Whatever Podcast - Rude Girl KICKED OUT! She STABBED Her Blind Date For REVENGE？!

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00:02:22.340 further what are you doing over there what's that i was feeding my tamagotchi you're feeding your

00:02:29.260 tamagotchi yeah when we explicitly told you before the podcast not to be on your phone not to be

00:02:35.120 texting sorry do you think that's the appropriate time to be doing that i bet what do you mean you're

00:02:41.640 bad how bad did you did you forget the pre-show instructions that nick went over about not being

00:02:48.400 on your phone it's not my phone

00:02:50.600 it's not on your phone it's not a phone

00:02:56.100 does that diminish the degree to which it would be disrespectful to be doing that in the midst of a

00:03:07.540 conversation okay here's your phone looking at your phone versus looking at your tamagotchi

00:03:14.740 are you just going to take no accountability or are you just going to sit there like a dork

00:03:21.140 i said my bad okay do you realize though if if we were having a conversation and you were on your

00:03:27.800 tamagotchi while i was talking to you that would be very disrespectful you weren't talking to me

00:03:33.140 i'm i'm in the middle of doing the podcast

00:03:37.000 if anybody here at the table is talking about anything and you're on your phone that would be

00:03:43.960 rude it's why we explicitly told you before the show to not be on your phone now if you want to do

00:03:48.680 some loophole bullshit about oh it's not a phone it's a tamagotchi in practice it's this exact same

00:03:54.060 principle okay so can you do me a favor and put your tamagotchi somewhere else

00:03:59.840 so i can continue on with the show thank you without further ado we're going to have the

00:04:03.940 guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age and occupation go ahead hello i am

00:04:08.760 nila shake i'm 19 years old and i run a professional marketing agency

00:04:13.100 hi my name is nika i'm 23 and i'm an author and a singer

00:04:19.660 i'm waifu delilah i'm 19 and i'm an only fans creator

00:04:24.700 i'm l swing i'm 19 and i go to sbcc community college

00:04:31.200 i'm tiffany i go to ucsb i'm majoring in political science and minoring in philosophy

00:04:37.300 age 18 i'm noelle i'm 23 and i'm a scientific analyst

00:04:43.020 my name is madison i'm 18 i'm a full-time student at san aborba city college studying business

00:04:48.680 and i work full-time i work here i'm a host at a bar and i babysit

00:04:53.380 okay um going around the table once more please tell us your current uh relationship status so

00:05:02.720 are you single talking stage situationship friends with benefits relationship married

00:05:07.280 polycule sex cult harem um if you're single how long have you been in have you been single

00:05:13.380 what's your longest relationship go ahead i am in a relationship and it's been about a year now

00:05:19.600 okay is that that's your longest relationship you've been in that's my only relationship only

00:05:24.400 relationship okay cool go ahead um i'm currently single i've had situationships in the past but um

00:05:31.460 given my background it is kind of hard to be dating so okay we'll get into that a little bit

00:05:37.420 later on in the show what about you or sorry so you're single yeah currently yeah okay longest

00:05:42.400 relationship um i wouldn't count it as a relationship because what's what's like the

00:05:49.400 longest period of time you've seen somebody a year one year okay by the way what just because i feel

00:05:57.020 extra uh confrontational today you were gonna come with a friend what happened there um yeah like

00:06:06.380 we confirmed last night and i thought it would be a really cool podcast so kind of disappointed she

00:06:12.180 didn't show up but hey i'm here you are here she uh and we had confirmed with her too oh okay she

00:06:20.140 let me see we sent her all the show info i yesterday i sent a reminder to everybody see you tomorrow at 4

00:06:28.080 p.m for the podcast she responded see ya at 4 15 p.m when she's supposed to be here at 4 p.m she said

00:06:34.500 i sent her asking her eta and she says i'm running too late had to get my car battery checked

00:06:41.700 yeah and she told me she had an appointment so she told us two different things but it's just

00:06:46.520 if if you know you have to be somewhere at 4 p.m 4 15 and it's not your fault it's your friend's fault

00:06:52.400 4 15 you typically you try to courtesy and etiquette would dictate you try to let somebody know

00:07:00.520 in advance that you can't make it right definitely for the show and especially for me as well just

00:07:06.780 because i wanted her and like i wanted her to be on the show with me because if she she knew she was

00:07:11.520 running late as of probably even before 4 p.m if you know you're going to be late even like and this

00:07:18.140 kind of relates to dating and relationships if you're going on the first date with somebody

00:07:21.740 and you know you're running late at 350 you're supposed to be there for you should say hey

00:07:26.540 sorry i'm running late but in any case uh yeah um rude on her behalf go ahead um i'm in a

00:07:35.640 relationship how long have you been in the relationship six months is that your longest

00:07:41.180 relationship okay what about you i'm single and i'm fresh out of a three and a half year relationship

00:07:50.660 yeah how fresh when how new is the i would say three months ago we broke up but it was definitely

00:07:59.980 interesting like dating someone for that long yeah so it's like uh was it a high school relationship

00:08:05.260 he was you're 19 right yeah yeah i mean he was in college because he was an actor

00:08:10.420 so he graduated the audio is muted hello

00:08:14.120 okay yeah he he's an actor so he was out of school really early okay uh so

00:08:25.560 three months

00:08:28.600 freshly new breakup three months ago 3.5 year relationship yeah why did it end

00:08:36.800 i feel like i feel like i needed to be like an individual i don't know i feel like that's hard

00:08:43.560 when you're consistently with someone for so long i feel like your identities kind of

00:08:49.060 clash you know what i'm saying yeah long distance it it wasn't long distance until i moved up here

00:08:56.380 last year and then it became long distance for that period but i mainly went down to like la every

00:09:04.220 weekend to see him pretty much he never came up here for so it's 3.5 year relationship for

00:09:10.720 how long of that relationship was it a long distance relationship a year yeah just a year

00:09:16.540 and do you think that's what precipitated the breakup was that it became long distance

00:09:21.320 that that in a number of reasons okay yeah did he cheat on you in the beginning in the beginning

00:09:30.440 not during the long distance phase okay yeah that yeah tea so you've been single for three months

00:09:37.400 yeah any rebounds any other love interests i mean there was an immediate rebound right after

00:09:43.440 like immediate and then and then i i don't know i i had only been with him my entire like childhood

00:09:51.860 pretty much so i feel like the hookup culture that i was like the streets actually you know

00:09:59.120 the streets the streets were not meant for me i feel like but i'm currently in them so i'm trying

00:10:05.080 to get out of the streets you're not made for the streets i'm not made for the streets but you

00:10:09.640 attempted to live in the streets yeah i was like i was you know chilling in there for a while and i was

00:10:16.340 like nah it's i'm i'm trying to get cuffed before christmas like you're trying to get cuffed before

00:10:21.360 christmas i need my christmas gifts any prospects or there is a prospect but i it's not good it's

00:10:30.360 not a good prospect it's not it's not what do you mean it's getting him no it's definitely like a

00:10:36.760 situation ship but like it's not shipping if you know what i mean it's a situation ship but it's not

00:10:43.200 shipping no you don't ship it no does he ship it neither of you no it's like it's weird it's weird

00:10:50.460 we it's we're both very in different places i i would say i'm way more mature and like i'm very

00:10:58.740 relationship oriented but this this man is not he's very not so we'll just see i i need to get on

00:11:08.080 other prospects you need to get up but are you when's the last time you saw this guy this morning

00:11:14.080 what you think he's watching the podcast no i no i would not tell him that i was how long have you

00:11:22.380 been seeing this guy i would say like a month a month or two or two or three yeah like two months

00:11:31.820 because you said the 3.5 year relationship ended three months ago so two months ago is it pretty

00:11:37.760 uh i would say like a month and a half it's pretty quick turnaround right after yeah okay well i usually

00:11:44.200 have like a three month intermission before i get intermission okay yeah no that's that's a good term

00:11:50.400 yeah i have a little intermission period before like you know wanting to be with someone else but

00:11:55.680 i'm like you know i feel like i need to be single until i'm like 25 until you're 25 well you're 19 now

00:12:00.880 that's six six years no i'm lying i definitely like 21 oh 21 yeah that's or before christmas or

00:12:07.800 before christmas yeah was that cuffing season yeah okay so question the guy who you're currently

00:12:15.040 talking to had you met him while you were still dating your boyfriend no no no no not not saying

00:12:21.480 you did anything romantic with him but did you were you aware of him did you know him no while you

00:12:26.200 were still in the relationship okay no how did you meet him on tinder uh dating at no just like out

00:12:33.180 like just out like an iv yeah okay yeah beach you don't know a party you're blacked out um got your

00:12:42.880 number blacked out who's this yeah i mean i think it's because we're like kind of meshed in the same

00:12:49.240 front group type thing so that's what happened yeah okay got it uh okay so but that's a wrap

00:12:56.800 that's done donezo even though you saw him today considering that i saw him this morning

00:13:01.360 it is not donezo but like i need to be donezo you need to be donezo i need to you want it to be

00:13:07.140 donezo what's stopping you what's stopping me from being donezo i i don't know i just it's nice

00:13:15.120 having one consistent person to be with if you know what i mean so comfort yeah okay i would say

00:13:22.940 that is he is he seeing other women not that i know is it exclusive no not exclusive it's not

00:13:31.300 are you seeing other guys like do you have a roster you know a lot of yeah we have the roster

00:13:36.580 you both have a roster so it's basically like an open relationship yeah pretty much so you're not

00:13:43.740 single no i'm fully single is this confusing no it makes it should make sense to me um no i feel

00:13:52.540 like this makes sense but like okay so roster maybe uh okay you got a roster what is there anybody else

00:13:59.620 on the roster yeah there's what are we talking i would just say there's like you got a team no i

00:14:05.780 would just say there's like two other two other like prospects prospects yeah okay two other so two

00:14:12.220 so three people on the roster yeah okay so you have a main piece and two side bitches

00:14:18.920 the side bitch though just this oh sorry yeah the side piece actually just told me he was celibate

00:14:25.880 um what yeah and he was yeah so now he's celibate so i think that's done with him already though

00:14:35.860 yeah so that was kind of awkward did you turned him celibate that's what i know like he fully told

00:14:41.340 me afterwards that he was read a book and now he's turning celibate like right after did he read

00:14:47.200 i don't know i should ask could you ask him i'm very was it i've no Bible or something i don't think

00:14:55.060 so i've no idea he read a book and now he's celibate yeah he read a book and he's like it really

00:14:58.560 changed my perspective on life like i think i need to be celibate and i was like okay question

00:15:04.360 how soon okay so

00:15:06.340 what was the period of time that elapsed from the last time you hooked up with him and his period of

00:15:14.140 celibacy like was it the day after you hooked up no it was like when we were putting on our clothes

00:15:19.780 wait huh like it was like oh it was no it was like literally seconds later like okay so hold on

00:15:29.260 it was you have sex yes you have sex and then he immediately after sex says within like five minutes

00:15:36.100 yes says he's like oh i read a book by the way and i just like i'm not gonna drink or have sex

00:15:41.560 anymore have sex anymore have when was this uh like a week ago no no no it was like a month ago

00:15:50.360 oh a month ago he's not really have you hung out with him since no oh so he's off the roster then i

00:15:56.240 think he is off the roster i would say he's off what if he what if his celibacy was broken could he

00:16:00.480 come back yes so you like him no you don't like him i like him for certain reasons what are the

00:16:06.080 certain reasons that you like him um just for funds for when you say fun do you mean sex yeah

00:16:13.320 just for funds but it's unfortunate because he's celibate that's kind of unfortunate for you

00:16:20.300 he's gonna be off the roster he's off the yeah did he still want to like kick it with you platonically

00:16:26.020 friend i i mean that was the plan but we ran into each other at goodwill like two weeks ago and he was

00:16:33.240 like super weird with me so i was like maybe not friends or n so what you don't know the book

00:16:41.680 i should have honestly i should have asked wait madison did you have a question for her no i was

00:16:47.980 just saying like he really just had to get the last fuck in no that's what i thought like didn't

00:16:52.480 you know that before he wanted to fuck you i don't know but like that day he had done all the things

00:16:59.120 that he said he was not going to do because of this book and told me directly after it was it was

00:17:05.480 interesting i've never experienced anything like that it was so weird we need to know what the book

00:17:11.100 is i maybe do you have your phone on you right here i do could you just ask him about the book i think

00:17:17.100 you know maybe the girls can weigh in on this sure i think maybe he was over it that's kind of a good

00:17:25.920 way to get right like i'm celibate i don't want to have sex anymore that's a good way to get out of

00:17:30.860 a right i mean like i would just i would just rather like just not speak again do you know what

00:17:36.240 i mean like a little ghost like a ghost i like ghosting is so valid like if it is like if you

00:17:42.460 don't if you don't like someone anymore like you you don't need an explanation i don't need an

00:17:48.000 explanation of why you don't like me like i just what if he was testing you to see if you would stay

00:17:52.280 i oh no no no well going around the table really quick on this or actually hold on let me i want

00:17:59.400 to get the relationship status out of the way so i'll come back to the ghosting is it valid i'll ask

00:18:03.540 the table that um is it valid um so okay that there's so you got two on the roster basically you

00:18:11.960 had three but there's two yeah but i think the point was you were you were seeing three guys at the

00:18:17.140 same time is that no i can't do that no but you i was okay okay because you said i wait hold on you

00:18:26.240 said the last time you saw the guy was a month ago you've been seeing the main piece for two months

00:18:32.020 yeah so you were seeing them at the same time and then there's another one who we haven't heard about

00:18:36.720 but hold on grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars dude took post nut clarity to a

00:18:46.840 whole new level oh wow she is a perma human moved on as we should do you have a response to grid one

00:18:54.360 motorsports i don't even know what that means tbh so anyways um wait so i could never see i sexually

00:19:06.080 i can only see one person at a time but you so when i when i unsexually when when celibacy when

00:19:11.920 celibacy got cut off celibacy man when celibacy man he's got cut off he's i i was sexual with

00:19:18.340 with main piece main piece yeah main piece yeah i cannot do like the multiple were you talking to

00:19:23.660 them at the same time though maybe not sleeping with them but talking with i was only talking to

00:19:28.920 main piece only main piece yeah but you were the other guy the other guy was just a hookup guy

00:19:33.560 it wasn't like a relationship like well type thing when i say talking i like i mean you

00:19:38.040 while you were hooking up with celibacy man yeah man yeah were you

00:19:45.460 you were talking to main piece but not having sex with him yes you're talking to him yes did he

00:19:54.740 okay okay were you make wait were you like making him wait no main piece no it's just we

00:20:03.420 were getting to know each other it just didn't happen no yeah we were just getting to know each

00:20:07.060 other and like i genuinely yeah he didn't go for it like did you ever be like no no i want to wait

00:20:12.660 no oh but we just didn't end up doing it just never okay okay sure we just like it yeah no

00:20:21.080 yeah uh what about the third piece third piece is like um what do you call it he's like coming

00:20:31.660 up he's an upcomer he's like he's like he's like okay so main piece is gonna like die down

00:20:38.160 maybe and then this other guy's definitely gonna like be in the up up and coming race probably

00:20:44.940 because he's more realistic in terms of like he has you know a good job comes from a good family

00:20:52.720 could get me some nice gifts before christmas vibes i don't know so he's like better husband

00:21:02.160 material yeah but i'm i like sounds like better simp material to be honest yeah yeah you want

00:21:08.400 someone to simp for you yeah do you think i feel like when guys simp for me i find it really

00:21:13.920 unattractive for some reason i find it so attractive you do i feel like after they get to know me but if

00:21:21.020 they simp for me in the beginning i think it's so unattractive like it's just because it's like a

00:21:26.600 desperate look you know what i mean that's just really unattractive but once you get to know them

00:21:30.400 once you're in a relationship and they simp for you buy you gifts that i think that's really attractive

00:21:34.380 well i think there's simping in like a feminine way and then there's like simping in a masculine way

00:21:38.760 what is simping in a masculine way like pursuing you like asking you on dates like being bold

00:21:44.460 i mean i think that's interest i think there's like a difference between simping and interest

00:21:49.400 so true just asking you is just interest

00:21:52.520 okay um so there's main piece that's dying down this third guy he's on the rise but you you haven't

00:22:03.220 hooked up with him yet no yeah because i'm focusing on main piece i can't do it all i can't do it all

00:22:10.220 at the same time i'm really busy i don't have time to juggle like all those okay sure okay well we'll

00:22:16.720 come back to the ghosting thing um what about you i'm single slash talking stage because okay you've

00:22:22.880 been you were on the show like six weeks ago or something it was like end of september because you

00:22:29.160 you go to ucsb it was it's your freshman first first week here um ucsb number one party school in

00:22:37.660 the u.s how in the six week period since your last time on the show have you seen some shit have you

00:22:46.200 been in the trenches in the mean streets of santa barbara what have you seen

00:22:50.700 what have i seen just a party scene what do you mean that was under that was very underwhelming

00:22:58.280 um like okay maybe you hear you've heard some things from your girlfriends you haven't have you

00:23:04.340 dated any guys date dated no no no guys what about guys like coming trying to talk to you at parties

00:23:10.940 hit on you at parties i shut them all down you shut them all down do you uh ucsb again very big party

00:23:17.640 scene how how often do you go out to party would you say every weekend like thursday friday saturday

00:23:23.140 no or just friday saturday mostly for me just fridays but my roommates go out like thursday

00:23:29.740 fridays sometimes you do both days or just sometimes okay do you party you go to sbcc correct okay

00:23:36.900 do you party at all we come up here every weekend do you live in ivy or i live in like downtown sb yeah

00:23:44.500 okay got it um you come like do you go out friday saturday or maybe just we do we do like thursday

00:23:51.980 friday saturday here in ivy yeah okay but thursdays we stay local and then friday saturday we come up

00:23:59.000 here like you party somewhere downtown okay i see got it yeah so what you seen you reject all the dudes

00:24:08.560 that hit on you yeah why just i don't like them are none of them good looking or maybe they're good

00:24:15.660 looking no they're really good looking they're really good looking yeah there are good looking

00:24:18.560 guys everywhere if you go to dp okay yeah but but what um i don't like guys who party you hold on

00:24:28.920 you you party you fucking hypocrite yeah kind of you're out there too so it's like you're out there

00:24:40.240 i don't really like partying too much i just follow my roommates how many guys have okay cop out you've

00:24:46.460 like been here in the nightlife maybe like four or five really only four or five yeah geez

00:24:54.180 four or five i feel like that's a lot yeah a lot yeah she's been out partying every weekend for six

00:25:02.680 weeks that should be in the night no but they all genuinely try to talk that should be in the night

00:25:06.840 huh like they all genuinely maybe young guys just don't approach anymore probably because of like

00:25:11.620 dating apps and shit but um okay so you've rejected the four to five guys who've approached you

00:25:18.160 that's it yeah it's got to be more than that no i guess young guys don't approach anymore okay um

00:25:26.100 how'd you meet this new guy he replied to one of my stories back in march because he found me through

00:25:34.600 tiktok oh so he slid into the dms on ig yeah okay are you guys like dating or not really you're single

00:25:42.600 yeah i've never met him before oh i thought he like went to school here no he goes to school in

00:25:49.300 um alabama alabama yeah so you've just been like texting him yeah what did he say when he slid into

00:25:56.060 your dms just about like kanye and political stuff but i think he was in a relationship when he did

00:26:04.500 you think what i think he was in a relationship when he did that yeah how do you how do you know that

00:26:11.160 i just i think so i don't know i'm not sure you didn't do the hey girly text what's that the

00:26:18.700 hey girly like your boyfriend is hitting on me you never heard of that no i never thought of him

00:26:24.640 like that until like a month ago yeah did you hit him up again or did he text you what do you mean

00:26:33.680 like since march yeah since march we kept talking once in a while kept talking like no no no not in

00:26:42.840 that way like did you guys talk on the phone um i think we did like a few times you think you did a

00:26:50.740 few times yeah okay so are you like interested in dating this guy or are you on the fence

00:26:56.700 yeah i'm like super down you're super down yeah even though he lives in alabama he's flying out

00:27:03.800 for how long like four days staying where he's got a hotel bnb and then what fly back

00:27:12.740 so you have all the you said there's a lot of attractive guys around but so why

00:27:19.800 he's interesting he teaches me a lot of things like what i can't say the fuck yeah you're gonna

00:27:28.660 censor me like very like fascist ideas i would say fascist um is he like a is he a white supremacist

00:27:40.500 no he's a white nationalist he likes nick fontes okay are you guys like both only talking to each

00:27:49.580 other i yes you think yeah yeah um what's your ethnicity just checking korean oh and you're dating

00:28:03.400 a want not dating oh but you want so you're attracted to him because of his racist no he's

00:28:12.500 not oh sorry so sorry you said he's a fascist what did you say white nationalist don't don't white

00:28:21.340 nationalists want to deport i i could i don't know i don't know the details don't they want america to

00:28:28.520 be a hundred percent white country like they don't want immigration they don't want well i don't know

00:28:36.760 if he agrees with every single like white nationalist idea does he consider himself to be

00:28:41.660 white nationalist what the fuck yes what ideas that are white nationalists that he agrees with

00:28:49.880 should i google i don't know enough about this topic you're gonna censor me uh let's see

00:28:56.500 um tiffany's chipe is white nationalist

00:29:00.820 so oh my god am i i don't know if this is does he he's really smart is he a proponent of a white

00:29:12.140 ethnostate i don't know if we should alabama because you're asian yeah

00:29:19.520 i don't know how that you know what i mean do you know what i mean like how does that work

00:29:27.380 i don't know okay um i think he just doesn't like illegal immigrants

00:29:34.680 okay yeah all right you know how to pick them eh

00:29:40.900 so does he i'm just confused by the whole thing um so he's coming to see you for four days are you

00:29:54.080 guys gonna because you you from you've never had a boyfriend before if i recall right never had a

00:30:00.020 boyfriend never even if i recall you'd never had anything with a guy no hookup never hooked up with

00:30:06.640 a guy no never kissed a guy no has that changed no come on there's a guy you made out with a guy on

00:30:14.480 no i didn't i'm not like that i'm not are you gonna make out with mr white nationalist

00:30:19.280 why are you so rude how's that rude i'm just curious that's how you described him you probably are

00:30:27.440 chat what do you think i'm curious what chat thinks about this um uh

00:30:35.840 wait so the last time you were on the show you weren't talking to him romantically it just started

00:30:43.920 yeah it had just started yeah what what like made it start i guess like were you guys both just

00:30:51.860 like oh i think i'm into you um hey decoy voices or decoy voices in the chat yo what's up man we're

00:31:02.660 gonna get him on the show sometime by the way flan life thanks for the 10 gifted memberships man

00:31:06.680 appreciate it go ahead he's just really smart and he's a good speaker are you wait is it nick

00:31:14.640 fuentes no what the fuck no you don't want to you wouldn't take nick no he's very he's a white

00:31:23.020 nationalist he's really well spoken he's ugly wow um that's rude he's a he's not a bad he's a good

00:31:33.300 looking guy jesus christ i'm gonna get canceled for this conversation donated 107 dollars brian we got

00:31:39.840 the white tupac with hairband and on her left slash from gnr check it out what is he talking

00:31:46.480 about i have no idea which one's the white tupac which one oh this is slash that's slash from gnr

00:31:53.360 do you play guitar

00:31:54.560 rip okay and you're white tupac for i don't know i am today because of the headband maybe probably

00:32:02.400 just looking at your is it is that a wu-tang oh no i thought that was wu-tang no that's like the

00:32:09.660 same font i think as the wu-tang clan okay anyways that'd be pretty crazy that'd be dope that'd be

00:32:14.240 so that'd be super dope okay so

00:32:16.720 are you trolling no you're fucking trolling no i'm not you're for sure trolling no i'm not

00:32:25.900 i swear to god why how this girl all right um

00:32:31.660 i'm just kind of confused by the whole what's confusing

00:32:37.220 like from a purely like okay there's plenty of men in santa barbara so it's like

00:32:45.820 i like very specific people really specific people yeah such as racist he's not racist also

00:32:56.420 i think everyone's a little racist i agree sometimes people have to be honest and say

00:33:03.380 i'm racist tell us who you're racist who are you racist who are you racist against um so me and the

00:33:12.060 guy his name is brent oh we were talking about this and if you're not attracted to certain races

00:33:19.240 that's like a hundred percent connected to racism no it's not yes it is no it's definitely not it's

00:33:27.520 harmful stereotypes no wait i'm confused so are you trying to say that i'm hold on you you didn't

00:33:34.020 really answer my question but what question i my question okay so i i asked you how are you racist

00:33:40.560 which race are you racist against you said you're a little bit racist right you said everyone's a little

00:33:45.900 racist how are you racist well well the definition of racism is judging based on skin color right

00:33:55.580 i think everyone does that to like certain extent in in how does that manifest for you

00:34:02.220 like just out on the streets when i see a person i'm just what race of person like so like a few

00:34:11.700 weeks ago i was stranded in the middle of a freeway and these two white guys like pulled over

00:34:17.380 to give me a ride if they were black i probably wouldn't have gotten in

00:34:21.720 that might be a little racist that's valid why is that valid if i was a chick i don't know if i

00:34:29.940 would get in if i have i don't care what race it is i don't think i'm getting in the car with

00:34:33.700 any yeah wait two random hold on your car broke down on the highway no i what's the story i got off

00:34:41.440 on the wrong stop wait what so i was supposed to get off um in the second roundabout in ucsb but i

00:34:50.220 didn't and then the bus was going to uh downtown sb so i was like panicking and then i just pulled

00:34:57.440 the stop request thing and then i got off the the string like stop request so they dropped you off

00:35:05.860 on the side of the highway yeah side of the highway yeah why don't you just go to downtown sb that

00:35:12.500 probably would have been a little safer because i had to be somewhere

00:35:17.180 okay yeah what's so funny you just have funny stories i don't know bro this shit doesn't make

00:35:27.700 any sense um so you've got a ride from the two white people yeah they go to sbcc holy fuck yeah

00:35:36.400 that's probably a little racist um um definitely what what do you think about every girl would have

00:35:41.800 the same thing i mean unless i don't think it's valid right but not to like that race but i am

00:35:50.060 racist in certain ways what is going on with this fucking panel holy shit but the thing is a lot of

00:35:55.400 people lie about it you are right like you're actually one of the first people that's just

00:35:59.680 straight up about it yeah we're giving racism a blanket definition what what do you think of white

00:36:05.640 people what do you mean like just what do you think of white people

00:36:11.240 like what do you like them do you

00:36:16.540 what the fuck yeah i like them it depends though because there's a lot of work white people too

00:36:22.500 okay i see i see what you're saying oh all right okay she's honest all right you can't

00:36:30.520 fault her for that i don't think it's racist to not be attracted to a certain like no i don't

00:36:35.520 think that's racist yeah i don't i don't think that's racist that's just a preference yeah you

00:36:40.620 can't you know if you're attracted to you know yeah yeah like for example madison over here is

00:36:49.600 deeply racist she doesn't date asian people madison actually kind of that is racist it is racist for

00:36:57.600 you why would it be racist well being racist isn't a bad thing like don't take it as like an insult i'm

00:37:03.520 not taking it as an insult i'm just asking why i'm just asking why would be racist it's to not

00:37:08.900 date someone in your own why do you why do you not date asian guys because i have a preference for

00:37:13.960 others but why though i don't know i'm just not attracted to them it's like me saying i do not

00:37:20.860 like short guys it's the same thing as me saying i don't like no but if it's race it's different

00:37:26.020 because just like the white guys and the black guys you wouldn't have gotten in if they were black

00:37:30.380 guys it's the same exact well i don't let me let me just come in really quick oh actually go ahead

00:37:36.600 make your point then i'll hold no never mind you can uh the views the the the views expressed by the

00:37:44.840 the panelists on the podcast do not necessarily reflect the views of the host or the podcast or

00:37:52.300 the youtube channel uh yeah okay it's yeah all right um disavow disavow disavow disavow moving on

00:38:05.800 moving on so okay we went over yours okay what about you i'm recently single and the longest

00:38:13.260 relationship i was in was for three years can you speak up a little bit uh i'm recently single

00:38:18.220 and the longest relationship i was in was for three years how recently single i broke up with

00:38:23.720 him friday on friday yes okay uh so saturday two days ago uh and was this your longest relationship

00:38:35.140 no so i was seeing this guy from august up until friday what happened um i caught him on hinge

00:38:41.660 yeah caught him on hinge yes and it was at the point like i was seeing his family and everything

00:38:48.240 like met the family been going to his house and stuff so good times yeah did he ever like physically

00:38:56.260 cheat on you i don't think he actually slept with anyone because he worked three jobs he really

00:39:02.180 didn't have time um but he was definitely on hinge matching with people who matched with some of my

00:39:07.640 friends got the screenshots and then wait so you started dating him in august correct yes august

00:39:14.500 september october three months together uh well how late when did you start dating in august late august

00:39:22.720 mid august towards the end of august so two months you were together you were when you say you started

00:39:27.700 dating like you met him in late august yes did you guys have a conversation about exclusivity actually the

00:39:34.380 first date first date yeah i oh wow when i meet guys i tell them the first date hey look i'm only

00:39:40.820 interested in marriage and having children so if that's not something you want don't bother wasting

00:39:45.300 your time with me and he was also on the same page uh he's catholic uh he's also religious he wants that

00:39:52.000 stuff sure so like we came to an agreement we had an understanding like hey we're just gonna see each

00:39:56.400 other and i wasn't seeing anybody but okay yeah are you are you waiting until marriage no so that ship

00:40:04.680 has already sailed i can't really go back on that but i would have done it differently if i could

00:40:08.480 okay were you guys waiting no no okay all right uh damn that's fresh okay friday so how how did you

00:40:20.160 break up with him in person text well i had some stuff at his house so i called him i said hey do you

00:40:25.820 still have my stuff uh can i come pick it up and he was like why like is everything okay i said yeah

00:40:30.960 uh we had a discussion and i'm not going to talk about it again so i'm just going to come get my

00:40:34.940 stuff and when i got there i was just like hey really and he's like what i was like you're still

00:40:40.240 on hinge and he tried to lie and he tried to say no and i was like you're active today let me pull it up

00:40:45.080 did you find out because of your friends like did they send you the screenshots or how did you find out

00:40:51.900 so i had a gut feeling literally friday night i went to the gym afterwards i had this gut feeling

00:40:56.960 i went to my friend's house i used her phone made a fake hinge and then he was like the third card in

00:41:02.440 the stack that popped up and i was like yeah hell no so girls in their gut feelings yes it's okay i'll

00:41:09.140 help you find a nice man a good one one that preferably wants marriage tiffany can you can you

00:41:14.840 wear this for the rest of the show why me it's like a prussian military helmet so i feel like given

00:41:19.360 what you've stated it's oh what i stated we're valid is it is it like not here give it i'll fix it

00:41:27.740 uh good talk okay um oh yeah that's why i gotta undo this hold on okay wow madison your relationship

00:41:37.080 status my current relationship is my longest relationship and it's been a year and two months

00:41:45.640 all right good times good times so let's go back to ghosting is valid uh

00:41:52.800 that was you right did you say that ghosting is valid yeah what does everybody think about that

00:42:01.020 and let's like so ghosting let's say you when you say ghosting do you mean like you've been dating

00:42:06.320 somebody you've you've hooked up with them maybe multiple times a couple months do you in that

00:42:12.900 instance do you think like ghosting is valid even then or no i think i think when is ghosting

00:42:17.960 valid when it's like street related i feel like what does that mean like streets like if it's like

00:42:25.840 if it's like little just like hook up random like type thing like ghosting's fine sure i don't know

00:42:34.080 i think that's valid okay what does everyone else here think i agree no i think it's valid but if it's

00:42:40.680 like a serious relationship i think you owe owe it to them oh yeah tell them something that would be

00:42:45.380 weird if you like ghosted someone you were seeing that would be weird i'm not saying that's valid

00:42:50.540 i mean i feel like if you're in a little it could be a hookup or whatever you never really know what

00:42:57.540 each other are feeling so for some people it could oh my god wait wait oh sorry go ahead go ahead

00:43:03.740 you're fine you're fine go ahead for some people i feel like it could be valid but at the same time

00:43:10.120 if feelings aren't discussed within the two of you i don't think ghosting is valid i feel like

00:43:17.740 you owe an explanation a little bit i don't know i feel like if feelings are expressed and it's like a

00:43:28.120 mutual like oh we both have feelings for each other and then you ghost that's like weird but like if

00:43:33.780 you guys are like undefined and you know i feel like there's a certain like time period like if

00:43:39.300 it's like someone you've been seeing for maybe like two weeks or something then it's like you know

00:43:44.440 yeah i would say ghosting is pretty normal though nowadays like yeah if you're if you just have like

00:43:50.560 a one night stand with someone that's i guess basically ghosting totally but yeah i'm not for

00:43:57.320 ghosting at all how do you guys feel about like one night stands degenerate you're about to have a

00:44:06.300 one night stand with the fucking alabama dude he's coming to see you for four are you do you think

00:44:11.040 you're gonna smash no that's so weird the first time i'm meeting him i mean that happens hell no

00:44:18.000 do you is that his intentions do you think he's like is he do you think he's dtf

00:44:23.740 like if given the opportunity he's christian yo ab check thank you for the 20 gifted memberships

00:44:30.760 thank you man is he waiting until marriage because you said he had a girlfriend while

00:44:34.720 he was talking to you so he wasn't really talking to me he slid into your dms well we had a mutual

00:44:41.520 interest in like white nationalists no yay 24 yay 24 yeah are you gonna be on the campaign trail for

00:44:50.920 kanye well kanye's not running anymore oh he dropped out i thought he was okay i didn't know about that

00:44:56.360 okay cool

00:44:57.580 so do you think you're gonna like smash though i mean i said no are you waiting until marriage

00:45:06.540 sort of but not really but sort of but not really but kind of i would have to know like

00:45:12.900 know for sure that i'm marrying that person but like it doesn't have to be like we don't have to

00:45:17.560 be married officially it's like a what point do you determine that maybe like three months after it's

00:45:26.820 like a official i don't know because people could be so funny people could be in year-long

00:45:33.280 relationships and they still don't get married so it's like it's just when do you know that you want

00:45:39.940 to i just know i trust myself and my own judgment i feel like she's gonna fuck the dude shut the fuck

00:45:48.060 you're gonna fuck him for sure i'm not oh come into my dorm room get out of here jillian

00:45:54.300 bring up what jillian yes her roommate she's she's your roommate yeah she was on the show too

00:46:03.540 yeah a while ago um she was gonna be on here but she has pink eye she has pink eye oh yeah are you

00:46:08.480 gonna like was that from a dude too did she get pink eye from a dude we don't know it's probably

00:46:12.180 from her sorority house she's in the sorority yeah all my roommates are in sororities how do you get

00:46:17.160 pink eye did you fart on her pillow i don't know it's probably could have been from a dude

00:46:24.840 that happens okay all right she doesn't know about that okay all right um ask a doctor why me

00:46:34.340 good talk okay so um i have some pre-show notes i want to get through actually let me uh

00:46:44.200 hold on let me see here what we have uh lm lauren roses

00:46:48.500 donated 400 thank you holy shit excited for 19th uh so that's lauren roses she she's like

00:46:59.000 been dropping a couple uh donos thank you she's gonna be back on the 19th we're gonna do a

