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00:03:21.420 channel with that said without further ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so

00:03:26.500 please tell us your name age location occupation and education go ahead um my name is sky i live in

00:03:34.940 washington state currently i'm 20 years old and i do only fans for work all right uh any college or

00:03:42.100 anything um no i graduated high school okay city college or no okay uh what do you do on of

00:03:48.800 um just solo content no bg content no sir what about you hi my name is sophia summers i'm 18 years old

00:03:57.780 i'm from oregon and i am an of model and work at walmart all right and uh any college or anything

00:04:05.960 no just graduated high school okay just uh and uh when did you turn 18 at november i graduated early

00:04:14.480 oh okay um wait so when did you start your oaf um right when i turned 18 like the the day of the

00:04:23.920 month yeah well no like a month ago yeah oh okay so well you turned 18 in november and so you started

00:04:30.740 in december okay all right i'm gonna turn a month in like the 28th got it okay what about you

00:04:36.860 um my name is abigail utts and i'm 18 and i'm from skibbity ohio and for work um i do social media

00:04:46.400 okay uh education um any like college or anything no high school okay could you just scoot the

00:04:54.460 microphone a little bit to the edge of the table and uh you do social media yeah what kind what do you

00:05:00.560 do all sorts youtube tiktok only instagram maybe maybe okay uh what about you um hello i am peaches

00:05:11.200 i am 29 i am from san diego i work in critical care and i'm working on my master's in psychiatry right

00:05:17.920 now and i have an unsuccessful only fans so check that out unsuccessful how long have you been doing

00:05:23.120 that um i've had it for about a year and i have maybe 10 fans 10 fans but they're very quality and

00:05:30.760 reliable how much have you made i don't know because i've actually made more doing like private

00:05:35.880 dominatrix like fetish sessions that's more my bread and butter but with school i don't have how long

00:05:41.000 have you been doing that two years maybe three years two years um how long have you but you said

00:05:47.020 you're a critical care nurse how long have you been doing that um three years and then i did one

00:05:53.140 year in progressive care okay so they're moving you're an rn right okay all right what about you

00:06:00.600 hi i'm scarlet hampton i'm 24 i'm from uh like a wisconsin like really normal like small town wisconsin

00:06:08.120 shauno it's called and then uh occupation i do uh for porn i do porn for three years now

00:06:14.940 um um it didn't start out like that way but that's how it is but it's it's not always be that

00:06:21.140 way i i like it i like it but i i'm working on other things too any college yeah i went to uw

00:06:28.080 madison for three years and then i uh i withdrew during the covid pandemic so all right uh what were

00:06:36.680 you studying uh i was studying uh environmental studies economics and theater okay got it what about

00:06:44.900 you what's up everyone my name is bella angelina and i am a streamer on tiktok i sell designer bags

00:06:51.740 on uh tiktok shop okay uh how old are you i'm 27 all right where are you from san diego california

00:06:59.920 all right any college or anything like that yes i actually studied child development but i mean i like

00:07:05.600 fast money so i started hustling and um became a casting director as well for what uh casting director

00:07:12.800 for music videos productions okay small projects i see you got it and uh no of or anything like that

00:07:20.080 no okay what about you hello everyone my name is eva i am from barcelona i'm living in america

00:07:28.280 from five years ago and my occupation is to work in the atn machines atn company uh around whole la

00:07:37.640 and i was studying for lawyer but life taking me here age 33 years old okay and you say you you run

00:07:48.580 all the atm machines yes i do i has to put the money in every machines and the bands and so you work for

00:07:56.020 a company yes okay gotcha and wait hang on so do you repair the machines or do you just fill them with

00:08:03.320 money no no no i just the money okay so you work for an armor carrier yeah okay all right and

00:08:12.300 you're from barcelona spain yes i do did you go to college in spain yes i do madrid madrid you got

00:08:19.720 your bachelor's or the equivalent or um there is different is that the eso and high school is

00:08:29.640 different you'll finish the high school and after the university okay uh what about you my name is

00:08:39.300 adriana i'm 22 and i'm a professional dancer choreographer and dance teacher all right where

00:08:45.820 are you from i'm from massachusetts and i live in la now got it okay and any college or anything like

00:08:52.620 i graduated in may with my bachelor's in biology and psychology double major okay got it what about

00:08:59.780 you hi my name is nina i'm 28 i live in miami and i work in occupational therapy all right cool

00:09:08.040 uh any uh college yes i went to college in new jersey i graduated in 2018 bachelor's bachelor's okay

00:09:18.220 got it oh sorry and i missed this uh age 28 28 got it all right thank you go ahead my name is brandon

00:09:26.720 clark i'm a natural bodybuilder from bozeman montana i'm also a uh online fitness coach and i own a couple

00:09:35.180 other businesses i am a college dropout as well did you say age 24 years old 24 and from bozeman

00:09:44.680 montana all right middle of nowhere rock and roll rock and roll is this your first first time in

00:09:50.400 california yes natural bodybuilder natural what does that mean that just means you don't do

00:09:55.820 like steroids you have no steroids no peds and i compete in a natural federation can we get like

00:10:02.360 a double buy it doesn't mean you're a vegan though right damn doesn't mean you're a vegan right

00:10:09.680 i'm definitely not a vegan not a vegan that is for sure all right i'm brian atlas 35 years old

00:10:16.600 uh over the hill washed up has been uh youtuber podcast host uh and then uh andrew what about you

00:10:24.080 yeah my name is andrew wilson i'm the host of the crucible it's popular entertainment channel on

00:10:29.880 youtube i'm a political analyst political satirist and i also engage in debates all over the world

00:10:35.140 um and have conversations all over the world with various people i'm happy to be here tonight

00:10:39.620 thank all of you for coming all right also i'm working on my father time beard i hope you guys

00:10:44.200 enjoy it it's looking good a little bit of that gray fluff going on on the edges i'm pretty that's

00:10:49.000 great looking good all right we're gonna go around the table once more what's everybody's current

00:10:54.980 relationship status if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest

00:11:00.120 relationship you've ever been in go ahead um i am taken uh my current boyfriend me and him have been

00:11:06.420 together for about a year and a half almost two years and i would say this is like around the same

00:11:13.640 as my last relationship lengthwise so i've had until it hits two years i'll have a longer relationship

00:11:21.380 than the last one okay so you had a previous relationship that was about two years also yes okay

00:11:26.780 gotcha and um the last relationship who broke up with who um it was kind of a mutual agreement i had

00:11:35.260 moved away uh states uh so it was kind of no thank you to long distance got it okay what about you

00:11:44.980 i'm currently single i've never dated anyone um never had a talking stage situationship actually

00:11:52.620 you've uh you've never dated anybody right have you been on a date no um but you you so you're what

00:12:02.840 a virgin question mark yeah yeah no yeah i'm a virgin okay yeah um so i was wondering if you were

00:12:14.660 asking me if i was a virgin yeah yeah i mean what do you say to people who find this may be dubious

00:12:21.280 given the you're involved in s work you have an only fans you're posting like full nudity on there

00:12:27.220 right yeah yeah um i just started so yeah i mean but like you don't it's the the virgin to of pipeline is

00:12:36.600 typically not you know usually there's like promiscuity and then like only fans well it makes

00:12:45.020 good money so that's why i'm doing it okay well one thing brian's getting at is um there have been

00:12:52.540 an awful lot of women who have come on to various programs like this including this one and said that

00:12:59.020 they are a virgin only fans girl and you can imagine that's quite the selling point for uh a woman who's

00:13:06.240 on only fans right they want to promote themselves as being a virgin there's a fetishization my membership

00:13:10.780 is but boys so weird oh no happy new year and welcome back brixton i do not i oh no this is this

00:13:20.600 is uh that was donald trump he actually called in um i'm not sure why that's happening i thought i

00:13:28.380 fucking i thought i ended it um thank you grid one though um sorry andrew did you want to finish the

00:13:37.240 the question yeah i was just saying that it's uh and then often they're exposed later as that

00:13:43.520 not actually being accurate right so that's that's why the skepticism well i'm not i have a question

00:13:50.320 for do you promote like on your only fans that you're a virgin yeah yeah i do um i've it's not

00:13:56.800 like i'm waiting for marriage i just haven't had a boyfriend or anything so the opportunity hasn't come

00:14:02.740 up i'm not against it all right i have a question that might be completely off topic but did anyone

00:14:09.400 buy trump coin i did not no no no where where's your brain his voice and then i have adhd sorry do you

00:14:22.140 want to weigh in on the what the whole colombian thing how like trump just btfo'd the colombian

00:14:28.140 president you want to weigh in on that too right it's just like sorry like you know he the colombian

00:14:34.560 president denied uh so trump deported some colombians back to colombia and they they turned them down

00:14:42.100 they sent the plane back and then trump's like tariffs uh denying visas do you want to what are

00:14:49.660 your thoughts on on that i'm just like scrolling on twitter and i saw a bunch of meme coins no no but

00:14:57.060 i'm asking you about the colombian deportation thing i don't know much about that what do you

00:15:03.920 think though like i just laid out what happened or were you still thinking about trump coin i was just

00:15:10.060 thinking about the coin itself oh okay did you buy some yeah yeah did you take like a big l on it or

00:15:16.180 no i actually made money i got in pretty early how much money i mean it it's kind of tanked a little

00:15:22.440 bit yeah but i sold you sold yeah okay do you want to tell us any other crypto related things or no

00:15:30.460 sorry how's your bitcoin doing is that did you buy did you buy hot to a coin no i did not you should

00:15:36.380 have gotten early i know i know um so okay um are are we back to this i guess uh yeah the whole virgin

00:15:47.520 OF thing yeah i just i never been on a date no okay all right is there is there like an objection

00:15:55.380 to her like give and is there an objection to her having an OF and being a virgin or like no it's just

00:16:01.800 i mean andrew raised a really good point a lot of OF girls lie in furtherance of their only fans

00:16:09.600 career so it's dubious that she's a virgin if she is in fact a virgin that's uh most virgin women

00:16:15.300 are not like straight to like okay i'm gonna become a sex worker if she wasn't lying does it

00:16:22.680 change anything and you've had here i'll give you a demo i'll give you a demonstration it actually

00:16:26.140 would make sense right so if you're so socially awkward that you end up being a a virgin for

00:16:32.700 instance you blame it on being socially awkward why would you start an OF right socially awkward

00:16:36.920 people don't usually do outgoing things like that so that would be that would be one and then two

00:16:41.820 if you promote your your only fans as i am a virgin you have every incentive in the world

00:16:47.000 to push that uh that fetish on people so it actually doesn't make that much sense right ultimately

00:16:52.000 you would expect that there's probably not that many women on only fans who are virgins

00:16:56.260 essentially yeah well i just didn't have time for that um before OF well i'm currently in foster care

00:17:02.180 um before that i was homeless and i have two youngest sisters that i basically raised so i just

00:17:08.880 didn't have time to to go on dates or meet guys or anything to date yeah i can explain it to you

00:17:16.400 like this can a virgin be an OF creator sure of course it seems unlikely but sure it could be the

00:17:25.600 case um i had a couple questions for you though just following actually before hold on we'll get

00:17:30.420 everybody's relationship status but first i need to let grid one come in here yo grid one thank you

00:17:38.100 man grid one motorsports donated two hundred dollars and one cent thank you man my membership

00:17:43.780 is bug boys so weird happy new year and welcome back brixton yo thank you man good to see you in

00:17:50.740 the chat i hope uh you had a good holiday good to see you in 2025 and uh is i think i saw it's working

00:17:58.620 though right is it your membership can you chat are you able to chat i don't know uh relationship

00:18:03.420 status go ahead i'm single all right how long you've been single um a couple years have you ever

00:18:09.820 had a relationship yeah how long was that it was like almost two years two years that was like my

00:18:16.660 longest one so you were like 15 or something or yeah like 15 to 17 and it was like wait 15 to 17

00:18:24.520 yeah you said you've been single for a couple years though yeah but because i'm almost going to be

00:18:29.360 19 in february february 7th sure i'm going to be 19 uh why did you break up with him no he broke

00:18:36.240 up with oh he dumped you why is that because he like cheated on me but i just took it like a good

00:18:41.300 girl like i knew he was cheating on me and i stayed in the relationship because i loved him so much

00:18:47.720 happy new year yes i don't know why i can't tell today's panel is going to be an interesting one

00:18:54.120 do i regret also as the qt said by dollar trump yeah hold on since it's coming in i'll send in

00:19:02.600 the actual one oh thank you man appreciate it i'm not sure why it's doing the uh trump tts

00:19:08.220 whatever i can tell today's panel is going to be an interesting one also as the qt said by dollar

00:19:15.940 trump okay all right rock and roll um okay and uh there's so there's no guy in the picture right

00:19:26.500 now um well there kind of was what do you mean like there's this one guy um greenie

00:19:37.620 he does like tick tock but he went on a date with brekkie and he's yeah okay and then

00:19:48.820 yeah but i can't even really talk about the situation so you just have a crush on him

00:19:56.160 no like we have been talking and then there's like so much drama around the whole entire situation

00:20:05.140 so now i'm kind of like moving on because like was it ever a situationship or yeah for sure okay

00:20:13.960 like there were there was definitely a thing between us happening and now he's officially

00:20:18.900 with brekkie no they just hung out and like they definitely we've had her on the show like uh

00:20:26.680 two years ago i think it sounds like you were talking to him and he was talking to everybody

00:20:32.400 yeah i mean he should have said that i was like just a bird on his roster so um okay all right

00:20:41.300 uh let me read one chat here actually here i'll get it lucas i'll get in just a sec uh relationship

00:20:45.900 status um i'm in a relationship and i've been in a relationship for 12 years almost 13 i think

00:20:51.980 okay right around there all right so uh pretty much since like 18 then or i met him the week i turned 18

00:20:59.400 got it ever since he's two years older than me okay so 31 all right can i do math got it how did

00:21:06.460 you guys meet just um well that's a long story i was living in my car and he asked me out on a first

00:21:12.600 date and i thought it would just be like banging for roof but then i ended up liking him a lot and

00:21:18.480 he liked me back so it just lasted 12 years hold on banging for roof yes were you homeless i was in

00:21:25.380 my car but right in okay gotcha it's winter so warm house you know okay um so initially that's

00:21:32.000 really is do you want kids or no no kids okay i was gonna say like the that's what you could tell

00:21:37.860 your kids um i was you know i did i would bang him for roof and that's how i met your father um okay

00:21:46.940 all right well uh what about you uh i'm single and um that's how it should be i feel like it's

00:21:55.480 for you it's appropriate though for everyone if i stay single you know i tried to date a few well i

00:22:02.720 don't really think it was dating i just think i had a lot of friends and uh but like there was more

00:22:07.320 like mentorships like uh and then i learned things from people and like i have friendships and that can

00:22:13.260 involve a lot of stuff so i i prefer to just be single do you think that should be the case for

00:22:19.920 most women in your line of work or are you just saying decisions for other people okay yeah i don't

00:22:26.740 generalize yeah if i was gonna have children i wouldn't do only fans but that's just me personally

00:22:32.500 all right you're saying ever if i if i thought i was gonna have children i wouldn't have done it

00:22:37.520 you wouldn't have done that okay uh longest relationship just me personally really um i

00:22:44.620 didn't have a relationship i had like a lot of that were like i i saw a guy that i want to just

00:22:49.620 be friends but he wouldn't let me stay with him unless we did other stuff so then i just stopped

00:22:53.600 it was probably what's the what's the longest period of time you've seen a guy oh yeah it's been a year

00:22:59.420 now like a flame thing yeah i have to yeah should i repeat the question uh what's the long

00:23:05.300 so are you saying it's been a year i haven't heard about it hold on just listen to my words

00:23:10.380 and then you'll understand the question uh what's the longest period of time you've seen a guy not

00:23:15.540 how long have you been single um the same guy

00:23:19.300 a year but not like wait well just to quite follow up do you recreationally take drugs by chance

00:23:28.680 no i don't i take prozac but no i don't like relationally take a drug

00:23:34.140 okay uh but i'm accused of that because i'm spacey and i have ocd so um i've been accused of that

00:23:42.040 but uh i'll take a drug test i don't

00:23:43.960 um so a year the longest period of time you've like seen a guy was a year is that fair to say yeah

00:23:52.840 but not to say i don't yeah i guess i don't really know how to answer the question i'm sorry

00:23:58.480 okay i don't really date i'll try to make it as simple as possible so you met a man

00:24:05.320 yes and you were in either a romantic or sexual uh situation with him you met him on january 1st

00:24:15.840 i'm throwing out a date there if you continued a romantic or sexual situation with him

00:24:24.360 until january 1st of the next like uh calendar year you were with him for one year

00:24:30.460 so the question is has what's the longest period of time that there's been okay all right

00:24:37.940 december 15th i think was the day that okay and then uh backstage okay um what about you

00:24:45.700 um i'm single okay and i've been single for about a year and the longest relationship i've had

00:24:53.800 has been six years all right when did that end um well my last relationship ended in march of last

00:25:01.640 year but the six-year relationship is that the one that ended a year ago no that ended um in 20

00:25:08.500 like 2017 2017 2018 okay and then the most recent one how long was that one a year one year okay uh

00:25:18.720 the most recent one who broke up with who uh we just mutually broke up with each other

00:25:23.720 okay and then the six-year relationship who broke up with who i broke up with uh my son's dad

00:25:29.980 sorry you i broke up with my son's dad so he was my my high school sweetheart and we just kind of

00:25:37.420 broke it off i had bigger priorities um than just being a stay-at-home wife girlfriend you have just

00:25:46.160 one kid or yeah we have one son what what were your bigger priorities well he didn't let me go to

00:25:51.900 college he was very jealous and it got into a domestic violence situation where he was just

00:25:58.140 very violent and i couldn't i couldn't be around that environment okay all right um were you guys

00:26:06.300 married or we weren't married we were high school sweethearts and um he had me paying half the bills

00:26:12.320 and it was also like every time i would go to school he'd be like who are you talking to

00:26:17.160 and i'm like okay i can't do this okay jealousy got it what about you okay my

00:26:24.380 life about relationship is really longer because i like it to be very close of my men's because in

00:26:35.200 the last time i don't be using one i've been twice so uh i broke out just already with one and the

00:26:43.620 other one last year so you're single right now yes i am single right now okay and you've been single

00:26:50.060 for one year right now i am single for just two months oh two months yes what's the longest

00:26:56.980 relationship you've been in five years five years okay got it what about you i'm single i've been

00:27:03.440 single for almost two years now basically since i've lived here which is like a year and a half

00:27:09.340 um it just didn't work out because i moved here i chose my career over which is dancing right yes

00:27:18.120 wait you chose your career over your boyfriend pretty much yeah how long were you guys together

00:27:22.880 like almost a year is that your longest relationship no two years would be my longest two years okay

00:27:28.560 who broke up with who in that one the two year the two year one it was me it was you yeah okay

00:27:34.640 uh and you were living where originally um massachusetts massachusetts okay so you were with him

00:27:42.180 was the relationship otherwise good it was great it was great yeah but you wanted to pursue

00:27:47.420 your dance there's no dance in massachusetts what about new york um it's just not the same like there

00:27:54.760 were certain things i got offered like an internship here at a studio um so it was just better for me

00:28:00.100 i've always wanted to move here and i kind of always had the plan to move here so i just yeah

00:28:07.080 okay all right uh broke up with boyfriend to pursue dance career all right uh what about you

00:28:15.480 so i'm single i've been single for the past seven years and my longest relationship was on and off

00:28:22.580 three years on how many times was it on and off quite a few more than 10

00:28:29.000 five four i don't know of all the times it was off who initiated it was it him you

00:28:37.080 it was it was me yeah every single time i don't really remember mostly you though yeah and what

00:28:44.020 would be the reasons for it being off well this was in college so i met him in college move-in day

00:28:50.800 and i found out he had a girlfriend back home and yeah so i cut it off and then it was just like

00:28:57.760 you know back and forth you know and he was disrespectful at times and eventually i ended

00:29:04.800 it because i couldn't you know handle the disrespect anymore and i still you know he said he broke up

00:29:10.220 with her but you know i could never really prove it so it was kind of like a toxic situation

00:29:14.880 all right um and uh who would go back to who he would come back to me he'd be like asking you to

00:29:24.400 get back together okay single for seven years so nothing has it been nothing i've had flings lasting

00:29:30.600 like a month or two but no boyfriends no boyfriends okay when's the last time you

00:29:35.380 had a fling or whatever last month last month okay uh and then do you cut thing all these flings off or

00:29:45.440 do they or fizzles um i cut this last one off um the other ones i mean kind of fizzled another one he

00:29:54.140 cut it off so yeah okay brandon what about you i've been single for about seven months now um

00:30:03.900 in total i'd say i've been in three pretty serious relationships and then you know just probably six

00:30:13.520 total just not fully relationships just sort of trying to figure things out and then it didn't

00:30:20.040 pan out got it okay all right may i spell a follow-up question if you're comfortable yeah um

00:30:26.760 what was like if there was a straw that broke the camel's back with your partner that made you leave

00:30:31.920 like what was it with the sixth year yeah the father of your child was there like a specific thing

00:30:38.340 well i mean he went to jail for a week oh so that's when i was like i don't want my kid to

00:30:43.040 look at this yeah you know and mind you i'm paying half the bills all of that so do you have your kid

00:30:48.200 you have custody of your child no no now now we're actually good friends okay so it turned i have the

00:30:54.160 best relationship with him but during that specific time period i we i could not be around him but now we

00:31:01.440 actually we have dinner together and like i'll go in and out his house whenever i want and we're cool

00:31:05.840 that's awesome yeah we have a good relationship yeah um you mentioned that there was dv in the

00:31:11.620 relationship was it one directional um i think because i was with somebody such a long period of

00:31:18.500 time it was uh at first it was him being very jealous then i was kind of getting even and then

00:31:26.260 it went back to him back and forth uh and me you know kind of like just let's see who can top who

00:31:34.640 pretty much so it just when you're being in that cycle yeah when you say getting even what do you

00:31:40.220 mean who can get more rowdy like it would it got very very um aggressive yes it got very aggressive

00:31:48.300 to the point where i was like once he ended up in jail for a week i was like to hell with this

00:31:54.200 you know i this is not the lifestyle that i want to be in and i let him keep our apartment and i moved

00:32:03.200 on to start over so it almost sounds like in the relationship you were becoming the provider

00:32:09.540 almost or at least that's kind of what you wanted to become and he wasn't happy he was okay with

00:32:15.280 having just a job to pay a rent and i was trying to make something more happen and having those type

00:32:23.140 of people keeping you down is not always good so i just was a bigger person to say you know what

00:32:29.020 you can stay here i'll go start over and do things from scratch now that you guys are friends do you

00:32:36.960 think you'd ever rekindle anything no no we're good as friends i love him as my son's dad but

00:32:43.040 no he's trying trust me even after after i left him um still to this day he'll be like i miss you

00:32:50.780 he'll call me when he's drunk and like i still love you and i'm like i love you but as my son's dad

00:32:56.180 nothing else nothing else yeah no we're cool but that's so you're saying it would get like

00:33:01.400 verbally escalated but uh when i think of dv i think of like physical altercations uh so was this

00:33:09.600 he got too comfortable right but so he would yeah he's asking did you ever hit him me where did he

00:33:16.860 yeah well i mean i've never hit him but i'm not gonna let him you know touch me and not call the

00:33:26.100 police or like do something about the situation you know like i've never gotten super physical as

00:33:33.260 him but um it got to the point where we're like chasing each other on the freeway like it was bad

00:33:39.120 and um it we were 21 we didn't know we didn't know what the hell we wanted each other on on foot i

00:33:46.940 would no no no no no i was driving and he was driving behind me and then i was being petty and

00:33:52.240 i would like start like it i could not let it get further than that like obviously it got to that

00:33:57.960 point i'm like wait this is not who i am this is not who i am so i mind you i'm like 22 at the time

00:34:04.440 like i couldn't just normally go to school like um you know any other 22 year old it was

00:34:12.380 too escalated so i'm like you know what cool like this is not gonna work out i'm out and he kept

00:34:17.760 trying he kept trying but no i had to get out all right uh we got a message here from lucas holy

00:34:24.420 shit did the entire progeny of sodom and gomorrah show up for today's panel speaking of jacked how's

00:34:30.580 mason props to ot from new jersey wait who's ot i guess that's me oh that's you okay stands for

00:34:37.740 occupational therapy oh all right there you got a fan already thank you lucas mason's doing good man

00:34:43.180 he's gonna we're gonna get him back on the show maybe in february so he's made like a pretty

00:34:48.660 miraculous recovery uh for those who don't know here at the table or any viewers mason he's been on

00:34:53.820 our show a bunch of times and he was in like really really severe uh motorcycle accident he

00:35:00.920 was in the hospital for like a month or two uh really bad but he's apparently gonna make a full

00:35:06.320 recovery so uh so yeah we're gonna get him back on the show though soon guys so excited for that

00:35:12.340 excited for that um all right so um let's get into uh some of the pre-show notes here so uh we have

00:35:22.500 quite a few so i'll try to get through them as quick as possible uh let's start with nina nina

00:35:30.140 that's you right yeah uh actually you know what hold on nina i have to hold it i have to hold it for

00:35:36.600 just a sec uh we'll come to your we will come to your notes sophia yeah um in your pre-show notes you

00:35:44.360 said you've hardly dated so but you said that you haven't dated so is it hardly dated or no i've never

00:35:51.940 dated have you texted with the dude or i mean i uh i guess i tried but um i mean i haven't looked

00:35:59.920 like this for a while um so before that i wouldn't talk to anyone okay um so let's get into that so

00:36:09.280 when you say you look like this so you have a what i have a boob job and a bbl okay anything else

00:36:16.420 like lip filler or anything like that no lipo on my chin as well chin lipo okay so chin lipo

00:36:22.780 i want that fake right yeah fake boobs and then the bbl uh how old were you when you got those

00:36:30.800 procedures uh uh 18 yeah okay i made the appointment after after my birthday and you turned 18 in

00:36:38.560 november right okay so you got it in november yeah december okay you got it all at the same

00:36:44.320 time or yeah okay i went to the dr oh that was my next question i was wondering where she went

00:36:49.020 the bbl do they take fat from my stomach and my back yeah it's at 360. okay um did you pay for that

00:36:58.640 with your walmart job yeah i've been working sorry i've been working since i was 14 to saving up for

00:37:04.120 this look specifically for the yeah well yeah 14 yeah um i saw models growing up that i really like

00:37:12.840 uh kim kardashian i i loved her look so i started looking uh up how she looked that way uh learned

00:37:20.520 what a bbl was boob job so so this was always the plan kim kardashian yeah yeah not the of but then i

00:37:26.220 ruining a generation of uh i guess no i like this look and that's what i was going for and uh so

00:37:35.920 you see you wait didn't you say you're like did you say you're homeless or what did you say i was

00:37:42.680 yeah as a teenager with my with my mom and my sisters i was homeless okay i still had a job and um

00:37:49.360 mostly like couch surfing uh shelters and all that stuff then okay she wasn't obviously a great mom so i

00:37:55.840 entered the foster care system yeah and is your dad in the picture or no okay single mom i see okay

00:38:02.280 you said in your instagram bio it says that you're half is it half mexican half korean is your dad the

00:38:08.320 korean one yeah okay uh do you speak korean i'm assuming no 25 korean okay yeah not half uh your mom

00:38:16.260 are you in touch with her uh no okay is she aware that you do of no i haven't talked to her like

00:38:22.020 okay a year and a half um and so when it comes to the plastic surgery though you wrote in your notes

00:38:28.820 here uh you haven't been on any dates but one unique unique experience of yours is the dating world is

00:38:37.380 totally different when it comes to how men have treated you before and after getting uh the plastic

00:38:43.160 surgery the boob job bbl chin chin surgery has that you should have done one at a time and seeing

00:38:49.480 maybe maybe it's all the chin what do you mean like forget the bbl and the fake tits

00:38:54.600 now you're getting all this attention because of the the chin job chin no no no or the the under

00:39:01.440 the the the whatever that's called the i don't know lipo yeah i know but what's that double chin

00:39:06.680 the gullet gizzard

00:39:07.380 yeah i think she looks amazing but but before before that you said you got close to no attention

00:39:16.460 from men um maybe you said maybe one or two guys ever asked for your phone number and you

00:39:21.720 rarely get dm'd on instagram uh now that you've gone through these surgeries you get guys that will

00:39:27.060 come up to you on a daily basis asking to chat get your number uh and you get probably like 20 dms a day

00:39:34.560 on instagram yeah but i mean couldn't part of this be i mean you got all these procedures

00:39:40.100 as soon as you turned 18 perhaps you were less active on social media um maybe you should have

00:39:49.020 given it a couple years to really be able to make a determination when it comes to attention from the

00:39:54.000 opposite sex well i don't mind the attention i just that's not my priority right now okay all right um

00:40:03.120 did you know you wanted to do of as soon as you turned 18 um a few years ago when it started really

00:40:08.780 popping off because um i know this kind of look really does get the attention so um before i wanted

00:40:15.300 the plastic surgery because i love the look right but then i realized that i could profit from it um on

00:40:22.780 of so yeah that's what i was that's what i was wondering you said uh a twitter post of yours reads

00:40:30.140 if i was the president i'd make plastic surgery free yeah i'm pretty sure brazil does that yeah

00:40:36.900 like brazil does i'm pretty sure yeah i mean what don't you never naturally surgery it's like uh

00:40:45.500 yeah but not yeah i think one a year it's like part of the health healthcare yes yes is that

00:40:53.800 yeah is that real totalmente totally like yes i am with you and actually i don't think you're with

00:40:58.500 her on what into the mic guys guys guys into the mic thank you about the strategies that's getting

00:41:05.500 better for our women's what is wrong on that well why wait so hold on yes if you want it why not why

00:41:12.820 not are we still talking if you want why not hold on why not hold on hold on hold on are we still

00:41:19.540 talking about you said you'd make plastic surgery free so taxpayer funded health care yeah part of

00:41:25.740 the health care i have a plastic surgery is not health care i have a question but it should be

00:41:31.040 well not paying for that and your nails for you right now yes how about this the surgeries that

00:41:35.540 she's gotten was it health care well no but what i'm saying is in the state of california i think

00:41:40.520 there's certain transgender surgeries and we're not talking about that well you just said that she

00:41:45.100 isn't health care i was saying there's specific circumstances yeah i mean i don't think that

00:41:48.900 that's health care though i'm gonna forget i mean i can't speak to that but like you can get your

00:41:53.140 even the trans surgeries wouldn't be health care you can get a breast reduction if your boobs are

00:41:57.520 too big and it's causing back problems that's a medical if surgeries are free would like other

00:42:02.480 women's health procedures be free like stuff that's like more like natural like pap smears or birth

00:42:07.980 control hold on let's stick on topic here so um plastic surgery should be free who's in favor of this at

00:42:13.780 the table i think medically necessary plastic surgery i think they're like it depends which

00:42:18.180 which is like one percent of plastic surgery yeah okay so what about the other 99 of plastic surgery

00:42:24.360 that's purely cosmetic you gotta pay for that oh okay but you're in favor of you want bbl free you

00:42:31.360 want fake boobs yeah i love it it's really done wonders for me i feel so much more confident and

00:42:36.440 beautiful so i think why shouldn't other people feel the way i do well they can pay for it well

00:42:42.540 well because they don't want to pay for it right like other people don't want to pay for you even if

00:42:48.320 it makes you feel wonderful like it's uh it's not their responsibility to pay for you right well and

00:42:53.240 also like you grew up thinking that you needed that to be beautiful because you grew up seeing kim k

00:42:58.020 have it and then you had that doubts in your mind not really i mean um i wasn't insecure before i just

00:43:05.100 it's like customizing your own character one sec guys but why would that be health care covered

00:43:35.100 sorry about that guys um so anyways uh plastic surgery for free who's in favor show of hands

00:43:44.480 who's in favor plastic surgery for free with my with my caveat like in the middle depends the

00:43:49.660 situation like if it's gonna be free then all the other health care situations should be free like

00:43:56.580 paps and stuff are free though money no less expensive under medical medical i think it

00:44:02.520 depends on the individual way no way wait i'm just curious um so going back to your thing about like

00:44:07.660 how after the surgeries you got way more attention than you ever gotten before them do you have before

00:44:12.720 and after photos that we could look at yes because i think on your ig there's only like after photos

00:44:18.700 i have one with like a bra and underwear on okay or i mean i can when you go my phone you don't have

00:44:26.520 to do it now but when you go back there maybe just like make a note well yeah we can take a look okay

00:44:30.540 um because i'm just curious like if there was how big the change was but uh you you said that you're

00:44:37.460 also uh in your i think on your of it says you love being a plastic doll yeah help me these are your

00:44:46.120 words help help me grow and achieve my perfect bimbo body i want to go much much bigger yeah all

00:44:54.080 tips go towards surgery i will not spend a dime on anything else um so you what precisely when it

00:45:00.320 comes to the cosmetic surgery do you want to do like you want to get a revision yeah so i want to get

00:45:05.700 like three to four bbls um come on you're trolling right no no three to four yeah so that's just i i gain

00:45:14.000 weight and then i get like so you just get fat you you intentionally get fatter yes you eat a lot

00:45:20.280 yeah that's what and then you continue to add it why don't you just like you know do you know gracie

00:45:25.700 bond no idea you can donate it too like oh well she's had she's had like huh gracie bond she's had

00:45:33.080 like i don't know when the airplane girl airplane seats yeah oh yes oh that she she has a bbl right

00:45:41.220 oh yeah no she's had like three or four that's that's i know who you're talking she has a lipo

00:45:45.840 lipo so like she will get like her thighs are natural because it's just her so you want to look

00:45:50.560 like her pretty much yeah or it's hard to get fat for some people like i actually wanted more fat

00:45:59.600 no one talking about that's men's for real like it yeah girls like that yes everyone say no i like

00:46:07.580 a skinny girl white girl da da da da da and what about the who are they following on latinas and

00:46:13.280 everything that's true come on they want the girl that takes up two seats exactly yeah aubry knee is

00:46:20.820 like a more realistic uh goal of mine she has such a tiny little waist and a big ass and you want to do

00:46:26.780 the yeah i do want to go a bit bigger yeah not a bit bazongas you want to go i do want a bigger ass

00:46:33.300 than boobs but so how many boob jobs are you gonna get two or three

00:46:37.620 to each their own to each their own um does anybody else here have any plastic surgery

00:46:44.820 any any plastic no abigail no i've gotten a nose job nose job any plastic surgery boobs obviously

00:46:53.760 but um no okay it looked great plastic surgery yes i do and i am very proud of that because it's so

00:47:00.700 many in the world so insecurity about that and it is what it is why not you got the boobs yes

00:47:07.300 and we paid for it ourselves bbl no no bbl no bbl no lips i need lip no no thanks god no lip filler

00:47:13.900 natural lip filler this face is natural yeah no lip filler okay no nothing anything if i could get a

00:47:21.180 bbl i would though i will have it why not if you can afford it get it um it's not i don't have enough

00:47:28.020 body so you're gonna go much much bigger okay and then i think final note here for you uh so okay

00:47:35.600 you said you're open to talking about any topics at all you guys you want to talk about body count

00:47:40.480 what what are your views there um well i personally wouldn't want a high body count

00:47:47.660 and a guy or yourself myself okay or a guy um i think there's an there's an extreme um

00:47:56.060 i could get i don't know insecure or you could start getting like a sex addiction addiction where

00:48:04.720 you can start cheating you know because you just crave something that becomes an addiction

00:48:11.200 okay all right uh i would prefer a lower body count for both parties sure um i did see though

00:48:22.200 uh you wrote on your page bg is coming soon so do you have a plan like you're gonna film it i'm assuming

00:48:33.020 yeah probably my highest donor you're gonna lose your virginity to your okay so you're a prostitute

00:48:41.180 um will you still call yourself a virgin after that no no she won't definitely i was just wondering

00:48:49.460 because i'm i'm a virgin and people always ask me wow hold on are you guys laughing at are you laughing

00:48:58.220 at him wow they're laughing are you gonna tolerate this i've been getting that my whole life i mean she's

00:49:03.180 tolerating like saying i'm not so many fetiches is coming tonight for you i'm just well people laugh

00:49:09.260 because they don't some people don't believe it but then some people laugh because i kind of believe

00:49:13.980 it oh here he's very focused on his fitness i am yes are you uh catholic are you i am presbyterian

00:49:21.020 presbyterian okay gotcha okay she's over we'll get that beat out of you

00:49:25.620 you're orthodox right orthodox yeah um are you waiting till marriage i am yes okay but people

00:49:35.060 people always ask me they're like what does it mean to be a virgin like how far have you gone

00:49:40.700 you know and so a lot of people a lot of people consider stuff like that not like not having lost

00:49:48.500 your virginity so how was your how how long was your longest relationship my longest relationship was

00:49:53.820 about two years and it was pretty on and off kind of like nina very on and off all right were they

00:50:01.780 also that's why i was surprised what was that were they also religious um every woman that i have dated

00:50:07.240 seriously has been a christian yes but not the ones you've dated um i have yeah i haven't taken

00:50:19.140 things seriously with anybody except other people of the faith wow but this is not much virgin and

00:50:27.180 you selected when you don't even know excuse me when you have good connection with people is when

00:50:34.200 you can say something not just oh i meet you i am dating you every day kiss kiss kiss and like this

00:50:40.460 everything everything yeah everything like this kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss like this can you try here

00:50:45.700 this is why i'm here this is why i'm here all right what did you say it's something i doesn't

00:50:54.380 understand about him is you say you've been dating for two years right so and that's two years what are

00:51:00.140 you doing now okay i'm single now i was in a relationship with a girl the relationship in total

00:51:07.420 lasted about a year and a half to a year and eight months and during that time no we did not have

00:51:13.280 nothing just kids kiss kiss kiss kiss and that's beautiful i do kiss oh i understand me i hate this

00:51:20.760 it's so disgusting it depends how people have them they mouth is not nice wait you're saying

00:51:26.980 you're saying i respect you point she couldn't just kiss oh she wouldn't be able to wait i'm sorry

00:51:33.580 my strong i see no no i i understand you'd just rather have sex with him immediately is that what

00:51:38.260 you mean like instead of kissing him is that what you're saying wait have you ever questioned for you

00:51:43.660 following off of what andrew said have you ever had sex with a guy but didn't kiss him

00:51:48.920 of course yes that's i don't like it i don't like it and then and the people watching to me now they

00:51:56.900 can say yes that's true i don't i prefer to do another thing with my mouth than kid somebody

00:52:03.460 because you know is it more like romantic for you no no more than romantic because i am not romantic

00:52:09.500 really woman i am i am coming from europe and we are very open mind you know we don't have this type

00:52:16.900 of topics oh yes love or whatever no it is what it is and thank you bye bye definitely a european thing

00:52:23.320 have you had a lot of bad kissers that's why no it's not that it's not that because actually i like

00:52:28.820 it pretty boys i don't like it even ugly boys voice no i don't like it ugly boys i don't like it

00:52:35.580 boys yeah boys boys boys boys boys oh wait little boy ugly boys with ugly boys i can understand

00:52:45.240 that's cool um no no no get a fail okay boys give me 20 minutes here i'll be back in in about 20

00:52:53.380 minutes yeah all good uh you can just uh hide it there damien um we have a chat coming in here

00:53:00.360 ogle thank you man donated two hundred dollars this bbl obsession is a sickness that i hope modern day

00:53:07.320 women are cured of soon most well done surveys show that over 70 percent of men prefer a natural woman

00:53:14.280 even with less curbs and such yep i have contention with that comment what's your contention

00:53:21.360 thank you ogle by the way thank you ogle and other people say that but that's not who they paid

00:53:26.580 money to on the internet and who they subscribe to yeah i'm like i have a lot of guys that follow me

00:53:32.800 that aren't their main accounts you know it's their secret desires their fetishes and that's the

00:53:38.720 truth yeah i don't think you've done anything to actually refute ogle's point here so he said 70

00:53:45.420 percent of men prefer someone with a natural body if that's not what they're putting their energy into

00:53:50.680 in terms of who they're following who they're liking who they're paying money to that doesn't

00:53:54.080 really what's the population of the united states i don't know off the top of my head well so if we take

00:53:59.840 30 percent of that that's like millions and millions of people so like wouldn't that be a

00:54:06.400 sufficient number of people to like have an interest in these kinds of women to the point

00:54:11.600 that they think oh all men must like this it's not all men it's just a majority of men say one thing

00:54:17.580 but then their actions are put towards a different type of body type than what is coming out of their

00:54:21.400 mouth i also what i mean so you have you have encountered men who say i don't find this

00:54:29.840 attractive and then like what what do you see what what are you pointing towards well they'll say that

00:54:36.140 they want like natural women and stuff like that or low makeup and things like that but then they

00:54:39.840 follow and like instagram photos of like bbls or they're just not aware yeah most people lie about

00:54:46.520 their plastic and after latinas instagram is full of dm and say oh no i like it they're skinny one

00:54:54.500 so that's not much yeah and then they pick they pick the skinny one only to cheat on them with

00:55:00.140 exactly with the the other ones i think most that's very normal realize like what's natural and what's

00:55:05.800 not nowadays i mean peaches was like is that your natural body and no like i'm honest like i feel like

00:55:10.740 i'm not gonna lie to you and say oh yeah i went to the gym you can achieve this look like

00:55:14.860 i think that a lot of guys that say that are actually lying and i think a lot of them have

00:55:21.000 underlying porn addictions that have made them yes lean towards that side of things i think it's also

00:55:29.380 very easy for a guy to say i'd prefer a natural woman with curves but that's also bs just very

00:55:36.760 irregular to you know for a lot of people to have and it's so normal for people to cheat on their wives

00:55:44.340 and the wife can be natural and everything but at the end of the day they cheat on the love like

00:55:49.720 it's so normal nowadays or you can just feel ashamed because i mean there is like a negative

00:55:54.880 connotation or a negative perspective to plastic surgery that you feel like oh i shouldn't like

00:56:01.000 that yeah ogle um do you think you could i don't know if you can send us another study if you can

00:56:07.580 send us the study so we can actually look at it because she see she says that she thinks it's

00:56:12.500 perhaps dubious so like if we could actually look at the study uh please that could be helpful

00:56:17.840 kai baka thank you for the gifted 20 subs really appreciate it thank you so much over there on

00:56:22.280 twitch yeah a lot of girls like that do like our work not yeah um they literally like will pretend

00:56:30.040 like they don't get anything done and then like they do make it seem like they are natural so that

00:56:36.460 men feel like oh yeah at least you're being like yeah like you're tweeting it like you're like yeah

00:56:43.420 i get all this done you know so i have a question for sorry sophia i forgot your name eva thank you

00:56:50.380 would you would you like it if a man was on performance enhancing drugs like steroids because

00:56:58.400 those are those are pretty common in south america as well this is the situation because

00:57:02.380 in spain um people like it a lot take care of their self and everything so we women recognize

00:57:09.960 right away when men's just use this to get an attention you know but in my case for example i

00:57:15.760 can recognize men when they are well for beautiful things interesting yeah i prioritize health you know

00:57:23.340 so if you're healthy if you're not taking a really high dose where you're going to kill yourself or

00:57:28.360 hurting your heart um then i'm fine with that i mean once i start getting bigger i'm gonna go to

00:57:34.600 the gym i'm gonna do cardio so my health heart is healthy you know um so yeah if if i find a guy

00:57:41.180 that's on steroids and he feels good and he likes the way he looks then yeah why not very interesting

00:57:46.160 we have another one just to follow up here from ogle thank you man appreciate it ogle donated

00:57:51.080 two hundred dollars last comment on this from me you guys are mixing up what a man will have sex

00:57:57.240 with versus what he will end up with you can be one or the other i guess pick a choice okay but is

00:58:04.060 it like sleeping with a woman your foot in the door to dating them isn't that what a lot of guys say

00:58:08.740 wait hold on so you're dating men all the women that men sleep with they're going into that sexual

00:58:16.500 encounter with the intention of being in a long-term relationship with her no or don't you think it's

00:58:20.380 actually more likely than not that when a man is pursuing a sexual interaction with a woman

00:58:25.520 it's probably not for long term it's probably not but it's a foot in the door to that direction

00:58:31.060 yeah sure i would disagree with that i mean he's just pointing out that uh they'll have sex with

00:58:39.420 these women but long term but even if that's the case it's still a distraction to the ultimate goal

00:58:46.080 if you're trying to be in a relationship and they'll tell you up front if you know if they don't

00:58:50.420 want a relationship with you you know like you kind of choose it i mean like i don't choose to

00:58:55.120 have relationship with guys because they know what i do well what about this we have metro mac coming

00:58:59.880 you have to be so up to two hundred dollars women who get work are insecure themselves and that's

00:59:07.420 enough of a red flag in and of itself stay natural ladies us men appreciate it okay what's wrong with

00:59:14.260 being insecure about something and fixing it though i mean if you're fat you go to the gym

00:59:20.500 because you want to look a certain way i wanted to look a certain way uh it doesn't mean i'm insecure

00:59:25.940 with my last body i do think i got hotter um but so what to each their own i feel like everyone's

00:59:34.100 insecure i feel like he's saying it in a bad like way like a negative way but i think that everyone is

00:59:40.560 insecure about something and they can work towards something and like make it better

00:59:44.640 so you might want to punch me after i say this but couldn't you have went to the gym to get your butt

00:59:50.360 not really not like that again to each their own no maybe maybe not that's a good point abigail

00:59:56.700 maybe not like her butt but like can you get a nice butt in the gym yes yeah for sure um but no i was

01:00:04.220 going for an extreme look like that's the look i like i can't go to the gym to get bigger great

01:00:08.720 like i can't see your butt oh like you're sitting i'll stand up later how about this do you guys

01:00:12.780 think that a guy who didn't want to date a girl because she had plastic surgery do you think that

01:00:18.360 that's that's totally fair i mean we all have our our own boundaries you know right like i probably

01:00:24.360 wouldn't date a ginger that's fair okay like wow i mean we all have preferences so i mean are you a

01:00:35.460 just curious why i'm not i mean it's just not my type like we have types yeah i think that's what's

01:00:41.900 your type i have like two different types yeah so it really depends no no no no no okay so it's

01:00:50.360 like a light skin or what is that you mean a light skinned black guy yeah okay go ahead or like

01:00:57.740 a white like blue eyes oh yeah like yeah like brunette like light dirty brown yeah like blondish

01:01:08.240 hair like two complete different types you know what i'm saying listen to the me i honestly think

01:01:13.300 if more people like two complete different person this wouldn't be the case i have a question for you

01:01:18.040 you said you wanted to go for the extreme look was that something you always wanted or is that

01:01:23.080 something you decided on because you you know you knew you were going into only fans um i mean at

01:01:28.940 first i wanted like a kim k look for sure nikki minaj um i think throughout the years i got more

01:01:35.280 comfortable and like now that i have it like i thought these boobs were going to be too big for

01:01:39.560 me i got 850 cc which is the biggest you could get in one round and i was like okay if it's the

01:01:45.540 biggest that's what i want but they might be they might look too big now that i have them and

01:01:49.080 they've settled um i want more you know so i think throughout the years i have i mean i didn't

01:01:56.120 know i didn't know gracie bond three years ago i didn't know aubry knee two years ago so i think

01:02:03.040 the most the more i've been exposed i'm like that looks really good i want to look like that what

01:02:07.900 draws you to the extreme look though which is you know what i'm wondering yeah um i me personally i

01:02:13.580 like it but also good money i feel like it's gonna make you more money yeah that's okay that's my

01:02:18.020 goal so if you think if you were influenced by other women on the internet you would have never

01:02:22.760 had plastic surgery i don't think so i think society also has uh like beauty standards so it's not

01:02:30.520 just social media it's it's everywhere it's always been a thing you know yeah no i just want to

01:02:36.240 understand because like i don't have any work done but if i were to get worked on like i would

01:02:40.440 you know want it to look as natural as possible like my thing is like if they could tell that it's

01:02:45.300 fake i don't want it like my eyelashes for example they're lash extensions oh a lot of people say

01:02:49.540 you can't really tell that's the look i was going for yeah you're just enhancing your own yeah so i

01:02:54.200 just wanted to know like the opposite perspective and plus they are fake you pay for that so they

01:02:59.080 are in the bbl it's real it's my own fat guys it's just transferred your lashes look really good thank

01:03:05.260 you okay fantastic well i i have another question for you so you said that you're

01:03:22.460 all pretty much in this for the money will you ever get to a point where you're satisfied with how much

01:03:30.820 money you have when i can like fully retire okay so what what would that look like what's the goal

01:03:36.560 28 okay so your goal would be to retire at 28 years old kids in the future maybe i have my younger

01:03:46.020 sisters and i i'm basically raising them i i want to adopt them so um i don't know so family

01:03:54.860 husband eventually yeah for sure i mean i want to meet someone organically you know i don't want to

01:04:01.680 meet someone on social media i do think social media has ruined the dating scene um so i want to

01:04:07.780 get to know someone and obviously they need to be okay with what i do the job i do the way i look

01:04:13.920 obviously so if they're okay with those boundaries and they have the same morals as me of course so by

01:04:19.640 the age of 28 yeah do you plan to keep your body count under a certain number so that well like you

01:04:27.320 said you'll be able to have a lower body count when going into a relationship well by the by that time

01:04:32.180 i hope i'm in a loving relationship okay so by that time yeah i would want someone that's okay with my

01:04:38.400 work and maybe even willing to do it with me you know okay i don't want to sleep around with a bunch

01:04:42.840 of guys very interesting do you plan to win one sec jason castle donated two hundred dollars thank

01:04:49.580 you jason jeffrey there are approximately 166 million men in the u.s 30 of that is about 50

01:04:57.600 million there is a good chance the men that like fake bitches is from the 50 million most men don't

01:05:04.080 like fake women most men don't like women um since you dispute since you dispute the 70

01:05:10.580 i'm thinking about like the gays hold on hold on stop since you have some disputes over the 70

01:05:18.280 figure that ogle mentioned i guess what percentage of men do you think maybe i don't know if this would

01:05:23.960 be the right phrasing prefer uh the whole fake look over natural or you give us your own percentages

01:05:31.280 it's hard because i don't know so i would have to see like exactly what study he's talking about

01:05:35.900 what's the demographic what's the regions and what's the percentage and things like that

01:05:39.340 that is just something that i've seen or experienced in my in life my personal life and seen on the

01:05:44.300 internet so having a set percentage i don't i can't even begin to speculate do you think it's a

01:05:49.400 majority of men so 51 percent uh or more i think a majority of men either wander with their eyes or

01:05:57.160 engage online by liking or following etc in women that have these extreme body types

01:06:02.800 now i'm not saying that they like are dming them or things like that but i do think that

01:06:07.680 most men are probably subscribing to that or like liking that and putting their energy towards that

01:06:14.440 which feeds the algorithm and then you slowly get society pushing that everywhere even if it's the

01:06:18.860 minority of how most people live their lives okay but also i think i think it's okay if you don't like

01:06:25.200 a plastic a person that has plastic surgery i'll just find someone that likes me do you plan to

01:06:32.320 invest your money into anything with the money you make on only fans yeah i mean um maybe like

01:06:38.140 she wants to just reinvest it in herself she is not trump coins she is her no not like she's real

01:06:45.100 estate yeah yeah i mean i'd have to educate myself on that um but yeah i don't want my the money i've

01:06:50.880 earned and all my hard work to go to waste especially because i don't plan on doing only

01:06:55.500 fans for the rest of my life yeah okay for you what else do you want to do sorry what was your

01:07:00.240 decision to enter into the tiktok shop thing and sort of hustle did you ever consider doing

01:07:07.360 only fans and getting into that side of things i actually had an ex that had a fetish with only

01:07:12.940 fans girls and he tried to like pressure me into it but it just never was my um thing you see that

01:07:21.460 you don't have like morals that were keeping you from doing it or anything i just it just wasn't my

01:07:26.000 thing i was a cosmetic and hair model ever since i was 16 so i always like to do my own thing when it

01:07:34.300 came to um me starting my modeling career um i've always been very independent and that's why i became a

01:07:41.060 casting director because now i know i know i know how to place girls in a way that um they don't get

01:07:51.460 taken advantage of and they can make money without having to do a little bit extra and maybe getting

01:07:59.020 taken advantage of so i'm the middle person i know the risks of both ends and um i just chose to

01:08:06.160 keep it in the production industry because i just i felt like because somebody pressured me so much

01:08:13.460 into getting into that environment i was like you know f that i don't want to do it i kind of got a

01:08:20.680 little bit of anger towards it i'm not gonna lie i'm gonna be straightforward when somebody a boyfriend

01:08:25.480 is trying to get you in there it's because he had a lineup of girls that he was like i want you to be

01:08:31.540 like this girl and i'm like no i don't want to fucking do that and i'm gonna be comfortable with

01:08:35.620 absolutely yo mimo thank you for the gifted 50 subs on twitch man thank you so much man that's very

01:08:40.220 generous of you uh i guess final question on the plastic surgery thing and i'm gonna move it along

01:08:45.280 would you guys date a guy who got pec implants ab implants and bicep implants i've seen some pretty

01:08:55.840 bad ones if they look good i don't know if i would yeah the synthol injections where their biceps

01:09:02.280 like out to here it's really what do you would you do um i would i don't know i don't i don't think so

01:09:09.000 probably they could probably work out and get the same result i feel like in the end of the day

01:09:12.560 it depends well how big how big they want to get it do you think that like there are some

01:09:19.800 mental issues that go into that what did you say do you think that there are some mental issues that

01:09:26.260 would go along with a man that injects his muscles with oh yeah i know that people that do roids

01:09:32.800 have a lot of anger issues and are more like stuff like that so i don't know if he was probably what

01:09:39.760 do you think like if you saw a guy that had like brian said like pec implants or like synthol injections

01:09:45.100 would you think this guy's probably not all there yes yes but i'm okay with a guy that goes to the

01:09:52.860 gym just because that's that takes like a lot of work and dedication so i think that's it it shows

01:09:57.920 them that they have a like a work ethic you know and you guys are probably like you should have gone

01:10:03.680 to the gym too um but um if they look good i i guess you you do you bae um would any of you think

01:10:14.200 it's like mental illness though kind of i mean i think i would date somebody with a two and a

01:10:19.020 jawline i think it's a lot easier to to do that than to get injections for men yeah i don't i don't

01:10:28.520 think i just feel like it's unnecessary but if i like to make it over and get like their eyebrows

01:10:32.860 threaded they think it's like the worst pain ever i took my brother to get his eyebrows started he

01:10:37.860 didn't talk to me for a week yeah like they're like like i couldn't imagine like they could not

01:10:43.060 getting like any work done like i would date somebody with a jaw lipo and like okay when

01:10:49.800 like my dad yes i have a dad but like when he acts like when he has like the slightest cold he

01:10:55.400 acts like it's the end of the world so i couldn't imagine him getting like a bbl and like laying there

01:10:59.020 for me he would be like oh my god like i'm in so much pain like he couldn't like do the recovery

01:11:04.520 process at all so i just think a lot of women would look at a guy who had those plastic surgery

01:11:09.280 procedures and be like you wouldn't you probably wouldn't find it aesthetically attractive and then

01:11:15.720 just you'd also think okay this guy's like mentally ill that's kind of how i think when it comes to

01:11:21.740 women who have plastic surgery like he stares at himself too much in the mirror though like all

01:11:26.440 plastic surgery or just the extreme looks i mean it's uh it's a sliding scale because what if you

01:11:30.820 couldn't tell and you found out like way later you'd been dating them for a year and you're like oh i got

01:11:35.340 but the jaw lipo is fine i think i'm okay with the jaw lipo like a guy that gets okay are you okay

01:11:41.440 with like hair transplants for guys oh my god that was so obvious yes i think girls are even starting

01:11:48.480 to fool me do it i'll be scrolling like on tiktok and like i'm seeing like girls getting like boob

01:11:53.400 jobs and lipo and i'm like holy like i didn't even like recognize it like it's getting like more and

01:11:58.000 more like unrecognizable and the sausage lips what was your question i just want to let you know

01:12:02.880 you you said about five sentences there and you said like 16 times who did me who yeah i have

01:12:12.020 really bad grammar i am from ohio guys she is she is from ohio she is from ohio yeah um what what was

01:12:20.020 your question well if it if you let's say theoretically your detector failed and you were dating someone

01:12:26.660 and a year down the road they were like oh yeah i have had a nose job or lip filler like but you

01:12:30.940 didn't notice are you going to be like that's it call it off well again it goes to the degree of what

01:12:37.300 they've gotten uh some procedures are more invasive than others uh rhinoplasty not i mean not super

01:12:44.540 invasive lip filler not super invasive i can tell if a girl's had lip filler um it's i mean maybe there's

01:12:51.720 some that's minimal but like if you look at them from the side the lip protrudes in such a way that

01:12:57.840 never naturally occurs like if you look at a girl from the side there's like a ridge the sausage lips

01:13:03.860 well even if it's minimal there there's like a ridge that never naturally occurs so lip filler is

