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00:02:15.600 further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name

00:02:19.020 age and occupation go ahead kaylee killian i'm 27 and i do only fans okay uh how long have you been

00:02:26.880 doing that for um about three years three years okay and what is it bg content solo content what

00:02:34.940 you do it's bg boy girl content okay got it i'm jeannie exum i'm 21 and i do only fans uh and then same

00:02:44.900 question i do everything bg you've done bg boy girl boy girl girl girl yeah vibrator did you go to uh did

00:02:52.980 you go to college university i went to a technical school for like itt or that no no in in georgia

00:02:59.520 okay i went there for a bit no way i'm from georgia really oh my god colombic ward is near me

00:03:05.680 really yeah that's crazy maybe you guys know each other went to high school together um did you go to

00:03:13.220 college too or no okay no okay i didn't graduate what what did you do oh you that's awesome i got

00:03:19.860 my ged dropped out of elementary school i dropped out of high school the hard streets of georgia

00:03:23.760 what so what uh so you said you started of more recently i mean what were you doing before that

00:03:30.500 um i was doing regular modeling like fashion modeling is what i started and then i started

00:03:36.080 doing like influencing and then i started only fans okay got it what about you i'm juliana hernandez

00:03:42.420 and i'm 20 years old and i'm currently unemployed are you at university uh cuesta college cuesta college

00:03:50.640 what do you what are you studying just like general ed you're currently unemployed yeah i quit

00:03:56.440 walgreens walgreens yeah okay all right there you go i gave them a sympathy card like sorry for your

00:04:03.440 loss for my two weeks yeah okay how did they respond to that they they thought it was hilarious

00:04:09.600 that's funny yeah okay got it what about you hi i'm candy lane and that's not just a name it's a

00:04:17.500 destination i'm 36 uh until last thursday i was an uber driver for three years and i'm only fans hopeful

00:04:25.980 36 yes okay um oh an of hopeful what did so do you you don't have one but you're hoping to start one

00:04:36.300 or you have one and it's you're in the process of developing it i don't know how to do it oh okay

00:04:42.800 well you got all right collab i guess that's a collab in the works okay uh what about you uh

00:04:50.020 katarina hammond i'm 23 and i do instagram content creating okay but no no of no okay all right um

00:04:58.660 is there decent money in that yeah yeah yeah how large is your following uh 18.6 thousand i think

00:05:06.820 okay so modeling content creation yeah it's like promote for brands okay got it what about you

00:05:14.960 um i'm selda mrzuki i'm 26 and i have a clothing brand okay is this one of your pieces no this is

00:05:25.140 chrome hearts okay what what do you sell like what kind of clothing just streetwear yeah like women's

00:05:33.280 streetwear i don't know oh sorry it's just stuff that i like i don't make it for anybody else if i

00:05:38.720 like it i make it and then i sell it okay what about you i'm jessica kirby i'm 21 and i work at a retail

00:05:46.420 store okay i'm priya i'm 22 years old i am a full-time student at asu online uh i co-run a family

00:05:56.600 business and i'm an equestrian all right sweet do you do that professionally yeah cool

00:06:03.240 i'm chase 28 professional photographer and brand consultant all right welcome everybody so we're

00:06:10.320 gonna go around the table once more what is your current relationship status are you single talking

00:06:14.220 stage situationship friends with benefits married polycule sex cold harem whatever it may be if

00:06:19.900 you're single how long have you been single and what's your longest relationship that you've ever

00:06:24.100 been in go ahead i'm in a relationship and that's who i do the content with on only fans i see okay

00:06:30.540 how long have you guys been dating a year one year okay is that your longest relationship no

00:06:35.260 what's your uh what's your longest relationship nine years nine years wow okay wow uh from when to

00:06:41.980 when what um the long one yeah okay so the long one was from like high school i was like 16 till

00:06:50.660 a little over a year ago when i met my new boyfriend my current boyfriend nine years were you guys

00:06:57.120 married no the nine-year relationship um to certain states maybe what like vegas you guys went to

00:07:05.140 vegas and no like the common marriage law like if you like oh i see okay i see what you're saying

00:07:10.120 okay so you're married for nine years he was also in high school i'm assuming at the time yeah we met

00:07:16.260 in high school we were the same age okay all right and so you were in a nine-year relationship why did it

00:07:24.740 end um we just drifted apart you know i think it lasted longer than it needed to be probably like

00:07:32.340 should have stopped at like four years to be honest okay it just kept going so was it mutual or

00:07:37.240 who initiated no i broke up with him how soon after the breakup did you get involved with your new guy

00:07:43.200 um i think it was like eight months

00:07:45.440 like had you been was there any crossover not not like infidelity but well but had you been talking

00:07:55.000 were you aware of your current boyfriend while in the midst of your nine-year relationship no i just

00:08:00.680 met him like eight months later how did you guys meet we met through a mutual friend in arizona i was

00:08:06.360 visiting her and we went to a bar i met him and we hooked up that night and then we like good times

00:08:11.780 talking and was he was he kind of the rebounds like for the nine-year relationship or no other

00:08:17.660 rebound no i had plenty of rebounds plenty of rebounds okay cool how quick how quick did you

00:08:25.060 have a rebound after the nine-year relationship um like probably like a week later three weeks maybe

00:08:32.000 i was like moving so like had to move and then started going out in la and yeah okay but you said

00:08:40.900 like midway through the nine-year relationship you were already checked out it sounded like okay

00:08:45.080 got it okay uh what about you i'm single ready to mingle yeah single ready to mingle yeah okay how's

00:08:53.800 the mingling going not well not well why is that why is that um i don't really go outside you don't

00:08:59.080 go outside i'm on dating apps like i'm on hinge look me up like i don't know put it in new york oh you

00:09:04.900 know what we should have you should have got your maybe my what we should we do a dating app reviews

00:09:11.180 uh segment of the show sometimes we should have done that like showing my hinge like show your

00:09:16.100 prompts oh we should still do it and then we see if no we should totally go get my phone so i'm like

00:09:21.400 okay well maybe we'll we'll get to it okay time permitting maybe we'll get yeah yeah i mean we got

00:09:25.780 time um i'll make a note here uh dating app reviews okay so uh you don't go outside

00:09:31.880 so you're like a recluse you're a hermit uh occasionally yeah okay i mean i travel a lot

00:09:37.900 but like i don't know maybe i don't know when's the last time you went on a date

00:09:42.540 oh my god yesterday no it wasn't long ago actually but like the date was like not well the date was

00:09:50.960 like the first date was like a funeral so you know what i'm just sorry was a funeral yeah no dead ass

00:09:56.660 so it's at the funeral at a funeral like that's the first time we met who's who invited who

00:10:01.740 to the funeral the girl invited me she invited me what i mean like she wanted me

00:10:06.420 did she think that would be romantic no i think she needed their emotional support and i was there

00:10:13.860 and it just kind of sucks but i'm just like using you no way was she that seems like you think so

00:10:19.440 wait wait what happened after that did you guys don't talk anymore did you maybe i want to use

00:10:25.380 oh did you did you keep seeing each other after the funeral yeah like no i flew to mexico

00:10:30.200 so like i couldn't see her at all so did you know this person prior to for like two weeks before

00:10:36.480 got it okay yeah interesting i know i know no it's my life now i'm saying i'm fucking up guys oh

00:10:43.280 oh go ahead no it's fine um so yeah you provided in your notes here that you did go on a date to a

00:10:52.060 funeral yeah um maybe we'll get into what we can get more into that later later um i think kind of

00:10:57.640 the one of the notable things though is there were some news articles about you yeah you are kind of

00:11:03.320 infamous it's okay you're kind of infamous for having stat allegedly allegedly excuse me

00:11:11.160 allegedly on alleged which by the way we had last show i don't know why this is like a

00:11:17.780 one of those what was that like in early 2000s mid 2000s there's like three magic movies like the

00:11:24.300 prestige do you know what i'm talking about like these things always happen in threes so i think

00:11:29.360 we're gonna in any case we just had a girl who got charged with like attempted murder for trying to

00:11:34.780 stab somebody last show oh wow so it's maybe i didn't get charged with anything they let me go

00:11:38.700 goes okay wait wait so did did you stab him no i didn't i swear to god there wasn't even that

00:11:44.160 involved who stabbed him it's freaking like self-defense wait oh so wait it was self-defense

00:11:49.800 i was self-defense with like oh i mean things happen but there was no like i ain't that crazy i'm crazy

00:11:55.780 but like not that crazy here use this pen to demonstrate kind of the no but there was no knife

00:12:00.820 the motion there was no knife there was no knife what was it y'all you know how cops and stuff they

00:12:05.500 love to sell things to the media was it a fork no there was cups you stabbed him with cups that

00:12:10.300 were thrown and everything like that you know were these cups plastic or no glass that's why they're

00:12:15.720 like oh she's adam no i didn't was this somebody that you were in a relationship with yeah it's my

00:12:20.060 what did he do what everything like what what was the straw that broke the camel's back okay listen

00:12:27.220 there is so much that happened but he we like it was self-defense that's what i'm trying to say but

00:12:32.880 like was he laying hands on you there was there was hands there was hands there was cups there was

00:12:38.140 water there was green juice who started it were there mugs any mugs it was like pitchers pitchers

00:12:45.820 kind of started with me teacups did he end up going to the hospital a tanker did he go to the

00:12:51.000 hospital no no no he was fine no yeah but i went to jail okay how long wow i spent a night in jail

00:12:57.440 y'all but i made some friends they were so nice they were looking nice as fuck like it was so nice

00:13:02.300 they were really nice for real they were like this is your first time isn't it honey i was like yeah

00:13:07.620 i was like i'm so tired i didn't even know it was on the news like i literally go and like the

00:13:13.740 the police officer he was like oh you're famous you're famous i'm like what are you talking about

00:13:17.980 like how he know i got instagram like how he know he found my only fans already and so i was like

00:13:21.860 okay and then he was like no girl and i was like oh someone out of me like someone was like

00:13:27.180 because they're probably like this rich white girl on of you know living in a high rise

00:13:31.140 stabbed her ex you know so they stole they sold the story are we gonna pull up this yeah

00:13:36.760 are you buying this don't put him though don't give him clout like

00:13:42.100 i don't know how much you're buying this scroll down show my picture put us in the corner

00:13:46.360 and then put us in the other don't show her other side only fans model shares video of herself

00:13:50.960 smirking at police station after being arrested i didn't know i was gonna be that profit

00:13:54.920 stabbing her boyfriend with a kitchen knife in their nyc apartment 22 year old is released without

00:14:01.460 bail so this is how famous people wait wait wait where did this where did this story about the

00:14:06.100 kitchen knife come from that's what i'm saying i don't know really no i swear to god why do i not

00:14:11.380 believe you i don't know so you're telling me they just made up the whole kitchen they can

00:14:16.440 i think it's because he was caught up from the glass of the cup so they were thinking oh she

00:14:22.340 stabbed the guy but like no did you take the glass and stab him with the glass no it was thrown that's

00:14:28.400 what i'm saying and we was like rolling around it's like some johnny duck joe i i wonder what the chat

00:14:32.020 thinks about this chat let us know let us know if you believe her story guilty or not was it a

00:14:37.940 kitchen knife or a cup who caught the cop well um y'all can't put me back in there though

00:14:42.900 okay so how did people show up to the scene like like what happened like someone called or like

00:14:53.540 no like we were it was like loud we're like get the fuck out you know and like then he was somebody

00:14:59.720 like downstairs they called yeah okay and then my doorman and i was like i told my doorman after like

00:15:04.800 and how many people am i going up like cop wise like was it like a lot okay like how many like

00:15:10.920 we're talking like like five okay not that many so you he was injured yes so was i okay you were

00:15:20.520 both injured yeah we were both injured and he had he was worse wounds from a broken so that's why

00:15:26.040 drink drinking glass yeah okay okay it was crazy but word let's pull up the article let's pull up

00:15:33.880 the article really quick uh well we'll read some of the the bullet points here she was so you were

00:15:39.960 arrested um but were the charges dropped or did you take a plea deal no it was just there was no

00:15:45.780 charges there was nothing they just took you they detained you yeah they were just like you go home

00:15:49.180 now so it says you return to instagram you post a clip of yourself smirking in custody

00:15:53.920 he was taken to the hospital in stable condition oh maybe he was um says that he was stabbed in the

00:16:01.780 back and on his arm yeah so how did the cup hit him in both places that's what i said we were

00:16:06.940 wrestling on the ground so you broke a glass and then you were wrestling yeah there there's another

00:16:12.320 article too if you can ask if there was some sort of updated report because thrown cups don't

00:16:18.280 exactly resemble stab that's what i'm saying i don't know instagram model genie stabbed both

00:16:24.880 kitchen knife what wait show that photo scroll scroll down i guess that's a good oh no the next one

00:16:31.620 uh my smile so new york post is saying an instagram model stabbed her boyfriend with kitchen knife

00:16:37.100 during a fight inside her midtown pad police said tuesday and later on you flashed your your breast oh

00:16:43.300 great um you flashed an nype cop car yeah but that was before this wait that was like

00:16:49.140 wait your your boyfriend's name yeah they added that your boyfriend's name was baby boy oh my god

00:16:54.180 comment no comment shiver trauma uh wait next next article nick tab over this was three years ago

00:17:00.220 this is an instagram model smirks i guess this is like my friend was questioning after okay

00:17:05.480 uh we didn't charged with stabbing her boyfriend does the new york post here just have it wrong do

00:17:12.380 all these news sources have it wrong i'm sure if you ask like any like kardashian lawrence they're

00:17:18.440 like they they dictate the truth they do this they sold to the media you know that's what i'm saying

00:17:22.720 i'm basically kim kardashian but there were no charges you there were no charges okay well i mean

00:17:29.620 she was charged with stabbing him with a kitchen knife no no i think because like cops sell stuff

00:17:36.400 well there's like arrested charged and then pro like uh detained and then convicted yeah so were

00:17:44.380 you charged but not convicted or just not even charged not charged or you just held like in a

00:17:49.360 whole i was just held yeah all right so here's what i want to know was this was this the first time

00:17:53.440 this ever happened with a boyfriend yes how many boyfriends have you had two two and he's one of

00:17:59.020 them one nothing like that ever happened with your other boyfriend no would he describe you as sane

00:18:04.040 or crazy do you probably crazy yeah why do you think he'd describe you like that i mean because

00:18:10.720 because i am sometimes but like not like that not like stabbing crazy no but that's crazy that

00:18:17.900 happened like right after this like other girl stabbed her boyfriend and then it got like to the

00:18:22.980 media like they were like this girl stabbed hers we'll move on we'll move on thank you no surprise

00:18:31.220 there georgia say no more steak knives again though the daddy issues on this panel have to be legendary

00:18:38.520 deserve to be discussed all may be saved through christ but there is no man on the planet that can

00:18:44.620 help with this level of crazy amen bro you don't know that amen brother i will just say the

00:18:50.640 accompanying behavior doesn't quite resemble innocent but i'm not gonna make an assumption

00:18:57.960 okay i can take that all right well maybe we can touch on that later but uh what about you your

00:19:03.500 relationship status um i'm in a relationship with my best friend okay were you friends before or

00:19:09.980 yeah we were friends before okay how long have you been dating like since march so what six

00:19:16.660 seven months yeah okay uh is that your longest relationship no it wasn't another relationship

00:19:23.020 like i think it was like three years on and off okay yeah since high school gotcha could i have you

00:19:30.000 just scoot your microphone this way just a tad like yeah thanks what about you uh i am single

00:19:37.900 i usually tell people i'm terminally single because i terminally single don't ever plan on

00:19:44.000 i mean you know the heart wants is something different yeah but there's

00:19:49.900 there's just no possibility of it anymore yeah well we often hear terms like very single

00:19:57.920 so terminally single though that's that's a new one for the whatever podcast so can you

00:20:03.380 maybe dive a bit more deeply into what you mean when you say terminally single um i've experienced

00:20:12.140 just about everything there is to experience as far as dating and it just doesn't seem and i know

00:20:18.480 this goes round and round and round the quality of people that are out there anymore

00:20:22.520 and like who's available because a real genuine quality man they're really hard to find and

00:20:34.640 they're very few and far between so it's like a girl just ends up trying to have her needs met for

00:20:40.600 the time and then that's all there is so that's all there is so what's the point sure uh longest

00:20:48.120 relationship um i think it was about two years technically two and a half but the last six

00:20:54.700 months was garbage so two years okay two years and then you're terminally single uh when's i when's

00:21:02.260 the last time you've dated i guess uh well i go on dates okay you go on dates you know it's kind of

00:21:07.700 like interview for the horizontal um what'd you call it interview from a horizontal for the for the

00:21:15.020 horizontal oh interview for the horizontal where do you where do you find where do you find the

00:21:19.600 guys you're on these dates with what where do you find these guys social media okay i mean dating apps

00:21:25.480 which is oh just on the dating app thing just show of hands who's currently on a dating app

00:21:31.360 you uh well both relationship relationship you're on dating app dating apps sorry did anyone else raise

00:21:40.040 their hand did i miss no i think it was just those two well damn okay so maybe when we do the dating

00:21:46.360 app review we'll have you guys take screenshots of your profiles we can review it later um okay so

00:21:50.820 maybe give feedback you know where do y'all go what's that y'all go to the bar where y'all go

00:21:56.900 how do y'all find people have dates at the bar they're happily single craigslist just kidding

00:22:02.320 facebook market that's my favorite too um okay uh what about you your relationship i'm in a

00:22:10.600 relationship all right and how long have you guys been together uh together for two years have known

00:22:17.580 each other for about four years all right and is this your longest relationship no what's your longest

00:22:23.560 uh year and a half two years wait you said your current relationships to your relationship two

00:22:29.460 months oh two months excuse me i think yeah it's okay one to two years got it what about you

00:22:35.980 in a relationship um we've been together for a couple years like two three years

00:22:41.340 you're not sure on um like three years i think i don't know after covid i i don't know what year it

00:22:49.160 is has it been on again off again yeah yeah yeah yeah because yeah well that's when you weren't

00:22:57.060 certain as to how long you've been together it's better now but yeah the beginning was rocky how

00:23:02.160 so um just rocky i don't know you cheat on him with the nfl football team no no you don't tell me

00:23:14.800 i'm gonna make i make assumptions if you don't tell me um why was it rocky maybe we'll get to that

00:23:22.340 later maybe we'll get to that later get to it later yeah infidelity give us a little teaser

00:23:29.400 infidelity um just a lot going on in the world war mike davis donated 100 dollars

00:23:39.440 this unhinged goofy white girl better count her lucky stars she wasn't dating a real man like mike davis

00:23:46.480 i put her six feet under and bail right back to the motherland i'm starting a condom business

00:23:52.720 can i buy the rights to use your face damn who's this directed to is it i feel like it's me yeah

00:23:58.140 it's her i'm gonna take it uh mike davis is our resident he's he's a that's him right there

00:24:03.580 why do you feel that way do you do you like would could i set you up with him maybe okay he uh i mean

00:24:09.620 i don't know after that he owns a couple mike mike says he'll put her six feet under she's just down

00:24:15.240 to do it at this point he's joking about the whole homicide thing by the way no it's okay i'm into it

00:24:21.680 definitely joking about that it's a kink yeah that's that's some intense bdsm um okay uh all right

00:24:30.640 we'll get into it later what about you just single just sing single single happy single that's it

00:24:38.820 okay uh longest relationship three years three years how long have you been single

00:24:42.860 probably three years now when's the last time you went on a date

00:24:47.440 yesterday like last week probably last week okay i mean i don't know if it's considered a date we

00:24:53.680 don't call it a date what was it just out to dinner just out yeah just out to dinner a couple of

00:24:59.580 friends hanging out just going out to dinner wait what just a couple of friends just one friend just me

00:25:05.340 me a couple two people you went on a date with two people oh i see me and another person just a

00:25:12.240 couple of friends the english language is challenging for us wait did he think you guys were going out

00:25:17.200 on a date as friends that used to be that used to be how i was now it's the other way around

00:25:22.760 oh so you got friend zoned ouch this 2020 wait he took he took you out on the dinner date and then

00:25:28.440 friend zoned you it's a long story okay i know but what if he's watching right now say hi

00:25:37.080 so you've been single you've been single uh for three years but i mean i assume you've

00:25:43.160 in that three-year period have there been in has there been a situationship uh friends with

00:25:49.080 benefits anything like that some wild moments in between some some wild moments that's why we're

00:25:54.480 okay with just being single when you say wild moments can you give us a little more details

00:26:00.320 more like i'm wild and then i ruin all the moments oh that's interesting okay yeah um so how are you

00:26:09.360 wild and how do you ruin all the moments i don't know i don't think we're quite picking up what you're

00:26:16.860 putting down so yeah like i'm crazy just like you stabbed any boyfriends with no no no have i thought

00:26:22.960 about it have i thought about it probably okay slash any tires no cars no okay how would these

00:26:30.220 guys describe you if they were describing you would they say wild or would they say just straight up

00:26:36.400 crazy no probably crazy probably crazy oh yeah how so though like are we um okay maybe i can help

00:26:44.620 to prompt this um bipolar no bpd i feel like are you jumping straight to the mental illness but i'm

00:26:54.020 just crazy like clingy uh probably that could be like show up like drive by the house like stalking

00:27:00.680 schizo schizophrenia i hope not okay what does that say oh for sure controlling i would drive by the

00:27:07.620 house but then i would be really crazy so i just keep on telling myself that it's not okay okay

00:27:11.840 i see what you're saying have you ever stalked a boyfriend no no oh god tired off bed rest 123

00:27:18.240 donated 100 chase why aren't you engaged yet the dirty deed is done time to get married son

00:27:26.660 happily married here after four months no time to waste the next world war is looming is she blonde

00:27:34.280 i see you dating a blonde chick what okay here we'll stick to all things in god's timing brother

00:27:40.400 uh anyways let's continue yes give us some details give us some details so we kind of get a better

00:27:48.980 sense of the situation i'm probably just crazy and clingy and oh how are you crazy like how are you

00:27:56.800 crazy i don't know i what do you mean i don't think i'm crazy they do they tell you that you're crazy

00:28:01.480 how many people have how many men that you've dated have said you're crazy one or two one or two

00:28:07.580 one or two i haven't actually dated five or six one wait you haven't what quick math girl math

00:28:12.820 you haven't dated them but there's one or you said how many people have you dated no they just

00:28:19.040 we don't make it that far because i'm crazy have you ever what do you okay hold on let's let's let's

00:28:25.940 slow down for a moment i want to what does this process look like like what you start talking to

00:28:30.740 a guy how long after talking to him is he like yo this chick's crazy and what caused him to think

00:28:35.280 that oh um like name a behavior give give an example of a behavior i would probably say after

00:28:40.840 like a month or so but just because i'm like fully invested and maybe they're not so you're like i'm

00:28:45.880 like yes are you like totally in love with them like super clingy right off the bat and i love

00:28:50.180 everyone and then okay so have you seen the show married at first sight oh yeah i don't want to be

00:28:57.120 on that okay but i feel like it's like the same vibe i think that's like kind of what you're saying

00:29:01.940 right like you're like super clingy you probably text like 500 in a row yeah if you're annoyed don't

00:29:07.660 tell you push them away because they're like holy yeah yeah have you ever heard of uh insecure

00:29:12.280 attachment yes and i yeah sometimes if you're asking me you are that yeah i would say sometimes yeah

00:29:18.980 have you guys heard of that insecure attachment yeah so there's like there's like three different

00:29:23.100 attachment styles that people have in relationships there's like avoidant attachment where people are

00:29:27.300 like emotionally distant yeah then there's like secure attachment where you're just like normal

00:29:31.680 and secure with your partner and then there's insecure attachment where you're like often people

00:29:36.660 are super clingy or like reaching out way too much they're afraid the person's gonna leave them

00:29:41.720 like is that you i often think that i love to go for the first option that you said what was that

00:29:46.900 the avoidant attachment so like somebody that's gonna push me away but maybe because i like

00:29:52.440 feeling something like they'll hurt my feelings and then i'm like so you're saying they're avoidant

00:29:57.620 and i'm and i'm so they push you away and then you're like no come here yes yeah that's so the

00:30:03.340 extreme i love the chase i love the chase where does digmatized come in what dick did you say

00:30:09.780 digmatized or stigmatized i did yeah what is that uh dick tid where does that fall in your

00:30:16.220 categories oh like being addicted to somebody i mean if you're insecurely attached you could be

00:30:22.640 addicted to pursuing somebody did huh oh i guess yeah wait what addicted to dick oh no not that haram

00:30:31.220 get the rocks yeah yeah get the rocks that was a legitimate question what so wait what's the

00:30:40.760 question where does that fall into your little category categories uh being addicted to dick

00:30:47.800 to their particular brand they're throwing down i it doesn't fall into the categories that's just like

00:30:53.280 something women deal with individually these are relationship attachments yeah yeah exactly

00:30:57.820 yeah good talk anyways shall we like your relationship with your parents that's how it

00:31:05.220 yes yes that's often how those attachment styles form i a few more questions for you though so

00:31:10.940 you're you say you're wild but then the wild mean like i mean crazy not wild what in the past three

00:31:19.560 years in the past three years what's the longest duration of time that you've continued to see

00:31:24.920 any given guy like maybe you had a one month in the last relationship sorry the last three years

00:31:30.800 well you said you've been single for three years yes correct in the last three years and then

00:31:33.760 your longest relationship was three years three years and that was that the one three years ago yes

00:31:39.340 yeah okay so in that three-year period what's the longest period of time that you've seen like any

00:31:44.200 one given guy

00:31:45.240 what month is it now huh what month is it now november november november probably six months okay all right

00:31:58.340 well that's like a was it was just like a friend was it a friends with benefit situationship how do you

00:32:03.700 categorize that one i don't like the word situationship but okay which word do you prefer

00:32:10.040 just a couple of friends hanging out so like friends with so friends with benefits yeah i guess

00:32:18.800 okay all right priya what about you i'm in a relationship it's relatively new just over two

00:32:24.140 months uh my longest relationship is five months okay solid that's exciting all right um

00:32:33.680 no right you don't want to or yeah i'd prefer to keep my personal life private right now okay all right

00:32:42.380 and then uh we have let's see oh let me let me see here we have two chats i'm gonna get really quick

00:32:50.740 we have one from oh ab check thank you for the 20 gifted memberships man you could well i was gonna

00:32:56.840 say you could oh it's okay oh man what a savage road the ladies on the panel expect to be treated

00:33:01.340 like queens but have taken more low wow okay uh don't shoot the messenger here more loads than the

00:33:07.340 washing machine derrick the traitor okay um do you guys want to respond to that they're here to roast

00:33:14.300 guys i mean i mean jesus christ i could respond to it i mean i would say that like men probably

00:33:22.280 hook up with the same amount of women that women have hook up with men and i'm not sure about that one

00:33:28.880 yeah definitely not true that like him that say shit are the ones that like don't ever get anything

00:33:34.700 at all so it's like on the internet more so than probably in person did he pay to say that yes yeah

00:33:41.540 he paid 50 bucks then i paid i mean to talk smack i enjoyed the comment i like the money

00:33:49.040 even though i ain't getting them we can discuss that later we have seberg red it has been my

00:33:55.960 experience that you tend to find what you're looking for i believe humans are problem solvers

00:34:00.200 if you look for ways for things not to work that's what you'll likely find if you look for a way to

00:34:04.640 figure it out you can likely find it so true absolutely all right thank you seberg much appreciated

00:34:10.320 much appreciated okay so i had a uh some of you were so kind to provide some pre-show notes to us so

00:34:16.300 i'm gonna go through a few of those let's see let's start with hmm um

00:34:23.880 uh i'm gonna bounce around a little bit so uh candy in your pre-show notes to us you said that you

00:34:34.100 you struggle with sex addiction yeah currently you're in the in the past or i struggle to find

00:34:41.140 it sometimes struggle to what feed it find it you struggle to find it or you struggle to feed it

00:34:48.600 struggle to find the supply yeah really yeah it's pretty easy i mean as a chick i'm picky

00:34:56.620 you're what's your type okay um when you say hold on well that's a good question yeah it is uh so

00:35:06.580 what what is your type and also how are you picky um there's got to be a measure of sanity

00:35:14.720 there's a lot of just straight up nuts people in the world i mean like on both sides yeah she's

00:35:23.140 she's pointing to herself um okay so level-headed um i prefer to like have a conversation with somebody

00:35:32.160 like if if the text is going well and like they've like passed the criteria test

00:35:39.120 then i like to actually have a conversation with somebody before see if they can even hold

00:35:44.600 like carry on a conversation so as far as your type goes you want somebody who's a good

00:35:47.980 conversationalist who's mentally stable is there any physical traits when it comes to type

00:35:53.500 we like them tall how tall are you five four five four okay what when you say tall when we

00:36:00.100 do you have a bare minimum because some people like yeah only date six feet and above do you have

00:36:04.900 that or five eleven would be my minimum five eleven but there's something to say about short guys too

00:36:10.160 so i don't know what is that something to say it depends on the personality if they've got that

00:36:15.640 six foot personality but they're five five i agree that's a big yeah confidence yeah confidence goes

00:36:24.680 a huge yeah that's like that's like crack what about do you have a you know any other physical

00:36:32.440 traits that you care about when it comes to your type circumcision i'm

00:36:36.560 what are you are you saying you don't want them circumcised or you do yes like it's very

00:36:48.420 vehement it's a deal breaker for you pretty much they have to be i mean when the peen is erect it's

00:36:55.160 pretty much the same not all of them you sure it's a bit different but no there have been some that

00:37:01.600 and i'm very okay kind of pointy you're orally fixated i'm very yeah so like i'm good talk

00:37:09.700 okay um so can i ask a question sure so if you're simply just looking for sex why

00:37:19.860 all the the criteria yeah because i'm picky so why are you still you say that it's difficult to feed

00:37:27.660 your your sex addiction if you weren't picky it'd be quite easy i'm not advocating for it if anything

00:37:32.980 i'm advocating against it why does someone that snorts coke not want to go for heroin or alcohol

00:37:38.500 we all have our brand

00:37:40.200 it's an addiction that is just a sec donated one hundred dollars brian we are going to have some

00:37:47.880 fun tonight the right side of the panel has been ridden more than all the previous horses

00:37:52.840 the blonde peach is going to cost some poor sap a large divorce budget caratop needs to be careful

00:37:59.380 though might break a hip oh man damn if i read my instagram comments they'd be like this

00:38:05.520 uh do you guys want to fire back do anybody want to fire back who's blonde peach yeah who's that

00:38:12.040 is that george it's one of you two i'm assuming you're more blonde than me no

00:38:16.220 i'm like dirty blonde you're like strawberry strawberry right no i feel like i feel like you

00:38:24.180 just have straight up brown hair thank you yeah all i'm gonna say is that what do you have to say

00:38:29.520 does not apply to me okay yeah it definitely does i'm a good girl

00:38:35.240 so you're picky how are you picky besides some of the stuff you've already listed yeah that's pretty

00:38:43.580 much it oh okay uh circumcised tall a measure of sanity sane and i like fit but who doesn't you

00:38:51.140 like fit yeah some people don't do you pursue like relationships with these guys or you just

00:38:57.640 want to hook up with well i like buddies so you don't want a relationship you want like a friends

00:39:02.640 with benefits type thing but yeah because i'm like i'm hearing like you're like man where are the good

00:39:08.480 quality guys like really want to find a solid guy but you're also like no i gave up looking there

00:39:14.420 there are none no there is i feel like i feel like here's here's the thing though candy there's

00:39:20.340 actually a lot of solid dudes out there but they tend not to want women that just want a bunch of

00:39:25.440 fuck buddies yeah it's that simple yeah it seems like you're kind of throwing a victim card out there

00:39:31.980 saying there's no good men out there but you're not portraying yourself as a person that good men

00:39:36.820 really want yeah i looked for a lifetime how how how long is that is a girl supposed to look

00:39:43.060 before she gives up well sometimes people i'm no longer a viable candidate this so this behavior

00:39:48.920 though this like sex addiction that you're describing how long has that existed in your life

00:39:52.760 because you can say that you looked for a long time but you've given up but if the behavior's been

00:39:59.740 the same the whole time you were probably repelling the good guys that might have wanted you a long

00:40:04.040 time that i fought it aren't you like you are what you're trapped you know you said you're celibate

00:40:09.160 i was celibate for 10 years what motivated that 10 years yeah well i can give you a prompt on this

00:40:15.100 you said that you you were raised in a very strict christian household you said you spent 10 years

00:40:20.760 celibate um so can you tell us the the frame the years that you were celibate like you said you're 36

00:40:30.820 it ended in 2020 the beginning of 2020 so from 2010 to 2020 you were celibate yeah okay and my

00:40:39.380 understanding is i think you wrote here you had you had two which i'm trying to find it sorry in my

00:40:48.040 notes you had two hoe phases okay is that where the yeah yeah you said you you had the first hoe phase

00:40:57.440 before the celibacy i'm assuming and then your words not mine a second hoe phase subsequent to

00:41:03.980 your celibacy yeah are you still currently in the hoe phase oh yeah yeah sorry i couldn't hear

00:41:10.240 yeah i was like whispering okay wait so you had a hoe phase prior to the celibacy when i was a teenager

00:41:15.140 okay and then you went celibate and now you've ended it and now you're in another hoe phase and during

00:41:21.020 that during that phase of celibacy were you looking for a good guy i was more believing you know in the

00:41:30.340 whole like um if i'm supposed to have faith in god then that's what he'll provide and i believed that

00:41:39.460 wholeheartedly that was you know i was back in church i was doing everything i was supposed to be

00:41:43.980 doing and but were you were you putting yourself in positions to to meet single men like what

00:41:51.660 positions like going out into the world and actually like putting yourself in social situations good

00:41:57.920 conversations other than going to bars and you know which a christian doesn't do so i didn't do

00:42:04.380 during that time i wasn't on social media or dating apps at that time did you did you like look

00:42:10.320 throughout the church that you were a part of um i went to a few different um in order i mean it was

00:42:17.580 like one church had nothing but way too young people one church had nothing but way too old people

00:42:22.820 and just like the same story in my life i've never really kind of fit anywhere okay so are you more mad

00:42:30.580 about like church and religion and like what that brought in your life are you like mad at men

00:42:38.000 and like um the type of men you're coming because it's i'm getting like or is it god yeah do you love

00:42:44.200 like is it religion are you happy within your own self that's like 20 questions y'all just asked

00:42:48.160 my bad my bad i i got some rather upsetting news in 2020 which is what ended my everything may i ask

00:42:57.480 what that was

00:42:58.060 maybe not right now okay so let me ask a couple clarifying questions here so in your pre-show notes

00:43:06.200 to us you said that there was a downward spiral leading to the beginnings of a raging body count

00:43:12.700 until there was uh let's see ouch man what no these these are verbatim there well you sent them

00:43:22.460 these were prompts i sent you before the show you said until a stint with drugs led to a tragedy in

00:43:30.060 your early 20s which is also a very volatile subject to speak on and if you don't want to that's totally

00:43:35.700 fine you said uh okay we're gonna skip that but just to get a bit of a timeline here you said you

00:43:44.280 had an initial your words not mine ho phase uh you said that you were struggling with sex addiction

00:43:52.600 and currently still are you're in your second phase can you give us a scope of your sex addiction like

00:43:59.960 what when you say sex addiction were you having sex with a new man every single day of the week

00:44:04.200 how did that look like um i had like no

00:44:08.920 base self-worth i think in my early

00:44:13.560 life like my teens and i think because the family that i grew up in was so cold

00:44:21.020 i was just desperate for you know the first well the first word you want to say is attention

00:44:27.680 but i think it was more like validation like am i real somebody touch me please because i'm dying

00:44:33.220 inside okay so what is the scope of the sex addiction um on the weekends probably thursday

00:44:39.840 friday friday saturday it was you know if i was going out different guys yeah each night well yeah

00:44:46.100 multiple men teenage to a teenage boy you're disposable multiple men each night or not

00:44:52.800 multiple within the same day no i could never do that have you ever had more than one guy in the

00:45:00.360 same day it's okay we had we had we have actually had previously another woman who was a sex addict on

00:45:05.880 and she said that she had she would regularly have sleep with like five men in a day yeah i saw that

00:45:11.100 one yeah um crazy that's icky what the hell yeah like who has the time like i've run out of soap or the

00:45:18.040 energy so so you would so thursday you said thursday friday saturday just a new new guy every day

00:45:26.420 basically yeah but that was a very long time ago long time ago sure that was your initial

00:45:30.640 got it um was it was that kind of the the crescendo of the sex addiction

00:45:40.480 um well i started dating someone

00:45:47.920 i don't know how to answer that question well you said like you would go out thursday friday

00:45:57.060 or saturday which is not so much of a different answer as you might hear from a typical college

00:46:01.620 girl who parties thursday friday saturday um would it would you be hooking up with men like new men

00:46:09.560 every single day it wasn't intentional i mean i would have stuck with one no i'm not making a judgment

00:46:14.440 i'm just asking for you to kind of when you say sex addiction what is the scope of the sex addiction

00:46:21.320 always looking always looking always looking like okay so like ahead planning ahead searching

00:46:27.620 searching searching you know where is my next fix going to come from like what do you think

00:46:32.800 motivated this what what does motivate it because it sounds like you're not looking for a serious

00:46:38.540 relationship is it male validation is there something inside of you that you're trying to

00:46:42.300 fill like what what is it why why are you pursuing this i like the way it feels okay so you like it's a

00:46:48.500 great you like the physical pleasure yeah okay do you feel like it might have been motivated by some

00:46:55.380 sort of trauma in your past i'm sure yeah because of the um content that i am hoping to get into

00:47:02.340 that's definitely um a trauma release okay do you feel like there might be healthier ways to release

00:47:09.200 that trauma like what i don't know i don't know yoga can i feel like because i don't know either

00:47:14.700 worse honestly so it sounds like during your journey with christ and when you were actively

00:47:20.140 attending church was the duration of your celibacy if i'm not mistaken did that i know you said that

00:47:26.560 you had some sort of event in your life that ended your your belief in christ but was there anything

00:47:33.600 other than pursuing god and and go attending church and pursuing religion that kept you from like

00:47:41.200 getting into your or sorry um following after your desires i don't really understand your question

00:47:48.680 is there anything besides during your time of celibacy is there anything besides god that was

00:47:54.400 stopping you from pursuing sex no that was kind of the point uh so okay you said there was a 10-year

00:48:01.620 celibacy and there's a hiatus from all things you went back to the church you walked away from it

00:48:07.660 uh and then after discovering certain defects that led me to be angry uh you started another

00:48:16.100 subsequent ho phase you said that subsequent ho phase started in 2020 is that correct yeah okay

00:48:21.220 um and again when you say there was a second ho phase when you say ho phase what does a what does

00:48:26.780 that mean what is it what is a ho phase to you um that's just like looking to hook up no but that's

00:48:34.120 let me be more precise in my question uh what i guess what i'm trying to get at is what is the

00:48:38.480 frequent frequency with which you were sleeping with new men two new men a week three new men a week

00:48:43.440 four new men a week well if i meet somebody and i hit it off with them and you know it's like prime

00:48:49.280 banging then that's where i want to stay okay but so i what what goes through my mind when you say

00:48:57.280 ho phase that typically relates to promiscuity and having multiple many sexual partners so i'm just

00:49:03.980 trying to get a some understanding are we talking what a new guy one at a time for me

00:49:11.660 but brian's asking is what is the frequency of new partners that you would have would it be like

00:49:17.820 one new guy every week two new guys every week would it be like like how many how many partners would

00:49:22.780 you have in the span of a month i think her answer is as long as just just please please let her

00:49:28.660 answer go ahead yeah i i can't answer that because it's like i mean if you want to know my history of

00:49:34.060 it it's you know if i meet somebody through bumble or or wherever and it goes there because of you

00:49:41.900 know whatever like because the vibe has to be right it's not just like you're a meat sack and i want to

00:49:47.480 jump on you there actually we don't need the connection we don't need the minutia of how you

00:49:53.600 feel about the guy i'm just asking just a very factual question trying to decipher and i was trying

