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00:34:51.040I feel like sometimes you just have to bite the ball and say, yeah, I'm a feminist.
00:34:54.800But if I'm here, like, airing out all my stuff, I'll go above and beyond and say, yeah, no, I think women are 100% better than men.0.95
00:35:00.780the world is nothing but women and their children yeah that that's not even coherent because
00:35:07.440the world encompasses boys encompasses men too yeah i agree i 100 yeah so when you say the world
00:35:14.400is nothing but women and their children what what exactly are you trying to convey when you say that
00:35:20.300what can men do that women can't really what can men do that women can't what do you mean yeah
00:35:27.860like pretty uh i mean besides uphold on their shoulders the entire infrastructure0.98
00:35:34.540that pampered women like you depend upon to have the enjoy have and enjoy and take for granted the
00:35:41.320comforts of modernity well yeah that i've nobody's asked for that though i don't ask we have been
00:35:47.780fighting for women's rights for so many you have women's rights not everywhere a man's rights don't
00:35:53.220change when you cross state lines. Of course men's rights change. No, they don't. Yeah,
00:35:58.800they vary from state to state. But a woman's rights, they change drastically. What rights1.00
00:36:03.520are you referencing? What about abortion rights? Do you think men have abortion rights? No,
00:36:09.280but they have a right to their own sexual health and all of that. Women don't have that.1.00
00:36:14.300Sexual health. Well, there's a couple of disagreements that we're going to have here.0.94
00:36:17.920So if we're talking about equal rights, if men have no abortion rights, then you either have to give men abortion rights or some form of equity that would be commensurate to women's abortion rights as they currently stand.
00:36:31.760Or if you want to achieve equality, you would then let me ask you a question.
00:36:36.600Let's say men had a privilege over women and say women were down here and men are up here and men had some like privilege that you could ostensibly cite to.
00:36:46.120you could take away men's privileges right and bring them down to here and men and women would
00:36:52.360be equal would you agree with that like take away men's privileges like would i be okay with that
00:36:57.360no i'm not asking if you'd be okay do you agree with the premise i don't understand okay sorry
00:37:03.640sit assume assume for a second that men had privileges right let's say when men were born
00:37:09.340they were just given a thousand dollars now you could do two things to equalize that you could
00:37:14.100give women or girls, I guess, girls and boys, you both give them a thousand dollars when they're
00:37:18.360born. Or if women get nothing, you could just say men get nothing too. You would agree that both of
00:37:24.980those would create equality between men and women, right? Yeah. Right. So if men currently have no
00:37:31.060abortion rights, the argument, and nobody's actually advocating that men should have abortion
00:37:36.580rights or even a form of equity that would be comparable to abortion rights, then certainly we
00:37:42.040must argue that in order to create equality between men and women, certainly the path
00:37:46.760for that would be to completely take away women's abortion rights. And that would actually
00:37:51.560create equality between men and women. That was just an example of how women's rights0.99
00:37:55.840change and how there is too much privilege for men. But you're, okay, so if we're talking
00:37:59.980about equal rights, so abortion rights grant women a right that men don't have. So there's
00:38:06.360not an inequality that exists like in the way that you perceive it. Why do women have to take1.00
00:38:12.340birth control when men don't? Women don't have to take birth control. But we do. But you don't.1.00
00:38:18.760Can the government force women to take birth control? But then they take away our right to1.00
00:38:22.640take away. They take away what? Our right to have to get rid of the child. But abortion is not birth
00:38:28.700control. So these are completely two separate things. So the first thing we have to tackle is
00:38:33.400does the government force women to take birth control no okay so women do you tell me if you
00:38:39.400agree do women voluntarily take birth control yes they do okay so nobody's forcing women to
00:38:46.040take birth control may i say so my turn sure my thing is why is it only pushed on to women
00:38:51.480even though there are very effective birth control options for men but they're not pushed out there
00:38:57.740why is it on us yeah for i'm happy to engage with you on that can you just uh list the
00:39:03.100effective birth control options that there are for men?
00:40:38.180Do you think it's a good idea for like 18-year-olds or like basically like anyone who's maybe below the age of like 30 or 40 to get vasectomies?
00:45:50.020A minor of any age can get an IUD at a Planned Parenthood in California without parental consent or notification.
00:45:56.760Tiffany, full access under California Family Code.
00:46:00.000But all minors have the legal right to consent to all forms of birth control, including IUDs, implants, and the pill, on their own.
00:46:08.540Health care providers are legally prohibited from telling your parents or guardians.1.00
00:46:12.560Really quick temperature check for all the women in the room.1.00
00:46:15.600Who agrees that that should be okay?1.00
00:46:17.860So, like, your daughter under 18, without your consent or approval, do you think she should be able to go get basically any form of birth control?
00:46:26.520And, like, a doctor allowed to do it starting here?
00:46:30.000I think I agree with it because the kid's going to go do it anyway, so it's better to give the kid sexual.
00:46:59.140on that it's kind of a double-edged sword where it's like minor without parental consent no
00:47:05.480but it's probably the better alternative to abortion as a as birth control okay next no
00:47:13.700well i did it so you did it you're fine with it what about you i disagree okay and you guys are
00:47:20.520friends so why do you disagree um i think a medical procedure non-consensual from the parents
00:47:26.680is a crazy concept wait like if the parents don't consent to a medical procedure okay i don't think
00:47:33.920it should be happening okay so if the parents are not aware and don't approve then okay um so who's
00:47:39.760really quick who said yes or well you're on the fence yes wait on the fence like no okay so what
00:47:48.980about this um if now this is a bit of a different topic but we're gonna come back to it um what's
00:47:56.660Those of you who said yes, what's your position on trans minors receiving puberty blockers or hormones prior to the age of 18 without parental consent?
01:00:46.960But you were saying, like, there's an unfairness with the birth control options.
01:00:52.320So I guess we'll finish up on the birth control options.1.00
01:00:54.760Then we're going to dive back into the female supremacy claims you make.
01:01:01.040So there's a sort of a difference.1.00
01:01:04.160One of the reasons why there's more birth control options available for women.1.00
01:01:08.300Now, a lot of women, a lot of feminists are going to argue that this is like this sort of patriarchal, oppressive, anti-woman thing that, you know, women are the ones who have to carry the burden of taking birth control.0.83
01:01:24.840The truth of the matter is it's actually far more simple, and it comes down to the differences in physiology between men and women.
01:01:33.020So from just a purely physiological standpoint, women's ovulation and hormones are to a degree, like, to shut off a woman's ability to get pregnant is a far easier proposition than to, like, how do we chemically cut off, without causing, like, substantial harm, men's ability to produce sperm?
01:02:00.840How do we do it without sterilizing them permanently?0.53
01:08:19.660But I did want to explain that it's not like the evil patriarchy that's trying to be like, oh, we want to oppress these women and they're going to take birth control and the men don't have to take anything.
01:08:31.860The chemical mechanism for controlling fertility in women is way easier than it is controlling it in men.0.99
01:08:41.760I'm producing fucking sperm right now.1.00
01:26:02.660Isn't it just common courtesy though?1.00
01:26:04.040Like us women, we have like our ovulation and we know to like be courteous and put our stuff in the trash can and not for men to see it.0.82
01:26:10.680and we do the extra steps but just to put the toilet seat down is like such a what what are1.00
01:26:15.300the extra i mean women's bathrooms are fucking disgusting but um as if you've worked in a0.98
01:26:20.140restaurant and done men and women restrooms like clean both men's are definitely i mean it varies0.99
01:26:25.200it's obviously going to vary but i still don't see how women have their products or whatever
01:26:30.980and you put it in the trash i don't know what i mean it's like we're taught common courtesy for
01:26:37.040men like aren't you taught like the same thing how are you put the seat up so you don't what is
01:26:41.360the common okay what is the common courtesy women are taught for the benefit of men if we're using
01:26:46.060hold on it's for her for the like to what do you mean like you said women are taught to have common0.86
01:26:53.300courtesy for the benefit of men yeah and so by putting up your toilet seat when you piss isn't
01:26:58.060that the are you not answer i'm going to repeat the question for the third time the words that
01:27:01.820came out of your mouth were women have been taught for the benefit of men to observe certain
01:27:08.060courteous acts well you just keep saying i don't think you know men don't notice those courteous1.00
01:27:13.400acts because we do them if you okay perfect came into the restroom holy fuck wait wait just try to1.00
01:27:18.060listen just try to listen what are the courteous acts that women have been taught to do for the0.99
01:27:24.060benefit of men i'm literally engaging with what you said we're taught to put our pads in the trash
01:27:30.140can and not leave them out and wrap them and make sure everything is like nice i don't i don't know
01:27:34.400have you ever been to a women's restaurant so what what is the alternative then what is the
01:27:38.060alternative to do should you just throw them on the floor exactly should you men leave full of0.98
01:27:43.120piss like should you just not men don't wait are you not listening the argument is not oh my god0.78
01:27:49.440bro this is actually frustrating when did i say that men should leave the seat down so that they0.98
01:27:54.640should piss on the seat my argument is as a man you lift the seat up there is no obligation on you
01:28:01.080for the benefit of the woman to then put the seat back down because why can't you just put the seat0.78
01:28:06.320down like why can't you put the seat down we didn't we didn't piss all over the toilet okay but hold
01:28:11.420on why is it assumed why would it be assumed that the default this is like a chicken and the egg
01:28:15.220thing why should it be assumed that uh the seat's default position has to be down isn't it down when
01:28:23.580you go in like no if a man if a man used it prior to you the seat would be up exactly because he
01:28:29.920lifted it up well hold on so right why do you lift the seat up yeah why are you why are you
01:28:35.560lifting the seat up in the first place so as wait wait that's so as to not piss on the seat because
01:28:43.440the that the the space is uh the the what's it called the surface area or whatever there's a
01:28:51.120greater likelihood of pissing on the seat right so you lift i'm fine with lifting the seat up i
01:28:56.680don't know if you guys don't are missing the point here lifting the seat up is fine yeah right right
01:29:02.080i don't think men have like some duty to like lower the seat for women but what why do you lift
01:29:07.900the seat up i already told you don't make a mess yeah yeah correct so if you're the one making the
01:29:11.860mess you should be putting it back because you're gonna be making that's not coherent no what you're
01:29:17.140saying is the women should put it down because you made the mess no that's equality no that has
01:29:21.520nothing to do with it if you're make a mess whatever whatever the position look the the1.00
01:29:25.560equality thing is whatever situation that you like then i would just push this back onto women1.00
01:29:31.460well you women knowing that the next person to likely use the bathroom is a man not for the1.00
01:29:36.380whatever podcast knowing that i'm the next one to use the bathroom you should then put the seat up1.00
01:29:40.580for me no yes what if you aren't peeing because we're i don't want to touch you i don't want to
01:29:47.180touch the mess that you made there is no mess that i made but then why do you have so the reason that
01:29:53.560the seat is up is because there's been a mess yeah your your argument is incoherent so i'm not
01:29:58.420making i'm not making an argument about uh like the reason why the seat is up i think we agree
01:30:05.680the reason for why men put the seat up so as to not make a mess on the seat but the mess was not
01:30:12.360made on the seat and the the seat is perfectly fine where it is okay so you women can then put0.99
01:30:20.740it back down where it needs to be for your usage i've lived in a house with only women and then0.99
01:30:27.500i've lived in a house with my brothers yeah the only time the underneath of a seat has ever been
01:30:32.200dirty is when men live in the house the under seat of a seat so when you lift up the seat
01:30:38.300the rim underneath the toilet bowl rim dirty sometimes sure you made the mess as the man0.72
01:30:46.980on the rim not the seat on the underneath of the seat you can't remove the rim millennial mayhem
01:30:53.560donated 100 logically there are four scenarios where the toilet be used twice by man twice by
01:31:01.760women number one or number two that would mean there is only one instance for it to be up
01:31:07.300just put it down yeah yeah yeah totally disagree honestly in fact i think um i think before i go0.99
01:31:16.560and use it i should snap my fingers and whoever whatever woman is in the nearest vicinity she
01:31:21.860goes in puts it up for me and is like there you go and then i pee then she flushes the toilet for1.00
01:31:29.440me and then she goes back into the toilet and puts the seat down even if i'm my i got a light
01:31:35.740bladder and i gotta go again she puts the seat down just because and then you know i drink a0.97
01:31:40.740lot of water look at all these fucking water bottles here right yeah i gotta urinate frequently0.99
01:31:44.720because i drink so much water she gotta put it back up for me again snap snap i will personally0.99
01:31:50.200go put the toilet seat up for you if you have to go wait is that before after the bow i really need
01:54:16.300I remember doing that in elementary school.0.99
01:54:18.180Okay, so assuming who knows what the men did or the boys did, rather, I don't see how that would establish any sort of mass amounts of propaganda that would push women away from career.0.66
01:54:31.860I'm not saying that's how the whole world is.
