Muscle Mommy CONFRONTS Brian？! ft. HOE MATH ｜ Dating Talk #113
Summary
In this episode of Whatever Dating Talk, host Brian Atlas is joined by his co-host, Kiki, to discuss all things dating and relationships. They are joined by guest Annette, a kindergarten teacher, and Angela, a Twitch streamer and content creator.
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Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name,
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age, and occupation. Go ahead. Hello. My name is Sammy Jo. I'm an IFBB Bikini Pro and online coach,
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posing coach, and a content creator as well. Welcome. Hey, I'm Mars Noir. I'm 25, and I do OnlyFans.
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I'm Kaden. I'm 24, and I'm a bartender and OnlyFans creator. I'm Laura. I'm 35, and I'm also an IFBB
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bikini pro, and I'm a full-time fitness and online bodybuilding coach. No OF, right? No OF. Okay,
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got it. Hi, my name is Anya. I'm 18, and I'm a Twitch streamer. Hi, my name is Angela. I work in the
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automotive industry. I'm 31 years old. Hello, my name is Annette. I'm 29 years old, and I work as a
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nanny because I'm a kindergarten teacher. Where are you from? Hungary. Hungary. And how, so you're
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just in San, or excuse me, you're just in California for a couple weeks? Yes, yes, yes. Are you nanny for
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like a wealthy family, or? Yeah, we can say that. Okay. Are they, are they also Hungarian, or are they
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American? No, it's a French-American couple. French-American couple. Yeah. Okay, all right. Jake,
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Rattlesnake TV, 28 years old. Are we doing relationship status? Not yet, no. Okay, we'll
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save that. And you were recently where? I was in Thailand. Just came here two days ago, so
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extremely jet-lagged, so if I'm a little bit brain foggy. Hold on, I got to fix the mic here. Wait,
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sorry, the thing, the little thing was popped off slightly. Yeah, so if I'm a little bit brain foggy,
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I do apologize, but we'll get through it. What were you doing in Thailand? Just training a bit of Muay
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Thai. I was in Koh Samui for a little while, riding motorbikes, eating cheap food. Nice.
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And various other things. Any, uh, ladyboys? I told you before the show. Okay, sure, sure.
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There are ladyboys, but not for me, unfortunately. Okay, got it. And then our, uh, our first ever
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videoing guest, why don't you, uh, introduce yourself, Name, Age, Occupation. Hello, um, I am known as
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Homath. I'll keep my name quiet for the moment, and my face. Um, Age, I am on my way out of the dating
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market. I'll leave it at that. And Occupation, I complain about things on the internet for money
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full-time, starting very recently. Nice. Okay, very good. By the way, since this is our first
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time doing a video in, can the chat give us a little quick feedback? How was the audio from
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Homath? Was it, was it okay? Was it a bit too loud? Was it, uh, peaking at all, or is the audio okay?
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One in the chat, if the audio is okay. Two in the chat, maybe if it was peaking a little bit,
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or if it was, uh, too, maybe too loud. But I, I think we have it pretty good, so, um, sweet. So
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we're going to go around the table once more. So what is your current relationship status? So are
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you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married, poly-cool
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sex, cult harem? Probably, I, if there's anything else that I missed, um, if you're single, how
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long have you been single, and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in? Go ahead.
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I'm married, and my longest relationship is my current one of six years. Six years, okay. And,
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uh, you're, sorry, I missed the age for you. I'm 27. I forgot to say that. 27, okay. Got it. Um,
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I'm single. I've been single-ish for, like, three years, because I date a lot. Um, and my longest
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relationship was three and a half years. You, you've been single-ish for three years because you date a
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lot. Right. Well, like, ish, yeah, because, like, I go out. Right. I meet people, but I
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haven't, like, been locked down in a while, for sure. In three years. In three years, which is crazy
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to think about. Is it? I broke up with my, like, big ex-boyfriend right before I went to, like,
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backpack for a month and a half. He was obese? What? Huh? Did I say that? No, you said big, big ex-boyfriend.
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Big. Oh. Oh. It was, like, it was a big thing for you. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Everyone questions me on that,
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and I never change my lingo. It's just, like, the big ex, like, your longest relationship. Oh,
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okay, sorry. I just, that's where my mind goes. Yeah, my obese ex-boyfriend. Yeah. Did you break
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up with him to go backpacking, or you broke up because? It was time, and that was a good moment
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to do it, you know? Like, all right, that's done, and now I'm off, you know? Yeah, fair enough, okay. Yeah.
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Um, I'm technically single, but I'm in a bit of a situation-ship with my ex, for sure. Wait,
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technically single? Yeah, we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. But you're in a... It's a situation-ship.
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Okay. I never understand what that word means. Really quick, coming back to you, you've been
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single for three years. In that three-year period, what's the longest period of time that you've
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been with a guy, maybe a situation-ship, or a short-term friends with Ben, whatever it may be,
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what's the longest period of time that you've been seeing a guy in the past three years?
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Okay, embarrassing. Probably, like, a month. Just one month? Yeah, I had a joke with my friends
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that I'm, like, a two-weeker, you know? A two-weeker. Yeah. I like to kind of get to know people,
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and then, like, shift around. I don't see myself really interested in having, like, a long-term
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partner right now. Okay. And so, I like just meeting people and going out and the whole thing,
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you know? Okay. All right. Okay. Yeah, a month. Are you the one who normally breaks it off and moves
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about? Yeah. Never been broken up with before. Is that a flex? It's a flex. It's, like, a little,
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like, a little flex. You've never been broken up with before? Never. No. Okay. All right. Okay.
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What about, uh, oh, did you finish on your relationship status? You said you've been
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single, uh, longest, longest relationship? Um, the situationship. That you're currently in. Like,
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yeah. But you're technically single. We've been together for, like, four years. Wow. Five,
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almost. But you're technically single, but you've been together for four years,
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but it's a situationship. Is it on again, off again? Yes. Yeah. Okay. I would call it that for sure.
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So how long have you been technically single? A few months. Like, since, like. When's the last
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time you saw the guy? Uh, like, two days ago. But you've been technically, you saw him two days
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ago, but you've technically single for a few months. Yeah. What makes you technically single?
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Um, he doesn't want to be my boyfriend. I don't want to be his girlfriend. Are you guys
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seeing other people? It's, like, uh, no, it's that, yeah. So it's, like, exclusive. What's the point
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of putting a ship at the end of it? If it's not, you don't want to be together at all?
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Well, I think it's the title. He, he, like, doesn't want the title. So it's, like, a relationship
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with that title. But what's the point of there being any title at all? That's what I don't
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get about situationship. Yeah, I, well, I don't really. Didn't they used to call it, like,
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I feel like situationship is just so inclusive. Not exclusively seeing other people. Yeah.
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Right, like, we are. But if you could, you, if you wanted to, you could.
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Yeah, I feel like, like, he has encouraged me to date. As soon as something better comes
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along for you or for him, it's, it's done. I hate to think yes, but, like, maybe. I
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don't know. At least you guys are honest. Are you afraid? Exactly. Are you afraid of
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being heartbroken or what's the reason, if I can ask? No, I'm, like, I don't know.
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I'm a tough girl, so. What do you mean by tough girl? Like, I don't know that I've ever
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been heartbroken. Like, sad for sure. Like, this is, like, my, like, I bounce back like
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that. Like, no, but, like, very sad at the thought of losing him. Like, this is, like,
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my best friend. So, it's, like, hard to say goodbye for sure. So, we'll, like, break up
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and then just still keep hanging out. Is this, like, a safe, familiar thing?
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Like, perhaps. Yeah. Yeah. So, you don't want to be with him? He's, like, your best friend
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and you'd bounce back like that. Okay, like, I would, if he wanted to be my boyfriend,
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I would be his girlfriend. But. Oh. I guess. But he doesn't want to be his girlfriend.
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Well. That sounds. I don't want to. I was going to say. That sounds like a situationship
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if I've ever heard of him. Exactly. Exactly. There's just no other way to explain it.
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There's a lot of complex feelings going on here. So much. Yeah. We're all going to have questions.
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Are you dating other people? No. I'm not. So, but you've been in this situationship
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for four years? We, like, no, we were full on together for,
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like, I think this is our second breakup. This is our second breakup. Like, we broke
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up. Oh, there was a breakup. Who broke up with who? It was mutual. Okay. So, we got together
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when I was in college. He moved out to LA during COVID and we were like, okay, like, we'll end
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it here. And then I just kept flying out to see him and he would come see me in the city.
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So, it just never ended. Would he fly out to see you? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He would. So, I'd see
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him, like, every other month. And then we eventually kind of got back together. Like,
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there literally would be a point where I'd be like, so am I your girlfriend yet? Are
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you my boyfriend? He'd be like, no. And then one day he was just like, yeah.
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He has commitment issues. I'm sorry. Don't be. Don't be. He has commitment issues.
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I think maybe he's just doing some extracurricular behavior on the side. Yeah. That's what he
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said. He has his kikini. Ignorance is bliss in my eyes. So. At least he's not lying to you.
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I'd rather not know. Honestly. Like, don't ask, don't tell. During the time that you've dated
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him, have you seen any other guys? During our first breakup. Break? Yeah. I did. And
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he, like, told me he was seeing people out here too. I was back in Chicago. So.
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Chi-town. Yeah. Well, I was still living in my college town actually. But yeah. Yeah.
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So. He was seeing other people. I was kind of, like, not really seeing other people. Okay.
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Do you think it would hurt you if he found out he was seeing other people now? Depends
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on in what context. Like, sleeping with other people, no. Doesn't really bother me. But if
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he were, like, full on dating another girl, yeah. I'd be sad. Just a question. For you
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two, you both do OnlyFans. What kind of content do you do on there? BG? Boy-girl content?
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Girl-girl? What do you? So BG. I have boy-girl content, though. Okay. I don't really make
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it. I'd say, like, less than a handful of videos over my career. Career. Okay. But yeah, mostly
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just, like, cute pictures. Well. Can I say, like, naked? Can I say that word? Nude. Yeah, I
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guess. Yeah, that's fine. Nude. I take naked pictures. And I put them online.
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Halam! Okay. But so you've done boy-girl content. I have, yeah. You've shot content
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with guys. Just one guy or multiple guys? Multiple guys. Most of my content is with
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one guy. There's this couple in Vegas that I really liked working with. I have a good
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guy. Johnny Sins. Is he in Vegas? Johnny Sins? He asked to shoot with me, but we never
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shot. But, um, no, you know, Jack and Jill. No idea. Very niche. There's a lot of people
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in the industry. Sure. Yeah. What about you? I do BG solo content. Only, only with my ex.
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Oh, so the, you're. Yeah. He's, he's my, my content partner. Yeah. Content partner. Only
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fans partner. Yeah. Have you shot any content with other guys or just him? Never. Just him.
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No, literally just him. You do have, you do have content. You do do content with men?
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Yeah. Yeah. With him. But one man. Okay. With him. Yeah. Gotcha. Do you do OF2 or, oh, you
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have OF2? I still have it. Yeah. But you're, are you trying to phase it out or? No, I still
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don't. Okay. It's my business is up and running and chugging them all. People love bodybuilding. And
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then you two, are you doing boy girl content or just. I do boy girl content. Yes. With
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your husband, I, I assume. Have you done content with other men? No. Just. Other women, but
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not men. Other women. Okay. Gotcha. Solo women and then no other men. Okay. Got it. And
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does he do anything? Sorry. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. With other women? Um, if we're
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together, yes. Like the three, like a threesome. That, in that sense. Yes. Cute. Okay. Uh, well,
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let's get, we'll try to get through everybody's, uh, relationship status before we dig too
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deep. Go ahead. Sure. So I've been single for about three months and my longest relationship
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was three and a half years. Three months, three and a half years. Why did he dump you? Uh,
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sorry. Sorry. Sorry. That's assumptions there. Okay. Okay. Okay. The, the most recent relationship,
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um, he actually, he did initiate the breakup, but ultimately, um, it just wasn't working.
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The lifestyle of a bikini pro bodybuilder, it's a lot and he wasn't really supportive of it.
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So even though he liked how I looked and loved the fact that he was dating a tall, you know,
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bikini competitor, he wasn't really. How tall are you by the way? I'm six feet tall. Six feet. Okay.
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So he was a little, he was a little bit. Are you like five 11 and a half and you're just like
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claiming, you know, like how guys do that shit? I kind of started running up on five 11 and three
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quarters. Okay. You can't, I guess you can. Okay. Yeah. I'm not on dating apps, but when I was,
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I realized guys round up. So I needed to round up because if I said I was five 11 and I showed up on a date
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with a guy who was five 11, he was actually kind of five nine. Yeah. I like to say I'm six, three in
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heels. Okay. Yeah. I'm also six, three in heels. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Good times. Was he a bodybuilder
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as well? No, no. So he didn't have a fitness lifestyle at all. So it was, it was really hard
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and he was, he was more of an entrepreneur and, um, I think he was going through some stuff mentally
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because he was very successful, but he would spend a lot of his time like during the day just,
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and he was, um, you know, he was a single dad. So it was the first guy I dated with kids.
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He'd spent a lot of time just in his apartment, like drinking beer, smoking weed, like just under
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the bus he goes. I don't know. No, I mean, he's, he was a good guy and I mean, we were really building
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a life together. So it's, it's sad that every time I've seen like a competitive bodybuilding
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girl, they've always been dating an absolute gorilla. Yeah. So I think that's, that's what I realized
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is I don't need to date a gorilla necessarily, but I need someone who at least values and has a
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more similar lifestyle to me. Yeah. It's important. You, did you say you felt like he wasn't there
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for you towards the end of the relationship or he wasn't supportive of your, like, do you expect
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him to like kind of do like rice and like cookie rice and chicken type of stuff? No, I didn't
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expect, I actually got meal prepped for him. Oh, you meal prepped for, oh wow. Okay. So I just,
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you know, when we're, I mean, Sammy's a bikini pro too and that's, we know each other. Can we,
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can we see a double buy on, oh wait, I think the, hold on, let me, let me put it center.
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Myron. Nice. Um, solid. Yeah. Um, yeah, I'm not dieting or anything right now. Um, no,
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so it was, yeah. Dirty bulk. No, not dirty. Lean bulk. Females, we can't dirty bulk. That's
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a disaster. Um, real bodybuilders don't dirty bulk. I'm on a, I'm on a dirty bulk right now.
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That's a perma bulk. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. So, um, no, it just, it got, it got really tough
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because you know, I kind of sat him down when I did start dieting this spring for shows and I said,
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look, you don't need to, you don't need to be a bodybuilder. I don't want to change you,
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but I'm going to be really busy. And so just sometimes come to the gym with me, sometimes
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hang out with me when I'm meal prepping. And he just, we never were really able to spend time
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together once I got busier and it just got, it just got harder and harder. And I got more and more
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tired, you know, more and more hungry. And it's, it's hard to keep a relationship going if you're not
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seeing each other and you don't have that quality time. Got it. Got it. What about you?