00:50:01.400 to get to it actually during your first hoe phase too um how frequently right and perhaps we you can

00:50:08.600 answer for both and if you want to average it out because perhaps there are periods where you're more

00:50:13.560 you were more active other periods where you were a little less active how frequently would you be

00:50:18.480 hooking up with new guys when i was younger that would have been a different guy every night for

00:50:24.540 those three days during the week during okay so so for example uh let's say over the course of the

00:50:30.540 month four weeks in the month there would be 10 to 12 guys per month okay are you trying to get to

00:50:37.900 a body count i no i'm not i mean we could if you want but i'm just i'm trying to because sex

00:50:43.320 addiction is something very specific so i'm trying to understand like the degree to the sex

00:50:47.760 addiction he's trying to understand the amount of turnover that you had with men yeah exactly i

00:50:52.580 don't really like the turnover but if they don't i'm not asking whether i'm not asking whether you

00:50:57.100 like it or not what what was the turnover he's trying to understand the nature of the sex addiction

00:51:01.580 what was the turnover of men in a six month span how many guys would there have been i i can't say

00:51:07.120 that i don't know 50 100 you don't need to give us an exact number but a range here i'll do the math

00:51:15.500 here you said you said thursday friday saturday so it's that's three guys let's say it's 10 times

00:51:21.980 four for a month let's let's give her the benefit of the doubt that's that's 10 donated 99 girl in

00:51:28.820 the baby blue outfit as a taurus i am forever chasing red flags lol hmu okay there you go so

00:51:37.700 here you're crazy yo cam h thank you that uh good to see you in the chat man so okay uh if it's so

00:51:44.840 three dudes per week three dudes for four weeks in a month that's 12 guys in a month how long was

00:51:49.580 the whole phase in a six month period let's say it's just 10 four years but i can't say that i

00:51:55.120 kept that pace seberg donated 99 dollars and 99 cents it is my belief that you can't spend life

00:52:02.840 pursuing pleasure it leads to a dead end where nothing brings you pleasure you have to allow for

00:52:08.620 the ups and downs without the downs there are no ups try allowing yourself peace past the boredom dot

00:52:15.740 try meditation that was beautiful thank you uh i agree thank you seberg so okay yeah three a week

00:52:21.980 let's say it's uh 10 10 a month i mean she said it lasted for like four years so a hundred a year

00:52:27.980 that'd be like a hundred a year no i remember when i was young i tried to like actually keep names at

00:52:35.160 one point and uh i didn't you could just answer the question it was like you could just answer the

00:52:40.480 question you know because i can for for my younger life i i know that it wasn't more than 50 okay and

00:52:48.840 then what about the second phase which i think you're currently in correct okay um what is the

00:52:55.160 scope of your current since it's more recent maybe it's might be a little easier to recall uh what's

00:53:00.300 the scope of your current necessarily because once somebody is gone they're gone out of my memory too

00:53:05.080 i mean literally like an imagine i don't need a precise number you don't need to say 77 just like

00:53:10.660 a range would be good i don't know a range is it more than

00:53:14.520 is it that you don't know or that you don't want to reveal it because it's embarrassing information

00:53:20.680 to a lot of people i talk to a lot of people what do you say when you say talk to do you mean

00:53:25.500 text um mostly sexual intercourse with no okay just curious i think brian i think there's a zero

00:53:31.960 percent chance we're gonna get a clear answer i think we should move on uh one more one more

00:53:37.280 chance here what do we here in the past do you know the definition of insanity i'm fucking insane

00:53:44.360 um here in the past year this is very recent how many how many guys do you think you've hooked up

00:53:50.800 with in the past year tell you what i'll be calendar year 2023 okay six six yeah okay that's like i said

00:54:01.360 are we are we missing a zero on the end of that or no sex addiction hello relax hopefully like i said

00:54:07.840 i prefer buddies you know somebody wants to stick around and do the job then sure gotcha okay uh

00:54:15.560 i have some further notes here i'll come back to you later though let me do a couple chats we have

00:54:21.100 rippy here ladies who think there are no good men left have you sought a man of god if not i would

00:54:27.040 say to you if there is no moral structure guiding a man and subservience to that structure god are

00:54:32.680 you really surprised the men you find are not good it's a banger super chat a banger super chat from

00:54:39.440 rippy fantastic do you got anyone i well who said here who thinks men there's no good men where where

00:54:46.940 are all the good men who thinks that anybody you guys all think that there are good men out there

00:54:51.460 yeah the world's full of good men not full of good men but there's there's there's enough good

00:54:57.280 men out there you have to know where to look you have to know where to look yeah like i wouldn't look

00:55:01.660 on i think this is the first panel we've done together where the whole panel didn't say no there

00:55:06.360 aren't enough good men out there could be yes i think every other panel we've done every single

00:55:13.120 time they're like no there's like no good men out there well we have relationship relationship

00:55:18.760 relationship

00:55:19.680 relationship single single no relationship oh did i oh relationship a lot of relationships

00:55:27.540 so they're just not getting a good guy see one school you think there's good men out there

00:55:33.440 yeah do you think your past boyfriend was a good man um stabby not to me alleged stabbing i don't

00:55:39.200 think so you think he was a good man to other women uh what i know of he was probably not no no

00:55:47.420 okay all right okay well thank you rippy derrick the traitor oh my god derrick what the fuck

00:55:52.660 ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only being 10 starting to the left

00:55:57.880 sovereign but uh hold on we'll come back to four donated 99 dollars genie xm is queen and i'll

00:56:04.420 simp for her forever i am a good man i love you and she has the best only fans ever can't wait to

00:56:10.340 see you online all love always for gene she will grant your three wishes yo in the chat ryan murk is a

00:56:19.100 simp okay just kidding i love you all right let me pull this one back up from uh derrick thank

00:56:30.940 you ryan appreciate it ranking the girls out of 10 when it comes to looks only 10 being the highest

00:56:35.440 starting to the left of sovereign bruh 7 4 3 5 2 5 5 8 you guys want to respond to that do you want to

00:56:43.580 where um i feel like i should have gotten higher seven four three three i know i got four girl i got

00:56:52.160 my baby i mean i didn't even want to be here but i think i look pretty good you do how would you

00:56:59.920 how would you guys rate yourselves you want to do that starting over here yeah so we have stifler

00:57:04.880 since it's related ask everyone to rate their looks looks i'm mind you on the scale of one to

00:57:09.980 10 go ahead um i think it depends on the day but for the most part right now oh right now um i mean

00:57:17.320 i feel pretty good right now here look into this camera and tell tell us i feel good so i would say

00:57:22.480 10 right now i'm feeling confident i feel good all right i'm gonna say the same i think i'm a 10

00:57:27.680 i think i'm looking good today in pink okay okay i'd say i'm probably like a six five you know i agree

00:57:35.020 all right candy lane pretty i don't rate myself you don't no but why not because i think it's rude

00:57:44.740 to do that to anyone well hold on hold on hold on just my understanding i might think it but i don't

00:57:53.480 say it i got well when it comes when you said it pretty clearly a few moments ago you had a whole

00:57:59.500 rating system for dudes and what was what was a cut above and what was a cut below you said you said

00:58:04.720 i didn't measure it one to ten no but you said uh like literally a numerical measurement of a guy's

00:58:10.680 height you said bare minimum 5 11 height and but you said you don't like to numerically you you

00:58:16.640 wouldn't want to numerically rate somebody on their looks it's pretty similar those were ratings of a

00:58:21.340 man extremely shallow so it's whoa whoa whoa whoa oh my god is it superficial too superficial shallow

00:58:29.720 sure well don't just because we're pushing back don't back down from your position um so it's it's

00:58:38.700 shallow to care about looks i didn't say care about she said it's it's it's rude to rate somebody on

00:58:45.240 their looks yeah well you also said after rating men based on all of these physical characteristics

00:58:50.020 you feel like do you feel like you feel like it's rude to rate yourself but not guys um

00:58:56.340 because if you saw let's say you saw a guy what you are you telling me that it would be rude of you

00:59:02.240 to be like oh yeah he's a 10 or no he's like a six you wouldn't do that i don't do that but you do

00:59:07.820 discriminate based on all of these different physical characteristics it's just criteria everybody

00:59:12.740 yeah it's hey no it's it's everybody absolutely does everybody's entitled to their personal

00:59:16.780 preferences but it's you just said a moment ago you had all these discriminatory factors for a guy

00:59:22.980 but then when it came to rating oneself you're like no it's rude i think it's rude to rate people that's

00:59:27.440 you're taking that out of context it's what it's what you said you said shallow people like what they

00:59:34.180 like yeah okay i don't go around and saying oh my gosh you're a 10 or you're a six i'm not talking

00:59:40.900 are you telling me you've never rated a guy with one of your girlfriends no really yeah i'm calling

00:59:46.440 cap okay a i don't have any girlfriends and thank you for clarifying

00:59:51.460 anyways on the friendship thing yeah so are you like friends with males more

00:59:59.980 we we should keep we should keep going around the table you sounded pretty po'd at your rating that

01:00:06.600 that guy gave you what would you rate yourself was that you or was that her what did i get was that

01:00:10.320 i don't know well somebody was mad over here at the rating that they got you're mad yeah and i got

01:00:18.300 a five five i got a five yeah um what would you rate yourself i don't know six seven

01:00:23.040 i'm not gonna put a number but i know i look good okay really yes are you disagreeing

01:00:34.160 do you think you're a 10 um probably not to everybody but i don't assume everybody to like

01:00:42.720 like me everyone has a different different attraction aren't we saying what we think of

01:00:47.600 ourselves is it just are we just talking about like looks just looks yeah just looks i mean

01:00:53.340 yeah i look good yeah that's good you're a 10 but i didn't plan for today like i think everybody

01:01:00.220 else knew that they were going to be on the show today except for me so wait what do you mean you

01:01:04.900 didn't plan for today how did this happen then she came with with genie oh okay as a friend okay

01:01:10.400 and then i want her to still be here so i made her come on so i wasn't prepared so she wasn't really

01:01:16.420 ready no the only reason i pushed back is because before the show you had requested to be sitting

01:01:21.320 on that side of the table because it was your good angle yes so if you're a girl at this table let

01:01:27.420 me know if you have a better side of your face but if you're if you sure but if you're a 10 wouldn't

01:01:34.640 it stand to reason that you look exceptional from every single possible angle that's not true i do

01:01:40.800 see what you're saying well 10 out of 10 is perfect looks that's like god but did i say 10 out of 10

01:01:45.800 well i asked you if you were 10 out of 10 i didn't i didn't say that you refused to answer you said

01:01:50.560 i said i look good all right fair enough that could sure all right good i think at least a seven

01:01:56.340 okay six point five seven okay everyone that's includes chase over here chase what uh what do you

01:02:04.380 i'd give myself like seven and a half or an eight on a good day all right i give myself six i give

01:02:09.920 myself a six oh we got the two tens over here no i feel like i feel like i'm just like sober and

01:02:14.620 objective you know like there's absolute giga chads out there and like i'm not an absolute

01:02:19.940 giga chads do you do you want to answer or no i don't even know what my rating was i didn't what's

01:02:25.780 your own hear it huh what that doesn't matter just it's you rating yourself how do you feel about

01:02:31.160 yourself like do you i'm a 10 is that no i am not a 10 oh okay all right no i'm not a 10 all right

01:02:41.980 i'm not delusional all right there you have it saying that the other are yes are you saying that

01:02:47.620 they're delusional for saying 10 they're like based fresh still i'm sorry that's i'm 27

01:02:56.740 compared to other ones they're fresh interesting descriptor but that makes a difference everybody

01:03:05.080 knows that you well sure youth uh yeah like youth and beauty go hand in hand so we got the two tens

01:03:13.100 here um okay all right um i feel like i should change my answer now no no no don't be influence

01:03:23.300 no no no stay strong like do i sound cocky like no do you guys think that all women should rate

01:03:31.200 themselves as tens i would i think yeah i think we should all love ourselves even but if every

01:03:35.200 woman's a 10 then every woman is of equal attractiveness and that's obviously not true

01:03:38.960 you're asking us what we think of ourselves though yeah i think so of myself i think i am a 10

01:03:45.100 like in this moment i have bad days where i think i'm lower so you're saying you're saying you have

01:03:50.420 high self-confidence right now yeah yes i i have a question do you have plastic surgery i do yes

01:03:56.840 were you a 10 before the plastic surgery i felt like i was a 10 before at moments and then sometimes

01:04:03.640 i didn't well then why the need for plastic surgery if you're um hold on just a sec will you also be

01:04:11.280 making selda stay on your only fans jeannie new girl girl please okay yeah also coming after the

01:04:19.920 podcast those are those are friends who should call to send in chats i have no idea during the show

01:04:27.140 um go ahead um because like if you were 10 if you were 10 before if you were if your physical beauty

01:04:33.640 was a 10 before why the need to augment it with plastic surgery i see what you're saying yes so i

01:04:40.160 would say a lot of that was influence i moved to la and like oh rip yep yeah i mean i don't really

01:04:46.140 she almost got easily influenced just by that like she was about to change her answer but um also like

01:04:51.940 i started making more money so i feel like when you oh you know when you start making more money you

01:04:56.960 do what you get unnecessary dangerous surgeries to on i mean it's like if you have more money like

01:05:04.200 why not buy nicer clothes and like for me it was like nicer boobs what what was wrong i mean not to

01:05:11.400 dive too what was what was wrong with the boobs before nothing they were actually fine i like

01:05:17.480 99 hate the single number system here is what we have developed at my academic institution which is

01:05:25.020 a three-tier system zero or one zero equals no one equals smashable zero to ten face zero to ten body

01:05:34.040 this is a more comprehensive approach of a cosmopolitan age communication equals key

01:05:39.740 you lost all right don't understand that you lost that's like so complicated

01:05:44.080 here i have something for you on it's uh i don't know man that sounds like a lot of work

01:05:54.120 uh because yeah i just if you were a 10 you wouldn't need to have gotten plastic surgery

01:06:01.460 yeah fair enough but i mean i wanted it made more money can i ask a question yeah so if you guys were

01:06:10.400 to theoretically take the what you presume would be the average answers for that question from men

01:06:16.900 what do you think you would be huh um so from other people not from myself correct yeah i would

01:06:22.980 probably agree like a seven or eight um you think that's what men would rate you yeah okay depending

01:06:29.280 on the man i guess on average what like what would you just assume on average yeah i would like

01:06:33.880 eight or nine okay that's a good question i feel like that's more of the more the answer hold on

01:06:40.160 wait wait yeah yeah yeah not i'm not going to be mean here not trying to be mean fuck if you were to

01:06:46.800 like i i don't think like a cohort of men is gonna rate you on average eight or nine yeah no offense

01:06:56.240 candy lane jumped in real quick on that one yeah what's that non-taken what oh okay yeah i take no

01:07:03.980 offense why wouldn't they though i mean she's pretty thank you she's attractive but oh i was thinking

01:07:10.240 you meant that she would be huh no he was saying he was saying if we asked an honest cohort of men

01:07:15.620 they would not rate her and that's just your opinion you mean higher here while we ask the chat

01:07:20.560 also on the type but chat don't be a dickhead just to like don't intentionally rate her low like

01:07:26.900 chat yeah you could be honest nick can you pull up the chat please okay go go how would you make

01:07:30.860 nick nick nick show me make it bigger that's also partly what's seriously wrong with this world that

01:07:35.380 everybody's so hypercritical oh my god bro can you make it so on average six between five to seven

01:07:43.900 average six it looks like six seven i'm seeing some sevens be honest guys

01:07:48.820 just looks by the way not the whole stabbing thing you can't factor nine close the chat i see a nine

01:07:57.220 close the kid girl y'all are done eight no don't factor in the whole zero attempted murder thing

01:08:04.020 block them block them okay six seven looks like seven who said the negative it looks like i saw a nine

01:08:09.300 i don't know i'm happy who rated me nine do you do you have an accent where are you from i'm alabama

01:08:14.360 okay checks out all right whoever did eight or nine gets a free subscription and photo good talk

01:08:20.380 wait so both of you said that all women should view themselves as tense do you think all men should

01:08:26.160 view themselves as tense yes really yeah of course why because i want you to love yourself i want you to

01:08:31.840 think highly of yourself i want you to feel confident in yourself i don't want you to think down about

01:08:35.640 yourself this is why women give terrible dating advice bro like i don't want you to feel down

01:08:40.560 yeah i want you to love yourself i mean don't you think it's i mean you're gonna hate yourself

01:08:43.960 sometimes don't you think it's a bit delusion i hate myself realistic but it doesn't mean you don't

01:08:48.020 want it yeah i mean i mean you're gonna hate yourself sometimes obviously but sometimes you're

01:08:53.040 gonna love yourself here's the reality it's important for men to have self-confidence but if somebody

01:08:56.920 who if i'm a guy and i'm rating myself a 10 what i'm subconsciously communicating to myself is

01:09:02.040 there's no room for improvement i'm perfect the way that i am which is ridiculous in that way i

01:09:07.140 think that's a really stupid way for guys to look at themselves i also don't think it's a smart way

01:09:10.780 for women to look at them well when you say that that makes sense right yeah now it's it's important

01:09:14.840 to have self-confidence but delusional self-confidence i don't think helps anybody yeah definitely i mean i

01:09:19.760 don't think i'm delusional self-confidence i think i'm just self-confident because i still think i

01:09:23.480 have room for improvement but like i said it because i think all the time is absolutely rational yeah because

01:09:27.460 i think a lot of the time i know if i'm at my healthiest and i work out every day and i do this

01:09:31.840 like i can be like the best you know so i'm just so but if i think low of myself that day i'm not

01:09:37.180 gonna go to the gym i'm not gonna work out so i'm gonna think really high of myself so i can keep

01:09:40.580 bettering myself okay so you said like objectively objectively speaking you feel like you're like an

01:09:44.840 eight or a nine so you just barely have room for improvement yeah i mean i got more room i gotta keep

01:09:49.360 pushing i gotta keep pushing incentive i also see i see what you're saying but then i also think

01:09:55.580 it's good to not be delusional in the other way where you constantly feel like you have to be

01:10:00.320 better and better and better because i feel like that can be like what are you striving for then

01:10:04.460 i so i disagree with that i i would say unhappy sometimes like i feel like a lot of people can end

01:10:11.480 up with like certain things like self-loathing disagree like eating disorders of some way that's

01:10:17.620 that's yeah we'll go back to this one second follow you on instagram chat make sure to follow

01:10:26.060 him on instagram jesus is king i appreciate that zach uh yeah if you guys want to follow me on

01:10:31.580 instagram my uh username is at sovereign bra with an h on the end to your point though um

01:10:38.140 yeah with the eating disorder stuff i think that's usually more common with women but i would agree that

01:10:43.680 if somebody's too hard on themselves it can spiral into self-loathing despair depression so on and so

01:10:49.340 forth what i disagree with though is the idea that men shouldn't be hard on themselves i think men i

01:10:55.900 personally i'm like ruthlessly hard on myself and i have been for the past 10 years or you just mean

01:11:01.480 like people and well you know women it's different okay here's the thing women who are hard on

01:11:08.400 themselves they typically have like oh my gosh christopher wood donated 99 i feel really stupid

01:11:16.240 for spending a hundred bucks to talk to people i don't know but at least i didn't pay way more than

01:11:22.220 a hundred bucks to get a nose that is worse than my original nose fake noses do not look nicer

01:11:28.440 they are noticeably weird who is this directed to i don't mean it's directed to her oh do you want

01:11:34.960 to respond to that i mean i don't think he would have noticed i had a nose job unless i said it so

01:11:39.180 i would have never known i didn't notice donated 99 it's important to know your objective looks

01:11:46.500 rating of yourself for dating i'm 24 already balding slightly overweight and way lower than average p

01:11:54.060 i can be confident and working on myself but still be realistic for my future respect bro yeah respect

01:12:00.860 really respect to finish the point that i was making a second ago i think when women are really

01:12:05.500 hard on themselves they'll be hard on themselves about their physical appearance they'll be hard

01:12:09.080 on themselves about their bodies so on and so forth that can spiral into self-loathing that can lead to

01:12:15.320 like you said eating disorders plastic surgery is one way that women will try to fix it and the solution

01:12:21.360 for that oftentimes is you're right loving oneself but also taking good care of oneself with men though like

01:12:28.080 i think the issue in the world is that not enough men are ruthlessly critical of themselves and hard

01:12:34.960 enough on themselves i think a lot of dudes are lazy yes i think actually women are very frustrated

01:12:40.680 by how how many men are just like not striving in life yeah they're comfortable they're not getting

01:12:46.820 after it they're not working to build their value and like early in my 20s i was i took like

01:12:51.920 very sober inventory of myself in my life and i was like okay i need to get this this this this this this

01:12:57.720 and this in shape and i worked really hard on it and i still do to this day and i think when when men

01:13:02.900 don't do that they end up not building their value and men find their confidence in their value right

01:13:09.000 you guys are talking about men having like high self-esteem men should think of themselves as tens

01:13:12.900 as a guy i'm not just gonna think of myself as a 10 because i'm like oh wow i just i think i'm

01:13:18.600 perfect i'm gonna have confidence in myself because i know that i have aspects to my life yes they can

01:13:23.740 back it up okay i agree with that make sense yeah and i also think that kind of goes like person to

01:13:30.400 person as well like you know based on like mental and stuff like that certainly and then i also think

01:13:36.220 with the men thing it's the difference between a boy and a man i agree oh yeah sure and there's

01:13:41.540 different uh different ideals for what men and women have to achieve in life and men strive to achieve

01:13:49.340 success and it's different for women women strive for for the most part vanity type yeah type of uh

01:13:57.280 aspirations but men strive for successful careers successful um attractiveness in terms of like

01:14:05.520 your physical fitness and etc yeah and i i like the message that i try to preach to dudes is like

01:14:10.940 it's okay to not be enough and to realize it as long as you're working towards becoming the best

01:14:18.060 version of yourself you know like you don't have to hate yourself if you're not enough but like

01:14:22.020 even successful dudes that are resting on their laurels like if you get lazy like your your value

01:14:27.900 is gonna slip dudes that don't have much value if they're just like sitting around not doing

01:14:32.740 anything with their lives like the right kind of women that they really want probably won't end up

01:14:38.020 wanting them you know like it's as a man it's good to always be striving to be better i agree with you

01:14:42.820 i think just like the innocent like sweetness of me wants everyone to feel really good about themselves

01:14:48.120 understandable the the only difference there though is that when it comes to getting sexual

01:14:58.040 attention from the opposite sex the treatment that men and women get is very different yes so

01:15:03.180 women can think they're a 10 and it's not going to slap them in the face but if a guy thinks he's a 10

01:15:09.400 if a guy thinks he's hot shit he's he's not going to be one get assuming he's not right if he's

01:15:17.100 actually a 10 and he thinks he's a 10 that's fine but men will get slapped in the face with reality

01:15:21.800 whereas i think women typically don't because what i think ends up happening is typically women when it

01:15:27.040 comes to who they can sleep with women can sleep out of their league yeah when it comes to looks when

01:15:31.240 it comes to status when it comes to all sorts of things an average 19 year old girl could go fuck

01:15:35.980 like probably some famous celebrity now what what i would say to that is your league is the men who

01:15:43.500 will marry you yes not the men who will sleep with you yep so women uh when when you sleep with

01:15:50.320 attractive men and if you let that go to your head assuming that that's your league that's about as

01:15:55.480 ridiculous as like an average guy who's subbed to a bunch of of of models and assumes that's his league

01:16:01.500 yeah and i think women need to know where they stand looks wise because if you're if you think

01:16:07.120 you're a 10 and you're gunning for a certain caliber of men for long-term commitment i think

01:16:11.840 you're going to be let down i think women need to to be able to accurately appraise themselves looks

01:16:16.760 wise yeah but also in terms of like what are they bringing to a relationship are they are they

01:16:22.680 argumentative can they cook are they sweet and feminine do they offer loyalty do they offer good

01:16:28.720 support to a man right because like a lot of women want it's a partner yeah and a lot of women want

01:16:33.800 like the highest quality guy but they're just frankly not the highest yeah it works both ways

01:16:38.500 like women are always looking for a partner and like i feel like men are sorry wrong way like men

01:16:45.500 are always looking for a partner but then women looking for that grid one motorsports donated 100

01:16:51.880 dollars yeah thank you when evaluating yourself in the dating marketplace is a key to happiness

01:16:57.840 for men's status earning potential and ability to provide is generally valued higher than looks

01:17:03.740 for women the weight is on your looks attitude and purity yeah thank you grid one last thing on this

01:17:10.660 um i think another thing that's related to this is typically when it comes to uh dating sex

01:17:15.320 relationships so for a woman to sleep with a guy typically that guy needs to be at least physically

01:17:21.100 attractive enough for her to be in a relationship with that man whereas it's kind of the reverse for

01:17:26.660 men yeah men will sleep with women of a certain like men will sleep with women of a certain uh looks

01:17:33.960 level that they would never be in a relationship with they'll sleep with her but they will never be in a

01:17:39.800 relationship with her whereas the reverse is for for a woman to sleep with a guy he typically has to be at

01:17:48.720 least physically attractive enough for her to be in a relationship with him yeah and typically they're

01:17:54.200 gonna break the rule the other way maybe they typically don't have casual sex but they might

01:17:58.620 break that rule for like a really fucking attractive guy um so that's the differential let me get caught

01:18:05.780 up on a couple chats here because we're a little behind we have doc vanabalus gents i think that you are

01:18:10.060 missing the point of grandma's behavior is like doing drugs think of the hangover movie her life

01:18:15.420 is practically a blur do you have a response to that was for me not my words from doc vanabalus

01:18:22.300 i'm sorry i wasn't paying attention okay i didn't know it was for me all right um he just says that

01:18:30.500 oh wait there's oh wait that's another one i'll read it while it's up the one with the noticeably

01:18:36.240 fake nose is constantly worrying about where she stands based on inscrutable social clues

01:18:40.400 and then inevitably reframing it all in a reassuring way so that she can get to sleep at night

01:18:44.620 the host notice your plastic surgery first i actually didn't know you had a i just noticed

01:18:49.360 the titties not the boobs yeah i mean they're fake obviously but uh i didn't even notice the nose i

01:18:55.180 i don't really quarrel so much with that it's but whatever well yeah i don't know why the nose is

01:19:00.400 sticking out more than the boobs to them i like that's kind of different it's like too perfect

01:19:06.260 maybe i don't know it could actually that could be maybe like upset like men more that like it's on

01:19:12.940 my face it could be a real nose i didn't know i didn't know i've never had people think that it's

01:19:20.020 not my real nose so but i also tell everyone because i'm not like ashamed okay yeah well i think

01:19:25.860 there's also degrees to plastic surgery i think uh rhinoplasty is far less or far less invasive than

01:19:32.220 like a bbl or breast implants or lipo or something else um so you know uh we have avery here hold on

01:19:40.780 let me get this avery not gonna lie hard not to simp for a woman who as absolutely stunning as priya

01:19:47.220 especially after learning her outlook on life religion religious political opinions anyway brian

01:19:52.740 love the show your old pranks were hilarious i wish you luck jesus loves you hey avery thank you

01:19:57.720 so much appreciate it thank you thank you uh priya anything else or no just okay although rippy's

01:20:04.400 comment i think you're gonna pull it up soon yeah well let me read this um ladies do you think that

01:20:10.200 most modern women respect working class men and do you think that most men respect women regardless

01:20:15.860 of occupation so we'll go around the table do you think that most modern women respect working class

01:20:21.160 men and do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation starting with you and

01:20:26.220 we'll go around the table go ahead um i would say most men don't like respect certain jobs that women

01:20:33.200 have like i would feel like like a woman like me talking like only fans yeah okay um and i don't

01:20:40.000 think there's anything wrong with that i think that's just like you know personal preference and like

01:20:45.000 what they you i'm chase i'm almost wondering if we do you think that well do you think that most men

01:20:52.160 respect women regardless of occupation but excluding sex work because i think what he's perhaps trying

01:20:58.560 to get at is most men will respect women when it comes to their romantic interest in them regardless

01:21:06.600 of her uh career success i think that's what bender's trying yeah so i agree with you brian

01:21:14.540 because i'd say most like yeah do you think that most modern women respect working class men and

01:21:21.400 do you think that most men respect women regardless of occupation so who who here thinks most men respect

01:21:27.360 women regardless of occupation you think most men respect women excluding sex work yes excluding

01:21:33.780 excluding sex work okay excluding sex work for sure but you recognize that men many men don't respect

01:21:41.060 sex absolutely yeah okay who here thinks that who here thinks most women respect working class

01:21:48.020 men we'll go around the table start starting with you and we'll go around go ahead um do you think

01:21:53.320 the average woman respects a working class man hold on mike davis donated 100 dollars here's the thing

01:21:59.440 i realized early on i wasn't no looker the good news is i'm you're a handsome guy for women so i'm glad i

01:22:06.020 don't attract them my one and only lifelong love is money so i got in the lab and learned how to make

01:22:11.700 a lot of it be realistic he owns a lot of burger kings the photo really quick just he's a handsome

01:22:17.440 guy mike davis if there's any man who's a 10 i think it's this gentleman right here mike davis is

01:22:23.100 the perfect exemplification of having a game

01:22:25.800 that's an endorsement here we'll um here actually answer answer that really quick brief answer and

01:22:39.780 then we'll we'll get back to the question go ahead um i don't see there being any problem because he

01:22:43.640 does only fans with me so well are you guys going to stay together forever yes you are let's say

01:22:48.620 let's say hypothetically hypothetically speaking it doesn't work out do you anticipate that the fact

01:22:54.540 that you have done the content that you've done could it conceivably have an impact on future

01:23:01.000 relationships no because i was in that one and we had content together the current one the oh there's

01:23:08.060 a wait there's a previous relationship nine year oh you were making content i made content with him

01:23:13.340 oh and then when i was single i was making content with you know okay wait did this guy propose to

01:23:20.980 you your current boyfriend no but like i know you guys have made a plan yes yeah yeah okay we're

01:23:28.020 serious we share like bank accounts wait but but you know god forbid the relationship doesn't work

01:23:32.100 out but if it didn't yeah you don't think that other guys would have an issue with it um i mean i found

01:23:38.360 him and he didn't have an issue with it not him no other guys other guys i mean i would assume there's

01:23:43.840 more of him out there but like do you think have a difficult time it would probably take yeah there's

01:23:49.580 like people like i mean i tell i would tell a guy straight up like on the first date like this is what

01:23:54.800 i do and if they don't want to be involved then i think it might be for for some of the guys who

01:24:02.680 are not so much in favor of girls who do s work or only fans there may be some degree of cope about

01:24:10.020 oh they're never gonna find a guy like i think granted and she's also very attractive i think that

01:24:15.540 there's a lot of guys that are just gonna overlook it and it might not lead to it might not lead to

01:24:23.460 like it could cause problems in the relationship but much in the same way that people frequently get

01:24:29.340 into relationships that are rife with conflict and issues conflict with like we've had discussions

01:24:35.900 where we've had to change but i think we underestimate the degree to which like there's a lot of there's

01:24:41.080 a ton of simps out there would that would be so stoked to be with her regardless of the only fans

01:24:46.900 the question is though are those the kind of men that she would want yeah exactly there was this

01:24:51.260 guy who paid like ten thousand dollars just to have a hug with his like this girl on only fans that

01:24:57.080 is like the most insane level of simping i've ever heard in my life that's awesome what's his name

01:25:01.740 is that is completely bad but is that like a w no for him for the girl like in terms of for the

01:25:08.600 woman oh yeah her bank account well yeah he's a trick grand he's a trick he's a mark i mean it was

01:25:14.200 only a hug yeah but does the girl that he wanted a hug from does she view him as a romantic prospect

01:25:20.860 absolutely no because she had a boyfriend 10 grand wait they have money the second a man displays that

01:25:27.560 type of behavior every woman here and you can deny it all you want is going to write him off

01:25:32.300 immediately okay so so priya you said you've been dating your guy for two months yeah what how would

01:25:37.620 you feel if in the process of talking to him he had told you that at one point in time he had paid

01:25:41.960 an only fans model ten thousand dollars to give her a hug that would that would cause some serious

01:25:47.940 problems i agree i think even for me that would like i do only fans and i think it would denial

01:25:53.200 is strong enough can you name a porn worker that has had a lifelong marriage was there not a guy on

01:25:59.400 recently who said the same thing about his prom girl and that relationship went out down in fames

01:26:04.740 i have never wished to be a divorce attorney more

01:26:07.720 i would i i would love to know the statistics on long-term marital outcomes for people in the sex

01:26:14.860 work industry it cannot be good you bring it back to the question about the working class yeah so

01:26:21.140 do you think most women respect working class men yes like blue collar dudes yes yeah what about you

01:26:29.860 yeah i mean as long as you're making money yeah like is it in the terms of a relationship prospect

01:26:35.360 or just men in general uh we'll say relationship prospect um i think it depends on the girl

01:26:40.940 because some girls want to be like you know step up yeah i agree what do you mean some girls want

01:26:47.440 to be like step up like hey that's not enough money that you're making at your blue collar job

01:26:51.140 i guess so how about you uh i can't speak for other girls but i do you respect men with

01:26:57.480 mad respect for anybody out there in the grind cool because it's not an easy world especially

01:27:03.820 right now yeah mad respect what about you yeah yeah okay yeah i think a lot of girls don't though

01:27:14.120 like they all want a really rich boyfriend that like takes care of them like they look for somebody

01:27:20.140 that's gonna like spoil them and if they don't get that then they're like no i'm done yeah

01:27:27.800 but yeah especially in the 21st century what about you i for sure think most women do and if you don't

01:27:34.400 you should okay i think on average blue collar workers are extremely underappreciated by women

01:27:39.860 specifically so if your boyfriend was working a blue collar job would you be chill with that let's

01:27:45.460 say he's making like 65 grand a year yes yeah would you be okay with that yeah i would pay for

01:27:50.240 all his stuff yeah okay what about what about you yeah definitely yeah well that also goes to you know

01:27:56.700 like what a guy thinks is okay for hold on hold on no no don't go down that rabbit hole what i'm

01:28:02.060 curious about is if you were if you met a guy who's making that kind of money would you consider

01:28:07.400 being in a long-term relationship with him if he was the right guy yeah okay yeah i agree if it's the

01:28:13.000 right guy oh wait he's making like 65 grand you'd be down nick put it on the other camera okay can

01:28:18.540 you scoot your mic that way please left right that way that way please go ahead okay you're fine

01:28:23.860 you're fine okay uh yeah i think as long as you're happy um yeah yeah yeah you'd be cool dating guy

01:28:31.820 making that much yes yeah yeah it'd be cool yes yeah okay all right we've got some more chats here

01:28:38.120 take this with a grain of salt i can understand rating yourself a 10 to make yourself feel better in

01:28:42.820 some people also appreciate that most people will just think you're pompous or arrogant for that

01:28:47.120 rating i give myself a three i've been told by friends i'm hig what's that mean what is hig

01:28:54.180 hig maybe huge big i don't know name it big all right folly send in send in another chat clarify

01:29:02.560 clarify it we have christopher wood here the one with the oh did i already read this one i already

01:29:07.720 read it my bad my bad um hold on let me skip that all right i'm bringing up the nose again all

01:29:12.500 right we have a couple chats here we have midnight while i missed the prank and social

01:29:18.420 experiment stuff i love the new content too totally dig the channel excuse me progression

01:29:23.300 first impression of the table of just joining girl on the far left would be the one i'd walk up to

01:29:27.800 also to be clear i'm a woman who's on the far left is it the girl she's talking about priya is she

01:29:35.860 yeah or okay all right midnight shoot your shot this woman's hitting on you priya what do you have

01:29:41.120 to say priya it's very kind of you i don't bat for that side sorry and i am okay nick did you pull

01:29:48.500 this one up or what like i said julie what is humble and probably the prettiest one on the panel

01:29:57.000 dressed down dang y'all shows some love the one that said she didn't even want to be here should

01:30:01.820 be kicked out the old lady should stop lying did you did you show it i believe i did but

01:30:09.180 okay all right all right little wretched ran through just and just a clarification guys normally that just

01:30:17.880 it's uh 50 and up okay little wretched ran through redhead is great sneak preview for the younger chicks

01:30:25.760 of where the road of promiscuity dead ends get married raise a family and follow christ girl with

01:30:30.480 white button down looks like a keeper good to see chase back my brother in christ from little

01:30:35.720 wretched okay cool thank you man uh okay we have christopher wood i feel really stupid for spending

01:30:44.120 100 bucks to talk to people i don't know but at least oh he sent it as a super chat too okay well

01:30:49.420 thank you christopher he doubled up rippy overtly high self ratings on physical attractiveness are

01:30:56.020 a product of a self-love culture yep i think we need a self-hate culture this is exactly what i

01:31:00.740 wanted to get into actually rather well let me finish reading rather than a self-sacrifice culture

01:31:06.440 self-sacrifice is what makes humble people always striving to help those close to them without massive

01:31:12.120 ego agree i like that i think the self-love movement has bred narcissism narcissism in our culture today

01:31:19.260 people need to be honestly frankly most people do need to be a bit harder on themselves to strive for

01:31:25.220 actually achieving something in life instead of just saying oh if i'm if think if life's not going

01:31:30.520 to be easy for me then why would i put any effort into it i agree yeah yeah yeah we live in like a

01:31:35.300 participation trophy culture yeah everybody's perfect just the way they are which is complete nonsense

01:31:39.520 i think we need a self-sacrifice culture like we need a self-discipline culture i think we need a

01:31:44.820 self-control culture i agree with i just hate i've the last like guys i've been with all they did was

01:31:49.860 downgrade themselves like so much to the point that i'm like yes i want you to love yourself like when

01:31:54.320 you ask me that i'm like yes i do immediately my brain was thinking about the guys like how how

01:31:58.320 would they downgrade themselves gosh donated 99 dollars brian i love the disapproving size you give

01:32:05.420 when your staff isn't on point it reminds me of me in the operating room thank you for making me feel

01:32:12.140 normal normal you're welcome would you like you're you're doing surgeries and shit and the

01:32:19.780 fucking surgeons just like you're fucking up nurses just like oh yeah he's dead now

01:32:25.960 wrong instrument that's how i feel um thank you man appreciate it oh here i'll just read it while

01:32:31.400 it's up i don't know why priya is wearing a tablecloth uh-oh um genie looks like barbie on heroin

01:32:37.400 don't even get me started on the 90 year old also question for kaylee killian does your boyfriend

01:32:42.540 hold the camera while you smash other dudes lol no he's lol i'm smashing my boyfriend okay our only

01:32:49.180 fans is a couple you guys are exclusive yes it's literally our name is the only fans did your

01:32:54.520 boyfriend have any issues with you having content with your past boyfriend no he didn't does he have

01:32:59.360 content with other women no he never did only fans until we started dating wait candy um

01:33:07.380 there's been a couple chats that have questioned your age noticed do you want to address that

01:33:14.520 address what the age you've been honest with us a lot older than everybody else here well you said

01:33:21.380 you were how did you say you were 36 have you been honest with us about that yeah there's a lot of

01:33:28.220 skepticism from the viewers is it justified like what are you actually 36 yeah

01:33:35.660 is that what your driver's license would say if i looked at it my driver's license would probably

01:33:41.320 say a couple of things you weren't expecting oh yeah like what what that you're an organ donor

01:33:48.260 she's not actually a redhead oh no she's an organ donor i didn't expect that

01:33:52.980 candy all right um anyways wait date of birth uh what year were you born

01:33:59.720 87 okay that was quick that was quick he's rehearsed that was quick who doesn't know the

01:34:06.940 date the year that they were born it's like oh my gosh what is that isn't yeah if we're if she's

01:34:12.980 actually 36 we're being kind of yeah a little me

01:34:16.100 yeah okay what else did i say in my my pre-interview i said i am the cautionary tale

01:34:23.660 how so well you know one of your chats had to say you know this is what it's gonna look like

01:34:31.060 yeah yeah this this wasn't how things were intended but when you're in your 20s and you're all bright

