also a man 1.00

06:14:56.940 real quick so sucking your girlfriend's dick is straight yes let's okay uh a man giving oral sex to a 1.00

06:15:05.580 transgender woman with a penis is that heterosexual or homosexual i think partially depends on are they 1.00

06:15:14.380 liking it as it's consensual well not i'm not questioning whether it's consensual or not 1.00

06:15:20.860 um you can have consensual sex but not like part of maybe someone's let's say a kink even but 0.96

06:15:27.020 if he is there and genuinely like he's going at that he likes doing that and he'd prefer having that

06:15:36.140 rather than have her go through a surgery or something like that if he is holding the preference of i 0.95

06:15:40.860 prefer to suck them off rather than like i'd prefer to do this then that's one thing because that's a 0.99

06:15:48.940 little but i mean what so is a transgender woman still a woman pre-operative they're still a woman 0.99

06:15:57.180 identifying so you said it would be straight for a a man to date a pre-operative trans woman right

06:16:04.140 ergo sexual acts between them must certainly also be heterosexual right so again i asked the question 1.00

06:16:11.820 a man giving oral sex to a transgender woman with a penis is that heterosexual or homosexual 0.99

06:16:17.820 like i said i think it depends i on what for example i've known someone who is trans um they 1.00

06:16:27.420 were with this guy um and there are some guys who do who are basically closeted they're closeted and

06:16:37.500 they're gay but they want they want a straight relationship they want to be straight so bad 0.99

06:16:43.500 well help me help me out with something perhaps perhaps you guys can just assist me with this 1.00

06:16:49.180 let's say a guy uh two guys are going to engage in sex right oral sex with each other and one of them 0.98

06:16:57.340 just really likes to dress up like a woman while his boyfriend does the d the other one identifies as 0.99

06:17:04.700 being a woman by while the boyfriend does the d zero can you actually tell me what the threshold breaker

06:17:10.140 is here for why that's not literally the exact same thing

06:17:16.460 because for the trans person that's their life that's their day-to-day that's not them dressing

06:17:22.060 up for an act or something like that whereas for the male it's just a kink 0.97

06:17:28.380 yeah but i mean i don't understand the act seems to me to be the exact same act no because they're

06:17:35.820 doing that just because that's their it's not their preference it's not that they are like oh

06:17:41.260 i am a woman they just enjoy dressing and are you wait are you asking are you saying they like 0.99

06:17:47.340 to specifically dress up as a woman during a guy dresses up like a woman and has another guy suck 1.00

06:17:51.580 his dick and then a woman or i'm sorry uh another man dresses up like a woman the exact same way but 1.00

06:17:58.300 then says i actually believe i am one and a guy sucks his dick well how are they both not gay i don't i 1.00

06:18:03.980 don't get that i assure the trans woman goes about their day-to-day life just as a woman whereas if 1.00

06:18:09.740 this guy were to go into work he's probably not dressed like a woman so the only difference is

06:18:14.380 the self-identification self-identification their day-to-day life that they have that trans women

06:18:19.820 have to harshly commit to having that got it let's just see if this is true so let us assume for a

06:18:25.740 moment that there's a man who does not identify as a woman but dresses all day long as a woman and

06:18:30.380 acts as though he is a woman is he a woman not if he doesn't identify that way well then it's just a

06:18:35.820 matter of self id so this would mean that i could literally roll over in the middle of the night and

06:18:42.380 my wife could be like i'm a man and she would be one well there also comes body so i would be i would 1.00

06:18:48.220 be engaged in homosexual sex if my wife said i identify as a man in the middle of sex would i then 0.98

06:18:54.700 be a homosexual i would question the timing of her bringing that up why well but i don't understand 0.98

06:19:01.900 if a man can spend his entire day dressed as a woman doing all the things a woman does but not 1.00

06:19:07.020 identify as a woman and he's not but another man can do the exact same thing and the only difference

06:19:11.900 is he identifies as a woman then the only thing that makes you a woman is that you identify as one

06:19:17.260 well but it's not a choice you just have always felt that way prove it prove it's not a choice

06:19:22.140 people as young as like eight or nine have said and expressed that they are not the gender they

06:19:29.420 were born as does that oh i see so let me let me get this correct i just want to make sure i got this

06:19:34.940 right uh do kids lie and are they often confused about sexual matters not like that yeah like that

06:19:43.180 how would you know how many kids have you had zero like when you were a kid there wasn't kids who were

06:19:48.300 around who had all sorts of questions about sex and were super confused about all sorts of different

06:19:52.460 things in regards to sex i didn't have kids myself no but i have a plethora of younger siblings who are

06:19:58.700 quite young still even now and no and they have no confusion whatsoever about what sex is how it works

06:20:04.380 nothing like that they just have it all figured out huh they don't really just came out of the womb

06:20:08.860 knowing about sex and how it all works i mean to be fair when you have that many siblings you kind of

06:20:14.220 know how it works okay gotcha so if it all comes down to self id why couldn't somebody just

06:20:21.420 in the middle of their journey as being a woman literally decide right there on the spot to take 1.00

06:20:27.500 the wig off and dress in men's clothes and not be a man 0.94

06:20:33.340 because are you saying that it's a random decision they've made or i'm asking you a question if a man

06:20:39.180 was going through their life uh acting as though he was a woman doing all the things that you think

06:20:44.060 a woman does and then in the middle of that journey decided to take off the wig and the dress and and

06:20:50.540 put on khakis instead and act in every way a man does wouldn't he be a man then well the thing is

06:20:58.300 they're not you say acting but they're not acting if you truly are trans that's not an act you're putting 0.95

06:21:03.900 on anybody ever be able to know ogle donated 200 we have isn't the entire point of the left's views

06:21:11.180 on this that gender and sex are different because one is immutable sex where gender is fluid but now

06:21:17.820 they're saying you can change chromosomes wtf it's just rare to hear i mean even like trans activists

06:21:26.860 don't make the claim that you can change your sex um so i just find that an interesting argument i

06:21:34.140 guess you guys defend people but libertariat donated 200 yeah thank you man appreciate

06:21:39.740 grinding away in rfc in the guilt but anyone here can see chair five is a pick me trying to pretend

06:21:45.500 that her bangs look cute my bangs are to cover up my family's notorious big forehead they're not cute 0.99

06:21:51.740 they're a cover up rip r.i.p andrew did you have more or yeah just just very briefly we'll uh we'll

06:21:58.620 wrap it up very quickly if it's all based around self-identification why then if a man

06:22:06.460 or if a person was going through life as though they were a man and said this is my identity and

06:22:10.940 everything that i think my identity is and then halfway through go oh wait you know what it's actually

06:22:17.500 not and then put on khakis and a shirt wouldn't he then be a man if that's what they choose and

06:22:23.820 they discover that later on then sure then all that really makes you a man or a woman is if you say you

06:22:29.020 are if you say you are and then put in the work to go about your life as that gender okay so then 0.62

06:22:36.380 that would mean that if you wanted to be an elf all you would need to do is go out to the forest and

06:22:40.300 make yourself a bow in a little house and you know call yourself a sildur and you could you could be an

06:22:45.900 elf right why couldn't you be elves don't exist well wait wait wait i'm sorry uh if a man can be a

06:22:53.420 woman the woman ex parte here hang on the woman does not actually exist the man exists and is saying

06:23:01.020 they are a woman and if they are a woman based on the fact they id as one that we have now made

06:23:06.140 a woman who was not a woman before why couldn't we make an elf to put it in retrospect in this world 0.86

06:23:12.140 we live in in this plane we call the universe and the earth there is men they exist there are

06:23:18.060 women they exist elves don't exist in this realm of universe yeah but do you agree with me that a 0.99

06:23:23.260 woman who does not exist does not exist i don't agree you don't agree that a woman who does not exist

06:23:30.460 does not exist so a woman who does not exist exists if someone is trans no i answer my question don't

06:23:37.580 refrain actually answer it does a woman who does not exist exist yes that's a literal contradiction

06:23:48.620 the thing is if you're trans by the way that's a that's a violation of the laws of logic the law of 0.98

06:23:53.420 non-contradiction it's incoherent it's nonsensical you might as well you might as well say something uh

06:23:59.740 like um you know the uh the the sun and mars and the earth are all the same thing you might as

06:24:05.420 i mean it's total incoherent babble let me ask you again can a woman who does not exist exist if 1.00

06:24:15.100 you are wording it like that then yes but in my opinion trans women are always women they have been

06:24:21.660 women since birth their sex may be male they may have x y chromosomes but typically if you are a trans

06:24:29.980 woman you have always felt that way you've had body dysmorphia your whole life and you have always been

06:24:36.460 a woman inside what's a woman that's for every woman to decide what's a dog a dog is a dog yeah what is 1.00

06:24:50.300 that though an animal okay whatever what else is it give me a definition of a dog i gotta let this in really

06:24:58.060 quickly think about the definition though mrs ogle donated two hundred dollars mrs ogle we are be

06:25:03.660 changing my gender mrs ogle oh there you go all right uh pronouns she her they them just real quick

06:25:12.940 what's the definition of a dog oh he's back again i'll give you more time on the the dog definition okay

06:25:20.460 just because

06:25:25.100 who's back again what are you talking about ogle's about to come back in

06:25:29.980 ogle donated two hundred dollars thank you since they think immutable characteristics like sex are

06:25:35.900 now modifiable based on what one feels can they say if it's possible to transition from white to black

06:25:41.980 race as one feels throughout the day i mean since the beginning of this i have said biologically

06:25:48.460 sex-wise they are still male i'm talking about gender identity that's what i've been saying the

06:25:53.580 entire time can someone change their race no okay well i understand what if they identify as not being

06:25:59.980 the race that they are you are the race that you are unless you have some crazy why are you the race

06:26:06.140 that you are you can't identify as a race that you're not hang on let me ask the question why is it that

06:26:11.340 you have to be the race you are and can't identify as a race you're not even though you might have been 0.94

06:26:16.300 born experiencing everything that you think that that race experiences you can be culturally one

06:26:23.500 thing but not racially another thing okay so then you can be a trans woman but not a real you're not 0.96

06:26:30.780 a real woman is that is that the same logic there no okay well then you i'm so confused again i'm sorry 0.82

06:26:38.060 why am i not black how come i'm not black you have a black wife andrew yeah i'm a black ex-wife but why 0.90

06:26:46.060 am i not black ex-wife my bad i guess you weren't blessed like that i don't know you don't know why i'm 0.96

06:26:53.100 not black you you actually don't know why i'm not black really i didn't want to make sure that we're 0.99

06:27:01.660 clear i don't know you don't know why i'm not black i feel like stupid questions get stupid answers 1.00

06:27:08.060 like ask a stupid question get a stupid answer so are you black no how do you know because i know 1.00

06:27:16.620 yeah how i look at myself in the mirror oh okay so through this features your your features that you 1.00

06:27:22.860 you can clearly see that you cannot change you are that thing right mm-hmm can you then change

06:27:30.460 so can you ever be black if you let's do a hypothetical extreme if you were to undergo a

06:27:38.140 crazy amount of procedures to try and achieve a look of a certain race you still would not look that race 0.99

06:27:46.380 because you would be so botched up there that's so no you can't you can't okay well let's do the

06:27:53.340 hypothetical the other way if you could do all sorts of surgeries and look like that race and i can give

06:27:59.980 you examples where people have done this would you then be that race but you can't yeah but if you

06:28:05.740 could but you can't yeah but if you could though i'm not going to answer a completely you're not going 0.99

06:28:11.580 to answer because it destroys your whole stupid ass position so real quick it doesn't destroy 1.00

06:28:16.300 my position if you could get a bunch of surgeries done that would change your race would you then 1.00

06:28:22.540 or change the appearance of the race everybody who saw you would perceive you as being a black person

06:28:28.140 instead of a white person and medical technology had gone far enough that they could cosmetically 0.80

06:28:32.860 make you look that way would you then be black it doesn't exist can you answer my question i just

06:28:39.660 didn't hypothetical the entailment of a hypothetical is not whether it exists or not whether to test the

06:28:43.980 logic of whether your logic exists or not so i want to see if your logic exists re-ask the question

06:28:50.540 when that becomes the case and that becomes a thing that exists if it were the case that this could

06:28:56.540 happen would you then be that thing or not re-ask me when it comes to fruition why would that have

06:29:02.780 anything to do with the answer to the question because i'm not here don't weasel just answer the

06:29:06.700 question stop weaseling i just did you said no you answered the question by saying when that becomes

06:29:11.500 a possibility it's a hypothetical i'm not going to think about something that's not

06:29:17.100 it's not worth my thoughts yes if superman existed would he be bullet it's not worth your

06:29:21.340 thoughts because it destroys your worldview no because it's not something that can currently

06:29:24.940 happen so i have no need to think about it okay great great that's fine if superman existed

06:29:29.020 would he be bulletproof he doesn't exist if leprechauns existed would they have a pot of gold

06:29:38.700 they don't exist if unicorns existed would they have a horn they don't exist so just

06:29:46.140 got it got it hang on if a rocket ship existed that could take us to mars would you go on it

06:29:52.220 she's when one comes to be made i might so you can't answer if a rocket ship existed that was going 1.00

06:30:01.580 to go to mars would you go on it you can't answer that because a rocket ship currently does not exist

06:30:06.060 that goes to mars really no i wouldn't be able to answer how could we ever envision any sort of

06:30:11.260 non-existent technology how people would use technology that doesn't exist how anything in

06:30:16.620 the world that's not created right now could ever be created if we could if we all we did was go well

06:30:22.060 it doesn't exist because i don't need hey you know what i want to do i want to make this uh this

06:30:27.180 kind of invisible cabled system where people can instantly send messages to each other oh yeah well

06:30:33.660 that doesn't exist like it does that does that make any coherent sense to you at all and those people

06:30:40.220 can do that and i cannot because it doesn't exist because i don't want to do you have any dead family

06:30:48.300 members sure do you ever talk about them no why not because they don't exist yeah 1.00

06:30:58.460 oh you fucking retard as 1.00

06:31:03.900 oh uh dumb as a box of no but i i'm not gonna insult rocks like that don't don't 1.00

06:31:11.100 okay all right um here i'll finish up on this then going around the table the question was 1.00

06:31:15.660 um is a man giving oral sex to a transgender woman with a penis is that heterosexual or homosexual 1.00

06:31:22.700 lexi no opinion on this come on you've got no i don't i'm not a man so it what do you mean okay okay 1.00

06:31:28.940 here uh a lesbian woman being penetrated by a transgender woman with a penis is that heterosexual 0.99

06:31:35.260 or homosexual i still don't have an opinion on this that's my answer i'm sorry okay a straight woman 1.00

06:31:41.500 scissoring with a transgender man is that heterosexual or homosexual i don't even think

06:31:51.420 i'm following along with where you are right now all right clearly um cena what about you 1.00

06:31:59.900 homo huh all right uh gianna what about you a man giving oral sex to a transgender woman with a penis 1.00

06:32:08.700 is that heterosexual or homosexual hetero that's straight okay uh and then really quick i guess 1.00

06:32:14.940 one more follow-up a man having penetrative anal sex with a transgender woman is that heterosexual or 1.00

06:32:22.460 homosexual hetero cena i don't know lexi 1.00

06:32:28.940 are you really what just you you're catholic right okay 0.99

06:32:36.460 pause oh well yeah what you didn't have anything on this same opinion heterosexual 1.00

06:32:43.500 for a man to be having uh same opinion as in it depends for for a man to be having penetrative anal 0.99

06:32:51.020 sex with a transgender woman is heterosexual depends moving on what about you in my opinion which is what 0.99

06:33:03.020 into the mic which is that if you're one gender and someone presents as opposite gender whatever act 0.84

06:33:11.500 you do with them will be heterosexual i'm just okay look straight is short form slang for heterosexual

06:33:19.020 i so i don't know how these acts could ever be heterosexual if it's two males engaging in the

06:33:24.220 sexual act um this is a really novel position i perhaps you guys want to be politically correct

06:33:31.420 even transgender activists activists don't hold this position i know you guys are trying to be woke

06:33:39.180 and politically correct even transgender activists don't hold this position i don't know why you guys

06:33:44.940 have dug your heels in so far on this in any case um

06:33:54.300 you guys don't believe in science

06:33:57.740 that's all i have to say i mean you guys just outright reject science yeah we have to correct

06:34:02.540 you're literally science rejecters yeah you're science deniers you're science deniers

06:34:08.300 i i don't know how else to say it like biology is this is not up for negotiation

06:34:18.140 you cannot change your sex 1.00

06:34:21.420 if two males are having sex it is homosexual it cannot be heterosexual it cannot be straight 0.97

06:34:27.740 and in fact as a straight male i find it offensive that you guys are essentially attacking my sexuality

06:34:34.060 how the turntables have turned how the tables have turned the turntables how the turntables

06:34:41.820 how the turntables have turned no but it is interesting tables are turning

06:34:47.340 as they turn like if i were to say to like a man who's gay i was like no you're not gay you're actually 0.74

06:34:53.340 straight you guys be like whoa that's like that's like uh uh gay conversion therapy that's totally 0.94

06:34:59.820 unethical but like for you guys to sit here and tell me a straight man that you're questioning my 0.99

06:35:06.220 sexuality and you're saying that a sex act between two males is straight you're attacking my sexuality

06:35:12.700 and i find it deeply offensive we have a question in fact furthermore hold on hold on tiffany

06:35:17.980 he's on a roll hold on i want to add that because all of you believe that this all comes down to id

06:35:25.260 i hold on i choose to identify as the correct person on this matter and i wish for all of you

06:35:32.460 to affirm my identity as correct on this matter and all matters moving forward please affirm my identity

06:35:40.380 you want me to just i want you to affirm my identity as being correct on this matter and that

06:35:45.100 you were wrong that's my identity um go ahead affirm it i'll say your identity is affirmed

06:35:52.140 okay thank you do you affirm my identity cena thank you for affirming lexi do you affirm my identity

06:36:00.380 i think i don't know it would be bigoted for you not to affirm my identity pos do you affirm my

06:36:04.860 you are straight the most bigoted not as a straight man i don't want you to affirm my identity as a

06:36:10.220 straight man i want you to affirm my identity as the correct person on this matter okay yes thank you 0.99

