Whatever Podcast - She Keeps A LIST Of The Men She Sleeps With (100+)？!

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00:02:07.000 the guests introduce themselves please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hello my name is

00:02:11.800 mckenna segers i'm 21 and i do only fans okay what about you um i'm hayley jackson i'm gonna opt out of

00:02:20.820 the age one i have a reason for that why so are you over 18 yes i'll show you my id um why are you opting

00:02:28.560 out of the age one two years ago i had a subscriber on only fans find my address because he did the math

00:02:34.800 on my birthday and he had my full birthday and he had my full name and he was stalking me and had

00:02:41.460 photos of my car so it was like a really weird situation so now i just decided not to share that

00:02:47.580 on social media i mean it's not clear to me if like someone being able to just determine your

00:02:55.700 birth date when it comes to the year you were born could lead anybody to he had my full name and my

00:03:04.360 date of birth like my actual date of birth but your age would only indicate your birth year

00:03:10.660 yeah true so i'm not that you don't need to tell us your i just wonder if people would like see on my

00:03:17.860 social media that my birthday can you give us an age range 26 i'm 26 okay what about you

00:03:24.400 hi my name is sage and i'm 25 i work in finance all right welcome i'm jamie i'm 31 and i work in the

00:03:34.360 dog grooming industry hi my name is kiara and i'm 23 years old and i do only fans

00:03:41.440 i'm audi aka audi's drip i'm 22 years old and i'm an artist

00:03:47.820 i'm mick and i'm 27 and i work in the music industry i'm madison i'm 18 years old i'm a student

00:03:57.760 at santa barba city college studying business i work for the whatever podcast i'm a host at a bar

00:04:03.360 and yeah all right we're gonna go around the table uh once more what's your current relationship

00:04:09.940 status are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married polycule

00:04:14.100 sex cult uh how long have you been single if you're single longest relationship go ahead

00:04:18.320 uh i'm single currently and i've been single for my whole life

00:04:22.620 uh single currently single for your whole life what's the longest period of time that you've

00:04:28.320 dated somebody i've never dated anybody what's the longest period of time you've seen somebody

00:04:34.460 um i've been in like situations i was in a situation for like a year

00:04:39.880 okay so your longest situationship was a year yeah okay but single your whole life

00:04:45.700 yes longest situationship one year um was it on again off again

00:04:51.280 or was it yeah were you guys monogamous uh no was it open on his end or your end or both

00:05:01.000 it was both ends we were both like seeing other people you're seeing other people at the same time

00:05:05.060 yeah how many people are you currently seeing um one is it the current situation yeah

00:05:13.820 yeah it is

00:05:15.800 you've been seeing somebody for one year so you're single no it well it was a year sorry

00:05:21.280 to interrupt but it was a year and then we stopped seeing each other for a year

00:05:24.140 and now it's back on yeah oh so it is it is on again off again yes definitely okay

00:05:29.800 you're not really single are you i mean you're currently sleeping with somebody

00:05:32.940 well i'll sleep with other people huh i'll sleep with other people for sure but but you're just

00:05:37.080 seeing him right now yeah i'm not just i'm not interested in anybody else to see or like

00:05:41.040 have sex with i guess okay when in your first round of the situationship you were you said you

00:05:47.520 were seeing other people like what was the most amount of people that you were seeing at

00:05:50.440 any one given time um so i used to do professional fashion modeling and i went to milan

00:05:57.140 and when i was there i probably saw i saw a lot of guys i don't i can't even i don't give us a

00:06:03.280 give us a range um why not uh maybe like so i was there for like two months and i think i

00:06:10.700 there was like probably two every week two two every week yeah two guys two new guys two new guys

00:06:18.940 every week yes in the rotation yes and then i went back came back to california and wait so let's do the

00:06:27.060 math here two you were there for two months two every week four weeks in a month

00:06:33.260 16 yes around there more than 16 there's more than 16 okay yeah maybe maybe do you have a total

00:06:47.660 number do you keep a diary who keeps a diary i've i've kept a diary i've kept a list but now i just

00:06:54.380 i like lost you lost the list yeah no i didn't lose that it's in your notes on your phone it is

00:06:59.960 on my phone it is but can who else here has a list of all the guys they've everybody no but i like

00:07:06.820 stopped putting names on the list at a certain point because i would forget to so can we see the

00:07:13.760 list you want to see the list some of them are like empty spaces because you because i like there

00:07:19.020 was like one that i i just didn't know his name okay yeah okay so i just made a little space you

00:07:25.560 should call them john doe yeah sure yeah my john does can we actually go through the list you want

00:07:32.360 to go through it can we go through the list okay let's do it fuck it let's let's go through the list

00:07:36.940 okay is the list caught up no it's it's outdated it's okay that's sufficient outdated list is

00:07:45.880 sufficient um let's see okay so while you're pulling that up there you were in italy you were in

00:07:53.440 milan uh getting your date on in italy um was this while you were on with the situation ship or were

00:08:02.760 off at this point we were on but it was never like a it wasn't like we never had that like talk

00:08:08.420 to be exclusive or anything so that's why like we would just kind of do whatever we wanted

00:08:11.500 we got a squeaker chair by the way i don't know if you guys um can we do something about that

00:08:17.780 i don't know who's got the squeaker is it yours uh just get a get a big proper chair and we'll we'll

00:08:25.580 swap it out uh yeah that's definitely a squeaker now that's gonna trigger me all night okay um

00:08:31.760 what's the list how's the list looking let's okay it's not even it's not even it's not even

00:08:39.340 that bad you guys it's not that bad no it's okay oh my god scrolling the scrolling the scrolling

00:08:47.020 i also would put okay so last time i updated it was april 8th because i used to put the last day

00:08:52.120 that i would have sex do you sleep with girls and guys yes okay so that kind of that kind of

00:08:57.380 makes it a little better a little bigger a little better bigger bigger list yeah no well so what's

00:09:07.920 on the list can you can you before telling us what the list is is it like name it's names and then

00:09:13.940 it's also empty spaces and like usernames but is it just names or do you put like details like is

00:09:20.600 the spreadsheet firefighter is there a spreadsheet where there's like peen size no no no i wish i

00:09:27.480 did that i should have done i used to when i was in high school i used to rank guys i would have like

00:09:31.500 five guys i'd be like talking to and i'd be like oh well he talked to me today so i'm gonna put him

00:09:35.780 at number one like you'd rank i would rank him this is during high school yes high school and you'd rank

00:09:40.620 them during high school uh well and you said it was up to five was there more than five at any

00:09:47.960 point it was just five five that was the extent of the roster in high school yeah and were any of

00:09:53.300 them they were all high school boys or some of them like so uh i started getting the college guys like

00:09:58.740 when i was like a sophomore and we got still high school yeah yeah that's it we need to boost the

00:10:05.100 audio um nick if you can yep uh so okay what does the list say what's your list say just read it

00:10:13.300 just read me to name the names uh what is it full names i don't know no it's not full names but

00:10:18.240 it's first names and it yeah that's okay i guess that's fine can you say the title of it too list of

00:10:25.260 bodies that's in my notes yes that's all okay appreciate the honesty

00:10:34.860 see a lot of people have what you have but they wouldn't have the courage oh i don't care

00:10:40.020 and the fortitude i know every girl has one i talked to every girl they're like yeah or like

00:10:43.860 they'll have they definitely have one i've never kept one i can count in my head

00:10:48.920 stop the cap it's a it's a uh brain list you have yeah i don't lose track uh go ahead tell us and

00:11:00.500 wait is this the idly list oh you want me to start i'll start in italy yeah because i don't want to

00:11:04.040 start in high school no no no let's start let's go in high school fuck it let's do it okay you're

00:11:08.920 starting at the beginning of the list okay we're and i'm naming the names sure why not okay first

00:11:15.280 one was guillermo well shut the fuck up no way yeah yes guillermo yes are you true because i feel

00:11:22.320 like that's you know what's even more embarrassing i literally am so embarrassed to say this he was

00:11:25.840 literally he's a soundcloud rapper and it's soundcloud that might be enough to id him chat get on it

00:11:32.820 no no no no don't idea is that his like soundcloud no no no no that's not his name

00:11:38.760 guillermo because what like guillermo seems like a troll name like it's like you might you could have

00:11:42.620 said like bartholomew or some shit would be more believable than guillermo but wait the you lost

00:11:49.080 your virginity to a guillermo oh my god yeah no offense backseat of a car too no offense to guillermo's

00:11:56.000 out there but yeah he's an awful guy too it's it's not i'm not sure okay so continue okay i have sammy

00:12:05.200 is that a woman that is a guy i have xavier i have jeremiah i have namir i have jet

00:12:16.800 with the very unique names like where's the john is there a john anywhere is there like a

00:12:22.720 um a benjamin there's a ben i have a couple ben are these all how you're you're 21 right are you

00:12:28.260 are you gen z that makes you gen z is it this is just like gen z zoomers just have like crazy ass

00:12:34.800 names is that it yeah who names gen z are those is that gen x are your parents gen x or they have no

00:12:41.840 idea my dad my dad was born in when was he born 72 i think that makes him gen x right the fuck gen x

00:12:49.540 just be naming their kids some crazy shit okay so continue sorry continue continue i'm sorry i kind

00:12:55.360 of want to get to the start from the beginning again and we'll just i won't interrupt go ahead

00:12:59.180 okay start from the beginning yeah just blast blast the names okay guillermo sammy xavier jeremiah

00:13:05.880 and amir jet peso roman jack bradley lucas sierra colby i don't know what else from that how would

00:13:16.620 you pronounce that asking the wrong girl julio he's from italy he doesn't tell your name ricardo

00:13:24.020 ayrton lorenzo another ricardo there's a lot of ricardos in italy okay

00:13:31.100 um dirk dirk olivier oliver olivier i don't know it's very unique name it's unique they're from

00:13:42.340 amsterdam yeah i feel like all their names would be kind of weird no no in italy but like keep going

00:13:48.300 no keep going keep just keep going um okay uh mikey uh there you go subby ben suffer

00:14:00.520 ben eddie cindy tim jason omar sam enrique nick daniel brandon eric tony i have a i have one

00:14:15.540 i think it's a username it's beach life yep yeah uh brock yoan louis uh sana sana uh tyler andy

00:14:27.380 johnny johnny thomas emily steve brandon franco monty and then firefighter

00:14:32.620 is that i don't was anybody counting i think i counted 51 that was impressive you can tell right

00:14:42.120 when it comes back to the states though yes yeah you can tell when you're like okay these are like

00:14:46.820 some american names that was beautiful that was like poetic i know i was like saying that

00:14:53.120 uh okay so you've got the list good and that's good that was good i i mean i don't i haven't updated

00:15:00.860 it was that a woman i think that was a guy actually huh yeah his name's his name is cindy yeah i think so

00:15:09.700 huh i know interesting interesting okay so um who's the situation ship is that lorenzo that's

00:15:20.640 you don't have to that's jack jack okay normal name normal name there we go we're getting somewhere

00:15:26.620 we're getting somewhere at least the this longer term thing you have going on his names he's got a

00:15:31.960 normalish name yeah uh okay so uh but you're not currently seeing anybody else right now or your

00:15:40.980 options are open you think no i i do have a guy that i am supposed to film with i actually got rid

00:15:46.140 of the old guy that i used to film with for like only fans um got rid of him yes first of all he

00:15:50.820 caught feelings for me and he was just being really weird yeah catching feelings i i don't do that at

00:15:55.780 all like once a guy catches feelings for me catching feelings yeah i don't do that happens

00:16:01.240 it scares me doesn't happen to you what do you mean what happens like you don't catch feelings for

00:16:05.840 the people you um sleep with i've gotten feelings before but like not like super hard where i go

00:16:12.120 fucking crazy over a person so okay fair enough fair enough well first off i i uh thank you for

00:16:19.740 sharing that because i feel like most people would be maybe a little hesitant but i i very much uh

00:16:25.180 applaud your your openness uh thank you and uh cool what about you so i'm in a relationship

00:16:34.200 like a six month relationship my longest was like two years i think and then what was the other

00:16:42.500 question i think that was it so the longest relationship two years you've been in a relationship

00:16:47.060 for six months is that um your six month relationship okay uh well i'll come back to that what about you

00:16:56.680 i'm single my longest relationship was eight years off and on longest was eight years off and on how many

00:17:06.600 times was it off and on um how many breakups were there i guess honestly i don't quite remember um

00:17:16.840 we met in high school uh

00:17:21.080 he'd disappear like after

00:17:25.420 i honestly i i can't say we'd

00:17:30.280 i genuinely don't know how long the periods were usually around a year and then we'd get back

00:17:39.460 together but we're completely off now when's the last time that you were seeing this guy

00:17:45.300 uh 2021 20 okay but uh so how many you don't recall like how many breakups there were is it more than

00:17:55.260 10 no not more than 10 okay uh and i was close with his family too so even when we were like off

00:18:02.200 i was still really close with his family okay so how long have you been single uh two years

00:18:08.520 okay two years uh so has there been there's been no guys in that two-year period no i've gone on

00:18:16.780 situationship kind of situationship uh sort of um kind of my second longest relationship five years

00:18:26.340 off and on okay

00:18:27.880 okay what about you um so i'm currently single my last relationship was a relationship

00:18:38.340 turned situationship and the situationship part of it lasted about two years um lasted two years

00:18:45.080 yeah so the whole thing was like three years total and then um my longest relationship was six years

00:18:52.400 with baby daddy six years oh you have a kid i do two two kids from the same same same guy

00:18:59.060 uh were you married it was not you were not married did you how long ago was that

00:19:06.900 uh 2020 was the end was the end okay gotcha and when wait when was the two year you said the one

00:19:17.180 year relationship two year situationship is that right so it was it was pretty much right after that

00:19:21.460 so like 2021 till very recently wait how soon after breaking up with baby daddy did you get into

00:19:29.720 this three year thing um maybe like three four months okay was it a rebound kind of or no it was the

00:19:40.000 relationship with baby daddy was over a long time before it actually ended um so i know i wouldn't consider it

00:19:48.240 that okay you weren't married to no okay so one year how did it go from a uh was it a monogamous relationship

00:19:59.720 baby daddy no no the the other one yes yes so it was monogamous but then it turned into a

00:20:06.220 two-year situationship how did how did that happen yeah so we lived together and then um we got in a

00:20:11.160 fight on vacation he moved out and then ever since then it's just been kind of like touch and go we

00:20:16.480 haven't been able to kind of get it together so can i ask a question go ahead what's the difference

00:20:23.280 between a relationship and a situation ship are you asking me yeah so in my opinion i guess it

00:20:31.040 depends on your agreement with that other person um so when you have those you know relationships

00:20:36.880 where it's like oh we're not we don't have a title we don't have a you know a a group that we put

00:20:43.380 ourselves in but we're still sleeping together and we're still like remaining monogamous i would

00:20:48.300 consider that a situation ship so still seeing each other but like technically you can go out on

00:20:54.040 dates but you're not really supposed to type thing i'm just wondering like who initiated going from a

00:21:04.220 monogamous relationship into a situation ship hold on grid one motorsports donated 100 red doesn't

00:21:11.680 catch feelings but she likely catches pretty much everything else going to need some extra strength

00:21:18.020 bleach on that chair i always wondered what daddy issues actually looked like now we all know

00:21:24.820 do you have a response to grid one it's actually mommy and daddy issues that does it looks pretty

00:21:30.400 good to me double trouble okay good times uh go ahead so i'm in a situation ship with two guys

00:21:38.880 you're in a situation ship yeah two guys do they know about each other yeah they do they know

00:21:46.980 about you yeah because i don't like doing that like doing what being monogamous uh no i just would

00:21:53.480 like to be honest about who oh okay i see um how long have you been seeing both of them so one of

00:21:59.560 them is my ex and i've been with him or i was with him when i was 18 and then we broke up we stopped

00:22:06.900 talking for a few years and then we recently like last year two years started talking again

00:22:12.140 and then the other guy he's a pilot um i just recently started talking to him but i think i'm

00:22:18.140 gonna end that one soon how long have you been talking to the pilot about two to three months

00:22:23.280 two to three months okay he got a girlfriend he has a girlfriend and then what about your

00:22:29.900 your other the ex guy he has he's also seeing other women yeah he has well he has a girlfriend

00:22:37.460 they both have girlfriends do the girlfriends know yeah do the girlfriends know no

00:22:42.460 it's a very complicated situation um so are you you're sleeping with both of them

00:22:56.140 yeah the pilot when he lands over here in los angeles but he lives over there in salvador

00:23:01.280 is he like is he drugged no he's a pilot yeah like for drugs no just like oh i don't know

00:23:10.700 okay all right um so is this an ideal situation do you like the current situation you're in

00:23:18.960 dating two men who are have girlfriends no not really what don't you feel i mean

00:23:25.220 they're aware that you're dating other people but don't you have any qualms with the fact that

00:23:34.820 they're not being honest with their girlfriends that's on them yeah but don't you feel complicit

00:23:41.160 to some degree and engaging in sexual relationships with men who have girlfriends i did feel bad but

00:23:50.100 they're gonna do it at the end of the day they're gonna when fuck so you might as well be the one

00:23:55.320 they fucked i would rat them out if i were you yes um okay so are you seeing any other guys too

00:24:07.240 or just these two yeah just them okay i don't like like a one night stand i like something more

00:24:13.520 you what what is that what is it like i don't know i just you want something more yeah with two

00:24:22.120 men who are in committed supposed committed relationships with other women two is better

00:24:26.440 than one no i'm just kidding no but like what what is it more that you want you want do you want a

00:24:31.660 long-term monogamous relationship um i did but i mean i'm not gonna get it out of them so i'm kind of

00:24:38.000 just but so why pursue them if you can't get it out of them if that's what you want i don't like

00:24:42.400 fucking new people you don't like fucking new people no not really uh so is it like you don't

00:24:50.000 want to add a body what's it called recycling is that the term yes when you recycle a body

00:24:55.820 um so but what are you looking for are you looking for something right now

00:25:00.680 yeah whenever it comes but i know i'm not gonna get it from them

00:25:04.700 okay so how often do you see them would you say the two guys that you're dating my ex every week

00:25:12.680 sometimes twice a week um and then the pilot whenever he comes so he usually comes to la

00:25:18.460 like three times a month are you open to like maybe introducing a married man to your

00:25:25.140 maybe add a married guy to the rotation what do you think about that

00:25:29.780 no no no married man would you no would you feel more guilty about involving a married man

00:25:36.340 getting involved with a married man

00:25:37.920 kind of like homewrecker type status or i mean you have your current you have dated a married man

00:25:45.900 no okay has anybody here dated somebody who's married or slept with somebody who's married

00:25:50.500 who was not your husband she's smiling no in a relationship but not married wait what do you

00:25:59.400 mean damn someone who's been in a really who is in a relationship someone who is in a relationship

00:26:04.060 but not someone who's been married okay so

00:26:08.240 you're looking for something serious but you're currently don't you think sleeping with two men

00:26:18.060 who have girlfriends who are you yourself have a assessed that they're not good long-term partners

00:26:25.020 don't you think it might be holding you back from finding somebody who would be good for a long-term

00:26:30.560 relationship if you're currently spending time with these men but you know yeah i mean i go out by

00:26:36.520 myself with my friends you know so i mean whoever comes to me like okay yeah so i think i don't think

00:26:46.160 it's wasting time it's like a good moment you know what's a good you said you weren't really like

00:26:50.340 happy so like what why haven't you gotten out of that situation because i don't know it's like

00:26:55.300 i guess comfort too so it's kind of a good moment on behalf of somebody else's pain

00:27:03.000 it's kind of crappy well i think the the person who has the ultimate accountability here is the two

00:27:11.820 two men for cheating on their girlfriends but i mean there's some culpability for you because you're

00:27:19.580 uh knowingly doing it yeah like i had somebody cheat on their girlfriend with me and i didn't know

00:27:26.880 but that just that shit hurts somebody else did you rat them out yeah as soon as i found out i'm

00:27:34.500 actually good friends with both of them now i love the girl um that was his girlfriend they broke up

00:27:41.220 pretty quick after they she found out she was mean for months to me about it but like one day i kind

00:27:48.720 of got tired of her being mean to me and explained to her i didn't owe her loyalty i didn't know her and

00:27:54.440 when i found out the first thing i did was tell her but her anger is directed at me when i had no clue

00:28:00.760 and i genuinely felt really bad because like when somebody cheats they're exposing their partner

00:28:06.720 they're putting their partner's body at risk for diseases and things that they'll never get rid of

00:28:13.240 like that's the biggest thing about cheating that's messed up you're hurting your body and somebody else's

00:28:19.820 without their consent that part word word uh so wait you say you're like going out and uh trying to

00:28:29.940 find a new guy or what yeah talking get to know people would you when you like uh so you're open

00:28:36.440 to meeting somebody new are you like are you on any dating apps right now um yeah just to promote

00:28:42.420 my only fans though just to promote your only fans i don't talk to people how do you promote on your

00:28:47.560 only fans on dating apps well i'll just i won't i'll just i won't make it clear like that because i

00:28:52.600 think you could get banned but um i just put follow me on instagram and okay it was nice oh so you

00:28:58.780 just have your instagram linked in your profile will do you match with men do you talk to them on

00:29:03.460 the apps um on dating apps on the dating apps oh so you just have the profile you'll match with people

00:29:09.380 but you won't engage in okay um i would preferably meet in person in person yeah okay so you're using

00:29:18.560 the dating apps to get more instagram followers and only fans subscribers um would you if you met a

00:29:28.020 new guy would you tell them about your that you're currently dating two other men you tell them do you

00:29:33.580 think that most men if told that you're currently dating two other men would be cool about that cool

00:29:39.900 with that no i don't think do you think they'd like a guy who'd be who you think would be good for

00:29:47.320 a long-term relationship do you think he'd be like ready to pounce on commitment um definitely not

00:29:56.940 but depending on how long we talk and and you know i'm i wouldn't be willing to like cut that out

00:30:02.700 you know you sorry you you would or you wouldn't be willing to cut i would cut it out you would cut

00:30:08.080 out would you when it comes to uh seeing somebody new and maybe we can go around the table on that

00:30:15.360 we should go around the table on this um when it comes to having sex how long do you like to wait

00:30:20.220 to have sex um is it i'd like to wait a while you you'd like to wait a while how long like a month

00:30:27.840 a month or two a month or two how many dates what do you think that'd be typically she's good she's

00:30:33.760 good i think it also depends on how good we vibe to um dates maybe like i don't know i wouldn't know

00:30:43.900 like let's say what if you went on one date a week it could be yeah it's like what eight dates a week

00:30:49.500 or something yeah like four ten ten dates yeah yeah two you said one to two months yeah wouldn't

00:30:56.640 that be good so you meet a new so you meet a new guy and then you tell him okay we're gonna wait

00:31:01.640 no sex until yeah i could wait yeah okay uh going around the table on this how long do you guys think

00:31:09.880 we should and we will get around fully to get everyone's relationship status but how long do

00:31:14.160 you think you should wait before having sex with somebody or not at all i feel like first with first

00:31:20.120 time uh it depends for people but for me i don't go on dates well i don't like when i when i

00:31:26.560 use the term date a date doesn't necessarily have to be super formal in the sense of like

00:31:31.680 hey we're gonna go get dinner and then we're gonna go see a mood like a date could just be

00:31:37.580 let's hang out okay um well if i'm going when you say you don't go on dates what do you do

00:31:45.800 i just hang out with them watch movies just like come over to my place yeah like i don't i don't like

00:31:51.580 to yeah because i don't want guys to think that i want to be in a relationship with them because

00:31:55.500 like i don't so i don't like going on dates and like i just honestly i've gotten from so many guys

00:32:00.640 they're like you know there's something weird about you and then they come back and they're like

00:32:03.220 oh i know what it is like you don't ask questions about me and i'm like yeah because i don't fucking

00:32:07.860 care i like i could care less like it's it's not even like me just like trying to have sex with

00:32:13.580 them or anything it's just like i honestly just could not care like i don't about getting to know

00:32:19.280 them because like if they take me out on a date and like sometimes i'll like go like i'll see if

00:32:22.980 i want to do it and like and then i just get the vibe i'm like okay i really don't like i don't

00:32:27.900 want to be here and then they're like they just keep asking questions about me and i'm just like

00:32:30.540 like i'm just trying to get to the end of it like leave but no that's why i don't really like

00:32:35.600 going on dates because i feel like you're you get trapped there sometimes like you don't have

00:32:39.340 anywhere to go if like something goes wrong but for me like if i'm going to hang out with a guy

00:32:44.360 it's a guy that i'm sexually attracted to so like we're having sex so of the you did anyone by the

00:32:51.100 way chat did anyone get a total did we get a count on is it like 50 i think that was i counted

00:32:57.620 i think it's in the 50 range but did anybody she didn't count the john does oh you didn't there

00:33:03.300 were there were john does yeah oh my god how many whoa whoa okay hold on we we must now revise

00:33:08.720 the list just say john doe john doe john doe john for as how many john does there are okay these

00:33:16.020 are these are the names um nick if you're able to adjust the exposure um these are the names

00:33:21.320 of the men that you've hooked up with that you you don't know their names

00:33:25.800 there's not that many

00:33:28.840 one two three four oh just four john does yeah four john does or like i i like knew their names

00:33:38.540 but i just didn't remember them when i like put in the list so i see so i made a little space for

00:33:42.520 them gotcha they're still there so for you typically uh the question was how long do you think you should

00:33:49.520 wait before hooking up somebody having sex for you is it just for me it's instant yeah same day

00:33:55.080 because like if i'm going to hang out with a guy i'm obviously sexually attracted to him right so

00:33:58.740 what's the uh so how do you typically meet the guys is it through instagram is it on dating apps

00:34:04.120 i don't use dating apps no dating apps so how do you meet them like at bars and clubs uh yes but also

00:34:10.860 i feel like i just like i reuse the same guys like i don't i don't really find new guys which is awful

00:34:18.620 for me but what do you mean you reuse like i just use guys like from like my high school or something

00:34:24.200 what the fuck it's awful they're please tell me they're of age yes of age okay not not in no not

00:34:30.500 like one motorsport donated one hundred dollars why would red care about them as long as she gets

00:34:36.860 paid up front she only needs to wait as long as it takes for the venmo to hit confirm or deny is

00:34:43.020 there an exchange of cash is there exchange i know you were in italy was euros do they use no i never

00:34:49.340 got what's the old italian currency the old one what's the old does anybody know chat what was the

00:34:55.200 old italian currency you know like how france had franks they'd switch to euros lira is it the italian

00:35:02.800 lira where did you receive any liras no for i never i know when i go out on no definitely not wait so

00:35:11.680 you said you'd meet them but you of the list you'd meet of the list so like how do you meet them

00:35:17.300 so some of those guys some of those guys were also like uh sugar daddies so sugar daddies okay so

00:35:23.160 like from seeking um so yeah i guess i did like they did they did give me money some of them did

00:35:27.820 but it wasn't just like for sex like i would also like you know i would go on dates with them i'd hang

00:35:33.340 out with them i'd go on their boat i'd you know stuff wait what percentage of the did anyone by the

00:35:37.920 way did anyone what was the count i forgot what the count was i don't know 55 was it like 56

00:35:43.120 was it 51 was it did anybody in the chat count sorry i missed it if you already said it guys in

00:35:50.000 the chat um how many of them were sugar daddies um a couple i went through like i went through a phase

00:35:56.760 for sure um phase yeah when i i think when i the year that i think it was in 2021 uh a couple of

00:36:03.960 them were sugar daddies but my thing was like i had a friend who would like just fuck any guy on

00:36:08.380 there for like any amount of money like 50 and he was like 80 years old or like something like that

00:36:13.000 she was wild but me 50 yes no like she was we should have had her on the show no yeah

00:36:18.220 no yeah maybe i'll give you her info but she are you in la no i'm in san diego okay is she in

00:36:25.880 sd2 yeah she's in san diego too but we'll get that around but she was really wild but for me like

00:36:31.760 my sugar daddies were in the range of like 30 to like 40 years old or like 30 and like 40s i would

00:36:36.160 never do anyone like too old or like i would do it for a certain amount of money i would never do it

00:36:40.640 for like a certain like less like i had my standards you were you were yeah i wasn't just

00:36:46.640 doing everybody and anything you know but so with the sugar daddies they would there would be a cash

00:36:52.940 exchange yeah for the services rendered yeah provided okay uh so but not all of the guys that

00:37:03.300 you've some of the guys you hooked up with wasn't for money yeah it was it was because you were

00:37:09.120 attracted to them you thought they were hot you were maybe interested in them um maybe more so

00:37:13.920 for those guys how how long would you wait for them um so just i mean i feel like now that i'm

00:37:24.780 older i would definitely try to wait because everyone tells me they're like oh you should

00:37:28.100 definitely wait like if you're sexually attracted to somebody you should make them wait a little longer

00:37:32.320 even my dad tells me that but i'm like but my thing is is like i am a very like i'm a very

00:37:38.360 very sexual person so i'm like i it's like hard for me to like wait and like i don't want to

00:37:42.880 okay um that that's fine i mean i'm me personally i'm not a huge fan of waiting so uh

00:37:50.360 so

00:37:52.840 what's the quickest like you first meet a guy boom met him at the club bathroom like that have you had

00:38:02.920 anything like that behind in the alleyway dumpster i was about to say behind the dumpster

00:38:09.440 hey let's not knock behind the dumpster okay it's a perfectly valid place to have sex with your future

00:38:17.420 wife i think it was in italy i met this guy at a party and he took me in the steam room the steam

00:38:23.040 room yeah it was really hot it was all wet and everything it was nice that sounds uncomfortable

00:38:29.060 no it was amazing in the steam room yeah hopefully you filmed it i know i wish i filmed it i didn't do

00:38:35.680 only fans back then i was a fashion model so good on there

00:38:38.500 haram um

00:38:42.840 because i have a sauna i sauna almost every day okay a sauna is like kind of extreme though i would not

00:38:49.800 want to fuck in the sauna yeah chill because you can control the amount of steam

00:38:53.920 good times good times okay um what about you how long do you think you should wait

00:39:01.360 before hooking up my most recent i waited from like july to october like july 14th to like october 1st

00:39:10.160 is that you're currently of last year of last year is this the no this is not the guy you're

00:39:14.500 currently in the relationship yeah it is oh wait so we had like a situationship before we actually

00:39:20.240 officially dated so wait you said from july to october july august september so like three to

00:39:28.000 four months september sorry so it was two months two months yeah okay but i'm like weird about like

00:39:34.720 i like people to get tested and like all that so you like people i like people to get tested before you

00:39:40.560 sleep with them yeah because i do only fans straight up ask people like i need you to get tested before i do

00:39:46.940 only fans and like if i do stuff with girls like we test before it's just like protocol that's what

00:39:52.160 i was gonna i was gonna ask your occupation um yeah i i would of course ask a guy to show me their test

00:39:58.240 results valid unless it's like with protection you know word uh so okay the this one guy who you're

00:40:07.900 currently dating he you waited two to three months to have sex with him wait question so you do of do you

00:40:13.380 do bg content i have some x-rated tapes but they're not like out there like that so they're like

00:40:21.240 in a vault and they're like for the big spenders like i've only sold them to like a few people

00:40:29.300 they're like my vip clients yeah there's so there's boy girl content of you is it a literal vault

00:40:38.960 or like a metaphorical vault so on only fans there's vaults and we organize them is that what

00:40:44.580 is yeah yeah they're called vaults it's a vault i don't know i don't know if you go to like the

00:40:49.860 sidebar says vault okay but it's with my boyfriend and then like i said i do collabs with girls and

00:40:56.300 like i do girl stuff i see okay oh the the bg content that you have is with your current boyfriend

00:41:02.160 yeah i've never done boy girl content with anybody else i see okay so uh you said with this most recent

00:41:10.000 guy you like you wanted to wait with him you waited it sounded like two months what about

00:41:14.100 previous partners waiting for them or at least a month really yeah i went celibate for two years

00:41:21.900 actually celibacy yeah you were celibate for two years i was sober for a year i did the vegan thing

00:41:27.320 and i did celibacy for two years celibate vegan all together sober sober but the sober lasted a year

00:41:35.120 like where i wasn't drinking alcohol and partying and then the vegan lasted like six years well like

00:41:41.980 three and then i switched to pescatarian which is like vegetables and fish i have a question

00:41:48.020 wait you're vegan too right

00:41:50.100 if a guy blasts i'm sorry if this is vulgar if a guy blasts in your mouth are you tech because

00:42:02.140 that's technically you're consuming an animal product right so are you technically can you not

00:42:07.840 consume a man's seed if you're vegan so no you can't it's not in the vegan books it's not in the

00:42:15.740 vegan books are you vegan too i've been vegan for significant periods of time yes yeah there's

00:42:21.420 nothing because as somebody who is not vegan i would assume it is i think it's wrong maybe like

00:42:30.800 if you can't drink milk you question could you okay okay this is gonna be a really crazy question okay

00:42:37.940 so you're saying it's okay to consume a man's a human's male seed right yes but like for example

00:42:47.520 you can't you can't drink milk like cow milk you can't drink milk because cows are hooked up to

00:42:51.740 machines and they're being tortured throughout that process i wouldn't necessarily say that the male is

00:42:57.140 being tortured throughout that process so i'm gonna go with no on that one i don't know some girls like

00:43:03.160 keep sucking after like and it hurts yeah it hurts chill out a bit when we're climaxing also i just

00:43:09.900 recently swallowed for the first time thank you for sharing one time literally so when i was vegan i

00:43:17.580 didn't ever swallow gum abdul because get the wrong because you're a vegan i just had never tried it i

00:43:23.500 don't know so this happened at a spa though so it was like really fun but

00:43:28.960 wait so you're but i thought just there there's uh like vegans it's not just because of the animal

00:43:37.860 cruelty aspect it's like health stuff too like everyone gets into it for their own reasons so i

00:43:43.420 guess it really depends right so maybe some vegans don't guess what i'm trying to get at is if you're

00:43:49.740 vegan can you consume i don't think vegans are male seed thinking that deep i'm also not vegan anymore

00:44:00.280 so would that be cannibalism if we count it as vegan but here's the thing right could you as a

00:44:08.720 vegan if you if it's okay to consume human male seed well hold on because now i'm thinking about

00:44:17.500 cannibalism could you eat could you be a vegan but eat a human can you be vegan and sorry i'm

00:44:24.100 totally derailing this conference can you be vegan but eat a human and still be considered vegan i think

00:44:29.220 it's no meat at all like human meat but are humans considered animals we're considered meat yeah are

00:44:35.960 we're mammals animal products we are yeah so so that is a product of just so

00:44:42.120 so technically if you were to if you ate a human you would not be vegan you would be a cannibal but

00:44:50.880 you also would not be a vegan exactly so if you're a vegan you're not allowed to consume

00:44:55.660 male seed so i think vegans are fucking up that's a great point i'm assuming there's a bunch of vegans

00:45:05.220 out there that are just letting their boyfriends blast like i said when i was vegan i didn't and i had

00:45:10.540 never done it until recently so i don't know where okay i don't know where that what were we talking

00:45:17.460 about we're talking about okay okay i got a question what if you're vegan but your boyfriend

00:45:22.100 eats meat or your other person yeah my boyfriend does eat meat so but like i'm not vegan anymore

00:45:28.240 it's a rough life i eat fish and like seafood how did we get here i forgot that's a good question

00:45:36.440 how did we get here you brought us here what's your uh how long do you think you should wait

00:45:41.360 before hooking up with somebody i don't really have a time period because i think that's kind

00:45:45.640 of gamey i think that once you talk about intentions and if there's a connection i don't really even

00:45:50.700 believe in kissing until you talk about intentions and um once you have a connection so i just kind of

00:45:58.300 think it depends on your communication with the person what you both want and how do your goals

00:46:03.340 correlate but you're you said you're currently single right yeah is there any uh i might have

00:46:08.480 forgotten is there currently like anybody in the talking stage with you right now no i've gone on a

00:46:12.940 couple of dates uh first dates but i haven't kissed anyone uh there just wasn't a connection and i kind

