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00:03:29.200 um speaking of which of course uh today was the memorial for charlie kirk we have his uh

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00:03:57.680 kirk uh let's see oh final thing guys isabel brown we've had her on the show twice very nice girl she's

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00:04:33.440 further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your

00:04:37.440 name age occupation where you're from and education go ahead uh my name is violet i'm 18 i'm from

00:04:45.520 california and i go to uc santa barbara all right uh what part of california are you from uh well i grew

00:04:51.440 up in new york but now i live in los angeles area oh when did you move to la about six years ago oh okay

00:04:57.600 gotcha what part of new york were you in manhattan manhattan yep okay why the why the move to california

00:05:03.200 uh a lot of reasons i don't know it's i mean i get well i guess it's your parents choice yeah yeah

00:05:08.320 yep work to be yeah okay all right what are you studying at ucsb undeclared right now actually so

00:05:14.720 are you're going into your first year oh okay undeclared all right do you have a sense of what

00:05:19.680 you maybe want to get into down the road um i have a lot of different senses um i mean i'm interested

00:05:26.880 in radio for sure so i was thinking maybe something along those lines but okay rock and roll what about

00:05:32.000 you hi i'm summer i'm 27 from scotland and i do only fans obviously why why would that be obvious

00:05:40.720 obvious why is that obvious i mean it's so obvious i mean you could be like a nun and also have

00:05:47.680 i actually technically like i'm can crushers what i'm like super christian so i can i could be a nun

00:05:54.640 i wanted to but um you see that cross above iraq yeah hold that up hold it up the she's got a

00:06:06.000 are you uh you're christian then yeah i am what denomination of christian are you just christian

00:06:12.560 like um i would say probably closer to catholic but closer to catholic yeah i don't discriminate i love

00:06:19.280 god either way it doesn't matter if it's okay we'll get into that actually should i buy it you

00:06:24.800 can buy if you want i don't care so you are religious do you go to church yes i do every

00:06:29.040 sunday what what's the denomination of the church i go to a catholic church every sunday okay but you're

00:06:34.080 not quite catholic well it's kind of hard i have like my parents are different religions so there's like

00:06:41.600 like little bits from different parts okay and you have you been going to church your whole life

00:06:48.880 or no um i only started going to church for the past like three years three years when did you start

00:06:53.840 doing only fans a year ago a year ago okay um and you always go to the same church or is it a different

00:07:00.880 church i go to the same church back home yeah every single week every single sunday every sunday

00:07:05.200 every sunday um okay really quick question on this and i'll continue with the the intros um

00:07:12.800 do you think do you believe in god of course do you think god wants you to do only fans i don't

00:07:18.000 think he minds i don't think he discriminates mary madeline was a prostitute he didn't there's

00:07:22.800 dispute over that but do you think he he wants you doing you say he doesn't mind do you think he

00:07:27.520 wants you doing it i think god wants me to be happy and i'm happy within my life so i don't think

00:07:33.840 god's really but you believe in the concept of sin yeah okay i think if what you're doing hurts

00:07:39.200 someone and harms someone then yes for sure but do you think so one of the seven deadly sins lust

00:07:45.520 yeah but so you're inducing people to to lust you're engaging in lust yeah i am but it's i'm not

00:07:51.600 hurting anyone when i'm doing it so i don't think it's a sin right so i so look if you were atheist

00:07:57.280 there wouldn't really be you know okay whatever you do only fans yeah for example like if somebody

00:08:02.960 told me they're vegetarian and then i saw them eat a hot dog i don't care for if somebody wants

00:08:09.520 to eat a hot dog oh i eat hot dogs that's cool but if somebody claims they're a vegetarian i would

00:08:16.480 have to be like well hold on you just said you're a vegetarian you're eating meat are you a christian

00:08:22.160 no i'm not are you not do you not believe in god uh yeah yeah we can just say that sure you believe in

00:08:28.400 god so there's so many things in the bible that are like you can't wear certain different clothing

00:08:34.480 you can't do certain different things well there's the old testament and the new testament themselves

00:08:39.200 as christians i don't think god really cares if i'm taking pictures of myself is there anything that

00:08:45.200 god does care about if you're a bad person and you're being harming another person probably but

00:08:50.880 i also don't think what about under the doctrine of the faith it would seem to point towards

00:08:56.080 you engaging in the kind of work that you're engaging in is in contravention of god's will

00:09:02.720 and god's word yes but it's not like apparently harming anyone i'm not harming anyone i don't

00:09:08.560 think god's looking down there's some dispute there yeah i i disagree with that but yeah well

00:09:12.880 let's get let's give you all the god title then you can be god but so i guess i'll just ask my

00:09:20.400 question again do you think god wants you to do only fans i don't think he cares okay what do you

00:09:24.960 think satan wants i don't think he cares either he doesn't i don't think they care if i'm taking

00:09:30.640 pictures or videos of myself i think they care if i'm a nice person like a charitable person

00:09:35.200 that's all i think they care about and i am so that's all i care about um do you in in the catholic

00:09:43.920 faith do you do confession i'm not a catholic i just go to a catholic church right but you go to

00:09:49.040 the catholic church yeah okay so if you were to go just as a catholic you have to undergo many steps

00:09:55.840 before you are considered a catholic you have to be baptized into the catholic church uh confirmed

00:10:01.600 receive your first communion before you're considered a full-fledged catholic that can

00:10:06.640 receive communion go to confession and do some of the other ceremonial things anybody can attend

00:10:11.760 a catholic church but not everybody attending a catholic is a catholic whether or not she's a

00:10:16.000 catholic she does identify as a christian she's wearing a cross she does claim to go to a church

00:10:21.120 every sunday i guess my confusion here is not whether you know what specific denomination she is

00:10:28.720 but regardless of you know which one how you reconcile engaging in essentially online prostitution and

00:10:39.120 calling yourself a christian yeah i don't think god cares i don't think god cares if i'm taking

00:10:47.120 pictures or videos i don't think he i think god only really cares if i'm like physically harming

00:10:51.600 someone or being a mean person so the bible it's is it for you i think the term is sola scriptura

00:10:57.920 it's just up to your interpretation i just think that there's so many things wait just answer my

00:11:04.480 question first what was your question so do you the biblical interpretation you're the final arbiter

00:11:12.320 you choose what is the truth as it relates to theology i don't know

00:11:20.480 but i don't know well if she if she can't do that then you can't either yeah tell her what to do

00:11:25.520 with her body but you you telling her she can't be an arbitrator but you are by telling her what she

00:11:31.680 can't it can't do with her body hold on that that doesn't even compute whatsoever in the vegan example

00:11:36.960 i gave you okay are we talking about a diet or religion because those are two different things

00:11:41.520 you're already 30 minutes late i don't need your attitude already maybe if you've been on time at

00:11:45.280 least fashionably what is cpt oh my god you're so uncultured brian nobody know what cpt is

00:11:52.240 i'm not sure there's no way i'm the color people time colored what is it color people time what is

00:11:58.320 what is that it's over your head we can move on no explain it color people time like how people are

00:12:03.760 always late especially you know black people so at least i showed up on cpt but fashionably so you're

00:12:10.880 holding up the culture oh got to yeah just a little bit gotcha i love that uh so anyways um

00:12:18.800 i guess again with the vegan example or vegetarian example i'm not a vegetarian but if somebody tells me

00:12:26.000 they're vegetarian then i see them eating a hamburger i think it's fair to kind of question

00:12:31.360 no i'm like so totally fine with you questioning me but i just know that god doesn't god doesn't care

00:12:39.760 okay i mean all right i'm gonna move on maybe we can dive into it a bit more later okay but i do think the

00:12:46.160 i do think the there is something as it relates to claiming to be a christian and what the bible says

00:13:00.960 so i don't like if you were to if you were to like get some sort of

00:13:05.680 if you were to talk to the anun cath is it a pastor priest what is it a priest in the

00:13:10.160 if you if you went to a priest and been like i have hey you're an expert in theology you know

00:13:17.040 like is what i'm doing okay he would say no no that's not true i have spoken to a priest you

00:13:22.320 you've spoken to a catholic priest i have yeah so i think the difference is in religion is the

00:13:29.280 difference in religion in scotland is so different from your religion in america you guys like religion

00:13:34.320 is like such a big huge massive situation where you have to follow a certain rule book but in

00:13:41.040 scotland it's not we're just our priests are nice people they don't care okay he just says as long as

00:13:48.880 i'm not hurting someone i'm not hurting someone like he says if you're a good person you're a good

00:13:52.720 person you want to volunteer church volunteer at church you fixed it i have to go online it's not

00:13:58.000 automatically oh here it's it's look auto start super chats do you see that just click that it

00:14:04.400 should do it all right hold on we have a chat coming in here one sec just gerald donated two

00:14:10.880 hundred dollars god just wants you to be happy show me in the bible where jesus said nah babe it's

00:14:18.480 chill if you get gang banged as long as you're like happy and like living your truth cool so i'm not

00:14:26.320 getting gang banged so i think that's maybe like even if you know if i was sex is natural god approves

00:14:33.360 of that in the bible too if you really knew about that jess gerald well i mean if you're a christian i

00:14:40.080 think uh god would approve of sex within the confines of marriage i think it's so point blank i think you

00:14:47.520 guys are so serious over here um we like obviously we're not as in our faith like yes i go to church

00:14:58.080 every sunday i volunteer at the church every monday i like i'm very well-known person within the church

00:15:04.560 but i god doesn't judge me just because i do only fans in fact my church knows i do only fans

00:15:11.120 everyone knows i live in a very small country so okay your church that you go to the pastor not

00:15:18.720 the pastor the priest knows you do it they do he did what do you mean they do i said accent okay

00:15:27.680 he did the the other members of the congregation know yeah we're very a welcoming country like i don't

00:15:35.760 think it matters i mean this is i'm not look i'm not a christian i'm not a catholic but like you're

00:15:41.200 catholic i don't know if in your church this would ever be acceptable for somebody to be like openly

00:15:48.720 like a prostitute essentially i mean you could be an ex-prostitute i guess whatever

00:15:53.840 but an active prostitute i mean that's fake news actually an active prostitute i think that's

00:15:58.480 maybe the difference and the confusion i'm not we're sort of parsing terms here the the way i'm

00:16:04.640 using it though more so relates to like you engaging in like online sex work if you prefer

00:16:09.760 that terminology the way i picture is i'm just making men happy so thank god would be really

00:16:15.760 happy that i'm making other men happy what about all the damages the pornography like what uh well

00:16:21.200 there's a lot of damage yeah can you name them i sure i can yeah um it contributes to porn addictions

00:16:28.000 um i actually brought i don't have my phone with me but i brought some pretty specific statistics

00:16:32.320 with me today um from recent studies that they've been doing since 2024 about um children specifically

00:16:39.360 adolescents meaning under 16 right 14 16 so is it okay if i just interject in the uk physically

00:16:46.240 impossible there's laws in place kids can not see me not even on instagram kids can't see me on

00:16:51.040 twitter it's against the law it's against the law there's a new law yeah brian may i ask you something

00:16:56.160 regarding this since you got a point to prove yeah thank you um yeah so my point was is that um

00:17:01.760 there's a lot of studies that have come out about um children consuming pornography and where the

00:17:07.360 majority of them get it from is actually social media an overwhelming majority of them came across

00:17:13.360 it accidentally and that's that's just in children if you look at um pornography in general it's uh it

00:17:21.920 causes you know porn addictions anxiety sleep deprivation uh lack of social skills there's a lot there's

00:17:29.760 a lot of studies showing the harm and not just making it but also um watching it as well so i

00:17:36.240 would heavily disagree that you're not harming anybody i don't think your intention is to harm

00:17:40.400 anybody but the reality of it is is that the consumption and over consumption of pornography

00:17:45.920 is incredibly harmful not just to women but to men as well to be honest um like and respectful at

00:17:52.880 the same time um i'm a reformed baptist i lean toward that more strict conservative and to be

00:18:01.200 frank and honest in a nice way um you showing your breasts and claiming to be a christian it actually

00:18:08.160 is killing me inside right now oh i'm sorry like though i'm not a diva um um okay so i'm not finished

00:18:15.600 ma'am ma'am i'm not finished then there are people watching porn so i don't think nobody

00:18:21.200 i don't think nobody's sitting there crying you were 30 minutes late you missed the part you should

00:18:26.880 have been on time this is the second time you've been on the show i told you if you're going to come

00:18:32.240 back on the show we're not going to have you constantly interrupting somebody okay this is

00:18:36.240 your final warning off too she ain't finished this is yeah but you have it you have a propensity to

00:18:41.360 doing this this is going to be your final warning otherwise you can drive your ass back to fucking

00:18:46.640 la if you interrupt again i'm not let her finish let her finish if you had been on time you would

00:18:52.880 have heard the pre-show where uh mary went over and said don't interrupt let people finish in fact

00:18:59.280 i reminded everybody right before we went live okay that's good go ahead everybody's gonna get cut

00:19:04.480 off every here and there it's not being that's okay but you have i need to be careful with you

00:19:09.120 because you had a terrible habit of doing it last show i'm gonna give people grace and i'll get i'll

00:19:14.480 allow some degree of interrupting but you've done it already today and you did it a bunch last time

00:19:20.560 you're on the show okay so you're gonna get a little bit more attention for that thank you i love

00:19:26.080 attention that's great go ahead uh so it is offensive to me um one of the main reasons why i actually wanted

00:19:34.400 to be on the show was because of what something that i saw on the show in the past um like brian

00:19:40.320 like how you're saying like you know if you're propagating that and it's sin and sexual like you

00:19:45.680 can't that's not how that offends the purity of christ himself there was a girl that was on the podcast

00:19:52.560 a while ago her name is cindy i believe and she got like a a cross on her don't split like that on her

00:19:58.400 neck like that was like a fake tattoo and she said that she would sd for jesus i kid you not when i saw

00:20:06.240 that episode and i saw that i paused it and i went on a two-hour walk just so

00:20:15.120 i was just very very upset i went on a two-hour walk because

00:20:20.480 she no one should ever say anything like that and it'd be according to scripture if anything causes

00:20:26.400 you to stumble it's better to you for you to cut off your hands and your feet than to do that and

00:20:31.760 in her case it'd be better for her if she ripped out her tongue and her her vocal cords and never

00:20:37.600 said anything ever again unless she repents because god is a very holy god and that's not okay it's not

00:20:44.400 gonna fly okay so i'm just wondering why it got you so upset like what's happening in your life

00:20:50.480 that's making you so upset about what someone says online because it's christ yeah no i get that baby

00:20:56.080 but it's i'm not a baby okay so the thing is you said if you love someone if you love someone like

00:21:06.480 really really love them are you gonna be okay with things marring their name no nothing's marring his

00:21:12.320 name here so my breast you were saying yeah it's a whole it's a it's a um oxymoron to have your breasts

00:21:18.800 showing and a cross sitting on top of it that's an oxymoron okay okay okay i have something to say

00:21:23.920 one second yeah so that's top you may not think it's offensive but it is please you're cutting her

00:21:32.880 if you were wearing this top your tits i wouldn't wear that yeah your tits wouldn't be out that's

00:21:37.600 why they're not big enough so they're not gonna come out and i'm okay with the way that god created

00:21:42.720 my breasts and i know like if i was to put myself on a scale i'd rate myself a number five because i'm

00:21:47.760 overweight oh you're such a top fan of this show i love that can you let her speak you're being

00:21:51.600 can she let me speak like she's like the nicest one here and you're like picking you didn't cut

00:21:55.920 off is okay yeah i've i've been cut off a lot of times thank you chloe i'm used to backlash i can

00:22:00.720 handle it um so i have a condition where my boobs grow they're going to show my bibs are going to show

00:22:07.600 i'm not going to wear a turtleneck because it doesn't flatter my figure i care what i look like so i'm not

00:22:12.560 going to do that that's absolutely fine if it offends you i'm really sorry that it does offend

00:22:17.120 you but that's not my problem like if you were to wear this no what what i'm saying is that it offends

00:22:24.480 god uh baby i don't think it does i don't think he cares that's not going to help you when you stand

00:22:30.240 before him on judgment day um we'll be so fine all right go ahead say what you have to say thank you

00:22:36.160 i have two points to make one to you miss tattoos my name is chloe chloe gotcha thank you so you said

00:22:42.800 something about porn addiction and stuff like that i'm not familiar with no porn stats i mean i think

00:22:47.520 that's pretty weird to keep up with in the first place but you talking about people are obsessed

00:22:52.160 with porn i don't think nobody's sitting in front of their phone whining about a nut they just had i

00:22:57.680 think they'd be more relieved and second off you so worried about her titties so you're giving them

00:23:03.040 the power that you so-called she shouldn't have in the first place so you're basically contradicting

00:23:08.400 yourself because why are you paying attention to her titties in the first place i think that's weird

00:23:12.880 too you guys have been talking about her boobs for like the past you're gonna keep cutting me off i'm

00:23:16.400 offended you keep cutting me off i'm talking go for it thank you that's all i have to say um also i

00:23:23.040 wasn't talking about my boobs you guys were like i can't control this right if i'm gonna talk about

00:23:27.680 her boobs i'm gonna talk about her boobs but don't be offended when you're talking about her boobs

00:23:31.760 don't bring something up that offends you and if it does offend you be able to talk about it like a

00:23:36.320 mature adult so i can't control the size of them i've never been able to control the size of them

00:23:41.520 they're just gonna keep growing anyway so wear a poncho or something then i really don't want to

00:23:47.840 you know hey you you got god on them you got god on speed dial let's call them real quick

00:23:51.600 it's called prayer man god applies prayer and then one thing about you as a christian you sitting here

00:23:57.760 judging her is it in the bible to not judge anybody there's a book in the bible named

00:24:02.240 judges there's a whole book in the bible named judges you a christian hey i can take whatever

00:24:08.160 you're gonna throw i'm gonna take your christian i do want to ask you a question just in relation

00:24:12.080 to your faith because for it you do identify as christian and not necessarily catholicism um i

00:24:17.600 know you are not a full-fledged catholic but that is the faith that you are currently subscribing to

00:24:24.160 so as catholics we believe that salvation is achieved not only through belief in christ that

00:24:30.080 he is our lord and savior but through our actions uh however the reason that protestantism even came

00:24:36.800 about was because martin luther separated from the catholic church over that belief as well as other

00:24:42.320 grievances so as a christian as a baptist i believe and you can correct me if i'm wrong that you believe

00:24:49.440 faith and or you believe that salvation is achieved through faith in christ alone as stated by faith

00:24:55.840 through grace yes in john 3 16 so there's a lot more to the bible though than john 16 she's not done

00:25:02.000 talking but if salvation is achieved through belief in christ and accepting jesus as your lord and savior

00:25:11.680 do you think that she can be forgiven when she stands before christ only if you repent that doesn't

00:25:19.040 mean you just keep going on and on in your sin thinking that he's just gonna let us all slide

00:25:23.360 that's not how it works you can't you can't keep living like a devil while you're uh claiming to be

00:25:28.480 christian that's not how that's not how it works can i ask you a question go for it are you a virgin

00:25:34.080 i've been s-aid and i have no further comment on that i was asking if you're a virgin have you had

00:25:40.800 sex before marriage unfortunately i know what you're trying to do but unfortunately i was drug and

00:25:46.800 jugged and essayed by a gang and i it's it's been torment it's been torment for me every single day to

00:25:55.680 try to forgive those men i'm sorry it's hell every single day let me parse this a little bit uh we're

00:26:01.920 going to for the sake of the conversation we're going to grant that essay would not be losing your

00:26:07.680 virginity she's then asking have you had consensual sex no oh that's so good for you um do you wear

00:26:14.880 two different types of fabric against all right now we're getting do you um hold on stop we're getting

00:26:21.440 way too theological here um we're going to continue on with the introductions can i actually respond

00:26:26.720 because she said something to me i just didn't get a chance to okay make it quick please um

00:26:32.640 i'm well versed on stats with uh porn addiction because it just relates to what i do for a living

00:26:38.560 um and in regards to being like well nobody nuts and thinks like oh that was so awful it's it's called

00:26:44.000 an addiction right like usually when you're doing cocaine for example you're going to take that rip and

00:26:48.880 you're going to be like yeah i feel great um but there are serious uh implications in your life

00:26:54.720 because of it so it's like it's called an addiction you're maybe not familiar with it but

00:26:59.360 porn addictions like destroy relationships they destroy men there are a ton of women that got stuck

00:27:04.640 in relationships with men with porn addictions it's it's incredibly prevalent i don't think the porn i

00:27:11.120 will say i i definitely agree that porn addiction is a huge problem of course it is like any addiction

00:27:15.760 but i think that we should be careful about centering that problem around the women that do

00:27:21.280 the uh that do produce the content rather than the industries that make it possible correct because

00:27:26.800 it's so-called nobody watching porn but everybody got a porn addiction so how can both things be

00:27:32.080 true and i don't think it's porn that's the problem it's the people that watch the porn that are the

00:27:37.040 problem yeah so don't make it about the porn make it about the people why can't i just don't think

00:27:40.960 it's reasonable to be like yeah i hate the heroin addict but i'm gonna excuse the person selling the

00:27:46.000 heroin do you think you have a tattoo addiction no i don't you got lots of tattoos babe i do

00:27:51.440 tattooing is an addiction also yeah if everything can be like correlations with like self-harm

00:27:56.160 addictions i'm just unsure what your point is so do you have what is that um do you do you have a

00:28:02.640 tattoo addiction no do you think because what's the difference between wanting to actually physically

00:28:08.000 hurt yourself and just jacking off are we deflecting right now i'm not i have tattoos okay because i'm just

00:28:14.240 unsure what the correlation is there i just want to know where like the whole hatred towards one certain

00:28:20.320 thing is i never said that i hated anything i merely you're sitting over here and saying well

00:28:26.800 god loves me which i'm sure he does right because um i'm not hurting anybody and i'm merely telling

00:28:33.280 you i would love to have my phone because i have some pretty shocking you should know it off the top

00:28:37.120 of your head i'm actually just you gotta come prepared baby okay anyways i'm challenging your belief

00:28:42.720 and letting you know that statistics from all over the world us australia uk canada um are showing

00:28:49.680 otherwise and because of the increase in the last five years with the popularity of only fans

00:28:54.240 there's more and more studies coming out so the knowledge is uh very new and very accurate despite

00:29:00.800 your belief that's it may i ask you a question of course but only because i'm curious so you've been

00:29:07.680 a christian we're attending catholic church for a long time but your decision to engage in the only fans

00:29:15.120 content is relatively new it's you've only been doing that for a year so as somebody that has been

00:29:22.320 active in the church and learning more about christ what led you to only fans was it a financial

00:29:29.120 decision was it a expert what made you want to do that as you're simultaneously calling christ so i

00:29:34.800 used to work in restaurants my parents own a bunch of restaurants so i used to work in them

00:29:38.480 and i would get sexually harassed daily anyway because obviously i have huge massive boobs um

00:29:45.280 and even when i did wear a turtleneck or as you would like a poncho and even when i did cover them

00:29:51.440 i still got sexually harassed you know so i cannot cover them um so i was like do you know what maybe i

00:29:57.520 could just play on this and make this my job if it's going to happen either way i'm just going to make

00:30:04.080 my job and then so little backstory also i used to want to get a reduction i didn't want them i hated

00:30:09.680 my boobs i hated my body i hated everything about it i didn't and then as soon as i had only fans and

00:30:14.880 i realized that like i get gratitude from it all right moving on introduction uh so you're you're any

00:30:21.840 college or anything hold on any college college college oh yeah we do university but yeah what i have

00:30:28.880 an art degree just art a fine art and portfolio fine art degree okay and you're from scotland i'm

00:30:36.720 from scotland well can you say what city or glasgow glasgow that's the capital no it's edinburgh

00:30:44.000 oh right but glasgow's the glasgow's a better site for sure that's it's the most populous city

00:30:49.520 no it's still edinburgh it's still okay well i'm not a fucking glasgow's the best site though to be

00:30:54.560 all right and um can we hear you say uh a quote from braveheart somebody asked me uh something

00:31:06.240 our freedom or what is it can you just freedom what one i don't know they will take our they will

00:31:12.720 take our lives but they will never take our freedom that was amazing thank you thanks all right hi my

00:31:19.920 name is britney i'm from orange county california and um my primary um career is i'm in sports and

00:31:28.880 mental health um nutrition and recently back in um doing some forms of sex work with playboy

00:31:37.760 uh and age i am 40 years old 40 okay and you used to do tradition what's it called like traditional

00:31:48.160 porn or whatever like mainstream porn yeah a long time ago yeah long time ago okay i recently kind of

00:31:54.880 got back into um doing like playboy and then um what do you do on playboy or what's that posing just

00:32:04.160 nude okay and then um as far as only fans goes it's similar in the sense of posing nude and as far as

00:32:12.480 you i want to say this to you be smart if you're going to do this be smart make a plan and get out

00:32:18.240 as soon as possible okay because i started in the sex industry at a very very young age and i did not

00:32:26.080 i didn't have a mentor i didn't have anybody to show me the ropes and as she was talking about how

00:32:31.040 there's an addiction to it you get addicted to the fast money and the quick life and next thing i knew i

00:32:39.920 was boom it was like what 10 12 years and i didn't have a plan so when it came to me wanting to

00:32:46.320 transition it was a very traumatic experience because it was so hard because i got accustomed

00:32:52.480 to that world and it definitely played a toll on my mental health so i would say if you're going to do

00:32:58.320 this make a plan for yourself for sure and stick to that plan and then for sure an exit plan i definitely

00:33:05.840 have one and i definitely have a lot of people in the industry um i'm like a baby in the industry

00:33:11.040 and all my friends are not babies in the industry so i definitely have people looking out for me

00:33:15.280 absolutely because you're still very young yeah so oh my god who the hell sorry nick why did you

00:33:21.040 press that bro what was your name my name is britney all right uh any college yes um well a little bit

00:33:28.960 going back almost 20 years um a journalism major with a minor in communications and then from where

00:33:34.800 um cal state fullerton okay which is in orange county california and then um as of recent um i have my

00:33:42.720 sports medicine certification and then um also a background in cognitive behavioral neuroscience which

00:33:48.880 i went ahead and went into a little bit later on due to my son's autism diagnosis oh you have a kid

00:33:55.600 i do gotcha okay all right uh what about you hello my name is jenny i'm 26 i also do only fans

00:34:03.760 and i do pro shoots and i say pro shoots what does that mean like professional porn okay sorry i just

00:34:12.960 that's fine you're go ahead 26 where are you from i'm from manchester in the uk okay and i have a

00:34:19.840 degree in criminology and sociology a degree in sociology which university and criminology sheffield

00:34:27.200 university yes okay uh it so is it like here in the us we have double major so did you whatever the

00:34:34.560 equivalent is i think so yeah yeah i think so okay did you do any work in either of those fields no i went

00:34:41.680 straight to only funds when i was 18. is uh university free in the uk no you have to pay how much is it

00:34:48.560 it god i don't know do you have student loans or yeah yeah you have student loans yeah but i don't

00:34:54.160 know how much is yeah i pay it back with my tax every year you pay it back okay uh just curious you

00:34:59.600 got at least one of your degrees was in criminology one in sociology sociology yeah uh can you tell me

00:35:06.800 maybe like two or three things you learned about sociology that you can just relate to us

00:35:12.640 no okay what about criminology two or three things you learned um we just really learned about

00:35:18.400 criminal behavior and i found it really interesting to learn about different people's behaviors i'm very

00:35:24.480 into how people react sorry nothing about sociology though that you could i didn't really enjoy it to

00:35:30.400 be fair i wish i didn't do it did you were you awarded a degree yes what what's the i got a first

00:35:36.000 class honors degree and which is the highest would that be an equivalent of like a bachelor's degree in

00:35:40.640 the united states i'm not sure how your education system yes well i guess to break it down we have

00:35:45.120 like high school people graduate at 18 and then they go off to college or university typically

00:35:50.800 universities four years and then they get what's called a bachelor's degree after four years typically

00:35:56.560 then the step up after that would be a master's degree i believe that's another two or three years

00:36:00.960 it can vary and then phd that would be like doctorate level that's a couple more years also yeah so

00:36:07.840 i'm assuming you're the equivalent for you would be like yeah how long were you in school for four

00:36:12.720 years so you got but we got a master's or bachelor's we go to college too oh you go to college first

00:36:18.960 but isn't college high school no it's different in the uk so we do primary school secondary school

00:36:24.560 college and then university college is from what age to what age 18 to it doesn't wait it's not really

00:36:31.520 age um yeah but but you graduate you can go at 16 or you can go 18 it does there's no like cap i see

00:36:39.760 but you have to stay in education until you're until you're 16 so you did higher higher education for a

00:36:45.600 period of four years or six years uh six so two years in college four years in university yes i see

00:36:53.520 and you have been awarded sorry what was the name of the degree it's a first class honors degree in

00:36:59.360 criminal justice or criminology and criminology and you can't tell me one thing so i actually have

00:37:07.520 a memory loss issue that i've been um diagnosed with so at what age when i was 18 so when i went

00:37:14.000 to university because i got diagnosed with dyslexia why why go to university if you're just gonna

00:37:19.200 forget everything you learned i am a smart person so well there's no i'm not making any disputes or

00:37:25.280 claims as to your intellect i'm just simply asking why if you were even if i have to even if you

00:37:32.880 forget all of it yeah is university taxpayer subsidized in the uk well i'm a taxpayer now so

00:37:39.760 i pay it back no it's your tax dollars at work not really when did you graduate when did you graduate

00:37:48.320 from oh when i was so i graduate when it was covet time well you're 26 yeah and you said about four

00:37:55.680 years ago wait wait but you because started uh college at 18 yes and then you did two years of

00:38:04.400 college but the issue is because of the covet we didn't have graduation so technically i wasn't graduated

00:38:10.560 until i walked down and accepted it when did you graduate 20 20. from college no university

00:38:21.440 i'm confused at what you're confused about to be honest it's not 20 20 would have been five years

00:38:26.240 ago you would have been 21 when you graduated but you said college is two years universities four years

00:38:30.640 she goes to college when she was 16. okay sorry i don't know how you but in any case you have a degree

00:38:38.400 i did want to be a probation officer and you can't tell me one thing you learned i mean i don't think

00:38:46.240 it's really that interesting karl marx isn't that interesting to me they teach communism and sociology yeah

00:38:55.200 you read the communist manifesto karl marx i didn't read it no but we had a lot of articles yeah

00:39:01.600 what's is there anything you remember about sociology that you can really that important now to me so no

00:39:08.480 okay oh man i don't know i don't know is college a scam is it kind of a scam you know because i can

00:39:16.400 still use it in my well you have the piece of paper yeah that says you were here at these whatever i can

00:39:21.840 still continue but like what actual palpable like thing are you bringing to the workforce in terms of

00:39:28.560 because i'm a very kind and caring person yeah but you could have those traits absent let me finish

00:39:33.120 please well hold on you can have those traits absent going to college you can be a kind person

00:39:39.200 and have dropped out of third grade of course but we can't drop out third grade here in the uk that's

00:39:44.880 immaterial to my point whether you went to college or not and the degree you got or not has nothing

00:39:49.920 to do with one's kindness no i didn't say it was i'm just saying your point was why do you not continue

00:39:54.960 with it is that not your point you made the claim that well i'm very kind and that's what i bring to

00:40:00.240 the workforce yes i'm trying to explain but you but what i was asking okay you went to university

00:40:06.480 you went to college yes i did you didn't take there wasn't fucking kindness 101 there wasn't good

00:40:13.760 feels i didn't say there was right but i was i don't understand your point what he's asking is if

00:40:20.240 you got this degree but you don't remember anything about it if you wanted to enter into

00:40:24.240 that workforce what do you bring to the workforce and your answer was kindness i think he's looking

00:40:28.400 for a different answer well he could have been a bit more clearer but i would say because i wanted

00:40:33.680 to be a probation officer so you needed to go into another full year of education to complete that

00:40:41.760 look i we've had a lot of people wouldn't go back to university and i wouldn't have done my degree

00:40:47.200 that wasn't the choice that i wanted personally it was my family's choice and i just went with what

00:40:52.320 they wanted and that's not what i wanted so that's why i have not continued with that right i get i

00:40:58.240 understand that people have different interests in

00:41:06.080 i think in the uk it's like when you're 16 you're told to decide what you want to do so it's really hard

00:41:12.400 for a 16 year old to decide what you want to do when you're older yeah i get that i get that people have

00:41:16.960 different uh interest in going to college some people do it just to do it some people are actually

00:41:22.080 genuinely there to learn but i always find it fascinating regardless of the motivations or reasons

00:41:28.000 i find when we do have people who have gotten degrees in various fields come on the show even if

00:41:33.680 they've graduated in recently and i simply just ask them okay well can you tell me like one or two things

00:41:39.120 you learned they can't tell me anything so she has a memory issue she said well yeah but i mean these

00:41:46.560 other people who i also pose this question to there's no assertion that they have memory issues

00:41:50.960 i think so just always it kind of amazes me people go to university but they can't even like dictate

00:41:57.600 back to me one two hold on one two or three things that they've learned go ahead it's just i think this

00:42:03.200 is a very intimidating sorry this is a very intimidating setup so people can just forget

00:42:09.120 like when you ask them straight off yeah so you have to kind of take into account that because this

00:42:14.240 is quite intimidating for a lot of people well hold on is it the memory loss issues no i'm just talking

00:42:18.640 about the other people not not from my point of view that's just that you're saying other people

00:42:22.800 well yeah sure i i realize that in certain situations you're not going to have perfect recall

00:42:29.200 of like every single thing that you're going to learn but it would occur to me if you have

00:42:33.120 a degree from a university and the degree is essentially communicating to the outside world

00:42:38.400 and employers i have some proficiency in this particular thing if somebody were to just ask ask

00:42:44.960 you okay can you tell me like one thing about it like they could maybe list off like one thing yeah

00:42:51.040 i understand that but you're not employing me so i don't see why you yeah but that's not the

00:42:55.120 justification well it's mine so hold on now you're just shifting the goalposts here not really now

00:43:00.480 you're saying well brian i'm not going to relay the information that i do know because you're not

00:43:05.040 actually here to employ me it's not interesting so i agree with you sociology definitely yeah that's

00:43:10.400 why i didn't want to do it so i just did it at college and then love it all right moving on what

00:43:15.520 about you hello i'm adam houston where i'm from in the name what i do is in the game i'm 23 years

00:43:21.840 old and i got a ba in psychology uh from where texas southern university and you said you're 28

00:43:29.040 no 23 oh 23 okay you heard me i see you got your lineup for me today you're looking good you're

00:43:34.640 looking shy fuck okay yes i got my haircut just for you hey i told my barber um uh a woman's gonna be

00:43:43.840 on what is it i should can am i allowed to say cpt yeah you can say cpt can i say cpt you said cpt of

00:43:50.240 course do you give me the cpt pass i need a cpt thank you thank you uh thank you for the granting

00:43:55.520 the cpt pass um i told my barber look i gotta look really sharp because this this uh woman's gonna

00:44:03.440 have be cpt uh-huh and i gotta make sure i if i'm gonna rebuke her that you gotta look good correct

00:44:10.480 i can't be looking all disheveled and right correct and reasonably early uh what about you

00:44:17.120 my name is elissa i'm 30 years old i'm originally from massachusetts that's where i was born and raised

00:44:25.120 but i currently live in texas and i travel a good bit for my job i'm a professional piano bar

00:44:31.280 entertainer as well as an entrepreneur i own a few businesses and i have a bachelor's degree from harvard

00:44:38.720 university in government and i have a master's degree in entertainment and music business and

00:44:45.440 management from the university of miami could you go and sorry what was the degree you got from harvard

00:44:51.200 government government okay and you so you you're a professional piano player are you a virtuoso

00:44:59.200 i suppose that would be a matter of opinion okay and you also i don't know if you mentioned this you

00:45:03.840 were miss massachusetts 2016 yes sir miss america top 15 yes all right and uh you went to harvard

00:45:13.760 and you do have a piano with you here i do uh we're gonna finish the intros but then we'll have

00:45:18.240 you do a little a little diddy all right wonderful wait hold on two t's diddy not diddy

00:45:25.680 diddy right is that that's the right word right a little diddy like a little diddy right that's

00:45:32.800 i don't know whatever yes uh we'll have you do a little something if you want to start getting

00:45:37.360 it kind of ready while i have the rest of the panelists intro themselves uh what about you i'm

00:45:45.040 sarah i'm single 31 and i'm a nobody i don't really have any degrees or anything like that um i went to

00:45:53.520 bible college for a few years um thankfully other people in the church donated money to my tuition

00:45:58.480 because i could barely afford to eat at the time and i took um child development um at west hills

00:46:05.040 lamore college um but i dropped out because of my father passed away um longest relationship i've

00:46:10.560 ever been in it was about two and a half years or so um i've lived all over california northern

00:46:16.400 southern and central valley um and i currently live in hanford california

00:46:24.560 all right uh what about you name age yeah yeah same oh yeah name age location occupation

00:46:34.160 education okay my name is chloe roma i'm from calgary alberta canada i am 28 years old international

00:46:41.360 men's rights advocate and my post-secondary is a funeral services and embalming and addictions

00:46:47.680 and disabilities with a specialization in fetal alcohol spectrum disorder

00:46:53.680 all right welcome back good to have you no that's not boring i mean you already said i could

00:46:58.240 have bombed you when you died so yeah there we go so it's contractually uh um so i'm wondering

00:47:04.560 it's is it good to go oh it can be absolutely yeah it's on all right can i have so what we're

00:47:13.040 going to do what you're going to do actually no i'm going to what i'm going to have you do

00:47:17.520 that mic if you can kind of like you're going to kind of just like keep your hand on it and

00:47:21.120 like tilt it down towards the piano do you want to no i'm sorry i was demonstrating it for

00:47:26.320 too close maybe lower it lower it that's good i think that should be good

00:47:39.760 you need like go for it do you want to what do you want to play all right you ever heard of two

00:47:43.600 chains i'm different like that intro wait can you do uh hey yeah get it buzz it on a beat can you do

00:47:52.880 that uh i can play like some like ragtime for you do you like ragtime uh joplin scott joplin sure we

00:48:12.400 can do that

00:48:22.880 can you do a maple leaf frag that was oh sorry the entertainer my bad can you do the entertainer

00:48:41.440 yeah yeah

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00:49:55.280 that was good maybe one more one more should we let the chat decide

00:50:04.960 that was good maybe one more one more should we let the chat decide and let me see if the chat wants

00:50:19.840 to uh hmm do oh canada no just kidding can you do the uh who wait oh my i can't believe i'm blanking on

00:50:27.840 the contemporary top 40 pop rock who produced who is the producer i can't believe i'm blanking on his

00:50:33.760 name who's the producer dr dre uh what uh still dre yeah yeah yeah

00:50:47.520 i don't i don't do that one but i can do some other dr dre you don't know that that one i i i would

00:50:53.040 have to hear it do do do wait how does it go anybody

00:51:02.080 beethoven symphony

00:51:11.760 it's definitely you're getting there you're getting there

00:51:13.920 yeah it's pretty much that's kind of it

00:51:28.160 the the doctor you know what would be fun you know that i do well is i sing and play okay rap all

00:51:34.320 of forget about dre it'd be funny if party tricks you you know you ever seen those stand-up comedians

00:51:39.600 will that they'll have like a a bass player or something who does that like kill tony they'll

00:51:45.520 have he'll have like a band in the background we should have like i should have a band

00:51:50.640 in the whatever podcast when somebody says something ridiculous and they like

00:51:54.080 play some music or whatever so maybe we're gonna hire you yeah we're gonna hire you um

00:51:58.720 well thank you for playing something for us appreciate it pretty good maybe we'll have her do a

00:52:03.920 uh uh what was it called a uh another it's the french term oh my god i'm why am i blanking on

00:52:12.960 when somebody encore thank you how am i blanking on these terms all right uh so okay that's everybody's

00:52:18.800 intro we got a couple chats then we're going to continue on get into the actual content of the show

00:52:24.080 john o'rourke use those i'm oh my god am i going to read this okay use by the way our stream yard super

00:52:32.800 chat thing got fixed so that's nice use those ta-tas to crush a beer can on live stream do it

00:52:41.360 okay that's probably not gonna happen john uh oh shit i just did you see that nick i

00:52:49.440 here uh okay that's below the threshold van thank you for the soup chat appreciate it man

00:52:54.160 all right if you guys want to get a read in it's a hundred and we can now do it again kind of a

00:52:59.920 little bit through youtube but anything above that tts is has to come in streamlabs.com

00:53:05.040 slash whatever 200 tts demo cash out whatever pod twitch blah blah blah all that other stuff and then

00:53:11.200 we have a message here from one sec mimi oh my one sec lagging here hello

00:53:25.360 fucking reload all right mimi sex workers how do you feel knowing others are being forced into

00:53:33.600 trafficking and you have free will doing it for shits and giggles and money oh okay

00:53:40.720 what it was 100

00:53:44.800 no read read is 100 tts is 200

00:53:48.320 that was a question for you guys yeah i would be happy to answer this question um as somebody who

00:53:55.920 is heavily in the business like heavy heavy before um how do i feel about that i think that it's it's

00:54:02.240 it's terrible it's horrendous and it's part of one of the huge reasons why i'm for closing of the borders

00:54:08.800 um another thing is is i you know do i believe that sex work is just something to just do just because

00:54:18.000 absolutely not like i mentioned before if you're going to do it do it right make a plan and get the

00:54:22.320 hell out because it will absolutely play a nasty toll on your mental health on your whole i mean because

00:54:30.240 of what it does for the dopamine release neurologically you get hooked on that and then everything

00:54:36.480 thereafter is highly affected but are the two connected i don't believe that they are agreed however

00:54:44.800 if you're going to do it you're going to you need to do it right and get the hell out

00:54:50.480 uh question for you actually yes absolutely um i noticed in your instagram bio uh are you a christian

00:54:57.600 i am okay because i saw you had like a bible verse ephesians 2 8 which is what what is that

00:55:04.080 ephesians 2 8 through grace i was saved gotcha so you're a christian i am what denomination

00:55:09.440 non-denominational my grandmother um practiced hardcore catholicism and that's how my father was

00:55:15.120 raised and then growing up um i just we went to a non-denominational church um i currently do not

00:55:21.680 attend church i have not found one in los angeles that how do i say this that i feel comfortable at that i

00:55:31.120 feel a connection to a lot of the ones in los and los angeles have become very culty um however

00:55:40.240 i practice it in my everyday lifestyle as a parent as a friend as a partner um however i am aware that

00:55:50.240 things such as playboy are sinning well that's what i was about to ask is you know you have a bible

00:55:56.800 verse in your bio absolutely christian i guess i also pose the question to you you're you're actively

00:56:03.600 like the number one pins thing on your instagram is a playboy shoot or something and uh

00:56:11.840 yeah for the release for yeah october 1st no how do you reconcile producing risque content with

00:56:18.960 being a christian so that's a great question um because i'm well aware of my actions

00:56:25.680 um and not to justify it um not too long ago i had to make a tough choice as far as uh being a mom

00:56:33.280 and taking care of family i was working in sports medicine full-time and unfortunately the clinic that

00:56:39.520 i was working for destroyed me financially put me in such extreme debt that

00:56:47.600 it kind of was like okay i need to make a choice what am i going to do and like i said before you

00:56:57.280 know when you do for so long and you don't do it right it becomes a problem so you know i went to a

00:57:02.240 place that was familiar because i was like okay i need to get out of debt i have a family to take care

00:57:05.680 of while doing that is it a sin yes it is one thousand percent wait you the place you were working at

00:57:14.320 put you into debt as in so i was i was completely out of the adult industry at this time um the sports

00:57:20.160 medicine clinic that i was working for back in 23 um i'm a bit confused typically when you're working

00:57:29.280 for a place so the owner completely did not pay me okay um come to find out that there was a ton of

00:57:37.440 fraud going on in the company and um i had to pull away and i had dedicated my time my savings to

00:57:50.160 traveling back and forth from los angeles to vegas and you know i have no regrets because it was an

00:57:56.240 experience it gave me an opportunity then with that then i had to redirect okay i see so kind of

00:58:04.000 lost investment there a little bit just real quick sorry absolutely so you keep saying like

00:58:10.080 to do it the right way to do it the right way to do there is no right way with that i and you know

00:58:14.560 i agree with you 100 but if if there's going to be someone to do it i'm not i'm not the one to judge

00:58:19.920 and say get the hell out that you're going to destroy your life but make a plan and i'm saying this

00:58:25.840 as somebody as a 40 year old woman who was in the business for a really long time before i retired

00:58:31.200 and i did not do it correctly and i dug myself a huge hole and it played a huge toll on my mental

00:58:38.560 health so when i say do it the right way make a plan make a savings do not be stupid do not be stupid

00:58:48.880 and first and foremost pay attention to your mental health and the company you keep well i got to pose

00:58:55.680 the same question to you that i posed to her which is do you think that god wants you posing for no

00:59:01.040 absolutely not i think so you will fully sin i think there is a right way to do it most girls they

00:59:07.680 get into the game and they do it by themselves and they let that take over emotionally and it's just

00:59:12.720 because they don't have possibly somebody taking care of them emotionally so i always recommend

00:59:17.920 don't do it by yourself it's the right way to do everything and it's never it's not wrong that you

00:59:22.880 show your body off it's just how most girls get into the game and they do it because they're running

00:59:28.640 away from the life that they got and not because they want to be in the life that they're getting

00:59:32.640 into so just remember that before you you know make a decision to mess up your life because you don't

00:59:38.320 necessarily mess up your life because you do sex work you mess up your life by doing it the wrong way

00:59:42.560 maybe have a team when you're doing it have like some type of you know back backbone that you know

00:59:48.320 somebody could stand up for you or just it's a lot of options just don't do it it's a lot of options

00:59:53.280 going back to this yeah no absolutely do i think it's is it christian-like absolutely not if i had

00:59:58.400 a daughter would i tell her would i want her to do this and would i justify it hell no but if she wanted

01:00:04.720 to you'd have to make sure well if she wanted to i would redirect her in a different direction because

01:00:10.080 absolutely not absolutely not because at the end of the day it it creates a stigma mentally and then

01:00:16.800 it's like when it comes to relationships when it comes to um your bond yeah just the toll it plays

01:00:25.120 on your neurological health it only is very damaging so if i had a daughter and she wanted to do this

01:00:31.040 i would sit her ass down and i'm like absolutely the fuck not excuse my french sorry it only affects

01:00:38.640 relationships if you choosing the wrong person to be with yes agreed like it'll still it'll still

01:00:44.080 affect the relationship just to move things on a little bit most girls who are only fans they get

01:00:48.640 they have a boyfriend later down the line they get fetishized by being strippers by being hoes but

01:00:54.400 when they get into the relationship now the man that she is dealing with doesn't want her to do what

01:00:59.200 she was doing when she first got into the relationship that just seemed like somebody

01:01:02.640 was lying so possibly get with somebody that doesn't lie to you i agree i don't know maybe just

01:01:09.040 look whatever okay you're doing the playboy shit i don't know maybe take the bible verse out you know

01:01:13.200 maybe take the cross off no because i love it maybe take the cross off if you're fucking i totally

01:01:18.000 get a gang bang i'm not getting gang bang okay whatever you're doing you're doing i would but

01:01:22.720 you do girl girl content um i done my first um boy girl like two days ago it was really were you

01:01:28.400 wearing your cross i was during you know look maybe at least take the cross off i always wear it

01:01:35.280 yeah maybe take it off i'm not thinking about it when it's you're doing you're doing the playboy

01:01:41.120 thing and then there's a lot of other revealing things on your instagram look whatever it is what

01:01:45.760 it is a lot let me let me say this in my defense anything other than the playboy on my instagram which

01:01:52.240 can be it's very public where i am showing my my bottom yep or core a lot of my core stuff i've been

01:02:01.200 currently talking about cortisol detox the importance of detoxing cortisol and for a lot

01:02:06.800 of women when they're older i've talked about you're not fat you have too much cortisol in your

01:02:10.880 body and this is the before and after and this is what happens the importance of when you're going

01:02:15.120 through a hormone change when your muscles start dropping and the importance of maxing out on protein

01:02:21.200 and stuff and that is why i show my body because the proof is in the pudding so if i'm showing my core

01:02:25.680 and i'm showing my bottom that i see nothing wrong with now is playboy godlike absolutely not

01:02:34.800 is it a sin yes it is so what do you think you should just be proud of what you do you did sex

01:02:39.440 work and you did that shit and you know what i'm saying is i am a christian and i do align with very

01:02:44.080 conservative beliefs but i am also aware of what my actions are and i'm not going to sit here and

01:02:49.280 justify and say that it's not sinning because it absolutely is you don't need to justify but you also

01:02:54.080 cannot have it both ways it can't you can't fall on both sides of the face okay so just here to

01:03:00.720 get this moving on here the question is do you think god wants you doing playboy and i said no

01:03:06.560 okay what do you think satan wants you doing exactly that that's it all right that's very

01:03:11.200 difficult to reconcile okay moving this on though quick question it's an honest answer and i'm not

01:03:15.520 going to justify it and try and go beat around the bush that's fine it's not that it's hard to

01:03:18.720 reconcile no no no stop moving on uh harvard you went to harvard a couple guests have asked or a

01:03:24.720 couple people watching have wanted me to ask you some questions here uh because i don't know if we've

01:03:32.160 have we had anybody on the show who's been to harvard but i don't know uh uh let's see what house were you

01:03:38.400 in so i actually wasn't in a house i lived off campus okay so that's like not very very common

01:03:46.400 at all oh yes um but after your first year you can live off of campus who is the president of harvard

01:03:52.960 this is a quiz here oh who was the president of harvard when you were there drew faust okay all

01:03:58.720 right now can you name one major lecture hall uh harvard harvard hall

01:04:06.960 which is what's the john harvard statue known as what is it like the one that everyone pees on

01:04:13.840 no what's the john harvard statue known as yeah the one that every i known as the statue like the one in

01:04:22.240 the yard yeah the one that it's the statue of what well it's not actually john harvard it was like

01:04:28.080 somebody that was pretending or not pretending to be him but like modeled statue of three lies

01:04:35.520 never mind that that doesn't ring a bell have you what is annenberg

01:04:40.560 annenberg oh that's the library or no no that's a dining hall sorry

01:04:44.960 that's all right i think she's got that's like i graduated over 10 years ago now so

01:04:51.520 congrats we just you know we gotta do a little verification check here all right going around

01:04:55.200 the table once more getting into some of the dating stuff or you know what hold on one final

01:04:59.840 question then we get into the dating stuff charlie kirk had his memorial today the question is to the

01:05:08.000 panel what do you think about what happened to charlie kirk starting with you well um

01:05:16.480 i did not agree with charlie kirk and anything that he stood for but i also think that violence is

01:05:20.560 never the way that we should solve disputes do you think it was justified in any way

01:05:27.200 no i don't think that assassination is justified but i that doesn't change how i felt about him while

01:05:31.200 he was alive what do you think about the people who were like rejoicing in his i mean i think that

01:05:37.040 it's disrespectful to rejoice about violence in any circumstance i mean i understand where people

01:05:42.080 were coming from when they were glad that he wasn't you know doing what he was doing because

01:05:47.360 i do think that a lot of it was damaging but um i also do think that it's disrespectful and also

01:05:55.360 it pushes a narrative that it's okay to solve disputes in that way and it's just not true

01:06:01.440 okay so you uh disagree with people celebrating or otherwise rejoicing in his assassination

01:06:09.360 uh i would i would say so okay your thoughts um i think it's super sad that like some american guy died

01:06:16.080 but i think people die every day and we should be sad about that also instead of just caring about

01:06:22.080 one person that's died i also don't think people should be rejoicing that he died but

01:06:26.480 i don't think that it should always be just about him when people are dying every day every second

01:06:35.040 but you do understand that typically when somebody has a really large following and especially if they've

01:06:40.080 had an impact on people and you've been well connected that this is going to obviously draw

01:06:46.000 more attention because of the public nature no totally which is it's really sad that he died

01:06:51.360 um and obviously i don't agree with like guns or anything like where i'm okay your thoughts

01:06:57.600 thoughts i have no words it's it's heartbreaking the response of people absolutely disgusting um

01:07:12.960 i've never been one to get emotional over a person's death who i've never been in person connected to

01:07:20.320 however the response of people the lack of humanity

01:07:27.760 shook my soul in a way that i can't put words to even the other day i had reposted something about all