06:36:17.180 for affirming chloe do you affirm my identity wow that is a bigot right there ellen do you affirm

06:36:21.900 my identity as the correct person on this matter

06:36:28.060 i just don't really have an opinion on oh my god do you do you affirm my identity do you affirm his

06:36:34.140 identity that you can't have a uh or not have an opinion on this do you affirm that identity do you

06:36:40.540 affirm my identity i would just prefer not to speak on this topic do you believe in science

06:36:48.460 i believe in science can you tell us the scientific method

06:36:55.100 does the seven scientific met like like that yeah yeah just the scientific method yeah

06:37:01.660 i can't list it off for you right now okay we have a question go ahead tiffany what if you were to have 0.99

06:37:07.420 sex with a trans man would that be gay no yes no it wouldn't yes no no no a man i thought she said 0.99

06:37:17.580 a man she said no she said trans so it's a female oh yeah it's a female no it wouldn't be gay but it 1.00

06:37:23.260 would not be it'd just be like having sex with a butch chick it'd be like having i guess so yeah how 1.00

06:37:30.780 about this would i prefer having sex with a trans woman or a trans man what do you what do you think 1.00

06:37:35.500 about that one that's a good question answer it yeah trans man well hold on i think if you have 1.00

06:37:43.340 anybody who says that they're trans you're gay that's my uh that's fair that's actually kind of 1.00

06:37:49.900 fair but like so here's my reasoning they're all part of the lgbtq right that's what they say 0.99

06:37:56.300 so then necessarily wouldn't they be gay the hulk hogan argument like hulk hogan with a vagina or megan 1.00

06:38:04.780 fox with a penis yeah i mean you got if it's between trans man trans woman i'd he'd pick the 1.00

06:38:11.420 trans man you know just anyways okay whatever moving on oh final thing on this uh going around 1.00

06:38:16.620 the table just because i feel like it's important uh what is a woman um a female oh 0.99

06:38:24.460 oh wait is that a w a woman is a female yeah oh you simple okay 0.87

06:38:35.740 a female creature a creature okay can you come back to me sure what is a woman pause um

06:38:42.940 how would i describe it um like feminine okay what is a woman a woman is a woman uh try to i mean

06:38:55.820 typically in the dictionary you would not like a cat the dictionary huh i'm not the dictionary okay

06:39:01.180 but so what is a woman though a woman try to just try to define woman without using the word woman 1.00

06:39:07.660 i don't want to why why can't you because i don't have to well you don't have to but ellen

06:39:16.140 like an older more mature girl

06:39:21.340 wait so an adult human female 0.63

06:39:25.100 an older or more mature girl it's just like a later stage in life 0.91

06:39:31.260 which sex do they belong to but you asked me to give you the definition which i gave you 0.97

06:39:37.180 right but i'm asking for that's that's true to be fair to you that is true you did you did uh

06:39:43.420 give a definition but when you give a definition usually you're you're going after you're pointing

06:39:49.660 to some kind of information which tells us what the thing is so if you say a woman is a girl

06:39:54.780 right we ask you well then what is a girl 0.94

06:39:59.660 i answered the previous question i would like to leave it at that 0.97

06:40:03.180 oh damn bro all right what is a woman a woman is someone who identifies as a woman and it's 0.99

06:40:11.260 feminine presenting a biological female is biological female 0.99

06:40:18.060 can you i think that's a pretty that's a pretty good standard progressive answer i think

06:40:23.260 but can you define woman without using the word woman

06:40:25.660 feminine feminine feminine so like a non-transgender man who is feminine is a woman 0.81

06:40:38.540 i'm just saying this could be a straight straight man who's just feminine

06:40:42.780 no is he a woman no uh because you just said feminine i'm just saying they have to be feminine and

06:40:48.540 identify as a woman what if it what if the transgender woman is not feminine are they i

06:40:55.980 okay well you asked me not to include the word woman i was i was trying not to all right

06:41:01.260 uh all right i got some chats here uh we have ogle

06:41:06.140 ogle donated 200 do you mean chair six or chair why not just kick chair five off if she won't 1.00

06:41:11.500 participate anymore my eds sister i'm disappointed in you boom you guys ever hear that shania twain

06:41:20.220 song i feel like a woman anybody feel like i don't know any have any girls ever heard that song

06:41:27.180 yeah feels like a woman yeah is that how it goes i mean i don't know sing it andrew sing it for

06:41:32.380 us i mean no no in falsetto in falsetto hopeless than myself but when shania twain is saying

06:41:40.300 i feel like a woman in that song do you think she's saying like i feel like a dude who's dressed

06:41:45.260 up like me like do you think that that's what she's getting at in that song and she's like 0.97

06:41:50.780 she's like uh she's talking about uh you know somebody with with a penis who's dressed up like 0.99

06:41:57.420 a woman and acts like a woman or do you think she's talking about something else when she said i feel 0.99

06:42:01.020 like a woman it's crazy you know all right um i'm gonna let some other chats come through 0.57

06:42:05.420 pale and well met yo thank you paladin lol paladins donated two hundred dollars and two cents

06:42:11.500 a woman is a woman who would define the word woman by using the word woman and also say women 1.00

06:42:17.340 when talking about a singular woman that sounds really regressive lol paladins why are you giving

06:42:23.820 us regressive definitions like a woman points to a woman to a woman is a woman and that's what a woman 0.99

06:42:29.660 is anything that says it's a woman because that's a woman that sounds regressive like the opposite of 1.00

06:42:35.580 a definition like something that should be rejected as a definition but what the hell do i know

06:42:43.260 okay we have also not a simp here chloe you read this one for us

06:42:50.060 did we get an eye patch photo by the way damien can you chloe can you read it no i genuinely can't

06:42:56.140 see okay andrew i don't like how you get so mean to people in these debates i don't really care though

06:42:59.820 but if you ever hurt my goth mommy oh no no that's her goth mommy the knuckle sandwich you'll get i

06:43:05.260 thought he was talking about chloe why she's uh she's been awesome the whole panel she's engaged in 0.98

06:43:09.740 every question she seems like she's interested she's been she's been great to talk to the goth mommy 0.61

06:43:15.020 yeah she's the one well the one he's referring to yeah yeah i'm usually uh the only time it ever gets

06:43:21.420 aggressive is if people are like um you know being evasive or refuse to answer basic questions i can

06:43:27.580 understand if there was a loaded question or like tell us your mom's name and your address and you're

06:43:32.060 like a refuse to answer that seems totally fair to me you know what i mean but it was just like

06:43:36.380 did you go out on a date two weeks ago and you're like i don't know about that re-answering that seems

06:43:41.180 a little less like correct on a dating podcast you know what i mean so yeah and it can it can get

06:43:47.100 aggressive back and forth in some of these debates i agree but i don't i don't take any of it

06:43:50.460 personally i don't think most of the women here take it personally i wonder if this is a differential 1.00

06:43:54.540 between men and women in so far as like men are willing to have these kinds of conversations

06:44:00.540 and like women are not willing to offend because like they operate what's that did you see andrew have

06:44:05.580 you seen that uh uh it was this post about like women filter things through a consensus filter do you 0.91

06:44:12.460 know what i'm talking about yeah i do i'm i'm never you know the thing is like i'm never too sure

06:44:18.140 on those things i think that they sound good to us but you know i've noticed that if you talk to women 0.97

06:44:25.260 like by themselves when there's not other women around they're kind of based a lot of them are 0.97

06:44:29.660 kind of based they're like yeah they ain't no fucking chick like what are you talking they ain't no guy 0.99

06:44:33.740 over there but if they're around a group of other women they're like well you know i'm not really sure 0.98

06:44:38.620 if i've been so maybe there is some truth to it you know what i mean yeah you're talking to them

06:44:43.580 solo suddenly they're like oh hell no that ain't you know it's just it's a strange phenomenon okay

06:44:48.700 we have brian rookard hey thank you for the soup chat man really appreciate it to the future

06:44:52.060 anesthesiologist there are differences in dosages between men and women with respect to certain

06:44:57.020 medicines so biological woman comes in but identifies as trans man you give her male dose killer but you 0.99

06:45:03.420 were just bowing to her wishes do you want to respond to that really quick i realized that i misspoke

06:45:08.380 earlier like when you're asking me can sex be interchangeable and i said yes um i misspoke

06:45:13.820 i didn't understand the question so no you meant you meant gender gender is fluid sex is not like

06:45:19.580 biologically yes yeah that makes sense yeah yeah they're easy to confuse i get that so um by that

06:45:26.300 definition if they're biologically male or female yes in medicine they would be treated differently based

06:45:31.980 on dosages of medicines and um biologically how they are so no i'm not going to give them the wrong dose

06:45:37.020 based on what they identify as okay uh so let me ask you this if all if there was a virus that only

06:45:46.700 took out women and only killed women right would trans women die a virus that only killed women yeah 0.99

06:45:57.420 if there was a virus that only killed biologically female no no it only killed women 1.00

06:46:03.100 would trans women would trans women would trans women die i don't it does a virus understand gender 0.81

06:46:13.900 identity i don't like yeah so if so if there was a virus that only killed women would trans women die from 0.95

06:46:21.820 that virus i a virus that only killed women of that would mean a virus that only killed by like 1.00

06:46:31.260 biologically female so then we've established that a woman so then we've established that a woman 1.00

06:46:37.100 is a biological female no i'm saying from a medical standpoint which is what the previous person was

06:46:42.060 asking a biological female is a biological female so if a virus was going to attack a biological female 0.99

06:46:47.900 then yeah no the trans person yeah but what was my question my question was if women if it was women 0.97

06:46:56.860 only who could die by a virus would trans women also die 1.00

06:47:03.740 i just don't think that your question makes sense in a science way why it's because you're because i we

06:47:10.540 clearly defined that sex is sex and gender is gender and now you know but we never defined what a woman is so

06:47:16.700 so so if women if i were to tell you for instance if i were to tell you tomorrow there's going to be

06:47:22.060 a virus escape from a lab in wuhan okay and it only only uh affects women and and uh takes out women

06:47:33.500 right would would would you worry about any of your trans neighbors if a virus suddenly became sentient and

06:47:41.740 understood the difference between sex and gender then yes now there's viruses which specifically

06:47:45.660 only attack women and some that all specifically attack men that is true there are some viruses that

06:47:51.740 are that way so if you had a virus that only attacked women could it attack trans women um i just

06:47:58.940 i think that um i pretty much answered your question that sex yeah but it's a category error right so

06:48:05.580 if it if it can only take out women but it can't take out trans women then we'd have to 0.82

06:48:09.500 establish that trans women aren't women i don't think a virus can do that but if it but if it could 0.81

06:48:16.220 if it could only take out women if it only took out females who we call women then necessarily would 1.00

06:48:22.380 trans women have anything to worry about i don't really want to follow this hypothetical because i was

06:48:26.620 strictly viewing it from a standard like a science standpoint so oh okay all right well moving off of

06:48:33.740 that specific uh specific topic uh going to chloe here in your notes you said you were 50 50 on if

06:48:41.020 men are physically stronger than women yeah i think men and women carry their strengths in different

06:48:46.140 areas of them so it means uh well physically stronger yeah women and men carry their physical

06:48:51.660 strengths in different areas of their body women are going to be stronger in some physical aspects 1.00

06:48:55.020 than men are and men are going to be stronger in other aspects such as women are for example i mean

06:49:01.260 it's no denying women have more strength in their legs naturally than guys tend to have we are more 0.96

06:49:08.540 prone to having more natural strength in our legs whereas guys have a naturally more stronger upper body

06:49:14.700 portion women dominate sports erroneous erroneous women dominate which sports woman i'm not specifying a 1.00

06:49:23.420 single sport woman dominate sports that have to do with leg strength whether or flexibility like soccer 1.00

06:49:31.740 yeah actually so um so just to correct this remember make sure that we're on the same page

06:49:40.700 females have a higher proportion in lean mass in their lower limbs so they have stronger limbs by 0.1 1.00

06:49:48.380 men still have a significant amount of muscle strength difference in their legs than women 0.69

06:49:53.420 women are stronger in some aspects physically than men are and men are stronger in some aspects

06:50:00.060 more physically than women are that's what i'm stating well if this so according to webmd directly 0.83

06:50:05.580 the question was asked is it true that women have stronger legs than men the response from a doctor i would

06:50:11.500 assume no men have generally stronger leg muscles than women the only disparity between men and women is

06:50:20.300 um is um is in limbs um is in limbs that's it women are stronger in some ways physically than men are

06:50:28.620 men are stronger in some ways what ways physically that's simply what i'm stating the legs yeah but what

06:50:33.660 what ways physically are they stronger in my personal viewpoint i have seen many women 1.00

06:50:40.540 beat a man physically and i've seen not beat them as in beat them but beat them as in like beat them in

06:50:46.700 a physical aspect just yeah i don't disagree that there's not some women out there who couldn't beat 1.00

06:50:53.020 up some men i totally agree with that right i mean i've i've seen videos of it i'm sure that it happens

06:50:58.860 um i'm sure that it happens i'm sure that there's some women out there who can beat up um a good majority 1.00

06:51:04.780 of men even there's some women who could do that but if we're talking about the average if we're just

06:51:09.500 asking about the average i'm talking on average on average are men or women stronger i'm talking about

06:51:15.900 the totality of it so yeah so average so am i so so an average would be the totality of the mean right

06:51:25.340 the totalities and are all men stronger no that's not the question that's not what's the

06:51:31.500 what can you repeat the question so the the statement is and it's asking if they disagree

06:51:36.220 or agree men are physically stronger than women it doesn't say most it says are men

06:51:45.180 i mean is it wrong to say the sky is blue sometimes the sky is gray

06:51:52.780 so then when the sky is gray the sky is gray right but so typically when you make a statement

06:51:57.740 like this for example do humans have 10 fingers yes do some people have birth defects that they're

06:52:03.980 born with an extra digit yes or have a finger cut off if someone were to ask me do humans have 10

06:52:09.900 fingers i would say sometimes most of the time most of the time okay so generally speaking are men

06:52:18.460 physically stronger than women i in my personal encounters i've met more strong women than i've

06:52:24.540 met strong men so my standpoint okay if we were no you have it in your personal

06:52:37.740 in your personal experience you've met more strong women than you have men really i mean she could be

06:52:45.180 hanging out with a bunch of like soy boys so i mean it could be true bro it could be true bro like all 0.99

06:52:51.660 her male friends are so soy boys how much more ridiculous i'm gonna have to listen to from this 0.98

06:52:57.740 woman you know most in your life you have most definitely met way more men who are stronger than 0.99

06:53:05.340 way more women no yes and if you don't want ridiculous nonsense okay well let's find out you 0.98

06:53:11.180 grew up i still have your little hometown here right i still have your little hometown here um would you 0.99

06:53:16.860 say that on average the black women in your hometown were on average stronger than the black 0.99

06:53:22.700 men in your hometown was i hanging out a bunch with people no you said you were you said that in fact

06:53:30.620 you said you hung out with them so much that you wouldn't even date within your own race i didn't

06:53:35.980 say that yeah you you did no i didn't say yes no i said i wouldn't date within my own race you said you

06:53:44.060 went to a school which was overwhelmingly black my assumption is then that most people that you

06:53:50.300 associated with were likely black am i incorrect there i went to a real school for a very short

06:53:55.900 period of time because as i also said before i was mostly homeschooled so now hail and well met lol

06:54:01.500 paladins donated two hundred dollars and two cents even soy boy california burrito fatty to brian

06:54:08.540 to do more push-ups than the entire rest of the panel combined oh boy so when you went to this

06:54:14.140 school was it your experience at the school that more women at the school were stronger than the men 1.00

06:54:22.140 didn't go to a real school for a long period of time so i'm not talking i know but for the period

06:54:25.660 of time that you did go was your i didn't talk to anyone i went to like not even a full year yeah i

06:54:31.100 know so it within that time that you were there i didn't talk to people there yeah so within that time

06:54:36.380 frame there's no experience yeah so within that time frame was it your experience that the men or

06:54:42.060 the women were stronger on average my standpoint still stands i'm not changing it can i let me

06:54:48.700 explore it really quick if that's if that's fine andrew um unless you have more you do you want more or

06:54:55.020 well i i just um this is like this is unfathomable like you don't even have to double down on these 0.99

06:55:01.820 positions they're so stupid even the women who are listening to you are like what is this chick 1.00

06:55:06.940 talking about it's insanity here just like look let me demonstrate a show of hands just quick show 1.00

06:55:12.460 of hands easy uh can anybody raise your hand if it was your experience when you went to school

06:55:18.460 that the boys were usually stronger than the girls just by a quick quick hand raise i don't know you might

06:55:24.140 get the sisterhood on this one no i don't think i'm gonna get the sisterhood you got the sisterhood from her

06:55:29.180 her no she raised her hand okay all right

06:55:32.860 uh so here i'll explore it really quick just like get a couple examples out of the way um soccer

06:55:42.780 uh you said like uh lower body strength women have more lower body strength leg strength 1.00

06:55:51.020 so you would expect to see like soccer which is a like mostly like lung capacity though

06:55:56.860 okay so not soccer then like the the the women out compete the men in soccer i think women are 0.99

06:56:03.420 better at soccer than men yes and let me real quick brian i just want to make sure you get this

06:56:07.900 correction uh women are not so i just had this researched out because you know the answer women 1.00

06:56:13.980 are not stronger in their lower body if they're only stronger in their lower body in proportion to their

06:56:19.500 own upper body not in comparison to men's lower body okay yeah yeah no i know exactly and also andrew i

06:56:25.580 mean i know you say it's ridiculous but like remember that one girl who said that her mom 0.77

06:56:30.140 could beat up brock lesnar i mean it's not as ridiculous as that of course yeah but the thing 0.76

06:56:37.580 is is like when i know that a person when i know that a person knows themselves that they're full of 0.98

06:56:42.780 shit i just lose interest right it's like once i know that the person themselves knows 0.90

06:56:47.580 i just you know i'll skip it sorry go ahead go ahead i didn't mean to trigger that go i was just 0.99

06:56:53.660 saying once i once i know that the person themselves knows that they're full of shit i 0.88