00:46:19.200 of have non-negotiables so what are those um one of my non-negotiables is so i'm christian

00:46:28.720 well kind of i don't go to church but i do believe in jesus christ in the bible not to be preachy um

00:46:33.980 but whoever i'm with they have to believe in something i can't be with somebody that doesn't

00:46:39.120 believe in anyone anything uh i don't mind your god um but you have to believe in something because

00:46:46.160 people that don't believe in anything i've noticed don't have a lot of ambition

00:46:49.600 also a non-negotiable is purpose i do believe that people should have a purpose and

00:46:55.380 have a goal they want to get to in life uh where they want to be so i don't really think a

00:47:02.440 relationship like a girl should be a man's priority um so i want to kind of know their priorities not

00:47:09.080 their top priority their top priority are you waiting until marriage no to have sex okay um so

00:47:16.640 you're christian but you're open to dating anyone so long as they believe in a god

00:47:26.140 doesn't matter which god just a god well it's kind of more than that it's i would well i know that i

00:47:33.760 know you have other standards but specifically on that well on that like i would prefer them to

00:47:37.960 believe in jesus christ and well you'd prefer them to believe in jesus christ but you said non-negotiable

00:47:44.020 was they have to believe in something yes um what about shiva i think that's the indian

00:47:52.560 wait hindu she has a lot of arms and she's a goddess of war or something i think i'm not an expert

00:48:00.900 in i've honestly yeah that's hindu i've never data i've never dated somebody that believed in hinduism

00:48:09.680 um when i was a kid my dad took us to it was kind of what about zeus i have met people that believe

00:48:15.880 in that like the somebody who believes in any of the greek how did or roman gods well so it kind of

00:48:22.660 depends on how that plays part into your life and if it's just something you say oh yeah i believe in

00:48:27.280 this but you don't actually follow its values or its teachings my dad i grew up going to different

00:48:33.180 temples and churches it was kind of despite my mom but we benefit off of it we learned a lot about

00:48:38.720 buddhism um we learned a little bit about hinduism we learned about muslim culture and beliefs so um

00:48:47.160 i'm just not i'm not out here telling people what god to believe in okay so when it comes to how

00:48:54.100 um the quickness with which you'd like to get intimate with somebody hook up with them

00:49:00.060 what do we what are we talking here it genuinely depends on the connection and our intentions and

00:49:07.840 if they align i'm not into hookup culture i'm not into sleeping with somebody just just to sleep with

00:49:15.480 them oh it's probably fine um kind of feels like have you have you ever have i ever i've never really

00:49:23.500 been into hookup culture um when i was younger i've been manipulated um and kind of like deceived

00:49:30.260 but i play a part into that um but i've never been a fan of hookup culture i don't go out much

00:49:36.040 i've never left a bar with a man and hooked up or woken up next to somebody in a bed and not know who

00:49:43.720 it was okay what about you um so just like her answer i definitely think it um depends on the

00:49:51.720 connection that you have with the person maybe like i feel like if i've known someone in the past

00:49:57.340 or previously knew them and then started dating them maybe that would be something that would

00:50:00.840 happen a little bit quicker um if it's like a complete stranger then it's definitely going to

00:50:05.440 be a while because um i would say are you have you ever been on a dating app yeah let's say you met

00:50:10.880 a guy on dating app never met him before oh yeah that's going to be a while because um i was saying

00:50:15.500 this on my intake questions psychology say that you can only hide yourself for about three months but

00:50:20.900 these fuckers are evolving okay they hide themselves and their true character for a year

00:50:27.620 six months two years so especially if you don't know that person especially me having children

00:50:33.420 um if i don't know someone it's definitely going to be a long time before i introduce them to like

00:50:39.120 my body or my personal self or like let alone my children when you say long time what's a long time

00:50:44.140 three months four months yeah depends on so we're just talking about sex right yeah okay so if i did

00:50:50.600 not know that person probably about three months i see okay all right uh okay

00:50:58.200 three months all right what about you sorry what was the question

00:51:04.340 bro we talked about we keep forgetting yeah yeah how long should you wait oh you already asked me

00:51:11.740 oh did you already answer yeah remember i said she was the first one oh yeah and then i went around

00:51:16.360 the table on it yeah yeah so what was your answer it was um like about to 10 10 dates 10 dates oh i see

00:51:25.300 and this stems from your situationship with two guys okay um we got it okay uh what about you

00:51:31.800 people have had sexual and romantic relationships without all these rules since the beginning of time

00:51:39.620 but i'll say that the thing that matters is if you're comfortable with someone and um what type

00:51:45.480 of relationship are you looking for if you're looking to get to know a person for real i would

00:51:49.460 say you're not going to just jump right for sex but if you do really care for a person you should

00:51:54.520 probably should be sexually attracted to them as well okay so i mean the reason i wanted to just go

00:52:01.380 around the table on that is uh if i was dating you and you said okay brian we have to go on 10 days i

00:52:11.620 mean i know you wouldn't articulate it this way but okay we're gonna go on 10 days i like to wait two

00:52:16.820 months but in that time period if i knew that you were fucking two other guys you're not the type of

00:52:22.760 girl that i would wait to have sex with i'll wait i would maybe me personally some guys are more

00:52:29.360 cool with waiting me personally i don't really believe in in waiting i'm not in but i'm not

00:52:33.440 interested in just like one night stands i'm not interested in sport fucking i'm not interested in

00:52:37.720 sleeping with a lot of women but i also don't believe in like waiting long periods of time

00:52:41.680 um so i mean just even the waiting thing would be a big no-go for me but waiting and while i'm dating

00:52:52.200 you doing romantic things take you on dates buying you flowers whatever it is you're sleeping with two

00:52:58.280 other men i'm out most men are probably out too so um but i don't see why you would make why would

00:53:08.420 you make a guy wait while you're fucking two other men that's what i don't get i get it if you're like

00:53:13.180 that's your standard okay i i see one guy at a time i like to wait i like to actually feel it out

00:53:20.380 boom boom boom actually we reacted to nick if you can find uh there was this reddit post that we reacted

00:53:27.120 to and maybe we can just do it again um do you know what i'm talking about nick it was two weeks

00:53:31.520 what's that i don't think it's pulled up on the tabs i think it was uh

00:53:38.340 i'm trying to think what it was uh you it was a reddit post

00:53:44.100 i have no idea where it is it was uh

00:53:49.760 it might be in the dropbox uh hold up sorry i'm trying to see if i put it in the dropbox

00:53:57.220 no i don't think it's in the dropbox it was the reddit post it was the girl who was dating a guy for

00:54:05.120 a month or two and you're not gonna find you're not gonna find it by google because she deleted it

00:54:12.440 from reddit uh i might have emailed it uh do you do you at least remember though what i'm talking

00:54:20.520 about no it was the the girl who made a reddit post and she was like hey so i've been dating this

00:54:26.900 guy for two months i really like him but i'm like currently fucking i have a friend with benefits

00:54:31.460 and she was asking like if you can try to find that one um okay hold on uh we have here i'll just

00:54:38.940 pull this up cost times donated 107 dollars yo thank you brian thanks for making the connection

00:54:47.480 happy halloween everyone thank you thank you sir uh all right and then let's see here

00:54:53.280 do you have it or

00:54:57.540 i think another tts we got another tts coming up here in just a sec

00:55:05.000 uh oh shit hold on one sec one sec guys while nick finds seven deadly simps donated 100

00:55:13.140 dollars thank you man my sprinkler goes like this

00:55:15.960 comes back like question for the ladies would you rather have a husband or your instagram

00:55:27.500 husband um husband husband so you have to delete your instagram for your husband husband that would

00:55:43.540 kind of suck i have a hundred followers i don't care about instagram it depends who that is i mean

00:55:48.440 obviously i'm only going to choose a husband if it's the right person but if it's um a man who like

00:55:54.140 leads and takes care of me in the way that i need then why why would i need an instagram if that was

00:56:00.760 really an issue but if i was dating someone who didn't necessarily take that role and wanted me to

00:56:05.780 do that hell no do what um anything um anything that i currently have going if they wanted me to

00:56:13.220 delete my instagram change something about my looks or my job or the way i dress absolutely not unless

00:56:18.540 it's the right person okay what about you husband i find it so sad that this is a question to be asked

00:56:25.460 um but a husband will always be more fulfilling than a social media app

00:56:29.920 nick oh i guess that's for the ladies madison

00:56:34.700 i already have mine all right um here

00:56:38.780 i couldn't i couldn't i couldn't find it i'll keep looking uh

00:56:42.200 it's probably here let me see if i can find it on my end with rhino correct with rhino

00:56:49.240 yeah with rhino 17 maybe i think so uh

00:56:54.700 was it uh yeah it was

00:57:00.520 i don't see it and i'm looking at your emails uh i'll i'll try to nick what's your uh relationship

00:57:09.740 status let's just finish up on that i'm uh currently single right now here hold on sorry

00:57:15.980 you did we get your relationship status we did no no we didn't oh no we didn't go ahead go ahead go

00:57:22.760 ahead um i am single i have been taking some time for some um focus on self um but i have my eye on

00:57:30.820 somebody sounded pro okay here nick i'll send it again

00:57:34.100 so you're single nick it's gonna be in the inbox here what happened well that's what i'm here to

00:57:47.240 discuss that's what i'm here to discuss about is being single now yeah

00:57:52.100 all right nick give us give us the background here okay um um so last time i was on the podcast

00:58:00.040 that many have seen uh i was with uh can you scoot into the table a little bit it's kind of hard

00:58:06.540 between or do you want to just hold the mic you can hold the mic i can just get close to it get

00:58:11.080 close to it okay so last time i was on here i was with uh keely rose who um is an only fans uh girl

00:58:20.460 girl and uh yeah she basically um after six years of living together and being together every day she

00:58:30.260 left me for another guy and she's currently in melbourne australia with this other guy um and it kind of came

00:58:39.780 abruptly um uh out of nowhere for me a few months ago and uh i was very heartbroken about it but uh now i'm

00:58:48.400 here ready to uh discuss it and uh show that i am okay and i will survive you guys were married right

00:58:57.060 were you guys we were we were engaged engaged and uh for a few years we were engaged and i definitely

00:59:04.060 was committed to her and definitely loved her and wanted to be in a monogamous relationship with her

00:59:09.220 and was monogamous uh during that period um even though she was doing things with other guys for

00:59:16.200 money um i always figured that at least even if it was for money uh at least she still loved me and it

00:59:22.980 was just sex it wasn't love and it wasn't making love and she would come back to me and that would be

00:59:28.360 love um and uh you know now i'm i'm i'm definitely you know shocked by it you don't expect your spouse to

00:59:38.160 leave you uh leave you for another uh man but you know uh stranger things have happened in this world

00:59:44.200 and so i'm not alone uh i'm sure there's many guys in my boat but i'm all right because i still have my

00:59:50.760 uh dog and uh we go hiking and do things together so at least i'm not alone and uh i do um i am uh

01:00:00.900 you know i purchased my first property for investment so i do have uh cash flow that's going to be

01:00:06.980 coming in soon so i don't need her money anyway um and uh i'm purchasing um a house in in north

01:00:14.020 carolina it'll feel pretty empty uh you know up in the mountains there by my without her you know

01:00:20.280 because i was going to buy it with the intention of her being with me but uh now it's just going to

01:00:25.920 be my little buddy and i and uh and i'm going to build a recording studio in it and go hiking and

01:00:32.140 hopefully meet someone new so that's you know uh that's kind of what i might deal nick are you able

01:00:38.260 to can you pull up no no can you pull up dating talk 65 uh that's the episode that mick was on

01:00:45.180 with keely um we don't really need to watch anything but we'll just show because mick was previously on

01:00:50.600 with his then fiancee girlfriend uh just for context for people they appeared together keely uh at the

01:00:59.240 time and i believe still currently she is she was a stripper correct well she started as a stripper

01:01:05.680 for a few years and then when lockdowns happened she wasn't able to make any money so she went to

01:01:11.740 uh being a porn star and then from being a porn star to doing only fans um and uh when she was on

01:01:19.720 here she hadn't done porn in like a year anyway so it was like just only fans that we were basically

01:01:25.680 living off of and then yeah my income too but was she she was doing scenes on only fans with other

01:01:32.440 men is that correct if i recall no not necessarily unless it was like a sugar daddy that was giving her

01:01:38.880 um you know uh money and then they would film content or something around it if there was and

01:01:44.640 then she um but no it was mostly just uh pictures of her and stuff you know just one sec um so

01:01:53.340 she while you were with her she was sleeping with other men is that correct yes okay and

01:02:02.940 do you feel like if i recall the conversations that we were having about that you said you were okay with

01:02:09.580 it but it seemed to me it occurred to me that you felt to some degree pressured by her to accept

01:02:16.720 the situation i think at first i was like really disturbed by it and didn't want it then i started

01:02:24.780 to get more used to it and become numb to the fact that that was what was going on um but then um

01:02:31.360 as time went on it was like like we're gonna have a home together i want to have kids i want to have um

01:02:38.620 wait is this what you're saying or is this what this is what i was saying to her you know okay i

01:02:42.520 see i want a committed relationship i want to love you and cherish you as my wife i don't want you

01:02:47.940 sleeping around anymore like that that started to sink in more as i was getting older like we met i was

01:02:53.580 like 20 21 but now i'm 27 almost 28 and a lot can happen in those few years so it's like i've matured

01:03:01.780 now to where like you know before i was young and naive and now i'm like a man who wants to have a

01:03:07.820 full-time job you know a committed wife and kids and raise them and have a home and pay a mortgage and

01:03:14.960 do all those adult stuff that i didn't want to do previously you know when we first met um so it's

01:03:21.900 just it's a very different mindset so i think we we kind of went further and further apart because i

01:03:27.480 wanted to be uh essentially a normal uh middle-aged adult in america grid one motorsports donated 100

01:03:35.780 dollars mick you dodged the bullet there don't be a simp be a pimp and move on to a woman that is

01:03:42.400 not a 304 cum dumpster maybe get tf out of ca take some testosterone hit the gym your future children

01:03:51.540 will thank you i hit the gym every day actually right down the road here but uh yeah i agree with

01:03:57.660 you i did dodge a bullet i definitely it could have ended worse um but you know uh the the thing is is

01:04:05.040 that we she wants to continue to you know sleep around meet other guys um she wants to party and

01:04:12.300 drink and smoke and i don't drink at all i don't party at all i don't smoke at all i don't do any of

01:04:18.340 that stuff i love socializing i love meeting new people uh but i'm not into partying and all that

01:04:24.200 stuff and that's what she really wants to do and i think she's almost become like an alcoholic because

01:04:29.380 she can't handle i i've done a lot of research into psychology and i believe she's a malignant

01:04:35.580 narcissist and her coping mechanism for her anxiety and for her narcissism is to sleep with men um smoke

01:04:44.520 uh weed you know and and drink uh alcohol to cope with that because it's it's like a it's like almost

01:04:51.880 like a mental disorder that she has to cope with uh to um deal with all the um stress and anxiety that

01:04:59.780 comes with being a narcissist um and if you don't know what a malignant narcissist is just google it

01:05:04.940 but um so how how recently did you guys officially split or break up um so she flew out about a week ago

01:05:14.880 to melbourne's uh australia so that was like officially the like it's over kind of deal for me

01:05:22.120 um but we were keeping in touch um for the past few months and she was lying to me about it she was kind

01:05:28.920 of uh manipulating me and and like telling me that she still loved me and she still wanted to be with me

01:05:36.000 because i think she couldn't deal with the uh with me leaving her and being apart from her um

01:05:43.020 um so it that was a very big stress for her but i think uh but basically like we i went out and saw

01:05:49.780 uh you know i we were spending time together and everything and she would like completely ignore me

01:05:54.680 and start talking to this this other guy and i'm like thinking something's up and then she started

01:06:00.700 acting like um i'm just not even there like like spending 99 of the time with this other person like

01:06:07.320 she's like no i'm here but you know when someone's there in the room with you but not present and

01:06:11.960 not looking you in the eyes and talking to you that's essentially what was happening for like a

01:06:16.540 month and uh she was falling asleep in another bed uh away from me not and video chatting with

01:06:23.720 this other guy and i'm thinking this is just wrong do you love me anymore like i'm she's like you don't

01:06:29.060 have to get upset about it and she's kind of gaslighting me too being like well you can sort of be

01:06:34.660 with um you can still be with me and i can be with him and we can be in an open relationship and i'm

01:06:39.140 like i don't want an open relationship i want you and you're trying to be with this other guy

01:06:45.200 and i don't understand what you why you think this is okay so and how long has this been going on uh

01:06:51.940 for the past few months but you said just a week ago she finally left when's the last time you saw

01:06:57.660 her uh about a month ago now oh a month ago so you guys had kind of been split but she went she

01:07:03.240 flew to australia well i had a lot of her things i had to give her some of her stuff and everything

01:07:07.900 she basically um was living in uh you know away from me so it was like i you know was giving her

01:07:16.240 back some of her things and she um and i were still like i was taking her out to eat and talking

01:07:22.660 and asking how she was doing and stuff you know but uh she just started treating me so shitty for

01:07:27.900 no reason like like i'm just like it's like i'm not even being mean it wasn't like i was abusive or a

01:07:34.580 drug addict or something i was just literally like can we talk and have just normal discussion

01:07:38.620 but she couldn't even talk her attention span right now is like a goldfish last time you guys

01:07:43.640 saw her she's a completely different person let's let's actually just really quick pull up the

01:07:48.020 episodes for context um here uh get rid of the super chat though like move it to a different

01:07:56.740 timestamp timestamp timestamp so we can see so we can see not me like so mick yep okay so there's you

01:08:06.880 mick that when was that that was like six months ago or something there's keely with the red red hair

01:08:12.700 uh okay and you guys came on the podcast and it was you kind of talked about your guys's relationship

01:08:20.260 and kind of what you've already said you know she does of f she's got sugar daddies she used to be a

01:08:25.340 dancer but she still kind of danced a little bit was my understanding oh not as much at the strip

01:08:31.720 close but she did it if we needed money or something yeah okay and so she's now moved to australia to date

01:08:37.000 some dude in australia yeah this this guy looks like a crackhead too so how did she meet him on

01:08:43.880 online on through like live streaming and stuff it was just meet me um so it wasn't uh you know it was

01:08:52.220 just but she did live streaming when i met her that was how we met was on live stream but she just was

01:08:57.600 doing live streaming again for like fun and then she totally i think in her mind uh you know she was

01:09:04.520 using me to get out of vegas because she didn't want to be there and almost like i'm this person and

01:09:10.200 i'm comfortable because we've been together for so many years now and it was like this comfort but she

01:09:15.140 didn't really care or love me and i cared and loved about her i cared and loved her and so what i think

01:09:21.080 happened is she basically hold on just take him a donated one hundred dollars brian please keep

01:09:27.740 calling for solidarity of men against paying for low quality content like of mix sounds like you're

01:09:33.780 living it up lucky no marriage no alimony keep your assets i got off easy to have a similar situation

01:09:41.320 hashtag blessed yeah i i definitely i mean you guys thank you for the chat man in the chat tried to warn

01:09:47.200 me and and i i definitely had some hesitation on we tried yes so um but you know yeah i definitely uh

01:09:55.320 i got lucky because i never actually got you know married or and i got to keep all my assets and

01:10:00.820 everything and you know didn't like have to pay child support or any of that stuff you know yeah so

01:10:06.260 i am lucky in that situation have you have you had a rebound yet are you ready do you think you're

01:10:11.080 ready for a rebound i i i went on one date uh a bit ago like a few weeks ago um with a girl but uh

01:10:20.780 she kind of goes to me since our date so i don't know but that that's it so no uh but i would be happy

01:10:28.600 to uh if any girls out there want to message me i would be happy to respond would you date another

01:10:35.080 only fans girl you're like no i i would consider it if she's really great but traumatized but i think

01:10:44.420 i think it would probably be best if it if like i just hooked up with an only fans girl and not tried

01:10:50.520 to get in a committed you know loving relationship with an only fans girl however um if if she's really

01:10:56.880 nice and she's still committed to me i would be okay if she had an only fans however i probably should

01:11:02.960 be looking for something else you know with just with your past experience would you recommend to

01:11:07.980 other men that they don't date girls that do only fans i would suggest um you uh you date someone who

01:11:20.020 makes you happy and and and who's going to love you for who you are and uh probably don't date a

01:11:27.440 narcissist unless you are a narcissist yourself do you think that oh sorry because of the the

01:11:32.560 self-centered nature of a narcissist is just they're not going to truly love you and uh only narcissists

01:11:39.380 can love other narcissists i feel like what's her narcissistic red flags there's there's a lot every

01:11:44.780 every single behavioral trait if you just read down what a malignant narcissist is keely fits the

01:11:50.980 description for every single one and i i still love and care about her like i'm i'm not hateful in my

01:11:56.840 heart for her at all but she is uh she does have uh issues with it the the a lot of it stems from

01:12:03.280 insecurity about herself so there's insecurity uh the narcissism is needing constant attention uh not

01:12:10.300 feeling that you're self-worth so constantly trying to act out to uh feel that you uh deserve that

01:12:16.420 self-worth um you know uh doing uh things like partying and stuff so that you get more attention uh trying

01:12:23.380 to sleep around with a lot of other guys that that's traits that a lot of uh female narcissists

01:12:28.620 will have actually it's almost like her behavior was almost like masculine behavior like it's usually

01:12:34.020 women that want to be more committed and you know and have a family and all that you know you had

01:12:39.040 something go ahead yeah so um a couple things i don't think we should throw the term narcissist around

01:12:45.920 because that gets thrown out a lot towards men and sometimes women in relationships and typically

01:12:51.900 they're not narcissistic they're just shitty people she sounds like she was just a shitty person

01:12:56.600 but also you're not privy to the details yeah no i'm not saying i would say her psychology like if i

01:13:04.420 was like if i were to talk to a psychologist they would say she exhibits all the traits of a malignant

01:13:11.260 narcissist but from your like viewpoint she sounds terrible so i'm not trying to justify her at all

01:13:17.880 what what does it matter if she's a narcissist or not but what what's the point you're trying to make

01:13:22.440 it's just weird everybody she has many what no no hold on stop hold on go ahead so like mental

01:13:30.460 illness everybody throws around mental illness with everyone constantly this person's bipolar this

01:13:35.580 person's this people are just like just a moment for you to virtue signal about i'm not trying to

01:13:41.540 virtue signal it's just weird when people constantly throw out mental illnesses but do you think

01:13:46.000 nobody's capable of being a narcissist what is she actually is narcissist she could definitely be

01:13:50.940 nice so what what is your quarrel with him calling her a narcissist it scratch that then i'm no i mean

01:13:57.820 defend your position but i'm equating it to her it's a narcissism is a coping mechanism for people

01:14:02.980 that have had rough childhoods like 90 something percent of the time that's what it is so she had a rough

01:14:09.780 childhood um you know her mom died young and stuff she had all these things and issues and

01:14:14.480 insecurities in her mind when she's developing as a child that's where it created the narcissistic

01:14:21.320 personality so everybody has different personalities narcissism creates a certain personality path that

01:14:28.460 someone lives by hold on grid one motorsports donated 100 mick dude just know don't do it red is over

01:14:37.880 there sizing up your wallet just know you just got your balls back learn from the experience and move

01:14:44.080 on say no to of three hundred and fours find a nice church live a purposeful life i don't have enough

01:14:51.640 money but uh thank you man can i ask what was your second thing what was your yeah yeah i was just

01:14:56.700 wondering how did the beginning of the relationship start out and like did you notice like certain

01:15:01.720 changes before it ended or was it kind of were you kind of blindsided um when i met her she was this

01:15:07.860 uh sweet shy girl that worked at a subway that used to bring um uh the the subs out for the homeless and

01:15:15.900 stuff when i met her um she was a completely different sweet girl and she was just very insecure

01:15:22.560 and shy but um when i let her uh you know and that probably is a regret for me now but when i let her

01:15:31.720 go to do from working at a grocery store to stripping um that's when she very much changed she's it helped

01:15:39.900 her with some confidence but it made her uh bring out even more of those narcissistic tendencies that she

01:15:46.500 had before how long had you guys been dating before she became a stripper um we lived in tahoe for a

01:15:55.200 while so i believe it was um i want to say i want to say seven months i mean look i truthfully mick

01:16:04.120 um she obviously made if she cheated on you if she wasn't treating you well that's on her however

01:16:12.140 the moment your girlfriend came to you and said i want to become a stripper

01:16:16.560 that's an insta fucking breakup for me and for any self-respecting dude you should have dumped her

01:16:23.660 that moment you should have dumped her immediately yeah in hindsight i should have said no don't do it

01:16:30.040 i'm gonna but that should have at the very least been a pretty big red flag for you um should have

01:16:35.260 yes there was a lot of red flag it should have either been an insta breakup or uh it doesn't

01:16:40.860 necessarily have to be an insta breakup but that's uh that's a position where you're gonna say babe

01:16:47.220 i love you if we're gonna stick together you're not doing that well you're afraid if you said no

01:16:53.480 she would break up with you um i was um or were you actually like are you actually like down for

01:17:00.440 that were you actually okay with that i i wasn't at first i told her no at first and let's wait and

01:17:05.180 see if we can make some more money and uh and she kept pushing it and then she kept pushing it like

01:17:10.280 we're we're gonna go broke we need money you know and so yeah let me go make money you know so mick

01:17:16.080 this is this welcome to the red pill this is your red pill moment this is the defining moment that

01:17:21.460 will make or break you um and don't take this the wrong way i'm just trying to give you some feedback

01:17:26.040 here i think you were keely's to some degree at least once you start getting involved in some of

01:17:31.940 the sex work you were her placeholder boyfriend uh so a lot of these girls who do especially who do

01:17:39.200 sex work they need a guy to fill that emotional abyss that is caused by doing sex work so you're

01:17:46.060 gonna be their comfort you're safe you're comfortable um most men most men are not gonna be

01:17:52.620 like are not gonna be cool with uh their girlfriend being on the internet naked nude fucking other dudes

01:18:00.940 um so well and she needed me to take care of her too i mean she couldn't drive she never went to the

01:18:09.260 grocery store she never paid any bills she didn't know how to uh you know uh even pay the cell phone

01:18:18.040 bill she couldn't talk to people because of her anxiety and insecurities so i had to handle all the

01:18:23.580 adult stuff and drive her to where she needed to go and so i was that comfort and that thing that she

01:18:29.840 could rely on to do everything for her and uh stupid me i did everything for her um and then let her you

01:18:37.140 know keep doing it but i took the money and managed the finances um so i felt like i did get something

01:18:43.440 out of it but it was but at what cost you know i did lose you know a little self-respect in myself and

01:18:50.200 then uh you know and then a little bit of i i lost you know the woman i love so it's like

01:18:55.700 did she actually have that bout of anxiety or was she lazy a little bit of both yeah and a lot of

01:19:02.040 narcissists are very lazy yes because they don't want to do much unless they're a psychopath so yeah

01:19:08.800 i mean nick um i mean i'm as as your your father uh i'm i am hereby banning you from dating any other

01:19:20.940 sex workers no strippers no only fans girls no girls who send out feet pics nothing dude no more

01:19:28.160 like you're done nick nick you cannot date these girls anymore i'm sorry dude go find yourself a

01:19:35.080 girl who studies stem or something i i like uh smart girls there you go beautiful but a nice smart

01:19:42.460 girl who doesn't do only fans well if she takes feet pics it's not that big no no no no no

01:19:48.680 backtrack backtrack nick i'm being facetious donated 100 based nick base nothing the zilch zero nothing

01:20:03.160 uh well sorry to hear about that situation you you know what could be interesting if you're down and

01:20:08.160 keely's down would be to hear the other side of the story get you both on the show we'll do a

01:20:13.340 dedicated episode uh and we'll just have you guys on the show in the just you two so if she's down if

01:20:20.120 she comes back on i mean i don't know if she's going to because she doesn't know what she's even

01:20:24.580 energy donated 99 dollars even stevie wondersore never commit to 304s and never simp have some balls

01:20:34.560 to dip on these hoes i'm cringing grow a fucking bear hashtag fuck them that is from 304 that's

01:20:43.300 it's an area code area code definitely an area code yo lpe thank you man appreciate it um i want to see

01:20:49.300 hashtag free mick in the chat um that was big last time yeah hashtag free mick hashtag mick freed

01:20:56.880 hashtag or maybe hashtag mick freed you're free free at last free at last here say it

01:21:03.280 i am free no say say free at last free at last free at last yeah do the rest of the monologue

01:21:10.340 oh do you know the rest of the monologue no forget that marluther king jr oh no i just this guy

01:21:17.280 this guy okay with that no should all right you can i add a controversial topic to that okay so it's

01:21:24.980 apparent that it's kind of like what he's into right like it seems like he kind of what's he what's

01:21:29.700 he into i don't know like he said well not even if she's on feet finder like that kind of tells me

01:21:34.320 that he's kind of like into that world a little bit i don't think so wait feet you're into he was

01:21:39.020 brainwashed just into any sort of like sex worker type of like atmosphere so i my family members own a

01:21:48.440 strip club so i grew up like doing my math homework next to strippers and you know some of them are

01:21:54.920 exactly what he's explaining they have narcissistic tendencies they have you know all sorts of issues

01:22:00.280 stemming from their childhood but there's also ones who have husbands who they go to work and they go

01:22:05.960 home and their husbands are okay with it and i really that's a big l that's a big l no it it is but if

01:22:12.420 that's that person's choice then at least look out for the red flags like like he was explaining she

01:22:17.120 doesn't drive she has anxiety to do this so what else is this person like offering or bringing to the

01:22:22.020 table if that is what you know your choice is to choose someone in that field i wouldn't just say

01:22:27.360 don't date anyone like that because there are there's shitty people everywhere and there's good

01:22:32.100 people everywhere that's so true like i really but i mean that's kind of like the risk you have to take

01:22:36.320 when you're getting into a relationship with someone that does work in the sex industry they have such

01:22:41.340 a big audience they they can easily cheat on you no matter what you don't think anyone can easily

01:22:45.880 cheat on you no matter what actually because there's like hardcore christians that are doing way worse

01:22:50.480 people like those have a bigger audience more options and more opportunities to be able to

01:22:55.100 cheat on there's a statistic that says that med people in medical field cheat the most literally

01:23:00.960 number one i hear that yeah firefighters i hear that and like i think only fans creators yeah there's

01:23:06.400 probably some bad people in there but everyone i've met their only fans have been the most genuine

01:23:09.960 like hard-working people they're good parents they're good girlfriends raven dt donated 100

01:23:17.480 mick learn to recognize enabling behaviors in yourself because that's what allows people to

01:23:24.200 take advantage of you learn about healthy boundaries be willing to walk away if she won't respect them

01:23:30.860 talk to a therapist to help guide you hashtag free mick yeah that's exactly what i'm saying like

01:23:37.100 that that's the answer right there not necessarily avoiding someone in any certain line of work

01:23:41.920 because that can be anywhere set boundaries and she she stripped with some girls that were like

01:23:47.640 just trying to put themselves through medical school and they were just very normal outside of the strip

01:23:51.660 club so it's not it's not just one it doesn't make me hold on hold on hold on hold on my dude there are a lot

01:23:59.140 of fish in the sea you need not date one of the fish that does sex work my dude you don't like

01:24:05.580 it you gotta understand man like it's just an immediate l to be dating that kind of girl i get

01:24:14.060 it it's immediate l i don't care how nice she is definitely a red flag yes it's a done deal

01:24:18.700 yeah if i was a bro if i was a they're they're good they're good for hookups but they're not

01:24:24.840 necessarily not even good for hookups they're not even not in my well at least in my view not even

01:24:29.580 good for hookups really i don't want anything well with a girl who does sex work oh you don't want

01:24:33.820 anything no no well well i would say yeah i mean definitely if you're looking for someone you love

01:24:39.840 and want to be committed to you probably should look for someone in a different industry i told you he's

01:24:44.320 into it but is he into it he's into like something no i don't think so i just like why don't you want

01:24:53.060 to let go of that like no i'm just saying that they're not all bad people okay yes that's what i

01:24:58.760 was bad person a good partner you know yeah well and they might necessarily be a good partner but

01:25:03.800 maybe a friend you know mick get me lost right there wait question mick if keely came back right

01:25:11.520 now and was like i want to get back together would you get back with her that's what she wants but

01:25:15.620 that's not happening that okay good let's go because she told me she's like you'll stick around

01:25:21.260 for me i can go bang this other guy in australia right now and then if i if things don't work out

01:25:26.520 with him you can just come back to me it's better than being uh single and stuff and i'm like no

01:25:31.140 actually you're treating me so shitty and like nobody wants to be second fiddle i mean do you

01:25:36.380 ladies think that that's okay for her to act like she deserves to be single like if she if she breaks

01:25:41.860 up with him and things don't work out with him in a year and i take her back i'm a sucker right i mean

01:25:46.620 never go back never ever ever yeah so yeah let's move uh let's we'll move on but uh and and that's

01:25:55.940 part of her delusions that she has that she really thinks that i will be like i can be manipulated that

01:26:00.620 far that i can be manipulated to just come back with her you know like that it's just it's crazy

01:26:07.380 don't get back with her don't get back with her mick yo raven do it they're not bad people that

01:26:13.640 just make really bad decisions what good is hooking up with an of three oh foe if six months

01:26:19.060 later your peen falls off that's that is true well most people in the industry don't put dynamite

01:26:26.300 around it you know are really good about their health like really are they yeah no no i'm serious

01:26:30.960 where's jay butler jay butler fucking starts dropping chats because we're gonna we're going

01:26:36.540 there well in what industry are you referring to hold on what we'll get to that in a second

01:26:40.920 one hundred dollars yo mick put on a flannel like brian and i got it hold on i'm gonna give

01:26:45.980 him a fucking pair and probably get laid to hashtag free mick

01:26:49.420 when i when i'm hiking around the um mountains and stuff in like north carolina i usually will

01:26:57.520 be wearing a flannel yeah i used to do forestry firefighting and i would wear that sometimes

01:27:03.040 be cold up there it is it's cold up in the mountains gonna be a cold winter

01:27:08.400 for sure for sure what is your biggest takeaway from this breakup that you've been going through

01:27:15.520 um i think i i think when we first met i was more young and naive so i was like just willing to get

01:27:22.660 with whoever was the first uh cute girl that would talk to me and now i'm like you're gonna be smart

01:27:29.640 now now i'm like willing to be a little more uh patient and stuff especially because i'm older and

01:27:35.780 not as uh horny as i was when i was a young man uh you know so i'm not gonna settle i'm gonna find

01:27:42.660 someone that's perfect for me and that doesn't mean i can't talk to you and we can't get to know

01:27:47.860 each other but i'm if i don't think it's gonna work out i'll just be like hey it's not gonna work

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01:28:37.620 sub hold on just one sec let me just make sure we got through all these i think we got them all

01:28:44.700 yeah oh we got this coming in hold on wait oh i'll read it 75 bodies i didn't even have one

01:28:52.820 until i was 20 please find god so to me wait just a one clarification on your list so if i if we do

01:29:00.060 the counting of the people on the list plus the four john does was it four john does or five john does

01:29:06.980 i think the math that the chat did was at 56 total do you have do you have you counted no um but you

01:29:16.400 said you stopped the list in april in april yeah but is there a new list i in april so since i have

01:29:24.500 like stopped with seeking and stuff like i honestly i normally just stick to like one or two guys like

01:29:30.020 i don't seek are you talking about the yeah seeking arrangements okay yeah but ever since i stopped

01:29:34.620 with that like because i used to have like multiple sugar daddies at the same time but um

01:29:39.540 no ever since i stopped with that like like i said like i only like see like one guy actually i see

01:29:44.880 like i see another guy every so often like when i go hang out with like certain friends and stuff we

01:29:49.560 also hang out in the same group but that's not like i don't like hit them up and like every week

01:29:53.860 and stuff and like we hang out it's just kind of like whenever i see him okay but no i don't like

01:29:58.340 hook up like that was all in the span of like i know that that is a lot in the span of like a year