01:58:43.420And I think as women, we're honestly happier when we're allowed to fully inhabit a more feminine role.
01:58:52.700And so it's not so much that I don't think women should vote or all of that.0.96
01:58:59.260I actually think there should be a law like that you have to have skin in the game in order to vote.0.98
01:59:05.900But I will say that I think women nowadays are so unhappy.0.98
01:59:10.920right I look at women and they're desperately unhappy as a whole and I think feminism has a0.92
01:59:16.840lot to do with it I think when we started giving sex away it took away all of our power like the0.94
01:59:24.620right for women to vote was passed by men right we actually had a lot of power back then and a lot0.81
01:59:31.920of it came from like containing sex right but what essentially what women have done is we've become0.80
01:59:39.680the worst of men. We've become toxic men, and it's brought out the worst in men, and I think0.93
01:59:46.500things were better when we were the controllers of our power and the controllers of sex, so.
01:59:55.140Okay, well, for starters, not everybody wants a man. You were saying earlier, I forget what exactly0.94
02:00:00.560you said, that we, like, want to thank them or whatever. They built this, yada, yada, yada.
02:00:05.060We need to be more gracious for what they've given us. Not everybody wants a man. I forget0.97
02:00:09.240what you said at the very beginning there was too much being said well I was just pointing out that
02:00:13.200men have their own innate skills that have built all the infrastructure around it but there are
02:00:19.380definitely girls on those crew and there are girls there are women that could do the same thing a man1.00
02:00:23.520could do but they are discriminated against on blue collar workforces I know that there are a1.00
02:00:28.840lot of men that they won't because there are laws that say they can't do it but they will
02:00:32.200they will not go searching for a woman on that job they will try to hire this man we're full
02:00:36.660like there are women out there there wasn't just a man who built this building i'm sure there was
02:00:41.540but also those skills are taught or learned they're not you're not born with those kind of i
02:00:46.320i kind of reject this men built the world like as a generality because i it's not it's the plumbers
02:00:51.800it's the electricians it's you know those guys did the average man couldn't wire a house to save
02:00:56.740his life well nowadays no yeah nowadays but back then like 30 years ago you think they could
02:01:02.300Well, I think not so much 30 years ago, but I think over the course of time, we have allowed or basically forced men to be less masculine, you know, with office jobs and things like that.
02:08:42.420No, like, I mean, I wish like when I had been back in dating that even if I even though I didn't want to get married, I wish that I had said, is this a guy that I would marry before I even started dating him?
02:08:55.640And so, no, you don't want a fixer upper like they're not a puppy dog.
02:08:59.780Yeah, I have one last question for both of you.
02:09:04.400So how if you text a guy, let's say you email a guy, you're like, OK, I'm here.
02:09:09.260and how long will you allow a guy to ghost you until you move on we didn't really text back when
02:09:18.880i was still dating like it was emails and like i remember i didn't go out with a guy because he only
02:09:24.840texted me and didn't call me but it was a three-day rule like we had a book called the rules
02:09:30.460or he's just not that into you and it was three days three days and how about you oh um well first
02:09:37.140also i would never drive it to a guy's house they're gonna come pick me up but um if if they
02:09:42.580didn't respond they got the night and if uh they don't text me the next morning with a
02:09:47.380a reason why then i'm on to the next i'm not here to play games i mean kind of i am but like
02:09:55.000don't play my face it's i'm gonna play in yours gotcha i do have something i would like to say
02:10:01.960I think that there is a lot of devaluing in men and women just because of how we value ourselves in today's society.
02:10:08.700Like, the OnlyFans and the use of our body, I think, is, like, the biggest misconception of value.
02:10:16.240I think that, like, by thinking that our bodies are, like, the biggest value of us is, like, such a misconception and such a lie.
02:10:23.840Because when you start dating real men and, like, a man that you really like, that will all change.
02:10:28.380i think that this fast like the media really pushes you to do fast hookups and just date guys
02:10:34.300like one after the other when you should really like commit and really try to find the right
02:10:38.200person and i think that's why men are so devalued too i agree i also just to piggyback off of what
02:10:43.660you were saying too i feel like for just me personally as a woman that's single and i kind
02:10:47.980of consider myself traditional like in the way where i do want to get married i want to be a mom
02:10:51.100um and i'm also saving myself for marriage just personally but there's no judgment for anybody
02:10:55.540else but for me when I think about like just going out with a guy it's for me honestly it's
02:11:00.640been really hard to just kind of get into the dating pool because I feel like men are either
02:11:04.100only interested in hooking up or they have kind of like what you said this pressure on them
02:11:08.120like a weight on them which kind of makes them just not be able to be leaders in a way like
02:11:12.940they're just not doing what you kind of are hoping for so that's disappointing just as somebody that's
02:11:18.440like kind of still slowly dating like that's definitely I've noticed that those two things
02:11:22.840And also the fear of rejection has been so ingrained and taught in them now that it's like, you know, I want to hook up with you and whatever, just to kind of get one over because they, to some degree, maybe feel like the woman is doing the same thing.
02:11:35.060So it's like, I'm going to hurt you before you hurt me.
02:11:39.040And it sucks for, I mean, not even just traditional women, but I mean, any of you guys that are just looking for like a partner that, like you said, you want to just communicate with, like anybody you can connect with.
02:11:48.940I feel like that's pretty hard to find nowadays.
02:11:50.900just yeah because we're kind of blindsided by everything else well and we have everything on
02:11:56.180easy access right sex used to be there's no there's no yearning or anything like that i feel
02:12:02.020like chivalry is really dead yeah it used to be awesome and rare yeah and yeah and now it's at the
02:12:08.000palm of your hands it is and so you can access it so men don't have the motivation like men
02:12:12.640exactly yeah exactly now i would never have sex with a random guy ever yeah or have only fast but
02:12:19.720They normalize that so much in today's society, like in movies, to kids.
02:14:23.260What I've noticed, if this makes sense, I've noticed that the few men that I've kind of tried to at least go out with and go on dates with,
02:14:30.380it seems like there's so much pressure on men, like young men my age nowadays.
02:14:35.420It's hard to explain, but I don't know.
02:14:37.240It's either they are kind of rushing to hook up, and if they're not into that, then it's just, I don't know.
02:14:42.160It just seems like there's this pressure to, like, I don't think that men can't be leaders.
02:14:46.020I think that it's, I don't know, it's kind of hard to explain.
02:14:49.940Like, we're kind of just getting, I think men are getting sidetracked nowadays because there's, we're really only thinking about, like, hooking up and things like that.
02:20:19.820I can't respond to everything you said, but the first part of what you said, I definitely, I mean, I definitely can recognize that maybe a few years ago, like, when I first got into dating, I think I was, like, 19, I definitely can say just for myself that, is it modern feminism, just feminism in general, had, like, such a kind of brainwashing effect, I hate to say it, on me, that I really did believe all those things.
02:20:45.960And I can say, like, as, you know, just as a woman, I'm not speaking for any of you guys, but, like, maybe one of you can at least agree that, like, when you do hear, like, for you to be submissive to your husband or even your boyfriend, I guess, I think we immediately hear, like, oh, I don't want to be his slave.
02:21:23.560Well, yeah, I mean, I definitely, you make a good point when women hear the term, like, submissive, or even if, when Christians hear the term obey in the Bible, this is obviously for, like, a feminist-minded woman, or a woman who's been exposed to the overreaches of feminism.
02:21:40.680this is going to be a very like visceral sort of reaction to the words obey to the words be
02:21:49.420submissive but like I I think I would break it down to when women say men should men should pay0.55
02:21:58.300for dates men should protect men should provide well if women are prepared to say men should do
02:22:05.660xyz there seems to be and that's like completely socially acceptable men should pay for dates
02:22:12.160you're not going to see like mass amounts of pushback on that it's like some men dislike it
02:22:17.740but like most men accept it most men accept women's standards they may be like ah she's
02:22:24.120like not good looking enough or whatever like attractive enough to demand those sort of things
02:22:28.780but like ultimately men don't cope with some of women's uh demands we just like accept it oh she
02:22:35.180likes tall men, like, okay, we accept that. We're not going to cope. Whereas women cope massively
02:22:41.160about some of the things that men care about that we're going to talk about in a moment.
