Whatever Podcast - Muscle Mommy CONFRONTS Brian？! ft. HOE MATH ｜ Dating Talk #113

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00:02:30.180 Without further ado, we're going to have the guests introduce themselves, so please tell us your name,

00:02:33.660 age, and occupation. Go ahead. Hello. My name is Sammy Jo. I'm an IFBB Bikini Pro and online coach,

00:02:40.380 posing coach, and a content creator as well. Welcome. Hey, I'm Mars Noir. I'm 25, and I do OnlyFans.

00:02:51.260 I'm Kaden. I'm 24, and I'm a bartender and OnlyFans creator. I'm Laura. I'm 35, and I'm also an IFBB

00:02:59.240 bikini pro, and I'm a full-time fitness and online bodybuilding coach. No OF, right? No OF. Okay,

00:03:05.760 got it. Hi, my name is Anya. I'm 18, and I'm a Twitch streamer. Hi, my name is Angela. I work in the

00:03:13.740 automotive industry. I'm 31 years old. Hello, my name is Annette. I'm 29 years old, and I work as a

00:03:21.180 nanny because I'm a kindergarten teacher. Where are you from? Hungary. Hungary. And how, so you're

00:03:27.600 just in San, or excuse me, you're just in California for a couple weeks? Yes, yes, yes. Are you nanny for

00:03:34.640 like a wealthy family, or? Yeah, we can say that. Okay. Are they, are they also Hungarian, or are they

00:03:40.400 American? No, it's a French-American couple. French-American couple. Yeah. Okay, all right. Jake,

00:03:45.840 Rattlesnake TV, 28 years old. Are we doing relationship status? Not yet, no. Okay, we'll

00:03:51.360 save that. And you were recently where? I was in Thailand. Just came here two days ago, so

00:03:57.380 extremely jet-lagged, so if I'm a little bit brain foggy. Hold on, I got to fix the mic here. Wait,

00:04:02.340 sorry, the thing, the little thing was popped off slightly. Yeah, so if I'm a little bit brain foggy,

00:04:07.060 I do apologize, but we'll get through it. What were you doing in Thailand? Just training a bit of Muay

00:04:11.400 Thai. I was in Koh Samui for a little while, riding motorbikes, eating cheap food. Nice.

00:04:15.820 And various other things. Any, uh, ladyboys? I told you before the show. Okay, sure, sure.

00:04:25.180 There are ladyboys, but not for me, unfortunately. Okay, got it. And then our, uh, our first ever

00:04:31.160 videoing guest, why don't you, uh, introduce yourself, Name, Age, Occupation. Hello, um, I am known as

00:04:37.520 Homath. I'll keep my name quiet for the moment, and my face. Um, Age, I am on my way out of the dating

00:04:44.860 market. I'll leave it at that. And Occupation, I complain about things on the internet for money

00:04:51.180 full-time, starting very recently. Nice. Okay, very good. By the way, since this is our first

00:04:56.040 time doing a video in, can the chat give us a little quick feedback? How was the audio from

00:05:01.340 Homath? Was it, was it okay? Was it a bit too loud? Was it, uh, peaking at all, or is the audio okay?

00:05:07.680 One in the chat, if the audio is okay. Two in the chat, maybe if it was peaking a little bit,

00:05:11.740 or if it was, uh, too, maybe too loud. But I, I think we have it pretty good, so, um, sweet. So

00:05:17.620 we're going to go around the table once more. So what is your current relationship status? So are

00:05:23.140 you single, talking stage, situationship, friends with benefits, relationship, married, poly-cool 0.99

00:05:28.120 sex, cult harem? Probably, I, if there's anything else that I missed, um, if you're single, how 0.80

00:05:35.040 long have you been single, and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in? Go ahead.

00:05:38.420 I'm married, and my longest relationship is my current one of six years. Six years, okay. And,

00:05:45.300 uh, you're, sorry, I missed the age for you. I'm 27. I forgot to say that. 27, okay. Got it. Um,

00:05:53.220 I'm single. I've been single-ish for, like, three years, because I date a lot. Um, and my longest

00:06:01.120 relationship was three and a half years. You, you've been single-ish for three years because you date a

00:06:06.780 lot. Right. Well, like, ish, yeah, because, like, I go out. Right. I meet people, but I

00:06:11.600 haven't, like, been locked down in a while, for sure. In three years. In three years, which is crazy

00:06:17.700 to think about. Is it? I broke up with my, like, big ex-boyfriend right before I went to, like,

00:06:22.820 backpack for a month and a half. He was obese? What? Huh? Did I say that? No, you said big, big ex-boyfriend.

00:06:30.020 Big. Oh. Oh. It was, like, it was a big thing for you. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Everyone questions me on that,

00:06:34.340 and I never change my lingo. It's just, like, the big ex, like, your longest relationship. Oh,

00:06:38.700 okay, sorry. I just, that's where my mind goes. Yeah, my obese ex-boyfriend. Yeah. Did you break

00:06:43.740 up with him to go backpacking, or you broke up because? It was time, and that was a good moment

00:06:49.160 to do it, you know? Like, all right, that's done, and now I'm off, you know? Yeah, fair enough, okay. Yeah.

00:06:55.060 Um, I'm technically single, but I'm in a bit of a situation-ship with my ex, for sure. Wait,

00:07:01.900 technically single? Yeah, we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. But you're in a... It's a situation-ship.

00:07:09.120 Okay. I never understand what that word means. Really quick, coming back to you, you've been

00:07:15.280 single for three years. In that three-year period, what's the longest period of time that you've

00:07:20.560 been with a guy, maybe a situation-ship, or a short-term friends with Ben, whatever it may be,

00:07:25.500 what's the longest period of time that you've been seeing a guy in the past three years?

00:07:29.680 Okay, embarrassing. Probably, like, a month. Just one month? Yeah, I had a joke with my friends

00:07:34.660 that I'm, like, a two-weeker, you know? A two-weeker. Yeah. I like to kind of get to know people,

00:07:40.400 and then, like, shift around. I don't see myself really interested in having, like, a long-term

00:07:45.860 partner right now. Okay. And so, I like just meeting people and going out and the whole thing,

00:07:51.500 you know? Okay. All right. Okay. Yeah, a month. Are you the one who normally breaks it off and moves

00:07:57.720 about? Yeah. Never been broken up with before. Is that a flex? It's a flex. It's, like, a little,

00:08:04.200 like, a little flex. You've never been broken up with before? Never. No. Okay. All right. Okay.

00:08:11.960 What about, uh, oh, did you finish on your relationship status? You said you've been

00:08:16.840 single, uh, longest, longest relationship? Um, the situationship. That you're currently in. Like,

00:08:24.160 yeah. But you're technically single. We've been together for, like, four years. Wow. Five,

00:08:29.860 almost. But you're technically single, but you've been together for four years,

00:08:33.040 but it's a situationship. Is it on again, off again? Yes. Yeah. Okay. I would call it that for sure.

00:08:39.380 So how long have you been technically single? A few months. Like, since, like. When's the last

00:08:46.000 time you saw the guy? Uh, like, two days ago. But you've been technically, you saw him two days

00:08:51.940 ago, but you've technically single for a few months. Yeah. What makes you technically single?

00:08:57.740 Um, he doesn't want to be my boyfriend. I don't want to be his girlfriend. Are you guys

00:09:00.540 seeing other people? It's, like, uh, no, it's that, yeah. So it's, like, exclusive. What's the point

00:09:06.280 of putting a ship at the end of it? If it's not, you don't want to be together at all?

00:09:10.820 Well, I think it's the title. He, he, like, doesn't want the title. So it's, like, a relationship

00:09:15.800 with that title. But what's the point of there being any title at all? That's what I don't

00:09:18.220 get about situationship. Yeah, I, well, I don't really. Didn't they used to call it, like,

00:09:21.840 I feel like situationship is just so inclusive. Not exclusively seeing other people. Yeah.

00:09:26.180 Right, like, we are. But if you could, you, if you wanted to, you could.

00:09:30.520 Yeah, I feel like, like, he has encouraged me to date. As soon as something better comes

00:09:34.120 along for you or for him, it's, it's done. I hate to think yes, but, like, maybe. I

00:09:39.680 don't know. At least you guys are honest. Are you afraid? Exactly. Are you afraid of

00:09:44.600 being heartbroken or what's the reason, if I can ask? No, I'm, like, I don't know.

00:09:50.020 I'm a tough girl, so. What do you mean by tough girl? Like, I don't know that I've ever

00:09:55.800 been heartbroken. Like, sad for sure. Like, this is, like, my, like, I bounce back like

00:10:02.040 that. Like, no, but, like, very sad at the thought of losing him. Like, this is, like,

00:10:07.820 my best friend. So, it's, like, hard to say goodbye for sure. So, we'll, like, break up

00:10:13.000 and then just still keep hanging out. Is this, like, a safe, familiar thing?

00:10:16.160 Like, perhaps. Yeah. Yeah. So, you don't want to be with him? He's, like, your best friend

00:10:19.920 and you'd bounce back like that. Okay, like, I would, if he wanted to be my boyfriend,

00:10:22.800 I would be his girlfriend. But. Oh. I guess. But he doesn't want to be his girlfriend.

00:10:28.600 Well. That sounds. I don't want to. I was going to say. That sounds like a situationship

00:10:33.080 if I've ever heard of him. Exactly. Exactly. There's just no other way to explain it.

00:10:36.600 There's a lot of complex feelings going on here. So much. Yeah. We're all going to have questions.

00:10:40.740 Are you dating other people? No. I'm not. So, but you've been in this situationship

00:10:46.300 for four years? We, like, no, we were full on together for,

00:10:49.920 like, I think this is our second breakup. This is our second breakup. Like, we broke

00:10:54.780 up. Oh, there was a breakup. Who broke up with who? It was mutual. Okay. So, we got together

00:10:58.960 when I was in college. He moved out to LA during COVID and we were like, okay, like, we'll end

00:11:05.340 it here. And then I just kept flying out to see him and he would come see me in the city.

00:11:11.440 So, it just never ended. Would he fly out to see you? Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. He would. So, I'd see

00:11:17.820 him, like, every other month. And then we eventually kind of got back together. Like,

00:11:23.080 there literally would be a point where I'd be like, so am I your girlfriend yet? Are

00:11:25.740 you my boyfriend? He'd be like, no. And then one day he was just like, yeah.

00:11:29.520 He has commitment issues. I'm sorry. Don't be. Don't be. He has commitment issues.

00:11:34.680 I think maybe he's just doing some extracurricular behavior on the side. Yeah. That's what he

00:11:39.940 said. He has his kikini. Ignorance is bliss in my eyes. So. At least he's not lying to you. 0.97

00:11:44.780 I'd rather not know. Honestly. Like, don't ask, don't tell. During the time that you've dated

00:11:48.780 him, have you seen any other guys? During our first breakup. Break? Yeah. I did. And

00:11:56.480 he, like, told me he was seeing people out here too. I was back in Chicago. So.

00:12:00.240 Chi-town. Yeah. Well, I was still living in my college town actually. But yeah. Yeah.

00:12:06.000 So. He was seeing other people. I was kind of, like, not really seeing other people. Okay.

00:12:11.140 Do you think it would hurt you if he found out he was seeing other people now? Depends

00:12:15.980 on in what context. Like, sleeping with other people, no. Doesn't really bother me. But if

00:12:21.980 he were, like, full on dating another girl, yeah. I'd be sad. Just a question. For you

00:12:26.140 two, you both do OnlyFans. What kind of content do you do on there? BG? Boy-girl content?

00:12:30.520 Girl-girl? What do you? So BG. I have boy-girl content, though. Okay. I don't really make 0.72

00:12:35.200 it. I'd say, like, less than a handful of videos over my career. Career. Okay. But yeah, mostly

00:12:43.000 just, like, cute pictures. Well. Can I say, like, naked? Can I say that word? Nude. Yeah, I

00:12:52.180 guess. Yeah, that's fine. Nude. I take naked pictures. And I put them online.

00:12:58.140 Halam! Okay. But so you've done boy-girl content. I have, yeah. You've shot content

00:13:05.120 with guys. Just one guy or multiple guys? Multiple guys. Most of my content is with

00:13:10.680 one guy. There's this couple in Vegas that I really liked working with. I have a good

00:13:15.640 guy. Johnny Sins. Is he in Vegas? Johnny Sins? He asked to shoot with me, but we never

00:13:19.580 shot. But, um, no, you know, Jack and Jill. No idea. Very niche. There's a lot of people

00:13:24.740 in the industry. Sure. Yeah. What about you? I do BG solo content. Only, only with my ex.

00:13:30.360 Oh, so the, you're. Yeah. He's, he's my, my content partner. Yeah. Content partner. Only

00:13:35.600 fans partner. Yeah. Have you shot any content with other guys or just him? Never. Just him.

00:13:39.380 No, literally just him. You do have, you do have content. You do do content with men?

00:13:43.880 Yeah. Yeah. With him. But one man. Okay. With him. Yeah. Gotcha. Do you do OF2 or, oh, you

00:13:48.680 have OF2? I still have it. Yeah. But you're, are you trying to phase it out or? No, I still

00:13:52.360 don't. Okay. It's my business is up and running and chugging them all. People love bodybuilding. And

00:13:55.620 then you two, are you doing boy girl content or just. I do boy girl content. Yes. With

00:13:59.100 your husband, I, I assume. Have you done content with other men? No. Just. Other women, but 0.98

00:14:03.960 not men. Other women. Okay. Gotcha. Solo women and then no other men. Okay. Got it. And 0.72

00:14:08.720 does he do anything? Sorry. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. With other women? Um, if we're 0.99

00:14:13.520 together, yes. Like the three, like a threesome. That, in that sense. Yes. Cute. Okay. Uh, well,

00:14:19.520 let's get, we'll try to get through everybody's, uh, relationship status before we dig too

00:14:23.560 deep. Go ahead. Sure. So I've been single for about three months and my longest relationship

00:14:29.060 was three and a half years. Three months, three and a half years. Why did he dump you? Uh,

00:14:34.560 sorry. Sorry. Sorry. That's assumptions there. Okay. Okay. Okay. The, the most recent relationship,

00:14:40.560 um, he actually, he did initiate the breakup, but ultimately, um, it just wasn't working.

00:14:45.800 The lifestyle of a bikini pro bodybuilder, it's a lot and he wasn't really supportive of it.

00:14:51.800 So even though he liked how I looked and loved the fact that he was dating a tall, you know,

00:14:57.300 bikini competitor, he wasn't really. How tall are you by the way? I'm six feet tall. Six feet. Okay.

00:15:01.700 So he was a little, he was a little bit. Are you like five 11 and a half and you're just like

00:15:04.600 claiming, you know, like how guys do that shit? I kind of started running up on five 11 and three 0.98

00:15:09.020 quarters. Okay. You can't, I guess you can. Okay. Yeah. I'm not on dating apps, but when I was,

00:15:15.400 I realized guys round up. So I needed to round up because if I said I was five 11 and I showed up on a date

00:15:20.280 with a guy who was five 11, he was actually kind of five nine. Yeah. I like to say I'm six, three in

00:15:26.180 heels. Okay. Yeah. I'm also six, three in heels. Yeah. Wow. Yeah. Good times. Was he a bodybuilder

00:15:31.900 as well? No, no. So he didn't have a fitness lifestyle at all. So it was, it was really hard

00:15:36.220 and he was, he was more of an entrepreneur and, um, I think he was going through some stuff mentally

00:15:41.660 because he was very successful, but he would spend a lot of his time like during the day just,

00:15:46.420 and he was, um, you know, he was a single dad. So it was the first guy I dated with kids.

00:15:50.620 He'd spent a lot of time just in his apartment, like drinking beer, smoking weed, like just under

00:15:56.020 the bus he goes. I don't know. No, I mean, he's, he was a good guy and I mean, we were really building

00:16:00.740 a life together. So it's, it's sad that every time I've seen like a competitive bodybuilding

00:16:05.000 girl, they've always been dating an absolute gorilla. Yeah. So I think that's, that's what I realized

00:16:09.620 is I don't need to date a gorilla necessarily, but I need someone who at least values and has a

00:16:14.220 more similar lifestyle to me. Yeah. It's important. You, did you say you felt like he wasn't there

00:16:20.240 for you towards the end of the relationship or he wasn't supportive of your, like, do you expect

00:16:25.120 him to like kind of do like rice and like cookie rice and chicken type of stuff? No, I didn't

00:16:28.620 expect, I actually got meal prepped for him. Oh, you meal prepped for, oh wow. Okay. So I just,

00:16:33.420 you know, when we're, I mean, Sammy's a bikini pro too and that's, we know each other. Can we,

00:16:37.160 can we see a double buy on, oh wait, I think the, hold on, let me, let me put it center.

00:16:42.560 Myron. Nice. Um, solid. Yeah. Um, yeah, I'm not dieting or anything right now. Um, no,

00:16:50.000 so it was, yeah. Dirty bulk. No, not dirty. Lean bulk. Females, we can't dirty bulk. That's 1.00

00:16:54.740 a disaster. Um, real bodybuilders don't dirty bulk. I'm on a, I'm on a dirty bulk right now.

00:17:03.220 That's a perma bulk. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. So, um, no, it just, it got, it got really tough

00:17:09.540 because you know, I kind of sat him down when I did start dieting this spring for shows and I said,

00:17:15.380 look, you don't need to, you don't need to be a bodybuilder. I don't want to change you,

00:17:18.480 but I'm going to be really busy. And so just sometimes come to the gym with me, sometimes

00:17:22.440 hang out with me when I'm meal prepping. And he just, we never were really able to spend time

00:17:27.240 together once I got busier and it just got, it just got harder and harder. And I got more and more

00:17:31.260 tired, you know, more and more hungry. And it's, it's hard to keep a relationship going if you're not

00:17:34.840 seeing each other and you don't have that quality time. Got it. Got it. What about you?

00:17:39.160 Longest relationship I think was a year and I've been single for about six months.

00:17:44.480 Six months. Okay. One year. All right. What about you? Um, I am in a very new relationship. Uh,

00:17:54.100 but my longest relationship was probably about four years and I also am divorced.

00:17:59.500 You're divorced. Got it. Okay. Um, how long were you married for? Was it the four year?

00:18:04.480 No. Was it the four? Uh, probably about eight months. Okay. And you said you're newly in a

00:18:13.660 relationship. How long has that been? Like a month. One month. Okay. All right. Uh, so for

00:18:20.780 the divorce, what happened there? Um, I unfortunately was going through a lot of medical problems and it

00:18:27.980 kind of put me in a really bad place. I was on a trial drug and it, uh, unfortunately caused

00:18:34.460 some really bad side effects and, uh, they became too much for him and he couldn't be

00:18:41.180 there for me and support me because it was just a lot on him mentally as well. Um, so we

00:18:46.960 parted ways. What, what was the, uh, trial drug? If you don't mind me asking. Um, it's called

00:18:51.440 Oralisa. Uh, it's for endometriosis and, uh, basically the, they're using it right now to

00:19:00.560 castrate and help do, uh, gender reassignment. Okay. Um, so, uh, it causes a lot of side effects

00:19:09.780 and unfortunately that's not something that they talk about. And it's also the liquid version

00:19:15.860 of it is used to treat cancer patients, um, of, I believe it's like prostate cancer, um,

00:19:22.360 in men. So yeah, a lot of different uses for that drug. Uh, it was passed. I was in, uh,

00:19:28.740 the stage three part of the trial, which is like the stage right before it like gets approved

00:19:33.380 by the FDA. So. Okay. Are you better now or? Uh, I am. Um, I, it took a lot of hard work.

00:19:43.580 Uh, I mean, I, I'm still taking actions every day to get better. Um, but I would say in the

00:19:50.220 last like two years, I've really made a huge amount of progress. Um, so glad to say I have

00:19:56.780 my life back. All right. It's a nasty one. Yeah. Oh yeah. And I am unfortunately have

00:20:02.460 like the most advanced form. So what about you? I should think of it. Uh, yeah. I don't

00:20:10.480 really want to say so much about, uh, my past because I'm not that proud of that. Uh, but

00:20:16.200 I was close to get married and, uh, yeah, just about one month before the wedding. Uh, I said,

00:20:25.100 no, it's not going to work. And I'm just thankful for this decision. And I guess it saved my life.

00:20:32.400 Wait, hold on. There's a lot there. So what's your current relationship status? Just to start.

00:20:37.060 I'm dating someone. You're, uh, how long have you been dating? A week. One week, but you're

00:20:45.060 traveling right now, right? So how did you, is this a long distance relationship or? It's

00:20:50.020 in Europe. It's going to be a long distance relationship for a while. Have you met this

00:20:55.780 person in person? Of course I did. Where? Paris? He's the, he's your, he's a relative of the

00:21:03.640 family. I thought you were supposed to say relative of yours. Wait, so he's the, your

00:21:09.540 employer? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. He's a relative of the

00:21:14.020 employer. The mom's cousin, the mom's cousin. Oh, okay. So you met him once? No, more times.

00:21:21.160 Oh, okay. Does he know that you're dating as well? Does he know that you're in a relationship

00:21:26.740 with him? What, what? No, no, no, no, no, no. I hope not. She's not going to do it. No,

00:21:31.080 no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Because sometimes you aced in European girls, you know, you just 0.79

00:21:36.520 slide in there. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. No, I, I date only him. I don't know where

00:21:41.320 I said something stupid. No, no, no, no, no. Does he know that you're in a relationship 1.00

00:21:46.640 with him? With him. Oh, yeah, yeah, he knows. He knows. Okay. So relationship one week,

00:21:53.000 you said longest relationship was what? Like three years. Three years. Okay. And you

00:22:00.400 said you don't want to talk a lot about your past because you said you made mistakes.

00:22:07.240 Mm-hmm. What do we talk? That's the most interesting thing to talk about.

00:22:12.860 I just think that being a boyfriend, girlfriend, it's, it's just, I don't know. I think there's

00:22:21.220 more in a relationship, not just this. There's, there's higher rank in a relationship and the

00:22:28.680 value of a person can be measured by how we call them, like friend, stranger, bus driver,

00:22:37.800 homie, whatever. And, uh, homie? Just saying. The value. So, yeah, I think like this. Okay. Okay.

00:22:47.020 Um, and in your pre-show notes to us, you said you were a conservative Christian. Is that correct?

00:22:53.400 Have you always been conservative Christian? No, sadly not. Or is this pretty new? A week ago? I was.

00:22:59.520 My family is Christian, but there was a period of time when I wasn't with the Lord. So this is why

00:23:05.220 I'm not proud of that. And, uh, I just want to restore my relationship with God. Sure. And this is

00:23:12.400 what this guy supports me. And also he shares the same views. Uh, and I just feel, feel blessed by

00:23:19.720 him. Are you waiting until marriage? Yes. To, for sex? Yes. I'm gonna. Wait, so are you? It wasn't

00:23:27.720 always like this. Oh, okay. So you're not, not a virgin. Yes. I'm not, sadly. Do you consider

00:23:31.880 yourself a born again virgin? Yes. Yes. Yes. Is that a thing? Is that a thing? Can you be a...

00:23:38.400 I think Jesus died for your purity, not for that piece of cell that you have there. Uh,

00:23:45.520 so I think if you can be clear in your heart and soul, uh, it can work out.

00:23:53.720 Okay. And it's good to adopt those values anyway, regardless, you know, you're from Hungary,

00:23:59.040 which is a based country. Viktor Orban is a fantastic president. Thank you. Thank you.

00:24:03.360 Great conservative country. So it makes sense. Based. Yeah. You said that you were engaged,

00:24:10.000 but that you canceled 28 days before the wedding. What happened there?

00:24:14.080 It was just not right. You, I don't know if you've ever had this feeling that it's not good. It's not

00:24:19.040 good. I should get out of it, but you still had this feeling to do it, do it, do it. But then I was

00:24:25.200 like, no, no, it got to an end. And, uh, yeah, I don't want to say bad things about him or anything.

00:24:32.640 It was just not right. It was not from God. It was, it could be the biggest mistake of my life.

00:24:40.720 And, uh, I'm just so, so, so, so lucky to be out of that. Was it Andrew Tate?

00:24:45.920 Oh, no. That's not from God for sure. Tate, if you see it, sorry. No, but I like you. Oh,

00:24:55.440 because Hungary is not that far from Romania. No, no, no, no, not like that. Not like that. Not

00:24:58.960 like as a man, but, uh, yeah, there are very good, uh, viewpoints he's sharing. So. Okay. Yeah.

00:25:04.880 All right. What about you? Same as last time, unfortunately. I mean, single and ready to mingle. So,

00:25:11.920 yeah. Okay. Not really too much different over here. Longest relationship? A year and a half.

00:25:17.760 Year and a half. Okay. Back in the day, in the glory days. Sweet, sweet, sweet, sweet. And we have

00:25:22.160 Homath. Uh, mm-hmm. Tell us, uh, your relationship status. I am single and not prepared to mingle

00:25:30.800 whatsoever. I'm avoiding people as much as possible right now. I think they call that vol-cel. Voluntary,

00:25:36.560 celibate. You're a vol-cel. You're voluntarily celibate. Okay. Kind of. I mean,

00:25:41.600 I'm just not putting in any effort. I deleted all the apps. I moved out of the city and into the

00:25:47.280 woods and I'm just like going on walks by myself, not with anyone else. And, uh, I don't know if I'm

00:25:54.160 ever gonna like move again and try again and go out and talk to people. I'm taking a breath. And right

00:26:01.040 now I am only interacting women with women through Homath. And so I'm kind of just checking out people all

00:26:08.880 over the country. See how that goes. And so you're doing, you're talking like consultation type stuff

00:26:13.600 or are women sliding into your DMs? No. This women slide into the DMs. Yeah. They say they like my voice 1.00

00:26:19.440 and like women will say that they're attracted to me and they haven't seen my face. And I think that's

00:26:24.160 crazy, but I'll take it. And, and then I just go see what's up with that. And then, you know, someone's

00:26:30.000 going to fly up here eventually, probably. And they like your, they like your art style too. Is

00:26:35.360 that, you know, they, people always, no one ever says that they don't like it. It's a, it's a,

00:26:40.800 it's a very quick and easy art style, but people say, Oh, you're a great artist. Yeah. Gotcha.

00:26:45.520 I appreciate it. Thank you. Now. So we went around the table, we asked everybody their relationship

00:26:49.920 status. Um, was there anything that anybody said that kind of that, that we can reference any of your

00:26:58.240 either existing art pieces or for sure. Yeah. Is this a fresh drawing that you just made by the

00:27:06.000 way? This I'm just taking notes. Oh, okay. Gotcha. Gotcha. I can, yes. So I can respond.

00:27:11.680 Nick, can you, can we see? Oh, sorry. Nick, can you show us the bigger discord window? If you,

00:27:16.000 if you unhide, let's see that click it. Okay. So this, I think that looks, if we need to see it,

00:27:22.560 that, yeah, I think that works. Um, okay, cool. Nick, you can bring it. You can,

00:27:28.080 hide that one, but, um, okay. Yeah. Full screen. But yeah, do you have, did you have any thoughts on

00:27:32.800 any of the situations? Uh, you know, that we got, we got the technically single for, for four years,

00:27:38.880 but the, you know, did you have any things that came to mind? Uh, sure. Sure. I've, I got a few

00:27:46.160 questions all around. Um, technically single. I mean, that was the one where you said that

00:27:52.000 you would date him if he wanted to, right? Yeah. Yeah. So that's, I mean, we have kind of like

00:27:58.800 a designation for that. We taught, I mean, I have like, I have, uh, uh, I don't know if you guys

00:28:03.760 are familiar with my work. I, I make these silly little drawings. Nick, do you want to go full screen

00:28:09.520 for a second? I think, I think that you're just sort of landing in this area right here. Like you would be

00:28:14.880 the keeper if you could be, but he doesn't want you to be. Would you say that? That's right.

00:28:19.200 Yeah. Yeah, I would. So why do you do that to yourself? You know, the chances of him changing

00:28:25.760 his mind are really, really low. Well, I mean, I'm like, I'm very independent. So like I live on my

00:28:33.960 own. I'm happy to be on my own. So the fact that I enjoy my time with him and he is like my best

00:28:40.640 friend, I feel like I'm just enjoying the time that I do have with him in whatever context,

00:28:45.200 whatever capacity. Um, so I like, I would like to be a mother someday, not necessarily a wife.

00:28:54.080 Like that's not even, I don't ever need to get married. I just want kids and a house to take

00:28:57.560 care of. I want to be a little, like a housewife. It's the future. It's what we're doing now. I

00:29:03.080 understand that. And he's like, he might be that. You had a kind of a reaction to what she said.

00:29:07.760 So what, what specifically did she say that you, well, it's a, it's a gigantic red flag

00:29:12.760 when somebody says that they want to be a mother, but not a wife, because it means that you're

00:29:16.980 looking for a guy to give you his seed. And then if you don't want to be his wife, then 1.00

00:29:20.320 he's on the hook for child support. And he's basically not going to be able to see his kid.

00:29:24.420 You're going to take his money. That's what comes to our head when we do that.

00:29:28.260 So I should have, it's not that I don't want to be a wife. It's like my whole life. I've pictured

00:29:32.140 being a mother, a caretaker, like a housewife, but I just marriage in itself, like sharing

00:29:39.020 taxes and all that. I don't need to do all that. Like a long-term partner that lives

00:29:42.380 with me. I want a partner.

00:29:44.340 You want a man to give you a child, but you don't want to be a wife. 1.00

00:29:47.800 I would be a wife. I'd be a really good wife. Yeah. Yeah. But like, it's just not necessary.

00:29:53.480 Exactly.

00:29:54.040 So as in the legal side of things isn't necessary.

00:29:57.580 Correct.

00:29:57.760 Okay. So I agree with that.

00:29:58.840 That's exactly. Yeah.

00:30:00.180 Okay.

00:30:00.760 Exactly.

00:30:01.120 I agree with that.

00:30:02.700 Interesting. Interesting. Jay, did you have a response to that?

00:30:07.340 Yeah. I mean, how does that fit into your overall life plan is one thing I do is I do kind of life

00:30:13.300 coaching and I just check on where people are going overall. And I think that's something a lot of

00:30:18.640 people are doing is thinking just like about right now, what they're doing and what feels good. And,

00:30:23.400 you know, this is something that women have done with me over and over again is they kind of throw 1.00

00:30:26.940 themselves into my life and they go, I'm enjoying it right now. And I go, well, it's never going to

00:30:32.040 go beyond that. And they sort of wait to see if it does, or if someone else wants to do something

00:30:36.900 with them. And especially if the other guys see that she's hanging out with me, they're less

00:30:41.980 inclined to do that. And it's kind of like, I feel like you're sabotaging yourself.

00:30:45.940 Perhaps. Um, I, uh, I don't know. My parents got married, had kids really young, so they always

00:30:53.600 encouraged me to just wait and enjoy my youth and travel and, you know, enjoy life on my own. So

00:30:59.700 I'm like more than happy to do that right now. I don't necessarily have a life plan. Like I,

00:31:06.440 oh, hold on just a sec. Grid One Motorsports donated $99. Fear is the spare change that will

00:31:13.500 keep you broke. Much like continuing to chase after a man that uses you for sex and just has 0.91

00:31:19.140 to be your best friend in return. 0.86

00:31:23.680 I like that. Word.

00:31:25.760 Word. Uh, yo, Grid One, good to see you in the chat, man. Thank you very much. That was poetic,

00:31:30.540 dude. Thank you. That, that was beautiful. Can you send one like as a haiku, please? Because I'm

00:31:34.900 trying to, um, go ahead. I think you were finishing a thought. Oh gosh. I think I was

00:31:41.100 finishing a thought. I have a question for you. Yeah. Do you feel like, is there any part

00:31:43.960 of you that feels like you don't deserve what you want? Like you don't deserve to be a wife 0.99

00:31:48.400 and a mother and have all those things? To tap into childhood trauma? Yeah, for sure. Like,

00:31:54.600 yeah, I definitely, yeah, feel like, yeah, I just, yeah, yeah. Do you think the OF is

00:32:01.400 Do you think the OF might be putting like a strain on your relationship?

00:32:09.600 No. No. Like that is like, sex is like the start of our, like a base of our, a pillar of

00:32:14.980 our relationship. So that's like. But that's not healthy. Well. Wait, your, your, your only

00:32:20.960 only fans is the pillar of your relationship. No, not my only fans. The sex I have with

00:32:25.840 this man. Like. Oh, that's, that's the pillar? A pillar. Oh, one of the pillars. Yes. Like 1.00

00:32:30.580 that's just. What about the fact that other people get to see it? Do you think that that's

00:32:33.860 an issue? An issue? Do you think that he might be really enjoying the sex, but then when it

00:32:37.440 comes to the long-term point of view, that might be a disqualifier? No. He, I mean

00:32:43.160 like he participates in the only fans. He manages the only fans. What would he get out

00:32:48.980 of making it exclusive? Like what extra benefit would he get? I don't know. I'm giving him

00:32:56.900 all the benefits already. So I like, I, I, while I don't agree with his mindset, I totally

00:33:04.660 understand it. Like, you know, I would love to be the wife and do all the things, but like

00:33:09.080 I understand that he, if he told you to delete it tomorrow, it would just mean he's, you're

00:33:13.260 giving him all of those wife things without being, without having the title. What about

00:33:19.060 if he told you to delete it tomorrow and he said that we can be together, you just got

00:33:22.880 to delete your only fans. Would you do it? Yeah. Okay. As long as he's paying the bills,

00:33:27.680 you know, because that's paying the bills now. Does he get money from your OF? No. But

00:33:32.780 you said he manages it. Right. If we reach a certain profit, then he would, but we're

00:33:39.060 not there. So I get to keep it out. He's not just in the videos. He's also helping

00:33:42.400 you manage it too. Right. That's a new thing. We're officially business partners, but he's

00:33:46.860 not getting paid yet. No. Oh, he doesn't want the money. He wants me to have all the money.

00:33:51.040 So he's not a business partner. He's a helper. Yeah, I suppose.

00:33:54.460 Then what's all that you give to him? What's that all that you give to him?

00:33:58.760 What, what, what's that what you give to him except, you know, like having sex and all 0.79

00:34:03.960 these, like, I mean, cook for him, clean his space, do his laundry, all the things that 0.64

00:34:10.220 I enjoy to do. I'm like a, no, we don't. I'm like a total caretaker as a person. Like

00:34:15.400 I just, that's the only passion I really have in life is taking care of other people. So

00:34:19.260 like, I love this man. And I love, like, I get joy out of taking care of him.

00:34:22.980 Oh, hold on.

00:34:23.600 Onyxia white minus 50 DKP donated $100. Nick, can you hide the discord really quick while

00:34:28.260 this? Sapphire enlarge damage location. Fly into great sky. Use liquid water. Elemental 0.76

00:34:33.500 turn man into frozen dinosaur. Hide behind statue. Would any of the girls date a guy who 0.76

00:34:39.120 plays World of Warcraft 20 plus hours a week? Oh, this is a World of Warcraft trap. Thank

00:34:42.880 you. Um, we'll go around the table really quick on this. Uh, would any of the girls date

00:34:47.220 a guy who plays World of Warcraft 20 plus hours a week? If he was still successful in

00:34:51.040 a career and had goals and passion, then I don't see an issue. Here, I'll play you. What

00:34:57.560 about you? Um, yeah, if they can like manage their time and their hobbies. I love video games.

00:35:03.440 I just finished Baldur's Gate 3 and so I think I could be down. Yeah, I feel the exact same

00:35:09.960 way. Like, yeah, sure. If that's your hobby and you have other interests or income, then

00:35:15.020 yeah, like 20 hours a week is kind of a lot. That's honestly though for like an MMORPG

00:35:21.140 that's kind of rookie numbers. Yeah, that's two hours a day. I'm a Twitch streamer and I

00:35:26.480 stream what three times a week and I collectively stream at least five hours. So that's 15 hours

00:35:33.120 in a week that I'm just spending on stream and not a lot gets done. Like, like in the grand

00:35:38.160 scheme of it. Yeah. Like playing a video game for 20 hours a week. If you're like in a hardcore

00:35:42.840 raiding guild, you're playing like seven hours a day. That's even seven hours a day. That's

00:35:47.580 like rookie numbers, especially like if you're leveling up, like if you're trying to get to

00:35:51.300 60, like if it's a fresh, fresh server, like you want to put it in like 10, 12 hour days.

00:35:56.300 And then if you're like ranking in the PVP system, which they recently revamped, but like

00:36:00.540 the old days, like the OG ranking system, you know, you, you do like 16 hour days and you're

00:36:06.420 just in like, you're an AV Warsong Gulch, like maybe trying to fit in like, did you ask this

00:36:13.700 question? No, that's not me. What about you? Um, it's a, it's a red flag. I would say if it was

00:36:25.200 their full-time job, like their Twitch streamer and they're playing World of Warcraft and that's

00:36:28.760 how they make their money. It's just a hobby, I guess. If it's just a hobby. Yeah. 20 hours

00:36:33.580 is like hobby territory for, uh, it would be tough. If it wasn't consuming their life, then

00:36:38.660 maybe I can make that work. Yeah. Same. If it's not consuming their life, like I play video

00:36:43.000 games, so that's not a problem at all. It wouldn't be a problem. I also play video games. Okay.

00:36:48.620 I think if there's anything, uh, sexual or, uh, violent in that, uh, video game, you shouldn't

00:36:56.760 even play it. So no, no, no, no. GTA, you could take girls in the back of the car in San Andreas.

00:37:02.780 I, I appreciate the effort that they, people took in, uh, you know, ranking up, going higher

00:37:09.820 level, but I don't consider it as a job, as a work or, um, yeah. World of Warcraft, there's

00:37:16.060 not really anything sexual, but like there's RP servers, like role-playing servers. And

00:37:19.840 sometimes those people like, like role-play weird shit. I know. And it really, it helps 0.99

00:37:24.100 with a lot of skills to develop and, and it can have good things, but I still don't support

00:37:30.040 video games. No. Yeah. But if, if your guy is on their phone and they see sexual stuff as

00:37:36.200 they're scrolling, I mean, what's really the difference if he's spending. Why would he see

00:37:39.240 first, first of all on Instagram or YouTube? Cause it's on your for you page or your for you

00:37:45.640 page, anything in the algorithm can pop up. You can close your eyes and you can also

00:37:49.680 scroll on and, and that's what I do. I just close my eyes. Right away. Every time I see

00:37:57.220 anything pop up. Yeah. No. So we have a magnet in our finger. Sometimes it draws us to the

00:38:02.600 titties. Yeah. No, no. Click it sometimes. Aerials, a button. No, the algorithm is clever. Of course, 0.98

00:38:10.820 it's going to have naked pictures, whatever, but it can, you know, just pass by, pass by. Okay.

00:38:17.520 All right. Sometimes you double. That's beautiful. Double pass by. That's beautiful. All right.

00:38:23.700 Homath, did you have anything else? Did you want to add anything or how, how, if you're playing 20

00:38:30.280 hours of video games a week and you have a full-time job, when do you have time for anything else? Like

00:38:34.480 what are you cutting out? How much sleep are you cutting out to have any of you ever dated a guy who

00:38:39.520 played 20 hours of video games a week? What's that? Beaten Cheeks donated 99. Just depend on like

00:38:44.540 what your job entails. One sec, one sec. Yeah, I mean. Wait, wait, wait, wait. One sec, one sec,

00:38:49.700 one sec, one sec. Great food. One sec, one sec, one sec. Oh, yeah.

00:38:52.720 L on the girls. You need to go to Columbia. OF girls, not you, Sam, delusional, especially the

00:39:00.240 poor liberal beta that falls and marries you. L for the harlot. Yeah. Beaten Cheeks nailed it. 1.00

00:39:06.300 I think I've got you on Twitter. So yeah. Yeah. Thailand is an L for the girls in Thailand 1.00

00:39:13.360 because some of them have little penises between their legs. So you've got to be very careful. 1.00

00:39:17.620 But Columbia is good, but it's actually not the best. I actually don't really rate Colombian 1.00

00:39:21.900 girls that much because they're very, very sort of like materialistic. Eastern Europe 1.00

00:39:26.900 is the way to go. Hungarian girls are my actual favourite. So I'm not just saying that.

00:39:30.940 I promise you. Hungarian girls are just sort of in between Russian and Italian. And I 0.92

00:39:36.640 like them both. But if there's a nice in between, you know, so.

00:39:40.560 Hungarian. We're kind of like shopping the planet for women. 1.00

00:39:45.580 Did you want to come back? You said you wanted to come back to something.

00:39:48.220 What's your name? Sorry?

00:39:49.620 Caden.

00:39:50.180 Caden. It seemed like we were picking on you a bit before. But I think the point that we

00:39:53.940 were making is, and Homath, I think, nailed it when he said that you're in that sleeper

00:39:58.380 zone. You seem to be showing loyalty to this guy. You said you cook, you clean, you do his

00:40:05.240 laundry, all of these things that we appreciate. You're a lovely girl. You seem clever. The

00:40:10.720 one thing that's keeping you in the sleeper zone is that you have your body on the internet.

00:40:14.020 And whether or not he tells you that, because he won't tell you that, but that, mark my words,

00:40:18.880 that is what it is. That's what disqualifies it because men, we like, we care about how we

00:40:22.980 look in public. And if he has to introduce you and say, oh, this is my girlfriend, she does

00:40:26.600 OnlyFans, then that's going to be embarrassing. So you've got all of the, you tick all these

00:40:30.760 boxes, but then that last one.

00:40:33.340 But we've been together since before I did OnlyFans. And his state of mind has not changed.

00:40:38.000 It has been consistent.

00:40:39.300 And if he was that against it, why would he partake in it and benefit from it?

00:40:43.380 Yeah, but he's disqualified from the long-term relationship, though.

00:40:46.300 But they were in a relationship before.

00:40:46.960 He's against it for his own interests.

00:40:49.240 Yeah.

00:40:49.520 So he's only okay with it because he gets the sexual pleasure out of it, but otherwise he's

00:40:55.540 not okay with it.

00:40:56.340 So she's just said that she would be with him if it weren't for, if he didn't resist.

00:41:02.640 So if she wants to be with him, but he doesn't want to be with her, and she ticks all these

00:41:06.520 boxes, they've been in a relationship before, the disqualifying factor would be the OnlyFans.

00:41:10.800 Or is it that he has commitment issues?

00:41:12.740 Well, you can say that.

00:41:13.720 You don't know him.

00:41:14.180 So the only thing that you're basing it off of is what you know about her, you know nothing

00:41:18.580 about him.

00:41:19.280 So he could have hard commitment issues.

00:41:21.440 I don't either.

00:41:22.200 That's what I'm saying.

00:41:22.860 Well, let's not jump to generalizations then.

00:41:25.660 So what we're speaking about here, and I'm sure that Brian can attest, is that guys automatically

00:41:29.920 disqualify girls generalizing. 0.90

00:41:32.860 Obviously, you're married, so congratulations.

00:41:34.660 Thank you.

00:41:35.020 But guys tend to disqualify girls when they have their body online. 0.93

00:41:38.200 Yeah, because you can't take it back.

00:41:40.420 Like in their eyes, that's theirs.

00:41:42.300 They want it for their eyes only.

00:41:44.280 And now that you've put it out there, now granted, yeah, he was with you before that,

00:41:49.000 but obviously now he's not with you.

00:41:51.420 And the only thing that's, you know, in our eyes that's really changed is a really big

00:41:56.060 factor.

00:41:56.720 And that's that your body is now on the internet, and you can never take that back.

00:42:00.180 Yeah, and you share it.

00:42:01.480 And I guess you don't only share your body, but those people are watching, and they are

00:42:05.660 sending that energy to you.

00:42:06.880 So you even share your soul, because it's so intimate.

00:42:10.200 It's not just that it's a picture.

00:42:12.660 It's sharing that intimate connection.

00:42:14.080 People have the ability to remove emotion from that.

00:42:17.740 But the conversations that I have with people are, you know, a platonic relationship that

00:42:23.580 I have with someone who's on the internet.

00:42:25.300 That would just be like, you know, Brian and Beaton Cheeks, for example.

00:42:28.980 Do you think that the people who subscribe to your OnlyFans, would you call that a platonic

00:42:33.980 friend?

00:42:34.360 I mean, I don't call it a boyfriend or a serious relationship.

00:42:38.340 Yeah, but they view it as a very cool...

00:42:39.700 I have no control what the person on the other side...

00:42:42.600 I'm there for...

00:42:43.740 There's a service or something that I'm providing.

00:42:46.600 How the other person on the other side is taking it is from their perspective.

00:42:50.800 But you're aware that they're actively buying...

00:42:52.360 Well, it's not separate, though.

00:42:53.720 Oh, absolutely.

00:42:54.680 I'm putting it out there for them to buy.

00:42:56.120 So that's not platonic.

00:42:57.140 Platonic means that there's no sexualization, and that's inherently sexual, what you're talking

00:43:01.320 about.

00:43:01.600 But it's not more than what the transaction is.

00:43:05.040 If I have a friend, if me and Brian were friends and he started sending me nudes, I would be

00:43:08.840 like, Brian doesn't want this platonic friendship.

00:43:11.560 He actually does that.

00:43:12.860 So this is...

00:43:13.340 I do.

00:43:14.040 That's the same concept of someone thinking that, like, you go to a strip club and you

00:43:18.760 buy a dance.

00:43:19.580 They automatically assume that that stripper's in love with them. 1.00

00:43:22.000 One sec, one sec, one sec. 0.98

00:43:25.720 Women fool themselves to what men will put up with for easy sex. 1.00

00:43:29.160 When something better comes along, he will follow. 0.84

00:43:32.120 All things are possible through Christ, but no man can save you, ere you will not save

00:43:37.120 yourself.

00:43:38.160 Be better.

00:43:39.260 Have self-respect.

00:43:40.920 Yo, grid one. 0.94

00:43:41.600 Thank you very much, man.

00:43:42.360 Appreciate it.

00:43:44.280 I want to try...

00:43:44.900 HoMath, let's get you in here. 1.00

00:43:46.620 What you got for us?

00:43:47.560 What you got for us, HoMath?

00:43:49.540 I mean, I'm just trying to cut in with basically, like...

00:43:53.780 I got to agree with the European accent, girl.

00:43:57.180 I'm sorry, I didn't get your name.

00:43:58.720 That there is something, there's something spiritual, there's something emotional that

00:44:02.240 connects you to these people who are seeing you in sexual situations, just when they think

00:44:06.140 about it, when they say the images of it, when they have the feelings that they feel.

00:44:11.640 I lived with a girl once.

00:44:13.240 I'll tell you a little, short little story.

00:44:14.840 I lived with a girl who I found out was, like, I let her move into my closet, that's 0.99

00:44:20.100 all I had.

00:44:21.000 I had a space for her to live in a walk-in closet, and she was just, you know, not doing 0.94

00:44:25.140 She lived in the closet? 0.81

00:44:26.440 This is like Harry Potter?

00:44:28.360 It's kind of like Harry Potter, yeah.

00:44:29.760 She was doing witch stuff, too.

00:44:30.960 She had, like, crystals and all that.

00:44:32.700 And she was just not doing great, and I had extra space, so I let her live with me.

00:44:37.120 It wasn't a sexual, romantic relationship.

00:44:38.880 I found out that she was, like, doing prostitution on Backpage, and as I got to know her more

00:44:44.900 and more, I saw that it was affecting her emotionally.

00:44:47.620 Making it a transaction does not separate the emotional component from it, and even if

00:44:52.720 it's subtle, and, you know, on OnlyFans or on the internet, even if it's a more subtle

00:44:57.140 form of it, because you're not actually touching or meeting the people, it still is there.

00:45:01.800 It still is.

00:45:02.620 There is some part of your deeper self that you are selling.

00:45:05.800 It's a transaction.

00:45:06.560 I like that.

00:45:07.120 But what if, so what if you would consider the act that you're doing more of, you know,

00:45:11.880 people have kinks and fantasies, and so what if the act that you're doing is actually a

00:45:16.140 kink, and it's, so, like, recording yourself, right?

00:45:18.320 Hold on, we'll come back to that.

00:45:19.880 Yeah.

00:45:20.720 We'll come back.

00:45:21.320 Any advice on dating for a guy who is on a drug for panic disorder?

00:45:25.800 Nardil, I have ed in an orgasmia from this drug, and it's frustrating, but the drugs

00:45:30.140 are necessary for me to function in daily life.

00:45:32.820 On dating for a guy who's on a drug for, well, I mean, it seems like the drug is impairing

00:45:38.320 your sexual function, so, but that doesn't preclude you from dating.

00:45:42.980 Obviously, you can have relationships. 0.82

00:45:45.940 Are you able to have sex?

00:45:47.540 Are you able to do other things? 0.97

00:45:48.660 But, um...

00:45:49.820 I have actually experience on this.

00:45:52.500 I'm sorry.

00:45:53.280 I know that's, like, really weird.

00:45:54.240 Yeah, go ahead.

00:45:54.960 If you want to answer it, quick.

00:45:55.840 My most recent ex-boyfriend actually had an ED. 1.00

00:45:59.440 Damn, throw him under the bus. 1.00

00:46:00.980 I know, sorry. 1.00

00:46:01.340 Holy shit. 0.99

00:46:02.560 Calm out. 0.99

00:46:04.140 But, genuinely, I just, honesty is best.

00:46:08.760 I don't know, like, it wasn't weird whatsoever.

00:46:10.800 Like, he felt really weird, felt really, like, ashamed of it, and I told him, I was like,

00:46:16.400 oh, whatever.

00:46:17.640 Like, it just, it wasn't a big deal.

00:46:18.980 Um, but, especially when it comes to anxiety, again, honesty and communication, communication

00:46:25.020 is key in relationships.

00:46:27.240 It's about, it's about not caring.

00:46:28.800 With that, it's a mental thing most of the time.

00:46:31.140 Like, if it's a physical thing, then you should get medicated.

00:46:33.000 Yeah, as long as you...

00:46:33.720 But, like, a lot of the time, it actually happens if you really want to impress the girl.

00:46:37.360 If you meet a girl and you're like, I've got to perform here, you won't. 1.00

00:46:40.440 Yeah.

00:46:40.640 If you don't care about the girl.

00:46:41.560 But at least if you, like, give her a heads up and be like, hey, I know, like, you know,

00:46:45.380 things are getting a little spicy, you know, like, I don't want to...

00:46:48.820 I don't want you to feel like it's a you problem, not it's a me problem, or, you know,

00:46:53.320 or even bring it up before it even gets to that point and just make her aware that, you

00:46:57.780 know, maybe...

00:46:58.160 And then the seed's planted, though, so you've got to be careful with that as well, you know.

00:47:01.500 Yeah, but I mean, again, it wasn't a weird thing.

00:47:04.120 It was like an, oh, okay, that's a medical condition that you have no control over.

00:47:07.980 I've found also that this is getting into a bit of a deeper conversation about it, but

00:47:11.540 I've found this, like, because it's happened to me a few times as well.

00:47:15.140 There are certain girls who are just really good at, like, managing the situation. 0.99

00:47:18.820 And then the other girls who bring attention to it, and it's like a, it really is a, it's

00:47:23.860 the worst thing you can do.

00:47:25.180 Not for nothing, but you never had a problem with me.

00:47:28.500 But like you said, it's more of a, it's more of like a, if they just sort of chill about

00:47:34.220 it and whatever, then you all just chill about it, and then 10 minutes later you go.

00:47:37.180 Because you get caught up in your head, like, you know, when you have panic disorder, I call

00:47:40.860 it hurricane brain.

00:47:41.780 Like, when I'm having anxiety about something, anything and everything in the world could

00:47:46.060 just set me off or make it that much worse.

00:47:49.040 Be the chariot.

00:47:49.420 Let's try to address the question, though, instead of making it about you.

00:47:52.740 So if you can address.

00:47:53.540 No, no, but again, just honesty and communication is genuinely what I think is going to help in

00:47:59.360 any situation like that.

00:48:01.160 Yeah.

00:48:01.620 Yeah.

00:48:02.220 Yeah.

00:48:02.520 I mean, I agree with you.

00:48:03.560 Like, if the girl, if she's drawing more attention to it, that just makes it worse.

00:48:08.820 Honestly, yeah, yeah, that's true.

00:48:10.380 And then I would also just say, hey, just find a girl who's, I mean, there's obviously,

00:48:14.520 you don't, you can do other things too, you know, so.

00:48:17.200 Oh, wow.

00:48:17.840 Okay.

00:48:18.040 Look at that drawing there.

00:48:19.100 That's what he was getting at.

00:48:20.680 I thought it was just a dude.

00:48:22.460 Subliminal messaging.