01:30:02.720 but that was kind of like my hoe phase if you would say it like i don't really

01:30:06.340 like even with only fans and stuff like most girls like myself they hook up with one guy like they

01:30:12.740 only do boy girl content with one guy they won't do with like a whole bunch of guys like when you're

01:30:17.300 on pornhub and stuff same like with girls too you kind of hook up you hook up with like different

01:30:21.620 girls as well but uh it's normally kind of like the same girls that you see you're like that are

01:30:26.180 you're friends with they collab with and stuff like that so okay all right you mentioned hoe phase

01:30:32.940 let's go around the table on that who here by show of hand has had a hoe phase show of hand

01:30:40.320 have you had what does that mean a hoe phase like where you just wild out wait what was your can you

01:30:47.120 show the this camera your tattoo oh yeah i have two palm tattoos i'm covered in tattoos

01:30:51.980 what does it say heartless yeah are you heartless have you seen the weekend the song

01:30:56.460 it's from his song heard but no i'm definitely not that guy who the weekend what about the weekend

01:31:04.620 the song heartless who's he the weekend what about the weekend he has a song are you talking about

01:31:13.060 saturday and sunday oh my yeah his name's abel but who's whose name the weekend from the band what

01:31:21.860 about the weekend okay he's a famous artist you know who he is but yeah who the fuck is that guy

01:31:27.780 okay yeah it's also a word in the english dictionary but um it is what about you

01:31:33.280 oh sorry hoe phase were we doing yeah we all had our hands up wait all of us really i think everybody

01:31:41.860 waited yeah i had one you had one normal what everybody's had that mick have you had a hoe phase

01:31:47.960 no i haven't or no i haven't had a hoe phase yes you do now after his partners have them can men

01:31:55.620 have a hoe phase yes of course they are man whores out there oh okay yeah no i mean all right no i

01:32:03.780 i'm kind of i'm kind of like a wallflower you know i've had a hoe phase and a celibacy phase

01:32:10.280 how about that let's double whammy oh okay well she left uh when you say you had a hoe phase what

01:32:18.020 what does a hoe phase look like what are we talking here you asking me yeah yeah yeah um i

01:32:23.480 slept with like four guys in a month that was a hoe phase when i was like younger i've it's not the

01:32:30.700 worst i've ever heard i lost my virginity at 18 so it was like right after that four in a month

01:32:35.600 that's one every week i mean i've some girls be doing three in a three in a day five in a day

01:32:41.360 never have i had that big of a hoe phase we had a girl on who did five girl five dudes in a day

01:32:45.820 i bet that was a very sore day for her yeah i'm not sure i would she so she seemed cool with it so

01:32:54.020 i don't know she was also a sex addict so she was like again sexual addiction she was recovering

01:33:00.500 oh really yeah because she did regretted that decision to do that every day like that so for

01:33:06.700 four in a month uh was that the extent of the hoe phase just like a one month yeah that's it i lost

01:33:13.160 my virginity and i was like whoa oh so the wait the hoe phase started at the loss of your virginity

01:33:21.340 actually no i had two hoe phases let me let me go back to this so i had one when i lost my virginity

01:33:26.620 18 and then may of 2020 i had another one after my celibacy because i got really attached to the guy

01:33:34.640 that i chose to sleep with yeah and um he broke my heart you broke your heart he broke my heart

01:33:41.240 so i just how long were you dating the guy i wasn't dating him oh how did he break your heart

01:33:46.860 because i liked him a lot and i lost my celibacy to him i felt heartbroken wait what so you met him

01:33:53.020 you were celibate and he was so hot that you should like were you planning already i was ready

01:33:58.440 yeah i was ready to get out of it so i started like going on dates with people and we waited like

01:34:03.240 a month and a half and it was my birthday and i was like you know what this is my birthday present

01:34:08.060 so oh you you'd been dating him for a month and a half seeing each other hanging out

01:34:15.700 okay netflix and chill dinners yeah yeah and then you guys hooked up just once and then it was over

01:34:21.220 no we hooked up for like three months and then that's whenever i was like i got really attached

01:34:25.400 to him because like i hadn't felt like intimacy and so long and then you know i really liked him

01:34:32.100 oh okay so but the hofez you said you lost your virginity and then you had a hofez yeah so like

01:34:39.220 who you the person you lost your virginity to was it just like a random guy it was a guy i was dating

01:34:45.100 in high school um he actually his dad was a preacher so preacher's son yeah very uncomfortable

01:34:53.920 uncomfortable yeah you hooked up in the church is that what happened no but his mom was kind of crazy

01:34:59.900 and like made us leave the door open and like she like walked in made you leave the door open while

01:35:05.540 you guys were just like hanging out yeah he was 19 i was 18 okay but so okay you hooked up with him

01:35:12.400 how long did you see him after like three months oh three months okay he was too boring for me i could

01:35:18.400 do it he was too boring for you yeah um too boring what what do you mean too how so like he was just a

01:35:27.740 boring person uh i'm also from a really small town like there's like 500 people in my my hometown

01:35:33.600 what what does it mean if a guy's like too boring i don't know what does that mean he just wasn't

01:35:39.420 interesting like he was lazy and just not an interesting person so do you but i mean didn't

01:35:47.920 wouldn't you find that out pretty early on like you lost your virginity to like a really boring guy

01:35:52.760 that you don't really like yeah it sucked and that's why i had that little face

01:35:56.700 because i had to like get some excitement i guess i don't know you had to get excitement i had to get

01:36:03.580 some excitement yeah and also i was really young and like that was like 18 come on wait where are

01:36:12.840 you from i detect a bit of an accent so i'm living in la i've lived there for a bit um but i'm from

01:36:18.800 tennessee tennessee morgan county tennessee how close is that to nashville oh like three hours i

01:36:25.860 literally live in the mountains you're in the sticks yeah you're in the sticks i graduated with

01:36:30.260 50 people good times good times okay so this boy maybe we can come back to the whole boring thing

01:36:38.700 um that could be interesting some guys are boring no are you boring no i'm so fun are you yeah make

01:36:46.380 me laugh i think i have a great personality make me laugh right now okay i'm ready i got a joke for

01:36:52.140 you what did the grape say when it got stepped on probably could have been split on the what's

01:37:00.220 what what did the grape say when it got stepped on

01:37:03.560 no answer wine it let out a little wine damn you you're ahead of me has someone told you that

01:37:12.840 no i just i was thinking what can you make with grapes that's a good joke come on yeah give me a

01:37:18.220 little credit okay give me like two points out of ten i'll give you three okay thank you i thought

01:37:24.780 it was a good joke okay obviously stop it get some help okay i'm a boring person then entertain me

01:37:35.040 i could tell you some crazy stories but that's not really entertaining that's just like wild and

01:37:41.860 okay i think i don't know where i'm going i'm not sure where i'm going i don't think i'm a boring

01:37:46.440 person i'm boring you're boring yeah i'm really boring what's your favorite thing to do i love

01:37:53.400 movies i like movies i've spent the last uh two months my weekends i typically i'm home so i spend

01:37:59.920 fridays i go to the gym five days a week but i spend um typically i love to spend my fridays and

01:38:06.100 saturdays watching movies like last weekend i watched interview with the vampire the original

01:38:10.840 movie uh the weekend and then um the night before the pod like coming to california i watched uh the

01:38:19.560 forever purge that movie is so good but yeah i'm pretty boring i don't enjoy going out too much

01:38:25.820 checks out um you weren't always boring though were you

01:38:35.100 i was still pretty boring did you tell us you used to dance right yeah you used to be a stripper

01:38:43.160 uh yes is that correct okay uh okay hold on guys i'm just getting my notes here where the fuck were

01:38:51.040 we were talking about boring the reddit thing oh that was related to i guess we could do that

01:38:57.540 really quick all right we already did this before but it's it was related to the conversation nick if

01:39:02.420 you can make it smaller not video tab we're not on the video um no no no make us smaller make the text

01:39:09.580 bigger please but can you make it

01:39:14.480 all right i'm i'm i'm oh my god i can't fucking speak tonight okay i'm unsure if i should tell my

01:39:21.900 boyfriend this information i've recently gone official with a man i've been dating for a couple

01:39:25.680 months this is related to your thing with the your you got two situationships and if a new guy were

01:39:31.880 to come into the picture you'd make him wait i've recently gone official with a man oh my god i can't

01:39:35.720 believe it's taking us this long to get to this okay sorry i've recently gone official with a man

01:39:40.060 i've been dating for a couple months he's kind respectful and considerate i really think he could

01:39:43.560 be the one but something is eating at me i want to build slowly with this man so we didn't become

01:39:49.500 intimate until after going exclusive but between the first date in that point i did see an old

01:39:55.460 friends with benefits a couple of times back then i didn't think anything of it as i wasn't

01:40:01.340 exclusive but i underestimated how much i would care for my boyfriend and i feel almost like i've

01:40:08.140 cheated on him have i done something wrong do i need to tell him will he end things with me so this

01:40:14.380 girl is posting on reddit asking for advice update so she did tell him there was mixed reactions here

01:40:21.640 but my gut told me i should tell my boyfriend he said sorry i don't want to be in a relationship with

01:40:27.660 someone who does that then he blocked me on everything good for him yeah boom honestly

01:40:35.500 see i think it's different because that guy ended up being um that's the boyfriend right and then she

01:40:43.340 went to go see a friends with benefits so it would be different while he's going on dates with her

01:40:48.460 well he's going on dates with her and she says they were not exclusive there was no discussions of

01:40:55.060 being exclusive but yeah

01:40:58.360 oh well i mean i don't know what to say to that

01:41:05.320 i guess well because okay you said that you you would like to wait to have sex with a new person

01:41:15.260 you meet two months something like that was it two months a month one month two months

01:41:20.780 10 dates or something and it's kind of like similar to that situation because

01:41:25.940 you're currently in a situation ship with two guys you're sleeping with both of them

01:41:30.160 i don't like what guy in his right mind would want to wait to have sex with a woman who is while you

01:41:38.680 are courting her while she's making you wait she's fucking two other men i also feel like it should be a

01:41:46.280 discussion let's say with that new person okay depending on like what we agree on like okay if

01:41:52.660 we're like oh you know i'm not seeing no one and i agree with that too then i would definitely cut that

01:41:58.160 off i i think first day i mean isn't it it's too soon to cut ties because but i think it was more than

01:42:08.360 one day right well the yeah the the reddit post it was they were dating for what was it two months

01:42:14.160 if you can pull it up real quick nick um she recently went official with the guy she was dating

01:42:22.200 for a couple months so for those first couple months i guess they weren't official they weren't

01:42:26.160 exclusive but during that non-exclusive period she was having sex with the friends with benefits

01:42:32.460 um but they didn't have sex until she was uh they didn't have sex until she was they were exclusive

01:42:41.580 because she said oh i want to wait so i guess my issue is it's like it's fine if you want to wait but

01:42:48.100 it's kind of don't drag it along right yeah don't drag what along like how no it's just like have i feel

01:42:56.500 like you should have one standard like if for example if i met a girl and the like a week before

01:43:03.480 we met she fucked a guy immediately and then i meet her and she's like oh i like to wait two months

01:43:08.600 i'm like okay you're playing me goodbye yeah i kind of agree with that i don't know it's just like

01:43:14.260 look you're free at any given time you could have slept with a thousand men before me you could

01:43:21.000 have slept with a thousand men before me within 10 minutes of meeting them you meet me you could

01:43:25.200 say i'm waiting till marriage that's always going to be your right but i'm gonna look at you like a

01:43:29.580 fucking clown and you're not getting my you're not getting my time yeah does nobody have any i kind of

01:43:38.580 agree with that like it would be like if it was vice versa like if a guy you know did that to me i

01:43:45.620 wouldn't like that i think yeah but then why are you making this one guy wait and why are you not

01:43:51.700 making this other guy wait so people girls tend to make guys wait because why they take that

01:43:57.180 seriously if they don't take it seriously then they're just gonna sleep with you because that

01:44:00.500 was the goal so but why wouldn't i guess sleep with him immediately no what why wouldn't they sleep

01:44:06.380 with him immediately then i guess if you care about that person and you're supposed to wait and not

01:44:12.820 rush things i guess as opposed to just having a one night stand and meeting someone and sleeping with

01:44:17.820 them here let me ask this question for the whole panel have you ever been dating a guy and you made

01:44:24.400 him him wait because maybe you really liked him all the while you were like hooking up with

01:44:32.900 a friend you had friends with benefits and f buddy not that situation no uh no i've never did well you

01:44:38.540 don't you've never dated anybody you've never waited uh so around the table on this i wasn't hooking up

01:44:44.060 with people at all i was like really focused on that one person and like going on dates with them

01:44:48.540 but i definitely didn't close off my roster i still like flirted with people and talked to them

01:44:52.840 just in case it didn't work out but i was very interested and when i know i'm interested in someone

01:44:57.120 i pursue that yeah no

01:45:01.320 yeah i guess just to your point it depends on the situation so yeah you shouldn't be

01:45:08.400 fucking someone while making someone else wait for it that is like contradictory for sure

01:45:14.020 yeah no like if i truly like that person of course i would like you know not meet up with

01:45:20.260 other people and as you said i would keep my roster open but i don't think i would be like

01:45:24.600 messing actively yeah flirting or sex wait you'd keep your roster up or open open for now like you

01:45:32.440 know still talk to them and stuff like that because what if the guy ends up being a total loser

01:45:36.620 yeah well if i like someone i'm a you know focus on that sure yeah okay if sex is about being

01:45:45.100 comfortable with somebody i don't think that if you're waiting for three months that's a weird

01:45:49.380 like you're not comfortable around your person after months okay i like to get to know someone

01:45:56.640 as a friend though too like you know beforehand kind of like vibe them out you know before i give

01:46:02.720 them my body i agree with what you said though because i did say three months but however if i

01:46:08.160 did fully wait three months with you i probably don't like you that much so that is an honest

01:46:14.140 answer can i ask a question about rosters yeah let me i i just want to address the reddit post

01:46:20.920 really quick i think uh while they weren't exclusive i do think it's a reasonable assumption for

01:46:28.720 someone to make that if you're waiting and they claim to be building something they aren't out

01:46:34.820 fucking other people yeah um and uh i don't know you cannot be ready for an emotional commitment to

01:46:43.400 someone and want to take it slow while still seeking casual intimacy with someone else in the

01:46:49.040 meantime so uh yeah i don't know uh buy a sex toy if you want that that's not the same as the real

01:47:00.680 thing yeah the real thing is different here let me read this all right austin smith we all saw that

01:47:06.660 coming you fool this dude did did i read this i don't know uh yeah did i read it this dude is

01:47:11.200 walking out these are the men we have when the draft comes austin smith directed at nick nick

01:47:15.440 uh or sorry nick excuse me um you had something you wanted to ask on something rosters yeah i just

01:47:24.260 learned what they were at the beginning of the year from my friend what's the point so is everybody on

01:47:29.660 your roster like people that you like that you're trying to figure out if you're going to date or is

01:47:34.180 it like people that you're sleeping with uh for me since well yeah some people do like dating and

01:47:40.520 sleeping with but like since i don't date it's just people i sleep with different for everyone i guess

01:47:45.280 yeah yeah it could also be just like a backup like if you're talking to the top guy on your

01:47:50.460 roster and yeah like you're gonna go to the next person which i don't i personally think that if

01:47:56.300 you're talking to one person your attention should be to them you could be talking to you could be

01:48:01.520 sleeping with all of them or you could be sleeping with none of them but i feel like as long as you're

01:48:05.120 in some sort of constant like flirtatious activity with them then that's like could be your roster

01:48:09.600 yeah but like i said before with that when i was in high school like i had a roster like five guys

01:48:13.980 but like i used to rank them like that's different but like it was still a roster like it's still like

01:48:18.080 people that i liked and i like wanted to do stuff with you know good times uh i've so i'm gonna get

01:48:24.600 into the pre-show notes segment a lot of you guys provided some pre-show notes we have kiara you said

01:48:29.440 you were dating an ex and we were both very abusive and i kicked him in the throat yeah i did say that

01:48:34.820 yeah do you want me to that's pretty funny it's not really because i mean i'm not that's not like

01:48:40.300 one of my proudest moments you kicked him in the throat so it's because we were like not good it's

01:48:47.340 just he i was like in a prius and i i don't know i think it's called the dashboard i was like you know

01:48:52.760 where the passenger seat is but my back was kind of like face on the dash like where the windows at

01:48:59.340 so you were facing towards the seat around yeah i was turned around right yeah that's cool but can

01:49:04.540 you talk into the microphone yeah i had turned around and like he grabbed me by my shirt and i

01:49:09.200 was like don't do that and like you know he was like grabbing my shirt and i had um some sandals on

01:49:14.700 and i like kicked him kind of a little hard what's the context though like he was grabbing your shirt

01:49:22.800 why this was like a chris brown end of relationship argument honestly i don't i don't even remember

01:49:29.120 why that happened um like was he angry at you or yeah we were like trying to mess around um i'm trying

01:49:38.520 to remember why that happened i think because i think because i was i went to my we went to drop

01:49:45.380 off one of my friends and um i i went inside to go say hi to her his mom i mean i'm sorry my friend's

01:49:52.960 mom and he thought i was doing something else and we had like a whole argument when i came back into

01:49:58.980 the car was it the male friend no it was a girlfriend she didn't yeah yeah i just went to go say hi to her

01:50:05.660 mom because i've known her for like 10 years is this the ex that you're currently seeing no no

01:50:11.040 okay all right uh let's see who do we have we have uh i felt bad he was crying he was crying

01:50:21.760 you like smash his wind i kicked him literally like right here is he choking he was like and he was

01:50:29.780 crying and i felt bad but was it self-defense yeah i feel like it was self-defense self-defense

01:50:34.840 yeah all right uh let's see we have sage brush is that your actual name or that's just your

01:50:42.960 instagram name sage is my real name sage is my real name okay you said you used to be a stripper

01:50:48.540 which is something you're not proud of how long did you strip for about three months okay uh you

01:50:55.900 do you is there something wrong with your bladder or are you just getting up a lot i've been okay all

01:51:03.900 right all right all right um you said you dated a business commercial construction business owner

01:51:10.760 who came to this sorry i kind of explained it weird i'm bad at texting um i dated somebody that did he

01:51:18.160 worked in commercial construction he did sighting and framing and uh came to the states when he was

01:51:23.320 about my age 18 he was he 49 now okay um you said he forced you to grow he was very harsh but

01:51:33.080 ultimately it was a blessing so did he get you out of stripping um sort of i also didn't like it

01:51:39.840 i really hated stripping i'm not big i've never been a club person and so when it became my job i hated

01:51:47.340 it even more um but he forced me to grow because he was harsh um like

01:51:55.220 he he's definitely andrew tate's one of his favorite people um and he is very self-made came

01:52:06.820 from everything like i have so much respect for him um but he's like really harsh you're gordita

01:52:13.140 you need to lose weight um gordita crunch gordita what's gordita fat fat fat girl um gordita i thought

01:52:22.160 that was a taco bell i'm probably pronouncing it but uh he's he would also um gordita you're my

01:52:30.820 crunch like and all this stuff but not it was mean but it was like i really respected how he thought

01:52:39.380 how he built himself up and being surrounded by somebody that is as smart as he was kind of lifted

01:52:45.540 me up to where i wanted to change and better myself okay uh i'm trying to see what other

01:52:51.560 you also said that i believe i do believe that someone doesn't have to be successful or living

01:52:58.640 their purpose to be worthy of a good relationship i believe you can help them achieve their purpose and

01:53:02.960 success that's someone who who's building and ambitious in their future is just as desirable as

01:53:09.060 someone already there if that makes sense if the love is real it doesn't matter what someone has or

01:53:14.840 doesn't you can build an empire together from scratch um agreed yeah um do you care to add so i'm just

01:53:27.600 giving you a prompt so you can talk as long as someone is um ambitious and wants to build something

01:53:34.900 with their life i don't really think it matters what they have like i believe you can be happiest

01:53:41.360 with somebody and have nothing then you can be with somebody that has everything and has can give you

01:53:47.380 money but at the end of the day i don't think money has that much value um you don't take it with you

01:53:54.420 when you die you take life experiences love the people you know when you pass away so i really did a

01:54:00.360 broke guy yeah i have before you have before what about now now i would still date a broke guy do you

01:54:06.620 have kids i don't have any kids you want to have kids uh yes when i'm married i want to get married

01:54:11.560 and wait two years um till i have kids just because i want to raise them in a happy family

01:54:16.360 but i mean so you don't care at all about your the money at all i do care about money but it's more

01:54:25.160 mindset because if you have the right mindset you'll have the money you'll make the money uh it's

01:54:30.620 all about the mindset where are you now i believe so where are you now where do you want to be and

01:54:35.560 how are you going to get that it's a bit of survivorship bias though because or wait is that the right

01:54:41.500 term um there's plenty of people who have the right mindset and who have xyz good characteristics but

01:54:49.320 they don't end up making it in the same way like i'm sure there's a lot of ambitious people in

01:54:54.420 hollywood that want to be a-list celebrities and actors and they never make it there's a lot of

01:55:02.300 people that never make it in a lot of fields and you can be ambitious and talented and skilled

01:55:08.980 and not make it

01:55:11.160 um well yeah you cannot make it but how many times are you willing to get back up

01:55:20.180 it's and if one thing doesn't work you can move on to another like um i believe in who i was is not

01:55:27.360 who i am now who i am now is not who i will become and who i die as is not who i become is not the same

01:55:32.880 as what i became um so it's really just how many times are you going to get up how how much do you

01:55:39.260 really want this i feel like if you truly want something you will do everything to have it so

01:55:45.480 i don't really believe in failing and not getting back up and if one thing doesn't pan out

01:55:51.860 then i do think you can move and go on to something else that you're better at what so you're kind of

01:55:56.960 saying like for you at least you you care more about somebody's ambition than their actual

01:56:03.300 like you're you're willing to build with a guy

01:56:06.440 it's not clear to me if a lot of women want to build with a guy i think most women want to move

01:56:13.500 in to met like with men who are and i don't i don't mean that literally but they don't build

01:56:18.580 a lot of women don't build they move in i'm learning they want a guy who's already successful

01:56:23.880 yeah i mean i've been with both i'm learning construction and trying to be a part of that

01:56:31.900 and learn that world because i genuinely love it it's so much fun to be on project sites

01:56:36.720 um and i feel strong when i do roles and stuff um but yeah it's just not clear to me like i often

01:56:44.560 hear women say that they're attracted to ambitious men it's not clear to me if women are attracted to

01:56:50.120 ambitious men or men who have already reaped the benefits of their ambition because there's plenty

01:56:57.080 of ambitious men who are not particularly successful who never made it or don't have a

01:57:05.580 bunch of money like a very ambitious homeless person is not likely to be seen as a suitable

01:57:11.420 mate for women there's so much more value that you can gain with ambition than you can from somebody

01:57:18.860 that's already made it i know people that went to college and got their degree and that's hard so

01:57:23.400 i'm not devaluing that um but their family supported that they don't know what it's like

01:57:28.060 to truly struggle to come from nothing and build everything and the conversation is different with

01:57:34.000 those people i much rather struggle with somebody that i can be mind body soul make it with than

01:57:40.300 somebody that i can't relate on those certain levels or they can't relate to me on those certain

01:57:45.640 levels and the conversation is just kind of shallow so when you get married you want to have a 50 50

01:57:51.500 like you want to equally contribute you said because you said build together right so do you want a 50 50

01:57:56.420 i believe in traditional values but i wouldn't mind doing 50 50 um but you said in your notes to us you

01:58:04.140 said you can build an empire together from scratch so what precisely would you be contributing to build

01:58:09.580 that empire together um well i've been like trying to learn payrolls like starting a business i've been

01:58:17.040 trying to learn more of the financial spots of that um my buddy that does construction that i'm

01:58:23.100 close to he what sorry go ahead go ahead go he knows everything about the construction and the brew

01:58:29.180 part of it i'm not sure if everything has to be 50 50 but i also do believe that you can support

01:58:35.080 someone and that's to say if somebody's not where they need to be you can help them get there that

01:58:40.880 doesn't mean that you have to stay at that same level okay so you said you can build an empire

01:58:46.020 together what when you say empire what do you mean anything a business a successful business a

01:58:53.240 successful who here wants to build an empire with their future partner you have to have money though

01:58:58.580 to back that so the guy would need to have yes so women have worked here hold on just show who wants

01:59:04.900 to build an empire with their future partner what what's an yeah like i don't even know what that

01:59:10.140 means yeah something different we need to define the terms i guess but it could be a legacy a foundation

01:59:17.220 whatever it means to you whatever empire means to you that could be something uh maybe we should

01:59:25.220 ask the chat chat what do you guys think what what is what is an empire what's an empire here guys

01:59:31.040 what does it mean to build an empire together with your partner are we talking a business are we

01:59:37.960 talking a business yeah we do hit the finish line financially and build a family an empire it will

01:59:49.080 when when we are talking about empire do we mean like let me google empire just so we're uh empire

01:59:55.520 definition uh bro don't give me the dog shit tv show hello an extensive group of states or countries

02:00:04.460 under a single supreme authority formally okay wrong one hold on uh let's see i'm i'm looking at

02:00:11.580 this uh relationship i i think the word you were looking for more is like foundation like a foundational

02:00:18.780 family you have a business you have a home you have kids i think it's like the better term right

02:00:24.700 the what's it called the power couple thing when people are talking about empire they want to be a

02:00:29.460 power couple yeah they're they got a business together they're making a lot of money a large

02:00:34.260 commercial organization owned or controlled by one person or group her for example her business empire

02:00:42.060 grew so when you when you say that you want to have an empire build an empire with you can build an

02:00:49.760 empire together that's what you is that what you want you guys want that build an empire with with

02:00:55.260 the partner yes sir what are you guys going to do to help build the empire okay i dated somebody that

02:01:03.480 started their own business i didn't build their business i had no part in that um they did that

02:01:08.920 completely on their own but at their two-year anniversary i tried to show my support i paid for a five-star

02:01:16.900 restaurant in denver to take their family and their friends out to dinner and i put this in in my thing

02:01:23.120 um helped pay for their car five thousand and bought them a camera because they wanted to try

02:01:29.760 podcasting and videotaping for their business so it's showing support it does not meet the empire

02:01:35.780 criteria i'm sorry okay that's fine then show support in some way if somebody's trying to build

02:01:42.260 something for their life i do think as a woman it is your responsibility to show support in ways

02:01:47.700 not let's see the bowing video this is how you build an empire with with your husband nick

02:01:53.420 the bowing video it's the bowing video um make it bigger nick can you control

02:02:01.980 oh no hey uh huh wait make it yeah make it bigger can you scroll up like make it one bigger

02:02:13.200 scroll down just a tad scroll up just a tad no yeah that's fine all right this is this is this is an

02:02:23.360 empire here okay this is what i'm talking about build an empire okay i've got my seven figure a month

02:02:29.920 job and this is my stay at home girlfriend slash wife this is this isn't this is this is some

02:02:37.840 empire shit hold on watch the bow wait for the bow boom fuck that's some empire shit that's what i'm

02:02:48.980 that's what i'm talking about whoops you girls want to build an empire with with a boyfriend

02:02:55.780 let me see your bow show me the bow oh do i have to stand up you guys stand up for the bow

02:03:01.800 yeah i've never done this you've never bowed that was dog shit how about you no you're not gonna bow

02:03:09.080 you wouldn't bow to a dude to my husband for sure i don't know if i would or not i've never really been

02:03:15.580 in that situation bruv i want to bow on a podcast though huh i don't want to bow on a podcast though

02:03:22.300 rude just kidding sorry let's see okay let's move on we have we have mckenna mckenna

02:03:31.840 you've provided some pre-show notes to us yes i've had a lot of crazy situationships

02:03:39.000 every time i try to leave they blackmail me and stalk me yeah every time um most yeah was it lorenzo or

02:03:46.880 guillermo guillermo was in a situation shit but he still hits me up and it's so annoying

02:03:52.980 how did they blackmail you one did so one oh this is gonna make me look so bad uh so basically i was

02:04:01.800 like best friends with this guy and i really liked his best friend though and but the guy that i was

02:04:10.460 best friends with uh he should i give names i feel like it's gonna be too confusing but don't give

02:04:14.360 sure you can make up names yeah you can make up okay so the the guy i was best friends with was

02:04:20.900 steve but his friend uh jeremy was the guy that i really liked but steve was really into me and we

02:04:30.580 were like best friends and everything so we would we would hang out like every day go hiking do stuff

02:04:36.220 like that and then okay and then uh we then we started to do uh some you know some paraphernalia

02:04:46.920 together and that's when i hooked up with him and then we kind of like would keep hooking up

02:04:52.480 but i was also with steve or jeremy with steve but then i started hooking up with uh jeremy too

02:05:00.820 but so then when i stopped tried to stop being friends with steve uh he would basically tell me

02:05:08.240 like oh if you like if you leave me and stuff like that like i'm gonna tell i'm gonna tell jeremy

02:05:13.220 that we're hooking up and we're doing drugs together and like all this stuff i've also had

02:05:18.340 like i've been i feel like all the men i've been situated with have been so awful but when i was in

02:05:23.460 high school i was situated with this drug dealer too and he used to like wait outside my house

02:05:27.160 and he'd be like oh can i come over and i'd be like no like my family hates you like you can't

02:05:32.280 come over and he would just keep bugging me until he would finally be able to come in and then i'd be

02:05:37.060 like yeah fine you can come and then in like two seconds he would just like walk through my side

02:05:41.200 gate and i was like how did you get here that fast but this man was waiting outside my house

02:05:45.220 until i said yes stalker like most most of the guys that i get situated with and not just like one

02:05:51.260 night stands like that doesn't that's not like a situationship but most guys that i get situated

02:05:54.960 with where like you know i hang out with i have sex with i like you know eat like food with and

02:05:59.640 stuff like that and then like if i try to break things off like the guy i used to film with he

02:06:04.200 literally just he would keep texting me and asking me to hang out and everything and i was like no dude

02:06:08.660 like i don't want anything to do with you and then he when i was in dance class he sent me a text and

02:06:14.280 it was like cutie and i was like what the hell so i like scroll down and like the the scroll bar and

02:06:19.980 everything and then i was like what the heck so i opened it and then he sent me like clips of our sex

02:06:24.400 tape together and i was like what the fuck dude like you do not need to do that

02:06:28.600 okay um but you said they blackmail you one did yeah just the one yeah uh that sucks sorry yeah

02:06:42.840 it's pretty that's why i'm also like i don't date people and stuff because i'm it like that already

02:06:47.980 happens when i don't date people i'm like just imagine what happened if i was actually in a

02:06:51.580 relationship like i feel like would you imagine would it get abusive like i don't know could it

02:06:57.740 just be the guys you're dating i think it is honestly it probably is that too what's your type

02:07:02.940 let's go around the table what's everybody's type my type let's talk let's do physical traits and

02:07:09.500 then personality traits okay um i don't even know physical traits i really love tattoos

02:07:17.580 okay uh i like curly hair oh no wait like the the perm moth

02:07:24.620 stop um what's that style like does that is that does that i know what you're talking about i know

02:07:31.540 what you're talking about um does that have a name can we google like dudes with that dog shit

02:07:36.760 it's a bunch it's mostly zoomers who have that mullet no it's not a mullet no it's not a mullet

02:07:42.680 i don't know what it's like short on the sides and they got the fucking spaghetti it's what the

02:07:47.160 spaghetti yeah what's that stupid fucking haircut called spaghetti they got the fucking spaghetti

02:07:53.720 the fucking spaghetti haircut i've never heard of this the gabagool come on what a picture of this

02:08:01.560 right now curly fade maybe oh it's like they got the the it's like isn't it called the spaghetti

02:08:12.440 there's no way it's called this big i thought it was called the spaghetti why not the ramen like

02:08:17.720 the ramen noodle it might it might be the noodle haircut hold on let me ask the chat chat what's it called

02:08:22.760 nick do you have photos uh broccoli heads the broccoli no it's the broccoli

02:08:32.600 yo what the fuck it ain't that okay the broccoli i think it's called the broccoli haircut is it the

02:08:38.360 broccoli i think it's the broccoli the spaghetti i've never heard of it the broccoli haircut these

02:08:46.120 fucking guys they all got the same dumb fucking oh i see it right there i fucking hate this

02:08:51.400 so it's just like a fade with really curly hair it's the broccoli it's the broccoli i think nick no

02:08:58.360 fence you kind of got a fucking broccoli but you don't have the curls but you you don't have the

02:09:02.920 curls you don't got no it's nick yeah i don't i don't think that i don't like that i don't know

02:09:08.760 okay so is that the kind of i don't know where i'm i i was with the guy that had the hair for sure

02:09:13.480 yeah i was in a situation with that but i also um i like i like dark hair like brown hair

02:09:20.920 uh has to be taller than me i'm like five nine five eight so how tall does the guy have to be

02:09:26.760 uh i would prefer taller than me in heels because i wear heels a lot that's just kind of embarrassing

02:09:31.480 if he's like shorter than me so what are we talking there six feet minimum yeah yeah that's

02:09:36.360 two six feet's too short for you no six foot is fine that's fine okay um and then what other physical

02:09:43.320 personality okay so i like my men very simple like i feel like i'm a very high maintenance

02:09:49.000 all the way to the table bender the offender donated 99 dollars mick you chose an excellent

02:09:55.960 costume brian is proud that you chose to look like him to dress up as for halloween

02:10:02.680 yeah nick's actually dressed up as me for halloween um so uh what else um but personality i like my

02:10:10.520 men very simple i'm a very high maintenance girl so i like my low maintenance guys so i feel like

02:10:15.480 bullshit i swear it's not i swear it's not that's why i feel like i like every time i bring a guy

02:10:23.480 around like and i introduce them to my friends my friends are like mckenna we see you with such like a

02:10:28.040 different kind of guy and i'm like yeah but i'm like that's kind of the guys that i like and i feel

02:10:32.200 so like embarrassed that i like guys like that like because my friends kind of what simple low

02:10:36.120 maintenance guys yeah just very simple like you you said you dated a drug dealer and that doesn't

02:10:43.000 i didn't date him i didn't date him oh you fucked him excuse me yes i fucked him that doesn't strike

02:10:47.800 me as like low maintenance to date a drug well that was also when i was like 17 i'm 21 though

02:10:53.160 how was that namir no that was that was jet jet i knew it was a fucking jet i swear to god you said

02:11:01.960 it a little before me but i was about to say jet oh my god oh my god does that just sound like a

02:11:07.800 drug dealer name what huh does that does that sound like a drug dealer name i don't know that's just

02:11:13.320 it it was like i was just streaming at you i was looking in her eyes and i just knew it was jet

02:11:20.360 i just peered into her soul oh my god through her eyeballs okay good talk uh personality wise what

02:11:28.120 are we talking here what's your type um personality um i feel like everyone just says like oh i like

02:11:34.440 a really funny guy like this um i don't really know for personality do you like a guy who treats

02:11:39.480 you like shit pretty much but like i i swear like like girls they do not like good guys like only some

02:11:47.000 girls do but like most girls like they'll be like oh if this guy treats me right they're like no that's

02:11:50.840 not it that's not what i want like i want a guy who treats me like shit like they like that toxicity

02:11:55.080 and i kind of do i'm trying to get away from it you like toxic guys but literally the drug dealer

02:11:59.800 was toxic what do you think about can i set you up with nick nick sorry so i said sorry can i set

02:12:04.120 you up with mick mick oh my god he's so toxic he's like super super he doesn't seem toxic he seems

02:12:13.800 very sweet nick would you date uh would you date her oh wait she does yeah i was about to say oh i'm

02:12:23.000 sorry well she she's very beautiful i will say that thank you he does like are you a natural

02:12:27.720 redhead yeah wait keely was not was she real redhead uh she had kind of brownish hair but i

02:12:35.240 ever since i was like six years old i always had a thing for redheads so it was like that's kind of

02:12:39.720 weird so hayley hayley uh died it's a little early i think it's a little early mate well you wait

02:12:47.240 when he died it read to fulfill your young childhood fantasy what the fuck nick yeah but i mean when you