02:22:45.260But yeah, it's, I don't know. I just think what, if we can say men should, and like all of you
02:22:53.140circled, almost all of you circled probably men should pay on first dates, men should provide
02:22:56.940protect, men should be chivalrous. What are we allowed to say that women should? Like what should,0.68
02:23:03.540if we can say men should pay on dates, protect, provide, what should women do? Starting with you.1.00
02:23:10.620Um, can you give me a scenario? So you want me to answer the question for you? No. Just like,
02:23:18.220are we talking like the first date question? Men should pay for the first date. Well, so yeah,1.00
02:23:23.040I guess I laid out what is expected of men. What is expected of women?0.99
02:23:28.420and I'm a very traditional person in the sense that I'm not going to be asking a man on a date
02:23:35.200so if he has to be on a date he should be paying now this is almost what just occurred here to
02:23:42.060some degree is almost somewhat emblematic of in that sort of meta sort of way what I'm talking
02:23:50.280about notice I asked her what should women do and she immediately reverted women can't even
02:23:55.880comprehend the thought of what are the, like when women say they're traditional, they don't think0.80
02:24:03.540about my behavior. You think about your expectations of men. When women say they're0.82
02:24:10.680traditional, well, I expect to be treated traditionally by men, but that pushes the
02:24:17.120burden onto men. I'm asking you, what should women do? So you say, well, men ask me out on dates and
02:24:23.840pay for the date okay but what should women do um I mean in the as far as the date goes0.70
02:24:34.280be grateful for the date be grateful for the date yeah that's it okay are you talking about like0.73
02:24:42.020I I want to be a homemaker so I should be the one taking care of the home I should be the one
02:24:46.680with the home responsibilities long term yes if the man is doing if he has the job if he's the
02:24:53.380breadwinner um i should be at home taking care of him doing his laundry cooking his meals
02:24:59.040100 putting the toilet seat i did close the toilet seat all the way when i used the restroom yes
02:25:06.000just now yes you didn't have to do that you didn't have to she did it to be nice that's nice
02:25:10.500uh okay well so that those are good answers and i assume like you want to have kids
02:25:15.100no you don't want to have kids i do not want to have kids well you're 20 right yeah it's
02:25:20.140it's possible that might change 100 when you get older I well I assume it's certainly the case
02:25:26.040even say you wanted to have kids down the road you might say for example you definitely don't
02:25:31.200want to have kids now yeah yeah um so do you think it's possible down the road you might
02:25:36.860it's a possibility yeah why don't you want to have kids I just don't want to I don't like how
02:25:41.820the world is going right now I don't really want to bring a life into this world at the current
02:25:45.820state of it. Wait, wait, that's such a doomer. Look, I'm doomer, but that's a really doomer
02:25:51.460perspective. So what's wrong with the world? I, it's just, I mean, I, I mainly stay out of it
02:25:57.920because I don't want to have these crazy opinions where I'm not educated all the way.
02:26:03.220Cortisol spikes. You don't want to worry about politics. I get, I understand that,
02:26:07.540but you think the world is in a bad place, but don't you feel as if though, so you can just
02:26:12.800either completely forfeit to the way the world is going which is bad or you can have a ton of kids
02:26:20.780reproduce and raise them up so that and your own actions too can contribute to this so you can
02:26:27.700contribute to forming the world into a better place and then raising children so they can go
02:26:34.440out into what you view as like the the just complete bleakness that the world currently
02:26:40.540finds itself in and they can be the light in the darkness and combat the uh the evil or however you
02:26:49.000describe it so don't you feel like perhaps you have an obligation then i don't feel obligated
02:26:55.100but i see your point but don't you think if like okay the world's bad we should we should defeat
02:27:01.680darkness right or do we just lay back and take it are we just gonna lay back and let the world
02:27:09.760go down the terrible path that you think it's going in.
02:27:13.160And I don't think you're entirely wrong.
02:37:12.480Like, are there some women who care less?1.00
02:37:14.560There are some women who don't care at all.
02:37:16.800As a general idea, I think we can say generally women prefer to date tall men, taller men.
02:37:26.160You think that I'm harder on women than men.
02:37:29.920Yeah, I think you kind of lean more towards the man's side.
02:37:33.720I mean, I have criticisms towards men, but yeah, I would say overall, like just being honest, most of my criticisms are more so related to, uh, criticisms pointed towards women, but I have plenty of criticisms towards the men.
02:37:51.980Like, for example, men shouldn't lie about their intentions when dating a woman in order to bed her.
02:37:58.660Like, if you tell a girl you're looking for a relationship just to sleep with her, and then you sleep with her, and then you ghost her, that's wrong.0.78
02:38:08.680Now, I would say that there are some instances that I don't want women to, like, not every time.0.99
02:38:15.620Like, sometimes a guy can be honest and say, I am looking for a relationship, and then something happens between the sex, and then you fucked up somehow.0.99
02:38:28.780She complained about the toilet seat.1.00
02:56:17.120I think at least with the daughter thing specifically, that I can imagine a father, no matter what the situation or social whatever is, that's just, like, the fact that that's there to begin with is kind of weird.
02:56:28.380I think it's fair we do because I don't know the exact quote.
03:06:52.780Yeah, you're going to be in confinement.
03:06:55.080But, I mean, look, if I commit a crime and I get arrested and say I'm in, like, the holding tank before they put me in wherever I need to go, like, every seven hours a guard is going to come by with a white bread sandwich with a bit of mayonnaise, one slice of meat, and a slice of cheese.
03:10:04.160And he killed the illegal immigrant, killed the 11-year-old.1.00
03:10:07.880And those are the people that should be taken away.1.00
03:10:11.180Well, well, yeah, they should. They should. But just like, look, I love Mexicans. Mexicans are dope as fuck. And by the way, there's illegal immigrants who are from other Latin American countries and shit, not just Mexicans. They can come from Europe, too. If you're here illegally, you got to be deported. Point blank, period.
03:10:30.340I agree. I think they should just be treated better.
03:10:32.380but hold on i feel like i believe that your position is that deportation is wrong
03:10:39.840and you want to mott and bailey and shift the goalposts to well okay fine i'm fine with the
03:10:45.480deportations but they got to do it nicer no i think that one ice is too strong of a thing we're
03:10:53.360putting too much efforts into ice when there's we're not doing enough honestly put other places
03:10:58.600and i shouldn't be sent into school i mean like schools we need money for schools we need money
03:11:04.200for health care there's so many other things that could use some funding like besides sending these
03:11:09.080armed masked men and women into schools like yes if you came here illegally you should come in the
03:11:16.020right way also it is very hard to come in here the right way i can say that as somebody who has
03:11:19.940family it's not that hard i have family who was here illegally had family decided to come back in
03:11:25.220here regularly like the right way the it's harder than coming here illegally yeah they messed up his
03:11:31.780paperwork with somebody else or somebody else living here under his name and they don't they
03:11:35.720don't care it is pretty hard sometimes and sometimes people are fleeing here from like
03:11:40.360very bad countries i'm cuba your parents they were from cuba that's a bad place sometimes people have
03:11:46.100no choice yeah but there's i mean there's a difference between like genuinely seeking asylum
03:15:16.380So legal immigration, I even think, needs to be reduced
03:15:19.360until we can kind of figure out the cost of living in this country.0.87
03:15:24.440because right now the citizens are not having a good go at it our birth rate sucks we're going1.00
03:15:30.860to have a major catastrophe here so what about the illegal immigrants that are paying taxes0.96
03:15:35.540uh well i mean they're net negative uh on that front but like so and they're taking services0.92
03:15:44.220and then they go to the hospital and then they're they're undocumented so they don't have health
03:15:50.200insurance. They, they increase the wait times in hospitals for citizens who have legitimate0.99
03:15:56.000medical emergencies. And then they're bolstered the costs for the people who can pay
03:16:03.840goes up because they are, they are defraying the costs of just giving these people healthcare for
03:16:12.540free onto American citizens. What services are they taking? What do you mean? If you're an
03:16:18.180a legal immigrant and you want to see a doctor, you're going to go to the emergency room. You're1.00
03:16:22.960going to clog up the waiting line. Okay. Besides that, you just said that. What else are they
03:16:26.240taking? What do you mean? Social services, a whole bunch of stuff. No, you don't get that.
03:16:30.480You mentioned them going into schools, correct? All of those children are actually taking money
03:16:37.360away from actual citizens because they are not paying into the system. So by actually deporting
03:16:43.040them, that would actually increase the amount that each student is going to receive in school
03:16:48.200benefits. So by having less children in those schools, they'll receive better schooling is
03:16:53.420what you're saying. Yeah. Teachers who are overworked and have like 40 kids in the class
03:16:57.980versus 30 or 20. Yeah. Teachers typically prefer less students. I could see that. And they learn
03:17:04.160better in smaller classes. I could see that. But the social security thing, that one's not possible.
03:17:08.700Unless they have an actual social security card that proves they are a citizen, they are not getting any benefits from the government or the county.0.87
03:17:17.340The federal government was flying in illegal immigrants and putting them up in hotels and giving them money for food, giving them cell phones.
03:17:26.480While you have homeless people in the streets who are not getting these benefits or actual citizens who are in poverty or who are struggling financially who aren't getting these benefits.0.83
03:17:59.820Okay, well, I mean, this is not exactly my claim, but, like, let's say, and a lot of these,0.97
03:18:04.560And a lot of illegal immigrants end up having children here, birthright citizenship, which is completely bogus.0.97
03:18:11.920So then the kids can apply through, I mean, really their parents are applying for CalFresh, for SNAP benefits through their citizen children.0.91
03:18:20.580But what you said was that those illegal immigrants are getting those services.0.57
03:18:24.080They receive benefits in like other ways, I would say.0.99
03:50:38.080Like, I think if we're going to contrast and compare, I think it's going to be way more likely a liberal woman is going to say, I hate men versus a conservative guy saying, I hate women.0.53
04:03:48.380So I think certain professions, you know, look, you're going to be limited by the amount of massages that you can actually give.
04:03:56.280But ultimately, if you're a hairdresser going into the marriage, you can just go back to being a hairdresser and like you can start charging the same amount.0.52
04:04:06.380And if you're a hairdresser or massage therapist dating an NBA player who's making $10 million a year, it's not clear to me if that woman should be entitled to his earning potential.
