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00:03:54.780 run the south bay ultra marathon with me in san diego this august i told you before it started he

00:04:01.100 asked me ultra marathon she's been training that's hard i told him he said would you run a half marathon

00:04:07.400 or a marathon and i was like oh maybe i would do a half marathon he was like okay it's in a month i was

00:04:12.060 like okay that's wait did you do it no it's way too little time i need more time to train it's still

00:04:18.560 what 13 miles for half a marathon that's that's a big ask ultra marathon i'll i'll do like um like

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00:05:50.700 sitting in it today nick's nick you've been sitting it for the pat we got like two weeks ago right

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00:06:22.200 have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead

00:06:27.300 um jojo i just recently graduated with my master's in joe strumpets the bow video donated 69 dollars

00:06:38.100 my sprinkler goes like this

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00:06:50.260 uh cool thank you man uh we'll we'll show them the bow video we'll show the bow video later

00:07:00.920 go ahead so i just graduated recently with my master's in international affairs i'm 25 years old i know

00:07:06.760 i also somewhat twitch stream with curb of being and i'm from los angeles 25 right yes all right and

00:07:14.740 you just graduated uh last friday you said for with a master's in international affairs okay from where

00:07:21.280 ucsd okay nice what about you um i'm abby i'm 21 uh i live in santa barbara now but i'm originally

00:07:31.680 from vermont and i don't have an occupation and i'm pretty happy are you a neat am i neat

00:07:38.300 yeah are you yeet no are you a neat n-e-e-t right not in employment education or training i believe

00:07:47.440 that is me okay so you're neat you're neat that's what's up yeah you're neat uh you're from vermont

00:07:54.200 when did you move to santa barbara like a year and a half ago you've been out here for a year and a

00:07:58.320 half why did you move to santa barbara um i don't know it was pretty and i liked it had you been before

00:08:04.000 or you just found it on the internet you're like cool place yeah okay yeah so did you have a job

00:08:10.620 lined up or you have family out here no so you just rolled the dice from vermont yeah what part of

00:08:16.900 what we're in vermont um by like the quebec border like northern okay yeah so and you haven't had a

00:08:25.060 job for a year and a half no like i had a job but i just like got fired like eight months ago

00:08:29.840 and i haven't picked it up since because why would i do that why did you get fired um i was

00:08:36.340 working at like a nursing home embezzlement what no i'm not really sure they just didn't like me

00:08:43.080 and they fired me i thought i was good with the old people though i really did anybody

00:08:47.620 pass away on not good enough did anyone perish um yeah people did but like no i mean because of you

00:08:58.300 i hope not okay i don't know why i'm asking that but so they just didn't the old people didn't like

00:09:05.740 you or your co-workers didn't like you uh my co-workers

00:09:09.080 is it because you were from vermont no um there's a lot of bigotry against

00:09:17.060 people from vermont yeah no they just didn't like what i did they thought i was like what do you mean

00:09:24.080 what did you do what why did they tell you why not really um like i got a letter stacy perralt

00:09:32.060 donated 100 thank you we provide and protect when we receive the submissive respect

00:09:38.060 word what the yeah that's well put but we so wait stacy i guess stacy could be a man's name

00:09:46.660 stacy are you a man or a woman i've heard i've heard of man male stacy's right you could be a male

00:09:55.040 because he says we or she says we i don't know see yeah what gender is ambiguous is it are you a man

00:10:02.600 are you a woman but stacy in any case thank you for the uh tts appreciate it uh okay so you were fired

00:10:07.700 um yeah and so you've been out of a job for i don't even are you like you got a trust fund what's

00:10:14.740 going on no your parents own a maple syrup conglomerate i mean that's not too far up i don't

00:10:20.080 have parents though i'm just like oh are you like a i'm just abby like it's fine yeah are you

00:10:24.620 orphan you could say that oh okay does does does that require like an uh oh i'm sorry to hear

00:10:34.140 that you know like if somebody's dad passed not at 21 not at 21 it's still sad no i'm just wondering

00:10:41.160 like you know like for example when it comes to new years like if you said happy new year in april

00:10:46.140 people be like the fuck you talking about oh sure so is it like is it ever too late to be like oh

00:10:51.620 i'm sorry i'm sorry you're an orphan no i'm sorry it's your first time hearing it honestly

00:10:59.460 this is not funny at all

00:11:01.140 sorry but like is i i don't know i don't know what the social uh etiquette etiquette is do you if

00:11:12.900 somebody says that they're you know if they're in if they're 21 but they say they're an orphan

00:11:16.580 and does it warrant does it warrant like one of those like i'm i'm sorry to hear that i guess it

00:11:23.020 just depends on the vibe you can hit it with a dad about it do you gotta think were you adopt were

00:11:28.220 you adopted or no were you in an orphanage or no like are you not even an orphan did i just make

00:11:35.740 assumptions no i'm definitely an orphan i was in like foster care for like a year oh okay me too

00:11:40.540 okay but so you did get placed with the family like you were adopted for a year and then they

00:11:45.700 kicked me out so wait but so you said for a year wait at what age did your parents pass away my mom

00:11:52.120 passed when i was 16 and then my dad passed when i was like 17 ish i think it warrants a sorry yeah

00:11:57.920 that's awful sorry to hear that sorry to hear that sorry abby that's okay um and so uh you were in

00:12:06.520 vermont you moved here not in work you just been surfing what are you doing i can't swim actually

00:12:11.860 you you should you don't know how to swim i don't know how to swim can somebody get this girl some

00:12:16.160 like floaties for i have a pool noodle that i keep in my car like a fucking one that's awesome

00:12:21.300 danielle lilval donated 69 dollars nicolette definitely gained some weight did she quit off

00:12:28.160 depression and shame must be eating at her first of all okay me and nicolette are joining weight

00:12:35.680 watchers okay so you be nice to the both of us okay listen you know we've been we've been going

00:12:43.140 through stressful time right we've been we cope by eating right we're coping okay all right don't

00:12:51.680 come for my girl nicolette okay anyways so you going to school no school no sir so what do you what

00:13:00.820 are you doing to keep yourself busy um i go to yoga like a good bit okay just because like what else

00:13:07.600 you know yeah um i hang out with random people on hinge i usually don't like them when's the last

00:13:13.240 time you were on a hinge date uh two nights ago okay abby goodbye yeah oh definitely not good did you

00:13:23.440 guys have carnal knowledge that's a later question come on was there carnal knowledge no i told him

00:13:30.600 he wasn't my type and then that was not any like physical type or personality yeah he was very white

00:13:36.120 well wouldn't you have seen that in his pictures yeah yeah no i did i just like thought i'd like give

00:13:41.860 him a chance wait very white so he was you didn't he wasn't your type because he was white or he was

00:13:48.100 pale no he's he's just like white like so do you not date white guys not usually sorry nick

00:13:53.660 um what so what's what's your type then um i love i love mexican men um but like that's why she came

00:14:05.020 to santa barbara yes that's exactly why i'm not in california not enough mexican men in northern

00:14:10.780 vermont there's none it's like right by the canadian border right why didn't you go to san diego or

00:14:16.120 close to the border i mean should i like i can't san diego is right next to well every state's a

00:14:21.960 border you could go to texas natalie has insight on this topic but um san diego is like two hours

00:14:30.200 from tj or you just moved to mexico yeah no that's a great wait is it just mexicans what about other

00:14:35.600 latinos like do you fuck with costa ricans it's just not as good like i love them tall and like

00:14:41.720 tall wait curly hair tall mexicans yeah i know it's rare but i do you like the edgar cut is that

00:14:47.960 what they're called is that what they're called it looks like a broccoli head it's it's not great

00:14:54.140 wait so okay what about like puerto ricans

00:14:56.760 no uh okay what about like nick oh my nicaragans anonymous donated 100

00:15:05.900 holy shit i'm so sorry to buy you seem like a nice person and it's heartbreaking when terrible

00:15:12.380 things happen to good people yeah sorry to about the yeah the orphan thing i'm sorry i am sorry

00:15:23.900 that's fucked i i would i'm 35 i'd be all fucked up if my parents passed away so all fucked up anyways um

00:15:31.820 no no i'm not saying you're i'd be like i'd be i'd be i'm not saying you're fucked i'd be like

00:15:38.900 fucked up in the sense of distraught grieving anyways wait so okay uh brazilians or are they too white for

00:15:51.560 you yeah no like it matters it definitely matters they're too white it's nice i like that so just

00:15:58.900 mexicans what's north what's south of mexico like there's the country that's water i was like

00:16:04.200 no the panama canal belize panama yeah panama panamanian panamaniac el salvador if they have

00:16:13.280 dark curly hair that's really you're gonna love panama anonymous donated 69 dollars

00:16:18.800 brian is extremely fucked up so don't worry about a thing you've got this yeah we got something in

00:16:24.560 you did have a problem with that bug in the bathroom i was trying to get me to pick up a bug

00:16:30.640 for him right yes that's definitely not true that's that's 100 true i didn't want you to pick

00:16:35.700 it up i wanted you to squish it oh so that's even more fucked up what's wrong with you i was in the

00:16:40.400 middle of putting my contacts in i couldn't i gotta keep my hands you just well you just toilet

00:16:45.660 paper but then you should have done it uh okay so you don't what about like asian men

00:16:50.780 no i have like dated um like two asian guys it was okay um but now like i'm really dialing in i

00:17:00.980 really know well two days ago you went on a date with a white guy yeah i mean he was there he was

00:17:06.520 available i'm just confused because i mean if you're so strict with your type of it being

00:17:13.120 has to be mexican guy like was this guy like catfishing like he kind of looked mexican the

00:17:19.960 white guy no um i think i just wanted like a friend to hang out with and he was very upset about

00:17:26.680 that my bad my bad damn okay all right we'll come back to some of that stuff later nicolette

00:17:31.900 introduce yourself please uh anonymous donated 69 dollars brian can you tell us your current weight

00:17:40.020 and how much weight you've lost in the last two weeks guys it's bad i'm like 215 i lost five

00:17:46.280 pounds though i'm losing it it's gonna boys it's coming off it's coming off i'm gonna my goal by

00:17:52.400 the end of the year is like 190 180 oh you got that easy peasy are you gonna change the outfit

00:17:57.660 when you lose the weight the flannel's coming back call the date off for donated 69 dollars

00:18:02.980 glasses on the top left of the panel is for sure a 10 would definitely put a ring on that

00:18:08.940 okay oh corgi oh like that's my husband does he have four four corgis yeah we have

00:18:15.680 four four i guess i thought we had five okay okay can i have you just tilt your mic up oh i'm sorry

00:18:22.100 my bad no tilt tilt it up there that's good that's good that's good okay go ahead nicolette

00:18:26.740 i'm nicolette i'm 24 from orange county and i do only fans and i'm a dancer all right welcome back

00:18:36.440 nicolette what about you i'm julie i'm 25 i'm from vancouver bc oh wow okay mike davis donated 100

00:18:45.300 dollars i'm glad she didn't say black cause i would have passed her right on to them spikes

00:18:50.780 btw brian if you ever get banned on the tube you'll always have open job offer to flip burgers

00:18:57.820 at one of my joints that's mike davis right there um w that's rough buddy w burger king he owns like

00:19:06.480 100 burger kings uh they're chicken fries thank you man uh yeah you know look the youtube thing

00:19:11.320 might not you know always uh always you know who knows what what is in the cards i guess so

00:19:17.540 uh i'll probably just disappear move to hawaii anyways um go ahead julie 25 from vancouver bc

00:19:28.540 um i'm a full-time student in accounting and i also do only fans what do you think of pierre polivier

00:19:34.160 i need to look into more but listen all politicians today are kind of crazy

00:19:39.940 yeah they're all crazy do you prefer him over trudeau they're both terrible choices they're both

00:19:46.420 both terrible okay all right i don't know anything about canadian politics nobody does

00:19:51.120 not even canadians what about you oh wait actually you described yourself as a certified e-whore

00:19:58.220 e i thought it was e-slut whatever same thing what so what makes you there's just only fans

00:20:05.340 brian you're fat as fuck bro come run the south bay 24 with me to embrace pain and suffering

00:20:11.420 jo joe joe you said you'd run but never got back to me you're fake and now you must run the south

00:20:16.920 bay 24 damn did you did you i said i would run a marathon he gave me or half a marathon did you stand

00:20:23.340 him up no what happened was he said would you run a half marathon i was like oh yeah i would do that

00:20:28.140 and then he was like okay this is the date and location i was like i didn't know he meant like

00:20:32.920 with him in person like at this event this is crazy crazy i just thought you know it's crazy

00:20:41.620 there's a chance i could be murdered thank you chase uh yeah definitely well i mean look i i can

00:20:47.220 tell you personally i've actually you know yeah i've met bro naissance uh he's a very good guy okay

00:20:52.060 he's a good man he's only um i'll keep that in mind next time yeah i mean he he went one time we

00:20:58.100 were camping right and he did save me from like a pack of uh bears no no no it was the coyotes but

00:21:04.960 it was they were it was not just one like one coyote i could fuck up but if there's like 10 of

00:21:09.340 them it was like a pack of coyotes yeah those things are you know how did he save you a pistol

00:21:16.720 yeah he's got he's a good shot 10 coyotes with a pistol yeah sure he's a sharpshooter wow

00:21:24.240 he hadn't he he brought an ar-15 so hello brian yeah thank you coming from england huge respect for

00:21:33.360 keeping patience with these 304s guys we use strumpet here keep it going things are hard over

00:21:39.140 here but keeping the patriarchy going as hard as i can keep it based isn't the uk lost what's that

00:21:47.960 song by the uh the kinks killer of cereal donated 69 dollars panel what's up ladies and brian

00:21:57.500 question what is the most embarrassing thing you can remember doing or happening to you on any dates

00:22:03.520 what's the most embarrassing thing you can remember doing or happening to you on any dates most

00:22:07.680 embarrassing uh i'll save that after the introductions but i'm just going to write it

00:22:12.480 down okay uh kill of cereal gets to see you in the chat good to see you back thank you major scumbag

00:22:17.380 donated 69 dollars i'll be overhead isla vista in an f-18 within the hour if you need close air

00:22:24.960 support i got you no need for your coordinates the snail trail can be seen

00:22:32.060 oh fuck that was really loud my bad the snail true trail these strumpets leave by can be seen from

00:22:40.560 from space from space from liberty donated 69 dollars dang bro trans women are men and it would

00:22:46.360 be gay for a straight man to date one yes you can be racist towards white people fjb all right

00:22:53.860 free trump thank you 2024 okay sons of sons of liberty thank you thank you appreciate it we got

00:23:00.880 another one coming in i'll try to get through these intros it's just one after the other thank you

00:23:05.060 guys so much for your support appreciate daniel donated 69 dollars okay women lose their

00:23:10.300 innocence when they sell themselves my friend used to say that every time he banged a prostitute

00:23:16.320 he took a bit of their soul what do only van's girls lose part of themselves too it's just you

00:23:23.240 two who have of right w do you guys just i guess simple question do you guys feel you've lost

00:23:28.640 part of your soul i didn't have a soul before i started that checks out okay what about you nicolette

00:23:34.340 uh no i think i still have a soul still have a soul i've lost you're preserving your value as a

00:23:39.600 woman when you sell yourself online yeah it doesn't matter to me you think you're you're worth five

00:23:45.480 dollars a month well mine's 17 20 bucks get it right madly it's 17 not even in the triple digits still

00:23:53.440 in the double well it caps out at 50 a month i wouldn't know i've never been on only fans so i

00:23:57.820 guess you got me there yeah i feel like this this conversation can continue keep going guys

00:24:04.260 fine yeah keep going go ahead madly no i'm just curious do you think it's cool to consider yourself

00:24:08.740 an e-whore are you proud of that no i think it's a joke it's just funny wait it's just stupid

00:24:12.860 you think it's funny to demean yourself as a hundred percent yeah yes i do it's funny

00:24:19.620 i'm just curious i maybe don't get the joke what's so funny about you know some jokes aren't for

00:24:25.880 everyone so could you explain it uh yeah whores it's funny it's it's fun to be a whore no no it's

00:24:35.800 funny funny to be a whore yes okay um do you ever plan on like having a family having kids do you

00:24:42.820 want to get married i'll see when i get there i don't know what whatever happens happens living

00:24:48.020 in the moment sure why not okay wow that's pretty depressing that's fine yeah i'm chilling i'll go with

00:24:56.820 that so i've never seen someone so flippantly be okay with selling their body and soul online i'm

00:25:04.940 chilling sorry i'm chilling dollars a month but um so how many dollars a month it's 20

00:25:11.060 brian underscore drinking underscore game donated 69 dollars taking shots whenever brian says it

00:25:18.700 occurs to me good times answer the question can you move your mic that way i have a neck injury

00:25:25.020 uh blacked out i need to do like a whatever bingo thing that it's like there's going to be a one for

00:25:30.940 grid one motorsports there's going to be a one for uh move the mic or the broad essence donated 69

00:25:38.700 dollars jojo and brian i need a yes or no to the race request question for the panel israel or

00:25:45.920 palestine no who are you rooting for bro i hope both sides have a great time bro come on bro

00:25:52.420 naissance almost adam bro how are you gonna how are you gonna like i'm talking just answer the

00:25:57.100 running question i'm talking you up dude i'm trying to say you you hooked you fought off uh

00:26:01.480 burgess donated 69 dollars coyotes woman to the right is extremely based give her all the time wait

00:26:08.620 who's i think it's her no it's right it's probably dude i think it's jojo thank you burgess appreciate

00:26:17.140 it uh do you guys want to continue on with your little back and forth there go ahead we didn't answer

00:26:21.100 your pronouns hers is 20 yeah not 70 20 dollars sal brian sarva donated 69 dollars merci beaucoup

00:26:30.340 maddie will be on twitch maddie is starting twitch maddie on twitch maddie's twitch when bro maddie is a

00:26:38.640 10 you need to instead of is a 10 you should have just said in french actually i shouldn't even say

00:26:45.280 it because it's kind of like you know okay anyways whatever uh go ahead guys if you want to continue

00:26:49.800 with your little back and forth there for a second what else there is to continue with

00:26:52.600 uh i mean she she's gonna call me home and be like yeah

00:26:57.440 well so then what's so for someone who doesn't think that being a whore is great what is so

00:27:03.600 empowering about being a whore i didn't say it was empowering okay so if it's not empowering what

00:27:08.000 about it makes it great i'm just getting my bills paid and finishing school so it's just for money

00:27:13.840 yes so would you be okay with i don't know being a hit man just because of the money you don't look

00:27:18.560 at them i got bills to pay i need food to eat i feel like you'd be okay killing people mike davis

00:27:25.360 donated 69 dollars everybody pull up to the trump rally at north carolina if you want to meet the

00:27:31.920 legend mike davis i'm a trump mega donor and i might even give out some bread to some of you brokies

00:27:38.340 dude mike davis good to see you in the chat man it's been a while i haven't seen you in a while you

00:27:42.020 know you're always welcome here at whatever uh you know and by the way you know if the whole burger

00:27:48.160 burger king thing never works out you're welcome to come and uh you know be a you know my personal

00:27:53.840 assistant here in the podcast studio just saying okay anyways um so i think you guys were talking

00:28:02.000 about murder a murder for hire which would be a assassin and i think you said you need your bills paid so

00:28:08.080 you would do that yeah you might not want to admit to that on a live show but i digress what's up i

00:28:15.500 might do murder

00:28:16.220 in game in game i would not murder for hire thank you for clarifying thank you for clarifying

00:28:27.220 nicolette appreciate it uh i don't really know how to engage with that apparently i'm gonna get

00:28:32.700 burgess donated 69 dollars

00:28:35.060 if someone paid me i'd say no not for you looking forward to her input

00:28:39.860 okay cool thank you man thank you burgess good to see you oh the the the kinks song living on the

00:28:46.040 thin thin line this is for burgess right you said something about let me see coming from england

00:28:52.420 uh things are hard over here things are hard in england so you should listen to the song on the

00:28:59.300 thin line by the kinks the braunson's donated 69 dollars answer the first one ignore the second

00:29:05.580 24 israel or palestine this is for you no no it's for you as he said brian and jojo oh are you just us

00:29:12.300 two yes no no are we running the south bay 24 oh answer that yeah i keep saying ignore the second

00:29:19.440 part answer the first part no i'm not i'm i'm it's kind of far kirby's been training she

00:29:25.340 needs to do it i i need well i need a few more months you know he said it treadmill at hers

00:29:30.120 i can't i can't train for a marathon that soon he said it's a mega marathon mega marathon he said

00:29:35.840 something like that so to burgess the uh the lyrics for this from the kinks song living on the thin line

00:29:42.660 uh it's a british band by the way all the lives of the people running around their castles have burned

00:29:48.080 i see change oh wait hold on hold on wait fuck i fucked it up where is it uh wait now another

00:29:55.600 centrally now another century nearly gone what are we gonna leave for the young uh wait god damn

00:30:02.120 that's not even it come on i don't know something about all the castles burned all these wars uh

00:30:08.100 wait oh oh oh no okay i'll start it illinois boy donated 69 dollars answer the question

00:30:17.700 israel or palestine in call of duty 1v1 on rust i'll destroy him on rust i will destroy him on rust

00:30:25.880 whoa what a way to get around it yeah i was like what a way to get around it i'm destroying anyone

00:30:29.820 oh my god we're up till three in the morning thank you illinois boy yeah i'm the only one playing the

00:30:34.880 recent versions yeah not really interested in discussing the conflicts anonymous donated 69

00:30:40.260 dollars natalie you call out of girl but you are not modest at all see for example do you want to

00:30:47.860 address sure and i want to finish sure sure um i don't sell myself on online so there's a complete

00:30:54.780 difference the job that i have i know we haven't gotten to it yet but it's for my brain and my

00:30:58.960 investigative reporting um so i'm i'm content with how i present myself online and i don't think

00:31:05.420 there's anything super wrong with living your life in a way not necessarily just to attract male

00:31:10.220 attention i'm not gay so i like guys like i don't think there's anything really wrong with

00:31:16.040 like looking nice and presenting yourself in a feminine way um so yeah i'm really fine with how i

00:31:22.780 present myself we should pull up her instagram no they subscribed to her of for her brain

00:31:28.400 i gotta use my brain to take these angles i gotta get the right the right angles for the photos

00:31:34.080 that's a lot of brain work yeah i was just curious what do you think of your subscribers do you respect

00:31:38.660 them or do you just look at them as a vessel for cash basically uh i don't like i i mean i don't

00:31:43.820 really message i don't really go on i'm like i just post photos so the i know the people who pay for

00:31:48.540 your pictures like do you you don't really care you you you're just using photos and if they want

00:31:53.580 to subscribe they can they don't have to but what's your opinion on them come on yeah like i'm saying

00:31:59.240 what do you what do you think of them they're chilling like me would you date any of them

00:32:02.840 if they're the right man is if it's the right man i've dated a a chatter before that might have

00:32:10.460 been a mistake but can i ask a quick question a chatter like a twitch

00:32:15.000 sorry twitch lingo twitch lingo can i ask a quick question um did you say that you like in your

00:32:22.900 future you see like you want a husband and kids no i said i'll see when i get there do you think

00:32:27.320 you're maybe the precluding yourself from ever being able to have that by no i don't think so

00:32:31.020 so does every hobby ever people settle i don't care certain people don't want to date people

00:32:36.100 on podcasts it's there's people that she's gonna include herself but there's plenty of people she

00:32:40.820 won't they don't want to date me because i have only fans i don't i don't give a shit i agree i think

00:32:44.760 it's a sad state of the world that probably 10 years from now having an only fans will not be

00:32:48.280 like a cardinal sin it'll probably be more normalized um but nonetheless do you think the

00:32:52.740 quality of man that you're going to attract by doing only fans do you think there's going to be

00:32:55.740 any effect on that given that you have quality she don't care i mean not as much as like you're

00:33:03.040 cutting down the type of guys you attract by wearing that top so i feel like what's wrong with

00:33:08.520 what the hell i think we're wearing is it purple is it colored yeah but i'm not talking down i'm not

00:33:14.040 talking down on women i don't sell my body for money you just do it for free yeah i don't sell my

00:33:21.100 body right it's better to do it for free understood i don't sell my body and by the way if you want to

00:33:26.540 go down the financial route the average only fans creator makes about 150 a month so that's not

00:33:30.620 really worth i'm not the average creator they make more well so congrats you're part of the

00:33:35.360 people who are perpetuating the like pyramid scheme that is only fans so you're at the top

00:33:39.260 earning money while the rest of the girls who are buying into it are selling you know what a pyramid

00:33:44.220 scheme is she's just buying into it me personally i tell people i've had people from my hometown be

00:33:50.660 like how do i set this up i'm like don't do it don't get an only fans don't if you don't want

00:33:54.780 okay but i think you sitting here laughing about it acting like your life as an only fans creator is so

00:33:58.960 awesome and you just make money from it and effect is normalizing i didn't say it was awesome but i

00:34:02.900 think it's it's funny and by the way i do know what a pyramid scheme is when you give people your

00:34:06.520 referral codes you do get a percent off of the first year i don't advertise my referral okay well

00:34:11.380 you might not but other people do that's fine if they want to i mean i just don't personally do it

00:34:15.540 and my critique of only fans as a pyramid scheme is a bit more niche it's not in its typical sense i

00:34:20.700 think what it is having women buy into it's not that you're having them you know buy a bunch of

00:34:24.980 products and start selling it to people you're having them basically demean themselves and give

00:34:28.500 up their value and have a such low self-worth and saying it's empowering and think that it's

00:34:33.180 i personally don't think most women should not join most women shouldn't have an only fans and i

00:34:37.700 advertise towards men not other women to make only fans hey whoever wants to subscribe we want

00:34:42.560 ladies to make only fans no to like subscribe i'm saying the pyramid scheme is on the creator side i

00:34:48.320 think i understand but you're having the conversation with the wrong only fans creator because i

00:34:51.920 neither of us do that neither of us do referrals okay well that doesn't negate the fact that there are

00:34:56.380 people who do i'm not necessarily attacking yeah yeah no no okay and your point is understood but

00:35:00.680 we can't continue further if we don't do that well i mean we could try to argue but yeah i can't

00:35:05.900 really argue because i don't understand it because i don't do referrals so i can't give you like a

00:35:09.240 why was just maybe then to bring it to something that you guys can't talk about why do you guys think

00:35:12.820 that you are uniquely cut out to do only fans like why are you like why some it's i mean it's pretty

00:35:19.120 damaging to your mental health and shit to be honest so why why do you i'm already cooked i said i was

00:35:24.140 cooked already before i started do your parents know you do it yeah what do they think uh they're

00:35:30.380 like super old and christian so they don't like it but they don't say anything about it i mean i went

00:35:34.980 into foster care like i went into foster care so whatever my parents have to say about it it doesn't

00:35:39.160 matter i'll just walk away like interesting yeah different different different lives for different

00:35:44.480 people abigail do you have any thoughts on the of stuff oh voice crack nice um i do i of course

00:35:50.700 don't think um selling your body online is something to be proud of but i will say i don't

00:35:57.560 think they make a bad point when they mention the top that you're wearing being selling i thought it

00:36:03.320 was fine i have nothing wrong with purple it looks fine let me say is it especially if you're going

00:36:11.040 to talk down on somebody not being modest first of all this is it's a regular tank top which is like

00:36:16.480 the world's most popular workout brand like ever it's not like it's some niche when i wear a workout

00:36:21.880 clothes i put a big t-shirt over oh yeah workout clothes aren't modest they're not very modest like

00:36:28.440 sports bras and things i don't really think it's a problem honestly i have a high enough self-worth

00:36:33.180 in my intelligence that i am okay wearing a like marginally low-cut shirt yeah i honestly as the

00:36:38.740 only fans who are here i really don't think it's a problem that i don't also honestly like you guys

00:36:43.300 like i'm on here with some like it's just a shirt offensive provocative shirt i feel like

00:36:49.320 no you're just wearing a shirt like if we switch tops it's gonna look a lot different on me that's

00:36:53.920 all i'm saying okay we get it i don't even what does that even mean she's busty i'm saying you

00:37:00.160 heard leche bags in the first comment we put it are you guys competing over yo who's got the

00:37:06.740 we got the biggest also like it's it's it's like what i do is different from what you guys do

00:37:16.260 wearing even if say say i was wearing a shirt that was down to here that doesn't negate the

00:37:20.640 fact that i'm not selling myself online for 20 a month are you online right now have i ever been

00:37:26.940 online yes no you may not be selling yourself but are you online i co-host one of the largest

00:37:31.160 political podcasts in the country it's on tv it's so i guess i guess online gotcha bitch

00:37:35.820 what podcast is it it's called oh no we're ahead of it wait abigail you object to what natalie's

00:37:43.680 wearing i do i think if you're going to talk about um modesty and selling yourself online i which i

00:37:51.040 agree with everything you said but i would say i mean your cleavage is out on the internet and so

00:37:57.840 it doesn't put you in a position you want her in a burka what do you want you want you want natalie

00:38:02.100 in a burka i will say the last time i was on here and brian pulled on my instagram i live i'm from

00:38:07.720 the beach people like how dare she wear a bikini and called me a whore so you know it's wait i did

00:38:13.280 not call you no you didn't some people in the chat did okay and i'm like i'm from the beach like what

00:38:19.180 is that i feel like your tank top is fine also like i i think i'm a little different in the sense i

00:38:24.160 know a lot of girls come on here and probably sit in this chair like hardcore like trad wife

00:38:28.060 trad life trad life and i'm not saying that i'm not i am definitely more traditional but like

00:38:33.360 i come at it from a space more of thinking that the push to have women subscribe to only fans and be

00:38:41.040 feminists and take that whole approach to life is sort of a kind of top-down propaganda campaign

00:38:46.860 coming from like globalist corporations that want to suppress the birth rate and all that i won't

00:38:51.240 get you demonetized but it comes more from that as opposed to from a religious point of view

00:38:55.720 so i'm not i know this might be a lot but i'm not saying that like i'm some hardcore like oh i just

00:39:00.400 want to be in the kitchen baking cookies i just don't like what you guys are doing because i think

00:39:04.440 it is destroying society and making gender norms very skewed to the point where it's not productive

00:39:11.020 for a stable society in terms of monogamous relationships again i'm not saying that i am not

00:39:16.780 religious i'm not christian or anything like that but i don't come at it maybe from the same angle

00:39:20.620 that you guys do again i'm really you stand by what i'm wearing i don't really think it's anything

00:39:24.540 that bad but i i think maybe a little different from like your typical trad person and that i just

00:39:31.120 approach it from a different angle yeah okay it's also you know summertime southern california

00:39:35.840 it's hot here i've been traveling for a week and i have like no cool time it's hot it's been hot

00:39:39.200 how does only fans the hell okay oh no abigail abigail's coming from natalie natalie's coming

00:39:47.880 for you guys everybody's fine okay no one's coming for anyone it's a conversation i should just leave

00:39:51.840 right so how does only fans wait let's do this let's get everybody's intro yeah we'll come back

00:39:56.440 to the of topic uh so you introduced yourself certified e what e whore okay that was a wild

00:40:04.900 ride there are only five people in go ahead uh hi my name is nikki i'm 28 years old i'm from los

00:40:11.720 angeles and i was a project manager for a space and defense company all right welcome hello my name

00:40:17.920 is malia i'm 27 i'm from los angeles i work in only fans management and i also sometimes twitch

00:40:23.880 stream if i get really bored but i'm from the 805 originally san luis obispo carpinteria oh carp okay

00:40:31.800 oh you're from santa barbara okay county anyways yeah um my name is alissa i'm 24 i'm a student and

00:40:38.920 a stay-at-home wife all right welcome what are you studying uh political science i'm finishing in

00:40:44.260 december okay i'm abigail i'm 20 and i am a leasing agent and occasionally i coach boys gymnastics i'm

00:40:53.460 also from washington state did you do gymnastics growing up i did yes okay all right i just have to

00:40:59.640 add our necklines are like the same length yeah debatable that's exactly why it's different

00:41:08.120 but okay i digress i mean you look beautiful

00:41:12.600 you have cleavage and it's skin tight that's the two that's that what people would call it

00:41:18.440 i look conservative as hell right now anyways i am uh natalie winters i don't know why i said her

00:41:26.640 last name um i co-host steve bannon's war room i'm from santa monica i live in palm beach florida now

00:41:32.240 and i'm 23 all right welcome welcome everybody uh i paused the tts there temporarily just so they

00:41:38.400 could have the back and forth there's like 10 that are just in the queue so it's just gonna be rapid

00:41:44.600 fire you oh man this is crazy bro you're crazy bro sure who manger the plot to madison sure

00:41:53.160 will try to settle our crew and the frankie's just poor gutte the plot to madison oh hashtag

00:41:58.680 partahomo can you translate for us uh merci beaucoup okay what does this mean good stuff to what else

00:42:06.440 salope jamapel baguette

00:42:09.000 loose pussy energy donated 69 dollars thank you brian these simps don't know how to read the room or

00:42:18.040 take a hint holy shit that pigtail chick not interested move the fuck on braunasian simp

00:42:24.680 fucking weirdos hashtag cringing hashtag free neck number eight at 18 hashtag free neck hey i'm very

00:42:32.200 interested in running half a marathon it's just mike davis donated 69 dollars who cares about israel

00:42:40.840 or palestine you goofy it's america first all day everyday land of the free home of the brave

00:42:46.760 all right thank you mike davis america you got it easy

00:43:01.480 bird donated 69 dollars acquiring money always comes at a cost often when money seems to come in

00:43:09.080 easy there are costs that you are or will have to pay in one way or another easy now hard later

00:43:15.480 hard now easy later hmm yes well put seaberg well put what is what they say fast money comes with

00:43:25.080 fast problems kill of cereal i'm request oh wait this is below the throne okay that's just one of the tens

00:43:31.400 kittles donated 69 dollars maddie is a 1000 okay it's over 9 000 all right thank you appreciate it

00:43:48.680 kittles good to see you in the chat man i recognize the name uh i think it's been a while thank you

00:43:54.280 appreciate it we have another one coming in here in just a moment nick did we hide the uh that

00:43:59.640 suit check that came in i should have probably sal brian sarva donated 69 dollars madison est parfait

00:44:07.480 chevou manger the plot de madison chevou trisousa de coon de frankie de la plot de madison just

00:44:13.960 poor couté madison hashtag par de hobo that's ridiculous

00:44:18.760 that's ridiculous bro that's rough buddy oh boy i'm gonna change it after it's wild boy

00:44:27.480 he donated 69 dollars brian where's the cat fight sound i don't i need one i need a like

00:44:33.960 i thought you had one before no we have uh just do it ourselves yeah that's terrible that's pretty

00:44:43.240 good i don't know we need something like that yeah unfortunately we don't but uh i'm gonna get

00:44:49.960 that i'm gonna get that in for sure illinois boy donated 69 dollars no offense but can we put a cap

00:44:56.600 on the af conversation and be courteous and let the other guests introduce themselves this came in

00:45:02.680 before it's funny that you have that pic of mike davis on standby for the show uh yeah yeah look he's

00:45:11.560 he's mike davis is an og i most of you guys don't know he's been around since like an anonymous donated

00:45:17.640 69 dollars would it be too early to pop a bottle never too early never we need that if you want

00:45:23.560 it's her graduation we got a champagne pop it's um it's her graduation her birthday and it's tuesday

00:45:31.800 and it's tuesday yeah it's a tuesday and we're on vacation because that's relevant yeah we're on

00:45:36.520 vacation uh so ananda ananda moose yeah man uh it's only right that i share this one time a girl's

00:45:45.320 cat licked my brow don't read that that's crazy ironic that's crazy man so brian savard donated 69

00:45:55.320 brian does tts not allow french actually bro w tf here salute if you send one in

00:46:03.480 if you send one in i'll switch it to a french tts thing temporarily you got to make sure though

00:46:09.400 whatever you send i'm not gonna the fucking vile vulgar shit you've been sending send in something

00:46:16.360 like evil underscore donated 69 dollars i thought only fans was for hot chicks to make money all the

00:46:24.840 hottest girls starting with maddie do not have enough but the female shrek and the skeleton do

00:46:30.600 which one's shrek

00:46:37.640 first off you misspelled shrek bro don't don't put some respect on shrek's donated 69

00:46:44.600 purple shirt degenerate black hair reveling in sin giddy it seems at the thought of morals they sell

00:46:51.720 themselves sad i wonder what if any morals does she have left wait to i think to me i think to me there

00:46:59.400 there was no in there this purple shirt yeah it's a dress and that my hair is brown but you're

00:47:03.960 also a dipstick so make it work okay anony moose donated 69 thank you has a girl ever touched your

00:47:12.040 star hole and did you like it early answer up we're starting early what's going on this chat time to up

00:47:21.080 that tts he's turning red right guys yeah he's turning kind of red no it's that's not my thing

00:47:27.640 man sorry anonymous not my thing but hey if you like it if you like it evil underscore is underscorial

00:47:33.720 donated 69 dollars i thought only we're gonna bump it up the hottest girls here starting with maddie

00:47:41.800 the tenth have no one but female shrek and skeletor have won skeletor i'll take skeletor google a photo

00:47:48.680 of skeletor please no no i you know that might actually be me that might actually be me they

00:47:52.680 might be right uh-oh all right guys i've i've bumped it up uh 16 it's now 200 tts whoa and then 100

00:48:02.280 others to read uh i'll still do the french one if you want to get one in uh what's it called i'll do

00:48:07.880 the french one if you want to get one in but you have to do it at the uh threshold or whatever let

00:48:12.920 me just make sure everything has been changed up uh so going around the table once more what's

00:48:17.960 everybody's current relationship status they didn't finish introductions yeah we did we did oh

00:48:23.800 you're crazy you gotta lay off the yep you gotta lay off the you know whatever you're smoking okay

00:48:30.360 so current relationship status are you single talking state situationship friends with benefits

00:48:34.840 whatever if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've

00:48:38.920 ever been in starting with you uh single for two years i had a four-year relationship and

00:48:46.040 you've been single for two years yeah have you have you in the two-year period have you

00:48:50.600 had anything i i don't date i i said this last time i was on i don't date i wanted to finish

00:48:55.480 school before because i i don't know where i'm going to end up with my job and are you going to

00:48:58.680 get your phd um your master's right well i just got it last friday yeah so so i'm open to dating

00:49:04.840 now no i'm okay so you got your master's though correct are you going to go get your phd or you're

00:49:10.520 happy with your master's um i might in like after i work for a while i i want to go into the work

00:49:16.120 field now okay so no dating in two years no you haven't even been on a date no i went on one date

00:49:23.800 what about a like because some people wouldn't consider a date if you just went over to a guy's

00:49:28.120 house had sex with them and never talked to him again so have you had that that's crazy i don't

00:49:33.960 consider that a date do you consider that a day depends on definitions but did you have that

00:49:40.840 maybe that sounds like a yes okay so how many uh

00:49:48.600 when's the last is that was that your mo so you wouldn't be in a relationship but you just like

00:49:53.240 have casual sex then yeah okay all right so you have not been celibate for two years no i haven't

00:50:01.720 you've been single for two years but you haven't been celibate for two years yes so what's the

00:50:05.240 longest period of time that you uh or would be seeing a guy for that two-year period wait the

00:50:09.800 longest like maybe you saw a guy for a month yeah um or was it all one night stands no i i usually it

00:50:17.800 was like i saw them a few times but and then never again yeah usually like two or three times yeah

00:50:25.000 and then you'd get bored or they get bored yeah mostly them no i usually ghost people it's like i

00:50:32.040 freak out a little bit why do you freak out because it's like it's like i don't want to continually talk

00:50:38.200 to them because i i know it's it's first of all i don't want to date them second of all it's like

00:50:43.960 like it's safe it feels safer in the moment that you continually talk to them but they're

00:50:48.600 probably talking to like i don't like sleeping around with multiple people at once because i i

00:50:53.240 feel gross doing that so i will talk to them continually but i i have the realization they're

00:50:58.280 doing it too so i'm like i don't want to continue this okay cool good times uh so when's the last time

00:51:07.720 you had one of these rendezvous uh like a month ago okay

00:51:16.280 do you have a did you have a roster it was a roster like you'd be seeing multiple people

00:51:21.240 i just said i don't do that okay but you would just have like one after the other

00:51:26.520 casual sex no like i i took a like a lot of months off like off of sex

00:51:32.520 a hiatus a sabbatical you took it yeah a few months of a sabbatical you know how it is okay

00:51:38.680 all right uh okay i could say my body count real quick yeah sure eight it's not like crazy or anything

00:51:45.240 like that if you don't press the times three button don't do this multiply it by three and that's

00:51:51.000 i swear thank you for reminding me actually i wasn't even gonna press it i wasn't gonna press it but

00:51:55.480 then you're like oh give me the like i said don't do that okay so all right and uh well now that you're

00:52:02.520 graduated are you ready to step away from your strumpet life and get serious don't do it i'm like

00:52:10.360 terrified to go on dates because like even with like uh you're terrified to go on dates yes but you're

00:52:15.880 not terrified to just go over to a dude's house and have sexual intercourse with him well it's to me

00:52:22.200 very different because it's like um it is very different with dates you're like more an emotional

00:52:27.160 attachment i don't get emotionally attached to people like that to be clear if you sit across

00:52:30.600 from somebody at the table and you have a conversation yeah you learn more about their

00:52:33.880 personality like a man can literally be inside you and you feel nothing

00:52:38.360 whoa that's a crazy phrasing not physically i mean emotionally emotionally yeah you so so man

00:52:43.640 you could be like kissing a man looking him in the eyes he's he's literally inside you

00:52:47.240 you don't know anything about the personality he's literally inside you with a woman you feel

00:52:50.360 nothing yeah emotionally like yeah emotional attachment damn bro you're what was the term

00:52:56.600 you used cooked yeah yeah she's good you're good i just it's done it's over how is it over okay it's

00:53:05.320 like you actually learn about personality yeah get the rock get the rocks sorry go ahead you learn

00:53:11.240 about the personality right and you get more attached yes or are you only about looks kind

00:53:18.040 of person i'm not sure what you're asking i'm saying okay looks wise sure you can like go hook

00:53:23.640 up with a chick but you're you're there long term for like personality usually right because you guys