02:12:54.040 when you were six you weren't attracted to like girls like bro i was like playing handball and

02:12:58.600 shit i was doing skin what are they called skitters skinners and watermelons and shit son i wasn't

02:13:05.480 i was like fucking demolishing these chicks on the handball court i didn't give a

02:13:09.640 fuck about dating these chicks i wanted to fuck people up at handball son oh i don't know what

02:13:15.080 were they called skitters i mean were they chat were they skitters everybody had like a school crush

02:13:19.960 you know what i mean the skitters remember chat handball were they the skitters you know where they

02:13:25.160 where it's like here's the wall right and it's like

02:13:27.640 like slicees skitters skitters i don't know skeeters handball son you know the game with the wall

02:13:40.520 there's the wall and you hit the ball i think not tether ball dude wall ball wait yeah wall ball no we

02:13:49.000 called it handball in my day oh there's there's the big wall it's tall a tall wall you hit the ball

02:13:56.520 i could we called that handball we called that wall that's wall ball i'm excuse me i said i was

02:14:02.120 playing we called it handball i mean same thing handball wall ball like it makes sense yeah that

02:14:07.880 was you're hitting it with your hand wall ball excuse me wall ball but there were remember there

02:14:14.120 were watermelons and raven dt donated 100 bro mick you need to refamiliarize yourself with the wife hack

02:14:24.120 the danger zone is the group with the redheads strippers girls named tiffany you end up getting

02:14:30.360 your stuff burned your car keyed stay away your car key yeah avoid tiffany's for sure really is that a

02:14:38.520 thing huge red flag really yeah almost as much of a red flag as a girl named mckenna anyways moving

02:14:47.720 just kidding i'm just kidding um what about you what's your type so tattoos double points if they have

02:14:56.680 a face tattoo double points if they have a face tattoo yeah big lips big lips i like guys that wear you

02:15:03.880 like big lips okay is that weird no that's fine go ahead i like guys that wear like rick owens and

02:15:11.000 palms angels that wear what rick owens and palm angels it's very specific you don't know what that is

02:15:16.760 who the fuck is that guy it's a clothing they're like clothing brands we're going with this expensive

02:15:22.680 girl okay so yeah they got to be fashionable um irresponsible with their money got it personality

02:15:31.560 um they hard they work hard work hard make me laugh makes you laugh um they also aren't like

02:15:36.840 super like oh we have to be out all the time like they can be like super chill and like introverted

02:15:41.640 i guess like an in-between like this face tattoo my boyfriend has a face tattoo a little tiny one

02:15:49.000 introverted with a face tattoo oh no he's not super introverted though but it would be tough like for

02:15:55.480 how is he a soundcloud rapper no he's actually a barber oh he works his he works really hard

02:16:02.600 okay he's very that's respectable yeah no he works really hard um i think all the barbers at his shop

02:16:09.640 have face tattoos to be honest good times good times what about you yeah that's mine uh brown eyes tan

02:16:20.760 dark skin dark hair brown eyes brown eyes i love brown eyes personality traits um

02:16:30.120 i think we went over it like ambitious kind of stern um i kind of like somebody who's a little bit

02:16:36.600 preachy like has a lot of opinions i like that okay what about you um so here wait can you scoot your

02:16:44.840 microphone to the left yeah perfect can you scoot yours in please can you scoot yours in uh yeah

02:16:53.160 that's good um so i don't have any like looks or height or weight requirement um well i mean if you

02:17:00.040 look at my lineup you'll see you'll my lineup of my my really my relationships you were just dating

02:17:06.360 dwarf obese obese obese dwarves i mean not in that order but yeah i've dated i my baby my baby daddy's

02:17:15.640 significantly shorter than me really yes and hispanic and then i've dated good for you seven

02:17:20.760 foot tall i've dated people that people are like what the hell are you doing but i'll tell you five

02:17:26.440 four five four how tall was your your baby daddy five one he's five one foot good for you i'm proud of

02:17:33.960 you i'm proud um well because i i date for the human experience for the human experience yeah um

02:17:41.080 so what if they have a small peen um that's cool too i i also i also have the curse is what my my

02:17:47.240 friend my friend i i only meet men with small penises so i've only probably maybe had like

02:17:53.880 like one maybe two or three that have been on the larger side but other than that that's just my

02:17:59.400 my bad luck that's my curse so that's obviously not a problem you don't mind if they how do you know

02:18:07.560 sometimes you don't until you do so all right that's fine yeah so my lineup makes no sense i

02:18:13.960 guess if i'm really like trying to pinpoint what attracts me it's definitely ambition and drive and

02:18:21.400 ambition is not just like oh they know what they want or they want to start a business because like

02:18:26.520 you kind of got to be the person at the seat of shark tank you know like there's these guys or

02:18:31.480 women who like have all these ideas of oh i want to do this and i want to do that and they can seem

02:18:36.600 very ambitious but the ones that actually have the discipline to like take off with those ideas is

02:18:43.240 really what's important so what you think can be ambitious isn't always ambitious um so that was my

02:18:48.600 problem in the past was that i dated people who were like on the brink of maybe like being famous

02:18:54.120 in sports or starting their own business or doing whatever and um the discipline didn't really back

02:19:00.440 that so that never really ended up being a thing and then that's where i kind of fall off because

02:19:05.160 i'm an entrepreneur so i own companies so um if i see even a little bit of weakness in that area

02:19:11.560 where you're saying you're going to do something but you're not but you're not doing that that turns

02:19:16.120 me off very quickly okay i know a obese dwarf i'd like to set you up with if you're you said you're

02:19:27.800 single right are you right could i make the connection remember the g spot is only two

02:19:35.160 inches inside the blank as long as he's got that he's in the game hashtag short kings hashtag size queens

02:19:41.720 okay good talk uh what about you for me um physically i do want someone talking to me but

02:19:50.520 i don't i don't think i really go for like looks that much well if i like you i like you um yeah um

02:19:57.560 yeah i also like a guy who's fit as well he'd be a little chubby but as long as you're working on it

02:20:03.320 okay um um i like a man who yeah who has goals and ambition and who's willing to grow yeah yeah

02:20:13.720 grow together yeah grow together yeah okay build a foundation would you would you allow a guy to come

02:20:19.160 in and manage your of and he takes 50 percent like a pimp like if like if he was like my boyfriend i

02:20:29.480 guess um i think a boyfriend would be different i don't know because i mean i think that's growing

02:20:34.360 together right you're growing the only fans together well is he making her 50 more and also

02:20:39.480 does he know what he's doing yeah yes there you go it's not easy is he leading or is he just like

02:20:44.840 i want half the cut because that's the difference right there and they're both pretty based though

02:20:48.840 not gonna lie like whether he helps you or not as lot like if he comes in he's just like i'm just

02:20:53.800 i want 50 that's even more gangster than like oh babe let me help you i'll give a cut that's more

02:21:00.200 gangster huh i'll give a cut only if he's like making content with yeah like it's actually it

02:21:06.440 depends on your subscriber account like for him to be able to run it like you need like three chatters

02:21:13.160 on there if if mick when you and mckenna start dating you're taking you're letting mick take 50 right

02:21:22.520 if he's fucking me on camera really yeah hold up mick hold up you got a business deal over here

02:21:32.840 and and you know the great you know mick has a track record

02:21:40.520 what happened to free mick okay

02:21:44.600 what happened of dating women he's very supportive you play the guitar right yes

02:21:50.360 oh i love he will serenade you mick will fucking what you play do you know wonderwall can you play

02:21:56.440 wonderwall do you have your fucking guitar did you bring your guitar nick they're sorry it's in the

02:22:00.680 car but um no it's uh it's in the car it's just gcd it's like a basic pop song yeah how good are you

02:22:06.680 like a virtuoso at guitar no i'm not a virtuoso but i can play what i play very well like have you ever

02:22:12.600 gone to like a like a uh college party and just like been in the corner like yeah

02:22:19.000 haha and all the chicks were like oh my god he's so creative no i have i have a lot of gear i i'm

02:22:24.120 really into to like rock guitar and solos i i'm a big zeppelin i like hendrix he likes hendrix i like

02:22:31.960 gilmore and stuff but i'm yeah i can solo like those guys like hendrix was my first like inspiration to

02:22:37.800 start like guitar soloing and stuff but um no i'm not as good as hendrix you know well let's not

02:22:44.120 get ahead of ourselves no i can i can sound like him but never be him all right uh what's your type

02:22:51.000 what's your type i'll say to be cliched tall taller than me at least i like to feel teeny tiny

02:22:57.560 and then um as far as personality wise i like somebody that can tell me what they believe in

02:23:03.960 because nowadays a lot of people just do not know what they believe whether it's morals or religion

02:23:08.840 or really anything so and then on top of it just passionate about something in life something i

02:23:16.280 don't really care what but as long as you passionate about it and have more to a day than just me what if

02:23:22.200 what if they've been like a corporate drone for 10 years and they've they work i.t and they just do it

02:23:30.040 for the money well of course they do it for the money but sounds like there's not really passion

02:23:34.440 there then they're just dead behind the eyes you know what i mean they just sit there with their it

02:23:42.280 work i'm sorry it's a tough crowd tonight

02:23:49.960 uh okay uh mick what's your type besides malignant narcissist

02:23:55.880 he likes toxic i do you like toxic women nick i i like women who are i like women who are maybe

02:24:04.600 a little mean to me yeah but i i think i'm what the fuck wait can maddie slap you right now across

02:24:11.400 the face no would you like would you kind of be into that i i i don't know if i'm into like pain

02:24:17.640 i thought you were about to say petite well no hayley did hit me a few times like like she did

02:24:22.280 definitely do that like it's like um she hit huh she hit me a few times used you yeah wow this girl

02:24:28.680 is yeah but like fully like just because like um she would be like upset with me or think i did

02:24:36.280 something bad so she'd like uh and then she'd like if i was talking to another girl or something but

02:24:42.760 you know she would other guys yeah but if i talked to another girl like if i talked to the waitress and

02:24:48.120 just asked her how her day was going at like a restaurant she would hit me in the car because

02:24:52.680 she would be like that's you can't be you know talking to this other girl and stuff but um no i

02:24:58.840 really should be with someone that's nicer to me uh from now on but uh no i like um i like femininity

02:25:05.720 um like a girl that wears dresses um is short and petite and cute um you know uh likes to uh go for

02:25:14.280 walks and uh um because i walk a lot and loves animals and uh good personal hygiene um sweet and

02:25:24.040 caring you know uh that would be nice someone that likes to work to you know wrap a blanket around and

02:25:32.600 have a fire and you know romantic that sounds that sounds kind of yeah a word i can't say on youtube

02:25:42.040 mick but that sounds like a word i can't say on youtube never mind i mean a girl that likes to

02:25:50.200 travel a lot too because i plan on traveling a lot so you know bro you just need to i don't really

02:25:57.080 advise men be promiscuous like i don't recommend men being promiscuous mick but i feel like you just

02:26:04.120 gotta fuck like 30 chicks dude like i that's not my typical go-to advice but mick you just need to

02:26:10.840 fuck a bunch of i definitely need a rebound for sure is that degenerate is that degenerate like

02:26:16.360 is that degenerate advice i'm sorry i feel like mickey gotta we need to sample i need you to uh you know

02:26:23.400 what i mean i guess it'd like boost my confidence or something chat what do you think is that fun

02:26:29.640 figure out what you like exactly forget about that abusive person yeah that part mick is a hopeless

02:26:37.960 hopeless romantic is what they're talking about

02:26:48.200 the only problem is is like is like what you've said with the statistics here like it's so much

02:26:52.920 easier if i go on like tinder i'm only gonna mat like meet with like what one percent of women on

02:26:58.280 there but women could meet with like every guy so that's the problem is like that's what we call

02:27:03.000 slam pigs mick yeah wear a con sorry i'm sorry or or like or i'll have to set my standards so low it'll

02:27:09.480 be like you know like someone i'm not really attracted to and like you know sometimes you gotta

02:27:15.000 take a grenade son yeah is that what that yeah what's it called lose the chance you need to take

02:27:23.320 that's like some old school like jersey um all right uh where were we were talking about types yeah

02:27:31.800 yes madison did we get to madison what's your type madison my type is physically is yeah um brown eyes

02:27:42.040 brown hair i like someone who's physically fit uh personality wise i like someone who's nice

02:27:51.080 respectful i like being treated like a princess um i like someone who's

02:27:59.000 strong-willed like in their occupation or whatever because i do want to be like a stay-at-home mom

02:28:04.200 you focus on the children uh someone who's confident but humble about it and yeah word

02:28:14.600 okay i'll go through my my long ass list i guess um any race is fine slight preference for white

02:28:20.760 women or asian women slightly awkward asian women they if they've done the cello for three years that's

02:28:26.920 like huge i'll accept i'll accept a violin i'll accept a violin piano's kind of like meh but whatever

02:28:36.200 slight preference for like petite women like if you're five two that's way too tall for me um kind

02:28:42.840 of joking but i'll date a woman i'll date a woman who's taller than me don't give a fuck not

02:28:46.760 height's not real deal breaker no plastic surgery no fake tits no fake lips no bbl no lipo

02:28:51.880 um like give me an a cup over a girl who is uh sorry give me an a cup or even a girl who's flat

02:29:00.840 over fake tits uh minimal makeup or no makeup large labia that's big labia matter scroll up a little

02:29:10.760 bit so we can see the follow my instagram what was that real or are you just trying to market your

02:29:16.520 other companies right now no that's 100 this is a non-profit no i know it's your cause what tax

02:29:23.720 exempt what is that you're really your preference for big labia yeah you rocking or what's up

02:29:31.800 yeah it is no it is i like large listen women have a penis size preference i can have

02:29:37.800 that's a labia preference that's perfectly fine so ladies don't get labia plasty uh

02:29:47.000 you want to reveal something you want to tell the table something go on share this is a safe space

02:29:52.040 you don't believe no i wish you could show us an example

02:29:57.160 because i would love to see

02:29:58.120 i would or a reason it's like a flower opening up so like a sandwich like a butterfly wing yeah

02:30:07.640 you could i don't like to you know as somebody who's an advocate for women's large labias i don't

02:30:13.000 like to make meat references but you could say like an arby's sandwich like you're definitely not

02:30:21.080 a vegan subway's great they have great sandwiches i don't need they have pretty sandwiches i'm sorry i

02:30:26.440 don't need i don't need pussy what are you being serious she said she was but you would want a

02:30:33.800 girl to give you a blowjob for sure right he's particular wait what's your zodiac sign if she

02:30:41.960 doesn't want to it's not a big deal okay like i'm not bent out of shape but yeah i just i don't really

02:30:48.440 like to go to chow town go to chow town yeah go to pound town he wants to pound town he doesn't

02:30:56.600 want to go pound town's okay chow chow chow town not so much nope so what does 30 years of marriage

02:31:05.400 look like with you just what do you mean just straight pound town that's it you're not gonna

02:31:10.120 ever i'm not married uh no i know but i'm saying like marriage even in marriage yes like sleeping with

02:31:15.480 the same person for an extended period of time like you're just gonna have sex if i'm like if i'm

02:31:20.200 on my death bed maybe maybe you'll eat pussy on my death bed yes why on your death bed like because

02:31:26.440 i'm about to die i might as well i guess you know i would i would i'm a nice guy i would do that for my

02:31:35.320 my girlfriend or wife for like a one last time like i'm dying i'm gonna or the nurse who's taking

02:31:41.800 care of me i'm on my death bed i'm in hospice care hey hey nurse i would i would probably be the

02:31:51.400 worst like in hospice i'd just be hitting on all the nurses oh yeah that's funny i i need to eat

02:31:58.600 some pussy before i die even though i don't eat pussy but first how big is your labia yeah that's

02:32:03.480 important that's very important you have to ask that if the labia is not clacking then i'm not smacking

02:32:10.280 that doesn't make any sense but okay no it makes a lot of sense uh yeah i'm just not listen i uh you

02:32:18.760 know that's okay never been my thing it's fine i tried i tried it a couple times wasn't for you

02:32:24.200 wasn't for me it the last time i did it was the bush administration oh oh seven oh eight ish

02:32:31.880 it's been a while maybe you should try it again i'm okay you need to get back on the game there's a lot

02:32:37.080 of laser labia laser yeah it's hair removal it's not about the hair it ain't about the hair it's just

02:32:44.280 it could be it could be about the hair you don't know but it's not about the hair okay but if there's

02:32:48.760 hair it's it's already it it could be bare and no you still still still wouldn't did it stink is that

02:32:55.960 why you didn't like you never know does it stink no did it stink that's why you didn't want to do it

02:33:00.520 anymore it wasn't really like look sometimes there can be an odor but it wasn't even about that

02:33:05.720 it's just you know what you know what it was i read an article about who's that guy who's the father

02:33:13.880 of charlie sheen was it what's his name michael who's wait chat hello who's charlie sheen's dad

02:33:22.120 or who's the somebody got some famous actor got throat cancer from eating pussy oh hpv yeah

02:33:33.080 michael douglas i think it was i think did mike was it so the girl must have had hpv and gave it

02:33:39.080 was it michael douglas one of these guys got throat cancer from eating pussy and ever since then i and i

02:33:44.280 i i learned about that shit early on i was like scary yeah i've never heard that suddenly you're

02:33:53.480 not hungry you never know the more you try something and just more you like you know my i got neck

02:33:58.840 problems oh my god i got neck problems and the other thing is definitely a hundred i mean i have again

02:34:07.240 i haven't done it in since 2007 2008 or something yeah uh the other thing is definitely you can't do

02:34:15.720 it you if my advice to men look if you want to eat pussy eat pussy you can't do that shit in a one

02:34:21.960 night stand oh absolutely not you can't do that unless the girl is like you fucking know

02:34:29.080 she's loyal to you you can't eat pussy that's all that's all i'm saying

02:34:32.440 i don't think you should be allowed to tell men when they should eat pussy when you haven't eaten

02:34:38.840 pussy since 2008 i'm very much allowed to tell men i wouldn't stretch your podcast but

02:34:44.040 so i back your statement like look here's the thing like people be fucking a lot of people be

02:34:53.400 fucking and i'm not trying to like go down on a chick that just got fucked by another dude yesterday

02:35:00.280 that's how people move in the dating marketplace in 2023 sorry well that's true but you said not at

02:35:09.400 all you said not you said 2008 that's true can we count that how far back it's like 15 16 so it's

02:35:16.920 almost been two decades yeah the internet wasn't even invented no i'm kidding um this was my space era

02:35:23.640 like facebook was just getting started that's the last time i ate some pussy

02:35:30.760 i almost wish i kind of regret you know like i wish i could just say i've never eaten pussy

02:35:35.720 but then you would want to try it or somebody would make you try no i just wish i could have i could

02:35:40.840 claim that i'm never eating pussy yeah yeah there you go if a girl doesn't want to suck dick that's fine

02:35:48.680 too that's her call it seems to be the case though that women get bent out of shape though when men say

02:35:54.120 they don't eat pussy they do because it's not fair why it's not fair i look i already said dick and

02:35:59.880 well well i don't think it has to be tit for tat like a girl could still enjoy sucking dick

02:36:06.920 without enjoy sucking dick do you there are women who need to it's not just that they enjoy it they

02:36:13.000 need to suck the dick i'm a giver i'm not a receiver honestly i'd prefer if a guy doesn't

02:36:20.840 eat me out i don't like it they're bad at it some guys she does only fans though that's based based

02:36:30.680 so no plastic surgery tell me how you really feel tell me how you really feel about what

02:36:34.520 specifically about the not eating pussy for two decades i mean you can you can feel however you

02:36:39.000 want to feel but you should do you feel you should definitely include that in your first date

02:36:42.920 yeah i should tell i should tell that needs to be like your second sentence like hi my name's brian

02:36:48.280 i don't eat pussy i say it on the show so that's great saying i don't eat pussy i do not eat yeah

02:36:56.440 but other than that to each his own yeah that way they know well a lot of girls don't suck dick you

02:37:00.440 know what i would be willing i would be willing to say that if the women on the date say here's my

02:37:08.440 body count why is so does body count matter a lot to you huge okay very important okay what's a good

02:37:16.280 uh what's like your range what's a good range uh well you know let's not uh you know i don't want to

02:37:23.320 it depends on their age right age age is a factor but uh you know chase gave like the um i believe in

02:37:32.520 redemption though you can redeem not really but you can kind of redeem yourself what was the

02:37:39.560 statistics it was on your podcast where i heard it like um in marriage here i'll say this virgin is

02:37:45.480 ideal oh wow i don't eat pussy virgin is ideal good luck out there man yeah you gotta start looking

02:37:54.200 good luck out there i'm rooting for you thank you you're gonna be searching the seven seas

02:37:57.560 no it's not that hard to be honest you know what i'm saying but is it not i feel like those

02:38:02.040 are i mean it's hard for people without those but but i would so if if uh if a girl was honest

02:38:07.640 about her body count i would be honest about not eating pussy okay there's girls that don't suck dick

02:38:15.080 it's all good it's better if she does though it's better if she does but it's okay if she doesn't

02:38:23.640 it's okay if she doesn't but it's better if she does what if a girl can't cook

02:38:29.480 i mean it's better if she does you can learn how to cook i just started learning how to cook

02:38:34.680 honestly i don't give a honestly this is this is gonna be one of my ridiculous takes i'm slightly

02:38:39.640 paranoid so when it comes to women cooking i always feel like i'll be dating a girl and she'll

02:38:46.600 eventually start to hate me and then poison me so i'd much rather my god are you a hateable person

02:38:53.640 am i hateable yeah sounds paranoid huh are you no but i'm not kidding when i say this

02:39:00.520 like a girl will like bring me over a smoothie or like food or whatever you're scared and i'm like

02:39:05.880 this bitch might try to poison me okay let's roll this back for a second so you don't eat

02:39:12.040 pussy because you're scared of getting throat cancer and you won't let a girl cook for you because she's

02:39:16.280 gonna poison you it's very i'm sensing like a no but like it's a deep-rooted problem going

02:39:21.960 something beyond the look i'm just saying i'm just saying it's with i've watched too much crime

02:39:28.280 shit it's within the realm of possibility that some chick could try to poison me i got enemies i got

02:39:34.760 ops some girl slides into some girl slides into my dms oh brian i got a big labia i'm 4 11 let me take

02:39:42.120 you on the date blah blah blah okay babe come over boom she oh brian and then like two months down the

02:39:47.960 road she brings over some rice you didn't and that rice has grown i don't know if you guys know about

02:39:57.000 rice son rice can grow really dangerous bacteria that will fuck you up i think i saw this happen

02:40:04.600 with spaghetti recently it killed i'm not i'm giving people ideas now shit they left it and i'm just

02:40:09.880 saying too long here let me ask the chat chat chat chat chat chat chat chat chat chat chat chat let

02:40:17.320 me ask you guys has a girl ever brought you over food or a smoothie or something did it never

02:40:24.360 like cross your mind that like should i eat like what if she tries to poison like you know what i

02:40:31.000 mean like this is just normal human being shit you know what i mean like it crosses your mind like what

02:40:36.280 if do you know what i mean has it ever chat sorry cross your mind like your girlfriend brings you over

02:40:44.120 some food i don't think you're gonna get much feedback on this one right i'm sorry wouldn't you

02:40:48.360 be more worried about chipotle yeah chipotle has killed like a few dozen people too

02:40:56.600 i still eat chipotle i like chipotle what was your thing what was the thing what

02:41:02.920 what i said wait question for you though you have two kids do you when you go on a date with a guy do

02:41:07.320 you tell them that you have kids yes you make it very clear because i've oh yeah yeah i've been on

02:41:12.120 dating apps i don't on dating apps because i try not to put as much information but the moment i start

02:41:17.800 talking to you i'm going to tell you that's going to be like one of my what do you mean the moment

02:41:22.360 like if if it goes from like a match to like a dm then one of my first few sentences will include

02:41:28.360 the fact that i because because some women on dating apps will they don't put in their bio and they'll

02:41:35.080 wait i've had girls on the date tell me they have kids i feel like you should be more you should do it

02:41:40.840 before you should be up front when it comes to not eating pussy that's like you can wait three

02:41:46.680 months to tell her that no no you want her to fall in love first so she's stuck yeah wait can you scoot

02:41:52.920 the mic oh scoot it back no scoot it i don't see why you would hide it but also i don't see why you

02:41:58.440 will leave with it either like i feel like she'll just know she'll just know because you'll just never

02:42:05.320 do it you don't even have to tell her well no i would if what if she just like walks in and sits

02:42:10.360 on your face then what i would never i would never that would be like very emasculating i'd never let

02:42:15.960 a girl just walk in and sit on my face could you imagine though like a girl just walks in if i did

02:42:20.920 here's the thing though if i did eat pussy that's not the position that i'm eating your pussy

02:42:26.520 that's why not no that's way too that's way too she's like that's like her doming me i'm not

02:42:34.840 letting a girl doming like no i'm like so i have a question what if you love her and you're gonna

02:42:38.760 marry her wait did you let fucking keely sit on your fucking face mick i actually never did that with

02:42:45.240 high five dude good for you but did you eat it from the back i i i did eat her out a few times you

02:42:52.920 eat their her pussy while she's like face down ass up yeah like but never never sitting on my

02:42:58.680 face i've never had a girl sit on my face though but i'm just saying like if you love if you loved

02:43:03.160 her i would see like like if she's like your wife or something i could see like being like yeah i'll do

02:43:08.840 it just to make you feel good honey or whatever you know just to make you feel good yeah because i

02:43:14.040 love you and i want to make you feel good even if i was inclined to eat pussy uh sitting on the face

02:43:20.680 that's a no-go absolutely not gentlemen don't stop them though like what if they just love it men

02:43:27.080 initiate it yeah they're like what yeah what the fuck they love it i swear wait i have a question

02:43:33.320 so let's say you're talking to someone it's like been a few months like six months you're still not

02:43:37.480 going to eat it no no no he doesn't i've had long multiple long-term i'm talking five year i dated

02:43:44.760 girl for two years one year nine months the pussy was never eaten the pussy was never eaten

02:43:51.880 how did she feel my son buddy though i'm playing i'm playing i'm playing i'm playing no like look

02:44:00.440 i'm not upset i'm not i'm not but i i but i'm very much into like i want to please my girlfriend

02:44:07.480 like and look some girls it's hard to make them come no matter what you do even if you're using like

02:44:13.880 toys some girls it's hard to make them come even with like the help of toys right so but i mean

02:44:19.480 my goal i will try to i want my partner to come preferably before me yeah it feels good for me for

02:44:25.560 her to come so i i'm always trying to like i would like to make my girl come it's not a fear

02:44:29.720 sometimes it's hard though sometimes it's hard sometimes it's hard so have i thoroughly triggered

02:44:38.120 you guys with the no pussy eating yeah is that a deal breaker for you let's go around the table deal

02:44:42.920 is a deal breaker if a guy won't go down on you well sometimes yeah i guess yeah because i i but

02:44:49.880 i'm i like to i'm a very much a giver though like i love to give heads so so it's not a deal breaker

02:44:55.320 for you it sounds like you don't like it from what i don't really like it but then sometimes like it

02:44:59.720 does sound good but then like i just get disappointed once they get down there yeah because they don't

02:45:05.000 do it right they don't and like i'll try to tell them they just they just don't and it's kind of

02:45:08.920 disappointing too i'm like how do you not know how to do it here's the crazy thing i'm great at

02:45:14.360 giving head but i don't do it how do you know i'm so good i haven't done it in nearly two decades

02:45:22.120 you know trust trust your time it explodes it just goes everywhere all over your face no i just

02:45:29.000 know i just fucking she wet the beard or what i didn't have a beard back then i just know

02:45:38.520 so maybe there's like just such a special woman such a special woman will be able to convince me to do

02:45:45.080 it maybe you'll find your virgin like a virgin she shouldn't have to convince you it should be like

02:45:49.240 animalistic it should be like i'm trying to get down there but it's only for certain people don't

02:45:54.200 want to do it don't want to do it that's okay right what a deal breaker what a deal breaker is a deal

02:45:59.480 breaker for you um no but i'm not going to reciprocate head if that's how it's going to be i like foreplay

02:46:06.280 a lot so like oral is foreplay for me okay good talk yeah good time i don't like when somebody goes

02:46:13.160 down on me so i don't i prefer if they don't do it yes there you go that's awesome based what about

02:46:21.640 you um i feel like internally i would kind of make it a challenge like i would um like reciprocate that

02:46:28.920 even if it wasn't being done to me enough to where i would think that maybe the other person would want

02:46:33.400 to do that um but in the case of like like you if i met someone like you who was just like oh no i

02:46:38.520 absolutely don't do that i guess they would have to bring a lot to the table for me to be able to

02:46:43.800 overlook something like that could but you say you have two kids right couldn't you say that

02:46:49.000 it's sort of like the same thing with you what do you mean well you you said a guy who doesn't

02:46:57.720 give head he has to bring a lot more to the table in other in other ways to make up

02:47:03.400 right for the fact do you feel that way with kids oh yeah totally i mean i i know because

02:47:09.640 i have children that that automatically makes certain men not want to date me so i mean that's

02:47:14.440 just kind of a given so maybe the trade-off is he i have kids he doesn't

02:47:23.000 give head no there's other trade-offs that's not that's not you're not willing to make that

02:47:27.960 trade-off not that one no you're not willing to make that trade-off because there's people that

02:47:31.320 are okay with me having kids that'll still do that that's true that is true i'm just saying

02:47:39.320 i wonder what's more of a deal breaker not going down on a woman or having kids

02:47:45.560 going down and it's not really the going down part it's more of the like i don't i don't do that yes

02:47:51.720 because i feel like that trickles down i like a lot of other parts of the relationship amazing

02:47:55.880 pussy's beautiful but when it comes to i just don't want to be in and around my mouth i'm gonna

02:48:00.760 pass on it pussy's great though love i'm a big fan of pussy pussy's beautiful i like large labia i'm

02:48:07.880 an advocate for women i'm a feminist basically basically i'm basically a feminist i advocate

02:48:13.800 for women pretty much big labia matter blm in the chat

02:48:17.240 there you have it folks so funny instead of comparing a guy doesn't go down on a girl to a

02:48:25.880 girl or girl having kids why don't you just compare a girl going down on a guy to a guy going down on a

02:48:30.920 girl because i'm autistic are you actually probably what about you uh yeah that's a deal breaker for

02:48:38.680 sure because i'm gonna need you to go down there go down there and work your stuff did y'all hear

02:48:46.760 that don't let her we're not letting you off the hook don't look what'd she say she oinked

02:48:53.240 yo pig emojis in the chat pig emojis in the chat let's hear it she oinked

02:48:57.560 she she snorted a little snort pig emojis in the chat okay so deal breaker for you is a deal breaker for

02:49:03.160 you if someone really checked all my other boxes going down is that'd be fine if they didn't

02:49:09.640 based mick wait mick um keely only gave me a blowjob once and it was for my birthday what that's so

02:49:21.080 sad and uh birthday bj and it was not very it was not very good um because she doesn't know how to

02:49:28.920 give a good one because she uses a lot of teeth so oh yeah so wait wait wait i would like wait wait

02:49:36.920 mick i got something for this i got something for this she was the mouth that got away

02:49:44.520 so i don't i mean i would like to get a good blowjob but i mean i think every guy wants a good

02:49:49.240 blowjob but the thing it's not necessary i mean you know because i mean as long as we're just having

02:49:54.360 you know passionate mission missionary sex you know what the fuck you know passionate mission

02:50:01.560 those two words wrong show they could go together i feel like more guys think it's

02:50:05.960 that's like that's like girls do you ain't never put her on doggy uh doggy is like if you're trying

02:50:11.480 to be really dominant you know that's like i like doggy i like doggy too but uh but she didn't like that

02:50:17.400 either so you know l keely in the chat yeah more in doggy what else let's see how did we get to the

02:50:22.760 moral sex wait what you said something about it i feel like guys i it's bigger it's a bigger deal

02:50:30.840 breaker for guys than it is for girls yeah usually don't go down on each other yeah yeah guys like

02:50:37.960 yeah well i let's let's be real here it's obviously different it's obviously eating

02:50:45.800 pussy versus sucking dick it's different how dick could possibly how how is it different

02:50:51.160 well anatomically it's just objectively so circumcised or uncircumcised because that

02:50:57.640 really depends on what you're saying yeah that's true yeah because if you're talking about uncircumcised

02:51:02.360 it's the same as eating pussy i heard i heard they what the same because you got to get in the skin

02:51:07.000 that's not true yeah it is uncircumcised men who are men who are not circumcised can observe

02:51:14.680 good hygiene so can women but that doesn't mean they don't their ph isn't off or it's it's a part

02:51:20.680 of your body that's unexposed to airflow so you can clean yourself in the beginning of the morning but

02:51:25.560 if you eat like shit you treat your body like it's still different smell like it's still different

02:51:30.200 oh have you sucked an uncircumcised penis before no but maybe you have sounds like it have you i've

02:51:37.240 been in a relationship with people who are uncircumcised was it the dwarf guy no or was

02:51:42.280 it the obese it's not dwarf it's just shorter oh sorry sorry sorry okay well technically little guy

02:51:47.080 if you're four foot something you're technically a dwarf uh it's different though watch check this out

02:51:55.000 i can just okay let's say i have sex with a girl and then i take a shower

02:52:06.440 good good is new no no what do you mean that's not true like you're what if you're an std you're

02:52:14.440 not good but we're not even talking stds here however we could talk about that too if a guy let's

02:52:21.720 say a guy comes inside a girl that shit kind of lingers does it yeah and also as women i mean

02:52:29.480 i don't know if you guys are my understanding you're not supposed to douche internally so you

02:52:37.000 don't really have a procedure with which to clean inside itself out but you don't well literally when

02:52:43.240 you're eating pussy like you're not sticking your tongue inside their pussy it's like

02:52:46.680 some guys do okay well i gotta disagree on that i mean you could get around that you could just do

02:52:55.640 the top the clip right but then that's out of our control it's proximity it's proximity and if there's

02:53:02.120 lubricant but the wetness spreads to other areas of the pussy and it's the proximity i'm just saying

02:53:10.680 it's different okay okay i have to i agree it is different it's different because it's wet like

02:53:15.800 also blood comes out there's blood that comes out once a month oh i was about to say what yeah we

02:53:24.040 don't there's no blood coming out of our but i do have to say something it doesn't matter what you

02:53:30.280 guys please please tell us it doesn't matter what you guys eat because some guys come be tasting like

02:53:33.560 battery acid that's like nasty oh you think it's the water if they don't drink water it has to be

02:53:39.000 something girl okay let's uh let's move on the chat is deeply disappointed yeah they're like what

02:53:47.640 is with this haram conversation let's see where were we we were talking we were we were on mckenna i

02:53:53.800 think yeah mckenna is that your real name or your stripper name no i'm not a stripper no i know but

02:54:00.360 like you can like i could have a stage name but yeah my name's mckenna yeah oh so you you do have

02:54:05.400 a stage name yeah it's stella luxe stella luxe how many x's are there in the just one one okay all

02:54:13.880 right you said i would like to talk about situationships and how guys get really attached

02:54:20.200 especially when you play games or are rude to them

02:54:27.960 yeah what so what games do you play and how are you rude to them i play a lot of games so one thing

02:54:32.440 that i do that i love to get a rise out of guys is all like let's say like they're really horny or

02:54:38.120 something i'm like i'm like okay like i get them in the mood this is just plain cruel but like i get

02:54:43.000 them in the mood and we'll be like sometimes even during sex but normally before like i'll be like

02:54:47.640 no i don't want to do anything and i'll like make them wait or like during sex i'll literally just stop

02:54:51.480 and i'll roll over give them blue balls i literally do it on purpose i love doing it it's so funny they get so

02:54:58.440 frustrated they like literally they get so mad but then i let them take it out on me because i love

02:55:03.080 that aggressive angry sex you know what i would get frustrated too i would too but they love it they

02:55:12.360 go crazy for it they love it they do i swear i mean that's kind of like the primitive game it's kind of