01:13:12.600 actually pretty obvious to me but again it's scales like okay breast implants that's a bit that's a bit

01:13:19.240 more lipo that's a bit more bbl that's going pretty far with it and so i do think that these are

01:13:27.360 probably proxy for some sort of mental illness but but so you would immediately break up with them if

01:13:32.320 you didn't know and then they told you oh so i got bamboozled yes you couldn't think you like well

01:13:37.020 didn't tell and then they tell you later didn't tell what though you couldn't tell like you didn't

01:13:41.620 i know you say you're really good at yeah but seeing it but i'm just saying if you didn't catch it

01:13:46.520 wait so just just for the sake of like the hypothetical is it that much of a deal breaker

01:13:52.320 so one thing i'd like to try to avoid with these conversations is like going to like really

01:14:00.880 kind of like extreme or like unrealistic scenarios so like you can ask me like what about this

01:14:11.620 situation so okay be precise what surgeries does she have that i'm not aware of and i've been

01:14:17.640 dating her for a year sometimes she got a boob job and i know let's just say but theoretically in this

01:14:24.720 hypothetical you did not know would it be that much of a deal breaker where how would i not know if i've

01:14:29.060 been dating this girl for a year i felt her boobs like it doesn't feel normal okay and the dotting

01:14:35.180 the dotting on the body have you felt fake boobs well yeah but the point isn't about the fake boobs i

01:14:40.280 just picked a random surgery i'm just it's just a plastic surgery you could pick anyone you like

01:14:45.320 if you didn't notice yes yes you made a deal breaker there you go that's all i was wondering

01:14:51.720 yes that would not be a deal breaker for me if she bamboozled bamboozled if she lied about it yeah

01:15:00.200 for sure but if it was something that was so minor that it was she giggles and like surprise

01:15:05.040 i feel like you're gonna you're gonna have a really hard time finding a girl that isn't

01:15:12.260 incredibly insecure about something so yeah i don't i don't think that would that wouldn't bother me too

01:15:19.640 much i don't so i guess to answer your question is an omission like she was hiding it for a reason

01:15:24.640 yeah if she was if she was hiding and hiding it and she lied about it like i said that would be

01:15:31.520 lying about it she's admitting it because perhaps she like in brian's case brian's saying okay i don't

01:15:38.000 like this so the response from the gal is like okay but what if you really like this girl and then

01:15:44.020 you found out later that she had this work done and hadn't told you about it let's say brian had

01:15:49.020 never asked so he has no idea she didn't lie to him exactly right she's hit it in this case it

01:15:54.560 would be she just hit it because he knows uh she knows he doesn't like it right that's the case

01:15:59.560 yeah that's a that's definitely a like an omission really that's definitely a second day question for

01:16:06.380 me i usually go with that one and then are you a virgin is usually a first day question

01:16:12.040 that makes sense no no i get i get that but i'm i'm not saying you specifically i'm just saying in

01:16:18.500 the case of brian what i'm what i'm saying is that there there's an omission so if you go for a year

01:16:23.820 right and a girl's had boob job and things like this and knows that you don't like plastic surgery

01:16:29.060 that's why she omitted it she hasn't lied to you but she has done an omission here which uh which to

01:16:35.780 me would be just as good as lying essentially right so you just say look uh that's dishonest even if

01:16:41.080 the intent wasn't to lie directly yeah if you've made it clear that you don't like it for sure yeah and i guess

01:16:47.280 going back to your thing so i mean even going in i it's not a hundred percent a deal breaker like

01:16:54.340 if she has fake boobs it is like a negative mark though like aesthetically i don't like it and then

01:17:01.360 i'm gonna probably make some assumptions whether correct or incorrect like maybe proxy for mental

01:17:08.260 illness or she's just like there's a degree of vanity there that i typically don't find attractive

01:17:13.600 it's not a hundred percent deal breaker but it is like i am uh less inclined to date a woman with

01:17:19.300 fake so so brian for you it's a it's a red flag for you personally like let's say outside of the

01:17:24.680 work yeah so it's not a hundred percent deal breaker but um are you guys is red flag a considered

01:17:30.900 deal breaker is it just something like i'm proceeding cautiously i mean not a deal some people consider

01:17:37.020 the red flag deal breakers but uh yes it would be a red flag is it but yeah not a hundred percent

01:17:43.120 deal breaker but i mean it's just not my preference it's not my preference understandable but like if

01:17:48.400 the girl's otherwise amazing and meets all my other criteria i don't think it would be a hundred

01:17:54.520 percent deal breaker but i do have a strong preference towards i'm a natural body supremacist

01:18:00.780 natural body supremacist prefer natural i'll take i flatter a cup over perfect fake titties

01:18:10.700 i did a poll on it on twitter actually 80 of guys who responded to my poll said they'd prefer a girl

01:18:19.000 who has a cups or who is flat over a girl who has perfect like i think i said c cup fake breasts

01:18:26.840 i feel like your demographic might be biased though yeah it could sure it could it's your

01:18:31.840 followers it also got into twitter but i mean shouldn't it be so if the idea here is you're

01:18:38.260 you're kind of sampling the demographic who are in the dating market who are young men who are giving

01:18:42.780 you their preference like it seems like that's exactly a demographic you want to hear from right

01:18:47.000 but you're pulling from a religious demographic specifically what this isn't a religious

01:18:51.240 demographic or i guess more conservative i mean between andrew you're really religious and i would

01:18:55.240 say you're fairly conservative so i'm assuming most of the people that watch you align in that

01:18:59.320 camp not whatever no whatever whatever explicitly so it's a specific following you know what i mean

01:19:06.140 well i would agree with you on the crucible my channel that uh probably 50 60 percent of people

01:19:11.560 are religious there's no doubt that that's true but whatever's a whole different ballgame

01:19:14.860 i don't think most people there are religious at all not specifically religious but there's a type

01:19:21.300 here you know the viewers are very familiar they familiarize with his preferences with his

01:19:26.960 preferences but i feel like that goes uh only that is only limited to your followers so they are

01:19:35.040 gonna agree with this type of girl there's you'll have clips right those clips will go out to millions

01:19:39.760 of people literally millions um and then you can you can start reading through the comments right

01:19:45.080 and it's like there's an awful lot of men who seem to agree with the the social circle that's uh

01:19:53.620 speaking in these polls or whatever now is she right is that is that astute scientific information well no

01:19:59.580 right of course not and nobody's saying it is just that i'm not sure that it's biased i mean that's kind of

01:20:06.160 who we want to hear from right is men who are in that uh demographic who are in the dating demographic

01:20:11.260 that's that's who you would i don't i don't see what's biased about that are you actually asking

01:20:17.480 me or you're just generally saying that yeah i'm asking you like well what's actually bias about it

01:20:21.940 i don't know i think if you also polled your general community about certain viewpoints they

01:20:27.440 probably lean more conservative than liberal so therefore they're probably going to align with

01:20:31.040 more natural body types than non-natural body types you mean just any random community anywhere

01:20:36.840 and whatever podcast specifically i mean if you want a female but the problem the problem with

01:20:41.820 that is that most men lean conservative period oops most women lean progressive most men lean

01:20:48.820 conservative now that's not saying that all women are progressives it's not saying all men are

01:20:52.460 conservatives just that most men lean more conservative center right most women lean center left

01:20:58.300 you see that in their voting pattern so wouldn't that be reflective you're saying it's more

01:21:01.980 conservative they'd like natural body type seems like you're making the case that men generally would

01:21:06.060 like a more natural body type right that's what they say yeah i mean it's not even clear to me

01:21:11.720 that liberal men would be more inclined to fake body types i i mean yeah well i agree hang on i agree

01:21:19.240 with that but her point was to say i think that because they they lean conservative therefore most

01:21:26.920 conservative men likely would would prefer to have natural body types but if we extend that logic out

01:21:32.500 it's like fair enough but if most men then lean conservative this would be most men with like

01:21:37.700 natural body types regardless of what uh liberal men do or don't like right yeah okay we have a chat

01:21:45.220 here from jason yo jason thank you man appreciate it jason castle donated 200 ladies listen to buff david

01:21:53.080 crowe is making sense changing what do you look like especially to the extreme is a mental illness

01:22:00.160 gentlemen not one step back not one step back man yeah that's literally what's screaming

01:22:07.040 yeah man um all right we're gonna move on to the uh next david bowie you don't know david oh my god

01:22:15.240 david bowie he is 24 rock god singer rock legend uh here we're gonna we have one chat here really

01:22:24.480 quick from lucas then we'll get into some more notes lucas you gals do realize that the woman who

01:22:29.340 we end up with becomes a reflection on our status both professionally and with our family of course i

01:22:34.620 married a woman with no tattoos silicone or any piercings we got a couple do we have a couple uh septum

01:22:42.820 piercings here we got sky with the septum piercing you got a septum piercing anybody else got the rock

01:22:49.060 and the septum tattoos though any tattoos i have a lot of tattoos a lot my ears are pierced

01:22:53.340 i actually with the tattoo thing really quickly since it came up uh i think a majority of men

01:23:00.880 i think uh for maybe even most men isn't maybe that's the same thing prefer no tattoos

01:23:07.880 that's probably true but i don't care i didn't know that like i think when it comes to i think

01:23:15.940 when it comes to tattoos on women like it's good for overall it's going to be neutral like there's

01:23:23.540 maybe some men who have like some sort of fetish or kink like that do like that thing or they like

01:23:29.000 the aesthetic majority of men though it's either going to be completely neutral or it's going to be

01:23:34.460 negative i think it depends on location so like if a woman has a butterfly tattoo or something stupid

01:23:41.480 like that that's covered up that nobody else has ever seen like yeah i don't think i don't think men

01:23:46.200 care about that but if they have a sleeve right it's instantly in the you're uh a trashy chick

01:23:51.740 category almost instantly if there's a sleeve or neck tattoo or you know stuff like that yeah you

01:23:58.500 instantly go in that category i i agree with you andrew it certainly is like the the degree to which

01:24:03.560 they're tatted up like if it's a little heart on their inner wrist i don't think most men are going

01:24:09.100 to care but again i think even then it's still neutral it's going to be neutral to them like i

01:24:14.920 don't think they're like oh i'm more attracted to her because because she has tattoos whereas i think

01:24:19.660 when there's far there's far more women who are going to be more attracted to a guy because he has

01:24:27.080 tattoos not all women some for some women it's neutral for some women it's negative but i think

01:24:32.120 you'll see on dating apps for example women are like oh i like a guy who's tatted up um you had

01:24:38.080 something on this um i feel like everyone definitely is going to have their own opinion about this but

01:24:42.660 in my personal opinion i see tattoos as art people make those they draw them you put them on your body

01:24:47.880 and i feel like they represent you uh i feel like a sleeve isn't trashy also tattoos are expensive i don't

01:24:54.600 think it's trashy to have a full piece i think i mean in my personal opinion i think it's awesome but

01:25:00.060 i also am biased i do have a lot of tattoos everyone in my family has tattoos everyone

01:25:04.600 that i hang out with has tattoos so did you have something yeah yeah i was gonna say like in the

01:25:08.980 adult film industry a lot of us uh like if our stuff didn't sell to men like some of us not

01:25:15.260 everybody but like some of the adult industry we like let's say you're a girl performer you're trying

01:25:21.060 to sell to men so like like i know girls that have tattoos they get them removed or they even tell us

01:25:26.980 the agents tell us not to get tattoos or we won't get work and they also just tell us yeah not to get

01:25:32.740 face piercings or we won't get work and then um you know they basically kind of tell us what to do

01:25:38.640 you know it's it's really interesting i can tie something together for you real quick that

01:25:43.980 might surprise you so when women unalive themselves when they when they do that uh they

01:25:50.060 almost never do it with anything regarding the face so even if they use like um you know like a

01:25:57.380 boom boom stick right i'm sorry i have to use youtube language for this um they'll actually do it in the

01:26:03.620 chest right they'll actually you know chest uh things like this they actually will almost rarely do

01:26:09.400 they do anything with their face and the reason is is because they want the presentation uh you know

01:26:16.120 at their funeral to be a certain way they want to be they want people to remember them a certain way

01:26:19.940 they want to be presented a certain way and uh this this actually correlates with body art the exact

01:26:26.100 same way right women generally don't want their faces tatted up they don't want that because um they

01:26:32.620 think that there's an expression there that other people see that they don't like right there's something

01:26:37.300 which is ingratiated there that they don't like so i think it is true that men associate this rightly so

01:26:43.040 because they would associate it with like way more outgoing way more social this and that and if

01:26:49.180 you're way more outgoing way more social generally they would associate that with promiscuity and so i

01:26:54.140 think that that's why that stereotype exists and i think it's a rightful stereotype to be honest with you

01:26:59.340 do you think that preferences have hindered modern dating so like for example i guess like writing

01:27:08.580 someone off over what i would argue are these superficial attributes that don't necessarily

01:27:12.940 contribute to their character always sometimes they do i know whatever but don't always contribute

01:27:17.640 to their character is causing people to not partner up as much and things look i don't i don't disagree

01:27:23.460 with you uh if what you're getting at is like you can be a completely head-to-toe tattoo-covered woman

01:27:29.820 and have a heart of gold and follow every form of christian ethics ever and uh you know keep your

01:27:35.320 chastity intact and have tons of virtue i'm not disputing that there's some women who could do

01:27:39.260 this what i am disputing is that most women who would do this are not that and so because of that

01:27:46.780 we're as pattern recognition machines human that's what human beings are we generally associate

01:27:52.380 behavior and patterns right that's what you were trained to do as a uh as a uh the psychiatrist right

01:27:58.580 you're you're literally diagnosing people based on behavioral patterns that's that's the only way you

01:28:04.460 could do it so that's the case what you're doing is you're categorizing behavioral patterns in order

01:28:08.560 to make a diagnosis but everybody does this all day long uh we categorize behavioral patterns in

01:28:13.480 people and if we see that most of the time women who have tattoos are skanks right then we generally

01:28:20.380 tend to stay away from skanks right that's that's that's that is a stereotype i agree and it may you

01:28:25.860 may think it's unfair but we don't categorize it that way for no reason but do you think it's helpful

01:28:30.620 to like immediately dismiss them and i'll use this in the context of dating apps so for example

01:28:34.800 on a dating app if someone has a tattoo you're like okay no i'm not even going to engage whereas

01:28:39.120 before there was a lot more third spaces or people just like bet at work and stuff like that like you

01:28:44.460 might not know the girl you had a crush on had a tattoo on her back but you liked her so you went

01:28:49.200 out with her and then you find that out later and it doesn't matter as much yeah the thing is is

01:28:53.220 like no i do i do think it's it's actually helpful to dismiss immediately based on that's why the

01:28:58.520 pattern's there so the whole thing is is you're recognizing patterns of behavior you're dismissing

01:29:03.300 people immediately based on those patterns it's a way for you uh to keep yourself protected right

01:29:08.940 that's i mean we all every human being on planet earth does this so i i do think it is actually very

01:29:14.740 helpful to be like oh that chick has a tribal face tattoo next right i think that that's perfectly

01:29:20.460 reasonable you have something i just don't i just don't agree i don't really have anything to add

01:29:26.900 on to it i mean i we could say this about men as well we're specifically talking about women here

01:29:31.980 i mean but we have a tatted up christian man virgin who's right here i don't think that exactly sorry

01:29:38.160 not and i'm not saying that in a bad way at all congrats i'm just saying that like i think you can't

01:29:43.660 say specifically women if you're like oh they're like this tattoos are like this and why is it not

01:29:48.740 correlated with well it's i well i think we can and here's here's how i can make the the argument and

01:29:54.740 i think it actually makes sense so i think um the characteristic of a man being very outgoing

01:30:00.520 uh being very charismatic means that he may be promiscuous but it's not really a sure thing it's

01:30:07.060 not really something which would just categorize him as being instantly in the domain of he's going

01:30:12.840 to sleep around for one thing they always have way less options than women no matter what anyway

01:30:16.700 with women though the categorization i think is much easier when women are more outgoing they tend to be

01:30:23.020 more promiscuous than when the reason there's no doubt about that okay so but if it's easier for

01:30:29.660 women to sleep with someone then wouldn't the men be the skanks because the men are there lined up not

01:30:35.800 the women it's harder for a man to sleep with a woman he can go up to a chick and ask her 50 times

01:30:41.900 but like as soon as like does do i making sense i'm sorry i kind of lost my train of thought

01:30:47.100 like if you're saying it makes sense sorry i kind of lost it but yeah i got confused i think i

01:30:52.700 understand what you're saying um i'm just not really sure what that would have to do with us

01:30:57.860 categorizing based on tattoos and face art and things like like even even like here i'll give you an

01:31:02.780 example even for men if men have face tattoos right generally that's a red flag for other men to stay

01:31:10.460 away from them they're like ah don't trust you know there's probably something wrong with you

01:31:14.880 you know we're gonna stay clear you're in a gang or something like that so even for other men that

01:31:19.020 would be a red flag and generally speaking they'd probably be right they'd probably be like okay

01:31:22.460 well wait guy who has tribal face tattoo probably staying away from you is a good idea and they

01:31:27.480 would probably be correct um okay question for andrew should women give bald men a chance then if

01:31:34.720 their preference is non-bald men they wait hold on i don't know what that would have to do

01:31:39.360 that's how i did he can fix that so like that's the same thing with the tattoos like

01:31:43.500 that's not really that important of a trait i guess wait wait hold on that so well what does

01:31:48.720 the man being bald tell you about him though that's the distinction so what we're talking

01:31:52.460 about i don't care about having children but if you did poor genetic what we're talking about is a

01:31:55.560 pattern being bald isn't always a choice a pattern which you can which shows behavior so women

01:32:01.280 women who are highly tatted up they're probably outgoing right they're probably way more open with

01:32:07.360 people and so likely they're more promiscuous there's like a good likelihood that that's true

01:32:11.900 so this is an inference that men make that and i think generally it's true it's not always true

01:32:17.420 but it's true enough what what does a man being bald tell you about his behavior though nothing it

01:32:23.040 doesn't tell you anything it tells you that he has bad genes that's all the type of guy that hits on me

01:32:27.940 it tells you he's good at fishing calm down calm down i'm almost done let me all you're saying

01:32:34.280 all you're saying is that based on my uh preference for attraction should i date men i'm not attracted

01:32:40.280 to and it's like no but i don't know what that has to do with anything we're talking about you're

01:32:45.440 saying that tattoos show either like a mental instability so if i as a woman i see a bald man

01:32:52.000 that tells me like bad genes so like that's the wait but hold on hold on hold on hold on just a

01:32:57.520 sec because you can fix that you're literally proving our point because your original argument

01:33:01.820 was whoa it's really bad like how superficial men are because we're talking about like how we're

01:33:08.400 going to disqualify women based on choices that they make but women constantly zero men out and

01:33:16.340 will not date men based off of like things totally out of their control you mentioned superficial oh it's

01:33:22.160 so superficial for a guy to not want to date a woman because she has tattoos women are like if you

01:33:28.540 think men are superficial women take superficiality to the fucking extreme hold on hold on because you

01:33:35.080 guys won't date a guy who's shorter than you you guys won't date a guy who's a certain height you

01:33:39.240 won't date a guy who's balding so by you bringing up this whole like oh well what about the balding

01:33:44.440 thing what are you what are you trying to argue that women like have a preference towards bald men

01:33:49.980 despite like full head of hair being more attractive no women prefer to date men who have a full head of

01:33:55.280 hair women prefer to date men who are tall women prefer to date men who are above average in the

01:34:01.360 bulge women disqualify women will wow will 100 disqualify a great guy if he's not a certain height

01:34:10.060 if he doesn't have a full head of hair if he's below average in the bulge whatever it is and all those

01:34:16.060 things i listed are completely out of men's control whereas the things we're talking about right now

01:34:20.800 when it comes to tattoos plastic surgery that's choices y'all make i agree and i think more women

01:34:26.420 should give more men with those traits they don't though they don't but they don't but that's what

01:34:30.160 i'm saying well who cares about should who cares about should okay but they don't why don't they

01:34:34.500 because most because they're superficial how about that yes most people are engaging on dating apps and

01:34:38.380 just swiping swiping swiping oh you think it's actually you think height is only a dating app thing

01:34:42.880 i think it depends on the age like if you're probably 18 to 24 yes women's preference for

01:34:50.880 tall men persists their entire life what are you talking about but women over the age of 24 25 that

01:34:57.380 aren't typically on dating apps as much you typically see them with a more wide range of looks i guess

01:35:02.740 or they're not as you know they're not as dismissive of explicit traits because you're more likely to

01:35:08.500 meet someone in real life and things like that i'll give you this so i think women as they get older

01:35:13.860 do tend to deprioritize a little bit uh physical appearance in men other things start to become a

01:35:21.640 bit more important status money uh personality so yeah sure when women are younger yeah they're

01:35:28.960 gonna prioritize like is this guy hot is this guy attractive but if you look at most people in like

01:35:33.920 married or coupled relationships the guy's not six foot and jacked and the woman doesn't look like

01:35:38.440 kim kardashian so that's what i'm saying is like that doesn't prevent a large amount of women for

01:35:44.800 having like a really strong preference for tall men yeah i mean they have that preference but i think

01:35:50.060 when they give those other men a chance they're surprised also men on average are taller than women

01:35:54.240 so yeah it's no surprise that yeah most relationships are you're gonna see like an average height woman

01:36:01.180 average high guy like i don't think most women explicitly care about six foot though i think they'd be

01:36:05.560 perfectly fine with like five eight five nine i mean you say five nine okay or even five seven

01:36:10.920 most you don't meet doesn't have any time hold on hold on put your put your mic back where it is

01:36:19.360 one thing with the microphones guys we've already placed them where they need to be don't move and

01:36:22.800 put it back uh so you mentioned like oh but on the dating apps but studies show the majority of

01:36:30.400 people meet on dating apps they meet online so like i don't do dating even even people even people

01:36:37.640 in their late 20s and 30s the majority of people are still me in fact i i almost think that dating apps

01:36:45.220 like it's super easy to meet people in college once you're out of college 21 22 then maybe you got work

01:36:51.800 but it's kind of frowned upon to like be dating people at work i actually think there's a greater

01:36:56.860 likelihood that people who are in their late 20s or 30s are gonna have to rely on social media

01:37:01.580 and dating apps because your social circle shrinks uh you don't have college you're not like in

01:37:07.180 college it's so easy to meet people do we have a fact checker because i'm curious wait so just to

01:37:11.140 be clear true wait do you think do you think yeah according to recent studies most people today meet

01:37:15.180 the romantic partners online through dating apps and websites making online dating the most prevalent

01:37:19.360 way couples connect in the current era the trend is particularly prominent among heterosexuals would you like

01:37:24.500 the study links this comes in from q research the findings from them this also comes in on the focus

01:37:30.140 for family they did a study on this uh there's a whole slew of studies about it in fact most of

01:37:36.220 which are kept track of by the dating apps themselves because well they want to charge you money so the

01:37:41.080 best way to do that is to link you with people who you get dates from so they keep uh they keep very

01:37:45.640 close tabs on that okay i actually would like to see that does it break it out break it up by age

01:37:51.400 rages it does yeah but i mean whether whether or not let i mean let's say even for a second it

01:37:59.360 didn't break it up by age rages like just just for the sake of it it's still most most people

01:38:04.460 romantically meet online now most like there's no that's that i mean that has to be the case right

01:38:11.400 because if you say i'm romantically involved and then you say where'd you meet him well i met him

01:38:15.040 online i mean it's pretty it's pretty easy thing to to keep track of right that's that's not exactly

01:38:20.180 hard data together i think there's a good demographic of people that have been in relationships

01:38:24.840 for a longer period of time than dating apps have been popular been around that can't really

01:38:30.780 participate in that study because they're already in a relationship and have been for like 10 plus

01:38:34.540 years why couldn't they participate in the study they would just say no i didn't meet my partner

01:38:38.040 on dating app well yeah but they're pulling the sample from a dating app so if you're not on the

01:38:41.940 dating app no they're not oh i thought that's what he said dating app no not you yeah i mean

01:38:46.780 they do pull from uh dating apps it is true that you could find some uh this data specifically from

01:38:53.280 dating apps but the studies aren't making the referent the dating app specifically wait andrew i mean one

01:38:58.300 question though uh because the study you cited it doesn't indicate that a hundred percent of people

01:39:05.400 are meeting on the dating apps if you were pooling from the dating apps wouldn't or wouldn't that number

01:39:12.740 be a hundred percent well that's what i was confused about at first because you're but

01:39:16.600 pulling people who are on the dating apps then everybody who was on a dating app or you would

01:39:21.780 would a hundred percent be meeting on the dating app of course yeah uh well i guess not it is possible

01:39:26.740 yeah external the dating app while you were using the dating app that's fair yeah but uh but the point

01:39:32.260 being is that no uh most people are meeting in fact even with friendships most friendships are now

01:39:38.200 developed online uh so i mean that's not really that shocking to me

01:39:42.760 yeah so yeah i just figured i you know i i thought it was fair if you ask for a source

01:39:50.180 you know that you get the source i would look at pew research i think that you would probably agree

01:39:54.840 that they're fairly accurate with their sourcing not perfect but fairly accurate i will look at that

01:40:00.540 okay okay uh let's see here did you have something on the tattoo thing or um no no i'm done oh okay

01:40:10.740 yeah i mean i can you remind me what your position was though on the tat the whole tattoo thing and

01:40:17.320 um i feel like i mean it's art i feel like tattoos don't define who you are at all um i mean you can put

01:40:27.480 them to represent you as your body i mean some people get tattoos they have no meaning it just

01:40:31.460 depends who you are as a person i feel like i feel like you can have a you can be covered in tattoos

01:40:36.400 and be the world's shittiest person but you could also be covered in tattoos and be the world's

01:40:40.560 nicest caring person i don't think it matters if you like getting tattooed you like having colors on

01:40:46.000 your body then you like it who cares is my personal view on that yeah i agree i think tattoo is tattoos

01:40:53.880 are art that's how i see them as well but at the same time i think that the tattoos that a woman has

01:41:01.560 i think brian brought it up placement but then also what the tattoo is i think it says a lot about them

01:41:09.440 as a person and i think in general girls that have gotten a lot of tattoos they tend to have a bit

01:41:18.660 more of a complicated past would you say that about men as well or no um yes i would say that about men

01:41:25.860 as well i think that guys that have a lot more tattoos tend to be yeah they tend to have a more

01:41:33.420 complicated history i can't argue with that uh exactly yes the men more cheat on me doesn't have

01:41:40.900 any tattoo wait you're saying the guys that cheat on you don't have no tattoos it's my ex and he don't

01:41:48.440 have even one and he cheated me three times in my face and plus say to me oh yes i do i love you

01:41:54.400 and we're not meeting the up datings so i don't know i think one of the really the uh this is one of the

01:42:02.380 real points about now indicating we are is for real try everyone to work out the traumatizers me the

01:42:12.440 first one yeah but this is the this is the old argument where you say look in general women like

01:42:18.480 taller men you go i don't like taller men it's like what is it that doesn't it's a non sequitur it

01:42:23.440 doesn't mean anything like just because you have a certain preference doesn't mean that that preference

01:42:28.740 meets up with the preferences of most women it just doesn't mean that you know what i mean and for

01:42:33.680 some reason some odd reason often when you're talking generalities with women and you say things

01:42:38.420 like women like taller men they'll say i don't like taller men less though that means anything if that

01:42:43.760 doesn't mean anything you know what i mean it's like if i said to you most women prefer men who have

01:42:49.520 blue eyes and you're like but i like men with brown eyes that doesn't tell us anything that's like

01:42:53.740 that goes nowhere it's a total non sequitur just means nothing you see what i'm saying like it just

01:43:00.480 that doesn't doesn't actually mean anything it doesn't actually engage with what we're talking about

01:43:05.560 do you guys have preferences in terms of height of men i know you said that you wouldn't date a guy

01:43:14.220 if he was shorter than six foot right yeah because i'm five foot 8.8 okay so you wouldn't date someone

01:43:21.400 that's five nine no absolutely not and also i feel like shorter guys tend to have like a smaller

01:43:28.860 like is that what you're trying to say yeah like i don't know how to say that i was trying to give you

01:43:36.820 the word yeah like they're usually like tall men usually are packing honestly from my experience

01:43:43.720 i have not had the best experience with taller men the shorter men i've been no like have been

01:43:50.380 shorter men are so sweet they're so sweet but for me personally i don't know if i'm just like a rare

01:43:55.620 i think she's she's referring to shorter men who have had bigger dicks sorry then the taller the

01:44:01.560 taller men that i've been with have been smaller see i've only so physically been with one guy

01:44:08.040 but like i've seen you know and like i know like heights like matching like aligning you know

01:44:16.200 that's what i thought i know like statistically taller guys are packing so like if i were to like

01:44:22.200 day i would be like okay too short like i would swipe if i was like in a jubilee video i'm i'm five

01:44:27.320 foot so if a guy isn't taller than me that's kind of weird in general like if anyone is shorter than me

01:44:33.920 you're short you know so i'd be fine with someone that's taller than me okay um i'm also five foot

01:44:41.440 so i don't think i'd go for anyone shorter than me but also if you're hot you're hot i don't have

01:44:45.800 preference you could be tall you could be like six five but you could also be like five five i don't

01:44:51.660 care as long as you're a little bit taller than me if you're hot you're hot that's my kind of take

01:44:56.140 on it gotcha okay you me do you have a preference um i mean i'm five one i can't date anyone

01:45:03.800 shorter than me man the five foot below guys are below that i'm like you have to be like medically

01:45:10.740 like there's not has to be something medically wrong if you're like shorter than us i feel like

01:45:14.240 you'd look like two inches shorter like you have to be like an actual midget you're shorter than me

01:45:18.700 to be shorter like than me so it's like they're not facing you you guys are not gonna lie five nine

01:45:25.860 five nine is kind of like my lowest yeah because yeah i mean i don't know you i wish to say this in

01:45:36.360 spanish but i have to say in english and i mean i don't know my preference is really higher about that

01:45:43.980 i i like it tall guys because i'm really sure they like five one so okay

01:45:50.680 all right that's cool i've dated guys shorter that's cool so wait here i'll just on the tattoo

01:45:56.840 thing and then we'll move it on um so i think the big thing again it depends like how many tattoos

01:46:01.940 but a lot of men are going to look at that men are attracted to purity in women yes sir i feel like

01:46:07.260 men are attracted to innocence yeah and i can understand that i mean with what i do for work i

01:46:13.160 haven't had any really bad like negative connotations about me having tattoos so personally i don't it

01:46:20.480 hasn't really affected me well just to be clear um if a woman has tattoos a lot of tattoos even

01:46:26.780 i don't think it's gonna preclude her from getting a boyfriend or getting sexual attention or romantic

01:46:34.700 attention from men even a lot of men yeah um but what i am saying is that i there's a subset of men

01:46:42.640 i don't know if it's a majority but there are men who are not gonna want to date you or other women

01:46:50.220 who have a lot of tattoos because of their tattoos yeah you probably don't you probably don't care i

01:46:55.040 mean everyone has a preference sure but we're just pointing out the reality that hey look for a lot of

01:47:00.160 men a woman who has a lot of tattoos could be a deal breaker for him could he could view it as a

01:47:05.080 negative i wouldn't say it's a lot of men but i would definitely say there is some well i so i think

01:47:11.000 men will there's some degree of toleration that's occurring okay there's some degree of like

01:47:15.940 tolerating that's there's some degree of tolerating that men are doing but i think

01:47:23.980 realistically like majority of men when it comes to tattoos it's going to be neutral

01:47:29.700 and then negative i think very few men are going to be like it's a positive

01:47:36.840 you agree can i say something yeah no i'm saying that i actually prefer go ahead go ahead i want to

01:47:44.560 say something so like a lot of like most of my friends are guys like all of them are and they

01:47:49.840 like girls best when they're just wearing like sweatpants and t-shirts and like and no makeup and

01:47:54.720 like messy hair and then but like us girls we like to like look nice and proper and and maybe so

01:48:00.220 maybe it's just a gender thing like maybe girls think that we have to have these kind of looks and

01:48:04.580 these kind of insecurity and things because that's what we're told by some something that's trying to

01:48:09.460 sell us something maybe they're trying to make money off of whatever sort of look they want to give us

01:48:14.940 and they're they're uh advertising something so maybe this kim kardashii's advertising a big butt

01:48:20.400 to maybe sponsor some of this injection stuff like what if that's kind of what's going on i don't know

01:48:27.980 it's just like we're told about what to believe so we should just believe what we want to believe

01:48:32.160 what we know is true well isn't that what was happening with you because you did say you worked

01:48:37.120 in the porn industry i work in the industry right now i was just at avn yes but you get told what to

01:48:41.820 do you can't have tattoos we don't get told what to do so you can decide what you want to do it's

01:48:47.020 always your choice okay but they recommend because earlier you were talking they say that you but i

01:48:52.540 know a lot of girls that have tattoos and they get work but it's it's just there's a bias in every

01:48:57.360 industry wait are you saying that uh there's like in your industry there's a preference for

01:49:03.240 no or minimal tattoos yeah like it's easier it's easier for women who are uh minimally or not tattooed

01:49:11.060 to get work yeah yeah definitely yeah sure we have a chat here from rebecca bridgman thank you

01:49:17.180 for the soup chat rebecca brian thank you for introducing me to andrew and rachel wilson i read

01:49:21.600 her book over christmas break and loved it i was married at 19 to my age gap husband we have three

01:49:27.500 kids and are celebrating 16 years society made me feel like i did everything wrong society lied

01:49:34.300 hey oh yeah becca thank you thank you for the uh soup chat rebecca guys if you want to get a soup chat

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01:50:39.840 gonna go to sky here sky you said that you ran away from home to live with your current boyfriend

01:50:44.560 you never told your family where you were going and you never came back okay so um i'm gonna give you

01:50:51.600 a little background so this is kind of a little bit explainable so i moved out i graduated a little

01:50:56.780 late like a little a little before i turned 19 about four months before i turned 19 um but i got kicked

01:51:02.620 out of my house uh in north carolina the day before my 18th birthday so i had moved to virginia and i went

01:51:10.800 and finished school online there um i had so i had met my current boyfriend online and we were talking

01:51:21.140 for about a month or two and he was just like hey come move down to florida and i at the time i felt

01:51:29.720 obligated or like i felt wrong for living because i was living with like a family friend but i felt like

01:51:35.240 there was an obligation and i felt like i didn't belong there like she shouldn't be taking care of

01:51:39.940 me i shouldn't be living in her house like i'm not her problem i'm not her daughter so i felt like kind of

01:51:44.860 not obligated to leave but i feel like it was my responsibility to be taking my care of myself at

01:51:49.440 that point and so i kind of i was just like yeah i'm gonna come back in like an hour and i packed up

01:51:56.180 my stuff and i kind of left and i was gone for like two weeks before i called them and i was like hey why

01:52:03.700 were you kicked out you said you got kicked out of your house why was that um my mom and me had a

01:52:09.560 really tough relationship my mom also had uh drug issues so it was it was normal i mean i was getting

01:52:17.100 i was couch hopping a lot she was kicking me in and out of the house so i mean once she kicked me out

01:52:22.860 when i the day before my 18th birthday i said i was like i'm not gonna do this anymore i was like i'm

01:52:27.080 an adult now and i can live and take care of myself so i what about dad uh my dad died when i was 12

01:52:33.520 my mom is also dead now she died four five months ago she is sorry to hear that i'm so sorry sorry

01:52:39.740 sorry to hear that um thank you for sharing thank you oh my goodness

01:52:45.860 uh let's see here for the rest of your notes that you have uh you said you did these are

01:52:55.300 disagreements that you have you uh said yes only that you disagree that only fans is immoral and not

01:53:03.440 good okay i feel like in a capitalistic society i don't feel like there is it's worse than any other

01:53:11.560 job if anyone in here has been a waitress or a waiter and yes yes no you're being paid like

01:53:18.400 like by your job for your body they wouldn't hire you if you didn't have the legs the limbs the arms

01:53:24.700 the be able to move the only difference between only fans and what a waitress is doing is that

01:53:30.360 i'm wearing less clothes and making more money you're just working for someone else and wearing

01:53:34.680 more clothes and i feel like there's you're being paid for your body regardless like if you're out

01:53:39.680 and you're waitressing like people are gonna tip you because if you look good you know like girls make

01:53:45.080 more tips than guys like they're sexualizing you already it's just i am hiding in my house behind

01:53:51.900 a screen and this is happening to people in real time and like like in their face does that make sense

01:53:57.640 yeah you're honestly safer i'm gonna have so um i'm gonna have uh brandon do you want do you have

01:54:02.360 a response on this or the way it was so wait you think waiters or and waitresses are i disagree

01:54:07.280 uh i would you say someone that does only fans is a prostitute yeah because the definition of a

01:54:13.560 prostitute is someone who pays is someone who has sex with someone for money to that person that does

01:54:19.100 only fans does not get paid to have sex with people yes some people that do only fans are

01:54:23.960 prostitutes i'm not one of them i do not include myself in that that is their own personal business

01:54:28.760 but the definition of a prostitute is getting paid for sexual how do you know the definition

01:54:33.000 of a prostitute is a person how do you know the definition of prostitute if you've never done it

01:54:40.200 stop stop for one second the definition of a prostitute is a person in particular a woman who engages in

01:54:45.680 sexual activity for payment not that they're having sex for payment sexual activity for payment now do you

01:54:52.240 want me to tell you why that has to be the case because if we were to use such a loose definition

01:54:57.120 as you gave for what is a prostitute we'd have to include all sorts of things which clearly are not

01:55:01.840 prostitutes but we would also have to include things which you would clearly say are prostitution

01:55:06.720 like for instance if a man paid you to go up into his room and masturbate in front of him uh while he

01:55:12.840 was uh masturbating reciprocally and you guys never touched each other you're saying that that's not

01:55:17.600 prostitution um i mean i would say with if it aligns with the definition of prostitution

01:55:26.480 and prostitution is prostitution no i'm just asking from your definition whatever you think it is

01:55:31.440 don't you agree that if a woman is paid to go up to a man's room and masturbate in front of him while

01:55:36.400 he masturbates reciprocally and then he pays her for doing that that that's prostitution yes i mean yes

01:55:42.800 it's in person hang on hang on it's in person i would say yes i don't what's the difference then

01:55:48.000 when you when you do it on a camera instead the that's the whole difference is that it's on a

01:55:52.080 camera not in person he's paying you he's paying you via virtual right yes virtually hang on he's

01:55:57.280 doing the exact same thing rather than handing you the cash for the same exact activity he's just

01:56:02.480 giving it to you through an online wallet it's the same exact thing it's literally the same thing

01:56:08.080 okay there's no difference at all okay so do you have do you have a problem with people calling you

01:56:14.240 that like if somebody were to call you that even if they weren't throwing it in your face um i mean

01:56:19.360 people i don't care honestly i don't give a fuck what people say people are going to have their own

01:56:23.040 opinions about me and what i do for a job and i'll have my own opinions about what i do for a job

01:56:27.120 everyone has their own moral compass and their own ideas of what's right and what's wrong for me if you

01:56:32.640 guys decide to sit here and call me a prostitute for what i do for a job it has nothing to do with me

01:56:37.040 because you guys aren't the one that's making me money well here let's get back let's get back to

01:56:41.600 the actual original disagreement that you had which was one sec i'm getting this pulled up uh

01:56:48.560 only fans being immoral and not good right so we're talking about definitions of prostitution um

01:56:56.160 do you think only fans is immoral i do think only fans is immoral but at the same time you know i'm

01:57:02.720 i'm really interested in you because it seems like you do have a moral compass in terms of you

01:57:10.000 wouldn't go so far as to be what you call a prostitute correct as in it sounds almost like

01:57:19.440 you think that prostitution is worse than what you're doing i mean i wouldn't say i mean personally

01:57:26.800 for me i would never do it but see that's my own personal opinion i personally think it's worse someone

01:57:31.120 that does prostitution might think only fans is worse it just really depends on the uc things

01:57:36.560 like for me i would never do that um i don't know about everyone else sometimes we don't have a choice

01:57:43.600 so just saying that putting that out there yeah sometimes we're not giving a choice and we set a

01:57:48.560 contract are you pro only fans because it gives the creators a choice i started out only fans but i

01:57:54.080 didn't end up there wait you said wait what i'm just trying to understand do you sign a contract like

01:57:58.400 people you start i started out in only fans and i didn't even do nude and then you know things

01:58:03.840 happen with people were lonely rooms and you start taking stuff off for people

01:58:09.840 isn't that st why uh why are you why are you crying because like you you don't always choose

01:58:19.040 what you do you end up there in certain ways you don't realize it until it's there

01:58:22.800 like sometimes you don't have a choice because you chose it no sometimes you end up on the internet

01:58:29.760 on sites without your consent that's what yeah i get that i get that bad things can happen but like

01:58:35.840 you did show you did choose to go into oh yeah and i very about to accept it but i don't i don't

01:58:40.960 encourage it i don't promote my only fans yeah no i get it but i don't understand what you're why

01:58:46.720 you're crying exactly because it's like trying for it's it's so materialistic like i i don't want to

01:58:54.880 hurt people so like i don't want my porn to hurt people so it's like i didn't look at like that

01:59:00.720 before how porn affects people and i didn't know like it can hurt people that i don't want to do it

01:59:06.400 anymore so then stop doing it well no if i stop doing it then i can't help uh the industry be do something

01:59:15.440 about it wait you have to do corn or you can't help the corn industry i don't matter what once

01:59:21.360 you do porn it's like you said it just said it's life that's life so you know you have to accept it

01:59:27.200 and do what you can but you don't think there's any chance for salvation you're always viewed as

01:59:33.360 something that you walk in a room you're bought well anyways and so when you say prostitute or whatever

01:59:39.120 like i'm just spit on it called prostitute and i don't know like i don't consider myself

01:59:44.720 prostitute i pay taxes how can you not be like you're engaging in sexual intercourse for money

01:59:49.840 like yeah but that's why i don't have a boyfriend and never agreed to you make sacrifices if you're

01:59:55.120 really into what you're doing you make sacrifices you agree that you're gonna be alone that's what

01:59:59.520 you choose you chose that you would take accountability for it but why would you cry about

02:00:04.400 it because it's it's hurt that's that like it is the case it is factually the case that you are

02:00:10.640 engaging it's hurtful yeah don't accept me okay why is it hurtful why do you do it then it's

02:00:15.360 hurtful because i made a choice when i make that choice unmake it just stop you can't you end up on

02:00:22.000 the floor after 15 shots under clothes and vomit that's what you end up yeah don't do that that

02:00:28.560 sounds awful stop doing that well maybe we should stop some of these people that cheat these girls into

02:00:34.000 that business and get them there it's traffic happening for sure i don't so clearly clearly

02:00:40.480 there's some kind of trauma that she's been through that that's why she's so emotional that's why she's

02:00:44.800 crying that's why i come in as a man as a manager and i keep weirdos from getting to girls and taking

02:00:51.760 advantage of them that's where i come in because i prevent that type of yeah oh i didn't even realize

02:00:56.480 i i i i on set on music videos there's guys that try to get girls drunk try to give them drugs but

02:01:03.760 not with not with only fans you don't like i've never been i've had men ask me i've had girls ask

02:01:08.800 me to manage their only fans i don't touch that shit you know why because that's not something i

02:01:13.120 want to be around she's clearly gone through some shit she's clearly gone through some drama if she's

02:01:19.280 if she's crying it's because she already hit that point where it gets ugly well forgive me if i don't

02:01:27.600 just believe every woman who cries because well i mean you need to read between the lines i can show

02:01:32.480 you proof i can show you evidence instantly believing you because the waterworks turns on but as you may

02:01:37.920 know after having talked to thousands upon thousands of women they also use waterworks for the purpose of

02:01:43.440 manipulation i'm not being mean i'm just asking her various questions about what it is she's upset

02:01:48.720 about also that don't need your help it's not necessary i can definitely have this conversation

02:01:54.320 so i'm just wondering like if we go back to it i don't actually understand what what it is that

02:01:59.680 you're trying to convey what you're upset about why this is a why this is such a triggering event to

02:02:04.160 discuss for you me yeah because it occupies every moment of your life you mean being there and you

02:02:15.440 can't do anything you can only that's how you're looked at you get that like i might take the car

02:02:21.920 to get my brakes fixed and they're like they quote me and they they charge me double and then they're

02:02:26.720 like because of what you do that's why we charge you double can i ask a question wait wait they charge

02:02:33.120 you double yeah that's why my brakes thought of myself and he had to burn it off the caliber it took

02:02:38.000 him extra time and then then the wife is like well because of what you do you can afford it

02:02:42.960 and this is my own small town that doesn't mean that you got charged double i did i paid i paid

02:02:49.920 double so because the wife made a joke that's not that doesn't know it said they charged me double

02:02:55.120 it was on the receipt and i have the receipt but this happened years ago so it doesn't matter

02:03:00.000 wait they charge they put on the receipt we're charging you double because you're in corn they told

02:03:04.640 me that in person though i have a question um this is genuine question i'm not trying to come at

02:03:10.560 you but like what is genuinely stopping you from if it's if it's like if it's if it's upsetting you

02:03:17.040 to be in the industry it doesn't oh well then you can't undo it what other choice do you have stopping

02:03:23.760 you because there are resources to like get out of it and there are ways to get out of it i don't have

02:03:29.920 it i know it's hard but like you haven't think i haven't done things no i went back to it because

02:03:35.040 that's why it powered me that so i'm asking you go back to it what specific but what specifically

02:03:40.480 like makes you go back to it because sometimes we don't have that straight to recognize what is the

02:03:48.000 real problem we have in the moment that is the point right now what is they talking about

02:03:53.520 what i'm saying i'm proud of my work in porn okay no but i'm saying is it like a financial thing is it

02:03:59.040 like no it's not financial i don't i don't even discuss rates anymore i don't even show up to

02:04:03.360 i don't know what i'm making right i go there because i will fall through with what i agree to

02:04:07.520 do so you can afford paying to pay double yeah i mean like it's like it's like okay i'm gonna sign

02:04:13.760 this uh contract okay that's for life and you dig a grave that is like well if you just walk away

02:04:18.720 you're gonna die now no just keep you have to keep going and you can maybe find a way through it and

02:04:23.280 maybe make that burden less to other people wait if you breach your contract they're gonna you're

02:04:27.680 you're in it for i'm not in a contract but i'm saying in life it's terms of like your life

02:04:33.200 right okay so once you do porn okay now you're a sex offender now you're this or that right so it's

02:04:38.240 like you know well you know because of all this stuff so um so what you're saying is i should stay

02:04:45.680 on a white and blue page i don't know what a white and blue page is only fans oh well that's somebody

02:04:51.520 else owns that so somebody else owns part of you so do you guys yeah you don't see it as a slippery

02:05:03.920 slope at all you think that i should be able to stick to what you're doing for the rest of your

02:05:08.640 life i mean like not for the rest of my life it's obviously it's not something i want to do forever

02:05:13.840 but i don't some of you guys are so i'm not i don't see it as she is if i'm uncomfortable with

02:05:20.000 something then i'm not gonna do it i'm comfortable with the level i'm at right now and respect that

02:05:25.760 see that's what i'm just a little confused some of us didn't have boundaries we didn't know things

02:05:29.440 right we end up in front of camera we're doing things to please our bosses and do what they want

02:05:33.680 us to do and then and that's not okay for them i understand what you're saying and that's not okay

02:05:38.480 for them to do let me do it over and over again i understand that i'm just asking like so maybe i

02:05:44.000 can help protect girls from getting into that world with those people it seems like what she's saying

02:05:50.400 is the issue is like having a good role model for women don't you guys think that that's true

02:06:00.400 like don't you think that somebody who's encouraging people not to go into this whether it's not

02:06:07.360 to go into it that far or just to even do things in general like that you guys are doing because

02:06:13.840 you i remember you mentioned earlier on the podcast like you were talking about nikki minaj and like

02:06:18.720 kim kardashian you you really look at these people as idols body-wise you have a lot of but

02:06:24.800 you have a lot of respect for like who they are as a person no i just like the way they look

02:06:31.440 very interesting okay okay so you you guys see them as like good female role models like if you

02:06:41.920 had daughters you would say i want you to go watch kim kardashian's life and replicate that yes i mean

02:06:50.400 she worked hard and she is where she's at right now don't you want your kids to have individuality

02:06:57.120 and make their own choice of right and wrong yeah of course and like i dropped my of when i was

02:07:05.440 actively still in high school in my small wait you were 18 though right yeah i was 18 okay like but

02:07:13.120 yeah yeah yeah i was 18 but like i've never ever done anything past my comfort zone and like so i

02:07:18.960 started getting like traction on social media when i was 15 and the of comments have always been there

02:07:24.000 since i was like 15 because i've always like kind of had like a chest so they were like oh like

02:07:30.320 yeah it's kind of like could be gross you know but they were like like it is kind of gross you know

02:07:35.040 they were like oh do a left do a left do a left excuse me that's fucking disgusting yeah

02:07:41.840 and i didn't even know what it was and i was like i'm not gonna do it did you have n okay yeah no i had

02:07:47.680 no clue what it was like i've always just been like la la la like super innocent like my body

02:07:52.960 counts literally one like i had no clue and then when i was 17 yeah you had no idea no no no like

02:07:58.640 word to my mother i did not know what it was no and then i was 17 and i was like in my math class

02:08:04.000 and i was like i have no clue like i'm not the smartest i was like i'm not gonna go to college

02:08:08.640 like what the hell am i gonna do with my life and i was like all these girls are making like a lot of

02:08:14.160 money what should i do my comments are saying this one thing what should i do so i did some research

02:08:19.840 and i was like you don't have to take it that far i can like stand my ground and i can do what i want

02:08:26.320 to do so like whenever like i like like we'll message these guys and if they'll like text me

02:08:32.560 and they'll be like hey i want you to do like this this and this and i will literally just be like i'm

02:08:36.640 not doing this that's just heartbreaking that's heartbreaking it sounds like social media like

02:08:44.720 destroyed you because if there were men telling you hey start an of start an of start an of on your

02:08:53.360 instagram and then you just like listened to what they had to say and you just went right into it i

02:09:00.320 got to get into some chats no no finish go ahead finish i thought you were yeah but like if you get

02:09:05.040 like a custom request you don't have to do it do you want to finish your point no i mean it's just

02:09:10.000 it's fascinating to me that you didn't you went from not even knowing what it was to being like okay

02:09:16.720 this is how i'm gonna make money like you don't see other routes of going about that i could have done

02:09:22.880 like tick tock shop does amazing but also an engineer i would like to chime in you could have

02:09:29.680 been but a rocket a brain surgeon or rocket yes but also like and you could still be yeah i could

02:09:37.360 she still could i could go back i've always wanted to be a lawyer i love arguing this though why don't

02:09:41.840 you become a lawyer guess what kim k years later did that why do you but you need money to do stuff

02:09:47.440 like that so i'm i don't have that money to do that i can build a business and you know a couple

02:09:52.160 years i do um i do have to move things on here a little bit kevin kevin alvarez says hello everyone

02:09:57.600 only fans porn and even social media needs to be banned it's corrupted our society both men and women

02:10:04.400 i'll be the first in line to admit it kevin thank you for the uh very generous super chat man

02:10:09.600 appreciate it thank you thank you

02:10:10.880 i did want to say sure go ahead uh to to the gentleman there like you don't you shouldn't

02:10:18.800 believe this like this is obvious right so the the uh women like this will do this all the time

02:10:23.680 they'll be like oh my god i was perfectly innocent i have an angelic halo it was over my head i was

02:10:28.560 born with cherub wings and then the evil men came and corrupted me oh my god it was awful like they're

02:10:34.720 full of shit bro full of shit she did oh i didn't know i had no idea then i looked into it went oh this

02:10:40.240 sounds like a great idea yeah nobody believes that shit nobody believes that shit no i seriously

02:10:46.320 didn't like no one even talks about it in ohio like everyone in my school doesn't even like they

02:10:52.240 did not think i was going to do it what did your parents think of it my parents they like fully

02:10:56.880 support it because i also have epilepsy so i can't drive i'm going what wait hold on yeah i'm going

02:11:02.960 i'm going to be 19 and i cannot drive a car hold on your parents support it because you have

02:11:09.600 epilepsy yes because listen what okay it's hard to work when my mom has epilepsy it's hard to work

02:11:15.680 you cannot work a certain job like my whole entire like i would have a seizure you cannot retain

02:11:20.960 information it wipes my memory away so like i have several help do you take medication yes daily what

02:11:27.120 are your other i can show you like my narcotics like if i were to have a seizure right now you would

02:11:30.800 put it in my nose i i put it in yeah my brother my brother i probably should have told you of this

02:11:35.840 if i were to have it my brother's an epileptic work as a mechanic literally welding doing things like

02:11:42.320 okay when was his last seizure can i ask you he has them all the time all the time wait so he's working

02:11:48.960 with heavy machinery can you drive yeah yeah that's not good my my bestie has seizures you know what

02:11:55.440 her license was just you shouldn't be driving yeah it's when you had your most recent one because

02:12:00.880 yeah are you gonna have a seizure on the show if you had a seizure would you just wake up and just

02:12:07.680 forget that you ever started an only fan do you fall forward or backwards no it really like i like fall

02:12:14.080 like do you slump yeah like i fall and i start shaking push the drink to the center guys i'm three

02:12:19.520 months seizure free i'm about to be able to drive you have to do like six months something trigger it

02:12:24.640 um it's like different like lack of sleep flashing lights it's like you get stress no i get like a

02:12:30.880 really bad headache and then like sometimes what are your other health issues you i have pots which is

02:12:36.080 that i got completely nerfed it's like a heart condition yeah so then i have also um oh my god

02:12:42.400 yeah pots is pretty horrible yeah yeah so i get super sleepy and then i have to take salt tablets

02:12:47.520 like i i'm completely nerfed so then also i have renowns which is an autoimmune disease

02:12:52.320 oh yes yes well most of these are autoimmune related right pots is generally autoimmune related

02:12:58.240 like uh isn't aren't most of these autoimmune related even even seizures that have been linked

02:13:02.640 autoimmune disease um epilepsy is like my brain pots is due to my heart andrew are you okay

02:13:09.440 andrew are you okay with a woman who has pots and rainos and and seizures do we give that's out of

02:13:17.920 do we give a bit of quarter i was also in a wheelchair in third grade to a woman look most

02:13:24.720 people who have these conditions manage them without taking their clothes off for money i'm sorry to be

02:13:29.440 the bearer of bad news here like i'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but almost everybody who has

02:13:34.240 these conditions doesn't have to take their clothes off for money i'm just pointing it just pointing it out

02:13:38.320 what's your question i have a question do your parents financially support you in any way like

02:13:42.080 no i actually like my little sister is seven years old and like i will do anything that i can for them

02:13:50.560 like so i bought her like a whole entire new summer wardrobe because like like my family's not like i

02:13:55.680 didn't come from like a lot you know so then also like for her seventh birthday i flew her out and like

02:14:00.560 a whole entire disney trip so like i do like as much as i can for them and i would like to give back

02:14:04.560 once i make the money i would like to buy them like a whole new home and like that's really like

02:14:08.640 my goal with because my understanding of oaf and like sex work in general is that like it's a last

02:14:14.160 resort like like like instead of i do have to move things on i do have to move things on lucas chair one

02:14:22.160 would you care to point to where i can find the epistemic moral grounding principles upon which you base

02:14:28.080 your claim that of is not a moral is in bible of anton lave this is for you i think and so where does

02:14:36.960 your moral compass stem from uh where everybody else's things i've been through personal experiences

02:14:45.440 i don't know day-to-day life that's great i did i answer that right i mean i don't think that's good

02:14:51.600 i think that's the most common answer uh i do have to move things on here going to scarlet let me get

02:14:58.800 your notes going here scarlet you uh hold on you're related to the president potis john adams yeah which

02:15:11.600 president he was like the second president he was the second president yeah you're related how did you

02:15:16.800 get like a it's my grandma on my grandma's side okay like up through the tree so very distant but i

02:15:24.640 just found it out this like like i found it out earlier but like i actually like had to confirm it

02:15:29.680 like today well like it was recently i had to confirm it i thought that was the funny fact because we

02:15:35.520 could all be related to each other who knows yeah we don't know i'm um i'm related to uh

02:15:41.280 who am i related to frederick douglas oh wow who's that well i'm yeah i'm related to frederick

02:15:51.040 douglas is that the black guy yeah it's the black guy oh wow yeah yeah i don't know who that is

02:15:58.240 probably didn't inherit anything from him crickets so anyways um you you in your notes scarlet you say

02:16:08.320 you've been in the industry for over three years now yeah and you're conservative yeah lol that's

02:16:14.640 that's what you wrote you wrote lol uh but you didn't decide that you were conservative until you

02:16:20.640 paid taxes yeah your first year based okay because i felt like nine months and i'm like

02:16:28.400 doing everything they're giving to me in front of me this is what you gotta do just a little closer to