00:47:05.180 courtesan dedicated panel so be sure to tune in on the 19th and catch lauren again

00:47:09.900 um so and then we had a super chat let me get that one

00:47:14.400 can you read this one for us me yeah can you read this boyfriend is probably just white and likes

00:47:22.340 this country so he says he's nat and she things a nat white guy equals white nat which is a separate

00:47:32.240 racist ideology she's dim do you have a response i have no idea what he's talking about

00:47:37.300 white nationalists jesus christ well i know but like what's it what's dim not very dim like not

00:47:44.480 very bright oh it's an insult well first of all he's not my boyfriend yet so not yet

00:47:50.200 that's why i'm like considering it you don't need to keep it we already read it so are you reading

00:48:00.440 it again okay to myself ridiculous okay all right um let's see here um you think you're gonna pursue

00:48:09.100 like a committed relationship with him yeah potentially well he's gonna pursue me i'm not

00:48:14.620 cursing seven deadly simps donated one hundred dollars question for the ladies does peen size

00:48:22.620 matter do you have a peen size preference also as brian's official wingman do any of you girls have

00:48:30.260 an empty large lady jesus christ 777 decillion 777 no million 777 octillion 777 septillion

00:48:43.100 seven hundred and seventy seven quadrillion seven hundred and seventy seven trillion seven

00:48:45.520 hundred and seventy-seven trillion seven hundred and seventy-seven trillion seven hundred and seventy-seven

00:48:51.100 trillion seven hundred and seventy-seven trillion seven hundred and seventy-seven billion

00:48:55.400 seven hundred and seventy seven million seven hundred and seventy-seven thousand seven hundred and seventy

00:49:02.660 serapin um so the question is does peanut does pzoz pzoz matter do you have a peen size preference

00:49:11.700 bro you really you make me ask as brian's official wingman do any of you girls have an

00:49:20.200 audi you you don't if you want you can answer you don't have to okay go ahead um i think it's

00:49:28.500 like the motion of the ocean but also if you have a shrimp it's not gonna work

00:49:33.540 that's this like yeah that's this that's like this that's not good enough no what you think this

00:49:44.020 is gonna do anything i mean you said the motion of the ocean but i said if you have a shrimp it's

00:49:49.880 just not gonna work what if it's like super girthy like what if it's a chode what's girthy like a oh

00:49:54.320 like a chode like a chode i don't like those okay so it does matter yeah it does okay all right

00:50:03.480 i think it does matter but i think there's like more important stuff so if they're able to

00:50:10.080 compensate like there's different categories i think of like you know like personality you know

00:50:15.860 how are they looking yeah you know fun times you know different categories so they're able to like

00:50:20.420 balance okay what about you me personally i don't give a fuck i don't know you don't you don't give

00:50:28.400 a fuck yeah i don't know so you'd be fine getting railed like by shrimp well i'm not like

00:50:33.240 a very sexual person so it's just i don't care me personally this is offensive by the way we

00:50:41.760 shouldn't call it a shrimp i don't like the shrimp i don't like the shrimp could you just say uh

00:50:46.800 pickles are bigger than a mini cucumber a cheeto cheeto we call it what it is a pinky a cheeto puff

00:50:53.860 yeah okay yeah i'm pretty sure the pinky is like the middle finger in like some part of the world

00:50:59.180 i'm not wrong but i don't know i feel like women are way too comfortable shaming men like if they

00:51:05.960 have like a small peen it's not nice it's not nice why is it not nice to shame men for their the way

00:51:16.120 they were born we're not shaming we're just stating our preferences i actually think it's fine to shame

00:51:21.800 men i for their small for peen size for whatever bring like that's that's totally fine to shame men

00:51:29.580 for but it's out of their control do you think we should okay what do you mean of course i'm right

00:51:36.580 you can't change but you can't change your penis size that's just the way you were born i mean yeah

00:51:42.200 you can do you think here do you think we should shame women if they have small boobs

00:51:45.460 yeah why not i mean what i think they can't control that why wouldn't i mean it's okay if

00:51:53.240 you shame someone it's okay if you shame someone for something you know okay i think the world

00:51:59.420 nowadays society is so sensitive that you can't say anything that you will get canceled oh so you're

00:52:04.520 like free speech i'm like free speech just like you're racist like i'm free speech about it i'm

00:52:09.920 saying like free speech okay um but no no i don't think it's right to shame people like be rude

00:52:18.800 like but it's right to shame based off your preference preferences so if i'm like i do not

00:52:24.500 want small peen or if you're like i don't like girls with small boobs that's totally fine you're

00:52:29.140 technically shaming but not like no i don't think that's shaming shaming would like be almost to some

00:52:34.340 degree making fun of the person yeah i think for men it's okay to bully though why it's okay to wait

00:52:39.900 hold on just a point of clarification you think it's okay to bully men but not okay to bully women

00:52:44.320 um to an extent yes because women are more sensitive

00:52:48.740 that's interesting because yeah actually yeah that's why i agree that's such a double standard

00:52:59.240 but do you want to know why it is because when you shame men that's when they work more on themselves

00:53:05.660 like if you bully a guy he's gonna be like you know what i disagree is it not i'm gonna get skinny

00:53:11.280 is it what does it not go the other way though like if you shame a woman don't you think she

00:53:16.320 would work on herself as well she would yeah but i'm talking about men i think because i personally

00:53:22.400 like will shame men if my boyfriend does something that i don't like like i will tell him or if i see

00:53:27.420 someone i think well let's get our definitions correct here because okay okay let's do it yeah if your

00:53:33.440 boyfriend does something wrong there's a like like you're gonna call it out i'm gonna call it

00:53:38.540 her definition of shaming is different i think yeah my definition of shaming i think it's judging

00:53:43.520 what i don't mean like shame but i mean yeah like judging like judging and not in a excuse me

00:53:48.560 madison farted but oh my god this is fucking no madison fucking farted it smells so bad i have to

00:53:55.600 step out for like one second question is that a picture change or not madison literally fucking

00:54:01.820 farted i literally don't fart as frankie i never fart oh my god i smell it too madison what the fuck

00:54:07.620 she ate a burrito she she ate a fucking burrito before the fucking show it was brian okay hold on

00:54:14.040 what were we talking about we were talking about uh definitions definitions yeah of like shaming

00:54:22.140 yeah so having a conversation with your boyfriend like oh here's something that's upsetting me

00:54:29.340 that's not within the realm of shaming okay yeah well you're right that's just having a civil

00:54:36.220 conversation yeah i mean here i'll google that just to get shaming well my definition of shaming is that

00:54:43.180 if my brother is getting fat i will shame him for it and i will say you're getting fat you need to

00:54:48.680 lose weight okay that's what i mean by shaming exactly but that's not shaming to me like i think

00:54:54.820 there's a difference between communicating what your preferences are versus like shaming which i think

00:55:00.260 is the google definition i don't know well the google definition

00:55:05.280 make someone feel ashamed that's not really fucking helpful no that's exactly that proves her point

00:55:14.340 so bring shame to cause someone to feel ashamed or inadequate by outdoing or surpassing them

00:55:20.600 can i get the let me find oxford maybe they got something better for me um shaming cause somebody

00:55:27.640 to feel ashamed that's like a kind of a circular definition what does ashamed mean to be embarrassed

00:55:35.260 or guilty because of one's actions characteristics or associations so to make someone feel embarrassed

00:55:40.780 or guilty for their okay all right okay that's yeah there's ways to bait the point across without

00:55:47.680 making them feel embarrassed or guilty yeah i wouldn't i don't want but so you think you should shame men

00:55:52.400 for like things that are out of their control like their penis size um see like let's say it's like

00:55:57.940 my brother someone i'm close to if they're like getting fat or they're doing something no no but

00:56:03.160 let's stick to the penis size okay the penis size well should we shame men for that i think she's saying

00:56:08.740 like everyone should feel free to call it out or like it should feel free well no here's the thing is

00:56:13.600 like i don't that no i mean yeah it's okay it's like shaming women who do of and calling them

00:56:21.440 that's a that's a choice though doing of as a choice whereas your penis size is out of your

00:56:29.640 control as a man do you do you think that i mean it is a little bit no you can't change it but you

00:56:35.600 can compensate it for other things so you can compensate your status right but the question

00:56:39.800 is do you think you should shame men for their penis size i mean i don't think it's bad i think it's

00:56:46.420 okay um i don't really i've only been with one person so do you think you think it would be okay

00:56:53.260 to make fun of a man who was small in the bulge that would be shaming i think it'd be funny you

00:57:01.000 think it'd be funny it would be funny that's rather toxic don't you think no i think what benefit but

00:57:06.060 what benefit would that serve because your whole argument is well i think shaming is good because it

00:57:10.880 will motivate people to change let me switch that you cannot change let me switch the argument the

00:57:15.560 way you were born go ahead switch your argument i think shaming them on things they can change

00:57:19.900 is good but you literally just said it's okay she's switching the argument i'm switching it right now so

00:57:24.800 you're switching your position i'm switching my position yes i think shaming men on things that

00:57:29.900 they can change is great i think shaming them on things that they can't is just good to bring

00:57:35.560 yourself a laugh not to be rude but and make them insecure and make them insecure ultimately do you think

00:57:41.460 that's a good thing i think to an extent i think you think it's a good thing to make men insecure

00:57:46.040 about no something that's not not at all a man a man that's literally what you just said but a man

00:57:51.260 should be like so he should respect himself enough to not let what i say or what anyone else say

00:57:56.920 see women have this privilege of like being able to talk

00:58:00.540 of being able to talk shit about men without really any repercussion when it comes to violence

00:58:08.020 violence but for example if i walked up to a guy who was six foot five who was 300 pounds i'm six

00:58:14.240 foot one i'm like 180 and i start calling that guy a pussy i should expect to get fucking hit yeah

00:58:24.860 the difference with y'all is you can't you think you can run your mouth to a man and it's actually true

00:58:29.960 and not get hit because you have societal protection when it comes to uh physical violence

00:58:36.880 now i'm not saying that anybody should hit somebody for words that come out of their mouth

00:58:41.360 however like i can't i can't be upset if i walk up to a guy who's six five and call him a pussy to his

00:58:49.840 face and expect that he there's a zero possibility for him to hit me now i'm not saying that there

00:58:56.360 should be physical violence but you think like i'm trying to understand why you think it's a

00:59:00.020 it's funny or okay to make fun of somebody um especially something that's out of their control

00:59:07.420 well no like i said it's it is like it brings you laughter but i think if it's not out of why does

00:59:12.900 it bring you laughter though um i don't know it's just it's funny it's just funny like but don't don't

00:59:19.780 you recognize that perhaps this is a source of insecurity for a lot of men and shouldn't you have

00:59:23.700 a bit of compassion and empathy like i've never actually so why is this the hill you're trying

00:59:29.580 to die on right now like this way go ahead continue go ahead i've never made fun of someone's

00:59:34.440 peen size i mean shrimp using but i do use that as like shrimp and pinky and pickle as a small but

00:59:41.880 you think it's okay to okay it's okay to what to shame people for things that are outside their

00:59:48.160 control no actually i know you don't don't walk back don't walk back your position it's not okay

00:59:53.960 but i think it's funny sometimes true it's funny sometimes just like it's not okay but i'm still

00:59:59.680 gonna do it it's funny personally i don't think it's funny i think it's just immature and it makes

01:00:04.580 the conversation very uncomfortable for people i have a question for you guys would you think it's

01:00:09.920 funny and how would you feel if men shamed you for being loose for being loose yeah well i think

01:00:16.160 i'm pretty confident in myself so if a man told me something and i knew i wasn't it in my head

01:00:22.700 i would go in through one ear and out the other so it wouldn't really hit me but what if you are it

01:00:28.380 in your head and it like it's not even because when guys have small peen sizes or whatever like

01:00:36.880 it's not that it's just in their head that they have a small peen size they actually physically have

01:00:41.440 it yeah so that's the difference i guess i mean i could try to become more have more empathy for

01:00:47.660 this but i don't know i just that's basically it yeah i think it's a little morally questionable but

01:00:56.720 that's just me well i yeah i don't have a small peen or so i wouldn't know how it feels

01:01:02.200 but i'm sure it feels bad

01:01:04.900 so i'm because like you often hear like these terms thrown around like big dick energy small

01:01:14.480 dick energy etc and it's used like to typically not even as necessarily a reference of someone's

01:01:20.140 penis size although it's quite literally in the grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars

01:01:25.620 for robert haineland darling a true lady takes her modesty off with her clothes and does her

01:01:30.860 whore-ish best at all other times she should be as modest as her persona demands can we get the panel's

01:01:37.080 opinion on this uh true lady takes her modesty off with her clothes and does her whore-ish

01:01:43.900 all of the time so she should i mean i don't know do you have a response really quick

01:01:49.280 i think he's trying to say like a true lady is always modest on the outside but when it comes to

01:01:54.720 inside the bed is when she becomes the most whore-ish all right it's a little confusing to me

01:01:59.220 yeah it's kind of confusing to me too but yeah i don't even know what that means

01:02:04.000 yeah i don't understand i don't know sorry man that was a little okay um so like you hear these

01:02:10.920 terms big dick energy small dick energy um have who here has used that term before have you used it

01:02:16.700 no small dick energy big dick energy i use like big dick energy like just not relating to actual

01:02:22.840 dick size or anything like i use it like oh like that girl got big dick energy like you know what

01:02:28.980 about you yeah which one both small dick yeah big energy yeah like that guy has small dick energy

01:02:35.360 yeah okay what about you no i don't i don't think that did you answer yeah do you use it like for

01:02:42.980 myself oh like i feel like i have big dick energy do you yeah you got okay um see because even though

01:02:51.860 like you your intention might not be to but you're saying that men men or people or a person whether it's a

01:03:00.300 woman or a man if they have positive characteristics they must have a big dick ergo men who have small

01:03:07.600 dicks have negative characteristics however there are plenty of perfectly wonderful men who have small

01:03:14.160 penises and awful terrible men who have big penises so you're using this language i mean if are we all

01:03:21.900 about body positivity people are against body shaming all this shit right um i'd like to propose some

01:03:28.840 new terms if big dick energy small dick energy are okay i'd like to propose some new terms small tits

01:03:34.780 energy smelly pussy energy i'd be fine hold on i got more there's more rancid pussy energy stinky

01:03:45.180 pussy energy noxious pussy energy cottage cheese pussy energy drive dry pussy energy sahara desert pussy

01:03:53.920 energy wet pussy energy i guess that's a good one parched pussy energy arid pussy energy and drought

01:04:01.560 pussy energy that's funny if i were to say any of the if i were to say any of these these are like uh

01:04:07.240 would be deemed very offensive i feel like no but it's okay for women to say big dick energy small

01:04:12.940 dick energy but if i want to throw around loose pussy energy all of a sudden i'm the bad guy no i think it

01:04:19.000 i would think it's funny if i got but most women let me ask most women would not be most women would

01:04:25.320 be like uh they'd kind of like oh that's kind of vulgar loose pussy energy yeah well you're weird okay

01:04:32.720 like think of the normal woman okay i'm weird you come on admit it you're a little weird i know you

01:04:38.740 know you're weird go ahead one motorsports donated one hundred dollars fuck's sake get an education

01:04:45.540 the persian had it right can you be modest in pupil kinder beast in bed or are you a dead fish

01:04:51.260 because the man must do all the work or have a big bean oh my god like a 304 in public well grid one

01:04:59.340 thank you very much for the uh clarification there much appreciated um yeah i agree with that i mean

01:05:06.640 what's the saying i mean uh lady in the streets freaking the sheets you know yeah it's all good

01:05:13.820 oh yeah sure i think we left were we on you i think you answered you said you didn't care

01:05:22.700 okay what about you um yeah i do think it matters unfortunately not asking for like a lot but like

01:05:31.100 it's there's a limit where it doesn't oh sorry hold on zach quest 2000 donated 99 so valid

01:05:37.480 cunty energy yeah yeah i feel like like if you were to lose pussy energy like you say that

01:05:44.660 most girls would be like that's so funny though i would argue most girls most girls who would be okay

01:05:51.520 with small and who say small dick energy big dick energy would have take serious quarrel with loose

01:05:59.120 pussy energy for sure for sure oh sorry hold on did someone say lpe oh shit there he is loose bit

01:06:08.140 the panel is a bunch of lpes especially the girl across from brian also brian get the lysol maddie's

01:06:13.640 sharted and didn't wipe hashtag nasty hashtag fuck y'all hashtag uh that okay interesting i smell great by the

01:06:23.520 way it was brian you were saying what were you saying i forgot peen size we're talking about

01:06:33.340 peen size i mean i've never tried it before so i don't know but like as long as it's not tiny i guess

01:06:39.420 okay uh okay uh what about you uh i think to an extent it does it's not something that i like to

01:06:48.420 focus on or sure the first thing i look for what nick what's up uh i'm not hearing her very well at

01:06:55.440 all well she's talking very fucking low so um what nick what's the deal are you boost please

01:07:04.280 there people are saying her here can you talk into the mic please

01:07:11.140 can you project your voice a little bit please is this better can you guys hear

01:07:16.280 has it been it's been off the has it been off the entire time no it hasn't guys can you clarify has

01:07:26.220 her mic been off the entire time has it been off the entire time or just stopped right now one in

01:07:32.260 the chat if it was off the entire time right i think we'll slide here nine what do you think

01:07:38.200 um hold on um sorry guys um maddie can you get her nine and then we'll put that one on the ground

01:07:50.360 mute that one um typical

01:07:54.460 sorry guys we're getting her a new mic nick make sure you drop it and then swap

01:08:04.220 nine is uh actually get just take 11 i think or actually no that's 12 sorry guys hold on

01:08:14.460 sorry do you guys want to talk while we're just talking about what's your preference

01:08:32.660 she doesn't have a mic hello sorry oh my god what's your preference

01:08:40.220 she don't five is that like average i think six is average six is average wait do you mind if i

01:08:48.800 ask you what like main ones what main ones which out of all three ones like which ones are the best

01:08:55.840 i didn't have i like i've only been with like four people in my lifetime okay like i'm not like

01:09:02.940 i'm like i'm saying like i just got out of this like i'm just getting in the streets getting okay

01:09:09.060 like i've had a boyfriend i've only like done things with boyfriends and this is like the only

01:09:15.040 time in my life where like okay no i'm doing things with like situations like a roster so i was

01:09:19.780 asking out of the roster which one's the best oh okay out of the i mean when you have a

01:09:25.800 boyfriend for like three and a half years they kind of just get to know your body okay that makes

01:09:30.840 sense you know and also too like your um women's like in i don't know like what the terminology is

01:09:39.320 but like it adapts to like your partner yeah like i'm pretty sure like it changes like to adapt to

01:09:46.780 your partner yeah i mean like i don't know but it definitely changes but i don't know i don't think

01:09:55.500 i've been with a really small one before but it's you don't feel it so i don't count really i don't

01:10:02.480 count it i don't be counting how do you guys feel about larger because i feel like i hear a lot of

01:10:10.660 people say like too small is or like too small is not good but too big is not good

01:10:15.460 i feel like we got a bunch of size queens at this table um let's see here okay um well actually

01:10:23.640 really quick back on your thing when it comes to like it's good to shame people what about what do

01:10:27.700 you think about shaming men for their height like if a guy's short do you think we should shame them

01:10:31.240 for being short no he can just get those insoles and wear them in his shoes but i don't think you

01:10:37.280 should shame him oh well see are you walking back your position because i'm pushing back against

01:10:43.860 you no not at all because your previous position was we should shame these people for their um

01:10:49.620 immutable characteristics and it's funny but i said things that they cannot wait things that they

01:10:55.060 can't change shouldn't be shamed on um but they are funny like if you do so is it funny to shame

01:11:01.580 short guys yes i think i mean i don't find it funny personally i don't really give a i don't

01:11:07.620 give a shit you think it's funny to shame short guys yeah i think it's funny to shame everyone

01:11:12.020 you're a interesting character i don't shame chase what you i mean you like attract what you

01:11:19.420 do you know like that's so you think we should shame short guys

01:11:23.980 no but you literally bro do the words do words mean nothing to you it's morally wrong words

01:11:32.620 literally came out of your mouth and then two seconds later you say the exact opposite thing but

01:11:39.440 go ahead it's morally wrong but it's not gonna stop me from shaming people like it's still funny but

01:11:45.960 okay so would you shame you've shamed short guys before um yes yes but only if

01:11:58.600 i'm not gonna just shame short guys for being short it's like if they're doing something that

01:12:05.040 that's pissing me off i'm gonna use that like his height to what if it's just a perfectly nice short

01:12:11.000 guy who hasn't said anything mean to you oh then i'm not gonna shame him but okay

01:12:15.860 yeah if i don't like him and he's sure i'm gonna use that against him okay but yeah even there's

01:12:24.020 like this there's definitely people who will shame short men uh even if they they'll just it's just

01:12:32.440 almost a blanket general oh i'm not like that contempt or disdain for short men i think that's wrong

01:12:39.660 like a lot of women be like i didn't you know have a kind of toxic approach to that so

01:12:44.760 i'm not like i think you're walking back your position a little bit because you're you sense

01:12:50.380 i'm gonna push back against you no i'm not she just okay but so you think it'd be funny yeah it's

01:12:58.120 it's funny oh my god bro okay making fun of people is funny sometimes you just have to admit it

01:13:07.100 i try i try not to make fun of people what's your humor what's my humor yeah what do you i mean

01:13:15.000 how do you articulate what someone's humor is my humor is making fun of other people

01:13:19.480 i mean there's like roasting like roasting your friends in in good spirits but like

01:13:24.800 total strangers no i i don't i don't i try not to i don't certainly behind someone's back i never

01:13:31.580 talk poorly at least i try to not talk poorly about anybody that's my personal philosophy one of

01:13:37.800 people who are close to me like my circle okay i just make fun of people i see on the streets

01:13:44.320 do you like when people make fun of you no but i wouldn't care i feel like if you have say whatever

01:13:52.560 they want to be honest she makes your mind like for example you see somebody walking down the street

01:13:58.940 you don't know them what's something you might make fun of them about probably colored hair

01:14:03.660 piercings okay looking poor and dirty you see a girl with red hair what do you say

01:14:08.420 what do you say the f word

01:14:14.260 like are you a hater wait what f word

01:14:19.240 yeah like you yell it out no no no i'll just like whisper it to my friend or something that's rude

01:14:26.260 okay okay um we have a super chat um this girl is very healthy like very

01:14:41.340 like not toxic at all by the way healthy yeah like you're definitely not toxic okay um i'm just

01:14:49.020 funny and honest gavin mayo what is what is all your ideal types neela's boyfriend is very lucky

01:14:56.900 btw's btw who's neela me right there um what is all your ideal types what's what's everyone's types

01:15:08.120 um let's do that and then what i want to do i have the pre-show notes for everybody

01:15:13.580 we'll get into the pre-show notes right after that oh we got this one coming through

01:15:16.660 leila donated 150 dollars i got a question for all the ladies why did everyone except neela put no

01:15:24.200 effort into their appearance

01:15:25.820 i mean i didn't think that's a great job interview that's just my take i think they all look beautiful

01:15:35.460 let's see what you look like leila is that that i think that's a woman's name so i know she's

01:15:42.260 misogynistic she's misogynistic yeah you love the buzzwords what how is she how is she misogynistic

01:15:49.240 no i'm just kidding she's just a hater oh this fucking girl um she's just funny and honest wait

01:15:55.740 leila can you send us what she looks like leila what's your instagram we'll pull up your instagram

01:15:59.700 because the girls she wants they want it she wants to talk shit and call you the f word okay

01:16:03.680 no i never said that what's that i never said that i don't know what she looks like

01:16:07.560 okay what if she has red hair yeah what if she has red hair depends on what type of red hair

01:16:12.740 if it's like black at the roots and like red at the bottom yeah okay but if it's like all red and

01:16:19.560 it's like it looks good then no would you ever like let's say you had power of a country not the

01:16:24.620 u.s because i don't think that's in the cards for you let's say like granada no not let's say like

01:16:30.420 haiti i don't know how you get control of haiti but you're a dictator yeah i i kind of get the

01:16:37.440 impression that you would like genocide the population do you know like i get that genocidal

01:16:41.920 vibe from you i get that do you get that too madison like genocidal vibe what does that mean

01:16:47.720 like you're on some oh my i was about to say something inappropriate um i feel like if she had

01:16:52.700 the option she would abolish everyone in the world so it's just her life and her alabama boyfriend

01:16:58.340 who's definitely not gonna okay never mind um who's definitely not what don't worry about it

01:17:05.080 it's all good um good talk uh okay okay okay layla send us another what's send us your instagram

01:17:11.000 we'll take a look in the chat um what's everyone's ideal types we'll go around the table on that go

01:17:18.180 ahead that's my boyfriend oh gavin mayo yeah yo what's up gavin yo is that his car is that his

01:17:25.680 blue is that a ferrari no he has a blue urus is that but that's not his oh okay but um my ideal

01:17:33.700 type is tall white um okay yeah tall and white that's it yeah oh well what's your what's your

01:17:44.440 like ethnicity or whatever can you guess persian yeah i'm persian are you persian too oh look at

01:17:52.920 this it's the family reunion is that kind of offensive i don't know no um is there solidarity

01:18:00.680 amongst among iranians no is there like a you know like oh the homie oh well personally when i

01:18:08.820 meet someone persian like they're automatically family do you not you don't like let's say someone

01:18:14.920 god forbid pulled in here with a gun i would protect her first because she's persian

01:18:19.520 okay that's good to know good to know does do you have a you got a piece on you oh wait

01:18:28.520 let these yeah you got these pieces no i don't okay you got scared yeah i definitely think there's

01:18:37.720 like wait so okay uh so your type is white and tall white and tall and successful and successful

01:18:45.600 yeah anything else has to believe in god anything else are you christian um christian and muslim

01:18:52.680 75 percent muslim and 25 percent christian it's interesting wait is that a religious

01:19:00.240 what like um how are you 25 percent religiously christian do you want to move on or do you want

01:19:06.680 the long story short or are you saying like in your lineage in your lineage you're like well that

01:19:12.780 that too yeah maybe if she said jewish it would make sense no no not jewish okay go ahead go ahead

01:19:19.920 oh what's your type i guess um just going back to what she was saying earlier though um

01:19:27.480 within persian community yes i do believe like there's like a close net like relationship we do like

01:19:33.740 yeah have that but i will also say persians are very judgmental so i think that's very good to point

01:19:39.900 out okay just from my experience i don't know like even within like my parents or anybody else

01:19:45.280 within the family it's a very like kind of like a culture oh we got the we got a whiskey squirrel

01:19:50.360 donated one thank you man thank you thank you if you can't make fun of yourself you don't deserve

01:19:55.620 to make fun of anyone else i'm short with a pencil eraser peen but have enough self-respect

01:20:02.320 to not even want to touch most of the panel boom roasted good job all right whiskey squirrel thank god

01:20:08.380 um i feel like very traditional parents in general are pretty judgmental yeah because

01:20:15.660 yeah are your parents racist yeah a lot of asian actually like all asian parents are racist

01:20:24.840 oh hold on grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars brian honestly other than mads and the

01:20:34.080 slick persian half the panel looks like it's laundry day and the other half looks like they

01:20:38.980 are smoked out not even sure alibaba slash is awake alibaba slash is awake oh who is it i think

01:20:49.020 they're talking about you do you know slash from gnr guns and roses do do do wait do you know anyone

01:20:55.580 no no sweet child of mine uh no you don't know welcome to the jungle

01:21:02.840 what november rain no what kind of music do you listen to you don't know wait you don't know gnr

01:21:09.500 little peep little peep do you know gnr no you don't know guns and roses no sweet child of mine

01:21:16.840 paradise city take me down to the paradise city where the grass is green and the girls are pretty

01:21:21.800 is that like your era music my era music yeah oh i it's not i mean that came out like 89 was the

01:21:31.540 peak of gnr so no i was not really but gnr's the shit oh won't you take me home take me down to

01:21:42.920 the paradise city where the grass is green and the girls are pretty like zilla commie dude like i don't

01:21:48.120 know what you're talking about a zoomer you're a zoomer commie zilla commie you're a what i listen

01:21:53.220 to zilla commie you're a zoomer communist zilla commie who is that it's just like an artist like

01:21:59.400 what wait who else do you listen to um suicide boys who the fuck is that guy who else will tracy

01:22:10.520 who the fuck is that guy sorry i don't i don't know who tracy is do you know pearl jam yeah you

01:22:18.100 know pearl jam yeah yeah that's what i listen to okay normally i wear a flannel so you would know that

01:22:22.520 yeah good talk um you don't know who slashes though

01:22:29.200 okay

01:22:30.900 kim chunk hill gonna take over the local mcdonald's bro women give off ugliest friend

01:22:37.600 in the group vibes

01:22:38.920 the silence is loud i think the silence is the best answer to that no you guys can respond you

01:22:48.660 you guys if you want shoot shots back you can shoot shots back shoot shots me who's kim chunk

01:22:54.440 ill you know who it is kim jong you know who it is oh okay okay you're assuming i know him just

01:23:03.660 because i'm asian i think a lot of people who aren't even asian know who he is no i'm just asking

01:23:08.820 i'm just asking um did you say your type oh i think i was about to answer yeah go ahead um

01:23:15.280 like like i said earlier i think there's like different categories like obviously i have like

01:23:19.000 preferences like there's no i haven't at least met anybody that like has all my preferences

01:23:24.260 it depends like how to balance out sure but some of my preferences are like they gotta be tall

01:23:29.540 have a nice stable job um be good in bed that's gotta be good in bed gotta be good in bed stable

01:23:36.460 job yeah um sure personality personality yep what about you i like furries huh first the people

01:23:45.800 but with tail the people that dress up as animals cute man wait so like your is your boyfriend a furry

01:23:52.980 attracted to furries oh we're talking like sexual like no just what's your type and personal

01:23:58.840 what's your type they're cool is your boyfriend a furry um are you a part of the lgbtq community

01:24:05.840 yeah okay do you have like a problem with that no oh okay i'm just asking i'm just wondering

01:24:11.000 you're not gonna laugh okay let's move on your type um i mean my ex was black and i would just say

01:24:21.700 black and white tall white guys with like brown hair preferably curly tall white guys oh you like the

01:24:30.940 what is it the broccoli do you like the broccoli haircut no no no no it has to be like and they have to

01:24:36.440 have fashion be stylish gotta have fashion gotta have the rizz gotta be a rizzler you gotta be a

01:24:42.400 rizzler yeah you gotta be a rizzler you gotta be a rizzler gotta be a rizzler you gotta be a rizzler

01:24:45.500 have that banter you know what i mean gotta be the rizz gotta have that banter yeah um the banter

01:24:51.300 the banter i gotta gotta be the rizzler yeah do you have rizz uh i i would say she comes out once

01:24:59.700 in a while she comes out once in a while if i think someone's cute i'll i'll try to riz but

01:25:05.900 i don't know i see just depends on the person okay what about you tall white or black

01:25:14.980 i wasn't expecting that from you but okay

01:25:18.780 i like skinny guys like what skinny guys skinny guys yeah i like i like when their joints pop out

01:25:28.840 like how are they gonna protect you do you smoke weed no i feel like you don't but you're also high

01:25:37.380 naturally yeah i know i know i am okay go ahead people tell me i'm crazy all the time what about

01:25:42.820 like okay so looks what about personality traits tolerant huh tolerant tolerant this girl has to

01:25:50.860 be a fucking troll guys she has to be trolling tolerant i think my love language is kind of

01:25:56.360 like being annoying oh okay i see i see i thought you meant like racially tolerant

01:26:01.580 like because you seem to be attracted to

01:26:07.000 okay um tolerant of you because you're annoying yeah how are you annoying i mean besides what

01:26:14.800 you've displayed tonight so far and i'm like really annoying you're kind of crazy how are you crazy

01:26:19.520 like slasher tires crazy no no like stock not not physically i'm just verbally crazy you're

01:26:25.740 verbally crazy let's have a verbally crazy pretend i'm from alabama hold on let me get no we're not

01:26:30.760 doing this i'm not doing this all right

01:26:36.660 okay what hi my name's blake what's his fucking name trent trent no it was like brant

01:26:45.160 brand brand brand yeah like brand but with a t at the end oh yeah what's up baby girl i'm brand

01:26:51.940 why are you doing this to me it's so cringe what are you talking about baby girl i love you

01:26:57.780 shut up don't tell me to shut up you shut up okay based oh my god

01:27:06.140 okay all right okay um that that was cool do you feel like you need a guy that's a little more calm

01:27:15.400 or do you want someone that's as crazy as you to like match your energy no calm i mean you seem

01:27:21.100 pretty calm she's like calm but not yeah you're like i'm calm usually chaos crazy side what's your

01:27:28.800 crazy side crazy side yeah i don't know you should check out her tiktok and i guess um

01:27:34.740 that's it okay what about you can we hear me first of all yeah yeah we're good can we hear her chat

01:27:44.460 one if we can hear her go ahead all right so my type is usually guys preferably a bit taller than me

01:27:50.060 because i am pretty tall myself how tall are you i'm five six okay um usually someone that is religious

01:27:55.840 and has family values um same and someone calm i i like my guys shy okay all right wait shy like

01:28:05.900 reserved or like social anxiety yeah social anxiety i'm pretty calm myself and attractive hello what

01:28:14.780 unattractive unattractive liberal hella liberal yeah being what like being socially like having social

01:28:21.920 anxiety i don't really think i don't really think liberal does social anxiety no because it's

01:28:27.020 feminine kind of well i don't have the social anxiety your social anxiety it's feminine

01:28:33.340 and feminine guys are liberal so i guess having social anxiety is feminine i don't think like being

01:28:41.140 introverted or extroverted knows like a political affiliation or gender yeah and i don't think being

01:28:46.660 introverted means having social anxiety exactly yeah i just want someone that doesn't talk too

01:28:52.220 much yeah yeah i'd like that me too so that you can do all the talking tiffany no no you just want

01:28:57.920 to yap away no okay good talk um good talk oh yeah let's do twitch yo guys oh i i need it madison

01:29:07.840 needs to give her type then i will but i'll shout out twitch oh dude we got hype chat holy shit um

01:29:12.880 that's cool oh yeah because we got partnered on twitch what up okay fucati thank you for the five

01:29:18.040 community subs thank you so much pub test thank you for the five community subs

01:29:21.740 king kip thank you for the prime organ grinder thank you for the prime squawk thank you for the tier

01:29:28.040 one paddy thank you for the prime yo fucati thank you for the hype chat um i don't know if there's a

01:29:33.920 way for us to like have the hype chat start displaying in stream overlay i don't think stream

01:29:39.040 labs has integrated it yet but uh i'll read it here i always say there's nothing on the earth

01:29:44.420 that spans as your own hand wait what as your own hand then screw those women's

01:29:50.680 grammar please um i always say there's nothing on the earth that spans as your own hand

01:29:57.060 okay um it's j808 tier one thank you robin thank you for the tier one appreciate it fucati thank you for

01:30:03.640 our very first hyper chat thank you very much uh yeah appreciate it man um where were we oh madison

01:30:11.580 your type then i'll give mine then we'll finally get into the uh uh what's it called go ahead

01:30:17.020 um preferably tall at least as long as you're taller than me that's fine but preferably tall

01:30:24.760 um i like dark features in a guy like brown eyes brown hair um i do like gravitate towards white men