01:07:36.480 these people getting closer to god and because of this it they're like i've never been to church i've

01:07:41.200 never believed in god but i'm gonna give this god uh you know this god thing a try and you know all

01:07:45.200 these testimonies and somebody had responded yuck and that just that that took me out and it just

01:07:53.360 kind of shows where humanity is at and all right what about you um i think no one should die i'll be

01:08:01.440 assassinated um i don't agree with gun violence um i don't agree with charlie kirk i'm not gonna mourn

01:08:09.760 the wicked as it says so i'm it's sad he died but it doesn't really affect me being in the uk so

01:08:18.960 okay what about you i think charlie kirk died doing what he loved which was debating people so i don't

01:08:25.920 think it was a more badass way to go out uh okay so you think it was a badass way but i mean uh in

01:08:35.680 terms of what happened do you think it was justified do you think you deserved it i don't

01:08:39.360 think nobody deserves to get gunned down because they got you know an opinion i mean that's like

01:08:44.960 me getting shot because i say i hate brian i wouldn't want that to happen so i don't agree with

01:08:51.360 somebody getting gunned down because if that's the case then we can't say nothing and if we can't say

01:08:55.360 nothing this isn't the great country that we come from okay all right and you think wrong the people

01:09:02.960 that are celebrating or rejoicing you think that's wrong i think to each his own i can't tell nobody

01:09:08.000 what to do uh i mean i suppose you can't tell people what to do well i suppose you could tell

01:09:19.520 people what to do whether they follow you or not is another thing but do you just from your own

01:09:24.640 perspective do you think it would be wrong to celebrate or rejoice them being happy that charlie

01:09:30.000 kirk died is freedom of speech charlie kirk having his opinions was freedom of speech

01:09:34.720 so i don't think charlie kirk would disagree with the freedom of speech there's no dispute that it's

01:09:39.760 freedom of speech but clearly certain speech even if you're free to say it can be deemed like a wrong

01:09:48.480 thing to do like for example it's free like technically i could just like walk up to somebody

01:09:52.480 in the street and just be like you're a fucking piece of shit and walk away but i well yes it's my

01:09:57.680 freedom of speech but i'd be like that's wrong to do but i have the freedom to do it but it'd be

01:10:02.880 wrong for me to do that yeah that's when we get into the semantics i'm just talking about freedom

01:10:07.040 of speech that's it like that's what he was an advocate for and i don't agree with somebody get

01:10:12.160 it taken out for being an advocate for freedom of speech if that's what he was doing in the first

01:10:15.440 place but so my question is people are rejoicing and celebrating his death there's no dispute that

01:10:21.760 they have the freedom to do that freedom of speech the question is is it wrong that's their freedom

01:10:28.800 of speech right we've established that it's their freedom of speech like okay for example would you

01:10:35.200 agree that uh it's freedom of speech to say racial slurs yeah i would rather somebody know i would rather

01:10:43.040 know somebody's racist so that i can say fuck you back right but you would agree that it's wrong like

01:10:48.800 it would be wrong to say a racial slur towards somebody that's their freedom of speech they

01:10:54.080 could say whatever the hell they want in this country i mean isn't again there's no dispute that

01:11:00.000 freedom of speech exists but i'm trying to you can't make any delineation as to like right it's

01:11:07.600 freedom of speech but like this saying this is wrong or bad or malicious or evil well the bill of

01:11:14.560 rights don't con they don't cover whether it's wrong or not it's just rights to protect the

01:11:20.560 freedom of speech i was not i wasn't done talking thank you so the bill of rights covers the freedom

01:11:27.200 of speech the freedom of threat the p freedom of press the freedom of religion and you got the freedom

01:11:32.720 to say whatever the hell you want so if somebody say whatever they want to me i'm glad i could say what

01:11:37.760 i want back whether it's right or wrong hold on when we're talking about right and wrong good and

01:11:43.920 evil we're not this this isn't something necessarily legislated we're not saying this should be like a

01:11:50.880 crime you shouldn't be allowed to say so there's already agreement that it's a free it is free speech

01:11:56.960 but are you saying you can't make determinations as to what kind of speech or words that people say that

01:12:04.560 you on your own level find reprehensible

01:12:13.920 hold on let me phrase it like let me frame it like this it might be a bit better have you had a

01:12:18.560 boyfriend right i've had friends they were boys you've been involved with men romantically has a

01:12:24.560 man ever said something rude to you of course so we would agree that it's freedom of speech to say rude

01:12:30.560 things yeah but would you agree that it's wrong or bad or you shouldn't say rude things to people

01:12:36.800 well he may not have thought it was wrong that's just the freedom of speech that he had okay what

01:12:40.480 if i'm just standing for what carly church if a guy called you he wanted to say and debate whatever

01:12:45.840 he wanted people can say and debate whatever he wanted i don't think he would disagree that

01:12:50.160 somebody could say whatever they wanted whether it was good or bad because are we talking about

01:12:54.160 logic or are we talking about emotions if you were in a relationship with a guy is there anything

01:13:00.240 that the guy could say to you that would upset you of course like he called you a name or he was

01:13:06.560 verbally abusive yeah and that'd be wrong right of course okay so you're able to make determinations

01:13:12.640 there so but you would not accept for example the justification well i have freedom of speech

01:13:18.480 ergo i just haven't gathered i have freedom of speech ergo i should be able to be verbally abusive

01:13:25.520 to my partner you'd be like no it's it's wrong to be verbally abusive even though you have the

01:13:30.080 freedom to be verbally abusive i just haven't gathered that much of an opinion about it people

01:13:34.800 are using their freedom of speech which charlie kirk so-called stood for so if they standing on

01:13:39.520 that i don't think he would just because you can do something doesn't mean you should yeah you

01:13:43.280 don't need the bell the chart of rights and freedoms to tell you whether and then that's just

01:13:46.880 hypocritical because it's only okay when you're not offended what wait exactly why are we smearing

01:13:54.000 the conversation i said what i said let's just move on i don't know i've explained it three different

01:14:06.480 ways okay uh your thoughts i think it's terrible i i it's actually beyond my comprehension that

01:14:15.760 it can't universally be agreed upon that murdering someone in front of their children and wife

01:14:23.200 and thousands of other people is is wrong and not something that should be celebrated the other

01:14:30.800 thing is if you look i didn't agree with charlie kirk on every position that he took

01:14:36.800 i think he had the right to say it and he at least he encouraged that dialogue and a lot of

01:14:41.360 people are not doing that so i think he really paved the way in a lot of different ways and

01:14:48.560 sure everybody has their freedom of speech they can say what they want they can feel however they want

01:14:54.320 i just think that it's a matter of decorum i think it's distasteful to put online or

01:15:02.240 amongst your friends or your co-workers that you're happy somebody died i i think that that

01:15:10.320 is just distasteful there are certain things that you wouldn't say in a public forum like a racial slur

01:15:16.480 or something of that sort uh and you have to understand if you say those sorts of things that

01:15:21.280 are inflammatory and distasteful there could be potential consequences of that so i i i don't agree

01:15:27.840 i don't hate people if they're glad that he died but i think it's distasteful and gross

01:15:35.680 maybe i want to take one final crack at explaining this okay for example somebody to to you madam

01:15:41.520 what's your what's her government you got my name right there you go i'm gonna call you h or something

01:15:46.720 i don't know give me a nickname careful careful of that nick um okay so i believe somebody has the

01:15:55.200 freedom of speech to walk up to a racial minority and say a racial slur i think that nobody should do

01:16:01.840 that and that that's wrong but they technically have the freedom of speech to do it and they may

01:16:08.240 there may very well be consequences for that kind of speech either directly from the person they're

01:16:13.040 saying it to although that well that not justifying that either but there would be

01:16:18.640 like if i walk up to like a really buff guy and i'm like what's up bitch like to like i'm probably

01:16:26.960 gonna get smacked in the face like technically he doesn't give him like legal justification to

01:16:32.720 assault me but like if i walk up to somebody and like a dude and i'm like what's up pussy i'm

01:16:39.600 getting a fucking smack in the face in that same vein though uh i don't think and i i would say it's

01:16:46.080 wrong to walk up to somebody and call them a racial slur do you agree with that everybody has

01:16:53.680 they wrong and everybody got they right all right that that's uh thank you if you didn't like charlie

01:16:58.800 kirk it's okay to say thank you for engaging i appreciated somebody who advocates for freedom

01:17:03.760 of speech all right moving on what about you what do you think oh um quick thoughts if you can please

01:17:10.240 please just yes um i can hear erica crying in my heart i can just hear crying from wherever she is

01:17:19.680 and the reason why i bring that up is because in the book of genesis in the bible when cain killed abel

01:17:25.360 it says that abel's blood was crying up from the ground to the lord and i believe that charlie kirk will

01:17:33.340 have his day in god's court and many people who um have disparaged him i have no doubt that they will

01:17:42.540 bow down to him and they will know that god has loved him and you can read that in revelation all

01:17:49.260 right thank you chloe your thoughts yeah i didn't um you know i agree with some some topics of charlie

01:17:55.660 kirks um a majority disagreed with um however i find it awfully moronic how the left in the us is

01:18:03.580 supposed to be like so anti-gun yet they're the first ones to celebrate an assassination i think

01:18:08.380 that's absolutely ridiculous and the highest form of hypocrisy but um everybody look hypocritical to me

01:18:16.460 anyways what what can you do about it right i think it's pretty tragic that he got killed in front

01:18:20.860 of his children i don't think that's a a boss way to go out or however she put it i think sorry i'm

01:18:27.180 just speaking i think it's awfully tragic and anyone that's celebrating it needs uh to take a good look

01:18:33.420 at themselves in the mirror uh okay all right um yeah do you want to revise the whole boss way to go out

01:18:44.940 thing i say badass he died doing what he loved wouldn't we all want to die doing what we loved

01:18:52.780 we die unhappy your choice oh boy all right um you know in in a strange way i i kind of understand

01:19:01.260 what you're saying because obviously it's horrific it's terrible but think of the conversation that this

01:19:09.500 has led to think of all the new turning point chapters that this has started if you're going to die

01:19:15.660 at least he died in a way that his legacy is being magnified like tenfold over it's sparking national

01:19:26.060 conversation i think it will lead more people to the right once again it's a terrible thing but if you

01:19:31.180 have the option i'm going to get hit by a bus or i'm going to be killed in a way that sparks

01:19:39.980 movement and sparks reaction and continues my legacy for generations to come right maybe that would be

01:19:49.340 preferable i don't know in a i don't necessarily completely agree with you but i kind of understand

01:19:54.540 what you're saying a little bit so what i'm hearing is that uh we should be okay with evil things because

01:20:02.060 good things can come out of them somehow no that's just real life we can't avoid bad

01:20:06.140 shit happening that it's a good thou shalt not kill that's one of the ten and you're supposed to

01:20:11.420 everybody love thy neighbor but it don't seem like you're doing that so you gotta apply all the rules i

01:20:17.580 don't i don't i don't think she said that it was a good thing that charlie kirk was i i at no point

01:20:22.300 look i'm not defending one person or that i don't think she ever said that it was a good thing he was

01:20:28.140 kidding uh but i like using the example if you're going to get hit by a bus

01:20:34.380 or your death is going to spark a national movement that you started from the ground up

01:20:38.940 right that sounds like how the devil's logic is

01:20:43.820 do you think he would rather have gotten here by a bus hates the devil y'all sure you

01:20:47.340 no one gets to determine when somebody dies there's a reason why it's in the top 10 of the commandments

01:20:54.060 that right thou shall not kill is a commandment and that i love thy neighbor and nobody is killing

01:21:00.380 our neighbors loving them i don't think anyone's saying that you're putting words in my mouth and i do

01:21:04.860 not appreciate that barrier wisdom donated 200 for chair five free speech matters but if we stop

01:21:17.740 caring about right and wrong the streets pay the price no morals means more bodies more chaos that's

01:21:25.020 not freedom that's decay i think the rights are just a good fundamentals to start with however things

01:21:32.220 go after that it's just life we can't cry over spilled milk like shit happens in life we can't

01:21:38.140 avoid real life this ain't the internet okay i think everybody here universally agrees that it is

01:21:46.620 wrong and unfair to randomly shoot a human being that you disagree with and that that is a terrible

01:21:52.540 thing that should not be done i'm pretty sure everybody agrees on a baseline at that concept i don't

01:22:00.780 think anybody is celebrating or saying that it is justified or okay

01:22:07.900 okay i have a question never mind i have to wait till she gets back

01:22:15.820 okay um so i have a question for the whole panel what's your relationship status

01:22:21.420 if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've been in

01:22:25.260 starting with you i'm single um what was it when when did we break up um yeah when did you break

01:22:32.700 up okay i'm single i've been single for two years my longest relationship is nine years

01:22:38.140 okay and how did that end like amicably we were together when we were really young so we just grew

01:22:44.460 up different people like mutual yeah it was mutual yeah okay okay and then you said you've been single

01:22:49.660 for two years has anyone been in the picture in the past two years i've had like little something

01:22:53.100 somethings but nothing exclusive no i don't i cannot because i was i was in a relationship like my whole

01:22:59.420 life like my whole adolescence i've kind of wanted to just be single be me so you've just been having

01:23:06.300 like situationships and such okay yeah just having a good time okay not even to be fair oh just i don't

01:23:12.140 sleep around so okay um i'll go back to you so the question was relationship status if you're single

01:23:19.980 how long have you been single and what is your longest relationship oh um a single um longest relationship

01:23:29.580 i don't know sort of undefined i guess it's hard to say how long have you been single oh um i would

01:23:40.780 say probably a year so were you like on and off with the last person sure yeah was that your longest

01:23:47.900 relationship yeah undefined relationship okay was it like a situationship yeah probably just like no

01:23:55.260 labels or anything but like did you say like i love you no how long was it on and off a few months

01:24:04.700 oh okay like less than six yeah okay so not that long no okay i'm not a huge dater got it okay what

01:24:12.620 about you i am freshly single probably about like a month or so my longest relationship was six years

01:24:20.220 and i'm sorry what was the other part of the three-tier question relationship status um if

01:24:26.780 you're single how long have you been single and what's your longest relationship oh yeah so there

01:24:30.300 you go the longest relationship was six years and i'm single and i've been single for like about a

01:24:34.460 month was that the one that ended a month ago no okay what was the one that ended a month ago um so

01:24:41.660 we were friends we've been friends for like almost six years and then we started dating probably back

01:24:49.260 in january and then that's when um i stepped away from everything and because i'm regardless of the work

01:24:59.260 that we were discussing earlier i don't believe that while in a relationship that those kinds of things

01:25:06.700 should go on so i had stepped away from everything and was really trying to have a traditional

01:25:13.020 relationship and um there's a lot of infidelity lies um dishonesty and it just unfortunately ended very

01:25:24.220 ugly so you cheated on him no no oh my god no so how did you find out he cheated on you um i was

01:25:33.900 shooting his content while he was in the studio so oh i was shooting his content um you know just

01:25:39.980 getting like bts of um his studio stuff and these messages just keep popping up these messages and i'm

01:25:46.380 never one to go through anybody's phone if i feel like i have to do that i'm done i'm out i'm gone

01:25:50.540 this isn't this isn't where i need to be um and all these messages just kept popping up and i

01:25:55.980 pretty much saw enough and there was just levels to it and um then yeah so and how long did you say

01:26:05.820 that relationship was about eight months but unfortunately we were friends so for much longer

01:26:12.380 okay um what about the you said six years yes and when did that end back in 2020 and how did it end

01:26:21.180 um i think we were just both in very different okay uh yeah i'm single i've been single for four

01:26:31.340 years and my longest relationship was four years okay and how long have you been single again sorry

01:26:38.140 four years okay um so was that four years ago the four year yeah and how did that end um he was very

01:26:45.340 abusive towards me so um the police got involved i had to move it was didn't end very well but that's

01:26:52.220 why i've been healing from that i've gone to therapy just working on myself okay and in the past four

01:26:58.380 years have any other guys been in the picture not really no i'm i like just sitting at home with my

01:27:03.260 cats i'm not uh i'm not really a date no hookups or anything no not really other than work i don't

01:27:10.620 i haven't slept with anyone off camera in four years okay so like for only fans yeah yeah yeah

01:27:16.300 but that's a bit i class that is different okay because i don't have emotional connection to these

01:27:24.060 guys so okay and how many would you say you've seen not many i don't do many collabs so oh okay okay

01:27:31.980 what about you i've always been single but i'm always ready to mingle

01:27:35.580 you have the longest relationship i've never been in one oh sorry um like situationship

01:27:42.940 situations i'll probably have set a standard for about six months and that person just didn't rise

01:27:50.540 to it so maybe about six months is the longest when was your last i guess situationship um

01:27:58.300 that was back when i was studying in school as of lately i've just been trying to work so

01:28:03.100 i would say like last year okay and was it mutual or did someone end it no it was nothing to end it

01:28:09.420 it was just you just like stopped talking grew apart it was just fun okay okay what about you

01:28:16.060 um i have a long-term monogamous uh partner um because of his job we keep our relationship very

01:28:25.420 private um which is the exact opposite of my job which is you know very public facing so

01:28:30.780 uh we've been together for several years for how many years did you say several oh several okay

01:28:36.540 so about three and that's your longest yes okay okay have you had any relationships before i did i

01:28:43.340 had a few other long-term boyfriends that were one or two years okay okay what about you um i'm single

01:28:51.900 longest relationship i've been in was two and a half years and i'm waiting on the lord for my godly

01:28:59.020 dangerous gentleman nice how long have you been single uh three years and three years ago was that

01:29:09.180 the two and a half year relationship that ended yes ma'am and how did it end was it mutual or no um

01:29:16.140 well he was interested in me at first and i wasn't and then when it flip-flopped um he told me that he

01:29:22.540 never wants to get married to anybody at all and then lo and behold he's married now but i dodged a

01:29:30.380 bullet on that one thing to thanks to the lord was he also religious yes um but i had some issues with

01:29:39.980 some of the things he believed but i kind of looked over them um because of other things and i he's never

01:29:46.060 had a girlfriend or anything like that before so i didn't think he really knew how to have one so i

01:29:50.860 gave him the benefit of the doubt and the grace and um you know i still care about him um but not in

01:29:57.260 that way anymore um but yeah i'm i'm thankful that i do have a future to look forward to yeah what

01:30:07.980 beliefs did you disagree with about him he said that he wanted to be like the angels in heaven um because

01:30:17.020 they don't marry or aren't given in marriage so he wanted to be like that um but he also had a

01:30:23.740 resolution that he said um to never get married but i was the one who shook that conviction of his

01:30:31.500 so it definitely hit me for a side swipe when i ended up loving him and he just he told me that he

01:30:41.100 only wanted to talk to me because i brought him closest to the lord um so yeah it was pretty

01:30:48.380 selfish of him uh to use me like that i do forgive him but um i hope that no one ever has to go through

01:30:56.380 what i went through with that sound like he just wanted to get into that pussy

01:31:01.020 no no he actually he was the reason why i liked him was because he was a good boy he was righteous and

01:31:08.060 he loved the lord um i would not have been interested in him otherwise um i'm very strict

01:31:13.980 about who i um date um i've only dated twice since i've come to christ that's good and i i like good

01:31:23.180 i like good old boys they're the best yeah i think she said that she's a virgin yeah oh just because

01:31:30.220 she's a virgin doesn't mean nobody trying to fuck her i'm not saying that i'm just saying that um

01:31:35.420 um yeah she said it was religious reasons that he was using her and not explicitly yeah i'm saying

01:31:43.580 that's really degrading it's not you're degrading that's degrading natural it's that's part of you're

01:31:48.700 degrading me that's making me into a sexual object yeah well we are we're women i'm not a sexual object

01:31:54.860 whatever you call yourself that's what you can be and that's the best part about america you are what

01:31:59.980 you want to be do you talk like that to everybody i'll talk like this yes i'm the same person that

01:32:06.300 everybody that people just want to f me that is that okay to say to somebody i think it's the truth

01:32:10.940 no that's not okay you don't even know me why would you say i don't know you but i'm not gonna

01:32:14.700 lie to you okay well spare me the okay keep me pure and don't say anything like that to you what

01:32:21.100 you have to understand is it's not personal to you she has an ideology of how men are and she's

01:32:25.580 projecting that onto you i know nothing to do it it's just a truth okay um no no i meant that in a

01:32:33.500 good way to you no i'm not stupid like some people think that i am i'm uh in fact i find that as an

01:32:39.020 advantage sometimes it is definitely is i don't think nobody's stupid anyways moving on i am engaged

01:32:47.180 i got engaged last year february 21st oh very pretty very cute yeah congratulations okay and

01:32:58.380 how long have you been with him almost two years okay and this is your longest relationship no my

01:33:03.100 longest is three and a half years oh how did that end uh we were like teenagers and just kind of

01:33:10.140 outgrew each other it's a long story but it was amicable it was good mutual yeah okay got it and then

01:33:15.980 um so that you said the other one was two years or three years my current one then no the previous

01:33:22.780 one who i dated before that yeah oh god i don't know oh yeah that was three and a half years oh well

01:33:29.180 who was who was in between that oh i've only had like i think two i've only dated a total of five people

01:33:35.020 so and all of them have been long term so i'm not okay 100 percent sure to be honest with you i think

01:33:40.220 it was like a year and a half the one before that okay but he passed away so i'm sorry r.i.p

01:33:46.380 oh my gosh that's actually really sad i know i started darkening it up no it's fine it's fine

01:33:50.940 well you're engaged i'm very happy for you thank you when's the wedding uh we're just

01:33:56.780 still saving for it i don't know two years from now 20 20 uh what seven i think two years from now

01:34:03.180 28 2028 we'll get married okay nice nice and i'm gonna ask different questions um

01:34:09.660 um brian should i just do the questionnaire

01:34:17.100 i'm coming back okay all right all right we're gonna jump into a questionnaire

01:34:26.140 got the questionnaire here uh let's see going around the table actually you know what no let's

01:34:32.460 do sorry i had to step away for a moment we have a chat coming through from if it'll load

01:34:40.060 wait did i do this one already sorry if i didn't barrier wisdom donated 200 for chair five free speech

01:34:51.980 matters but if we stop caring about right and wrong the streets pay the price no morals means more bodies

01:34:59.180 more chaos that's not freedom that's decay damn yo barry thank you for the uh thank you for the

01:35:07.340 uh 200 tts sorry for the delay on that if you want because of the delay if you want to send in

01:35:13.180 uh our minimum threshold is 10 i'll treat it as a tts basically i'll just read it for 10 just

01:35:18.540 because of the delay there sorry about that man i had to step away there for a moment okay so the

01:35:23.100 question is we have from our friend stifler after a very long time away ask everyone to rate their own

01:35:30.700 looks on a scale of one to ten you can't pick seven we're gonna who do i start with we're gonna

01:35:37.500 start with you go ahead of course i consider myself a nine nine okay then we're gonna come over here go

01:35:43.180 around oh um i mean it depends how i feel it changes all the time sometimes i feel like a six and

01:35:49.180 sometimes i feel like a ten it just depends how i'm feeling okay um i don't think i can be objective

01:35:54.940 about it because it's hard to have an objective point of view of what you look like what's your

01:35:59.980 subjective point of view i just said oh it depends on how i feel how do you feel right now right now

01:36:06.540 well i just got pulled off the street so i would say i would say i feel you look beautiful thank you

01:36:13.580 so much yeah you do since i can't say seven maybe an eight okay all right wait can you do me a favor

01:36:18.700 can you move that glass to your other side there um hold on i need to go

01:36:39.260 does it look crazy on camera no it's good uh anyways um what do you rate yourself on a scale of one to

01:36:45.100 10 i don't know i think maybe like 6.5 okay what about you today's definitely a six today's a six

01:36:55.660 sorry what about you i say nine because confidence is key nine because okay uh well you said nine what

01:37:03.740 about you this is looks alone yeah just looks i would say a six okay what about you five because

01:37:11.580 of my weight all right chloe what about you i actually usually say seven so i'm gonna say

01:37:17.100 eight i'm feeling good all right there you go i give myself a five uh we do have two remarkably

01:37:24.300 attractive women though at the table we have a nine and a nine you and you uh so what i'd like to do

01:37:30.700 typically when we have model quality women here at the table i like to ask uh could you tell me like a

01:37:37.980 woman who's a celebrity who you think is a nine i think every woman is a 10 to be honest i love

01:37:47.580 women no i love women you said you were a nine though yeah so just be clear all other women are

01:37:53.900 tens but you're down here at nine yeah because i love women i think women are superior wait hold on

01:38:00.780 i think every woman on this table is a 10 women are superior let's dive into that are you talking

01:38:07.900 because the conversation's about looks are you talking about looks no not in general okay so

01:38:12.060 i think women are like superheroes they're amazing i'm sorry if you don't have that view but i just

01:38:18.220 think women just how are women superheroes like all women are superheroes just by virtue of yeah they've

01:38:25.100 got so much strength physical strength no what kind of mental strength they carry a baby for nine

01:38:31.660 months okay birth to the baby you're a parent you work women education they do it all well so not all

01:38:39.660 women though want to have children yeah that's true i think the majority of women here don't have

01:38:44.060 children so because the women who haven't had children here are they not superheroes yet no i still

01:38:50.460 think they're great but that was your justification for women being super but they can they can carry

01:38:54.540 children for nine months well i suppose yeah but so could a cow what um okay so i don't want to be

01:39:02.540 classes attending me that's fine i'm trying well you said nine though no i'm trying to compliment

01:39:07.020 everyone but she's being a bit funny about it me yeah i didn't say anything i just said you said a

01:39:12.940 cat was can carry it you do say something yeah you can speak yeah you can speak good yeah i i will um

01:39:20.140 so giving birth does not automatically make you a grace to god that's i don't believe in god so it

01:39:26.060 doesn't affect me it's cloy you're an atheist or agnostic me are you like what i'm copped

01:39:32.780 an orthodox christian oh no what oh okay no but i'm wearing a cross right now right well the point

01:39:39.660 i was trying to make is sometimes people use terms and it like thank god it's not like okay well i'm not

01:39:45.900 uh we're just it's common language we don't really say that in the uk yeah you say oh my word

01:39:55.100 kind of yeah uh women are superior let's dive in though women are superior what do you mean by that

01:40:01.260 i just think that they're great okay well every woman that i know is the strongest woman that i've

01:40:06.540 ever met every how could that pot hold on every woman you've met is the strongest woman you've ever

01:40:13.820 met yeah so they're just all equally strong yep i think women are strong i mean if you don't agree

01:40:21.260 and you think women are below you then that's your issue not me i don't think that's what you're

01:40:26.460 saying no that's not what i'm saying i'm questioning your position yeah that's fine so

01:40:31.580 i can appreciate women and i think these are different yeah but hold on i i think women are great

01:40:39.100 too why i think women are amazing i just do well okay but hold on you're you're kind of smuggling in

01:40:44.940 a different yeah you are you're smuggling in something very different from what you originally

01:40:49.100 said you originally said women are superior so i think women are great i think women are amazing

01:40:53.580 but i'm not prepared to say women are superior that's that i wouldn't make that claim in either

01:40:58.460 direction i think although i would say that women are better at some things men are better at some

01:41:02.780 things but i don't think either or is superior that's quite strong language explain to me the

01:41:08.940 superior component i just did you can't carry no no no so hold on you said women are amazing yeah

01:41:15.740 sure i there's okay no contest not contesting why would because women amazing why would that translate

01:41:22.780 to women superior i don't really need to justify why i think women are superior i just do that's just

01:41:28.300 the way that i feel you kind of when you make a claim it's not really you kind of have to opinion

01:41:34.220 right okay you have a different opinion even even an opinion can be backed up with justification

01:41:40.620 yeah but i don't feel like i need to justify myself you came onto a yeah like if a man was

01:41:45.500 sitting here i appreciate you don't swear at me i haven't swore at you please don't swear at me

01:41:49.420 i would appreciate you not wasting time and trolling and just engaging in good faith

01:41:53.820 you've agreed to come look you've agreed to come on the podcast and have various discussions you

01:41:59.740 guys asked reached out what two three months ago you you have some familiar familiarity with the

01:42:05.180 program if you just say well i i'm just gonna throw out an opinion but i don't feel i'm not

01:42:11.100 gonna justify the i actually haven't watched the podcast okay great congrats you're now on the

01:42:15.980 podcast yeah but if you're gonna say something and you're engaged in a discussion-based podcast

01:42:20.780 i'm having a discussion with you but i agree right but so when i ask you for your justification

01:42:26.700 yeah i'm not asking you to reveal your social security number i'm asking why do you think the

01:42:33.020 thing that you think that's fair game on a discussion podcast i just think like that i don't i never

01:42:38.380 thought that i would need to justify why i think if a man were to sit up here and be like men are

01:42:43.180 superior to women would you not want to like i don't really care about people people have different

01:42:47.500 opinions that's fine can i ask something because i'm i'm just a little confused i'm trying to

01:42:52.620 follow yeah i can completely recognize the difficulty of women giving birth and how magical

01:43:01.100 that is um maybe i blanked out for a little bit i was just a little confused how that pertained to

01:43:06.540 your initial all women are tense if we're looking just at physical i just think that all women are

01:43:12.540 beautiful i know oh okay sorry i was i was like oh my gosh i think i missed something no no i just

01:43:18.220 look at every woman and think that they are beautiful i never i'm never one to drag on people's

01:43:22.780 looks are are all men tens i mean it depends wait hold on why were you so confident in saying all

01:43:29.740 women are tens why can't you say it's just the relationship that i've had with men i have a better

01:43:34.300 relationship with women than men and that's why my opinion can be tainted uh kai baka thank you for

01:43:40.300 the gifted 20 subs it's not letting me pull it up but thank you kai baka ppc in the chat thank you

01:43:46.220 uh okay all women are tens women are superior um well i guess i'll go back to my question um

01:43:54.380 can you tell me a woman who you think is a nine or a den that's what we was yeah um

01:44:00.700 are you on that she's a nine or a ten she's a ten and no clarification are you a nine or are you

01:44:07.980 a ten i'm a nine but you said all women are tens are you trans or something or no oh okay well

01:44:16.060 if you're if all women are tens you're a woman in my eyes attend so everyone not but not you i think it

01:44:22.380 lends itself to my point about how it's hard to make an objective opinion about yourself because i

01:44:26.300 think your view of yourself is warped more than your view of other people yep we all ugly to somebody

01:44:33.580 not me but i mean you know everybody ugly to somebody and every is good looking what about

01:44:38.540 you um tell me a woman who you think is a nine or um nia long lisa ray mccoy so not late then

01:44:47.980 uh who the fuck is that guy i don't know i don't know anybody the people you just named well you can

01:44:53.100 pull them up they're all beautiful women okay nick pull up one i guess what was the nia long which

01:44:59.180 one's the most beautiful nia uh i like how lisa ray mccoy looks what's her name lisa ray mccoy lisa

01:45:06.460 ray mccoy yeah let's see some photos they're all actresses we have very beautiful women here at the

01:45:12.220 table guys every oh she is beautiful um beautiful like young her or current she's aging gracefully in my

01:45:24.860 opinion she's a little bit older maybe 60s i would say yeah you gotta look up her players club her

01:45:32.140 players club pictures so if you're gonna ask me a question see the question throughout

01:45:36.140 don't try to who's a woman who's a 10 for you me yeah um taylor swift

01:45:42.380 taylor swift is is a i don't know how you americans think of her we like her we love her in the uk

01:45:53.100 well you like her music or because we're talking about looks yeah she's beautiful inside and out okay

01:45:59.580 um pull it up just i mean people probably know what taylor swift looks like i guess but

01:46:05.500 all right there you go you got taylor swift so um you're just you're nine she's a 10 you're one

01:46:12.860 point below her and yeah in in um in looks yep you can disagree that's fine okay all right okay all right

01:46:26.780 um i guess as it relates to this uh subjectivity so obviously beauty is

01:46:33.420 uh it's it is subjective but it's not strictly subjective there are i believe there are some

01:46:42.380 objective components to beauty

01:46:48.940 yes okay i guess all right nobody has any pushback on that no brian it's strictly it's strictly subjective

01:46:55.580 beauty strip strictly subjective we have pelagic here he just sent three clown emojis nick pull it

01:47:01.260 up in the supers there it is pelagic three clown emojis okay well he disagrees he disagrees that's

01:47:12.060 fine uh i guess how about a guy can you tell me a guy who you think is a nine henry cavill henry cavill's

01:47:18.940 nine yep nick google a photo of henry cavill please and then we'll go to the discord looks tab

01:47:28.300 afterwards if you want to also work on that uh okay henry cavill so do you um

01:47:36.780 pull up uh henry the mustache one there from men's health he's so at the top top middle top middle

01:47:45.260 men's health just click all right henry cavill okay there he is uh just curious show of hands who here

01:47:53.020 finds henry cavill attractive is he good looking guy all right i mean he's not ugly

01:47:58.940 oh he's no if you're looking at this i mean the surface people have different so

01:48:03.820 you know look i think typically people tend to pair up in their same range you're nine you say henry

01:48:12.620 cavill's nine yeah i believe he's single currently no i think he has a baby and a wife

01:48:18.060 okay hypothetically i want to think he's single do you think uh you could i'm not really interested

01:48:25.260 in dating so no if you were if you were yeah wait hold on just to be clear if henry cavill slides into

01:48:33.020 your dms tonight you're gonna be like you know what henry not really uh timing timing's not right

01:48:40.540 yeah i mean it would depend on the situation because he has got a baby and a wife so that's

01:48:46.300 gonna stop you from dating henry cavill yeah the well okay if he's single i don't know if the baby

01:48:54.380 should stop you i think it depends on the relationship he has with his baby mom i don't

01:48:59.420 want to step on anything like that is he married i think i don't know the details i think if he's

01:49:04.860 married obviously but in this hypothetical scenario world i mean it would never happen because it's

01:49:09.820 hypothetical what would never happen well i'd never be in the same room as henry cavill i mean

01:49:15.900 that's probably true um but so you uh just on the looks front though

01:49:27.900 you and henry cavill i mean he's a man so it's a bit different because they have different features

01:49:33.740 that that that yeah that's that is true men women do have different features but it's okay to

01:49:42.220 disagree but it's fine but yeah like i i have confidence are you in his here are you in his

01:49:48.540 league are you in henry cavill's league no because he's a man put a woman next to me wait what hold on

01:49:55.740 what you realize what you're talking about are you are you bisexual no you're heterosexual yes you're

01:50:02.700 straight yeah so your league would you're wanting me to date henry your league would comprise of men

01:50:08.780 what can we just like answer questions directly and not be like disingenuous and like yeah thank

01:50:15.260 you chloe i know she's true it's like just engage also don't complain if the show goes late because

01:50:21.180 like you guys can't just give me like just give me just give me the answer yes that's your answer yes

01:50:28.380 i want to guess you're i want to be up your ass too brian yes yes you're not going to because i'm

01:50:34.220 fat and you're not and that's what the issue is yes you're in henry cavill's league yeah cheers

01:50:40.940 are you gonna ask me i'm gonna ask you hold on thank you the asteroid i sent the asteroid hold

01:50:52.140 on dude that actually scared me how do you oh how about this check this out chloe i sent the missiles

01:50:58.860 i'm blown up the way it angled in it was perfect i know it was coming right through the window it was

01:51:04.620 yeah i was like it would have seared the side of your face first what in america i would have used

01:51:10.380 you as a human shield um so okay who's a guy who you think is a nine morris chestnut morris all right

01:51:20.540 i don't know who these people are who the fuck is that morris morris he is a popular actor you don't

01:51:26.460 know this guy from the 1930s no like the 90s and early 2000s yeah you gotta keep up with more black

01:51:32.540 people oh okay handsome dude ain't he handsome all right there you go he got his pussy

01:51:41.420 so uh do you your league yeah what have you slid into his dms i would i should huh yeah do it right

01:51:51.580 now actually go get no i'm just kidding i don't got my phone um all right that's cool all right um

01:51:56.220 you gotta slide into his i'll just say this why can't yeah sure i'll dm him hey do you want to be

01:52:03.100 on the show and you gotta you gotta bring me hey i'm gonna get sylvester stallone on the show because

01:52:08.380 you know whatever he watches i guess he watched the clip i should say uh i guess look my my uh criticism

01:52:15.740 here would be why don't or why can't average women just say they're average

01:52:26.300 because women are vain you know we are all about our looks so i don't think a woman wants to accept

01:52:32.220 if she's ugly or not well i think what the problem is culturally you're right i guess i i think what has

01:52:40.620 happened like within the last five years is that if you look in the early 2000s we as a society were

01:52:47.340 so hard on women for how they looked like do you remember that picture of jessica simpson

01:52:52.220 and everyone called her like obese for being a size six and he had like some of these runway shows

01:52:58.540 you know where they would just degrade these girls for you know maybe being 120 pounds and then i think

01:53:05.020 what happened is combined with other different social trends is that like a lot of things

01:53:11.020 happening in america the pendulum swung so far in the other direction because there was all this

01:53:16.940 negativity that was sort of unwarranted hold on wait beauty standards for women yes have been always

01:53:25.980 difficult but i would say they're way worse now in 2025 than they were back then and my argument simply

01:53:33.660 would be if you look at the proliferation of plastic surgery it's way more the case that

01:53:38.620 women are getting all these different they're getting fake breasts they're getting lipo they're

01:53:42.460 getting bbl they're getting a buck ton of work done on their face yes okay there was an expectation that

01:53:48.060 women be a certain dress size or be thin or skinny or whatever or whatever it is back then well i say

01:53:54.540 it's still the case now although there's perhaps more there's different body types that are deemed as

01:54:00.140 attractive like the thick curvy whatever but there's still women who don't perfectly fall

01:54:05.660 into any of these categories still today and then with the rampant uh proliferation of plastic surgery

01:54:12.620 which i think makes things way more way further away from achievability if back then it was just like

01:54:19.180 okay just be skinny but back then 20 years ago there wasn't like a massive expectation that women be

01:54:24.620 blasted with botox have lip filler have the buccal fat removal have lipo belly have fake tits like it

01:54:31.660 would be maybe women like uh you'd see one out of ten women who had no one out of 100 women who had

01:54:39.260 fake titties back then and that was it they got fake titties that was it you didn't see the fake the

01:54:45.260 crazy lips you didn't see any of the shit now it's way now they're getting these surgeries a lot of them

01:54:50.380 are dangerous so i'd say the beauty standards are worse today than they were 20 years ago well if

01:54:55.900 more men called it ugly then maybe women would stop doing it okay i'll do it i should i say that all

01:55:01.180 that that shit looks terrible thank you for saying that well don't get plastic surgery i i think a

01:55:06.220 problem is is and maybe i'm biased because i did i grew up in the entertainment industry i competed in

01:55:11.820 pageants those sorts of things have always existed and there's always been a lot of people there's a lot

01:55:17.340 of people that have plastic surgery but the accessibility to it and sort of the transparency

01:55:21.980 we're seeing more than ever before people regular people who are not in entertainment are saying oh this

01:55:28.540 is something that i can do this is something i can go pursue so you see more i guess we can call them

01:55:33.900 lay people pursuing these beauty treatments or surgeries um because i think social media while it has

01:55:44.060 made the standard higher it's also kind of taken away the mystique of it maybe you wouldn't know that

01:55:52.300 you know 10 15 20 years ago that the number of celebrities that have plastic surgery or have

01:55:58.300 work done like people thought they actually just looked like that um but now it still exists but it's

01:56:05.500 more rampant because it's not gate kept to the same extent and in my opinion i think whether women want

01:56:11.500 to admit it or not they love male attention so they wouldn't do it if it wasn't for the male attention

01:56:15.900 that they get by doing it so if more men said it was ugly i'm pretty sure women will remove those lip

01:56:22.060 fillers remove those thick asses and be themselves that's not true men have opinions on women all the

01:56:27.900 time and we say no uterus no opinion like what are you talking about women aren't women aren't

01:56:32.860 looking at men and being like well men like men have been saying forever that they find like

01:56:37.740 natural attractive and women have gone like the other way so i just don't think correct and that's

01:56:42.620 the woman's problem by doing something that a man doesn't like that's not the man's problem

01:56:47.660 to piggyback off of what you just said of course um with women like god created us to be beautiful

01:56:54.140 there's a reason why we're the fair sex and um it has been natural throughout all the ages um but in this

01:57:02.700 sadly in this very crooked generation that we live in um the enemy of their souls are just laughing

01:57:10.460 he's laughing at you the way that women believe lies these days there's there's no even resistance

01:57:16.140 anymore it's like oh this liberty did okay i'll do it too like it's just it's ridiculous i don't get

01:57:21.260 where that conversation just went let's move on what the hell are you talking about to play devil's

01:57:26.620 advocate with you though i think a lot of women pursue these things not necessarily for the male

01:57:33.500 gaze i think a lot of people do it for their own either self-esteem or because they want to pursue

01:57:41.100 it because you're right there are a lot of men that are straight up saying i don't like this look i

01:57:46.700 don't like the lip filler i don't like that but women are pursuing it anyway and i i think there are

01:57:52.380 there are a lot of women because it makes them feel good it it is how they want to be

01:57:57.820 presented or or express themselves that's just my opinion well yeah it's definitely some of these

01:58:03.820 procedures are not strictly for the male gaze like i'm trying to see if i posted something in the discord

01:58:09.420 but if brian doesn't like lip fillers or ass injections i sure ain't getting it oh thank you you

01:58:16.060 welcome w um i mean me personally when it comes to plastic surgery i'd prefer

01:58:21.180 and you know people will say well you'd still like what these surgeries are trying to replicate

01:58:27.820 but i i would say this and i've said it a bunch of times on the show almost any plastic surgery

01:58:33.420 procedure you could list to me i'd prefer the person as they were prior to the procedure so it's like

01:58:41.100 perfect fake breasts i'd prefer a girl who has like nothing or an a cup over perfect fake breasts i

01:58:47.340 prefer a girl with no butt over a girl with a bbl i prefer a girl with a little belly fat over the

01:58:52.620 lipo belly i think it looks weird i'd prefer um you also have to give attention to that though because

01:58:58.060 you're highlighting women with bbls and fake titties but you're not highlighting the beautiful women that

01:59:02.940 don't have any of that so you can do that wait what do you mean it's just you can do that you

01:59:07.820 interrupted him to tell him to do something that he's already i'll find you a bunch of women with small

01:59:13.340 titties i'll be like she's beautiful dude don't get some but you didn't start with that though

01:59:17.980 you're finishing with it but you didn't start with it i'm just saying what she's just trying really

01:59:22.540 hard to have a point i don't know why like what's hard to follow here oh i had a point i proved it

01:59:27.580 i mean it's a conversation is it not holy it's a conversation brain cells

01:59:34.860 losing brain cells um somebody's bitter me oh i said somebody oh like you better label yourself

01:59:46.140 as bitter if the shoe fits then wear it bookie okay okay no i think that you're actually just

01:59:51.500 like really rude and you've come to this table with some sort of like stank attitude you're really

01:59:56.460 rude you think i'm rude yeah i think i'm actually i don't think you're okay okay i'm not trying to

02:00:00.300 what about i'm just trying to have a good conversation no i think you're very abrasive

02:00:03.740 and disrespectful and i'm not trying to be disrespectful i respect everybody's opinions

02:00:07.740 that's all part of conversation i hope so because i'm the wrong one you know so

02:00:11.900 i think i got Chloe are you gonna let her call you pookie and get away with it i didn't even hear

02:00:17.580 that she called you pookie i always say i don't hear something when i don't want to address it or when

02:00:22.460 i'm too scared to look if you think that i'm like intimidated by you or that anybody is

02:00:26.700 intimidated by actually just let me speak i don't think anybody's intimidated are you gonna let me

02:00:30.860 speak let chloe speak okay jesus christ you got this i just gotta like maintain my composure yeah

02:00:39.020 it's nothing personal you're pissing me off personal no i just if i'm pissing you off then

02:00:43.260 i'm controlling you because i'm controlling your emotions anyways i'm not intimidated by anybody

02:00:49.740 i'm not gonna intimidate me i didn't say you were babe pipe down relax i think you need to

02:00:54.540 right oh geez getting hot in here well i just think what you're doing is like there's there's

02:01:00.220 a word reactive it's not not abuse but it's like reactive uh you're right there's a term she has

02:01:05.740 been very poking poking poking poking poking i feel abused the moment that somebody reacts to you

02:01:11.260 i'm not trying to poke a bear i'm just trying to have a conversation isn't that what podcasts are for

02:01:17.180 chloe thank you we're not gonna agree on everything uh you have been i feel abused you think so i'm a

02:01:24.140 victim i think you got a kink for that brian what the fuck yeah chloe thank you for sticking up for

02:01:29.820 me back here if you didn't like it why did you just wink at me i don't know maybe it's just something

02:01:34.940 in my eyes all right that good talk i guess um so oh we have uh hold on we got a message here from

02:01:43.420 do me i think this is one of your friends maybe chair three ironically showing us why women aren't

02:01:48.780 superior both genders have their strengths unfortunately being centered in reality isn't

02:01:53.900 a strength for some of these gals shout out to roma army thank you do me for love you do me

02:02:00.140 we also somebody bought a hoodie a sweatshirt or something from the shop the merch shop wait did it

02:02:06.140 come up is it hello is it there it is yeah my cousin bought one last time we were here and it didn't

02:02:12.300 pop up and she was super sad about that that's weird but it's but we got the shirt yeah that's

02:02:17.500 shop.whatever.com oh nick you can pull up the in the stream yard just shop.whatever.com

02:02:22.940 there it is guys get yourself some merch we'll give you a shout out during the stream okay so

02:02:27.500 uh the the looks ratings that's great everybody here is so uh you know just amazing

02:02:33.820 really henry cavill though really if you would disagree that's fine

02:02:37.740 he's really hot stop it get some help what would you rate yourself oh i five oh i didn't

02:02:46.460 hear you yeah wait question uh can you rate me i won't be offended no i think you're an attractive

02:02:51.740 guy just what would you rate just looks though i know i'm a piece of shit i get that i'm a piece of

02:02:58.220 shit and i'm rude blah blah blah just just on my looks a seven okay so if you and me were

02:03:04.380 were we're dating you'd be settling for me no i would never date you your opinions are a bit too

02:03:12.380 much for me wait where is it oh no he can't he can't it's too difficult for him to press a button

02:03:21.420 fuck um but if we were i get that you would never date me that's totally cool ditto um

02:03:29.420 that's fine but like looks wise you'd be settling for me yeah

02:03:38.460 now look chat i know i've gained a bit of weight

02:03:42.700 actually that's all i have to say i'm losing it though boys i'm down five

02:03:45.340 i was gonna say i think you're i think you're losing boys i've been on a diet for like a month boys

02:03:53.260 i'm i'm a i'm a it's coming off finally coming off no no more

02:03:56.620 fucking excuses i've been eating healthy i'm glad i'm glad you i'm listening in your fat bro

02:04:03.020 you do look a little better your hoodie look a little bit cleaner you got your line up

02:04:07.260 thank you trying to get fresh for me head and shoulders you know i

02:04:10.620 getting the damn trip that's the key i still got a few flakes

02:04:15.260 wait sorry i feel like a laughing emoji rolling on the floor laughing emoji

02:04:20.460 i gotta replay i gotta replay it because we were kind of talking over it

02:04:23.900 damn i'm screwing barry i'm screwing barry over tonight damn dude and he didn't even send in a

02:04:29.580 tent wait did he send in a tent to make up for it yeah wait barrio wisdom donated two hundred dollars

02:04:35.980 wild how that's just life turns into attitude when pressed you can fight panelists but you can't

02:04:42.380 fight reality reckoning always comes rolling on the floor laughing emo uh wisdom thank you for that

02:04:50.220 sorry we were talking over it the first time it came through

02:04:58.780 wait what the frick hold on oh we got kablask

02:05:05.100 donated one thousand dollars toast again to the wonderful life of charlie kirk

02:05:10.860 glad to see some intelligent women on this private

02:05:13.340 i will get muted before the end of the night drunk brian last week was cool a f were you drunk last

02:05:20.940 week oh

02:05:21.900 terrified will get muted before the end of the night if i get muted y'all not gonna get anything

02:05:27.580 nick you don't have i am the podcast

02:05:31.740 oh what the fuck okay i don't know why i came through twice

02:05:35.500 yo w's in the chat for this fucking legend wonderful life uh thank you thank you thank you thank you

02:05:41.340 thank you appreciate it uh who here wants champagne that's of age champagne champagne

02:05:46.700 no thank you champagne really i'll take some okay champagne hey you gonna get drunk with us

02:05:51.020 brian champagne no thank you you drink mine i want to see drunk brian oh no yeah i think that's

02:05:57.260 what we all want i hope you're not an abusive toast what did you say only three people are what'd you

02:06:02.700 say should we do oh i think that was i was like i think that's what we want

02:06:06.780 some apple cider apple cider i'll take apple cider it's sparkling it wasn't you non-alcoholic

02:06:12.460 apple cider will you drink apple cider it's a gluten-free oh is it is apple cider gluten-free

02:06:19.340 yes it is we don't have it so i don't know yes it is it's it's gluten-free it's vegan it's

02:06:25.900 it's kosher it's probably i don't know i'll toast all right uh here while i'm doing this

02:06:33.580 chloe uh while i'm opening this do you want to like pose a question to the panelists uh no the

02:06:39.020 the uh other ones do you want to chloe you want to no yes please i'm kind i'm a little distracted

02:06:45.020 chloe so uh take it away we want chloe questions you got this question i like chloe's brain you had

02:06:52.060 something that you wanted to ask chloe's insight when uh like in the pre-show notes that you provided

02:06:56.700 you wanted to uh oh dive into something yeah okay so now that i have the opportunity i wanted to bring it

02:07:02.140 back to you about uh the porn and how it's not hurting anybody now that i have my phone and i

02:07:07.820 have my oh you have your steps a nigga like me would know it off the top of my head i'm just saying

02:07:13.340 what were you saying chloe good for you anyways um so thank you can you just jesus christ where did

02:07:21.180 you find this girl i was thanking you gloves if you guys i was thanking her handle it i don't get where

02:07:26.780 the animosity is coming from it's a conversation do you want anyways oh i used to be a bold girl look

02:07:31.900 at that i got it you sure yeah the problem with these ones is ah let the air out

02:07:40.700 it's not gonna pop do you want me to do that no i'm i'm getting it off but it's not gonna pop

02:07:46.780 that's it that's that we are no longer buying these andre brute or whatever the

02:07:52.060 fuck because they don't pop sorry go ahead go ahead chloe go ahead chloe i wanted to take the

02:07:58.460 opportunity to educate you on the harm of uh porn i've seen your instagram it's all incredibly

02:08:06.700 pornographic so i brought can i just speak you're not can you stop with the like witty it's not like

02:08:14.620 i'm not the one i'm just trying to be direct here thank you i think you're mean i think you are mean

02:08:19.180 jeez girl i think we need to let chloe talk everybody else has had their turn i think

02:08:22.940 chloe needs to have her time thank you so much i appreciate you you don't even know her name damn

02:08:29.740 what were you saying chloe anyways um there's new studies that are coming out about um children and

02:08:35.740 adolescents that are consuming pornographic content the type of content that you make on only fans um

02:08:42.060 and on instagram because i would am i right to assume that you don't have the 16 and under

02:08:47.340 blocker on your instagram in the uk it's against the law to not so we actually do right so there

02:08:52.540 was actually an investigation about that because um a 2025 investigation actually into instagram came

02:08:58.620 in like last month can i talk no i'm just educating her because she doesn't know after she's finished

02:09:03.260 yeah so i have actual statistics um they recently studied uh both in uk this applies for uk usa and

02:09:11.260 canada a 2025 investigation into instagram teen accounts found that the platform does recommend

02:09:18.140 body shaming content and sexually explicit content under the 18 under the age of 18 despite the claims

02:09:25.420 that they don't so that's actually a lie it's a big controversy um so we know we can wipe that away

02:09:33.900 right are you listening are you tuning me out no to be fair continue okay so are you going to have

02:09:39.660 like a good faith because you're happy you're you're sitting here being like well god loves me because

02:09:45.500 i'm so good and i'm trying to like i'm trying to challenge your beliefs here and you're tuned out

02:09:49.900 so i guess i should just start with the question are you open to having your beliefs challenged or are

02:09:53.980 you going to sit there like cocky and making half-witted comments that's why i'm here okay because

02:09:59.260 your attitude right now how you're engaging with me is not in good faith hmm i don't have an attitude