04:04:17.780her like if the courts were like look she was a massage therapist they make 70k a year
04:04:25.160he's gonna pay her uh something based on her earning potential that makes sense to me but1.00
04:04:32.720if you're kobe's wife rest in peace if you're you know lebron james's wife or whatever you didn't
04:04:39.180take those free shots you weren't swoosh you weren't duncan so it's like maybe you can get
04:04:45.320something but I mean from my perspective as a guy who doesn't want to get married if my girlfriend
04:04:50.260who I'm like seriously considering having children with was like hey Brian this is a concern I'd just
04:04:55.400be like okay um how about this every year we're together I'm just gonna put ten thousand dollars
04:05:00.920into an account and then if we split assuming you're not fucking cheating or something like0.78
04:05:06.340if you cheat sorry that's my money but if we look if I leave you and I'm just over it I'm being the0.99
04:05:13.480dickhead whatever every year we're married here's 10k and then in 10 years that's 100k
04:05:20.320that's still you can you can get back on your feet with 100k in california well 100k then you're
04:05:28.460back to work back to work you go are you gonna keep let her keep the certifications i think0.99
04:05:33.640realistically what do you mean you're you're a you show your pussy online you can just1.00
04:13:54.260Yeah, like there's not like a lawyer who – like maybe there's some tree lawyers.
04:13:59.680There's not a lot of lawyers who dedicate their time to litigating tree-related matters.0.98
04:14:06.060Now, by the way, so the reason I say this is trees, whether you know this or not, never cut down someone's tree because trees are fucking expensive.0.77
04:22:11.960There's a bias in the court system a little bit that puts a bit of a favor on women in this way.1.00
04:22:17.240Not necessarily, I couldn't point to a law, but there is, like, biases, and judges are going to, like, be a little harsher towards men in this scenario.
04:22:26.640The second thing, though, that is absolutely true, I think if a man is dating a female breadwinner, the man is way more likely than women who are in their counterpart position.0.98
04:22:37.720The man is way more likely to just – I'm not going to fucking shake you down for money.0.73
04:26:05.860I could still introduce her as my wife, even if she's not my wife.
04:26:08.580Just like you guys are saying, it's his insecurity of not, like, is it not a woman's insecurity of just wanting that title so that she knows that she's...
05:13:14.120It's like, for example, this isn't the case for men, but it is the case for women.
05:13:18.800Imagine if average dudes all over the globe could just like easily, super easily get sex from women who are one, two, three, four points above them.0.72
05:13:31.540But those women never wanted commitment from them.
05:13:34.000met like assuming like men were still men in the sense that we still are men but this
05:13:42.520specific dynamic has shifted that probably made no sense but whatever
05:13:45.960do you think the typical average guy would go ahead and settle for a girl in his league when1.00
05:13:52.720he's just getting a constant flow of more attractive pussy probably not in that same way1.00
05:13:58.940when you women are getting a flow of men who are more attractive and giving you casual sex1.00
05:14:06.260and you're giving them casual sex it's really like it's uh i don't know if this is making sense
05:14:13.400to any y'all but i would all maybe frame it like this has anybody ever had a roommate before like
05:14:18.820a person you live in a room with somebody yes anybody okay and then who here who's had that
05:14:25.340situation you have your own place now anybody or maybe you have your own bedroom at least maybe
05:14:31.480you still got housemates but you don't have a roommate uh housemates i rent a studio okay so
05:14:38.460you have a private bathroom too yes have you ever shared a bathroom yes okay now that you've had1.00
05:14:43.500the private life you can walk around your studio naked and do whatever the fuck you do uh katie i1.00
05:14:50.100don't know if you're whatever walk around naked and your private bathroom and you can sing in the1.00
05:14:55.260shower and do whatever, you know, I guess you can sing in the shower and whatever. Do you think it
05:15:00.380would be hard for you to go back to living in the same room with somebody now that you've had a
05:15:04.920taste of living alone? 100%. Right. In that same way, imagine if you're going off to college and
05:15:11.500you live in a dorm room with like four other people, three other people, two other people,0.51
05:15:15.000you got bunk beds and shit, but then you graduated and then say you got a good job
05:15:21.600and then you have your own two-bedroom apartment.0.98
05:15:24.900You got an office in there and you got heated floors
05:18:35.180um okay you gave yourself an eight can you pop the glasses off just put them on the table there
05:18:40.120for me thank you very much appreciate it thank you all right pull a little can you little hair
05:18:46.060back a little bit thank you all right um hmm i think you're actually better looking in person
05:18:53.040than you are on camera 100 uh story of my life yeah uh you gave yourself an eight
05:19:00.640you're you're you're you are above average looking uh thank you i think i'd put you0.90
05:19:09.500not to be a fucking zoomer uh i think i'd maybe put you like 5.75 i was gonna say six to seven0.95
05:19:17.980but uh i think 5.75 to 6.75 yeah okay all right you gave yourself a 10 oh boy0.98
05:19:30.580here we go oh yeah we're going to talk about the titty tattoo um after after uh tiffany door open
05:19:38.260all the way please just keep an eye on it um you gave yourself a 10 i'd give you a three
05:19:46.440uh you gave yourself a six really quick how many plastic surgeries have you had
05:19:53.000uh have you had more than one bbl no more than one breast yeah i've had two two lipo
05:20:03.000lip filler botox anything else um you have the the fat transfer in the hips or whatever it's
05:20:13.300called i mean they did that during the bbl that's part is it part of the bbl okay well
05:20:17.860Because when I think butt, I think, like, the, not exterior, I don't know, whatever, the derriere, but I guess they do the hip dips or whatever, too.
05:45:31.760So the Commonwealth of Massachusetts makes you prove that the defendant was sane beyond a reasonable doubt at the time of the killing.
05:45:44.240And so I think that under that definition, she absolutely is not guilty by reason of insanity.
05:45:52.960I think if she were tried in Texas or California, in that case, the defense has to prove that she was insane beyond a reasonable doubt.
05:46:01.940But I think just like you mentioned the drugs, I think that just having that much doubt of 14 different drugs, she had four in her system.
05:46:12.020But, you know, we don't talk enough about the side effects of cycling on and off SSRIs and benzodiazepines and antipsychotics.
05:46:20.840So as far as who should be held responsible, I think that if she is not responsible, that we should be looking and hammering on the pharmaceutical companies and the doctors that are overprescribing everything.
05:46:34.660So, yes, according to Massachusetts law, I'd say not guilty by reason of insanity.
05:46:40.260And then you hammer the same way we should do look at, at least for school shootings, like you hammer the people that contributed as well.
05:46:49.120Wait, wait, who are the people that contribute to school shootings?
05:46:53.100Talk about, like, do you think we should go after firearms manufacturers?
05:47:40.420Well, she, under Massachusetts Commonwealth law, the people of Massachusetts have decided that that is an appropriate definition, that she is not guilty.
05:47:50.400I would have to look into the, well, I guess a couple of things here, as far as like the SSRI stuff, it seems as though, look, I agree with you insofar as these medications can have profound negative impacts on people.
05:48:10.020and however I'm not I'm not fully on board with like going after um there's plenty of criticism
05:48:18.780trust me that even I have towards these big pharmaceutical companies um personally don't
05:48:24.620think SSRIs are really good uh don't think people should be on them I think there's other ways to0.94
05:48:30.100address like you know that's such the depression shit is another conversation but um I don't know
05:48:39.540if it really makes sense like if you're on SSRIs like most people on SSRIs do not end up doing0.97
05:48:46.780school shootings so it seems like putting a bit too much blame I think on the drug companies
05:48:52.400there's plenty of criticisms that are completely fair of these big pharma companies but1.00
05:48:57.160related to Lindsay Clancy yes she was on the cocktail of like a bunch of retarded medications0.80
05:49:02.380or whatever um and i think there's that's a fair line of inquiry however um and she wasn't on all0.99
05:49:10.380of them i think like these people are so cool with their cars um their fucking motorcycles or0.99
05:49:17.800whatever uh the drugs she was on i like i mean yeah she was on the drugs but like she did fucking0.99
05:49:28.460kill the kids and it's like would we ever grant a man who rapes a woman or like grant a man who0.99
05:49:35.560like has ptsd and kills his family um i think lindsey clancy got a lot of support that otherwise0.99
05:49:42.840wouldn't exist if it was a man in the exact same circumstances and so look there's a whole bunch
05:49:48.440here to the case where yeah she was taking these medications there she had psychosis she had
05:49:53.560postpartum depression she had all that but it's like look um and you you're right to the in the0.96
05:50:01.160sense that massachusetts has a fucking retarded law uh but and perhaps that law needs to be0.97
05:50:08.120revisited my argument with this insanity defense nonsense how long are we leaving this up by the0.99
05:50:13.900way i don't i don't know if we're just perma leaving shit up now um can can somebody stop0.98
05:50:19.760somebody's like playing with a piece of paper or something can you just stop whoever it is0.83
05:50:23.840I think that we need to get rid of the insanity defense because especially when it's it's almost0.99
05:50:30.760you're not doing an insanity defense when you get caught shoplifting it's used in fucking murder0.99
05:50:36.760cases and who the fuck is ever in the right mind if you've murdered somebody like you're obviously0.99
05:50:43.500not right in the head if you've resorted to murdering somebody and I can understand there0.99
05:50:47.900are instances of like severe mental illness you have schizophrenics by the way schizophrenics who0.99
05:50:53.540have psychosis almost never get let off the hook due to insanity they get fucking prison time and0.84
05:50:59.020death sentences uh but that aside uh i really don't think it's a juror's job to make a determination0.95
05:51:07.720as to the mind state of the person i think juries should be uh did the person commit the crime in
05:51:15.180this case there's no doubt that lindsey clancy actually did kill her children um i think the
05:51:21.240jury should just establish did she commit the crime great guilty of murder uh now from there
05:51:27.500we can perhaps a judge or a psychiatric expert can make a determination uh at sentencing or at
05:51:35.000some other point does this person belong in uh typical prison confinement or do they belong in
05:51:42.140a mental institution or psychiatric confinement it's not the jury's job i think to be like okay0.99
05:51:49.340well she's insane so we're gonna no it's like did you commit the crime yes or no she fucking did1.00
05:51:54.680that shit um personally i she for me it's a guilty i wish i was on that jury i wish i was1.00
05:52:03.820that black jury i would have loved every fucking minute these fucking karens one of these karens1.00
05:52:10.240on that jury who want to let a woman walk. They're fucking activists. And yeah, Lindsay Clancy killed1.00
05:52:17.240her three kids. When can a man say, well, I raped her because I PTSD. Give me insanity plea. Like0.99
05:52:25.100what the fuck? No, there's like, there's a lot of other cases where men murk their entire family1.00
05:52:31.780and they, they try to do insanity or whatever. The jury comes back 20 minutes later, guilty.