02:16:32.800 the mic if you can can just scoot it to your uh to the left a little bit yeah so uh you you

02:16:39.360 got hit with a big tax bill oh yeah yeah that's like one third of what everything i made so then

02:16:45.040 i'm like why is it why why did i one year of my life define so much of who i am now or as far as

02:16:53.200 what other people see me as and um it takes one third it was not worth it then so then i figure out

02:17:00.000 how to do more business stuff gotta count it and learn how to do my own deductions yeah yeah my

02:17:05.600 deductions and my dad's conservative so he taught me how to do my taxes and see my mom's liberal and

02:17:10.720 she never she always let my dad do the taxes what just curious what does the typical like porn star

02:17:15.280 deduct from her so we have so i'm just pointing out that liberals can indeed do taxes with oh my mom

02:17:21.280 can but they don't care as much about paying them right well like they don't care about how much

02:17:25.360 they pay as much it seems like my mom would pay like 90 000 a year or something she she didn't

02:17:29.840 like what how much did i pay it's just like oh that's just what the the government your mom your

02:17:34.080 mom pays 90 000 a year in taxes well when she had an office she's an attorney oh she's a she used

02:17:38.960 to work for milton freeman though and and edward teller attorney but doesn't care how much she pays

02:17:44.160 in taxes well she does she she's an attorney for native americans like uh that she went into like

02:17:50.720 more human i think milton friedman the economist my mom went to stanford she worked at the hoover

02:17:56.320 institute and she worked for the uh guy uh edward teller who made the i think atomic bomb or the

02:18:01.840 hydrogen bomb and she she did a lot of she also worked in columbia and taught english to like

02:18:07.040 foreign what's your dad do he's a christmas tree farmer so i grew up with a a salesperson and like

02:18:13.040 an attorney was your mom the breadwinner um i guess you could say that but my dad was like

02:18:18.240 taken in because he didn't know how to use a phone by your mom so i got the yeah yeah my mom

02:18:24.000 my mom got him off the farm my dad lived on the farm until he was like in his 30s he lived in a

02:18:29.280 christmas he lives on his uh a farm with cows in wisconsin and then uh his christmas tree farm

02:18:35.120 with cows in wisconsin so there was an age gap between my mom and my attorney mother who works

02:18:39.680 for native americans your dad's older or younger my dad's a lot younger than wait so your your mom's a

02:18:44.560 cougar i don't how old were they see my mom had an interesting world wait so your mom hold on your

02:18:51.440 mom was how old when she met your dad uh she she had me when she's 48 so i think she was like in

02:18:56.720 her 40s so she met my dad my dad was in his early 30s maybe so damn but he never had a girlfriend so

02:19:02.240 he was like did she have other kids or were you the no just me and my sister and my sister was first

02:19:06.960 and then it was just how old was she my sister one year older than me so so she 46 for your sister

02:19:12.720 yeah 48 for you yeah and now they divorced and now my dad's marrying a girl i went to school

02:19:18.720 wait did you get like alimony my dad is like my dad is like uh my dad got the good looks and was

02:19:24.400 like my older brother and then my uh we played football and everything and that he so it's like

02:19:28.800 oh the dad dad is always the one that's like so my mom wouldn't sign my ballot because i voted for

02:19:34.000 trump and then my dad i just called my dad oh come on over here without we go go out eat like my dad

02:19:39.280 always gave us the soda when we were kids and my mom's like nope you eat bread and peanut butter

02:19:44.000 sandwiches like with the sun butter sunflower butter and i got teased for that ballot what

02:19:49.680 does that mean my voting ballot and i put it in the wrong box you need to sign your voting ballot

02:19:55.040 because they i did an absentee vote so it says you have to have a witness your mom have like power of

02:19:59.600 attorney or something or oh what does that mean like is she your concern do you have a conservator

02:20:06.720 i wish but like i i actually am very financially responsible like i'm looking at buying like

02:20:12.880 some uh property right now in wisconsin like that's in madison madison's like a growing like

02:20:18.560 the the real estate there's actually pretty pricey you know booming and on the water wisconsin you know

02:20:23.920 we got an isthmus and then we tore down the blue wall and then we got a capital it's so pretty it's

02:20:29.120 like right outside my door the capital's so pretty i love it oh yeah too many labels other than that

02:20:36.720 let's go i mean what's the blue wall is that like a political well you know see i i would go home and

02:20:42.560 i would get my mail when i come back and uh during the uh the voting stuff like it would all be

02:20:48.240 kamal harris it's like they went through and got all the trump mail took it out and all of it would be

02:20:52.160 like it's like i don't know why why but then it's just because did you vote biden in 2020 so i did but

02:20:59.760 i felt like i was brainwashed we only had one choice yeah and i went there in person and voted

02:21:03.920 and they're over there looking over my shoulder like you know and then everybody's like it was

02:21:08.560 like bye it is like i'm like because i went to a trump rally when i was like 15 and when he first ran

02:21:14.320 and i went in like wisconsin and he's talking about waterboarding and stuff and it was fun it was

02:21:19.280 exciting do you do cheese races in wisconsin well we so there are people that call themselves cheese

02:21:23.920 heads and there's a green bay packers and an ice bowl and stuff but like uh i don't know i try not

02:21:28.960 to eat a ton of cheese because uh i used i used to eat like chocolate cheese box of fruit loops that

02:21:36.400 i've ever seen i know now you're like she's on something do you want to wear this do you want to wear

02:21:40.960 oh i have one i have one of my i have one of my suitcase outside put it on oh wait you have mine

02:21:46.400 says make america uh sell something else again slutty again no hard again oh okay my bad

02:21:53.200 i like this though i have it i would go like with it mine you'd lick it mine was a gift oh okay all

02:21:59.680 right i guess she doesn't want to no i know i don't want to put any shame on it right now

02:22:03.920 all right i'm not trying to shame trump so you voted for trump in 2024 then yeah of course you

02:22:10.880 said you're maga trump you're maga trump yeah yeah yeah maga trump

02:22:19.280 heart are you related to any other presidents i don't like abraham lincoln or anything uh i have

02:22:24.880 a shared birthday with him but i don't think that we're related to obama holy now no okay my grandma

02:22:31.840 wouldn't know because she didn't like obama she'd always fight with my dad about bomb and

02:22:35.040 then my mom would come home she'd be like what is this going on here because my mom would always

02:22:38.480 cut it make them cut it out which isn't fair because my mom should let people express themselves

02:22:43.760 like my dad had to be this conservative that couldn't vote then i guess since since we're on

02:22:49.440 the topic of politics um who did you just ask i don't know do you guys want to say who you guys voted

02:22:58.400 for and wait really quick actually before we do i need to uh let this come through rsv4 meat rocket

02:23:06.000 donated 200 to the girl with the autoimmune conditions it may be worth your time to look

02:23:12.480 into the carnivore diet which ameliorates or eliminates many autoimmune related conditions

02:23:17.840 including epilepsy yeah you should you should do the carnivore i actually hate red meat i only eat

02:23:23.520 like chicken caesar salads you only eat chicken caesar salads yeah that's like you could just try

02:23:28.400 playing keto two times a day see they had me on like a keto diet when i first had like really bad

02:23:35.600 epilepsy like in my eighth grade year i think i tried the keto diet but it made my seizures worse

02:23:42.080 really yeah okay good times but i love avocado all right that's that's cool

02:23:49.360 um uh oh going around the table um would you date a guy who voted for donald trump

02:23:59.440 both years like i don't know why that matters but uh yeah you did it okay would you date a trump

02:24:05.440 supporter not very political uh it depends how he views me because i feel like he's like he's republican

02:24:13.600 but he's fine with you he's cool with me being a strumpet a what a strumpet it's a polite term for

02:24:19.760 like a sex worker oh it's polite it's not it's not rude it's like polite cool yeah strumpet strumpet i

02:24:27.040 prefer a harlot myself he's andrew's more of a harlot guy which i find more offensive that's why i use

02:24:33.360 the term strumpet which is kind of neutral thanks um so he's fine with you being a

02:24:39.760 i'd like to his personality counts way more okay so the politics doesn't matter

02:24:47.760 is it it's not a deal breaker then okay as long as he's fine with the plastic surgery if we're

02:24:53.680 compatible you're compatible yeah okay what if he wanted to wear a maga hat while taking your virginity

02:25:01.280 oh wow that's crazy wearing a hat while taking your virginity is just one thing in general any hat

02:25:14.000 any hat would be a problem what if it's like a yarmulke is that okay like he's orthodox he's like

02:25:21.920 i'm an atheist i think that wouldn't be very compatible okay

02:25:25.200 um what kind of hats would be acceptable to wear none you should be fully go back to dominica republic

02:25:36.880 okay um would you date a trump supporter yeah you voted did you vote for trump well she brought

02:25:44.800 trump coin yeah but i actually didn't vote this was my first year being able to vote but you didn't vote

02:25:50.800 yeah because i had the most consequential election i know but i had just moved to miami and i didn't

02:25:55.600 even know where i went like where i would go to vote so i didn't would you date a trump supporter

02:26:00.480 like let's say you and your boyfriend break up and what do you did well he is one and so it doesn't

02:26:05.200 matter there you go all right uh scarlet yeah i am a trump supporter there you go all right but also i

02:26:10.640 know it's conservatives also they're more decided so like whenever you're doing like uh you know like i

02:26:16.400 like in the room with them they're like they're already hard so it's like not a problem i will

02:26:21.120 say i don't agree with everything trump's doing right now but that tax-free overtime you know liberals

02:26:25.520 kind of go a little bit limp sometimes he brought back wait liberal liberal men have a wreck that's

02:26:32.960 our joke that's our little joke in the inside world conservative liberal is a little bit undecided

02:26:39.120 limp unfortunately sorry i like my liberal guys out there you guys are nice

02:26:42.640 nice that's good data all right uh what about you uh my ex is actually my recent ex is a die-hard

02:26:50.480 persian trump supporter okay sweet what about you uh trump is so happy about latina so i love trump

02:26:59.120 okay all right would you say the trump's pretty happy about it no he's happy to take him out

02:27:06.480 i'm sorry i have to for sure maybe getting married with the man who cheated me for three times but it

02:27:13.760 is what it is no no everyone has that type of shoes to say okay yes i don't want to be deported whatever

02:27:20.640 so you have to shoot what do you have wait three times yeah you got cheated on three times yes three

02:27:26.080 times and the three times i fall i found him you call him i found him yeah oh she found out i found

02:27:34.880 out that one should stay because sometimes you don't love yourself enough and you don't have the right

02:27:42.320 way to take it away from that person was he a spaniard the guy no no he is white a white spaniard

02:27:49.920 no no he is white he is american yes hello my amour how are you he probably watched this for sure

02:27:57.440 what about you would you date a trump supporter it just like really depends like are they like

02:28:01.200 pushy with like oh like fuck you if you don't believe in trump blah blah blah blah blah it just

02:28:06.000 like really depends like how there's like a scale i think like if you believe in trump and that's it

02:28:12.400 you just leave it at your opinion that's fine cool but if you're like trying to push i don't

02:28:17.280 understand so you're saying it would be a bad dating tactic for me to be like okay all i need

02:28:21.680 you to do is get on your knees and swear allegiance to god emperor trump for the rest of your life like

02:28:25.520 what's what's actually wrong with that that seems totally reasonable no just not aggressive at all

02:28:31.040 i'm to get on your knees yeah you should have carpet burn at this point if you're really loyal you

02:28:36.400 should have carpet burn oh no i just think they should just let you believe in your political opinion

02:28:41.680 that's not like you took that one step further but anyway anyway go ahead um i should believe in

02:28:48.880 my political opinion you should believe in yours and if they're different that's cool whatever but

02:28:52.560 just like leave it at that like it should yeah but he's the man so his political opinion is the one

02:28:56.640 that's right right no no come on i mean uh i mean come on come on you come on andrew why would that

02:29:04.800 make sense why would that make sense so i do these of course it makes sense make it make sense so i do

02:29:11.840 these rush week things i mean i can actually make it make sense okay do it a fraternity boys will hire

02:29:17.440 me to like whip them all women ran on and i wore a trump hat uh this year that's it uh what about you

02:29:26.640 sure i don't care okay do you have a preference like would you prefer to date a kamala voter

02:29:32.560 um i'm i'm a moderate so i prefer someone who's like kind of centrist like if they were too much

02:29:40.400 of anything it would turn me off who did you vote for i didn't vote oh oh okay okay uh we have a chat

02:29:48.400 here from ash uh wait we'll get to that in a sec we have bryant goodwin yo thank you for the hundred

02:29:53.440 dollar empty super chat really appreciate your patronage reminder guys uh you can do stream labs

02:29:59.760 you can do soup chats although stream labs does get a bit of priority 100 and up to read we do

02:30:04.720 those reads at intervals and then 200 and up is a tts text to speech message kevin albanez for 100 chat

02:30:11.600 everyone on the panel i've had an addiction with uh corn since i was 11 i'm 31 now 20 years i have

02:30:18.080 given myself to this disease trust me porn only fans or sex work it's not the answer i agree because

02:30:25.200 see ethically like now being important three years i'm not i i don't the money isn't what matters i

02:30:31.920 care about the people so it's kind of like i see how it affects people that i know and then that hurts

02:30:38.080 me and i i don't it hurts because it's like you know what can i do as a performer to help some of these

02:30:44.960 people that are dealing with these addictions because if i just quit if i just quit though somebody

02:30:48.880 else is going to do it though it's like drugs if you if you know you know somebody else is

02:30:53.360 going to do it hang on if i quit like look as a performer is there something we can do to change

02:30:58.240 hang on let me ask you a question if i quit murdering does that mean that i shouldn't because then other

02:31:02.640 people will start murdering in my stead well it doesn't make you a good person to quit

02:31:08.560 it doesn't make me a good it makes you a good person to change change and stay identifying with who

02:31:14.240 you are i have 100 percent confidence so it's like if let's say a better person to stop murdering

02:31:18.800 today so let's say you're murdering and then but then you're just going to erase your life and start

02:31:22.800 out as a new person and be like i'm in a new person i'm a new good person that i'm not you that

02:31:29.120 you're comparing murder to beating it those are two these aren't even on the same level of like

02:31:34.800 fucked upness and also it depends on the person if you do let's say you do a line of something one

02:31:40.400 time that doesn't masturbation no no but i think porn doesn't make me a bad person i don't

02:31:46.000 i don't think you're the best because i don't want the money yes masturbation and not calling

02:31:51.680 the people making you in so she says it's better to masturbate than send that text yes well after

02:32:00.960 hearing that super chat do you guys think that in any way or do you do you think that you're a genuine

02:32:09.600 positive influence on the people that pay you money i wouldn't okay uh like i was just trying

02:32:14.400 to say i feel like it depends on the person if you do one line of something one time like if it was

02:32:19.200 a drug that doesn't make you a drug addict you become a drug addict yourself you keep it's your

02:32:23.520 own decision to keep beating it keep taking a line like if you become a drug addict drug addict

02:32:29.360 that's on you like i personally believe i've been an addict myself so i feel like i can say this

02:32:34.560 i don't think that it's on the supplier the whatever because if someone has let's say like

02:32:41.440 this juice box is in front of me i don't have to and she's like hey you want to send my juice box

02:32:45.840 i don't have to be like yes it's my decision to say yes or no i get my own choice if men decide that

02:32:51.120 they want to continuously and build up a habit to what they're doing do i feel bad for them yes if i'm

02:32:57.520 i'm gonna change my way because is it is it my like decision do you have any want this guess this

02:33:04.720 goes for most of you do you have any want to put something out into the world that's like good and

02:33:10.960 fruitful and almost be able to say hey i'm really i'm not just keeping this person here i'm actually

02:33:17.920 elevating this person to a better life just overall improving their life they would come to you and say

02:33:25.760 you've changed i've been told i save many people's lives i noticed these conversations we're

02:33:30.480 constantly pointing the finger on supply and demand like they should not consume it or you

02:33:34.240 should not make it when we need to be the change ourselves so if we don't like a certain you know

02:33:39.120 like porn for example like don't watch it and don't make it either like we're always constantly

02:33:43.920 pointing the finger but we the change starts with us like be the change you want to see

02:33:48.240 well i know it sounds like flying man this is a really good point right like which

02:33:53.280 which thing do you think is easier to choke off a hundred thousand drug addicts or a hundred

02:33:57.360 pushers of drugs which thing you think is easier to manage obviously the pushers are easier to

02:34:01.440 manage because there's less of them that's why we point at the pusher that's supply and demand

02:34:05.760 right you can't have demand without supply if there's very few suppliers you can manage suppliers

02:34:10.240 if you have tons and tons of addicts though it's very difficult to do to manage that that's why we

02:34:14.880 go that's why you go after the source yeah stop watching porn it's irrefutable with that

02:34:19.280 from fan porn would you guys i do have to we've been talking about the of porn stuff for a while

02:34:25.600 now so i do have to move it on we have a message coming in from ashy here as she donated two hundred

02:34:31.760 dollars brian and andrew is it not obvious that chair number five is clearly on some form of drugs

02:34:38.960 common in the corn industry she's absolutely broken please do something to change your life

02:34:45.200 making no one proud okay yeah i hear this over and over again and it's just like is it because i'm

02:34:51.440 skinny and white and like um a little bit like real in my emotions and i'm not so held back like i can

02:35:00.560 express myself because i've been through stuff and i can feel it and i can feel the pain and i heal the

02:35:06.080 trauma i feel it and i know it and you're doing some drugs me no no because i think that if you can cry

02:35:13.200 it's because you're feeling pain if you're doing drugs maybe you're a little bit numb aren't you

02:35:19.120 i mean i don't want to be sometimes drugs make people more expressive

02:35:23.040 do you want me to go take a drug test now and i'll mail you the results yes because i'll do that

02:35:26.880 yeah just for you yeah just like a little bit i don't want to be a pick me but i think i'm skinny

02:35:32.240 and white also and i don't think anyone would think i mean didn't you say you have like i think you're

02:35:37.120 you're on epilepsy you're on you're on it's like it's like this comes up every time you guys call

02:35:42.000 me ever like a porn star is on anything and we get singled out it's like oh we're the drug addict

02:35:46.720 where it's like i mean i don't know if it's about that but i'm from wisconsin like i didn't grow up

02:35:52.880 like doing anything that's not who i am so it's like yeah be offended if that's what you think go

02:36:01.040 think whatever the you want well i don't know you you sound pretty offended not not me i don't i don't

02:36:07.520 i don't feel very offended right now because you just sit there like laughing and like do whatever

02:36:11.360 the hell you want does does that is that what offended people do they laugh i'm laughing at you

02:36:19.200 yeah i know but i just don't understand how you're telling other people to not be offended when it seems

02:36:23.200 like you're the one who's offended you're offended at me because obviously that's why you're criticizing me

02:36:28.240 if you had like other things to do with your life you wouldn't be poking out every little little bit

02:36:32.000 of bias like oh that's what i don't like about them that's what i don't like well be offended if you

02:36:36.480 don't like that about me if you want to make a judgment be offended about it i mean you're the one

02:36:42.080 who sounds very offended right now i don't i'm not me you sound very offended i feel like we were

02:36:48.320 having a pretty productive conversation i don't feel like that i feel like this is stupid very offended

02:36:52.800 i don't know you seem you seem very upset yeah you seem like you're just having like so much fun

02:37:00.720 over there smoking your little cigarettes we're having clear air here it's a filtered air i always

02:37:06.960 i always know when i'm getting owned uh on this show when somebody says i get owned all the time

02:37:11.920 and guess what i embrace it but andrew you smoke though you remember that like the fact that you smoke

02:37:17.040 means everything smokey man you're on a drug right now smoky smokey mad evil evil

02:37:23.280 marlboro red smoking man just jerry donated two hundred dollars yo thank you i have to know what

02:37:28.320 recreational's chair five is on lot of bathroom breaks it's sex you might have missing spoons

02:37:35.040 welcome back brian no that wasn't a bathroom break i wanted to leave i was actually outside getting ready

02:37:39.680 to leave but they have my phone so i mean did somebody tell you to calm down no i just got up and left out of

02:37:46.640 my own choice oh usually women run out because somebody told them to calm down no one told me

02:37:51.600 shit oh okay but yeah i've been told shit all before and i listen calm down hey calm down we're just

02:37:58.400 gonna keep going good talk good talk okay back to the the notes here sky we need to finish yours uh

02:38:08.000 you said anyone i'm sorry guys i don't want to be i don't want to be mean to you

02:38:12.960 i'm not like that okay that's all good all right moving on i honestly just like like people and i'm

02:38:17.280 sorry i don't want to be mean to you why am i fighting with people

02:38:22.320 yes can what does your shirt say be offended

02:38:26.160 so maybe like that's just i feel like anything anybody says about anybody because i thought

02:38:34.080 maybe i'll just cover up my tits if i'm my body's offensive if what i sell for a life

02:38:38.640 is put your shirt down put your shirt down bro i'm covered up

02:38:56.160 okay all right so going to your notes sky you said you wanted to speak on uh 50 50 rules in

02:39:20.640 the relationship what do you mean by that um i see it be brought up in this podcast a lot um and

02:39:26.160 i see there's like a lot of debate about it uh for modern times i think i love going 50 50 if i'm

02:39:32.320 being honest i think every i think it should be more like for first date it really depends i feel like

02:39:40.800 on whatever who asked who out first but i feel like i feel like in a committed relationship like i

02:39:46.400 am with my boyfriend now we do 50 50 on everything well not everything so in your situation is it you

02:39:53.840 and your boyfriend that do of or is it just you um it's i only do solo it's me he is like he's my

02:39:58.800 manager so he like okay so you pay him technically because he manages well yes yes

02:40:07.120 it's both of your guys's money i mean i would consider it that because he's helped me get to

02:40:11.760 like where i'm at technically it's my it's going into yes it's going into my account with my name

02:40:15.920 on it my bank account but like i would consider it like we both earned the money because he's

02:40:21.120 helped me get to where how would you feel if a guy took you out for a period of time and just

02:40:27.680 refused to let you pay for anything would you see that as a positive or would you see that as a

02:40:32.560 negative i wouldn't be like well until my current relationship i was the provider in my real in my

02:40:39.680 previous relationships like none of my exes had a job or like anything i came from like a really

02:40:45.360 small run downtown there was like two options so i mean before i was always a provider i wouldn't

02:40:52.000 say it'd be a deal breaker for me if he didn't ever let me pay i mean obviously it'd be a bonus because

02:40:56.240 i'd be able to put more money into my account but like it would be a little weird for me i feel

02:41:00.560 uncomfortable i'd be like let me get you something or like you know like let me buy you dinner like

02:41:05.120 it's nice i feel like to treat someone as well as how they treat you kind of what if a guy said he

02:41:10.320 wanted you to pay for everything if he wanted me to pay for everything like everything everything

02:41:16.800 i don't know if i could do that i mean i wouldn't expect a man to pay for everything for me so i don't

02:41:21.600 know why he would expect me to pay everything for him sure uh you said that you love modern dating

02:41:26.080 except the expectations what do you mean by that um the expectations of modern dating i feel like

02:41:33.120 i was social media kind of what we're talking about earlier it's really hard i feel like

02:41:39.600 there's like expectations to look a certain way or to be a certain standard and i mean it kind of

02:41:43.760 depends on like who that person is and what expectations they have but yeah sorry i kind of lost my

02:41:54.960 ideas there i saw on your tick tock something about you posted something about blonde house now you're hot

02:42:00.720 what are you hot now yeah i'm having flashes okay that's fine you said um you said that something

02:42:08.240 on tick tock about a blonde house what's that oh um so you know the bop house there's a okay there's

02:42:14.960 a version of like the bop house but it's the blonde house i was just kind of calling i i was talking about

02:42:20.240 them because they lie about their age for like content purposes and i think it's disturbing they make

02:42:25.760 themselves older younger she's like just turned 18 last month and homegirl's 22 and i think it's

02:42:32.880 super inappropriate especially if you're like sexualizing a younger age or like you're putting

02:42:40.320 out there you're pretending to be certain age to like pull in certain people i think it's a little

02:42:45.280 wrong in my opinion i mean but none of them are claiming to be under age no they're claiming to be

02:42:52.320 they're like yeah she's like i freshly just turned 18 like a month ago but she's actually 22. she's

02:42:57.760 22 but she's like years i just turned 18 i just started my only fans and it's called it's called the

02:43:03.040 blonde house uh yeah it's yeah it's like another version you said also i saw another tick tock of

02:43:08.160 yours distracting him from the fact that uh i completely lack empathy and don't understand human

02:43:13.680 emotions uh i have i pick up really bad social cues uh like i said my house that i grew up in wasn't

02:43:20.080 like a normal household and i've developed like you know issues from that mentally so it's really hard

02:43:27.760 for me to like pick up like social cues and i can't understand someone else's emotions like if someone

02:43:33.680 tells me like a really like a deep emotional story i can't understand it like does that like i can't

02:43:40.720 understand it on their personal level like to me it's just because you didn't experience it

02:43:45.680 yes i would i would say yes i just can't i'm not really good with emotional uh connection or

02:43:54.000 emotional knowledge or so like do you have maybe like uh borderline personality disorder or something

02:44:02.080 like this um i went i would i went to a site like i got diagnosed when i was 15 with uh a couple of

02:44:10.640 things but i only went to my therapist like twice and then i stopped going because i don't believe in

02:44:16.480 like taking what did they diagnose you with uh at the time like i said i only went twice they diagnosed

02:44:22.480 me with uh severe anxiety and depression and uh uh i think that yeah that was it that's all they

02:44:31.360 but they gave me like anti-psychotic meds and like a bunch of weird stuff it was not the meds that they

02:44:36.320 gave me didn't match up with the like the stuff the diagnosis that they gave me so i i also stopped

02:44:43.680 taking my meds because i just feel like taking meds every day to 15 to try to fix yourself is not

02:44:50.640 great and it kind of led me into a bad situation uh because i didn't i was i wasn't moderating myself

02:44:57.760 and i wasn't having anyone watching me and i kind of that up on my for myself so i try to stay away from

02:45:04.720 like going i haven't been to a therapist since because i don't want to like go get a diagnosis

02:45:10.320 and then like have them be like you should take this pill or you should do this and kind of thing you

02:45:15.760 know okay uh let's see what the other notes are one sec i'm getting it back pulled up oh and no i think

02:45:26.720 that's it so you lack empathy basically yeah okay i just yeah all right let me get into my other notes

02:45:32.800 here why don't we do bellyn is that bella bella okay i'm just going off your ig thing uh you said

02:45:38.960 you want to talk about a very funny and particular relationship that you've had in recent years

02:45:43.040 it was always an open relationship with a lot of passion and loyalty above all that person is

02:45:49.120 oh me oh okay that's you yeah okay i don't know i don't know i must have got my

02:45:56.800 shit mixed up this is so cute so repeat again please so okay you were in an open relationship

02:46:02.880 i was yes i was so you were like having sex with other men uh i mean when i was in that open

02:46:08.720 relationship i finding my boyfriend you know and that time and when i find my boyfriend i decide to

02:46:16.240 be with my boyfriend and the other direction she is still opening that is the why too i give it to him

02:46:22.640 my one of my best friends and they start to be together but in the time when they was together

02:46:30.000 she take it so personal i don't know she's insecurity ungrateful and she doesn't know handle the

02:46:38.800 situation because she getting jealous and everything like that but we broke out we don't have anything

02:46:45.680 no more because i decide to be with my boyfriend who cheated me three times so i don't have open

02:46:51.120 relationship i don't have no boyfriend and i don't know what will be happening with me but um i still

02:46:59.600 believing in love i still believing in the people for real one day when to be engaged and yes why not

02:47:07.440 i work out a lot about my insecurities my truck my my time when i was alone and everything why not

02:47:17.360 i still believe in love and god and all the beautiful things can happen uh going to bella here

02:47:23.760 bella you said you're bella right yeah are you you're what wait what she's evelyn evelyn i'm bella

02:47:31.520 you're okay all right you said you dated that you told us a little bit about this you dated a man who

02:47:35.920 fell in love with you at 20 but had to flee to mexico to avoid doing life in prison or you didn't tell

02:47:40.560 us about him that's a different guy huh wait so you fell in love with a guy when you were 20 yes or

02:47:47.760 was he 20 i met him at 18 and i kind of like i never really had like a full relationship with him

02:47:56.880 but when i was 20 he this guy has been in love with me still to this day like he'll message me on

02:48:02.240 whatsapp and he'll be like when are you coming to mexico like he was a very heavy person so um he

02:48:10.320 got his house one of his houses he had multiple houses one in santa rosa one in vegas and uh his

02:48:17.680 house in vegas got raided and he was gonna do life and so he was like flee to mexico with me and i had

02:48:26.960 the choice to give up you know working and doing what i do now uh and i could just be living off of

02:48:35.680 him in mexico like freaking what was he uh do life for what yeah what was he arrested for

02:48:43.200 pharmaceutical things okay selling drugs yeah was it was he uh like gang affiliated no well i don't i

02:48:50.960 don't know i see i don't know that far into his thing he would always protect me from knowing further

02:48:57.040 into what he was doing i just know he was a heavy hitter and um what do you mean heavy hitter he was

02:49:03.040 like he was a top guy of the fucking oh so he's he's in the game he was he was running the whole

02:49:09.200 circus i drove yeah i don't pretty much yeah because the united states and mexico have extradition

02:49:15.200 treaties between each other well i don't i don't know the details and i don't care i don't know the

02:49:20.720 further details and i don't care i just honestly was like look i could leave with this guy and be

02:49:26.800 living off of him and not pay for anything for life but i was just not attracted to him and then

02:49:33.600 here i am yeah so he he was maybe facing life in prison for the crimes he had committed he fleed to

02:49:40.640 mexico uh and he wanted you to come with him yeah and then you also wrote now here i am in the states

02:49:47.280 working and paying my own bills rethinking that offer because you it's so funny he did get remarried

02:49:54.240 and everything in mexico and the girl the new wife like found me on facebook mind you i do not

02:50:00.320 use facebook at all i only use it to keep up with my answer like family over there but uh this girl

02:50:05.520 looked me up she was so concerned about me that she found me on facebook and then two years after like

02:50:10.720 i lost contact with him he was like if she adds you don't approve don't approve her request and i'm

02:50:16.800 like what the fuck are you talking about and then um after that he kind of used that message of

02:50:22.720 warning me not to add his new wife to kind of try to get me to meet him in mexico to hang out but

02:50:29.360 he'll try to hang out with me i just don't don't entertain it anymore you said that one thing you've

02:50:34.400 always misunderstood is if men feel intimidated by alpha women yes some men are not attracted to either

02:50:41.520 women making as much or more money than them so these are a little related do you consider yourself

02:50:45.920 an alpha woman yes going around the table do you consider yourself an alpha woman

02:50:51.280 yeah no i don't yet no okay i don't even know i make money are you an alpha female i don't like that

02:51:00.560 word alpha female abigail abigail are you alpha abigail i mean that was i guess that's my way of

02:51:09.920 wording it but i just i like to call the shots independent you like to peg dudes no no i just

02:51:17.120 i you know i don't i'm not as submissive as other women i guess and then i make my own money so if a guy

02:51:24.720 comes over here and tries to you know lure me in with with money yes it's it's cool and all but if

02:51:30.800 they don't treat me good like i i can take myself out i can you know well let's stick with treating you

02:51:36.880 good letting you call the shots huh it's part of treating you good letting you call the shots

02:51:42.880 i like a guy that lets me do whatever i want so um other dudes no no i just letting you do whatever

02:51:50.160 whatever makes bella happy is gonna it's gonna happen so what would be like give us three examples

02:51:55.040 of like a scenario where a guy would let you do whatever you want that makes you happy if i want

02:52:00.400 to buy stuff and he says no and i don't like it i don't like buy stuff with your own money how about

02:52:05.600 this well if i if i want to do something do you go to the club do you go not really sometimes bars

02:52:10.560 yes so okay he's like i don't want you to go to the club then i will most likely go to the club

02:52:16.160 i i don't know i just i like to do whatever i want so when i feel like i'm caged in has a guy

02:52:21.760 ever said i don't like the way you're dressing yes my ex he's persian he was very like don't show

02:52:26.800 tits like and did you anyways yeah sometimes i did and i'd be like i'm not doing anything just

02:52:32.160 because i'm dressed a certain way doesn't mean i'm doing anything okay uh alpha alpha woman are you

02:52:37.600 an alpha woman i don't think so okay i'm an alpha human regardless of my gender i think i'd be

02:52:43.440 what alpha human i think regardless of my gender i would be alpha so okay are you then are you just

02:52:49.920 you're alpha then okay i don't think it's separated by like masculine or feminine traits it's just a set

02:52:55.680 of traits it's not i it's more so just it's just having willpower and discernment over your life

02:53:01.840 right no i think it has more to do with the dynamic between you and the male oh so if the man is

02:53:09.280 telling you to do something like in this case if he's saying don't go out in that that dress is too

02:53:14.720 provocative like be more modest would that be a huge trigger for you i wouldn't be triggered but i

02:53:22.080 have always dressed kind of promiscuous so it'd be weird to care now

02:53:26.880 okay what about you are you alpha no but uh there's like different ones so there's dominant and

02:53:33.120 submissive and that's different than like alpha and then there's like omega and things like that

02:53:39.680 and then i was researching it this summer yep because i was one of those women types but it

02:53:43.840 wasn't the alpha one it was the one that was um alpha omega well there's like oh you're a sigma

02:53:49.920 female yeah yeah there she's a fucking sigma boys yeah i was in the sigma she's a sigma female

02:53:55.120 whatever it made sense to me though it made sense to me wait where is it when i watched it

02:54:00.480 because i found out who everyone i knew was let's see if i can find the i don't really associate with

02:54:05.280 alpha because they care too much about being all big and stuff so mine is like and be real and and

02:54:10.640 i feel things that are good for other word that's cool okay question about the dynamic though so if my

02:54:17.360 partner asked me not to do something i would not do it out of respect for them but they would do the

02:54:20.800 same for me so how does that work in terms of who's the alpha yeah i think that it's going to come

02:54:26.000 down to ultimately how many of those discussions are you having you know is he constantly getting

02:54:33.520 on you for specific things and telling you not to do specific things and how how willingly are you

02:54:38.560 giving in to them is also a factor as well okay a good way to look at it is just no sorry if there's

02:54:45.360 an impasse if there's an impasse who's the decider yeah i think of furries so i didn't have like

02:54:52.560 boyfriends but when i'm with a guy like and he's the older guy like my first guy was like 60s and uh

02:54:58.080 i would like take spend the whole summer with him i i would i would just try to like wait wait wait

02:55:02.560 be good i was just trying to be good so like i would do too like what he what he wanted so 60

02:55:10.000 years old yeah my mom was okay how old were you uh this is like a year or two though so i like he but

02:55:17.360 you know he's he's like more like a mentor like i respect him so your 60 year old boyfriend i respect

02:55:24.240 him so i learned from him he wasn't a boyfriend no he never he never said he was like was he one of

02:55:28.960 the limp liberals that you know no because he was more like a scientology guy oh wait what wow so it

02:55:36.960 was more like a cult thing and then uh that was i had to get rid of i had to stop i had to stop that

02:55:42.240 one you were were you got into the sign i got away from i got away from i'm gone wow and that's scary

02:55:48.560 that's cool uh are you an alpha female into the mic no no absolutely i'm sorry repeat again are you an

02:55:57.680 alpha female i am between i am in between she's in between yes all right what about you i'm kind of

02:56:08.320 with her on that like it's always been different with everyone i've been with like there's been

02:56:13.360 situations i have been and then situations where i'm not do you think it has to do with the man maybe

02:56:20.480 yeah that might be the case because if someone's a limp liberal i mean i don't really see yeah i feel

02:56:27.280 like the female has to take on the role it's like no i meant like when it's a liberal you gotta go a lot

02:56:31.920 harder to get harder okay um no all right uh some men are not attracted to either women making as much

02:56:40.720 or more money than them i guess yeah i don't think men are intimidated by alpha women we just don't

02:56:50.720 want to deal with you like we just don't want to deal with the headache yeah yeah oh you're not going

02:56:57.120 to listen to what i say okay i'm not intimidated i'm just like you're just it's too much annoying not

02:57:03.520 you you're not you don't have that many disagreements but it's just a mutual beneficial what do you

02:57:08.640 mean that's just like you're in a mutually beneficial relationship and you both communicate

02:57:13.920 about wants needs and goals and work on them together yeah but somebody has to lead somebody has

02:57:20.400 to be yeah for example in her in her relationship the guy was not he was very insecure yeah he wasn't

02:57:27.040 the alpha male because pretty much what he was saying is he's saying don't dress like that and then

02:57:31.360 you would do it anyways and they would stay in the yeah and then later on like he would be the type

02:57:36.320 to message my friends that's kind of what i mean by liberal and and and the younger like mind you

02:57:40.960 this guy's like 44 he wanted to live a whole like bachelor 21 22 years old that's where i was like wait

02:57:48.960 so you're telling me i can't show a little bit of skin but you're over there messaging 21 22 year olds

02:57:54.320 mind you you're 44 while you're in a relationship in between and after him you know after he would

02:58:00.560 still message me he'd still be in my dms he'd still text guys that i started dating and then

02:58:07.040 he'd be like um he he'd be like oh i hope you're doing great i'm like bro leave me alone if you see

02:58:12.480 me dating a guy do not message him please please don't message him and he was still messaging mind you

02:58:18.880 he's messaging my friends that are like 22 21 and that's weird okay uh we're gonna get back into some

02:58:27.120 of the other show notes we have adriana here uh adriana in your instagram it says the girl with

02:58:34.960 the chocolate chip cookie addiction are you addicted to chocolate chips and also why did you not bring

02:58:40.560 some to the studio uh i actually did oh really yeah just for me though sorry guys

02:58:47.440 i bake them every night you make chocolate chip cookies every night yeah i bake four every night

02:58:51.840 before i go to bed i can't sleep without them you eat them like as you're sleeping like you're just

02:58:55.840 no like right before bed like i can't sleep until i eat my chocolate chip cookies you eat

02:58:59.920 four chocolate chip cookies before bed yes with milk what if you did three what if you did three

02:59:06.480 three is not enough it won't it will help me sleep i need four do you put pot in them or something

02:59:10.320 no they're just regular chocolate i've just always been that way like since i was like 13 i've just

02:59:14.560 been like that's a lot of calories well i dance a lot so i burn you drinking all the meal and you're

02:59:19.920 drinking all the meals like a full glass of milk yeah oh my god can you do five i can i used to so fun

02:59:25.680 fact i actually used to do a full batch but then i realized how unhealthy it was for me and my

02:59:29.920 grandma had a heart attack so i was like okay let me chill like let me start eating healthier you are

02:59:34.560 addicted to so i i cut down to six and then i cut down to four so she's a great candidate for my

02:59:41.440 strange addiction i mean

02:59:48.080 that's kind of like that's kind of but you can ask all my friends i make the best homemade

02:59:53.040 chocolate chip cookies are they good wow you didn't you should have brought some you did not

02:59:56.240 i didn't think it would be brought up of course it is i mean you should wow i mean i'm kind of a

03:00:02.800 fan you should have actually dressed as a pillsbury dough boy last halloween for christmas and i

03:00:08.480 wait hold on i carry chocolate chip cookies with me all hold on now we got to get into this so

03:00:13.120 do you have like is this like a kink i don't think it's a kink it's just like like has a guy

03:00:21.760 ever been like i want to have sex with you while you're eating chocolate chip cookies wow and i mean

03:00:27.120 i might choke be truthful have you had sex while eating chocolate chip cookies no but i'll eat them

03:00:32.480 after post-sex chocolate yeah yeah okay right what if a guy wanted to dress up as a chocolate chip cookie

03:00:42.000 eat him up and wants me to eat kinky that's that's really i never thought of it as a

03:00:48.880 kinky thing it was just it's my own thing like i it's my own thing it's like the thing to myself like

03:00:54.960 if i share it with someone else it's just like it's not the same it's just like it's just a thing for

03:00:58.800 me that keeps me grounded and happy and satisfied all right uh you said you dated a guy who got your social

03:01:04.960 security number oh yeah so um i met him at the club that was probably the first red flag

03:01:13.440 um and he was just he was so nice he was a provider and he did everything for me and he was sweet talk

03:01:20.560 to me all the time and he went to miami for like two weeks for work so we just like talk on the phone

03:01:27.680 a lot while he was working um i found out he was actually a hacker and a scammer so he could hack into

03:01:34.160 anyone's instagram social media account bank accounts and then one day we're just like on the

03:01:39.600 phone kiki giggling he's like yeah i can find anyone's social security number and i was like

03:01:45.120 yeah right haha like so funny he was like no like yours is and i was like

03:01:49.840 like wow yeah so you didn't do anything with your social security number what can people do

03:01:56.160 i don't know they can do so much he hasn't done anything yet i haven't done anything to piss him

03:02:01.760 off thankfully good times all right so i'm just like you know always nice to him if he ever reaches

03:02:07.600 back out i'm like hey you wrote you wrote here that hookup culture is too normalized uh yeah okay

03:02:15.520 no no objections there no objections there you did say that men need to stop thinking that they're

03:02:21.360 the prize or or women should earn their loyalty so when you say that do you mean to say that women

03:02:28.880 are the prize or just what i mean i wouldn't say that anyone's a prize i feel like in a relationship

03:02:34.320 you two should be treated as equal but i feel like men some men think that they are like need to be put

03:02:42.240 on a throne and women need to do everything and anything for them and then not reciprocate anything

03:02:48.000 back and that's just not yeah those guys sound a relationship should have respect you know should

03:02:55.840 be equal yeah you should have respect for people well it should be in certain cases if it's like not

03:03:01.360 like a thing like this you know i kind of think that men are the prize though i do too of course why

03:03:08.880 well so not all men are the prize of course but like i think typically one i think relationships

03:03:17.920 tend to work better when the woman likes the man more than the man likes the woman because like

03:03:25.520 girls right if the dude's simping if the dude's simping and doing too much like you lose attraction

03:03:31.200 all of you guys like a lot of you guys are chasing after like let me ask you guys a question and maybe it's

03:03:36.160 not the case for some of you but the guy that you really want does he want you have you had that

03:03:43.200 experience yeah yeah yeah but not want you in now if you got him if you got him or like typeway would

03:03:51.200 he be the prize the guy that you really really want he would be the prize but i mean vice versa as well

03:03:58.160 right whereas whereas i i do think it's the case that when he went with men like it's a better dynamic

03:04:07.520 if the girl's kind of simping on us yeah well to follow that up like all of you who said that you

03:04:15.280 had a guy who you really really wanted right can you just give me a show of hands if uh the desirable

03:04:22.720 trait was that you thought he was going to treat you equally that's why you desired him no wait

03:04:28.480 i don't go ahead raised by a show of hands if i can you repeat the question i know i don't get it

03:04:33.840 i'm like confused me too is the reason that you desired this man because you thought he was going

03:04:38.560 to treat you equally was that the trait that made you desire him emotionally and physically

03:04:44.480 that's a great question because men and women i feel like yeah whatever you think whatever you

03:04:49.280 think equal whatever equal means to you was the reason you desired this man because he was going

03:04:54.640 to treat you equally yeah that's the reason why you desired him i mean not necessarily the only

03:05:01.840 reason but there could be one of them it's like a factor yeah i mean there's not only one reason

03:05:07.680 i'm asking is the primary trait of why you desired this man because you thought he was going to treat

03:05:13.040 you equally no you want a dynamic that makes it interesting i feel like the man should want a lot

03:05:18.800 of attention you better than you're treating him to like keep like to stay in it

03:05:25.600 the primary trait of this man that you desired was that you thought he was going to treat you

03:05:29.680 better than you treated him like no no that sounds awful that was but like i mean for me it wasn't even

03:05:36.240 anything i could consider like i just genuinely liked him as a person so like it's not something like

03:05:42.320 oh like i like him because he's gonna treat me good like it's not right right exactly it's not

03:05:47.680 it's not an equal so it's not an equalization but then once they don't treat you good i'm like okay

03:05:51.360 now i don't like you like it's not like a determining thing no they can treat you not good though but

03:05:57.520 it makes you want to work hard but it's interesting that the desirable phrase make you better make them

03:06:02.000 make you better the thing the thing that makes you desire it or this person is not it's not in your

03:06:07.760 brain that the reason i desire them is because they're going to treat me equally that's not what is

03:06:12.080 moving you towards the desiring of the person that's the point so that's why brian thinks that

03:06:17.120 men are the prize because if the if you desire them and you want to get them and it's not in your

03:06:23.120 head that so you're saying like are you saying i'm going to treat me equally i think they would be the

03:06:27.760 prize right i think women are more emotional and like we tend to like overthink more so i think to

03:06:33.600 stay in the relationship and men should like women overthink yeah i like to be told what to do because

03:06:38.320 i think women underthink okay almost always well i think men should like the women more than the

03:06:47.360 women like the man because then i don't know for like i don't know why personal preference i mean you

03:06:54.800 can totally fact check me if i'm wrong this is something i heard i don't even know if it's completely

03:06:59.600 accurate but i have heard that relationships do better when the guy is treating the girl right i could be

03:07:06.800 totally wrong but that's just what i've heard yeah which ones all the all the like all the big

03:07:12.240 celeb relationships when they are when they're all crumbling it's always like i did everything i could

03:07:18.080 for her i would you treated her like gold and she she's just like lane he wasn't he wasn't fulfilling

03:07:22.480 i didn't feel they need to respect the person i didn't feel very fucking fulfilled right it's never

03:07:27.840 like oh there was this there was all these horrible things going on i was like i just wasn't fulfilled

03:07:32.640 and he's like well i did everything i possibly could to fulfill her needs it seems like if one

03:07:37.440 party is more into the other party right in this case the woman is more into the man they seem to

03:07:42.640 be more likely to stick around with the man no i feel like i like your let's put it to the test more than

03:07:49.920 he liked me and then i got cheated on we we'll we'll run an experiment right here okay and we'll see if

03:07:55.760 if this is the case or not would you prefer to have a man who could walk away from you anytime

03:08:02.800 that they wanted or would you prefer to have a man that couldn't

03:08:09.040 not that he would not that he will walk away from you anytime just that he could would you rather have

03:08:16.400 have a man who could walk away from you anytime or would you rather have a man that couldn't

03:08:20.600 and he always chooses me yeah he chooses you but he could walk away right would you rather

03:08:29.980 have that or a man who couldn't like you're saying as a man who couldn't you're saying

03:08:35.740 as far as like you're the only option yeah but you're it i mean i guess could but yeah could

03:08:44.260 right i would like no but like who here would pick couldn't but like at the same time having

03:08:49.840 someone raise your hand if you if you would pick couldn't i feel like someone having someone not

03:08:56.840 one of you would pick couldn't so you would having someone who could walk away having someone who

03:09:01.580 couldn't it would give you like the security like it wouldn't give you like the fear and anxiety that

03:09:05.580 someone's gonna leave you then why would you pick the one that could i don't know i don't know what

03:09:09.740 it would think it's inherent it's in your dna if a guy wants to leave he can leave i don't care

03:09:15.300 have you ever but that's not the question so yeah have you ever lost like attraction for someone

03:09:22.420 because they were so into you no like they were so into you that it was almost a turnoff they were

03:09:29.380 like i think in like middle school like like middle school like freshman year but he was like

03:09:37.840 really really into me i think that that happens with most girls i think most girls get turned off

03:09:44.600 when a guy is super super head over heels for them and they understand that they pretty much have all

03:09:52.920 of the power in the relationship and that he's really not going anywhere that's what that's where i've

03:09:58.980 actually seen a lot of relationships fall apart is in that situation i think the guy like having

03:10:04.720 the choice to leave or having the ability to leave the relationship is what ultimately keeps most

03:10:10.760 relationships healthy what keeps most relationships together you would prefer to have men that other

03:10:16.740 women desired versus having a man that no other woman except you desired i think people like having

03:10:23.600 things that other people want is that a good way to put it i will tell you that it is it is a lot

03:10:29.980 different as a man walking around if you're around attractive females other women will automatically

03:10:36.980 start reaching out to you more and if you are in a relationship you will actually get reached out

03:10:42.620 to a lot more there's something i think it's called like the boyfriend effect or the girlfriend effect

03:10:47.660 where girls always want you more when you're in a relationship and it's actually a lot of their

03:10:52.940 friends yeah it's because girls see that and they get they get jealous they want and same with guys

03:10:59.800 too yes same with guys it does happen it does happen it happens a lot i've heard guys would wear like

03:11:05.980 single guys would wear uh rings and to the bar and then a lot of women would approach that

03:11:11.540 wait wait the problem so here's but here's the problem in reverse right it's like every guy who's

03:11:16.980 with a girl that girl's going to be desired by other men and that's a known doesn't even matter who

03:11:21.680 the girl is right she could be like some like 400 pound wildebeest and some other men are still going

03:11:27.920 to desire her but that is not the case for men right it's not the case for men that other women are

03:11:33.380 going to desire him and so uh women have that as an advantage and men don't that's why men who are

03:11:39.600 desired by many women think of themselves surprised because they think that women who are desired by

03:11:44.040 many men aren't because well if having sex with a man for a woman is usually just as easy as

03:11:49.500 presenting yourself or for it right also usually not even more complex than that also if we can even

03:11:55.900 look at this somewhat mathematically do you guys think and i'm not i'm talking like in total so like

03:12:01.800 looks personality everything combined do you think that there are more women who are attractive

03:12:07.280 or more like more men who are attractive women like there's way more attractive women yeah so if

03:12:15.440 there's a smaller pool of like generally attractive men then just the math like there's men are going

03:12:25.640 to be the prize then like if you're saying no if you're saying no to 90 percent of guys and guys only

03:12:33.540 say no to 50 percent of women then the guy who you are willing to get with

03:12:41.120 he's the prize when you say attractive do you mean purely physical or like i'm also all the others

03:12:48.100 in total okay so i mean i mean i would argue that just on the physical basis most women find like very

03:12:56.720 few men physically attractive or maybe not very few but it's a small minority like most maybe like

03:13:03.300 maybe you think 10 percent of men are physically attractive i like personality and then you gotta

03:13:07.520 actually like the guy after that so like that reduces it down even more whereas men like when it

03:13:15.460 comes to looks they actually did this uh analysis of dating apps so men rate women on a bell curve when

03:13:22.660 it comes to physical attractiveness women are like super harsh judges of physical attractiveness

03:13:27.360 uh so maybe i don't think it's necessary to pull that up but i mean women are harsher on women too

03:13:33.200 though it's just our nature i guess we have to be more discernible yes and plus and plus now i think

03:13:37.800 we're just judgmental yeah we're just judgmental very harsh yeah it's our survivor skills

03:13:42.400 and plus now we are indicated about princess men we are indicated princess men yes oh she doesn't

03:13:51.140 text me i don't text her back she doesn't looking for me i don't looking for her

03:13:56.200 she doesn't invite me anything i don't will biting her anything so no it's almost like men don't try

03:14:05.660 anymore no no usually pretty harsh on other women when it comes to looks yes i would tend to agree do you

03:14:27.420 think that women tend to be pretty honest though honest honest yeah yeah i think they think they're

03:14:36.200 being honest but i think a lot of people just don't know what they want truly they say one thing but

03:14:39.500 i don't know if people truly know what they want yes i feel like um can you just by a show of hands

03:14:45.900 real quick at the table uh who here thinks women are generally pretty honest

03:14:49.800 okay uh and who here thinks that women generally judge each other's looks pretty pretty harshly

03:14:57.580 yeah okay so how many of you by a show of hands when you sat down at this table judged other women

03:15:02.980 harshly i judged everyone here harshly there's one honest woman sorry i judged everyone here harshly

03:15:11.580 my bad we are judging appreciate it everybody looks good uh i judge everyone here though not just the

03:15:20.680 women you judge everybody highlight yeah everybody here it's like as far as truth though i think it's

03:15:27.100 easier for like me to tell guys the truth and like girls the truth sometimes because it's kind

03:15:31.500 of like i feel like i'm judged harsh here by girls i judge myself that's why i don't want to have

03:15:36.080 children like good choice like in general like i can't find it you feel like there's like some sort

03:15:42.280 of game going on with girls sometimes i don't know i think girls you can see it on social media a lot

03:15:49.180 of girls lie to each other in comment sections non-stop non-stop yes i deal with a lot of girls doing

03:15:55.780 the casting stuff and i've seen it on everything yeah i know how much like that woman at the car

03:16:01.940 place you know that's just like that's terrible i did have a question on kind of related to what

03:16:07.360 andrew was uh saying i'm trying to find it here really quick um uh what is it though

03:16:15.540 huh i can't find it well whatever we'll get back into the uh actually we got some messages here we got

03:16:24.600 one from lucas so if i'm six foot four 235 pounds and fit and a partner at a new york city

03:16:31.920 big law firm i'll let you guys take guesses on the compensation what percent of me exist out there

03:16:38.280 and what percent of you exist out there it's a simple supply demand he has one follow-up here

03:16:44.520 thank you lucas for the uh messages i do appreciate it uh what okay and then we have lucas no the woman

03:16:54.920 needs to the woman needs to be the adorer because she gets and needs to have the emotional experience

03:17:00.640 by being the one she loves props and attribution to dr orion taraband for this one we've had him on

03:17:06.280 the show twice legend a great guy yeah so he kind of creates this uh dynamic of there's the adoree

03:17:12.920 and the adorer so the adorer is the one who's like feeling it more than the adoree and uh basically

03:17:22.500 his position is as a man it's better to be the one who's adored than being the adorer so yeah i don't

03:17:30.440 know if there's any disagreements on that but we pretty much already i would just say just because

03:17:34.920 this is what i learned in school biologically speaking like even like if you go back way back

03:17:40.920 in the day like there's like 1500s or whatever it's usually like the guy seeking the woman like

03:17:47.580 like even like 1500s well like yeah or like and like other species like i'm pretty sure they had

03:17:53.520 like arranged marriages no like no no she's she i mean you are correct like the birds like birds

03:18:00.320 are always like doing a dance to like prove to like the woman that they're worthy of being their

03:18:04.480 spouse like a lot of species it's the the male trying to court the female well no i mean in the

03:18:11.860 animal kingdom for instance there's one male lion and he humps all the chicks in the pride i mean that's

03:18:16.400 just the way i'm not saying all but there's some yeah well yeah so i mean that's not very comparable

03:18:21.740 to say like behavior and animals i can give you behavior tons of animals where uh the women are

03:18:27.560 basically just disposable to the men like non-stop they're just disposable um but when it comes to

03:18:34.440 humans are you talking about the 1500 you'd like you make a valid point women or men did used to be

03:18:38.720 the pursuers of women uh more than anything until women demanded equality and so what's happened is

03:18:44.860 chivalry has continued for actually no good reason and now men have realized well wait a second

03:18:49.900 why the fuck are we doing chivalry if there's equality so if we if you do chivalry there's

03:18:54.660 supposed to be additional authority right so we're going we're protecting women we're doing this for

03:18:59.620 women uh women women are put in a status they they have a certain status in society they have less

03:19:05.680 authority but they have a higher status but now they want they want equal status so it's like well

03:19:10.420 if you have equal status what the fuck are we doing chivalry for that's stupid right that doesn't make

03:19:14.720 any sense why buy the flowers and the candy and do the pursuing and this and that if there's no

03:19:19.400 additional status like what's the point so you do so you're chivalry chivalry i don't i'm not bad i'm

03:19:26.220 not yeah what he said so you do that just so you can have control over someone that's what you're

03:19:33.320 saying if there was if you didn't have control well if you think about it like the correct way to look

03:19:39.220 at it i'll explain it so so women if women have a status a certain status in society okay you say

03:19:46.560 uh well it's control i'm like well not really because ultimately they didn't have to fight the

03:19:51.880 wars they didn't have to do any of that shit right they didn't have to do any of it so they actually

03:19:55.800 had a higher social status than men did they were the first ones who get on the lifeboats the women

03:20:00.360 and the children that men stay on and go down with the ship they were the ones etc etc i mean i'd give

03:20:05.080 you example after example after example which puts women at a protected status so they actually

03:20:09.920 have a higher status than men historically i would consider that a higher status like if you have to

03:20:14.780 die before i have to die i think that that means that uh i have the higher protect or you know social

03:20:21.640 status if if you have to die in my stead your status is higher than mine but if you remove that

03:20:28.320 and say now our status is equal across the board then what the hell am i dying for

03:20:32.980 i don't get it so you're telling me that you're not in the military because of women can be in the

03:20:38.780 military now uh well no women can't go into combat the military well they can be in fields of the

03:20:46.260 military whether it's yeah yeah so you're telling me they can't die because they're not in combat i agree

03:20:52.120 they're good at signing paychecks but they're not in the military doing all the bang bang combat blow

03:20:56.220 people up stuff but neither are you so why is it fair for you to ask yeah men not you particularly

03:21:03.940 so why is it fair for you to ask we're not talking about me we're not talking about you we're talking

03:21:08.560 about men and we're talking about women isn't there okay isn't there a hierarchy to chivalry for