01:30:34.680 um i like a masculine guy someone who's willing to be able to provide for me and protect and i like

01:30:45.660 someone who is super social like uh i don't know like my boyfriend that was beautiful madison that

01:30:57.160 was beautiful okay i'll give mine uh pull the urch we'll come to that later um okay uh let's see

01:31:05.640 where do i start any race is fine i'll date any race i would say though slight preference for white

01:31:12.180 women and asian women uh slightly awkward asian women chef's kiss um if they've done

01:31:21.760 cello for like 10 years that's pretty fucking hot cello cello why specifically cello

01:31:29.880 uh good like hand coordination very important she's got good technique you know there's other

01:31:36.960 string instruments like there's there's violin there's a viola there's i know but like why

01:31:41.220 specifically cello is bass because like bass you kind of pluck at it a little bit like or wait with

01:31:47.220 the bass do you do the yeah cello bach i bach cello suite number three is one of my favorites so you

01:31:56.420 want a girl to play like cello yes i want her to serenade me it's so cello is your favorite instrument

01:32:01.620 yeah cello's okay the top g of all the instruments like violin's kind of like some weak shit you know

01:32:07.800 like some symphony like nah get me cellos like fuck out of here with your violin you gotta like

01:32:13.060 crank your neck and shit nah cello you get to fucking sit and okay good talk um let's see uh

01:32:20.480 short women i like short women y'all like tall men i like short women um but when i say short i mean

01:32:26.140 really fucking short what's that like 4 11 and below if your height doesn't start with four you ain't the

01:32:33.600 one so that's it's funny like telling girls who are like 5'2 that they're too tall for me

01:32:38.120 like sorry you're a giant that's insane yeah it's wild like how tall how tall are you 5'5 okay that's

01:32:45.600 above average how tall are you 5'2 yeah you're too tall like you're way too tall for me i love it that's

01:32:51.680 crazy where are these small women i've never i'm trying to find them like if you know a dwarf maybe

01:32:57.000 if any girls know dwarf i'm trying to do you like your midgets i that's a dwarf i'm down have you

01:33:04.020 ever railed a midget no but i'm like trying to really do you know anybody anything you know what

01:33:09.340 i'm gonna keep my ad up i'm like i i've shot my shot a couple times and they don't respond like like

01:33:15.460 three i've slid into some dms but they just it didn't work so why do you like like midgets fun fun

01:33:20.860 size hello okay just like i'll find fun size petite um and they're kind of stacked not gonna

01:33:28.000 lie they're stacked you know like condensed into like a smaller no they're just like well yeah but

01:33:35.700 like they're stacked like they got no they're stacked no like they got they got they're like

01:33:42.460 thick they got knockers they got well not always but like they're like got nice butt they got nice

01:33:50.480 fucking booty like they're squished what they're squished here don't talk you don't here just

01:33:56.540 cover your eyes like the panoramic photo i want you to go like this when when the adults are talking

01:34:00.620 about adults are talking about it's not that way your perfect wife is like a midget who plays the cello

01:34:08.120 well again height i'll date i'll date a girl who's taller than me okay she could be six foot seven

01:34:16.760 okay for like wife kid reasons like yeah tall is good i guess just for like railing purposes no no

01:34:24.200 no no i mean like don't get me wrong i would wife up like a girl who's like

01:34:28.060 if she's if i like her it's not a deal breaker for me like if she's a great woman but she's like five feet

01:34:34.980 yeah that's fine you know you know um whereas i i would say for and oh on the height thing here

01:34:42.500 i'll finish up i'm gonna finish up my long list of things that i care about and then we'll get to

01:34:50.100 height so strong prep excuse me strong preference for no plastic surgery no fake tits no fake lips no

01:34:57.400 bbl no lipo don't like it even if like the girl for example uh totally flat i'd prefer her totally flat

01:35:07.320 than with some fake titties like what about a nose job um again well with plastic surgery there's kind

01:35:15.380 of degrees to it so like a nose job is far less invasive than fake boobs and fake boobs are less invasive

01:35:22.020 than a bbl so nose job like that's it's a different procedure too because a lot of the ones that i dislike

01:35:32.880 that's like you're putting something in you like fake tits you put silicone in your nose

01:35:37.940 sure but typically like i my understanding with like rhinoplasty they just like shave it down a little bit

01:35:44.400 i don't sometimes they might inject something in there but um it's still plastic surgery i guess

01:35:51.480 so why are you thinking about getting a nose job or yeah why your nose is fine show me your profile

01:35:58.480 show me your side yeah your nose is fine well what would you do to it um you do like the little

01:36:08.580 yeah i guess you you okay yeah did you have something on this or no it's just like a little

01:36:16.920 bit boring you're it's boring a little bit you're the one who you asked to be on the show

01:36:22.580 i didn't yeah you've reached out to us wanting to be on the show i didn't oh who did someone on your

01:36:31.620 behalf reached out and i don't know who did it but you did you asked me to come on no you guys

01:36:41.140 contacted us initially we followed up with you to see about coming on did you not send the first

01:36:48.040 message uh no yeah you didn't or are you saying your boyfriend reached out to us no do you need do i

01:36:56.080 literally need to pull up the instagram messages and show you that you reached out to us wanting to be

01:37:00.260 on the show in any case it's kind of rude to say that this is boring well you asked what's wrong

01:37:05.680 so i'm just telling you straight up i'm just bored what maybe that's because you're too fixated on

01:37:12.300 wanting to play your bullshit tamagotchi it's not bullshit dude are you really that triggered that i

01:37:17.600 called your tamagotchi bullshit i'm not triggered it's just not bullshit tamagotchi's cool you you seem

01:37:22.640 a little offended by it what's your problem with the tamagotchi man maybe you're bored because you're not

01:37:26.420 really participating in the conversation and every time we've gone around the table get to you you just

01:37:30.180 kind of give a half-assed these are just dumb ass questions bro like what you you asked to be on

01:37:35.380 the show no i didn't you're being very you're being very rude and disrespectful okay okay okay

01:37:42.760 so you asked to be here i'll pull up i'll pull up the initial messages that you sent to us hold on

01:37:49.260 let me scroll up one sec here

01:37:51.960 she's bored okay september 6th you dm'd us hey i said hi or wait hold on you've sent us messages from

01:38:03.840 two different accounts hold on let me pull it up it's uh one sec

01:38:11.660 typically if you're bored um maybe that's just projection maybe you're the board hold on

01:38:23.100 okay i i'm not going to pull it up but you messaged us wanting to be on the show we did not message you

01:38:30.140 okay bro what's with the attitude what do you mean you have an attitude

01:38:37.560 do you think if you're in a conversation with somebody and you say this is boring do you think

01:38:43.280 that that's a polite thing what's wrong what okay so what i'm curious what how would you like to see

01:38:51.540 this conversation go since you're so bored hold on donated we'll get into it great content mr

01:38:58.840 reckless as per usual helping men and women understand each other also for white tupac i am

01:39:05.600 brown dripping riz all day and have stacks you down okay so oh my god by the way nick ready you need

01:39:15.120 to ready your camera um so you're bored um can you make it not a little make it a little less boring

01:39:23.300 for us hold on oh my god modest hikima donated 100 my sprinkler goes like this

01:39:30.240 and comes back like this this ultra adhd of 304 that calls herself waifu

01:39:43.380 makes me loose brain cells by the second who would want that as waifu yikes a freak

01:39:49.620 so you're bored make this conversation less boring go ahead i'm waiting how often do you think about

01:40:00.200 the roman empire brian that is that your best effort sure yeah so i checked on both of our messages here

01:40:09.900 you reached out to us you said my of friends manager and i would love to be on your podcast

01:40:16.060 august 22nd you asked me what this podcast is about i'm assuming you reached out to be on the show

01:40:22.960 because you've seen the clips you've seen the show no i haven't you okay a mess you sent the first

01:40:33.960 message it wasn't me it was probably my manager okay most definitely was my manager the guy with

01:40:41.020 the green hair that was down there no that's my boyfriend that's not my manager okay so in any case

01:40:48.300 a message originating from your instagram see here's the thing if i have a representative

01:40:55.640 contact somebody and i'm working on a business deal they can say that you made the offer

01:41:03.120 in any case you're not particularly adding to the conversation you've been disrespectful this entire

01:41:13.420 time you're entitled you're rude you have tiktok brain you cannot stay focused we've only been live for

01:41:20.780 an hour and a half or so um it's incredibly rude to say that you're bored in a conversation

01:41:25.980 uh you literally asked though like what do you want me to say well i appreciate the truth but you're

01:41:31.660 being rude so i'm gonna ask you to leave okay so get up get the fuck out

01:41:36.940 go ahead madison

01:41:43.120 go fuck on your dead ass podcast bro bro you got no fucking followers you're a fucking clown

01:41:48.460 i don't know bye what why did she come yeah wait that was the weirdest i thought you guys got her

01:42:00.180 from down there and no i thought so i thought she was from the street i yeah so i was like wait

01:42:04.320 that's crazy that's funny she's got on my dead ass podcast bitch you fucking do only fans you

01:42:16.400 fucking degenerate good they're all gone no more only fans girls i could i could literally stop your

01:42:24.900 boyfriend no that's her which we're about to get into here we need i i almost think that we

01:42:31.340 do we adjust the seating arrangement a little bit do you need me to like scoot over i almost feel like

01:42:37.460 we could tighten it up a little bit so why don't you two shift down so you two just shift down hey

01:42:44.420 what's the number on your microphone there oh let's take her out we're taking her out of the

01:42:49.840 description that's five nick mute four okay no no no here just you did in that seat yes in that seat

01:42:57.820 see the chat i was i could i was about to kick her off right away but i wanted to get a little

01:43:11.400 back i was i was committed to kicking her off pretty much as soon as she said she was bored but

01:43:16.460 i wanted to drag it out a little bit um yeah that chick was obnoxious um yo she asked to come on

01:43:24.960 she she dm'd us asking to be on the show so whatever um i'm gonna adjust the cameras a little

01:43:31.920 bit i forgot where we were a little bit hold on

01:43:36.060 yeah i i removed it from the uh from the uh thing let me just make sure i got it right

01:43:44.980 okay we're good it's out um

01:43:50.040 nah she was just rude from the fucking jump like she was on her fucking tamagotchi

01:43:55.940 donated 99 dollars clapping clapping clapping clapping clapping clapping clapping oh my god

01:44:04.940 clapping clapping wow could she be any more rude

01:44:08.620 uh yeah bro um we were up to you telling us about oh okay yeah yeah

01:44:15.740 um no she was she was rude she's on her fucking tamagotchi while i was doing the fucking intro

01:44:22.600 and i was like looking over as i was doing the intro i'm like what the fuck bro so uh yeah whatever

01:44:28.700 um nothing lost because she was really not she was not adding anything to the conversation

01:44:33.380 so i'm gonna adjust the camera angles um why don't you while i'm adjusting the camera angles

01:44:40.900 tell us about and i i'm i wish we'd gotten this into this a little bit sooner you have quite a story

01:44:47.920 to tell us so why don't you tell us yeah for sure even before the show there was some i know y'all were

01:44:54.540 talking and i was like i'm gonna not say anything and see what y'all's reactions are to kind of like

01:45:00.200 vibe it out yeah um but yeah so i did have an blind date situation march of last year so i was

01:45:09.420 so yeah so i had a blind date situation march of last year i was dealing with a lot of mental

01:45:19.240 health issues you know um i was off my medication on all kinds of drugs alcohols not feeling good at

01:45:25.800 all and for me like i always liked quote unquote going out and like dating and just kind of seeing

01:45:32.580 how the vibes are but i was so like lonely and just wanted to see how it goes and i moved to vegas

01:45:38.920 to pursue my i moved to vegas to pursue my music career that's when kind of what drove me to go to

01:45:45.480 vegas and i had a friend that was living there i had a job so everything was great but um yeah so i

01:45:53.260 go on this blind date and i had a manic episode so it ended up being uh unfortunate circumstance i was

01:46:01.240 charged with the symptom murder and yeah so my case is closed now um but i've done everything in my

01:46:08.960 power to improve on it um i seek mental health treatment i see my doctors regularly i work i do

01:46:17.040 a lot of different community work service and earlier i said i was an author which is kind of why

01:46:23.480 i wanted to share that as well i recently published an autobiography it is called who is nikon you could

01:46:28.620 be in a bloody las vegas to tell story so that's where i talk mostly about my journey moving from

01:46:34.360 around the united states as well as what really happened in vegas because you know i'm not sure

01:46:40.400 if you googled my name but there's some perceptions in the media that i don't think they have done it

01:46:45.280 justice or provided like context for everything that was accurate so i wanted to share my own true

01:46:53.120 narrative and kind of like talk about mental health because i think everybody on some level has had like

01:46:59.500 some kind of you know problems in the past or like for me for me i've had like a bipolar and

01:47:06.320 schizophrenia so a lot of people have different perceptions of it and being off your medication with

01:47:12.560 those conditions is kind of like you know not very good so that's kind of what where i talk about

01:47:18.020 more in my book um about the hallucinations and the delusions i had but i'm super thankful that

01:47:23.700 you know um i actually had my book signing in bars noble this yeah this saturday so it was a super good

01:47:29.900 turnaround and yeah if y'all have any questions would love to yeah so we pulled up we have some of the

01:47:36.920 news articles ready to go so um and i have some questions for you go ahead nick so this was in the

01:47:44.440 new york post college student who stabbed her blind date in revenge for u.s killing of iranian commander

01:47:51.600 gets probation so you got was it 30 and what was the what were the initial charges i was initially

01:47:59.700 charged with attempt murder to counter battery attempt murder to counter battery and burglary of a

01:48:05.180 business oh burglary of okay i didn't know that um what did you plead down to two counts of false

01:48:11.280 imprisonment two counts of okay so the initial charge was the big one was attempted murder yeah

01:48:16.580 and that carries my understanding in las vegas it carries or excuse me in nevada uh two to 20 years of

01:48:24.480 uh potential prison sentence correct they can also reward my understanding i didn't know this

01:48:31.400 they can also reward probation for attempted murder in nevada um but tip that that's the range

01:48:38.520 the potential punishment anywhere from two years on the low end to 20 years incarceration um pull up

01:48:46.280 the news article really quick okay um so here why don't we go to the next tab is this oh wait zoom out

01:48:58.180 like so you were arrested you got arrested right yes nick can you go back can you zoom zoom out a

01:49:04.880 bit not my favorite picture okay this is your mug shot good times um good this was that was this on

01:49:11.900 the night that you were arrested correct yes and then there's a little video that we're gonna just

01:49:16.460 watch that will help us next tab i think it should be oh full screen nick full screen come on

01:49:21.300 um can we go smaller is there smaller for us oh yeah tab please can you make us smaller

01:49:30.220 okay

01:49:33.720 here just just put us in the corner

01:49:40.780 yeah just press hold on press yeah yeah press play

01:49:45.800 hide us hide the camera hide the camera just so we no no no no no no no go to video

01:50:12.020 just hide us so we can read this go ahead play it you were charged with attempted murder in two

01:50:19.700 counts of battery and you were on house arrest did okay go ahead um bring us back

01:50:24.640 um so that must have been quite the ordeal for you right for sure yeah um so you

01:50:34.840 give us the backstory like so okay you matched with a guy on a dating app correct yeah correct

01:50:44.080 you're on uh we've never met before you never met before just totally random guy were you just in

01:50:49.900 vegas for a couple days just no i actually moved there i wanted you were living there okay yeah

01:50:53.920 because i wanted to pursue my music career i was already working there okay i already had contacts

01:50:57.760 with djs yeah voice lesson people and that was my optimal goal i didn't move there intentionally

01:51:03.340 to cause harm but um i had a lot of mental health issues and i was off my medication and

01:51:08.900 given a lot of context that i provide more in my autobiography i was able to um kind of provide

01:51:16.140 more context for the situation but if you have any more questions i would love to answer well so

01:51:20.000 you're at least what you told the officer when he was interviewing you you told him that you

01:51:27.280 wanted to get revenge because the u.s had a was they assassinated what was his name

01:51:35.480 i don't want to repeat his name but i do i do understand what you're saying well he is the the you

01:51:43.860 wanted to get revenge because the uh the u.s had uh it was like an iranian general or something correct

01:51:51.860 okay um and so is that was that actually the case were you in like you said you were manic

01:52:00.100 yeah i mean obviously that is the video i'm not denying what i'm saying right but but you said

01:52:05.300 you were going through some mental health issues so i'm just trying to like for sure yeah so um i was

01:52:10.140 interviewed by multiple different doctors doctors that my attorney recommended as well as the state's

01:52:15.120 doctors uh forensic psychologists a lot of different people in this experts that made the conclusion that

01:52:21.200 basically what i was saying is gibberish and it wasn't honestly he has a very negative perception

01:52:28.260 of what i believe in and i never supported him i never want to support him anything like that but

01:52:34.860 when you're in a maddox at a point and i describe that more in so my book as well you'd have a lot of

01:52:41.500 like specific delusions and hallucinations that feel super real to you and you're able to not able to

01:52:46.740 comprehend what's real and what's not which is why i really like this red and blue pills

01:52:51.700 the matrix nice do you listen to kanye yeah i listen to kanye sometimes but this girl i'm not sure

01:52:58.380 how that relates um where you were made no yay is about like bipolar being being bipolar yeah the album

01:53:04.880 yay um i actually kind of really like that song right are you bipolar no no okay um so

01:53:13.820 let's see here uh like for manic i mean like um i describe it in like different uh interviews as

01:53:23.040 well but i really thought i was playing a role in a movie like different i was playing different scenes

01:53:28.800 yeah for example we had a car ride conversation uh we had certain discussions and you know nothing

01:53:35.560 against him but because i was so like manic and already off my medication and these medications are

01:53:42.080 you know they're anti-psychotic so when you don't take when you go cold turkey on them it's way worse

01:53:47.320 than not taking them so it was like um kind of hard with that as well so anything he said honestly just

01:53:53.300 made me angry inside and you know um for example whenever we're in the casinos um whenever i would

01:53:59.980 see the slot machines it would be like like it would cause me to have head fog and kind of like i don't

01:54:07.060 know what's the best way to describe it kind of like paparazzi like with the lights and everything

01:54:12.080 so did this like manic episode that you have like did it last only throughout the day or was it like

01:54:17.860 a couple days honestly i was manic probably the whole time i moved there two weeks before and i didn't

01:54:25.320 get complete clarity until three weeks after i was in jail which is why i had a competency hearing to

01:54:32.260 make sure that i was um mentally stable to stand in trial okay so okay and so

01:54:39.560 uh let's see i don't know that i know it's a lot of information yeah yeah well you provided something

01:54:49.360 in your pre-show notes to us which i don't know if i because i feel like this is very there's a lot of

01:54:55.480 gravity to this situation so i don't know how but you said that when the police were interviewing you

01:55:03.640 interrogating you you had a i can't believe i'm actually saying this you had a butt plug in

01:55:11.420 and you asked multiple times to remove it and they said no while they were that's very true yes

01:55:18.320 okay wait did that clip did that clip show they didn't report on it but it was like on the like

01:55:26.360 complete video coverage that was like on the case but they didn't release it okay and so uh you had

01:55:33.540 grid one motorsports donated 100 gentlemen remember thou shalt carry concealed with one in the chamber

01:55:45.020 and do not date above a six crazy feel like the slick persian is probably rethinking that sisterhood

01:55:50.980 comment from earlier

01:55:52.100 nila any thoughts on that i'd still protect her okay um i appreciate that you wrote a book about it

01:56:03.280 i think you mentioned how many copies has it sold every book signing i've had we've sold out all the

01:56:08.280 books so about 50 copies in a day do you did the guy sue you no he actually like at the sentencing

01:56:19.900 which is like the last court hearing uh where i apologized and was able to express what was going

01:56:26.700 on mentally more to the judge coming from zero criminal background and everything with my education

01:56:31.300 and my family and he forgave me and he actually said he didn't want to pursue charges and you know

01:56:38.660 that kind of gave me a sense of relief obviously i'm going to regret the situation for the rest of my

01:56:42.480 life nothing i can i don't have a time machine sorry i don't but uh it did kind of put me at ease

01:56:48.640 knowing that he did forgive me in the end so i think that left that a very positive note did you have

01:56:54.560 to pay any restitution to him i don't know you you don't know i don't know i don't pay any

01:57:00.540 restitution to him but i do have to pay for my probation and court fees and everything like that

01:57:05.200 okay um what so i don't know if you really because i had to step away there i don't know if you really

01:57:11.500 explained kind of so you met him on this dating app you guys met up at the hotel uh you guys proceeded

01:57:17.300 to start having sex yes or was he was he tied up um so before we even like before he even picked me

01:57:26.900 up we already had like conversations on uh snapchat and text messages and he was really into

01:57:32.680 experimenting and he told me he liked some of female domination and you know with gen zers like me

01:57:39.280 i love experimenting why not you know some men are into it some not some girls want just not you know

01:57:44.680 you never know so he was okay with like using sex toys a blindfold and you know i have those

01:57:51.440 conversations and given that perspective i think it kind of provides a layer of context of the

01:57:57.980 situation as well obviously i don't think having a kink of stabbing somebody in the middle of sex

01:58:04.140 during the night isn't is definitely not something that should be acceptable obviously um in the neck

01:58:11.320 did you go into the date with that pre like notion that you were going to like hurt him

01:58:19.580 is that your phone no no like clear it off the table move the mic move that mic into the corner

01:58:25.640 please go ahead yeah no i didn't have any like pre-said notions but again i was in a very bad

01:58:33.940 mental set of point and you know i described those specific delusions and hallucinations but unless you do

01:58:40.400 have like those specific conditions like bipolar schizophrenia it's very hard to like

01:58:44.040 say it like i would look at a sky like for example the sky is blue but if somebody who is

01:58:51.080 hallucinating see the sky as pink and they're like oh the sky is blue and you're like no the sky is pink

01:58:56.500 i 100 believe that did that video i was kind of focusing on something else the video that we showed

01:59:02.100 did it show the weapon did it show the weapon in that video the pink knife did i send the wrong

01:59:07.860 video i'm not sure did you bring your own knife or who called 9-1-1 hold on

01:59:13.900 it's tied up um we both called 9-1-1 i thought did i send the wrong fucking video

01:59:21.380 is it in the video oh can you pull it up really quick this is so this is the the weapon correct

01:59:28.920 okay um that you used to stab him my neck's starting to hurt

01:59:34.720 um um it was my protection honestly like i had a lot of people tell me like vegas is crazy like

01:59:44.460 you you're always gonna have some kind of something on you to make sure you don't get in situations that

01:59:50.600 are gonna be unfortunate so you you got them in the neck like was it a graze or how did you

01:59:56.560 was it a slit or a stab it was more like i described that as i said the stab when i talked to the police

02:00:04.400 but it was more like a poke a poke if i had to describe it a poke yes with a knife okay um how many

02:00:13.900 times did you was it just a singular poke it was twice twice okay is he okay yeah um he didn't go to

02:00:22.360 hospital and yeah he's fine oh i don't i don't know if he's fine but so you from my knowledge did

02:00:31.980 you penetrate did you penetrate his skin yes did he bleed a lot how much was he bleeding a lot

02:00:39.960 honestly like it's kind of hard for me to remember all the details i'm like still a little bit foggy

02:00:45.960 from it but from what i can like remember i don't think there was much okay um so my understanding

02:00:53.840 is that you and i don't know at what point this occurred in some of the news articles i wrote it

02:00:58.960 said that you were committed to a psych facility is that correct yeah i was in a mental health

02:01:03.820 institution for 10 days immediately after the attack no week because you were a week before oh a

02:01:09.460 week before the attack before yeah you were in sorry a week before i moved to vegas which would be

02:01:14.980 like four weeks before the attack okay um so four weeks before the attack for 10 days that's a very

02:01:24.940 long time to be in a psych facility correct yeah um what was your diagnosis bipolar schizophrenia

02:01:33.440 depression anxiety and ptsd okay i see and so and they gave you medications i'm assuming did you stop

02:01:41.140 taking the medications and then yeah and when i started more talking more about my conditions

02:01:46.680 and everything i connected with a lot of people that had specific um delusions that i also had for

02:01:52.740 example i really thought that pills were kind of kind of like hurt my creativity or i had a delusion

02:01:58.340 that the pills were poison so it wasn't that me consciously being like fuck the pills like right

02:02:03.740 you know like i'm not justifying it i'm just like providing context of like

02:02:07.540 that's what was going on in my mind and that's why i really wanted like went off my meds essentially

02:02:14.420 were you and so there was a question of your competency correct when it came to the criminal

02:02:21.840 case um were you uh you were deemed competent correct uh after three weeks yes after three weeks

02:02:28.900 i couldn't remember what was what was happened after the event i had to hear from my attorneys okay

02:02:33.960 and i had to be stable on that medication for three weeks for it to like start working it's not like

02:02:39.560 you take a pill one day and it starts working but you you didn't like plead insanity or something like

02:02:44.160 that um no i mean there's a lot of legal jargon to it like i took a guilty plea agreement so yeah you

02:02:52.800 pled yeah or was it no contest or it was guilty okay yeah well because like you can sometimes in a

02:03:00.340 plea agreement you plead no contest so it's not necessarily an admission of guilt but you plead

02:03:05.280 i don't know if it's no low cantandre and i've heard of it um but i don't that wasn't sure yeah so

02:03:14.040 you got uh you didn't go to prison though okay you got 36 months of probation for attempted murder

02:03:21.520 um actually i like to correct that my attempted murder charge was dropped and my new okay it was

02:03:29.840 false imprisonment which is what i'm but your initial charge was attempted murder you pled to

02:03:35.620 two counts of false imprisonment was it yeah okay um i'm gonna just say if you had been a man

02:03:44.020 like if we reversed the genders if you had been a man and you stabbed a woman on a date in the neck

02:03:51.500 twice if everything about your case was the same but it had been a man doing it he'd be in prison

02:03:57.860 for a very very long time i like to disagree you do you think so yeah because there's a lot of

02:04:05.140 different factors that went into my case i had zero zero criminal history i graduated number three in

02:04:10.520 my class 4.0 in college from berkeley i had a i had a very amazing family educated i come from a really

02:04:19.460 good background and i wasn't even like i was not even suspended in school nothing like dress code

02:04:25.040 nothing so it was um all mental health issues essentially all the things you listed aside

02:04:31.100 perhaps from your lack of criminal history that doesn't really change the gravitas of what happened

02:04:38.040 donated 100 regardless of mental health etc pure failure of our government should have been deported

02:04:45.600 back home by homeland security immediately how is this cycle still here bit much minimum i actually

02:04:52.820 have a good response for this sure go ahead so um they act i actually interviewed with homeland

02:04:58.180 and they did a whole investigation on homeland security yeah and you know they're very good i mean

02:05:03.480 sure they had everything they had my own everything i've ever searched in my life like no doubt in

02:05:08.860 their like you know ways to investigate and they found zero evidence of anything tying me to terrorism or

02:05:14.680 any organization or the guy that i named in that night do you so like because i i think i saw a couple

02:05:21.280 things online and some people want to paint you as a terrorist um because you committed this act of

02:05:31.440 violence on a u.s citizen in the name uh as revenge for the killing of an iranian general

02:05:38.360 grid one motorsports donated 100 but plug assassin we should we shouldn't laugh though we shouldn't

02:05:45.660 laugh if you had been a man you would be in jail right now life literally on easy mode

02:05:51.260 you said you had a specific response did you respond to the yeah the with the terrorism threats yeah

02:05:59.880 did you respond already or yeah okay yeah i mean related to what grid one motorsports here say in

02:06:05.900 addition to what i already said if it was a man in your position exact same context exact same

02:06:12.040 uh circumstance probably not getting 36 years of prob or excuse me 36 months of probation

02:06:18.800 probably doing a prison sentence and arguably charged as a terrorist

02:06:23.760 yeah i would think you would need evidence to charge somebody with terrorism well the evidence

02:06:29.920 is in the body can't the body worn just because somebody says something in a manic state of point

02:06:35.060 doesn't mean that they are actually associated with that that's just say for example somebody's

02:06:39.960 having a manic episode and they say some white supremacist stuff and they don't even believe in that

02:06:45.960 but because they're in a manic state of point they said that i don't know i'm not i'm not an attorney in

02:06:49.880 the state of nevada so i don't know what would constitute or i'm not familiar with federal law

02:06:54.620 because i assume an act of terrorism would be uh that'd be pursued prosecuted on the federal level

02:07:00.880 uh in any case removing the terrorist component i would say that a man in the exact same position

02:07:07.480 stabbing a woman on a from a dating app that motherfucker's going to prison wait when they

02:07:14.000 test you for these like mental disorders how do they know if you're faking it or not

02:07:17.760 i mean doctors that my attorneys recommended and also the doctors from the state of nevada the

02:07:26.380 basically the prosecutors have also concluded that as well as me being diagnosed with those

02:07:33.360 conditions before the incident even occurred so it wasn't that sorry when were you diagnosed with

02:07:40.140 bipolar and schizophrenia at the mental institution that i was in at okay so it was like right before

02:07:46.440 that happened when you like found out right so like the back buddy thing i got re-diagnosed back

02:07:52.740 then and as well as when i was 18 okay because i was i had a traumatic event let's just put it that

02:07:59.600 way and so that kind of led to my ptsd and 18 is whenever i first started hallucinating

02:08:04.640 female privilege how old are you again 23 okay

02:08:11.300 you got a very light sentence i think well i disagree i don't know if you stab somebody with a knife

02:08:23.140 i don't care how clean your no criminal record no criminal history

02:08:28.740 that's a prison sentence in my in brian's

02:08:34.200 sense of justice well but the woke district attorney in las vegas disagrees i think like i

02:08:45.440 said i think there's more facts to the case than just like no lack of criminal history but grid one

02:08:51.360 motorsports donated 100 looks like i need to burn some more cash had you been a military age male

02:08:58.540 you would be in a very dark place not in a hospital own the fact that your sex gained you privilege

02:09:05.080 or stfu

02:09:06.340 i stand in my firm belief that it could have been any gender sure and there's no evidence you can

02:09:15.320 guarantee me 100 that if the same case occurred with a different gender it would have been a

02:09:19.780 different circumstance butler donated 99 oh my god there is significantly higher rates of genital

02:09:26.160 herpes infections for immigrants who commit violent crimes using sharp objects look into it

02:09:32.700 i did not know that statistics that's jay butler he's very big on the herpes conversation he

02:09:39.600 loves to uh bring it up you can't find it madison uh okay um shit i think i missed a couple of the

02:09:50.100 chats for the record i am clean and i do get tested but i don't believe that's very true well thank you

02:09:56.380 for the clarification um madison maybe it's in the can you look at the here just madison come back

02:10:03.120 down i'll find it oh okay whatever um well okay las vegas exact same hold on i got some modest hikima

02:10:14.320 donated 100 major w brian getting rid of disrespect imagine not straight to gitmo because woman but men

02:10:23.200 have all the privileges right because when i was younger i was s8 i was able to claim mental health

02:10:29.660 issues what has this country come to

02:10:32.540 i will say there's it's definitely a gynocentric justice system you know you often hear talks about

02:10:41.320 you know there's a disparate so there is a disparity in sentencing between men and women in the u.s it's

02:10:46.640 eight times greater than the disparity in sentencing which you you often hear about this the disparate

02:10:53.060 excuse me the disparity in sentencing between white and black men in the u.s you often hear these

02:10:59.860 statistics that um uh the the comparison between white and black men uh being uh being evidence of

02:11:09.960 a racial bias or systemic racism but the disparity is eight times greater between men and women

02:11:17.180 and so couldn't you make the argument then that the that there's this systemic rate or excuse me

02:11:26.580 systemic sexism against men because of the the insane disparity um i think i have some stats here

02:11:34.880 men as compared to women get 63 higher prison sentences they're more likely to be sentenced

02:11:41.780 given equal amount of evidence more likely to be charged in the first place more likely to be

02:11:47.080 arrested in the first place more likely to receive the death sentence 20 times more likely to be killed by

02:11:53.600 the police uh so definitely i definitely think it's a gynocentric justice system i would say also

02:12:00.720 again this is different i don't know do you know who jonathan coppen fuck i can't pronounce his name

02:12:05.940 jonathan coppenhaver am i saying it right i do not war machine nick can you pull up the wikipedia tab

02:12:13.100 um this was in vegas in the exact same county uh granted he was charged with some different things

02:12:22.160 um he's serving a life sentence for our kidnapping domestic battery and other charges um i think he

02:12:34.480 was initially wait nick can you pull it back up actually can you scroll down scroll down scroll down

02:12:42.100 a bit to the chart uh up up up up just the charges here convictions

02:12:46.580 okay so he was not con okay you got a lot of fucking convictions there he beat up his girl for

02:12:53.960 ex-girlfriend and another dude obviously very different i don't want to like do a comparison

02:13:00.580 he's doing uh life in prison with a possibility of parole after 36 years granted again his crimes were

02:13:10.900 very different but that's a pretty gnarly difference i do think that the case is very

02:13:19.400 different but also like the fact that i did same district attorney though exact same lost it i think

02:13:27.020 was it clark county correct yeah that was tried in clark county um life in prison he beat up and

02:13:35.720 assaulted his ex-girlfriend and his new her new boyfriend or whatever terrible crime i'm i'm not

02:13:43.640 trying to bring levity to that and for the record he did consent and there was no sa in that sure

02:13:49.580 sure um what what war machine did absolutely terrible um i don't know what's worse i don't know

02:13:59.400 but this is a very different in the same jurisdiction in the exact same the exact same district

02:14:05.480 attorney you have two very different outcomes again i he might have had a bit of a criminal

02:14:11.380 history i don't know all the details he uh the the crimes committed were different what he did was

02:14:20.780 very very fucked up but um and also i just wanted to put it out there um with my mental health issues

02:14:29.520 and what i said to the police that's why they charged me with attempted murder i asked my attorney

02:14:34.340 me hey like if i didn't say those things afterwards what would be my charges and they said it would just

02:14:39.160 be a battery two battery charges because what i said they um basically charged me with into the murder

02:14:46.220 and berkeley was because it happened at a hotel so not providing justification for it but i do think

02:14:53.180 that because of my mental state of point and having a clean um criminal history with my educational

02:14:59.560 background i volunteered a lot i volunteered for the make a wish foundation sure so a lot of impact on

02:15:05.080 the community and didn't have like a record on my you know my has donated 99 there are dozens of

02:15:13.560 cases you can find with a five minute google search that disproves her feeling on the topic

02:15:18.480 there are niche cases where the man didn't got to jail however majority received a minimum of five

02:15:24.280 years sentence also this looks like a trend laster i'm not sure what a true oh this looks like a

02:15:32.880 trend last year is that what he's trying to say um i'm actually not understanding what he's saying

02:15:39.460 well i feel like perhaps it's not fair to me to compare it to the jonathan i can't pronounce his

02:15:45.940 last copenhayver war machine thing because very different crimes um i'd be curious to see

02:15:53.400 like how the district attorney in clark county in las vegas is charging like what the outcome is

02:16:01.200 when it comes to sentencing for men who have done who got charged initially with attempted murder

02:16:08.140 and if they also got off on probation that's just what i'd be curious to know but i don't know

02:16:15.000 yeah again i'm not an attorney but i do know there was a news article by

02:16:19.400 um lb like criminal review it was like a attorney's website where they explained sure the