01:34:37.320 eyed and you know like oh my entire future is in front of me and then all of a sudden you're in

01:34:41.140 your 30s and you're like just happened it comes up really quick okay it happens really fast especially

01:34:48.380 when you decide to take out a decade you know to have faith is it possible that having faith

01:34:56.260 could still pay off for you do you think that

01:34:58.100 because i think i i get the sense i get the sense in your heart of hearts the addiction that you're

01:35:05.320 trying to feed would probably be best fed with one guy for the rest of your life what do you think

01:35:09.860 about that i'll think about it later you know you know there's truth to what i'm saying

01:35:15.980 do you think it might be a good idea to have faith that that could be possible for you what

01:35:20.600 if you became a complicated world i could never i think you make it more complicated than it needs

01:35:26.800 to be by pursuing casual relationships with all these different men that you don't want anything

01:35:31.400 deep with i think you're making your world complicated i agree yeah i think it's complicated

01:35:37.020 period i think i'm doing what i can to survive i feel like you kind of want it to be complicated

01:35:43.360 yeah that's what i get from it i think you might be addicted to the emotional roller coasters

01:35:48.020 perhaps no because some it's not about emotions it's about release okay so why don't you get like

01:35:54.580 one guy and just have the same amount of sex that would be great well yeah that would be great that's

01:36:01.140 kind of a relationship but you know but it sounds like you you don't even want to attempt to pursue

01:36:07.060 a relationship i've tried i know you've said you've tried and like it just has not gone well

01:36:12.320 for you and you have this outlook on life and men that there are no good men out there i never said

01:36:18.160 that i think there are good men out there i think that they are very rare okay yeah please don't put

01:36:23.020 words in your mouth i'm pretty sure she did say that but i apologize yeah i heard the same thing

01:36:26.780 yeah um but okay so you say that there are a few good men out there why don't you try and

01:36:31.720 seek them out and pursue them if that's the case i did try i tried for a very long time were you just

01:36:38.040 gonna quit yeah you can't quit you can't quit you can't quit we believe in you candy what should

01:36:43.880 maybe you work on yourself are you candy are you a quitter you're not a quitter no i don't try

01:36:48.880 you are not a quitter i've done a lot she belongs oh sorry sorry sorry i didn't mean that's that one

01:36:53.360 that was an accident i swear to god i swear to god i did not mean that it belongs to the street

01:36:58.900 i think you will find the right one candy i think you will timing is a huge thing you need to work on

01:37:02.700 yourself timing is a huge thing but sometimes you can meet the right guy at the wrong time if you have

01:37:09.160 the wrong patterns and habits in your life okay and if you meet the right guy at the wrong time

01:37:14.380 because you quit ahead of time think about how much that's gonna suck think of the suck how much

01:37:19.260 that might suck i'm a i'm a big believer in you you you attract what you are and if you're not

01:37:24.560 behaving like the person that you want to attract and become your life partner then you're you're

01:37:29.160 just simply not gonna find him because you're not gonna find him 100 not gonna find him and you

01:37:33.480 what go ahead no go ahead no say it what you like i just feel like it's like kind of playing like

01:37:40.720 victim absolutely and you're kind of just like a woe is me like at least i'm not gonna go fix it with a

01:37:47.680 bunch of surgery okay oh oh it's getting spicy let's go put on the gloves are you waiting for

01:37:54.020 like a white knight or something to sweep you off your feet and take you into the sunset that i don't

01:37:58.920 think exists anymore so i'm not gonna i'm not gonna minimize anything that you might have gone

01:38:03.360 through in your life i i completely like believe that everyone goes through their hardships but at

01:38:09.680 the same time you can't let those define you and you need to you need to overcome them and must overcome

01:38:15.660 yeah and must overcome and behave like the person that you want to attract and end up being in your

01:38:21.060 life and i i do think you have to make some changes if you want to make changes you gotta make changes

01:38:26.720 i want to look at this i want to look at this real soberly and logically okay a few moments ago candy

01:38:32.720 you said that men are attracted to younger women you said that women who are more fresh that's an

01:38:40.480 advantage that they have in the sexual dating marketplace generally yeah generally speaking yes

01:38:45.040 on the trajectory that you're on there's this you know messing around playing the field hooking up

01:38:53.000 with different guys this can only last for so long true so long it can only last it can only last for

01:38:59.020 so long for so long i don't know how long candy i i don't know how long it can last okay like you're

01:39:04.820 probably not going to be able to do this as successfully as you are now 15 20 years from

01:39:08.880 now this is an intervention podcast i would say maybe two what'd you say i said one year maybe two

01:39:17.440 what you you think you have one year maybe two left in you of doing this okay that's not a long time

01:39:21.940 but if you found the right guy and you married him god got married you could get that you could get

01:39:29.220 that supply that you're craving for the rest of your life whole life but you're not going to find that

01:39:33.780 guy if you're playing these games that you're doing now no games can i ask a question real quick

01:39:38.880 how is someone who gets surgery to get through hardships any worse than going around sleeping

01:39:44.660 with people got her i think that's a big difference how like to pay somebody money to actually change

01:39:52.760 your physical being when you could i don't know just we were talking about fixing your behaviors not

01:39:57.160 your physical appearance yeah and also i didn't mean like anything rude or mean about what i was saying

01:40:03.280 yeah i was just saying that i think the behavior is obviously negative and like i also want to say

01:40:11.540 to you i'm not attacking you i don't i can't speak for anybody i'm not attacking you i i just see a woman

01:40:17.920 who has a deep longing in her heart for love and also for dick but like i i see i see i see a woman who

01:40:27.880 has a longing for companionship who has been hurt by the world and who has been hurt by her life's

01:40:32.660 circumstances and who has kind of given up on true love you know and it breaks my heart to see but i

01:40:38.300 also know like that thing that you're looking for you're saying that it's so rare to find good guys

01:40:42.480 out there that guy that you're looking for he's not going to want this version of candy that's engaging

01:40:47.960 in this behavior he's going to want a version of you that wants that true love with him you know and i

01:40:53.180 don't i don't want to see you i mean you said you've got two years before this game is up i don't

01:40:57.080 want to see you go the rest of your life single you know you clearly have a longing for companionship

01:41:00.980 you know does that make sense i'm not attacking you not attacking you can still like change for the

01:41:08.180 better wait hold on hold on let her let her respond let her respond i can tell i struck a nerve

01:41:12.600 just because that's what the heart wants doesn't mean that is possible in this world maybe god and i am

01:41:20.420 being realistic by my choices right now y'all may maybe not like it but i am being realistic

01:41:28.300 and a lot of this podcast has been especially you brian oh once you're 30s oh you should be put out

01:41:35.580 to pasture i didn't say that i object i did not say i did not say that i did not say that uh disavow

01:41:44.720 put out to pasture no pasture i did not i did not say this i did not say this just about maybe

01:41:53.600 once you get in your 40s we can have another conversation about it but definitely in your 30s

01:41:58.700 no pastures no pastures no meadows no tundras nothing all right candy wait can i say something

01:42:07.740 really quickly really quickly my mom is like 61 she was born in 62 so however old that makes her

01:42:15.380 she's married to 28 year old 29 year old so maybe she does have a lot of time what wait this is new

01:42:23.760 your your mom who's 61 she was born in 62 so however old that makes you 61 yeah and and she's

01:42:34.620 dating a 20 married they're married how when did they get married like two three years ago so he

01:42:40.380 was like 25 yeah so i have an older brother and he was younger than my older brother it's just

01:42:46.360 friends same wait no no they're not friends they're not the age is younger than his youngest son

01:42:53.600 so don't how did they meet how did they meet so did they did none of your business does your mom

01:42:59.900 does your mom have a lot of money is she like a sugar mama i'm i'm no she's not a sugar mama but

01:43:05.160 i'm not gonna put her business out there but she's good looking who's the kardashian mom she's pretty

01:43:09.520 is that your mom no my mom is blonde she's five feet tall chris jenner is it is your mom chris jenner

01:43:16.480 she did 99 and 99 cents candy ignore your feelings put your faith in christ he will show you the world

01:43:25.920 you want you will have to sacrifice it's hard i can't do it you can amen thank you i agree thank you

01:43:35.420 this this ties in this ties in directly to what i wanted to say to you candy you say that you're being

01:43:41.900 realistic about the fact that it's just not going to happen what you call realism and this is look i

01:43:48.780 understand this is probably hard to hear after your walk with god but what you call realism i see as a

01:43:53.900 lack of faith i know that god put those desires in your heart that he put there and i know that he put

01:43:58.700 them there for a reason and i believe 100 he wants to fulfill them for you i also believe god rewards us

01:44:05.760 for our obedience in this life you know and look you said you spent 10 years trying to be you were

01:44:11.040 celibate for 10 years trying to do the best job that you possibly could i obviously can't judge

01:44:15.920 you know your obedience to god during that time frame and i know what it feels like to be obedient

01:44:20.380 to god and to not feel rewarded for it it sucks you know like really crushes your faith but i know

01:44:27.400 like i see the longing in your heart candy i know you want that companionship like don't give up on it

01:44:32.180 it just makes it harder what does the longing but it's there for a reason you know he implanted that in

01:44:38.600 all of us absolutely life's not supposed to be easy but that's that's the whole thing i don't

01:44:44.040 think it's supposed to be this hard though either but says says who yeah says i've i've had it i've

01:44:49.960 had a horrible life i've had so many terrible terrible things that's our modern world yes it

01:44:55.180 is but that's our ancestors went through that doesn't well yeah candy just just because life

01:45:00.260 is hard doesn't mean it wasn't supposed to be this hard or that like you can't still have love

01:45:04.280 you know yeah don't give up or that you can't stop pursuing the the positive things in life

01:45:09.240 don't give up candy yeah don't give up don't give up and also to what don't give up like about when

01:45:14.600 you brought up your mom none of us were saying that it's it's too late for her if anything we're

01:45:18.340 advocating for that it's it's not nearly too late for her also everyone's on their own journey like

01:45:23.500 as much as we want her to be happy and like be more like have a better outlook on life like she's

01:45:29.700 only gonna realize when she realized yeah i just never do you just never do whatever i have

01:45:34.320 something to say about that nine dollars she took cougar to a whole other level side note

01:45:39.520 picture tried to get the donald trump down oh i was just in mexico yeah

01:45:44.440 does it look like that does it really look like that

01:45:48.080 i'm on what did you say a second ago roasting before that came in i'm mexican like she's on her

01:45:55.180 own journey she is we can wish the best for her she's gonna wanna you know have like a better

01:46:02.380 outlook on life when she decides to she's on her own path so but yeah i hear what you're saying but

01:46:09.520 i also know that it's easy to slip into permanent pessimism until somebody comes along and is like

01:46:16.200 hey no there's a better way like you can do it you know and that's that's when you punch them

01:46:20.240 come and hit me in the face come and hit me in the face because i'll say it to you all day you

01:46:24.980 can do it she might take i have candy i i have faith that god placed that longing in your heart

01:46:31.140 for a reason and i would encourage you to keep honoring it you know think about you're probably

01:46:36.640 familiar with the bible if you spent 10 years in church think about abraham and sarah they were

01:46:40.820 childless and barren they were childless and barren until they were like a hundred years old

01:46:47.820 and god promised sarah a child and she was like she laughed at it she was like that's ridiculous but

01:46:53.760 he still came through they had to wait a hundred years and he still came through and gave it to

01:46:57.180 them you know jesus died on the cross all hope was lost the messiah was dead impossible happened

01:47:04.280 rose from the grave like we have a god who does impossible things what feels impossible to you

01:47:08.800 is easy to god but god often asks patience from that was literally like a promise from god though

01:47:14.400 what is a designer that didn't become famous until she was like 51 or like versace or something not

01:47:21.780 the same thing but almost so you got it it took her a while you know she was not big and famous in

01:47:27.220 the designer world and now she is is donna tella home yeah don't just don't give up the kind of man

01:47:36.960 the kind of man that you want like be like she said you attract what you are be the kind of woman

01:47:41.920 that he would want that's what i think you should do in the meantime the sex addiction

01:47:46.460 the sex addiction everything like that find other ways to fill that longing within you

01:47:51.140 i try actually with exercise wait that's my anxiety relief and exercise you said you tried

01:47:57.540 no i do i punish the heck out of myself based that i do the same thing yeah absolutely okay awesome

01:48:04.320 um we have grid one motorsports that didn't trigger fear is the spare change that will keep

01:48:07.880 you broke ginger if you want a relationship you will find one if you choose and it is a choice to

01:48:11.820 be single acting like a drunken sloot you will find that which you seek make better choices be a

01:48:17.920 better human he's right it is a choice it is a choice everything's a choice everything's a choice

01:48:23.920 yeah you're resigned you feel doomed you feel doomed and i'm telling you you're not well like i said

01:48:30.900 things have happened in my life that um like what ended my celibacy you know i got some news about

01:48:40.000 something something that runs in my family that i did not think would touch me and yet it did and now

01:48:45.220 it makes me feel trapped an inviolable candidate so is it is it are are you barren yeah i can't have

01:48:52.560 kids now oh okay that's literally the first thing that guy wants i'm gonna i want to break that

01:48:58.060 narrative right now you have a narrative in your mind that because you can't have kids no guy will

01:49:04.480 ever want you and i want to break that narrative right now by telling you i ever wanted i hear you

01:49:10.080 that's that's all i've ever wanted to and i waited for the right guy and i believed and this is where

01:49:15.640 i am now so if it's a punishment to god what i do with my body then so be it if he wants to cry every

01:49:23.200 single day that life that i have chosen to live wait is this like revenge on god god for my mom can't

01:49:31.640 have kids and she's still got a man so he don't care this is the outlook that you're putting on

01:49:36.300 candy candy think about it and he's young about how serendipitous this is you're sitting here on

01:49:42.460 the panel saying no guy will ever want me i've i've only got so much time left to keep getting piped

01:49:47.320 for my sex addiction like like like like i'm i'm totally screwed meanwhile her mom is sitting here

01:49:53.460 she has a 28 year old guy she she can't but but here's here's this is no different ladies ladies

01:49:59.820 this is the narrative that i want to break right now who's to say that there's not a guy out there

01:50:03.740 that would love to be with you and would love to adopt and raise kids with you yeah who's to say

01:50:08.580 that there's not a guy like that out there i have something i need to share please hold on you're

01:50:11.720 adopted candy candy can you what do you think about that i've already made that decision but don't you

01:50:19.600 think it's possible that there's a guy out there there's a guy out there who would love you even

01:50:24.160 despite the fact that you can't have kids who would who would want to be with you and to raise kids

01:50:28.260 with you don't you think that's possible uh if god wants that to happen then it will happen

01:50:32.920 that's not an answer do you or do you not think it's possible are you saying it's not possible

01:50:38.220 i think that in all things with god it's possible but that's on him not me no no absolutely not

01:50:47.920 that is ridiculous that's ridiculous that i did looking and waiting and being

01:50:54.060 what i thought i was your last word i'm done with that now sure um do you have one final response

01:51:00.740 what you just told me is that's on god there's nothing i can do about it so i might as well just

01:51:07.100 keep getting piped by all these random guys and hope that the perfect guy comes along and just wants

01:51:11.360 to accept all of that that's what you're telling me that's that's not a proper strategy for locking

01:51:15.440 down that guy there's absolutely stuff you can do right now in order to do to lock down that kind

01:51:20.380 of guy i've already told you i don't know how many times i've stopped looking for that guy okay

01:51:25.380 then then being alone is your choice candy that's your choice temporarily i want to hear more about

01:51:33.300 the the 61 year old the mom uh i took some milf

01:51:39.300 she's 61 he's 28 yeah i think he might have turned 29 this year or maybe like end of this year i don't

01:51:48.500 know they're married yes and you're how old you 26 so you could also date this guy i wouldn't oh you

01:51:58.060 wouldn't it not my type you could have gone to high school with him though yeah no the beginning

01:52:03.300 for her the beginning was rocky me and my older brother wanted to like beat him up oh shit kill

01:52:09.080 oh sorry um but yeah we weren't happy because we were just like what like i don't know yeah let's

01:52:18.820 not talk about it but yeah how did they meet did you say that um i don't want to put her business

01:52:24.200 out there but i just i wanted her to feel like hopeful they're married though correct yes they're

01:52:29.300 married but let's let's say i want to find a 61 year old woman to marry what's the strategy where do

01:52:34.420 you go where do you look trader joe's um joanne's i don't know the fashion teachers i i wouldn't know

01:52:41.980 because i'm not a 60 year old woman but and i don't want to put her business out there but i don't

01:52:47.780 know you just need to find someone that likes younger guys all right we have a little wretched

01:52:54.460 here uh according to the crystal meth calendar 30 damn that was a savage roast good thing she's

01:53:03.700 out of the room right now is she in the mall okay all right all right rippy uh redhead have you ever

01:53:08.760 read the children's book oh okay she's not here i'll save it until she's back yeah here what did it

01:53:15.100 say though pull it up again i'll pull it up once uh translate to the surface the voice saying i'll

01:53:20.120 translate i'll bring it back up let's see we have jessica here you said jessica you said you have a

01:53:25.200 crazy ex who used to show up at your work uh and post up outs or post on his snapchat story erotic

01:53:32.200 things what's that what happened there he used to um okay i never actually dated this man but he was

01:53:39.920 obsessed with me you said crazy ex yeah i know but like i considered him i was just you didn't

01:53:45.860 whatever sure um checks out anyways i wonder how crazy that's it i know like i consider him crazy

01:53:53.040 oh i worked at this retail place i still work at um and he knew like my schedule so one night i would

01:54:01.920 have been closing i hadn't but he posted on his snapchat story he was like oh just in the parking lot

01:54:08.260 and like i don't even remember exactly what he said but there was a weapon in his lap and he would

01:54:13.460 always like threaten me and like talk about crazy yeah yeah so that's that's what i consider crazy

01:54:20.620 what other people consider have you ever threatened somebody we talked about this no no no okay wait

01:54:27.340 you have she said no i'm scared of any violence i don't like violence okay let's see we have

01:54:36.100 genie here you uh said that you okay and this is related to the stabbing story okay i think you

01:54:45.860 already said that you flashed the police officers um you said you were sugar mama for three years

01:54:53.820 yeah to that one and you said you're still in your sugar mama phase yeah i'm like a mother at 21

01:55:00.140 i dated a boy who locked me in his room our entire oh that's something else here okay here let's stick

01:55:06.760 with the sugar mama thing so you were sugar mama did he adopt the name baby boy before or after you

01:55:11.620 started dating him no before it's like on his birth certificate and everything because you're like

01:55:15.760 interested in the sugar mama stuff was that a turn on for you that he calls himself i have no idea

01:55:19.400 yeah i mean a little bit i mean he's different can i be your sugar baby oh yeah you can cute damn

01:55:27.000 i'm into that now okay so you were dating a guy for three years or you were just a sugar mama for

01:55:36.400 three years with various dating and sugar mama at the same time and then i just like we stopped dating

01:55:41.780 and then i just became just a sugar mama and like we were like just having sex what were you doing to

01:55:47.120 be a sugar mama like paying his rent buying his food um or like giving and stuff to his kid

01:55:55.040 oh how long uh or how much so how much do you think per month you were spending on this guy also we did

01:56:03.700 like everything together when we were like living together oh you lived together at one point but

01:56:07.640 then we saw so you weren't well you weren't paying his rent you were paying well no i paid yeah i mean he

01:56:13.860 still had his own place oh he had his own place so i was still paying that and okay so he but he

01:56:18.220 would spend a lot of time at your place but you would pay his yeah why um because i thought i loved

01:56:25.480 him you thought you loved him yeah i was in love okay was this before you started of f or

01:56:31.560 this was like after this was okay like a year after okay uh so you'd pay his rent you'd get him

01:56:39.580 buy him what else was everything like food trips flights we went to europe his daily life yeah

01:56:46.140 how much his daily life how much you think you were spending per month on him um i mean we i mean

01:56:51.820 the same thing i don't know like just double what i did double what i spend on myself how much do you

01:56:56.840 spend on yourself per month maybe like 20 okay you spend 20 000 a month what the hell do you spend

01:57:02.740 i just travel a lot you travel a lot okay so like plus one hotels yeah so that plus another i see

01:57:08.940 okay uh so then is this the only guy that you've ever been a sugar mama for or have you been no i've

01:57:15.680 been for many more all your guys yeah it turns out that way because then i date like younger guys

01:57:22.020 why oh you date younger guys sometimes like he was older he was 33 but the like the last one he was

01:57:27.680 like younger how old are you i'm 21 but he was 18 are you 21 you were you were wait yeah because in

01:57:32.540 some of those news articles it says you were 22 at the time of the articles yeah i saw they got it wrong

01:57:38.200 i saw that when i was there this was like uh don't put that okay wait so you were 18 sugar

01:57:43.600 momming for a 29 year old guy yeah damn no it was bad like and then whenever he turned no he's 32

01:57:51.580 but yeah i mean he's turning 33 this month do you feel that you have to you have to do this in order

01:57:56.920 to compensate for some sort of deficiency you have when it comes to relationships that's a great

01:58:00.820 question i feel like i just love taking care of someone sometimes he can't he can't take care of

01:58:07.000 himself no he probably could i like taking care of and then i start resenting is it why is this

01:58:11.820 like a kink because then i'm like oh why am i doing this for a man like come on do your part

01:58:16.300 why don't why don't you but then again i'm like oh i love it why don't you date guys that like can

01:58:19.740 take care of themselves because i guess i i'm not attracting that so do you like what i attract

01:58:26.460 power the control that comes from it it's like do you like the power yeah control that comes from it

01:58:31.580 like you're basically a little bit wearing the pants yeah i guess is what they would say so you're

01:58:37.320 like independent completely because if he was to leave you or something happened you're good and

01:58:42.780 yeah yeah yeah and he has he won't be able to live without me yeah are you a dom yeah i'm gonna switch

01:58:48.980 though because like sometimes with girls like and with the girls that i've been with you're submissive

01:58:52.740 with women sometimes when they are because they have been very dom with me the girls that i have been

01:58:58.140 with they've been very like you're not doing for this you're not doing that your boyfriends

01:59:01.340 i've i've wanted to but you want to but they're not they wouldn't let me only one was down and he's

01:59:07.440 still down the guy that i've been talking to so i kind of want to do that just to say i did it so

01:59:13.980 you're you were paying for everything and they wouldn't let you peg them that's what i'm saying

01:59:18.040 they wouldn't even let me stick my finger in his butt like i'm like come on i would try

01:59:22.420 and he would do it back to me and then i was like okay okay i'll stop okay i mean that's

01:59:30.480 interesting um has anybody else here at the table been a sugar mama for a guy you have

01:59:37.280 your current boyfriend the nine year the nine year okay how did that affect the relationship

01:59:41.840 oh extremely i mean that's obviously why it didn't work out that's why it didn't work out

01:59:45.820 so did you feel like you were in the masculine and he was in the feminine throughout yes and it like

01:59:50.080 started like that and then it just kept going and then i could see like his self-esteem like going

01:59:55.360 down and down and down and like i would try to pick it up for him and then like it comes to a point

02:00:00.760 where it's like you make your own decisions like i can't help you anymore like you gotta decide to get

02:00:07.560 up go get a job like i mean i can't make you feel like a man yeah you can yeah that's facts here we had

02:00:15.360 cut you off you had wanted to address something to her do you want to um yeah somebody asked me

02:00:21.580 wait hey can you um could you like tilt your mic yeah thank you so speaking to your mic somebody

02:00:27.700 asked me for her number like someone i know maybe maybe there could be something you know are you just

02:00:35.820 how do you know this this is what i checked when i went to the bathroom but like

02:00:40.080 okay um that's that's that's the thing that you had to say in that he's trying to say you're

02:00:49.240 giving hope like here's hope like here's someone that still wants that wants you that maybe this

02:00:52.940 could work out type thing do they want a long-term relationship with her or just a smash i don't

02:00:57.460 know what did he say he said oh um can i get the red head girl's number isn't she redhead do you

02:01:07.480 have can you stop that she's a dirty blonde yeah i like that super chat yeah i'll get to it in a

02:01:13.160 second i'm not trying to sound like rude i mean i'm not trying how old's the guy is the friend of

02:01:17.000 yours or just a random huh 47 oh he's a friend of yours yeah okay that's cool uh okay i guess if he

02:01:28.380 wants he can dm her i guess yeah that's good to know there you go maybe you're on the show maybe

02:01:33.940 the guys are gonna dm you what do you think about them apples what do you think about them apples you

02:01:38.580 really want to know yeah about the 47 year old no i i really want to know what if this guy wants to

02:01:44.580 date you and he's totally down with the fact that you can't have kids and he loves you for who you

02:01:48.620 are what do you think about that what if that was a possibility here

02:01:51.460 i only smash younger you are committed to sabotaging your love life yeah you are absolutely

02:02:01.960 committed to sabotaging yourself yeah but i get you but self-sabotage you only you only have sex with

02:02:07.100 younger men how young that's pretty shallow i don't like young no like don't you think that's a

02:02:12.960 little shallow candy yeah you had problems with shallow rating systems before seems a little

02:02:18.340 hypocritical a little bit yeah called out candy candy you're absolutely committed to sabotaging

02:02:24.840 yourself can't help people that don't want to be helped speaking uh we have rippy here redhead

02:02:29.240 have you hold on cberg donated one hundred dollars you can live your life in a river and you can let

02:02:35.920 your surroundings guide you or you can take control and get out of the river and climb the mountain of

02:02:41.900 life and you can choose to climb as high as you climb as you high you have the ability to make the

02:02:46.860 life you want so true that was fantastic that was comment cberg thank you cberg that was beautiful

02:02:54.200 i want that i want that on like a freaking like a frame yeah we gotta print that out and frame that

02:02:59.580 thank you super chat all right rippy redhead have you ever read the children's book the little engine

02:03:04.280 that could always say to yourself i think i can i think i can it will translate to the surface that

02:03:09.380 voice saying be realistic is a demon bringing you down that's facts ave ave christus rex christus rex

02:03:16.840 okay so true thank you rippy so true rippy much appreciated you got you got demons whispering to you

02:03:24.880 that the life that you want is impossible and you're sitting here like you know what absolutely

02:03:29.460 that's true and then some guy miraculously comes along and he's like hey i want to date her and you're

02:03:34.120 like no i only want younger guys you know that story with god and the boat and they're like

02:03:39.240 the guys on the boat in the middle of the ocean and he's like god please send me someone please and

02:03:43.540 then god sends someone and then the guy's like no no god's gonna save me and then he sends another

02:03:48.080 boat and then he's like no no sir god's gonna save me i prayed and then another one comes and then he's

02:03:53.160 like and then he goes sinks down and then god comes down and god's like i sent three and you weren't

02:03:59.100 listening to me son that's exactly we are seeing this play out in real time right now we there's your boat

02:04:04.720 she's in the middle of the ocean she's like no i don't like that life raft i don't like that one i'd

02:04:08.880 rather drown yeah that's that's a winning game i'm not even religious

02:04:11.960 when you say you're not religious but you're cooking yeah i know i mean i'm from alabama

02:04:19.200 john 316 i know everything when you say you prefer younger men what are you talking about

02:04:24.160 like a couple years younger yeah college boys what are you talking about 28 29 is kind of my sweet spot

02:04:32.680 you said 28 or 29 yeah just curious why i i don't know i don't object to your preference i'm just

02:04:38.120 curious what like why i don't know oh okay that's they're easier to manipulate huh

02:04:42.440 they don't know nothing i'm not a dom so i wouldn't know about that

02:04:49.600 okay good talk good talk

02:04:53.500 coming back to you coming back to you you said that you dated a boy who locked you in his room the entire

02:05:01.760 relationship and you weren't allowed to come out it's probably yikes how would you do all your

02:05:06.160 traveling this when i was younger this i was like way younger like before the last one like okay like

02:05:13.920 18 no like 14 15 you dated a guy that would lock you in your room he was older and like how old was

02:05:19.840 he he was 20 and i was like 15 or so and i could stay in his room and like no one knew like that i was

02:05:26.880 dating him or whatever and then we dated for like a year and a half and like i couldn't come out of

02:05:30.440 his room like one time i remember his room yeah i was in his room he lived with his like you were

02:05:35.060 living with him no i would just go i would like leave school and i would go stay in his room and

02:05:39.700 i couldn't leave i had to sneak out the window when i needed to go home yeah and like one day i was so

02:05:44.640 hungry and he's like mom stepmom came and she was like this is he was like can you come like can you

02:05:50.880 come she's like you want to eat and i was like yeah yeah like i want to eat i'm hungry and like i went out

02:05:55.760 and he was so mad at me why would you come out there and i was like oh i was hungry they make

02:06:01.140 crab legs like i think i think you uh are pretty bad at picking boyfriends yeah no i know i got a

02:06:09.140 lot to work on therapy inner healing everything wait if if we attract what we are what does all

02:06:15.000 this say that's what i'm saying i got a lot to work on inner healing was this in alabama yeah

02:06:21.080 damn alabamas are a whole nother breed i know than alabamians okay uh you say you say

02:06:30.220 i'd be paying for dates and shit but i also like i'd be paying for dates but you said

02:06:36.840 i also like being paid for and being pampered usually i pay when i date younger uh men and

02:06:43.880 women yeah that's what i said okay it's probably nice to be pampered when you never as a guy i've

02:06:51.020 never had money so like now i got money i'm like i got you what you want you know it sounds like

02:06:55.420 you're really successful i'm like we all eat you know if you're comfortable sharing like how much

02:07:00.500 you make per month from of enough but i'm good six figures and yeah uh enough okay all right you

02:07:08.440 don't lower just care i'm just curious i'm just curious you said there were you lived in a trap

02:07:13.800 house yeah okay alabama alabama is this another boyfriend no this one was just trapping what's

02:07:21.580 true what is you just straight trapping nothing i was just like what were you slaying nothing like

02:07:27.920 what is what was what was it's like i was just like i know but no no i mean but i didn't do i

02:07:35.440 didn't sell them like i was just with people that sold them i did them yeah i did them what

02:07:39.700 were you doing like you had everything you did them man you did the people the drugs oh in the

02:07:46.340 house probably probably you don't remember okay i did what are we what are we talking here

02:07:54.980 some assumptions are correct i know guys okay i'll just say it like

02:07:58.740 mess mescaline what are we talking let's go mescaline when what is that it's a drug mescaline

02:08:04.780 oh not that no i used to do like xanax and if i really really wanted to like i was like

02:08:11.360 i was so good on y'all i would like go to the cvs and i would get like nyquil or something and like

02:08:18.140 chug it yeah some like sinus medication take like 12 of them start tweaking like i can like just

02:08:24.000 picture this the situation no the house yeah and like i would like stay in like trap houses and we

02:08:30.560 would like lace our weed with xanax like i don't know that's what i'm saying hold on hold on

02:08:35.980 99 chase refresh yourself bro you gotta gotta send it when your behavior is quite inappropriate towards

02:08:44.680 candy bro p it's so crazy like people be sending chats at the most inopportune times chase just left

02:08:52.240 uh demise i will i will re-trigger this for you um what's happening three times when candy get up

02:08:57.780 okay so we have let's see okay there's the trap houses oh right the funeral here wait let's let's

02:09:06.820 come back to that actually let me just i'll come back to that in just a sec uh i have uh put it in a box

02:09:13.100 we had something here from let's see one sec uh

02:09:19.640 kaylee wait actually no we're gonna come back to kaylee uh julie

02:09:26.460 the main thing that occupies your mind that you'd like to speak on is the topic of modern dating and

02:09:32.720 hypergamy did you have anything to elaborate on that um yeah i just feel like it's gotten out of

02:09:41.120 control and we should be warning like young girls about how detrimental it is to mental health and

02:09:49.380 like their future and you know their lifelong happiness i'm hypergamy i mean like you know

02:09:55.160 okay i don't know anything was there was there anything else elaborate a little bit more

02:10:01.940 like on what part well how do you warn somebody with a world that they come up in media and it's

02:10:09.700 like represented as something that's normal and even good but it's everywhere i just don't think

02:10:15.960 it's like really good at all for girls can we first explain the word hypergamy yeah i don't know

02:10:21.800 what it means yeah backtrack well what's your sense of the word hypergamy um like excessive sexual

02:10:29.160 activities no that's that's not hypergamy is typically the typically the tendency for women to

02:10:35.740 date and marry up so typically like socioeconomic status yeah really marry a rich man we shouldn't

02:10:43.700 do that i've heard the word hypergamy used in the context of what i was thinking so i just thought

02:10:49.340 that's what it meant okay yeah typically it's the action of marrying i pulled it i pulled up the

02:10:54.760 definition marrying or forming a sexual relationship with a person of a superior sociological or

02:11:00.920 educational background okay this could also be for looks too what would be like a better word to

02:11:06.260 describe then describe what describe what oh like promiscuity promiscuity promiscuity got it okay

02:11:12.700 got it absolutely this is getting real

02:11:17.780 word okay okay um here we have

02:11:24.520 genie you said that you met a girl you met a girl biggest crush on her first date was at

02:11:30.480 a funeral i don't know if you told us the full funeral story if i recall no yeah that was really

02:11:35.940 it oh you just met at the funeral yeah did you know the the deceased no you didn't know the deceased

02:11:41.620 she went as moral sport yeah this is like from wedding crashers where it's like yeah it was definitely

02:11:46.600 the most awkward intense thing ever and it was like really freaking sad and like i cried a lot

02:11:50.960 because it's obviously yeah i mean yeah it's so sad so you only knew this girl for like what two

02:11:55.860 weeks you said yeah like three weeks maybe so how did she approach the situation of hey do you want

02:12:00.380 to come to a funeral she texted me i was like and you said we were texting a lot like yeah i was like

02:12:06.040 you need me i'll be there like but you did i flew there oh you was gonna say i'm pretty sure you

02:12:11.020 said from paris to miami yeah i was in paris at the time you had been texting this girl for two

02:12:16.000 weeks and i was across the world to go to a funeral i was damn bad damn but i know i liked her though

02:12:20.880 like i was damn bad but i liked her you know and i felt bad met her prior no do you prefer men or

02:12:26.340 women both i like both i mean it just depends on you don't lean one direction one more towards the

02:12:32.300 other yeah i mean i would used to say have men i used to say men i mean they're different yeah

02:12:39.700 they're like different okay they're not the same all right whatever i can't choose who's better uh you

02:12:43.840 said in your pre-show in your pre-show notes here you said that you effed a whole platoon oh yeah what's

02:12:49.860 the story there oh shoot okay i i lived in alabama marines or air force army sadly oh army okay my

02:12:59.740 bad that was the only day why is that sad because you know army everyone's like army you know no i

02:13:06.360 don't know what is what does that even mean because they're like marines they're like

02:13:10.160 and then they're like you know and then they're like the air forces i i air forces you know and

02:13:17.240 they're like armies like coast guard what about the coast guard no coast guard i mean national national

02:13:21.880 no they're like good they're like yeah so what's this how did we were you in the military no well

02:13:26.940 like my family how did you what hold on chat how much men are in a platoon let me google this

02:13:33.300 platoon i don't even know platoon definition a platoon is a military unit typically composed of

02:13:41.520 two to four squads uh a hundred is it a hundred it oh specific platoons may range from 10 to 100

02:13:48.760 people oh it can be composed of 20 to 50 troops they say genie genie i'm getting seven billion genie

02:13:56.860 how many dudes were in how many dudes did you sleep with probably at that time like 20 the whole

02:14:01.780 platoon was it the whole what span of time was this in this is a span of time yes it was like was this

02:14:10.160 like over the span of like five days or like two weeks oh oh this is a span of like 20 and maybe

02:14:17.320 one week i mean one month one month one month probably a month because i was like how did they all

02:14:23.860 feel how did they all feel about it were they like fist bumping one another yeah they would

02:14:27.940 bring me new guys they would be like genie the next batch is here like coming in from how did

02:14:33.240 how did this unfold where were you i was in alabama working at buffalo wild wings okay and one of them

02:14:38.460 came in and he was like yeah and then he would stay for me like after work and i'd be like we go

02:14:43.080 into my car and like we would go to my car after work like do it and then how did how did that

02:14:47.600 translate into yo you should sleep with my whole platoon it was like bring your friends to eat some

02:14:53.460 wings and then i was like oh they're cute and he was like i was like put me on and he like put me

02:14:58.120 on and then he like put me on another and put me on another and then they put me on a whole another

02:15:01.300 batch that would come in and i i was just going a little crazy then yeah yeah okay did they pay you

02:15:07.580 i love my country usa no no no like i said a thousand lives yeah i know because now i would like

02:15:16.380 how long ago was this you're 21 right yeah this was like when i was

02:15:20.300 into the mic oh i thought it was my neck this is when you were what this was during the time

02:15:29.260 i feel like you can't say that he was younger younger here's here's the real question here's the

02:15:36.200 real question genie what's your relationship like with your dad now it's good it wasn't he left

02:15:42.700 before i was born blame the father i do have daddy issues how long have you been in mommy issues how

02:15:47.880 long have you been in contact with your dad since i was okay so he came when i was 13 left came back

02:15:54.100 when i was 16 left lived with him for a bit for like a year that was bad and then now we're back

02:16:02.260 hold on they were each asking each other how their blank taste f sake man get the rocks okay

02:16:11.000 get the rocks abdul yeah get the rocks get the rocks bros all right let me just say something

02:16:17.620 for all the dudes listening bros this is why you must raise your daughters okay dudes please raise

02:16:23.640 your daughters thank you use me as a reference be there for your child huh yeah i'll get it i'll get

02:16:31.040 it i'll get it um be there for your child just a couple before i do that um so did you precisely

02:16:37.520 answer the period of time that this was going on yeah i didn't want to say like the younger age

02:16:42.480 because you were like earlier wait she said it was over the span of a month oh one month the platoon

02:16:46.760 yeah and you said it was 20 guys what do you have a platoon story too i have a question okay did you

02:16:53.200 think at any point that he may have been actually pimping you out like he was getting money oh it didn't

02:17:00.020 cost my mind okay um yeah i have hiccups now from the platoon thing

02:17:07.260 boom 20 okay the whole platoon all right yeah good times good times hey you know sometimes

02:17:17.760 it could have been a uh what what are some other units that in the military there's uh

02:17:23.340 it could have been a i didn't get that far a brigade is it wait a brigade battalion a battalion

02:17:30.080 sorry i'm talking i don't know no i don't know actually hold on let me look at the different

02:17:33.740 kinds of of uh for like a uh mili what is it what military for groupings is that what what it

02:17:42.540 would be military group names is that what you're trying to say military units okay so

02:17:45.960 oh my god why is it giving me this bullshit hold on they were rangers different kinds of military

02:17:51.880 units they were rangers so oh here we go okay so there's there's a platoon yeah there's there's

02:18:01.520 also a company bravo company okay do you think like maybe a company a battalion battalion i know that

02:18:08.400 a regiment i don't know there is a brigade a brigade a brigade is three thousand to five thousand

02:18:15.020 you know what we should start asking women not what their body count is but the how many is it how many

02:18:21.260 how many men in a military unit they can fill well has it been a platoon now if we start getting

02:18:27.820 into divisions if we get into divisions you should definitely do that there's corp there's corpse is it

02:18:33.160 cores core core field army field army like how bad are you how about that's like a hundred thousand

02:18:41.280 if you're like oh my god my vajayjay oh my god that would hurt y'all all right candy's like sign me up

02:18:51.420 i've already been there hey chase this one came through while you were gone

02:18:58.120 my donated 99 chase refresh yourself on gospel of john chapter eight your behavior is quite

02:19:06.760 inappropriate towards candy um all right thanks bro that's probably relevant to me roasting her a

02:19:13.240 second ago but uh i don't know man i don't know if i feel like that's fair i've spent like a large

02:19:19.500 portion of this podcast trying to call her away from a life of sin towards having faith in god and

02:19:24.580 believing that he can fulfill the longing of her heart so i like that you even did that and then at

02:19:30.560 the end what i what i liked it was at the end what did you like tell us what i'm trying to tell

02:19:34.660 you okay tell us what you want go ahead okay so at the end like i like how you were like