02:10:04.540 okay well you do i don't this is just how i speak okay anyways thank you so in australia 75 of

02:10:12.700 adolescents have encountered online porn 39 were under the age 39 were under the age of 13 and 40

02:10:19.900 percent said that the exposure was accidental such as coming across only fans models pages on instagram

02:10:26.140 instagram tiktok and snapchat is primarily where they access it in canada over one-third of teens who

02:10:33.980 have intentionally seek porn do so weekly through social media accounts such as yourself

02:10:39.740 but i don't show porn on my instagram it's pornographic it's not you don't think so you

02:10:44.380 don't think that you don't think that making videos in like lingerie with your boobs out and

02:10:50.060 like i don't have videos in lingerie i have videos in bikinis i like swimming okay so your account is

02:10:55.820 pornographic it's not we can stop like dodging it porn porn doesn't porn doesn't just mean like

02:11:01.820 somebody is like fucking somebody else they're touching themselves pornographic content is like

02:11:06.540 under the guidelines of like nudity explicit content so it's not you can pull it off i do

02:11:14.220 have a quick question for you i'm i'm not familiar with either the laws you're talking about or the

02:11:18.940 guidelines of instagram doesn't instagram have some sort of filter in place that bans pornographic

02:11:26.140 no so they claimed they claimed that they did but they did a recent study uk only or or in the us

02:11:32.700 uh this one is pertaining to the us specifically um i think uk and canada they did like a pretty

02:11:37.820 big study i'm just not 100 specific with where the demographic is but it's instagram alone so if

02:11:44.300 instagram is an app that operates amongst many countries we can probably assume that it's not

02:11:49.420 just in america that they're letting you know pornographic content oh for sure i mean i assume

02:11:54.380 that the algorithm the app the local laws would be pertinent regarding no actually they are nope

02:12:03.660 so in the united states this study was released uh i think about six months ago 73 percent of u.s

02:12:10.460 teens say that they've seen porn online not not through a porn site uh 54 percent of them saw it by the

02:12:16.860 the age of 13 and 58 percent said that they were exposed accidentally through instagram so i can

02:12:21.980 keep going i mean i literally i have no i totally respect i do respect your opinion um that's my

02:12:27.900 opinion and and one of the one thing i want to clarify because i think this is where we have some

02:12:32.940 disconnect and i think this would be very helpful for the study what is defined as pornographic

02:12:37.180 material like specifically what is under this study pornographic material is defined as xyz

02:12:43.580 lewd suggestive nude um so that goes to things like you know people dancing you know half naked uh

02:12:50.860 people like her instagram where she's you know shaking her boobs so counter and they just under

02:12:55.100 when i walk quickly under that definition what about like people dancing at coachella or a music

02:12:59.740 festival who are often half naked and i'm just trying to find out where that distinction is for sure

02:13:05.020 in the content it's under the guidelines of like what makes it pornography is the intent to sell

02:13:10.540 sex sexual content right so you make your content on instagram because that's what gives you i think

02:13:16.140 you have i don't remember how much you have like over 100 000 right like almost 200 yeah yeah okay so

02:13:20.940 you have a pretty big following and your goal is obviously to sell sex and you're saying you're not

02:13:26.140 hurting anybody and i'm letting you know that verifiably you are because this type of content is coming

02:13:32.220 across children's pages studies are showing this they're coming out with more just let me finish

02:13:37.340 they're coming out with more and more and more and if you don't give a shit about how it affects

02:13:41.260 guys that's fine but uh it affects girls as well i didn't say that studies are showing that women

02:13:48.540 young girls who consume this type of content they're consuming it unconsensually it's just popping up on

02:13:53.580 their page and they're dealing with higher rates of depression anxiety um self-shame it's it is hurting

02:14:01.580 people so to sit back and be like well pornography isn't harmful it is harmful it's it's really harmful

02:14:08.060 so i'm not here to shame you i'm not here to call you a whore i'm just saying that what you need to

02:14:13.340 understand is that what you're doing is directly affecting people and instagram has a huge part to

02:14:19.580 play in it and um i just think you need to be aware of that so you're not so like flawsy duh it's not

02:14:25.580 hurting anybody it is and women's content like yourself is um being exposed to minors and that's

02:14:33.180 instagram's fault but you also contribute i would just like to say that like my content on instagram

02:14:39.260 is not porn i'm like exactly who i am right now can we um can we like put her please like her

02:14:46.700 brian's audience isn't going to subscribe to you so it's fine oh i don't can we can we get like a

02:14:54.460 consensus on whether or not being half naked shaking your boobs sexually is considered sexual content

02:15:00.860 are we going to debate this let's be honest like can you just be honest real quick i think it's very

02:15:07.100 sexy who wouldn't want to see sexy what i'm curious though is like not our opinion right obviously we all

02:15:12.220 have a different threshold and idea like well i think porn is this i think sexual content

02:15:16.620 is that i for the sake of these discussions because i'm i'm curious about both of your

02:15:21.340 perspectives but we need to reach some mutual definition i would like to interject talking

02:15:26.300 about because otherwise we're just running around in circles with i appreciate if you're saying oh

02:15:30.620 you're showing porn you're saying oh i'm not well we have not come to a mutual agreement on what that

02:15:36.140 standard is and that's why we're really not getting anywhere in this conversation because

02:15:40.780 we have not we don't have a running definition that is not just based on our own emotions at this

02:15:47.900 point right and then you can't be sitting up here being a hypocrite because i could see your titties

02:15:51.980 through your shirt yeah they're nice too no thank you oh my god i i did not mean to press stop the cap

02:15:58.780 correct that was a slip of my finger stop the cap i would like to point something out that was your

02:16:04.940 shirt under your shirt yeah i would like to point something out of course yes so why are you guys

02:16:10.140 looking at her titties by the way i'm gonna look at titties i don't care i'm looking at i'm looking at

02:16:14.060 titties i haven't looked at any titties this entire i'm a cleavage looker me too girl me too

02:16:18.700 so really quick before i let you in uh we we have to do a little cheers to kablask uh so uh i want to

02:16:30.460 dedicate this to the movie braveheart 1995 i believe or i don't know mid-90s something okay uh cheers

02:16:40.700 for scotland cheers are you guys not gonna cheers cheers we just say cheers cheers she's just a

02:16:48.380 dialect you don't want to to braveheart i've never seen it cheers you guys cheers you've

02:16:53.660 never seen braveheart to scotland to scotland i'll cheers to scotland yay can i just point out that um

02:16:59.020 braveheart batman's not scottish so sad mel gibson's like american he's an actor i know but they could

02:17:07.260 have gotten a scottish person it was the 90s i guess we didn't exist scotland didn't exist yeah

02:17:13.660 we didn't exist we're older there's pubs in scotland older than america but so may i uh yeah

02:17:20.300 sure i guess so we live in 2025 and we have professing christians on this side of the table

02:17:29.580 and this side of the table do you guys understand the times that we live in where other christians

02:17:35.100 have to fight tooth and nail for six hours to convince other christians that porn is wrong

02:17:41.740 yeah why do you care respectfully i don't know why why because i fear god so much because i fear god

02:17:48.700 i'm yeah that's good that you fear god i don't think we should fear god i don't think it should be

02:17:53.820 something to be feared i think god and it's literally what the bible says it's in the bible it's not fear

02:17:59.660 like it's in the sense of we revere him and respect him just as like brian he's the head of this show

02:18:06.300 he's the one who facilitates everything and he gets to say the rules so we have to revere and respect

02:18:12.220 him god excuse me ma'am you must i fear no seriously brian i respect you i really do thank you um because

02:18:20.220 not i appreciate in what generation do we have where women can have microphones to say all kinds of

02:18:27.420 things right whether it's what just keep going it's happening keep going go off queen i know and

02:18:34.940 i'm i'm giving her the floor go ahead thank you that's all i have to say the fuck okay all right

02:18:39.660 so thank you kablas yeah i revere god um so yes i do i revere him brian those are the two men

02:18:46.860 she reviews just the only two men i feel like honored to i'm on that level yeah oh my god you're such a

02:18:52.700 you it's a it's a big deal because i don't really voice my convictions all the time shut up no way

02:19:02.940 be nice come on no shut up it's like american i was gonna say that's the most like

02:19:07.900 wait did this did this come through did this come through barrio wisdom donated

02:19:12.300 oh my god i'm screwing this guy over all night did it come through yeah attitude when pressed

02:19:18.140 you can fight panelists but you can't oh it did come through all right my back

02:19:22.460 always comes god's slapping up we have uh we have some chat or some merch purchases nick if you can

02:19:28.620 pull those up coming through aaron thank you for it looks like you bought a t-shirt and then paul

02:19:35.900 looks like you bought a t-shirt that's coming in here in just a sec pull that up yep yo paul thank you

02:19:40.860 for the t-shirt purchase appreciate it and then aaron also thank you for the t-shirt

02:19:46.460 shop.whatever.com if you want to get yourself some merch we will give you guys shout outs okay

02:19:50.220 let's get back on track here we're doing the looks rating thing wait is that okay okay so i i gave very

02:19:58.540 like good statistics on why porn is like harmful to children and how it's being exposed to children

02:20:04.780 without their consent and your response was well i have cleavage i just want to know what that has to

02:20:10.700 had your taste sorry sorry what does that actually have to do with my original point of

02:20:16.220 porn being harmful to children oh i just called out your cleavage that's all that's nice okay

02:20:21.900 yeah so i don't really care i wasn't here for what you was talking about i don't care if you're a woman

02:20:25.820 or not if a man was sitting here talking about my titties when i didn't like it would make you

02:20:29.580 uncomfortable tell us your pronouns i wouldn't mind i wouldn't mind a man talking about my cleavage

02:20:35.820 well i i do so well that's you babe you cannot well you should cover it then yeah see the difference

02:20:41.100 is is you were talking earlier about how i think when you made the like poncho statement you're like

02:20:46.300 well they're just big and i can't hide them the difference is is that some women yes they are larger

02:20:51.660 breasted she and her are my pronouns thank you anyways um women with large breasts are like

02:20:58.140 constantly getting sexualized for absolutely no reason no you sexualize yourself so i don't i don't

02:21:05.820 really want to hear the comparison there's there's a big difference i'm not bothered by and like

02:21:12.460 intentionally putting your boobs on display so that's that's my defense for my titties i think

02:21:16.460 i've already covered the fact that i didn't used to like i've always been sexualized i've always

02:21:21.420 have huge can you sing the scottish national anthem yes let's change the topic why does everyone love

02:21:27.180 scottland so much i love it because it's beautiful scottland's the best country in the world true

02:21:31.980 i'll have to disagree i love america america's nice america fuck yeah

02:21:40.460 okay well i'm so sorry that you're stressed but i'm chill i'm gonna i'm not stressed

02:21:44.460 i'm trying to like i'm i'm just trying to pick up what you're both putting down because

02:21:52.140 we've put everybody through ai it's everybody's favorite segment or wait

02:21:57.420 you're right i have to ask the question then we do the segment you're you're right nick

02:22:01.260 you're right nick genders like oh no so going around the table i'm a hot the question i have to ask

02:22:08.780 is do you think you'll be better looking better looking in 10 years time you're 18 better

02:22:14.380 looking at 28 better looking yeah um no okay not necessarily you're 27 better looking at 37

02:22:21.980 honestly i actually think i might be okay uh 20 years 47 maybe

02:22:29.660 57 30 years it depends how like technology surgery stuff uh let's just like naturally yeah

02:22:36.380 naturally yeah maybe not okay and then were you better looking at 18 or better looking now i think

02:22:40.620 i'm better looking now okay you're 40 better looking in 10 years time i think absolutely so

02:22:45.420 because i'm going to aim to be healthier healthier okay what about 20 years at 60

02:22:50.780 um in 20 years from 60 scoot the mic to the edge of the table like scoot it yeah yeah that works too

02:22:57.020 um 20 years 60 um i guess it's relative but you know i just aim to continue to look better and to be

02:23:03.420 healthier and with that being said yeah wait what is going on what what you're you're just

02:23:12.140 you're giving chloe the stink eye oh i'm just looking at her that's all that you're just she's

02:23:17.100 trying to be intimidating but she's not intimidating anybody i'm not intimidating i'll look at everybody

02:23:22.140 i've been looking at everybody for 10 seconds chloe she's just been

02:23:26.060 dirty yeah are you trying to like what are you trying to fight me or like what why would i try to

02:23:30.300 fight you well i don't know because where i'm from when you stare at somebody intensively it means

02:23:33.820 you want to fight well if you're from the ghetto that ain't me i'm not around you're michigan she's

02:23:39.420 canadian the canadians get down like that yeah you don't look you look the wrong way to canadian

02:23:45.900 they'll sorry babe i grew up they will take a moose charges horn and i don't like i'm not

02:23:51.980 messing up my face all right well then stop staring at me then because that's how i'm taking it so

02:23:56.140 yeah that's how you're meaning it i don't know but maybe she thinks you're a kid you go you go

02:23:59.740 you go put your hands on me you go get provoked or something are you bisexual okay that's good

02:24:03.660 i'm just telling you stay in your lane do you do you like women are you are you attracted to women

02:24:10.700 i like beautiful women okay maybe chloe maybe it's a compliment hmm not my type oh

02:24:20.780 who's kind of mine

02:24:21.820 okay where were we uh better looking 20 years you know i hope so i hope that i'm thriving i'm

02:24:31.020 healthy my skin is glowing my hair is growing 30 years 70 you know i just hope that i'm able-bodied

02:24:36.780 and strong and i'm able to move and grow you'll be better looking better looking that's tough

02:24:43.340 okay 80 40 years 80 you know i want to be old and wrinkly but strong i'm going to take that

02:24:47.980 i don't know just milk okay uh and then you're 40 better looking 10 years ago at 30 oh i'm way

02:24:55.020 better looking now better now 20 years ago 20 way better looking better looking now okay there

02:24:59.740 you go what about you you're 26 better looking in 10 years time 36 probably not okay uh you're

02:25:05.900 23 better looking in 10 years 33 i i hope i age gracefully but i think i'm in my prime i think i

02:25:11.500 look the best right now in her prime okay you're 30 better looking in 10 years time at 40

02:25:15.900 no i don't think i'll look better at 40 but i think i look a lot better than i did when i was

02:25:20.780 20 gotcha okay so better looking now you're 31 better looking in 10 years time 41 no and i'm okay

02:25:26.940 with that and then were you better looking at 21 or now 31 um probably now okay chloe you're 28

02:25:35.180 better looking in 10 years time 38 i've seen my birth mom so i'm gonna go new and then better

02:25:40.060 looking at 18 or better looking definitely better looking now all right perfect we've put all of

02:25:45.500 you through ai advancement to see what you guys are gonna look like when you're older when you're

02:25:51.820 older i love this and you're all gonna be beautiful old ladies uh okay we are ready to go go for it

02:26:03.260 it's so cool damn they're saying that's 10 years from now when she's 28 yeah the far right that's

02:26:12.700 10 years that's 20 honestly the far right it's not looking good guys honestly the that's like senior

02:26:17.820 year of college oh geez yeah it you know the freshman the stress no the drinking the binge you're

02:26:25.100 at the number one party school true the binge drinking it's gonna catch up to me i gotta watch

02:26:29.180 y'all yeah you gotta be careful well you know although i feel like uh redheads age gracefully

02:26:34.300 like of all white people y'all look good at old age okay i don't know i'll take it

02:26:40.700 let's pull it up one more time just to rub it no just kidding all right there you go put it away

02:26:48.060 you look kind of like patty pimblett i don't know who that is the mma fighter nick can you google patty

02:26:53.820 pimblett please doesn't like in the not in the you know what i mean no you know what i mean chloe

02:27:00.220 you know i don't she looks a little bit chat you know what i mean yeah that's 10 years brian have

02:27:07.740 you done one of you oh yeah yeah i would love to see that one it's coming oh you got it i got it

02:27:16.780 uh click on the first one i guess oh you're kidding this guy you're so rude oh but he's a

02:27:26.140 good-looking guy i think click click on the the middle one there i've seen videos of him i think

02:27:33.420 he's funny it's like my humble straight opinion is is it the bangs how do we make these bigger what

02:27:39.260 the red hair and the bangs but that's it nothing else right you can just do it right there right

02:27:43.420 click open a new tab um it's just the right hand bangs but then show the picture afterwards the ai one

02:27:50.460 at all okay yeah pull it all right it's not yeah no okay whatever i'm going to be wrong stop it all

02:28:03.420 right next please don't oh girl that's not bad honey no it's actually it's not that bad that is your

02:28:12.540 future really cute i'm so i'm so nervous oh my god i'm saying that with my boobs still be cute

02:28:23.180 next oh gosh i'm nervous oh oh my lander that looks like my dad what the heck wow nice the nose in the

02:28:35.260 the album this ai program said that that is like a rep like a very close replica to my dad is he

02:28:41.100 is he bald yes can whoever does these can you baldify the can you put that in the dictionary

02:28:51.180 well i'm gonna see if it looks like her dad it's the nose like in the whole everywhere and then the

02:28:56.460 place where it wrinkled is like similar to my grandma that program is crazy next you look so cute

02:29:01.900 you do you do oh my god i look like a wizard all right there it is next

02:29:11.500 wow okay i'm not sure what's going on there with the hair you got the carol deville thing right

02:29:18.300 like a bullet looking type thing going on that's terrible i think i'm age better than that but if

02:29:24.860 that's ai into the mic into the mic i think i'm age better than that but hey next

02:29:32.860 beautiful there we go there we go yeah there it is that's a really good how do you feel about that

02:29:38.140 you feel feeling good or i mean if that's 10 years man i'm in trouble but these are in 10 years i gotta

02:29:45.420 say it's gotta stay out of the sun all right um but i mean i like to think that how i look is the

02:29:51.180 least interesting thing about me so aging really doesn't scare me because of everything else that

02:29:56.780 i have going on in my life all right next

02:30:03.340 like that

02:30:05.900 y'all they are so dirty hey i'm okay with that because if that's going to be the standard and

02:30:10.700 i do look better than that when i'm older i'll be happy

02:30:12.860 all right next i look like a man when i'm old yeah that's a sexy grandma right there

02:30:24.860 see that baby that's what you got to look forward to next

02:30:30.460 i want to see you are you back there's uh felicity striking as always next

02:30:36.620 okay there's a head shot that's not fair yeah the first one's ai too for some reason yeah that's

02:30:46.940 not you that's not even a photo a real photo that's ai they just that's you ai'd on top of the ai

02:30:53.340 well it's not even a base photo of me they just like i don't know they

02:30:58.460 yeah a little a little bit if i was like a renaissance painting and like inbred you just need

02:31:04.380 the color i'm going to say it looks like a like a book cover headshot all right and then do we have

02:31:09.100 gender i don't think so yeah do check on gender all right he's going to get that pulled up we've

02:31:14.700 gender swapped all of you we've changed you into man oh why rather be old uh so also some people

02:31:21.980 bought some t-shirts yo caleb thank you for the t-shirt purchase gamer thank you for the t-shirt

02:31:28.780 purchase go ahead thank you gamer appreciate did it come through i don't know whatever

02:31:34.380 uh cheers thank you for that thank you thank you all right and then we also we're we get into the

02:31:41.260 questionnaire do you need more time nick to get that all pulled up or it needs 10 seconds all right

02:31:47.260 guys like the video if you're enjoying the stream i'm gonna go yeah go for it like the video guys if

02:31:54.460 you're enjoying the stream and also tts is a hundred tts is a hundred reed is wait sorry tts is 200 reed is

02:32:05.580 a hundred all right nick can you just pull these up for me so i'm not doing it

02:32:13.580 you want to ask the question yeah actually i'll just do it it's fine

02:32:20.540 would you date the male version of you wait bring it back up let me see yeah that's the question would

02:32:24.140 you date the male version of you um i think he's cute but not my type not your type no okay all right

02:32:32.060 i like the middle that's not bad middle's not bad you don't like the the beard then all right uh next

02:32:38.220 oh my god it's like my brother no yeah okay that was a big no no it looks like that's literally my

02:32:50.380 eyeliner going on yeah yeah he is all right next they all kind of are over there oh oh my would you

02:33:00.380 date the male version of you no it no no no i can't do that no no he's not bad looking no but

02:33:09.260 it's just too there's too yeah much it's too much there like too too close for comfort it'd be like

02:33:16.140 fucking yourself basically yeah that's a no for me i don't know whatever yeah next

02:33:23.500 oh you would date him yeah probably would you rate him on a scale of one to ten with the beard

02:33:33.020 a nine he's my type interesting how that works okay yeah you would um

02:33:42.140 you date him though yeah with the beard okay all right there you go all right next

02:33:47.340 oh you look like uh myron from i was thinking that too i look indian but i would definitely

02:33:53.340 fuck myself do you know who myron is no would you never mind um i'll get you guys linked up after

02:34:03.660 the show uh you should i think i look better with the beard would you date yourself yeah i date myself

02:34:11.100 he cute he look indian though all right next

02:34:13.900 uh you know who that looks like that looks like ariana grande's gay brother

02:34:23.980 i don't think that male version of myself is straight so i if he was straight would you date him

02:34:30.540 no because it would come out later on that he's not sure i'm setting myself up for failure

02:34:35.820 did she just miss it are you not paying attention hello no i just don't want to be a guy

02:34:45.900 would you date the male version of you oh no i would grill him maybe you speak into the mic please

02:34:51.660 oh sorry no but um i'd probably grill him first grill him like like cannibalism like on a barbecue

02:34:59.420 no get out of here i mean sorry you're the host stay i'll go remember he's gone here you go i'm

02:35:08.220 terrible at saves what the hell i don't know you dropped some i don't know if that was you dropped

02:35:13.420 a bit of hair there oh my bad okay well it was right there i was giving it to you it's probably your

02:35:23.100 hair what my hair is way too short anyways next

02:35:29.660 not bad normally it gives this guy terrible bangs

02:35:34.220 no no i look weird no thank you no all right next uh we'll just do chloe's while she's all right next

02:35:46.540 oh shit it's kind of hot there you go chloe i love smoking

02:35:57.340 he looks like scuffed dane cook someone's in the washroom so i have to wait a second but i would

02:36:03.740 definitely do me there you go nice except it turned my piercing you look like a nightclub

02:36:08.540 manager in vancouver might do like a sleazy one you know no no no like nightclub

02:36:13.980 nightclub owner slash manager very early 2000s you also look like every wedding singer that i've

02:36:22.380 ever met uh all right oh boy next oh wait where's the old ones boy that is not you i look again i look

02:36:32.380 like a renaissance painting that is not you absolutely not on the left completely different face shape

02:36:41.660 they should do a picture of young brian all right uh nick if you scroll up you'll find the the other

02:36:50.540 one previously you know you've seen it a million times right nick yeah pull those up pull those up

02:36:59.500 also somebody bought a hoodie from our merch shop someone just you what the hell why isn't it

02:37:04.620 scuffed someone it just says someone and then grant bought a t-shirt that's shop.whatever.com if

02:37:13.740 you want to get yourself your own you have it nick shop.whatever.com get yourself some merch

02:37:20.780 also we'll pull up twitch afterwards okay i pull it up pull it up all right there we go

02:37:27.180 yeah i would date i would date the female me i'll date the female me that don't look like you yeah

02:37:33.500 it doesn't a little bit yeah yeah i'd date her yeah let's do the bald whoa is that your dad oh my god

02:37:42.060 oops lord have mercy that's what i would look like if i shaved my head that is uh i guess so

02:37:47.820 very striking thanks it's giving it's giving despicable me you ever seen that oh my wait what

02:37:57.820 do you guys think about this this is a totally random thought what if everybody men and women

02:38:05.660 had to just perpetually have a shaved head and that was like the baseline you couldn't grow your hair

02:38:13.580 hair it you wouldn't have to do hair care really you would never have to worry about products would

02:38:19.900 you guys take that trade no does that include no beards as well well the trade is like obviously

02:38:25.980 like if one one singular woman had to have a shaved head it would be more difficult for her to compete

02:38:32.860 like romantically right your face card got a really decline though you gotta be bad so then everybody's

02:38:39.260 just a bald nub would you take that trade if everybody had to everybody had to be just bald i

02:38:46.700 don't think so i like the individuality i like i like what about the utility though yeah because i

02:38:52.220 feel like we were all the same no because oh the utility you don't have to get haircuts that's true

02:38:58.140 but i i don't know my hair i feel like is a staple of who i am

02:39:01.020 what you grew up in new york i did i detected you didn't hear an accent i detected no you didn't i

02:39:09.980 grew up in manhattan there's no accent in manhattan

02:39:14.460 okay i detected a little something is it just for a whole day no i think for perpetuity for life

02:39:22.540 forever wait oh i have a question related to hair for the women

02:39:27.340 for a million dollars a million dollars would you shave your head just once and you can you

02:39:35.980 could let it grow back yeah absolutely why not i would do it for like ten dollars what are you

02:39:39.980 talking about you do for ten no not ten but how much would you do for a thousand a thousand a

02:39:45.100 thousand dollars not right now no we we have some i would have to think about it for a long time

02:39:50.380 you do we could no not happening if somebody donates no it's don't donate it because it's not

02:39:56.380 happening would you do we'll give you the money no you wouldn't do it not here there's more

02:40:00.940 conditions all right we'll have you back on the show and you can shave right yeah okay if you find

02:40:04.780 me on the street again for a million dollars though yeah you do it okay would you shave your

02:40:08.940 head for a million you don't have to keep it that way you can let it grow back not for a million no

02:40:14.060 one thousand percent because then it'll have me buy my farm buy my ranch and i won't have to worry

02:40:18.140 about dealing with my hair on the farm and the ranch and i'll be ready to go her her farm that's all i

02:40:22.940 want so that million dollars bring it would you do it yeah would you do it hair gonna grow back i

02:40:27.980 did that before i do it again can you wear a wig can you wear a wig if you shaved on now sure yeah

02:40:33.900 i'm fine with it oh yes you do it for mill what about you would you shave no i'll be poor like i always

02:40:40.220 am oh any reason you just i'm thankful for the hair that god has given me because when i was in high

02:40:49.020 school i did chop all of it off for certain reasons like things that you said about me earlier

02:40:55.340 um what did she say that men just want to do things to me yeah that wasn't about you that was

02:41:02.140 about men take it personal if you want to but i'm i'm grateful for every strand of hair that i have

02:41:08.300 because um there was a point where things were so bad in my life that i had just clumps of hair

02:41:14.460 falling out was it a condition probably stress okay yeah because it's just stressed i'm sorry

02:41:22.620 you've been through that though that's really shit thank you and i'm not trying to gain sympathy but

02:41:28.460 you know it really happens you wouldn't do it for a million though no because each one of my hairs on

02:41:35.180 my head that god is numbered um means more to me than all of the whole world

02:41:40.140 do you get haircuts i only cut my own hair because i've had girls destroy my hair on purpose

02:41:50.620 and i had to go back and tell the manager and then she gave me a haircut for free haircuts is it what

02:41:55.340 what's that story it's a hard life for us wait is that the story of samson who had the long hair and

02:42:03.420 he lost his power because he cut his hair yes is it is it like that is that what you're talking about

02:42:08.300 like you lose your power because if you cut your hair or some shit no you wouldn't do it for a

02:42:13.340 man i wouldn't do it for all of the money in the world well okay hold on god's gonna have an issue

02:42:19.020 with that i transfer you some money would you could take you could take you could take all the money

02:42:24.380 from all these atheists and democrats and all these people you had all the money in the world you could

02:42:29.740 literally you would literally have a fucking empire you would have you could create a christian nation

02:42:35.900 like the amount of money and you have all the money in the world well i guess if you had all the

02:42:39.420 money you would kind of lose its okay worth i'm overthinking this i'm just saying okay you have half

02:42:45.260 the money in the world if i could gain everything this world has to offer all the best things i would

02:42:52.300 decline um i wouldn't even want somebody to ask me that kind of question um i'm not saying that i don't

02:42:56.860 want you guys to ask me that but wait it's just there's no there's no contest for me my i know how

02:43:02.620 precious my soul is before the lord what's that have to do with your hair wait what um

02:43:08.940 it's into the mic into the mic don't don't be doing that if you're presented with that opportunity then

02:43:15.340 god put that in your pathway and then you can monetize that opportunity and turn around and

02:43:20.700 bless others and create a place where people can come closer to god because god gave you that

02:43:26.780 opportunity he's like you're sarah right yes he's like sarah i trust you i see you but this is what

02:43:34.140 the terms are i want you to bring other people to me but i'm going to present this opportunity to you

02:43:41.020 so you have the means to bring others closer to me i have something to say about that um

02:43:47.660 if people are only going to come to christ because i shaved my head no no no no no or hold on let me

02:43:55.020 please okay please let me finish absolutely please let me finish absolutely of course so

02:44:00.700 if people are that fickle that that's what it would take they're not worthy of god

02:44:06.220 hey i can't respect that hold on i can't respect this she she's standing on her business but it's not

02:44:11.660 a contravention of your christian faith to accept a one-time payment of a million dollars to cut your

02:44:19.340 hair any different do you have a job currently no not at the moment have you you've had a job at

02:44:24.620 some point of course okay what can you tell me what your previous job was i've been the secretary

02:44:29.740 of church i worked at chick-fil-a okay chick-fil-a so somebody's offering you money to uh prepare food

02:44:38.220 take orders clean the restaurant etc uh why couldn't you apply your same logic to the situation where

02:44:43.820 you're working and saying well i'm not you know god gave me a body but i'm not willing to

02:44:49.100 uh use my body to make money i i mean oh brian do you see how that sounds hold on when i say that

02:44:58.220 i'm not talking about using your body for sex work i'm saying using your body for

02:45:04.060 like acceptable forms of labor in this case like would you donate hair to charity

02:45:08.540 that's a good question actually um i'd probably grow it out and cut some of it off but not the

02:45:16.780 whole entire thing right so i guess my confusion here is this idea like it wouldn't be some like

02:45:22.860 slap in the face to your religious beliefs to shave your head uh for money there's nothing there's

02:45:31.580 nothing in the bible that precludes women from having shaved like shaved heads for free i guess like a

02:45:37.100 woman could be a christian and have like as far as i know maybe there's some i don't know many no

02:45:43.100 matter if everybody in the whole entire world came in for me with a reason my yes would still be yes and

02:45:48.300 my no would still be no well how about this is there anything that you would do uh i'm trying to think

02:45:55.820 here and god is sufficient to save whom we will he doesn't need me to try to bring everybody into the

02:46:03.900 kingdom um i do have things like that one thing to ask you really quick and and something that

02:46:09.420 kind of struck me when you said it you said if you need to be the vessel to bring people to god then

02:46:14.300 those people are not worthy of god i the gospel is enough they don't nobody cares about that i'm

02:46:20.620 sorry who cares all right go ahead ask your question i do you guys look i know i asked some religious

02:46:27.340 questions at the beginning but y'all keep bringing it to no offense some boring

02:46:31.100 shit but go ahead that's sorry sorry i'm being well i'm just saying because i yeah as i'm listening

02:46:35.820 to everybody's opinion on everything i'm getting gathering credibility of sources based on other

02:46:41.580 opinions i have uh i am i i respect you but some things that you're saying when people are not worthy

02:46:48.220 of receiving god or or the method that they receive god is going to be judged that makes me questioning

02:46:54.140 the rationale behind other things that you're saying and and that's not particularly at you sarah that's

02:46:58.940 just trying to gather information about okay if this is what people fundamentally believe how i'm

02:47:03.580 going to take their opinion and you know whether that changes my own stances on things and and allows

02:47:09.660 me to evolve if i don't think it's a credible source i'm not going to please may i speak if that's okay

02:47:15.820 if i was to put money on the table right now for you to cut your hair which i will and i will donate

02:47:21.340 let's say 50 grand to a church my church did you cut your hair no oh okay okay well i guess we know

02:47:28.060 where you stand wait hold on if somebody um are you pro-choice or pro-life you abolitionist can you

02:47:35.260 speak into the mic please um pardon me abolitionist okay what is that would you be willing to cut your

02:47:41.500 hair to prevent an abortion good question that's like trying to spread a net in the sight of a bird

02:47:55.260 i have no idea what that means i think my hypothetical is completely valid my hypothetical

02:48:00.300 is completely valid it's in the book of proverbs okay first off i'm fine with

02:48:06.140 with your arguments are not going to be compelling to somebody who doesn't believe your faith you've

02:48:13.740 continually cited this entire show to theology and religion but somebody can just simply demolish your

02:48:21.820 entire argument by saying i don't believe in what you believe in i don't believe in your religion

02:48:27.740 so in this case i don't even okay um how does that counter you'll have to explain how

02:48:35.900 you're citing to i guess a bible verse rejects my hypothetical question

02:48:45.740 what what there there was a question hello can you repeat it again okay i asked the hypothetical was

02:48:57.420 you said you would not be willing to do certain things uh you wouldn't do anything to cut your hair

02:49:03.820 i'm asking would you cut your hair if you knew it would prevent an abortion

02:49:21.180 if they truly if that if that actually happened and someone asked me or told me that if i cut my hair

02:49:30.460 that it would prevent them from getting an abortion um

02:49:39.260 i may i might but you wouldn't if i gave you 50 grand right now for your church the life of a child

02:49:48.220 being aborted is more important than money for the church god jesus can take care of his own church

02:49:53.260 well it seems like everybody really wants me to cut my hair it just seems like understand your

02:50:01.180 reasons i guess look and i've already said them we're not christ is all i have and that's why i keep

02:50:05.820 citing the bible i don't have anything christ is the only thing that i have and i don't i wasn't raised in

02:50:11.820 a christian home that's okay well if if you want to move on you can she just doesn't want to cut her hair

02:50:20.220 guys that call me crazy there's no contravention of your faith for accepting money to have your

02:50:30.140 haircut why can't you just give money to the church without me cutting my hair it was a hypothetical

02:50:37.500 question that went a little i would have done it though to be fair the question is no the question was

02:50:42.220 just for a million dollars would you shave your hair off and you said for religious reasons you wouldn't

02:50:48.300 do it i was confused as to what those specific religious reasons are or would be okay so putting

02:50:56.300 aside religion um putting aside religion no i wouldn't do it okay all right uh all right we have

02:51:08.140 muddy ninja here muddy ninja 2528 donated 200 do it brian this is spartan

02:51:19.340 uh okay thank you appreciate it thank you ninja appreciate it all right uh nick pull up the merch

02:51:28.460 all right two people bought t-shirts uh gamers dream haven thank you for the t-shirt purchase and then

02:51:34.540 someone also purchased pull up the that thing shop.whatever.com if you want to get your own

02:51:39.820 we'll give you a shout out and you guys can even include a little message too we have a message here

02:51:44.860 from oh man i don't know if it's gonna pull up final let's see if it's gonna pull annoying uh final boss

02:51:52.460 arcade oh that's my fiance shout out my baby girl chloe i see these narcotics trying to trigger you and gas

02:51:57.900 like maneuver around getting checked girl in the middle chill you look like michael b jordan with a

02:52:03.340 wig lol michael b jordan's still fine i don't take any offense she's taking it as a compliment yeah i

02:52:09.340 am uh donate more money to talk shit brian loves that you paying to talk shit stand on your business too

02:52:18.540 uh stand i'm standing on my business hey donate some more so you can talk

02:52:23.420 stand in on my business ugly bitch oh excuse me that's my fiance i don't give a book freedom of

02:52:28.860 speech yeah your fiance just called her speech so

02:52:32.940 are you it's like are you saying it's tit for tat yeah you can't like be pissed oh

02:52:37.660 shit can you call her name no you can't um i think we was trying to like michael b jordan

02:52:44.220 be meaner he said she looks like a man a handsome man yes a handsome man but looks like a man

02:52:53.900 i don't know how that goes like why don't you pull up a picture of him what's that let's pull up a

02:52:58.700 picture of him let's see him oh good girl you don't think he's a handsome man he's got a nice beard

02:53:04.620 that's a sexy man well it's like a greek statue okay um did we finish up everything nick with the

02:53:11.580 pull-ups pull-ups thanks all right oh my god calm down calm down lady nobody calm down texas

02:53:19.580 calm down texas houston texas get that right do you know what they say about houston what they say

02:53:24.540 what's that that sports comment we have a problem

02:53:28.300 uh too late i was trying to find you thought you got to get your shit together you got to be

02:53:37.580 quicker than that i know you're right i'm i'm failing in my duties here keep it quick next

02:53:46.060 are you okay i'm good i think that uh if you're getting to me i'm a little high

02:53:50.620 you had like this much you gotta keep up though i'm on the empty stomach you had this much you

02:53:54.940 gonna get drunk with me or what i had like a million sips you gotta get lit with me the champagne

02:54:00.780 oh boy okay uh we're gonna get whether you know what to do the the uh what's it called the

02:54:06.060 questionnaire what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband

02:54:11.180 starting with you minimum yearly income minimum yearly income to be for your future husband so

02:54:17.660 uh i would say this is if i have an income too right

02:54:20.620 sure sure okay uh maybe like 60 000 okay what about you just enough to cover rent i don't care

02:54:30.780 i can cover the rest you date a guy who works at do they have mcdonald's in scotland do they have

02:54:39.500 cars do they have cars in scotland no we don't have bro you guys still use horses yeah horses right

02:54:45.820 yeah uh okay so you'll date a guy who works at uh mcdonald's as long as he pays rent yeah i don't

02:54:52.300 care what about you here in california probably close to five uh wait hold on here scoot your mic to

02:55:01.260 the very edge of the table chloe can you do it too scoot your mic to the very edge of the table

02:55:06.220 and then don't leave them there just leave them there they're in the position where they need to be

02:55:10.460 in yes sir okay 500 000 here in california yes anywhere else 350 would probably be suffice and

02:55:18.060 that's if i'm you know i'm a stay-at-home wife i'm taking care of the family the kids and i'm just

02:55:22.780 taking care of the home you have a kid right i do one kid i have one okay does how old the kid he's 21

02:55:31.500 however um with him being on the spectrum that's something that's going to be a responsibility for

02:55:37.500 okay he's got severe autism it's not severe however affected he is high functioning however

02:55:48.380 i'll be close by for and also i take care of my mom as well so if i you know settle down and get

02:55:57.340 married he's gonna you live do you live with him i know he goes to school along the central coast i see

02:56:03.340 okay uh all right 500 000 a year what about you probably about 80 grand 80 000 what do you guys

02:56:11.500 have in scotland pounds yeah it's pounds she's from england oh okay you're the scottish person

02:56:17.420 you're the english yeah english they're not what do you uh think about what's happened in england's

02:56:22.780 you know you guys are kind of losing your country a little bit uh did you participate in the

02:56:27.740 protests i don't please no no don't want to talk about it no just don't listen to the news it's not

02:56:33.660 true i don't uh 80 000 okay uh what about you texas i'm not really materialistic but i do like to

02:56:41.580 travel and that's expensive so i would say like at least 200 000 because i like my goal is to see at

02:56:48.780 least two two countries a year so that's pretty expensive so a hundred two hundred thousand to be

02:56:56.380 stable and travel okay what about you um i do have a partner right now but if i was single at

02:57:02.620 the moment at my current age i would not date somebody making less than a hundred thousand

02:57:08.700 dollars with certain circumstances like they had finished school or they were quit their job because

02:57:15.100 they were starting a business or you know they just come back from the peace corps so there's like

02:57:19.020 exceptions but right you you've written a hundred thousand yes that's what i said what about you

02:57:27.260 we're on the question about um how much minimum yearly income to be your future husband

02:57:32.300 i know this is going to sound really stupid to most people but i've never really thought about

02:57:37.820 um what percentage or what ballpark i would want my husband to make

02:57:42.300 as long as we have food raiment and shelter and a bible um i'm content with that and if

02:57:50.060 he makes a lot of money so be it if he doesn't so be it that doesn't sound stupid what is right

02:57:55.900 what is raiment close you know so you're not naked i've i've never heard this term has anybody heard

02:58:02.540 that term raiment r-a-i-m-e-n-t that is clothes um i'm half filipino and i thought you looked asian

02:58:13.340 yeah i guess i go people always think i'm mexican um but it's probably the spanish in me mexican

02:58:19.420 asians but my family comes from like the slums of the philippines um so i guess i don't really see

02:58:27.980 money the way that other people do so i just offered you 50 grand you said no is raiment like

02:58:34.620 tagalog or something or no it's english oh okay um chloe what about you minimum yearly income to be

02:58:42.780 your future husband i don't really have a minimum i think as long as there's effort being put in i

02:58:48.540 agree with what you said whether you're you know even if you're in school or something as long as you

02:58:52.060 want to do something i don't really care okay uh so it was 500 000 for you here in

02:58:57.820 california and then 200 000 for you houses are cheap in texas have you yeah property tax way more

02:59:08.540 wait did your ex pay you child support for your kid actually um my son's um father is dead oh my god

02:59:16.220 i'm so sorry like like dead not dead to me actually physically dead through like before the kid was born

02:59:24.300 um that's probably another story for another time but long story short um i think my son was probably

02:59:30.460 like four years old and we escaped before i escaped before he was born and um when he found me on his way

02:59:39.820 to come when he found where i was at he died in a car accident damn gotta love that jesus yeah it

02:59:49.820 didn't sound like it was a good situation so all right uh how tall are you and what's the minimum

02:59:54.620 height of a man you would date uh i'm five eight and minimum height is probably five eight five eight

03:00:01.980 okay what about you four eleven i'd probably like five eleven so okay you're four eleven guy has to

03:00:09.660 be five eleven what about you five four and five eleven all right what about you i'm five two i'm probably

03:00:16.460 five five five what about you i'm five eight and i don't mind a short king okay what about you i am

03:00:23.660 five four and i would say five ten but your partner is how tall six two okay what about you um i'm five

03:00:32.220 seven and a half um anything that's bigger than me just because since i'm a bigger girl i want to feel

03:00:37.820 small i don't want to feel bigger than him wait when you say bigger you're talking about height or

03:00:44.700 like does he have to be bigger than you any in horizontally generally in stature

03:00:52.620 what she said she wants a guy bigger what the fuck i'm asking that i just love the polite way

03:00:57.100 you put it that's fair game okay um i like broad shoulders i guess then does that help like a big

03:01:02.860 bag how broad no are we a viking talking here because let's get sarah a viking go to scotland girl

03:01:11.340 they're all big we are okay all right pretty cool all right uh chloe what about you height any

03:01:17.900 height requirements no i'm five nine i've dated taller shorter all right i don't discriminate all

03:01:22.700 right let me narrow in here on uh our good friend let me what did you write uh you wrote

03:01:31.500 you said five eleven the guy has to be five eleven minimum yeah and he has to make five hundred

03:01:35.980 thousand dollars a year in california california you know when you're taking care of two hot

03:01:40.140 households it's like when you commit to me you're also committing to what i come with how big

03:01:48.460 okay you really want that answer i don't like them big i think that big ones are used to do porn so i

03:01:54.300 feel like if you used to do porn i feel like you're kind of they're overrated uh-uh you don't like the

03:01:59.020 uh-uh no bbc 100 agree with you all right well anyways um you want i i feel look britney i love

03:02:08.540 you you're a nice gal gotta give you a little i don't know

03:02:16.140 go for it 40 sex worker ex-sex worker porn ex-porn star

03:02:22.220 single mom to be fair your kids older or whatever so i i don't know 500 you want a guy make 500 000

03:02:33.820 a year and he's got to be 5 11. i think you gotta you know in the state of california

03:02:39.260 in california terms and when you're committing to me like i said you're committing to taking care of two

03:02:42.620 households because my mother you know so it's one of those things you know and if i'm if i'm the one at

03:02:49.980 home i'm taking care of the home front i'm his piece i cook i clean i take care of everything and

03:02:55.900 anything that he comes with so say if he has parents then i'm also taking on that responsibility

03:03:00.460 and those traditional roles so and like i said the cost of living here in california is cool

03:03:05.900 yeah yeah i mean yes it's very expensive in california but five hundred thousand dollars

03:03:09.740 that's a one percent man then you want him to be 5 11 that chips away even further 500 before taxes

03:03:15.180 that's even worse i think especially in california before not after i think i think it's fair what

03:03:23.020 she's asking for especially if she can it's a equal amount of give and take like you sound like you

03:03:27.980 could be a good woman you could have sex sexually satisfy your man take care of him do all of that and

03:03:34.060 i think that's fair to ask for when you know you're the type of woman that you're looking for in a man

03:03:37.580 what's the age range of guy you're willing to date um i definitely nothing under the age of

03:03:47.180 probably 37. okay it's 37 2. older 50 50. will you date a 60 year old 70 year old i don't know if i

03:03:57.820 would have a connection with a 70 year old 50 is 50 you're a cutoff i mean that's only 10 years

03:04:04.060 older than don't move the mic just put it put it to the edge i mean 50 is only 10 years older than

03:04:08.060 me so 55 what's the cutoff 55 let's say yeah 57 57 all right that's probably the cutoff but

03:04:20.140 that comes with a lot of things they have to have like common interest as far as like health a healthy

03:04:24.780 lifestyle like want to thrive to be healthier and you know what they put in their body you know

03:04:30.940 versus just it sloughing around i guess look my again just my issue here is so okay here's what

03:04:38.300 you want five hundred thousand dollars a year five foot eleven and there's probably other things you

03:04:45.580 care about too like he can't be a piece of he has to obviously like you back he has to be like

03:04:50.220 probably somewhat pleasant whatever whatever 100 i definitely have a few things that are absolute no

03:04:54.540 goes for me yeah like i will never ever in my life data white guy data liberal again oh liberal

03:05:02.060 okay well i can't do it do liberals make good money i don't know you're probably fine just kidding

03:05:09.180 some of them do anyways uh wait you won't date a liberal oh now that puts you in more trouble though

03:05:17.420 i think because like i feel like a liberal guy might be more forgiving of the sex work

03:05:21.740 well when i meet my person all of that's done that's on out the window that is no longer a part

03:05:27.660 of my life well i mean it's always going to be attached to me yes 100 however who i am moving

03:05:34.620 forward who i am as a wife who i am as if we have children is completely separate have children i would

03:05:44.220 you want more kids i would love to have another child absolutely okay i'm giving myself maybe like

03:05:48.300 about two years yeah you got you got i have some time you know that shit so um but hold on but men

03:05:55.180 care about a woman's past 100 especially a conservative guy oh 1000 they do so that could

03:06:01.980 be a bit of a problem well then i'm just going to keep praying on it and waiting for it because it'll

03:06:06.620 come i like i said i can never i can never ever in my life again and no offense to anybody at this

03:06:13.420 table but i can't offend it's okay i can't do it i absolutely cannot do it can't do what um data

03:06:19.580 liberal data liberal ever again can i ask why oh like that might be a sorry for another time

03:06:27.260 is it the pegging like they want to be pegged that's what it is right it's not that but it's

03:06:32.940 not too far-fetched from the it's also it's the lack of masculinity it's the um they they want they

03:06:39.740 want you to hold there's not literally and actually but they you know figuratively want

03:06:44.060 you to hold their skirt while they curtsy and it's like this this equal opportunity thing but i

03:06:49.500 still want you to embody all these feminine traits but i still also want you to do that or there's

03:06:57.340 just like certain things um that i just can't get like i can't wrap my head around and be okay with

03:07:06.220 it you know for an example if we were have more children there's no way in hell i'm going to marry

03:07:10.780 somebody who's going to be okay with filling them up with vaccines oh can i just i'm i'm i'm not

03:07:19.340 vaccinated my parents are anti-vax okay and i am the sickest person you'll ever meet i aren't i

03:07:24.460 i'm sick all the time and i didn't have a choice to be anti-vax or like i don't have any vaccinations

03:07:30.860 would you look at that the tts just came through donated two hundred dollars for chair three the

03:07:36.780 former porn star best i got is fifty dollars and six piece mcnuggets bonus style humble take it or

03:07:43.420 leave it daddy daddy daddy what the oh he said it's from daddy he he uh he's saying best he can do is

03:07:51.500 fifty dollars and six piece at mcdonald's where you take it or leave it take take him up and in the

03:07:56.860 words of the gentleman in um hangover toodaloo motherfucker he's got two hundred dollars to

03:08:01.660 be dropping on that comment i know i think even if you're even if you're a billionaire you should

03:08:09.820 take a girl first date first couple dates act as broke as mcdonald's yeah yeah mcdonald's maybe in

03:08:18.380 america oh yeah well maybe even the first date something a little bit shorter because you don't

03:08:22.540 know if that first date you're gonna want to escape you're right i am all for that that might

03:08:28.140 be a little too long i'm all listen i am all for a coffee date for that first date because that gives

03:08:33.420 you enough time to kind of pick up on the energy but then to be like i'm good and then the following

03:08:39.100 up with the you know can we get you you know look i'm just i'm trying to help you out here you

03:08:45.420 know i'm trying to help i'm here for it can we get you down let's do a little negotiation can we get

03:08:50.460 you down to five six and seventy thousand a year as your minimums seventy thousand a year in the

03:08:58.540 state of california into the into the mic into the seventy thousand a year in the state of california

03:09:04.540 yes and let's say just take after taxes still seventy thousand a year in the state of california

03:09:11.900 look you guys can have a very i don't think nobody should be dealing with somebody they can't maintain

03:09:16.780 you guys will be fine just live in recita you'll be fine she's asking for somebody that can maintain

03:09:21.020 her so that's ss i think that's pretty i i would i would be beautiful this time of year

03:09:27.180 the sfv you said fernando valley yeah along with you know like the inland empire

03:09:33.420 and all you know bakersfield bakersfield absolutely let's send you to bakersfield but

03:09:38.060 actually though in bakersfield there is that is a beauty there is parts of it that are absolutely

03:09:41.820 gorgeous but let's talk about this that the stereotype of bakersfield which is the devil's armpit

03:09:46.140 yeah and oh oh lordy but you know do you think we could get you three seventy five three seventy

03:09:52.540 five no no no no because absolutely not well it it's just it's like you're taking care like

03:09:57.740 there's two there's two households i want and it and like i said in california you know outside of

03:10:04.060 california yeah did i sell like that you did go ahead there's a little bit of a draw there outside

03:10:10.620 of california it's different you know and it's true and it's like then it's like in the same breath

03:10:14.620 it's like if i okay come with you know my farm my ranch and i have everything that i need to raise

03:10:20.540 and grow myself you sure you want the homestead that's just a lot of work oh i love it my father

03:10:25.020 retired from the entertainment business and bought a home and some land in kentucky in 98 and he's the

03:10:30.380 healthiest man i know and and he that's all he does is he farms and not once you get it going once

03:10:36.780 you get it going you don't need months where are you gonna go idaho actually there are some places

03:10:41.420 in idaho that are absolutely beautiful like way north here's what we're gonna do we're gonna get

03:10:44.940 you idaho eighty thousand dollars five foot eight final offer take it or leave it

03:10:54.220 can i go down an inch and up about 20 you want to you want to it's five seven

03:11:02.300 and you want to get to some five four on a good day you want a hundred k

03:11:05.420 if if i had to really calm down and i'm gonna be careful what i speak and what i let leave

03:11:11.340 i can do ninety thousand and half an inch

03:11:15.500 final offer final offer for the next 24 hours i'll take it

03:11:19.020 are we talking inches off of height height height height height height height

03:11:23.260 all right wait a minute daddy uh would you rather cross can you guys mute that back there would you

03:11:29.580 rather would you just would you rather cross paths with a random man or a random bear

03:11:36.220 on a hike starting with you oh god oh wait sorry one thing before

03:11:42.380 blaze donated two hundred dollars one percent guy is in delusion world

03:11:47.740 illusion calculator says she is hoping for a top one percent guy better drop one zero and consider a guy

03:11:54.940 making 50k top one percent guy can get a 22 year old you want kablaska are you wanting to date her is

03:12:06.780 would i yeah

03:12:09.980 kablaska liberal 40

03:12:15.180 uh single mom ex-porn star

03:12:17.660 kid lives with lives with mom yeah so up north because he goes to school up north in a smaller

03:12:27.180 town so yeah not la it's not for a certain caliber of you do want a one percent guy are you a one percent

03:12:35.420 woman yes i could absolutely be that for the right person and make changes and alter certain things like

03:12:43.820 i said my past is going to always be my past that will never leave but the woman i'm becoming and the

03:12:49.340 woman i am for the right man has nothing to do and how i am for him and the family that he wants to

03:12:58.060 create and the home that he yearns for

03:13:02.940 five foot five forty thousand dollars a year final offer we already shook up we already shook up the deal