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Longest relationship I think was a year and I've been single for about six months.
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Six months. Okay. One year. All right. What about you? Um, I am in a very new relationship. Uh,
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but my longest relationship was probably about four years and I also am divorced.
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You're divorced. Got it. Okay. Um, how long were you married for? Was it the four year?
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No. Was it the four? Uh, probably about eight months. Okay. And you said you're newly in a
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relationship. How long has that been? Like a month. One month. Okay. All right. Uh, so for
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the divorce, what happened there? Um, I unfortunately was going through a lot of medical problems and it
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kind of put me in a really bad place. I was on a trial drug and it, uh, unfortunately caused
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some really bad side effects and, uh, they became too much for him and he couldn't be
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there for me and support me because it was just a lot on him mentally as well. Um, so we
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parted ways. What, what was the, uh, trial drug? If you don't mind me asking. Um, it's called
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Oralisa. Uh, it's for endometriosis and, uh, basically the, they're using it right now to
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castrate and help do, uh, gender reassignment. Okay. Um, so, uh, it causes a lot of side effects
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and unfortunately that's not something that they talk about. And it's also the liquid version
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of it is used to treat cancer patients, um, of, I believe it's like prostate cancer, um,
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in men. So yeah, a lot of different uses for that drug. Uh, it was passed. I was in, uh,
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the stage three part of the trial, which is like the stage right before it like gets approved
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by the FDA. So. Okay. Are you better now or? Uh, I am. Um, I, it took a lot of hard work.
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Uh, I mean, I, I'm still taking actions every day to get better. Um, but I would say in the
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last like two years, I've really made a huge amount of progress. Um, so glad to say I have
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my life back. All right. It's a nasty one. Yeah. Oh yeah. And I am unfortunately have
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like the most advanced form. So what about you? I should think of it. Uh, yeah. I don't
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really want to say so much about, uh, my past because I'm not that proud of that. Uh, but
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I was close to get married and, uh, yeah, just about one month before the wedding. Uh, I said,
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no, it's not going to work. And I'm just thankful for this decision. And I guess it saved my life.
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Wait, hold on. There's a lot there. So what's your current relationship status? Just to start.
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I'm dating someone. You're, uh, how long have you been dating? A week. One week, but you're
00:20:45.060
traveling right now, right? So how did you, is this a long distance relationship or? It's
00:20:50.020
in Europe. It's going to be a long distance relationship for a while. Have you met this
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person in person? Of course I did. Where? Paris? He's the, he's your, he's a relative of the
00:21:03.640
family. I thought you were supposed to say relative of yours. Wait, so he's the, your
00:21:09.540
employer? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. He's a relative of the
00:21:14.020
employer. The mom's cousin, the mom's cousin. Oh, okay. So you met him once? No, more times.
00:21:21.160
Oh, okay. Does he know that you're dating as well? Does he know that you're in a relationship
00:21:26.740
with him? What, what? No, no, no, no, no, no. I hope not. She's not going to do it. No,
00:21:31.080
no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Because sometimes you aced in European girls, you know, you just
00:21:36.520
slide in there. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, I, I date only him. I don't know where
00:21:41.320
I said something stupid. No, no, no, no, no. Does he know that you're in a relationship
00:21:46.640
with him? With him. Oh, yeah, yeah, he knows. He knows. Okay. So relationship one week,
00:21:53.000
you said longest relationship was what? Like three years. Three years. Okay. And you
00:22:00.400
said you don't want to talk a lot about your past because you said you made mistakes.
00:22:07.240
Mm-hmm. What do we talk? That's the most interesting thing to talk about.
00:22:12.860
I just think that being a boyfriend, girlfriend, it's, it's just, I don't know. I think there's
00:22:21.220
more in a relationship, not just this. There's, there's higher rank in a relationship and the
00:22:28.680
value of a person can be measured by how we call them, like friend, stranger, bus driver,
00:22:37.800
homie, whatever. And, uh, homie? Just saying. The value. So, yeah, I think like this. Okay. Okay.
00:22:47.020
Um, and in your pre-show notes to us, you said you were a conservative Christian. Is that correct?
00:22:53.400
Have you always been conservative Christian? No, sadly not. Or is this pretty new? A week ago? I was.
00:22:59.520
My family is Christian, but there was a period of time when I wasn't with the Lord. So this is why
00:23:05.220
I'm not proud of that. And, uh, I just want to restore my relationship with God. Sure. And this is
00:23:12.400
what this guy supports me. And also he shares the same views. Uh, and I just feel, feel blessed by
00:23:19.720
him. Are you waiting until marriage? Yes. To, for sex? Yes. I'm gonna. Wait, so are you? It wasn't
00:23:27.720
always like this. Oh, okay. So you're not, not a virgin. Yes. I'm not, sadly. Do you consider
00:23:31.880
yourself a born again virgin? Yes. Yes. Yes. Is that a thing? Is that a thing? Can you be a...
00:23:38.400
I think Jesus died for your purity, not for that piece of cell that you have there. Uh,
00:23:45.520
so I think if you can be clear in your heart and soul, uh, it can work out.
00:23:53.720
Okay. And it's good to adopt those values anyway, regardless, you know, you're from Hungary,
00:23:59.040
which is a based country. Viktor Orban is a fantastic president. Thank you. Thank you.
00:24:03.360
Great conservative country. So it makes sense. Based. Yeah. You said that you were engaged,
00:24:10.000
but that you canceled 28 days before the wedding. What happened there?
00:24:14.080
It was just not right. You, I don't know if you've ever had this feeling that it's not good. It's not
00:24:19.040
good. I should get out of it, but you still had this feeling to do it, do it, do it. But then I was
00:24:25.200
like, no, no, it got to an end. And, uh, yeah, I don't want to say bad things about him or anything.
00:24:32.640
It was just not right. It was not from God. It was, it could be the biggest mistake of my life.
00:24:40.720
And, uh, I'm just so, so, so, so lucky to be out of that. Was it Andrew Tate?
00:24:45.920
Oh, no. That's not from God for sure. Tate, if you see it, sorry. No, but I like you. Oh,
00:24:55.440
because Hungary is not that far from Romania. No, no, no, no, not like that. Not like that. Not
00:24:58.960
like as a man, but, uh, yeah, there are very good, uh, viewpoints he's sharing. So. Okay. Yeah.
00:25:04.880
All right. What about you? Same as last time, unfortunately. I mean, single and ready to mingle. So,
00:25:11.920
yeah. Okay. Not really too much different over here. Longest relationship? A year and a half.
00:25:17.760
Year and a half. Okay. Back in the day, in the glory days. Sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet. And we have
00:25:22.160
Homath. Uh, mm-hmm. Tell us, uh, your relationship status. I am single and not prepared to mingle
00:25:30.800
whatsoever. I'm avoiding people as much as possible right now. I think they call that vol-cel. Voluntary,
00:25:36.560
celibate. You're a vol-cel. You're voluntarily celibate. Okay. Kind of. I mean,
00:25:41.600
I'm just not putting in any effort. I deleted all the apps. I moved out of the city and into the
00:25:47.280
woods and I'm just like going on walks by myself, not with anyone else. And, uh, I don't know if I'm
00:25:54.160
ever gonna like move again and try again and go out and talk to people. I'm taking a breath. And right
00:26:01.040
now I am only interacting women with women through Homath. And so I'm kind of just checking out people all
00:26:08.880
over the country. See how that goes. And so you're doing, you're talking like consultation type stuff
00:26:13.600
or are women sliding into your DMs? No. This women slide into the DMs. Yeah. They say they like my voice
00:26:19.440
and like women will say that they're attracted to me and they haven't seen my face. And I think that's
00:26:24.160
crazy, but I'll take it. And, and then I just go see what's up with that. And then, you know, someone's
00:26:30.000
going to fly up here eventually, probably. And they like your, they like your art style too. Is
00:26:35.360
that, you know, they, people always, no one ever says that they don't like it. It's a, it's a,
00:26:40.800
it's a very quick and easy art style, but people say, Oh, you're a great artist. Yeah. Gotcha.
00:26:45.520
I appreciate it. Thank you. Now. So we went around the table, we asked everybody their relationship
00:26:49.920
status. Um, was there anything that anybody said that kind of that, that we can reference any of your
00:26:58.240
either existing art pieces or for sure. Yeah. Is this a fresh drawing that you just made by the
00:27:06.000
way? This I'm just taking notes. Oh, okay. Gotcha. Gotcha. I can, yes. So I can respond.
00:27:11.680
Nick, can you, can we see? Oh, sorry. Nick, can you show us the bigger discord window? If you,
00:27:16.000
if you unhide, let's see that click it. Okay. So this, I think that looks, if we need to see it,
00:27:22.560
that, yeah, I think that works. Um, okay, cool. Nick, you can bring it. You can,
00:27:28.080
hide that one, but, um, okay. Yeah. Full screen. But yeah, do you have, did you have any thoughts on
00:27:32.800
any of the situations? Uh, you know, that we got, we got the technically single for, for four years,
00:27:38.880
but the, you know, did you have any things that came to mind? Uh, sure. Sure. I've, I got a few
00:27:46.160
questions all around. Um, technically single. I mean, that was the one where you said that
00:27:52.000
you would date him if he wanted to, right? Yeah. Yeah. So that's, I mean, we have kind of like
00:27:58.800
a designation for that. We taught, I mean, I have like, I have, uh, uh, I don't know if you guys
00:28:03.760
are familiar with my work. I, I make these silly little drawings. Nick, do you want to go full screen
00:28:09.520
for a second? I think, I think that you're just sort of landing in this area right here. Like you would be
00:28:14.880
the keeper if you could be, but he doesn't want you to be. Would you say that? That's right.
00:28:19.200
Yeah. Yeah, I would. So why do you do that to yourself? You know, the chances of him changing
00:28:25.760
his mind are really, really low. Well, I mean, I'm like, I'm very independent. So like I live on my
00:28:33.960
own. I'm happy to be on my own. So the fact that I enjoy my time with him and he is like my best
00:28:40.640
friend, I feel like I'm just enjoying the time that I do have with him in whatever context,
00:28:45.200
whatever capacity. Um, so I like, I would like to be a mother someday, not necessarily a wife.
00:28:54.080
Like that's not even, I don't ever need to get married. I just want kids and a house to take
00:28:57.560
care of. I want to be a little, like a housewife. It's the future. It's what we're doing now. I
00:29:03.080
understand that. And he's like, he might be that. You had a kind of a reaction to what she said.
00:29:07.760
So what, what specifically did she say that you, well, it's a, it's a gigantic red flag
00:29:12.760
when somebody says that they want to be a mother, but not a wife, because it means that you're
00:29:16.980
looking for a guy to give you his seed. And then if you don't want to be his wife, then
00:29:20.320
he's on the hook for child support. And he's basically not going to be able to see his kid.
00:29:24.420
You're going to take his money. That's what comes to our head when we do that.
00:29:28.260
So I should have, it's not that I don't want to be a wife. It's like my whole life. I've pictured
00:29:32.140
being a mother, a caretaker, like a housewife, but I just marriage in itself, like sharing
00:29:39.020
taxes and all that. I don't need to do all that. Like a long-term partner that lives
00:29:44.340
You want a man to give you a child, but you don't want to be a wife.
00:29:47.800
I would be a wife. I'd be a really good wife. Yeah. Yeah. But like, it's just not necessary.
00:29:54.040
So as in the legal side of things isn't necessary.
00:30:02.700
Interesting. Interesting. Jay, did you have a response to that?
00:30:07.340
Yeah. I mean, how does that fit into your overall life plan is one thing I do is I do kind of life
00:30:13.300
coaching and I just check on where people are going overall. And I think that's something a lot of
00:30:18.640
people are doing is thinking just like about right now, what they're doing and what feels good. And,
00:30:23.400
you know, this is something that women have done with me over and over again is they kind of throw
00:30:26.940
themselves into my life and they go, I'm enjoying it right now. And I go, well, it's never going to
00:30:32.040
go beyond that. And they sort of wait to see if it does, or if someone else wants to do something
00:30:36.900
with them. And especially if the other guys see that she's hanging out with me, they're less
00:30:41.980
inclined to do that. And it's kind of like, I feel like you're sabotaging yourself.
00:30:45.940
Perhaps. Um, I, uh, I don't know. My parents got married, had kids really young, so they always
00:30:53.600
encouraged me to just wait and enjoy my youth and travel and, you know, enjoy life on my own. So
00:30:59.700
I'm like more than happy to do that right now. I don't necessarily have a life plan. Like I,
00:31:06.440
oh, hold on just a sec. Grid One Motorsports donated $99. Fear is the spare change that will
00:31:13.500
keep you broke. Much like continuing to chase after a man that uses you for sex and just has
00:31:25.760
Word. Uh, yo, Grid One, good to see you in the chat, man. Thank you very much. That was poetic,
00:31:30.540
dude. Thank you. That, that was beautiful. Can you send one like as a haiku, please? Because I'm
00:31:34.900
trying to, um, go ahead. I think you were finishing a thought. Oh gosh. I think I was
00:31:41.100
finishing a thought. I have a question for you. Yeah. Do you feel like, is there any part
00:31:43.960
of you that feels like you don't deserve what you want? Like you don't deserve to be a wife
00:31:48.400
and a mother and have all those things? To tap into childhood trauma? Yeah, for sure. Like,
00:31:54.600
yeah, I definitely, yeah, feel like, yeah, I just, yeah, yeah. Do you think the OF is
00:32:01.400
Do you think the OF might be putting like a strain on your relationship?
00:32:09.600
No. No. Like that is like, sex is like the start of our, like a base of our, a pillar of
00:32:14.980
our relationship. So that's like. But that's not healthy. Well. Wait, your, your, your only
00:32:20.960
only fans is the pillar of your relationship. No, not my only fans. The sex I have with
00:32:25.840
this man. Like. Oh, that's, that's the pillar? A pillar. Oh, one of the pillars. Yes. Like
00:32:30.580
that's just. What about the fact that other people get to see it? Do you think that that's
00:32:33.860
an issue? An issue? Do you think that he might be really enjoying the sex, but then when it
00:32:37.440
comes to the long-term point of view, that might be a disqualifier? No. He, I mean
00:32:43.160
like he participates in the only fans. He manages the only fans. What would he get out
00:32:48.980
of making it exclusive? Like what extra benefit would he get? I don't know. I'm giving him
00:32:56.900
all the benefits already. So I like, I, I, while I don't agree with his mindset, I totally
00:33:04.660
understand it. Like, you know, I would love to be the wife and do all the things, but like
00:33:09.080
I understand that he, if he told you to delete it tomorrow, it would just mean he's, you're
00:33:13.260
giving him all of those wife things without being, without having the title. What about
00:33:19.060
if he told you to delete it tomorrow and he said that we can be together, you just got
00:33:22.880
to delete your only fans. Would you do it? Yeah. Okay. As long as he's paying the bills,
00:33:27.680
you know, because that's paying the bills now. Does he get money from your OF? No. But
00:33:32.780
you said he manages it. Right. If we reach a certain profit, then he would, but we're
00:33:39.060
not there. So I get to keep it out. He's not just in the videos. He's also helping
00:33:42.400
you manage it too. Right. That's a new thing. We're officially business partners, but he's
00:33:46.860
not getting paid yet. No. Oh, he doesn't want the money. He wants me to have all the money.