02:19:38.980 what do you don't make me forget you really oh if you don't want to you can't help you know you

02:19:43.160 can't change whatever if you don't want to change and then you like kind of stopped you know you

02:19:46.520 weren't like forcing it too much down her throat you were just like all right if you don't want

02:19:49.860 to change that's on you yeah i appreciate that all right all right all right all right i get it

02:19:55.260 the fuck is that holy sorry guys there's like a tractor going fucking by outside uh derrick for

02:20:05.960 the derrick the traitor question for the ladies when it comes to previous relationship can you name

02:20:09.620 one thing your ex did wrong and one thing you did wrong before you broke up starting with you go

02:20:16.560 question um i would say one thing i did wrong was not respect the relationship enough um and then

02:20:30.600 cheated on them no oh how did you what is what is that how did you disrespect the relationship um

02:20:35.440 or i feel like since we started dating at such a young age i was selfish more selfish than i think

02:20:43.680 i would be in a relationship now just because i was young so i was just like oh well i want to go

02:20:49.800 do this or i want to do that instead of just asking like how do you feel about me doing this yeah like

02:20:55.360 it wasn't really a partnership yeah it was more just like your world revolved around you yes yeah yes

02:21:01.220 and then what he did wrong was the whole like laziness and then kind of like

02:21:08.660 blaming it on me type thing like he felt like he wasn't a man and then it kind of like i feel like

02:21:15.380 always went back to me and he should have taken accountability yes yeah yeah and gotten on top of his

02:21:22.400 life yes yeah 100 what about you we literally live the same relationship no and we're like literally

02:21:28.460 the house thing like so and i lived in alana yeah oh girl you was ghetto too yeah yeah so there was

02:21:35.840 you lived in a trap house too i didn't live in a trap house but there was moments where i was like

02:21:40.280 going back and forth between like going to a trap house to do stuff like that i got arrested at one

02:21:46.720 point in my life as well um so i don't know if that's like a southern thing i think i think it might

02:21:52.780 be damn straight girl okay genie what about you what's your answer one thing you did wrong and one

02:21:57.880 thing he did wrong i think i didn't um don't tell me take him seriously okay i didn't respect him i

02:22:05.700 didn't take the relationship seriously i was just like all over the place i didn't really i don't

02:22:12.420 think i was ready for a relationship i wasn't i shouldn't have been in one and then he was just

02:22:16.000 really lazy didn't do anything he wanted me to do everything for him everything and then would blame me

02:22:21.640 and be like you demasculated me like you said that you would help me so you should and blah blah and

02:22:26.740 like he's like you said this is this and i was like yeah i said it but now i'm like all right do

02:22:30.740 something like i take it back like so he should have taken accountability as well yeah for sure how

02:22:36.840 do you feel like you disrespected him sometimes i feel like because sometimes i feel like something

02:22:41.760 he was good and i was like i was like okay maybe i was gaslit i was probably gaslighting him yeah

02:22:48.020 no i was gaslit oh you were gaslit by him yeah like my question was how did you disrespect him

02:22:53.940 i guess i didn't i take that back oh you never disrespected him i mean sometimes we fought a lot

02:22:59.020 i guess i disrespected him by downgrading him and maybe like i should have i'm like maybe i should

02:23:03.720 have like helped him more but like i did like i did a lot what do you mean you disrespected him by

02:23:08.280 downgrading him what does that like i'd be like why are you being so lazy why aren't you working like

02:23:12.080 you could be worrying that's you're just pathetic like you're not doing anything like you could have

02:23:15.560 got a job at burger king like i would i couldn't you could i don't think that's disrespect i think

02:23:19.280 a woman should hold her man to the standard of working i think we had similar things where like

02:23:23.980 you start to feel guilty because they kind of make you feel guilty yeah and so then you think that like

02:23:30.280 you said you're not respecting them or like being sensitive to them yeah but then there's also a

02:23:35.860 point like he's saying like they kind of have to like get it together yeah i mean i'll concede if he

02:23:42.220 was saying that you're being disrespectful to him for telling him he should get a job

02:23:46.340 yeah that's absolutely gaslighting he's being disrespectful to you by not getting a job and

02:23:52.940 making it a partnership he used to tell me because he like one time i got him ubers and stuff like

02:23:58.020 that and he was like you should be giving me that uber money not getting an uber i'll ride the train

02:24:02.400 give me the money and i'd be like because i don't you have a drug problem no no he just wanted

02:24:08.800 your 20 dollars he was one of my money yeah sounds like a cheap cheap guy yeah yeah he was

02:24:13.880 one of my money okay what about you uh so i'd say the thing that i did wrong was i had like i would

02:24:22.600 have male friends like i'd text them then like platonically and in the way i was with he didn't

02:24:28.980 like that but i just still kept talking to them because i mean i was like lonely like he would just

02:24:34.940 play his video games all day every day and i would just sit there and i'm like what else am i supposed

02:24:39.860 to do you know i had to i had to have somebody to talk to grid one motorsports donated 100

02:24:48.400 dollars no no it is not a southern thing it is a white trash thing please do better i grew up dirt

02:24:56.500 poor in tennessee but i made good choices and now i am no longer poor listening to the bammer girl is

02:25:02.880 like listening to four pack a day a lot lizards do better i love getting roasted these are so funny

02:25:08.980 keep it coming grid motorsports grid motorsports standing up for the honor of the south right now

02:25:14.560 very based very based props props grid motorsports for making something out of yourself too despite

02:25:20.040 growing up dirt poor um so it sounds like your boyfriend wasn't giving you attention

02:25:24.640 you wanted attention and you looked for attention from your male friends yeah i mean look if i was

02:25:33.140 in a relationship and my girlfriend if i was in a relationship and i was giving my girlfriend

02:25:37.360 plenty of attention but she was like texting other guys i'd be like yo yeah like what are you doing

02:25:42.400 stop or we're breaking up but if he's not giving you attention like it's on him and also i like didn't

02:25:48.480 stand up for myself i would just like kind of just do what they wanted me to do and i was literally

02:25:54.800 like at some point i was i was his mom i was doing his laundry i was picking up after him like just

02:26:00.000 because i felt trapped this whole side of the table is filled with mommy's you have mommy issues

02:26:05.920 as well uh yeah yeah i never knew my mom i was raised just by my dad sorry to hear that no it's okay

02:26:12.320 yeah sorry to hear about your dad too um okay she was like a bitch like you know yeah from what i've

02:26:19.840 heard she was like cluster b you know crazy whacked out okay stop uh mothering your boyfriends ladies

02:26:28.560 yeah well now i'm good yeah thankfully now i'm single well candy how about you one thing you did wrong

02:26:34.800 in a relationship with an ex and one thing he did wrong i think it's i don't know in hindsight the one

02:26:41.200 that i missed the most that i feel like i messed up um i smothered him but like when you are first

02:26:51.280 getting to know someone and you're really enthusiastic about who they are like you want

02:26:56.160 to spend a lot of time with them i think she could relate with that i knew you were gonna say that and

02:27:01.280 i was like um speechless yeah um what do you feel like he did wrong he was

02:27:11.120 just crazy he was straight up like super crazy define straight up super crazy you know what are we

02:27:19.520 talking like fringe types where they're an artist and they're passionate but they're way off the other

02:27:27.120 end like he i don't can you give an example i don't think i ever saw him one day when he was sober

02:27:35.120 damn yeah i think he's self-medicated with like acid wow i'm not that will make a man crazy

02:27:45.840 super crazy that's like 13 hours yeah that freaking sucks in a previous relationship one

02:27:54.240 thing you did wrong one thing your ex did wrong go ahead i'd probably be a shorter list saying what

02:27:58.640 he did right and the one thing i did wrong was not leave him sooner that's not that's wait what

02:28:07.280 wait there was too many things what did you do wrong in the relationship women never take

02:28:12.480 accountability for the i know yeah okay it'll be a rare day when that happens she didn't what what

02:28:16.960 did you do wrong in the relationship besides leave him sooner or not not leave him sooner what did you

02:28:21.360 do wrong um i didn't really have time to mess up he was always gone cheating okay you just that's

02:28:27.360 putting the accountability on him again like is there anything you you did nothing wrong she's

02:28:31.280 perfect she's perfect i guess that's the one relationship i can say i was perfect okay what

02:28:35.760 about a relationship where you weren't uh yeah probably talking to guy friends same thing ladies

02:28:42.800 yeah if you're trying to hold on to your relationship why are you talking to other dudes

02:28:46.720 okay i was like 18 just like the attention you know like it makes it there it's a good conversation

02:28:54.000 okay there's a great lesson here for all men and women watching dudes take care of your woman unless

02:28:58.640 you want her to start getting attention from other guys ladies if you start talking to other dudes

02:29:02.640 prepare for your dude to drop you yeah i mean that's true wait can i have you scoot your mic that way

02:29:08.800 please also your when you got up earlier the clip if you can uh if it's if it's too far into the

02:29:16.400 don't worry about it i thought i thought if it was next to you don't worry about it it don't worry

02:29:19.760 about it don't worry about it i thought if it was just next to you you could grab it but never

02:29:24.000 mind um wait just really quick on well just really quick on you you said that and i i was gone

02:29:30.160 i think when she responded but you said oh for the attention video games all the time and he would

02:29:35.200 never give her attention so she started texting her male friends for attention okay

02:29:41.600 which is on both of you guys yeah i mean he's on both of you guys a little bit there for sure

02:29:45.280 but completely messing up yeah what about you um one thing he did wrong one thing you did wrong

02:29:52.720 and one thing an ex did wrong okay can you center your mic yeah um can i say what he did wrong first

02:30:00.160 because it doesn't matter the order okay whatever um like a lot of assumptions and projection and then

02:30:06.960 it made me be like well if you're assuming it then i'm just gonna like do it so i'm just gonna like

02:30:13.280 text other guys delete messages like that was what i did wrong but i was just like what

02:30:20.960 if you're already thinking that i i'm doing it like oh when you go outside it's i mean like what

02:30:27.680 difference does it make what difference i mean let's like let that evolve for a second it's like

02:30:31.680 if a guy suspects his girlfriend of cheating but she's not actually cheating using that like using

02:30:35.920 that logic it's like well if you think i'm doing it i might as well just go sleep with other guys

02:30:40.240 not sleep i never did i know but like that's how over time like you keep like assuming like oh so

02:30:46.400 you went out today and guys talked to you like okay like you just get tired of hearing it so like

02:30:53.040 you're gonna that's what i did wrong so he was super jealous and you were like you know what i'm

02:30:56.320 tired of this i'm gonna feed the jealousy i guess yeah how long did the relationship last after that um

02:31:01.920 i mean on and off like a couple years like two years that sounds like a healthy relationship

02:31:10.000 i mean yeah just saying what i did wrong and he did wrong okay appreciate you owning it

02:31:17.280 how about you um i think that he had a lot of trust issues and what i did wrong was probably not

02:31:24.880 realized that i also did too so i fed into it and we bounced off each other with the trust issues

02:31:31.440 nice that sounds like a vicious cycle same thing there with with you actually with you uh this kind

02:31:36.960 of reminds me of this eminem song i am whatever you say i am if i wasn't then why would you say i am

02:31:46.320 is that the song what song is that but the ending part is like i wasn't that before so like i don't

02:31:52.160 know i don't know how to explain it i also feel like did you get anything out of texting those

02:31:57.920 other guys like did it satisfy you at all no would you like compare it to if someone kept telling you

02:32:04.080 like you're ugly you're fat you're this like eventually you start to believe i am ugly i am

02:32:09.200 fat i am this like would that be i wasn't believing it though i was just like you keep saying it so like

02:32:16.480 you're not gonna believe me either way so like if i answered to this text message or to this

02:32:21.920 dm like it doesn't even matter like it doesn't even matter like i'm being a good girlfriend

02:32:26.560 but like you're not that's insanely frustrating did you go yes bria um an ex of mine hid certain

02:32:33.840 vices of his that are traditionally deal breakers for me until we were a few months into a relationship

02:32:39.600 and hindsight is 2020 i should have just ended it there but i fell into the i can help him and fix

02:32:45.600 him mentality but um he perceived my help to overcome these vices as judgmental behavior and

02:32:55.440 maybe it was i i know a fault of mine is being very quick and harsh to judge certain behaviors and

02:33:03.200 um opinions that i don't agree with but interesting i don't know i feel like it's good to have standards

02:33:10.000 where you're like hey i don't i don't think these behaviors are acceptable sure yeah i feel like

02:33:16.240 it sounds like what he did was kind of like gaslighting in a way unless you were like

02:33:19.600 unless you were very rude or mean about it i never felt like i was but that's how he perceived it so

02:33:26.240 yeah i mean he kind of brought it upon himself by hiding the vices from you were you clear with him

02:33:30.240 that like stuff like that wasn't acceptable to you beforehand i was and then there were certain uh

02:33:35.200 uh incidences where it became very clear that he was engaging in certain behaviors and he

02:33:40.320 finally owned up to it and i was prepared to break up with him he begged me not to said he wanted to

02:33:45.280 change not only for me but for him and i encouraged it then he fell back into it and i became less

02:33:52.080 sympathetic to yeah to those issues okay cool well want to move on yep uh so genie you said that you

02:34:00.960 jumped out of a plane with your last ex for your first date yeah any detail you've had some crazy

02:34:10.080 now i kind of like it now i keep wanting to do it now i'm like message people on hand

02:34:13.760 you under a plane and if you don't answer you're not for me yeah i guess a plane you know because

02:34:18.160 of like the implication what what's the implication yeah you know it's kind of like if it's the same

02:34:23.520 thing with like if you're on a boat you know because of it what is because of the implication

02:34:29.040 it's sorry it's from like this show always sunny and oh there's this thing where if you take a girl

02:34:35.280 on the boat yeah it's a joke from it's okay you'd have to get the reference whatever um you said that

02:34:41.040 you said that you had a boyfriend that you never effed for a year because his d wouldn't get hard

02:34:47.280 because of all the cocaine he did that's facts was this in the trap house this was outside of the

02:34:53.520 trap house okay um yes but it was like living in a trap house with him you never why'd you stay

02:34:59.760 with him for a year yeah that's a long time i don't know no self-love uh i mean how old were you

02:35:05.280 younger as well so like 15 i had like many relationships in one at this you had many

02:35:11.200 relationships at the same time yeah some yeah i was kind of just dating around how many guys were

02:35:16.800 you dating two at one time at that time another what's the most that you've ever dated at one

02:35:21.200 time like because one another yeah sometimes we have girls who say they have like and men too who

02:35:26.720 say they have a roster they'll have like three four five six seven maybe even more people that they're

02:35:31.520 talking to maybe not sleeping with all of them but they could be sleeping with two three four five

02:35:36.720 people mine was just two okay one another good talk okay no that was literally it did they know

02:35:44.960 that you were talking to other people um well i knew they were too but i mean they didn't they didn't

02:35:49.760 know that i was but i knew that they were talking to other people because one time when i was dating

02:35:55.520 my last ex like my not my last ex on my last ex the one that locked me in the room i came into the

02:36:01.440 house he was in and he had another girl sitting on the couch and he threw a blanket over her head so i

02:36:05.920 went and see her face and i literally just walked in grabbed my shoes and then left and i was like

02:36:11.600 see you tomorrow and then left okay and then the last thing for you genie you say that women should

02:36:18.560 pay for guys if they make more money yeah and we kind of already talked about that a little bit that

02:36:23.840 you are a sugar mama for for men and uh what do the other girls here think though on the first date

02:36:29.680 who do you guys think should pay for those for the first date should it be split should the guy pay

02:36:33.360 what do you think i don't know i kind of you know you know i enjoy a man pain for me yeah you could

02:36:44.080 just said that okay that's fine i feel like there's a but i don't know if there's a but i think she just

02:36:48.880 i mean but i wouldn't mind also pain is the but like i i do see her point like but i do think that's

02:36:55.840 like a later on thing like if i'm in a partnership and we're you know married or something or getting to

02:37:02.000 that point then like it's okay if the woman makes more money and takes care of more things word okay

02:37:09.600 what do you think me um it kind of shows like i think yeah if he pays it's it shows he's like a

02:37:19.120 traditional guy and if that's what you're into then what are you into fine like traditional

02:37:24.080 why are you bashful about it i don't know it's just no one wants to wait here here's let me add

02:37:32.000 this in addition to who ought to pay or if you're okay with splitting actually let's go around the

02:37:38.240 table first then i'll do my follow-up so you're you prefer guys to pay for the first date what about

02:37:44.800 you i think it depends on who the pursuer is i mean if a guy says hey let's go out to dinner and he's

02:37:50.720 the one asking for the date that he should pay for it okay do you ask guys to dinner i don't yeah

02:37:56.960 see that's like the whole i mean saying whoever whoever asks should pay it's kind of ignoring

02:38:05.920 the fact that de facto men are going to be the ones generally speaking always initiating so your

02:38:10.720 answer may as well be men should pay but sounds like a good answer though i don't necessarily it's

02:38:16.160 like uh it's the spin it's fair but like i like asking girls more it's extremely rare that men get

02:38:23.280 asked out but anyways yeah what about you uh first instinct i always reach for the bill i feel weird

02:38:28.880 when other people pay so even if like a guy asks you out on date you want you would that's like my first

02:38:34.560 instinct yeah well because some women will do the the the fame where they oh reach for the purse but

02:38:42.720 secretly want the guy to still pay for it is that what you're talking about no like i actually go to

02:38:48.000 pay because i feel weird oh so you'll pay for the whole bill or you'll split yeah i'll usually just

02:38:52.240 pay for the whole bill how often do guys let you do that well i don't really go out on a lot of dates

02:38:59.040 i'm picky oh she's also canadian yeah did we not mention that no because i heard the oots or whatever

02:39:07.120 jess are both canadian yeah you're both from i think these are the first two canadians we've had

02:39:12.560 on the show so congratulations i mean welcome welcome to america you guys have been here before

02:39:20.400 to america anyways okay uh what about you i think the man but if you're a woman that like makes a

02:39:28.560 certain amount of money i feel like you just don't care like you get to a point of making so much money

02:39:33.600 that you're like if he pays he pays if he doesn't want to pay i don't really care because like money

02:39:39.200 doesn't really mean she's already got money yeah yeah yeah okay that's fair for me i love a good power

02:39:44.560 move so if and sometimes like when it's like more of a fight if they're like no i'm gonna pay for it

02:39:50.320 i'll like wait till they get all set up and i have my like apple pay and i'll pay for it

02:39:54.160 i don't know i just think it's funny and then they're like oh you shouldn't have but really i think

02:39:57.920 they like it okay all right uh go ahead um i always offer to split i do appreciate when they pay though

02:40:06.960 okay so for any of you here whatever your answers were um if the guy wanted to split on the first

02:40:14.240 date and i know some of you said you're fine with that if the guy said proposed hey let's split the

02:40:18.960 bill in as diplomatic or nice as a in in the most flattering light that one could say that uh would

02:40:26.320 there be a second date would you object to a guy wanting to split the bill would there be a second

02:40:31.440 date because we've had girls come on the show say no if the guy wanted to split just there wouldn't be

02:40:37.600 a second date i think i would take that and like thought of like if i want a second date but if he's

02:40:44.160 like a really good guy and i really enjoyed it then i wouldn't let something as simple as splitting the

02:40:48.800 bill like effect the next day i think we know your position you're cool with paying what about you

02:40:54.000 yeah like in this economy it's fine people pay oh okay i thought you could have taken that in

02:41:03.760 either direction in this economy men should pay okay go ahead i also think it depends on the date i mean

02:41:10.720 a lot of guys don't think outside the box anymore like it's just dinner but like if there's all kinds

02:41:16.080 of activities that you can do on a first date you know if the moon is full go out and walk underneath the

02:41:21.280 the moon is oh yeah you know go out and walk underneath the full moon to you know nature

02:41:26.400 whatever and if you happen to come across a street vendor you know buy your own or you know but what

02:41:33.360 was your answer to the first question you said that men should pay right asks he should for like a

02:41:38.080 traditional setting so let's say one of your young studs asks you out on a date he asks you do you want

02:41:47.680 him or excuse me would you be upset if he said hey let's split this i wouldn't be upset about it i

02:41:55.040 would probably have to wait for a payday

02:41:59.760 okay what about you uh that wouldn't affect my decision it's better than him telling you to pay

02:42:04.480 okay um second date i don't know you go on the first date with a guy he says let's split the bill

02:42:14.640 i feel like if you ask me to go on a date like you should be prepared to pay or like make it known

02:42:20.960 before have you ever asked a guy out on a date not on a date but i've gone out with the guy and paid and

02:42:29.360 not mine a guy you already knew who you've been seeing for a while yeah and not mine because i

02:42:34.000 knew that they're like a little brokey so i'm like all right a little broke okay but if if a guy did

02:42:40.400 ask to split the bill with you on a date i would just be like why weren't you prepared you like

02:42:44.880 wanted to set this up like i wasn't i don't know i'd just be like i probably wouldn't go back

02:42:52.000 cm donated 99.99 if you want us men to act traditional and pay the bill then be traditional

02:43:00.480 women and not have a full roster when the girl is exclusive then our wallet is exclusive stop buying

02:43:06.960 dinners for girls talking to 73 guys on tinder slash bumble don't be a sucker facts that's facts cm well

02:43:15.520 well said well said so there wouldn't be a second date you'd think he's a brokey uh what was the

02:43:22.480 other stuff he said no just be prepared prepared i feel like that goes for both he is prepared to

02:43:30.160 pay like both ends should go into the date having money just in case yeah i mean like i'm not a putt

02:43:36.320 like i yeah i'd probably pay for my share and then yeah i'd be like nah i'm good so you but you okay

02:43:42.880 so you wouldn't have a second date with the guy i don't think so i don't think so no okay okay all

02:43:50.000 right yeah

02:43:55.200 it just depends on the vibes i it's not it's not gonna mom answer okay no it is it's yes there

02:44:01.680 would be if it was like good like if we're splitting yeah but there wouldn't whether he

02:44:06.720 what if the vibes were bad but he paid for it would you still go on a second date with him

02:44:11.120 now it's yes is your face okay are you yes okay sorry i was just okay it would not affect my

02:44:22.080 decision for a second date or not okay cool all right you ever offered to split the bill on a date

02:44:29.040 oh all the time all the time i'm the king of splitting the bill what a rabbit hole not surprised

02:44:35.280 i am the king of splitting the bill look so if if i can tell that the girl is worthy

02:44:42.960 then i'll pay for it then i'll pay i'll pay it's then it's not i won't make a big deal like this

02:44:47.760 isn't a girl i want to be dating so yeah but if she's like a non-traditional chick you might but

02:44:53.600 then you might ask me brian why are you yeah dating a chick that's brian why are you dating

02:44:59.360 a chick that's non-traditional yeah it's a good question it's a good question uh why put money

02:45:04.960 into someone you're unsure about though well yeah exactly like first date that's yeah yeah exactly i

02:45:12.160 think the women should pay the whole bill actually but they're unsure about the guy too yes so it should

02:45:17.920 be 50 50 no that's my troll my that's my troll answer my real answer is is that okay there's a

02:45:24.240 couple different angles first off as a guy if you want to min max your success with women you should

02:45:28.800 pay for the first date let's get that out of the let's get that out of the way uh if you want to

02:45:32.960 min max your success you should definitely pay because there are some women who are going to object

02:45:37.840 to having to split or whatever um now on a purely principle level i think that in the current dating

02:45:45.280 landscape there's people are moving in very shifty ways people are talking to multiple people at the

02:45:49.680 same time people are dating multiple people at the same time people are sleeping with multiple people

02:45:54.320 at the same time and my standard is i would feel very i would feel like a sucker if i like took a girl

02:46:00.800 out on a nice date did all the gentlemanly chivalrous things all the while she's fucking like one two

02:46:08.240 three other dudes and you might say well brian wouldn't you know if she's she's a moving in that sort

02:46:14.720 of way there are some very unassuming women they could be they could be pleasant they could be

02:46:19.840 shy even on the more introverted side and have a roster and be sleeping with other dudes talking to

02:46:24.800 other dudes so just the way the dating landscape goes i feel and also i think that people go on so

02:46:31.600 many first dates like you you will hear from people that like girls for you guys to get a first date it's

02:46:39.280 super easy like if you guys wanted any girl here uh could probably if you wanted to go on

02:46:47.040 five first dates a week maybe more um

02:46:52.960 i feel like that's kind of your ego though because like what's like 50 or a hundred dollars like if it

02:46:58.320 doesn't work out it doesn't work out it's just food or it's just like 50 or 100 dollars for a lot of

02:47:03.280 men that's a lot of ego huh what does that have to do with the ego because he's like i would feel

02:47:08.000 what'd you say i feel like a sucker like why would you feel like a sucker because you're why for a

02:47:12.640 girl well i mean if you take out a girl if you take out a girl and she's got a roster of dudes it's

02:47:17.920 somebody sent in a super chat a few minutes ago they were like women want women want the traditional

02:47:23.360 treatment for men but why is men why why is a guy would i be motivated to treat a woman traditionally if

02:47:30.000 she's not living a traditional life like why would i want to roll out the red carpet for a woman

02:47:34.240 and treat her so right if she's got like a whole bunch of dudes she's sleeping with why would i ever

02:47:38.160 want to do that to add to that a lot of women want the benefits of being modern women while still

02:47:43.280 receiving all the benefits of traditional male courtship that's facts um so for example here's

02:47:48.880 one scenario that i i've frequently given let's say i bring i you said uh 50 to 100 date i

02:47:55.840 or 20 or 40 i don't know it just feels like even if i would not recommend men even if you're inclined

02:48:02.960 to pay the entire bill don't spend that much um you you can go get something reasonable like a cup

02:48:08.800 of coffee actually maybe a cup of coffee you can get you can do a free date you can get a cup of coffee

02:48:14.960 you can you can go grab you know a drink glass of wine whatever but i don't want to be in a situation

02:48:21.920 where for example and this happens to a lot of dudes you can go on a date with a girl spend 50 100

02:48:28.720 maybe you get a nice dinner or whatever and then date goes well she gives you a hug at the end of

02:48:34.800 the date date ends at 9 p.m she then goes over oh bear in mind there's some leftover food so she got a

02:48:41.120 doggy bag she took that doggy bag over to the guy's house who she's fucking who by the way never paid

02:48:48.400 for a first date never took her out he's just some hot dude who's always 11 p.m on a friday what you

02:48:54.160 doing come over never had to do any of that traditional courtship but he's really attractive

02:48:59.200 he's a he's charismatic or whatever whatever is the attraction trigger for her she just goes over

02:49:04.000 to his house immediately after the date gives him the doggy the doggy bag of the food that your date

02:49:09.520 just paid for you give him the food but why is this scenario always that the girl is like a hoe like

02:49:15.680 there's guys that are hoes too but you're portraying this whole like oh the bitch got

02:49:20.400 a whole roster well i mean it goes it goes the same way if you're if you're with a guy who's like

02:49:24.400 a girl invest into their date too like hold on hold on hold on if you're with a guy who's a player and

02:49:30.000 he's like sleeping around with a bunch of women but you're a woman who wants to be with him like

02:49:34.240 you shouldn't offer him your exclusivity and your devotion and like okay but like you said like

02:49:38.800 he just said about how the guy doesn't know what the girl has going on the girls sometimes don't

02:49:43.760 know what the guy has going on either so and girls put in a lot of work for their dates they

02:49:48.720 get their hair done they get their makeup done they get their nails done that's just his money

02:49:53.200 well let me okay let me address so sorry i didn't mean to interrupt do you want to finish your point

02:49:56.880 and i'll respond i'm just like feeling a lot of like okay like why does the bitch deserve like

02:50:04.080 a date your words i didn't say okay like why does the girl why does the woman deserve to get paid for

02:50:10.480 when like i don't really know what she has got going on like you time like will tell everything

02:50:16.240 so the girl's taking that chance to figuring out who the guy is right but there's the difference is

02:50:21.520 is that on a date as a guy going in the the most that i can expect is to split the bill there's no

02:50:28.880 very few guys can go into a date with the expectation that she's going to pay for everything

02:50:34.320 so it's specifically really it's it's not an equal dynamic in that sense in that men are either going

02:50:40.160 to be paying for the entire meal or splitting the bill if you're a traditional man you're the provider

02:50:45.920 right and you're saying but you don't want to lay out that red carpet for that's not that's not what

02:50:49.760 i'm saying if i if i take a girl that i really like out on a date i'm going to pay for the date but

02:50:53.600 if i find out i mean if i i wouldn't date a girl that was doing this anyways because i can just yeah but

02:50:59.360 like if if i if if i took out a girl who was like talking to other guys and stuff and i could detect

02:51:04.720 that there's zero percent chance i would roll out the red carpet for okay so but like if i'm getting

02:51:10.560 to know a girl i'm still going to pay for the first date sometimes though there's been girls there's

02:51:15.760 been girls that i've detected like a possible princess complex with and i've taken them to like

02:51:20.080 very inexpensive places and then not paid for their meal just to see how they would react that's a

02:51:24.640 fun little test that you can do as a guy too but uh yeah it's like what brian is saying look he has

02:51:30.240 a different style like if he doesn't want to pay 50 bucks for a first date you know that's like his

02:51:34.480 his preference if i really like a girl i'm going to do it much has that happened to you before where

02:51:40.480 like the girl was like sleeping with is that why you think that are you just i don't well i mean

02:51:46.080 i don't have it's the modern it's the modern dating marketplace like you take a girl out here

02:51:50.720 in isla vista for example because i would never do that it's it's like this there's a lot a lot

02:51:55.840 of women who move like this you take you take a girl out here in santa barbara for example there's

02:51:59.920 a pretty high chance that she's like talking to other guys yeah talking to multiple guys at the

02:52:04.240 same guys aren't or it's not about whether or not the guys are the point is if you like a girl and you

02:52:09.920 want to take her out around here there's a high chance that she's talking to other guys and if you

02:52:13.280 know that she is it's like why would i roll out the red carpet for you if you're talking to these

02:52:17.760 other guys completely flip maybe she could be the one though yeah maybe so like just depends on

02:52:23.440 whether or not your dice like it depends on whether or not the guy wants to take that gamble

02:52:27.440 yeah exactly it's just like a chance situation wait why do you do the princess treatment thing

02:52:33.760 why do i do the princess treatment thing you want them to like not be princessy so you like test them

02:52:39.120 yeah i've like for example there was a girl that was a model that i took out like eight years ago

02:52:44.400 or something like that and she was like super sought after in the industry and like fashion

02:52:48.720 models often have like a lot of guys throwing themselves at them with a lot of money and i was

02:52:54.400 like yo let's go to chipotle i'm not gonna pay for your meal let's just see how you respond and she was

02:52:59.440 totally cool with it and she was super humble and down to earth yeah and i was like that and like i

02:53:04.480 when i found that out i was like i would be down to really invest money in future dates yeah you know

02:53:10.160 because i was like i really like your character but if on the spot if she had been like are you

02:53:14.720 kidding me i would have been like nope peace in the situation that we're coming up with though you

02:53:19.520 would probably know that about a person if they're like talking to other people or like have that kind

02:53:25.040 of attitude well if you're asking them on the first date you probably met them at some a lot of

02:53:30.240 people meet on dating apps that's true that's true i wouldn't i mean you there's a lot of unassuming

02:53:36.720 women who you might not think that they're seeing multiple people but they are and look guys move

02:53:45.040 in shady can move in shady ways too yeah it goes both ways like if you're a chick feel out the guy

02:53:50.320 like don't yeah make yourself to a guy if he's not like going to commit but then that goes back to

02:53:54.800 why you should just probably split it sure sure you can well you you were saying something about how

02:54:03.120 women do a lot more to get ready for the date do you did you want to elaborate invest i don't know

02:54:08.960 i don't know if anybody can like no i agree i see what you're saying guys they get a haircut they take

02:54:14.800 a shower no i wouldn't say that i have a question though i've got a lot to say about that but go on

02:54:22.080 i've got a lot to do i would like to know what men prepare themselves for you see if a guy is asking

02:54:29.600 years listen listen if if a guy is asking a girl out on a date and she's she finds him attractive

02:54:36.080 she finds him valuable he's got confidence he's got game all that kind of stuff and she says yes

02:54:40.960 to going on the date with him he prepared himself to become that kind of man for years in advance all

02:54:47.360 you have to do as a woman is just show up to the put put on your makeup and just show up to the date

02:54:52.000 the guy has to work on his career to be able to take you out to a nice dinner if you're into fit

02:54:56.880 guys he's got to spend years in the gym working on his physique he's got to make something of

02:55:01.360 himself so that he's successful and has confidence there's years of work that go into it beforehand

02:55:06.000 it's not like the guy just guys that just take like there's guys that don't have a crazy career

02:55:11.520 there's yeah yeah don't have a crazy body that ask girls on dates yeah for sure but if you want if

02:55:16.960 if you're a guy who wants like a really high value very attractive woman like it's it's a different

02:55:21.120 story you know and a woman like that is gonna want to doll herself up and want the guy to pay for

02:55:26.480 the date but there's work that goes into that i i have a question though kind of related to this

02:55:31.600 so do women wear makeup for men no we do it for ourselves oh but when it comes to feel pretty

02:55:39.520 so right hold on so women don't wear makeup for men but men need to pay for first dates because

02:55:46.960 you wear makeup i didn't but you don't do it for the man but he has to pay for it even though you

02:55:52.800 don't do it for him we're not do i mean can anybody like do you wear makeup for men i would

02:55:58.720 say yeah i wear not just for men but for myself we'll come back to that donated 100 men do not to

02:56:06.880 make bad investments of time efforts and money with the modern non-traditional women there can be no

02:56:12.320 first dates meet at a social event such as cars slash coffee or a trip to the range get to know here

02:56:19.040 and see if she is playing you yeah thank you one based based comment very good input bro go ahead

02:56:26.640 i think i would be lying if i said i didn't wear makeup for men i would say i wear makeup to look

02:56:31.520 pretty for other people so i mean yeah wearing makeup for men yeah i wore makeup for them into the mic

02:56:38.320 i wore makeup for all of you men is that a sarcastic no it's dead serious i gotta cover

02:56:45.680 up these underbags no but like generally speaking though when you wear makeup like when you feel

02:56:52.560 pretty you have a better day or like you know what i'm yeah i see what you're saying also i do wear it

02:56:57.360 for myself yeah i feel pretty but to say i don't wear it for other people to think i'm pretty i feel like

02:57:02.640 that's yeah i think but what he was saying was no for the date you well if i understood you guys

02:57:10.000 correctly you're like yeah the guy should pay for the first date i'm putting on makeup and getting

02:57:14.800 ready i didn't say makeup i just said like girls also invest in themselves to you know look good for

02:57:21.360 that different ways i'm not saying it's is it a different investment than then than they would make

02:57:27.440 on a daily basis though do you do anything extra when you go on a date or like i would say some

02:57:33.200 girls buy outfits some girls like yeah i mean that's not a new outfit you don't know that's on

02:57:38.800 you i would say i have how much how much does like a fraction so what do you do when you like get ready

02:57:44.640 for a date just like what i would do if i was going to meet like you're way too far from the mic has

02:57:49.760 that been the case the entire show no it's okay go ahead oh no just anything that i would do if i

02:57:58.400 were meeting some friends for dinner or something of that sort if i was going to a business meeting

02:58:02.880 i do the exact same thing so yeah i do want to make sure i do put effort into my appearance i'm not

02:58:07.520 denying that but i don't do anything different on like i don't buy things specifically for the date i

02:58:14.640 already have the things that i use the material items that i would use for that date i already

02:58:19.760 have them i don't buy them specifically most women do buy stuff though i think you do more

02:58:26.000 to yourself than you would sitting at home alone yeah yeah yeah and like going out to the grocery

02:58:31.360 store or something but i mean if you were going to work or going to class or meeting up with your

02:58:36.080 girlfriends or something would you i think it would still be more for most women i do more for a date

02:58:41.840 than friends or work or whatever what if i told you as a guy me personally i detest makeup maybe a

02:58:47.600 little bit of eyeliner is fine i don't like women who wear makeup if i said you know what you can have

02:58:52.560 a pass you don't have to wear me and i've actually done this i've said you know what don't wear you

02:58:56.880 don't need to wear makeup with me i don't give a fuck um i wouldn't wear makeup yeah okay yeah my ex

02:59:03.680 don't bother wearing makeup i don't yeah don't wear perfume i don't like perfume either yeah i wouldn't

02:59:07.840 perfume i wouldn't do it wait i have a question for you though uh if let's say conceivably the guy

02:59:15.840 spent more money on his appearance in some way than the woman should should the woman now pay for

02:59:20.720 the first date like let's say i you know i did something special like a toxic should should the

02:59:27.760 woman now pay for the date if i spent more money i mean getting ready what if it's like think okay

02:59:33.280 here's the scenario metrosexual dude who's like gets his fucking eyebrows down and shit gets a

02:59:38.800 brand new fresh fucking haircut um exfoliates i don't know what the fuck these guys are doing

02:59:44.960 versus like a spiritual chick who's kind of like

02:59:50.320 spiritual and doesn't wear makeup doesn't shave her armpits she doesn't put a lot of

02:59:55.040 how are she's no deodorant different people i don't know let's say they like each other who should

03:00:00.560 pay i mean isn't the guy always um sorry isn't the guy usually usually what um like pursuing i mean

03:00:11.840 this guy's metrosexual and she's crunchy she's pursuing him oh my gosh then if she asked him on

03:00:17.440 the date then yeah she should pay again you can kind of read the vibes before this even happens do

03:00:22.400 you think women wear makeup for men i think women wear makeup to fit in with other women but

03:00:29.440 some women wear makeup to look good for men it's like a you know like a bird with colorful feathers

03:00:36.720 it's kind of like to attract a maid it's just i think what do you guys think about this what if

03:00:40.960 we just totally got rid of makeup so that you wouldn't have to compete with other women so it would

03:00:45.680 just lower because i feel like it's a game of almost one-upsmanship it's a competition like oh

03:00:51.520 other women are wearing it so now i need to like out of necessity i must also be on this

03:00:57.520 right in the same trend in the same way with uh sports right you have these athletes who will

03:01:02.880 start doing steroids now all the other athletes feel like in order to compete i too must now do

03:01:08.720 steroids so when you think about that shit i would be down for the no makeup like honestly get rid of

03:01:15.760 fucking makeup if you would have texted us and been like i don't want makeup on the podcast i

03:01:20.320 honestly would have been fine with it okay yeah i never wear makeup for the show maddie donated one

03:01:26.320 hundred dollars thank you i believe in wives submitting to their husbands my xbf demanded complete

03:01:32.720 submission do men esp godly men expect complete submission before marriage is it even right god talks

03:01:41.200 about submission in the context of a marriage no panels thoughts uh i'll take this first no it's

03:01:48.720 not right for a boyfriend to expect complete submission for what from a woman uh complete

03:01:54.240 submission is something biblically speaking that is exclusively reserved for marriage if you have a

03:02:00.000 boyfriend who's expecting complete submission from referencing the bible that's not then to the

03:02:04.560 event donated 99 women wearing makeup is equivalent to a man renting a lamborghini both are temporary

03:02:12.560 give a false sense of confidence and are used to attract the opposite gender okay i like that that's a

03:02:18.640 that's a pretty decent one i think when it comes to the whole makeup thing i think you kind of have to

03:02:22.880 pick a lane though so women constantly say that they don't wear makeup for men they don't do the

03:02:27.440 various things that they do to to improve their physical appearance they don't do it for men but

03:02:33.040 frequently use these things that they do to improve their appearance or when it comes to wearing

03:02:37.600 makeup as pretext as she just did for justifying why men should pay for first dates so i feel like

03:02:43.920 you got to pick a lane either women don't wear makeup for men or they do

03:02:52.160 fair good talk okay i think whether they're conscious of it or not they do yeah there's no

03:02:56.880 question there there's there's a comparison that women put on each other and you might be

03:03:01.520 you doing your makeup to look like a certain person that you aspire to to be or embody like

03:03:10.560 a lot of people choose celebrities that they may somewhat resemble and they they try and emulate that