06:56:57.260 just lose interest it's like it's like no longer interesting all right ogle coming in here it's gonna 0.97

06:57:02.700 take a sec to come back ogle thank you for the tts man really appreciate it so women better at soccer

06:57:07.020 soccer i think so okay so what if i told you they've actually like done this experiment ogle's about to

06:57:13.180 come in they've done this experiment where they'll match up like a professional female 1.00

06:57:17.340 soccer team with like ogle donated two hundred dollars chair five is such a strong argument

06:57:24.780 against homeschooling were you homes you were homeschooled yeah

06:57:31.180 wow okay we have lol paladins coming in here in just a sec but so they've run this experiment

06:57:35.420 they'll set up a professional a women's professional soccer team they might have even done it maybe with the 1.00

06:57:40.940 the i don't know if it was the olympic team but like olympic team maybe not in the u.s but in uh

06:57:46.540 they've done various other countries they'll pair the professional adult women's soccer team 0.99

06:57:51.500 with like the 15 year old boys and the 15 year old boys will smoke the women 1.00

06:57:59.500 that's embarrassing yeah smoke them and i've said this whole time in my personal experience

06:58:07.020 right but sometimes your personal experience doesn't map on to like but we're asking about

06:58:11.420 my opinion so that's my opinion right but like you could have your own personal experiences and

06:58:15.340 still be able to like like for example like as a woman you could be the strongest woman in the world

06:58:19.980 right not you but like you okay picture the strongest woman in the world right she's the 1.00

06:58:27.020 strongest woman in the world she's actually probably runs into men there's a good chance that she's 1.00

06:58:32.140 actually stronger than a lot of the men that she encounters she would still be wrong to say that

06:58:38.380 women are stronger than men right i'm not saying women are stronger necessarily than men all in all

06:58:45.100 or that men are stronger all in all i'm saying they're each stronger in their own ways well yeah but

06:58:49.820 we're asking how and you're not really presenting a compelling argument because they are so you said

06:58:56.060 women's lower body strength so like for example uh in my experience do you go to the gym at all 0.98

06:59:00.380 do you work out yes do you do squats not squats no you are you familiar with the exercise yes so

06:59:06.460 you know how there's like world records for like i don't pay attention to that okay so if i were to

06:59:11.020 tell you that there's no woman the world record holder for the woman's squat across all weight divisions

06:59:20.620 no woman lifts more in the squat which has to do with your lower body strength 1.00

06:59:25.020 than even probably the top 100 men who's who are the top in terms of their squat

06:59:36.380 well there's also different types of physical strengths that would be

06:59:40.220 gym weight strength whereas there's also practical strength there's also strength as in fighting their 1.00

06:59:47.020 strength as in hey actually that's fair you know if women on average are as strong or stronger than men

06:59:53.020 as you previously stated and you changed your answer just now then why did you pick the bear 0.99

06:59:57.340 you can just kick the man's ass right i picked the bear because i want to play with a bear oh my gosh 0.97

07:00:03.180 oh okay okay uh hold on lol paladins is coming in here thank you lol sorry and well met lol paladins 0.99

07:00:10.620 donated two hundred dollars and two cents the only thing keeping women safe is the fact that the vast 1.00

07:00:16.780 majority of men are actually not bad men if any man wanted to hurt you they could take comfort that

07:00:23.340 men do not want to hurt women not 40 percent that is an interesting point the benevolence of men um

07:00:31.020 wait so hold on going back to this you said like for fighting women would are stronger like women can 0.99

07:00:37.180 no i simply say that there are many different kinds of physical strengths but you mentioned fighting

07:00:42.940 i said there's practical strength i said there's weight strength as in like going to the gym how

07:00:47.820 much can you weigh so what would be an example of practical strength lifting up a box

07:00:54.220 how long can someone stand on their feet all day when they're working a shift how there's tons of stuff

07:01:03.260 women have higher pain tolerance yeah okay all right i got i'm just gonna save time 1.00

07:01:09.500 strength i'll just move it on and in brian um i'm at uh i'm at 3 a.m my time um so i got i got my

07:01:18.140 hard cut at three um yeah shoot us a raid man thank you by the way andrew yeah i'm gonna send the raid

07:01:22.940 over for create your world of warcraft character and we're doing it we're doing it once when are we

07:01:27.260 playing next they're playing you just hop in whenever you feel like it yeah just create your

07:01:34.700 character you're what undead mage i think i'm gonna do the uh i think i'm gonna do a priest no andrew

07:01:42.300 i'm kidding i'm kidding not yeah yeah well i mean look we need healers you know we need healers so

07:01:47.020 yeah you always gotta have healers all right all right i appreciate it very much brian you have a

07:01:50.380 good night yeah it's very nice to meet all of you thank you andrew for joining us appreciate it

07:01:54.220 thank you thank you andrew i really appreciate it all right have a good night andrew thank you for uh

07:01:58.620 joining us oh wait andrew andrew andrew i'm here i'm here oh really quick last thing last thing

07:02:04.700 uh really quick did you want to address like you wanted to respond to michael we'll do it another

07:02:08.700 time tuesday we'll do tuesday yeah yeah we'll do perfect sounds all right sounds good all right man

07:02:12.620 good night all right we have two chats here coming in cena i'm gonna have you read it go ahead

07:02:21.100 it's funny that she has to differentiate the scientific belief which are different than her religious

07:02:27.500 beliefs she knows scientifically that men and women are different but against

07:02:35.820 woke woke dogma thank you uh lopalans appreciate it talking about i'm not sure to be honest lucas go

07:02:43.340 ahead dear god this girl is a tard can you track down those videos on youtube where men compete against 0.99

07:02:50.860 women especially the four times 400 mixed relay someone has strong feelings about the four by 400

07:02:57.180 mixed relay that's what i'm gathering from this i mean question for you when it comes to racing

07:03:01.500 right uh racing yeah like running running yeah okay what about like sprints do you think like men or

07:03:07.740 women i think that fully depends on how much you train for it sorry could you repeat that i think that 1.00

07:03:16.300 fully depends on how much you train for that okay so a woman who trains the hardest versus a man 1.00

07:03:23.740 who trains the hardest well and then it would depend how much you're born with natural talent in it

07:03:30.620 and that's dependent on every person not gender

07:03:35.180 who currently holds the world record for don't know don't know if i told you as a man

07:03:41.020 then on that standpoint then he was that during that moment you do realize that um the world record

07:03:48.380 holder for the women's 100 meter sprint she wouldn't even qualify to compete with the men you understand

07:03:55.180 this right i don't watch running right but so i've just presented to you with a fact the world record

07:04:02.300 holder of all time when it comes to the women's 100 meter she would not even qualify to be able to 1.00

07:04:10.060 compete against the men i think that partially has to do with expectations all throughout time

07:04:19.340 let's take gymnastics for an example gymnastics used to be a much simpler sport than it is today

07:04:24.140 but as sports develop running running point a point b straight line as fast as you can what i'm getting

07:04:33.740 there the expectations of this very very big thing that you have to train even harder for men

07:04:44.380 well for one i'm sure i don't know the actual statistics of this or the facts of this but

07:04:50.460 i'm sure men have done sports for a longer time competitively than women have what um women have been

07:04:57.900 in the olympics since i'm not talking about the olympics i'm talking about in general anyhow

07:05:01.340 okay so just to be clear a woman who a woman who's been sprinting her whole life versus a man 0.98

07:05:09.020 who's been sprinting her whole life i think we place more importance usually on men's sports in

07:05:15.500 our society that's seen by soccer in as well you always hear about male soccer stars you don't really

07:05:21.500 tend to hear as much that's because the men are better no not really yes really um so the

07:05:27.100 market dictates the market dictates reality the expectations do you watch soccer yes really yes

07:05:34.780 name a name a woman soccer player i can't name any soccer player really because if i were to ask a man

07:05:39.980 who watches soccer he could tell me a hundred male soccer players you can't name one and you watch 0.77

07:05:45.340 women's soccer can you name a team the barcelona team i watch them the barcelona team yeah do you

07:05:53.100 you watch the united states team no i don't watch stuff she only watches the what's the name of the

07:05:57.900 barcelona fcb huh fcb you barca oh men's soccer no they have a woman team is it's i don't know i don't

07:06:07.900 watch women's it's still called it's barca for the women they don't have different names there's barca

07:06:12.940 can you name one female soccer player i can't name a female or male i watch them play i don't

07:06:20.540 care who they are ronaldo i can't name one other than one you hear constantly in the media no

07:06:27.740 and the one you hear constantly are all male no how are the girls at this table not like what the 0.97

07:06:33.180 fuck are you talking about i hear two names constantly chris ronaldo chris you know whatever 0.99

07:06:39.260 and messy but i usually hear that from people so female sprinters for no reason back to this 1.00

07:06:44.620 female sprinters have not had the same opportunities as male sprinters opportunities 0.97

07:06:50.460 so is there sexism in sprinting is that no i said expectancy so if women if there's more expectation 0.99

07:06:58.060 on women to run faster they would train harder they'd have to and they would be able to beat the men possibly 1.00

07:07:04.300 ellen do me one solid bro i know ellen you don't want to like talk about this shit bro just like 1.00

07:07:11.020 look at her and be like just tell her like yo you're fucking retarded just say it for me please 1.00

07:07:16.540 don't say i'm kidding don't say that that's such a not really polite statement to say to somebody 1.00

07:07:23.100 like even if i sorry even if you believe she was retarded i mean she can hold her own beliefs i have 0.74

07:07:28.780 my opinions what are your opinions on this you don't have to call her the r word that was that

07:07:34.460 was wrong of me i just feel like she can hold her own opinions i don't agree with them but that's

07:07:40.700 she wrong though factually i mean there's my opinion there's her opinion i can share my opinion but that's

07:07:49.420 that's the limit what just curious why don't you want to like risk offense um

07:07:54.700 um you know i i would like have like high career aspirations um and i don't want to offend anybody

07:08:04.540 like you you think it would be it would impact your career prospects for you to say that generally

07:08:09.900 speaking men are stronger than women and when it comes to various sporting events women just cannot 1.00

07:08:15.100 compete with men i just i mean i told you i have my opinion and i just don't think that's even

07:08:21.900 controversial to say it's just reality why'd you come on this podcast if you don't want to say

07:08:27.020 controversial stuff if i'm being honest i came here because my friend invited me and i didn't want to

07:08:36.060 say no honestly wait whatever here so okay whatever look um i don't know i don't know uh there is something

07:08:49.660 to be said about like the unwillingness to like speak the truth i just find that interesting to be

07:08:58.220 fair when joining the podcast i had this pretense that it was going to be majority about dating where

07:09:07.900 it's mostly significant substantially more so about politics and i agree with that and that has been

07:09:14.140 very misleading and kind of i mean chloe you've been trying to get on the show for like i don't

07:09:18.940 know exactly when you first messaged us on instagram then you got sick and you had to cancel um you've

07:09:25.260 been trying to get on the show for a while so you've been aware of sitting here being march 24th is when

07:09:31.020 march 24th you sent us a message on the instagram page and then after that i didn't get sick in any

07:09:36.460 case i mean you have plenty of time to investigate the nature of the podcast um but we are told

07:09:43.100 something i take it as you say it's a dating podcast it's going to be about dating it's going to be about

07:09:53.420 that substantially and majority especially since the name of it and whatnot is literally a dating podcast

07:09:59.580 you don't come on expecting to mostly talk about whether something's gay or not gay that has to do

07:10:07.020 with dating the genesis of the question was is it straight for a man but it's more politically aligned

07:10:14.700 and it's not so much that has to do how'd you find out about this podcast i simply saw

07:10:21.100 that they were looking for people online that's all 0.94

07:10:23.500 all right sleepy bear donated 200 she's only proving that she's the type of liar willing to 1.00

07:10:32.700 lie to cover a lie there's no way she believes women are stronger than men 0.98

07:10:39.580 here we actually there's a damien there's a thing you can pull up super quick on this it's in the

07:10:45.580 i'm trying to find where it is it's called uh you can just type the url boysversuswomen.com

07:10:51.180 and like i don't know if this is going to be compelling to you but it's like um

07:10:56.220 i think it should could maybe i never talked about the general aspect i've been saying this

07:11:00.940 whole time in my personal experience the woman i know have been stronger than the men i know

07:11:08.060 okay that's fine so this is boys versus men so this is male high school athletes

07:11:13.100 male high school athletes versus female olympians so i believe this is comparing u.s high school

07:11:23.660 athletes not international versus female olympians from every single country the overall medal count

07:11:30.140 would be as follows if you had just the male high school athletes compete against female olympians

07:11:36.140 scroll down uh track and field scroll down a bit more track and field scroll down just a teeny bit

07:11:44.140 yeah that's good that's good it's going to reorder it okay so if you had uh boys compete against

07:11:53.580 uh the olympic women's finalists the boys would take the first eight places for the hundred meter the 200 0.78

07:12:02.140 meters scroll down

07:12:11.180 this is not male olympians versus female olympians this is high school boys 400 meters they take the

07:12:18.220 first eight places 800 meters they take the first eight places scroll down

07:12:24.380 5 000 meters

07:12:29.340 so women do beat out the men the excuse me the boys excuse me in the 5 000 meters there actually

07:12:35.180 something to indicate that like for distance women can sometimes like edge out men a little 0.99

07:12:39.980 bit uh 400 meter hurdles uh my but the comparison here is between boys i believe if it was uh women

07:12:48.140 versus men uh the men would still win for the 5 000 meters if they were both male olympians 400

07:12:54.140 meter hurdles uh they take all the first eight places scroll down four times 100 meter relay we're

07:13:01.900 going to skip down a little further after this one too uh they take the first two places the first

07:13:07.260 then eight scroll all the way down let's go to swimming pole vault high jump actually wait uh go back up to

07:13:13.100 the one up high jump pole vault the boy the high school boys beat the female olympians scroll down

07:13:22.220 so uh more more scroll down track and field swimming let's look at swimming for a bit all right

07:13:29.580 they take the first eight places take all the they take all the top places scroll down

07:13:37.500 this is for the 200 you're a swimmer right ellen i am a swimmer okay all right uh the boys out

07:13:45.020 compete the female olympians in the what is the lc that's long course long course okay uh they take the

07:13:52.540 all three medals in the 400 long course scroll down this is the 800 long course 100 long course meter

07:14:01.100 backstroke they take first and second they take okay next uh scroll down a little further just keep

07:14:08.460 going keep going breaststroke butterfly

07:14:11.020 okay now scroll down scroll down further further further further i'm just going to skip some of the

07:14:22.620 swimming stuff is there anything no that's pretty much it so it's track field uh swimming is this

07:14:27.900 compelling to you at all like i said prior this is about my opinion which relates to my experiences and

07:14:35.180 i've answered that that is through my experiences so my answer still stands through my experiences

07:14:42.620 that answer still stands okay all right i'm gonna move off that but um it's a interest certainly an

07:14:50.860 interesting take uh we're gonna do just a few more here then we're gonna wrap up the show uh women 1.00

07:14:56.620 should be drafted cena disagrees gianna she's in favor of the female draft good for you 1.00

07:15:05.180 lexi disagrees with women being drafted pos disagrees with women being drafted chloe you disagree that 0.73

07:15:12.060 women should be drafted ellen no opinion no surprise there um you are in favor of women being drafted

07:15:21.180 good for you you feminist you alissa you disagree that women should be drafted tiffany you disagree women 0.98

07:15:27.340 should be drafted uh don't you think for the sake of equality lexi that women should be drafted that 1.00

07:15:34.140 seems fair right yeah but if everyone is being drafted it's kind of i feel like there would be a

07:15:41.500 pretty big disruptancy if we're talking like war right yeah war so if there's a big big big decline in women 1.00

07:15:51.260 then when there wouldn't be why do we value women more than men because 0.79

07:16:03.260 probably for the sake of childbearing that's interesting okay

07:16:10.140 but we can't have children without men so that's why i think women should as well 0.98

07:16:17.740 but all right just me i'm gonna move off of that one for the sake of time um lexi you were iffy on uh

07:16:27.980 women are not oppressed trying to see who else was on women

07:16:36.860 no opinion from her

07:16:37.900 no opinion from her uh you said avantika you said women are not you disagree that women are not oppressed

07:16:48.380 um just curious how are how are women oppressed 1.00

07:16:52.860 um i maintain the same standpoint that i've always had that um you know there are still certain

07:16:59.660 expectations of women they're like i feel that you know like women they can't i guess have the same

07:17:08.540 career goals aspirations what do you mean they can't i mean they're told not to what do you mean

07:17:15.100 it's totally the contrary everything in society you think like the messaging that andrew or are you

07:17:20.780 talking about women in the u.s or across the world because across the world not universally i can't

07:17:26.620 speak to the specifics of like ethiopian gender politics but yeah within the u.s within the u.s

07:17:33.580 yeah are women oppressed i think in terms of reproductive rights right now they are being 0.92

07:17:38.620 oppressed on another basis no anything else just the reproductive are men oppressed on the basis of

07:17:44.700 reproductive rights in the united states based on the previous line of questioning yes okay you're

07:17:52.380 consistent uh lexi any thoughts on that uh you said that you're maybe iffy about the women's

07:17:58.220 oppression i don't think women are really oppressed in the united states okay all right let's see what

07:18:05.180 else uh going to back to avantika i apologize am i saying your name correctly yeah okay uh men are the

07:18:14.860 primary victims of war you disagreed with this i'm not saying that so the question is saying that men are

07:18:23.580 the primary victims of war i'm saying that there's children there's families i feel like everyone is

07:18:28.700 equally affected by war does anybody uh i will open this up to anybody else um does anybody think that men

07:18:34.700 are not the primary victims of war okay um so you there are other victims right of war certainly women 0.99

07:18:43.660 children etc but the question is uh primary victims uh so explain to me uh men are not the primary

07:18:53.100 victims then why do you say that it's never just oh men are fighting um of one nation fighting other

07:19:01.660 men of the other nation and they're the only ones getting hurt you know there's other there's entire

07:19:07.020 civilizations there's women there's children there's future families so on that basis no men are not the

07:19:13.020 primary victims okay let me ask you this um when the united states sent men to world war ii uh were

07:19:20.940 men or women in specifically with the united states specifically with world war ii let's do world war