00:33:51.040
So he's not a business partner. He's a helper. Yeah, I suppose.
00:33:54.460
Then what's all that you give to him? What's that all that you give to him?
00:33:58.760
What, what, what's that what you give to him except, you know, like having sex and all
00:34:03.960
these, like, I mean, cook for him, clean his space, do his laundry, all the things that
00:34:10.220
I enjoy to do. I'm like a, no, we don't. I'm like a total caretaker as a person. Like
00:34:15.400
I just, that's the only passion I really have in life is taking care of other people. So
00:34:19.260
like, I love this man. And I love, like, I get joy out of taking care of him.
00:34:23.600
Onyxia white minus 50 DKP donated $100. Nick, can you hide the discord really quick while
00:34:28.260
this? Sapphire enlarge damage location. Fly into great sky. Use liquid water. Elemental
00:34:33.500
turn man into frozen dinosaur. Hide behind statue. Would any of the girls date a guy who
00:34:39.120
plays World of Warcraft 20 plus hours a week? Oh, this is a World of Warcraft trap. Thank
00:34:42.880
you. Um, we'll go around the table really quick on this. Uh, would any of the girls date
00:34:47.220
a guy who plays World of Warcraft 20 plus hours a week? If he was still successful in
00:34:51.040
a career and had goals and passion, then I don't see an issue. Here, I'll play you. What
00:34:57.560
about you? Um, yeah, if they can like manage their time and their hobbies. I love video games.
00:35:03.440
I just finished Baldur's Gate 3 and so I think I could be down. Yeah, I feel the exact same
00:35:09.960
way. Like, yeah, sure. If that's your hobby and you have other interests or income, then
00:35:15.020
yeah, like 20 hours a week is kind of a lot. That's honestly though for like an MMORPG
00:35:21.140
that's kind of rookie numbers. Yeah, that's two hours a day. I'm a Twitch streamer and I
00:35:26.480
stream what three times a week and I collectively stream at least five hours. So that's 15 hours
00:35:33.120
in a week that I'm just spending on stream and not a lot gets done. Like, like in the grand
00:35:38.160
scheme of it. Yeah. Like playing a video game for 20 hours a week. If you're like in a hardcore
00:35:42.840
raiding guild, you're playing like seven hours a day. That's even seven hours a day. That's
00:35:47.580
like rookie numbers, especially like if you're leveling up, like if you're trying to get to
00:35:51.300
60, like if it's a fresh, fresh server, like you want to put it in like 10, 12 hour days.
00:35:56.300
And then if you're like ranking in the PVP system, which they recently revamped, but like
00:36:00.540
the old days, like the OG ranking system, you know, you, you do like 16 hour days and you're
00:36:06.420
just in like, you're an AV Warsong Gulch, like maybe trying to fit in like, did you ask this
00:36:13.700
question? No, that's not me. What about you? Um, it's a, it's a red flag. I would say if it was
00:36:25.200
their full-time job, like their Twitch streamer and they're playing World of Warcraft and that's
00:36:28.760
how they make their money. It's just a hobby, I guess. If it's just a hobby. Yeah. 20 hours
00:36:33.580
is like hobby territory for, uh, it would be tough. If it wasn't consuming their life, then
00:36:38.660
maybe I can make that work. Yeah. Same. If it's not consuming their life, like I play video
00:36:43.000
games, so that's not a problem at all. It wouldn't be a problem. I also play video games. Okay.
00:36:48.620
I think if there's anything, uh, sexual or, uh, violent in that, uh, video game, you shouldn't
00:36:56.760
even play it. So no, no, no, no. GTA, you could take girls in the back of the car in San Andreas.
00:37:02.780
I, I appreciate the effort that they, people took in, uh, you know, ranking up, going higher
00:37:09.820
level, but I don't consider it as a job, as a work or, um, yeah. World of Warcraft, there's
00:37:16.060
not really anything sexual, but like there's RP servers, like role-playing servers. And
00:37:19.840
sometimes those people like, like role-play weird shit. I know. And it really, it helps
00:37:24.100
with a lot of skills to develop and, and it can have good things, but I still don't support
00:37:30.040
video games. No. Yeah. But if, if your guy is on their phone and they see sexual stuff as
00:37:36.200
they're scrolling, I mean, what's really the difference if he's spending. Why would he see
00:37:39.240
first, first of all on Instagram or YouTube? Cause it's on your for you page or your for you
00:37:45.640
page, anything in the algorithm can pop up. You can close your eyes and you can also
00:37:49.680
scroll on and, and that's what I do. I just close my eyes. Right away. Every time I see
00:37:57.220
anything pop up. Yeah. No. So we have a magnet in our finger. Sometimes it draws us to the
00:38:02.600
titties. Yeah. No, no. Click it sometimes. Aerials, a button. No, the algorithm is clever. Of course,
00:38:10.820
it's going to have naked pictures, whatever, but it can, you know, just pass by, pass by. Okay.
00:38:17.520
All right. Sometimes you double. That's beautiful. Double pass by. That's beautiful. All right.
00:38:23.700
Homath, did you have anything else? Did you want to add anything or how, how, if you're playing 20
00:38:30.280
hours of video games a week and you have a full-time job, when do you have time for anything else? Like
00:38:34.480
what are you cutting out? How much sleep are you cutting out to have any of you ever dated a guy who
00:38:39.520
played 20 hours of video games a week? What's that? Beaten Cheeks donated 99. Just depend on like
00:38:44.540
what your job entails. One sec, one sec. Yeah, I mean. Wait, wait, wait, wait. One sec, one sec,
00:38:49.700
one sec, one sec. Great food. One sec, one sec, one sec. Oh, yeah.
00:38:52.720
L on the girls. You need to go to Columbia. OF girls, not you, Sam, delusional, especially the
00:39:00.240
poor liberal beta that falls and marries you. L for the harlot. Yeah. Beaten Cheeks nailed it.
00:39:06.300
I think I've got you on Twitter. So yeah. Yeah. Thailand is an L for the girls in Thailand
00:39:13.360
because some of them have little penises between their legs. So you've got to be very careful.
00:39:17.620
But Columbia is good, but it's actually not the best. I actually don't really rate Colombian
00:39:21.900
girls that much because they're very, very sort of like materialistic. Eastern Europe
00:39:26.900
is the way to go. Hungarian girls are my actual favourite. So I'm not just saying that.
00:39:30.940
I promise you. Hungarian girls are just sort of in between Russian and Italian. And I
00:39:36.640
like them both. But if there's a nice in between, you know, so.
00:39:40.560
Hungarian. We're kind of like shopping the planet for women.
00:39:45.580
Did you want to come back? You said you wanted to come back to something.
00:39:50.180
Caden. It seemed like we were picking on you a bit before. But I think the point that we
00:39:53.940
were making is, and Homath, I think, nailed it when he said that you're in that sleeper
00:39:58.380
zone. You seem to be showing loyalty to this guy. You said you cook, you clean, you do his
00:40:05.240
laundry, all of these things that we appreciate. You're a lovely girl. You seem clever. The
00:40:10.720
one thing that's keeping you in the sleeper zone is that you have your body on the internet.
00:40:14.020
And whether or not he tells you that, because he won't tell you that, but that, mark my words,
00:40:18.880
that is what it is. That's what disqualifies it because men, we like, we care about how we
00:40:22.980
look in public. And if he has to introduce you and say, oh, this is my girlfriend, she does
00:40:26.600
OnlyFans, then that's going to be embarrassing. So you've got all of the, you tick all these
00:40:33.340
But we've been together since before I did OnlyFans. And his state of mind has not changed.
00:40:39.300
And if he was that against it, why would he partake in it and benefit from it?
00:40:43.380
Yeah, but he's disqualified from the long-term relationship, though.
00:40:49.520
So he's only okay with it because he gets the sexual pleasure out of it, but otherwise he's
00:40:56.340
So she's just said that she would be with him if it weren't for, if he didn't resist.
00:41:02.640
So if she wants to be with him, but he doesn't want to be with her, and she ticks all these
00:41:06.520
boxes, they've been in a relationship before, the disqualifying factor would be the OnlyFans.
00:41:14.180
So the only thing that you're basing it off of is what you know about her, you know nothing
00:41:25.660
So what we're speaking about here, and I'm sure that Brian can attest, is that guys automatically
00:41:35.020
But guys tend to disqualify girls when they have their body online.
00:41:44.280
And now that you've put it out there, now granted, yeah, he was with you before that,
00:41:51.420
And the only thing that's, you know, in our eyes that's really changed is a really big
00:41:56.720
And that's that your body is now on the internet, and you can never take that back.
00:42:01.480
And I guess you don't only share your body, but those people are watching, and they are
00:42:06.880
So you even share your soul, because it's so intimate.
00:42:14.080
People have the ability to remove emotion from that.
00:42:17.740
But the conversations that I have with people are, you know, a platonic relationship that
00:42:25.300
That would just be like, you know, Brian and Beaton Cheeks, for example.
00:42:28.980
Do you think that the people who subscribe to your OnlyFans, would you call that a platonic
00:42:34.360
I mean, I don't call it a boyfriend or a serious relationship.
00:42:39.700
I have no control what the person on the other side...
00:42:43.740
There's a service or something that I'm providing.
00:42:46.600
How the other person on the other side is taking it is from their perspective.
00:42:50.800
But you're aware that they're actively buying...
00:42:57.140
Platonic means that there's no sexualization, and that's inherently sexual, what you're talking
00:43:01.600
But it's not more than what the transaction is.
00:43:05.040
If I have a friend, if me and Brian were friends and he started sending me nudes, I would be
00:43:08.840
like, Brian doesn't want this platonic friendship.
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That's the same concept of someone thinking that, like, you go to a strip club and you
00:43:19.580
They automatically assume that that stripper's in love with them.
00:43:25.720
Women fool themselves to what men will put up with for easy sex.
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When something better comes along, he will follow.
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All things are possible through Christ, but no man can save you, ere you will not save
00:43:49.540
I mean, I'm just trying to cut in with basically, like...
00:43:58.720
That there is something, there's something spiritual, there's something emotional that
00:44:02.240
connects you to these people who are seeing you in sexual situations, just when they think
00:44:06.140
about it, when they say the images of it, when they have the feelings that they feel.
00:44:14.840
I lived with a girl who I found out was, like, I let her move into my closet, that's
00:44:21.000
I had a space for her to live in a walk-in closet, and she was just, you know, not doing
00:44:32.700
And she was just not doing great, and I had extra space, so I let her live with me.
00:44:38.880
I found out that she was, like, doing prostitution on Backpage, and as I got to know her more
00:44:44.900
and more, I saw that it was affecting her emotionally.
00:44:47.620
Making it a transaction does not separate the emotional component from it, and even if
00:44:52.720
it's subtle, and, you know, on OnlyFans or on the internet, even if it's a more subtle
00:44:57.140
form of it, because you're not actually touching or meeting the people, it still is there.
00:45:02.620
There is some part of your deeper self that you are selling.
00:45:07.120
But what if, so what if you would consider the act that you're doing more of, you know,
00:45:11.880
people have kinks and fantasies, and so what if the act that you're doing is actually a
00:45:16.140
kink, and it's, so, like, recording yourself, right?
00:45:21.320
Any advice on dating for a guy who is on a drug for panic disorder?
00:45:25.800
Nardil, I have ed in an orgasmia from this drug, and it's frustrating, but the drugs
00:45:30.140
are necessary for me to function in daily life.
00:45:32.820
On dating for a guy who's on a drug for, well, I mean, it seems like the drug is impairing
00:45:38.320
your sexual function, so, but that doesn't preclude you from dating.
00:45:55.840
My most recent ex-boyfriend actually had an ED.
00:46:08.760
I don't know, like, it wasn't weird whatsoever.
00:46:10.800
Like, he felt really weird, felt really, like, ashamed of it, and I told him, I was like,
00:46:18.980
Um, but, especially when it comes to anxiety, again, honesty and communication, communication
00:46:28.800
With that, it's a mental thing most of the time.
00:46:31.140
Like, if it's a physical thing, then you should get medicated.
00:46:33.720
But, like, a lot of the time, it actually happens if you really want to impress the girl.
00:46:37.360
If you meet a girl and you're like, I've got to perform here, you won't.
00:46:41.560
But at least if you, like, give her a heads up and be like, hey, I know, like, you know,
00:46:45.380
things are getting a little spicy, you know, like, I don't want to...
00:46:48.820
I don't want you to feel like it's a you problem, not it's a me problem, or, you know,
00:46:53.320
or even bring it up before it even gets to that point and just make her aware that, you
00:46:58.160
And then the seed's planted, though, so you've got to be careful with that as well, you know.
00:47:01.500
Yeah, but I mean, again, it wasn't a weird thing.
00:47:04.120
It was like an, oh, okay, that's a medical condition that you have no control over.
00:47:07.980
I've found also that this is getting into a bit of a deeper conversation about it, but
00:47:11.540
I've found this, like, because it's happened to me a few times as well.
00:47:15.140
There are certain girls who are just really good at, like, managing the situation.
00:47:18.820
And then the other girls who bring attention to it, and it's like a, it really is a, it's
00:47:25.180
Not for nothing, but you never had a problem with me.
00:47:28.500
But like you said, it's more of a, it's more of like a, if they just sort of chill about
00:47:34.220
it and whatever, then you all just chill about it, and then 10 minutes later you go.
00:47:37.180
Because you get caught up in your head, like, you know, when you have panic disorder, I call
00:47:41.780
Like, when I'm having anxiety about something, anything and everything in the world could
00:47:49.420
Let's try to address the question, though, instead of making it about you.
00:47:53.540
No, no, but again, just honesty and communication is genuinely what I think is going to help in
00:48:03.560
Like, if the girl, if she's drawing more attention to it, that just makes it worse.
00:48:10.380
And then I would also just say, hey, just find a girl who's, I mean, there's obviously,
00:48:14.520
you don't, you can do other things too, you know, so.
00:48:23.160
It takes me a minute to get caught up, but someone said something about Jesus, so I just
00:48:34.380
You were talking about, like, selling a piece of your soul when it happens.