05:52:40.240death sentence but because it's a woman0.99
05:52:42.800and we're gonna we're gonna let it slide i say something i think a big reason she has so many1.00
05:52:51.500supporters is because people are retarded yes well that i mean yes for sure and the way her0.83
05:52:57.440ex-husband moved after the whole which i don't i don't care i think people just took it out of0.91
05:53:03.300context and decided that they had nothing better to do in their life than how did they do anything
05:53:08.620I mean, from what I've seen, people are digging at the fact that he got married after that
05:53:13.520he did that, after that he had a child.
05:54:20.580But even the guy that basically caused the mistrial, he said, I had reasonable doubt as to her sanity, but I couldn't forget about the kids.
05:58:44.240How about this? Before this one, let's do past should not matter. Katie, you agree. Scarlett, you agree. Lexi, you agree. Christina, agree. Brianna, agree.
05:59:06.860Okay, that's it. So those of you who said past should not matter, why is that?
06:10:32.000Like who just above and beyond the other dudes, rocked your world, and then sex now has the dimmer switch turned down because the other guys don't quite, now look, it can still be enjoyable, I get that.
06:10:46.800but it's like during let me ask you a question during sex with a new guy after the good guy
06:10:53.480did you ever like in your brain while having sex with the new guy think about the old guy0.99
06:11:00.200the old guy was the last guy i had sex with and i couldn't bring myself to fuck the other ones0.99
06:11:05.520because i just wanted okay well that's going to be difficult then yeah uh well look i mean i can0.99
06:11:11.020tell you, look, I'll give you the male perspective. So as a man, the typical woman's not going to be
06:11:17.180like insanely multi-orgasmic and come like that. But if you roll the dice enough, if you roll the0.99
06:11:23.360dice enough as a man, you're going to encounter a woman who just comes in five seconds and can have0.99
06:11:29.000like 20 orgasms. And that takes immense pressure off of you as the man. And like, it's more0.98
06:11:35.080pleasurable she's fucking coming it's psychologically stimulating i would argue0.99
06:11:40.200from the like basically the mirror image for the male perspective once you've rolled the dice as a1.00
06:11:45.400man and you've landed on a woman who has that like component of her sexually dating the woman who take0.99
06:11:51.380who can't even orgasm from just penetration and it takes her fucking 30 minutes of like rubik's cube1.00
06:11:58.880clit rubbing sure uh it's like i don't know it's not as like good you know it's like oh my god i1.00
06:12:07.160get fucking carpal tunnel syndrome my fucking oh my god like i don't have big meaty man arms you0.99
06:12:13.400know they can just go fucking rapid fire for 30 minutes straight and not get a little cramp in my1.00
06:12:18.560forearm okay brian what's up it sounds like you don't know what you're doing brah that's what i0.99
06:18:27.580So what ends up happening, though, is if you're a woman and you fucked 300 men, the guy who, like, is really good in bed might not be the guy that's, like, ripe for you to marry.0.68
06:18:38.120but the guy who's right for you to marry might not uh level up so to speak to that guy who's0.98
06:18:45.160really good in bed now the woman's playing a comparison game and she's going to be sexually1.00
06:18:48.960dissatisfied in the relationship because she gigafried her brain because she can no longer1.00
06:18:54.100pair bond well again that's that's uh the extreme that's well 300 is an extreme right but like it1.00
06:19:00.120really doesn't take that long to roll the dice as a woman before you land on a guy who fucks you
06:19:04.220just right and now you're gigafucked for life i don't think that's true if you're gonna marry0.91
06:19:11.620somebody and also those are conversations that you can have with your partner no guy wants to
06:19:16.520marry a girl like is it okay is it possible it's not just possible it's probably like
06:19:21.080most women who marry a man yeah i'm going to wager that man is not necessarily like
06:19:27.420i'm not saying all marriages but maybe it's 20 30 40 percent0.99
06:19:31.420they don't marry the best sex they've ever had because they done fucked 5 10 15 20 dudes and0.99
06:19:39.960they rolled the dice and they landed on a dick that fucks them just right and so uh i think it's1.00
06:19:46.580a really it's like fuck one she's not going to respect you two uh yeah she's going to do the1.00
06:19:52.680comparison game and then imagine as the dude you're with a woman say she's sexually more1.00
06:19:57.840experienced than you she every time you're in bed with her being intimate making love0.99
06:20:04.540she's thinking about the better dick that's how it is if you've married someone you think she's1.00
06:20:10.540going to be uh thinking about another dick well am i wrong do you am i just bro you guys are full1.00
06:20:18.160shit no we don't know do you think that this is just complete conjecture and i'm making this up1.00
06:20:23.500and there by the way it doesn't even have to be about sex it can be about we were talking about0.99
06:20:27.420i think there are some women that care about sex more than others for sure but hold on i understand
06:20:31.020women care about more about than just sex that's not what i'm talking about what are the priorities
06:20:35.260are you go by the way i'm not making this strictly a gendered thing men can also experience this too
06:20:40.760like once you've dated as a man or a woman whatever the metric is it could be really good
06:20:47.080in bed it could be like this is your soulmate it could be this person is the most attractive
06:20:51.760person you've ever dated you are to going to a degree going to be like
06:20:58.400there was something better about the last person
06:21:02.740not and that's not ideal for a relationship not if you are that's why like chastity is more ideal
06:21:10.020certainly in women no if you're in love with someone and you're like dating them and you're0.98
06:21:13.660gonna marry them like that's can you be in love with someone who's bad in bed yeah and it causes
06:21:18.740issues in the relationship that's something you can talk talk about it and yeah but i think there's0.97
06:21:23.200a you can learn and teach and do all this women don't want to teach by the way but um so too
06:21:28.520most that's not attractive to most women most women just want the guy who gets it0.96
06:21:33.280and maybe you can guide him a teeny bit but most women are not going to be satisfied0.90
06:38:06.020are both back there okay that's fine that's fine just just wanted to do a check-in um
06:38:14.660so look i don't think high body count guarantees bad behavior but i do think it can be a potential
06:38:20.780indicator about the person i think it depends on the story behind it i guess like yeah if someone's
06:38:26.160doing too much then sure i guess but like somebody can completely change and you might say men who
06:38:31.880would still care are irrational but women are also like we all judge based off of arguably
06:38:39.500irrational things so even if you argue that it's irrational for a man to uh care about a woman's
06:38:48.100body count they can still have the preference i think it's for both just to be clear both men and
06:38:54.620women yeah but women just typically don't care that much about it yeah that's true compared to
06:38:58.420men care more yeah anyways like a guy would look at like chris brown like women will look at chris0.99
06:39:05.940brown who's probably fucked like hundreds if not thousands of women yeah and be like don't give a0.99
06:39:10.660fuck way more men are gonna look at a woman who's like fucked a thousand men yeah and be like that's1.00
06:39:16.140however attractive she is now look there's still men who will fuck her which and they're disgusting1.00
06:39:21.400too yeah um but way more men will look at that and be like yeah that's that's that's a negative0.99
06:39:28.900whereas women are willing to overlook male promiscuity if the guy is so to speak high value
06:39:34.380enough what's high value to you well i mean typically people who have typically people who
06:39:41.180have massive amounts of status like chris brown who's like rich good looking uh i mean you might0.85
06:39:46.420say the fact like the shit with rihanna for some women that's going to be a major issue but a lot0.96
06:39:51.440of women overlook the rihanna shit even then so yeah i would argue chris brown's like a high value0.99
06:39:57.740guy in a different way than i would say like you would look at a non-celebrity man as high value0.97
06:40:03.060i personally don't like hip-hop and rap music so that's but i mean most women are going to probably
06:40:09.060assess chris brown as like a high value guy okay what about like a normal society sure so okay
06:40:15.220what's your question uh like what what what constitutes a high value man but besides because
06:40:20.260like status sure but if you're talking about like celebrities that's what yeah sure i mean this is
06:40:24.880this is going to vary and there's there's uh various things that can contribute to a guy
06:40:30.100being high value yeah uh and that that is going to differ a little bit from woman to woman but i
06:40:35.420would say i would say that a guy who's virtuous a guy who's a man of its word a guy who has
06:40:44.540temperance. So this would, I personally think like, um, obviously someone who like, isn't a
06:40:50.960fucking drug addict. Uh, now you can, you can drink a little bit. Um, but I think if you're0.99
06:40:59.960an alcoholic, that's going to probably take you down the notch a little bit there. Um,
06:41:08.340probably a man who's a provider, a good father, a good partner, good husband, boyfriend, whatever
06:41:13.400it is okay uh what else um would you consider yourself a high value man uh it depends on what
06:41:24.820i think there's various factors that can contribute to that um in some dimensions yes and in other
06:41:30.800ways i'm i would say i'm lacking it depends on the woman like i'm overweight right now and i think
06:41:35.140a component of being like a high value man is like having a degree of physical fitness sure
06:41:39.660Now, look, I would say I've had on some, for my age, I've had some, like, unfortunate injuries that, look, I'm not going to completely just make excuses, but, like, my back and neck is probably, like, compared to, like, the average person my age or when I initially had my injuries.