00:48:23.160 It takes me a minute to get caught up, but someone said something about Jesus, so I just

00:48:27.620 thought I wouldn't.

00:48:28.280 Oh, okay.

00:48:29.220 Got it.

00:48:30.480 So I think you were saying something about.

00:48:33.940 Yeah.

00:48:34.300 Yeah.

00:48:34.380 You were talking about, like, selling a piece of your soul when it happens.

00:48:39.180 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:48:40.100 When your bodies connect sexually, you know, and you're basically the sperm and egg merge,

00:48:45.960 that's two different lives coming together in the Bible.

00:48:48.540 Not just when he does.

00:48:49.520 They become one flesh.

00:48:51.180 And the actions that lead up to that are also bonding in the more subtle realms of existence.

00:48:57.360 In the physical realm of existence, it's the sexual act creates new life.

00:49:00.620 But in the mental and spiritual realms of existence, sharing sexual experiences, even over

00:49:05.360 the internet, is kind of sort of the same thing.

00:49:07.400 Yeah.

00:49:08.040 Yeah.

00:49:08.520 I mean, you could, I mean, yes, there is that point too, but also, so for me, right, before

00:49:13.900 I even started this, I was recording myself in the act.

00:49:17.620 And that thought process, the idea of someone watching or someone, you know, looking, watching,

00:49:24.280 whatever it is, that can be considered a kink, right? 0.71

00:49:27.160 So if you're doing something because you think it's hot, it's turning you and your partner

00:49:30.860 on in that scenario.

00:49:31.660 Beating cheeks donated $99.

00:49:33.660 No real man will ever be with a woman that has done any sort of promiscuous activities, 0.98

00:49:38.900 period.

00:49:39.820 Once you females accept that, move on and find your simp. 1.00

00:49:43.820 There are so many lonely, mentally weak males ready to save you when Jesus won't.

00:49:48.920 It's not, not entirely wrong.

00:49:54.120 Not entirely.

00:49:55.300 It's pretty, it's kind of wrong.

00:49:56.660 Like there, there are some guys will go for it and Jesus will still save you, but.

00:50:00.440 Oh, wow.

00:50:01.200 Okay.

00:50:01.400 It's directionally accurate.

00:50:02.660 Jesus will save you.

00:50:03.580 That is true.

00:50:04.420 Yeah.

00:50:04.940 Yeah.

00:50:05.340 So basically in the grand scheme of it, while yes, you're creating a relationship with someone,

00:50:11.380 you don't have to give up your soul or your, all of your emotions.

00:50:15.120 You can have a transactional relationship with someone who's seeking something.

00:50:19.700 And if you're, if you're pleasured by providing that service, then that's all that it is.

00:50:25.320 It's a service.

00:50:25.720 But it's not a will that I don't want to share or I want to share.

00:50:28.480 It's a fact.

00:50:29.480 You share your soul.

00:50:30.600 You share your soul.

00:50:32.080 I mean, everybody.

00:50:33.020 I think that's great.

00:50:34.600 And I don't think sharing yourself is a well that will run dry at any time.

00:50:39.480 I think to be alive is to love and, and be loved as much as possible.

00:50:44.520 So why not?

00:50:46.280 Like when.

00:50:47.160 Is it love we're using?

00:50:49.340 And yeah, the well, the well, the well always ends up running dry eventually.

00:50:53.320 I don't think so.

00:50:54.080 I don't think.

00:50:55.120 I don't think human.

00:50:56.800 Hold on a second.

00:50:57.660 Hold on a second.

00:50:59.060 Okay.

00:50:59.240 It does eventually run dry eventually.

00:51:01.080 I don't think so.

00:51:01.580 The metaphor that I'm using here is you want to, you want to, you want to, you want to, you

00:51:04.800 want to bring water to the village while the, while the well is still running.

00:51:08.300 Do you know what I mean?

00:51:08.640 But I don't think that I always feel like I'm so overwhelmed and overflowing with love

00:51:15.180 and care for people, whether it's sexual or.

00:51:17.620 Or you have to show yourself naked because you're so overwhelming with love and care.

00:51:21.060 Whether that's sexual or like friendly or like doing good for others.

00:51:25.420 I think I will never run out of the desire to do that.

00:51:29.840 And so I can't imagine.

00:51:30.560 You should be a mother. 0.99

00:51:32.020 It's not love.

00:51:32.580 It's desire.

00:51:33.720 But once you've put yourself all the way out there, what more do you have to give?

00:51:38.520 You know what I mean?

00:51:39.300 Like.

00:51:39.520 I have so much to give.

00:51:40.640 I'm a well-rounded human being.

00:51:42.200 We all have, we all have a limited amount to give.

00:51:46.260 No, don't. 0.84

00:51:47.400 Yeah, don't, don't shut up.

00:51:49.240 Guys, wait, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:51:51.060 Sorry.

00:51:51.480 You go.

00:51:52.260 You speak. 1.00

00:51:52.960 Oh, my last thing I said was shut up. 1.00

00:51:55.380 You speak and then go. 0.99

00:51:57.280 But I'm kidding.

00:51:57.840 I love you.

00:51:58.460 All right.

00:51:58.640 Okay.

00:51:59.120 I think you were talking to me.

00:52:00.280 I'm getting, it's kind of fuzzy in the audio.

00:52:02.220 We all have like, we all have a limited amount of things.

00:52:04.620 Hold on a second.

00:52:05.380 $100.

00:52:06.140 From now.

00:52:06.760 Hold on.

00:52:06.960 Wait a second, Jess.

00:52:07.620 The world runs dry.

00:52:08.700 You should look into the eyes of women who've done prom and bagged hundreds of bodies. 1.00

00:52:13.960 The light has literally drained from their eyes and they are hollow.

00:52:17.180 Oh, no.

00:52:19.360 Wow.

00:52:19.920 Okay.

00:52:20.280 The chat is going in today.

00:52:22.760 The chat's going nuts, yeah.

00:52:24.220 The chat is going in today.

00:52:25.660 The thing is though, like what you're saying is I completely agree with you that you have

00:52:29.980 a lot of love to give and everything, but maybe the love that you're trying to give

00:52:34.140 is misguided to simps on the internet.

00:52:36.100 Maybe the love that you should be giving is to a partner and to a family.

00:52:39.640 I give my love to everyone I can.

00:52:42.360 You give your what?

00:52:43.260 Is that the fake love?

00:52:43.760 My love.

00:52:44.380 To everyone you can?

00:52:45.220 Because I don't think love has to just be romantic love.

00:52:47.500 I think there's so many different types of love in the world and so that's what I'm

00:52:51.300 meaning.

00:52:51.580 See, this is like the thing that I find with, and look, I'm not judging you for doing

00:52:56.420 OnlyFans.

00:52:57.000 I think you can do whatever the hell you want, but it kind of seems like hope to me when

00:53:02.380 you say that I'm spreading love.

00:53:03.900 You want to make money.

00:53:04.660 That's your primary objective.

00:53:06.160 Would you do it for free?

00:53:08.420 Um, oh, good.

00:53:10.780 Unfortunately, that was a good question.

00:53:12.080 Good question.

00:53:13.720 I think, yeah, like the primary reason why girls go towards sex work is because it's 1.00

00:53:19.540 lucrative and it can change lives.

00:53:21.340 It can help stabilize women. 0.80

00:53:22.820 When you can imagine a guy who's spending his money on your OnlyFans and he's, you kind

00:53:27.660 of, you kind of stopped. 0.98

00:53:28.640 When you can imagine a guy who's, who's spending money, spending money on your OnlyFans, dick 0.98

00:53:33.880 in hand late at night, feeling lonely. 0.98

00:53:37.180 Oh.

00:53:37.660 Are you spreading love to that guy? 0.96

00:53:39.860 Yeah.

00:53:40.640 Yeah?

00:53:41.280 Yeah.

00:53:42.900 You really?

00:53:43.560 You don't.

00:53:43.580 You think that that's loving?

00:53:44.500 You don't.

00:53:45.460 Yeah.

00:53:45.900 What form of love is that?

00:53:47.440 What would you call it?

00:53:48.600 Yeah.

00:53:48.680 Hmm.

00:53:50.280 I don't know, because I really enjoy the experience of what I do.

00:53:56.880 So, what?

00:53:57.860 Selfish love, like, don't you do it for yourself more than for others?

00:54:02.520 Yeah, is it self-love?

00:54:03.680 Is it friendly love?

00:54:04.640 Is it erotic, romantic?

00:54:07.000 Hmm.

00:54:08.700 I mean.

00:54:09.180 Are you drawing Hitler?

00:54:10.340 No.

00:54:11.000 I'm drawing the look in the eyes.

00:54:13.120 I grew up really religious.

00:54:14.300 It's delayed by a minute, but they said that when, you know, the girls, the girls who do

00:54:17.300 porn forever have like a look in their eyes that don't have, there's no, there's no

00:54:20.960 light left.

00:54:21.320 What's that called?

00:54:21.840 The thousand cock stare? 0.98

00:54:23.660 Yeah, I'm capturing the thousand cock stare. 0.98

00:54:25.660 Is that what that's called? 0.99

00:54:27.020 You know, like, a thousand-yard stare, but for cocks? 1.00

00:54:31.000 Um, but yeah, I grew up really religious, and a housekeeper, like, my sibling.

00:54:36.300 Oh.

00:54:36.320 Grid One Motorsports donated $100.

00:54:40.040 Ignoring the fact that men you would want to be with will simply never do more than use

00:54:44.220 you for sex at your peril. 0.99

00:54:46.220 If you treat yourself as a semen receptacle, men will too. 1.00

00:54:49.720 Semen receptacle? 0.99

00:54:50.560 No man capable of loving a woman will want that. 1.00

00:54:53.340 Ever.

00:54:54.740 Semen receptacle men. 1.00

00:54:56.540 That's my new favorite.

00:54:57.440 That is.

00:54:58.660 I'm going to make that my Twitter bio.

00:55:00.660 Let's go back to her.

00:55:02.240 So, yeah.

00:55:03.860 But yeah, I grew up really religious in a Catholic household.

00:55:08.020 My, like, siblings all wear, like, full-on, like, pants and long sleeves to go swimming.

00:55:12.820 Like, very conservative.

00:55:13.740 Burkini's? 0.99

00:55:14.720 Oh, wow.

00:55:15.140 Is that what it's called?

00:55:15.880 Yeah.

00:55:16.360 Yeah.

00:55:17.620 I think that's...

00:55:18.960 Go ahead.

00:55:19.440 Go ahead.

00:55:19.940 That's sorry.

00:55:20.420 And so I found when I was trying to discover myself sexually, I felt a lot of shame in expressing

00:55:26.860 myself and found a lot of comfort in expressing myself online because it was this way to dip

00:55:33.820 my toes into intimacy and fun without it feeling, like, too serious or, like, oh, I'm having

00:55:39.760 this, like, interesting conversation with this guy online, but, like, it's at my pace.

00:55:44.740 It's, like, my comfort level.

00:55:47.340 And so, yeah, maybe, like, it's not, like, love in that scenario that you gave Jake, but,

00:55:52.440 like, it's something and it sparks something in me and it's fun and exciting.

00:55:56.040 I don't think that's wrong.

00:55:57.220 At the end of the day, it's for you, though.

00:55:59.460 It's not...

00:55:59.800 You're not spreading love.

00:56:01.020 It makes you feel better. 0.99

00:56:02.320 It would be in that situation where dick in hand at the middle of the night. 0.98

00:56:06.020 It's not about love. 0.81

00:56:07.180 But that's essentially what OnlyFans is, though.

00:56:09.880 And, like, trust me when I say I'm not judging you.

00:56:12.160 I've done all of the bad things, all the sex, drugs, and rock and roll.

00:56:15.140 I'm not judging you.

00:56:16.340 But when you say spreading love, like, we just have to sort of get our facts right here

00:56:20.200 because OnlyFans is inherently not spreading love.

00:56:23.820 It's actually fueling an addiction that guys have, and it's fueling a loneliness epidemic.

00:56:28.080 And why do you have to take your clothes off to fulfill that need?

00:56:31.600 I mean, I'm...

00:56:32.180 I didn't say this, but I model.

00:56:33.920 I model a lot in the automotive industry, but I also have done, like, lingerie and stuff

00:56:38.700 like that.

00:56:39.340 And to me, like, I've been pressured many, many times to do OnlyFans, and have I considered

00:56:45.340 it, yeah, but at the same time, like I've said, once I give that or once I put that out

00:56:51.160 there, like, for that person that I want to spend the rest of my life with, like, that's

00:56:56.000 now no longer just his or, like, just for him or just for our intimate time.

00:57:01.380 I think that's where we differ because I really don't believe in ownership in relationships.

00:57:06.820 I believe it's two people, two individuals coming together to make something bigger.

00:57:12.240 And this is love.

00:57:12.940 When you don't share your stuff with someone, I guess.

00:57:15.100 But I don't also see, like, the human body as being something that's, like, degrading

00:57:21.080 myself to have and show, I really don't.

00:57:25.540 It's a tool.

00:57:26.020 But, I mean, I show my body.

00:57:26.680 And we can differ in that opinion. 1.00

00:57:28.020 Like, if you don't want to do OnlyFans and you feel like that's for your person, fuck 0.99

00:57:31.700 yeah. 0.99

00:57:32.140 But I show my body, but I don't show all of my body.

00:57:35.760 You know what I mean?

00:57:36.220 But what's the difference between your stomach and something else?

00:57:39.140 It's just your body, and it's just, like...

00:57:41.060 The thing is, though, this is the thing that a lot of younger girls particularly will say.

00:57:44.960 It's the fluffy sort of, like, oh, it's just free love, and we can do whatever we want

00:57:49.220 and show our body, and at the end of the day, it's not just your body.

00:57:52.880 It's not just your body, because your body is actually very significant, especially through

00:57:56.780 the eyes of a man.

00:57:58.420 If you are...

00:57:59.140 And, like, you're 25 now.

00:58:00.400 Yeah.

00:58:01.000 You will have a completely different mindset in 10 years' time when it comes to this sort

00:58:04.920 of stuff.

00:58:05.280 Yeah, yeah.

00:58:05.860 I guarantee you.

00:58:06.620 And, like, I know it seems like I'm picking on you.

00:58:08.660 I don't think you're picking on me.

00:58:10.040 I'm willing to hear you out.

00:58:11.020 I think that you're, like...

00:58:12.260 There's more in you.

00:58:13.240 Hold on, just one second.

00:58:14.140 Sorry.

00:58:14.540 I think that you're a really nice girl, and, like, honestly, you've got a great energy, and you

00:58:18.180 do have a lot of love to give, I can tell that, but you're corrupted by this fluffy-duffy

00:58:22.920 narrative of, oh, we can give our love to anybody.

00:58:25.900 It's just...

00:58:26.280 I just...

00:58:26.760 Yeah.

00:58:27.240 I agree to disagree on that, honestly.

00:58:27.700 You spread your love too thin, and it'll be a vapious lifestyle.

00:58:31.080 Think about all the people.

00:58:31.780 I have a question for you, Jake.

00:58:32.520 One?

00:58:33.200 Yeah.

00:58:33.640 Because I agree with you that, you know, what you're talking about, it's more likely that

00:58:37.440 we're spreading lust with things like this, right?

00:58:40.240 But why is it on her to stop offering it?

00:58:44.500 Why is it not on men to stop consuming it, right?

00:58:46.880 Yeah, it's true.

00:58:47.540 Well, it's both.

00:58:49.160 It's like everyone should do their part and not have that happening.

00:58:52.680 Oh, my God.

00:58:54.040 Hold on, hold on.

00:58:56.340 The interesting thing about OnlyFans is the girls think they are getting one over on men, 1.00

00:59:01.660 but the guy that owns OnlyFans is paying himself a million bucks a month, and he still

00:59:06.840 owns the billion dollar company where they are the product for sale.

00:59:10.220 It's actually a chick who owns it. 1.00

00:59:11.580 I thought it was a dude who owns it.

00:59:12.560 That's very assumptuous that an OnlyFans model thinks that they're getting one over.

00:59:16.760 If I'm laying out exactly what I'm offering you, and you're choosing what you're buying,

00:59:23.400 that's like walking up to a bar, right?

00:59:24.920 You have tequila, vodka, rum, bourbon.

00:59:27.760 If I'm choosing to order tequila and take a shot of tequila, that's on me.

00:59:32.520 But it's a tequila, it has no feelings, it has no soul.

00:59:35.380 It's a little different, though, because there's a lot of women on OnlyFans who have management 1.00

00:59:40.200 companies who will respond.

00:59:41.920 Like, you'll have some dude in Bangladesh responding on your behalf.

00:59:46.680 So the comparison would be like, you walk up to a bar, and there's a bottle of Don Perrione,

00:59:53.120 or what's an expensive bottle of alcohol?

00:59:55.600 And you fill in the cheap Costco liquor, vodka, in place of the high ticket, and you're like,

01:00:03.880 boom, vodka.

01:00:04.920 But actually, it's probably even worse.

01:00:06.880 But that's then now taking this massive group of people and conforming it into one and saying

01:00:12.560 that everybody is the same.

01:00:13.380 No, we've all given that question before over here, though.

01:00:16.540 You did say, why is it her responsibility? 0.68

01:00:18.860 Oh, my God.

01:00:20.560 About $199.

01:00:23.480 Ayo beating, what are the $304s going to do when perfectly curated sex dolls become socially 0.95

01:00:29.700 acceptable?

01:00:30.340 Buy one? 0.94

01:00:30.880 Don't think it will just be lonely losers buying M.R. Paul. 0.96

01:00:33.980 So, Laura, what's the best place to meet a muscle mommy? 1.00

01:00:37.340 Captain Morgan pose?

01:00:39.740 He wants the Captain Morgan pose.

01:00:41.200 Captain Morgan pose?

01:00:42.300 I don't know.

01:00:42.960 I don't know what that is.

01:00:43.780 On the barrel?

01:00:45.120 It's when you put a boot up on a barrel, yeah.

01:00:47.280 What's the best place to meet a muscle mommy? 1.00

01:00:50.560 Of course.

01:00:50.840 At the gym.

01:00:51.420 At the gym.

01:00:52.020 Or the grocery store in the healthy sections of the aisles.

01:00:56.520 Whole Foods.

01:00:56.940 Nail prep companies.

01:00:58.280 All right.

01:00:58.560 Blue Lemon. 0.54

01:00:59.340 I think they're going to be really disappointed about the impact of sex dolls.

01:01:03.400 I don't think that's, like, these guys talk about it like once they're real enough,

01:01:06.840 it's going to change things around here.

01:01:08.600 And it's not.

01:01:09.080 It's like there's still going to be the, you know, attractive men and attractive women

01:01:14.480 finding each other.

01:01:15.420 And the sex dolls are just going to be for the guys who don't have anything anyway. 0.99

01:01:18.380 What if it's, like, a really dope sex doll, though? 0.99

01:01:22.060 Like, that not only has sex, but also, like, cooks and cleans and what else? 0.99

01:01:29.800 Does your taxes.

01:01:31.380 Does your taxes.

01:01:32.240 Wouldn't you rather have a real woman fight with you a little than program a robot to 1.00

01:01:39.120 do everything you want?

01:01:40.760 Fight with you a little. 0.81

01:01:42.160 I feel like we need submissive with a little bit of brat in there, you know? 1.00

01:01:46.840 There needs to be a little bit of, like, I'm causing a problem for nothing or it's not.

01:01:51.240 Like, I would get bored of, like, oh, you're nice again today?

01:01:54.080 That would be.

01:01:54.540 Have a cute tantrum.

01:01:55.440 Wait, you would be, ho, math, you would be bored by that? 0.96

01:01:58.760 Yeah. 0.89

01:01:59.420 Like, when I'm getting to know a girl, when she starts getting all shitty with me, that's 1.00

01:02:05.060 when I know she likes me.

01:02:06.320 When she's just going, like, what are you doing wrong that I can pick at?

01:02:09.120 And I have to defend myself.

01:02:10.640 Wait, are you joking?

01:02:11.740 Are you joking?

01:02:12.420 Are you joking?

01:02:13.780 No, that's the game.

01:02:15.180 Like, that's the, that's gotta be there.

01:02:16.940 If she's nice to you all the time.

01:02:20.040 Oh, I like it when they're nice to me all the time.

01:02:21.720 I don't like conflict.

01:02:22.440 Yeah, men love the easy boat on a video game, and they're like, oh, what am I even doing?

01:02:27.140 Wasting my time.

01:02:27.940 Can we get back to this question?

01:02:28.980 Yeah.

01:02:29.600 Okay.

01:02:30.460 So, the question that you had, do you mind...

01:02:32.680 Sure.

01:02:33.220 Oh my god.

01:02:35.320 I might have to boost it.

01:02:36.700 I might have to boost it.

01:02:37.560 Did you all see the video of the guy walking around the mall with a big rolling TV screen

01:02:42.200 with an anime waifu on it?

01:02:44.140 And that's not even an anatomical robot.

01:02:47.280 Just saying.

01:02:49.460 Waifu.

01:02:50.520 I did not say that.

01:02:51.420 I think...

01:02:52.020 I mean, I definitely think...

01:02:53.380 That's a deep cut.

01:02:55.660 I mean, honestly, I think what the future holds, we're not even going to...

01:03:00.840 It's not even necessarily going to be sex robots.

01:03:03.540 We're just going to have robots that can just help us take care of our things, and there'll 0.99

01:03:08.660 be like a fucking DLC or some shit. 0.99

01:03:11.460 What's that? 1.00

01:03:12.020 Yeah.

01:03:12.280 You know, like video games...

01:03:13.240 Downloadable content?

01:03:13.940 Yeah, DLC.

01:03:14.840 Like, here's the sex package.

01:03:16.260 A mod package. 0.98

01:03:17.220 The sex mod. 0.86

01:03:18.560 The sex mod. 0.96

01:03:19.320 No, because like...

01:03:20.320 Yeah, it's just going to be like, okay, they're going to, you know, take care of all the chores,

01:03:26.780 and then the sex will be like a secondary, auxiliary sort of thing.

01:03:30.060 But then does that get exhausting?

01:03:31.140 Yeah.

01:03:31.440 It's like, it's never...

01:03:33.020 It's always like foreshadowing, right?

01:03:35.040 It's never personable.

01:03:38.040 Like, it's always going to be like what you program it to be, and it's never going to be

01:03:41.480 like, oh...

01:03:42.500 Wait, Nick, pull up the video.

01:03:44.160 Pull up the bowing video.

01:03:45.700 Find that for me.

01:03:46.380 Yeah.

01:03:46.820 Find the bowing video.

01:03:47.960 It's a good point.

01:03:48.800 I have it on there.

01:03:49.640 Nick, go scroll.

01:03:56.040 Make it bigger.

01:03:57.580 Bigger.

01:03:59.000 Too big.

01:03:59.720 I guess that's okay.

01:04:01.260 Yeah, that's fine.

01:04:01.840 All right, go ahead.

01:04:02.360 You can play it.

01:04:03.700 Scroll up a little bit.

01:04:04.900 Scroll up.

01:04:07.280 Wait, you missed...

01:04:08.100 Wait, did we miss the bow?

01:04:09.420 Now we got the bow.

01:04:10.400 Did we get the bow?

01:04:11.180 Yeah.

01:04:12.320 Oh, wait.

01:04:13.160 Are we...

01:04:13.600 We're too big on this, Nick.

01:04:14.640 Is there a smaller version?

01:04:16.900 Where's the smaller one?

01:04:17.760 No, that's fine.

01:04:20.140 That's fine.

01:04:21.680 See, this is what we need.

01:04:24.700 That's what...

01:04:25.640 We got the bow, right?

01:04:26.820 Did we see the bow?

01:04:27.500 Yeah.

01:04:28.280 Respect.

01:04:28.480 I want a girl who bows. 0.99

01:04:30.280 That's just a Japanese. 1.00

01:04:31.080 I want a bow.

01:04:31.920 A little service.

01:04:32.680 I would appreciate a bow.

01:04:34.580 Look at the bow.

01:04:35.500 Look at the bow.

01:04:35.860 Oh, my God.

01:04:37.180 Yeah.

01:04:37.460 He throws his shoes on.

01:04:38.620 Amazing.

01:04:40.460 That's based.

01:04:41.500 That's super based.

01:04:42.840 But, like, what do you provide in return?

01:04:44.480 Huh?

01:04:44.860 For the bow?

01:04:45.300 Do you provide something

01:04:47.140 like we always say

01:04:48.760 like a high value...

01:04:49.760 As long as you're a high value man

01:04:51.260 and can provide something,

01:04:52.940 you'll be submitted to.

01:04:55.260 Oh, yeah.

01:04:55.540 That's a guy who's making

01:04:56.780 probably like six figures a month.

01:04:58.840 That's...

01:04:59.280 But I'm saying...

01:04:59.520 Oh, yeah.

01:04:59.860 But that's what that guy wants.

01:05:02.400 The guy who makes that much money,

01:05:03.920 that's what he wants.

01:05:04.540 Dr. Annabilly has donated $100.

01:05:07.160 To elaborate on Jake's comment,

01:05:09.320 sex workers are feeding an addiction. 0.95

01:05:11.680 You are not spreading love 0.99

01:05:12.860 but a drug called lust.

01:05:14.200 Oh. 1.00

01:05:14.800 You are no better than a drug dealer. 1.00

01:05:16.480 Wow. 1.00

01:05:17.460 Yeah. 1.00

01:05:18.220 Damn. 1.00

01:05:18.720 Arch. 1.00

01:05:21.200 It's, yeah.

01:05:21.920 I think he's pretty much true

01:05:23.880 and, like, you know,

01:05:25.120 like, we've all, like,

01:05:26.600 you know, done these sorts of things

01:05:28.020 in the past

01:05:28.440 and I've had to, like,

01:05:29.080 confront my own,

01:05:30.400 like, how I was, like,

01:05:32.040 contributing to the problem as well.

01:05:33.360 Yeah.

01:05:33.700 And it's not a nice thing to confront

01:05:35.000 but eventually you do have to confront it.

01:05:37.380 Yeah.

01:05:37.660 So the analogy we're talking about...

01:05:39.100 Go ahead.

01:05:40.940 Go ahead.

01:05:41.540 Go ahead, Amath.

01:05:42.160 Go ahead.

01:05:42.400 Yeah, the way that,

01:05:43.780 the way you got to think about it

01:05:44.660 is the guys who consume this content,

01:05:46.520 are they more or less loving

01:05:48.460 the more of the content

01:05:49.840 that they consume?

01:05:51.100 Like, a guy who spends

01:05:51.960 all of his time

01:05:52.680 looking at OnlyFans and porn,

01:05:55.000 is he a better person

01:05:55.940 when he goes outside

01:05:57.120 and talks to people

01:05:57.720 or is he a worse person?

01:05:59.260 You, there's no statistics on that.

01:06:01.420 You don't know.

01:06:02.180 Yeah, but...

01:06:02.680 It depends on the person,

01:06:03.320 their values,

01:06:04.120 their beliefs,

01:06:04.640 their morals,

01:06:05.440 how they act in the real world.

01:06:06.840 No, there's actually,

01:06:07.100 there's neuroscience

01:06:07.920 that shows the effect of porn

01:06:09.420 and what it does on his brain.

01:06:09.820 There was that, like,

01:06:10.260 Scarlett Johansson movie,

01:06:11.600 remember,

01:06:12.120 where, like,

01:06:12.560 her boyfriend's addicted to porn?

01:06:14.760 Y'all have never seen that? 0.61

01:06:15.460 Oh, my God, no, you see it.

01:06:16.480 I haven't, I don't know that one.

01:06:17.440 Okay, well, that's a deep cut.

01:06:18.900 Yeah, so the question

01:06:19.860 that we were talking about

01:06:21.360 with the, um,

01:06:22.220 sorry,

01:06:22.620 I just wanted to finish

01:06:23.280 the point that we were talking about.

01:06:24.120 So the analogy of a bar, right?

01:06:26.200 So we have all these

01:06:26.740 different liquors,

01:06:27.500 with all these different liquors,

01:06:29.200 and, you know,

01:06:30.120 you can go in and buy the tequila

01:06:31.400 or the bourbon or whatever.

01:06:32.920 If you're a person,

01:06:33.860 if you're that person,

01:06:34.780 that man going into the bar

01:06:36.040 and you have a drinking problem,

01:06:37.760 isn't some of that responsibility

01:06:39.080 on you not to consume that alcohol?

01:06:41.320 100%.

01:06:41.640 Right?

01:06:42.080 How does the bar know

01:06:42.940 if you have a drinking problem?

01:06:43.900 Exactly.

01:06:44.400 Yeah?

01:06:44.820 Exactly.

01:06:45.720 It is a good point,

01:06:46.840 but the question

01:06:47.420 that you asked before

01:06:48.300 was why is it on her?

01:06:50.620 You said it's the man's fault.

01:06:52.720 Well, I said,

01:06:52.840 should there be some responsibility

01:06:54.880 as well on you

01:06:55.460 not to consume this content?

01:06:56.980 Yes.

01:06:57.500 Right?

01:06:57.880 Definitely.

01:06:58.360 Because not everyone does sex at it.

01:06:59.760 We don't disagree with that.

01:07:01.420 We completely agree with that.

01:07:02.640 But, like,

01:07:03.360 the thing where we disagree

01:07:04.500 is, like,

01:07:04.940 I would not absolve them

01:07:06.340 of responsibility

01:07:07.260 in the situation.

01:07:08.180 And I'm not saying

01:07:08.580 I'm doing that either.

01:07:09.360 Yeah.

01:07:09.740 So I think it's joint for sure.

01:07:11.580 And I also think

01:07:12.440 it's the messaging around it as well.

01:07:14.520 It's this whole, like...

01:07:15.760 But, yeah,

01:07:16.360 like I said,

01:07:16.900 it's not...

01:07:17.340 Not everyone has a bad relationship

01:07:18.300 with sex. 0.51

01:07:19.460 Sex? 0.99

01:07:19.900 And is addicted to sex. 0.57

01:07:20.940 Anyone who's watching OnlyFans 0.68

01:07:22.560 and is spending money

01:07:23.180 on OnlyFans,

01:07:23.860 that's an inherently negative relationship

01:07:25.940 they've got with that.

01:07:26.400 That's not true

01:07:26.960 because I spend money

01:07:28.020 on OnlyFans

01:07:28.780 and I have a great relationship

01:07:29.940 with OnlyFans.

01:07:30.000 How much do you earn

01:07:30.200 on OnlyFans?

01:07:31.340 That's not something

01:07:32.140 I want to tell you.

01:07:32.720 How much do you earn in life?

01:07:34.380 Yeah, but, like,

01:07:35.160 what I'm saying is that

01:07:36.060 you earn more

01:07:36.720 than you spend on OnlyFans.

01:07:38.420 You spend money to, like...

01:07:39.660 Well, sure, but it doesn't mean, like...

01:07:42.040 Like, I'm just giving you an example

01:07:43.080 of someone that has

01:07:44.060 a fine relationship

01:07:44.920 with I love sex, 0.88

01:07:46.840 I love... 0.97

01:07:48.420 I don't know what we're

01:07:48.920 saying, say...

01:07:49.720 Masturbating? 0.79

01:07:51.240 And I...

01:07:52.280 Get the rocks! 1.00

01:07:53.360 How do it?

01:07:53.980 I don't feel shame

01:07:56.060 or feel like I'm being hurt

01:07:58.480 by enjoying and partaking,

01:08:00.640 and if someone does have an addiction,

01:08:02.440 like she was saying,

01:08:03.620 it's not the creator's...

01:08:05.800 Responsibility.

01:08:07.920 Responsibility?

01:08:08.500 Thank you.

01:08:08.800 But don't you...

01:08:09.640 I'm sorry.

01:08:10.220 No, you go.

01:08:10.800 No, no, no, no.

01:08:11.400 Yeah, but you're saying

01:08:12.120 it's not the creator's responsibility,

01:08:13.580 but it's just like

01:08:14.780 you could use the bar

01:08:15.500 or you could use, like,

01:08:16.420 a drug dealer

01:08:17.060 at the same time.

01:08:18.100 But you also asked...

01:08:18.760 Does a drug dealer

01:08:19.420 have responsibility?

01:08:20.460 What she makes

01:08:21.320 versus how much she spends. 0.99

01:08:23.160 No one should be spending

01:08:24.260 their full income

01:08:25.200 to consume something.

01:08:26.540 Totally.

01:08:27.000 That's why...

01:08:27.880 And, like, I've even...

01:08:28.820 I've even had people

01:08:30.000 message me.

01:08:31.140 Fred underscore Durst

01:08:32.580 donated $99.

01:08:34.460 Yeah, thank you,

01:08:34.880 Fred Durst.

01:08:35.280 Limp Bizkit.

01:08:35.960 What's up?

01:08:36.320 I don't agree with posting

01:08:36.440 any form of sex work

01:08:37.880 slash only fans,

01:08:39.240 though I've used the services.

01:08:41.440 I didn't come out

01:08:42.440 of the backside

01:08:43.120 of said usage

01:08:44.020 feeling any love

01:08:45.020 from the poster

01:08:45.720 slash platform

01:08:46.780 at which I received

01:08:47.820 pleasure from.

01:08:49.120 That's all it is.

01:08:50.920 Momentary pleasure.

01:08:52.000 And that's all it should be.

01:08:52.700 But it depends

01:08:53.220 what you're trying

01:08:53.900 to get from that.

01:08:53.980 That was beautiful,

01:08:54.700 Fred Durst.

01:08:55.120 Thank you.

01:08:55.340 Using the weakness

01:08:56.120 of men,

01:08:56.800 because they are,

01:08:57.640 you know,

01:08:58.640 they go after their eyes,

01:08:59.920 their desire,

01:09:00.720 their testosterone,

01:09:01.660 and if they have

01:09:02.320 good testosterone, 0.96

01:09:03.100 they want to have sex 0.97

01:09:04.200 every single day, 0.97

01:09:05.300 and if they don't have

01:09:06.140 a physical partner,

01:09:07.120 they want to search

01:09:07.860 for someone online,

01:09:09.620 and don't you think

01:09:10.300 you use their weakness?

01:09:11.420 It's like there's

01:09:12.620 an obese kid

01:09:13.640 with diabetes,

01:09:14.720 and you just take

01:09:16.020 chocolates

01:09:16.680 in front of the kid.

01:09:18.000 I love doing that.

01:09:19.420 How I see it, though,

01:09:19.480 is I'm not going

01:09:20.540 into it with the intention.

01:09:22.680 Huh?

01:09:23.140 Oh, no, go ahead.

01:09:23.680 Go ahead, go ahead.

01:09:24.280 You're good.

01:09:24.580 I'm not going into it

01:09:25.440 with the mindset

01:09:25.980 and intentions

01:09:26.580 to abuse someone's sexuality.

01:09:29.300 I enjoy what I do. 0.77

01:09:30.540 I enjoy having sexual experiences 0.98

01:09:32.500 with people, 0.99

01:09:33.040 and if they find me

01:09:34.500 and want to have that,

01:09:35.680 I am happy to host.

01:09:37.460 You know, like,

01:09:38.180 I think intimacy

01:09:39.180 is one of the,

01:09:40.160 sorry,

01:09:40.680 one more thing.

01:09:42.700 I think intimacy

01:09:43.340 is one of, like,

01:09:44.160 the main reasons

01:09:44.820 why sex work

01:09:45.520 is so,

01:09:47.560 like, emotional intimacy

01:09:49.240 is why it's, like,

01:09:50.140 been, like,

01:09:50.460 around for so long,

01:09:51.720 and, of course,

01:09:53.240 it's about, like,

01:09:53.920 sex and pleasure

01:09:54.800 and all of that,

01:09:55.820 but a lot of people

01:09:57.440 just want that connection

01:09:59.340 and humanity,

01:10:00.760 and I think

01:10:02.280 that is so beautiful

01:10:03.040 that I can provide

01:10:03.760 that to people.

01:10:04.780 But is the momentary,

01:10:05.880 I'm sorry,

01:10:06.420 is the momentary pleasure?

01:10:07.580 Last thing,

01:10:08.260 and I want to move off

01:10:08.980 from this topic.

01:10:09.840 Go ahead.

01:10:10.120 Is the momentary pleasure,

01:10:11.500 like, worth the money?

01:10:13.180 I mean,

01:10:13.460 because, like,

01:10:13.820 there are repercussions

01:10:14.980 moving forward

01:10:16.580 because if you do end up

01:10:19.260 having children

01:10:19.960 or whatever down the line,

01:10:21.860 that,

01:10:22.260 the internet is forever,

01:10:23.740 and you're now affecting,

01:10:25.820 you know,

01:10:26.440 people in your life

01:10:27.200 that's not even in your life

01:10:28.460 right now,

01:10:29.120 and, you know,

01:10:30.640 I feel like there's

01:10:31.980 a lot of people

01:10:32.600 like Kim Kardashian

01:10:33.780 and Trisha Paytas

01:10:34.700 who've done either

01:10:36.200 a sex tape

01:10:37.160 or OnlyFans, 0.68

01:10:38.080 and now they have children

01:10:39.340 and now they regret it

01:10:40.620 so much

01:10:41.260 because their children

01:10:42.400 are able to go

01:10:43.340 on the internet

01:10:43.840 and so easily find

01:10:45.700 their parents' sex work.

01:10:49.420 I hope to raise my kids

01:10:50.860 to understand

01:10:51.780 that life is not

01:10:53.340 black and white

01:10:54.040 and that there's

01:10:54.920 so many avenues

01:10:55.660 that we can all fall down

01:10:56.820 where, like,

01:10:57.180 you have a past

01:10:57.840 that you're not proud of.

01:10:59.040 It doesn't make you

01:10:59.580 any worse of a person.

01:11:00.940 It doesn't make you

01:11:01.680 any less deserving of love

01:11:04.180 and I want my kids

01:11:05.300 to, like,

01:11:05.640 hold that

01:11:06.420 and be like,

01:11:07.180 everyone has their thing.

01:11:08.720 It's going to make it

01:11:09.280 harder for you

01:11:09.760 to get a relationship,

01:11:10.680 though.

01:11:11.080 Yeah.

01:11:11.700 Yeah.

01:11:12.060 I don't have any problems.

01:11:13.440 What's that?

01:11:13.960 I don't have any problems,

01:11:14.820 Brian.

01:11:15.260 What's that?

01:11:16.300 I don't have any problems

01:11:17.280 getting a relationship.

01:11:19.120 Yes, you've been going

01:11:20.640 two weeks on,

01:11:21.400 two weeks off.

01:11:21.900 Yeah, I was going to say,

01:11:22.500 you haven't had a relationship.

01:11:23.180 Yeah, well, hold on.

01:11:24.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:11:25.340 Wait a minute.

01:11:25.700 Yeah.

01:11:26.280 I mean, hold on.

01:11:27.880 Okay, we'll come back.

01:11:28.620 Raven DT donated $100.

01:11:31.760 The way I deal

01:11:32.460 with my prawn addiction

01:11:33.500 is by dumping

01:11:34.400 all of my disposable income

01:11:36.180 on super chats

01:11:37.140 for whatever you want.

01:11:39.020 Can't sub to OnlyFans

01:11:40.520 if all my money

01:11:41.520 goes to Master Brian.

01:11:42.920 This is genius.

01:11:44.840 All the OnlyFans

01:11:46.280 simps should redirect

01:11:48.700 their wasted money

01:11:50.460 on my podcast.

01:11:52.140 That's what I think.

01:11:53.080 And that's what, like,

01:11:53.920 it's like comparing

01:11:54.740 you find a streamer, right,

01:11:56.460 that streams

01:11:57.120 and you like their message

01:11:58.260 and you like what they stand for

01:11:59.620 so people spend their money

01:12:00.940 on things that they enjoy.

01:12:02.780 Yeah.

01:12:03.200 Whether that's your content

01:12:04.940 or our content.

01:12:06.580 Mm-hmm.

01:12:07.460 Who was it who said

01:12:08.500 I don't have a problem

01:12:10.480 getting a relationship?

01:12:11.660 That's me.

01:12:12.120 The feed is a couple seconds behind.

01:12:16.880 Were you one of the girls

01:12:18.080 who does OnlyFans? 1.00

01:12:19.160 Yes.

01:12:19.340 I am, yeah.

01:12:20.660 So is your relationship quality,

01:12:23.640 is the status of your relationship

01:12:24.820 exactly where you want it to be?

01:12:26.280 Like, is this the final relationship

01:12:27.540 you want to have?

01:12:28.500 I'm not in a relationship.

01:12:29.340 She's not in a relationship.

01:12:30.040 But that's also why

01:12:31.040 because I feel like I'm picky.

01:12:32.800 I travel a lot and...

01:12:34.560 Yeah.

01:12:35.720 Red flag, red flag.

01:12:37.340 I'm a red flag,

01:12:38.220 but I travel a lot.

01:12:39.000 Double red flag, yeah.

01:12:39.680 Picky and travel.

01:12:40.560 Did you not just come back

01:12:41.620 from time?

01:12:42.120 Yeah, but I'm a guy.

01:12:43.360 We're different.

01:12:44.440 Oh.

01:12:45.540 I hadn't considered that.

01:12:48.080 Oh, my God.

01:12:49.580 Oh, you can get triggered about it,

01:12:50.960 but you're getting triggered

01:12:51.900 about reality. 0.99

01:12:52.680 Wait, how the fuck did that get... 0.99

01:12:54.120 Why is traveling the red flag? 0.99

01:12:55.840 Nick, why did you...

01:12:56.680 Because if a girl moves around a lot, 1.00

01:12:58.760 generally it tends to mean

01:12:59.840 that she's having various

01:13:01.380 different experiences overseas...

01:13:02.620 Wait, what are you doing?

01:13:03.100 ...and she's going to places 0.67

01:13:03.980 like Dubai and Miami

01:13:05.960 and these places

01:13:06.900 that tends to be trouble

01:13:07.980 that happens.

01:13:08.960 We would like...

01:13:09.960 Guys are just...

01:13:10.860 You may not agree with it,

01:13:12.180 but guys just like girls.

01:13:13.500 God, we can't win, can we, Jake?

01:13:15.080 Oh, you can.

01:13:15.800 It's actually quite easy.

01:13:16.840 And if you listen,

01:13:18.400 it's actually very easy.

01:13:19.580 Why is wanting life experience

01:13:21.860 a red flag?

01:13:23.000 Because, I mean,

01:13:23.640 in my case at least,

01:13:24.580 I've almost lost my life twice,

01:13:26.640 so I take every opportunity

01:13:28.500 I can to travel.

01:13:29.580 I travel around the country

01:13:30.480 going to different caravans,

01:13:31.840 and that means everything to me

01:13:33.280 because if I didn't...

01:13:34.980 You travel to different caravans?

01:13:36.460 What?

01:13:37.020 What's that bum?

01:13:37.440 Car events.

01:13:38.160 Car events, not caravans.

01:13:40.460 Sorry.

01:13:40.920 Car events?

01:13:42.180 Think about that.

01:13:42.980 Which one?

01:13:43.500 Which one do you want?

01:13:44.140 The asteroid?

01:13:45.040 What do you want?

01:13:45.420 I would like that life.

01:13:46.640 Yeah, right?

01:13:47.180 Well, I do live in an RV,

01:13:49.000 so...

01:13:49.240 I mean, I could...

01:13:50.240 I do.

01:13:50.800 I live in an RV.

01:13:51.560 So cool.

01:13:52.260 Car events.

01:13:53.240 Tragic women. 1.00

01:13:53.880 Some cheds at those caravans.

01:13:55.400 A bit of a red flag, too.

01:13:57.020 Why?

01:13:57.740 Women who do van life, 1.00

01:13:58.860 it's red flag.

01:13:59.780 But I'm in one location.

01:14:01.740 Oh, okay.

01:14:02.480 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:14:02.900 No, no.

01:14:03.120 I'm in one location.

01:14:04.260 I plan on staying in one location.

01:14:06.080 I would love to travel around,

01:14:08.000 but at this point,

01:14:09.120 I'm just saving money.

01:14:09.300 Why can't I explore the world

01:14:10.200 as much as you, huh?

01:14:11.540 Well, that was Jake's position. 1.00

01:14:12.960 What the fuck? 0.99

01:14:13.720 But it is kind of like... 0.99

01:14:15.080 Well, a girl who travels a lot,

01:14:17.420 you're in a new city.

01:14:18.940 Sure. 1.00

01:14:19.300 You're going to get a dick 1.00

01:14:20.040 in a new city. 0.99

01:14:21.580 I didn't want to say it like that.

01:14:22.320 Maybe.

01:14:22.480 Maybe, maybe,

01:14:24.080 but that's what we think.

01:14:26.200 Maybe I'll take a cooking class.

01:14:27.900 What if she finds out a woman? 1.00

01:14:29.500 Huh?

01:14:29.640 What if she's into girls? 0.99

01:14:30.920 Is that okay?

01:14:31.420 Or a cooking class.

01:14:33.100 It adds to your body count.

01:14:34.700 Listen,

01:14:35.160 as somebody who travels a lot,

01:14:38.500 I know...

01:14:39.120 It's totally fine, by the way.

01:14:40.440 Yeah, absolutely, it is.

01:14:41.860 It's fine.

01:14:42.380 It's a green flag for a guy. 0.88

01:14:43.680 I know.

01:14:44.260 Reality hurts sometimes.

01:14:45.300 But, yeah,

01:14:47.020 as somebody who does that a lot,

01:14:48.200 I'm well aware of what happens

01:14:49.780 when girls travel a lot, 1.00

01:14:52.040 when girls are in new cities all the time.

01:14:53.460 I just lived in Asia for eight months.

01:14:55.440 You know how toxic traveling men are?

01:14:57.240 They're just like, 1.00

01:14:57.860 I'm going to find new pussy every night. 1.00

01:14:59.900 I'm going to go off. 1.00

01:15:01.440 I'm not going to talk to these girls. 1.00

01:15:03.500 Why is it like a man slash woman thing? 0.98

01:15:05.740 The fact that you lived in Asia for eight months,

01:15:08.760 like, honestly,

01:15:09.900 I know what happens in Asia.

01:15:11.660 What happens in Asia? 0.75

01:15:12.520 What are you getting into in Asia?

01:15:14.080 What happens in Asia? 0.75

01:15:14.920 What happens in Asia? 0.75

01:15:15.860 It just sounds like you're very knowledgeable.

01:15:17.800 I'm like,

01:15:18.360 you're having a lifestyle

01:15:19.920 that's very specific.

01:15:21.620 I went to, like,

01:15:23.060 guitar sessions on the beach.

01:15:24.660 I, like,

01:15:25.520 learned how to scuba dive.

01:15:26.760 I don't know what you're up to.

01:15:28.780 But I guess you were a girls' life. 0.99

01:15:31.640 When you were making content,

01:15:32.940 I think it goes both ways.

01:15:34.580 Were you making content while you were talking?

01:15:35.500 Oh, yeah.

01:15:36.160 Yeah.

01:15:36.840 See it on Miami fans.

01:15:38.160 Mars Noir.

01:15:39.720 Yeah.

01:15:40.200 So the argument is,

01:15:41.620 essentially,

01:15:42.520 that, like,

01:15:43.800 you know,

01:15:44.460 is there anything that you would do

01:15:45.920 that would be something you'd think,

01:15:47.440 I don't really want to do that

01:15:48.380 just in case,

01:15:49.380 you know,

01:15:49.820 it might limit my options?

01:15:52.660 Or is it just do whatever I want?

01:15:54.040 I think before I started sex work,

01:15:55.200 I already recognized

01:15:56.820 the things that I would be limiting myself in.

01:15:59.540 And I think if you're going to start

01:16:01.540 in that industry,

01:16:02.620 you have to be honest with yourself

01:16:04.080 and comfortable with that.

01:16:05.700 Because in our society,

01:16:06.860 it is very frowned upon.

01:16:09.540 For what?

01:16:12.100 What's frowned upon?

01:16:13.220 Well,

01:16:13.440 just, like,

01:16:13.760 y'all's view of,

01:16:15.200 like,

01:16:16.380 bodily autonomy

01:16:17.160 and how, like,

01:16:18.020 having sex 0.83

01:16:18.960 and, um, 0.87

01:16:21.460 is, like,

01:16:21.780 taking something away.

01:16:23.380 I think that there's a,

01:16:24.720 it's not necessarily

01:16:25.820 us doing it.

01:16:27.680 I think since the beginning of time,

01:16:29.260 in desperate situations,

01:16:30.520 women go towards sex work 1.00

01:16:31.840 and men go towards crime.

01:16:33.940 So that's,

01:16:34.700 that's what we're drawing out there.

01:16:36.060 But I mean,

01:16:36.240 my family,

01:16:36.900 my mom raised me to be very,

01:16:38.860 like,

01:16:39.160 I joke,

01:16:39.540 colorblind,

01:16:40.180 genderblind,

01:16:40.820 everything.

01:16:41.140 And she taught me a lot

01:16:43.760 about, like,

01:16:44.820 sex and, like, 0.69

01:16:46.460 non-vanilla stuff.

01:16:47.980 So I grew up

01:16:49.140 very understanding

01:16:49.880 and I don't judge people

01:16:51.360 based on what they do

01:16:52.440 in their personal life.

01:16:53.380 That's you.

01:16:53.840 Here,

01:16:54.240 let me,

01:16:54.580 let me try to bring it back

01:16:56.540 to a dating context. 0.66

01:16:58.200 You're free to do sex work.

01:17:00.160 However,

01:17:00.840 I think the point

01:17:01.620 I was trying to make is

01:17:02.460 most men

01:17:03.820 don't want to date women 1.00

01:17:05.060 who are involved in sex work.

01:17:06.920 Yeah.

01:17:07.820 So that's why I said,

01:17:09.360 you don't have to judge people

01:17:09.840 who do that,

01:17:10.420 but men will.

01:17:11.560 That's why I said,

01:17:12.440 it's going to be,

01:17:13.640 you may very well

01:17:14.560 still be able to find

01:17:15.540 a relationship,

01:17:16.100 but it's,

01:17:16.660 you are going to reduce

01:17:18.460 your pool of potential partners

01:17:20.100 because of the work you do.

01:17:22.460 That's just reality.

01:17:23.420 There are women 0.98

01:17:24.040 who don't want to date me

01:17:25.080 because I'm doing this

01:17:26.180 controversial podcast.

01:17:28.000 I accept that though.

01:17:29.360 As a man,

01:17:30.040 I accept that.

01:17:30.620 There's a lot of women 1.00

01:17:31.320 who don't want to date me

01:17:32.300 because of the podcast.

01:17:33.560 Cool.

01:17:34.040 That's one of those things

01:17:34.920 that I, like,

01:17:35.480 keep in mind

01:17:36.100 or kept in mind

01:17:36.960 before I started sex work

01:17:38.280 where it's like,

01:17:38.840 you're not going to be

01:17:39.580 everyone's thing.

01:17:41.460 It's like,

01:17:41.760 if I had like blue hair,

01:17:42.920 I wouldn't be

01:17:43.300 everyone's aesthetic.

01:17:44.460 I mean,

01:17:44.860 having blue hairs,

01:17:46.160 but it's very different.

01:17:48.260 I'm just giving you

01:17:48.980 like a similar direction.

01:17:50.840 But what I was getting at

01:17:51.820 is that people can be

01:17:52.780 understanding,

01:17:53.860 but then again,

01:17:54.540 there's a whole,

01:17:55.160 there's a difference

01:17:55.620 about being understanding

01:17:56.680 about the non-vanilla life

01:17:58.060 and putting it online.

01:17:59.560 And also just being,

01:18:00.460 being realistic about,

01:18:01.740 like when I say that

01:18:02.440 these things are red flags,

01:18:03.720 I'm not saying that

01:18:04.820 because I have my own

01:18:05.540 personal biases.

01:18:06.620 These are like,

01:18:07.620 like the vast,

01:18:09.300 vast majority of guys

01:18:10.260 would agree with me

01:18:10.860 with this stuff.

01:18:11.520 They might not tell you.

01:18:12.360 I don't think the human desire

01:18:13.040 to travel is a red flag.

01:18:14.680 Like,

01:18:14.900 come on.

01:18:16.000 I think it's a red flag

01:18:18.040 for men too.

01:18:18.680 It's what's associated

01:18:19.680 with it.

01:18:20.500 When starting it,

01:18:22.100 that's like with any career,

01:18:23.420 right?

01:18:23.560 You have to think like,

01:18:24.860 if I choose this career path,

01:18:26.660 where is it going to take me?

01:18:27.840 Right?

01:18:28.340 And that's how you

01:18:29.180 base your decisions.