03:13:08.780 we did a verbal deal shake i'm re-negging on the okay uh would you rather cross paths with a random

03:13:15.020 bear random man in on a hike by random bear is that opposed to a bear that i know

03:13:22.380 a random bear so you don't know you don't know either of these people right uh i i think a man

03:13:27.660 okay what do you pick depends how old the man is he's average

03:13:32.140 maybe a bear okay what about you a man okay i guess it depends on the circumstances

03:13:43.900 okay so what circumstances would you want to run into a bear i mean it depends if the man gives me

03:13:50.060 like sorry it depends if the man is giving me a bit of a weird vibe it's a random it's a rando

03:13:57.900 oh well about he could give a weird vibe you don't get to you don't get to inspect the energy

03:14:02.940 it's either yeah okay what about you texas i think anybody that picks a bear is just trying

03:14:09.660 to be provocative like i would rather run into a man any day than a bear okay what about you

03:14:15.420 i say this every time i'm asked this question i don't care i would never go hiking alone unarmed

03:14:19.580 anyway so it doesn't i'm sure american girl right there but if you were uh if you were on a hike

03:14:30.780 and you had to pick one which would you pick oh i mean the man i would feel terrible if i had to shoot

03:14:37.180 a bear right same that's that was such a good answer all right uh okay all right what about you

03:14:48.220 i wrote that i would take on both as long as it's not a woman squirt

03:14:55.100 you wrote feminist here but okay interchangeable so if you had to pick one though

03:14:59.660 i don't know

03:15:10.060 if you had to pick oh boy all right i'm just gonna skip chloe okay what about you not no no you had

03:15:15.900 your chance you dug your own grave now lay in it okay don't get to participate in this really important

03:15:23.820 segment boy what do you pick yeah obviously a man all right there's nothing really nobody

03:15:30.300 providing anything for me to push back on so um questionnaire here a questionnaire

03:15:36.700 oh okay um sorry

03:15:41.340 uh i guess question who here considers themselves a feminist do you consider yourself a feminist i do you

03:15:47.420 do okay what about you feminist absolutely not feminist feminist it depends on

03:15:53.660 the definition of feminism no okay chloe are you are you a feminist chloe i'm a basic like level

03:16:00.940 like i think i would fight for a woman's rights just as much as a man's but am i if you in my textbook

03:16:06.780 definition of what feminism is today absolutely not all right like you're looking at fourth wave

03:16:12.220 current feminism and how like what that movement stands for today yeah right something like that

03:16:19.580 really quick i wanted to do a dating question we're going to come back to the feminism uh

03:16:24.140 i might have stepped away when you were talking about this you're single correct yes everybody here is

03:16:28.940 single except for you i'm not single and and chloe okay uh have you ever had a boyfriend

03:16:35.980 um not exactly do you currently have a guy in the picture no have you ever had a

03:16:42.220 a roster a roster yeah um no she's 18 no i have never had a roster okay um you have had a boyfriend

03:16:56.620 or no what's the longest period of time you've dated a guy um a couple months a couple months okay and

03:17:04.300 you've been single for how long well if i've never had a boyfriend i guess like 18 years well since the

03:17:10.300 last time you were like involved romantically i would say a year one year okay have you when did

03:17:16.060 you move here just like a couple days ago to santa barbara yeah yeah okay so you just got here any

03:17:20.860 prospects yet no nothing hardly left the dorm this is like the first thing i've done dating apps anything

03:17:26.220 like that no okay have you met any guys at the dorms or no not really i literally moved in like

03:17:32.860 yesterday and when does school start is it this week the 25th the 25th okay have they had like

03:17:38.860 orientation type stuff where they're like yeah there were multiple orientation periods during

03:17:42.860 the summer and you can pick which one to go to mine was in like early july do they do like tutorials

03:17:48.460 like uh like anything related to dating or not dating but like in orientation for like consent

03:17:57.660 like anything around life skills maybe yeah i would yeah i think so like did you have like a consent

03:18:03.820 tutorial where they're like god i can't even remember um i mean there at ucsb it's called sharp

03:18:16.380 is it it's on just the web the internet you can just find the yeah maybe you and i can figure out

03:18:21.900 another time yeah yeah sure okay i was just curious about that um but it sounds like you haven't done

03:18:27.660 well they talk about resources and stuff but they don't give you a tutorial on consent oh okay maybe

03:18:33.660 they haven't done it yet i don't know i've heard something where they you do have to i don't know

03:18:38.700 like training or something okay uh all right so you're a feminist yes i am uh when you describe

03:18:45.980 yourself as a feminist what do you mean i believe the feminist excuse me feminism movement is centered

03:18:51.660 around empowering women and um making sure that women are treated equally to men okay do you feel

03:18:58.380 like women are not treated equally of course how so uh in many ways i feel like women are uh respected

03:19:06.620 less than men i feel like women are obviously paid less than men we could talk about the wage gap or

03:19:10.460 whatever but that's a you know beating a dead horse um what what do you mean sorry how would it be

03:19:16.300 beating a dead horse well i just feel like that's the argument that people bring up in every okay in

03:19:20.620 every conversation all right sure are there are there other things um yeah again i feel like women

03:19:25.500 are respected less than men i feel like women are sexualized more than men um i feel like women are

03:19:33.740 i don't know like put in positions more often where they have to

03:19:38.140 fight for their rights more than men do which rights are those

03:19:43.020 i'll pick one all of them which one i mean like speaking their minds being able to

03:19:52.700 well the first amendment freedom of speech is not gender specific no it's not you're right but um

03:20:00.300 i i guess maybe less of a a right in the legislative sense like you were said before but more like the

03:20:06.460 right to be listened to and respected wait you said the right to speak your mind do you genuinely

03:20:13.580 think it's the case that women are like somehow prohibited by the state that's not what i meant

03:20:17.660 not speak your mind more like i feel like when women do speak their mind they're listened to less

03:20:24.620 and held to a do you think this is reflected in social media what do you mean well for example i would

03:20:31.020 make the argument that there's like sorry guys phone going off i'd say that there's way more

03:20:37.420 women who are participating excuse me participating in social media and like propagating their feelings

03:20:43.100 and opinions like i'd say i don't know what the precise number is i can cite to some study but women

03:20:48.300 are far more involved creating and posting on social media while men also do this too it's like a much

03:20:54.860 uh smaller proportion of men who engage on social media you look at tick tock instagram etc it's

03:21:01.820 overwhelmingly women who sort of dominate on these platforms and if you like whether it's like making

03:21:07.420 silly dance videos or like spreading rhetoric or whatever you see far more women engaging in that

03:21:13.500 sort of thing without any sort of reprisal or like limitation on their speech either platform wise

03:21:19.340 or by the government well sure they're engaging in it but like i said sorry i revised what i said

03:21:24.780 before of course everybody has free speech whatever but i don't feel like women are taken as seriously

03:21:29.740 by who everyone even even other women women take women less seriously i believe so what if i told you

03:21:36.460 there was a study that indicated that actually women have an in-group bias they have a strong in-group

03:21:41.740 bias for other women and then men actually have an out-group bias slight out-group bias for women

03:21:48.700 yeah well i think that makes sense but that doesn't necessarily i mean what do you mean by in-group

03:21:53.900 bias just who you feel more comfortable with i mean i know what your bias means yeah it could be so

03:21:58.860 an in-group bias would basically be like if you're a woman your in-group is women you're out if you're

03:22:03.420 a man your out-group would be women yeah i know so if you have an in-group bias you have a bias towards

03:22:09.740 your same you know whether it could be it could be race it could be gender it could be whatever

03:22:14.780 it could be your political affiliation so women have an in-group bias towards other women and

03:22:20.860 then men have a slight out-group bias i know what in-group bias and out-group bias mean i mean

03:22:26.300 what what is the bias like what are they biased oh sure it could manifest in all sorts of ways like

03:22:31.100 women will have a greater tendency to you you seem to make the claim that even other women don't show

03:22:36.940 respect to women i would make the counter claim that i actually think women tend to show more respect

03:22:41.660 to other women and have less respect towards men so that would be like an example of an in-group bias

03:22:47.100 that women are going to value the words of other women over the words of other men or the statistic

03:22:53.020 that women will most often um excuse the same behavior they wouldn't excuse for men just because

03:22:58.780 a woman's doing it sure well i think that comes from a and i feel like you know every conversation

03:23:06.380 about feminism turns back to this eventually but i feel like the in-group bias just from my own personal

03:23:11.820 experience and perception of other women comes from the idea of safety and women feel more safe around

03:23:16.540 other women and so um the behavior like an example of a behavior like what do you what do you mean

03:23:23.420 like a behavior they would excuse i don't think i don't think you're wrong i just want to um oh that's

03:23:28.140 a good question let me think of a a good um example uh i don't know it's it's tough to put to put an

03:23:39.500 example on it i think that we will see okay you know uh for example you know women will get together at

03:23:45.420 like brunch or something and they'll participate in the you know maybe the culture of like shitting

03:23:50.460 on your husband and like complaining about your husband and stuff whereas if men were sitting at

03:23:54.380 the same table um debating how shitty their wives were like that wouldn't necessarily be accepted but

03:23:59.820 as women we tend to let each other pass on certain toxic behaviors just because we're women i mean it

03:24:06.300 can really be anything it could be it goes from like sexual i think that's just in-group bias in general

03:24:11.020 where you like i'm men do the same thing for them i'm sure that if men heard a bunch of women

03:24:15.980 shitting on husbands they would be upset but i i know for a fact that men get together and

03:24:19.420 shit on their wives and girlfriends so okay oh we have a message here from blask

03:24:27.340 blaze donated two hundred dollars sorry i'm sorry i tried feminism is ruining the usa

03:24:36.220 what's the panel's thoughts on the shift towards the whole passport bro movement

03:24:41.340 southeast asia women are where it sat anybody have any thoughts on the passport bro could you

03:24:47.340 so i actually have some thoughts on this i worked on cruise ships for a few years and we see a lot of

03:24:52.620 that where either american or european men are seeking uh basically what a passport bro is they

03:25:01.100 they obtain a passport to for the purpose of going and seeking a wife or girlfriend in another country

03:25:10.460 in a lot of these countries there are far less opportunities for women financially and academically

03:25:17.100 and they are also come from cultures that tend to be more conservative more subservient and more religious

03:25:25.180 therefore making them way more of a traditional wife and mother additionally a lot of these women are

03:25:33.180 coming from countries where they have far less opportunity first of the gop of these countries is way less so

03:25:41.260 what might seem like an average or like not great salary in our standards is a very very rich man in

03:25:48.860 the philippines or cambodia um additionally because of things like human trafficking um in certain parts

03:25:58.780 of the world where there are where women actually do not have the same legal standing it is a very attractive

03:26:06.060 offer for a woman from one of these countries to come to the u.s and live a new life as the wife of

03:26:13.260 an american man or a european man oh i see and um i worked on cruise ships for several years so a lot of

03:26:20.060 the cruise companies are not american flagged and they purposely do this with the intent of hiring

03:26:28.540 large amounts of workers from other countries where you don't have to pay them the minimum wage

03:26:32.940 where they are working for nine months at a time because they have excellent work ethic and they

03:26:38.700 they you know will go home at the end of that contract with what might not seem to a great

03:26:44.220 salary to us but is basically you know they're the richest person in their village um in the cruise

03:26:49.980 culture um for a lot of those filipino and indonesian women if you can get an american or european man to

03:26:57.820 get you pregnant then like you're considered set for life like your child and your life and you are going to

03:27:04.860 like move to that country and um i can i can see the appeal as to why american men are doing it because

03:27:13.580 they first of all they're you know unique and and exotic they don't look like everybody else in the

03:27:19.900 countries that these women are coming from and these women tend to be subservient and uh good mothers and

03:27:27.260 and religious however i think something that is not talked about at all and i is as how careful you

03:27:35.580 have to be because for a lot of these women if your choices are you're either going to be trafficked

03:27:43.900 or have to get involved in the sex trade and not in the you know optional way that you're doing it like

03:27:49.660 in in places where this is very much a reality for women because they don't have the opportunity

03:27:54.460 um they will do anything to get out of the country that they're in or the situation that they're in

03:28:01.660 and you do see men falling victims of being a fraud of women lying about not being married about women

03:28:11.020 scamming men so while it has become a more attractive option for a lot of men in this country i think it

03:28:21.260 also needs to be talked about just like meeting anybody else online or the potential risks that

03:28:26.620 are involved and how you can get scammed out of thousands and thousands of dollars by just trying

03:28:33.660 to you know as well i mean that's unfortunately like a lot of men are scammed not even with just

03:28:41.420 foreign women but with you know these fake facebook profiles and because you know they these scammers

03:28:48.060 take advantage of these men being lonely and just wanting a connection and wanting

03:28:52.940 love so um it's pretty big right now i don't know if uh how big it is for you guys in in scotland and

03:29:00.140 the uk i know that um thailand has banned yes like white males from coming into certain places because

03:29:08.060 they're taking advantage of the women so obviously that's not good i think i was reading actually there's

03:29:13.660 a pretty interesting story it was a group of older women from the uk that were going over to

03:29:20.860 some african country and they were like doing it reverse like they were you know finding these like

03:29:26.300 young buff tall like african uh dudes and they were just like living their best you know grandma

03:29:34.220 grandma life as they should do you think they could just be using them for the green card or the money

03:29:39.500 well you just oh oh absolutely oh green card marriages that is also a huge thing like in the

03:29:45.100 cruise industry that i've seen yeah i don't know i feel about passport bros i mean because i think a lot

03:29:50.540 of them just want the green card or the money oh for sure for i i think it's reckless to like encourage

03:29:58.540 to encourage anything without like the proper warning and especially when the you know the odds are

03:30:04.860 really great that you can be taken advantage of and you can be the victim of a scam and fraud and

03:30:10.380 anytime your emotions get involved in it that's when people are more susceptible to fall for those

03:30:16.140 sorts of scams what are we talking about passport bros passport bros isn't that an american thing

03:30:23.420 i think it is yeah yeah it's very common uh wow how long was that monologue going on for

03:30:31.740 i i was yeah i rambled i tend to do that i'm sorry i mean i think you made some good points

03:30:38.540 you did uh okay so back to this feminism thing you're saying something about women's rights what

03:30:46.940 was that i don't remember like women don't have rights or something or uh we were talking about

03:30:53.580 in group out group bias oh yeah i'm i'm over that i'm over that well i'm just i stepped away

03:31:01.500 i'm bringing it back to kind of the original conversation you were making claims about

03:31:05.740 like women not having rights or what like why are you feminist i guess i don't know

03:31:11.740 uh i'm a feminist because i believe that women should be regarded in the same image as men

03:31:17.500 i don't believe well first of all i think we should get to a consensus on what we our belief of

03:31:21.100 feminism is because there's been a lot of talk about what feminism we're talking about so if you

03:31:25.020 guys want to chime in okay i'll chime in thank you for that i appreciate it uh so okay i'll give

03:31:31.740 you two definitions i'll give you my charitable definition i'll give you what i actually think

03:31:35.980 is real my charitable definition of feminism would be feminism is a women's advocacy movement

03:31:42.300 that's the charitable definition nothing wrong with women's advocacy but let's not parade around this

03:31:48.540 farcical nonsense that feminism has anything to do with equality equality and women's advocacy are

03:31:54.780 two different things from feminism has nothing whatsoever to do with equality despite the many

03:32:05.580 attempts attempts at no point has feminism ever been about equality but it's a woman's advocacy

03:32:12.460 movement nothing wrong with women's advocacy but again we shouldn't paint it as something it's not we

03:32:17.660 should try to be honest we should never lie i can't agree i think that it is an equality movement

03:32:22.780 and people well that's okay if you disagree but i think that it is a women's or you know equality

03:32:29.260 i think that people twist it but i think at its core feminism was born out of the desire for women to

03:32:34.300 be regarded in the same image as men now now i still do need to give you my actual definition but i'll

03:32:40.540 to engage on the charitable definition i'll explain why i don't believe it's an equality movement so

03:32:45.020 feminism or feminist rather will at times fight for equality only if said equality stands to benefit

03:32:54.140 women so if there is a form of equality that somehow conceivably came to the detriment of women in some

03:33:02.780 way for example if women conceivably had some privilege over men they of course would never try to

03:33:09.820 equalize this privilege or equalize whatever it was that was granting women the privilege

03:33:16.620 so for this reason if women or excuse me feminists won't fight for equality across the board even in

03:33:23.180 situations where perhaps securing equality would be for the benefit of women but especially if it's

03:33:29.740 to the detriment of women you can't call yourself an actual equality movement if you only seek equality

03:33:35.260 in specific positions where uh privileges women so for example i'll give you an example because you

03:33:40.460 might be like well what how so oftentimes feminist organizations will fight against things like

03:33:45.980 equal uh custody the the granting of equal custody when it comes to child custody disputes the other the

03:33:53.100 most clear one to me would be military conscription the draft so i was gonna say feminists it would it

03:34:00.460 would create equality it would create equality between men and women to make women subject to forced

03:34:05.900 military conscription but when feminist movement is not really trying to either and you might say

03:34:11.660 well why don't we just get away with get rid of the draft they're not even fighting for that

03:34:16.780 and uh or they could fight for what women should be drafted to women have had the right to vote since

03:34:23.580 when was it ratified 1920 maybe that well the law was passed in what 1918 ratified 1920 whatever

03:34:29.820 women have had the right to vote for over a century in order for men to be able to vote they have to be

03:34:34.540 subject to the selective service forced military conscription we've had a century of feminism they

03:34:40.540 have still for some reason just been refusing to acknowledge this inequality that exists between men and women

03:34:47.100 as it relates to the right to vote that's sort of interesting to me that's sort of the right to vote

03:34:52.220 women's suffrage is basically the genesis of feminism how could you overlook this totally

03:34:57.500 inequal component of voting where it basically says women you can send men off to war but you can

03:35:03.260 never face any of the actual physical ramifications of said war but men women can send men off to war

03:35:10.380 and and die basically through their vote this seems like extremely unequal so i guess how would you

03:35:17.660 reconcile well i think that is a good point and i think that that's it is part of the same discussion but

03:35:23.420 it's also i think unrealistic to imagine that any group would go out of their way to make things

03:35:29.340 worse for themselves i don't think any you know uh like marginalized group would do that i but i also

03:35:36.700 think i do think that's a good point and i think that that is for sure part of the discussion but i also

03:35:41.180 think that it the the you know main goals of feminism are not to do with the draft like i think

03:35:48.700 but then let's not call it an equality movement let's call it what it is a woman's advocacy movement

03:35:54.460 which again i don't have any quarrels with women's advocacy but what's your contention was about the

03:36:01.580 term equality and my same with me my contention is also with the term equality here's why i think it's

03:36:07.020 equality because it's advocacy in the in the um areas where women feel marginalized in my opinion i don't

03:36:16.940 think that women i think the feminist movement i think they kind of lost their way so at first it

03:36:21.820 was about equality but now they it's more so about women having the upper hand and i don't think that's

03:36:27.980 the point of a movement so they kind of it's about equity now they kind of they kind of lost their way

03:36:32.620 and so now they're more for women have more power than men and i just think that's misconstruing

03:36:39.100 the point of the movement in the beginning so now i don't think that women are actually

03:36:43.180 feminists i think they just hate men because they don't actually be for women and this and that

03:36:49.500 i think all that is fake in my opinion that's my second definition we'll get there in just a moment

03:36:54.300 but what would you call it if men lived in a society where they were trying to protect

03:36:59.020 their privileges that they had over women aren't they

03:37:04.060 that doesn't answer my question go ahead what would i yeah like a society where men had privilege

03:37:09.500 over women and perhaps it could be it would be detrimental to them to lose their privileges

03:37:14.700 what would you call that patriarchy yeah i mean sure so essentially what you're saying like feminism

03:37:20.220 is the counter like is is the mirror opposite of patriarchy then but i don't think i think you're

03:37:25.900 pushing a certain narrative where women are actively fighting against the draft which i don't

03:37:30.140 see that often well i would say i would say because you were saying well like who's gonna obviously

03:37:34.780 nobody's gonna advocate for something that would like come to their detriment i mean if you're

03:37:40.300 it's one thing to say that something's coming to your detriment it's another thing to saying i'm

03:37:43.980 protecting i don't want to lose my rights like you're what you just said was that um a society where men

03:37:49.340 want to protect their privileges over women which is a problem i don't think women are trying to

03:37:54.380 protect their privileges over men so a component of feminism is trying to protect existing female

03:37:59.980 privileges that women have that uh men don't i can give a good example you're saying the draft

03:38:05.340 uh like the pater uh what is it legal paternal surrender the paper abortion stuff you know me

03:38:12.620 so well yeah so there's there's a bunch i think you made i think you made a good point i would classify

03:38:16.860 you as first wave feminism because there's different waves right so the first was about

03:38:21.740 you know women suffered simple things like women should be able to you know have their own bank

03:38:25.980 accounts wear pants uh i would classify myself as a second wave feminist because i think it's more

03:38:31.020 than just the baseline what the hell does any of that mean is you a feminist or not first wave feminism

03:38:36.140 is it's like the like the hardcore stuff that like women didn't have a right to do like you know a man

03:38:41.820 could like essay his wife and simple stuff like that second wave feminism was really about breaking

03:38:47.500 down the nuclear ideology of what a woman is right so gender roles for women specifically things like you

03:38:54.860 you know women have to be in the home and cooking clean and just these gender stereotypes right and

03:39:00.860 then you have third wave which is like i i like to call it uh an intolerance for intolerance right so

03:39:08.220 anything that women view as you know slightly disadvantaged they're like angry about now you have

03:39:14.300 fourth wave feminism which is very much about superiority and i have two good examples number one

03:39:20.300 is men struggle with mental health disproportionately to women um and in the uk specifically there have

03:39:26.940 been multiple attempts to have um what are those called like seminars for like suicide awareness

03:39:32.780 for men and it's been shut down every time there's clips all over social media that's not true we're

03:39:36.940 from the uk and there's multiple a lot actually especially well if you want to take a second and just

03:39:41.740 google it there's a lot of no but i baby i live there there's very there's a lot wait hold on

03:39:47.260 earlier in the conversation you guys were like we don't know jack shit about the politics and

03:39:50.940 what's going on in england yeah you can just google it i'm not from england she's talking about scotland

03:39:54.940 no i said england she said the uk yeah earlier by the way you guys said like oh we don't give a

03:39:59.980 fuck about what's going on in the uk i just said that i don't mind talking about it but you sorry i

03:40:04.860 said i just don't mind talking about it but it's not really relevant yeah i also thought you were

03:40:08.300 talking about immigrants i would also say you're talking about anything like that the fourth wave of

03:40:13.020 feminists of feminism has also become synonymous with movements that i don't really think have to

03:40:18.940 do with women's empowerment but have gotten thrown in there like the transgender movement the i don't

03:40:25.260 want to say body positivity but the like promoting of unhealthy lifestyles like celebrating promiscuity

03:40:33.580 like things that are not necessarily about equality in society um but like have come to take on these

03:40:41.900 ideals that are not representative of of equality whatsoever it just sounds like if you leave it

03:40:48.460 up to women y'all gonna complicate the fuck out of it because what is all of this first wave fourth

03:40:52.860 way yeah well it's just different it's different parts in history all that too well but you could

03:40:57.820 say the same thing as being a democrat or republican it means different things in different yeah those

03:41:02.300 are very specific eras of america right and being a republican 50 years ago or being a democrat 50 years

03:41:08.300 ago is very different than that ideology today that's the same thing with feminism i mean the

03:41:13.420 ideology from 50 years ago like slave owners or whatever correct you know i kind of feel like

03:41:18.460 they're still the same you know just right like feminists 100 years ago so fighting for the right to vote and

03:41:23.580 now pants and now they're fighting for the right to sell themselves and not even not even for the right

03:41:29.580 to sell themselves because we have that but to be celebrated and to like promote that it's like this

03:41:35.260 is something you should be doing that's my my biggest rub with the modern feminist movement is

03:41:40.940 that it's promoting things that no longer have to do with equality but are now pushing a very specific

03:41:45.980 agenda i would say what i've experienced is that it's less of a a whole like movement to push that

03:41:52.300 stuff and more of just that it's more readily available because of social media and stuff and i think

03:41:56.060 that obviously you know any of the whatever you were saying like selling yourself or whatever

03:42:02.620 wouldn't have been as you know accessible back in the day and so i think that oh no it's definitely

03:42:08.540 been accessible like it's the oldest it's the oldest prostitute it's the oldest profession but

03:42:13.340 it's different though it's different it's social media i know yes it's different but

03:42:20.140 i i would say like the second or third i would say the third wave of feminism is when we started

03:42:27.020 getting away like like slut shaming that was a really big thing like hey we should not criticize

03:42:33.420 women for being overly promiscuous and that was like third wave now i feel like it has i like to

03:42:41.580 call it the post-feminist world like where we've now crossed that line like not only should we not

03:42:46.940 criticize women for this but we should like celebrate them as this is some sort of empowering sort of

03:42:53.820 thing and like i said i have no problem with what you do whatever what anybody does but i don't think

03:42:59.580 this is something we should be telling people as a society like this is aspirational when i grow up i

03:43:05.260 want to do this i right you know encouraging that sort of behavior which is what it has led to yeah

03:43:11.740 yeah and to touch back on what he was saying about the uh the situations where women are you know

03:43:18.060 actively advocating for something that would no longer benefit them paternity is an amazing one

03:43:25.260 a great example because as women now obviously it varies state from state i'm from canada abortion

03:43:31.740 is a hundred percent legal there but we have many different forms to protect ourselves against an

03:43:37.980 unwanted pregnancy we have safe haven law which says that you can drop your child off to a social

03:43:42.860 services worker we have a firefighter ems right we have uh adoption we have the morning after pill we

03:43:49.020 have all of these different ways but a man if an unplanned pregnancy happens on his side he is

03:43:55.100 absolutely no say whatsoever and that's something that's heavily debated in my community and that i push for

03:44:01.740 i think men should have the opportunity to pull out of a pregnancy at the same timeline that a woman does

03:44:07.260 right um but that's something that women are finding unacceptable they're suggesting that that's

03:44:13.340 just a way to encourage men to you know abandon their babies and it's not really what it's about

03:44:18.620 it's about having rights over your own autonomy and if you look at like men don't even have access

03:44:22.300 to proper birth control they've got condoms we all know condoms suck you know so that's a really

03:44:26.860 good example of something where women are it would like equally benefit us but because it's benefiting

03:44:33.660 men more they're just not for that well i would i would take it even a step further than that because

03:44:40.220 i think sometimes women the way that this feminist movement looks now women don't even advocate for

03:44:45.900 things that would benefit them i think and no just just let me finish and like one thing that doesn't

03:44:52.060 make sense to me is why the feminist movement if we truly want to protect women and we want equality

03:45:00.700 is why does the modern day feminist women not advocate for this is going to sound shocking to

03:45:05.180 you guys why do they we not advocate for female firearm ownership and training right because

03:45:12.460 teach us how to protect ourselves exactly we we do have to protect yourself if men are so

03:45:17.020 superior it's not i don't that but that's the thing is i don't think they're superior but they

03:45:21.180 are bigger they're stronger they're gonna they're more of a threat to me than i am to them no i

03:45:27.260 agree with that but i think that that and you might listen i'm not disagreeing with you because

03:45:32.220 i think that's an important conversation too but i think that again that centers the idea around

03:45:37.020 women protecting themselves rather than men just not being a threat oh absolutely well but the problem

03:45:42.700 is i mean things sound right i studied government i studied political theory things can work out in

03:45:47.020 theory but that's not how the real world is and i i wish that i i've said before i'm a vegetarian like i

03:45:54.780 i do not believe in firearm ownership for the sake of hunting or owning or you know killing animals i

03:46:02.940 think it's really sad that we live in a world where random girls are getting attacked on a bus or

03:46:09.580 being followed after they're you know walking home from work or they're just on a run they're

03:46:14.380 minding their own business and if we if men are stronger and have and i'm not saying all men but if

03:46:23.020 some of them are a little kooky and then enact that violence on women why are we not promoting

03:46:27.580 more ways for women to be able to protect themselves because in that case that firearm

03:46:32.460 is the equalizer and that is true a true feminist is gonna see it happening as an equal on the other

03:46:40.140 side men women are just as dangerous so you can't be a feminist and not take women accountability you

03:46:46.460 got to be able to say women are dangerous too you got to be able to say women are fucked up too

03:46:50.860 instead of being like well men men men men absolutely i want to explore something you

03:46:55.900 said about we should teach men not to do these things right do you think like broadly speaking

03:47:02.060 men are just like completely ignorant like they they just no they just innately want to just like

03:47:08.780 essay women is that kind of your position or no that's the opposite but like can i ask you a question

03:47:13.340 on this because i hear this argument a lot and look obviously nobody should be victimized ever

03:47:17.180 but like living in reality for example the united states i forgot which governing body it is or what

03:47:25.980 what the uh what the institution is called i don't know if it's the state department but they say

03:47:30.700 here are certain countries that as an american not because you're an american but as an american

03:47:35.580 we don't recommend you going there for any reason whatsoever because these countries are dangerous right

03:47:41.020 um would you like let's say i went to somalia one of the countries they say don't travel to is

03:47:48.460 somalia so if you're if you're american right they say this country is like really dangerous there's a

03:47:54.140 bunch of corruption like you're probably going to die if you go there etc like if an american goes to

03:47:59.820 somalia i don't want anything bad to happen to them they should like nothing bad should happen but like

03:48:05.500 if you end up like would you be kind of surprised if they ended up so what's the comparison yeah

03:48:12.380 well you were making this argument that well we should only put the we should only put the onus

03:48:17.980 on the perpetrator right and look i think that but what's the action the woman's doing that would

03:48:24.700 put them that's what i want to know like what's the comparison what's going to somalia yeah so well

03:48:29.500 first just do you agree with me on the somalia example like clearly there are actions that you can

03:48:34.300 take on the individual level that put you yourself in harm's way you shouldn't be like attacked or

03:48:39.740 murdered or anything like that but like if i go to a bad part of town there's definitely stuff you can

03:48:43.660 do if i go to a bad part of town even in the united states at like 3 a.m and i'm like in gang territory

03:48:49.180 and i'm wearing like certain colors like right i shouldn't i should not be surprised when some it

03:48:55.580 shouldn't happen but i like how so maybe i should be like i'm not going to wear red in this neighborhood

03:49:01.980 at 3 a.m but what's the comparison well sure but you're trying to no you brought up an analogy i

03:49:07.980 want to know what it's comparing to i can i can help with this one sure okay so i can wait in too but

03:49:12.860 go ahead do you want to go you're the host well i would say like i don't know you're you're alluding

03:49:19.020 to like essay right that's what you were alluding to sure yeah i would say like women can take certain

03:49:25.180 preventative measures to protect themselves obviously a woman should never be essayed that's

03:49:30.220 a terrible crime absolutely but there are certain things like you can do to protect yourself like for

03:49:34.700 example don't go get like shit face blasted at frat party like you shouldn't be essayed in that

03:49:40.220 circumstance but like prevent it to prevent something like that from happening but why should

03:49:45.900 you have to i can i can look no i'm not saying hold on just to be clear just to be clear i'm not

03:49:51.420 saying a woman should not be essayed under any circumstance but i'm saying like the the reality

03:49:57.420 is that these crimes do occur they're fucking disgusting if i were to witness it i'd want to

03:50:01.500 like kill the guy or whatever i'd want to beat him up you know whatever you might brian you're a

03:50:05.580 little flappy come on what are you gonna do but like if i saw this i would i would absolutely go

03:50:09.500 berserk it's a despicable fucking crime they should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law

03:50:14.300 but like if i was if i had a daughter i wouldn't just i wouldn't live in fantasy land and just be

03:50:20.460 like you know what just go get totally shit-faced drunk at a frat house i would be like maybe no

03:50:26.700 don't do that well i think you're totally right question what frat houses here yes it's like a

03:50:33.420 like a sorority for men yeah it's a great thing actually oh so are you are you saying the frat are

03:50:38.460 they dangerous people no not necessarily i mean i'm not i'm not making something i'm not like like

03:50:43.820 and no i think you're right but i also think that both things can be true at the same time

03:50:46.940 that i think we can yes i think women can protect themselves and i also think that men can be taught

03:50:50.540 to not totally like i never i i just i don't want you to think that what i was saying was that women

03:50:56.140 shouldn't take measures to protect themselves because i definitely do right i think where this

03:51:00.220 conversation gets tough is you know we both get victim blamed men or women but historically women

03:51:06.540 have had a much higher rate of uh you know being victim blamed especially when they're victimized and so

03:51:12.860 these conversations um can be tough because it comes across like maybe the woman deserved it or

03:51:19.100 she did something and that's not what anybody is saying but the reality is is that using preventative

03:51:24.780 measures is very important and we understand this when it comes to children for example right like i'm a

03:51:30.060 mom of two and i do everything i can to protect my children against pedophiles right we tell them like

03:51:37.100 don't talk to people on the internet don't do this this this and this that's not suggesting that if

03:51:41.660 anything were to happen to my child that that was their fault it means that it's my responsibility

03:51:46.860 to put certain measures in place so that they can protect themselves and it's the same ideology it

03:51:52.860 just comes across as very salty when you tell women like oh well if you don't want to get a say

03:51:57.340 just like protect yourself it's not the reality it's just that we live in a very sick world and

03:52:03.100 nobody deserves to be like essayed or assaulted you know but it's the same ideology if you have you

03:52:08.380 you know if brian here is rich as fuck and he goes out you know into a crowded place in town and he's

03:52:13.660 counting all his money and flashing his rolex if he gets robbed is that his fault no it's not it's

03:52:19.420 a hundred percent the onus is on the perpetrator however could he have been a little bit more

03:52:24.220 responsible not to attract that yeah that doesn't mean it's his fault we're exercising caution right

03:52:29.980 right yeah yeah we should we should obviously acknowledge that these sorts of crimes should never

03:52:35.980 occur if we want to live in like function in good society right where we like harm reduction these

03:52:41.020 things should that's the word right these these things should like never happen but knowing that

03:52:46.140 there are people out there who are either like crazy or they have ill intent or whatever we do it's like

03:52:51.900 why do we have militaries like i don't think anybody's in favor of going to war but like sometimes

03:52:57.340 you even need something you need a military for defensive reasons like what if somebody else invades us

03:53:02.140 how can you move through the world in a way knowing that there are evil people out there to protect

03:53:09.180 yourself again it's not it shouldn't happen but knowing that there are bad people out there how can we

03:53:15.820 take actions to protect ourselves and we got interrupted but you you made a comment to me about me thinking

03:53:23.180 men are superior do you feel like i've come across that way for sure how so just your demeanor okay and

03:53:29.900 that's a negative thing to think that men are superior no i'm not saying that's a negative

03:53:33.660 okay i'm just saying that's how you come across we have a chat how so though oh one sec barrio

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03:54:00.060 wisdom with the tts thank you man do you want to respond okay so what is it so something upgraded to

03:54:05.340 oh i upgraded to a ten piece excellent we love that because then we go from a six piece to a ten piece

03:54:10.700 okay we like that so what was the next military man on negotiate on her behalf i love a man i love a man

03:54:17.900 who serves oh my god it depends what your disability rating is so how much you know coming in like

03:54:25.260 god bless america come on home honey here we're gonna move on wait can i yeah oh yeah

03:54:31.260 can i get an answer on where please i don't know why you're rolling your eyes you said something i have

03:54:35.580 a right to just get some clarity i've answered you baby hey please stop calling me that i like

03:54:40.700 other people may not realize it's condescending but like you and i are both women we know

03:54:44.700 that women call each other that to like okay cupcake i like that sweetheart i'm gonna call

03:54:50.300 you a cupcake i'm just curious where um what i said how it came across that i think that men are

03:54:55.740 superior it's just your demeanor how so it's literally just your demeanor do i look like a

03:55:00.540 man is that what you're saying no i'm kidding you don't you're actually very bright thank you so

03:55:04.460 where what what part of my demeanor has come across where you come across can you explain a little

03:55:09.340 bit i do what you just did bro no bro saying it's just how you come across isn't giving me

03:55:14.700 any clarifying you're giving like i hate women do you think so for sure that's very interesting you

03:55:21.180 know i i get that a lot because i choose to take uh so if you get that a lot then yeah i do because

03:55:26.460 i take a a male stance and not a lot of people like that however um the people that know me know that

03:55:32.620 i'm actually like quite a girl's girl and i'm both so just because somebody may have like an

03:55:38.540 understanding or bring a perspective of men doesn't mean that they're just like naturally

03:55:44.300 against women but i think it's just i am not a girl girl like real bitches i love men and i love

03:55:50.780 women i love both equally but i still don't come across that way so what what about my demeanor though

03:55:56.300 has come across like i think men are superior it's just your energy man you're just kind of soul

03:56:00.060 sucking i'm so good not in a good way okay hmm i'm wondering if you can clarify on that a little

03:56:06.700 bit or i just don't the only buddy sucking souls here is you lady i love to suck so she's not

03:56:14.460 how you coming for my girl chloe put some respect put some respect on my girl i think she's totally

03:56:21.500 hot but i think that this is home girl my caucasian yes you're my caucasian chloe we were talking

03:56:27.500 earlier about how like women will excuse certain like behavior coming from women and i think this

03:56:33.500 is like somewhat ties into it where like everybody is a girl's girl until another woman goes against

03:56:39.900 maybe like your basic beliefs or what maybe you think women should that's how you come across to me

03:56:44.940 because i don't but you can't give me an actual reason as to why you're just like well it's your

03:56:49.180 demeanor and i do girls not saying anything of substance that's how you come across to me you're

03:56:56.460 saying oh a girl's girl until you do something that you don't agree with i do something you don't agree

03:57:01.020 with and then you immediately come for me come for my job because you don't agree with it can you give

03:57:05.660 me an example yeah give an example the fact that i love god and i love pussy like you wait that was

03:57:11.580 actually yeah so i don't really think you have a reason i think that you see a woman that's taking like

03:57:17.260 a male stance and trying to give perspective which is equality by the way i think you said that you

03:57:21.980 were but it's not if you're taking a male stance then you should be taking both stances i have if

03:57:26.940 you've paid attention i actually i actually have you're streaming so okay well i think maybe i'm

03:57:33.180 saying some things that you are out of your perspective and you don't like that so you want

03:57:37.020 to label me it does sound like i'm talking about her energy and not like it's just an energy babe

03:57:43.660 okay yo crazy i think for the gifted 10 subs i don't know why it's not letting me pull it up

03:57:48.140 but thank you man appreciate it uh did you want to continue on chloe or no i don't think she's willing

03:57:52.780 to have a i don't think she has an actual reason i think she sees a men's rights advocate and

03:57:56.620 automatically assumes that we like suck men's dick but well if you're familiar with me or my content i

03:58:01.820 call both out i'm very equally so but i appreciate your judgment i'm sorry i'm coming across that way

03:58:08.140 that's okay don't know how it's the scottish scott's maybe it's the romanian in me i don't

03:58:13.820 know just come on i love it she loves it okay uh how about this women are just so the i know not

03:58:22.220 all of you had a chance to do the questionnaire but i'll just ask it to everybody women are just as

03:58:27.740 physically strong as men summer you agree with that statement and i believe that's it uh do you do

03:58:36.540 you think women are just as physically strong as men uh i mean i think it depends on the individual

03:58:40.940 but as a whole i would say no generally what do you think texas uh i don't think women are stronger

03:58:47.340 than men at all uh you said women are just as physically strong as men i think it depends on the

03:58:53.180 man so like if you're a weak man and i'm a strong woman we're the exact same right so i agree that

03:58:58.860 there are definitely women who are physically some women who are physically stronger than men

03:59:02.460 absolutely but in totality if you were to compare so we have like a um what is it like our pain

03:59:10.860 perspective or whatever it is like we handle pain a lot yeah we handle pain a lot better than

03:59:17.020 on the inside but physically uh accepting the fact that a man could be my ass would get me out of a lot

03:59:21.980 of situations oh for sure but like if i'm a very strong woman and a very weak man stepped up to me i'm

03:59:27.820 gonna beat his ass i think a man as we perceived as we could still beat your ass because i'm ain't

03:59:32.620 nothing like a man's strength in my opinion but if he's weak that's just a fact actually it's not

03:59:37.580 even in my opinion that's a fact strength are men on average stronger probably yeah but if it's a weak

03:59:42.780 man well yeah a strong woman then it's the same right but there's more well i guess i'd frame it like

03:59:50.140 this there's more strong men than there are strong women yeah biologically men are stronger okay

03:59:55.260 okay okay nothing to push back on then uh women can't be sexist towards men do you would you agree

04:00:01.180 with that women can't be sexist towards men uh women can't be like well here i'll change the framing

04:00:11.580 so i guess it makes a bit more sense uh people of color can't be racist towards white people do you

04:00:17.980 agree with with that yeah okay going around the table what do you think i agree you agree what about

04:00:23.740 you sorry that women can't be sexist towards men no people of color can't be racist towards white

04:00:30.140 people i mean they are all the time and it's but okay so you disagree okay what about you can i agree

04:00:38.940 so okay like a black person can't be racist towards a white person okay what do you think can a

04:00:43.820 can a person of color be racist towards a white person yes yes okay yes i agree yes they can be

04:00:51.180 mike's yes they can chloe i see it every day yes they can so you said uh no they can't no they can't

04:01:00.700 no they can't uh why is that uh well i think that i mean obviously you can make discriminatory jokes

04:01:08.540 towards any race but i think that the you know the concept of racism holds a lot more weight than

04:01:13.900 towards people of color than it would towards white people so i think that racism in the true sense of

04:01:18.060 the word white people can't experience that because we've been on top forever like okay what do you

04:01:22.700 think i'll respond after i agree like i don't think that like if someone was to call me like a white slur

04:01:28.780 like i wouldn't be offended like it wouldn't affect you in the same way but then by this logic if a black

04:01:34.620 person was defended by like somebody calling them a racial slur yeah because i would still like from

04:01:40.940 the outside but it might offend other black people yeah sure but but calling a white person a white

04:01:45.900 slur could offend some white people but i would say way proportionally less i'd be willing to grant that

04:01:51.260 but it would still offend some white people yeah but i don't think it really has much volume behind

04:01:56.700 the word right so if you were to call me like a but if jenny was to come there's no history english i

04:02:02.380 would be offended but i feel like oh like a anti-scottish slur yeah there's a lot of history

04:02:09.980 there yeah well you were talking about something earlier i don't i don't remember specifically but

04:02:14.540 it was something about how they like banned white men from going into a place yeah thailand they've

04:02:20.860 banned um white men from the uk from going into thailand because they kept killing the prostitutes in

04:02:25.980 thailand so wait really yeah yeah wait they're white people aren't allowed in no so they're like

04:02:32.220 see if you're like a white man going to thailand alone for a long period of time there's it's

04:02:38.460 substantially a lot harder now to get in because really yeah because of what happened yeah i just

04:02:43.980 think that that's that's a bit of a good example on how i don't think that's racist of their economy

04:02:48.700 i think so but i don't think that's racist against that i think that's based on right if you look at

04:02:54.300 like statistics if statistics in america show that like marginalized groups commit so that's nothing to do

04:03:00.860 with color because if you're what like white is it white men or just white men men are banned from

04:03:06.620 going to thailand it's like it's not like they're like you're specifically banned i'm googling it i

04:03:12.700 can't even i can't see any anyways whatever um yeah so in canada um i think it's um black and

04:03:19.260 indigenous people disproportionately commit more um crimes than like white or south asian or

04:03:25.420 things like that so if we were to start like segregating you know black or indigenous people

04:03:30.860 based off of crime stats i just think that would that would be racist so i'm not really taking an

04:03:35.260 opinion too much on the thailand stuff i'm not educated enough on that topic i'm just saying i

04:03:39.340 think that's a great example of how looking at someone for their skin color and judging them on

04:03:44.220 the actions of others does affect those who didn't do anything i think that's an interesting point

04:03:50.380 because i but i also think it's very different because that was based like truth is people of

04:03:55.020 color in most countries especially ones that are you know like the united states um are like a lot of

04:04:02.540 the you know crime stats it's true maybe you know they did commit those crimes but a lot of it is

04:04:07.020 because of the position they would put in historically i agree and so and that's just completely different

04:04:11.020 than white people going to a different country and killing prostitutes you might have a good point

04:04:14.300 there but what i'm confused why do you think people of color can't be racist i i don't get that

04:04:20.060 it's not that you can't say something racist like you could say i hate white people white people

04:04:25.020 this whatever but i think that it doesn't hold the same weight as it would towards but if you're a

04:04:29.660 black you know business owner or landlord and you choose like i'm not gonna hire white people or i'm

04:04:34.940 gonna not rent to white people like there are are you saying like there are not the means or the

04:04:40.140 methods there for black well i mean that's discrimination for sure but i think i i well i guess what i'm

04:04:46.300 saying is that like the avenues in the sense of like prejudice isn't the same i don't think we're

04:04:52.220 talking about systemic racism i think we're talking like one-to-one personal yeah i hate you because

04:04:57.260 your skin color would you agree i just think the difference there i just think it's offensive to say

04:05:01.740 that black people cannot be racist because we have had y'all honestly y'all wouldn't be able to fight

04:05:07.260 for anything if it wasn't for black people in this country we were the first movement civil rights

04:05:11.500 movement so for starters i don't think that it's fair to say black people can be racist because we

04:05:16.460 fall for our power and our rights so saying that black people cannot be racist is saying that we

04:05:20.460 don't have power which is basically condescending to the civil rights no it's not about but i also

04:05:27.420 i also get what you're saying it doesn't impact white people the same way that it does somebody like

04:05:32.780 me right if somebody was to be racist that's all i'm saying rather than y'all yeah i get what you're

04:05:37.420 saying okay then i then i won't but wouldn't it yeah saying like isn't it almost baked in racism to

04:05:43.180 say that black people can't do x like they can't be like i think i think you know that that's enough

04:05:54.220 i don't know it could be um and then you also think that uh black people or people of color whatever

04:05:59.900 can't be racist i think personally i've never

04:06:05.420 had anyone be racist towards me um i think but is it possible yes and no i'm on like

04:06:16.460 i know you're rolling your eyes but i was just i'm just i'm listening to what everyone else is

04:06:21.260 saying i was i wasn't rolling my okay i just no i wasn't rolling my eyes no i'm trying to listen to

04:06:27.900 everyone's point so my opinion can change throughout when everyone is speaking oh so

04:06:32.300 your opinion has changed or no it's still on the fence i feel like they can be racist but it doesn't

04:06:37.580 as they were saying it doesn't hold as much gravity yeah because we've always been well i personally

04:06:44.620 have never neither like being involved in any situation like somebody calling you a cracker or

04:06:50.940 something isn't going to wait just just for a platform just for platform rules just don't say

04:06:56.700 that term yeah so sorry that's what i'm saying though i didn't even think that was offensive

04:07:03.020 i don't find it offensive but youtube and twitch have an issue with fair enough yeah so i had a weird

04:07:09.180 experience i had a weird experience with it once where i was um hired to come help these guys in

04:07:15.900 toronto with their podcast and they were all jamaican so all black and i'm sitting there in

04:07:21.420 the meeting again they hired me and this one guy this young guy is just like fucking rude he's like

04:07:27.260 rolling his eyes at everything i'm saying staring at me shaking my head and so i stopped the meeting

04:07:33.020 and i was like what's like what's your problem with me like you guys hired me to be here why are you

04:07:37.500 being so rude um and he looked me dead in my face and he's like my mom taught me uh not to trust

04:07:43.500 or be courteous to white women with tattoos and i was like dude i would literally never look at you

04:07:48.780 and treat you differently or make an assumption because of your skin color so why are you doing

04:07:53.100 it to me so i actually have received it i would agree that it's probably more rare like black people a

04:07:57.580 hundred percent any marginalized group um they definitely take on the weight of racism far more

04:08:04.060 but i i'm just saying it does can happen and i experienced it and it was weird when the uk

04:08:10.220 becomes a muslim majority country do you think that's not gonna happen at the really please

04:08:18.860 trust me when i think don't read the news the uk scotland is a white country i think they are

04:08:26.540 honestly trust me there's have you been lately have i been no i haven't been okay no i haven't

04:08:32.780 the uk is predominantly white has always been predominantly white there's yeah there's muslims

04:08:38.700 we don't care you're only seeing like this the news taking some crazy things we had it for trans

04:08:46.460 people a month ago it's not a big deal like it isn't they're not pushing an agenda especially not

04:08:52.140 in scotland anyway hold on isn't london wait wait hold on london like wait is london the capital

04:08:57.260 of yeah yeah you've literally lost your capital yeah you've literally lost the capital you've literally

04:09:04.540 lost your capital hello bro have we have you been yes have you been no i haven't where did you get

04:09:10.940 this from where have you got your hold on there's literally there's do you think london is safer do

04:09:16.940 you think london is safer today or 30 years ago never been safe is it safer was it safer 30 years ago

04:09:22.540 or is it safer today london has never been you mean with all the stabbings and the knife crimes oh i i

04:09:27.340 knew this was going to happen i knew this was going to happen i mean they get attacked every

04:09:30.300 this has always been a problem london has always had knife scotland london always had knife crime

04:09:35.980 always i mean people say that about new york too new york is way safer than it used to be

04:09:39.660 but people pull us random stats all the time it's never been anything to do with muslims it isn't to

04:09:44.220 do with muslims now this is just the agenda that they're pushing because they want something to

04:09:48.380 blame it was trans people a month ago look now they're all over it demographically there's a lot of

04:09:54.300 shift going on in europe a lot of shift and essentially by the way white people are minority

04:10:00.700 globally speaking i am not in the uk please trust us no there's barely any black people when i say

04:10:07.740 globally i'm talking globally so like white people are a minority globally speaking and we have you

04:10:14.060 know there's there's european countries that for most of human all of human history basically were

04:10:19.180 white romanians basically white yeah and i'm telling you in 30 40 50 60 years you look at

04:10:28.300 amsterdam you look at the well in the netherlands you look at what's happening in france you look

04:10:32.860 at what's happening in the uk you look at germany these are no longer they're they're literally

04:10:39.100 they're gonna be there are white people everywhere then y'all are not a minority but i i do have to

04:10:44.940 say white people are a global minority you can look it up white people are everywhere that have

04:10:50.700 emigrated from ireland to new york can we talk about the people from sure i guess london who have

04:10:56.700 emigrated to australia like why is it a problem it's just when it's people of color wait hold on

04:11:02.940 it's just travel that's more it's just travel but he's not he's not necessarily saying it's a

04:11:07.580 problem yes but you can do it more accessibly no i i am right white people are a global minority

04:11:13.740 sure but they're not a marginalized community i see what is the point of them being a global

04:11:18.220 minor what do you why are you well i guess it depends like what your sense of like marginalized

04:11:22.540 is but if like in your own country for i guess my question would be do you think there's anything

04:11:29.580 wrong with japan for example not wanting to take in immigrants like do you think that's wrong if

04:11:35.660 japanese people want japan to remain japanese no that's their country they can do what they want

04:11:41.420 that's their country but so what would be wrong with european countries wanting you know their culture

04:11:47.100 to like maintain the majority of us don't want that like i'm i'm dead serious the majority do not

04:11:53.900 want that if you look at scotland there was this what are they called like far right tommy robinson

04:11:59.500 yeah tommy robinson so the tommy robinson people came to scotland came to glasgow they were pushed

04:12:04.540 back by other people there was like 10 of them that showed up hundreds pushed them back can we

04:12:10.540 can we clarify that we're not advocating for like white supremacy or like xenophobia or anything

04:12:19.020 i do have to say though and this is just from personal experience uh i first went to europe when i was 16

04:12:24.300 years old i studied abroad in spain i go every year a few times a year for work um i have noticed

04:12:31.980 in the past few years every time i go with the influx of african migrants i don't live there so

04:12:38.940 i can't say i want them or not but they are coming up to your car there you're just trying to walk down

04:12:43.980 the street in italy germany they try to are trying to sell you things there you guys want to you guys

04:12:51.820 ask if i've been to london what did that have to do with anything well what i'm saying is to say that

04:12:56.220 there's not been an influx of migrants that are changing we're just saying it's not necessarily a

04:13:01.100 problem we're not actually but i mean don't see it as a problem where we're from i i have one of my

04:13:06.940 closest friends is a dual citizen she comes back and forth from england i have other very good friends

04:13:11.260 that live in the netherlands they are saying it is a prompt that there isn't been an increase in