06:43:23.040I, some of the things you just, doctors don't have solutions. Right. Uh, and then you just
06:43:28.500deal with it. I mean, but that's part of, actually that's part of being a man, uh, is like, I'm not,
06:43:34.180I, I've maneuvered as best I can given my limitations. So I would argue my attitude
06:43:42.520towards that is not, okay, well, I'm just going to wallow in self-pity and just like, I do what I
06:43:48.820can uh and i still work hard as fuck and uh i would say that uh like moving on with the burdens0.68
06:43:58.140in your life is high value uh characteristic i would say i'm intelligent that's another high0.92
06:44:03.380value trait um probably some other things too i'm not afraid to speak my mind which some people
06:44:10.560might have an issue with but i'm a truth teller i'm a truth speaker i'm not afraid to say
06:44:16.000uh uncomfortable truths i'm not going to lie to you i'm not going to lie to
06:44:20.020to people so uh yeah okay and let just one more thing real quick just your your physical fitness
06:44:27.560um yeah so you do you think that i guess the the high value part is not that but is it more of a
06:44:35.420health thing like i like discipline health versus you just eating whatever i mean i have i have
06:44:40.840very strong discipline in other ways, but like with, uh, I would say with like diet or
06:44:46.780physical training. Uh, now keep in mind, you have to balance that with the fact
06:44:52.640that I have injuries and I have chronic pain issues, which like for a normal person to go
06:44:58.580on a run, that's, that's, that's easy for them to do. Whereas for me, it's like, there's other
06:45:03.980considerations at hand um but uh so i mean but yeah if you're overweight like that's not well
06:45:12.260let me let me rephrase real quick um so what it's better to have like a good physique yeah but for
06:45:16.800your own health but also just like yeah for like having a good outward appearance beyond just your
06:45:22.220health yeah that confers benefits in other ways too correct like people respect you more so it's
06:45:26.860not just about you know like if you're fat people don't respect you as much sure basically so i'm
06:45:31.060overweight so people don't people are going to have less respect for you sure you're really not
06:45:35.340that big though no i'm overweight but average yeah no i'm overweight it's okay you don't have
06:45:40.840to coddle me but uh go ahead uh no yeah just i wanted to know if it was more about the looks or
06:45:46.700the health discipline part of it that that's it um perhaps both i guess okay yeah i guess both um
06:45:55.540Okay. But look, I think that I guess to wrap up on the body count conversation, um, I do think that, um, there would perhaps, there can be a bit of a misalignment in terms of how do this, how does this person view sex? If it's just like, like my philosophy is, let me ask you a question. Can you fuck a guy? And then the very next day he means nothing to you.
06:46:19.640yeah yeah see i think you're broken no offense so if you can sleep with a woman by the way a man
06:46:27.240who feels that way towards a woman i think is broken to to a similar degree um if a woman sleeps
06:46:33.920with you she should have some attachment to you so for a woman to be able to sleep with a guy
06:46:40.760and he means nothing to her 24 hours later like assuming like say he didn't do anything wrong0.99
06:46:46.340you're just trying to get your nut or whatever whatever people say that's like honestly fucking0.98
06:46:51.680super blackpilling and depressing and as a woman if you have sex with a guy you should be bonded0.99
06:46:58.820to the guy like you should want to fight to keep the guy if you can just walk away from a man who
06:47:04.140was inside of you and just be like next i don't know you can't bond you're broken
06:47:12.120now look i can do that huh it's okay for a man to do that he just said no i i think i look i think
06:47:18.920it's a bit different because um uh i there are some differences but i do i would say that also0.98
06:47:25.300if you're if you're a dude and like you can just fuck a girl and then she means nothing to you0.74
06:47:30.780i'd say that's you're somewhat broken also it's different though can i ask you something have you0.99
06:47:37.420been diagnosed with like any anything at all you don't mind bipolar okay yeah because a lot of
06:47:43.500from my understanding is people that have been diagnosed with bipolar or certain types of autism
06:47:48.580or what are certain parts of the spectrum they're like hypersexual a lot of the time and it's part
06:47:53.080of that and that's why a lot of girls that do only fans are diagnosed with something it seems
06:47:57.840like okay yeah just medically like it's not i'm not trying to date you it's that's that's my
06:48:05.360understanding is a lot of time i don't think autism really correlates with girls who do only
06:48:11.060fans but no no i'm saying that take yeah no it's kind of like one of those you know all girls who
06:48:16.460are bipolar or whatever they have doing it's not like that it's like just the ones that are there
06:48:21.580a lot of the time illness yeah or some they have something that they're diagnosed with again uh
06:48:26.300it's not a bad thing to have mental illness obviously but it's also chicken and egg it's
06:48:30.720one of the symptoms of bipolar to sexually act out i think we take women that are that's my
06:48:35.700understanding out sexually for other reasons and then give them a label that that's like oh i'm0.99
06:48:42.260i she's bipolar that's why she's acting that way and i don't know i just it's chicken or i wouldn't
06:48:47.880say it like that i happen to be acting this way and i'm bipolar yeah like they're they're two
06:48:52.980things uh wait uh blasting through the notes here uh brianna you describe yourself as a seer
06:48:59.160i said what in your instagram bio it says uh yeah seer what is a seer seer is basically somebody
06:49:06.540who can connect emotionally to people sometimes get visions and um yeah as a musical artist i
06:49:13.840think most of us are gifted in different ways okay cool uh did anyone else have any thoughts
06:49:22.040on the body count debate gone once twice no okay uh let's see here why don't we get to wait hold
06:49:32.500on oh okay let's finish up your notes uh scarlet uh actually no we'll come back to your notes in
06:49:39.400a little bit but there's there's more let's i'm gonna finish up the questionnaire uh let's see1.00
06:49:44.240here um katie you circled the following getting late is harder for women and maybe that was a
06:49:51.440mistake but do you agree with that statement that was a mistake okay didn't mean to do that
06:49:55.860uh you circle you agree a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that
06:50:01.780um i just don't think that that has anything to do with their value it doesn't no you don't think
06:50:11.620physical looks for both men and women has nothing to do with i might be the wrong person to ask i
06:50:17.740truly go for personality i can confirm that she has dated some questionable has dated some okay
06:50:25.400um so if we were to look at your past three boyfriends or you know however many it's been
06:50:29.860they would just all not be unattractive not my last my last one was attractive0.96
06:50:36.420but short as fuck no my last one the most recent ex that i dated for the longest was attractive
06:50:44.920Well, then would you similarly say this to women who have a high preference?0.98
06:50:48.760So a woman who rejects a man because he's 5'3", do you think that that's wrong?
06:50:54.080If they're purely basing it off of him being 5'3", I would say it's wrong,
06:51:01.520but it's also okay for them to have a preference just like it is a man for looks.
06:51:05.840But so is it then okay for a man to reject a woman because of her weight?
06:51:11.380Yeah, I suppose it is then if it's not their preference.
06:51:14.400okay i'm not sure let me see i don't know if anyone else circled on that one uh brianna you
06:51:20.640actually agree a woman should not be rejected because of her weight why is that yes of course
06:51:25.360because we can change weight at any time right oh wait so you're saying the man should date her
06:51:32.640because maybe with the hope that she loses weight or gain weight like i've been a lot of different1.00
06:51:39.840sizes closer to the mic um yeah but okay but so i understand that women can change but like1.00
06:51:45.340say a man stumbles upon a morbidly obese 500 pound woman it is technically true that she could lose1.00
06:51:53.560the 300 pounds or so that she needs well what did i say 400 you said 500 okay so she needs to lose
06:52:01.920like 350 pounds or something um not impossible that's a long road though unlikely i've seen that
06:52:10.740i've seen couple who are way bigger than their partner so i agree with you you we do see those
06:52:18.880relationships but is it wrong for a given man to reject a woman because of her weight say she's
06:52:25.880like fat no okay all right uh wrong for men to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him
06:52:33.340down for sex scarlet you agree with that uh let's see if anyone else agrees with that0.82
06:52:40.800brianna you agree okay uh why is that scarlet um i think it could just be talked out like
06:52:49.820why figure out like what's that's my thing i'm a big communicator like what is actually
06:52:54.340going on and that we can fix it because i feel like 90 of the time if we just talk about stuff
06:52:59.860we can fix it like don't just jump to breaking up well so i agree with you i think if there's a
06:53:06.420decline in the frequency of intimacy and sex certainly that can be a conversation prior to
06:53:14.260a breakup yeah but i think here that wasn't the question i think here though well i think it's
06:53:20.440feel free to perhaps think about that I guess read between the lines um but let's say in a
06:53:24.940scenario where there is a conversation being had the boyfriend goes to the girlfriend is like
06:53:28.520hey listen I love you I want to stay with you um but I you know I feel like we're not having sex0.95
06:53:35.960as much as we used to or we're not having sex as much as I'd like um I would can we have more sex0.78
06:53:43.060like you know what I would I would hope and she's like understanding about it like what can I do
06:53:48.120what's going on like what do you what do you need me to do or what are you wanting to do like what
06:53:52.740is there going on and if they don't want to do that then well what if it's kind of messed up and
06:53:57.320then then you really don't let me like that if you're not willing to like hold out for a little
06:54:01.380bit you know sometimes the man doesn't love if he's not willing to hold out sometimes a girl just0.96
06:54:06.480doesn't want to fuck well no okay look it's completely fair in a relationship whether you're0.94
06:54:11.640a man or a woman if there's like particular instances for short periods where you're not0.99
06:54:17.400feeling well, or sometimes there's elongated illnesses, right? Right. But setting, setting
06:54:22.300that aside, if you're not feeling up to it, you guys live together and you know, you'll have sex
06:54:27.880the next day. That's not a big deal. If your girl doesn't want to have sex, she's, she's not feeling
06:54:31.980it. I'm not feeling it. It's okay. But when we're talking about weeks, months, no sex, and not just0.80
06:54:39.860no sex but rejection rejection rejection rejection no no no then i think uh i guess my question to
06:54:50.040you would be um assuming the conversation's been had let's say the woman's like well there's not
06:54:57.640anything really wrong i just don't want to have sex as often as you do should the man just be like
06:55:03.700okay should the woman maybe there there's a middle ground like okay the guy the woman will put in a0.85
06:55:11.160bit more effort to have sex it might not be as frequently as the guy wants to have sex but it'll0.79
06:55:16.100be more than it has been yeah definitely in that conversation it would not just be the man trying
06:55:21.880to say what can I do for you what can I do for you it would definitely be also me trying to be
06:55:25.900like where can we find this middle ground but at the end of it if he's like that's not enough for
06:55:29.900me yeah then leave okay so you're fine hostage yeah but i do think you're kind of wrong for that0.99
06:55:36.560like you clearly don't love me as much as you say you do if you cannot handle not getting your dick0.99
06:55:42.360wet for a couple months a couple months couple months you know i've couple months i don't know0.99
06:55:48.980i feel like a couple months like three months it's a long time i don't know i don't know i feel like
06:55:55.040that's not that bad um yeah that's pretty bad yeah that's really bad i don't know okay well
06:56:03.460something's really wrong there i mean i've never done that i'm only 18 i'm not in like some
06:56:08.660committed relationship where i'm not holding out or giving out a long time in a relationship i would
06:56:13.240just be like if you really love me you would do whatever so so the guy for three months and he
06:56:19.100always respects your boundaries but you know on monday he shoots his shot once turn him down
06:56:24.160Tuesday turn him down Wednesday turn him down three months of that and you think that he's
06:56:32.240wrong if he breaks up with you at the three month well I mean in an ideal world we would have a0.99
06:56:37.120conversation where we got to that no there is a conversation but say the woman is taking like the0.98