00:53:28.440 get along and like yes or no what's your question my question is are you there for a girl's looks

00:53:35.880 only yes hold on sal brian sarva donated 200 hold on i'll switch it to french hold on go so continue

00:53:43.240 on with your uh your thing i'll pull it back up go ahead well it was a question on you if you're

00:53:48.600 talking to a girl and you let's say sleeping with someone just for the looks versus the actual

00:53:53.640 longevity of like personality right you rather you get along with them personality wise and that's why

00:53:58.680 you get attached is because because what what was their personality you're attached to their

00:54:06.120 actual being with them rather than just their physical appeal wait i don't really understand

00:54:11.800 your point i'm asking you a question i only sleep with girls who i have an interest in dating long

00:54:18.040 term okay well yeah so she didn't go okay let's calm down uh but so what can't i have my college face

00:54:28.040 please also i mean also there's a differential did you have a college face there's a differential

00:54:32.360 here hold on let me answer this question i mean there's a differential here between men and women

00:54:37.000 i think what is it uh isn't it the case that women release oxytocin is it when they have sex at

00:54:44.680 least at higher rates than men will release it i don't think she does it's a bonding it's a bonding

00:54:50.840 chemical i don't think she does yeah so for for you to have like been able to inhibit that

00:54:57.560 like typically you'll hear like men can typically have a bit more meaningless sex than not to say

00:55:03.880 that women can't have meaningless sex meaningless sex but men are i think i think are more capable of

00:55:09.000 it compartmentalize a little more mm-hmm but but even for me i mean i don't i don't have interest in just

00:55:15.960 sleeping with the girl once and never talking to her again so what's the point based hmm that's fine

00:55:22.760 but so you're telling us how you were cooked no no you said that about me but yeah oh am i wrong

00:55:30.200 cooked what do you mean in the future sure i feel like my body counts like not like crazy high or

00:55:36.600 anything like that yeah but you said you like have sex and feel nothing yeah because i don't learn

00:55:42.920 anything about them i'm a very uh personality heavy person yeah well this okay so this stemmed from you

00:55:48.600 saying like you feel first dates just like sitting across from buddy it's like across from somebody

00:55:53.960 truthfully i don't go on first date so it's too so but so you've never been on the first day i've been

00:56:00.280 on like one first date and that's too intimate for you is what you're saying yeah in a way okay

00:56:06.920 because you learn more about them and that's why i also when i do start dating i would not be like

00:56:11.640 sleeping with the people like i'm dating because i it feel like like you said it is a little bit more

00:56:16.600 personal in a sense nicolodeon donated 200 guaranteed this the me would pick bear over

00:56:24.040 man while sitting here admitting she'd wander into a random man so man open shop for him with

00:56:30.360 complete lack of concern for her well-being that actually came through pretty good but i was about

00:56:35.480 to hear i'll thank you nickelodeon uh i just i switched it to the french voice really quick so i'm

00:56:40.440 gonna trigger this one uh one sec guys nicolodeon thank you man and i hope you're fine that it came

00:56:47.000 through as a french frenchman

00:56:49.400 salut brillant ça va donate 200 dollars 200 j'ai dit ces choses just pour plaisanter hashtag pas

00:56:54.600 vraiment j'adore maddie et de la podcast de natalie et steve as-tu déjà pensé a changer le mardi

00:57:00.200 or mercredi oh he wants us to change the date from mardi or mercredi uh now we're going to

00:57:14.600 stick to sunday tuesday but maybe in the future we'll add a thursday we'll add a thursday so three

00:57:18.840 days uh three shows a week thank you man appreciate it eh bien s'il te plaît je veux un peu de

00:57:24.920 le champagne et bien donc tu dois tu dois c'est uh c'est un mille uh dollars bien mon france

00:57:33.320 n'est pas très bien mais uh les filles il a il est oh my god i'm so bad

00:57:41.400 il a besoin de bouvoir le champagne okay okay très bien merci beaucoup okay all right all right

00:57:49.400 anyways go ahead i don't remember what i was saying i think it means like separating sex and love for that

00:57:54.360 long probably isn't the best way to go about things no wait question i have a question for

00:57:59.640 you but so you you now that you've graduated you are going to start like dating seriously right yes

00:58:03.800 i hope so okay so are you gonna like make these dudes like wait for sex yikes that's it no good

00:58:13.000 for you good for you wait really yeah okay well we'll talk about that but

00:58:17.720 look it's okay look on one hand we've are natalie's been here when we've talked about

00:58:23.800 no okay i'm that's crazy let me explain it in one way let me explain in a way it's like

00:58:28.520 with the date and learning about each other's personalities plus like also sleeping with them

00:58:32.440 i feel like it's more of a chance of like leading them on more and more versus you both know at like

00:58:37.720 the initial like starting point if you just sleep with each other and that's it like you guys aren't

00:58:42.120 like gonna go and see each other after that that's i guess my point of view where it's like

00:58:46.520 how do you know that well if they ask me out sure but usually it's like hey they text me at 10 pm hey

00:58:51.800 what's up it's like okay you're gonna ask me on a day so you think a guy who would otherwise be

00:58:57.320 interested you in you in a long-term relationship if you have if you have sex with him that's going to

00:59:02.680 be the deal breaker no having sex with him like he otherwise would have uh you know if he's already made

00:59:09.320 the determination that he wants to be in a long-term relationship with you having sex with

00:59:13.480 him is going to be the deal breaker no but i think uh yeah i think you are able to deem whether they

00:59:20.200 want just sex or they want long-term sometimes from like a for after a first date you you're able to

00:59:25.160 tell oh if like let's say i'm like oh i don't want to sleep with you first date and then they never

00:59:29.560 text you again then you're like okay they're kind of weeding out people who are you're not they

00:59:33.160 weren't ever interested in and you also want to figure out like do i like you personality-wise when you

00:59:37.640 start sleeping with someone it's hard to separate that do i like you or do i just like yeah how

00:59:43.160 you are in other areas so there's a lot of like weird i mean i again i don't date so i don't know

00:59:47.480 a lot of like it's gonna i'm gonna feel it out when i get there i guess okay here i'll read this chat

00:59:52.440 really quick um thank you matt appreciate it uh john green sounds like she's afraid of getting

00:59:58.040 emotionally attached because she's worried they'll hurt her so she cuts it off before she can that

01:00:02.120 could be a possibility for sure okay i wouldn't doubt that all right we'll talk about the whole

01:00:09.000 like waiting thing in a little bit here but um your relationship status um i'm in a very loving

01:00:18.280 situationship at the moment with the guy from two nights ago no um wait what the white man two nights

01:00:26.520 two nights ago no yeah i think that's how i would put it very very loving but there was a guy two

01:00:34.200 nights ago yeah why isn't it a relationship wait okay so how long have you been in this situation

01:00:41.080 i don't know i like maybe a month oh it's not very loving then well maybe it is sorry what's your

01:00:50.520 longest relationship it's been like four years on again off again in high school okay yeah that was

01:00:59.800 back in vermont correct yes okay so you're in a loving situationship for sure split it um

01:01:11.080 are you sorry well i'm assuming you guys are not monogamous

01:01:13.400 um yes we are oh yeah um you are monogamous as of yes um hopefully not two days ago

01:01:28.920 no we we are not dating um but we are monogamous apparently what do you mean apparently

01:01:37.240 someone better at math has to explain this to me

01:01:39.320 yeah maybe in the early stages of dating maybe let's get your mic that way can i ask like what's

01:01:46.360 loving about it if you guys aren't making it official like not you oh you go ahead like like

01:01:54.120 what part of it makes it loving like the situationship if you guys can't even label

01:01:58.200 it like to be monogamous like what makes it like loving um it might have been a little bit sarcastic

01:02:05.240 uh no it's very complicated i'm not sure what's going on like i would probably like for it to be

01:02:11.000 a relationship and they are kind of like being a little hot and cold so they also live in arizona so

01:02:19.640 have you guys met in person yes uh how um he's from oxnard so he was like visiting around here and

01:02:28.520 yeah so we met like that way and we spent like a few days together after it was supposed to be

01:02:35.080 like a hookup situation um and then he went back home and we went on vacation together and here it is

01:02:42.360 you went on vacation together where joshua tree okay and you knew though going in that he was going

01:02:49.000 back to arizona correct mm-hmm i did yeah okay and so wait hold on mexican guy mm-hmm okay

01:03:03.000 but you said so wait were you being sarcastic about it being monogamous uh no it's it's definitely

01:03:11.880 monogamous i think you just went on a date two days ago with somebody else

01:03:16.520 and you're still on dating apps how could it possibly not be monogamous yeah no i'm not i'm

01:03:23.320 not sure i was told it was monogamous what do you mean you were told it was monogamous i was told it

01:03:28.520 was monogamous okay so by when you say you were told it was monogamous he said what he said we are not

01:03:38.680 in a relationship but um we're just seeing each other and i said oh okay red flag

01:03:45.880 yeah you deserve better honey it's okay wait hold on we he said we're just seeing each other

01:03:52.600 so he said i'm just seeing you and you said okay but you didn't you didn't make any representations

01:03:58.840 about you not stopping so he's monogamous you're not i i think it might be the other way around

01:04:05.960 sometimes i don't know what that means me neither you said you're monogamous he's not

01:04:14.200 i think i don't know what's going on i don't know but you went on a date yeah you're not monogamous

01:04:19.320 you just went on a date words have meaning um words have meaning so you said you guys were monogamous

01:04:25.000 yes that's what he says what do you say did you tell him you know lying did you tell him you

01:04:32.520 went on a date the other day um perhaps not okay so you should let him go she also said that she

01:04:39.880 just wanted a friend to hang out with and she didn't do anything with this guy she went on a date

01:04:44.600 with okay she said friend and then she said date what's going on here was it a hangout or a date

01:04:49.080 this is the guy two days ago guy we didn't like do anything like we just hung out so i would say

01:04:56.680 we just hung out lol paladins donated 200 be the guy that women will sleep with on the first date

01:05:03.560 if she makes you wait you're a chump if she's attracted to you she won't make you wait these

01:05:09.560 women at least have told you the truth yeah truth is good truth is always good thank you lol

01:05:14.280 paladins very good to see you in the chat man you're you're a legend thank you uh okay so you guys

01:05:18.680 are not monogamous then i don't know when you say you hung out with somebody two nights ago uh i

01:05:26.200 guess he wasn't your ended up not being your type i'm still confused by that because i mean i'm assuming

01:05:31.960 he has pictures on his hinge profile yeah no i definitely knew i didn't like him um oh you're

01:05:37.640 just like romantically he was just like around and he was willing to hang out with me and i said okay

01:05:43.320 oh what day was it what time what day was it i don't even know i have no idea

01:05:51.000 was the sun out or not i don't know well two days ago you can sunday okay uh did you guys hang out at

01:05:57.640 night time uh yeah around what time it was like seven okay seven p.m it sounds like a police report

01:06:07.960 yeah yeah yeah for sure he's taking notes too well it's a bit different if you meet a girl for brunch

01:06:13.240 versus it's 11 p.m on a friday and you're telling her to come over to your place little different

01:06:19.320 dynamic there so uh in any case okay did you sleep with him no absolutely not okay uh

01:06:28.680 uh so you've been in this situation ship for one month and you said you moved out here sorry uh

01:06:36.360 when like a year and a half ago a year and a half ago okay have you in terms of like dating history

01:06:42.680 and stuff uh have you had anything longer term in that period no not really um i would say like not

01:06:50.600 for lack of trying it just like hasn't worked out um i feel like a lot of men especially in this

01:06:57.240 area like around ucsb and isla vista they're just um not interested in that at all and sometimes

01:07:04.120 there's some dishonesty but yeah it's a lot of like late night booty calls and you just figure it

01:07:10.280 out it's like take it or leave it that's what's available so obviously there are outliers but like

01:07:15.160 i would be dating men like 10 years older than me if i were to expect like an actual date in a courtship

01:07:21.880 okay all right good to know um we'll come back to some of that later what about you

01:07:28.200 um i'm single all right what were the other questions longest relationship how long have

01:07:34.040 you been single uh longest relationship seven years and i kind of had a relationship

01:07:43.640 recently it was only a month so okay i don't know if i count that all right uh sure what about you

01:07:52.360 um i'm single my longest relationship was five and a half years i've been single for like three

01:07:57.160 months now yeah last time you were on the show you were in a relationship right yeah as soon as i got

01:08:01.320 home he dumped me wait he didn't like the pod didn't like the pod at all yeah as soon as i got home he

01:08:07.160 dumped me he dumped you because of the shit you said not not because of the podcast as soon as we

01:08:12.920 got home though but it was a show the entire weekend i was in la it was a whole show what do

01:08:17.640 you mean wait it was a show with him or yeah with him wait so you've been single for three months yeah

01:08:22.520 wait the was it the five-year relationship no no no no how long were you dating the guy that

01:08:26.600 like seven months it was online like i only seen him a couple times have you had a rebound

01:08:32.120 no have you dated anybody since no have you been on a date since no have you hooked up with anybody

01:08:38.440 since no so you've been selling it for three months three months baby okay so why did he dump you he

01:08:43.800 found a new only fans chick she had bigger tits i couldn't compete watch okay what was i supposed to

01:08:52.360 do what was i supposed to do she was right there i'm all the way in canada couldn't compete where did

01:08:57.160 he live texas we went to texas it was awful you were in a long distance uh yeah a different country

01:09:07.400 relationship that's what i said last time i was here yeah i just i know it's crazy i'll never do

01:09:12.840 that again oops learn my lesson okay you might for green card you know for a green card hey hit her up

01:09:19.240 all right so how often would you see him um i saw him we started dating in august i saw him

01:09:27.720 in october i saw him in december and i saw him in february so you guys only saw each other three times

01:09:34.120 yeah and i flew to him every time you flew to him but what did he pay no he paid he paid the first time

01:09:40.200 but so i know so i came to vegas and i paid my own ticket and then when i saw him the first time he

01:09:45.000 paid and then the second time i saw him i paid and then wait for uh did you do content with him

01:09:50.200 no like your of content i i don't do i don't do like you don't do bg no i don't do nudes you don't

01:09:55.560 do nudes it's like lingerie yeah uh unless you subscribe and maybe you'll find out no parental

01:10:01.160 guidance sorry sorry that was a joke that was a joke all right okay so you've been single for three

01:10:07.320 months uh are you looking or what's no no i'm just uh what's your orientation um by

01:10:14.840 curious by curious have you ever dated a woman no i was in a relationship back this way orientation

01:10:21.480 gay for pay but straight but your face don't like but straight what is but but yeah that's

01:10:28.840 oh okay okay um because i i don't know i don't know no i don't like anal but oh i'm into men

01:10:35.560 but we'll for money for money i'll do like girl stuff have you done gay for pay yeah not recently

01:10:42.600 good shout out brian all right what about you orientation i'm straight straight all right moving

01:10:49.640 over to you your relationship status uh in a relationship in a relationship okay uh how long

01:10:55.160 have you guys been dating uh six months now six months and last time you were on the show you were

01:10:59.160 not in a relationship i was not um is it getting pretty serious you know this is the one you think

01:11:05.560 all right yeah he's the best guy i know longest relationship you've ever been in uh five years five

01:11:10.360 years okay and when were you on the show like nine months ago was it uh last summer i think

01:11:17.960 yeah yeah it's been nine almost a year i think maybe nine or ten months now you were on the show

01:11:22.680 almost a year ago uh we talked about this a little bit in the chat uh here we go and so you've been on

01:11:30.040 the show before and in your previous pre-show notes and i think you talked about it on the show you

01:11:34.200 mentioned uh you know not having sex until marriage um and i think you kind of were big upping her that

01:11:41.160 she should wait for no no she wasn't she was actually adding on to my point no no she said she's

01:11:47.960 like i want to get to know the person first before just jumping into a sexual relationship and i said yes

01:11:53.560 that's great yeah i know no one's gonna go as extreme as i am right now but and it's really hard but

01:11:59.960 it's worth it um but i feel like it kind of cheapens the connection when you're like oh okay

01:12:06.280 we're just sleeping together like yeah that's that's it it does in a way yeah does it no in my way

01:12:13.240 i don't think it cheapens i i'm just i again when i start dating maybe my opinion well we'll get into

01:12:18.920 that but so uh and you're christian right yes what denomination non-denominational okay you get into

01:12:25.320 all this and so but in the pre-show notes you said you you said don't have sex before marriage

01:12:30.920 uh and we i don't recall the details if we did we talk about that on the show we did when you were

01:12:36.600 on i don't remember the exact back and forth but you have been dating somebody for um six months and

01:12:42.280 so i guess the question to you is uh saved by the tts sky blue top your shirt has buttons every button

01:12:51.320 used equals less no you it's fine yeah button that it's fine you don't know button that up

01:12:57.720 safety first wait is he gonna read it uh to sacagawea next to her auburn dress with white flower

01:13:04.760 print and maddie men would kill for women like you so sacagawea oh i was like who's wearing a flower

01:13:14.040 okay evil is real thank you bro appreciate it okay anyways back to this so so you said don't

01:13:22.920 have sex before marriage you were previously single when you were last on the show you've

01:13:26.680 been dating somebody for six months so have you stuck to the i guess the not having sex before marriage

01:13:34.120 it is really hard it's super hard have not been perfect but we're both in agreement that this is

01:13:40.920 the right thing to do what do you mean yeah we're doing a little something but not all that yeah

01:13:47.320 it's not all the way super hard you know you're in love with someone and you're really compatible

01:13:53.240 like this is your best friend it's really hard not to want to share every single part of yourself

01:13:57.320 in that way but i believe that it should be reserved for a very strong commitment a covenant

01:14:03.480 that's what marriage is is he that way too yes so i mean it's but it's still hard i'm not saying

01:14:08.760 like oh yeah it's totally fine and anyone who doesn't do this is stupid not at all this is

01:14:12.360 really difficult and if i could find a way around this i would have you heard of the poll loophole

01:14:21.400 anyway well so in your notes you said we haven't been perfect but we both agree on abstaining is the

01:14:28.520 way to go i mean so a little clarification there you so you said it's been really hard yeah it's

01:14:34.680 difficult i really like him he's a good-looking guy he's he's the best guy i know but you know

01:14:40.760 it's not easy to be around him sometimes and so you so you guys have had carnal knowledge

01:14:49.720 like you know like what meets like carne asada like what are you can you expand on that or is

01:14:53.560 that tos carnal no it's just have you done he just likes that did you do it that's his favorite word

01:14:58.440 did you do it or no guys my parents are tuning into this yeah but we need answers because it's

01:15:04.680 going to get heated here and i need to know all i'm going to say is we have not been perfect not

01:15:10.760 perfect okay so we know the answer yeah but okay so you've been dating him for six months how soon

01:15:17.320 into the six months were you guys not being perfect

01:15:23.480 oh no dad i'm sorry uh probably

01:15:29.560 month three that's not bad that's not bad that's good yeah it's rough out here guys it is rough out

01:15:37.160 here it's rough out here but so you said you we haven't been perfect but we both agree

01:15:44.840 on abstaining is the way to go so is this are you guys continuing to not be perfect

01:15:53.160 no that's what we're agreeing upon so you're just because you mess up doesn't mean it all

01:15:57.080 goes out the window right but i'm saying like so you're you've already had the slip up correct

01:16:01.720 correct has there been more than one slip up

01:16:06.120 they're trying to be perfect just to say do you ever just slip up on purpose

01:16:09.400 yes so you mean on purpose just intentionally no no that's what the point of of trying very hard

01:16:18.680 not to means but have you slipped up multiple times you have not been perfect and that's what

01:16:26.200 i'm gonna leave it at just answer answer the question yes okay so i guess how recently has

01:16:33.480 the most recent slip up been it's like yesterday today

01:16:42.200 that is watching how recent about a week ago about a week ago don't call bobby smurda to me

01:16:52.280 now look my my understanding of you know of christianity is christianity is not about being

01:16:57.480 perfect it's not nope but but this is where this whole like i don't know i don't know how to explain

01:17:08.360 it we are we were gonna get into the whole like waiting for sex thing uh

01:17:16.200 isn't it kind of like practice what you preach a little bit because like

01:17:20.840 if you keep telling each other in your relationship well we because this is what

01:17:24.840 you wrote we both agree on up on abstaining is the way to go but you don't for example

01:17:31.080 if you both that's not the default state of being like oh no it's totally fine but like we

01:17:35.080 know that's the right thing like that's not the intention like you both have agency right

01:17:39.240 like do you guys are you guys both drinking no actually don't drink okay so that's even more

01:17:44.360 agency that you have you can't even blame it on liquor well i wouldn't blame it on liquor

01:17:47.880 anyway that's kind of a cop out okay fair enough but it's like at for example right so again christianity

01:17:57.000 is not about being perfect but for example if i were to encounter a muslim okay and this muslim was

01:18:03.480 constantly eating bacon all the time and they were not adhering to the to islamic doctrine and

01:18:12.840 worldview why and they but they considered themselves a muslim even though i'm not for

01:18:18.120 example i'm not muslim i would sort of as an outsider look at that and perhaps question well

01:18:23.800 are you genuinely a muslim yeah of course i can see that and that's why we and i mean all of us on

01:18:31.320 earth are not equipped to judge one another and i'm not saying like actually we are equipped to judge

01:18:35.720 each other you're you're allowed to discern but judge say oh look you're not a follower you're not this

01:18:40.600 you can make your own notion i think that's smart to do but to genuinely say oh you don't believe

01:18:46.920 this i feel like that's a little out of everyone else's wheelhouse well but okay but so i think one

01:18:53.400 of the criticisms at least when it comes to christianity is that so people view christianity

01:19:00.600 as this at least the main a lot of these mainstream churches as this weak religion that just sort of

01:19:06.760 allows anything disagree well do you think women can be clergy hmm no hold on hold on oh my god sorry

01:19:16.120 god damn okay please answer your question

01:19:23.480 i think uh i'm gonna go with no on that one

01:19:27.880 i don't think that was gonna be your answer but you didn't think it was gonna be my answer well if you

01:19:31.560 had to think about it so well i wanted to phrase it very carefully that's a very hot button issue

01:19:37.720 it doesn't mean is it hot hold on it's a hot button because some people in christianity because like

01:19:43.160 clergy like i don't really subscribe to it's literally that kind of thing i'm still talking

01:19:47.880 even in protestant even in pro even if you're a protestant it's a heresy

01:19:52.200 shouldn't it be an instant okay so anyway uh like we this poison okay sorry yeah there's no

01:20:01.960 condemnation that was in christ jesus but anyway uh for that part like i don't think when i think of

01:20:08.440 clergy i think of like priests i think of which i don't actually subscribe to that idea you don't need

01:20:12.280 a priest that's what jesus christ is for um but as far as like women being able to teach like of course

01:20:17.560 that's how you teach other women and disciple them but as far as like pastoral like no there's

01:20:25.400 this there's a leadership that kind of is bestowed upon men and they should kind of step into that

01:20:29.720 and it's not really our place to take that from them okay i just i don't know i want to what is this

01:20:36.120 poisoned well thing what did i poison no it wasn't used so she said no when the direction was

01:20:41.880 oh i see i see and then people are very easily influenced oh no so if if ever if i ask a question

01:20:50.840 and everybody else yeah i understand if you're inclined to say yes you'll probably just like

01:20:55.400 from the pressure i wanted to i wanted to distinguish like when you're in small i don't know if you guys

01:20:59.880 know too much about christianity but we have like discipleship groups it's like you have a more mature

01:21:04.520 christian mentoring the younger ones that happens male uh to male and then female to female so i have a

01:21:09.560 spiritual mom so to speak that's discipleship that's teaching that's being a leader but it's

01:21:14.760 not necessarily being a pastor there's a difference in that so my answer to like women being a pastor

01:21:19.600 and getting up on the pulpit i don't is clergy different than pastor i wouldn't know clergy sounds

01:21:23.560 very catholic to me i don't know about any of that it's a lot of extra rules and somehow you just say

01:21:28.600 one thing and everything is fine and that's not what the bible teaches so i'm going to stay away from that

01:21:33.320 um because i don't know what that entails fully can i also ask what exactly are they teaching you

01:21:39.440 like what's your like what do you do in discipleship in small groups yeah yeah like you said you have

01:21:44.900 someone above you like teaching you like it's like a very casual thing so she's telling me like here's

01:21:50.100 how i go through hard seasons here's how i resist temptation here's what i have done in my own life

01:21:55.480 and it's more relatable because she's an older woman so it's a little bit easier yeah she's more

01:22:00.360 experienced it's a little bit different than um like an older man talking to me about how he fights

01:22:04.520 temptation it's a different battle does he you know or does she tell you about like like things that

01:22:09.240 she messed up on earlier yes of course and that's the very real part of this is here's all of the

01:22:14.660 times where i've tried so hard to live this way to live the way jesus lived but i am not jesus i'm not

01:22:21.700 perfect i i fall i stumble but that doesn't mean you just give up and quit so that's kind of what

01:22:27.140 where everything she's been through does it always relate back to jesus for her getting through it

01:22:31.120 most of the time yeah so like i mean earlier seasons when she wasn't a christian she's like

01:22:36.300 i felt really lost i didn't know what to do i thought all these things were going to help me

01:22:39.960 and they didn't and she became a christian and she said okay well now i understand why this is how i

01:22:45.540 want to live my life so it's nice to see the before and after too that's my personal relationship

01:22:49.400 with my spiritual mentor um i'm sure everyone's is different but i guess this is why it's kind of

01:22:55.580 and what we'll get into the whole like waiting for sex thing in a bit this is why it's hard for

01:23:00.340 me to take even christian women i would like to see like if a man came on especially reformed on

01:23:07.040 this what do you mean like i want to see if like a christian guy came on the show and was like hey

01:23:10.980 i'm trying to do this like how would how would it be received would you get the same like would

01:23:15.760 you get the rapid fire like what did you do this when did you do this what was the last time you

01:23:18.780 slipped up i want to know like how would that be experienced would you ask him the same questions

01:23:23.040 i mean if he if he came on and was like preaching heavily that you ought to wait to have sex you

01:23:31.360 shouldn't have sex before marriage and then there's like videos of him like going out to the bar and

01:23:38.160 like fucking chicks yeah i would i would ask well yeah if he's like if he's gonna go and say that and

01:23:43.880 then do it that very night i feel like that's a problem but this is like i found this video of you

01:23:48.920 10 years ago it's like well now i know the truth are you am i supposed to just stay in that because

01:23:53.260 i messed up once and i didn't know any better do you just never go back to it wait i'm not sure

01:23:57.900 what you're are you a lot so someone who kind of found out this is the truth and now now i know

01:24:04.220 better did you just stop because oh well you knew better you knew okay you were talking one week ago

01:24:09.840 yeah hold on you were hold on six months guys you guys are the framing on this is totally not

01:24:16.360 you came on the show nine months ago you were single nine months ago your your uh worldview was

01:24:24.840 not to have sex before marriage so it's not this is like a i think it's called a post hoc

01:24:30.640 or wait post hoc justification your your worldview and value system was already don't have sex before

01:24:37.580 marriage you were single you then three months later met a guy and then shortly into your

01:24:43.020 relationship you guys had sex and you've had multiple slip-ups allegedly wait she and then

01:24:48.720 you had sex as recently as a week ago okay but the frequency of time versus like you're trying to turn

01:24:55.860 away every single day like it's a battle every single day but so are they and they're being on

01:25:00.020 coming on here honest and saying they've had sex so it's not fair to be like well i'm religious and

01:25:04.380 i'm reformed so i don't have to face the consequences and they're gonna get shit but

01:25:07.840 they're just being honest whoa i would like to say i'll totally i'll take all the consequences i'm

01:25:13.120 i'm telling you it's really hard and if i could find a way out of this i totally would hold on where's

01:25:18.480 the accountability i'm sorry where's the accountability find the way out of this i think

01:25:24.200 like if uh just don't have sex it's still really hard i think it looks a little worse when you're

01:25:33.320 preaching that people shouldn't do it and you're doing it yeah but do okay but hold on you've been

01:25:37.540 honest but doing but doing it every single day like it doesn't matter is very different than

01:25:41.720 i had to slip up here nobody hears that's where you lose me go ahead abigail go ahead it doesn't make

01:25:48.380 any sense i mean you can say like yeah it doesn't happen every day but still it happened and you're

01:25:54.460 out here preaching you know don't have sex before marriage he just makes a good point when he says

01:25:58.340 practice what you preach yeah i mean yes you made a mistake so don't preach on it oh well i'm still

01:26:04.440 obligated to tell people the truth like hey it's not a great thing to be doing and i have made mistakes

01:26:09.780 i think it's okay to to to you know make mistakes and be like don't do this because i did this and i

01:26:14.180 knew it wasn't right but then it's but then the problem comes in when you're saying well they're

01:26:18.640 fucking around so well i never hold on i never said that i supported jojo when she said i would

01:26:23.400 rather not have it was bright it was bright it wasn't me but hold on i supported i supported

01:26:28.920 everyone who said i think waiting is a good idea i think that's what i'm saying you were very bad

01:26:33.660 thank you sad please thank you i need you in my life but also like the the bigger thing brian what

01:26:40.000 you said of christianity is not about being perfect i think you at least i feel i have the

01:26:45.120 duty to be as honest and forthcoming as i possibly can be because i could have easily said nope never

01:26:50.800 did that yeah i could have lied i could have lied i could have done that and that's what no i appreciate

01:26:55.680 your honesty thank you and that's what to me that's what a hypocrite is and that's the only people that

01:27:00.180 jesus criticized it wasn't the woman at the well who had many husbands he said no i love you don't do

01:27:05.620 this anymore like it's a thing but it was the hypocrites who said we're just so perfect you

01:27:10.340 can't do any of this and lied about all the stuff when they were you know sinning so that's kind of

01:27:16.740 where i'm coming from i'm still a human being like i have needs like i you know your honesty is

01:27:22.640 remarkable thank you i appreciate that okay but it's okay but you you say you have needs you say it's

01:27:29.360 difficult but yeah i'm a human person right but if your world if your worldview is if your value

01:27:35.240 system is and you wrote this in all caps don't have sex before marriage yeah so that's where

01:27:43.400 that's that's my brand you know how you're on like a journey of losing weight and it's like you're

01:27:49.880 like it's really hard to stick to a diet right yeah sure and now what you should do is just not eat

01:27:56.000 any junk food cut out your carbs whatever you want you only eat healthy only whole foods sure but

01:28:00.900 there's gonna be that one oh it's suzy's birthday at the office gotta get her a cake oh i could just

01:28:06.100 have one slice you slip up but i mean okay like it seems really bad oh now you can throw away your

01:28:10.560 whole diet that there's a bit more gravity when it comes to christian faith of course i do like

01:28:15.960 there's i don't think there's any preclusion in the christian faith from eating a donut okay i think

01:28:21.060 you're missing the point of you're trying to stick to something so hardcore and it's a noble endeavor

01:28:27.000 but it's hard it's hard to be disciplined it's hard to be disciplined it's there we go why because

01:28:31.500 we're battling flesh every single day but it's it's like because you you said okay don't have sex

01:28:36.860 before marriage you both agree both you and your partner agree that abstaining is the way to go but

01:28:43.680 it's almost a mockery if you it's not a mockery but you can't okay yes i can yes i can so now you're

01:28:50.480 just justifying having no i'm not justifying i'm not justifying you literally just said yes i can have

01:28:55.740 sex i did not say that i think she's acknowledging that she made a mistake i'm saying i'm allowed to

01:29:00.560 make mistakes am i not allowed to make mistakes i didn't realize every single person on here was

01:29:05.640 perfect if you can how do i do that mistakenly and accidentally hold on but that sees that's where

01:29:10.540 if you if you can that's where things are different we fall on his dick every single week

01:29:16.200 oh and then you repent i don't know i'm sorry i don't know where he's getting that from but it's

01:29:21.140 like but you're saying but hold on you're making the assumption that it's a continuous thing

01:29:26.080 what you're making the assumption that this is happening every week and it's like oh fine well

01:29:30.040 it is what it is like it's really not that big of a deal so that's what you're implying you said

01:29:36.000 the word you're continuously doing this how long have you been together as recently as a month a week

01:29:41.500 so you started sleeping together three months in you know hold on we we messed up we you slipped

01:29:47.460 up there was a time and then and then you slipped up again and then so how often did it happen between

01:29:52.860 the three months that you were together in the week i know it does they're probably having sex

01:29:57.980 regularly i i don't i i find it hard i mean you're allowed to make your assumptions i think

01:30:02.320 why don't you just remove remove all doubt why don't you just tell us thanks jojo i don't need to

01:30:09.920 do that i said you don't know you don't need to i don't need to but you made your assumptions

01:30:14.020 anyway so okay then correct my assumptions okay i will correct that this is not a continuous thing

01:30:20.860 and this doesn't happen every single week i said what i said okay do you guys live together no no we

01:30:28.760 don't shouldn't do that either i'm just i don't know it's a mess it's a bit confusing uh i think

01:30:38.040 you're fine it's like expecting an addict to go cold turkey they're gonna relapse

01:30:41.960 oh that's a crazy i think but nicolette is touching on a really good point the point is

01:30:47.780 and we touched on this with the diet thing it's hard to be disciplined in any facet this is mine

01:30:53.120 that you're you're continuing to continuing to poke and prod at which is fine you can't i know i'm not

01:30:58.840 perfect i did not sit here and say i've never done this i'm admitting that i did like and i'm like

01:31:04.740 but i'm trying to be better you guys like this isn't what i want to do your honesty is commendable

01:31:08.900 your forthcomingness is commendable but if you're if you are essentially preaching or recommending

01:31:15.320 or your worldview is not having sex before marriage and you and your partner both agree

01:31:20.120 that you ought to be abstaining uh okay i'll let me give you this scenario okay uh let's say

01:31:27.020 i actually don't drink but i'll use this as a as a thing okay so let's say i have a drink

01:31:30.800 and then 45 minutes later i drive my car home okay now i know i did that once i'm still gonna

01:31:37.920 tell people hey don't drink and drive are you gonna say oh you can't say that because you did it

01:31:43.600 yeah it's really dangerous and i i don't want to do that again like let's just not do that

01:31:47.420 no but i'm not making the mistake doesn't negate your ability to say okay so my i'm not i'm not

01:31:54.000 criticizing your worldview that uh you're criticizing that i made a mistake hold on i have a different

01:32:00.500 worldview okay but i don't think it's it's a wrong statement to say i'm not arguing don't have sex

01:32:06.400 before marriage i have a different worldview but i don't think it's it's a wrong way to approach dating

01:32:11.840 relationships marriage i think if you can do it great not my own personal uh worldview but for

01:32:18.600 example i'm not a muslim but if i encounter a muslim who just totally disregards any of the but do i

01:32:25.680 totally disregard hold on am i totally disregarding hold on if i meet a muslim who totally disregards

01:32:31.660 the doctrines of the islamic faith eating bacon i'm not an expert in the without you know anything

01:32:38.780 anything else that's haram or they're just not uh meeting uh you know they're not they're sinning

01:32:45.620 i don't know it's haram sinning i don't know what it is haraming i don't know haraming there you go

01:32:49.420 um i'm gonna be like thinking in my head well even though i'm not muslim lol paladin's donated

01:32:56.800 two hundred dollars i like the drinking and driving analogy except brown shirt has drunkenly driven

01:33:03.440 like 10 times already and you know she's about to go out to the bar next week i don't drink but

01:33:10.160 anyway i think what you're the mistake you're making is you're assuming that i'm continuously

01:33:15.260 totally disregarding and i'm telling you i'm not i think i'm telling you i'm not i think this

01:33:21.160 what they're trying to say this the analogy is they're trying to compare it to and apparently i'm

01:33:26.860 gonna go to the bar oh they're saying like sleeping wise you're gonna i just feel like it should be

01:33:31.160 honestly it should be kind of one or the other it's like you're asking me to be perfect or shut up

01:33:39.320 that's my only option do you have a set wedding date maybe that'll show like it's a weird way to

01:33:42.840 put it well put up or shut yeah i'm like oh man that's a rock and a hard place it's really a rock

01:33:49.800 and a hard place you've already it's kind of like oh you're saying yeah you've already done it you

01:33:53.340 might as well just you've already passed the threshold in this but that doesn't mean you have

01:33:57.560 to continue down it is my point but you keep making this well i see you're saying it again you

01:34:02.600 keep making the same mistakes but you you've literally okay so fine the only thing you've told us thus

01:34:07.880 far is you had sex three months in and then as recently as a week ago that's all we know you've

01:34:13.020 refused you so so let's assume you've perhaps you've had three other slip-ups five slip-ups total

01:34:20.900 every couple weeks i don't know why i love where people are getting these numbers

01:34:23.900 sorry so i mean uh oh i don't know it's just but i knew you're i knew you're gonna i knew you're

01:34:35.760 take this angle i totally get it guys i have a confession i am not perfect i don't keep doing

01:34:40.900 this like oh it's fine i'm gonna i'm gonna mess up next week but like i'll totally like ask for

01:34:44.960 forgiveness like that's not my attitude there are people out there like that i won't lie to you

01:34:49.280 i'm trying really hard not to be a hypocrite and not to be one of them it's just okay i'll tell you

01:34:53.360 we've had a lot of christian women come on the show a lot who claim to be these virtuous pure women

01:34:59.940 who are waiting for marriage i'm a sinner dude it sucks cool i hear things through the grapevine

01:35:05.220 okay they're hooking up with dudes behind the scenes they're they're holding their they're

01:35:10.560 taking photos they got they got fucking scripture in their uh instagram bio they got scripture in

01:35:15.740 their instagram bio don't you have like a cross emoji yeah i love jesus in your instagram yeah you

01:35:21.200 know oh i'm waiting till marriage and then like i find find out that they they're hooking up with

01:35:26.680 fuck boys but didn't i'm not doing that he did that's what no condemnation in christ jesus means

01:35:32.440 hey but also the reason i'm comfortable talking about all this is because while i respect all of

01:35:37.260 you and your opinions not one of you can judge me except jesus and he chooses not to so i'm just

01:35:43.400 gonna throw that out there is why i'm okay can i ask confronting this kind of stuff you said you're

01:35:48.560 a christian right so when you make the mistakes do you go through the process of like repentance

01:35:52.960 of course so repent just means turn away and stop doing it well no i from what i understand it's to

01:35:59.300 take accountability for the action of course actually not do it yeah continuously yeah the

01:36:05.240 mistake because then because then it's like there's not really we're getting we're getting really hung

01:36:09.100 up on the continuous again i never said like this is happening every single week i never said that

01:36:14.800 that's what people in chat are saying that's what brian is saying the continuous and the total

01:36:18.260 disregard of principles i'm telling you i'm not doing that i'm just confused because you guys have

01:36:25.760 already had premarital sex so you're saying oh who cares like you might as well no i mean though

01:36:31.240 the ship has sailed no more and just who's who's the one who like seems to be a little more

01:36:38.760 interested in having sex you or him i'd say it's very equal it's it's like we still have the desire

01:36:45.940 but it's like oh no we agreed we're not doing this like it's a you know so i guess like my

01:36:52.140 hang a little hang up on this is to speak more generally or broadly yeah so is we've had a lot

01:36:59.940 of these christian women come on nothing wrong with a generalization great um but they come on

01:37:06.580 and they claim that they're waiting for marriage and they're trying they're putting on this sort of act

01:37:11.720 is that what you believe i'm doing i'm really sorry if that's how it's no i don't think you're

01:37:15.060 well putting on an act insofar as oh i'm waiting i want i'm gonna wait till marriage and like almost

01:37:22.000 all and it typically is the like the non-denominational uh christian women or like

01:37:26.640 protestants or whatever um no offense and some taken no they tend to like come on and speak a big

01:37:34.240 game because it's almost this virtue signaling uh but the reality like what i and i wouldn't i'm not

01:37:40.320 going to expose anybody but like what i hear behind the scenes what i hear through the grapevine

01:37:45.720 they're not waiting till marriage they're hooking up they're doing all this what did you hear about

01:37:49.980 me brian i didn't hear about you okay just wanted to clear that up but so i guess what i'm saying is

01:37:55.420 they'll come on and it's like it frustrates me when people come on and say one thing oh these are

01:38:03.260 my values this is my worldview i'm a good christian woman i'm waiting till marriage and then we had

01:38:08.920 one girl uh she's taken like stories with her bible bible study whatever and then i find find out like

01:38:16.820 she's hooking up she fucks a guy on the first date some fuck boy guy how do you know this

01:38:22.340 people don't go don't gossip and you believe everything you hear from what if i'm f-boy this

01:38:30.420 how about this in that specific with that specific girl i got it directly from the source

01:38:35.820 from the guy she allegedly hooked up with he sent a picture the fuck boy in question he sent a picture

01:38:41.600 let me see the red receipts who cares they actually ended up uh like dating for a while so yeah they

01:38:48.040 were taking stories together but they fucked the first night and she's on the podcast two weeks

01:38:53.240 earlier saying i'm waiting for marriage here's here's the scripture in my instagram bio here's a

01:39:00.260 bible photo that sounds so like judgy i really apologize how is it judgy if i'm coming off that

01:39:07.220 way and uh gross wait what's judgy like the the connotation that's coming out of you describing

01:39:13.920 these christian women like i'm waiting i like if i'm coming off like that someone somebody come get

01:39:19.020 her because that's not how i want to come off at all well i'm just saying i'm speaking in general

01:39:23.140 like these people who come on and will say oh i'm waiting for marriage and then like behind the scenes

01:39:29.320 but i'm saying there's no behind the scenes they're larpings it's really respectful that

01:39:35.160 you came on and were honest because that's the issue with this panel a lot of times it's going

01:39:38.100 to be these girls who are like they're catering to the audience in a different way they're like

01:39:41.480 i never do that i never do that at least the of girls are being honest and they're being truthful

01:39:46.840 you have a bunch of like girls up here i would never you're being honest and you're taking

01:39:51.960 because that's not that's hypocritical if you were and you'd become that kind of person like

01:39:56.860 holier than thou and that's not that's not realistic you're taking the flack for a lot

01:40:01.640 of other girls i am a thousand percent and i'll take i will take all of it that's totally fine

01:40:05.840 i don't mind because i know what i'm doing i know what i'm trying really hard to accomplish