03:21:13.340 everyone though like men protect women women protect elderly and children you know what i mean so

03:21:19.140 like if something happens and all the men got obliterated in here what do men get what are we

03:21:23.800 basically because women let her answer let her answer what do men what do men now get i can tell

03:21:31.140 you what they got what they got was chaste virtuous virgin women that's what they got so so hang on

03:21:37.680 hang on what they got was chaste virtuous virgin women okay that's what they got and the status of

03:21:44.680 those women was to be high and protected and if any man were to come across and do on things

03:21:50.160 done towards towards women you would challenge them to duels and fight to the death in the street

03:21:54.440 and literally kill other men over the fact that they besmirched a woman's honor right that's a

03:22:00.540 really high tier of social status so what do men well what do men get now what do we get i want them to

03:22:06.440 why do they have to get something though is chivalry only necessary if there's a transactional

03:22:11.600 thing or can you just yeah well otherwise it just creates respectful society so i'll answer your

03:22:16.800 question yes it is it is uh in this case it would be transactional because you're just asking for a

03:22:21.820 higher sense of social status that you don't actually deserve you're not giving anything for it

03:22:26.400 like what are you giving to actually have the door open for you what are you giving to uh hang on to

03:22:33.480 to for men to go down with the ships and you to get the lifeboat like what is it that you're giving

03:22:38.960 now you're not giving anything so so you're just demanding a higher form of social status and men

03:22:44.420 are like no that's not equality that's the opposite of equality i'm do you want me to actually answer

03:22:49.920 yeah i well let's say in this hypothetical boat situation where we're all going down with the ship

03:22:56.200 and we have to decide i because i'm not planning on having children i would probably just stay back

03:23:01.160 and let other people go like i don't i think it just depends on person to person if that makes sense

03:23:06.340 like i'm totally fine with being disposable not having legacy legacy so i wouldn't need to go

03:23:11.980 above other people that care to do those things so why should you get chivalry

03:23:16.000 well because you should be respectful like i would be chivalrous to an elderly or a child why couldn't i

03:23:21.800 treat just like other women treat you which is not in a chivalrous way isn't that equality from a

03:23:26.540 biological perspective yeah women are the ones let her let her answer the sisterhood

03:23:31.400 no because i i'm bouncing off of what she's saying because i know i know but can you can you let her

03:23:35.440 answer my question for each other so back to this why so why do you deserve chivalry why

03:23:40.780 well this is probably gonna get a whole can of worms but i do think that there's a physical aspect of

03:23:47.040 a man's physically stronger than me i'm probably physically stronger than most elderly people and

03:23:51.280 children so it's that's that's my general hierarchy but everyone why does that mean that

03:23:56.720 you deserve chivalry i don't get it well because well okay in a duel for example why would i fight

03:24:01.740 my own duel yeah but why why should why should anybody fight your duel for you because there should

03:24:07.540 be a general code of chivalry in society if there was why that's what that's just begging the

03:24:12.120 question it should be because it should be because it should be it's like why though

03:24:15.020 because we're all humans on this earth you have a higher social status where you're you're not

03:24:20.020 allowed to punch women because they have this social status in society that's chivalrous right

03:24:24.820 if they hit you you can't hit them back well that's gone with equality when you demand egalitarianism

03:24:29.640 and equality if men hit men and the social expectations that they get hit back that's going

03:24:35.420 to be the same exact thing for women now that's really quality that's what you're demanding

03:24:39.360 is that the social status go to that so why is it if you hit a man you don't deserve to get

03:24:44.880 hit back tell me why give me a real reason why well because the man would probably be

03:24:50.300 significantly stronger than me the level of damage done is different so you're saying that

03:24:55.080 if weaker men attack stronger men which is always the case there's always one weaker than the other

03:24:59.580 a stronger man justified the stronger man's not justified in punching him back that doesn't

03:25:04.440 sound ridiculous to you no they can punch each other back but someone else should defend that man

03:25:09.120 that can't defend himself because that's chivalrous like he attacked so if you attack a man

03:25:14.180 right you can't say oh but i'm weaker you're equal do you know what equality means equality means if

03:25:21.640 even if you're weaker and you attack someone stronger who cares you get the same consequence

03:25:25.880 because it's equal i guess that's true i'm more about pro-equity than equality so you're right i

03:25:31.220 misspoke we should all just be allowed to punch whoever when you're talking about the box each other

03:25:35.520 for the rest of our lives yes you get a punch you get a punch what do you mean is bringing up the

03:25:41.040 same problem no because you're i'm so confused okay let me let's backtrack then i'm dumb and

03:25:47.900 define equity versus equality for me because i don't see how they're the same thing well don't you

03:25:52.760 guys always use the box argument the what right it's not that it's not that a shorter person

03:25:57.120 equality is that the shorter person is as tall as the taller person equity would be if you if you're

03:26:03.440 both looking over the fence the shorter person can't see you put a box down so that the shorter

03:26:07.240 person could stand the box and now both of you can see over the fence okay we'll go with that

03:26:11.420 example what do you do you agree that that's a good explanation or descriptor for equity yeah

03:26:16.160 yeah but that's not equality then right why why shouldn't i get the same size box

03:26:20.660 yeah that's why i said you're right and i believe in equity over equality so what you're doing is

03:26:25.860 demanding that there be a social class based on the fact that you're not as good as other people

03:26:29.880 or you don't think you are yeah that's true i think that we should protect other people and

03:26:33.800 help each other you know you should always help your how you want to be treated well screw that

03:26:39.040 that's a violation of the social contract you demanded equality you said that you wanted political

03:26:43.320 equality you said that you wanted equality in the military you say that you want equality in all

03:26:48.080 social categories but now you demand this thing called equity which is saying well actually even if we

03:26:53.680 are equal we're still at disadvantage from you and so we still need further things given to us

03:26:59.260 which now it's not equal then now it's it's you're a perpetual victim class so it's like you got to

03:27:04.720 make up your mind but were people really asking for equality the equal amount of everything were

03:27:10.860 people asking for the opportunity to pursue rights that they didn't have okay rights equal to who

03:27:16.540 uh legal rights equal for everyone of like right right so that would be equal right so when you ask

03:27:23.400 for political rights you're asking for the same political rights i have right the opportunity to

03:27:28.640 engage in those political rights if i want to but if i don't want to i don't have that choice not to

03:27:33.180 and that's exactly what i can do right yeah no that's equality so you're equal so when you demand

03:27:38.800 equity you're actually demanding that there be a social class there'd be a social class system and

03:27:43.480 that you'd be part of a social class which is now a protected social class men say well wait a second

03:27:48.280 that's not equality that's not what you were demanding so why is it that we should give you

03:27:52.460 the equity when we don't get any additional authority why that's not fair i guess you don't

03:27:57.960 have to but chivalry being transactional is kind of a dick move so i guess you just should be great

03:28:04.140 argument i think it's kind of a bitch move to request that people give you social status when you

03:28:08.640 don't deserve it like what do you do to deserve the social status exactly other than you just want it

03:28:13.520 i don't know if most people are demanding a social status though i think they're demanding

03:28:18.200 equality what is chivalry chivalry is the expectation that you have certain social

03:28:23.260 statuses based on the fact that you're a female that's all it is i'm gonna look it up i'm looking

03:28:27.620 up with the dictionary definition whoa whoa whoa how do you have a phone i could be playing roblox

03:28:35.400 right well because i'm gonna ask about his peer research later but they didn't tell me i could do

03:28:39.120 that yet hey yo how did she get a phone i would have been googling i would have been googling all

03:28:44.840 kinds of stuff well i feel like women offer an emotional like and more comforting like men are

03:28:54.400 strong like men are meant to be the muscle i feel like and women are meant to be the like the

03:28:59.460 caretakers and the protectors i feel like that's what women offer not the protectors sorry the

03:29:04.060 hang on no side combos okay so otherwise the audience can't actually hear when people are

03:29:08.380 talking so go ahead did you hear that okay i'll repeat yourself sorry um i said i feel like the men

03:29:14.180 are the like the muscle like the protector and the women are the caretaker that's what women have to

03:29:20.340 offer we have we're gentle we're kind we're we have more of like an emotional connection can i

03:29:28.420 bounce off of what you're saying yes um women are the one who provide i mean like from a biological

03:29:34.400 perspective women provide the babies women are the ones who have to go through the reproduction and

03:29:40.000 like have to be cared for in that process so i think that's what like why a guy should be able to be

03:29:47.160 like the stronger one and be more of the providing one not a hundred percent the provider obviously like

03:29:52.680 there should be men have any decision over your reproductive rights or can you have an abortion

03:29:57.020 what was that question and the man is the man allowed to say a word about you having an abortion

03:30:01.080 no why no so then if that's the case then even if it is the case that you are the person who's

03:30:09.500 responsible for reproduction you are also the decider as to whose genes get to reproduce so again when

03:30:15.680 you're talking about equality right that's not even equitable but not in every situation when

03:30:20.620 you're talking about equality like what does this have to do with equality you're the ultimate

03:30:24.140 decider in that category as well as to women aren't always the ultimate decider in that though

03:30:29.400 yeah that's right they are so again there's nothing about that that's equitable and when you're talking

03:30:35.460 about equality you already have that so why do you deserve chivalry why do you deserve a status

03:30:40.960 given to you by men simply because you're female if men have no additional authority they get nothing

03:30:46.380 what do they get can i tell you the definition of chivalry that i agree with based on the dictionary

03:30:51.520 definition go ahead okay the sum of ideal qualifications of a knight including courtesy

03:30:58.080 generosity valor and dexterity in arms well i don't understand if you agree with that then why are you

03:31:04.580 saying that women deserve uh chivalry are you saying that women deserve knights who are great

03:31:09.240 in the the category of being good with arms otherwise if that's the definition you agree with

03:31:15.200 then why are you even telling me that that women deserve chivalry that makes no sense you don't

03:31:19.640 think that men are supposed to be knights good good with swords and shields and shit so why would

03:31:25.360 you bring up chivalry i think that men should display qualities of courtesy generosity and valor

03:31:31.520 without it being transactional and they should do it just because is that chivalry i mean it didn't

03:31:36.600 specify whether it's transactional or not but you're saying that you would only do it i'm asking you is

03:31:40.380 that chivalry having qualities of valor yeah what was the other thing courtesy yeah and generosity

03:31:48.440 yeah okay so so then your definition of chivalry and mine are exactly the same you just wanted to

03:31:53.120 change it for the purpose of the argument but it actually made no sense so if you just say we as

03:31:58.500 women deserve to have x well what is that then is it opening doors for you is it lifting heavy stuff

03:32:04.760 that you can't lift yeah is it is it going and dying in wars on your behalf when you don't have

03:32:09.480 to die on the wars is it getting in the boat first is it protecting you and the women and the

03:32:14.280 children first if it is all of those things tell me what i get i would say yes it's all of the above and

03:32:21.880 i wouldn't speak for me explicitly but i would argue that there's a good amount of women that

03:32:25.320 like to be homemakers like to work in community community fundraising things like that what do i get

03:32:31.660 for you for for us to treat you that way what do we get well that's what i'm saying you're talking

03:32:38.300 about it explicitly in a transactional way yeah what do we get can you tell me one thing we get

03:32:43.280 for for giving you all of that shit what do we get well i'm also saying that women should be

03:32:47.720 chivalrous to people underneath them how how could you be chivalrous to men like what are you gonna do

03:32:52.180 pick up my groceries for me like you're not gonna do that shit no because you're not weaker than me

03:32:57.140 that's the that's the whole context but i would do that for you're just asking for a

03:33:01.280 separate social status and i want to know what i get for it i want to know what men get what do

03:33:06.740 men get for you getting this social status why do you have to get something if i do all of those

03:33:10.920 why should i do anything if i don't get something let me know when i can finish let me know when i

03:33:14.560 can finish i'm answering your question you just asked me a question you said why do things have

03:33:19.500 to be transactional and start answering your question that you want me to you want to go ahead

03:33:22.940 tell me give me the nod when you're done go ahead um so i'm from my understanding your original

03:33:29.900 question is what do you get and my statement is you shouldn't have to get anything i would be

03:33:35.940 chivalrous towards someone that needed my help as well what is chivalrous generosity things like that

03:33:41.220 so all those things that you said about opening doors lifting things etc i would do for an elderly

03:33:46.400 person a child what is valor i don't know i'd have to look into that more valor is like fighting off

03:33:52.520 dragons valor is standing up against the horde i would do that for an elderly person or a child

03:33:58.240 without receiving anything i was going to the okay corral when there's 12 different men and only

03:34:02.860 you right nobody's giving women these expectations that's insanity no woman anywhere has these

03:34:08.660 expectations and so as soon as you guys have those expectations fine then we'll talk about whether or

03:34:14.880 not you deserve your door open you deserve to uh you know for men to go down with a ship and this type

03:34:19.660 of thing but if you demand equality and we get nothing for the equality then we're going to treat you

03:34:24.780 equally which means you don't get to punch men you're punching the face back it means that you

03:34:29.000 get to go down with the ship you get to go fight on the front lines just like men you have to have

03:34:33.280 the same social expectations have to apply to you or not equals so if all men disappear tomorrow

03:34:39.780 women should only be chivalrous to elderly and children if they are getting something from them

03:34:44.740 is that what you're saying what i'm saying i'm saying that that would be the case if you're demanding

03:34:49.480 equality if you're saying no men and women are ontologically different we have a different sense

03:34:55.140 of being and so we should have a different unequal social status then sure then you can say if that's

03:35:01.220 the case we deserve to be protected we don't have the same status but the second you demand that you

03:35:05.820 have the same exact status as men it then it becomes transactional because if i otherwise why should

03:35:12.160 i have the expectation of men that i don't have a view if you say you're my equal that makes no fucking

03:35:17.520 sense i guess i don't understand what the correlation with chivalry and equality has to do

03:35:23.360 like so maybe this is where i'm confused so by women having the equal opportunity to engage in equal

03:35:30.780 rights under the law that is somehow going against chivalry is that what you're also saying uh no but

03:35:36.060 i'll reiterate my argument again because it's really simple if you and i are equal andrew you and i are

03:35:42.400 completely equal under the law under political status under all all categories there is no

03:35:47.500 reason for me not to treat you exactly like an equal exactly like one i get no additional status

03:35:53.180 by treating you as a protected class or by something which needs to be protected because you're demanding

03:35:57.620 equality with me not me with you so if that's the case what do i get for this uh idea of no i'm not

03:36:06.140 only my equal with you now but i get protected status on top of that like what the fuck is that that's

03:36:10.880 bullshit that's not equality okay so you're all equal under the law but let's say someone has more

03:36:16.180 traditional values are you then going to be chivalrous towards them because you might potentially

03:36:20.300 get something from them no a person who would follow a chivalrous value like under christian

03:36:25.300 ethics a woman she would not say that she is equal to me she would she would instead be in a submissive

03:36:31.300 role to me that submissive role would grant her additional statuses that i would not have

03:36:36.340 in exchange for that i'd have elevated authority this is how it was done all throughout human history

03:36:41.200 so either you elevate men's authority or you say you're not equals but the second you say you're

03:36:45.280 equals you can't demand additional social statuses you can't do that or you're not equal you're

03:36:50.640 demanding non-equality at that point can you be submissive but pro having the opportunity to do the

03:36:57.400 things you want or be pro letting other people you can do listen you demand equality you can do whatever

03:37:04.180 you want but just don't request additional social statuses like men men need to be chivalrous pay for

03:37:10.680 dates open doors go down with a ship go fight your wars don't demand additional statuses if you say

03:37:15.840 you're equal that makes no sense either you're equal or you're not equal here you can't have it both ways

03:37:21.300 maybe this might maybe make it a little easier if you're a woman we've got a couple women here who do

03:37:28.460 only fans you guys don't deserve for men to pay for you on first dates you have you have uh forsaken

03:37:37.100 your traditional gender roles chastity uh modesty men should not have to pay for on first dates with

03:37:44.860 you you might still want it but that would kind of be a trade-off what you're asking is yeah the basic

03:37:52.820 is like equality or privilege you pick but you can't have both you can't be equal and be privileged

03:37:59.660 you can't have these special privileges granted to you and then still say you're equals that's insane

03:38:06.400 that makes no sense it's literally a contradiction okay but what if you don't expect to be paid for

03:38:12.360 on the first date but i expect guys to open doors for me just like i would open for someone else i mean

03:38:16.860 you can expect it you don't deserve it or yeah that's what i'm saying exactly that but i don't deserve

03:38:22.020 something because of my occupation you could i could be going out with somebody for the first like

03:38:26.580 couple times and they'd be opening my door and i'm like oh yeah by the way i do this and their

03:38:30.060 whole their whole opinion and their view and everything changes about me and the way like

03:38:34.780 just because of my job so look it means i'm i am less than something because of the job i have

03:38:40.840 is what you're telling me well here's what i'm telling you so i don't doubt that you women who are

03:38:46.220 involved in sex work you're still gonna get men who are chivalrous who'll pay for you on dates

03:38:52.280 who'll open the car door who will um what's the other thing i don't know open the open regular

03:38:57.940 doors for you uh buy flowers do all this shit right because maybe they don't know better but

03:39:04.920 you're still holding men to their traditional gender roles but you're like prostitutes or whores

03:39:13.200 or on only fans or dressing uh revealing like you're not conducting yourself in a way that's

03:39:20.600 traditional like don't you doesn't that compute like oh okay i'm not a traditional woman like is

03:39:26.600 it look you'll still get it a lot of women still have these expectations even though they're more

03:39:30.880 promiscuous they're more involved in sex work they're the least submissive the least feminine

03:39:34.880 they've ever been in all of human history yeah you can still get it because men know that on like

03:39:39.640 a biological level you guys respond to the traditional treatment you guys respond and if a guy wants to

03:39:46.180 maximize his ability to either get you in bed or maybe even get you in a relationship

03:39:50.340 yeah men do what works so but we're having a con we're having like a higher level conversation

03:39:57.320 we're having a conversation about do you deserve it oh i know chicks who are strumpets who are on

03:40:03.880 only fans they still get all that treatment do they deserve it no that's the conversation

03:40:09.460 what about women who aren't doing any sex work only fans just women in general

03:40:16.440 do you think they deserve it what do you mean you'd have to be you're basically saying

03:40:21.340 you're i this is what i'm getting you're basically saying they don't deserve it because of their job

03:40:26.120 but then we deserve it because we don't do sex work that's what i'm getting no no no i'll explain it

03:40:32.500 so the idea is like this let's say you have a christian marriage okay the idea here is the

03:40:38.080 woman submits to the man's authority the exchange though is the man is definitely giving her additional

03:40:43.780 privilege many different additional privileges like she she's usually it's something like uh well i have

03:40:50.620 the responsibility right the buck stops with me so i have to take the responsibility right but with that

03:40:56.140 comes the authority that's a position of privilege immediately that's a position of privilege

03:41:01.400 immediately so thing is is like what you're saying though is i would want equal authority i want equal

03:41:08.960 authority with you but privilege and it's like no so modern women can't have that either you can't say i

03:41:14.560 want equal authority and have equal privilege just doesn't work that way you know i kind of see what

03:41:19.440 everyone's saying because even though societal norms have changed and now you know some women they

03:41:24.380 don't want to be submissive or whatever men are still like biologically like hardwired like you

03:41:29.260 know as we said before like to you know protect women whether that be just holding a door it's still

03:41:35.580 you know no we've been socially conditioned to do so over hundreds and hundreds of years of carryover

03:41:43.920 from chivalry and from uh many eras in which women were a resource which needed to be protected

03:41:51.700 and they needed to be protected because that's where the kids came from and for various other

03:41:55.900 reasons as well we're not in that age anymore the social conditioning is still hardwired the social

03:42:02.140 conditioning is beginning to fall off and so and all that remained the second women remember that

03:42:07.760 the egalitarianism or you know women voting and being in the same social pedigree as men when it came

03:42:13.760 to political power is brand new we've only had a couple of generations since this happened

03:42:19.040 and so the boomers for instance they were still raised with this kind of chivalric code from their

03:42:24.280 parents who went through that the gen z has none of that okay gen x had a little bit millennials gen z

03:42:31.160 have none of that so now we're re-evaluating how intersexual dynamics work and men have realized

03:42:37.080 well wait a second this is really a bad deal for us why do women deserve to have additional social

03:42:42.260 privileges at the same time they demand equality and we have no additional authority well fuck that we'll

03:42:47.460 just treat them exactly like we do men and women go that's mean that's heartless that's evil that's

03:42:52.960 horrible and it's like well you've got to pick one i mean i guess it depends like if you're you know

03:42:58.700 if they want to pay on a date or whatever go 50 50 that's one thing but at the end of the day women

03:43:02.860 are still like physically like weaker than men so men should still pick up that box for a woman why

03:43:07.920 you know why tell me why i should they should because they're stronger is what you should do so just

03:43:14.200 because a person stronger than you that entitles you to their labor yeah oh so any person who's

03:43:20.360 stronger than you you're entitled to their labor did i hear that right

03:43:23.660 i'm sorry repeat that any person who's stronger than you you are entitled to their labor

03:43:30.940 you get to tell them what to do with their body and their muscles because men are hardwired to

03:43:36.480 protect women whether they realize it or not you know regardless of what age they're in it's a

03:43:41.320 biological it's hardwiring i don't believe you prove it i'm not hardwired to pick up your

03:43:45.680 fucking boxes because you're weaker than me show me where the hardwiring is he's not hard the guy

03:43:50.620 is not hardwired to be your slave because he's stronger than you show me where the hardwiring is

03:43:58.060 it's just picking up a box it's like it's not like i'm actually go outside and pick up every box you

03:44:03.780 see it's just picking yeah why should i pick up any box for you why should i help you with anything

03:44:09.240 ever there's some things that are just common things that are just unspoken and you should do

03:44:14.120 regardless like wait wait how about this i keep asking you why i should how about this common

03:44:19.120 courtesy no no no let's we don't need a why let's talk about shoulds we don't need a why

03:44:23.120 because you want things in return let's talk about shoulds should women be virgins

03:44:27.380 no i don't know what do you mean i don't know stop stop stop you don't know but you just listed

03:44:37.020 out like multiple different things men should do why is it so easy for women to say men should do xyz

03:44:43.960 and you have you actually in addition to that you have no problem with making should claims about what

03:44:49.580 men should do but the moment men say women should xyz now that i think about it oh men should strive to

03:44:56.780 be virtuous yes yes i think women should have a low body count yeah i think women should strive

03:45:01.240 to be virtuous women be submissive is equality virtuous what does virtuous mean well the virtues

03:45:09.620 are series and sequences of duties which are applied to people that they're that they're commanded to do

03:45:15.420 in order for you to be in the like the goodness category i just think like relationships should be

03:45:22.920 like reciprocate how do you say that word reciprocate

03:45:25.380 yeah so equal reciprocate

03:45:27.380 be like 50 50 so like if you open my door for me i will be like wanting to be nicer to you like

03:45:33.720 perfect you pick up a box for me yes i pick up a box for you exactly like yeah that's what that's

03:45:39.540 i agree with that like if you buy my dinner i cook dinner like exactly yeah

03:45:43.440 and because of my job fight on the front line i'll probably equal like let's say i make more money

03:45:49.520 than the guy i wouldn't have no problem paying for meals like you know what i'm saying can i quote a

03:45:56.400 movie scene from the bronx tale have every everybody okay there was a part in the movie where the the

03:46:04.080 dad tells uh the main character i forgot his name um he said if a girl if you open always make sure to

03:46:10.620 open the door for a girl when she gets in the car and this is gonna be the test if you go around the

03:46:17.460 car and she opens the door for you that means she's the one or like she's a good girl so that

03:46:25.380 was his test the son goes and he went and did that for the little the little girlfriend that he had

03:46:31.380 and she went and opened the door so he was like dad she's the one she's the one or she's at least a

03:46:36.060 good girl because he opened the door but then she had the common courtesy of opening or unlocking

03:46:41.300 the door door for him i just like to point out that i believe in that same movie she cheated on

03:46:45.760 him but in but that aside i'm just she did not i think she did yeah i think she did no yeah what's

03:46:52.640 what's the movie called a bronx tale bronx tale a bronx tale i think that's what i'm saying yeah

03:46:58.360 maybe maybe i'm maybe i'm wrong movie but they she did not but anyway yeah i've seen the scene

03:47:04.180 okay um but the point here is by the way when bronx tale was around women didn't have equality

03:47:10.680 i just want to let you know that this was a throwback movie yeah it was a throwback movie so

03:47:15.700 there was no equality so yeah of course that there's shit testing i get it but the point is is like if

03:47:21.660 you want equality you can't have privilege because otherwise it's not equal that's the point it's very

03:47:26.840 simple so you can't say i demand privilege what about when you are ask sorry what about when you are

03:47:32.980 50 50 and the men and still be cheating you and still be a try try try to to manipulate it to you

03:47:41.300 all those emotional things women we suffer with men that's bad yeah i think you should leave them

03:47:46.760 exactly but if you know are in that position to to to do that things what happening every everybody

03:47:57.300 oh yes 50 50 50 50 or what we women we are more more emotional we making a home we making a food

03:48:06.380 when we are like that score making the baby making a baby yeah wait i got i got a question for you guys

03:48:13.120 on this yeah but that just literally has nothing to do with what we're talking about like yes it's bad

03:48:17.320 yeah cheating bad when women cheat it's bad all that cheating bad i agree um one more question on this

03:48:22.680 then we gotta do a couple chats then we do have to move things on uh have have you guys here ever

03:48:28.340 been like maybe you have a friends with benefits or like a uh f buddy or sneaky link have you ever

03:48:35.440 had a friends with benefits and you're like i don't know maybe you see him once a week a couple times a

03:48:39.920 month whatever or more and you so you're hooking up with him but all the while like you're still going

03:48:45.660 on dates has anybody done that uh i don't know dates with like other guys other guys yeah i don't

03:48:52.680 really sleep with people i'm not dating i know but just go on dates so like you have a friends

03:48:57.700 with benefits you're only fucking sorry you've got like a friends with benefits but like you're also

03:49:02.380 dating other men while sleeping with that okay i mean you're virgin no no have you done that i date

03:49:08.760 my husband and i only sleep with other people i don't hang out with them wait your husband or i

03:49:12.780 thought you were well whatever it's been 12 years okay yeah uh darkavia no have you ever done that

03:49:19.700 what uh i've had like friends with benefits but i haven't been dating no no like while you were in

03:49:25.540 a friends with benefits have you been like on a date no with a guy i'm not saying you hooked up with

03:49:30.840 the date guy but what about you no i thought you were in an open relationship yes but when i was in

03:49:35.960 the open relationship i get engaged with my boyfriend and i left him wait so question for you when you

03:49:42.040 were in your open relationship with your boyfriend you were having sex with him right with my boyfriend

03:49:46.740 with your boyfriend yes what but you were in an open relationship were you going on dates with other

03:49:52.900 men no literally when i started with my boyfriend i left the other guy so i i doesn't but why so you're

03:49:59.520 you were in an open relationship but you didn't see like go on dates with anybody else no so he was in

03:50:06.080 an open relationship yes for sure yeah so you were loyal to him a hundred percent so you were he was

03:50:12.460 in the open relationship yes okay all right what about you i don't into the mic into the mic oh sorry

03:50:19.040 what was the question again sorry okay you've had friends with benefits while you're with the friends

03:50:22.760 with benefits you'd like go on dates with other men best thing is i don't do friends with benefits

03:50:27.240 like when i'm sleeping with someone it's like an emotional thing okay have you ever been sleeping with

03:50:32.260 somebody and you were going on a date with somebody else no because if i'm sleeping with them i'm dating

03:50:36.560 them okay i'm with them no i call cap on all this but uh even if you guys were you probably wouldn't

03:50:42.780 admit it how about i'm i'm bringing it to my question which is do you think if a woman is sleeping with

03:50:49.760 another guy this kind of you guys can weigh in on this related to the whole like chivalry thing if a

03:50:54.860 woman is sleeping with another guy does she and she goes on a date because she's not in a relationship

03:51:00.340 right she's single but she's got friends with benefits she's dating other people whatever

03:51:04.360 super common does she deserve if she goes on a date with another guy to should the guy pay for the date

03:51:11.800 i think maybe i understand so let me try to answer um let's say i was gonna be on a date with someone

03:51:22.000 that was not my partner i wouldn't expect them to pay because there is no way in hell this is ever

03:51:26.520 going to be anything long term okay anybody you want to weigh in on this it depends if the man want

03:51:34.580 it why not that's not the question it's more just like does she deserve it and like my position is

03:51:42.680 if i'm going on a date with a girl maybe i know maybe i don't know i wouldn't even go on a date with

03:51:47.480 a girl who's sexually involved with another man total turnoff wouldn't want anything to do with her

03:51:51.700 but it occurs to me that that would be totally bogus to go on a date with a girl who like

03:51:58.980 fucked a dude last night and you want me to pay for the date that's crazy but a lot of women move

03:52:05.640 this way so that's what we're trying to get out where this is the way not all women are moving that

03:52:10.900 way but maybe they're moving in other ways that are not deserving of like that sort of chivalry

03:52:16.480 i don't think men should pay for first dates if she's fucking another dude that's what we're

03:52:22.500 trying to get at like you guys have you're you're forsaken your traditional gender roles you don't

03:52:29.040 deserve traditional gender roles from the men's part but then there's guys do you or do you disagree

03:52:36.120 well this is what i'll say is um sorry i lost my train of thought a little bit um

03:52:40.540 can wait sorry you can go i lost my train of thought there's what you just said

03:52:47.560 what's that re-say what you just said oh it's i mean it's just very simple very simple if a woman

03:52:54.700 is sleeping with another guy but she's not in a relationship with him just a friends with benefits

03:52:59.200 she's got a roster she's got a roster and she's going on a date with somebody i don't think she

03:53:05.740 deserves to have her date paid for she just got her guts rearranged earlier the last night some

03:53:10.900 other dudes come is still inside her you want me to you want me to be chivalrous to a girl who's

03:53:16.240 literally leaking out the semen of another dude that's fucking crazy to me that's what you're

03:53:21.180 advocating for that's not what i'm advocating for yes you said men should still be chivalrous

03:53:25.120 well yeah but i don't think paying for the date is always necessarily chivalrous or it doesn't need

03:53:30.800 to be in that category what i mean by that is if i think whoever asked the person out on the date

03:53:35.920 should be the one who pays and i think that if you're more promiscuous it's just an assumption

03:53:41.120 you're probably more likely to be the one that asked someone out on the date

03:53:43.800 i mean that's the whole who who should pay on the date because they're that women don't ask men that on

03:53:51.680 dates generally speaking generally speaking women are not moving that way i think maybe a lot of

03:54:00.200 only fans girls and maybe like sex workers probably do i mean i don't know for sure but

03:54:04.660 i've asked maybe they just don't ask okay here let's go around the table let's go around the table

03:54:09.380 uh of all the first dates you've been on who initiated definitely not me okay how many boyfriend

03:54:17.440 uh how many first dates have you been on uh like two two okay the guy asked yes you haven't been on

03:54:23.760 any dates abigail how many how many dates have you been on you just go over the house and no

03:54:29.680 no no my body count is nearly one okay with the guy that i dated for two years and then i've just

03:54:37.120 like okay how about let me make it simple let me make it a bit more simple uh and actually here i'll

03:54:44.020 come back to you and then we'll go around uh how many dms do you get per day lots how many dms have

03:54:51.560 you had in your entire life thousands thousands yeah how many dms have you sent to a man

03:54:58.200 zero how many dms do you get right now like 20 per day so you've had what hundreds of over a thousand

03:55:07.340 dms 20 times 30 a couple hundred yeah have you ever sent how many dms have you sent to men

03:55:15.260 none yeah abigail how many dms do you get a lot right yeah okay how many dms do you send out

03:55:21.100 zero never sent a dm i've actually slid in guys dms yeah but like what two three times maybe

03:55:28.680 like no like or something i used to slide in guys dms a lot like who zach afron or some shit

03:55:35.420 no it was like youtubers that i would watch when i was like 15 that's a yikes that i thought were

03:55:43.360 funny oh boy okay yeah well you've been in a relationship for ever since social media has

03:55:51.660 pretty much been around so um but we're like we bang other people so you've been on how many first

03:55:57.920 dates do you think uh two two who asked who out um well the guy asked me out but that was so long

03:56:04.940 ago what i would say is like the best example i would have now is if i'm with my partner and

03:56:09.140 we're going to sleep with other people i usually get the other people

03:56:11.400 so like threesomes or what yeah or couples okay all right we're gonna move it on though lucas asking

03:56:18.640 men to bear the responsibility of chivalry actually sky you get to read go ahead oh you get reading

03:56:24.500 privileges go ahead while simultaneously stripping them of authority is why'd you do this to me

03:56:31.160 you're tantamount into the mic into the mic tantamount to slavery today chivalry it's gone

03:56:38.980 i ran out of time today chivalry should only be provided in exchange for ladylike behavior

03:56:45.260 agree disagree neutral i don't have an opinion on that i agree well i mean it's like you want a

03:56:51.040 gentleman you got to be a lady yeah that makes sense right i think on average but i do think that

03:56:56.520 there's a minority of people especially in the way that society is moving towards hypersexual that

03:57:01.060 people just don't care about promiscuity as much

03:57:03.460 okay all right lucas uh should show the bit of that ukrainian kid being grabbed and shoved into a

03:57:12.860 van to be taken the front line to die while the ukrainian women are out clubbing in some foreign

03:57:17.660 country uh shit sandwich deal yeah it's pretty unfortunate what's going on in ukraine equality you

03:57:24.560 know just you got ukrainian women like flee the country they're like parting it up fucking dudes

03:57:30.620 oh i did a tweet about this a couple months ago and then the ukrainian men are being killed anyways

03:57:35.900 good talk how to keep the bloodline going the bloodline going they're gonna keep everything

03:57:40.600 going so wait wait question i got a question for you on that um oh hold on let me see if i can uh

03:57:45.780 i got a really good question on that so the men in ukraine are being like drafted forced to go to war

03:57:52.040 um do you think would you be okay with there like being a draft for women to give birth

03:57:56.180 yeah but can you opt out of it and do a different role on the like boots on the ground

03:58:02.000 instead like if i don't want to have children can i go use my medical skills in ukraine but but well

03:58:07.240 yeah sure then she can't have children but like no like i'm saying what if you said to continue

03:58:11.500 you can't opt out of combat you can't be like oh but i i think that i would be better not in

03:58:15.960 combat they're gonna be like we don't give a shit you're going into combat i thought there's

03:58:20.120 certain like disabilities and stuff like if you're like mentally insane yeah if you if you're

03:58:24.260 disabled and can't have children i guess that would apply but if you're not even can have

03:58:28.200 children just like you're not disabled and can do combat you're going to combat does mental

03:58:32.460 instability count yeah a lot of people try to play it but what happens is they go they send you to a

03:58:38.120 shrink and he evaluates you for 15 minutes and goes oh you're crazy great uh you can hold a rifle on

03:58:43.380 the front lines now get going that's how that's how it works when there's an actual war and invasion

03:58:47.940 something like this you can't go to work you're crazy you don't get to opt out there's like

03:58:52.460 psychological evaluations you can't go to work you're crazy okay whatever okay how about this

03:58:59.040 whatever exemptions a man would get from being like exempt from uh military conscription uh women

03:59:06.760 would also be exempt when it came to giving birth whatever i know although even that's probably not

03:59:12.300 realistic but how about this are you in favor of like would there be like a draft where women um

03:59:17.760 had to be drafted to give birth are you would the woman be supported financially for giving that

03:59:23.300 birth because some women could give birth but they wouldn't be able to actually get paid the

03:59:27.020 soldier on the front line got paid do you have to raise the baby or just give the baby off and

03:59:31.540 then you can yeah do you just like you keep the baby you'd raise that's like okay but who's when

03:59:35.740 you go to the military it's not an 18 year sentence so that's not really well you're going to go as

03:59:40.040 long as they need you for whatever it is they need you for yeah but no one answered my question

03:59:44.540 when you give the baby are you going to be financially supported for that it's not an 18

03:59:48.540 year sentence what if it's like uh you die within a year like that seems a lot a bit worse than like

03:59:53.960 18 is that how you view like raising children that's fine you have to let's just say this you

03:59:58.700 have to raise the child for the same exact period of time that the standard draft tour was and then

04:00:05.000 after that you didn't want the child that would go over to state custody immediately or you could give

04:00:09.360 it up for adoption here's the key right if you gave it up for adoption immediately just so you know

04:00:13.680 100 of babies at birth who are given up for adoption are adopted 100 but are you being paid to support

04:00:21.640 the child because when you go to war you get paid we already answered that yeah yeah you get paid for

04:00:26.020 the same amount of time that a typical tour for a soldier on the front lines would be i think i guess

04:00:31.760 if you only had to take care of the baby for four years sure sure same because it's not usually the

04:00:37.520 four-year she's okay with the birth trap i'm okay with that she's okay with it all right here we

04:00:44.860 we got only for four years then all right yeah bye-bye um brian are you gonna apply to be a birth

04:00:49.960 stud i will be sure i will uh i will volunteer i'll volunteer i'll volunteer just go house to house

04:00:58.440 like the stork or what yeah pretty much although i'm gonna get like screwed over and they're just

04:01:03.360 gonna give me like the the bigger girls you know it's gonna be unfortunate there's fluffer rolls

04:01:07.340 also you could feel i'm not sure about that one but uh that's cool okay we got stifler here finally

04:01:12.180 ask everyone to rate their own looks on the scale of one to ten you can't pick seven starting with

04:01:16.760 you rate your own looks scale of one to ten go ahead i wanted the number seven but i'll go with

04:01:21.920 7.5 ah you gotta it's either six or eight you can't do a 0.5 sorry i'll do an eight okay like myself

04:01:28.760 what about you i don't think there's a perfect 10 um so right now i'd say i've improved my looks a lot

04:01:35.720 i an eight what were you before the bbl and fake boobies and the

04:01:40.280 what is it called the gullet it's just a double chin man the double chin what were you what were you

04:01:47.480 before a six what were you i think a a six yeah okay six to eight all right abigail

04:01:53.260 um one to ten i'd say a solid

04:01:58.280 eight point

04:02:00.140 seven eight point seven there's no there's no decimals it's just just the solid number

04:02:07.640 then eight point seven can we just round that to you eight point seven repeating

04:02:11.260 no like eight point seven seven seven okay no like eight point seven six uh peaches what about

04:02:17.640 you international eight yeah international what about in uh bozeman montana what are you there

04:02:24.040 i i break that scale you're okay i'm just kidding does she break the bozeman montana scale i don't

04:02:30.280 know that's it's definitely an interesting scale for sure are there babes in montana are there

04:02:36.840 babes in montana babes oh man i gotta be careful how i answer this question yeah there's plenty of

04:02:43.960 good-looking women there yeah there's a um i do live in a college town so it's a little bit better

04:02:51.160 than the rest of the state but yeah i've been to bozeman montana it's uh i mean this is mostly like

04:02:57.480 men who come in who are oil riggers and things like that that's true but now it's becoming more of a

04:03:02.520 booming like kind of industrious area so yeah yeah there's there's plenty of plenty of good-looking

04:03:07.720 women there just like there are all over the country nice nice um darkavia 10 okay i should

04:03:17.880 have you go first of all first of all i say 10 because the last two times i was on here i said 10

04:03:22.200 so i'm not going down okay you scoot into the table a bit um what about you um i think i consider

04:03:29.720 myself an eight but i'm funny i do consider myself a little bit of a personality so you're a seven

04:03:35.320 hey a nine with a personality oh i thought i feel like a girl being funny makes her

04:03:41.640 less no just kidding we don't like boring over here i'm kidding didn't you didn't if she thinks

04:03:47.880 she's an oxymoron anyway by saying a woman who's funny that is true hey does it even exist we're not

04:03:55.640 talking to you i mean you exist i'm just kidding i made you laugh but you ever made me laugh once

04:04:01.320 not once and you're supposed to be the tell us a joke what's going on all right are you more like

04:04:07.880 i said i consider myself an eight but if i you know if everybody agrees that i'm kind of funny

04:04:13.560 then i guess i could be a nine but i don't know that's like i'll leave it up to you guys are you

04:04:17.560 funny in the like people laugh with you or am i funny you are she i'd be making her laugh yeah but

04:04:24.040 remember how earlier you said women are completely judgmental but then also lie and then now you got

04:04:28.920 a friend who's like oh yeah of course you're funny like yeah just just lie to me it's fine i don't

04:04:34.360 care okay what about you uh i am honestly i am seven because uh you can't pick seven yeah six or

04:04:41.880 eight okay um eight yes eight okay all right what about you six six okay eight eight all right uh

04:04:51.320 yeah i'm gonna say an eight all right i give myself we're all neutral you're going down brian i just

04:04:57.560 watched one last night where you said you were a six video it was i've been rating myself i used to

04:05:02.840 say six but i gained a bit of weight so i got a downgrade i can help you fix that all right

04:05:09.560 yeah let's do it um yeah i gotta lose some weight but uh andrew what do you uh what do you

04:05:14.920 dad he's a andrew's a 10 look at look at this handsome with the beard only because of the new

04:05:20.600 beard i feel like a 10 on my 10 right do you guys cosign do you guys think like i want every girl here

04:05:27.720 to say that andrew you're a 10 out of 10 so i feel like a 10 how could you say i'm not a 10 if i feel

04:05:32.520 like a 10 press that button don't care about your feelings oh oh nice so they that's why they don't

04:05:39.160 care that you're a four that doesn't seem factual it seems factual okay no one agreed

04:05:48.520 yeah i know but they all lie right remember remember that part that you're the only honest

04:05:53.960 woman in the room all right oh uh final question related to the rating thing uh do you think you'll

04:05:59.960 be better looking in 10 years times i don't know so you're you're 20 do you think you'll be better

04:06:05.240 looking at 30 i hope it only goes up from here i have confidence uh but i mean what do you think

04:06:11.720 yeah okay what about 40 20 years 40 yeah 30 years 50 yes 40 years 60 50 years 70 i'll be hot

04:06:24.280 until a good attractive sorry that's a bad word thank you what about like 100 you're gonna be

04:06:31.800 hotter at yeah i'm gonna be like 109 on the cane the wrinkliest skin you've ever seen and it's gonna

04:06:36.600 be like it's gonna be great i don't think your age or the wrinkles or anything determine it's

04:06:42.120 gonna be the hottest in the graveyard thank you i'm gonna make everyone flip over in their graves

04:06:47.720 just okay by showing up could you just tilt your mic down a little bit what about you uh you're 18

04:06:52.360 better looking in 10 years time at 28 oh yeah 20 years time 38 yeah 40 wait 30 years time 48

04:07:00.440 yes 40 years time 58 yes 50 years time 68 that's your peak you're peaking at 50 hopefully i work out

04:07:13.640 eat healthy oh boy okay this is um okay better better looking in 10 years time at your 18 28 i think so

04:07:22.040 because corinna cough is 28 so in 10 years like she has a decade on me so i think i should look good

04:07:27.960 because she's hot okay can you just tilt your mic down a little bit just like tilt it down yeah

04:07:32.520 perfect uh 20 years time at 38 30 years time 48 that's 20 uh sorry yeah 20 years time 38

04:07:45.160 your math isn't mathing no 20 years time you'll be in 20 years time you'll be 38 yeah 30 years time at 48

04:07:52.600 40 years time at 58 i think i'll probably just get nerfed at like 70 that's when you're i think

04:08:01.320 yeah because i feel like my hair extensions won't stay in at that point because there will be nothing

04:08:05.400 to grip it to like my hair will be so bleached that there will be like nothing to grip it to at that

04:08:10.440 point do you even have lenses in those glasses no because it creates a glare so it's like purposely just

04:08:15.640 for like aesthetic no because like i like them it's that's your look that in fifth grade like i

04:08:20.600 feel like i'm still cute without them i just like purposely like like i like them okay like i'm in

04:08:26.920 like i don't know all right all right uh you're 29 would you think you'll be better looking in 10

04:08:32.440 years time at 39 i will never be as hot and young as i am right now but i'm hopeful sure and then uh

04:08:38.040 going backwards uh do you think you were better looking 10 years ago at 19 versus now 29 surprisingly no

04:08:44.600 this is the best i've ever looked in my life i'm pretty happy with it uh by the way uh the girl

04:08:50.360 who was sitting there scarlet she's uh she's 24

04:08:57.720 do you guys think she was 24 i would have 45 earlier i thought i thought it was for real because

04:09:04.600 you made a joke about calling her 48 that's a rough 24 you know hopefully that's not what i

04:09:12.600 look like in five years no she's gonna watch those guys be nice yeah she's pretty i mean gorgeous she

04:09:16.520 did leave like multiple times anyways okay okay okay i won't be sorry why did she leave anyway

04:09:23.560 i mean she was like on the verge of leaving four different times she was back there crying

04:09:29.960 i personally blame um erwin uh uh andrew oh my goodness maybe it was maybe i don't know i

04:09:39.160 i personally blame adriana you were really mean to her i wasn't asking her those questions in a

04:09:47.160 mean way like i was genuinely like asking her because i was concerned like like i was just

04:09:51.080 like thinking like is she being like trafficked into something that she doesn't want to like does

04:09:55.240 she need help yeah that was she went through some and you guys are poking the bear i was just genuinely

04:10:00.200 confused and i wanted to run i know they dropped her off here i wanted to know more about the cheese

04:10:05.400 racing in wisconsin guys anyway i love that question like like i'm genuinely concerned for her

04:10:11.080 like i okay you sound genuinely concerned i am i she's doing fine i just hope she's doing great

04:10:18.600 all right uh going to you you are uh 27 do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time at 37

04:10:24.760 um i i hope so i i don't plan on getting anything done on my face i want to age gracefully so i'm

04:10:33.240 really hoping it goes well if not i'm dying my hair and being that colorful grandma one day uh 20 what

04:10:39.800 about 20 years time at 47 better looking than now i hope so i'm gonna try to keep working out how about

04:10:45.000 57 i'm just crossing my fingers and hoping for the best yeah okay um and then how about this uh are you

04:10:52.120 better looking now at 27 than you were at 18 i was a lot more fit when i was 18 when you were 18 yeah

04:10:57.720 so better looking more athletic so better body better body yeah i did gain a little bit of weight

04:11:04.680 we have the same problem yeah um but but better face now better face yeah better total package too

04:11:13.720 right better total in total i'm assuming i guess so yeah uh you're 33 better looking in 10 years time

04:11:18.920 at 43 and i think is i still have the same type of life i still has i think yes actually okay uh 20 years

04:11:28.680 time 53 53 if for real i don't fix something about the type or the mentalities or whatever maybe not

04:11:39.880 okay all right and then you're 33 are you better looking now at 33 than you were at 23 10 years ago

04:11:46.440 um and the 23 years is still looking good but the majority has right now that's better better now

04:11:53.160 better now yes you're 22 uh are you do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time at 32

04:11:58.120 absolutely absolutely okay uh 20 years time 42 i think i'm gonna look great until i'm about 60.

04:12:06.520 great until 60. when's the peak for you 50 50s i think my like my late 30s is gonna be my peak that

04:12:15.640 your peak physically yeah all right okay that's why we get gym trainers uh 28 better looking in 10

04:12:25.400 years time at 38 uh no unfortunately we lose one percent of collagen every year at age 20 so no i

04:12:31.720 will not look better in there you go there you go okay and then do you think are you better looking

04:12:35.800 now at 28 than you were at 18 um i would say i'm better looking now just a little bit okay a lot

04:12:44.360 of people say i look the same sure uh brandon 24 better looking in 10 years time yeah i think 34

04:12:50.360 i'm looking better okay and then what about 20 years time 44 44 yeah that's that's probably peak

04:12:57.400 i think all right and then after that it might start to come down like 55 yeah that's that's too

04:13:03.160 far that's too far all right um i'm just to say it man like

04:13:17.720 all right i'll say it i'll say look okay you no i'll say i'll say you guys are gonna you guys are

04:13:23.800 pretty much everybody's gonna be the best looking when they're like in their early 20s sorry maybe

04:13:31.160 men it's a little it can be a little different but no brian they're all gonna be super hot when

04:13:36.600 they're 60 fucking eight years old what's wrong with you thank you yeah they're all saying like

04:13:40.520 i'm gonna be a babe at 78 okay well i'm what i said i'm aging gracefully hold on she actually is

04:13:49.000 okay so we'll talk after the show no i feel like 23 will be my prime 23 like give me five years let

04:13:56.440 me cook wait i thought you said you're gonna be like babe status until 50 or something 60 or well

04:14:00.840 yeah but like i think that will be my peak you didn't ask me when my peak will be you said when

04:14:05.720 my nerf will be i said better looking so the question was you think that your nerf's gonna be

04:14:09.960 when you're 68 years old 70 like at that point you're like oh i might come down just to shred

04:14:17.080 when you're 70 yeah that's what i'm gonna be like completely i'll just say y'all delusional

04:14:26.520 y'all delusional i said aging gracefully you keep ignoring my comments i'm aging gracefully

04:14:32.760 yeah the question is when you're going to be the most attractive the question is actually just are

04:14:37.240 you going to be better looking in 10 years than you are right now it doesn't matter if you age

04:14:41.160 gracefully i'm just hoping i look good like i yeah because like critical yeah i know but what's

04:14:46.040 the question is the question is as long as i'm able to wash my own clothes by that age

04:14:53.160 yeah but nobody's asking if you're still going to look good at in 10 years nobody disputes that many

04:14:58.920 women who are in their 30s and 40s and 50s are good looking the question is just to ask are you going

04:15:03.800 to be more or less good looking in 10 years that's the question not if you're still you could still be a

04:15:09.640 good looking woman in 10 years i have no idea i'm just saying do you think you'll be more or less

04:15:16.280 no i'm sorry yeah probably not that's like uh that's totally irrational right

04:15:22.680 it flies away from all of the evidence that we have wait sky what were you saying sky what were you

04:15:29.400 saying okay go ahead sky wait are you able to scoot this way a little bit you're getting a little out of

04:15:34.520 the fan but uh just to be clear while while she's doing that the the question women can be attractive

04:15:40.120 in their 30s 40s that's not what i'm saying you can still be attractive it is compared like comparing

04:15:47.240 your 48 year old self to your 28 or 18 year old self which is more attractive like do you think

04:15:53.880 you're gonna make more money when you're 48 yes my mom is so hot on of yeah she she do no she should

04:16:05.240 but okay um good times probably i don't know i mean honestly yeah i probably make more money now

04:16:12.600 for being honest but do i think i'm gonna get more attractive here

04:16:17.080 why would you make more money when you were less attractive why would you make more money if you

04:16:24.280 were less attractive wait no i was reiterate reiterating the question before i answered it

04:16:29.000 yeah go ahead kicking you no but i'm hopeful and i'm gonna i'm gonna be delusional i'm gonna

04:16:34.280 tell myself i'm gonna get better looking the confidence is key you gotta like lie to yourself

04:16:38.760 to believe it guys when i'm 70 i'm still just i'm gonna have a better chance of like

04:16:46.600 bagging like a baddie 25 year old i think you got it i mean some chicks are into grandpas

04:16:53.080 i'm so hopeful you don't at least she admits it's like girls like older men if you manage

04:16:58.280 your bag right it's possible okay but like i don't want to be i know i'm very aware that's

04:17:03.480 solution but i don't want to be like scared about my future and be like wait oh the aging thing

04:17:08.920 wait damien do we have the discord because yeah yeah yeah oh let's do it all of your value

04:17:16.280 reduces to down to like how beautiful you think people perceive you as once no no no age comes

04:17:22.440 with bodily functions i feel like if i can't not oh not bodily functions like going pee and stuff i

04:17:28.040 mean like oh physically bodily movements like the older you get the less what do you do you think you

04:17:35.560 die at 40 no you still have plenty of bodily function well what do you mean i yeah and i'm

04:17:41.720 but i'm saying like once you hit 70 and stuff you're not going to be able to do things like

04:17:45.560 how you used to and like even if you're 40 you can't do things if you that you used to do when you

04:17:49.720 were you know 16 20 she's right i'm 40 and i can do everything i used to do when i was 16

04:17:56.600 very unhealthy oh yeah andrew can you do a cartwheel how many wait hold on i don't want to be

04:18:04.520 andrew i'm 35 right i'm 35 okay

04:18:11.240 listen i could have sex multiple times a night now like and once i'm good i'm good i do it once

04:18:23.640 and i'm okay all right leave me alone you know you know what i mean andrew are you uh you just

04:18:29.320 you go in you doing the all-nighters or sorry is that rude do everything that i could do all right

04:18:35.400 okay i don't i'm just give me the push-ups i want to see you get down and do the squash i just want to

04:18:42.920 it all comes down to how you take care of yourself i could still do it it's not a bucket i could still do

04:18:49.000 it it's just i'm kind of like you know it's like when you're young you you know you haven't had as

04:18:54.120 much sex now it's like yeah all right well i mean i disagree about that i i i don't care as much

04:19:01.400 about sex anymore because i've had it i've had a bunch of it now it's like i'm looking for a girl like

04:19:07.320 is she gonna you're trying to settle down no no well maybe but you made this about will she fold

04:19:13.800 my laundry will she bow will she be bow will she bow why are you giving me that looked arcavia you

04:19:21.480 know the bow thing you know you know about it i thought we were over that no i'm not it sounds

04:19:26.680 like andrew was hunting and fishing when he was 16 not having sex so maybe that just wasn't in the

04:19:32.040 cards for him at that moment in time oh okay it's it's a it's just okay i was not always should we show

04:19:43.160 the bow video after after the foundational virtue ethicist you see before you today okay once upon

04:19:49.800 a time i too was a degenerate but not nearly as degenerate as all of you but once upon a time i

04:19:56.040 too so there's hope for me and your damage no probably not but but there was definitely hope for me

04:20:03.320 look i'm uh let's pull up the aging things and then we'll do the bow video

04:20:07.000 i don't know wait oh can we have before after why no okay we'll do let's do the second batch first

04:20:16.600 do you have those ready or we'll do the second batch first thank you for whoever's doing it but

04:20:22.200 if you guys can include the before and after like the original photo and then the just it may it's a

04:20:27.320 little easier for us all right oh he took it okay okay yeah i'm eating i eat up the person's home

04:20:36.360 you look like you would give me cookies thank you i would give you my cookies thank you if you feed birds

04:20:40.520 okay next cutie you're so dirty it's all right it's like i'm scared i'm scared

04:20:51.320 oh my god they nerfed me they nerfed me

04:21:00.200 you you i look like i like cuss out children

04:21:03.320 you do look like you work at like the front desk of high school i know and i like cuss out children

04:21:09.480 i'm like don't run in the halls like you're the lady who writes the late slips it's giving the

04:21:14.920 turtle from you guys so dirty you could have chosen like the other two are like smiling you have me

04:21:21.240 like this you look like you're the secretary at like the third worst i have the worst rbm

04:21:27.000 next you guys should are dirty you're a couple okay so this is okay wait you look good she looks

04:21:32.920 great i love that all right next oh my god

04:21:37.560 that's a yikes i can't tell the difference

04:21:41.240 next i'm scared

04:21:46.040 i'm that cute grandma you look so cute i'm the one you bump into at the casino i love that

04:21:52.360 fun grandma abuela the casino grandma all right next abuelita

04:21:56.840 abuela okay casino grandma number two

04:22:06.440 milk all right next yeah okay you look like the type of

04:22:10.120 chick who wouldn't have let me play my friends nintendo like that's i'm just saying i'm just gonna

04:22:14.360 throw it next oh god oh my god why does he kind of look like trump do you see it you look like

04:22:23.640 you're retiring in san diego hey you look good good next okay and then we'll go to the other one

04:22:31.160 really quick all right wow that's fun that's good that's good good times about it all right

04:22:39.160 all right what is this next what exactly are they doing okay guys next wait what age is this

04:22:51.320 like 20 30 years probably next what i don't i can't tell the difference 40 years next

04:22:58.600 time i detect no no next okay next whoa okay next hold on wait go back that's not that go back

04:23:15.160 you look like voldemore i was gonna say the mona lisa i'm just kidding oh yes yeah very

04:23:22.440 very real you know what yeah she looks like the mona lisa very refined very art very cute

04:23:27.000 very demure all right next all right next whoa whoa y'all okay next who who did that oh my

04:23:41.320 honestly older you kind of look like me now

04:23:43.960 next oh boy next of course make it a little make it bigger chad of course of course all right

04:23:58.600 all right that's good true all that's good all right uh let's see here let's do a quick twitch

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04:24:33.080 the stream and uh let's do the bow video really quick since i brought it up because these girls were

04:24:38.440 laughing so this is a video i took of my ex-girlfriend i dumped her uh she deserved it let's uh go ahead

04:24:45.960 and pull up the bow video go ahead and uh play it for us oh boom huge bow did you see the bow that's

04:24:53.160 i you know she did that naturally but the other things i had to train so okay there you know she has

04:25:00.120 to do my laundry and then you know this is after i got home from a long podcast episode so she had the