02:16:27.200 circumstances of the sentencing and the facts of my case and how that led to my sentencing

02:16:32.220 specifically okay so check it out i'm curious at what point were you in a like i guess sane state

02:16:42.280 of mind to recognize what you did because or i guess just like when that episode ended and you were

02:16:48.520 just like this is like when you finally realized what you did and that you weren't shooting movie

02:16:53.360 scenes and stuff anymore right so like three weeks into it which is when i was released from jail

02:16:59.160 because i was able to pass the competency hearing oh okay so you didn't really realize like even when

02:17:04.780 i was in custody i thought the movie scene just continued in jail and we're shooting oranges new black

02:17:10.420 oh shit okay yeah yeah so you believed you were like in a film the whole time yeah and every scene

02:17:18.380 was different for example um custody was orange is a new block and whenever uh we were in the hotel i

02:17:27.400 thought i was playing different roles whenever i was interrogated by the police i thought i was

02:17:31.480 playing carrie from homeland and this is some kind of like spy movie i'm doing and that's kind of why i

02:17:38.700 said what i said obviously it's not like i can't take my words back it is what it is it is on tape

02:17:45.360 but i can provide context of what was going on in my mind at that point yeah for me to say that you

02:17:50.080 know um did you like did you ever in your past have manic episodes or was this like the first one you've

02:17:57.120 ever had or do you i've definitely had past manic episodes especially because i was you know um

02:18:05.220 not competent with my treatment as well as whenever i did have a traumatic experience when i was 18

02:18:13.360 and um would love your thoughts on this but in persian community it's often really hard to talk about

02:18:20.140 those experiences of trauma and you're often like shamed for it okay um i guess we have to change

02:18:26.280 do you all want to get married someday yes yes yes yes yes absolutely do you guys all want to have

02:18:37.520 kids too yeah yes yes yeah well i guess we already kind of answered this like what's your type but

02:18:44.440 what what do you think is a marriageable man he has to love god yeah

02:18:52.120 yeah let's go around the table um i think a marriageable man is a high valued man and

02:19:00.520 one who is constantly growing mentally so within his mindset spiritually with always with god

02:19:06.700 financially his money um physically so he's always staying fit and one who values family and friends

02:19:15.560 whiskey squirrel donated 100 nothing was real until she beat the system and saw an opportunity to

02:19:22.620 profit from her crime by writing a book

02:19:24.900 she's just telling her story man i'm telling my story but for the record i'm also partnering up with

02:19:33.100 the national mental health alliance so 100 other proceeds after expenses does go to that organization

02:19:38.840 that's great yeah super cool okay yeah continue and um like i said and family and friends i think

02:19:45.780 if he has majority of those things that's a marriageable man do you want to be like a stay

02:19:51.000 home wife and mom when you're older uh no so right now like i is the stage where i want to get my

02:19:57.600 working done with but obviously once i have children those are going to be that's going to be my main

02:20:01.840 priority yeah so if work does get in the way i will easily cut off work yeah for you um i don't

02:20:09.700 really have a set definition honestly i like to see um what like they're bringing to the table maybe

02:20:16.480 like they're short on some ends but longer on the other pun not intended but um you know

02:20:24.380 especially like hanging out for a really long time because they might be the whole package have all the

02:20:29.200 check marks but when we hang out for more than like three dates then they're no longer like

02:20:34.980 given the same vibe so i think there's a lot of context that goes into that are you in a relationship

02:20:39.740 right now i forgot sorry i'm single right now okay um something my dad actually said like a

02:20:48.960 recommendation for like marrying a guy is like you can really have fun with anyone like you can go out

02:20:56.420 drink have a good time and it he was like oh the thing that actually means something is like

02:21:02.160 someone that's there for you like in the hard times someone you know that's you know just consistently

02:21:08.180 there you know i think also too just through like my parents are divorced and stuff you just have to

02:21:15.260 have someone that you always have fun with you know as well keep it keep it alive keep it fun

02:21:21.820 definitely that definitely um someone who doesn't drink or smoke and can provide do you drink when

02:21:31.640 you go up no wait someone who doesn't drink or smoke and can provide yeah what was the question

02:21:36.420 what's your uh what do you think is a marriageable man oh marriageable man okay because i was about

02:21:42.260 to say like you're 18 you probably don't give a fuck about right now if a guy can provide well right

02:21:47.460 now do you would you prefer if your boyfriend or whatever doesn't drink or smoke too well yeah

02:21:52.640 yeah yeah but like you're 18 you're probably most of your people you're dating are probably college

02:21:57.940 guys who don't have a job so

02:21:59.880 we're talking about marriage no i know i know but i was just curious like if if that's also the case

02:22:06.820 like right now like you're look i can't imagine like most college girls are like looking for a guy to

02:22:11.540 provide because they can't well the question was marriageable no i know but i'm asking

02:22:17.520 is it also the case that you're looking for that okay that's i feel like that's a great thing though

02:22:23.180 to find your partner like a serious committed long-term partner in the time when you're in college

02:22:28.760 because ultimately you're gonna be there for someone when they have nothing and when they have something

02:22:35.640 in the future too word um well i guess a marriageable man to me would be someone that's

02:22:44.880 religious someone family oriented someone that's loyal that's the big biggest thing for me i'm very

02:22:50.720 i'm strictly monogamous and i expect the same from my partner um and someone you know that can provide

02:22:57.060 it's not necessarily about the money but obviously to have a successful family the wife should be able

02:23:03.380 to stay at home with the children and that's i want to be in a situation where that could happen

02:23:08.140 did you see your recent ex-boyfriend as like someone that was possibly like potentially marriage material

02:23:14.720 yeah he he was a great guy um like i can't deny that he was very good to me very kind um really hard

02:23:22.060 worker like i said he had three jobs um but he just didn't check that aspect of monogamy yeah

02:23:29.280 just just go um okay uh oh i didn't finish up what i'm looking for in a girl so i think we talked

02:23:40.420 about the plastic surgery shit uh yeah don't like plastic surgery um

02:23:45.500 oh yeah you were oh i remember where we left okay you were talking about you asked me what about the

02:23:53.240 nose job and you're like i'm thinking about getting a nose job and i said no your nose looks fine

02:23:58.300 then her not you but the girl who was sitting there was like oh this conversation's boring

02:24:04.860 when i'm trying to compliment you on your your nose is fine she had a shot to make it better

02:24:10.100 what's that she had a shot to make it more entertaining

02:24:13.340 yeah the roman empire stay in her bedroom and never come out

02:24:18.340 that's what she does she fucking does of and she's degenerate okay um let's see

02:24:26.000 how much money she makes bro she's funny i'm just like what's that i just i want to ask i wanted

02:24:32.560 to ask her how much money she made uh it was so like it was such a degenerate conversation too

02:24:39.520 because she like got up and she was like i have more followers than you like which isn't true i mean

02:24:44.620 i'm like i don't i wish i didn't respond the way i did because i was like oh i like i know that's not

02:24:51.800 true no but it's like it's like uh it actually is not true and i don't i'm not like i never would

02:25:00.100 brag in that way like oh i've got more followers than you like that's so fucking lame yeah but i was

02:25:05.680 like i was more upset that she was just factually incorrect so that that was like it was so

02:25:13.360 well i think she was a child like she just gave child behavior did she have like contacts in

02:25:18.380 yeah okay oh did she have like the big black oh i couldn't tell because i thought that was her

02:25:23.820 eyes for no i was like made sure to check that's super creepy well i didn't see because her fucking

02:25:30.060 hair is just covering her her shit so what a

02:25:34.660 interesting surprised me as someone who would do only fans though for some reason

02:25:41.040 nah i she's exactly the fucking type of chick i didn't get that from her vibe though like she

02:25:46.540 seemed super um obnoxious terrible person just a terrible person the minute she said like furries i

02:25:54.640 was that's when i knew no she was she was he goes are you a part of the lgbtq community tiffany

02:26:01.140 wanted to smoke tiffany well i think she originally she actually was originally triggered when you

02:26:07.280 said something about the f word and i could see she was a little bit yeah already on edge from that

02:26:13.000 but yeah she was trolling i think i probably like as as soon as i called her out on the fucking

02:26:17.640 bullshit tamagotchi thing when she was what is that it's like this that shit's old care of an animal

02:26:23.280 it's like it was like a keychain thing that you put on your book bag in school and like kids

02:26:27.640 would just play it you just like take care it's like a game boy but like this it's dedicated to

02:26:32.340 one game and you take care of like a pet it's like yeah just google that i'm feeding my tomagotchi

02:26:38.800 i was like what nah she came to troll she for sure came to troll but it's just like brian what is this

02:26:45.060 on your your back your neck oh i got my back's hurting so it's it's a it's like a massage tool

02:26:52.880 yeah just wait brian yeah i have a gift for you oh what is it a knife oh my god i thought

02:26:59.820 oh it's your book oh yeah i told you bring a signed copy oh thank you thank you i'm definitely

02:27:09.080 not going to read this but thank you very much that's very nice why did you say that what do you

02:27:12.960 mean i'm just honest like you are she didn't know i just messaged me and you were like yeah bring

02:27:17.500 a copy english is my second language so like i'm pretty much illiterate and i'm just kidding i'm

02:27:21.980 kidding no well thank you very much i appreciate the gift who brought the cake by the way was that

02:27:25.680 you i did yeah she brought a cake maybe we should show that to the we should just put it right there

02:27:29.900 can you put that on the seat over there thank you very much though that's that's nice of you

02:27:33.200 um what was i gonna say uh oh my type oh the video i gotta play you guys the bowing video because

02:27:39.800 this is this is a marriage nick come on f11 bro come on come on dude uh scroll up make it big please

02:27:49.640 a little one more i think should be fine just scroll down just a tad yeah that's fine okay

02:27:58.140 boom fucking bow do you see the bow that's respect to her husband yeah yeah see this is like a maid

02:28:09.280 no no this is a this is a housewife this is a wife that is not even made correctly you wouldn't do

02:28:15.320 this for your marriageable provider husband no what would you do i'm not gonna open doors for him

02:28:21.100 that's weird no what about the bow though hold on wait for the bow watch the bow again wait for the

02:28:25.680 bow wait what wait for it that's autistic wait for boom look at the fucking holy shit can we that's

02:28:35.880 fucking dope dude rafael's comment hell no uh what could we read rafael's comment on the video

02:28:44.860 on the bowing video oh i don't know um you wouldn't

02:28:48.640 baby check thank for the gift of 20 motorships so wait you wouldn't bow

02:28:54.540 you wouldn't do that no for your husband no

02:28:58.300 you're making me seem like i'm crazy donated 100

02:29:02.720 no girl would ever do that be purposeful when dating for marriage just fun does not cut it

02:29:07.860 marriages take work on both sides and are built indeed they not bought after 17 years of marriage

02:29:14.600 i still compare all women to my wife and find them lacking take your time be better

02:29:20.140 that was beautiful grid one motorsports thank you thank you what did that have to do with anything

02:29:25.620 what do you guys think about that bowing video though like that's pretty gangsta that's like dope

02:29:30.500 right yeah it was so valid would you would you bow i would never bow you wouldn't bow i'm kidding i

02:29:37.000 would never you wouldn't bow that's a weird i think she's trolling jeez if a guy was providing for

02:29:41.920 me paying for everything didn't make me have to work a day in my life i would bow once a day well

02:29:48.120 yeah if you want that kind of treatment like you got to be the provider like you got to be

02:29:52.660 yeah like all bills paid for everything paid for she's stay at home that's that's how you can get

02:29:58.580 that treatment i think i don't i don't know i still i think i don't even then no the guy's doing i just

02:30:05.040 don't think i would ever like be in a position where the man was just providing for me like i feel

02:30:11.560 like i would also want to work do you want kids yeah how many kids do you want two do you want to be

02:30:16.800 working while you're pregnant and like afterwards yeah okay that's fine that's fine um what about

02:30:25.080 you my mom did it do you want that's no that's totally fine what about you what do you want

02:30:31.220 you want kids marriage right how many kids do you want two two it's not enough but okay

02:30:37.120 what's enough yeah what is enough if you're a man for me that doesn't get pregnant for me

02:30:42.600 we're going we're going until we have three sons i don't care if we have seven daughters

02:30:51.620 we we keep going until we get three brothers huh do you have two brothers no i don't have i don't

02:30:58.440 have any brothers sadly are you are you an only child no i have a sister younger or older younger

02:31:04.180 i it'd be dope if i had brothers though i love my sister don't get me wrong but i feel like my

02:31:12.840 my army is weak because i don't have brothers does that does that make sense to the chat do you know

02:31:21.360 what i mean do you know what i mean like my my like you need a bro no it's not even about that it's

02:31:27.120 like if i need to go to war legally some in some other context i want brothers

02:31:34.300 does that pull up the chat does that make sense to you guys in the chat nick can you pull up the

02:31:39.320 chat yeah you want friends huh you want friends oh my god dude what was that sorry that was my phone

02:31:45.400 okay um friends you can't really rely on i mean you can to some degree but like family is different

02:31:53.620 like blood is blood is different like friends you you grow apart but family no like blood is very

02:32:00.740 important yeah so you want blood friends do you get what i chat do you get what i get i mean he wants

02:32:06.040 brothers wait what she said you want blood friends i mean if that's how you want to categorize it but

02:32:12.880 my brother's my blood friend huh good talk tiffany um good talk good talk i don't know where the where we

02:32:21.360 were uh donated 99 white tupac waving red flags hashtag bow to your sensei lol

02:32:30.940 ew do you have a response to wait what did they say they called you white tupac your red flags he

02:32:37.620 wants you to bow can we see a bow well this no are you down to just like do a bow right now

02:32:43.180 like stand up and do a bow like for why just for funds for funsies for funsies i don't know like

02:32:51.440 what is the what do you guys think i i think she should do it should i bow i say fuck it no i'm just

02:32:58.160 i'm bowing to myself right wait you're you're telling her no no i said yeah oh you're she's i

02:33:02.680 should bow you should let's see a bow shall i shall you might like it try show us i think i should

02:33:07.320 practice try it out okay here comes the bow try it you might like it it was i give it a b minus

02:33:14.620 it's good it needs a bit of work oh that's a curtsy okay that now we're now we're talking like

02:33:21.600 yeah some game of thrones shit yeah maybe i got i got it and maybe it's good actually i kind of

02:33:28.000 liked it maybe i would bow for my husband here tiffany show us a bow come on no it feels kind of

02:33:34.020 good like i just like no it's super feminine right it's not feminine it's just like it's super

02:33:39.840 feminine

02:33:40.220 it's like what it's like a maid i don't know why wait so just question just question for you

02:33:48.720 so you do you want to be a stay-at-home mom no you don't no that's not very based of you

02:33:54.960 what do you mean what do you want to do lawyer you want to be a lawyer yeah

02:34:00.220 i thought you were didn't you say you were like super trad and concert or well i suppose you can

02:34:10.620 be conservative and become a lawyer but i thought you viewed yourself in like super trad in a super

02:34:15.080 trad sort of way what's trad traditional oh like trad life

02:34:19.780 no no so you don't want a guy to be a provider then i want to have my own career but also know

02:34:28.860 that if i stop working i am going to be provided for life on easy mode isn't that convenient why not

02:34:34.280 live life on easy mode if it's provided for you do you think that they're like take advantage of being

02:34:40.080 a girl do you think let me ask you a question what traits do you think you need to cultivate in order

02:34:45.220 to become a successful attorney traits well first off what kind of attorney do you want to be

02:34:50.680 litigation attorney i'm thinking like criminal defense or prosecution defense okay question so

02:34:58.900 what kind of traits do you need to have as an attorney here do you want me to help out a little

02:35:04.600 bit sure disagreeable do you agree with that in order to be an attorney you need to be disagreeable

02:35:11.860 that's one of the big five personality traits agreeableness do you need to be um argumentative

02:35:18.120 okay do you think that these traits make for a good partner

02:35:23.000 everyone has a masculine and feminine side okay i can consider yourself more masculine or feminine like

02:35:34.700 both but i mean don't you think bring different sides of myself depending on the environment

02:35:40.180 okay okay yeah so okay so no bowing i get it okay that's fine that's fine um bowing's pretty mask

02:35:54.460 the the girl's still doing the work like she's carrying your child for like nine months

02:35:59.260 cooking food that's still work oh but i thought you said you don't want to clean

02:36:04.840 didn't you say that you don't want to like clean or whatever no i'm saying like why does the girl

02:36:10.740 have to bow when she's also doing work at home what do you mean like no this this video depicts

02:36:19.040 and obviously like it's exaggerated to some degree yeah and the guy's being a dickhead i think the guy's

02:36:26.420 treatment there is not good he's just throwing stuff around throwing stuff that's not cool however the

02:36:31.720 woman's treatment that's like super submissive a lot of guys would be find that very appealing

02:36:36.900 do you find that appealing absolutely okay it's super rare though like you'd want your wife to like

02:36:45.400 bow to you when you walk in yeah wouldn't you rather than like dab you up like no no no that's way too

02:36:51.040 masculine oh for real what about like a girl dapping yo what's up bro what's up bro and then we do

02:36:57.860 like the chat so valid huh what about like a hug and a smile guys want to feel respected in their

02:37:06.080 relationships he can feel respected in his work environment yeah you wouldn't respect like and but

02:37:12.240 so about like that's again this is obviously culturally something that's very different like bowing is

02:37:17.460 something you typically see in asian cultures right um yeah that's why i hate it in certain asian cultures

02:37:22.160 not not all asian cultures but what's that i have to bow down to like my your mom's friends your mom's

02:37:28.500 friends you have to bow to your mom's friends yeah really yeah do you show us the bow show us the bow

02:37:32.940 no i'm not doing that okay all right um she is bowing ptsd

02:37:39.180 just saying oh related to this related to this then we're gonna get into height nick can you pull up

02:37:46.160 that not the hold on before you pull it uh it's the news article from the 50s this is a home this is

02:37:52.140 some gangster shit you got it i'm gonna have nila read it

02:37:56.940 can you use so this is from a this is an extract from a 1950s home economics book tips to look after

02:38:09.400 your husband nick you're gonna have to scroll it up big for us so we can read it um okay so why

02:38:16.080 don't you read the have dinner ready okay have dinner ready plan ahead even the night before

02:38:23.180 to have a delicious meal on time this is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about

02:38:28.760 him and are concerned about his needs most men are hungry when they come home and the prospects of a

02:38:34.480 good meal are part of the warm welcome needed continue reading okay prepare yourself take 15 minutes

02:38:41.120 to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives touch up your makeup put on a ribbon put up a ribbon in

02:38:46.560 your hair and be fresh looking he has just been with a lot of work weary people be a little gay

02:38:54.400 and a little more interesting i think gay meant something different back then that's what it

02:38:58.060 means happy back then his boring day may need a lift clear away the cut clutter make one last trip

02:39:06.800 through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives gathering up the school books

02:39:10.700 toys paper etc then run up a run up a dust cloth over the tables your husband will feel he has reached

02:39:17.480 at a haven of rest and and order and it will give you give you a lift too

02:39:23.560 oh yeah the next next yeah you pick the person with the worst eyesight all right um prepare the children

02:39:31.140 take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces if they are small comb their hair and if

02:39:36.540 necessary change their clothes there are they are little treasures and he would like to see them

02:39:41.860 playing the part minimize all noise at the time of his arrival eliminate all noise of washer dryer

02:39:49.800 dishwasher or vacuum try to encourage the children to be quiet be happy to see him greet him with a warm

02:39:56.520 smile and be glad to see him no bowing here um some don'ts don't greet him with problems or complaining

02:40:03.840 don't complain if he's late for dinner count this as a minor compared as minor compared with what he

02:40:10.620 might have gone through the day make him comfortable have him lean back in a comfortable chair or

02:40:16.120 suggest he lied down in the bedroom have a cool or warm drink ready for him arrange his pillow and offer

02:40:24.420 to take off his shoes speak in a low soft soothing and pleasant voice allow him to relax and unwind

02:40:31.720 listen to him that's there's a yeah you may have you may have a blank blank things to tell oh a lot

02:40:40.800 of things to tell him probably but the blank blank of his arrival is not but i think the moment

02:40:47.200 but the moment of his arrival is not the time not the time let him talk first okay let him talk

02:40:52.900 first make the evening his never complain if he does not take you out to dinner or to other places

02:40:59.580 of entertainment instead try to understand his world of strain and pressure his need to come home and

02:41:06.660 relax but goal try to make your home a place of peace and order where your husband can renew him renew

02:41:14.020 himself in body and spirit okay thank you very much for reading that i want to uh get everybody's

02:41:21.320 reaction to that article starting with tiffany go ahead your thoughts we're gonna go tiffany this way

02:41:29.160 and then we'll go back this way go ahead agree disagree based sexist

02:41:36.640 agree agree agree okay agreed with everything okay that's no that's fine i forgot some of the

02:41:48.740 things sure what did you what did you think of that i mean if she's not doing anything like has no life

02:41:55.580 in her husband's her life then sure like it makes sense for her to do those things if she's genuinely

02:42:02.300 has nothing else to do but like it's also like a double standard like if she was out working all

02:42:08.200 day or something she would probably want to come home to you know a clean house and like not have to

02:42:13.500 do the dishes and stuff but i don't know i think i think some of them are excessive like she doesn't

02:42:18.880 need to be like his mother and be like put him to bed and like i don't know i feel like some things

02:42:26.940 you know adults can do independently i think some parts of it are like i agree with some parts i

02:42:33.820 don't i do think it's important to point out it was from the 1950s so like a lot of things are changed

02:42:39.420 and you know even nowadays like if that is something that you want to do that's cool like maybe that's

02:42:46.600 your preference but for me personally um i do like some level of independence and some kind of equal

02:42:52.580 partnership in the relationship but i do like more of like flexibility and partner to partner it's

02:42:58.800 different so you know okay what about you i totally agree with everything this says um you said like

02:43:05.400 if you were working you'd want to come home to a clean place too goes both ways but i can never see

02:43:11.080 my man clean or cook because it's such a turnoff like so i would want to do all the things that it

02:43:17.140 said on there okay was there anything you disagreed with or pretty much everything seemed pretty

02:43:22.300 okay uh what about you i agree with pretty much everything i think it's very valid um

02:43:29.360 it brings me peace knowing that i can bring my significant other peace yeah i think it was

02:43:37.440 beautiful i agree 100 with everything that was on that okay good shit but that's also like considering

02:43:47.660 that like women didn't have like a lot of rights or like didn't work and you know like i feel like

02:43:54.080 it's such a different time period like i wouldn't agree with this like per se today but okay what about

02:43:59.580 in a situation where the the even today the man is the sole breadwinner i mean i don't know i i guess

02:44:09.720 i guess if they're the main breadwinner and the woman genuinely has nothing better to do than you

02:44:14.940 well i'll respond to that this excerpt is in line for the book fascinating womanhood and i have seen

02:44:21.880 these values in action as a former mormon works uh yeah sure i'm actually a former mormon i was raised

02:44:29.280 mormon um so all of those values can i bring my mom as an example onto this sure so my dad and my

02:44:36.900 mother met when they were 1920 early 20s they were working at a jc penny in escondido my dad went on to

02:44:45.440 serve his mission in uruguay for two years and my mother waited for him for those whole two years and

02:44:52.320 when he came back they dated for two weeks got engaged and then my dad provided for her she went

02:44:59.120 on to have seven kids spent pretty much my whole childhood staying at home doing the cooking the

02:45:05.160 cleaning i've never once seen my parents argue never um and it like it just it set a really good

02:45:11.400 example like for me and what i want for a marriage because to this day they're still together my my mom

02:45:16.800 was my dad's first and so i don't know based yeah very based and super based it's something that i

02:45:23.340 want for myself too i think they have a very happy beautiful marriage and it's like it's comforting to

02:45:29.660 see that that stuff still exists wait so what are you now christian i'm just christian yeah i i left

02:45:34.440 the church quite a while ago but i still share the same convert to um there there's a lot of things

02:45:43.600 with the church i don't know if it's like appropriate to bring up um but there was reasons

02:45:47.760 for leaving grid one motorsports donated 100 the sultry persian this is based af that article is

02:45:57.420 something to strive for if you wonder why your relationships failed it is because women treat

02:46:03.380 the men like boys and not men feminism has failed you how can the patriarchy help you today

02:46:09.820 uh grid one thank you very much um i think women treat men as boys because they act like boys

02:46:16.340 true donated 99 dollars oh real talk i also served my mission in yurikwai cool cool uh thank you

02:46:27.880 well grid one motorsports he was saying that uh the article is something to strive for and women

02:46:36.000 treat their men like boys and not men i think it's the fault kind of falls on both sides i think

02:46:43.780 there's a crisis of masculinity i think that uh i think men are fucking up in a lot of ways but i also

02:46:52.620 think i think the blame falls on both genders really so i think both sides are to blame for the

02:46:58.680 current uh mess that is like the modern dating landscape i don't think it's just i don't think

02:47:05.200 we put all the blame on women we don't put all the blame on men i think men and women need to level up

02:47:10.860 so did you have more did you have something or well i actually did they like not have conflict because

02:47:18.040 she was like submissive to him like did she have any opinions well i think the thing is my dad is

02:47:25.820 if you would have met him he's what i think is the definition of a top g so he's in his

02:47:31.000 masculinity which allows my mom to be in her full femininity because he's able to provide

02:47:37.280 and she was just able to so i think i agree yeah i think it it's a two-way street i think gender roles

02:47:45.360 are an amazing thing i believe in them i don't necessarily think that means one gender is

02:47:51.360 better than the other but i think we both contribute to make something beautiful

02:47:56.220 how is staying at home being feminine though i don't think what's what's feminine i've got about

02:48:02.900 working going out and working i think that's a very strong feminine thing to be able to provide

02:48:08.920 for yourself well yeah definitely like if you're not married of course you know you need to provide

02:48:12.660 for yourself masculine yeah but i think you know hypothetically like if you are married

02:48:17.740 you know the women should be able to be a woman and be at home i was just gonna say that i feel

02:48:23.520 like men and women are so different in like it's in great ways like obviously which is why they should

02:48:29.780 specifically stay in their position to what uh masculine men do and what feminine women do and

02:48:39.420 which is why i think that more traditional relationships like your parents had and like my parents had and i feel

02:48:46.540 like a lot of our parents had were just they just are more successful because my mom did go back to

02:48:53.360 work so once my youngest brother started um school that that's when she went back to work she went back

02:48:58.960 to work got her nursing degree and now she works but she spent probably 15 20 years just at home

02:49:04.600 being a wife and you know obviously once the kids are grown she got a little bored but

02:49:09.240 yeah i think that's the best dynamic do you guys think that like artists like like rihanna per se like

02:49:16.920 that's her job is masculine like her providing and having a music career and being a strong

02:49:23.720 impactful woman like do you do you think that's masculine like i guess for being successful like

02:49:29.720 you said your previous statement was like do you think being home is feminine i think it is in ways

02:49:36.300 where naturally if a woman is going to be home she's probably going to be taking care of the

02:49:40.640 household and um taking care of her kids being able to nurture her kids and her husband and things

02:49:46.100 like that so yeah so is a woman's only purpose to stay at home and clean the house and have children

02:49:53.000 i don't think that's her only purpose we're just saying it's feminine yeah that's what it's not bad for

02:49:59.980 the women to be masculine i do want to touch i think you you had said something about if she's

02:50:07.020 doing nothing yeah right or could you this was like a few minutes ago could you rephrase that

02:50:12.820 okay so for instance my mom is the breadwinner of my family like because my parents are divorced my

02:50:20.120 dad's the breadwinner of that household my mom's the breadwinner of her household my stepdad when he was

02:50:25.860 out of work would do basically what that listed like he would drive us to school drive us to dance

02:50:32.160 class like you know clean the house make sure it's perfect be in a good mood when she got home because

02:50:37.140 she was on her feet all day type thing she's a celebrity hairstylist so i mean my mom's badass

02:50:43.260 she's super cool but i just think did she do your hair yes she also does i actually i don't know if i

02:50:48.920 can say okay that's fine um but yeah i mean i think it goes both ways for sure but i don't i would

02:50:55.640 say my mom or my stepdad being at home like is does that take away his masculinity like being at home

02:51:04.220 and taking care of things because my mom's working i don't think i don't think it's necessarily wrong

02:51:11.880 like if if you just do the calculus in a relationship and you realize because of either

02:51:17.900 my educational achievement or just because of your iq or you're really intelligent if you make

02:51:23.440 the determination that the woman is more capable of securing resources for the family that might be

02:51:29.240 the best route to go um however i think there is something to be said for there's probably a men have

02:51:37.060 a greater biological drive to provide and to achieve do you think that's based off of like how

02:51:46.380 you were specifically raised there there could there certainly could be a nurture component to it but i

02:51:52.420 think there's a very strong nature component to it like we that's just through our evolution we were

02:51:59.480 the ones who men we went out we hunted we pro we provisioning uh so and there's also there's also a

02:52:08.740 mating pressure on men that doesn't exist in women like most men don't care about it doesn't make women

02:52:16.920 it's not that we don't care about it your success your status your money does not make us more

02:52:23.460 attracted to you like i would say that's like just specifically maybe for you like i don't think

02:52:31.360 you could say that as all men sure sure there are some but i'm speaking in generalities here i'd say

02:52:36.060 the majority of men most men don't care about the money that the money that you bring to the table

02:52:42.900 or your success or your status but don't you find it more attractive to have a woman you know be

02:52:49.060 like a badass be a badass yeah like be like you know like wouldn't you like a boss bit like yeah

02:52:55.640 like wouldn't you find wouldn't you find a girl that like owns a business and like is super cool

02:53:01.620 and like you know like you you don't find it is it because it's intimidating because like it has

02:53:08.160 masculine it has nothing how is it it has nothing to do hold on let me i'll just i'll answer it has

02:53:13.240 nothing to do with being intimidated also just because you're a business owner it doesn't make you a

02:53:18.200 cool person no i'm just using an example yeah so i mean no it doesn't uh well why why do you think

02:53:26.640 masculine men are less attracted to those strong women well i don't think it's not even necessarily

02:53:34.520 about masculine men but it here's here's one of the big things right um there's there's gender roles

02:53:41.380 in society yeah feminists feminists have done attempted to do a good job of getting rid of the

02:53:46.640 some of the gender roles that ostensibly don't come at the benefit of women however a lot of the

02:53:53.680 gender roles like when it comes to feminism when it comes to a lot of women you guys want to keep

02:53:59.020 the gender roles that benefit that benefit you i'm not yeah i'm for example like a lot of girls even

02:54:05.160 if they consider themselves to be feminist they still want the guy to pay for the first date even

02:54:08.660 though they believe in gender equality and feminism do you want the guy to pay for the first date

02:54:12.240 i mean i i'm i'm down to split but would you prefer for a guy to pay for the first date

02:54:17.680 yeah i would yeah do you think it'd be more attractive would it be him taking the lead

02:54:25.360 a bit would it be him and a bit more in his masculine i wouldn't just i wouldn't call it like

02:54:30.260 masculine i would okay sure oh it's nice it's nice that someone like sure took you know what i mean

02:54:36.040 not all some women are fine with splitting the bill but would you agree that the majority of

02:54:42.140 either the majority or a lot of women want the guy to pay for the first absolutely and i've heard

02:54:50.160 from a lot of women that if the guy didn't pay for the first date there wouldn't be a second date

02:54:53.580 that's just an immediate deal break for a lot of women there and again there are some women that

02:55:00.080 split the bill 50 50 there's almost no guy there no guy can reasonably or logically have the

02:55:08.300 expectation that the girl is ever going to pay the bill in its entirety there might be some guys who

02:55:14.260 think maybe she's cool with splitting but they also know there's a lot of girls that would prefer

02:55:18.520 for the bill to be paid no guys are able to go in and say like with the expectation of like she's

02:55:24.140 going to pay for the date so um you guys want to keep the traditional gender roles that benefit you

02:55:32.320 while getting rid of all the other ones um so what i guess what i'm trying to get at is

02:55:37.580 because women expect men to provide for example paying for the first date there's a mating pressure

02:55:45.000 on us as men to make hold on grid one motorsports donated one hundred dollars no boss babe is not more

02:55:53.460 attractive to most men if you are busy with your business you are too busy for a man because women

02:55:59.440 do not spend their time and resources in the same way a man spends his time and resources you need to

02:56:06.200 reevaluate there's a thank you grid one there's a mating pressure on men that does not exist on women

02:56:13.880 you are not expected to like pay for first aids or to provide long term in a relationship there are

02:56:19.520 some women that are told will be cool with a 50 50 relationship and they are going to have their

02:56:23.900 career and it's going to be they're going to equally contribute to the household income however

02:56:28.760 there's i don't know what the split is there's a very large portion of women who want to be stay-at-home

02:56:34.260 mothers and don't want to work when they're pregnant or when they're raising kids or at any point

02:56:39.840 throughout the marriage so this creates a very strong pressure on men to achieve and that pressure does

02:56:47.780 not exist in women because there's no there's no guys who are like there's maybe some guys that are

02:56:54.140 like okay i'm really looking to be a stay-at-home dad but most men like we don't have that as a fallback

02:56:59.860 most men know like if we don't provide that like scorches 80 90 of our dating prospects so wouldn't it

02:57:07.880 be nice if you didn't have like that pressure to have like an equal yeah like an equal like an equal

02:57:14.400 person it would be nice if there was no war but the reality is there will there will always be

02:57:20.480 border conflicts there will always be war there it's just in our biology and like we can't i suppose

02:57:27.500 yes it would be nice but we can't rely on the exception to the rule in this case and generally

02:57:34.380 speaking like

02:57:35.020 yeah most women want guys to provide and pay for the first date so no you're not i mean you're not

02:57:42.820 wrong about that i mean i think a lot of women want to have that like safety net of like oh like

02:57:49.540 if they're paying for the first date you know that's what they'll bring to the relationship

02:57:54.820 type thing like sure you know what i mean like if if they pay for a date they're taking initiative

02:58:00.600 they're saying that you know right they enjoyed the time with you yeah and i'm i just want to clear

02:58:08.460 up one thing like if a woman for example wants to pursue she wants to like research diseases and her

02:58:14.760 like life mission is to like she wants to try to develop medicines or therapies to cure uh certain

02:58:21.600 diseases i think that's wonderful and i think if a woman want that's great for you like it's great for

02:58:27.060 you however just from a dating perspective um one of the reasons men don't really care about

02:58:33.120 your success or your career or your money is because of kind of what i already just talked about

02:58:39.080 women do not share their resources with men the same way that men share their resources with women

02:58:44.180 i can't go i can't go in the next year on 21st dates and ever have the expectation that the girl is

02:58:51.560 going to pick up and pay for the entire tab i can never have that expectation so

02:58:56.680 if you make a lot of money i don't really benefit from it but if you go if you like even a woman

02:59:04.140 who's really wealthy like she bro she kind of like acts like a brokey when it comes to dating like

02:59:10.900 she's not gonna pay for dates she's not gonna take me on trips she's gonna at bare minimum she'll

02:59:16.000 split which is look that's cool but that's why it just we don't reap any sort of tangible benefit

02:59:24.920 from your success because in a marriage or in a relationship the man's money is your money is our

02:59:31.180 money but your money is still your money in a relationship so like look i guess some girls

02:59:37.780 will like buy gifts or whatever but first date first couple dates girls aren't paying for dates