02:55:20.840 like foreplay man and woman is like yeah and is like trying to like you know put on a show or like

02:55:27.240 attract the woman to like get them into bed and so it's like a game so like she's just playing the

02:55:31.720 game what so you not that that's right or that that's okay or like whatever your opinion is but

02:55:37.480 that's just kind of primitive if they didn't to me i'd be okay with it like it's a game you know so

02:55:41.400 what so just reiterate once again what is it specifically that you do you're like mid hookup

02:55:46.440 and then you'll just like totally disengage yeah or like even before i'll like start sucking on

02:55:50.920 their fingers and everything i'll be like i'll lean in and close and then i'll be like i don't want

02:55:54.200 to have sex but you do want to have sex i do and i eventually do but like yes i want to go around

02:56:00.840 the table do you guys think that communication is important in a relationship yes totally a thousand

02:56:05.560 percent yes yes yes yes yes yeah isn't that quite literally you not communicating though i am

02:56:14.680 i'm saying i don't want to have sex right now and i saw you do want to have sex i do but it's a game

02:56:21.000 that i'm playing it's a mind game yeah i'm teasing i'm being a little brat yeah i would hate that

02:56:29.080 they love it though i swear do they i swear they it gets them so sexually frustrated it's amazing

02:56:35.960 and then they take it out on you and it's like even better it's like it's like hate sex yeah it's

02:56:40.200 amazing this is a dysfunctional group here okay uh so you are there any other games you play games

02:56:50.280 because you said you play games uh you said because you said i would like to talk about

02:56:56.120 situationships and how guys get really attached especially when you play games or are rude to them

02:57:02.280 so you you gave us one example of playing a game how are you rude to them uh i guess it's more like

02:57:08.120 i'm just straight up honest but they think it's rude like i've had guys like who like they'll say

02:57:13.160 like they're only fucking me and i'm like you shouldn't be doing that like go fuck another

02:57:16.120 girl like because i'm but like i'll be like oh i'm going out because you're what because i'm

02:57:19.960 because you're fucking other guys yeah i'm like i'll be like oh i'm going out and this guy was like

02:57:24.120 are you gonna get any guy's number like fuck any guy tonight i was like maybe okay i was like what

02:57:29.320 do you want me to say to that like i'm being honest and they think it's so rude how else are you

02:57:32.280 rude they get so like i because i'm just i feel like it's more honesty than rude i guess

02:57:38.040 okay but no i just like say what's on my mind i tell them what's going on like if i'll be like no

02:57:44.600 i don't want to see you no i don't like they'll be like oh do you like me do you think right no

02:57:49.160 you're a dangerous woman do you know that thank you maybe they think you're playing hard to get

02:57:54.680 yeah but i'm not i'm being straight up with them i'm be like no i like don't want to see you i

02:57:58.760 don't like you like that i don't want to i'm like can i go home pay for the uber i'm like i feel

02:58:04.520 like you like when i say you're a dangerous woman like probably the guys like the and i don't know

02:58:09.880 if the type of men you go for are typically like fuck boys anyways who they don't give a

02:58:14.200 fuck about you either but if you were to get involved with a guy who was like seriously pursuing you

02:58:19.320 and actually like he didn't just want to be with you just to have sex with you like he actually liked

02:58:25.880 you i could see you being like a very dangerous person to be in a relationship with for that type

02:58:30.920 of guy uh like who cares right if it's just casual but like like if i was in a relationship yeah what

02:58:37.080 do you mean like if i dated you'd rip out his heart and stomp on it yeah probably why why do you laugh

02:58:43.640 at that i think it's kind of funny i don't know she doesn't want a nice guy she doesn't need a nice guy

02:58:49.320 but like i can't explain it because like i i do want a relationship are your parents still together

02:58:54.280 my parents yeah no it's going to some freud shit um no they're not separated yes at what age

02:59:01.080 when i was younger yeah oh like when did they split when i was married or no not

02:59:06.440 not when i was eight yeah when i was like eight uh yeah they're married do you have any siblings yes

02:59:12.600 at four four okay they divorced when you were eight was it a contentious divorce

02:59:18.200 uh yeah pretty much i mean my dad caught my mom cheating on him was your dad loyal yes really

02:59:26.120 loyal and my mom he literally always says to he's like you're just like your mother oh it's bad you

02:59:33.640 did mention mommy issues in addition to the daddy issues very bad mommy issues she was a nick is gonna

02:59:39.000 fix you okay all right mick let's see what you can do my my parents divorced when i was like three so

02:59:46.840 three yeah so i mean i don't even remember

02:59:54.040 i i i want to be a good good father that's not like my my parents i don't i don't want to be

03:00:00.280 uh a bad father you know be there for your kids for sure yeah you've never had a relationship no i

03:00:07.560 swear to god mckenna everything you are on the whatever podcast i want you to raise your right hand

03:00:13.560 oh no raise your right hand okay

03:00:19.160 i want you as an experiment you have to date a guy for three months monogamous

03:00:25.400 no there can't be any other men we'll we'll do a reunion episode in three months from now

03:00:33.400 we'll have you back on and we'll see how it goes okay do you just try what do you think i'll try yeah

03:00:38.440 i'll try it i i don't know if i could find a guy that would want to date me you could you don't think

03:00:44.120 so i mean you're attractive you're attractive yeah why do you think that i don't know i feel like

03:00:48.120 you're a little crazy but you're attractive okay i'll try i'll try i'm gonna i'm gonna

03:00:55.000 ruin his life oh mick i'm so sorry mick is like what about me yo we need another we need another

03:01:04.520 third guy for her wait what oh no i was you want mick you want a piece no you want a piece of mick

03:01:11.000 no you want a piece do you know what his nickname is big dick mick oh wow just saying that's what

03:01:17.000 that's what they were calling me let's see let's see okay so do you solemnly swear to

03:01:25.560 not fuck 20 dudes in the next three months

03:01:29.160 yeah i solemnly swear i will not fuck 20 dudes in the next three months

03:01:33.000 you can only sleep with one man okay no look at me in the eyes

03:01:37.640 do you know the karate kid mr miyagi eyes always look eyes i know guys tell me that all the time

03:01:44.360 they're like you're lying to me you look to the side i'm like okay you need a date like have i want

03:01:50.520 you to have a boyfriend you need to go find a boyfriend date just one dude three months three

03:01:57.640 months do you promise i promise for three months you promise i promise do you promise

03:02:03.320 pinky promise do you promise yes i promise that's three times you've promised now i'm holding you to

03:02:08.200 it okay okay okay so i gotta find a guy though and you can only be with him okay and with within

03:02:16.040 three weeks you have to have the what is this conversation you're gonna try to maneuver it

03:02:24.280 boyfriend girlfriend okay i got it down yes you're gonna try this i i do want to try to be in a

03:02:30.040 relationship i've never tried it so yeah you've never tried it you gotta give it a try

03:02:33.000 i know maybe you're missing out i know maybe i am you know you know my brother said he's like

03:02:37.400 you're gonna get too bored in a relationship you're gonna cheat on him i'm like that's so

03:02:40.600 messed up i would not cheat on somebody it's not so true why would you think it's true because

03:02:44.920 i feel like your brother sounds wise beyond his he is he called me before this he was like

03:02:49.400 you're going on that podcast i was like oh my god chris i was like stop

03:02:55.800 he is he literally he told me he was like you know he's gonna talk to you like how i talk to you

03:02:59.560 so she says okay you like to play games you're rude to them anybody else here into the playing

03:03:06.040 any games game playing rudeness wow the only one stuff huh i do like dominatrix stuff

03:03:15.560 huh dominatrix is i know what it is yeah with your current no oh my god hell no he would never

03:03:24.360 um like with my instagram or my only fans oh like fin dom yeah okay what about anybody else

03:03:33.320 do you like to play games no no i don't be honest i really don't be honest i really do not do i do i

03:03:41.080 look like be honest i like to play games she doesn't have time for games i really don't she got

03:03:45.640 two kids have you ever groomed a human i have because you you have a dog grooming business do

03:03:50.600 i have three have you ever groomed a a boyfriend yeah i've done like his hair or like my son's hair

03:03:57.320 i'll cut sometimes do you use the dog shears have you ever used the dog shears yeah i don't buy human

03:04:02.200 shears just to do it so yeah i typically use i'll sterilize it and use yeah there you go okay

03:04:08.520 no games though to answer that question

03:04:16.680 anybody anybody else i like my i feel like she likes playing games yeah come on spill some spill

03:04:22.840 some tea okay um i don't know i don't know i'm very if i see that you're playing games and i'm gonna

03:04:29.400 play games too but i could take someone serious yeah because once i see that you're playing games i'm

03:04:35.960 gonna i don't say much i usually keep it to myself and i play the game by myself i don't know

03:04:47.800 okay we have more from mckenna here uh you say modern dating sucks and it's so hard to find someone

03:04:53.960 to actually date i've never dated anybody before in my entire life and it's because men are just god

03:05:00.440 awful these days well i don't want to say all men i feel like it's the same for women because like

03:05:05.720 my brother says the same thing he's like women are awful and i'm like yeah i feel like both equally

03:05:10.440 are pretty freaking awful but no just the men i met but you you are right like when you're like oh i

03:05:15.800 feel like the men you meet are like pretty trash like the guys that i get situations with i feel like

03:05:20.520 that's my problem is like i attract just the wrong kind of guys um but also i feel like with me with if

03:05:27.640 a nice guy meets me i'm like like what she was saying she's like oh they're too boring like yeah it's not

03:05:33.160 like it's not giving a little spice a little kick what makes a guy boring for me i so like i like to

03:05:41.800 play games like even if in a relationship like not like not games where i'm like cheating on them or

03:05:46.280 anything like that just like i like to mess with their head so i like a guy to mess with my head too

03:05:50.520 how do you mess with guys head uh like with the whole sex thing what else there's other stuff i'll

03:05:55.640 leave them on red i'll like make like if i like a guy i never even let him know like you like them

03:06:02.120 to chase you yeah i like them i like the whole chase this is way beyond chasing but i just like uh

03:06:11.720 like uh if i like a guy like he will literally never know i never text guys first ever ever ever ever

03:06:18.360 i'll be on that phone but okay i mean you said that you've never dated anybody in your entire life

03:06:24.920 because men are just god awful but given what you've said could it be you who's god awful i i am

03:06:33.640 toxic i've had guys tell me that i know i'm toxic but so you are what you like you're gonna attract

03:06:39.960 those kind of guys okay yeah yeah you're right you're right so but how would i find how am i gonna find

03:06:45.960 a guy to get in a relationship with me i'm like scared i feel like that's not gonna happen well

03:06:49.560 you'll find someone the thing is is that there's a lot of simps out there who will tolerate bad

03:06:54.520 behavior in women who will tolerate toxicity because there's a lot of lonely men out there who don't

03:07:00.760 get laid and raven dt donated 100 i hope you are taking notes of all of these red flags there will

03:07:09.080 be a quiz after the show okay who's quizzing me the chat and god okay

03:07:16.520 i'll definitely respond to comments later yeah uh what were we talking about we're talking about

03:07:23.000 how you you your toxicity your toxicity i think that's a generalization though you could generalize

03:07:30.120 the genders in any way you know like but i have to agree because i'm into men and women like women are

03:07:37.800 very stuck up as well too same with men so it's like it's very equal i shouldn't say just men

03:07:42.840 but men and women grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars some poor sap is going to catch

03:07:49.720 a case over red and her games where have all the good men gone to women who actually want them why

03:07:55.560 can't you find a good man good men do not want you you will not find someone they will see you coming

03:08:02.360 a mile away good men do want me and they think they contain me but i can't i ruin them you what i

03:08:10.600 ruin them you ruin good men yes why why wait have you ruined a good man before uh the last guy filmed

03:08:19.000 with was a really good man but i i didn't like ruin him like i didn't like do anything to him i just i

03:08:23.960 feel like i just broke his heart he like he would tell me he has feelings for me and i was like oh

03:08:28.200 it's funny uh you asked why why why do you what why do i do that i don't know i feel like it's kind

03:08:37.960 of a defense mechanism because i like just don't i'm very scared to be in a relationship because i've

03:08:43.400 seen a lot of toxic relationships in my life pretty much a relationship i've had in my or not for me but

03:08:48.680 like people i've seen in my life have been like in really toxic relationships and i've seen it go really

03:08:53.640 really really bad and i'm just like i don't want that to be me like at all and i'm just really

03:08:58.520 scared of love like i really am i like love it at the same time like i would like i always like i

03:09:04.120 used to want to be in a relationship so bad and everything and i would like try to like you know

03:09:08.440 lower like lower my behavior and stuff but it's just like i don't want to like do that just to like

03:09:15.160 find somebody like somebody would like me for me you know i don't want to like just lower my

03:09:19.400 personality or like my sex drive and stuff like that so

03:09:26.680 interesting but yeah short long story short i i'm just like afraid of love so like i feel like

03:09:31.400 it's a defense mechanism when guys are like have feelings for me i get kind of like scared like

03:09:34.600 i literally like ghost them and shit like that because i just like don't want to deal with that

03:09:39.800 do you do you want a relationship i do i want like a husband i want a whole bunch of kids i want to

03:09:47.720 live in like freaking montana and like a little country house and like i i want that so bad like

03:09:53.560 i really do but at this point in my life i'm like i'm 21 like i don't think that's you have plenty

03:09:59.560 yeah like i don't need to be like tied down on relationship right now i definitely don't want to

03:10:07.480 i mean now would you could argue is actually the best time to find somebody not when you're

03:10:15.560 why is this the best time because it gets harder and harder it's harder because you're young right

03:10:19.560 now oh really go go into that why um so i'm 31 again um it gets harder because everyone that you

03:10:27.720 start dating not only has baggage but then you also accumulate more emotional damage so the more

03:10:32.600 guys you go through the more you're going to be messed up in the head the more undoing that you're

03:10:36.840 going to have to do for this person that you're looking for and like besides being like sexually a

03:10:42.360 virgin you want to be like as much like a virgin mentally as much as possible for this person

03:10:47.480 that you're looking for does that make sense yeah yeah so it gets harder and harder from your own

03:10:51.960 personality and the own things that you've built up and then also whoever you're dating also everyone

03:10:56.600 out there like at my age has kids has been through narcissists have been abused and like now we're trying

03:11:02.440 to come together and like form this thing and like it just doesn't work as magically as it does

03:11:07.640 when you're younger and you try to start something like that the older you get you just got to

03:11:11.960 lessen your standards and some of the people you see aren't just aren't going to check all your boxes

03:11:16.520 like you want them to when they're young and they and they have the options to now it's like no one

03:11:21.400 will ever check all your boxes at this age now you kind of have to just settle for

03:11:26.280 ken for donated 99 mckenna you say you attract all the wrong guys but i think you reject the right ones

03:11:34.520 i think you're right too i think i yeah yeah i just am very afraid to be in a relationship but

03:11:39.720 i need to learn that vulnerability and like that's what i was talking about with a guy one time he was

03:11:43.720 like that's the whole point of being a relationship is to be vulnerable with that person like you trust

03:11:47.080 that other person like i have major trust issues like i'm like very scared to be vulnerable with

03:11:51.400 somebody but i feel like that's something that i do need to experience and i definitely want to

03:11:56.840 experience but i'm just like i said i'm very scared too it's much easier to be afraid of something

03:12:00.760 that you've never done before but once but once you get through that experience of doing it whatever

03:12:05.080 it is not just relationships literally anything it's a lot more comfortable and you can even reflect

03:12:10.440 like okay maybe it's not gonna go perfect it 100 percent won't because humans aren't perfect yeah

03:12:15.640 you know but maybe just giving that opportunity to have that experience will take away that fear you

03:12:20.200 know because it's not new anymore yeah yeah where did your trust issues come from your parents uh

03:12:26.360 yeah parents friends men yeah pretty much everything when i was in high school and i

03:12:33.800 before i was even a model people kind of put me on this pedestal because they already knew that i was

03:12:38.760 you know going to be a model or like be something so uh they put me on this pedestal and i never did

03:12:43.640 that to myself but people saw me and put me up there and then people would be like they would be my

03:12:48.760 friend and they would use me because they thought they were going to get something out of it and uh

03:12:53.160 uh yeah it was very some very toxic friendships and like i'd always whenever they try to like

03:12:59.720 we would be like stop being friends they would come back in my life and i would take them back

03:13:03.000 and then they'd fuck me over again so that's never gonna stop it's just about how you were able to

03:13:08.040 bounce off i know now i'm like better with anything it gets worse no now i'm better with friends and

03:13:13.080 stuff i literally have like three just close friends i really like don't trust a lot of people don't

03:13:17.080 let people in my circle anymore so i have a question for the table related to this so it sounds like for you

03:13:22.440 you feel like a lot of men are awful um do you have any guys in the friend zone friend zone uh yeah

03:13:29.880 i friend zoned a lot of guys friends on a lot of guys yeah why not attracted to them not exciting

03:13:35.160 enough uh yeah not attracted to them not my type at all okay have you ever friend zoned a guy who's

03:13:41.080 like good looking but he just was maybe dull or didn't excite you no oh okay

03:13:49.000 what about you have you ever friend friend zoned a guy um no i haven't never like there's never been

03:13:58.600 a guy who's like hey i like you and you're like oh that's so sweet but can we just be friends oh

03:14:04.760 yeah actually i have i had like three people fall in love with me when i worked at hooters

03:14:08.600 but they were like my people that were like regular people that would come in there yeah and

03:14:13.480 they were like older guys like they thought they had a chance with me or something i don't know

03:14:17.560 word but yeah what about you um it definitely takes something a little extreme for me to

03:14:23.720 friend zone people and like i said now dating like in my age it seems like that happens a lot

03:14:28.920 but like younger men just i don't have an age so i'll date older i'll date younger what about mick

03:14:33.720 are you kind of set everyone up with mick tonight listen mick's on the fucking rebound yeah you need

03:14:40.520 to get on tinder tonight listen wait i'm just i'm just throwing it out there all right i don't mean

03:14:45.720 to make it awkward or uncomfortable what do you think about you and mick what do you mean what do

03:14:52.600 i think about me and mick you know romantically sexually i don't i don't know i don't know him what

03:15:00.760 do you think i don't know him how long are you in town for i don't know like three hours you got

03:15:07.000 a flight tomorrow yeah i drive for like three hours oh wait where are you from corona oh you're from

03:15:12.760 california i thought for some reason you from out of state um let's just move on let's move on from

03:15:21.000 that question sorry mick i'm trying mick i'm trying okay it's all right i appreciate we need to get him on a

03:15:25.560 dating app go ahead continue i'm sorry what was the question again friend zone have you ever friend

03:15:29.560 yeah it takes something really extreme for me um like for example someone could be a really nice

03:15:35.240 guy have a job have all of his stuff together but then um once i find out that he wakes up in the

03:15:40.200 morning and cracks open a beer from the moment his eyes are open you're in the friend zone have you

03:15:44.520 ever friend zoned a guy yes yeah for sure madison i feel like only like once in my life we have a

03:15:54.040 video to react to related to this nick if you can pull up the oh before you switch to it make sure

03:16:00.280 the video is full screen it's the reddit video about the friend zoning make sure it's full screen though

03:16:07.880 go ahead where the hell do y'all be finding these men that are obsessed with you check your friends

03:16:23.560 good fathers your friend zone can take care of you check your friend zone check your friend zone

03:16:29.560 here's the catch here's the catch check your friend zone when they're mad check your friend

03:16:34.520 zone because i'm gonna need one of them check it what do you guys think about that what do you think

03:16:39.000 i don't have any friends like that it's funny no i think i think it's true for sure yeah because the

03:16:43.960 nice guys are usually in the friend zone yeah and those are the ones that are going to treat you good

03:16:47.640 yeah but they're in the friend zone yeah that's why are you friends with someone before you date

03:16:54.600 them what's that be friends with someone before you date them like yeah but the friend zone is like

03:17:01.000 that's different than being well that's like they like you and you're just like friend zone is like

03:17:07.000 you're permanently in that zone like you're not getting like you don't come back from them both men and

03:17:11.560 women contribute to that because if men are sitting around willing to um drool over a girl after she

03:17:16.760 doesn't even show one ounce of reciprocation that's also on him but also um the females is

03:17:22.760 weird for just keeping men around that they don't actually want because it's like that's just people

03:17:26.600 you're spending your time with and giving your energy that you don't actually want in the long run

03:17:30.600 yeah can you scoot your mic that's why you don't really edge of the table friend zone guys because

03:17:36.120 you already know what their intentions are so it's like you might as well just keep going out of

03:17:40.280 your life there we go yeah i don't have any like guy friends it's like maybe one in tennessee but it's

03:17:45.240 like yeah no guy friends so is that a real thing like women like like guys that are just like going

03:17:51.000 to treat them kind of crappy i don't think that i don't think so i i want to be treated some girls

03:17:56.600 don't like put them down you like stuff and be like you suck she likes it just like or just like being

03:18:02.600 rude would being rude be considered bad ew i think that's disgusting not like not like rude but like

03:18:08.760 like what i was saying like i like a guy to play games with me and stuff like that i understand the

03:18:13.160 teasing thing yeah but but like yeah the teasing can be attractive but i would say like not um

03:18:20.360 like being rude because that's when i when i hear like being like that that's what i think of

03:18:25.640 seaburg to native 99 hey thank you man appreciate it thank you taking the easy road now tends to lead

03:18:30.680 to a hard road later if you take the hard roads now they tend to lead you to the easy roads later

03:18:37.400 of is the easy road that so many women are taking to fear heart future push past your fears do the

03:18:44.040 hard things that was beautiful that should be that sounds like a country song almost a hard road

03:18:53.160 i got a chat here before it disappears from john john says can we talk about what non-physical traits on a

03:18:58.760 guy is attractive uh we'll do that then i want to get into like the boring thing really quick because

03:19:04.440 that's come up a couple times go around the table really quick on this uh non-physical yeah what is

03:19:09.560 attractive like so like personality oh we might have already did we kind of touch it we did yeah we

03:19:15.800 might have talked about bank store donated 99 dollars did read laugh at her dad because her mom cheated

03:19:22.520 on him and wrecked her home now she is on the same path according to her dad damn shame run mick run

03:19:30.440 stop being for the streets and find a guy like mick i just laugh a lot and that's not funny at all but

03:19:36.760 i really do laugh a lot if you can't tell well some people laugh in uncomfortable yeah that's not

03:19:42.920 like that's awful i feel so but like my dad went through a lot of hard stuff but yeah yeah i'm sure

03:19:47.240 that was hard on the whole family we have one from grid one motorsports uh mckenna can you read this

03:19:51.000 for us red is a perfect example of wasted youth your 20s are not for partying and being free it is for

03:19:57.480 learning how to be a good human and building your value not adding bodies and baggage

03:20:03.320 your response um i partied when i was like in high school like 15 16 17 i don't really party anymore

03:20:08.680 i don't do drugs anymore i know i brought that up now everyone thinks i'm a drug addict but no i

03:20:12.680 don't do that anymore i don't even smoke weed anymore i drink every now and then normally when i

03:20:17.240 travel like go out of state or different countries and i go to clubs like in europe and stuff but

03:20:22.200 uh no i don't really party like in san diego there's not really a good party scene there in my

03:20:26.440 opinion but uh you said some guys are boring to you i think you said did you say boring too

03:20:36.600 earlier on in the conversation uh who related to that if a guy is boring is that

03:20:46.120 to turn off turn off yeah you need like a guy to be to some degree toxic not toxic but just like

03:20:52.760 creative and like fun they like that's gonna have a different definition for everybody i think

03:20:57.720 yeah just like fun creative they like to do stuff adventurous would you prefer

03:21:04.280 but here's the thing though some women would rather date a toxic guy than a boring guy because toxic is

03:21:12.920 more entertaining yeah i probably yeah i guess i would probably toxic probably more entertaining now i

03:21:17.800 realize that a lot of girls think you can be not boring and also be not toxic right absolutely

03:21:26.440 it seems to me that and i've mentioned this in previous shows that a lot of women are looking

03:21:30.600 to men when it comes to dating and relationships and a life partner you're looking to men to be your

03:21:37.320 entertainment and like newsflash i mean men have been taught like oh you've got to be funny women like

03:21:45.080 funny men that's and look obviously the dating marketplace is very competitive and as a man you

03:21:51.320 have to meet a million different criteria to be attractive to a wide array of women but like my

03:21:58.920 personal stance on this is bro we're not we as men we're not here to be your entertainment and we have

03:22:07.160 there's a lot of men out there running around trying to be dancing monkeys to entertain you

03:22:12.920 like oh let me try to be a really entertaining guy and i feel like one that does not necessarily

03:22:18.920 make for a strong foundation for a relationship but i just i it's it's on a couple levels one

03:22:26.040 men have been told you need to be really entertaining and funny and charismatic and all these things to

03:22:30.680 attract a woman and also we have a society which has basically rewired people's brains to be so focused on

03:22:38.360 on short-term pleasure seeking our attention spans are completely destroyed completely diminished you

03:22:45.640 have tick tock which i mean that totally warps your brain and how you're like imagine trying to read a

03:22:53.160 book after you just scrolled on tick tock for fucking two hours good luck i read books after you is it is

03:23:00.760 it nearly as entertaining as just scrolling on tick tock that's that's fine but i guess what i'm trying to

03:23:07.160 say is my view is we as men we are not here to be your entertainers if you want to be entertained

03:23:12.680 if you want to be not bored go watch netflix yeah like i'm not saying like as a guy you shouldn't

03:23:20.760 to be competitive i'm not saying like in the same way that for example i say

03:23:26.120 while i personally don't think men should pay on first dates men should pay on first dates

03:23:31.640 just to min max their dating success and dating results so you should min max your excuse me you

03:23:37.240 should min max your personality and your charisma in order to be successful when it comes to dating

03:23:44.680 but there's just like so many things that men have to do to be attractive to women uh so

03:23:52.440 but i don't think it ought to be the case that men need to be these dancing monkeys so i feel like it

03:23:57.640 goes both ways go ahead how does it go both ways when when like is it ever the case that

03:24:04.280 do you think like men go on dates and they're like secretly hoping that women are like really funny

03:24:09.400 no but like how you said earlier which it's appearance based like i don't like girls that

03:24:13.320 have fake boobs or fake lips it i mean everyone has their type oh sure yeah sure but i'm not i'm not

03:24:23.160 really following i don't know i feel like i think she's saying like why can't funny just be part of

03:24:27.880 someone's type without it being no i mean you're like forcing something no i just well i i accept

03:24:33.880 that women are attracted to funny men much in the same way that i i accept women are attracted to tall

03:24:38.120 men donated 99 dollars there he is did you hear me protect from genital herpes as evidenced by all

03:24:45.160 corn stars being infected what a filthy animal red must be panel do not touch her skin it's dangerous

03:24:51.880 for the panel one by one would you sleep with someone with genital herpes jay butler do you

03:24:57.720 know that we conjured you like an hour ago jay butler i did i what's the right word not conjure we

03:25:04.360 we summoned we summoned you an hour ago to ask uh so the question is would you just quick yes or no

03:25:11.800 would you date someone or what did he say date or sleep with sorry let me would you sleep with someone

03:25:19.560 with genital herpes no me no hard no no no no not if i knew they had it

03:25:30.520 like i said test results and like testing is really yeah important mick especially in our industry

03:25:36.920 no i no i would not madison no i would not uh good talk wait what okay we were talking about

03:25:44.040 a lot of people don't disclose that though yeah um i actually really like boring men because i don't

03:25:52.120 think they're actually boring they've they they value peace um is what i've noticed so a lot of

03:25:58.920 boring men are actually very ambitious in their careers um typically take care of their bodies um

03:26:05.240 and um have a job that they have to extend their mind and bodies to so when like boring it's typically

03:26:12.600 guys that enjoy movies or relaxing being able to add to their piece so i value my piece too so

03:26:19.960 somebody like that kind of adds to my piece and i can add to theirs yeah i don't know i see like on

03:26:25.960 dating apps i used to see this well i'm not on dating apps anymore but when i used to be i'd always see

03:26:30.600 like women say take me on an adventure yeah i'm like you're not that special like

03:26:40.120 like i don't like the demanding of it like how it's like they expect the guy to do it but like

03:26:46.440 it should be fun to like go on a trip with your boyfriend and it's like an equal thing yeah but

03:26:52.280 that's after you like dated them for a while that's kind of like an entitled way to like i think yeah i

03:26:58.360 mean i think when women say that there's like no chemistry or he's boring translation he doesn't

03:27:04.520 trigger my anxious trauma response which i confuse with the love that could be could be the thing i

03:27:10.680 think it could be it could be it sorry there's fly uh i have a lot of trauma books that i read about

03:27:17.640 like stuff like yeah i think that would be awesome though like go to a trip to like the grand canyon

03:27:23.480 like drive yeah like like as your second date you just just like you know doing a second date no you

03:27:29.880 wouldn't even know them that's a long car ride yeah they might kill you yeah you'd be like actually

03:27:34.520 this person what what what number like fourth date i would say like six months of dating oh yeah like

03:27:40.200 something like that i think like six months for me anyways i'll take you on our first dinner date

03:27:47.240 six months oh what yeah is that like talking or actually dating like committed in a relationship

03:27:52.920 yeah oh wait maybe so what are you doing up until then yeah like what's going on speaking to the mic

03:27:59.400 what are you doing up until then you said no dinner date until six months that you know like going

03:28:04.760 out to a restaurant like six months in you know come over come over and netflix let's just hang out

03:28:13.000 just come over so you're introverted to your house i'm a homebody yeah yeah i'm a homebody too

03:28:18.040 no i mean i'm being a bit facetious but like uh

03:28:20.360 like that's what people say when they talk about boring though like if you don't want to

03:28:27.960 do anything and you just want to yeah you just lay in bed all day play video games all day yeah

03:28:34.200 i asked this guy to go skinny dipping with me in the ocean and he didn't want to go

03:28:38.600 that's a little different that's fun though that's like spontaneous i'm like get naked and

03:28:43.800 get in the ocean if a guy asked me to come to his house on the first day i wouldn't go yeah i wouldn't

03:28:48.360 either never say never never say never never say never while we're talking about that um something

03:28:55.880 i've been seeing a lot on like facebook and like tick tock and stuff is girls complaining

03:29:00.920 about dates like where it got offered to take them can we oh yeah oh i saw that it was like a

03:29:05.560 viral twitter yeah it was like applebee's i would love to go to cheesecake factory what he could

03:29:10.360 take me to the drive-thru at mcdonald's i would not care i get down at cheesecake actually nick

03:29:15.400 are you able to find that remember the list of all it was like yeah there's a bunch of chain

03:29:20.600 that i saw i forgot where it was didn't you just like pull it up randomly or something yeah it was

03:29:25.480 on twitter wait wait let's do twitch really quick nick let's do twitch um let's not we'll

03:29:33.640 we'll probably have to skip over that i want to try to keep the comment oh raven dt question for the

03:29:38.200 panel would you date a man who played world of warcraft oh god okay he's hot yeah that's a fun game

03:29:47.400 i don't know what it is yes no i don't like sure sure did y'all see the hardcore mock gora tournament

03:30:01.080 today on pretty okay grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars what three hundred and fours view

03:30:10.200 as boring in a man is actually the lack of toxicity being serious about fear business and purposeful into

03:30:16.280 your lives odd you can't see that for the panel how has modern feminism affected your dating how can

03:30:22.440 the patriarchy help you today that's some big work i don't know what that means uh i don't think

03:30:30.680 they're going to be able to interpret that last question why don't i ask just this uh who here

03:30:35.000 considers themselves a feminist i don't even know what i don't know what it means either mckenna in your

03:30:40.200 notes you said you were a feminist i did yeah you you said you're a feminist i'm for feminism

03:30:44.680 yay i don't know what it means like genuinely saying i don't like the feminist movement

03:30:52.840 no no what i i'm not i don't share any like political stances or views on anything that's

03:31:00.120 going on in the world right now including that okay um yeah i'm not into it even like

03:31:07.240 i'm all for equality but people men and women is different so i will say um that i don't like

03:31:17.160 the feminist movement but i believe in equality as much as possible nope yeah okay all right let's see

03:31:26.440 here we have who uh we got some more notes from people oh yeah twitch yo uh did i call did i get wall

03:31:35.240 think for the prime body drop think for the gifted sub r12 think for the prime rid think for the prime

03:31:43.000 thank you guys twitch.tv slash whatever drops a follow drops the prime sub let's see here we have

03:31:49.720 uh we have jamie

03:31:52.360 yeah modern dating is absolute trash why why and how um well you caught me at a bad time when i was

03:32:03.720 answering that question but um i don't know dating's like the economy you know sometimes business is

03:32:09.560 booming other times make you crawl right back to your toxic ex but um i feel like at least for me and the

03:32:17.960 age that i'm at i'm in kind of a divide where i can date like the age group ahead of me or i can date

03:32:24.840 the age group behind me and i feel like um i don't really fit in with either of them um so like the

03:32:32.040 newer generation um when it comes to like employees dating and everything seems to be really entitled

03:32:37.880 um and that trickles down a lot into dating um and then the older generation is just kind of too old

03:32:43.320 school for me like so um what do you mean by uh entitled and in the workplace what do you mean by

03:32:50.200 that um i feel like the newer generation is entitled in a lot of different aspects of life

03:32:55.560 so in the employment industry and dating and everything it kind of trickles down but it seems like

03:33:00.840 everyone just for example my friend will be like um i want a guy who looks like this does this has just

03:33:06.440 this job but at the same time she lives with her parents so it seems like people are expecting a

03:33:11.320 lot more than they can offer themselves and that's what i mean by entitlement i see okay um in what

03:33:17.880 other ways do you guys like well first let's ask the whole table do you guys think that modern dating

03:33:22.440 is absolute trash show of hands is it absolute trash madison please don't do the roman salute it

03:33:29.960 may not be absolute trash but it's not good okay uh because i think of like dating apps and stuff

03:33:39.080 and like social media i think it's because dating apps people think cheating is okay now there's

03:33:43.800 open relationships it makes people just be very surface too like you're literally just judging

03:33:49.560 someone based off of their looks and you haven't spoken to them you haven't had a conversation with

03:33:53.560 them and so what kind of real relationship can you start by just looking at left swiping someone you

03:33:58.760 know yeah without getting you said you said that you're kind of internally masculine and that you'll

03:34:04.280 approach a guy if you see one that you want yeah okay uh you know you know what we should do do

03:34:13.960 do any of the girls at the table think that they have game yeah yeah yeah i don't no game bad game

03:34:20.840 you got game i'm a pimp you got yeah you got game no sir okay we'll still have you do it anyways uh

03:34:29.560 uh so here's what we're gonna do i'm gonna pretend not well because this thing you said is you'd be

03:34:35.720 approaching a guy so what i what we sometimes do is we'll have the girl pretend to be a guy and have

03:34:42.200 her hit on someone pretending to be a guy like to put themselves in the but uh okay um so you'd approach

03:34:52.120 a guy uh let's see let's see your game oh no come on pretend pretend i'm like a four

03:34:59.160 four foot eleven oh my god dog groomer um well it's not always just verbal so a lot of times i've

03:35:07.720 like walked by and slipped a phone number on a napkin like to a person and then like i'll like

03:35:12.520 make eye contact as i walk away or i'll just go up and be really bubbly like they don't expect

03:35:17.080 me to go up and be like hey i'm jamie and i'll shake their hand very firmly and be like so i do this

03:35:22.760 what do you do i'll just like kind of start conversation i'm not like hey baby like what's up like

03:35:27.640 wait i'm just because earlier on in the conversation you said you don't really it

03:35:31.720 sounded like to me you said you didn't really care that much about physical appearance i don't but

03:35:36.440 like if i was on a dating app it would kind of force me to be that way but but you said but you said

03:35:41.880 you'll approach a guy i'm assuming in person if you see one that you want yeah so that's i can't

03:35:48.600 really explain that it's like the way that they carry themselves the way that they speak yeah and so

03:35:53.720 it's not just a like typical you know what they look like all right let's do a little role play

03:35:59.080 here let's see an approach pretend okay what's the i'm we're at the dog park we're at the dog park