03:03:16.320 type of uh that type of look that they might have but ultimately is it is to one up other women so

03:03:22.320 that you get attention from men yeah yeah i i this is like honestly a silly conversation to me i've noticed

03:03:28.720 when women hang out in groups alone not around other guys hairs up sweatpants on no makeup nothing

03:03:35.840 like that they go out in public makeup if there were no dudes where they were going out in public

03:03:40.160 they might wear a little bit but when there's dudes you know they do all the work like it's

03:03:45.680 it's just it's not a question i feel like you even said it at the end of your whole spiel i was kind

03:03:50.000 of i was like laughing to myself a little bit because you were like yeah you know like even if i'm hanging

03:03:53.920 out with my girlfriends like you know like we'll put on a little bit of makeup whatever and then at

03:03:58.000 the end of it you i can't remember how you put it you were like it you're like it's like a mating

03:04:01.200 strategy you know like a like a peacock with its feathers you know it's like that's it is a mating

03:04:06.000 strategy for the opposite sex or whoever you want to attract like conscious of it they do it

03:04:09.920 subconsciously no but just because it's not it's not a conscious action doesn't mean it's any less true

03:04:15.360 yeah yeah a man's face is his autobiography and a woman's face is her work of fiction

03:04:24.000 oh that is a brutal quote

03:04:29.040 who is that what that's a brutal what do you mean it's true it's it's true

03:04:34.000 what what does your autobiography say about you brian yeah

03:04:38.080 what do you mean my autobiography said a man's face is his autobiography what does your

03:04:41.280 autobiography say about you i broke my nose and in in uh fucking junior varsity

03:04:49.840 wrestling in high school

03:04:51.520 is that your story

03:04:55.440 yeah i i don't know um you don't know whether a part of your biography is a true story no that's

03:05:02.240 a true story oh it is you weren't so sure i did i was in on the jv wrestling school

03:05:07.760 in high school and i broke my nose um good talk uh nice what really i want to move on from the

03:05:15.840 makeup thing but one last thing related to this do you guys would you guys object actually wait

03:05:21.920 hold on before i ask this question going around the table um how tall are you and then do you have

03:05:26.720 related to what you said do you have a height preference when it comes to men

03:05:29.920 like maybe what's your height and then bare minimum bare minimum go ahead um i'm five seven

03:05:36.000 and just taller than me i prefer so five eight that's cool okay um i'm five six and i think like

03:05:44.560 five eight taller than me sure um like almost five seven and i think just as long as they're like

03:05:50.080 as tall as me it's fine how tall is your question hold on how tall is your current boyfriend

03:05:56.240 um i think he's six foot six feet okay what about you she doesn't have a boyfriend five seven i think

03:06:04.320 oh okay what about you i'm five four yeah and you said she said she likes dudes five eleven five

03:06:10.320 eleven over yeah have to be circumcised five eleven or taller no older than 28 or 29 depending on

03:06:16.560 personality right sure what about you um i'm five seven i used to always want way taller but my boyfriend

03:06:23.280 now is five eight and i don't mind it okay so you have that six foot energy

03:06:30.000 taller than that energy okay five seven just taller than me how tall is your boyfriend probably like

03:06:39.520 five eleven six okay um i'm like five five and just taller than me is fine all right there's a lot

03:06:47.280 of cap stop the cap there's a lot of cap priya what about you um i'm five eight i prefer men to be

03:06:52.880 taller than me but i have dated the majority of men that i've dated have actually been the same height

03:06:56.800 as me okay all right well how tall did you say you were five eight now i have a question here

03:07:03.440 though related to the height thing so and related to the makeup thing would you feel cheated if you

03:07:10.960 went out on a date on his tinder bio he said he was six feet only for you to find out that when he was

03:07:18.800 on a date with you he was actually wearing shoe inserts to make him three to four inches taller

03:07:24.080 do you feel that that would be that's uh you know you'd be upset i wouldn't be upset i would be a

03:07:31.040 little confused i feel like shoe inserts you wouldn't you wouldn't get the ick huh you wouldn't get the

03:07:36.960 ick but why would you be and why would you maybe get the ick because i would just be like confused about

03:07:41.360 the situation but i wouldn't feel like cheated and or mad you'd be confused though why would you be

03:07:46.880 confused or how um i just feel like i don't know i just i've never came across that so it'd just be

03:07:54.480 different i guess but you do you do acknowledge that women care about men's height yes i do okay um

03:08:03.360 so why would you be confused about a guy wanting to i would understand why he's doing it but i would

03:08:07.840 just be confused about the whole situation sure okay what about you i would not like it if he okay

03:08:16.240 i'd like him to be like truthful and i'd maybe feel like kind of bad for him because that he feels

03:08:22.160 like he has to do that to get a date you know okay i'll i'll go around the table go ahead is it for

03:08:30.480 vanity or for medical reason there's no there's no medical reason to wear shoe inserts i'm not talking

03:08:37.200 about like dr shoal's comfort like i'm talking shoe inserts to make him three to four inches

03:08:42.320 taller what you were listening right yeah okay so it's not for medical reasons no would you care no

03:08:51.360 you wouldn't care no you just said okay he's five foot seven which is shorter than your preference

03:08:58.400 of five eleven he's wearing four inch shoe inserts to make him five eleven but he's actually five

03:09:04.160 seven don't care i'd be like what's up with that but you i wouldn't hold it against but he's no

03:09:10.240 longer five eleven he's five seven yeah he takes off his shoes and all of a sudden he's short yeah

03:09:14.960 i'd be like what's up dude so you wouldn't care you i'd ask why okay but would you care like he's

03:09:21.120 like oh i wanted to appear taller would you care if he said i just wanted to appear taller then i'd be

03:09:26.640 like okay can you put your shoes back on he's not actually 5 11 though but okay what about you i'd

03:09:35.040 rather him be honest but if he wants to be taller then go for it i'd probably call him out and then

03:09:41.680 you'd call him out yeah i'd just be like why how would you call him out here's okay you're on a date

03:09:47.040 with the dude he's right he's sitting right here and he you're on the date he says he's six feet

03:09:52.800 uh-oh well i know you said you height wise it's not a big thing for you in any case he's wearing

03:09:58.320 four four inch i'd be like was that a typo like what's what's wrong with that bio or whatever i

03:10:05.040 don't know i'd just be like what like why sure okay what about you i think i would just laugh but

03:10:11.680 i'm sorry if you're insecure about your height insecure i see okay priya what about you i mean i

03:10:16.720 wouldn't appreciate the deception but i don't imagine myself being so i see wouldn't appreciate

03:10:22.240 the deception and just remind me what you said something interesting what what was your thing

03:10:26.000 again i said that i'd feel like maybe pity for him that he feels like he even has to

03:10:30.400 why does he have to do that because he thinks that that's what girls want i mean that is what girls want

03:10:35.600 but okay so so he has to like change himself i'm just curious why of all your answers that you

03:10:42.640 provided that feeling that it made you feel to know that this guy misrepresented his height by

03:10:48.960 wearing these shoe inserts why do you have to do that why do y'all do the shit you do when it comes

03:10:55.200 to your appearance and i think i don't know if it was you who said insecure are women insecure by wearing

03:11:02.240 makeup a lot of the times yes uh yeah it's more of like an enhancer i'd say like to enhance your

03:11:08.240 natural beauty but so you're not you're not secure with your normal beauty no i didn't say i wasn't

03:11:14.560 okay of course there's degrees to it yeah i was gonna say a lot of the times i don't well sure i

03:11:20.400 don't think it necessarily indicates insecurity because a woman might recognize for some utilitarian

03:11:25.120 purpose for example especially if you're in the entertainment business that looking more physically

03:11:29.920 attractive has some sort of benefit so i it doesn't necessarily indicate insecurity it could be used for

03:11:35.920 a utilitarian purpose but you could still argue that you're despite that you're insecure but um

03:11:42.400 that's a very specific situation but it is a very specific situation and i'd say most women who wear

03:11:46.880 makeup are not involved in the entertainment industry um so i just called y'all insecure for

03:11:55.680 wearing makeup hello do you guys want to attack me hello you can't like generalize though it's not that

03:12:00.480 we're insecure it's just i think it's different for every type of girl makes us feel better about

03:12:05.120 ourselves i think so you're not you feel you feel lesser than right you said it makes you feel

03:12:11.520 better about yourself no that's the words that came out of your mouth why don't you just feel good

03:12:17.120 about yourself without the need to paint your face i don't know people people treat you nicer if

03:12:23.760 you're prettier and it's just it's like a strategy i do not think that is the case a lot well i know

03:12:28.240 yes well yeah pretty privilege pretty privilege but like if you're talking just kindness no if

03:12:34.000 you're talking about getting like getting stuff getting things then yes your personality makes

03:12:39.520 you prettier i would say it depends on the day also like there's days where i have no makeup on

03:12:44.720 and i feel prettier than when i have makeup on so again that just goes back to like day by day basis

03:12:50.000 like some days you're feeling really good some days you're not feeling as good and maybe to feel

03:12:54.240 a little better that day because something else was bothering you you put on some makeup yeah yeah

03:12:58.400 i just think this men never asked for any of the weird that y'all do long nails long nails

03:13:06.400 long eyelashes makeup some do though some pay for you to get that stuff done yeah that is pretty

03:13:12.880 pretty rare though me and all my friends like i don't know about here but in canada do you uh chase do

03:13:19.680 you prefer like a more what what like natural appearance without i prefer i prefer a naturally

03:13:26.320 beautiful woman i do not like a lot of makeup on a woman if it's to the point where i can like

03:13:30.560 it's obvious to me i'm like that's that's actually unattractive to me but i will say there

03:13:36.320 are guys who do like that like there's definitely girls on only fans who have like that category where

03:13:42.000 guys like that look like like the you know huge fake tits and like big lips it is true there are

03:13:50.000 guys like a lot of makeup long nails it's also i feel like that's like a sex thing though it could

03:13:56.720 be but some end up with that woman and they like that girl that they can buy the nice bags for the

03:14:02.240 expensive shoes like they like a done up woman yeah all i know is if i go on a date with a girl and she

03:14:08.000 looks like a drag queen on the day i'm like not down it's also taught to us from a very early age

03:14:13.680 like you look at any magazine any any beauty magazine you look at barbie you look at brats you

03:14:19.600 look at any of the the toys they all got painted on makeup on them and it teaches us from a very young

03:14:25.680 age that you have to look like that to be pretty down with cosmo and then you know you guys will say oh

03:14:31.840 well i like a natural woman when well why are they teaching us from a young age then that that's

03:14:37.440 because it's a billion dollar profit off of it the cosmetic industry is a billion dollar

03:14:44.240 industry so we're all suckers and you want to punish us for it no we're not no we're we're

03:14:48.640 literally sitting here telling you don't wear so much makeup like don't spend your money on this

03:14:53.440 stuff don't like that's not what we want we want natural beauty i tell this whole industry this

03:15:00.560 industry that you're describing the whole thing is geared around making women feel insecure and

03:15:05.120 like they're not good enough so they have to buy makeup so they have to buy implants you know get

03:15:09.520 plastic surgery do all these things like i as a man i'm sitting here telling you that's toxic like

03:15:14.320 don't engage with that yeah a lot of men like real natural beauty and that i do agree with that hold

03:15:20.640 on one second that i'm sorry but that natural beauty can be external but it can also be internal

03:15:26.880 women can cultivate natural internal beauty and that is extremely attractive to a man well i think

03:15:32.640 that also goes to the confidence thing how we said earlier like we like men with confidence like

03:15:37.840 typically if you see a woman and she went to the club or a bar and she has no makeup on and is

03:15:43.040 just wearing jeans you're like holy shit that woman's like really confident in herself so i

03:15:47.760 think like you're saying like it makes the woman more what did you have i do agree but

03:15:52.320 um i feel like a lot of guys might think like oh this girl's natural and like they'll have botox

03:16:01.200 or they'll have a little bit of lip filler and they won't even know or like guys on instagram will

03:16:05.840 look at girls and they'll be like oh she's like not wearing any makeup little do they know like

03:16:10.240 they're doing like a natural beat or something they're using guys are a little bit clueless so then

03:16:14.400 it's like well i'll tell you this if if a woman gets like a little bit of that stuff done then it's okay

03:16:19.360 well it can be difficult to tell i mean it's still like i don't know it doesn't doesn't like

03:16:24.160 sit right with me to know it but like a woman can get a little bit done and it's difficult for a guy

03:16:28.640 to tell but when chicks get a lot of it done it's real easy to tell and it creates like it's like

03:16:35.120 weird to look at okay of course yeah no people start looking weird i agree but it's like okay what if you

03:16:41.200 have like okay i'm trying to think of a scenario what if you oh is this boring no no go ahead what's

03:16:53.520 your story i'm trying to think like do more okay what if you got with a girl and you're like oh my

03:16:59.120 god she's like all natural like um like i love her like she doesn't wear makeup and then like you find

03:17:06.240 out later she's like oh yeah like i got my tits done like five years ago like they just like felt

03:17:10.560 natural or something she's like oh yeah i've gotten botox like i've gotten lip filler i've gotten like

03:17:16.160 there's no such thing as natural feeling fake tits okay i've got a laser vision

03:17:21.280 for fake titties i know i know i just look boom they feel the brain does the calculations i mean you

03:17:28.000 haven't seen every girl with the boot it's like it's like gohan right there but what if you never

03:17:33.280 know fake titties huh i bet i could show you someone on instagram like i don't i wouldn't want

03:17:38.160 to because i don't wouldn't want to like put them on here but i don't think you would know all doubt

03:17:42.640 is removed once i feel the titties i can tell okay look i can watch a woman move and immediately

03:17:48.720 be able to tell whether or not they're real okay okay the tits what if you're dating a girl i'm not

03:17:54.400 big on titty-fucking and she not my favorite she has had work done and you just didn't know and you

03:18:00.400 think that she's beautiful like she has a great smile great teeth like clear skin she's natural

03:18:05.680 and then she's like oh i'm going for like my filler appointment then you're like ew ew what

03:18:10.400 the fuck you're getting your like lips done she's like yeah i've gotten it done like twice before

03:18:15.040 and you're already like six months in honestly you're gonna like her less you would not sit well

03:18:19.600 with me yeah but what's so bad about it like if the girl like because i feel like i've explained

03:18:25.680 this on previous podcasts i feel like i'm getting catfished as to who you actually are and on like a

03:18:30.640 deep biological level it's like i want to know okay if i'm if i'm marrying a woman and we're going to

03:18:35.680 create kids i want to know what are the materials i'm actually working with here okay and if i find out

03:18:40.880 up front then and you still loved her as a person and you still found her naturally beautiful even

03:18:47.040 though it wasn't natural but it looked naturally beautiful that's that's a different that's a different

03:18:51.680 story that's a different story but like to her question like hiding it in a way yeah like if if

03:18:57.040 if she like hid it hiding it like she said that she's going to her filler appointment you just never

03:19:01.600 knew like well i'm i'm just telling you the instinct i would have upon finding it out like something

03:19:06.160 would like not sit right with because it wouldn't just be about what she looked you're thinking about

03:19:10.080 when i have kids with her when i do this it's not even like a conscious thought yeah it's like it's

03:19:16.080 like a biological instinctual thing it's like oh that what i see is not what so i can't meet with

03:19:21.920 someone that has like plastic surgery like you guys look down on girls that i'm not saying i'm not

03:19:26.880 saying i look down on girls who i do a little surgery but it's it's i do a little bit it's not

03:19:30.640 my chase is a nicer guy than i am it's not my preference i look down like dentist work like how

03:19:35.680 you guys think about that what are they called the veneers i mean i saw i saw a video on tiktok like a

03:19:40.960 year ago of some chick who like had her teeth and was like raven dt donated this is a good thread

03:19:46.720 but personally i am looking for a life partner i would not want a woman with fake breasts because

03:19:53.040 they increase her risk of breast cancer and they have to be redone every few years risking your

03:19:58.720 health to make yourself look like a barbie doll is a nip hunt well well put that's a fantastic point

03:20:04.560 we talked about this on a previous podcast so health is your concern no that's one concern

03:20:09.360 there's a lot there's a lot of concerns and we're just talking personal preferences here as

03:20:13.840 well okay yeah yeah uh yeah women can get breast implants and they can cause like severe autoimmune

03:20:19.280 reactions over time i got read all the stuff yeah okay yeah so you've got that aspect of things but

03:20:24.480 yeah for for me it's just like it's a personal preference not to have those things and like i said

03:20:29.920 there's just like a biological instinctual thing that happens for me when okay but what about the teeth

03:20:33.840 thing oh yeah i'm just so curious there's there's there's this chick on tiktok who uh

03:20:38.480 looked pretty rough before putting makeup on i know what you're talking about you know what i'm

03:20:41.920 talking about talking about looked pretty rough before putting makeup on had no teeth looked like

03:20:46.400 a recovering man nick could you find the video please nick please find this video the the prompt

03:20:52.320 you should type is hold on hold on she didn't just get you'll see the the prompt you should search

03:20:57.200 for nick is it's so gnarly like tiktok woman with no teeth makeup transformation

03:21:02.080 it's so gnarly i mean even even veneers like i i wouldn't be a fan of veneers like i'm i'm

03:21:10.960 it's just it's like biological like my my dna is like a freaking heat-seeking missile for good

03:21:16.240 genetics okay so i'm just like trying to figure out where is the line of like bettering yourself

03:21:21.920 and then like bettering yourself too much getting classic surgery is i don't think he thinks getting

03:21:26.960 seriously bettering yourself i'll put it like this okay if a woman takes good care of herself

03:21:32.000 she eats properly not just hygiene like exercises but also eats the proper foods to support a woman's

03:21:40.160 nutritional needs because a lot of women for example they like they way over stress their bodies

03:21:45.360 jack up their cortisol it can make them gain weight puts the fat in the wrong places on the body that

03:21:50.880 kind of yeah gut health but also like women should like if a woman can eat in a certain pattern

03:21:57.520 according to her ovulation cycle like a woman has women have specific nutritional needs who knows

03:22:03.600 her body who knows her body knows how to take care of it because women take care when women when

03:22:08.000 women take care of their bodies properly you can look so it makes a woman look way healthier and

03:22:13.200 more attractive taking care of herself like that and exercising that goes way farther than a lot of

03:22:17.920 this other stuff that's what i've always said not not necessarily if you if you just buy the proper

03:22:22.800 foods and eat them at the proper time to exercise what'd you say because they basically ruined our

03:22:28.160 food supply here in the united states this is true you have to buy all organic yes i just have but

03:22:33.840 that's just i know what it takes and it can be extremely expensive i agree honestly isn't that in

03:22:40.240 addition part of the deal though in addition to what a person chase has said about you know the potential

03:22:45.760 impact on health i think it's also can be an indicator of her values her personality um typically

03:22:54.480 hyper focus on one's own appearance to the point that you're going to spend thousands of dollars and

03:22:59.200 undergo not medically indicated dangerous and unnecessary cosmetic surgery can be proxy for

03:23:07.920 one body dysmorphia that's then proxy for mental illness um i think most people don't want

03:23:15.200 to date someone who is mentally ill so hyper focus on one's own appearance that's excessive

03:23:20.000 that's excessive vanity and i just on its own excessive vanity is unattractive um now if it gets

03:23:27.920 into the mental illness territory that's a whole nother thing and yes i do think that women who spend

03:23:34.960 thousands of dollars to mutilate their bodies and insert toxic materials into them for again not

03:23:41.520 medically indicated purely cosmetic reasons are mentally ill it sounds crazy yeah um so i ergo i

03:23:51.280 think it's a product of the illness of the modern world yes i don't put the entire blame on women

03:23:55.760 because there's a lot of there's a lot of pressure there's a lot of messaging there's a lot of

03:23:59.840 messaging james donated 99 fixing teeth is completely different than getting plastic surgery fixing your

03:24:08.880 teeth a direct benefit to your health any type of invasive surgery that is not a direct benefit to

03:24:15.360 you health is not only unattractive but should be illegal sure james i don't know what the percentage

03:24:20.480 of people who get veneers if they're doing it for purely cosmetic reasons or if they have

03:24:24.160 it's what it's it's mostly cosmetic don't they have to grind down yes that's they like grinded it

03:24:30.960 it's not donated 99 to card you wanna be it's obvious when you can't move your forehead and lips

03:24:38.240 you have 10 shots in your face or the chick next to you has 10 pounds of foundation smeared on

03:24:44.720 women tell each other men can't tell to make themselves feel better they're wrong based facts

03:24:50.960 nickelodeon absolutely so just my last thing on this i do think yeah i think choosing to date

03:24:58.560 someone who has plastic surgery is a sub-optimal dating choice go ahead yeah and so like for men

03:25:05.920 or i suppose for women too but yeah cosmetic procedures oh my god well at least i got it

03:25:13.520 the beginning 100 ladies what are your thoughts about a man who would willingly have his leg bones

03:25:20.000 broken and refused in order to lengthen his legs so he can be taller eighty thousand dollars don't

03:25:27.360 how would you feel about a man who would do that to himself it's a good question i'll get to what i was

03:25:32.640 going to say after i think you guys should weigh in on that let's say a guy that are you guys familiar

03:25:37.920 with those surgeries yes okay let's say a guy does that and he's six feet tall but prior to that he was

03:25:44.000 five ten yeah and you find out you date him for six months or something like that and then you find

03:25:48.800 out that he got that surgery and you had a preference for tall guys but you find out he actually wasn't

03:25:52.880 that tall would that change the way that you guys look at him me personally no okay i it honestly i

03:25:59.280 wouldn't bet it i had it it wouldn't bother me you're talking about the foot guy when they take off his shoes

03:26:03.600 no this is like my bad you're talking about the surgery one i mean

03:26:11.520 i kind of want you to be taller so you you would you be less attracted if you found out that he got

03:26:16.240 that surgery or would you just i wouldn't be less attracted no okay what about you i think like back

03:26:21.280 to the leg the shoe lift thing it's kind of like you know sad okay but would you be less attracted to

03:26:28.320 him i think so because you know my kids wouldn't be tall or the height that he is

03:26:36.240 okay exactly yeah that's my point then we'll get them i'm gonna i'm gonna we're gonna move on from

03:26:41.040 that i want to make the point that i wanted to make a few minutes ago cosmetic surgeries oftentimes

03:26:47.680 overcompensation with makeup all of these different things it's an effort to enhance beauty or simulate

03:26:54.480 beauty or put beauty where it might not have otherwise been in your eyes the thing about

03:27:00.160 women it like met a lot of different women in my life met super healthy women met very unhealthy

03:27:04.720 women the healthiest women that i've met who took good care of themselves understood like they lived

03:27:09.600 healthy lifestyles they had they cultivated a really strong and healthy sense of feminine energy within

03:27:15.200 them those women glow and like they can wear no makeup and look like the most beautiful woman in the

03:27:22.160 world and i think cosmetic surgeries and all these things are an effort to simulate that

03:27:27.040 without actually having that true inner beauty like i was talking about before within them you know

03:27:32.720 and i i think yeah i think they're all like band-aids for actually becoming a healthy and whole woman

03:27:38.480 does that make sense i mean yeah i think when i was my healthiest disagree because like yeah i honestly

03:27:44.400 feel really good about myself from getting my surgeries and you know i i feel like like okay so

03:27:52.320 my what i was going to say about the whole like when you want to get married and you're having babies and

03:27:57.280 like it like makes you get like the ick or some things you're like my children wouldn't be that way um

03:28:02.400 to a point like you've already invested so much in this person and i would say you love this person

03:28:06.720 mm-hmm like you would do anything for them like they're your person mm-hmm so like for me it's like

03:28:12.960 i don't care yeah what this person has done to their body because i'm making a baby with my person yeah

03:28:20.400 so like it honestly wouldn't affect me at all so like i just like i'm like do you feel the same way

03:28:26.080 like if you got so invested with that person like i think it depends on what what the thing if it was

03:28:31.200 the one you know yeah i mean like if i was if i was like with a girl and i really loved her but then

03:28:36.480 i found out that like she had veneers or something like that like i can't deny some part of me would

03:28:41.120 be like whoa like you'd be like something deeply biological would be like whoa what's you know what's

03:28:45.360 going on here but you know for most cosmetic surgeries like you know girls come through this

03:28:51.200 show and they've had a lot of work done and it's just immediately apparent and i'm like okay it's

03:28:55.280 i don't i don't like that yeah you know what i mean um but yeah i mean if you're really in

03:29:00.480 love with a person like that that if you're really in love with someone that feeling of

03:29:05.520 wanting to create children with them is going to come from that love that yeah it's gonna over

03:29:10.160 plastic surgery like it's gonna come like yeah like that would be so little at that point i feel

03:29:15.280 like yeah i just i'm i'm the type of guy like plastic surgery for me like i can just i spot it

03:29:19.920 and i'm like yeah you know but is that oh cm donated 99 dollars and 99 cents yeah thank you

03:29:28.080 brian god gave them hair and they died god gave them nails and they paint them god gave them faces

03:29:34.240 and they use makeup god gave them a chest and they get surgery if god can't keep a woman happy

03:29:40.640 then we cannot either you guys you want to know something really right i'm taking it all

03:29:45.840 from a from a christian perspective there's a book it's not in the bible but it's referenced by

03:29:52.720 authors throughout the bible it's called the book of enoch and we're about to get esoteric for a moment

03:29:57.200 in the bible in genesis 6 it says that these fallen angels came down and they visited humanity and in

03:30:01.920 the book of enoch it talks about how these these fallen angels they were angels that rebelled against

03:30:06.160 god and they gave humanity all sorts of technologies that humanity used to accelerate its own destruction

03:30:12.160 one of the things that these like demonic forces gave mankind was makeup and knowledge of how women can

03:30:19.360 use makeup that was like a demonic thing that was introduced to humanity from a christian perspective

03:30:23.840 which is pretty fascinating what do you think what do you guys think about that the demons

03:30:28.800 makeup is demonic what do you think about this word what do not add or take away from this word

03:30:35.920 solid reference okay solid reference respect all right yeah i mean and with last thing on the

03:30:41.600 plastic surgery thing um because i think some women might say well would you rather have a girl

03:30:47.680 like who's totally flat or a girl who has some fake titties and she's got perfect boobs now that she

03:30:56.080 has fake titties uh me personally take any girl i don't care if she was totally flat or maybe one was

03:31:03.120 bigger than the other whatever i'd prefer her however she was before getting the fake titties yeah then same

03:31:10.480 thing with the the fake lips if she's got a small upper lip i'd prefer her with the small upper lip

03:31:17.040 as compared to a lip fillers bbl if she's got a petite bum flat bum whatever prefer that then a big

03:31:24.960 giant fucking bbl same with lipo she got a little belly fat that's prefer preferable to having the

03:31:30.720 i've seen girl the lipo belly it just doesn't look right like it's uncanny valley it just doesn't look

03:31:36.880 right that's facts and then the last one labiaplasty wait what's sorry chase it's when the some

03:31:45.120 women who have audi labia they have large labia they will cut they will cut it off they'll cut the

03:31:53.920 labia and that is deeply hurtful to me i find that offensive brian brian likes the roast beef

03:32:02.400 he likes the beef i like to refer butterfly wings butterfly do you think they'll ever make it

03:32:06.560 through a show without you mentioning this brian probably not it's his thing it's my thing

03:32:11.120 i'll pay for a first date i will pay for a first date what you guys need to know about brian he

03:32:16.160 likes four foot eleven women with beef curtains that are built like fridges wow well what happened

03:32:21.120 to the where's the fridge thing i'm just there i'm throwing that in there yeah 411 large labia

03:32:26.720 i don't like the meat references i do prefer i but if she's got

03:32:31.440 you like natural so it's just like whatever she's got you like what no he has no i like something

03:32:39.040 we all have our preferences i will pay for the first date if she has do you need to show proof yeah

03:32:44.720 do they need to show proof first friend i don't expect them to do i think women need to get revenge

03:32:49.600 on men for all the dick pics that have been sent throughout the eons they're very women disavowed

03:32:55.440 women must start sending pussy pics what's your number i'll send one right now i'll go to the

03:33:04.560 bathroom oh all right up up it's okay but i have a labia like it like is it oh god do we have to

03:33:17.200 talk about what is it what do we have to do we have to spend five minutes talking about how much

03:33:22.000 he loves it okay do we have to talk about what's the question what's the question more enticing does

03:33:26.560 it like um kind of like grab around your you know lips that grip yeah lips that grip i think

03:33:34.480 what is it like tighter can we not do this to her

03:33:37.760 shut up those don't grip why is it disgusting it's pretty gross she she over here has a

03:33:45.840 circumcision preference yeah okay so if you have a labia preference how would you feel about that

03:33:50.560 wait that's a totally different i'm just wondering because you're like all about the natural so like

03:33:54.320 would you i'm against to answer to your answer your non-sequitur question i am against circumcision

03:34:00.640 okay i'm against circumcision okay um it's biblical male genital mutilation

03:34:05.120 what does that mean we need to end male genital mutilation and circumcision female genital mutilation

03:34:14.640 10 000 labiaplasties a month or excuse me a year a year in the united states i wish i could reach

03:34:22.320 out to those 10 000 women that are struggling i want to help you with their labia dms are open uh you

03:34:29.120 know what you know what i mean do you know what i mean like i feel it's so sad though that women feel

03:34:32.800 compelled not with all this other plastic surgery but to mutilate their own genitalia because they

03:34:37.920 got a little extra skin down there do you want to know what would be a quick solve for the large

03:34:42.480 majority of that no no adult content oh that wouldn't if adult content didn't exist women probably

03:34:50.240 wouldn't try to i mean i don't know i don't know if that's it might help i think i think eliminating

03:34:59.600 adult content would fix a lot it would probably help but it was not my bank account you like want

03:35:04.720 that look yeah like regardless women wouldn't have women sorry oh the video uh oh the video with me

03:35:11.600 let me do a couple chats because we're they're about to fall off and then we'll do the video

03:35:15.120 yo valley oh why is it not triggering hold on uh oops one sec guys oh that's gonna trigger a couple

03:35:21.600 times sorry about the typo earlier i rate myself a three four on a good day my friends have told me in

03:35:26.880 the past few weeks that i look better than that i struggle to look at myself in the mirror so i

03:35:31.200 can't agree hope everyone's having a good night hey fally thank you very much man appreciate it

03:35:37.520 all right we have seaberg here oh fuck hold on let me skip that it's probably going to trigger a

03:35:44.720 couple times hold up oh no okay seaberg it's it's now scuffed hold on fuck do you have the video

03:35:52.400 we'll do the video while i fix this i that's her she's done like a million of these so there's one

03:35:58.320 in particular that's really oh here come back come back wait wearing makeup is kind of a way of lying

03:36:04.000 to improve your place in the sexual marketplace similar to a man taking out a bunch of debt to

03:36:09.360 make himself look better than he is to improve his place in the sexual marketplace i don't think

03:36:14.000 either will help create long-lasting relationships that's facts very good point seaberg very astute

03:36:21.280 observation good sir okay we have last one here before we do the video monkey brown i stopped

03:36:29.040 dating long ago and this show proves my reason why now i have here wait now i have here i'm a i'm a reed

03:36:36.400 flag he's a reed flag he read okay red flag to women i'm 45 single no kids never married so am i red

03:36:44.320 flag to women to to woman and why uh what do you guys think if a dude's 45 and he has no kids and

03:36:50.800 he's never been married is that a red flag is that a red flag here just starting here around yeah i would

03:36:56.480 say so why why i would i would it would be alert i mean i would definitely be like put back and get

03:37:03.360 need to get to know him okay no okay no he probably just never found like the right girl okay maybe

03:37:15.600 maybe i used to think yes but now probably not possibly why

03:37:24.240 um i don't know kind of what she said is like everyone has their own time that they're gonna

03:37:29.360 find their person maybe they just never did and then maybe they just up too many times and they

03:37:34.640 yeah i don't know no i would say that it's a yellow flag if i were in if i were dating that

03:37:42.400 age range if i were presented with on paper somebody that was that had the exact same criteria but had

03:37:48.720 been married before i would probably be more inclined to go out with somebody that had previously been

03:37:52.960 married because my first instinct as a woman is okay well you're 45 and never been married

03:37:57.280 have you ever shown any sort of sign to committing to a woman a woman i i immediately think you

03:38:03.120 probably haven't really grown up yeah to add on to that too uh just explaining female psychology for

03:38:08.640 whoever it was that asked that question i think the reason why that would be a red flag to a woman

03:38:13.600 beyond what she just said is it's going to subconsciously beg the questions why have you never

03:38:19.360 had a relationship that's worked out for you before up until this point in your life like what

03:38:24.240 what was wrong with you this is how i'm not saying that this there's something wrong with you but

03:38:27.680 they're going to think to themselves what was wrong with you to the point where nothing worked out like

03:38:32.400 what shit do you have going on or did you have going on in your life to where things never worked

03:38:36.800 out now that doesn't mean that you're like a bad person or you do have things wrong with you like

03:38:40.800 somebody said maybe you've just never found true love yeah it's just like that's that's like what's

03:38:44.960 going to go off in their mind yeah absolutely that's why yeah i would completely agree that's why i kind of

03:38:49.760 call it a yellow flag and not a red flag yeah i agree but yeah like i said if i were presented

03:38:54.000 with somebody on paper that had the exact same qualities but had been married and divorced before

03:38:58.560 i'd probably go i'd probably go on a date sooner with the person with the divorcee i agree do you see

03:39:04.880 that viral video that guy who's in his 30s who's a virgin and the guy asked him why are you still a

03:39:09.600 virgin no i didn't see that one yeah it was pretty good there's a guy he uh he looked like fit dressed

03:39:15.280 nicely one of those street interviewers who asked people questions and he this guy's like he asked

03:39:20.400 him his body counts or like how many women he'd been with and he was like oh i'm a virgin and the

03:39:24.400 guy was like okay why are you still a virgin at 30 years old and the guy was like look ever since i

03:39:28.640 was a boy i've dreamed of finding a girl who had never been with any guys and i've wanted to save

03:39:33.280 myself for my wife and i want to find a woman who saved herself for me and i've never found that woman

03:39:38.480 yet so you know yeah yeah but he was like he was a solid dude like he was a valuable guy otherwise

03:39:43.920 it was a good video got it um oh the vote yeah we'll do this is so wild yeah go ahead this is

03:39:52.960 so crazy oh oh mute the audio mute the audio

03:39:56.160 okay just imagine there's some bullshit trap fucking bullshit music oh wow

03:40:09.360 that's scary uh that's great wait what you can keep

03:40:15.760 do it one more time just yeah i gotta see that one more time i've seen the i mean she does a bunch

03:40:21.200 of tiktoks but she'll do like putting on the makeup she'll do the whole process this elicits

03:40:26.000 like the most primal feeling of disgust and like uncanny valley but yeah that's a massive

03:40:33.440 that was a good video that you found so does she get veneers or does she put no well she she puts

03:40:37.840 like this dentures in yeah she has she lost her teeth um that's a huge that's a huge difference um

03:40:47.040 i got another question of the girls here do you when it comes to the physicality of a guy do you

03:40:53.280 you prefer men who are muscular maybe not like super roided up bodybuilder but you prefer men who

03:41:00.400 are like strong and muscular means you're healthy around the table i i'm honestly a huge personality

03:41:07.360 person my boyfriend before was super scrawny skinny dude my boyfriend now is fit and strong so i go either

03:41:15.840 way sure i think i like a lot because that means you work out you take care of yourself i actually

03:41:22.240 like lanky dudes i i could see that okay i actually love lanky dudes but i'm not opposed to a guy that's

03:41:31.520 built just not like bodybuilder built that's sure kind of an addiction i think what about you more on

03:41:38.960 like the thinner so i don't know my type's all over the place personality what like as long as

03:41:46.400 you're not like like 600 pounds or something that like but you don't find you don't find a guy with

03:41:52.320 like who's got a strong athletic physique he doesn't have to be like some super like jacked dude but you

03:42:00.160 don't find that like attractive yes i'm not like oh my god abs so hot like really no

03:42:09.040 if anything i'd rather you do not have abs because then you're comfier to cuddle with if you don't i

03:42:13.040 think girls say no i'm like wow no i feel like i feel like girls never own up to this because they

03:42:20.240 don't want to feel like shallow or like just driven by me i'm totally shallow yeah i feel like like

03:42:26.320 almost all women when they see like a built dude like on the beach they're like oh who's that

03:42:35.040 you have to be pretty no it's a good point it's a good point i almost for you guys what's more

03:42:39.600 important pretty face but like an uh like a fat body or like on the girl yeah or like an you know a

03:42:47.520 butter face nice body body you know a hard body i wouldn't date either what's the like what do you

03:42:54.000 look at first at the beach what do i look at first like if you're going to the beach if i see a

03:42:58.000 woman are you looking at face or body well i mean like naturally my my eyes are just going to see

03:43:03.600 her body first and like the shape of her body and stuff but i mean both are good but i but what's

03:43:09.760 more important like if i'm if i'm right like i go running on the beach here in santa barbara and

03:43:13.600 like if i'm running down the beach and i see an attractive woman like the first thing i'm going

03:43:16.480 to notice is her body because i can't see her face first yeah well i mean it's even if a woman

03:43:21.680 has like a really nice body if she doesn't have a nice face i'm just i think for a thousand year

03:43:25.840 dynasty face matters more than her body yeah you can change the body you can't change ugly that's

03:43:30.880 true i've seen i've seen some amazing i mean unless you're rich i've seen some amazing transformations

03:43:35.760 of like super fat chicks and they look amazing yeah i know have you ever seen a woman so

03:43:41.200 fucking beautiful that you're like if i were to have kids with her like that's a thousand year dynasty

03:43:47.840 oh yeah yes oh yeah like i have secured if i were to breed with her i have secured my

03:43:54.320 fucking like generations worth i would hate my kids ugly yes how do you know that those traits

03:44:01.120 won't be bred out though that is okay i'm not a geneticist so i could you have to you have to

03:44:06.000 raise raise your kids well to pick right yeah but sometimes make them eat organic you have to you

03:44:11.680 have to raise a eugenic family i pray they don't get my autism yeah and that not the tism

03:44:17.680 in the 21st century autism is pretty uh pretty beneficial yeah i got a twinge of the tism i gotta

03:44:23.040 admit oh yeah i got a minute no but like i love it i have a lot of people with tisms like i'm not

03:44:29.280 like formally diagnosed but you just like feel like my little brother i think he has okay i like autistic

03:44:36.240 women sort of yeah autistic bf autistic gf why not there you go um so i think all the girls here

03:44:45.360 come on you like like it's almost wait what about what about you two preferences like i'll look at

03:44:52.240 the muscular ones they're nice to look at okay i almost physical fitness is incredibly important

03:44:57.280 to me i'm i'm physically fit i'm in the gym five days six days a week so that's important to me and

03:45:03.040 my lifestyle and i want someone to emulate that period based right my my follow-up question to that is

03:45:09.200 i feel like most of them were like give me a lanky guy but whatever my follow-up question is and

03:45:13.440 this is the last thing on the makeup thing how would you feel if you saw this guy who like looked

03:45:18.320 built you know but he was wearing you know like a long sleeve shirt or something you find out that

03:45:24.640 this dude's been walking around in a muscle suit no taking photos in it and shit he takes it off at

03:45:32.320 night i mean you you wake up to his natural self well he's gotta be a little bit skinny to fit in it

03:45:39.680 you know we can work with that well you see i guess we'll be like get him a gym membership

03:45:46.880 that's kind of how if y'all like a muscular dude and he tricked you into thinking he was muscular

03:45:54.400 that's kind of how we feel with makeup

03:45:55.920 how about fake titties that's makeup enhances your beauty sometimes you kind of tell the

03:46:03.760 ones that are wearing a lot a lot you know like that one you knew she was wearing a lot

03:46:07.360 that's not how i feel the muscle suit isn't enhancing your muscles

03:46:11.200 i don't know you'd never know how under us yeah but the surgery like stays on you so it's different

03:46:16.080 that's true what i don't know extremes like that for sure like that was makeup transformation that's