02:59:43.420 generally speaking sure some do but and you look at like sugar daddy sugar mamas right yeah

02:59:50.060 there's there are sugar mamas but there's a lot more sugar daddies even um like even when a man is

02:59:57.160 being provided for fully by his woman he's also looked down upon as like a bitch and a pussy but

03:00:02.120 when a woman's being provided for by her man no one really says anything like they won't put her down

03:00:07.700 there's a social pressure yeah a man will be put down yeah so yeah we just pure purely on the like

03:00:15.300 what if you're dating a guy who makes a lot of money you might enjoy some of the benefits of that

03:00:21.940 lifestyle um you know maybe he'll take he'll take you out pay for dinners etc but like women typically

03:00:29.020 when they're successful they typically they're not like okay let me start like dropping a ton of money

03:00:35.560 on dudes it's like nah i remember i was on a dating app a long time ago i matched with an attorney

03:00:40.620 she's probably out out earning me at the at the time making she's a litigation attorney making two

03:00:46.140 hundred thousand dollars a year and in her bio she said even though i'm an attorney even though i make

03:00:51.140 good money i still want the guy to like treat me like a princess and a queen and a lady even though

03:00:56.640 she makes two hundred thousand dollars a year it's like well you can pay for the date like why not

03:01:03.260 split you know yeah no it's definitely a double standard for sure word word but uh and then i

03:01:11.280 think the other thing if you're you mentioned like a business owner uh so i'm a business owner

03:01:16.300 uh it's pretty taxing time-wise so it's to me if you're super focused on your business i'm gonna feel

03:01:26.380 like i'm less of a priority in the relationship so it doesn't go both ways what do you mean so like

03:01:33.340 if you had a successful business like wouldn't the woman feel that as well like women don't feel that

03:01:40.100 way when they see a successful man but you would feel that way for like a successful woman well because

03:01:44.380 the burden of providing on us we i do think as men we we do need to like have our priority be our

03:01:50.400 career so that we can support our girlfriend support our wife support our kids um and uh it's i think

03:01:59.220 it's interesting like when when men make a lot of money they tend to think awesome i can support my

03:02:04.980 wife and my kids when women make a lot of money they think i'm a strong independent woman that doesn't

03:02:11.000 need a man that's always interesting to me well i think most successful women don't do it for like

03:02:19.000 they do it for themselves do you know what i mean like and i get what you're saying i get there's a

03:02:23.000 pressure for men to be like oh i'm working to provide whereas women work to you know feel good

03:02:29.900 i guess or like work to feel accomplished or you know be successful but like i don't know i don't

03:02:37.900 think it makes them less attractive per se no i i don't think it makes a woman necessarily less

03:02:45.300 it's not even the money component um it doesn't make her less attractive but it doesn't make her

03:02:51.340 more attractive but why does like a woman's life need to be like all of about the man's do you know

03:02:57.880 what i mean no it doesn't but you were i think you were asking uh something about like do guys like

03:03:03.260 boss i forgot the exact what originated the conversation boss babes or boss ass bitch but

03:03:08.760 um it's good for you but take for example i would say that a man who's a doctor a lot of women would

03:03:19.420 see the the money the status because that's a very well respected career being a doctor that would make

03:03:26.040 him like more attractive from a romantic point of view but i can't say that the that a woman who's a

03:03:33.980 doctor for me as a guy that's a great career your congratulations i'm sure you're doing well

03:03:40.180 you must be very intelligent but it doesn't make her more attractive like i'll go date there's a 30

03:03:47.980 year old woman who is a resident at a hospital and she's making six figures i'll go date the 20 year

03:03:55.920 old who works at chick-fil-a yeah who's who's hotter right no yeah no i get no i get what you're saying

03:04:03.700 i get like so i mean it just i will say though that like i think intelligence can be is attractive

03:04:12.800 in women uh because obviously i think intelligence there's something genetic there so like a woman

03:04:19.200 who's intelligent will probably have that'll impact the iq of our children to some degree yeah so like

03:04:25.360 i'm not saying i like just total bimbos but like yeah um you're also i would argue that um

03:04:32.320 regardless of your uh career achievement well okay donated 99 as a doctor i see this all the time

03:04:42.040 and brian is 100 correct cam h maybe i don't know if you can talk about your colleagues but do you

03:04:48.860 like if you were to compare the female doctors versus the male doctors like who's more likely

03:04:54.580 are the male doctors more likely to date nurses versus the female doctors are more likely to want to

03:05:00.420 date other doctors or like somebody who's more on their level because i think it's the case that

03:05:05.160 for example oh we got another one hold on i'll come back to the cam h donated 100 you still don't

03:05:12.040 get it men can work 60 hours a week and they will make time for the woman the woman works 40 hours a

03:05:17.900 week and have time for no one but themselves we are different feminism is a lie and has failed you

03:05:23.900 learn from the mistake feminism is a lie do you have a response to grid one motorsports well i just

03:05:30.540 think if you know it's a double standard like it's is it yeah i mean if if a guy has time to work and

03:05:38.100 also be with his wife then a woman that does the same thing has also has the time for their husband to

03:05:45.960 you know yeah going back to cam h's thing he says as a doctor i see this all the time and brian is 100

03:05:51.540 correct um i would say generally speaking like take a male doctor male attorney versus female doctor

03:06:03.140 female attorney a male doctor male attorney he'll date like a hot barista does not care like does not

03:06:12.020 really care about her career whereas if you look at a woman who's an attorney who's a doctor she's

03:06:18.940 probably gonna want to date a guy who's like on her level or higher yeah so that's good right or no

03:06:25.360 it's not well that's i mean that's just hypergamy like men date down frequently men marry down date

03:06:31.320 why do you think they date down what do you mean like socioeconomically because do you think they date

03:06:36.720 down because yo doc thank you so much for the gift of 20 memberships go ahead do you think they date

03:06:43.060 down because they don't want the competition of being with someone on their level i just no i just

03:06:50.400 don't care about i just again i don't think they just don't care that you guys don't think about

03:06:54.460 like stuff like i don't think like for i would say for most men uh obviously i think

03:07:01.860 one of the counters to to my position a little bit is given and i've said this before given the like

03:07:10.260 economic and financial climate i would argue most households need two incomes so you could you can

03:07:17.640 make the argument that actually most men would want to find a woman who because of the economic

03:07:25.920 climate and that you need two incomes to like hold down the household especially if you want to have

03:07:30.520 kids that they are it is going to be part of the calculus when picking someone to partner with

03:07:36.040 my argument though is that that's never for most men it's never gonna like if we meet like a really

03:07:42.340 fucking amazing girl who earns significantly less than us that's never gonna be a deal breaker for a

03:07:50.260 guy whereas i would argue for a lot of women if you run into a guy who's not like that's some sort

03:07:58.300 of oh i see what you're saying the standards are very different like yeah yeah so um yeah no that

03:08:08.060 that does make sense that's totally valid but uh and also typically like if if you're making a lot

03:08:14.920 of money typically those jobs are going to be a little typically stressful um you might be working a lot

03:08:21.920 and um i don't know like a guy probably wants a girl who's a bit more available i'd say i think i don't

03:08:30.560 know like i'm from la so a lot of guys find it more attractive when women are sorry donated 99

03:08:38.240 agreed i have seen female subspecialist physicians like me who marry male physicians in a less competitive

03:08:46.040 fields and it does often negatively affect their relationships this is rarely the case with male

03:08:52.120 doctor slash female nurse as the natural hierarchy works yeah i would imagine a male doctor is much

03:08:59.400 more likely well then again there's not a lot of male nurses so i feel like this is not the most

03:09:04.040 perfect yeah thing but um i i would argue that a male doctor male attorney a very high achieving

03:09:12.480 high earning man is much more likely or willing to date a woman who does is like earning significantly

03:09:22.560 less than him um so is cam h a woman though i've seen female subspecialist physicians like me oh okay

03:09:34.120 all right what kind of you know what kind of what are we talking here we're talking orthopedist

03:09:41.760 sir what are we talking here okay gynecologist obgyn what's up her she she's seen some outies for

03:09:48.880 sure okay oh donated oh come on i am a dude lol also there are a sea of male nurses as well yeah

03:09:58.080 um were you gonna say something sorry i forgot yeah no same same yeah same dope saw dope yeah um but uh

03:10:09.700 what was i i'm trying to remember what i was gonna say uh oh wait there's a video i wanted to pull up

03:10:15.540 on this uh frick totally forgot oh wait nick i don't know if you remember it was like a woman

03:10:25.620 it was a tiktok and she was like crying because working is hard do you remember

03:10:31.380 no it's not pulled up is it the tiktok there's like a tiktok and she's in her car i don't recall

03:10:39.140 but she was like um i feel like we've reacted to two of these she was like oh my god nine to i'm

03:10:44.900 working nine to five and then i have to commute but i don't think react i don't think we reacted to it

03:10:51.620 but i think the thing is though is like at least from my view is that pursuing a career is is pretty

03:11:01.700 empty like by the time you're in your 30s you're gonna be like is this really like the most fulfilling

03:11:09.860 thing in the world being a i don't know what you want to do exactly you know what you want to do or

03:11:14.180 i mean i have a i could either take over my dad's outdoor advertisement business okay

03:11:20.260 is that like billboards it's billboards yeah um i would take over that or i would work with

03:11:27.860 um media management as well okay media management or like my parents don't want me to do this but

03:11:34.660 your major again communications i don't think like the ultimate fulfillment in life comes from

03:11:42.020 a career and like most people are not going to have particularly like fulfilling jobs or careers

03:11:49.060 you're going to be a wage slave for some company that doesn't give a fuck about you and if there's

03:11:54.340 economic hard times even if you've been loyal to the company they're going to fire you and like

03:12:01.860 yeah i don't think sitting in front like a lot of people's jobs is essentially like sitting in

03:12:06.580 front of a computer all day like that's not really it's not good for your health i i

03:12:11.620 i do it i sit in front of the computer a lot it's not good for your body it's not good for your

03:12:15.220 health um i personally don't think being a slave to the money for your whole life

03:12:22.980 is fulfilling what's that song by the verve bittersweet symphony you're a slave to the money

03:12:27.940 and then you die like yeah it's not sure we can pull it we can watch it

03:12:33.540 okay oh yeah okay let's play it go ahead oh wait wait wait can you make us a little bigger

03:12:46.580 yeah wait what does qotd mean again quote is it quote of question question can you start from the

03:12:52.340 beginning

03:12:56.020 i know i'm probably just being so dramatic and annoying

03:12:58.180 but this is my first job like my first nine to five job after college and i'm in person

03:13:03.940 and i'm commuting in the city and it takes me fucking forever to get there there's no way i'm

03:13:08.820 going to be able to afford living in the city right now so that's off the table like

03:13:12.500 fucking duh if i was able to walk to work and it'd be fine but i'm not so it literally takes me like

03:13:17.700 i leave here like i get on the train at 7 30 and i don't get home till like 6 15 earliest and

03:13:23.220 then like i don't have time to do anything i don't i want to shower eat my dinner and go to sleep i

03:13:28.900 don't have time or energy to cook my dinner either like i don't have energy to work out like that's

03:13:34.100 out the window like i'm so upset oh my god nothing to do with my job at all but just like the nine to

03:13:41.220 five schedule in general is crazy being in the office nine to five like if it was remote you get

03:13:46.340 off at five and you're home and everything's fine but like i'm not home it takes me long to get home and

03:13:52.420 like like people that drive to the office like it doesn't you don't get off at five and i know it

03:13:57.860 could be worse i know i could be working longer but like i literally get off it's pitch black like i

03:14:02.420 don't have energy how do you have friends like how do you have time to like meet like a guy i don't know

03:14:09.300 like how do you have time for like dating like i don't have time for anything and i'm like so stressed

03:14:13.940 out and i'm also getting my period so that's why i'm all emotional but like am i so dramatic it's fine

03:14:20.020 cool um and then there's another video nick i sent it to the instagram page i sent it to ourself if you

03:14:26.660 can pull it up it's sort of related to that any thoughts on that video guys anything that sucks

03:14:32.340 i think to be fair like i don't think she's wrong like because she said she has to commute

03:14:38.260 like two hours or something both was it two hours she said that's fucking a long day if you have to

03:14:44.660 commute two hours work a nine to five and then commute two hours back like yeah as soon as you get home you

03:14:49.460 pretty much eat and have to go to sleep so i don't think she's wrong but like nick you got the other

03:14:55.220 video can you once we got another video this one's it's pretty good oh jump scare go ahead

03:15:06.980 whoever fought for women to get jobs

03:15:19.780 why why did we do that i am so tired i want to just put my feet up like i am oh my god

03:15:34.100 it's literally me every sunday morning um but uh yeah no i think uh i mean i think the careers are

03:15:46.020 wonderful but just from like a purely dating perspective i think most men it's it's a very

03:15:51.300 small or not even part of the equation in terms of what we're going to find attractive in a partner um

03:15:57.780 um me personally i'm fairly successful don't really care at all about a girl's oh wait there's

03:16:07.380 another clip we can watch sophia frankel i don't know if you know the call her daddy podcast oh yeah

03:16:12.660 she used to be on the there's a clip of her saying and i think she's very successful in her own right

03:16:18.420 she went viral recently because she um said that on the first date and nick if you're able to try to find

03:16:25.380 the tick tock video of this sophia frankel asks men there for a bank account statement on their

03:16:34.260 first date or something share a seven huh share a seven oh i love that are you talking about what

03:16:40.660 what huh what did you what did you say this video sophia frankel um she went viral for

03:16:48.580 her let us know when you have it nick okay should i look it up on google or youtube uh just google

03:16:55.860 sophia frankel says she asked dates for their

03:17:00.420 bank a bank account statement or something

03:17:04.740 i feel like it'd be better to check credit score maybe could be i don't know

03:17:12.580 it is draining though having to like work a full-time job like i don't know i i

03:17:19.140 go to school full-time and i work full-time and literally

03:17:23.700 sundays and tuesdays are the only time i have to myself before i come here

03:17:27.700 and it's like i barely have time to even clean my house or

03:17:30.740 make my bed every single day it's terrible and it's definitely not fulfilling

03:17:38.660 are you able to find it nick or

03:17:42.180 okay um well let me do a chat here while we have it while you're trying to find that

03:17:46.580 grid one motorsports question for the panel what is your best night in jail story

03:17:53.700 uh who here's been in jail tiffany no be honest i know you've been arrested no i'm just kidding um

03:18:00.420 what no okay you're so unfunny huh you're not i mean there's a lot of different stories

03:18:08.100 um i mean um i don't know it's just

03:18:16.260 like one that i can think of on top of my head is like

03:18:19.940 because like they categorize you by like what your crimes are because i was like charged with

03:18:25.220 a sentence of murder they categorize me with the same level of people i would say sure um so there

03:18:31.140 was situations where my roommate was hitting on me a lot and it was making me uncomfortable

03:18:36.820 so that was one of them but i don't have any like wild crazy ones there's probably like a lot

03:18:42.260 of fights breaking out okay all right it's very common like almost every day so how do you feel

03:18:47.700 about transgender women entering like jesus christ let's go go ahead say your thing yeah so um

03:18:55.140 um i don't like like i have a preference i don't want to date anybody who's trans but if that is

03:19:02.340 your preference no but jail though oh like prison yeah like trans women yeah i do believe like there

03:19:10.180 should like they should definitely provide that um because if you identify as a woman and you're

03:19:18.180 you were a man and now women and you don't feel safe and comfortable to be in a main jail i don't

03:19:22.580 think they should force you to be in that if ryan identifies as a woman and do you think he should

03:19:28.740 be let into a women's prison ideally i would think maybe there needs to be like

03:19:35.700 i know protective custody is something that is available for people who were like um i would

03:19:42.340 say known in the media i'm not sure i'm not a policy maker but um i don't want to make men

03:19:48.020 uncomfortable also don't want to make women uncomfortable so honestly i don't have a perfect

03:19:52.100 answer for it i think there should be a separate facility for them hey tiffany if i went to prison

03:19:58.020 and i like wanted to have a conjugal visit would you be down no oh okay geez wow okay rude

03:20:06.980 why would i visit you what if i like i never mind okay all right do you have a debate about men

03:20:13.220 versus women did you have you got it okay go ahead

03:20:22.420 i'm not joking i have asked the last three dudes i've dated for their they're they're

03:20:27.620 positive donated 100 brian w being corporal l solely to provide for family necessity for man no

03:20:37.620 fulfillment bow or be homeless thimble munch mormons trying their best stop hating pink jacket spits

03:20:44.500 facts how does girl number one thinks islam and christianity can mix 75% slash 25%

03:20:56.660 go ahead um i was born a muslim and raised a muslim up until like fifth grade and then i switched to

03:21:05.060 christian school but i was still muslim and then four months ago i got baptized and the reason why

03:21:12.340 i'm 75 25 not haram wait you're 75 what muslim 25 you said no no 75 percent muslim and 25 yeah

03:21:22.820 abdul yeah get the rocks get the rocks get the rocks get the rocks it's okay go ahead okay well i meant 75

03:21:29.220 muslim 25 christian and the reason why i say i'm 75 and 25 is because oh is because i'm still like

03:21:39.620 exploring what i want to be even though it sounds a little gay but i'm exploring what i want to be

03:21:45.540 like which religion i want to insert myself into fully if that makes sense or whoever asked it okay

03:21:53.940 word cool cool cool um oh the videos

03:22:03.620 i'm not joking i have asked the last three dudes i've dated for their bank account info on the first

03:22:10.340 date i don't judge people's actions i look at the intention behind it so like why do you ask for

03:22:14.500 that because i only want to date a wealthy guy that has money valid so you're getting straight to the point

03:22:19.060 i think you know i have a job i'm very successful so i think i have everything right to be like hi are

03:22:26.740 we on the same level or am i wasting my time that's harsh she's i think she's probably i don't know the

03:22:36.660 details i mean she dropped the ball with the color daddy thing but she started her own podcast she's

03:22:41.380 probably a millionaire um she seems to care very deeply about a guy's income despite the fact that she's

03:22:48.100 a millionaire i would argue that there's very few men who are millionaires who like

03:22:53.860 need their girl to be a millionaire like they just don't most men do not care how old is she do you

03:23:00.420 know late maybe lid excuse me mid to late 20s i feel like especially a lot of men that are mid 20s are

03:23:08.980 not on they're not even yeah yeah they're like not even on her lovely oh she's dating within her age

03:23:14.820 range she's most likely not going to find the guys as well even financially even older most

03:23:21.300 she's a millionaire so most men are not i think the average income is what i think it's changed

03:23:28.900 recently but it used to be what 45 000 per year now maybe i've heard 60 000 but i don't know what it

03:23:36.660 actually is um good times good times okay i got some notes from everybody here we're going to get into

03:23:41.940 the notes for all of you um flake flake i got notes for people that flaked gotta love it uh delilah i

03:23:51.140 had some notes for delilah but she got the boot uh tiffany ah yes tiffany yes here we are talked about

03:23:59.940 it oh no we have more we have more actually wait let's go to hold on did you provide anything wait what

03:24:08.020 are you talking did you provide any you did ellie right okay or excuse me i misread it l um recently

03:24:15.540 out of a four-year relationship was it four or three year it was like three and a half okay but

03:24:20.180 like four you wrote my boyfriend of eight months cheated on me and i found out by looking through

03:24:24.500 his phone because he was acting weird we then continued dating for three more years i think you

03:24:28.900 told us some of this in the beginning he was an actor and you have a lot of opinions now about why you

03:24:33.540 should not date an actor or someone in the industry why so what about the actor thing

03:24:39.460 i think dating okay so from my experience dating an actor there's okay so like basically what we were

03:24:47.140 previously talking about how you know if women work they wouldn't have enough time for the guy

03:24:52.980 whatever like sometimes the guy does not like actors do not have time for you if they're working

03:24:58.260 like wait really no like because because most actors don't have jobs well well when they don't

03:25:05.860 have a job they're like in a deep depression they're all up on you and then and then once they get a

03:25:12.260 job they're like not there like it's because obviously they have to dedicate their entire time to

03:25:19.940 their role or becoming someone else or sure working so it's just so much can you is it a famous actor

03:25:26.100 that you dated um i can't i can't say who it is but you have a wikipedia page yes how old he's a child

03:25:36.340 he's a child oh he's a child and he's a child actor and voice actor and he's um obviously an actor

03:25:45.460 right now disney yeah nickelodeon nickelodeon or disney both both jake paul yeah no no um

03:25:57.540 why did you forgive him after he cheated on the actor because it wasn't um what do you call it

03:26:04.180 it wasn't physical it was like it was all like through the phone if you know what i mean and she

03:26:10.180 worse no just wait what was over the phone well the cheating yeah like they would facetime every

03:26:16.820 night and oh good times it got me cheating like no it don't trust me it was it was it was hard to

03:26:24.580 get it was hard to get past like maybe they were they were practicing their role playing yeah no like

03:26:29.620 he was that was one of the fellow actresses and he was they were what's the what's the

03:26:36.100 what's it called when you're like rehearsing they were rehearsing they were just rehearsing

03:26:41.060 it was just rehearsal rehearsal it was no big deal it's no big deal no big deal was she an actor too

03:26:45.780 no she was like a random person like really random i call i like to call myself a normie

03:26:52.580 oh you're a normie i like i like the normie no she was like a random like super oh she was a weird

03:26:58.020 okay random weirdo you said uh when we broke it off i also started situationships with multiple people

03:27:05.060 yeah and i also have major opinions on situationships if you are in a situationship

03:27:11.140 make sure to just be there for your own satisfaction but don't treat them like you would if you were in a

03:27:16.020 relationship i think they need to be so separated that was your emphasis not mine you say don't treat

03:27:26.180 them like you would if you were in a relationship treat them how what do you mean well because like

03:27:31.780 they they didn't cuff you do you know what i mean like so why give them the benefits of you know

03:27:38.180 yourself like why give them the benefits of you know having you you know i don't know cook them

03:27:44.660 breakfast or like be girlfriend material or you know like dedicate time to being with them without

03:27:52.260 actually without like being excluded like exclusive do you know what i mean you know what's so what's

03:27:58.100 really interesting that's actually can you repeat that what you just said i just said a lot well

03:28:04.900 you said not like you wouldn't cook for them for example yeah but you would what have sex with them

03:28:12.820 yeah what's really interesting to me is how we approach and view sex people are so prepared to share what

03:28:22.340 perhaps used to be their most like the most intimate thing that you could do some with somebody

03:28:28.820 you'll fuck a guy but the thought of cooking him dinner that's where you draw the line like

03:28:37.780 no this most intimate act where you're like naked in front of each other and he's inside of you

03:28:44.740 physically yeah but you draw the line like it's just interesting it is it's an interesting thing

03:28:52.660 well honestly like it's so new for me like not being in a relationship like so like i typically

03:29:00.420 treat situationships like i would a relationship but i'm realizing that's not working like i don't know

03:29:06.660 it doesn't really work which i think is valid i think a guy who knows what he wants and is presented

03:29:12.820 with what he wants like right in front of him is gonna commit to you right away rather than just

03:29:18.020 string it along for a situationship but i also feel like younger men that are around our age are just

03:29:23.940 not gonna be that for you yeah yeah i agree is it true that between the first two one and two dates

03:29:31.700 that guys know she's girlfriend material or not like if he wants to be her girlfriend i think i mean

03:29:38.580 i think it takes a lot longer to

03:29:43.780 vet a girl for relationship status but i mean i think we we can pretty quickly disqualify women

03:29:54.580 like it's if there's like something we like there's something we can detect very early on and we're like

03:29:59.620 no go like a red flag yeah like i think it's very easy to like disqualify somebody but i think to actually

03:30:05.940 qualify for a relationship i think that can take a little bit longer what about for a marriage how

03:30:12.340 long do you think it takes guys to know he wants to marry the girl or not it depends years i think

03:30:19.700 it takes like a few months it took my dad two weeks i mean yeah there's that but also like there's

03:30:25.780 still year-long relationships like i said earlier that end and i don't know getting tiffany gertrude

03:30:33.140 what's your last name you tiffany gertrude you will you marry me no oh wow she has no she doesn't

03:30:42.740 have a man she's got the alabama dude it's not a man stopping so disrespectful being disrespectful to

03:30:49.940 who brand yeah what do you mean you're not you're single yeah yeah that was a marriage proposal

03:30:57.140 i know when you told me that you were a racist that's when i knew you were the one for me

03:31:04.740 when you said everybody's a little racist that's when i knew that was valid it's true

03:31:10.500 i'm being honest yeah that's when i knew though that you were the one okay just kidding um

03:31:14.420 good talk tiffany by the way tiffany's tiffany's a red who was the guy super chatting that a girl

03:31:21.220 named tiffany run who was that remember last show guys you say that no somebody said in the super

03:31:28.580 chat somebody or like with a tts that tiffany is a red flag wait chat no no the name tiffany

03:31:35.380 oh okay the name tiffany it's a red flag well there's like girls named tiffany well yeah they're

03:31:46.020 either abgs are they or are you an abg i don't think so you don't think she's an abg oh you're

03:31:54.580 okay yeah okay either an abg or like a rich white girl or a black girl tiffany i feel like tiffany's

03:32:03.380 a stripper name what yeah tiffany you got tiffany you got diamond you got natalia i feel

03:32:10.500 like it's classic it's like breakfast at tiffany's like tiffany and co okay yeah tiffany trump

03:32:20.020 we should you know what we should do we should have we should hire side eyes we hire to chat what

03:32:25.780 do you think about this we hire tiffany to be madison but on the other side of the table so you know

03:32:30.820 when you come over here and you see madison back there um spazzing out how do you pay slave wages

03:32:39.540 so no pay no no i pay slave wage is zero oh we'll talk about it after the show we'll talk about it

03:32:46.340 after the show okay okay we can talk we'll negotiate it's all good i've been watching that documentary

03:32:52.980 about sylvester stallone on netflix okay where where were we were we wait what's an abg like what

03:32:59.700 maybe what makes an abg i thought it was a boba girl i thought it was asian i knew i know i know what it

03:33:07.300 stands for but like what makes an asian woman an abg uh typically if they have dyed hair and they wear

03:33:15.060 makeup and fake lashes and like they have to be a hoe they have to they have to be a hoe yeah

03:33:24.340 yeah i don't know i don't know search it up google definition and it doesn't really matter um

03:33:30.980 oh so i think we were talking about you the the situationship relationship thing uh you said that

03:33:39.060 when you broke it off you started situationships with multiple people and this was wait you broke

03:33:46.900 it off three months ago oh we kind of talked a little bit about that how many what was the most

03:33:52.820 situationships was it just the three i would just say did you have like five on the roster back then

03:33:57.780 no like i got right when i got the relationship i like got into a situationship with someone immediately

03:34:04.180 yeah is that within a week like it was weird i think it was like my coping were you like mentally

03:34:11.380 checked out of the relationship thank you thank you for you broke up with him that's a good question

03:34:16.660 i think i think i was ready to ready to end it like a few months and and i actually tried to break up

03:34:25.060 with him a few times and like he didn't let me what do you mean just like he i don't know like i

03:34:31.460 try to break it off like just saying like i think we need to like go our both ways and he's like

03:34:35.380 no i'll give you like the attention and like love you deserve type thing and then like never actually

03:34:41.700 did it king king just kidding just kidding i'm kidding i'm kidding but yeah um okay you also said

03:34:48.340 first you wanted to talk about first dates is there anything in specific that you wanted to talk about

03:34:52.660 on that i actually yeah like especially with college i feel like at least in my position

03:35:01.300 a lot of guys like don't really offer like first dates they're kind of like yo you want to hang or

03:35:07.860 like we should go chill like type vibe you know it's not very like yo let me take you out type thing

03:35:16.020 especially in college like most people in college like girls and guys typically don't really go on like

03:35:23.460 first dates it's kind of just you meet each other at like a party or something while you're out and then

03:35:30.020 then you just start hanging out and then it goes into something like a situationship talking stage

03:35:35.380 and then it's like a relationship it's never a proper like isn't that weird but do you currently

03:35:43.860 consider yourself single right yeah so my view on this though is do you think that you are

03:35:51.380 are worthy of being taken out on a date what do you mean by worthy well you consider yourself

03:36:00.180 single right so that means you're like you'd be free like i would be open to be getting asked out

03:36:06.820 or something yeah yeah yeah so my concern as a guy i don't want to because like taking a girl out

03:36:15.300 that's kind of like being a gentleman that's being traditional that's being in your traditional gender

03:36:19.700 roles you said earlier on in the show that you have a roster of three guys that you're the main guy

03:36:25.860 that you're seeing you you saw him this morning yeah like so you guys what hooked up last night or

03:36:31.220 whatever yeah like i know for example if i were to ask you out again just met you we're not exclusive

03:36:39.060 i don't want to like go take a girl out to like some romantic date get a nice dinner pay for flowers

03:36:47.540 whatever when like let's say let's say the day of i took you out on a date you saw your situationship

03:36:56.740 earlier that morning

03:37:00.980 um what is that like what do you mean what why am i gonna okay

03:37:05.140 okay you said you're in the streets currently is that correct your words your words not mine

03:37:11.620 right yeah i guess i would say i'm not gonna be i can't be a gentleman i don't want to be a gentleman

03:37:17.140 to this woman of this to a woman from the streets wait no like i think we have different terms of

03:37:23.460 streets like i use it like in a joking term you said here's the thing sure but you said okay okay okay

03:37:29.300 yeah yeah you said you have a roster of three guys right now so you're talking to i'm not doing

03:37:33.220 anything like sexual with one of them and the other one was only sexual sure but like okay

03:37:40.260 can i ask you a question right yeah yeah so if i asked you on a just as a hypothetical yeah i'm not

03:37:49.300 saying that you would date me or whatever but let's say that i asked you out on a date and then we went

03:37:55.140 on a date and it was good and then the guy who you're currently sleeping with like we went on the

03:38:02.580 date we said goodbye at 9 p.m i gave you we hugged each other boom and then like is it possible that

03:38:11.220 you could end up at your buddy's house after our date no it's not it's impossible i wouldn't say

03:38:18.660 impossible he texts you he's like what's up let me dick appointment let's go i don't i feel like

03:38:26.420 people that are talking to other or people that have a roster i guess or that are talking to other

03:38:31.700 people are that's kind of expected in college i think like i know it's it it is the the dating

03:38:39.700 landscape certainly in college and i would argue even beyond college that's how people move but like

03:38:44.900 i don't think you can be like and they're still going to be simps there's still going to be guys

03:38:51.860 that are like don't know that you're seeing other guys that a lot of guys are naive and they'll take

03:38:57.540 a girl out on a date not knowing that she's got like three fuck buddies but like i know the dating

03:39:05.380 landscape and i don't feel particularly inclined to take a girl out on a date when she's fucking other

03:39:11.700 dudes like i don't even want to date that chick i want i don't want to talk to her because for me

03:39:18.740 i want a girl who's properly single from the jump like if you got another guy in the picture

03:39:23.620 you can have him like i don't want to deal with a girl that is seeing other dudes so well to like

03:39:31.300 just to say like i would only see like one i can really only see like one person at a time

03:39:37.220 but since i'm not like you know there's there's no momentum of it moving forward i am looking

03:39:46.260 at other people if you know what i mean sure i i guess for me like if for me to fall into my

03:39:51.460 traditional gender roles of like wanting to take a girl out or whatever i would want from the jump

03:39:58.180 you're undivided romantic and sexual attention if either one of those is divided if you're sleeping

03:40:07.140 with another guy and talking to me i don't want you if you're like romantically talking to other

03:40:12.660 men i don't want you um my view is once i come into your life i want like it's a wrap it has to be

03:40:20.260 a wrap on all the other dudes no i completely agree like i'm saying like so like let's say you have

03:40:25.460 like a roster or like a situationship you go on a date with this guy it it's it's a match you had

03:40:32.340 you had the best time i would probably stop talking to those other guys probably probably if if that

03:40:38.500 person that i went on a date with was someone that i saw potential with i would definitely scratch the

03:40:46.020 situation ship and go with that person because like i am a loyal person like i i'm not like oh i'm

03:40:52.820 gonna see a bunch of like i'm loyal during the talking stage if you know what i mean like are

03:40:57.140 you but you're in the talking stage no because i know it's not a talking stage with three guys right

03:41:01.780 now no one one is scratched celibacy is scratched celibate and celibate is okay um the main guy right

03:41:11.540 now is the only guy i'm talking to and the other guy the other one is just like flirty banter could be

03:41:18.340 potential that's what i'm saying okay that's what i'm saying you know what i mean it's not like all

03:41:23.460 at the same time i wouldn't really consider that loyal good well i mean the thing is is like because

03:41:28.420 you're there's one guy you're you're hooking up with one guy and then you're like talking to

03:41:32.740 another guy i know that you said that like the guy who you're currently hooking up with you're like

03:41:36.980 yeah i'm probably gonna dump him well he said he doesn't want a relationship so but do you want

03:41:41.860 a relationship what do you want because some girls are cool i mean maybe i'm doing the casual

03:41:45.940 thing not after being in like an almost four-year relationship i don't think i am looking necessarily

03:41:52.340 for a relationship right now oh but if someone came along that i like saw potential in or something

03:41:59.620 i would most definitely you down do you want to get married i would most definitely like want to

03:42:07.300 you know pursue that i'm kidding you'd pursue it yeah it just depends on the person if like if you

03:42:13.220 meet someone and you guys vibe it's a match sure you know what i mean yeah so i just haven't met that

03:42:18.340 person yeah look my whole thing is like with the dating landscape as it is i don't feel particularly

03:42:25.700 inclined to like if i can like if i get a sense that the girl is all for me then i'm like yeah i'll take

03:42:35.540 care of you like i'll handle everything but if she's not yeah we can split the bill

03:42:45.380 yeah no absolutely or it's like friends with benny like type thing well here's the other thing though

03:42:52.340 is like if and and i wished that like a girl i'd potentially be seeing is open like i don't even

03:43:00.020 some guys even if they just want to hook up with a girl just want casual sex which which i don't really

03:43:04.580 want they're cool with like fucking a girl who's fucking other guys i don't know if i'm wired

03:43:09.700 different but like even if it's like i just met the girl and i know she's fucking another dude it's

03:43:16.820 done i don't care if i just met you i don't like again you technically you don't owe me anything but

03:43:24.820 if she's fucking another guy and i'm talking to her it's i i don't want to i don't want anything to

03:43:29.380 do with a girl who when i'm trying to pursue her she's fucking another dude it's a wrap it's done

03:43:34.820 for me oh that's so valid yeah so some guys are like yeah i don't really even if even if

03:43:41.540 hmm because well here's my thing i don't really i don't really want to pursue

03:43:48.340 uh sorry i lost my train of thought i'm not interested in a one-night stand with a girl like

03:43:52.340 if i want to sleep with the girl i want to pursue something with her i want to keep seeing with her

03:43:56.660 i want to keep seeing her so to sleep with the girl once to me is like a waste of time but i

03:44:01.700 know there's a lot of guys that want to move like that like just fuck a chick once and never talk to

03:44:05.620 her again i think that's kind of weird even if your motivation was strictly sex first off you're

03:44:10.660 gonna have way better sex as you have more sex with the person you start getting comfortable with

03:44:15.140 them you build a connection absolutely um you just on a purely like technical level you know what

03:44:20.980 gets them off they know what gets you off and then again like i don't know the i'm trying to think