03:36:08.840 we're at the dog park he's got i've got i've got a you got a nappy dog that needs grooming

03:36:14.680 that's such a layup but okay okay all right i'm gonna try um hi i'm jamie nice to meet you

03:36:25.400 you literally just walk up is that sorry sorry okay okay fine oh yeah a lot of a lot of times i'll

03:36:29.960 walk up and just introduce myself all right that's valid sure i'm jamie nice to meet you i won't be too

03:36:33.880 okay that's not every time that's not the game it really just depends on the situation good to meet

03:36:38.520 you yeah so you live around here yeah yeah where about yeah oh i live in that mansion over there

03:36:45.320 oh okay yeah i live about 10 minutes away what kind of dog do you have it's a uh it's a chihuahua

03:36:51.800 and pitbull mix oh my god how cute yeah the father was the chihuahua surprisingly i don't know how that

03:36:59.400 worked yeah that's interesting yeah what about what about you what's your dog i have two standard poodles

03:37:05.960 and a pit lab okay yeah so what do you do what do i do yeah for work yeah for a living i am a

03:37:17.240 dog groomer oh wow small world oh you too do you need a job

03:37:24.120 no i'm just kidding i wouldn't say that i don't know it's just casual conversation with girls it's

03:37:29.560 not the same typical game that you would see like a man pulling like i'm not just gonna be like so did it

03:37:35.160 hurt when you fell out of heaven like that's not that's not good it's just all it's no it's just

03:37:39.720 i'm gonna be like confident in myself i'm gonna be bubbly and then do a certain point if he's not

03:37:43.960 like reciprocating then i'll be like all right nice to meet you like have a good night but okay i mean

03:37:49.240 you're a tough one are you are you gonna look to the guy because i think a lot of women were like say oh

03:37:56.120 i initiate but even if you do that token initial approach which that's more than 99 of women do

03:38:04.840 already so i give you credit but hold on i'll let this come donated 99 dollars brian stop let's discuss

03:38:11.800 donald trump what do you all think of him he's a rich man here how about this yes or no would you date

03:38:19.480 donald trump no no no no no no no okay um so i give you credit for uh ripping lips thank you man uh

03:38:32.520 being forward yeah no i mean most women 99 of women would never approach a guy so i give you

03:38:36.840 credit for that um but where was i going uh something about what it's true though i feel like

03:38:44.760 guys have to have game you got lost it was working huh was that oh no i think what i was going to say

03:38:52.040 say was is that in the same thing with like bumble where here's a dating app where women have to make

03:38:57.800 the first move they have to send the first message it's very token because a lot of women one they'll

03:39:02.920 just send out a hey and then immediately shift the entire conversational burden onto the man man already

03:39:10.440 but i'm curious with you when you've approached men like will you take in addition to just that

03:39:15.880 which i credit you for to that first initial uh initiative step will you also do the other

03:39:23.560 initiative steps so for example you do the approach but then will you also be like you know you have a

03:39:29.400 conversation for a couple minutes will because it's you can't just continue the conversation definitely

03:39:35.160 yeah there needs to come a point where you need to lead and be like well hey i was i'm really you

03:39:40.200 seem really nice you seem very pleasant i'd like to uh grab a cup of coffee or grab food with you

03:39:44.840 sometime are you are you single are you free yeah um so will you be the one who will move things

03:39:51.000 forward from there so it depends because obviously there are some guys who is just a dead conversation

03:39:56.280 like they're giving you nothing to go off of if someone's at least like bubbly and being reciprocative

03:40:01.880 and like you know coming back at me then i then i'll have the confidence to like continue and be like

03:40:06.600 so do you want to go get a drink sometime or do you have a girlfriend is normally what i asked

03:40:10.600 before i asked sure they want to go out um well because sometimes because a lot of men don't get

03:40:16.280 approached a lot so uh do you make it pretty clear that you're hitting on them like you're interested

03:40:24.280 i would think so that's why i'm saying i keep trying until i know that it's dead like until i know

03:40:29.480 you know how when girls are trying not to be approached but they're trying to be nice and

03:40:32.360 they're just like yeah guys do that too yeah well that's what i'm saying like that after a

03:40:36.920 certain point in the conversation and i'll be like all right i'm gonna back out he obviously does not

03:40:40.760 want to talk to me or i'll be like all right i'll take the next step approaches you and she's kind of

03:40:45.880 if she's like it's not clear that she's hitting on you because like for example if it's at a dog park

03:40:51.400 it's plausible that people regularly like there's regulars at dog park people might say hi oh dogs

03:40:58.440 interacting right i don't know if you're going to dog parks and frequently but um someone coming

03:41:04.600 up to you might not necessarily like they could just be trying to have a conversation with you

03:41:13.640 but like at a certain point they're not like if someone's talking to you enough and it's the of the

03:41:18.520 opposite sex they're usually not just trying to see how your day is at a certain point yeah but like

03:41:24.200 the thing is uh if you approach a guy and you've not like because you said well if they're not really

03:41:31.000 giving me anything back like the way i'm going to be talking to a girl who i think is just like

03:41:37.800 it's like a casual conversation i'm not gonna like i'm not really gonna try to be flirting with her

03:41:44.440 but if she's made it clear to me that she's interested in some way not flirting but like the one

03:41:51.480 word answers if they give me like five one word answers where they're not like so what about you

03:41:56.440 and they're not reciprocating that that's more what i mean not like plain black and white flirting

03:42:00.920 so then that at that point i'll either pull back and be like all right this person wants nothing to

03:42:04.520 do with me or i'll just jump right into it and be like hey so do you want to go get a drink sometime

03:42:08.760 or hey can i get your number got it okay let's see the riz let's see the riz from you go ahead

03:42:14.920 riz time hi my name is mckenna segers do you want to dance with me we're at a club yeah anywhere

03:42:23.160 i'll dance with someone anywhere i'll dance with them i'll play music off my damn phone and dance

03:42:27.000 with a guy anywhere i love dancing she's forward i'm i'm forward too like i'll literally if i'm at

03:42:32.120 a club too i'll like tap a guy on the back i'm like you want to dance with me i'm kind of aggressive

03:42:35.400 like that as well like i don't know i'll i'll literally walk in the club and i'll just i mean

03:42:40.360 that immediately ends the conversation so you want to dance if he doesn't want to dance with me

03:42:45.560 then that's well that's what i do my bad yeah but then like okay cool if i say yes then we've

03:42:50.920 we're now dancing and the conversation's over i'm talking about some scenario where like you have to riz

03:42:58.520 like you have to run game you said you got game let's hear it my game well i wouldn't run a game

03:43:03.080 on well we're in trader joe's hi my name is mckenna so do you want to go dance yeah

03:43:09.080 the fucking trader joe's fuck yeah yes i would i do we're gonna be finger banging in the trader joe's

03:43:16.520 shit maybe maybe okay all right is that it do you want to try again no you can skip me go ahead

03:43:24.760 go ahead rizz me up okay uh name a place i mean you're the rizzer okay come on rizzler

03:43:31.720 rizzler okay let's say at a park um and you had a dog um i'll be like oh yeah i was doing the same

03:43:38.680 like how um you have a nice dog what's your dog's name maximilian oh what a nice day name what's your

03:43:46.120 name brian nice you come here often uh i do yeah i come i love this park my dog shits in it all the

03:43:55.400 the time oh you're funny that's kind of cute thanks babe i wouldn't say that

03:44:05.560 and you have a nice smile um do you have instagram or can i get your number maybe we could

03:44:10.840 walk our dogs what huh

03:44:16.120 yeah maybe nevermind that was that was decent she uses compliments for her rizz i like it

03:44:22.760 it was good you you you let on pretty early on that you're interested okay all right okay

03:44:30.040 what about you let's hear some noise no no come on come on come on i don't like to play no games

03:44:34.840 i like real conversation i barely even like sarcasm like let's be straight up let's be straight up

03:44:40.840 let's just be straight up yeah okay all right fine fine no more rizz zero rizz all right i kind of

03:44:48.920 had rizz at the gym once okay uh let's see let's uh hailey jackson yeah that's my name uh wait hold on

03:45:08.200 uh i don't think i put notes oh yeah i don't think you gave us anything uh i think i've got

03:45:13.960 uh uh let's see uh video reaction uh oh that's okay okay we have let's do a video reaction uh

03:45:26.280 it's nick it's the one with on the twitter i think make it full screen before you switch over it's like

03:45:33.000 the nba player guy all right so before you press play um this has been going kind of viral recently

03:45:44.200 i don't know if i need to give context but we'll just play the video yeah i haven't seen it

03:45:49.800 oh can you make it louder

03:45:56.680 we cannot i don't

03:46:00.680 well ah

03:46:01.560 wait wait wait no no no you're not gonna say fuck me or if that's fucked up it's not

03:46:08.760 fucked up

03:46:12.600 listen it's not

03:46:14.280 fucked up and we're going to okay look so i have an only fans page and he's mad because he's just

03:46:23.560 now finding out about it of course i'm bad if you just find me out about it i'm not doing it with

03:46:28.200 anybody but myself so why should i have to tell you my choice my body my body my fucking choice

03:46:34.760 joe i've been talking to you about mad things i've been asking for solutions to you not giving me

03:46:39.640 none so i created one that's no solution not in my book that's no solution you knew who the

03:46:45.160 i was when you met me before before before yeah before and i thought that i would never have to

03:46:52.120 go back to anything like this again but unfortunately that's not the case right now after that everything's

03:46:57.480 supposed to change everything did change no it hasn't i had to do something you stood out there

03:47:04.920 showing your body you stood out there doing stuff like this on camera you act like that's the only

03:47:11.240 thing that i do i have mad jobs but they're not facilitating everything that needs to be done so i

03:47:15.800 got something extra only fantasy breaking me off what the

03:47:20.840 breaking me off the disrespect that comes with it what disrespect couldn't come and talk to me about it

03:47:26.600 okay well we're talking about it now so i have to find out on the fly all right then but now okay

03:47:39.240 so now you know

03:47:44.040 okay and so

03:47:47.160 whatever oh i've been doing what i have to do period like that's bottom line that's what it is

03:47:58.920 i think a bit of context that's an ex nba player um that's his wife if i understand correctly they've

03:48:06.360 been together for i don't know the exact period of time uh it was the volume was a little low but she

03:48:15.080 starts filming him he's kind of talking about how he found out that she started uh an only fans and i

03:48:21.000 think she had had it for a long time he didn't know his or her husband her husband did not know that

03:48:28.520 she had an only fans sorry he's very upset what's your guys's reaction to that i think that she should

03:48:38.360 have told him that she should have been like hey i want to make this like what do you think about it

03:48:43.320 even if she's not like she kept it from her husband yeah i wouldn't i wouldn't do that yeah

03:48:47.320 for sure honesty is just not like you got to be transparent in relationships she could be up front

03:48:52.280 about it and be like even if he's like oh i still don't want you to do it she could still be like

03:48:54.840 all right well i'm so i'm gonna do it but at least you like let him know you know

03:49:00.600 divorce call me traditional but when you're married it's no longer my body you're a union and

03:49:07.640 you're together and anything like that is considered betrayal yeah i don't know why that

03:49:12.600 was kept a secret so even if you say that um it was not a secret it's kind of seems like something

03:49:17.960 that you would just automatically share seems important yeah i feel like he was like most of

03:49:23.800 the reason why he's he was upset is because he had just found out and like how long was she gonna

03:49:28.360 go without telling him yeah when the was he gonna actually be told that his wife had an only fans and

03:49:34.520 i feel like i agree with you on like she kept saying like my body my choice but when you're in

03:49:39.400 a marriage like you're sharing your body and it is a union so she also disrespected him by posting

03:49:47.720 that with their financial situation saying why she's doing it she's that's really disrespectful to

03:49:54.200 him too grid one motorsports says that the videos cap is it like it's probably clickbait to get views is

03:50:00.440 it is it bullshit it probably could be i mean i did people do that kind of those kind of oh yeah

03:50:07.480 hoaxes to get more traffic but i mean he's an ex-mba player i don't know um mick do you have any

03:50:14.520 reactions to that um i think she should just have told him that that's the main thing okay just be

03:50:21.480 honest you know i have tons of friends that are in the industry and that are married and happy

03:50:25.720 i feel like not even just told him like discussed if they were both willing to have her do that she

03:50:32.120 probably should have asked permission to yeah it looked i feel like it looked real i think it was

03:50:38.840 legit um well let's pull up our only fans and see i'll pass on that but uh i think the i mean that's a

03:50:46.360 really big red flag but what's almost more triggering or tilting to me is that in an argument assuming this is

03:50:54.600 real she is filming him when he's venting that's a massive red flag yeah that's worthy of a divorce

03:51:04.200 on its own even if illegal to do i mean i don't whether it's legal or not i it's probably legal to

03:51:14.760 like in your own household like you could argue like depending on the state if it's one party consent

03:51:19.800 although if you're holding up your phone they know you're recording so it's probably not like

03:51:26.360 there's like wire tapping laws but in any case um that's just like you don't do that to your

03:51:33.720 partner you don't like film your partner uh so um that's worthy of a divorce on its own even if he

03:51:42.840 was venting about something not as serious like if you're it reminds me of that there's this nick i

03:51:47.800 don't know if you're able to find it there's this clip with jada and will smith where jada is

03:51:54.600 like filming him and he's like will smith you know he's like yo babe like don't record me right

03:52:01.000 now like this is like i i have a public image like you can't just you gotta ask me first so nick if you

03:52:08.440 could try to find the the video of jade like maybe the google search would be jada smith filming

03:52:15.560 will smith that might be you might be able to find it you shouldn't ever like film your partner

03:52:22.840 while you're in like a serious conversation like that either that's just like weird yeah yeah that's

03:52:28.680 it uh audio please max the audio max the audio

03:52:34.360 you know a stare parole is coming to the table she's gonna be at the red table would you say she

03:52:44.760 has been instrumental in you and i redefining our relationship i would say don't just start filming

03:52:51.160 me without asking me if you could film us there come help us again please i'm still dealing with

03:52:59.240 foolishness don't no no she yeah because she don't just wouldn't you say that she helped us heal the

03:53:06.680 hurts that we caused me one another my social media presence is my bread and butter okay so you can't just

03:53:12.920 use me for social media and not you know don't just start rolling i'm standing in my house don't just

03:53:19.320 start rolling please watch a stare at the red table because she's helped us a lot can't you

03:53:28.040 i i don't that that video is like really shitty quality and there was a bit more to it but um

03:53:33.080 that's a yikes that's a major yikes you do not film your partner and

03:53:41.560 fucking publish it to the fucking internet textbook narcissist anyway and she really is like a

03:53:47.640 very abusive to him and and i've read up on some of the stuff and she even still acts like she's

03:53:53.240 like says tupac shakur is the love of her life when she's with him it's like yeah she's she's really

03:54:00.200 really bad yeah he's a terrible person and that's why you shouldn't get married

03:54:09.240 no what i still believe in marriage you're not gonna get married huh you're not gonna

03:54:14.520 i'm not gonna get married you haven't found the one because he doesn't know it's not about the one

03:54:19.800 it's not about the one i'm just not i'm i don't believe in marriage so you don't want kids either

03:54:26.280 uh i could have kids i can have kids um truthfully i i could go either way on the kids thing but

03:54:34.120 marriage that's a you just rather it's like a piece of paper what's the point pretty much i mean

03:54:38.680 it's just an l it's just an l for men so yeah that's true what's crazy it was an l for men marriage

03:54:47.480 that's huge l if they end up getting a divorce and they're i mean like well that's what i'm saying but

03:54:52.360 the divorce rate is so high that it's such a high risk that i'm just not okay but actually

03:54:59.320 i think it's whoever makes more money yeah because like more money than you then it's not an l for you

03:55:04.040 yeah then the then you're racking in on her alimony to you i could see myself getting married

03:55:12.440 under these circumstances i can be convinced yeah however it's not like most women don't

03:55:19.240 typically don't fuck with men who earn less money than them

03:55:26.440 and i feel like most women are a little like if a woman makes a lot of money she's going to

03:55:30.840 probably want a prenup a lot of men get blinded uh so if she made more money than me

03:55:39.880 marriage is on the table what if you got a prenup what's that why don't you get a prenup

03:55:44.680 uh prenups don't really work yeah they do no it's only what you when you sign the prenup what

03:55:49.800 that person had before that paperwork is signed once after that everything is together yeah um

03:55:56.120 so and they can be constantly challenged they can challenge with infidelity yeah no prenup can be

03:56:03.640 challenged under any circumstance really i know somebody who got away with a prenup

03:56:07.480 well yeah i mean if the person on the other side is operating in good faith but

03:56:14.360 i think he just did a really like very detailed doesn't matter really you can be rich and have

03:56:19.480 the best lawyers draft up the best prenuptial agreement if if the woman is motivated enough

03:56:27.640 or the whoever i mean typically it's if the woman is motivated enough yeah like you can get around the

03:56:34.920 prenup you can challenge a prenup you just tell the judge there was coercion or fraudulent inducement

03:56:40.440 or something yeah like they were hiding money and chip well it was with uh here in santa barbara

03:56:45.560 county it was fuck what's his name uh kevin costner nick could you look up the divorce proceedings

03:56:54.360 with kevin costner here in santa barbara county with his wife he had a prenup with his wife kevin

03:56:59.960 costner very successful actor uh very wealthy and in the prenup it even said you will not challenge

03:57:08.120 the prenup she challenged the prenup and won i don't know if she won but it like

03:57:15.640 do you want the news story or the actual the news the news story the news story uh try to see if you can

03:57:22.360 find can you also in the google prompt look for did you do prenup in the prompt what was the prompt that

03:57:32.840 you typed into google uh you gotta make it bigger too i can't read this i put kevin costner divorce

03:57:44.040 proceedings uh yeah do prenup

03:57:56.520 let's do

03:58:01.640 is there good food around here no there's no food in santa barbara no i said is there good food i know

03:58:07.400 there's food i think isla vista personally like sucks for food you gotta leave really you got

03:58:12.200 you got it do you have it or what's up

03:58:20.280 you got it it's too small nick you got to make it bigger exile that uh

03:58:29.240 uh can you find the section because he's a kid can you find the section about her challenging the

03:58:35.800 prenup though uh

03:58:46.520 is there anything is there even a mention of a prenup in the article okay it doesn't matter it doesn't

03:58:52.360 matter um so he had a prenup she still challenged the prenup i can't find the whatever um

03:59:05.800 where uh their prenuptial

03:59:14.760 i think it's mostly because they had kids no but she actually she challenged the spousal support

03:59:19.720 too in the prenup it said in the event of a divorce here would be the terms i would pay you

03:59:24.520 i think again i i think upon divorce he would pay her 1.5 million dollars and then some amount of

03:59:32.600 spousal support i think or it was just an upfront just a flat fee then there would be child support i

03:59:38.360 mean 250 000 a month in child support i mean how that's what it said there and 250 000 a child

03:59:45.800 support i mean that's ridiculous that is ridiculous nobody needs that like you have to pay it for like

03:59:52.120 how many years you were married so yeah just marriage is a huge l for dudes so um that's the team but what i

04:00:01.320 i mean what i okay i think a good starting point for the whole marriage conversation a lot of you

04:00:05.800 grimaced oh brian why don't you want to get married can you present to me a compelling and convincing

04:00:11.160 argument for why i or other men should get married as opposed to having long-term monogamous relationships

04:00:19.720 it's no different what do i get in marriage that i cannot get from a long-term monogamous girlfriend

04:00:27.000 i think it's more of just like a commitment like it's like you're giving vows to each other

04:00:32.520 that's like the only difference and then it's obviously a piece of paper check this out mckenna

04:00:36.440 i promise to stay with you for life boom got it i don't need to go to the courthouse to ring and a

04:00:42.600 last name i can do we can do all that without getting married you're right i want to do that huh

04:00:47.960 i want to do that do what you're in two situationships right now what are you talking about

04:00:52.440 um i want to i don't want to get married to the state i think i don't think i want to do it either

04:00:59.320 a ring i think that you could still do like a ceremony too i think marriage is for when you

04:01:05.400 want to have kids that that would be maybe it like if you're you're ready to have kids with that woman

04:01:11.000 you get here let me read this uh wait this one damn straight if that was real that would straight

04:01:17.320 up be a divorce for putting our business on the streets yeah 100 um again

04:01:22.600 the only fans thing that's a that's a big deal there but even if it was some like minor argument

04:01:28.760 or big argument like you don't put your you don't record your partner uh in an argument that's

04:01:35.320 fucked up uh you're here let me trigger this

04:01:41.320 married is it muted is the audio muted married 17 years best thing in my life i was 35 knew what i

04:01:50.360 wanted found it and she is awesome i am lucky many are not the reason i could retire at 45 is i did not

04:01:58.680 have to give away half my sheet and start over and no kids to be used against me based uh we're going

04:02:05.880 to switch into the after show at this moment people so in just a moment here i'm going to

04:02:10.600 switch the threshold down it's going to be 20 to read 69 and up to trigger tts it'll take me a minute

04:02:17.080 or so to uh get that all set up we're going to do that right now um i want to go around the as i'm

04:02:23.480 doing that i want hold on uh what can i do while we ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of

04:02:31.400 one to ten starting with you go ahead eight i'm gonna go based on my shoe size a solid five and a

04:02:38.600 half okay five seven now five no makeup and hair i guess eight

04:02:54.520 i'll say a seven eight six six point five lots of different answers got some variety here okay the

04:03:04.840 it should be swapped uh so it's 20 and up to read answer 69 and up for instant tts that should be

04:03:14.360 enabled now so letting you guys know about that let me change that change a couple things here uh

04:03:22.760 oh wait did i wait did i pull this up did i pull up the stiffler did i pull up the stiff did i pull it

04:03:28.280 up okay all right had to check had to check uh is there anything anything dating related anybody oh

04:03:34.680 can we do the uh should we do the lights maddie could you do the lights yeah i like it can i add to

04:03:40.280 the marriage one really quick yeah sure um i would still like to get married i don't really care about

04:03:46.120 getting married under state um but i still would like to get married in a church and make that commitment

04:03:52.120 with god and my husband okay cool

04:03:57.080 is there okay is there anything dating related that anybody would like to uh talk about

04:04:09.960 damn y'all are okay i'm fried from halloween like halloween in la is like two weeks i have zero brain cells

04:04:18.520 zero sounds like a nice party outside though yeah it does sound like some crazy stuff's going on

04:04:25.640 stochastic decay donated 69 dollars hey brain sorry i'm late yo yo busy day welcome welcome i've been

04:04:33.640 collabing with my favorite soundcloud rapper guillermo bought some blow from my boys yes

04:04:39.880 watch the forever purge went trick-or-treating anyway mick congrats on freedom red find god gordita

04:04:50.520 son thank you

04:04:54.360 gordita wow i'll try i'll try my best should be looking

04:05:01.560 i'm trying to find him i just can't find him anywhere he's just hiding you know every time i

04:05:05.880 owned a cross necklace it would always break i took that as a sign do you have a cross

04:05:09.480 piece or necklace every time you owned a cross necklace it would break not the chain the cross

04:05:16.680 would fall off i took that as a sign that is some sign shit i know every time i took it as a sign

04:05:24.600 is it louis vuitton yes okay louis vuitton you said you wanted to get married and have kids right yeah

04:05:31.160 like what around around what age are you planning to like settle down i don't know i guess whenever

04:05:36.680 i just find that right person i've been with them for a while i wouldn't marry right off the bat like

04:05:40.840 i know people are like with they get married so quick and they have kids really quick too um but i

04:05:46.920 do want like three kids like i i'm really good with kids i know like with my whole histories and stuff

04:05:52.600 like that but like i worked with kids a lot when i was working in high school and like i would be even

04:05:56.600 like the parents would come up to me and be like oh can we have you babysit our kid i would like babysit

04:06:00.760 them i always i love kids so much like i love love love them huh so maybe when you're like 30s or

04:06:08.680 yeah probably in my 30s like marriage and kids and stuff good times good talk good talk i have a

04:06:18.200 question here for the peoples the p the peoples we were talking earlier about seeking and sugar daddies

04:06:28.200 i want to get into that a little bit so you were on seeking for a decent period of time if i recall

04:06:33.800 decent period of time i was on and off it but i started on it when i was 18 okay uh are you you

04:06:40.840 not on it anymore though you stopped yeah from 18 to what age were you on seeking 18 to 20 18 to 20

04:06:48.520 uh did wait did i go around the table about who's had a sugar daddy did that have you had a never had a

04:06:54.600 sugar daddy i had regulars at hooters but it was never like a sugar daddy that i like went out and

04:06:58.840 hung out with they just like tipped me like 700 bucks and would come hang out with me all day while

04:07:03.560 i worked yeah oh wow still friends to this day yeah uh simps are ruining dating but they would give you

04:07:11.960 700 yeah one guy tipped me 700 around christmas and bought me like a diamond like thing that's a simp but

04:07:19.160 you never they just just come and you'd just be working at hooters yeah they would hang out with me

04:07:23.720 at work life is not fair for men i'll tell you that hooters is like the hub like it's like lonely men

04:07:31.160 they go in there and they sit there all day they drink beer like and like we as waitresses we didn't

04:07:35.640 have to bust tables or anything we just got to talk to our like tables if if you're a girl and you want

04:07:40.680 to make money i feel like a lot of girls are like i want to make money i'm gonna work at hooters yeah you

04:07:44.920 make great money there but um also i had i did webcamming so i had a lot of simps on there too

04:07:52.520 okay um have you been on seeking no what about you no no sugar daddies i've dated older even during

04:08:00.120 the stripper period i didn't date at all when i was a stripper you didn't date at all no i would you

04:08:06.120 date a cut would you ever date a customer oh no didn't date i never dated okay uh any sugar daddies no i

04:08:13.720 wish you wish like i've done i've done i've downloaded the app but i can never just like

04:08:19.400 i can never just do it it would be weird to meet a stranger like that well i think i think in my mind

04:08:25.080 i'm like please please please i think in my mind if i'm like if i'm already like dating people and not

04:08:29.640 getting anything out of it i feel like i've been in places before where i'm like well i might as well

04:08:34.280 you know but like i said i can never go through with it i can never actually do it okay what about you

04:08:40.280 uh i've never had a sugar daddy but i've had guys who pay me money just to talk to them that's a

04:08:47.960 sugar daddy that's a sugar daddy but i never met up with them that's fine okay well does that change

04:08:53.720 the answer for any of you guys guys who just like will send you money i wish no like i said i did cam

04:08:58.840 like they would like tip me really big on cam but obviously you talk on cam but that's not a sugar daddy

04:09:03.880 when i think sugar daddy it's like someone you're going on dates with not necessarily not

04:09:09.320 even necessary i mean it could be but it could also just be like maybe what about a pay pig like

04:09:14.760 a guy who just oh i've had those yeah but oh that's let's talk on webcam oh on webcam yeah and on like

04:09:19.960 my only fans i have a ton of them what is that yeah a pay pig we just like okay pay pigs i could

04:09:25.720 open up my page right now and show you where they just like tip 15 and i'm like tip another 15 tip

04:09:29.960 another 15. isn't that kind of like how they tip you on your podcast it's a little bit yeah it's a

04:09:35.880 little bit the same i just forced them i once had a dude offer to send me 500 and i didn't believe him

04:09:41.240 but he did it and it was weird i think the differential though is that there's a there's a it's like very

04:09:48.600 difference between what i do and what women do i am an artiste you see i am a creative so

04:10:03.720 these are not my pay pigs these are my patrons they are patrons they are it's patronage like i'm

04:10:11.880 fucking mozart here just like dunking on the dunking on these hoes okay just kidding just kidding

04:10:21.720 i am mozart walt disney nike now who's gonna be the medici family and stand up and let me create

04:10:29.720 more donated 69 or are you gonna marginalize me till i'm out of my moment don't think shame

04:10:36.200 don't think shame nobody you have a raven dt is one of my patrons okay i put respect

04:10:47.160 on my patrons names i put respect on their names but you got these of girls being like

04:10:55.320 fin doming these dudes degrading i love it degrading thing to do yes calling them pay pigs

04:11:01.880 these are my patron saints i have immense respect yeah they respect you it's not it's not really that

04:11:13.720 they just they are they are like i'm like i'm fucking michelangelo okay who's michelangelo

04:11:21.640 are you serious right now who is that mutant ninja turtles oh i am i am a create creative they are they

04:11:30.120 are my patrons they support me that's good they support my art i like it i'm gonna go

04:11:40.040 they support our our art too this is this is the modus i feel like i'm a creative person this is the

04:11:45.400 magnum opus this is my masterpiece okay this is the sistine fucking chapel he's not gonna stop

04:11:54.600 this is your empire okay good talk um you can you can hide that neck uh what was i talking what

04:12:03.640 were we talking about oh seeking sugar daddies oh yeah you got guys who just like send you money and

04:12:08.920 shit yeah where'd you meet them no i don't how do you how do you meet them oh oh instagram like promotion

04:12:15.560 yeah i mean yeah they'll follow me on instagram or like yeah sometimes i do like phone calls

04:12:20.520 and as i said i have um dating apps and they'll follow me what about you any sugar daddies no i

04:12:26.840 could never have a relationship with someone for money madison no okay um have you somewhat related

04:12:35.160 to this but it's perhaps a different question has a guy ever given you an allowance and i'm not

04:12:40.280 talking about your father i mean like a guy yeah don't you you girls get those offers right where

04:12:46.680 they're like okay i'm gonna pay you a thousand dollars a week blah blah blah this is what i

04:12:50.600 want blah blah like have you had a guy who gives you an allowance in exchange for yeah okay how many

04:12:56.920 sugar daddies do you think you've had i so when i was 18 i like found one i found one like right off

04:13:05.480 the bat and then i like went off of it so like i had like one and then uh probably in total because i

04:13:12.920 just have a couple at a time um bringing in the big bags yeah uh maybe like 15 15 total okay what's

04:13:22.200 the most that one guy has spent on you has spent on me or given me both both both spent on me i mean

04:13:32.280 i've gotten like trips like i've been flown out to miami and stuff like that yeah and flown out to

04:13:37.720 miami yeah and like poultry paid for poultry yeah yeah poultry booked me a massage in his uh

04:13:47.160 his apartment he wasn't he wasn't a sugar daddy though i mean i guess you could count it as that

04:13:50.840 so what's the most amount of money a guy has just given you given me yes given you

04:13:55.880 not like that much come on it's been a lot right no it's been a lot it's been a lot

04:14:09.720 i'm here tell us this tell us in like one one instance and then like the total

04:14:16.680 one instance and then the total like so like let's say a guy just like sent you

04:14:20.200 2 000 bucks okay and then like the total given by one guy the total given by one guy yeah like

04:14:27.960 10 000 total but maybe it was over the course of three months and he'd send you like 500 bucks here

04:14:32.760 500 bucks there i i i don't know about the total but yeah it would have to be around 10 10 000.