04:25:06.600 dinner ready ready uh she opened my beer for me um i had to scold her for those tomatoes because that's

04:25:16.360 just on i don't like tomatoes and they were just tomatoes and play let's see the bow really quick

04:25:22.600 just one more time boom huge back look at that angle just so this is my expectation

04:25:31.000 for a girl for a girlfriend beautiful he's beautiful yeah yeah so you're moving to japan

04:25:41.880 no i i want to make the widest woman ever do why why you why you say they're japanese what what kind

04:25:47.560 that's kind of racist that could be that could be korean no because they they bow they do that yeah

04:25:53.720 they do all that and there's other asian countries too okay well over there he's moving over there that's

04:25:58.840 what i'm saying is he moving over there no no no no no don't move no no don't move don't go

04:26:03.320 so far you have to be away from saying you have to be here why no i am going to spain and i will

04:26:12.040 conquer the spanish i will have these spanish women bowing like you wouldn't believe the best bows okay

04:26:19.720 the best uh-huh we women's in spain we love it they're gringos

04:26:23.720 you don't love i love i do i love gringos yes i love it i'm a gringo there you go yeah

04:26:32.520 i've heard fives are like an eight over there in asia the what fives are like an eight in asia

04:26:39.080 maybe if you're a white guy there you go i'm an eight in somewhere cambodia thailand have you seen

04:26:46.120 how like um like when you go to like india how they treat like white women how they've never seen

04:26:52.840 them have you been to india no i've seen like tiktoks how like they all like pull out their phones and

04:26:57.880 they'll like record because they've never seen it before yeah just some advice for i guess any don't

04:27:03.480 go to india don't do it don't go to india don't go right don't do it what why sorry sorry sorry what

04:27:09.720 what yeah i mean for a telemarketing job is what he's talking about they'll go there for a

04:27:15.640 telemarketing job i thought it would be funny for like a tiktok clip for you to go to india you're

04:27:21.560 gonna go to india because like imagine it's like oh yeah like all these guys want me and then like

04:27:25.800 getting a funny-ass clip and then they just like you call them yeah that's how you can't leave because

04:27:31.400 they always go super viral every single clip also on the first date i think a girl should do my

04:27:42.840 laundry on the first date yeah have your house cleaned everything oh what do you mean am i paying

04:27:50.280 for the date oh no i'm paying for the date i'm paying for everything wait that's like every gringo

04:27:55.080 this year be latina and they see she's on board she's on board she wants to fold my laundry not

04:28:01.800 the first date though that's like a third date test no that's a first date is still pretty good

04:28:06.840 it's still good that's it you have someone over on the first date sure why not what if they're like

04:28:11.240 a murderer or something what if they're crazy she don't got hands most men want to come over on

04:28:15.560 the first date most men want girls to come over on the first date because you don't know if girls

04:28:19.560 are crazy but all brian sees is what if i'm the murderer too exactly that too

04:28:25.160 he probably is a murderer what if you guys like both try to kill you pull up and you both try

04:28:28.920 to kill each other would you guys go to someone's house on the first date that would be fun it turns

04:28:33.400 into a cake it sounds fun uh yeah good good talk um yeah also like i i actually have a test like

04:28:43.560 i do have a laundry machine at my house like washing machine dryer but i also have a washboard

04:28:49.880 so just to like test if she's actually like like a ride or die i'll she she has to use the the

04:28:57.720 wash she will do it she will do it this is the one right here

04:29:02.600 i'm so proud to be like this like hang it up on a girls please take care of the mains she yeah

04:29:08.440 she's gonna iron it she passes the test she's gonna iron it when it's yeah she has to churn

04:29:12.440 butter also she's coming back she doesn't churn butter she ain't the one she's gonna come back

04:29:18.280 tomorrow i promise look if she won't if she won't find somebody who will if she wanted to she would

04:29:28.200 absolutely she also needs to make me a quilt

04:29:30.760 she's not gonna leave you want me to leave you're spanish do you know how to make moccasins

04:29:37.720 and i am latino but i grew up all my life in spain so both things i know do you know how to make adobe

04:29:44.760 brick adobe brick adobe brick like the shingles for roofing

04:29:50.520 if she doesn't know how to make adobe i don't want so you want her to build you a house that's

04:29:59.400 what you want yes like no you buy the house like the make it a family the notebook or wait what is

04:30:04.120 it called yeah the notebook he wants bob the building you want ryan gosling to build you a

04:30:09.160 house is that what you're saying ryan gosling to build me a house i want female ryan gosling to

04:30:14.200 build me a house too that sounds lovely trans i'll settle for trans ryan gosling just trans oh ouch

04:30:20.280 no ryan gosling is ryan gosling yeah okay perfect timing yeah um all right good talk uh

04:30:28.840 i don't know do you guys think that's fair though like the whole bow thing

04:30:33.240 that's it depends how he treats me if he earns it yeah so he has to earn the bow yes yeah if he

04:30:39.160 treats me nice then i respect brian's tiny peen subbed on twitch w yeah thank you thank you

04:30:46.360 i have to love and respect you to do that yeah yeah you know it's actually advice for men

04:30:54.520 here's what you do okay if you're bringing over a girl after you know first time she's coming over

04:30:59.240 the house already have your laundry in the dryer so it's already dry you're gonna be a nice you're

04:31:07.240 gonna be a gentleman you're gonna be a nice guy but you you're you're not gonna make her do

04:31:12.440 everything she just has to fold it second second time she does everything but first time you make

04:31:18.760 her fold it and if she does it she's a keeper do you take it out of the laundry no she has to take

04:31:24.360 it out so how does she know it's in there though i i i'm like hey i need to show you something i walk

04:31:29.880 over the laundry room and then i just like i look at her i don't say anything i just glance at her and

04:31:36.280 then i exit the laundry room and then i just stay i just don't even tell her i don't tell her what to

04:31:41.880 do i just let nature take its course i exactly i just observe and see she just kind of naturally

04:31:49.720 goes for it you know and that's a real woman but that's a real one i can't agree i can't agree

04:31:58.360 she's great she is there you go but spanish there's been situations where i've clean cooked and done

04:32:04.760 everything for a guy and then one time i with one of my exes i cooked a full like meal huge meal

04:32:11.880 i ended up finding out he threw everything away because the next day he had somebody over while i

04:32:16.840 was like home sleeping on a school night it's a thought that counts like one time i had a girl

04:32:21.960 you know those costco chickens it would have been really cool if he had fed it oh yeah i had a girl

04:32:26.920 both of them shred the entire costco chicken for me and then i just never ate it oh and then i

04:32:36.040 threw it out but it was a thought that counted yeah i guess so true yeah

04:32:43.080 it's not good once it's been in the refrigerator for two days

04:32:46.200 would you only date a virgin because you're a virgin um that's a great question are they are

04:32:55.880 they born again or they're not born again you can't i don't even yeah let's say they're born again

04:33:03.000 um when it comes to it's definitely something that i would keep in mind when choosing a partner

04:33:10.360 uh but at the same time i have dated both virgins and non-virgins but the

04:33:17.880 virgins have to be committed to not having sex till marriage if that makes sense yes let me say

04:33:26.120 what i have to talking to you if you want a virgin woman raise a hair raise a hair take you yourself

04:33:34.200 what did she say raise not raise her uh build her is what she's saying build a virgin no like if

04:33:43.880 you're gonna do you cannot do that no no no so what she's saying i'm sorry i mean wait let's get the

04:33:51.960 mic closer to the edge yeah when you want somebody like in the characteristics you want it why you not

04:33:58.280 taking somebody i don't know from another part of the world you know united states doesn't exist

04:34:03.080 something like that i mean they do exist and it's funny because i actually got on this podcast

04:34:10.680 shout out to rachel wilson because she saw a couple of the videos that i had posted on this exact topic

04:34:17.960 and what's funny is there definitely are a lot out there at least i figured that out ever since

04:34:24.200 posting that video but it's true that you can definitely find a lot more in other countries and

04:34:30.200 i have a question that's a question you can definitely go one thing one thing um actually

04:34:35.960 i think you had posted some stories a couple days ago and i'm not gonna say who but a girl reached out

04:34:41.000 to me who she's like i'm a virgin i want to be on the show like she was on the show that's perfect

04:34:47.560 she's trying to be on the show not to be on the show but to get at you fantastic i love it

04:34:51.800 yeah that's exactly how the question for yeah aren't you okay so i know some guys are worried

04:34:58.280 or females are worried that like what women like men that are more experienced i guess when women are

04:35:03.960 virgins so i guess like doing less of the work i guess but are you do you ever feel like insecure in

04:35:09.640 that way about like being a virgin and not being able to know what you're doing for sure so i felt

04:35:14.760 insecure about it for a really long time especially i felt more insecure around men 100 because men

04:35:22.760 when you tell them that you're a virgin they look at you like you're really weird and one of the

04:35:29.960 i would say the traits that guys look for when it comes to judging if another guy is successful is how

04:35:36.120 many men he's gotten with so it's like the opposite of body count if anything you know guys will say oh

04:35:43.400 you know you've slept with 50 women that's awesome you're you're good at your job you're successful

04:35:49.160 if that makes sense but when it comes to the female side of things i have had a little bit of that before

04:35:57.160 but most of the women that i look for are also christian and so they hopefully will value that just as

04:36:05.080 much so that's yeah that's my situation honestly man so you're saying you would maybe date a girl who's

04:36:12.120 not a virgin i would if she was practicing christian and she had repented of her previous

04:36:20.920 sins hold on i gotta i gotta come in here man yeah no go ahead you're gonna help me lose weight i'm

04:36:27.640 gonna help you not settle for a woman who ain't a very bro you're you're tall you're handsome guy

04:36:34.840 you're ripped you're shredded you're a giga chad you're a virgin the goal is definitely don't settle

04:36:42.840 for less than the virgin i am going to be every single girl that you come into contact with has

04:36:47.960 to pass through me before she gets through the screening i am your matchmaker i'm gonna i'm gonna

04:36:53.720 screen these girls bro first question are you a virgin no next that's out that's gonna be like this

04:37:00.200 it's gonna be like where is it it's gonna be uh peace out peace out you too homie also to the

04:37:05.480 spanish speakers no i i definitely that is the ideal scenario i would say it is not very common and in

04:37:18.440 fact it's very difficult which is why you know i mentioned earlier that's one of the first questions

04:37:22.760 that i'll even ask women like on a first date is i will just say are you a virgin and even in

04:37:29.640 christian circles it's not super common nowadays first date you should ask that before you even go

04:37:36.040 on the date oh you're saying i should have dm'd in that wait wait how do you meet them um i meet

04:37:43.160 girls through online dating and uh do they dm you i get dm'd a lot on instagram so you've been on dates

04:37:53.240 with girls who've dm'd you correct oh bro you have all the power there you can ask you can ask 30

04:37:59.400 questions before you even hop on a call with this girl before you even go on a date are you a virgin

04:38:03.960 question one no blocked yeah that's uh that that hasn't happened in the dm conversations but like

04:38:10.040 what if they lie i'm gonna give you brian's secret list of questions 27 questions that you're going to

04:38:18.040 ask and it's going to be a list it's going to be a girlfriend application you are gonna send it to

04:38:24.520 them okay you're gonna send it to them they got to fill it out and then send it back and then also

04:38:29.640 i from here on out dude i am your i every single time going towards this without getting through me

04:38:38.760 bro it's a you got i'm telling you man you got that sounds great to me that that's perfect

04:38:44.360 i'm cock blocking that is the ideal situation i'm like the fat friend

04:38:50.040 the defensive fat friend i do have to lose some weight but i'm just saying we're gonna get you a

04:38:55.720 virgin bro i know a couple i know a few i got a girl for you actually i got a girl for you brian's

04:39:00.760 got the hookups apparently that's exactly why i came here i journeyed all the way here just for

04:39:05.320 brian to hook me up give us a double bike with a with a virgin yo chat oh yeah that's gonna get it

04:39:10.360 that's gonna get it that's gonna get her what are you talking you're gonna date a born again

04:39:16.040 you're dating a virgin you're dating a virgin and it's my mission in life to make that happen

04:39:22.040 fantastic i love it you're you're as committed to this maybe not more than i am which is i am your

04:39:27.320 penis whoa that's way off that was kind of weird excuse me well yeah we already heard of the trans

04:39:36.440 part okay everyone i definitely do i i very much consider uh body count to be uh something that i

04:39:45.880 take into consideration very heavily very very heavily i pretty much think that it's sort of a

04:39:52.680 half-life situation or if somebody has one it sort of takes off 50 and then it's like 25 after that so

04:40:01.000 if it's three and above it's it's it's pretty i got you pretty rough easy i think after this show

04:40:06.520 he'll find the virgin i've got you multiple virgins within a fortnight done one more done okay all right

04:40:14.600 let's talk about body count though since you brought it up going around the table do you think men are

04:40:18.680 insecure if they care about the woman's body count starting with you go ahead uh yes and no i i don't know

04:40:26.760 i don't know how to explain it with your chest tell us how you really feel go ahead well personally

04:40:31.960 i do i care i i wouldn't prefer like i would prefer to someone have like a lower body count versus like

04:40:39.240 i've fucked 700 people you know it's like whoa like what are you maybe giving me i would prefer a

04:40:45.880 lower one i also like doing things with someone for the first time i feel like it's i don't know i'm

04:40:52.360 sorry okay yeah do you your thoughts on like do you think men are insecure if they care about the

04:40:57.800 woman's body count no okay abby i don't know what was the question

04:41:10.120 um can you repeat it no no you tell me what it was

04:41:20.760 do i care if a man's body count is high

04:41:27.720 i'm getting some audio andrew are we get do you have any audio issues from us andrew on your end

04:41:32.600 some people in the chat are saying audio issues they're probably trolling there's nothing on my end

04:41:38.520 okay um guys just refresh the chat i guess uh people are saying chat the audio is fine so um

04:41:46.120 what was it no do you think guys are insecure if they care about a woman's body count i don't know

04:41:55.080 stop looking at your titties in the screen and pay attention to the show go ahead this whole show

04:42:02.040 she's fucking addressing her titties oh i gotta make sure they're popping out enough come on abigail

04:42:06.520 okay okay you gotta pay attention no because i'm okay self-advertising because i don't know

04:42:10.520 abigail adhd abigail yeah no because um i don't know some of these words you guys are saying if i'm

04:42:17.640 going to be completely honest oh like the like no like what what was the word you were saying like for

04:42:26.200 like 20 minutes i don't know any of that conversation that you guys said i don't know what that one was

04:42:32.520 about but um no okay but guys i dyed my hair blonde for a reason anyways um no i don't know

04:42:43.640 because my body counts only once what's the reason what was like stereotypes like you're normally kind

04:42:52.360 of like she's a dumb you know i guess she's saying she's a blonde anyways content that's all

04:42:57.720 blonde you're dumb no they're like it's like stereotypes you know wait so you're not a natural

04:43:02.920 blonde and you're calling blondes dumb no is that what's going on i'm saying it's stereotypes don't

04:43:08.680 offend him i'm so offended super offended super offended okay uh do you think men are insecure if they

04:43:17.480 care about body count that's a question um well i haven't like dealt with

04:43:22.840 men caring about the body count because mine's only one so like when i tell them about it they're

04:43:29.560 like how about this what if you had a girlfriend who had like a body count of 20 and like she

04:43:33.960 encountered problems like she she would tell guys and the guys would lose interest do you think that

04:43:38.280 would be insecure of the guy um no because i'd probably not be friends with that girl because

04:43:46.280 she's a whore oh i mean uh because she's oh um is that been around hey you know that's the word um

04:43:55.880 yeah just because brian like i like being friends with people with like this

04:44:00.680 meant to say strumpet i meant to say strumpet like i like being friends with people with like the same

04:44:04.760 values as me and like around like the same age as me and i feel like being 18 and having like that

04:44:10.120 many bodies is kind of crazy like that's like one every year wait so don't you do only fans well yeah

04:44:16.120 but that doesn't mean you have to actively so what are your values would you say damien can you

04:44:23.480 uh open the a little i don't know you you value keeping your body count low yeah for sure very

04:44:31.320 interesting you like to be around people who have your same values like the man that i dated for two

04:44:36.600 years i literally made him wait seven months until i had sex with him like he was like oh let's do it i

04:44:43.880 was like no you can wait and then i turned 16 and i was like okay i'm 16 now i guess but i wouldn't

04:44:50.840 do it until i turned 16 because i was like that's weird i'm 15 that's weird i'm not gonna tell my kid

04:44:55.080 i lost at 15 then they will think it's okay to do it at 15 i was like that's too young so i thought 16

04:45:00.680 was okay but i don't know that doesn't make any sense but okay uh here we'll get everybody else's

04:45:06.280 answers what about you do you think men are insecure if they care about a woman's body count i'm gonna be

04:45:10.040 honest on the paper i had said yes it's insecure but if i think about like a guy um if i meet a guy

04:45:18.120 i don't really care like i don't that's none of my business i i don't care so i don't think i don't

04:45:23.880 think he he should be nosy enough to be like what's your body count no don't you don't think that's a

04:45:28.520 question that guys should ask their significant other it's just like am i gonna ask you like i mean

04:45:34.920 obviously i don't like a guy that's burnt that's burned out no and i expect him to be like i don't

04:45:39.640 want a girl that's burned out either but i just i'm not gonna go and poke at it and be like how

04:45:44.680 many you know broads have you been with like i'm just that's very interesting i feel like that is a

04:45:52.280 should be a pretty much mandatory no it's i mean it is important but it's just you you you're i don't

04:45:57.720 know some some guys i don't know i just what's your answer so they hate absolutely your experience

04:46:05.480 but when they taste and you experience this is the real true

04:46:14.200 yes they hate

04:46:18.520 they hate when you have experience or whatever you can come in but when they taste you experience

04:46:27.880 they like it when oh okay so she's saying she's saying that they say that they value purity but

04:46:34.280 they actually like experience experience when you show it to them yeah but you know what they really

04:46:39.880 like if if you get the experience from them and then you still become experienced not really not

04:46:45.640 really not really in my country it's not like that but in my country yes in my country not like that

04:46:50.600 more experience more spicy we are spain spain has the same values a catholic country it's been this

04:46:57.400 way forever and ever like what are you talking about yes it does has the same values they still

04:47:01.960 value body count they still don't like promiscuity like that's pure cope pure cope but don't you think

04:47:08.760 the men that are enjoying you having experience are the ones that are looking for the hookup they're

04:47:16.920 not the ones that are looking for a long-term relationship why we have to thinking about

04:47:23.720 topics doesn't exist why you have to say oh yes i just i've been with one and after when you are in

04:47:30.600 the action you are you have you have to be with ten thousand that doesn't matter so doesn't matter in

04:47:38.680 your mind maybe the girl has ten thousands but in the moment do you like it what happened i don't

04:47:45.640 understand that but yes some men's matter like you really funny so in other countries i hear this

04:47:53.160 all the time from women they go well american women will come here and they'll say oh people in my

04:47:57.800 country don't even care like the men in my country they don't even care about body count and then

04:48:01.880 europeans will come here and be like oh in my country the men there don't even care about body count

04:48:06.360 it's all hope hope i'm just gonna like i'm just gonna point this out it's literally prostitute cope

04:48:12.760 when they say that it's like obviously in america men care about it obviously in spain they care about

04:48:19.320 it in france they care about it in england they care about it but for some reason even even women

04:48:25.960 from the u.s that go to a european country be like oh yeah men in the united states but they don't care

04:48:31.400 about it at all it's like yeah they do they do care about like they they really do i don't i don't know

04:48:36.920 where this comes from like why i don't know why this phenomenon happens i respect your point i

04:48:42.600 respect your point absolutely but my experience from my own experience i don't have to even talking

04:48:49.720 for how many men's i've been but when they taste me oh nice so this is double double yeah they like

04:48:57.400 i'm sure that they like having sex with you but that doesn't mean that they would prefer that you

04:49:00.920 hadn't had sex with anybody except them yes but you know what i'm saying yes but you don't have to

04:49:05.800 show that person you for real you have a lot of experience it depends how you're acting what is

04:49:11.160 matter if you have a really good experience to have sex what is matter i don't know well you will you

04:49:18.200 will you will you will be staying with my past you will be staying with my past or with me

04:49:23.080 i don't understand oh well let me explain it to you so the thing is is um this is something

04:49:28.760 biologically hardwired so the the thing of paternity tests is that they're new this is a brand new

04:49:34.920 technology how in the world would you know if a child was yours before the invention of the paternity

04:49:42.120 test well you would know because the woman was chased she was pure she was a virgin you were the

04:49:48.280 only one she'd ever been with so if that was the case they would even test for it right they would

04:49:53.000 test to make sure the hymen was intact she was a virgin why because it assured paternity it assured

04:49:59.240 that your child was actually yours so the thing is is like now now that may not be the case right