03:44:28.180 like a girl who fucking loves you is gonna fuck you if you're again if your motivation is purely sex

03:44:36.340 if a girl's in love with you that's like if she really feels you the sex is gonna be way better than

03:44:43.460 if she's just like all right here's some random fucking party dude okay like i don't know it's just uh

03:44:48.900 but uh no for me though what i was gonna say related to that even if my motivation was strictly

03:44:55.540 just to hook up with a girl i would i know some guys are like i don't yeah like if she's a slut then

03:45:05.220 i'll still get with her just for sex like no if she's a slut i don't want anything to do with her

03:45:10.580 anyways no yeah that makes sense so i don't know um yeah valid word word like actually makes sense

03:45:20.580 yeah and i don't know if that's weird to like because like uh we had a clip recently that went

03:45:26.980 viral there's this girl named layla who's who does only fans and she was like she's done porn right

03:45:33.380 and i told her like that's a there's videos of you on the internet having sex with another man

03:45:38.340 like that's a that's i don't care how hot the girl is even if she's like leaps and bounds more

03:45:44.580 attractive than me i don't care how hot she is if there's videos of you on the internet i don't even

03:45:49.140 i don't want to have sex with you once i don't want anything to do with you so well like thoughts

03:45:55.220 on your partner like in the relationship being like hey can i start an only fans would you be like

03:45:59.780 absolutely not um like i don't think i could do that i don't think what do you mean you don't

03:46:07.060 think you you could start an only fans no like i i definitely could not do like the guy fans but

03:46:12.340 yeah i don't know i feel like it would make sense for a guy not wanting their girlfriend or

03:46:18.180 something to not do i mean i break up just for asking like yeah that's probably i mean

03:46:24.100 ah i feel like i don't want to flip-flop on my position a little bit because i my previous and

03:46:31.060 i've mentioned this a bunch of times my previous stance when it comes to only fans is so and again

03:46:36.740 i feel like i'm shifting a little bit and i don't want to flip-flop my my hard stance is if she's had

03:46:43.220 sex with a guy on camera that's a no i don't care how fucking hot she is i don't care how cool she is

03:46:49.140 if she's had sex with another man on camera no go no go my position was if she's done like

03:46:57.220 lingerie shit or like solo content so there's no dudes maybe i've never been with a i've never

03:47:05.700 hooked up with a girl i've never dated a girl who hasn't only fans but i was like maybe i'm i'm like very

03:47:12.900 again i would you want half the profits if she did if you maybe dated someone like that

03:47:23.540 would i want uh half of her money because i know some men allow their girls to do only fans but

03:47:28.580 whether i yeah i mean

03:47:32.660 what

03:47:35.060 it's more of a question of could i pull it off i don't think like most only fans girls if i'm dating

03:47:41.140 them would split split this split their money with me if i was helping her in some way i suppose

03:47:47.220 but like i don't it's so far i've never i've not dated a girl who does only fans even solo content

03:47:58.420 haven't hooked up with a girl who does only fans is it possible that there's some girl who's done

03:48:03.140 lingerie content that's fucking amazing and super hot and i like it could be possible but i mean there's

03:48:10.340 a lot of fish in the sea there's a lot of women that don't have only fans that are just as attractive

03:48:14.580 just as cool personalities so i don't really think i feel the need to uh but i mean i guess

03:48:24.100 it's possible that i could i could but no madison's saying no no i think i don't want to be like too

03:48:32.100 rude but i think it's a little bit gross when a woman sells her body online it's no different

03:48:38.180 it's immodest it's immodest it's a better way to put it but she's like she's basically a product

03:48:43.620 she's no different than that water bottle over there like her only fans is a shop but the only

03:48:48.500 difference is she's the product so i think it's it's immodest sure and

03:48:55.780 do you like only fans girls no generally speaking i don't because i think there's also certain

03:49:00.180 personality traits that come along with being involved in that line of work even if you're just

03:49:05.140 doing like tasteful lingerie shit like you are interacting with men on a certain level that i

03:49:11.140 think is kind of not so great so again like again i've not dated a girl who does only fans i've not

03:49:20.420 hooked up with a girl who does only fans could there conceivably be and i'm just being honest here like

03:49:26.340 i could lie and say i would never she she's never done nudity but she's got lingerie photos

03:49:32.340 conceivably i it's within the realm of possibilities i think it's a sub-optimal

03:49:39.380 partner choice um and there's plenty of women that i could date that don't have only fans so

03:49:49.300 uh yeah but i don't want to sit here and lie and say no i would never like

03:49:55.700 like again my 100 deal breaker is if they've done uh boy girl content like they filmed with a guy

03:50:03.460 that's 100 deal breaker um but uh yeah so kim kardashian's off the table yes if she asked you

03:50:12.660 on a date would you go on a date with her well i'm just gonna be very honest here

03:50:17.540 and like most i feel like you gotta maybe you gotta respect my honesty here

03:50:26.740 me partnering and this maybe i'm a fucking gold digger for this one me partnering with kim kardashian

03:50:31.780 would have such fucking tangible business benefit to me that i would be an idiot to not do it but like

03:50:41.140 from a purely fucking at least respect the honesty but like the the she's like one of the most what

03:50:49.780 followed people on instagram insane amounts of clout i would be a business more idiot to not

03:50:57.780 romantically link up with her however like the fact that she like she's had a long string of

03:51:05.860 you know what kim k slide into my dms we'll see what happens come on kim k i'm available all day

03:51:12.420 i'll sure fine i'll date you um i don't like the the plastic surgery though so i the i don't know did

03:51:20.340 she get her bbl out my aunt died from a bbl say that again madison my aunt died from a bbl don't get

03:51:27.700 a bbl don't get a bbl oh my gosh that's really sad i'm sorry people die from plastic surgery it's

03:51:33.140 not good how big did she want it i don't know i don't know the deets but that's crazy yeah she is

03:51:39.780 crazy so i kim k my dm back to it oh finger guns what's up boom i feel like a lot of like only fans

03:51:52.580 and just like sec sex workers always will like if we're if this is like the discussion they'll always

03:51:58.100 bring up like oh what do you think about kim k like she has her sex take her sex tape leap leaked

03:52:04.020 and everything like she's no better than i am but at the same time she has more money wealth and power

03:52:10.980 than all these like only fans and porn stars do that she can get rid of it you know what i mean like

03:52:19.300 yeah she's like a lot she's a lot smarter than these only fans and porn stars yeah i don't know

03:52:26.660 why would you why do you say she's smarter is roasting me for the kim k shit she literally got

03:52:32.340 all of this because of that tape you know who released that tape her mother right yeah her and

03:52:39.620 her mom are really smart because they knew that she'd get clout from that so that's why i say she's

03:52:44.100 really smart don't you think only fans creators also try to do that too how many celebrities has

03:52:50.740 no i don't think it's right but probably a lot like do you think i feel like a lot of celebrities

03:52:57.940 i don't know i i'm just speculating like isn't it possible that like don't a lot of celebrities

03:53:03.300 have herpes like i've heard that a lot of them timothee chalamet has like aids or something what

03:53:09.380 wait no way wait no you don't make that up no no he definitely he has something he like

03:53:15.220 spread it around nyu or something i forget what it was the herp her the herps it might have been

03:53:21.220 the herps or some something some sexually transmitted timothee chalamet be fucking he'd be getting around

03:53:27.380 nyu would you fuck timothy would you fuck timothy chalamet is he your type no he's too scrawny he's too

03:53:33.300 scrawny i think he's i think he'd be a really fun friend but i don't think i would ever kick it with

03:53:38.900 i'll kick it with him okay yeah good shit yeah for sure

03:53:45.460 i'm not got chat i'm not simping for kim k you just yeah you did i'm just i'm just saying

03:53:54.740 as a businessman you know i'm a businessman because you find me at my places of business

03:54:00.260 i would i got a lot of celebrities date you know the the relationships and the

03:54:11.060 wait i feel like kim k would date you you think she would i feel like she would which i don't think so

03:54:17.300 what no she dated fuck you tiffin she dated pete davidson oh wow okay but he also like kind of looks black

03:54:27.380 pete yeah i don't think she i don't think so you don't think he does there's like a whole

03:54:33.940 conspiracy husband her first husband was like stop it get some help here's the only date black guys

03:54:43.700 yeah what's up what's up okay so let's just say scenario you have to pick between kim k

03:54:48.020 or this chick who's 411 plays cello like basically what you're looking for perfect person that yeah i

03:54:55.700 know there's not like the perfect person but let's just say for scenario question wise and you had to

03:55:01.780 pick right now which one would you pick he would go for the 411 cello girl no you would not what go for

03:55:08.900 what no answer answer 411 what what's the labia situation does she have a large labia just like

03:55:16.260 anything you wanted none of you answered that question by the way you're perfect girl yeah

03:55:20.340 you're perfect like ideal girl like she has a large labia and if you pick so what what am i getting from

03:55:26.100 kim k is she gonna marry me with without a prenup i feel like that's asking too many questions like

03:55:32.980 just like i like what's your like would you pick love or money like given the context of having the

03:55:40.420 opportunity to date the your ideal girl or would you want a more of a business partnership that elevates

03:55:46.980 your business and it could potentially be a good relationship but it's not your ideal porqué no

03:55:53.300 los dos yeah why not both i'll take both i got my my 411 large labia queen

03:56:01.300 and then i got kim k kim k can be the main and then i have like mistresses and shit

03:56:10.420 so valid

03:56:13.460 tiffany stop looking at me that way fucking pervert what the fuck you're weird no you're

03:56:18.180 why do you care about labia so much what the fuck is that yeah do you just stare down there like

03:56:22.820 the whole time why is that why is that weird why is that weird you just said you need a big dick like

03:56:27.700 what i i did not say that oh so sorry that was the rest of the girls that was the rest of us bro

03:56:32.900 like i have in the same way that women are allowed to have a genitalia preference i have a genitalia

03:56:41.380 preference don't get me wrong like indies are great too like i don't it's not a deal breaker but if she's

03:56:48.740 got an outie what's up dms are open it's just weird that you're focusing on it like we're not talking

03:56:54.340 about like we're just talking about size we're not talking about like curves and shit what the

03:57:01.140 yeah and i'm talking about size too size of the labia son

03:57:06.980 you know how she goes like this i go like this i think

03:57:11.620 i go like what you can have an indian have have like a big labia right can you no it doesn't really

03:57:17.860 i mean there's inner labia outer labia it's i think there's everything so you like it inverted

03:57:24.740 like i'm so confused he likes it like just like everything's out there

03:57:32.740 like a heart-shaped box you know okay butter like butterfly wings oh so you like it open

03:57:40.820 audi audi yeah an audi labia oh my god okay no no not belly buttons what the

03:57:49.940 fuck okay never mind no give me an innie for a belly button okay why is it sus no it's you you're

03:57:54.820 the one who's making a big deal about the shrimp thing you have a preference i have a pussy preference

03:58:00.580 yeah surprise it's funny because like like you like big like giant

03:58:09.140 pussy you like loose no no no no no no it doesn't mean it can be tight i just you can have an audi

03:58:16.020 do you know what any audi looks like do you know what it looks like i mean yeah do you know i know

03:58:20.900 i know are you rocking i feel like every girl knows but no every girl knows what an indian

03:58:24.900 out but i don't study them you should i mean you don't have to study it to like know what it looks

03:58:29.860 like i've studied it quite thoroughly i must say online or like physically both i went to school for

03:58:35.940 it there's a class what's a munch he's not a munch he's not a munch no he's not a month that's oh

03:58:42.820 you're a virgin what the fuck that's really good actually i'm glad you said he's not wait so like

03:58:48.340 a munch is uh someone who eats pussy yeah are you one of those i mean i don't like the term munch but

03:58:55.140 no i'm i it's not i don't do it that's good i was gonna say because like a lot of men don't know this

03:59:01.300 but you're basically cleaning out all the other dicks that were inside of her when you're eating

03:59:05.780 her out based that's why i don't do it but that's why i don't do it no no that shit lingers that

03:59:12.500 shit lingers son these girls be dripping three days later three days later just oh my god like you

03:59:21.140 know you know you know what you know what do you mean bro girls be leaking that shit out there

03:59:27.540 it lingers in there it changes plus it changes the ph a little bit if a guy's just blasting

03:59:31.940 up inside tiffany stop looking at me guys blasting you like munches

03:59:38.820 she hasn't had a munch she hasn't had for lunch i don't know okay she is a virgin though so i feel like

03:59:44.900 virgin you're like a traditional man's favorite girl yeah my friend loves why just say it like that

03:59:52.420 i don't know that's how you talk no i don't you definitely talk that way tiffany no i do not oh

03:59:56.980 my god yes you do okay um wait look what i will say like a lot of like okay on the munch grid one

04:00:04.740 motorsports donated 100 brian doesn't want to die from a bad clam speaking of which there's been some

04:00:13.300 articles that have surfaced recently i one of the reasons i stopped doing it the last time i went

04:00:18.020 down on a girl was in uh the bush administration i don't know if you remember that presidency the

04:00:23.620 bush administration 2007 2008 that's the last time i went down on the girl i did it a couple times

04:00:30.580 how old are you again 34 i'm an i'm a dinosaur you're a millennial are you millennial i'm millennial yeah

04:00:36.740 yeah we'll see we got screwed in the 2007 financial or was it 2008 i don't know um

04:00:46.020 that's crazy bro um what was i saying yeah it's been a minute like i did it a couple times

04:00:53.220 articles i didn't like uh did you even enjoy actually you know it's not that bad truth be told

04:00:59.380 but like like you said and this kind of relates to the not paying for first dates thing is like if she's

04:01:05.940 sleeping with other men i don't know like if it's a new girl yeah she could be your wife would you

04:01:14.420 neck problems wait but then like would you make her give you like i wouldn't make my girl like i

04:01:20.980 wouldn't make a girl do anything but uh if some some girls don't really care about that and they'll

04:01:29.780 still give you head and so yeah i think like i'm so anti anti what giving head you don't like giving

04:01:36.020 head even if a guy gives it to you no i just i just like don't like it in general you don't like receiving

04:01:41.380 you don't like giving i just haven't had an experience where like it was like oh my god this

04:01:46.260 is like life-changing to give it or to receive it well certainly to give it i imagine yeah both like

04:01:52.900 both i guess wait okay i used to be oh that's what i was gonna say you what yeah i used to be like

04:02:01.620 that she used to be like that you got a boyfriend and then she got a man she got a man

04:02:08.980 oh purr show that ring so my whole thing though is even though i don't like to uh and i'm not like

04:02:16.980 trying to rub it in someone's face like it's just a personal preference for me um i still definitely

04:02:23.300 want to make my girl come like i preferably she comes before i come so it's not like this like

04:02:30.500 greedy thing where it's i don't want to give my girl pleasure i absolutely want to give my girl

04:02:35.220 pleasure it makes the sex better it feels better for me uh certainly if she comes but um there's other

04:02:41.060 ways to go about making a girl come than giving her head so yeah for me it's uh just it's a very

04:02:47.940 submissive thing for a man to do i feel like give a woman it's not even that for me it's just more so

04:02:53.540 like the potential risks of like if she's seeing other guys even a relationship she could be cheating

04:02:59.460 who knows that would kind of gross me out if she's another dude and then um it is a bit different

04:03:07.220 there's differences and uh yeah good talk good talk guys good talk uh let's see what was i gonna

04:03:15.860 say wait has a guy never made you come from that from like just head yeah no oh oh is that wait

04:03:24.900 question for the girls here who have had sex has a guy guys made you has some women have never even

04:03:30.260 come ever is this too is this too much that's fine it's giving color daddy it's oh i'm just kidding

04:03:39.460 i've like i've only had sex with one person my boyfriend so i don't even know what it's i don't

04:03:46.340 even know like what it's supposed to be but i do know that like it does feel good so i have nothing to

04:03:51.060 compare it to oh so well i don't know gavin is his name gavin yeah it's gavin gavin does does what

04:03:59.940 well i was gonna ask like i don't think he's on but it also takes longer is for uh girls to have

04:04:05.780 like actual like satisfaction yeah it does and like not all women though not fast i've met some

04:04:13.060 women just like during the moment but like it's it just takes a while for sex to feel good to women

04:04:19.540 oh i see what you mean i see what you mean it takes a bit of getting yeah i will say though in the

04:04:25.300 actual moment generally speaking i think you're right most women struggle climaxing or it can take

04:04:32.580 a while however there are some women that that's just like instant it's crazy son but they're probably

04:04:42.340 more sexually experienced no not even like some some women come like literally within like

04:04:48.660 five seconds and then they have those tip those women are typically women who come really easily

04:04:54.900 are typically multi-orgasmic so they'll come like 10 times oh that's a keeper right there

04:05:04.500 what what if she comes fast that's a keeper yeah it's great it's great why do you feel like so you

04:05:11.620 can come faster yeah yeah madison yeah no it's just like it it relieves so much of the pressure

04:05:20.660 no there nick have you ever had like a girl who comes really quick shut up nick come on you've

04:05:26.020 yes you're i totally agree there are those have you have you had a girl like that they're

04:05:30.660 fucking rare i think i've only oh fuck i shouldn't this might reveal i don't reveal my body count but uh

04:05:38.180 do it i've encountered okay fine i'll give here this is for the chat this will this isn't revealing

04:05:45.140 my body count but i've encountered three women so you guys can determine how rare this is and you can

04:05:51.140 do the math i've encountered three women that are like insanely multi-orgasmic that's like literally

04:05:57.940 10 seconds boom 30 seconds later 30 seconds later 30 seconds later typically a lot of these women

04:06:04.740 squirt two good talk isn't that just pee though like that's what yes technically no it's not they've

04:06:12.500 done studies on this it's pee what is it it's pee so some people did a study and they pretty much put

04:06:19.620 blue dye into the woman's bladder right and then when she squirted it was blue coming out so it's a

04:06:26.260 mixture of pee and a mixture of you know the wet stuff so it's a mix but it is that's us okay

04:06:37.460 good talk good talk um oh i have okay i have a few more things wait okay we're talking about munch oral

04:06:44.420 uh cam h we talked about cam h uh oh height i want to go around on height on this um i think all of you

04:06:51.780 said that you want a guy who's taller than you right so uh what's your height and what's like the

04:06:56.420 bare minimum height that you'd want for a guy go ahead and maybe like ideal i'm five two and

04:07:03.460 the bare minimum is what i'm dating now it's six four six four yeah it's the minimum

04:07:10.820 no but i'm not gonna be with anyone else so i can set that as my minimum

04:07:14.260 you're gonna are you gonna marry uh uh we have an agreement but what well i don't want to say say

04:07:21.700 say no no i can't is it like you're not gonna get married but no no we're gonna get we're we have

04:07:29.220 like an agreement but i signed like we both agreed not to share is it a prenup you signed a

04:07:35.540 no no not a pre no not share what like an mba but no it's not like an mda basically not to say

04:07:44.180 anything but like so we're dating but we have this agreement for the future and that's basically it

04:07:52.980 is he muslim no he's catholic but he wants to convert to islam yeah so you can have multiple

04:07:59.540 wives is that what you're getting at no i don't want a man with multiple wives but if he like

04:08:05.540 if we break off and he has it i totally 100 go do it i'll help him find the wives too wait what's this

04:08:10.820 weird agreement that you can't talk about what's secret i'll tell you later it's a secret like the

04:08:17.060 mystery thank you i'm trying to like pontificate if you can if you can come up with it like what you

04:08:23.460 think it is and you say it like aloud and it's correct i'll say you're correct if not it's related

04:08:28.500 but it's related to marriage right related to long term yeah oh related to long term

04:08:35.380 is this like a legit like agreement like you have to sign papers it's not like thought about

04:08:42.820 it no no it's not like a paper we didn't write it down it's just like an agreement we have from

04:08:47.700 mouth to mouth speaking it's not like hey dude i thought it was like you like no it's not like sign

04:08:53.140 this uh this is what we have like it's not like that by a certain age oh mouth to mouth resuscitation

04:09:02.900 speaking some people have this agreement where it's like if they're both single by like this age

04:09:08.100 they're gonna get married i was gonna say that but you guys are together so it's like no but if you

04:09:12.660 think of it i'll tell you yeah but if not like we'll just i'm nothing's occurring to me so i'm not

04:09:17.300 even gonna bother guessing um we were talking you wanted to talk about dating etiquette was there

04:09:23.060 anything with dating etiquette that you wanted to touch on or no i think i think it's like oh sorry

04:09:31.460 loose energy donated 99 the are we talking about what the are we talking about what the

04:09:39.780 does distro kid have to do with this conversation

04:09:43.060 hashtag triggered brian hashtag random josian hashtag still my audio fingers hashtag free fake

04:09:50.420 virgin nick number eight at 18 i love that that's my hashtag i was so tilted that show um yeah thank

04:10:00.100 you lp appreciate it man um dating etiquette what did you have for us i mean in terms of just like

04:10:09.700 what we were talking about like i think dating etiquette in terms of like oh like being taken

04:10:14.900 out on a date you know flowers like just different things like that are just are not i feel like

04:10:24.100 present in college life i feel like i don't think honestly like people yeah yeah most girls would not

04:10:31.780 find that attractive what most girls like because i feel like if a guy's too into a girl especially

04:10:40.820 early on most girls are like no totally maybe in the past that used to fly but now i feel like most women

04:10:49.380 flowers they're gonna be like whoa this guy's trying way too hard because i think a lot of girls are

04:10:55.140 like attracted to that bad boy jerk archetype that's like doesn't even care about her awful which i

04:11:01.460 find weird because i feel like girls just want attention and when guys give them attention and

04:11:06.500 flowers and want to take them out on dates they're like ew yeah if if women rewarded that kind of

04:11:12.660 behavior more men would do it but the fact of the matter is like most women don't reward that kind of

04:11:20.100 behavior well women that don't reward that behavior is probably not deserving of a man that's willing

04:11:26.900 to give them sure but like i would argue like the vast majority of women are almost going to be put

04:11:33.700 off by like why is this guy bringing he's like way too they'd be like oh this is kind of like too much

04:11:39.540 this is too extra bringing the flowers paint like doing all the well it depends on how like into them

04:11:45.540 they are you know what i mean or how do they pull it off because like if somebody's like

04:11:49.540 bringing you flowers and like really simply for you like i love you on the first date like obviously

04:11:53.780 that's a turn off but if they're like having confidence having that like confident vibe energy

04:11:59.940 and they're opening a door for you and giving you like flower but then they're not like they're not

04:12:03.940 like actively making it a big deal that i would find that attractive yeah but i don't that's just me

04:12:10.580 the thing with that though is i don't think that that's ever going to be the deal maker like if a

04:12:16.180 girl's into you getting her flowers and if well if a girl's not into you obviously like getting her

04:12:25.860 like that's not going to be the thing that pushes you from like neutral interest into like whoa i

04:12:33.620 really like this guy so rather that than like being left on like delivered or something because like

04:12:40.100 they want i don't know i feel like i'll especially in college everyone's kind of like playing games

04:12:48.660 sure you know what i mean and like i'm just not down for the games like just like you're not down

04:12:52.900 for the game no that's why i feel like when you do start actually dating people your feelings are never

04:12:59.220 mutual so that's why girls get turned off if the guy brings you flowers if that happens you guys

04:13:06.020 probably aren't on the same level of attractiveness to each other right if be honest if a guy brought

04:13:11.780 you flowers you'd probably think he's a simp no you guys would think he's a simp you guys think he's

04:13:18.180 like if he's like super hot and like okay okay like it's fine like if it's like a weird stalker or

04:13:26.660 whatever and they bring flowers it's like ew like bye well sure a recommendation for the uh viewers for

04:13:33.860 the chat gentlemen don't bring girls flowers it's not gonna what don't tell the chat that don't bring

04:13:42.900 girls flowers don't simp don't do all this extra shit because it's not rewarded it's it's never going

04:13:50.580 to be it's never going to be the deal maker for some women they're gonna look at you like a like

04:13:58.180 you're a trick like you're way too overly invested um so definitely no flowers it's a waste of money too

04:14:08.020 no like honestly the exact opposite of what he just said yeah but okay the guy who brings you flowers

04:14:14.500 who you already like you already like he's already got enough in terms of looks and personality for you

04:14:21.220 you to already fuck with him anyways like the flowers fucking with him more you're like wow that

04:14:26.740 was a gentlemanly thing of you to do no that's some simp shit no it's not simp shit if you like

04:14:31.620 super simp shit like if you do it in the beginning like she said if you do it in the beginning and you're like

04:14:36.500 oh my god i love you you're so pretty and you're constantly complimenting her on the first date

04:14:40.500 that's simp shit but if you're just like nice to meet you like i brought you guys a cake i'm not like a simp for you though

04:14:47.220 yeah but girls are allowed to simp girls are allowed to simp because like most men don't receive

04:14:53.700 that and also that was like a professional gesture um most men don't receive like that level of

04:14:59.380 attention from women unless they're like hyper like hyper attractive dudes like take your average guy

04:15:06.100 he's never been asked out on a date a girl's never slid into his dms a girl's never made the first move

04:15:11.860 tried to like go for the first kiss with him so yeah these like sort of gestures if they were done

04:15:17.860 to a man would be like very much appreciated i think but it's not the standard for men like for

04:15:22.980 a woman to do that right men are supposed to be the ones asking to be the girlfriend men are supposed

04:15:28.420 to be the ones asking for the first date men are supposed to be the ones giving the flowers once

04:15:32.500 you're into the relationship no flowers no okay maybe no flowers but i think i don't think it's a bad

04:15:38.420 thing i don't think it means you're a simp oh why what do you have against flowers it's i there's

04:15:44.100 girls who will clown on a dude they'll think it's way too extra has it happened to you i've never bought

04:15:50.580 a girl flowers so no so you wouldn't know what it's like to what to get the reaction because you're like

04:15:56.420 oh if you get if a guy gives a girl flowers like you're not going to feel appreciated like if you

04:16:01.860 actually did it you'd probably like be like oh damn like that the reaction that they had from

04:16:08.180 me giving them flowers was like really rewarding it is is it it is is it though it's giving people

04:16:14.500 gifts are personally is really rewarding i think it's i'm a great receiver to i'm a great receiver

04:16:21.060 great receiver that's feminine wonderful receiver my boyfriend bought me flowers like

04:16:26.500 the third day we started talking to each other and then he like told me he loved me like pretty

04:16:32.020 early on into the relationship and i don't know i think it's great because it made me like

04:16:38.180 feel good about myself i was like wow this guy is really interested in me like he's really invested

04:16:43.220 his time and the effort that he wants to pursue me and everything and to this day like he buys me

04:16:49.460 flowers every other week that's amazing damn a guy that knows what he wants and knows how to keep it

04:16:56.020 is very attractive look i'm just gonna say this i ain't buying flowers for these high body count

04:17:02.260 girls for these promiscuous girls for these girls that got three situation chips at the same time

04:17:07.940 for these girls who i'm gonna buy you flowers and you're another dude i'm not directing that at you

04:17:13.460 i'm just saying that is the dating landscape i'm not buying flowers for a girl who's another guy

04:17:18.180 in the south a masculine can still be seen as gentlemanly if you bring flowers give some

04:17:24.420 compliments etc but in the wasteland of ca etc it is in fact a sign of weakness one of my wife's

04:17:31.780 favorite things is flowers for no reason we should do a role reversal how about you you're gonna take

04:17:37.940 me on a date we could film it too we could do it in studio it'll be like a date but you have to you

04:17:42.820 have to pay for the day you have to buy me what do you think would you be down yeah you're

04:17:47.780 you're down to take me on a date well and buy me flowers i've like done that before you've done

04:17:53.140 you bought a dude flowers no okay i'll be your first maybe no i haven't okay i was like maybe i

04:17:59.300 bought my boyfriend well we can get that scheduled just talk to my assistant i'm just kidding um

04:18:05.300 do you actually want to do that though do you want to take me on a date

04:18:09.220 no because you believe in like the boss babe thing right yeah so you said you said boss ass bitch

04:18:14.580 boss ass bitch right yeah like so how about we like flip we flip we see the dynamic like you

04:18:21.220 you pick the date you ask you you take me out on the date you you pay for everything you buy me

04:18:27.060 flowers i could do that no not about it why is that she's not about it okay i'm sorry good talk

04:18:36.420 good talk uh okay talk you wanted to talk about interracial relationships too did you date a guy

04:18:42.660 who was different yeah he was black the three-year relationship yeah and it was i mean i guess like

04:18:49.140 the only thing i would like just had to say about it was uh i guess the the only thing different was

04:18:57.460 people did you know look at us weird sometimes like out and about there was a lot of judgments

04:19:06.340 towards it i don't know it's it's weird thinking that would happen in today's like culture and stuff

04:19:12.980 but like it was were you guys doing it wasn't a problem did you guys do pda no we actually weren't

04:19:19.140 pda i feel like most people don't give a fuck to be honest like as long as you're not being weird in

04:19:23.060 public most people don't what was like the kind of judgment you're receiving i mean it was it was

04:19:30.020 like black women was it other i feel like a lot of black women will have an issue with

04:19:35.140 black men dating outside the race i've heard a lot of black women have an issue with that

04:19:39.460 i mean that definitely was like that was like factor but like obviously you do have like those

04:19:45.780 talks with like the like parents talk you know what i'm saying like your parents he said he said that

04:19:52.020 when we got in a relationship he had a talk with his mom about dating like a white girl type thing

04:19:57.940 what did the mom say like not like be careful but like be careful it's i don't know it was what did

04:20:05.620 she say what did she say i'm trying to remember um i guess just like just know that you're gonna be

04:20:12.980 looked at differently type thing and it's like i didn't i don't know i was just kind of like i didn't

04:20:17.780 think that would be an issue at all okay oh wait okay sorry sorry maybe we can come back to that

04:20:25.460 later just i want to get we were going around the table on height your boy you said you're five two

04:20:31.300 your bare minimum is six foot four yeah six foot four okay i mean if you guys were to ever break up

04:20:38.180 would you um date someone shorter than that or is that yeah actually i would okay what about you i'm

04:20:44.180 five five i would say bare minimum is probably five nine i don't have an ideal like sure as long as

04:20:51.620 they're five nine above okay what about you i'm five four and i think five eleven is a good is my

04:21:01.380 lowest is the lowest you would go you wouldn't do five ten i would do five i guess maybe i guess i'll

04:21:08.020 say five ten then but like you're five four what about a guy who's like five eight that's no no no no no no

04:21:14.020 never no i don't think so i mean i it really is a personality thing though sometimes but like i would

04:21:21.060 prefer over five eleven okay prefer preferably i'm five five my bare minimum would be

04:21:31.140 five eight and my preferred is like six one or six two you said you were five five okay preferred is

04:21:38.420 six one six two what about you i'm five six and my preferred is like five eight five eight okay at

04:21:44.580 least madison i'm five two my preferred would probably be five ten or higher but i feel like i

04:21:52.900 actually don't really care i've been with the guy who's like five four so nick do you have that the meme

04:22:00.500 uh the height the height one it should already be pulled up oh can you move just tie this real quick

04:22:17.060 this is kind of y'alls

04:22:21.060 just saying that guy's definitely like not five seven i know it's well it's it's it's exaggeration

04:22:27.700 but you got like five five foot girls who'd be like five sevens too short no yeah people got

04:22:33.620 preferences though like the same dude doesn't have to date like a girl with like xyz let me ask you a

04:22:39.060 question when it comes to preferences if i said i don't date women who weigh more than 110 pounds what

04:22:46.900 is that valid sure yeah if that's your preference you don't have an issue with it no same way i don't

04:22:53.140 date anybody under five nine that's fine what if i lower it to a hundred pounds does that change

04:22:59.300 anything i mean i'll be a little bit concerned but like it does like for 11 girls you know but it

04:23:05.060 depends on like the height i guess like wait i short short like a girl who's like to like for i like

04:23:10.740 short shakes so yeah i'd say most short shakes are like honestly like i don't know how much do you

04:23:17.540 weigh madison like uh last time i checked 98 yeah i think you're yeah like most short women are sub 100

04:23:26.340 i'd say so okay for like 4 11 yeah yeah that's like you know definitely definitely should we get the

04:23:34.260 scale just kidding okay for you know okay i just made it really awkward sorry guys um uh okay

04:23:44.020 yeah that's fine yeah that's preferences um

04:23:50.820 the okay whatever uh let's see i had some more notes here wait oh super chat we need to do let's

04:23:57.700 do the twitch or actually oh yeah yo guys go to twitch.tv can you are you able to scroll down on that

04:24:05.540 right side a little bit nick i just want to make sure we got the uh i scroll down a bit more

04:24:10.260 oh scroll up scroll up pub test yo thank you for the hype chat congrats on becoming a twitch partner

04:24:20.820 yeah we got twitch partnered awesome scroll up fakuta hype chat 50 euro dude thank you man sorry

04:24:28.180 i'm from belgium and my english is not good but in flemish it is quite funny and you are the first

04:24:32.820 to pronounce my name correctly much respect for that love you for that love your work did i how

04:24:39.780 did i did i pronounce it fakuta did i fakut how did i say it fucati you're belgian that sounds like

04:24:50.260 an italian fucati okay um did i say fucati okay beats thing for the tier one anonymous thing for the

04:24:58.260 tier one appreciate it all right cool cool um we had a chat here from grid one sultry oh wait did

04:25:06.260 has an islam marriage contract without which outlines conditions and goals to be met is that it

04:25:13.940 no he's not even muslim right you said he was christian or is he catholic like what is sultry sultry

04:25:20.500 can we here i'll google it i think it's sultry it's hot and humid suggesting or expressing a

04:25:28.980 passionate or strongly sexual nature or attraction oh okay i'll take it uh but like someone who has

04:25:37.060 sultry lips means they have nice lips i guess i don't know yeah is your guys's agreement to wait to help

04:25:46.740 till yeah maybe scoot into the marriage to have sex no uh he's my first so i already had it yeah

04:25:54.420 she she but i feel like some people will like have sex and then be like i think we should wait for

04:25:58.820 marriage yeah they become like mr celibate over here yeah you should do you have your phone on you can

04:26:04.340 you text him right now no i did let's see if he responded what did you text him call him you should

04:26:08.900 be like dtf question mark no no no do it do it do it do it he didn't respond guys delivered or

04:26:16.980 ran do it oh my god just do it no i just we just don't let your dreams be dreams instagram dm yesterday

04:26:26.180 you said tomorrow so just do it make your dreams come true okay just text him dtf question mark no if

04:26:35.460 he didn't even respond no because i'm not i'm in my i'm in my you're what i'm in my situation okay

04:26:42.660 let's see good job uh take it one day at a time yeah i'm not trying to be with multiple guys at once

04:26:49.700 okay i had some more notes here oh tiffany we got to pull up tiffany's can you pull up tiffany's

04:26:54.100 instagram tiffany do you consider yourself traditional my instagram for what wait don't pull it up yet

04:27:01.460 do you consider yourself traditional tiffany

04:27:06.580 trad in today's society yes today's society are you uh

04:27:15.940 you consider yourself conservative too traditional are you consider yourself modest modest yeah modest

04:27:23.700 a little in your dress in the way you dress yeah pull up pull up the instagram are you gonna pull

04:27:34.580 up my halloween post put us on the other side nick before you scroll down people are already commenting

04:27:41.620 on it scroll down no it's the first one

04:27:54.740 sorry there's a truck going by haram

04:27:59.060 i mean that's not bad for what i've oh well yeah that's not bad but i mean you should have seen