00:48:40.100
When your bodies connect sexually, you know, and you're basically the sperm and egg merge,
00:48:45.960
that's two different lives coming together in the Bible.
00:48:51.180
And the actions that lead up to that are also bonding in the more subtle realms of existence.
00:48:57.360
In the physical realm of existence, it's the sexual act creates new life.
00:49:00.620
But in the mental and spiritual realms of existence, sharing sexual experiences, even over
00:49:05.360
the internet, is kind of sort of the same thing.
00:49:08.520
I mean, you could, I mean, yes, there is that point too, but also, so for me, right, before
00:49:13.900
I even started this, I was recording myself in the act.
00:49:17.620
And that thought process, the idea of someone watching or someone, you know, looking, watching,
00:49:24.280
whatever it is, that can be considered a kink, right?
00:49:27.160
So if you're doing something because you think it's hot, it's turning you and your partner
00:49:33.660
No real man will ever be with a woman that has done any sort of promiscuous activities,
00:49:39.820
Once you females accept that, move on and find your simp.
00:49:43.820
There are so many lonely, mentally weak males ready to save you when Jesus won't.
00:49:56.660
Like there, there are some guys will go for it and Jesus will still save you, but.
00:50:05.340
So basically in the grand scheme of it, while yes, you're creating a relationship with someone,
00:50:11.380
you don't have to give up your soul or your, all of your emotions.
00:50:15.120
You can have a transactional relationship with someone who's seeking something.
00:50:19.700
And if you're, if you're pleasured by providing that service, then that's all that it is.
00:50:25.720
But it's not a will that I don't want to share or I want to share.
00:50:34.600
And I don't think sharing yourself is a well that will run dry at any time.
00:50:39.480
I think to be alive is to love and, and be loved as much as possible.
00:50:49.340
And yeah, the well, the well, the well always ends up running dry eventually.
00:51:01.580
The metaphor that I'm using here is you want to, you want to, you want to, you want to, you
00:51:04.800
want to bring water to the village while the, while the well is still running.
00:51:08.640
But I don't think that I always feel like I'm so overwhelmed and overflowing with love
00:51:17.620
Or you have to show yourself naked because you're so overwhelming with love and care.
00:51:21.060
Whether that's sexual or like friendly or like doing good for others.
00:51:25.420
I think I will never run out of the desire to do that.
00:51:33.720
But once you've put yourself all the way out there, what more do you have to give?
00:51:42.200
We all have, we all have a limited amount to give.
00:51:49.240
Guys, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:52:02.220
We all have like, we all have a limited amount of things.
00:52:08.700
You should look into the eyes of women who've done prom and bagged hundreds of bodies.
00:52:13.960
The light has literally drained from their eyes and they are hollow.
00:52:25.660
The thing is though, like what you're saying is I completely agree with you that you have
00:52:29.980
a lot of love to give and everything, but maybe the love that you're trying to give
00:52:36.100
Maybe the love that you should be giving is to a partner and to a family.
00:52:45.220
Because I don't think love has to just be romantic love.
00:52:47.500
I think there's so many different types of love in the world and so that's what I'm
00:52:51.580
See, this is like the thing that I find with, and look, I'm not judging you for doing
00:52:57.000
I think you can do whatever the hell you want, but it kind of seems like hope to me when
00:53:13.720
I think, yeah, like the primary reason why girls go towards sex work is because it's
00:53:22.820
When you can imagine a guy who's spending his money on your OnlyFans and he's, you kind
00:53:28.640
When you can imagine a guy who's, who's spending money, spending money on your OnlyFans, dick
00:53:50.280
I don't know, because I really enjoy the experience of what I do.
00:53:57.860
Selfish love, like, don't you do it for yourself more than for others?
00:54:14.300
It's delayed by a minute, but they said that when, you know, the girls, the girls who do
00:54:17.300
porn forever have like a look in their eyes that don't have, there's no, there's no
00:54:27.020
You know, like, a thousand-yard stare, but for cocks?
00:54:31.000
Um, but yeah, I grew up really religious, and a housekeeper, like, my sibling.
00:54:40.040
Ignoring the fact that men you would want to be with will simply never do more than use
00:54:46.220
If you treat yourself as a semen receptacle, men will too.
00:54:50.560
No man capable of loving a woman will want that.
00:55:03.860
But yeah, I grew up really religious in a Catholic household.
00:55:08.020
My, like, siblings all wear, like, full-on, like, pants and long sleeves to go swimming.
00:55:20.420
And so I found when I was trying to discover myself sexually, I felt a lot of shame in expressing
00:55:26.860
myself and found a lot of comfort in expressing myself online because it was this way to dip
00:55:33.820
my toes into intimacy and fun without it feeling, like, too serious or, like, oh, I'm having
00:55:39.760
this, like, interesting conversation with this guy online, but, like, it's at my pace.
00:55:47.340
And so, yeah, maybe, like, it's not, like, love in that scenario that you gave Jake, but,
00:55:52.440
like, it's something and it sparks something in me and it's fun and exciting.
00:56:02.320
It would be in that situation where dick in hand at the middle of the night.
00:56:07.180
But that's essentially what OnlyFans is, though.
00:56:09.880
And, like, trust me when I say I'm not judging you.
00:56:12.160
I've done all of the bad things, all the sex, drugs, and rock and roll.
00:56:16.340
But when you say spreading love, like, we just have to sort of get our facts right here
00:56:20.200
because OnlyFans is inherently not spreading love.
00:56:23.820
It's actually fueling an addiction that guys have, and it's fueling a loneliness epidemic.
00:56:28.080
And why do you have to take your clothes off to fulfill that need?
00:56:33.920
I model a lot in the automotive industry, but I also have done, like, lingerie and stuff
00:56:39.340
And to me, like, I've been pressured many, many times to do OnlyFans, and have I considered
00:56:45.340
it, yeah, but at the same time, like I've said, once I give that or once I put that out
00:56:51.160
there, like, for that person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, like, that's
00:56:56.000
now no longer just his or, like, just for him or just for our intimate time.
00:57:01.380
I think that's where we differ because I really don't believe in ownership in relationships.
00:57:06.820
I believe it's two people, two individuals coming together to make something bigger.
00:57:12.940
When you don't share your stuff with someone, I guess.
00:57:15.100
But I don't also see, like, the human body as being something that's, like, degrading
00:57:28.020
Like, if you don't want to do OnlyFans and you feel like that's for your person, fuck
00:57:32.140
But I show my body, but I don't show all of my body.
00:57:36.220
But what's the difference between your stomach and something else?
00:57:41.060
The thing is, though, this is the thing that a lot of younger girls particularly will say.
00:57:44.960
It's the fluffy sort of, like, oh, it's just free love, and we can do whatever we want
00:57:49.220
and show our body, and at the end of the day, it's not just your body.
00:57:52.880
It's not just your body, because your body is actually very significant, especially through
00:58:01.000
You will have a completely different mindset in 10 years' time when it comes to this sort
00:58:06.620
And, like, I know it seems like I'm picking on you.
00:58:14.540
I think that you're a really nice girl, and, like, honestly, you've got a great energy, and you
00:58:18.180
do have a lot of love to give, I can tell that, but you're corrupted by this fluffy-duffy
00:58:22.920
narrative of, oh, we can give our love to anybody.
00:58:27.700
You spread your love too thin, and it'll be a vapious lifestyle.
00:58:33.640
Because I agree with you that, you know, what you're talking about, it's more likely that
00:58:37.440
we're spreading lust with things like this, right?
00:58:44.500
Why is it not on men to stop consuming it, right?
00:58:49.160
It's like everyone should do their part and not have that happening.
00:58:56.340
The interesting thing about OnlyFans is the girls think they are getting one over on men,
00:59:01.660
but the guy that owns OnlyFans is paying himself a million bucks a month, and he still
00:59:06.840
owns the billion dollar company where they are the product for sale.
00:59:12.560
That's very assumptuous that an OnlyFans model thinks that they're getting one over.
00:59:16.760
If I'm laying out exactly what I'm offering you, and you're choosing what you're buying,
00:59:27.760
If I'm choosing to order tequila and take a shot of tequila, that's on me.
00:59:32.520
But it's a tequila, it has no feelings, it has no soul.
00:59:35.380
It's a little different, though, because there's a lot of women on OnlyFans who have management
00:59:41.920
Like, you'll have some dude in Bangladesh responding on your behalf.
00:59:46.680
So the comparison would be like, you walk up to a bar, and there's a bottle of Don Perrione,
00:59:55.600
And you fill in the cheap Costco liquor, vodka, in place of the high ticket, and you're like,
01:00:06.880
But that's then now taking this massive group of people and conforming it into one and saying
01:00:13.380
No, we've all given that question before over here, though.
01:00:23.480
Ayo beating, what are the $304s going to do when perfectly curated sex dolls become socially
01:00:30.880
Don't think it will just be lonely losers buying M.R. Paul.
01:00:33.980
So, Laura, what's the best place to meet a muscle mommy?
01:00:52.020
Or the grocery store in the healthy sections of the aisles.
01:00:59.340
I think they're going to be really disappointed about the impact of sex dolls.
01:01:03.400
I don't think that's, like, these guys talk about it like once they're real enough,
01:01:09.080
It's like there's still going to be the, you know, attractive men and attractive women
01:01:15.420
And the sex dolls are just going to be for the guys who don't have anything anyway.
01:01:18.380
What if it's, like, a really dope sex doll, though?
01:01:22.060
Like, that not only has sex, but also, like, cooks and cleans and what else?
01:01:32.240
Wouldn't you rather have a real woman fight with you a little than program a robot to
01:01:42.160
I feel like we need submissive with a little bit of brat in there, you know?
01:01:46.840
There needs to be a little bit of, like, I'm causing a problem for nothing or it's not.
01:01:51.240
Like, I would get bored of, like, oh, you're nice again today?
01:01:55.440
Wait, you would be, ho, math, you would be bored by that?
01:01:59.420
Like, when I'm getting to know a girl, when she starts getting all shitty with me, that's
01:02:06.320
When she's just going, like, what are you doing wrong that I can pick at?
01:02:20.040
Oh, I like it when they're nice to me all the time.
01:02:22.440
Yeah, men love the easy boat on a video game, and they're like, oh, what am I even doing?
01:02:37.560
Did you all see the video of the guy walking around the mall with a big rolling TV screen
01:02:55.660
I mean, honestly, I think what the future holds, we're not even going to...
01:03:00.840
It's not even necessarily going to be sex robots.
01:03:03.540
We're just going to have robots that can just help us take care of our things, and there'll
01:03:20.320
Yeah, it's just going to be like, okay, they're going to, you know, take care of all the chores,
01:03:26.780
and then the sex will be like a secondary, auxiliary sort of thing.
01:03:38.040
Like, it's always going to be like what you program it to be, and it's never going to be
01:15:05.740
The fact that you lived in Asia for eight months,
01:15:34.580
Were you making content while you were talking?