04:50:06.680 now what

04:50:16.200 now

04:50:18.920 the comment

04:50:19.800 y te digo

04:50:24.560 que eres una vergüenza

04:50:25.920 perdona

04:50:30.440 perdona, perdona

04:50:31.440 yo no soy una vergüenza

04:50:32.480 para absolutamente nadie

04:50:34.020 si la vergüenza

04:50:35.040 la tienes cargada

04:50:35.820 en la frente

04:50:36.320 ese es tu problema

04:50:37.380 alright

04:50:43.020 we

04:50:43.700 take this break

04:50:46.360 here at Telemundo

04:50:47.480 do we finish

04:50:54.320 going around the table

04:50:55.340 we're on her

04:50:57.600 do you think men are insecure

04:50:59.740 if they care about body count

04:51:00.620 I think it depends

04:51:02.260 on the guy

04:51:02.960 if it's

04:51:03.740 for example

04:51:04.200 your situation

04:51:05.060 your body count is zero

04:51:07.620 so it's fair for you

04:51:08.880 to say

04:51:09.180 I care about

04:51:10.020 what someone's body count is

04:51:10.680 his body count is 100

04:51:11.680 and he doesn't want

04:51:12.880 to date a girl

04:51:13.660 who has a body count

04:51:14.720 higher than 10

04:51:15.420 then that's just

04:51:16.100 being a hypocrite

04:51:16.900 yes

04:51:18.120 I really like

04:51:19.340 how you said that

04:51:20.120 I think it just depends

04:51:21.180 it depends who you are

04:51:22.560 why couldn't you

04:51:23.360 break that down for me

04:51:24.480 expect someone to have none

04:51:25.660 why couldn't you

04:51:26.880 break that down for me

04:51:27.760 I understand that better

04:51:28.980 exactly

04:51:29.760 so I think it just depends

04:51:32.880 you just can't be

04:51:33.760 a hypocrite about it

04:51:34.640 it doesn't mean

04:51:35.380 I don't think

04:51:35.760 that's hypocritical

04:51:36.900 how is it not

04:51:37.880 how is it not hypocritical

04:51:39.480 but how is it

04:51:40.120 not hypocritical

04:51:40.840 that's like

04:51:40.860 why would I expect

04:51:42.100 you to do something

04:51:43.360 when I couldn't do it

04:51:44.180 myself

04:51:44.600 yeah

04:51:45.340 so let's say

04:51:47.340 how about this

04:51:48.200 would it still be

04:51:48.880 hypocritical

04:51:49.480 if the guy

04:51:50.380 he has a high body count

04:51:51.900 but he's no longer

04:51:53.820 promiscuous

04:51:54.680 just

04:51:55.820 when you have a high body count

04:51:57.280 doesn't mean you're

04:51:57.740 promiscuous

04:51:58.320 I mean if you've

04:52:00.940 fucked a hundred people

04:52:01.880 it doesn't always

04:52:02.020 I mean it can mean that

04:52:03.100 you were promiscuous

04:52:03.900 at some point

04:52:04.580 but

04:52:06.000 but so okay

04:52:07.640 let's say

04:52:08.400 he

04:52:09.020 is

04:52:10.140 you know

04:52:10.960 he's 30

04:52:12.220 he

04:52:13.120 ran through a bunch of chicks

04:52:14.760 when he was like

04:52:15.520 in his early 20s

04:52:16.440 past five years

04:52:18.620 he's been in like

04:52:19.440 long-term relationships

04:52:20.440 dates one percent of the time

04:52:21.680 and

04:52:23.880 do you think

04:52:25.660 it's hypocritical then

04:52:26.500 yeah

04:52:27.380 why

04:52:29.500 why would it be hypocritical

04:52:30.360 because what

04:52:30.700 if a girl has the same

04:52:32.260 amount of bodies as him

04:52:33.400 then it should be fair

04:52:35.100 it shouldn't have to matter

04:52:36.440 so he should have to date her

04:52:37.540 what if she's no longer

04:52:38.900 promiscuous too

04:52:39.600 like they both had a value change

04:52:40.760 that's what I'm trying to say

04:52:41.440 what if they both had the same

04:52:42.740 value change

04:52:43.000 oh he could still not want to date her

04:52:44.760 because of her past

04:52:46.080 yeah that would be hypocritical

04:52:47.980 no it wouldn't be hypocritical

04:52:49.040 it is hypocritical

04:52:49.880 because they're going through

04:52:51.400 the same situation

04:52:52.360 but he's expecting

04:52:53.260 wait

04:52:53.720 so

04:52:54.640 hold on

04:52:56.160 so if I

04:52:57.240 hang on

04:52:57.660 I just want to make sure

04:52:58.440 I got this right

04:52:58.960 if my five-year-old

04:53:01.040 wants to smoke

04:53:02.300 and says

04:53:03.480 dad I want to smoke

04:53:04.520 and I say

04:53:04.920 you can't smoke

04:53:05.720 am I a hypocrite

04:53:08.680 yeah

04:53:09.540 yeah

04:53:10.160 that's hypocrisy

04:53:11.840 if you said

04:53:13.960 you can't smoke

04:53:14.860 so hang on

04:53:15.780 so if a really fat person

04:53:16.960 is on a treadmill

04:53:17.640 and looks over

04:53:18.640 at another really fat person

04:53:19.700 and says

04:53:20.000 hey if you lose weight

04:53:20.940 it would be really good for you

04:53:22.160 that person's a hypocrite

04:53:23.220 yes

04:53:23.780 yeah that's not

04:53:25.580 what hypocrisy means

04:53:26.660 hypocrisy is

04:53:28.700 that's a different situation

04:53:30.940 though

04:53:31.200 we're talking about

04:53:31.940 if we're in the same situation

04:53:33.300 if we're the same age

04:53:34.360 we have the same body count

04:53:35.560 why should it matter

04:53:36.900 if my body count

04:53:38.100 is the same as yours

04:53:39.060 wait wait wait wait

04:53:39.880 that's not the same

04:53:40.660 as hypocrisy

04:53:41.520 wait

04:53:41.840 there's nothing hypocritical

04:53:43.280 about me

04:53:43.900 having the exact same situation

04:53:45.580 as you

04:53:46.020 and then saying

04:53:46.960 my preference still

04:53:48.100 even though

04:53:48.840 I'm in the same situation

04:53:49.840 as you

04:53:50.260 is that I have a woman

04:53:51.600 with a lower body count

04:53:52.400 that's not hypocritical

04:53:53.560 I got this really easily here

04:53:55.280 really simple

04:53:56.380 my current

04:53:58.180 state of affairs

04:53:59.400 I have a penis

04:54:01.440 is it hypocritical

04:54:03.280 for me

04:54:03.680 to not want

04:54:05.020 to date somebody

04:54:05.980 with a penis

04:54:07.340 didn't you say

04:54:09.760 you would take that

04:54:10.440 how is that even

04:54:10.620 don't bring that up

04:54:12.600 okay

04:54:12.860 is it hypocritical

04:54:14.460 I

04:54:15.000 my current

04:54:16.440 my current status

04:54:18.360 is as somebody

04:54:20.020 who is in possession

04:54:21.500 of a penis

04:54:22.800 whoa that sounds weird

04:54:25.040 you're just going down

04:54:26.640 the hole

04:54:26.940 am I a hypocrite

04:54:27.720 am I a hypocrite

04:54:30.340 for not wanting

04:54:31.200 to date somebody

04:54:32.120 who has a penis

04:54:33.580 no but those are totally different

04:54:35.200 that's not how you're wired

04:54:36.640 well

04:54:36.880 men and women are different

04:54:38.500 but even

04:54:39.080 even then

04:54:39.860 it's not

04:54:40.920 it's not hypocrisy

04:54:42.220 yeah hypocrisy

04:54:43.700 the idea of hypocrisy

04:54:45.680 is that you're

04:54:46.120 pretending something

04:54:47.020 so it's pretending

04:54:48.220 to have a value

04:54:49.120 which you don't have

04:54:49.920 so if you actually

04:54:51.100 have a high body count

04:54:52.220 but you have a value

04:54:53.720 that having a high body count

04:54:54.960 is bad

04:54:55.520 so therefore

04:54:56.540 other people

04:54:57.740 shouldn't have a high body count

04:54:59.020 you're not being a hypocrite

04:55:00.220 that's not hypocrisy

04:55:00.840 how is that not a high body count

04:55:02.140 hypocrite

04:55:02.800 you're saying you have values

04:55:04.400 Andrew can I ask you a question

04:55:04.420 would this be

04:55:05.340 what's that

04:55:05.760 Andrew let me ask you a question

04:55:07.180 would this be hypocrisy

04:55:08.560 a guy

04:55:09.840 says

04:55:10.880 that

04:55:11.900 he

04:55:12.580 doesn't want to sleep

04:55:14.160 with

04:55:15.220 women who

04:55:16.840 have blonde hair

04:55:18.520 but then he sleeps

04:55:20.040 with women who have

04:55:20.800 blonde hair

04:55:21.340 is that

04:55:21.860 would that be hypocrisy

04:55:23.140 yeah because now

04:55:24.240 he's pretending

04:55:24.960 that he has a value

04:55:26.740 he doesn't have

04:55:27.700 so hypocrisy

04:55:29.440 the idea behind hypocrisy

04:55:31.000 is that you're pretending

04:55:32.000 a value

04:55:32.640 you're pretending

04:55:33.320 a value forward

04:55:34.180 so

04:55:35.380 I wish you would really

04:55:36.500 stop speaking Spanish

04:55:37.680 in the back

04:55:38.120 it's very

04:55:38.420 it's not

04:55:40.080 Telemundo TV

04:55:41.060 ICE will be here soon

04:55:42.100 so anyway

04:55:42.860 that's a stupid ass joke

04:55:44.540 real quick

04:55:44.820 I'm joking

04:55:46.280 relax

04:55:46.800 I'm just trying to say

04:55:48.120 like the cross talk

04:55:49.100 super distracting

04:55:49.840 so anyway

04:55:51.040 the point is

04:55:52.920 is like

04:55:53.260 yeah there has to be

04:55:53.980 some pretense in there

04:55:54.960 right

04:55:55.200 you're pretending

04:55:55.940 some set of values

04:55:56.880 so hypocrisy

04:55:58.100 would be the act

04:55:59.220 of pretending

04:55:59.740 to have beliefs

04:56:00.600 or qualities

04:56:01.100 that you don't

04:56:01.540 actually have

04:56:02.180 so for instance

04:56:03.120 I could be a person

04:56:04.260 who murdered

04:56:04.800 and then say

04:56:05.820 look

04:56:06.220 you shouldn't murder

04:56:07.340 right

04:56:08.240 I do have the value

04:56:09.740 that you shouldn't murder

04:56:10.580 even if I have murdered

04:56:11.760 that's not hypocrisy

04:56:13.540 people use it

04:56:14.200 incorrectly all the time

04:56:15.880 can't wait

04:56:17.000 for my

04:56:17.500 oh sorry

04:56:18.220 cat so donated

04:56:19.620 200

04:56:20.300 yo cat

04:56:20.780 thank you so much

04:56:21.520 your past is part of you

04:56:23.100 body count matters

04:56:24.760 304 apologists

04:56:27.180 are a key

04:56:27.880 cope

04:56:28.340 yo cat

04:56:30.200 W's in the chat for cat

04:56:31.340 she's part of our discord

04:56:32.060 thank you cat

04:56:32.600 really appreciate it

04:56:33.280 thank you for the TTS

04:56:33.900 here

04:56:34.320 how about a couple

04:56:35.220 clarifying questions

04:56:36.080 let's say

04:56:37.840 there's a woman

04:56:39.300 who

04:56:40.440 is not a professional

04:56:42.200 athlete

04:56:42.640 but she wants to

04:56:44.140 date a guy

04:56:44.980 who is a professional

04:56:46.440 athlete

04:56:46.880 is she a hypocrite

04:56:48.420 it would be

04:56:49.680 hypocritical

04:56:50.380 if she wasn't in

04:56:51.320 some semblance

04:56:52.760 of physical

04:56:53.720 good shape

04:56:54.260 I guess

04:56:54.740 like some

04:56:56.960 type of physical

04:56:57.880 no it wouldn't

04:56:58.680 yeah I don't think

04:56:59.360 that would make her

04:57:00.100 hypocritical

04:57:00.700 if you're valuing

04:57:02.140 a physical attribute

04:57:03.060 like physical fitness

04:57:04.000 but you're not

04:57:04.540 did I say that

04:57:04.820 I said professional

04:57:06.020 athlete

04:57:06.500 so that comes with

04:57:07.480 it's not just

04:57:08.160 your physical looks

04:57:09.640 that comes with

04:57:10.440 status

04:57:10.840 comes with money

04:57:11.620 okay well then

04:57:13.000 maybe not that

04:57:13.460 explicitly

04:57:13.840 but I guess

04:57:14.480 more so

04:57:15.100 if we were

04:57:15.680 going to talk

04:57:16.140 about promiscuity

04:57:16.880 as a value

04:57:18.140 like if you

04:57:18.900 value

04:57:19.460 virtue

04:57:20.460 but you're

04:57:21.120 acting in your

04:57:22.300 life promiscuously

04:57:23.080 you can't expect

04:57:24.080 to date someone

04:57:25.100 that is also

04:57:25.940 has that value

04:57:26.700 of virtue

04:57:27.340 if you're not

04:57:29.180 does that make sense

04:57:29.920 you're verbalizing

04:57:30.560 a value

04:57:30.920 but you're acting

04:57:31.440 differently

04:57:31.900 so if you ask

04:57:33.080 that person

04:57:34.300 you're going to

04:57:34.680 date to have

04:57:35.100 that value

04:57:35.520 what if your value

04:57:37.100 is men have

04:57:38.040 a high body count

04:57:38.760 that's fine

04:57:39.360 but women have

04:57:40.300 a high body count

04:57:41.260 that's not fine

04:57:41.960 that's my value

04:57:42.820 I'm not pretending

04:57:44.440 anything

04:57:44.880 those are conflicting

04:57:45.620 values

04:57:46.140 if your value

04:57:46.660 is virtue

04:57:47.140 how are they

04:57:47.640 conflicting

04:57:48.060 where's the conflict

04:57:49.060 well because if you

04:57:50.800 value virtue

04:57:51.340 it should matter

04:57:51.780 for both people

04:57:52.480 well it's not

04:57:53.560 because of value

04:57:54.220 virtue

04:57:54.540 perhaps it's just

04:57:55.300 a preference

04:57:55.760 my preference

04:57:56.440 is that women

04:57:56.880 have a low body

04:57:57.460 count

04:57:57.740 don't care if men

04:57:58.400 do

04:57:58.560 I'm not pretending

04:57:59.720 anything

04:58:00.160 there's no pretense

04:58:01.340 there so

04:58:01.960 since I'm not

04:58:03.340 pretending anything

04:58:04.060 I'm not faking

04:58:04.860 anything

04:58:05.360 I'm telling you

04:58:06.060 exactly what my

04:58:07.200 preference is

04:58:07.860 where's the hypocrisy

04:58:09.480 well preferences

04:58:10.360 I would say

04:58:10.780 are different

04:58:11.140 than values

04:58:11.920 so you would

04:58:12.440 have to ask

04:58:12.860 like why do

04:58:13.480 you care

04:58:13.800 about this

04:58:14.160 specific thing

04:58:14.780 well I don't

04:58:15.560 think that

04:58:16.000 absent you

04:58:17.260 putting all

04:58:19.420 of your values

04:58:20.720 on like a

04:58:21.580 deity or

04:58:22.240 an unchanging

04:58:23.320 standard

04:58:23.900 then all of

04:58:24.700 your values

04:58:25.120 just come down

04:58:25.640 to preferences

04:58:26.120 anyway

04:58:26.600 so if they're

04:58:28.100 changeable

04:58:28.680 meaning they're

04:58:29.420 changeable

04:58:29.940 if your morals

04:58:30.980 are changeable

04:58:31.680 morals

04:58:32.120 then they're

04:58:32.920 just

04:58:33.080 they just

04:58:33.440 come down

04:58:33.820 to preferences

04:58:34.400 right

04:58:34.780 so it's all

04:58:35.540 just what

04:58:35.920 you prefer

04:58:36.400 or what

04:58:36.640 you don't

04:58:36.900 prefer

04:58:37.220 so it's

04:58:38.440 why wouldn't

04:58:39.080 that be

04:58:39.420 her preference

04:58:39.960 if she's

04:58:40.420 not promiscuous

04:58:41.240 anymore

04:58:41.600 yeah it

04:58:43.500 wouldn't matter

04:58:44.100 if I said

04:58:44.900 my value

04:58:45.740 structure was

04:58:47.140 I don't care

04:58:48.620 if men have

04:58:49.300 a high body

04:58:49.840 count

04:58:50.140 I do care

04:58:51.360 if women

04:58:51.780 have a high

04:58:52.300 body count

04:58:52.860 that's my

04:58:53.940 actual value

04:58:54.760 what is the

04:58:55.860 hypocrisy

04:58:56.800 so if a

04:58:58.840 woman had

04:58:59.380 a high

04:58:59.600 body count

04:59:00.000 but wanted

04:59:00.440 a virgin

04:59:01.340 man

04:59:01.700 is she

04:59:02.060 not a

04:59:02.360 hypocrite

04:59:02.700 either

04:59:02.940 is that

04:59:03.500 just a

04:59:03.760 preference

04:59:04.180 if that's

04:59:04.640 her actual

04:59:05.180 value

04:59:05.640 yes

04:59:06.080 wait how

04:59:07.460 about this

04:59:07.900 there's no

04:59:10.460 there's no

04:59:10.840 actual hypocrisy

04:59:11.920 there unless

04:59:12.500 you're pretending

04:59:13.160 something

04:59:13.680 so now if you

04:59:14.840 said nobody

04:59:16.380 should have a

04:59:17.300 high body

04:59:17.780 count while

04:59:18.880 you're racking

04:59:20.000 your own body

04:59:20.680 count up

04:59:21.220 yeah that would

04:59:21.660 be hypocrisy

04:59:22.640 right because

04:59:23.380 now you have

04:59:24.340 expressed what

04:59:25.480 the value is

04:59:26.420 and you're

04:59:26.720 pretending

04:59:27.180 it's clear

04:59:28.640 that you're

04:59:28.920 pretending

04:59:29.160 so that would

04:59:29.580 be hypocrisy

04:59:30.320 see what I'm

04:59:30.740 saying

04:59:30.900 yeah I see

04:59:31.580 what you

04:59:31.760 it's one

04:59:32.680 person versus

04:59:33.220 the general

04:59:33.600 population

04:59:34.140 right

04:59:34.720 yeah what

04:59:35.460 so what about

04:59:36.020 this

04:59:36.360 we were talking

04:59:37.560 about like who

04:59:38.040 should pay on a

04:59:38.900 date for example

04:59:39.720 if a woman wants

04:59:41.260 a man to pay for

04:59:42.240 the first date

04:59:42.940 is she a hypocrite

04:59:44.380 if she's not

04:59:45.340 willing to pay

04:59:46.420 for the first date

04:59:47.740 a little bit

04:59:50.400 how would that

04:59:52.000 make a woman

04:59:52.640 a hypocrite

04:59:53.260 I think if

04:59:56.300 you're similar

04:59:56.920 like how he

04:59:57.480 was just saying

04:59:57.980 if you're

04:59:58.260 speaking generally

04:59:59.840 that's a little

05:00:00.580 hypocritical but

05:00:01.360 if she's saying

05:00:01.960 that's how she

05:00:02.520 specifically wants

05:00:03.260 to move in her

05:00:04.380 dating relationship

05:00:05.140 then that's a

05:00:05.720 preference but if

05:00:06.960 you said that as a

05:00:07.980 general statement

05:00:08.500 that is hypocritical

05:00:09.340 so if she made a

05:00:10.660 general statement

05:00:11.400 saying men not

05:00:14.000 just for me but

05:00:14.840 men in general

05:00:15.840 should pay for

05:00:16.920 first dates but

05:00:17.940 she's not willing to

05:00:18.800 pay for first dates

05:00:19.560 that makes her a

05:00:20.500 hypocrite

05:00:20.980 yeah if you're

05:00:21.860 saying that like

05:00:22.620 a man should

05:00:23.500 and a woman

05:00:24.100 shouldn't like

05:00:24.660 there's not really

05:00:25.440 a good enough

05:00:25.840 reason

05:00:26.160 okay so men

05:00:26.880 men should not

05:00:28.060 do anything

05:00:28.500 and women should

05:00:29.120 not do anything

05:00:29.840 I don't think

05:00:31.440 anyone has an

05:00:32.120 obligation

05:00:32.260 didn't earlier

05:00:32.580 you said men

05:00:33.180 should be

05:00:33.460 chivalrous

05:00:33.920 oh my god

05:00:34.460 nobody's gonna

05:00:35.040 win this

05:00:35.400 fucking argument

05:00:36.120 I'm about to

05:00:36.980 win it

05:00:37.180 I've already

05:00:37.680 won it

05:00:38.120 it's not about

05:00:39.500 you don't

05:00:40.340 it's it's about

05:00:41.140 you should do

05:00:41.880 it out of

05:00:42.720 because you're

05:00:43.940 a man

05:00:44.160 no because

05:00:45.220 well no it's

05:00:45.840 not about being

05:00:46.160 a man it's

05:00:46.560 about providing

05:00:48.100 how do I word

05:00:49.780 this

05:00:50.160 because I

05:00:52.320 value treating

05:00:53.100 other people

05:00:53.580 how I would

05:00:53.960 want to be

05:00:54.260 treated

05:00:54.520 that's how I

05:00:55.680 would move

05:00:55.980 through my

05:00:56.360 personal life

05:00:57.240 so it's not

05:00:57.800 about

05:00:58.280 so so there's

05:00:59.940 perfect reciprocity

05:01:01.580 and asymmetry

05:01:02.300 in like everything

05:01:03.060 you do

05:01:03.680 when it comes to

05:01:05.880 like dating

05:01:06.380 well no because

05:01:07.280 I can acknowledge

05:01:07.880 areas in which

05:01:08.480 I'm hypocritical

05:01:09.120 and I will just

05:01:09.620 say like

05:01:10.080 this is an area

05:01:11.460 in which I'm

05:01:11.840 being delusional

05:01:12.440 you can either

05:01:13.060 comply to the

05:01:14.840 delusion or not

05:01:15.760 but I also would

05:01:17.060 comply to other

05:01:17.540 people's delusions

05:01:18.220 if like the

05:01:19.360 bow thing

05:01:19.880 little delusional

05:01:20.700 but if it makes

05:01:21.220 you happy

05:01:21.540 I don't care

05:01:22.040 no that's

05:01:24.080 I don't think

05:01:24.620 it's delusional

05:01:25.220 I think it's

05:01:27.140 super it's not

05:01:28.220 delusional and

05:01:28.920 I'll tell you

05:01:29.300 why first off

05:01:30.260 a girl who's

05:01:31.260 actually likes

05:01:32.500 you she'll do

05:01:34.160 that shit

05:01:34.460 instantly

05:01:34.820 like if she

05:01:35.640 really like

05:01:36.200 if she actually

05:01:36.840 how's it

05:01:37.340 delusional

05:01:37.740 well because

05:01:39.180 what what

05:01:39.960 why are you

05:01:40.600 doing it

05:01:41.140 why are those

05:01:41.660 other cultures

05:01:42.120 doing it

05:01:42.500 why do most

05:01:42.980 people have

05:01:43.360 people bow

05:01:43.900 there's usually

05:01:44.380 a cultural

05:01:44.960 relevance to it

05:01:46.060 right but

05:01:46.420 you're doing it

05:01:47.080 because it makes

05:01:47.880 you feel a certain

05:01:48.520 way what do

05:01:50.040 you mean

05:01:50.220 I mean it

05:01:51.280 doesn't I mean

05:01:51.840 you it makes

05:01:52.540 you feel good

05:01:53.020 so you ask

05:01:53.480 your girlfriend

05:01:53.800 to do that

05:01:54.280 right

05:01:54.580 well I

05:01:55.500 typically I

05:01:56.200 she just

05:01:56.880 get she just

05:01:57.640 does it you

05:01:58.300 know I don't

05:01:58.660 even need to

05:01:59.080 ask she just

05:02:00.020 does that shit

05:02:00.740 but um I

05:02:02.600 don't I don't

05:02:03.080 understand your

05:02:04.060 position really

05:02:05.220 like how's it

05:02:06.700 delulu

05:02:07.120 a little

05:02:08.280 okay

05:02:08.700 I wouldn't

05:02:10.620 expect the guy

05:02:11.540 to pay for me

05:02:12.080 on the first

05:02:12.500 date just because

05:02:13.660 of how I live

05:02:14.160 my lifestyle

05:02:14.720 but I'm not

05:02:15.780 going to go on

05:02:16.180 a second date

05:02:16.680 with someone

05:02:17.000 who doesn't

05:02:17.400 pay for the

05:02:17.760 first date

05:02:18.240 I don't

05:02:19.000 expect it

05:02:19.760 I don't

05:02:20.060 deserve it

05:02:20.600 but oh

05:02:21.440 does that

05:02:22.180 make sense

05:02:22.640 like so

05:02:23.480 you do expect

05:02:24.100 it then

05:02:24.440 if if you

05:02:26.480 want to date

05:02:26.880 me I do

05:02:27.660 kind of expect

05:02:28.240 it

05:02:28.520 you've literally

05:02:29.800 you've just

05:02:30.420 contradicted

05:02:30.960 yourself

05:02:31.240 I guess the

05:02:32.220 difference is

05:02:32.600 entitlement I

05:02:33.360 wouldn't be mad

05:02:34.300 or like oh

05:02:34.740 my gosh he

05:02:35.160 didn't pay

05:02:35.780 if they didn't

05:02:36.380 pay I would

05:02:36.700 just say okay

05:02:37.180 this isn't the

05:02:37.780 relationship for

05:02:38.700 me this isn't

05:02:39.360 the relationship

05:02:39.800 dynamic for me

05:02:40.600 but that would

05:02:41.280 only apply to

05:02:41.920 the first date

05:02:42.620 because then I

05:02:43.640 wouldn't mind

05:02:44.320 going 50-50

05:02:45.060 because it's

05:02:45.580 more about

05:02:46.060 taking initiative

05:02:46.820 so you don't

05:02:48.240 expect men

05:02:49.460 to pay for

05:02:49.940 the first date

05:02:50.500 but that would

05:02:51.260 be the end

05:02:52.120 so you do

05:02:53.360 expect

05:02:53.840 it depends on

05:02:55.220 if there's a

05:02:55.640 lot of other

05:02:56.060 really great

05:02:56.480 qualities that

05:02:57.000 wouldn't be a

05:02:57.400 deal breaker

05:02:57.840 but like

05:02:58.520 you literally

05:02:59.600 hold on

05:03:00.060 don't walk

05:03:00.460 back your

05:03:00.800 position

05:03:01.180 your position

05:03:01.940 was there

05:03:03.760 would not be

05:03:04.260 a second date

05:03:04.880 if he doesn't

05:03:05.380 pay for the

05:03:05.740 first you

05:03:06.340 literally just

05:03:06.940 said that

05:03:07.280 don't walk

05:03:07.740 back your

05:03:08.120 own position

05:03:08.620 there's

05:03:09.060 traditional

05:03:09.420 things that

05:03:09.900 if a man

05:03:10.280 didn't do

05:03:10.700 that I

05:03:11.100 would not

05:03:11.420 go on a

05:03:11.760 second date

05:03:12.160 with them

05:03:12.500 so you

05:03:12.720 expect them

05:03:13.140 to pay

05:03:13.780 for the

05:03:14.000 date

05:03:14.180 not necessarily

05:03:15.620 date but I

05:03:16.220 not pay for

05:03:16.840 the date

05:03:17.160 because I

05:03:17.500 also have a

05:03:18.100 job but like

05:03:18.680 I expect

05:03:19.100 them to hold

05:03:19.420 the door open

05:03:19.860 for me

05:03:20.260 and pick up

05:03:20.840 heavier things

05:03:21.600 do you hold

05:03:22.100 the door open

05:03:22.620 for men

05:03:22.980 well no but

05:03:25.980 oh you're a

05:03:26.440 hypocrite

05:03:26.800 yeah

05:03:27.360 no but I

05:03:29.120 don't think

05:03:29.880 you're a

05:03:30.100 hypocrite but

05:03:30.900 like using

05:03:31.400 your own

05:03:31.900 framework you

05:03:33.100 would consider

05:03:33.520 yourself a

05:03:33.960 hypocrite

05:03:34.300 yes

05:03:34.700 that's what

05:03:35.800 I'm saying

05:03:36.160 I'm hypocritical

05:03:37.160 in that context

05:03:37.880 how about this

05:03:38.460 how about this

05:03:39.060 you I'm trying

05:03:40.400 to think

05:03:40.660 I want

05:03:42.900 my future

05:03:44.720 girlfriend wife

05:03:45.500 whatever

05:03:45.840 well I'm not

05:03:46.520 getting married

05:03:46.860 that's another

05:03:47.280 conversation

05:03:47.740 I want her

05:03:49.040 to

05:03:50.000 I just feel

05:03:51.220 like there's

05:03:51.560 different like

05:03:51.980 social

05:03:52.220 hold on

05:03:52.540 hold on

05:03:52.800 hold on

05:03:53.040 I'm sorry

05:03:53.320 I want her

05:03:54.440 to carry

05:03:55.120 our future

05:03:55.620 child

05:03:56.120 am I a hypocrite

05:03:57.620 for myself

05:03:58.680 being unwilling

05:03:59.460 to

05:04:00.280 this is actually

05:04:01.380 a dog shit

05:04:01.880 argument

05:04:02.180 am I a hypocrite

05:04:04.400 I don't know

05:04:04.860 that's maybe a dog shit

05:04:05.840 that's maybe a dog shit

05:04:06.800 I don't know

05:04:07.300 it just came to my head

05:04:08.160 it's interesting

05:04:09.460 because she admits

05:04:11.480 yeah humans

05:04:12.860 can't be hypocritical

05:04:13.860 and falluble

05:04:14.440 you just have to

05:04:15.200 find the people

05:04:15.860 that

05:04:16.180 I don't think

05:04:16.720 look

05:04:17.220 how about this

05:04:18.480 I don't think

05:04:19.480 it makes you

05:04:19.840 hypocritical

05:04:20.400 because I don't

05:04:21.600 think that in

05:04:22.680 order to desire

05:04:23.900 something in a

05:04:25.760 potential partner

05:04:26.980 boyfriend

05:04:27.540 girlfriend

05:04:27.860 whatever it is

05:04:28.540 I don't think

05:04:29.900 in order to

05:04:31.120 desire it

05:04:31.900 you need to

05:04:33.100 possess that trait

05:04:34.580 that doesn't make

05:04:35.320 you hypocritical

05:04:36.120 like there's plenty

05:04:37.100 of

05:04:37.360 there's things

05:04:38.760 that men want

05:04:39.620 in women

05:04:39.980 that they don't

05:04:40.480 have

05:04:40.720 and then there's

05:04:41.480 things that

05:04:42.120 men want

05:04:43.320 in women

05:04:43.840 that

05:04:44.400 wait did I just

05:04:45.160 did I say it twice

05:04:46.980 I get what you're

05:04:47.780 saying

05:04:48.020 but when it comes

05:04:49.680 to values

05:04:50.100 I would disagree

05:04:50.740 oh I said it

05:04:51.180 correct

05:04:51.340 and it's like

05:04:52.240 okay

05:04:52.560 you want

05:04:53.620 maybe you want

05:04:55.360 a guy who's

05:04:55.780 really

05:04:56.060 hold on

05:04:57.440 do you think

05:04:59.080 most women

05:04:59.480 are attracted

05:04:59.860 to confident

05:05:00.360 men

05:05:00.640 yes

05:05:01.560 do you think

05:05:02.120 women who

05:05:02.920 maybe lack

05:05:03.840 confidence

05:05:04.440 would they be

05:05:05.400 hypocritical

05:05:06.060 for desiring

05:05:07.180 a man

05:05:07.600 who's confident

05:05:08.120 I don't think

05:05:09.060 that makes

05:05:09.340 a girl

05:05:09.620 hypocritical

05:05:11.040 I just think

05:05:11.820 there are certain

05:05:12.600 things that make

05:05:13.760 men attractive

05:05:14.620 that women

05:05:15.420 are going to be

05:05:15.820 attracted to

05:05:16.420 whether they

05:05:17.040 possess that

05:05:17.880 trait or not

05:05:18.680 it wouldn't

05:05:19.140 make them

05:05:19.420 a hypocrite

05:05:19.960 I don't think

05:05:21.420 it makes you

05:05:21.840 hypocritical

05:05:22.500 for wanting

05:05:23.040 somebody to

05:05:23.720 pay it for

05:05:24.080 the first date

05:05:24.760 I don't think

05:05:25.960 that's just

05:05:26.740 I think it

05:05:27.980 is for me

05:05:28.540 but that's

05:05:28.860 because I'm

05:05:29.720 promiscuous

05:05:30.640 but that's

05:05:31.300 just my

05:05:31.520 personal standpoint

05:05:32.220 wait you're

05:05:33.000 when you say

05:05:33.780 you're promiscuous

05:05:34.400 like you're

05:05:34.860 saying you deserve

05:05:35.560 less

05:05:36.020 I would say

05:05:37.800 that if

05:05:39.620 I was

05:05:40.720 if I was

05:05:43.680 theoretically in

05:05:44.640 the dating market

05:05:45.260 and someone

05:05:46.160 cared about

05:05:46.980 body count

05:05:47.620 and we went

05:05:48.180 on a date

05:05:48.580 and that was

05:05:48.840 a big deal

05:05:49.200 for them

05:05:49.580 I don't pay

05:05:50.540 for the date

05:05:50.940 I will pay

05:05:51.420 for the date

05:05:51.820 or I'll pay

05:05:52.280 for half

05:05:52.680 I just want

05:05:53.040 to get out

05:05:53.260 of the situation

05:05:53.540 when you say

05:05:53.960 when you say

05:05:53.980 you're promiscuous

05:05:55.040 you've been

05:05:55.760 in a relationship

05:05:56.360 for 12 years

05:05:57.160 are you sleeping

05:05:57.720 with other men

05:05:58.280 we sleep

05:06:00.140 with other people

05:06:00.600 together

05:06:01.040 together

05:06:02.020 never apart

05:06:03.080 I've slept

05:06:03.880 with women

05:06:04.200 by myself

05:06:04.700 just me and

05:06:05.100 by yourself

05:06:05.640 but you'll

05:06:06.540 like you have

05:06:07.000 threesomes then

05:06:07.600 more foursomes

05:06:09.340 orgies

05:06:09.940 like swingers

05:06:11.040 are you a swinger

05:06:11.580 I mean we

05:06:14.480 don't

05:06:15.500 we're always

05:06:16.100 together

05:06:16.480 so yes

05:06:17.560 Abigail stop

05:06:18.460 looking at your

05:06:18.960 tits

05:06:19.240 chill Abigail

05:06:22.200 chill

05:06:22.540 I wasn't

05:06:23.620 I'm just

05:06:24.140 it's crazy

05:06:24.560 I think you're

05:06:26.760 looking

05:06:27.100 no I just

05:06:28.080 you're like

05:06:29.120 glued to the

05:06:29.920 screen

05:06:30.200 he's looking

05:06:32.000 at her looking

05:06:32.800 put your whole

05:06:33.440 chest in someone's

05:06:34.300 face

05:06:34.600 you're like

05:06:34.820 why are you

05:06:35.160 looking

05:06:35.620 her mic

05:06:38.360 is covering

05:06:38.920 them if you

05:06:39.340 want to be

05:06:39.660 frank

05:06:40.040 are you upset

05:06:41.100 by that

05:06:41.560 yeah

05:06:42.380 tell us

05:06:42.920 how you feel

05:06:43.860 if we're being

05:06:44.360 honest

05:06:44.860 she's totally

05:06:45.680 taking the

05:06:46.160 spotlight

05:06:46.360 to the other

05:06:46.720 room

05:06:47.020 I mean go to

05:06:47.980 the other

05:06:48.480 switch cams

05:06:49.220 yeah see

05:06:49.800 I can't even

05:06:50.740 stare at my

05:06:51.160 tits in this

05:06:51.640 frame

05:06:51.880 well they're

05:06:52.260 most likely

05:06:52.660 looking at

05:06:53.160 hers

05:06:53.480 like if we're

05:06:53.840 being real

05:06:54.480 wait so you

05:06:57.060 you do sleep

05:06:57.680 with other

05:06:58.020 men though

05:06:58.440 but with

05:06:59.140 your partner

05:06:59.780 does he sleep

05:07:01.620 with men too

05:07:02.220 um he's

05:07:05.100 no but he's

05:07:06.380 there when

05:07:06.900 so he watches

05:07:08.620 has his penis

05:07:09.940 ever touched

05:07:10.720 another penis

05:07:11.420 um there's been

05:07:13.620 two penises

05:07:14.160 in one girl's

05:07:14.840 mouth

05:07:15.080 so yeah

05:07:16.240 that is

05:07:17.540 no they like

05:07:18.480 both fuck

05:07:19.120 you but they

05:07:19.660 don't fuck

05:07:20.000 each other

05:07:20.480 yeah correct

05:07:21.560 or like I

05:07:23.820 love women so

05:07:24.540 I also like to

05:07:25.420 fuck other

05:07:26.280 women

05:07:26.400 you know

05:07:26.700 hey it is

05:07:27.200 what it is

05:07:27.620 you know

05:07:28.040 there's a type

05:07:28.860 of

05:07:29.040 um

05:07:29.340 I was just

05:07:30.240 gonna say

05:07:31.360 um

05:07:31.700 you take it

05:07:32.380 down

05:07:32.780 you pass it

05:07:33.440 around

05:07:33.800 no

05:07:34.140 go ahead

05:07:35.620 Abby

05:07:35.800 to end

05:07:36.540 like the

05:07:36.840 little

05:07:37.080 um

05:07:37.720 I was

05:07:37.980 just gonna

05:07:38.240 say like

05:07:38.660 social norms

05:07:39.420 I think

05:07:39.860 was like

05:07:40.480 what you

05:07:40.860 guys are

05:07:41.100 gonna set

05:07:41.640 like

05:07:41.960 why do I

05:07:43.260 say like

05:07:43.640 so much

05:07:44.160 I never

05:07:44.660 thought I

05:07:45.360 said that

05:07:45.760 until you

05:07:46.220 brought that

05:07:46.580 up

05:07:46.720 now I'm

05:07:47.000 like

05:07:47.140 overthinking

05:07:47.560 it

05:07:47.900 self-conscious

05:07:48.420 yeah

05:07:49.040 um

05:07:50.300 I'm just

05:07:50.700 trying to

05:07:51.040 help you

05:07:51.420 that's all

05:07:51.920 we're just

05:07:52.220 helping you

05:07:52.660 out Abby

05:07:53.060 but what's

05:07:53.640 like a good

05:07:54.060 like filler

05:07:54.620 word instead

05:07:55.440 of saying

05:07:55.860 like

05:07:56.300 skip it

05:07:56.960 how about

05:07:57.340 just don't

05:07:57.920 say filler

05:07:58.440 words and

05:07:59.020 just say

05:07:59.340 the actual

05:07:59.860 words

05:08:00.460 okay so

05:08:02.420 what's a

05:08:02.760 good filler

05:08:03.220 I know

05:08:04.900 I need AI

05:08:05.640 right now

05:08:06.160 um

05:08:07.160 but what I

05:08:08.000 was going

05:08:08.340 to say

05:08:08.880 was

05:08:09.620 maybe I

05:08:10.860 should just

05:08:11.140 skip it

05:08:11.560 no what I

05:08:12.140 was gonna

05:08:12.360 say was like

05:08:12.800 social norms

05:08:13.500 is what I

05:08:14.020 no stop

05:08:16.700 what I was

05:08:17.200 gonna say

05:08:17.560 is like I

05:08:17.900 think you

05:08:18.280 guys were

05:08:18.560 just saying

05:08:18.880 like

05:08:19.020 social norms

05:08:19.840 so like

05:08:20.280 you want

05:08:20.640 like someone

05:08:21.320 to like

05:08:21.700 pay for

05:08:22.040 dinners

05:08:22.360 you want

05:08:22.660 someone to

05:08:22.980 like open

05:08:23.340 the

05:08:23.660 like your

05:08:24.820 door

05:08:25.140 and then you

05:08:25.700 just want

05:08:26.080 someone with

05:08:26.560 like a low

05:08:26.980 body count

05:08:27.620 we know

05:08:28.420 like the

05:08:28.840 bows

05:08:29.240 yes

05:08:29.700 and washes

05:08:30.620 the clothes

05:08:31.540 does that

05:08:32.060 make sense

05:08:32.620 or is like

05:08:33.280 my brain

05:08:33.780 not braining

05:08:34.420 well there

05:08:35.360 are social

05:08:35.900 norms

05:08:36.140 but there's

05:08:37.520 also a few

05:08:38.080 social norms

05:08:38.740 that I don't

05:08:39.140 abide by

05:08:39.680 like is that

05:08:40.020 what I picked

05:08:40.500 up

05:08:40.640 just by hearing

05:08:41.420 all of you

05:08:41.980 please go to

05:08:42.720 therapy

05:08:43.140 all of us

05:08:43.800 including myself

05:08:44.500 all of us

05:08:45.060 let's go to

05:08:45.580 fucking therapy

05:08:46.360 no hell no

05:08:47.480 I went to

05:08:48.000 therapy

05:08:49.020 do the

05:08:50.060 investment

05:08:50.460 all of you

05:08:51.000 please

05:08:51.220 I went to

05:08:51.980 therapy

05:08:52.360 get us a free

05:08:53.700 trial please

05:08:54.280 after the show

05:08:54.900 today

05:08:55.160 I went to

05:08:56.940 therapy

05:08:57.280 I think we all

05:08:57.820 need a little

05:08:58.200 bit of Jesus

05:08:58.700 I am not

05:09:01.260 paying a liberal

05:09:02.440 money to

05:09:03.900 listen to me

05:09:04.560 complain

05:09:05.060 no

05:09:05.840 that's why he's

05:09:07.060 looking for the

05:09:07.520 girlfriend

05:09:07.800 I went to

05:09:08.680 therapy and my

05:09:09.300 therapy told me I

05:09:10.120 wasn't depressed

05:09:10.820 and I was wasting

05:09:11.500 his time

05:09:11.960 and then he

05:09:13.700 like told me I

05:09:14.960 couldn't like take

05:09:15.940 therapy anymore

05:09:16.580 I will say there

05:09:17.200 is such thing as

05:09:17.940 bad therapists

05:09:18.700 a therapy is

05:09:20.540 Red Dead Redemption

05:09:21.660 2

05:09:22.100 go meditate at the

05:09:24.480 beach or something

05:09:25.220 think life over

05:09:26.440 Andrew

05:09:27.200 who here is

05:09:28.900 currently in

05:09:29.360 therapy

05:09:29.660 I don't know

05:09:30.840 not anymore

05:09:31.680 therapy

05:09:32.140 therapy

05:09:32.900 dark

05:09:33.540 can't afford

05:09:35.240 therapy

05:09:35.720 therapy you're in

05:09:36.820 therapy

05:09:37.120 therapy

05:09:38.000 I don't think

05:09:38.820 I need it

05:09:39.240 who here has

05:09:41.280 ever been in

05:09:41.860 therapy

05:09:42.100 just show of

05:09:42.620 hands

05:09:42.820 I went once

05:09:44.360 one time

05:09:46.600 yeah

05:09:47.140 I had to

05:09:48.220 and then he

05:09:48.860 told me I

05:09:49.220 didn't need it

05:09:49.720 my mom forced

05:09:51.280 me to go

05:09:51.720 after I got

05:09:52.440 cheated on

05:09:52.920 because I

05:09:53.960 wouldn't leave

05:09:54.400 my room for

05:09:54.860 like two weeks

05:09:55.420 damn

05:09:56.080 yeah

05:09:56.480 good times

05:09:57.800 yeah

05:09:58.240 good times

05:09:58.800 all right

05:09:59.260 okay

05:09:59.840 we have a

05:10:01.800 chat

05:10:02.840 oh actually

05:10:03.400 hold on

05:10:03.700 before we get

05:10:04.080 into this

05:10:04.540 actually I'll

05:10:05.240 let this

05:10:05.460 Dave on

05:10:06.140 Dave on

05:10:06.860 good to see

05:10:07.440 you in the

05:10:07.680 chat man

05:10:08.220 hope your

05:10:08.960 20-25 is

05:10:09.920 good

05:10:10.340 W's in the

05:10:10.900 chat for

05:10:11.220 Dave on

05:10:11.560 he's an OG

05:10:12.040 it would only

05:10:13.180 be hypocritical

05:10:13.820 if I

05:10:14.200 if I

05:10:15.240 as a high

05:10:15.700 body count

05:10:16.140 man

05:10:16.520 who wanted

05:10:17.580 a low

05:10:17.920 body count

05:10:18.320 woman to

05:10:18.800 tell a high

05:10:19.320 body count

05:10:19.680 woman that

05:10:20.100 she couldn't

05:10:20.500 prefer low

05:10:21.120 body count

05:10:21.580 men

05:10:22.060 that's also

05:10:23.780 yes

05:10:24.140 well put

05:10:25.240 Dave on

05:10:25.920 if he tells

05:10:29.600 another girl

05:10:30.500 that has

05:10:31.180 body count

05:10:31.780 that she

05:10:32.220 wants a man

05:10:32.840 with low

05:10:33.220 body count

05:10:33.720 that'd be

05:10:34.060 hypocritical

05:10:34.640 you just

05:10:34.980 confused

05:10:35.500 everybody

05:10:36.360 that's

05:10:37.200 yeah that

05:10:38.020 concept

05:10:38.400 W's in

05:10:41.360 the chat

05:10:41.800 for Dave

05:10:42.280 well how

05:10:43.680 about this

05:10:44.100 going uh

05:10:44.840 going around

05:10:45.320 the table

05:10:45.780 last thing

05:10:46.320 on the

05:10:46.540 body count

05:10:46.940 discussion

05:10:47.440 what's your

05:10:50.240 body count

05:10:50.740 next question

05:10:54.240 why

05:10:56.240 that's just

05:10:58.040 we're talking

05:10:58.560 about body

05:10:58.980 count

05:10:59.140 what's your

05:10:59.420 body count

05:10:59.860 here uh

05:11:00.660 you stop

05:11:01.000 Abigail

05:11:01.560 okay you

05:11:03.260 go

05:11:03.520 zero

05:11:04.460 what am I

05:11:05.640 supposed to

05:11:05.880 follow up

05:11:06.280 with that

05:11:06.740 the truth

05:11:08.080 okay well

05:11:09.000 the truth

05:11:09.560 will set

05:11:10.120 you free

05:11:10.640 I know

05:11:11.280 okay I

05:11:12.060 have

05:11:12.280 okay

05:11:12.780 five

05:11:13.720 okay

05:11:14.640 that's not

05:11:15.420 bad

05:11:15.620 that's fine

05:11:15.940 good job

05:11:16.980 proud of you

05:11:18.120 uh what about

05:11:20.280 you

05:11:20.500 um more

05:11:22.040 than 40

05:11:22.860 not more

05:11:23.420 than 50

05:11:23.960 including

05:11:25.020 women

05:11:25.280 are you counting just

05:11:25.520 men or also

05:11:26.280 women as well

05:11:27.220 okay D

05:11:29.080 big D

05:11:30.300 it's still

05:11:30.920 12

05:11:31.340 still 12

05:11:32.140 okay

05:11:32.520 no lingless

05:11:33.900 no lingless

05:11:37.700 wait

05:11:37.960 um

05:11:40.600 I am

05:11:41.300 turista

05:11:41.860 and I

05:11:43.480 I don't even

05:11:44.620 remember

05:11:45.100 you're a

05:11:46.360 tourist

05:11:46.740 yes I am

05:11:47.580 turista

05:11:48.100 no speak

05:11:49.040 English

05:11:49.580 how about

05:11:51.080 this

05:11:51.360 give us a

05:11:52.360 range

05:11:52.660 a what

05:11:54.120 a range

05:11:54.920 like is it

05:11:55.480 from 10 to

05:11:56.480 20

05:11:56.720 10 to

05:11:58.020 20

05:11:58.320 I mean I

05:12:00.980 don't really

05:12:01.340 just sleep

05:12:01.800 with anyone

05:12:02.300 so I'm

05:12:02.980 very picky

05:12:03.460 it's 100

05:12:04.140 hey no

05:12:05.140 that's me

05:12:12.920 figuring out

05:12:13.760 what we're

05:12:14.180 gonna be done

05:12:14.600 with this

05:12:14.880 conversation

05:12:15.280 tres

05:12:15.700 cuatro

05:12:16.520 cinco

05:12:17.340 cinco

05:12:19.400 no se

05:12:20.120 no se

05:12:20.700 no se

05:12:21.340 vaya con

05:12:21.820 Dios

05:12:22.060 okay

05:12:23.920 that's the

05:12:25.400 extent of my

05:12:25.940 Spanish

05:12:26.400 donde

05:12:27.820 esta la

05:12:28.660 biblioteca

05:12:29.560 I knew you

05:12:30.320 were gonna

05:12:30.620 say that

05:12:31.060 no I am

05:12:35.220 turista

05:12:35.660 I'm sorry

05:12:36.660 so you've

05:12:37.760 like

05:12:38.020 you've

05:12:39.500 okay

05:12:40.280 all right

05:12:40.720 oh she got

05:12:41.440 hey she got

05:12:42.200 she was smart

05:12:42.880 she was a

05:12:44.100 silent one

05:12:45.040 nina what

05:12:46.320 single digits

05:12:47.400 nine

05:12:48.420 I can't say a

05:12:50.220 specific number

05:12:50.940 I might have

05:12:51.400 family watching

05:12:52.120 this

05:12:52.480 yes

05:12:52.680 it's a little

05:12:53.820 personal

05:12:54.120 Brandon

05:12:54.460 zero

05:12:56.580 we gotta wait

05:12:57.280 until what's her

05:12:58.200 name's back but

05:12:59.020 for everybody

05:13:00.540 here

05:13:00.920 multiply it by

05:13:01.700 three and that's

05:13:02.300 the real number

05:13:02.900 that's the real

05:13:04.300 zero

05:13:04.800 I literally have a

05:13:06.560 list in my phone

05:13:07.220 I'm still thinking

05:13:07.320 how you lost that

05:13:08.680 place you're so

05:13:09.740 good

05:13:10.000 I'm still thinking

05:13:11.280 of that

05:13:11.720 how you kind of

05:13:12.720 wait like that

05:13:13.240 she got up quick

05:13:13.800 she got up quick

05:13:15.060 when it was

05:13:15.520 not quick

05:13:16.160 not quick

05:13:17.000 Adriana where you

05:13:18.140 at

05:13:18.500 Adriana

05:13:20.060 damn

05:13:20.840 all right

05:13:21.180 okay let's get

05:13:24.180 what's your body

05:13:25.400 count Brian

05:13:26.080 I'm a virgin

05:13:26.800 exactly

05:13:27.580 I'm a virgin

05:13:29.600 zero

05:13:30.320 you didn't clap

05:13:32.880 the gross cheeks

05:13:33.800 you bowed

05:13:34.400 she bowed

05:13:35.320 man

05:13:35.820 yeah you know

05:13:36.580 just a virgin

05:13:38.420 it's very virgin

05:13:40.120 I fit you

05:13:41.780 it's very hypocritical

05:13:44.260 of you not to answer

05:13:45.160 yep

05:13:45.940 that's why he was

05:13:46.940 so excited

05:13:47.420 yeah

05:13:47.760 yeah

05:13:48.020 anyways

05:13:49.780 okay let's

05:13:50.760 it's not even

05:13:51.060 hypocritical of him

05:13:51.940 not to answer

05:13:52.620 because what Brian

05:13:53.900 oh I was joking

05:13:54.500 what Brian says

05:13:55.320 hang on

05:13:56.100 but this is good

05:13:56.940 here we go with

05:13:57.560 another debate

05:13:58.160 segue

05:13:58.680 it's actually not

05:14:01.500 hypocritical

05:14:02.160 the value here

05:14:03.360 is that

05:14:04.140 women tend to

05:14:05.540 not give a shit

05:14:06.220 about men's body

05:14:07.000 count but men

05:14:07.780 do tend to give

05:14:08.400 a shit about

05:14:08.860 women's body

05:14:09.420 count

05:14:09.680 I think women

05:14:10.860 care about

05:14:11.320 men's body

05:14:11.720 count

05:14:12.040 I don't think

05:14:13.080 that they do

05:14:13.680 oh my god

05:14:14.140 I think they do

05:14:14.980 that's not what

05:14:16.020 any of the polling

05:14:16.820 is showing

05:14:17.340 not only is it

05:14:18.240 not what the polling

05:14:18.960 shows but

05:14:19.740 because it's a

05:14:21.120 non penetrative

05:14:22.280 act from a woman's

05:14:23.240 perspective they seem

05:14:24.000 to care about

05:14:24.440 far less

05:14:25.000 I think hoes

05:14:26.260 are drawn to hoes

05:14:26.920 and non hoes

05:14:27.380 are drawn to

05:14:27.740 non hoes

05:14:28.400 yeah I would

05:14:29.980 agree with that

05:14:30.460 this is a surprising

05:14:31.700 answer to hear

05:14:32.920 from this panel

05:14:33.800 I would

05:14:34.300 do you think

05:14:34.840 they're just

05:14:35.200 capping Brian

05:14:36.020 I think

05:14:37.800 even promiscuous

05:14:39.600 men

05:14:39.940 I think

05:14:41.020 promiscuous men

05:14:42.200 because they've

05:14:43.720 dealt with so many

05:14:44.520 women and they've

05:14:45.180 had so much

05:14:45.800 experience

05:14:46.360 they're gonna be

05:14:47.380 like dealing

05:14:48.820 with promiscuous

05:14:49.760 women is a

05:14:51.660 problem

05:14:52.460 and so

05:14:53.540 as

05:14:53.860 whether you're

05:14:55.300 a man or

05:14:55.620 woman

05:14:55.880 you always

05:14:56.540 want to get

05:14:56.900 the best

05:14:57.380 that you

05:14:57.680 can get

05:14:58.120 right

05:14:58.540 and so

05:14:59.540 the reality

05:15:00.060 is

05:15:00.520 like it

05:15:01.120 just happens

05:15:01.620 to be the

05:15:01.960 case

05:15:02.220 like

05:15:02.500 low body

05:15:03.560 count

05:15:03.740 women

05:15:04.020 they're gonna

05:15:05.260 higher social

05:15:06.200 status

05:15:06.680 yeah

05:15:07.940 if you have

05:15:08.600 a low body

05:15:09.440 count as a

05:15:09.840 woman you have

05:15:10.140 a higher social

05:15:11.180 status

05:15:11.600 if you have

05:15:12.080 a high body

05:15:12.560 count as a

05:15:13.020 man it doesn't

05:15:13.580 negatively affect

05:15:14.340 your social

05:15:14.800 status

05:15:15.200 hold on

05:15:18.040 she's over

05:15:18.520 eating cookies

05:15:19.380 hey give me

05:15:20.620 a cookie bro

05:15:21.420 bring all of us

05:15:23.840 cookies girl

05:15:24.500 bring those

05:15:26.800 cookies over here

05:15:27.560 it's crazy bro

05:15:28.080 she's got a

05:15:28.580 thousand plus

05:15:29.200 cookie count

05:15:29.700 she's gonna fall

05:15:30.380 asleep

05:15:30.700 oh okay

05:15:32.600 right right

05:15:33.580 because the

05:15:33.840 body count

05:15:34.320 question was

05:15:34.780 coming

05:15:35.020 she had to

05:15:35.700 go grab

05:15:36.040 cookies

05:15:36.180 she was so

05:15:36.820 scared

05:15:37.080 oh we need

05:15:38.840 oh those

05:15:40.840 aren't like

05:15:41.160 the home

05:15:41.500 those aren't

05:15:42.660 home baked

05:15:43.260 those are

05:15:43.620 like the

05:15:43.940 you're a

05:15:44.680 go ones

05:15:45.920 for emergencies

05:15:46.600 she's got

05:15:47.700 an emergency

05:15:48.160 cookie stash

05:15:49.160 body count

05:15:50.480 we went

05:15:51.700 nice question

05:15:52.480 everybody

05:15:53.040 that's why

05:15:53.680 you got up

05:15:54.180 right

05:15:54.320 everybody

05:15:55.220 already

05:15:55.560 answered

05:15:56.000 do you

05:15:56.200 want to

05:15:56.440 just

05:15:56.640 body count

05:15:57.220 how about

05:16:00.100 this range

05:16:00.860 tell us

05:16:01.240 the range

05:16:01.680 is it

05:16:04.220 more than

05:16:04.660 a hundred

05:16:05.340 no

05:16:06.300 you don't

05:16:10.820 sound

05:16:11.040 you didn't

05:16:11.820 look very

05:16:12.260 convinced

05:16:12.660 I'm just

05:16:13.120 saying

05:16:13.740 give us

05:16:18.540 a range

05:16:18.920 how about

05:16:19.200 that

05:16:19.380 is that

05:16:19.700 fair

05:16:19.900 no

05:16:20.360 tell you

05:16:20.940 what

05:16:21.120 if you

05:16:21.620 answer

05:16:21.920 this

05:16:22.140 question

05:16:22.440 I will

05:16:22.760 give you

05:16:23.060 a two

05:16:23.460 dollar bill

05:16:24.000 do you

05:16:24.440 know

05:16:24.580 do you

05:16:25.140 know

05:16:25.260 how much

05:16:25.840 this is

05:16:26.240 worth

05:16:26.600 nothing

05:16:27.200 not in this

05:16:28.020 economy

05:16:28.380 well it's

05:16:28.740 worth

05:16:28.980 something

05:16:29.700 I can't

05:16:31.160 even get

05:16:31.460 a coffee

05:16:32.000 with that

05:16:32.420 you can

05:16:34.600 definitely

05:16:34.880 get a coffee

05:16:35.420 with that

05:16:35.880 you can

05:16:36.360 sell

05:16:36.580 a two

05:16:38.660 dollar bill

05:16:39.080 on ebay

05:16:39.580 you're gonna

05:16:39.980 have to

05:16:40.260 give her

05:16:40.460 like an

05:16:40.740 iphone 16

05:16:41.460 with like

05:16:41.900 tiktok

05:16:42.340 download it

05:16:42.820 how about

05:16:43.800 this do you

05:16:44.400 see this card

05:16:45.180 of robert

05:16:46.820 levandowski

05:16:47.500 when he was

05:16:48.020 playing for

05:16:48.760 um

05:16:49.140 uh

05:16:50.140 borussia

05:16:51.260 nobody knows

05:16:51.900 i don't even

05:16:52.200 know who

05:16:52.480 that is

05:16:52.980 yeah who

05:16:54.100 is that

05:16:54.740 who is that

05:16:56.640 it's like

05:16:57.460 turning down

05:16:57.920 a card

05:16:58.380 of babe

05:16:58.980 ruth

05:16:59.400 literally

05:17:00.200 literally

05:17:01.080 levandowski

05:17:02.280 okay

05:17:03.680 will you guys

05:17:05.200 reveal for a

05:17:05.920 two dollar bill

05:17:06.440 wow

05:17:07.900 you guys

05:17:09.000 just don't

05:17:09.780 know the

05:17:10.080 value

05:17:10.460 of a buck

05:17:11.260 i have so

05:17:12.080 many two

05:17:12.620 dollar bills

05:17:13.200 at my house

05:17:13.760 i'm good

05:17:14.320 yeah but

05:17:15.280 you don't

05:17:15.820 have that

05:17:16.280 nobody

05:17:16.680 asked your

05:17:17.160 opinion

05:17:17.480 i'm sorry

05:17:20.960 i'm working

05:17:21.620 with the cash

05:17:22.320 i have

05:17:23.060 a couple

05:17:24.300 of this

05:17:25.700 i'm working

05:17:28.840 with the cash

05:17:29.760 with the money

05:17:30.560 that's why

05:17:31.320 i have

05:17:31.720 you steal

05:17:32.400 from the

05:17:32.800 atms

05:17:33.520 no no no

05:17:34.300 thanks god

05:17:34.960 god bless

05:17:38.780 me with

05:17:39.280 a good

05:17:39.620 boss

05:17:40.040 they don't

05:17:41.640 put two

05:17:41.980 dollar bills

05:17:42.440 in atms

05:17:43.460 but he

05:17:44.680 has

05:17:45.060 fives

05:17:46.140 tens

05:17:46.680 hundreds

05:17:47.540 not two

05:17:48.060 dollars

05:17:48.280 she's a

05:17:49.680 little hesitant

05:17:50.740 to answer

05:17:51.240 that body

05:17:51.880 count question

05:17:52.560 i will say

05:17:53.780 that i think

05:17:54.720 that no

05:17:55.400 virtuous woman

05:17:56.060 they do care

05:17:56.720 about a man's

05:17:57.300 body count

05:17:57.820 it's what i

05:17:58.360 see in the

05:17:59.040 church

05:17:59.280 so you know

05:18:00.160 i wouldn't say

05:18:01.380 that blatant

05:18:01.920 statement that

05:18:02.580 you know

05:18:02.940 women don't

05:18:03.560 care about

05:18:03.900 men's

05:18:04.200 body count

05:18:04.700 at all

05:18:05.000 because

05:18:05.480 i think

05:18:07.260 she's gone

05:18:07.940 from the

05:18:08.240 table right

05:18:08.660 now

05:18:08.840 i think

05:18:09.380 women care

05:18:09.920 less about

05:18:10.580 it

05:18:10.680 there's

05:18:10.860 definitely

05:18:11.080 women who

05:18:11.500 care about

05:18:11.940 it

05:18:12.100 100%

05:18:12.840 but i think

05:18:13.500 generally

05:18:13.840 speaking women

05:18:14.480 care less

05:18:15.040 about it

05:18:15.500 and then also

05:18:17.420 i do think

05:18:18.540 it's the case

05:18:19.140 that like

05:18:20.180 probably a

05:18:21.440 promiscuous

05:18:21.900 woman she's

05:18:22.980 not going to

05:18:23.520 have like a

05:18:24.100 satisfying sexual

05:18:25.120 encounter with

05:18:26.100 a man who's

05:18:26.660 sexually inexperienced

05:18:27.780 but a man who's

05:18:28.880 sexually experienced

05:18:29.700 is going to

05:18:30.560 have can have a

05:18:32.040 really good sexual

05:18:33.100 encounter with a

05:18:34.180 woman who's

05:18:35.080 gotten no

05:18:35.600 experience or

05:18:36.360 minimal sexual

05:18:36.980 experience so

05:18:38.120 it's like you

05:18:38.860 can just throw

05:18:39.640 me under the

05:18:40.300 bus like that

05:18:40.920 brian

05:18:41.200 it's like a lot

05:18:44.660 of these girls

05:18:45.180 like once they

05:18:45.900 had sex and

05:18:47.580 they're just you

05:18:48.160 know they it's

05:18:48.860 not a big deal

05:18:49.480 to them it's

05:18:50.440 like they probably

05:18:51.140 are going to

05:18:51.580 prioritize like

05:18:52.400 the quality like

05:18:53.480 the not to say

05:18:54.640 that you'd be bad

05:18:55.360 in bed like i

05:18:56.720 think there's

05:18:57.280 like sex is

05:18:58.920 going down the

05:18:59.540 hole

05:18:59.740 you're like

05:19:00.840 blazing him

05:19:01.740 spiraling

05:19:02.420 look sex is

05:19:03.880 not complicated

05:19:04.300 why don't you be

05:19:04.560 his first body

05:19:05.380 people been

05:19:05.820 fucking forever

05:19:07.380 sex is not a

05:19:08.660 complicated procedure

05:19:09.860 it's not a

05:19:11.100 complicated procedure

05:19:12.060 but yeah especially

05:19:13.740 in this day and age

05:19:14.560 with you know

05:19:15.060 porn and like

05:19:16.000 you can watch

05:19:16.660 shows like

05:19:17.220 yeah

05:19:18.380 hire someone

05:19:19.540 and uh

05:19:20.640 over sexualized

05:19:22.260 this society

05:19:22.800 sex coach

05:19:23.600 yeah but but

05:19:25.020 also like also

05:19:26.660 i think like you

05:19:28.180 can ask a guy

05:19:29.020 even for a one

05:19:30.400 night stand if a

05:19:31.320 guy has an

05:19:31.780 option between a

05:19:33.460 girl who's a

05:19:34.100 virgin and a

05:19:36.020 girl who has a

05:19:36.600 hundred bodies

05:19:37.360 the dudes are

05:19:38.780 gonna pick the

05:19:39.380 girl who's a

05:19:39.920 virgin point

05:19:41.920 blank period

05:19:42.560 point blank

05:19:44.160 period

05:19:44.720 okay good talk

05:19:48.040 good talk guys

05:19:48.680 no but i what i'm

05:19:49.520 saying is that you

05:19:50.320 know a lot of

05:19:50.660 men you know

05:19:51.220 you know a lot

05:19:52.660 of men you know

05:19:53.100 they say they

05:19:53.540 prefer like

05:19:54.680 virgin woman

05:19:55.380 low body count

05:19:56.140 woman but does

05:19:56.920 that woman want

05:19:58.220 you does she

05:19:58.780 want a promiscuous

05:19:59.840 man is that

05:20:01.020 what she wants

05:20:01.700 and the answer

05:20:02.300 is most of the

05:20:03.180 time no

05:20:03.720 oh i mean look

05:20:04.800 if a woman's a

05:20:05.500 virgin or has

05:20:06.120 low body count

05:20:06.720 and she doesn't

05:20:07.160 want to date a

05:20:07.620 man who's got

05:20:08.180 a past totally

05:20:08.920 fine no problem

05:20:09.680 with that yeah

05:20:10.120 so all my you

05:20:10.880 know you're

05:20:11.540 saying like overall

05:20:12.520 most men care

05:20:13.680 about body count

05:20:14.660 and uh you know

05:20:15.400 low body count

05:20:16.080 woman but does

05:20:16.960 she want you

05:20:17.900 and you're not

05:20:19.840 going to get the

05:20:20.300 woman that you

05:20:20.860 want so i think

05:20:21.960 what matters most

05:20:22.820 at the end of

05:20:23.300 the day is the

05:20:23.920 person that they

05:20:24.660 are now i don't

05:20:26.200 know if that's

05:20:26.580 even true no

05:20:27.580 because well i'm

05:20:28.360 christian so i

05:20:29.260 believe like once

05:20:30.000 someone repents

05:20:30.940 that you know

05:20:32.400 they're they're

05:20:33.140 they're made new

05:20:34.060 so they still got

05:20:35.580 bodies well it

05:20:36.680 depends like are

05:20:37.560 they healed from

05:20:38.320 that like they may

05:20:39.060 still carry

05:20:39.560 not they they i i you

05:20:41.940 know i disagree deep

05:20:43.060 in the dark deep in

05:20:44.460 the dark recesses of

05:20:46.400 a born again virgin's

05:20:47.760 mind deep deep i don't

05:20:50.660 i don't really believe

05:20:51.460 in that term born again

05:20:52.520 virgin like i've never

05:20:53.560 used that whatever you

05:20:55.080 what did you what was

05:20:55.760 the term you used

05:20:56.580 repent yeah repent

05:20:59.040 yeah she's repentant

05:21:00.400 yeah she's repented many

05:21:02.620 times many times she even

05:21:05.120 confessed no repent is

05:21:06.460 when you turn from it

05:21:07.440 completely like there's

05:21:08.440 not like i feel bad like

05:21:09.760 it's it's in there it's

05:21:10.940 in the dark recesses you

05:21:12.240 don't you don't think

05:21:13.040 that it do you think

05:21:14.440 that a man would or

05:21:16.800 shouldn't take that into

05:21:18.000 consideration no he

05:21:19.120 should definitely take

05:21:20.000 it into consideration

05:21:20.840 what i'm saying is what

05:21:22.040 matters most are the

05:21:23.340 person that they are

05:21:24.240 now like what do you

05:21:25.420 see in front of you

05:21:26.460 because we could say

05:21:27.800 like yeah i want this

05:21:28.620 this and that in a

05:21:29.240 checklist but when it

05:21:30.000 comes down to it when

05:21:30.860 you meet someone you

05:21:31.580 really like you're not

05:21:32.520 going to care that she

05:21:33.280 has like four you know

05:21:35.160 four body count when you

05:21:36.120 want no more than

05:21:37.480 three like you know

05:21:38.200 what i'm saying four

05:21:39.260 six i think four is

05:21:40.640 acceptable so what's

05:21:42.960 unacceptable what's

05:21:44.600 like the limit she's

05:21:46.640 55 so what what's the

05:21:49.740 limit what's unacceptable

05:21:51.260 whatever your body

05:21:52.860 count is you won't

05:21:55.120 reveal i'm ready to

05:21:55.960 bang my head on this

05:21:56.780 fucking table with you

05:21:57.880 guys this conversation

05:21:58.960 like you love it don't

05:22:00.320 you really hurry up get

05:22:02.080 it over with uh i mean

05:22:04.680 look it depends on your

05:22:05.620 age i don't know

05:22:09.040 tell me your body count

05:22:11.860 and i'll tell you if

05:22:12.380 it's too high how about

05:22:13.060 that oh my god

05:22:14.100 it's a double digit how

05:22:16.480 about that i'm not

05:22:18.220 saying anything that's a

05:22:19.300 yes okay it's all good

05:22:21.380 it's okay adriana with

05:22:22.680 that okay virgin if

05:22:23.940 someone chooses to

05:22:25.120 repent this is just my

05:22:26.360 opinion i don't know if

05:22:27.020 there's any you know

05:22:27.680 scientific evidence to

05:22:28.580 back this up but i do

05:22:29.580 believe that they should

05:22:30.680 be absent for a period of

05:22:32.500 time depending on how

05:22:33.460 many people they slept

05:22:34.480 with sure so if they

05:22:35.740 slept with like a lot of

05:22:36.880 people then you should be

05:22:37.840 absent for a few years to

05:22:39.120 try to repair that

05:22:40.460 relationship with sex

05:22:41.500 because you can't just go

05:22:42.620 like banging and then be

05:22:44.040 like oh i repent and then

05:22:45.180 like you know suddenly you

05:22:46.540 know yourself but like you

05:22:47.460 need time to repair that

05:22:48.460 relationship with sex and

05:22:49.780 yourself and spiritually

05:22:51.180 she makes a valid point

05:22:52.420 yeah sure that's fine

05:22:53.020 but i think to your point

05:22:54.140 like like okay we got we

05:22:57.080 got um we got brandon

05:22:58.960 here and it's like a girl

05:23:00.620 could have done that she

05:23:01.440 slept with 20 dudes but

05:23:02.900 she like repented she has

05:23:04.460 she's been like abstinent for

05:23:05.700 three years or whatever i

05:23:07.440 don't think there's anything

05:23:08.240 wrong with brandon saying

05:23:09.860 cool like i i don't think

05:23:12.680 there's any sort of uh what's

05:23:14.600 the term for it like both

05:23:16.520 things can be true like can

05:23:18.100 she be can she be forgiven

05:23:19.660 can she be a christian

05:23:20.660 absolutely doesn't mean

05:23:22.220 that he is obligated to

05:23:23.720 date her no of course not

05:23:24.940 and i think but he can use

05:23:26.480 that as a metric to be like

05:23:28.160 i don't want to date you

05:23:28.920 because of this no of

05:23:30.500 course but what i'm saying

05:23:31.760 is when you really like

05:23:33.040 someone you're gonna look

05:23:34.720 at the person who they are

05:23:36.120 now so like we say we

05:23:38.860 could say like oh this

05:23:39.760 matters so much like yeah

05:23:41.040 he may still choose to say

05:23:42.360 you know i don't want to

05:23:43.200 date a girl that you know

05:23:44.520 slept with 20 dudes even if

05:23:45.700 that is in her past and if

05:23:46.880 she repented but if he

05:23:48.020 really liked her he would

05:23:49.760 i'm not saying for you but

05:23:50.640 like just in general well

05:23:51.700 yeah sure i mean so i agree

05:23:53.740 with her men yeah men can

05:23:55.320 make a determination like oh

05:23:57.020 okay like she's a great

05:23:58.280 woman and like in the um in

05:24:02.260 the calculus or out whatever

05:24:04.320 the calculus of all the

05:24:06.200 factors then yeah i'm gonna

05:24:09.880 accept it i guess but yeah

05:24:12.600 and obviously there's like you

05:24:14.020 know a metric system for sure

05:24:15.260 you were expecting like let's

05:24:16.700 see what

05:24:17.580 help but how about this let's

05:24:22.720 use like an exchange like

05:24:24.260 she has a body count of a

05:24:26.100 hundred

05:24:26.380 it's over

05:24:29.080 no i get that

05:24:30.700 but yeah and i was like

05:24:31.420 there's 99 like it's cool

05:24:33.060 no no still if it's 99 that's

05:24:35.020 it's still over

05:24:35.860 now can she still get a guy

05:24:37.760 sure but what i'm saying like

05:24:39.000 at least for for my

05:24:40.740 perspective no matter how cool

05:24:42.520 she is no matter how hot she

05:24:44.220 is no matt like if she slept

05:24:46.340 with a hundred men i don't

05:24:48.960 care like all these other

05:24:50.420 good factors it's done it's a

05:24:52.800 wrap

05:24:52.960 no any girl's gonna tell you

05:24:55.160 i slept with two men and

05:24:57.020 you're gonna

05:24:57.320 oh great she started a

05:24:58.600 relationship

05:24:58.980 okay so this is my thing

05:25:00.480 no how are you gonna know

05:25:01.580 you're never gonna know

05:25:02.320 oh so you guys are advocating

05:25:03.720 for women to lie to them

05:25:04.980 no i'm just saying if she

05:25:05.760 does lie

05:25:06.260 if you hear a girl that slept

05:25:07.980 with a hundred men i know

05:25:09.120 look i know she's gonna tell

05:25:10.320 maybe she's only slept with

05:25:11.400 two and you're gonna be

05:25:12.720 like okay it's only two and

05:25:14.000 well that first off terrible

05:25:15.480 way to start

05:25:15.940 but that's why i'm saying

05:25:17.380 what matters most is the

05:25:18.380 person that is in front of

05:25:19.680 you like they could be

05:25:20.540 lying about

05:25:21.100 there's no way

05:25:22.000 oh yeah

05:25:22.480 are you gonna put a

05:25:24.440 like a kilometer thingy

05:25:25.940 men always like what is it

05:25:27.300 they always like times it by

05:25:28.560 two

05:25:28.860 you have to check the

05:25:29.840 high end

05:25:30.380 how many men you slept

05:25:31.860 with on your on your

05:25:32.980 arm

05:25:33.240 i'm gonna say this i'm gonna

05:25:35.200 say this most women who

05:25:36.540 have slept with a hundred

05:25:37.880 men the way that they're

05:25:39.300 moving in other ways in

05:25:40.680 their life you're gonna

05:25:41.920 changing it up you're

05:25:43.120 gonna know she doesn't

05:25:44.320 have to tell you a girl

05:25:45.340 who slept with a hundred

05:25:46.060 men it's gonna be

05:25:47.240 we'll let you think that

05:25:48.040 we'll let you live it's

05:25:50.000 gonna be all over

05:25:51.620 he's completely sad he's

05:25:53.080 completely sad we have to

05:25:54.380 thinking about how many

05:25:55.640 men has one woman

05:25:57.520 i have a question one

05:26:01.820 second one second i'll

05:26:02.820 let you ask it one second

05:26:03.760 so many problems in the

05:26:05.940 world would be fixed and

05:26:07.800 i i'll give credit to

05:26:08.820 andrew tate on this one

05:26:09.560 you guys if women had

05:26:12.100 their body count written

05:26:13.560 on their forehead all the

05:26:15.400 problems of the world

05:26:16.740 would be fixed

05:26:18.160 there would be families and

05:26:21.320 children again women would

05:26:22.980 be conducting themselves

05:26:24.160 properly men would be

05:26:25.600 conducting themselves

05:26:26.480 properly it would fix

05:26:28.160 everything wait do men

05:26:29.580 also have their number

05:26:30.300 on their forehead can i

05:26:31.400 ask my question does

05:26:32.300 everyone have their number

05:26:33.460 on their forehead just a

05:26:34.260 woman just a woman

05:26:35.200 just hypocritical not fair

05:26:36.780 that's not hypocritical

05:26:37.840 wait so then who would

05:26:38.660 you guys stay standard

05:26:39.520 if the women want to

05:26:40.760 keep it like at zero who

05:26:42.100 would you guys sleep with

05:26:42.880 i guess we would that you

05:26:43.900 have to marry the first

05:26:44.660 girl if all that's what i

05:26:46.600 heard

05:26:46.780 if this look if if all

05:26:50.900 women collectively were

05:26:52.420 like we're not sleeping

05:26:53.940 with men until we're

05:26:55.360 married y'all would be

05:26:57.480 courted like women and

05:26:59.520 y'all would all be wives

05:27:00.800 that's a big commitment

05:27:02.720 without okay can i ask my

05:27:03.680 question

05:27:04.080 i gotta test drive the

05:27:05.680 car before i forget

05:27:06.340 sure um so before we

05:27:09.180 started asking this

05:27:10.020 question before i got up

05:27:11.140 and left the room during

05:27:11.940 the question yeah just

05:27:13.020 looking to escape

05:27:13.720 to escape

05:27:14.580 just looking at me how

05:27:16.160 many guys do you think i

05:27:16.860 would have slept with

05:27:17.520 are we counting bjs

05:27:19.260 because the bj count is

05:27:22.820 higher

05:27:23.120 fine we can count it if

05:27:26.800 you want to count it

05:27:27.180 wait does that count with

05:27:28.020 him though

05:27:28.480 what yes for sure

05:27:31.000 didn't we talk about

05:27:31.980 this wait have you

05:27:32.920 received oral sex

05:27:34.420 no if it if it starts

05:27:36.320 in sex i haven't done

05:27:37.700 nothing in the butt

05:27:38.260 either

05:27:38.600 whoa

05:27:39.140 i was just kidding

05:27:40.980 the poophole loophole

05:27:42.220 is not

05:27:42.940 that's that's why that's

05:27:45.740 why for you it's really

05:27:47.240 hard to find them

05:27:49.420 someone because you

05:27:50.540 already has you

05:27:52.000 manipulations and

05:27:54.220 that's why it's really

05:27:56.380 hard for you finding

05:27:57.800 something

05:27:58.360 because your level is

05:28:00.000 really high

05:28:00.880 wait so can we answer

05:28:02.000 the question

05:28:02.600 he's gonna be fine

05:28:04.300 what are you talking

05:28:05.160 about

05:28:05.480 he's good

05:28:07.240 it is

05:28:08.800 it is

05:28:09.420 he wants a christian

05:28:13.120 virgin

05:28:14.160 uh

05:28:14.880 feminine

05:28:15.880 woman

05:28:17.200 he'll find him

05:28:18.480 that only gives him

05:28:19.180 for sure

05:28:19.620 that only gives him

05:28:20.600 blowjobs

05:28:21.060 all he wants

05:28:21.720 nothing else

05:28:22.460 nothing less

05:28:23.160 nothing more

05:28:23.820 he's laughing because

05:28:25.260 he knows it's true

05:28:26.080 that's guilt right

05:28:27.320 there sir

05:28:27.900 wait what do you

05:28:29.300 say you're saying

05:28:30.000 i've gotten a bj

05:28:31.400 before

05:28:31.640 that's all you do

05:28:32.320 that's the only thing

05:28:32.980 i said if it starts

05:28:34.540 with sex i haven't

05:28:35.700 done it

05:28:36.240 that is in my opinion

05:28:38.060 actually in in one of

05:28:39.820 my previous relationships

05:28:41.200 i was quite upset

05:28:42.800 with my significant

05:28:45.720 other because

05:28:46.700 they because i had

05:28:48.700 asked them what their

05:28:49.400 body count was

05:28:50.140 they wouldn't

05:28:50.400 interrupt you

05:28:50.980 left that number

05:28:51.960 out of having done

05:28:55.020 other things instead

05:28:56.520 of just

05:28:57.160 wow and that was

05:28:58.060 something that i

05:28:58.740 consider i considered

05:28:59.720 that a straight up

05:29:00.580 lie

05:29:01.080 well for me personally

05:29:02.280 i know it's

05:29:03.340 everything except

05:29:04.140 kissing like

05:29:05.000 to be honest

05:29:06.300 personally i've never

05:29:09.620 only given someone

05:29:10.960 a blowjob

05:29:11.460 if i'm having sex

05:29:12.480 with them

05:29:12.840 if i give them a

05:29:14.100 blowjob we're

05:29:14.560 having sex

05:29:15.200 exactly

05:29:16.040 it's a package

05:29:16.860 there's no

05:29:17.440 there's no

05:29:19.020 if we do it

05:29:22.420 we're going all

05:29:23.160 the way

05:29:23.440 shit goes down

05:29:24.080 shit goes

05:29:24.540 hold on

05:29:26.820 hold on here

05:29:29.000 what if you gave

05:29:30.360 a guy that

05:29:31.540 and he was like

05:29:32.960 eh i'm good

05:29:34.300 i wouldn't

05:29:35.820 i haven't

05:29:36.680 you would

05:29:37.020 what do you mean

05:29:39.020 like i i'd never

05:29:40.160 given someone a

05:29:40.800 blowjob and then

05:29:41.600 like no but what

05:29:42.140 if he not had

05:29:42.880 sex what if he

05:29:43.560 was like i'm

05:29:44.420 okay but i

05:29:45.320 won't like i

05:29:46.020 just i won't

05:29:47.080 give him a blowjob

05:29:47.720 until we have sex

05:29:48.600 first oh the sex

05:29:49.620 first it's the

05:29:50.380 sex first

05:29:51.140 i need to be

05:29:54.800 pleasured first

05:29:55.540 that's fair

05:29:56.220 that's fair

05:29:57.020 fair deal

05:29:57.780 all right i think

05:29:59.480 i think so

05:30:00.880 society in general

05:30:01.940 should give abstinence

05:30:02.800 a shot

05:30:03.300 i agree with her

05:30:05.860 i do think that

05:30:06.920 abstinence is the

05:30:09.100 way to go i mean

05:30:10.560 both on the male

05:30:11.840 side sorry brian and

05:30:13.800 the female side of

05:30:14.940 things i i'm a big

05:30:16.880 promoter of that

05:30:17.860 and this is just like