04:28:07.060 you you should have seen you bill your you bill yourself as this conservative that's just for

04:28:12.580 halloween trad virgin woman but you know what i mean that's not even that bad any girl it's just

04:28:23.620 i've seen worse for sure especially halloween around these parts but just saying women can wear

04:28:30.100 whatever they want to wear i didn't even celebrate can they yes they can that's fine

04:28:36.820 but like a lot of guys if you're dressing

04:28:40.340 provocatively won't take you seriously well what's like oh i'm more talking about like fashion like

04:28:45.700 i i'm saying like girls can wear whatever they want to wear okay not for not for yeah like not

04:28:53.460 not everything's for like a man's appeal you know what i'm saying sure that's fine like some girls

04:28:59.060 wear things because they feel good wearing them

04:29:01.460 one argument i've heard for why men should pay for the first date is because women have to do

04:29:08.420 more to get ready and like put on makeup and makeup is expensive do you agree with that

04:29:14.340 that's actually funny i've never thought about it like that no i think because i think guys

04:29:18.340 put in social currency yeah i also think it's like like you say it's a principle thing for us

04:29:27.460 like to see if the man is willing to take care of you or has the ability to take care i feel like

04:29:34.100 guys always ask like would you date me if you were if i was poor but like would you date me if i was

04:29:39.860 ugly like you wouldn't yeah ugly and poor are different women pass on men all the time because

04:29:47.620 of them not being physically attractive so and poor this whole like cope about oh women don't

04:29:54.260 care about looks like that's bullshit in fact all of you just said you had a height requirement which

04:29:57.940 is related to looks five eight isn't bad sure but like we have her over here with six four

04:30:05.060 you're five eleven you said five eleven or something so yeah yeah i don't i don't object

04:30:11.220 to women having a height preference but like women care just as much or if not if not more about looks

04:30:18.420 than men do i think it's the same that could be a hot take but you think it's the same yeah i'd

04:30:24.740 take women care way more but honestly women care way more about looks i don't now i think that there

04:30:32.340 are men can make up for it in other ways like their personality personality confidence humor status

04:30:39.700 money yeah however um like most men don't have those compensating characteristics

04:30:52.100 so like an average guy he's probably not that funny not making that much money doesn't have any status

04:31:00.180 uh probably of average confidence maybe you know whatever so uh what does he do uh but uh yeah

04:31:15.140 what does he do who do you think is more who do you think is more superficial men or women women

04:31:20.500 um i don't know like probably women but i could see it being both ways okay what do you think wait

04:31:31.700 can you can you like explain who do you think is more superficial men or women

04:31:38.420 i don't know man i don't know man i don't know man about the same yeah about the same t-dog

04:31:46.180 what t-dog t-dog that's your nickname why just answer the question answer the question because

04:31:56.260 you're chill like that i don't know you don't know you think it's about the same

04:32:02.580 who's more superficial maybe women okay i believe women are more superficial oh

04:32:11.300 i think women are very picky well i think just speaking specifically on looks i think there's

04:32:21.620 far more looks related things that women care about that are outside of men's control

04:32:28.340 for example a man's height out of his control his head of hair for example if a guy's kind of balding

04:32:34.740 and some men start you might say well women have to worry about that later on in life there's actually

04:32:38.740 many men who will start balding in their early 20s um women like i'm sure like that's got to be rough

04:32:46.340 if you're 21 and you're starting to get a receding hairline bro 21 year old girls want a guy with a

04:32:52.340 fucking full head of hair it's just reality um penis size sexual stamina sexual function all of these

04:33:01.060 things are out of a guy's control whereas like what's the i'm trying to think like the one thing that

04:33:07.620 men care about when it comes to looks like breast size that's kind of that's out of women's control

04:33:13.700 everything else like you can get a you can do squats a woman's height's also out of her control

04:33:18.820 too men don't but men don't care about but you like short women you like midgets like

04:33:22.740 all of us are midgets the difference is though the difference is is that i'll date a girl and some men

04:33:29.060 actually would not don't like short women uh however the difference at least for me is i'll date

04:33:37.060 a girl who's 4 11 i'll date a girl who's taller than me yeah but that's just you not every man i

04:33:43.220 would i would argue that height is much more a deal breaker from for women than it is for men yeah that

04:33:51.460 is true but women also can't control their height is what i'm trying to say right but i don't think

04:33:58.020 like a woman's a woman's height is almost never going to really most men are never going to really

04:34:07.220 care about a girl's height it's more about like titties and ass always uh

04:34:12.660 i don't i mean face maybe i'd like face too oh yeah what's more important titties ass or face

04:34:22.340 face all the guys say face it's face yeah because you can always fix your butt also can i just say

04:34:28.180 i've never met a person who's under five foot that's not insufferably so fucking annoying wait

04:34:33.780 what i hate i hate short people even short women too yes why because they're so annoying i've never

04:34:40.660 met what the fuck what do you mean it's the truth there's some there's perfectly pleasant

04:34:46.740 short people like is your mom how tall is your mom five two oh you talking about your mom no i'm

04:34:54.820 talking no i'm talking shit no i said on your mom put some respect under five show some respect for

04:35:00.340 your elders tiffany under five foot is considered short okay all right that's cool um i i've never

04:35:08.580 encountered that but i don't know yeah good talk guys good talk okay all right let's see a couple

04:35:17.620 more notes here we have uh we need to go hold on i think we got everything with l oh wait

04:35:30.340 i'm against online dating and i've tried it out so i am credible modern dating is so different especially

04:35:35.860 with social media and i genuinely believe that we all need to get culturally shocked somehow i also

04:35:40.660 think college dating is such a double standard because everyone low-key wants a relationship

04:35:45.060 but does everything to sabotage it damn that was a lot i don't know what i was on dude you were on that

04:35:52.740 i was no um i wait what was i even what was it oh oh online dating oh yeah i'm just yeah i'm just

04:36:03.300 against online dating i just feel like you catch the vibes like irl you know what i mean coming back uh

04:36:12.820 to you nika we have you said that you're into fem fem dom yeah i like experimenting i mean like

04:36:22.820 not that that's like the only thing i'm into but yeah not that that's the only thing i'm into but you

04:36:28.180 know as especially with the gen z like sure being young and experimental is something you said that

04:36:34.020 you have super bad luck on valentine's day yeah tell us tell us that story i feel like i have a

04:36:39.380 valentine's or curse or something tell us tell us what happened so they're like every year on valentine's

04:36:46.260 day there's something that happens when i'm like dating whether it's like not going well or certain

04:36:51.700 situations i remember um when i was in socal i was dating this guy dating i don't know like my i kind

04:37:00.420 of like dating slash seeing it it was an exclusive but also it was for longer than six months so

04:37:07.380 whatever you want to call it um so we went out and you know it's a super romantic place and we were

04:37:14.900 having um our little dinner and when it came to having fun he wasn't able to get up and yeah and

04:37:25.220 i was like on we day out of all the days like so i started questioning him i was like did you see

04:37:30.900 anybody right before me like i understand this is not like exclusive or whatever but like i kind of

04:37:36.340 felt a little like you know whatever and his face turned red and i was like oh so this is

04:37:43.140 like what's happening right now so i was like okay well take me home right now and he took me home and

04:37:49.540 um yeah and then i found another date for that night which was same night wait so

04:38:02.020 you met this guy the valentine's day on a dating app is that correct correct this was three years ago

04:38:08.340 like my first valentine's day or like that was kind of weird okay yeah and so you met him on the

04:38:19.460 dating app and then you uh well the person i was saying like i didn't met him on the dating app but

04:38:27.700 i did find my myself a second date for that night from yeah yeah well also we're going to uh

04:38:33.780 switch into the after show mode so uh tts trigger is now 69 you can you can hit it nick the tts trigger

04:38:43.140 oh madison can you hit the these other lights tts trigger is 69 and up read answer is 20 and up

04:38:51.940 that's both for stream labs and super chat i'm just going to change the things here in the description

04:38:57.380 hold up guys okay so if you guys want to get some chats in go for it uh okay and then you download

04:39:08.580 into dating app or you have the dating app and then you messaged a new guy on the dating app

04:39:14.180 yeah the first person i matched

04:39:15.700 and then you you're that same night you were able to secure another sex partner correct

04:39:27.060 on valentine's day no less correct bro women have dating on fucking easy mode easy mode dude i don't

04:39:35.460 care how fucking hot what time of night did you secure this new guy like 10 p.m i don't care how

04:39:42.100 fucking hot hot you are as a dude you cannot go on a dating app and get like turn around

04:39:48.580 pussy in like one hour in fucking possible in fucking possible i don't care how what you disagree

04:39:54.580 no you're you're so right bro that's you guys have dating on easy mode son yeah easy mode dating apps

04:40:03.220 like i heard like on guys that would run out of people to like type one like i heard that's a thing

04:40:08.180 but i've never seen it on like girls wait question for you what's the most like so that was like you

04:40:13.540 so you had sex with two guys in one day well i wouldn't count the first one because like well he

04:40:18.660 it was just the tip right like y'all fucked no we didn't fuck oh he couldn't even he didn't even

04:40:23.460 it was really embarrassing i never saw him again so damn girl yeah you gotta give a guy a chance

04:40:30.260 you know like give him a second chance no honestly he didn't because you know like about whiskey

04:40:34.580 dick i know but he'd never drunk like you know what's really interesting about like if a guy's

04:40:40.180 sexual performance is subpar like women often criticize men for all they want is sex but if a

04:40:46.100 guy like drops the ball on his performance the first time like you're gonna even though he's like

04:40:52.500 could be a very nice guy you're it's done yeah i mean i'm not saying what i did was like exactly

04:40:59.940 quote unquote not look it is like i'm not saying that but i'm just saying like hey like i'm young

04:41:05.460 and we were not exactly like exclusive and i didn't want to see him ever again so i thought i wanted to

04:41:10.900 have it dude that's dating go ahead go ahead what's the so you seem like a freak what's the freakiest thing

04:41:17.140 that you've done in like sex besides stabbing someone what's like the freakiest thing or weirdest

04:41:25.460 thing a guy has asked you to do or you've done in sex um i will tell you i got some stories i'm not

04:41:32.580 sure if i can get them on camera give us like the pg version tea tea tea let me think um i mean

04:41:44.020 like pegged a guy i'll keep it ambiguous but like fun at the beach but like public beach not a nude

04:41:50.660 beach questionable fun i was expecting like strap-on dildos and yeah all that wait yeah i mean

04:41:58.420 nothing for me that's like normal though oh wait what strap-on dildos is normal for you yeah have you

04:42:05.460 ever done with like with guys girl yeah with guys like strap-on dildo fuck a girl what do you guys think

04:42:12.260 about guys who want to be pegged by their girlfriends i think it's gay right yeah i also think it's gay

04:42:18.100 for guys to be super into anal yeah

04:42:24.980 do you agree high key i mean maybe not like gay but like um it's kind of it's sus that's a good

04:42:33.700 would you because that's isn't that where the male g-spot is what isn't it in their butt am i

04:42:40.980 tripping i think it is to be like into anal with like girls do you not eat ass no no i feel like

04:42:49.540 you eat ass she eats ass you eat ass and you peg she for sure she's a freak out of this panel

04:42:57.460 i feel like that's you like freaky i think that's kind of i'm very experimental like i don't know

04:43:03.460 like you're ready to go to war is that your weapon no it's my

04:43:07.380 fucking i got chronic back pain so i'm like digging into my shoulder blade because he's old i'm an old

04:43:13.540 man yeah tiffany get over here give me a back massage like i got this story it's not exactly like

04:43:20.980 freaky or anything but it was it's kind of interesting um i think it was like two years

04:43:25.540 ago i was working for a startup company for um basically bringing people into restaurants and

04:43:31.140 i would earn commission for however many people i bring in so my creative mind i was like

04:43:36.980 like how many people want to go out wait and take me out on a date with me so continue okay yeah so um

04:43:46.900 i ended up going on 10 dates in one day one day yeah but like it was just it was dates that i scheduled

04:43:55.940 to like for the business essentially wait how did you find all these people social media did you

04:44:04.180 10 dates in one day yeah like three breakfast a brunch three you like initiate i mean obviously

04:44:10.500 i wouldn't be like i would like snack on or like have drinks these were food dates yeah or like oh

04:44:16.820 like not like yeah i should have clarified i'm sorry like with the company because it was restaurant

04:44:22.420 based i was trying to drive the business up and bring people into restaurants oh shit so okay and this

04:44:29.140 was uh did you hook up you hook up with no i didn't hook up with any of them but you're just

04:44:34.580 trying to get them to come eat at the restaurant yeah what kind of it was at a what kind of restaurant

04:44:40.100 like different restaurants i mean i'm not going to specify oh i thought you were like part of the

04:44:43.940 business and you were trying to like generate money for the business yo that's actually smart if

04:44:49.780 you're a chick and your family owns a restaurant just like set up fucking 12 dates be like i really like

04:44:55.620 this place yo that's some 200 iq shit yeah and like i think it was a restaurant it was for the

04:45:03.700 dinner one and this the my first dinner and the second there was kind of like the first dinner was

04:45:08.420 running late and my second dinner showed up so i went back to the bathroom and i tipped the bartender

04:45:13.940 i was like girl you gotta help me out make some story make him busy like so i was like trying to

04:45:18.500 manage wrapping up the first one and then going to the second one without them finding out so that was

04:45:22.820 kind of like wait it wasn't even at different places is that the same place well like i did

04:45:28.900 different places but for dinner it was just one place so i would just tip the bartender they get

04:45:33.220 their money business get this money i get my money that's a lit that's wait so i just i want to come

04:45:39.140 back to your valentine story here well okay hold on there's the 10 dates in a day how did you source

04:45:45.460 these dates was it dating apps i have quite a number of people on social media just like was this

04:45:53.220 before or after the this is like before okay yeah um i don't know how much of a giga chad you have to

04:46:03.540 be to be able to as a guy to be able to get 10 dates in one day do you know what i mean what was that

04:46:11.940 term giga chad you want to define that for the jury giga chad is like a very attractive guy huh

04:46:20.980 very attractive guy nick can you uh google um giga chad for us i'll show you who giga chad is i

04:46:27.940 will show you an example of a giga chad my beard's actually looking a little like in that i don't know

04:46:35.220 why i didn't cut it differently but wait can you scoot into the table a little bit you're just kind

04:46:39.780 of you're like yeah do images of uh giga chad let's see okay some of these are what

04:46:51.940 wow like the demand for wait hold on scroll up scroll up scroll up

04:46:56.500 yeah it's like the glamour filter wait scroll up is this all the way click the third one

04:47:05.220 yeah yeah wait put us on the other side that's giga chad right there

04:47:10.580 wow fuck myron musculars that's fucking giga chad yo giga chad those of you remembers giga

04:47:16.900 chat in the chat um like like the emote use our emote um so okay 10 dates

04:47:24.180 but dates isn't like just food coffee like right but you still had like guys who went out of their

04:47:30.740 way on to come and meet you yeah was this like just a point of clarification did you plan this

04:47:36.180 all in one day or did it take you a couple days to plan this one it took some planning why what's the

04:47:42.500 motivation like that just sounds terrible money i mean it was a company that i was working for but

04:47:49.620 also i i kept congenuine conversation and there was a few of them that i really liked and i went

04:47:55.940 on a second date with them for non-work purposes but you know okay same way you would collab with kim

04:48:01.460 k for business and pleasure same thing with me did they it's a little different did all of them pay

04:48:06.260 for the date or did you pay they paid okay um you sit back to your valentine's day story i'm i'm

04:48:14.820 sorry if you already said this just a point of clarification in your pre-show notes to us you

04:48:19.460 wrote one time my boyfriend and i don't know if you made it clear that the guy who had trouble

04:48:26.260 getting it up was your boyfriend you said your one time my boyfriend couldn't get it up on valentine's

04:48:31.700 day so i canceled the date and went home and found another guy on tinder and effed real good

04:48:37.460 i'm sorry that was probably like a very late night message but i turned i used the term boyfriend

04:48:44.980 not as like an exclusively that's just me but it wasn't exclusive but you said boyfriend so this is

04:48:52.260 this was a guy that you've been seeing for a while yeah like more than six months how how how long were

04:48:58.980 you seeing him six months six months yeah like that's my timeline like more than six months how long

04:49:04.340 so you'd been seeing him for seven months yeah so guy you'd been exclusively or no not exclusively it

04:49:10.580 was an open relationship okay so couldn't get it up on valentine's day so you canceled the date

04:49:21.380 for your seven month open relationship and found another guy on tinder that night and effed

04:49:26.820 yeah get the rocks yeah abdul yeah get the rocks get the rocks wait can i ask what your body count is

04:49:35.460 if you feel comfortable answering uh it's under double digits i go on a lot i went on a lot of dates but

04:49:41.860 that doesn't mean i fucked every dude no it's not the cat under double digits yeah so less than 10 yeah

04:49:47.460 should we go around the table on body count here what one eight four zero six bro you gotta say it

04:49:57.940 louder six eight i don't share my body count because i'm a man of god um but three fast comers we know

04:50:08.820 you have six bodies that's so surprising wait what she has six bodies why is that surprising because she

04:50:16.100 seems like really traditional feminine like i mean i'm 23. six is not i mean compared to some other

04:50:23.060 like six i don't think six is that much some guys think that's a lot but like you should see the way

04:50:28.580 some people be like you probably know girls right because you're in the dorms you live in the dorms at

04:50:33.300 ucsb some of these girls their first freshman is a quarter or semester at ucsb quarter yeah these girls

04:50:41.700 their freshman first semester will put up double digits they'll put up 20 30 40 bodies like do you

04:50:49.460 know have you seen any scandalous chicks at the dorms i know a few who have double digits just like

04:50:56.500 this year right yeah yeah that's how a lot of girls move and dudes there's dudes who move that way too

04:51:03.220 good talk good talk tiffany um why do you keep saying that saying what good talk that's like my

04:51:12.500 filler word and yeah um you said another year on valentine's day actually stop we're not reading that

04:51:20.900 you said it no i we're not reading that you did what should we read it let's i think we should read

04:51:27.540 it you sent it you said you wanted to talk about this you said that you won't you tell us okay fine

04:51:35.220 i'll tell you tell you i won't say it you said okay so i i went that's why i was like let me provide

04:51:40.980 more context for it so this was very the very next year after that year um i was talking to a guy

04:51:49.620 basically like it was more like an online relationship because i lived in texas he lived

04:51:54.820 in california yeah so you know like we were going back and forth um i never got any clear communication

04:52:01.060 that it was exclusive like he never called me his girlfriend we never even met up for anything it

04:52:06.260 was all online but you know apparently in his mind we were like exclusive and you know whenever we

04:52:13.620 didn't try to make plans to come to california i came with some of my friends and we met up for

04:52:20.660 dinner and when i met up he was just like very icy and cold like i don't know like whenever i meet

04:52:28.100 up with somebody they just didn't give up the same vibes that it would be online like online would be

04:52:33.220 like always calling me facetiming me super warm and like my friend would have her date like put her

04:52:40.020 hands on her shoulder or like anything you know just like to show like that you know interest interest

04:52:46.740 anything like and he would just like sit there and like literally nothing and i was like i was the one

04:52:52.740 putting my hand i'm like okay like any interest like let me know like so i i just didn't get the vibes

04:53:01.140 that i wanted from him and then that same night whenever we were out on dinner um his friends were over

04:53:08.340 and one of his friends um i ended up getting his snapchat and you know it took some next wild night on

04:53:17.940 well hazy so i'll leave it at that okay word let's see we have to get to neela you consider yourself

04:53:29.540 red-pilled yeah what does that mean for you um not being a liberal um being traditional having

04:53:42.340 traditional values uh having open opinions and as people say like being not being a part of the matrix so

04:53:50.820 we can't say that on here but like um just being opposed to i keep i keep wanting to say it but i

04:54:02.340 can't um the

04:54:07.700 the jap the jap being opposed to like the jap and all the being opposed to like pharma and that's basically

04:54:15.620 what red pill means to me okay like being anti-government anti-government sort of yes word

04:54:22.660 uh okay so you're red-pilled uh you also said you questioned should a woman work question mark

04:54:30.420 should a woman work yeah i think the best thing is a woman having the option to work but also having

04:54:37.220 the option to be able to sit back and not work if she doesn't want to do you agree with that that's

04:54:44.420 valid do you think a woman's entitled to do whatever she a woman's entitled to do whatever

04:54:49.780 she wants no like i'm saying like if if you know if if there's women that do want to sit back and

04:54:56.180 and not work i think that's a great thing because i'm sure they offer other other things and i think

04:55:03.620 it's also valid for a woman to work i think it's do you think that's a female privilege uh to not be

04:55:09.860 able to work yeah absolutely because like there's definitely like women you kind of have a backup

04:55:16.740 plan of like well yeah if my career doesn't work out i can just marry a guy i can just find a rich

04:55:24.500 guy or something or just a guy who's prepared to provide whereas like most men we net like that can't

04:55:30.660 be a thought in our head we can't think yeah i think i'll just find a woman to provide for me because

04:55:36.260 most won't some will but the vast majority i want to say it's probably more than 90 of women

04:55:43.460 don't want to stay at home husband yeah true so true i feel like women don't really find fulfillment

04:55:50.580 within like their career and their jobs that more so they find fulfillment in people so like finding

04:55:57.620 having a nice husband having a family having kids is what i think women are

04:56:06.820 more fulfilled having a hundred percent a tiring job their jobs to bake the bread like they're supposed

04:56:14.580 to be the oven speaking of which you said that you had a few boyfriends who were leeches

04:56:20.020 why don't you tell us about that well it was really just one boyfriend oh a singular boyfriend

04:56:24.180 we were together for almost a year we had met on new year's when i turned 21 and we worked at a

04:56:32.580 famous car company together and i ended up letting him move into my apartment he did have a house in

04:56:39.220 sack which was about an hour and a half two hours away from where i was living and he was paying for

04:56:45.380 his grandma to live there so i kind of was like giving him the benefit of the doubt like oh you're already

04:56:50.180 paying for a house like you could just stay with me i was driving him to and from work every day

04:56:57.460 which was an hour there and an hour back and then driving to my job which was also an hour away

04:57:04.180 and i ended up catching him cheating yeah and then i just kicked him out yeah good times yeah he didn't

04:57:11.380 pay groceries didn't pay gas nothing okay major leech yeah

04:57:19.780 do you think you'll find yourself in another situation like that or

04:57:23.540 no i've learned my lesson on that so you've learned your lesson okay uh

04:57:31.060 and so you said you were paying for everything is that correct yeah correct yeah and you didn't like

04:57:35.380 that though well i think at the time i didn't mind it because i was like you know maybe i'm not

04:57:42.340 traditional maybe maybe i want to provide and when i you know at the end of that i was like yeah this is

04:57:48.740 not for me what do you do for work again remind me i'm a scientific analyst what is what is that what

04:57:54.660 do you what do you do um it's lab work so i formulate bulk batches of i basically make medical

04:58:02.340 testing kits like code sorry i can't say that um that's okay yeah i'm no you can test kits

04:58:10.020 okay dope yeah does it pay well or yeah it pays very well six figures no no one day maybe yeah okay

04:58:22.500 maybe a couple years all right okay good to know good to know we have

04:58:28.820 oh we have a tick tock of yours to react to why don't we pull it up and then we have some of your

04:58:36.340 tweets to react to and then we're going to wrap up probably shortly after that

04:58:42.820 i want to know guys agree with this by the way can you yeah oh start it from the beginning

04:58:51.220 these are five red flags to look out for in a girl if she has any of these you're better off just not

04:58:56.340 getting involved number one is high body count and no regrets if she's proud of being a slut you can

04:59:02.180 hit it but don't put a ring on that finger because remember sleeping with many people ruins your ability

04:59:07.300 to pair bond and obviously makes your current partner less special the second thing is having

04:59:12.180 a poor relationship with family so if she's wait nick hide that thing in the corner man

04:59:17.700 all right go ahead that's like i hate my dad i hate my mom unless she has a valid reason to then

04:59:26.820 she'll be disrespectful to you as well the third thing is she entertains multiple guy friends who

04:59:31.940 want her this speaks for itself you should know that they probably just want to smash and if she

04:59:36.180 doesn't know that then there's a red flag in itself there's no such thing as guy friends and this

04:59:41.780 really just shows that she loves attention number four she shames you for having boundaries if you

04:59:47.700 express something you're not comfortable with and she says you're just being insecure instead of

04:59:54.020 talking it out with you and compromising then run number five is gross if she smokes this just shows

05:00:01.300 she doesn't take care of herself in the right way so let me know if these are valid and if i should drop

05:00:06.980 part two um can you just really so recap what are the five so high body count high body count with no

05:00:15.300 regrets like she's proud of being a slut um the second one was disrespectful to her family

05:00:23.780 the third one oh my god i'm forgetting it wait okay i know it's smoking that that was the fifth one

05:00:30.020 that's the fifth one but disrespectful oh has guy friends okay um and she doesn't compromise with you so

05:00:36.740 she's saying like shit like you're just a very insecure because you don't want her to go clubbing

05:00:41.060 or something like that and then the fifth one's if she smokes gotcha i agree with you pretty much

05:00:45.780 everything there the only nitpick i have is when you say if she's a slut you can still hit it me

05:00:52.980 personally i don't like i don't know if i'm a outlier when it comes to men even if it was just for a

05:01:00.020 one-night stand i wouldn't want to get with a girl who's promiscuous anyways what if she lies

05:01:04.420 though what if she or what if you like that doesn't come up what if you just like are you

05:01:09.220 just not that type of guy to just hit it in one night well no i mean i think that well i wouldn't

05:01:14.740 want to have a one-night stand but if like there's a girl i'm pursuing and then i don't think it's

05:01:21.140 necessary to wait long periods of time before having sex but uh i mean you can there's there's things that

05:01:30.740 that you can tell like in not always some women are pretty good at hiding it but you can tell to

05:01:35.300 some degree if she's promiscuous um and but you can also at least for me i'm kind of you can just

05:01:41.460 straight up ask to be yeah but you don't need to necessarily straight up ask for the body count but

05:01:46.260 you can ask like okay ask relationship history that can sort of be an indicator you can ask like

05:01:52.180 certain questions that might potentially be an indicator of promiscuity has she had threesomes has

05:01:57.620 she had more than threesomes okay she's had fucking the orgies probably high body count yeah

05:02:03.220 there's other like there's certain sexual and non-sexual questions that you could ask her that

05:02:08.180 could potentially reveal promiscuity not always but there's there's a lot of other deciphering factors

05:02:14.740 so you know when they say like you can tell it in the eyes like if she's the thousand what's it

05:02:19.540 called the thousand cock stare yeah you can say if you can tell some girls have the thousand cock stare

05:02:25.700 yeah so if she tiffany just kidding just kidding i'm kidding tiffany wait i don't have a question

05:02:31.620 so like all that is valid but i think an important question to ask is like when was that timeline of

05:02:38.180 that body count for example like um like for my for my circumstance like yeah i did a lot of stuff

05:02:45.060 that you know i shared that i thought it were entertaining but i don't think there were like

05:02:49.220 things that i've done and and i look back in the past year and year and a half have completely changed but

05:02:54.500 does that mean that my potential data is going to judge me for what i've done like three or four

05:02:59.460 years ago yeah absolutely your past haunts you absolutely totally yeah um okay i mean i'm like okay

05:03:08.820 well look what is it obviously a girl a girl who is no longer promiscuous but was promiscuous

05:03:18.580 you could say that's better than a girl who was promiscuous and is still promiscuous

05:03:25.540 um some people believe in redemption and but me personally i feel like once a girl's got a

05:03:32.340 high body count it's a that's a wrap i'm pretty sure the vagina resets after a certain amount of months

05:03:38.340 no that's i'm not even talking about that and i look that it is uh like i think i'm the biggest red flag

05:03:45.460 then because i don't find any of those wrong you think they're all right i think it's i think if a

05:03:51.460 girl decides to be sexual and decides to settle down then that doesn't make her a red flag having

05:03:57.700 a lot of decides to settle down decides to settle down like like i don't know like if a girl is

05:04:03.380 like crazy in college and like gets with a bunch of guys but then like later on like once a family

05:04:07.620 and a husband like that doesn't like just because she's been with a bunch of people doesn't mean that

05:04:12.420 she doesn't deserve isn't deserving of those things well do you have a response and then i'll go

05:04:18.500 i would say no what makes you more deserving than a girl that slept with more people

05:04:23.540 um i value myself a lot more so i deserve i would say i deserve someone of more high value and usually

05:04:32.500 more people of more high value like men they choose to be with a woman who isn't promiscuous like brian

05:04:38.340 here so i i wouldn't say i'm more deserving of love i think everyone is deserving of love

05:04:44.020 i'm just saying it's like a standard that someone like he has someone like i have and the kind of

05:04:49.860 videos i make promote to red pill they're promote to high value guys and not usually but what i'm

05:04:55.540 saying to those guys is if you can get a bunch of girls don't settle for a hoe settle for a good girl

05:05:00.740 who's going to make your life easier but i would i would even to add to what you're saying i would

05:05:05.780 argue that even normal average men have a strong preference for non-promiscuous women you don't

05:05:12.980 need to be like a high value guy that's not true it's because they don't have they can't get options

05:05:17.540 they don't have options their options are only like the rancher so i think so what you're saying is

05:05:22.740 like a guy who it's difficult for him to get a woman out of necessity he might partner with like a

05:05:29.860 woman who is or was promiscuous because that's all he can get i would actually argue though that

05:05:36.020 like even guys who struggle with dating there are some guys who are really not that pressed for

05:05:40.580 pussy they're not that pressed to get laid and they they do want to pursue a high quality woman

05:05:49.860 who may be average just as he's average but i mean i'm confused well what you're trying to say what i'm

05:05:57.380 saying is is that perhaps out of necessity some guys will settle for a woman who's promiscuous or

05:06:02.740 has a high body count but i don't think that like men almost innately want women who are not promiscuous

05:06:10.900 or don't have a promiscuous past or don't have a high body count why there's i mean there's a ton of

05:06:17.060 reasons um so first off having a high body count is a proxy for promiscuity yeah promiscuity is an

05:06:28.100 undesirable trait for someone that you're pursuing for a long-term relationship there's the std component

05:06:35.140 the more sexual partners you've had you have the greater likelihood that you've gotten an std perhaps

05:06:41.140 yo a b check thank you for the 20 gifted memberships the more promiscuous you are the

05:06:47.380 more people you've had sex with the greater likelihood of having had an std or perhaps you

05:06:52.340 have an incurable std like herpes etc etc so uh i mean i think a girl who's had one sexual partner is

05:07:02.340 much less likely to have herpes for example than a girl who's had 50 or 100. do you want to hear

05:07:06.900 something crazy what's up so let's say you marry a girl with 10 bodies and you have a child with her

05:07:13.380 that child can inherit the dna of all the past men oh i've heard of this it's i don't know is that a

05:07:19.540 fact though it's called telogeny you can search it up i thought it was called like micro something

05:07:24.740 like chimerism or no no it's something about chimerism there i i have heard something about i found

05:07:31.460 that crazy women will retain the sperm uh sorry not the sperm the dna of men that they've previously

05:07:38.500 had sex with i i don't know if that study is valid i don't know i saw the article though yeah but

05:07:45.780 i'm like that's pretty crazy what if they use a condom i mean yeah no i think the guy has to

05:07:51.300 blast yeah he the guy has to come inside totally blast i think he's got to come inside i think but

05:07:56.900 he's got a blast yeah so but no why body count matters okay so on on a purely practical level

05:08:04.340 if a girl is for example sleeping with somebody else while she's sleeping with me it's just gross

05:08:10.180 on a practical level that's rude to you i'd be like and by the way i feel like women can feel

05:08:15.860 this exact same way like if you knew that a guy slept with a girl right before you you could feel

05:08:21.140 like oh that's kind of like did he wash like uh you know it's different though like it's a little

05:08:26.020 different between men and women but um so promiscuous woman with a high body count she's more likely to

05:08:32.020 be sleeping sleeping with multiple people at the same time uh i don't want to like kiss a girl

05:08:38.180 that like sucked some dude's dick yesterday like to me that's just gross um stds right infidelity

05:08:45.380 that's a huge thing so nobody wants to risk getting cheated on high body count equals high probability

05:08:52.020 of cheating and infidelity pair bonding is the other one so the more partners you have the less able

05:08:58.740 you are excuse me the more partners you have the more the jesus is that fact though the less able you

05:09:06.100 are to bond and fall in love with new partners so the more partners you've had you just start viewing

05:09:11.780 sex as sport like it's just sport fucking to you it means nothing there's no into you've detached

05:09:18.820 intimacy from sex once you've like it's just the intimacy is gone it's just like a handshake good to

05:09:26.420 meet you um you've you've rewired your brain to detach the intimacy from sex uh you're also probably

05:09:34.260 not a relationship-minded person if you've had a bunch of casual sex um as evidenced by the amount of

05:09:41.780 casual sex you've had if you were relationship-minded you would probably hold like hold sex to be

05:09:47.620 something that you just have within a relationship um so there's also

05:09:56.180 i think people want to feel like they're someone special to their special someone so if i'm dude

05:10:01.140 number 77 for you what one why didn't the previous 76 work out what what is something wrong with you

05:10:10.020 do you get bored really easily i'm gonna view you as not you're not a good long-term bet for commitment

05:10:15.140 what why didn't you commit to any of these 77 other dudes that you've slept with um doesn't

05:10:21.620 that make you more special no no i'm just kidding no um like out of all these 77 guys on the roster

05:10:30.980 like you made it you made the cut what then you're also thinking about all these other 77 guys that

05:10:36.980 she's no i mean what would be special would be like she's a virgin and she picks you oh oh yeah

05:10:45.300 sorry so special um i would also argue when it comes to body count it's a social reputational thing

05:10:52.100 men care a lot about respect and respect from our male friends from our peers if we wife up a girl who's

05:10:57.540 like promiscuous and then slept with the entire town that's going to reflect poorly on us like there's

05:11:03.700 this old saying like you don't what's that you don't wife up the town bicycle like

05:11:09.860 it's a reputational thing people are not going to respect you um there's also this concept called

05:11:17.860 it's kind of it's kind of like a nerdy term but alpha widow so i would say yes we we as men do care

05:11:26.820 about being compared to your other partners part of that is because women can women can sleep up

05:11:34.180 men can't really so i think women have to be very careful with with who they sleep with because you

05:11:41.300 can sleep with men way out of your league in looks personality and status

05:11:48.100 bear in mind those men will never commit to you the same can't really be said about men like men

05:11:53.300 can't sleep outside of their league typically you you have like a it's a totally mirror opposite almost

05:12:01.780 so typically for a woman let's say a woman doesn't normally um engage in casual sex she might break

05:12:09.060 that rule for like a guy who's really fucking attractive whereas men it's it's almost the reverse like

05:12:15.780 men will will sleep with women that they otherwise wouldn't just based on looks but have no interest

05:12:28.500 in of getting into a relationship with that woman so for example right in order for a girl to sleep

05:12:34.980 with a guy i would argue that that guy needs to be at least physically attractive enough to be in

05:12:42.740 a relationship with i don't think the the reverse is definitely not the case for men men will

05:12:50.020 regularly sleep with women that they will would never just on the looks factor alone we'll sleep