07:19:26.220 one also uh when it came to the united states demographic were men the primary victims of war

07:19:32.940 in the united states yes in japan no because women and children got bombed men also got bombed yes

07:19:41.820 and so that'll make them all the victims so if i grant and i actually i do grant that in military

07:19:49.820 conflicts there are civilian casualties and this is going to encompass both this is going to encompass

07:19:55.580 women and children in fact it may very well be the case that perhaps more women and children are 0.99

07:20:00.860 civilian casualties i'm not sure if that's actually true but i mean just granting it um this would be the

07:20:07.580 case because the men are elsewhere in the war and these men are typically dying

07:20:18.060 sorry can you ask that question well here how about this let's say there's a war

07:20:21.740 and this war 10 million men die and then there's like 5 million civilian casualties and when it comes

07:20:28.460 to civilian casualties well between the children it's 50 50 because the children don't fight right so

07:20:33.820 it's 50 50 between uh male and female children when it comes to the women however what if i just say 0.97

07:20:39.100 okay well it's like 70 percent uh female civilian casualties and 30 percent male civilian casualties

07:20:47.820 um can i change my answer a little bit sure i'm gonna say anyone that is in front line of the war so yes men

07:20:56.220 and anyone who gets injured or dies due to war are the primary victims and um secondary would be their

07:21:03.500 wives and their family and their children so those would be the secondary okay so i changed my answer yes

07:21:09.660 men are the primary victims but also anyone who is on the front line and anyone who gets injured or dies

07:21:15.020 are also primary yeah but the question kind of suggests like a collective uh a collective degree of

07:21:22.860 victimization right so i would agree with you like for example uh a civilian who gets bombed

07:21:29.900 and the civilian happens to be a woman is a primary victim of the war but if we're like comparing the

07:21:38.060 i guess suffering toll or the victim toll um do you think that this is men or women when it comes to warfare

07:21:45.020 well i guess yes if you like i said i changed my answer but since we're putting on technical terms

07:21:51.900 more men are fighting in wars okay you know and so um more men men are the primary victims and then come

07:22:00.700 whoever's affected by that okay so you're changing your position on that then yes okay so men are the

07:22:06.860 primary victims of war anyone who's on the front line which is primarily men primarily men yes in

07:22:14.300 this scenario in all in all scenarios well what if women got i mean what if women are drafted more and 1.00

07:22:20.220 suddenly the like it changed are they though no so so in this scenario yes how about all wars that

07:22:26.940 have occurred throughout human history well all wars that have occurred throughout human history have been

07:22:31.980 primarily like fought by men yes fought by men and dictated by men so yes they are the primary okay

07:22:38.780 all right um trying to see if there's i want to bring things back to dating related topics for a bit

07:22:44.620 here uh let's see uh where should we go hmm one sec guys why don't we um

07:22:52.860 how much time we got a few minutes um

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07:23:45.900 back to the pre-show notes actually on here uh gianna you said you don't date around you prefer

07:23:52.460 to have very few relationships but the one you didn't let the one time you did let a man take

07:23:56.380 you out other than your boyfriend he became your stalker and you had to get a restraining order

07:24:00.380 but that's an even longer story lmao yeah that is true okay you want me to dive right in well you

07:24:09.020 said you don't date around you prefer to have like very few relationships um so the one time you let

07:24:13.740 a man like take you out on a date he became a stalker yes he did so he's right very good times

07:24:20.780 um he followed me i guess oh he dropped me off home and then um i actually had him drop me off a few

07:24:29.660 houses down because you know i didn't really know him that well and i am very like to myself so cautious

07:24:36.940 i guess um and then i waited until he left to go to my house and apparently he didn't go too far

07:24:45.500 because he saw where i went and then a couple weeks later started sparing my phone neighbors showed me

07:24:52.060 um videos of him staying at my house because we i lived in an apartment um not too long ago

07:24:57.420 and stuff like that so yeah i am very very very cautious with who i go out with and who i okay

07:25:03.820 sure uh moving to avantica you said what what was the movie story oh um have you heard of the movie

07:25:13.580 evil dead rising um so i um a guy from like uh like school asked me like was a couple years ago to go to

07:25:25.020 the movie screening well i chose it because i i love horror movies and um we were at the movie

07:25:30.780 theater and um we were the only two people there i don't know how it happened and the whole theater

07:25:36.540 and then he got like really like scared he started crying and it was it was kind of funny

07:25:43.100 uh and you also said that he said he loved oh no he loved movies i thought he said he loved you

07:25:48.380 uh and that but he uh he started crying like when you say crying like just a singular tear or like

07:25:54.060 full-blown like crying i think if you've ever seen the movie it's like ridiculously gory

07:25:59.980 and so like i feel like i was pretty shocked did you suggest the movie or did he i did but um i kind

07:26:07.260 of just dived in i don't really see the trailers for the movies so i just dived in so he started

07:26:11.500 crying yeah and he was scared did he like reach for your hand like kind of yeah yeah okay and um

07:26:19.020 he tried to make a move on you after yeah like it was so weird because after i don't know after

07:26:27.980 like he left a little bit like i think 10 or 20 minutes earlier and then i left i thought he left

07:26:33.100 like left left and then i saw him there at the end and then he was like you're like do you want to take

07:26:38.460 this like somewhere else and i was like no because he was it because he cried or um no i just i guess

07:26:46.060 like i had the implication was sexual and i just wasn't feeling it i'm gonna watch a horror movie

07:26:50.860 oh okay all right um you sure it wasn't because he cried i've i've cried at movies i cried a like

07:27:01.340 sad dog documentary like i cry anything basically so i wasn't really bad all right you said uh maybe

07:27:08.300 this is a different guy his family was part of a cult and you found out three months in

07:27:11.820 yeah what was the cult it was scientology oh okay nice and i'm like i guess i try to put it for a

07:27:18.620 juicy story but a lot of people are part of that cult so it's not really too juicy okay you said you

07:27:23.100 went on a date in oregon he drove 50 miles to the middle of nowhere and there was a zoo um yeah like

07:27:29.980 we're like my family was in oregon and then um i was i kind of like snuck out and um i met him and

07:27:36.220 he's like let's just go to a place i was like i don't know i was young dumb i was like 19 and so

07:27:41.580 like we went to the middle of nowhere and his family had a farm but like not regular friends

07:27:46.460 there's like giraffes and zebras and like wild like like other animals and like a petting zoo or

07:27:52.460 something it wasn't even like i don't know any petting zoo that has like a giraffe a safari it was

07:27:58.380 like a private zoo it was yeah it was almost like a private zoo but it was like in the middle of

07:28:02.140 like a random state nice did you end up dating him or no because i don't live in oregon so i don't

07:28:09.020 really do long distance you drove with him 50 miles to the zoo i mean i'm guesstimating it was like it

07:28:16.140 was like 30 40 minutes it was you and him it was just me okay all right um just curious would you rather

07:28:23.660 watch a evil dead rising with a bear or with a man who cries um if you're talking specifically

07:28:34.140 that's a good question actually i don't know if the bear would have i feel like is a man who cries

07:28:38.620 like really a threat yeah exactly man who cried like with that specific guy no like he's not okay

07:28:45.260 um all right uh going to ellen ellen you said uh you wanted to talk about pre-relationship quotas what

07:28:51.900 does that mean oh just like certain things that you should do before you and are like in a

07:29:01.020 relationship like what um just kind of like personality aspects i guess like what um they

07:29:12.780 have to be like a gentleman they have to be gentlemen okay you have to be kind and considerate

07:29:18.860 what are some like gentlemanly things that a guy can do or should do um i think it's really nice

07:29:25.820 if like they open like the car door for you if you're gonna go on like a date open the car door

07:29:30.780 why yeah or um i don't know i just feel like it's like a nice gesture or like they like but you're not

07:29:36.460 are you not capable of opening a car door like you don't possess the strength to do it or no i have

07:29:40.780 the strength don't you think it's a bit sexist that a man would assume like you can't do it yourself

07:29:44.220 i mean i guess another thing that i think is just like a kind gesture is like if they like walk you

07:29:52.380 to your door um because you know it's probably like that's an interesting one's the like why

07:30:00.940 i just feel like it's like a considerate act in case somebody jumps out of the bush and attacks you

07:30:06.300 um i don't know i just that's what i've been told but you would you would want this on the first date

07:30:13.820 right i think i i don't expect it but it would be nice you would like it though i would like it okay

07:30:20.380 if a guy didn't do it would it you call into question no i just think you would like nice

07:30:25.980 gestures yeah but what's the entailment there so like you want the guy to walk you to the door

07:30:31.100 make sure you get home safe uh what would the expectation be for example if there was somebody who

07:30:35.900 jumped out of the bush and he did walk you to the door would you want him to physically intervene

07:30:40.060 on your behalf and protect you um i mean i would just kind of grab him and like run away or like

07:30:48.700 try to get into the house as fast as possible i'm allowing him to deal with the violent threat

07:30:54.060 no no i'm no i'm with him like i want us to both get to safety but you would want him to attempt like

07:31:02.540 what let's say you couldn't would you want him to physically confront the attacker or just let him

07:31:07.980 beat you guys up no like i would fight back too i wouldn't just expect him to fight if he let me ask

07:31:15.100 you this the guy walks you to the door some crazy violent person jumps out of the bush starts trying 0.71

07:31:21.500 to attack you um he runs faster than you and he just runs away leaving you to be attacked would you feel

07:31:27.100 uh like whoa i can't date this guy that's just not what a good human being would do they would

07:31:34.140 you know but earlier you said like you would try to run into the house and he would stay to defend

07:31:40.060 no i would run in with him into the house to get us both to safety that's the priority okay

07:31:45.580 that we're both so if he ran away and like just that's a horrible thing to do if somebody's in danger

07:31:51.660 you should help them even at the cost of his life i mean i feel like if somebody was you know

07:32:01.660 getting beat up i would go yeah let me ask you a question have you ever uh you go out and party out

07:32:06.620 here yeah sometimes have you ever seen fights between two men no you've never seen enough do you

07:32:12.780 go out to the parties at all i do i've never seen you've never seen a physical altercation between two

07:32:18.220 men not on the night set how often have you gone out to party and stuff like decent number you walk

07:32:24.300 the main street you know the street i'm talking about yeah you've never seen a physical altercation

07:32:28.940 or fight maybe i'm just not there at those times but uh in general have you ever seen a physical

07:32:34.540 altercation between two men no actually i mean you are young you are 18 but um or no you're i'm 18.

07:32:44.140 oh no you are 18 sorry i got my numbers mixed up um i mean perhaps one day you'll see one so you

07:32:49.660 think uh you see two men fighting you're going to intervene i mean but like why are they fighting

07:32:59.580 just like i don't know maybe one guy's beating up on the other i don't know who knows why would i

07:33:04.780 intervene you said a good person would intervene if somebody's in danger yeah being in the street

07:33:11.820 fight's dangerous i mean you gave me a scenario earlier and i responded to that like if somebody

07:33:19.740 walked me to the door and somebody jumped out at us but you said you would like engage in the fight

07:33:25.260 but have you ever been in the fight no i haven't been in a fight but i'm just saying like if somebody

07:33:29.580 was attacking me and somebody that i was with obviously i would fight back or i would run away

07:33:34.860 with the person that i was with i mean i think the scenario would play out something like this

07:33:41.260 you probably wouldn't start fighting this man who started attacking you you would look to the man who's

07:33:45.660 with you to defend you i would look to run away first if i can i mean i don't so you would run away

07:33:53.180 but the man would stay and fight why wouldn't the man just run away with me fights are like

07:33:59.260 like there would not be time to like have a sidebar conversation with your date no like what

07:34:05.740 should we do somebody's coming to attack the punch the man has to like then you dodge it and then you

07:34:11.740 run away what you hope to dodge it i mean i'm and the guy starts keeps chasing you then we keep i don't

07:34:20.220 and he's faster and he catches up are you gonna start throwing punches or is the guy gonna have to turn 0.87

07:34:25.020 around and start fucking the guy up i hope he does i don't i don't oh boy all right um 0.99

07:34:34.060 okay i mean things are i mean i would leave the guy and run away myself 0.96

07:34:39.900 she's honest i guess um the the reason i i'm going here is because you say you want the guy to walk you

07:34:45.980 to the door so basically you're saying you want a guy who's willing to protect you but that protection

07:34:50.220 is is one directional i'm not saying i'm i want him to walk me to lord i think the gesture is nice

07:34:56.780 i don't that's the kind of underlying go ahead go ahead i think the gesture and like it's about like

07:35:04.540 the kindness behind it not necessarily like i don't know how often these physical altercations okay what

07:35:10.860 are some of the other gentlemanly things you want a guy to do like more like just personality traits

07:35:18.300 okay um what kind of like so where is the reciprocation from the woman's part like what 1.00

07:35:26.860 do i do so you're saying men should adhere to these traditional gender roles should women adhere to 0.94

07:35:33.180 traditional gender i never said they should adhere to i said that it would be a nice gesture you would

07:35:38.140 be but okay i mean there's more than one way to say something but that doesn't mean that i expect it

07:35:43.660 that's the traditional gender role if you expect a woman to do a nice gesture for the woman um 1.00

07:35:50.300 maybe i would make him like cookies i don't know that's active

07:35:57.260 okay but like i i guess my confusion here is that like if you had two men and they were like both

07:36:05.580 pretty similar but one of them did these like romantic or gentlemanly gestures it would occur to me that

07:36:12.540 you would like if you had to if you ended up picking one you would pick the one that demonstrated these

07:36:17.980 like romantic or uh gentlemanly gestures um i'm sorry i'm like not really running on much sleep so

07:36:31.020 i but i think tiffany can answer that okay tiffany you want to answer on behalf of your friend over there

07:36:38.220 um wait what was the question

07:36:44.460 well look the reason i'm kind of like uh exploring it a little bit here is you had like a really

07:36:48.780 massive objection to the bow thing which seems pretty benign but like you want a guy to like

07:36:54.140 okay look at if you actually like explore the physical requirements okay the guy needs to get

07:36:58.940 out of the guy picks you up in his car you want him or you would prefer or you would like it or you

07:37:04.300 would get extra brownie points however you want to frame it you want him to get out of his car walk

07:37:09.420 all the way around open the car door m'lady walk back around get back in the car like it's gentlemanly 0.99

07:37:18.780 right so you have that expectation on men to take that physical action right but you're saying that

07:37:25.260 it's an expectation but i've never said that it was an expectation do you have no expectations for men

07:37:31.340 i doubt that no but you're saying that these are the expectations that i hold but these are not

07:37:37.420 expectations i clearly said that they're gestures they're kind gestures they're kind gestures so you

07:37:42.140 don't expect kind gestures what are some expectations you do have i just expect them to be good human

07:37:49.500 beings and that's that's really it like i'm just looking for a good person i don't really so okay so

07:37:56.540 the guy gets extra brownie points yeah he does these it's kind it's gestures all right so if men

07:38:03.020 were to say well women who do these things earn them extra bounty points and they're more likely to 1.00

07:38:08.940 be picked over a woman who doesn't i mean isn't this kind of dancing around what an expectation is

07:38:17.100 like i know you don't like the framing of what expectation entails but if it's like okay if as a man

07:38:23.500 you do xyz you have a greater chance of getting me as a girlfriend as a sexual partner whatever it is

07:38:32.300 you have a better chance of getting me isn't this essentially de facto an expectation

07:38:39.340 expectations are requirements i never stated that these things are requirements

07:38:45.660 right but if if a pattern of behavior means that this individual is more likely to pick me as

07:38:51.980 opposed to the other men that she's entertaining then like i mean isn't it like maybe it's not an

07:38:58.300 expectation but there's a significant social pressure on men to do these behaviors that's enforced by

07:39:04.060 women it's not enforced by women per se it's a kind gesture just like i would look for

07:39:12.300 like humor in a guy i think that would bring him brownie points okay if he was humorous like what's the

07:39:19.100 difference between like different i guess like brownie points yeah i suppose but plenty of women 1.00

07:39:26.140 perhaps might not want to date like a more serious individual who doesn't have the capacity to make

07:39:31.100 them laugh or isn't funny is that a statement yeah okay all right um look it's just interesting to me you

07:39:43.580 guys want we went around the table i asked kind of what do you bring to the table what do you expect

07:39:47.740 from men or what do you want in a man and you listed all these things but like you guys really object to

07:39:53.020 certain things like i don't know it's just like men should pay for first dates most of you maybe you you

07:39:59.740 on a personal level don't um you don't want that you're like fine 50 50 i'm cool with 50 50 but like i'm

07:40:07.580 sure you could at least acknowledge like there's a there's a subset a large subset of women who have 0.92

07:40:12.700 this expectation of men that men pay for first dates if they don't there's not going to be a

07:40:16.380 second date they're just going to be like almost mocked if they don't pay for the date um it's just

07:40:23.420 really interesting to me though like when we say men should do this men should do xyz men should do

07:40:27.900 whatever men should do that's not really met with much objection from y'all but the moment men start

07:40:34.620 saying women should do this you start getting really in your feels and in your emotions and in 1.00

07:40:41.100 your feminism and being like well hold on no women shouldn't have to do any of these things 1.00

07:40:50.620 if a man said a woman should have my babies i would happily have his baby yeah if it's something i 0.99

07:40:55.980 want to do it the guy the guy wants to provide it's in their it's in their biology

07:41:02.620 biology and do nice gestures for women so men want to provide it's in their biology is it in 0.79

07:41:10.300 women's biology to follow men and be submissive to men no but yes but that does not include bowing 1.00

07:41:19.660 well you said that men like bitchy women 1.00

07:41:24.940 so what does that have to do with anything what brian just said brian just said that like 0.98

07:41:30.220 would you be submissive to your men but you wouldn't right like you wouldn't bow to them

07:41:34.940 but you would expect for them to pay for the first date so what do you give your man in return what do

07:41:40.460 you provide for your boyfriend in return have his babies be a mother to his children well that's in

07:41:47.580 the future what would you provide for him now my presence being me it's the potential though it's a

07:41:57.580 women's an investment right what but why why is it okay to say that this is in men's nature