05:30:19.420 my hot take but i

05:30:21.120 think women should be

05:30:21.960 abstinent until they

05:30:23.100 meet me

05:30:23.600 saying until they

05:30:26.260 meet what until

05:30:27.060 they meet me that's

05:30:27.960 like fair can i

05:30:29.580 borrow that i forgot

05:30:30.880 what i was gonna

05:30:31.340 say now

05:30:31.880 okay i don't know

05:30:34.100 adriana um the

05:30:36.860 evasiveness has me a

05:30:38.140 bit you know like

05:30:39.740 concerned um let me

05:30:43.600 ask a couple questions

05:30:44.500 have you ever had no

05:30:45.260 with no question have

05:30:46.300 you ever had a

05:30:46.680 threesome no no no

05:30:48.060 uh have you ever had

05:30:49.280 a one night stand no

05:30:50.820 not intentionally an

05:30:52.840 accident you had an

05:30:53.540 accidental

05:30:54.040 no like i thought we

05:30:57.620 were more than that

05:30:58.620 and then i just never

05:30:59.640 heard from him again

05:31:00.480 after oh damn good

05:31:02.360 times good times great

05:31:03.320 times all in soldier

05:31:04.240 the best of times have

05:31:06.060 you ever no my

05:31:07.560 tattoos but i have one

05:31:09.120 little baby one but

05:31:10.220 it's like it's like a

05:31:11.100 meaningful one what

05:31:12.040 sky what did that

05:31:13.800 have to do yeah what

05:31:14.720 does it have to do

05:31:15.280 listen what is it

05:31:16.300 i'm saying based off

05:31:17.840 of my ears don't judge

05:31:18.700 by tattoos just looking

05:31:20.420 at me right now if

05:31:21.620 you saw me walking

05:31:22.340 down the side of the

05:31:22.980 street and you saw

05:31:23.840 me and you looked at

05:31:24.500 me what do you think

05:31:25.240 my body count and

05:31:25.820 we've also had the

05:31:26.620 conversation we've

05:31:27.020 never had a conversation

05:31:27.820 and when the body

05:31:28.740 count question came

05:31:29.620 around no you got up

05:31:30.780 before the body count

05:31:32.060 question came around

05:31:34.240 like a solid 18 really

05:31:39.280 is that too low i

05:31:41.080 know that's hot no

05:31:42.660 because i've had

05:31:43.360 people tell me before

05:31:44.300 like oh have you even

05:31:45.360 like ever done it before

05:31:46.340 like people think i'm a

05:31:47.660 virgin people fully

05:31:49.680 think of okay now i'm

05:31:50.760 curious

05:31:51.200 yeah what do you

05:31:55.400 think i'm not saying

05:31:57.700 anything i'm not saying

05:31:59.060 anything

05:31:59.320 what do i look like

05:32:02.820 mine would be

05:32:03.480 you abigail

05:32:05.200 100 are we for real

05:32:08.940 yeah yeah you're too

05:32:11.100 pretty did you you're

05:32:12.580 too pretty

05:32:12.920 i already know i'm just

05:32:14.340 saying i already know

05:32:14.840 it would be high

05:32:15.160 we all are not talking

05:32:17.220 to you if i just look at

05:32:18.500 you it's just because

05:32:19.580 you're too pretty well i

05:32:20.660 think the prettier the

05:32:21.460 girl the lower the body

05:32:22.680 count typically like it's

05:32:24.680 like i feel like well

05:32:26.220 hold on

05:32:26.800 oh so you're saying i'm

05:32:27.980 ugly

05:32:28.220 no not at all

05:32:30.960 i didn't say that

05:32:34.040 i know i feel like it's

05:32:37.680 like the average girl

05:32:38.700 now you're blushing i

05:32:40.000 feel like it's an

05:32:40.560 average girl who's like

05:32:41.520 kind of like insecure and

05:32:43.600 she's gonna like fuck a

05:32:44.460 bunch of dudes to like

05:32:45.160 feel better about

05:32:45.680 herself

05:32:45.980 am i wrong

05:32:48.200 you think girls have

05:32:49.440 sex because they're

05:32:50.200 insecure

05:32:50.440 you think girls have

05:32:51.920 sex because they're

05:32:52.440 insecure

05:32:52.740 yeah a lot of women have

05:32:54.320 sex for validation

05:32:55.060 yeah so why do men

05:32:56.080 have sex

05:32:56.720 because they want sex

05:32:59.680 what if you just

05:33:00.340 like girls just want

05:33:01.540 sex

05:33:02.160 yeah sure

05:33:03.760 those females do

05:33:05.220 you do know that

05:33:05.920 there's men that like

05:33:07.220 invite girls out to

05:33:08.140 dinner they like flaunt

05:33:10.100 that they're gonna pay

05:33:10.760 for everything because

05:33:11.580 they want sex at the

05:33:12.580 end of the night like

05:33:13.740 there's a lot of men

05:33:14.420 that do that just to

05:33:15.300 trap girls and yeah i

05:33:17.500 think deep down

05:33:18.100 tell me that's not

05:33:19.100 what it is

05:33:19.620 there's guys that will

05:33:21.820 like take you to the

05:33:23.460 most expensive

05:33:24.000 restaurant that will

05:33:25.740 do the most to get

05:33:28.280 girls to come out

05:33:29.160 and you know get

05:33:30.280 into that mood and

05:33:31.320 they'll get them

05:33:32.080 drunk and then they

05:33:32.800 start you know they

05:33:34.080 fall for it there's

05:33:35.400 there's guys that are

05:33:36.700 like that and you

05:33:37.880 know what i've been

05:33:38.780 also to uh i've been

05:33:40.220 to like gay bars

05:33:41.580 straight men go to

05:33:43.080 gay bars to pick up

05:33:44.360 drunk chicks

05:33:45.320 i've experienced

05:33:47.540 straight men go to

05:33:49.360 i i've been hit i

05:33:50.320 go to a lot of like

05:33:51.480 gay bars and and

05:33:52.560 um it's um normal to

05:33:56.500 come across straight

05:33:57.560 men that go to these

05:33:58.620 bars like freaking

05:33:59.420 creeps and pray on

05:34:01.060 these drunk girls and

05:34:02.920 they end up taking

05:34:03.800 some home what does

05:34:04.400 that have to do with

05:34:05.020 the no no no i'm

05:34:06.080 just i'm just saying

05:34:07.300 like i mean it got a

05:34:09.340 little off topic but

05:34:10.300 there's guys there

05:34:11.360 yeah there's guys that

05:34:13.320 will that go out to

05:34:14.440 bars to no no no

05:34:15.420 aside from that okay

05:34:16.360 i said aside from

05:34:17.440 that what my point was

05:34:18.740 at first was that

05:34:19.560 there's guys that

05:34:20.440 will take girls out

05:34:21.840 on dates to very

05:34:23.000 expensive places because

05:34:24.220 they want the girl to

05:34:25.780 give up give it

05:34:26.600 fall in love and

05:34:27.680 make her feel special

05:34:28.820 and then she's like

05:34:29.860 oh my god he's

05:34:30.640 and then he gets

05:34:31.680 laid he gets laid

05:34:33.060 and then that was

05:34:34.400 his only purpose

05:34:35.040 this is why everyone's

05:34:35.920 got to wait till

05:34:36.460 marriage so you know

05:34:37.440 i mean that's the

05:34:38.000 risk you take by

05:34:38.740 sleeping around though

05:34:39.800 no but i'm saying

05:34:40.960 there's guys that

05:34:41.800 just do that and

05:34:42.780 they invite every

05:34:43.700 other girl i'm not

05:34:44.960 saying specifically one

05:34:46.280 it's just there's

05:34:47.600 guys that don't

05:34:48.540 know consistently

05:34:50.100 yeah it's like

05:34:51.020 every other night

05:34:51.720 that's what i'm

05:34:52.540 targeting right now

05:34:53.240 well i mean look

05:34:54.320 i'll say this i think

05:34:55.460 me personally will

05:34:57.260 pretend to be like

05:34:58.840 you know prince charming

05:35:00.400 and stuff and they're

05:35:01.760 in town like you

05:35:02.500 know mutual people so

05:35:03.460 you probably also know

05:35:04.340 that he's like oh

05:35:05.340 there's just guys i'm

05:35:06.080 just saying in general

05:35:06.780 i'm not saying like oh

05:35:07.980 i'm dating no no i'm

05:35:09.100 not saying you in

05:35:09.780 particular but in

05:35:10.680 general there's guys

05:35:11.360 there's guys that have

05:35:12.620 that strategy is what

05:35:14.220 i'm saying yeah i

05:35:15.140 guys i don't deny

05:35:16.600 that i don't deny

05:35:16.620 that men do this

05:35:17.180 what's your point

05:35:17.740 though so i'm just

05:35:18.800 saying yeah no i

05:35:19.800 want to deny men

05:35:20.500 because i i'm abstin

05:35:22.080 right i haven't you

05:35:23.300 guys are talking about

05:35:24.240 a bunch of nonsense so

05:35:25.120 i'm gonna bring that

05:35:25.720 up as well might as

05:35:26.460 well say it might as

05:35:27.600 well mention it it

05:35:28.500 happens okay fine i'll

05:35:29.340 just address it um so

05:35:31.060 is your point like men

05:35:32.680 do all this stuff to

05:35:33.760 try to like maybe they

05:35:34.780 lie not all men there's

05:35:36.500 men that use that as a

05:35:37.780 specific strategy to get

05:35:39.440 laid okay and so you're

05:35:40.940 saying they're like

05:35:41.440 misleading the woman like

05:35:42.480 they're telling the woman

05:35:43.560 that she has long-term

05:35:45.120 interest yes then she

05:35:46.420 sleeps with him and

05:35:47.200 then he's gone he's

05:35:48.260 gone or he'll come

05:35:49.040 back whenever he's

05:35:49.940 ready to yeah i think

05:35:51.340 that's wrong i don't

05:35:52.040 think men should lie

05:35:52.700 about that and then

05:35:53.460 also they rely on

05:35:54.520 alcohol to get girls to

05:35:56.300 fuck them yeah yeah

05:35:59.120 speaking from experience

05:36:00.120 yes absolutely okay

05:36:01.580 well i mean don't you

05:36:02.860 maybe don't drink i

05:36:04.120 personally don't drink

05:36:04.900 no it's not even about

05:36:05.680 drinking no but there's

05:36:06.440 men out there which are

05:36:08.460 f boys and for the most

05:36:09.840 part that strategically do

05:36:11.860 this kind of stuff okay

05:36:12.860 yeah but so don't don't

05:36:15.000 you think that the

05:36:15.900 correct answer to fix

05:36:18.460 that would be to stay

05:36:19.960 abstinent i don't i don't

05:36:22.080 right now i'm not dating

05:36:23.040 because i already know

05:36:23.960 that i don't trust guys

05:36:25.100 when it comes to like

05:36:26.120 going out can i just say

05:36:26.960 something um and i'm too

05:36:28.240 busy so i mentioned

05:36:28.880 before like i'm abstinent

05:36:29.980 right and part of the

05:36:31.040 reason you know a lot of

05:36:32.080 people when they say

05:36:33.120 they're like you know

05:36:33.760 celibate whatever they

05:36:34.840 just say that there it's

05:36:35.960 like a spiritual journey and

05:36:37.480 like whatever whatever like

05:36:38.960 my reasons for going

05:36:40.060 abstinent were because i

05:36:41.740 realized how much drama

05:36:42.900 casual sex brings yeah

05:36:44.640 like for example like

05:36:45.780 emotions yeah like you

05:36:47.200 know feeling like you

05:36:48.280 know possibly being used

05:36:49.680 or like feeling stupid

05:36:50.580 for sleeping with someone

05:36:51.700 or you know pregnancy

05:36:53.200 scares or you know

05:36:54.340 feelings of jealousy

05:36:55.100 confusion like you're

05:36:56.200 doing this very it comes

05:36:57.620 with emotions yeah so

05:36:59.040 that's why that's why i

05:37:00.980 decided like the sexual

05:37:02.980 experience is not worth

05:37:04.000 all those risks i i've

05:37:05.620 taken i've taken my

05:37:07.060 breaks like i worth that

05:37:08.620 much like most of the

05:37:09.700 time like are they

05:37:10.680 don't look at that

05:37:11.380 like don't look at me

05:37:12.160 like that so yeah like

05:37:13.960 i became right so just

05:37:16.420 like a little background

05:37:17.080 for me like i first

05:37:18.260 became abstinent like

05:37:20.000 five years ago but at

05:37:22.120 first it was for non

05:37:22.840 religious reasons like

05:37:23.820 the the you know reasons

05:37:25.360 i just stated no

05:37:26.440 sometimes you just need a

05:37:27.400 break you just yeah so

05:37:28.600 two years away from all

05:37:29.900 that drama and then i

05:37:30.840 became christian and

05:37:32.020 then i you know then i

05:37:33.540 finally had this firm

05:37:34.400 foundation behind my

05:37:35.640 beliefs like okay it's

05:37:36.600 not just about the drama

05:37:37.680 or whatever but it's

05:37:38.660 also like i'm honoring

05:37:39.540 god with my body because

05:37:41.420 you know wait didn't

05:37:42.100 you say you had a

05:37:42.600 hookup like a month

05:37:43.280 ago i didn't hook up

05:37:44.660 no that wasn't no it

05:37:45.460 was just a fling i

05:37:46.640 didn't sleep with him

05:37:47.180 okay oh a fling coffee

05:37:48.980 dates a fling christian

05:37:50.420 fling just because

05:37:53.020 someone has a fling

05:37:53.740 doesn't mean they slept

05:37:54.460 with the person i mean

05:37:54.780 when i think of a

05:37:55.420 fling well yeah i i

05:37:56.800 know because because

05:37:58.020 we're different people

05:37:59.020 sexual yeah okay i'll

05:37:59.980 just address the thing i

05:38:00.820 do have to move things

05:38:01.460 on but i'll just

05:38:02.040 address oh you have

05:38:02.900 more no yeah i just

05:38:04.200 wanted to say you know

05:38:05.700 go ahead next question

05:38:07.160 i mean go ahead you

05:38:08.620 can no you can finish

05:38:09.540 your thought go ahead

05:38:10.280 no yeah so as i was

05:38:13.420 saying that you know

05:38:15.360 then i had a firm

05:38:16.180 foundation behind my

05:38:17.380 beliefs you know there

05:38:18.880 was times where i felt

05:38:19.980 like i could have folded

05:38:20.840 like in these certain

05:38:21.620 flings but now that i

05:38:23.020 have god like behind me

05:38:24.300 and those values it's

05:38:25.480 it's a lot easier to

05:38:26.640 stick to it and not fall

05:38:27.620 into temptation so i do

05:38:29.780 believe like everyone

05:38:30.720 here should give

05:38:31.640 abstinence a shot if

05:38:32.940 you're not and you'll

05:38:33.680 see how much peace it

05:38:35.220 brings to your life

05:38:36.000 yeah i love how you

05:38:37.140 think i do love how

05:38:38.080 you talk and how you

05:38:38.920 think yeah but like it

05:38:40.260 doesn't have be quiet

05:38:40.960 nobody's talking it

05:38:41.620 just has to be for

05:38:42.320 religious reasons you

05:38:43.420 can go to japan and

05:38:44.820 maybe stop in

05:38:46.400 barcelona all right

05:38:48.160 what she said you go

05:38:49.360 to japan and maybe you

05:38:50.480 stop in barcelona i

05:38:52.020 have already a house

05:38:52.880 there are you like

05:38:54.140 trying to fuck me

05:38:54.840 no no no no she's

05:38:57.360 gonna first wash your

05:38:58.460 clothes and then she's

05:38:59.640 gonna try to pull you

05:39:00.540 laundry yeah i have to

05:39:02.740 convince to you

05:39:03.920 take her to your

05:39:04.760 laundry room go show

05:39:05.820 her the laundry you

05:39:06.580 got upstairs i feel

05:39:07.920 like there's a language

05:39:08.540 barrier go show her

05:39:10.740 the laundry you haven't

05:39:11.680 done in three months

05:39:12.460 upstairs i do my

05:39:13.860 laundry weekly okay

05:39:15.400 do you have go ahead

05:39:16.820 yeah i just have one

05:39:17.360 question i want to ask

05:39:18.100 the panel but you know

05:39:20.000 a lot of girls it's not

05:39:21.320 just about the drama but

05:39:22.340 they also say like oh

05:39:24.220 he was bad in bed he

05:39:25.380 only lasted two minutes

05:39:26.460 da da da da so it's

05:39:27.660 like you're risking all

05:39:28.780 these things for like not

05:39:29.900 even like a good sexual

05:39:31.240 experience for 10 seconds

05:39:32.540 of your life exactly

05:39:33.540 like what is it really

05:39:34.460 worth it like you're

05:39:35.360 risking pregnancy you're

05:39:36.540 risking seds all the

05:39:37.760 drama and like the

05:39:38.740 spiritual effects like is

05:39:40.220 it worth it for you know

05:39:42.200 girls have casual sex

05:39:43.580 like yeah most of these

05:39:44.640 girls don't even come

05:39:45.380 that's why i'm so scared

05:39:46.520 to have i see why i see

05:39:49.260 why but not casual sex

05:39:50.640 because i always but

05:39:51.780 you're a virgin are you

05:39:52.880 sure you are you sure

05:39:55.140 that's happening because i

05:39:57.220 can't say yes yes and

05:39:58.840 doesn't happen anything

05:39:59.720 no he's saying they

05:40:00.800 don't he's saying no

05:40:01.840 they don't or they

05:40:04.400 don't with you no they

05:40:05.640 do with yeah my ex are

05:40:06.960 you sure oh yeah i'm sure

05:40:08.400 okay yeah bro y'all

05:40:10.420 legs are twitching and

05:40:11.660 shit you can't fake that

05:40:12.600 okay okay legs are

05:40:13.760 twitching and shit

05:40:14.440 because me i can say a

05:40:16.720 hundred times yes yes i do

05:40:19.180 and i do and i don't do

05:40:21.060 anything

05:40:21.220 fucking chicks karate

05:40:22.760 kick

05:40:23.060 like calm down bro

05:40:25.080 last thing i want to go

05:40:27.580 back to the double

05:40:28.240 standards thing here and

05:40:29.920 it's related to this why

05:40:31.300 is it i think is it is

05:40:32.640 it hypocritical for

05:40:33.400 example why is it that

05:40:35.520 when a man premature

05:40:37.940 ejaculates that's bad but

05:40:40.120 if a woman comes really

05:40:42.020 quickly like that's a good

05:40:43.720 thing that is so unfair and

05:40:45.980 hypocritical i think the

05:40:47.280 real question is did the

05:40:48.580 other person finish or did

05:40:49.880 they at least you know

05:40:51.020 assist the other person

05:40:52.000 to finishing regardless of

05:40:53.480 when they finish yeah i

05:40:54.940 feel like a man some men

05:40:56.260 can't keep it up after

05:40:57.760 they finish so you have to

05:40:58.860 give them some

05:40:59.280 rejuvenation time that's

05:41:01.580 cool well i i'm being i'm

05:41:03.680 i'm being for real no i

05:41:04.960 know it's cool oh yeah as

05:41:07.080 long as he can go another

05:41:08.000 ride um no okay so to

05:41:10.000 your thing to your point

05:41:10.740 really quick then i gotta get

05:41:11.580 through a whole bunch of

05:41:12.160 stuff so uh i don't think

05:41:13.800 men should lie about their

05:41:14.860 intentions with women me

05:41:16.280 personally i've i've never

05:41:17.740 really had an interest of just

05:41:19.360 like sleeping with like one

05:41:20.980 girl after the other just

05:41:21.920 once i don't really

05:41:22.960 understand the point of

05:41:23.920 sleeping with a girl once

05:41:24.820 never talking to her again

05:41:26.300 i think that's weird if i

05:41:27.760 sleep with a girl i make

05:41:28.780 the decision to sleep with

05:41:29.640 her i just know

05:41:31.000 it's positive i just

05:41:34.680 respect you a lot for

05:41:35.780 saying that just hold on

05:41:36.620 no i'm just saying i

05:41:37.180 respect you for saying

05:41:38.000 that that's all i had to

05:41:38.660 say i appreciate if i

05:41:40.060 sleep with a girl i want

05:41:41.100 there to be continuity i

05:41:42.660 don't i don't even see the

05:41:43.940 point in like a girl has to

05:41:45.860 fuck up in some terrible way

05:41:47.720 for me to sleep with her

05:41:48.860 once and never want to

05:41:50.200 deal with her again i don't

05:41:51.220 know what she'd have to do

05:41:51.980 she'd have to like sleep with

05:41:53.640 someone else not do

05:41:54.700 sure i don't know

05:41:56.240 not do your laundry if i make

05:41:58.180 the choice to sleep with a

05:41:59.160 girl i'm gonna keep seeing

05:42:00.660 her now you could fuck it up

05:42:02.280 but like i'm not gonna go in

05:42:04.660 with the intention of i'm just

05:42:06.400 gonna try to sleep with this

05:42:07.080 girl never talk to her again

05:42:07.980 i think that's weird um yeah

05:42:09.820 but it's very normal and i

05:42:11.860 know you know that yeah i think

05:42:13.180 it's weird but that's not

05:42:14.140 weird that's like that's how it

05:42:15.480 should be i do think that's

05:42:17.440 how it should be so i have a

05:42:18.900 question like for men in

05:42:20.160 general like something i never

05:42:22.020 really understood is like you

05:42:23.440 know they say men men want to

05:42:24.660 sleep with multiple women but

05:42:25.720 like i'm not a lesbian or a

05:42:28.460 gynecologist but like i'm sure

05:42:30.600 most vaginas don't feel that

05:42:32.300 much different from the next

05:42:33.540 one like why do you have to

05:42:34.420 sleep with so many different

05:42:35.740 women like i don't i don't i'm

05:42:37.680 not saying this i'm not asking

05:42:38.980 to sound class or whatever but i'm

05:42:40.480 genuinely like

05:42:41.380 it is a muscle so it does like

05:42:45.000 expand and contract okay that

05:42:46.960 one's a little i have had at

05:42:48.480 least hold on never mind

05:42:51.100 well she's a little bit drier than

05:42:54.060 the other girl's hair is like

05:42:55.500 for men sex is like pizza even

05:42:57.740 when it's bad it's still a little

05:42:58.880 good you're asking the labia

05:43:00.600 master

05:43:01.060 i will say i will say like the

05:43:06.400 pizza analogy the pizza analogy

05:43:09.040 absolutely like it's hard to fuck

05:43:11.520 up pussy you know it's hard to

05:43:13.020 fuck it up most pussy is good

05:43:14.480 pussy

05:43:14.760 but there's some pussy that's

05:43:19.200 better than other pussy

05:43:20.060 absolutely absolutely and the

05:43:23.180 same for the dick

05:43:23.940 and the same for the dick

05:43:25.860 she's my uh

05:43:26.600 and the same next one yes and

05:43:28.600 the same for the

05:43:29.640 but this is why like men would

05:43:36.280 cheat on their wives or like

05:43:37.380 vagina that doesn't even feel like

05:43:38.900 that much different than their

05:43:40.160 wives vagina like i don't get it

05:43:41.700 like i just there's differences

05:43:43.080 at least there's differences

05:43:44.220 it's always just the physical

05:43:45.480 aspect that they cheat but if

05:43:46.620 you're getting it from your wife

05:43:47.700 why do you have to like sleep

05:43:49.020 but i mean by that by that same

05:43:52.640 analogy then they could go just

05:43:55.440 watch porn you know they wouldn't

05:43:57.160 have to actually go out and sleep

05:43:59.660 with a whole nother woman if the

05:44:01.380 finishing is the goal then

05:44:03.960 wouldn't that satisfy them

05:44:05.340 and how you know definitely has to

05:44:06.880 do with like

05:44:07.400 and how you know

05:44:08.460 and how you know

05:44:10.580 yeah and like books

05:44:11.620 uh

05:44:12.820 why are you turning red

05:44:18.280 ban porn

05:44:20.800 yeah i'm with her on that i think

05:44:24.300 we should ban porn

05:44:25.240 ban porn okay yeah

05:44:26.480 and after the girls do porno and

05:44:32.180 only fans doesn't can't have the

05:44:34.900 date for first time pay so i don't

05:44:38.080 understand i don't understand

05:44:39.600 i don't understand you either

05:44:41.240 welcome to my spanish english

05:44:45.840 bad

05:44:46.140 i think it's so interesting that the

05:44:48.400 panel here it seems like most people

05:44:51.360 are pretty against hookup culture i was

05:44:54.820 not expecting that at all but it does

05:44:57.760 seem like yeah except for no i'm not

05:45:00.260 pro hookup culture okay she's not even

05:45:02.500 her you still think that they're being

05:45:03.820 honest with you bro

05:45:04.800 so you think that they're they're

05:45:06.880 completely lying

05:45:08.100 all right

05:45:08.700 he is the matrice

05:45:11.700 he is the matrice i'm a great actor

05:45:14.320 thank you i feel like okay but i'm

05:45:17.080 going to clarify on the modern dating

05:45:19.320 culture thing that you said i think

05:45:21.140 that um modern dating culture right now

05:45:24.240 more pushes it's more about the

05:45:25.680 dishonesty and the lack of

05:45:27.420 communication than the promiscuity that

05:45:29.140 i have a problem with modern dating

05:45:30.420 that's beautiful

05:45:31.560 that's a valid point

05:45:33.620 i have a question

05:45:34.500 hold on one sec before you ask your

05:45:36.520 question uh going to uh you uh about

05:45:40.940 the the vagina thing not not you right

05:45:43.460 in the picture because you know vagina in

05:45:46.300 the picture

05:45:46.760 you know like okay the girls in the

05:45:49.600 picture the girls here who have had

05:45:52.680 um multiple partners like who have had

05:45:55.340 more than one partner right

05:45:56.220 uh like have any of you landed on a

05:46:01.320 dude who just he did it right yeah you

05:46:05.620 know what i mean yep and then you're

05:46:07.380 comparing all like the future dudes you're

05:46:10.600 like man this new guy he doesn't do it as

05:46:12.840 good as fucking pablo or whatever the

05:46:14.740 fuck right he doesn't do it as good as

05:46:17.780 gustavo you know whatever it is and it's

05:46:20.260 like that can happen to to men too you

05:46:23.640 start rolling the dice you get a magical

05:46:25.180 pussy like you'll encounter you'll

05:46:28.340 encounter like some girls some girls

05:46:30.240 can't even like they can't even climax even

05:46:33.320 if you're like rubbing the clip whatever

05:46:34.440 then you got other girls who are like

05:46:36.600 insanely multi-orgasmic who can come

05:46:39.220 like 20 times so what can i hit you with

05:46:42.920 a biological fact that i learned in a

05:46:44.980 psychological fact that i learned in

05:46:46.180 school

05:46:46.480 usually when a girl can't come it's

05:46:49.580 because she's genuinely not interested in

05:46:51.160 the guy fake news and no it's like

05:46:53.200 science like there was like no it's

05:46:55.220 fake news

05:46:55.680 no just by saying fake news no it could

05:46:58.660 look because i i when i from personal

05:47:02.000 experience myself too like when i'm with

05:47:03.840 someone that i don't like

05:47:04.980 why it wasn't good dude hold on why are

05:47:07.800 you fucking a guy you don't like it was

05:47:09.580 not by choice

05:47:10.740 oh sometimes happen sometimes happen to

05:47:14.260 you too you too too

05:47:15.420 that's totally different sometimes you

05:47:16.700 fucking send somebody you don't even

05:47:18.460 like it

05:47:18.860 i'm not talking about non-consensual sex

05:47:20.360 what come on bro okay i will say and

05:47:22.140 for like people that are in the hookup

05:47:23.580 culture

05:47:23.880 or people that sleep with a lot of

05:47:25.140 people whatever you want to say

05:47:26.020 you learn more about what you actually

05:47:27.960 like

05:47:28.360 so like honestly six foot to six foot two

05:47:30.740 the schematics not ideal

05:47:32.840 wait what we don't need to know

05:47:35.020 exactly what we like we figure it out

05:47:36.760 with that person that you know we

05:47:38.420 marry that we spend the rest of our

05:47:40.100 lives with we figure it out together

05:47:41.500 like we don't need constant comparison

05:47:43.520 that's what's really you know messing up

05:47:45.700 but that's what i'm saying he's saying

05:47:46.960 that do you just start comparing no if

05:47:48.680 anything you just learn like oh i like

05:47:50.060 this i like that short buff guys never

05:47:52.140 would have thought that was a thing but

05:47:53.760 oh okay

05:47:54.740 we got a chat coming in then we're

05:47:58.460 gonna get through all the notes here

05:47:59.900 practicing gentlemen uh sky can you

05:48:02.540 read this one

05:48:03.280 why do you think there's an expectation

05:48:05.960 for men to demonstrate they can provide

05:48:08.920 and there's no expectation for women to

05:48:11.040 demonstrate they know how to take care of

05:48:12.780 a home

05:48:13.280 okay wait let me reread it to myself now

05:48:17.860 or it goes away because we only

05:48:20.060 we only teach men how to treat women but

05:48:25.440 we don't treat teach women how to treat

05:48:27.780 women naturally know how to do that

05:48:29.800 well i mean i don't know i speak for

05:48:31.680 myself i feel like a girl grows up in

05:48:33.540 the home like learning how to like well

05:48:36.320 for me i don't i can't speak for

05:48:37.820 everyone but i learned how to like clean

05:48:40.100 and do the dishes and what a housewife

05:48:42.860 would typically be quality women know

05:48:45.400 that by nature yeah i actually like

05:48:47.500 cleaning so all right let's get into the

05:48:49.760 notes here unless sorry somebody had a

05:48:52.720 did you have a question whose capri sun

05:48:55.160 is this it's been there oh my god i've

05:48:57.980 been staring at it for hours

05:48:59.060 but when you when you drink it you have

05:49:03.240 to have the label facing the camera okay

05:49:05.060 all right uh okay let's get through this

05:49:07.940 as quick as here uh nina you said that

05:49:10.600 you once had an immature mentality as a

05:49:12.340 lot of girls that go on the show and now

05:49:14.100 that you came to god you know both sides

05:49:16.440 so you think your perspective can open up

05:49:18.760 the minds and hearts of certain people

05:49:20.040 yeah yeah okay um you wanted to talk

05:49:22.800 about modern dating as a christian

05:49:24.020 waiting till marriage are you waiting

05:49:25.220 until marriage yeah oh okay all right

05:49:28.000 uh experiencing temptation having

05:49:30.000 self-control and authority over our

05:49:31.280 desires excuse me the common notion that

05:49:33.860 we need to test drive the car and the

05:49:35.980 sexual compatibility topic i get that

05:49:38.940 one a lot people always tell me don't

05:49:40.660 you want to drive the car before you buy

05:49:42.580 it

05:49:42.940 yes so i've been abstinent for three

05:49:45.860 years um most i became a christian two

05:49:49.960 years ago been absent for three years

05:49:51.920 only slept with someone once the past

05:49:54.360 five years so pretty much i've been

05:49:56.180 you know sexless the past five years

05:49:59.080 and honestly like you know people act

05:50:02.380 like sex is something we need like it's

05:50:04.300 air and water and it's not like it's

05:50:06.560 just a story but vibrato yes

05:50:08.380 vibrato sometime yes no sex but vibrato

05:50:12.240 vibrator vibrator no sex but vibrator

05:50:17.520 vibrator yeah but

05:50:18.760 how do you say vibrator in spanish

05:50:21.780 vibrator it's so elaborated wait am i

05:50:26.660 saying it right

05:50:27.340 vibrator

05:50:28.540 vibrator

05:50:29.460 uh nina you said um i don't know you

05:50:35.520 said does body count matter it sound

05:50:37.100 we already went over that yeah is

05:50:38.880 marriage outdated should couples live

05:50:40.120 together okay just sexual combat yeah

05:50:42.440 we talked about that

05:50:43.240 uh relevance relevance relevance of

05:50:46.460 chivalry and courtship today went

05:50:47.760 through that

05:50:48.140 yeah um anything the show disagreement

05:50:52.100 the show seems to be very men versus

05:50:53.980 women

05:50:54.280 and anti-marriage basically all opposite

05:50:57.140 of christian values when it comes to

05:50:59.060 dating relationships and marriage uh i

05:51:00.960 mean so

05:51:01.460 uh the anti-marriage component so andrew's

05:51:05.780 christian

05:51:06.240 i'm agnostic but i'm actually i have

05:51:09.720 very positive attitudes towards

05:51:11.360 christianity

05:51:11.980 um but uh

05:51:13.960 uh yeah i'm anti-marriage so

05:51:18.000 i want to get married one day i i look

05:51:21.100 forward to the whole wedding

05:51:22.140 yes so nina can i give you the what

05:51:25.300 you what you probably actually hear here

05:51:27.220 which is my argument i think that

05:51:29.640 marriage is extremely valuable because

05:51:31.400 it's sacramental from a from a christian

05:51:33.500 form i don't know what denomination you

05:51:36.280 are some denominations don't believe

05:51:37.780 that it's a sacrament

05:51:38.620 i think that they're just kind of like

05:51:40.640 phony christians though i think

05:51:42.460 marriage is a holy sacrament uh but

05:51:45.680 what i don't understand is what

05:51:47.060 incentive an atheist has to get married

05:51:48.860 like i i actually don't understand if i

05:51:51.140 was an atheist uh man i would not want

05:51:54.660 to get married that's it it's literally

05:51:57.280 fixed against them so what what what

05:51:59.340 would their incentive be like it'd give

05:52:01.040 me a good argument if i was an atheist

05:52:02.480 let's say give me a single good

05:52:04.420 argument for why i should get married

05:52:05.660 health insurance and other government

05:52:07.520 benefits yeah no i just want to i just

05:52:10.120 want to want if you don't mind if i

05:52:11.960 could finish the conversation with the

05:52:13.780 person i'm talking to that'd be great

05:52:15.000 uh nina why if i was an atheist man

05:52:18.360 should i get married well obviously like

05:52:21.060 as she mentioned the legal benefits but

05:52:22.760 also is because you know a lot of

05:52:24.620 people say that marriage is just a

05:52:26.140 piece of paper and but like these

05:52:28.200 things have meaning like our college

05:52:29.900 diploma like that's just a piece of

05:52:31.400 paper but it has meaning money well

05:52:33.880 what's the meaning for me if you're

05:52:36.640 you're putting it on paper you're

05:52:38.160 finalizing it so yeah why can't i

05:52:40.340 finalize it by just declaring it

05:52:41.900 usually you need a written like why do

05:52:44.980 you need that because it's physical

05:52:47.020 evidence

05:52:47.480 you know wait wait wait why is that

05:52:50.480 requirement for marriage

05:52:51.780 legal marriage yes you need it

05:52:55.440 physically on a piece of paper

05:52:56.840 why why do you need that for me to

05:53:00.220 declare if i was an atheist that i'm

05:53:01.760 married to a woman why do i need a

05:53:03.220 piece of paper exactly well no i get

05:53:04.800 what you're saying atheists they don't

05:53:06.140 really need to get married but this is

05:53:08.000 just how they don't

05:53:09.220 sounds like you're anti-marriage nita

05:53:11.260 no i'm not anti-marriage well exactly

05:53:13.420 that's the whole point right it's like

05:53:14.880 you're not anti-marriage but neither is

05:53:17.140 brian neither am i what we bring up is

05:53:18.780 the point that i can't think other

05:53:21.260 than you being religious what the

05:53:24.000 purpose is for atheists and agnostics

05:53:26.280 to get married so she brings up things

05:53:27.740 like health insurance things like this

05:53:29.160 right you can have all the perks of all

05:53:31.380 of that absent marriage you can forward

05:53:33.620 your will absent marriage you can name

05:53:36.220 people's your life insurance

05:53:37.480 beneficiary absent marriage like you can

05:53:39.420 do all of these things absent marriage

05:53:41.500 you even when it comes to tax

05:53:43.540 brackets uh marriage doesn't even give

05:53:45.800 you that much of a benefit there and

05:53:47.860 your earned income child credit you get

05:53:49.540 that even if you're not married

05:53:50.820 i was like what is actually the

05:53:53.440 incentive for men to take that risk even

05:53:55.440 if there was these tiny offsets let's

05:53:57.320 say

05:53:57.520 the risk is oh okay well we can get a

05:54:00.660 divorce and the state takes half my

05:54:02.140 shit and gives it to her

05:54:03.100 it sounds like a quite the risk so like

05:54:05.960 if i was an if i was an atheist man

05:54:08.140 really get as a christian woman give me

05:54:10.560 the most compelling reason why i should

05:54:13.160 get married

05:54:13.660 no i see for an atheist man why they

05:54:16.820 wouldn't want to get married because of

05:54:18.340 the you know potential financial

05:54:20.460 ramifications but everything in life is

05:54:23.420 a risk like you know there's a risk for

05:54:25.220 everyone involved like let's say an

05:54:26.460 atheist woman she doesn't get married

05:54:28.360 um and then she ends up having a kid

05:54:30.480 with that guy and you know let's say he

05:54:33.000 leaves her he cheats on her whatever she

05:54:34.800 doesn't even get child support or you

05:54:36.320 know like i mean alimony so it's like

05:54:38.620 there's a risk for everyone involved

05:54:40.180 like it's like there's no like it's

05:54:42.840 very situational there's no definitive

05:54:44.220 answer

05:54:44.760 so it doesn't sound like uh you're you

05:54:47.560 would advise atheist women to get

05:54:49.220 married either like it's that risky so

05:54:52.440 it's like everything in life is a risk

05:54:54.760 yeah everything in life is a risk in

05:54:56.820 other words how do we as christians in

05:54:58.740 other words how do you incentivize an

05:55:00.440 atheist man to marry a woman tell me

05:55:02.740 how

05:55:02.960 if he wants to keep that woman in his

05:55:05.160 life and she wants to get married he

05:55:06.760 has to put that she doesn't care but

05:55:09.720 even atheist people still care about

05:55:12.020 marriage because there's still that

05:55:13.200 legal aspect that they don't care they

05:55:15.760 they do care then why do they get

05:55:17.520 married in such low rates they still

05:55:20.200 get married though even if it's at a low

05:55:22.000 rate like we're talking about the

05:55:23.220 atheist people who do get married we're

05:55:24.820 not talking about yeah satanists get

05:55:26.080 married too but like if you can't offer

05:55:28.540 a single incentive in other words if

05:55:30.240 you can't offer a single incentive

05:55:31.440 andrew the reason atheist men should get

05:55:33.340 married is this and then at that and all

05:55:37.560 the offsets or risk right uh those are

05:55:42.760 still there so like what is your best i'm

05:55:45.820 a christian you're an atheist man you

05:55:47.760 need to get married because

05:55:49.480 they still from what i said before you're

05:55:55.880 making me repeat myself that the what if

05:55:57.860 they want to keep that woman in their

05:55:59.120 life and that atheist woman wants the

05:56:01.060 marriage then he needs to marry her and

05:56:03.320 that's that's what marriage is security

05:56:04.840 for a woman it's security you're making

05:56:07.540 in brand new conditionals you're saying

05:56:09.400 well they should get married if that's

05:56:11.460 the only way he can keep the woman let's

05:56:13.100 assume for a second that conditional is

05:56:15.420 not present he can still keep the woman

05:56:17.340 even absent going and getting a marriage

05:56:19.360 yeah then everyone's happy

05:56:20.440 tell me why he should do that

05:56:23.580 i'm not saying he should like i see what

05:56:26.460 you're saying but the situation of like

05:56:28.540 getting like your green card i don't

05:56:29.760 know how that works specifically i don't

05:56:31.700 know anything about it but i've heard

05:56:33.260 people what does this have to do i'm

05:56:35.340 saying people get married to stay

05:56:36.780 they could be incentive to go get a

05:56:39.120 fucking green card like a micro portion

05:56:42.580 of these situations has nothing to do

05:56:44.460 with what we're talking about so are you

05:56:45.780 talking about okay i have a question

05:56:47.060 okay i don't care about your question i

05:56:49.200 want to finish my conversation so no but

05:56:50.720 i think it might help her understand i

05:56:52.640 don't care i want to finish my

05:56:53.960 conversation so real quick um try to

05:56:57.200 try to understand from my perspective you

05:56:58.760 have six different people who are

05:57:00.540 wanting to talk to you once while you're

05:57:01.960 in the middle of a conversation right

05:57:03.260 that's that's actually quite rude of you

05:57:04.920 to do but anyway back to this um if you

05:57:09.080 can't offer atheist men an incentive

05:57:11.260 where you say the disincentives are

05:57:13.020 there where it's actually you can see the

05:57:16.140 risk you're like i can actually see the

05:57:17.560 risk from your perspective and can't

05:57:19.180 give you a good compelling reason to get

05:57:20.760 married that's where brian is that's

05:57:23.980 exactly where he is he's like well i don't

05:57:25.480 believe in god so why should i get

05:57:26.840 married then the christian answer to

05:57:29.040 this they don't have an answer to it

05:57:31.240 and so i hear all these like daily wire

05:57:34.520 guys and michael knolls and all these

05:57:36.200 different uh you know kind of like

05:57:37.820 prominent catholics and and christians

05:57:40.300 talk about how atheists need to get

05:57:42.120 married but not a damn one of them will

05:57:44.300 have a single conversation about the

05:57:46.780 incentives and why they should because

05:57:48.600 they don't have an answer to it either

05:57:49.980 it doesn't isn't that bothersome that

05:57:52.240 christians refuse to even engage on this

05:57:54.360 they just refuse to acknowledge that

05:57:56.680 they have no good reason to give

05:57:59.240 atheists for why they should get married

05:58:00.720 they don't have a single one yeah i

05:58:02.200 don't claim to have all the answers i

05:58:03.800 just know that i want god's favor over

05:58:05.780 my life and that's by just to keep

05:58:07.720 things is it i just have a quick

05:58:10.880 question are you talking about getting

05:58:12.720 married within the church and not just

05:58:14.880 within the state is that what you're

05:58:16.880 talking about i think you're only

05:58:18.460 specifically talking about getting

05:58:20.040 married i'll explain i'll explain the

05:58:22.020 delineation so that you understand so

05:58:23.880 sacramental marriage for christians

05:58:25.340 doesn't need to involve the state we

05:58:26.740 don't give a shit about the state

05:58:27.760 what does marriage have to do with the

05:58:29.360 state it's a sacrament from god has

05:58:31.360 nothing to do with state authority in

05:58:33.260 other words if i was on a desert island

05:58:34.660 somewhere and i'm a christian and the

05:58:36.900 woman i'm with is a christian could we

05:58:38.420 get married

05:58:38.920 i'm just saying like from what can i

05:58:42.140 answer answer my question real quick

05:58:43.440 could we get married from a christian

05:58:45.560 view

05:58:45.840 can you repeat the question yeah i know

05:58:48.800 you gotta listen to what i'm actually

05:58:50.200 asking you

05:58:50.820 if two christians are on a desert

05:58:53.200 island

05:58:53.740 desert island there's no government

05:58:56.400 there's no other people they're just

05:58:57.860 stuck there they're marooned and they

05:58:59.180 fall in love can they get married

05:59:00.380 no there has to be a third person

05:59:02.820 doesn't there

05:59:03.400 like why to officiate the marriage

05:59:06.180 why

05:59:06.880 i just i don't know i don't know

05:59:09.420 anything about me yeah you don't know

05:59:10.520 right

05:59:10.800 well the thing is it's like the only

05:59:12.940 reason that you think the government

05:59:14.640 needs to be involved in marriage

05:59:15.940 no i'm not saying the government

05:59:16.960 i'm saying like a priest i'm saying

05:59:19.120 like a priest like a third per like a

05:59:20.820 third person witness like not like

05:59:23.600 legally i'm just saying like that's

05:59:26.360 just from my understanding when two

05:59:28.100 people get married there's always one

05:59:29.280 person to officiate the wedding whether

05:59:30.920 it's a priest or someone who's close

05:59:32.380 in the family

05:59:32.920 that's very traditional yeah but is it

05:59:35.580 necessary is the question

05:59:36.720 i don't know that's a good question

05:59:38.580 yeah yeah yeah so so i'll just grant

05:59:41.340 this to you

05:59:41.840 yes in a christian marriage the

05:59:43.760 sacrament usually that's done by a

05:59:45.280 priest in a church right so we would

05:59:47.140 agree on that

05:59:47.780 but for an atheist what's the

05:59:49.700 requirement

05:59:50.180 like why is there any requirement why

05:59:53.280 couldn't an atheist just be like okay

05:59:54.640 we're married

05:59:55.080 and now we are

05:59:57.180 gotta move it on gotta move it on okay

06:00:01.260 uh guys if you want mckenzie thing for

06:00:03.780 the uh you sent five dollars on venmo

06:00:05.600 thank you so much mckenzie we have ice

06:00:07.760 we've been getting a lot of requests

06:00:09.360 from your chat to investigate a

06:00:10.760 potential illegal immigrant

06:00:12.320 i was scared you're gonna make me read

06:00:14.200 that one

06:00:14.700 huh i was scared you're gonna make me

06:00:16.320 read that one

06:00:17.000 oh okay do you want to read it

06:00:18.380 no

06:00:18.880 oh okay

06:00:19.700 no thank you

06:00:20.440 here can can one of you guys read it

06:00:22.660 or does somebody want to read it or

06:00:24.060 i knew you were

06:00:25.080 huh what okay

06:00:26.960 just kidding

06:00:27.280 oh me

06:00:27.980 all right let me get through the notes

06:00:31.860 here guys uh going back to i think

06:00:35.960 actually wait uh so i guess

06:00:38.520 oh nina last thing for you you said

06:00:41.260 unique dating stories you don't rule out men younger than you

06:00:44.600 you've briefly dated men five years younger than you

06:00:47.280 uh some of your friends think you're crazy

06:00:49.340 so uh yeah you date you have a thing for younger guys

06:00:54.000 my friends say so i just don't discriminate it you know

06:00:58.060 like a lot of girls are adamant about not dating a guy younger than them and i just

06:01:01.920 think that's so stupid because what matters most is is the maturity of the person like

06:01:06.700 i know it sounds super cliche but you know how i see a man matures when he wants to mature

06:01:13.460 when he has to mature and like you know if a guy's christian like he he already has

06:01:17.580 that you know firm foundation solid values let's say if he is 23 or whatever like i would

06:01:23.940 date a 23 year old if he's christian has the same value girl my ex was 44 he thinks like a 25

06:01:28.780 year old exactly yeah like it's still gonna be mature very mature i feel like they either always

06:01:33.160 44 and he's so out and about yeah i think we have like three more people's like notes we've got to

06:01:38.240 get through so uh let's go to abigail uh you have tons of dating stories that's what you wrote i don't know

06:01:44.940 if that's actually true but apparently tons of dating stories not really like dating dating like

06:01:50.600 currently oh you wanted to talk about brekkie hill all right yeah like you said you can talk about

06:01:57.520 brekkie hill yeah how she what like so much i actually hate her i'm sorry wait damn wait who is

06:02:05.900 this who are we talking about can we see a picture of her no it's okay um she looks kind of like her

06:02:11.300 i'm just like wait what like not she's she's mad she's literally mad fight because people on the

06:02:19.340 internet are saying that i look like her and do you though i want to see her picture now pull it

06:02:25.140 up it doesn't matter it doesn't matter it's just a blonde girl and i'm lonely fans just kidding

06:02:31.520 everyone is like yeah and you said that uh brekkie hill you said this just dates men for clout

06:02:40.540 yeah she literally does okay and you guys are fighting over the same guy yeah greenie

06:02:48.080 why there's so many fish in the sea why fight over sorry who the fuck what greenie he's from

06:02:55.620 minnesota he does hockey his name is green greenie yeah okay his name is brandon worse

06:03:02.120 is this the guy that you no never mind um she you said she's upset because you look like her she

06:03:09.060 blocked you on everything she's being hypocritical because she duped livy i don't know who these people

06:03:14.220 duped livy and now that she's getting duped she can't stand it the drama wait who's livy i need

06:03:20.200 more context livy dunn who's that olivia lsu gymnast oh the gymnast chick oh yeah okay

06:03:27.300 how did she dupe olivia dunn you i hate that i know these names so much

06:03:33.760 you can you're so beautiful don't fight over nobody look into this camera look deep into this

06:03:44.920 camera lens and say what you want to say to brekkie hill right now stop using men for clout

06:03:51.700 um my bazookas are 10 times bigger um i'm all natural um i don't know no there's just so much

06:04:06.860 that i could say there's so much that i could say you tell him i wish she was just physically here

06:04:13.980 we should do a box yeah but like do it here why would you want do a slap so we could have like

06:04:18.780 a face-to-face conversation because like she keeps why why because like she just no no no no

06:04:26.040 because she keeps like just playing like oh like she's she'll call people and like we'll talk about

06:04:33.060 me and she's like oh my god she keeps like making these videos like tell her to stop but it's like

06:04:36.860 you did the same thing to livy for years who's a college athlete like this is friendly fire we do

06:04:41.660 the same job we it's literally this high school you cannot be mad like okay this is how you got

06:04:50.000 your fame like it's karma it's the taste of your own medicine like you can't be mad someone's doing

06:04:55.780 the same exact thing to you same guy and she's standing her ground all right please you guys are

06:05:01.460 both dating the same guy at the same time well we're not dating we're just both birds on this

06:05:07.320 but you're still choosing to see a guy you know is actually seeing another girl girl you have so

06:05:11.440 many other options i feel like you're better than that that's cool yeah so you you also wrote guys

06:05:16.180 shouldn't have a roster and then you also i think you repeated it brekkie hill shouldn't just get

06:05:21.120 with every guy for class wait you don't think that guys should have a roster that's a vendetta

06:05:24.920 personal vendetta no no i'm not on his roster anymore i've moved on oh oh good good specifically

06:05:31.580 because yeah guys i said that i thought you were still seeing him no you you said women shouldn't

06:05:38.820 sleep around it's disgusting yeah okay that's cool um and also um you said where are the wait you

06:05:48.240 wrote maybe this was a tweet where are the men that appreciate average women wait did you write that

06:05:53.320 wait i don't know where the context is here i don't know can we pull up her tweet about luigi

06:05:59.100 mangioni though oh no perfect man

06:06:02.760 all right guys that was probably just like oh well i think you faked this because you said

06:06:10.080 i could have prevented this bro just wanted some ass and i think you photoshopped this didn't come on

06:06:16.100 be honest i guess we'll never know he's so she's saying she's she's saying that luigi mangioni

06:06:21.420 yeah slid into her dms yeah before everything happened before yeah you could have saved them i

06:06:27.560 guess all right um that's cool he just wanted some money in his books too all right we got here let's

06:06:32.920 get to peaches peaches uh you said you have an unsuccessful only fans uh on your instagram it

06:06:39.440 says you're you uh diary of a hoe h-a-u-x a hoe how do you say that hoe hoe hoe okay your critical

06:06:48.880 your critical care rn i have a question yes you've seen some shit yes literally is our nurses

06:06:57.860 bucket not each other like are just the female nurses are they fucking female nurses and male nurses

06:07:06.620 icu er ems it's crazy i i will say not like obviously at work but like are you saying most

06:07:15.180 nurses are hoarse bro it's weird yeah it's a huge red flag it's either two extremes they're either

06:07:21.920 like really really really religious big time and just like like wholesome yeah there's no there's no

06:07:26.780 in between me so there's no in between i love how she admits it though i respect you a lot for

06:07:33.500 you know what i could wake up tomorrow i could be dead she has guts flaccid something could not

06:07:39.760 work i'm just living life to the fullest yeah let's keep that down for this

06:07:42.360 yeah get that um i'm here for you said you've been a professional dominatrix and a foot fetish

06:07:50.340 artist and you're also in the kink slash bdsm community uh so you've domed like

06:07:55.840 the foot stuff is like my bread and butter that's mainly what i do

06:08:00.660 well that's part of it can you can you give us a sample and like choke on can we get a sample

06:08:05.480 doming like can you dom can you afford it i don't think he's ready for that yet i do not consent

06:08:13.020 he's not ready brian lay on the table lay on the table who's your typical applicant for something like

06:08:20.820 that is it is it similar to i can't remember her name but she was talking about the flaccid

06:08:26.820 liberal men is it the same people or do masculine guys come and say like please step on my face

06:08:35.180 um who who is coming to you you know what you know what i've heard on that brandon is like you'll have

06:08:40.660 like really uh guys who are like really really high up in like corporate the corporate world i've heard

06:08:47.000 of that bosses and like managers who are like constantly having to like boss people around and

06:08:52.760 then like i i heard that that's kind of can be a dynamic i don't know okay okay the higher power

06:08:58.000 the job the more extreme i would say the fetishes are i would i'll put it that way it's really more

06:09:02.080 like the norm i would honestly normal people but like more um less high stress jobs more like

06:09:06.880 norm like less super normal just less stressful jobs are more the feet people

06:09:12.420 i would say interesting i had a friend done anything with like quentin tarantino or

06:09:17.060 no he has a i think he has a foot fetish i would love to be featured in a movie

06:09:21.760 the pot donated two hundred dollars is back yo chat would you guys like to see quentin tarantino

06:09:28.840 like do like we do a what he wouldn't come on the dating talk but like a one-on-one

06:09:33.500 conversation live convo with quentin tarantino i might be able to make it happen do it i don't know

06:09:39.840 because yeah he definitely enjoys the feet for sure i feel that same with sam ramey and screaming

06:09:46.080 yo the pod w's in the chat for the pod thank you for the uh two hundred dollar tts man

06:09:50.460 oj simpson here oj simpson donated two hundred dollars yo mr andrew man any chance i could

06:09:59.220 bomb a sick bro starting to tweak out over here would love to see you light one up soon too

06:10:05.460 looks so baller light it up oh he's already got one there you go there it is boom can i say

06:10:14.340 something to the feet thing oh boy yeah so i actually had um a lot of people obsessed with

06:10:22.160 my feet for a really long time on social media it was super uncomfortable christian feet yeah

06:10:27.820 how did they find your feet well i i don't know i've been sent some stuff by people well it actually

06:10:35.280 there was one scenario where i was sitting on a boat like in the front of the boat and i took

06:10:42.000 a selfie and i had the reflection of my feet in my sunglasses and this person had screen recorded

06:10:51.240 it and zoomed in on it and screenshotted it and then like posted it on all these forums and so people

06:10:58.180 yeah i've had people offer me a lot of money for feet pics before i've also been offered fifty

06:11:05.660 thousand dollars to attend an orgy before and yeah all of stuff which i said you lost a lot of money

06:11:14.480 you lost a lot of money yeah exactly i know it's pretty yeah storing treasures up in heaven not on

06:11:21.200 right here's the crazy shit i i googled my name

06:11:24.540 and there's a website where other people will like upload like content creators feet

06:11:32.440 and i had a page oh my god i'm gonna check that very good ranking on there it's wiki feet

06:11:37.900 and what size are you bro huh what size are you like uh 10 and a half 11 i'm a 13 they don't they

06:11:45.380 figured that out did you have your toes painted did you have your toes painted your toes ryan

06:11:49.720 i think he did i think he did damn virgin

06:11:55.460 uh so okay going back to uh peaches you said men have paid you ridiculous rates to be stepped on

06:12:05.120 spit on degraded etc um how good of rates are we talking how much do people shell out for this and

06:12:14.620 we haven't even gone around and asked people how much they make or do we not ask people that

06:12:18.080 we could but like let's say abigail over there was like i want you to step on my boobs or i don't

06:12:23.320 know step on me how much does that cost like 400 an hour 400 an hour yeah for a full hour of stomping

06:12:30.760 yeah that's a lot of stomping that is a lot of stomping it's actually fucking hard it was way

06:12:36.820 harder but you know you have like um i rent a studio and there's like you you're not just like you have

06:12:42.680 the bars you can actually like step on people and there's like yeah that's cool i actually had someone

06:12:46.800 in a club in hollywood he gave me 200 to slap him in front of everyone that was fun it was really

06:12:53.560 fun i took out all my anger during those five minutes it was cool five minutes it wasn't even

06:13:00.940 that long but he was like do it harder and i'm like oh my god it was cool it was cool and then

06:13:05.660 the manager of the club was just like i'm sure everyone was kind of like it was fine

06:13:11.260 do you want to ask them how much i'm very interested i'd love to know how much all of you

06:13:17.500 guys how much you guys make from like doing the of style like yearly or monthly monthly monthly i

06:13:22.380 make five figures almost six wait monthly you make i'm interested

06:13:29.260 five figures could be you mean five thousand or you mean five figures no i mean like i make like

06:13:38.260 anywhere from like ten thousand to ninety nine thousand nine hundred well i'm not i don't want

06:13:45.500 to give i'm sorry i'm not gonna give an exact number you can you can if you want but um this

06:13:51.000 month has been 10k okay first month a dog what about you do you want to play like a higher or lower

06:13:58.140 game no just tell us well i'm not gonna say numbers uh is it between like uh is it over a hundred

06:14:06.800 thousand per month january's been slow so not oh wait over 100k per month every month 100k this

06:14:18.500 month this month yeah slow month cool what about you oh well you said yeah i was like i don't yeah

06:14:24.340 i just do the love of the game that's fine all right nope right now wait what i'm in the wrong

06:14:29.980 hey uh adriana cut that shit don't say that don't please don't you dare don't say that

06:14:36.020 hold on we have a chat here really quick practicing gentlemen if you don't see a problem with a man

06:14:41.260 paying a woman to degrade him would there be any problem with a woman paying a man to send her

06:14:45.020 essay threats what wow that's uh i mean that would just be like that's like incriminating

06:14:52.980 yourself almost especially if it's over text unless you have like strict text that's like yeah

06:14:58.120 this is like that's weird that's like a kink like cnc i mean whatever um that's a disturbing

06:15:03.920 would there be a problem weird comment would there be a problem with it i think it's weird yeah i think

06:15:09.680 mentally that's when i i went a half hour over where i usually am but um okay i'm gonna send a

06:15:14.300 raid over your way girls it was really nice to meet all of you oh andrew can we're about to get into

06:15:21.920 some potentially juicy stuff can you spare like 10 15 if not no worries if not no worries but i just

06:15:27.880 figured uh okay and uh if you need hard out though 100 like 10 15 minutes um yeah of course

06:15:34.640 uh okay you said you're pretty active on your local kink club experience shibari that's like

06:15:41.660 the japanese rope time impact play sensory deprivation play wax play breath play electro

06:15:46.540 stimulation four ways three ways all with your partner 12 years you've been in the kink community

06:15:51.260 seven years you make money doing it but it's purely hobby that you make money from you also have a

06:15:56.180 normal job the thing you said you enjoy being a hoe you enjoy taking uh nudes and making your own

06:16:02.400 adult content to sell you have a high functioning career you want to talk about of girls that are

06:16:08.440 doing it for the love of the game so you're doing it for the love of the game okay uh you want to talk

06:16:14.200 about more about the nuance of it many of the women i've seen die die wait many of the women so this is

06:16:20.220 when you're a critical care nurse many of the women you have seen die like literally that verbalize

06:16:28.160 wishing they had more more sex or more well you said more playful sex yeah just more intimacy

06:16:35.220 connection sex things like that just to be clear you're in the hospital and some chick some chicks

06:16:41.440 bleeding out she's fucking dying right she got a gunshot to the fucking vagina she's bleeding out

06:16:47.260 she's dead she's dying and she's like i wish i fucked more i mean not quite like that but people

06:16:53.800 really do tell you like the things that they wish they did and have you done hospice shit

06:16:58.000 um if you're lucky you make it to hospice but is that where the money is i don't know well no it's

06:17:04.400 just more dignified what is that i'm a little ignorant hospice is like typically where people

06:17:09.080 go who have like a very short amount of time to live oh it's like you can be at home that's ideal

06:17:13.760 really if you have the support but then there's like people already know they're about to die in like

06:17:17.800 yeah yeah but it's like i i don't think the people on their deathbed are like man i wish i

06:17:23.080 fucked more they don't word it that way that's so weird that's what you wrote though what are they

06:17:27.760 saying they wish that they had were more either experimental you said explore their sexual yeah

06:17:33.160 adventurous explored more things they're not missing out on it it's like that guy the mount vesuvius guy

06:17:38.780 have you seen that in the eruptions no no the guy who died in the mount vesuvius eruption

06:17:44.000 and he was masturbating and it's just coated he's just coated in lava but yeah it was that's

06:17:50.120 last minutes before he died he had to get it in yeah that's what i'm saying and guys usually say

06:17:55.380 that they wish they didn't hold so many grudges that's what you usually hear the overwhelming

06:18:00.040 majority of people who are dying i very much doubt are revealing to you the secrets that they want to

06:18:07.140 just diddle more chicks in more special ways i'm guessing that most of the things you talk about is

06:18:12.140 i wish i had spent more time with my family or i wish i had done this at various adventures and

06:18:17.860 this and that i doubt that sex is the primary thing that they're talking to you about on their

06:18:21.900 deathbed do they know about your hobbies what no no she's not like i think you're offering

06:18:29.380 those it depends on the personality of whoever's on their deathbed she's not like they're about to die

06:18:33.480 and she's like oh yeah i like like guys stomp on me for four hundred dollars an hour she's like

06:18:38.880 we got one hour four hundred dollars you also you also wrote uh related to the previous things

06:18:50.360 that i read here this is the main reason i well you embrace your honus and for of and fetish sessions

06:18:57.240 uh you believe in autonomy and individual and think tradition works for some but not all

06:19:02.780 when it comes to tradition you said you disagree with your takes of tradition being the best way for

06:19:08.140 people to live their lives i also don't think anyone can say their religion is the correct

06:19:13.040 one over others i think this is kind of what i wanted andrew there might be a few more things here

06:19:17.900 but i think probably this is a big disagreement that you have with andrew so um she andrew she says

06:19:24.060 she disagrees with takes about tradition being the best way the most optimum way for people to live

06:19:30.160 their lives you know she said for most right you say for most or you think some people it is some

06:19:39.280 people it isn't is that the more nuanced perspective why don't you tell me your perspective

06:19:43.220 well she said the best way for people to live their lives

06:19:45.840 yeah well what is the best way for people to live their lives i think that's a that's individual to

06:19:51.540 them that's my whole point is i don't think that there's like specific religious structures or

06:19:56.680 things like that that are you must live your life this way to have a quality life

06:20:00.960 or like people live their lives not murdering other people well no but that's objectively harming

06:20:06.020 people me being a hoe isn't harming anyone because everyone's consenting wait wait wait why why is

06:20:10.160 objectively harming people bad what do you mean why is it bad why is murdering someone bad yeah

06:20:19.140 because you're ending a life i mean that's i don't know why is that bad explain to me why that's bad

06:20:27.980 without using a religious view yeah negatively affects society if you just go around so what

06:20:33.980 why is negatively affecting society bad because it's negative to the general

06:20:38.640 structure of society just restating the question i know that you think listen when i ask you why a thing

06:20:46.280 is you can't just restate the position i know your position is that it's harm and harm bad i'm asking

06:20:52.500 you why harm is bad and i'm asking you to tell me the justification for that not using a religious view

06:20:59.220 so from your non-religious view why is harming people even bad

06:21:03.720 i would well i don't think being a hoe is harmful which is my general point i think that

06:21:11.020 doing harmful things i asked you why harming people is bad i think doing harmful things is

06:21:17.360 negative for the general construct of society and everyone cooperating and living in that

06:21:23.600 cooperative why is that bad

06:21:25.580 what do you mean because people don't do well in societies when it's all spread out

06:21:31.100 yeah but why is it good why do we people to do good so the thing is is like you just keep on

06:21:36.480 restating it's bad because it's bad because it's bad because it's bad but why is it bad so from my

06:21:41.420 view it's bad because god said no you're not allowed to do that right here's your objective

06:21:45.300 standard it's immoral to do this it's evil your standard for why it's bad is it's negative to the

06:21:52.420 social construct that we all cooperatively bad what do you how is okay how is just going around

06:21:59.160 murdering people not negatively impacting the social negatively impacts i agree with you but

06:22:05.380 why is that bad why would it be good yeah i don't understand like i'm telling you well i think that the

06:22:11.060 word bad and the word good are religious words i think evil is a religious connotation it has nothing

06:22:17.820 to do like why what what is it if all morals are just socially relative then nothing's evil that's

06:22:24.680 just made up so even you're saying this is just a social construction and it's bad for the social

06:22:30.360 construction it's like yeah but yeah why is that actually why is that actually bad like you if you

06:22:35.660 had another place where murder was totally legal within the social construct and everybody was getting

06:22:40.960 along just fine would that be bad no because you wouldn't think you would be bad at that point

06:22:45.980 answer let her answer i think it depends if it's oppressive to other people so for example like

06:22:51.420 gladiators if you are forced to be a gladiator that's bad but a lot of gladiators liked being

06:22:57.260 gladiators because it was a good way for them to make money what made it bad though them being forced

06:23:02.220 to do it against their will them just fighting in an arena is not bad everybody in society likes that

06:23:07.480 what's wrong with it there was nothing wrong with that in that time period until people changed

06:23:12.440 their views on the social construct they wanted to adhere by yeah so so that so how could that be bad

06:23:18.700 that's what i'm what i what are you saying i'm saying you have no murder used to not be bad

06:23:25.720 and now it is bad believe the only reason you think murder is bad is because you think so that's it

06:23:32.060 that's your only standard for it that's i think bad therefore bad but that's your only standard if

06:23:36.800 you're going to use the context of religion for people who are not religious yeah but we have an

06:23:42.360 unchanging standard your standard changes so you called it yourself a social construction which means

06:23:47.400 that that construct can change my construct can't it's an objective set of values which are unchanging

06:23:52.360 and you borrow them so therefore i think that my that my value structure which you are borrowing

06:23:58.060 is far superior to your value structure which i'm not borrowing okay i don't know that much about

06:24:02.620 religion but old testament said different things from new testament didn't religious beliefs change

06:24:07.640 in christianity as well or am i wrong no christianity is still an unchanging standard to the religion

06:24:13.400 itself the the christianity has an unchanging set of value structures we cannot change it right so we

06:24:20.360 can't we can't just go oh okay well murder is okay actually and this is okay actually but in your view

06:24:26.120 as long as i can present to you a society in which nobody cares right you can't actually say that

06:24:32.500 that's bad right it's not about no one caring it's about how is it impacting the general welfare of

06:24:38.020 society if nobody cares it can't be affecting it negatively can it yeah then it wouldn't have

06:24:43.640 negative effects let me give you an example there's a small island you might have heard of it called

06:24:48.460 papa new guinea on this island papa new guinea there are what are known as the cum warriors of papa

06:24:55.180 new guinea and here's how this works not kidding you can look this up not making it up what they do

06:25:00.520 as a rite of passage for all of the boys in papa new guinea they make them um do bad acts okay

06:25:07.540 now the boys seem to absolutely adore this it's a rite of passage they love it they think it's great

06:25:13.940 they can't wait to go do it okay so tell me since there's no negative ramifications the boys themselves

06:25:22.180 are demanding it it's a rite of passage in that culture why is that bad are they doing bad acts

06:25:28.120 against another person what is a bad act i you just said bad acts i don't know what that means

06:25:33.880 i mean they okay they do bad things from my view they do i can't the problem with this is the language

06:25:42.220 is so confining on youtube they diddle kids boys young boys as a rite of passage to manhood and the

06:25:50.720 young boys demand that they do so but that is harming somebody okay prove the harm what's the harm

06:25:56.940 i don't think i could say what the harm is on here what's the harm i don't think i can say the word