01:18:30.080 Most humans will lay out

01:18:32.160 the pros and cons

01:18:33.140 of a situation

01:18:34.020 before making the decision.

01:18:35.760 As a content creator,

01:18:38.260 you know,

01:18:38.560 whatever realm of sex work you do,

01:18:40.720 that's something that you have

01:18:41.800 to think about

01:18:42.340 before you do it, right?

01:18:43.680 But ultimately,

01:18:44.540 you're still deciding

01:18:45.920 to do it

01:18:46.580 knowing what the consequences,

01:18:48.900 the actions,

01:18:49.720 the limitations

01:18:50.320 are going to be.

01:18:51.680 But are we sure

01:18:51.820 we know what the consequences are?

01:18:53.220 I don't really necessarily

01:18:54.060 think that girls 0.99

01:18:54.780 do know the consequences.

01:18:55.680 Some people sign up,

01:18:57.860 do it,

01:18:58.460 and they don't care.

01:18:59.800 They don't consider it.

01:19:00.880 They probably have

01:19:01.360 repercussions of 10 years.

01:19:02.500 We get it.

01:19:03.460 Like, okay,

01:19:03.800 we've talked about

01:19:04.520 sex work for way too long.

01:19:07.380 Yeah.

01:19:08.100 Really related

01:19:08.920 to the traveling thing

01:19:10.060 being a red flag,

01:19:10.860 we have a video

01:19:11.600 from Andrew Tate

01:19:13.080 that's related to this.

01:19:14.380 Why don't we watch that?

01:19:15.340 Nick,

01:19:15.480 if you can go

01:19:15.860 in the podcast

01:19:16.640 video Tate folder,

01:19:18.540 it's,

01:19:19.000 I think we have the video.

01:19:20.860 I could be wrong.

01:19:21.780 We'll watch it.

01:19:22.380 If it's not,

01:19:22.900 we'll just get off of it.

01:19:23.880 Let me know

01:19:26.900 when you get that folder

01:19:27.740 pulled up, Nick,

01:19:28.480 and then we'll get to it.

01:19:29.900 While you do that,

01:19:30.880 while you get there,

01:19:31.720 I'm going to pull up a chat.

01:19:33.020 We have Stephen Ray 85.

01:19:34.900 Can the ladies answer this? 1.00

01:19:36.240 Would they date a guy

01:19:37.060 who runs a farm

01:19:37.720 and also love the podcast?

01:19:39.240 Just feel bad

01:19:40.120 for your sanity.

01:19:41.760 My sanity is

01:19:42.880 getting chipped away

01:19:44.900 day by day.

01:19:46.780 Would you date a guy

01:19:47.520 who runs a farm?

01:19:48.100 Go ahead.

01:19:48.580 Yeah.

01:19:49.720 Yeah.

01:19:50.280 Of course.

01:19:51.240 Yeah.

01:19:52.060 That's a green flag.

01:19:52.700 Yes.

01:19:53.320 Yeah.

01:19:54.660 I think Stephen Ray

01:19:55.480 owns a farm,

01:19:56.180 so that's him

01:19:56.840 shooting his shot.

01:19:59.000 Nick,

01:19:59.300 do you have the folder

01:19:59.900 pulled up?

01:20:01.060 You say red flag?

01:20:02.140 I think it's

01:20:02.980 innocence.

01:20:05.360 Tate Nelk innocence.

01:20:06.600 I think it's that one.

01:20:08.260 Yeah,

01:20:08.700 right there.

01:20:11.720 We're getting it

01:20:12.520 pulled up here

01:20:13.180 in just one sec,

01:20:13.960 guys.

01:20:14.640 Nick,

01:20:14.960 if you're able

01:20:15.260 to bring back

01:20:15.980 one sec,

01:20:23.020 guys.

01:20:23.580 Oh,

01:20:23.800 wow,

01:20:24.060 he is drawing

01:20:25.100 Jesus.

01:20:25.800 Okay.

01:20:26.700 There you have it.

01:20:27.340 I think this,

01:20:30.200 if it's not,

01:20:30.800 then we'll,

01:20:31.820 oh,

01:20:32.320 I would keep it.

01:20:33.400 I don't know.

01:20:34.020 Okay,

01:20:34.280 just,

01:20:35.000 okay.

01:20:36.360 Yeah.

01:20:36.760 If you're looking

01:20:38.540 for a one night

01:20:39.180 stand and one

01:20:40.440 chick has three

01:20:41.340 bodies and one

01:20:42.040 chick has 50,

01:20:43.200 the chick with 50 0.96

01:20:43.880 is going to give

01:20:44.260 you a weight.

01:20:45.580 Can you press

01:20:47.040 play?

01:20:48.100 A freakier night

01:20:49.000 and then chick 0.93

01:20:49.500 with three.

01:20:50.080 So I'd.

01:20:50.420 Whatever,

01:20:50.820 we'll just, 1.00

01:20:51.300 fuck it. 1.00

01:20:51.660 You're going to 1.00

01:20:52.260 walk around

01:20:52.940 looking for chicks 0.59

01:20:54.440 thinking I want

01:20:55.100 one that smells 1.00

01:20:55.720 of dick. 1.00

01:20:56.020 For a one night 1.00

01:20:56.240 stand though.

01:20:56.960 I want one

01:20:57.440 who's been plowed.

01:20:57.900 I think he gets

01:20:58.480 to.

01:20:58.960 Who's going to

01:20:59.500 give you a freakier

01:21:00.140 guy?

01:21:00.200 I wouldn't want

01:21:01.680 that.

01:21:01.820 I don't think

01:21:02.300 anyone thinks

01:21:02.940 of a one night

01:21:03.100 stand.

01:21:03.600 Okay,

01:21:03.960 two bodies,

01:21:04.700 two bodies.

01:21:05.260 Yeah, 1.00

01:21:05.640 fuck it. 1.00

01:21:06.100 You give me 1.00

01:21:06.440 a girl with

01:21:08.580 the higher

01:21:08.920 body count.

01:21:09.840 It's innocence

01:21:10.300 that men find

01:21:11.140 appealing.

01:21:11.580 This is what

01:21:11.860 most people

01:21:12.140 understand.

01:21:12.880 Women don't 1.00

01:21:13.440 even know what

01:21:13.980 men find

01:21:14.380 attractive.

01:21:15.040 What actually

01:21:15.680 amazes me is

01:21:16.300 that women go 1.00

01:21:16.740 through the world

01:21:17.160 and they're

01:21:17.320 so concerned

01:21:17.660 with how

01:21:17.860 they look.

01:21:18.200 They have

01:21:18.440 no understanding

01:21:19.300 on a basic

01:21:19.980 level of what

01:21:20.780 men find

01:21:21.300 attractive in

01:21:21.900 women. 0.81

01:21:22.380 And I know

01:21:22.760 that for a fact

01:21:23.520 because every

01:21:23.880 single time I

01:21:24.300 sit with a chick 1.00

01:21:24.840 and talk to her

01:21:25.400 especially for the

01:21:25.800 first time or on

01:21:26.340 a date or

01:21:26.680 something,

01:21:27.360 she's saying

01:21:27.880 always completely

01:21:29.160 the wrong

01:21:30.080 thing.

01:21:30.900 She's saying

01:21:31.380 exactly what

01:21:31.980 makes me less

01:21:33.120 attracted to her.

01:21:34.180 The fact she's

01:21:34.720 still hot will

01:21:35.480 get her through

01:21:35.860 it.

01:21:36.040 What's the

01:21:36.340 worst thing a

01:21:36.920 woman can say 1.00

01:21:37.420 on a first date?

01:21:38.120 The worst

01:21:38.560 thing is it's

01:21:39.080 just basically

01:21:39.520 things they don't

01:21:40.020 think about,

01:21:40.540 right?

01:21:40.760 What's the worst

01:21:41.400 thing they could

01:21:41.820 say on the

01:21:42.180 first date?

01:21:42.340 I mean,

01:21:42.600 there's a bunch 1.00

01:21:42.900 of dumb shit 1.00

01:21:43.380 they could say 1.00

01:21:43.700 but within a

01:21:44.140 realistic frame,

01:21:46.260 women will sit 1.00

01:21:46.700 there and do

01:21:47.140 something they

01:21:47.540 think is innocent.

01:21:48.160 They'll talk

01:21:48.420 about traveling.

01:21:50.360 I've been to

01:21:50.900 here and I've

01:21:51.480 been to there

01:21:52.040 and I loved

01:21:52.720 what I saw

01:21:53.140 there and my

01:21:53.540 favorite place

01:21:54.060 is this.

01:21:54.620 When you sit

01:21:55.440 with a dude

01:21:55.900 on a first date

01:21:56.580 and tell him

01:21:57.060 how many places

01:21:57.600 you've been,

01:21:58.180 all he's thinking

01:21:58.920 is you've been 1.00

01:21:59.880 fucked. 1.00

01:22:00.520 You've been 1.00

01:22:01.000 fucked by who? 1.00

01:22:01.780 Who paid for 0.99

01:22:02.340 that?

01:22:02.640 Who paid for

01:22:03.520 that? 1.00

01:22:05.740 It's bullshit. 1.00

01:22:06.760 Shut the fuck 1.00

01:22:07.500 up. 1.00

01:22:07.940 And on top of

01:22:08.460 it, men want

01:22:09.880 innocence and the

01:22:10.520 reason we find

01:22:10.980 innocence attractive

01:22:11.620 is because we

01:22:12.100 want to be the

01:22:12.560 female's portal

01:22:13.180 to the world.

01:22:13.960 If I meet a

01:22:14.680 woman.

01:22:15.060 You want to

01:22:15.380 hear they've

01:22:15.680 never been

01:22:15.940 anyway.

01:22:16.440 Never!

01:22:17.600 I will show

01:22:18.620 you the world.

01:22:19.620 The first private

01:22:20.700 jet you get on

01:22:21.340 will be mine.

01:22:21.940 You've ever been

01:22:22.260 in a Lambo?

01:22:22.820 No?

01:22:23.120 You're getting

01:22:23.320 my one first.

01:22:24.220 I'm going to

01:22:24.480 show you

01:22:24.880 brand new

01:22:25.560 experiences.

01:22:26.840 If I sit

01:22:27.200 there with 1.00

01:22:27.440 some bitch 1.00

01:22:27.840 and she's 1.00

01:22:28.020 like,

01:22:28.180 I've been

01:22:28.460 there,

01:22:28.680 I've been

01:22:28.880 that,

01:22:29.260 I went

01:22:29.520 to this

01:22:29.820 party,

01:22:30.380 my friend

01:22:30.760 has a

01:22:31.020 jet,

01:22:31.440 I was

01:22:31.680 in this

01:22:31.980 Lambo,

01:22:32.580 da,

01:22:32.820 da,

01:22:40.520 sometimes

01:22:40.760 think,

01:22:41.400 especially

01:22:41.600 if they're

01:22:41.840 sitting with

01:22:42.100 a G,

01:22:42.500 like if they're

01:22:42.760 sitting with

01:22:42.920 a guy like

01:22:43.260 me,

01:22:43.460 they feel

01:22:43.640 like they

01:22:43.780 have to

01:22:43.960 prove

01:22:44.240 themselves

01:22:44.780 by pretending

01:22:46.020 they've been

01:22:46.220 with other

01:22:46.480 ballers,

01:22:46.900 right?

01:22:47.160 They don't

01:22:47.440 want to sit

01:22:47.720 there with

01:22:47.880 a man like

01:22:48.220 me and

01:22:48.440 go,

01:22:48.700 oh,

01:22:49.360 I've never

01:22:49.720 been to a

01:22:50.180 restaurant

01:22:50.380 like this.

01:22:51.140 I wish

01:22:51.600 they would

01:22:51.940 say that.

01:22:52.540 That's the 0.99

01:22:52.820 most fucking 0.99

01:22:53.400 attractive thing 1.00

01:22:54.160 they could

01:22:54.420 say to me.

01:22:55.060 But instead

01:22:55.420 they'll say,

01:22:55.920 yeah,

01:22:56.200 I've been

01:22:56.420 here,

01:22:56.880 my friend,

01:22:58.220 and I did

01:22:58.700 this.

01:22:59.100 They drop

01:23:00.160 Dubai and

01:23:00.700 then it's

01:23:00.960 over.

01:23:10.520 So he's

01:23:10.900 talking about

01:23:11.200 body counts.

01:23:12.020 It's not even

01:23:12.360 just about

01:23:12.900 the freaky

01:23:13.360 that I'm

01:23:14.120 interested if

01:23:14.720 I have an

01:23:15.120 experience with

01:23:15.940 a woman,

01:23:16.300 whether it's

01:23:16.620 sexual or

01:23:17.260 non-sexual,

01:23:18.060 I want to

01:23:18.380 be her portal

01:23:18.860 to the world.

01:23:19.600 I want to

01:23:20.280 be the person

01:23:20.780 who shows

01:23:21.160 her something

01:23:21.440 for the first

01:23:22.040 time.

01:23:22.940 I don't want 1.00

01:23:23.300 to fuck 1.00

01:23:23.560 a bitch 1.00

01:23:23.820 who's been 1.00

01:23:24.040 fucked 0.99

01:23:24.240 every way 1.00

01:23:24.580 she can 1.00

01:23:24.760 be fucked. 1.00

01:23:26.720 I want to 1.00

01:23:27.220 invent

01:23:27.460 something new

01:23:28.060 now,

01:23:28.420 backflips.

01:23:30.340 All right,

01:23:30.960 so that was

01:23:32.120 sort of related

01:23:32.680 to the travel

01:23:33.200 thing.

01:23:33.500 Let's get

01:23:33.780 everybody's

01:23:34.200 reaction.

01:23:34.620 Let's go

01:23:34.820 around the

01:23:35.080 table on

01:23:35.500 that.

01:23:40.520 He's not

01:23:41.480 wrong in

01:23:41.880 the sense

01:23:42.240 of wanting

01:23:42.820 to show

01:23:43.400 her the

01:23:43.720 world.

01:23:44.080 I think

01:23:44.280 there's

01:23:46.380 nothing wrong

01:23:46.880 with wanting

01:23:47.300 to be

01:23:47.680 someone's

01:23:48.000 first experience

01:23:48.800 for something,

01:23:49.560 but what if

01:23:50.100 she traveled

01:23:50.500 with her

01:23:50.860 family?

01:23:51.560 What if

01:23:52.060 she had a

01:23:52.600 family that

01:23:53.080 was wealthy

01:23:53.520 and really

01:23:54.200 aspired to

01:23:55.260 travel and

01:23:55.740 show their

01:23:56.100 children the

01:23:56.700 world?

01:23:57.540 There's a

01:23:58.520 difference

01:23:58.880 between a

01:23:59.940 girl going

01:24:00.720 on girls' 0.63

01:24:02.060 trips and

01:24:02.380 hoeing out.

01:24:03.180 I think we have to

01:24:03.200 distinguish,

01:24:03.640 though,

01:24:03.820 because that's

01:24:04.720 obviously okay.

01:24:05.920 Right,

01:24:06.260 that's what I'm

01:24:06.940 saying.

01:24:07.360 It's not about

01:24:08.100 the fact that

01:24:08.600 they've been to

01:24:09.100 countries.

01:24:09.360 If she's going

01:24:09.480 on a girl's

01:24:09.980 trip and

01:24:10.300 hoeing around,

01:24:10.980 that's very

01:24:11.360 different than

01:24:11.840 seeing the

01:24:12.600 world with

01:24:13.020 her family.

01:24:13.320 Or going by

01:24:13.960 herself.

01:24:14.620 Or doing a

01:24:15.480 solo trip.

01:24:16.460 Yeah,

01:24:16.700 I think he's

01:24:17.660 not wrong in

01:24:18.220 the sense of

01:24:18.660 what he's

01:24:19.000 thinking,

01:24:19.320 but there are

01:24:19.800 situations that...

01:24:21.380 Yeah.

01:24:22.860 Your reaction,

01:24:24.020 because that

01:24:24.340 kind of addresses

01:24:24.880 the whole

01:24:25.220 travel thing.

01:24:26.940 Oh.

01:24:29.340 I understand

01:24:30.580 his point of

01:24:31.360 being like,

01:24:31.800 I want to

01:24:32.440 show the

01:24:32.940 person that

01:24:33.440 I'm with

01:24:33.780 new experiences,

01:24:34.700 but okay,

01:24:35.200 she's been to

01:24:35.760 Bali,

01:24:36.300 let me show

01:24:37.720 her about

01:24:38.720 being a

01:24:40.300 nice guy,

01:24:41.380 or let me

01:24:42.100 show her

01:24:42.740 about dancing.

01:24:43.380 Do women 1.00

01:24:43.640 like nice

01:24:44.300 guys?

01:24:44.860 Is that what

01:24:46.340 women like? 1.00

01:24:47.360 Yeah.

01:24:47.840 But earlier

01:24:48.880 you said that

01:24:49.660 you get bored

01:24:50.380 with men

01:24:50.960 after two

01:24:51.800 weeks,

01:24:52.120 so I would

01:24:52.440 imagine nice

01:24:53.380 men are even

01:24:53.880 more boring 1.00

01:24:54.560 than...

01:24:55.600 You get bored

01:24:56.760 of men who I

01:24:57.440 assume are even

01:24:58.120 to some degree

01:24:58.680 exciting.

01:24:59.000 I said it's

01:24:59.080 like my funny

01:24:59.600 joke, but...

01:25:00.740 Well, it's

01:25:01.040 true.

01:25:02.100 It's not

01:25:02.800 boredom,

01:25:03.940 it's just

01:25:04.400 like,

01:25:04.960 especially when

01:25:05.540 you're like...

01:25:06.240 I date

01:25:07.120 to have

01:25:08.700 that connection

01:25:09.200 and love

01:25:09.540 with people.

01:25:10.120 If you can

01:25:10.460 tell, I'm

01:25:11.180 usually really

01:25:11.540 honest with

01:25:12.220 my intentions

01:25:12.780 in a relationship

01:25:13.540 or any sort

01:25:14.680 of dating

01:25:15.160 that I'm

01:25:15.500 doing,

01:25:16.100 situationship

01:25:16.900 or something.

01:25:18.120 I'll be like,

01:25:18.940 I'm not looking

01:25:19.800 for a long-term

01:25:20.460 partner right

01:25:21.020 now, and if

01:25:22.120 that's what

01:25:22.380 you're looking

01:25:22.780 for, then this

01:25:23.480 should not

01:25:23.800 continue, because

01:25:24.600 I don't want

01:25:24.980 to waste your

01:25:25.380 time, I don't

01:25:25.960 want to waste

01:25:26.160 my time, and

01:25:26.960 I don't want

01:25:27.280 to hurt anybody

01:25:28.300 for this.

01:25:29.040 I enjoy who

01:25:29.820 you are, but

01:25:30.960 it's not worth

01:25:31.600 I think that

01:25:34.740 girls tend to 1.00

01:25:35.480 do this very

01:25:35.980 well, they

01:25:36.300 tend to spin

01:25:36.960 things, you

01:25:37.540 say, it's

01:25:38.280 not boredom,

01:25:39.060 it's just me

01:25:39.860 spreading love,

01:25:41.520 it's not sex

01:25:42.560 where I'm

01:25:42.880 only fans, it's

01:25:43.580 me just

01:25:43.880 spreading love,

01:25:45.200 and at the

01:25:45.600 end of the

01:25:45.800 day, it is

01:25:46.220 boredom, you're

01:25:46.840 getting bored

01:25:47.200 of the guys,

01:25:47.800 you want to

01:25:48.100 move on, that's

01:25:49.780 what it is.

01:25:50.840 It's not

01:25:51.300 boredom necessarily,

01:25:52.780 but let's say

01:25:53.540 there's a guy

01:25:54.060 that I'm...

01:25:54.360 You're not

01:25:56.060 sure, let's

01:25:56.680 say there's a

01:25:57.040 guy that I'm

01:25:57.560 seeing and I'm

01:25:58.340 having fun with,

01:25:59.440 but I wouldn't

01:25:59.840 want to be my

01:26:00.380 partner, because

01:26:01.200 for me, it's

01:26:03.300 really important

01:26:03.900 to be, it

01:26:05.460 means a lot

01:26:06.640 to be a

01:26:07.200 boyfriend, it's

01:26:08.820 not just dating

01:26:09.580 casual, there's

01:26:10.260 a lot of

01:26:10.520 commitment.

01:26:13.060 I will say

01:26:13.860 what you're

01:26:14.540 talking about

01:26:15.020 though, when

01:26:15.800 you go

01:26:16.240 traveling in

01:26:16.960 Asia and

01:26:17.500 stuff, this

01:26:18.120 is your

01:26:19.240 bread and

01:26:19.640 butter, because

01:26:20.540 this is exactly

01:26:21.380 what it's like,

01:26:21.860 people are very

01:26:22.320 free love, and

01:26:23.400 people are just

01:26:25.020 traveling, and

01:26:25.840 we're just here

01:26:26.560 for a few

01:26:26.920 weeks, just a

01:26:27.540 bit of summer

01:26:27.900 loving, so I

01:26:29.120 understand that

01:26:29.680 those experiences

01:26:30.800 actually, being

01:26:31.680 in Asia, had

01:26:32.540 some of the

01:26:33.360 worst dating I've

01:26:34.260 ever had, because

01:26:35.420 it was too much

01:26:36.380 of that, like,

01:26:36.960 hippies on the

01:26:37.380 beach, well it's

01:26:38.340 too much of that

01:26:38.920 like, I'm here for

01:26:40.220 two weeks, and

01:26:41.200 then we'll never

01:26:41.660 see each other

01:26:42.200 again, and I

01:26:43.100 crave connection

01:26:44.700 and genuine

01:26:45.860 care.

01:26:46.620 Do you?

01:26:47.540 I do, yeah.

01:26:48.500 But you've not,

01:26:50.340 you say you move

01:26:51.180 on from guys really

01:26:52.020 quickly.

01:26:53.100 Because there's so

01:26:53.820 many bits and

01:26:54.840 pieces in that,

01:26:56.120 of like, maybe this

01:26:57.380 person wouldn't be

01:26:58.180 my boyfriend, and

01:26:59.340 I don't want them

01:27:00.040 to, like, get

01:27:01.180 attached in this

01:27:02.180 way.

01:27:02.680 That's like one

01:27:03.300 nugget of the

01:27:05.040 mindset.

01:27:05.640 So you do seek

01:27:06.860 something more

01:27:07.740 long-term?

01:27:09.100 Yeah, of course.

01:27:09.680 But you just said

01:27:10.180 you're looking for

01:27:11.300 something short-term.

01:27:12.840 How are you going

01:27:13.500 to know the guy,

01:27:14.560 how are you going

01:27:14.960 to know the long-term

01:27:15.660 guy when you find

01:27:16.320 if every guy has,

01:27:18.040 like, just bits and

01:27:18.660 pieces, but not

01:27:19.240 everything you want?

01:27:20.460 Because it'll feel

01:27:21.080 right, and it'll

01:27:22.220 make me feel good,

01:27:23.560 and I'll know.

01:27:24.280 Have you had that

01:27:26.160 before?

01:27:26.560 Like, has it ever

01:27:27.120 felt right, or are

01:27:28.300 you, like, what I'm

01:27:29.640 worried about is

01:27:30.220 you're going to wake

01:27:30.980 up and be 45 one

01:27:32.040 day, and no one

01:27:32.900 will have ever felt

01:27:33.540 right.

01:27:35.040 I've been in love a

01:27:36.020 couple times.

01:27:36.840 I feel a lot for a

01:27:39.240 lot of people that

01:27:40.200 I've gone out with,

01:27:41.360 whether long-term or

01:27:42.720 short-term, and I

01:27:45.520 know when I felt it,

01:27:47.460 it's just been like,

01:27:49.180 this is right.

01:27:50.000 So I don't think I'm

01:27:50.960 worried about, like,

01:27:52.620 being 40 and not

01:27:54.600 abounding my person,

01:27:56.120 finding my person.

01:27:56.960 Here, let's continue

01:27:57.780 with the reaction to

01:27:58.560 the video, your

01:27:59.140 reaction to the

01:27:59.780 video.

01:28:00.180 Go ahead.

01:28:00.640 Oh, gosh.

01:28:01.680 Like, in terms of

01:28:02.640 the traveling, I

01:28:03.480 think it's so

01:28:04.260 situational, but,

01:28:05.300 like, what he's

01:28:05.860 saying about men

01:28:07.740 want a woman who's 0.97

01:28:09.180 so innocent so he

01:28:10.220 can show them

01:28:10.980 everything, I feel

01:28:12.760 like, yeah, an

01:28:13.840 alpha male is going

01:28:14.680 to want that for

01:28:15.360 sure, but I feel

01:28:16.460 like he underestimates

01:28:17.220 the amount of

01:28:17.640 simps in the world

01:28:18.260 that do want a

01:28:19.940 woman who has a 1.00

01:28:21.200 lot of experience,

01:28:22.000 you know?

01:28:23.220 Well, there are a

01:28:24.400 lot of simps,

01:28:25.120 there's a lot of

01:28:25.960 simps.

01:28:26.420 I don't think,

01:28:27.280 generally speaking,

01:28:28.140 though, men want 0.99

01:28:28.860 women who are 1.00

01:28:29.400 sexually experienced.

01:28:31.800 I'm not a man,

01:28:32.820 so I wouldn't know.

01:28:34.040 There's another

01:28:34.680 tape video on that,

01:28:35.500 which maybe we can

01:28:36.140 watch later.

01:28:36.980 It's the same as 0.94

01:28:37.600 old guys saying

01:28:38.580 that they like

01:28:39.060 old women. 0.91

01:28:39.760 They don't like

01:28:40.280 old women, they 1.00

01:28:40.780 just can't get

01:28:41.500 young women.

01:28:42.780 Okay, good.

01:28:47.480 Your reaction to

01:28:48.440 the video?

01:28:48.900 Yeah, I think

01:28:49.520 he has a valid

01:28:50.520 point there.

01:28:52.000 At the same

01:28:52.840 time, I think

01:28:53.860 the stereotype

01:28:54.540 goes the

01:28:56.000 opposite way,

01:28:56.680 too.

01:28:56.840 Like, if there's

01:28:57.240 a guy who's

01:28:57.960 traveling a lot

01:28:59.240 and partying a

01:29:00.280 lot or going to

01:29:00.900 yacht week in

01:29:01.740 Croatia and

01:29:02.300 things like that,

01:29:02.880 I'm going to

01:29:03.240 have the same

01:29:03.800 stereotype in my

01:29:04.540 head that he's

01:29:04.940 out partying and

01:29:05.740 not someone that

01:29:07.400 I would want to

01:29:08.620 date seriously.

01:29:10.020 Yeah, I think

01:29:11.100 the thing is,

01:29:11.740 though, is that

01:29:12.260 then that brings

01:29:13.600 us a little bit

01:29:14.260 into body count.

01:29:15.720 I think, generally

01:29:16.400 speaking, men care 0.94

01:29:17.160 far more about

01:29:17.900 females' past

01:29:19.440 promiscuity or

01:29:20.480 current promiscuity

01:29:21.240 than the reverse.

01:29:22.080 I think women 1.00

01:29:22.580 are free to

01:29:24.820 care about it.

01:29:25.680 I think it just

01:29:26.280 happens to be the

01:29:26.840 case that they

01:29:27.260 care far less.

01:29:29.240 And there

01:29:29.480 certainly are

01:29:29.920 women who don't 0.99

01:29:30.520 want to date a

01:29:31.100 promiscuous partner

01:29:31.840 or a partner who

01:29:32.440 had a history of

01:29:33.520 promiscuity, but

01:29:34.380 it's just something

01:29:36.300 that men typically

01:29:37.160 are more preoccupied

01:29:38.080 than women are. 1.00

01:29:39.100 Sure, but I think

01:29:39.980 that anyone who's

01:29:41.000 looking for something

01:29:41.920 real and stable

01:29:43.260 is going to see

01:29:44.700 that as a red flag

01:29:45.540 on either side.

01:29:46.240 Can I just get a

01:29:46.780 quick hand raise

01:29:47.400 at the table?

01:29:48.420 Would you girls

01:29:49.120 prefer a guy who 0.94

01:29:50.180 is a virgin?

01:29:51.340 Raise your hand.

01:29:53.920 Okay.

01:29:54.900 Just you?

01:29:55.560 Just you.

01:29:56.440 See, are you a...

01:29:57.480 I'm Christian.

01:29:58.960 Like, I grew up

01:29:59.740 Christian.

01:30:00.400 Are you virgin?

01:30:01.280 Yeah. 0.52

01:30:01.760 Oh, okay.

01:30:02.400 Yeah, I'm saving

01:30:03.060 myself for marriage.

01:30:04.400 Okay.

01:30:05.340 So based.

01:30:06.020 Awesome.

01:30:07.420 Based, work.

01:30:09.820 Did you have a

01:30:10.520 follow-up on the...

01:30:11.160 I was going to say,

01:30:11.720 and then the guys

01:30:12.240 at the table, see,

01:30:13.260 like, that would be

01:30:14.200 like a very attractive

01:30:15.480 thing.

01:30:16.040 If a girl was a virgin, 0.94

01:30:17.340 I'd be extremely

01:30:18.560 attracted, but you

01:30:19.260 guys aren't attracted

01:30:19.960 to a virgin because

01:30:21.000 you girls want someone 1.00

01:30:21.760 who's sexually experienced,

01:30:22.660 so therefore lies the

01:30:24.480 difference.

01:30:25.160 I mean, it's not...

01:30:26.220 And we also asked if

01:30:27.060 we preferred it, right?

01:30:28.340 So it's like, it's not

01:30:29.320 like...

01:30:29.860 Yeah, it's good to say.

01:30:30.640 I'm not talking about

01:30:32.860 one esoteric individual

01:30:34.920 like what they prefer.

01:30:36.660 I'm talking about

01:30:37.120 generalities.

01:30:38.340 Women, like a man 1.00

01:30:39.720 with experience, men

01:30:41.060 prefer women who are 0.99

01:30:42.140 inexperienced.

01:30:43.100 It's a generality.

01:30:44.560 It's a fact.

01:30:46.260 Word.

01:30:47.780 Word.

01:30:50.140 Reaction to the video?

01:30:52.000 The thing is, I think

01:30:52.960 it just depends on

01:30:53.720 the situation.

01:30:55.100 I mean, like, I love

01:30:56.240 to travel, but it

01:30:57.040 depends on what

01:30:57.480 they're doing.

01:30:58.000 Like, if they're going

01:30:58.480 with a group of friends

01:30:59.380 just partying, I think

01:31:01.000 I would see that as

01:31:01.560 a red flag, but again,

01:31:02.900 if they're just going

01:31:03.580 for work or with

01:31:05.200 their family, then I

01:31:06.180 think that's okay.

01:31:06.940 But it's about

01:31:07.520 perception, right?

01:31:08.520 It's not about, like,

01:31:09.980 because, for example,

01:31:11.480 a woman could be 1.00

01:31:12.320 a stripper, she could 1.00

01:31:13.380 do OnlyFans and have 0.97

01:31:14.400 a really low body

01:31:15.460 count, but just

01:31:16.660 because you're engaged

01:31:18.160 in doing that sort

01:31:19.020 of thing, the perception

01:31:20.680 is going to be this

01:31:22.000 person may be sexually

01:31:25.020 loose.

01:31:25.680 So somebody who

01:31:26.440 travels a lot, what

01:31:27.220 we're thinking is it

01:31:28.180 could very well be the

01:31:29.000 case that you've never

01:31:29.860 hooked up with somebody

01:31:30.680 while you're traveling,

01:31:31.700 but if you're traveling,

01:31:32.520 we're going to think

01:31:33.020 that's a pretty

01:31:34.100 opportune moment to 1.00

01:31:36.160 just have casual sex 1.00

01:31:37.160 with somebody and just 1.00

01:31:38.340 hook up.

01:31:38.700 A lot of people, you

01:31:39.820 know, if you're on a

01:31:40.640 dating app, you'll

01:31:41.220 always see people on

01:31:42.100 dating apps.

01:31:42.360 They never count them

01:31:43.080 in the body count

01:31:43.640 either.

01:31:44.360 But then I feel like

01:31:45.280 that's where communication

01:31:46.180 comes into play.

01:31:47.020 If that's something you're

01:31:47.640 really concerned about,

01:31:48.420 that's when you ask

01:31:49.080 details about, oh,

01:31:50.240 well, who did you

01:31:51.160 travel with?

01:31:51.820 What was your intent

01:31:52.660 to travel?

01:31:53.400 They just won't

01:31:53.980 tell you.

01:31:54.620 But I mean, that's

01:31:55.940 still, I would say

01:31:57.000 that's still an

01:31:57.600 opportunity.

01:31:58.480 That's where

01:31:58.820 communication, like,

01:31:59.640 you guys just

01:32:00.380 dismissed that

01:32:01.020 immediately instead of

01:32:02.180 actually considering

01:32:04.100 communication.

01:32:05.340 No, no, no.

01:32:05.800 The thing is,

01:32:06.240 though, we just know.

01:32:07.560 So, we can tell.

01:32:09.280 That's it.

01:32:09.960 We can tell.

01:32:10.940 Have I had lots of 0.99

01:32:12.180 sex on my Asia trip? 0.99

01:32:13.500 Yes.

01:32:14.360 No.

01:32:15.000 You did.

01:32:15.500 You don't have to

01:32:16.080 tell me no.

01:32:18.300 I'm saying no.

01:32:21.360 Okay.

01:32:22.300 Okay.

01:32:24.040 What is a lot of

01:32:25.920 sex?

01:32:26.620 What is a lot of 0.96

01:32:27.280 sex?

01:32:27.760 What is a lot of 0.99

01:32:28.260 sex, Jake? 0.99

01:32:28.580 You had, I'm going 0.91

01:32:29.640 to say you might

01:32:30.180 have had two or

01:32:30.980 three summer

01:32:31.420 love-ins, two or

01:32:32.380 three boyfriends.

01:32:33.320 That might not be a

01:32:33.960 lot to her.

01:32:35.000 That might not be a

01:32:35.900 lot.

01:32:35.920 And it was like

01:32:36.340 maybe three, four

01:32:37.080 weeks.

01:32:37.420 We were on an

01:32:37.780 island together,

01:32:38.960 you know, enjoying

01:32:39.580 the sunsets.

01:32:40.320 Now, boyfriends is

01:32:41.080 different.

01:32:42.160 Yeah, I mean like

01:32:43.080 brief boyfriends.

01:32:44.360 I don't mean you

01:32:44.920 having sex every 0.85

01:32:45.560 night. 1.00

01:32:45.700 Oh, yeah.

01:32:46.460 Yeah, that's a lot.

01:32:47.520 That's a red flag.

01:32:49.060 No, because I'm a

01:32:49.620 young woman that's 0.94

01:32:50.200 enjoying dating that way.

01:32:50.320 No, no, you don't

01:32:50.740 say no, because I'm a

01:32:51.960 guy and I'm telling

01:32:52.620 you it's a red flag.

01:32:53.520 Okay, no, but I,

01:32:54.520 it's a red flag for

01:32:55.260 you.

01:32:55.820 Most guys.

01:32:56.560 You can't say like,

01:32:57.540 no, it's not a red flag.

01:32:58.440 But there's on the

01:32:58.840 opposite side of like,

01:32:59.900 say this is most,

01:33:01.400 this is the rest.

01:33:02.120 See, like I said

01:33:02.680 before, we're not

01:33:03.420 talking in esoteric

01:33:04.620 generalities and some

01:33:05.940 random guy who

01:33:06.660 randomly, he's like,

01:33:07.460 oh, awesome.

01:33:08.340 You're in Asia and 1.00

01:33:09.120 like had sex with all 1.00

01:33:09.940 these guys. 1.00

01:33:10.620 That's awesome.

01:33:11.740 We're not talking

01:33:12.260 about those guys.

01:33:12.860 We're talking about

01:33:13.340 generalities.

01:33:14.440 In general, if you

01:33:15.740 tell a guy that you

01:33:16.520 went to Asia and you 0.99

01:33:17.560 had these boyfriends,

01:33:18.240 one at a time,

01:33:18.800 please go ahead.

01:33:19.200 If you tell a guy

01:33:20.040 that you're in Asia and

01:33:21.220 you had all these

01:33:21.680 boyfriends, he's going

01:33:22.920 to think that is a red

01:33:24.380 flag. 1.00

01:33:25.560 Hippy dick on the 1.00

01:33:27.400 beach is a red flag. 1.00

01:33:28.900 Like, trust me.

01:33:30.780 Are you not dating

01:33:32.020 when you're traveling?

01:33:33.180 Sometimes.

01:33:34.200 Sometimes.

01:33:35.140 Yeah.

01:33:35.580 Yeah.

01:33:36.040 But I'm a guy, so

01:33:37.020 it's very different.

01:33:38.160 True.

01:33:38.800 Let's continue with

01:33:39.460 the Tate reaction.

01:33:40.360 Your reaction to the

01:33:41.440 video we watched?

01:33:42.440 I think it's

01:33:43.560 situational.

01:33:44.340 I mean, I've traveled

01:33:45.020 for the last probably

01:33:47.520 10 years and I can

01:33:49.200 honestly say I've

01:33:49.860 never had a one-night

01:33:50.840 stand with somebody

01:33:51.580 in a city I was

01:33:52.320 traveling in.

01:33:52.940 I've literally just

01:33:53.620 traveled to do what

01:33:55.140 I was there to do

01:33:56.000 and went home.

01:33:57.140 Never had a one-night

01:33:58.360 stand ever.

01:33:59.180 No.

01:34:00.120 What about like a...

01:34:01.220 Like casual hookup?

01:34:02.220 No.

01:34:02.620 All boyfriends.

01:34:04.840 Yeah, I think you

01:34:05.960 can travel for culture

01:34:07.300 and you can travel for

01:34:08.400 sex and the last one 0.96

01:34:10.920 is like, no, and I

01:34:13.540 agree with Andrew.

01:34:14.780 If you've been to a

01:34:16.020 lot of places because

01:34:18.000 you are craving for

01:34:19.080 places, it's first of

01:34:22.220 all, where do you have

01:34:22.880 that much money?

01:34:23.800 I mean, for sure,

01:34:25.000 it's not that easy.

01:34:26.680 You didn't work hard at

01:34:28.060 Walmart and get all

01:34:29.340 that money to go five

01:34:31.060 countries in a month.

01:34:32.740 But if you have a

01:34:34.400 normal partner, a good

01:34:35.900 relationship, and you

01:34:36.780 submit yourself to your

01:34:38.020 love, he's going to

01:34:39.460 open the world to you

01:34:40.360 and he's going to tell

01:34:41.460 you, okay, baby, let's

01:34:42.460 go here, let's go there,

01:34:43.880 let's go to the Maldives.

01:34:44.800 And it's going to be a

01:34:46.580 different experience

01:34:48.100 because it's going to be

01:34:49.000 about you and him

01:34:50.100 discovering things

01:34:50.920 together, not you, you

01:34:53.200 know, discovering things

01:34:54.740 alone or letting guys

01:34:56.220 discover you.

01:34:56.980 Why can't I discover the

01:34:57.880 world alone?

01:34:58.640 Why do I have to see it

01:34:59.380 through my man's eyes?

01:35:00.700 That's great.

01:35:01.300 It just depends.

01:35:01.920 I think, like, where we're

01:35:02.900 butting heads here is that

01:35:04.400 you're looking at it

01:35:05.180 through your world view

01:35:06.360 where it's like, me, me,

01:35:08.500 me, I want to experience

01:35:09.640 everything and have this

01:35:10.660 amazing life and that's

01:35:12.340 awesome.

01:35:12.900 But when I'm speaking,

01:35:15.560 I'm talking about from a

01:35:16.360 guy's perspective and

01:35:17.540 that's where, like, the

01:35:18.280 essential difference is

01:35:19.140 here and you're not

01:35:20.020 really, I don't think.

01:35:20.920 I haven't met any men

01:35:21.640 with your perspective

01:35:22.380 before.

01:35:23.040 They haven't told you

01:35:23.820 that because they're not

01:35:24.600 honest with you.

01:35:25.360 I'm being honest with

01:35:26.140 you.

01:35:26.520 This is the first time

01:35:27.280 someone's been honest

01:35:27.960 with you.

01:35:28.480 I don't agree because I

01:35:30.780 feel like I.

01:35:32.040 I love it how you can

01:35:32.840 tell a girl what guys

01:35:34.100 think and they'll tell

01:35:34.760 you that they don't

01:35:35.460 agree.

01:35:35.860 Because you're not all

01:35:36.800 men.

01:35:37.340 I'm not, but I'm

01:35:38.060 speaking in general.

01:35:38.720 I agree.

01:35:39.240 Man with a thought

01:35:40.220 process.

01:35:40.960 I agree.

01:35:41.700 I agree.

01:35:42.780 How math agrees.

01:35:44.620 How many billion people

01:35:47.060 in this world?

01:35:47.820 Okay.

01:35:48.180 There is, granted, I'm

01:35:49.780 not discrediting what

01:35:50.860 you're saying.

01:35:51.420 I'm sure there's a vast

01:35:52.520 majority that agrees with

01:35:53.840 what you're saying.

01:35:54.600 You just said the

01:35:55.120 world.

01:35:55.400 Let me just quickly

01:35:55.900 untangle that.

01:35:56.840 How many Muslims are

01:35:57.820 there in the world?

01:35:58.720 I don't know.

01:35:59.760 About two billion.

01:36:00.840 Do you reckon any of

01:36:01.580 them like girls who 0.98

01:36:02.360 hold up?

01:36:03.560 No, but that's to say

01:36:04.640 that a girl. 1.00

01:36:04.960 How many Christians are

01:36:05.840 there in the world?

01:36:07.640 I don't know.

01:36:08.560 Maybe like a billion or

01:36:09.500 so.

01:36:09.660 All of these religious 0.71

01:36:11.140 cultures around the

01:36:12.120 world where female 1.00

01:36:14.400 chastity is valued at

01:36:15.880 the highest order.

01:36:16.920 This is specifically

01:36:17.960 Western what you're

01:36:18.800 talking about.

01:36:19.260 This attitude where

01:36:20.040 you can just go and

01:36:20.780 do whatever you want

01:36:21.440 is specifically

01:36:22.540 Western.

01:36:23.360 So I'm telling you

01:36:24.220 from the perspective

01:36:24.900 of a Western guy.

01:36:26.000 If you spoke to an 0.99

01:36:26.880 Islamic guy, he 1.00

01:36:28.020 would go nuts if he 0.99

01:36:29.580 heard this stuff

01:36:30.100 because they are

01:36:30.740 actually virgins

01:36:31.660 until marriage, all

01:36:32.540 of them.

01:36:32.740 Yeah. 1.00

01:36:33.200 They would kill you 1.00

01:36:33.820 maybe. 1.00

01:36:34.800 Seriously.

01:36:35.620 Get the rocks.

01:36:36.600 Abdul.

01:36:37.040 So when I talk

01:36:39.360 about generalities,

01:36:40.540 trust me, it's not

01:36:41.420 just my perspective.

01:36:42.680 This is cross-culturally

01:36:44.080 throughout history and

01:36:45.000 all around the world.

01:36:45.860 Absolutely.

01:36:46.360 I disagree with that

01:36:47.860 part, but there is a

01:36:49.360 small portion of people

01:36:50.380 who are open-minded.

01:36:51.420 We're not talking

01:36:51.700 about the small portion

01:36:52.740 of people, though.

01:36:53.540 But I'm saying there's

01:36:54.420 always a flip side to it.

01:36:55.480 You said to me that I

01:36:56.160 can't speak for men,

01:36:57.020 and I'm telling you

01:36:57.700 that I actually can.

01:36:59.420 But there's a flip

01:37:00.380 side to everything.

01:37:01.240 It's all that I'm

01:37:01.860 saying.

01:37:02.100 We agree because

01:37:04.620 you're saying that

01:37:05.340 there is a small

01:37:05.920 percentage of men

01:37:06.580 who don't care.

01:37:07.540 And I completely

01:37:08.200 agree with that.

01:37:09.060 But what I'm saying

01:37:09.680 is the vast majority

01:37:10.500 of them do care.

01:37:11.600 Here, let's try to

01:37:12.300 bring in Ho Math

01:37:13.260 here.

01:37:13.620 Do you have anything

01:37:14.300 for us, Ho Math?

01:37:15.140 What you got for us?

01:37:15.860 Yeah, absolutely.

01:37:16.720 Absolutely.

01:37:17.240 So there is a small

01:37:18.400 percentage of men,

01:37:19.200 of course, in the

01:37:19.960 West, mostly, who are

01:37:21.560 not going to care about

01:37:22.580 your past.

01:37:23.000 And will marry you 0.68

01:37:24.080 and will have family

01:37:24.840 with you and everything.

01:37:26.060 But it is a really

01:37:27.040 tiny, tiny percentage.

01:37:28.180 Like, even men who

01:37:29.660 are highly experienced

01:37:30.820 still, you know, want

01:37:33.260 Oh, do I have to be?

01:37:35.820 Is there a?

01:37:36.800 Oh, a TTS came through.

01:37:38.300 Sorry.

01:37:39.240 Go ahead.

01:37:40.060 Continue.

01:37:40.640 Sorry.

01:37:41.220 Sorry.

01:37:41.560 Sorry.

01:37:41.900 Sorry.

01:37:42.240 I can't tell.

01:37:43.300 There's a delay.

01:37:44.420 So, yeah, there is

01:37:45.600 going to be some guys

01:37:46.200 who don't care about

01:37:46.860 that.

01:37:47.220 But if you have, you

01:37:48.560 can't have, like, every

01:37:49.960 woman has a huge amount 1.00

01:37:51.500 of sexual experience and

01:37:52.780 then there's, like, 1%

01:37:54.000 of guys who don't care.

01:37:55.340 That's not going to

01:37:56.160 match.

01:37:57.080 It's going to give you

01:37:57.800 a really hard time

01:37:58.720 finding someone who

01:37:59.480 doesn't care that you're

01:38:00.480 that experienced later

01:38:01.360 in life.

01:38:02.220 Exactly.

01:38:02.540 This is why I chose

01:38:04.700 the name.

01:38:05.260 I take a mathematical

01:38:06.180 perspective to it.

01:38:07.540 It's just you can't have

01:38:08.680 every girl is living 1.00

01:38:09.720 that lifestyle and you

01:38:10.840 all pair up with the

01:38:11.780 five guys who don't

01:38:12.520 care.

01:38:13.700 Yeah, exactly.

01:38:14.780 And also, as well, I

01:38:16.420 can tell that you've got

01:38:17.040 a strong personality.

01:38:18.300 You're going to want a

01:38:19.340 guy who is going to be

01:38:20.320 dominant.

01:38:21.500 You're going to want a

01:38:22.200 guy who's a stronger

01:38:22.840 personality than you.

01:38:23.840 That is not going to be

01:38:25.060 the guys that you're

01:38:25.840 talking about.

01:38:26.260 We should see the

01:38:26.820 menu date.

01:38:27.440 Is that why it lasts

01:38:28.960 two weeks, though?

01:38:30.100 Because you get

01:38:30.560 bored of them?

01:38:31.120 No, it's not.

01:38:31.700 It's just because I

01:38:32.500 don't.

01:38:33.720 There's so many

01:38:34.160 different reasons why

01:38:34.620 you don't want to

01:38:34.900 date someone long

01:38:35.440 term.

01:38:35.740 I've had, like,

01:38:36.140 great relationships

01:38:36.840 that last long.

01:38:37.820 I've had, like,

01:38:38.260 a year long, two

01:38:39.240 years, three and a

01:38:40.060 half years, and then

01:38:41.300 I've had, like, lots

01:38:41.940 of little fun moments

01:38:43.120 in between.

01:38:43.660 See, I love girls like 0.97

01:38:44.740 you, and I can tell

01:38:45.320 if we met in a

01:38:46.020 different country and

01:38:46.660 we went on a date,

01:38:47.340 I'd be able to save

01:38:48.340 you.

01:38:48.820 I'd be able to help

01:38:49.440 you.

01:38:49.660 Oh, no.

01:38:50.440 I would.

01:38:51.000 I would.

01:38:51.340 Oh, no.

01:38:52.500 Did you know you've

01:38:53.160 been a damsel in

01:38:53.900 distress?

01:38:55.040 He's going to save

01:38:56.100 me.

01:38:56.780 I could.

01:38:57.360 See?

01:38:57.900 He's happy again.

01:38:58.560 Well, I appreciate

01:38:59.120 that.

01:38:59.640 I've been looking

01:39:01.280 for a man like you

01:39:02.160 all my life.

01:39:03.080 Okay, cool.

01:39:03.780 We'll talk.

01:39:06.300 I'm going to get

01:39:06.860 some water.

01:39:07.620 Maybe your guys'

01:39:08.400 paths could have

01:39:09.120 crossed while you

01:39:09.820 guys were in.

01:39:10.480 I wish I could

01:39:11.020 have caught you in

01:39:12.940 Asia.

01:39:13.360 It would have been

01:39:14.480 so different.

01:39:15.220 Let me do a couple

01:39:15.800 chats here.

01:39:16.400 Nick, if you could

01:39:16.780 hide this really

01:39:17.280 quick.

01:39:18.300 The Dog22, hey,

01:39:19.420 thank you.

01:39:20.500 Oh, sorry.

01:39:21.160 Hold on.

01:39:21.500 It got paused.

01:39:23.400 Brian, enough with

01:39:24.240 the OF model

01:39:24.920 influencers.

01:39:25.600 Get some educated

01:39:26.220 girls with real jobs 0.98

01:39:27.000 from different parts

01:39:27.660 of the U.S.

01:39:28.320 Wherein is Julia

01:39:29.180 from DC coming

01:39:29.880 back?

01:39:30.100 We might get her 0.94

01:39:30.500 back on.

01:39:32.660 I was going to

01:39:34.000 say, I'm educated.

01:39:36.580 Just because someone

01:39:37.820 has an OF or model

01:39:40.480 or influence title

01:39:42.660 or whatever does not

01:39:43.980 mean they're

01:39:44.480 I'm educated.

01:39:45.000 I make signs for

01:39:45.660 living and wrap

01:39:46.360 cars.

01:39:47.040 Am I part of the

01:39:47.840 I wrap cars for

01:39:50.080 living and make

01:39:50.700 signs as well.

01:39:52.040 And I'm also a

01:39:53.560 model.

01:39:54.500 Wait, you're

01:39:55.140 literally a model

01:39:55.920 though.

01:39:56.260 I guess this is

01:39:57.220 directed at you.

01:39:57.960 I know.

01:39:58.560 That's what I'm

01:39:58.840 saying.

01:39:59.180 I work in the

01:40:00.480 industry.

01:40:00.740 But also, there's

01:40:01.800 a good cross

01:40:02.340 section of the

01:40:03.140 population here as

01:40:04.140 well.

01:40:04.500 We've got fitness

01:40:05.260 girls.

01:40:06.000 We've got Christian

01:40:06.920 conservatives, someone

01:40:07.880 from Eastern Europe.

01:40:09.600 I think it's a good

01:40:10.620 panel.

01:40:11.920 She is.

01:40:13.600 How many different

01:40:15.440 nationalities?

01:40:16.660 Oh, that wasn't

01:40:17.160 even like an ethnicity.

01:40:20.320 Oh, yeah.

01:40:20.640 It was just like a...

01:40:22.000 No, she's an 1.00

01:40:23.520 imperial German

01:40:24.460 sweater.

01:40:24.640 Oh, that's right.

01:40:25.140 Oh, that's right.

01:40:25.280 You're that...

01:40:26.240 Hmong. 0.96

01:40:26.680 Hmong. 0.96

01:40:27.540 Yeah.

01:40:28.800 Wait, did you...

01:40:29.520 Hmong? 0.97

01:40:30.100 Hmong. 0.96

01:40:30.620 No, she's not...

01:40:31.360 You're not Hmong. 1.00

01:40:32.120 I am.

01:40:32.640 I thought you were

01:40:33.100 Thai.

01:40:33.520 My dad's from

01:40:34.160 Thailand.

01:40:34.520 Oh, okay.

01:40:35.420 All right.

01:40:35.800 We have Ed

01:40:36.580 Carter, 91.

01:40:37.820 Thank you, man.

01:40:38.200 Appreciate it.

01:40:39.200 There's a saying in

01:40:40.200 Poland, a woman is a 1.00

01:40:41.680 man's business card.

01:40:43.100 Imagine your business

01:40:44.100 card says, see my wife's 0.98

01:40:47.480 slash girlfriend's

01:40:48.680 punani for $5 a month.