07:42:07.420 i don't disagree with you tiffany i do think it's in men's nature but um why is it then wrong to say

07:42:13.980 certain things are in women's nature it seems like it's only sexist or you know in one direction 1.00

07:42:22.460 like it's only sexist if there's like expectations on women there should be expectations i think

07:42:29.980 women should do kind gestures as well like what that's what i asked you what do you think women 1.00

07:42:35.340 should do bow do my laundry on do do my laundry on the first day except bowing

07:42:44.380 here's okay going to the bow thing really quick uh just show of hands who would who would uh your

07:42:49.420 your uh i don't know i don't know first date for some of you might be weird man chill chill out bro 0.99

07:42:55.500 like you're making me seem like a psychopath you're you're a psycho bro you're tiffany bro you got 1.00

07:42:59.500 kanye tattoos show that's psycho you're psycho bro psychopath over here freaking psycho okay um 1.00

07:43:06.060 who here objects to a man a man saying a woman should do his laundry on the first date object object 0.99

07:43:17.260 object any objections object you would do it laundry on the first date yeah okay would you do a guy's

07:43:24.300 laundry on the first date i don't think so you don't think so would you do laundry on the first

07:43:29.100 date claire why am i going to this man's place you've never exactly you've never been to a guy's

07:43:33.980 house not on the first date no you've never had a one-night stand no that's good i've never had a

07:43:40.460 one okay fine whatever that's fine all right pots i've done it you've done laundry on the first day

07:43:46.300 lexi i also wouldn't be at their house come on like you've never been over to a guy like you just

07:43:56.060 met fucking went over to his house no okay all right cena i mean into the mic i wouldn't do it but 0.97

07:44:05.660 i wouldn't mind mind doing laundry okay yeah all right what about you i wouldn't do it on the first 0.99

07:44:12.140 day i would do it in the relationship not on the first day sure uh question kind of following up

07:44:17.100 on this um who here has within the like same 24 hours as meeting them who here has had a uh carnal

07:44:28.220 knowledge uh with a guy pause starting with you i guess wait what uh so within the first 24 hours of 0.99

07:44:39.020 meeting a guy have you had carnal knowledge with a dude sex oh p and the v sexual sexual intercourse 0.99

07:44:49.100 yes okay and no really no no bro you gotta live 0.99

07:44:58.140 cena yes no lexi no

07:45:01.100 no no no yes wait you i know i know you said that you said you had like casual encounters is

07:45:09.340 she it's casual account it's not like that it's more like pause is she being on his bruv it's like

07:45:14.460 we've has she smashed we've been friends yo pause has she smashed bruv do you like 0.97

07:45:20.380 do you want to describe san diego damn bro you gonna lie on my podcast what the 0.99

07:45:25.180 fuck bro i knew him like before that like i met him before that like you said first 24 hours with 0.99

07:45:30.540 the knowing oh right right okay yeah i'm using the technical oh okay joshua tree i met him before that 0.98

07:45:40.060 too like the day before yeah was that like within the 24 hours i thought it was just like

07:45:45.900 no if you met at 5 p.m did y'all smash before 5 p.m the next day no okay so like how about 48 hours

07:45:56.060 does that change anything i guess yes yeah okay all right what about you alissa yes okay it's tiffany no

07:46:05.020 okay all right um well i'll say this much

07:46:09.260 you won't bow for a lot of women won't bow for a guy 1.00

07:46:17.340 but you'll do all kinds of sexual acts but it's like okay the same girl who won't bow for a guy

07:46:24.620 or do his laundry on the first date like you'll 1.00

07:46:28.460 hock to her you'll spit on that thing you'll gluck like like that you'll you'll you'll have sex bro 1.00

07:46:36.540 you'll have you'll let him blast on your face bro you'll do kind of crazy you'll peg a dude bro 1.00

07:46:40.060 you pegged a dude you pegged a dude on the first date bro is it true did you peg it you pegged a guy

07:46:45.340 right yes it was a first date right uh no oh sorry my bad second date something like that oh man

07:46:53.260 see it's great you won't bow you won't bow you won't do his laundry you won't cook him a meal you

07:46:58.220 won't is that a nice gesture cooking meal no pegging right no that's very rude it's a very rude gesture

07:47:05.820 even if you want to don't do it yeah uh go ahead tiffany go ahead i was just gonna say all that for

07:47:13.740 just paying for a day is kind of ridiculous no i'm not expecting a girl to do your laundry when 1.00

07:47:19.340 you're only paying for one date i do i do your laundry if you provide me with a house and a car 0.99

07:47:27.980 the fuck that's not fair bro that is fair i could get like one of these services to do my laundry for 0.99

07:47:33.020 like i don't know 30 bucks or something then do that 1.00

07:47:39.260 well then you guys use a sperm bank okay and get sperm donor how about that okay that doesn't 1.00

07:47:48.620 seem very fun roasted not really i'd be down for that you'd be down for a sperm bank yeah before i

07:47:55.180 was in my relationship i was thinking about going to a sperm bank and having a donor uh really at 0.89

07:48:01.500 fucking 20 i want kids before i'm 25 so okay all right that's cool um what were you saying tiffany 0.98

07:48:10.220 you want you got a how you to do the man's laundry you need a house and a car yeah and a ring 0.99

07:48:16.860 yeah and a ring wife status damn that's crazy man that's crazy all right um we're gonna guys 0.97

07:48:22.620 we're gonna lower the tts to we're gonna do a rose session we're gonna lower the tts to 20 0.98

07:48:28.940 then we're gonna do the rose session then we're gonna wrap up any while i'm getting that set up

07:48:32.860 any uh final thoughts from and any of the uh panelists here

07:48:36.940 speak now forever hold your peace go ahead tiffany like go crazy or don't go crazy 0.89

07:48:47.260 damn bro y'all see these tick tocks where the girl's like oh i'm on a date with a guy and it's 0.98

07:48:52.860 like he doesn't really talk is that really dudes who are like that or is that y'all just throwing that 0.99

07:48:58.940 out there like is it is it really guys that aren't carrying conversation like there's there's there's

07:49:06.300 nine of y'all there's one of me hello we carry productive conversations guys carry unproductive

07:49:13.980 conversations that's the biggest baloney i've ever heard major baloney baloney sandwich

07:49:21.820 you know how i know this typically this is actually a studied thing uh women talk about 1.00

07:49:31.180 other people and men will talk about like ideas and concepts and things

07:49:39.100 when they're when they're together like when women are together they typically talk about 0.94

07:49:42.540 other people when men are together they talk about things and ideas

07:49:47.820 a full group of men i have been friends with in the past when they get together they play belly

07:49:55.500 bongos they don't talk about you hang out with a bunch of soy boys so there's no surprise there 1.00

07:50:02.700 20 tts boys 20 tts read them and weep uh get them in boys i need to change a couple things on my

07:50:10.780 cena what you got for me bro go ahead talk about canadian dating or some 0.99

07:50:14.140 shit canadian bacon bacon bacon yeah go ahead canadian bacon's pretty good yeah yeah uh wait 0.99

07:50:22.780 okay uh going around the table do you guys think that body count do you think men are insecure if 1.00

07:50:29.340 they care about the woman's body count no what about you um no okay lexi no i think sometimes sometimes

07:50:41.420 okay depends okay depends okay i know i wrote something different um i would just say it's

07:50:50.220 based on your values if you want a low body count seek someone who has a low body count if you have

07:50:53.740 a high one then don't also don't expect someone else to have a low body count and be offended if they

07:50:59.900 have a high body kind of you yourself have a high body count wait can you clarify your position on that

07:51:05.100 if you have a high body count you can't be like oh a girl has to have a low body count that's 1.00

07:51:09.740 ridiculous then you should have a low one so you're saying like a person with a high body count

07:51:14.380 just hold they're only allowed yourself no i'm saying you shouldn't care hold yourself to the 0.95

07:51:20.060 same standards you're holding everyone else to really yeah so do you believe in perfect symmetry

07:51:24.380 between desires between men and women that is a weird question what do you well okay here i'll

07:51:32.860 reframe it in order for you to desire a trait in a partner need you also possess said trait to desire

07:51:40.940 it i don't hold any expectation of someone i date unless i hold myself to that yes really yes

07:51:49.900 um and question what's your orientation like are you straight bisexual okay um

07:51:54.700 perhaps this could be the case for you where there's perfect reciprocity and perfect symmetry

07:52:02.140 when it comes to your own characteristics and then what you desire in a partner i think this is

07:52:07.660 probably dubious but um even granting this do you think that this is the case for most women 1.00

07:52:15.900 is it the case for most women what do you think it's the case for most women that the things they 1.00

07:52:20.700 desire in men they also possess all those same traits i think not just women but i think in general

07:52:29.660 it's not the case no so you think attraction in terms of what we're both attracted to is perfectly

07:52:35.180 symmetrical whatever women want in men men also want exactly that in women like i said in a general

07:52:43.500 case with everyone no i don't think that's the case in my case yes that's the case there's a bit of

07:52:48.540 a delay on the tts guys well because i guess my confusion here is that i don't think that there's

07:52:54.540 symmetry in what men and women want and also i don't think it's either hypocritical to desire a trait

07:53:02.060 in a partner that you yourself don't possess for example uh just curious show of hands uh do you guys like

07:53:09.980 men who are funny and i i everybody right are you guys funny i think i'm funny yeah i don't think

07:53:21.340 i'm funny but i make people laugh anyways right but like i i guess what i'm trying to get at here

07:53:28.140 i would not fault a woman who was not like who didn't have like the comedic timing or who wasn't

07:53:33.660 funny i wouldn't fault her if she wasn't funny at all for finding somebody who is funny attractive

07:53:41.500 because that is an attractive characteristic to possess at least for a man um i don't think

07:53:47.020 it would make her a hypocrite i don't think it would make her wrong despite her total lack of humor

07:53:54.140 perhaps she has a sense of humor that's a bit different though she can detect she can sense the 0.80

07:53:58.380 humor but she can't actually like make people laugh like she's not funny herself i don't think 1.00

07:54:04.780 it's hypocritical and i i feel like most of you would agree it wouldn't be wrong for a woman who's 0.58

07:54:11.020 not funny to find funny men attractive i think fair proposition strict borderline i think that when

07:54:18.620 you're in a relationship i feel like you should think your partner is funny like really yeah

07:54:24.700 yeah because you understand them and you more so you should naturally if you like someone i think

07:54:32.300 humor and sharing that sense of humor comes in a big play in that so i feel like whether it's you're

07:54:38.780 funny yourself or you understand the humor and you can joke about it together sharing that is a mutual

07:54:45.580 thing if you're someone who is funny and you're a joke student you're constantly making jokes and then

07:54:50.780 your girlfriend never laughs at anything you say because they don't understand it even yeah no i

07:54:56.860 don't know okay um but you do you think everybody is equally funny then no that's why it's base by base

07:55:06.220 so then certainly there would be like for example a girl who partners up with a guy who's just like

07:55:11.900 objectively funnier than her like i said for other people i don't think it's the case for me i would

07:55:18.460 want my partner to think i'm funny and i want to have a funny yo you gotta but you gotta like

07:55:24.220 remove like you gotta look big picture here this is about our opinions though so what's a bad opinion

07:55:30.780 our opinions about various things and again right but like i'm asking based off your experience we're

07:55:36.220 having a conversation about generalities like i could just if if you're having a conversation with

07:55:41.340 somebody and you can always point to like some exception to the rule it's not really productive

07:55:46.060 okay and i've said this is my personal opinion i've also stated generally do i think it's like

07:55:52.700 that no i've said that multiple times right but so with the body count thing you're saying well like

07:55:56.300 as a guy if you have a high body count but you desire women with low body count that's like 0.70

07:56:01.180 hypocritical or not acceptable it's not about desire it's about requirement if you require a female

07:56:08.300 yeah what's wrong with that then why didn't you have a low body count i i don't see how it's even

07:56:15.020 hypocritical i think it is okay i mean so just to be clear so everything when it comes to what you

07:56:23.660 desire in a partner you too must possess it otherwise i'm specifically talking currently 0.87

07:56:28.860 about body okay so all women who want men to pay for dates are hypocrites because they wouldn't do it 1.00

07:56:33.500 themselves i do it myself that's cool but we're talking about women who their standard is they want 1.00

07:56:39.900 men to pay for first dates are they hypocrites because they don't want to pay for the first date

07:56:45.580 or is this an asymmet asymmetrical expectation that cannot be reciprocated due to the asymmetry of the

07:56:54.300 standard if a woman wants to follow in line with let's let's even go as far as to say traditional 1.00

07:57:00.460 male female gender roles um and a woman requires a man to perform those gender roles let's say paying for 1.00

07:57:08.140 the date is one of them and it is a genuine requirement not a preference anything like

07:57:13.180 that is a requirement then the woman should have no problem too with also being in that gender role 1.00

07:57:20.940 too wait so the woman with the traditional gender role should not of men paying for first dates 1.00

07:57:27.740 she should also be in the male traditional gender role no women who require men to perform their 1.00

07:57:33.660 traditional gender role should be with men who want the woman to be in their traditional gender 0.99

07:57:37.900 role too that's how it is but that's asymmetrical no that's equal not they want the men to be in

07:57:45.740 their traditional gender role so they should have a man that wants a woman in their traditional gender 1.00

07:57:49.340 role that's that is the same that's exactly the same right but there wouldn't be like a it's not

07:57:54.940 the same thing there's a difference no there's not i just stated the same exact thing but said man what

07:58:00.780 yeah but the traditional gender roles themselves are different you have to concede that okay but

07:58:06.460 we're talking about the generality of it are we not that's what you just said i mean i suppose i see

07:58:12.140 what you're doing we're talking about generality if you're saying a man who desires a traditional woman

07:58:18.540 uh the she would be desiring a traditional man that's still asymmetry should 1.00

07:58:27.580 right but then the actual entailment of those traditional gender roles are still different

07:58:33.900 and asymmetrical we're talking about generality

07:58:40.700 you brought up generality non-specific so if we're talking about generality that is the case look i'll

07:58:45.340 just look when it comes to this when it comes to the body count thing and you saying well it's wrong

07:58:49.900 for a guy with high body count to want to desire or perhaps to even exclusively date women with a low

07:58:57.100 body count or who's a virgin i don't think it's hypocritical i don't think it's wrong just because

07:59:02.060 this is just the nature of dating men and women don't have like perfectly symmetrical expectations

07:59:08.140 and desires and partners for example like women typically don't approach men they want the man to 0.99

07:59:14.460 make the first move it would not be hypocritical for the woman to be like oh i don't want to make the 1.00

07:59:19.260 first move but they expect the man to make like to make the first move does that make sense

07:59:26.940 then they should date a man who likes to make the first move that's the same exact guy who has a high

07:59:32.460 body count can go ahead and date a low body count woman i'm not saying they can't i'm saying to make 1.00

07:59:36.940 it a requirement to specifically seek that out is weird what why because it shouldn't matter it clearly

07:59:43.660 didn't matter to the guy when he was racking up the body counts so it shouldn't matter to him that

07:59:48.780 a female has them as well well he's made a determination he we all want to get the best

07:59:53.660 that we can get in the partner and he's come to the conclusion after his his extensive experience that

07:59:58.700 women who uh who are don't display sexual promiscuity actually tend to make for better partners and for 1.00

08:00:05.660 this reason he's making just like a logical determination that despite my past conduct i determine that women who have

08:00:13.340 a low body count or who are virgins are going to make for a better long-term partner ergo i'm going

08:00:18.780 to pick the best option that i can get that in and of itself is rude and hypocrisy as well how is that

08:00:23.660 hypocritical if we're going by the line that oh well if you have lower let's make that assumption if you

08:00:29.180 have lower that means you're going to be a better partner or long-term partner and you have to

08:00:34.220 experience things and try out your options whatever you worded it then females should be doing the same 1.00

08:00:42.700 thing and they can't paint it as a bad thing then that no i'm not i'm not advocating for male

08:00:49.580 promiscuity i'm saying he happens to have a high body count okay and and this isn't central this isn't

08:00:57.420 core to the argument but because of actually his experience he has he has actually come to a

08:01:02.780 determination that actually when it comes to like long-term relationships women who uh have low 1.00

08:01:08.780 body counts make for better romantic partners then i would say that in that case men with lower

08:01:14.300 body counts make for better partners and that woman should not date him 1.00

08:01:19.500 i mean that's up to her determination but it occurs to me that there's also an asymmetry

08:01:23.580 insofar as men have a much greater issue when it comes to female promiscuity than the reverse

08:01:29.500 i would not agree with that but i'm not going to talk on that you would you disagree with that i

08:01:36.460 disagree but i'm not going to talk on that firm decision oh why just curious firm decision is it

08:01:43.420 triggering for you no talk about body count firm decision i talked about body counts i'm talking

08:01:49.820 about promiscuity and stuff like that no i don't really care about that okay uh well going around the

08:01:55.820 table those of you i lie you said body count whatever shouldn't matter not a big deal um

08:01:59.740 going around the table what's your body count starting with pos go ahead oh i feel like most

08:02:03.180 people already know this though uh but there's new viewers there's new people at the table go ahead

08:02:08.860 range between like 50 whatever 50 to 60 yeah okay um since your last appearance how's the

08:02:16.940 how many bodies um i've been up two two bodies since last time okay i'm just and you're um 21

08:02:25.660 right yeah 21 like have you like thought about like just i'm just curious the math or whatever

08:02:30.700 like um like by the time you're 30 like what what do you think though like is it gonna be like

08:02:37.900 100 plus you think by 30 no i think right now i'm just like slowing down a little bit more picky

08:02:43.900 yeah okay but before i was more like i did not want to like not be with multiple guys at once

08:02:52.540 um to like the point where like once i threw a party and i had like every guy i was talking to

08:02:58.300 show up and everyone i had everyone like wear the same color so i knew who they were

08:03:02.460 go to each one of them be like ah wait you did this yeah wait you invited all the guys you hooked up

08:03:10.700 with yeah just all at once i can just like get it over wait you did this meet everyone yeah i had

08:03:15.260 everyone who wore the same color so i knew who they were pink wait you actually did this did you

08:03:23.100 say this on the last show i don't think so i don't know how many men showed up um i only invited seven