06:26:04.680 what's the word essay of a minor yeah but what makes it that other than your social construct

06:26:11.340 i think that everyone can agree essay against a minor is bad and they have throughout most of

06:26:17.340 history and honestly there's a little bit of time in which they didn't believe that and then people

06:26:21.600 change their mind so all of your morals come from agreement my morals come from not what a book says

06:26:29.940 but what logically makes sense for the positive cohesiveness of a general society that society is

06:26:35.800 completely positively cohesive there's nobody who's being harmed by their metric all of them are

06:26:41.160 agreeing to do this and they all demand to do it they all love doing this what's the actual harm

06:26:45.940 here i don't think that my essaying minors is good or allowed so i would say yeah you're not that's

06:26:53.580 just question begging you're just restating the thing we already know it's bad because it's bad

06:26:58.160 because it's bad i want to know why why is it bad if all of them are agreeing to it minors can't agree

06:27:04.180 what do you mean well like okay minor itself is a social construct right well that's how they grew

06:27:11.040 up they grew up seeing one thing and believing one thing and getting so that's why they think

06:27:15.640 it's okay like do we think it's okay that that happens there no but do they think it's okay that

06:27:20.440 that it happens there yes but if the principle is harm and you can't demonstrate any harm happening

06:27:26.120 then how can you say it's bad but i think you could demonstrate harm happening if people actually went

06:27:31.700 there and did that i think the harm is what it how it like what she means okay i might be wrong but

06:27:37.540 bad is in a way how it affects the other person at the end of the day i mean like when you put in

06:27:42.160 the how you started the conversation was by murder i guess you should say but i don't think they agreed

06:27:47.500 to be murdered or how someone being murdered i can affect the other party being murdered so that's what

06:27:53.560 makes it bad yeah these kids do agree to it what being just walking around the street and being

06:27:58.180 murdered like i don't see how they agree to that i know that this is weird but that's on pukahooka land

06:28:04.740 we are here in america listen more than you talk so i can explain explain so that you understand

06:28:10.540 you're saying harm bad things that harm bad right however in this case if you were to go in and rank

06:28:19.720 that up that would do a lot of harm that's their culture yeah so if you went in there with force

06:28:24.940 and broke it all up and said you're not allowed to do this anymore they would actually fight with

06:28:28.620 you over it so is it actually less harmful to let them keep doing that or more harmful to go in and

06:28:34.200 stop it i would say in that specific situation yes because you're doing more harm by going in and

06:28:39.780 disrupting an entire culture that you are a part of if they came over here and we're trying to essay

06:28:44.800 minors yeah i'm gonna have a problem with that so then what you just made was a harm

06:28:49.380 argument for essay of children well no i'm just based on i don't agree with it based on harm

06:28:55.200 you can justify the essay of children that's why your fucking standard sucks and my mind is good

06:29:01.380 because you yourself can with the harm principle justify the essay of children my worldview will

06:29:08.700 not account or allow for that and that's why it's superior to yours can i say can i say that you

06:29:13.940 that your state of mind is because of you what you believe in as a religion but can we not

06:29:18.720 say that how we our state of mind is based on our government and the laws that we live by

06:29:22.720 so it wouldn't be ours is by law why we have these beliefs is by what is given by the government to

06:29:28.600 us and yours is a religion given by a god but say a government makes murder legal legal does that

06:29:35.760 automatically make it fine yes that's why exactly his example is an island that it's it's legal to do

06:29:43.600 that to children so if our government one day says that we can do that like it has once in the past

06:29:48.560 he also states that we did murder people in the past if it becomes legal again it becomes our normal

06:29:54.140 society so which means we would not be bad in that case because we believe that if that was given law

06:29:59.680 everything you're saying i agree with everything that you're saying and that's what makes our view

06:30:04.080 superior what makes it superior believe in god and we believe in the law even if the government says

06:30:10.880 hey this thing that you right would even say probably right now due to your cultural context

06:30:18.480 bad if they change that right you would adhere to those laws and those you know those things because

06:30:25.040 morality to you is changeable for us it's not changeable you would say no this is still not going

06:30:30.880 to happen regardless it's also subjective to like data logic research that creates these laws i

06:30:36.880 just there's not enough data logic behind the bible for me to just believe that blindly who care

06:30:42.080 but why do you even need that like i don't need that let's just say for a second let's just say for

06:30:46.000 a second you don't believe it you don't believe any of it you think it's all just fairy tales and fables

06:30:50.320 and sky fairy and you know uh uh bearded magic man in the sky that's irrelevant the ethics

06:30:57.680 themselves provide better value for humanity than any secular ethics because secular ethics are

06:31:04.400 changeable right there's not a single christian ethic that you would disagree with except perhaps

06:31:10.000 lgbtq stuff other than that there's probably not even a single one you would disagree with probably

06:31:15.440 not even one so ultimately even from a harm reductionist standpoint it's still better for society

06:31:21.440 so even from your view it's better can i ask you a question can you i know you're really smart

06:31:25.520 on this so like historical stuff when did you say like when people used to the arkans or whatever

06:31:31.200 they're called when people used to fight each other in the little hole the pit oh yes like that type

06:31:37.760 of era you know like like okay so yes like the gladiator era whatever so like back then it was like

06:31:45.120 it was normal for people to do that right but did you but christianity was still popular then

06:31:51.360 and everyone was still with it because it was entertainment we were the ones getting killed

06:31:55.600 no no the christians yeah that's why i'm asking him because i know he's smart with this kind of

06:31:59.280 stuff christianity destroyed rome it completely conquered rome all that uh what you're talking

06:32:05.360 about with gladiatorial rings things like this there was some of that which remained from paganism

06:32:10.720 but that was against christian ethics as well okay okay i was curious all right um and then there's

06:32:15.360 maybe one final thing here andrew that you might want to weigh in on uh so this is another hot take from

06:32:20.480 you peach peaches i don't know every you said every human has value and everyone deserves respect

06:32:27.120 however there's a hierarchy the society and most people date in their hierarchy bracket relatively

06:32:31.760 um andrew i think you have thoughts on the whole like everyone deserves respect thing

06:32:37.840 yeah no they don't why like why why why although to be fair he thinks chivalrous is transactional so i

06:32:44.800 like i understand why he comes where he comes from no it's not that it's not that chivalry is

06:32:49.840 transactional i would respect him i would respect everyone wait hold on wait what am i gonna murder

06:32:55.280 him i'm not gonna do that i'm not a murderer hold on okay you don't need to kill somebody if you

06:32:59.760 disrespect them wait do you uh what about stalin do you think do you think stalin deserves respect

06:33:04.320 i'm gonna treat everyone how i want to be treated until they treat me otherwise and then i'm

06:33:07.680 gonna get away from them so you would would you disrespect like a pdf file um i mean if they're

06:33:14.560 just like live why would i know that information about them unless i'm seeing if you didn't know it

06:33:18.080 let's say you did i would ask them why do you do that to children that's very strange would you

06:33:22.080 like diddy would you respect it would you respect the pdf file i don't know that sounds kind of

06:33:27.360 just hold on okay what is an example of disrespect though because that's what i don't know just answer

06:33:30.880 the question i mean you know i'm not going to inherently be disrespectful to anyone for no reason

06:33:34.720 no but would you disrespect you don't have to like go out of your way and like talk

06:33:38.480 shit but like would you have respect for a p p p whatever pdf when i say everyone deserves respect

06:33:44.000 i mean to be treated respectfully i'm about you i'm a pdf disrespecter i mean i don't like them i

06:33:52.720 think they should be in jail i think they should see a therapist like i don't condone the behavior

06:33:56.800 would you would you respect a serial rapist that's what i'm saying i don't know what you mean

06:34:02.880 by that i'm a i'm a creepist disrespect what is great now they're going to clip that

06:34:06.960 what do we mean in the context

06:34:10.320 like if jeffrey was in front of me am i going to cuss him out no i'm just not going to say

06:34:14.480 well i'll put it in context of harm reduction because that's your principles harm reduction

06:34:20.240 that by respecting people who have not earned respect you actually do more harm to society than

06:34:25.840 you do good well the reason that you do is because you normalize bad behavior by giving respect to

06:34:31.360 people who engage in bad behavior and what i've noticed is that it's generally the women who

06:34:36.720 engage in the most bad behavior who demand that everybody be respected because they're not

06:34:41.600 respectable let me give you an example now i don't mean to say this to hurt your feelings but i'm going

06:34:45.920 to say it anyway because it's true of course on the social scale okay because your husband is a cuck

06:34:52.080 and because you're in an open relationship i'll always have a higher social status than him

06:34:56.320 no matter what no matter what with any man on planet earth will we ever come in contact with

06:35:02.240 the second they learn that he engages in cuckery my social status will be higher now you can complain

06:35:08.720 say that that's not right and that you deserve respect and this and that blah blah blah but here's

06:35:13.280 the actual truth by trying to normalize that you actually do more harm than good because you turn more

06:35:19.280 men possibly towards cuckery which will lower their social status and cause more problems for them

06:35:24.560 that'll always be the case and this is the same thing with promiscuous women if you try to

06:35:29.200 normalize that you're going to lower their social status as well because their social status is lower

06:35:33.920 than virtuous women i respect your subjective opinion

06:35:41.760 okay but what i would say is okay let's for like stall and hitler all these people if they were in front

06:35:47.280 of me i'm not going to cuss them out or anything like that but based on my biased morals i think that we

06:35:53.280 should just they don't need to be here they don't need to exist because of the things they did like

06:35:58.320 if you do harmful things to society you don't need to participate in society so are you saying you

06:36:03.440 would give someone like the death penalty but you would still say that you respect them i'm saying i'm

06:36:09.040 not going to bad mouth anyone i'm not going to yell at them i'm not going to do anything i would just

06:36:12.960 be like oh you did this horrible act done very interesting period that's an interesting one all

06:36:18.400 right do you think do you think that when we allocate social statuses for behaviors in society

06:36:25.200 that we do that for a reason because we want to incentivize behavior that is good for society

06:36:34.080 yes yeah so then if that's the case and your social status is low because you're promiscuous or a

06:36:40.080 cuck that apparently we're doing that for a reason because we're trying to normalize behavior in

06:36:45.040 society which makes it better but being a cuck or promiscuous doesn't i don't get how if everyone's

06:36:52.400 consenting and not lying or cheating or exploiting people it is bad for society i'll explain so let's

06:36:58.400 take a quick hypothetical if every woman and man lived like you and open relationships and things like that

06:37:05.840 right and compare that to a society where every man and woman lived instead in a traditional household

06:37:12.320 where they had a wife and they had children which society would be better

06:37:18.320 i think if everyone was acting

06:37:23.120 if if people were not engaging in chivalry transaction wise and just generally being good to

06:37:28.160 the people around them both societies would do equally as well it's you don't need the religion for

06:37:32.800 the society to be good do you think that a society where generally men who are in relationships with

06:37:39.920 women and have children with them who go see you later honey i'm going to go pork the neighbor now

06:37:44.560 uh if that entire society was engaging in that type of behavior and then bringing their wife over so that

06:37:50.160 they could have a gangbang and and be the next guy's cum slut that that society would be equal in terms

06:37:56.000 to a society where there was no cheating whatsoever people stayed faithful to each other and had children

06:38:01.120 could you possibly demonstrate in a million years how this is even possible how you could ever have

06:38:06.240 your society and that would ever do better than the one that i postulate i don't advocate my lifestyle

06:38:12.720 for people who are trying to build families because it's worse that's why you don't advocate for it and

06:38:17.680 that is what i'm saying to you it's because it's worse that's why you don't advocate for it and when you say

06:38:23.280 how would this actually work for harm reduction when i give you the two different societies there

06:38:28.400 it's impossible for you to say why the one i postulate is uh worse than yours but it's easy

06:38:33.840 for me to say why yours is worse than mine but i'm willing to hear evidence i don't think it's worse

06:38:39.440 like if you have young children and stuff like that in the house that's why i think it's like you

06:38:42.560 shouldn't do that but if they've moved out and you are empty nesters let your freak flag fly like

06:38:47.680 i don't think that would make a difference but you do have children the society i postulate the birth

06:38:53.360 rate is not below subnormal the birth rate is high it's not below replacement rate like it is now

06:39:00.000 all men have one woman nobody's getting being involved in gang bangs things like this corn is

06:39:05.600 illegal how is this a worse society than the society you postulate where this type of behavior is fine

06:39:12.160 how what makes it worse for one when i was saying like in the house i meant like the kids still live

06:39:16.880 at home if the kids move out of the home i don't see why there would be any negative connotation to the

06:39:22.000 parents consensually letting their freak flag fly with other people why is it why is it bothersome if

06:39:28.240 the kids are home because minors shouldn't be involved in anything sexual they're not involved

06:39:34.000 you're not involving them but why is it that you can't just do that activity anyway if you have an

06:39:38.640 orgy in your house i'm sorry but it's people will probably hear things so you should probably make sure

06:39:43.600 those people are not under 18. oh i see so what you're saying is is that your behavior is awful when it

06:39:51.760 comes to children and so you don't want children anywhere near that behavior because of how awful

06:39:56.000 you think it is that's what you're actually saying i think sexual things around children is bad which is

06:40:01.760 why you think that a mom and a dad who are porking up in their room right in a house where they have

06:40:06.640 their their kids that that's bad if their kid heard them or saw them yeah well obviously they try to

06:40:13.120 mitigate the noise but i mean i think it's pretty normal inside most households uh where parents are still

06:40:19.440 having sexual intercourse the kids will probably hear it at some point don't you i guess i don't

06:40:26.240 yeah i mean it's pretty normal i think what isn't normal though is for people to have big ass gangbangs

06:40:31.520 in their house you think is bad for kids and if nobody so if nobody ever had gangbangs in their

06:40:36.080 house ever again how would that be bad for society because the people that want to have gangbangs should

06:40:43.920 have the right to go do that yeah but how would it be bad for society if they didn't do it because

06:40:49.200 you're taking away a right that someone can excise in their autonomy that's what i'm saying why would

06:40:55.840 that be bad if the benefits of society are good how is it benefiting people telling them how to live

06:41:02.240 their life if it's not negatively impacting others tell you how to live your life for all sorts of things

06:41:06.480 you can't drink and drive you have to wear a seat belt you have to stop at stop signs the government

06:41:12.800 state it literally controls almost everything that you do because of the ramifications it has

06:41:18.080 on society if you don't you don't care if your autonomy is plagued then you only care if your

06:41:22.160 autonomy is plagued if you're going to get plugged with two in the mouth and three in the rear so it's

06:41:26.640 like that's the only value you care about is the value of how many d's you can take in a single night

06:41:32.960 not about your fucking autonomy because you ain't out bitching about drunk driving and you ain't

06:41:37.200 bitching about none of that because you say well the ramifications to society are so bad that we

06:41:42.960 should cut that out but somehow when it comes to your promiscuity and gang bangs suddenly oh no i have

06:41:48.640 to have that because my autonomy i think you should be able to bang consenting adults if you want to in

06:41:54.480 any quantity you want i think that you should drive sober and not because of benefit to society because you

06:42:01.840 can hurt someone driving under the influence and you can spread stds and you can do all sorts of

06:42:07.120 horrible things or psychological damage which is associated with order there's all sorts of bad

06:42:11.520 ramifications all i want is this just tell me how it could possibly be if every single person had a

06:42:17.600 nuclear family and not a single person ever again by choice ever had another gangbang how that would be

06:42:25.200 a worse society than this one right now how the the keyword is by choice yeah by

06:42:31.680 choice yeah if people want to be freaks let those people be freaks that's what i'm saying

06:42:37.680 that if by choice everybody started having group sex and gang days society would be objectively worse

06:42:43.600 i also think if everyone didn't it would probably be objectively worse i think any absolute

06:42:47.760 how would it be i'm asking then how would it be objectively worse if everybody didn't do it

06:42:52.320 how if everyone didn't do it yeah at the end of the day if you're everyone's doing one thing you're

06:43:00.480 you're taking away the autonomy from someone and how they want to live their life now whether or not

06:43:04.960 that autonomy you're not taking away i'm talking about by choice by choice every human being decides

06:43:10.160 that they're going to involve themselves in gangbangs or in my world every human being decides that they're

06:43:15.760 never going to i have no qualms how would my world how would my world be worse than yours because i can

06:43:21.760 tell you how yours would be worse than mine i have no tell me how mine would be worse are you done go

06:43:27.360 ahead yeah i'm done okay thank you i'm just saying you guys are okay anyways um the keyword is the choice

06:43:37.200 part so what i'm saying is that you um god you just won't answer the question we already addressed

06:43:46.000 choice listen they've all chosen in gangbang world to all have gang bangs and they've all chosen

06:43:56.480 in nuclear family world to all have nuclear families the question is tell me why nuclear family world

06:44:03.680 is worse than gangbang land that's what i want to hear why is it worse if you are engaging responsibly

06:44:09.840 i don't think it would make a difference because if you're engaging responsibly you're having protected

06:44:13.680 sex you're having people tested you're vetting people that you're talking to you're not having

06:44:18.880 it around minors there's a lot of factors that goes into participating in this lifestyle ethically

06:44:23.040 and also i don't advocate it for everyone or even majority of people but my general point is that

06:44:28.480 there's a way to move through this lifestyle that can be ethical and can be safe and it's not just

06:44:36.480 a free-for-all for everyone so they're equalized hang on real quick brian i'm almost done so they're

06:44:41.280 equalized in your view both of them i don't think one's better than the other okay do you agree that in

06:44:47.360 a world where everybody was involved in gangbangs stds would greatly increase probably and do you agree

06:44:54.160 in a world where you had a purely monogamous society stds would greatly decrease no but i

06:44:59.120 think unwanted pregnancies wait wait in a world with pure monogamy stds would not decrease oh sorry

06:45:06.080 i thought you said increase they would probably decrease but i think there would be more unwanted

06:45:09.200 pregnancies so just by your own admission immediately we can see that gangbang land is worse than my world

06:45:16.880 just based on the fact there would be stds the skyrocket rate of stds that's not by the way how would you

06:45:22.800 have more unwanted pregnancy in purely monogamous relationships that's crazy you'd be more likely

06:45:29.440 to have pregnancies in gangbang land no not if you're engaging ethically you should be having

06:45:35.840 protected sex if you're engaging in gangbangs because you're in a monogamous relationship

06:45:41.040 oh i just assumed you wouldn't be so i guess you would and do most monogamous people use protection

06:45:46.240 oh they do all the time oh okay my bad sorry that i am not sorry so i mean immediately we can see the

06:45:54.960 effects of your world are already worse than the effects of mine so even from a harm reductionist

06:45:58.960 standpoint you should actually be like well wait a second i should be moving people towards monogamy

06:46:04.640 and that type of relationship rather than gangbangs your your entire ethical system is inconsistent

06:46:10.320 mine is consistent his is consistent hers is consistent that's why it's better i think majority of

06:46:15.840 people should be monogamous though i don't dispute that i just don't think that there's anything

06:46:19.360 wrong with the minority of people that are not that way yeah i know but if everybody was that

06:46:25.760 way it would be really bad and if everybody lived the way that i postulate it would be really good

06:46:31.040 that's my point that's how you know your value structure is messed up because people would only

06:46:35.520 do nice things if it's they're going to get something back from someone i i do i'll let you guys make

06:46:40.720 one final point but there's other panelists here i do want to try to get them in um yeah yeah well

06:46:45.920 i'll just i'll just make it real quick yeah andrew do you have logic andrew do you have do you have

06:46:50.640 another do you have more cross for her do you just want to make like closing yeah i'll just make my

06:46:54.560 last point okay so um and then i'll let you make yours yeah so the the thing is is like when we take

06:47:00.640 it to its logical extreme if everybody lived like you world worse if everybody lived like me world better

06:47:06.320 like that's that's it and so when i apply my ethical values right you can laugh but you're so

06:47:12.800 fucking stupid you don't understand how dumb you are that when i apply my ethical values and they

06:47:18.160 apply their ethical values they're consistent they make sense the world's a better place when you apply

06:47:22.560 your ethical values it's just dicks in the ass and a bunch of dicks in the mouth that's it that's your

06:47:26.320 whole ethical value your entire ethical system revolves around how many dudes can plug you and your

06:47:32.240 justification for that that's why we call you coomers degenerates and disgusting heathens then you

06:47:37.120 are why are you so angry i know he really took that in he's a spurt king he loves to do that no

06:47:48.800 one's right or wrong but like smoke that cigarette boy all right what did i say that was disrespectful

06:47:55.920 or even untrue you really went in oh i didn't say it was untrue i am i'm sorry i'm sorry

06:48:01.760 a single thing i said was untrue you can't you can't say a single thing well i actually get the

06:48:06.800 least amount of my value from my looks which is why my only fan was successful but that wasn't his

06:48:11.680 argument we said a single thing that was untrue that was untrue i didn't say that so therefore it

06:48:16.240 wasn't untrue um did you ever do you have a final response on this because i need to bring other

06:48:20.960 people in i gotta wrap up the show she's not even paying attention okay um all right uh andrew do

06:48:29.600 any other thoughts or i think you have to no i'm good i was i was gonna let her do her her clothes

06:48:34.240 though i said it would all right oh he wants to respond yeah he wants to reply i respect his

06:48:39.520 subjective opinion okay all right that's her clothes um uh you sticking around andrew or you

06:48:46.720 heading out yeah i do i do have to go okay it's three in the morning here thanks guys i really

06:48:53.200 appreciate it i don't take any of this personally i like having conversations all over the place it was

06:48:57.120 nice to meet all of you uh and i hope we talk again sometime yo w's in the chat for andrew andrew

06:49:03.120 thank you for joining us shoot us over a raid we'll entertain the crucible crew for another 20 30

06:49:07.280 minutes or so and then we're gonna wrap up the show uh thank you andrew do appreciate it okay we are

06:49:12.000 going to try to get this wrapped up here very shortly guys uh guys tts is 69 if you want to

06:49:17.360 get a message in we have a couple that are coming through right now touch my blade donated 200

06:49:24.560 didn't most western atrocities occur based on applying the colonizers views on another culture

06:49:30.240 like for usa native americans has happened in many countries touch my blade i do apologize if you

06:49:37.040 intended this for this to be for andrew um but uh i just wanted to let the exchange go through so

06:49:45.120 i do apologize for the uh there's about a 10 15 minute delay there but thank you man for sending

06:49:49.440 that in uh you have another we have another one here touch my blade donated 69 dollars yo thank you man

06:49:55.360 degen behavior is still degen stop the code you know w's in the chat for touch my blade thank you so much

06:50:01.120 for your uh patronage man really really appreciate it we have cat here thank you cat coming in

06:50:10.080 here and you know what we're just gonna do um thank you touch my blade i'm just gonna go ahead

06:50:15.120 we'll just do the rest session right now oxcaxo donated 69 dollars panel is bug boys pack him up and

06:50:23.120 ship him to gang bang land okay cat thank you it's it's bugged i guess uh okay so guys we're

06:50:30.960 actually just immediately gonna shift into the roast session we're gonna do a uh let's see here

06:50:36.560 we're gonna do a just to keep it brief the roasts will be uh it'll be 30 and up i'm gonna get

06:50:42.160 everything posted here really quick any final thoughts from any panelists i'm hungry what did that

06:50:48.000 last comment mean because i have no idea what it meant okay no but what meant we out everything all of

06:50:57.120 it felt like a different language what she said the last the last um comment that was just pulled

06:51:05.600 up yeah i had no idea what anything meant it was pretty stupid but it's okay don't worry about it

06:51:10.480 yeah any any other final thoughts from anybody i have a couple things but just giving you guys an

06:51:15.440 opportunity here yo crucible crew thank you for the raid andrew really appreciate it guys we're crucible

06:51:22.560 crew we're just going to do like 20 30 minute little roast session so if you want get your roast

06:51:26.480 in we got 30 roast streamlabs.com slash whatever get it in boys get it in okay if you want to get a

06:51:33.440 roast in get it in and i think i got everything all set up there so we're all good to go while we're

06:51:40.800 doing that just a couple final notes here that i have oh that that reminds me uh we do a segment

06:51:46.000 at the very end of the show where everybody removes their makeup who who here is a show

06:51:53.600 of hands who's down i have makeup wipes neutrogena the best best neutrogena is not a good makeup brand

06:52:00.400 it breaks you out it breaks you out you couldn't buy like sephora it's really cheap organic look like

06:52:07.520 sephora is cheap but still good water whatever right like listen i'm willing to do it but not with

06:52:14.640 that brand what you guys are i have i have um everyone send in gifted so we get like better

06:52:20.880 makeup wipes who's willing to do it who's willing to take off their makeup save me some work for the

06:52:24.960 way home boom uh adriana i have sensitive skin my skin will burn no like actually i have like

06:52:31.680 dermatitis so i'm okay but i'll do it with soap and water espanya i don't want to go to japan

06:52:39.120 i don't want to go to japan i can do okay will you do it don't look at me abigail will you take

06:52:44.880 all the makeup off sure okay w's in the chat for abigail there you go she's a trooper i'll do it

06:52:50.800 i'll do it with soap and water take your lensless glasses off do you want me to do it with soap and

06:52:56.400 water instead i just can't i really can't use that because i have a really bad skin ultra soft cleansing

06:53:02.080 towelettes no like i have an actual like diagnosed skin condition like it's like you have i have really bad

06:53:07.040 dermatitis if i use that i'll break out okay all right we'll give you a pass those are actually

06:53:10.800 really bad for you yeah uh sophia no and it burns really bad sky will you do it no i'll give you a

06:53:17.040 two dollar bill yeah no okay listen you fucked me earlier with the vicar thing i did not no oh okay

06:53:22.960 wait you have a boyfriend y'all got real time clip it and chip clip it and chip so you bowed so do you

06:53:28.240 have paper towels yeah i bowed oh wait no i didn't do you have paper towels no i'll give you the pass

06:53:34.160 whatever no like i'll actually do it because my face i mean if you yeah if you want to go run to

06:53:38.320 the bathroom super quick yeah we have we have paper towels right over there what's up i what oh yeah

06:53:43.520 you messed me up earlier because you made me you're like you made me tell and then you didn't tell tell

06:53:49.520 what your body count so if you're not wearing makeup you don't have any to take off i'm not doing it

06:53:55.120 fairsies i don't have any makeup look i don't want to think of each one of my exes as a number

06:54:04.160 so i'm not going to answer that question i want to keep that private out of respect for

06:54:08.720 my ex-girlfriends what he said yeah i'm with you on that one right about my oh my goodness

06:54:18.240 what okay i'll just i am it's acceptable that's smart there's a nice loophole he's a brave and a

06:54:24.080 decent man he's a pioneer all right let me let some of the chats come through i'm sure there's some rose

06:54:28.480 coming all right we have uh oh yes and yes sons of liberty donated 29 and 99 cents andrew was great

06:54:37.600 on i look so pale whatever is back nice haircut be trump is president thank you the world is good

06:54:44.720 these are degenerate women oh cancer on our society wait hold up the sons of liberty thank you hold it

06:54:50.960 up to the camera uh and then she's taking hers off over here that's that's great oh you used did you

06:54:58.400 use two is that is that number two that you used okay that's cool um sons really appreciated man i

06:55:06.320 did see him on pierce he absolutely wrecked sank destroyed him well done andrew i don't know if you're

06:55:12.160 still watching but well done uh okay we have touch my blade donated thirty dollars thank you

06:55:18.160 other than the cup code appreciate it was okay also why do these girls do it for such low money

06:55:24.800 wow can't see the roi to be honest wow there you go guys good times all right look at all that

06:55:31.600 removed makeup uh thank you touch my blade do appreciate it

06:55:35.200 okay oj simpson donated thirty three dollars chair three you know i'm not going to hook up with you

06:55:43.280 right chair one we should mate you're chair one you're chair three i don't um i don't get it uh

06:55:52.800 yeah i'm good i think i'm so confused i don't know i don't know oj simpson i don't know what are you

06:55:59.840 talking about um while we're letting a few others trickle in just like i said we're not going to be able

06:56:04.640 to hit all these you guys they all answered the questionnaire 20 different things we're not

06:56:08.320 going to hit it all uh but let's see here for sky actually no going for peach you wrote you did

06:56:16.080 something interesting one sec here we go again peach uh oh wait no who was it it was bell wait bella

06:56:25.120 angelina you disagree with what that you disagree that it's acceptable for a man to refuse to date a

06:56:34.240 woman because she is overweight it's unacceptable no okay the statement is it is acceptable for a

06:56:41.920 man to refuse to date a woman because she's overweight i meant no you circle if you disagree

06:56:46.480 oh so you're fine with it okay yeah i know it's reading comprehension i get it it's you know okay all

06:56:52.960 right well uh going to sky and sophia then uh sky for 20 transgender individuals have a duty to

06:57:00.880 disclose to romantic partners you disagree and then sophia not disagree not straight for a man to date a

06:57:07.360 trans woman uh i feel like it depends on their how far they are into their journey if you still like

06:57:17.840 have male parts and you're dressing like a woman then obviously that's something i feel like you should

06:57:24.560 disclose if you are like full like after surgery like i feel like you can't even tell i don't think

06:57:33.440 it's necessarily that big of a deal i wouldn't date someone trans but that's just my what so so your

06:57:42.480 position is if they've fully transitioned they got the bottom surgery then they not like not a big deal

06:57:51.200 if they don't disclose yeah if they like like genuinely have like the new their new anatomy i

06:57:58.480 will yeah yeah you can understand then i feel like it's if you like legit can't tell like i i don't know

06:58:06.000 what it looks like before and after so i can't speak if you can tell or not um i mean but yeah so i mean

06:58:13.520 there's two things here i think for the safety of the transgender individual they probably should disclose

06:58:18.000 regardless of their however far they are when it comes to their transition and also just to

06:58:24.880 do the right thing by the other person like i yeah they should they should tell them you should

06:58:31.920 tell them yeah like what what if your intention is like going into this like relationship or whatever

06:58:36.640 like this is somebody you want to marry have kids with like transgender like a transgender woman can't

06:58:41.760 have children yeah i i feel okay now that you said that i understand okay well earlier when i was

06:58:48.800 thinking about it yeah no earlier when i was thinking about it i just kind of but now that you said that

06:58:53.600 you're right women or transgender women can't have children right and yeah yeah but here i'll take it

06:58:59.360 even a step further or like periods or anything i'll take it even a step further even if it's a one night

06:59:04.560 stand and there's not like a there's no you know we're gonna get pregnant that's not involved still

06:59:11.360 should disclose even if you're fully transitioned i mean i i mean if that's your personal take i i can't

06:59:18.560 argue with that you can just choose to stay abstinent and then yeah exactly you never have to worry about

06:59:24.800 your business you never have to worry about it you never have to smile i'm promoting abstinence

06:59:29.440 that's the best idea does anybody um does anybody know who this girl is there's like this was like

06:59:36.400 years ago there's this uh makeup lady on youtube and she like came out as well i guess he whatever i

06:59:45.200 don't know came out as trans and i think disclosed i could be wrong but like did say that uh she he i

06:59:54.080 don't know she didn't disclose to her boyfriend and they've been dating for like i think a couple

07:00:00.800 years that she was trans like okay well i feel like that well i feel like if you're in a committed

07:00:07.200 i feel like depending on their conversations that they have and if they wanted children and like they

07:00:11.360 wanted something more with that i feel like then yeah also keeping a secret like that from someone

07:00:18.080 that you've been with i feel like there's a certain time period that if you've been like in a committed

07:00:21.920 relationship with them and they like sure don't want kids and i feel like you should tell them okay

07:00:26.480 all right uh and then sophia you said so the statement is not straight for a man to date a trans

07:00:31.840 woman you disagree so they're not straight if they date a trans woman yeah so if like me or brandon

07:00:39.280 if we were dating a trans woman we would not be straight do you agree with that or you disagree you

07:00:46.080 would be straight okay so you disagree then by the way i'll read this really quick ice first person to

07:00:53.120 snitch on the illegals on the panel gets 750 dollars okay thank you ice appreciate it uh well done um

07:01:01.280 i think like she said if they present like a woman they look like a woman they have the body parts of a

07:01:06.400 woman and i think you're straight you can you guys can cancel me if you want that's not a vagina like

07:01:14.000 you can put a hole you can surgically put a hole inside of you so what you're saying is that if they

07:01:21.280 go through the through the trends to the transition process it should be something that should be talked

07:01:26.800 about even if they don't show any sign uh when they meet that person that they're in their relationship

07:01:32.640 with right well that was my disagreement with sky but now we're on to the topic of like just looking

07:01:37.760 at it from a bird's eye view if a uh if a man is dating a trans woman is it straight i don't think

07:01:46.480 it's straight i think it should be discussed and that's not but but that's not really what we're

07:01:54.080 well i'm basically agreeing with you okay okay fine i'll take it but so um i guess like why would it be

07:02:00.640 straight because they don't look like a man and they're not okay okay how about this what if the

07:02:07.360 individual is a cross-dresser somebody who so still has oh my gosh can i tell a story you yeah your ex

07:02:16.160 was a cross-dresser no no no there was this guy in ohio who worked at this walmart hoping to get sued

07:02:23.680 and he he was like i think if i know the definition correctly a cross-dresser is like a man who dressed

07:02:29.440 like a woman correct he wore heels to work at walmart every single day hoping to get sued so

07:02:34.640 he would get a huge check but he never did and so he started off like the first two weeks just for

07:02:39.760 the bag but he never got fired so then he had to keep up the act and so his name is terry from walmart

07:02:45.920 and still to this day he still wears the heels to work oh and he just is like oh that's terry sorry no

07:02:54.320 so okay sorry sorry so wait let's say like uh somebody cross dresses what does that mean so they

07:03:03.040 they don't identify as trans like they're like i'm still a man but i just enjoy dressing up like a

07:03:07.920 woman would that be straight because you said if they look like a woman it would be straight no i think

07:03:15.120 that person would be gay or okay so what's i think there's other term i could be so wrong about this

07:03:21.520 but there's other terms other than like gay-shaped bisexual that would like define liking someone

07:03:29.760 who cross-dresses or all the situations that you're um explaining i could be so wrong but that's just from

07:03:36.480 what yeah sure that's fine i mean yeah there's like pansexual fine line there's a lot yeah there's

07:03:41.840 pansexual but that's not what i'm talking about i'm saying it would not be straight like a man dating

07:03:48.640 a trans woman that's not straight how about this here we'll make it super easy um so uh you would

07:03:58.160 agree that straight is short form short form slang for heterosexual right okay and when we're talking

07:04:05.840 about heterosexuality homosexuality we're not referring to somebody's gender identity

07:04:11.600 like same-sex attraction opposite opposite sex attraction heterosexuality has to do with sex

07:04:19.040 so do you let me ask you this do you think transgender women are they male or female

07:04:25.600 whatever they identify as well you can't so here i'll just go ahead i'm gonna just for the sake of

07:04:31.360 argument transgender women are women are they female though no biologically no no okay so

07:04:39.280 in what world then could it ever be possible if two males regardless of their gender identity

07:04:45.680 regardless of the plastic surgery they've had if two males are engaged in a sex act how could that

07:04:51.200 ever be anything but a homosexual act i guess yeah that's fair right and so if two a male and

07:05:00.160 the female that that would be heterosexual right so maybe at the very minimal bisexual because it

07:05:06.400 looks like a woman but like i don't think it's either or i think it's there's like a whole different

07:05:12.080 term but what is it the kinsey scale as they say so then there's like a specific term for it i just

07:05:17.040 don't know because i met someone who said like i'm blah blah blah i'm something sexual and i was like what

07:05:22.960 does that mean or like oh like i specifically like trans woman or something like that i don't know

07:05:28.560 these i don't remember the exact specifics but there's like other words other than heterosexual

07:05:33.600 or homosexual to explain it how about this a man is dating a transgender woman who's uh pre-op is that

07:05:41.840 straight or

07:05:42.480 no i think that that would go under the queer spectrum whatever it is yeah it's not straight

07:05:55.040 it's not gay but it's something else that they identify as it's uh yeah look the thing is is you

07:06:01.840 cannot change your sex that you can't change it personally i don't really believe in all the gender

07:06:07.680 stuff whatever but just for the sake of argument just make it simple i mean why are we even talking

07:06:11.760 about it there's no gay people or trans people here so it was not it was not the thing no i

07:06:15.760 understand your sexual preference is like feminine presenting but then you also are okay with a penis

07:06:21.920 then you like you're bisexual right because you like men and women there's like a different term

07:06:29.920 sure i mean i would grant that um a man who would date cis women and also a transgender woman

07:06:39.200 i would grant that that could be bisexual so can you do the roast but it wouldn't be straight is

07:06:44.000 the thing yeah you're definitely not sorry thank you thank you appreciate it appreciate it okay i'm

07:06:48.880 gonna let some of these roasts come through guys get them in we're gonna wrap in like 10 minutes

07:06:52.960 this guy's a liberty donated 29 and 99 cents men have the right to vote because they have a duty to

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07:07:06.720 access to abortion or democracy jay smooth donated 30 dollars glad you guys are back these girls were a little

07:07:16.560 too cooked but far beyond burnt yo jay thank you for the uh roast man appreciate it and then sons of

07:07:23.760 liberty thanks for the roast appreciate it yes he donated 30 dollars happy new york i smashed out all

07:07:30.400 your live streams over the holidays cause i dumped my high maintenance ex thank you for making me laugh

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07:07:42.640 otis straightwood donated 30 dollars and 69 yo otis thank you man welcome back thank you do not

07:07:48.720 look for a house in gangbangville horrible train stations i heard tear the worst train stations yo

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07:08:00.960 back to the whatever strumpet talk podcast now with more i lost i lost a bit of weight super fatty

07:08:07.760 boy i lost i lost 10 pounds i lost 10 pounds okay daddy trump's back kiss the ring is like six

07:08:14.720 pounds okay dark pink donated 30 dollars number seven was a pain in the rainbows every time you spoke

07:08:21.760 with silly lies you told how can you live a life like that number six it was a pleasure seeing you on

07:08:27.840 the show which one i think you were one of the nicest of all oh that's me is that you maybe they're

07:08:34.320 skipping over dark labia i don't know i don't know um thank you dark pink really appreciate it

07:08:40.880 yo 30 uh guys 30 tts if you want to get a roast in we'll let a few more we'll do five ten more minutes

07:08:46.400 then we're going to wrap up here uh let's see if there's anything else here that's interesting

07:08:51.280 uh let's see how we could do man or bear really quick uh would you rather and only a few of you

07:08:56.320 answered bear uh would you rather cross paths with a man or a bear in the forest sky

07:09:01.040 i said bear okay sophia have you ever seen a bear i have i've seen them and yeah i travel a lot i go

07:09:10.480 hiking and stuff i've seen them in person a grizzly yeah peaches you said bear i don't identify bears

07:09:16.640 but i've seen bears oh yeah that is that that's really shocking i i have pictures no no i'm saying i'm

07:09:24.800 saying it's shocking you'd pick the bear oh are you saying like over an average like man if like

07:09:32.800 if it randomly selected from like a pool of yeah the like all the men on the planet

07:09:39.840 i yeah i'm sorry oh that's depressing i'm not yeah i'm not coming after you at all though

07:09:46.560 just nothing personal yeah nothing personal who else picked bear well i did but i mean i picked

07:09:53.040 bear over again you picked bear she also picked bear oh my goodness i love what you picked wait you

07:10:00.480 picked bear over any human and you do trains what roasted yeah we'll choose a bear over a human boom

07:10:08.400 roasted i don't talk to the people when i'm doing it go off queen what else you got darkavia come on

07:10:15.120 what else you got that's crazy that's crazy man i don't have to talk to them when i'm doing the

07:10:20.000 trains if i come and do contact with a man who works he's probably gonna want to oh i didn't know

07:10:23.360 that i don't want to talk to him but a bear will eat you bear will not talk to me a bear will kill

07:10:28.240 you if he's hungry if he's not hungry you're probably just gonna keep going okay enjoy attacking

07:10:34.480 just for fun what are the odds that it's not oh boy i gotta i gotta criticize i've seen enough

07:10:39.600 survival shows i would much rather come across a man than a bear i like my life

07:10:46.240 uh wait so bella

07:10:50.560 okay bella and adriana we'll start with this one uh the statement is you can be racist towards white

07:10:58.880 people you disagree bella and adriana you also okay i have a question about that statement are you

07:11:04.080 saying like it's okay to be racist towards white people or people can be racist towards white

07:11:08.560 people people can be racist like it's possible yeah it's possible yeah i meant you i thought you

07:11:14.240 meant like if is it okay yeah just not okay with racism how did you the quiet it's you can be

07:11:19.520 not paying attention you can be racist no because when i read that i specifically asked myself that i was

07:11:24.640 like that question could be you mean two different things also uh you can be sexist towards men to

07:11:33.440 which you also disagree well like how are you asking the question is it possible for you to be

07:11:37.760 sexist or men or is it okay possible is it possible is it yes it's possible because some people say for

07:11:43.920 example well oh men are the oppressors men are the oppressor class uh men have like systematic

07:11:50.640 privilege or whatever so you can't be sexist towards them or same with white people

07:11:54.880 white people have like privilege and systemic power blah blah blah you can't be racist towards

07:12:00.000 white people because of this like again is it is it okay are you saying it's okay are you saying it's

07:12:08.480 okay or is it possible because i'm not saying it's okay i'm just saying it's possible for people to do

07:12:12.960 that but you think it's okay i don't think it's okay oh then why did well because i was i misunderstood

07:12:18.880 the question so then whatever your understanding of the question though because you you said here's the

07:12:22.720 two options oh i could i thought it was this but no i i was thinking either or so so i didn't know how

07:12:28.880 to answer the question that's fine that's fine um let's see oh we have jay smooth here jay smooth

07:12:36.320 donated 40 dollars if her into trans who the hell cares it means you buy it's definitely a kink move

07:12:44.400 on this cast is kind of fried short of a happy meal

07:12:47.920 uh let's see if there's any others that are adriana where are you going

07:12:54.000 i'm looking at the definition she's going to get more cookies what cam she went to get more cookies

07:12:58.960 she's looking for the definition of cam okay uh let's see here you guys are all surprisingly

07:13:04.640 reasonable yeah you guys are cool yeah thank you virgin uh uh i'll read it just as a chair two needs

07:13:13.280 to deflate those huge bears on her chest don't worry don't worry what is it okay what did you

07:13:20.240 find scolio sexual i'm not pronouncing it right probably but it's scolio sexual when you're into

07:13:24.560 trans people scolio yeah i'm probably not i'm probably not pronouncing it right but i've never

07:13:30.400 heard of that that's cool it's a specific term to be into trans people that's the first thing i

07:13:34.800 thought of scoliosis well i don't think i'm saying it right honestly uh okay most down bad you've ever

07:13:41.920 been for a guy sky you moved in with him the first time you met i don't know if that's down

07:13:47.440 bad well i don't but i didn't know what to put if i'm being honest that's fine yeah you can just

07:13:53.520 uh sophia has not been down bad peaches has not been down bad bella left it blank oh wait hold on

07:14:00.640 no oh you put a recording device under his couch you were down bad you put a recording device under his

07:14:08.400 couch that's the way to do it see like if he was cheating he was i caught him with the whole

07:14:12.960 girl in the house and everything our spanish princess over here says she followed him you

07:14:19.680 followed him so you stalked him in the street uh adria adriana here with the uh most down bad

07:14:29.040 god uh she's ever been for a guy she sent a guy money that she wasn't even dating that's pretty wow

07:14:35.120 you okay give her the crown how much was it you still you still what like 500 oh you still love

07:14:42.800 him oh wow you should tell your future boyfriend that um can you send me some money

07:14:51.600 i don't have any more because how much did you send okay tell us like i just like do things for

07:14:57.120 him how much like one time he was like she's not saying a number did he ask for how much how much

07:15:03.840 i don't know if he's watching how much he's definitely not watching but this knows what's

07:15:07.040 about him wait did you smash hell yeah

07:15:13.520 wait straight enough yes i did how much how much did money it wasn't a lot but just like

07:15:19.760 little bits at a time you sent him multiple times yeah like he was like oh like i really need money

07:15:24.480 for this or like one time he was like like my me and my family like we're really going through it and

07:15:28.160 like i want to like i want to drive instacart but i have no gas so i sent him money how much i only

07:15:35.280 spent some like like 30 bucks for gas that's nothing what's the most oh it was like always

07:15:40.640 like little bits at a time like it wasn't like a hundred so in total like roughly it sounds like

07:15:44.720 a couple hundred bucks right is that fair to say maybe she's like 10k in

07:15:48.880 what is it the tinder swindler or whatever were you one of those that sounds so scary

07:15:56.160 honestly that's probably not even the worst i've done though like there was this one guy i dated

07:16:00.320 and um i would like because like he just moved in for like to his like apartment and i like

07:16:05.440 bought him like an ac i bought him like his furniture in his bedroom that he fully slept with another

07:16:10.880 girl on damn um yes why why are you entertaining these guys well this was like a long time ago like

07:16:20.000 i've changed i'm grown he's a pioneer um but yeah yeah um what a legend i was a kind person and then

07:16:28.800 people took advantage of it so i stopped being kind damn that's why i don't think that's kind

07:16:34.000 i think that's naive like maybe you wasn't a rat's wrong person i feel like that's why that is

07:16:39.440 nice that's why body count matters though is like a girl's like gone over by all these dudes and then

07:16:44.960 she's like then you're the guy who has to come along and like deal with her trauma it's just like

07:16:50.960 and you find out she's still sending money to her ex you don't do it anymore you did you did all that

07:16:56.800 shit for the other dudes here i am here i am send me 30 you're not gonna send me anybody now i got

07:17:03.120 to deal with your shit damn okay that's cool but sometimes we women even pay for i mean we even

07:17:11.600 help means just for saying oh no sometimes we women we we don't have men's you for help we help for

07:17:23.440 love i know so i did it yeah i agree but i think i agree too but now then you're not putting out

07:17:31.120 anymore for your other boyfriend i think for me i maybe did it too soon and i was just a little

07:17:39.120 more like in la la land because i was younger but i think now that i'm like older i've matured more

07:17:44.560 i've gone through therapy and then grown i don't do that as much anymore but if i'm gonna be with

07:17:50.320 someone committed long term then yes i will do that again but right off the rip off the bat you know

07:17:55.440 i'm going to be a little more selective of who i'm giving things to and buying things for damn

07:18:01.120 that's too bad yeah okay uh adriana final thing here and then we'll let the last chats go through

07:18:08.240 and wrap the show uh adriana the statement is women have equal rights to men in the usa you disagree why

07:18:15.920 wait women have equal right can you repeat it sorry i'm getting tired

07:18:21.360 so you don't believe that women have equal rights to the statement is women have equal

07:18:27.200 rights to men in the united states you circled it indicating you disagree with that statement

07:18:32.080 why do you disagree not fully because some women don't have rights don't have say over the rights of

07:18:36.960 their bodies in some areas last call on the roast guys i'm gonna last call um but what why would that

07:18:46.400 so the statement is though women have equal rights to men in the united states it's not clear to me if

07:18:50.960 uh the abortion conversation yeah i know but like men don't have any reproductive rights so like

07:18:59.520 how how would it be an inequality between men and women men have say and women don't how do men wait

07:19:07.040 hold on so here's here's what happens woman gets as soon as a woman gets pregnant she can

07:19:13.440 let's say she's in a state where she can get an abortion she can choose to have an abortion or she

07:19:18.320 can choose to keep it what say does a man have in either of these situations i was talking about

07:19:23.120 the states that women don't have the option but so what does that have to do with men though men don't

07:19:29.360 have men have say in what they can do with their balls wait so hold on if a man there's no restriction

07:19:36.480 on what men can do with their balls wait hold on okay so if a man gets a woman pregnant in one of

07:19:43.600 these states or in any state and the woman he doesn't want it it's a one night stand he's like

07:19:48.080 i just want to have fun she's like oh i'm pregnant i'm gonna keep it he's on the hook for child support

07:19:54.080 for 18 years i think it just depends on the state there there's every single state in the country

07:20:03.840 if you get a woman pregnant and she keeps it you owe her child support for 18 years sometimes in some

07:20:09.760 states it's up to 21. not always yes always tell me the situation i've experienced different i've

07:20:16.160 heard other situations have you had children no what i'm saying i've heard other situations what's

07:20:20.720 the situation like where men don't have to pay child support what situation would that be i don't

07:20:27.680 have just heard people say like oh i don't have to pay child support or like oh like so and so

07:20:30.960 doesn't have to pay child support for the baby blah blah blah but it's so i mean people can come to

07:20:34.960 all sorts of like agreements but if the woman goes to court and she's like i want child support

07:20:42.880 she's getting child support like they typically side with the women with when it comes to the

07:20:47.280 children like a woman she's a fit mother like if a woman doesn't go to court and she's like i just

07:20:52.480 don't want she wasn't a fit mother i don't know maybe i just don't have all the facts in but in

07:20:59.840 like a typical situation where there's a child and the mom wants child support she goes to court

07:21:08.160 she's gonna get it there's no way oh you can't tell the judge i'd rather not pay most of the time

07:21:13.840 yes you're right so yeah but what are the scenarios in which that's not the case i don't know that was

07:21:19.280 the only scenario i have so okay how about this just to move things on uh besides abortion is there

07:21:24.320 any other right that a man has that a woman doesn't not that i can think of okay so that's

07:21:30.560 why i said i take back the statement okay that's fine all right guys last few chats guys final call

07:21:36.240 30 tts get them in ml junior senior donated 30 dollars i'm black and most of the racism i

07:21:42.880 experience is from black people makes me sad and want to cry chair one is cutie oh sky there you go

07:21:50.800 you got a fan okay thank you mlk joe mama donated 30 dollars someone tell abigail to stop leaning her

07:21:59.120 face on the mic she's going to catch germs and get sick yeah i think scarlet sorry joe mama scarlett

07:22:05.760 was sitting there before and she was like licking the microphone so you might just like in one to two

07:22:10.400 weeks you might just want to like all right thank you man a hillbuck donated 30 dollars thank you man

07:22:17.600 brian and andrew big w's thank you virgin giga chat don't get dipped by an ala females get educated

07:22:25.280 on basic meanings of words please get a burrito brian i'm gonna get some food after this thank you

07:22:30.960 man appreciate it touch my blade donated 30 dollars scolio blah blah blah sexual just say gay

07:22:39.760 okay okay and then thank you touch my blood appreciate it we have three more jay smooth donated 30

07:22:51.440 tell wannabe johnny bravo to stop making love to himself the girl in seat too is cute

07:22:59.440 yo jay thank you man brutal you guys can roast back if you want this call what donated 30

07:23:05.600 dollars you were the best but you were the worst as sick as it sounds i loved you first i was a

07:23:11.600 rainbows it is what it is a habit to kick the age-old curse i tend to laugh whenever i'm sad i stare at

07:23:17.920 the crash it changed one of the words but communism donated 29 and 99 cents w brixton you're absolutely

07:23:27.360 right it's not a love it's a colonic sex hole share three do you ever pay attention to the conversation or

07:23:34.480 only on your fast fading looks shut up chef or nobody asked you guys can say something back if

07:23:42.000 you want i mean that's the rose all right no i'll just take it like a good girl okay good for you

07:23:48.720 all right the fork on the leftist i don't do that anymore while you're literally smiling and

07:23:52.880 laughing saying you still love him there are no good three of foes bros i think this is about you

07:23:59.280 h-o-e you still love him when's the last time you yeah it's upside down when was this he lives

07:24:06.240 back in that he lives like across the country so like i haven't seen him in one when's the

07:24:11.040 last time calculators guys guys stop like over two years ago you're still in love with a guy who

07:24:16.240 you haven't seen or talked to in two years no i talked to him is he fucking other chicks probably

07:24:23.200 and you're in love with this dude bro you sound like me i mean i can still have love for somebody not

07:24:28.080 be with them i just i love him as a person and i know like i'm never gonna be with him if if he

07:24:32.240 was like hey fly out come live with me would you do it no if if he moves back out here would you date

07:24:38.240 him i would think about it yeah she's in love with him but wouldn't take the guy okay that doesn't

07:24:43.040 i don't get it i don't i don't get it i don't get it you know also from my understanding a 304 is

07:24:49.040 a sex worker is that not necessarily all right thank you man appreciate it i just want to clear that

07:24:54.880 that's not all right two more last call guys who donated 29.99 chair four is summer from rick and

07:25:04.000 morty i'll take it i don't get it i don't watch that yeah i like summer what i'm barely on episode

07:25:11.280 one mlk junior senior donated thirty dollars chair three tell me how bad it stank baby girl

07:25:19.040 bro what bro okay all right thank you mlk appreciate it man appreciate it okay uh all right guys uh i'm

07:25:33.520 i think that's it i think that's it you think so yeah let's go to twitch let's do a little twitch

07:25:38.480 shout out oh should i do a raid i'll do a quick raid uh guys go to twitch.tv slash whatever

07:25:44.000 drop us a follow in the prime sub we're gonna uh wrap the show up here in just a sec guys drop us

07:25:49.600 on your way out guys just hit the follow button drop us a follow drop us a prime sub would very

07:25:55.040 much appreciate it i am going to uh who are we gonna read who are we gonna read

07:25:59.280 oh my god forget it bro i'm not even i'm just there's nobody okay um let's see here uh wait hold

07:26:12.720 on oh call to action i'd like to end the show by seeing if we can't use this moment as an opportunity

07:26:18.400 to give you some of you a call to action those of you who are involved in like of s work whatever

07:26:24.400 would you consider stopping s work o f entirely make a commitment right now tonight sky sophia abby

07:26:37.440 gail what teaches would you commit on the whatever podcast is stopping sex work right now no or what

07:26:46.080 yeah what am i getting what's uh yeah what's the return your soul what what's that uh bible verse what

07:26:53.520 good does it do a man to gain the world gain the world or lose your soul yeah that whole thing sky

07:26:59.840 would you consider quitting right now no thank you okay what about your peaches probably not okay yeah

07:27:05.600 i need a better i just wanted to say like you guys are still young it's not too late to change the

07:27:09.600 trajectory i'm not that young well not referring to these three girls you guys are all 18 right 20 20 20

07:27:16.720 okay so you guys are still pretty young college age it's not too late to you know explore other career

07:27:21.840 fields because you know fast money isn't always i have a question for you guys so doing o f do you

07:27:27.600 guys did you guys come into um o f with the mindset of i'm gonna make this much and i'm gonna quit or

07:27:33.920 did you come in a mindset like i'm gonna get this old and that's what i'm gonna quit mine was kind of

07:27:40.400 uh like i said mine was kind of i was working two jobs and going to school while doing o f it was

07:27:46.000 kind of a necessity like i just needed it because i needed to get out of the situation i was in

07:27:50.880 and now uh once i did get ended up getting out of that situation i started making i made a

07:27:57.520 substantial income off of it where i could not switch to another job and make the same income

07:28:03.760 that i am now unless i went through years and years of school which my parent i had 30 grand saved

07:28:11.040 up for school my parents stole it from me for my college so i didn't so now i would have to like

07:28:17.600 save up and restart and do all that and i just so based on what you make now can you read five pages

07:28:24.480 from green eggs and ham you're asking a lot out of me i don't know if i'm gonna be able to do all

07:28:29.520 this i can't even reach it all right go ahead okay okay first page is a little hard guys here

07:28:36.480 while you're working on that that's the cover of the book no ice remember to report your local

07:28:42.480 illegal to us okay thank you ice appreciate it green eggs and ham by dr seuss beginner books guys

07:28:50.080 first page is hams yeah show it show it yeah yeah okay go ahead read like four four pages

07:28:57.360 green eggs and ham i am sam i am sam i'm struggling i am sam

07:29:06.480 that sam i am that sam i am i do not like that sam i am do you like green eggs and ham i do not like

07:29:24.960 them sam i am i do not like them green eggs and ham okay that's good that's good all right that's

07:29:31.680 enough well done well done all right just leave it on the table just leave it on the table all

07:29:35.440 right guys uh gg well played to the panel last call hit the like button please on your way out

07:29:43.120 thank you for tuning in tonight you could have been anywhere in the world but you're here with me

07:29:47.200 i appreciate that thank you to everyone who super chats donates and supports the show we will be

07:29:52.240 live again tuesday at 5 p.m pacific any girls who want to be on the show dm at whatever on instagram

07:29:58.000 oh sevens in the chat oh sevens in the chat uh appreciate with appreciate are we forgetting

07:30:04.880 anything or are we good i think we're good what's phonics mean hooked on phonics i don't know where

07:30:10.160 do you even see that it just popped up i didn't see it okay guys uh oh sevens is there anything else

07:30:17.280 wait did we have a react that we had to do or like something we had to pull up uh

07:30:21.760 we already no i think we're good all right oh sevens in the chat guys thank you so much glad to

07:30:27.600 be back uh tune in on tuesday 5 p.m pacific for another dating talk oh sevens in the chat hope you

07:30:33.840 guys have a good night we'll see you next time good night guys goodbye for everyone goodbye

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Whatever Podcast - January 27, 2025

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