04:13:15.420 stabbing because obviously you guys don't have firearms but where she lives in the hague

04:13:20.140 um where else does she live in england do you know um i know that i know you're googling the

04:13:26.780 facts i don't remember that i know it's somewhere in the south of the country oh okay um yeah the

04:13:32.220 south is a bit more stabby yeah um brenton's always been stabby but but i have friends in the

04:13:39.820 netherlands that are saying the same thing that live in the hague that um my personal experience last

04:13:44.140 time i went to naples italy i was man i was being followed i was you know because like

04:13:51.020 walking around by myself and you're like black people

04:13:55.740 by migrants i don't know if they are black or middle eastern or but you know this has always

04:14:01.580 been a well obviously we're not told but every time we go to italy it's always the same it's not

04:14:06.540 like this isn't like a problem that is literally just happened it's not a problem at all i guess it's

04:14:11.900 just but you're just noticing you're just noticing it now because more people are talking about on the

04:14:15.900 news like we've always had migrants like the uk wait but you've let in hold on all these european

04:14:22.620 countries have like there's been a total floodgate opening of immigration yes there's been there were

04:14:27.740 immigrants back in the 70s of course but like there's been massive floodgate opening it's happening

04:14:32.860 in canada the usa it's happening all over europe and i mean if this was like happening in the reverse

04:14:38.940 you guys would it would be called colonialism no i don't think it what you saw a bunch of taking

04:14:45.580 over ever country like they're running away from something they're running away from a war

04:14:51.660 and we're letting them that's not colonialism it's not colonialism except refugees i think

04:14:56.060 yeah but no most of these people hold on a lot of these people that are that are immigrating it's

04:15:01.660 not because of crime or it's not because of war it's for economic reasons there's much more

04:15:07.020 prosperity that's another thing to run away from is yeah i mean that's still right but so then then

04:15:12.060 the situation in those countries just gets worse and worse there's brain drain on these countries

04:15:16.940 of course the most intelligent intellectual people there they would be able they would be best suited to

04:15:23.740 help build up their own country but if they all leave you have what's called brain drain and then

04:15:28.940 what are you going to do like the country just gets worse and worse wouldn't wouldn't what's wrong

04:15:33.020 with building up their countries thank you you're literally describing canada right now i don't know

04:15:37.820 what the hell has happened but like as a liberal the liberals have up the country like we're we're

04:15:42.860 talking about bringing people in and giving them like four thousand dollars a month to live when

04:15:47.580 canadians can't even pay their own bills and buy groceries it is so so so bad it's so bad i was just in

04:15:57.340 edmonton and our neighbor okay yeah i'm from calgary okay oh that's that's right there yeah yeah i love

04:16:03.740 it um yeah i was just there and um the uber dryer just like gave the whole he was just like i've never

04:16:11.020 he's like you just seem like you're nice to talk to and then next thing you know he just told me the

04:16:15.980 whole shindig with the whole sponsorship thing so it's ironic that you mention that literally not even

04:16:21.420 what like two weeks ago i just learned about that whole i'll give an example so i i actually have

04:16:27.580 dual citizenship uh you know i'm america first no no in uh france i was born in france but i i had

04:16:35.500 my mom's american so dual citizenship whatever but of course my loyalties must remain with with the us

04:16:44.300 but i was born in france i lived there till i was like five whatever moved here and i've been back

04:16:51.820 over the years i remember when i was a kid going to the eiffel tower a lot's changed in 30 years

04:17:01.180 yeah but for the worse so i remember i could go to the eiffel tower there weren't barricades there

04:17:07.260 weren't like anti-terrorist soldiers stationed around with like with with rifles everywhere when i went

04:17:14.140 and this was 10 years ago in 2014 when i went back to france and i went to the eiffel tower

04:17:18.940 there were soldiers everywhere with with guns i don't remember that when i was a kid that that

04:17:24.780 wasn't yeah i do we do oh you guys how old are you guys you're in your mid-20s i'm 36 you guys were

04:17:31.740 not alive when i was five when i went to the eiffel tower as a kid when you were five yeah i hold on

04:17:37.340 when you're five hold on when you're five when i was a child okay well i don't remember hold on i don't

04:17:43.340 remember things when i was one or two but i definitely remember things when i was five

04:17:47.820 and then i went back when i was seven when i was nine went but then when i went in 2014 10 years ago

04:17:54.300 that's when i saw the soldiers so there's massive absolute massive shifts going on in france

04:18:01.660 france has let in a bunch and there's a lot of crime there's been a bunch of terrorist attacks in

04:18:06.300 france it's just a sad state of affairs when you could go the eiffel tower and there weren't a bunch

04:18:11.020 of barricades and there weren't soldiers with guns now there are yeah didn't somebody like behead

04:18:15.820 their teacher due to doesn't that happen in america all of the time don't you guys have

04:18:21.500 yeah you guys if you're gonna speak speak into the mic it happened one time right and it's a problem

04:18:27.500 it happens in your country all the time and it's not a problem so what's the difference wait it is a

04:18:31.980 problem when it does happen no but like why is it used as a statistic when it happens one time

04:18:36.780 in one country and a bunch of years when it happens in your country multiple times daily

04:18:43.420 like what are you talking terrorist attacks no like attacks like violence gun violence knife

04:18:47.420 violence all of this stuff yeah that's a bad thing happening in this country but why is it only used

04:18:51.820 against immigrants and like europe do you know what i'm saying i'm not coming across yeah like you're

04:18:59.580 saying oh but someone was beheaded in paris that's awful yes it is it's really really awful it's

04:19:05.900 horrible it happens here why is that not used as a statistic here well i think for a starter how

04:19:12.940 much bigger the us is compared to compared to other countries um i mean if you look at like

04:19:19.500 these incidents per 100 000 people i'm sure that the incident rate is probably way closer than if you

04:19:25.740 look at the us as in its entirety and all the incidents that happen in the us with the 370 million

04:19:33.340 people we have here compared to the population of france or england of course it's going to be

04:19:38.300 disproportionate with the population it doesn't mean that we're a more violent country no i'm not

04:19:44.620 saying you're a violent country at all i'm just saying that like you can't use one thing and be like oh

04:19:50.220 the migrants are taken over because one singular person beheaded someone somewhere in paris because

04:19:56.220 that's it just makes no sense oh of course but i i think you know even if you go to the eiffel tower

04:20:01.980 now right you have everybody all the migrants lined up selling things on the street there's always been

04:20:07.980 lucky lucky man and then the police came and they all come with they pull the towel and they run yes it

04:20:13.100 has always been there but it i've been going i go to europe every year multiple times a year i go and and i

04:20:19.340 know you guys live there so i but i also am traveling to different parts i'm not necessarily

04:20:25.580 like if you go to my hometown and you try to use that as representative of what's going on in the

04:20:30.700 entirety of the united states you know you're going to be disappointed and you're not going to get an

04:20:36.140 accurate reflection on what's happening at different parts of the country um i can only give like

04:20:41.900 anecdotal evidence of this i don't know the statistics but i have seen in my last decade going every

04:20:47.100 year that things have changed there has been an influx of migrants i don't know if that necessarily

04:20:52.620 is related to the certain incidences that are happening and i'm certainly not excusing racism

04:20:58.700 or anti-immigrant rhetoric of course whatever however i think would be wrong with anti-immigrant

04:21:05.500 rhetoric well i just don't know enough about the statistics to make any sort of claim that the

04:21:11.980 immigrants are the causation illegal immigration but look yes you're saying yeah there are specific

04:21:18.780 individual acts of violence but like when we're when we're making criticisms

04:21:23.820 of illegal immigration or even you there's even valid criticisms of just basic level immigrate that's

04:21:29.580 even legal uh there's other impacts beyond just crime or beyond like specific acts of like terrorism

04:21:37.500 or whatever it is you know we can look economically there's massive negative economic impacts to this

04:21:43.100 too could you name them oh absolutely increasing rent prices and that's the immigrants fault well if you

04:21:50.620 have a limited like housing is not uh infinite so if you have a limited housing supply and you're like

04:21:57.580 there's an influx of like 50 100 000 people into an area yeah that's going to drive rental prices up so

04:22:04.540 that's because i'm talking for my country is anybody here with the current rental prices anywhere i'm

04:22:09.740 talking for my country um okay and scotland the the problem isn't immigrants the problem is people

04:22:15.180 buying multiple properties and then look look just to be clear rental prices that's why the rental

04:22:21.820 prices are high hold on obviously this is a multi-varied issue it we're i'm not saying the entirety of

04:22:29.260 the blame yes it could be greedy landlords it could be corporations that are scooping up

04:22:34.140 properties it could be all these things in total but this is one one of the negative components

04:22:40.380 to immigration is they have to live somewhere they're buying they're occupying the housing stock

04:22:46.380 that could otherwise go to citizens of the country yes but we also do that in their well not their

04:22:50.700 country but we also do that in australia we also do that here in america like scottish people irish

04:22:55.660 people english people migrate to america you just have a housing problem why is it there's not a lot

04:23:00.620 of illegal immigration from scotland there's a lot from ireland there is of illegal of illegal i mean

04:23:07.100 maybe like a hundred years hold on no irish i know of them i know people that are working in america

04:23:12.460 illegally like it's very okay fine then we should support the illegal irish too then no i love the

04:23:18.860 irish people i don't think you should support anyone okay but like it okay sure i guess like there's

04:23:25.020 why is it only a problem when it's someone like fleeing from a war-torn country why sorry mexicans

04:23:30.940 are not fleeing we're not we're not talking about refugees we're talking about immigration

04:23:36.540 i'm talking about the u.s oh yeah we were talking we don't we're talking about every country no you

04:23:41.260 were talking about even well even in america there's scottish and irish immigrants

04:23:47.580 no that's just my mocking i think what she was saying is that there's migrants to scotland but

04:23:53.420 there's also migrants leaving scotland and going to different countries that's how it works people

04:23:56.780 move i think she was saying there's like a give and take i mean if you're trying to point this out

04:24:01.020 like as a sort of own like oh brian i'm sure you're fine with the illegal immigrants from scotland i'd

04:24:06.380 be like no i'm not fine with any of them no but no one ever talks about it no one talks about what

04:24:11.740 no one ever is like we talk about it here in the usa wasn't there just massive protests yeah there's

04:24:16.460 massive protests across the uk there's not but there is i literally nick find that video find

04:24:24.780 that video it's just london like okay it's just the whole of the it's not there's there were there

04:24:31.500 were protests there were protests in scotland they got counter pro there was like 10 people that showed

04:24:36.780 up there was one flag in my hometown and then the newspaper wrote about it and someone took it down

04:24:41.500 yeah it's not like a big like i'm i respect you i respect all of you here please don't listen to

04:24:49.660 the news it's not or that your statistics because we live there we see it there's if you put up a

04:24:56.060 fucking like wait this is a crazy thing because like well i live in i live in santa barbara which

04:25:01.260 is like one of the highest cost living of cities in uh california and like things here are mostly the

04:25:08.220 same in santa barbara but if you look at other regions of california you look at other places

04:25:13.420 in the united states immigration especially legal immigration absolutely has had impact in communities

04:25:19.260 i think usa and the uk is very different right but i couldn't look like for example montecito is like

04:25:26.300 the wealthiest places in the country it's just 10 minutes uh 10 minutes down south oprah winfrey lives

04:25:32.620 there prince who's the prince that moved prince harry lives here with his wife uh megan markle uh

04:25:39.820 ellen degenerate who else rob low a bunch of rich famous people live just 10 minutes away from here

04:25:45.820 10 minutes away like santa barbara rich snazzy whatever yeah i can go to the beach in montecito and

04:25:52.540 everything can look okay but that doesn't mean that other regions of the state of california or other

04:25:57.340 regions in the u.s aren't feeling the impact so i'm speaking about my country scotland and

04:26:02.460 i'm telling you there's no problem there's no problems in scott okay there's problems i don't

04:26:07.660 know about scotland we don't have a migrant problem we don't well i don't know what the

04:26:11.420 thing i don't know about scotland but i know in england where i live there's no issue i'm in the

04:26:17.740 midlands so that's amazing there's no that's great thank you but just because okay i know people

04:26:24.940 from what how many what's the population of your city i don't know the statistic i'm sorry

04:26:29.580 what what city are you from manchester wait manchester's pretty pretty big uh wikipop

04:26:36.780 it's not that big i mean half a million people in manchester is that big you're telling me there's

04:26:42.380 no immigrant okay there's no immigrants in manchester we're not we're not saying that

04:26:47.660 we're saying like what you're seeing on the news everyone like protesting against them it's we don't

04:26:53.900 actually like we don't care do you know immigrants built glasgow like glasgow's full of immigrants

04:26:59.660 always has been glasgow invented chicken tikka masala which is like an indian uh national dishes

04:27:06.780 curry it is like we're we especially glasgow especially edinburgh we don't have a problem like

04:27:13.900 we we like it we like the immigrants wait i'm just how okay so you're saying not an issue

04:27:18.940 like we don't see it but actually yes there are like of course there's immigrants there's immigrants

04:27:24.780 everywhere but like it's not an issue no one is saying like we don't there there's no protests

04:27:31.100 there's no there's obviously there's protests there's a protest in london yeah but there's counter

04:27:34.860 protests against it the people that try to protest especially in scotland i've been told

04:27:40.700 can i ask you a question though let's say let's say that i'm right on this issue and in 50 years time

04:27:47.820 mm-hmm the uk england scotland whatever it's not it's no longer a white majority country okay and

04:27:56.620 it's no longer a christian country even never has been wait we're not really not hold on what

04:28:02.220 england has never been a christian country don't you have your own church we're not the church of

04:28:07.260 england it's not like we're we're not religious well okay modern day yeah modern day but the protestant

04:28:15.660 well hold on yes yes every sunday how can she's religious but i go to church every majority is

04:28:21.500 there's no one there okay we're not a religious country i'm just saying maybe i'm wrong i could be

04:28:28.780 wrong but there could be demographic shift in these countries yeah of course and you look at you look at

04:28:35.260 you look at the scandinavian countries sweden norway etc they've had massive influxes and these are small

04:28:42.300 countries i believe sweden is like around 10 million norway's like three to four million or

04:28:47.820 something like that maybe these are stats from a couple years ago they've taken they've taken in

04:28:53.500 massive amounts of people and it's like well okay what does it mean to be swedish what does it mean to

04:28:57.900 be norwegian what does it mean to be british i think it just what you make it yeah it's all about

04:29:03.980 individuality well can i be nigerian if you want can i move to nigeria and become a nigerian that's what you

04:29:09.820 want babe look i mean that's a bit silly i'm from canada and if anybody knows anything about canada

04:29:15.500 we like preach live breathe by multiculturalism so in canada no way are we like you know it needs

04:29:22.300 to be predominantly like whiter i mean even indigenous i mean we fucking annihilated indigenous

04:29:27.660 people just to colonize it it was really up so but nobody in canada is like oh you know

04:29:33.340 fuck multiculturalism but the fact of the matter is is that our government is letting in literally

04:29:39.340 hundreds of thousands of migrants while forgetting about their own people so we're having a lot of

04:29:44.540 different issues we're having a housing crisis we're having an increase of crimes we're having

04:29:48.940 an increase of sexual assaults and that's by no means to be like immigration's bad i believe in

04:29:54.540 immigration i mostly believe in like refugees i think as canadians i think we should accept people that

04:30:00.700 are fleeing you know war oppression things like that but at the same time our government needs to

04:30:05.900 take care of the people because they're not they're giving all of this money to people who are immigrating

04:30:10.540 here we're buying up all the houses and nobody can fucking live like i make great money and i'm so lucky

04:30:16.540 for that but like what the hell would i do like i don't know how the average canadian's living they're just

04:30:21.420 not so it's not that like immigration's bad and we need like all white people or all people

04:30:27.340 from the you know original ethnicity it's just i think the point is is that like countries need to

04:30:33.020 take care of their own people before giving away all the funds to shit that doesn't even like of

04:30:37.580 course and and scotland specifically we do we do look after our own people like we have benefit

04:30:45.820 systems like we we have homeless shelters we have like it's very like they have a housing

04:30:51.580 scheme yeah there's a housing scheme if you're on the streets in scotland and you need a house you

04:30:56.540 phone like you phone someone you get a house my brother was homeless like but what's interesting

04:31:02.140 is in so many of these countries that do have intensive benefit systems in place like a lot

04:31:07.980 of europe a lot of scandinavia so long they have existed as a whole homogeneous society in terms of

04:31:17.660 culture socioeconomic background like with the workforce there's not the same discrepancy

04:31:22.780 in wealth in wealth in beliefs that perhaps we have in america because this country has been built on

04:31:30.220 the premise of diversity and a melting pot and can you see how it could potentially

04:31:40.060 be at risk or the systems that are in place be threatened when you have people coming in that

04:31:48.860 don't necessarily prescribe to the same ideas values and i'm not even speaking in terms of

04:31:56.700 religion because norway is not religious the scandinavian countries are not religion at all

04:32:01.580 but they are hard-working people and they they all uh subscribe to a very similar belief system and

04:32:08.220 contribute equally if we are having an influx of a population that is not contributing equally or do not

04:32:14.300 believe equally um in the same vision and don't have the same alliance to the system do you worry

04:32:21.340 about the sustainability of those programs in that country moving forward because now you have a new

04:32:26.140 factor coming in that really throws a wrench into how things have been going on for decades so in the uk

04:32:34.380 if you're an illegal immigrant you can't actually claim any benefits oh am i too far away you can't

04:32:39.980 actually claim any benefits if you're illegal in the uk so i think everyone if they are illegal do cash in

04:32:46.940 hand i don't know if you guys say that here um like not under the table is what we call it here

04:32:53.500 no you're good um personally i don't think i think immigration is good for economy however i do think

04:33:03.740 overpopulation is an issue because there's not enough houses and house prices are crazy

04:33:10.380 but saying that you can't claim the benefits of the uk if you're illegal yeah you can okay

04:33:18.140 we have a chat here from van spencer brian please check chair two i'm in the uk manchester liverpool

04:33:23.740 london birmingham on and on have all fallen the irish built manchester for fuck's sakes know your

04:33:31.820 history chair too yeah the irish we love the irish yeah there's no beef the biggest problem that

04:33:38.620 specifically scotland has is the english coming in like i'm not even joking this there's like a

04:33:45.340 statistic the centuries love statistics um that edinburgh university which is obviously our capital

04:33:50.780 and is very good university there's like i think it's maybe what like 10 of students there are actually

04:33:57.180 scottish the rest are like english is that considered immigration for you guys if you're if they're all

04:34:03.660 part of the uk okay it's not what all technically part of the uk so you all have the same passport

04:34:09.100 yes all right i gotta move on off of this but uh okay this leads back into our next one women

04:34:16.620 can't be sexist towards men so the same sort of framework here can can women be sexist towards men

04:34:25.580 uh i mean i never really thought about that in the way that i thought about the

04:34:29.260 you know people of color versus white people but i will say that

04:34:35.500 you know just based on me not thinking about that much i probably have a similar stance to the

04:34:39.180 white people thing where i mean technically you could say something sexist but it probably wouldn't

04:34:44.300 have the same impact it wouldn't have the okay what do you think um i think women could be sexist

04:34:51.260 towards men yeah you think they can be sexist what do you think i mean sure they can be

04:34:54.620 yeah they can be that's a good question but i guess i've never thought about it but i don't think

04:35:01.180 that a woman can have much of a stance when it comes to her opinion about a man as a man does when

04:35:09.100 it comes to a woman so women can't be sexist towards men they can i don't think so but hold on i'm

04:35:17.900 confused because on your you differ here you you say black people can be racist towards white people

04:35:24.300 but women can't be sexist towards men yeah because like can you give me an example of what that would

04:35:29.820 look like a woman being sexist towards a man well is it your position so are we have women been more

04:35:36.940 oppressed by men than black people have been oppressed by white people okay can we keep it simple like are we

04:35:47.420 we talking about race or gender well i just my confusion here is look i suppose people could

04:35:55.420 have two different opinions here but you say black people can be racist towards white people correct

04:36:02.540 but women can't be sexist towards men so these two are sort of interlinked a little bit yeah i don't see

04:36:08.700 how how could that be synonymous because i'm not really i don't really know a woman being sexist

04:36:14.860 i'll give you the example so basically uh some people will argue that because of oppression

04:36:20.780 or historical racism or historical systemic racism black people have been oppressed at the hands of

04:36:27.260 white people therefore uh and also there's like this prejudice plus power definition of racism racism is

04:36:36.540 prejudice plus power if black people don't have systemic power in a country how can they be racist

04:36:41.260 towards their oppressor basically okay but so you you dismiss you dismiss that though you say well

04:36:48.060 yes black people have experienced racism perhaps more in greater proportion than white people but

04:36:53.340 despite this black people can still be racist towards white people well it'd be then similar because you

04:36:59.260 might say well women have been oppressed by men blah blah blah women have been disadvantaged i don't think

04:37:04.780 women are oppressed by men though women the world was built for women can be sexist or can't be

04:37:14.140 i i don't know i think that's a good enough answer all right what do you think oh yeah i think women

04:37:18.540 can be sexist i think they do a better job of branding it like they call it pro woman rather than

04:37:24.620 being anti-man but i think they can be what do you think yes okay chloe what do you think yeah i think a

04:37:30.940 great example of uh like systemic sexism towards men is uh the u the uk's current policy about how

04:37:39.500 they define uh male victims of domestic violence they're currently classified under a bill that's uh

04:37:45.740 it's called uh men who are uh men and boys who are crimes uh who are victims of crimes against women and

04:37:54.140 it falls against the domestic violence act basically suggesting that they like are women there's no category

04:38:00.140 protecting boys and men they fall under the category of crimes yeah what about america

04:38:07.580 like you brought up something you brought up something in united kingdom i'm not from the

04:38:11.900 united kingdom i'm from america so what's the statistics in america well i think about a woman

04:38:17.100 being sexist towards a man yeah exactly well i'll give you an example i am a landlord and i own

04:38:22.940 in a few different places and if i allegedly refuse to rent to men because i said men are dirtier they're

04:38:31.740 more reckless they're bad tenants and um you know what i want to give an opportunity to a woman okay

04:38:39.740 that is for the man versus bear trend i couldn't think of yeah i couldn't think of an example but when

04:38:45.260 you put it like that okay a woman can be sexist towards a man i just never thought about it so yeah or

04:38:50.540 the man versus bear trend right the the ideology because if you replace me oh okay if that's an

04:38:55.260 example then yeah that is sexist towards a man yeah okay what about you what do you think can a

04:39:00.380 woman be sexist towards men oh yeah i already established that okay what do you think yes

04:39:07.740 and yes yeah we went there okay let me find where he left off

04:39:12.380 you know but the way that they do it are different you know because men and men and women operate

04:39:23.100 differently it's not quite the same as race like women can be sexist in ways or try to attack men in

04:39:29.740 ways that are different from how men inflict discrimination or violence on women so the next

04:39:37.580 question is a man dating or statement a man dating a transgender woman is straight and you agreed with

04:39:46.060 that a transgender did we say that what do you think i think it yeah i agree okay let me see what

04:39:53.900 everyone said what is a transgender woman again is it a man that became a woman or a woman that became

04:39:58.540 a man that became a woman yeah yeah and that's straight the statement is a man dating a transgender

04:40:07.260 woman is straight but if that's physically a real man then how is that straight well that's the

04:40:13.500 question that's the premise so what do you think uh i think yeah straight okay what do you think

04:40:21.740 absolutely not i think straight i think that's gay what do you think um i don't i don't really know

04:40:31.340 i'm not a straight man i'm not a transgender woman like i'd i'd i'd be curious to hear their

04:40:36.940 rationale one way or the other but i don't know do they consider do men who can to date trans women

04:40:44.860 consider themselves gay or straight i think it would be pansexual most of them consider themselves

04:40:51.500 straight though because like if are they actively like seeking out has like a penis i don't think

04:40:59.580 that's straight completely i mean if they've transitioned though yeah charlotte that's a girl

04:41:05.900 classified as a woman yeah going around still so what do you think

04:41:11.740 it's an abomination fuck off she want a mic drop she didn't make you up

04:41:18.140 i wanted to finish off though on the women can't be sexist towards men thing so it was your position

04:41:28.060 your position your position is that oh no i agree that women can be oh women can be sexist just your

04:41:34.140 two positions no i think women can be sexist towards men yeah oh is it just you then or well i mean i think

04:41:42.460 that i i think it's not exactly like the same comparison but i think i have a similar thing where

04:41:49.260 yes technically you can be sexist but it still doesn't hold the same weight so it shouldn't be

04:41:52.620 compared in the same category i guess i disagree if you look at um domestic violence specifically

04:41:58.380 statistically this goes all across the board doesn't matter where you're from um statistically

04:42:02.780 men are believed a lot less um they are you know considered weak they don't have the ability to

04:42:08.860 uh be quote-unquote victims the same way that women are because people assume that because you're a

04:42:14.380 man that you must be stronger and so therefore they are often dismissed in their quote-unquote

04:42:20.140 victimhood i guess you could say so it does um sexism towards men actually does lead to higher

04:42:26.540 addictions rates homelessness suicidal ideation domestic violence it does hold the same weight

04:42:31.980 it's just not spoken about that is true a man can't win for losing if it comes to a situation like

04:42:37.180 that he damned if you do and he damned if you don't right what would you what would you say are some

04:42:41.340 of the because of sexism are some of the negative life outcomes that women experience because of

04:42:49.420 sexism how does sexism affect women basically sure uh i mean just in the same i feel like i mostly covered

04:42:58.300 this when we were talking about whatever what was the question before when i was talking about oh are you

04:43:02.700 a feminist um it's just sort of the same reasons like i think that women are respected less i think

04:43:09.660 that women are um yeah i don't know i feel like i okay talked about that all right um well one thing i

04:43:18.220 want to say is i think that sometimes sexism can work out tremendously in the favor of women because

04:43:24.380 women are if women are underestimated right like you said before one of the greatest advantages is if

04:43:30.700 people think you're dumb then they're going to underestimate you i mean i've personally

04:43:34.780 done business with men that i can tell like okay they don't respect me as much because i'm a woman

04:43:41.500 that's fine i actually have no problem with that because it is fundamentally easier to negotiate or

04:43:47.900 persuade a man who believes that you are incapable of being just as smart as them i think so i i think

04:43:54.860 you know like a really weird way sexism like blatant true sexism where a man thinks i'm better than all

04:44:02.700 these bitches and they're incapable of any brain activity and they're not capable of being smart

04:44:08.460 for some women that is such an advantage because you are able to take advantage of that weakness and for

04:44:16.940 the fact you are going to be underestimated i definitely think there is a way to look at that

04:44:21.260 as advantage but i also think that still that's just using somebody else's power for your own benefit

04:44:26.620 and it's not really the same or somebody else's weakness wait it's not really having your own

04:44:30.860 power i mean that's just how i view it i i do see how you can view that as a an advantage though

04:44:35.900 yeah i think anybody that's not aware of their weaknesses makes them weak in the first place wait

04:44:40.540 so is one of your things here like women are just viewed as stupid is like that's your contention uh

04:44:46.700 i mean that's putting it bluntly but in some ways sure yeah i guess what what do you think is worse

04:44:51.900 though so if if women are viewed as stupid and i think there's i actually dispute this um but if

04:44:59.900 if this is actually true then men are viewed as what by who other women or well women yeah

04:45:08.060 what are men viewed as if women are viewed as stupid i'll answer i don't really men are viewed

04:45:17.180 as monsters they're viewed as predatory innately they're viewed as dangerous they're they're viewed

04:45:23.420 well that's because a lot of men are i would argue i would argue even if we grant that women have

04:45:29.180 are are not you know respected as much as men are i think it's quite disrespectful to paint an entire

04:45:36.860 gender 50 of the population as dangerous violent predatory uh all these sorts of things uh i think

04:45:45.020 that that's a worse characterization than being cared i would rather hold on sorry i would rather be

04:45:50.540 characterized as stupid and be treated with a lack of respect than be treated with fear be treated with

04:45:59.980 as if i'm violent or a predator or any of these sorts of things if i had to choose between the two

04:46:05.100 i would trade places instantly at least for that dynamic i would absolutely trade well first of

04:46:11.180 all i made that point about women but i didn't make that point about men i never said that that i

04:46:17.180 sorry go ahead go ahead what oh no i was just going to say it's like pretty mainstream feminist

04:46:22.700 sure but i'm just saying that's not what i said but i also but you you don't think that

04:46:26.860 men are dangerous i do think men are dangerous but okay hold on so this is what you said but i didn't

04:46:32.140 you said that without me having said that before you're making you're making i assumed it because

04:46:36.060 i mean you're a feminist and what i i rightly assumed so i mean we can but i don't think all men are

04:46:42.700 dangerous but i do think that there is it's realistic like if you want to start pulling i don't think all

04:46:49.980 women are stupid what i'm just i'm using your logic but i'm saying i'm not making a point about

04:47:02.140 women i'm talking about myself right now i don't view all men as dangerous of course i have a brother

04:47:07.820 i have a dad they're nice people but i i have a mom i have a sister i don't view all women as stupid

04:47:13.500 do you feel like okay good what are you i what are i'm talking about myself why are you keep

04:47:17.500 saying the opposite of what i'm saying you were saying how uh you know an example of sexism

04:47:23.340 towards women is that people view them as stupid or inept or you know they get treated

04:47:29.260 with less respect than men do and i was my counter to that is okay even granting if that's i dispute

04:47:35.980 it to some degree but even granting it's true i would say well men are viewed as violent as

04:47:42.620 predatory as dangerous as all these sorts of things and i think that that's like in terms of

04:47:47.900 sexism if we're like doing a comparison of sexism that's way worse than being viewed as stupid well

04:47:53.500 i would say that the the statistics about men being dangerous is based on more statistics and fact and

04:47:59.500 reality than women being stupid well then hold on i could use hold on first hold on i can make that

04:48:04.540 same exact argument towards women's intelligence then with what statistics oh okay for example the fact like

04:48:09.980 chess is a game of chess is strictly a game of intelligence women are just for chess has been

04:48:15.580 available for women for hundreds of years we'll just say decades uh none of them are able to

04:48:22.140 compete with men when it comes to the queen's game well that's not true there are plenty of

04:48:25.660 amazing women chess players none of them can beat like the number one

04:48:30.460 grandmaster sure but there are still a lot of there's the really women what is it called the

04:48:35.260 yeah sure there's female grandmasters but none of them can beat the men well i mean i think that

04:48:42.140 the top men i should say but that's one i don't think that that is like it asserts the fact that

04:48:47.820 women are stupider than men that's just i also don't think that chess represents the general representation

04:48:53.100 of all people because the average person at least in the united states is does not i don't think you

04:49:01.020 know if we're reading at a fourth grade reading level they don't possess the intelligence to be

04:49:06.060 a chess master average man in the united states is not a violent criminal who assaults women and

04:49:11.260 rapes them okay so so where you're making i feel like you're making false no where you're getting

04:49:16.380 lost is he's making an equivalent right he's saying that like you know sexism towards women could say

04:49:22.060 like women are just dumb right and there's he's trying to make a comparison because you said

04:49:28.620 that men are like mostly dangerous and that's just statistically not true that's no i don't

04:49:34.540 think men are mostly dangerous but i think i thought you said that no no no no you said you

04:49:38.460 were citing to crime statistics right and thank you and statistically it's it's a false narrative

04:49:45.580 especially like we'll talk u.s because we're in the u.s but it kind of grows across the board like uh

04:49:50.780 women are the number one perpetrators overwhelmingly um of abuse against children they murder their

04:49:56.460 children the most um the domestic violence rate is almost 50 50 with women actually perpetrating a

04:50:02.940 little bit more so the the point is is that statistically it wouldn't add up that like men

04:50:08.220 are more inherently dangerous than women just like statistically it wouldn't necessarily add up that

04:50:13.500 like women are dumber that's well sure but i will say that for well i would think that there's

04:50:19.660 you know the thing about women being stupid like i don't think that by the way no no i know just to

04:50:25.820 be clear there's not like statistics about that nobody goes out and does but nobody goes out and

04:50:31.420 does oh are you stupid like it's it's there are certain things that you can that you can look to

04:50:35.820 and be like oh this is a this is a this is a hint of women's intelligence versus men i mean you can

04:50:40.700 do iq testing yeah but no sure the whole public isn't going to go do that but but it depends how you

04:50:47.100 interpret the iq data but there is data based on a men are the majority perpetrators of sexual

04:50:54.060 assault but also and listen domestic violence is terrible from anybody and if it's true i don't

04:51:00.380 know the statistics if it's true that it's 50 50 that makes sense but also because i said before and

04:51:04.380 you asked this question do i think that men are physically stronger than women i do and so there is

04:51:08.620 more of a threat from men for domestic violence but men don't actually like men don't they don't commit

04:51:15.420 the majority of sex crimes they commit the majority of sex crimes against um children that is that is

04:51:21.580 a fact i think that men do commit the majority of sex crimes well the data isn't accurate because

04:51:27.500 there's a lack number one there's a lack of funding there's a lack of research there's um societal norms

04:51:33.660 that would state that a man is just gay if he doesn't like it i mean there's but couldn't you argue

04:51:40.860 there's a lack of reporting as well thing here yeah it's jurisdiction dependent but in certain

04:51:46.620 jurisdictions and i i couldn't tell you which specific one but if we look it up we can definitely

04:51:51.660 find it so there's this you know i don't know they say 97 of of rapes are committed by men but if you

04:52:00.540 look at the definition of what rape is if in that definition it would make it essentially impossible for

04:52:06.620 a woman to commit the crime so for example uh a component uh and again different states different

04:52:14.220 countries define rape different differently but in a lot of these jurisdictions in order to be found

04:52:20.380 guilty of rape you have there has to be a a penetration not forced to not uh what's the term

04:52:28.460 made to penetrate yeah would not constitute a rape yeah now legally speaking from a criminal

04:52:34.860 perspective now from a societal perspective we might still categorize this as like if a woman

04:52:40.300 forced a man to insert himself into her or something like that we might societally deem it as

04:52:46.540 hey you've just been raped but like from a legal perspective from a crime perspective if the actual

04:52:51.340 crime itself is in order to commit a rape you must penetrate another person's body while women

04:52:56.540 and it doesn't state you rape classifies as being forced to penetrate then you have a

04:53:01.020 disparity in sure right so but but it's this sort of like well if women definitionally and anatomically

04:53:08.300 can't commit the crime of rape well of course then you're going to see these statistics that would in

04:53:14.300 that would it's a it's a great talking point for feminists well okay 97 of men commit rape well okay

04:53:21.020 again if women can't like legally if the if those if that if the legal definition doesn't recognize women

04:53:28.300 as rapists then of course that's definitely true and i i've heard that before and i think that's a

04:53:32.620 really valid point i still think with those parameters that men commit more sex and that

04:53:38.140 might that may very well be true but it's worth pointing out that these sort of buzz buzz words

04:53:44.700 statistics or whatever are not do are not fairly representing you know kind of what's actually going

04:53:51.020 on for example all these female teachers who are having sex uh who are having sex with you know

04:53:57.900 high school boys or whatever raping let's use the correct terminology well it's not consensual i

04:54:03.180 would i would yes i would say it's that but the actual crime they're charged with is some other form

04:54:08.780 of s uh sexual assault sexual cohort you know maybe they're charged with like a statutory rape or

04:54:13.420 something but they're not actually like the actual act itself would not be categorized for statistic

04:54:19.660 purposes as an actual rape but there's rampant rampant amount and i think it's actually for that

04:54:25.660 specific thing where you see a teacher and a student it's overwhelmingly women uh female teachers

04:54:32.300 who are having sex with their students yeah and if you look at even how the news i just did a like a

04:54:37.660 big video on this on youtube like a couple months ago uh pointing out how the news reports um sex

04:54:43.180 crimes whenever it's a male teacher uh molesting a female student it's always like teacher arrested for

04:54:49.820 like rape and it's always like uh a photo of them that's like very unflattering they look like

04:54:55.420 criminals but every almost every single time it's a female teacher against a male student the rhetoric

04:55:02.060 changes it's no longer teacher arrested for like rape it's like teacher had sexual relationship with

04:55:08.940 the kid and like the the terminology changes because there's an implication of consent and that's the

04:55:14.860 issue especially with this whole ideology that men commit sex crimes more than women it's just not

04:55:21.100 true we're just not recognizing it like every single guy friend that i have if you ask and i want you

04:55:26.860 you you're you're in college so i want you to like remember this conversation and start asking the men

04:55:31.980 around you even just like when they lost their virginity and you'll find that the majority of them

04:55:36.860 will have a story where it's like you'll listen to it and you'll be like ain't you a victim like

04:55:40.540 most of them are like oh i lost it at 10 11 years old to like this 20 year old and it's insane male

04:55:46.940 bouncers you talk to to male bouncers and how many women they have to like drag out each night because

04:55:51.980 they're walking up they're groping men they're we don't have this we have this ideology of masculinity

04:55:57.180 i would just say you're right and that creates uh a rape culture against men where if we're not even

04:56:02.860 recognizing that they can be victims because they have to be bigger because the assault has to be

04:56:07.260 violent if we have all of these uh i can't remember the word but like uh what's the word

04:56:14.460 when there's like a basis for something justification wait no no i can't remember it right now but it

04:56:21.740 guidelines if we have all these guidelines of like what classify sure yeah of what classifies a sexual

04:56:27.100 assault there's a huge like there's a uh huge difference there and as women we can understand

04:56:33.500 this because a lot of times you know when we talk about essay or something if it's not violent like

04:56:39.660 if we're coerced if we're you know if we got drunk like there are a lot of people that don't recognize it

04:56:45.900 as essay so if you're a gender that is stigmatized to be strong to not be weak to always want sex you

04:56:53.660 you're breeding a culture of like misandry and uh a culture where men can be taken advantage of and they

04:57:00.460 are i just think the truth is the world is easier on women so it's easier for women to get away with

04:57:06.060 it that's just the truth but the problem is that women try to compete with a man and i don't think

04:57:11.980 that's what women should do i think that a man should be in a man's place and a woman should stay

04:57:16.300 in a woman's place and i think that's the problem with today's generation and where it's going wrong

04:57:21.420 because that's it you know what's interesting um there is a case of a guy um i don't know his name

04:57:30.380 exactly but he was doing really well in school and he had all kinds of um football scholarships

04:57:36.860 offered to him and then these two girls um accused him of rape and he was in prison for a couple years and

04:57:46.620 lost all everyone lost respect for him he didn't you know obviously they're not going to give him a

04:57:50.700 scholarship back and then the two girls ended up confessing yeah we were lying he didn't do any of

04:57:57.180 that and i felt so bad for him because he was crying on uh in the courtroom like on the table

04:58:03.740 um and that's what's actually dangerous about ai as well and deep fakes is because there's potential

04:58:11.820 for um accusing men by using their photos it's you know like well i i think that is definitely a good

04:58:20.060 point that definitely happens but i think that that's but women don't really have to worry about

04:58:24.780 that all the time so i mean i used to be a secretary of a church and my pastor he was even cautious about

04:58:35.020 being in the same room with me just us two alone and i can understand that like he has a wife he has

04:58:40.540 children um his wife was my best friend one of the closest persons to my heart that i've ever met

04:58:46.140 and their children were like my children they called me their auntie um but he was even

04:58:54.460 like so cautious about it that he put cameras up around everywhere well that that is also and um

04:59:02.540 he's still he's still um he still got accusations toward him in that way and it unfortunately he wasn't

04:59:13.180 he was he's gone from the church to have to live with that all the time in fear of that kind of

04:59:18.140 stuff like i understand yes there's problems both on in the men camp and the women camp but um it's

04:59:26.940 almost like nobody's immune to these kind of destructions well that thing about the priest first of all

04:59:34.220 that's terrible but it also comes from the fact that there's been a history of molestation and stuff

04:59:40.540 in the catholic church specifically but also my grandfather was one of them exactly so it there

04:59:46.220 is like this things like this are based off of history and going back to what you were saying

04:59:51.820 before obviously i'm not going to dispute the fact that men can be assaulted men get assaulted all the

04:59:55.820 time but it goes back again to my point about physical stature and stuff that what you were saying

05:00:02.300 about aggression there is just not there's just not the same threat of aggression from women as there

05:00:09.500 is for men but the domestic violence rate is 50 50 so statistically that's untrue in fact women

05:00:14.380 actually have self-reported um committing that they have women have the higher rate of self-reporting

05:00:21.500 domestic violence that was not uh retaliated back like it wasn't like you know she hit her he hit him

05:00:28.860 like it's like completely unprovoked and no retaliation i just don't think that the harm that women can

05:00:35.180 inflict is equal to the harm that men can so you're saying domestic violence is domestic violence isn't

05:00:41.580 as bad against men of course it's as bad but what i'm i'm talking about what you said about aggression

05:00:47.420 and about how men are viewed as aggressive it's not because it's because of what they're capable of

05:00:53.020 women can get away yeah women can get with a lot of women can get away with a lot more

05:00:57.260 shit so i wouldn't necessarily say that women are not as aggressive just because nobody's speaking out

05:01:03.660 about because and statistically here in america um men statistically do three to four times longer

05:01:11.180 in prison for the exact same crime that a women that a woman committed so look i'm my my point is is

05:01:17.180 like you know you're young you're 18 like i feel like the youth are like they're our future and so i

05:01:23.020 just want to if you can leave this conversation with anything i just want you to open your mind just a

05:01:28.540 little bit to the male experience and maybe just open to the fact that like men you don't have to be

05:01:34.860 afraid of them you don't have to because statistically in america again 0.002 percent of men will ever

05:01:41.340 commit a violent crime so i don't want you i feel like it's a disservice to women to have to walk around

05:01:45.980 and feel like afraid to feel like the average man is just going to attack us and hurt us and it's just

05:01:50.780 statistically not true and i don't want you to to carry that weight i want to change your mind on that

05:01:55.260 there's pain on both sides for sure yeah a couple things here guys we've lowered the tts to 69 if

05:02:01.020 you want to get it in 69 tts that's streamlines.com slash whatever also really quick wanted to finish

05:02:07.420 up on a couple of topics here really quick just on the intelligence thing so nick can you pull up the

05:02:14.060 greater male variable variability hypothesis so as it relates to intelligence so the iq

05:02:21.260 on average between men and women is the same yeah on average but there is this hypothesis that there

05:02:29.180 is a greater variability click on that chart nick so what this is displaying so women women is blue

05:02:37.420 green is men what it's saying is is that there's way more really really really stupid men but there's

05:02:47.020 also way more really really really really smart men but there's more women who are in the middle

05:02:58.300 just thought i'd share that it's a hypothesis though you know so basically what that means is

05:03:06.460 there's more stupid men like really stupid men way more but there's also way more genius men

05:03:17.580 but on average like average it out there are a lot of violent men but there are way more that aren't

05:03:23.580 it's the same thing same statistic do you think yeah men are naturally violent creatures anyway so

05:03:29.340 yes they are

05:03:32.700 i mean y'all back then y'all had to go out and hunt for food so y'all telling me that's not violent

05:03:37.260 y'all have to be because that's a man's nature to be since this is a dating podcast i just want to

05:03:41.580 say real quick it is really attractive when a guy is like stupidly humorously funny like yeah

05:03:48.540 it's one of the most attractiveness thing in the world um okay we have a couple chats here

05:03:54.140 one sec dave richard says dave richard's donated one hundred dollars brian why equivocate and say

05:04:02.540 both men and women are equally superior as myron says men are superior to women in everything

05:04:08.940 no need to be pc about it women have big ego because of passive men who is mari

05:04:15.500 it's from the fucking that stupid panel what's it called that's the one that you looked like as a

05:04:20.940 man well let's not be let's not talk about people when they're not hearing mommy and i'll do it

05:04:27.260 anyways um okay so uh disavow i guess uh we have uh vaughn is is this enough 150 pounds is this

05:04:37.260 enough to kick timu jessica rabbit and chair two the misinformation would have her arrested in the uk

05:04:43.180 oh yeah people just get arrested for like tweets and are you kidding me what's no one woman got

05:04:49.500 arrested because she says to burn down a hotel and they burnt down the hotel so she got arrested

05:04:54.700 okay maybe there's cases of that but people literally no one's getting arrested people yes

05:04:59.420 people get arrested for tweets you don't have free speech in that country yes we do no you don't

05:05:05.500 no you don't okay count okay count dankula do you know who that is no i believe so okay he i'm not

05:05:13.820 devowing what he did but he had a pug a little dog pug let's fuck it find the video nick find the

05:05:20.620 count dankula pug video this is i disagree with it where's this going but what he did was is he

05:05:29.980 trained his pug dog to uh oh what did he do like okay he would say

05:05:37.020 to to give the roman salute like a dog raise his paw when he said sig sig high jesus

05:05:48.700 interesting you think that's good huh and that's good i'm not saying it's good i don't think you

05:05:55.180 should be arrested for a joke okay but here i want to relate that to something here because one thing in

05:06:01.340 canada we're a little bit baffled at the fact that people who are celebrating charlie kirk's death are

05:06:06.460 getting like fired like jimmy camel just got fired for a joke now do i agree that people should be

05:06:11.180 celebrating his death absolutely not but as canadians we're like aren't you all the country

05:06:16.140 of free speech why are people getting fired yeah i didn't know that was happening i don't think that

05:06:21.660 it's right by any means and i think that a business has a right to say look you don't you don't align

05:06:26.860 with our beliefs and want to kick you out but i'm just saying it's not a little scott's law is very

05:06:31.980 different from england we have different laws i think that both the conservatives and the liberals

05:06:35.820 can dish it but they can't take it because you know the liberals are oh you can't say that and

05:06:41.500 then finally when somebody dies and they're making a mockery of it now the conservators are like you

05:06:46.300 can't say that it's just a boy a bunch of pointing the finger and nobody is like actually making sense

05:06:52.780 see this is why i hate that we got off on a bad foot because i agree with so much of what you're

05:06:56.380 saying i actually think you're really intelligent thank you i'm just saying i agree people there's like

05:07:02.620 i think thousands of arrests per year for tweets what in the uk are they inciting are they inciting

05:07:09.660 terrorism because in canada like you can't the new york yeah pull it up pull it up you know the

05:07:19.180 american fucking thing uh 12 000 uh where data suggests over 30 people a day are arrested for

05:07:25.100 speech crimes there's not even that many people about about 12 000 a year girl

05:07:32.460 sending grossly offensive can we uh click on that link to the new york post

05:07:36.300 12 000 a year that would make sense yeah get get rid of the pop-ups and all that all that

05:07:41.500 shit but uh it's not true it's an american uh graham linehan an irish comedy writer was just

05:07:50.700 arrested for tweets in the uk shut up chair two i don't know uh by the way guys 69 tts 69 tts get

05:07:59.580 them in if you want people be getting arrested in the uk okay um but moving on oh this is important

05:08:06.460 we should define this because i mean we're talking about dating but there's a lot of confusion here

05:08:11.340 uh what is a woman what is a woman what is a woman yeah gosh um i don't have a ready definition i

05:08:23.100 don't know like we're just just because we're talking about dating we're talking about all this

05:08:26.300 stuff feminism women's advocacy we should know what a woman is right okay well this is gonna ruffle some

05:08:32.860 feathers but i believe that if you identify yourself as a woman then you're a woman okay what's your

05:08:37.500 definition same i'm a woman these old people are women we don't know if they have a deck or not

05:08:43.660 okay it is the way you are born it is the way you are born i don't want to have to keep reminding

05:08:48.700 y'all it's the way you're born and your chromosomes okay what about you if you identify as a woman you

05:08:54.940 are a woman okay somebody who has two x chromosomes a pussy and a uterus all right what about you i would

05:09:02.540 say somebody that has two x chromosomes because there are conditions where women have to get

05:09:07.260 their uterus removed that still makes them a woman an adult human female chloe can you scoot the mic just

05:09:14.860 to the edge of the table it's okay it's all good wow um at risk of ruffling the canadian liberals a woman

05:09:24.380 is somebody who was born with a vagina and a uterus shoot me don't say that i agree with uh

05:09:36.540 i agree that a woman is an adult human female

05:09:43.740 what does that mean though brian because anybody can label themselves as an adult human female so well

05:09:49.420 okay i could can i label myself as a black person no so i'm just saying you saying an adult female so

05:09:56.300 you're saying a male can't label themselves as a female now there's dispute over gender so what i'm

05:10:02.700 referring when i say male and female i'm using my words very precisely i'm talking i'm referring to sex

05:10:09.100 male and female relates to sex man even granting this gender identity stuff relates to

05:10:15.020 genders like man woman

05:10:22.300 yeah but so when i say but so my position is a woman is an adult human female

05:10:30.940 awkward just got really awkward

05:10:34.300 well i don't think it's awkward i think that people just have different opinions

05:10:38.620 i believe in trans rights i that's why i believe that if you identify as a woman you're a woman well

05:10:43.420 i i just want to piggyback saying i believe in trans woman like i believe that that is an identity

05:10:48.620 and that is how people live i'm not denying the existence of trans people but i think there are

05:10:53.020 women and there are trans women yes yeah that's correct my distinction there's a there's a different

05:10:57.980 there's a there's a difference there i think in canada specifically you know we're pretty we're

05:11:02.860 pretty liberal we're like california that's why everybody hates us but um i think that we

05:11:09.100 you know we'll respect pronouns for sure like nobody's i'm not going to look at somebody that

05:11:14.780 clearly looks like a woman and be like nah you're a dude just because she decided to tell me that she

05:11:19.340 used to have a dick i think it's very dependent on where you are in uh your transition i don't think

05:11:25.740 that a man should be able to just like slab on some lipstick and wear a dress and ask for special

05:11:30.940 privileges i think that where you are in your transition and whether or not you know you can just

05:11:35.420 tell whether or not it's genuine like i you know i had a trans friend i didn't know she was trans for

05:11:39.500 like four years dude i had no idea she was more woman than me so we have i support it you just got

05:11:45.260 to actually be trans based thor come in based thor donated 69 dollars question for the panel which

05:11:52.380 one do you think was worst for society oh my god the 13th amendment or 19th amendment the 13th

05:11:58.700 amendment which ended slavery and the 19th amendment which gave women that's a crazy question based

05:12:04.060 thor thank you funny thank you for the money though i don't know what that any of that means so

05:12:08.860 base thor are you in favor of slavery like yeah what are you suggesting the fuck

05:12:15.180 what the fuck uh what was worse for society it's just like kind of smuggles in yeah that those things

05:12:23.820 were slavery yeah we're not

05:12:25.900 okay maybe i don't know whatever um extra confusion okay uh final few things from the

05:12:36.060 questionnaire then we'll get into some of the pre the pre-show notes uh okay women do do you

05:12:42.700 do you agree with the following statement women do not have equal rights to men in the usa uh i

05:12:48.940 i i think on paper in some ways they do i think that that it's not always executed um equally and i

05:12:57.900 so i would say no no they don't have equal rights okay what uh what would be an example of a right then

05:13:04.460 that women well okay if you're talking about just legislatively then i would say yes because i can't

05:13:09.420 dispute the fact that so you would say women do have equal rights then i guess so but again i don't

05:13:16.460 think it's always like well what what would be an example of it not being executed properly well

05:13:23.260 like technically like this is just the first example that popped into my head but like technically

05:13:31.900 you know there's discrimination in the workplace doesn't exist like women have to be hired equally

05:13:37.020 as men whatever but that doesn't always happen and again back to the like women being stupid thing

05:13:42.060 i think that oftentimes men are have more advantage in getting can i ask you a question if a woman owned

05:13:50.220 business say it was a big corporation very successful do you think there would be any issues with them only

05:13:56.860 wanting to hire women like would that be wrong um well i mean i feel like i'd have to hear the reasoning i

05:14:09.180 don't know let's let's say that would it be well the same reasoning that women might how about this uh

05:14:16.140 women are just scared of men like a woman who owns a business she had a bad experience with with men and

05:14:23.420 for this reason she's like you know what i only want to hire women i think that sure that's okay that

05:14:30.380 wouldn't you wouldn't have an issue with that i wouldn't have an issue with that so then what's stopping

05:14:34.700 companies then you would have to grant it the other way too then then then men can be like you know

05:14:40.060 what i've had some bad experiences with women i'd prefer to work with men you'd have to say that

05:14:44.460 that's totally fine also i guess so okay well then doesn't that kind of defeat your position that

05:14:51.340 there's like sexism in hiring practices if it's okay for whatever for just this sort of