01:40:50.940 I love it.

01:40:53.960 How much do you guys

01:40:54.980 charge?

01:40:56.180 What's your subscription?

01:40:57.640 $12?

01:40:58.220 $12?

01:40:58.960 Yeah.

01:40:59.380 $12.99 or $12?

01:41:00.720 $12.

01:41:00.920 Exactly.

01:41:01.820 Okay, what about you?

01:41:02.640 I have $15 and a free page.

01:41:04.520 $15 and a free?

01:41:05.500 My page is free, yeah.

01:41:06.860 Is there...

01:41:07.800 I mean...

01:41:08.820 Do you have like a

01:41:09.680 premium page?

01:41:12.280 No, I don't.

01:41:12.900 Okay.

01:41:13.640 I see.

01:41:14.440 All right.

01:41:15.020 It's just a vanilla...

01:41:16.260 Vanilla page.

01:41:16.560 I have...

01:41:17.240 By the way, Homath, I

01:41:18.640 know you aren't able to

01:41:19.580 say the entire show.

01:41:20.940 How much longer do you

01:41:21.980 think you got with us?

01:41:24.420 I mean, I could...

01:41:25.420 Are we still talking

01:41:26.380 about the Tate clip?

01:41:27.280 I could comment on that

01:41:28.560 and sort of see you guys

01:41:30.100 next time.

01:41:31.300 What's that?

01:41:32.500 What?

01:41:32.880 I could comment on the

01:41:33.760 Tate clip and see you

01:41:34.420 guys next time.

01:41:35.140 Does that work for you?

01:41:36.880 Yeah.

01:41:37.440 Yeah.

01:41:37.780 I mean, you're welcome

01:41:38.780 to stay longer.

01:41:39.440 I just wasn't sure

01:41:40.020 timeline-wise if you had

01:41:41.140 to...

01:41:42.040 I mean, I could stick

01:41:42.840 around a little bit,

01:41:44.180 yeah.

01:41:45.140 Before we got too far

01:41:46.160 off the Tate clip,

01:41:46.820 I wanted to say...

01:41:47.560 I mean, I don't know

01:41:48.000 if you guys are familiar

01:41:48.760 with my work.

01:41:49.620 I bet that you're not.

01:41:50.940 I know it's cartoonish 0.94

01:41:52.040 and silly,

01:41:52.880 but I made illustrations 0.96

01:41:55.700 of what men are looking

01:41:57.160 for from women

01:41:58.080 and what men are looking

01:42:00.580 for from women

01:42:01.040 and what women are 1.00

01:42:01.680 looking for from men.

01:42:02.780 And what Tate was talking

01:42:04.200 about in that clip

01:42:04.920 is here I wrote other men.

01:42:07.380 And it's a really kind

01:42:08.680 of an abstract concept,

01:42:10.600 but it's like women's 0.99

01:42:12.560 exposure to experience.

01:42:14.020 Like, has she been with

01:42:15.460 a funnier guy than me

01:42:17.040 or a hotter guy than me

01:42:17.880 or a taller guy than me?

01:42:19.380 And the thing about women 1.00

01:42:21.360 is you kind of get stuck

01:42:22.920 on your highest setting.

01:42:24.120 And if you've been with a guy

01:42:25.220 who has a trait

01:42:26.940 that we can't keep up with,

01:42:29.180 then you're going to...

01:42:30.440 There's a chance

01:42:31.360 that you're going to be

01:42:31.880 thinking about that guy forever

01:42:33.300 and we don't want to be

01:42:34.160 in that relationship

01:42:35.140 where we're putting in

01:42:36.620 everything and you still

01:42:37.540 are hooked on a guy

01:42:39.580 from your past.

01:42:40.920 That kind of...

01:42:41.640 It's not about traveling.

01:42:43.460 It's not about whether

01:42:44.360 or not you've seen the world.

01:42:45.380 It's about in what context

01:42:47.000 you've seen the world

01:42:47.600 and who has facilitated that.

01:42:49.440 You know, have other men

01:42:50.340 been showing you things

01:42:51.480 that we no longer

01:42:53.140 have left to show you

01:42:54.000 so that you're not

01:42:54.580 going to be attached to us?

01:42:56.060 Like, that long-term relationship

01:42:57.680 is built on that attachment.

01:43:00.020 And if it's all spent

01:43:01.180 by the time you find us,

01:43:02.360 then there isn't anything else

01:43:03.360 to attach to.

01:43:04.740 Aw, don't sell yourself short

01:43:06.920 like that.

01:43:07.960 I don't think it's personal

01:43:10.560 to myself.

01:43:11.680 But it's like a weird

01:43:12.500 thing to think that

01:43:14.220 if your partner experiences

01:43:15.820 anything in the world,

01:43:16.900 it's like taking it away

01:43:17.660 from you.

01:43:18.300 Like, I want whoever

01:43:19.360 I end up with full-time

01:43:20.680 in the end of all,

01:43:22.840 I want them to have had

01:43:24.120 as much love, experience,

01:43:26.220 and life as they could have.

01:43:28.060 I don't want to hold them

01:43:29.100 back from that.

01:43:30.060 But do you not have insecurities?

01:43:31.000 Well, one thing...

01:43:31.900 Because men have insecurities 1.00

01:43:32.820 that can create...

01:43:33.460 Probably in some times, yeah.

01:43:35.120 Go ahead, Helmath.

01:43:36.040 Go ahead.

01:43:36.400 Sorry.

01:43:36.520 Yeah, one thing

01:43:38.040 I've experienced a lot

01:43:39.100 is I just haven't made

01:43:40.300 a ton of money in my life

01:43:41.400 and I will very often

01:43:42.820 meet girls who I like a lot

01:43:44.280 and they like me a lot

01:43:45.320 but they will just say,

01:43:46.640 you can't provide

01:43:47.320 the lifestyle I want.

01:43:49.140 Then they're not

01:43:49.800 the girl for you.

01:43:50.940 And that's kind of

01:43:51.740 what I'm talking about there.

01:43:52.960 Then that means

01:43:53.880 that you need to find

01:43:54.560 someone who matches

01:43:55.240 your values and beliefs

01:43:56.140 and what you want in life.

01:43:57.180 Just because someone

01:43:58.360 has experienced something

01:43:59.700 with someone else

01:44:00.460 in their past

01:44:01.200 doesn't mean that

01:44:01.920 there was something

01:44:02.400 about that person

01:44:03.140 that didn't align with them

01:44:04.180 which is hence

01:44:04.740 why they're not together anymore

01:44:05.960 and why that person

01:44:06.740 is now with you

01:44:07.560 and there's something

01:44:08.600 in your life

01:44:09.620 that you share

01:44:10.360 with that person

01:44:11.120 whether it be a thought,

01:44:12.040 a belief,

01:44:12.880 a goal,

01:44:13.520 a passion,

01:44:14.180 whatever it is

01:44:14.800 and that's why you guys

01:44:15.560 are currently together

01:44:16.580 and you make it work.

01:44:18.360 Whether that girl 0.87

01:44:19.240 or that person

01:44:20.200 has experienced

01:44:20.880 something else

01:44:21.480 with someone else,

01:44:22.480 there's a reason

01:44:23.400 that they're not

01:44:23.960 with that person anymore

01:44:25.140 and there's a reason

01:44:26.060 why they're with you

01:44:26.740 because maybe you provide

01:44:27.900 more safety,

01:44:28.900 more security

01:44:29.480 in their life

01:44:30.100 but someone took them

01:44:31.100 to Dubai.

01:44:31.780 For me personally

01:44:33.860 that trip to Dubai

01:44:34.560 means nothing

01:44:35.200 if you can provide me

01:44:36.160 more safety

01:44:36.640 and security

01:44:37.140 in my life

01:44:37.800 for my future.

01:44:39.880 Sure,

01:44:40.420 but what I'm saying

01:44:41.060 is I've had a lot

01:44:42.000 of women

01:44:42.300 like a good handful

01:44:44.080 of women

01:44:44.340 tell me specifically

01:44:45.440 the lower income

01:44:48.820 is the reason

01:44:49.620 I don't feel good

01:44:51.200 about you can't

01:44:52.340 keep up with me

01:44:52.900 financially.

01:44:53.740 Where are you

01:44:54.020 finding women?

01:44:54.840 That is the reality

01:44:55.800 of being a man.

01:44:56.820 If you have a low income

01:44:57.700 as a man

01:44:58.220 that is the reality.

01:45:00.620 Ladies will automatically 1.00

01:45:01.740 dismiss you

01:45:02.420 and a lot of guys

01:45:03.380 I don't dismiss guys

01:45:04.420 for that.

01:45:05.380 I'm not saying

01:45:06.000 not being able

01:45:06.700 to provide

01:45:07.060 what another man

01:45:07.700 provided.

01:45:09.120 I will say

01:45:10.200 that women 0.97

01:45:10.740 nowadays hold men 0.98

01:45:11.940 to somewhat

01:45:13.160 of an unrealistic

01:45:15.300 expectation

01:45:16.260 and I do think

01:45:17.400 that that is an issue

01:45:18.400 nowadays

01:45:18.840 that women 0.97

01:45:19.440 want a six foot man 1.00

01:45:20.980 that makes six figures

01:45:22.040 and wants to provide

01:45:23.080 for them in safety

01:45:23.840 and security

01:45:24.320 but then the women 1.00

01:45:24.940 have nothing

01:45:25.600 to provide back.

01:45:26.940 But don't you

01:45:27.320 and on that point

01:45:28.460 don't you think

01:45:29.380 that if a woman 1.00

01:45:30.280 wants six foot tall 0.85

01:45:31.580 six pack abs

01:45:32.840 six figures

01:45:33.760 six cylinder engine

01:45:34.840 and we say

01:45:35.660 we want you

01:45:36.160 to be humble

01:45:36.780 and not have

01:45:37.700 gone and travelled

01:45:38.360 the world

01:45:38.820 and had all

01:45:39.660 of these experiences

01:45:40.500 that give us anxiety

01:45:41.520 don't you think

01:45:42.800 that that's a reasonable

01:45:43.580 exchange?

01:45:44.520 I think that's reasonable

01:45:45.380 if that's who

01:45:45.960 you're looking for

01:45:46.800 because I don't

01:45:48.500 see my life

01:45:49.600 going anywhere

01:45:50.200 like well

01:45:50.900 wait hold on

01:45:51.400 but I totally value

01:45:53.700 what you want

01:45:55.420 from the world

01:45:56.080 and I think

01:45:56.580 that's beautiful

01:45:57.200 and I love that

01:45:58.100 for you

01:45:58.580 but do I want

01:45:59.880 the same path?

01:46:00.680 I don't think so

01:46:01.640 you know

01:46:02.800 it's amazing

01:46:03.520 going back to the topic

01:46:04.960 I think

01:46:05.720 a woman should see 1.00

01:46:06.880 what the man

01:46:07.760 can become

01:46:08.560 what's the potential

01:46:10.040 in the man

01:46:10.720 maybe now

01:46:11.340 he's not right there

01:46:12.480 but he's gonna be there

01:46:13.740 but man loves

01:46:15.140 getting the woman 0.91

01:46:16.360 as a whole

01:46:17.740 as a perfect woman

01:46:18.860 and keeping it like that

01:46:20.380 not waiting for her

01:46:21.380 to change

01:46:22.040 or you know

01:46:23.160 it's a good point

01:46:24.120 I gotta

01:46:24.420 we're gonna get

01:46:25.060 taking a good horse

01:46:26.140 I got a question

01:46:27.560 kind of shifting gears

01:46:28.940 here a little bit

01:46:29.600 going around the table

01:46:31.400 what percentage of men

01:46:32.680 do you find attractive?

01:46:34.500 and I know you're married

01:46:35.260 let's say if you were single

01:46:36.160 what percentage of men

01:46:39.740 do I find attractive?

01:46:41.140 I feel like that's

01:46:42.080 I don't even know

01:46:42.720 how to answer that question

01:46:43.600 I'm not

01:46:44.280 like

01:46:44.980 just say you walked

01:46:45.900 out of LAX airport

01:46:46.980 on a plane

01:46:48.120 and into a taxi

01:46:48.880 all of the men

01:46:49.800 that you pass by

01:46:50.620 in everyday life

01:46:51.360 what percentage of them

01:46:52.840 do you think

01:46:53.160 would be attractive?

01:46:53.800 did you go to

01:46:56.180 university or college?

01:46:57.220 yeah

01:46:57.320 when you were in college

01:46:58.940 what percentage

01:46:59.520 of the guys in college

01:47:00.700 would you say

01:47:01.740 you found attractive?

01:47:05.420 physically?

01:47:06.140 like

01:47:06.500 maybe

01:47:07.180 15%

01:47:08.760 under 15%

01:47:09.980 under 15%

01:47:10.940 okay

01:47:11.260 yeah roughly

01:47:11.820 and then

01:47:12.440 have you ever been

01:47:13.680 on a dating app?

01:47:14.840 yeah

01:47:14.980 what percentage

01:47:15.800 of the men

01:47:16.240 on the dating apps

01:47:17.060 would you swipe yes on

01:47:18.940 or would you say

01:47:19.620 you found

01:47:20.180 physically attractive?

01:47:21.380 I would say

01:47:22.720 I'm pretty open minded

01:47:23.600 in that sense

01:47:24.240 so I would say

01:47:24.820 like

01:47:25.340 maybe

01:47:26.540 I swipe yes

01:47:27.600 for 60%

01:47:28.660 swipe yes on 60%

01:47:30.060 were you promoting

01:47:30.980 your OF

01:47:31.640 when you

01:47:31.940 no

01:47:32.160 okay

01:47:32.440 not on it

01:47:33.680 when I was on

01:47:34.720 a dating site

01:47:35.420 I wasn't married

01:47:36.620 or anything

01:47:37.000 that's pretty high

01:47:37.900 what about

01:47:38.780 what about you

01:47:39.700 but it was 15

01:47:40.600 in college

01:47:41.580 okay

01:47:42.660 I mean yeah

01:47:43.140 I guess it's hard to think

01:47:44.040 I don't really

01:47:44.740 walk around

01:47:45.420 and think like

01:47:46.120 I would

01:47:46.480 that's not how

01:47:47.520 that's not conceptually

01:47:48.680 how I walk around in life

01:47:49.720 is like

01:47:50.120 I would sleep with you

01:47:51.200 I would sleep with you 0.95

01:47:51.940 I would sleep with you

01:47:52.800 did we just see

01:47:53.720 Homath's leg?

01:47:56.420 the grand 0.99

01:47:57.080 was that the cock? 0.99

01:47:58.140 did we see a cock? 1.00

01:47:59.880 please tell me 0.99

01:48:00.480 you're not

01:48:00.980 are you wearing pants?