08:03:30.460 wait so seven dude was there an orgy afterwards or no so you invited seven dudes who were all had

08:03:36.860 carnal knowledge of you and they all wore pink and then they just like had a bro sesh and

08:03:42.300 kicked it yeah i don't think anyone like actually knew about it because i always throw like themed

08:03:48.540 parties so it wasn't odd for me to like tell people like dress code or whatnot so but you only told the

08:03:54.460 dudes that you hooked up with to wear pink yeah everyone else could wear something else yeah like

08:03:59.900 a different theme to like um the party i had and did they know no i mean they probably know now if you're

08:04:06.700 saying that's wild that's crazy pause what the hell all right i'm gonna let the roasts come in

08:04:13.420 um and then we're gonna hopefully wrap up here um there's quite a few so um yeah we'll get to it

08:04:20.380 thank you vector vector donated twenty dollars brian i think chair five is sitting in the same chair as

08:04:26.620 the woman that said she could beat up brock lesnar dot the chair is pretty woke best take a blow torch to 1.00

08:04:32.940 it i am offended by that chair uh yeah blow torch good vector donated twenty dollars the environment

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08:05:17.340 is next level wow fyi the u.s women's soccer team got thrashed by a bunch of under 15 boys yeah

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08:05:35.260 guild i like video games okay w i'll get you set up we'll play world of warcraft with you snap

08:05:42.140 more donated 19 and 99 cents seat five when your world view gets challenged don't shy away and hide

08:05:50.140 behind your escape goats such as this isn't dating and but from my experience your anecdotal scenarios

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08:06:05.900 holy shit brian can you believe chair number four's mother reproduced eleven retards like 1.00

08:06:11.260 her it's amazing most of these girls love to argue about things they know nothing about camilla's daughter 0.99

08:06:18.060 in chair seven big guarantee be donated twenty dollars girl with glasses if you're broke then 0.57

08:06:26.300 you shouldn't demand a man to pay for anything for you or criticize him for being broke yeah i mean

08:06:32.140 really quick just on that like when it comes to the double standards or hypocrisy like for example

08:06:37.740 plenty of women who have no status want to date high status men like plenty of women who are nobodies 0.99

08:06:43.180 would jump at the chance of dating an a-list celebrity a professional athlete a famous

08:06:47.660 musician i bet you all have a celebrity crush it wouldn't be like i don't think there's a asymmetry

08:06:54.620 it doesn't mean you're a hypocrite if like you as a woman who's a nobody wants to date a really hot 0.99

08:07:03.180 attractive male celebrity that doesn't make you a hypocrite it's fine to want it you shouldn't expect that

08:07:10.220 as a requirement that's all i've said you can want anything you want even i don't even think

08:07:18.140 even if you expect it i don't think it makes you a hypocrite whether you can get it or not is a

08:07:23.660 different thing whether you can get it or not is a different thing but uh i mean look it's like

08:07:30.140 how many like i would a woman who makes forty thousand dollars a year if she followed your 1.00

08:07:35.980 worldview is she supposed to turn down a billionaire otherwise she's a hypocrite heaven forbid she'd be 1.00

08:07:42.140 a hypocrite i said that they can want it they can pass on a billionaire you're gonna pass on that 0.99

08:07:50.380 you're gonna pass on are you a billionaire i just would you date a billionaire i just stated would you 0.98

08:07:55.740 date a billionaire i just stated answer the question i'm not answering the question like

08:07:59.980 would you date a billionaire and i'm trying to answer okay go ahead i stated again many many many

08:08:06.540 many times at this point clearly you're not properly listening um i have stated that i

08:08:13.020 you've stated many times yes i expect someone to have the same things as me i do not require

08:08:20.380 yeah i don't even think i claimed require though okay but you your position was to even desire or want

08:08:27.340 no i specifically said you can desire and want all you want you cannot expect it as a requirement

08:08:33.660 that is explicitly what i've said this entire time i don't even see it so you're saying a guy who

08:08:38.220 refuses to date women with high body counts but he has a high body count himself and he's like here's

08:08:43.180 my standard i only want to date low body count women or virgins that's hypocritical it's not 1.00

08:08:48.380 hypocritical it is i disagree look up hypocrisy please would it be hypocritical for a woman who does 1.00

08:08:54.380 not have a penis to only want to date people with penises that's she doesn't have a penis she these 1.00

08:09:02.460 all you women here who are straight you hypocrites you'll only i mean maybe some of you are bi or 1.00

08:09:07.740 whatever i don't fucking you hypocrites you women and your attraction to male genitalia it is 1.00

08:09:14.700 disgusting i am disgusted by all of you right now how dare you desire a male with a penis if you don't 1.00

08:09:21.980 possess a penis yourself i'll allow if you have a big clit you get the pass though 1.00

08:09:28.060 i'll allow and big labia big labia if you have a large labia i only date women with large labia 1.00

08:09:33.500 um you also i guess you are also not a hypocrite if you desire a man with a penis but if you have a 0.99

08:09:41.260 small labia and any as they're called not an audi and any or you have a small clit you cannot desire 1.00

08:09:47.260 man with a penis you can date a man with a micro penis i'll allow i'll allow it anybody here into 0.99

08:09:55.340 micro penises good talk that was good thanks guys marlin gonzalez donated twenty dollars fifth girl in 0.99

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08:10:11.180 and didn't take them to court and go to a real doctor we were kids

08:10:19.580 jack underscore m donated twenty dollars chair number five you lost the battle and you're sore about

08:10:26.060 it number seven i will make sure you never are in or i'm in brian i know you want a gf to do the chores

08:10:34.220 but take this trash out realize a network donated twenty dollars how can these girls even take 1.00

08:10:41.980 themselves seriously when none of them know the difference between woman and women what does 0.99

08:10:47.260 plural mean higher body counts than iq met griffin in chair five bs stories oh wait we were doing body

08:10:56.220 count right pause your body count is what 60 something like something like 60 okay uh going around the

08:11:05.020 table body count can we do a range yeah sure okay mine's in between zero and five okay so four

08:11:14.780 around there or five okay all right cena three okay lexi i have you have to you have to

08:11:23.900 i'll get uh yeah you have to okay two okay cool chloe simply those i've dated

08:11:33.900 huh simply those i've dated huh so if you were to add those up in a calculator not answering if you

08:11:40.700 were to add those up in the calculator plus not answering is it over a hundred no it's under five

08:11:48.620 it's over nine thousand under five yeah that's fair i'll accept that ellen hold on ellen you got

08:11:55.020 to do us a solid here okay you've been you've been uh omitting all night you got to come in on the

08:12:00.460 body count question but this is a private question ellen bro this is definitely a ellen i've been i've been

08:12:06.140 i've been so generous all night and i appreciate your generosity ellen just it was it like one

08:12:12.060 two come on it's very very i just think it's like it's very low that's it boys it's it's like three

08:12:19.900 or less i just think it's private information that shouldn't be publicized i think it's public

08:12:25.980 information that should be publicized in various newspapers i have connections with the new york times

08:12:35.260 the atlantic washington post i will publish it in print if you'd like me to i would not like it i

08:12:43.260 would not like to disclose i'm just kidding it's just on the whatever i don't have any connections

08:12:47.100 with any of these journals scientific america can i publish it there sorry

08:12:57.500 range will you do a range do me a solid ellen hook be a homie are you my homie 0.58

08:13:02.620 are we homies um i think you're really kind wait really you're not she's just saying i think

08:13:12.940 you're a kind person for being so generous for letting me um you know like skip over questions 0.98

08:13:19.180 if i don't feel really fuck the fuck this guy ellen range do me a solid ellen do me a solid range 1.00

08:13:27.820 zero to five beautiful okay what about you i don't want to answer two reasons two reasons 0.99

08:13:34.380 one because my family might watch me and they're like kind of religious two i think i um have chose

08:13:41.420 to answer most of the questions so i i just want a fair pass on this one all right how about range

08:13:46.060 will you do range no because i answered like 90 of the questions what's up what is it i honestly don't

08:13:53.020 know i stopped i'm 26 i stopped counting you're 26 i'm go yeah oh okay uh more than do you want to

08:14:00.140 do range like 30 to 40 yeah is that fair 34 50 50 maybe like 100 100 plus no it's like 100 it's okay

08:14:09.500 it's cool here i'm gonna write it down a hundred plus it's it's official no no i mean there's only

08:14:15.100 like two i'm a lefty by the way so it's a it's also more official because i'm left-handed uh tiffany

08:14:20.380 zero all right cool tiffany rock and roll i'm proud of you i guess wait you have a boyfriend

08:14:25.980 though you guys they are waiting for marriage ah yeah i'm christian uh she's a christian and she

08:14:33.260 also is a connie fan big connie fan so that has everything to do with her virginity uh whatever 0.99

08:14:39.500 the answers are multiply it by three and that's the real number for all of you um ellen if i give you a

08:14:45.820 two dollar bill will you answer same this offer is extended to you and chloe i what did chloe two 1.00

08:14:54.540 dollar bill do you know how much this is worth ellen i actually used to collect two dollar bills so i

08:14:59.020 have a plethora of them at home this is a crisp one though no but mine's like brand new

08:15:04.140 mines are this is brand new no but i would like to keep my private matters private personal two dollar

08:15:12.140 bill you have a collection of two dollar bills also no all right thank you all right hey some

08:15:17.660 things can't be bought for everything else there's the mastercard okay um more chats the 0.98

08:15:24.540 fuck bro by the way this is the row session row session to 21 dollars five is literally the lowest 0.98

08:15:32.540 iq to have ever been on here that's me i have opinions are different seven is just a notch below 0.99

08:15:38.780 the mental inability chair four has been the most honest this episode has been awful thank you bro i

08:15:46.060 appreciate the awful episode i disagree i thought it was good i thought it was it was okay would he

08:15:52.940 donated twenty dollars chair five with the lived out grandma glasses what is your prescription or is it

08:15:59.580 a claim to marginalization because you're a white woman yeah do you have lenses she actually do we have 0.99

08:16:05.340 the eye patch video uh photo damien did we get an eye patch on her in the discord in the research i 0.98

08:16:11.260 think in the research tab or whatever oh damn bro okay shit dariel underscore frank castle 512 donated 0.99

08:16:19.340 twenty dollars funny how ellen can criticize men but can't tell the idiot next to her she's wrong 1.00

08:16:25.820 i'm for the draft with this generation they need to be eliminated so we can start from a clean slate 0.99

08:16:31.500 it's a row session you know we're doing a row session guys and you know they're gonna roast 0.98

08:16:35.980 lol paladins donated twenty dollars thank you guys i have a body count of 500 and i only have sex with 0.99

08:16:42.380 virgins definitely not interested in anyone on this panel boo roasted damn that's crazy lol paladins 1.00

08:16:51.100 and that guy's like a pumper too like that guy he's killing it in season of discovery 0.97

08:16:55.180 yeah like he's really good like he pumps like he parses like he's sweaty with it too like full

08:17:02.620 consumes full world buffs like 300 engineering like he's sweaty good talk um all right we have

08:17:10.060 michael jones with the hundred dollar super chat so ladies thank you all for being here look if a

08:17:13.500 madman ran into the whatever podcast right now you would all expect brian to get up and intervene

08:17:18.460 protect you all why it's because that's what men do throughout history that's what men have always

08:17:23.980 done thank you michael jones i know it took us a while to get to the super chat but uh i do

08:17:29.580 appreciate your super chat i don't know if you're still in the chat but thank you for the uh super

08:17:32.380 man super chat appreciate it uh we have dragon's talon a woman's probability of divorce with seven 0.93

08:17:38.860 years is 76 if you had more than 10 male partners why would a man want to take a chance on you

08:17:44.460 question for the ages dragon's talon thank you for a dope name bro thank you for the uh super chat man

08:17:54.300 really appreciate it thank you thank you more roasts coming through gmd jim donated 20 well played

08:18:01.900 brixton the cognitive dissonance level was off the chart today have you ever considered a panel of all

08:18:08.300 primates to see if you can get a higher level of intellectual honesty um you know what i do want

08:18:13.980 to get a panel of all uh maybe not all because this can be hard but like female incels fem fem cells 1.00

08:18:21.580 if there's any fem cells watching any female incels not fem cells female incels because like fem cell 1.00

08:18:27.900 there's all kind of language tricks being played if you're a female incel i want to hear from you i want 1.00

08:18:33.180 to have you on the show it's it's i don't even think that's a thing but just for the sale if you

08:18:37.500 will self id as a female incel i'd like to hear from you uh let's see we have um really quick to those

08:18:48.620 who said bear would you guys be willing to i'll get we'll film it i'll have a cage with a man and then

08:18:57.500 a cage with a bear i will pay you ten thousand dollars to get in the cage with the bear for 10 0.98

08:19:04.060 minutes what kind of bear uh it will be there will be uh a we will roll a dice or some shit proportionate 0.88

08:19:17.660 to the amount of bears that are in the united states we will we will uh roll a dice and proportionate to 0.93

08:19:23.900 the amount of bears there are you know it could be a grizzly it could be a black bear it could be a

08:19:28.700 brown bear random bear and then we'll select a random man who's geographically located in this area

08:19:35.020 in california in california geographically located and then there's you'll be presented with the option

08:19:40.540 you can go in the cage with the man or the cage with the bear for 10 minutes and i will pay you ten

08:19:49.420 thousand dollars to go in the cage with the bear for 10 minutes for the man you'd get a hamburger

08:19:56.300 if you do that i mean at least you get something so there's there's more incentive to pick the bear

08:20:02.700 not just your fear of men down down so i'll i'll pay you ten thousand dollars all right let's set it up to 0.99

08:20:11.660 fucking kick it in a cage with the bear yeah and chloe you'll do it it's fun sounding y'all crazy bro 0.99

08:20:18.460 y'all crazy son that's crazy dude daniel nostri donated twenty dollars sorry they're gonna roast 1.00

08:20:23.900 the level of retardation in this room is outstanding oh i have never heard so much misinformation and 1.00

08:20:30.220 disinformation in my life your usefulness to this nation is null along with your us that's crazy

08:20:37.740 that's crazy thank you man it's so donated twenty dollars yo thank you man saying hi from algeria

08:20:45.100 big fan of the show appreciate it bro i got family or i had family i had family from algeria

08:20:54.220 back in the day smaxi jelly donated twenty dollars thank you man the only b word you should call these

08:21:01.420 women are beautiful because btchs love when you call them beautiful you can't expect a wifey treatment 1.00

08:21:07.900 if you don't give husband treatment oh in donated twenty dollars chair six complaining about this

08:21:17.500 podcast talking politics have you not seen the forby and other tick tocks where lives dump cons in

08:21:23.260 response to trump's re-election proves that politics and dating are linked it is maybe among

08:21:29.900 a donated twenty dollars if a bear wants to eat you it doesn't kill you quickly first a bear will

08:21:36.700 start eating you alive right away and it will take you many agonizing minutes to bleed out use wisely

08:21:43.020 your power of choice sean davis donated twenty dollars hey brian hello from new zealand again what a

08:21:52.780 beautiful panel of girls i have really enjoyed the show fyi i am well off financially 0.83

08:21:59.740 and cannot find a woman that is not so self-absorbed damn sorry to hear man 0.98

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08:22:24.700 five tiffany five oh was that a rating yeah that was the rating your mani pacquiao i didn't miss i

08:22:32.460 missed it yeah i was confused isn't he philippine jack underscore m donated twenty dollars and you're

08:22:38.620 a tie right number five how are babies made disturbed this is for you do you remember what

08:22:44.620 oh okay uh oh boy they're really coming for you oh boy random bear random bear just my personal

08:22:56.620 opinion you chair five r a blank weird al called and wants his hair come back w bergson for putting up

08:23:04.220 this on idiocracy look she was good she was good um uh can we pull the the bear meme damian can you pull 0.55

08:23:14.940 up the bear meme

08:23:19.820 term i at ops for donated twenty dollars chair one i'd like to watch the movie the ring where you're the 0.73

08:23:25.900 girl that comes out of the well chair five your crazy leftist upside down views are broken and nonsensical

08:23:33.180 reality does not bend to feelings can you put your do you know the ring yeah can you just do your 0.82

08:23:38.300 hair like that right now it's the end of the show so it's like we're about to wrap so it's like 0.99

08:23:42.300 fuck it you know holy shit i'm kind of freaked out no more more more more more yeah get that straight 0.97

08:23:48.460 get that straight in the front okay is it straight i can't see wait can you do it too me yeah 1.00

08:23:55.500 it's the end of the show right fuck it might as well right i have bangs you know i can 0.99

08:24:00.140 fuck it damn wait every girl at the table can you do the ring hair lexi come on lexi come on bro 1.00

08:24:07.260 she is blonde i feel like it's gotta be darker hair you know i think my hair is tight boss let's see it 1.00

08:24:12.780 just do like a damn sketch like emo ellen hook it up ellen come on we're homies now you got a 1.00

08:24:19.900 ellen ring hair what even is ring hair uh the ring have you you know the horror movie oh it's like the 0.99

08:24:27.580 she has her hair like so just go like this with your hair and just like pull it directly no you're 1.00

08:24:33.980 totally but my hair is not straight like their hair is like straight so okay fine it's a wavy ring

08:24:39.020 girl oh come on full send full sending ellen full send it keep going just get that

08:24:46.140 fucking okay i think this is like that's really good i'm kind of terrified right now max i am 0.93

08:24:53.100 it's terror i'm so scared okay daniel nocery donated twenty dollars thank you man you are 1.00

08:24:59.180 useless entitled good for nothing feminist parasites in u.s society being voted out of 1.00

08:25:05.820 office enjoy your misery for the next four years as well as your woke coke panic and feminism's death 1.00

08:25:12.140 chill out guys chill out holy five chair is an idiot donated twenty dollars first didn't she say a 1.00

08:25:19.020 woman that doesn't exist exists wouldn't that mean all those things that don't exist exist 1.00

08:25:26.060 second her personal experience equals bananas she's bananas i said it brett cooper's daddy donated

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08:25:42.220 hollo at me cherry who's that is that you what's up oh what's up josh donated twenty dollars trying

08:25:51.180 to be a stepfather how do you sit there and not correct these bimbos as they say don't use that 1.00