01:40:10.340 and if people want to judge me for it go right ahead judge me for other things i'm also like

01:40:15.000 a huge interrupter like i'm really impatient get me for those things too okay anyways um so let me

01:40:22.040 get a couple chats in we'll continue on with the relationship status bro naissance uh can i have

01:40:26.500 you read this one who me yeah if you can do the reads go ahead what's hina you know i know what is

01:40:34.000 this the girl in the blue shirt is a wife she needs a ring the a cup brown shirt makes the turner

01:40:40.820 look like a decent human being brian i can guide you to uh oh a better diet and exercise mindset

01:40:46.860 dm me okay thank you bro appreciate it read this one please one second go ahead you okay uh thank you

01:40:56.280 man but the appeal to hypocrisy a doctor who smokes advocating for people not to smoke doesn't suddenly

01:41:03.460 negate the fact that smoking is objectively bad for you she fucked and fucks up and knows oh my gosh

01:41:10.600 and she does she knows me too okay she said me too is the problem is the problem that you have

01:41:19.920 with it that she advocates like no sex before marriage or is it like because like i totally

01:41:25.880 understand because i'm kind of like same situation but i'm married but i'm just but i don't advocate

01:41:31.620 no sex for marriage i say like hey it's a good idea because i know i've messed up already so there's

01:41:36.760 no i can't say anything about it but is the problem that you feel like she's advocating it's

01:41:41.620 definitely the advocation because it seems hypocritical yeah when you say when you say

01:41:46.080 advocate what is what is the advocate okay well just okay because i didn't talk to anyone for not

01:41:51.200 doing it i'm just saying that's my choice so he's trying to say that i'm doing a uh two quote

01:41:55.500 two coquet i don't know how the fuck i don't know an appeal to hypocrisy so basically it's it is

01:42:00.500 it would be so here's the thing though it would be a logical fallacy if you were trying to discredit

01:42:06.780 somebody's argument so example i'm not saying that her claim is wrong is the difference so in your in

01:42:12.620 your example you're saying a doctor who smokes advocating here i'll pull it up a doctor who smokes

01:42:19.060 advocating for people not to smoke doesn't suddenly negate the fact that smoking is objectively bad for

01:42:25.400 you so i don't actually disagree with her on her position however because that's the case because

01:42:33.000 i'm not actually trying to say i'm not trying to say or argue well actually waiting until marriage is

01:42:39.380 bad and because you're a hypocrite i made a mistake at all so i should just no i'm just it's not i'm not

01:42:45.840 appealing to hypocrisy or doing a like a what's it called um i'm not trying to destroy your worldview

01:42:55.540 or your argument you're just saying me personally you should speak on this because you failed no i'm

01:43:01.580 just literally calling you a hypocrite oh interesting okay so i'm not trying to i'm not

01:43:07.280 trying oh it's just that i'm not trying to defeat your argument that you're in favor of waiting

01:43:12.060 until sex for marriage by pointing out that while you're a hypocrite so in this example a doctor

01:43:17.320 who smokes advocating for people not to smoke doesn't suddenly negate the fact that smoking

01:43:21.820 is objectively bad uh so in this case brian if that's the case since i have made mistakes in my

01:43:28.200 life i will never tell anyone what to do because i'm like hey i already did it sorry brian said i can't

01:43:32.880 do it that's not what i'm saying of like hypocrisy you could admit you're like a little bit of

01:43:36.900 hypocrite right yeah who cares but guys hypocrite is like a continued pattern of behavior like

01:43:43.140 it's a day like this is who you are now okay to avoid taking that ability that's your opinion

01:43:49.300 which you're allowed to have can i see it's not what i'm doing just go ahead actually okay um i

01:43:55.600 actually think that like making mistakes is super crucial and like advocating for what you believe

01:44:00.080 in because if you are blindly following something and you've never like experienced the other side like

01:44:05.400 how are you going to know where you stand fully because you're just like following like without

01:44:11.220 even knowing like i mean some people learn by example and that's what wisdom is where you can

01:44:14.980 learn from other people's mistakes and not have to experience it hear you but if i was drinking one

01:44:19.300 week ago and i came on the podcast i do not drink it's horrible you're not going to take me like

01:44:23.400 seriously is the word of the yeah you know what i mean and then nine months because you were honest

01:44:28.720 but at the same time it seems so little she didn't take that route you guys caught me at a bad time

01:44:34.680 no you're good i i genuinely respect you so much for being honest because it would have been way

01:44:39.020 easier to lie but i understand what they're saying as well no i get what you guys are saying but

01:44:43.940 again i agree what the the basis of your argument is since you have made this mistake you can no

01:44:48.600 longer advocate for what you believe is the right way which you can but it doesn't mean as much

01:44:53.260 to be honest right i mean then i don't think anyone should advocate for anything none of us are

01:44:57.560 perfect i don't even agree with that you're totally welcome to advocate for whatever you want to

01:45:00.860 but also understand that people are going to call you a hypocrite and you don't follow your own

01:45:04.380 that's fine i do follow it so i do follow it and i made a mistake going back going back to what he's

01:45:08.540 trying to argue when it comes to the appeal to hypocrisy so there's a lot people will use logical

01:45:13.260 fallacies in an attempt to defeat a position but i'm not trying to defeat her position yeah he's

01:45:18.900 not trying to prove me why that's not a good i'm just simply outright calling her a hypocrite yeah

01:45:22.840 you're allowed to do that i don't think you understand what it means so with the doctor smoking hold on

01:45:25.780 the doctor smoking example it would be like you can certainly acknowledge that smoking is wrong

01:45:33.360 but you can still be like just because the doctor smokes i'm not trying to negate that smoking is

01:45:40.240 objectively bad i'm just simply pointing out it's he's saying the doctor should practice practice what

01:45:47.020 he preaches yes he ought to he ought to but it's not make if if my position like if my position was

01:45:54.420 well smoking is good smoking's good you're saying don't smoke well you smoke so my position is is uh

01:46:02.500 reaffirmed that's what that's not really what i'm trying to get out anyways you're a fat girl

01:46:07.600 telling us we need to lose weight you're not wrong you're just a asshole and you're also everything

01:46:12.760 wrong with modern christianity oh wow oh damn i didn't know i was fat i you're not literally i think

01:46:19.460 he's trying to make an analogy here oh i need to lose my mic oh my brother i was like damn that

01:46:26.580 sucks john john green says how many mistakes constitutes mistake is that john green like

01:46:31.480 the author she knows she made a mistake yeah it's definitely the author no no you're good it's 100%

01:46:35.660 the author he's lying yeah thank you john green i love your book he's a liar uh where we're oh we're

01:46:42.540 getting around damn okay it's taking us a while to get through all this stuff okay what about you

01:46:45.640 relationship um single i've been single for about three years uh my longest relationship was almost

01:46:51.400 four okay single for three years now last time i perhaps this was an error uh i asked if you've been

01:46:58.540 on any dates in that three years and i believe you said no correct i hadn't i recently started dating

01:47:03.200 about the last two months ago since then i've been more willing to date more trying to get out there

01:47:10.680 i guess okay can i also interrupt because jojo had to say her body count but nobody else has yet

01:47:17.980 i said oh because i just felt like people were assuming all right so this i guess this is a bit

01:47:26.460 of a new revelation here with jojo because i think i previously asked if you've been dating you said no

01:47:30.260 i haven't been dating at all but you are doing kind of like the more casual hookup thing so i mean for

01:47:34.880 you even though you've been single for three three years have you been doing like casual hookups um i

01:47:39.520 haven't been doing casual hookups the most recent since i've been on the podcast has been about like

01:47:44.680 a month and a half that i've been seeing one person so it's is it still ongoing i don't think so oh so

01:47:51.800 you how long were you seeing them uh like a month and a half but it and like you stopped recently yeah

01:47:57.520 okay so you guys were hooking up them uh once yeah just just once yeah and wait so how many times did

01:48:06.320 you guys hang out like five wait orientation um i would say bisexual for sure man or woman i was a

01:48:19.040 man okay and so wait the last time you hung out was that time you guys hooked up no there's one time

01:48:28.380 after that i mean we never we haven't stopped seeing each other i just don't know i don't know

01:48:33.720 do you guys live in the same city yeah i just don't really see it going anywhere

01:48:38.020 whoa i think you just have to date a few people and see who you like i'm just i'm really not perfect

01:48:45.460 i'm trying to be perfect well you should be perfect i'm trying you should be figure it out figure it out

01:48:51.720 no i was um well are you religious no i was just celibate because i'm her worldview probably has no

01:49:00.320 uh restrictions i was hold on her worldview probably has no restrictions on premarital sex

01:49:06.420 so it wouldn't be imperfect for her to have sex at any point in the courtship process at least from

01:49:12.860 her worldview i was only celibate because like you said i can't separate i just don't enjoy casual sex

01:49:19.080 it's not it was never a thing of oh i want to go this long i want to like i want to wait till this it

01:49:24.800 was like if i met somebody and we clicked and i felt comfortable and i liked them and i thought it was

01:49:29.260 going to go somewhere i was comfortable doing that uh it just happened to take two and a half years

01:49:33.920 but yeah i'm not religious by any means i'm not waiting for anything right um i just don't enjoy

01:49:40.780 casual sex so okay yeah but you think this is over then uh we'll see it's still early i don't i don't

01:49:48.200 want to say too much i don't know do you do you like him a bit more than he likes you or is it

01:49:52.360 i can't tell i think because i've been alone for so long it's hard for me to really tell if i'm like

01:49:57.240 infatuated or like actually like somebody i don't think you like this guy that much to be honest

01:50:02.480 sorry what about you i am married married how long have you guys been married gonna be a year in july

01:50:11.760 all right how long were you guys dating before that so it's gonna be 10 years now so we've been

01:50:18.400 together since we were 15. wow high school sweethearts okay you go girl thank you do you guys

01:50:23.480 have kids no okay just corgis yeah just four corgis five allegedly five i thought we had five

01:50:30.100 um i am married all right how long a little over a year now all right cool cool uh natalie what about

01:50:41.720 you i'm single i've been single for like a year and a half my longest relationship is probably about a

01:50:47.300 year all right and one year no prospects you've been on the when you were on a couple months ago

01:50:55.480 nothing in between um wait last time you're wrong wasn't there a little something there's a little

01:51:01.640 something i was contemplating because i don't want to go viral for this because i don't want to

01:51:06.420 disrespect steve um wait you're dating steve am it no no no no no he's a handsome guy steve's a cat

01:51:13.200 steve's a cat no no no he's he's he's thrice divorced do you want to be thrice no no no no no no

01:51:20.160 no the guy i was talking to yo shout out steve bannon steve is the best we love steve we should get

01:51:26.080 him on the show well he's a little busy start in july is he what's the i go to prison

01:51:32.160 wait what uh for how long for four months and we can wait he'll be out he'll be out like he'll be

01:51:39.980 out in the fall for the election no conspiracies no coincidences but i'm sure you guys don't hear

01:51:44.300 about that uh no i wasn't i haven't really been following that what uh what did they get him on

01:51:49.480 okay so the tl dr on that is um he technically they say defied a congressional subpoena which came

01:51:56.740 from the january 6th committee but it was an illegitimate sham committee uh comprised by the

01:52:00.940 democrats so there is a small chance that of house republicans get their act together and

01:52:04.420 establish this like blag advisory group that they can basically render that committee null and void

01:52:10.780 so then that subpoena would not really be in effect an actual subpoena so and it could be overturned the

01:52:16.720 prosecution and currently peter navarro is serving a similar sentence uh he's the only misdemeanor in a

01:52:23.060 miami-based correctional facility everyone else is felons but he's technically still waiting on his

01:52:27.720 appeal but i would argue and i feel like it's wait steve bannon's appeal um no no peter navarro

01:52:32.780 one of trump's top economic advisors but um the timing to me is very curious war room like i said

01:52:38.600 is a very very influential show on sort of the maga right in terms of getting people involved and his

01:52:43.960 sentence is going to overlap right to the run-up um to the election and you can already see msnbc the

01:52:49.620 way they were covering they were gloating on air about how it's going to be silencing our podcast and

01:52:53.300 all that jazz so again democrats ignore congressional subpoenas all the time nothing happens to them

01:52:59.740 but when it's not just republicans but anti-establishment republicans they always seem

01:53:03.220 to get thrown in jail but the the story of unrelated to that yeah as you can imagine i'm busy dealing

01:53:09.780 with with all of that and if steve goes to jail i will likely have to take over the show um but i think

01:53:15.740 that the guy that i was talking to last time i feel like he was gay it happens that was a wild turn

01:53:22.140 watch yeah he was like we should uh hmm i don't know if i want clips to be saying this

01:53:31.360 um he was like we should okay let me let me just put this in context sure so i'm i'm hosting my show

01:53:39.780 okay and i always have my phone on do not disturb and i open it when i get off air like i'm expecting

01:53:46.100 nothing to you know whatever like maybe a good morning text i don't know and i just open it and

01:53:52.280 it's just like stream of consciousness like 20 texts like we should s the d together i really want

01:54:00.500 to be on like just crazy stuff he's had pictures of other people's other men's that came out of nowhere

01:54:08.520 out of absolutely i have known him for like 72 hours i had like okay i was excuse me what the

01:54:16.460 literal f it gets better it gets better i ignore it okay i'm like i don't even know what to say to

01:54:25.180 this so i fly back home and i think from my instagram story or something he sees that i'm home he's

01:54:30.720 like hey are you around i'm like oh like i'm busy he's like oh i'm leaving town tomorrow i was like

01:54:35.620 oh like too bad the next day he texts me he's like hey so sorry uh i just met someone that i'm gonna

01:54:43.320 start dating you're really cool we should be friends but um i'm gonna like focus on her

01:54:50.980 and then kept texting me and like sending me really weird pictures like of where i live

01:54:58.160 so it got really weird wait the guy who's the guy you thought was gay or was gay yeah well i think

01:55:05.940 we don't know i think he like it's like a repressed thing i and and it's like i would he it was he

01:55:12.160 didn't really want to have it three-way he just wanted to be there for plausible deniability so he

01:55:15.600 wasn't gay wait you but you how long did you know this guy three days three days you knew him

01:55:22.220 three days how did you guys mean the podcast um like dating up no no just out in florida we had

01:55:29.660 mutual friends we'd come and so he's he texted you and he said he wants to s the d

01:55:36.880 he wanted to s the d with me like a like yeah wow that's not weird that's a lot that's crazy

01:55:45.440 so i was like okay he's probably not straight there's something funky there i mean yeah you

01:55:53.940 dodged a bullet girl what else any anything else that he was saying you said it was like a stream

01:55:58.480 of consciousness um well besides s and d pictures of like dudes yeah that he wanted like like just

01:56:08.240 like one of them looked like ai he is not closeted but he's out yeah no it was really weird i was

01:56:15.100 like i was like oh my gosh i don't i don't know what to do uh what's going on in florida man

01:56:20.140 serious florida's just rated the worst day to date and that being said there is a new person that i'm

01:56:24.660 talking to how many days has it been i know every time i call whatever it's there's always someone new

01:56:29.900 but it's like too early to say anything um it's been like a month oh be careful no yeah no

01:56:37.480 nothing weird yet nothing weird yet well yeah everything we're gonna call it the the natalie

01:56:43.600 winters rule you have to wait 72 hours before making a determination if a man's potentially gay

01:56:49.440 or not if you get any sus text from a guy within a 72 hour period you've been wintered isn't that wild

01:56:58.440 damn that's his name is steve no no yeah this is so not oh i don't know okay no no no steve is

01:57:06.640 i would be honored to find a man like steve that is age appropriate but i don't know if they make

01:57:11.600 guys like that anymore so going back to steve do you think you were going to get him out or what

01:57:18.520 you know get him out of prison yeah once he got does he have a report by day he has to report by

01:57:23.000 july 1st and even though he is a non-violent offender no history of anything at all they're

01:57:28.660 trying to put usually like people maybe people are familiar like dinesh d'souza or those type cases

01:57:33.380 they go to what's called like club fed which is sort of like a low security like bunk bed style

01:57:38.680 it's not like hardcore but they're putting steve in like a hardcore maximum security with like child

01:57:44.600 i won't get into it all like really bad people and even potentially putting him in in rikers because

01:57:50.620 he uses another court case that's pending in the state of new york for other stuff all of this being

01:57:55.540 said obviously just like president trump is a convicted felon same with steve they're just going after

01:58:01.000 them it's obviously just lawfare but it really is horrible what they're doing to someone who is

01:58:04.920 i think one of the leading patriots in this country i'm honored to work for him and i'm sorry to bring

01:58:10.100 him up after i just said what i was talking about but um yeah and it was just like he didn't respond

01:58:16.700 to a subpoena that's it yeah eric holder has defied subpoenas nothing happened to him um he was a

01:58:23.540 democrat had to do with the fast and furious scandal they just voted to hold merrick garland the ag

01:58:27.140 currently um in contempt of congress nothing has happened to him um but like i said it's really

01:58:32.480 just because of the um the podcast i mean i'm sure you know when it comes to censorship and demonetization

01:58:37.880 and all that it's really just the culmination of years of censoring a deep platform or banned on

01:58:42.300 youtube and spotify so they just want them off off air well yeah i'm sorry to hear about what's going

01:58:48.920 on with steve sorry to hear what happened to you and that one guy that's crazy wait what was going on

01:58:55.280 over here my dad texted me oh you still have your phone on you apple watch even though you did you

01:59:02.700 miss the part where we were collecting the phones i didn't know it was watches too i'm sorry oh it's

01:59:07.160 just a watch okay all right that's why we missed it all right whatever uh we're going around

01:59:11.860 relationship status and body counts well we got everybody's right okay so oh she wants you really

01:59:17.700 want that you want to ask body count question go ahead hey guys what's your body count my date

01:59:21.520 eight um i have to count real quick okay let it wait do you have a list in your phone or something

01:59:28.100 no i can like recall yeah okay go for it let it out can you say their names while you do it

01:59:33.040 and their social security number and their credit card number would you give us the ranking

01:59:36.780 mother's maiden name while you're at it no like i'm gonna say like maybe six range i'll say six

01:59:41.520 if it's six you can count to six yeah do you want to keep counting hit that multiply by three button

01:59:47.480 i know multiply it by three and that's i don't have to answer i don't know exact number somewhere

01:59:54.640 like in the 30s 30s okay mine's six i've been more than forthcoming range do you want to give us a

02:00:01.880 range no less than more than no eight one one less than five all right there you go cool

02:00:15.000 good talk multiply it by three that's the real number just kidding i'm just kidding okay so let's

02:00:22.260 get into uh some of the pre-show notes it's taken us a while let me do two chats and then we'll get

02:00:26.220 into it uh can you read this oh i feel bad already brown shirt you are very smug self-righteous

02:00:34.560 holier than thou and a hypocrite you can advocate for abstinence before marriage but we don't have to

02:00:42.100 take you seriously when you slip up often damn sorry i'm not perfect my bad i wish i were perfect

02:00:51.500 all right go ahead thank you john green i wish most women were like maddie opened conversation

02:00:57.780 understanding that are willing to sacrifice so you don't have to what okay john green thank you man

02:01:05.220 appreciate it appreciate it dude all right thank you man all right let's get into the pre-show notes so

02:01:11.720 we have uh abby let's start with abby abby you said you've been on many dates most of them were

02:01:17.520 weird but the weirdest was probably the guy from ventura who kept taking photos of me for keepsake

02:01:23.440 on a first date uh what happened there tell us the yes so i was on a date in ventura um and we were at

02:01:34.040 the beach and it was just like a normal first date we were going on a walk that's what i like to do

02:01:39.040 um and he kept taking pictures of me on the date and i wasn't doing anything i was just like walking

02:01:47.140 beside him and his phone kept coming up and i'd be like oh haha that's cool that's funny um and i like

02:01:55.840 was a little uncomfortable but i wasn't gonna say anything about it because like maybe that's normal

02:02:01.320 maybe i don't know if that's normal maybe it's normal but it wasn't until he kept saying like oh this

02:02:06.840 one's just for keepsake oh this one like i'm gonna look at this later then i got pretty ew i got pretty

02:02:12.780 freaked out yeah um that was probably the weirdest one

02:02:16.980 and was there a second date oh absolutely not

02:02:23.220 a text back

02:02:25.920 can i get those pictures back i want those pictures some of them were probably cute

02:02:32.980 but like wouldn't it be kind of cool if this is the guy you end up dating for a long time or even

02:02:39.480 like spending your life with that would be cool and here's like here's photos of us on our first

02:02:43.380 date that'd be kind of cool right but he was weird about it sorry i was like no it was weird it was

02:02:48.240 weird okay he said i'm saving this for later that's yeah i don't know about that i feel like it always

02:02:54.120 depends who does it like if it's some super hunk that does it you're like that was so hot that was

02:02:58.460 straight out of a movie and if it's some guy you're not attracted to you're like oh that was

02:03:01.880 kind of odd so if you're not attractive it's gonna feel if a hunk is still taking photos of you saying

02:03:07.640 i'm saving this i'd be like dang i look good probably oh shit i don't know you you also said

02:03:14.820 you have stories about sugar daddies yes i've had some sugar daddies how did you meet them seeking

02:03:20.140 um it's called sugar daddy.com oh sugar dad i've never heard of that one sugar daddy.com

02:03:26.060 i couldn't like figure out seeking arrangements like maybe i'm just dense but like i couldn't

02:03:30.380 figure it out couldn't figure it out wait okay i feel like we must know because you've lived in

02:03:34.240 santa barbara for nine months without a job it has to be a sugar daddy right it's not cheap here it's

02:03:40.140 more expensive than la your money it's fine if it is i want to add are the dates for like free meals too

02:03:47.400 wait yeah the guy from like what two two nights ago did he buy you dinner no oh it was we were only

02:04:00.820 like hanging out for a little bit and then it was did you meet him on sugar daddy.com no okay

02:04:06.680 uh so you have how many how many sugar daddies have you had i've had just two sugar daddies for

02:04:13.620 like a very short amount of time okay let's yeah let's talk a bit about that so how short like a

02:04:20.060 month each ish one month each yeah okay did you hook up with either of them um kind of like it depends

02:04:27.820 on your definition of carnal knowledge sure sexual intercourse um maybe

02:04:37.260 oh so yes maybe

02:04:41.760 okay so you saw them and you both met them or you met both of them from this website

02:04:49.000 are you still on the website no why did you get off it um because i don't like them they're like

02:04:55.460 they're too old like i'm not attracted to them like i don't know like i thought i could be attracted

02:04:59.440 to the like older guys i was seeing and then like i just wasn't like i'm not going to use them

02:05:04.640 isn't that literally what a sugar daddy i'll use them like a little bit but like not fully

02:05:10.440 okay so uh what was the nature of the exchange or transaction with the first sugar daddy

02:05:20.480 um what do you mean like what was like the well i'm assuming you met him maybe for coffee or dinner

02:05:26.720 initially we went on a walk did he have to pay for that date did he pay for the walk

02:05:32.480 i mean i've we've had girls on the show who do these seeking arrangements sugar daddy things

02:05:39.340 and they charge for dates yeah they'll charge to even meet up for coffee no it actually happened he

02:05:45.120 offered to like grab the coffee while we walked and i was like too freaked out because i didn't want

02:05:49.500 him to like spike it so i bought the coffee and i brought the coffee to the date did he pay you for

02:05:56.560 the date no okay so how was he sugaring like what was the sugaring the sugaring came later like after

02:06:03.820 so what okay but so would he just send you money just because um not usually like it would be like

02:06:10.120 after the date like if we went out to supper he'd like buy supper and then send me some money yeah how

02:06:15.820 much no way you want to know how much yeah that's very very much no way no way i like that you called

02:06:24.320 it supper that was really cute anybody else here had sugar daddy i had sugar daddies but i never

02:06:29.260 wanted dates with them i've had men send me money but i want to call them sugar daddies yeah i just

02:06:33.940 went on one on friday yeah well let's hear from you really quick then we'll come back to her so you

02:06:38.160 guys just random dudes on internet send you money like twitch streams yeah yeah yeah same yeah like i

02:06:44.060 don't communicate with them offline but like sometimes i'll even be in like the background

02:06:47.760 of one of their streams and i'll get like a paypal of eight hundred dollars i'm like dang okay

02:06:51.160 yeah damn i don't get eight hundred dollars yeah that happens i get like 20 bucks if i'm lucky

02:06:56.780 dial yeah sorry about you nicolette how much yeah it depends like the amount of time but they'd pay

02:07:04.820 you for like if you went out with them for dinner they'd pay you yeah and i wouldn't wait till after

02:07:08.420 i'm definitely getting it like when i get there all right putting her on some game right here okay

02:07:12.680 so like for a dinner i mean what what would you charge i guess um on friday i got a thousand

02:07:19.940 yeah what about like a wednesday um it would still be a thousand it just depends on like how much time

02:07:26.420 they want with me okay so if it's just a dinner and it would be just dinner right yeah yeah they want

02:07:32.380 more time with me than more money okay and have you had any dudes just randomly send you money or

02:07:38.840 yeah i twitch stream as well well i think like sending a donut during a stream i don't know if

02:07:44.980 that's really like it's more so like you're privately conversing and no no not conversing hey babe here's

02:07:50.420 200 sometimes i i will get like random money and be like hey i bought your lunch today and they'll

02:07:55.500 send money like so they'll message well yeah chatters will do that they'll like even off stream they'll

02:07:59.960 just like yeah it's not expected to respond from discord yeah yeah just yeah yeah so if you're

02:08:05.480 comfortable uh just i'm curious how much they're paying you um like a few hundred like 300 maybe

02:08:12.060 not in total or like in one transaction um like per date per date yeah 300 bucks always 300 bucks

02:08:22.180 with one of them yeah like that was like the rate if you will okay and then would they ever send you

02:08:29.020 money to like take care of expenses like for a haircut or for a car bill or uh utilities rent anything

02:08:36.580 like that no not with like a sugar daddy but i was seeing a guy who was like how old was he 24

02:08:42.760 and he was sending me mad money all the time just i wasn't even like hanging out with him he would send

02:08:48.620 me things he'd be like how did you meet him just like hinge and when you said he you say he was

02:08:55.040 sending you mad money what do you mean yeah no he'd be like here's 200 for yoga clothes like here's

02:09:00.460 100 for gas like whatever just i didn't ask how much total do you think he sent you maybe 2 000

02:09:08.380 2 000 okay and what about the uh other two sugar daddies how much did the first one send you total

02:09:14.960 i don't know like i wasn't counting well a couple thousand if we say like i went on a date with him

02:09:21.800 like once a week for a month that's like 36 like not very much and then the other one do you know

02:09:28.280 how much total maybe 500 like it wasn't anything okay why was the hinge guy sending you money just

02:09:33.980 because i don't know i really don't know i'm not sure did you guys ever hook up no you never slept

02:09:39.280 together no i know i know simps are ruining dating oh boy imagine like you're 21 right

02:09:51.740 imagine dating a girl in college and some fucking simp is sending her hundreds of dollars just

02:09:57.040 because she exists should have been on the dating app sooner oh my god that's crazy uh i want to know

02:10:04.180 how he has that much money at 24 and he's know what he's doing the problem is he probably doesn't

02:10:07.940 oh yeah a lot of men will go into debt to send wait was he was he trying to like meet up with you

02:10:13.340 though or he was just being full-on simp like here's money but no expectations yes he literally

02:10:18.640 said that like it's okay if like we don't hang out or do anything is it pay pig you like that

02:10:22.800 would you yell at him he would also like was it like a fandom thing

02:10:30.420 this is an insane what the hell was that what the hell was even that

02:10:38.340 oh boy all right uh we're still okay it's crazy it's crazy all right no i mean not what you're

02:10:48.260 doing is crazy more so i blame the dudes yeah i blame the guys doing this shit that's that's

02:10:54.200 crazy he would do this weird thing where he would like take me out to dinner and order a lot of food

02:10:59.020 even though i insisted like it's kind of expensive like we don't need that much food he would order

02:11:03.620 like a whole buffet for us and wouldn't touch a single bite and he'd say go have some no have some

02:11:09.220 was he a feeder i think so he's a feeder he's trying to get her fat yeah you're not a great target

02:11:14.520 you're quite small no i don't even know he's trying to make her big he's trying to get her

02:11:19.140 big why me was it a white guy yes oh my fuck the white guys no more white men no more feeders

02:11:25.420 oh boy man white men what the fuck fuck all right you said uh you almost got kidnapped

02:11:35.280 yes that's a different guy yes what happened there um he was like almost 30 and he just had like

02:11:44.300 all sorts of red flags he did actually have a minivan a honda what is it called a honda odyssey

02:11:49.140 that's why i don't go outside yeah you gotta be really quick your chat is the audio we we changed

02:11:56.340 something with the audio does it sound different does it sound better we boosted the gain a little

02:12:01.660 bit and then also we did like a it's either a high pass or low pass filter uh to hopefully

02:12:08.240 hopefully cut out some of the background uh background noise i don't know if it's done

02:12:13.900 anything but chat can you i saw somebody in the chat saying the audio sounds bad nick could you pull

02:12:19.780 up the chat for me really quick uh so chat is it sound okay does it sound does it sound better does

02:12:26.480 it sound worse does it sound better or worse than normal audio is good i hear the low pass

02:12:34.760 seems like we're good sound weird trying to explain sound good clear sounds normal so we we boosted the

02:12:45.040 gain last show but we didn't change the like either high pass low pass filter that we just did today

02:12:50.900 but last show we boosted the gain a little bit uh have you guys heard any peaking yes peaking or no

02:12:57.900 peaking i mean audio peaking

02:13:01.060 butters blue pills background cars sound worse sus statement audio chill sounds okay more low than

02:13:11.720 wait more low than normal that's weird i think it sounds lower than normal audio good show equals bad

02:13:20.020 sweet thank you man what is peaking i'm peaking oh my god all right i'm sure it's fine i'll do an

02:13:29.400 assessment i would just leave it for the rest of the show so uh kidnapped did you tell the story there

02:13:35.400 um i didn't actually get kidnapped obviously because i'm i'm here right now today what was the story of

02:13:41.520 the story was that like we were on a date we were walking around that's like my favorite first date

02:13:47.160 because like i don't know i don't want to be stuck anywhere public place easy to run away for sure

02:13:51.960 for sure i did run don't you worry i did um but yeah like he was like we should get some ice cream or

02:13:58.120 something like after this and i said okay sure and as we were like walking to his minivan because at the

02:14:05.160 time i didn't have a car um he just like kind of grabbed me and he was like oh like hop in like

02:14:12.540 why are you resisting and i was like oh um you know i don't actually really want ice cream anymore

02:14:18.980 like i'm not comfortable and he's like well most women would have gotten in the car by now and i was

02:14:23.320 like oh okay and i like i don't even remember like i blacked out but i like somehow weaseled my way out

02:14:28.760 and i just booked it well that's the story well i'm happy you're safe now yeah he actually said like

02:14:34.360 the word resisting yes oh wow well i was resisting you need to be more careful on these hinge dates

02:14:39.840 i wonder how he would explain a public place yeah yeah i don't think you can explain that

02:14:46.860 i mean that's a weird scenario to put any person in though he's like come in the van if you want

02:14:51.340 to come in the van that's literally what they teach you in stranger danger yeah but what if was he like

02:14:57.860 did he go was he already in the van like did he sit in his seat and then you were yeah if you're

02:15:03.840 walking towards the van and then he just like grabbed me and i was like oh yeah you like grabbed

02:15:11.580 your arms yeah my arm and was like get in the van but like what has the conversation been before you

02:15:17.900 went on the date wasn't more of like a hookup vibe a date vibe even not that anyway whatever

02:15:23.280 i'm just very pro stating expectations before dates because then there's no like miscommunication

02:15:29.220 but it would have never been your fault i'm just curious like i have no idea he seemed normal enough

02:15:35.920 i guess like we were having normal like first date conversation i don't know you didn't know if it

02:15:41.740 was like a sort of hookup situation or even through conversation i have no idea oh i'm glad you're safe

02:15:49.040 i'm glad you're safe too but i feel like well at least the the way you explained it definitely sounds

02:15:54.720 sus from from his part that's pretty pretty pretty sketchy so there's two sides he was like almost 30

02:16:04.700 that's uncomfortable that's very uncomfortable that's creepy uh okay you said dating hot takes

02:16:11.320 i keep finding people that people don't understand how stds are transmitted fucking scary because nobody

02:16:17.200 around here has ever seen a condom what do you mean by that um exactly what i said um in isla vista

02:16:22.320 people like don't use protection and i've also found that like if i've ever like hooked up with

02:16:27.860 someone and i was the one to bring up like oh like when was the last time you got tested they either

02:16:33.400 like just have never like been tested ever in their entire fucking lives and they might be like in their

02:16:39.640 20s and they've hooked up with several people um and then like sometimes like people would say like

02:16:46.760 oh you would just know if you have an std i was like holy shit you can have chlamydia for months

02:16:54.740 and not know it and it'll totally it can mess up your fertility you want people to have children

02:16:57.820 you have it too long like it's you gotta get tested regardless the whole thing yeah okay all right

02:17:04.000 and i mean so like you'd be hooking up the guy and he's oh don't have a condom i'm allergic to latex

02:17:11.520 you can get um you can get condoms that aren't latex oh i know there's other mediums i know he

02:17:17.000 didn't i guess you should keep them on you you should keep them on you yeah you should just he

02:17:22.240 wasn't gonna use it either way um you can make him use it don't do anything until he uses it we

02:17:27.080 didn't do anything okay but i'm just like saying for the future you should keep them with you

02:17:31.540 and keep yourself safe keep yourself safe yes i'm aware yeah okay great wait i have a question on

02:17:38.920 this i have a question on this so obviously like uh would you guys be fine like let's say you're

02:17:44.240 hooking up the guy and you want to have sex but he's like oh i i don't really like to use condoms

02:17:49.460 and assuming he respected your boundaries but he said well i don't want to have sex unless it's uh

02:17:58.100 without a condom would you respect no i'm not i'm not saying would you have sex with him that's not

02:18:03.980 what i'm asking you respect you he can have his boundaries you can have your boundaries right

02:18:08.140 but would you respect his choice to not want to have sex um i'll respect and also think that he

02:18:17.640 might be a little nasty everyone has their preferences i think it's just having those

02:18:23.120 conversations before you're intimate with somebody and knowing strangers without a condom that's crazy

02:18:27.700 if he can pull up his like std history and when he's last but did he get tested two days ago

02:18:33.660 also if someone says they don't want to have sex i'm not gonna be like what the are you serious

02:18:37.660 like if you don't want to we don't have to it's okay if he's pulling it same day hey this is my std

02:18:42.540 test and it's like all i just think if you want to coincide it's dated today what yeah literally i

02:18:48.640 feel like if you want to have sex without a condom that's like you either need to be in a relationship

02:18:52.060 or very close to being in a relationship everyone's entitled to their preferences and you're entitled to

02:18:57.160 say no safety first well i'm i'm very yeah pro safe sex as in like getting tested every sexual

02:19:04.660 partner every time you even have sexual intercourse things like that so like 70 first yeah i'll get

02:19:12.240 shit i'll get my view on this uh so i'm not interested in like having a bunch of casual sex

02:19:17.080 a bunch of different people like i prefer having like a girlfriend long-term relationship but truthfully

02:19:23.140 at least for me um i feel like it's kind of like land of no return or whatever i don't know

02:19:28.140 once you've had sex without the condom you can't go back i'd honestly literally like if if it's the

02:19:34.660 the choice is have sex with her with a condom and don't have sex with her i'd rather just not have

02:19:38.920 sex i mean condoms do i know that sounds crazy i'm a woman and i'm a 100p on that i'd rather just not

02:19:44.800 it honestly it doesn't do but it could go two ways with men and women they could be kind of like

02:19:50.780 manipulating in the way where it's like oh i'm not saying it's but that's the thing is like i

02:19:56.140 totally agree with you but that's why i would never have sex if i wasn't like in a relationship

02:19:59.440 very close to being in one i i would rather like i'd rather just if we have to have sex with a condom

02:20:04.720 like i'd rather just not and i'm totally cool with us not having sex yeah i would just rather

02:20:10.160 like if she tried to like pressure me no let's still fuck i'd be like toughy let's just cuddle

02:20:15.280 that's a toughy day i'm gonna turn her down i'm gonna turn her down i'm not gonna if she's not

02:20:21.920 like if she's just not down we can hit it from the back that's totally cool that's totally cool we

02:20:27.100 don't i just rather not have sex crazy sorry crazy no if you're a relationship guy that makes sense to

02:20:33.620 me that's fine yeah all right if you never said that if you're sleep if you're sleeping with random

02:20:38.100 people you should be you know using condom whatever they're like if it's hookups easily

02:20:41.980 completely different but like if you're not having sex outside of relationships like it doesn't

02:20:45.260 really like matter that's as long as you're tested before and after probably just during as

02:20:50.800 well wait during yeah during as well in case your partner you're getting tested during a

02:20:55.860 relationship yes i'd rather just not have a hand job like if the only choice like i'm with a girl

02:21:03.660 and she's like i don't want to do anything else but i guess i'll get oh yeah that's terrible

02:21:07.600 framing but yeah like the pity hand job it's a pity hand job this dry hand can do a lot of work

02:21:13.500 i'd rather just not even i don't even want a hand job no hand job natalie's like right right chat

02:21:22.680 wait chat i'll take three i'll take three like i don't want to do anything but i'll give you a

02:21:28.140 hand job wouldn't you turn down the hand job that's crazy that's crazy you rather your own hand

02:21:33.540 no i'd rather nothing you rather world of warcraft there's no such thing as a good

02:21:39.240 world of warcraft my baby there's no such thing there's no there's no such thing as a good hand

02:21:44.680 job right chat no yes if you agree i don't know about this conversation man what do you what there

02:21:50.080 might be a decent one out there there's got to be at least one that was good there's no such thing

02:21:53.060 no such thing he's got calluses his skin's all ripped up sandpaper yeah he's got a sandpaper hand

02:22:04.500 a woman's touch might hit a little nicer anyways all right all right moving on moving on um earmuffs to

02:22:12.440 the to the uh anyways um you said you think that men have become really lazy and dating

02:22:19.120 yes what do you mean what do you mean by that um i mean i'm paying a lot of the time

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02:24:21.560 know if we simulcast i think we do just twitch for is it is it gonna be like what days is it gonna

02:24:26.320 be we're still figuring out the schedule but i i think what do you know i'm asking she's asking

02:24:31.340 shut your mouth but yeah i mean we're gonna try to do like super regular streams and like i roll

02:24:37.780 walking around or like yeah well we kind of want to bring the show to the street that would be fun

02:24:42.400 like you do that would be that would be super fun yeah makes sense so entertaining god damn i gotta i

02:24:47.080 gotta get on the street around here works no it's perfect sense men are being lazy tell us about that

02:24:52.560 like sling the bill you're super lazy you're paying for the bill or yes like outside of the sugar

02:24:57.320 daddy situations and like that one random like feeder guy um like i'm i'm paying you mean for

02:25:05.460 both yes you pay for the guy yes really i'm paying pay for your meal and walk out so how does that work

02:25:12.020 so is it the guy who's asking you out yeah like he's like hey let's go get dinner can i ask a question

02:25:17.940 i'm sorry if it comes off offensive how are you affording this because there's no income you moved

02:25:26.080 here from massachusetts right her her inheritance her parents owns a maple syrup conglomerate

02:25:33.240 she's from vermont vermont vermont she's a hustler what i don't understand is like why would you pay

02:25:40.940 for their meal as well like why don't you just pay for yours and walk out screw them you don't have to

02:25:45.040 pay for them usually because i like them she seems like i'm going out i'm too nice she seems yeah i mean

02:25:50.660 i mean if they're but if they're like are they even offering beforehand or like they're just like

02:25:54.960 being weird about it yeah so if they're not going to offer and they're going to be weird like okay

02:25:58.480 pay for your own stuff and be like okay pay for your own meal then the least that you can do is

02:26:02.180 offer i mean i'm totally fine paying for my own meal and all that but the least you can do is

02:26:05.920 offer it's not like that it's simple though because they guilt trip you like some of these guys

02:26:09.320 are you think you say no you're like i don't have any money that sucks to suck that's crazy

02:26:14.200 but it comes after like saying though they go on a date they have no money that's not your fault

02:26:18.740 you just don't eat a dick what's that no scrubs down by tlc you sit down and you like have your

02:26:23.760 meal like they give you the bill like i'm not gonna walk out and not pay like my waiters my

02:26:29.860 waitresses like the restaurant they can they can figure out how to pay the waiter i'm not trying to

02:26:33.920 be pro man but this is what happens to men every single day so like it's kind of a crazy discussion

02:26:39.500 that we're having rewind they expect me to pay no i agree i like when men pay for me but it is

02:26:45.860 kind of like the funny well no i'll pay for my own stuff but the i like inviting the person out to

02:26:50.020 the date whoever invites i agree yeah how are you affording this how this is a good question i don't

02:26:55.320 know why do you have money i think that's what i mean is because i'll just like none of us none of

02:27:00.580 us are narcs but i do want to know uh-oh she's a psyop i think that's the last check or wire that

02:27:07.640 came into your bank account like where was the source of that don't listen to you don't have

02:27:11.200 to they work for the irs they work for the ops believe me the irs get audited no but i think

02:27:17.460 that's what i mean because like even then like if i went on a first date with a guy i'd still pay my

02:27:20.720 own bills so where i'm coming from is like you should just pay your own stuff no no i'll just

02:27:24.840 pay my own things i'll pay for i don't need to split half i don't go on no i'm not splitting it my

02:27:28.800 mentality is different though you have like your own taps it's not weird sorry yeah if my mentality with

02:27:33.560 dates and i've told you guys this many times if i go on a date and they they want to pay the whole

02:27:39.100 bill i feel feel almost obligated to text back and that's why if they want to pay the whole bill i'd

02:27:43.760 be like no let me get at least a portion i'll pay for the whole like check but i i just the the idea

02:27:49.220 to me is like if they pay the whole bill i'll feel bad i'll feel obligated to like text them that's

02:27:53.620 what i mean oh yeah thank you so much i'm oh so sweet if he offers even though i don't like them