03:46:21.360 huge i think i look the best that's like that's like the equivalent of like like muscle and i'm

03:46:25.920 wearing no makeup your skin's like glowing yeah your skin's glowing and stuff when you're healthy

03:46:31.440 and then your makeup looks did we read this one did we read this one yes hey yeah no attention

03:46:37.680 please dude did we read this one no we didn't do you want to read it go ahead since it's about you

03:46:42.960 sure i never date you okay but you'd be fun af to party with i sure would you have more than enough

03:46:49.760 personality you don't need to do only rands you can be a successful entertainer the chick to the

03:46:55.680 right of chase should take you under her wing um that's you yeah you should take her under your

03:47:04.560 wing i should take you under you can save her sorry yes there's nothing wrong with her she doesn't

03:47:09.520 need to be saved okay i think i don't think she does she has only fans does she need to be saved

03:47:14.640 chase she is in relationships with dudes that she has a lot of personal growth that she had to go

03:47:19.600 oh yeah we all do but there's nothing wrong you said she's there's nothing she attacked her

03:47:24.080 boyfriend with an alleged kitchen no she didn't okay she cut him up with a cup and that's the

03:47:30.160 past though is that like i have a healthy like no she threw the cup she threw it at him and then

03:47:35.920 wrestled him on top of it and then how do you know he didn't throw the cup what'd you say how do

03:47:40.400 you know he didn't throw the cup and get her on the ground start wrestling her okay no we don't

03:47:44.880 let's back up we don't know how would they know why why are we looking at someone getting into such

03:47:50.080 an unhealthy relationship and we're like there's nothing wrong there i'm just saying there's nothing

03:47:54.000 wrong with you no i know she got she got screwed by an entire platoon of army guys which was her

03:48:00.080 choice but like is that healthy behavior no are you saying there's nothing wrong she was years ago

03:48:04.960 facts y'all have great points and i'm working on myself okay she finds that healthy like it's

03:48:11.760 very healthy actually it's objectively not it's objectively not healthy i don't want to be like

03:48:16.720 that if an entire platoon of army guys like who knows how many stds you could get it's objectively

03:48:21.840 not healthy it's years ago though thank the lord condoms are four five years ago it's still a deal

03:48:29.120 breaker no i'm not okay so we're not maybe if it was a squad she could get it are you telling me

03:48:34.080 everything there is healthy to this day no i'm just saying there's nothing that needs to be fixed

03:48:38.880 wrong with her as a person or her actions everybody's making mistakes so is there nothing wrong with

03:48:45.760 making mistakes i think you learned from them she learned from them you do learn from mistakes

03:48:52.000 is there nothing wrong with making mistakes though has she learned from all of her mistakes

03:48:55.200 because she's sitting here saying i got a lot of work to do on myself i mean i do

03:49:03.120 but i get what you're saying thank you she's a great person well friends are always i'm not

03:49:08.000 saying she's a bad person yeah no one's denying that she's a good person she just has internal

03:49:11.440 problems besides the stabbing thing i just think it sounds a little harsher and he said there's

03:49:15.440 something wrong with her so you could say she did i say that or did she i don't know it just got

03:49:21.040 product i don't know who said it but i'm just saying i think that's just how she said like that

03:49:25.360 it sounds worse i think what she's trying to say is just like she could look at women look at women

03:49:31.680 coddling no one no one's saying that there's anything let's go women okay no one no one outwardly

03:49:36.640 said there was anything wrong with her that was just a way that she phrased her statement

03:49:40.960 no i think that what the question is essentially trying to get it raven dt donated 100

03:49:48.080 girl in the pink you're welcome would like to thank you for your service is over but thank you

03:49:52.960 all right look let me just let me just keep it 100 with you okay if one of my bros was getting into

03:49:58.560 fights with his girlfriend where she's even allegedly stabbing him with kitchen knives i'm gonna be like

03:50:04.080 dude what the hell is wrong with you yeah what are you doing yeah little do you know he's crazy too

03:50:10.400 it's the sex exactly it's the what but guys will never do you see like if one of my bros did i'd

03:50:15.520 be like dude what is wrong with you but women on the other hand are like girlfriend there's nothing

03:50:20.240 wrong everything is perfect you're fine the way you are keep getting in those fights girl guys say

03:50:26.000 that to other guys too though no me and my boys absolutely not we call each other out for each other

03:50:30.800 shit all the time you guys are way different here then because in canada no guy will admit when

03:50:34.480 they're it is canada well canada canada has yeah canada is full of cucked men welcome to america i

03:50:40.720 think we're sincere there's quite a few here too although america's all women are very

03:50:46.560 i will actually i will actually say i am critical of my female friends but i will say my delivery is

03:50:52.240 much softer than how i would approach like a male friend dude yeah absolutely but i will 100 i

03:50:58.000 i agree i mean i would tell my friend because she's my friend so i would want her to know what

03:51:02.400 do you have what do you have i feel like women are more sensitive so you kind of have to like

03:51:06.640 tell them things in like that's a very sexist i feel like that's so sexist i see a pattern of

03:51:14.320 behavior where women endlessly bend over backwards and do all sorts of mental gymnastics in order to

03:51:18.960 justify terrible behaviors that's what i see men do that too yep not me and my boys okay you're a small

03:51:25.680 percentage yeah and that's that's the standard that i want to hold all other men agree agree or

03:51:32.320 disagree women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths in a general sense yes

03:51:42.800 i personally wouldn't but in a general sense i do believe that what what drives that what what drives

03:51:48.320 that zach west might have the answer donated 99 dollars for everyone what is a deal breaker in a

03:51:54.800 relationship also how much could a woodchuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood what does it do we'll

03:51:59.920 come back to that what drives that yeah what what drives women wanting to hear on uh what was

03:52:06.560 it how did you put it so women would rather hear comforting lies than uncomfortable truths what

03:52:14.560 drives that narcissism because the truth hurts it's narcissism i think it's narcissism that is some

03:52:18.960 women not all women no not all women just i want to let me finish brian go ahead no but

03:52:24.720 i think feminism has told women time and time again that women do not need men and women are

03:52:32.240 perfect women can do all things it's just simply not true i i think it's deeper than that no no i i

03:52:37.760 agree that it's deeper than that in in a lot of cases but i think the narcissism does come from

03:52:43.600 from like what what the messages that feminism tries to portray what what do you think it is you

03:52:49.920 think it's deeper than that what do you think it is well and i think you know what it is chase but

03:52:54.480 i've got a few ideas for sure so i think when it comes to and i feel like you've probably tweeted

03:53:00.400 about this when it comes to defending your ideas when two there are two conflicting ideals two conflicting

03:53:08.400 ideas if it if it can never be resolved diplomatically it will be resolved with violence and violence is the

03:53:16.320 realm of men typically not to say that women can't be can't be violent but i think men i think men are

03:53:23.920 much more i feel like i'm not articulating this as perfectly as i'd like but i think that men are will

03:53:31.200 are more prepared to to fight i'm not i think okay here's here's here's what i here's what i think it is

03:53:42.080 like a revolution i think the pattern i see this is what i think it is the pattern i see is women

03:53:48.160 take criticism as an attack on like their self like their soul their being who they are i feel like

03:53:54.720 only if you're not wanting to work you say you say it is but like the thing like if i receive i i i

03:53:59.840 literally welcome criticism from my friends and the people closest to me like you're a man i know but

03:54:04.400 when i'm screwing up i'm like yo like tell me all the areas where i'm screwing up because i want to

03:54:08.640 yeah i want to be the most effective version of myself possible people will tell me chase like

03:54:12.560 you're arrogant you're hot-headed you get angry uh people tell me you don't respond to criticism

03:54:17.600 well all these different things and i'm not like i don't hear that and and think oh i'm just a

03:54:22.160 terrible person i hear that and it's like okay there's room for growth yeah but women women seem

03:54:26.720 to take it as like an assault on their being yeah yeah i knew i was younger why is that i think for me

03:54:33.520 personally when i find myself getting like that it typically is when i'm more emotional like something

03:54:41.200 else is going on in my life or i'm already down or more sensitive due to other things you know

03:54:47.520 obviously like time of the month that kind of stuff like i feel like that's when i catch myself being

03:54:53.200 that so when you feel like in like you're in a stronger position and you're less frustrated by

03:54:59.280 other stuff in your life do you feel like you can receive criticism better oh yeah because i agree

03:55:03.120 with you then i take that and i you know think about it i'm like okay yeah i could have maybe

03:55:08.640 handled that better i've done that better and this is how me and my like boyfriend talk like when we

03:55:13.280 have fights it's communication like that and it's more of like let's just see what we can do better for

03:55:19.200 ourselves and like us as one yeah were you basically making the point that men are less conflict

03:55:25.280 diverse because we're more geared towards violence i think yeah basically yeah i think um what i just

03:55:36.560 think there there was actually the most perfect answer to that that was in a movie where it was

03:55:43.040 it was a line in a movie for men hold on butler donated 99 is it about herpes there's something wrong

03:55:49.600 i knew it was about her pink it's called genital herpes and is highly infectious even with the use

03:55:54.720 of the condoms 60 bodies equals exposure to 12 partners who are infected i can assure you she's

03:56:05.760 jay butler every single show every single show jay butler brings talks about herpes he's he's a

03:56:14.080 urologist just he's had herpes or he just no he's a he's a urologist which is a peen doctor

03:56:20.560 so he's he knows he professionally deals with he deals with he just diagnosed you via super chat

03:56:28.560 hey a lot of people would is he gonna give me medicine too

03:56:31.920 valtrex here you okay go ahead what were you what was the line from the movie where men think women

03:56:37.840 feel very true yeah absolutely yeah i got another line for you yeah frederick nietzsche said uh oh

03:56:47.360 how did he be speaking of nietzsche how did he put it all things related to women everything it's

03:56:54.160 something like everything of woman is a riddle and every the solution to a woman how did he put it

03:57:00.160 what he said something like woman is a riddle and all things related to women have one solution

03:57:09.440 and it is called pregnancy pregnancy speaking totally unrelated to the show he who fights with

03:57:17.280 mon this is from nietzsche he who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become

03:57:23.200 a monster and if you gaze for long into an abyss the abyss gazes also into you so true

03:57:30.160 honestly doing this show gazing into the abyss like it it it gazes back at me

03:57:40.720 i have become like a having done hundreds of these shows i this shit has kind of

03:57:48.320 me up a little bit i'm not gonna fucking lie okay all right um brian i think you need to touch grass

03:57:53.840 i'd probably go on a run okay good talk um but uh hold on women underscore prefer underscore lies

03:58:04.480 underscore because donated 99 dollars lies incorporated makeup plus sex are their primary

03:58:11.920 tools for the acquisition of power men have to earn their value via work sacrifice and disposability

03:58:19.280 truth benefits men because it helps them adapt women prefer lies because it helps them use their

03:58:25.600 power plus that was a brilliant super chat uh we have one it was a brilliant super chat we got one

03:58:31.760 here from grid one sports donated 100 a true friend gives you the cold hard truth people that tell you

03:58:39.840 the lies you want to hear are not friends it is at best being fake friendship and at worst enemy action

03:58:45.760 a true friend will value your happiness over everything including the friendship

03:58:51.680 that's facts related to this i get the impression that one of the differences between men and women is

03:58:58.880 men will like talk shit to their friends to their face and in kind of like a like men roast each other

03:59:05.760 a little bit yeah uh and then they'll like they'll flat they'll say flattering things about their friends

03:59:10.560 behind their back and it's i i think it's the reverse with women you'll say nice things to a woman's

03:59:18.000 face and behind her back talk absolute and say what you want to actually say oh my god i love you so

03:59:23.840 much fuck that bitch type shit you know so real zach west i don't want you to feel like we've um we just

03:59:31.440 jumped over your chat so zach west he said we never got to rippy's that quest 2000 donated

03:59:36.960 we'll get to that for everyone what is a deal what is a deal breaker in a relationship also how much

03:59:42.160 could a woodchuck if a woodchuck could deal breaker in a relationship go ahead um probably cheating cheating

03:59:49.200 okay

03:59:54.240 lying i wonder if he's curious like something not obvious like he wears pink socks or some random

04:00:02.880 oh maybe i zach maybe you can clarify but uh ugly okay hey that's a good that's honest yeah deal

04:00:11.600 breaker pimples pimples scars let's go to the facial together let's go fix that

04:00:19.760 okay deal breaker in a relationship i think it's like not being autistic

04:00:27.040 let me know oh sorry sorry um heavy drug use oh yeah that's super valid what about light drug use

04:00:35.920 um that's fine um i feel like here and there it's fine you know like just smoking like a little

04:00:41.600 bit of heroin on a daily basis no just a just a small bit just a tad yeah if they hide drug use

04:00:50.000 or alcoholism hiding it what if it's out in the open then it's chill it's cool if it's in the out in

04:00:57.200 the open right as long as you're at home only if they share okay what about you um yeah probably

04:01:06.640 just uh drug use or staying out late every night or okay not ambitious not ambitious not ambitious

04:01:16.480 it's a deal breaker yeah okay huh i had all this time to think but i don't know i can't think you can't

04:01:25.840 think just name name something that's giving you the ick well you were talking about those two

04:01:31.680 inserts i would not be able to do what the shoe inserts

04:01:39.360 well i just think why lie yeah okay i was gonna say drug use but another one would be no desire to

04:01:45.520 marriage and no relationship with christ yeah amen to both of those also history of sex work sorry

04:01:53.120 ladies it's okay uh drug use history of cheating yeah the list goes on but yeah yeah what about you

04:02:03.200 brian i'll answer after this donated 100 if he has a dating podcast yep huge red flag just kidding

04:02:13.520 love you brian uh no homo thank you raven that's actually there's like news articles like beware of

04:02:20.640 men with podcasts especially dating podcasts that's like a double trouble no no go the feminist

04:02:26.640 machine is in overdrive trying to shut down man heaven forbid heaven forbid a man have a podcast

04:02:31.680 the latest podcast trend is making women look dumb

04:02:36.880 new york post such a funny so funny such a should we pull it up just pull up just google

04:02:41.920 it's funny bro um we won't yeah it's like we don't you don't have to make them do anything

04:02:46.720 they do it they do it themselves i'm pretty sure in the clip that they included you didn't even say

04:02:49.600 anything a lot of the clips were just like the most tame fucking conversations ever uh nick it's

04:02:55.280 just new york post whatever in this this article there's an article about this podcast here do

04:03:00.160 nick find the new york post and the vice article yeah there's two uh red flags for me while he's

04:03:06.400 doing that um let's see uh goodness if funny article not not red flags deal oh deal breakers deal

04:03:16.000 breakers fuck in a relationship no beef curtains taller than five two she immis are cool too and

04:03:25.520 that's not a deal breaker uh let's see

04:03:27.440 not quarrelsome quarrelsome is just an instant deal breaker um huh

04:03:36.560 argumentative argument constantly starting fights oh yeah yeah just to like start them

04:03:41.200 because once you've it's better to live in the desert than with a quarrelsome wife

04:03:45.120 yeah it's the book of proverbs proverbs 21 19 check it out that shit's dope

04:03:51.440 okay we'll just pull it just yeah

04:03:53.120 making women look dumb is a disturbing new podcast scroll down i don't know why this video

04:04:00.400 that's just like an ad a podcast wait scroll down what the fuck oh oh look at that hey i know those

04:04:09.360 guys oh shit yeah that's us and then the vice one i like that they choose the latest trend in

04:04:15.920 podcasts is making women look dumb whatever podcast is bait you can okay that's it yeah they wrote some

04:04:22.480 hit pieces it's all good it's so funny so good they got dragged so hard on twitter for posting

04:04:28.160 those articles yeah the all the comments were mostly super supportive um in any case uh so i

04:04:35.200 want to try to hit oh we got rippy here rippy there's also a lot of women that you would assume

04:04:39.680 have a roster but sit at home in their pjs generally you should always take someone at their word unless

04:04:44.720 their behavior shows otherwise or you period let's not black pill ourselves into being single from fear

04:04:51.520 that's fair that's fair it's a very solid comment that's fair true and i mean there are there are

04:04:57.200 women who do like who strip and do sex work that are not promiscuous but on its own that's a can be

04:05:06.240 that's kind of a separate thing yeah to what you were talking about before with your boyfriend who is

04:05:11.040 constantly like you're texting all these other guys and all that kind of stuff i think i think one uh

04:05:17.040 habit that is worth fixing for just generally speaking for people in relationships because a

04:05:21.120 lot of people have like trust issues and whatnot is not approaching a relationship from the perspective

04:05:26.640 of finding the person guilty of whatever you're worried they're doing not approaching the relationship

04:05:31.680 from the perspective of finding them guilty until proven innocent but instead finding them innocent

04:05:35.920 until proven guilty you know to his point taking taking people at their word you trust them until they

04:05:41.200 break your trust yeah yeah i agree with that but it's also i feel like a lot of guys they're like

04:05:45.840 oh this is a very attractive woman like she must have a lot of sex or she must have a lot of bodies

04:05:52.240 but it's like no not really like it's the average chicks that beat fucking i could agree that's that's

04:05:59.760 facts that's facts it's also i mean it's like i think for guys it's not just a physical attractiveness

04:06:06.960 thing it's also how you carry yourself as a woman right so like if i see a really beautiful girl but

04:06:12.560 she's very modest and like wears modest clothes and like carries herself conservatively i'm not

04:06:18.240 gonna look at her and think oh yeah that that girl's sleeping with a lot of guys but she could

04:06:22.320 she might be which is why it's still worth asking yes and then doing your due diligence showing their

04:06:27.280 body but like they don't i don't know yeah i mean if a woman is like dressing very provocatively and

04:06:34.320 like has like not very conservative about it yeah you're gonna assume which is fair enough yeah

04:06:42.000 jay butler brian you son of a bee i'm not even remotely done talking about how this woman definitely

04:06:46.800 has the herp no one touch her skin you will die immediately and there's no cure all p stars have

04:06:54.400 it filthy filthy filthy filthy filthy filthy filthy yeah i think yeah i think he thinks i'm filthy

04:06:58.800 i love dude i love this guy this guy's so funny every check me every show can he check you yeah

04:07:05.280 you might see you might have to see an obgyn for that one i've never heard of that he could probably

04:07:10.160 i'm just kidding yo jay butler thank you man appreciate it appreciate it good to see you in

04:07:16.880 the chat he he literally i'm not even joking every show it's fucking hilarious yeah every show he you've

04:07:24.400 been here she was here like two months ago he was talking about herpes no he's funny i like how he

04:07:29.920 is filthy he's the leading researcher for the whatever podcast about her about herpes thank you

04:07:37.600 man appreciate it so i got some more pre-show notes here i'm gonna try to get through all of them and

04:07:42.880 then we'll do a brief after show and then we'll uh wrap so i think we've got through genie we have

04:07:47.920 katarina finally you said you were dating a guy for a year and a half and a half you just left him in

04:07:53.360 june he was a psycho psycho wasn't is an understatement i find out that he was still dating his ex

04:08:00.000 for almost our whole relationship he was so good at lying that even when i had proof of him doing

04:08:04.560 things i'd still believe him i now have a restraining order on him now because of all the

04:08:11.040 stuff he did to me so you like stalked no okay so two months into dating we moved in together and

04:08:17.840 then two months into living together uh we got a mandatory restraining order that ended up getting

04:08:24.000 that ended up getting dropped because i didn't press charges um i took him back and then yeah in

04:08:29.760 june i left him when he went to the gym just packed up and left wait what why why did you get the

04:08:34.960 restraining order um neighbors called the cops because they heard a lot of stuff being thrown around

04:08:41.440 and stuff so cops showed up took him to jail and they're like yeah we're playing restraining order no

04:08:46.320 kitchen knives though no um it was a flower vase actually did you throw it or him he did yeah

04:08:53.840 what catalyzed this fight um because we were supposed to go to a night market and he went out

04:08:59.600 drink drinking or cheating whatever he was doing that night showed up and yeah and you were like

04:09:07.040 what the hell yeah i was like i don't really want to hear about how much fun you had tonight

04:09:10.960 like i just want to go to bed and then that like flip the switch what what why i don't know what

04:09:17.840 did he say in response um honestly i can't i don't even remember the first thing he said it just like

04:09:23.920 all the time he just flew into a rage yeah wow yeah oh sounds like the kind of relationship that leads

04:09:30.080 to domestic abuse like hardcore it's spot on you said he was dating multiple other women at the same

04:09:36.400 time too but you didn't know about them well okay so before moving in together um i saw on his phone

04:09:42.160 him texting his i guess current girlfriend and he just said that she was texting him about clothes he

04:09:47.920 left behind and then after moving in together she started messaging me sending me their tapes and

04:09:53.760 stuff um and then he would just say that they're old and all that old tapes yeah it turns out it was

04:09:59.600 like a dozen girls damn a dozen what kind of tapes were these what kind of tapes were these like like

04:10:06.880 sex tapes yeah i didn't know his ex was sending you those uh yeah like to your phone um yeah of them

04:10:14.560 together wow got free only fans from them that's so gnarly how did yeah how did you feel about that

04:10:21.040 how did you respond well like i said he was just so good at lying i was like oh must have been from

04:10:26.240 before we were together she's crazy that's horrible wait so during your relationship he was making these

04:10:31.440 and then they were being sent to you this sounds like the worst relationship ever yeah and then

04:10:36.800 after i left him when he was at the gym i literally just texted my dad i was like okay i'm packing up

04:10:40.960 let's go moved out in like an hour and then uh yeah he started stalking me uh sending me like

04:10:46.400 death threats and stuff so i had to get a restraining order that's horrible that's a yikes

04:10:52.400 you ladies gotta pick better guys man what the hell well i did now yeah yeah you said you've been

04:10:58.880 in a relationship for two years now right two months we've known each other for like four years

04:11:04.480 though okay got it wait chase what would you do you're dating a girl and her ex sends you a video of

04:11:14.800 them having sex bro i would like really bad lose it and probably break up with her i might have to

04:11:23.120 that's be honest with you i'd probably i'd probably immediately break up because like the when you

04:11:27.120 if you have sex with her again that's like now in your head yeah dude so and that's why it's not

04:11:34.960 even it's not even about like having sex with her again like yeah it would be in your head then but

04:11:38.320 like just any time after that point having that mental image in your mind like i have no idea how

04:11:44.480 you could have possibly dealt with that we didn't really have sex because he's always too tired but

04:11:48.560 it's because he was having sex with other girls so okay that guy's in that case yeah dude i would

04:11:53.200 like yeah i would break my heart what would you do yeah i'd probably end the relationship yeah not

04:12:01.120 and it's almost it's not her fault but like the image scorched burned into the my eyeballs

04:12:10.640 yeah i don't know how you recover from that i and i feel like it's kind of different between like

04:12:14.880 guys and girls like obviously it would suck for any girl to see her boyfriend with another guy but

04:12:19.520 like as a guy dude like men are more territorial so much more territory for me to have that mental

04:12:24.640 image burned in my mind would like rip apart my mind well now they're both together so she's even

04:12:29.600 crazier well which is why i think a lot of men would struggle to date a woman who does of who

04:12:35.200 does porn no way because there's images out there of her having sex with another dude and yeah it's

04:12:41.600 hard to see yeah it's not just hard to see it just like tears apart your mind and your soul it stings

04:12:48.640 oh it stings yeah what's the difference what's the difference of like seeing this stuff and knowing

04:12:54.240 she's fucked another guy i mean because we're very visual we're like we're very we like i think

04:13:00.800 most men like well you can compare them too like you're seeing the situation like how they're being

04:13:07.280 intimate what he looks like like i feel like it's more intimate than just knowing like oh she

04:13:13.920 fuck some guy at a bar yeah definitely i think a lot of guys want a woman's undivided romantic and

04:13:22.720 sexual attention 100 percent um and uh anything even if it's in your past i know this sounds

04:13:30.000 this almost sounds crazy but like we don't want to think about or know the previous sexual things that

04:13:37.600 you've done with men we don't want to know it it stings it burns i agree i don't know it with my

04:13:45.200 voice hurts what about the guys that want to know that i literally asked you what does that mean what

04:13:51.600 is it why are they asking they start getting they just want to know is it is it because they're like

04:13:57.120 vetting you and they're curious about your past or is it like they have like someone that he was like

04:14:02.000 i want to know everything about you i'm not going to be able to know you unless i know everything

04:14:05.680 you've ever done in your past and this and like how you grew up he was like i'm not gonna how will

04:14:09.840 i know you as a person if i don't know your history that's what he would tell me and i had to tell him

04:14:13.440 everything you gotta tell him like fucking positions and shit like like no just like everything i've done

04:14:18.240 if i had a threesome if i've been with girls if i've been this and like how many like every he

04:14:22.400 want to know everything i've ever happened in my life i think that's fair i mean yeah like if you're

04:14:27.280 having like a serious relationship yeah he's like i want to know your whole life story yeah i mean

04:14:32.720 like those are questions that a guy is going to ask a woman if he like she said is serious about

04:14:36.960 her like if i'm talking to a girl then you damn well do i want to know whether or not she's done

04:14:41.120 a threesome because yeah she's done a lot of stuff yeah it's like uh is it worse if it's a guy guy

04:14:47.440 versus a girl girl what do you mean well like devil's threesome versus so oh of course i mean even

04:14:54.000 even even a girl and a guy would like be a deal breaker to me but two guys is like dude when i was in

04:15:00.240 college you when i know when i when i was when i was a freshman in college there was this girl in

04:15:07.440 my dorm complex that had a train ran on her by guys at a party was in front of other people was it the

04:15:12.560 platoon or a squad coast guard or i dude i remember when i heard that i was like that i think that was

04:15:18.720 the most disgusted i maybe had ever been in my life it was so gnarly like what how would you feel if

04:15:23.840 you found out that a girl had had like a threesome or a foursome with a number of other guys

04:15:27.520 a girl i'm interested in yeah yeah like oh okay like if it's just some random girl a girl no no

04:15:33.920 a girl a girl that you're interested in i wasn't i wasn't interested in this woman by the way but

04:15:38.640 a train that i would i would not want to date why why did it bother me feel yeah because i'm just

04:15:44.160 thinking to myself dude that's somebody's daughter and she's getting a train yeah see it doesn't bother

04:15:48.160 like stuff like that just like doesn't bother me if i'm not like i don't know i just wouldn't care

04:15:52.720 like she's doing what whoever it is they're like doing their own thing like they don't affect me

04:15:58.160 like i don't know yeah i still find it but i see i see your personality it would be i have a strong

04:16:05.840 disgust response yeah yeah i would feel completely agree yeah yeah i'd be yeah i'd feel like that's

04:16:13.440 kind of gross kind of i'm i'm i'm very very like you meet this girl she's perfect she's got the beef

04:16:22.000 curtains she's 4 11 super passionate about your podcast you find out a train had been ran on her

04:16:28.240 no it's done i can't do it i can't do it okay can't do it can't do it yeah no well i mean i'm

04:16:35.200 i feel like i'm pretty extreme with it like even on a first date when of course like you've just met me

04:16:42.160 there's clearly no expectation of commitment or anything if i find out on the first date that

04:16:47.760 you've recently had sex with another dude even before you even met me i'm already like uh yeah

04:16:54.960 like bro there needs to be at i don't know what the minimum is at least three months you guys are

04:17:01.440 very preferably people for sure like sex is very important and intimate and yeah absolutely it's like

04:17:08.880 the most sacred thing that you can do with another person you know um so i have a question what is like

04:17:13.920 an acceptable body count for a woman to have zero that would be the the ultimate yeah that would be

04:17:22.480 the ultimate but the lower the better the lower the better okay would you feel the same way towards

04:17:27.200 a man though like like do you think what's an acceptable body count for a man yeah i well i i

04:17:32.080 personally speak out against male promiscuity i think one of the worst problems in our world is

04:17:37.120 promiscuity in general i don't support dudes like sleeping with a ton of women like somebody close to me

04:17:42.880 recently was telling me that he's talking to a girl he's gonna have to leave california soon

04:17:47.840 and like this girl is like re like she really likes him and he like kind of doesn't care about

04:17:52.640 her that much he's like yeah i think i might go stay over at her place tonight i was like bro but

04:17:56.320 you're gonna leave california and this girl's like it's gonna hurt her you know like i a lot of

04:18:00.960 guys are like if a guy has a high body count dudes will be like dude nice i just i think it's

04:18:05.280 degenerate like it's still like a hot girl go for it like yeah i think it's degenerate

04:18:09.200 personally contributing to the problem exactly exactly and this is this is like one of the

04:18:14.400 problems i have with like the red pill sphere as a whole is you've got to like a lot of influencers

04:18:18.880 that are like yeah women with high body counts are bad but also you as a man should go get laid as

04:18:23.040 much as humanly possible it's like bro you're literally advocating for men to contribute to

04:18:27.440 the problem that you're calling out yeah it should be like an equal situation yeah there are some

04:18:31.520 differences though in so far as there's a small proportion of men who can be promiscuous as

04:18:36.080 compared to the proportion of women who have the capacity and capability to be promiscuous because

04:18:41.520 almost any woman if she was so inclined could be a slut but not every guy can be a slut like it

04:18:48.560 takes a certain degree of either look status or charisma for a guy to get laid whereas there's more

04:18:55.920 women who can be promiscuous or have the capacity for promiscuity than it is the case for men

04:19:01.120 so i can see there's a differential that there is a different but even an ugly dude is still going

04:19:06.960 to try his hardest to be a slut if he wants to be yeah he might if he wants to be but it's going to

04:19:11.680 be it's going to be much to his level of ugliness but let me let me it's going to be much harder for

04:19:16.000 him to do that though than for a woman who's at the same level of ugliness yeah like uh if if you

04:19:20.960 take the point that he's making if you take like we had a woman on the show i mentioned her earlier on

04:19:25.840 she this is the woman who had slept with five guys in a night and she did that for like weeks on end

04:19:32.640 um she was where's her father dude actually nick if you're able to find it i think you've pulled it

04:19:38.320 up before it's the uh oh it's the girl who uh was on the podcast before she was sleeping with five men

04:19:48.240 in a day i think you've pulled it up before um unremarkable looking overweight her looks equivalent

04:19:56.480 like if she had a brother who looked like her equivalent whatever or just her looks equivalent

04:20:02.400 would not be capable of sleeping with five women in a day in order to sleep with five women in a day

04:20:08.960 you need to be drake you need to like damn those area that is like the top 0.001 of 99 there's

04:20:18.560 bunch of red flag cappers at the table equals wears war helmets blankets sweaters blue neck yogas dollar

04:20:26.240 store capping alicia keys wannabe cake face capping granny weirdo white blouse pink nut job fake nose

04:20:34.000 blondie what hashtag get the rocks number three hundred and fours hashtag get the rocks okay uh

04:20:41.680 yo lp lpe thank you man thank you i have pulled up also on the latest chat that came in uh just check

04:20:47.840 the profile picture oh dude he just he just successfully roasted every woman at this panel wait which one

04:20:54.320 was i but i've been called weirdo so it really it's alicia keith i think he killed it

04:20:59.600 the rest what was it that's so original come up with something more original do you do you have

04:21:05.040 the uh the video uh yeah there's probably a better version of five guys per night for weeks

04:21:16.240 yeah can you find it uh just play just play just play yeah it started with adult content when i was

04:21:20.560 like nine lower lower or something like that and eventually it got to a point where like i was 19

04:21:25.760 and i got kicked out of my house because i was like bringing over six dudes a night like it just

04:21:30.480 was never enough enough enough was never enough so yeah wait so you would sleep with six six guys a

04:21:40.960 night um so like would you slot them in like 7 p.m 8 p.m 9 p.m 10 p.m yeah yep okay and then i would

04:21:49.520 even oh sorry no go ahead i'd say i would even like have like my backup guys to where it was like if this

04:21:54.960 guy didn't come tonight then i have then i would invite this guy and then if he did come if the

04:22:00.880 first guy guy did come then i'd tell the other guy oh i'm busy like i can't you know make it or

04:22:06.080 whatever so that like did you have a spreadsheet like an excel kind of yeah i mean i had to eventually

04:22:14.080 like i had to write people's names down because it got like so insane that is wild i have so many

04:22:20.080 questions so that woman's looks equivalent in is not capable of sleeping with six women

04:22:30.880 in a night in a day yes but i think the point is is just like the mindset and the behavior that like

04:22:37.040 upsets you guys so like even though a man can't get that many women because he's ugly or whatever the

04:22:44.560 situation is he still has that mindset of a slut or whatever so wouldn't it still be like the same

04:22:51.280 actions are different than intentions you're in your mindset's gonna eventually but it's just because

04:22:55.200 he can't i mean there's there's a lot of it's not really that he's like trying his actions are

04:23:00.240 the same he's still trying to get it he just his actions aren't the same though he's not sleeping

04:23:04.720 with seven women a night because he can't though so it's not really like that even if even if he

04:23:09.520 could it would still be wrong for him to do yeah but that's just what i'm saying like it's it would

04:23:13.440 be the same they're advocating against behavior not not for it regardless of if it's no but i'm not

04:23:18.880 i'm not we're not upset that guys like ugly guys can't do that but i think it's all a degenerate

04:23:23.760 behavior yeah okay i was just like trying to get like yeah he was just explaining why it's different

04:23:28.480 between the sexes okay yeah i still don't think i don't think it's ideal for i think men should be

04:23:34.880 pursuing long-term relationships actually women i mean hookup culture is bad any any guy that's

04:23:41.760 sleeping with seven women a night is for sure spreading a ton of sd population yeah also this

04:23:47.280 this whole idea of like it's it's high value or alpha to like you may be able like you might be

04:23:54.800 such an attractive guy that you're able to and you have the capacity to sleep with a lot of women

04:23:59.680 but i don't think it's high value behavior or alpha to sleep with a bunch of women granted i do

04:24:05.360 think that men need to get more experience when it comes to dealing with women but not necessarily

04:24:14.080 in a sexual sense but i do think that like dating yeah there's like a differential there we don't

04:24:19.200 need to go into that need to build game yeah in conference right why does somebody have classes

04:24:24.240 for that then huh societal classes well so just to make my point though i when it comes to men

04:24:30.960 sleeping with a bunch of women and it's high value or alpha it's the least alpha or high value thing

04:24:37.520 let's say you want to have a wife one day you want to have kids it's not cool to like be bringing herpes

04:24:44.240 or some other std to your the mother of your children to your wife etc so you know what i think the

04:24:52.640 most alpha behavior is personally wait until marriage uh well that half ten cents that but

04:24:57.920 i don't think that's like like particularly alpha per se i think like the most alpha behavior that a

04:25:03.120 man can embody is like making the greatest success out of himself that he can finding the most beautiful

04:25:07.760 and virtuous woman that he can having as many kids with her as humanly possible repopulating the earth

04:25:13.280 and creating a freaking dynasty dude building building a family that then like governs the earth bro

04:25:19.280 that's alpha behavior tell us about the what's the arrow one the arrow the sons are like arrows oh

04:25:25.760 oh yes uh proverbs says the children of a man's youth are like arrows in the hands of a warrior

04:25:33.840 so basically the bible is saying your children are it's describing your kids as artillery to send out

04:25:38.400 into the world so i'm curious on like adoption for you like say like i'm open to it okay yeah i was i was

04:25:45.760 raised by my stepfather my biological father was never in my life and my stepfather yeah okay i've

04:25:52.240 like i remember when i was 18 i had this like feeling one day i was like i want like 30 kids like i just

04:26:00.080 like knew i wanted as many kids as humanly possible and it's just stuck with me ever since you know

04:26:05.360 that's nice yeah i got a lot of love to pour into my future children and yeah my my stepdad raised me and

04:26:12.240 he did an incredible job raising me like my i wouldn't i would there's no way i would be who i

04:26:17.120 am today if he hadn't raised me and like i would love to pay that forward someday that's nice you know

04:26:23.600 that's my take do you guys want to have a lot of kids i would love to yeah how many kids do you want

04:26:28.400 to have kids i mean i would love to have twins personally get it done why they're adorable as fast

04:26:34.880 as possible and like yeah then i would get it done um would you be open to multiple sets of triplets

04:26:40.560 that would be a lot but i mean if it freaking happened like i guess it happened but yeah i

04:26:47.760 would prefer just two do you guys want to have kids no no why i mean maybe i'll change my mind when

04:26:52.960 i'm older or something but as of now no and i never don't wait you never know i'm for sure

04:26:59.280 it depends on my financial position i would want to be like relatively wealthy to be able to

04:27:04.480 give them you know the best schools the best food i want to give them the best of everything

04:27:10.480 but if you're in a good position you want to have kids yes yeah you said you did yeah we of course

04:27:16.720 no candy longs for children i will pray tonight that god gives you the kids that you want whether

04:27:22.720 they're your own or from someone else what about you yeah

04:27:31.040 yes i'm sure it's a yes yeah let me try to i'm going to try to get through these notes as

04:27:36.320 quick as i can here so just finishing off with uh let's see katarina uh okay we did the whole

04:27:43.360 restraining order thing uh modern dating with apps is definitely not for everyone i have seen

04:27:48.080 successful stories but i personally hate it it's based on looks you don't know if the vibe is really

04:27:52.400 there and then you were showing up to the date being a waste of time or them just looking for

04:27:56.800 friends with benefits situation katarina over here uh you prefer meeting people in person

04:28:01.680 my boyfriend and i met four years ago at the party his friend invited me to oh there's not much

04:28:07.840 there okay there's not uh let's see we also have kaylee oh wait oh

04:28:17.760 the story of how you and your boyfriend met okay you want it oh we use it good we we want it is it

04:28:27.760 good okay okay it's the short version if you can but okay so we met through a mutual friend i was in

04:28:33.360 arizona i lived in la at the time and i was visiting her and we went to like a concert or whatever um she

04:28:39.680 introduced us and then we all went out to the bar um he was really shy i had to like make the first move

04:28:47.760 we you know i didn't know his name it wasn't anything serious we barely talked hooked up but we ended up

04:28:55.200 hooking up on this dude's balcony in front of everyone at the what yeah how did you not know

04:29:03.600 no we knew oh you knew yeah that would be kind of hard not to know obvious to the the bystanders the

04:29:11.520 yes so we go to this go all the way did you go all the way on the balcony no so he just

04:29:17.600 ate my ass yeah yeah so we go to this after party it's like an intimate after party so there's like

04:29:27.120 10 people maybe 15 people um and me and him just go straight to the balcony we're just like it was

04:29:34.400 intimate all right yeah let's get out of here so we go on the balcony it just starts happening we're

04:29:39.840 both extremely drunk obviously and the dude who owns this like penthouse that we're at like is

04:29:47.760 coming outside and like handing us shots and he's like in our ear and he's like you guys are so

04:29:53.120 beautiful like yeah like and i'm just like focused on him i think i knew then that like this was the one

04:30:00.400 i don't know i think that sounds crazy but like i swear and so i was just like focused on him he's just

04:30:06.160 focused on me and we'd like get the shots taken and be like yeah man whatever like like go like

04:30:11.520 whatever and he just like kept coming and it was like five times and then eventually we were out

04:30:16.400 there for like two and a half hours wow doing in front of people yes wow yes and so then we go back

04:30:24.160 inside and it's been like two and a half hours and we go inside and everyone's gone and it's just

04:30:28.800 this dude who owns the place i go use the restroom and my boyfriend told me like later on that he

04:30:34.800 like came up to him and was like you gotta get her back here and we're like record it and like

04:30:38.640 i'll pay you guys and stuff like that yeah did you do it no wait question that that was the line too

04:30:47.120 not hooking up in front of all those people so the how long have you been dating your boyfriend

04:30:51.360 again one year a year this one year uh you said that you see okay the first night that you met your

04:30:57.520 boyfriend uh you hooked up and he ate ass question do you really love you love this guy oh yeah you

04:31:07.680 think you guys are gonna get married yes we are getting kids do you think you guys want kids how

04:31:11.200 many kids you guys want um i just said i wanted i want twins so hopefully two question for you when

04:31:16.960 your kids say they're five years old and they ask mommy and daddy tell us about the first night you

04:31:23.840 met i'm sure we'll change the story what are you gonna tell them well i'm sure he'll change it to