03:50:14.480
honestly bro 31st dates in that to me that I mean it is
03:50:19.320
November almost November so that's 11 months that's
03:50:22.740
still a lot I've been on three because you go on wow oh well yeah women have
03:50:27.900
dating on easy that's fine I've noticed that you've you've resorted to like passive aggressive like
03:50:34.560
insults a lot tonight so no it's just it's a wow it's a wow because women have
03:50:38.500
dating on easy my passive aggressive to you yeah you are a little bit that was
03:50:42.700
pretty passive aggressive well okay well I mean like you've been on 31st
03:50:49.700
dates women have dating on easy mode um I think for sure that like do you have a brother
03:50:56.460
women do you have a brother I have seven siblings how many brothers do you have all
03:51:01.840
brothers besides one all brothers besides one do you uh are they full siblings like
03:51:06.880
none of them are oh none of them are when we're talking brothers are we what kind of brothers are
03:51:13.400
wait what so I said I said I don't know she's got okay um why did you have to make such an
03:51:25.120
I mean we all have a good step bro role play you know but you just asked her about her like
03:51:34.800
no what I guess like I'd be curious to know if they were like your full siblings because it's
03:51:42.220
always I'm always curious like girls who have like a lot of who can get a lot of dates I'm
03:51:46.580
always curious to hear like let's say your brother if he's around your age is he able to secure as
03:51:50.940
many dates as you and typically what I find is is like female like women are able to get way more
03:51:57.040
dates than their brothers who you'd think are like to some degree their looks equivalent because
03:52:02.700
they're biologically related to you so they're like looks wise they're probably you're somewhat
03:52:10.640
equivalent sort of I guess I don't know although sometimes it doesn't work out like that okay good
03:52:16.640
times good times let's move on we have who do we have do we have any chats do we have wait what's
03:52:22.760
that you got questions oh we got a chat here let's thorium fusion dielectric donated 100
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tbh to red hair when you sigh it sounds sexy I am good looking with six plus figures and relate
03:52:36.720
to the whole experience all of it vibe you've been taking it like a champ but if I were to be up for
03:52:42.360
it you'd have to delete of and be monogamous I'm a good looking with six plus figures and relate to
03:52:48.640
the whole experience all of it you've been taking it like a champ but if I were to be would would you
03:52:54.640
date him if you don't know him but all he gave me is I'm rich and okay I guess does he have to send
03:53:02.080
another chat yeah you have to send another chat I don't know you I'll put in a good word I'll like
03:53:06.220
wow you have money that's awesome we're gonna have a beautiful life till we're I will say that thorium
03:53:12.000
fusion to elect dielectric he did once saved me from a a honey badger I remember that we were yeah we
03:53:22.860
were on it's crazy expedition in in you guys so good at this like role-playing this was it was an
03:53:36.980
this has become intriguing to the land of mordor and the fiery depths of mount dune
03:53:41.600
gredneck donated 99 dollars fucking sim is this in response this this there's a tts war between
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gredneck and thorium fusion electric funny that's funny fusion thorium fusion do you have a response
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to gredneck and you want to shoot shoot your shot a little better at our friend here just let us know
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okay we also have modest jacama joe from it here thank you for the red pill brian sexually experienced
03:54:12.760
women will get bored with you ask for an open relationship then cheat then ask for a divorce on
03:54:17.880
your dime of course welcome to my life what that's modest jacama what there's this
03:54:24.180
there might be an infographic that we can pull up nick if you can go into the infographic
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uh folder it's time for you to get a watch that's true
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yeah it's in the drop box hold on i'm trying to find it yo modest jacama this is my first time seeing
03:54:43.420
you in the the uh chat man thank you for the your patronage uh welcome welcome thank you man
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appreciate it oh infographics jacama it's a fruit yeah jacama jacama jacama jacama i think you guys
03:54:59.740
are mispronouncing it that's fine it's definitely jacama uh it's called marriage in the oh jay butler
03:55:07.520
donated 99 is it gonna be about herpes bro none of this it is about herpes oh my god you must
03:55:12.800
approach this exorcism using the genital herpes angle condoms do not protect from this filth
03:55:19.060
and once you get a certain amount of bodies the infection is as sure as death and taxes
03:55:24.220
she's got it for sure what's a high amount of bodies to you
03:55:29.120
double digits double digits okay yeah jay butler always coming in with the herpes
03:55:40.660
always the conversation he is he is a a uh what what is the he's a urologist jay butler is a urologist
03:55:53.420
um one of the premier urologists he works at um the usc so it's a no no no uh i didn't say that
03:56:03.680
he works at a very prestigious medical establishment and he's a urologist which means he looks at cox
03:56:12.340
all fucking day wow you really care in a in a medical in a medical capacity i'm very i am very
03:56:19.460
jealous i wish that was my job because my job is looking at never mind um
03:56:26.560
brian you're the one that asked me to come back well i wasn't directed at you i'm just saying
03:56:33.920
sometimes i'd rather just look at cox all day than do this job i mean i would rather there's definitely
03:56:40.940
this is a stressful job creators you can definitely subscribe to someone's no but it would be listen
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it would be within a medical context okay i'd be a professional i want to help i would help out
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men with their penises are you gonna start a what the fuck am i saying bro instead of blm you're gonna
03:57:00.420
oh jesus okay i don't know where were we where were we oh the wedding thing pull up the wedding
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pull up the wedding infographic really quick you got it marriage in the 21st century
03:57:22.300
i want marriage okay i want kids okay okay uh the wife is nagging while i'm trying to work
03:57:28.360
uh i'm i'm uh mowing the lawn and i'm cutting the grass and i'm walking the dog here's me at work
03:57:34.060
i get back from work i'm all stressed out from work my wife yells at me gotta play with kids uh
03:57:39.540
uh the wife the romance is gone he can you scroll it up make it bigger god why are these always made
03:57:44.700
in like men's favor though uh put us on the hide hide or other side i guess so i can read this one
03:57:51.240
because men get because men get fucked in marriage um we're all humans we hide show show us down the
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other side other side you know that's fine and then you'll hide it again the room the romance is
03:58:02.420
gone he doesn't give me enough attention you're so beautiful i can't stop thinking about you stop
03:58:07.100
you know i'm married and then like oh the husband he's just trying to like golf uh the woman the wife
03:58:12.640
nagging come on let me come over for a coffee while he's at work boom cucked how could you do this
03:58:19.300
he made me feel special divorce the woman gets all the money and the house and then you're living
03:58:23.560
and the boom life ruined is modest jacama is that what happened to you is that what happened to you
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this is in response to modest jacama welcome to his life he got divorced divorced apparently the
03:58:39.720
average divorce costs 20 000 it's probably i feel like it's more than that i don't know i mean that's
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not that's like maybe the attorney's cost or something or i don't know it's a clean divorce
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yeah it's a cheap one like my my divorce was very cheap how much did your divorce cost uh we we were
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very like amicable yeah we were just like you take your shit i take my shit but you still had to get
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an attorney right um he did uh like he like paid me like 500 a month for like a year but that was it
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no no no that's not what i'm talking about the attorney you had an attorney i did not have an attorney
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did he well so you guys did self-help divorce yeah basically yeah it was like all during covid so
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there was a lot of like people that were helpful it was like a mediation type thing yeah like we
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never went to like wait how long were you guys married again uh like eight or nine months wait
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you were married eight or nine months and he paid you alimony was this in california um no no this is
03:59:34.960
in florida um i was on his uh we got married so i could have medical insurance because i was really
03:59:39.760
really sick and going through like surgeries and stuff like that were you guys actually dating oh
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yeah yeah we were together for multiple years we were planning on getting married we just like we're
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gonna get married the next year so we just moved it up a year and um but because i got so sick and
03:59:54.700
because of everything wait so he your husband ex-husband he paid you alimony yeah how much was he paying
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you just 500 a month it was just my um i needed health insurance and all my medical bills were like
04:00:08.780
six grand a month without insurance so why did you but you did you who initiated the divorce he did
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he did is it typical to get alimony if you've only been dating less than a year
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well you can be married less than a year i think can you speak to closer to sorry you mean married less
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than a year yeah i thought it was typically alimony only kicks in yeah i don't know it was
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wait did you ask for the alimony it did i did i was like hey i need help it was not a i was like so
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basically he we were living together he took like we lost our condo he took the dog he left took all
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of his stuff while i was in the hospital and moved out and left did you ask the court for alimony
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was it like court awarded alimony uh i think i just asked him and his lawyer i don't think it
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was and then like they just agreed upon no okay sounds like a good guy no and we're actually like
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really good friends now we're better like divorced than we were together sure uh for for you too on
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this you said you believe age is just a number that you can connect with anyone you are currently
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dating someone 28 years you're senior yes and you're 20 i'm 31 or 30 31 so he is 59 okay yeah good
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times yeah good times uh we were like really close friends longer than sorry we were really close
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friends uh for multiple years and like he was married i was married we were always in relationships
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that weren't obviously together and then when and then when it came to being we both were single at
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the same time and we both kind of just decided it made sense because we had been hanging out and
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close for so long that we thought we would give it a try romantically and it's been working
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okay yeah good times do you guys do any of you guys object to her age gap relationship
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anybody anybody bueller okay yeah um you also said i think it's horrible that women sleep around like
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it's nothing i'm not a modest woman or a virgin but i have standards and self-control i don't do
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one night stands okay um you think it's horrible that women sleep around like it's nothing yeah i feel
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like there's just lack of respect like i said towards the man and then also towards yourself but again
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that's my opinion and i believe that everyone can do what they want but i do find that i do believe
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that in later in life you guys might have problems or you know run into issues where you think you
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might you know i i hope that you find somebody that is willing to love you and accept you for all the
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things that you all the decisions you have made in your life but in reality i do side with brian and
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jake that you know you are probably going to have a harder time than let's say her or myself or even
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you who choose not to put themselves out there that way no granted don't get me wrong i'm i model on
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instagram i i do like take my clothes off but i don't put myself fully out there i don't show my chest
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i don't show my you know privates i'm i just it's just it's just like the which is worse strippers or
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only fans girls it's like you're like swimsuit modeling on instagram like like someone else
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that's more conservative might be like that's like impure and and i agree because you know
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there is a sense of modesty you know like i to me like i feel like i can put myself out there in
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lingerie because to me i feel like i can go to the beach and see the exact same thing i feel like i'm
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still keeping my social norms well no it's it's more like i'm still keeping it and see naked people
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just like i've been to a nude beach don't get me wrong i've been to a nude beach do you get paid for
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the modeling or do you just do it i have i have been paid for modeling for it all do you just do
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it no uh not all of it um like but i have done charity work but uh in the beginning i wasn't
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paid yeah like for like charity events and like i do a lot of car shows and stuff like that we do
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cardi yeah we do charity car shows so i'll do modeling for the car show for free not not charging
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but i do get paid like people will do like private message me and be like hey i would like you to do this
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type of you do have like the shoots that you just do where you just pay someone to take photos of
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you um yeah yeah somebody will pay be like hey i want to see you in this outfit doing this type of
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of modeling and then they'll get like select photos that's what i do that's what i do
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yeah it is so just to just to establish so you do get paid by people to take photos that are like
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sort of sexually explicit no not i would not say that my photos in your lingerie
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yeah it depends who thinks it's explicit but i'm not you get paid by who though directly to the
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customer or like by an agency sometimes yeah both sometimes wait so i get paid i get paid by
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an agency to go and do a shoot or go and walk a runway or whatever or go and work a car event
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but then i also have people that private message me that want me to model with their cars or do
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whatever like with their you're doing car motorcycle sorry uh but whatever it may be and they pay me
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specifically to model do you just do it like in your living room just you in lingerie no no no no no
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it's usually like public it's usually multiple people on a set it's it's all professional normally
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with it with the theme of cars that's pretty much always uh a majority i do i do do some cosplay
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and stuff like that but i mean yeah majority cars that's just it's kind of the same thing it's kind
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of the same thing it is no i i feel like you're judging them but you're kind of yeah the same thing
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it's just it's the strippers versus only fans well because i'm comfortable being naked i'm worse
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i think i think everyone should be you know free to make their own choices and stuff but i think
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that it's not fair that you're judging them when you're kind of doing the same thing i mean
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it's lawyer because not all only fans models do new content you could do what you do on only
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for more money you do but have a paywall behind it but yeah the difference that i see is that like
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i won't like once it's i don't know how to but you're selling pictures of you in your underwear
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you could put that on only fans tomorrow make more money and it's the same thing that you were
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already doing it's a good it's a good point that you guys have gotten the sense that it is like
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philosophically the same no no i agree but i think like brian said before it's about perception as well
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and if somebody says like i'm a model for for cars it's much less of a red flag than it is to say
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i'm an only fans model so she's so she's spinning herself right well she's spinning and selling
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herself what do you mean well it's like she's you know if you were to go on a date with a girl right
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and a girl tells you okay yeah i do only fans yeah that sounds bad probably right to most men it sounds
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like what it is yeah well but if but if if she were to say oh yeah somebody can private message me and
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i'll take private photos and lingerie for them and send it to them for money it will never be in my
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bedroom it just it just depends though like yeah like hold on it's not it's not like i'm taking
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selfies and selling it to somebody it's i'm i'm going on a set and shooting and i'm also posting those
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publicly and i'm also but how is that person using that photo it but like and i'm not saying there's
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nothing wrong with what you're doing absolutely by all means like i think the i think you know
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photos in lingerie is the most empowering most like thing someone can do right boudoir photography
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is essentially i think we were talking about it from the male perspective though in terms of like
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if it's a red flag or something you guys are having a discussion between yourselves i'm trying to tell
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you going if i could finish my point is it from the male perspective yes that man you're going to tell
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me from the male perspective i'm i'm saying the i'm saying the photo that's being taken is with
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that person's car bike motorcycle which they think is is which is their possession so having a beautiful
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woman dressed in lingerie next to a thing that brings them joy that might sexually arouse them
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you don't know what they're using those photos for where that content's being posted so i'm saying
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from the general perspective looking at what that person's using that photo for it's relative well i what
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i think though is there's there's probably still going to be plenty of men that would object to what
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definitely you're doing because it's there is to some degree in modesty in what you're doing however
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well i mean if you're posing in like bikinis and stuff like there's definitely conservative men
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that are going to be like even like you might not be nude but it's just i would say you're
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immodest to some degree i would say that's like literally five to ten percent of my photos all of
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my modeling photos i'm genuinely fully clothed i would say i have a very very small percentage