02:27:58.480 whole bill i'll be like well no let me get it yeah but if he's gonna sit there and be like

02:28:02.820 i have to go to the bathroom like fuck you pay your own bill was he like dying yeah i'll pay my

02:28:08.060 own bill like whatever like he didn't like what about the situationship are you guys going 50 50

02:28:13.380 he's no no situation ship no chance i really no i hope he's paying just because i think i think when

02:28:19.520 you're actually dating i think the dynamic when you're dating it's different because you do you

02:28:23.080 usually like with dating you do okay you hit it i hit it you hit it i hit it at least for me

02:28:27.300 like one at a time i agree i am not saying that i want to be paying for everything and i think that

02:28:34.320 i would like to stop doing that um i think you should yeah i think i should as well and don't

02:28:39.460 pay like oh like abby you think that men are being lazy and dating yes and this is why i find myself

02:28:46.620 like guilt tripped and manipulated into paying for literally everything just don't pay for their meal

02:28:51.000 dog just get my get your bill for your own meal like them what if you care about i'm gonna be honest

02:28:55.860 are you gonna like you you're you're literally saying that you you feel like men are being lazy

02:29:01.020 and dating but then you're also saying like what if i like them you don't like them he didn't pay for

02:29:05.200 your meal you gotta be your own meal leave come on back girl give your own meal and leave back up

02:29:10.060 it's not your man baby it sounds like you're willing to put up with it because you're making

02:29:13.660 don't put up with it i think so don't put up with it it depends on that's what she wants

02:29:19.760 she's paying the whole bill what does she need to put up with oh she doesn't need to but she is

02:29:26.140 i gotta i fixed it that's true what no but what what does she need to put up with i didn't say

02:29:31.620 she's talking about what should she not she's she's talking about how when she goes out to dates with

02:29:35.400 men and then at the end of the date you know she feels she has to pay the whole bill like her bill

02:29:41.000 and the man's meal kind of like but then but yeah no that's fine but then she's also saying like but

02:29:45.600 i'm super traditional i don't like that men aren't paying for my dinner wait did i miss the part where

02:29:49.640 she said she's super traditional that's what she said she said she wants men to pay for her things

02:29:53.340 oh hold on let me just come in here for just a sec you're super traditional

02:29:57.500 okay so let me okay i'll throw that out the window to be okay let me throw super traditional

02:30:03.660 out the window for the right let me throw super traditional out the window but she did say she would

02:30:09.720 prefer that men pay for meals because they're lazy and dating but if you're going out on dates with men

02:30:15.260 who aren't paying your meals why are you paying for their meals throw them out the window well it's

02:30:19.020 not intentional um besides maybe with like some specific people i'm seeing like repeatedly like i

02:30:27.340 don't go into a first date thinking like oh yeah like if they don't want to pay i'm gonna like put up

02:30:32.180 with it like it's just what are you gonna do like i am not the type of person to not pay if we sit down

02:30:37.000 if it's more like no it's just so awkward like or what if it's just burgers and you're like at the

02:30:42.000 window and you like order your burgers and they're like okay the bill is this i'm not gonna

02:30:45.820 like look at like the person serving us or like taking the bill and look at like the guy and be

02:30:50.980 like um okay like i guess we can't wait let's go into an actual example okay give us did that

02:30:59.060 happen you were you were at a burger place i i hold on hold on hold on were you actually at a burger

02:31:05.180 place and this actually happened um it probably has happened what do you what do you mean it

02:31:11.000 probably has are you just how does it happen that often how are you just i really want to know how

02:31:17.480 you're affording all of this i also have that question i really do my thing is is that it's like

02:31:22.400 if you want a man to pay for your dinner yeah why would you pay for his dinner at all i understand

02:31:27.100 that you you're saying you feel awkward and stuff but like you either want him to pay for you or not

02:31:31.040 i can't force someone to pay well hold on no you can't you can you can say i'm paying for my own

02:31:36.600 meal they'll get there and i say that like i offer i'm like hey why don't we go 50 50 but they guilt

02:31:42.800 trip you they say i don't have any money like there's always tell them to eat a dick what and

02:31:47.000 then you walk out no no no you pay for your own meal and tell them screw you i'm not paying for

02:31:51.140 these white guys i think you don't really have to put up with something like this what kind of

02:31:54.700 baby you gotta stick up for yourself you gotta stick up for yourself what's happening

02:31:59.480 you're getting way too many questions everybody's talking let's do one at a time abigail is gonna

02:32:03.240 ask you oh i want to know how you're getting money okay yeah people have been curious why don't you

02:32:09.160 answer that okay um i don't know super like how to i just have it um yeah i just have a lot of money

02:32:17.200 in your bank what how'd you just come across a ton of money can you take me to dinner i might not pay

02:32:22.740 don't have any money yeah don't look at me i'm not saving you no we don't have to go into it

02:32:30.840 and remember the almost 30 year old we might kidnap her i seriously just feel like if you

02:32:37.300 i seriously feel like you should just tell men no if you don't want to pay for their meals you need

02:32:42.640 to get to a point where you can tell people now can you walk me through this situation where here's

02:32:46.740 a problem put yourself in my shoes yes like it's going down you are sitting down you're sitting

02:32:52.280 down at supper you get the bill and they say so this is when i ordered can you put that on a

02:32:59.220 separate bill for me no that's what you would say to the yes i would because i'm paying for my own

02:33:03.520 stuff us are like single like well no no even if i'm in a relationship anything like that i'll pay for

02:33:08.720 my own thing that i think the thing is is you need to get more comfortable telling people now

02:33:12.660 no you need to stop going on hinge dates with dudes you don't like and then being surprised when it

02:33:16.600 doesn't work out it's like not a match from the beginning if you're hanging out you're hanging out

02:33:20.220 if you're on a date i don't think it's i don't think it's necessarily that i was gonna say there

02:33:23.740 seems to be a pattern of you going out with guys who don't pay so maybe i mean it's on her look for

02:33:30.200 a different guy on her i think you just need to get comfortable with telling people no i think

02:33:34.100 you'll get there eventually i'm just a little confused i mean okay so how old are the guys you're

02:33:38.060 typically dating like in their 20s in their 20s yeah and i'm assuming at least the way it typically

02:33:45.160 goes like they're asking you out correct um yes okay so you're matching with them on dating apps

02:33:51.920 yes of how many and how many times would you say that this has occurred where you've gone on a date

02:33:57.920 and you paid the whole bill 50 of the time but no not percentage how many dates there's been so

02:34:04.960 many brian i could not give you a number three oh for sure more than 10 um i don't know

02:34:12.120 i don't know how long have you been dating i've been dating since i was like legal to do that

02:34:17.620 like i just okay legal wait wait let me read this law paladin stress fund baby obviously

02:34:25.060 she's picking dates the same way that men pick women she doesn't care about their money just like men

02:34:29.980 don't care about a woman's money well it's still i mean even if you're wealthy or not wealthy

02:34:34.900 typically people are gonna i'm not wealthy i i also wanted i also just feel like you seem like a sweet

02:34:40.340 girl and you kind of have a duty to you know put your you know protect yourself and whatever and if

02:34:45.340 you don't like the way you're being treated because you think you know men aren't treating you right

02:34:49.120 on date stuff you have a duty to tell them no i'm not paying for you on the date if you don't want

02:34:53.140 to no one's gonna advocate for you except yourself exactly i feel like maybe it's the way you're

02:34:57.020 presenting yourself to these guys yes yes i mean i i have pretty bad anxiety i have to say you're not

02:35:04.980 julie has terrible anxiety i've horrible anxiety i had panic attacks in the karaoke bar kind of i mean

02:35:09.940 as a guy i've never gone into a date especially if i asked the girl i've never gone into the date

02:35:17.260 ever expecting that she paid the whole bill perhaps there's you know perhaps it could at minimum be a

02:35:23.200 split or i'm gonna just pay for the whole thing so it's odd to me that these guys are going like

02:35:29.680 they're asking you on a date but they're not even going in prepared to at least pay their bill that's

02:35:34.700 really weird that's really weird that's what her point is but that's what she's saying that men are

02:35:41.600 getting lazy and dating that's her point we can even double down with this area and like how expensive

02:35:47.420 this area is in particular and things like that it's like it's santa barbara problem but even but

02:35:52.360 even no no that's that's what's weird about it i'm saying it's like well i mean people are definitely

02:35:57.100 struggling i mean even with all that you should be able to tell people like fuck no like you know i

02:36:02.060 earned this myself maybe the problem is trying to move out here even if you do like them they

02:36:06.580 should respect you if they like you they'll respect you when you say no but i think the problem is like

02:36:11.260 from what you've said earlier is that you win on dates because you want a friend and like you're

02:36:15.540 kind of filling time and like looking for a companion so i think you're probably just not

02:36:19.100 picking the kind of men who are paying for dates and that's no shade to you like i like hanging out

02:36:23.460 with people as well i think it's probably just the people that you're picking you should be a

02:36:27.740 little more selective i don't like go on like dates where you would like pay for something like

02:36:32.280 supper yeah with guys who i don't think i like very much that's like a walk okay can i ask a

02:36:36.620 question are you so you said this has happened like at least 10 times or so yeah probably okay

02:36:42.880 and are you going more so to like sit down restaurants sometimes and or sometimes it's like

02:36:48.280 go to the counter a second day have a burger you go to the counter and order

02:36:51.560 no first date but it's happening on second dates too you're still paying

02:36:59.720 well like on the first date i don't we don't we walk like we like it doesn't cost money like he has

02:37:06.180 to get himself there okay so on okay so on first dates you don't go for like food or drinks or

02:37:10.420 anything okay so this is this is happening on second dates that's why are you propose hold on are you

02:37:16.380 proposing the walking date or are they me because i i don't so then but okay so if you're initiating

02:37:22.420 the first date are you not then initiating the second date i didn't initiate the date i just chose

02:37:27.280 the but you said men are lazy men are lazy because i go on dates with them and they don't pay

02:37:32.080 but that's never been the case for a first date because you only go on walking dates and you ask for

02:37:37.140 the walking dates so second dates you're asking for the second date or they're asking for this the

02:37:42.280 second date it depends like it depends on the it's not like the same every time so second dates that

02:37:49.560 they ask for you're encountering men that are not willing to pay yes the bill yes even though they're

02:37:56.520 asking for it correct okay and so are you offering to pay no i'm not offering i get put in a position

02:38:06.200 where i feel like i have to so give us an example give us three examples i feel like i have

02:38:10.880 okay well so the waiter comes yes and then puts okay uh hope you guys had a good meal

02:38:19.560 i'm the waiter what happens explain it to me i'll kind of like sit there and like i always will like

02:38:27.040 fuck around with my purse or my wallet just to like seem courteous yes exactly you want to see like

02:38:33.000 what's gonna happen here what's going to unfold and then at that point sometimes they really don't

02:38:39.440 pick up their wallet and they might be on their phone they might have gotten up to leave and then

02:38:44.840 i'm kind of like oh fuck like you get anxious and you don't think about it you're just like well

02:38:49.420 it's okay it's not that big of a deal it's only like 20 like there you go and it's just done you

02:38:55.300 want it off your hands i'm not going to be like confrontational yeah i just might not see them again

02:38:59.320 after that but like it's not one of those things where i'm going to be like oh you should pay or like

02:39:03.220 we need to do this what do you think about like bringing cash to your dates and you just kind of

02:39:07.480 yeah you also don't have to be you don't have to be confrontational but you also need to be

02:39:12.320 assertive if that's what you want like it's not even assertive it's like oh hey we're splitting this

02:39:17.900 well yeah that's what i'm saying just be like just saying like hey are we splitting this or or

02:39:22.800 what's going on here and then they say oh like i'm really tight on money right now like i can't do it

02:39:29.880 and then so then say pay for your own meal then how many times has that actually happened

02:39:34.240 has that happened more than one time yes it's happened listen i've been different guys different

02:39:39.460 guys how many different guys has a guy said the checks come oh i'm tight on money half the time

02:39:45.340 i go on a date which i have been on quite a few that happens that's also like if they're tight on

02:39:50.840 money and they can't pay for their own meal go wash dishes in the back baby you did it to yourself

02:39:53.900 you did it to yourself okay but what makes it this seems i this is i i believe you it just

02:40:01.000 sounds very no she makes a point lazy is like you can't even pay your own way i would say that's

02:40:08.300 what makes it lazy why are you going out for a lobster dinner if you can't pay for your lobster

02:40:12.120 dinner it's a 20 day the type of guy who's okay going on a 20 date i wouldn't expect him to pay

02:40:18.260 hold on hold on that's not true that's let's go nicolette i hold on that's not true i'm totally

02:40:22.780 fine with a 20 date i just i you need to pay your own way or let me know beforehand instead of me

02:40:28.440 being stuck there with a bill even mcdonald's isn't even 20 i'll fuck up mcdonald's on the first date

02:40:33.900 listen i'll get a 20 i'll pick you up in my car and i'll drive us to mcdonald's right now

02:40:39.020 i don't care i'll be your sugar but my question is like i just feel like you're describing the fact

02:40:47.000 that you had to pay as like the men are lazy but like for the multiple years years ago where men

02:40:52.660 were meant to pay were the women lazy that's silly that's silly i even want to scratch that

02:40:58.480 idea the lazy the how are they lazy as in they go to this dinner they they're there and you don't

02:41:03.920 even like present the idea of being like let's split the bill laziness would be like like i don't

02:41:11.580 even know what laziness would be it seems like you're shy you're being taken advantage of work

02:41:15.700 behind what's happening lack of communication hold on lol paladins donated two hundred dollars

02:41:21.600 if you run into one broke dude you ran into run into one broke dude if you only run into broke

02:41:28.120 dudes you are the problem she's picking dudes only on disappearance and riz i don't think that's

02:41:33.680 necessarily true i think she might just be shy do they speak english oh i'm shy yeah i'm really shy

02:41:38.460 do they speak english are they fluent in english yes okay well do you i'm really shy i mean you're

02:41:44.080 young and you're meeting even if you're not shy well even if you're not shy i'm here because i'm

02:41:49.260 shy coffee dates maybe just exclusively coffee dates or worst case scenario that can be your

02:41:54.600 just one sec guys lol paladins thank you let me just read this really quick uh john green okay how

02:41:59.320 many women do you think would have to be respected after before sex considering stds wait what that

02:42:04.440 doesn't make any sense what would their body count be before how many women do you think would have

02:42:07.740 to be respected after before sex that doesn't make any sense this is when we were talking about oh

02:42:12.260 this is a while it's a while ago but what does it mean 20 minutes ago john green by the way send it

02:42:16.980 through stream labs if you can i mean youtube's fine but youtube takes that big percentage so thank

02:42:22.960 you john green appreciate it man appreciate it i don't understand the question really though do you

02:42:26.760 guys get what he's asking if it's something about stds i do ask about like when's last time you got

02:42:31.880 stds sexual partners i always ask about that for you you should always respect them before sex

02:42:37.060 not after not after does that i'm kidding does that answer your question after you go get tested

02:42:46.160 still right i still do it right i have a feeling he's saying like would we really be considering

02:42:51.100 respecting a woman if we have to consider stds meaning she's had so many partners that like you

02:42:56.600 have to consider stds he's saying he's saying about like would we consider it only takes one

02:43:02.060 she does whatever you need to consider she's gonna do whatever mckenna does whatever she does

02:43:10.940 whatever that's kind of frisky there mckenna thank you all right uh wait so anyways going back to

02:43:16.280 this uh okay so i want to give you a couple strategies here okay first off you gotta just like

02:43:22.820 debts if at the end if the waiter brings the the bill i'm giving you game here right uh you gotta

02:43:29.820 just you can't be oh let me look through my purse try to do the whole like uh token oh you want should

02:43:35.640 you want me to get this no you gotta just sit there sit there and just fucking look at him yep

02:43:41.840 but then what if i'm a bitch like i don't want to be a bitch well this is your opportunity

02:43:46.560 would have no money wait oh wait here's another question any of these guys who made you pay on the

02:43:51.960 second date did you smash them oh don't tell me it ain't so damn good for them good for those guys

02:44:01.520 good for those guys alpha stand up oh let's go wait did you have carnal knowledge you gotta be

02:44:08.780 pick a different phrase carnal knowledge um s and uh p and the v

02:44:15.500 yeah so no it's fine um not all of them well if you're gonna reward them for bad behavior and not

02:44:23.380 do anything that's gangster son i think you need to have a much more clear line of communication

02:44:31.980 before they get a cell phone from the government okay they got an obama phone no i think you should

02:44:38.320 just have these conversations before you go out and it seems like you do because it's on the second

02:44:41.700 day but be like hey this is what i'm looking for if this is not what you're looking for wait are these

02:44:46.220 you said you date like only mexican guys were these like mexican guys sometimes yes i thought like

02:44:52.120 mexican guys were super traditional like more not from oxnare they are most of the time no but they're

02:44:57.260 more like traditional i was like mine do you like that's crazy yourself as having a lot of money

02:45:04.420 like do you say oh i'm just here i don't have a job i think she's actually an heiress to a

02:45:08.020 i'm just existing like i'm wearing like normal clothes like i'm i'm not even wealthy i'm just like

02:45:14.780 me like i think they do assume that though because they assume that because i'm like not in school i

02:45:19.480 don't work but i'm still existing and have been do they have and in santa barbara california yeah

02:45:25.040 literally yeah and i have like i don't have a beater car like they kind of do you have your own

02:45:30.280 place no i don't have my own place you have a roommate or housemate i have a housemate okay

02:45:34.980 detective mike hunt donated two hundred dollars oh yes they were brave and decent men he's a brave

02:45:43.940 and a decent man he's a pioneer these men are pioneering i gotta i gotta get some game from these

02:45:49.260 guys they're they're hold on the girl is paying for the date and they're still it's manipulation

02:45:56.320 do you want to manipulate people wait how are they manipulating yeah but at what cost like

02:46:01.320 these guys are a guilt trip like if someone's telling you i'm dirt poor like i really i really

02:46:08.500 like you like you're so beautiful like i really want to see you but like i just really don't have

02:46:12.700 the money like this week maybe next week like what are you gonna do you're getting finessed

02:46:17.160 you're getting finessed i'm sorry if you're you you're going out to dinner with him you shouldn't

02:46:22.780 have seen him in the first place he can't even pay for his own portion of the meal oh if that's the

02:46:27.400 case if he's like oh i'm so i'll do it next week i'm so sorry i'm so broke then he should have waited

02:46:31.840 till next week this is crazy this is a crazy conversation wait okay hold on well i don't think

02:46:37.000 there's anything necessarily wrong first off i think they're lying they probably do have money

02:46:40.940 but they're they're probably just using you secondly send a venmo request secondly i think that

02:46:46.820 sorry interrupted i feel like men just think that they look bad to women if they don't pay so like

02:46:54.640 they have to kind of find a way to get them to pay so it's not necessarily manipulation in my eyes

02:46:59.060 but it's like find a way to get kind of like they want they have the money maybe they're just lying

02:47:03.540 about it because they're like hey like i don't know how to tell you that like i'm not i'm not

02:47:07.120 gonna pay for the date like i think you should pay yeah i just like men get looked down on if they

02:47:13.960 don't pay for it so they kind of have to make an excuse so in addition to splitting the bill or even

02:47:18.360 paying for the whole bill you said driving so you'll pick these dudes up on occasion and then you'll

02:47:23.420 also you put in more time i guess um ah man it sucks i'm not happy about it and i hear like

02:47:30.980 the table saying that like yeah that's that's the consensus is like this is your fault like

02:47:35.860 no i don't think it's your fault no i don't think it's your fault at all i think oh whoa i feel like

02:47:41.660 we're missing no i think you're young and i think there's a lack of like communication and a lack of

02:47:46.320 like boundaries that you're comfortable with i don't mean it in a way that it's your fault i'm

02:47:51.500 just trying to be like oh you should just be more careful you don't have to allow yourself to

02:47:56.180 continue yes going through this and you deserve a lot better i do want to say when i said you

02:48:00.680 when i said you might have been shy earlier you seemed like you were a little like upset by me

02:48:04.140 saying that and i i didn't mean that it was just me like trying to engage with like what exactly is

02:48:08.580 going on like i was just trying to figure it out like if you're not shy you're not shy city boys but

02:48:14.660 city boys summer i i do think you should probably you know vet these men out before you go on dates

02:48:21.820 with them if you don't like the dates that you're going on if you don't like that you're picking

02:48:26.000 them up you don't like that they're that you're paying for their their dinner blah blah blah you

02:48:30.400 should say tell them before you go on the date i'm not paying for your dinner i'm not picking you up

02:48:34.220 it seems like you're really uncomfortable hold on hold on hold on hold on this is crazy though

02:48:39.260 because like i've never encountered a girl who's like asked me like hey do you have enough to at

02:48:45.380 least pay for your meal like the fact like she's admirable really the girl like it's a bold

02:48:53.120 i can't at least as a girl like the the minimum should be you're at least gonna you're gonna pay

02:48:58.060 your thing he's gonna pay his that's a given like that's that's a fair minimum that's a given a lot

02:49:03.140 of guys are just gonna pay for the whole meal but the fact that they're the guy as a male you're

02:49:08.800 going on a date and not at least expecting to pay for your own shit that's weird like i've never

02:49:14.600 i mean you should just at the end of the day that's weird you should i have enough next week

02:49:18.320 that's like no at the end of the day you just shouldn't pay for their stuff if you don't want

02:49:22.720 that would be weird to do with a friend like if you're meeting up with a friend for food

02:49:26.240 and like i pay for their shit all the time with that oh no but if you don't bring it like

02:49:31.680 you should always have your own money that's oh no you should always have your own money but you

02:49:35.920 should also be ready to tell people no at the same time or beta bucks be the alpha fucks that gets

02:49:41.380 the woman to buy you dinner if you're buying her food she sees you as a provider trend harder

02:49:46.240 i only buy dinner for brian oh yeah dude he's eating good tonight

02:49:50.780 god does that mean he's an af call me brian i want a free meal okay paladin thank you bro

02:49:58.340 identify as brian i identify as brian lol paladins thank you bro i'm a paladin actually i'm a level 11

02:50:04.700 blood elf paladin you're a level 11 i just started last night i renewed my wow subscription i'm busy for

02:50:09.500 the next couple months good to know thank you for sharing yeah that's crazy man you got you got

02:50:15.280 to talk to a doctor about that or something i think no i think you're just a sweet girl and you enjoy

02:50:20.860 the company but i think you should you need you should set more boundaries you should set more

02:50:24.600 boundaries definitely walking all over you what yeah besides just the fact that you like mexican

02:50:29.100 guys what else is your type guys who don't like blasted in tats guys who have no money no that

02:50:34.320 doesn't necessarily matter um i like the hair like curly hair like physically like that's more

02:50:41.540 important than what do they call that haircut the curly hair haircut doesn't matter just like i thought

02:50:47.180 it was called the edgar he said no i don't think she's referring to that what's the age range of the

02:50:52.380 guys they're like all all over like anywhere from like 19 to like 30 what's the oldest guy who made

02:51:00.100 you pay that's tough it's like 35 28 that's crazy that's some that's some game right there yeah

02:51:09.480 i gotta meet these dudes these guys are some fucking legends game that's just like taking

02:51:14.020 advantage of someone who hasn't yet kind of game hasn't yet stepped into her own boundaries it's

02:51:19.200 kind of game would we ever say hold on would we ever say any of this shit in the reverse though

02:51:25.000 because hell yeah that's game as fuck no men are overwhelmingly paying for first dates paying the

02:51:30.060 whole bill um if i get a 28 year old man to pay for my meal that's game as hell it's just me

02:51:34.020 that's normal that's you think it's game to get a guy to pay for your dinner no because i usually pay

02:51:38.620 for my own shit oh yeah but it's not game you think it's game to make a guy pay for your dinner listen

02:51:43.100 i got games that's like the default no no that's the default no no i have game oh yeah okay

02:51:49.320 yeah yeah i think it's the default if that's what are you saying i have no game no you have you have

02:51:54.760 he might have a little more game than you just no actually you know what though just a little more

02:52:00.640 i i actually don't i think she does have game paying for men's meals explain like the naivete

02:52:06.620 thing that's game yeah that is game i mean like that's her brain that's game naivete no no but

02:52:12.920 hold on because if the game went hard enough her meal would be paid for if the game went if the

02:52:18.620 game went hard enough her meal would be paid for she's just not playing the game right yeah

02:52:22.840 you're playing the game but you gotta just tell you you gotta play it the other way and get your

02:52:27.240 that's also called manipulation just for reference you should do that just for reference i think you

02:52:32.600 should do that i don't think this is like me being naive i think that i like can see what's going

02:52:37.320 on i know that they're manipulating me i know that they probably have the money and i just like

02:52:41.800 feel fucking bad and it works like i'm sorry like i can be manipulated like it you're just too sweet

02:52:46.940 you're honestly just too sweet you really gotta tell people it's such a strange coincidence though

02:52:51.280 that you've ran into so many men that won't even pay their bill

02:52:55.220 i've never gone into a date like that i asked for expecting her to pay for that it's just different

02:53:09.540 people that's like next level i props to them what do you think about women inviting you on a date

02:53:15.100 do you expect she she would pay the whole bill if she invites you on a date what do you think about

02:53:19.360 that at least half huh or at least half i mean i'd go in like yeah probably like half or if she

02:53:24.100 wants to pay for it fine but i'd be prepared to at least pay half but if she asked me out and she's

02:53:28.720 like you pay i'd be like oh okay well yeah that's that's actually you know what i probably still

02:53:33.440 would bet because you'd be like dang are you easily manipulated too i mean it's a 10 20 meal

02:53:38.840 i don't know where are you going damn what the hell in and out in and out we had we had arby's the

02:53:45.820 other day it was kind of hit it was expensive 15 arby's was expensive but i mean this brings up like

02:53:50.340 what kind of first date etiquette like maybe go out for coffee or like tea instead of like a steak

02:53:54.480 dinner at you know what this is my this is my soft guy era drizzle drizzle yeah actually girls

02:53:59.700 girls should pay for the first date what i agree next time for all first dates soft guy summer i

02:54:07.460 don't know i think it depends on the kind of relationship that you want i think it depends

02:54:11.080 on the kind of relationship that you want you're looking for for sure if you're looking for like

02:54:14.460 a relationship like that's super traditional where you want a man to provide or whatever the

02:54:17.600 hell it makes sense that he would pay on the first date if you are liberal and you don't give a

02:54:20.620 fuck okay pay on the first date then yeah so men are lazy though no no no she said that in any

02:54:26.920 other ways that was the is it just like paying for the date thing is that's how they're lazy

02:54:31.400 is it also like sex too like they only want you on top

02:54:35.000 tmi that lapsed in it from below dial nothing nothing i didn't say nothing i didn't say god damn

02:54:44.940 why is it okay ladies uh what's happening hey yo ladies uh how's your day going

02:54:52.580 is that it though is that i mean i don't know we have nothing to add guys are lazy i guess

02:54:59.240 no i want to know like i feel like it's easy for you guys to say like if you were in that position

02:55:04.540 this is what you would do but it doesn't sound like many of you guys have been in the position

02:55:08.040 where you have felt like you had to pay regularly on dates so it's like oh yeah like you should just

02:55:12.860 say like fuck off but like no what would you actually say i don't think you need to say fuck off

02:55:17.180 some people really do have the confidence you don't need to get aggressive you don't need to

02:55:21.780 get aggressive and fight them you just say i'm paying for my own meal throw hands you should be

02:55:25.880 like wait what's that thing from borat oh it's like my wife you'll never get this yeah you'll never

02:55:32.740 get this you know what you're not gonna pay you always wait if you do the borat voice guaranteed

02:55:37.640 winning with a statement i i would never say fuck off i would say at least let's split like even if

02:55:43.380 they ordered more than me i would be like okay you can only say like oh sorry i only have enough

02:55:47.060 for mine like you can split the bill you can do that too yeah also too to answer your question i've

02:55:51.520 been on sorry go ahead i've been on a lot of first dates and i've never paid so i don't know like

02:55:58.860 wait let's go let's go like you get the whole thing you would never get this

02:56:05.900 go ahead go ahead i no just do your no go ahead just do your it's not that we've never been in

02:56:13.240 that position before it's that we understand the position that you're in and i i i hope that you

02:56:18.580 will get to a point where you can tell people no i want you to get to a point where you can tell

02:56:22.520 people no i'm not i have a few things because it seems like you don't want to pay for it you don't

02:56:26.120 like it do you like paying for their meal play it nick oh so then so then i

02:56:31.100 i don't want i'm not paying for your stuff just my sister she showed her vagina to

02:56:38.180 my brother below and say you will never get this you will never get this

02:56:42.840 you can stop it i love borat god damn i feel like we're not getting the whole story on this

02:56:54.860 you know what i mean oh i'm sorry i keep playing with this clip god damn it stop it i have my hands

02:57:00.240 i need adhd yeah she needs adhd i need the ddd what the

02:57:06.920 anyways oh i will say though like is the audio we're trying sorry sorry uh okay anyways so men

02:57:18.080 are lazy though men are lazy they're not putting in enough effort yes well i think they're putting

02:57:24.300 in a lot of effort to get you to pay every time i feel like there's a group chat like that seems

02:57:29.500 weird like one after another that seems odd anyways we're gonna move on we've been talking

02:57:34.120 about this for a little too long i want to come back kill of cereal i don't know if he's still in

02:57:37.720 the chat he was he asked about the most embarrassing date was that what he asked from you

02:57:42.980 no i think it was it was from you wasn't it for the whole panel no he said brian what's yours

02:57:48.040 yeah what's yours oh wait i thought you asked the whole panel no you go with you out of frame

02:57:52.980 oh sorry sorry i try to tell us yours it's hold on let me look at what he actually wrote hold on

02:57:59.140 a sec guys it's probably about you probably so you could just skip it and then ha ha brian he says

02:58:06.340 what's up ladies he says what's up ladies and brian question what is the most embarrassing thing you

02:58:12.320 can remember doing or happening to you on any dates i don't think i've had anything too embarrassing

02:58:18.380 to be honest one time i was on the first date with this girl barely spoke english japanese chick

02:58:24.440 we're at this like dive bar super dark and i accidentally spill wine all over her oh no

02:58:33.080 nothing too embarrassing toughie unfortunately i did not that did you pay for the wine yeah i paid

02:58:40.140 i was super apologetic it was an accident i just like i don't know the couple's on the table and i was

02:58:45.320 doing your moves you're showing her some moves fucking this spilled over fucking red or white

02:58:52.500 one red one oh you gotta pay for her outfit too i said sorry and then uh can you pay for my wine

02:59:01.840 what about you most embarrassing thing i mean i've only been on two first dates of my life so how

02:59:08.360 about okay hanging out with a guy most embarrassing thing any guy michelle 92 donated 200

02:59:14.400 good for them these guys are fucking legends trucker here met my fiancee six years ago and engaged

02:59:21.580 for almost a year paid for 99 of our meals even if money is a bit tight she rarely pays they gots to do

02:59:30.460 better i'm confused it's a w when a girl well i'm confused because your your your donators are saying

02:59:37.500 that they pay for a meal but they're also saying you know women are you know greedy gold diggers and

02:59:42.880 disgusting well i agree with the person i don't know what's going on you paying for our meals do

02:59:46.760 you do you hate that you pay for our meals both oh well i don't know i don't know who said it but

02:59:52.380 somebody said if you're looking more for traditional then it makes more sense but i personally think even

02:59:56.740 if you're looking for if you're looking for traditional i feel like the woman should pay and the

03:00:01.060 only reason why i say that is because at the end of the day we're looking for providers so how do we

03:00:05.500 prove that we're capable of having them as no they prove that so we would like they prove that

03:00:10.180 they're a provider by paying for the meal they prove they can provide how would we prove that

03:00:14.660 we're worthy of having them being a good person yeah just it's it's a very first thing being a

03:00:20.340 sweet woman being being enjoyable being a put-together woman not someone that can raise

03:00:26.520 your children dollars babe no no burger women receive first like it's the guy that should be taking

03:00:33.320 initiative and then you show because we have to bear your child hello maybe that part most terrible

03:00:39.180 argument for why it's the best argument it's such a good argument all the men who've ever paid for

03:00:44.060 a first date for you i've never how many children yeah not me baby you're not gonna get me okay fine

03:00:51.380 you've dated men right yeah i was in relationships you've hooked up with men right no i haven't you've

03:00:56.540 well i was like yeah well i was like in high school these girls have never dated anybody but

03:01:03.000 they have like a body count of 20 my body is actually 87 i dated one guy for four years and

03:01:09.280 i had a little bit okay no no i guess i was like i was in high school and it wasn't like serious like

03:01:14.300 i was just like yeah but when i use the word date it's not like you you're both he's in a tuxedo

03:01:19.340 you're in a super nice dress no no me neither a couple times no no no i had i had two real

03:01:25.540 boyfriends like real date and then other than that it was just like fucking hookups like it

03:01:29.680 didn't mean anything that was before i got into relationships did they take you out no i never

03:01:34.700 went on a date or anything okay no i was like 17 i was 17 i didn't know what it meant to like

03:01:39.980 date another human being but like this whole argument of well i birth children therefore you

03:01:44.680 should pay well hold on birthing children is really fucks you up it fucks your body up it fucks

03:01:49.320 your mind up it destroys your career so there are girls i would say probably you have to give

03:01:55.220 a lot to have a kid a lot of girls will go on dozens if not over a hundred dates before they

03:02:00.900 meet the guy who will finally give them a child sure so what do you say to all those men that she

03:02:05.860 did not get pregnant for the justification for you having to hold on stop interrupting the justification

03:02:11.640 for you having to pay for the first date is because potentially one day you might get me

03:02:16.740 pregnant but none of them got her pregnant i don't think it's justification for the very

03:02:20.800 first date you made men should pay for dates because women get pregnant you made that argument

03:02:24.880 well i'm just here i'm just a girl the order is different like men have to kind of take the

03:02:32.760 initiative and then yeah i feel like you should take the initiative what he gets in the end is like

03:02:37.260 him kind of feeling out anyways most embarrassing date go ahead damn um again i don't really have any

03:02:43.140 embarrassing dates i guess okay okay hold on most embarrassing moment with uh a man can we like

03:02:49.800 come back to me and i think about it um i think like just like getting my period um while having

03:02:57.020 sex and then queefing blood everywhere watch yeah no that happens to the best of us

03:03:02.520 that's a fucking disgusting the best of us bro you didn't have to go there i really didn't happen

03:03:07.320 tmi damn son okay your honesty is i wanted to know i told you yeah maybe shit okay hey look you know

03:03:18.120 you just hit it i think the best strategy as a guy you just gotta ignore that shit

03:03:23.300 it's hard to respect that just i respect just you know what never mind keep hitting because

03:03:28.700 she's gonna feel bad no for the queef if she queefs you have to just ignore it because there's

03:03:35.060 blood splattering no well there's queef and the blood thing that's different but that was

03:03:38.800 if she got her period you wouldn't keep going

03:03:41.960 the blood you wouldn't keep i try to avoid i'm celibate

03:03:46.740 that's a band that's our band name that's a bannable offense blood queef what was our other

03:03:52.360 bad band name natalie's gonna be the lead singer no i think she's gonna be the lead singer

03:03:57.840 she's gonna be the lead queefist i'm the blood queefer oh fuck the lead queefist that's gonna be

03:04:02.820 the we're gonna put a mic are we gonna do an opera right now

03:04:06.040 it's like a organ it's just all these women someone's got the keys put a trumpet in there

03:04:12.980 put a flute put those deep notes this one time at band camp this one time at band camp i need a

03:04:20.440 noise for one time at band camp now i want to watch it stuck a flute in my pussy okay what's that

03:04:25.220 show called it's american no no not american pie what is it called um it's probably like trying to

03:04:32.500 think about it my ex-boyfriend's brother walked in i thought that was really embarrassing

03:04:36.700 anyways moving on what about you nicolette most embarrassing situation with the guy um so it's

03:04:46.740 more embarrassing on his part we went on a really nice date took me to this like expensive sushi

03:04:53.780 restaurant la the date went really well he ordered for me which i thought was really cool yeah um he

03:04:59.820 paid obviously and then we go back to his house we're just like sitting there watching music

03:05:05.380 videos i'm like okay like i want to get laid so i'm like oh um like show me your bedroom wait you

03:05:11.500 wanted to get laid yeah okay of course i'm sure you did too but i had to like initiate because he

03:05:16.160 wasn't he's being a pussy yeah so we're like trying to hook up and it's like his dick isn't getting hard

03:05:23.380 and that's never happened to me before so i was just like i didn't say anything about it i was just

03:05:28.580 like we can just cuddle and he was like okay so we cuddle then we start making out you know start

03:05:35.200 up again and i like told him like put on a condom because i'm not gonna like fuck him raw so he's

03:05:43.740 just like trying to get hard it's not working and then i'm like in doggy and i just feel him like

03:05:50.140 sitting there waiting no i just feel him like i don't know playing around back there trying to

03:05:54.460 figure it out so i like look back and there's no condom on his penis so i freak out and i'm like

03:06:02.420 where he didn't get in me because he was just like soft you know but like still i'm gonna freak out

03:06:07.180 because what the hell are you doing and i'm like where's the condom and we're in the middle of the

03:06:11.980 bed it's like a big bed and it's like on the floor behind you know so he's like oh it must have

03:06:19.280 fallen off and i'm like freaking out and then i start making fun of like his age he was older he's

03:06:25.100 like 42 so i'm like does this happen to you often you can't get hard um you're old this hasn't happened

03:06:31.640 to me before blah blah blah so i was just like being uh really mean but i wouldn't have done that if he

03:06:39.000 hadn't tried to fuck me without a condom because remember i didn't bring up the soft dick issue right

03:06:44.360 away it was kind of a little more dark than i was hoping well anyway anyway so i'm like a technically

03:06:51.620 no anyway so i'm a bitch to him i leave his house and then i felt so bad how um i was like bullying him

03:06:58.660 you went back to fuck him no okay i sent him flowers to his house oh this guy's not paying for dates

03:07:07.300 getting flowers he paid for the date but yeah so that was like embarrassing for him okay

03:07:14.980 um i call this the rumble stick story so hold on everyone because by the way can we try to be brief

03:07:22.920 with the yeah so okay so i was with my ex of five years and in the middle of sex or whatever you know

03:07:30.460 he's doing his thing he stops kind of you know he pulls back but he's not all the way out

03:07:34.880 farts huge fart i swear to god i felt a rumble through his dick into me the whole thing it's a

03:07:43.140 rumble stick story it was awful why are these all six stories yeah i know i'm the only one who gave a

03:07:47.500 wholesome there's no i'm from only fans would you expect a wholesome i don't know maybe that's great

03:07:54.320 no i would never anyways it was awful it was embarrassing i couldn't stop laughing i hated every

03:07:59.800 second of it but we made it through okay the question was what is the most embarrassing thing you

03:08:03.900 can remember doing or happening to you on any date i've never been on a date i've never been on a date

03:08:08.600 but it could be like a date could could that was our day involve like you guys hanging out yeah we

03:08:15.020 hung out all right all right intimacy you d jen okay we hung out all right what about you i don't

03:08:20.560 have any i don't have any embarrassing date stories okay mine's gonna be pretty lame compared to these

03:08:25.260 uh i went on a date not that long ago and i left kind of early because it wasn't super enjoyable

03:08:29.160 and i was in my uber home and i left my phone at his house so i had to like knock at his door after

03:08:33.980 like hey i left my phone there that was kind of awkward but it's not not a period queef unfortunately

03:08:41.580 i don't have one i don't have one either um i don't well the guy who that is the contender

03:08:50.820 but something i did i don't i don't drink or do drugs i've only ever smoked weed once in my life and

03:08:56.460 i was it was this guy who had just started dating and i was like trying to be cool so i i took a hit

03:09:01.740 i don't even know like what it was and like five minutes later i just fell down and passed out

03:09:08.500 for like two hours and apparently i like came to and i was like no we are going to dinner and went to

03:09:16.280 dinner and it's funny because i don't eat like anything that's fried or like seed oil stuff and then

03:09:21.180 ate a bunch of fried gator apparently and i don't really remember it damn crazy girl madison

03:09:28.480 come on you got you got stories there's gotta be one come on one time in tijuana

03:09:35.800 tijuana this one i said the most insane thing you could say a little something

03:09:40.880 there's more than one tijuana story when we went oh you and him oh right hold on i took brian to

03:09:54.160 tijuana okay never happened that's crazy all right that sounds amazing anyways uh mckenna i really want

03:10:03.220 to know how vermont girl makes money why is it such a secret what kind of car do you drive because you

03:10:07.160 say you pick up the guys what kind of car do you drive um it's a mercedes suv i have so many

03:10:13.260 what's the msrp what car does everyone drive msrp um i i will say i bought mine lightly used so it

03:10:22.480 wasn't like how many what year uh 2021 oh okay used so like 60k um i think like brand new they go for

03:10:32.380 like 55 maybe 50 i don't know so used it was what i'm not gonna say oh can i ask how many

03:10:40.140 horsepower is that how many miles were on it a few okay kelly blue book that shit 2021 uh 2021

03:10:47.720 mercedes suv gla how do you make wait you just i think she's manipulating all of us i just want to

03:10:54.300 know how many horsepower it is wait wait i just want to know how many horsepower it is it's not like

03:10:59.340 super fast it's not how many horsepower it's just like okay you answer every question except for how

03:11:07.280 do you make money somehow like all of her answers leave me with more questions yeah quick me yeah

03:11:14.560 okay sorry i actually understand the point of view of this girl she has my sympathy it's hard to show up

03:11:19.200 to a date in a porsche and then not be willing to pay for a hamburger for sure for sure yeah you sell

03:11:27.680 drugs i don't sell or do drugs i'm sober to sell any illicit black market shit i'm getting a narc on

03:11:37.380 herself that's so true okay uh good talk uh let's see we have a couple chats here we'll get to really

03:11:43.100 quick mckenna does whatever did i miss it how does charming fork make her money i totally want to know

03:11:48.560 charming thank you mckenna does whatever she does the whatever podcast i guess you gotta dm the

03:11:56.420 instagram page if you want to be on the whatever okay whatever how does vermont girl make her damn

03:12:01.660 money mckenna is really invested we all are in how you make your money mckenna how do you make your