01:48:03.700 I'm relaxed

01:48:04.700 okay

01:48:05.160 the work from Homath's

01:48:06.700 I was like

01:48:07.160 worried if we just saw

01:48:08.060 like a 0.98

01:48:08.440 if that was a cock 0.99

01:48:09.340 okay 0.99

01:48:09.600 no no no

01:48:11.040 I'm wearing sleep shorts

01:48:12.100 okay great

01:48:12.780 I'm going out

01:48:13.520 go ahead you

01:48:14.140 oh

01:48:15.540 Raven DT donated

01:48:17.700 $100

01:48:18.520 you see these videos

01:48:20.580 of on street interviews

01:48:21.800 of women saying

01:48:22.740 that if he doesn't make

01:48:23.780 $200,000

01:48:25.120 to $500,000

01:48:26.740 minimum

01:48:27.380 she wants nothing 0.98

01:48:28.500 to do with him

01:48:29.320 the average annual wage

01:48:31.100 in the US

01:48:31.780 is $61,000

01:48:33.280 women are cutting 1.00

01:48:34.980 a large swath

01:48:35.860 of good men

01:48:36.460 by having unreal

01:48:37.480 STNDRDS

01:48:38.820 word

01:48:41.220 word

01:48:42.380 standards

01:48:43.820 I think you meant to say

01:48:44.580 go ahead

01:48:46.360 with what percentage

01:48:47.660 of men you find

01:48:48.540 attractive

01:48:49.440 into the mic

01:48:51.580 right

01:48:52.080 that's so hard

01:48:53.580 to answer

01:48:54.040 but I would probably

01:48:54.800 say

01:48:55.280 more around

01:48:56.520 60% on dating apps

01:48:58.220 and somewhere

01:48:59.240 below that

01:49:00.360 in real life

01:49:01.900 because I

01:49:02.420 like getting

01:49:03.620 to know the people

01:49:04.620 so it's fun

01:49:06.180 to like just go

01:49:06.640 through the little

01:49:06.980 profiles

01:49:07.440 and see what

01:49:07.920 they're into

01:49:08.460 how they like

01:49:09.640 to present themselves

01:49:10.620 maybe in like

01:49:11.720 regular life

01:49:12.360 were you in

01:49:14.340 university or college

01:49:15.400 I went to

01:49:16.360 vocational college

01:49:17.380 it was all women 1.00

01:49:18.420 so you said

01:49:21.360 on dating apps

01:49:22.000 50 to 60%

01:49:23.040 of the men

01:49:23.460 you find attractive

01:49:24.620 yeah

01:49:25.360 men

01:49:26.120 women 1.00

01:49:26.620 everyone on there

01:49:27.600 because I

01:49:28.000 it's pretty high

01:49:28.600 for most women 0.95

01:49:29.360 okay but

01:49:30.100 I love people

01:49:31.620 what about like

01:49:33.140 if you're at a

01:49:34.480 party or something

01:49:35.780 what about that

01:49:36.500 yeah

01:49:39.040 it depends

01:49:41.020 attractiveness

01:49:42.380 of like

01:49:42.720 I want to

01:49:43.120 talk to them

01:49:43.600 or not

01:49:43.920 because I

01:49:44.200 find most

01:49:44.580 people attractive

01:49:45.060 I find all

01:49:45.520 of you

01:49:45.700 very attractive

01:49:46.480 and so

01:49:47.600 what's the

01:49:48.280 percentage

01:49:48.540 of like

01:49:48.880 finding

01:49:49.180 everyone

01:49:50.420 in this room

01:49:51.100 very attractive

01:49:52.540 I guess that's

01:49:54.060 my answer

01:49:54.400 keep it vague

01:49:55.740 okay

01:49:57.160 Wister Mandy

01:49:58.020 donated $100

01:49:59.340 I never donate

01:50:01.060 but I feel an

01:50:01.860 impulse to help

01:50:02.700 everyone out

01:50:03.640 Home Math

01:50:04.540 has a video

01:50:05.160 called

01:50:05.640 Relationship Zones

01:50:06.760 from two months

01:50:07.600 ago

01:50:07.980 that's absolutely

01:50:08.880 the most based

01:50:09.940 instructional video

01:50:11.080 on the internet

01:50:11.900 understanding dating

01:50:13.240 watch after

01:50:14.500 yeah definitely

01:50:15.460 be sure to

01:50:16.000 check that out

01:50:16.700 it's a great

01:50:17.080 video

01:50:17.320 thank you Andy

01:50:18.080 that's this thing

01:50:18.860 yeah

01:50:19.100 what about you

01:50:20.020 I'm thinking

01:50:21.620 like college

01:50:22.340 back like

01:50:23.200 at my university

01:50:24.000 probably like

01:50:24.800 20%

01:50:26.480 20%

01:50:27.240 okay

01:50:27.500 yeah

01:50:27.720 what about

01:50:28.900 dating apps

01:50:29.620 I only did

01:50:31.040 one dating app

01:50:31.660 for a short time

01:50:32.380 I feel like I

01:50:32.960 probably only

01:50:33.800 swiped right

01:50:34.260 on like

01:50:34.660 5 to 10%

01:50:36.000 5 to 10%

01:50:36.780 yeah

01:50:37.000 okay

01:50:37.180 what about you

01:50:37.800 I went to

01:50:39.400 college at

01:50:39.840 Notre Dame

01:50:40.240 so it's

01:50:40.820 more like

01:50:41.500 athletic

01:50:41.960 clean cut

01:50:42.920 intelligent man

01:50:44.200 so I'd say

01:50:44.640 most

01:50:45.060 most of the

01:50:45.640 guys I was

01:50:46.020 attracted to

01:50:46.600 and then

01:50:47.620 if you had to

01:50:48.160 attribute the

01:50:48.580 percentage

01:50:49.000 what would

01:50:49.460 50%

01:50:50.520 in college

01:50:51.060 no in college

01:50:51.620 maybe like

01:50:52.140 I don't know

01:50:52.440 60 to 80%

01:50:53.400 okay

01:50:53.860 and then

01:50:54.500 dating apps

01:50:55.760 now

01:50:56.280 living in

01:50:57.340 Southern California

01:50:57.940 maybe like

01:50:58.520 a quarter

01:50:58.900 to a third

01:50:59.520 quarter

01:51:01.320 on dating apps

01:51:02.580 yeah

01:51:03.040 or just in real life

01:51:04.080 I'm not on dating

01:51:05.100 apps right now

01:51:05.760 so are you

01:51:07.480 going off

01:51:07.800 looks or

01:51:08.520 personality

01:51:09.180 looks

01:51:09.840 yeah

01:51:10.000 looks

01:51:10.260 okay

01:51:10.500 because

01:51:10.920 I would say

01:51:12.020 about like

01:51:12.400 10%

01:51:13.220 I want to say

01:51:14.620 in person

01:51:15.180 yeah

01:51:15.980 and are you

01:51:16.920 been on any

01:51:17.560 dating apps

01:51:18.100 or

01:51:18.340 briefly

01:51:19.240 just because

01:51:19.780 I was like

01:51:20.060 more of curiosity

01:51:21.020 but like

01:51:21.680 never went on a

01:51:22.420 date

01:51:22.680 from a dating

01:51:23.740 app or anything

01:51:24.340 okay so 10%

01:51:25.180 of guys

01:51:25.640 yeah overall

01:51:26.940 like just in

01:51:27.800 general

01:51:28.100 okay

01:51:28.380 what about you

01:51:29.100 I would say

01:51:30.300 a very low

01:51:30.820 percentage

01:51:31.220 like under

01:51:32.080 5%

01:51:32.680 under 5%

01:51:33.700 okay

01:51:34.000 yeah it's more

01:51:34.980 of a

01:51:35.400 I need a

01:51:35.920 connection

01:51:36.340 with the

01:51:36.840 person

01:51:37.240 like I need

01:51:38.240 to

01:51:38.520 it's not

01:51:39.180 just a looks

01:51:39.760 thing

01:51:40.080 but do you

01:51:41.180 need the looks

01:51:42.060 to be there

01:51:43.160 in order for

01:51:43.920 a connection

01:51:44.660 to develop

01:51:45.280 no

01:51:45.600 so

01:51:46.500 okay

01:51:48.100 I've had

01:51:48.680 relationships

01:51:49.120 with people

01:51:49.640 that are overweight

01:51:50.380 I've had

01:51:51.040 relationships

01:51:51.580 with people

01:51:52.120 that are

01:51:52.680 but if that's

01:51:53.880 the case

01:51:54.280 wouldn't

01:51:54.820 you find

01:51:55.840 more people

01:51:56.540 physically

01:51:57.420 attractive

01:51:57.980 then if you

01:51:58.700 cared less

01:51:59.580 about looks

01:52:00.380 or am I

01:52:00.760 parsing this

01:52:01.400 incorrectly

01:52:01.860 yeah it's

01:52:04.260 like it's

01:52:04.860 that doesn't

01:52:05.560 matter to

01:52:06.040 me

01:52:06.280 so it's

01:52:06.720 like that

01:52:07.460 doesn't

01:52:08.600 that has

01:52:09.060 like no

01:52:09.720 relevance

01:52:10.580 well it might

01:52:10.940 not matter

01:52:11.680 to you

01:52:12.020 attractiveness

01:52:12.700 I guess it

01:52:13.200 might not

01:52:13.500 matter to

01:52:14.080 you but

01:52:14.480 you only

01:52:15.320 find 5%

01:52:16.440 of people

01:52:16.940 physically

01:52:17.620 attractive

01:52:18.240 yeah it's

01:52:19.220 like if I'm

01:52:19.820 just walking

01:52:20.360 around I'll be

01:52:21.120 like oh like

01:52:21.740 once in a blue

01:52:22.480 moon I'll be

01:52:22.860 like oh yeah

01:52:23.220 that person's

01:52:23.880 attractive

01:52:24.300 but it's

01:52:24.880 not like I

01:52:25.340 just walk

01:52:25.740 down the

01:52:26.020 street and

01:52:26.360 I'm just

01:52:26.620 like yeah

01:52:26.920 that person

01:52:27.280 attractive

01:52:27.560 that person

01:52:27.940 attractive

01:52:28.220 like it's

01:52:28.800 not like

01:52:29.140 that to me

01:52:29.520 because again

01:52:29.960 it has to

01:52:30.480 be like

01:52:30.960 I said I

01:52:34.600 when if I'm

01:52:35.340 walking around

01:52:35.960 I'm actually

01:52:36.700 my eyes

01:52:37.340 gravitate to

01:52:38.080 women more 1.00

01:52:38.620 than men

01:52:39.080 and I

01:52:39.380 would actually

01:52:40.300 think a woman 0.67

01:52:41.240 is more

01:52:41.840 attractive than

01:52:42.660 a man is

01:52:43.320 in public

01:52:44.720 I will say

01:52:45.960 I like people

01:52:46.620 judge people

01:52:47.320 watch but I

01:52:48.120 mean like it's

01:52:48.780 not like for

01:52:49.700 an attractiveness

01:52:50.680 reason or you

01:52:52.140 know have you

01:52:52.600 ever been on a

01:52:53.220 dating app

01:52:53.640 what about you

01:52:55.120 yeah I love

01:52:56.820 the differences

01:52:57.460 in humans

01:52:58.340 but as

01:52:59.540 attractive men

01:53:00.760 like one

01:53:01.520 percent

01:53:01.940 one percent

01:53:03.140 yeah like I

01:53:04.500 would say like

01:53:05.060 oh wow

01:53:05.920 it would be like

01:53:06.620 one percent

01:53:06.900 that's more

01:53:07.340 realistic

01:53:07.720 yeah really

01:53:09.080 but yeah this

01:53:10.540 is right yes

01:53:11.220 have you ever

01:53:11.700 been on a

01:53:12.100 dating app

01:53:12.560 for like one

01:53:13.480 week just

01:53:14.000 out of

01:53:15.260 curiosity

01:53:15.520 okay but so

01:53:16.660 you only find

01:53:17.540 one percent of

01:53:18.320 men physically

01:53:18.940 attractive

01:53:19.300 yeah

01:53:19.600 so I want to

01:53:20.700 bring it to

01:53:21.060 home math

01:53:21.540 do you have

01:53:22.220 a draw

01:53:22.800 any art on

01:53:23.880 this I mean

01:53:26.260 like hypergamy 0.65

01:53:28.380 hypergamy maybe 0.98

01:53:29.380 yeah Nick can

01:53:30.140 you go full

01:53:30.480 screen on this

01:53:30.940 really quick

01:53:31.300 wow yeah

01:53:32.260 this old the

01:53:33.140 hypergamy map

01:53:33.960 that I've re

01:53:34.540 redepicted you

01:53:35.880 know over and

01:53:36.500 over again it's

01:53:37.860 just when when

01:53:39.460 women don't know 1.00

01:53:40.160 men when you're

01:53:40.620 walking around the

01:53:41.180 world it's very

01:53:41.740 very few of them

01:53:42.420 that catch your

01:53:42.980 eye can you

01:53:43.760 scoot it up a

01:53:44.360 little bit can

01:53:45.100 you scoot it

01:53:45.540 up maybe center

01:53:47.660 it a little bit

01:53:48.260 if you can

01:53:48.700 or yeah sorry

01:53:51.080 for the technical

01:53:51.700 difficulties I got to

01:53:52.640 get better it's

01:53:53.520 all good

01:53:53.760 better camera

01:53:54.800 equipment there

01:53:55.440 all good

01:53:55.760 but in general

01:53:57.720 you know

01:53:58.320 basically

01:53:59.700 can you scoot

01:54:00.820 it up a little

01:54:01.260 more so we can

01:54:02.000 see the bottom

01:54:02.520 oh there we go

01:54:05.300 we got it

01:54:05.880 tell me when

01:54:06.300 it's tell me

01:54:06.680 when it's good

01:54:07.000 is that good

01:54:07.380 uh no now

01:54:09.440 it's now there's

01:54:10.120 glare

01:54:10.460 oh man

01:54:12.420 um

01:54:13.000 I can

01:54:14.460 that's good

01:54:15.640 that's fine

01:54:18.260 that's okay

01:54:18.860 sorry about that

01:54:19.840 there's like

01:54:20.300 there's a three

01:54:20.740 second delay

01:54:22.120 that's fine

01:54:22.580 that's fine

01:54:22.900 but anyway

01:54:24.660 all of the

01:54:25.640 women are 1.00

01:54:26.000 attracted to

01:54:26.520 a very you

01:54:27.080 know slim

01:54:27.920 section of the

01:54:28.800 men at the

01:54:29.240 top and they

01:54:30.080 end up having

01:54:30.700 like really low

01:54:31.360 quality relationships

01:54:32.360 with them the

01:54:32.920 green lines are the

01:54:33.800 satisfying long-term

01:54:34.680 relationships and the

01:54:35.620 orange and red are the

01:54:36.900 ones where it's like

01:54:37.600 well I would be you

01:54:39.760 know I would date him

01:54:40.760 but he doesn't want to

01:54:41.600 date me and um I

01:54:44.680 mean I think that's

01:54:45.520 what you're asking

01:54:46.100 there is like the

01:54:46.800 the experience of

01:54:47.800 women using dating 0.97

01:54:48.640 apps and walking

01:54:49.240 around in the world

01:54:49.860 it's like just a

01:54:50.540 very small number

01:54:51.520 of the guys at the

01:54:52.180 top who get those

01:54:53.140 kind of looks

01:54:53.700 right and can you

01:54:57.240 explain the let the

01:54:58.200 left side of your

01:54:58.960 chart there the left

01:55:01.140 one is the way that

01:55:02.720 men see women in the 0.99

01:55:04.040 world is that they're

01:55:05.300 very willing to have

01:55:06.340 relationships directly

01:55:07.620 across with women that

01:55:08.560 they have never met

01:55:09.180 before like a male 0.86

01:55:09.860 five walking around

01:55:11.240 like on the subway

01:55:12.140 we'll look at a

01:55:12.840 female five and go oh 1.00

01:55:14.080 maybe she's the girl

01:55:15.280 for me right but a

01:55:16.320 female five does not do 1.00

01:55:17.360 that with a male five 0.95

01:55:18.180 it's they're only

01:55:19.400 going to be looking

01:55:19.940 at the top guys that

01:55:21.800 if they haven't met

01:55:22.700 them and don't know

01:55:23.260 anything about them

01:55:23.880 yet so the dynamics

01:55:25.720 of like you can only

01:55:26.880 know so many men

01:55:28.140 right the dynamics of

01:55:30.120 attraction are heavily

01:55:31.020 weighted towards just

01:55:33.460 the most desirable

01:55:34.140 guys word word and

01:55:36.700 did you have something

01:55:37.420 also like another

01:55:38.360 drawing that's somewhat

01:55:39.440 related to this one

01:55:40.400 but you said that

01:55:41.760 there's a bottom

01:55:42.320 portion of men that

01:55:43.540 are invisible yeah I

01:55:47.000 just sort of keep this

01:55:48.320 thing around it's a

01:55:49.140 little joke that I

01:55:49.940 tell where and this

01:55:51.720 is there's a study that

01:55:53.780 confirms this as well

01:55:55.960 like they they watched

01:55:56.920 women's brains on a 1.00

01:55:58.060 brain scan and they

01:55:59.380 said that with really

01:56:00.400 unattractive men really

01:56:01.600 low value men that they

01:56:03.240 saw them as not even

01:56:04.560 there that they didn't

01:56:05.940 register people in their

01:56:07.920 brains at all so I've

01:56:09.580 had this experience

01:56:10.400 myself I used to drive

01:56:11.500 for Lyft and Uber and

01:56:12.940 you know girls with 1.00

01:56:13.720 really good jobs and

01:56:14.740 getting a lot of male

01:56:15.440 attention would get in the

01:56:16.380 car and they would

01:56:17.320 talk to me like I was

01:56:18.340 they would talk to

01:56:19.080 each other in the

01:56:19.660 backseat like I was

01:56:20.540 not there they would

01:56:21.260 say things that you

01:56:22.040 would not say in front

01:56:23.000 of a stranger gotcha

01:56:24.540 gotcha okay cool and I

01:56:27.020 think this is your

01:56:28.700 cutoff here so any

01:56:30.680 final thoughts and we'd

01:56:32.120 be glad to have you

01:56:32.760 back some other time

01:56:33.660 but any final thoughts

01:56:35.840 is there is there one

01:56:37.380 piece of drawing that

01:56:38.860 you really want to show

01:56:39.860 us I think you know

01:56:42.540 they someone paid to

01:56:44.040 say you know to go

01:56:45.500 watch this video this

01:56:46.800 will show you

01:56:48.020 everything you need to

01:56:48.620 know I've got a 23

01:56:49.480 minute video on this

01:56:51.140 about this on YouTube

01:56:52.000 called zones and it is

01:56:54.060 you know go read the

01:56:55.520 comments everyone says

01:56:56.440 it's been very

01:56:57.220 enlightening for them

01:56:58.140 it's just you know it's

01:57:00.820 a quick look at what

01:57:02.400 men and women value and

01:57:03.700 I'm hoping to use that

01:57:04.660 to sort of fix the

01:57:05.620 problems in the dating

01:57:06.320 world as much as I can

01:57:07.320 rock and roll man well

01:57:08.620 hey thank you for

01:57:09.240 joining us guys go check

01:57:11.380 out home math on YouTube

01:57:12.860 tick-tock and he's got

01:57:16.080 some really funny videos

01:57:17.160 and thank you for

01:57:19.820 joining us this was our

01:57:21.040 first time ever having a

01:57:22.420 video in guest so thank

01:57:25.380 you for being out the

01:57:26.480 technical difficulties

01:57:27.420 next time yeah oh well

01:57:28.420 thank you for being our

01:57:29.120 guinea pig and yeah we'd

01:57:31.380 love to have you back man

01:57:32.220 maybe face reveal next time

01:57:33.780 maybe maybe yeah we'll see

01:57:36.160 we'll see we'll see all

01:57:37.180 all right cool cool well

01:57:39.440 hey thanks for tuning in

01:57:40.280 man we'll catch you later

01:57:41.760 all right see ya all right

01:57:42.920 see ya bye bye all right

01:57:45.060 back to uh yeah uh chat how

01:57:50.200 did you it was there's a

01:57:51.640 little technical

01:57:52.120 difficulties it wasn't

01:57:53.200 perfect but chat did you

01:57:54.280 like the video in maybe we'll

01:57:56.060 try to do this maybe we'll

01:57:57.480 like have someone who like

01:57:58.760 is in Australia or some 0.97

01:58:00.020 shit who uh just it's just 0.98

01:58:02.040 too complicated for them to 0.99

01:58:03.000 make it here we'll have

01:58:03.740 them do a video in sometime

01:58:05.000 um yeah so uh i want to

01:58:09.160 let's see if we're oh hold

01:58:10.580 on uh let me have this one

01:58:13.680 grid one motorsports donated

01:58:15.480 one hundred dollars women 1.00

01:58:17.600 have to qualify as money or

01:58:19.240 hot if a man equals not hot 0.99

01:58:21.540 and have no money at best

01:58:22.880 friend zone the more money

01:58:24.840 you have the less hot you

01:58:25.920 have to be of course women 1.00

01:58:27.820 will keep hot dudes around 1.00

01:58:29.240 for sex but are broke while 0.99

01:58:30.880 using other men for money 0.96

01:58:32.460 word word thank you grid one

01:58:40.660 appreciate it so some of you

01:58:42.120 were very kind and provided

01:58:43.340 some pre-show notes to us so

01:58:44.660 i'm going to try to and

01:58:45.720 there's quite a few so i'm

01:58:46.560 going to try to get through

01:58:47.260 everything um let's see i had

01:58:50.460 a question for you so uh you're

01:58:53.980 married how long have you been

01:58:54.940 married a year is there any

01:58:56.680 reason you don't like on

01:58:57.900 instagram you don't post your

01:58:58.900 husband or uh i mean it's a

01:59:00.420 business account so most

01:59:01.840 businesses don't post family

01:59:03.900 so i just do you have a

01:59:05.080 personal too oh okay gotcha

01:59:07.100 i have a fitness my fitness

01:59:08.960 account that i post most of my

01:59:10.960 like fitness content and then i

01:59:13.540 have my business account that i

01:59:14.940 post you have to do that thing

01:59:15.900 where you like make yourself

01:59:16.980 like brown and you go on stage

01:59:19.020 brown yeah yeah the tan i always

01:59:21.660 find that they're just like so

01:59:22.700 brown yeah almost could get

01:59:24.280 canceled for muscle it's to show

01:59:25.780 muscle definition because the

01:59:27.100 stage has really bright lights

01:59:28.960 that would wash you out so it

01:59:30.120 shows like actual muscle

01:59:31.200 definition nice all right here

01:59:33.200 are my notes here we're going to

01:59:34.340 start with kaden kaden i grew up

01:59:37.380 in a small rural farm village and

01:59:39.520 i was engaged to my high school

01:59:41.220 sweetheart in college he was in

01:59:43.440 the military we dramatically broke

01:59:46.020 up and i started seeing do you

01:59:48.020 want to tell us you started seeing

01:59:49.560 this is what you told us d1

01:59:51.340 athletes trappers sugar daddies

01:59:54.260 etc and now you do only fans lol

01:59:57.100 lol lol um what is a trapper first

02:00:00.460 of all what's that what's a

02:00:01.900 trapper people who sell drugs okay

02:00:04.920 yeah drug dealers yeah did you have

02:00:07.520 a was there uh what's it called

02:00:10.000 uh a totem pole of like because you

02:00:14.600 said d1 athletes trappers sugar

02:00:16.300 daddies what was the it started with

02:00:18.940 the d1 athletes and then i went to

02:00:20.200 the trappers and then i went to the

02:00:21.200 sugar daddies okay back to the 0.97

02:00:22.700 trappers back to the trappers okay

02:00:25.680 how how many trappers did you honestly

02:00:29.120 not like just a handful yeah a couple

02:00:31.760 a couple hunger hound do you want

02:00:33.200 athletes what are we rowing football

02:00:35.180 what are we talking football basketball

02:00:37.800 there was there were some pros in

02:00:40.500 there baseball nfl uh no no wait yeah

02:00:44.500 there there was an nfl there was an

02:00:46.680 mlb yeah a couple nfl guys not couple

02:00:49.400 just one but no it was like college and

02:00:51.380 you said nl uh ml that's major league

02:00:54.620 baseball baseball okay couple mlb or

02:00:57.660 just no just one just okay um not

02:01:00.340 infiltrated the nba and was this like

02:01:02.940 you have not infiltrated the nba it's in

02:01:06.900 the works though right any any of your

02:01:09.360 dms right now man so you said you were

02:01:12.260 engaged high school sweetheart um yeah

02:01:15.040 why did that end he okay so he actually

02:01:18.120 never proposed he bought the ring i tried

02:01:19.840 on the wedding band and we ended up

02:01:21.700 ending it i was 17 um he was my high

02:01:24.580 school sweetheart got me the promise

02:01:26.160 ring when he went off to basic training

02:01:28.740 so i wore that like an engagement ring

02:01:32.480 on my ring finger on my left hand um

02:01:35.340 and then i got to college so that was in

02:01:37.580 our small rural farm village um and then

02:01:40.800 i went to college where my undergrad class

02:01:43.400 was eight times the size of my hometown

02:01:45.120 um so it was kind of like a culture shock

02:01:47.500 more or less like i just realized i was

02:01:49.120 like oh my god this isn't the only man

02:01:51.100 in the world um i'm like actually way

02:01:53.020 more attracted to so many other people

02:01:54.540 and like have way more

02:01:56.700 and just people that i have way more in

02:02:01.920 common with because i was always kind of

02:02:03.380 settling for him like even like i i was

02:02:06.440 settling the whole time what do you mean

02:02:07.720 how were you settling like we didn't

02:02:09.700 like we got along i was fairly attracted

02:02:14.100 to him fairly the sex was not good

02:02:16.640 that's where the attraction sex was it 0.88

02:02:18.400 was not good um why you say why why

02:02:22.120 how i feel like that's been his business

02:02:25.860 out there um it was too quick too small

02:02:29.760 too quick too you know yeah i lots of

02:02:33.820 things yeah i just i didn't find myself

02:02:35.400 pleased um but then like religion we

02:02:37.660 disagreed on and he was in the military

02:02:40.040 and i was like a server and he hated that

02:02:41.920 i made more money than him serving than

02:02:43.880 he did in the military he got very angry

02:02:45.420 about that um making more now he is

02:02:49.280 yeah no i mean actually i don't know

02:02:51.520 he's he's not married to the girl that

02:02:53.240 was just a friend the entire time we

02:02:54.920 were together so oh he cheated on you

02:02:56.360 too yeah for sure um but i didn't know

02:03:00.300 that until way later um yeah so like we

02:03:03.580 just got to the point like i had tried

02:03:04.980 on the wedding band we actually like we

02:03:06.740 broke up before he proposed and then

02:03:09.060 tried to get back together a couple

02:03:10.180 years later no a year later or the next

02:03:13.720 year um and it was just kind of all the

02:03:16.700 same like i was just not satisfied

02:03:19.420 thought i should probably go find

02:03:21.740 something else but like because i want

02:03:23.180 to be a mom and i want to have the house

02:03:25.100 and the kids and everything like i was

02:03:26.780 like okay so i found it so i should just

02:03:28.860 settle and do that but then going to

02:03:31.100 college and meeting tenfold people that

02:03:33.340 i liked so much more than this guy i was

02:03:35.080 like okay was that probably was it

02:03:37.760 cut him free did you like the drug

02:03:39.880 dealers more than your military husband

02:03:41.680 yeah i did fiancee yeah okay wow all

02:03:46.060 right drug dealers are some of them are

02:03:47.700 cool i don't know it's not about the

02:03:49.160 fact it's not about the occupation you

02:03:50.840 know so i was you said you just great

02:03:52.480 on religion was he christian yes and

02:03:54.920 you're atheist i'm agnostic raised in

02:03:57.440 the church you said you dramatically broke

02:03:59.340 up how did you dramatically break up it's

02:04:01.860 because we were like on and off that was

02:04:03.480 the dramatic part of it it wasn't like

02:04:05.260 anything like when we officially broke

02:04:07.740 up and that was it he like called me and

02:04:10.100 he was like are you sleeping with this

02:04:11.700 frat boy that you hang out with and i was

02:04:14.160 like no i'm not and i wasn't like i was

02:04:16.760 not cheating and then he was like stop

02:04:18.540 the cow i was not he didn't ask if i was

02:04:21.680 sleeping with the football players in my

02:04:23.200 dorm so i would have you know maybe told

02:04:25.480 the truth then maybe um but what

02:04:29.980 anyway okay good times good times but

02:04:33.860 yeah so it wasn't like it was just like

02:04:35.780 a dramatic like teary phone call where i

02:04:37.600 was just like yeah i just i'm not

02:04:38.900 feeling it i'm like i'm wait let's here 0.97

02:04:41.080 i'm what's uh here i'm fucking 0.99

02:04:44.760 bartholomew that's your ex-boyfriend's 0.98

02:04:47.380 name all right

02:04:48.440 like uh he was very sad you said you're

02:04:52.720 from a small rural farm village yeah i'm

02:04:55.140 trying to think of like a southern all

02:04:56.960 right what's up babe how you doing no

02:05:00.300 accent but hey hey what's up i'm just 0.56

02:05:03.880 shooting guns

02:05:06.380 because i'm in the military 0.51

02:05:09.080 yeah oh i miss you babe what's up okay

02:05:14.760 so his his best friend who was in the

02:05:17.280 frat are we still right no no we're not

02:05:19.020 role-playing i'm sorry i need this is

02:05:20.380 important this was part of the dramatic

02:05:22.160 part the the best friend said that i was

02:05:24.960 cheating on him with his frat brothers

02:05:27.200 or just assumed he was like you know

02:05:28.920 like karen's doing this like really like 1.00

02:05:30.880 shit that you wouldn't approve of and so 0.99

02:05:32.880 that's when he called me up and that's 1.00

02:05:35.200 when he hey babe what's up wait you went

02:05:37.440 to school with his best friend best friend

02:05:39.920 yes and he saw you doing scandalous 0.99

02:05:43.700 shit at a frat party that he yeah deemed 0.99

02:05:46.860 it to be scandalous no it was like it was 0.99

02:05:48.980 i i went to a semi-formal with one of his

02:05:51.800 frat brothers so i was like a date like i

02:05:54.020 hung out at their frat a lot because

02:05:55.480 like while you were in a relationship

02:05:56.620 with with his best friend so like i hung

02:05:59.040 around kind of scandalous but like they

02:06:01.560 were like watching out for me is how it

02:06:03.320 you know kind of felt like his friends

02:06:05.440 were were there to watch out for me in

02:06:07.400 college you know um so i would like hang

02:06:10.620 around them so i went to their semi-formal

02:06:12.180 you know like as a girl that hangs around

02:06:14.080 with frats like you just find a guy that 0.62

02:06:17.040 will take you 0.79

02:06:17.580 maybe you just find a guy that'll take

02:06:22.660 you it doesn't have to be dramatically

02:06:23.500 what's the dramatic part that was it was

02:06:25.640 just oh that you're doing this and yeah

02:06:28.040 like let's go back to the phone call all

02:06:29.720 right so okay dump me go ahead well but

02:06:32.860 that he he was like do you even want to

02:06:34.940 do this anymore and i was like no not

02:06:38.180 really he was like okay i need you to mail

02:06:40.340 my key back because i lived with him for

02:06:41.960 a summer cold yeah i was tapped out i

02:06:45.360 mentally broke up with him long before

02:06:46.920 we actually broke up good times good

02:06:49.480 so and then question for you how soon

02:06:54.800 and you never did did you cheat on him 0.58

02:06:57.160 or no um yes yes oh okay she's getting

02:07:00.260 that before the how much how much like it

02:07:03.280 was like a couple guys three guys yeah

02:07:06.640 how much three three guys yeah and you

02:07:09.380 went until sex yes question the day that

02:07:13.100 you broke up with him did you have sex

02:07:14.740 with another guy no like like i was not

02:07:17.620 even was there no like when that

02:07:20.100 happened i was i was pretty well behaved

02:07:22.040 at that point it was like yeah the the

02:07:25.820 engagement part like the when the ring

02:07:27.620 was bought that's when i was really

02:07:29.680 quick i don't want to linger on the only

02:07:31.460 fan stuff so long but you you graduated

02:07:33.280 from university right yeah um what what

02:07:35.240 did you study in university um my

02:07:36.860 degrees in organizational psychology and

02:07:38.560 communication is there any reason you

02:07:40.880 didn't like want to pursue a career in

02:07:42.620 that versus oh you did yeah and um i went

02:07:46.780 i worked 80 hours a week and i sat at

02:07:50.700 home worked from home with my little

02:07:52.000 headset 150 cold calls a day i was

02:07:54.440 miserable um i was not active um so i

02:07:58.220 told them like hey like you guys aren't

02:07:59.780 paying me enough to pay my rent so i'm

02:08:01.240 gonna go sell jello shots at the bar down

02:08:02.600 the street made my paycheck in two days i

02:08:05.060 see left i see well in another note you

02:08:08.300 have here you say you love talking about

02:08:10.140 dating and relationships because i feel

02:08:11.840 like i have a lot of insights plus some

02:08:14.840 taboo opinions on monogamy and domestic

02:08:17.040 partnership right in here you have a bs in

02:08:20.840 psychology and communication i feel like

02:08:22.320 it has opened my mind to many forms of

02:08:24.180 non-traditional relationships i don't

02:08:26.800 necessarily have oh wait i don't know

02:08:29.940 like i don't i missed that part yeah um 0.99

02:08:32.100 does a bs stand for bullshit bachelor of 0.99

02:08:36.740 science oh right okay 0.99

02:08:38.580 um so these two college disciplines

02:08:42.160 psychology and communication opened your

02:08:44.820 eyes to non-traditional relationships that

02:08:47.120 like just the classes that i took like

02:08:48.760 communication a lot and then like i took

02:08:50.480 like um a human sexuality course and like i

02:08:54.340 like kind of just dove into like how

02:08:56.280 people interact with each other okay

02:08:58.060 ultimately and but they were they were

02:09:00.880 like pushing non-traditional relationships

02:09:02.880 or like no like i'm like thinking the

02:09:05.140 human sexuality course and in particular it

02:09:07.980 was just educational of like how many

02:09:10.820 dips different types of sexualities and

02:09:13.380 partnerships may exist and what the

02:09:16.260 science is behind some of them and things

02:09:17.940 like that so what are your taboo opinions

02:09:20.080 on monogamy and domestic partnership

02:09:21.640 i don't necessarily think monogamy is a

02:09:27.220 must i don't think it's natural i don't

02:09:29.560 think it's inherent um i very much

02:09:31.800 separate sex from partnership relationship

02:09:35.080 so i don't think that cheating is a be

02:09:39.160 all end all i think like in society there's

02:09:41.220 a lot of weight on infidelity and um i think

02:09:44.640 that you know of course like this i feel like

02:09:47.440 it is taboo i did have a sugar daddy one

02:09:49.800 time that was like you're so fascinating

02:09:51.180 like you're a gorgeous woman that thinks

02:09:52.600 like a man um because i was just like no

02:09:55.880 i think it's unrealistic to think that

02:09:57.680 your partner is never ever going to cheat

02:09:59.980 on you because they said so because

02:10:01.300 everybody cheats it's like i think a

02:10:05.660 large majority of people right because

02:10:07.300 you wrote i think you wrote here my

02:10:08.820 biggest hot take cheating is inevitable

02:10:10.440 and unavoidable 90 of the time yeah and

02:10:13.460 that's okay um take there it is i mean i

02:10:19.060 i disagree i think uh i mean maybe it's

02:10:22.360 the men that you're chasing after that

02:10:23.680 are d1 athletes what was it you make a

02:10:26.840 sugar daddies trappers etc perhaps it's

02:10:29.720 the men that you're pursuing that are

02:10:31.560 more prone to cheating but um i think a

02:10:34.900 lot of women are chasing after 1.00

02:10:36.080 relationships with men that are frankly

02:10:38.440 out of your league not you're not you

02:10:41.540 specifically but kind of going back to

02:10:43.320 that thing a lot of women are chasing 1.00

02:10:44.600 after the top tier of men those men have a

02:10:47.180 sexual abundance they have an abundance

02:10:48.880 of options romantically sexually etc

02:10:50.980 they have no incentive to really

02:10:52.800 commit to one woman so those are the 0.98

02:10:54.600 men who like are gonna just sleep with 0.83

02:10:57.460 a bunch of chicks and they're not they're 1.00

02:10:58.620 gonna cheat on you they're not gonna 1.00

02:10:59.660 commit to you relationship what's that

02:11:01.300 then why are they agreeing to a

02:11:02.600 monogamous relationship because the guy 0.99

02:11:04.000 wants to know that that child is his

02:11:05.800 and not somebody else's so like you

02:11:07.720 think they're just demanding monogamy

02:11:09.060 from the woman right while not being

02:11:11.360 monogamous themselves so i mean there

02:11:13.620 are like if you actually look at like a

02:11:15.780 lot of really successful guys will be

02:11:17.640 married quite young and then they would

02:11:20.080 earn their they would have their success

02:11:21.340 a lot later in life so if you look at

02:11:22.780 the statistics a lot of the time it

02:11:24.480 doesn't really it's not really borne out

02:11:25.620 by the statistics but then again you

02:11:27.740 don't really know what they do on the

02:11:28.760 side but if you get guys who are young

02:11:30.300 and successful i mean like in their 30s

02:11:32.240 a lot of the time they would you know be

02:11:34.600 rubbing shoulders with certain crowds

02:11:36.280 and they would have they would have sort

02:11:37.660 of clawed their way to the top early and

02:11:39.280 then they wouldn't really want to be

02:11:40.440 wanting to settle down

02:11:41.360 but yeah yeah yeah a lot of guys who

02:11:44.760 have become very wealthy are already

02:11:46.380 married already have kids and yeah 0.99

02:11:48.780 right so your taboo opinion was that

02:11:51.280 you don't think monogamy is the natural

02:11:54.320 order of things yeah more or less i think

02:11:57.640 that sex can be separate from like sex is

02:12:01.200 if your partner cheats that doesn't mean

02:12:03.180 they hate you that doesn't mean that

02:12:04.820 they're bad to you that doesn't mean that

02:12:06.480 you have a terrible relationship and

02:12:07.900 shouldn't be together that's my hot take

02:12:10.100 like oh right because i see what you

02:12:12.080 yeah you also wrote staying with

02:12:13.440 someone who has cheated does not make

02:12:15.120 you weak it does not mean your 0.89

02:12:16.840 relationship is trash um i have some 0.98

02:12:19.600 notes i have some thoughts on that but 0.99

02:12:20.860 who here agrees with her does anybody

02:12:23.980 agree with with that nuanced opinion on

02:12:26.180 it but you can go first yeah i'll go

02:12:27.600 first i agree i just there yeah i don't

02:12:30.620 know if you just want to handle more of

02:12:32.260 just a yes or no if you kind of agree

02:12:33.980 that i agree okay um my take is is

02:12:38.520 that um so you said that it does not

02:12:42.880 mean your relationship is trash your

02:12:45.940 relationship may not necessarily be 1.00

02:12:48.020 trash but i would argue your partner is 0.75

02:12:49.720 if they cheat on you um now maybe i don't 0.99

02:12:54.860 know if women have a different view on 1.00

02:12:56.020 this than me my advice to men if your

02:12:57.920 girl cheats on you that's a wrap the 1.00

02:13:00.180 relationship is over you're a dead man 0.99

02:13:02.300 walking if you have any dignity you walk 0.61

02:13:04.940 and you never look back so so maybe that

02:13:08.780 applies to you but i certainly wouldn't

02:13:10.660 advise men to ever stay with a girl who 0.93

02:13:12.740 cheats on them it's over it's done and i

02:13:15.560 know i actually do i like as a woman i

02:13:19.200 feel like it's not that hard not to

02:13:21.440 cheat but i think that men cheat far more

02:13:24.000 often because they just feel a need to

02:13:26.020 disagree okay women have more options 1.00

02:13:28.940 to cheat women have more ability to 1.00

02:13:31.360 cheat i guess physically women cheat 1.00

02:13:33.400 more but men emotionally they can't hide

02:13:35.720 it or by watching right um yeah fair but

02:13:39.880 also i think what you're saying is true

02:13:41.620 in the sense of like if you look at it

02:13:43.460 biologically and like anthropologically

02:13:45.140 it's it's proven that like you know human

02:13:47.600 beings aren't necessarily meant to be

02:13:49.080 monogamous but if you look at the most

02:13:51.860 healthy societies they're all nuclear

02:13:54.100 family societies and then as soon as the

02:13:56.420 nuclear family starts to deteriorate

02:13:58.680 society starts to deteriorate so if we

02:14:01.660 had it our way we could all be running

02:14:03.080 around and being non-monogamous in these

02:14:05.300 little you know beach in thailand like

02:14:07.380 little uh like hippie-dippie relationships

02:14:09.180 but if we want to have healthy societies

02:14:12.480 it's a man and a woman in a relationship

02:14:15.420 with children raising those children in a

02:14:18.160 two-parent household and they're not

02:14:19.280 right okay yes and you can have that i

02:14:21.800 was raised in that family and there can

02:14:23.440 still be infidelity though

02:14:24.420 yeah there can be and i actually it's

02:14:27.300 actually probably a lot more common than

02:14:28.540 people think a lot of the time when

02:14:30.160 people aren't like like they fall out of

02:14:31.880 love when they get a bit older 40s and

02:14:33.360 50s and everything um the and i'm from

02:14:36.400 an italian background and this is very

02:14:38.060 common with italians yeah is that the

02:14:40.180 woman has an attitude of just sort of 1.00

02:14:41.720 turn a blind eye

02:14:42.400 yeah and this is it's very common then

02:14:44.760 the guy will go out and sort of do do

02:14:46.660 what he needs to do as long as he

02:14:47.720 doesn't bring anything home as long

02:14:49.040 as long as he doesn't impregnate

02:14:49.840 anybody right

02:14:50.480 timey shelby

02:14:51.320 yo grid one thank you man

02:14:53.320 very funny the girl who has not had a

02:14:57.120 successful relationship thinks it's

02:14:59.200 normal for cheating to occur

02:15:00.820 i do not know man in my circle that

02:15:03.180 would even consider maintaining a

02:15:04.900 relationship with a cheater

02:15:06.320 nothing you have said is healthy make

02:15:08.960 better choices

02:15:09.920 heard

02:15:11.100 don't you think that there's something

02:15:13.020 deeper going on if one or the other

02:15:15.920 cheats like isn't that well that

02:15:17.800 there's a problem so i like foster

02:15:19.740 open communication in my relationships

02:15:22.100 i say straightforward if you cheat on me

02:15:24.560 please just tell me like let me know

02:15:26.560 like it's a safety thing you know like

02:15:28.020 sexual health is so important like i

02:15:30.320 just want to know and then i would love

02:15:32.560 to dig deeper into why because if you

02:15:35.860 are cheating on me because you don't 0.55

02:15:37.280 respect me because you are not

02:15:38.600 attracted to me because you know you're

02:15:41.480 not you're not happy in our

02:15:42.640 relationship that's so different than

02:15:44.440 i was just attracted to that person

02:15:46.940 and i had that had nothing to do with

02:15:48.540 you so

02:15:48.980 but why would you stay like why would

02:15:51.020 you continue to be with somebody who

02:15:52.820 doesn't value you or want to

02:15:54.660 doesn't necessarily mean i don't value

02:15:56.540 value her

02:15:57.460 it's just for a guy

02:15:58.440 it just has nothing to do with me

02:15:59.700 this is not my values personally but

02:16:01.420 a lot of the time for a guy just 0.57

02:16:02.740 having sex on the side with a girl 0.79

02:16:04.120 isn't necessarily if there's an

02:16:05.360 emotional connection and if he gives

02:16:07.060 her resources and he gives her his

02:16:08.640 time and like then then that's

02:16:10.760 but i mean he is giving her his time 0.99

02:16:13.700 because he's having sex with her but 0.92

02:16:15.220 that's where she she comes into play 0.94

02:16:17.040 in fostering open communication is it

02:16:19.280 did you do it because you were just

02:16:21.020 sexually attracted to that person and

02:16:22.680 you were able to disconnect the

02:16:23.840 emotions and you don't want to be with

02:16:25.280 that person but you were just

02:16:26.340 sexually attracted to engage in a

02:16:28.440 sexual act with them or is it because 0.87

02:16:30.380 you fell out of love with me you have 0.70

02:16:32.440 no respect for me and now you just

02:16:34.420 don't want to be with me if they say

02:16:35.960 yes to that then absolutely you're out

02:16:37.600 out the door but if it's you just

02:16:39.240 have a sexual attraction to them and

02:16:40.760 you just wanted to experience and

02:16:42.700 experience with them with no emotion

02:16:44.600 attached then that's different it's

02:16:46.560 not a disrespect to you because it's

02:16:49.140 not like polyamory

02:16:50.380 it isn't you know

02:16:51.420 because why aren't you enough

02:16:53.740 why do they need to go and see

02:16:55.980 somebody else and be with somebody

02:16:57.600 else

02:16:57.980 when you're supposed to be that core

02:17:01.580 piece of or that partner that's the

02:17:03.800 thought of monogamy is the one and

02:17:05.500 only way yeah you've also got a good

02:17:07.500 good point in the sense that you you

02:17:09.380 believe in in monogamy in that sense

02:17:11.900 but I think it's just like what you

02:17:13.200 said before it's all about

02:17:14.060 communication you want to lay down

02:17:15.640 those boundaries at the start and you

02:17:17.020 want to say cheating is absolutely not

02:17:18.680 on and then if a guy comes to you it

02:17:20.940 sounds like with your value structure

02:17:22.340 and he says you know I've got a few

02:17:25.400 things happening I'm traveling a lot

02:17:26.860 and you know if something happens I

02:17:28.300 won't tell you about it and you say

02:17:29.820 cool don't tell me about it that's

02:17:31.440 your value structure a lot of the time

02:17:33.300 when people are trying to keep

02:17:34.180 families together in particular

02:17:35.340 they'll have a little handshake

02:17:36.980 agreement on the side like don't

02:17:38.320 it's better than it's better than

02:17:39.340 breaking the family up that's what

02:17:40.840 I'm like why is that okay why is

02:17:43.020 that something that we just accept

02:17:45.240 and move on from instead of you know

02:17:48.180 because it's two grown adults making

02:17:50.860 a mutual agreement if that like and

02:17:53.760 that's the point where you pick

02:17:55.060 someone who has morals and values

02:17:56.680 that align with yours so you would be

02:17:58.380 with someone who doesn't view or

02:18:00.020 doesn't have that thought process

02:18:01.480 who's to say it's not going to

02:18:03.780 happen again right but there's a

02:18:05.280 difference I would say there's a

02:18:06.560 difference between someone cheating

02:18:08.280 because they're falling out of love

02:18:09.580 or in a mutual agreement between two

02:18:11.780 people that understand like I know

02:18:13.720 that you and I have an emotional

02:18:15.620 connection we have a bigger picture

02:18:17.600 in life goals aspirations things that

02:18:20.040 we want to achieve together but you're

02:18:22.200 able to have a sexual attraction to

02:18:23.800 somebody else but that's what I'm

02:18:25.400 saying if there's a mutual agreement

02:18:26.280 it's not cheating like if it's talked

02:18:28.220 about before right like obviously we

02:18:30.100 want to build a future together but if

02:18:31.820 you have a sexual attraction to someone

02:18:33.620 if you're asking for permission to go

02:18:36.340 and engage and you guys would be

02:18:38.020 annoyed if he lied about it you guys

02:18:40.560 would be annoyed that he was too much 1.00

02:18:44.140 of a pussy to tell you as well so you 1.00

02:18:46.520 lose a bit of respect for him at the 1.00

02:18:47.600 same time what were you saying I think

02:18:49.560 it's never okay to cheat but also it's

02:18:51.600 forgiveness if you can forgive that

02:18:53.280 saying okay I forgive you and let's

02:18:55.380 work hard let's fix what was ruined or

02:18:58.000 why you went to that woman or guy this

02:19:01.360 is the main part to forgive if you can

02:19:03.400 forgive if you can't then let's

02:19:04.940 separate even though it's horrible let's

02:19:07.140 separate and I think you have to

02:19:08.520 establish that everyone in different

02:19:10.220 levels at the start of the relationship

02:19:11.820 you kind of have to establish those

02:19:13.020 boundaries like if you cheat on me

02:19:15.160 it's done if I had like a long-term

02:19:17.700 relationship but obviously it would go 0.57

02:19:19.660 without saying I would have to tell her

02:19:21.860 though that if you cheat on me it's

02:19:23.300 just there's just no coming back from

02:19:24.980 that whatsoever but you know everyone's

02:19:27.600 different in that sense yeah and it

02:19:29.280 sounds like to you that would be

02:19:30.640 something that you'd have to

02:19:31.360 establish from the dot from the jump

02:19:33.260 it depends on right yeah I don't

02:19:35.540 know if you want to be established I

02:19:37.740 feel like it should just be a given

02:19:38.860 don't cheat on me don't go sleep with

02:19:41.640 other women if I'm trying to have a 1.00

02:19:43.100 relationship with you not you and 1.00

02:19:46.700 whoever else you want to have sex with 0.98

02:19:48.360 and that should be never the first

02:19:49.520 option sorry to cheat on it would be

02:19:51.700 the first let's go let's talk let's

02:19:54.320 ask for let's ask for someone for to

02:19:57.000 help and it's the last it's not even

02:19:59.440 an option to cheat first let's

02:20:01.180 communicate let's sit down yeah yeah

02:20:03.760 no absolutely I agree but that's where

02:20:05.940 the if you commit to a monogamous

02:20:08.400 relationship that's where the cheating

02:20:10.640 aspect is but if you communicate prior

02:20:12.760 and agree to a non-monogamous

02:20:14.560 relationship then cheating isn't

02:20:16.580 occurring because it's been discussed

02:20:17.860 relationship it's it'll pretty much

02:20:21.220 never work if the if it's open on the

02:20:23.560 girls side but if you bring I think it

02:20:25.420 can work if you bring girls into the 1.00

02:20:27.060 relationship you bring a guy into the

02:20:28.600 relationship your your husband's 0.90

02:20:30.120 automatically a cuck it's not gonna work 0.90

02:20:31.920 ever based yeah have you ever been in

02:20:35.820 the open relationship no not like a

02:20:38.600 polyamorous relationship no okay I see

02:20:41.100 okay let's see what other we have a

02:20:43.720 couple more from you even as an adult

02:20:47.600 content creator I believe healthy

02:20:50.660 relationships are achievable if you

02:20:52.280 find someone who's emotionally mature

02:20:55.040 enough yeah so you're saying that men

02:20:58.480 who would not date a woman who does 0.99

02:21:00.560 OnlyFans for example are they they're

02:21:02.880 immature no I wouldn't say that are they 1.00

02:21:05.500 emotionally immature no I wouldn't say

02:21:08.060 that either that I mean like you can be

02:21:09.500 emotionally mature and still prefer

02:21:11.020 someone who doesn't do OnlyFans what do

02:21:13.400 you guys think that's just do you think

02:21:14.500 like a matter of knowing do you think

02:21:15.780 men who wouldn't who wouldn't feel

02:21:18.200 comfortable or wouldn't want to date a

02:21:19.620 girl who does OnlyFans do you think 1.00

02:21:20.980 they're insecure or immature in some way

02:21:23.980 or just maybe sometimes but I don't

02:21:26.320 think inherently okay sometimes they are

02:21:29.240 though yeah for sure okay okay I would

02:21:33.820 agree all right okay last thing from you

02:21:37.400 we have a tick-tock of yours to react to

02:21:39.560 what yeah I post like twice a year

02:21:44.240 there is a tick-tock tab pulled up oh my

02:21:51.200 god what have I posted oh full screen

02:21:54.220 full screen before you go over my mom's

02:21:57.420 proud of me by the way let me preface

02:22:00.380 absolutely love me yeah okay is there if

02:22:05.160 there's music playing just pause or

02:22:07.400 maybe is there music on this one it's

02:22:09.640 like the voiceover okay just play it I

02:22:11.840 think it's fine go ahead Nick I don't

02:22:14.560 have goals I don't have ambition I only

02:22:17.880 want to be attractive I only want to look 1.00

02:22:20.380 good I just want to be sexy fuck 0.99

02:22:22.580 everything else nothing else matters I 0.99

02:22:24.860 just want to be pretty I don't care I 0.99

02:22:27.120 don't care about shit do a replay Nick on 0.97

02:22:31.060 it replay I just and pause it and then 0.99

02:22:33.060 pause it I don't have so you say me

02:22:36.020 explaining to my parents that I just 1.00

02:22:37.780 want to bartend and live my stupid 1.00

02:22:40.080 little life until I get married and 1.00

02:22:42.240 become a stay-at-home mom yeah is that

02:22:44.700 kind of is that what you're going for

02:22:47.300 yeah I feel like I yeah said that like I

02:22:49.380 just want to be a mom I want to I want

02:22:50.960 to pour my entire life into my kids but

02:22:53.700 I mean do you think that a guy who is

02:22:55.660 able to support a family on one income

02:22:57.740 is going to want to marry a girl who 1.00

02:23:01.280 spent her best years bartending and

02:23:04.000 doing nightlife and living her best

02:23:05.700 life and partying yes 100% you think so 0.99

02:23:08.660 yes yeah I'm in that situation shit for 0.97

02:23:14.660 a reason he you know that's we want the 0.98

02:23:17.180 same thing ultimately and he what do you

02:23:19.180 would make me a stay-at-home mom if you

02:23:20.680 could lay it out on the table for us some

02:23:23.040 of the things that you look for in a man

02:23:24.420 and when you when you think about who's

02:23:25.900 going to be the one who gives you his

02:23:27.940 scene you become a mother sorry to put 0.85

02:23:30.740 it over so vulgarly like what's lay out

02:23:34.600 for me some of the things that you like

02:23:36.060 that are essentially a man it is person

02:23:38.060 by person I don't like I don't have a

02:23:39.920 type I don't have like okay let me do

02:23:42.300 it for you then does he have to earn over

02:23:44.820 60k per year I he for me to get what I

02:23:50.220 ultimately want they would have to be

02:23:52.320 able to provide an entire household worth

02:23:54.840 of income so you're you work yeah cool

02:23:58.020 so that let's say that's probably like

02:23:59.340 120k right yeah yeah yeah does he have

02:24:02.820 to be in shape can he be fat I could be

02:24:05.900 fluffy fluffy or can he be can he be fat

02:24:08.800 like I'm no does he have to because you've

02:24:11.700 been you've been rocking with those

02:24:13.020 football players and stuff that the bar's

02:24:14.700 high can he can he does he have to be in

02:24:16.660 good shape no does not have to be in

02:24:18.260 good shape okay cool can he can he be

02:24:20.200 married well no I was gonna say 0.90

02:24:25.200 previously currently oh you think there

02:24:27.160 aren't girls out there who are getting 1.00

02:24:28.620 looked after no definitely I know I would

02:24:30.920 not like to be a third can't be married 0.98

02:24:32.440 no yeah okay how what's the age range

02:24:35.240 what's the what's the maximum and minimum

02:24:36.760 um oh gosh minimum like probably like 27

02:24:43.520 um maximum for me as a 24 year old

02:24:47.600 probably oh gosh like 35 because I want

02:24:54.540 them to raise the kids with me I want

02:24:56.440 them you know it has to be kind of close

02:24:58.820 what does he have to be tall over six

02:25:00.160 foot no no no because can he be like I

02:25:03.180 would prefer okay in like um a

02:25:05.820 reproduction standpoint I would like him

02:25:07.320 to be tall and handsome and you know not

02:25:10.760 not necessarily fit all right so we want

02:25:12.580 a tall handsome guy who's under 35 years

02:25:15.840 old yeah um and who makes over 150k a

02:25:19.720 year and can support you financially yeah

02:25:21.560 we're looking at a uh pretty rare

02:25:24.320 specimen here yeah yeah fair enough and

02:25:26.980 here I am with no successful

02:25:28.180 relationships as was no no I'm not I'm

02:25:30.760 not trying to like highlight it to you

02:25:32.720 too much but like yeah it's just that

02:25:34.540 the expectation versus reality and this

02:25:36.740 is where I think that like a lot of

02:25:37.900 girls don't think about this sort of 1.00

02:25:39.220 stuff when you make certain decisions

02:25:40.880 and when you think about what you really

02:25:42.080 want in life because if what you really

02:25:43.680 want in life is to be a mother then and 0.51

02:25:46.840 if that's the expectation you have for a

02:25:48.540 guy and some of the guys that you've

02:25:49.920 been with being high level athletes and

02:25:52.040 everything that sets the bar high for

02:25:54.000 you because next time when you're with

02:25:56.080 Kevin from IT and you're thinking about

02:25:58.520 hey I'm just saying yeah but that's like

02:26:03.680 that's where sex and partnership is 0.99

02:26:06.440 different to me because yeah I was 0.91

02:26:08.160 having sex with those high tier people

02:26:10.280 you know they're just never I've just 0.98

02:26:12.080 described you as another high tier

02:26:13.460 person well yeah okay but I mean like

02:26:16.060 the people that you say my partner

02:26:17.780 would compare themselves to

02:26:19.060 Jermichael the quarterback yeah like that 0.94

02:26:22.640 that was sex I would never date the 0.78

02:26:24.940 football players that I was sleeping with

02:26:26.440 so there's a thing called being alpha

02:26:28.160 widowed I think it's shoutouts roller

02:26:29.640 Tomasi for that one and what it means

02:26:31.520 is that once a girl has had a certain

02:26:34.240 standard of man whether it be sexual

02:26:35.820 partner or a relationship it's burned

02:26:38.340 into her brain so when Kevin from IT is 1.00

02:26:41.000 like having boring missionary sex with 1.00

02:26:42.840 you you're thinking about Jermichael who 1.00

02:26:45.300 had your face in the pillow right and

02:26:47.080 yeah so that's burned into your brain

02:26:48.780 like subconsciously I would never allow

02:26:51.380 myself to be with someone that doesn't

02:26:52.800 mean no it's just gonna spell disaster

02:26:54.800 for your future relationship and you're

02:26:56.680 gonna resent him for that and this is

02:26:58.540 why when I say like this ties back to

02:27:00.480 us not wanting girls to travel and stuff 0.99

02:27:02.120 so much is because when you have those

02:27:03.940 certain life experiences that you guys

02:27:05.840 call it then it affects your

02:27:08.080 relationships down the line you might

02:27:09.520 say oh but I want it why can't I have

02:27:10.960 those relate those life experiences you

02:27:12.940 have there's there's trade-offs in life

02:27:14.780 that you have to make and some of those

02:27:16.280 trade-offs is Jermichael the quarterback

02:27:18.280 I think it's also like a sense of

02:27:21.320 awareness too right I think nowadays

02:27:23.520 people are a little bit more superficial

02:27:25.300 a little bit less self-aware and so if

02:27:27.980 we describe that man who makes six

02:27:30.100 figures and is six foot tall and you

02:27:32.200 know all that you have to be a partner

02:27:34.760 that that person wants right and if you

02:27:37.520 lack the self-awareness to realize like

02:27:39.400 what are you bringing to the table

02:27:40.840 that's going to attract and keep that

02:27:42.600 partner that's where I think a lot of

02:27:44.740 people will kind of shoot themselves in

02:27:46.600 the foot so to speak dating wise because

02:27:48.100 they don't recognize what the opposite sex 1.00

02:27:50.480 really wants yeah well to kind of add on

02:27:54.820 to your thing with the whole alpha

02:27:55.940 widow thing I think that where women 1.00

02:27:58.520 typically get into trouble is once you've

02:28:02.020 been with and that could be sexually or

02:28:04.040 could even if you're able to secure a

02:28:05.980 relationship typically it's not going to

02:28:08.240 be a long-term committed relationship but

02:28:10.300 maybe you'll be able to snag a guy for

02:28:12.880 friends with benefits or something once

02:28:14.780 you've been with a certain tier of guy

02:28:16.660 certainly sexually you're going to kind

02:28:19.100 of compare all your your future

02:28:21.280 partners to that guy and it could it

02:28:24.100 might be just sexually it could also 0.55

02:28:25.720 just be if he's a certain level of

02:28:29.100 physical attractiveness maybe his status

02:28:31.100 maybe it's his personality it could be

02:28:33.440 any metric once you've been with a

02:28:35.640 certain tier of guy it's really hard to

02:28:38.980 start to go and date a normal guy

02:28:42.620 because here's the thing when it comes 0.99

02:28:44.040 to securing sex women can secure sex with 1.00

02:28:47.460 men that are out of their league like that 0.99

02:28:49.740 easy very easily and that's where women 1.00

02:28:52.260 will get in trouble because you will

02:28:53.560 think though if I'm able to sleep with

02:28:55.540 this man that's the kind of guy that I

02:28:57.540 deserve for a relationship but men will 0.92

02:28:59.220 sleep with women that they have 1.00

02:29:00.540 absolutely zero intention of ever being

02:29:02.880 in a relationship with so women will 1.00

02:29:04.900 hook up with like really hot dudes

02:29:06.980 thinking that's who I deserve for a

02:29:09.300 relationship you'll never get commitment

02:29:11.100 from that tier of guy you're going to

02:29:13.260 start looking at the guys who are

02:29:14.700 actually on your level who are your

02:29:16.980 looks equivalents socioeconomic

02:29:18.960 equivalents etc you will start viewing

02:29:21.220 them as settling or even below you

02:29:24.140 you're not going to be satisfied in the

02:29:25.740 relationship you're going to be

02:29:27.240 resentful and the big difference I would

02:29:29.880 say what you disagree hold on let me

02:29:32.160 let me finish my point and then you can

02:29:33.540 come in so typically I think for for a

02:29:39.820 girl to sleep with a guy he typically has 1.00

02:29:42.520 to at least be physically attractive

02:29:44.240 enough for her to be in a relationship 0.97

02:29:46.500 with him the the reverse isn't really

02:29:49.520 the case though men will sleep with 0.89

02:29:50.740 women of a physical attractiveness 1.00

02:29:53.780 level that they would never be in a

02:29:55.540 relationship with but for a girl as long

02:29:58.140 like for you to sleep with him

02:29:59.900 typically you you'll make exceptions for

02:30:02.520 example let's say you don't do one

02:30:03.620 night stands you might do one night

02:30:05.040 stand with a guy who's really really 0.93

02:30:06.480 fucking attractive whereas whereas men 0.98

02:30:09.080 will do the reverse we'll have a one 1.00

02:30:10.980 night stand with a girl who's that's

02:30:14.280 much less so it's kind of this

02:30:16.200 reversal we have to you know yeah so

02:30:18.980 you had something just a small tidbit but

02:30:22.360 to me it almost feels like settling to

02:30:25.840 want your partner to have never

02:30:27.840 experienced anything out of fear of

02:30:30.300 not being adequate enough to meet their

02:30:33.880 experiences well it's a soup I think

02:30:35.860 it's a super valid concern for men 1.00

02:30:37.860 because as an as a normal dude like

02:30:41.260 the amount of sexual opportunity that 0.99

02:30:45.360 women get is fucking insane like an 1.00

02:30:48.400 average girl has the equivalent sexual 1.00

02:30:50.560 optionality the equivalent sexual pull

02:30:52.680 as a male celebrity talking a

02:30:55.280 professional athlete music rock star

02:30:58.140 musician etc any single girl here at

02:31:00.300 this table if you were so inclined could 1.00

02:31:02.820 fuck multiple new guys a day that is 1.00

02:31:05.280 that equivalent in men is reserved for 1.00

02:31:07.680 the top tier less than one percent of

02:31:09.740 men less than one percent of men can do

02:31:11.780 that whereas more than 50 percent of

02:31:13.660 women could do that I'm not it's not I 1.00

02:31:16.000 don't think that's what women 1.00

02:31:16.980 necessarily want but the the reality is 0.99

02:31:19.460 is that like Drake is fucking regular 1.00

02:31:22.520 chicks he can he'll fuck a girl who has 1.00

02:31:26.400 a hundred or excuse me who has a thousand 1.00

02:31:28.220 followers on Instagram who's relatively

02:31:30.640 attractive the reverse really isn't

02:31:32.880 happening like you don't have high

02:31:34.120 status super and I mean there's a

02:31:35.960 differential here because men or men

02:31:37.800 aren't really drawn to women with

02:31:39.640 status but but you'll have women who 1.00

02:31:42.800 will move in circles with like hyper

02:31:44.780 successful men really attractive men but

02:31:47.460 you're never gonna lock those those men

02:31:49.320 down for commitment so then you it's like

02:31:52.840 once you get with a top G you're gonna

02:31:56.080 look at the average dude you may be an 0.99

02:31:58.140 average chick you manage to fuck a top G 1.00

02:32:00.460 once whatever you're gonna look at the 0.99

02:32:02.800 average dude and be like yeah yeah and

02:32:05.300 the laundry list just grows longer and

02:32:06.980 longer as well go ahead go ahead I just

02:32:09.040 don't agree I think that's fine like

02:32:10.640 yeah I think like it's really focused

02:32:13.560 around sex at least the way you're 0.68

02:32:15.000 putting it not even I mean it could also 0.98

02:32:17.440 just be like what if you're fucking with 0.97

02:32:19.680 a celebrity he might be flying you out he 0.99

02:32:21.680 might be you might go to as a million 0.92

02:32:24.520 dollar house apartment yeah it's like sex

02:32:26.740 money is like always the talking points

02:32:28.460 you hear from this like man versus woman

02:32:30.060 thing like there's so much more okay

02:32:31.480 status sure let's talk status too no it's

02:32:33.840 not status like what do you offer outside

02:32:36.460 of like just like money and looks and all

02:32:40.160 this stuff like who are we like that's

02:32:42.120 what I think like about like all this

02:32:43.140 cheating stuff it's like oh they might

02:32:44.760 find like a sexier woman than me it's 1.00

02:32:47.360 like but like I'm me and so like I

02:32:49.940 wouldn't want to be with someone that

02:32:51.140 wouldn't want to be with me so if you're 1.00

02:32:53.180 like willing to hurt me to like fuck 1.00

02:32:56.040 someone else then like I'm not this 1.00

02:32:57.500 wasn't working anyway but what what so

02:32:59.780 what specifically did I say though that

02:33:01.620 you disagree with I disagree with like

02:33:03.820 I feel like a lot of the points you're

02:33:05.440 making right now like revolve so much

02:33:07.440 around like status money like looks and

02:33:10.740 I feel like there's much more about

02:33:12.260 people I mean you are so interested

02:33:19.800 personality oh thank you I wish you could

02:33:23.640 go from where you are to a better place

02:33:26.000 I feel like you and I have similar values

02:33:28.220 you look deeper into people and you value

02:33:31.980 more than but like this talk is fine

02:33:36.900 everything but at the end of the day

02:33:37.900 it's a dating podcast and we look at it

02:33:40.920 from a practical perspective so the

02:33:43.160 reason why it's like a social

02:33:45.220 experiment it's a social experiment

02:33:47.440 that Brian's been running if I can say

02:33:49.340 so where we have a where where we have

02:33:52.640 a practical conversation about the

02:33:54.920 actual facts about dating and this is

02:33:57.040 the thing that why a lot of men watch 0.96

02:33:59.060 podcasts like this is because they're

02:34:00.800 looking for practical advice and

02:34:02.400 practical advice is not yeah but you'll

02:34:04.760 find your person one day because we

02:34:06.480 can't we can't live in fantasy world

02:34:08.000 like that it's not no no hold on a

02:34:09.440 second if I go through my life and my

02:34:12.060 20s and I say I don't want to work I

02:34:14.660 just want to sort of go around and just

02:34:17.000 play games and smoke weed and I'll find

02:34:19.300 my person my person I can't do that

02:34:21.740 because in the real world in the

02:34:23.060 practical reality that will be so

02:34:25.880 glaringly obvious to me that I have no

02:34:27.600 options with women and I've been in

02:34:28.960 that position before and you can't

02:34:30.800 avoid that but unfortunately girls and 1.00

02:34:33.020 guys communicate a bit differently if

02:34:34.600 Brian started doing that tomorrow I'd 0.99

02:34:35.900 like Brian sort your shit out like why 0.98

02:34:38.200 aren't you working anymore girls will 1.00

02:34:39.780 say to each other yeah you go girl you

02:34:42.400 do your thing you go and you know just

02:34:44.500 be happy in you and love and hippy

02:34:47.060 dippy stuff and unfortunately when you

02:34:49.020 guys get confronted with reality

02:34:50.600 sometimes it's a little bit harder to

02:34:52.320 swallow can I just say the based

02:34:54.280 Christian conservative wanted to say

02:34:55.480 something yeah I just think that like

02:34:57.780 so the reason why I'm a virgin is

02:35:00.380 because I feel like I don't want to

02:35:02.640 compare somebody I don't want to

02:35:03.780 compare my husband to somebody else

02:35:06.120 like sex wise like I don't want to

02:35:08.380 see that image in them so like seeing

02:35:10.840 that like the whole cheating thing

02:35:12.820 like if I'm with a virgin I don't have

02:35:14.440 to worry about that I don't have to

02:35:15.740 worry about cheating because they're

02:35:17.560 not comparing me comparing the way that

02:35:19.240 we have sex to somebody else and I 0.99

02:35:21.820 think that's just a very common thing 0.99

02:35:23.300 now is just sex sex sex marriage sex is 0.94

02:35:26.200 like two percent in marriage you got to 0.98

02:35:28.540 worry about personality the way person

02:35:30.020 based Chad one thousand nine hundred and

02:35:34.460 sixty nine donated one hundred dollars

02:35:36.980 this chick thinking she is gonna land a 1.00

02:35:39.520 unicorn with what she has to offer not

02:35:42.020 sure how she can ask slash expect so

02:35:44.380 much when what is she offering other

02:35:46.300 than a lot of sexual experience I've got

02:35:49.360 some oceanfront property in Iowa to sell

02:35:51.920 her it might be that's the thing like so 1.00

02:35:55.600 focused on sex you don't know anything 0.94

02:35:57.000 about me what I offer the thing is sex 0.99

02:35:59.380 sex sex males you have to we're looking 0.97

02:36:01.920 at this from a practical perspective and

02:36:03.760 this is something that's very important

02:36:04.960 to men and I don't know you think you can

02:36:06.600 do whatever you want whenever you want

02:36:07.940 all the time but men we actually look at

02:36:10.240 these things and we value them so you

02:36:12.120 might not value it but if you ever want

02:36:14.080 to have a long-term relationship that's

02:36:15.600 meaningful and if you want a man that's

02:36:17.200 worth if you want a man that's worth his

02:36:18.700 salt to look twice at you you have to take

02:36:21.240 these things in mind here's the thing

02:36:22.820 OnlyFans has only been around for what

02:36:24.740 maybe five years we have no idea what

02:36:27.940 the repercussions are going to be later

02:36:30.120 on in life I know you have this thought

02:36:32.640 that you're going to potentially find

02:36:34.040 somebody that can make you happy or

02:36:35.340 whatever but in reality you don't know

02:36:37.860 what the future holds and you don't know

02:36:39.980 what your children are going to think or

02:36:41.420 what your family is going to think or

02:36:42.960 anything and and that's the thing like

02:36:45.500 like there's literally no case studies on

02:36:48.340 if people that are doing OnlyFans

02:36:50.660 consistently that don't have a partner

02:36:52.540 that it can ever find a partner or find

02:36:54.660 I mean I think the the I mean it's it's 0.98

02:36:57.400 it's oh shit what's that sorry guys I 0.93

02:37:01.260 lost my train of thought I mean it's it's 0.99

02:37:03.160 self-evident men don't want to date 0.98

02:37:06.600 women who are whores yeah but just 1.00

02:37:10.640 because you have an OnlyFans doesn't mean 1.00

02:37:12.360 you're a whore I mean you are I'm sorry 1.00

02:37:14.680 because there are people okay don't show 1.00

02:37:16.420 everything here let me let me revise let

02:37:18.300 me hold on let me just revise my statement

02:37:20.300 then it's since you you don't find my

02:37:22.200 statements satisfactory men don't want to

02:37:25.940 date sex workers okay that's generally

02:37:29.180 speaking most men if you were to ask most

02:37:31.240 men they don't what's that what is so

02:37:33.560 wrong with sex I didn't say that I didn't 1.00

02:37:36.240 say that sex is wonderful sex is wonderful 0.96

02:37:39.620 it has to be under these guidelines 0.83

02:37:41.800 under this part part of your there's

02:37:43.460 all kinds you're the one who says you

02:37:45.320 get you can't hold a guy down for longer

02:37:47.700 than two weeks because you get bored so

02:37:49.920 clearly like but what I'm trying to say is

02:37:53.160 there's clearly you you see you even

02:37:55.900 admitted yourself you said earlier on the

02:37:57.680 show you're very picky that must mean

02:37:59.500 that a guy has to meet XYZ criteria it

02:38:02.200 happens to be the case for for us and for

02:38:03.960 most men men are also allowed to have

02:38:06.020 standards and I would argue one of those

02:38:08.120 standards is we don't want to date women 1.00

02:38:11.020 who have just when you talk about your

02:38:13.140 standards it's so generalized can you can

02:38:16.480 you listen your your reaction to our

02:38:19.020 standards can you blame guys for not

02:38:21.820 wanting to tell you to tell me can you

02:38:24.860 blame guys for not telling you their

02:38:26.760 standards when you react like this oh I

02:38:28.760 don't think I'm reacting that crazy

02:38:29.960 honestly you have denied reality time and

02:38:32.660 time again when I've been telling when

02:38:34.080 I've been telling you reality and then

02:38:36.300 every time you see me I'm reacting

02:38:39.460 I'm getting real heated in here I mean

02:38:42.080 unfortunately it's true and like you

02:38:44.740 kind of go to these are you are you

02:38:46.000 surprised that the girl that wants to 0.80

02:38:48.200 run away into the forest is not

02:38:50.000 acknowledging reality like is that

02:38:51.880 surprising like no offense I think it's

02:38:55.240 just like when I say my opinions I feel

02:38:58.000 like I have more like space for yours and

02:39:03.360 I'm like I can hold mine and you can hold

02:39:04.900 yours and I feel a lot on your side of

02:39:07.180 the coin that it's more like you're

02:39:09.220 doing something wrong you shouldn't be

02:39:10.700 doing this so it's like well we all are

02:39:12.800 our own people doing our own things in

02:39:14.540 life so like that's where it gets to be 0.85

02:39:17.100 like a hey honestly I don't give a fuck if 0.99

02:39:20.100 you do porn to be honest it's just like 0.99

02:39:22.240 when we're having a live streamed dating 0.72

02:39:25.880 discussion about relationship like yes the

02:39:29.160 reality is like if you are engaged in

02:39:31.340 these sort of things it's probably gonna

02:39:32.900 limit your pool of potential partners I

02:39:35.720 mean that's just the reality for sure

02:39:37.100 you see your point that's not an opinion

02:39:38.900 by the way that's just it's it's fact in

02:39:41.300 the same way I can look up into the sky

02:39:43.160 and tell you it's blue I don't need a

02:39:44.660 study to tell you that the sky is blue

02:39:47.420 most men don't want to date sex workers

02:39:49.560 like it's it is what it is in the same

02:39:52.600 way that like most women don't want to 1.00

02:39:54.000 date men who are shorter than them we

02:39:55.480 don't need a study we could we could do a

02:39:57.640 study why is it I don't even think that's 0.99

02:40:00.920 dumb sex online why can't you just go 1.00

02:40:02.800 have sex with people like why does it 1.00

02:40:04.620 need to be online and in front of one 0.95

02:40:06.500 like okay but let's let's and also like

02:40:08.740 yeah this is this is um one of the things

02:40:11.600 with like that I think that yeah like

02:40:13.600 especially feminism has done to a lot of 1.00

02:40:16.600 generations of women that's really 1.00

02:40:18.280 rubbing off in the modern day as well is

02:40:19.860 that there's just zero accountability like

02:40:22.640 you're um in your mind so it's okay

02:40:25.300 raven dt donated yo what's up raven

02:40:27.480 dollars thank you brother yes thank

02:40:28.960 you thank you please I would like to

02:40:30.660 bet half of my net worth in addition to

02:40:32.720 having to possibly pay ransom to see my

02:40:35.100 children on buying the floor model

02:40:36.800 that's been test driven by hundreds of

02:40:38.960 men and has over 200,000 miles it's just

02:40:42.940 it's just what's that it's just like

02:40:46.160 test driven over 20 miles like what a

02:40:48.180 weird way to wait are you talking about

02:40:49.620 onlyfans are you talking about body

02:40:51.240 count what do you mean when it's just

02:40:52.400 body count so he's like test driven it's

02:40:54.640 like I mean it's body counts pretty

02:40:57.240 important I'd say it's just I would

02:41:00.000 definitely gross way to talk about human

02:41:01.900 beings why why but 200 miles on them

02:41:05.880 no but why is it gross to care about

02:41:07.560 body count are you saying what he said

02:41:10.560 is gross yeah what he said is gross okay

02:41:13.160 what you said is gross well I think

02:41:14.660 he's I think he's kind of using an

02:41:17.140 analogy yeah it's a gross one otherwise 1.00

02:41:19.880 he's gonna say you fucked too many 0.99

02:41:21.360 people well back to sorry just to kind of 0.99

02:41:27.720 switch a little bit back to your point

02:41:29.420 of not having because OFS so new there's

02:41:32.760 no statistics make it quick please

02:41:34.500 because we've talked enough about the

02:41:36.140 issues but it's like sex work has been

02:41:38.400 around for hundreds of thousands of

02:41:40.780 years so it's like online and not online

02:41:43.100 not this much but what are you trying to

02:41:44.920 say what do you mean like the corn

02:41:46.380 industry has been online since online

02:41:48.620 was a thing so it's like where are those

02:41:50.880 you know workers and for all human

02:41:53.800 history men have not wanted to wife up

02:41:55.900 women who are involved in sex work 1.00

02:41:57.160 what's the point like statistics by it

02:42:00.560 like there there probably are some

02:42:02.320 statistics somewhere because sex work's 0.99

02:42:03.820 not a new thing so like when the

02:42:05.000 internet came out there was corn stars

02:42:07.100 on the internet but porn is that are

02:42:08.900 probably that probably have husbands and 1.00

02:42:10.640 children now because they're not

02:42:11.900 mainstream anymore but porn is not

02:42:13.720 personal porn is you're going on a

02:42:15.580 website and you're clicking on a random 0.98

02:42:17.080 video OF is you're paying a subscription

02:42:20.420 to a specific person and and talking to

02:42:23.420 them and asking them for specific

02:42:25.200 things and asking them for it's way so

02:42:28.040 they go and they go to the website and

02:42:30.040 another specific category so it's like

02:42:33.320 because they subscribe to me because I'm a

02:42:35.180 redhead doesn't mean that their corn 1.00

02:42:36.520 category that they select is redhead can

02:42:38.380 you get rid of it interact with you 0.98

02:42:39.960 they don't interact with the porn star

02:42:41.300 I don't interact with every single

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02:43:04.680 sub guys thank you think thank you