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that's fine lingerie i i don't actually prefer to do that i don't really sure i like to keep it
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that's fine but what i would argue though the differential between what you do and only fans
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you are there there's like a different layer of of separation because on only fans these men are
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then messaging you and you are basically trying to like okay how can i message this guy to try to
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pull as much money from him as possible whether that's through flirting whether that's through
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like trying to get him she's setting her prices yeah but i have one set price it's not like they
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can pay me more donated one hundred dollars let's not be silly red in the future her kids will not
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be bullied or punch another kid because she has nude photos or being run through or pole smoking sex
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sex online damn it is it is a difference thank you thank you having boy girl content online and
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oh and i'm sorry what i started to say in regards just but you got a good point though that there is
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be conservative also i was picking i just want to say something something about grid one i meant it to be
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uh i just want to tell everybody grid one he he like talks a big game but he he drives a um a toy of the
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prius just saying um go ahead with your point i was wondering what he drove yeah oh what i was
04:10:02.740
starting to say was yes people can i have set prices but my price is let's say i'm just gonna
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throw it right my price is okay it's a hundred dollars and you're gonna get 10 pictures and that's
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it it's it's those pictures that i choose to give you it's not you choosing hey i want you to do this
04:10:19.360
and this and this you don't know my model no i but i know that you pictures of me and socks but i
04:10:25.900
i would love to do that for you here's 10 pictures for a hundred dollars yeah but it's not
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but then you can keep it but don't people have conversations with you don't people have
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conversations they can get to know you more they can have conversations with you while you're live
04:10:40.200
and that's based on your cup like i run my page how i want to run my page if i don't want to have
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an in-depth if i don't want to have an in-depth conversation with someone i'm getting saucy
04:10:50.180
then i don't have an in-depth conversation like i i run my page how i'm most comfortable
04:10:55.320
we must read this from jacama jacama has returned okay six-year marriage i kept my assets no alimony
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3k or something on my amex utah he must have killed her six-year marriage must have caught a buddy
04:11:09.580
3k or something on my yo shout out to all the women who been in long marriages and get divorced
04:11:17.360
and don't ask anything of the men shout out to the queens is it utah known for polygamy
04:11:23.540
queen no no well they're known for monism yeah word yo modest jacama thank you very much
04:11:29.500
appreciate it uh okay we have stifler here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one
04:11:35.740
to ten okay go i would say like a seven or an eight same same yeah i'd say seven and a half or eight
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i don't know six maybe half-minded and say seven
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you seven oh uh six six point five we are all the same guy
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laura laura did i say right yes is there an n there's no n you're not you're not lauren you're
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laura yes with an e no oh with an a normal spelling laura laura i don't know why i couldn't
04:12:20.280
you think a lot of millennial women were told you could do anything growing up but in reality
04:12:30.740
that became into you should do everything which helped many of us at work but not in relationships
04:12:36.800
yeah um i think because i'm in my 30s right so a lot of us i think grew up with a lot of
04:12:43.820
expectations from our parents and i see that playing out in the dating world where
04:12:48.060
you might as a woman you're told you have to go to college you have to get an advanced degree you
04:12:52.940
have to do all these things and these are very masculine traits and when you go into the dating
04:12:59.920
world it's like you kind of realize that that's not what guys care about so at all um yeah exactly
04:13:06.460
we don't care yeah we don't so i see you know i've like i haven't been married but i'm happy in my
04:13:13.940
romantic life and i see some of my friends struggle who are similar to me where they have advanced
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degrees and i think they're like kind of spinning their wheels thinking that they're you know men
04:13:24.020
are going to value them for their intelligence and their you know credentials and all this stuff and
04:13:28.200
it's kind of the wrong way to go about it i think uh intelligence is something that can make a woman
04:13:33.600
more attractive but when it comes to your uh career or finances that doesn't really matter yeah i know
04:13:41.680
i know women too that i think they and this is across the board but it's like women will go into
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dates with like checklists and they like treat dates as like almost job interviews and stuff
04:13:50.020
like that oh we have there was that long checklist of places can we put remember nick oh my gosh the
04:13:57.280
cheesecake the cheesecake factory thing let's pull that up because it's kind of oh was it oh it's
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already was it there already uh here's a list list of places women absolutely refuse to go on a first
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date to and thank you to the ladies who reached out to me to help me on my list cheesecake factory
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applebee's chilies chipotle olive garden the movies your house any fast food chain buffalo wild
04:14:18.180
wings wing stop red lobster a buffet a buffet ihop denny's the gym church starbucks coffee dates ice
04:14:26.680
cream dates family functions movie night somewhere that requires a long drive bowling nightclubs
04:14:32.440
hookah bar a bar for just drinks waffle house sports offense wow now what does that leave
04:14:38.820
question to the girls here question to the girls uh is there any any of the items on this list that
04:14:44.720
you actually agree to like yeah don't take me to wing the movies because how do you get to know
04:14:49.180
someone at the movies you're sitting in silence same thing church is kind of the same like i get
04:14:53.360
some of those are definitely valid i would say i'd say i think long drive one because what if you
04:15:00.340
don't like that person you're stuck in the car with this yeah that's here let's uh transition into the
04:15:07.100
uh after show so what we're going to do is uh the tts is going to be hold on the t we're going to
04:15:14.440
transition to the after show tts is going to be 69 and up for tts and reed is uh on stream labs and
04:15:23.980
super chat it's going to be uh 20 and up so you can hit the lights nick go ahead boom
04:15:31.160
whoa all right okay let's see that's okay maybe we should turn those lights back on back there maybe
04:15:38.460
should we yeah or is it fine is it fine like this a lot kiki up i like it like this you like it better
04:15:44.080
like this with with a pink madison jude can you do it um so what was i saying um here i need to change
04:15:56.140
a couple things here in my we're gonna just go after show um yeah so okay we'll just do 69 and up
04:16:06.920
for tts 20 and up for read slash answer whether that's through stream labs or through uh uh youtube
04:16:15.620
so if any of you want you can get in your uh other things let's see what do we have here what do we have
04:16:23.260
to uh what does that mean what does what mean get any other things oh like if somebody wants to get
04:16:30.380
in like a super chat at the lower threshold wait what penis what i thought you were talking about
04:16:36.320
us like yeah oh yeah does anybody have a question something they'd like to get off their chest
04:16:44.080
what do you look for in a that's a great question that's a great question nick can you pull up that
04:16:52.300
video again can you pull up that video the bowing video this is what i look for you know that's like
04:16:57.400
part of like the asian culture that's just like something they do to show respect i want to
04:17:03.200
let me answer her i want a pale anglo-saxon woman to bow for me she doesn't have to be asian but go
04:17:12.120
ahead like go ahead pull up but like when you go on a first date with someone like do you ask like
04:17:17.860
are you willing to bow for me when i enter the room that's my first message just when you saw it in
04:17:23.200
the dms like you don't even meet them in person yet what's that like that's just like a dm question
04:17:28.100
you have to actually i want somebody to demonstrate their bow for me who we got who's down
04:17:33.020
just watch the video and pretend she's bowing to you because i don't think anyone here's gonna
04:17:40.640
go ahead play the video this is what i want you asked me what i want this is what i want look at
04:17:45.200
that fucking bow respect that's respect i thought it was like the deeper you go the more respect that
04:17:51.300
it's true the deeper the deeper you go the deeper you go i'm sorry i'm not to say it i'm like wait
04:17:57.940
what yeah this is great this is this is respect yeah what's that do you want her to chew your food
04:18:07.580
for you and spit in your mouth that's just fucking haram get the see i'm just asking abdul yeah get the
04:18:14.400
let's see the bow look at the bow just beautiful that's what you see i want the attentiveness
04:18:20.740
is what's really attractive but you're asking what who asked what what i'm looking for or just
04:18:26.180
was that just like a general what are you looking for yeah i mean i'm not like trying to date you
04:18:30.280
yeah you're married why does everyone have to make that so clear i mean he asked me like why would
04:18:35.920
you ask me what no no i was asking if that's yes that is what i asked you all right so i'll tell
04:18:41.220
you like let's start with the looks let's start with the looks uh race any is fine but i'd say i have
04:18:46.200
a slight preference for white women or asian women uh slightly awkward asian women i for i
04:18:52.600
irresistible irresistible to me so like a social awkward yeah she'd be like slightly shot like kind
04:18:59.080
of like shy quiet like just sit in the back and just sort of yeah okay um slight preference for
04:19:05.740
petite fun size short women uh it's always like fun size what's a number put a number to that just
04:19:11.700
throw them around yeah what's your what's your height requirement brian her height starts with
04:19:15.420
four oh like four eleven is pretty good it's always it's always funny telling a woman who's
04:19:21.360
like five two that she's too tall for me um how tall are you i'm six foot one oh shit yeah uh i have
04:19:28.000
no issue uh look but here's the thing it's not a deal breaker like i'll date a girl who's taller
04:19:31.960
than me i don't give a fuck oh no way will you no way you wouldn't date a girl who's taller than
04:19:36.620
you god no no it's good it's good i'll date a it's it's definitely good for children she'll give
04:19:43.020
me tall children yeah it didn't work i had to reach up and kiss her like yeah that sounds like
04:19:47.420
you want to bend down yeah it's not good yeah or it's just like you could do the gangster thing is
04:19:51.780
just don't kiss them oh yeah true okay what's your age range how old are you if you don't mind me
04:19:57.840
34 okay uh i would date anywhere from 18 to 45 okay married previously married or having kids
04:20:05.980
uh strong strong preference for no kids to the point where i don't want to say it's a hundred
04:20:12.480
percent a deal breaker but it's like 90 percent deal breaker like most of the time it's going to
04:20:17.880
become an issue what if they're divorced is that divorced i don't divorce with no kids
04:20:23.080
i that's probably fine i mean if there's other issues there then it's a problem but if she's
04:20:28.380
divorced and she's otherwise a perfectly pleasant person don't care um would it be my preference that
04:20:34.840
she wasn't previously divorced yes but it's not a deal breaker uh let's see what else looks wise
04:20:39.980
strong preference no plastic surgery no fake tits no fake lips no bbl no lipo
04:20:45.860
yeah just uh what about like career wise i'll get at home i'll get there uh when it comes to the
04:20:55.560
whole plastic surgery thing i think women are beautiful as they are without the need for
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undergoing dangerous expensive and unnecessary unnecessary uh cosmetic surgery which i honestly
04:21:06.760
think makes women look worse so i'd much rather like give me a girl with an a cup or who's totally
04:21:11.360
flat over some big giant fake titties i'll take a little belly over lipo small ass over a bbl small
04:21:18.140
upper lip over lip fillers basically take any woman who's had any of these procedures however they
04:21:23.980
were before no matter how small her boobs were whatever it was how i'd prefer them as they were
04:21:30.160
um minimal makeup or no makeup i guess a little mascara eyeliner is fine large labia very important
04:21:37.280
blm do you ask huh do you ask is that a preference yeah like first three questions i'd say it's
04:21:43.740
tell me the tell me about the if she turned around and asked you what your size was would you share
04:21:50.920
yeah sure i'd be like yeah it's average but average penis size but like if she asks for
04:21:56.160
specifics specifics yeah because like what you think is average and what's average like might
04:22:01.400
not be the same thing i mean if she asked i'd yeah i'd probably tell her okay i was just wondering
04:22:07.020
like if you're asking can she ask the type of thing yeah i don't give a fuck okay i mean if he's
04:22:12.860
asking i feel like at that point he's open uh well look women have are allowed to have penis size
04:22:18.920
preference i have a labia preference i don't get a labia place you ladies i'll talk you out of it
04:22:24.520
my dms are open um uh let's see uh what else uh slight preference for dark hair but i don't really
04:22:32.400
care i'll date a blonde but uh personality what's that blonde asian it would be fun well i mean i
04:22:39.420
like i don't care about hair color but slight preference for darker hair um personality i have a
04:22:45.320
list here i'm so i'm kind of reading off the list of something why i have a list because i got a lot
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of fucking i got some notes here he knows what he wants uh introverted women quiet calm soft-spoken
04:22:55.040
maybe a little shy a little nerdy modesty is huge i don't like women with big egos who are super vain
04:23:00.400
divas that type of shit girl who brings me peace that's number one uh doesn't quarrel doesn't party
04:23:06.840
doesn't drink doesn't do drugs i look if she drinks a glass of wine whatever but um somebody like
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when i say doesn't drink somebody who drinks in moderation because i rarely drink so uh doesn't
04:23:17.800
go to bars doesn't go to clubs low body count but the biggest thing is just um uh peace yeah
04:23:24.840
personality wise girl who brings you peace so yeah no career wise oh career wise do not give a fuck
04:23:32.520
don't care at all makes more than you i would honestly here's the thing like sugar baby i would not
04:23:39.400
care i wouldn't care if she makes more than me what i would potentially care about is perhaps the
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personality traits that might come with somebody who is career oriented or who is hyper successful
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so if she's a super feminine meets all these other things but she i don't i don't know what career
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field she would be in but if she makes a lot it's not about the money it's the corresponding
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career focusness for example like if i i want her if i want me to be more of a priority
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that could be an issue if i want our potential kids to be more of a priority
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because i i yeah i'd be able to hold down the household on just my income so
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fuck your fifty thousand dollar a year career like let's focus on our kids that's my view on it
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do you think that your your pool of women in the dating scene is smaller because of all of those
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preference preferences preferences no almost everything i listed besides all the physical
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stuff that's most of those are not deal breakers although like plastic surgery is pretty close to a
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deal breaker with me but never say never i guess but i typically find that that is no offense to
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those of you at the table who have plastic surgery that tends to be an indicator of some deficiency
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no offense so yeah yeah i mean yeah if you're enhancing something you were lacking in it well i
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think i don't think it's i think women with small breasts are beautiful that's in the same way that
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women with the large breasts are beautiful i don't think you're deficient if you have small breasts
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right and that's to say that the person who's getting the breast enhancement isn't doing it for
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themselves in their their own self-image instead of what you think yo arisa i see you in the chat
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what's up my dms are open what sorry what what what i'm not i'm not no but like what i'm saying like
04:25:47.520
it obviously if someone's enhancing something there is a deficiency there right if someone's getting a
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boob job it's because they had no boobs but i'm saying they're probably getting it for their own
04:25:55.020
self-image in the way that they see and view themselves as opposed to to impress you or to not
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impress you word word no i mean it could be an indicator of insecurity uh if you you are insecure
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about the way your body is presenting you're choosing to get a danger undergo dangerous surgery
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anytime you go under anesthesia there's certain risks involved with that you're putting this foreign
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object into your body you can have a botched surgery you might need revision surgery um i believe
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with breast implants they are approved for what 10 years and then you need to either get them taken out
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or put back in my understanding is over the course of your lifetime when it comes to uh breast implants
04:26:40.660
you're going to need to get it redone at least two or three times within your lifetime i think that's
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what i've heard i'm not right so i mean and then that's a financial liability on me as the
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like i don't frankly like i would not even if i'm making a shit ton of money like that's a big waste
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of money to go i don't know how much it costs what 5 10k for fake tits i don't that's and if you have
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kids and you get that second or third surgery and you get an infection you can get sick and die or
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you could literally have to have them removed and then you're stuck without boobs anyways so it's
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it's a lot of it's also yeah it's probably also proxy for body uh dysphoria dysphoria dysphoria
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yeah i mean if yeah it's probably proxy for stepping on a stage wait what to compete like i'm saying
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body dysmorphia like yeah like being in the fitness industry and going to the gym causes body dysmorphia
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and that's the most healthiest thing you can do for yourself so it's you know i mean i would just
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say to any young women okay raven dt donated 69 even modern saline implants are encased in silicone
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which increases risk of cancer look i mean ultimately at the end of the day you when you're
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getting plastic surgery you're cutting into otherwise healthy tissue so i just
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you know you know what i mean teach their own yeah you know what i mean no offense to the girls
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here who have fake titties i'm not offended i still love you in a platonic friendly business sort of way
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um let's see what else um i i would just say like
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i think a lot of women feel insecure about their bodies and maybe some of that is on men maybe some
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of that is on other women looking at the kardashians um just know that the majority of men would prefer
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you as you are without any of this bullshit stuff that companies and surgeons are trying to tell you
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you need to be beautiful so um you know just don't get fake titties that's all i'm trying to say
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don't get fake titties don't get labiaplasty you know
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sorry to the ladies at the table who have labiaplasty fake titties