05:12:55.940 with women that we would never consider for a relationship but the like the reverse is not the

05:13:02.740 case yeah like if a woman's gonna have casual sex she's gonna try to secure it with like a really

05:13:08.180 fucking hot dude so women will break their rules that way and then men will sleep down with women

05:13:13.940 that they'll never commit to but they'll it's just they welcome the easy access to sex did you have

05:13:19.460 something sorry um not sorry to interrupt but um i wasn't sure how long this podcast was gonna be

05:13:26.660 so we're gonna wrap pretty soon okay yeah yeah yeah just wanted to check in sure sure yeah probably

05:13:32.180 another 10 minutes okay yeah um so does that that's kind of what some of the reasons why

05:13:41.460 men care about body count i know i went through quite a bit so it's okay if they are like

05:13:47.540 plug it in everywhere so well i do think there is a bit of a difference um how if it's like a transfer

05:13:56.180 of energy both ways then like doesn't the energy of the man well i'll address that so it is a bit

05:14:03.940 different and the other one i forgot to mention which i think is probably one of the most i feel

05:14:09.940 like people don't well there's an evolutionary psychology basis for men caring much more about

05:14:17.140 women's promiscuity than the reverse so it comes down to paternity certainty so for example

05:14:24.660 let's say i have 10 wives they're all loyal to me and i'm sleeping with all of them i know with

05:14:33.780 my 10 wives that i'm the father for all of them they know they we know who the mothers are we know who

05:14:40.180 the father is the reverse however if there's a woman with 10 husbands and they're all sleeping with her

05:14:48.020 who's the father of the children that she bears you don't know now of course i'm talking about this

05:14:55.940 from a evolutionary psychology perspective in the 1980s i believe we've you know dna testing came

05:15:02.500 around so yes through paternity testing we can we know now but that doesn't undo that doesn't erase

05:15:08.820 hundreds of thousands of years of evolution when it comes to males and men needing to ensure paternity of

05:15:16.740 their children because it's what when you have a kid you know for a fact that that's your kid but

05:15:21.940 as a man there's there's no real way for us to know with certainty so men care far more about

05:15:28.420 promiscuity because if you're promiscuous that's indicator for infidelity if you're sleeping with

05:15:32.820 other men they could be the one that impregnated you not us and we want to it's a we want to pass on

05:15:40.180 our genes so there's a it's a paternity uncertainty but wouldn't you like separate the two like wanting

05:15:48.660 to like have kids with someone versus like hookup culture like those are very different you know what

05:15:54.180 i mean well like women don't have sex to like have children sure but it doesn't but but what let me ask

05:16:01.700 you a question what drives us on a biological base level to have sex what makes us sexually attracted

05:16:11.460 to other people hormones but but there's something in our our our biology our dna what ultimately like

05:16:20.980 for example somebody who is how do i articulate this

05:16:31.140 shit okay sorry i'm the even if you have sex with somebody of course you don't have the intention of

05:16:41.140 okay my intention here is to procreate no of course not people have sex recreationally

05:16:47.220 all the time most of the time probably however our drive to do it are in is has a very strong like

05:16:57.540 evolutionary biological route to pass on our seed now that might not be your intellectual intention but

05:17:05.300 somewhere in your subconscious in your like uh i don't i'm i'm what's that wait nick what

05:17:12.500 yeah okay um somewhere in your subconscious there's that there's that drive to procreate

05:17:24.660 what no i don't i don't i don't like obviously like i want kids but there's a lot okay let me ask

05:17:30.180 you a question why do why are women attracted to tom hold on modest hikima donated 69 dollars

05:17:38.740 independent girl can you define independence and how you think independence of women is not

05:17:44.900 contradictory to basic human biology and intuition do you think you do not need a man are you self

05:17:51.620 reliant will you still be when you have a child um i don't know if you're referring to like

05:17:59.140 like like obviously i need a man to like make a child but i think i am self-reliant i don't think

05:18:08.180 i need a man i just like want one you know what i mean like i don't need one i don't think any woman

05:18:18.100 needs a man like just how a strong independent man wouldn't need a woman they're just nice to have

05:18:24.820 you know what i mean like because humans are meant to you know connect with each other like that's

05:18:32.340 like one of our purposes so i think it's just part of our biology i guess you don't need you don't need

05:18:40.100 a man do you mean romantically or just generally speaking like we don't need men in society no no i

05:18:45.940 think i think they're both valid like men and women are both valid in society but i think that i like

05:18:52.980 don't need a man to like be happy basically they make sure it's nice it helps sometimes but like

05:19:00.660 i don't necessarily like need one do you have a response to that nila i actually think it's like

05:19:08.100 right but everybody you don't want to be the person who dies alone with their 20 cats absolutely

05:19:14.660 absolutely and yeah you say like you don't need one and it's true like you could definitely live

05:19:20.020 alone without a man but how much more depressed and how much more shitty would your life be without

05:19:26.660 no i'm saying i want one you i don't need one yeah and there's a difference he even said that brought

05:19:31.940 this up but yeah no i could agree with that but i think it's a need and a want i think we need each

05:19:37.300 other yeah we need each other for sure do you have any more stories by the way or you're good okay

05:19:46.020 well thank you what uh sure

05:19:51.460 but yes uh just wanted to say thank you so much for having me on this show thank you for coming

05:20:03.380 um i just have like time limit on when i'm out so uh super nice meeting you and yeah thank you

05:20:08.900 bye-bye i feel like i have one last question for you here um

05:20:15.460 oh okay here's the last one here's the last one then it's a it's a quick one um and i want to start

05:20:20.420 with you ask everyone to rate from stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one to

05:20:24.580 ten go ahead i would probably say like six or seven i definitely have some points where i was a 10

05:20:30.420 like few years back but i'm working on it and especially on my medication it it like kind of

05:20:38.180 messes up with your body so sure you know like trying to balance that plus like you know diet

05:20:43.460 and exercise so okay and i'll go around the table on this i know you have to leave so feel

05:20:47.700 free to excuse yourself thank you for coming appreciate it uh what about you how i think i

05:20:52.820 like rate your looks on a scale of one to ten uh i'll give myself like a nine

05:20:59.300 eight i think realistically like a seven or an eight this is based off like how i perceive myself

05:21:08.740 yes your looks all right how i perceive myself i give myself a nine because ten is perfect so

05:21:15.620 there's always room for improvement

05:21:19.700 rate what about you six six that's good six point five on a good day accurate oh oh okay

05:21:27.220 speaking speaking of i mean what did you rate yourself tiffany eight okay

05:21:35.940 chat let's pull up the chat since since i'll be petty uh tiffany says it's accurate that i'm a six

05:21:44.100 she says she's an eight do you guys think tiffany's an eight

05:21:48.420 ew wait tiffany can you take take her seat what do you give tiffany guys tiffany sit over there take

05:21:55.540 that seat just for the rest of the show i'm gonna wrap up soon it's just better that way

05:22:06.340 what do you rate tiffany wow it's going crazy

05:22:11.860 what do you rate her if keep rating what do you rate her i don't see a lot of eights here tiffany

05:22:17.460 i'm sorry i don't care because i think i saw a nine point four four five

05:22:26.340 five six five four they're they're christina oh a woman gave you nate of course okay uh

05:22:36.820 that's a lot of people tiffany

05:22:39.460 i think they're actually shipping us since we're looks match what that's disgusting why why is that

05:22:48.580 disgusting 34 huh i'm not into you you're a dirty whore i'm a wait i'm a dirty i think she said 34

05:22:57.780 i heard that too no i heard that too oh my goodness excuse me

05:23:01.620 yeah it's okay yeah but that's not an accurate representation because all the men on there are

05:23:08.340 probably incels no they're not incels probably should we have them rate all of us do you you

05:23:14.660 you think you think you're more likely to be rated higher by like a chad you think you'd get a higher

05:23:20.980 rating from a chad who fucks a lot of chicks modest he came a donated 69 very doubtful finally the

05:23:27.140 terrorist sympathizer is gone if you want a man would you call that biology and intuition what do

05:23:34.660 you want a man for children are you planning on taking the sperm and no child support since don't

05:23:41.140 need no man i hate how like it's so off topic like what's off topic that oh the super chat the message

05:23:49.380 when we're talking about it not well sometimes there's a delay stochastic

05:23:53.860 hey stochastic thank you man appreciate it hey brain sorry i'm late long day i had to feed my

05:24:01.540 tamagotchi i bought some chain mail armor for my next date prevent poking i partially converted to

05:24:08.740 islam 32.33 percent repeating of course anyway t-dog is a five or six why racism makes her innate

05:24:18.500 tiffany it's because you're the first letter of your name is t okay okay like for example she would

05:24:26.020 be m-dog i guess and madison would be m-dog my nickname growing up was mad dog mad dog oh that's

05:24:32.340 a good one uh yeah tiffany you misses my chat tiffany wants to age shame me it's okay um it's okay

05:24:42.820 it's okay i'm heartbroken i'm a little heartbroken tiffany that you won't bestow me with your she just

05:24:53.060 licked you up and down uh that's funny okay um let me see where oh we had to react to some of nila's

05:25:02.100 tweets let's do some of her tweets we don't have a bunch of time so we'll just do a few um pull up her

05:25:08.100 media tab oh wait there's kind of a sus one that i don't know if we should show but the alphabet

05:25:16.820 the one about the alphabet people i don't know if that's haram that might be haram i don't know

05:25:24.580 uh sure scroll no i think it's the second one it's so cute it's the media tab is that your cat

05:25:34.100 no as a tiger yeah that's a wait did you just ask if that's a cat is that your cat people have

05:25:40.420 it's exactly like people have cats that look like type yeah yeah

05:25:44.900 whoa yeah that's it's the media tab it's this one scroll scroll up scroll up a bit all the way up

05:25:51.860 scroll all the way up this is like plastics all the way up all the way up all the way up scroll down

05:25:57.220 put us on the other side i think if you can Harry men who dress like women are the reason okay nice

05:26:05.940 dope based scroll down skip this one i don't want to invoke their wrath um you see this you see your

05:26:14.100 girl do this on a night out by the way so the way i want to frame this nick if you can also maybe have

05:26:17.940 the chat pulled up so we can see it the all these questions that neil is asking on her twitter

05:26:22.980 um this is directed at the chat so we're gonna have some chat interaction here um oh scuffed

05:26:33.860 okay so you see your girl do this on a night out what you do truthfully bruv insta breakup that's

05:26:40.740 a breakup that's a breakup son and it looks like it's a dude that's doing it i'm that's a that's a

05:26:46.500 done deal she shouldn't be going out to begin with though your thoughts on that neila oh yeah she

05:26:51.060 should not be going my girl should not be going out partying she just oh look at this is awful

05:26:57.140 go ahead go ahead what you think what you think do you still disagree with the body count thing

05:27:01.860 what do you mean like men men because i understand the unappeal but like girls should be able to go

05:27:06.900 out and have fun and go with their girlfriends like partying to like a party place like a club i think

05:27:12.340 going to the i feel like it's a it's very rock like in my relationship clubbing was

05:27:17.860 something that we discussed that was a boundary that yeah he was like he's like girls go to clubs

05:27:25.220 to find well yeah the reason i'm saying that is like guys go there to find a girl to rail they

05:27:29.860 don't go there to dance probably girls go there to dance but like they go there to flex their money

05:27:34.900 buy bottles buy tables and then like find girls that's why most men do not like their girls going

05:27:39.940 to clubs do you think do you think that men who don't want their girls going out partying

05:27:46.020 drinking clubbing etc do you think that that's just that's a guy being insecure

05:27:53.060 i would say we're not having trust yeah i just feel like if if it's a good relationship they should

05:27:58.260 be able to live their life however they want well isn't that quite literally like once you get into

05:28:03.700 relationship you start putting boundaries on what's acceptable and unacceptable

05:28:07.300 boundaries are valid but like in terms of like going out that you should be

05:28:11.700 allowed to like go out with your girlfriends not necessarily to a club but like like i don't know

05:28:16.020 like if you want to like go to dinner you know no that's not that's not what we're talking about

05:28:19.860 i know but like there's like little fun little clubs in silver lake in la that are like fun

05:28:25.780 la clubs are it's not it's not like clubs but like there's like going out like dancing places

05:28:30.500 there's like fun pool places to go out like oh no that's a no well i mean clubs bars no these are

05:28:39.940 these are like single environment these are you wouldn't go out like on a business meeting to like

05:28:45.140 a bar no for have you have you not been to a bar or club they're insane they're super loud

05:28:51.700 a business meeting i'm gonna talk i'm maybe a lot like a quiet lounge at somewhere but um

05:29:03.540 let me ask you a question uh would you prefer your boyfriend to not play video games

05:29:09.300 he can do whatever he wants 10 hours a day no issue i probably wouldn't date someone that plays that

05:29:16.100 okay so men should not date women that goes go to bars and nightclubs but that's me specifically like

05:29:20.820 i wouldn't want to date someone that's sitting around all day playing a lot of women don't want

05:29:26.100 their boyfriends playing a bunch of video games what about this it's a preference would you have

05:29:31.700 an issue with your boyfriend paying for girls only fans uh yeah why don't you trust your boyfriend

05:29:38.660 well it's it's different it's i would argue that the risk of infidelity is far higher a girl going to

05:29:46.500 a club or a bar because all those guys want to you the only fans girls wants his money there's no

05:29:55.220 most of these chicks that like strip that are sex workers that are well i guess chicks who strip

05:30:01.860 chicks who do of they like look down on these dudes who pay for their their tricks their marks

05:30:08.820 like strippers almost never want to date their customers because they they like look down on their

05:30:13.780 customers they're like it's unattractive so you could argue that like you going out to a club

05:30:21.060 there's a far greater risk of infidelity then well that's not you specifically like if if i go out on

05:30:28.580 the street or whatever and i there's potential for me to get asked out or hit on yeah but it's it's

05:30:33.860 different like when you go to it's different like intentions you're saying well like a bit of

05:30:38.020 intentions but also like if you go to trader joe's and i'm not saying like don't let your girl go

05:30:43.220 grocery shopping not at all you can go out go live your life do what you need to do but these are these

05:30:49.460 are very specific social environments where like hooking up is frequent there's alcohol involved

05:30:56.420 there's like shady characters that might try to take advantage of you in some way this is art like

05:31:04.340 men not wanting their girl to go to the bar and club that's just our masculine instinct to try to

05:31:10.820 protect you from like from one potentially fucking the relationship and two from like getting victimized

05:31:18.980 in these environments that attract honestly a lot of shady people so we don't want you to be in a

05:31:26.420 situation that's us trying to be protective to protect you from being victimized from some guy

05:31:32.020 fucking trying to grab you or being gross or whatever so yeah no i just think i think with

05:31:40.660 every relationship there's different like boundaries that there needs i mean like in my past relationship

05:31:48.100 like i i was like it was a thing like i could not go to clubs and when i did oh you did anyways even

05:31:55.060 though well like if all of my girlfriends were going out for like her birthday and they got a table and i

05:32:01.860 went it wasn't it was a problem sure but i would go anyway well the the thing that i recalled here

05:32:08.420 when it comes to like if you go to trader joe's and a guy hits on you like look that's gonna happen

05:32:14.260 like a lot of guys recognize like you got an attractive girlfriend guys are gonna hit on you in

05:32:19.300 all kinds of firework um guys are gonna hit on you on all kinds of environments the big difference

05:32:25.220 though is that in the history of trader joe's no girl has gone to trader joe's and then five minutes

05:32:31.780 later is getting finger blasted in the bathroom however girls be going out to fucking parties and

05:32:37.860 nightclubs and shit i've as somebody who has seen some of the scandalous shit that goes out

05:32:43.700 number ucsb number one party school bro i remember going to parties these chicks be getting finger

05:32:48.820 blasted in the middle of the fucking party going to clubs they're like people are fucking within

05:32:54.500 five minutes of meeting that shit kind of happens and then you throw alcohol in the mix your single

05:33:00.740 girlfriends they miss you they want you back doing your fucking rat uh hood rat shit like they're gonna

05:33:08.820 be a bad influence and yeah it's just not it's not there's also just like a higher risk of having your

05:33:16.020 partner like cheat on you i think i don't i don't know like i'm so loyal like if i'm with someone

05:33:23.620 like it's only them like always are you if it's it's even with energy like people know i'm cuffed like

05:33:30.980 it's in you know have you ever been out with any of your girlfriends and seen any of them cheat

05:33:36.660 have you ever heard of a girl cheating like does it just heard of a girl cheating but not

05:33:41.380 that no one that i like know can i sit here and this was recommended to me from one of my viewers

05:33:48.020 um let's say you were you're married and you're looking to hire a nanny um would you hire like would

05:33:58.420 you maybe have a hesitation to hire like a really hot like 21 year old nanny to look after your kids

05:34:05.060 or maybe would you prefer to hire uh like maybe an older woman that's not as attractive

05:34:14.980 i mean i don't think it would whoever's like qualified and have a good time with like that's

05:34:21.860 like good enough to watch my kid you know what i mean like i would i would say most women would

05:34:26.340 much prefer to hire an older nanny compared to like a hot 19 year old to look after their children

05:34:31.780 what and what are you trying to avoid by doing so do you not trust your husbands yeah

05:34:37.380 are you insecure their husbands okay it comes so it comes down to three things even in the club

05:34:42.980 situation temptation opportunity and the means and then also with the club situation uh it's there's

05:34:51.460 lowered inhibitions due to alcohol so that's even another factor in the club situation so temptation

05:34:58.020 opportunity and the means so i would say probably a lot of housewives if they're looking tiger and

05:35:04.180 nanny they'd probably prefer picking like someone who's not as attractive i i mean i could be wrong

05:35:10.980 there but i mean i grew up with a like 20 year old nanny that was attractive that's fine and she

05:35:22.340 like raised me into the person that like okay i am look i'll just say this to the to the men watching

05:35:28.900 gentlemen don't be in a serious relationship with a woman who doesn't realize the importance

05:35:33.540 of limiting her own behavior to protect the relationship if you respect your partner you

05:35:38.740 don't engage in activities designed for single people um and i think that these boundaries

05:35:44.740 a man not wanting a woman to date a woman who goes to bars and clubs it's a perfectly reasonable

05:35:51.380 dating standard for commitment-minded men and i think it acts as a really good filter against

05:35:57.540 independent women who think that they can hoe around while having a stable dude as a safety net

05:36:03.860 why is it going around though how is that hoeing around if they're going to bars and clubs and parties

05:36:10.900 when you could otherwise be hanging out with your boyfriend is like what if a girl's life isn't her

05:36:16.740 boyfriend what if they're then back to the streets you go but why do you hang out like with your

05:36:22.580 girls at a club why can't you just go to dinner i yeah either were you okay with your boyfriend going

05:36:28.420 out yeah with his friends like you weren't worried at all that he was gonna cheat or that woman were

05:36:33.780 gonna approach him if women approach him that's not my problem like like women are allowed to

05:36:40.820 approach him it's about his response you know what i mean like if he's like yo i got a girlfriend

05:36:48.420 like obviously like it's out of my control what other people do in that environment i'll just look

05:36:53.620 my advice to men do not commit to women who go to bars clubs that's it don't go to la i mean

05:37:02.340 i don't know uh you

05:37:11.940 oh yeah we can yeah we yeah

05:37:17.220 scroll down whoa this lady scroll up this lady went from 50 plastic surgery should be illegal that's

05:37:24.180 pretty based this is crazy like look at she looks young except the eye but like she looks really i'm not

05:37:30.580 i'm i agree with you i'm not a fan of plastic surgery i think women are beautiful as they are so

05:37:35.060 uh next crazy the reason why there are so many more tens in the world because of plastic surgery

05:37:42.740 should plastic surgery be illegal scroll down

05:37:47.140 can you click on the image so we see the full

05:37:49.460 what like her face honestly like

05:37:56.660 she kind of

05:38:00.660 she almost looks better in the first photo she's more natural

05:38:05.140 especially her lips like she already has i don't know if she already had lip filler but she already

05:38:09.780 has very full lips yeah why the fuck are you getting lip filler when your lips are already that

05:38:15.700 good yeah and maybe she already had lip filler but like the second one bro that's way too much

05:38:21.620 fucking lip filler holy fuck tranny a little bit oh my god uh so i think she actually looks more

05:38:30.340 attractive in the first photo to be honest granted her she did something to her eyes that

05:38:35.860 her eyes look a little downturned a bit but um scroll down

05:38:39.460 scroll down oh my okay we can skip that one let's keep going

05:38:50.820 what's the ideal age for a woman to get married what do you think um the ideal age for a woman to

05:38:58.100 get married is in between like 19 to 25 and then i think after 25 it's like the clock is ticking

05:39:07.460 like 21 to 25 okay i'd say like 26 i'd say anywhere from 18 to 25 i agree i feel like 21 to 25 is like

05:39:25.620 a solid age because like you're just getting out of like college and pull it back up scroll down

05:39:31.140 what else we got uh take your girl on a late night drive to a beautiful beautiful spot doesn't

05:39:36.820 need to be fancy dinner every time all right that's you in europe it looks like um

05:39:42.580 with all due respect okay this one's unrelated to dating scroll down uh scroll down

05:39:51.060 uh this one's good scroll up so we can listen to the agenda female rappers are pushing on their

05:40:05.620 listeners literally literally to be scamming hoes if you listen to this music be prepared for your

05:40:10.180 daughter to end up the same way oh do you have any comments i just think it's crazy like they're making

05:40:17.620 music like my booty holes pink and brown and have you heard that song i don't listen yeah

05:40:24.260 that song and i was like you don't want your wife listening that shit because she starts like

05:40:29.860 inheriting it you know and then she's gonna teach your kids that and she's gonna play it while she's

05:40:33.860 dropping the kids off to school and your kids are gonna she listens to that

05:40:36.660 singing like booty hole pink and brown period you like it should be okay that's okay i don't know i

05:40:44.980 think it just is i in my culture and environment i grew up like listening to that shit yeah i don't

05:40:52.020 know they just say some like foul shit on there and that just it's it's funny it's not like for real

05:40:57.140 i don't listen to that music and like i'm not like my booty hole isn't brown like just because like

05:41:02.020 like just because no like just because like you listen to music doesn't mean like you take on like

05:41:08.340 the characteristics it does have an impact like even if it's like really minor it still does have

05:41:14.900 an impact that's true super tiny that's true i think the the media that you consume can definitely

05:41:23.300 have a impact yeah it's like people listening to sad shit they start getting sad it's not the music it's

05:41:30.660 like the artist too that really damien rice like if you just listen to a bunch of damien rice like

05:41:36.660 bro you're gonna be depressed like super quick modest hikima donated 69 dollars don't need a man bc i'm

05:41:46.340 independent besides sperm and child support business meeting at a bar going to clubs anyway when against

05:41:53.540 knowingly established boundaries but also i'm so loyal absolute yikes please join us in reality

05:42:00.660 do you have a response to that i'm so loyal that's all i gotta say i am loyal like i don't think

05:42:08.100 doing things and you know going out and living your life makes you unloyal

05:42:15.300 but if it's a boundary like if your guy doesn't want you going out i think it's something to talk

05:42:19.060 about if someone has a problem i think there's a resolution i think there's compromise if my partner

05:42:24.020 like really was like i i don't like the club thing whatever i only went to a club one time

05:42:31.700 and it was for a friend's birthday and i never went like because he didn't it was a boundary

05:42:36.820 sure that's fair yeah madison what did you have oh i had a question for you like relating to that i guess

05:42:43.140 but um did you like automatically trust your boyfriend going out and doing stuff after he

05:42:50.500 cheated on you or was it like an ease um well it was during covid so i didn't we didn't have an issue

05:43:00.660 with going out do you know what i mean but in general i feel like after being cheated on if you're

05:43:05.780 still gonna like pursue the relationship there's some sort of like lack of trust obviously totally

05:43:11.060 totally i got a little bit of trust issues in there but that then again that didn't affect like

05:43:18.180 my personal you know like i knew that i would never cheat you know what i mean so it's like i

05:43:27.220 wasn't worried about myself you know yeah i'm asking if you're worried about him like cheating again

05:43:34.100 possibly only through like the phone but like not irl or we have m1 grand what

05:43:40.980 any of the girls date a guy who legally owns a firearm yeah yes yeah has this been squeaking

05:43:49.540 the entire fucking night no it's the first time i heard it okay um but yes i would date a man that

05:43:56.740 owns a firearm i would prefer to date a man that owns one wait did you say no no i said yeah okay

05:44:01.940 all right um guys we're gonna wrap up here soon so if you want to get your last minute answer or

05:44:06.500 or question or ttsn we have grid one motorsports does stabby mcstabberson have to disclose her stabby

05:44:12.660 past to potential vict or dates oh oh my god she left unfortunately sorry man um i

05:44:25.060 is that something you should probably i guess uh i feel like yeah if you just google i mean she's got

05:44:31.780 she's got news articles about her so um i'd probably want to know that though also my thoughts on that

05:44:39.300 like um if i got stabbed i feel like i'm taking a break from dating for a minute like that's i'm

05:44:47.620 i'm pretty black-pilled at that point i think i'm just like bruv okay let's not date for a while um

05:44:54.340 or you just like pat them down before the date make sure they don't have weapons uh nickelodeon thank you

05:44:59.780 man in summary i can't bro i'm not going to say that i can't commit to a bit blondie lied about me

05:45:06.180 for clout nemo can't commit to definitions or stances mcstabby enough said wait there was another

05:45:13.620 chick on the show good luck to you tonight was an interesting panel um dude you misses my chat you

05:45:23.460 missed my chat which one um oh probably the one where she she left sorry man

05:45:31.860 arriving late but shout out to you brian for your hard work hey thank you man

05:45:35.620 especially after i'm 32 i got my little brother's cremation today earned today it was much needed

05:45:42.740 leave it to the of girl to disrespect the pod two minutes into the show shaking my head

05:45:47.060 um yeah man i mean nick said if i recall we we do a 10 minute pre-show where we just read

05:45:54.900 off instructions for best practices during the show we explicitly state don't be on your phone

05:46:01.620 in fact we say we will kick you off i think right do we do you say we'll kick you off if you check your

05:46:06.020 phone um so she busted out a tamagotchi which i haven't seen one of those since the 90s

05:46:17.460 super random i mean bro that was probably some like intentional

05:46:20.660 shit some plant type shit um but we literally we tell them like bro if you have any intentions

05:46:26.980 of like trolling or sabotaging the show like i get it there's definitely like ops who don't

05:46:32.260 like what i'm doing don't like the show but like bro we got people coming in from out of

05:46:37.780 state people will fly in to be on the show people drive from far distances to be on the show so like

05:46:43.540 you got to be considerate of the other guests that are coming out who are totally innocent

05:46:47.540 who like you're you're eating up a seat you're just being a dickhead you're being rude uh so

05:46:56.420 it's like it's one thing like again i get it people don't like the show that's fine you don't like

05:47:00.980 me that's fine but like a lot of people like you drove how long to be here today about six hours six

05:47:06.500 hours you guys are local that girl came from she flew in from the girl who from dallas she came from

05:47:15.620 texas i think you came from la yeah yeah so it's just rude it's rude um and uh yeah but as soon as she

05:47:26.180 said she said she was bored i i in my mind i was like yeah i'm kicking her off but i wanted to

05:47:32.660 yeah okay grid one motorsports hey thank you so much man um i do do not act like you're a single

05:47:37.380 if you're in a relationship how hard is this to understand your response to grid one do not act like

05:47:44.180 like going out clubbing and shit that's kind of single behavior i mean i feel like being single means just

05:47:51.300 like being open to seeing other people like i don't know being single right now i'm like

05:47:57.700 open to talking to whoever but like i don't know for instance like when i was in in a relationship

05:48:03.620 going out i like wouldn't talk to guys and stuff like it was only girls what do you mean like i

05:48:10.420 wouldn't i wouldn't even like really talk to guys but would guys approach you like would guys approach

05:48:16.740 you when you go out no okay i literally have this like energy when i'm like in a relationship

05:48:22.820 they notice energy they notice anyway they notice it it is it's like an energy they know that they

05:48:30.820 don't want yeah i put out such strong loyalty energy to you i do okay when i'm in a relationship

05:48:39.860 okay uh all right i'm just curious like

05:48:42.820 i don't know how long i want to linger on the bar nightclub thing but um

05:48:50.740 ultimately i think what it comes down to is a lot of women will say for a guy to have a boundary

05:48:57.140 of not wanting her to go out to bars clubs parties etc they'll call it controlling toxic insecure you

05:49:02.900 don't have trust i think this is shaming language you're trying to shame men out of using our masculine

05:49:09.700 instincts to keep you out of positions that put the relationship at risk

05:49:17.220 i think there's no there's no reason that a man should allow his girlfriend to put the relationship

05:49:23.700 at risk on purpose so and i don't think men should date women who put their relationship at risk

05:49:31.780 and by going into these environments like you kind of are putting your relationship at risk

05:49:42.180 good thought

05:49:46.340 um how do i i want to try to like explain to you so it's like no i get it i actually do get it like

05:49:52.020 i like if it's a boundary if someone comes to me with a boundary like i i'm not gonna be like oh

05:49:57.700 fuck you like i'm gonna go out to the club and dance up on guys like obviously like that's so

05:50:03.620 disrespectful but i'm like i'm just saying like in certain circumstances it's okay in certain

05:50:09.060 circumstances but there's like a i would argue there's a fairly large subset of women that

05:50:15.460 want to be in relationships but want to continue like going out and partying frequently

05:50:20.820 you want the comfort of having a boyfriend but you also want to do like single female

05:50:29.780 shit with your girlfriends and go out and get male attention and party well it's not for male attention

05:50:35.860 most of the time if you are in a relationship it is not for male attention i mean there's then

05:50:41.780 why even go like you can just to have fun you to meet why can't you just have fun that to live

05:50:47.620 life have have fun and what with your boyfriend why what is okay so clubs you have to sometimes

05:50:54.100 you have to pay an entrance fee it's super fucking loud drinks are really expensive why not just go to

05:51:00.020 bevmo have a night in with your girlfriends you guys can dance so fun that's a great note but so

05:51:05.540 why go to an environment where why go to a club then well also to a lot of my friends are djs

05:51:13.220 so male friends or female friends oh this is male friends but like those male friends from

05:51:20.900 like elementary school red flag but from elementary school you don't have any girlfriends you don't

05:51:26.980 have any girls that are friends from like childhood like you didn't grow up with any girl

05:51:33.700 whatever that's like a sister like you've never that's like i have so many great guy friends because

05:51:40.820 they're just they're just human like it's it's weird to cut off a whole gender so when you're with

05:51:47.460 someone so let's say you're in a relationship it's getting serious you've been dating for six months

05:51:53.140 the guy's like super committed super loyal to you he says he doesn't want you hanging out with any of

05:51:58.340 your male friends anymore yeah yeah or nay i mean that did happen with my last relationship and i didn't

05:52:05.780 and i did not see them but in this but in this time in my life i have developed great

05:52:13.060 male friendships that i probably you developed them i thought they were from elementary school

05:52:17.460 i'm saying like like in college like the this this year of me being single like i've they probably

05:52:22.500 want to sleep with you no text them they definitely do no are they single yeah text them right now be

05:52:30.660 like hey what are you doing no that's no they're friends like i would never i guarantee you most of

05:52:35.700 your male friends if given the opportunity would sleep with you you're an attractive girl they would

05:52:40.420 sleep with you are they really your friends i mean that's like so weird to think about you don't think

05:52:50.100 that if given if you were like hey billy do you want to fuck they wouldn't fuck they'd for sure

05:52:55.540 fuck you're an attractive girl i hopefully i preferred you as a brunette to be honest but

05:53:01.540 what nothing don't worry about it don't worry about it okay uh anyway you should we can do the

05:53:10.900 experiment pull out no because i don't that's so random just be like what do you babe you want to

05:53:15.620 cuddle don't say babe but no because there's so much like boundaries with male friendships you know

05:53:23.780 what i mean like i'm not like cuddling i'm not saying all of them but like most of them would be

05:53:28.500 like if you texted them and you're like hey i kind of have feelings for you do you want to hook up like

05:53:33.780 they'd be down to hook up maybe maybe maybe yeah i'm so like i don't know i don't know i don't know i

05:53:46.820 don't know man i don't know man um tiffany's rude she's on your phone rude for like 10 seconds rude

05:53:56.020 okay let me do these last chats then we're going to wrap up uh conan 19 i can't believe brian got

05:54:00.660 billy eilish lucy lou and selena gomez on one show who's who

05:54:05.860 who's yeah i really want to oh who's lucy lou grid one motorsports single single person energy

05:54:19.220 soon to be single energy roofie victim what the fuck pillow biter energy pound town energy you have

05:54:26.100 no male friends just dudes waiting to bang grid one motorsports um energy so crazy oh my god wow

05:54:36.900 that's crazy i don't know i think i'd feel uh when it comes to like male friends i'd probably feel

05:54:44.020 pretty uncomfortable if my girlfriend was like hanging out with her male oh i i think there's

05:54:49.220 boundaries to it like like i wouldn't like hang out alone with my male friends like it would be in a

05:54:54.420 a friend in a group do you know what i mean like i wouldn't like i wouldn't like go out to like lunch

05:54:59.060 with like a guy best friend yeah for shizzle in a relationship for shizzle good talk um okay yeah um

05:55:06.740 i'm gonna wrap up do you guys have final thought from anybody last thing you guys wanna hit on should

05:55:13.140 we just wait go pull up her tick tock or not sorry her twitter really quick i just want to get to the

05:55:18.180 very end there was like one or two more that i saw that were pretty good just scroll down

05:55:21.700 uh oh you clicked on it you clicked on it click off

05:55:29.060 go back go back no you clicked bach you clicked

05:55:35.060 top bro bro bro move up move up

05:55:40.260 bro

05:55:42.900 you have anger issues i don't have anger issues

05:55:45.460 there's a literally a girl twerking and nick is staying on it hello

05:55:51.700 um okay just never mind never mind um i want to add one more thing

05:55:59.780 what's up i just said my bad yeah what's up brant said he's a nationalist not a white nationalist

05:56:07.460 i don't know there was difference yeah um okay yeah

05:56:16.580 did he like text you is he watching the show yeah okay um

05:56:23.380 thank you for clarifying that although he you said he listens to okay all right um i think hold on

05:56:33.140 uh yeah we're all caught up anything final anybody else okay let me see who am i gonna rate on twitch

05:56:40.900 let's see one sec guys and then we're gonna wrap

05:56:47.940 oh can you pull up the twitch i need to i'm gonna shout people out

05:56:50.740 uh yo miss satara thank for the prime fried thank for the prime ocarina blue thank for the tier one

05:56:59.460 appreciate it man all right let me see who we're gonna oops fuck damn it i didn't mean to do that um

05:57:06.660 okay there's nobody to rate on on twitch never mind all right guys uh thank you for tuning in tonight

05:57:12.740 uh oh yeah yo uh last call guys please hit the like button on your way out thank you for tuning

05:57:23.140 in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me i appreciate that

05:57:27.300 thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show thank you to the panel

05:57:31.380 any women who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram we will be live again

05:57:36.260 uh excuse me tuesday at 5 p.m pacific we will see you guys next time oh sevens in the chat good night

05:57:44.980 guys see you later

Whatever Podcast - November 06, 2023

Rude Girl KICKED OUT! She STABBED Her Blind Date For REVENGE？! ｜ Dating Talk #115

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