02:43:05.920 um really quick uh one more thing with

02:43:09.700 you I think oh it was the tiktok right 0.99

02:43:13.660 we were reacting to the tiktok and so I

02:43:15.820 said like but do you think that a guy

02:43:17.400 who is able to support a family on one

02:43:18.960 income is going to want to marry a girl 1.00

02:43:21.380 who spent her I forgot can we pull up

02:43:24.340 the tiktok really quick just you know um

02:43:28.100 tiktok said like her telling her parents

02:43:30.060 that she just wants to live life and be a

02:43:32.000 bartender until somebody yeah me

02:43:33.620 explaining to my parents that I just 1.00

02:43:34.920 want to bartend and live my stupid 1.00

02:43:36.580 life little life until I get married 1.00

02:43:38.920 and become a stay-at-home mom um yeah

02:43:42.640 wait you did you say that your current

02:43:44.800 guy that you're dating he wants to do

02:43:47.640 that with you yeah like that but why is

02:43:50.260 it a situation predicament right but he

02:43:52.580 says he wants to he's so I think he's

02:43:54.180 selling you the dream to keep you

02:43:55.920 which is yeah like it's like I said a

02:43:58.280 predicament um because I found that

02:44:00.580 standard like I found what I'd be

02:44:02.900 looking for in everybody else so I'm

02:44:04.640 terrified to leave because I'll be

02:44:06.780 looking for that standard that I already

02:44:08.000 so do you not want to do 50-50 you

02:44:09.820 don't want to like equally contribute to

02:44:12.340 the household income because you said

02:44:13.620 stay-at-home mom right well that I think

02:44:17.280 50-50 is like you mean 50-50 0.94

02:44:19.860 financially yeah I do not want that

02:44:22.880 because that means I would not be able

02:44:24.860 to give everything to my kids that I

02:44:26.280 want to give them okay and that's

02:44:27.620 fair so like I think that maintaining a

02:44:30.140 household is one responsibility and

02:44:32.980 financially paying the bills is a whole

02:44:36.060 other responsibility that's 50-50 in

02:44:38.200 itself in a different kind of way to me

02:44:40.600 sure typically yeah when I'm talking

02:44:42.360 50-50 to I typically referencing like

02:44:45.120 financial right but the situation

02:44:47.120 ship he makes more than enough to

02:44:49.440 cover everything financially so he's a

02:44:52.260 higher earner yes okay why is it a

02:44:54.300 situation ship still yeah it's that's

02:44:56.920 his choice ultimately it's my choice

02:44:59.700 is he seeing other women is he seeing

02:45:01.260 other women no no well like I mean 1.00

02:45:04.720 sounds like sexually no but like I don't

02:45:07.140 know but I don't know what he's he's a

02:45:10.060 flirt like yeah of course he's going out 0.99

02:45:11.740 and sounds like he's fucking other chicks 0.99

02:45:14.780 quite possible but lucky for him I'm not 0.99

02:45:19.880 asking like I you know it's he has the

02:45:22.720 perfect situation for sure I don't so I

02:45:28.580 know it's like yeah yeah that's that's

02:45:31.300 how it is but yeah I mean I appreciate

02:45:36.760 the honesty yeah I just think for me at

02:45:40.720 least like because because you're you are

02:45:42.800 kind of looking for a guy to fall into

02:45:44.360 his traditional gender roles of being

02:45:45.880 the provider right and I just think like

02:45:48.460 not to bring it back here but again like

02:45:51.020 if you want to like live your hot girl

02:45:53.140 summer do the bartending thing or

02:45:55.380 whatever live your best life typically

02:45:57.480 like we translate that to you just want

02:45:59.800 to sleep around basically like I see it is

02:46:03.600 that commensurate with what the guy who

02:46:06.780 is prepared to offer you the you being a

02:46:10.600 stay-at-home mom if he can financially

02:46:12.300 provide that is that what the guy wants

02:46:14.480 does he want to wife up a girl who has 0.99

02:46:16.660 that background does he want to be the

02:46:18.580 sole breadwinner for that type of person

02:46:20.540 he may not but I didn't easily quit

02:46:23.920 OnlyFans you know what you you can quit

02:46:26.400 OnlyFans but there's like photos of you

02:46:28.000 online S-ing D yeah right are there there's 0.98

02:46:31.220 video and photos of you online S-ing D yes

02:46:33.820 S-ing the D S-ing the D yes there are yes 0.99

02:46:36.600 S-ing the D why would he choose you versus 0.86

02:46:39.280 somebody who hasn't done all those things

02:46:41.220 was there P in the V has there been P in

02:46:44.040 the V photos are there there's P in the V

02:46:45.860 there's P in the V photos there's S in the

02:46:48.260 D photos you know it's free for a reason

02:46:51.700 it's I keep them a different way you know

02:46:53.760 like S-J-X-R-X-R dot VIP okay all right

02:47:00.160 hold on let me hear I haven't sent the answer

02:47:03.760 you put all the OnlyFans girls in a row 1.00

02:47:06.980 S-ing the D yeah that's silly 0.73

02:47:08.480 Anya right Anya you say modern dating is 0.99

02:47:15.620 terrible unfaithful people girls and

02:47:18.520 guys playing each other also sleeping

02:47:20.600 around is so common it shouldn't be your

02:47:24.960 thoughts I mean going back to what I was

02:47:27.120 saying about just like yeah sex I mean

02:47:29.560 like I'm again comparing people to your

02:47:32.200 partner it's just it's so sad to me and

02:47:34.920 it's like I mean because I grew up

02:47:36.600 Christian and my parents they they got

02:47:38.780 baptized in the church and they met in

02:47:41.180 the church and they didn't have sex 0.61

02:47:42.860 before marriage and I gotta say my

02:47:44.240 parents are probably the best example of

02:47:45.800 a marriage I can say they are gonna see

02:47:47.840 if that they never argue they're so

02:47:49.740 respectful for each other and I'm like

02:47:51.680 that's the example I want to live and I

02:47:53.220 think most people should just see that

02:47:54.700 and be like dang like if you want to be

02:47:56.620 in a serious relationship and if you want

02:47:58.080 a successful marriage I think even just

02:47:59.980 living by the Bible which I'm a Christian

02:48:02.160 obviously not everyone is religious but

02:48:04.580 for me living by the Bible is probably

02:48:06.160 the best example and will leave you to a

02:48:08.640 better marriage I mean it's it's

02:48:10.620 statistically proven Christianity people

02:48:12.320 who are Christian have better marriages

02:48:13.840 and less divorce rates so can I ask how

02:48:17.140 that's measured what do you mean like they

02:48:19.980 just have people who have a Christian 0.95

02:48:21.320 faith because I know the longevity of

02:48:23.780 the marriages is longevity like that's 0.95

02:48:25.880 how it's being measured yeah I mean

02:48:27.360 because longevity and happiness are two

02:48:28.720 different things well yeah I can't

02:48:29.880 measure happiness exactly that's what

02:48:31.620 I'm saying that's that's the point I'm

02:48:33.500 trying to make yeah you made the point

02:48:35.000 of how to Lord have mercy and then we

02:48:36.420 said we must stay focused brothers we

02:48:38.240 must stay focused oh here let me read

02:48:43.560 this while it's up yo grit did you have

02:48:45.080 more by the way or okay yo grid one

02:48:48.140 okay let's give the three of those a

02:48:49.760 break for a second quick question for

02:48:51.060 the panel if the man you were seeing

02:48:52.240 wanted to move to small rural town

02:48:54.420 live frugally maybe by a mini farm

02:48:56.260 what would your reaction be we'll go

02:49:00.740 around the table I guess really quick on

02:49:01.940 this you down I'm so down yeah it's I

02:49:05.720 think should grid one motorsports shoot

02:49:07.640 you a DM yeah hit me up okay grid one

02:49:10.840 that what you're offering by the way 0.99

02:49:11.900 this is like fuck looks we're gonna go 0.99

02:49:14.640 a frugal small town and raise animals 1.00

02:49:17.800 and plants together yeah hey okay how do

02:49:21.960 you feel with like toiling in the fields

02:49:24.000 would you toil in the fields I think you

02:49:26.620 would be a good toiler would you toil

02:49:28.380 what is the term toil to toil in the

02:49:30.500 fields do you toil are you a toiler to

02:49:32.760 toil means work toil it's a toil in the

02:49:34.900 fields he just keeps saying the word

02:49:37.220 toil I know I'm like right right

02:49:39.660 do you toil would you toil if grid one

02:49:46.100 please help me if grid one motorsports

02:49:48.980 grid one motorsports shot you a DM and

02:49:52.700 he was like listen I will give you this

02:49:54.480 life but you're gonna just be like

02:49:57.620 milking cows all day oh you probably have

02:50:00.580 some never mind practice you got some

02:50:05.220 practice I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry

02:50:07.480 sorry sorry

02:50:08.140 you don't normally milk a cow with your

02:50:11.720 mouth but that's illegal was I doing a

02:50:14.900 mouth gesture

02:50:15.540 by the way grid one motorsports he once

02:50:24.840 saved me we were on his racetrack he has a

02:50:27.740 racetrack like they once gave me a million

02:50:29.360 dollars is this why we were friends in the

02:50:30.880 beginning of the chat no he he saved me

02:50:33.920 no grid one motorsports we were like

02:50:36.940 racing right and it was like it wasn't

02:50:39.740 like exotic cars we were doing like more

02:50:42.200 the what's it called grid one motor help me

02:50:44.400 out it was the like global time attack

02:50:46.300 cars like a miata yeah it was like you

02:50:52.300 know we were like vrooming right and I

02:50:53.800 was like going around the bend and I was 0.99

02:50:55.300 like oh you fucking noob and he and like 1.00

02:50:57.340 but he caught me right and then I fucking 1.00

02:50:59.220 spun out boom crashed into the wall the 1.00

02:51:01.300 fucking car lights on fire and he fucking 1.00

02:51:03.860 jumps out and he pulls me out of the car 1.00

02:51:05.960 and he's like Brian I saved your life so

02:51:09.400 he's he will protect you that is so hot and

02:51:12.120 I believe what race track his race track

02:51:16.020 yeah I've already been told I need

02:51:20.020 saving so we have a chat here from Hector

02:51:27.020 Rodriguez she didn't she didn't she 0.98

02:51:30.020 opened her legs for a whole football team 0.59

02:51:33.020 from Hector Rodriguez I think this might

02:51:36.520 be directed at you for sure was it the whole

02:51:39.120 football team didn't confirm or deny deny

02:51:41.920 definitely not the whole football team

02:51:44.260 whole baseball team or wait wait it wasn't

02:51:49.580 for the whole football team wait was it a

02:51:51.360 quarter no much less it was a select few a

02:51:54.980 select few yeah all right rock and roll

02:51:58.420 Cam H the select team my girlfriend is a 0.99

02:52:01.880 dancer plus insta model and I'm highly

02:52:04.680 educated professional 16 year education

02:52:08.180 post high school 800k annual salary 10 plus

02:52:13.540 year age gap I knew from beginning thinking 0.52

02:52:16.420 about finding more traditional female

02:52:18.320 verse asking her to be with me slash

02:52:21.760 stopping thoughts so he is dating a dancer

02:52:26.660 which I assume means stripper plus insta 0.99

02:52:28.980 model this guy's making fucking bank 800k 0.99

02:52:33.300 congrats dude that's insane you're 10 years 0.99

02:52:36.660 her senior my dude you make 100k 800k can

02:52:42.320 you give us some more details about like

02:52:43.840 our CEO are you are you in the US first

02:52:47.260 off I I'm assuming you are what how tall

02:52:51.960 are you are you a giga chad are you good

02:52:53.700 looking are you in good shape should find a

02:52:56.480 more traditional woman or I want some more 1.00

02:52:59.280 details I want some more details in any

02:53:01.120 case bro you're you're a very high earner

02:53:03.260 you can get you don't need a date no

02:53:06.260 offense I mean I mean I would say if he's

02:53:08.580 already with her and he knew from the

02:53:10.040 beginning then that wasn't a deterring

02:53:12.060 factor for him to be with her regardless

02:53:13.700 of his status so that means he likes her

02:53:15.720 as a person and whether they should

02:53:18.380 proceed forward with their life and if

02:53:20.900 this should be with her and stop what 0.63

02:53:24.120 she's doing he should break up that should 0.67

02:53:26.860 break up means that he needs to know if

02:53:28.020 her goals align with him why does why is

02:53:30.600 she but wait how long have you been

02:53:32.700 dating her too because I mean bro you

02:53:34.680 make a lot of money you could probably I

02:53:36.300 don't know how long you've been dating

02:53:37.860 he says girlfriend is a dancer my dude

02:53:41.560 you're a very high earner just you can you

02:53:43.400 you don't need a 16 year education

02:53:45.340 sounds like it's some sort of stem field

02:53:46.920 or something like that and then once he 0.99

02:53:48.660 got out maybe sounds like he was suck it in a 0.93

02:53:51.720 a little bit I'm also wondering what he 0.99

02:53:53.480 did at the dance club I mean why did he

02:53:55.700 go there he doesn't say he met her there

02:54:01.260 what so Cam can you tell us let's see

02:54:04.940 oh unfortunately he sent this like 30

02:54:06.580 minutes ago so I don't know if he's still

02:54:07.600 in the chat but where did you meet her

02:54:09.660 what else some stats on you how long

02:54:13.900 have you guys been together but yeah how

02:54:16.860 long that's a good one I mean I have

02:54:18.240 aligning goals and values well then that's

02:54:21.280 the thing his values might have changed

02:54:22.900 in the beginning anybody here stripped

02:54:24.120 anybody danced just you yes in the

02:54:29.260 beginning good times good times type of

02:54:32.000 like feeling towards it and then maybe as

02:54:34.680 he was making more money or progressing in

02:54:36.800 his career he was like oh maybe this isn't

02:54:38.980 really what I want so that's why I think

02:54:40.660 yeah oh no absolutely people's people's

02:54:43.220 ideologies and thoughts can change on the

02:54:45.140 situation it's how you feel in that moment

02:54:47.480 whether you should progress forward or

02:54:49.000 not yeah yeah I have a question for you

02:54:51.960 Anya or did you it sounded like you're

02:54:53.420 about to say something okay so you know

02:54:56.720 your standard is you're conservative

02:54:58.360 Christian you're waiting until marriage my 1.00

02:55:01.700 question for you is of your female 0.99

02:55:03.420 friends who maybe aren't religious or

02:55:05.960 conservative or Christian or maybe who

02:55:07.280 are do you know any girls who are like 1.00

02:55:10.120 maybe you're friends with who have high

02:55:11.260 body counts who are promiscuous I have I

02:55:15.540 have one friend but I wouldn't consider

02:55:16.740 really high body count but she does like 1.00

02:55:18.940 post herself seductively on the internet 0.94

02:55:21.380 okay and do things like that but most of

02:55:23.340 my friends are conservative Christian okay

02:55:26.320 got it yeah well I want to open this up

02:55:28.180 to the whole panel so not you but of your

02:55:31.820 female friends if you maybe you can think 0.57

02:55:34.180 of one or a couple oh here let me let me

02:55:37.380 here cam age 511 yeah I thought he was I

02:55:42.080 figured he'd be a doctor subspecialist

02:55:44.060 physician I think I'm a 7 out of 10 she's

02:55:45.840 1210 to me two-month relationship she's a

02:55:50.400 1210 you're not into it for two people you

02:55:53.280 like no way I thought you're questioning it

02:55:56.140 that's your answer yeah that's true wait

02:55:58.200 what if he's questioning whether or not he

02:56:00.460 wants to be with her if he has to ask a

02:56:02.140 panel of strangers whether he should be

02:56:03.620 with someone or not then he shouldn't be

02:56:05.020 with that person regardless of her

02:56:08.400 profession or anything a subspecialist

02:56:10.320 physician he'd be a very very hard-working

02:56:13.060 guy I can't imagine he'd get out too much

02:56:15.700 and then the excitement of a girl like

02:56:17.380 that I reckon can be so alluring that

02:56:19.440 it's probably captured his imagination yeah

02:56:21.120 that's fair you're allowed to have

02:56:25.700 standards dude you're you have a very 0.67

02:56:28.460 high-status job you need a lot of money

02:56:29.980 you can I wouldn't do this

02:56:31.840 yeah thank you good money Brian don't you

02:56:36.220 put that evil on me even if I were single

02:56:38.980 and I am happily married 17 years there is

02:56:41.620 only so much charity in my heart I was

02:56:44.500 curious how these high-maintenance girls 1.00

02:56:46.800 would view living simply that's a very

02:56:50.320 presumptuous would view living well simply so

02:56:54.700 now when someone does only fans they

02:56:56.620 become high-maintenance go live in the

02:57:01.500 middle of nowhere girls but that was he's

02:57:08.700 saying you guys would simply but you guys

02:57:11.580 can you very much so yeah yeah yo cam age one

02:57:15.680 last thing cam age how did you meet her

02:57:19.820 that's the other thing I was curious about

02:57:21.240 how did you meet her because at the club

02:57:23.220 did you meet on a dating app did you meet at

02:57:25.820 the hospital did she break her ankle on a 0.94

02:57:29.040 the hall or something the sex and the

02:57:33.980 physical attraction must be what can be so

02:57:36.680 overpowering sometimes the guys just get

02:57:38.540 lost they get are there no red flags like I

02:57:42.420 just I've met strippers you know what I mean 1.00

02:57:47.280 yeah totally you know strippers they be 1.00

02:57:52.880 crazy it's a mixed bag over there and the

02:57:56.880 gloves it takes a personality you know I

02:58:01.380 don't so I feel you I wonder is there

02:58:03.600 like what did like on the totem pole like

02:58:07.260 you have like street walker and then you

02:58:10.920 have p star and then you have only fans

02:58:14.520 girl and then you have stripper and then 1.00

02:58:18.080 you have like feet pick sender like where

02:58:22.860 like do do strippers look down on on porn 1.00

02:58:26.800 stars and do porn stars look down on only fans 0.77

02:58:28.580 girls and do sex worker like hoes literal 1.00

02:58:33.620 hoes look down on porn stars I think 1.00

02:58:37.920 there's I don't know some strippers look 1.00

02:58:40.020 down on only fans girls because they're 1.00

02:58:41.700 like I'm just dancing and then some only

02:58:43.500 fans girls look down on strippers because 1.00

02:58:45.000 they're like well you're in person like

02:58:46.200 people touch you but a smart one would

02:58:47.980 have both you know it's the hell rocky

02:58:49.860 there really is one it's crazy it's crazy

02:58:56.380 you're in the industry you're in the industry

02:58:58.260 like we're in the cam h also cam send me send

02:59:00.980 me a dm on instagram at whatever send me a

02:59:02.900 dm on instagram cam let's see okay we

02:59:06.520 was bringing it to you oh yeah so of your

02:59:09.700 female friends do you know any girls who 1.00

02:59:12.380 have really high body counts and if so how

02:59:16.060 high yes but I wouldn't say that I know

02:59:19.900 what the number is right range range maybe

02:59:24.300 like 15 that's not that's that's what I'm

02:59:31.920 saying like I don't I'm sorry were you

02:59:35.340 expecting me to say like 300 well that's

02:59:39.380 what I mean like most of my most of my

02:59:42.660 friends are very like conservative married

02:59:46.440 children families like I don't really

02:59:50.820 have sure what about you I know a couple

02:59:53.420 triple digits yeah couple triple digit

02:59:56.500 ladies couple triple digit ladies body 0.94

02:59:58.940 count crazy but triple triple digit yeah

03:00:02.000 body counts okay that's a lot of like

03:00:03.760 dedicated time yeah you know you have to be

03:00:07.040 like those are the girls talking about 0.98

03:00:08.800 love sex all they want is sex that's 0.99

03:00:13.180 addiction man I think I'll do some math 0.99

03:00:16.480 people uh what about you uh yeah like maybe

03:00:21.600 some girls in college or something well

03:00:23.580 yeah just currently yeah like I think I

03:00:26.980 have a friend with like an 80 body count

03:00:30.300 80 yeah 80 80 oh my god 80 oh my god I've

03:00:35.940 been living in the valley too long what

03:00:38.120 about you question oh any friends of yours

03:00:41.560 that you know that like you know they have

03:00:43.420 high body counts maybe they told you or if

03:00:45.800 so what it what is it probably not no

03:00:48.680 there's there's girls in our industry and 1.00

03:00:51.460 like bikini pros and people in the 0.97

03:00:53.300 industry that do only fans question are

03:00:55.500 you guys natty you guys natty I'm on I'm

03:00:58.600 on HRT so no are you natty yes

03:01:01.680 impressive nice I have a question okay so

03:01:09.380 I've heard like if a guy either say it if

03:01:18.420 you're s-ing the d okay and you consume the

03:01:22.840 product of s-ing the d that's like there's

03:01:26.620 minimal amounts of protein in it

03:01:28.280 testosterone's in there too I've also

03:01:30.580 heard with sex too if a guy blasts inside 0.99

03:01:32.640 it actually elevate it boosts women's mood 1.00

03:01:35.600 because the the seed so you're promoting

03:01:40.120 sex because you want people to be in good 0.99

03:01:42.100 wait what I don't have sex is sex is fine I'm 0.99

03:01:45.880 just great as bodybuilders do you like do 0.97

03:01:48.200 you want to I can do you want that extra

03:01:50.500 do you want that extra nut I don't track it

03:01:54.120 in my fitness pal if you're asking it's not

03:01:57.880 incorporated in my macronutrients for the

03:02:00.300 day because like I feel like it would help

03:02:01.800 with the bodybuilding if you're just like

03:02:03.220 letting dudes blast you know what I mean

03:02:05.800 is that sorry is that too graphic is that

03:02:08.920 too graphic I'm sorry I appreciate I

03:02:13.820 appreciate where your heads up Ryan you

03:02:15.200 know trying to help us with our bodybuilding

03:02:16.540 yeah like because I'm an expert yeah okay 0.97

03:02:20.300 so let's see uh how did I fucking get 0.91

03:02:22.780 there oh body count I don't really have 0.94

03:02:25.700 any friends with high body yeah no oh we

03:02:27.740 we asked you what about you no we say in

03:02:30.320 Hungary you get to know a bird by their

03:02:32.620 feather and the person by their friend so

03:02:34.880 no word okay good times good times we have

03:02:40.400 Mars are you going off my list yeah this is

03:02:46.320 my list now you said something about open

03:02:49.080 dating you wanted to talk about open

03:02:51.240 dating what do you mean by that um I think

03:02:54.340 I kind of explained it more in my um did we

03:02:57.300 already talk about it kind of what did you

03:02:59.780 really kind of just like the um like

03:03:04.300 individualism oh okay yeah I'll read it you

03:03:08.180 also said autonomy and relationships did I

03:03:12.380 don't know if you went over that in your

03:03:13.660 further notes when you say autonomy and

03:03:15.540 relationships what does what do you mean

03:03:18.340 two separate people like with their own

03:03:22.040 lives that come together for a greater

03:03:23.820 good whether it's family or building a

03:03:26.760 life together and yeah not like you

03:03:31.520 control each other in like the way of

03:03:33.120 like what you expect from your partner and

03:03:35.020 what feels right to you and what feels

03:03:36.500 right to them and you give and take

03:03:37.960 because that's what a good relationship is

03:03:39.220 about but I don't think like controlling if

03:03:42.220 your girlfriend wants to go to Thailand 0.55

03:03:43.860 over a couple months like make solo if you

03:03:46.740 if you trust my girlfriend wants to go to

03:03:48.700 Thailand why would you be with someone that

03:03:50.580 you don't trust enough to even like leave

03:03:52.180 your sight for a while why should you leave

03:03:54.920 your sight there's not a chance why should

03:03:56.480 I because there's a whole world there's so

03:03:58.160 much like why can't you discover it

03:04:00.260 together I personally would want my

03:04:01.240 significant other to come with me and

03:04:02.640 experience that why would I want to leave

03:04:03.600 that yeah why wouldn't you want your 0.99

03:04:05.360 partner to come with you well they could

03:04:07.500 but like it's also great to like grow on

03:04:09.300 your own for months though see this is

03:04:11.600 the this is the yeah they want to go to

03:04:13.700 like a retreat or something and it was

03:04:15.620 like let's say like a month-long silent

03:04:18.180 retreat in Thailand or something that would

03:04:20.440 be wonderful to do by myself or with my

03:04:22.320 partner and so we can trade I'm dumping

03:04:24.320 you honestly straight away not my first

03:04:26.980 one I'm breaking up with you wait what my 0.97

03:04:30.820 first one no just like oh you want to go

03:04:33.960 to Thailand for a month to do a tantra

03:04:36.840 retreat or some shit why I'd probably 0.73

03:04:40.940 be a partner of experiences if I was 0.91

03:04:42.800 dating anyone I would know go do it we're

03:04:44.800 just done this is the thing okay okay

03:04:47.440 bye peace out peace out yeah it's a

03:04:50.880 different you're not a man for me 0.91

03:04:51.940 peace out you too homie I'll rip all 1.00

03:04:54.100 right peace in the chat boys um yeah

03:04:57.100 difference in values just different

03:04:59.000 preferences definitely different

03:05:00.720 preferences oh different yeah I mean

03:05:03.000 it's just different values like we said

03:05:04.800 like there's there's trade-offs in life

03:05:07.020 and one of the trade-offs that you have

03:05:08.160 to make as a girl like like we said 0.81

03:05:10.240 before if it is something that you value

03:05:12.160 to have a long-term relationship with a

03:05:14.200 guy who has any sort of self-respect I

03:05:17.000 don't one of the things that you will

03:05:18.160 not be doing is saying I'm gonna go to

03:05:19.800 Thailand for a month because that guy

03:05:21.600 will just say okay see you later when

03:05:24.260 you get back you'll be single who are

03:05:26.740 you dating I would never ever even like

03:05:29.520 go on a second date with someone that

03:05:31.180 was like that you haven't had a

03:05:33.340 relationship for more than two weeks so

03:05:35.260 that's three and a half years a year

03:05:38.060 and two years look it I'm just telling

03:05:41.160 you the reality of how guys think here

03:05:43.440 and in terms of like a girl wanting to

03:05:45.520 go away by herself to Thailand for a

03:05:47.460 month guys are just not gonna put up

03:05:49.340 with that and you can what are you 0.99

03:05:50.880 scared of me fucking someone yeah have a 1.00

03:05:53.940 relationship conversation conversation 0.97

03:05:57.000 where like I respect you and I love you

03:05:59.580 and my relationship with you is more

03:06:01.540 important than bodies and people like

03:06:05.080 that see this is what you can live in

03:06:07.680 why would I leave you can live in that

03:06:09.080 world that you want my relationship but

03:06:11.000 unfortunately in reality it's not my

03:06:13.260 entire world in reality guys know what

03:06:16.020 happens on you can come together and not

03:06:18.360 make your partner like you're living

03:06:20.200 breathing organ like what type of what

03:06:22.480 type of relationship are you in if you

03:06:24.140 don't want to see your partner for one to

03:06:25.400 two months at a time yeah a healthy one in

03:06:28.480 my opinion because if you're gonna be

03:06:29.920 together for the rest of your life for

03:06:31.620 one to two months and not see your

03:06:32.920 partner there's years we have long lives

03:06:36.320 so I can't imagine being spot and enjoying

03:06:40.580 my life that's a lot that's a lot of

03:06:42.220 relationship and be around them 24-7 for

03:06:45.820 the rest of your life if I'm in a

03:06:47.740 relationship I want to see my partner

03:06:49.540 more often that's why I'm not hitting

03:06:51.920 here but I'm like I totally get like I do

03:06:54.800 understand what you're saying and that's

03:06:56.100 where my open-mindedness comes in and

03:06:57.560 like I know that there are people out

03:06:59.120 there that exist that have that view but

03:07:02.320 like for me I choose a partner that I

03:07:04.180 would like to see every single day for

03:07:06.580 the rest of my life and I would love to

03:07:08.560 travel but you're you're you're married

03:07:11.220 so you you can speak to that you're not

03:07:14.040 you're 25 and in like I said before in

03:07:16.660 10 years time yeah like right now you're

03:07:18.760 young you're gorgeous you're 25 you're

03:07:20.520 getting all of this male attention it's 0.99

03:07:22.000 fantastic in 10 years time if you're 35

03:07:24.780 and you're buying your own drinks at the

03:07:26.200 bar it's gonna be very different you're

03:07:28.340 gonna have a very different attitude

03:07:29.640 towards this and this is the thing that

03:07:31.540 girls don't get told guys we don't

03:07:34.100 really need to get told because the

03:07:35.540 world tells us every single day our

03:07:37.540 flaws girls you can kind of just float 1.00

03:07:40.040 about and say yeah are you kidding the

03:07:41.340 world doesn't tell girls every day 0.95

03:07:42.580 their flaws no when it comes to dating

03:07:44.300 no you don't because you actually don't

03:07:45.400 know anything about like what men want

03:07:47.000 so it's manifestly true in you such a

03:07:49.180 harsh statement I don't know anything

03:07:50.720 about what men want you you kind of 0.95

03:07:52.700 it's you know they want sex they want 0.89

03:07:55.100 body but other than that yeah he's a 0.80

03:07:57.540 straight shooter okay he's a general

03:07:59.940 I like you but I was like come on I

03:08:03.540 like you too

03:08:04.540 work with me the thing is I think I could

03:08:08.840 save you honestly

03:08:09.780 stop saying that to me the thing the

03:08:12.260 reason why I think I could no no I'll

03:08:14.540 say what I want the reason why I think

03:08:16.540 that is because like you're I think you're

03:08:18.540 actually a really nice girl you got a lot

03:08:20.540 to give got a lot of love to give and if

03:08:23.540 if you gave that to the right place it

03:08:25.640 would be very powerful and this is what

03:08:27.900 I always say

03:08:28.560 don't give me the violin this is what I

03:08:32.960 say to girls though if you if you if you

03:08:34.680 know this stuff and if you know it young

03:08:36.640 it's a superpower you're going to have a

03:08:38.600 very successful marriage one day I could

03:08:40.440 be certain of that yeah it is so powerful

03:08:42.800 for girls to know this sort of stuff and 0.99

03:08:44.460 to know it young but a lot they just

03:08:45.940 don't get told what they get told is do

03:08:47.420 whatever you want all the time with no

03:08:48.760 consequences exactly word we have some

03:08:52.700 more we got some some notes here from

03:08:56.700 you my stance on modern dating hookup

03:08:59.060 culture dating apps etc have made it so

03:09:01.160 our dating pools are so much bigger than

03:09:03.360 ever before Raven DT donated $100 this

03:09:08.000 is what happens when you try to detach

03:09:10.040 intimacy from sex FHM interviewed four

03:09:13.580 men 100 plus years old they were asked

03:09:17.060 what the best vacation is they said the

03:09:19.640 destination doesn't matter it matters who

03:09:22.240 you go with it's about spending it with

03:09:24.820 your wife I mean yeah but I mean who you

03:09:28.480 go with could be I could go with someone

03:09:30.480 dope to like Compton versus Hawaii like the

03:09:36.480 you know you know I mean like Hawaii might

03:09:38.440 be a little nicer than Compton just saying

03:09:40.440 it definitely is

03:09:41.440 just saying do people vacation in Compton

03:09:42.840 I can confirm right

03:09:43.440 is Compton a place people vacation in

03:09:45.940 have you no

03:09:46.900 really really how many people

03:09:48.980 I would love to take you

03:09:49.900 Laura let's take a girl's trip

03:09:51.180 I will take you on the vacation to Compton

03:09:54.760 you know it's actually funny

03:09:55.840 Australians actually do do that we'll go 1.00

03:09:58.740 we'll like drive through because we've

03:10:00.200 seen like the easy movies and stuff like

03:10:02.060 that

03:10:02.180 historical

03:10:04.400 yeah

03:10:04.840 I sold this

03:10:06.440 have you vacation in Compton

03:10:08.580 well I mean Australians American culture

03:10:10.840 is very novel to us like I was at a

03:10:12.580 Halloween party last night and I was

03:10:13.960 like couldn't believe it because I was

03:10:15.060 looking around like I felt like I was

03:10:16.080 in a movie like a scary like scary

03:10:18.020 movie or something like that

03:10:19.080 yeah we just do things very differently

03:10:21.480 Vegas because I was in Vegas last night

03:10:23.780 and I felt the same way

03:10:25.040 no

03:10:25.260 unless I can't remember

03:10:26.660 a lot of scary people

03:10:28.600 let's see so

03:10:29.540 you think you said I think the

03:10:31.820 abundance of opportunity and people

03:10:33.480 to meet has made it so we don't take

03:10:34.940 the time to take the people we meet

03:10:36.600 as seriously we have troubles committing

03:10:38.680 sports donated $100

03:10:42.460 something I can speak directly to

03:10:45.380 when I was racing I was gone

03:10:47.400 sometimes for a month

03:10:48.780 but I was working I missed my wife

03:10:51.140 the entire time

03:10:52.120 the difference with what this

03:10:53.900 304 is saying is as soon as she

03:10:56.760 boards the plane her BF is forgotten

03:10:58.800 that's not what I'm saying

03:10:59.640 wow

03:11:00.420 it is

03:11:01.200 it's not what I'm saying

03:11:02.440 why can't I go on a trip and then

03:11:05.560 call my boyfriend and be like 0.84

03:11:07.300 wow I'm having a great time

03:11:08.540 this is what I'm up to

03:11:09.500 with my boyfriend

03:11:10.480 and be excited to share that with them

03:11:12.060 you know

03:11:12.660 it's not like

03:11:13.760 don't shake your head

03:11:14.900 what

03:11:15.120 no

03:11:16.120 I'm telling you how I feel

03:11:17.720 yeah I know

03:11:18.460 I just thought it would be so to you

03:11:19.940 and they just

03:11:21.320 I don't want to like

03:11:22.900 let them know what I'm doing

03:11:24.560 it doesn't make any sense

03:11:26.060 yeah once again

03:11:27.800 it just comes back to the fact

03:11:28.720 that you just have trade-offs in life

03:11:29.920 guys have trade-offs

03:11:30.680 we have to make all the time

03:11:31.620 and girls

03:11:32.440 have these trade-offs

03:11:33.980 and you can

03:11:34.640 yeah

03:11:35.420 have

03:11:35.820 it's true

03:11:36.540 thank you grid one

03:11:40.080 thank you grid one

03:11:40.980 where was I

03:11:43.380 oh okay

03:11:43.860 so we have troubles committing

03:11:45.340 and long-term healthy relationships

03:11:46.920 can be harder to come by

03:11:48.300 because

03:11:49.160 the dating pools are so much bigger

03:11:51.500 than ever before

03:11:52.280 because abundance of

03:11:53.500 there's an abundance of opportunity

03:11:55.200 and people to meet

03:11:56.380 it's made it

03:11:57.200 so we don't take the time to

03:11:58.580 take the time to take the people we meet

03:12:03.100 as seriously

03:12:03.660 um

03:12:04.880 trouble committing

03:12:07.360 long-term

03:12:08.100 what if I told you

03:12:09.140 that this was only the case

03:12:10.040 for the top tier of men

03:12:11.000 on dating apps

03:12:11.660 and nearly

03:12:12.160 all women on dating apps

03:12:14.100 oh

03:12:16.840 because

03:12:17.020 are you just like

03:12:17.800 assuming that people

03:12:19.400 what is like top tier to you though

03:12:20.520 because it's only like

03:12:21.120 money

03:12:21.480 like top 10% of men

03:12:22.500 it could be looks

03:12:23.420 it could be

03:12:23.800 but that's what

03:12:24.340 you always kind of generalize

03:12:26.140 like the top tier

03:12:27.060 is just like

03:12:27.720 and that's who

03:12:28.820 the majority of women

03:12:29.860 are all chasing after

03:12:30.820 it's such a boring reason

03:12:33.020 to chase someone

03:12:33.840 it's what

03:12:34.480 it's such a boring reason

03:12:35.540 to chase somebody

03:12:36.400 just because they're hot

03:12:37.980 you know

03:12:38.700 I mean isn't that just human nature

03:12:40.220 heaven forbid

03:12:41.300 it's just lame

03:12:41.760 like if a guy comes up to me

03:12:42.880 at a bar

03:12:43.340 and is like

03:12:43.920 you're so sexy

03:12:44.880 I'm just like

03:12:45.400 okay

03:12:45.740 like it's just such a boring way

03:12:47.320 to approach me

03:12:48.020 what would you prefer

03:12:49.100 oh your moon necklace

03:12:50.840 do you watch Sailor Moon

03:12:52.220 yeah

03:12:52.720 oh I love Sailor Moon

03:12:54.440 what a fun conversation at least

03:12:55.640 not just like

03:12:56.140 what am I supposed to say

03:12:56.660 like thanks

03:12:57.500 like cool

03:12:58.200 like now what do we do

03:12:59.020 I love your clavicles

03:13:00.120 you've got great clavicles

03:13:02.000 thank you

03:13:03.020 solid clavicles

03:13:03.940 do you know what a clavicle is

03:13:05.140 yes

03:13:05.640 okay just

03:13:06.180 I wasn't sure

03:13:06.920 I wasn't sure

03:13:07.260 you might be like 1.00

03:13:07.960 the fuck 1.00

03:13:08.320 don't talk about my clavicles 1.00

03:13:09.540 I don't know

03:13:10.940 like oh look

03:13:11.920 there's just so many more

03:13:12.860 fun ways to like

03:13:14.080 flirt with people

03:13:15.020 if I'm at a bar

03:13:15.760 there's like live music

03:13:16.820 okay let's try it

03:13:17.900 wait let's get the microphones

03:13:19.140 I'm a chick

03:13:21.240 your dude

03:13:21.880 hit on me

03:13:22.420 go

03:13:22.700 oh I saw a video

03:13:24.320 like this on YouTube recently

03:13:25.420 it was very embarrassing

03:13:26.240 for the girls

03:13:26.800 okay so

03:13:27.300 I'm a girl

03:13:28.600 usually like how I hit on people

03:13:30.660 is I'm just kind of like

03:13:31.880 no but you're the dude

03:13:33.820 you're the dude

03:13:34.620 I'm the chick

03:13:35.200 spit some game

03:13:36.620 it's like

03:13:37.000 haha hey Jacqueline

03:13:38.780 this is hard

03:13:41.140 can I just describe

03:13:42.100 what I think you should do

03:13:43.300 haha this 0.99

03:13:44.040 fucking lit 0.99

03:13:45.400 haha 0.99

03:13:45.740 like if you're

03:13:46.200 I can't

03:13:46.880 I can't do this

03:13:47.720 I'm not

03:13:48.060 I'm not a theater kid

03:13:49.000 I was in lighting

03:13:49.700 I wasn't on stage

03:13:51.380 I can't like improv

03:13:52.600 like this

03:13:53.180 but they're really ready

03:13:54.300 they are really ready

03:13:55.620 and I'm not Jacqueline

03:13:56.480 look at the microphone

03:13:57.160 he's like ready

03:13:58.820 you're trying to hit on my friend

03:14:01.120 he's projecting you 0.88

03:14:02.780 bitching about our friends

03:14:04.220 bitching about our friends 1.00

03:14:04.520 this fucking 1.00

03:14:05.400 what's up 1.00

03:14:06.760 what

03:14:09.400 don't do this to me

03:14:14.240 they did it as well

03:14:15.180 they did it as well

03:14:16.400 um hi

03:14:17.420 yeah

03:14:17.880 I've never been in this predicament before

03:14:19.160 hi

03:14:19.560 you've never been in this predicament

03:14:21.000 no

03:14:22.280 what

03:14:22.760 I think she dropped the roleplay

03:14:24.140 keep going

03:14:25.020 okay

03:14:26.140 that was your line 0.81

03:14:27.360 okay definitely

03:14:28.120 I didn't bring it up for improv

03:14:29.340 neither

03:14:30.420 what if I start crying

03:14:33.160 would that be very interesting to you

03:14:34.580 no we

03:14:35.760 I'd probably just feel like

03:14:36.620 what kind of girl am I talking to

03:14:38.460 because if it was me

03:14:39.100 as a man talking to a girl

03:14:40.240 they would be like

03:14:40.860 you're overthinking

03:14:42.320 you're overthinking

03:14:43.660 I am

03:14:43.680 this is what I do

03:14:45.180 I would say

03:14:48.020 women respond to 0.99

03:14:50.360 like

03:14:51.360 you complimenting

03:14:52.800 their

03:14:53.180 their vibe

03:14:54.260 or

03:14:54.780 what

03:14:55.820 sorry

03:14:56.100 what

03:14:56.940 what

03:14:57.580 like

03:14:58.440 their vibe

03:14:59.280 or complimenting them

03:15:00.540 on something that they're wearing

03:15:01.640 like

03:15:01.980 actually starting a conversation

03:15:03.720 instead of immediately

03:15:04.760 going for looks

03:15:05.520 having a purpose

03:15:06.240 to like come up to them

03:15:07.480 and then going away

03:15:08.980 Sammy Jo

03:15:09.760 we're ready

03:15:10.420 go for it

03:15:11.080 have you seen Sally

03:15:12.600 I'm not

03:15:13.460 but I guess I'm about to be

03:15:14.620 Sally

03:15:15.500 like bitching about our friends 1.00

03:15:16.940 oh my god

03:15:17.400 do you want to go to the bathroom

03:15:18.220 hey ladies 1.00

03:15:19.940 are you having a good night tonight

03:15:21.860 yeah

03:15:22.880 you guys look great tonight

03:15:24.580 thank you

03:15:25.080 awesome

03:15:25.660 so what are you guys into

03:15:27.300 what brings you guys out

03:15:28.280 just hanging out

03:15:29.960 just dance

03:15:30.920 nice

03:15:31.300 are you guys celebrating anything

03:15:32.800 girls night

03:15:33.520 nice

03:15:34.260 do you guys do this often

03:15:35.540 huh

03:15:36.420 do you guys do girls night often

03:15:38.100 oh you know

03:15:40.300 wait what's the

03:15:41.240 twice a week

03:15:41.780 what's the MO

03:15:42.280 am I just trying to get to know you

03:15:43.660 or like

03:15:44.140 you're trying to smash

03:15:45.220 try to smash

03:15:45.720 oh well

03:15:46.460 if you guys are

03:15:47.300 on a girls night

03:15:48.120 then you're automatically

03:15:48.860 smashing

03:15:49.440 no we're down

03:15:51.120 we're down to smash

03:15:51.820 we're down to smash

03:15:53.460 but only with like a chat

03:15:54.300 so do you

03:15:54.840 so do you guys

03:15:56.280 no it can't be mad

03:15:57.140 to continue the role play

03:15:58.200 you can't interrupt

03:15:59.180 the role play

03:15:59.980 yeah yeah

03:16:00.420 okay okay

03:16:01.260 do you come here

03:16:02.140 do we

03:16:02.480 your drinks look a little empty

03:16:04.980 like

03:16:05.260 do you guys want to have a drink

03:16:06.680 oh yeah yeah yeah

03:16:07.440 okay awesome

03:16:08.020 why don't you come with me

03:16:09.140 to the bar

03:16:09.640 so that you guys can see me

03:16:10.860 ordering the drinks

03:16:11.540 it's a little bit creepy

03:16:12.460 to be honest

03:16:13.020 you would rather me

03:16:14.760 bring you a drink

03:16:15.800 without you seeing it

03:16:16.940 being made

03:16:17.440 that's dangerous

03:16:18.540 no I think

03:16:19.100 these guys would be aggressive

03:16:20.160 that is so dangerous

03:16:21.540 I've never been girls before

03:16:22.800 I don't know

03:16:23.960 these guys have no experience

03:16:25.200 being a woman

03:16:25.800 I would say

03:16:26.540 let's head over to the bar

03:16:28.460 let's head over to the bar

03:16:30.060 and get a drink

03:16:31.360 oh um

03:16:32.340 this guy's pretty forceful

03:16:33.500 maybe later

03:16:34.500 we're gonna go to the bathroom

03:16:35.420 that's fine

03:16:36.300 we should leave them alone

03:16:37.940 they don't seem like

03:16:38.580 they wanna hang out

03:16:39.080 we'll be here

03:16:39.940 when you come back

03:16:40.840 if you're interested 1.00

03:16:41.700 bitch 1.00

03:16:42.400 we'll see you around 1.00

03:16:43.060 I came back

03:16:44.760 I came back in

03:16:45.540 I did yeah

03:16:46.860 that just goes to show

03:16:48.180 that you guys

03:16:49.080 would carry a drink

03:16:50.760 from the bar

03:16:51.360 to someone

03:16:51.940 without them

03:16:52.700 watching

03:16:53.360 it being made

03:16:53.660 no we wouldn't have

03:16:54.400 offered the drink

03:16:55.140 no

03:16:55.880 you wouldn't have

03:16:56.740 offered me a drink

03:16:57.620 no

03:16:58.020 not straight away

03:16:59.640 what if I start coughing

03:17:00.740 really

03:17:01.080 thank you

03:17:01.560 I'll offer you some

03:17:02.660 cough syrup

03:17:03.060 I'd be like

03:17:03.640 cough syrup on you

03:17:04.860 Matt

03:17:05.500 I'd be trying to

03:17:06.180 get in my back pocket

03:17:07.460 that was just a big fail

03:17:09.780 you guys were really

03:17:11.620 poor girl actors 0.99

03:17:13.060 that's how girls 1.00

03:17:13.880 honestly we gave you a lot

03:17:14.980 we gave you a lot

03:17:16.100 I've had a lot worse

03:17:18.140 treatment than that

03:17:18.720 you could

03:17:19.380 you seemed like girls 1.00

03:17:20.700 but like obviously

03:17:21.580 not interested

03:17:22.320 so if I was the guy

03:17:23.220 I would have instantly

03:17:23.780 been like

03:17:24.180 oh okay

03:17:24.740 have a good night

03:17:25.220 yeah but you gotta

03:17:25.820 break through the shell

03:17:26.780 a little bit

03:17:28.120 but if you're

03:17:30.280 if you are a girl

03:17:31.620 that is out

03:17:32.320 on a girls night

03:17:33.280 down to go home

03:17:35.020 with someone

03:17:35.500 you're not gonna have

03:17:36.920 that front facade

03:17:38.380 yeah why do you have a shell

03:17:39.220 I don't have a shell

03:17:40.780 a what

03:17:41.500 you call it a shell

03:17:42.760 you gotta break through the shell

03:17:43.860 like if you have an MO

03:17:44.860 that's how it is

03:17:45.440 like if I see a guy

03:17:46.580 I look him up and down

03:17:48.120 I'm like

03:17:48.580 alright he's got like

03:17:49.320 funky garb

03:17:49.880 normally I won't just

03:17:50.660 approach girls like that 1.00

03:17:51.800 who I haven't had any

03:17:52.640 because normally girls 0.99

03:17:54.620 will put themselves

03:17:55.180 in your space

03:17:55.940 like if you're near them

03:17:57.300 at the bar

03:17:57.740 and they like

03:17:58.160 look close to you

03:17:58.880 if they like

03:17:59.240 give you the eyes

03:17:59.780 a little bit

03:18:00.200 they give you signals

03:18:01.460 if they've given you

03:18:02.480 no signals

03:18:03.060 they're not normally

03:18:03.700 like they'll stay

03:18:04.360 way away from you

03:18:05.420 even in the gym

03:18:06.340 if they come near you

03:18:07.140 and stuff

03:18:07.460 you just know

03:18:08.580 they want you to

03:18:09.000 we have a twitter post

03:18:10.060 of yours

03:18:10.640 oh no

03:18:11.620 don't do that

03:18:12.380 if you're able

03:18:13.040 to pull it up Nick

03:18:13.880 did I

03:18:16.580 wait scroll up

03:18:17.940 Nick scroll up

03:18:18.860 did I write this

03:18:22.680 why do all boys 1.00

03:18:23.620 get so boring

03:18:24.200 after like two weeks

03:18:24.980 why do they do that

03:18:25.940 I'm adding to the lore

03:18:26.740 of that joke

03:18:27.400 you know

03:18:27.980 oh Nick

03:18:29.440 did we close out

03:18:30.260 her other tweet

03:18:31.900 about the

03:18:32.700 at the club

03:18:33.380 talking to other

03:18:34.540 people's

03:18:35.640 oh my god

03:18:36.560 there's a lot of

03:18:37.080 bad stuff

03:18:37.320 we close

03:18:37.680 or non-traditional

03:18:39.920 we're gonna have

03:18:40.420 we're gonna have

03:18:41.540 at the bar

03:18:42.320 how do I tell men

03:18:44.880 I'm I think you meant

03:18:45.960 flirting with right 0.97

03:18:46.900 basically

03:18:47.780 I say flinging

03:18:49.000 oh which means

03:18:50.520 flirting right

03:18:51.320 yeah

03:18:51.720 okay

03:18:52.060 at the bar

03:18:53.260 that I want to

03:18:53.940 go explore the room

03:18:55.060 and flirt with strangers

03:18:55.820 a little

03:18:56.100 and I'll BRB

03:18:56.840 I stand by this

03:18:58.000 truthfully

03:18:58.980 like if I was

03:18:59.740 trying to talk to a girl 0.99

03:19:00.740 in the bar

03:19:01.180 I mean obviously

03:19:01.840 we're not dating

03:19:02.700 you're not committed to me

03:19:03.700 but if like

03:19:04.220 I was talking to you

03:19:05.660 and then I see you

03:19:06.380 like you want to

03:19:07.540 leave to talk to other men 0.76

03:19:08.820 like that's a wrap

03:19:10.060 I'm not gonna talk to you

03:19:10.920 we have established

03:19:12.160 that we would not work

03:19:13.660 this is just like

03:19:15.000 no but I'm saying

03:19:15.660 in general

03:19:16.260 but again that's a

03:19:17.060 cake and eat it too

03:19:17.820 moment

03:19:18.180 it's like you want

03:19:18.960 everything else

03:19:20.420 and then you

03:19:21.360 then you're

03:19:22.420 oh sorry

03:19:22.900 it's a cake and eat it too

03:19:25.860 moment

03:19:26.140 it's you want that guy 0.76

03:19:27.960 but you want that guy 0.81

03:19:28.720 to be okay with you

03:19:29.660 going around

03:19:30.180 I don't really want him

03:19:30.900 to be okay with it

03:19:31.700 if he's not okay with it

03:19:32.720 and I mention it to him

03:19:33.560 and he's like

03:19:33.940 oh not really my vibe

03:19:35.060 I'll be like

03:19:35.400 okay

03:19:35.800 why would you

03:19:37.280 if you're

03:19:37.840 why would any guy

03:19:40.240 be okay with that

03:19:40.620 because I went to

03:19:41.060 I was in Asia

03:19:41.840 and I went to

03:19:43.460 this like bar

03:19:44.400 with this guy

03:19:45.140 and he was

03:19:45.800 just like really all over me

03:19:47.320 and I wasn't feeling him

03:19:48.080 that hard

03:19:48.680 and so I was like

03:19:49.160 okay I want to like

03:19:49.900 enjoy this party

03:19:51.100 and meet other people

03:19:52.160 I don't want to be like

03:19:53.040 attached at the hip

03:19:53.920 to this person

03:19:54.580 I don't really know that well

03:19:55.660 you know

03:19:56.140 like we're not that close

03:19:57.840 we're not flinging like that

03:19:58.960 so like

03:19:59.600 I'm gonna go

03:20:01.140 look around

03:20:02.280 have fun

03:20:04.040 have fun

03:20:04.060 for a while

03:20:04.900 talk to some people

03:20:06.540 get a drink

03:20:08.000 you know

03:20:08.600 did you show up

03:20:09.660 with him

03:20:10.180 yeah

03:20:10.980 wait

03:20:12.240 you went to the bar

03:20:13.480 with him

03:20:13.980 mhm

03:20:14.560 what was the context

03:20:16.340 um

03:20:18.040 there was like

03:20:18.540 it's like an island

03:20:19.620 that you can get to

03:20:20.180 like each side

03:20:20.960 by like

03:20:21.500 in like 8 minutes

03:20:22.640 in Thailand

03:20:23.300 Koh Phi Phi 0.97

03:20:24.540 um

03:20:25.120 Koh Tao

03:20:26.060 yeah

03:20:27.100 and so

03:20:27.720 you just like

03:20:28.120 run into the same

03:20:28.520 people all the time

03:20:29.180 so like

03:20:29.580 I don't really

03:20:29.880 like know him

03:20:30.560 like that

03:20:30.840 was it a date

03:20:31.380 did you guys

03:20:31.860 organize to go

03:20:32.560 to the bar

03:20:32.880 together

03:20:33.160 I mean we

03:20:35.060 organized to go

03:20:35.560 to the bar

03:20:35.860 together

03:20:36.140 wait

03:20:37.120 but you

03:20:37.500 hold on

03:20:38.080 but wait

03:20:38.500 wait

03:20:38.780 it didn't feel

03:20:39.760 like a date

03:20:40.280 because obviously

03:20:41.120 it's just like

03:20:41.480 some traveling

03:20:41.960 how did you meet

03:20:42.580 him

03:20:42.760 how did you

03:20:44.060 meet him

03:20:44.440 I think I met

03:20:47.460 him on the beach

03:20:49.460 because I would go

03:20:50.220 to this beach bar

03:20:51.400 all the time

03:20:51.800 and I'd just hang

03:20:52.360 out with the bartender

03:20:53.060 there

03:20:53.280 so it wasn't a

03:20:54.060 dating app

03:20:54.500 it was you met

03:20:55.120 him on the beach

03:20:55.640 and he asked

03:20:57.880 it was

03:20:58.340 was the subtext

03:20:59.760 kind of

03:21:00.200 he was romantically

03:21:01.320 interested in you

03:21:02.200 oh for sure

03:21:03.200 had you guys

03:21:03.580 already hooked up

03:21:04.660 no

03:21:04.900 we're kissing

03:21:05.580 wait hold on

03:21:06.820 you'd already kissed

03:21:07.560 you'd already kissed him

03:21:08.460 we were kissing in the bar

03:21:09.620 okay

03:21:11.160 so

03:21:11.760 was this before

03:21:13.980 was this

03:21:14.480 you kissed him

03:21:15.260 wait you kissed him

03:21:17.120 and then you wanted

03:21:17.920 to go flirt with other men 0.51

03:21:19.040 yes

03:21:20.540 you kissed him

03:21:21.200 at the bar

03:21:21.680 that you wanted

03:21:22.100 to go flirt

03:21:22.640 with the other men

03:21:23.240 well once you

03:21:24.260 yeah cause like

03:21:25.220 I was just realizing

03:21:26.440 through that hangout

03:21:28.140 that I was just

03:21:29.340 not feeling this guy

03:21:30.880 as much as he was

03:21:31.760 feeling

03:21:32.240 energy and

03:21:32.460 sort of vibes

03:21:33.200 yeah

03:21:33.520 like he was like

03:21:34.520 attaching at the hips 0.83

03:21:35.340 follow me around

03:21:36.020 and like

03:21:36.480 we were like a huge

03:21:37.480 group of our friends

03:21:38.220 too from that island

03:21:39.080 so the chakras 0.99

03:21:39.920 just went aligning

03:21:40.680 and the energy

03:21:41.200 and the vibes

03:21:41.760 and you wanted

03:21:42.100 to just sort of

03:21:42.540 be happy

03:21:42.900 the energy

03:21:42.920 and the vibe

03:21:43.380 but when that happened

03:21:45.000 did you establish

03:21:45.860 that you were no longer

03:21:46.820 interested

03:21:47.320 and that you were

03:21:47.880 going to go talk

03:21:48.340 to other people

03:21:48.740 that's what that post

03:21:49.340 is about

03:21:49.760 how do I mention

03:21:50.560 to the guy

03:21:51.040 that I'm flinging with

03:21:51.940 but did you

03:21:53.060 I'm not

03:21:53.680 but did you

03:21:54.640 I'm a great communicator

03:21:56.000 flinging

03:21:56.600 I thought you

03:21:57.540 misspelled

03:21:58.360 like you were flirting

03:21:59.180 but this was a fling

03:22:00.660 you were flinging

03:22:01.160 it was a fling

03:22:01.720 I was flinging

03:22:02.320 but you said

03:22:03.540 you hadn't hooked up

03:22:04.240 with him yet

03:22:04.720 no other than

03:22:05.640 just kissing in the bar

03:22:06.260 that night

03:22:06.400 to be honest

03:22:06.840 that seems a little

03:22:08.000 bit malicious

03:22:08.540 oh well

03:22:11.000 oh

03:22:11.320 what do you have

03:22:12.420 to say about that

03:22:13.360 huh

03:22:14.460 I mean

03:22:15.020 that's why I try

03:22:15.960 to have good

03:22:16.760 communication like that

03:22:18.020 cause like

03:22:18.500 that might be hurtful

03:22:19.540 because I have

03:22:20.360 these intentions

03:22:21.020 for myself

03:22:21.840 and my night

03:22:22.440 but I try to

03:22:23.380 as quickly as I can

03:22:24.380 figure out

03:22:24.980 that I feel that way

03:22:25.880 like oh

03:22:26.480 this guy was cute

03:22:27.300 and we were having

03:22:27.820 fun at that bar

03:22:28.420 this morning

03:22:28.920 but now that we're

03:22:29.880 out here

03:22:30.380 I'm not feeling it

03:22:31.760 I'm gonna move on

03:22:33.560 and I'm gonna tell him

03:22:34.660 that I'm not gonna

03:22:35.140 like just leave him

03:22:36.120 and be like 1.00

03:22:36.760 fuck you 1.00

03:22:38.300 and if you wanna be 1.00

03:22:39.340 essentially that's

03:22:39.920 what you did though

03:22:40.780 right

03:22:40.980 I mean what

03:22:42.640 should I just like

03:22:43.340 never like ghost him

03:22:44.520 you know you have to

03:22:45.380 I think you probably

03:22:46.420 should have

03:22:46.900 I think you probably

03:22:47.480 should have been like

03:22:48.000 I'm just gonna go

03:22:48.600 back home

03:22:49.080 thanks I've had a good

03:22:50.280 night but I'm not

03:22:50.780 feeling so well

03:22:51.380 or something like that

03:22:51.980 and just maybe

03:22:52.500 leave the bar

03:22:53.040 rather than just

03:22:53.660 like him watching

03:22:55.840 you go

03:22:56.380 we're out with a

03:22:57.420 group of friends

03:22:58.300 sounds like you're

03:22:58.960 trying to incite

03:22:59.720 a little bit of

03:23:00.160 jealousy maybe

03:23:00.800 well I hope

03:23:02.380 not but I guess

03:23:03.300 people are more

03:23:03.920 jealous than I am

03:23:04.820 and so I can

03:23:06.000 admit maybe I

03:23:07.080 can unintentionally

03:23:09.380 hurt people's

03:23:09.980 feelings in the way

03:23:10.740 that I interact

03:23:11.340 with the world

03:23:11.800 if I just made

03:23:12.820 out with a girl

03:23:13.440 and I saw her

03:23:14.120 go off and

03:23:15.200 flirt with a bunch

03:23:16.880 of other dudes

03:23:17.460 at the bar

03:23:17.920 yeah I'd feel

03:23:18.540 a certain type

03:23:19.020 of way about that

03:23:19.660 you're not my

03:23:19.820 future boyfriend

03:23:20.660 that I'm not

03:23:21.680 that's cool

03:23:23.460 my future boyfriend

03:23:24.520 we're gonna go

03:23:25.320 out late nights

03:23:27.200 as long as you're

03:23:27.920 happy

03:23:28.060 we're gonna feel

03:23:28.520 like we don't

03:23:28.860 know each other

03:23:29.440 I'm gonna sit

03:23:29.760 across the bar

03:23:30.500 with my drink

03:23:31.360 you're gonna have

03:23:32.300 a

03:23:32.500 and I'm gonna

03:23:32.820 watch him

03:23:33.420 flirt with women

03:23:34.440 you see I think

03:23:35.200 it comes out

03:23:35.780 after I'm always

03:23:36.500 a little bit

03:23:36.900 suspicious of

03:23:38.080 the like

03:23:38.860 everything's all

03:23:39.940 love lovey

03:23:40.640 dovey

03:23:41.020 you know

03:23:41.820 all peace and

03:23:42.940 energy and love

03:23:43.760 types because

03:23:44.540 at the end of the

03:23:45.320 day that's quite

03:23:46.500 mean what you did

03:23:47.260 there don't you

03:23:47.720 think

03:23:47.940 well I don't

03:23:48.920 think any person

03:23:49.720 is perfect and I

03:23:50.540 think I try my

03:23:51.400 best to lead

03:23:52.420 seems like you

03:23:53.020 kind of enjoyed it

03:23:53.680 a little bit

03:23:54.940 I don't enjoy

03:23:56.880 hurting someone

03:23:57.720 of course not

03:23:58.480 but I do feel

03:24:00.460 like maybe because

03:24:01.200 I'm young I am

03:24:02.180 selfish and I

03:24:03.300 will recognize that

03:24:04.300 and so what I

03:24:05.660 wanted to do that

03:24:06.580 night was in the