08:25:57.100 they are not it's unreal they can't even refer to their own gender properly it's torture to listen 0.99

08:26:02.940 to look you know uh in not wrong underscore on underscore x donated twenty one dollars 0.89

08:26:10.060 chair four has too many bodies most of you are actually retarded number nine is fine and semi-smart 0.98

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08:26:43.340 coming for you you guys gotta fire back donated twenty dollars come on chloe fire five you said you 0.97

08:26:48.620 wanted to be a mom via artificial insemination you should use a trans man's sperm if arto please 1.00

08:26:55.740 don't procreate for chloe donated twenty dollars fire back chloe a micro penis is just an a cup 0.99

08:27:03.820 all are welcome here in whatever first off i just want to come to the defense of i am part of the small 0.99

08:27:11.180 titty committee i think it's wrong the the bigotry that the attacks of the women with the small

08:27:18.380 boobs get is really unfair i'm against it i am in solidarity i am with you guys who have small 0.97

08:27:27.340 boobs i'm on your uh i am a ally i don't actually i've gained a bit of weight so i actually kind of 0.87

08:27:35.180 like it's not just i'm an ally i actually i got a dab all right i'm kind of like i gotta lose a bit 0.73

08:27:40.380 of weight you know so i i also i know what it's like to have small boobs okay good talk uh you know

08:27:47.340 look i gotta lose some weight it is what it is you know um but i think it's wrong that they be

08:27:54.700 coming for you guys sometimes you know if like you got pasta i'm not it's not because i'm looking 0.86

08:27:58.700 i'm not looking at you i'm just saying like women with small boobs like you know i'd rather have like 1.00

08:28:04.220 small perky boobs than like big saggy boobs like so some like knee slapper yeah like you walk and you 0.97

08:28:11.420 can like hear it like here's what's crazy i i got i i upset a girl a previous show because i was like 0.91

08:28:18.060 i feel like i'm even gonna upset the small boob girls if i like okay so i think there's like 0.85

08:28:23.820 something kind of elegant about small titties you know what i mean i agree because being skinny is 0.98

08:28:29.820 class i wasn't going there i was just like why do you think does anybody here have fake titties do you 0.98

08:28:35.980 have i don't you don't no fake titties okay anybody unfortunately not look i'm just saying 0.99

08:28:40.780 like you look at greek and roman sculptures they didn't have like giant fucking cam crusher titties 0.99

08:28:47.980 on like greek and roman skull like they were very modest like b cup a cup 0.96

08:28:55.660 i'm just saying the greeks were on to something you know what i mean

08:28:58.620 okay good talk uh let's see we have submersible honky donated twenty dollars chair one would you

08:29:09.100 please say the following the night is dark and full of terrors

08:29:14.940 oh it's not weird it's game of thrones it's not a weird thing yeah it's just game of thrones it's not

08:29:18.940 like weird what is it then the night is dark and full of terrors the night is dark and full of

08:29:25.180 terrors wow that was great good job good job melisandra character from the uh show any game

08:29:31.420 of thrones people here you guys are missing out although well not really because the end sucked so

08:29:37.900 zayim two oh one two nine nine donated twenty dollars thank you man appreciate it hi brian

08:29:43.260 big fan of the show been watching for a while and enjoy the podcast appreciate the work yourself

08:29:49.500 and the whatever team do to bring us the great content thank you zayim thank you thank you

08:29:55.180 vector donated twenty dollars chair five have you ever misgendered someone who identifies as

08:30:01.340 gender fluid my sprinkler goes like this and comes back like this oh whoa that was new 0.99

08:30:12.700 chair five please don't kids donated twenty dollars chair five did you eat a lot of paint chips as a 0.99

08:30:18.940 kid shoot back fire back chloe go ahead fire back call him a a dork or something 0.94

08:30:28.620 okay all right just trying to help you know all right oh my god daniel nosseri donated twenty 0.99

08:30:35.100 dollars brian you need to be handed a medal for listening to this level of unrelentless garbage 0.98

08:30:40.940 thank you retarded south korean race traitors you just gave brian enough viral clips to last twenty 1.00

08:30:48.460 twenty twenty five wait lol paladins donated twenty dollars is that about me i need to hear what michael 1.00

08:30:55.020 knows just who is an old simp and also stupid said about andrew wilson uh andrew's gonna address it 0.63

08:31:02.300 on tuesday's show he'll address it on tuesday's show the affirmed fellow donated twenty dollars 0.98

08:31:09.020 chair five could have told us she woke up this morning thinking she was john lennon and we would

08:31:13.660 have believed her before her gender argument he had a really good song john lennon imagine

08:31:21.580 do you want to you're a singer can you sing imagine no thank you okay 0.99

08:31:25.180 lol paladins donated twenty dollars brixton you are a liar you say you're a member of the itty 0.74

08:31:33.500 bitty committee i am but in reality you always put the girls that get the views in seat number one 1.00

08:31:39.180 don't deny reality like your panelists i put the girl with the color hair in seat one not because of 1.00

08:31:48.780 boobs you are wrong sir it has nothing to do with boobs has everything to do with hair color 1.00

08:31:55.820 you are mistaken lol paladins rude thor donated twenty dollars this panel guest is so boring tonight 0.98

08:32:04.140 they probably give unenthusiastic hand jobs chair one can i get that surprising bj with that black 1.00

08:32:10.540 lipstick what the fuck thor what the fuck um also like d as a guy do you even want an enthusiastic hand job 0.99

08:32:21.740 you know like if a girl was like let's say i was like i i went out with a girl right i went out with 1.00

08:32:30.140 a girl and she was like look i don't really want to like do oral i don't want to do it but like i'll 0.97

08:32:34.940 give you a hand job i would just be like i'm good we can just kick it we can just talk you know i'd turn 0.98

08:32:43.420 down i'd be like nah chill out lady there definitely is something different like with giving someone a 0.88

08:32:50.540 hand job versus like putting your mouth on it because like i don't know i feel like a lot of

08:32:55.180 people like actually from like the like my guy friends are like everyone always forgets to like take

08:33:00.700 off their rings or like oh you know all of this even if there are no ornaments on your hand 0.97

08:33:07.580 even if it's totally good and well i guess with the mouth you can like suck one time i was dating 0.98

08:33:15.820 this girl and she played lacrosse 0.98

08:33:21.260 and i was hooking up with her and it was dark and she just giving me a hand job 0.99

08:33:26.700 oh was it like the rough hands it felt like a dude oh like i was like damn it was calluses yeah it 0.99

08:33:33.020 was like okay rough son i was like what the fuck well then don't and i was like starting to question 0.97

08:33:37.740 myself like am i kind of gay i was starting to think am i gay oh well because i was like kind of 0.97

08:33:44.060 you know it was like it i was like it was conflicting because it like felt good it was still like it was

08:33:49.180 still a hand job so it still sucked but you know like whatever but she had like she played lacrosse and 1.00

08:33:54.860 she was a babe you know but like it was dark and she had like calluses and shit she used like lotion or 1.00

08:34:01.820 like spit or like was it just like dry it's tmi i'm not that kind of reveal these details but like 0.98

08:34:11.100 i don't know ladies just like from a guy who will you can ask me anything i'll be honest with you i'm

08:34:15.580 not going to sugarcoat it because i like a lot of guys you got to think right here i'm going to give

08:34:20.540 you girls some game guys will say what you want to hear so they have a better chance of having sex with 1.00

08:34:26.700 you they will lie they will cheat they will steal because they want to get you know they want to get

08:34:33.420 you i don't think this is good they shouldn't do it i believe in honesty even if it risks offending

08:34:39.420 somebody uh just like don't do the hand job thing you know just like cut that out just

08:34:46.300 be like you know go you can't be half a gangster you either okay but what if you're giving head but

08:34:54.060 also using your hands at the same time that's that's advised yeah okay that's because it's like

08:35:01.100 combo points but no on its own no just don't even do it to be honest chat what do you guys think i

08:35:07.180 mean i'd rather just i'd rather just go home don't even do that what about the feet

08:35:14.380 foot job what the foot i'm just bringing it up because it's like a normal thing i don't know if the

08:35:19.180 boot changes anything i'd have to think about it if there's a boot nah probably foot what the 0.95

08:35:25.020 fuck some people are into that it just wouldn't okay no don't do that okay uh we have more coming 0.64

08:35:34.140 through there's a bunch dariel underscore frank castle 512 donated 20 dollars jess evan won't 0.99

08:35:41.660 say her body count cause she's ashamed especially coming from a religious family scary how she's in 0.99

08:35:47.500 the medical field and can't tell you what a female's it hashtag dip author 1.00

08:35:52.380 i don't really know what that has to do with me performing in the medical field libertariat

08:36:02.940 donated 20 dollars brixton is a man of culture boo boo in chair number one is based and of culture w

08:36:10.300 thank you man appreciate it thank you libertariat we have some more coming through

08:36:15.020 about booze coma donated 20 dollars thank you man appreciate it question for chloe would an ob-gyn

08:36:22.300 ever suggest a trans woman get a hysterectomy

08:36:28.380 i'm not an ob-gyn you're not dariel underscore frank castle 512 donated 20 dollars this is the

08:36:37.820 quietest chair five has been all night finally i thought chair one was a trans mannequin at first glance

08:36:45.020 never invite chair three and six again brian waste of oxygen in that room

08:36:52.220 first off they both have very small frames the oxygen was not substantially depleted due to chair

08:36:57.980 three and chair six uh i thought lexi and ellen really you guys talked too much to be honest

08:37:07.100 you think so i think you guys especially you lexi i mean i couldn't get you to shut up the whole show

08:37:12.460 oh and you ellen well you were just no i was yapping right you were yapping you were a professional

08:37:18.780 yap yapper or whatever it is and um so okay thank you uh we got derson all thank you derson all donated

08:37:25.740 twenty dollars these girls want you to risk your life for them but they can't even be honest to answer 1.00

08:37:31.660 obvious questions and chose a bear also if the good die young and women live longer than men are women 0.99

08:37:38.620 good damn that was like some shakespeare shit that was crazy um i can't okay 0.99

08:37:46.220 daniel nostri donated twenty dollars chair one has some big old nice as well as strong titties 1.00

08:37:52.940 i suspect she combusts in sunlight and has fangs are you a vampire i get called that all the time 0.97

08:37:59.980 and i love it yeah i think that's hot okay that's hot um also aren't you like a contortionist is the

08:38:08.540 word yeah i am yeah can you show us something or is it's not wardrobe no appropriate right do you want

08:38:17.260 to like throw on like a t-shirt or something and you could do like that crazy i saw your instagram bro

08:38:21.900 oh you saw that would you do would you do it on like the table or some shit i could do that but i 0.92

08:38:26.380 couldn't do it in this no yeah well we don't want like a titty popping out like a t-shirt um do you 0.94

08:38:31.980 want a smash the patriarchy t-shirt or do you want a kamala harris 2024 t-shirt that's all i have to

08:38:38.220 give you oh i don't know you gotta pick one those are good options that's all you've got really i don't

08:38:47.020 care you'll you'll let me pick yeah okay based patriarchy wins again uh okay wait uh hold on we got

08:38:55.100 more coming we'll do that at the end though cornelius butt knuckle donated twenty dollars 1.00

08:39:01.020 these guys are crazy five i don't think you're stupid but you're very ignorant to the world around 1.00

08:39:05.980 you you need to get out more and do some people watching brian how the orangutan titties doing 1.00

08:39:14.460 first off i've lost five pounds i'm on that look i'm on a diet i've gained a bit of weight but i'm

08:39:19.660 gonna lose it in fact you know listen i used to be very trim in my when i was younger i was very fit

08:39:25.820 damien why don't you pull it up to instagram just so they don't believe me but you know 0.97

08:39:30.540 i was uh you know i wasn't too bad in my younger days uh jackum said god damn bro y'all jack underscore 0.98

08:39:37.660 m donated twenty dollars chair number five if chair number one gave me a blow and her lipstick rubbed off 1.00

08:39:44.300 on my d does that mean i can claim my d as black now the color matches the size

08:39:49.980 kitten bear donated twenty dollars i feel bad for the soy boy chair one pegged but hey chair

08:39:58.060 one's a straight up pegasus everyone who's seen the pegasus say yay

08:40:02.700 word josh donated twenty dollars brian remember this that feeling you had as you watched nala's

08:40:13.420 husband call out andrew for his anti-christian swearing and name calling behavior that was you 0.95

08:40:19.340 hearing and feeling the truth oh okay donated twenty dollars you should just kick girls like chair five 1.00

08:40:27.740 or femo they clearly don't believe in anything they are saying and are just here to disagree with

08:40:33.340 everything you say and push an agenda boring to see you're like really popular right now libertariat

08:40:39.580 donated twenty dollars the thing is number one with the vanta black lipstick copyright strike incoming

08:40:47.900 the thing is i made a decision when i was going to come on here that

08:40:53.900 daniel nostri donated twenty dollars for the love of god please put a t-shirt on chair one and get

08:41:00.220 her to contort on the table and they are very rage bait and argumentative that if that's the way it 1.00

08:41:05.340 headed towards i was going to just rage bait just as much so like sexy jelly donated twenty dollars 0.78

08:41:11.340 chair one and nine is actually based and beautiful if they're doing stuff to make me mad i'll just do

08:41:16.620 stop with the burritos chair four is cute but body count disqualify her chair five is delusional 1.00

08:41:22.860 sorry to disappoint i had a history do you want like shorts or something yeah

08:41:30.380 uh oh man um hmm i'll see about that one sec toxic podcast donated twenty dollars once again brian 0.87

08:41:43.020 and andrew spew homophobic and misogynist garbage on his religious extremist not dating show brian 0.99

08:41:49.580 would rather bang a trans man so he'd rather look at a dude having sex tell us us uh i'm not 1.00

08:41:57.580 religious though so i don't know i there's certain things about christianity that i find very 0.99

08:42:03.340 compelling uh but i'm not i'm not religious so um i cite i do think there's like uh compelling bible

08:42:11.180 verses that i think are fantastic but yeah i'm not religious so i mean sorry to burst your bubble

08:42:18.780 there buddy uh word okay we're gonna wrap with the super chats we're gonna get these three and i

08:42:26.300 that's it for the i mean uh brian i'm sending you an invoice for 100 my bs detector got fried listening

08:42:33.180 to all the cap on the body counts dragon's town thank you for the uh super chat man appreciate it

08:42:40.140 uh let's be honest if you don't have woman do you mean women like chair five what would you do on the 1.00

08:42:48.940 show i would talk to pos about her sexual adventures

08:42:55.900 and i would talk to cena about how we're gonna annex canada and evade it and i would talk to her about 0.99

08:43:06.780 vampire shit and garlic i don't know uh eberus is chair one single best looking one oh you got some 0.95

08:43:13.900 fans sweet uh are you single i am single how many guys are currently in the picture be honest nothing 0.99

08:43:21.820 there's no guys how long you've been celibate for quite a minute quite a minute i don't know how long

08:43:30.300 exactly i would say like a day no like a month or two a month or two okay cool all right guys thank you

08:43:40.060 for all the super chats thank you for all that once she's back we'll wrap up the show uh guys like the

08:43:45.660 video please if you want you you can get a final last call on these uh practicing gentleman donated

08:43:54.300 twenty dollars chair five you look like gretchen grundler from recess not going to lie though the 1.00

08:44:01.260 glasses are doing it for me too bad you are a fucking moron damn bro chill out man thank you 1.00

08:44:07.420 toxic podcast donated twenty dollars not religious what's your body count i don't reveal my body count 1.00

08:44:15.100 because

08:44:20.060 because yeah double agent donated twenty dollars what's the situation new year's eve live show

08:44:29.340 plans for 2025 taking the show on the road uh sorry hold on let me pause that i'll get to i'll

08:44:37.740 answer that gmd jim donated twenty dollars speaking of that vacuous whole no and her non-christian

08:44:43.900 boyfriend did you ever disavow his on air death threat uh i think i mean i didn't overtly 0.98

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08:44:57.340 and i'm pretty sure uh i mean the thing is sometimes it's best to just like let 0.96

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08:45:12.060 plans for 2025 we'll be back with the podcast there will be a a break uh we're going to be taking a couple

08:45:19.340 weeks off just during the holidays and stuff so uh we'll be back in probably uh some point in january

08:45:26.780 not sure exactly when but there will be a couple weeks off so

08:45:32.140 dariel um i'll pull that back up she's not at the table um hold on there's a couple coming through

08:45:39.420 one sec guys who we're gonna raid who we're gonna raid uh pull up twitch while we're waiting i guess

08:45:43.340 oh hold on vector donated twenty dollars thank you vector black lips you are great

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08:45:59.020 the men aliankovic peculiar human asian sensation crazy train oh he's giving us all who we nicknames

08:46:09.980 kind of i guess uh who's reading who's playing right now we got

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08:46:43.820 vector donated twenty dollars girl gandhi great asian sensation too good stuff dumpy mcbrian

08:46:51.980 lose it sweet okay also guys go to our discord discord.gg slash whatever final call out for the

08:46:56.860 discord guys join join the uh whatever discord we're playing world of warcraft guys join the

08:47:06.220 guild the whatever guild you gotta join gotta join guys we're gonna play she's gonna play with us

08:47:12.540 she's gonna play warlock tiffany's gonna play um a christian nationalist um i don't think that's

08:47:22.780 actually you can't play then uh mr tree work good morning from the east coast bud hope you're doing

08:47:27.180 well yo tree work thank you man appreciate it uh you're up early over even there on the east coast 0.93

08:47:32.220 thank you for the uh sweet chat man appreciate it oh my these guys are on fire holy shit okay uh

08:47:37.740 butter thing for the gifted five subs appreciate it uh daryl i'm pulling yours back up here this is for

08:47:42.460 you if you want to respond daryl underscore frank castle 512 donated 20 dollars chair eight can you

08:47:50.780 please send your abortion clinics info to chair five's mom so that she never produces and more retards in 1.00

08:47:56.940 this world she's clearly the product of ancestry it was planned parenthood daniel nostri donated 20

08:48:05.100 black lips are coagulated blood and not lipstick uh daniel thank you so much for the uh tts man i do