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would any of the girls date a guy who had calf implants
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no how would you what would i would never i would never get in i would never get a plastic
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surgery on something that you can naturally enhance okay like if you can go to the gym
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and you can train your calves and you can grow your calves then why would you get some guys for a woman
04:29:30.320
if you can go to the gym and work out and train your glutes and your hamstrings and you can grow
04:29:35.660
your your glutes why would you get a bbl like that was you know that's the i couldn't go to
04:29:40.500
the gym and train chest yeah you can't there's right yeah that's fair there when it comes to
04:29:46.280
like surgical intervention uh there's nothing you can do in the gym to get bigger boobs as a girl
04:29:52.400
but definitely with ass and yeah you can just work for that yeah so bbl that's cheating that is
04:29:59.020
cheating so you have to work for the next oh my god i had to work for mine so they should they
04:30:04.800
bbls are really dangerous too bbls are like one in a thousand results in death so it's
04:30:10.880
really high that's really high well kanye west mom she was getting a plastic surgery procedure and
04:30:17.360
she died because of it r.i.p connie west mom people go out of the country for it too
04:30:23.420
people go out of the country to get these surgeries because it's cheaper without weighing the risks of
04:30:30.920
like recovery and stuff like that so it's just well they're getting the surgeries and then they're
04:30:35.560
getting right back on a plane and then that's risk of blood clots and so many more complications
04:30:39.760
let me uh i got to read a couple of the uh chats here we have steve-o let's talk about the
04:30:45.300
elephants in the room is the black hair girl a guy oh why because she said she was on hrt no
04:30:51.220
they're probably talking about me no i know but that's what i'm saying because
04:30:53.760
i thought you were a woman i am yeah no i know that's the i have i have a youtube channel like
04:31:03.560
fitness videos and stuff and people will be like are you a man and i'm just i'm tall and i'm i work
04:31:08.020
you're a tall woman so a tall yeah dear redhead oh no can you read it for us i can try i need
04:31:17.580
glasses here uh wait you're an empty head and narcissistic sociopathic borderline dealers wow
04:31:22.940
that's a lot of buzzwords okay mockery of a woman deep down you will never be wow okay okay that's a
04:31:28.020
little uh that's a little me you hurt everyone you interact with you deserve the pain through the
04:31:32.900
wall wow that is uh okay all right imagine spending 99 to insult someone you don't know
04:31:41.340
i didn't even think about that two thousand donated 99 dollars hey yo that's a good way to spend 99
04:31:46.560
oh there you go crying the top cheese okay yeah all right okay thank you very much appreciate we
04:31:53.560
have hate we got we have grid one motorsports okay can't let that pass i daily a silverado but
04:32:00.380
have a rocket bunny fd in the fleet along with the race cars i kept no prius no thanks well oh my gosh
04:32:06.140
i'm i'm actually building my pandem r32 gtr so i'm sorry let's fucking go hell yeah and i daily a
04:32:13.820
right hand drive miata so the guy the guy in the black shirt probably knows the age of consent in
04:32:18.740
every country he has been in has wait what the fuck oh has he's has he said anything that men want
04:32:31.800
that does not better describe a person under under the oh they're just going hard don't take it
04:32:39.580
personally no he's talking about me he's saying apparently the things that i'm because you travel
04:32:44.020
because your travel basically saying that you sleep around with travel and you know the age of
04:32:47.800
consent in every country because things that you do are kind of sketchy okay all right
04:32:52.920
next we have stochastic decay brian a question for the panel what are green flag hobbies for a guy
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start with you just question for the panel green flag hobbies um i would say gaming is not a red flag
04:33:10.800
for me um like hiking being active what about uh what about you um yeah man you're the same guy
04:33:21.720
a lot of that um i like like art a lot i like musicians um people that paint i paint a lot so
04:33:33.840
that's fun yeah um gosh what are green flag hobbies for a guy cars like working on cars okay i like
04:33:45.840
i like that i think there's a lot of them um anything active so gym outdoors activities um anything with
04:33:52.220
your hands like carpentry building computer servers yeah um personal finance reading like those are all
04:33:57.900
okay wait question for you unrelated to this we'll go around we'll finish around the panel
04:34:01.680
um can can we see a try tricep sure can we see a try flock that is a woman's tricep okay how dare
04:34:12.480
you whoever sent it that previous one like i'm just naturally i'm i have a faster metabolism so i
04:34:18.120
stay leaning i'm not burnt ups donated 69 dollars hey brian big fan from alaska have you heard from
04:34:26.620
chase lately slash plan to have him back shout out to the base side of the panel hashtag christ is lord
04:34:33.420
hey yeah actually uh i think we're gonna have him back on uh pretty soon so uh it's in the works i
04:34:39.860
think he's it's in discussions but i think uh we will have him back on pretty soon and i think he will
04:34:45.480
be coming on pretty regularly but we're still figuring out all the details so uh stay tuned stay
04:34:51.420
tuned thank you man um question for you do you need a data guy who's like really buff or do you
04:34:57.080
not really care okay no i'm much more about personality and just who someone is because i
04:35:02.460
always figured with like women who work out that like they probably especially want a guy who's like
04:35:07.420
big or muscular or whatever but is that the case or no because i'm like i'm more of a nerd so before i
04:35:13.380
was a fitness coach i worked in engineering okay i did i was a project manager um grad school all
04:35:19.040
that engineer um a geologist actually but i graduated from this department of civil engineering where i
04:35:25.040
went to school dope yeah uh green flag hobbies for a guy what about you a guy who can cook that's a big
04:35:31.040
one uh god a guy who loves god and the third one is gotta be if they like the way they respect their
04:35:37.980
parents like if they're really respectful for their parents especially their mom so green flag
04:35:42.320
hobbies oh i don't know if that's a hobby like they collect pokemon cards that type of shit yeah
04:35:47.420
that's a great trait yeah i didn't video games what about you um just being active and you know how
04:35:54.500
like i don't know i feel like anything that shows stability like that they can you know afford to
04:36:00.920
have a hobby and pay their bills yeah so anything that's yeah along those lines i agree with you and
04:36:08.620
also anything with the sport or nature or related to fixing things or being clever art craft okay
04:36:18.020
what would you say are red or green flag hobbies for women for green flag hobbies for women reading
04:36:24.560
books definitely studying i don't think women should have hobbies no i'm kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding
04:36:33.260
i'm kidding i'm kidding taking care of the household uh green flag hobbies in women oh man that's a tough
04:36:40.480
one um green flag hobbies i think you are not are a bit different like this in the sense that i i really
04:36:48.760
like smart girls whereas you're not so bothered about it he likes nerdy he said he'd like quiet nerdy
04:36:53.340
no i like i like smart girls but i also like stupid women too no no just like there is something
04:37:01.760
kind of hot about a dull woman lord donated 69 attractive women are hot too found her hair tie in
04:37:10.460
my car nice move we are as close as two people can be she plays her part and operates under tommy
04:37:17.920
shall be rules and for that i will give her the house and kids and life what love you baby
04:37:23.100
guess who that was what okay that was your boyfriend that's the situation that's the situation
04:37:30.500
that's funny mean oh what do you mean rayon dt donated 69 dollars thank you what about guys who
04:37:39.380
like to spend their money on super chats smile okay we can go around would you date a man who legally
04:37:45.000
owned firearms absolutely yeah yep i own firearms yeah okay i would actually prefer it yeah gotcha
04:37:56.720
let me let me get through these other chats here um nickelodeon is about to come up here in just a
04:38:03.720
sec nickelodeon says ginger why is everything about sex because that's what men think about why do women
04:38:08.900
expect men to think like them that's naive i haven't saved brian's life but i've almost made him
04:38:14.380
say the n word oh god okay all right he did he actually did almost trick me into saying it it's
04:38:24.680
a long story that'd be so scary as a streamer because you're just reading you know yeah i just
04:38:28.800
read it so i always read stuff in my my mind first yeah or get my head and then i say it out loud
04:38:34.600
it's like i'm always like is this a ploy to get me to say something i probably shouldn't yeah uh
04:38:40.080
this is you maxually blah blah blah brian it's time to mix up your wardrobe wear something other
04:38:47.460
than your black shirt and the fan look i keep it simple i keep it simple tell the story behind the
04:38:53.180
seven yeah i'm also curious yeah maybe someday but not tonight what uh ed carter f that bible
04:39:01.460
bashing ned flanders what who's ned flanders me am i ned flanders are you ned flanders
04:39:08.320
we have stochastic decay hey brian sorry i'm late question for china what type of gear are you on
04:39:18.360
d-ball trend winnie anivar and a drawl oh gosh i'm not on any of those which so h hrt is hormone
04:39:26.140
replacement therapy so just like men if you have low testosterone as a woman and you're the right
04:39:30.800
age and it makes sense for your health you can get that prescribed from a doctor so that's what i'm
04:39:35.020
taking is it like progesterone no it's testosterone oh it is yeah that's what hormone replacement
04:39:40.600
therapy is well i wasn't sure if you were like taking hormones for like estrogen because i know
04:39:44.900
some like i was actually taking estrogen would be like birth control no i was actually prescribed
04:39:50.160
estrogen while i was on the child drug because it actually reduced my estrogen levels so birth
04:39:55.240
that was the only hormonal birth control is also usually estrogen or progesterone yeah let's see
04:39:59.700
we have a couple chats here from uh let's see seaberg brian i think her dream girl works at chick-fil-a
04:40:07.340
funny story i actually dated a girl for two years and at least when i had met her she was working at
04:40:14.660
chick-fil-a so i dated a girl for two years she worked at chick-fil-a did you get free chick-fil-a
04:40:20.460
um once maybe i think she brought it home but i think they don't they don't just get free
04:40:29.160
chick-fil-a i mean i still would have brought chick-fil-a is bomb though so it was i don't know
04:40:37.400
uh jenny jeremy from right to left eight five four five ten not gonna lie laura is hot as af
04:40:45.120
i let her punch me in the face ten six eight ten wait from right to left right wait eight point five
04:40:59.160
four five ten ten six eight ten okay jeremy all right um laura can i set you up jeremy sure yeah
04:41:14.220
he calls you a 10 so you want to get punched in the face would you punch him in the face
04:41:20.260
like would you i've never actually punched anyone oh really no but i haven't i have been told i would
04:41:26.500
i would do well in like the wwe or something so maybe that'll be after okay all right it's in the
04:41:31.260
works the retirement career it's in the works um what else do we have uh let's see
04:41:38.100
sugar daddies oh sugar what the yeah okay i'll i'll read that later um who here has had a sugar daddy
04:41:50.920
and we'll go around the table have you no kind of yeah sugar daddy no no no no would would anybody
04:42:01.120
here be a sugar mama sometimes i feel like it in my relationships what you feel like it sometimes
04:42:09.080
how so are you a higher are you a higher earner i do good because i've definitely heard from some
04:42:18.560
only fans girls is in a relationship because they do only fans because they're involved in sex work
04:42:25.020
they feel like they have to almost make up for it in a way and they'll they'll typically make up for it
04:42:30.120
by like more so than the average girl more so than like the general population of women they'll like
04:42:37.760
buy a lot of gifts they'll provide they'll pay for dates that sort of thing i don't think i
04:42:43.340
do that because i've only fan shame more because it's easier for me to do it for my friends and the
04:42:53.200
people that i love and i know it'd be harder for them to get dinner than for me to get dinner
04:42:57.300
gotcha so okay fair enough um so sugar daddies would you be a sugar mama to somebody no i've dated
04:43:06.720
guys in the past where that kind of became the dynamic and i really didn't like it you didn't like
04:43:11.580
i've realized over time dating because i you know i have master's degrees i was a six-figure
04:43:16.400
earner starting in my 20s right yeah um that tends to attract a type of male that's a little bit more
04:43:21.600
like i don't want to use this word but like more just like beta or like feminine energy right they
04:43:27.420
want to refer to me right yeah and i didn't like that um so it's i've been in a couple relationships
04:43:33.920
where that kind of became the pattern and i just i it doesn't work and would you prefer the guy to be
04:43:38.760
a bit more dominant yes you want the guy to be the leader in the relationship
04:43:42.920
do you want to arm wrestle right now no i'm kidding okay are you down if we can get um how
04:43:50.660
much do you want to set the price for like a my sorry my shoulder's kind of i'm right i'm right
04:43:56.640
i'm a lefty okay that's okay not meant to be it's too far away um i know where's the super chat link
04:44:05.060
so you said you had a sugar daddy you were kind of like sort of ish was your sugar daddy while you
04:44:12.600
were in college yeah back in college how old were you when you had your sugar daddy 19 i think have
04:44:18.560
you had multiple sugar daddies really one consistent one like i was on seeking so like oh you got on
04:44:24.400
seeking okay yeah um so you were 19 what what was the arrangement um it was like i don't know like
04:44:33.500
coffee date 200 bucks his house 200 bucks depending on what we did wait 200 bucks for a coffee date yeah
04:44:41.280
and then two 200 bucks it's like 200 per meeting but more if we did more how much what i never did
04:44:49.620
more you never did more no but you said you'd meet at his house too sometimes yeah like he would
04:44:54.340
wine and dine me we'd chat for 200 bucks what so did you kiss him yeah did you charge for the kiss
04:45:02.780
no maybe i should it was included it was included it was a package about that god
04:45:11.160
yeah like we sing the d no no s-ing the d no like tried and he could tell he was not into it
04:45:18.740
he tried he tried yeah he offered did he offer what was there a negotiation 500 he was just like
04:45:25.100
you don't want to do this i was like i don't want to do this and he was like okay here's your money go
04:45:29.060
home and i went home how was he like a much older guy not like mid 40s late 40s mid 40s okay
04:45:37.360
i don't get what these guys because a lot of these like sugar daddy like the girls never end up
04:45:43.220
fucking the so i just don't get what the dudes are what's the point he's lonely yeah yeah it really
04:45:51.240
was paying companionship say it's someone who works you know crazy hours sure and they don't have the
04:45:58.540
ability to be out on the dating scene or go somewhere where they would meet someone so they
04:46:03.500
you know use this arrangement to meet someone have someone to talk to yeah
04:46:09.760
okay all right if you say so um you had a sugar daddy kind of i guess so uh how much total do
04:46:20.020
you think he paid you total you don't know she doesn't want to what about you the guy this one
04:46:25.740
guy how many total meetups do you think there were not many like how much he lived like an hour away
04:46:31.660
so like five five okay all right okay all right we have we have uh hold on i'm just gonna read this
04:46:41.780
this is okay xavier blm is a scam go sub to prager you bring back deborah lay oh yeah she's okay i need
04:46:50.140
to dm her um pink friday two by nikki minaj what the cardi b belongs wait did it come up did it go away
04:46:58.420
already uh cj pearson for president miss caden is the main character and a skinny legend city boys
04:47:06.900
we up we have uh brandon mel i think i'm in love with anya brian tell her about the time i saved you
04:47:14.040
from that wild chimpanzee so yes anya brandon did save me from a wild chimpanzee we're at the santa barbara
04:47:19.760
zoo and somehow it got out of its enclosure and it just started like it was fucking and people bring
04:47:26.400
their dogs to the zoo and said so the chimpanzee started chasing after dogs trying to fuck up dogs
04:47:31.360
and shit the dogs were barking i was there the chimpanzee saw me came towards me and then brandon
04:47:37.600
stepped in front of me have you ever seen dragon ball z you know how piccolo gets in front like in
04:47:41.540
the very few first few episodes piccolo blocks goku from the the attack from raditz right is that wait
04:47:48.300
was it piccolo chat confirmed piccolo blocked goku from the raditz attack was it raditz wait
04:47:56.520
chat can you help me out here wait chat chat chat chat chat chat chat was it the piccolo piccolo
04:48:05.000
chat hello help me out here guys was it it was no hold on no piccolo got it was the very first few
04:48:14.360
episodes no no no not napa and gohan got no no no guys that's like way into the saiyan saga
04:48:22.380
it's way into the saiyan saga i'm pretty sure piccolo sacrificed himself to protect goku am i wrong
04:48:29.460
they're saying yes piccolo stopped napa's no but somebody goku held raditz oh wait goku wait goku
04:48:38.780
oh wait hold on am i fucking the shit up what was the okay i don't know in any case brandon
04:48:46.700
melz protected me like it was dragon ball z took the beam for me boom got in the way of the fucking
04:48:52.600
chimpanzee started fucking that chimpanzee up like boom boom like an animal animal abuse shit right
04:48:57.740
oh fucked up the chimpanzee it was a wild chimpanzee right well not wild but it was acting wild
04:49:03.220
would you date brandon um i need to know more about him brandon she's got no more you got to
04:49:11.360
send some details brandon send some details how do you treat your parents yeah what was the third one
04:49:17.720
christ gaming and your relationship with god so we got this one j lion 86 around the table someone is
04:49:26.380
breaking into your house should your husband wait for the intruder to delete you or him or wait to find
04:49:31.280
out bro can you please is actually your what hello this doesn't bro uh is actually is your future
04:49:40.400
child when they're sneaking back in the house before he deletes the person what i don't understand this
04:49:45.160
at all yeah wait for the intruder he's asking what we would do what we want our husband to do
04:49:50.380
no no no no he's saying if there's an intruder in the house are you gonna kill them straight away
04:49:56.340
or are you gonna wait to see if it's your child that snuck out and come back in
04:49:59.220
okay like first of all if you're a gun owner you know that
04:50:02.280
if you are in a certain situation you can't just shoot shoot so if they're a gun owner and a smart
04:50:11.740
one at that and you do look before you shoot they yeah there's some guidelines that they follow before
04:50:17.500
just deleting somebody yeah good times we don't get guns in australia you guys are more bad off than
04:50:24.400
we have vladdy daddy what is the general round table perception of a good-looking eight to nine
04:50:29.580
man with an extremely low to no body count who isn't who isn't interested in sex without romance
04:50:35.000
also would anyone consider it acceptable to lie in order to date said man yeah i don't really
04:50:42.700
um that was a pointed question who is interested in sex without romance uh we can typically only do
04:50:50.480
like one question per chat so would you anyone consider it acceptable to lie in order to date said man
04:51:01.660
would you lie about here i'm just gonna have to improvise on this
04:51:05.940
would you lie about your body count to a really attractive guy that you really like
04:51:12.800
no because if you don't like me for me then why am i going to be with you
04:51:20.420
no and i don't feel like i have anything to hide from
04:51:31.580
but he shouldn't know i i think you know it would be in his mind it would burn in his mind
04:51:38.180
and it would cause trouble in the future so it's better to keep like yeah did you have i don't
04:51:43.700
know for example if it's a red flag uh to have sex with a married a person ask it do you have sex
04:51:49.740
with someone married yes or no and that's all not not the numbers we have brandon melz here boy
04:51:57.020
i've been on you know me yeah he's been on the show before uh he has black hair
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he has black hair he's got dark hair memorable um sold i love that i really impression that one
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he's a nice guy he's a nice guy he's a nice guy um he he's got great hair did i mention his hair
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fantastic hair his hair is really nice if you like men with nice hair he's your guy speaking of body
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count should body count matter boom on which side like either way no here how about this do you
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object to men caring about uh women's body count i mean i think everyone's entitled to their own
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opinion sure i think same yeah sorry i mean same you really yeah you don't have you you don't think
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anything about it come on tell us how you really feel i've been talking a lot um you're right moving
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on go ahead right just kidding go ahead and say your piece i don't know it doesn't really matter
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there's only been one time when i've dated a guy where it kind of mattered because he told me he was
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a sex addict and i was like and i was like that's not like a great way to like start off but he was
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so cool so word but it's if he cares about your body count right that's that was the question
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oh um do you care if he cares do i care if a guy cares about my body now i think it's like weird