05:14:56.780 reason to just hire men or just hire women then what what are your objections to

05:15:05.100 hiring practices well i mean i'm i'm that's a very specific hypothetical and i think that in that

05:15:12.300 situation obviously it would have to go both ways but i think just in general and i don't know again

05:15:17.980 this is just the first example that came to my head but um like i don't have the statistics on it or

05:15:23.260 whatever but i think that it probably happens more in the favor of men

05:15:31.580 happens more in the favor of men

05:15:35.020 i don't know it could although i would say like if you look at hr departments they're

05:15:40.060 predominated by women a lot of these major companies have you know hiring managers predominantly women

05:15:46.860 it seems like a little strange that this could even be the case and then like i don't know what

05:15:52.940 about uh i guess do you think that there's sexism in academia like the fact that the university you're

05:16:00.220 about to go to disproportionately female students well i mean i that could be based on anything though

05:16:09.420 well couldn't you say that when women historically were not as represented in universities

05:16:17.740 well but there was reasons for that i would well it depends how far back you go yeah

05:16:24.380 but why is it the case that well i have no i mean i didn't even know that i have no idea what

05:16:29.900 that could be yeah so the the breakdown in colleges i think it's like 60 40 women to men yeah in all

05:16:36.380 colleges oh well some are different of course but some you might even find a greater like even 65

05:16:42.540 yeah men are falling behind education disproportionately right now way more women

05:16:46.700 go to college and if if a metric of going to university is this is going to have better life outcomes

05:16:51.980 for you you're going to you're going to get an education that's valued you're going to earn more

05:16:57.340 etc etc it seems like women do have some advantage there just on the pure numbers that

05:17:02.620 there's way more women going to university than there are men well sure but i don't know

05:17:08.220 i don't necessarily know what that's based off of though and i don't know that based on workplace

05:17:12.860 either again i don't want like take what i just said with a grain of salt because i really

05:17:16.620 sure i don't know any of the statistics well it's just always interesting to me

05:17:19.740 if a bad thing happens to a woman there's this drive to want to make it about sex or about sexism

05:17:28.060 like bad thing happened to woman must be sexism but if bad thing happened to man

05:17:33.900 then we give a lot more agency to the individual where it's like well what

05:17:38.300 well why you know what are they doing i agree with that statistically men take up the majority of the

05:17:43.740 suicide rate the homeless rate the addictions rate the workplace death rate majority to get killed by police

05:17:50.860 they're falling behind in education i mean it's actually grotesque and if this all was happening to women i

05:17:56.140 refuse to accept that there wouldn't be like mass marches all over the world and be like this is

05:18:02.220 due to sexism like we're forgetting about women we're leaving them behind so i agree with you i think

05:18:06.860 that's a great example of it i mean this also happens along racial lines also where if a bad thing happens

05:18:14.780 to a person people want to either the individual themselves or outsiders or members of that in

05:18:21.340 group want to jump and say must be racism it's like you need actual or the inverse you need

05:18:27.500 must have done something to deserve it well i think part of that comes from both in racism and in sexism

05:18:33.580 i mean i think part of it stems from the fact that like our country was built by white men and so like

05:18:41.180 it is easier to turn to that i'm not saying it's true obviously a bad thing happens to a woman doesn't

05:18:46.380 mean it was sexism but it's easier to turn to that and be like oh this is racism because of how

05:18:51.660 the system was set up or oh this is sexism because of how the system was set up well yeah but you need

05:18:55.420 actual evidence for like i don't know women will say well i didn't get hired or i uh you know whatever

05:19:01.580 i didn't get the raise or whatever and they'll immediately jump to or bad thing happened to me

05:19:05.580 immediately jump to sexism must be due to sexism but there needs to actually be evidence

05:19:11.660 well i don't necessarily know that that's true i don't know women who do that

05:19:18.220 you don't know women you just like the whole feminist movement that whole thing um well that's

05:19:25.740 they bad thing that's totally different well can i ask you a question so let's look at incarceration

05:19:33.180 or crimes right so men as compared to women serve longer sense chloe brought this up they serve longer

05:19:40.060 sentences they're more likely to be prosecuted they're less likely to receive you know kind of

05:19:44.140 get off light light you know women are much more likely to receive a sentence of probation whereas

05:19:49.100 men are going to receive like some jail time obviously depends on the crime men will serve longer

05:19:53.900 i don't know if i already said that men will serve longer sentences for the same crime same

05:19:57.580 circumstances etc etc so if you look at that from a racial lens it becomes well hold on black people

05:20:06.380 uh they they serve more time for these crimes uh they're more likely to be prosecuted they're more

05:20:11.500 like etc etc etc and it's like well hold on why aren't we looking at the the disproportion between

05:20:18.140 men and women in the same way that we look at that through a racial lens why aren't we saying well hold

05:20:23.340 on and and actually the the difference that exists between men and women when it comes to like sentencing

05:20:29.580 it's orders of magnitude greater like men if you if you look at the disproportionality between uh

05:20:36.780 prison sentences between whites and blacks that number is way bigger if you compare men to women

05:20:42.860 wouldn't you say the irony of that though is that is probably also a result of sexism where a judge

05:20:48.620 or a jury looks at a woman and thinks oh this woman possibly can't be as violent as evil as

05:20:56.700 capable it's called benevolent sexism benevolent yeah benevolent sexism so women receive certain

05:21:04.620 benefits privileges and then get harsher punishments but hold on um okay just moving it on to i guess uh

05:21:12.140 women do not have equal rights to men in the usa do you i don't know if you respectfully kept the thing i

05:21:17.740 can comment i don't think you you didn't even circle for that um i don't know if there's anybody else who

05:21:23.420 you didn't fill the questionnaire do you think uh women do not have equal rights to men in the usa

05:21:29.340 i think women have fought for their rights and they got them they have them yeah they got their equal

05:21:34.140 rights okay uh do you all right um do you think women are oppressed in the usa uh are they oppressed are

05:21:44.300 they oppressed yes

05:21:48.780 i mean

05:21:53.420 historically yes i would say it's definitely getting better let's just say today

05:21:59.660 to some level i mean the truth is again like it goes back to the fact about how the country was

05:22:05.500 built by white men it's always going to be more suited for how so white men like how is it more suited for

05:22:12.460 white men

05:22:17.820 i don't know i can't think of examples like i i think today and i mean i can even make historical

05:22:23.660 claims that the negative life outcomes that men and women face those seem to actually

05:22:31.100 disproportionately be worse for men yeah the suicide rate and addiction white men actually take

05:22:37.500 up the majority white men are also the majority to be denied custody uh fairly to their children

05:22:44.620 i think the world was built by men for women so i don't think a woman is oppressed uh any woman

05:22:50.140 that's struggling nowadays that's her fault because we got the chico we we got it real easy so i don't

05:22:56.060 think any woman should be struggling and i don't think any woman is oppressed not in today's world

05:23:00.540 and not even back then because even back then if you take all of this modern shit away we would

05:23:06.460 still all all we had to do was cook and clean and the man would do everything else i don't think

05:23:10.940 that's a hard knock life i don't well but people have different opinions about that and if you if

05:23:15.420 that's the life you want to live that's totally fine correct but if you weren't provided the

05:23:19.180 opportunity to be able to like work but work i would stay my ass at home that's what a woman is supposed

05:23:27.980 to do damn uh she texas does raise an interesting point here and i would say that like if we went back

05:23:37.420 to the not say 1914 uh women in 1914 didn't have the right to vote but also from ah man this wait hold

05:23:48.460 on before i get into this i need to ask one question what year what what years were world

05:23:55.500 war one uh world war one was 19 like 1910s i'll accept decade world war i'll just let's just do

05:24:06.860 decade what decade guess bro i have no clue i don't even care wild guess world war one what what decade

05:24:14.460 you don't have to you know just decade so decade uh 1920s 30s 40s 50s just guess wild guess quick

05:24:23.500 1841 okay love it i'll be honest i'm not a history just a guess just just guess decade

05:24:32.380 uh scoot your mic please just leave it there it's right here scoot your mic to the edge of the table

05:24:37.180 the great she's doing her best man all right go ahead uh guess decade 1920s 30s okay uh 1910s okay

05:24:48.140 the early 1900s so like that would be 1910s the 10s the 10s okay it's the 1910s 1914 to 1918 period

05:24:58.220 i'm canadian i don't fucking know that i know what the second world war was i think i don't know if

05:25:04.540 we were involved in the first war where i think canada sent some soldiers i don't know about canada

05:25:11.580 does canada even be in country no no we don't be anybody okay the only country we've beefed in the

05:25:18.140 last like 30 years is you guys uh and then just just as a follow-up like 1920s i love the grassy uh

05:25:25.180 primary decade of world war ii uh 40s 40s 40s the 1840s or 1940s 90s okay 1940s uh 50s 50s okay

05:25:38.620 didn't it roll over into the 50s yeah 1940s 60s 70s 1930 to the 40s okay 1940s it ended in 45 uh 1939

05:25:50.060 to 1945 but yeah same like 1940s okay 40s to 50s that's not fair they get to listen to the whole

05:25:57.980 thing it is true you know over on this side you know so yeah world war one first world war one was

05:26:03.980 1914 1918 world war ii 1939 1945 the reason i bring it up though texas texas made a good point

05:26:12.540 texas texas made a good point madame houston texas well houston texas okay thank you appreciate

05:26:20.940 it she was saying i actually forgot what she said but she made a good point and the point that

05:26:26.220 i was going to make off of that was so women couldn't vote in the 1914s right but in that same

05:26:32.380 period of time and couldn't either well so i think it was like a period of 50 years or something where

05:26:38.860 men had the right to vote and women didn't it wasn't like centuries where all men could vote

05:26:44.860 and women were just depressed it's a short window of time where the voting was just opened up broadly

05:26:51.340 men had it for i think 50 years or so that don't quote it's not precise i don't know 40 it's 40 to 60

05:26:57.420 whatever so very short period of time very short window when all men could vote

05:27:02.540 but i think back to okay well hold on it was a it was a great oppression in the 1910s that women

05:27:12.540 couldn't vote great oppression but then i think of the respective roles that men and women had in that

05:27:18.620 time period and i'm not really sold on this idea that you know that women overall in totality had it

05:27:27.900 worse even though they didn't have access to certain rights like me personally if you had to ask me brian

05:27:33.100 would you rather get shipped off to the front line of europe as an 18 year old in 1916 1917 or whatever

05:27:41.820 whenever the u.s i don't know when well if you're in europe you were in it from the start but in the

05:27:45.340 u.s i think we entered the war in 1916 1917 world war one anyways not really material here i kind of would

05:27:53.740 be like you know what i don't really want to vote i don't want to go get trench foot in some

05:27:58.300 fucking the fucking forest area of france on the front line and i'm getting shell shock and i come

05:28:05.740 back like with half my face fucking exploded off if i even survive i don't know i don't know if women

05:28:12.700 had it really all that bad world war one was brutal fucking chemical weapons mustard gas phosphine

05:28:21.340 phos gene i don't know what the fuck well that's during wartime i mean that's a different yeah

05:28:27.500 but i think what you're forgetting is that even even in the i'm sure it was if it was the second

05:28:31.580 world war it's definitely in the first world war where um you know when the men went to war

05:28:35.820 women were like they were the first responders they were the front line um of america and they

05:28:40.380 weren't allowed to get paid for it so i just still would rather be a woman

05:28:45.420 put me in the factory put me in the factory i don't want to go to the to fucking like the

05:28:53.340 pacific hold on i don't want to go to fucking i go fight on iwo jima or some shit i want to do that

05:28:58.860 i want to go fucking get fucking clapped by some fucking german sniper fire in the ardenne forest or

05:29:05.500 some shit no i'm good i'm good i'm good in fucking kentucky i'm chilling in kentucky bro ain't no germans

05:29:13.420 uh or japanese coming for me in kentucky totally leave me in minnesota i think men were definitely

05:29:19.740 the primary victims of war i just think that although i understand what you're saying it was

05:29:24.700 definitely better to be a woman at that time than it was a man that doesn't necessarily mean that the

05:29:29.260 other things that women faced were you know non-conducive to you know or conducive to positive

05:29:36.060 right dying from childbirth um but i think quite honestly it sounds like a miserable time to be

05:29:44.140 alive and they had pandemics they had but also even historically most work like i i think there's

05:29:52.140 this thing where can i ask you a question you're you're 18 right have you ever used a dial-up like a

05:29:59.660 like a landline phone you've used a landline like when you were five or six or some shit when you're

05:30:04.540 young yeah i mean i had a landline in my old house there i think when we're looking back at these

05:30:10.540 time periods we don't really have a sense of like we're almost we're implanting

05:30:18.460 how we our sense of society today and we're implanting it on the past like there weren't

05:30:24.940 air-conditioned office jobs a hundred years ago 150 years ago most jobs were strictly physical

05:30:34.220 labor and because of man's advantage in that realm physical strength women just a lot of jobs were

05:30:42.300 not suited for women because most jobs were just like okay move this heavy thing over here do this

05:30:50.300 like back-breaking labor so oh women couldn't if you were a woman back then you wouldn't want to work

05:30:57.740 but it's not just about work it's about owning property and having like divorce rights and stuff

05:31:01.820 like that and just get a man to own the property women could worry about all that not always you

05:31:07.820 could you could own property women didn't get the right to not always to like i think it was the 50s

05:31:12.780 or 60s no no women hold on that if we're talking about like marriage or whatever but like a if a woman

05:31:19.020 had a father or something and she was uh what's the term for it she was sponsored no not sponsored

05:31:27.180 oh uh women could inherit but anything that a woman owned her husband that's like hers even unless i

05:31:33.100 mean no it would still she was children hold on women absolutely could own property not always yes

05:31:38.700 always that's not true yes always into the hold on in the 1700s 1800s women absolutely could own

05:31:45.900 property and they did this if you were rich if you were the one percent no you could just

05:31:49.820 be the daughter of somebody and be the the sole heir right but that's an heir that's not only purchasing

05:31:56.460 yourself well technically if the woman inherited money she could purchase property okay there's hold

05:32:04.060 on so you're talking about the rich yeah but we're talking about the one percent here brian the average

05:32:09.260 yeah i don't know if i'm talking about the one percent women could purchase property even if they

05:32:13.820 couldn't purchase property just get a man that could and it sure is anyway i think it's that

05:32:18.620 so women women could always own property in the u.s i don't know about like uh canada i don't know what

05:32:23.420 the fuck's going on there shit like in moundies yeah hey you gotta get into canada what the

05:32:29.660 nothing i like just kidding no how do we do to you nothing nothing i'm just uh you know it's nice to

05:32:35.900 roast on canada a little bit everyone does it it's all right i don't know there's just a lot

05:32:40.860 of tropes you look into it it's a lot of feminist tropes about women couldn't own property that's not

05:32:47.820 true women couldn't work yeah that's not true look without feminism i wouldn't have the position

05:32:55.100 that i have today i was the first men's rights advocate to ever pop up on social media if you

05:33:00.380 look at the men's rights community alone it's all female dominated you've got lady j

05:33:04.780 uh the dadvocate emily king myself hi latrice a bunch of who huh she said bonnie blue she loves

05:33:13.740 men no that's your era that's not that's not our era we don't claim her it's uh predominantly female

05:33:19.580 dominated and that's just like number one it's a huge privilege and it seeks to uh prove the

05:33:24.460 conversation you had earlier where women's voices have they're like almost respected quote unquote more

05:33:31.180 like women can say things that men can't but you know the truth of the matter is is that i would not

05:33:36.380 be able to be in a position that i am today um without that that's why i think pearl davis is a

05:33:41.340 fucking idiot because she's like this big you know talker has a leadership position in society and

05:33:46.860 thinks that women shouldn't be able to vote because we're too dumb like well that's not my position

05:33:51.420 no i know i'm just i'm just stating that there are women aren't dumb but we do make emotional

05:33:57.180 decisions and that that takes away our um our weight our credibility our credibility correct

05:34:05.260 you don't think men also make emotional decisions men are way more logical than women i don't think

05:34:09.580 that uh more men make emotional decisions you get a man hard you can't think about anything yeah but

05:34:15.660 that's when it comes to sex it's true and even after that nut he going right back to what he thought

05:34:21.740 before yeah post not clarity thank you i mean i i think it's it's fair to say right that both men

05:34:27.580 and women have like weaknesses what are you doing with the emotional vulnerabilities can you do a little

05:34:32.300 adjustment just pull it up just a little tad pilot um my producer i've been listening very intently

05:34:39.260 to everything that you've said and just so you know i care about you um like i'm thankful for men um

05:34:45.340 i think they're a wonderful gift from god but i mean to be frankly honest there has been times in my

05:34:50.540 life seasons in my life where i did hate all men too um and i'm i don't hate all men well i mean like

05:34:57.340 i'm just saying that i have for me it was like that okay um but i do understand like both sides

05:35:04.300 of the aisle here god created man woman child it goes in that order so you can be godly but you got

05:35:12.860 to respect the hierarchy i mean but how many men and women are truly godly in today's society

05:35:19.260 i'm not sure about everybody's religion all i know is that people who preach the word don't

05:35:23.820 actually live by the even even religion aside having godly characteristics i think that accounts

05:35:29.020 for a very small percentage of modern day civilization i do think christians are hypocrites and i don't

05:35:34.620 think you don't have to be a christian to be godly you can't say you believe in the bible and not go

05:35:39.500 by a man woman child you're that's kind of it's kind of a sin to say you hate a man sorry man i normally

05:35:46.140 we talk about dating but sometimes we talk about uh how about this a couple fun questions here

05:35:52.380 is it a deal breaker get ready guys everybody tuned in all right brace yourselves is it a deal breaker

05:36:01.740 if a guy uses the word retarded oh no i love using that word like i hate that we can't no not a deal

05:36:11.020 breaker i guess is a red flag maybe red flag like he's he doesn't it's kind of like this it's like uh hold

05:36:20.300 on you don't call retarded people retards michael scott it's bad taste you call your friends retards when

05:36:29.100 they're acting retarded like like that you know i fucking love that oh yeah that's fine if they

05:36:33.340 went up to like a mentally handicapped person and called them retarded but that i think that would

05:36:38.700 be absurd i think it's mean but that's the direct definition of a retarded reread all that like

05:36:44.780 they're retarded and that's nothing i don't think people take it the wrong way now but i don't think it

05:36:51.340 should be looked at as a bad thing because that's the word we use now we can't no more

05:36:55.100 word oh oh this is a fun one oh i can't believe i forgot to do this okay is it fun

05:37:03.180 make i want going right sort of make this is not at all dating related

05:37:08.620 i saw this tick tock and i thought make a machine gun noise

05:37:12.300 make a machine gun noise i don't i don't okay let me think for a sec

05:37:30.380 oh okay okay go ahead make a machine gun noise

05:37:34.620 oh shit oh that's good i don't i don't know if i could do it i don't like the whole come on just

05:37:42.780 go for it like what she just did i guess i'm gonna sound like a total what she's the word that is

05:37:48.060 banned um i just i can't

05:37:52.780 i can't yeah machine gun noise machine gun noise she did it your turn

05:37:58.540 oh i'd be like

05:38:00.860 that'll be me what the

05:38:03.020 all right what about you oh man i can't

05:38:11.660 i also can't whistle so this is my work

05:38:13.900 nightmare she's right there with me on that one

05:38:19.340 okay what about you okay well i'm gonna do a rocket launcher and then grenades

05:38:27.500 that ain't your first i'm doing that

05:38:31.340 i've been waiting my whole life for that

05:38:33.820 i saw a tick tock that why are you doing it i can't

05:38:36.700 yeah go on i saw this hold on hold on

05:38:42.060 no i'm not do it you mean it does do it i'm gonna laugh

05:38:44.780 let me explain it first

05:38:49.980 i saw this tick tock and it was saying that women can't make machine gun noises

05:38:55.100 but you guys were able to do it so i don't know

05:38:57.740 it's good for the soul

05:38:59.020 wait has anybody seen that tick tock

05:39:00.700 why are you avoiding the question do it

05:39:02.300 it

05:39:03.100 fuck i'm gonna fuck this up

05:39:05.980 i'm not doing it

05:39:06.620 no do it

05:39:07.420 do it

05:39:11.820 would you look at that

05:39:12.940 no no no no no no no

05:39:15.500 oh my god vector thank you

05:39:16.780 you've said you are not hurting anyone answer me this

05:39:22.860 if two adult teamons consent to cutting each other for fun are they hurting each other

05:39:27.580 what the what i don't think like me getting my size out online is like

05:39:32.860 the same as like actually physically who said anything about that yeah if that's what they

05:39:37.500 want to do sick they can do that baby you want to cut yourself with someone's blood

05:39:43.260 yeah we like that i support what's that

05:39:51.100 oh

05:39:51.420 shit i didn't even know uh andrew was streaming

05:39:54.060 did we get raided hold on let me take a look i might uh missed it

05:40:02.780 oh yep he just sent yo andrew thank you so much man for uh the raid dude thank you man i didn't

05:40:08.540 even know you're streaming today man uh hope you had a good stream andrew thank you for the raid

05:40:12.540 guys we just had all the women see if they can make machine gun noises

05:40:18.300 i don't know why your audience hates me so much they all think i'm like a radical oh they hate me brian

05:40:48.300 in your comments from the last one i don't understand where that i would ask

05:40:52.620 one of the most beautiful and hard-working women i know daddy is that your baby girl kissing

05:40:58.860 mary mary

05:41:01.340 love that wait damn

05:41:04.220 daddy uh mary works for me behind the scenes daddy i guess that's gotta be someone that knows you

05:41:11.580 her admirer is but you're simping so you have to send in another tts that's rule if you send in a

05:41:16.780 simpy message you have to pay the sim tax you got to send in another one and preferably not simp i

05:41:22.860 guess uh let's see here let's see here why are you avoiding it do the machine gun be a good boy

05:41:31.740 i don't have i think i have a speech impediment so i can't do it really

05:41:38.300 some people can't move their tongues like that exactly i'm good not even a pew-pew i'm good that's

05:41:44.140 terrible i think drunk giant would have did it you need to take another shot of some

05:41:49.980 i can't do it i can't do it it's fun anyways uh but yeah chat basically women can't do machine

05:41:57.660 gun noises but neither can men apparently all the women were able to do it no men can't

05:42:01.980 would you date a guy who owns firearms no yes no i'm from texas hell yeah i need to be protected yeah

05:42:09.900 a hundred percent yes chloe i'm from alberta we all got rifles hell yeah oh can you is that guns

05:42:19.100 in canada what the hell yes oh i didn't know that yeah they're just you know uh that's the word

05:42:24.780 regulated would you uh let's see wait brian yeah the man that i'm gonna marry my future husband one

05:42:32.540 day he's gonna have to do um the machine gun with me or else it's not gonna happen

05:42:37.180 it's a sex possession or yeah you want to do the machine gun sex possession no that is

05:42:44.940 that is the farthest i gotta see that i'm intrigued you're just drilling like is it like in a comma

05:42:51.900 sutra book can i see a picture it's fast and quick let's pull it up on support the last two minutes

05:42:59.740 what's the question what's the most toxic thing you've ever done dating related uh i don't really

05:43:08.220 date so nothing what's the most toxic thing you've ever done and the context would be having casual

05:43:16.620 meaningless meaningless sex with somebody is that toxic what is that toxic no i'm not saying that's

05:43:22.540 toxic i'm just she says she doesn't date so i'm saying i genuinely and this is me being 100 honest

05:43:27.580 don't think i've ever done anything toxic in a dating sense just because i don't ever just because

05:43:31.580 i don't have enough experience yeah she's 18 she's young 18 okay what about you most toxic thing you've

05:43:35.740 ever done i'm like really good but um i slept with my my brother's best friend and his girlfriend

05:43:41.420 oh yikes yeah it's really bad most toxic thing i would say probably as of recent um my my extreme

05:43:50.060 pettiness um to let him know that i knew who it was that he was cheating on me with um i baked him a

05:43:56.860 cake because he said i didn't bake anymore and put her face on it and said you want to have your cake

05:44:02.300 and eat it too i'm gonna feed you your cake and it was instead of being mature and growing up and using

05:44:09.340 my words like a grown-up yep i decided yeah i fucking love this woman man good times good times it was the

05:44:19.580 best of times he opened cake and there her face was most toxic thing uh i slept with my ex's dad

05:44:26.620 okay yikes really it's a thing we we're all horny in the uk yeah i heard europeans are freaky we are

05:44:36.380 sex isn't a big deal for us yeah y'all get down and dirty i fuck with how y'all move with sex and

05:44:40.540 everything out there what most toxic thing you've ever done i have never moved toxic in any type of way

05:44:45.500 yeah okay what about you when i was 22 i had a boyfriend that i should have broken up with

05:44:53.820 and then he lost his job i was doing a show over in europe and instead of breaking up with him like

05:44:59.420 an adult i let him fly over from the u.s to come visit me in europe where i broke up with him in monaco

05:45:06.700 i know i just it was immature but yeah um when i really really really like somebody i tend to get

05:45:15.500 really clingy no way like stalker clingy no like follow them around in your car clingy yeah sure

05:45:24.460 why not have you ever done that no is that what you do felicity no no no no chloe most toxic thing

05:45:31.500 you've ever done dating related chloe you look like a bitch i ain't gonna lie i bet i bet you did

05:45:37.020 some crazy no i'm actually pretty uh i'm pretty uh invested in my relationships i think uh the most

05:45:45.660 toxic thing i did was uh while in a relationship somebody sent me a picture not a nude one just

05:45:51.180 like a shirtless one in the shower uh and instead of ignoring it and being a good person i responded with

05:45:58.780 the wet emoji oh what it was pretty fucked up it like broke trust in my relationship i deeply regret

05:46:06.620 it crazy oh i see yeah not the horny uh okay oh we have a fun segment here name three countries go

05:46:15.820 uh scotland england america yes you can't repeat from the previous person thank god okay

05:46:22.460 ireland france italy canada america mexico i said america did two um one more france i did

05:46:34.540 somebody else did someone say that france hey don't help her jamaica okay three countries go uh

05:46:42.060 germany italy and croatia the dominican republic norway and hungary austria greece lebanon

05:46:53.420 i can see sweden um philippines i don't know if i said that already and united arab emorates

05:47:05.660 three countries turkey romania iraq nice cool has anybody here ever had a one-night stand

05:47:14.460 absolutely how about let me reframe the question have you ever hooked up

05:47:22.460 the same day you met somebody same day same night you could have continued dating them or whatever but

05:47:27.340 same day you met them yeah hell yeah nothing yeah nobody okay i mean if you have cousin every then

05:47:36.620 my i don't explore it uh has anyone here ever had a ho phase show of hands if you've had a ho phase i'm

05:47:44.380 still in it i guess you've had a ho phase ho phase ho phase okay what i used to do has anyone here

05:47:50.620 hooked up it's not a phase it's a lifestyle exactly she's still in the phase there is no phase it's

05:47:56.300 perma she's perma ho phase i guess uh has anyone here ever hooked up with two two men in the 24 hour

05:48:05.420 period no really no no okay she's just a baby

05:48:10.940 you know what you ask her what she's seen in high school she's seen some

05:48:17.020 shit it's true she's she's battle hard in high school i ain't gonna lie i did that at 18

05:48:23.500 people in fucking middle school be doing some crazy shit nowadays it's true it's

05:48:27.740 fucked up my little brother's 12 he's got some wild stories for me i'm like please don't yeah these

05:48:31.900 kids be wild i guess he's 13 14 people be fucking i mean like at the same time people be

05:48:38.060 people be uh two guys in a 24 hour period like i've done like a threesome before yeah but

05:48:45.100 no we we won't then no separate thing okay then no

05:48:51.260 long long time ago back in the day have you three in 24 hours i definitely went through a phase like 20

05:49:00.300 years ago where i just had frivolous sex because i wanted to yes and it was just taking like i don't

05:49:07.580 know go off queen pop off diva i don't know because now even regardless i'm i'm the one over

05:49:13.340 here like clutch it clutching my pearls like when i look back on it i'm just like oh my god okay yes i

05:49:20.700 did do that uh so was it four guys in a 24 hour period i thought it was two wait what we went from

05:49:27.900 two to three to four yeah well has it been four guys in a 24 hour period darling we're leaving it at

05:49:33.420 three leaving it we're leaving it at three you gotta respect that commitment to be a slut

05:49:40.780 uh how many in a seven day period i don't like ten it was different back then i mean like i said

05:49:47.980 that there would be back then she's not old i mean i'm older than all of you

05:49:54.780 um in my early 20s when i was like heavily active in the business absolutely

05:49:59.420 so it was at work or was that was it the the the hoishness or the sluttiness i have not my

05:50:07.260 sluttiness was not there wasn't a lot of weight in the sluttiness

05:50:13.900 but the hoism in my early the hoism there's a big difference what is what was the hoism though

05:50:20.300 i mean there there's a huge difference between a slut and a hoe

05:50:23.100 a hoe gets paid and a slut is just frivolous that's good so in my like i said in my early

05:50:31.820 early years in that in that business absolutely there was a lot of activity happening

05:50:38.220 a lot of hoeing and just the way you said that was so much a lot of hoeing like i said like i said

05:50:45.980 there was a lot of activity which now has me over here like oh bless your soul honey

05:50:51.820 okay uh i'm gonna wait for chloe to come back before we get into our next thing

05:50:58.060 we have a little bit more to get through but i think we'll have

05:51:01.500 try to wrap pretty soon uh would you date a republican

05:51:09.980 um i'm conservative oh i would not would not okay like conservative and britain

05:51:17.260 uh i don't know if like the terms are different there the tory it's basically right way like

05:51:24.060 right right uh i don't know if he was hot and how to get big big deck probably

05:51:29.740 what if he had a lot of cum then that's fame for me

05:51:41.580 you're too late you're too late would you date a republican

05:51:46.540 yes absolutely would you date a trump supporter absolutely would you date a

05:51:50.140 conservative tory uh i have yes before and would you currently though no yes would you date a trump

05:51:57.980 supporter yes date a republican yes date a trump supporter uh if i would not date somebody that is

05:52:05.900 like incapable of looking at some of the things donald trump has done and like have valid criticism

05:52:12.860 like somebody that's like everything donald trump does is perfect all the time no i couldn't someone

05:52:17.660 that voted for trump yes somebody that dick rod trump you wouldn't want to do that no not somebody

05:52:25.020 that's like i mean we all know those people like he cannot anything that he says is is the gospel i

05:52:31.020 think all of our politicians like deserve critique and fair analysis okay what about you yes

05:52:41.020 conservative is a little different because they're usually religious and i'm not religious but

05:52:45.100 i would not date them because of that and i've dated a trump supporter before all right let's see we

05:52:52.300 have we have um we can do like okay we're gonna do this this pre-show notes then wrap by the way

05:53:01.660 69 tts if you guys want to get a message in hold on let me check on that i've maybe missed oh sorry

05:53:08.220 sorry sorry for the delay on this cha one sec the question is or the from the questionnaire

05:53:16.780 are adult age gap relationships wrong adult like both people are they're adults but like say the guy's

05:53:24.780 30 and he's dating a 20 year old i think between consenting adults no it's not wrong okay you're fine

05:53:30.860 okay let me let some chats come through uh hold on one sec

05:53:39.180 uh-oh this is for you

05:53:43.340 britney never thought i'd see you on the whatever podcast i'm happy to see your integrity but your

05:53:50.460 big booty still needs a good spanking for going back to kitten you got to admit it live

05:53:55.740 uh kitten is porn it changes some of the words okay going back to porn

05:54:05.980 changed porn to kitten right i'm glad they spelled my name correctly though and give it that

05:54:14.620 do do you want to respond or okay i guess that's a no i mean what is there to say

05:54:19.260 uh possibly possibly uh some potential things in the works we'll see we'll see uh we have

05:54:42.940 wisdom here thank you wisdom donated two hundred dollars chair one naive chair two don't supper

05:54:50.380 of you degenerates chair three for you specifically you call me daddy eagle emoji chair four two quiet

05:54:57.420 chair five you white chair six piano hands chair seven delulu chair eight twelve steps vibe

05:55:05.580 what number am i 12 steps five i'll take it as a compliment i guess you must be the one

05:55:10.140 uh thank you wisdom here uh piano hands how did you know i used to smoke meth no i'm just joking we

05:55:17.500 have uh uh chau's coming for you chloe he's coming for you donated 69 dollars it's not that brian's

05:55:26.380 audience hates you chloe a lot of them like you those of us who hear your rhetoric just recognize

05:55:32.620 it as veiled feminism i could demonstrate rather quickly in a conversation

05:55:37.180 i find that very funny actually i think that taking a basic stance for like women i don't know

05:55:46.300 if that classifies it but hey hey man it's your opinion you have a right to it we have white t-shirt

05:55:54.380 wait what uh okay that's fine thank you man white underscore t-shirt underscore no underscore bra donated

05:56:03.900 69 ch2 feels bad man ch4 is fucking groggers from league of legends ch5 you look like a horse from

05:56:13.020 stardew valley nice weight loss brick so no and ch8 is based and cool r.i.p charlie kirk hey you need

05:56:20.860 some pussy you need some pussy go out and find it instead of commenting on women you know what

05:56:26.220 what oh it's obvious that you don't get it oh he the stardew valley right that's such a cute game

05:56:38.460 though has anyone played it nobody will probably give you pussy anyway stay on that game adult age gap

05:56:45.260 relationships summer you say they're wrong yeah i do think they're wrong okay why why is that i think

05:56:52.460 if like you're like why can't you find someone your own age why did you have to go for someone

05:56:57.500 that's literally just came out of being a teenager like i have a teenage like little sister and if

05:57:04.860 she came to me and was like oh i have a boyfriend he's 32 i'm like how old's your sister she's 17

05:57:10.620 turning 18 but like if she was 20 she was my boyfriend's 32 i'd be like you're a weirdo well i

05:57:15.580 mean in the example provided it's 30 year old dating 20 year old i don't know if the like in

05:57:21.980 the u.s the federal age of consent is 18 16 well are you legally are you a minor like what's the

05:57:29.660 you can have sex at 16 same in canada yeah but you're an adult at 18 18 okay so but when i'm talking

05:57:37.900 about i'm talking strictly about adult relationships so the the other person's like in the u.s that would

05:57:43.420 be considered a minor she's 17 right yeah that'd be she'd be a minor she's yeah she's a minor and

05:57:49.580 right so i'm but that so i would i'll just go ahead and say i object to that but what i'm talking about

05:57:54.460 here would be when both people are tech are adults but one is 20 and one is 30 or 35 would that still

05:58:01.500 be objectionable to you i would i wouldn't say it's like wrong i just think it was weird why is it weird

05:58:07.500 because i don't understand why you can't find someone your own age like what are you talking

05:58:12.460 about what if you could but you preferred to date younger women that's strange okay uh i'll respond

05:58:20.700 to that but does anybody else object to age gap relationships is it strange that younger women

05:58:25.660 want to date older men is that equally as strange to you correct because i think it's strange as if an

05:58:31.660 older man wants to date a younger woman just because i mean that's what he likes and younger

05:58:36.380 woman younger women are easier to mold most women past like 27 if they stuck in their ways

05:58:43.740 it's hard to get through to them so i could understand it from a man's point of view

05:58:47.820 of thinking that it's easier and maybe he could have a little bit more weight in the relationship

05:58:54.540 because i mean every man wants to lead and if you can't lead a woman and there's no point of

05:58:59.100 being in that relationship so i don't see any thing wrong with an age gap here's because i would

05:59:04.380 like to be with somebody that i can learn from i don't want to be with somebody that's my age and

05:59:08.780 i'm surpassing and it would just it just wouldn't feel like a relationship that i need to be in i

05:59:13.660 think it's all based off like intention though like if a man has always only went for very young

05:59:19.180 women it's strange but if you're out in a club you meet someone it's organic whatever not

05:59:26.140 strange but if you're seeking like actively seeking a younger woman to like mold then yeah

05:59:33.260 i think that's strange i don't think it's strange as long as she's of age i'm going to say something

05:59:38.380 that i don't think is ever brought up in this discussion is i don't think it's necessarily the

05:59:44.380 best idea for the man because i think women at 20 years old are incredibly immature and i'm not

05:59:51.260 necessarily just saying out there partying and drinking it i think at 20 years old you meet

05:59:57.100 someone you're like oh they're hot oh they take care of me that those are like the premise of what

06:00:02.620 you're looking for in a relationship we get along then as you start to get older i mean you're thinking

06:00:07.340 about things when you're pursuing a relationship that's going to lead to marriage like is this somebody

06:00:13.500 that's gonna help me one day when my parents die and i have to deal with that emotionally is this

06:00:19.820 someone that would take care of me if i got cancer i think your reasoning and you know when you're 20

06:00:26.220 years old you think you're never going to age and you don't look far ahead and you don't look at

06:00:30.700 characteristics that you would be looking at when you're 25 plus and i think that creates a flight

06:00:37.180 risk for the men because they're going to invest this time and this money into these younger girls who

06:00:42.860 maybe after you know two three years come have some sort of coming of age or growing evolving

06:00:51.740 learning like we all do and say oh you know what i don't want to do this anymore and it's no skin off

06:00:56.700 of their back because they're 22 and they're going to bounce back and recover from it but if uh i just

06:01:04.060 think men need to be cautious with putting all of their time and energy into a very young woman who may

06:01:10.700 not have that much even if she seems old for her age has not had experiences or thoughts that make

06:01:16.700 her a long-term partner you're these young predatory women trying to date these older men

06:01:24.620 i can't believe i can't believe i don't think it's intentional these predatory young women just it's

06:01:31.900 so sick yeah i think there listen i think there are women that you try to use men for money that's

06:01:37.580 not even what i'm saying yet i think a lot of times it's it's completely unintentional just like

06:01:42.300 oh i'm 20 i don't know anything about the world i have you know really no concept of money all i'm

06:01:48.940 looking for in a partner is somebody that makes me laugh and that i think is hot and we get along

06:01:54.380 without discussing things like politics or religion or things that are a big deal

06:02:02.380 when you're going through life with somebody not necessarily dating somebody at that age but i guess

06:02:06.300 also it's whatever the intention is yeah that's of that person dating i just see them as a long-term

06:02:11.740 partner age ain't nothing but a number so if two people are getting in a relationship i think okay

06:02:18.300 as long as they're considering adults what needs to be you know what needs to be talked about is what

06:02:23.580 the two can bring to the table now if a 20 year old can't bring to the table what a grown man is

06:02:28.700 asking for then that grown man needs to be a man and be able to go in a different direction now from a

06:02:34.460 20 year old if a 20 year old knows what she's looking for and she knows that she wants a man

06:02:39.420 to provide for her and she knows that she wants to be taken care of by men mentally physically and

06:02:44.060 emotionally then she has a right to decide for herself if that grown man is for her or not oh

06:02:49.980 yeah i i don't think anyone is arguing about like whether you have the right to do it or whether it's

06:02:54.460 legal or whether it's morally wrong i just don't necessarily think it's smart yeah i i think that

06:03:02.780 there are a lot of risks associated with that every relationship has its risk a hundred percent a hundred

06:03:08.300 percent but i think that this is an aspect of those sorts of relationships that is never brought up it's

06:03:13.260 never discussed i think a lot of relationships can be predatory i'm not sure if it's just age i've

06:03:22.940 heard that a lot of age gaps relation age gap relationships can be predatory but i'm not

06:03:27.980 sure how accurate that is i think like as long as they're both two consenting adults that want to be

06:03:33.340 together it's fine i mean what if it was reversed how do you guys feel about you know 30 year old woman

06:03:40.220 dating a 20 year old man i i equally think that once again a 20 year old man that's a risky decision

06:03:47.980 for a 30 year old woman investing your time and energy into somebody who might wake up one day

06:03:55.900 within the next year and realize they have not experienced the world they have not evolved on

06:04:00.700 their world view they you're not going to be on the same wavelength as this person yeah i was just

06:04:05.180 going to say i think age this whole like age is just a number i think it can be but it depends on

06:04:10.540 where the person is in their life right like i yeah i have an 11 year age difference between me

06:04:16.620 and my fiance but i'm also like 28 years old i've been paying my own bills since i was 16 i make over

06:04:23.820 600 000 a year like what the fuck am i going to do with like a 20 year old like what am i going to do

06:04:28.060 you know so it but it's about uh where that person is an 18 year old and a 40 year old are at two very

06:04:34.380 different places developmentally socially um so i wouldn't necessarily agree with that but uh it just

06:04:41.980 depends on where you are in life man some people are just more mature like i said i don't know what

06:04:46.060 the hell i would do with somebody my age so and also the the older that you get right like a 40 year

06:04:51.260 old and a 55 year old both of those people than a 60 year old right have had a lot of lived life

06:04:57.980 experience it's weird to to want to date someone just because of their age exactly i don't think

06:05:03.820 that's the case correct i think that's what people like misconstrue when they highlight in like

06:05:09.180 somebody getting groomed or whatnot like this person is going after only 20 year olds 19 year olds

06:05:15.100 when it's not about like just the age it's about if they can get what they're asking for from

06:05:20.380 somebody that age like if it's like a repetitive thing weird if it's not fair enough do we want

06:05:26.940 so so not weird if you're actively seeking like a 20 year old an 18 year old a 19 year old

06:05:34.380 as an older gentleman yeah i think it's weird but if you're not actively just like if that's not your

06:05:39.740 pattern but i think with these age gap discussions there's this tendency to want to point to well if

06:05:46.220 they're only seeking this out then it's bad but i still feel like even if we walk it back a bit and

06:05:51.500 there's like a guy who's 30 and he's dated a 33 year old he dated a 27 year old 29 year old and then

06:05:58.940 he dated 20 year old still feel like people are going to have still have an issue with it even if he's

06:06:04.780 dating various i also think a lot of young women have dated older men when i was 14 i dated a 27 year

06:06:10.220 old like i know it's weird that would make you a victim how about this is an example myself i've

06:06:22.780 dated women who are older than me i when i was i did a woman who was like 10 years older than me

06:06:28.140 when i was uh 30 or something i forget you're 30 huh yeah i'm 36 uh i dated i dated i think yeah i was

06:06:37.580 33 or something i dated to be fair to be fair she was wasion okay okay to be fair so to be fair okay

06:06:45.580 guys you know asian don't raise you know how it is asian don't raise it yeah that's the same they

06:06:51.660 don't raise it i've heard of black don't crack there's that too there's that too asians do age good

06:06:57.260 too um but but and then i've dated women exactly my age i've dated women a couple years younger than me

06:07:04.220 and then say for example uh say right now i was dating a woman who is 20 would you object to that

06:07:09.740 i'm 36 i'm 36 yeah because what are you talking about what do i talk about what are you talking

06:07:14.940 about to her what if she's super what do you have to relate what if she's like a huge drag like she's

06:07:21.580 what she's what wait if she was like super hot i guess it's fine but i think it's all about your

06:07:28.460 intention if you met this woman like i don't know like here or somewhere like what if she

06:07:33.980 reached out to me she slid into my dms then great for you babe like she likes a daddy she loves a daddy

06:07:40.220 to be clear like it i don't think if if you're out of college you shouldn't be kicking it at college

06:07:47.500 parties like yeah that yeah that would be weird if like a 30 year old is kicking it at a college party

06:07:53.820 that's weird do you guys ever get those like 60 year old men in nightclubs like just on their own

06:07:59.900 here or not do men yeah i've seen them they're like standing off in the corner and they always try

06:08:07.340 i've seen it but i've also seen like 40 year old women doing the same thing you know it's quite sad

06:08:14.060 and i i because i see that a lot in my work too right when people come into like piano bars or lounges

06:08:21.340 because they don't want to be that creepy guy right like a lot of them don't want to be the old guy at

06:08:25.500 the club with 21 20 year old but they are they're very lonely and i i my heart really does go out for

06:08:32.380 them because they loved they love to sit at the piano bar and they i honestly say like a lot of times i

06:08:38.540 am tipped because i just listen to their life story like they're not actively seeking like right

06:08:43.340 something like that they just want and a lot of them they had a partner maybe they lost their wife maybe

06:08:47.980 they nobody i i don't know and maybe it's because i you know i've spent the last decade working and

06:08:54.940 show business and nightlife and you see like both sides of that but your heart really does go out

06:09:00.220 because nobody wants to be that creepy guy nobody wants to be the creepy guy in the back of the club

06:09:05.660 i'm sure they're i say nobody i'm sure there's a handful of perverts out there but for the most part

06:09:12.860 it's like well what are they going to do just like stay in your house you can't stop competing it

06:09:16.780 don't matter your age you got to compete in social women so i don't think that men should be looked at

06:09:22.300 as weird when they still competing for a woman's attention because that's what they should do

06:09:26.940 this is kind of it's just do you object to men having this generalized preference towards

06:09:32.300 finding younger women more attractive no i don't think so like yeah there's a biological basis for

06:09:39.500 this it typically relates to fertility i mean that's the primary thing i feel like people can

06:09:46.460 like what they like yeah they can have if it's not harming anyone yeah it's not harming anybody then

06:09:51.340 it's fine okay we have a bluff fest here with an interesting take bluff is donated 69 dollars age ain't

06:09:59.340 nothing but a number so jail ain't nothing but a place it's just a bunch of letters interesting

06:10:06.220 dismissive cliche rational is idiotic age is what it is an accurate gauge of your compatibility

06:10:13.820 all of those are true but i mean i don't i mean even bringing it further like i i wouldn't see a

06:10:20.380 problem with like a if an 18 year old woman wanted to date a guy who was 28 don't see a problem i did

06:10:27.020 that don't recommend yeah same don't don't see a problem she wants to do it he wants to do it i

06:10:33.740 don't there's not really a problem sensing adults i don't see this an issue and what i'm saying is

06:10:38.380 like if it's a pattern if that's what you're seeking out constantly weird i mean even if it's

06:10:42.940 a pattern like okay i okay whatever he prefers hot young women and this idea that like older women

06:10:51.980 this idea that older women are more mature that's a lot that's a damn lot some of the most immature

06:10:59.020 women i've dealt with are older women me like some of the most toxic eat like evil women have been

06:11:09.100 older women not like sad for you a 19 year old i feel like she's got tame with modern age and social media

06:11:18.060 i feel like it's a lot easier for women to educate themselves so they mature a little bit

06:11:23.580 yeah faster women we mature physically but like mentally i don't think so i've met 30 year old

06:11:31.180 women that act like they 19 and i've met 19 year old women that have enough sense to know what they

06:11:37.020 don't want to be like at 30 and i think that's more important some a woman that's self-aware rather

06:11:41.820 than a woman that's not and can't take and i would say as well i completely agree with you because

06:11:46.540 i see you know the 36 to 40 year old women out drinking at you know at the shows and they are

06:11:54.860 so immature they are embarrassingly immature i would not argue though that if you take that same woman

06:12:02.700 i can't imagine that she was you know a real scholar at 22 years old who was reserved and quiet usually

06:12:10.460 who you are that that sort of behavior and that maturity is like a long pattern they didn't just

06:12:15.980 wake up one day after they were you know working so hard and studying and just lose the plot right

06:12:22.860 and i feel like after a certain age a woman is stuck in place especially if she isn't working to better

06:12:28.540 herself so if this woman is still acting the same way she is as she was at 19 she'd been the same

06:12:35.100 unlike a woman who's like 25 trying to better herself and is taking accountability for her

06:12:42.540 wrongdoings and just like what she know is right and wrong also we have an 18 year old so would you

06:12:49.500 date a 20 would you date brian hers oh anyway um what would i date somebody a lot older just because

06:12:59.900 you're like i personally wouldn't i personally wouldn't i have to agree with you brian on the um

06:13:07.820 the older women being more bitter and evil to the point where you can just like feel it seething from

06:13:17.900 them yeah as if they were just sweating out sweating it out on a hot ugly summer day and yeah you said it

06:13:26.700 girl i mean just to be clear though like my position on the age gap stuff i'm not saying like

06:13:32.460 younger women must or should date older men like i actually acknowledge most younger women probably

06:13:40.140 want to date a guy who's around her age maybe one two three years older but yeah most young like i'd

06:13:46.220 say most women in college like they probably want to date a guy in college yeah they probably

06:13:51.580 like they're probably like not trying to date 30 year olds but if they want to my position is i

06:13:58.860 don't really have a problem yeah that's i'm not saying like you must or you should i'm just simply

06:14:03.660 saying if she wants to he wants to no problem with it don't think it's weird don't think it's any of

06:14:09.020 these things and of course all the while acknowledging generally generally speaking i think most women

06:14:15.180 especially young women want to date men around their age but i don't think it's weird i don't

06:14:21.660 think it's weird whatever you're fucking 18 you want to date fucking henry cavill fuck it go for

06:14:25.740 it he's like in his mid 40s you would come on you would date is there any do you have like celebrity

06:14:30.460 crush like ryan reynolds or some shit not really carrot top would you date carrot top would i

06:14:35.900 carrot top are you out of your mind maybe that's i don't know who that is carrot top the comedian i know

06:14:41.260 who he is yeah that's sorry that's i i will say though i would love jackie chan so much what

06:14:47.500 isn't he like in his 70s yeah but he's so tall that guy from the last of us pedro oh actually

06:14:55.500 with pedro yeah i don't see either oh no he's been over to my house

06:15:00.620 he's a little touchy yeah he could touch me he lost me there

06:15:03.740 uh but i don't know i don't know like okay like a 19 year old girl wants to date who's

06:15:13.740 i'm actually brad pitt fuck it he's still good looking older brad pitt he's in the 60s but he's

06:15:19.820 honestly brad pitt at 60 i feel like is still better looking than like 90 of dudes in their 20s i

06:15:28.860 wouldn't agree i honestly would not agree i don't think beauty is subjective and i think

06:15:33.580 most men are hot chad michael murray look way better than brad pitt yeah i agree i agree

06:15:37.900 i agree he's been popping up who the fuck is that guy y'all never seen what you guys we're lowering

06:15:43.420 the tts 29 tts roast time boys it's roast roast the girls get your roast in yeah roast brian we okay

06:15:51.660 fine roast me too should say nice fine it could be the compliment i hope they pay you to make that

06:15:57.580 machine gun noise yeah what's that you'll pay me go get your purse give me your i don't carry a

06:16:03.020 purse last time i was here and everyone just started giving you cash wait that happened then

06:16:08.140 i just some girl just gave me a hundred dollars last show too bro i'm fin doming the shit out of

06:16:13.660 all these we love it i gave you canadian money just oh wait that's right yeah and then everybody

06:16:18.540 started pulling cash i do i'm like what yeah do you guys have any pounds no why would they bring

06:16:24.060 i don't have anything i should have brought you some romanian oh i would love that yeah i like

06:16:29.660 collecting currencies from other countries i'll bring you some i'm a collector i'm a i'm an

06:16:34.620 appreciator and enjoyer of foreign currencies give me coins and give me some zimbabwean

06:16:41.260 million dollar bills or some inflation uh we have

06:16:46.780 29 tts get it in boys i need to fix that uh oh do you guys think a what a woman's past should not

06:16:56.060 matter starting with you like body count body count oh no i don't think that should matter should

06:17:02.300 matter okay what about you nah nah okay shouldn't matter what about what do you think not if it's

06:17:08.780 completely removed and moving forward vagina god no i mean gosh no oh no her past her past i see

06:17:18.060 okay what do you think no i think more experience is better mm-hmm

06:17:24.780 yeah that is erroneous sorry i didn't mean to put that i don't know what that means you got to get

06:17:30.300 your buttons together did you want to play what you meant no that was i meant to play that okay i don't

06:17:37.100 think a man should be worried about a woman's past you worried about her past you need to be

06:17:41.020 worried about the future that just means you a red flag already okay what do you think um i think it

06:17:46.620 matters to a certain point i think like expecting having no forgiveness or expecting i have no past is

06:17:53.660 a little unfair but i think there's a threshold there for sure okay what do you think it does matter but

06:17:59.500 there should always be room for grace chloe your thoughts i think for men and women i think past

06:18:07.260 behavior can be indicative of future behavior it just depends on how much work they've done on

06:18:11.420 themselves how much accountability they can take and whether or not they recognize that their bad

06:18:15.180 habits are bad habits so it begets the question then past shouldn't matter doesn't matter body count

06:18:25.020 shouldn't matter what's your body count starting with you i don't know you didn't you say it last

06:18:30.140 time no i got kicked off before it got pretty sure you said it i was too late then you say it was like

06:18:38.220 60 no i never gave my body count because i don't keep up with that number well what so i guess what is

06:18:43.100 it then i don't know do you want i mean i don't keep count every time i have a ballpark

06:18:47.980 range uh no guesstimate i don't know estimate that's my guesstimate is it over a hundred i really

06:18:57.980 couldn't tell you over a thousand i think keeping up with your body count is like so high school so

06:19:04.860 okay what was it in high school i don't know i stopped counting after like 10 you you wait you

06:19:11.900 stopped counting after 10 in high school okay cool

06:19:21.100 right did you get held back a grade because maybe we can go to 19 then uh what do you mean

06:19:27.660 held back a grade like the body you know most people graduate around 18 yeah but maybe you got

06:19:33.020 my virginity is 17 i love that for you that's great that's great me too w

06:19:42.860 i think exploring sexually in a positive way should always be a thing ballpark

06:19:48.940 well i'm not a virgin but i'm not telling you you can't ask her that she's 18.