03:12:07.520 by the way nick on the split can you change it to black sorry but the cushion oh my bad uh just go

03:12:17.020 ahead do you want to answer the question click on color source me answer yeah you can talk and then

03:12:23.760 answer what question perfect um if you want to answer how you make your money that's what mckenna's

03:12:29.640 asking um i like make a little money but i mostly just have money you got stocks i have some yeah gme

03:12:38.740 she has bitcoin actually do you have any crypto just a little she started bitcoin you got some

03:12:46.260 i don't really fully trust it but what do you got doge are you a doge into the doge no she but you

03:12:54.680 know ethereum bitcoin a little bit a little bit i told you bitcoin i don't know right kind of

03:13:01.980 wait when you asked the msrp she said i don't know i didn't buy it who bought it no i bought it

03:13:07.660 with my money um i meant like i i didn't get to finish i didn't buy it brand new so i don't know

03:13:12.320 what the like msrp for like a brand new version of my car i mean it's everyone's asking how she got

03:13:18.860 her money i mean uh not to be like flippant about it but like your parents passed away when you were

03:13:23.700 young i don't know what kind of estate they left to you but i was i would assume there was some degree

03:13:28.040 of inheritance is that fair to assume um some but like i will be like so like blunt and so

03:13:34.780 straightforward like i grew up poor as fuck like we were in poverty like constantly like my dad left

03:13:40.820 me nothing he died with like a shit ton of like credit card debt so your dad left you nothing

03:13:45.180 absolutely nothing except a bunch of shitty clothes what about mom um mom she had like a life insurance

03:13:51.720 policy which is like a smidgen so you're not helping your case i know i don't know so it wasn't your

03:13:57.560 parents you know how you make your money you know how you make your money you're just not saying it

03:14:02.200 at least say that say i know how i make my money i'm just not saying it well like honestly i don't

03:14:07.860 because i feel like it's just in there she's just so land funds your life where did it come from

03:14:12.760 i also do that like it's just in my account like i don't know it just shows up i know that i invest

03:14:18.960 a little here and there like sometimes i do like you said you said you grew up poor your father left

03:14:24.760 you with nothing your mother had that life insurance policy that could have i don't know

03:14:30.060 i'm not familiar with life insurance how much it would pay out in this sort of situation my mom but

03:14:35.740 you said it wasn't a lot no well you haven't i guess that's subjective i guess that's subjective

03:14:42.520 i'm assuming you paid at least 40 000 for that uh mercedes around there right

03:14:49.260 it's a lot of money wait are you getting this money she lives in santa barbara which is one of

03:14:59.300 the highest cost of living cities a hundred percent uh in the in the united states what bank is this

03:15:06.140 that it just shows up because it's a random like rogue bank in montana because i used to live in

03:15:11.060 montana huh and money just shows she's a mystery you're lord so a man funds her life she hasn't

03:15:17.580 said no so i know are you a assassin obviously i'm an assassin yeah that's me for sure for sure

03:15:29.960 so you always what other options aren't you what do you guys think chat maybe she had a really good

03:15:38.140 job before she stopped working it could have been in there from no she she talked about her

03:15:42.260 past job yeah she's too young to have gotten into bitcoin oh yeah what no i mean look she could have

03:15:48.780 been like one of these like 11 year olds or some shit nfts she made so nobody nobody made money on

03:15:56.400 nfts didn't that like eight year old make weird money they're all saying escort sugar baby s have you

03:16:01.980 done escorting no that's what every girl she's paying for the dates yeah it's just

03:16:08.120 it's not adding up it doesn't add up to me either but i'm glad i'm happy yeah but you would

03:16:14.080 know your own yeah circumstances i swear i don't like i know i know how money gets into my bank she

03:16:20.240 just has somebody else's credit card i would like to not know where all this money came from

03:16:24.520 she stole it whatever she's got it now i just i have more questions each time we ask her

03:16:37.520 she answers it's a mystery boys um can you can you read this one you want me to read it yeah um okay

03:16:47.220 they say sounds like life insurance policy awarded to trust trust managed by bank she magically receives

03:16:55.060 this dispersion yeah i can read um yeah i mean that's part of it what's the other part part of

03:17:04.640 it like all sorts of things like i don't know what do you do like odd jobs here and there i do okay

03:17:11.640 odd jobs okay so somewhat of a all right we're not we won't press her too much uh we were going oh

03:17:17.680 you're embarrassing thing did you embarrassing thing oh it was you asked to skip right well yeah

03:17:24.660 i mean yeah i guess like a family member walking in that's oh okay it's not that embarrassing yeah

03:17:30.240 that's good good to know it's not all right let's get back to the pre-show notes here uh let's see

03:17:35.600 we're gonna go to back to nikki you said hookup culture is a lie we've been fed are you going from

03:17:43.320 like our dms from a year ago yeah your pre-show notes oh okay yeah you said you dated a guy from

03:17:49.020 an old nickelodeon show but he ends up being a huge racist what's the story though i told that the last

03:17:55.420 time i was on yeah it was 10 second story then i guess yeah it was just like i thought it was a

03:18:01.220 regular guy i thought he was gonna be really cool uh we went out and like we go back uh we're driving

03:18:07.100 back and he's like so anyway i think certain race of people aren't as smart because they are certain

03:18:13.280 race and i just went is this a joke is this a real thing that's great and i was like oh this is he

03:18:19.660 probably just has really weird off-the-wall humor i guess and then he doubled down and just kind of kept

03:18:26.400 going and i was like you know what you can just i'm gonna go it was just the most awkward experience

03:18:32.240 of my life that he was not kidding and i was like wow ruin that show for me 90s nick or y2k

03:18:38.480 y2k 90s nick all right is that like all that yeah you said slightly rational deal deal breakers that

03:18:47.480 shouldn't be deal breakers but totally are mine is anyone who likes country music immediate no

03:18:51.740 i still don't like country music ironically enough law paladins looking forward to the

03:18:57.840 caleb hammer whatever podcast collaboration taquitos taquitos taquitos who is caleb hammer

03:19:03.900 doesn't he do the like the audits on your bank account i don't know i don't know who that is

03:19:09.640 a guy from texas who like goes through your bank statements oh so he's gonna audit her okay

03:19:13.640 sounds good uh we'll we'll get her back on the show with caleb i guess uh anyways and then

03:19:21.100 you said red pill culture is also bullshit what do you mean so kind of like the people in the chat

03:19:27.300 saying like oh these guys are legends like they're getting girls to pay for dates like is that really

03:19:32.460 the kind of person you want to be like tricking people into paying for wait how's it tricking

03:19:36.760 people i mean well at least in abby's case the whole like oh i'm sorry like i don't have money

03:19:43.260 and she's thinking they probably do and then some people are like what a legend like odd thing to

03:19:48.600 idolize in my opinion my question i is it more red pill culture or uh more like blue pill culture

03:19:57.240 with that point which one is which which one's which red is what blue is what conservative right

03:20:03.680 leaning so like isn't it isn't it more like uh democratic left leaning to be like having um women

03:20:10.840 pay for dates i thought red pill was like the like all women are 304 yes you just that is red pill but

03:20:17.280 okay but if if women are paying for dates dates that's usually under the category of like oh it's

03:20:24.160 a more like a liberal point of view or like left leaning because it's like usually men are the

03:20:29.440 providers of like their red pill point of view i would say just the the red pill culture that has

03:20:34.460 anything to do with like treat women however you want and they're not worth any type of respect like

03:20:40.740 that's what i think of when i think of red pill culture um i feel like that is not conducive to a

03:20:46.520 good society it kind of pits people against each other and since men are in my opinion the initiators

03:20:51.440 and the providers the leaders really uh women are kind of more in the responding section of that

03:20:59.280 so it's hard for women to stand up and be like no we don't really want to do this because it's more

03:21:04.440 natural for us to lead and follow so okay yeah i would say that you also said men aren't the enemy

03:21:10.220 it's women acting out of line what do you mean by that wild take no that's what you said oh i know

03:21:16.960 what i said um i was thinking more of like the the really crazy liberal feminists that are like

03:21:23.060 kind of parading around like proud that they're getting abortions like proud of just like sleeping

03:21:28.580 around and like it makes me so sad and it just makes me wonder like are you truly happy living

03:21:35.420 this way or have you been so hurt by your past experiences that you're trying to use anything

03:21:40.040 to cope and kind of make it empowering so yeah i feel like there's been a lot of uh do you think

03:21:47.660 there are men who have you know you know done that hurt to women who are you know proud of the hurt that

03:21:53.940 they've done to that there's yeah it's on both sides anyone who's proud to hurt people is reactionary

03:21:59.400 on women's side or do you think what is it on women's side i think it's hard to make that kind

03:22:04.460 of generalization because there's there's made a huge generalization generalization you said women

03:22:09.460 the women out of line are bad for society and now you don't want to make a generalization make a

03:22:13.160 generalization you already did i think anyone acting out of out of line like anyone proud to

03:22:19.000 manipulate people men or women is is wrong so why are you focusing specifically on the woman

03:22:25.440 though to do it i can sorry i'm a little i got a little tired in that minute there but i'm here

03:22:32.100 i'm here now i'm fighting someone bring chick-fil-a it smells like it smells like chick-fil-a

03:22:38.020 it smells like chick-fil-a uh no but i'm saying you brought up uh you brought up something against

03:22:42.460 women but you didn't say anything like oh but men do this as well you didn't say you know i can bring up

03:22:47.580 i can bring up context as well a little bit but it's fine that's that's the whole point of this

03:22:51.380 questions i just want to know you know what actually prompts a lot of these questions i

03:22:56.320 don't know if we can talk about these topics so i'll let brian they probably but what's

03:23:00.960 let it out give me a little details i'll see if it's fine like i don't know if i want to go here

03:23:07.480 women being very

03:23:09.900 supportive of people who aren't actually women saying that they're now women oh like trans yeah

03:23:19.100 i don't know if that's allowed it's pride month let's let's just drop the subject yeah

03:23:22.740 well oh i thought you said get into it i got excited let's drop it let's get into this as in

03:23:28.160 like let's like i feel like that's not advocating for women well i mean yeah but we were talking we

03:23:35.200 were talking about trans people we were talking about men talk about certain subjects during

03:23:39.440 pride month on your podcast and that's also not great either like you can't even not supporting

03:23:44.380 certain viewpoints and it's yeah is that yeah which is very adamant about supporting certain

03:23:48.740 viewpoints so i feel like you should drop i also want to say that i wasn't talking about trans

03:23:52.020 people i was talking about men specifically what do you want to talk about well you dropped you

03:23:56.200 dropped something about women specifically so i was like so why not bring up anything that men have

03:24:00.980 done why is it that it's a woman's issue rather than i can bring up i can bring up both i mean

03:24:06.200 there's sure places where like men are at fault and there's places where women are at fault so in

03:24:10.420 that specific issue that you brought up is it just a woman's issue or do men have any played a part

03:24:15.760 of course i have a part so what would be the what would the part be i would probably say being the

03:24:21.460 not the demand like they're kind of creating a demand for a certain type of

03:24:27.460 woman like oh i want to just sleep around on the first date and i want to make sure i have a girl

03:24:34.420 who does that and then women are kind of like okay i guess i'll just do that okay so men created hookup

03:24:38.980 culture and women participated in them i think if you take a step back and i think if you say that

03:24:43.520 feminism i would say is sort of the precursor to the red pill movement i think women did create the

03:24:49.420 problem because feminism went way too far in a telling women that they could treat their sexuality

03:24:57.160 basically not basically acting like men and i think it subverted what was a really really nice

03:25:03.320 traditional arrangement between men and women where men would provide for women do you think it's okay

03:25:07.780 if men sleep around i don't support promissivity i don't i don't think men should sleep around either

03:25:13.060 so you really should so so no one should how are we getting to this point where you call yourself a

03:25:18.280 certified e-what oh baby e-whore baby um sorry with the shout out when you like joke about that i think

03:25:27.140 that sort of dovetails with what what you're saying in the sense that when you joke about being an e-whore

03:25:32.920 that doesn't really make men want to like treat you or view women as respecting themselves and as deserving

03:25:39.560 they're gonna call me a whore regardless whether i call myself well if you're what if you're on only

03:25:47.600 fans no you've got i think it's kind of like a catch what's what i don't really think my

03:25:54.840 watch yourself brian watch yourself what watch yourself i think we just call shitty people shitty

03:26:01.960 people yeah i mean i yeah people are gonna call me names regardless like no matter what like i'll be

03:26:06.320 live streamer on twitch playing fucking world of warcraft and they'll be like you're a disgusting

03:26:09.600 whore show me your asshole and i'm like wow you're like in the same breath too yeah i'm like can i

03:26:14.460 just play this game like i'm gonna get treated like garbage regardless just for being a woman

03:26:17.900 and online especially in the scope of dating though i think only fans are just that general approach to

03:26:24.180 female sexuality where you're commodifying your body for yeah okay not five dollars a month but

03:26:28.460 twenty dollars a month that sort of just breaks down the fabric of traditional relationships where men

03:26:32.580 yeah feel like they can treat you poorly because if i feel like a man is treating me poorly i wouldn't

03:26:38.040 give him the time of day it's hard because like men are consuming content but women are creating the

03:26:43.080 content like the ability to enforce that supply and demand that's hard i do no you don't a creepy guy who

03:26:49.660 could be treating you horribly could still pay and subscribe to your but i wouldn't date him if he's

03:26:53.800 treating me horribly but they still get access to you and they could subscribe and watch a podcast

03:26:57.960 it's the same thing as like me posting on my instagram i have all my clothes on during my podcast

03:27:01.740 she doesn't do it me too i don't do nudes i don't think you just have to pay to look at it

03:27:05.700 lingerie it's lingerie is fine that doesn't bother me the thing is is i wouldn't interact with someone

03:27:10.800 who i felt like was being mean to me you're gonna be mean to me because of something that i do

03:27:15.360 bye that's not an issue for me i'm not necessarily talking about like an interpersonal like being

03:27:20.480 mean to you like you're talking about dating i'm talking about how men approach relation i'm not

03:27:26.420 talking like you're sitting on a date and they say something offensive to you i'm talking about

03:27:29.860 like i think when when women have sort of taken the feminism pill hardcore and they're oh i don't

03:27:34.940 need a man men or whatever that men are going to be more inclined to not treat you with what is a more

03:27:40.780 traditional cherishing role that women i think that i do need a man i would love to have a man in my

03:27:48.060 life and i would love to have some sort of relationship when the time comes but right now because i'm doing

03:27:53.840 only fans there's a lot of men who don't want to interact with me and also because i'm not

03:27:57.260 particularly interested in having a relationship right now there's a lot of men who don't you know

03:28:00.940 wouldn't pursue me and that's fine with me that doesn't bother me i think women are born inherently

03:28:05.100 with their value and your job as a woman is to preserve it by not making choices where you sell

03:28:10.180 yourself out for a variety i think my job to work hard can i add something to this but a lot of these

03:28:16.420 like companies and these like the whole like everyone sells sex it's all also started by men

03:28:22.920 a lot of times everyone sells sex weird this is a weird like point of view to be like oh it's

03:28:27.400 women's fault for doing this but a lot of times these are porn happened before only fans exactly

03:28:32.080 people were profiting off of women before only fans came again by pimps and things like that so it's

03:28:37.200 like it's weird to be like blaming the women my critique is a feminism and we have women to

03:28:42.440 to to to blame pretty heavily for that feminism we we're not we're not saying oh bring power to

03:28:50.620 like prostitution or anything it's weird it this has been happening for many many many years i'm

03:28:55.280 also i mean it's right though or like a healthy road for people so if i'm more parasocial hold on

03:29:01.180 if i did pornography would it be okay if i was straight up on porn hub so so why are you saying

03:29:05.960 only fans is on a different level than pornography well what i was saying is women are born inherently

03:29:12.320 with their value in my opinion and men are not and they have to work to achieve it right if you look

03:29:18.580 at what men go after beauty and women more or less and women go after men with you know status that

03:29:23.780 they can provide for them and all i'm saying is that when you do things like only fans when you do

03:29:28.460 things like porn now take a step back okay if it would have been you know 30 years ago it wouldn't

03:29:32.820 have been only fans it would have been you know who knows prostitution whatever that up in that current

03:29:37.740 that year it would have been that you are denigrating yourself and basically proving that you are not

03:29:43.780 a woman that is deserving not of respect but that you're not upholding your inherent value as a woman

03:29:48.800 would you say a man's inherent value would be ruined if he did porn well not even i would say anyone i mean

03:29:54.540 i think anyone would but i think where we derive our value from is slightly different and just on your

03:30:00.140 point about only fans or the men running this again it's it's like these women who are in these

03:30:05.500 vulnerable states who they they have they don't have any means to be able to make money we can

03:30:10.160 throw the vulnerable states of the window though so you're saying you guys are being exploited by

03:30:13.820 no no no i'm saying we can throw that out the window your original point from many many years ago that

03:30:18.120 that was my like my statement no no it's like where this first started right it was it was like for

03:30:24.340 example men's taking advantage of these women who who needed a means of making money right sex work

03:30:29.800 years and years ago sex work has always been a thing though even in like years is years of like

03:30:36.960 before christ after christ all those years like sex work has always been a thing so it derived from

03:30:43.600 men controlling women a lot of times too so like i i don't get the point of holding women accountable

03:30:48.900 but saying men men are like it's okay right no i think we ought to hold them both accountable yeah

03:30:54.160 exactly i think you want to hold one accountable with the other i'm not saying to not hold men

03:30:59.100 accountable i think the ceo of only fans who i actually believe is a woman but the owner of it

03:31:02.420 is a ukrainian the ceo now is a woman but who it was it was from it was it started in england

03:31:07.880 it was a dude it sounds like you guys are trying to deflect blame you guys are choosing to make

03:31:13.240 content i'm sorry it's crazy the women doing only fans wouldn't be popular if they just didn't put

03:31:21.480 themselves in the situation to be on only fans men are gonna make women popular whether you're

03:31:25.600 on only fans what is the point of this conversation what's like i'm so lost here what's the point i

03:31:29.620 feel like what i don't respect is more like the not so much like someone doing only fans i because

03:31:35.480 obviously i would respect most people because you're a person any person has inherent value but

03:31:39.740 it's this idea of chasing meaningless pleasure like just the ease yeah i don't respect people like oh

03:31:46.380 it's easy it's easy to consume porn it's easy just like put out content like that doesn't seem

03:31:51.320 if the point is that it's gonna like limit your dating pool sure i hear that if the point is that

03:31:56.440 it's not morally correct in your eyes sure i get that like what is the point of this i don't

03:32:01.600 understand what is like what is your oh i guess i think it's who's who is to blame for this it's

03:32:05.900 kind of like a chicken and the egg it's also like nobody is to blame but it's also like is it

03:32:09.500 detrimental to society you're a model that's kind of thing it's like it is only fans detrimental to

03:32:15.240 society i mean the normalization of only fans is detrimental to society yes

03:32:19.240 yeah how do you say that as someone who works and we should also blame every fast food worker for

03:32:26.340 obesity see yeah i wouldn't like anyone who works in any bad we should blame every bad aspect of

03:32:32.200 capitalism at that point we should not get rid of capitalism you are playing you just said the

03:32:36.520 industry i think if i don't believe in the normalization of it that like that's crazy um i

03:32:43.520 would never recommend to anyone that came to me to make an account i would never say yeah you should

03:32:48.440 make one if you have an account i can probably make you more money than you can make yourself

03:32:52.320 like that's that's it i'm just curious from your personal moral perspective how do you justify

03:32:58.560 working in an industry that you i have no moral dilemma with it i don't think that we should be

03:33:03.360 talking about it like vlogs of oh i just bought this yacht it went on this 20 000 day i think people

03:33:08.480 should be open to the discussion of the negative side effects of only fans and we should have these

03:33:12.560 conversations like dopamine depletion if you watch you should vilify the people in it vilify the

03:33:16.840 industry not the people well i just think i'm very sex work neutral if you do it you do it if you

03:33:21.700 don't for your actions yeah and have i not taken have i not taken accountability this whole time

03:33:29.120 i'm not vilifying you okay what's up i do think uh i do think she makes a good point that women who

03:33:38.640 are participating in the industry are a problem and i think that they make a good point that men who

03:33:45.760 are participating in the industry by watching it and paying for it are playing a part both of the

03:33:51.280 i mean sex work in general is wrong and anyone who participates in it it's not a good thing to do

03:33:58.280 it's wrong thing to do so i mean of course the men who are watching it shouldn't be watching it and

03:34:05.060 the women who are yeah perpetuating the demand shouldn't be participating it we can take

03:34:09.000 accountability the industry is ruining society nobody should be participating there's also the

03:34:14.020 fact that like even like even if i wasn't doing like only fans or whatever like there's gonna be

03:34:19.360 men who speak to me in in such a disgusting horrible way like who who come into me like why aren't you

03:34:24.940 selling nudes like i literally was streaming on twitch the other day playing world of warcraft

03:34:28.800 and they're like why aren't you showing your ass yeah but that shirt is so tight on you why

03:34:32.920 there's so many like i don't do of and i still get those dms you don't have to no no it's not the

03:34:37.600 men bad i'm just saying they're creating a demand for it they're like i literally had someone mad at

03:34:41.560 me being like why aren't you advertising your only fans why aren't you being nice to me i'm like i'm

03:34:44.580 not being nice to you because you're being weird this is chatterbait you freak it's crazy sorry my bad

03:34:48.440 i don't mean what is your what is your plan like kind of after only fans is yeah i'm getting my

03:34:54.160 degree in accounting oh nice yeah and if it if someone doesn't want to hire me because i have

03:34:58.720 only fans or whatever that's fine whatever i'll work at a gas station for the rest of my life i have

03:35:03.260 to she sounds like a hustler whatever makes it work listen i'm from the boonies dog we got three

03:35:08.840 mcdonald's she didn't mention that no like again i don't i don't want to make anyone who has an only

03:35:14.000 fans like feel bad i wish you didn't do it but it's what it is it is what it is but

03:35:18.420 yeah i can't say like oh it's julie's fault you're from the boonies dog i'm from the boonies

03:35:24.040 three mcdonald's from vancouver no no no she's from vancouver i'm not vancouver i'm not i'm not

03:35:31.120 from couver i'm from like a small town she's from the mean streets of vancouver no no no hold on it

03:35:36.040 takes eight hours for me to get to couver so couver leave me alone that's what it's called

03:35:41.120 leave me alone eat your peaches go ahead continue um well i was gonna say wait hold on abigail go

03:35:47.200 in go ahead continue oh wait i think i'm i think i made my my point that um women who participate in

03:35:54.660 the industry are absolutely part of the problem of course we're not blaming those women you're not

03:35:59.340 the sole holder of the blame but you're absolutely part of the problem and if if you think that sex

03:36:04.400 work or the industry is ruining society i don't think you should play a part in it yeah i get that

03:36:12.200 i gotta eat i mean yeah you might you might really need money but there really are other ways to make

03:36:19.100 money no there are this is an easy way but there are certainly not everything that's easy is good

03:36:23.460 usually things that are easier or hold on but yeah that's the point i was trying to make of like

03:36:27.860 the ease like the procedures i want to do the easiest thing there's here's the thing here's the

03:36:32.700 thing about so i could work at a gas station i'm working there 30 hours a week you know i get i get

03:36:37.480 a paycheck of 1500 a month that covers my rent doesn't cover all of my bills you know it doesn't

03:36:43.040 cover my schooling or anything like that i i work on only fans i post three photos a week i make three

03:36:49.260 grand a month without doing anything if i work harder i make more than that why wouldn't i do that

03:36:54.920 why wouldn't i my my schooling's paid for my rent's paid for my food is paid for my gas is paid for

03:36:59.840 my insurance is something else that's very easy monetary yeah yeah i care about having a roof

03:37:05.340 over my head no can i add something that i see so you turn 18 years old and you marry a 40 year old

03:37:10.340 and then you you get a roof you get everything right i don't want to marry a 40 year old i'm saying

03:37:14.780 but it's easy so you're saying easy means bad right easy is not always bad yeah it's not always bad

03:37:21.260 i said usually yeah usually bad so you're saying just marrying a random 40 year old just to pay your

03:37:26.720 bill do we hate age gaps is bad i mean i would say yeah there's better if you if you care about

03:37:32.500 a future and a family and you're just settling for a guy just because he has money that's not a great

03:37:36.960 situation well the money's a benefit the money's a benefit it's not the sole reason it's easy like

03:37:41.100 i think my i'm sure most of us probably think our jobs are maybe inherently easy like we're naturally

03:37:44.980 drawn to something it is the job in and of itself i would say that only fans is probably like

03:37:50.760 morally wrong yeah there's a lot of things in life that people do that are morally wrong

03:37:54.720 well i don't think only fans is easy though yeah because you have to deal with all this hate from

03:37:59.740 people and telling you you're bad you're contributing to the society getting fucked up it might mess with

03:38:06.200 your head a little bit the backlash but it's pretty easy to take a picture well there's a

03:38:09.320 fuck with my head but it's not easy i'm fucked up you have to like actually promote it you don't

03:38:14.940 just like post your butthole and you're rich you know jesus loves you so much jesus i like to make

03:38:28.220 jokes i will say though like i agree make that same joke but with the the a different mussolini

03:38:34.560 yeah mussolini that's the choice oh but like a different religious figure that same joke with

03:38:40.540 a different about muhammad muhammad yeah you're gonna get banned you're gonna get banned but that's

03:38:46.260 the point like you can make fun of christianity you can't make fun of any other religion i don't know

03:38:49.960 muslim was a dictator muslims would get more upset about people making fun of jesus than christians

03:38:57.300 yeah yeah yeah that's true because uh jesus i guess is still like a one a what do they call him

03:39:04.340 yeah the muslim's a prophet king of the jews he's the son of god he's talking about

03:39:10.020 he was a prophet to christianity and to muslims oh you mean a jewish people

03:39:13.940 you'd probably i don't want you to say it but i'll say he wants you to say it he wants you to

03:39:20.800 say it don't tempt me don't tempt me you can't blame only fans on male i was saying earlier i

03:39:25.480 just think i do really believe it's both men and women that need to take accountability i think men

03:39:31.100 need to be stronger and need to be able to not engage yeah self-control and not engage in this

03:39:37.380 kind of stuff i don't think it's necessarily a man thing i mean i have to be honest like men have

03:39:41.840 more of the power to like that's great disintegrate this because if they stop

03:39:45.460 if they stop like women stop consuming content then there'd be nothing does anybody want to take

03:39:51.040 a peach shot i want to please no it's just the juice you touched me you touched it you try to

03:39:58.960 make me crush a bug and you won't give me the peach juice if someone don't he took it himself

03:40:02.700 you stole it from me that was my peach juice that was my i will say the only problem that i feel

03:40:11.740 like i have though is to bring up like that your bills are paid or like rent is paid and that

03:40:16.100 that's why you do it because there's other jobs there's no no i'm not i can't do other jobs and

03:40:21.240 still get myself paid but it's so much easier to just do only fans but that's easier okay that was

03:40:25.380 it i'm totally fine with it being easier i'm totally fine with it but she also has her own hours because

03:40:29.960 there's a lot of like nine to fives and things like that if i'm trying to stand by that you would be

03:40:34.540 you would kill someone if you needed to put a provide for my family me dog absolutely there's

03:40:41.080 so many people though that are able to do that without doing only fans so i feel like that i'm

03:40:45.660 so happy it is difficult i'm so happy for them i had a very different life situation i don't have

03:40:51.400 anyone to fall back on i don't have parents i don't have friends i don't have i mean are you also

03:40:55.640 i was fostered i went to foster care beginning of the show yeah she yeah is it is it too late for

03:41:02.300 an apology yes actually it's too late for an apology however you can't give me 10 grand

03:41:07.440 or the peach juice yeah at least the peace peach juice yeah you if nothing else the peach juice i

03:41:14.220 could have taken the peaches i'm gonna read uh i'm gonna have actually natalie read some of these

03:41:18.400 chats red pill is sorry red pill has seen the world for how it is like the fact that you're a sex

03:41:24.880 hypocrite and that if you can get a woman to pay for a date that's a win she doesn't care about

03:41:29.440 her money why should i huh hmm all right thank you that's a good couple they belong together and

03:41:37.440 then we have another one about to come in from him you can't blame only fans uh or corn on male

03:41:44.180 control it's a lack of male control if anyone wants to be controlled by a man hit me up in my dms

03:41:49.920 but you won't that's why carol woman is an insult by the way do you play world of warcraft

03:41:56.320 i'm a paladin i thought you knew that before i thought that's your buddy you should know if he's

03:42:02.100 a paladin or not you don't play wow anymore he's my he's my homie but we don't talk about video

03:42:05.840 games because it's a sensitive subject why do you know what was your main yeah what's your class

03:42:10.800 what's your race what's your class are you on alliance oh he's alliance for sure huh you are

03:42:15.680 alliance aren't you oh well then you play on horde we're all horde i used to play i don't play

03:42:21.760 okay but what did you play wow uh well what did you play do that one more time zog zog let me hear

03:42:27.880 you for the horde for the horde okay okay but wait what race were you on horde for real

03:42:35.060 all right i have no idea what is being said i'll keep going we're playing world of warcraft

03:42:41.940 okay decent she's rogue she's rogue blood elf i'm paladin blood elf your hunter blood elf

03:42:48.580 i'll play anything blood elves are hot as fuck what can i say

03:42:51.860 what the fuck was that shit i'm sorry i'm sorry you don't get wow it's not my problem dog lady sylvanas

03:43:01.220 is my queen no matter what all right all right stop pandering to the world of warcraft no we actually

03:43:07.700 just ladies of honor is my queen no we just had a lot of fun last night my bad our bad what's that

03:43:13.780 oh i the the kinks living on the thin line like three hours later burgess probably still isn't even

03:43:19.700 watching burgess let me know if you're watching and i'll tell you about the i'll give you the scoop

03:43:25.220 i'll give you the deal okay let's get into back to cat over here you i don't know if this is on your

03:43:31.940 ig or like your twitter you say you're boringly white yes on my instagram bio boringly white what

03:43:37.540 is it what does that it was a joke it's just funny as fuck boringly white i don't care it's funny is

03:43:43.300 that not funny it was like a chat she got imagine you go to an ehor's instagram and you read the bio

03:43:48.980 and this shit says it boringly white you're like what the fuck is that not funny as hell i i mean i i

03:43:57.140 came across it and oh did you not laugh you ready for my reaction yeah this is my reaction did you

03:44:03.220 laugh did you laugh this is my reaction this is how i reacted when i saw that shit you didn't like it

03:44:10.180 cold-blooded hold on let me also andrew tate actually also

03:44:15.780 that was his reaction to it too it's funny it's just a joke it's just a joke like it's just stupid

03:44:21.700 it's just genuinely stupid oh wait actually hold on oh no okay that's fine i say stupid

03:44:28.340 shit all the time like i just i genuinely think it's a joke uh okay anyways thank you yeah you're

03:44:35.940 very fun let's see oh going to how do you say your name again jojo oh herba fiend

03:44:44.740 it's josephine is my wait actually i gotta ask because i ask you this question every single show

03:44:49.140 oh let's go so i'm excited we've been preparing the great hillary clinton once said something along

03:44:56.500 the lines of women and children are the primary victims of war oh that's so crazy so between men

03:45:04.660 and women who's the primary victim of war who is whoa you've never asked this before

03:45:11.940 i have to think about something new and different you've changed after no i've actually uh it's crazy

03:45:17.300 because she's double down no it's because i've even asked like my dad who's 20 years military

03:45:22.660 and things like that and guess what he said oh yeah what did your dad say he said women oh he i have

03:45:28.100 a full text message i can go get my phone and like show you the full text message of the reasonings

03:45:33.540 the reasoning is why it's the women that he believes is the victim okay why don't you just tell us what

03:45:38.500 what your argument is then or his argument that you believe in uh it's the same things that i've been

03:45:43.300 like repeating it's like restate it because there's new people at the table new viewers well it's what

03:45:48.660 you constitute as the main victims for example if you constitute a death as a victim more of a victim

03:45:55.140 versus like brutally brutally like tortured or graped i feel like it's grape grape yeah i'm not gonna

03:46:02.980 say i can't go into the details of it like what you constitute it's like the economy that you have to

03:46:09.780 pick up versus especially the time periods wise of what like a lot of time period wise there's a

03:46:15.700 majority of men who had to go to war for example so women were not working at the time so even with

03:46:22.500 majority of men dying for example you have to still pick up the economy and things like that of the

03:46:27.460 countries you're from and uh they were gonna have to go and would the women exclusively be picking up

03:46:34.100 the economy of the country majority of men are dying in wars right so especially at the time period so

03:46:40.660 it's not understanding clearly clearly coughing sorry you're not understanding

03:46:49.380 so yeah so yeah um they would have to go and get the pick up the jobs that like the men were like

03:46:54.900 dying from for example and so like it hurts the economy in a way and then so uh just to be clear you put

03:47:02.980 bad economy over millions of men dead so again it's what you constitute what what's the victim of war

03:47:10.900 picking up a dead economy okay let me here let's let's bring it i'm gonna bring it so war is on the

03:47:17.540 macro level let me bring it to the micro level if somebody gets shot dead in the street yeah are they a victim

03:47:24.180 um is there another is there no versus you could answer the question versus what versus nothing i'm

03:47:33.780 just asking you a question yeah of course they're a victim yeah so sad would the police now if the police

03:47:40.500 wait what i said so sad rest in peace okay so if the police are investigating a murder for example

03:47:47.220 okay um how do they categorize the person who was murdered as a what a victim a victim okay how do

03:47:55.860 you think they categorize like r-worded victims and essays are worded victims or s8 and r-worded and

03:48:04.100 things like that there you go so same yeah okay how do you think they categorize somebody who's been

03:48:09.140 who uh someone who owns a uh a business and someone came in and shop shoplifted a five dollar piece of

03:48:17.380 merchandise yes victims as well uh but so there's scales right but are there scales to it so would

03:48:22.980 you would you agree when it comes to victimization somebody who's had their shop uh their store shoplifted

03:48:28.420 of a five dollar piece of merchandise that's less of a victim than somebody who's been murdered

03:48:32.580 your answer the question yes answer the question okay yes do you remember when your guest andrew

03:48:38.420 wilson came on and it said would you rather be r-worded or would you rather be killed what

03:48:42.260 what did he say do you remember yeah i remember him as asking the question no i i asked that and he

03:48:49.460 said killed okay cool so there's some people who would say that what women have gone through in war

03:48:57.940 is worse than a lot of times in war is worse than men is worse than men you'd have to define victim

03:49:03.540 like he also you gotta be you gotta be intellectually honest with this he also said that he was being

03:49:09.780 essayed by somebody of the same sex that's a crazy statement don't you understand but i disagree with

03:49:15.300 him i disagree with him but i guess for him specifically and he's also not here so i'm not

03:49:20.980 making but no we're talking about i'm not making his argument we're talking we're talking about

03:49:24.580 would it not mostly be men in war essaying you yes it will be but he's saying if a woman he he's

03:49:32.820 okay with a woman doing it okay so but okay well we can get into that if you you keep seeming to

03:49:41.220 want to bring up essay so i get well actually hold on before we do that let's i should have asked the

03:49:45.700 whole panel this who's the primary victim of war men or women i'll keep going women you know that's fine

03:49:52.260 good i don't know well you if you had to pick like war like with the military like are we talking

03:50:00.820 about a specific uh historically modern war so okay you could look at world war one world war

03:50:05.780 two vietnam war iraq war ukraine war etc who's the primary victim of war men or women well men i think

03:50:15.860 obviously okay yeah i'd say men probably men men uh i would say men men you mean women men men okay

03:50:27.620 i don't want to linger on this too long since the oh go ahead that is because what i value as like

03:50:32.100 the ultimate punishment is i would rather get essayed and tortured than unalived and but i think

03:50:38.900 that's where me and kirby disagree where she sees that as the ultimate punishment so i would

03:50:42.420 rather not man or bear you picked bear no i don't pick the man i pick the man i could i could choke

03:50:48.260 out a man i can't choke out a bear we might have to go to bear man question like straight yeah yeah

03:50:52.100 well we can let's go bear bear because now i'm guys you can put a man in a chokehold not a bear

03:50:59.700 like you're gonna lose i'm not putting any man in a chokehold if you need i'm just saying if you

03:51:02.820 needed to like i would pick the man hopefully he's a regular person who doesn't want to

03:51:06.180 a regular question bear worst man in the world let's go so a regular man will dominate

03:51:12.020 worst man best bear worst man worst bear both of those i like bears they're cute they're cuddly

03:51:17.780 i don't know the question is who's the primary victim so it's not that the women aren't victims

03:51:23.060 everyone's a victim of war they're secondary victims so the primary would be the first person who's the

03:51:27.300 victim exactly yeah draft me women would be draft me the issue is because what she's trying to explain

03:51:32.820 is like in her head when you're dead you're gone your suffering is over whereas like the women of

03:51:37.620 these countries but lost their families their children there's no agreeance on that not all

03:51:45.220 of them die in war a lot of them walk away with trauma they had to do with a lot of it still

03:51:50.740 fucks up your whole family for sure and i mean yes the women and the children are back home and

03:51:56.660 suffering because their father or their husband is out in war so they've lost their father or husband

03:52:02.740 but that father husband that man has lost his wife and his kids and his friends and his family

03:52:08.420 to go out into war to get traumatized and so even if he doesn't die i would still say that that's

03:52:15.460 pretty that's ptsd and you have to leave your family as well you like you have your whole life back at

03:52:21.220 home to fight in a war that makes you a pretty pretty primary victim and just to like i don't disagree

03:52:27.540 with you i think it's still men disagree on that i think we shouldn't discount women's suffering

03:52:31.540 though well we're well we're not yeah anymore but the women yeah the women don't become victims

03:52:37.220 until the men are the victims so like they're not even considered victims until something happens to

03:52:42.020 the man yeah well hold on we have to just getting even your husband even your son just getting drafted

03:52:46.740 is horrible yeah of course that would totally but your son would have to be drafted yeah but which

03:52:50.820 one's worse getting drafted that would suck it depends maybe he loves the idea he watched top gun

03:52:57.300 last week he's like i'm ready to go of course there's gonna be exceptions to the rule but the

03:53:01.540 exception doesn't make the rule it's generally men and generally women who's the primary victim

03:53:07.220 wait hold on you said drafted though so if he was that gung-ho he would have volunteered not been

03:53:12.740 drafted yeah i mean you but even he could have just watched top gun last week and been hyped

03:53:17.940 i don't know what time you're watching but you didn't watch top gun you wasn't into that i have

03:53:22.580 and i don't think it's the same when you watched okay i watched it so can you make your case for

03:53:27.060 how women are the primary victims we can you you keep making this case with ukraine or russia there

03:53:31.940 um statistics online is 53 of the people assaulted is actually women and girls right so there is a

03:53:39.540 statistical online explaining like 53 so half over over half 53 is over half you literally okay yeah cool

03:53:47.380 that means the other 47 that one metric that three percent increment yes that's your basis for

03:53:55.940 at least in the ukraine conflict well i gave you an a basis you asked me what's my argument and i

03:54:01.220 could you google that well hold on because when you talk about the ukraine i looked it up before this

03:54:05.060 podcast when you keep bringing up the ukraine argument when you talk about the ukraine conflict

03:54:09.700 you show a bunch of like girls on tinder with their ass out and then a bunch of like dead men and

03:54:14.100 it's like well it doesn't exactly work that way it doesn't it kind of does it does but it doesn't

03:54:21.940 at the same time so 60 000 women are actually fighting the lines right but there's 3.2 million

03:54:28.500 women in ukraine so they allow this but there is gender biased assault on women a lot of times in the

03:54:36.180 invading country of russia and that's why of the assaulted women are or 53 of people in ukraine

03:54:45.380 are women and girls that that's the whole point and that's my basis it's not like like obviously

03:54:51.860 there's women on tinder and there's men dead in the ditch but there's also women dead in the

03:54:55.540 ditch and men on tinder it's just like i would say one of the things to consider i think i saw this on

03:55:00.660 another one i don't remember what the percentage was but we're not considering that not all men that

03:55:05.700 go to war are married or have like anybody to be victims back home no no well the ultimate price

03:55:12.660 you're paying is with your life hold on you don't need to be married to have victims back home they're

03:55:15.940 still like your you know your brothers and your sisters and your parents and your siblings and

03:55:20.100 if you're yeah but you can have kids okay but i'll even i'll even argue even if the man is married

03:55:25.620 even if he's married and he has five daughters even if he's married has five daughters doesn't

03:55:33.380 have a father has a has a mother and has a dozen sisters the man is still the primary victim of war

03:55:42.580 even with all this collateral uh mental harm to like a group of 20 women the men is still the man is

03:55:51.380 still the primary victim of the of war nick do you pull up can you pull up the did you find her

03:55:57.300 thing why are we trying to like say who has it worse they were getting attacked in a different

03:56:08.340 country can you pull it up but it's uh can you just drag it over so i can see it i guess why are we

03:56:17.620 trying to play the oh my hurt is worse than your hurt kind of game what was that my whole point

03:56:21.940 from the original argument the first day i said i don't think we should pick which is the worst

03:56:27.140 because like they're both she tried to say both earth is the victims like this is yeah click it she

03:56:32.500 tried to say both and they're like no you have to pick and she's like well i'm going to go with one

03:56:37.620 so they just kept pushing her she wanted to yeah yeah she ruffled some feathers yeah of course not

03:56:42.180 necessarily but i i just think everyone's but it doesn't it doesn't take away like the plight of

03:56:46.580 women like you do when there's no men to protect you like the good ones who are going out and trying

03:56:50.580 to fight for you know freedom and stuff like there's no one to protect you against the oppressor

03:56:55.540 i mean there's no one to protect men against the oppressor like on the front lines like that's

03:56:58.820 obviously fucking horrid again you can make a class you can make a class argument so that that's the

03:57:03.620 whole thing with like well um men men are the one who initiate words wars but then and then men are

03:57:09.380 the only ones able to like go to war and things like that but then you can that's a class claim it's not

03:57:14.260 it's not a gender claim it's a class claim a class claim yeah what like a class claim as in like