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it's like if you have like a like a big body count and they're like really not into that then that's
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fair whatever like you don't have to be into me um but you don't gotta be what's a big body count
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do you reckon well hers was 15 that was surprising um did she say it i must have been in the toilet
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yeah she said like a big body count would be 15 i would probably say like
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excuse me over like 30 yeah yeah that's a big one that's a big body count but like not crazy
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for a girl it's pretty crazy i'm just saying in general like the guy that i was seeing was had
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80 and i was like a guy you were saying the guy that i was like the one person i've ever been like
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he told me i was a sex addict and had 80 and i was like do i care okay moving on what about you
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um everyone's entitled to their own opinion yeah like if they care they care but if they care about
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my body count then i'm gonna be like sorry to disappoint you know like i don't know like
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yeah fair what about you i think everyone's entitled to their preferences um at the same time i feel
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like it doesn't come up that much after a certain age like yeah i don't think i've ever really had
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had partners like ask me that question would you be offended if a guy asked you what your body count
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was no i don't think so okay i mean yeah i guess it's entitled to their own opinion but i mean i could
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see why they would care like i could see why they care yeah i believe everyone can have their own
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opinion but i do think that it does affect your relationship with that person i think that if
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they know like you said it kind of gets burned in their brain and then they'll start comparing
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themselves true it's just hard yeah i think before marriage you shouldn't even have one person so if
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you already had one it's more than enough but if god has forgiven uh let's move on it's you know
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have you had one yeah yeah yeah yeah get the rocks abdul yeah get the rock get the rocks i'm just kidding
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i'm not proud of that i'm not it's okay it's people have sex wait with your current guy you i think
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you said you're waiting right with your new guy yes yes yes yes he's christian he's christian is he
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a virgin i get that uh i don't think so what yeah it's been one week to be fair yeah just one week
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but it is her boyfriend so but you know if god forgive him there's nothing i can bring against him
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conversation hasn't come up though he hasn't told you about his about his his past no no no no you guys
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haven't had the birds and the bees talk not yet okay uh okay i ask this every show because why not
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what what's everyone's body count go ahead nine nine eleven i literally don't know it's like
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20 something 20 something yeah 20 29 maybe i'd say like well wait you you've been dating you said
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you've been kind of dating a guy for like four years right right in that time period i forgot if
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you've already were have you seen other guys in that time period the first time we broke up first
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time you broke up okay this is mostly college you'd think yeah like the oh yeah the bodies yeah
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during college college yeah early college college i was a small town girl small town girl big
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university big university sorority you know sorority alpha football team that was yeah i get it i get it
04:57:25.000
it happens it happens one thing one day you're a small town girl living in a lonely world half the
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you said d1 d1 athletes baseball team no no i knew a girl who slept with the entire for me men's football
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team at a college i mean college football teams are big they're big yeah they're second string like
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literally third string some people are red red shirting quarterbacks and shit seriously nicholas
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knows all about that right nick okay he was a red shirt quarterback so he was on the list nicholas
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before he took an arrow to the knee was going to be a court uh he was going to go play college ball
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wow but now he's work in the whatever podcast he's in the whatever dungeon yeah i keep him in the
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whatever dungeon he's really loud on his face there body count i prefer not to answer range
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like less than 10 okay zero like i said i'm saving myself for marriage so seven
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range range less than 10 more than more than 10 less than 10 of course of course i mean i don't know
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if it's of course but okay zero no before you became a born again virgin shut up bro come on
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born again bro born again after thailand i was born again then oh you were uh
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choose a good one is it oh wait never mind okay i had a button for it but it's too late
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the moment's past i don't reveal my body count just ask everybody else no i do not reveal my body count
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i guess okay i'm not gonna tell you but you can guess will you give me a wink if i get close
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nope okay same numbers i'm like phasing it in i'm gonna i'm gonna say like
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okay cool okay good guess you gotta give me like a
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i can't all right we have yo seberg mars it seems to me that you have a really great personality
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thank you you have a soft and nurturing demeanor seems like you would make a great wife and mother
04:59:58.120
instant gratification can get in the way of our long-term happiness purpose easy now hard later
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your response mars that was a nice way to put your opinion i'll i'll keep it in here thank you i mean
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it seemed fairly complimentary so that was very nice very nice so much better than the last one
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you know oh my god now before i wrap up here any final thoughts speak now or forever hold your peace
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if you have a final thought i've got a question for you over here being a young christian conservative
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virgin you and your friends you're all in that sort of ilk what are you guys looking for in a guy and
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what are the disqualifiers if a man was a was a man whore in a past life is he just disqualified i
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mean if obviously he like i do believe in forgiveness and i'm i've tried not to be judgmental so
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obviously like if he does turn his turn his life around and he gets baptized whatever then i will
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like accept him like he doesn't have to be a virgin but again i'd rather be with somebody who has the
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christian morals and all your friends are along the same lines yeah i was just i was just dipping
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dipping my toes in the water you know maybe i have to go all the way get baptized
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anything from anybody else any uh come on uh hungarian dating what's it like in hungary
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so how's it like in hungary it's good yeah it's different but i've always wanted to date a hungarian
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you shouldn't believe in the news i guess you should hungary's amazing in the rabbit hole and
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listen to prigger you and everything we are so conservative uh we are i think we are light
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in europe in in a lot of ways okay so yeah yep budapest is a great thank you for having me
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as well yeah okay are the men better here budapest budapest is the capital of the hungry
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i spent a favorite tom babies here aren't treat you better do they treat you better here or
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yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah american men you prefer the american this one this guy
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this guy this guy this guy this guy specifically okay anything i just want to say this was really
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fun yeah really yes guys yeah i got a little spicy in there a couple times but i had it i did it all
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in good fun you know we made fun of each other yeah i think y'all appreciate it yeah we're different
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opinions i actually get along really well normally with like the spiritual sort of talks normally like
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i have really robust conversations with them so we'll call it that are you calling me spiritual
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yeah you're one of the spiritual types she's one of the spiritual types
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like a hippie me and i go home tonight i'm just like kumbaya belly dancing
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you definitely tried the fire sticks in thailand
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just aligning the chakras and stuff sick i'm gonna pretend like you just make my dick go soft
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what um that crazy dancing making my penis soft you have such a crazy soundboard my soundboard is lit
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okay um all right let's see um oh twitch we got a shout out yo guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever
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drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you're uh watching over there i'm a korean thank you for
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the prime buddy much appreciated thank you thank you uh let's see we're caught up on chats we're
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okay we have this last chat here whoops yo nico brian great show well diversified panel jake was a
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great voice of reason for these girls looking forward to hearing from you um yeah jake was awesome uh his
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second time on the show always happy to uh have him and i appreciate you being level-headed and not
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shoving your opinions down people's throats oh thank you i thought i was getting too shovy at
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times i mean like you were strong in your opinion but not strong to where it was like let me convert
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your thoughts because my way is the only way i feel like that happens i mean his way is kind of the
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only way i feel like we all jake's way is kind of the only way yeah let's be real if you watch my
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channel it's the only way you said rattlesnake rattlesnake what is that tv so it's normally
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on it errs on the conservative side of political and social commentary but i also commentate on a
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lot of geopolitics as well a little bit of hungry i'm gonna check it yeah i'm gonna and um yeah so i
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talk about a lot of things a lot of like a little bit about like dating and masculinity and
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feminism which is the bane of my existence but yeah yeah talk about a lot of different things
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it's the bane politics it's the bane of his existence how does that make you feel how does
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that make you guys feel i'm not feminist does it make you feel good do you agree with that do you
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disagree are you a feminist or are you super based no i would say i'm feminist in that i believe in
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equality of opportunity okay the way feminism has been interpreted and is applied now no i can't i
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can say that yeah it's it's a very toxic ideology now it's always been very toxic there's a false
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notion that feminism used to be like great when really the roots of feminism are actually very
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marxist in their origin and it's all about power and oppression and seeing the world in a victim
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versus oppressor structure if you read the early marxist do you guys know like karl marx and friedrich
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if you read that early work it's very like seeing pitting men and women against each other and the
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early feminists are all about destroying the nuclear family and yeah it's toxic toxic society destroying
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perverse stuff word word yeah yay oh last thing before our last show our last show you had a quarrel with
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me because i edited uh the thumbnail i i uh did a little touch up on on your photo and you
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i did not like that you didn't like it it's not that i didn't not like it i was just wondering if
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you were being a little clickbaity clickbaity yeah what do you mean i feel like over edited the photo
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like like no it was pretty tame you know what's funny i've done a bunch of podcasts no no on my
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channel and and the one time i interviewed a girl was the one time i ever got in trouble for a
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thumbnail she emailed me to change the thumbnail oh my god i didn't care i was really just like
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it was trolling you to be funny like okay i wasn't upset is that why the caption for this one was back
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i saved i saved it for the the very end of the podcast but yeah oh no i wasn't like actually mad
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to confront me oh yeah no i wasn't actually mad i just thought i thought that was gonna be a bit
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of beef i was in the cup it was like a little i was wondering i read that and i was like who's
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i was like is that me it's you okay you're the drama yeah am i the drama you are the drama
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i mean it's you know but uh i forgot i it seemed like you were a little hurt oh my god no not at
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on the last episode i'm not easily offended so i thought i was just trying to troll you that's good
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because i know that's your mo don't walk it back come on come on don't walk it back you were upset
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i really wasn't you were upset honestly i really wasn't oh okay that's fine that's fine because i
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mean you link my my instagram anyway so if someone goes to my instagram like they can see what the
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actual foot it looks like so it's really not okay i think i removed like a mole or two i think
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that's like literally multiple freckles i removed like i got so offended when somebody removed my
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freckles i'm like i like my freckles yeah i'm a i'm anti-freckles really in my yeah i have freckles
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in weird places i have freckles i have freckles i literally i have like freckles in my arm
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no freckles are fine i'm just what if a girl has freckles on her labia what's that what if a girl
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has freckles on her labia that's fine do you have freckles on your labia that's a personal
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question i was like i've never even seen that's a very personal question i'm very curious now i would
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like to i'm asking you a hypothetical because you have such strong opinions on labias no on body parts
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i have strong opinions on body parts so i'm just what do you think about it freckles is it like
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super cool i'm just when it's it's not like okay if i'm dating a girl and she has freckles
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that's fine but like when when it comes to the the editorial the the the final product of the image
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for the thumbnail goodbye freckles that's why i never make it on the thumbnail so okay you gotta
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get the hot ones on there okay all right thanks should we do you want to talk more about labia
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because i'm i can talk about labia i will talk about okay all fucking night what is your thoughts
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on what's that instagram reels this see-through dress trend love it what love it oh my god
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see-through dress trend on instagram where like people literally put lunch meat in there
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some people like over exaggerate it really oh my god yeah you've never seen that yeah i don't really
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are you saying like the the kind of sheer the girls that were this they they were like sheer dresses
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they stand with their legs love it spread and there's light coming in from the back so you can
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see everything that is there but some people over exaggerate it and literally put something are you
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legitimately a fan of big labia yes are you being are you trolling about that no i'm a hundred
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percent serious yeah a hundred percent serious okay i like innies are cool too but like
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outies what's up yeah dms are open this is the first time my feelings have been hurt this entire
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podcast oh why because you have an innie someone out there for you no it's not that i
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innies are good innies are good don't get me wrong it's not like i wouldn't date a girl who has an
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innie but if she's got an audi boom finger guns got it and on that hit me up yeah there's definitely
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i've seen some of that shit you're talking about the girls who like it's wild it's i'm surprised
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that's not tos i'm surprised that's not like it blows my mind like leave something for the
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imagination yeah yeah i will say that it's i've invited them on the show and i've not heard back
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so i'm trying to and you're like an advocate for them as well i i am an advocate i'm the trailblazer
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oh yeah when it comes to this labia big labia movement and i wish i had i was a bit more recognized
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for the for what i have done for this uh community for the community 444 followers exactly yeah that's
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isn't that that's an angel number it is i don't know what it means yeah i it means that that's
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good luck that the girl's gonna respond to you now uh we're caught up on chats okay cool wrapping up
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here uh guys oh audi labia equals lips that grip that is facts that is facts raven dt um yeah word
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uh anyways um oh seven's in the chat last call hit the like button please on your way out thank you
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a halloween show so if you want to see maddie uh what are you wearing maddie for that one what do
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you want i don't know oh don't spoil it don't spoil it i know anyways guys tuesday
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