06:19:52.620 no you could ask her okay so not a virgin is it less than i'm not telling you less than 10.

06:19:59.260 i'm not if you could vote you could talk about your body count so nine okay what about you just

06:20:04.780 kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding body count uh eight no eight eight eight eight oh i thought you said

06:20:13.660 eight oh no i said eight no it was seven eight eight to new eight no eight now um eight now

06:20:21.100 three can you do a scottish dance for us just kidding what like the scottish i don't know

06:20:29.260 like a keely or that's the irish you would play the bag place body count again my 20s were very

06:20:36.700 for phyllis it's okay it's okay no this is a safe space oh you're hilarious you're you're that is

06:20:45.900 funny that is the most entertaining statement of the evening very safe safe space like i said

06:20:52.780 what well you you know you did the the adult content so there's probably a number there like

06:20:57.660 they're definitely well i will be honest um as far as my relations in that regard definitely more that

06:21:04.060 were work-related than in my personal life in my personal life i can count on less than two hands

06:21:08.620 how many people i've been with you didn't have sex with civilians you only have normies no civilians

06:21:15.980 um do you know what it was for work like i said my 20s were very frivolous the behavior was very

06:21:22.620 frivolous over 100 yeah for work though you're shooting porn i don't have those answers but do you

06:21:29.980 you think like ballpark over 100 what's going to be what what's going to be that that that that

06:21:37.020 statement that's going to make people go oh oh my gosh she did that oh my just whatever the truth

06:21:42.300 is don't worry about that no i'm telling you the truth like my 20s were very frivolous i don't know

06:21:46.620 how many yeah i get it was frivolous do you know your body count yeah what's yours brian don't worry

06:21:51.740 about it no what's yours no machine gun nobody can i'm a virgin oh boo hey that's my thing i'm a

06:22:00.060 i'm a virgin i love that for you i've never had carnal knowledge of a woman we can tell i've never

06:22:07.900 felt the warm embrace of a woman's arms that explains all the versions in the chat too

06:22:15.500 virgins follow virgins you're right all of my viewers they're all virgins they've never had

06:22:19.980 sexual and of course i'll have sex with them it is don't do that but look uh how many scenes have

06:22:29.180 you shot like over 100 no um probably i think 40 40 40 okay all right that's good body count probably in

06:22:39.820 the 30s 30s thank you for sharing dia oh my god that was terrible disregard body count you don't

06:22:47.820 yeah you already asked me yeah you said like 70 or something i can give you a number i'm gonna be

06:22:51.980 honest i'm just not going to answer that out of respect for my partner my brother's watching my

06:22:57.180 dad's watching i'm just not going to answer that uh rookie numbers compared to what i've heard no

06:23:02.540 judgment just no none take it i just yeah uh there's things that i've done in the past that i'm not proud

06:23:09.740 of but um zero okay okay okay i mean she's done other chloe roma not a hand job what's that nick

06:23:30.700 oh yes oh are we um body count are we including women we break it down between the uh genders

06:23:43.020 break it down i've slept with a total of 11 people oh sweet uh this for for everybody whether you

06:23:50.220 answered or not multiply it by three and that's the real number it's the math we have to stick to

06:23:53.980 the math i can swear on god that's what j cole said that's what j cole said wait who the fuck is

06:24:01.900 that guy you don't know who j cole is i don't know i don't listen to ryan just like hating on me that

06:24:07.740 i listen to pearl jam stone temple pilots uh wait what i thought you said it was a shitty band

06:24:15.100 what the fuck i was gonna be like what the fuck chloe damn about to fight a canadian today i was gonna

06:24:19.740 uh no i was just gonna be deeply hurt uh i'm deeply hurt you won't do the mission

06:24:24.620 ryan's number one simo donated thirty dollars please make the machine gun sound you're speaking

06:24:33.420 no now i'm embarrassed i feel like i'm gonna fuck it up oh you you put us all on the spot that's so

06:24:39.340 true so it's only right donated thirty dollars roma you i'll do it c1 c2 c3 c4 c5 are weird

06:24:49.740 what up todd behavior towards women what that's that's me and my partner we run a uh we have like

06:24:59.420 a side business we do uh we run a retro video game and like console store on uh whatnot and you can

06:25:06.540 find us final boss arcades and uh todd is he's a freaking american from that website and he's so

06:25:13.660 funny whenever he goes live he plays the saga i am a real american we love todd can we get back

06:25:20.380 to brian's and machine gun noises i need to speak french now make the sound bonjour to the

06:25:27.180 the sun then stick it up uh why again baby wipes i will reveal i will do diddy diddy

06:25:35.020 for practice practice of what she needs to practice her mother mothering skills uh

06:25:44.060 i will do the machine gun noise if everybody here reveals their body count we're just dead

06:25:49.180 dead no you guys were like i don't want to share i need the approximate number we also do a segment

06:25:56.060 called um taking off your makeup oh i love this one so if you guys are you wearing makeup makeup i'm

06:26:03.580 gonna take my makeup off makeup you guys will take your makeup off when i'm hot i'll take my face

06:26:08.300 makeup this is really hard to go off take those lashes off yeah put them in the drink cup and then

06:26:14.220 shoot it if you shoot your fake lash i'll shoot someone else can you consume fake lashes in the

06:26:20.220 event of emergency like if you're starving you're like i need sustenance can you you know like nail

06:26:26.620 glue bars i don't like these wipes though like do you know you can eat a wallet like if it's leather

06:26:32.700 you can eat leather i'm vegan it's because it comes from like animals exactly can you shut up and do

06:26:38.060 the machine gun noises can you reveal the body count i just did he said eight i can literally need

06:26:43.020 i need everybody though at the table i've sat with eight people i'm not gonna one professional

06:26:47.260 well you know what that's so unfortunate i don't care if you're your machine gun no more no machine

06:26:52.220 gun sorry i can't do the machine gun someone paid you to what is felicity doing back there felicity's

06:26:57.180 just been being a little you have an eyelash in your eye we'll start tweaking out back here instead

06:27:03.740 of can you speak french then because that poor man paid you to do it and you're not giving up

06:27:07.500 i'll do i'll speak french if you do a scottish dance you can't move the gopost

06:27:11.820 do we have any blue paint we're gonna paint your face partially blue like and we're gonna

06:27:27.100 give you a fucking sword i have a sword in the studio and you're gonna do that freedom get me a

06:27:32.780 sword you're gonna do that uh so now do machine gun or speak is chloe the only one take you guys

06:27:37.820 gonna take your makeup off or not oh wait oh she's doing it skipping my bedtime i didn't realize

06:27:43.340 it's optional no it's mandatory mandatory you're forced do you not have anything better than makeup

06:27:49.980 wipes i'm not repping my skin off yeah okay you little pampered princess over here it's the premium

06:27:57.020 makeup wipe i do when you're done hold it up to the hold it up hold up the the wipe spread the the

06:28:05.580 makeup wipe uh okay spread no not the cheeks the makeup what uh christopher i think i have a question

06:28:13.180 that doesn't require body count to be given and still gets the point across does your body count

06:28:17.260 exceed the number of romance by the way guys send these through not youtube stream labs uh romantic

06:28:21.980 relationships you've had that lasted longer than a year christopher you ugly you need to lose a

06:28:26.860 little bit of weight oh hey i'm a fat shamer man i don't give a damn i hate fat people whoa okay

06:28:34.620 that's a crazy take bro by the way that means you hate a couple people at the table right now including

06:28:41.180 myself i hate when people don't take care of their bodies i don't care yeah i do hate when that you're

06:28:46.380 fat but you did lose a couple pounds i see you tried to show off when i you know i was coming back

06:28:50.860 because i did talk about your weight the last podcast and that's why fast shaming is necessary

06:28:55.260 because you've been working on that weight ever since i bet as he as he should she's saying though

06:29:01.340 i've lost weight for her yeah you have as he should hey we all need motivation didn't you get a haircut

06:29:07.100 for her too yeah he did he got a little line up there's a lot of we said earlier he got a little edge

06:29:11.660 up the stars are lining here you know how you're asking us to take off our makeup why don't you shave

06:29:16.140 your beard same thing bro i mean i keep the beard you can you can find yeah okay nick pull up young

06:29:23.180 brian it's just let me see young brian you guys haven't seen young brian scroll down scroll down

06:29:28.700 you can pull up also we need to do the bow video we need to do the bow video we're gonna do that

06:29:33.580 gotta get it in gotta get it in gotta do it means shingon but you're not doing it

06:29:38.140 i'll know tell you what sing the scottish national anthem i sang it

06:29:45.260 sing it well flower of scotland um that's you're speaking no you gotta be like i don't actually

06:29:51.420 that shit um i don't know wow you're scottish i don't know i'm just not gonna sing it leave me

06:29:59.500 alone okay you know what would you be offended if i wore a kilt well appropriation i would be offended

06:30:07.260 because what am i gonna see sitting over here brian well i wouldn't wear like if you wore it

06:30:11.580 if you wore it like a true scotsman i'd probably crawl up under there so like a little whoa wait

06:30:16.780 hold on i want to go home i want to go home excuse me

06:30:25.500 you gotta wear it with no underwear so is that the way this you don't wear anything under your free

06:30:30.060 do you want to know why so like during the war against england

06:30:35.340 i didn't um they used to show their asses on the like to on the on the front

06:30:42.540 they'd moon yeah they would moon people yeah i see scotch people are funny i'm gonna say

06:30:49.500 can you pass those back down this way just pass what do we do with these

06:30:52.780 no don't just pass them to them i wasn't showing that i was showing the bug oh okay just

06:30:57.340 we have uh oh oh boy chef dill pickles donated 100 hippos are always vegan brian why are you

06:31:10.220 still fat oh hey look boys i'm losing the weight okay it's coming off pound by pound it's work in

06:31:17.900 progress i thought you were french speak french no people have paid for your service bro

06:31:26.860 bubs be snapping donated 29 they gotta pay the right price bro do the machine gun sound please

06:31:32.780 also hey roma i love your content so much i tuned into this show and even paid 30 just to say keep

06:31:39.820 making great content there you go thanks brother there you go look that's sweet i will do the machine

06:31:45.100 gun noise for a champagne pop that's it for the thousand dollars hey i'm i'm it better be a damn

06:31:51.820 good i'm pricing machine clearly terrible that's why you're not doing it excuse me probably

06:31:58.860 probably you speak french and you can't i guess french is a lot of like back of the tongue it's

06:32:03.820 more like european languages that are front you can't can you go no i can't do that you might speak

06:32:10.620 french do you have a tongue tie do you have like this part i hate the epiglottis or wait that's

06:32:16.540 not what it is no i'm good i'm not gonna crush your eyes

06:32:25.180 holy shit hey young brian young brian yeah let's see uh scroll down to the that's no young brian

06:32:31.580 uh click on click on the the surf one where i'm like taking off my wetsuit or whatever

06:32:40.620 i need to go wash my face young brian you have your face isn't there where's your face uh scroll

06:32:47.420 up click click the tank top one not the tank top i think i think younger you would look better with

06:32:55.740 with the beard that you got right now i agree uh okay i disagree did you play football soccer

06:33:04.700 this is from an old video i did where i pretended to be people said i looked like click on rl9

06:33:13.500 we love football it's robert levandowski people said i looked like him this is 10 years ago by the

06:33:20.540 the way no you didn't but 10 years ago a little bit people like oh all white people look alike so

06:33:29.340 really yeah me me and violet right yes well you're a man and she's a woman okay yeah i wouldn't say

06:33:36.220 you all right felicity and no do they look alike no she got blonde hair she is a ginger

06:33:42.380 violet looks like but if you put like if you put like 20 white people in a room i wouldn't be able

06:33:48.460 to tell who is who the guy from harry potter come on really that's not you're gonna throw

06:33:54.540 that's like gingerest oldest trick in the book that's really no i kind of see it really a little

06:33:59.980 bit what did she say she said that's just like the go-to ginger that everybody says

06:34:04.220 you're gorgeous i'm not being mean you just hate you just hate crime no i'm not being you

06:34:10.620 fucking hate crime yeah you would be arrested in you'd be arrested for fucking hate-criming

06:34:23.020 the only hate crime felicity commits are those against police cars they don't get it

06:34:28.860 it it's inside joke for whatever viewers anyways uh oh the bow video so guys i want to show you a

06:34:35.820 video this is you know we didn't really talk a whole bunch about dating but this is sort of

06:34:40.220 dating related i have very high expectations of the person that i'm dating i have very high

06:34:45.020 expectations i want her to be a base submissive housewife minus the marriage part but uh from the

06:34:53.260 gecko early on in the relationship immediately i took a video because what i what i wanted to do i

06:35:00.300 i have a training course for new girlfriends it's a training program six week intensive program to get

06:35:07.420 you on track to be the best girlfriend for me ever so i i took videos of like when i was dating

06:35:14.700 somebody like to show future girlfriends how they should act properly you're a psycho did she hurt you

06:35:20.620 did she did she hurt me did you love her well so so i'm going to show you a video i took this is

06:35:26.940 my ex-girlfriend nick go ahead get it going so i expect a woman when i get home from work yeah

06:35:32.380 she oh she definitely consented holy shit vape clowns okay uh it's you're you're good

06:35:40.060 yeah so this is video i took yeah yeah boom she has to bow immediately once i get home long day at

06:35:45.980 work need to bow is victoria violet oh my god you just said it like sorry i'm uh yeah that's not

06:35:55.500 your girlfriend victoria's shocked wait sorry violet is shocked oh my god so she's getting she gets me my

06:36:00.860 beer food's ready dinner's ready as soon as i get home smile on the face i did dump her though because

06:36:07.980 you see that in the right bottom right corner she has just raw tomatoes i had to dump her because

06:36:12.780 yeah agreed yeah bow one more time play the bow part this is the most important huge boom you see

06:36:18.860 the depth you see the rack on her she had big tits i also dumped her because she had fake titties but

06:36:25.340 because i don't i don't i don't really like fake titties but you see the submissive hand posture

06:36:31.100 that's what i expect is it like a sex thing no clearly she's not in her head it is

06:36:37.260 i could be asexual like if it's a sex thing totally here for it i'll bow down no this is

06:36:42.860 just like dominance it has nothing to do with this is like normal everyday

06:36:49.420 funsies why are you why are you trolling i'm not sure she's not your ass she's so hot

06:36:55.660 you thinking that that's a joke but have you actually got a woman to do that for you and a

06:37:02.140 woman to bow yeah holy because if you can't then i mean you're just not that man because i know if

06:37:07.660 i had a man in my face that i wanted i would bow for him but if you not getting a woman to do that

06:37:12.780 for you then you know can i say something can i ask something very ignorant i oh okay is that like

06:37:19.580 part of her culture like to bow because i only date black women now so i even get the bow from black

06:37:27.180 women okay just kidding i also date white and asian and latino and they all and they all do the

06:37:33.100 bath well i would like all we'll do the bow okay i'll do the bow and asian uh when you bow the the

06:37:40.860 steeper i guess the deeper the lower the lower the bow with most respect she wasn't bound very low for

06:37:46.540 your brain well look you know she was preoccupied she's a bit preoccupied you know doing the laundry

06:37:52.860 and and also you know with the food uh she also suffered from uh from thoracic back pain so i give

06:38:01.260 her a pass i gave her a pass she had a she had a car accident um sorry train terrible train accident

06:38:08.620 oh did she die no well no she was she was right there she was bowing but in fourth yeah unfortunately

06:38:15.580 that was pretty good depth you know look it was quick she knew she had other things to do

06:38:19.740 but you're you are right to point that out chloe i did actually that was the other reason i dumped

06:38:24.940 her the bow wasn't deep enough yeah that's fair that's fair but so going around the table what do

06:38:29.900 you think like would you for your dream guy would you bow no no not for the dream guy dream woman are

06:38:41.100 my dream guy wouldn't you are you my dream guy wouldn't want me to do that

06:38:48.460 my fiance but hypothetically hypothetically your dream guy to get your dream guy you had to do that

06:38:56.140 i wouldn't do it okay because that would be like a deal breaker for me why would you want me to do that

06:39:00.380 okay all right would you would you bow for for the your dream guy knowing how rare the dream man is

06:39:08.860 i would bow for my man but i just don't think i could get back up again but oh that's definitely

06:39:14.140 bad that's crazy she was the mouth that got away what the fuck uh okay would you bow for the your

06:39:20.700 dream guy into the mic oh my god look how far the mic has shifted by the way well i'm you know what i'm

06:39:29.500 gonna i'm gonna start charging a tax i'm charging a tax every time a woman moves a microphone on this

06:39:34.780 podcast they have to pay me uh how much cash you got on hand this is a shake do you guys carry cash

06:39:40.940 here i know that's i was like who carries cash so okay uh would you bow for the for for the uh dream

06:39:47.740 guy basically bowing is such as i can't answer it's it's such a strange concept completely one thousand

06:39:57.260 percent submitting to him in any form absolutely but the act of wait that would literally encompass if

06:40:03.500 you're 100 submissive and he was like i want you to bow for me every time i come home from work

06:40:08.780 that would encompass this is the thing i would do it but i would not be able to keep a straight face

06:40:13.100 okay whatever that's fine yeah okay okay would you bow for no okay what about you honestly my dream

06:40:19.580 god could tell me to do anything he could tell me to jump i'm gonna say how high because that's what

06:40:23.660 a woman's supposed to do there we go i'm gonna submit to a man that i want let's go and that's what

06:40:28.460 men need to understand if she ain't doing what you want she don't like you and men women too

06:40:33.580 that's just that simple because people gonna do what they want to do for people that they like

06:40:39.420 it's that simple and i'ma bow down get on my knees all that yeah i got my

06:40:43.660 violet what do you what do you think i'm on my hands and knees for the man she can do whatever

06:40:47.180 she wants it's not my business i wouldn't but what do you think about her general thoughts on that

06:40:51.660 her general thoughts on that yeah a bit degrading like she well she's saying if you if you really

06:40:57.020 like the guy you'll do did i don't know if you said like anything but you said i'm gonna do anything

06:41:03.420 okay there you go i would not okay would you bow for your dream guy well i have my dream guy i think

06:41:10.140 it would be about if he if you if like all of a sudden though like after years he was like watching

06:41:14.540 right now uh i don't believe so if you're watching right now dream guy that she's currently dating

06:41:19.340 and serenading every night with her piano do you do that you should you should get on what if he

06:41:25.180 wanted you to serenade him every night oh that i would do yeah he he listened to me playing the

06:41:30.700 piano and saying if you're watching you must ask her for a bow okay cool there's quite a time zone

06:41:36.220 between us right now so i don't think that's the case well next time you see him that's do that

06:41:42.460 shit would you do it though would you bow yes or no like there would have to be some rationale by

06:41:46.700 out of nowhere like out of a sudden hey i want you to start bowing i'd be like okay we need to

06:41:51.500 elaborate on what the like what's going on here uh okay he was like you know what i'm a big fan of

06:41:58.540 the whatever podcast brian and all his wealth of knowledge suggested that women should bow to their

06:42:04.700 boyfriends or husbands or you know whatever it is oh and then if that was the case i'd be like you

06:42:08.460 know what there's a lot of women out there that think you know their man should pay for everything and

06:42:13.180 that so then i'd have demands to start making too if that's the game we're going to start playing

06:42:17.900 as you should i have a car payment in fact i want a new car you know let's let's put all this in a

06:42:23.100 what about you you about for your guy i'm gonna um think of it in a little higher sense than that but

06:42:30.060 when it comes to a dream guy um if you want to marry quality you have to be quality

06:42:35.180 that's what does that mean so yes is that a yes you would bow i'll leave it at that

06:42:43.020 wait what she would bow to the right man why is this even like a question you need to be vague

06:42:47.580 about it's not like revealing your body count why do you need to leave it at that can you just be

06:42:52.460 like yeah do that because i'm not really getting a clear answer if you would bow or not bow and i don't

06:42:59.100 think your answer is like would be poorly reflected upon you either way i can agree to disagree wait

06:43:07.180 what hold on but if you don't give the answer there's nothing to agree or disagree on you're

06:43:11.260 just being like well i'm just going to be mysterious and vague and not answer the question i'm not i thought

06:43:17.500 you were going to say freedom of speech i thought you were oh my god that's what i thought you were

06:43:23.660 going to say it's free country wait just answer the question please

06:43:32.140 oh my god i thought you were going to say the only man you'll bow to is god yeah that's what i was

06:43:40.460 now that wait let's let her answer go ahead now that i think that um me and my future husband would bow to

06:43:48.780 christ together but hold on what is that bible verse that says that the wife is to submit on i'm

06:44:00.140 totally butchering this the wife is to submit onto her husband as she would onto the lord i that's

06:44:05.500 probably butchered but it's something like that and then the following line is that the husband needs

06:44:09.580 to love his wife like he like christ loves the church perfect i totally agree but if your husband

06:44:16.300 is uh is in is acting appropriately as it relates to whatever the the faith and he's like hey i want

06:44:25.500 you to bow for me well i wouldn't that be part of biblical submission that if your husband is asking

06:44:30.620 for it you would do it if the intent is to answer that question i would hope that the man that i have

06:44:36.700 very high standards for um would never even think to ask or have me do that wait you act like this is

06:44:45.420 a war crime like i'm war criming my girlfriends because i want them to literally do do a bow hold

06:44:52.860 on that's crazy wait what if your husband had an expectation of like within the marriage of having

06:44:57.660 sex with you if we're married let's go for it wait hold on but like having sex is a way more involved

06:45:05.340 physical activity than just doing a bow what if you flip it into the mic would you like the man to

06:45:12.700 bow to you would you do that no i don't think she wouldn't want that no no i wouldn't want anyone to

06:45:17.740 bow to me nobody there's only one person that's worthy of being bowed to of the bowing of the knee

06:45:24.140 wait hold on but bow this bowing is not an act of worship it's a show of respect so you want it

06:45:29.980 it wouldn't be like idolatry and every tongue confess that jesus christ is lord pardon you're

06:45:35.900 not catholic are you mind you can hate my answer brian would you bow to a woman yeah would you uh

06:45:43.020 so generally speaking no but to the perfect woman sure like if the entailment is to get my perfect

06:45:50.540 woman even i as a man would do like this sort of submissive act which would be like somewhat

06:45:56.140 not natural i guess sure you do a machine gun noise sure why not yeah i'll do machine gun noise

06:46:03.580 i'll do a lot for the perfect woman because i realize that uh most of us are not going to get the

06:46:10.140 perfect partner we're going to make have to make a whole bunch of compromises that's sad like maybe

06:46:15.340 women don't realize this but yeah you're going to have to compromise you're not going to get

06:46:18.700 the perfect guy and you can do backwards rationalization of like oh this person i'm with

06:46:24.140 now they're perfect no they're not perfect but my entailment would be the perfect woman

06:46:29.180 has like is uh like a 10 out of 10 perfect in terms of like what i look for face body personality

06:46:36.860 10 out of 10 in terms of what i look for uh she's also like a trillionaire so i'm like you that would

06:46:43.260 be an entailment got you i got you so yeah like okay if i but that's the thing like would would

06:46:52.620 we're talking dream guy would you bow for the perfect guy so this i've already told you i would

06:46:57.740 bow for it well those of you who said no what if we up the ante here what if we up the ante it's your

06:47:03.260 dream guy and he's also a billionaire and by being involved with him you literally have

06:47:09.180 you have thousand year dynasty levels of wealth for yourself for your family uh you never have to

06:47:15.980 work a day in your life again most people who are dating are not going to ever date somebody who's

06:47:20.460 that wealthy uh even if you date like a guy who has a good job good chance most women are going to have

06:47:26.380 to work well that's not the perfect guy for everybody like i don't i don't think materialistically

06:47:30.300 like that well hold on i would say if the guy is perfect in terms of looks and personality and value

06:47:36.540 alignment or whatever and then you add on top of that this little cherry on top and this might even

06:47:44.460 be more than just the cherry on top it could actually be a bulk of the reason why you'd want

06:47:49.180 to date this person they also happen to be like a multi-billionaire that would be like

06:47:55.660 so remarkably huge for your life i i mean i just that would be massive that has nothing to do with

06:48:03.820 what i look for in a man and honestly like that you wouldn't no you wouldn't just to be clear i'm

06:48:10.300 not even kidding that could turn me off of somebody all things being equal like the guy looks the same

06:48:15.500 the guy has the same personality but one dude works at mcdonald's and the other is a billionaire

06:48:21.180 you're telling me you're picking the mcdonald's guy over the billionaire i i mean they're the same same

06:48:27.740 guy except for their i don't like the idea of being with a billionaire at all why i don't know

06:48:32.460 that's not oh are you like a communist or something or am i a communist yeah are you anti-capitalist

06:48:38.700 in some ways are you like eat the rich that's like it's bad to be a billionaire uh i mean in some

06:48:44.140 ways yes in some ways no i don't know oh okay um so why would it be i guess bad to be with a

06:48:50.380 billionaire it's just my personal preference like it's not i'm not saying it's bad to be with a

06:48:54.380 billionaire i'm just saying like i didn't grow up with much money i'm attracted to people who

06:48:58.620 are probably more similar to me like i somebody with who's a billionaire has a totally different

06:49:03.180 perspective on life than i do well how about how about for the sake of the hypothetical the guy grew

06:49:08.700 up in your similar socioeconomic status and then he went on to become a billionaire okay sure okay i mean

06:49:15.820 okay so how about how about that versus a guy who grew up in your socioeconomic status and went on to

06:49:22.060 to be a manager at like a mid-tier restaurant i i mean like you you wouldn't have any preference

06:49:30.300 towards the billionaire i might i've never been in that situation i don't know like just i gotta be

06:49:35.580 honest i have to be honest with you i think it's almost worse if you start from nothing and you become

06:49:40.300 a billionaire and while i respect that i think in order to start from nothing and become a billionaire

06:49:46.620 like what it would take i don't think you can be a good honest moral person and climb up a ladder in

06:49:54.460 that in that amount of time yes in order to become from nothing to a billionaire you have to stop on

06:50:00.060 people you have to be shrewd you have to be not necessarily money don't make you who you are

06:50:07.020 money just but in order however but in order to make money anybody that's rich is willing to do things

06:50:12.860 that people are unwilling to do or incapable of doing how do we get on that topic yeah because

06:50:18.940 because i don't think i think people that are self-made billionaire a lot of the time the character

06:50:24.540 the same characteristics that made them successful in business or made them a billionaire would be

06:50:30.140 characteristics that make them not desirable to be in a relationship with but in the hypothetical i

06:50:37.020 granted perfect personality okay if it was a perfect well that that was what was okay then

06:50:44.460 that was if everything else was perfect and there was no so i don't know he invested in bitcoin when

06:50:51.420 it was worth a dollar now he's a billionaire how about that is that is he evil no i just don't

06:50:59.260 like billions i mean compared to millions are so astronomical that there's in crypto people have

06:51:05.740 made billions of dollars in crypto oh yeah yes i then i just learned well it's logically possible

06:51:12.780 that i didn't i didn't know that we had any crypto billionaires and i'm excuse okay if bitcoin is worth

06:51:18.220 a hundred thousand and it used to be i believe it was worth worth less than one dollar uh what would

06:51:27.180 be the math there you would have had to have had like a thousand bitcoins is my math i'm sorry i'm not

06:51:34.700 a math major here it would be a wait hold on a thousand wait i'm cooked one thousand times a

06:51:44.620 hundred thousand is that a billion is that a billy oh no that's a hundred million okay sorry hold on if

06:51:53.340 you had ten thousand bitcoin if you had ten thousand dollars and you invested in bitcoin when it was worth a

06:52:01.340 dollar that would make you wait a billionaire you'd have a billion dollars so when was it are there

06:52:12.140 individuals that have have done that have achieved that feat that's awesome i didn't know that probably

06:52:17.900 the people that like invented the coins or whatever probably they definitely billionaires even other

06:52:25.420 cryptocurrencies the guy who did who did ethereum he probably i'm pretty sure he's a billionaire uh

06:52:31.980 so i mean but even investors have made maybe it's not billions but a lot of people have become

06:52:37.820 millionaires overnight sorry i shouldn't say overnight but through cryptocurrency a lot of people have

06:52:42.700 definitely definitely become very wealthy from crypto oh yeah i'm not i didn't have to step on

06:52:51.340 anybody or denying that or denying people have been incredibly wealthy i just think billionaire you

06:52:56.300 know is that the the amount of wealth that is a billionaire i think a lot of people very casually throw

06:53:02.380 the term around without realizing just how much that wealth that truly is i mean

06:53:09.660 there's very few billionaires would y'all rather be with a billionaire that's only about his business

06:53:16.380 or a poor man that's all about your feelings

06:53:22.460 huh what was the question would you rather be with a billionaire that's all about his business

06:53:27.420 and just his business or a poor man that's just about your feelings oh i like a poor man i've had enough

06:53:34.700 money i'm fine wait i don't want to quite let you escape though so you wouldn't bow

06:53:39.420 to even the perfect guy can i bow to end this conversation um do you want to give an answer on

06:53:47.180 this i bow to the perfect guy every day can you speak into the mic please um i bow to the perfect

06:53:53.100 guy every day lord and savior uh so okay um so ephesians 5 22 wives be submissive to your own husbands

06:54:05.580 as unto the lord for the husband is the head of the wife just as christ is the head and savior of

06:54:12.700 the church which is his body wait so you wouldn't bow but i can't do porn wait hold on no no no no

06:54:19.900 not letting you fucking do that same thing so if your husband is the head of the household

06:54:26.220 i mean it seems quite clear wives be submissive to your own husbands as unto the lord like the lord

06:54:36.060 okay um so when it comes to me and my future husband um we're probably gonna be doing a lot

06:54:46.300 more fun things than bowing to each other yeah that's not an argument that's not a counter argument

06:54:52.060 bowing sound fun to me yeah me too are you trying to get me to say no i guess my you don't like my

06:55:02.780 answer sir well my issue there's two issues i have here so the there's the secular issue and then the

06:55:09.740 the uh biblical or religious issue so given in for example like are you atheist or agnostic like

06:55:17.500 i grew up christian but i'm not christian you'd consider yourself agnostic then or atheist

06:55:21.420 okay there's no framework for somebody who's atheist or agnostic really to be i mean people

06:55:28.940 can still be submissive if they're atheist or whatever or agnostic but that would be like just

06:55:34.300 a determination just on the purely individual self level but there's biblical prescription that says

06:55:41.740 that women christian women are to be submissive to their husbands yes given their husband is a godly

06:55:49.500 man as also defined in the bible of course it's baked into the fact that you've married him

06:55:54.860 if you've married him you've already probably made a value determination as to if this husband

06:55:59.500 of course he's worthy you married him right and that's why i think motive is important for what

06:56:05.020 what is the purpose of the bow if the if there is a pure and loving motive behind it then that's

06:56:11.420 absolutely permissible if it's some sort of like ego trip or like for personal gain or mockery or

06:56:17.580 then that would not be christ-like okay let's assume the intentions are good but it's a temperature

06:56:23.420 check for some what so i'm gonna change my answer okay um when i get married i'm gonna bow to my

06:56:32.780 husband just for you well now you're just being sarcastic and i don't actually believe that that's

06:56:37.180 your answer okay well the way you were saying it like look i'm it's not i wasn't born yesterday

06:56:44.780 it was clearly there's a sarcastic tone in the way you're presenting i don't know what else to say

06:56:50.140 i already gave the answer and you don't like it well so wait you gave me so no i'm not going to bow

06:56:56.700 to him in the way that you okay good are expecting in the question okay good but i i don't appreciate the

06:57:02.860 let me just lie and say something that's not the truth just i don't know that was i'm not gonna jump

06:57:10.700 through a million hoops sir there's not a million hoops lady okay i don't know you should

06:57:18.620 i just don't understand from just be glad that you're not going to marry me then so like

06:57:22.780 you'll you know i'll spare you all the headaches that's that's great that's not an argument though

06:57:27.900 again you're a christian woman again this just goes back to the thing that we started this

06:57:33.420 conversation off of i'm not a vegetarian i eat hamburgers if i'm encountered with a vegetarian

06:57:41.500 and i see them eating a hamburger i'm gonna be like whoa that's kind of crazy that doesn't make

06:57:47.900 sense why are you a vegetarian and you're eating a hamburger in your case you're a christian okay

06:57:52.620 the bible hold on the bible call calls on wives to be submissive to their husbands as you would onto

06:58:00.940 the lord how you're just it doesn't make any sense to me ephesians 5 22 this is mainstream christian

06:58:11.260 doctrine okay what was your question go ahead in your perspective what does it look like for a woman to

06:58:21.740 submit to her husband please give me a lesson what does it look like he would be i mean it depends

06:58:28.780 if you're asking from a biblical perspective i would say typically she defers to his leadership

06:58:35.260 she defers to his decision making amen okay so in if so if you're dating a guy and he's like hey babe

06:58:45.020 when i get home from work because you know by the way i'm providing for everything here you're a stay-at-home

06:58:49.580 mom your stay-at-home wife whatever whatever uh i would like you when you greet me at the door to

06:58:54.540 give me about um i'll have to ask my christian guy friends that and then get back to you

06:59:04.140 hold on why do you need to ask your christian guy friends when it's literally a bible verse

06:59:09.740 that i've are you you're twisting scripture just like satan does wow that's actually cooked i'm not

06:59:16.380 twisting scripture at all yes you are okay what did i say that do you disagree that it's wives be

06:59:22.780 submissive to your to your husbands as you would i look forward to that i look forward to submitting

06:59:28.460 to my husband in all these ways that you're saying but you're not being submissive if your husband is

06:59:33.500 saying hold on where does it say bow to him in that way where does it say hold on where in the bible

06:59:39.980 does it say anything about like these oh my god is it plausible that there could be a modern

06:59:48.620 component to dating that isn't referenced in the bible where does it i don't know again i'm maybe i

06:59:56.460 could be wrong on this does it say in the bible that men need to get down on one knee to propose

07:00:02.300 maybe you'd prefer that though when a man proposes to you for marriage

07:00:05.340 i i also think and i i heard erica kirk give a really great speech on this submission

07:00:13.900 is something though that is optional and given voluntary it's not demanded from the woman it's

07:00:20.780 something when you are married that you voluntarily you want to serve and you want to give up certain

07:00:27.660 parts of your previous life to serve your husband it's not something that can be

07:00:33.100 demanded of you hold on can so as it relates to men's duties to women that's completely voluntary

07:00:42.780 also so men don't have a duty to protect their wives under a biblical interpretation

07:00:49.420 well if they're being forced to then they're not doing it with all their heart or they'll

07:00:53.420 throw all their mind if like you're just going through the motions because you're like well this

07:00:57.340 is what it says i have to do do then that's not truly living a biblical godly life do christian

07:01:02.700 men have a duty to protect their wives yes but now we've got according according to the scripture

07:01:12.940 however and according to the scripture wives be submissive to your husbands as you would onto the

07:01:20.700 lord absolutely i completely agree but you should not get married to somebody i'm not saying you in

07:01:25.740 particular one should not get married to somebody if they do not want to protect them if they're like

07:01:32.540 oh man i have this obligation now i have to provide for this bitch i really don't want to do it i just

07:01:38.060 now i'm stuck having to do that it's an obligation then you shouldn't marry that person if a wife is

07:01:43.020 saying oh man now i got to submit to this guy you know i had all my freedom before and now i got to

07:01:47.900 do this ship where i never wanted to do it then that's not true submission just like truly protecting

07:01:52.940 somebody yes it's not true protection if you're just doing it because submission is will it is

07:02:00.060 submission is given it is not taken of course but it's interesting that men have duties and women

07:02:07.020 don't go but it's the same thing with protection sure there's the physical element of protection but

07:02:11.660 there's also protection protecting people's emotions protecting okay sorry okay go ahead with your thing

07:02:17.900 um so um jesus he used parables and if you understand it you understand it and if you don't

07:02:25.020 and you don't what i'm gonna say either if you understand it you do if you don't then i there's

07:02:31.340 nothing more i can say but to communicate it in a different way um women were made from the ribs of

07:02:40.220 eve was made from the ribs of adam can i please finish first sir before you judge what i'm gonna say

07:02:46.140 go ahead um so god didn't take any bones from a man's head that he should rule over her like that

07:02:54.700 and god did not take eve from adam's feet that he should stomp over but he took her from his side the

07:03:01.660 place that is closest to his heart if you understand that you do if you don't you don't there's nothing

07:03:07.100 else i can say that's going to convince you otherwise i don't see how that is at all uh at all

07:03:14.860 material to the actual conversation at hand you're talking about the rib uh okay um

07:03:25.740 how does that counter anything about okay let me ask you this more simply should wives be submissive to

07:03:32.700 their husbands under a christian theological perspective

07:03:39.180 are you just trying to have hold me how about you just answer the question yes girl i'm trying

07:03:46.780 to be here all night than you brian i don't know how to speak the way that you do i know i'm just

07:03:51.580 i know i asked you a question so unless you're saying the bible is incorrect ephesians 522 you know

07:03:58.460 that that's not true what's not true that i i believe scripture as it's on the page living and

07:04:04.060 okay wives be so do you think then wives should be submissive to their husbands yes and that's what

07:04:11.660 i look forward to the most about getting married so i can serve my husband and my children i want to

07:04:16.060 submit to him but it would not be but men do men men do have a place where that they can make that

07:04:25.180 submission easier not lorded over their wife hold on man the question was would you bow or not please

07:04:34.460 look a bow is not like i'm not asking you to no i'm not going to bow okay that's fine but a bow is not

07:04:43.500 asking a woman to run a marathon it takes zero effort absolutely no effort and it would be under the

07:04:52.940 purview of submitting to your husband in which case you're refusing to submit to your husband

07:04:59.740 if you can't submit to a man maybe you're just gay

07:05:03.340 girl what

07:05:05.500 so that's my confusion but from just a purely

07:05:12.220 my other confusion here moving off of religion moving off of can you guys not what the

07:05:17.980 are you guys doing i don't know they they handed me this i didn't know what i'm supposed to do with

07:05:22.300 it am i supposed can you guys not be while i'm talking please so the other component here is more

07:05:29.660 from the secular component i just don't understand also this idea of if you could get the dream person

07:05:36.140 you won't do this completely benign arbitrary thing that's my other that's my other thing i would do

07:05:42.140 benign arbitrary things that okay whatever it's like a little weird strange whatever but if that

07:05:47.580 gets me the perfect person like would you rather end up with the imperfect person but you don't have

07:05:56.300 to back like that to me is hard to compute like i don't know if you think you guys are just delusional

07:06:01.660 and you're like you know what i'm so amazing i'm definitely gonna get a 10 out of 10 perfect

07:06:06.860 person all of you whether you like it or not are gonna fucking settle you're gonna settle you're

07:06:12.700 not gonna get the guy who's a who's everything you want i'm saying for the perfect guy that means

07:06:19.740 along all potential metrics looks i don't believe i should settle yeah me but everybody settles

07:06:26.940 this isn't fairyland here when it comes to dating there's no yeah there is reality but i also don't

07:06:32.460 think that you shouldn't not get what you don't well settling just like i'm not gonna get just

07:06:37.340 like i'm not gonna get a 20 year old virgin who's a fucking 10 out of 10 giga model i'm just giving

07:06:43.340 an example just like i'm being realistic i know i'm not gonna get the fucking giga 10 out of 10 model

07:06:50.460 who's like perfect personality and all the other metrics that i like if you did i'm not gonna get the

07:06:55.660 perfect person even if you did she'd have to like you and you'd have to sit you have to rise to her

07:07:02.300 standards too yeah okay settling isn't necessarily a negative thing i believe i believe you have your

07:07:09.100 core values and then with the other things that follow there's compromise and that's where the

07:07:15.180 quote-unquote settling comes and i don't think settling necessarily has to be negative like you said

07:07:20.140 you're going to settle but it's just crazy to me y'all won't even do a totally arbitrary benign

07:07:25.980 thing we've said we will perfect many women here i know you guys have said i'm talking to the women

07:07:31.580 who say i won't do this one thing right but i'm not like i've said i'm not a christian that's not in

07:07:37.660 my sure so i'm not even approaching this wouldn't ask me to do that that's what i'm saying well he

07:07:42.540 i'm not even i'm saying if he did then he's not my dream man i'm saying i can approach this

07:07:47.500 argument from a secular perspective too my criticism for her was i had another angle of attack

07:07:53.500 because it wasn't just wow you won't do this like really simple thing for the perfect guy

07:07:58.380 it's like okay uh you're 31 the perfect guy hasn't manifested yet but it could manifest all you have

07:08:05.500 to do is bow that seems like a really good trade-off there's a fuck ton of things i would do for the

07:08:10.460 perfect woman that trust me is way crazier than the than just a fucking bow and the guy the fact that

07:08:16.620 you guys i don't know if you believe that you're gonna just get the perfect guy and just remain

07:08:21.820 completely unchanged and just do whatever the fuck you want to do if that's just like female

07:08:26.460 entitlement or whatever i just i'm curious what should women do like do women have to do anything

07:08:33.180 absolutely okay what like here's my other confusion with this women will literally let a

07:08:39.100 guy blast on their face on the first date but you won't fucking bow you'll let a guy come inside

07:08:44.540 you you'll let a guy do all kinds of crazy sexual shit with you yeah but would you come and say

07:08:48.700 someone about what's that why are you so mad why are you so mad at us i'm i'm not mad i'm just

07:08:54.140 trying to understand it's not mad i'm just i'm speaking with with uh i don't know what the right word

07:09:00.860 is conviction like women i like when you get mad it's like red like a tomato thank you appreciate

07:09:08.620 it it's like how about this let's move it off from the bow a woman will literally within the the same

07:09:15.020 day she needs a guy will suck and fuck and do all this crazy shit let them blast in her fucking hair

07:09:20.780 you get a fucking hairdo or something for you little fucking whatever skin care and then uh hey

07:09:25.820 get back here for this philosophy get back here um chill out chill out so um how about this a woman

07:09:36.460 won't cook i would never cook for a man okay but you'll let them fucking come inside you on the first

07:09:42.460 fucking date can i ask you that's how like how backwards women are but to me it's crazy that's the

07:09:48.220 paradigm that's crazy that that's the paradigm where it's like oh yes uh come deep

07:09:55.660 and deep into my tonsils it's like no it's fucking crazy these women these women won't clean

07:10:02.540 they won't cook but please deposit the fucking cup all over my body you're crazy

07:10:11.180 because sex is supposed to be transactional and something both parties are enjoying if a woman's

07:10:14.700 enjoying that that's different if a woman doesn't enjoy cooking and cleaning she that's totally different

07:10:18.300 you're just making false comparisons right now well i do still think it's it's totally fair comparison

07:10:22.860 totally fair comparison well this idea that oh no i won't do this total like i won't do this but

07:10:29.100 you'll do that but it's about what it represents if you don't want to submit like that because

07:10:32.700 whatever you're not a christian you don't believe in that then it's not just anybody the hypothetical

07:10:37.260 is for the perfect man no and if that's like it's it's not about you're not doing anything like

07:10:44.700 you're just making this up no it's it's a hypothetical question yes but if that's how the man is going to

07:10:49.580 feel honored and that's the person that you want for you that meets your needs and that's how he

07:10:54.220 feels honored and i'll say this who here just show of hands who here wants a guy to pay for the first

07:10:59.260 date should a guy pay for the first date do you think a guy should pay for the first date no

07:11:07.580 oh okay well i don't necessarily think he should obviously i want him to because i don't want to pay

07:11:11.500 for it but oh well that's convenient um have you been on dates yeah has a guy paid for the dates

07:11:17.820 did you insist being the feminist that you are that you should uh go 50 50 no you didn't insist

07:11:23.580 on going 50 50 no that's very feminist of you this is exactly what i talk about feminism not

07:11:29.340 being about equality it's about securing privileges for women no you gotta be honest though yeah because

07:11:36.860 you can't say one thing and then say another it's just sound like you all over the place

07:11:40.860 y'all feminist until the check comes you see even feminist liberal women like yourself and i'm not

07:11:45.980 not trying to knock you for that you still desire and feminism you would agree encompasses more than

07:11:51.420 just like rights and laws and stuff it also relates to like traditional gender roles and through feminism

07:11:56.300 women have rejected traditional gender roles with a caveat but they still want and desire men to adhere

07:12:04.780 to their traditional gender roles so women want you want a guy to pay for first dates you want chivalry

07:12:10.780 you want all these things you want men to take initiative these are all masculine traditional

07:12:15.420 gender role things you don't see like feminist women really engaging but it's not normal here

07:12:20.780 for a man to pay for the first but i also think that oftentimes men want to pay on the first date

07:12:24.940 because they have their own gender roles too like but wouldn't wouldn't it entail i agree with that

07:12:31.740 too if i i've never asked somebody out if i asked somebody out i would pay that's exactly it that's

07:12:35.660 exactly what i'm talking about here women say well you know what my egalitarian position is that

07:12:40.860 whoever asks should pay conveniently ignores the fact that the facto men are the ones due to

07:12:48.220 traditional gender roles are the ones who are paying for dates and women refuse to do any sort

07:12:55.100 of initiative or do anything to build early on in a relationship that's not true it's absolutely true

07:13:01.500 when i met my partner we went on hikes we had multiple encounters that were not sexual that

07:13:07.100 were purely conversational that i pursued you're you're on pluto right now that's not what i'm

07:13:12.860 talking about at all hold on who asked for the first date i did i approached him you approached him

07:13:19.900 okay and then you get you asked for the number and then you planned the date and you paid for the

07:13:24.060 dates uh we went hiking our first okay great has is has that been uh the norm for you for all the

07:13:29.580 other men you've dated uh that we'd have some sort of hiking or coffee date or something that's

07:13:35.820 not the venue just like who was the initiator uh mostly me in every relationship i've been in uh

07:13:41.660 hold on uh you're you smuggled in every relationship you've been been in how about

07:13:47.660 the men who you've asked out you've been on dates with who you didn't end up in a relationship

07:13:51.820 i don't do that because i won't go on a date with somebody unless i know i'm interested enough

07:13:56.300 about them i've talked to them enough you're there's this there's because it's awkward i think

07:14:00.860 it's awkward to have a two a three hour dinner with somebody that you're not vibing with that

07:14:05.420 so you're saying every single guy you've dated you always made them you made the move yes or

07:14:09.580 you think you made the move yes so none of the men you've dated they asked you out no you and then

07:14:15.180 you you texted them you set up the date really yes i don't know this is kind of look some women move

07:14:21.980 like this where i call them snipers where women are like they know exactly what they want because

07:14:27.340 i i'm gonna fucking snipe i will admit i'm extremely so okay great extremely you are the outlier most

07:14:33.660 women don't move like that most women are passive when it comes to dating they wait for the guy to make

07:14:39.100 the move how many days i have no idea ten first dates sure okay you said you've never asked a guy out

07:14:49.260 right or you've never excuse me you've never paid for the date is that correct no no you said that's

07:14:53.580 not true no i have paid for dates 100 i have okay no you said you've never asked a guy out you did

07:14:59.420 say that explicitly no okay you look in his direction for half a millisecond no i mean like i've

07:15:06.380 initiated hangouts with guys but i've never been like will you go out on a date with me

07:15:11.260 well i get that women who have boyfriends will be like hey babe you want to hang out and you've

07:15:15.100 been together for three months okay like asking like making up approaching whether that's online

07:15:22.060 whether it's in person walking up to the person whatever uh women can do this but overwhelmingly

07:15:28.140 they don't women are not initiators like that they can i am okay but you'll be like this one time i

07:15:35.820 asked this guy out generally speaking i want to say 97 of the time women don't initiate

07:15:45.100 yeah i can get it i'm off women are afraid of rejection so yeah you definitely not gonna see

07:15:52.460 a woman going after somebody she wants more than you see a man well and i think that's a mistake

07:15:57.100 though because i think us as women we are particular right if you ask a guy what he wants he nice girl

07:16:02.860 she's you know pretty you know not a freaking psycho we do we have a long laundry list of things that

07:16:08.940 we expect from a partner right so when you have a conversation with somebody or you you find

07:16:15.580 somebody's attractive and you're selective why would you not go make the first move and maybe you have

07:16:20.220 a conversation with them and you don't need to because women have such an abundance of options

07:16:25.980 that will come to you it's like why bought like for example for me yeah but it's quantity it's not

07:16:31.020 quality if well sure you obviously women have to do vetting and like most guys who hit on you

07:16:37.340 you're probably not even feeling it but if you have such an amount so such a quantity of men

07:16:43.900 that are approaching you you you'll never find the need to have to do it like for example famous dudes

07:16:51.980 women are fucking throwing themselves at these guys they don't need to like hit the bars and like

07:16:56.940 no they don't need to do that women will come to them but that's yes like the average woman

07:17:02.860 basically gets the like

07:17:07.820 that's what i think i think the higher quality guys the higher quality guys are they don't

07:17:14.540 approach women because they're so used to women approaching them they don't need to approach women

07:17:18.300 yeah that's like one percent of dudes whereas like exactly average women i've only dated one

07:17:23.100 percent of dudes because i know what i want i have a vision okay and i'm gonna say if this is

07:17:26.620 what i want then i have to go for it you're a sniper i get that most women though don't move

07:17:32.060 that way most women the guys come to them point blank period speaking generally women aren't

07:17:37.980 asking for first dates they're not approaching they're not doing any of this stuff so again this

07:17:42.060 idea that well men whoever i should pay again conveniently look that would be a fair statement

07:17:48.220 to say if it was about 50 50 if men and women asked each other out at equivalent rates hey heck even if

07:17:55.660 it was 60 40 like men asked women out 60 of the time women did i would be like all right whatever

07:18:01.580 then it's pretty much fair close to fair whatever but it's like 97 three oh i completely agree with

07:18:09.500 you it's it's not proportional but if you look at the statistics regarding relationships where the

07:18:14.540 woman approached the men those relationships are more likely to end up in a long-term relationship or

07:18:20.140 marriage no dispute there and but i so i'm i'm not disagreeing with you i'm saying like as a woman

07:18:26.460 two other women like we have it wrong like we have all these we are so picky we have all these

07:18:34.220 criteria we should be approaching men because that is how you go get what you want okay totally agree

07:18:40.620 but it's true it's a little unrelated to the pointed hand here so you got show of hands who

07:18:47.900 wants men to pay for first dates show of hands raise them high raise them high men should pay for

07:18:52.940 first date want to or should should uh like as an expectation or you would prefer it you want it or

07:18:59.900 you expect it they're kind of intertwined i would say how about this should men open car doors oh for

07:19:06.620 sure for sure do you not do that here i don't care you don't care should men open car doors open car

07:19:12.620 doors i should never touch a door handle around never touch it should a man open the car you know

07:19:16.460 i never expected it but i never had to ask with my do they does your boyfriend do it uh yeah every

07:19:21.660 time okay what about you over there i call shotgun oh my god into the mic please i said i don't know

07:19:29.180 shotgun okay should a man open your the car door so like should he walk around and open it for you

07:19:36.620 what the fuck is that gonna make you sit in the back oh my god it's not an uber okay you call

07:19:41.740 shotgun in a super masculine way which men will definitely love uh should he open the car door for

07:19:47.420 you he wants to should should he no so you you're fine if he just he doesn't yeah bro talking to the

07:19:57.340 mic i just said it pardon me no i would not mind okay is there anything men should do like what about

07:20:05.420 observing the sidewalk rule so they walk closer to the the street or where the cars are coming

07:20:10.940 yeah for sure they should walking along the street is there anything men should do that you can say

07:20:14.780 should men open doors is there anything men should do

07:20:24.700 i don't i need a more thorough uh explanation for that can you rephrase the question the there's

07:20:33.020 there's a sort of traditional gender expectation or dynamics under under chivalry where men will open a

07:20:40.620 woman's car door letter letter letter into the car door then get in the car men will open doors for

07:20:46.940 women uh and also if you're walking along a street the sidewalk rule men walk closer to where the cars

07:20:53.740 are conceivably like as a form of protection or whatever from the dangers of the road so there's

07:21:01.340 the three examples should men do that no

07:21:04.220 okay is there anything men should do should men pay for dates all i would ask for a man was

07:21:15.420 if he's a gentleman then everything else falls into place if he's okay so when you say gentleman

07:21:21.100 though what is an example of aside from treating you nice and respectfully what are some actual

07:21:27.420 examples of actions one would take that would fall in line with a gentlemanly treatment

07:21:32.140 i think it'd be cute if he did things to surprise me that aren't traditional um because when i if i

07:21:41.420 was involved with a man i would want us to have all of our inside jokes and ways that we do things and

07:21:46.940 our little quirks and everything um but i no i wouldn't expect him to do all of those things that

07:21:53.580 you just mentioned i mean yeah it'd be cute if he wants to but i'm not gonna hold it i'm not gonna

07:21:58.620 love him any less do you want the guy who's a protector who doesn't okay well that's a traditional

07:22:04.140 gender role um i mean but i also i also would want to protect him as well and not in the way that you

07:22:12.700 might think okay um i would want to honor him and love him and serve him submit to him um bring him

07:22:22.620 joy and gladness and make his life a lot better you won't bow you won't do the bow uh is there

07:22:29.660 anything will you cook for him of course will you clean of course i don't know that's my confusion

07:22:36.460 here you'll cook you'll clean but won't bow and okay that sounds fun and cute um okay um

07:22:46.060 will you take going around the table uh will you take your who here wants to get married first off

07:22:52.620 do you want to get married one day okay will you take your husband's last name i don't know i've

07:22:57.580 thought about it i haven't come to a conclusion i've thought about it a lot because i have a long

07:23:01.260 last name yeah yes proudly yes yes i will one day when he is not currently in the line of work he's in

07:23:09.340 when you get married though so we're not asking okay i'm not asking you about if you will get

07:23:19.020 married this the question right you do want to get married right i'm not saying that i'm not married i

07:23:23.580 have a partner because we don't disclose personal things of our relationship publicly because of his

07:23:28.940 job okay hypothetically speaking whether you're married or you're not married would it be to your

07:23:34.540 liking to take your hypothetical husband's last name yes one day oh boy i can't believe i have to

07:23:41.180 do these like ridiculous explanations okay what about you i would wear it as a badge of honor

07:23:49.740 so you would take your husband's last name yes okay final question for you you called me satan

07:23:54.700 was that just like a joke didn't she call me where was i no no no no that's almost correct what did you

07:24:01.820 you call me the devil i don't know no no no i would no no chat didn't she call me satan

07:24:07.020 ryan i said that you're twisting scriptures the way that satan says twist scriptures i'm not saying

07:24:11.580 that you are satan obviously you're not oh okay so you i was doing something like satan yes okay

07:24:18.700 that's crazy okay you should dress up as satan in halloween costume halloween you should be like

07:24:26.460 sexy i'm not sure how i was twisting scripture but anyways we're i'm not gonna i'm not gonna

07:24:30.780 debate you on that have you read the bible cover to cover how would that matter i've read most of

07:24:36.380 it yes i have what the book i haven't what how does that help with your point

07:24:46.300 have you read the quran no these questions are out of nowhere oh boy okay guys 30 tts we're gonna do

07:24:55.420 the rough session then we're gonna hopefully get this uh wrapped up here momentarily oh

07:25:00.540 shit i closed the thing uh letting some of these come through we have oh boy

07:25:10.860 oh based thor donated thirty dollars question for the that's a crazy question brian that's crazy

07:25:17.260 transgender son or three hundred and four cornstar daughter you have to pick one and reasoning why

07:25:24.460 bro wait we're not gonna do reasoning it's that's gonna take too long it's the rough session

07:25:29.180 which do you pick um i guess i'd go transgender son can you go both i'd have both you gotta pick one

07:25:38.300 gotta pick one um probably porn star door i don't care okay

07:25:46.140 hell um guys please just go quick go quick

07:25:52.620 a transgender son transgender son porn star daughter porn star daughter that's not up to me

07:26:01.020 oh my god let's just keep it moving please all right uh chloe

07:26:09.900 uh trans son i guess

07:26:13.820 it's a hard one it's fucking hard a daughter is going to end up being a little

07:26:17.820 slut anyway whether she's doing it on camera so i'd rather have that then you think girls are just

07:26:22.540 inevitably gonna be what did you say i think a girl is going to inevitably have sex so whether it

07:26:27.340 be on camera or not then i'll just go ahead then a transgender son i'll go with the the the the

07:26:33.660 daughter who's a hoe because i can because you love like once they've transitioned like

07:26:41.420 you've made perma changes that you can't walk back same so in this case like yeah she was a hoe

07:26:49.100 but she can be no she is oh she was not oh perma she is why in my brain i'm like maybe they can change

07:27:00.060 like you can detransition you could not be a hoe anymore you oh but just like permanently

07:27:07.100 or you could teach her how to hold correctly that's a good one day store

07:27:11.900 okay that's the case all right we have some roasts coming in chef dill pickles donated thirty dollars

07:27:18.540 oh no way no it doesn't do you that's great thank you no you look beautiful it's okay i'll take it

07:27:25.420 it i forgot it doesn't do you justice ain't it that big guy that be jumping on stuff chef dill pickles

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07:27:49.020 around the table what are the five mother's sources i have no idea what that is i don't know what is

07:27:54.380 that ketchup mustard mayo all that come what the oh my god bro that's disgusting

07:28:03.020 thank god bro dgen chris bennett donated 30 dollars

07:28:19.260 what the fuck y'all crazy

07:28:23.660 that's my favorite

07:28:24.700 y'all crazy

07:28:25.340 Hey, be nice.