04:31:29.440 oh i saw her from across the room and she was beautiful and i had to go up to her and i made

04:31:34.480 the first move and all that but what about the ass eating do you think you'll mention the ass eating

04:31:40.720 no not not at that age as we as they get older we might like put that in there

04:31:45.280 good talk uh okay let's see we have oh you love tate no i'm just kidding oh that's okay it's

04:31:59.440 fine if you do i guess um i see let's see we have okay candy we needed to wrap up oh candy you mentioned

04:32:07.760 hookup culture you wanted to talk about hookup culture breed culture what is i've never heard

04:32:14.000 this what is breed culture it's nasty that's what it is what's what do you mean

04:32:21.360 um like to breed someone can you define it yeah can you yeah it's like intentionally to emit inside

04:32:28.400 a woman so she gets pregnant there's a is there you're saying there's a culture of this sounds

04:32:34.640 like just a thing guys do what do you mean there's a culture are there like online forums where dudes

04:32:38.960 are like planning this out really breeding really so they do it without telling the woman i don't know

04:32:47.520 about that and i don't know if it's all like intended like that or if it's like

04:32:55.120 um people that don't know each other or if it's mostly like people that are in a couple that put out

04:33:01.440 that kind of content but it's it's it's its own culture and that's just like that's too far because

04:33:06.880 i mean that's basically feeding directly into the abortion mill i mean like let's create a baby

04:33:12.320 just to kill it i mean wait what yeah or it's like a fetish no yeah well okay hold on let's

04:33:18.160 differentiate here a little bit so these are people that specifically because like a man could and a

04:33:26.160 woman could conceivably enjoy not to be like vulgar this isn't even that like cream pie like a guy wants to

04:33:35.840 come inside of a woman without necessarily wanting to breed her so is that is that what you're talking

04:33:43.520 about does a guy wanting to come inside a woman does that constitute no like this is this is because

04:33:51.040 i would make the argument that the vast majority of men want to avoid getting a one-night stand or even

04:33:58.160 their girlfriend pregnant there certainly there might be like a kink it's a fetish it's a fetish

04:34:04.800 thing it is and it's but i don't think you can say that there is a culture and there is a whole yeah

04:34:11.760 no but when like typically when i'm thinking of a culture it means that there's there's a majority

04:34:17.360 movement within a society that is desirous of this thing where i would argue actually the vast majority

04:34:24.160 of men who are engaging in sex either casually or with a long-term partner don't want to get

04:34:31.360 their girlfriend or hookup pregnant i don't think that we're talking about those though and maybe i'm

04:34:37.600 on right okay okay well it's not i don't think i've never met a guy who's into what you're describing

04:34:42.240 i think it's a fetish there there probably are some men there's definitely men out there that are like

04:34:47.840 probably are want to i've never met it yeah okay it's probably pretty rare um if i'm just let's see

04:34:53.600 oh you said in your pre-show notes to us if i understood modern technology at all i would be a

04:34:58.480 top one percent multi-million dollar earning only fans phenomenon i'm not trying to be full of my

04:35:06.400 self this is i just yeah i just know what i have and understand marketing enough to say that

04:35:12.240 that with all confidence yeah

04:35:15.760 it's so that your lack of technological understanding is what you feel is holding

04:35:25.840 you back yeah and it's pretty bad like i didn't want to mention the whole autistic thing but i am

04:35:36.640 pretty yeah pretty far down there and that is that's making it hard for the

04:35:43.760 understanding of the understanding of the technology yeah i don't understand technology

04:35:47.040 like i can't there i i can't even describe it or explain it but all right uh yeah and you you

04:35:55.280 continue to say though i am cognitive cognitively disabled diagnosed on the spectrum in bpd uh you

04:36:02.960 struggle significantly when it comes to wait so sorry uh wait my notes are all scuffed here hold on

04:36:09.680 uh were you trying to when you mentioned that were you trying to say that that makes it more

04:36:16.480 difficult when it comes to dating i would say that makes it somewhat impossible impossible

04:36:26.640 okay that's a lot of baggage oh yeah that's a lot of baggage i mean that's like not just a suitcase

04:36:32.880 that's a carry-on that's a shoulder bag that's a makeup bag that's all kinds of stuff in there i

04:36:38.160 will say when it comes to comparing men and women who have cognitive disabilities autism asperger's i

04:36:46.160 would actually argue that men who are neurodivergent are going to struggle struggle significantly more

04:36:52.720 when it comes to getting women dating than the reverse um expand upon that brian please explain for

04:36:59.680 the audience why that might be yeah well i mean it kind of comes down similarly to that video that

04:37:05.600 we pulled up of that woman who was no offense to her she wasn't particularly attractive she was

04:37:10.400 overweight she was able to sleep with five guys in a night despite her lack of physical beauty or

04:37:18.320 attraction or any other redeeming quality okay that was a bit mean but uh uh she was able to

04:37:25.920 fuck five guys in the night so similarly what's the problem for dudes on the spectrum when it comes

04:37:32.400 to dating how do you see that well i would say that a woman who is like autistic or deficient in

04:37:38.320 some way with her cognition that isn't really going to be a barrier when it comes to having sex

04:37:46.320 and we had like for example you you say you're a sex addict you haven't struggled when it comes to

04:37:52.720 getting sex despite your admitted cognitive dis disability being on the spectrum having borderline

04:38:00.880 personality disorder you might want to go that way might be a little easier for you um rip and uh

04:38:10.640 so you assume that you think it would be harder for a man in the same position

04:38:16.400 i i would just because he's a man well there's knowing knowing dudes on the spectrum the thing about

04:38:21.760 dating in particular the thing about women is that i think the men that are most successful

04:38:26.480 with women typically understand female emotions the best oh okay so like social cues social cues

04:38:32.480 being like if you want a healthy relationship with a woman you as a man you're going to have to be able

04:38:37.040 to understand her emotions and stuff whereas like the other way around if the woman didn't understand

04:38:41.440 social cues the man maybe wouldn't care as much yeah it's like less of a big deal i think to guys

04:38:46.720 neurodivergent people should just stick with each other because they understand each other very well

04:38:52.960 it's honestly probably good advice is it though you don't think so i don't i feel like it would

04:38:58.400 almost like double the but what if they're autistic in the same exact way how what are the possibilities

04:39:04.880 of that though what is the probability of do the math i don't know we have like three autistic people in

04:39:08.960 the room right now i wouldn't say they are the same weakness i would say it can be a strength

04:39:14.400 because what'd you say i wouldn't say it's a weakness i'd say it's a strength because you see

04:39:18.000 the world in a drastically different way yeah you know yeah autistic people from what i understand

04:39:24.400 and it's it's not something that should be looked down on it should be i agree i i think i think

04:39:30.000 autism can actually be like a superpower cognitively speaking like i've i've read that autistic people have

04:39:35.760 like vast like where they lack emotionally sometimes they have like vastly stronger

04:39:41.200 systematizing and like logical thinking uh israel right now has like an entire platoon of like

04:39:47.920 autistic digital bro straight up they straight they straight up have like an entire platoon of like

04:39:53.440 autistic soldiers like do it yeah doing like ground monitoring and stuff this is real i saw an article

04:40:00.800 about this last week they have an entire unit of autistic soldiers doing ground monitoring

04:40:06.240 what's hamas got what what's hamas got what's palestine probably like iq iq 70 people

04:40:14.640 oh jesus okay seriously i would have been in a very different place in my life palestinians is

04:40:20.000 like 67 or something like that i saw that online like a week i don't know hopefully i don't get

04:40:23.920 killed for saying you might get canceled for that um if there's probably many very smart people in

04:40:29.120 palestine please i'm like not being racist towards this it's just it's just what i read but anyways

04:40:33.120 maybe we should stay away from the current yeah um uh but yeah like bringing people like that together

04:40:40.800 probably i would imagine they would probably get along much better just like have two parts of society

04:40:46.720 you know wait you want to create a segregated society they should have two parts of society

04:40:50.800 because i just don't think they're ever gonna like get along because neurodivergent people they kind of like

04:40:56.320 like make people like neurotypical people feel uncomfortable in like this very deep down like

04:41:03.440 uncanny valley way i i don't i don't experience that personally with autistic people you could actually

04:41:12.720 perhaps make the argument that uh like a uh geez a neurodivergent person could match up really well

04:41:22.320 with a neurotypical person because that neurotypical person might be more suited to

04:41:29.200 uh for example like someone who's kind of awkward and shy could best pair off with someone who's maybe

04:41:37.920 more extroverted fuck i'm doing a terrible job articulating this but i i think there's

04:41:43.520 there's merit to it um that person that's neurotypical might be or might be more capable of

04:41:49.600 carrying the relationship whereas if there's two people that are lacking in the ability to build

04:41:56.240 a relationship department i don't maybe this is bro science i don't know what the fuck i'm saying

04:42:00.800 navigating like society so yeah i know like one of the partners could better carry the relationship

04:42:07.200 but if they're both like just like take them under their wing and guide them

04:42:10.800 yeah or they would have a good time just with each other also just last point on this i would also

04:42:17.200 say a woman in a wheelchair could get way more fucking dick than the reverse like a dude in a

04:42:24.160 wheelchair bro he's struggling to get some he's so i feel like this just what nothing it's true

04:42:31.440 it's true it's true chicks and chicks and wheelchairs get mad dick bro

04:42:40.000 sight your swords what are you talking about how many chicks in wheelchairs do you know that

04:42:44.240 are getting piped down all the time well because i feel like a lot of women are going to be less

04:42:48.400 attracted to a guy who's in a wheelchair because part of like an attraction trigger nobody's questioning

04:42:52.800 that well you just made the claim that chicks and wheelchairs are getting a lot of action

04:42:57.280 no capacity capacity they have the capacity wise they have the capacity more capacity than their

04:43:03.840 male uh counterparts bro you should recruit you should recruit an entire panel of wheelchaired

04:43:10.080 men and women and just ask them about their seconds my dms are open i need i need maybe first just to

04:43:16.640 ease into it we'll do amputees and then once we get the amputee show out of the way we'll do

04:43:24.400 uh we'll do the dude you should try and load an entire panel of quadruple amputees that have to

04:43:30.720 be placed because they don't have any arms or legs and then you should ask them about their sex lives

04:43:36.960 oh man that would be that would be a crazy

04:43:41.840 well also think about it right uh like if a guy is paralyzed below uh like uh from the waist down

04:43:49.040 he can't i i don't think he can sexually perform but like a woman who she can still

04:43:56.160 fuck i know somebody who a man who is paralyzed from from like he has very many sorry i i know of

04:44:04.080 multiple men that are paralyzed from the waist down that absolutely still get booty yeah but can my

04:44:10.480 understanding they can get sexually aroused you can still can yes i didn't know i i'm not sure about

04:44:14.880 this i didn't know that i thought once you i didn't i don't know they're not like because

04:44:20.160 their body's not chopped off in that sense they're just no is it true there there are definitely dudes

04:44:25.200 in wheelchairs that are absolutely getting it yeah no but they still feel like sensation no there's a

04:44:30.160 different one there are men in wheelchairs who still have like certain function but i'm talking about

04:44:35.200 men who are paralyzed are do they still have sexual function the specific person that i'm referencing has

04:44:41.440 minimal like minimal control over their fingers and that's that's it everything everything like

04:44:48.320 shoulders down is but let me google this still working wow because it's vascular that's insane

04:44:56.160 can you like feel it i'm presuming so go ahead because it's blood flow it's vascular

04:45:02.960 but it's also sensation yeah can he feel his legs and stuff like like can he like if i actually don't

04:45:08.000 know that one wait i'm just paralyzed reminds me of that scene i get when ricky bobby stabs himself

04:45:14.640 in the leg butler donated 99 the girl in pink has spaced out clearly she's contemplating how much

04:45:25.600 i'll help you out it's 70 a month but over time it's going to destroy your kidneys

04:45:31.040 over 65 they won't even prescribe it to you oh damn son damn i gotta go get to work

04:45:39.680 uh uh okay i don't know how we got there okay let me get through my notes

04:45:43.680 in the bathroom uh oh i had a couple questions actually you know what we should maybe switch to

04:45:48.800 the after show um so oh can we hit the lights over here i love this can we hit the lights we'll do a brief

04:45:56.480 after show and then we'll wrap it up wrap it up wrap it up wrap it up box

04:46:06.160 one sec guys i need to change change that's anything important okay

04:46:13.360 it's the red or blue pill red pill blue pill what is the purpose have you seen the movie the matrix

04:46:19.120 oh those fingernails oh my gosh preferably not yeah you might it's it's a prop for the table

04:46:26.320 plastic's probably not healthy for you to digest but yeah do you do you want to swallow them

04:46:30.960 you do yes i mean it depends what it depends what you want to like chew them like yeah yeah

04:46:36.240 you should go get some like jelly beans

04:46:37.520 i don't think i'm dealing with okay oh you can't do it oh they're pills oh okay you choose that one

04:46:46.080 are those are those like are those like marbles shaped like hills they sound like this is so great

04:46:51.040 it's nobody face face of the camera so neurodivergent right now it's like talking to children

04:46:56.080 take the no just put it don't fall over there so people can over there over there yep there you go i'm

04:47:02.240 proud of you you mean over here nope right there just closer yep right yep where i was pointing the

04:47:07.840 entire time okay uh okay hold on i'm just changing things here on our end so we can switch to the uh

04:47:15.440 after oh dude this is all that's all up somebody pressed the wrong one it's okay it's all good um

04:47:25.680 um while i'm getting the after show things fixed does anyone have uh anything dating related they'd

04:47:32.880 like to get off their chest i'm still single but no i'm just kidding nothing nothing do your best to

04:47:40.560 find a life partner and get married in your 20s yeah that yeah men become the greatest men that you

04:47:46.240 possibly can must be okay with her work on your work on your value work on your careers don't run

04:47:52.800 through women filthy filthy women do your best to save yourself for the man out there that god made

04:47:57.200 for you men do the same save yourself for the save yourself for the man that god made you don't

04:48:02.960 watch porn do you believe in twin flames it's a joke nobody caught that he never came do you believe

04:48:06.560 in twin flames uh can you define that it's like where your soul is split into two bodies no i don't

04:48:13.920 think so he's not that's like spirituality he's not spiritual he's really he's like christian yes yeah

04:48:20.080 he's a christian do you believe there's multiple soulmates in like one i think i think the concept

04:48:24.240 of a soulmate honestly is a modern psyop i think the idea that there's like some perfect person out

04:48:30.160 there for you and like if you could find them then everything's going to be perfect and your

04:48:34.240 relationship will never take any work i think that's like a total psyop kind of like the whole

04:48:38.160 like self-love culture and i feel like that kind of ruins relationships because of that because

04:48:42.400 people get in relationships and there's one thing wrong instead of working like to better it they

04:48:47.840 just like like you said they're just like oh not my soulmate yeah absolutely and i think there's

04:48:52.160 this like chronic thing with i mean you see it in divorce rates of people just falling out of love

04:48:56.960 with people and that's why you gotta work for it i don't support no fault divorce whatsoever but

04:49:03.120 i think this like concept of falling out of love with somebody is majority of the time is complete

04:49:07.680 bullshit i feel like people people fall out of yeah people fall out of feelings there's different types

04:49:12.400 of love right like the greeks identified like there's eros love which is like the

04:49:16.640 desire and attraction you feel towards someone then there's also like agape love which is

04:49:22.320 uh christ-like love where it's like i'm going to love you no matter what for your good and your bad

04:49:27.360 to your point i think a lot of people like when they like get over a relationship they're like okay

04:49:32.240 i'm done with this now time for a divorce i i think my personal philosophy with the whole twin

04:49:38.160 would you call it twin flame twin flame and soulmate thing i think that there's probably a number of

04:49:42.240 women out there who i could married or marry and have awesome marriages with but the reality is

04:49:46.960 that any marriage is going to take work to people also yeah it's going to have that other person who's

04:49:52.160 willing to do the same amount of work exactly and it's it's love is a it's a feeling but it's also a

04:49:58.240 choice there's going to be a lot of moments in time throughout like marriage or relationships

04:50:02.400 where you're not going to like the other person but you still need to love them yeah my mom told me

04:50:06.960 that i don't like you but i love you and there's so sad i think there's different types of love too

04:50:14.080 like you were saying like and you just have to choose what type of love is the love you want and

04:50:19.120 what you're willing to work for yeah and to actually build on that i think you can experience i don't

04:50:26.240 think you have to choose one particular type of love like the most ideal marriage i would argue is one

04:50:31.520 rooted in eros love like the relationship starts from desire and attraction and like i really want

04:50:37.360 you yeah but when you build that like christ-like agape love into it that's like when you have the

04:50:42.480 desire but also christ that's a recipe for like a perfect marriage long term not an easy marriage but

04:50:49.120 a successful one you know i just wanted to announce since we've now shifted into the uh after show the uh

04:50:55.120 tts trigger has been reduced the read trigger has been reduced so it's uh 20 and up to read slash

04:51:02.720 answer tts is now 69 and up so thank you guys um okay so let me do it's still on youtube yeah we're

04:51:11.920 still we're still live we're still on youtube what's the official difference besides the lighting between

04:51:16.240 i just change i change the lighting and i reduce the threshold for like super chats so like if anybody

04:51:22.640 who maybe can't afford the higher rate or they want to chat you make the pores wait till the end i

04:51:29.120 make them yes yes i'm a i'm a philanthropist somebody referenced them earlier here let me do

04:51:36.720 some of these chats that we got earlier let's run through the ladies if modern day medical technologies

04:51:40.720 like contraceptives and abortion were never invented would you each reevaluate your standards for dating

04:51:46.240 on a scale of one to ten how promiscuous are you for your age don't cap we can only do one

04:51:51.760 question per chat so um would you each i don't even get that one on a scale of one to ten how

04:52:00.000 promiscuous are you for your age here we'll do that one we'll go right i mean what's that mean

04:52:05.440 um i mean when i was single i would say 10 but in a relationship obviously wait you were a 10 on the

04:52:13.840 promiscuity scale when you were single i think so okay we need detail where you need some details on that

04:52:19.040 what what do we that's like what seven dudes a day no okay maybe i was over exaggerating i forgot

04:52:25.840 that there's like well so what what was it how many dudes per month it wasn't that many but i was

04:52:31.520 you can tell us you can tell us um so i was single for about eight months because like i said i was in

04:52:36.800 the nine year one and that so this eight months was basically my eight months of my life because i'm

04:52:41.600 definitely getting married um so i mean it was probably like one every two weeks maybe or something

04:52:50.720 like that wasn't really that she's a slot and she knows that love that

04:52:59.040 just kidding that was well timed okay so where would that be on the on the scale that'd be like

04:53:05.920 a seven eight i mean if seven dudes per night is a 10 yeah you could do more than seven so shoot i

04:53:13.520 don't know maybe there's just like anything over a certain threshold that's a 10 even if it's what's

04:53:19.520 the threshold then well definitely i mean okay here we'll work backwards so i think we would

04:53:24.800 both agree one new guy a day that's a 10 that's a that's immediately like one new guy a week is also

04:53:30.160 a 10 yeah one new guy is it i would bump down to like an eight or a nine probably a nine one new guy

04:53:39.280 a month i feel i feel like i didn't really like count though it's like kind of just like when you go

04:53:44.320 out and you just like if you meet a guy that's like attractive and you hit it off then

04:53:49.360 like i would sleep with him yeah but i'm not like going out like i go out to have fun with my

04:53:55.840 girlfriends mainly but if i see a hot guy and we hit off i'm gonna sleep with him so it's not really

04:54:01.920 like i'm searching for sex right if it comes in my life okay not consciously yes just to get through

04:54:09.840 this quickly and just so we can try to wrap up uh scale of one to ten how promiscuous are you for

04:54:15.840 your age just if you can even quantify it seven yeah okay i don't know what we're even i don't

04:54:21.440 know the question really i'm calling cap on seven no i don't know quick answers though quick

04:54:27.120 answers there's way too much crosstalk zero i guess zero yeah by the scale that you guys have

04:54:34.320 already come i need quick answers just four i don't even know what it means that's fine that's

04:54:39.680 fine for your age please into the mic please for your age so you're supposed to be like more

04:54:46.000 sexual joe murphy this is like the most ridiculous question ever

04:54:50.560 scale of one to ten how promiscuous do you classify yourself as promiscuous or not

04:54:56.000 can you be promiscuous with a boyfriend no oh well unless you're sleeping with other men no okay

04:55:03.200 like a two okay like a two zero or if it's only from one to ten one actually how much of a sling

04:55:10.800 okay basically all right we have we have all in euro wait what's 15 what the hell 15 000 yen is

04:55:18.400 probably like five bucks 15 000 yen to usd i feel like i'm getting scammed here oh no that's good

04:55:25.440 that's how much is that it's 100 bucks that's nice that's valid because sometimes they'd be like

04:55:30.320 from argentina argentina and it's like comes in red and it's like two dollars no offense sorry

04:55:37.200 what's going on in argentina okay uh it's been a while brian i heard that the united states are going

04:55:43.600 to make one one man enter the military the same as men how does it feel it how does it feel to be

04:55:50.880 the same as men oh probably most one man will not make it five minutes in the battlefield well

04:55:57.360 konichiwa first of all thank you man for the 15 000 yen um ladies how do you guys feel about the

04:56:04.960 possibility of getting drafted into the military it's not gonna happen it's not happening i mean i

04:56:09.120 passed my physical to go into the army so i feel like i got it it'd be like a game of cards i'm just

04:56:15.440 letting you know are you talking so the physical was like you go and you go to mips you take a physical

04:56:25.360 and you take the asvet oh wait i thought you're talking the physical was the men of platoon i mean

04:56:31.520 that was a part of it oh i mean that's great yeah i thought that was the what qualified you for the

04:56:37.680 front line okay i mean there probably does

04:56:43.200 little wretched a key that can open any lock is a master key a lock that can that any key can open

04:56:48.560 is a broken lock i think it typically goes uh a key wait hold on this you've already confused me

04:56:54.560 wretched how does it do you know how how it goes it's basically the same as you put it but just

04:56:58.640 reversed i think yeah a lock that can be opened by any key is a shitty lock but a key that can open

04:57:07.680 any lock is a master key so thank you a little wretched appreciate it we have rv think merci beaucoup

04:57:13.600 for the canadian 50 the reason women prefer lies more than men is because the hierarchy of valuable

04:57:18.800 men financial stability is based on merit while that of women beauty requires lies and manipulation

04:57:25.360 women women are subconsciously wired to value lies and manipulation okay interesting interesting

04:57:33.360 it's basically the same comment that somebody else made earlier in the podcast

04:57:36.400 all right thank you rv we have whatever we have rippy the idea of soulmates is inherently

04:57:44.640 unbiblical also i married the wrong person isn't biblical grounds for divorce how many marriages may

04:57:50.160 have ended because someone came across a random who they thought was their soulmate yep ah interesting

04:57:56.560 i know of at least one marriage that ended because of that i know quite a few but are they happy with

04:58:02.000 this new person they're not with the new person oh they just they like wanted to pursue it then

04:58:07.360 the marriage i feel like social media has a huge part in that too because you're always looking at

04:58:11.280 people's posts being like oh i can do better i should be looking for that yeah you're always

04:58:15.120 presented you should be looking if you're married that unobtainable ideal yeah if you're married uh we

04:58:20.560 have alex p here just popping into just popping in to tell brian to stop using those crappy pens and be

04:58:27.600 classy you have a pen made out of battleship my dude so okay alex p here he sent us a bunch of pens

04:58:34.560 i will let you know that we are still using your pens for all the talent releases that we have everyone

04:58:39.280 signed before the show but i am i am a uh a man of uh habit and uh so uh let me see if i can

04:58:48.720 hold up i'll wait i'll come to that one later we have alex p pen guy here also a so sof vet she passed

04:58:58.000 the same physical therapy doctor gives you to play volleyball bro not a fitness test smh is this

04:59:06.640 directed at you i'm confused i have no idea okay it didn't make any sense thank you pen man thank you

04:59:15.280 thank you alex appreciate it man all right we had we had oh we have quite a few of the chats coming

04:59:20.080 in here so we have jay lion breeding is new christian culture where abortion is illegal they can't get

04:59:28.080 a girl to marry them so they will try and breed a girl without her knowing knowing she has to have

04:59:33.600 sorry knowing she has to have his kid and will have to marry him because no other guy will want

04:59:38.160 her with a child um it's a christian culture i don't think it's a christian culture i think that's

04:59:46.960 i don't care what your background is i think if you're intentionally doing that and that's pretty

04:59:53.200 fucked up so that's way sick um so yeah that's not a good look okay jc brown back to the red flag

05:00:00.240 for a single guy that is 45 never married and single i'm a person with high morals in the

05:00:05.120 christian faith and never found a woman worthy to marry how is that a red flag well didn't you ask

05:00:11.520 the girls i mean i think that's directed at well actually i don't remember what everyone's probably

05:00:17.840 but it's probably directed at me and i didn't say it was a red flag i said it was a yellow flag i don't

05:00:21.840 think that it's always the case i think there are some virtuous people that just haven't had the

05:00:26.800 right luck in dating and in their love life but on average the guys that you would most likely be

05:00:33.760 presented with it would be a yellow flag yeah okay we have and i'll wait for one of these because they

05:00:40.160 are addressed to uh chase and he's not here right now we have l marsh 1983 alabama girl love your

05:00:47.280 accent as a non-anglo speaker and attitude you could definitely become a comedian if you wanted let

05:00:52.880 priya guide you marry me i found tonight's show very chill greetings to y'all from ecuador would you

05:01:00.560 actually you know l mars mars 1983 um we were in peru which is also another southern latin american

05:01:09.920 country this motherfucker saved me from a gorilla they don't have gorillas do they have gorillas in

05:01:17.840 south america are there gorillas i feel like not really saved you from the cartel yes saved me from

05:01:29.760 the cartel that's awesome he's a really nice man you should wow so i'm basically gonna marry him

05:01:35.440 pretty much pretty much i feel good i'm married let me see here my notes we i think we got through

05:01:43.600 most of them we hit everything from candy i think uh okay we had i mean we i don't think we've really

05:01:55.040 perfectly defined the ho phase thing but uh i'd like to go around the table who here by show of

05:02:02.080 hands has had a ho phase i mean it really well you define that as but what do i whatever that might mean

05:02:11.840 to you whatever it might mean to you that was funny okay these what hope hope is i mean if it's

05:02:24.240 like sleeping with men my single short brief short short brief ho phase short and sweet

05:02:32.000 there might have been a ho phase you seem like you don't want to answer the question like you're

05:02:35.360 avoiding all right we have uh nickelodeon here to miss alabama how many of your exes

05:02:45.760 were your family members have you ever run into trump while getting your tan applied p.s i'm starting

05:02:51.200 to worry brian has a knife kink this is real first of all huh i said this is real first of all what's

05:02:57.760 real only like one cousin tried to be with me only one cousin yeah oh my god not multiple that makes

05:03:03.040 it that's i mean it's alabama oh my goodness just no an alabama family reunion without at least one

05:03:10.080 fucking is a dull affair yeah from from when you what's around what are you talking about what you

05:03:17.760 talking about exactly what i'm talking about i don't know i don't know what you're talking about

05:03:21.440 prom oh i wanted to ask you while i was while i was gone you said you were arrested yes i missed it

05:03:28.720 what happened there you were arrested yes what happened um so i was 17 um i was shoplifting with

05:03:38.000 some friends and got caught and we were in the car already and they brought us inside and i got

05:03:45.600 arrested wow because you were hot boxing shoplifting oh that would also happen in georgia you could get

05:03:54.960 in trouble for hot boxing oh okay i ate like an eighth of weed one time i thought i was getting

05:04:00.160 pulled over yeah you'll get in trouble for yeah well i tried to shove it in my vagina but my my jail

05:04:07.280 story is crazy just because of the people who were in jail with me like it was i went to the lana jail

05:04:14.320 the atlanta jail yes so it was quite the experience for a 17 year old girl wow good times oh nick we

05:04:24.880 should pull up the twitch because we haven't pulled up the uh twitch today was there a video too that we

05:04:29.360 were supposed to pull up that we never got to or uh okay all right guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever

05:04:36.800 drop us a phone in the prime sub if you have one and uh sorry if i missed some of you it won't scroll

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05:05:00.960 thank you guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever if you got a prime amazon you got amazon you can link

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05:05:11.520 us a follow and a prime sub if you have one we have austin smith here off topic question but chase me and

05:05:17.440 my friend we're having a religious discussion and he brought up the book of deuteronomy talking about

05:05:22.560 essaying women and deleting for how we can't talk about this um and i never heard of the text until

05:05:29.280 today just wondering thoughts um yeah to make it quick book of deuteronomy that was part of uh

05:05:37.280 mosaic law those were strict laws that god gave the israelites in order to govern their society

05:05:43.120 because they had a pretty lawless society without them uh that's the old testament yeah it's old

05:05:48.800 testament okay um yeah there's a lot of like super gnarly stuff in the old testament law that's like

05:05:54.320 pretty difficult to uh stomach but uh yeah man i mean that's that's old testament you know people

05:05:59.760 living back in the day were just complete degenerates unless they had laws and uh god gave them to them

05:06:06.240 we have uh something here from lpe chase i would wash your clothes immediately after the show there was

05:06:11.920 a nasty sharting incident on that seat hashtag burritos uh madison here last show she uh madison did you

05:06:20.240 did you poop yourself yeah she's she's kidding she's kidding she's nice she's good nope

05:06:29.120 no it checks out it checks out very chivalrous i'm a i'm a gentleman what can i say what can i say we

05:06:36.160 have simpy simp shout out to kaylee been following you forever on ig and would simp for you any day

05:06:42.400 you're a goddess also were your parents arrested for anything curious who stole the stars and put them

05:06:48.400 in your eyes oh my god that was a pickup line do you want to here do you want to say something

05:06:56.720 thank you that's very sweet do you want to like wait all right we have tickle fight

05:07:04.160 brixen you should reach out to sean coughlin of freedom tunes he'd be a great guest actually i think uh

05:07:12.000 i did invite him i need to follow up with him to have him on but also maddie hope things are good

05:07:15.440 with your dad last i heard you weren't on speaking terms after that podcast with him maddie do you

05:07:20.880 care to weigh in here we are now speaking once again thank you for your concern i appreciate it

05:07:30.000 there you know it's all good what what happened nitro i can't really explain it's complicated it's a long

05:07:37.920 so complicated it's a complicated and long story complicated and long story uh let's see we had

05:07:45.040 um did you want to do the battle the which one the bow video that's the only video uh well we

05:07:53.120 i think we were i wrote a note here down to ask everybody's type so because i think oh you were

05:08:01.120 saying something about how you're picky you're very picky right yeah yeah you said oh you said no

05:08:08.000 kidding you said you like fit guys so what what's like a fit guy like a muscular guy or just thin or

05:08:15.360 what are we talking um i like lanky guys but if like i don't really like gym guys if a guy has a job

05:08:22.000 where he's like lifting heavy things and like a naturally muscular body is beautiful like tone

05:08:29.760 like oh yeah like you like him tone or you like him big like if he was a farm boy farm boy okay i mean

05:08:37.280 not necessarily a boy but he's a farm boy you know all those like big forearms big shoulders you're into

05:08:44.160 that not like weight lifting big right you know unnatural big is not right go ahead natural um

05:08:54.240 my time oh yeah we'll go around the table on that your time looks personality um personality

05:09:01.200 gentlemen very sweet i i like traditional men um look wise um i'm very into like i guess what you would

05:09:10.560 say a classic like white male blonde like yeah that kind of cool yeah sweet i like pretty guys with abs

05:09:24.160 okay and pretty girls

05:09:28.560 ideally like lean physique listens to my chemical romance skinny huh what what what on the skinny side

05:09:38.720 you looked upset by that one okay i said i said listens to my chemical romance no no no i'm not

05:09:46.800 really into like emo boys no no but yeah like white or there could be like ideally white you know yeah

05:09:55.840 blonde hair blue eyes yeah but you know that's like so hard yeah we have the same type it sounds like

05:10:02.080 wait but there i will like allow for some slight like some variations you'll allow you'll allow she allows

05:10:09.440 like suffices you know personality is sufficient how much variation will you allow um i don't know i'm

05:10:17.520 not i don't really are you white btw i'm just curious like are you probably half race half

05:10:24.160 half you're half breed you're half breed i haven't heard that in the back she's a half breed half dog

05:10:34.080 half porpoise me too we're muggles um yeah half mexican half white oh yeah okay you probably can't tell

05:10:42.000 though because it's like more spanish oh i could tell really yeah i feel like you could be a mad

05:10:49.040 scientist has anybody ever told you that i think it's just the white button up bro it's the white

05:10:53.840 button up and her hair like you're you're close to the einstein hair oh sorry i feel like i'm being

05:11:01.120 me your autism is showing right it's just it's you you got nice hair just

05:11:11.040 do i have like the crazy eyes like the homicidal you know what

05:11:16.800 into the mic do i have the crazy eyes like just stare at me for like 10 seconds

05:11:21.360 no not to me some chicks have like proper crazy eyes i'm like like the sampaku the sampaku eyes

05:11:30.640 with the white oh where the whites on the bottom or sometimes women some you do some people just

05:11:34.880 can you tell wait make your eyes big no you don't i mean when you look up you do no no no just look

05:11:39.760 straight look straight we are looking to this camera anybody has sampaku eyes when you like

05:11:47.280 open your eyes wide you have like doe eyes like just yeah have you ever slashed a dude's tires

05:11:54.000 huh have you ever slashed a dude's tires no but i did break someone's windshield i threw a rock at it

05:12:00.320 why i get that from you why i don't know i just you don't know i was just mad was it was an ex

05:12:07.840 though right not not just a random yeah it's because he was like another girl so but they never found out

05:12:13.200 it was me now now they do now they do wait when was this that was like four years okay statue of

05:12:20.640 limitations we're good okay oh my god we have jc a brown here oh my god with the two hundred dollars

05:12:33.920 yeah yo thank you jc based on the panels over the last several podcasts the chance of dying alone

05:12:40.320 are 100 percent oh come on that's not nice 100. he says nice is another man's treasure

05:12:50.720 why did you like why did you gesture at her i just heard the camera no you like why would you

05:12:56.160 do that to jane that's super it was unintentional okay you were like

05:13:01.360 you're like you're like you're like one man's trash you're like this you're like this

05:13:14.880 good talk um what were what were we going around on what the

05:13:19.200 was the type type oh tight uh oh did you finish telling your time yeah yeah

05:13:25.200 raven dt donated 69 dollars thank you raven thank you la morena tiene los ojos locos

05:13:34.160 the brunette has the crazy eyes she is putting out overly attached girlfriend vibes

05:13:40.800 okay thank you no no i think he was talking about actually i think he was talking about her

05:13:47.440 because he used spanish wait can you speak a little spanish for us uh no no quiero

05:13:57.040 okay jeannie your turn

05:14:02.080 what about the canadian do any of you speak uh excuse me french french i meant i meant to say french

05:14:07.200 what's that scene that's about all we must see what's that scene from inglorious bastards where

05:14:19.280 it's like brad and the two yeah yeah we're trying to be italian or yeah like he's like it's gorlami

05:14:26.160 he's like say it again gorlami yeah and then the the last guy's like dominic di coco and he was the

05:14:30.880 guy who spoke he spoke the least italian that's a brilliant scene i went to french immersion and

05:14:37.440 instead of asking where the toilet is i asked if there's a llama in the toilet so then that's where

05:14:41.920 i called it quits what yeah exactly good uh your type oh i think we already talked about it for the

05:14:48.560 most part no i'm definitely into comedians comedians yes i have got to have a comedian

05:14:54.640 somebody that can in fact your physical parents can go out the window if you have me rolling louis ck

05:15:03.040 he does like to pardon me huh you don't know this chick says she likes comedian she doesn't know

05:15:08.480 louis ck is bro he's not 28 or 29 years old that's okay i wasn't talking about like on stage

05:15:14.400 comedian i mean just like if you're funny yeah if you're a funny guy oh because why didn't you just

05:15:19.680 say that why did you say because i think of funny guys as comedians oh when i think of a comedian i

05:15:26.720 think of a comedian okay what about you uh yeah just sense of humor and someone that you can talk to

05:15:34.480 non-stop look never run looks let's do like one looks thing one personality thing i don't know eyes

05:15:40.800 probably nice eyes yeah like dark no bright bright yeah we have to have like green or blue-eyed babies

05:15:47.680 okay all right what about what about you what's your type i was gonna say good personality and good

05:15:54.400 style good stuff like dress as well okay confident like and a family man i like that okay i like a

05:16:02.160 family man what about you over here i like nice eyes and dark hair light eyes preferably

05:16:11.600 did you think i was looking into your soul you have blonde hair it has to be brown sorry i have blonde

05:16:17.440 hair it's kind of it's too light for me my hair is too light for her well on the screen in real life

05:16:25.440 it likes a little if it was like he has like darker hair it's brunette yeah yeah i know but yes it has

05:16:32.720 to be like his hair is blonde i'm sorry my hair is not brown dark dark his hair is brown no not dark

05:16:39.440 it's not dark enough it's not dark enough so you want dark enough black hair i guess but it's like

05:16:44.320 dark brown it is dark brown one might call it black one might it is no

05:16:54.080 okay okay one one physical attribute and then one personality

05:16:58.080 sure okay um other than the ones that i've or aside from ones i've already said yeah

05:17:02.960 um hygiene good hygiene it's very important good hygiene gotta have good hygiene um don't

05:17:13.200 have good hygiene what you got you don't really have anything if you don't have good hygiene there's

05:17:17.440 no good high you gotta okay sorry sorry you made me lose my train of thought thank you but um

05:17:26.000 you didn't come back to me i bet none of the people watching this like wash their ass

05:17:33.120 what the fuck i did not expect that it's so rude the ones that tip do

05:17:44.800 they think it's gay oh it's gay i'm touching my ass what the fun

05:17:48.000 i don't know that it's the most hetero thing to just bro i got some baby wipes son like you gotta

05:17:56.480 clean you gotta clean you gotta keep fresh please clean there you go i'm gonna pull up a mac mac super

05:18:04.720 chat real quick i don't understand that oh well let's go around on type chase what's uh what's your

05:18:09.920 time oh bro i love uh women from like the nordic countries uh big big fan big fan um personality

05:18:19.200 wise oh man i feel like i've run through this like a million times on the show she's got to be a godly

05:18:25.520 christian woman you know she's got to love the lord yeah what's up you want to say something no no

05:18:28.960 you can finish i was just i i've she's gotta be my thought gotta be a godly christian woman gotta

05:18:33.680 love the lord gotta want a big family uh gotta be feminine gotta be you know in in love

05:18:39.680 with god in love with the word um we obviously have to vibe well but like that's not really a

05:18:44.480 type thing if there's no vibe there's no vibe it's yeah it's over what are you doing um big

05:18:49.680 big fan of athletic chicks all that kind of stuff you know that's that's my type i got a question for

05:18:55.040 you chase what's up bro you said you like nordic women blonde blue eyes got kaylee here now she's

05:19:03.520 got a boyfriend and she does only fans but if it wasn't for that would you say that looks wise like

05:19:09.360 this is this is the kind of girl that yeah she's a very beautiful woman thank you okay all right

05:19:15.840 only fans thing total deal breaker though sorry i'm not super religious so yeah that would probably

05:19:21.520 be a problem oh totally i'm like extremely religious so i'm not at all he's he's

05:19:27.760 that would be a problem i'm not at all extremist yes you could you could call me a religious extremist

05:19:32.320 i like listening about it oh i respect that would be she respects very important i'd like to hear

05:19:38.560 about it must have respect it's essential god have respect you can talk about it all prea what was

05:19:43.360 your thing i was gonna say someone who's an intellectual sparring partner oh yeah good

05:19:48.560 quality yeah that's fun it's a good quality isn't it yeah oh that's what you like in the guy correct

05:19:53.760 yeah not not in a combative way but somebody that you bounce ideas off of someone who's stimulating

05:19:59.120 exactly somebody that is mentally stimulating for you and you always have a good conversation