03:24:08.000 moment more

03:24:08.640 important than

03:24:09.840 maybe being like

03:24:10.600 I'll go home and

03:24:11.620 not hurt this

03:24:12.420 person

03:24:12.840 did I set out to

03:24:13.720 hurt them no

03:24:14.400 I don't think a

03:24:15.200 lot of people

03:24:15.660 more interesting

03:24:16.160 question at what

03:24:17.360 point did he lose

03:24:18.020 your respect because

03:24:18.780 there's there's a

03:24:19.220 moment there

03:24:19.600 I can tell that

03:24:20.900 there's an ick

03:24:21.300 moment there

03:24:21.820 what was it

03:24:23.140 that I lose he

03:24:24.200 lost my respect

03:24:24.680 yeah yeah he lost

03:24:25.500 your respect at

03:24:26.060 some point I

03:24:26.640 really don't like

03:24:28.000 when guys lead

03:24:30.480 primarily with sex

03:24:31.840 and so it was very

03:24:34.020 physical and I

03:24:35.180 wanted because like

03:24:36.160 I am a sexual

03:24:37.240 person and I'm 0.99

03:24:37.960 happy to have sex 0.94

03:24:39.020 and I also value 0.96

03:24:42.460 people that will

03:24:43.320 like kind of do

03:24:44.800 more of that fun

03:24:45.440 dance of like

03:24:46.640 getting to know

03:24:47.280 each other see how

03:24:48.160 we would work

03:24:48.800 you want a little

03:24:48.880 bit more mystery

03:24:49.540 he killed the

03:24:50.140 mystery straight

03:24:50.720 away you had

03:24:51.220 nothing to long

03:24:51.820 for anymore so

03:24:52.780 not mystery again

03:24:53.660 like that's exactly

03:24:54.180 the opposite of

03:24:54.880 what I want I

03:24:55.480 want more genuine

03:24:56.320 human connection

03:24:57.280 and I felt it was

03:24:58.800 a little bit just

03:24:59.460 to like I'm on a

03:25:00.740 trip you're hot I'm

03:25:02.940 hot let's do this

03:25:04.140 and I'm like that's

03:25:04.660 not what I'm looking

03:25:05.140 for were you a

03:25:06.460 little bit resentful

03:25:07.360 what were you

03:25:08.160 looking for though

03:25:08.900 there's fun little

03:25:10.840 like balled up

03:25:12.320 moments of human

03:25:13.380 connection where I'm

03:25:14.480 like wow you are

03:25:15.840 such a cool person

03:25:17.080 and I really enjoy

03:25:18.120 your company and

03:25:20.120 this is what a

03:25:20.900 great night we're

03:25:21.620 having peace and

03:25:22.020 love and kumbaya

03:25:22.740 but no sex

03:25:23.900 okay you're like

03:25:24.480 wait you're doing

03:25:25.340 a bit

03:25:25.660 yeah yeah

03:25:26.260 can you scoot

03:25:26.520 your mic

03:25:27.420 but like there's a

03:25:28.340 there's a what I'm

03:25:29.400 trying to get at

03:25:29.840 though is there's a

03:25:30.280 there's a point where

03:25:30.860 this guy's lost your

03:25:31.600 respect I don't care

03:25:32.820 and then exactly you

03:25:33.960 don't care and then

03:25:35.100 you've gone and like

03:25:36.060 done this and it

03:25:36.760 seems like there was a

03:25:37.420 moment where you kind

03:25:38.340 of were a little

03:25:38.820 bit resentful of him

03:25:39.560 and you wanted to

03:25:40.600 she said he was

03:25:42.580 too sex forward

03:25:43.640 he was too one

03:25:45.360 track minded

03:25:45.860 I don't want to 1.00

03:25:46.420 fuck you or hang 1.00

03:25:47.500 out with you anymore 1.00

03:25:48.420 because this is not

03:25:49.200 what I'm looking for

03:25:49.940 peace love have a

03:25:50.920 good night I'm not

03:25:51.520 resentful

03:25:51.960 but was he touching

03:25:52.740 you was he making

03:25:53.840 out with you too

03:25:54.620 aggressively was he

03:25:55.800 doing things

03:25:56.200 you can just tell

03:25:56.440 you're a woman you

03:25:57.200 know when like

03:25:57.940 you're on a date

03:25:58.520 with a man

03:25:58.840 I'm so confused

03:25:59.340 here's what I'm

03:26:00.680 confused about

03:26:01.240 in the context of

03:26:03.080 you traveling

03:26:04.000 what exactly like

03:26:06.780 what is on the

03:26:07.660 table besides a

03:26:09.000 short-term casual

03:26:10.780 sexual encounter

03:26:11.620 because like if I'm

03:26:12.940 traveling and I

03:26:14.180 I mean if you are

03:26:16.280 traveling long-term

03:26:18.260 relationship is kind of

03:26:19.660 off the table you're

03:26:20.480 both you're both

03:26:21.240 what's that

03:26:22.220 I'm not looking for

03:26:22.820 a long-term

03:26:23.180 relationship

03:26:23.500 exactly but so

03:26:24.660 why would you be

03:26:25.460 upset in a context

03:26:26.860 where it would make

03:26:27.500 sense where the

03:26:28.500 only thing on the

03:26:29.280 table is a short-term

03:26:30.920 casual encounter that

03:26:32.320 that's what he was

03:26:33.080 pursuing because even

03:26:34.720 you say you don't

03:26:35.460 hold on let me finish

03:26:36.280 you even said you're

03:26:37.480 not looking for a

03:26:38.140 long-term thing when

03:26:39.340 people are traveling

03:26:40.220 like if some girl is 1.00

03:26:41.840 in town here and

03:26:44.120 she's in town for a 0.66

03:26:45.260 week she's probably 0.95

03:26:46.620 not looking for a

03:26:47.980 long-term thing

03:26:49.140 because just the

03:26:49.900 context makes it

03:26:51.040 nearly impossible

03:26:51.680 because she's going

03:26:52.460 back 500 but you

03:26:54.100 can still care about

03:26:55.140 people like if this

03:26:56.340 guy's just like trying 0.99

03:26:57.000 to fuck me he's not 1.00

03:26:57.880 asking about me he's 1.00

03:26:59.020 not interested in like

03:26:59.980 so you vibing with

03:27:01.380 me outside of just

03:27:02.760 like kissing like

03:27:04.240 touching all this

03:27:05.240 and girls you guys

03:27:06.060 know that if you go

03:27:06.680 on a date with

03:27:07.120 someone I mean you

03:27:07.880 want they have

03:27:09.140 different motives and

03:27:10.080 what you want so I'm

03:27:11.060 fine with short-term

03:27:11.880 relationships short-term

03:27:13.360 but you want them to

03:27:14.300 pretend like they care

03:27:15.520 about you so I'm

03:27:16.380 well if they don't

03:27:16.980 care about me like he

03:27:17.620 didn't then I'm I

03:27:18.680 don't want you to

03:27:19.120 pretend I want you

03:27:19.860 but do you want a

03:27:22.240 guy to to care like

03:27:23.960 to care about like

03:27:26.320 you want you want

03:27:27.460 him to act like me

03:27:28.640 you want him to act

03:27:30.180 as if he would

03:27:31.400 pursue a long-term

03:27:33.280 relationship with you

03:27:34.280 even though the

03:27:35.120 subtext is we're not

03:27:36.760 going to be in a

03:27:37.260 long-term relationship

03:27:38.020 the only thing is is

03:27:39.560 sex is short-term 0.98

03:27:41.040 casual sex I'm 0.98

03:27:42.040 saying because I 0.97

03:27:42.800 want small like

03:27:44.560 bubbles of like

03:27:45.840 experiencing people I

03:27:47.180 want to know like all

03:27:48.820 about you I want to

03:27:50.040 know why but if it's

03:27:51.420 a short-term casual

03:27:52.220 sexual encounter what

03:27:53.880 would be the purpose of

03:27:55.380 getting this deep

03:27:56.320 connection with someone

03:27:57.320 for a short-term

03:27:58.720 love people because I

03:28:00.380 love experiencing and

03:28:01.720 finding out again I

03:28:03.620 got my whole point of

03:28:04.640 love or life is love

03:28:06.280 and to be loved and so

03:28:07.720 the point is not just 1.00

03:28:08.940 to fuck the point is to 0.99

03:28:10.460 experience so the one 0.99

03:28:12.060 time about you what I

03:28:13.820 don't understand is the

03:28:14.820 one time she's saying

03:28:15.920 she actually doesn't

03:28:17.140 just want to go and

03:28:18.140 sleep with someone is

03:28:18.980 when you guys are

03:28:19.620 confused so at once in

03:28:22.640 this conversation she's

03:28:23.720 actually saying my

03:28:24.980 motive was not to sleep

03:28:26.320 with this person

03:28:26.920 there's absolutely zero

03:28:27.660 confusion on my end

03:28:28.940 that she doesn't want

03:28:29.800 to sleep with anyone

03:28:30.560 that's not the

03:28:31.180 confusion the confusion

03:28:32.980 for me was the was the

03:28:34.640 motive that ended up

03:28:35.780 making you want to go

03:28:36.640 and float with other

03:28:37.340 guys in front of this

03:28:38.020 person who you've just

03:28:38.760 been kissing because to

03:28:39.900 me that's just like kind

03:28:41.720 of a mean thing to do

03:28:43.300 and I was just kind of

03:28:44.340 trying to get to the

03:28:44.960 bottom of what was

03:28:45.620 what he did that pissed

03:28:47.040 you off that made you

03:28:48.160 want to go do that in

03:28:48.860 front of him because

03:28:49.320 females can be very 1.00

03:28:50.600 vicious like that if 0.99

03:28:51.580 they get pissed off by

03:28:53.080 something then they

03:28:54.020 will go and do something

03:28:54.920 to really like I didn't

03:28:56.300 mean to be vicious and I

03:28:57.100 didn't set out to hurt

03:28:57.960 him I did not know this

03:29:00.380 man enough to consider

03:29:02.640 that would be a big deal

03:29:04.560 and in retrospect that

03:29:07.060 probably could have hurt 0.96

03:29:07.800 him and that sucks I 0.99

03:29:09.500 don't want to do that to 0.97

03:29:10.080 people so I for example

03:29:12.380 like I don't get if if

03:29:14.560 a girl's on a dating app 0.80

03:29:15.600 and she's like oh I'm

03:29:17.020 in town in Santa Barbara

03:29:19.000 for a week or for the

03:29:21.100 weekend and they're like

03:29:23.720 actively looking to meet

03:29:24.980 up with a guy now I get

03:29:26.800 it there's some girls who 1.00

03:29:27.660 like want the fucking 0.99

03:29:28.580 tour guide because that 0.99

03:29:30.280 whatever that's weird but

03:29:31.820 it's like why would you

03:29:33.700 be on a dating app while

03:29:34.920 you're traveling while

03:29:35.920 you're and I'm not saying

03:29:36.720 I don't know if you were

03:29:37.340 on the dating app but I've

03:29:38.240 encountered this where the

03:29:40.180 girl's like hey I'm in

03:29:41.340 town for a week I want

03:29:42.320 to meet up with a

03:29:43.020 dude you're going back

03:29:45.080 to New York in three

03:29:46.860 days my assumption there

03:29:49.260 is you want a short-term

03:29:50.700 sexual encounter but I've

03:29:52.420 had an experience with a

03:29:53.480 girl granted she met she

03:29:54.820 might have just not been

03:29:55.560 interested but met up for

03:29:57.860 a date and she's in town

03:30:00.020 for four days and I'm

03:30:01.900 like okay this is just she

03:30:03.380 wants to hook up and then

03:30:05.000 we're we're at the bar I'm

03:30:06.160 not like we we met up for

03:30:07.900 a drink or something and I

03:30:10.620 was like we hung out we

03:30:11.820 were actually having a

03:30:12.820 very pleasant conversation

03:30:13.840 and I'm like hey do you

03:30:16.520 want to go back to my

03:30:17.680 place and she's like I

03:30:18.920 don't do that on the

03:30:19.600 first date I'm like bro

03:30:20.920 you're in town for two 0.99

03:30:22.140 days what the fuck like I 0.99

03:30:24.560 mean it's fine it's cool 0.98

03:30:26.220 but I'm like we don't have

03:30:29.020 time for a second date like

03:30:31.120 hello I acknowledge that my

03:30:33.140 dating style is non-traditional

03:30:34.760 which is why like I put that

03:30:35.900 in my application that not a

03:30:38.260 lot of people set out to

03:30:39.900 date people for what I set

03:30:41.500 out to date people for no

03:30:43.660 I don't really necessarily

03:30:45.120 have a problem with your

03:30:45.800 dating style the thing I

03:30:46.780 have a problem with is the

03:30:47.660 whole like I just love

03:30:48.740 people it's like did you

03:30:49.940 love that guy when you did

03:30:50.920 that boom roasted I think

03:30:53.460 I like said as much as I

03:30:56.480 can on that like people are

03:30:58.660 imperfect yeah and being

03:31:01.400 young and selfish you do

03:31:02.760 things that you're not

03:31:03.520 always like oh that's

03:31:04.680 awesome like I don't mean to

03:31:07.160 hurt this person that I

03:31:08.120 met that day and I could

03:31:11.080 have and that sucks I don't

03:31:12.440 want that so I'll just avoid

03:31:16.100 the whole like I just love

03:31:17.620 it but that language is just

03:31:18.820 just grinds me I will not

03:31:20.660 gregnack donated $99 she

03:31:25.260 wants to break the heart of

03:31:26.640 men if she wants to get to 1.00

03:31:27.940 know them and does this crap 1.00

03:31:29.340 she's a psychopath mrs 1.00

03:31:31.460 marsnoir I predict your 1.00

03:31:32.920 future for you you hit the

03:31:34.220 wall at probably 30 no guy

03:31:35.980 that you want once you and

03:31:37.260 you will die alone wow you 1.00

03:31:39.360 need Jesus out damn do you 1.00

03:31:42.920 have a response to gregnack I 0.99

03:31:46.760 mean again just kind of off of

03:31:49.620 what I've been saying like

03:31:50.840 nutnery is an option I know my

03:31:55.100 intention I know the people

03:31:58.140 that I date are down for what I

03:32:02.160 what I got on the table what I'm

03:32:04.260 throwing you know they're they

03:32:06.500 can swing it so I I don't feel

03:32:10.300 offended by people being like

03:32:12.440 you're gonna die alone because I

03:32:14.100 don't like how you do things 0.99

03:32:15.200 that's like okay sorry what do you

03:32:16.860 want for me I'm growing I'm

03:32:18.640 learning I'm dating I'm young and

03:32:19.880 I'm single and so I'm doing my

03:32:21.700 best here well you have some more

03:32:22.740 pre-show notes here you say I

03:32:24.200 think my hot take on dating is

03:32:26.540 that I think we should embrace

03:32:29.620 non-traditional dating more as a

03:32:31.320 society than we do I don't

03:32:33.000 believe in the ownership in a

03:32:34.240 relationship that see that seems

03:32:37.120 to be the norm in society I

03:32:39.060 strongly believe that for me to

03:32:40.980 have a healthy long-standing

03:32:42.520 relationship we need to support

03:32:44.620 each other in experiencing all

03:32:46.000 that life has to offer over this

03:32:47.540 in sex in love and experiences your 0.64

03:32:49.900 relationship shouldn't hold you

03:32:51.380 back from these experiences and

03:32:53.100 that stands on good

03:32:53.940 communication and trust what you

03:32:55.680 want and what you get from your

03:32:56.840 relationship is up to you and

03:32:58.000 your partner not social

03:32:59.420 expectations so when you say you

03:33:02.620 say you don't believe in the

03:33:03.580 ownership in a relationship we've

03:33:05.780 kind of all been over this did

03:33:07.180 we what but what precisely the

03:33:08.780 tape video like we've kind of like

03:33:10.540 roundabout at this okay point

03:33:12.400 okay yeah I thought I thought

03:33:16.320 maybe you had more on that

03:33:18.660 talking but you for example like

03:33:22.360 one of my standards for a girl 0.97

03:33:23.960 that I would take seriously in the

03:33:25.060 long-term relationship is I don't

03:33:27.040 one girl who's partying all the 1.00

03:33:28.640 time who's drinking who's going to

03:33:30.200 bars who's going to clubs to me

03:33:32.120 that does not a good relationship

03:33:33.760 make so if my girlfriend want that 1.00

03:33:37.220 for my boyfriend I wouldn't want my

03:33:38.660 boyfriend to feel that about me and

03:33:40.180 both of these opinions are chill you

03:33:42.860 know like you can think your way and

03:33:45.100 find the person that you want to

03:33:46.200 date and I can think my way and find

03:33:47.900 person I want to date and I think

03:33:49.200 both are fine but but what what we as

03:33:51.800 men often hear when we say yeah we

03:33:54.320 don't want our girlfriend going out to 1.00

03:33:56.220 bars clubs parties hang like going

03:33:59.820 into these party type environments

03:34:01.160 with their typically single female

03:34:02.980 friends who hate you we we hear

03:34:05.980 insecure controlling etc in my view is

03:34:10.940 what what the and you haven't said it

03:34:13.640 but what off what they often say is

03:34:15.100 insecure controlling what these people

03:34:17.040 call controlling insecure I consider

03:34:18.880 just a healthy boundary for a

03:34:21.000 relationship so I don't know if you

03:34:22.340 have a differing view on that if you

03:34:25.200 view you might say that that's

03:34:27.000 acceptable but you might view it as

03:34:28.320 controlling or insecure you might say

03:34:31.320 it's not it's a lack of trust or

03:34:32.820 something it's kind of like I said

03:34:33.960 earlier it's like it can be either you

03:34:37.600 know like and that's what's the fun of

03:34:39.420 meeting all the people and experiencing

03:34:41.460 people and like okay everyone's so

03:34:43.720 different and yeah maybe it'll come

03:34:46.080 from insecurity you had like a bad ex or

03:34:48.640 your parents had a bad marriage or

03:34:50.240 something and then maybe you can take

03:34:52.820 that and work in that relationship to

03:34:56.500 find your good boundary or it just comes

03:35:01.180 from like personal preference and you

03:35:03.080 rather your girlfriend not do stuff 0.52

03:35:05.540 like that and you'll find your person

03:35:07.260 that is be like yeah sounds like your

03:35:09.280 party like that's cool your person would

03:35:11.160 have like no boundaries though and I

03:35:13.280 think that you're like I said before

03:35:14.660 different than you're actually someone

03:35:16.340 who has quite like a big personality

03:35:18.340 and you would require a man who has

03:35:20.460 very strict boundaries big big yeah you

03:35:23.040 have a big personality you'd require a

03:35:24.740 man I'm really introverted this is

03:35:26.220 really like complimented yeah so you'd

03:35:29.580 require a man in from my observation

03:35:31.560 that would have quite strong boundaries

03:35:33.180 in order for you to respect him at all

03:35:35.040 because strong boundaries yeah strong

03:35:36.760 boundaries someone who's someone who's

03:35:38.220 assertive and someone who's quite a

03:35:39.400 masculine sort of guy sure and if they

03:35:40.700 mix with mine well like there's certain

03:35:43.020 things that I would be willing to sacrifice

03:35:47.100 for a relationship and things that I

03:35:49.860 wouldn't and they might be different

03:35:52.260 than yours but just like person to

03:35:53.980 person well I on your note here you say

03:35:57.380 I strongly believe that for me to have

03:35:59.200 and I already read this but I just have

03:36:00.720 a point on it I strongly believe that for

03:36:02.700 me to have a healthy long-standing

03:36:04.140 relationship we need to support each

03:36:06.280 other and experiencing all that life has

03:36:08.020 to offer in sex and love and

03:36:09.860 experiences when you say that in a

03:36:12.420 relationship we need to support each

03:36:14.900 other and experiencing all that life

03:36:16.660 has to offer in sex and love and

03:36:18.320 experiences are you talking about

03:36:20.580 sleeping with other people in a like

03:36:23.480 while in a relationship if it makes

03:36:25.580 sense for me and my partner yeah well is

03:36:27.600 that what you want sure yeah I have a

03:36:31.260 long-standing committed relationship I

03:36:33.580 definitely see myself being very

03:36:35.960 comfortable I'm not a very jealous person 0.81

03:36:37.420 and I think the only time that that sucks

03:36:40.180 is with cheating because you're doing 0.97

03:36:42.340 something malicious towards me you are

03:36:44.460 taking my trust for you and deciding 1.00

03:36:46.840 that fuck that my sexual urges are more 1.00

03:36:49.280 important so you would you would step out 1.00

03:36:51.320 as well um if I feel like it yeah if you

03:36:54.920 feel like it it's like a very broad way to

03:36:57.620 say that but like if you but any guy who

03:37:00.000 I'm not a super like any guy who lets his 0.99

03:37:02.400 girlfriend step out is a cock I saw you 1.00

03:37:05.980 wouldn't respect a car on the way he 1.00

03:37:07.640 said love to cut so well maybe he's

03:37:10.640 that I know I was like trying to wave

03:37:12.580 him down but the more serious point

03:37:15.640 though is that if if that were the case

03:37:18.320 you wouldn't respect that guy you'd

03:37:19.880 walk all over him you would absolutely 1.00

03:37:21.420 eat him alive sex is not the only way 0.99

03:37:23.960 to respect people I'm not talking about 0.98

03:37:26.320 that I'm talking about the actual like

03:37:27.760 fundamental respect in my partner is

03:37:31.260 cool with me having a sexual experience

03:37:33.740 outside of our relationship therefore 0.99

03:37:35.380 unrespectable bad guy walk all over him

03:37:38.840 no I don't feel that you said I'm not I'm

03:37:42.400 more talking about like a fundamental

03:37:43.680 respect that relate that happens in a

03:37:45.720 relationship and this normally happens

03:37:47.060 when the girl feels like the guy is in

03:37:49.740 control and that he's taking the lead

03:37:51.400 and she can she can respect him and she

03:37:53.560 can respect his authority and she can

03:37:55.800 respect the decisions that he makes and

03:37:57.340 think when we if you just let me finish

03:37:59.500 my point if and she respects his the

03:38:01.620 decisions that he makes and that yeah

03:38:04.000 that easily when she has a problem he

03:38:05.800 can solve it and generally a guy likes

03:38:08.220 to be respected we have we have egos all

03:38:11.020 of us guys and like I said before there's

03:38:12.860 certain superpowers that you girls have

03:38:15.600 that if you just tapped into would be so

03:38:18.060 so powerful and one of those things is

03:38:20.440 just making a guy feel respected if you

03:38:22.620 know how to make a man feel respected

03:38:24.220 but I think respect is earned through

03:38:26.380 communication like if my partner that shows

03:38:28.780 closer like okay if my partner is like

03:38:31.880 if we get together and have a

03:38:33.560 conversation and come to our boundaries

03:38:35.360 and agreements it's not disrespecting

03:38:37.680 you disrespecting you would be to hear

03:38:39.860 what you're cool with and not cool with

03:38:41.540 like to hear that you don't want me to

03:38:43.560 like flirt people at the bar I tell you

03:38:44.720 what respect would be respect would be

03:38:46.780 me telling you my boundaries and you

03:38:48.520 saying yes sir yeah yes your mouth is

03:38:52.340 quivering as you're saying yes daddy

03:38:53.740 like I feel like most healthy well

03:39:01.660 adjusted men are not gonna be cool with 0.99

03:39:04.560 their girlfriend wanting to fuck or 1.00

03:39:07.160 actually fucking other dudes you always 1.00

03:39:09.440 bring it back to fucking and it's not 0.99

03:39:10.860 like but that's what we're talking about 0.99

03:39:13.060 that's pretty important yeah like okay

03:39:16.600 fine I wouldn't want you to be I

03:39:18.340 wouldn't want you to be emotionally

03:39:19.580 cheating either I wouldn't want you to be

03:39:21.460 flirting with other dudes either what

03:39:23.700 what under like what other contexts are

03:39:25.760 there those are great contexts just

03:39:27.840 saying like they're all going back to 0.96

03:39:29.100 fucking and I just I don't know I feel 0.98

03:39:31.060 like with the people that I know and 0.99

03:39:32.820 surround myself with where like you

03:39:34.820 surround yourself with a lot of people

03:39:36.160 that are in your faith and respect your

03:39:39.040 like virginity and probably feel the

03:39:41.600 same most atheist men don't want their 1.00

03:39:46.280 girlfriend fucking other dudes it's 1.00

03:39:48.020 not about religion I'm not making it 1.00

03:39:49.760 about religion I'm just saying she

03:39:51.420 surrounds herself no I don't I don't

03:39:53.700 know I'm just trying to remember

03:39:54.360 yourself with like-minded people yes

03:39:56.140 yeah yeah it's not about thank you

03:39:57.500 liberal atheist men probably don't want 0.87

03:39:59.940 their girlfriend it's not about

03:40:01.860 religion it's just like like-minded 1.00

03:40:03.300 people so I actually it's a problem of

03:40:07.100 morality so yeah yeah it is a religious 0.68

03:40:09.720 problem and you're you're a liberal I'm

03:40:12.840 assuming liberal atheist um not an atheist

03:40:16.120 um yeah agnostic I don't know I was she

03:40:20.320 believes in the moon god yeah I grew up

03:40:22.640 catholic and then I had um I moved out

03:40:27.880 really young and I kind of stopped

03:40:31.340 practicing faith okay so I've never

03:40:33.500 really like picked it up and actually

03:40:34.820 going to Thailand was like the first 1.00

03:40:36.060 time in a long time that I've remet

03:40:37.580 spiritual people outside Buddhist of I

03:40:41.500 mean people from all over of different

03:40:42.680 religions like Buddhist too for sure but

03:40:45.980 yeah I don't have like a idea of what

03:40:48.980 my faith is you know it's one of those

03:40:51.000 like moments yeah do you ever see

03:40:53.260 yourself being monogamous of course oh

03:40:55.900 okay yeah but I mean you I feel like

03:40:59.320 you'd be a very dangerous person to get

03:41:00.840 into a serious monogamous relationship

03:41:03.060 with just because of your proclivities

03:41:04.840 towards wanting to experience all that

03:41:07.160 life has to offer in sex and love and

03:41:08.720 experiences I would hope that I would

03:41:10.380 find like-minded people that make sense

03:41:13.340 for me that's what everyone hopes in a

03:41:14.560 relationship and if we agreed like hey

03:41:18.120 like let's just do us it's not gonna

03:41:20.220 like again like I believe in like

03:41:24.520 experiencing everything and not holding

03:41:27.100 people back but at the same time like

03:41:28.680 you're doing a give and take in a

03:41:30.220 relationship sure I don't know um wait I

03:41:32.780 want to pull up your Twitter really

03:41:34.640 quick then we're gonna move on okay

03:41:37.560 another Twitter clip no the first

03:41:39.840 Twitter thing from her okay let's say

03:41:41.780 like be careful in there yeah be

03:41:44.340 careful why do all boys get so boring

03:41:47.020 after like two weeks why do they do

03:41:48.620 that I don't know if we really dove deep

03:41:51.200 on this so the guys get boring right

03:41:53.520 it's just a gag it's just a gag I was

03:41:56.440 saying I was like I'm adding more to a

03:41:58.100 funny joke Gregneck donated $99 she

03:42:01.760 says that she wants all that like a

03:42:03.680 long-term committed relationship sure

03:42:05.860 Santa is real and the Pope is

03:42:07.460 Presbyterian holy Brian where do you

03:42:10.300 find these people I'm sorry the truth

03:42:12.980 is every girl that does s work dies 1.00

03:42:15.020 alone or with a simp she don't respect

03:42:17.200 true

03:42:18.960 I don't know man

03:42:20.520 yes

03:42:21.780 Gregneck

03:42:24.020 you really hit the soundboard on that

03:42:26.400 I had it I had to hit it I had to hit it

03:42:29.080 pull up the tweet once again so you're

03:42:31.220 saying that it's just like a joke yeah

03:42:33.660 because like I had two really long

03:42:34.980 relationships back-to-back and I

03:42:36.380 started dating more casually well you

03:42:38.020 said you've been single for three

03:42:38.880 years and none of them like nothing's

03:42:40.480 lasted longer than two weeks and you

03:42:42.300 said you get bored super easily so it's

03:42:45.340 like an over-exaggeration of like my

03:42:46.840 point of like trying to get the basis

03:42:48.560 of how I date up but when you say

03:42:51.000 bored like do you feel that we as men

03:42:54.060 are ought to be your entertainers no it's

03:42:58.220 like the okay let's say I'm like dating

03:43:00.220 a guy yeah and we're having a lot of

03:43:01.780 fun when we hang out but maybe like we

03:43:04.100 have fun when we're out at the movies

03:43:07.540 or like driving around town but when

03:43:09.580 we're at home sitting and talking it's

03:43:11.740 just not doing it I'm like I'd rather

03:43:13.980 just cut it off then like keep doing

03:43:17.200 this is a great person but you're not

03:43:19.160 the person for me too much when you guys

03:43:21.460 have all this life experience and you

03:43:23.460 have all of these different guys the

03:43:24.660 laundry list grows and you're and

03:43:26.560 you're like we had a great time

03:43:27.660 outside yeah but when I was with you

03:43:29.740 know Dean we used to have a great time

03:43:31.540 at home as well and then when I was

03:43:33.760 with him we used to have great sex and

03:43:35.360 the sex isn't as good and then the 0.97

03:43:36.860 laundry list grows like basic boring

03:43:38.220 topics like he can't talk to me about

03:43:39.640 like yeah politics or he can't talk to

03:43:42.280 me about like current events he can't

03:43:44.380 talk to me about like anything so the

03:43:45.700 reason why you keep getting bored to

03:43:47.600 respond to your tweet is because you

03:43:49.980 have too many things that you're trying

03:43:52.060 to look for too many boxes you can't

03:43:53.740 let them go I think one thing related

03:43:56.780 to that that someone will do is they'll

03:43:59.200 if they've dated a lot of men they

03:44:02.260 will want the amalgamation of those men

03:44:05.940 so this guy was really good in bed this

03:44:08.020 guy had a great personality this guy was

03:44:09.740 the provider this guy had the status

03:44:11.800 whatever it is but you're dating people

03:44:13.780 not amalgamations and I feel again like

03:44:15.700 but women want the total package they 1.00

03:44:18.000 want the amalgamation talking to me

03:44:19.300 about my tweet okay we can come back to

03:44:21.540 the tweet then so we're talking about

03:44:23.660 specifics not general I'm just curious

03:44:25.120 how so the three years you say you keep

03:44:27.540 finding yourself in these two week

03:44:28.960 things and you get bored or you move on

03:44:31.620 or whatever and you seem to be the one

03:44:33.060 who ends all of them how many of these

03:44:35.260 two week things would you say there have

03:44:36.860 been dozens so like the first year being

03:44:40.740 single I was celibate didn't date

03:44:43.480 anybody for a year for a year had a long

03:44:46.540 relationship didn't work out it was a

03:44:48.340 lot of emotional stress needed some time

03:44:50.560 alone to be young and grow into my own

03:44:52.640 self before getting back into the sauce

03:44:55.600 um I don't know I just because I go on a

03:45:01.620 lot of dates I don't know like how long

03:45:03.340 you go on a lot of dates what do you mean

03:45:04.980 those free dinners no I actually am I'm

03:45:12.900 very Dutch you split the bill often yeah

03:45:16.180 okay that's fine um when you say you go on a

03:45:18.840 lot of dates what are we talking about a

03:45:19.980 couple times a week

03:45:20.620 um maybe some weeks what's that maybe

03:45:23.980 some weeks but not like how many in the

03:45:28.140 past so hard to tell in 2023 how many

03:45:31.220 2023 first dates have you been on

03:45:33.380 hmm could not tell you above 50 give us

03:45:40.340 give us a range below 50 for sure um

03:45:43.840 20 20 first dates 25 30 so 20 to 30

03:45:52.200 I don't know you don't know okay yeah

03:45:55.440 and uh how many two week things have you

03:45:59.520 had um like two weeks to like a month so

03:46:05.380 well I count them on my fingers um I don't

03:46:12.160 know like less than six okay

03:46:17.740 word but you said when you're just

03:46:22.160 hanging out with them

03:46:23.360 that guy at the house that's when you

03:46:27.360 get bored that was that guy's reason

03:46:29.160 that specific guy that was about the

03:46:30.780 other guys you get bored of them um one

03:46:33.600 guy I couldn't see us having like a life

03:46:37.680 that made sense together because of what

03:46:39.520 his goals were for his life it's like

03:46:42.840 that's like never like anything like so

03:46:44.500 terribly crazy you know like you don't 0.64

03:46:47.440 make enough or something it's just like I

03:46:49.080 just don't see our lives working

03:46:50.340 together and but you say you get bored

03:46:52.440 that's what that's what I'm trying

03:46:53.660 because it's a part of the lore of the

03:46:55.040 joke the lore of the joke yeah are you

03:46:58.880 a lord this is a lot of questions yeah

03:47:01.820 this is the inquisition um I mean just

03:47:04.080 my my whole thing on this boredom thing

03:47:05.960 um I definitely think like if a girl is

03:47:09.080 bored just hanging out with you that's a

03:47:13.000 pretty bad sign I mean bad sign that's

03:47:15.420 why it is but but like for example I 0.99

03:47:17.900 think if a girl really fucking likes you 0.99

03:47:20.840 she will be super stoked to just hang 1.00

03:47:23.860 out with you and do nothing once once

03:47:26.740 your girl like being with you once you're

03:47:28.480 not gonna you're not gonna mesh with

03:47:30.160 every single person ever sure I just

03:47:32.100 love meeting people and experiencing

03:47:33.720 people and that's gonna make it very

03:47:35.200 hard for you to find a long-term

03:47:36.440 relationship ever match huh what do you

03:47:38.720 think will you ever match totally but

03:47:41.620 but like once your girl like if you've

03:47:44.520 otherwise been just hanging out with your

03:47:45.880 girl and then she starts saying oh can 0.99

03:47:49.600 we go out and do more things I'm bored

03:47:52.420 that you're you're you might as well

03:47:56.100 break up at that point I feel like at

03:47:58.040 that point you don't appreciate you

03:47:59.440 she doesn't respect you anymore like a 1.00

03:48:01.160 girl who respects you and really likes

03:48:03.300 you and loves you will be happy to just

03:48:05.580 be in your presence

03:48:06.580 but this is like because like they hung

03:48:11.960 out right she found that there was

03:48:14.220 something about these people that she

03:48:16.040 didn't like right their their goals

03:48:18.260 didn't align their values they're still

03:48:19.960 great people but doesn't that mean they're

03:48:21.600 great she had settled and stayed with

03:48:23.760 them because it's not romantic for me no

03:48:26.120 no no it means that she's looking

03:48:27.700 that's so fair and doesn't have the

03:48:29.840 right values but I'm happy to put

03:48:31.160 myself out there and try wait are they

03:48:32.900 attractive yes they're they're good

03:48:35.320 people yes they're great for you no

03:48:38.340 what but you said they're great people

03:48:40.420 sorry that's a different phrasing just

03:48:42.140 because they're a good person doesn't

03:48:43.000 mean that we're a good fit I can

03:48:44.720 appreciate what would make somebody

03:48:45.940 appreciate her and you're married but

03:48:48.440 like I can appreciate her and still be

03:48:50.280 like she's a wonderful amazing person

03:48:52.100 should we be together probably I don't

03:48:53.960 know well are you are you by yes okay

03:48:58.160 well okay but she happens to be married 1.00

03:49:00.820 so I think she's off

03:49:01.900 I know I'm just hey

03:49:03.600 she can bring somebody home to her husband 1.00

03:49:07.160 okay don't answer for me okay I want a cut

03:49:12.200 of whatever OnlyFans

03:49:13.700 I just think it's like this tiktok

03:49:19.640 brain where we're men we're not your

03:49:23.120 entertainers we're not we're not your 0.87

03:49:26.760 dancing monkeys if you want entertainment

03:49:29.220 if you want to be amused if you want to

03:49:31.120 be entertained go watch Netflix when

03:49:34.040 you're ready when you're ready to have an

03:49:35.900 adult relationship the foundation of

03:49:38.400 which it's not built on the degree to

03:49:41.180 which that we can entertain you that's

03:49:43.480 not the vibe and you don't get me I

03:49:45.520 don't get you don't get me I don't get

03:49:47.900 you no you you've gone on 21st 25 30 31st

03:49:53.280 dates what's the common denominator here

03:49:58.040 of the people it's you yeah it's you

03:50:01.980 yes because I made a decision for myself

03:50:04.480 that I wanted to date more people because 0.91

03:50:06.480 I went from like dating sucks no it doesn't I 0.99

03:50:10.840 have a great time get free shit I did it's 0.99

03:50:14.480 honestly bro 31st dates in that to me that I mean it is 0.97

03:50:19.320 November almost November so that's 11 months that's

03:50:22.740 still a lot I've been on three because you go on wow oh well yeah women have 1.00

03:50:27.900 dating on easy that's fine I've noticed that you've you've resorted to like passive aggressive like

03:50:34.560 insults a lot tonight so no it's just it's a wow it's a wow because women have 1.00

03:50:38.500 dating on easy my passive aggressive to you yeah you are a little bit that was

03:50:42.700 pretty passive aggressive well okay well I mean like you've been on 31st

03:50:49.700 dates women have dating on easy mode um I think for sure that like do you have a brother 0.89

03:50:56.460 women do you have a brother I have seven siblings how many brothers do you have all 1.00

03:51:01.840 brothers besides one all brothers besides one do you uh are they full siblings like

03:51:06.880 none of them are oh none of them are when we're talking brothers are we what kind of brothers are

03:51:13.400 wait what so I said I said I don't know she's got okay um why did you have to make such an

03:51:24.320 innocent question

03:51:25.120 I mean we all have a good step bro role play you know but you just asked her about her like

03:51:34.800 no what I guess like I'd be curious to know if they were like your full siblings because it's

03:51:42.220 always I'm always curious like girls who have like a lot of who can get a lot of dates I'm

03:51:46.580 always curious to hear like let's say your brother if he's around your age is he able to secure as

03:51:50.940 many dates as you and typically what I find is is like female like women are able to get way more 1.00

03:51:57.040 dates than their brothers who you'd think are like to some degree their looks equivalent because

03:52:02.700 they're biologically related to you so they're like looks wise they're probably you're somewhat

03:52:10.640 equivalent sort of I guess I don't know although sometimes it doesn't work out like that okay good

03:52:16.640 times good times let's move on we have who do we have do we have any chats do we have wait what's

03:52:22.760 that you got questions oh we got a chat here let's thorium fusion dielectric donated 100

03:52:28.320 tbh to red hair when you sigh it sounds sexy I am good looking with six plus figures and relate

03:52:36.720 to the whole experience all of it vibe you've been taking it like a champ but if I were to be up for

03:52:42.360 it you'd have to delete of and be monogamous I'm a good looking with six plus figures and relate to

03:52:48.640 the whole experience all of it you've been taking it like a champ but if I were to be would would you

03:52:54.640 date him if you don't know him but all he gave me is I'm rich and okay I guess does he have to send

03:53:02.080 another chat yeah you have to send another chat I don't know you I'll put in a good word I'll like

03:53:06.220 wow you have money that's awesome we're gonna have a beautiful life till we're I will say that thorium

03:53:12.000 fusion to elect dielectric he did once saved me from a a honey badger I remember that we were yeah we

03:53:22.860 were on it's crazy expedition in in you guys so good at this like role-playing this was it was an

03:53:29.040 expedition in the middle earth middle earth

03:53:31.880 i'll just play along

03:53:36.980 this has become intriguing to the land of mordor and the fiery depths of mount dune 0.97

03:53:41.600 gredneck donated 99 dollars fucking sim is this in response this this there's a tts war between 0.93

03:53:53.000 gredneck and thorium fusion electric funny that's funny fusion thorium fusion do you have a response 0.99

03:54:00.120 to gredneck and you want to shoot shoot your shot a little better at our friend here just let us know 0.91

03:54:05.540 okay we also have modest jacama joe from it here thank you for the red pill brian sexually experienced 0.98

03:54:12.760 women will get bored with you ask for an open relationship then cheat then ask for a divorce on 1.00

03:54:17.880 your dime of course welcome to my life what that's modest jacama what there's this

03:54:24.180 there might be an infographic that we can pull up nick if you can go into the infographic

03:54:30.180 uh folder it's time for you to get a watch that's true

03:54:36.660 yeah it's in the drop box hold on i'm trying to find it yo modest jacama this is my first time seeing

03:54:43.420 you in the the uh chat man thank you for the your patronage uh welcome welcome thank you man

03:54:48.060 appreciate it oh infographics jacama it's a fruit yeah jacama jacama jacama jacama i think you guys

03:54:59.740 are mispronouncing it that's fine it's definitely jacama uh it's called marriage in the oh jay butler

03:55:07.520 donated 99 is it gonna be about herpes bro none of this it is about herpes oh my god you must 0.80

03:55:12.800 approach this exorcism using the genital herpes angle condoms do not protect from this filth

03:55:19.060 and once you get a certain amount of bodies the infection is as sure as death and taxes

03:55:24.220 she's got it for sure what's a high amount of bodies to you 1.00

03:55:29.120 double digits double digits okay yeah jay butler always coming in with the herpes

03:55:40.660 always the conversation he is he is a a uh what what is the he's a urologist jay butler is a urologist

03:55:53.420 um one of the premier urologists he works at um the usc so it's a no no no uh i didn't say that

03:56:03.680 he works at a very prestigious medical establishment and he's a urologist which means he looks at cox 1.00

03:56:12.340 all fucking day wow you really care in a in a medical in a medical capacity i'm very i am very 0.98

03:56:19.460 jealous i wish that was my job because my job is looking at never mind um 0.99

03:56:26.560 brian you're the one that asked me to come back well i wasn't directed at you i'm just saying

03:56:33.920 sometimes i'd rather just look at cox all day than do this job i mean i would rather there's definitely

03:56:40.940 this is a stressful job creators you can definitely subscribe to someone's no but it would be listen

03:56:46.000 it would be within a medical context okay i'd be a professional i want to help i would help out 0.99

03:56:52.020 men with their penises are you gonna start a what the fuck am i saying bro instead of blm you're gonna 0.99

03:56:58.400 start like a bbc 1.00

03:57:00.420 oh jesus okay i don't know where were we where were we oh the wedding thing pull up the wedding

03:57:16.100 pull up the wedding infographic really quick you got it marriage in the 21st century

03:57:22.300 i want marriage okay i want kids okay okay uh the wife is nagging while i'm trying to work 1.00

03:57:28.360 uh i'm i'm uh mowing the lawn and i'm cutting the grass and i'm walking the dog here's me at work

03:57:34.060 i get back from work i'm all stressed out from work my wife yells at me gotta play with kids uh

03:57:39.540 uh the wife the romance is gone he can you scroll it up make it bigger god why are these always made

03:57:44.700 in like men's favor though uh put us on the hide hide or other side i guess so i can read this one 0.98

03:57:51.240 because men get because men get fucked in marriage um we're all humans we hide show show us down the 0.99

03:57:58.500 other side other side you know that's fine and then you'll hide it again the room the romance is 0.99

03:58:02.420 gone he doesn't give me enough attention you're so beautiful i can't stop thinking about you stop

03:58:07.100 you know i'm married and then like oh the husband he's just trying to like golf uh the woman the wife

03:58:12.640 nagging come on let me come over for a coffee while he's at work boom cucked how could you do this

03:58:19.300 he made me feel special divorce the woman gets all the money and the house and then you're living 0.98

03:58:23.560 and the boom life ruined is modest jacama is that what happened to you is that what happened to you

03:58:31.740 this is in response to modest jacama welcome to his life he got divorced divorced apparently the

03:58:39.720 average divorce costs 20 000 it's probably i feel like it's more than that i don't know i mean that's

03:58:47.720 not that's like maybe the attorney's cost or something or i don't know it's a clean divorce

03:58:51.360 yeah it's a cheap one like my my divorce was very cheap how much did your divorce cost uh we we were 0.99

03:58:57.480 very like amicable yeah we were just like you take your shit i take my shit but you still had to get 0.98

03:59:03.600 an attorney right um he did uh like he like paid me like 500 a month for like a year but that was it 0.99

03:59:10.540 no no no that's not what i'm talking about the attorney you had an attorney i did not have an attorney

03:59:14.560 did he well so you guys did self-help divorce yeah basically yeah it was like all during covid so

03:59:21.200 there was a lot of like people that were helpful it was like a mediation type thing yeah like we

03:59:26.200 never went to like wait how long were you guys married again uh like eight or nine months wait

03:59:30.500 you were married eight or nine months and he paid you alimony was this in california um no no this is

03:59:34.960 in florida um i was on his uh we got married so i could have medical insurance because i was really

03:59:39.760 really sick and going through like surgeries and stuff like that were you guys actually dating oh

03:59:44.760 yeah yeah we were together for multiple years we were planning on getting married we just like we're

03:59:48.360 gonna get married the next year so we just moved it up a year and um but because i got so sick and

03:59:54.700 because of everything wait so he your husband ex-husband he paid you alimony yeah how much was he paying

04:00:02.040 you just 500 a month it was just my um i needed health insurance and all my medical bills were like

04:00:08.780 six grand a month without insurance so why did you but you did you who initiated the divorce he did

04:00:15.100 he did is it typical to get alimony if you've only been dating less than a year

04:00:21.460 well you can be married less than a year i think can you speak to closer to sorry you mean married less

04:00:27.140 than a year yeah i thought it was typically alimony only kicks in yeah i don't know it was

04:00:32.320 wait did you ask for the alimony it did i did i was like hey i need help it was not a i was like so

04:00:39.880 basically he we were living together he took like we lost our condo he took the dog he left took all

04:00:48.420 of his stuff while i was in the hospital and moved out and left did you ask the court for alimony

04:00:53.700 was it like court awarded alimony uh i think i just asked him and his lawyer i don't think it

04:00:59.680 was and then like they just agreed upon no okay sounds like a good guy no and we're actually like

04:01:06.440 really good friends now we're better like divorced than we were together sure uh for for you too on

04:01:13.100 this you said you believe age is just a number that you can connect with anyone you are currently

04:01:17.000 dating someone 28 years you're senior yes and you're 20 i'm 31 or 30 31 so he is 59 okay yeah good

04:01:27.620 times yeah good times uh we were like really close friends longer than sorry we were really close

04:01:33.780 friends uh for multiple years and like he was married i was married we were always in relationships

04:01:39.900 that weren't obviously together and then when and then when it came to being we both were single at

04:01:47.220 the same time and we both kind of just decided it made sense because we had been hanging out and

04:01:52.720 close for so long that we thought we would give it a try romantically and it's been working

04:01:57.720 okay yeah good times do you guys do any of you guys object to her age gap relationship

04:02:05.020 anybody anybody bueller okay yeah um you also said i think it's horrible that women sleep around like 1.00

04:02:13.560 it's nothing i'm not a modest woman or a virgin but i have standards and self-control i don't do

04:02:18.500 one night stands okay um you think it's horrible that women sleep around like it's nothing yeah i feel 0.99

04:02:25.980 like there's just lack of respect like i said towards the man and then also towards yourself but again

04:02:30.680 that's my opinion and i believe that everyone can do what they want but i do find that i do believe

04:02:36.480 that in later in life you guys might have problems or you know run into issues where you think you

04:02:43.780 might you know i i hope that you find somebody that is willing to love you and accept you for all the

04:02:49.900 things that you all the decisions you have made in your life but in reality i do side with brian and

04:02:55.800 jake that you know you are probably going to have a harder time than let's say her or myself or even

04:03:01.260 you who choose not to put themselves out there that way no granted don't get me wrong i'm i model on

04:03:07.440 instagram i i do like take my clothes off but i don't put myself fully out there i don't show my chest

04:03:12.960 i don't show my you know privates i'm i just it's just it's just like the which is worse strippers or

04:03:19.980 only fans girls it's like you're like swimsuit modeling on instagram like like someone else

04:03:25.600 that's more conservative might be like that's like impure and and i agree because you know

04:03:30.580 there is a sense of modesty you know like i to me like i feel like i can put myself out there in

04:03:36.600 lingerie because to me i feel like i can go to the beach and see the exact same thing i feel like i'm

04:03:42.400 still keeping my social norms well no it's it's more like i'm still keeping it and see naked people

04:03:49.180 just like i've been to a nude beach don't get me wrong i've been to a nude beach do you get paid for

04:03:53.200 the modeling or do you just do it i have i have been paid for modeling for it all do you just do

04:03:57.040 it no uh not all of it um like but i have done charity work but uh in the beginning i wasn't

04:04:02.460 paid yeah like for like charity events and like i do a lot of car shows and stuff like that we do

04:04:07.820 cardi yeah we do charity car shows so i'll do modeling for the car show for free not not charging

04:04:14.220 but i do get paid like people will do like private message me and be like hey i would like you to do this

04:04:18.980 type of you do have like the shoots that you just do where you just pay someone to take photos of

04:04:23.220 you um yeah yeah somebody will pay be like hey i want to see you in this outfit doing this type of

04:04:28.560 of modeling and then they'll get like select photos that's what i do that's what i do

04:04:35.060 i call it a custom

04:04:37.660 yeah it is so just to just to establish so you do get paid by people to take photos that are like

04:04:46.640 sort of sexually explicit no not i would not say that my photos in your lingerie

04:04:50.960 yeah it depends who thinks it's explicit but i'm not you get paid by who though directly to the

04:04:57.980 customer or like by an agency sometimes yeah both sometimes wait so i get paid i get paid by

04:05:04.240 an agency to go and do a shoot or go and walk a runway or whatever or go and work a car event

04:05:11.040 but then i also have people that private message me that want me to model with their cars or do

04:05:16.400 whatever like with their you're doing car motorcycle sorry uh but whatever it may be and they pay me

04:05:23.460 specifically to model do you just do it like in your living room just you in lingerie no no no no no

04:05:27.960 it's usually like public it's usually multiple people on a set it's it's all professional normally

04:05:33.600 with it with the theme of cars that's pretty much always uh a majority i do i do do some cosplay

04:05:38.840 and stuff like that but i mean yeah majority cars that's just it's kind of the same thing it's kind

04:05:44.100 of the same thing it is no i i feel like you're judging them but you're kind of yeah the same thing

04:05:49.100 it's just it's the strippers versus only fans well because i'm comfortable being naked i'm worse

04:05:54.400 i think i think everyone should be you know free to make their own choices and stuff but i think

04:05:59.260 that it's not fair that you're judging them when you're kind of doing the same thing i mean

04:06:03.420 it's lawyer because not all only fans models do new content you could do what you do on only

04:06:10.760 for more money you do but have a paywall behind it but yeah the difference that i see is that like

04:06:18.820 i won't like once it's i don't know how to but you're selling pictures of you in your underwear

04:06:23.560 you could put that on only fans tomorrow make more money and it's the same thing that you were

04:06:28.360 already doing it's a good it's a good point that you guys have gotten the sense that it is like

04:06:31.760 philosophically the same no no i agree but i think like brian said before it's about perception as well

04:06:37.980 and if somebody says like i'm a model for for cars it's much less of a red flag than it is to say

04:06:43.820 i'm an only fans model so she's so she's spinning herself right well she's spinning and selling

04:06:48.700 herself what do you mean well it's like she's you know if you were to go on a date with a girl right

04:06:52.820 and a girl tells you okay yeah i do only fans yeah that sounds bad probably right to most men it sounds

04:06:58.540 like what it is yeah well but if but if if she were to say oh yeah somebody can private message me and

04:07:04.320 i'll take private photos and lingerie for them and send it to them for money it will never be in my

04:07:08.300 bedroom it just it just depends though like yeah like hold on it's not it's not like i'm taking

04:07:12.520 selfies and selling it to somebody it's i'm i'm going on a set and shooting and i'm also posting those

04:07:18.440 publicly and i'm also but how is that person using that photo it but like and i'm not saying there's

04:07:24.840 nothing wrong with what you're doing absolutely by all means like i think the i think you know

04:07:30.960 photos in lingerie is the most empowering most like thing someone can do right boudoir photography

04:07:38.320 is essentially i think we were talking about it from the male perspective though in terms of like

04:07:41.300 if it's a red flag or something you guys are having a discussion between yourselves i'm trying to tell

04:07:44.240 you going if i could finish my point is it from the male perspective yes that man you're going to tell

04:07:49.500 me from the male perspective i'm i'm saying the i'm saying the photo that's being taken is with

04:07:55.040 that person's car bike motorcycle which they think is is which is their possession so having a beautiful

04:08:01.980 woman dressed in lingerie next to a thing that brings them joy that might sexually arouse them

04:08:08.260 you don't know what they're using those photos for where that content's being posted so i'm saying

04:08:12.860 from the general perspective looking at what that person's using that photo for it's relative well i what

04:08:18.180 i think though is there's there's probably still going to be plenty of men that would object to what

04:08:22.220 definitely you're doing because it's there is to some degree in modesty in what you're doing however

04:08:26.960 well i mean if you're posing in like bikinis and stuff like there's definitely conservative men

04:08:31.800 that are going to be like even like you might not be nude but it's just i would say you're

04:08:36.660 immodest to some degree i would say that's like literally five to ten percent of my photos all of

04:08:40.880 my modeling photos i'm genuinely fully clothed i would say i have a very very small percentage

04:08:45.600 that's fine lingerie i i don't actually prefer to do that i don't really sure i like to keep it

04:08:50.860 that's fine but what i would argue though the differential between what you do and only fans

04:08:55.820 you are there there's like a different layer of of separation because on only fans these men are

04:09:04.280 then messaging you and you are basically trying to like okay how can i message this guy to try to

04:09:11.540 pull as much money from him as possible whether that's through flirting whether that's through

04:09:16.480 like trying to get him she's setting her prices yeah but i have one set price it's not like they

04:09:22.500 can pay me more donated one hundred dollars let's not be silly red in the future her kids will not 0.99

04:09:28.600 be bullied or punch another kid because she has nude photos or being run through or pole smoking sex 1.00

04:09:34.220 sex online damn it is it is a difference thank you thank you having boy girl content online and 1.00

04:09:43.180 oh and i'm sorry what i started to say in regards just but you got a good point though that there is 0.98

04:09:47.740 be conservative also i was picking i just want to say something something about grid one i meant it to be

04:09:51.800 uh i just want to tell everybody grid one he he like talks a big game but he he drives a um a toy of the

04:09:58.360 prius just saying um go ahead with your point i was wondering what he drove yeah oh what i was

04:10:02.740 starting to say was yes people can i have set prices but my price is let's say i'm just gonna

04:10:09.060 throw it right my price is okay it's a hundred dollars and you're gonna get 10 pictures and that's

04:10:13.220 it it's it's those pictures that i choose to give you it's not you choosing hey i want you to do this

04:10:19.360 and this and this you don't know my model no i but i know that you pictures of me and socks but i

04:10:25.900 i would love to do that for you here's 10 pictures for a hundred dollars yeah but it's not

04:10:30.280 but then you can keep it but don't people have conversations with you don't people have

04:10:35.980 conversations they can get to know you more they can have conversations with you while you're live

04:10:40.200 and that's based on your cup like i run my page how i want to run my page if i don't want to have

04:10:45.800 an in-depth if i don't want to have an in-depth conversation with someone i'm getting saucy

04:10:50.180 then i don't have an in-depth conversation like i i run my page how i'm most comfortable

04:10:55.320 we must read this from jacama jacama has returned okay six-year marriage i kept my assets no alimony