06:56:41.400really hard line and she's like look uh I love you I want to be with you but I just my libido's
06:56:49.680not there yeah i guess i'm just delusional of the man who really really wants you will wait
06:56:55.000just like look just like the people who are waiting for marriage and they hop skip and
06:57:01.460jump together for years and years and years before they ever get married and have sex
06:57:04.980you can wait just well but this can occur in a marriage where like okay there's no more
06:57:10.400once you're married there's no more if you waited for like what if you lost your virginity at like
06:57:15.68017 if you waited that long you can wait a couple months no but in a relationship with each other
06:57:22.620every night and you just keep saying no i mean i guess and it's so much to them it is so little
06:57:28.780for us so much to them like it is that sucks and that's not my problem like if you love me
06:57:34.300you'll stay if you don't well good yeah but if you love him you would want to also make him happy0.88
06:57:38.780yeah but i'm also not going to sit there like a freaking limp well nobody said you can't have fun
06:57:44.240but i don't want it it's not gonna be fun if i don't want it i don't want it it's not fun for0.92
06:57:50.200me and i'm just sitting there letting him do whatever that's not fun for me set him free
06:57:54.840that's what i said if he doesn't want me he can go no you can also have this conversation before
06:57:59.460you start dating someone seriously no if we had this dry spell or whatever we would have had that
06:58:03.820conversation hypothetically this serious relationship i'm in we would have had that
06:58:07.240conversation at this point but you also have to think about what that does to him mentally he's
06:58:11.740going to sit and question why does it my wife or my serious girlfriend not want to do that and we
06:58:16.960would have had a conversation i would have told them hey i'm not feeling good i'm not either i'm
06:58:21.180not feeling good in myself something's going on i need to go to the doctor a b or c but like if you
06:58:25.820just like are like okay this isn't going to work for me anymore you can go it's okay go find someone
06:58:31.380yeah i don't know i think look um if if your boyfriend or girlfriend or whatever doesn't
06:58:41.640isn't in the mood for like a given night or two i think that's totally fine the guys who are like0.94
06:58:46.760you won't fuck me this one time it's over that's obviously ridiculous but girls who are like weeks0.98
06:58:52.280months on end rejecting their i mean or look the dudes rejecting the girlfriend hey i think it's0.99
06:58:58.880fair if you to break up i think that's that's fair game you have the conversation and they're
06:59:03.660just like well it's like and guys we couldn't get away with this it's like you know what
06:59:08.940i just don't feel like going to work i just don't feel like paying the bills1.00
06:59:13.940for weeks and months that doesn't fly with women we can't do that1.00
06:59:18.460how does not giving sex and paying the bills correlate0.53
06:59:22.100uh well it's like it has to do with expectations so if like a woman's expectation is the man be a
06:59:28.120provider right i think i think both people can have an expectation in a relationship oh we're
06:59:33.860going to agree to be monogamous you're the only person i can have sex with we should we should
06:59:39.480fulfill each other and have sex with each other and fulfill care about the other person's needs0.74
06:59:45.340yeah i'll care about your needs but i'm sorry if i'm not into it i'm not just gonna lay there and0.63
06:59:50.780take it that's that's weird to me well i think you can look i think you can he can leave i don't
06:59:56.820want him if he's going to do that of course the ideal scenario is you're both i'm not i'm not a
07:00:00.960man pleaser i'm sorry okay look the ideal scenario is you're both equally enthusiastic about having
07:00:07.320sex and you both do so at a frequency that is perfectly satisfactory to both of you um that's
07:00:14.980of course the ideal but i i don't i don't know if there's anything wrong with um0.99
07:00:21.960like sometimes my girlfriend's fuck when i do have a girlfriend she's begging for it0.98
07:00:31.440she's begging and i'm tired i got a hard job i'm working fucking 78 hours a week0.99
07:00:37.840and she's like begging and you know i think your enthusiasm can be higher lower0.97
07:00:44.280sometimes you do your girlfriend your girlfriend a solid you're like you know what i'll get in the
07:00:50.180mood just i'll stick it i'll get there i'll get in the mood okay just all right tough crowd tough
07:00:59.300crowd you never regret it when you're done like there's a i don't know it's never like oh i
07:01:07.800shouldn't have done it's like going to the gym almost where you're never like oh i shouldn't
07:01:11.380have done that even at first you were like i'm tired or whatever and then at the end you feel
07:01:16.240great so true um okay uh let's see um okay so woman shouldn't wrong for a man we already talked
07:01:25.620about that uh wait hold on uh yes okay scarlet men should provide protect men should be chivalrous
07:01:37.000your husband should be willing to die protecting you you're going to keep your last name or hyphenate
07:01:41.560in marriage and your kids will take your last name or hyphenate why is that i'd like to start
07:01:50.100off by saying i don't really plan on marrying or having kids but if you did if i did um why should
07:01:56.860i lose my last name that's my last name it's part of my child's last name why should that
07:02:02.520why should i lose that i'm down to hyphenate sure why should men provide protect why should
07:02:07.580be chivalrous why should your husband be willing to die for you i think they should be able to
07:02:12.600provide and protect for their family if that is what they decided they wanted this is what we
07:02:16.800agreed upon they should be willing to provide and protect for their family right but so that's
07:02:24.900holding men to a traditional standard if that is what we wanted yeah if that was the family but i'm
07:02:29.660i don't want that genuinely but like when i'm talking about family like that it's usually in
07:02:33.780a traditional you think it's impossible that one day you'll marry a guy like it's completely
07:02:39.720impossible probably yeah and then kids also impossible yeah because you can have kids
07:02:44.900outside of marriage but um i just don't want that i don't want to be a mommy all right that's fine
07:02:49.940um i do think that is uh well i mean you don't want to have kids so it's like well whatever
07:02:57.940i guess it's a moot point uh let's see if there's anything else on that
08:01:00.180You can't undo death, but you can heal from traumatic experiences.
08:01:04.920It's also to say that every woman feels the same.
08:01:07.500I'm not coming at you or anything, but obviously none of us can really speak for every woman that's ever experienced rape or any type of sexual assault.
08:01:15.460we can't really say that every single woman that's ever experienced something like that
08:01:19.320feels the exact same way that's does to me doesn't really make sense also do want to add that like
08:01:24.360kind of comparing survivors of essay to like these people like these fallen soldiers that
08:01:30.120went out to like risk their life for our country is low-key kind of disrespectful and i know that
08:01:34.080you're you're not from here but like no matter what side you are on politics low-key we love
08:01:40.740our soldiers no matter what no matter what i mean they laid down their lives for us was a soldier
08:01:46.200and like it's not because you're not from here i'm just saying that like would you rather say
08:01:53.840that uh at the end of the day they're alive i think that's not comparable in the first place
08:01:58.480it's two very separate tragedies well i i actually she she makes a good point like that i agree with
08:02:06.600her so i i think that if you've volunteered to go the military now i i introduced a bit of nuance
08:02:14.100there but if you volunteered i think it is fair to say it's like you've you've acknowledged and
08:02:20.660agreed to some degree that hey if you join the military there is a chance that you get killed
08:02:27.320or you see combat or you die or you get injured like that's you're sort of agreeing with the
08:02:32.740the united states government in this case like hey i'm i am consenting to this so it it does
08:02:41.360create a bit of a discrepancy i guess but ultimately by the way we got andrew wilson0.62
08:02:45.080who gave us a late night raid what the fuck was andrew doing did he just send a raid what was
08:02:50.140doing up until 1 a.m uh thank you for the raid andrew uh i don't know if i just am did it come0.92
08:02:57.380in like a long time ago maybe i'm just seeing it but i'm seeing it now so i don't know but i really
08:03:01.680quick just i guess okay how many men are you willing to let die to prevent one rape
08:03:06.180i will not let any man die and i will not let any woman who have been raped feel like
08:03:15.420oh my god i am less worthy because uh no i think a female are the high risk of a victim when it
08:03:25.700come to a war and the kids okay so women are the primary victims of war and kids yes okay but
08:03:33.000okay say 10 million men die in a war and 100,000 women get raped0.99
08:03:42.160both terrible both fucking terrible but in terms of primary victimhood0.98
08:03:50.320can we not like in the one dimension that men almost uniquely exclusively suffer are we can0.99
08:03:59.800we not give men one little no man should no nobody deserves to like have a premature death
08:04:08.000no one deserves that but we're talking about no one deserves to be still alive a person who still
08:04:14.280have feelings but they don't feel the feelings but i don't really understand that okay so wait
08:04:19.860how about this um who's the primary victim say a man dies in war is he the primary victim or is
08:04:28.580his grieving mother a bigger victim i would say it's kind of equal it's the same okay well
08:04:36.620so being dead and being dead feeling bad and being dead like you are alive but you feel dead
08:04:44.060because somebody took your power from you like no but i'm talking about okay the grieving mother
08:04:49.060that's obviously like losing your child yes uh that that's terrible right um we all hope
08:04:55.060that we we don't i suppose outlive our children um but okay can you heal from the loss of a loved
08:05:07.300one like our grandparents die our parents die can you heal from that yeah with memories you
08:05:16.440can heal with time going on yes a child no okay i yes you can carry that for a long time even a
08:05:24.820parent dying you can carry that for a long time certainly at least for me i have a great affinity
08:05:30.840for my parents and i actually think you know i think my life will be probably a disaster for
08:05:38.260anywhere from three to six months and it'll slowly get better and but i do think like permanently
08:05:43.320the dimmer switch will be turned down once my parents die uh and i'll be very sad and it'll
08:05:48.840bring me uh it'll bring me a lot of sadness for a very very long time for long many years you
08:05:58.820learn to live with it but i you do adapt and days get better and it's really different than losing
08:06:05.920your child though well it is like that's your world right there well sure i under so i agree
08:06:10.520that that's that's a bigger harm i think that's going to cause a bigger harm losing your child
08:06:14.660uh than than losing your parent i think both are very going to be very difficult for many people
08:06:20.260but from her perspective she's saying that so the primary victim is the one who's dead
08:06:28.100the the grieving family are secondary victims like for example if say my brother
08:06:37.260my hypothetical brother gets murdered that's gonna hurt right but he's the primary victim
08:06:48.340so i'm gonna feel really bad about it does that make sense or not really it makes sense but i
08:06:57.520thought your question was about the female who got raped and the man who was sent into yes but
08:07:03.900so then then we're talking about scales of harm and suffering and loss so like again just to
08:07:11.640reiterate once more uh essay terrible crime like very harmful to women however like i just don't
08:07:20.580know how you get around like some people are going to like i don't even need to argue that
08:07:26.140technically like say my perspective is uh like to be killed is worse than being essayed i can speak0.95
08:07:33.440for myself um i would rather survive like if i have to choose okay brian you can be murdered
08:07:41.320and your life's over or you can be essayed obviously be really terrible to be essayed0.97
08:07:47.100and i'd have a fuck ton of trauma and it'd be like really really bad but i'd rather live0.57
08:07:51.400right but even like i don't know how you overcome if we stack it so much to the other side0.98
08:07:58.620where you can't like if i say 10 million men dead versus 50 000 women essayed which is fucking
08:08:06.020terrible you can't grant that like 10 million dead men is worse than 50 000 i do not say that0.64
08:08:15.720i i totally agree with that 10 million men shall die but what i empathize to is that i do not
08:08:23.340I think that a female who was raped and still feel dead inside her soul and fully traumatized, somebody just took her power from her, she's alive, but she still feels dead.