03:57:21.140 it's based off i also sent you something in private chat nick it's like based off of um

03:57:28.260 here we'll pull it we'll pull your study up is this mine is this it's another one that i found

03:57:33.380 but are you saying only poor men have to go to war well when i say it's a class claim

03:57:38.340 yeah go ahead i don't know they're just prattling about something by a ccr that's not that's not

03:57:43.300 the study that this is literally the same person that had the 53 there was another one i had but

03:57:48.740 this one is not it what's your study then well i don't know the website but tell us what's a google

03:57:53.700 then give us the prompt and we'll find it so what i looked up is ukraine women and then i looked up like

03:57:59.300 ukraine women and i'm literally allowing you to pull up because i looked up a lot because okay

03:58:10.180 well fine we'll go to mine then we can go to yours nick pull this one up

03:58:17.140 make it bigger by the way this is from the women's refugee refugee commission so it's already going to

03:58:22.180 be biased towards women uh as of february 2023 okay so this is like old this is old but anyways uh has

03:58:29.140 displaced more than 14 million people stop don't fucking interrupt me more than eight million

03:58:35.540 ukrainians are now refugees uh hold on where is it where is it about the percentage does it have

03:58:43.460 percentage for women it was like 90 or something one sec oh what showed it in the fucking thing it

03:58:51.700 says many displaced ukrainian women are particularly vulnerable because they are pregnant or have small

03:58:56.980 children wait hold on let me see if i can so or have a disability or a victim of violence so most of

03:59:01.940 the women that left aren't actually doing very good nick i'm sending you a different one this one's

03:59:08.820 even more biased and they pulled it off the screen towards women it's the un women which has a

03:59:13.540 un is major cucked un women let's find a feminist organization fits our uh narrative it's literally

03:59:22.660 not fitting my narrative no i sorry i just like to i'm i like to make jokes okay make it bigger

03:59:29.300 uh okay five as of this is this is uh 5.5 million refugees have already fled ukraine uh of those who

03:59:38.340 have fled the country it's estimated that 90 are women and children right while most men aged 18 to 60

03:59:47.060 this is from a feminist source by the way are required to stay behind under martial law it did also

03:59:52.500 say in the last city that most of the women that left were pregnant or had children or were disabled

03:59:57.700 or had already been assaulted what that's literally what it just said in the last study i read it out

04:00:02.580 you're telling me the women who are going to the western border that i just read it in the east

04:00:08.980 most of the women are coming what i just read the last study out loud that's what it said what can i

04:00:14.500 say brother what can i say the majority of the women who have that's what it said are disabled that's

04:00:22.500 what it said literally go back to no it literally said they were pregnant or they had children or they

04:00:27.220 were disabled or they they were had already been victimized by the war that's literally what it said

04:00:33.140 in the very last study you were on i read it out loud am i wrong or am i right i don't know dude

04:00:42.340 i literally just read it out loud i swear to god it said many displaced ukrainian women are

04:00:47.700 particularly vulnerable because they are pregnant or have small children have a or have a disability

04:00:53.780 or are a victim so maybe not the majority we can throw the majority out the window but a lot of

04:00:57.780 displaced yeah so we'll throw the majority out the window i'll take that part but

04:01:00.740 literally everyone in ukraine is a victim of violence they're in a fucking war so the majority

04:01:06.180 baby i'm still right yeah but it doesn't mean anything no okay it's fine it doesn't mean anything

04:01:12.100 it literally means nothing in any case so you're good i just like to mess around my bad okay so you

04:01:18.580 think in the ukraine in the ukraine conflict that women are the primary victims of war i i i can send you

04:01:25.860 the article because i have the history on her computer how about i just grant how about i just

04:01:31.460 grant you that you said what 53 yes i'll just grant you the statistic okay so then 47 sure now if i gave

04:01:39.700 you a statistic that like 95 of the uh military casualties so deaths and injuries are men which

04:01:48.260 which one's worse um well sure you and again the statistics you give right there you disagree you

04:01:56.420 think i don't know the exact numbers but i would assume that yeah 95 of the military casualties are men

04:02:03.780 i think it's 97 since the gulf war

04:02:06.020 well you can give in your the statistics of what you're giving me the frame framework of what you're

04:02:13.620 giving me sure men are the victims wait king donated two hundred dollars brian i'm sure you have heard

04:02:21.540 that the government is in the process of passing a bill that would automatically sign women up for the

04:02:26.660 draft would the feminists here support this it's been like the any push to have women have to register

04:02:34.820 for the selective service has been uh has been shot down every single time it's been brought i think

04:02:42.340 it went to the supreme court it's been to congress on the in the legislative branch uh i know recently

04:02:52.180 men are now automatically registered for selective service you no longer have to you're just

04:02:56.740 automatically placed in the uh program as a man between 18 to 25 26 i think uh so men no longer have

04:03:04.340 to register because you're just automatically in it i've not heard a corresponding thing for women

04:03:10.260 i'm not sure how that'll play out maybe they get um they get automatically registered maybe they don't

04:03:16.900 but in any case currently they're not required to so wait so i'm just a bit confused okay so back to

04:03:21.220 this ukraine thing so are you seeding the point i'm just confused i'm i'm saying in again framework

04:03:28.260 just like what happened last time framework of what you give me yes i can see so but are you

04:03:33.060 denying that that's the framework i am denying that's the framework wait i'm so i'm confused i'm

04:03:38.180 denying that's the the reality of the framework right it's the framework of what you give me but

04:03:43.060 i don't you deny that this is the reality like current so you're saying that i'm overestimating the

04:03:48.900 amount of male military casualties let me just here i'll just be charitable and i'll just say we'll go down

04:03:54.820 to eighty percent eighty percent of military casualties are men which it's not but even if

04:04:00.420 we use those numbers if you're only doing military casualties that's very different than civilian

04:04:05.540 casualties so that's which would also incorporate male civilians of course it does

04:04:12.580 dude robert tanner thank you for the uh 50 memberships man really appreciate it you're a

04:04:16.580 fucking legend thank you man well women deal with war in a different way than men do

04:04:22.420 nice good point look at you i'm helping you out i'm helping you out so uh i'm just a little confused

04:04:28.900 here how come we can talk about this but not as real the only way it'd be comfortable like the point

04:04:35.300 that you made is he's not bringing up yeah great contribution to the conversation there was mine good

04:04:41.220 no when did world war one start the only reason that your point that you brought up that he's not

04:04:48.180 bringing up civilian casualties would actually be a good point is if the civilian casualties were also

04:04:53.460 eighty percent women because if if not then you've got like the eighty percent ninety something percent

04:05:00.580 of military casual casualties being men well and then the civilian casualties it's likely it's fifty

04:05:07.220 percent but even if it's even if it's mostly women it's not a it's not a good point to bring up and

04:05:13.540 to defend his argument or to you you get what i'm saying um unless continue with the that's the whole

04:05:19.620 point of like the 53 with the ukraine war and like russia because this is such a recent like war in

04:05:25.140 statistics they are able to actually deem like this is a gender bias but gender bias assault is the

04:05:31.140 majority of these women and like i i wish i could tell you the website i wish i memorized the website and

04:05:35.700 and i had it like on my phone right now so i could tell you guys it i i did research it before i came

04:05:40.980 here but it's it's gender bias assault it's not it's not like so wait what does that mean gender bias

04:05:48.980 because they are women they are choosing to assault them over men for example so it was a man in the

04:05:55.460 household it well this is this is absolutely bogus why well how so you you say so ukraine is partying

04:06:02.340 so so the women in ukraine are partying up somewhere in the clubs and this is bogus it

04:06:08.020 absolutely is bogus because the gender bias i can if you want to frame it from a gender bias the gender

04:06:13.780 bias is and this is from a this is a systemic thing this is from the government down men between the

04:06:21.300 ages of 18 to 60 or 65 i can't remember exactly what are barred under martial law from leaving the

04:06:28.260 country women are allowed to flee children are allowed to flee so i'll just turn it around on

04:06:33.940 you and say yeah there's a gender bias against men when was that passed

04:06:40.420 are you denying are you denying this because this article that at the breakout of war literally days

04:06:46.900 within the breakout of the war men could not flee the country women could you want me to pull up cnn bbc

04:06:53.620 i'll pull up any news source you want and it will show this because this was a 2020 23 article that i

04:06:59.460 i'm referencing right now so that's why i'm confused men have been barred from leaving the country from

04:07:05.380 the outbreak of the war what's your point but well if you want your country defended don't you want men

04:07:13.060 defending it i mean women are pretty well yeah there's reasons why but they're weak we don't want

04:07:17.540 them on the front lines it's a bad battle strat that's not really the argument and again the

04:07:22.500 conversation stems from who's the primary victim of war men or women play men yeah but kirby you

04:07:30.260 have to say victim you know i'm assuming you mean death like casualties so yeah that's the real

04:07:36.020 debate here yeah women have to suffer a lot of the ramifications of war wait nobody ever said that

04:07:40.980 you don't think casualties are victims i think casualties are victims and that's what my original point was but

04:07:46.740 again i think it's what do you think is the worst victims the people who are being tortured

04:07:52.020 and like okay i don't want to get into the the extremes of what happens in war crimes and things

04:07:57.700 like that but it's again what you deem a fucking victim is she kind of cooking no not really okay

04:08:05.700 so death instant gunshot and i'm not saying that of course men but there's no way for it to get

04:08:10.740 better i guess it's just over versus over in there's a possibility for those kind of people to

04:08:17.220 has anybody here gone through something traumatic yes yes absolutely would you rather have just not

04:08:24.180 gone through that and be dead right now yes oh no no no you're going around the table have you ever

04:08:30.580 gone through something traumatic oh no we're good it's fine oh nothing traumatic okay traumatic anything

04:08:37.300 yeah and i i'm glad i'm alive i wouldn't rather be dead okay yes and i'm glad i'm alive

04:08:45.540 sure i don't know yeah life's good now i choose death i mean you're living with the trauma now and

04:08:55.220 you haven't yeah you're you're currently and look at that's fine i don't give it i don't give a

04:08:59.540 but it it's wait there's a potential making your point irrelevant no no sorry it's my it's my elbow

04:09:04.740 i need to go grab a band-aid we're good i'll hold it down here okay i'll hold it down here for a

04:09:09.460 second it's just bleeding what about you um i wouldn't trade like any human experience for

04:09:17.300 anything in the world because that's like what living is like i want to be as alive as possible like

04:09:22.020 good bad whatever like it's life like i want to be experiencing life whatever it's handing to me i'm

04:09:29.220 serious i'm so that is such a ridiculous statement with you wanting to live human life but you can get

04:09:34.820 you can get completely tortured but you're living human life like that that's crazy well is that i

04:09:40.340 guess that hope is like still alive right then you're just that's pretty much well that was pretty much

04:09:45.300 my like original statement it's like well he asked me something how many how many women are being

04:09:50.820 tortured in ukraine i don't assaulted 53 percent uh okay we're talking about torture has its own

04:09:58.580 definition yeah okay like when i think of torture i think those like uh medieval like oh the stretcher

04:10:06.180 machines like like sawing you in half or something yeah like some crazy shit i don't know why torture

04:10:11.140 what what it's possible that people are being tortured but uh yeah prisoners of war also but that's

04:10:19.140 still like i feel like we're fighting a weird like who i would argue there's probably more men who are

04:10:23.620 being tortured yeah in ukraine than women so your whole torture angle here the only thing i would

04:10:29.540 even grant you is the this essay component sure okay agree to disagree actually wait i heard something

04:10:36.900 about even men were being men men are essayed but women are predominantly essayed um i have a quick

04:10:46.500 question just because i want to kind of like understand like where you're coming from so are you

04:10:49.780 are you kind of saying like let's say the man is the is the primary victim but like since they're

04:10:55.300 technically gone they don't have the ability to feel victimized no it's like it's kind of the point

04:11:01.700 where it's like if you have instant death you're no longer like you're not you don't feel the pain

04:11:08.900 the continual pain so they're like a lot of times with war crimes there's like the family's dying

04:11:13.860 family's dying in front of you family's getting like um like assaulted in front of you things like

04:11:19.220 that and so you have to live with the pain of being not able to do things like that so like

04:11:23.380 they've passed so they don't have the ability to feel victimized so they're like they're they're

04:11:28.340 gone like right but i think in the question it's just like kind of like at least for me it's just

04:11:33.620 very straightforward it's just in the action that happened who was the first victim well you don't

04:11:39.780 know who went first right the man could have been allowed things are happening the the women don't

04:11:45.300 become victims until the man does so like they're not i don't think that's necessarily true and i

04:11:50.580 agree with that men are the victim of war like we don't know oh like they don't start like saying

04:11:56.340 women before they go yeah we don't have any like right but i think you're framing it from the angle

04:12:00.820 of well the the family members will be sad but yeah yeah that's pretty much where i'm coming off of

04:12:06.900 it's like they're not going to be sad unless something happens to the man that i would agree with

04:12:11.060 no we're talking about no i'm talking about kids as well the kids are at home they're not at like oh

04:12:17.060 i mean of course if it's their older kids yeah sure but like well young kids i mean actually her point

04:12:22.500 even in the case of essay is still kind of valid no because there's typically a front line if the

04:12:28.260 enemy then breaks through the front line aka a fuck ton of dead men then they can get into civilian

04:12:34.020 areas and then they can uh commit atrocities but it's typically not oh the women are just at the

04:12:40.660 front and then the women get essayed then the fighting happens it's typically the fighting

04:12:46.420 happens they break through the front line and if the uh belligerent force is inclined to uh commit

04:12:54.260 war crimes basically then yeah i suppose after the men have been killed or casualties yeah they have to

04:13:00.660 get through the men to get to the women well dependent on the area dependent on the invasion

04:13:04.500 dependent on if it's like a a new attack things like that yes i well hold on fine i'll even

04:13:10.420 argue this too so let's say they break into a civilian population where there's no front line

04:13:15.220 there's no uh defending force they're going to dispatch the men who could potentially uh put up

04:13:22.340 a resistance so if there's any men in the community of fighting age that potentially have access to

04:13:28.500 firearms they're going to dispatch the men first then they might choose to you know i don't know what

04:13:34.740 the numbers are when it comes to the frequency of essay let me ask you a question though okay so let's

04:13:41.220 say a hundred thousand men die and then ten thousand women get essayed which is worse you've said this

04:13:47.540 before cool we're having the conversation again which is worse i mean sure the men just by pure volume

04:13:56.660 well what's your actual answer by volume the men okay what if it's a hundred thousand to a hundred

04:14:05.140 thousand which is worse um i would say when what about fifty thousand to a hundred thousand fifty

04:14:13.380 thousand essays i can't give like a determining number based on these like these okay so what if that

04:14:19.140 is the proportion per hundred thousand men that die there's ten thousand women that get essayed what

04:14:23.940 if that's the case it's also dependent on the kids it's dependent on the family members there's

04:14:27.620 a lot of like actual proponents based off of these numbers right okay and so i would not be able to

04:14:37.140 give you an answer unless you tell me the actual statistics let's say that's the let's say those are

04:14:41.380 the numbers well i'm telling you i can't say that regarding do you believe that those men that die

04:14:49.220 are going to have an afterlife or they're just totally gone after they die what does that have to do with

04:14:53.460 anything i think that has to do a lot like because if i'm just no no if i'm just gonna die and nothing

04:14:59.780 matters i don't give a shit about dying all right that's totally irrelevant

04:15:09.540 um um well no if i'm gonna am i would i rather get assaulted or would i rather go to heaven

04:15:16.660 like it depends if you're religious and how what you feel about the afterlife 100 wait okay fine

04:15:22.900 it begs the question it begs the question then so would you rather be essayed or killed i'd rather

04:15:30.500 be killed me too no shot really well it depends if i'm getting r worded killed really yes and no

04:15:39.940 absolutely not well you'd rather get like no i don't want to die i don't okay yeah uh essay murder me

04:15:48.580 baby baby i don't know what you'd say uh i would rather get essayed but you said essayed different

04:15:56.180 answer yes sam i don't want to die we have to fight i'd rather look they're both terrible they're both

04:16:01.860 terrible it could be traumatizing absolutely but uh okay so if that's the case then so you view essays worse

04:16:14.180 than death dependent on what kind of essay okay that's why i said that's why i said r worded yes

04:16:24.980 well then i could just make the same argument for death then there's easy ways to die and there's

04:16:30.020 fucking terrible because at the end because when you die at the end of death there's nothing when you

04:16:35.300 when you die and after you get essayed there's everything the essay ends yeah you have trauma

04:16:41.140 you have to live the rest of your life you don't have to live the rest of your life after you die

04:16:44.900 that's a fair point but if that were if that were a good argument for like essay being worse then why

04:16:52.100 hasn't everyone who's been essayed just kill themselves they've tried to because because after you get

04:16:58.260 essayed in the moment you feel like i would rather die in the moment you feel like i don't want to be

04:17:05.860 here i don't want to experience this this is horrible this is awful i'd rather disappear i hate every

04:17:11.940 second of this but you can't do anything about it so i have a question for you then if you're married

04:17:20.420 since you like to make this argument of what about the family though uh if you were essayed who's the

04:17:26.180 primary victim if you get if if excuse me if a woman gets essayed the woman or the husband

04:17:33.220 i mean it's to wait so what do you mean whoever gets dead and then i'm essayed who's okay who's

04:17:40.580 the primary victim if you if a woman gets essayed the woman or the husband if she has a husband

04:17:46.980 let's assume she has a husband okay what's am i the only one getting essayed who are just the woman

04:17:53.220 gets essayed is the husband of the victim or is the woman the victim who's the woman obviously the

04:17:59.300 woman yes yeah oh but it's the husband it's going to be hard for the husband yes no you seem confused

04:18:06.980 he's using this argument because you guys are saying that women are the primary victims of war

04:18:11.700 because they're having to lose their husbands trying to turn your argument so he's trying to turn it

04:18:14.740 around well no it's in the time period of like 1945 it is predominantly there was males working

04:18:22.740 it working and it's predominantly females at home so it's not only like the males dying and the women

04:18:29.540 like yes war crimes are terrible for the one but it's also i'm not gonna let you get away with this

04:18:33.140 you're shifting the goalposts here we were talking about the ukraine war okay sure okay oh sorry i got

04:18:39.860 excited because you guys are fighting go ahead yeah no i'm asking yeah keep going hold on you

04:18:44.580 haven't even engaged with the situation i've just given you i did look at her she's engaged okay you're

04:18:49.620 telling me about the 1943 world 45 and in 1945 and men worked and women i know no predominantly men

04:18:59.700 worked women didn't right okay back at that time and well in the the preface of your argument

04:19:07.860 it was more that you said okay a woman got essayed right and so i my claim was that if a man dies it's

04:19:19.300 harder on the woman for the economy as well right the economy as a whole as well do you understand

04:19:27.300 because women weren't working at the time that can you ask me what are you talking about women were

04:19:32.340 during world war ii women were absolutely working not as much as the men in the no that was like rosie

04:19:37.700 the riveter but they were working because all the men went to war no yeah exactly so but if like

04:19:42.260 a majority of men died they had to pick up a lot of jobs and things like that you can and we could

04:19:48.180 many many articles based on this so what's your argument i mean that sucks but like going to work

04:19:52.500 versus dying i feel like like i hate i hate work as much as the next guy you speaking for yourself

04:19:59.860 because dying might sound a little chill all right well that that's a different so what's the

04:20:05.860 question what's the actual argument well this was another another claim with like why

04:20:13.460 like the victimization and things like that but i don't i don't get your original

04:20:17.380 if a woman got essayed and she's married and he's in the household and he's the victim right i don't get

04:20:23.300 that no that's insane no he's not saying that he's a victim it'd be insane to say that he's the

04:20:28.340 victim yeah that's what i'm saying that it's insane to say that the woman's the victim

04:20:32.820 it's not insane to say he's not the victim at all but he's not the primary victim wait can i

04:20:36.980 ask you to say the woman's the way can i not be the primary you wouldn't be that's all he's

04:20:41.220 that's all he's saying wait i have to i'm confused can i ask a question so if i'm in my house and

04:20:45.540 a man breaks into my house and he essays me am i not the primary victim that's literally

04:20:50.020 okay no i was confirming no i was confirming imagine how crazy you would think i was if i

04:20:56.660 said no the woman's not the primary victim yeah it's the no no i agree with you the husband is

04:21:03.620 i agree with you i i definitely agree with you i was just confirming with

04:21:07.940 what if we went to another topic what if both people are still victims i've always said this

04:21:16.580 no when i no no but the people the people around you are still victims i literally asked you the

04:21:21.780 question who's the primary victim of war men or women you said women you didn't say both

04:21:26.820 i said the first time you want to roll back wanted to say both i always wanted to say both

04:21:31.540 but this is the third time you've asked me on this podcast is it not both everybody everybody is

04:21:38.020 a victim when it comes to war but when i'm asking you who's the primary victim i can't say both yeah

04:21:44.660 i can now no you can't okay because the question is who is the primary victim of war and you continually

04:21:52.420 pick women yes and you make arguments for women so i don't know why you're trying to walk back

04:21:57.620 your position here i'm not at all how am i walking back my business i said day one that i

04:22:03.140 think everyone on the planet earth is a victim and then you said you have to pick one so i said okay

04:22:07.540 sure women because of war crimes and other factors that's exactly what we're talking about

04:22:13.540 yeah so i don't what where are we now where we are where we are at now is that we we understand

04:22:20.660 that men are the primary victims of war but women suffer a lot okay sure yeah by going yes

04:22:26.180 agreed to agree with that no no but see that's exactly okay no kirby you agree that is what we

04:22:31.540 that is because i've never agreed okay so you disagree with men are the primary victims of war

04:22:38.260 she doesn't disagree with that men yes oh no that is precisely what we are arguing wait hold on if i

04:22:45.860 got drafted to the front line would i get drafted and put on the front lines that would be real

04:22:49.940 no you can't even you can't be drafted that's what i'm saying you're from canada too oh yeah

04:23:00.020 not because you're a woman because you're canadian conversation i'm sorry here we're

04:23:03.540 gonna read a couple of chats uh abigail are you able to see it or no this is a good breakup

04:23:08.420 oh no i can't if you haven't you can read it go ahead can i read it can i read it out loud just

04:23:16.260 let her read if you have in only fans you're a waste of space you're lazy you're you disrespect

04:23:22.180 yourself and men and you disrespect the veterans who died to give you the freedom to live like the

04:23:27.060 degenerates you are i'm canadian all right we have this one go ahead wow your girlfriend leaves you and

04:23:34.340 bangs your friend while you're away all your friends move on and your life changes without you

04:23:38.420 it blows they don't draft women it's not all about death think okay cool thank you forced peach thank

04:23:45.300 you mean a lot to me yeah we have law paladins coming in here in just a bit thank you for speech

04:23:51.540 appreciate it there's not a lot going on b is not red pill red pill would realize that women are

04:23:56.340 incapable of having empathy for weak men and weak men lose in war winners come home and reproduce

04:24:01.780 old school horde before paladins existed let's go he's old school horde he's talking about world

04:24:08.660 of warcraft hold on before pallies are existed okay i know pallies came around level 70 or wherever

04:24:14.500 the fuck if death isn't as big of a deal and if you die it's just over is it worse for someone to just

04:24:21.780 essay someone or to essay them and murder them and i'd rather well we already answered this yeah we

04:24:26.900 already talked about this right yeah if you die it's just over hmm durin dolls thank you man

04:24:33.460 appreciate it i obviously uh must have read your thing before i asked the question we have that uh

04:24:39.700 i don't know if you pulled that up yet but

04:24:44.980 can you read this one yeah i probably have not paid attention but studying the western front taking

04:24:49.380 world war ii for example aerial bombing was indiscriminate uh but i can go more in detail

04:24:56.900 in other conflicts however not sure what you're trying to prove depending on the time period you

04:25:01.380 need to study context okay yeah a lot of civilian casualties in uh world war ii thank you robert tanner

04:25:11.140 appreciate it although i mean i would argue in pretty much every single war that's ever occurred

04:25:15.540 every single war even wars i don't even know about i can confidently state that men

04:25:21.860 are and have been the primary victims of war more what casualties yes ergo men are the primary

04:25:30.740 victims of war

04:25:36.260 okay it's it's crazy to me that you just haven't been convinced on this

04:25:42.980 i don't even know how to approach it maybe somebody in the chat knows how to uh make a

04:25:50.100 compelling enough argument for you to step out of your delusion i don't know both my parents

04:25:55.220 agreed with me so it's hard it's like yeah they yeah they got to back up their daughter but no no no

04:26:00.500 no i don't think i think before the context i said this is why you're my parents i don't think it's about

04:26:06.180 that i think it's kind of almost crazier that you said your dad was in the military for 20 years

04:26:10.900 he was and he thinks that that's almost before he knew the context of even this podcast that makes

04:26:16.180 sense though but that makes sense like it's like if you're in the military and you know you you've

04:26:20.980 died and your family is back my dad's alive my dad's alive and well i know i know but even that

04:26:30.580 but it's still like you've put your family through so much like men are more resilient than women are

04:26:34.820 they not disagree i don't know you don't think men are more resilient than women how would that how

04:26:39.700 would that be relevant resilience how would it be in comparison to war who cares how would it be

04:26:46.580 relevant resilience is a major aspect of war resilience yeah but how would it be relevant

04:26:54.260 if you're resilient in a war are you insane google resilience right now if you're dead what does it

04:27:01.700 matter how resilient no no but if you live but if you live the resilience the resilience the

04:27:08.820 resilience what about the resilience what about the resilience does anybody know about the resilience

04:27:15.540 it's crazy all right we're gonna we're gonna move it on i guess oh we have to do man versus bear

04:27:20.260 yes yes fun i like this story she likes do you did you take something are you are you good no no

04:27:28.020 sorry i'm just i'm just a girl are you on meth i'm just a girl i'm just a girl i'm just a girl in

04:27:34.180 the world starting with you if i had to pick the words hold on hold on hold on would you rather come

04:27:38.660 across a random man or a random bear in the woods okay random as i pick man you're shocked i know

04:27:44.580 man man pandorian answer the question that's what i said bear i don't know pandorian

04:27:55.940 just answer the question is that that's not what i said she's she's picking that's a bear okay so

04:28:01.140 say bear so i said pandorian say bear can i not have a specific pandorian please say something

04:28:07.460 anything i cannot have a specific man hold on hold on hold on you don't know what a pandorian

04:28:12.980 is it's literally yeah yeah it's a literally literally a video game character it's not real

04:28:19.780 life okay if i had to truly cool bear he's a cool bear and he'd treat me nice just answer the

04:28:25.220 fucking question okay i'll pick a bear i'll pick a bear god damn okay man man because you're being a

04:28:31.620 retard that's why can you say that i just did i really hate this question but man you said man

04:28:38.340 yeah man yeah man man okay all right everyone said man well i okay why bear why bear because the

04:28:46.740 worst thing that a man could do to me doesn't compare to the worst thing that a bear could do

04:28:50.020 to me but you're like wait then you should have picked a random no no no no a bear could a bear

04:28:56.100 a bear would eat me alive a man could you know tie me up a man could also help but you're in the

04:29:01.380 woods though yeah he could bring me back to his house okay so what percent what percentage of men

04:29:07.540 do you think would well like one percent so not even i feel like every single bear would probably

04:29:12.900 try to eat you no no that's not true that's not true i've been around a lot of bears that's not true

04:29:18.660 bears tend to run away i'm not trying to take that chance no bears tend to run away bears i still

04:29:25.060 don't want to take that chance yeah you don't have to i don't want to i'm just saying this is a

04:29:28.020 reality i'm not i don't really want to argue the bear thing you want to argue the bear thing because

04:29:32.180 you know i'm so right no did you like drink some liquor back there or something you were like i've

04:29:38.340 never done anything julie move on hold on yeah click it no find it brian find it too late now all

04:29:48.180 right moving on to our next notes here we have uh let's see uh hold on so you're uh christian

04:29:59.860 what are you doing there's i scratched my arm i'm wiping it off is that allowed sorry she's bleeding

04:30:06.100 yeah yeah i scratched my arm for a second i know i got a i got a sun i got a sunburn uh you're a christian

04:30:12.180 mormon correct yeah i'm lds lds okay you said you're conservative you have your pronouns in your

04:30:17.860 bio though i thought that was interesting yeah i had a it's because you have like my business

04:30:23.780 thing on there and a lot of clients kept asking me so i just kind of felt like i had to put it in there

04:30:28.660 okay uh you said you're 100 trad not feminist and you said you live out your life through your clients

04:30:34.820 who are ultimately living what they are living out what they like to tell me their whole phase

04:30:41.540 and you do nails correct yes i do nails

04:30:47.220 and do you want me to go into yeah yeah elaborate elaborate a bit oh sorry um they told me a few

04:30:53.620 things they told me a few fetishes some men have one of them told me they have they had an ex who had

04:30:59.140 an ankle biting fetish and then another one told me that she was dating a guy who literally within a

04:31:09.460 month of dating kind of confessed that he liked eating stuff off of her but specifically kfc

04:31:16.180 that sounds lit what does that have to do with a whole phase yeah that's crazy

04:31:20.980 specifically okay you guys don't like chicken fries no i'm not saying that that's part of the

04:31:25.460 whole phase but i'm just saying like obviously i'm not just talking about it's just funny like

04:31:29.380 hearing the stories from them it's just like interesting hearing that kind of stuff because

04:31:33.460 i wouldn't do that but all right and you said that you're you know you're married you have a husband

04:31:38.180 been together for 10 years you paid for the first date without hesitation yeah i paid for us for about

04:31:45.860 two to three years into our relationship for everything until he got his first job until he got his first

04:31:50.820 job you got this don't do it babe don't do it all right you said your parents have a pretty interesting

04:31:57.540 story yeah um so basically my mom and dad were clubbers when they were younger and my dad invited

04:32:04.980 my mom back to his apartment and try to make a move on her she got grossed out and walked out literally

04:32:11.460 maybe about a year later they ended up meeting back up again not realizing that that's who they were

04:32:16.900 and as my as my mom was like pregnant with me already they drove past my dad's old condo and she

04:32:24.820 said oh my god it was so weird i i dated a guy who was who lived in that condo and he tried to make a

04:32:30.580 move on me and he's like i dated a girl who walked out on me because i made a move on her and then they

04:32:36.100 realized that that's who they were they knew each other from that okay and you wanted to speak on i think

04:32:42.580 we talked a little bit already who makes the first move in the dating process yeah i mean the only

04:32:47.460 thing is that like for me it genuinely worked like i and i've asked my husband this before i never

04:32:53.060 looked down on him for not having a job in fact like that's why two to three years into it i was

04:32:57.780 strictly paying for everything i didn't think it mattered i was more interested in the personality

04:33:02.260 the type of person he was things like that and i ended up being granted with a provider who took care

04:33:06.900 of me for the rest of pretty much where we're at right now and he tells me it's because you know

04:33:12.580 i essentially showed that like i didn't care about the materialistic part of it i genuinely cared

04:33:18.740 about his personality so do you do you guys really like everyone at the table do you really like would

04:33:24.420 you genuinely prefer a man that just paid all of your bills no hell yeah yes that's exactly what

04:33:31.540 you want you want you want every fucking every bill sorry who's paying your bills just out of

04:33:36.500 curiosity if we're gonna have the me dog who do you think is subscribing to your oh yeah me i'm not

04:33:41.700 even trying to be enough it's one thing it's one thing if a couple men subscribe it's another thing

04:33:48.580 if it's a lot of men but like if you were gonna get into a relationship with a man would you be like

04:33:53.300 you know i can't date this man unless you know depends on the situation i think for most is that like

04:33:58.660 one one round at the table would you be like you know if he can't pay my rent i can't date him would

04:34:04.500 you run at the table i've never had a man pay my my rent okay you um it wouldn't be a deal breaker if

04:34:11.780 he couldn't provide fully it wouldn't be a deal breaker whatsoever okay yeah it would be sick but i

04:34:18.980 can pay my own bills okay your turn depends on what life stage we're at yeah yeah do you prefer that

04:34:25.380 do you prefer when a man pays your rent so you ask three different questions

04:34:29.940 i'm a fool i'm just a fool baby question just a girl do you prefer when a man can just pay your rent

04:34:36.660 like of course of course it's perfect yeah of course like but if you do do you

04:34:42.580 let me read let me actually your phrase do you prefer like you wouldn't date a man unless he

04:34:46.900 actually could pay for your rent like you're like i'm not going to do this unless you're willing to

04:34:51.220 pay no okay and of course not

04:34:58.740 i wish you would have been like yes absolutely get out of here well there are there are a lot of

04:35:03.540 women that are like i wouldn't well that can't be anyway i don't think that should be like the

04:35:07.460 primary reason you're with someone is just because you can pay your bills i feel like there's other

04:35:11.540 qualities yeah but there are a lot of women that are like i'm not engaging in this relationship unless

04:35:16.900 i get my rent paid hold on are you talking about me you are are you talking about she just said you

04:35:25.220 yeah we just went back and forth whatever the hell that was if i don't yap who who else will yap

04:35:30.660 probably anyone else yeah anyone okay we're not yapping because you are i'll sit back

04:35:37.780 i'll fix that how did that even happen wasn't me can someone yeah i was like

04:35:42.180 where's the yappinator because it ain't me i'm cut well i wish i'm cut somebody yap oh use that

04:35:50.180 five hundred dollars to mute her mic of course yeah you had to be told i just came up with it

04:35:56.740 on the spot he's asking okay let's go around yeah i came up with it on the spot my definition of

04:36:01.940 feminism feminism is equity not equality so equity as in fairness that's not equality equality is

04:36:08.660 different you you uh you acknowledge the differences in gender equity as in fairness

04:36:13.300 and opportunity and things like that that's my um i don't personally like describe myself as a feminist

04:36:22.980 not a feminist my feminism means coming up with your questions on the spot no julie just keep going

04:36:30.340 ignore it ignore it keep going i'm thinking like are you a feminist yes or no oh like when i actually yes

04:36:36.580 yes yes or no please please yeah i mean probably but like yeah keep going but also no no and another

04:36:44.980 thing uh if we're saying like feminism like that little trademark i would say no definitely not i would

04:36:51.540 say the most recent variation of feminism probably not but i would agree with kirby's definition of

04:36:56.900 feminism second wave third wave don't stop please thank you robert you don't i'm sorry i was just asking no

04:37:04.180 what are we going around no i'm not a feminist did you yeah oh so it was just you i think you

04:37:13.540 and i think maybe yeah and like ish ish so what what was your definition i said equity over equality

04:37:20.420 so it's equity as in fair fair treatment but um equality is different to me because it's um not

04:37:26.820 recognizing the differences between like women uh women and men right so like for example we can bring

04:37:32.820 up the olympics talk i don't think women and men should compete because i it it should be equitable

04:37:38.260 not like equal because like um equality would be men and women doesn't equity mean that you're

04:37:43.860 trying to get equal outcomes no no equity means fairness so that's why equity means you get this

04:37:49.780 you get a a different uh like so i need a taller ladder anyone else hold on show your mouth i need a

04:37:59.060 taller ladder to look over the fence so equity means you you get the things you need to look

04:38:03.780 over the fence so you want someone to get you at the beginning to mute someone's mic for 10 minutes

04:38:08.500 i think we know who has she been i think we know who bro you know what she's my friend

04:38:13.620 what mic number is that what mic number is that no no nick no do we put it down please nick that's a

04:38:23.060 10 minute mute please yo pico steins thank you for that i got the um you to mic just put it on the

04:38:31.540 table it'll still be muted are you saying that you think that women need special treatment so that the

04:38:39.060 outcome so they can play on an equal level equal no you misunderstood of course um

04:38:45.300 of course so the misunderstanding is uh for example in like athletic athletic terms in

04:38:52.660 the terms of the olympics yes men out compete women every time and that's why when i say equitable it

04:38:57.620 should be in fairness of you acknowledge the differences in the genders right and so that's

04:39:02.020 why women should be if you're saying to make it equitable wouldn't that mean that then you would

04:39:06.340 have women start you know you would take on the same level but you would like give women an unfair

04:39:10.660 advantage to no equitable is fairness yeah that's why i'm saying do you mean like equitable means

04:39:15.220 like they have their own league and it's only women because men would kind of dominate because

04:39:19.140 they're built differently do you want to like the olympics because i'm on your side yeah that's not

04:39:23.540 okay female male right there's two categories like i'm not all for you know that one swimmer who's like

04:39:28.900 oh i really suck in the men's division let me just dominate all these women women should compete

04:39:32.820 against each other in said olympic sport like i think that's sort of a bad example in some form

04:39:37.220 of feminism well but they are saying that and that's the same with like even actors and actresses

04:39:41.860 they're saying there there should be a general categories of acting rather that we you call

04:39:46.500 everyone actor and i i don't agree with that because it kind of also defeats the purpose there is going

04:39:51.700 to be more of like you can see a shift in general with like let's say for one year more more act more

04:39:59.140 males win like the acting category and it's like it's kind of like reverse you still want to give

04:40:03.940 like equal opportunity in the sense so where do you think women lack yeah no offense i don't maybe

04:40:09.140 apparently i'm the one who misunderstands stuff i don't really get what you're saying so maybe to

04:40:12.260 make it pragmatic where do women not have equal opportunity like in practice with men compared to

04:40:18.580 men rather i i'm not saying they don't even it's equal opportunity that's like if both resumes are

04:40:25.300 completely the same for example in a job that they're both very qualified for like let's say

04:40:30.180 marketing or something like that if resumes are you can't talk for 10 minutes um if both resumes

04:40:37.220 are exactly the same they should have equal treatment and they do there's like laws now saying

04:40:43.780 you can't discriminate against women so like it was different back then you're like oh yeah you can

04:40:46.980 not hire she's a woman some people don't support that if it's exactly who doesn't think that if

04:40:52.980 you what do you mean who doesn't who do you who do you mean there are some like females that still

04:40:58.660 believe that like that's my terms of my my definition my understanding of how i want to perceive feminism

04:41:09.460 you said a whole bunch of nothing goes to the civil warship okay okay okay so if you're so i don't

04:41:15.620 understand you're saying you're a feminist because there's if there's a two resumes a man and a woman they

04:41:20.340 have the same qualifications that they should both be entitled to get the job yes which we establish

04:41:27.140 that there is existing legislation yes and codified laws that say that is the case yeah i did so i

04:41:33.700 support and i asked you where is there a lack of equal opportunity or an attitude that is why you justify

04:41:43.700 being a feminist like where is i mean yeah because you can see even in cases like in 2017 for example

04:41:51.060 um there was a case in even the movie industry there's like uh the top grossing films of the years

04:41:58.580 30 30 of the top grossing films had no females in like the back end of things

04:42:04.500 like in itself so so what do you mean so it's more of like the process of the wnba critique it's

04:42:10.180 because people aren't watching it so you're not going to get fairly compensated if people aren't

04:42:15.140 watching your movie it's the it's the back end of the filming industry what do you mean they're not

04:42:19.220 watching the females are not in the front ends they're even the back end of production so 2000

04:42:24.340 there's nothing preventing women from starring in movies no it's not there's also nothing preventing them

04:42:30.740 from working behind the scenes there is because they're hiring less preventing them actually

04:42:35.060 there's then they would get sued and there's actually yeah there might just be less women

04:42:40.820 applying well i can give you another example 2017 was the kind of like the front run of the me too

04:42:47.220 movement because the big harvey weinstein incident wait wait hold on let's go back to the let's go back

04:42:52.020 to the movie thing yeah so okay frequently women are paid less in sporting for example like basketball

04:42:58.820 players sure do you object to female basketball players being paid less than their male counterparts

04:43:05.060 i think same job i think sporting is a really weird and interesting um category because it's not just

04:43:13.860 about the actual industry it's actual it's also about the individual players for for example like

04:43:18.980 attraction like popularity of each individual player it deems how much they get paid right and how good

04:43:24.820 they are oh that as well but like you can even like you can argue with women's soccer is way worse

04:43:30.500 let's let's say you want to argue that but alex morgan got paid crazy numbers because she was also a

04:43:36.260 very beautiful soccer player she was a crazy great at the sport but let's say you don't like watching

04:43:40.900 women's soccer but you also got paid tons of money for endorsements okay yeah brand endorsements

04:43:45.620 things like that answer the question so okay let's just let's just assume here that women do get paid

04:43:51.140 less than men in sporting so soccer basketball i trying to think of any other you know professional

04:43:58.740 sports tennis uh tennis actually i think they've well i have a question is there like a don't think

04:44:04.740 it like pay the same i think they is it like how do you do it is it like standard like women's team

04:44:09.940 make 30 men's team make 30 but men generate more revenue so it's a higher 30 because the total number

04:44:15.940 is bigger or is it like okay so but do you okay for example let's just use the basketball example

04:44:20.980 do you object to female basketball players being paid less than male basketball players

04:44:26.580 i want to at least acknowledge that they should at least play on the same courts right so there there

04:44:33.540 there is especially in soccer i i mostly know about soccer because i grew up playing soccer they had to

04:44:40.260 play on turf fields for example which everyone in soccer knows that those are way worse they should at

04:44:45.220 least get women have to play on turf fields and back when i played when i back when i watched

04:44:50.260 high school no no no okay no no it's uh okay why don't you answer the actual question though

04:44:56.660 should they get paid we're talking about pay yeah i don't know why you're bringing up turf fields

04:45:01.220 and i asked you about basketball not soccer it's like one okay never mind yeah um

04:45:06.740 no i don't think they should get paid the same if if they don't equity then so you're not in

04:45:11.540 favor of that no that's not that's not necessarily true because i said fairness so if if one is

04:45:16.100 generating way more income then that's equity not equality well i guess well yeah you have to

04:45:21.540 define what would that look like very different quality and equity there equality would be like

04:45:27.620 both are the same they get paid the same equity is fairness so one generates way more revenue they

04:45:32.500 get paid more that's equity over how is that but then why did you have such an issue with movies that

04:45:38.580 are getting less views making less no they're not getting less views that was my whole point

04:45:43.700 they were there's two there's like so what my point was you said you we were talking about the how are

04:45:50.340 women getting less opportunity and i told you the top grossing films of 2017 30 of those films had no

04:45:56.420 women in the back of the question taylor so uh taylor swift i think is earns more than probably 99 of