04:11:02.940 3k or something on my amex utah he must have killed her six-year marriage must have caught a buddy

04:11:09.580 3k or something on my yo shout out to all the women who been in long marriages and get divorced 0.99

04:11:17.360 and don't ask anything of the men shout out to the queens is it utah known for polygamy 1.00

04:11:23.540 queen no no well they're known for monism yeah word yo modest jacama thank you very much

04:11:29.500 appreciate it uh okay we have stifler here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one

04:11:35.740 to ten okay go i would say like a seven or an eight same same yeah i'd say seven and a half or eight

04:11:42.480 yeah seven point five seven seven seven six

04:11:45.060 i don't know six maybe half-minded and say seven

04:11:50.660 you seven oh uh six six point five we are all the same guy

04:11:56.820 we're all so hot we think we're so hot

04:12:01.260 okay we have

04:12:03.820 laura laura did i say right yes is there an n there's no n you're not you're not lauren you're

04:12:13.880 laura yes with an e no oh with an a normal spelling laura laura i don't know why i couldn't

04:12:20.280 you think a lot of millennial women were told you could do anything growing up but in reality 0.56

04:12:30.740 that became into you should do everything which helped many of us at work but not in relationships

04:12:36.800 yeah um i think because i'm in my 30s right so a lot of us i think grew up with a lot of

04:12:43.820 expectations from our parents and i see that playing out in the dating world where

04:12:48.060 you might as a woman you're told you have to go to college you have to get an advanced degree you

04:12:52.940 have to do all these things and these are very masculine traits and when you go into the dating

04:12:59.920 world it's like you kind of realize that that's not what guys care about so at all um yeah exactly

04:13:06.460 we don't care yeah we don't so i see you know i've like i haven't been married but i'm happy in my

04:13:13.940 romantic life and i see some of my friends struggle who are similar to me where they have advanced

04:13:17.640 degrees and i think they're like kind of spinning their wheels thinking that they're you know men

04:13:24.020 are going to value them for their intelligence and their you know credentials and all this stuff and

04:13:28.200 it's kind of the wrong way to go about it i think uh intelligence is something that can make a woman 1.00

04:13:33.600 more attractive but when it comes to your uh career or finances that doesn't really matter yeah i know

04:13:41.680 i know women too that i think they and this is across the board but it's like women will go into 0.99

04:13:45.600 dates with like checklists and they like treat dates as like almost job interviews and stuff

04:13:50.020 like that oh we have there was that long checklist of places can we put remember nick oh my gosh the

04:13:57.280 cheesecake the cheesecake factory thing let's pull that up because it's kind of oh was it oh it's

04:14:01.720 already was it there already uh here's a list list of places women absolutely refuse to go on a first 1.00

04:14:07.600 date to and thank you to the ladies who reached out to me to help me on my list cheesecake factory

04:14:12.720 applebee's chilies chipotle olive garden the movies your house any fast food chain buffalo wild

04:14:18.180 wings wing stop red lobster a buffet a buffet ihop denny's the gym church starbucks coffee dates ice

04:14:26.680 cream dates family functions movie night somewhere that requires a long drive bowling nightclubs

04:14:32.440 hookah bar a bar for just drinks waffle house sports offense wow now what does that leave

04:14:38.820 question to the girls here question to the girls uh is there any any of the items on this list that

04:14:44.720 you actually agree to like yeah don't take me to wing the movies because how do you get to know

04:14:49.180 someone at the movies you're sitting in silence same thing church is kind of the same like i get

04:14:53.360 some of those are definitely valid i would say i'd say i think long drive one because what if you

04:15:00.340 don't like that person you're stuck in the car with this yeah that's here let's uh transition into the

04:15:07.100 uh after show so what we're going to do is uh the tts is going to be hold on the t we're going to

04:15:14.440 transition to the after show tts is going to be 69 and up for tts and reed is uh on stream labs and

04:15:23.980 super chat it's going to be uh 20 and up so you can hit the lights nick go ahead boom

04:15:31.160 whoa all right okay let's see that's okay maybe we should turn those lights back on back there maybe

04:15:38.460 should we yeah or is it fine is it fine like this a lot kiki up i like it like this you like it better

04:15:44.080 like this with with a pink madison jude can you do it um so what was i saying um here i need to change

04:15:56.140 a couple things here in my we're gonna just go after show um yeah so okay we'll just do 69 and up

04:16:06.920 for tts 20 and up for read slash answer whether that's through stream labs or through uh uh youtube

04:16:15.620 so if any of you want you can get in your uh other things let's see what do we have here what do we have

04:16:23.260 to uh what does that mean what does what mean get any other things oh like if somebody wants to get 0.92

04:16:30.380 in like a super chat at the lower threshold wait what penis what i thought you were talking about 0.95

04:16:36.320 us like yeah oh yeah does anybody have a question something they'd like to get off their chest 0.86

04:16:42.280 related to dating

04:16:44.080 what do you look for in a that's a great question that's a great question nick can you pull up that

04:16:52.300 video again can you pull up that video the bowing video this is what i look for you know that's like

04:16:57.400 part of like the asian culture that's just like something they do to show respect i want to

04:17:03.200 let me answer her i want a pale anglo-saxon woman to bow for me she doesn't have to be asian but go 1.00

04:17:12.120 ahead like go ahead pull up but like when you go on a first date with someone like do you ask like

04:17:17.860 are you willing to bow for me when i enter the room that's my first message just when you saw it in

04:17:23.200 the dms like you don't even meet them in person yet what's that like that's just like a dm question

04:17:28.100 you have to actually i want somebody to demonstrate their bow for me who we got who's down

04:17:33.020 just watch the video and pretend she's bowing to you because i don't think anyone here's gonna

04:17:40.640 go ahead play the video this is what i want you asked me what i want this is what i want look at 0.97

04:17:45.200 that fucking bow respect that's respect i thought it was like the deeper you go the more respect that 0.97

04:17:51.300 it's true the deeper the deeper you go the deeper you go i'm sorry i'm not to say it i'm like wait 0.99

04:17:57.940 what yeah this is great this is this is respect yeah what's that do you want her to chew your food 0.98

04:18:07.580 for you and spit in your mouth that's just fucking haram get the see i'm just asking abdul yeah get the 1.00

04:18:14.400 let's see the bow look at the bow just beautiful that's what you see i want the attentiveness 1.00

04:18:20.740 is what's really attractive but you're asking what who asked what what i'm looking for or just

04:18:26.180 was that just like a general what are you looking for yeah i mean i'm not like trying to date you

04:18:30.280 yeah you're married why does everyone have to make that so clear i mean he asked me like why would

04:18:35.920 you ask me what no no i was asking if that's yes that is what i asked you all right so i'll tell

04:18:41.220 you like let's start with the looks let's start with the looks uh race any is fine but i'd say i have

04:18:46.200 a slight preference for white women or asian women uh slightly awkward asian women i for i 0.59

04:18:52.600 irresistible irresistible to me so like a social awkward yeah she'd be like slightly shot like kind 1.00

04:18:59.080 of like shy quiet like just sit in the back and just sort of yeah okay um slight preference for

04:19:05.740 petite fun size short women uh it's always like fun size what's a number put a number to that just

04:19:11.700 throw them around yeah what's your what's your height requirement brian her height starts with

04:19:15.420 four oh like four eleven is pretty good it's always it's always funny telling a woman who's 0.99

04:19:21.360 like five two that she's too tall for me um how tall are you i'm six foot one oh shit yeah uh i have 0.82

04:19:28.000 no issue uh look but here's the thing it's not a deal breaker like i'll date a girl who's taller 0.99

04:19:31.960 than me i don't give a fuck oh no way will you no way you wouldn't date a girl who's taller than 0.99

04:19:36.620 you god no no it's good it's good i'll date a it's it's definitely good for children she'll give 0.99

04:19:43.020 me tall children yeah it didn't work i had to reach up and kiss her like yeah that sounds like 0.90

04:19:47.420 you want to bend down yeah it's not good yeah or it's just like you could do the gangster thing is

04:19:51.780 just don't kiss them oh yeah true okay what's your age range how old are you if you don't mind me

04:19:57.840 34 okay uh i would date anywhere from 18 to 45 okay married previously married or having kids

04:20:05.980 uh strong strong preference for no kids to the point where i don't want to say it's a hundred

04:20:12.480 percent a deal breaker but it's like 90 percent deal breaker like most of the time it's going to

04:20:17.880 become an issue what if they're divorced is that divorced i don't divorce with no kids

04:20:23.080 i that's probably fine i mean if there's other issues there then it's a problem but if she's

04:20:28.380 divorced and she's otherwise a perfectly pleasant person don't care um would it be my preference that 0.99

04:20:34.840 she wasn't previously divorced yes but it's not a deal breaker uh let's see what else looks wise 0.92

04:20:39.980 strong preference no plastic surgery no fake tits no fake lips no bbl no lipo

04:20:45.860 yeah just uh what about like career wise i'll get at home i'll get there uh when it comes to the

04:20:55.560 whole plastic surgery thing i think women are beautiful as they are without the need for 1.00

04:20:59.920 undergoing dangerous expensive and unnecessary unnecessary uh cosmetic surgery which i honestly

04:21:06.760 think makes women look worse so i'd much rather like give me a girl with an a cup or who's totally 1.00

04:21:11.360 flat over some big giant fake titties i'll take a little belly over lipo small ass over a bbl small 1.00

04:21:18.140 upper lip over lip fillers basically take any woman who's had any of these procedures however they 0.99

04:21:23.980 were before no matter how small her boobs were whatever it was how i'd prefer them as they were 1.00

04:21:30.160 um minimal makeup or no makeup i guess a little mascara eyeliner is fine large labia very important

04:21:37.280 blm do you ask huh do you ask is that a preference yeah like first three questions i'd say it's

04:21:43.740 tell me the tell me about the if she turned around and asked you what your size was would you share 0.99

04:21:50.920 yeah sure i'd be like yeah it's average but average penis size but like if she asks for 1.00

04:21:56.160 specifics specifics yeah because like what you think is average and what's average like might 0.54

04:22:01.400 not be the same thing i mean if she asked i'd yeah i'd probably tell her okay i was just wondering

04:22:07.020 like if you're asking can she ask the type of thing yeah i don't give a fuck okay i mean if he's 0.99

04:22:12.860 asking i feel like at that point he's open uh well look women have are allowed to have penis size 0.99

04:22:18.920 preference i have a labia preference i don't get a labia place you ladies i'll talk you out of it 1.00

04:22:24.520 my dms are open um uh let's see uh what else uh slight preference for dark hair but i don't really

04:22:32.400 care i'll date a blonde but uh personality what's that blonde asian it would be fun well i mean i 1.00

04:22:39.420 like i don't care about hair color but slight preference for darker hair um personality i have a

04:22:45.320 list here i'm so i'm kind of reading off the list of something why i have a list because i got a lot 0.97

04:22:48.680 of fucking i got some notes here he knows what he wants uh introverted women quiet calm soft-spoken 0.98

04:22:55.040 maybe a little shy a little nerdy modesty is huge i don't like women with big egos who are super vain 1.00

04:23:00.400 divas that type of shit girl who brings me peace that's number one uh doesn't quarrel doesn't party 1.00

04:23:06.840 doesn't drink doesn't do drugs i look if she drinks a glass of wine whatever but um somebody like 1.00

04:23:11.780 when i say doesn't drink somebody who drinks in moderation because i rarely drink so uh doesn't

04:23:17.800 go to bars doesn't go to clubs low body count but the biggest thing is just um uh peace yeah 0.99

04:23:24.840 personality wise girl who brings you peace so yeah no career wise oh career wise do not give a fuck 1.00

04:23:32.520 don't care at all makes more than you i would honestly here's the thing like sugar baby i would not 0.77

04:23:39.400 care i wouldn't care if she makes more than me what i would potentially care about is perhaps the 0.71

04:23:44.600 personality traits that might come with somebody who is career oriented or who is hyper successful

04:23:51.360 so if she's a super feminine meets all these other things but she i don't i don't know what career 0.99

04:23:58.760 field she would be in but if she makes a lot it's not about the money it's the corresponding 0.59

04:24:04.980 career focusness for example like if i i want her if i want me to be more of a priority

04:24:14.700 that could be an issue if i want our potential kids to be more of a priority

04:24:19.200 because i i yeah i'd be able to hold down the household on just my income so 0.98

04:24:26.300 fuck your fifty thousand dollar a year career like let's focus on our kids that's my view on it 0.99

04:24:32.900 do you think that your your pool of women in the dating scene is smaller because of all of those 1.00

04:24:40.780 preference preferences preferences no almost everything i listed besides all the physical

04:24:46.820 stuff that's most of those are not deal breakers although like plastic surgery is pretty close to a

04:24:54.760 deal breaker with me but never say never i guess but i typically find that that is no offense to

04:25:01.660 those of you at the table who have plastic surgery that tends to be an indicator of some deficiency

04:25:07.820 no offense so yeah yeah i mean yeah if you're enhancing something you were lacking in it well i

04:25:17.680 think i don't think it's i think women with small breasts are beautiful that's in the same way that 0.99

04:25:23.760 women with the large breasts are beautiful i don't think you're deficient if you have small breasts 1.00

04:25:28.040 right and that's to say that the person who's getting the breast enhancement isn't doing it for 0.99

04:25:32.040 themselves in their their own self-image instead of what you think yo arisa i see you in the chat

04:25:37.900 what's up my dms are open what sorry what what what i'm not i'm not no but like what i'm saying like

04:25:47.520 it obviously if someone's enhancing something there is a deficiency there right if someone's getting a

04:25:51.280 boob job it's because they had no boobs but i'm saying they're probably getting it for their own 0.98

04:25:55.020 self-image in the way that they see and view themselves as opposed to to impress you or to not 0.76

04:26:00.900 impress you word word no i mean it could be an indicator of insecurity uh if you you are insecure

04:26:11.500 about the way your body is presenting you're choosing to get a danger undergo dangerous surgery

04:26:17.660 anytime you go under anesthesia there's certain risks involved with that you're putting this foreign

04:26:22.600 object into your body you can have a botched surgery you might need revision surgery um i believe

04:26:29.960 with breast implants they are approved for what 10 years and then you need to either get them taken out

04:26:34.860 or put back in my understanding is over the course of your lifetime when it comes to uh breast implants

04:26:40.660 you're going to need to get it redone at least two or three times within your lifetime i think that's

04:26:47.080 what i've heard i'm not right so i mean and then that's a financial liability on me as the

04:26:53.640 like i don't frankly like i would not even if i'm making a shit ton of money like that's a big waste 0.95

04:27:01.360 of money to go i don't know how much it costs what 5 10k for fake tits i don't that's and if you have 1.00

04:27:08.020 kids and you get that second or third surgery and you get an infection you can get sick and die or 0.96

04:27:13.500 you could literally have to have them removed and then you're stuck without boobs anyways so it's 0.88

04:27:18.620 it's a lot of it's also yeah it's probably also proxy for body uh dysphoria dysphoria dysphoria

04:27:25.600 yeah i mean if yeah it's probably proxy for stepping on a stage wait what to compete like i'm saying

04:27:32.380 body dysmorphia like yeah like being in the fitness industry and going to the gym causes body dysmorphia

04:27:38.540 and that's the most healthiest thing you can do for yourself so it's you know i mean i would just

04:27:43.300 say to any young women okay raven dt donated 69 even modern saline implants are encased in silicone

04:27:52.400 which increases risk of cancer look i mean ultimately at the end of the day you when you're

04:27:59.600 getting plastic surgery you're cutting into otherwise healthy tissue so i just

04:28:06.420 you know you know what i mean teach their own yeah you know what i mean no offense to the girls 1.00

04:28:13.200 here who have fake titties i'm not offended i still love you in a platonic friendly business sort of way 0.96

04:28:19.500 um let's see what else um i i would just say like 0.98

04:28:24.040 i think a lot of women feel insecure about their bodies and maybe some of that is on men maybe some

04:28:32.880 of that is on other women looking at the kardashians um just know that the majority of men would prefer 0.97

04:28:39.340 you as you are without any of this bullshit stuff that companies and surgeons are trying to tell you 0.99

04:28:44.580 you need to be beautiful so um you know just don't get fake titties that's all i'm trying to say 1.00

04:28:52.680 don't get fake titties don't get labiaplasty you know 0.99

04:28:57.240 sorry to the ladies at the table who have labiaplasty fake titties 1.00

04:29:04.580 would any of the girls date a guy who had calf implants 1.00

04:29:10.860 no how would you what would i would never i would never get in i would never get a plastic

04:29:17.620 surgery on something that you can naturally enhance okay like if you can go to the gym

04:29:22.360 and you can train your calves and you can grow your calves then why would you get some guys for a woman 1.00

04:29:30.320 if you can go to the gym and work out and train your glutes and your hamstrings and you can grow

04:29:35.660 your your glutes why would you get a bbl like that was you know that's the i couldn't go to

04:29:40.500 the gym and train chest yeah you can't there's right yeah that's fair there when it comes to 0.99

04:29:46.280 like surgical intervention uh there's nothing you can do in the gym to get bigger boobs as a girl 1.00

04:29:52.400 but definitely with ass and yeah you can just work for that yeah so bbl that's cheating that is 0.99

04:29:59.020 cheating so you have to work for the next oh my god i had to work for mine so they should they 0.99

04:30:04.340 yeah

04:30:04.800 bbls are really dangerous too bbls are like one in a thousand results in death so it's 1.00

04:30:10.880 really high that's really high well kanye west mom she was getting a plastic surgery procedure and

04:30:17.360 she died because of it r.i.p connie west mom people go out of the country for it too

04:30:23.420 people go out of the country to get these surgeries because it's cheaper without weighing the risks of

04:30:30.920 like recovery and stuff like that so it's just well they're getting the surgeries and then they're

04:30:35.560 getting right back on a plane and then that's risk of blood clots and so many more complications

04:30:39.760 let me uh i got to read a couple of the uh chats here we have steve-o let's talk about the

04:30:45.300 elephants in the room is the black hair girl a guy oh why because she said she was on hrt no 0.99

04:30:51.220 they're probably talking about me no i know but that's what i'm saying because

04:30:53.760 i thought you were a woman i am yeah no i know that's the i have i have a youtube channel like

04:31:03.560 fitness videos and stuff and people will be like are you a man and i'm just i'm tall and i'm i work

04:31:08.020 you're a tall woman so a tall yeah dear redhead oh no can you read it for us i can try i need 0.99

04:31:17.580 glasses here uh wait you're an empty head and narcissistic sociopathic borderline dealers wow 0.99

04:31:22.940 that's a lot of buzzwords okay mockery of a woman deep down you will never be wow okay okay that's a 1.00

04:31:28.020 little uh that's a little me you hurt everyone you interact with you deserve the pain through the

04:31:32.900 wall wow that is uh okay all right imagine spending 99 to insult someone you don't know

04:31:41.340 i didn't even think about that two thousand donated 99 dollars hey yo that's a good way to spend 99

04:31:46.560 oh there you go crying the top cheese okay yeah all right okay thank you very much appreciate we

04:31:53.560 have hate we got we have grid one motorsports okay can't let that pass i daily a silverado but

04:32:00.380 have a rocket bunny fd in the fleet along with the race cars i kept no prius no thanks well oh my gosh 0.66

04:32:06.140 i'm i'm actually building my pandem r32 gtr so i'm sorry let's fucking go hell yeah and i daily a 0.98

04:32:13.820 right hand drive miata so the guy the guy in the black shirt probably knows the age of consent in 0.98

04:32:18.740 every country he has been in has wait what the fuck oh has he's has he said anything that men want 0.97

04:32:31.800 that does not better describe a person under under the oh they're just going hard don't take it 0.98

04:32:39.580 personally no he's talking about me he's saying apparently the things that i'm because you travel

04:32:44.020 because your travel basically saying that you sleep around with travel and you know the age of

04:32:47.800 consent in every country because things that you do are kind of sketchy okay all right

04:32:52.920 next we have stochastic decay brian a question for the panel what are green flag hobbies for a guy

04:33:02.340 start with you just question for the panel green flag hobbies um i would say gaming is not a red flag

04:33:10.800 for me um like hiking being active what about uh what about you um yeah man you're the same guy

04:33:21.720 a lot of that um i like like art a lot i like musicians um people that paint i paint a lot so

04:33:33.840 that's fun yeah um gosh what are green flag hobbies for a guy cars like working on cars okay i like

04:33:45.840 i like that i think there's a lot of them um anything active so gym outdoors activities um anything with

04:33:52.220 your hands like carpentry building computer servers yeah um personal finance reading like those are all

04:33:57.900 okay wait question for you unrelated to this we'll go around we'll finish around the panel

04:34:01.680 um can can we see a try tricep sure can we see a try flock that is a woman's tricep okay how dare 0.99

04:34:12.480 you whoever sent it that previous one like i'm just naturally i'm i have a faster metabolism so i

04:34:18.120 stay leaning i'm not burnt ups donated 69 dollars hey brian big fan from alaska have you heard from

04:34:26.620 chase lately slash plan to have him back shout out to the base side of the panel hashtag christ is lord

04:34:33.420 hey yeah actually uh i think we're gonna have him back on uh pretty soon so uh it's in the works i

04:34:39.860 think he's it's in discussions but i think uh we will have him back on pretty soon and i think he will

04:34:45.480 be coming on pretty regularly but we're still figuring out all the details so uh stay tuned stay

04:34:51.420 tuned thank you man um question for you do you need a data guy who's like really buff or do you

04:34:57.080 not really care okay no i'm much more about personality and just who someone is because i

04:35:02.460 always figured with like women who work out that like they probably especially want a guy who's like 1.00

04:35:07.420 big or muscular or whatever but is that the case or no because i'm like i'm more of a nerd so before i

04:35:13.380 was a fitness coach i worked in engineering okay i did i was a project manager um grad school all

04:35:19.040 that engineer um a geologist actually but i graduated from this department of civil engineering where i

04:35:25.040 went to school dope yeah uh green flag hobbies for a guy what about you a guy who can cook that's a big

04:35:31.040 one uh god a guy who loves god and the third one is gotta be if they like the way they respect their

04:35:37.980 parents like if they're really respectful for their parents especially their mom so green flag

04:35:42.320 hobbies oh i don't know if that's a hobby like they collect pokemon cards that type of shit yeah 0.67

04:35:47.420 that's a great trait yeah i didn't video games what about you um just being active and you know how

04:35:54.500 like i don't know i feel like anything that shows stability like that they can you know afford to

04:36:00.920 have a hobby and pay their bills yeah so anything that's yeah along those lines i agree with you and

04:36:08.620 also anything with the sport or nature or related to fixing things or being clever art craft okay

04:36:18.020 what would you say are red or green flag hobbies for women for green flag hobbies for women reading

04:36:24.560 books definitely studying i don't think women should have hobbies no i'm kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding

04:36:33.260 i'm kidding i'm kidding taking care of the household uh green flag hobbies in women oh man that's a tough 1.00

04:36:40.480 one um green flag hobbies i think you are not are a bit different like this in the sense that i i really

04:36:48.760 like smart girls whereas you're not so bothered about it he likes nerdy he said he'd like quiet nerdy 0.84

04:36:53.340 no i like i like smart girls but i also like stupid women too no no just like there is something 1.00

04:37:01.760 kind of hot about a dull woman lord donated 69 attractive women are hot too found her hair tie in 1.00

04:37:10.460 my car nice move we are as close as two people can be she plays her part and operates under tommy

04:37:17.920 shall be rules and for that i will give her the house and kids and life what love you baby

04:37:23.100 guess who that was what okay that was your boyfriend that's the situation that's the situation

04:37:30.500 that's funny mean oh what do you mean rayon dt donated 69 dollars thank you what about guys who

04:37:39.380 like to spend their money on super chats smile okay we can go around would you date a man who legally

04:37:45.000 owned firearms absolutely yeah yep i own firearms yeah okay i would actually prefer it yeah gotcha

04:37:56.720 let me let me get through these other chats here um nickelodeon is about to come up here in just a

04:38:03.720 sec nickelodeon says ginger why is everything about sex because that's what men think about why do women 1.00

04:38:08.900 expect men to think like them that's naive i haven't saved brian's life but i've almost made him

04:38:14.380 say the n word oh god okay all right he did he actually did almost trick me into saying it it's

04:38:24.680 a long story that'd be so scary as a streamer because you're just reading you know yeah i just

04:38:28.800 read it so i always read stuff in my my mind first yeah or get my head and then i say it out loud

04:38:34.600 it's like i'm always like is this a ploy to get me to say something i probably shouldn't yeah uh

04:38:40.080 this is you maxually blah blah blah brian it's time to mix up your wardrobe wear something other

04:38:47.460 than your black shirt and the fan look i keep it simple i keep it simple tell the story behind the

04:38:53.180 seven yeah i'm also curious yeah maybe someday but not tonight what uh ed carter f that bible

04:39:01.460 bashing ned flanders what who's ned flanders me am i ned flanders are you ned flanders

04:39:08.320 we have stochastic decay hey brian sorry i'm late question for china what type of gear are you on

04:39:18.360 d-ball trend winnie anivar and a drawl oh gosh i'm not on any of those which so h hrt is hormone

04:39:26.140 replacement therapy so just like men if you have low testosterone as a woman and you're the right 0.99

04:39:30.800 age and it makes sense for your health you can get that prescribed from a doctor so that's what i'm

04:39:35.020 taking is it like progesterone no it's testosterone oh it is yeah that's what hormone replacement

04:39:40.600 therapy is well i wasn't sure if you were like taking hormones for like estrogen because i know

04:39:44.900 some like i was actually taking estrogen would be like birth control no i was actually prescribed

04:39:50.160 estrogen while i was on the child drug because it actually reduced my estrogen levels so birth

04:39:55.240 that was the only hormonal birth control is also usually estrogen or progesterone yeah let's see

04:39:59.700 we have a couple chats here from uh let's see seaberg brian i think her dream girl works at chick-fil-a 1.00

04:40:07.340 funny story i actually dated a girl for two years and at least when i had met her she was working at

04:40:14.660 chick-fil-a so i dated a girl for two years she worked at chick-fil-a did you get free chick-fil-a

04:40:20.460 um once maybe i think she brought it home but i think they don't they don't just get free

04:40:29.160 chick-fil-a i mean i still would have brought chick-fil-a is bomb though so it was i don't know

04:40:37.400 uh jenny jeremy from right to left eight five four five ten not gonna lie laura is hot as af 1.00

04:40:45.120 i let her punch me in the face ten six eight ten wait from right to left right wait eight point five 1.00

04:40:59.160 four five ten ten six eight ten okay jeremy all right um laura can i set you up jeremy sure yeah 0.98

04:41:14.220 he calls you a 10 so you want to get punched in the face would you punch him in the face 0.68

04:41:20.260 like would you i've never actually punched anyone oh really no but i haven't i have been told i would 0.89

04:41:26.500 i would do well in like the wwe or something so maybe that'll be after okay all right it's in the

04:41:31.260 works the retirement career it's in the works um what else do we have uh let's see

04:41:38.100 sugar daddies oh sugar what the yeah okay i'll i'll read that later um who here has had a sugar daddy

04:41:50.920 and we'll go around the table have you no kind of yeah sugar daddy no no no no would would anybody

04:42:01.120 here be a sugar mama sometimes i feel like it in my relationships what you feel like it sometimes

04:42:09.080 how so are you a higher are you a higher earner i do good because i've definitely heard from some

04:42:18.560 only fans girls is in a relationship because they do only fans because they're involved in sex work 1.00

04:42:25.020 they feel like they have to almost make up for it in a way and they'll they'll typically make up for it

04:42:30.120 by like more so than the average girl more so than like the general population of women they'll like

04:42:37.760 buy a lot of gifts they'll provide they'll pay for dates that sort of thing i don't think i

04:42:43.340 do that because i've only fan shame more because it's easier for me to do it for my friends and the

04:42:53.200 people that i love and i know it'd be harder for them to get dinner than for me to get dinner

04:42:57.300 gotcha so okay fair enough um so sugar daddies would you be a sugar mama to somebody no i've dated 1.00

04:43:06.720 guys in the past where that kind of became the dynamic and i really didn't like it you didn't like

04:43:11.580 i've realized over time dating because i you know i have master's degrees i was a six-figure

04:43:16.400 earner starting in my 20s right yeah um that tends to attract a type of male that's a little bit more 0.90

04:43:21.600 like i don't want to use this word but like more just like beta or like feminine energy right they 1.00

04:43:27.420 want to refer to me right yeah and i didn't like that um so it's i've been in a couple relationships

04:43:33.920 where that kind of became the pattern and i just i it doesn't work and would you prefer the guy to be

04:43:38.760 a bit more dominant yes you want the guy to be the leader in the relationship

04:43:42.920 do you want to arm wrestle right now no i'm kidding okay are you down if we can get um how

04:43:50.660 much do you want to set the price for like a my sorry my shoulder's kind of i'm right i'm right

04:43:56.640 i'm a lefty okay that's okay not meant to be it's too far away um i know where's the super chat link

04:44:05.060 so you said you had a sugar daddy you were kind of like sort of ish was your sugar daddy while you

04:44:12.600 were in college yeah back in college how old were you when you had your sugar daddy 19 i think have

04:44:18.560 you had multiple sugar daddies really one consistent one like i was on seeking so like oh you got on

04:44:24.400 seeking okay yeah um so you were 19 what what was the arrangement um it was like i don't know like

04:44:33.500 coffee date 200 bucks his house 200 bucks depending on what we did wait 200 bucks for a coffee date yeah

04:44:41.280 and then two 200 bucks it's like 200 per meeting but more if we did more how much what i never did

04:44:49.620 more you never did more no but you said you'd meet at his house too sometimes yeah like he would

04:44:54.340 wine and dine me we'd chat for 200 bucks what so did you kiss him yeah did you charge for the kiss

04:45:02.780 no maybe i should it was included it was included it was a package about that god

04:45:08.120 um is that the furthest

04:45:11.160 yeah like we sing the d no no s-ing the d no like tried and he could tell he was not into it

04:45:18.740 he tried he tried yeah he offered did he offer what was there a negotiation 500 he was just like

04:45:25.100 you don't want to do this i was like i don't want to do this and he was like okay here's your money go

04:45:29.060 home and i went home how was he like a much older guy not like mid 40s late 40s mid 40s okay

04:45:37.360 i don't get what these guys because a lot of these like sugar daddy like the girls never end up 0.92

04:45:43.220 fucking the so i just don't get what the dudes are what's the point he's lonely yeah yeah it really 0.98

04:45:51.240 was paying companionship say it's someone who works you know crazy hours sure and they don't have the 0.99

04:45:58.540 ability to be out on the dating scene or go somewhere where they would meet someone so they

04:46:03.500 you know use this arrangement to meet someone have someone to talk to yeah

04:46:09.760 okay all right if you say so um you had a sugar daddy kind of i guess so uh how much total do

04:46:20.020 you think he paid you total you don't know she doesn't want to what about you the guy this one

04:46:25.740 guy how many total meetups do you think there were not many like how much he lived like an hour away

04:46:31.660 so like five five okay all right okay all right we have we have uh hold on i'm just gonna read this

04:46:41.780 this is okay xavier blm is a scam go sub to prager you bring back deborah lay oh yeah she's okay i need

04:46:50.140 to dm her um pink friday two by nikki minaj what the cardi b belongs wait did it come up did it go away

04:46:58.420 already uh cj pearson for president miss caden is the main character and a skinny legend city boys

04:47:06.900 we up we have uh brandon mel i think i'm in love with anya brian tell her about the time i saved you

04:47:14.040 from that wild chimpanzee so yes anya brandon did save me from a wild chimpanzee we're at the santa barbara 0.85

04:47:19.760 zoo and somehow it got out of its enclosure and it just started like it was fucking and people bring 0.99

04:47:26.400 their dogs to the zoo and said so the chimpanzee started chasing after dogs trying to fuck up dogs 0.99

04:47:31.360 and shit the dogs were barking i was there the chimpanzee saw me came towards me and then brandon 0.98

04:47:37.600 stepped in front of me have you ever seen dragon ball z you know how piccolo gets in front like in 0.98

04:47:41.540 the very few first few episodes piccolo blocks goku from the the attack from raditz right is that wait

04:47:48.300 was it piccolo chat confirmed piccolo blocked goku from the raditz attack was it raditz wait

04:47:56.520 chat can you help me out here wait chat chat chat chat chat chat chat was it the piccolo piccolo

04:48:05.000 chat hello help me out here guys was it it was no hold on no piccolo got it was the very first few

04:48:14.360 episodes no no no not napa and gohan got no no no guys that's like way into the saiyan saga

04:48:22.380 it's way into the saiyan saga i'm pretty sure piccolo sacrificed himself to protect goku am i wrong

04:48:29.460 they're saying yes piccolo stopped napa's no but somebody goku held raditz oh wait goku wait goku 0.94

04:48:38.780 oh wait hold on am i fucking the shit up what was the okay i don't know in any case brandon 0.99

04:48:46.700 melz protected me like it was dragon ball z took the beam for me boom got in the way of the fucking 1.00

04:48:52.600 chimpanzee started fucking that chimpanzee up like boom boom like an animal animal abuse shit right 1.00

04:48:57.740 oh fucked up the chimpanzee it was a wild chimpanzee right well not wild but it was acting wild 1.00

04:49:03.220 would you date brandon um i need to know more about him brandon she's got no more you got to 0.99

04:49:11.360 send some details brandon send some details how do you treat your parents yeah what was the third one

04:49:17.720 christ gaming and your relationship with god so we got this one j lion 86 around the table someone is

04:49:26.380 breaking into your house should your husband wait for the intruder to delete you or him or wait to find

04:49:31.280 out bro can you please is actually your what hello this doesn't bro uh is actually is your future

04:49:40.400 child when they're sneaking back in the house before he deletes the person what i don't understand this

04:49:45.160 at all yeah wait for the intruder he's asking what we would do what we want our husband to do 0.98

04:49:50.380 no no no no he's saying if there's an intruder in the house are you gonna kill them straight away 0.97

04:49:56.340 or are you gonna wait to see if it's your child that snuck out and come back in 0.99

04:49:59.220 okay like first of all if you're a gun owner you know that

04:50:02.280 if you are in a certain situation you can't just shoot shoot so if they're a gun owner and a smart

04:50:11.740 one at that and you do look before you shoot they yeah there's some guidelines that they follow before

04:50:17.500 just deleting somebody yeah good times we don't get guns in australia you guys are more bad off than

04:50:24.400 we have vladdy daddy what is the general round table perception of a good-looking eight to nine

04:50:29.580 man with an extremely low to no body count who isn't who isn't interested in sex without romance

04:50:35.000 also would anyone consider it acceptable to lie in order to date said man yeah i don't really

04:50:42.700 um that was a pointed question who is interested in sex without romance uh we can typically only do

04:50:50.480 like one question per chat so would you anyone consider it acceptable to lie in order to date said man

04:51:01.660 would you lie about here i'm just gonna have to improvise on this

04:51:05.940 would you lie about your body count to a really attractive guy that you really like

04:51:12.800 no because if you don't like me for me then why am i going to be with you

04:51:17.180 i might fabricate it

04:51:20.420 no and i don't feel like i have anything to hide from

04:51:28.660 nothing to hide i wouldn't lie

04:51:31.580 but he shouldn't know i i think you know it would be in his mind it would burn in his mind

04:51:38.180 and it would cause trouble in the future so it's better to keep like yeah did you have i don't 0.64

04:51:43.700 know for example if it's a red flag uh to have sex with a married a person ask it do you have sex 0.60

04:51:49.740 with someone married yes or no and that's all not not the numbers we have brandon melz here boy 0.85

04:51:57.020 i've been on you know me yeah he's been on the show before uh he has black hair

04:52:03.560 he has black hair he's got dark hair memorable um sold i love that i really impression that one

04:52:14.040 he's a nice guy he's a nice guy he's a nice guy um he he's got great hair did i mention his hair

04:52:22.220 fantastic hair his hair is really nice if you like men with nice hair he's your guy speaking of body

04:52:29.800 count should body count matter boom on which side like either way no here how about this do you

04:52:37.880 object to men caring about uh women's body count i mean i think everyone's entitled to their own

04:52:43.480 opinion sure i think same yeah sorry i mean same you really yeah you don't have you you don't think

04:52:52.320 anything about it come on tell us how you really feel i've been talking a lot um you're right moving

04:53:03.800 on go ahead right just kidding go ahead and say your piece i don't know it doesn't really matter

04:53:08.060 there's only been one time when i've dated a guy where it kind of mattered because he told me he was

04:53:11.820 a sex addict and i was like and i was like that's not like a great way to like start off but he was

04:53:18.180 so cool so word but it's if he cares about your body count right that's that was the question

04:53:24.100 oh um do you care if he cares do i care if a guy cares about my body now i think it's like weird

04:53:29.280 it's like if you have like a like a big body count and they're like really not into that then that's

04:53:35.740 fair whatever like you don't have to be into me um but you don't gotta be what's a big body count

04:53:43.480 do you reckon well hers was 15 that was surprising um did she say it i must have been in the toilet

04:53:49.420 yeah she said like a big body count would be 15 i would probably say like 1.00

04:53:54.880 excuse me over like 30 yeah yeah that's a big one that's a big body count but like not crazy

04:54:02.720 for a girl it's pretty crazy i'm just saying in general like the guy that i was seeing was had

04:54:08.540 80 and i was like a guy you were saying the guy that i was like the one person i've ever been like

04:54:13.000 he told me i was a sex addict and had 80 and i was like do i care okay moving on what about you

04:54:19.440 um everyone's entitled to their own opinion yeah like if they care they care but if they care about

04:54:27.520 my body count then i'm gonna be like sorry to disappoint you know like i don't know like

04:54:31.900 yeah fair what about you i think everyone's entitled to their preferences um at the same time i feel

04:54:40.240 like it doesn't come up that much after a certain age like yeah i don't think i've ever really had

04:54:45.760 had partners like ask me that question would you be offended if a guy asked you what your body count

04:54:50.260 was no i don't think so okay i mean yeah i guess it's entitled to their own opinion but i mean i could

04:55:00.100 see why they would care like i could see why they care yeah i believe everyone can have their own

04:55:06.900 opinion but i do think that it does affect your relationship with that person i think that if

04:55:12.420 they know like you said it kind of gets burned in their brain and then they'll start comparing

04:55:16.520 themselves true it's just hard yeah i think before marriage you shouldn't even have one person so if

04:55:24.540 you already had one it's more than enough but if god has forgiven uh let's move on it's you know

04:55:31.160 have you had one yeah yeah yeah yeah get the rocks abdul yeah get the rock get the rocks i'm just kidding 0.98

04:55:42.140 i'm not proud of that i'm not it's okay it's people have sex wait with your current guy you i think 0.99

04:55:52.840 you said you're waiting right with your new guy yes yes yes yes he's christian he's christian is he 0.93

04:55:58.100 a virgin i get that uh i don't think so what yeah it's been one week to be fair yeah just one week

04:56:07.160 but it is her boyfriend so but you know if god forgive him there's nothing i can bring against him

04:56:13.920 conversation hasn't come up though he hasn't told you about his about his his past no no no no you guys

04:56:19.680 haven't had the birds and the bees talk not yet okay uh okay i ask this every show because why not

04:56:29.560 what what's everyone's body count go ahead nine nine eleven i literally don't know it's like

04:56:39.280 20 something 20 something yeah 20 29 maybe i'd say like well wait you you've been dating you said

04:56:51.960 you've been kind of dating a guy for like four years right right in that time period i forgot if

04:56:56.840 you've already were have you seen other guys in that time period the first time we broke up first

04:57:01.600 time you broke up okay this is mostly college you'd think yeah like the oh yeah the bodies yeah

04:57:09.140 during college college yeah early college college i was a small town girl small town girl big

04:57:16.540 university big university sorority you know sorority alpha football team that was yeah i get it i get it

04:57:25.000 it happens it happens one thing one day you're a small town girl living in a lonely world half the

04:57:35.200 you said d1 d1 athletes baseball team no no i knew a girl who slept with the entire for me men's football 1.00

04:57:45.720 team at a college i mean college football teams are big they're big yeah they're second string like 0.97

04:57:53.380 literally third string some people are red red shirting quarterbacks and shit seriously nicholas 0.93

04:58:01.440 knows all about that right nick okay he was a red shirt quarterback so he was on the list nicholas 0.98

04:58:09.880 before he took an arrow to the knee was going to be a court uh he was going to go play college ball

04:58:15.180 wow but now he's work in the whatever podcast he's in the whatever dungeon yeah i keep him in the

04:58:22.600 whatever dungeon he's really loud on his face there body count i prefer not to answer range

04:58:28.300 like less than 10 okay zero like i said i'm saving myself for marriage so seven

04:58:35.080 range range less than 10 more than more than 10 less than 10 of course of course i mean i don't know 0.94

04:58:44.460 if it's of course but okay zero no before you became a born again virgin shut up bro come on 0.95

04:58:53.620 born again bro born again after thailand i was born again then oh you were uh 0.97

04:58:59.460 choose a good one is it oh wait never mind okay i had a button for it but it's too late

04:59:08.980 the moment's past i don't reveal my body count just ask everybody else no i do not reveal my body count

04:59:17.360 i guess okay i'm not gonna tell you but you can guess will you give me a wink if i get close

04:59:24.020 nope okay same numbers i'm like phasing it in i'm gonna i'm gonna say like

04:59:32.340 seven seven people seven seven seven

04:59:38.420 okay cool okay good guess you gotta give me like a

04:59:43.920 i can't all right we have yo seberg mars it seems to me that you have a really great personality

04:59:51.600 thank you you have a soft and nurturing demeanor seems like you would make a great wife and mother

04:59:58.120 instant gratification can get in the way of our long-term happiness purpose easy now hard later

05:00:04.640 your response mars that was a nice way to put your opinion i'll i'll keep it in here thank you i mean

05:00:11.720 it seemed fairly complimentary so that was very nice very nice so much better than the last one

05:00:19.160 you know oh my god now before i wrap up here any final thoughts speak now or forever hold your peace

05:00:26.020 if you have a final thought i've got a question for you over here being a young christian conservative

05:00:32.620 virgin you and your friends you're all in that sort of ilk what are you guys looking for in a guy and 0.73

05:00:38.240 what are the disqualifiers if a man was a was a man whore in a past life is he just disqualified i 0.75

05:00:43.660 mean if obviously he like i do believe in forgiveness and i'm i've tried not to be judgmental so

05:00:49.340 obviously like if he does turn his turn his life around and he gets baptized whatever then i will

05:00:54.880 like accept him like he doesn't have to be a virgin but again i'd rather be with somebody who has the

05:00:59.620 christian morals and all your friends are along the same lines yeah i was just i was just dipping

05:01:06.000 dipping my toes in the water you know maybe i have to go all the way get baptized

05:01:10.940 anything from anybody else any uh come on uh hungarian dating what's it like in hungary

05:01:18.900 so how's it like in hungary it's good yeah it's different but i've always wanted to date a hungarian

05:01:23.720 you shouldn't believe in the news i guess you should hungary's amazing in the rabbit hole and

05:01:30.000 listen to prigger you and everything we are so conservative uh we are i think we are light

05:01:36.460 in europe in in a lot of ways okay so yeah yep budapest is a great thank you for having me

05:01:44.780 as well yeah okay are the men better here budapest budapest is the capital of the hungry

05:01:49.340 i spent a favorite tom babies here aren't treat you better do they treat you better here or

05:01:53.640 yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah american men you prefer the american this one this guy

05:01:59.760 this guy this guy this guy this guy specifically okay anything i just want to say this was really

05:02:08.140 fun yeah really yes guys yeah i got a little spicy in there a couple times but i had it i did it all

05:02:16.440 in good fun you know we made fun of each other yeah i think y'all appreciate it yeah we're different

05:02:22.380 opinions i actually get along really well normally with like the spiritual sort of talks normally like

05:02:27.120 i have really robust conversations with them so we'll call it that are you calling me spiritual

05:02:30.720 yeah you're one of the spiritual types she's one of the spiritual types 0.99

05:02:34.920 like a hippie me and i go home tonight i'm just like kumbaya belly dancing

05:02:38.720 you definitely tried the fire sticks in thailand 0.99

05:02:43.960 just aligning the chakras and stuff sick i'm gonna pretend like you just make my dick go soft 1.00

05:02:52.800 what um that crazy dancing making my penis soft you have such a crazy soundboard my soundboard is lit 0.99

05:03:07.400 okay um all right let's see um oh twitch we got a shout out yo guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever 0.99

05:03:14.420 drop us a follow drop us a prime sub if you're uh watching over there i'm a korean thank you for

05:03:21.400 the prime buddy much appreciated thank you thank you uh let's see we're caught up on chats we're

05:03:26.200 okay we have this last chat here whoops yo nico brian great show well diversified panel jake was a

05:03:33.920 great voice of reason for these girls looking forward to hearing from you um yeah jake was awesome uh his

05:03:41.120 second time on the show always happy to uh have him and i appreciate you being level-headed and not

05:03:47.480 shoving your opinions down people's throats oh thank you i thought i was getting too shovy at

05:03:52.280 times i mean like you were strong in your opinion but not strong to where it was like let me convert

05:03:57.840 your thoughts because my way is the only way i feel like that happens i mean his way is kind of the

05:04:03.940 only way i feel like we all jake's way is kind of the only way yeah let's be real if you watch my

05:04:08.700 channel it's the only way you said rattlesnake rattlesnake what is that tv so it's normally

05:04:16.900 on it errs on the conservative side of political and social commentary but i also commentate on a

05:04:22.680 lot of geopolitics as well a little bit of hungry i'm gonna check it yeah i'm gonna and um yeah so i

05:04:28.760 talk about a lot of things a lot of like a little bit about like dating and masculinity and

05:04:32.520 feminism which is the bane of my existence but yeah yeah talk about a lot of different things 1.00

05:04:38.980 it's the bane politics it's the bane of his existence how does that make you feel how does

05:04:43.840 that make you guys feel i'm not feminist does it make you feel good do you agree with that do you

05:04:48.680 disagree are you a feminist or are you super based no i would say i'm feminist in that i believe in

05:04:56.980 equality of opportunity okay the way feminism has been interpreted and is applied now no i can't i

05:05:04.380 can say that yeah it's it's a very toxic ideology now it's always been very toxic there's a false

05:05:09.820 notion that feminism used to be like great when really the roots of feminism are actually very 0.99

05:05:15.400 marxist in their origin and it's all about power and oppression and seeing the world in a victim

05:05:20.260 versus oppressor structure if you read the early marxist do you guys know like karl marx and friedrich

05:05:25.840 if you read that early work it's very like seeing pitting men and women against each other and the

05:05:32.760 early feminists are all about destroying the nuclear family and yeah it's toxic toxic society destroying 1.00

05:05:38.740 perverse stuff word word yeah yay oh last thing before our last show our last show you had a quarrel with

05:05:53.060 me because i edited uh the thumbnail i i uh did a little touch up on on your photo and you

05:06:02.720 i did not like that you didn't like it it's not that i didn't not like it i was just wondering if

05:06:09.840 you were being a little clickbaity clickbaity yeah what do you mean i feel like over edited the photo

05:06:15.700 like like no it was pretty tame you know what's funny i've done a bunch of podcasts no no on my

05:06:23.080 channel and and the one time i interviewed a girl was the one time i ever got in trouble for a

05:06:27.140 thumbnail she emailed me to change the thumbnail oh my god i didn't care i was really just like

05:06:31.420 it was trolling you to be funny like okay i wasn't upset is that why the caption for this one was back

05:06:37.820 i saved i saved it for the the very end of the podcast but yeah oh no i wasn't like actually mad

05:06:43.960 to confront me oh yeah no i wasn't actually mad i just thought i thought that was gonna be a bit

05:06:48.120 of beef i was in the cup it was like a little i was wondering i read that and i was like who's

05:06:52.320 i was like is that me it's you okay you're the drama yeah am i the drama you are the drama

05:07:00.440 i mean it's you know but uh i forgot i it seemed like you were a little hurt oh my god no not at

05:07:08.180 on the last episode i'm not easily offended so i thought i was just trying to troll you that's good

05:07:12.660 because i know that's your mo don't walk it back come on come on don't walk it back you were upset

05:07:17.040 i really wasn't you were upset honestly i really wasn't oh okay that's fine that's fine because i

05:07:21.020 mean you link my my instagram anyway so if someone goes to my instagram like they can see what the

05:07:25.620 actual foot it looks like so it's really not okay i think i removed like a mole or two i think

05:07:32.860 that's like literally multiple freckles i removed like i got so offended when somebody removed my

05:07:39.120 freckles i'm like i like my freckles yeah i'm a i'm anti-freckles really in my yeah i have freckles

05:07:45.820 in weird places i have freckles i have freckles i literally i have like freckles in my arm

05:07:49.560 no freckles are fine i'm just what if a girl has freckles on her labia what's that what if a girl 1.00

05:07:54.560 has freckles on her labia that's fine do you have freckles on your labia that's a personal

05:07:59.800 question i was like i've never even seen that's a very personal question i'm very curious now i would

05:08:04.960 like to i'm asking you a hypothetical because you have such strong opinions on labias no on body parts

05:08:11.000 i have strong opinions on body parts so i'm just what do you think about it freckles is it like

05:08:16.300 super cool i'm just when it's it's not like okay if i'm dating a girl and she has freckles 0.84

05:08:21.140 that's fine but like when when it comes to the the editorial the the the final product of the image

05:08:30.320 for the thumbnail goodbye freckles that's why i never make it on the thumbnail so okay you gotta

05:08:36.880 get the hot ones on there okay all right thanks should we do you want to talk more about labia 0.92

05:08:41.800 because i'm i can talk about labia i will talk about okay all fucking night what is your thoughts 0.98

05:08:47.720 on what's that instagram reels this see-through dress trend love it what love it oh my god 0.96

05:08:55.580 see-through dress trend on instagram where like people literally put lunch meat in there

05:09:00.880 some people like over exaggerate it really oh my god yeah you've never seen that yeah i don't really

05:09:07.680 are you saying like the the kind of sheer the girls that were this they they were like sheer dresses 0.88

05:09:13.120 they stand with their legs love it spread and there's light coming in from the back so you can

05:09:17.940 see everything that is there but some people over exaggerate it and literally put something are you

05:09:25.400 legitimately a fan of big labia yes are you being are you trolling about that no i'm a hundred 0.59

05:09:30.220 percent serious yeah a hundred percent serious okay i like innies are cool too but like 0.77

05:09:35.580 outies what's up yeah dms are open this is the first time my feelings have been hurt this entire

05:09:41.860 podcast oh why because you have an innie someone out there for you no it's not that i

05:09:49.000 innies are good innies are good don't get me wrong it's not like i wouldn't date a girl who has an

05:09:56.060 innie but if she's got an audi boom finger guns got it and on that hit me up yeah there's definitely 0.99

05:10:08.040 i've seen some of that shit you're talking about the girls who like it's wild it's i'm surprised 0.93

05:10:12.840 that's not tos i'm surprised that's not like it blows my mind like leave something for the 0.98

05:10:16.700 imagination yeah yeah i will say that it's i've invited them on the show and i've not heard back

05:10:24.960 so i'm trying to and you're like an advocate for them as well i i am an advocate i'm the trailblazer

05:10:33.060 oh yeah when it comes to this labia big labia movement and i wish i had i was a bit more recognized

05:10:39.260 for the for what i have done for this uh community for the community 444 followers exactly yeah that's

05:10:49.420 isn't that that's an angel number it is i don't know what it means yeah i it means that that's

05:10:55.680 good luck that the girl's gonna respond to you now uh we're caught up on chats okay cool wrapping up

05:11:01.400 here uh guys oh audi labia equals lips that grip that is facts that is facts raven dt um yeah word

05:11:13.400 uh anyways um oh seven's in the chat last call hit the like button please on your way out thank you

05:11:19.440 for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate

05:11:23.360 that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you to the wonderful

05:11:29.480 panel any women who want to be on the show dm out whatever on instagram we will be live again

05:11:35.380 tuesday 5 p.m pacific we have a very good show planned some good guests coming it's going to be

05:11:41.060 a halloween show so if you want to see maddie uh what are you wearing maddie for that one what do 0.72

05:11:46.220 you want i don't know oh don't spoil it don't spoil it i know anyways guys tuesday

05:11:59.440 5 p.m pacific be sure to tune in we will see you next time oh seven's in the chat good night guys

05:12:04.460 see you later

Whatever Podcast - November 01, 2023

Muscle Mommy CONFRONTS Brian？! ft. HOE MATH ｜ Dating Talk #113

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