08:08:39.760i do think because she's still alive because she's still alive and she still have emotions i do
08:08:46.580sympathize to to a person who's still alive and who's kind of really go through something terrible
08:08:54.900i guess i'm trying to investigate the the the level of harm so okay so if you like have you
08:09:06.420ever banged into a table with your knee or something have you banged into furniture like
08:09:11.860your toe or your knee you got you bumped into something and it hurt for five minutes you would
08:09:18.460agree that this is not as bad as if your arm was chopped off but it's totally two different
08:09:26.340theories because this oh my god there's only so much he can say they they don't equate to each0.96
08:09:34.600other they both suck they're both shitty but they are not the same thing you can feel for those0.99
08:09:39.580women but at the end of the day being dead is dead you cannot come back from being dead those0.99
08:09:44.620women can go to therapy and they can reclaim their lives i do not say i do not say that
08:09:49.460i do not say i do not say that the the dead person is less of a victim but what i do say
08:09:57.740I still feel more empathy to the person who's so light because they have to deal with that.
08:10:03.280The question is, are women the main part of the war?0.86
08:33:55.700Yeah, Costco, great company, great company.0.99
08:33:59.560You know what happens with a lot of men when a female have, like, you know,1.00
08:34:03.400maybe come from a different background or have, like, a different income?0.98
08:34:07.540Sometimes they get really jealous and compete.
08:34:10.060So then if your man is making $50K a year,
08:34:13.100but as long as he has the mindset of eventually making a million.
08:34:16.840As long as you have a mindset of, like, you know, I can grow with this lady and I will not minimize her because of any financial, I can deal with that.
08:34:27.760I dated a guy that was unemployed and I was making money.
08:47:46.440Well, and you're not counting in like cost of daycare, right?0.99
08:47:49.480Like, and cost of going to work, lunches, all the things.
08:47:53.320So, approximately 23% of U.S. families with a mother and father present feature a full-time working father and a stay-at-home mother, down from 42% in 1975.
08:50:37.460this is gonna sound wrong whatever the man is wanting to happen at home if they're making the1.00
08:50:45.080full income the woman should be doing their absolute best to make whatever they need to
08:50:49.100happen at home happen at home yeah if they choose that lifestyle for sure um my again my my issue0.91
08:50:54.420is more just the type of guys that tend to you're looking at me push that so hard like i want to be
08:51:00.700you know i want to take care of her i want to just in my eye a lot of time i see tend to like
08:51:05.320when you really get down to the nitty gritty of it of what they are saying it's like truly it's
08:51:12.160just i want to be able to control the situation fully and she doesn't have no oh maybe you're
08:51:17.520just scratching control of any kind i could always hold that over her head so then everything
08:51:22.100is just whatever i want to do all the time uh okay but so if i say if i say i want to be a
08:51:29.380provider does that give you the ick it's definitely about the control right um if you said it yeah if
08:51:35.700i said it does it give you the ick um i don't know you well enough outside of this so if your
08:51:42.120man walked up to say and he said hey babe i want to provide for you i want you to have a comfortable
08:51:47.100life at home you'd be like ew if he said that when we started dating why does it matter when
08:51:52.760he says it if that's because i know him now three years in i know the kind of person that he is but
08:51:57.180I mean, if I went out on a first date and a guy was like, here's my goal, I want to be the kind of man that you will follow and I will do everything for you.
08:52:05.840But I want, you know, I want you to trust me implicitly and follow my direction and, you know, take my lead in everything.
08:52:13.520I mean, I think that's I think it's genuinely how they word it and how they approach it.
09:12:02.860But have they actually released the level of degradation that was found on the firearm?
09:12:09.520No. The evidence on this case is so minimal. It is a conspiracy. It's a conspiracy battle between whether you believe or not.
09:12:15.520But I don't understand. So, okay, the prints are degraded.
09:12:19.420I mean, this comes down to the same concept. You don't believe that Donald Trump was involved in the Epstein files based on the evidence that they gave us.
09:12:26.980But they withheld a lot of evidence. So it's like, I don't know.
09:12:29.980Well, the trialists, they only had the preliminary hearing.
09:17:13.740Like, yeah, okay, there's this thing prior to his assassination, he was having conflict with, I guess, Jewish donors or whatever.
09:17:23.420But it wouldn't follow that because he was having this conflict, that that wouldn't be actual proof or evidence that Israel conspired to assassinate him or did indeed assassinate him.
09:17:36.760The main thing is that, and then just, I think Candace always quotes, like, that one, I don't even remember exactly what it said, but he basically got a text once, I think right before he passed away, that was like, well, he was sending a text to another person, I don't know who, but he was basically saying, like, I'm kind of fearing for my life right now, which could mean anything, in my opinion.
09:17:55.300I know he was, for multiple reasons, so how are we going to point that to Israel?
09:18:02.440Yeah, yeah, I don't see any evidence for the claim.
09:18:05.160And look, I mean, nations, I mean, but it is true that various nations will interfere with like other, especially the United States has a long history of this.
09:18:15.380And look, Israel has certainly done that, but you can, like Russia has done interference on us.
09:24:05.640I've had a lot of people coming at me trying to tell me, like, you need to go on this podcast and just stir it and be mean to these girls.1.00
09:24:10.940Like, these girls don't know what they're doing is wrong.1.00
09:24:14.000So, it's, like, I didn't mean, I changed my mind before, like, we talked about this this past week.0.99
09:24:18.900I wasn't even going to come on here because of how hard it was for me to even think about contemplating talking to you, like, girls, like, that do OnlyFans.
09:24:26.200But it's, to me, it's much more putting it, putting.
09:33:19.620Like, well, okay, so I was thinking about this the other day,
09:33:23.720And I think the general idea here is I think porn overall is bad.
09:33:28.520However, I sort of had an epiphany moment about pornography.0.90
09:33:33.820I think men who completely withhold, who are like doing nofap and who don't watch porn so they're not like busting, like masturbating or whatever.0.88
09:33:43.720I actually think when you're horny, you get yourself into trouble.0.99
09:33:51.460now what i mean by that is i don't mean like you start fucking committing robberies and shit i mean1.00
09:33:58.240when you're horny you fuck people you wouldn't otherwise fuck because if you're doing like no1.00
09:34:04.180fap and you're like i can't masturbate i can only nut with a one like with a woman a woman has to1.00
09:34:10.160make me not i got like that's the only time you can have you know come which on one hand can boost0.99
09:34:16.640your motivation and but on the other hand you start down great like you start that's when the0.99
09:34:23.500post not cleverly gets dangerous because then you're fucking you're running through some hood0.99
09:34:27.340rats and you're like i don't even like these hood rats and you're running through the hood rats1.00
09:34:31.040and you're fucking women that you wouldn't be in a relationship with i actually think1.00
09:34:35.220maybe you know it's not the worst for a dude if we don't want men if y'all women don't want men1.00
09:34:47.620fucking you just for the nut maybe porn isn't that bad because it's like you know what i mean0.99
09:34:53.060it's like you can just watch porn and you know i like porn anything from the peanut gallery1.00
09:48:44.480Fucking those Denver parties, tell you what.1.00
09:48:47.040Okay, you said you're a sex-in-the-city feminist architect turned homeschooling libertarian trad wife who also shoots boudoir and erotica.1.00
09:49:00.100You're increasingly conflicted about your work, though.0.72
09:49:02.800what started out as empowerment is starting to feel hollow and pornographied all that being said
09:49:07.880you have a lot of spicy critiques of modern women and can more than hold your own in the debate uh
09:49:13.140can you bullet point three really quick three spicy critiques of modern women as you said um
09:49:20.680gosh we've gone over so many um one i would say that i can definitely see is that porn is is
09:49:27.980destroying porn and social media is destroying the younger generations. Um, I think that, you know,
09:49:35.180we, we, um, clients that come in at my age, they're like, Oh, I'll do a little light bondage,0.89
09:49:40.000you know, and then millennials come in and they're like, Oh, I'm a switch and I'm a swinger.0.63
09:49:44.100And then Gen Z comes in and it's just a little bit of brokenness. And, um, I think just that0.94
09:49:50.420insecurity and so I think like for women to step out of the system in in so many ways to step off0.52
09:49:58.900of social media and to step out of the the sex in the city lifestyle right to realize that
09:50:05.420that your true empowerment comes from living a a good life for yourself and that we we've been
09:50:15.940told that sex is empowerment, but the truth is, is that that doesn't work long-term.
09:50:23.160You said plastic surgery in women is both disfiguring and destroys self-esteem.
10:07:11.900instead of i don't know sorry i don't know i'm just making funnies at this point i guess
10:07:18.960all right well i'm just saying you could have instead of the think about it all that money for
10:07:23.100the bbl yeah you could have brought but i'd be making a lot less you could have brought so i
10:07:28.420can afford things better now so net you're saying the roi the return on investment it was worth it
10:07:35.100yes fair enough fair enough uh okay double standards you wanted to talk about whether
10:07:40.740woman's job or past changes her value as a partner your perspective say that again you wrote whether
10:07:46.560a woman's job or past changes her value as a partner so is your position it does or it doesn't
10:07:55.640i don't think it does as a partner though i think if anything my experience dancing has made me
10:08:05.740probably better you can take your panties off quicker or something i think it's made you can
10:08:13.460twirl it around in like a special i don't take my bottoms off at work well so okay you so but
10:08:20.680you said your skills it's made me desire to be more loyal it makes you want to be more loyal
10:08:30.700When you're at work every night talking to a million different men and you have people touching you and it makes it so you actually desire that from only one person.