05:20:02.640 always have to stimulate stimulation very important intellectually i like to stimulate women all the

05:20:11.040 might do it later tonight just kidding just kidding i'm a man of i think goofiness is also really

05:20:16.320 important like being able to be comfortable and silly and like not be serious also just like best

05:20:22.160 friend god i'm gonna break a rule but being able to be retards together yes super fun i love that

05:20:28.320 yeah it's essential yeah you gotta be able to you know goof around goof around with your girl if

05:20:34.080 you're always too stern you know it's it's never good never good okay can you pull up that super chat

05:20:41.440 i want to oh well let me just do what i want nick nick nick the bowing video what i'm gonna play this

05:20:50.720 i'm gonna play this video every show because this now i want to just i want to clarify one thing because

05:20:57.040 the the it's obviously a skit and the guy's obviously intentionally uh uh hamming it up a bit

05:21:05.680 being kind of what the guy is doing i think is rude but what the girl is doing prime go ahead oh can you

05:21:13.600 zoom it in zoom how about that top comment can you can you move us over to the other side

05:21:20.480 all right go ahead you can uh the top comment compared to the second comment go ahead

05:21:29.440 goodness look at the boom did you see the bow guys well don't don't worry

05:21:34.240 this is so based

05:21:44.720 this is empire shit guys she's getting him the drink look the dinner's ready he just walked in the door

05:21:52.800 she's getting i i can do that with my noodles you know the girl doesn't have to do that

05:21:58.800 right being attentive huge watch watch boom

05:22:02.640 fucking bow i want my girl to bow can you know what can we do a bow check i would like to go around

05:22:10.800 the table can we do a bow check are you guys down to like demo about maybe not you

05:22:16.800 yeah that might the you think the titties will fall out if you do yeah i'm nervous i don't want to

05:22:23.920 pay ten here let's i think you better check yourself let's do let's do i think you better

05:22:29.040 check yourself maybe let's see you misogynistic much how's it how's it misogynistic can we get

05:22:38.480 a bow wow that was a good one can you break up with your boyfriend right now no okay so i'm

05:22:44.160 i'm okay that was a good the senpai it wasn't low enough i should have my head it should have been

05:22:50.000 deeper it should have been deeper but i liked the senpai wait did you you got to put it on one more

05:22:57.520 time okay it needs work that's like serious commitment to the bow that's good how about you

05:23:04.400 we'll see you let's can we see a bow i think i'm gonna sit right that's fine you don't have to do

05:23:09.360 the bow i'm just saying maybe when you go when you see give your boyfriend a bow he might like it

05:23:14.400 okay do you promise me no no not for me to give your next time i think he would probably be a little

05:23:21.520 freaked out and be like what did i do brian would you be down for your girl to bow to you all the time

05:23:27.680 would i would i be down maybe if you're dating like yeah like was that like that that video or is

05:23:33.600 that like you like that that's so it's it's so bass it's idea you don't like it it's like i feel

05:23:41.600 like that like at that point it's just a slave yeah it's weird you don't want a slave not particularly

05:23:50.560 there's like a there's a limit and i think you're like on that dancing on the line you can pause the

05:23:55.120 video dancing on what line the limit the limit what's the limit like there's like doing nice things for

05:24:02.400 each other and then like you said there's like slave oh that's it's so based dominating you know

05:24:08.640 you know you want to maybe like before like sexual act if that's like your fetish she could do it for

05:24:14.160 you so what's she talking about over here what are you talking about i don't know so you are you down

05:24:22.400 you're down for the the bow i mean it could be like hot in a way why are you guys exchanging rings what

05:24:28.640 is going on here it just happened i feel like it could be hot i don't know to what to just have

05:24:34.560 someone dominate you and this is this something that's lacking in your current relationship

05:24:41.120 you need him to bow for you no no like because usually i'm the one that dominates him how's how's

05:24:47.920 the how's the relationship going how's that how's it on the rocks is it what's it's okay it's okay

05:24:55.040 yeah it's okay it's just okay is there any trouble in paradise

05:25:02.640 maybe maybe we can talk about that later that's a private conversation i hope he doesn't see this

05:25:08.640 yeah he won't he won't i could see it being i agree with him maybe in like a sexual

05:25:16.400 huh like time no even just even outside of the bedroom you know

05:25:21.520 have you have you done have you done bdsm test.org have you taken that test no you don't know what

05:25:27.280 i'm talking about where it tell it like okay are you submissive dominant switch rope bunny

05:25:33.280 yeah oh so you have you taken the test no but oh you just know you just know your switch are you

05:25:40.720 not currently fulfilled in that way honestly honestly no no but i mean what can you do what can you do

05:25:53.680 leave we settle communicate find a woman yeah communicate you need to meet communicate oh yeah

05:25:58.640 or that yeah okay all right good talk um all right we have some chats here fyi fyi chase duet doesn't

05:26:07.120 condone wait so they said fyi chase deuteronomy doesn't condone essaying women i don't even know

05:26:13.040 what that what does that mean essaying women s oh s s a s a yeah yeah of course of course it doesn't

05:26:19.360 the women is seduced c strong h 7901 second infants were deleted if they were a product of sorcery

05:26:27.360 meaning genetic manipulation incest etc you'll have to interpret better okay yeah i to be honest i don't

05:26:33.920 even like know what verses he was referencing cm as a veteran marine who lives in japan for years

05:26:39.280 brian the most submissive and feminine women on the planet are japanese girls go to osaka as far as

05:26:44.800 american as far from you can and find your winner ask the chat um it's very true that's true it's

05:26:52.640 called i've heard they go crazy for white boys uh sex tours well there's like passport bros and all that

05:26:59.200 stuff but uh oh man like like i feel like if a man can't get laid here he can just go to a matter of

05:27:07.120 any other country and he'll find no problem i don't think that's necessary like she just said it's not

05:27:13.040 a matter of getting laid it's just like finding feminine quality women right and uh i mean i've

05:27:19.360 definitely i've definitely heard this that like japanese women are bueno but uh i think you have to like

05:27:26.560 if you actually like you have to learn the language and i'm like an english supremacist i'm

05:27:33.680 gonna admit it like bro i'm sorry i'm the same what i'm an english supremacist like i

05:27:42.240 which is funny because english is my white girl speaking it's your first language french really yeah

05:27:47.520 i was born in france and then i moved to the u.s when i was five so france i am an american citizen but uh

05:27:52.800 yeah interesting but english is in my view the superior language that's facts that's what you

05:27:59.280 mean there should be honestly this is going to be a little controversial exactly i think that there

05:28:06.080 should be and chase i don't know if you disagree with this because it's kind of like globalist you

05:28:09.920 know but uh is it globalist i think there should be a one world language totally disagree tower of

05:28:15.600 battle is that a bad idea not at all terrible idea here let me let me let me defend it that's like

05:28:21.600 new world order type no but let me defend it based very true very true let me just defend it a little

05:28:27.280 bit let me just say there with the the economic benefit and the the what what the communication

05:28:35.280 is literally exactly the argument that the globalists hold on chase hold on just destroy

05:28:40.640 every culture and nation screw all of the uniqueness of the cultures think about the money

05:28:47.040 this is what they say but think okay from from a if i if i want to learn another language the amount

05:28:55.200 of human capital and resource it takes to teach other languages learn other languages we would all be

05:29:02.000 able to communicate way better i'm not saying or their culture or everybody can learn english and we can

05:29:10.240 uh keep rolling the way that we are no no no i'm saying the one world language is english then

05:29:16.000 nobody could kind of the case now people behind their backs well it's kind of the case now english

05:29:19.920 is the language of business french people hate americans what because of that precise right now

05:29:25.760 because of what precise attitude that oh we shouldn't have to learn french if we come to your country

05:29:30.800 but he's french and american no french french hate americans because they're pompous and any any

05:29:36.640 tourist who goes to their country yes and any tourist who goes to their country they just think that

05:29:41.440 they're better than everybody else on the planet i was just in europe tourists think they're better

05:29:45.280 than the french people what you said the tourists no no french people this is what i've experienced

05:29:51.040 when i've gone to paris like so many french people parisians in particular look down on all of

05:29:56.080 the americans there but it's like guess what bro your freaking economy depends on all of our tourism

05:30:00.560 so like stop turning your nose up to us yeah and that's not like a that's not a mentality based on

05:30:07.280 um if you're here you should try and learn the language they they look down on people that

05:30:11.280 they can obviously sniff out a foreigner very very easily especially if your french is not

05:30:16.640 near perfect so it's not it's it has nothing to do with that yeah even when i've tried speaking french

05:30:21.680 to parisians when i've been in paris they like that's your personal experiences that's a universal

05:30:27.120 experience a lot of people as somebody who's french i've had both really good as somebody

05:30:32.880 who's french who was born in paris i love friends were you actually i was born in paris

05:30:39.280 paris fucking sucks yes okay i love it trust max it's a beautiful city but it's also dirty

05:30:46.720 it has its beauty it has some of its beauty watch out for those gypsies man bro here's here's

05:30:52.160 no really yo here's the craziest shit when i was a kid i remember going to the eiffel tower this was

05:30:58.720 in the 90s or some shit going to the eiffel tower no security nothing just like you could go there was

05:31:05.520 i went to the eiffel tower in 2014 and there were all over the place uh like police and military people

05:31:15.040 with uh with guns yeah yeah and there's like uh there's barriers and barricades and shit that's

05:31:23.520 not the eiffel tower that's not the paris that i remember and i'm not to get i'm not going to get

05:31:28.560 political but paris has changed france has changed and immigration man they have so many terrorists

05:31:34.320 that have like gone in there especially around that that time period 2014 there was a lot of terrorism

05:31:39.840 going on so yeah i remember seeing the same bro you'd like get off the train on the subway step

05:31:45.120 off just super beefy jack dudes with huge rifles looking at everybody up and down yeah pretty gnarly

05:31:51.680 but yeah i remember as a kid like going to the eiffel tower never there weren't armed soldiers

05:31:56.480 every fuck like so anyways that's totally unrelated they're not there anymore though i mean like four

05:32:01.520 years ago i went and there was a bunch of armed soldiers everywhere can you straighten your mic up a

05:32:06.000 little bit um all right let me get through these chats then we got to wrap up here so uh we have

05:32:11.440 a little wretched julie you can do a bow check for me whenever okay right now no no i think whenever

05:32:20.720 he's okay he's simping rippy french are mad at everyone because they said that the english and

05:32:25.520 spanish empires had a lasting large impact in the new world boo-hoo france based comment like

05:32:32.560 true i feel like the french though had quite an impact yeah they kept like surrendering but no

05:32:40.080 that's fake news that is fake news fake national flag should be white wow okay

05:32:50.960 uh i i would i would actually love to dive into the phenomenon of why the french are so salty as a

05:32:56.400 people like i want to know why why is that like it's such a common thing with french people it'd be such

05:33:00.880 an interesting but but you've have you have you only met parisians no uh mainly yes

05:33:08.000 honestly germans are pretty salty too are they i actually i know a lot of german people

05:33:16.240 are significantly happier people than than the french french yeah i thought in your general direction

05:33:21.600 i think french are just moody they are it's because all the coffee they drink all that caffeine

05:33:26.320 makes you angry what'd you say all the espressos

05:33:33.920 monty python i've never seen it maybe for another episode okay all right thank you rippy

05:33:39.120 let's let me get through these last chats uh one nation under a coom jesus christ question for the

05:33:43.680 panel if a coomer gathered a bunch of images of you and decided to make an ai model of you was then

05:33:48.080 used to create a fake ai only fans account of you without your consent how would you respond would you

05:33:52.960 want to cut legal action yeah yeah uh okay okay all right uh i think he's trying to strike a deal

05:34:04.240 here just show of hands would you show of hands would you object to some someone making ai yeah and

05:34:11.200 using making a fake ai only fans yeah we should be getting the whole thing ai there's creeps out there

05:34:17.120 everywhere oh did this one oh this one already came in my bad my bad that one already came in

05:34:21.360 thank you raven though uh we have whoa bro this one's heavy nickelodeon

05:34:28.640 ah bro um yeah i wouldn't read that it's gonna trigger though so i'm not gonna read it

05:34:34.000 nickelodeon but she's nice what are you talking about yeah i knew it with me you no yeah

05:34:41.360 uh it's not triggering i don't know why uh uh fuck it uh don't don't worry about that who's he

05:34:52.480 oh see what the fuck is that that's not bad oh acrid poosie chase my boy do you want to read this

05:35:01.600 one chase yeah the argument for a single language for the entire species is that information sharing

05:35:06.000 compounds leading to much more leading to much more rapid innovation invention and progress and

05:35:12.800 all information becomes available to all people regardless of race class birthplace etc i mean

05:35:18.640 like yeah i get that like the utilitarian yeah there's a strong utilitarian argument for it just

05:35:23.520 like there's a strong utilitarian argument for digital ids and central bank digital currencies and

05:35:28.320 stuff but just because something like just because there's a utilitarian argument for something doesn't

05:35:33.360 mean that you should do it but so i agree with you like on the what's it called what's the acronym

05:35:38.960 it's like a four-letter acronym for the the money thing cbdc's cbdc's look with language in particular

05:35:47.360 like in the context of this conversation that we've been having you know we've been talking a

05:35:50.720 lot of smack about the french but like the french language is beautiful beautiful it is a beautiful

05:35:55.920 language you don't think so no okay i think i think the french language is beautiful i think italian is

05:36:01.360 beautiful i think spanish is beautiful like i think spanish is beautiful i personally i think

05:36:05.760 german's beautiful to be honest really i like i like i like russian but the the point the point

05:36:11.040 being like just flattening everything out and making everything homogenous for the sake of like

05:36:16.240 utilitarianism like you just like you wipe out culture and like all of the like the differences

05:36:21.920 between us is what makes the world beautiful and interesting like i don't i'm not into getting rid of

05:36:26.480 that you know no definitely not like even if the whole world spoke english and there were no other

05:36:33.600 languages i think that would still be less interesting yeah that's way less interesting yeah

05:36:39.040 overruled wait uh you said overruled you know bringing i mean like his point of view was has been

05:36:47.600 overruled yes disavow the nationalist patriarchy has been asserting bring on

05:36:53.440 one one world language english i will fight you over this brain yeah yeah i don't know i'm not that

05:37:00.560 i'm not uh you said when i brought up the bowing video that it was misogynistic what did you mean

05:37:07.760 that needs explanation yeah to have your woman like act like that for you why

05:37:14.960 why doesn't she just be on her knees when you open the door based

05:37:19.360 sign me up you really walked into that one sign me up shit sounds like a good time you just sweeten

05:37:27.120 the deal i i have just decided to do an entire video of trad wife for you in your honor brian i have

05:37:34.640 no you're gonna make an entire video of trad wife what does that mean what do you mean like an entire

05:37:38.640 series of a trad wife wait i'm confused is this for your like for your only fans yeah

05:37:47.280 i'm like very confused on my knees in my little apron when you open the door

05:37:52.080 here's your dinner but not before i blow you first

05:37:56.480 yeah is that are you like

05:38:01.040 is that like some ridiculous exaggeration because like you that was terrible you did a terrible job

05:38:06.320 that was that was way too like kind of almost sarcastic it was poor it was very poor you need

05:38:13.120 to work on it i gave you credit though for attempting but um yeah it was a nice nice attempt

05:38:22.960 i think i'll still do it it's a video idea please don't send it to me though i don't want to watch

05:38:28.800 it frankly i don't send it i don't want to i'd rather not watch it it's not maybe you send it to

05:38:33.840 one of them i didn't say it was for you i said being you literally said it was for your honor oh

05:38:38.400 in my she's corrected in my honor okay watch that be your best performing but wait why why is it wait

05:38:46.320 what you okay so it's misogynistic what how do you define misogyny misogyny or misogynist

05:38:53.200 like treating your woman like a slave it's supposed to be a partnership you know if you come what if she

05:38:58.640 wants to do that yeah if she wants to do that if if she lives for that role and you come home and it's

05:39:06.480 not like expected but it's like she's got everything ready for you that means so much more

05:39:12.560 if you walk in the door and your woman has the dinner on the table ready for you and you weren't

05:39:18.000 expecting that but if you're like yeah you better have that there you better bow to me when i open the

05:39:25.040 door no well here's here's what makes it more attractive now i think as a man in a relationship

05:39:30.640 you can try to guide your partner to be a better partner for you however it's way better if they

05:39:39.040 just get it yeah they just are like that that's how they just are go to osaka bro it's bro it's it's

05:39:47.360 you'll have to yeah you got your break coming up nah it's japan dog i'll go eventually i'll go

05:39:55.120 eventually somebody sponsor a trip to japan for brian that'd make some funny they'll do it yeah

05:40:03.120 it would i should bro i'm bringing the show i'm gonna do i'm bringing whatever podcast to japan

05:40:08.400 dude can you imagine how interesting that would be the concept yeah i wouldn't have anything to argue

05:40:13.200 with the women over they'd all just be super based oh you want to serve your husband okay cool

05:40:22.960 you know you know what would be interesting you want to bow you know what would be interesting is

05:40:26.320 asking them what they think about american women yeah oh yeah oh yeah i feel like most like japanese

05:40:32.160 women though or are innies so like what would you do about or what innies that's not true as somebody

05:40:39.600 who has researched this topic that's not true really why are you just watching like a bunch of

05:40:45.680 japanese porn what are you up to you're like no you're just like japanese pussy what are you looking

05:40:50.320 up oh my god i think it's asian pussy is that what you're looking up asians typically have like a tighter

05:40:55.600 inner well it's because the it's because the asian guys have tiny dicks

05:41:01.920 stereotype canceled hold on there's guys guys guys there's a different i can't believe i have to

05:41:08.720 articulate this a girl who with an audi can still be tight that's not what i'm saying i'm just

05:41:14.480 saying it's known that typically they have a tighter any vagina i'm not saying that it means that

05:41:21.920 an audi isn't tight i'm just saying i've heard the opposite actually of both i i'm and i've seen

05:41:30.000 that they can actually be like the men can actually be quite big none of them are circumcised

05:41:34.640 though that's very disturbing to me is this fake news is it fake news okay i'll do these last chats

05:41:39.200 and then we're gonna wrap up oh well why is it misogynistic to expect your woman to to be that

05:41:46.960 let me ask do do women expect men to be providers and sole breadwinners yeah i'm not saying don't take

05:41:53.840 care of your man i'm saying the bow is a bit much to expect from your woman in this culture really i'm i'm

05:42:01.760 working if keep in mind in order to i think get that sort of treatment you're you definitely have

05:42:08.400 to be the sole breadwinner you probably have to be a high earner perhaps there's other metrics where

05:42:12.960 you can also get that sort of treatment yeah like it's a kink it's not a bro it's not okay i know what

05:42:19.120 you're saying it's a lot thank you it's a fucking lifestyle but do you want to be like the breadwinner

05:42:25.360 and you want all that so that your girl does that or would you i would argue i think as a guy if you

05:42:31.040 want that kind of treatment you better hold up your you can't be some fucking i mean there are men who

05:42:38.080 like there there are men who are bums who are like leeching on their girlfriends that yeah and they still

05:42:44.640 want like that and they can pull it some men can pull it off but i think if you want that sort of

05:42:50.960 treatment there's both yeah but why why is it the case that women can say i want a guy to be the

05:42:56.960 sole breadwinner to provide everything for the household to be a high earner but if i just want

05:43:02.160 a fucking bow is that so much to a fucking ass that like we didn't know that like you the both sides

05:43:09.520 were benefiting it seemed like you just wanted a bow because you just wanted a bow but now you're

05:43:13.840 saying like i'm doing my end so he does look at that and he's like well and that's a different

05:43:18.960 argument that's a different argument because it's not misogynistic to want to check the

05:43:23.680 partnership it's okay what you're bowing is respectful if a woman wants expects queen treatment

05:43:30.720 she needs to treat her man like a king let's fucking go there you go okay so it's interesting

05:43:35.200 you say that because the whole time i've been thinking to myself about that clip and so i don't

05:43:39.600 i don't really like it like i wouldn't really be down it's not your thing no it's a little too much

05:43:43.920 chase doesn't like asian women though that's the problem because moving on beyond that comment

05:43:50.480 uh i like i i actually i want a woman who i view as my equal like a partnership yeah a partnership but

05:43:57.680 like like a bow to me feels like undignified on her behalf yeah and like like obviously i i want i

05:44:04.480 want a woman who like wants to serve me as my wife and stuff but like look like it kind of kills the

05:44:09.680 whole queen vibe you're very into like self-respect too and i feel like when a woman bows it might

05:44:16.320 look like she has less self-respect for herself yeah kind of yeah it's like i view you as my equal

05:44:22.400 like i i expect her to serve me within the marriage and i would also serve her but it's back yeah but it's

05:44:27.280 like the whole bow i don't know it's like i want a queen vibe the bow thing kind of so it's like you

05:44:32.080 could have a queen or you could have a slave so how about like as far as like the queen vows to

05:44:36.320 the king wait what like what'd you say like blow jobs like is that to you does that make her look

05:44:41.600 lower like i this is a thing some guys don't like getting their dick sucked because they think it

05:44:46.320 makes the girl like no lower like no way are you serious yeah fake news what guy doesn't like getting

05:44:51.840 ahead of this woman that's not i've had a friend who dated a guy and they didn't do these kind of

05:44:56.080 activities because he said it looked like speaking of he was hiding something bro

05:45:02.000 it's crazy to me though like a girl would sooner rather get blasted on

05:45:07.760 on the face than bow to a guy like bro these girls would rather get a facial than just do

05:45:15.680 a totally fucking innocent bow what the so true no when you say it like that

05:45:22.880 actually i brought this up so true i brought this up in a recent podcast there's a lot of women

05:45:28.880 would when it comes like a lot of women would have like have trouble like wanting to cook for a guy

05:45:35.360 they feel like that's like oh that's oppressive or something like how many women how many women are

05:45:41.520 more quickly prepared to just like a random dude but when it comes to like cooking your man dinner

05:45:47.920 that's where you draw the line i can kill it

05:45:53.360 so what'd you say you can kill it you can kill what cooking

05:45:56.480 but it's crazy to me it's crazy to me there are women who are like who will like

05:46:03.920 fuck a guy on the first date but like heaven forbid you were to cook for him who are these

05:46:08.560 women that won't cook yeah they need to bring back home i don't even know that i don't i don't

05:46:13.120 cook what's my boyfriend's the wait what's that would you cook for him if you wanted you to of course

05:46:17.120 if you asked me to cook for him i would try to figure it out but i just don't

05:46:22.800 figure that out like no i'm not gonna cook for you you should figure that out before you have kids

05:46:27.120 how much would it blow his mind if he just did that and he came home though that's what i was

05:46:31.120 talking i do sometimes but it's like not that intense of a meal honestly i door dash most of

05:46:37.280 my meals so like a woman cooking like that's just give me a bow that's all i need a bow and a back

05:46:42.320 scratch that's that's it um and some take out that cardi b song don't cook don't clean but once

05:46:48.320 still got the ring or some bullshit yeah let me tell you how i got how that's bs

05:46:53.200 that was beautiful some shakespeare in the flesh shit right there okay let me get the i've been

05:47:02.960 saying this we do have to wrap so i'm just going to read these and we're going to wrap uh not culture

05:47:07.280 is not language dependent my french girlfriend shares her culture with me all night long in

05:47:10.640 dirty salacious english as did my brazilian girlfriend before her you can say any sentence

05:47:15.200 in any language it's what you're saying and how you're saying it okay now thank you very much man

05:47:19.120 i appreciate it jay lion brian does not want to have to groom his woman he wants her to come to

05:47:25.520 him pre-groomed it's true based how how young are we talking what the oh my god i'm just kidding

05:47:36.640 uh okay we have women shit on men so much that they mindlessly reflexively call men having any

05:47:43.440 desires misogynistic as a control mechanism women can want a man to be romantic know what she's

05:47:48.480 i'll pull it back up that's know what she's thinking make her gasm nightly provide an entire

05:47:55.680 exciting life for her but a man wanting a bow is hate

05:48:01.680 brian you want to respond to that well yeah women have a long laundry list of criteria that they want

05:48:07.200 in a either sexual partner romantic partner etc and here i am literally it takes no fucking effort

05:48:15.520 literally you just bend at the hip like and that's all you want in a woman and she'll wear

05:48:21.120 whereas women huh you don't have a laundry list of no there's other yeah there's other things i want

05:48:26.480 in the woman including a slave no i don't okay i'm not gonna sit here in a cab a slave would be

05:48:33.440 a feminist

05:48:34.080 not at all who here's a feminist show of hands is anybody a feminist wait show of hands anybody

05:48:42.080 a feminist come on don't hide don't hide okay here's here's what i want to know you obviously

05:48:47.680 don't want to bow but if he found a woman who was totally down to bow for him would you have a problem

05:48:52.720 with it no okay you can so then why so then why do you have an issue why why do you have an issue with

05:48:57.680 him wanting it i have an issue with that video and okay so your issue is with that video yeah and i

05:49:03.040 can very easily explain it's not just the premise it's the fact that she wasn't even acknowledged

05:49:10.000 okay but i it was very donated 99.99 bro my last relationship i worked 12 hours a day on weekends

05:49:22.240 my woman wouldn't even have dinner prepared she did not work she just played league of legends all

05:49:28.960 day thank god she broke up with me i cannot believe i put up with that bro rip in the chat sounds like

05:49:37.840 glad that you're out of that relationship man look i mean uh women want a lot of different

05:49:45.360 characteristics in men physical characteristics what they bring to the table when it comes to money

05:49:51.200 personality traits etc but it only seems to be the case that when men articulate when men have

05:49:57.440 preference and standards and boundaries it's always almost always met with some sort of shaming language

05:50:03.200 or contempt or that's misogynistic or you're insecure we often if you want a girl with a low body count

05:50:08.960 you're insecure if you want a girl who's a young adult woman you're a predator you it will be

05:50:17.840 pathology oftentimes it'll even get pathologized to the point where they're going to try to paint

05:50:22.160 you as like literally a criminal for wanting certain things in women um so

05:50:30.400 that goes both ways i mean i i know you've held back at least on this show but the whole fat girl

05:50:37.280 energy thing that you've liked to throw around before what are you talking about yeah what are you talking

05:50:43.840 about you know what i'm talking no tell me what you're talking about you it goes both ways what

05:50:49.680 goes i mean you want to say you know like uh you want to call us misogynistic because we like this or

05:50:55.360 you want to call us this because you know we want a low body count but you guys have the same list of

05:50:59.760 things that you hold us to the same criteria you know no no most men accept women's preferences standards

05:51:09.520 and boundaries like for example when it comes to women liking tom hold on when it comes to women

05:51:14.160 liking tall men i'm not sitting here trying to argue like no that's not true it's not true

05:51:22.720 yeah the point like the point brian's making is that women are allowed to have like a laundry list

05:51:26.960 of things that they want in men but like when men express preferences like brian has a unique

05:51:32.000 preference of wanting a woman to bow it's like what the hell man you can't you can't say that you don't

05:51:37.760 want fat women either like it's it's like nobody bats an eye when women express all their preferences

05:51:43.680 we have this equal like list but like our list isn't like looked at we don't we don't have issues

05:51:50.560 with your guys's lists it's like we're just like yep that's fine the tall thing some people are

05:51:54.560 sensitive yeah usually short guys but like like like that's the thing though like men don't have men

05:52:01.360 just recognize women's lists and we're like okay that's nature that's reality big deal it is what it is

05:52:06.240 just become the best version of yourself that you can and work with it but when men express

05:52:09.760 our preferences be it uh body count submission the way a woman ought to act and behave whether

05:52:15.760 or not a woman should cook whether or not she should be subservient to her man so on and so forth

05:52:19.840 it's just like a volcano volcanic eruption because that women's list is mainly physical and like men's

05:52:28.560 list is more like that style of stuff no that's not it at all it's because of feminism to be honest

05:52:35.040 that's entirely what it comes down to women are allowed to want a traditional man they're allowed

05:52:39.920 to want a man who's strong and a provider and confident and assertive tall that they're allowed

05:52:46.000 to want all of these things but guys say you know what i don't want a fat chick i want a woman who's

05:52:51.440 submissive yeah i want some guys have a preference for that men say they have all these preferences and

05:52:56.800 women are like no you shouldn't want a subservient woman you shouldn't want a woman that's cooking for

05:53:01.600 every every night and stays home and just like dedicates her life to taking care of you and

05:53:05.440 the kids it's there's so much vitriol against it because of feminism well do you think that's because

05:53:09.760 of the past because of men treating women wrongly or like belittling them in a way uh i think feminism

05:53:18.000 was a response to that but i don't think that was reflective of what the past was like as a whole

05:53:23.840 you know well maybe that yeah and it's thinking maybe it's also evolved into something extremely

05:53:30.400 dramatized in in society people still have the idea that women are constantly belittled and

05:53:37.040 disadvantaged compared to men in society and it's just simply not the case you don't think like with

05:53:42.560 work and stuff like that they're not no not at all i in a previous podcast i said that my preference

05:53:48.720 was for a woman in her early 20s like i was like yeah some somewhere around like 19 to 22 years old

05:53:55.120 that's ideal for me this girl named kiko lost her mind and accused me of being a word that we will not

05:54:01.120 repeat on this podcast lost her mind and was like what was the age you said 19 to 22 okay that was the

05:54:07.680 preference that i expressed she completely lost her mind but if a woman says that she wants an older

05:54:12.720 guy who's successful and established nobody bats an eye our older woman says she's once a younger guy

05:54:18.320 yeah like people don't care you know but whenever men express basic preferences that have existed in

05:54:23.200 men for thousands of years because of feminism women lose their minds i see your point i do think that

05:54:28.320 there are instances but where like a woman is like not able to be as successful as a man like i think

05:54:35.520 it's not intentional but i think if a woman goes to a job interview and then a guy does i think you're

05:54:40.560 just if anything because of gender equity and inclusion policies they have an upper affirmative action

05:54:46.800 yeah sorry affirmative action type of policies they if anything have the upper hand to men nowadays

05:54:51.520 so i think i think i even catch myself doing it like if i like have the choice to go ask a man a

05:54:56.880 question a woman a question i'm probably gonna go ask the man just because i'm like thinking in my

05:55:00.880 head oh he's probably gonna know yeah not like yeah sounding bad but like also that's kind of a

05:55:07.200 biological thing if i'm gonna be completely honest yeah it is yeah men men are just more logical

05:55:12.480 thinkers than women are we're much more emotional and we do whether we acknowledge it or not we

05:55:17.440 look for men regardless if we know them to lead us in some sort of way yeah you expect competence

05:55:22.800 from men yeah i agree competence is something that is expected from men it's not necessarily

05:55:26.720 expected from women in the same way yeah i turn my brain off when i'm with a man

05:55:30.240 i'm like you got it from here baby i'm taking a break all right i know i keep saying this i'll

05:55:37.920 i'll try to wrap up um we got a whole lot of super yeah we have uh let's see up to she's so

05:55:44.720 narcissistic up to she that she cannot think outside of her own privilege existence to even

05:55:49.920 understand the point you just made three times in the last 20 minutes i'm dying you should pull up

05:55:54.240 that bottom one right there it's a perfect segue which one at the very bottom yeah i'm a strong

05:55:59.200 independent woman who will go to work for a stranger's company but cook for the man i love

05:56:03.200 ha if that loser by the way i hear pria is taken now oh no brian i hope subs haven't gone down

05:56:10.240 it's true he makes a fantastic point though because of feminism women feel dignified to go

05:56:15.760 leave the home and work for some other man who's not has nothing to do with the family but we've been

05:56:21.360 told this narrative that to work for the man whom you love is somehow oppressive what do you mean

05:56:27.600 so for example like the the idea that the idea that it's good for a woman to be a stay-at-home wife

05:56:33.600 and mother and to dedicate her time towards taking care of her husband and her kids that is presented

05:56:40.080 as undignified in today's world it's it's presented as like oppression of women right like the the for a

05:56:46.560 woman to be in the home and to be a stay-at-home wife and mother it's like you're losing your independence

05:56:50.800 you're losing your power but the reality is you could either work for your husband if you guys

05:56:56.080 want to have that kind of arrangement or you could go and work for some other man i see what you're

05:56:59.280 saying but women feel like it's that's like a job for your husband is what you're saying yeah

05:57:03.760 absolutely it's an incredibly difficult job i think people underestimate how difficult that

05:57:07.520 it can be to be a stay-at-home wife and mother and but it's it's a good job it's a rewarding job

05:57:12.480 instead of sending your kids to daycare you're taking care of them like it's yeah it's good it's

05:57:18.960 good but feminism has psyoped women out of thinking that that's good so as far as like a woman going

05:57:23.840 to work for what you say is like a man at a company or something you think that's like disrespectful to

05:57:29.040 the man or you think no i i don't think it's disrespectful the the point is that women won't

05:57:34.240 have a mental hang-up with the idea of going and working for a boss that's a man usually yeah that's a

05:57:39.040 man but they will have a man hanging up with the idea of working for their raven dt donated 69

05:57:45.120 modern day feminism is a sup and a lie sold to women women were kept in the home to take care of

05:57:50.720 the household and the family to protect them because women are valued more than men who are disposable

05:57:56.640 and work the dangerous jobs yeah 100 raven you know that it's it's it's a really interesting subject

05:58:04.000 there was a guy named alexander toqueville i think he was a frenchman and he went on a trip

05:58:08.960 throughout america and i think the 1800s and this was before you know feminism was a thing like

05:58:14.880 throughout america there were traditional family households and women were in the home and men were

05:58:18.720 out working and toqueville remarked that the reason why america was such a strong nation was because of

05:58:26.560 the the strength of the women in the homes women had their homes like dialed in they were fantastic

05:58:33.760 homemakers they took excellent care of their husbands they took excellent care of their kids

05:58:38.160 educating them raising them so on and so forth and toqueville saw that and he was like the strength

05:58:42.960 of the american woman is like the backbone of this country it's what everything rests on

05:58:48.240 i think part of the reason why the world is falling apart today is because that backbone has been

05:58:51.760 ripped out and the sexes have been pitted against one another you know i i've i've said many times

05:58:56.880 like my ideal relationship is one in which i'm going out winning the bread for the family providing

05:59:02.960 for the family protecting them and my wife is as the bible describes my helpmate right like she's the

05:59:08.080 woman she helps me with everything right and i would view her as an equal but we have different

05:59:12.560 purposes like if i go out to work and i come home and i know that my wife has dinner ready and she's

05:59:17.680 taking care of the kids and she's done an awesome job raising them and she's there to support me when i

05:59:22.320 come back home we're gonna be a freaking stellar team like we i'm gonna be crushing it out there she's

05:59:28.000 gonna be crushing it in the home so how do you feel about like both of you guys going to work

05:59:33.200 and having that kind of partnership i i personally don't want i i want to stay you want to have enough

05:59:39.360 money to where you're yeah i want to be able to fully provide for my family you know i i don't want

05:59:44.160 my my wife to have to leave the home and go work for somebody else because i know that her energies

05:59:48.960 would be best spent in the home you know when like men and women have complementary roles you know and

05:59:54.960 when when a man takes care of his woman and when she takes care of him and the two of them take

05:59:59.600 care of their kids together like you can you can create a unit that works like a well-oiled machine

06:00:04.080 you know but if like if i have to go out to work and she has to go out to work and we both come home

06:00:08.480 and there's no dinner on the table and the kids were at daycare like if somebody else is raising the

06:00:12.560 kids at daycare we've got like a screwed up family unfortunately though that's how like most households

06:00:17.120 have to be because of how expensive it is yes because they've destroyed the u.s dollar but that's

06:00:21.680 a different conversation well put yeah well put um let's see we have angry casper thank you for the

06:00:30.400 new zealand 20 men thank you question for under 30 year olds instead of countries who are

06:00:34.720 amelia airheart lulidima pavlichenko murray curry two out of three is not bad instead of countries

06:00:43.360 who are oh who are amelia airheart uh does anybody know who these people are

06:00:56.080 the plain lady i don't know who the middle person is i don't know who that is either i don't know

06:01:00.080 that i know i know curry was like a scientist i don't that's all i know yeah okay thank you angry

06:01:07.040 casper uh cm brian would be happy to wingman for you bro osaka here we come konnichiwa gaijin style

06:01:13.280 by the way japanese girls live to serve you do very well there as a slim white guy too

06:01:20.240 book your tickets brian oh man it's tempting you know you want to i like it here in california i don't

06:01:27.280 know um maybe we'll see i'll go to japan eventually someday someday i'll go thank you man cm i love how the

06:01:34.400 most unpleasant quarrelsome one at the table is the one who was almost in tears about failed

06:01:38.240 relationships encounters all her life gee wonder why chase the desert is a better destination right

06:01:45.520 uh it's certainly preferable to a quarrelsome woman there's no question about that

06:01:49.840 okay and we have it's just jeff takashi from japan here on youtube has talked to japanese women and men

06:01:55.840 and a lot of them are surprisingly into cheating and allowing prostitution at least in tokyo definitely

06:02:01.120 go to the japanese countryside for a good girl i do believe there's quite a bit of prostitution

06:02:06.960 yeah in the major video do you see that video that went viral recently yeah i did with the women

06:02:11.920 being okay with their husbands cheating yeah yeah and i do think there's actually quite a bit

06:02:17.280 i have also heard they watch the most porn i believe that they also sell the most i think

06:02:23.520 they sell more adult diapers than they do baby diapers really yeah all right we have jc brown here just

06:02:29.600 with the 20 hey jc brown thank you man appreciate it uh i think we're all caught up here okay um

06:02:36.400 i think we're let's see all right um

06:02:43.200 did i ask who here's a feminist yeah is there anything yes everyone answered okay

06:02:47.840 i think we're all wrapped up any final thoughts before i wrap up the show anybody

06:02:50.800 anything live your dreams yo chat if christ is lord oh whoops if christ is lord drop christ is

06:03:02.000 lord in all caps in the chat because christ is lord sub to my life oh let me just shout out twitch

06:03:07.680 then we'll wrap uh guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever drops the follow drops prime sub dog

06:03:12.480 thing for the prime plime you think for the prime gals are at thing for the prime silly thing for the

06:03:16.880 prime twitch.tv slash whatever drops follow drops prime sub thank you guys okay so i don't think

06:03:22.960 i'm gonna raid anybody on twitch so we're just gonna wrap up uh all right guys last oh what's your body

06:03:29.040 count um maybe like 20. 20. wait wait hold on platoon sorry 20. platoon platoon huh no 20.

06:03:41.520 i think i think i think you're missing a zero there stop what's it actually what's it actually

06:03:49.280 though gotcha no i swear you sorry yeah on what on god the girl no okay all right

06:04:00.240 two two oh okay i don't know is it more is it triple digit no no

06:04:08.240 here we go again i don't know you you don't know okay uh seven none of your business

06:04:18.800 valid valid valid i stopped counting but not because it's high but because i'm forgetful

06:04:22.480 i don't know it's information reserved for myself and my partner yes okay all right there you have

06:04:33.040 it folks chase it's eight all right guys oh i'm not gonna share uh okay guys thank you for tuning

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06:04:53.600 appreciate it uh thank you to the wonderful panel tonight we had a very full house thank you guys you

06:05:00.000 guys are great one i think this was one of our better panels this was a good panel i think

06:05:06.880 happy to be here yeah thank you guys so much for coming i know we went late so i appreciate you

06:05:10.560 guys staying late here with us thank you guys you guys were awesome any women who want to be on

06:05:14.320 the show dm at whatever on instagram if you can make it to santa barbara we will be live again

06:05:19.040 tuesday at 5 p.m pacific we've got a very good show on tuesday some great guests coming so oh wait

06:05:25.600 is today tuesday yes yeah oh sorry i got mixed up sorry we'll be live again sunday i i always get

06:05:30.880 mixed up we'll be live again sunday at 5 p.m pacific anyways guys oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the

06:05:36.480 chat we will see you next time good night guys have a good night

Whatever Podcast - November 08, 2023

She Slept With An ENTIRE Military Platoon？! ｜ Dating Talk #116

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