04:46:04.180 male musicians what do you say to that it's fine why does she earn more good for her well that's not

04:46:11.220 fair to the 99 of male musicians who make less than she generates revenue based off like sales and

04:46:17.140 things like that yes that was my well no that was my point with uh those movies generate revenue

04:46:22.260 i said back end i didn't say front end i keep saying back in front like same okay so it's the people

04:46:28.500 working the cameras versus the people what do you mean back end back end of movies are the director

04:46:32.980 producers um cinematographers and everything like yeah she's saying you are cherry picking like first

04:46:39.060 of all the year 2017 it's like of all the movies that were produced it's the top 30 it's not the

04:46:45.220 front end actors it's the people who are in the back like it's not like like i asked you for your

04:46:49.540 like i would think that it would come pretty easily to your head like why you'd be a feminist why you

04:46:53.460 think there's lack of equal opportunity in the united states i never said and the best you can give is

04:46:58.660 like well in this one year like a third of movies where women were like not working the cameras they

04:47:04.580 uh didn't get a lot of views so that's why i'm a feminist like i think that's very that's very nice

04:47:10.340 that you said that but you're still misunderstanding what i was coming across i said respectfully i'm

04:47:16.260 i'm really trying but i died maybe it's you said why are you a feminist i said because of equity i

04:47:20.980 would want to be such a buzzword you can't just say because of equity yeah but and they're like

04:47:26.100 because equity and equity is what are you confused about because you're saying like oh then give me

04:47:30.100 example how we're not equitable and i'm not saying we're not equitable like there are but if you said

04:47:34.020 we need you're a feminist because you need equity and then you just said we're not equitable like

04:47:38.580 no i didn't say that that's what again no i said the basketball analogy was a good one wait

04:47:43.940 actually nick you can pull that thing up that you sent me nick this is an article women fronted films

04:47:50.100 oh but like got nominated less overall for like best categories i think it was something like

04:47:56.980 that well you referenced the year 2017 so make it bigger women fronted films are top three highest

04:48:05.380 grossing movies of 2017 uh last jedi beauty and the beast and wonder woman topped north america's box

04:48:13.300 office so even looking up the precise year that you provided actually in the year you provided

04:48:20.020 this is front end i keep the poor back end but how does that justify you being a feminist so okay so

04:48:28.180 i didn't justify this of being being i'm telling you when you ask me how is it unequal opportunity i told

04:48:34.100 you that in even these movies and these categories women are not being hired that was my whole point that

04:48:39.700 was but what you're saying women not being hired really doesn't correlate to what you are talking

04:48:45.940 about you're talking about highest grossing films and film popularity there's nothing in what you're

04:48:51.060 saying that's like there's a systemic campaign that studios are waging to not hire women it was it's

04:48:57.780 kind sorry on on the back end and not the front end only on the back end well it correlates in the

04:49:03.140 sense because the 2017 like i was saying was the actual the year of the me too movement and this this

04:49:09.380 this you're all over the place right now i'm just you're all over the place well it was the

04:49:15.620 direct shift between 2017 people's acknowledgement of that women aren't being hired in the movie

04:49:21.460 industry right i don't really think that you've proven that and i don't really think that's true

04:49:27.140 and i don't really think the me too movement was about women not being hired in the industry it's about

04:49:30.980 their treatment in the industry because they were being hired and they were getting treated poorly

04:49:36.180 because they had jobs within the industry the me too movement couldn't have happened if women

04:49:39.860 didn't have jobs in the industry i mean there's a direct correlation after after the me too

04:49:44.580 movement of the hiring of women i don't understand the actual argument though i also don't know if

04:49:48.980 i grant like like okay say in really cushy hollywood jobs on the back end they're not hiring female

04:49:58.580 directors for again i don't really even know the reason why how does that prove that like there's

04:50:05.300 not equal opportunity for women it's like the opportunity for women when i said like i i talked

04:50:11.220 about the top grossing films when i said 30 of like these back end top films had no women i'm not

04:50:17.540 saying even in the category of maybe women don't want to do that that's just not true it's like okay

04:50:25.780 let's look at early childhood education women make up the majority of jobs there women make up

04:50:30.180 the majority of jobs in nursing so you could flip that logic on your head and say well that's sexist

04:50:34.900 because there's not men and men would want to do it because hypothetically men would want to do it

04:50:38.580 they hire more women in those job categories because more women are applying yeah wait wait

04:50:43.300 just to be clear so it's sexist if more women get hired in a job field and it's also sexist if too

04:50:50.500 few women get hired in the job field no that's not what i said at all but you said your issue is that

04:50:57.620 not enough women are being hired on the very niche back end of studios but you don't find issue with a

04:51:04.580 a majority overwhelming majority of women being hired for jobs like nursing and early childhood

04:51:10.420 education no it's because oh women a lot of times are more like uh the general gender biases are

04:51:19.060 are associated women with these jobs right so like well i don't know gender biases is a pejorative

04:51:24.340 connotation i would say it's just your innate biology women have always empirically been drawn to more

04:51:30.020 that's your that's your opinion it's not really it's biological fact and statistics and studies

04:51:36.420 and i hate studies but it it shows that empirical data shows that women have always gravitated towards

04:51:41.380 nursing and early childhood education as opposed to say oil rigs and hardcore machinery work which

04:51:47.540 by the way if we bring up deaths again workplace deaths are like 80 upwards of 80 percent if not 90

04:51:53.540 percent men over fourth i think every year it's like nearly 5 000 women it's like 400 just to bring

04:51:59.140 up deaths but that aside i just don't really understand so your issue that you are resting

04:52:04.180 your case for feminism on again i asked you like give me your best shot as to why you're a feminist and

04:52:09.620 the best you could give me is say that you said i thought it was a better no no she said what is our

04:52:14.420 unequal what's the unequal opportunity that's what you said okay first of all you gave an example that

04:52:19.460 was false because we just said that the 2017 that's the actresses that's the actresses okay

04:52:24.180 so why does back-end film production matter more than front-end male and female lawyer what if one

04:52:29.060 makes less i feel like that would have been a way simpler argument i'm just curious why your metric

04:52:32.900 for why there's you there's a lack of equal opportunity you said why is there a lack of you said

04:52:38.340 why is there a lack of fairness i gave you an example of something that has a lack of fairness

04:52:42.660 and then you're like oh what's that what's what's your what's your point of feminism your example was

04:52:47.140 in one year the top 30 highest grossing movies only on the back end didn't have women and that's

04:52:57.220 so like niche and then we just showed you that actually the top three grossing films had women

04:53:02.900 on the front end and i guarantee you if you look in 2017 no percentage of women who are holding

04:53:08.340 frankly percentage of women who are getting college degrees and probably getting preferential

04:53:12.180 financial treatment from banks in terms of loans and women in business programs certainly outnumbers

04:53:16.500 men so i just because you gave me one random statistic which i don't even know if it's actually

04:53:21.220 true that doesn't negate or support your point like that's just that's so irrelevant it's like

04:53:27.140 a drop it's relevant to what you were asking me my general opinion of like oh why do you think

04:53:32.740 women have unequal opportunities i told you so what societal forces are preventing women from working

04:53:39.220 only on the back end in film in that case it's sexism that was my whole point it's sex so how

04:53:46.500 does that work a lot of women want to work as like transportation coordinators it's like a lot of like

04:53:50.500 manual labor so you're telling me that the back end i'm talking about is not transportation coordinators

04:53:56.740 it's it is the directors it is producers it is like the apex jobs like the desirable jobs

04:54:04.660 well i mean it's something yeah like i said it's a co-producers things like that so you think that

04:54:09.060 like people are in the c-suite executive like paramount studios they're like oh wow this candidate looks

04:54:15.140 awesome they produce all these cool films they have this this and that oh she's a woman so we're not

04:54:21.220 going to hire her like you think that's realistically what's happening and conversely while you're focusing

04:54:25.460 and you're putting the spotlight on very high paying high status cushy jobs again only on the

04:54:29.540 back end not the front end what about the fact that i would argue that most of the i would say

04:54:33.940 low end low status jobs just from sort of a finding like an income perspective and just not a very

04:54:39.300 glamorous lifestyle right people who are working machinery paving the road stuff that they don't

04:54:43.380 get any thanks for any gratitude overwhelmingly majority men like i said overwhelming majority workplace

04:54:48.980 deaths are men so you're hyper focusing fixating on the fact that like these really cushy jobs women

04:54:54.180 aren't getting but the inverse of that is that overwhelmingly men are taking up the bottom rung

04:54:58.660 of jobs but again i gave you one example right so there's many many examples so then give another

04:55:07.460 one free julie for example like i i bring this up a lot the tech industry for example this startup

04:55:13.460 industry a lot of times majority are men being hired not women do we know the majority of who's

04:55:19.300 supplying really wait hold on i don't know you mean like software engineers no you mean what a

04:55:25.300 tech industry a tech that's made up of like coders it's like software engineers so the tech industry

04:55:31.300 can be any any and i think that's actually like aerospace engineers like you said um but that's a

04:55:37.940 particularly bad example because when they do studies majority of people even in college are

04:55:43.620 when societies become more egalitarian particularly i'm talking nordic countries again i don't like

04:55:51.540 studies but when you go through them they've actually found that the more egalitarian the

04:55:55.780 more quote-unquote liberal society becomes the less women that there are who get involved in stem

04:56:01.220 fields and the more that they naturally gravitate towards what i would argue they're biologically

04:56:05.140 inclined and wired to want to do which is like nursing early childhood education so the stem argument

04:56:10.580 is is particularly i think falls falls flat is particularly bad but even if you take a step

04:56:15.620 back i don't really even think that that's true if you look at what's going on in silicon valley

04:56:20.340 right now or any of these startup companies and frankly i think startups are a particularly bad

04:56:23.860 example because that industry is pretty cutthroat and that you're raising money and you either

04:56:29.140 make it work or you don't there's not really room for like dei hiring style practices like if you

04:56:34.100 suck at your job you suck at your job but in all of those big corporations they are prioritizing

04:56:40.100 hiring women they want i mean have you heard yeah because all stem all the statistics are if you

04:56:45.780 have diversity inclusion you you have better innovation every study can show you that if you

04:56:53.460 have over 30 percent like um mixed executive team you're usually it's more successful right

04:56:59.860 that is true which i don't necessarily think first of all every show you're talking about dei if you

04:57:05.060 have diversity who every patient who paid for those studies yeah the united nations a bunch of

04:57:10.900 a bunch of like companies there's tons of people who show this so you think that just because like

04:57:16.100 there's a black person a white person and a brown person in a room that you're going to have better

04:57:19.060 outcomes even if you you you yes because you have different you have different markets you have

04:57:22.980 different okay point of views different wait wait wait can i ask you a question when it comes to math

04:57:27.460 do you think that like like top level like math mathematicians like a black mathematician and a

04:57:33.220 white mathematician like they're going to come to like better conclusions because one's black

04:57:37.700 didn't you just hear what i said answer the question answer the question answer the question

04:57:41.860 yes i do i genuinely do oh well that's not really how that's not how math works though it's objective

04:57:47.540 no if they can't if they can't solve that's not how math works if they can't solve

04:57:52.580 something if they can't solve something they all have different point of views of what to look at

04:57:56.340 even if i take you even if i take you at your word right and say that this mythical you know

04:58:01.140 unicorn that is diversity is so great for the workplace okay say it's true if all these

04:58:06.500 corporations and studios and whatnot which are ostensibly i'm sure you'd probably agree motivated

04:58:11.300 by profit right and wanting to to produce returns and there's this magical strategy that is going to

04:58:16.900 allow them to increase their profits tenfold because apparently a black mathematician is is

04:58:21.460 the key to all their financial woes or hiring a female doctor or whatever is going to fix all the

04:58:27.220 problems why would they then be sitting in the boardroom and saying oh we can't hire women oh

04:58:33.220 we can't have any women not on the front end but on the back end right isn't that sort of a dumb

04:58:37.700 approach to take to hiring it's because a lot of times with especially board of directors they have

04:58:44.420 someone they know they have someone they can influence okay but that that you literally just

04:58:48.260 said and what what is how does that even engage with what i just said there's a board of directors

04:58:52.260 where there's someone they know and they have influence she's talking what wouldn't wouldn't

04:58:56.500 nepotism equally benefit men and women yeah like if it's just about a personal relationship not

04:59:01.060 necessarily no so you're saying your argument is nepotism unfairly it benefits men i'm i'm saying

04:59:09.220 in the case of what we were the context of what we're talking about especially a board of directors

04:59:14.340 and hiring teams and things like that a lot of times yes nepotism is involved in like a lot of times

04:59:20.980 the hiring of a lot of these i'm not disagreeing with you i don't know what that has to do with

04:59:25.140 with anything it has a lot to do with a lot of this because they for example if

04:59:30.180 but nepotism is not a gendered thing yeah well i feel like having a diverse amount of people like

04:59:36.260 in more subjective fields like marketing and movies makes sense but you can't be it can't be

04:59:41.460 like oh we have all these different minds for like something very objective like math and coding

04:59:45.700 but there's right answers and there's wrong answers either it works or it doesn't

04:59:48.500 dei studies the legend studies that you're talking about they're not actually talking because

04:59:52.980 believe me those same institutions that are putting that out i can guarantee you that they

04:59:56.500 do not support diversity of thought i'm sure they're part of the group of people who are

05:00:00.020 pushing political correctness and when you say diversity you're not talking about bringing

05:00:03.780 together groups of people who disagree and having actual debate you're talking about just

05:00:08.900 figurehead diversity poster child diversity where it's like oh this guy's black this person's

05:00:13.060 this person's trans this person's this this person's that that doesn't yield any any results

05:00:18.980 at all frankly i would almost argue you see why is it it's always like the roads that are collapsing

05:00:23.700 the bridges that are collapsing those are always the ones that have the diversity programs going on

05:00:27.300 i do have to move things on but why don't you each make a final point

05:00:31.540 and then we'll move things on do you have a response and then natalie does the diversity claim

05:00:36.580 is you need at least 30 percent of a more diverse team in order to actually get a solid response and

05:00:42.660 it is a it is solid responses and it's a response that actually has like so if you're at 25 29 the

05:00:51.060 statistic is you at least need a 30 percent team a 30 percent more diverse

05:00:55.540 what is this statistic it's can i ask you a question would a company be considered diverse if

05:01:01.140 there were no men in it uh no no you need diversity in all all angles oh okay oh all viewpoints all

05:01:09.140 angles okay all right i mean do you want to did you finish your point or yeah sure okay i just think

05:01:15.460 it's funny every time i come on the show and i ask every feminist for like one example of an actual

05:01:20.180 grievance that they would have that would justify their rationale for being a feminist it is the most

05:01:25.060 niche anecdotal one-off examples that is like pigeonholed to one year one subset

05:01:31.140 of an industry that's not even the front end of actors but the back end of actors

05:01:35.780 only in films they all tell you that that's crazy they all yeah last time last time by the way is she

05:01:41.620 unmuted um but i just my last point on this and i think this is my always key issue with feminism

05:01:49.780 is that so many girls say they're feminists but then they're actually pressed on it they honestly don't

05:01:54.260 know why and i think you should ask yourself why you've been so conditioned to think that you are a

05:01:58.020 feminist why you're so adamant that you know women need to be the larger amounts of victims

05:02:02.820 in more time than men why there's such an ingrained why you're conditioned to not be a feminist

05:02:08.340 um you don't think you can be conditioned to not be a feminist have you ever read the news

05:02:12.020 i can be like why am i not a feminist well i have a question like the whole women make 82 cents to a

05:02:17.780 dollar and now it's like oh for a white man's dollar i don't know what that means but i thought it was

05:02:22.340 more like they're choosing professions that i mean there's not really a lot of money i don't know if

05:02:27.140 you want to get into child care or oh you're yeah you're rage quitting no i know i'm just kidding

05:02:32.820 this is a long conversation i do have some follow-up questions for you once you're back though you can

05:02:36.580 go ahead uh natalie could i have you read uh this one please why would any 304 give up their jobs

05:02:41.860 making six to seven figures a year to take off their clothes on only fans to instead carry around

05:02:46.820 a 100 pound camera for half as much money even panace 304 wouldn't do that it doesn't quite work

05:02:54.740 like that but okay uh thank you little paladins appreciate it and then we have walshy poo if you

05:03:01.940 can read this one brian i get back from kill tony to a goat panel drizzle drizzle sorry number eight

05:03:07.780 number nine is most attractive um number five and number one tied for second sup nicolette baller

05:03:14.260 as usual maddie equals goat question cut or uncut okay going around the table i guess uh do you

05:03:21.220 prefer guy cut or uncut um i'm actually gonna say uncut i feel like that is a hot take maybe not we'll

05:03:30.660 find out i prefer cut i don't care no preference i don't give a singular fuck i'm not gonna answer that

05:03:39.860 question yeah same um whatever my husband is neither is a deal breaker i'm here for the same

05:03:47.540 on the one ambivalent ambivalent okay all right thank you walshy poo uh does anybody here i mean

05:03:55.700 we've had some of you on the show show before anybody here who's seen the show have any disagreements

05:04:00.500 with anything anything you guys want to touch on i have a question for you go ahead because it's not

05:04:08.180 necessarily a disagreement because i totally agree like that marriage has been completely made into

05:04:12.420 being like this thing with the government do you agree like that marriage should be strictly within

05:04:17.780 the church then like i'm just curious on your stance on that because i know you don't believe

05:04:22.180 in marriage yeah i'm fine with that is it just because the government's involved and it kind of

05:04:26.260 creates like obviously now women can really kind of screw men over so do you think like

05:04:34.340 it should go back to being only like a church type of thing within the church

05:04:40.020 i'm just fine the government get involved in the first place yeah i'm fine with the government gets

05:04:44.020 involved for taxes taxes are the only reason they're they're interested yeah i was just curious yeah yeah

05:04:50.500 i i think that would be really good if the government was got out of uh it's involvement

05:04:56.500 would you say that that's one of the reasons why you don't believe in marriage or is that like

05:05:00.980 or do you just generally not believe it in general okay oh no i just wanted to ask yeah i mean primarily

05:05:06.340 just the state's involvement with it and okay the potential ramifications in the event of a divorce

05:05:12.340 that's pretty much it uh and then i think those are all the chats let me see i had some more notes for

05:05:18.020 you actually i think uh we have hold on uh women expect you said women expect too much from men

05:05:26.820 when they don't have much themselves yeah so a lot of the times when i was or actually in the very

05:05:32.420 beginning of my relationship uh whether i had an argument with my now husband or a disagreement a lot

05:05:38.580 of friends around me would tell me that he's not worth anything because he didn't have a job or like he

05:05:43.860 wasn't necessarily making like a lump sum of money and they said you have a job he doesn't so i mean

05:05:51.460 go find somebody that does and you know if i would have listened i wouldn't be married right now and in

05:05:55.620 a happy relationship so i just think that like women expect too much of men but don't have the

05:06:01.460 same in return like i feel like if you're gonna expect a six-figure salary from a man

05:06:05.380 maybe have something have have something to offer or at least be making six figures yourself but

05:06:11.940 expecting a job is like bare minimum expecting what would be the the equitable thing to offer

05:06:19.620 if you're looking for a six-figure man i mean i just think that you should have the same in return

05:06:25.380 i think if you have less and you're expecting higher i think that's kind of like an unfair thing to do

05:06:30.420 isn't that women's nature though hypergamy to want a man who is well yeah like i i'm saying in terms

05:06:35.940 of me like i had a job very young and my husband didn't and just i didn't mind about that go off

05:06:42.580 nicolette i didn't go off nicolette nicolette tell us how you feel come on uh i mean i think that's just

05:06:48.420 like the bare minimum to want a guy with a job maybe like you don't have this job in a car i mean you

05:06:53.780 don't have to expect him to make more money than you but i mean that's not what you expect

05:06:58.660 um yeah but you don't have to i mean just say like that's crazy like i'm glad it worked out for

05:07:06.900 you but can i can we ask why he didn't have a job um for so long well at the time he was actually

05:07:15.380 trying to figure out what career he wanted to do and i was completely fine with that because we were

05:07:19.500 both in school at the time and then so he's a student yeah he was a student we were both students

05:07:24.980 at the same time so he was just trying to figure out what he wanted to do did he ask you to pay for

05:07:31.220 stuff or was that something you just volunteered i voluntarily did it oh okay myself and you said

05:07:35.920 moving on though uh you said when women have a bias against men it is socially accepted and usually

05:07:40.400 laughed off when men do the same they're seen as misogynists i'm not saying both genders don't

05:07:45.780 have a right to be biased however when men do it it's seen as wrong to the most extreme level

05:07:50.680 yeah so like i was watching like a prior podcast and a lot of the times they talk about like you

05:07:56.000 know like if you would prefer someone who's overweight and somebody who's not you know if

05:07:59.560 a female has a preference that a man not be overweight it's seen as like a preference but

05:08:04.220 when a man doesn't want an overweight woman he's seen as like biased he's rude he's an ass things like

05:08:11.660 that i just think that it's a little unfair yeah to be saying that kind of stuff well it's kind of

05:08:17.140 like i mean if we look at the bear versus man one question like that's a really strong bias to have

05:08:23.480 against men that you would rather for those of you who said bear actually this panel overwhelmingly said

05:08:29.300 man which is most of the times we've been asking this question for two months now i said randomized so

05:08:34.200 that that's why i don't mean okay thank you for that addition thank you oh you're back i had some

05:08:40.140 questions for you um but no you make a really good point so i mean the i mean to say that like

05:08:46.400 you would rather be with a bear over a man is a very biased thing to say because the presupposition

05:08:52.900 there is like a uh law like such a large majority of men would opt to victimize you in some way

05:08:58.960 paints men as like inherently predatory which is really not the case there are absolutely terrible

05:09:04.160 men out there but the vast majority of men would not opt to harm a woman there are monstrous men out

05:09:09.980 there but it's a small like small minority very small minority of men so uh yeah that's why i

05:09:17.620 would i would hope for the best in people that's why that was my point it's randomized yeah hope for

05:09:23.560 the best but not in the past last thing on the feminist thing uh so do you believe women should

05:09:28.820 be drafted i'm fine with that okay i thought you said something differently last time and i asked the

05:09:34.640 whole panel if anybody has any disagreements with anything they've heard from the podcast do you

05:09:38.820 have any disagreements you want to disagree i just want to disagree with this one statistic that

05:09:42.920 keeps coming up andrew wilson and his wife both said it that majority of divorces happens because

05:09:48.840 the woman is unhappy and i'm like no i just really looked it up the first time i came on i said majority

05:09:55.240 of divorces happen because of infidelity i told him that he was like that was a money issue no no no

05:10:00.460 re-look it up you can do u.s divorces 2024 it is infidelity on nick can look it up

05:10:09.120 what do you mean she's getting cheated on or she is cheating

05:10:13.700 look it up divorce.com or whatever the fuck so i'm so sorry the number one reason for divorces is

05:10:22.980 male infidelity no not male i'm saying infidelity infidelity in general sure that would be a good

05:10:29.480 reason for divorce but i'm not sure if that's the primary that's the primary i'm telling you i

05:10:33.340 looked it up okay before the first time i came i'll actually just take your word for it i don't

05:10:37.620 really care to argue it okay to be honest if it is it just bothered if it is i heard it like uh i

05:10:43.280 don't remember when andrew wilson's wife was on but i heard it again and i was like no it's infidelity

05:10:47.780 i just looked this up yeah well maybe we have different stats on that well you can look it up i'm fine with

05:10:54.140 it yeah okay okay uh okay you said brian thanks for the bow advice what so uh oh yeah we had to

05:11:03.120 play the bow video okay we'll do that in a bit so i actually did it just like out of nowhere for like

05:11:07.820 a good week and at first my husband was like a little bit like kind of thrown off but he just

05:11:11.840 accepted it but i noticed that the week that i was doing it it brought out the chivalrous side of

05:11:16.520 him so like that's when i got more of like the opening the door for me you know holding my hand

05:11:22.560 things like that like being a little bit more like pulling the chair out for me when we go out

05:11:26.640 to dinner like it just brought out and i had asked him about it before i came on the show and he said

05:11:31.280 well it just it just feels like you know like i kind of see you as more of like a little like kind

05:11:35.960 of like i want to protect your femininity like you seem more of like something like i just want to

05:11:41.040 protect it so it's kind of like i want to do these things for you so i just i thought it was funny and

05:11:45.760 i thought it was actually it actually kind of helped with doing the small like gesture i mean

05:11:49.880 he saw it as just more of a respect thing it wasn't more of like yeah what is what it what

05:11:54.860 are you guys talking about what is that you don't know about the bow what is that you guys don't know

05:11:59.320 about the bow i haven't played the bow video for you no you guys been on the show like two times

05:12:03.600 yeah you never play this for us neither time we got the luxury shit i gotta introduce you guys to

05:12:08.380 like the bow wait does your husband does your husband watch the show no i would say more

05:12:14.800 what's bow wait cat you gotta watch or what's her name julia julie julie julia you're gonna watch

05:12:20.400 the bow video julie come here yeah come here stop doing meth in the bathroom please yeah please

05:12:25.220 i think i said math i'm like i don't think i gotta stop cut the cut the

05:12:29.380 she said she really likes

05:12:34.220 she's not a method all right so your husband doesn't watch the show so it's not like he knew

05:12:40.480 oh she's doing the whatever podcast thing okay yeah all right i'm check this check this is what

05:12:45.560 i need from a girl this is what i need watch check this out guys i'm so excited go ahead you can play

05:12:50.680 it now boom check out that bow technique son oh i would like to do that all the time there's the

05:13:01.760 laundry yeah all right oh look at that uh dinner's ready oh she's you know attentive oh great okay

05:13:08.940 oh that's fine we can still see a little differences uh getting me a beer look at that

05:13:13.460 this is so nice and she's beautiful yeah i mean her eyes kind of scare me a little bit

05:13:20.900 she's got that like kind of crazy she's got the crazy uncanny valley boom huge bow what if i did all

05:13:29.000 that without the bow at the beginning uh so not what if i only know not the same worthless

05:13:35.420 she really needs that meth yeah doesn't she okay i i studied abroad in japan for like a month so

05:13:42.800 like i bow all the time everyone makes fun of me i'm like oh thank you well now you're dating so

05:13:49.140 yeah the bow it worked she did it i've had a couple girls come on the show i've had girls even message

05:13:54.600 me saying hey i tried the bow i thought it was ridiculous and it worked the husband loved the

05:14:00.780 boyfriend husband loved it loved it i do like just a mini i think i just want to be appreciated

05:14:05.360 for the reference no no it's like if like someone opens a door open for me i'm like oh thank you

05:14:10.800 like next day i'm going yes thank you oh thank you i mean it's really embarrassing i've been told

05:14:16.720 several times that i do too much for my husband so i've been i've been judged by a lot of women

05:14:21.940 because of what i do for my husband so i've also been yeah a lot of women for what i do for my husband

05:14:27.620 are those women married but conveniently you guys are married yeah i was gonna say are those women

05:14:32.620 married because the women who judge me for how much i do for my husband i've actually been judged by a

05:14:36.560 few people that are clients that are married heaven forbid you do too much well i think shouldn't you

05:14:44.060 shouldn't you want to do things for your spouse yeah everything i do for him i i get joy yeah like

05:14:49.580 it's not like he's forcing you into it right is what you're yeah that's what you're saying right

05:14:53.440 like yeah like i have a few clients that actually really think that i do way too much and they'll

05:14:57.700 say the ones that are doing the whole thing no they're even married i have one i have a client

05:15:02.800 that's married with a child and she'll tell me like you do way too much and then i ask her like okay

05:15:07.140 well finances and things what do you do and she's just like well usually 50 50 i contribute and i'm

05:15:11.400 like see that's i don't i'm i'm very traditional so i don't believe in that so the nails oh

05:15:17.160 wait so you okay so he pays most of your bills and that kind of allows you the time he pays all

05:15:23.400 of my bills and oh yeah of course that makes sense yeah well he has constant food on the table his

05:15:28.420 outfit or uniform for work is put in the morning for him already laid out so i think that's really

05:15:34.100 much already taken care of for him when he comes would you guys be down nicolette would you be down

05:15:38.880 to bow for a bow for a go sure we don't we don't want a begrudging bow we want an enthusiastic bow

05:15:51.040 okay i'll do it oh wait like right now yeah oh i mean that's not what i was asking but okay fuck

05:15:55.520 it let's see the technique go ahead i'll stand up i guess i guess no this is getting weird it's like

05:16:01.440 no i'm excited don't stop this hey stop shaming okay it's okay please don't bow it's not like

05:16:07.360 uh okay it wasn't bad i mean i i think this is a bit much the you know the rare hands oh now

05:16:14.340 the hands need to be like folded down here yes like i dream of genie instead no no no it needs

05:16:23.720 to be like okay uh like just show you're non-threatening uh would you do vow um yes but

05:16:32.160 i think i'd laugh i would feel bad you should try it maybe the guys will pay for dates

05:16:36.320 just hit them with the bow second date what

05:16:42.420 i'm just giving her i'm trying to help out yeah they'll be like oh she's worth

05:16:48.340 going half on at least half she's worth what wait what you take that back take what back

05:16:57.580 she's worth the whole meal did you just hear what you said out loud what would i say maybe

05:17:03.280 she's worth going half on are you implying that i'm not that that would wouldn't that be an upgrade

05:17:08.400 from oh no the what you've been the the guys paying for nothing just said no huh that's what you just

05:17:15.740 said what do you mean i'm confused would you would you moving on oh what would you bow what you bow

05:17:22.600 i bow all the time i just said that no for like a guy it's like it's

05:17:28.700 if you were dating nick would you bow for him it's like it's like a respect answer the question

05:17:35.100 it's a respect thing if he does anything nice i'm like oh thank you would you bow for nick if

05:17:39.100 you're dating him thank you all the time i do this like now you open the door can you read this

05:17:44.080 go ahead just did a quick google search the primary cries of for divorce is your

05:17:49.140 irrecon oh my god irreconcilable differences and is primarily initiated by women meaning women

05:17:56.220 aren't happy so they want to leave uh that's not the statistic i read you're done you're wrong

05:18:01.080 thank you but you're wrong uh we need to let's see we got to get through a couple oh dating

05:18:07.080 profiles let's do the dating profiles guys a couple girls have dating profiles we're gonna reveal

05:18:12.240 nicolette first she's single ready to mingle bachelorette number one

05:18:19.120 enjoy a coffee or get a yummy dinner okay all right next that's the win i'm just kidding

05:18:27.140 all right that that's her and her friends next i want someone who will treat me like a princess

05:18:36.680 who's next to you is that my friend that looks like kamala harris okay next you are you friends

05:18:44.360 with her okay to me relaxation is skincare reading a book or listening to a podcast like you listen

05:18:49.180 to the whatever podcast i did on the way here nice next or is that it okay that's you again okay

05:18:57.660 wait you want to be treated like a princess so that's actually um to find sugar daddies

05:19:04.540 that's like yeah so not love all right so the whole coffee thing i wouldn't actually go on a

05:19:13.240 real date with someone that i wanted to like take seriously for coffee that's just like yeah yeah paid

05:19:21.200 all right respect the honesty all right next you want to be treated like a princess though but

05:19:29.720 so you can't just straight out say on hinge or any dating app like looking for a sugar daddy or i'll

05:19:36.360 still ban you so that's like kind of my way of just you know yummy desserts like getting around it

05:19:45.020 sure uh let's do the next app oh god jojo all right this is jojo okay uh one piece

05:19:54.580 what uh she's a student at full-time student okay i just graduated atheist okay next you're welcome

05:20:04.320 unusual skills i can lick my elbow okay let's see it oh no actually i have double jointed shoulders so

05:20:10.540 i can like make a hole in my shoulder lick your elbow oh don't that is unsettling i had to prove

05:20:17.560 it first and then this is gonna be the highlight what wow that's hot that's wild that's definitely

05:20:26.940 not hot someone in my wait are you also able to put both your elbows together

05:20:30.720 do it above huh yeah there you go okay that's crazy next one next image from the dating app oh no

05:20:44.440 dating a menace what what hold on what do you mean dating a menace do you understand how annoying i am

05:20:52.640 yes oh i understand yeah i understand very well so wait i'm just curious though because i mean here

05:21:00.420 like we're in a podcast setting we're just having conversations debates disagreements whatever but

05:21:05.640 like in a dating setting so how are you annoying i i only had one ex i've only dated one dude so he

05:21:12.480 absolutely hated that my like how much i would debate him he would be i'm so competitive like i in an

05:21:19.540 annoying way where it's like so like in an annoying way where it's like even in video games and things

05:21:25.000 like that i would have to like be like top fragging or like um sorry um i would have to be top of the

05:21:31.880 leaderboards whatever you know yeah leaderboards okay um and he hated that on the back argumentative

05:21:38.500 on the back i'm so argumentative and i have to win everything oh and here we are combative i'm very

05:21:45.420 mad at him so even if i lose i've gotten a lot better so you're super quarrelsome

05:21:52.220 yeah yeah i've gotten better i gotta say okay all right i'll back up every once in a while good to

05:21:58.920 know all right is that is there more oh oh it's cosplay yeah of course of course wait what that's

05:22:06.480 who a lot of like people were like oh let's do who do we have next we have um abby right

05:22:12.880 let's check out her dating app abby oh damn okay uh next wait leave a comment if you want to meet

05:22:24.100 here your bed oh oh shit a little scandalous okay next pick the most underrated okay something's

05:22:34.540 not okay next 21 vermont moderate she's looking for short term open to long girl that's why they're

05:22:43.660 not paying yep that part yeah so you just want to you just want to hit it and quit it is that no

05:22:53.780 like it depends on the person oh okay yeah interesting all right next

05:22:59.340 dating me is like too much caffeine what do you mean um i drink a lot of caffeine

05:23:07.740 so so you're like hyper you're hyper yeah i can be you like got that crackhead energy

05:23:17.580 huh not like that not like that like who where did you point there

05:23:24.360 what is the moderate part mean moderate i don't even know what oh fuck just keep going keep going

05:23:45.160 okay all right please keep going um what was your question moderate i don't know what like what does

05:23:52.120 that mean like i know what moderate means but on that yes i'm sorry it's not it's not keep going

05:23:57.800 okay well i don't really like i made this a while ago so i don't even know what the other options were

05:24:02.640 but like i think it has to do with my like stance like political views yeah yeah i don't like

05:24:07.760 think i think i am a liberal or republican so i just picked that i said that sounds like the middle

05:24:12.160 publican what's that good old publican those guys i love the publicans them my favorites

05:24:18.640 sign me up okay uh let's see what else was there more nick

05:24:26.400 more photos okay oh look at that to be yours and it's only for a short time short time but she's

05:24:38.320 open to a good time not a long time that's a good catch nicolette and only if they're mexican too

05:24:44.080 right yeah for sure wait is that like a must wait do you have that set on your preference to like

05:24:48.720 hispanic where does that does that come like where did that where did that come from i'm just

05:24:53.200 i don't fucking know just you you met a mexican once and you're like this is it it started when

05:24:59.760 i was like a tween like i was probably like 13 oh oh a tween who was it that did it for you was

05:25:07.680 it mario lopez i was on vacation to california and there there you have it okay next one nick

05:25:15.120 uh yeah that one all right i like it

05:25:18.160 oh it's a little out there but i like it would you get would you date her would you pay for the

05:25:25.840 date no i'm cheap would you pay for yourself like age gap relationship right you're like 28 right i

05:25:33.760 was just her profile is beautiful but wait what her profile is beautiful but i would you wouldn't

05:25:39.920 she wouldn't tap you wouldn't hit that's a crazy question brian what so it is yes okay fine you

05:25:47.360 wouldn't take her on a romantic date depends where mcdonald's no i think i'm taking a break from

05:25:53.360 dating again okay so uh is there more nick or is that it uh yeah definitely get rid of those tabs

05:26:03.280 and then we also had to do the uh attract oh the uh rating yourself thing but i'm gonna is she coming

05:26:12.800 back yeah she's gonna go to the car real quick i'm so sorry she'll probably not come back oh she's

05:26:17.920 not coming back uh i hope she's still here hey oh no come on no she's gonna go to my car she's having

05:26:25.440 a little bit of anxiety sorry we got some applesauce if you want some applesauce you want some applesauce

05:26:32.960 no peaches a boo no i'm sorry a boo oh hey boo i'm sorry i didn't leave peaches for you okay i

05:26:41.440 apologize are you hungry no no she's hungry that's what it is right let me get i got applesauce what

05:26:52.400 you need girl what you need i got a protein bar okay do you want to go on the balcony we could close

05:27:01.360 the door oh yeah you could oh dissociate yeah uh how long well the only thing is if you leave

05:27:10.800 it's like you can't really get back in do you want to just kick it on the balcony that way think about

05:27:15.760 this way it might help your anxiety we got we got eyes on you so if like anything that's true if you

05:27:20.240 need us we're here okay me no it's good it's okay can you want just can we close it yeah we can close

05:27:27.760 the balcony yeah so you can would you be better sitting wait but it's gonna be closed yeah do you

05:27:36.480 want to get a chair for like the little thank you guys so much you guys are beautiful do we have a

05:27:42.080 blanket yeah oh man this is gonna be one of the little nick sacrifice the girl has anxiety attack

05:27:48.720 oh true gentleman applesauce thank you guys applesauce we've already got the title it's

05:27:54.480 post taste no you know how there's like little like applesauce oh yeah go ahead anxiety attack

05:28:01.120 anyways uh i'm already back don't worry what were we uh you know what this would be a good time

05:28:08.720 to say that uh oh my god it's dead so um sorry she had an anxiety no it's all good it happens to the

05:28:18.320 best of us she's having a lot this week all right nick lock the door guys let's leave

05:28:29.520 she just came up on a nice apartment that is she's done

05:28:32.720 okay so uh wait where were we we're gonna do the oh no look let's do the we gotta do the i'm

05:28:41.920 gonna do the rating and do the rating stifler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of one

05:28:46.880 to ten you can't pick seven starting with you can i can i do 0.5 you can do 0.25 like you can go

05:28:57.040 to the third digit or the um i'll say like fuck i don't know it depends on the day like i'll say

05:29:05.280 like 7.9 um today or um that's an average

05:29:17.280 what about the like the times where the guy didn't pay for the date like what would you

05:29:21.520 write yourself on that he loves it what an ass my god no i'm just i'm you know you could have

05:29:27.680 maybe it was because you were 10 that you know they they wanted to bring you down the peg because

05:29:31.920 you're so hot that's it that's what i i figured this shit out you're you were so hot you were so

05:29:38.400 hot on those dates you were 10 they're like oh man like she's kind of out of my league i gotta

05:29:44.000 bring her down a bit pay for the date lady lady lady right that's what happened right

05:29:51.520 okay nicolette i'm gonna change it up no yeah oh shit i was a nine you used to be a 10 i know

05:30:04.720 what happened why why do you why downgrade i don't know i don't feel too hot right now why

05:30:08.240 are you downgrading no tell us why you're downgrading uh i don't know i think it's my

05:30:11.920 hair right now i didn't definitely that's what it is i usually curl it i'm just kidding your hair

05:30:18.800 wait but hold on i think i think your hair is a 10 out of 10 oh thank you yeah it looks good

05:30:23.520 i don't know i feel like not good right now but anyway i feel it what's up what about you

05:30:32.480 on my good days say a solid 7.7 6.9 i'd probably say like a five one maybe an eight like an eight

05:30:42.240 i give myself a five all right good good talk thank you what do you think what what did uh julia

05:30:49.360 say last show she's a seven she's a seven okay all right i think today what what did she say

05:30:56.800 i don't know how she's doing right now i can't tap into that mine gonna probably be lower let's go to

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05:31:27.440 talking about things that are definitely important oh there it is okay the prime is working thank you

05:31:32.880 primal oh oh primal oh ab check with the gifted 20 memberships thank you dude you're you are a

05:31:42.480 he's a brave and a decent man he's a pioneer you're a pioneer dude ab check you've been here

05:31:47.200 for a long time thank you man appreciate it speaking of which speaking of which i think we've

05:31:52.800 gone through most of our stuff we're gonna do maybe a roast section for a little bit a roast section

05:31:59.360 right roast of who well nobody said the 10s so you know okay i mean nicolette over here you know

05:32:07.040 she's with her with her nine but you're gonna go over six we could do the bumble there's actually

05:32:14.080 this this uh subreddit called true rate me that actually like will show categorizations it'd be

05:32:20.880 interesting to look at it briefly why don't you show the men first and then we'll look at the men the

05:32:25.280 women i've only seen like and it has like guidelines on how to rate so pull up the men

05:32:30.480 it's so funny whoa yeah oh my god i'm trying to see where i fit in so this is like how you would

05:32:38.240 rank men so we won't read like you can see the details on the right we're not going to read all

05:32:44.080 those but um oh there's francisco lachowski we've pulled that guy up before okay all right scroll down

05:32:52.800 scroll down scroll down ronaldo's in the 7.5 these are 6.5 oh man i'm so glad i should have gone lower

05:33:02.160 though 5.5 that's a 5.5 wait hold on stop there little wayne jeremy alice rodriguez wait whoa 4.5

05:33:14.560 the 5 to the 4.5 is a crazy drop do they have this of women yeah can we see the women

05:33:20.080 well let's go to the very bottom on this that's a crazy drop damn that's crazy

05:33:27.360 they were pretty generous with uh whoa

05:33:33.360 scroll down keep going hey i might be a two wow okay

05:33:38.240 oh my that's what i got

05:33:43.920 no

05:33:44.480 i mean i feel bad for them

05:33:50.000 oh shit uh nick can we see the the ladies

05:33:55.200 check the ladies all right i actually disagree with some of the placements here a little bit

05:34:01.200 okay tell us like that okay the the second row the asian girl so he uh there's like other women

05:34:09.040 in lower tiers that i would yeah i would agree that i would put higher than her like the lisa

05:34:14.080 liza liza i would put her higher don't talk about liza you don't know even some of the other asian

05:34:18.560 women i'd put higher than like i'd put i'd put these three these bottom three asian women

05:34:24.000 liza's the filipino i'd put them higher than so i can't pronounce her name the soy he i don't