04:14:41.800 10 000 yeah because i went to paris that's nice with that money nice but from one person your money

04:14:47.880 huh that's from one person yes that's one person you went to paris yes to see him no just see a model

04:14:55.480 guy wait he gave you ten thousand dollars yeah he gave you wait he gave you ten thousand dollars

04:15:05.800 to go so that i think uh it was like over the course of oh he gave you ten thousand total yeah yeah

04:15:15.880 oh because i was singing for that long so what's the okay but what's the most one guy has given you

04:15:21.400 in one time one time yeah like here's a thousand bucks one time maybe i used to get like monthly

04:15:30.760 allowances they used to pay me like monthly so it was like um

04:15:38.200 like four thousand five thousand from one from one guy yeah you're getting a five thousand dollar

04:15:42.920 allowance from yes per month yes from one guy yes and did you have at any point did you have

04:15:49.000 multiple allowances at the same time yes that's how many allowances total probably like three three

04:15:55.640 three at the time three that was the most though and how much the other guys were like two thousand

04:15:59.720 a month two thousand each yeah so you're making nine thousand dollars a month just off guys just off of

04:16:05.880 the allowance that's nice but then you were also monetizing like in addition to the allowance with

04:16:12.040 like other guys or those guys also be like here's a couple hundred for rent here's a couple hundred

04:16:17.240 to get your nails done here's a couple hundred for your hair um they wouldn't i wouldn't really ask for

04:16:23.800 that because they would they would give it to me like the allowance was like they would give it to me

04:16:27.640 the first of every month then i would use it for like that full month so i wasn't i would get my

04:16:31.960 nails done like every two weeks and stuff like that so it's like and my hair done like my i would get

04:16:36.040 my hair done like every three months so right it's not like i was like going crazy what what did these guys

04:16:40.120 want in return for the uh like sex oh so you would yeah sleep with them i would sleep with them i'd

04:16:47.800 like hang out with them like on their boats i'd drink with them yeah i'd be like i some of them

04:16:54.680 stayed up in like newport like really nice like huge mansion houses really nice okay um in addition to

04:17:02.200 the do you what about like guys you wouldn't meet up with but like maybe you just talk to them and then

04:17:09.320 they'd send you money yeah you'd have that too my dms guys will be like what's your cash app also

04:17:13.560 in my cash app they'll send me like 500 okay okay um what about like just sending pics sending like

04:17:21.960 feet pics they want feet pics okay that's 300 i've never sent feet pics there are some i mean actually

04:17:26.520 i think i have people yeah no people have wanted feet pics but not just feet pics like yeah they'll

04:17:31.080 want like nudes but like you like showing your feet off in the nude if that makes sense

04:17:34.920 like you'll point your feet at the camera while being nude it's kind of

04:17:42.280 okay yeah okay um how much do you think is this before you started your only fans grid one motorsports

04:17:52.360 donated 69 dollars should i feel kind of attacked on that one brian is doing the lord's work i donate

04:18:00.360 because i can and i feel like it is worth it to participate in the conversation i also fear the

04:18:06.680 sort of women my sons will be exposed to changes are needed i am a trailblazer i'm changing the

04:18:16.760 landscape not really by i don't know maybe the conversation maybe you guys maybe you guys

04:18:24.280 insinuating the daddy conversation that they're that they're the same as they're trying to figure

04:18:28.360 daddies uh look uh they're they're they're patrons go ahead oh so wait what were you saying

04:18:37.240 you're telling us about like the the money you were making i guess oh the money i was making

04:18:42.120 uh yeah i was just oh no no no my question was okay so and the whole time you're you're you've

04:18:49.000 been doing only fans too right no did you start i just started only fans in august like 16th of this

04:18:55.240 year oh that's pretty recent wait so but you said from 18 is when you started like doing seeking

04:19:00.600 sugar daddies yeah 18 to 20 i was basically because you're 21 now right yes i'm 21 now i turned 21 in

04:19:06.760 august um i basically like that was kind of like my income for like i was just kind of living off of

04:19:12.760 like the sugar daddies i mean 9 000 a month yeah a lot of money yeah yeah but i suspect you were

04:19:19.640 making more than 9 000 a month correct yeah because including like people like like other yeah like

04:19:24.920 from the dms and stuff like that like people like how much how much do you think you made what's the

04:19:30.680 most you think you made in a month in a month before only fans i guess i don't know you don't know

04:19:37.160 15 000 a month maybe around more do you think more have you no i don't think i was making like

04:19:43.880 that much money you've made over 10 000 though yeah for sure okay on c i mean yeah i definitely

04:19:49.960 because i went to paris and everything i bought me a coat yeah okay uh what else let's see you said

04:19:59.320 you've had some pay pig type scenarios what about you tons i have like cucks feet fetish and cucks

04:20:06.840 cucks cucks cuck holding yeah yeah so those are like my main people on my campsite how do these

04:20:13.240 guys like it seems like the feet guys and the cuck guys are very always wealthy i don't get it

04:20:19.320 what is um cuck is like where they want like to watch me get fucked oh yeah cuck holding good times

04:20:27.240 but yeah i have like i said i'm on a campsite and only fans and playboy okay i've got a couple

04:20:33.240 different incomes but um i had a guy from my camming site want to do like a personal skype

04:20:39.960 yeah how much was that off site ten thousand dollars he paypal'd me ten thousand wait when

04:20:45.000 you say off site what off of the site the campsite oh but so it was still cam but it was a private

04:20:50.760 session private session how much did he pay ten thousand dollars ten thousand holy

04:20:55.880 she donated sixty nine dollars yeah it seems to me having two caring parents will provide the

04:21:02.360 best possible chance for success you obviously have no choice in that matter awareness of a deficit

04:21:09.080 and the ability to learn seems to be another way the info is out there you just have to look

04:21:16.600 word uh-huh ten thousand dollars for a private one skype session how long was the skype session

04:21:23.000 30 to 40 minutes were you on what kind of internet connection like dial-up skype was it like a

04:21:29.160 dial-up internet connection or no it was my apartment like wireless like or what 18t dsl

04:21:36.600 i don't know i should check when i get home is dsl even still no i have the best internet because

04:21:41.560 i live stream yo chat for any of you like tech savvy internet savvy people is dsl still a thing

04:21:47.320 is dsl still a thing was a dsl hello it was 30 minutes though you said right it was 30 to 45 minutes

04:21:59.000 yeah like the connection was pretty good though i had the like i literally streamed from home so i

04:22:04.120 made sure what kind of camera are you using um i don't know i have to connect it and i have to use obx as

04:22:09.960 well you're familiar with obx obs obx what's obx obs oh yeah oh yeah obs okay so i have to use that

04:22:20.440 as well as like okay sure sure 10 000 300 or something damn bro yeah you're washing dogs like

04:22:28.520 an idiot i have to wash my dogs bro you should honestly i'm totally just kidding you should just

04:22:33.560 start on my fans no you could be washing dogs no oh yeah just like film myself wash dogs you could

04:22:39.240 like do the whole milf angle my camming was under an alias you could do it under an alias for a bit

04:22:46.040 and now it's just like you're attractive woman you're attractive woman

04:22:50.520 you could do it have lingerie on and just wash the dogs but don't do it but you could do it but

04:22:55.960 don't do it it was a joke but but don't do it but you could but don't do it we're trying to

04:22:59.720 get right don't do it but i think that like the industry changed my life like for the better like

04:23:05.080 in a positive way yeah yeah i really do i really like i think only fans really like change my life

04:23:11.160 for the worse for the better for the better yeah financially yeah financially and just like i have

04:23:17.960 like the freedom to create whatever content i want like the sky is the limit like i can travel

04:23:24.520 whenever i want i know there's downsides there's cons to every job there's cons probably to working at

04:23:29.160 starbucks there's i'm sure a lot of people think smell of coffee beans i like the smell of coffee

04:23:35.800 my sister worked at starbucks for a bit she hated it she's a teacher now i wish my girlfriend my one

04:23:42.440 if i if i wish i would like no no i what i'm saying is i would love if my hypothetical girlfriend smelled

04:23:53.720 like coffee that'd be dope really yeah i like the smell of coffee have you ever done the coffee

04:23:58.120 scrubs huh coffee scrubs they're so good huh do a coffee scrub um would that make you go down on her

04:24:06.680 no the fuck she'll smell like coffee for real uh

04:24:12.440 what do you think in a month wait how long have you been doing lonely fans um like two years two years

04:24:18.360 but i've been camming for like four are you down to like share the the money not not like not share

04:24:27.880 with me just like how much you make or made when you were camming anyways well there's like three

04:24:33.080 different platforms that i'm on so it just depends on what platform i think one of my biggest months was

04:24:38.280 like 50 something 50 60 50 60 thousand combined total all all the platforms but uh my only fan stays

04:24:46.840 now and don't give any ideas madison my only fan stays in the uh five five figures i guess oh if

04:24:55.080 it's five figures wait hold on let me count that yeah five figures okay and it's continuously growing

04:25:03.240 and i actually don't i definitely don't do like a lot of like pornographic stuff on mine sure it's

04:25:08.760 mostly nudity i swear okay that's fine you used to be a stripper how much were you making probably a

04:25:14.440 ton no i was really bad at it i don't like being touched and i'm not a good dancer uh i'm really bad

04:25:20.920 at it she's a bad stripper why'd you strip um didn't have rent uh lost my best friend a few months

04:25:29.720 before and kind of just went through a downward spiral but now she's better yeah you learn from

04:25:38.200 all did you say you had sugar daddies you said no right i said no uh yeah oh sorry details oh no yeah

04:25:46.760 i've had sugar daddies but details like what what would you would you send them pictures would you

04:25:51.720 talk to them would you meet up with them in person uh yeah i don't do meetups but um i would do like

04:25:57.160 allow face time call and you have an allowances did they give you allowance uh they pay me for

04:26:02.600 like each uh phone call how much would you get paid for a phone call well honestly i just i charge

04:26:08.200 forty dollars for ten minutes to talk to me well do you have longer like would you have a 30 minute

04:26:13.640 phone call an hour phone call yeah but it would be more money well yeah so how much for like 30 minutes

04:26:17.720 for an hour 30 minutes would be about 50 50 yeah because wait 40 do you do it based on minute yeah

04:26:25.800 you gotta work the math out on that one you should do like eight or ten dollars a minute oh really for

04:26:30.600 30 minutes yes oh my gosh if i was like yeah because like i said i do the camming and it's per minute

04:26:36.440 like if you're in a private room with or private like chat it's per minute it's eight dollars

04:26:41.960 yeah yeah you need to but you said so is that it you just do the phone calls but there's been

04:26:49.640 other payments right yeah oh i do only fans i just take pictures and videos and they pay me for that

04:26:56.200 i get to and then like yeah some people don't have only fans so they'll be like can i can i pay you

04:27:03.080 oh just like what's the what's the most amount of money you guys ever given you in just like a

04:27:07.080 one-time go like here's 500 bucks type of thing um it was that one guy said that he he just wanted

04:27:12.440 me to talk to him so he gave me like 400 just to talk to him for how long for like the day where

04:27:18.920 do you find these guys texting him yeah texting him and he wanted me to send him nudes and i was like

04:27:24.440 okay how do you know how old he was oh he was he was old but he had money and he had a girlfriend

04:27:30.520 and then he just broke up with his girlfriend oh he sent me oh man you with guys that have

04:27:36.520 girlfriends what's like the weirdest request you guys have gotten from a sugar daddy is it i want

04:27:43.480 to ask the chat on this chat why do you think men do this why do they do this is it loneliness

04:27:52.040 are they lonely yeah yeah or they're in like a get a hobby guys lonely it's like a kink for them

04:28:00.040 get a hobby to spoil people hello yeah go surfing that's way better hello i think people just like to

04:28:09.640 jack off that's true i know men i know i get it that men are lonely but it's like

04:28:17.320 i feel like they're just so deprived it's just like video call is gonna satisfy their needs

04:28:22.920 it's it's just easy too it's so accessible now like 20 years ago they had to be buying like a playboy

04:28:29.720 oh they had to buy like a playboy magazine not as accessible now they can just it's just a click

04:28:35.160 and a click purchase it's weird how life has been from like the 19 whatever's to now so many different

04:28:44.200 things have became normal that weren't normal right like women used to not even be able to vote at one

04:28:52.120 point that's crazy and now it's like so normal women can vote they've women have been able to vote for

04:28:57.640 over a hundred years i know i'm just saying i said from like the 1800s like to now just like

04:29:03.160 how many different things i mean yeah a lot a lot has changed in 200 years constantly is like

04:29:09.960 getting normalized whoa getting worse does i blow your mind my mind is blown let me read a couple

04:29:17.480 chats grid one motorsports the look on 18 up snow white's face during the sugar daddy conversation is

04:29:23.000 priceless who's that 18 up snow whites who's me maybe i don't know 18 up snow white i i think it

04:29:30.120 might be me because i'm my only friends i'm 18. oh you lie on your only fans yeah i do you say you're

04:29:37.800 18 on only hands yeah rated number one 18 year old oh that's a good little tactic yeah but you're

04:29:43.720 red huh they were calling you red snow white is someone different new i know but i know she's

04:29:49.400 18 but i don't but what is 18 up uh grid one can you can you clarify girl can you clarify we have

04:29:57.080 seaberg and he said in the corner madison can you read this one ranking on physical appearance and

04:30:02.840 personality slash value starting with red physical appearance nine values two oh here sorry i'll pull

04:30:11.240 it i'll pull it back up

04:30:15.720 physical appearance five values five appearance seven values nine appearance eight values ten five three

04:30:24.120 five seven just one man's opinion okay thank you seaberg we have banksta red has no chance with having a

04:30:31.880 successful marriage may be good with kids because she has their mindset but will be divorced within

04:30:37.320 a year go talk to your dad about picking a good man make speak up and help brian stop letting him

04:30:41.960 embarrassing wait what stop letting him embarrass himself wait me am i embarrassing myself how

04:30:49.080 hurt how is he embarrassing himself that's a good question we have reicher carlson hey thank

04:30:56.360 you man appreciate it i think this is one of the better podcasts everyone's chill and people aren't

04:31:00.920 going off the rails brian's keeping a good conversation going and everyone's staying

04:31:04.600 positive longest i've listened before uh i don't know i was pretty tilted at the beginning and

04:31:13.320 thank you though i thank you for i appreciate thank you thank you appreciate it man

04:31:17.080 tommy would you rather have a rich successful partner who works all the time but doesn't have as

04:31:23.000 much time to spend with you or a partner who has no goals or doesn't or and doesn't work much but

04:31:28.600 spends almost all this time with you you're only on the table go ahead like barely listen to that

04:31:35.080 that was a lot my bad um can you shorten it a little bit yeah i got you a rich working partner

04:31:42.520 that's successful that doesn't spend too much time with you or someone that doesn't work at someone

04:31:47.480 that spends time with me that is not that yeah they don't need to be that successful i just want

04:31:52.680 to spend time with me going around the table oh so i pretty much have that already like my boyfriend

04:31:59.560 works like 90 hours a week so we only have sundays and like nighttime after like nine o'clock

04:32:04.600 oh okay oh let's continue on that i guess oh oh this one bank store donated 69 dollars who is paying

04:32:13.800 these three hundred and four s who would be proud of this men stop doing this bs it's more women than

04:32:22.120 men we are more so let's stop supporting nonsense and make them support men i know you're not going

04:32:29.560 to but come on men mick wake up thank you banksta appreciate it man who is paying these three foes lonely

04:32:38.600 men man lonely men um all right it was uh would you rather have a rich successful partner who works

04:32:45.720 all the time but doesn't have as much time to spend with you or a partner who has no goals and doesn't

04:32:50.440 work much but spends almost all of his time with you which one i already answered um if i would have

04:32:57.000 to choose someone successful um but i wouldn't really want either i would choose the time one but i

04:33:04.600 don't like the no goals part yeah um i do want a guy who's rich and successful but i love like

04:33:12.760 quality time honestly i would rather have somebody that um has success and does their own thing a lot

04:33:20.920 of the time i'd say success we have grid one whoa i am old i guess the dark-haired girl in the corner

04:33:28.520 in the white snow white blouse oh you do kind of look like snow white yeah what's the 18 and up

04:33:37.480 though 18 up snow white maybe is it because snow white it's not pg yeah she's like a no she said

04:33:45.960 what's the what's snow white story is that in the seven dwarves oh it's because she was like 12 or 13.

04:33:52.360 really oh my god in the original story hold on let me google this that's crazy snow white

04:34:00.200 age this is gonna get me on a list what the she's both she's 14 huh i did not know that

04:34:08.520 what why what's this prince doing dude what the okay but back then they did a date very young

04:34:15.080 it was different because it was normalized it was back again back then in the snow white

04:34:20.920 well i don't know snow white i don't know what year that was made but like back back in the old

04:34:24.920 days it was very young back in the old days people okay no no no no all right what do we have

04:34:31.640 here what else we got what else we got uh i had a note here i think madison wanted to ask a question

04:34:37.960 what i'm not a mind reader madison why don't you tell me well we were going around the table

04:34:45.720 about oh wait i think i asked like what's like the weirdest request you've gotten from a sugar daddy

04:34:51.320 oh yeah um i've had some weird ones that you've done oh that i've done oh i've done like no weird

04:35:00.440 ones okay maybe let's be honest though you have no i swear come on come on mckenna

04:35:06.360 done like mckenna be honest yeah i swear um i think the weirdest one someone wanted to buy like

04:35:13.880 my like pee or like my socks too my dirty socks i've heard that one in bath water i've gotten bath

04:35:22.280 water too what the fuck okay that's interesting that's super interesting what about you hayley so it

04:35:33.560 wouldn't be from a sugar daddy because i've never had one but one of my subscribers i don't even know

04:35:38.360 if i can say this it's disgusting they requested like a scat video yeah that's a yikes where you like

04:35:46.040 yeah we yeah yeah we get disgusting and i did not do it there's no amount of money really hell no

04:35:52.120 really he couldn't have paid me twenty thousand dollars to do that video oh i remember what i was

04:35:56.280 gonna say nine thousand dollars a month with the sugar daddy allowances how old were you like 18 19

04:36:05.240 and you're making nine nine thousand dollars a month me or you said more even yeah you uh 1920 1920

04:36:13.720 it's kind of like life on easy mode don't you think yeah i definitely was oh okay all right she agrees cool

04:36:19.320 because there's not like and again i've said i say this all the time there's not like 18 19 20 year

04:36:26.520 old men who who are having their life financed by semi-older women yeah that's true like that's just

04:36:35.080 not a thing like as a guy if you're there's like even average girls who are making bank like making a

04:36:42.840 lot of money upwards of five figures a month doing this kind of sugar daddy's seeking whatever it is

04:36:52.040 like there's not dudes out there that are 18 even i would even argue really like attractive dudes

04:36:57.480 don't have this level of access yeah you're right i feel really bad i you know what i think we need

04:37:05.160 equality i demand men we need equality when it comes to we need more female pay pigs i think feminists

04:37:17.960 should start fighting for equality on only fans men should be paid just as much as women on only fans

04:37:23.800 it's only fair equal pay for equal work hello same with sugar daddies you know what here i'm gonna reclaim

04:37:32.280 i'm i'm gonna mckenna do you believe in you said you were feminist right do you believe in do you

04:37:42.120 believe in equal pay for equal work equal pay for equal work yeah you you're you're successful you're

04:37:49.960 making good money with your only fans and sugar daddies i feel like we need to equal we need equality

04:37:57.560 and i think you seem like a trailblazer okay uh what's the shit what's there's a there's a specific

04:38:06.840 term i'm thinking of for this uh be the change you want to see in the world i think you should pay me

04:38:14.200 an allowance what do you think about that what are you gonna do for me though i will have you're not

04:38:20.360 even gonna eat it no i'm not doing that i will listen i feel mckenna this is this is the value

04:38:32.120 proposition that i'm about to make you know you have these transient sexual encounters casual sex

04:38:38.440 sex partners you've never had a boyfriend i will be the emotional support that you need

04:38:43.960 okay we're not gonna though we i'm not down to have sex with you but i will be there for you

04:38:49.960 my rate is seven thousand dollars a month what do you say that's pretty that's my allowance but i will

04:38:56.200 all all your boyfriend needs i will be there for you virtually i won't see you in person

04:39:03.320 you live in san diego i'm sorry it's too far but true true if you need to talk about something my rate

04:39:09.640 seven thousand dollars a month what do you think what do you think maybe five but i could do five

04:39:16.600 are we actually is this this is a legally blinding we're gonna when can you uh you gotta sign it in

04:39:21.640 blood and can you start all right wait is this kind of an l though for me let me ask the chat chat is

04:39:30.840 this an l because like it is kind of the reverse finesse let's see what the chat thinks is this like

04:39:35.880 a w or is it like is it a w for me or is it an l down payment is it is a w like because it's the

04:39:43.800 reverse finesse it's an l some people are saying it's a w i see w in there there's a lot of l's there's

04:39:51.240 a lot of okay i think it's a w i think it's a w because what's more gangster like it's i'm i'm doing

04:40:01.080 the reverse finesse i'm sure there's it's the reverse finesse i'm sure that there's some guys

04:40:05.800 it's almost like justice justice for all the men out there who are spending a shit ton of money

04:40:14.760 who's okay all right

04:40:18.840 i think it's kind of a w

04:40:22.120 right no you have to find someone who's willing to spend that on you huh you have to find someone

04:40:28.840 who's willing to spend that on you okay all right i don't know i don't know what do you think about

04:40:35.720 girls who sell their feet i wouldn't oh are you asking me yeah like do you put them in the same

04:40:40.840 category as like girls who that only fans are like i mean there's degrees to all this shit right so i feel

04:40:47.880 like like a girl who takes like if there's a girl who's like full nude who does like prawn compared to

04:40:54.920 a girl who just sells her feet i mean it's still like undesirable i would say it's definitely

04:41:01.320 undesirable in a partner but it's not as bad as a girl but it's still not i wouldn't say it's just fine

04:41:10.600 i will say i will say i can kind of see the draw though like you're like someone wants to pay you

04:41:20.360 500 to boom take it take 10 seconds to take a photo of your feet i kind of get it you know

04:41:30.680 like let's ask the chat chat and i don't know some of you already established successful let's say

04:41:35.160 you're back you're 18 you know you're a broke college kid some chick dms you some chick messages

04:41:43.080 you and she's like model i'll pay you 500 for you to send me a picture of your foot

04:41:48.840 do you do it chat do you do you do it chat

04:41:57.480 would you do it chat hello

04:42:02.360 ten dollars cheap it's not just a feet pic

04:42:07.800 okay see i was

04:42:11.960 some girls like just a foot pic not nudity just like send me a picture of your foot

04:42:18.840 what you could go where you what you okay let's say if you're getting paid uh ten dollars an hour

04:42:26.200 i mean i know in some places it's more you're getting paid ten dollars an hour minimum wage job

04:42:30.520 that's 50 hours of work or some paid patron saint chick wants to i don't know okay okay good times good

04:42:41.000 times uh what other things can we talk about oh let's do this sean strickland video let's

04:42:50.280 let's finally get rid of that let's finally get get that done

04:42:57.640 uh do you remember the time is it like 10 50 or something 10 45

04:43:03.000 i think i've seen videos of this guy to these dirty brazilians well oh my god nick you

04:43:08.280 fucking goofed to that okay jesus christ okay next awesome shit man americans we need to go back to

04:43:15.560 like taking women out of the workforce and maybe that's and maybe that is where we maybe that's

04:43:20.760 where we fucked up you guys we let women vote no offense but anyway but let me no no i want to

04:43:26.360 tell you guys something think about america prior to women voting they try to ban alcohol i don't even

04:43:31.560 drink but i'm not trying to ban alcohol so what you did man you let these women come in the workforce

04:43:36.440 now we make less money you got kids raising themselves on tiktok we need to go back to like

04:43:42.680 1942 you know especially after you know maybe 1958 after he fucked up the germans we need to put women

04:43:49.640 back in the kitchen we need to take fucking only one man needs to be working so i think as a collective

04:43:56.760 man group we need to elect somebody that's going to put women back in the kitchen put one man working

04:44:03.320 ways of rages and build a fucking wall have you ever thought about going to therapy pause it pause it

04:44:09.720 your reaction to the clip um i always think that the olden times were nice and i'd wish that we'd go

04:44:16.920 back to them too but so you agree with yeah on what he said a little i guess a little i guess i don't know

04:44:25.800 some of it's kind of just like silly but just like five minutes ago you're saying could you can

04:44:30.280 you imagine back then when women couldn't vote that's crazy to me he wants to take away your

04:44:35.400 right to vote wrong you think it's wrong yeah okay why should i not be allowed to vote

04:44:41.240 no but i'm you were kind of like co-signing on his not on the voting part oh but everything else

04:44:45.960 you're like i do agree that like back in the day like some things were better but also saying put women

04:44:51.480 in the kitchen like okay you got to understand there's a lot of people that are in relationships

04:44:56.040 that are abusive and they rely on their spouse the man to take care of them and they're stuck in

04:45:02.440 that situation so like i do feel bad for people like that you know so i don't think that it should

04:45:07.000 be throw the women back in the kitchen i think everyone should work okay i think it should be equal sure

04:45:12.440 i thought it was kind of funny it was um he had a couple of points i think there's a lot of screwed

04:45:20.600 up things and a lot of it is not blaming women but i think a lot of it like there was a line and then

04:45:27.320 everybody just kind of crossed it by miles so i think he's a little out there but he makes sense to

04:45:34.360 some things just a little funny you were cracking up it's the way he worded that was just hilarious

04:45:42.440 that was really funny um so i i do agree with the overall point of what he's trying to say however

04:45:49.080 how he says it and how we come across how he comes across it's going to be really hard to get people to

04:45:53.720 agree with what he's saying so he needs to word that differently he's a straight shooter though he's

04:45:59.240 a straight shooter you could be straight and not come off like that though yeah i came off kind of

04:46:03.720 dickish yeah i agree with him but i also feel like yeah maybe a woman should work maybe from home

04:46:09.400 not something like what a man a man's job sure what about you um he he's definitely speaking facts

04:46:15.720 about having children um every relationship is different though so but when it comes to having

04:46:20.280 kids i think a more traditional household where a woman stays at home and a man goes work will always

04:46:25.720 work better mick i think um a lot of what he said is is very true but um i think it's um he yeah he said

04:46:38.280 it very straight shooter like and aggressive um so i don't know i co-sign i wish i didn't have to work

04:46:49.400 okay good talk good talk i'll take care of the kids we have a couple chats here let me get them

04:46:59.000 oh seberg i don't know why it didn't trigger from an economics pov a person will only value the money

04:47:06.600 they earn based on the difficulty to acquire easy come easy go the amount of money you earn isn't what

04:47:13.800 is important it's what you put into earning it earn by adding value yo seberg thank you very much

04:47:20.840 sorry the beginning of that uh was not uh triggered thank you man appreciate it um let's see

04:47:30.440 that's beautiful uh tommy kowalski what's your definition of a successful man starting with you go

04:47:37.240 ahead um i mean whatever he defines that success is i feel like um it's what his beliefs are if he's

04:47:47.720 happy and what he does in his job and he's a healthy man and uh you know he's got a good life good head

04:47:55.800 on his shoulders and i consider that successful that's beautiful um someone who works really hard

04:48:02.360 for their money and also someone that's motivated and driven and can like actually like do finances

04:48:09.800 really well i guess okay um someone that has a purpose and lives to their purpose also puts his

04:48:18.840 physical and mental health first as a priority drive that's backed up by consistency

04:48:25.640 um yeah having your life together i think that's success like not just buy money just in any aspect

04:48:36.920 someone that is disciplined hard working and passionate

04:48:43.320 i would say someone who's happy i have to agree i feel like a lot of people try to bring success to

04:48:51.400 how much money you make but i feel like success is so much more than that it's about

04:48:55.640 like how happy you are with what you're doing someone who's passionate someone who's well-driven

04:49:01.400 um yeah okay we have uh cam h here if you can pull that back up hey thank you man really appreciate

04:49:08.360 your uh support love the conversation i needed some advice and am newly single whatever podcast rocks

04:49:14.120 well you were with cam h he was asking in the previous show i'm pretty i recognize the name um did you

04:49:21.800 you have a question for us do you want we'd happy happy to give you some advice man just ask ask a

04:49:27.320 question thank you very much for your super chat man appreciate it uh let's see we have seberg

04:49:33.400 here for the of girls how do you feel after session with one of your guys you feel fulfilled happy

04:49:38.760 lonely nothing etc i feel fulfilled because it's the guy that i actually enjoy doing stuff with i would

04:49:44.600 never do stuff with a guy that i don't want to have sex with or film content with i film content with

04:49:49.320 people that i very trust and i'm comfortable with so i feel like i have an amazing time because i've

04:49:54.760 just had some really great sex on camera oh because i mean you you said that you've i mean

04:50:01.160 you've had sex with men for money so i assume some of these men you wouldn't otherwise have sex with

04:50:06.920 them if it wasn't for the money the guys that i yeah for sure like but they are like really cool guys

04:50:12.920 like i said like the guys that i the sugar dotties i would have aren't like super old i'd have like 30s

04:50:17.400 between in their 40s and they're like really cool guys like i said like some of them would have boats

04:50:21.640 some of them would fly me out places like they're actually guys i could hang out with like i'm not

04:50:25.240 going to like have in a relationship with a guy like that that i don't even like you know what i

04:50:29.640 mean if you like them why do you need the money from them because i don't want to be in a relationship

04:50:35.000 i like i liked having a sugar daddy because they they didn't have time for relationships so they

04:50:39.960 would make it a transactional thing which i enjoyed because i could still have company and time

04:50:43.720 with them without knowing that they're going to fall in love with me or something like that

04:50:49.720 okay what was the question again how do you feel after a session with one of your guys do you feel

04:50:54.680 fulfilled happy lonely nothing etc a session as far as like me just being on only fans talking with my

04:51:00.760 fans yeah i'm not sure what seberg means by session session means like like you hooking up with some

04:51:06.520 i don't do like like i said i don't do a lot of pornographic content like it's only me

04:51:10.280 you're right i have like i have some home films like i'll say that but uh yeah fulfilled um i like

04:51:17.160 making money and i don't think that it's like maybe i just got used i don't know i've been in the

04:51:23.240 industry for like three four years so sure like it doesn't bother me at all like i feel happy and like

04:51:29.080 i'm very very interactive with my subscribers so like i talk to them all the time i'm checking my

04:51:35.400 only fans like every three hours like it doesn't bother me do you really respond to the people

04:51:40.120 though or do you have like a yeah i do voice notes every day like you got what i do voice notes every

04:51:46.120 day so you don't have some team in guatemala that's responding on your behalf no i don't so

04:51:53.880 at nighttime i do have some help of a chatter like i like split it up but they know me really well they

04:51:59.880 know how to answer but like i'm really interactive with my subscribers but i also like i can't do it

04:52:04.840 myself because i have like 40 000 people on there like how am i gonna how am i gonna like talk to

04:52:10.200 40 000 like you know but i guess the where where my issue comes with it is they think they're talking

04:52:19.640 to you but they're not but they are though because like i said i'm sending out voice notes and especially

04:52:25.400 like no but you said you have chatters no i said i have one person that helps me during night time

04:52:30.040 so doing what what are they doing during night time but okay so it's not you who's messaging them but

04:52:36.360 the people who are paying to have the privilege of messaging you think it's you when it's it depends

04:52:43.240 on also like i have my folders of people like my vip clients i talk to only them no chatters talk to

04:52:50.840 him it's only me the chatters kind of talk to like the new people that come in there at like

04:52:55.160 night time that are like but they still think it's you yeah don't you think that's misleading no

04:53:01.000 how is it not misleading because i'm very hands-on with it i'm constantly talking with my chatter and

04:53:05.960 if there's ever a time where i like want to jump on there and chat i get on there like i said i really

04:53:11.240 like put a lot of time into my own account i'm on there but how is it how is it not misleading

04:53:16.920 because it's like just help but okay if the value that i think i'm getting is that i am actually

04:53:26.760 talking to the person but it's not i'm talking to some like guatemalan dude like that it's like a

04:53:32.840 friend of mine a male friend no girl it's a girlfriend but it's not you but it's someone that

04:53:40.520 knows me really well knows how to talk like me and like i said that's even worse but okay

04:53:44.920 like catfishing but it's not though because like i said i'm still on there constantly i can't it's

04:53:49.880 technically fraud i can't be on there at midnight like right well then but so you could opt to not

04:53:56.600 monetize at that period of time but why would i not want to monetize that would be like

04:54:02.040 well look i i accept that women who have only fans do this they have people who chat on their behalf

04:54:09.000 where i believe it goes into the territory of like misleading or i mean fraud is if you're

04:54:16.840 representing that you like oh you're going to be talking to me you pay this much you're talking to me

04:54:23.320 like i where's the disconnect because i'm saying what i'm trying to strictly point out

04:54:28.120 is they think they're talking to you but they're not they don't know that they're talking to becky

04:54:34.840 when they could be talking to hayley no i get what you're saying but like i said it's a very like

04:54:39.160 brief like little bit and it's it doesn't matter you think it's not no it is it i it's exactly what

04:54:44.520 i think because i'm on there non-stop like what if you paid for a donut and got a bagel you feel

04:54:49.800 it's pretty similar you know they're still getting my photos they're still getting my voice notes

04:54:54.280 they're still getting my videos so they're still getting me to make 69 you know like i can't how

04:54:59.480 if your chatter is acceptable and not lying how will you feel when you are replaced by ai girls

04:55:06.440 can i say they want us to have a no i actually just did something it's called sugar world that's

04:55:12.600 coming out that's like a thing yes i just did an ai scan in la a couple months ago it's for this

04:55:18.520 ai game where they how much did they pay you uh they didn't pay me money but i get money from like

04:55:24.920 the guys who buy for like the oh it's like you can spend money to take my character on a date and

04:55:30.360 like have to take them on a date to have sex with them and like it's like a whole thing oh and

04:55:35.480 and it's but so you get like a uh it's not commission you know i do get a percentage no you

04:55:42.200 get a percentage but i feel like commission isn't the right word you get a cut or what's the right

04:55:46.680 word for this percentage sure um that's what i think have you has it been released yet it's not

04:55:52.680 released i think it's released in november i actually have a call with them soon bro i'm

04:55:57.400 telling i mean like we put some sometimes we put ai girls in the thumbnails and like no you can make

04:56:03.240 literally 10 out of 10 women that look pretty fucking real the thing is like stable diffusion

04:56:09.640 and shit it's insane i've also seen stuff where people like they ask like porn stars to come on

04:56:13.640 podcasts they're like oh do you think ai is gonna take over and i don't think that's the case because

04:56:18.440 every guys are gonna want to see the real thing all the time ai is just a thing that's like kind

04:56:23.960 of keeping them occupied some like just like a side thing but they're always going to want to see

04:56:27.960 the real you real content like real up sure stuff like that the raw stuff yeah and also like i don't

04:56:34.840 think the ai thing will ever fly either because like they can't just make like a bunch of ai girls

04:56:39.880 like like my fans on only fans are fans of me they're not fans of like well the the thing is is with the

04:56:47.080 ai like the images some of them are very fucking convincing like some of them are like i gotta

04:56:53.720 look into really good like research it so i do think it will actually conceivably get to the point

04:57:01.560 where the images are so good that you won't be able to tell if it's a real person or not and that's

04:57:09.320 when like fucking 10 out of 10 ai chicks are just gonna fucking sweep it's probably gonna be like a

04:57:16.040 bunch of sweep no there's a bunch of guys doing it though yeah there'll still be a demand for like

04:57:21.400 real women or whatever but i i'm actually all for it the the ai the ai stuff when i went there they

04:57:28.520 did they literally did a full body scan they had cameras everywhere i had to make like orgasm faces

04:57:33.320 and stuff like that i had to do voice they're using my voice in it i did who's your manager my manager

04:57:38.840 you don't have a manager no i don't mind you should i mean if i was your manager i would be

04:57:44.360 like yeah you get a cut but also you get some sort of upfront flat fee payment to do this too

04:57:51.560 there's no way i would like let my and i don't do only fans management there's no way i would let

04:57:56.360 the girl i'm managing like we get something up front too and a piece of the back end oh like the

04:58:03.560 manager who's like managing me would get something no no like you said you went to this place you spent

04:58:08.280 hours at this place no i didn't spend hours it took me like 20 minutes okay i mean they also

04:58:14.440 did a vaginal scan they did a pussy scan yeah it was in l.a your legs are like spread open on like

04:58:21.800 yeah sugar world okay i've not heard about this yeah it's like playboy are helping out with it

04:58:27.560 this company honey burdette that's a really big lingerie company interesting interesting um but no

04:58:32.360 look i just think it's and i look i know that for especially like only fans creators who have

04:58:38.120 a lot of people i get they have they have chatters but it's like you're the person who is chatting

04:58:44.520 is chatting with the they're not like hi i'm chatter like they don't they're not up front about the fact

04:58:52.120 that it's not you yeah like they're not like hi i'm uh gustavo a lot of agencies do that like i said

04:59:01.960 they do and they'll have the chatters like a girl will never log on to her page like i have friends that

04:59:06.120 don't log on to their pages at all it just completely ran i'm not like that i don't work

04:59:10.040 like that i'm on there but you do have a chatter i do to help me like at night time like i said but

04:59:14.760 it's right like for like two hours in the middle of the night you only sleep two hours no but like

04:59:20.760 i'm saying as far as like how much i pay how much are you chatting are you like on your phone

04:59:25.800 on my like i've had anxiety this whole time like not being like being off my phone for four hours

04:59:31.960 not anxiety like it's been fun but i'm like oh my gosh imagine dating an only fans girl and she's

04:59:37.000 like talking to a guy for 16 hours a day texting him even though she has no intention of fucking him

04:59:42.760 she's like oh i want your cock so bad like this is why i don't think as soon as i get in the uber i'm

04:59:48.120 gonna have to like sit on my phone for like two hours even if of girls he could imagine yeah he's

04:59:53.320 you could imagine that i yeah i know i know what it's like that's cheating i have a question though

04:59:58.920 for you considered cheating i can see that how you you said you have 40 000 subs about yeah

05:00:05.960 which is low that's on the low end that's on the low end compared to my friends because like i would

05:00:10.920 say like isn't it like majority of girls can maybe get a hundred if they're lucky i mean but like how did

05:00:15.880 you get like how do so many people like know about it like without a marketing team behind you like

05:00:21.240 i promote it on my instagram i know but how how many subscribers do you have on your insta um i

05:00:26.600 have 65 000 on instagram but i also do a lot of collabs like i collab with girls that are huge oh okay

05:00:33.720 yeah so that's where some of it's coming from yeah it's like flooded from other girls and like

05:00:37.480 collabs so do you like message them first the girls i collab with yeah uh i just i've been in

05:00:43.400 the industry i know these people personally okay like i know some like huge porn stars yeah the

05:00:49.400 the whole chatter thing though because i mean even even keely never got to that that level

05:00:53.800 and after all the years and stuff like she never got 40 000 subs did she live in la yeah did she live

05:01:00.680 in la yeah yeah i mean she just wasn't networking around the right people yeah i don't know yeah

05:01:06.600 because like i said i don't do porn online like i just do nudity yeah and she did actual porn and it's

05:01:11.640 like and never got any of that i feel like i would do it if i got an offer that's good enough but i i'm not

05:01:17.960 interested in it right now though for porn hub and stuff yeah she um she definitely didn't want

05:01:23.640 to do it it was like it was just because of lockdowns and like not no other income yeah

05:01:30.920 yeah the whole chatter thing though that's like everyone does it though i know no it's super

05:01:36.200 common for girls who do only fans like to have somebody on that a lot of times it's a dude too

05:01:41.320 it's a dude talking to a dude pretending to be a chick that's a little fruity like

05:01:46.840 but that's how you know it's me because mine are always voice notes i never i hate i hate typing and

05:01:53.080 imagine typing 50 times does your chatter does your chatter on your only fans does he say by the way

05:01:59.560 you're not actually talking to hayley you're talking to someone who's not her basically they do my mass

05:02:05.960 messages at night time so they just take do you know the back end of they don't they don't send

05:02:10.920 any like one-on-one messages no they take my mass messages and they send them by the folders that

05:02:16.680 they're under i've organized it to where there's different folders there's no back and forth they

05:02:20.360 don't do any like one-on-one back and forth no because when i wake up in the morning that's like

05:02:24.680 the first thing i'm doing for three hours and mine are voice notes like i said like these people know

05:02:29.000 it's me because i'm talking to them okay and do the same thing on my webcam like i do there's a lot

05:02:37.080 of girls out there that have that they don't i think like you said they don't even touch their

05:02:41.320 only oh i have a good friend that they don't even they don't even log in and she doesn't even do her

05:02:46.360 own payouts she just lets them do it that's crazy like it's pretty misleading i have to be i'm so

05:02:53.320 obsessive i have to know what's going on all the time yeah um okay i had one last question then

05:03:00.280 maddie's gonna do a bit of an after show then we're gonna wrap uh let's see oh my last question is

05:03:07.960 you earlier mentioned said you had a friend who she was what was she doing she something about her body

05:03:16.200 count this was back during the list oh like she was like a really dirty bitch right what not my