08:48:12.380 appreciate it thank you thank you you have another one coming through christopher scott donated 20

08:48:18.940 dollars so while brian was up chair five basically said she came on to troll we kind of figured lol

08:48:27.020 i don't know do you actually believe it because people can just like try to walk back like the 0.96

08:48:31.500 dumb shit they said i decided that if i came on here and this was in fact a nice little dating podcast 0.98

08:48:38.220 and that's that that's cute that's cool but if this is one of those rage baity more so political ones 1.00

08:48:46.060 then i was just going to act just as rage baiting and dumb as you guys were going to act so i mean 0.99

08:48:52.540 you believe all the shit you said no i don't oh okay so you're like against you're transphobic then 1.00

08:48:58.140 no half of it was the really really absurd shit is bullshit and the other stuff was not okay cool i mean 1.00

08:49:06.700 so i i don't see why why why is it actually like why is it rage bait to have a position on uh it's 0.99

08:49:17.260 more so if you expect to go into something doing one thing and then it's taken a more

08:49:23.500 adverse stance then you know i'm just gonna i just act the way other people i feel are acting yeah but

08:49:31.340 i mean you've been familiar with the podcast for like no i haven't been familiar i mean you reached out

08:49:35.420 to us back in march of 20 i reached out in march and then i stopped yeah sure i followed up i moved

08:49:42.460 away yep i saw a new advertisement i didn't actually even realize it was the same one until probably

08:49:47.820 yesterday no we said you asked what is the podcast and we said it's the whatever podcast which you

08:49:53.260 could have looked up if which i didn't already reached out in march of 2024 when i saw again another

08:49:58.860 casting thing of it i wasn't like oh my god i saw this podcast i really want to be on this podcast i

08:50:05.100 love this podcast right but i saw a casting i applied to it i applied to basically any casting

08:50:10.060 yeah that's cool but like i mean typically at least most people will do like some modicum of like

08:50:14.700 looking into like okay what am i gonna go on like that's on you that's on you i mean i don't know what

08:50:19.260 to tell you if you didn't have 30 minutes to like go look at one of our live shows and like get an

08:50:25.500 assessment of the nature of the podcast and that we have like disagreements and sometimes the

08:50:29.420 conversations can be disagreements or adversarial then i guess that's on you but like there's no

08:50:35.260 bamboozling you reached out originally in march of 2024 you could have like you had plenty of time

08:50:40.220 to do research on the podcast not sure what to tell you never said that cool libertariat donated 20

08:50:48.460 up early we are all up late est master race going into work now

08:50:53.020 uh easter he's talking about living on these coasts is master race um cool thank you man

08:50:59.260 libertarian appreciate it man woolen guinea donated 20 dollars how does a chick get on here i tried the 1.00

08:51:06.140 show zig but yeah i can fly out there from maine whenever uh okay yeah uh did you dm have we responded

08:51:15.740 to you i don't know but if you dm at whatever on instagram we can get you through the casting process

08:51:23.180 um let me see if there's any other last minute things here that we have to do

08:51:27.260 um uh alissa just one point of clarification you said you've never been in a relationship

08:51:32.940 a day in your life but is that just like kind of like a cope thing yeah okay oh all right you're

08:51:37.980 honest about it um let's see if there's anything else um tiffany did you want to weigh in on any of your

08:51:45.580 takes how about just i'll do one just since we're short of time you said only men should make

08:51:51.900 decisions for the family however however in the best interest of his wife and kids and not himself

08:51:57.660 any girls object to this she's saying only men should make decisions for the family 1.00

08:52:04.140 i think that's completely unfair i think women should also like have a say in what they would 0.99

08:52:12.620 like to do as a wife tiffany what's your response

08:52:17.420 you could definitely consult her husband about it but the final decision should be made by the man

08:52:22.140 uh your response pause do you disagree with that the guy the guy should be considerate enough

08:52:28.700 to take in your opinion yeah but you're in a relationship have final say yeah essentially okay

08:52:34.620 i do you agree disagree with that i i think when you're in a relationship there's some sort of like

08:52:40.140 partnership and there isn't one if like you guys can't go 50 50 on like say or like understandings

08:52:49.100 like what if you disagree you're just gonna be like okay well oops my bad

08:52:57.420 i think if you discuss it with your husband you guys would come to some sort of compromise okay so

08:53:04.220 if your boyfriend wanted to do something that you disagree with would you still do it just because he

08:53:09.500 has say i would end up agreeing with him most of the time so you would change your answer your

08:53:15.740 like whole belief just because you're wanting to agree with your boyfriend

08:53:21.660 if he explains his standpoint i think i would eventually come into agreement with him do you

08:53:27.420 have an example of what you would like change your mind and agree with um

08:53:36.700 i can't think of one off the top of my head okay okay um let's see here

08:53:43.660 uh cena i'll get into your notes on tuesday because you're back with us tuesday right so

08:53:49.420 i'll just get into that on uh pause uh we i think we hit pretty much all your notes uh i think the

08:53:56.780 only thing though is um uh you believe the pretty privilege is a thing i guess final thing on this

08:54:05.820 is oh yeah i don't know like um everyone here is pretty so has anyone like ever experienced like

08:54:13.740 going out and you just like get free drinks from someone or you can just like tag along it's like a

08:54:20.780 guy a bar and they'll just like buy you a drink kind of like that so that's kind of what i was talking

08:54:25.740 about um guys can do the same thing except i think when guys do it other like maybe like females or 0.92

08:54:34.700 other guys are a little bit more intimidated by it um because girls don't normally go up to an 1.00

08:54:41.740 attractive guy versus like guys going up to girls like the ratio of that is a lot more high for a

08:54:48.380 guy to walk up to a girl well you said here in your notes you said something about uh you witnessed a 0.97

08:54:53.180 girlfriend of yours she started peeing with half of her ass off the couch of whoever's house we were at 1.00

08:55:00.460 and she was still talking to this guy like it wasn't happening and he doesn't know this because 1.00

08:55:05.100 he was actually blinded by her what her big boobs 1.00

08:55:13.340 so that was just like an example i gave pretty privilege pretty privilege was she could urinate 1.00

08:55:19.180 on herself in public and because of her giant titties the guy who was like looking at anything 0.97

08:55:25.420 else but do you think she was peeing herself i really do not think so but like he was so distracted 0.85

08:55:32.300 by the the the can crusher knockers that he that was her pretty privilege it was a privilege she has 0.95

08:55:41.500 a privilege because if she as a woman if like if she had small boobs he would notice the urination 1.00

08:55:48.060 on herself maybe i mean if you were sitting across from them like i was you would have seen the 0.89

08:55:53.260 waterfall go down leaking it was yeah there was a whole puddle i saw someone like sit next to that 0.83

08:56:01.100 puddle and i was like why is this wet he was distracted because of the titties yeah i literally

08:56:05.580 did not notice but super obvious and this is and this is just a pretty privilege that women with 1.00

08:56:10.620 large titties i agree with you women with large titties you can distract men with your large titties 1.00

08:56:17.020 especially if you're urinating on a couch what the get away with a lot that's crazy okay and then i guess 0.99

08:56:23.020 final thing from you pos um you're like i think we should normalize talking to possible possible

08:56:26.860 partners about what they're into or what is loud because i'm a very curious person like most things

08:56:31.900 but when it comes to not giving me any sort of warning and then he spit in my mouth nope got to go

08:56:37.420 yeah so you want to you want the guy to at least check in with you before he spits on you yeah it's 0.97

08:56:42.700 like that'd be nice how maybe like you're having sex with someone you're not just going to like 1.00

08:56:46.940 expect him to just put your like taking your ass you know what i mean like yeah like you got 1.00

08:56:52.460 you're into that yeah i agree yeah like some of that crazier like like you gotta check first you 0.99

08:56:58.300 know uh-huh but like also like but wouldn't you say like pause for you at least like maybe there's 0.94

08:57:05.180 a scale to this like would you want a guy to be like excuse me madame may i spank your bum like 1.00

08:57:13.420 you'd want the guy to just do it right yeah yeah for some things you'd like you just want the guy to do 0.99

08:57:18.300 it yeah yeah but like crazy shit like you maybe ask for it you know i mean yeah excuse me madame may 0.99

08:57:27.020 i spit in your mouth that is i what is hot i don't get that what's cool that's kind of crazy it wasn't 0.99

08:57:33.420 even like a hot spit like i've had like you just had like onions no it was more like um you know when 0.56

08:57:40.620 people like hurl back clicks live in the back of the oh it was like one of those yeah like i tasted

08:57:47.500 it i like felt in my mouth you should you should just like take a break for you should have you

08:57:53.420 thought about becoming a nun you should become a nun pass the nun i don't good talk oh and then last

08:58:00.300 thing from pos about your friend avantika she's from the valley and then two years ago on a trip planned

08:58:08.220 by one of your best guy friends he met her day before the trip and she said yes to come along

08:58:12.460 with a group of us she did not know so i knew automatically she's insane

08:58:18.140 but that's why we're second to you is that i mean yeah because we're just both yeah you're

08:58:22.220 you're spontaneous you're spontaneous all right uh last few chats then we're gonna wrap the show i

08:58:26.940 promise beaten cheeks donated twenty dollars all right so we have a troll perhaps we need a vetting

08:58:33.580 process uh oh shall i use my skills to vet your guests uh man that that's a lot to ask of you

08:58:39.900 beat in cheeks that you're very busy with your businesses in florida and and um not florida

08:58:48.700 and you know you've got that thing in in uh he he's a he he has a business in antarctica even

08:58:57.500 he haunts polar bears oh for science doesn't hunt he doesn't kill them he haunts them to learn

08:59:06.460 about polar bears and their testicles because he studies polar bear

08:59:15.740 um anyways never mind snap more donated i revealed too much sorry 99 cents 0.99

08:59:21.740 fucking cringe it's coke she's a massive liar all question against feminists are important in this 1.00

08:59:28.380 day more than ever huge feminist male politics is affecting men and women massively feminists 1.00

08:59:34.780 equals anti-men wouldn't the bigger like troll or whatever like if you know what the podcast or

08:59:41.420 the podcast could be about like instead of just essentially like letting us farm you for clips like

08:59:46.380 the bigger like troll would be to just be like no offense like ellen just be like yeah i don't want to 1.00

08:59:50.700 talk about that and like not give us anything instead you just like i mean by you basically

08:59:55.260 just like fed us content yes because i'm not gonna sit through this whole time saying nothing i would

09:00:00.700 go crazy oh okay so it's just like self-entertainment yeah but like the bigger w is the troll would be to

09:00:07.260 just like not give us anything i mean i was doing it because i thought it would be funny for myself okay

09:00:12.380 all right uh a non-donated twenty dollars you should just disengage with people like chair five

09:00:21.420 clearly trolling all show not even fun to watch because there's no real conversation 0.84

09:00:26.940 peace chair one is beautiful would it be gay to let her peg me 1.00

09:00:30.860 uh bruv 0.75

09:00:31.820 i'm gatoria donated twenty dollars don't be a coomer don't good morning from latom chair one looks like

09:00:37.500 some kind of sexy gothic waifu can she do a you woo warrior meet kudasai for us very appreciated

09:00:44.860 what's that

09:00:47.100 libertariat donated twenty dollars is she mentioning a hawk to you perhaps

09:00:52.060 pause wait what what uh okay so can can we get that uwu from you what is that you don't know the uwu

09:00:58.540 no cena help us out can you tilt your mic down a bit i don't know what you don't come on bro you 0.99

09:01:04.940 know what the fuck can you demonstrate i'm not yeah i'll do the uwu if every single girl here does 1.00

09:01:12.940 the uwu okay go lexi no you're lost lexi you could have had an uwu um go ahead cena come on 0.99

09:01:22.780 i feel like you'd be so good at it yeah you demonstrate it you have the look you just like

09:01:29.580 say it in like a cute like anime voice pretty much do you know the ahi go yeah can you do the

09:01:34.140 ahi go of course okay what camera you want me to do this camera right here okay

09:01:41.100 both not at the same time like do a height a hey gal and then uwu 0.98

09:01:45.740 that's the hey gal yeah get ready into this camera right here 1.00

09:01:54.140 like that or you want to flatter what do i want what no do it again you again did you say

09:02:03.020 what did she say you want it flatter flatter like the tongue i don't know what that means

09:02:08.940 sure do it okay guys

09:02:17.420 i like that good job okay that was good ellen come on home you got to do that i don't know how to do

09:02:23.900 that can you do uwu i don't even know what you gotta demonstrate it first i feel like i need to ask a

09:02:30.540 white girl so that i don't get accused of racism uh lexi will you do that i did that i already asked

09:02:35.740 lexi she'll do the uwu lexi do it come on w lexi if i do it will you do it no okay go ahead do the

09:02:44.220 uwu okay you do it no cena you do it and you do it first i'm not doing it i'm not doing the uwu i'll

09:02:50.700 only do it if every single girl here does it first do you want to how about you just do the uwu then 1.00

09:02:58.860 why they asked her no yeah but she doesn't know how to do it so can you demonstrate for her i don't

09:03:03.340 know how to do it here it's like this here okay hold on i'm not going to demonstrate it but

09:03:10.860 like anime voice i thought it was that face no go ahead do it can i do that face instead sure go

09:03:18.220 ahead uh into the into this camera that camera okay what did you do like her you cross your eyes kind

09:03:25.980 of up okay this camera right here yeah like that wow okay now she's gonna start an only dance 1.00

09:03:34.140 what the oh my god ridiculous okay uh let's see two two other chats then we're

09:03:40.620 devon jackson donated twenty dollars i wake up the show's still going and the first thing jay here is 0.98

09:03:47.580 begging yes that makes you gay kuma thank you davon jackson appreciate it definitely kuma 0.92

09:03:52.460 anybody else want to take a crack daniel seri donated twenty dollars hey dracula ordered you 0.98

09:04:00.380 to contort that stuff on the table i don't know if i can cross my eyes like that oh okay you want to

09:04:05.420 try like i can't do it okay okay all right thank you guys uh we have uh this guy he's curious about

09:04:13.100 your name and instagram if you want to share it my name's gianna and my instagram is baby gianna b-a-b-e-y-g-i-a-a-

09:04:22.380 n-n-n-a wait question your last name are you can you share your last name i don't know sure yeah

09:04:27.260 my last name is fang f-u-n-g are you like half chinese yeah okay all right oh yeah she's she's 0.99

09:04:35.740 wajian i'm super mixed like a lot like 50 50 no no not at all i'm um russian italian cuban and chinese

09:04:45.820 so you're like 25 right okay i see all right uh okay guys we got to wrap up the show it's gone uh

09:04:52.460 it's gone on quite a bit so guys like the video please like the video please on your way out thank

09:04:57.260 you guys for tuning in tonight really appreciate it um we are gonna do a raid for let me see who we can

09:05:02.780 rate on twitch really quick we are rating who who we rating oh my goodness where is he we're gonna do

09:05:11.180 frosted domus okay um so while he's getting that pulled up let's see um no we're all good we're all

09:05:20.540 good all right one give me one sec while i do the outro here i think that's pretty much everything

09:05:25.500 man oh alissa sorry last thing alissa um you said in your thing that uh you cannot be racist towards

09:05:31.820 white people no i read it sorry i read it wrong oh okay okay cool we're good all right cool that was

09:05:40.140 okay so um one sec guys let me get the outro out of the way okay so uh i'd like to end the show by

09:05:47.580 seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity to give you a call to action would you consider

09:05:52.060 stopping sex work entirely no i tried my best okay gg well played well played well played gg well

09:06:00.300 played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out if you can pull that up

09:06:04.380 damien thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here

09:06:08.620 with me i appreciate it sorry guys i'm gonna pull um oh i just hold on let me just hold on sorry scuffed

09:06:16.780 my bad that was my bad pause that for a sec uh you could have been anywhere in the world but you're

09:06:22.460 here with me i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and so generously supports

09:06:27.100 the show your patronage uh we couldn't do the show without you with we're fan funded we're not like

09:06:31.260 we ain't getting no color daddy spotify deal we're not getting freaking crazy sponsorships

09:06:35.500 like these podcasts with half or even a you know whatever half a third a fourth of our audience um

09:06:42.300 we will be live again tuesday at 5 p.m pacific cena's going to be coming back she's going to be quitting 1.00

09:06:47.020 only fans on that show for sure uh i think we can make it happen any girls who want to be on the 1.00

09:06:51.820 on the show dml whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara big thank you to the

09:06:56.140 wonderful panel you guys were super dope i loved you guys you guys were great thank you guys for

09:07:00.220 coming um you know there's there were disagreements that were had i don't have it's just uh you know

09:07:07.340 it's just a conversation no bad feelings towards any of you even if we agreed or disagreed uh but thank

09:07:14.220 you all so much for coming i know we didn't go pretty late tonight so i do appreciate your guys's

09:07:18.860 patience here uh so thank you guys really appreciate it great panel any girls all right he said that uh

09:07:24.220 we are going to raid thank you guys for watching on twitch i'm going to raid frost adamus he's playing

09:07:29.180 hardcore world of warcraft classic he's got a 30 orc warrior go tell him he needs to uh you can pull

09:07:36.220 it up tell him he needs to uh he needs to uh let himself uh no it's hardcore he can't uh just tell

09:07:44.380 him uh he's in romania streaming in his kitchen so tell him uh what's up tell me as you hope he has

09:07:50.140 a good stream and uh yeah thank you guys for watching on twitch i'm going to send the raid

09:07:54.140 now and if you oh guys if you want join the world of the whatever world of warcraft guild we're playing

09:07:59.180 uh pvp realm night slayer join the discord discord.gg slash whatever if you want to play with us

09:08:04.460 all right guys i'm sending the raid now hope you guys have a good night thank you guys for watching

09:08:07.260 on twitch reading now all right that's it oh can you mute the uh hold on let me just mute the audio

09:08:18.060 for just oh oh play you can play it play play with a huge raid playing some copyright music

09:08:28.060 okay whatever i gotta i gotta i gotta thank you very much brian big shout out to you

09:08:32.220 sweet thank you uh frosty appreciate it man okay oh sevens in the chat good night guys

09:08:38.540 long stream good night guys we'll be live again on tuesday i hope you guys have a good night oh sevens

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