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07:29:41.400 Hold on one sec, guys.

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07:30:00.540 Thray Slippy donated $30.

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07:30:05.020 You and team run a good show.

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07:30:15.520 Grant donated $29.99.

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07:30:24.960 Rip my ears from the word salad, RN.

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07:30:30.560 Leah donated $30.

07:30:32.760 For the perfect man, I let him put a damn chum bucket bucket over my head and chant all hail

07:30:38.140 husbands named TF.

07:30:39.620 Where's Andrew?

07:30:40.400 I miss the cutie patootie.

07:30:42.100 I would do, for the perfect woman, I would do some crazy shit.

07:30:49.660 Like what?

07:30:50.600 Oh, God.

07:30:52.260 Would you do the machine gun?

07:30:53.160 I mean, I could give you the...

07:30:54.080 Would you toss a salad?

07:30:57.100 Do the dishes.

07:30:59.080 A salad?

07:31:00.400 Her salad.

07:31:01.080 Ah, fuck.

07:31:04.100 I mean, I definitely don't want to do that, but like...

07:31:07.040 Let's not debate about it, but...

07:31:08.920 Would you bow for her?

07:31:11.140 Yes, he said he would, yes.

07:31:12.460 Uh, okay.

07:31:13.400 Anyways, let's see.

07:31:17.280 Your XD donated $30.

07:31:20.320 The idea of a virtuous duty is a sense of universality.

07:31:24.380 You don't pick and choose them, or choose when to follow them.

07:31:27.640 If the request doesn't violate reason or God's laws, it would fit the paradigm.

07:31:33.940 Yeah, also to be clear, when it comes to being submissive, if your husband or boyfriend

07:31:39.360 or whatever says, I want you to jump off a bridge, you can rightfully say no.

07:31:46.200 That's not under the metrics of what would be like an expectation under a woman being submissive.

07:31:54.520 Or, like, hurt-harm yourself physically.

07:31:59.180 But a bow?

07:32:00.380 Yeah, that's...

07:32:01.280 Yeah, that's fine.

07:32:02.640 Uh, okay, we have...

07:32:03.780 Wait, let me read this one.

07:32:05.260 Oh, he's coming in hot.

07:32:06.560 Yo mama a bitch.

07:32:36.320 I agree.

07:32:37.000 That's why I'm getting them removed.

07:32:37.900 Marriage is outdated, donated $30.

07:32:39.500 Thank you.

07:32:40.180 Pounds.

07:32:40.500 I will never bow.

07:32:41.480 My ego is too big.

07:32:43.780 I have been taught I am more important than unborn babies and can abort them.

07:32:48.340 Why should I bow for a man?

07:32:50.920 You're gay.

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07:32:54.160 Hey, Brian, good work tonight as always.

07:32:57.540 Would it be possible to one day get Nick on the show?

07:32:59.440 Oh, shit.

07:33:00.140 Nick, you down?

07:33:01.160 All night in chat.

07:33:02.540 I certainly hope this isn't considered simping.

07:33:05.700 You gotta pay the simp tax.

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07:33:09.460 What can the patriarchy do for you today?

07:33:12.460 Getting stabbed on the subway?

07:33:14.800 We can fix that.

07:33:16.440 One condition.

07:33:17.600 Let go of the fucking reins.

07:33:19.300 We can take away what you asked for, but we won't until you ask.

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07:33:28.520 Brian did not twist scripture.

07:33:30.960 The woman is supposed to submit to the man.

07:33:33.580 You dumb hoes missed the point because you don't understand self-sacrificing love.

07:33:38.140 You're only concerned about your own vision.

07:33:40.640 Are you self-sacrificing?

07:33:42.200 Yeah, wait.

07:33:42.620 How exactly did I twist scripture?

07:33:44.180 No, I read it from the Google.

07:33:49.500 I don't want to get back.

07:33:50.520 Well, I'm asking you.

07:33:52.900 I'm not going to argue with you, Brian.

07:33:57.040 So did I or did I not twist scripture?

07:34:01.460 It's a pretty crazy claim to make.

07:34:04.600 Yes.

07:34:08.360 But I don't understand.

07:34:09.500 I read it pretty much verbatim.

07:34:11.980 How did I twist it?

07:34:12.940 It just seems like you don't understand, like, anything that I ever try to say.

07:34:17.660 Like, every time I say something that is different to you, it's like I've, um, I'm a whatever those, whatever those people call me.

07:34:27.920 Well, even if that was true, even if I didn't understand anything you said, how would that be evidence of me twisting scripture?

07:34:36.120 I don't expect you to understand.

07:34:37.880 But even if I didn't understand anything that you said, that wouldn't be...

07:34:43.600 It's something that's spiritually discerned.

07:34:46.020 Spiritually discerned.

07:34:47.600 Yes, just like ray mint.

07:34:50.300 Yeah, but how would that be twisting scripture?

07:34:51.880 Scripture.

07:34:52.380 All right.

07:35:01.640 Nice.

07:35:04.180 Okay.

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07:35:28.460 Y'all crazy.

07:35:28.920 I love that.

07:35:29.160 I was never that cool.

07:35:29.440 You know, one thing about the men that comment in these, uh, group chats is that they expect to be, like, what, yearned by a woman?

07:35:37.360 But y'all talk to women like that?

07:35:38.760 So, I think that y'all are taking the wrong turn.

07:35:42.100 You know, if you're not finding somebody that you like or that likes you, maybe be likable.

07:35:47.640 Y'all are nerds with no pussy.

07:35:51.220 Like, get a life.

07:35:51.820 True that.

07:35:53.720 Oh, so I'm not the only one that does only fun stuff.

07:35:56.100 Fuck yourself, girl.

07:35:57.180 There's nothing you can take it personally.

07:35:58.800 Like, I'm literally...

07:35:59.440 Oh, no, I'm not taking it personal, but I am going to talk my shit.

07:36:02.140 Big Lachina Hips donated $30.

07:36:04.780 Come on.

07:36:05.120 Chess, Evan won't bow cause she physically can't with that fupa in the way.

07:36:10.960 Girl, that's not right.

07:36:13.160 I agree.

07:36:13.740 Yes, I'm overweight.

07:36:17.160 White underscore t-shirt underscore no underscore brown.

07:36:20.520 It's the roast session.

07:36:21.440 You guys are going to get roasted.

07:36:22.420 Thank you for the $30.

07:36:24.020 You call me fat.

07:36:31.020 Show your face.

07:36:32.160 Desert George donated $30.

07:36:33.920 Hashtag free Nick.

07:36:39.060 Hashtag free Nick.

07:36:40.900 Nick, you going to come on stream or...

07:36:43.020 Nick, come on.

07:36:43.700 Not tonight, I guess.

07:36:44.820 He doesn't want to.

07:36:46.560 He doesn't want to.

07:36:51.980 Your XD donated $30.

07:36:54.760 All right, Simp Tax Finnick.

07:36:57.000 Isn't Brian simply interpreting scripture in the same way you are?

07:37:02.140 Did you get this position from a church father, or are you using sola scriptura?

07:37:07.400 That's not orthodox.

07:37:11.720 That was for you.

07:37:13.100 I do lean toward Reformed Baptist, but not any one denomination has everything completely

07:37:20.800 correct.

07:37:23.700 And it's not about knowing.

07:37:27.800 It's important to know scripture, but to know the God of who wrote the scripture.

07:37:32.920 This chick is off camera more than she's on camera.

07:37:39.060 Y'all can't even show y'all draws, because all y'all dirty...

07:37:41.800 I got back problems.

07:37:42.880 I got back problems.

07:37:43.540 All y'all do, sit in front of a computer all day.

07:37:46.140 Shit, I mean, this show wouldn't go so long if people just answered fucking questions.

07:37:49.820 Oh, I'm a rose bag.

07:37:50.740 Okay, a few more things we had to go over.

07:37:53.940 Some of the pre-show notes, and then that's pretty much it.

07:37:55.940 Okay, going through your notes that you provided before the show via DM, you said it's 30M

07:38:03.240 is the size.

07:38:04.900 In UK sizes, yeah.

07:38:06.060 30R in...

07:38:08.280 Like 28R.

07:38:09.480 I need to get custom bras.

07:38:10.840 R.

07:38:11.140 Yeah, I do.

07:38:12.120 That's like...

07:38:12.920 That's crazy.

07:38:13.520 And they're still growing.

07:38:14.220 Is there a Z?

07:38:15.300 Can you have a Z size?

07:38:16.580 Probably in like five years, yeah.

07:38:18.460 Yeah, well, because I have a condition, so they just continuously grow, so they're just

07:38:22.660 going to keep getting bigger.

07:38:23.020 Tell us the KFC man story.

07:38:24.500 No!

07:38:26.520 You wrote it.

07:38:27.380 Give us the short version if you can.

07:38:29.260 Oh, okay, okay.

07:38:30.180 Like rapid fire bullet points.

07:38:31.700 Okay, after my relationship with my man for nine years, I thought I would be like a little

07:38:35.940 slap.

07:38:37.060 So I met up with someone off Tinder, and they came to my house, shit, and my toilet, my guest

07:38:43.200 bathroom.

07:38:43.540 Um, and then they went, we were meant to go on a date, but they took me to KFC after

07:38:49.840 I said I was vegan, ate a bargain bucket in front of me, and then we went and had sex,

07:38:55.980 and straight away he ate my ass.

07:38:58.500 No preparation.

07:39:01.420 So dumb.

07:39:01.920 Except that you still fucked after he shat you into it.

07:39:04.540 All right.

07:39:04.840 I know.

07:39:05.300 You know what?

07:39:05.480 That's where it went more live.

07:39:06.960 I was trying to be a hoe.

07:39:07.920 I was trying to be a hoe, but I'm not.

07:39:12.920 I can't do it.

07:39:13.800 It was really hard, though.

07:39:14.520 Honestly, I would prefer if the order was reversed.

07:39:16.540 Oh, wait.

07:39:16.780 Tell us the rest, though.

07:39:18.000 Tell us the rest.

07:39:18.500 With chicken breath on your ass.

07:39:19.580 Tell us the rest.

07:39:20.540 What?

07:39:21.440 They ate my ass?

07:39:22.920 I said that.

07:39:24.220 What about the undergarments?

07:39:28.800 Ew.

07:39:29.500 I don't want to.

07:39:30.380 It's not bad.

07:39:31.100 It's not.

07:39:31.440 It's funny.

07:39:32.000 No, he left wearing my punnies.

07:39:35.020 He stole them.

07:39:36.020 He did.

07:39:36.520 He stole her underwear.

07:39:37.420 I don't want to out.

07:39:38.260 It's so bad.

07:39:39.280 But he did.

07:39:39.760 He did.

07:39:40.380 He left wearing them.

07:39:41.660 And then that's when I decided that I don't do my one night stands.

07:39:46.220 When did he put it on?

07:39:47.260 Did he slip it on after?

07:39:48.760 Did he steal it and go to the bathroom?

07:39:50.300 He brought an overnight bag.

07:39:50.360 He shit his own pants.

07:39:52.100 Yeah.

07:39:52.680 Yeah, probably.

07:39:53.520 How did he end up in your underwear?

07:39:54.840 Yeah.

07:39:55.400 He brought an overnight bag, and he was like, maybe I should stay over it.

07:39:58.280 And I was like, maybe not.

07:40:00.240 That's honestly not the worst part of the story.

07:40:02.420 It's not.

07:40:03.280 They eat in the ass without preparation.

07:40:05.120 And it's beyond cost.

07:40:06.120 I think it's shown in the pilot.

07:40:06.840 Because he went bend over.

07:40:08.080 I was like, okay, some doggy.

07:40:09.500 No.

07:40:10.280 Man ate my ass.

07:40:11.420 No prep.

07:40:12.880 Wow.

07:40:13.340 Upsnit.

07:40:13.800 That is an interesting story there.

07:40:15.800 Yeah, it was really sad.

07:40:16.760 That's crazy.

07:40:17.320 Now I'm a devote Christian.

07:40:20.580 No ass.

07:40:21.440 No butt stuff.

07:40:22.900 Okay.

07:40:23.360 We have Brittany here.

07:40:28.540 Forgiveness after infidelity.

07:40:30.200 Did you cheat on somebody?

07:40:31.520 Wait.

07:40:31.940 Hold on.

07:40:32.200 Oh, my God.

07:40:32.580 Brittany.

07:40:32.860 I haven't started speaking yet.

07:40:36.160 I know I haven't started speaking yet.

07:40:38.100 Put your mic.

07:40:39.000 Just put your mic where it should be, please.

07:40:41.240 Is that, I mean, once I start speaking, it's going to be right here in front of my face.

07:40:45.060 I love it.

07:40:45.360 I love it.

07:40:47.640 You said you dated.

07:40:48.960 So did you cheat on somebody?

07:40:50.220 No, I didn't do the cheating.

07:40:51.160 Oh, they cheated on you, but you forgave them.

07:40:53.280 And it's, yeah.

07:40:54.120 That was just.

07:40:54.600 Love it.

07:40:55.000 Sorry.

07:40:55.220 I'm going to blast through these super quick.

07:40:56.860 Just for the sake of time.

07:40:58.160 You said you dated.

07:41:00.780 Now you're.

07:41:01.840 No, I'm just refreshing myself.

07:41:04.220 Don't mind me.

07:41:05.160 Okay.

07:41:07.500 Dating someone in the limelight.

07:41:09.420 So you dated a celebrity or something?

07:41:11.400 A musician.

07:41:12.120 Yeah.

07:41:12.880 Definitely.

07:41:13.360 Drake?

07:41:14.180 No.

07:41:15.420 It was definitely an interesting experience.

07:41:17.140 Can you say who?

07:41:18.160 Nope.

07:41:18.320 Can you say what genre of music?

07:41:20.640 Rapper?

07:41:21.600 No.

07:41:22.800 No, no, no.

07:41:23.720 Yes?

07:41:24.340 Not a rapper.

07:41:25.260 No.

07:41:25.500 Oh.

07:41:25.940 No, not a rapper.

07:41:26.980 Rockstar?

07:41:27.900 More so, yes.

07:41:29.620 And it was definitely.

07:41:30.420 Weird Al?

07:41:30.900 Did you fuck Weird Al Yankovic?

07:41:32.380 You seem like you would be DTF for Weird Al.

07:41:35.120 Just to add something crazy to my resume.

07:41:39.120 Yes.

07:41:39.220 It was like, I did this.

07:41:40.240 I took it back to the late 90s and early 2000s.

07:41:43.360 Is it true, though?

07:41:44.140 Was it Weird Al?

07:41:45.560 Somebody DMed me.

07:41:46.620 No, I'm just kidding.

07:41:47.380 That is hilarious.

07:41:49.160 And it was, like I said, it was just definitely a learning experience.

07:41:51.840 And, yeah, that's it.

07:41:55.260 All right.

07:41:55.880 I'm going to leave it there.

07:41:57.100 We won't be able to hit all your notes, but.

07:42:00.300 I gave options.

07:42:01.720 Yeah.

07:42:03.340 Let's see.

07:42:06.240 Can you, wait.

07:42:09.780 Like I said, I gave you all options.

07:42:11.200 Does dating a creative genius come with emotional highs and lows that not everyone can handle?

07:42:18.820 Oh, 1,000.

07:42:19.600 He was a creative genius?

07:42:21.000 Oh, the most musically talented human being I have ever.

07:42:26.360 And he was famous?

07:42:28.280 That I've ever met in my entire life.

07:42:30.660 Pardon?

07:42:31.080 Band or solo act?

07:42:32.240 Solo.

07:42:33.420 Dave Matthews?

07:42:34.740 I will, I'm not going to say.

07:42:36.640 Okay.

07:42:36.820 Um, but it definitely came with learning that these people definitely have a neurodivergent.

07:42:44.640 No way.

07:42:45.660 Oh, 1,000%.

07:42:47.040 I would have never guessed.

07:42:48.600 And it started putting me, like, in this very weird place of, like, not walking on eggshells,

07:42:55.060 but I had to teach myself to be prepared for the great moment and then the extreme drops.

07:43:02.000 Extreme drops.

07:43:02.880 Oh, yeah.

07:43:03.360 Big time.

07:43:03.760 Uh, you said that, uh, hold on one sec.

07:43:09.480 Uh, you said despite your line of work or past work, you still have traditional values.

07:43:18.800 I feel like step one, though, to being traditional is, like, not being a sex worker, you know?

07:43:24.300 Well, no.

07:43:24.660 That's kind of a big one.

07:43:25.720 No, I agree 100%.

07:43:27.060 While I was in a relationship, that was, it was not going on.

07:43:31.540 And after the breakup, then I decided to fully go back to work full time.

07:43:36.040 I was like, okay, playboy, here I come.

07:43:37.940 But as far as everything else, when it comes to raising a family, being submissive to my

07:43:43.180 husband, um, traditional gender roles is what we talked about earlier.

07:43:47.020 Um, then, you know, before you even commit to anybody, covering what, you know, picking

07:43:53.400 at least three core values and making sure that your values align.

07:43:57.040 So when it comes to those, absolutely.

07:43:59.320 I believe that, you know, those are first in line.

07:44:03.480 But if I'm with somebody, I think it's really no judgment to anybody, but anybody who's

07:44:09.120 in that line of work and they have a husband or boyfriend who's okay with them doing that.

07:44:13.620 Okay.

07:44:14.820 Uh, I don't know.

07:44:15.800 Just, I feel like, like a woman could say that she cooks and she cleans and she's submissive,

07:44:21.760 but I feel like there's a, maybe, I don't know if bottleneck is the right way.

07:44:28.540 I feel like if you're a sex worker, it's like, yeah, but then you're not traditional.

07:44:32.460 No, and that makes a hundred percent sense, you know, and I respect everyone's point of

07:44:36.480 view.

07:44:36.780 Moving to you, we hit some of your notes.

07:44:40.460 We talked about gender roles excessively.

07:44:42.380 So we did that.

07:44:43.460 You, you do say you're not a feminist, but you're not a hundred percent traditional either.

07:44:47.460 Really quick.

07:44:48.240 What, what are the ways in which you don't fall under traditional?

07:44:52.080 Well, I mean, I work, I have a full-time career.

07:44:55.300 I make more money than my partner does.

07:44:57.440 What about the dynamics in a relationship?

07:44:58.600 Are you not traditional in certain ways there aside from just working?

07:45:02.460 Um, I mean, like I contribute, I don't expect him to pay for my personal expenses.

07:45:08.020 Okay.

07:45:08.420 So you're kind of 50, 50 financially.

07:45:11.240 Yeah.

07:45:11.640 I mean, I would say like our house, he owned that before, you know, we met.

07:45:16.480 So that kind of stuff is still his domain, but the only other thing for you that we didn't

07:45:21.460 hit on was maybe we did just a teeny bit, uh, different opinions about plastic surgery.

07:45:26.520 I kind of gave my position.

07:45:28.000 Yeah.

07:45:28.380 I was, I was just saying, I think a lot of times it's like women doing it for themselves

07:45:32.460 rather than for the male gaze.

07:45:34.480 And I also, I think it's completely understandable that you have your own personal aesthetic preferences.

07:45:40.800 I disagree with the notion though, that women that pursue plastic surgery are fake because

07:45:47.320 I think a lot of times they're actually being more real in a world where the culture is

07:45:52.560 delusional and right.

07:45:54.200 I'm a 10, you're a 10, he, she, it is a 10.

07:45:57.000 Uh, I think a lot of times when people pursue plastic surgery, it's because they're looking

07:46:00.940 in the mirror and saying, I am not at my peak physical attraction and I could try to change

07:46:08.380 the entire narrative of, you know, society thinks this and that, or I can admit that I'm

07:46:15.200 just not as attractive as some other people are and I can do something to change that.

07:46:20.020 So I think sometimes the rationale is not necessarily that of being fake.

07:46:24.260 I think it's being incredibly honest and being incredibly real with yourself, which I think

07:46:30.680 has become a lost concept in today's culture.

07:46:34.580 But I guess my counter to that would be if you just stopped.

07:46:39.060 So you, you say you made this realization that there's this thing about me that I don't

07:46:44.320 like, whether it's, you know, you have a small upper lip or I'm not speaking about you specifically,

07:46:48.940 just in general.

07:46:50.040 Uh, my breasts aren't the right size, the size that I'd like them to be.

07:46:53.140 They're too small.

07:46:54.580 Um, I, my face, I need to, the Botox, whatever.

07:46:58.620 I don't know if it's wrinkles or why women do that, but, uh, or I want my face to be shaped

07:47:03.180 in this certain way.

07:47:04.800 Um, why can't it, in terms of it being real, that first step that you mentioned of acknowledging

07:47:13.080 that that's the real part.

07:47:15.540 But then when you go into, I'm going to use artificial means to change my physical appearance,

07:47:23.440 then we are getting into, I mean, it's in the term of the surgery, plastic surgery, it's

07:47:29.520 plastic.

07:47:29.980 It's in, it's not real.

07:47:31.120 It's not genuine.

07:47:32.380 Well, I think most people that have plastic surgery acknowledge that there, they are recognizing

07:47:37.580 that, oh, this is not my, you know, I didn't do anything to deserve this or earn this or

07:47:43.360 am blessed with this.

07:47:44.660 I have a problem that I don't like and I'm going to pay to fix it.

07:47:48.780 And I mean, that's just how the world works.

07:47:51.420 So you have a problem, you pay to fix it, or you can complain and cry about it your whole

07:47:54.760 life.

07:47:55.020 Or, I mean, or you can, you can accept, uh, you don't necessarily need to fix the thing.

07:48:04.220 And there, I would dispute if certain things even need fixing.

07:48:09.420 Uh, I don't think women with small breasts are in need of fixing.

07:48:17.160 Well, like there's nothing wrong.

07:48:19.400 There's nothing wrong with women who have small breasts.

07:48:22.280 They're not defective.

07:48:23.320 They're not any of these things.

07:48:25.280 Uh, from my perspective, there's nothing to be fixed.

07:48:29.020 Well, I mean, this is coming from somebody I have had work done.

07:48:33.620 I couldn't wear certain clothes because my frame was so small in certain areas.

07:48:38.800 And then it was so big.

07:48:40.460 I wouldn't have been able to wear this dress.

07:48:42.680 I wouldn't have been able to wear certain blouses.

07:48:44.680 I couldn't wear anything strapless because it was just not fit me right.

07:48:48.980 I was completely disproportional.

07:48:51.140 Yeah.

07:48:51.780 Um, uh, I mean, I don't know if not being able to wear

07:48:58.500 certain articles of clothing from my perspective would ever be grounds to like

07:49:03.600 undergo a dangerous surgery.

07:49:07.100 I'd just be like, I mean, they make, there's alterations.

07:49:11.180 You can see what I'm saying is if somebody is personally unhappy with something,

07:49:15.180 they can recognize this doesn't look good or I don't like the way that this looks.

07:49:19.600 And I think a lot of times as women, yes, it is being insecure.

07:49:23.500 Um, and it's internalized, you internalize those insecurities.

07:49:26.820 Why live life being insecure about something?

07:49:30.500 And even if you're the only person that notices it, because I've never, I never received that

07:49:36.060 complaint from people or was bullied for it.

07:49:38.400 It was just something I was so self-conscious about.

07:49:41.100 And then I fixed it.

07:49:43.400 And then I never thought about it again.

07:49:46.040 And I would like to instill in women instead of this, let's default to plastic surgery.

07:49:54.020 I would prefer to instill in a woman, perhaps it's the case that you are insecure about something

07:49:59.360 with your body and look, certain things, you know, can't obviously breast size.

07:50:04.880 You can't really do anything about that, but you know, you can, if, if it's about your weight

07:50:08.640 or your butt, you can do some squats for that.

07:50:11.700 But I would like to, rather than jump to let's go under anesthesia, which always carries a risk

07:50:20.840 of death or, you know, some sort of injury, uh, it's very expensive.

07:50:24.940 Perhaps you'll be left with scars.

07:50:26.640 Perhaps you get botched or perhaps there's complications with the surgery.

07:50:30.440 I would say, why don't we as a society like tackle this idea of these sort of crazy beauty

07:50:38.200 standards and why don't we, why don't we give women a constitution of mind where they're

07:50:46.320 like, okay, my breasts, I don't have big breasts, but that's okay.

07:50:52.800 And I'm not going to resort to surgery to fix something that doesn't need to be, there's

07:50:59.200 nothing wrong there.

07:51:00.380 And I want, I would like women to have a force of will where they're like, I'm okay with

07:51:09.880 how this is.

07:51:10.560 Now, I'm not saying you should be a slob and just be obese or something.

07:51:14.580 You should obviously take care of your health, take care of your body.

07:51:17.860 But when it comes to things that only through surgical intervention you can fix, I would always

07:51:23.540 lean towards how can we improve women's strength of mind and constitution away from resorting

07:51:31.140 to plastic surgery.

07:51:32.360 I completely agree with you.

07:51:34.160 I wish societally we did that, but as someone has, who grew up as the smart girl, as the nerdy

07:51:40.780 girl, that was not socially rewarded.

07:51:44.100 Sure.

07:51:44.280 In the context of my parents and my teachers, it was, but amongst my peers, that is not something

07:51:50.540 that you get rewarded for, you know, well into your adolescence.

07:51:54.760 So looks matter too.

07:51:56.760 Absolutely.

07:51:57.520 Looks matter.

07:51:58.460 And you are, you're treated completely different.

07:52:01.020 And now you, you feel maybe it's a correlation, not causation, but the confidence that you have

07:52:07.660 going through society.

07:52:08.460 I mean, it, it sounds very extreme and very dramatic, but it did completely change my confidence

07:52:16.980 in my frame of mind and how I navigated different business situations because I just felt great

07:52:23.080 about myself and the things that are very difficult for people to obtain, right?

07:52:28.720 It's hard for people to study.

07:52:30.460 It's hard for people.

07:52:31.360 Those were things that came easy to me.

07:52:33.760 So it was always upsetting.

07:52:34.640 Like, why couldn't I just like look pretty?

07:52:38.620 Why couldn't I be like these other girls?

07:52:40.020 What have you had done?

07:52:40.700 Um, um, I have had my, I have implants, I have lip filler.

07:52:47.840 That's not permanent.

07:52:49.220 Um, I have had my nose and lip filler, nose, Botox in the face.

07:52:59.480 Uh, there, yeah, there's Botox in my eyes, outside of my eyes.

07:53:03.960 I see.

07:53:05.200 Okay.

07:53:05.620 I don't see nothing wrong with that.

07:53:06.940 Cause I know when I get old, I'm alone Botox too.

07:53:09.540 I mean, that's what women are vain.

07:53:11.900 Like we're going to want to stay pretty.

07:53:13.400 And if I can do that to stay pretty for as long as possible, Hey, but I don't know if

07:53:18.500 I'm a revolutionary here, but I would like to see a societal paradigm where women, there

07:53:26.600 wasn't these insane beauty standards on men or women.

07:53:30.300 I'll look, I think you can look good.

07:53:32.460 You can want to achieve an aspirational body type.

07:53:35.620 But perhaps you could, this could best be achieved through natural means.

07:53:40.040 Uh, there's plenty.

07:53:41.120 I work out.

07:53:41.860 I go to the gym.

07:53:42.840 Of course.

07:53:43.440 But when it comes to plastic surgery specifically, I, my view is these procedures are not medically

07:53:50.180 indicated.

07:53:50.820 They can often come with risks and downsides.

07:53:54.580 Well, my nose, my nose did have medical reasons as well.

07:53:57.540 Sure.

07:53:57.700 People have deviated septums.

07:53:59.280 I understand that, but I'm talking like the, the degree of invasiveness.

07:54:03.040 So like, as you start going down the line, uh, breast implants, that's more invasive BBL.

07:54:08.900 That's invasive liposuction.

07:54:10.980 Very invasive.

07:54:11.860 All these things are invasive and dangerous procedure, uh, procedures, uh, well, BBL people

07:54:18.360 die from BBLs and stuff.

07:54:19.720 I think that's the most dangerous.

07:54:20.740 Yeah, it is very dangerous.

07:54:22.420 Um, I guess I would just want a different societal paradigm where it's like, this is not

07:54:28.020 what people are resorting to.

07:54:29.700 Like for, for cases of actual deformity for reasons, the originating reason for plastic

07:54:38.660 surgery where people had like severe deformities, either from, from war wounds, you know, somebody

07:54:45.600 loses half their face, crazy burns.

07:54:48.660 Um, but just purely cosmetic reasons you want to put like silicone in your chest.

07:54:55.120 There's no medical indication for this absent, like a woman who loses a breast due to breast

07:55:01.200 cancer or something, or I don't know, she somehow a titty gets chopped off.

07:55:06.280 I don't know.

07:55:06.740 Maybe you've had a couple of close calls.

07:55:09.200 These women, these women are obviously getting attention from men.

07:55:12.460 So if the men were more strict on not getting it done, I'm pretty sure women wouldn't do

07:55:17.400 it as much.

07:55:18.220 Why?

07:55:18.580 I have criticisms for the men who have this preference.

07:55:22.240 I'm not criticizing the men though.

07:55:23.600 I'm just saying that they're obviously not getting it done.

07:55:25.100 So if the men like it and the women do it, I don't see nothing wrong with it.

07:55:28.920 I think two things.

07:55:29.680 If a guy has a preference towards women who have plastic surgery, I think from a woman's

07:55:34.260 perspective, that's a red flag, the red flag you should look out for.

07:55:37.720 But if you're dating a guy and he's trying to get, he wants you to get plastic surgery,

07:55:43.080 that's a red flag too.

07:55:44.540 You should dump the dude instantly.

07:55:46.580 If he's like trying to, even if he's willing to pay for the shit, if he's, if he's like,

07:55:52.300 babe, I want you to get fake titties, that's a red flag.

07:55:56.080 Dump that fucking guy.

07:55:57.500 Hey, great.

07:55:59.300 If you want me to get fake titties, I'm going to get fake titties.

07:56:02.060 Your titties are great.

07:56:03.220 I'm just a natural born follower.

07:56:05.000 Don't even trip.

07:56:05.800 What'd you say?

07:56:06.560 Huh?

07:56:07.160 You, you, you talked about it.

07:56:07.860 I said you're already, I said you're already good.

07:56:09.620 So you, why would you get fake boobs?

07:56:11.060 Yeah, you don't need them.

07:56:11.680 Oh, thank you.

07:56:12.100 That's crazy.

07:56:12.980 They're great.

07:56:13.820 Yeah.

07:56:14.100 I, I would have never, not to be staring at you.

07:56:17.060 I mean, I would have never pursued plastic surgery if I naturally had that.

07:56:21.380 But I don't think that women should be ashamed if they want it or not.

07:56:25.080 That's my opinion.

07:56:25.900 Because if you want to change something about yourself, you can change something about yourself.

07:56:29.720 We need to stand strong and we need to, you know, men, we're protectors, right?

07:56:33.540 We're protectors, but that's not just protecting women from attacks as it relates to the physical

07:56:39.800 reality, the physical world.

07:56:41.760 We need to protect women as it relates to attacks on their spirit and their mind.

07:56:48.400 Okay.

07:56:48.760 I think what isn't okay.

07:56:49.860 I'm fucking telling you the truth.

07:56:50.880 I think what isn't okay.

07:56:52.240 Shut up.

07:56:53.140 No, I'm telling the truth.

07:56:54.020 We need to, because there's, look, if you, if you don't think that, that there's, there's

07:57:00.180 something as it relates to society that is trying to attack people, attack their minds.

07:57:07.020 You are gravely mistaken.

07:57:08.980 There are corporations that want you insecure so that they can reap.

07:57:13.460 It's called consumerism.

07:57:14.020 Exactly.

07:57:14.680 So they can continue to reap money out of your pockets.

07:57:18.580 These corporations want you insecure.

07:57:20.720 So you're a good, obedient consumer and buyer, and there's an attack on your mind and you're

07:57:27.000 not even aware.

07:57:28.400 You are so hopelessly dependent on the system.

07:57:32.900 So hopelessly a nerd, a nerd to, to your paint and to your makeup and to your plastic

07:57:39.640 surgery.

07:57:40.500 They want you insecure.

07:57:42.360 They want you comparing yourself to these women who are Photoshopped and that's not how

07:57:47.020 they actually look with the makeup on in reality.

07:57:50.060 They want you spending your money so they can get rich.

07:57:55.300 Why shouldn't I eat?

07:57:56.200 I completely agree with you.

07:57:59.520 It's kind of like, I know why I shouldn't eat sugar.

07:58:02.060 I love dessert.

07:58:02.720 Like I willingly do it all the time because I like it.

07:58:05.640 You can tell me all day long, like how bad it is for me.

07:58:08.680 It's going to decay my teeth.

07:58:10.500 I'm going to like, and I'm like, yeah, Brian, I completely hear what you're saying.

07:58:13.480 And I agree you're a hundred percent correct, but, um, I really like it.

07:58:19.720 It really makes me happy.

07:58:21.640 And, um, I'm going to continue doing it because like, that's just what I choose to pursue.

07:58:28.820 Do what you're going to do.

07:58:29.420 Do what you're doing.

07:58:30.260 But I, I don't disagree with anything that you said.

07:58:33.700 I just don't think it's like an all, all size or one size fits all approaches.

07:58:38.920 So like, why are these women getting plastic surgery?

07:58:42.400 A lot of them are doing it for themselves.

07:58:43.480 I think what isn't okay is when the women be getting them big old bubble titties instead

07:58:47.400 of getting the size that they actually need.

07:58:49.840 I mean, like your titties, it look good.

07:58:51.340 Like you didn't get them all big and stuff.

07:58:52.780 So I want them all the titties.

07:58:53.820 No, I don't think any good plastic surgery is fake.

07:58:55.880 Hold on, hold on, hold on.

07:58:56.680 Um, my question is, do you think that there are, there's anything out there in society,

07:59:03.480 whether it comes from government or corporations that is aimed at attacking the spirit of the

07:59:10.300 person, whether you're a man or a woman, do you think that there are monsters abound?

07:59:15.060 Do you think that there are, whether intentionally or unintentionally, that we are not just under

07:59:20.980 attack, perhaps physically, but also in a spiritual conflict or a mental conflict, a conflict

07:59:28.800 of the mind?

07:59:29.860 A hundred percent.

07:59:30.760 One hundred percent?

07:59:31.640 I know this is up here.

07:59:32.760 I know this is up here.

07:59:34.140 Only if you're not aware of it, because I know sometimes I'm a consumer and I'm going to

07:59:38.080 be a consumer because I know what I like.

07:59:40.180 And if everybody else like it, knowing that I like it too, I don't mind.

07:59:43.380 The point is, we are, we are not called simply to protect women from immediate physical threats

07:59:50.280 of harm from the outside world.

07:59:52.220 But I also think we ought to, and it, it, it doesn't just apply to women.

07:59:56.980 We need to protect people from the attacks on our minds and our spirits.

08:00:02.400 Yeah.

08:00:02.660 Like you.

08:00:03.220 I completely agree with you, but I just don't think, I think we have a laundry list of items

08:00:08.860 that are culturally problematic in our society before we get to the part of consumerism as

08:00:17.600 pertaining to beauty standards.

08:00:19.000 I think we have a culture of mediocrity.

08:00:20.980 Nobody wants to work.

08:00:21.920 Nobody wants to work hard.

08:00:23.180 Nobody wants to achieve things.

08:00:24.580 We have completely lost the plot when it comes to family values.

08:00:27.380 Um, we have just a laundry list of things that are contributing to the declining society.

08:00:33.560 I think that needs to be prioritized more than, you know, people making personal choices

08:00:38.820 about their own aesthetics.

08:00:40.740 Uh, Maggie.

08:00:42.400 Who's Maggie?

08:00:43.500 No.

08:00:43.900 Who's Maggie?

08:00:45.260 Is that, was that, who's Maggie?

08:00:47.580 It's me.

08:00:48.640 No, I'm just kidding.

08:00:49.820 Chivalry?

08:00:50.440 Wait, Maggie?

08:00:52.300 Why are you going to tell them, babe?

08:00:54.580 Oh, no, no, no.

08:00:55.360 Okay.

08:00:55.560 She was a no-show.

08:00:56.480 My bad.

08:00:56.880 Um, Sarah?

08:00:59.140 That's me.

08:01:01.220 Uh, you said the OF women would be offended if you were transparent and honest about how

08:01:08.100 you view modern dating feminism, masculinity.

08:01:11.160 Uh, okay.

08:01:13.460 Hold on.

08:01:13.840 We're going to, you said men are microwaves, women are crockpots.

08:01:18.680 I'm not sure what that means.

08:01:20.500 What do you mean?

08:01:20.920 Um, so when it comes to, um, erotica, men-

08:01:27.220 But you're a virgin.

08:01:28.620 Yes, I know.

08:01:30.120 Allegedly.

08:01:30.880 Allegedly.

08:01:33.960 Men are like microwaves.

08:01:36.300 They're pleased very easily and quickly.

08:01:38.180 And women are like crockpots because you have to nurture them and earn their trust.

08:01:44.340 I don't think that's true.

08:01:45.840 I don't know.

08:01:46.280 Some women just come instantly.

08:01:48.900 It's crazy.

08:01:49.600 Yeah, what?

08:01:50.340 That's crazy.

08:01:51.060 So men come really fast.

08:01:52.640 If you have a wand.

08:01:53.840 Look, I'm not saying all women, but y'all have like multiple orgasms and shit and you

08:01:58.360 can just come in like 30 seconds.

08:01:59.640 You can have multiple orgasms in one second.

08:02:01.360 I just, the scene I just done, the guy comes six times.

08:02:03.860 You can have multiple orgasms in one second.

08:02:06.860 Most men cannot have multiple orgasms.

08:02:09.180 There's a refractory period.

08:02:10.560 I don't think so.

08:02:12.380 Yes, you can.

08:02:13.220 Anyways, um, Jenny-

08:02:14.560 Premature ejaculation is a thing.

08:02:16.240 Jenny, uh, you, you went on a date with a guy as a first date and he asked you to sleep

08:02:20.640 with him in the disabled toilets.

08:02:22.620 And when you said no, he made you pay for the full date.

08:02:25.500 Yeah, he just got up and left.

08:02:27.620 I don't know about that.

08:02:28.620 Guys, final call on the roast because after this, we are wrapping.

08:02:32.940 Final call on the roast.

08:02:33.860 Let's get him in.

08:02:34.300 Final call.

08:02:34.760 Final call.

08:02:35.600 Uh, okay.

08:02:36.860 And then you said, uh, how men now don't want to pay for dates anymore and want to either

08:02:41.300 split or you pay for it.

08:02:43.140 Is that what I said?

08:02:44.020 Yeah, you, you wrote that.

08:02:44.840 I don't remember what I said, to be honest.

08:02:46.500 Oh, okay.

08:02:46.980 Well, we'll just call it that.

08:02:47.660 I mean, I think, I think it depends who asked for the date, but I've never been one for-

08:02:54.300 Yeah, you don't, you don't, you've never asked a guy on a, on a date?

08:02:57.480 Uh, not really, no, but I don't really date that much, to be fair.

08:03:00.420 I don't know.

08:03:01.560 I just sit at home with my cats.

08:03:03.160 Yeah, she's happy.

08:03:04.320 She hangs out at home with the cats.

08:03:06.280 I have five cats.

08:03:07.520 Holy shit.

08:03:08.220 That's so amazing.

08:03:09.540 That's a lot of cats.

08:03:10.580 They really cute.

08:03:11.120 I love that for you.

08:03:12.100 Thank you.

08:03:12.900 I love that for you.

08:03:13.860 I'm really happy with that.

08:03:14.080 That's fine.

08:03:14.740 I like this.

08:03:15.200 All right.

08:03:17.700 We're going to let the chats come through, then.

08:03:19.420 Hopefully, this should be wrapped here within five minutes.

08:03:21.260 So, are you going to do the gun thing or no?

08:03:23.820 The gun thing?

08:03:26.240 Nope.

08:03:27.120 Why?

08:03:27.440 What's the issue, bro?

08:03:30.200 Pay me.

08:03:31.120 T-shirt underscore no.

08:03:32.500 You got money on your pay.

08:03:33.340 You got money on your pay.

08:03:33.360 Chorek Steed donated $30.

08:03:35.520 Chorek Steed donated $30.

08:03:36.480 Chair three, wouldn't the consequence of your expectation be that you date and marry a man

08:04:05.760 who reviles your past?

08:04:07.700 That seems like a hard sell.

08:04:10.020 You might have to adjust your expectations a bit, no?

08:04:15.140 Bless his heart.

08:04:20.000 Dirk Diggler donated $29.

08:04:23.020 Hi, from Germany.

08:04:24.640 Love watching the show.

08:04:26.360 Keep up with saving us from the evil women out there.

08:04:29.720 Chloe seems fine.

08:04:31.760 Not a bad panel today.

08:04:33.800 Guten Tag.

08:04:34.440 DG Lambo donated $30.

08:04:37.780 Mr. Atlas, I'd be losing my SH.

08:04:41.200 The patience, endurance.

08:04:43.600 Brian's strength under stress is only rivaled by those three chairs.

08:04:48.300 You know which ones.

08:04:49.800 Cut meals in half and eat later.

08:04:52.160 W Roma W Oxnard.

08:04:54.020 Oxnard.

08:04:55.380 Thank you, man.

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08:05:12.080 C7 holy cow.

08:05:13.980 C8 feminism speaks dot org.

08:05:16.420 C9 forklift rascal.

08:05:18.280 C10 bankrupt popsicle budget.

08:05:21.740 Wait.

08:05:22.300 Forklift rascal?

08:05:23.320 C10 bankrupt pop?

08:05:25.820 I told you I make more money than my partner.

08:05:28.400 I don't understand why your audience thinks I'm such a feminist.

08:05:29.720 Like anybody that's like, I have like literally millions of people that watch me around the

08:05:33.260 world and I don't think one person would look at me and be like, Chloe.

08:05:36.500 I'm just confused as to why your community thinks that.

08:05:40.000 I don't get it.

08:05:40.860 Maybe it's just a few people.

08:05:42.420 I don't know.

08:05:42.860 Yeah.

08:05:43.720 But you're not a feminist, right?

08:05:45.100 You're not a feminist, right?

08:05:45.880 Yeah.

08:05:46.040 I mean, I'm a basic level.

08:05:48.220 I don't think we should walk around beating women.

08:05:50.380 I think that makes it like a baseline feminist.

08:05:53.100 But I'm literally the world's biggest men's rights advocate in the whole world.

08:05:56.360 I literally started it.

08:05:57.580 So why you're calling me a feminist is so weird.

08:06:00.220 But do you think even under a patriarchal structure that even under patriarchy, they're like,

08:06:04.880 yes, it's okay to beat women?

08:06:06.940 I don't know.

08:06:07.320 I don't think that's the case.

08:06:08.580 Yeah.

08:06:09.900 No, that sounds like I just have a baseline.

08:06:11.580 Well, I mean, in some countries, like, yes, we see that.

08:06:15.440 Yeah, right.

08:06:16.760 So I was from Romania.

08:06:17.980 So feminism is like very much needed over there, like really bad.

08:06:21.880 I'm not a Western feminist.

08:06:23.260 If anything, I would be more in line with feminism in the other parts of the world where

08:06:27.340 it hasn't really touched yet.

08:06:28.960 But even in the patriarchal society, I mean, even in the patriarchal society,

08:06:34.880 that's strictly patriarchal, I wouldn't even, I wouldn't say that baked into that is always

08:06:39.840 an acceptance of wife beating.

08:06:42.820 I don't know if I would say that.

08:06:44.200 That's not what I'm saying.

08:06:44.960 I'm saying I have a basic level, like, I just, yeah, I don't know.

08:06:48.360 I just have a basic care for women.

08:06:52.420 I mean, in Afghanistan, yes, that is like part of what they allow.

08:06:57.020 Well, I'd say that's less to do with patriarchy and more to do, well, let's not.

08:07:03.060 Like where I'm from, women are actually still like oppressed, like in Europe and Romania

08:07:07.460 and shit, like Romania is still struggling and pulling out of communism and a bunch of

08:07:13.580 shit.

08:07:13.920 So I just, I've just, I don't know.

08:07:15.280 I've never heard anybody describe me as that.

08:07:16.980 I mean, obviously in Afghanistan, there's women have very few rights.

08:07:22.760 Yeah.

08:07:22.880 Like my fiance is from Iraq.

08:07:23.960 Is it actually the case that like wife beating, I don't know.

08:07:27.400 I genuinely don't know his wife beating.

08:07:29.700 Yeah.

08:07:30.920 Yeah.

08:07:31.340 There's like, if you look at like a lot of Muslim countries, yeah, there are women getting

08:07:34.620 like stoned and I mean, yeah, lots of victim blaming for women in Europe and I mean, it's

08:07:42.900 bad.

08:07:43.760 I think we can admit that there are places in the world where women don't have like Western

08:07:47.420 women are very privileged.

08:07:48.500 Well, I don't know if this is just like a trope or something.

08:07:50.900 I just did a Google search.

08:07:52.080 It says even Sharia law, which is derived from the Quran teachings of Muhammad, it's

08:07:57.760 widely interpreted as prohibiting a husband from beating his wife.

08:08:02.220 The notion that Islam permits domestic violence is a misconception rejected by many Islamic scholars

08:08:08.200 who emphasize compassion and kind treatment in marriage.

08:08:11.480 Yes, but that's the wide interpretation of Sharia law.

08:08:13.820 The Taliban interprets the most strictest.

08:08:16.580 Not to make it dark, but like my sister was like, she was like, not just essayed, but

08:08:22.200 like, like raped.

08:08:24.060 And, uh, the, I'm, from what I understand, the primary reason the guy got, um, like jail

08:08:29.260 time was because he took her virginity, which was like a disservice to her future husband.

08:08:33.280 So I just, you just can't convince me that like women's rights are, that they're privileged

08:08:37.500 in other places of the world.

08:08:39.040 They're not so, I'm a feminist in that aspect.

08:08:42.280 Am I like a Western feminist?

08:08:43.760 Absolutely not.

08:08:44.500 We have, I agree with you.

08:08:45.460 We've, we've, we got our cake and we ate it too, but.

08:08:48.560 Well, of course, in a lot of these other countries, yeah, there, there definitely are not robust,

08:08:53.140 uh, women's rights.

08:08:54.820 Absolutely agree.

08:08:55.960 Um, okay.

08:08:56.980 I'm pretty sure that's it.

08:08:58.100 Any final thoughts from anybody before I wrap up?

08:09:00.480 Absolutely not.

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Whatever Podcast - September 22, 2025

HEATED Debate With Harvard Grad! HER League = Henry Cavill？! Chloe Roma Army! ｜ Dating Talk #261

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