05:03:24.680 words uh my words i'll say her high friend oh your friend not my friend anymore but your friend with a

05:03:32.280 high body count she was selling something was she no she wasn't selling anything i don't remember what it

05:03:40.040 was i think i know what was the thing with your friends that you mentioned very early on in the

05:03:45.640 conversation my friends you said you had a friend who had a crazy list or wait no i think we were

05:03:53.560 talking about the sugar daddies where i said that she would like she would like have sex with like

05:03:57.720 sugar daddies for such a long amount and they were like and they were like really dirty guys she had

05:04:01.320 like gonorrhea and chlamydia in the same week that's so yeah she was she literally would like get my car

05:04:06.760 she'd be like can we go to cvs and get my gonorrhea medication i was like girl i was like oh hell no

05:04:12.280 was she just like a normal civilian she was younger than me she's like a year i think she's a year

05:04:18.200 younger than me she's really she was really really gnarly though like it was it was really bad and

05:04:24.840 she was also just an awful friend did she like to hook up with regular guys too really dirty yeah she

05:04:30.360 hooked up with regular guys i was the one who introduced introduced her to seeking because she

05:04:34.200 needed to get a new car and stuff and she literally she also just like we stopped being friends too

05:04:40.360 because the guy my situationship he she matched with him on tinder and sent me a screenshot of it

05:04:46.680 and then blocked me on everything and then i and then i i asked the guy i was like so why the

05:04:52.360 fuck would you swipe right on the dirty bitch like you know she was dirty as hell and he was like oh i

05:04:56.680 thought it'd be funny i was like funny that's not funny i was like and i told him i was like you're

05:05:00.600 gonna get gonorrhea and chlamydia because that's when she had it i was like you good luck i was

05:05:04.760 like good luck to you like what for all the people that she slept with slept with it's a lot way more

05:05:11.000 than me like just for money or oh wait it's in the hundreds hundreds hundreds it's a lot in san

05:05:17.880 diego yeah let's get her on the show i don't even want to give her that clout like that she dirty oh

05:05:23.320 you don't like her no i don't like her at all she she fucked me over she was she was she's a very

05:05:29.240 awful she she would come on here and try to like probably sabotage too she's she's she's really

05:05:35.560 she's really grimy she's awful she's really awful she literally showed me oh my god this is so nasty

05:05:40.120 she showed me her vibrator one time and it was just covered in dry ass like discharge she doesn't

05:05:45.960 clean it she didn't clean it she didn't clean it it's disgusting you're making you're literally

05:05:52.360 making my skin no it's disgusting and she would be like she'd be itching and oh my god she just she

05:05:59.240 would also like eat guys's ass like she'd love that she got pink eye from it too she got pink eye one

05:06:04.200 time she's gnarly she's so gnarly how is she doing now is she i have no idea don't talk to her i don't

05:06:11.720 talk to her i don't talk to her but i remember i checked i checked to see if that my situationship

05:06:16.600 was like still following her this was like a really long time ago and he was following her and i was like

05:06:20.040 i swear to god i'm gonna beat your fucking ass i was like i will rip your throat on my teeth like

05:06:25.160 don't even follow that bitch a yes she was a whore b she was a whore okay wow sorry i got a little

05:06:34.920 intense her body count was in the hundreds hundreds did you know in high school um i i started being

05:06:41.960 friends no i she wasn't she was in my rivalry high school so we're like in the same kind of neighborhood

05:06:45.880 but she went to my rival high school was she like saluting it up in high school too or she started

05:06:51.400 in high school and then she started like going to like college guys and she just messes with like

05:06:57.800 like really gross guys and like they treat her awful too like really bad what do you think her body

05:07:03.480 count was in high school in high school i think she started like her junior year i think that's when

05:07:10.440 she started she started like it had you think she had a hundred plus body count maybe 75 i'd give

05:07:16.520 a 75 by end of high school yes 75 body count i i swear let's get this chick on show i gotta talk to

05:07:22.920 her she's so she's nasty you feel like what i'm from san diego too so i feel like i really want to

05:07:31.080 know who this person really after we could have talked girl i'm like i mean like you you know

05:07:38.520 people around yeah san diego's kind of like i know people it's big but it's small yeah you you just

05:07:43.560 know people okay good to know she she has me blocked on everything too so it's not like i could give

05:07:47.480 you around would you say she's the girl who of the girls you know who probably has the highest body

05:07:52.200 count yeah like have you heard any high high body counts from any of your female friends no that's

05:07:56.600 for sure she's the dirtiest girl i know in the yeah the highest body count for sure word uh question

05:08:01.880 for everyone what uh what's the highest body count you've heard from a girl that you know

05:08:11.720 i've never had that conversation with a girl oh you don't know okay really even at the strip club

05:08:17.480 never like okay definitely in the hundreds in the hundreds yeah corona california of course

05:08:26.600 are they available to be on the show i think or you still know them you know her

05:08:33.320 yeah there's quite a few literally you should have invited them along all right what about you um

05:08:39.400 i knew a girl but she never told me her body count but she uh would have sex a lot like maybe in a

05:08:46.760 month i seen her be with like 20 guys 20 dudes in a month wait let's do the math on that okay so there's

05:08:52.360 12 months in a year the times 12 that's 240 right is that 240 in in a year like if it's 20 a month

05:09:00.840 20 times 12 240. 20 times 12. three years after after four four years uh maybe four four years and

05:09:09.720 three months that's a thousand body count yeah and she she would tell me stories of her meeting up with

05:09:15.240 guys and she would say that she's a virgin oh that's bro can you imagine like you think you

05:09:24.120 have a virgin girl and she's actually fucked like a thousand years yeah she told me she would meet

05:09:31.320 it with some guys and be like oh yeah i'm a virgin how do you even lie about that wouldn't they know

05:09:36.280 yeah they would know they'd be like why she's so experienced yeah like their experience their

05:09:40.760 pussy everything oh can i say that sorry that's no that's fine that's fine get the rocks yeah

05:09:46.040 abdul yeah get the rock get the rocks maybe like 50 to 100 okay okay all right um all right let me get

05:09:54.760 the chats done oh wait actually should body count matter

05:09:58.760 no okay it depends how long ago it was like because with me like that that was a while ago

05:10:08.680 now i don't be having sex like that anymore mckenna i'm being serious i literally made a promise i'm

05:10:14.440 gonna have a boyfriend next door but no i feel like it depends if they was if it was like a hoe phase

05:10:19.640 and if it was like over and it's been like years but also they could be lying so i don't know

05:10:24.760 i have no idea so i feel like i don't know i feel like it kind of matters because if a guy came up

05:10:31.160 to me and he was like i have this much i'd still be like i'd be like i wouldn't really say anything

05:10:34.520 but i'd be like that's a lot let me change the question do you object to men caring about body

05:10:39.080 count women a woman's body count like a high amount yeah um like do you think that's immature or

05:10:45.880 insecure well no because women carry it too so women women have like high body counts too can't like

05:10:52.120 discriminate against men

05:10:56.680 what are you thinking what did i answer wrong what's going on no i mean like

05:11:02.360 do you think for a man to care about a woman's body count do you think that's wrong oh

05:11:09.640 like do you think it's it's immature or like insecure no because i would care about a man's

05:11:13.640 body count okay what about you i absolutely think body count matters yeah and i think you

05:11:19.560 should tell people whenever you get with them you know okay i should be honest i believe in

05:11:24.360 soul ties so i do think body count matters a lot depends on the person how they carry themselves

05:11:31.000 what that body count actually means i like that but do you think men who care about body count do you

05:11:37.960 object to that no i mean some men don't eat pussies so just teach his own you know

05:11:45.400 we're really getting him with that one yeah yeah it's not really you're not really getting

05:11:49.400 the topic of the night it's hilarious it's not really like you don't you haven't you haven't gotten me

05:11:56.520 it's the topic of the night okay go ahead um yeah i think it shouldn't matter yeah i don't want to

05:12:04.920 for well i don't want to date no ho

05:12:08.600 you don't want to date a hoe yeah you're sleeping with two men right now

05:12:14.280 you got two dudes you're sleeping with two dudes at the same time

05:12:17.480 like i ain't that some oh i'm just saying i'm not trying to be mean but i know like subscribers

05:12:26.520 that might potentially have girlfriends like i even feel bad about that so i can't imagine like

05:12:30.760 knowing that someone had like a girlfriend i would hate it what about you body count is important

05:12:36.120 because it shows how people move just in the same way it's like um if someone is obese right you might

05:12:41.880 not be shaming a fat person but you might not date them because they might be distracted more by food

05:12:46.840 than their actual life and being in a relationship with you so if the body count is high it just

05:12:53.160 means that um they be people be distracted from their mission of life whatever it is

05:12:58.920 nick oh hold on calutronic donated 100 dollars oh brian if you were sentenced to life in prison

05:13:08.360 and a female guard said she would sleep with you even though she has 100 plus body count from all the

05:13:14.280 other inmates would you do it other also crazy underscore dog underscore lady is a babe thank

05:13:20.760 you you're a babe is that your instagram yeah i love it that's cute she's a are you a crazy dog lady

05:13:30.040 i absolutely am yeah okay to answer the question

05:13:32.280 if i was sentenced to life in prison

05:13:40.120 life in prison so this is my only opportunity to

05:13:43.800 pussy beggars can't really be choosers that's a fucking really that's a shitty situation situation

05:13:51.240 either way

05:13:51.800 is she clean it's still a fucking big l but it's like you can't like bro being in life in prison

05:14:02.840 life in prison but i can get pussy

05:14:06.520 ah fuck bro i mean that's such a bad it's like the two scenarios like the scenario is so bad

05:14:12.920 does she have large labia that's what i want she got she got if she's clean and she has large labia

05:14:21.320 like oh but she fucked the other inmates oh that's not like uh oh

05:14:30.120 we got i'm gonna quote tupac here i'm gonna quote tupac we gotta go back to the old school penitentiary

05:14:36.840 days and just jack off

05:14:41.880 was that an actual quote yeah that is literally a quote from tupac i swear i'm not making that up

05:14:48.200 we gotta go back to the og penitentiary dates and just start jacking off

05:14:54.120 i swear to god that's a tupac quote not not from a song lyric he was just talking to the camera

05:15:00.920 okay does that mean like uh they're like we're chasing okay here's the con here's the

05:15:06.040 context here's the context of the tupac quote he's talking about how

05:15:12.280 he says something along the lines of when

05:15:16.120 bitches his the i would never say this but i'm just quoting tupac when bitches get horny

05:15:22.040 n-words die bitches horny n-words die watch at every funeral it's because there was a

05:15:29.000 bitch that was horny the night before that's why that's why i think we gotta go back to the og

05:15:34.200 penitentiary days and start jacking off we gotta say fuck these bitches man because

05:15:43.320 i think i got it pretty good but she is a walking petri dish only woman you'll ever get

05:15:50.680 keep in mind that that can be bad for you when the other inmates find out you turned down a woman

05:15:55.800 oh true damn uh this is a good one yeah

05:16:03.880 so she's like oh and she's fucking other dudes at the same time

05:16:07.480 fuck dude you would nah bro yeah no no no no if like even if i'm in prison and i ain't got any other

05:16:15.640 chance at pussy if she's like fucking other inmates at the same time yeah i mean no it's

05:16:23.320 no i don't think i could do it to be honest

05:16:29.080 just i just go back to og penitentiary days and start jacking off all the time

05:16:35.480 what's your jerk off material in prison huh what's your jerk off material in prison largely i i'm

05:16:42.440 actually impressed that i think i got that pretty much pretty close to verbatim and i've only seen

05:16:48.040 that video like three fucking times here let's just can you can you find it nick go uh youtube

05:16:56.600 tupac shakur jerkin off no i'm just kidding um tupac on women sure fuck it why not uh

05:17:07.800 yeah

05:17:13.320 so sorry calutronic no i'm not i i don't think i don't think i could do it bruv i don't think i can

05:17:19.400 do it here let me read this seberg i wonder how many of girls will end up like the nfl players who got

05:17:24.280 big money for a short time then lost that opportunity you earning like you are now is not

05:17:28.680 forever this is a time you could be gaining skills you might find yourselves behind at 30. not me

05:17:37.800 now that brain has spit some bars can the rapper fire off some layers who's the rapper

05:17:44.520 who's the rapper you're the rapper i think you're the rapper i'm the rapper yeah you just spit bars

05:17:49.400 uh bro i'm not a rapper uh i'm not a rapper sorry uh do you have it nick he's like wearing a vest

05:18:03.480 he's wearing a vest you'll know if you see him wearing a vest

05:18:08.760 oh man we

05:18:09.400 okay i'll do chats um cam h i'm the physician who was simping for the dancer insta model lol i

05:18:19.000 appreciate you yeah yeah i recognize you which who was the dancer insta model was it last show

05:18:24.280 i don't know but hey cam h thank you so much for your support man thank you thank you

05:18:27.960 stevo girls are so delusional nowadays they don't care about personality or anything all they care about

05:18:32.440 is money change my mind it's hard to find someone who isn't a 30 foe

05:18:35.720 do you guys have a response to this i care about personality there's always exceptions to rules i

05:18:46.040 don't i don't just care about money no like only fans for me is just like kind of like a stepping

05:18:51.000 stool it's not something i want to do for the rest of my life here i actually want to be a sex therapist

05:18:55.720 you want to be a sex therapist what would how would you therapize is that a word i i didn't i

05:19:02.200 don't know if i wanted to help uh kids with like sexual trauma or if i actually want to be a sex

05:19:06.280 therapist and um uh sorry or if i wanted to um be a sex therapist for like couples and stuff

05:19:18.120 sex therapist yeah what does a sex therapist do um they help people with their sexual troubles and

05:19:24.840 needs it's like i think the girls that um working the bordello they were saying that like couples come

05:19:30.840 to them and they give them sex therapy by would you your clients literally tell me why i met with

05:19:36.360 my i like have a financial advisor now and i met with him and i walked in and i had my wisdom teeth

05:19:41.480 it just got pulled out i was so swollen he comes in he's wearing like these fucking cowboy boots he's

05:19:45.480 this tall country guy and i was like oh my god and i tell my dad about it my dad was like mckenna

05:19:50.760 do not fuck your financial advisor i was like oh my god he's so hot though he was totally he loved me

05:20:03.160 stop it get some help get some help

05:20:08.280 what i liked that one let

05:20:11.000 why is it taking so long that's wrong

05:20:13.640 uh here let me read this grid one motorsports must truly suck knowing you're not being paid for

05:20:21.320 sex or real companionship but to leave probably almost as bad as knowing that you and your time

05:20:25.320 is not priceless with an expiration date

05:20:30.920 ladies what does that mean but to leave ladies

05:20:37.640 oh okay here's the last thing um what's everybody's body count

05:20:43.640 i don't even fucking know 75 plus right is something something like that like around 75 for

05:20:50.920 sure bobby count okay like 14 five girls 14 guys okay i won't say publicly less than 10 more than 10 less

05:21:02.360 13. i'm proud of you thanks for saying because you were hesitant

05:21:09.640 yeah yeah less than 15. i choose to share that information with who i'm intimate with okay

05:21:19.160 about five women

05:21:21.960 oh why didn't she get the less than 10 more than 10 question what

05:21:29.000 she uh well whatever go ahead maddie oh

05:21:32.040 yeah they know they know they know okay um i'm gonna wrap up maddie's gonna do like a five minute

05:21:39.000 after show if any of you want to say hi to maddie and kick it kind of chill um

05:21:45.240 let's see hold on uh i think i got caught up on chats let me just double check

05:21:50.040 oh shit okay uh okay i'll get it really quick jay lion going around the table if you're on the first

05:21:56.920 date with someone and they say they will never go down on you will there be a second date no

05:22:00.760 i thought you hold no you said you don't like it i said some sometimes i do sometimes i want it

05:22:07.320 i thought you you were like i don't really care i mean i'm a giver too but i sometimes i like it so

05:22:13.400 i feel like that'd be a no oh all right that's that's fine uh no yes no it's a deal breaker if

05:22:21.000 a guy won't go down on you if someone that's the hill you die on during a date says that then like i

05:22:25.960 said that trickles down into a lot of other things yeah but it's not just like super sexual

05:22:30.120 yeah that yeah that tells me a lot about a lot of things okay bill burger don't hit me up

05:22:40.840 i'd go on a second date oh i i don't care

05:22:49.720 sorry brian calutronic is my tech company name in reference to the calutrons used to separate

05:22:53.720 uranium uranium 235 i forgot to change it for the soup chat what about if she threatens to beat

05:22:58.680 you until you say yes bro that's like that's like essay dude uh

05:23:10.200 i guess you're gonna get that you have to say yes brahma get train i'm just gonna put in a what's

05:23:14.760 it called one of the notes a slip what are they called the a kite or no it's not the kite i don't

05:23:20.680 know i've no i'll just transfer fucking to a different i don't know i'll transfer somewhere

05:23:27.480 different holding a different cell block uh okay let's see here okay i'm not gonna how would i snitch

05:23:35.560 i'd just be like yo my life is in danger uh okay so all right thank you guys uh last call hit the like

05:23:45.800 button please on your way out we'll do a five minute after show with matt after after show with

05:23:49.640 madison thanks for tuning in tonight you can have been to anyone in the world but you are here with

05:23:53.000 me i appreciate that thank you so much to everyone who so generously super chats donates supports the

05:23:59.080 show your patronage uh really means the world thank you to the wonderful panel here thank you guys for

05:24:03.880 coming any women who want to be on the show and you can make it to santa barbara dm whatever on

05:24:09.160 instagram we will be live again sunday 5 p.m pacific got got a really good lineup i'm pretty

05:24:15.560 sure you never know sometimes people bail we're supposed to have uh well whatever uh got a really

05:24:21.400 good lineup for next week be sure to tune in sunday 5 p.m pacific uh oh sevens in the chat madison

05:24:27.400 is going to continue doing a brief after show for five ten minutes and then we're going to proper wrap

05:24:31.720 uh we'll see you next time good night guys oh sevens in the chat see you guys um so for those

05:24:38.680 of you who need to leave you're welcome to leave if you want we'll we'll do madison i'm gonna put if

05:24:44.120 you want i'll put you in mixed seat and if you want i'll put or actually i'll put you in mixed seat

05:24:49.640 okay if you want to stay for the next five ten minutes okay cool yeah i'm gonna jump out i'm so

05:24:54.760 hungry okay bye y'all goodbye i know i just have to wait to see who's sick who's staying and who's

05:25:03.800 leaving do we it doesn't matter no yeah you can say if you want are you going to stay yes what

05:25:18.360 uh if should we move everyone like this way or

05:25:22.200 yeah i'm joining oh okay cool then i'll just keep i'll just keep it like this

05:25:35.240 i've always wondered is only fans just like is it like instagram like do you kind of just so

05:25:42.520 yeah it's like a there's a feed and you can post like your feed pics like instagram but then there's

05:25:49.160 like your messages so like your dms like your dms and that's where all your content goes to so your

05:25:53.560 content isn't posted on your of feed it's through messages and you basically have to buy it and there

05:25:59.080 that's where your messages go and like all the content and stuff like that and you can also do

05:26:03.080 stories you can post on your story like instagram and then you can also go live is it just like like

05:26:08.360 a big explore page kind of like how do you reel people so yeah on you there's like your home

05:26:15.400 page and those are people that you're subscribed to so you can see all their content and stuff

05:26:20.520 like that or like some people will pop up with like kind of like not like sponsored but like

05:26:25.240 suggested yeah stuff like uh and there's like people there's people on of who like don't do just

05:26:30.600 sexual content they do like cooking shows and stuff like that like that's the stuff that's

05:26:33.560 suggested yeah they yeah oh i did not yeah they'll do like yoga and stuff like that oh cool but yeah

05:26:40.920 i don't think we like went fully around the table for the question that i asked earlier

05:26:45.560 earlier but i guess i was just asking if you had a sugar daddy like what's the weirdest request you've

05:26:49.720 gotten but what's the weirdest request you've gotten from just a guy put it back on that in 15 minutes

05:26:57.000 what do you want me to go like that yeah like that

05:27:04.200 but what's like the weirdest request you've gotten from a guy in general

05:27:12.280 i've never i had a guy ask if i would eat his butt that was what just to eat his butt not for anything

05:27:19.400 oh which was kind of weird um but i've never really done anything for money so yeah like sexual

05:27:27.720 has a guy ever asked you to eat his ass yes you've done it yes they asked me to put a finger in his

05:27:34.520 ass too and i was like oh hell no i'm not doing that i told that's where i cut it off like i'm a

05:27:39.080 freaky girl but i'm not doing that you're not gonna put i'm not doing that i'm not eating someone's

05:27:43.800 ass and i also think it's weird that a guy likes ass play i'm like i feel like i think when guys like

05:27:50.120 ass stuff it makes them a little gay it it does like if guys literally this guy no this guy so

05:27:57.160 like my situationship he literally he he used to love to do anal and i finally called him out and

05:28:02.520 i was like why do you i was like that's kind of sus yeah and then now that we like hook up and stuff

05:28:06.680 he like i asked him i was like why don't we do anal anymore he's like well when you said that i like

05:28:10.280 started to think about it he was he was like you're kind of right like it is so i was like yeah because

05:28:14.200 it's like not everyone has a vagina but everyone has an asshole so yeah you know it could be like

05:28:18.520 face down and i slept you could not even care who it is you know i agree have you ever eaten a guy's

05:28:24.360 ass on that question yeah no problem wait so you have kids right i do how many kids you have i have

05:28:34.680 two do you find it i don't know we have a lot of women like around your age on and um they say it's

05:28:41.880 like a little harder for dating but i always wondered why exactly it is harder to date at an older

05:28:48.360 age especially when you have kids like what do you find difficult about it well because everything

05:28:54.200 changes your standards have to change so now um who i would choose in a man is completely different

05:28:59.400 than who i would choose if i was single or i didn't have children um i i kind of have a requirement of

05:29:06.920 like the guy must have kids now because you know i don't know with the screaming and the craziness like

05:29:12.840 i feel like they need to understand my lifestyle i was just gonna ask like would you prefer to date

05:29:18.440 a guy with kids i probably would not date a guy without kids okay yeah because they already kind

05:29:24.440 of know how it is to be with kids i feel like because like they they understand like what you

05:29:29.160 like like are you saying like you would date a guy with kids yeah i would probably only yeah because

05:29:33.640 they would understand and they like know how to take care of kids as well so like if you ever

05:29:37.720 introduce them to your kids like it would be like easier like they would know what to do and stuff

05:29:41.880 exactly yeah how long does it take to introduce someone to your kids and how do you like kind of

05:29:46.840 weigh it out to decide that's where the step you want to take with them yeah um so with my last

05:29:52.280 relationship he already knew my kids because we were friends from like teenagers so in that situation it

05:29:57.800 was a little bit quick um but if it was just like a random guy it would probably be like six months

05:30:03.000 to a year before they would know my kids got it that makes sense oh it's so close

05:30:16.600 how do you guys like meet people because i hate the apps but also i don't like going out that much

05:30:21.480 i don't i don't like the apps either i meet people when i go out i rarely go out my friends kind of

05:30:27.000 make me go out but the only clubs i've been going to are like gay clubs so it's like i don't really

05:30:31.320 meet like guys but like i haven't even met girls which i like want to meet more girls and stuff but

05:30:35.560 i don't think you necessarily have to like be on dating apps or go out like into like clubs or like

05:30:41.240 just the nightlife in general to meet someone like you have like hobbies and stuff like yeah dance and

05:30:46.840 like if you go to school like you know stuff like that like yeah you're definitely gonna meet people

05:30:51.960 and get like then like once you meet like say like in dance like i have like these these my girlfriends

05:30:56.920 and stuff like that like i'm probably gonna hang out with them and then they're probably gonna introduce

05:31:00.920 me to their friends and like you know yeah kind of it's like a cycle like i met my boyfriend pretty

05:31:05.640 organically i met him like on the beach so like you can really meet anyone anywhere you don't necessarily

05:31:10.920 have to like go out to meet the person of your dreams but are you said you're religious right

05:31:17.720 like i always say that if you are religious you're only gonna find the man you want if you're like

05:31:23.880 going to church going to groups like that this that have like the same exact morals as you

05:31:29.400 and that align with you i can't do churches it's it's weird i don't like um the preachiness of it and

05:31:38.280 you have to follow this and do this and follow by this i believe more in having a relationship

05:31:44.840 you know and then following a straight religion i do i am currently reading the christian bible and i

05:31:50.920 believe in god and jesus christ so that's why i just classify myself as christian but i don't

05:31:55.800 necessarily believe in organized religion interesting it's weird but you said like you would want a guy that

05:32:04.040 follows their religion and their teachings right yeah do you still follow i follow a lot of christian

05:32:12.120 beliefs um but like a lot of people i wear the cross not because jesus died for our sins but because

05:32:19.400 to remind myself to have forgiveness because jesus died for the sins of those who killed him too

05:32:24.360 uh so it's kind of like a constant reminder to have forgiveness so like that's kind of why i don't

05:32:29.880 really like organized religion is because i feel like the bible you watch the same movie and with somebody

05:32:35.880 and you both can take away different parts from it and i think the bible is very similar i feel like

05:32:40.520 it's more of a telephone to communicate with god and it opens that doorway but i don't think it's a hundred

05:32:46.280 percent long i don't know why it's playing that's weird to hear myself i was like i was like my heart

05:32:56.760 dropped in the second i was like what stop looking at my phone i don't know why it's playing who is that

05:33:03.240 girl on your phone i don't know just kidding okay i just wanted to out you like that

05:33:13.640 all right let's wrap up um was it a riveting conversation chat was that a riveting chat did you

05:33:22.680 like the five minute after show

05:33:32.760 nope

05:33:35.560 they didn't like us talking about butt stuff what the frick

05:33:40.040 wait that's yeah we went from anal to like christianity yeah

05:33:43.160 69 69 l for the pot needy triggered brian the fuck are we talking about what the

05:33:53.720 fuck are we talking about what the fuck does distro kid have to do with this fucking conversation

05:34:00.440 was this last pod no this was like a couple episodes distro kid wait i actually think i

05:34:06.680 saw a clip of that on like tick tock or something wait there's a clip of me losing my you were like

05:34:12.680 what the fuck are we talking about what the fuck are we talking about how does this have to do with

05:34:18.760 anything that we're talking about no there's i recall there was a girl sitting there

05:34:23.560 fuck i'm trying to remember no it was the one where josie yeah she brought it oh josie i don't know

05:34:30.840 she started talking about something and you were like what the fuck are we doing yo lpe i wish

05:34:39.080 oh here it is curtis underscallion donated 69 dollars crazy dog lady i understand exactly where

05:34:46.760 you are coming from i have a son too and i wouldn't ever see the lady when i'm with my son i used to be

05:34:53.480 freaked out if i met a chick with a kid but now i would prefer someone who does have one maddie rules

05:35:00.840 match matchmaker you know matchmaker no maybe that's like the man in your dreams

05:35:10.520 someone can somebody send me the clip of the moment can somebody find me at the timestamp where i

05:35:15.880 lost my fucking mind

05:35:19.720 yeah we could do it let's do it wait can please somebody find me of the fucking timestamp it was

05:35:24.760 the episode what two episodes ago right josie and um i forgot josie josie's like a long time

05:35:33.320 supporter she's always in the chat but like i was tilted to answer lpe though i was fucking tilted

05:35:40.440 at the beginning of the show for like 10 minutes and then i i loosened up i lined up a bit um it's so

05:35:47.720 unfortunate because the previous show i was like super chill like last show super chill and then

05:35:52.680 yeah i've never seen you chill in the beginning of your podcast never seen me chill no i'm always

05:35:58.600 like this guy needs to meditate before his shows or something i fucking do though i literally

05:36:03.800 fucking do the show's like are you have you found it nick oh yeah kind of like the words that literally

05:36:14.760 came out of my mouth i feel like i could find it it's so funny people are always like be vulnerable

05:36:25.400 be vulnerable but like when i'm an emotional mess people are it's not at three minutes into the

05:36:32.520 episode no it's not are you talking three hours 39 i think it's three hours 39

05:36:42.440 um

05:36:47.160 do i want i don't know if i want to pull it up that episode was a

05:36:50.280 fucking mess

05:36:53.960 do you have like a favorite episode gorlok episode

05:36:59.800 um that that's a good one some of the early episodes were pretty cool too like

05:37:04.600 do you have the correct episode pulled up first i remember like the discussion three three hour 39

05:37:16.840 minutes skip to there what got you to uh want to change because you were doing like social

05:37:23.640 experiments on the beach originally right or no oh i mean yeah i used to do like pranks and social

05:37:29.640 experiments and stuff and i took a long hiatus and then i was debating what i want to do i kind of

05:37:35.480 started doing pranks again but it wasn't i i didn't know if i wanted to do that from a creative

05:37:41.480 perspective it's a lot of work youtube demonetized all the prank videos so it was like

05:37:48.600 well do i want to spend like 70 hours to make like i was like the few videos i did when i came back

05:37:54.760 i would work like 100 hours plus making a video and that'd make like 100 bucks i was like this is

05:38:01.400 not worth it um like so i was kind of like well cannot i'd like to transition to doing something else

05:38:10.920 so uh are you searching for it madison yeah i think i like i'm close to finding three hours 39 minutes

05:38:17.160 let's let's pull it up real suppression real misogyny is not giving someone a seat to even talk

05:38:27.960 and and and and literally i'm so sick of like of media being like that and it's just like i've been

05:38:33.560 in media for years and it's so hard be you know having to been a sexual i don't want to yeah we'll

05:38:39.080 move on but anyways yeah i'm a musician you know yeah yes and i you know how it is it's like they look

05:38:44.840 down upon that later hide the x i don't do that the search yeah that go ahead they stole my audio

05:38:52.120 fingerprint so distrokid stole my audio fingerprint yeah took down like my stuff is still there they're

05:38:58.520 stealing their royalties that they owe me still by the way don't use distrokid the the are we talking

05:39:05.160 what are we talking about what the what does distrokid have to do with this

05:39:11.880 fucking conversation let me finish i'm like onto a hot obstacle i get suppressed too yes

05:39:18.520 does it have anything to do with you and i'm not suppressed here i have a mic here i have a seat here

05:39:26.280 i am not suppressed here but i get what oh my god not like you're not suppressed

05:39:34.040 that's not what does distrokid have to do

05:39:40.520 somebody clipped that i think so you saw that on tiktok i swear frankie and i were scrolling through

05:39:46.200 tiktok and he was just like he was like do you remember this clip of brian absolutely

05:39:52.680 fucking losing it and i just like yeah i think someone might have been based um

05:40:00.520 but seriously josiane what the fuck were you talking about dude josiane you just like go into

05:40:06.200 these non-sequitur like totally unrelated things you'll just like we'll be talking about something

05:40:12.120 and you'll just like go into some totally random fucking tangent

05:40:16.600 we were talking about some suppression and she brought up distrokid well that girl over there

05:40:23.000 also goes on tangents and then josiane like doubles down on the tangent and is like i don't think

05:40:30.600 that girl is super like i don't know i feel like what she says is like she's a little in head in the

05:40:36.360 clouds like yeah i love her lauren she's great yeah she's great a little bit ahead in the clouds but

05:40:41.400 she's a very nice she's a very nice no she's very nice girl very nice she's one of the sweetest

05:40:47.000 people we've had on the show okay we're gonna wrap up um we're gonna fucking wrap up does anybody have

05:40:52.920 anything last to say before we wrap up here you got nothing no you got fucking nothing how are you

05:40:59.880 gonna come on my podcast and say fucking nothing you think i'm funny yeah you think i'm funny yeah

05:41:08.760 what am i a clown to you oh i'm serious okay okay all right it's my joe pesci

05:41:18.120 here let me read these and then we'll wrap uh triggered brian 339 oh these are gonna take

05:41:23.240 fucking forever to get there um it won't take too long brian did you read this one from grid one

05:41:32.680 the snow white snow white what sort of work do you do in finance uh i do sales

05:41:37.320 that was a one more dancer okay we got lpe coming in loose pussy energy donated 69

05:41:48.840 alpha brian triggered brian was too lit should have put that energy on that destiny librarian troll

05:41:56.040 she came with an agenda to disrupt and distract never invite her again yeah that was it if i had

05:42:05.240 a male backup it would have been okay but dave rubin one he had to dip he left early which we didn't

05:42:12.200 know that was going to be the case and i had literally no backup so uh yeah like because the

05:42:19.240 thing with the show i'm like pretty much 1v7 like it's a 1v7 half most of the time um so

05:42:25.640 yeah by the way lpe is this name inspired by my statements about loose pussy energy is that is

05:42:34.040 that from me thank you sir i mean it's a term that's been around you know but uh and is lit

05:42:39.880 a good thing is too lit is that a good thing i think it means you're like too lit or super no i

05:42:45.800 don't think it means you're high like lit is like good right yeah that's lit it's good yeah yeah i was

05:42:51.880 too lit i'm dumb i don't know how brian's favorite one is when layla was on nah no no no no no oh that

05:42:59.640 was annoying i made my boss watch that because like yeah for sexual harassment training yeah

05:43:06.440 she was we were like so confused to how that was okay because if it was like flipped everybody

05:43:13.160 would be pissed and it got like it was funny for a few seconds and then it just got really

05:43:17.880 fucking annoying i mean maddie can attest to this what it's not just like it wasn't just on the show

05:43:25.160 too like before the show even starts she's on my dick is she like trying to catch you up she like

05:43:31.960 walks in the door and she's like hi baby like how are you doing damn yeah that's exactly what

05:43:39.000 she and it's i was like i'm i keep brushing it off but like at a point it's kind of like okay

05:43:44.280 relax you know like i can be playful with it for a bit but after a while it's just like you know

05:43:49.400 it's so i mean she's obviously fucking joke like i'm not naive it's like she's trolling she just wants

05:43:56.360 like a viral clip or whatever go ahead i had a dream that you and layla like

05:44:01.480 actually got together it was in my dreams you're dreaming about me and layla

05:44:06.040 fucking what the well you said got together like you started dating check that out madison's like

05:44:13.640 fantasizing about me what was that what what was what was the dream

05:44:20.920 it was at like it was at like a party like at a house that i remember from my high school so random

05:44:28.040 and then we were all like working for some reason that's why you were there yeah and then layla was

05:44:33.240 like on the show and then you like you were like i have to tell you something like i i think i'm like

05:44:39.080 getting i think i'm gonna like take her out and stuff oh i came to you yeah and then you guys

05:44:45.480 tell me you guys just started dating and i was like okay like who am i to tell you like what you

05:44:51.160 shouldn't do love okay yeah it was crazy though have any of you guys ever dreams about me

05:44:59.720 no you haven't you're making it sound like i'm dreaming about no i did dream about

05:45:06.360 i'm not dream really for you wow rude rude all right why are you standing nick what do you do

05:45:18.280 okay that's a okay last one that's a brian bring on matt walsh brett cooper casey zander we're working

05:45:23.640 i think we're gonna i'm in touch with the team at daily wire we're we're gonna see about brett

05:45:29.000 cooper i think we'll eventually get her on uh i will say this i don't want to reveal end of the

05:45:37.800 month november not this month we do have a daily wire talent coming at the end of november

05:45:47.720 that's right can somebody do a dab really quick do that go look at that bam daily wire dab

05:45:55.160 dwd okay all right we're gonna wrap up uh same as usual guys we'll see you on sunday got some

05:46:04.120 salt dude sunday's show i booked some pretty is i think it's gonna be really good so be sure to tune

05:46:10.520 in be sure to tune in lads all right guys uh we're gonna wrap up there oh seven's in the chat oh seven's

05:46:17.000 in the chat be sure to follow maddie's uh only fans again just kidding um

05:46:20.840 um yo clay thank you for the hundred wait before you oh wait too late oh no no okay you didn't stop

05:46:28.280 streaming yeah let me just double check okay we're good all right oh seven's in chat see you guys good

05:46:33.560 night

Whatever Podcast - November 03, 2023

She Keeps A LIST Of The Men She Sleeps With (100+)？! ｜ Dating Talk #114

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