05:34:31.040 know dude i want to i feel like they could have done better let's go down let's go down we'll keep

05:34:34.960 going down though all right now we're getting into six this is the women at six five point five

05:34:43.040 you've got uh kiki palmer wait wait wait european women let's rewind i feel like women are really

05:34:50.720 the victims because like look how beautiful all the women are oh okay so we're all like twos we're

05:34:56.960 all like twos they're all beautiful hey speak for yourself okay scroll down all right amy schumer

05:35:04.320 with a at the 3.5 okay and then uh sandra oh okay all right donatella versace okay uh oh man

05:35:16.000 i don't want to be in two i take it back i don't want to be in two i want three

05:35:22.720 tammy do okay so that's the ratings these the the people on reddit have done some really thorough i i

05:35:35.120 you know it's actually pretty good i disagree with that uh that one asian woman i feel like they could

05:35:40.400 have been hotter liza some of those at the top i was like yeah do you generally agree with it though

05:35:46.000 like do you generally agree with that when you're looking at it you could move some people up and

05:35:51.040 down but like overall it's well according to that i'm like a 12 then whoa whoa stop it get some help

05:36:03.360 this is different standards okay beauty's in the eye of the bee holder yeah you didn't even say

05:36:08.800 that confidently it's an eye i'm sleepy it's okay whoever holds the bees they get to decide we are

05:36:16.320 going to lower the hold on i'm going to lower the tts to 69 if uh just if any of you want to get in

05:36:26.080 200 the whole show huh i was like it's really quiet so uh 69 tts if anybody wants to get

05:36:31.760 it in a message uh so what was the other stuff we had to get through nick there was uh

05:36:40.960 yeah we'll do that fuck it we'll do it real quick

05:36:44.640 yeah if he won't find someone who will like if he won't open your door for you find someone who will

05:36:49.600 wait pause it real quick do you guys agree if he won't find somebody who will wait like if he won't

05:36:56.880 open the door for you is that what she said no she in general like if he won't do x find somebody

05:37:02.320 who will if it's something you want yeah no no wait but paying for dates um

05:37:14.560 i um you said we're skipping we're skipping you we're skipping

05:37:19.760 while paladins donated 69 dollars i'll pay money just to have someone read out that honor

05:37:27.520 to our mass is actually a 10 reddit is a liberal cesspool disregard yeah that's crazy he's saying

05:37:34.240 she is a 10 or no yeah she's beautiful oh yeah she didn't deserve to be a six maybe i guess when

05:37:39.200 she was a younger younger i guess no she's beautiful have you seen this woman how old is she i don't know

05:37:44.320 like your age no she's in her 40s isn't she like your age she is she looks great

05:37:53.120 what about you um if he's not doing it find someone who will yeah if he won't find someone

05:37:59.280 who will agree or disagree um i don't go looking for anyone but if they're not meeting my standards

05:38:05.120 i'll like just like not entertain it yeah i'd say yes find what you want i feel like that's terribly

05:38:11.040 vague but overall no no yeah same overall no but there are specific things that can be deal breakers

05:38:20.160 i mean unless you're already committed to the guy then yeah if it's like a small stupid thing then

05:38:25.760 no but like opening the door that's obnoxious of course i'm not going to go find someone for

05:38:30.640 something like that go find someone nick we can play the rest we'll press start from the beginning

05:38:35.600 actually just so it's only a few seconds you got it i believe in you nick yeah oh oh man

05:38:47.360 oh man to start the whole thing over yeah i guess we got to restart the whole podcast fuck that oh

05:38:52.880 just refresh it just refresh guys tts is now 69 if you want to get a tts and yeah go for it

05:39:00.880 if he won't find someone who will like if he won't open your door for you find someone who will

05:39:08.320 simple right my brother just asked me does that work for guys too i was like of course so he's like

05:39:13.040 so if she doesn't cook for me find someone who will if she won't do my laundry for me then find a girl

05:39:18.800 that will why does it sound so bad when men say it it sounds bad because our society and culture are in

05:39:26.800 a fallen state and our media has everybody brainwashed into believing that life is about

05:39:33.120 what i want who owes it to me and how i get it from them but not about what i should be providing to

05:39:41.120 others this is my depiction of a transactional relationship this is one thing she wants from him

05:39:46.480 one thing he wants from her and if you stop there it's just a negotiation how much do i have to give to

05:39:52.960 get more mature relationships are focused on what i can provide what is it that makes me a quality

05:39:59.680 partner that's why these conversations about the table are so stupid women will say i am the table

05:40:06.160 as if he has no needs at all that's what these princess treatment relationships are it's just

05:40:11.440 simping with no reciprocation and it ends when you can't keep it up anymore so when you say why does it

05:40:17.840 sound so bad when men say it it is because you are experiencing a demand instead of an offer of

05:40:23.520 support and that is how the internet pulls consciousness downwards you might be a unique

05:40:29.520 individual who recognizes multiple valid perspectives but when you're flipping through tick tock you're

05:40:35.040 being programmed to be egocentric self-interested and self-protective and to see others mainly as a means

05:40:42.480 to an end we still need to get our needs met it's just so annoying to hear you all talk about it i

05:40:48.800 want this and i want this and i want that where's the part that would make us want to give it i'll

05:40:54.480 give you an example i would love donated sixty nine dollars natalie you're not nearly as intelligent as

05:41:01.040 you think the donning kruger is strong with you you've barely dispatched of the chimp in blue

05:41:07.280 quit politics you're hurting the cause do you want to respond to that uh no

05:41:15.600 oh okay yeah okay all right thank you paul thank you in denver well it's impossible to dispatch

05:41:21.280 somebody the chimp in blue doesn't make that's a good that's a good she says good description it's

05:41:28.560 it's kind of hard hard you know yeah you should have more women on the back end of your show

05:41:32.480 oh that's true actually actually no he's actually got some better than actually i got i got one male

05:41:40.800 employee one female employee that's what i'm saying better i'm a feminist 2007 better than 2017

05:41:49.840 that's my point all right we can play he's actually a feminist yeah somebody to do chores for me i just

05:41:57.440 don't list it as a primary requirement i say that i'm looking for someone who is excited about

05:42:03.280 who i am as a person so we can both help each other live fuller more satisfying lives and that

05:42:09.120 would have to include someone doing the laundry so there's no reason to mention it it's a question of

05:42:13.600 language and mentality everyone's talking about the results they want but not about what they're going

05:42:19.120 to do in order to deserve them if you don't like your situation you need to figure out why it's like that

05:42:25.360 and then rethink a few things and then change how you show up and what you do or who you hang out

05:42:31.920 with and see if you get better results but instead people just like to list off their demands on tiktok

05:42:37.680 and offer nothing it's social degradation don't do it all right that is uh uh excuse me ho math

05:42:45.600 he's got a very interesting channel he uh does analysis he has buddy draws stuff he has buddies

05:42:52.720 what's that guy's channel he's been on the show he's been on the show well he did a call in who

05:42:56.400 is that oh i love his ticket oh he doesn't have a name okay can i recommend something

05:43:04.400 can i yeah he's got to improve his art skills man that was tough you you talking about

05:43:10.240 home math yeah his art skills you think you can do better a hundred percent i can't

05:43:14.160 can you draw better than a hundred percent i can't in the street i'm an artist a hundred percent

05:43:18.640 you can't i'm an artist yeah clearly i'm an artist wow uh okay good talk uh did you guys have any

05:43:27.120 reaction he mentioned something about princess treatment you mentioned that in your dating app

05:43:32.720 shots fired at nicolette do you want to respond to home at he took shots at you bro

05:43:36.480 so i cater to men who like want to do that so your audience isn't going to agree with that

05:43:49.920 like i'm not forcing okay i'm not forcing anyone to do anything they don't want to

05:43:54.560 it's true are you asking like what do i provide for them or like what's the question

05:43:58.480 well yes indeed well put well put we had to also do boys we had to do oh there's oh okay

05:44:09.600 so guys last week we had this girl and this actually will tie back into the thing we were

05:44:14.320 talking about really early on in the show which was waiting and for uh like waiting to have sex or

05:44:19.200 whatever there's a girl who was scheduled to come on the show on sunday she no showed she no showed so

05:44:26.560 what we're gonna do is oh what are we gonna do what are we gonna do we're gonna call her out we're

05:44:33.360 gonna i mean she is kind of trash she's a bag of trash uh for no showing and not having the courtesy

05:44:42.560 to just be like hey sorry i couldn't make it by the way she did text me like 6 p.m so the me time

05:44:48.320 is 4 p.m 6 p.m the day of the show oh uh i had a work call about her excuse she had a work call

05:44:55.920 for two hours so she couldn't make well you said 6 p.m your time she messaged me at 6 p.m oh i'm

05:45:04.720 so sorry i couldn't make it i got a work call two hours your time yeah so super weird anyways um

05:45:12.000 so she had some interesting pre-show notes so since she's not here but we're still gonna react to them

05:45:18.000 so nick pull up the uh first or wait hold on her profile do we show her profile i feel like it's a

05:45:25.760 little free clown she can't defend herself yeah but she also can come back and defend herself

05:45:33.280 is this the penalty for no showing yeah uh public shaming

05:45:39.120 shame i'll ask the chat do we show the instagram chat do we show the instagram yes or no

05:45:45.040 show the instagram yes or no otherwise i'll just show the messages

05:45:52.480 no yes i like james's answer yes shame show it show yes no everyone's gonna say yes

05:45:59.040 yeah i was gonna say yes it's easy it's not the footage i'm seeing an overwhelming

05:46:04.720 young metro uh it's like oh no free clout no no class no freak i would die for you jojo oh

05:46:12.480 but she'd still be the victim lol paladin's donated 69 dollars make shaming great again

05:46:26.880 i agree with that uh we're not gonna show it but we're not gonna show it but so just go to the

05:46:32.800 messages nick it's a better choice yeah okay so uh we have to kind of wait jojo can you read

05:46:44.000 starting from her message i've dated in three different states even a couple different countries

05:46:50.480 and i've been on the dating scene for five years i've had two serious relationships and after that

05:46:57.200 tallied a decent body count suddenly at 25 my frontal lobe kicked in and i decided i was fed

05:47:03.760 up with myself and the way i was dating i told myself i wouldn't have sex with someone i wasn't

05:47:08.640 genuinely connected to and i haven't had sex in a year in seven months last summer i had a dating

05:47:14.400 experiment i ran on i ran on hinge and the results were fascinating plus i love to talk have me on your

05:47:21.040 podcast okay so there's a couple things here leave it here for a sec uh she stayed in three different

05:47:26.160 states three different couple different countries she's had two serious relationships and after

05:47:31.520 those tallied a decent body count suddenly at 25 my frontal lobe kicked in and i decided i was fed up

05:47:39.600 with myself and the way i was dating translation fed up with being a strumpet and sleeping i mean by

05:47:47.040 her own admission she tallied a decent body count i'm gonna assume that's like 30. i told myself i

05:47:54.160 i wouldn't have sex with someone i wasn't genuinely connected to and i haven't had sex in a year

05:48:00.000 in seven months and then i don't know about this hinge experiment actually i messaged her let me see

05:48:05.120 if she got back and then there's another one nick just pull up that other one from her it should be

05:48:10.400 the next tab over all right which part oh scroll down a little bit uh that's it that's it that's it up

05:48:18.640 okay i mean to read the oof uh okay so she's single she's single as fuck and yeah read the oof

05:48:27.280 please oof yes small town dating in high school then dating my volleyball coach who got stage four

05:48:33.360 cancer and beat it and then i dumped him and then went feral in europe really great story from there

05:48:40.080 been single ever since five years i literally am literally am working on a book then i turned 25 my

05:48:46.160 brain did things and i decided i wasn't going to have sex with someone unless it was for love

05:48:50.720 and i haven't been laid in a year and seven months hashtag thoughts and prayers so she said she went

05:48:57.120 feral in europe what do you think feral in europe means in terms of body count anyone who wants to sleep

05:49:04.480 with her she's down 10 plus turn 25 my brain did things and she decided she wasn't going to have

05:49:17.600 sex unless it was for love she hasn't been laid in one one year seven months uh so

05:49:25.920 bringing it back to the whole waiting for sex thing so this girl admits she had a very promiscuous

05:49:34.880 past went feral in europe i'm gonna just say 30 let's ask the chat pull up the chat

05:49:41.920 what does going feral in europe mean they're gonna say like one no to me it's like anyone who's like

05:49:49.920 down she's down 100 plus is crazy she's down if they're down oh at least 50 if she's she's probably

05:49:59.360 there for like a week let's be honest so like wait what was the thing about the cancer thing did i miss

05:50:03.600 that part yeah it was like uh she said she was sleeping with her teacher or a coach and then

05:50:08.320 he got cancer and he she dumped him after he beat it apparently i gotta be she dumped him after the

05:50:15.680 cancer yeah stage four feral in feral in europe i mean that's at least we don't know bare minimum

05:50:22.400 10. that's 10 bodies i think i need more context on the trip yeah if she's there for a week that's

05:50:29.280 some strumpet baby i want to say body counts 50. body counts 50. sans soft liberty donated 69 dollars

05:50:37.760 democracy is two wolves and a lamb deciding what to eat for dinner a republic is two wolves and a

05:50:43.920 well i'm glum deciding what to have for dinner benjamin franklin the usc is a republic fjb okay

05:50:52.800 what does that mean thank you that was beautiful oh hey what's up julia what's up what's up you want

05:50:57.920 some applesauce you good i'm chilling i just had an anxiety attack but we're chilling we're vibing

05:51:03.680 we're out here we good just a little anxiety attack it happens to the best of us so casual

05:51:09.520 right brian brian remember this every time a girl cancels she's here i'm here even with an

05:51:14.320 anxiety attack mid-show she's here i put i i give respect to to all you three because you guys been

05:51:20.240 on the show three times or what you two three and then you twice me uh i i always commend those who

05:51:27.920 show up we got a lot of on time we get on lakes and late people on time too so you guys are consummate

05:51:34.080 professionals even though we disagree on things sometimes we have heated debates sometimes i call

05:51:38.560 people retard i still i still got love crackhead it's all love it's all love what's your and sorry

05:51:47.840 that i was a little you know i did a little i was a little uh to you so i'm sorry it happens eyeball

05:51:53.840 no to you i was like damn it why do you gotta say i was a little i was a little bit out of it i was a

05:52:00.320 little out of pocket well i was a little out of it this is a kumbaya this is kumbaya

05:52:05.920 the vibes have been immaculate should we all hold hands yeah we should we should hold hands i'm a

05:52:11.280 german i needed a man on the balcony but i'm alive wait okay so going back to her thing though so

05:52:17.840 ladies so she she's i assume she's maybe done some dating in that one year seven month period and

05:52:24.880 so like imagine like she hit 25 she fucked like 50 70 dudes 100 dudes in europe okay 200 dudes in

05:52:34.320 europe sure probably throwing a couple chicks why not crazy why not who knows it's europe right

05:52:41.120 it's answered it's fucking lisbon yeah it's fucking amsterdam

05:52:44.160 do you think if she like now her her shift was going from fucking guys pro i'm assuming sure

05:52:55.520 fucking guys within 30 minutes of meeting them to

05:53:01.440 i'm waiting until love that's what she says she wants a connection she wants love what does that mean

05:53:07.120 just being in love do you think that's that that's valid i don't think it's fair to make a man

05:53:16.960 wait for something that other man other men got like that hold on i have to wait too they have to

05:53:23.360 work for it and hold on we're gonna have to wait too i mean he probably he bought dinners for so many

05:53:28.400 women i had to wait for that dinner i think it's good that she came to that realization and as long as

05:53:32.960 they're having open discussion about it and he's comfortable with it i don't see the problem but it

05:53:37.840 is kind of i don't know i think maybe it would be easy to go back to that same behavior probably so

05:53:44.800 oh interesting now it's easy to go back i might have been better off on that bathroom that's the

05:53:50.080 one uh i think he was looking at me during this conversation you know i might have been better off on

05:53:54.240 that but no um i think uh i think it's okay well she didn't know what she wanted in her youth right

05:54:01.920 that's i think the the change in mentality or whatever yeah i mean i think what would be your

05:54:07.680 desired outcome she's like oh i already gave this puss away to everyone i guess i should just give it

05:54:12.240 away more like the better choice is for her to she's like oh that was harmful behavior she's

05:54:17.840 rethinking your mentality right yeah yeah do you guys think if a guy was like no i don't want to

05:54:22.480 have to wait if a bunch of other men were then that's a hundred percent within the right

05:54:26.560 it's his own preference nobody yeah that's fine but he shouldn't try to like convince her

05:54:30.640 force her to have sex do you think you also shouldn't shame her you shouldn't make someone

05:54:34.560 feel bad for you know she's already got that body count but you can't change her by fucking oh you've

05:54:40.240 had 20 people you're disgusting okay what now do you guys think do you guys think um you know girls

05:54:46.720 usually will stick with who they're lol paladin's donated 69 dollars she's only pure until the next

05:54:53.920 time she takes another trip to europe once a strumpet always a strumpet any man that will

05:55:00.560 wait for her is a moron what is a strumpet it's like thank you where does it originate from thank

05:55:08.640 you like is it a trumpet like like a sexy trumpet what is strumpet

05:55:12.240 i think it's like i think it's a promiscuous i think it's a sexy trumpet

05:55:17.760 panel di includes lower the training bar would you rather have a police officer respond to your

05:55:23.520 home invasion that fires kill it can handle the situation or a dei higher that could cost lives

05:55:30.720 no female cops i'll take a female cop whatever my phone got stolen the other day

05:55:35.680 no no that's not true hold on robert demita donated 69 dollars canadian girl you are awesome

05:55:45.120 people were being super unfair don't worry about it brixton love you buddy thanks for the cast

05:55:52.320 thanks robert that's super nice i want to preface i didn't have an anxiety attack because i thought

05:55:56.560 people were really mean to me i don't give a fuck about that i just i had an anxiety attack because i

05:56:00.480 got my it's just anxiety i got in my own head and then it started it was like a ball it's like a

05:56:05.280 snowball it keeps rolling and rolling and then suddenly i'm thinking like oh my god i can't

05:56:09.760 exist right now you know like that it'd be like that sometimes that's how anxiety works that's how

05:56:14.720 anxiety works like it wasn't nobody did anything i just got in my head and it kept going it was

05:56:20.640 i don't know you looked at me you're here how come some people put an x and brian's no no he nobody

05:56:27.600 nobody did anything nobody made me upset nobody made me feel bad there wasn't a chatter that like

05:56:32.320 maybe go off the rails it just it was genuinely just like i got in my head and then my head

05:56:37.920 wouldn't stop yelling at me and then i was i needed to take a minute that's how it works that's anxiety

05:56:44.080 if you have anxiety you know exactly what i'm talking about so what do you guys think glad you're

05:56:47.760 okay rachel or what rachel the chick who fucks like 300 dudes in europe oh i wish i had 300 dudes

05:56:57.280 right now we have to know her body count because if it's like 100 she's like too far gone can't we

05:57:01.440 like yeah she's just too far gone already aren't there like tons of born again virgins who come on

05:57:05.840 the show and we it's like a same scenario yeah yeah oh i don't care where they want to see but she's

05:57:11.760 just waiting for love if she's interested in the guy then i mean she had no problem sleeping with a

05:57:18.400 bunch of other guys that she wasn't even interested in but then her frontal lobe developed in born again

05:57:24.240 what if it were a reverse situation where or a guy who had like a whole phase and then he's like oh i'm

05:57:30.640 not gonna sleep so you can't like self-improve and be better and be like oh maybe that's not a good

05:57:35.440 idea do you have to like nope too bad i'm already too far gone just gotta keep going

05:57:39.280 no i'm curious i'm curious on your take what do you do if it were a man do you guys judge men and

05:57:47.120 women the same for sleeping around or is it just a woman problem are men capable of sleeping around

05:57:52.080 and being okay and still starting a family i don't think obviously i don't think anyone should sleep

05:57:55.920 around i i believe in um no sex before marriage but i do think that men and women are different and

05:58:02.720 can be judged differently so what was that part before you said right before the marriage part what did

05:58:07.280 you say i want one i just didn't hear you wait where do you get them just repeat what you said

05:58:11.680 i didn't hear you like just now to yes in response oh okay yeah i said i said of course i believe no

05:58:18.000 sex before marriage regardless of gender but she asked if i judge men and women lead or women

05:58:22.480 differently and on the basis of sex before marriage like like if a man sleeps around a lot a woman sleeps

05:58:28.080 on are you going to look at them differently honestly probably that's just subconscious

05:58:33.520 mine was specific to that situation though say a man were to have slept around and then he changes

05:58:39.920 his mind jc donated 69 ladies if you were dating a man who used to take girls out to fancy dinners

05:58:49.120 but now wants to only take you to mcdonald's will you accept that's fine with me i love mcdonald's

05:58:55.520 give me a cheeseburger baby i need a cheeseburger and fries what's he getting taken advantage of and

05:58:58.560 he's like maybe i should just like chill on the first dates like what's the context it's all about

05:59:03.040 learning about personality if it's dates like that why not i don't care where we go dude if

05:59:07.280 when we go to mcdonald's i'm in sweatpants we go to fast restaurant i'm like what about you nicolette

05:59:12.640 no yeah exactly i don't need mcdonald's it's the same logic terrible for you so i'll take whatever

05:59:19.680 it's about learning it's like we go to ice cream like kfc well a lot of first dates are like coffee

05:59:24.320 shop yeah same kind of i think that's nice but if it's like oh it depends on like the heart behind

05:59:29.360 it it doesn't matter about like if he took previous girls to this maybe he got like scorned like yeah

05:59:34.560 that's what i'm saying like what's the context he's like wait a minute i feel like girls are just using

05:59:37.920 me because i take him to nice fancy dinners they got a group chat on the side who cares well there's

05:59:42.160 also an in-between you know there's like applebee's and stuff it doesn't have to be there's apple

05:59:46.240 oh it's about i think it's about getting wow there's joey's maybe like maybe that's kind of

05:59:53.520 the vibe where it's like oh like haha yeah let's see what the girl's into like and if she's like no

05:59:58.720 you have to take me somewhere nicer first date it's like oh maybe you guys aren't met for each other

06:00:03.760 i feel like i would know i would know it when i see it if someone if either party is being manipulative

06:00:08.320 or just kind of like oh i'm not gonna do that i feel like you know when you see it it does

06:00:13.280 oh it's whatever you touch for first date if he said we're going to mcdonald's would you go

06:00:18.720 first date we're going to mcdonald's no but only because i don't eat mcdonald's it's gross i'd be

06:00:23.680 like hey can we go anywhere else like chick-fil-a okay so so first date like fast food would you go

06:00:29.040 no i need to know if you're like a cool person first but if he's like hey i just don't think you

06:00:34.160 ever deserve anything nice i'm like you know what maybe we shouldn't date he's just he's just asking

06:00:38.400 you're feeling you're feeling someone out i don't think there's anything wrong with a simple date

06:00:42.560 you know that's just a bad way to like test somebody like you can see my character on an

06:00:48.160 appropriate date that's not mcdonald's you don't have to pay all that you're also assuming that

06:00:53.760 mcdonald's is a decent date so like you're like what if like you guys don't you don't like his

06:00:59.040 character you're assuming that he's going to take you to this like hundred dollar place or whatever

06:01:02.720 and then he feels your character and you don't like him seems kind of like entitled i'm all for like

06:01:07.680 show effort and you know be courteous but it seems presumptuous to be like you better take me to

06:01:12.480 you know a michelin star restaurant that's what she's looking for and that's what she's looking

06:01:16.000 for in the long run why would she go on the first date that doesn't align with that 100 bringing it

06:01:20.560 back to the you fucked 400 men sky radio 69 question for the mormon did you ever soak if so who was

06:01:30.240 your shaker also jesus is king fjb hashtag voting for all felon hashtag fuck feminism drizzle drizzle drizzle

06:01:38.400 you screwed up the uh the sprinkler you screwed it up uh but

06:01:51.680 no and that is not a thing what does that mean you don't know sorry

06:01:56.400 It was a thing created by ex-Mormons

06:02:00.860 Anyway, so to come back to the woman

06:02:03.300 Who had sex with 600 men

06:02:04.960 In Europe

06:02:05.980 So if you were

06:02:07.900 JC asked ladies if you were dating a man

06:02:09.920 Who used to take girls out to fancy dinners

06:02:11.380 But now wants to only take you to McDonald's

06:02:12.820 I think you guys were discussing that a little bit

06:02:15.580 But you guys think that that's fine then, right?

06:02:18.200 I said yes

06:02:18.780 Go to McDonald's for a first date?

06:02:20.360 You said yes or no?

06:02:21.840 Is that a first date or is that the standard for life?

06:02:24.320 First date

06:02:24.800 I think it would slightly hurt my feelings

06:02:28.120 But what are the reasons?

06:02:29.300 He went out on a lot of dates

06:02:30.700 And it was like they were using him

06:02:32.600 Or he had not made as much money now

06:02:36.200 So it doesn't make sense to take me to somewhere more expensive

06:02:38.660 I think it would be dependent on that kind of stuff

06:02:40.940 Well, here, let me paint it a little differently then

06:02:43.760 So, okay

06:02:44.280 You meet a guy

06:02:45.740 And you know that every single previous girl he dated

06:02:50.340 Whether it was a long-term relationship

06:02:52.300 Whether it was short-term

06:02:53.760 Whether it was a one-night stand

06:02:55.240 But he took her to dinner first

06:02:56.420 Whatever

06:02:56.720 He always paid

06:02:58.800 Always paid for dinners

06:03:00.220 However, he's now met you

06:03:02.760 And he wants to take you seriously

06:03:04.600 But he wants to split the bill

06:03:08.260 Yeah, so I think the way that that question is posed

06:03:12.580 Is kind of like how she's saying

06:03:14.260 She realized it was bad for her

06:03:16.440 Maybe he realized financially that was bad for him

06:03:18.960 But there have been no material changes to his income

06:03:23.560 That's fine

06:03:24.340 He's making the same

06:03:25.420 I mean, I'm going

06:03:27.000 That's fine

06:03:27.500 So you wouldn't

06:03:29.400 My feelings would be a little hurt, yeah

06:03:31.560 I'm sure we can all acknowledge

06:03:33.120 It's within his realm

06:03:35.140 And it's okay for him to do that

06:03:38.540 But you wouldn't feel a little bit like

06:03:40.920 Why am I getting different treatment

06:03:43.240 Than all the other women

06:03:45.340 Because he probably got treated bad by them

06:03:47.140 I'd have to know more of his personal reason for doing it

06:03:51.640 But I don't know that

06:03:52.300 I don't know if he got treated bad by them

06:03:53.980 I'm just assuming

06:03:54.860 What if he didn't though?

06:03:56.360 What if he didn't

06:03:57.680 And he's just

06:03:58.400 That's fine

06:03:59.600 If I really like him

06:04:00.960 Sure, that's fine

06:04:02.300 Wait, how about this?

06:04:03.420 How about this?

06:04:04.960 That's me

06:04:05.420 You're dating a guy

06:04:06.320 And

06:04:07.940 Actually, let me ask a question

06:04:09.820 Like

06:04:10.060 For the girls here

06:04:11.280 Do you want a guy

06:04:12.740 Who's willing to

06:04:13.660 Go down?

06:04:15.720 Ugh

06:04:16.000 What do you mean?

06:04:16.880 Head

06:04:17.160 Go down

06:04:18.060 You want head?

06:04:18.700 Oral sex

06:04:19.240 We're talking about this

06:04:20.240 Do you want a guy?

06:04:21.860 Look, just

06:04:22.220 You want head and man?

06:04:23.000 Go downtown?

06:04:24.340 Do you want a guy

06:04:25.280 Who's willing to

06:04:26.260 Go down?

06:04:28.180 I don't care

06:04:28.760 Not a deal breaker

06:04:30.440 No, it's not a deal breaker

06:04:31.580 You want head or not, babe?

06:04:38.040 What you want?

06:04:39.000 I responded

06:04:39.700 With my hands

06:04:41.200 You don't care?

06:04:42.060 With my hands

06:04:42.940 Yeah

06:04:43.280 So you'd be totally cool

06:04:45.220 Like a guy

06:04:45.620 Just didn't want to do it?

06:04:48.540 No, no

06:04:48.900 Okay, so is this

06:04:49.500 I don't know

06:04:50.460 I don't want to say

06:04:51.440 I don't care

06:04:53.140 Come on

06:04:55.360 You gotta answer

06:04:56.280 Answer the question

06:04:57.560 It's a gross question

06:04:58.500 I said

06:04:58.960 How's it

06:04:59.540 How's that

06:05:00.640 A gross question?

06:05:01.400 It is a gross question

06:05:02.500 It's a gross question

06:05:03.680 How is it

06:05:04.120 It's like

06:05:04.560 Hey, Brian

06:05:05.620 Do you like anal sex?

06:05:08.660 Well, hold on

06:05:09.480 Whoever wants to answer

06:05:11.440 Well, yes, I love that

06:05:12.480 What's more common?

06:05:13.500 Oral sex

06:05:13.960 Or people having anal sex?

06:05:15.480 I don't know

06:05:16.000 Probably oral

06:05:16.240 Probably oral

06:05:17.160 I want to know

06:05:18.280 I think it would be oral

06:05:19.480 Really?

06:05:20.420 Yeah

06:05:20.860 In heterosexual couples

06:05:22.160 Oral is definitely

06:05:24.340 More popular than anal

06:05:25.420 What are you, nuts?

06:05:26.940 Girl getting ENF

06:05:28.020 Versus anal

06:05:28.520 I don't know which ones

06:05:29.280 What?

06:05:30.320 You genuinely

06:05:30.800 You think it's like

06:05:32.120 I gotta go home

06:05:32.660 50-50 on the oral

06:05:34.780 Versus anal

06:05:35.440 You need a study

06:05:36.340 You need a study

06:05:37.440 Pull it up

06:05:38.540 You need the study

06:05:39.480 No

06:05:40.120 Who's

06:05:40.600 What's more likely

06:05:41.600 To happen

06:05:42.220 Oh

06:05:43.120 God damn

06:05:46.120 No, it was good

06:05:48.920 It was still

06:05:49.240 It was a good one

06:05:49.800 Dude, that anxiety

06:05:50.620 Tuck treated me well, eh?

06:05:51.840 I'm back in action

06:05:52.740 Oh

06:05:53.680 Sorry, the purity police

06:05:55.960 Talking about oral sex

06:05:58.260 Is

06:05:59.000 Oh, that's so

06:06:00.300 Ugh

06:06:00.740 It's so vile

06:06:02.040 It's off the table

06:06:04.300 On a dating pod

06:06:06.420 Who would think to ask

06:06:08.080 About this?

06:06:10.660 I'm so tired

06:06:11.360 I answered

06:06:11.980 Okay, Nicola

06:06:12.940 I answered, eh

06:06:13.220 I answered

06:06:13.800 Um, yes

06:06:15.600 I do want to get

06:06:17.160 Head

06:06:17.680 J-Dawg

06:06:21.400 J-Dawg

06:06:22.260 What's up, baby?

06:06:23.500 Back in action

06:06:24.320 Yo, what's up

06:06:24.640 What's up?

06:06:25.480 How about the streets

06:06:26.100 Of Vancouver?

06:06:27.000 Cooved

06:06:27.460 Back on the streets

06:06:28.360 Of Coover

06:06:29.100 How's Coover?

06:06:30.320 Here in San Diego

06:06:31.720 Wherever we are

06:06:32.820 No, Santa Barbara

06:06:33.360 No, Santa Barbara

06:06:33.980 Fuck, I don't know

06:06:34.960 What's happening

06:06:35.200 Four hours north

06:06:35.760 Santa Barbara

06:06:36.740 I don't know

06:06:37.560 One of those Sands

06:06:38.480 In Coover

06:06:39.440 They want the

06:06:40.080 What do they want?

06:06:41.740 Vancouver

06:06:42.240 Coozer?

06:06:43.100 Vancouver

06:06:43.460 Call it Coover

06:06:45.520 Coover

06:06:46.040 They want the

06:06:46.740 Coo's?

06:06:47.420 Can you say

06:06:47.860 Fucking A for me?

06:06:49.280 Fucking A

06:06:50.160 Is that pretty good?

06:06:52.700 Yeah

06:06:52.880 Go ahead

06:06:53.180 Answer the question

06:06:53.580 You're welcomed

06:06:53.980 Into Canada

06:06:54.400 Tell us

06:06:55.020 Okay

06:06:55.260 I mean, I'd prefer

06:06:56.800 But I also

06:06:57.480 Like, I wouldn't

06:06:58.320 Give a shit

06:06:59.020 At the same time

06:06:59.820 Okay

06:07:00.300 You know, I gotta

06:07:02.180 Get on home

06:07:02.940 Got a long drive

06:07:04.400 She needs it

06:07:06.680 That's pretty late

06:07:09.540 She doesn't want to answer

06:07:10.540 You want to answer the question?

06:07:11.760 She says she needs it

06:07:12.700 I'm only comfortable

06:07:13.720 Discussing that

06:07:14.340 With my future husband

06:07:15.600 Okay, what about you?

06:07:16.920 Wouldn't be a deal breaker

06:07:17.760 Truth be told

06:07:18.560 Not super into it

06:07:19.700 I don't really want to answer

06:07:23.160 The question

06:07:23.480 But for good faith reason

06:07:24.760 I'll just say

06:07:25.320 Whatever my husband

06:07:26.140 Is comfortable with

06:07:27.160 Yeah, that's a good answer

06:07:28.720 Oh, you can't steal it

06:07:30.740 Natalie?

06:07:32.020 I don't really care

06:07:33.340 Oh, okay

06:07:34.120 All right

06:07:34.600 Well, it's gonna be hard

06:07:35.940 To give this example then

06:07:37.020 I could still give it

06:07:38.980 But so here it is

06:07:39.700 I'll argue

06:07:40.180 Every single girl

06:07:42.080 That this guy's been with

06:07:43.300 Whether it's short term

06:07:44.520 One night stand

06:07:45.420 Long term relationship

06:07:47.060 He went down on her

06:07:48.260 But when he finally met you

06:07:50.100 He just

06:07:50.940 Just not my thing

06:07:52.880 You know

06:07:53.200 I don't

06:07:53.740 You know

06:07:54.540 I want to maybe wait

06:07:55.300 Till marriage to do that

06:07:56.580 He's got it

06:07:57.160 He's eating a lot

06:07:57.660 Let's get married

06:07:58.160 So I only do head

06:07:59.980 And receive head

06:08:01.040 For people I'm in a relationship

06:08:03.020 Where's the ring

06:08:04.560 Okay, but let's say

06:08:05.720 You meet a guy, right?

06:08:06.660 Because you want a guy

06:08:07.280 To go down on you

06:08:07.960 You meet a guy

06:08:08.660 You find out

06:08:09.760 That he's gone down

06:08:11.420 On every single girl

06:08:13.220 Like first date

06:08:14.100 You might be like

06:08:14.680 And we're dating

06:08:15.060 You're dating

06:08:16.260 But he like

06:08:17.600 He doesn't want to

06:08:18.920 Go down on you yet

06:08:19.880 Would you not

06:08:21.420 Kind of take that personal

06:08:22.520 Like

06:08:22.840 Yeah, I'd be like

06:08:24.620 This isn't going to work out

06:08:25.900 Yeah, so it's the same logic

06:08:27.260 It's actually funny

06:08:30.900 So I was hooking up

06:08:32.080 With this guy one time

06:08:33.620 Just to hook up

06:08:34.340 First time meeting

06:08:35.640 And before we were

06:08:37.580 Like about to hook up

06:08:38.440 He says

06:08:39.020 Oh, just to let you know

06:08:40.520 I don't like

06:08:41.980 Go down on girls

06:08:42.920 And I was like

06:08:43.520 Oh my god

06:08:44.020 Thank god

06:08:45.080 Because I don't

06:08:46.100 Go down on guys

06:08:47.040 And he was like

06:08:47.820 You're joking, right?

06:08:50.800 So he expected

06:08:52.040 To get head

06:08:53.000 Without giving it

06:08:54.760 Oh no

06:08:55.840 Sweet

06:08:56.200 Not really

06:08:57.640 Sweet

06:08:58.240 That's kind of weird

06:08:59.320 It's the opposite of sweet

06:09:00.280 I

06:09:00.800 The question before

06:09:02.620 Was like expecting

06:09:03.400 To get your dinner

06:09:04.240 Paid for first or whatever

06:09:05.260 I can't remember, right?

06:09:06.540 Is that what it was?

06:09:07.420 No, no, no

06:09:07.720 The question before

06:09:08.420 Was talking about

06:09:09.360 The girl who's

06:09:10.360 Or the McDonald's

06:09:11.280 We're comparing it

06:09:12.880 To getting like head

06:09:14.000 Or whatever

06:09:14.380 Are we not?

06:09:15.040 Well now we are

06:09:15.660 But it was

06:09:16.280 The McDonald's question

06:09:17.160 If he took a bunch of girls

06:09:18.480 To like fancy restaurants

06:09:19.480 And then now he wants

06:09:20.480 To only take you to McDonald's

06:09:21.140 Yeah, I mean

06:09:21.760 But the thing is

06:09:22.500 Is like getting your dinner

06:09:23.580 Paid for like

06:09:24.480 Is different than like

06:09:25.560 Getting like intimacy

06:09:26.700 From your partner

06:09:27.740 Is what I'm saying

06:09:29.320 That's why he gave the

06:09:30.880 That's why he gave the

06:09:30.900 I'm trying to use

06:09:31.560 An analogy

06:09:32.260 No, I know you're

06:09:32.860 Trying to use an analogy

06:09:33.720 But it's difficult

06:09:34.700 To like make that

06:09:35.620 Same comparison

06:09:36.240 Because like

06:09:36.880 If someone didn't

06:09:38.060 Pay for my dinner

06:09:38.640 I don't give a shit

06:09:39.460 Like whatever

06:09:40.180 I'll pay for my own things

06:09:41.060 I can make my own money

06:09:41.880 But if someone

06:09:42.280 Doesn't want to like

06:09:43.040 You know

06:09:43.300 They don't like me

06:09:44.020 In that way

06:09:44.580 Or they don't want

06:09:45.480 To do that for me

06:09:46.080 In that way

06:09:46.500 They don't

06:09:47.080 You know

06:09:47.480 Whatever

06:09:47.840 Like whatever it is

06:09:49.180 That's blocking them

06:09:50.020 From wanting to

06:09:51.340 Do that with me

06:09:52.240 I would

06:09:52.840 That would throw me off

06:09:54.900 For sure

06:09:55.340 That would throw me off

06:09:56.720 To me though

06:09:58.220 This whole like

06:09:58.860 Switch up right

06:09:59.680 It's

06:10:00.460 It's a little strange

06:10:02.520 I don't know

06:10:03.920 I don't care either way

06:10:04.740 I mean

06:10:05.580 I don't

06:10:06.400 It's not

06:10:06.840 I understand

06:10:07.800 But like

06:10:08.240 What do you want her

06:10:08.980 To just keep

06:10:09.960 Throwing it out

06:10:11.140 Keep banging

06:10:11.980 No, look

06:10:12.960 What's the best option

06:10:14.060 For her

06:10:14.300 I feel like

06:10:14.700 That's the best

06:10:15.340 So she can do

06:10:16.360 Look

06:10:16.940 She could

06:10:17.440 Have had sex

06:10:19.220 With a hundred men

06:10:20.080 In a two week period

06:10:21.340 And then at the end

06:10:22.220 Of the two

06:10:22.600 Two week period

06:10:23.460 Say

06:10:23.840 Hey

06:10:24.680 I

06:10:25.340 Only

06:10:26.780 Want to have sex

06:10:28.180 Until we're married

06:10:29.100 But we can only have sex

06:10:30.220 For procreation

06:10:31.100 And with the lights off

06:10:32.380 And like totally

06:10:33.360 Do a switch up

06:10:34.080 She could do that

06:10:35.640 But I guess I'm giving

06:10:37.360 This is more from

06:10:38.220 The male angle

06:10:39.180 I'm prescript

06:10:39.980 Excuse me

06:10:40.800 Prescriptively telling men

06:10:42.760 That this is

06:10:43.480 Absolutely unfair treatment

06:10:45.360 And you ought not

06:10:46.520 Date a woman

06:10:47.100 Who does this

06:10:48.060 Yeah

06:10:48.800 I think that she

06:10:50.100 Should be honest

06:10:51.280 She can do what

06:10:51.980 She can do

06:10:52.600 Whatever she wants

06:10:53.660 I think she should tell

06:10:55.280 Whoever she's dating

06:10:56.260 Like her history

06:10:57.020 And maybe that comes up

06:10:58.180 And I think they're

06:10:59.180 Within the right to ignore

06:11:00.060 Diddy Boogie

06:11:00.640 Donated $69

06:11:02.160 After four hours

06:11:04.240 Of watching

06:11:04.720 I have come to the conclusion

06:11:06.020 That the entire

06:11:06.840 Right side of the table

06:11:08.080 Has a collective IQ

06:11:09.200 Of 20

06:11:09.880 Hashtag

06:11:10.600 Yale Smoochies

06:11:11.680 Hashtag

06:11:12.340 Smoochie

06:11:12.980 Mwah

06:11:13.320 Mwah

06:11:13.640 Mwah

06:11:14.100 Good thing I'm in the corner

06:11:15.540 Okay

06:11:19.400 Thank you

06:11:20.060 Diddy

06:11:21.020 Boo

06:11:21.720 Geeker

06:11:22.760 Did you guys

06:11:23.780 I don't know

06:11:25.780 That was right side earlier

06:11:26.800 It's not me

06:11:27.400 I'm in the corner

06:11:27.920 That was right side earlier

06:11:28.760 No they're definitely

06:11:29.460 Talking about that side

06:11:30.260 I don't know

06:11:30.700 Why is it definite

06:11:31.620 Why is it definite

06:11:32.740 That was right side earlier

06:11:34.040 That's the right side

06:11:34.900 So the collective

06:11:35.520 Group IQ

06:11:36.900 Do you remember that

06:11:37.940 Purple

06:11:38.320 Purple dress earlier

06:11:39.320 Was that

06:11:40.020 No right purple

06:11:41.660 Was that

06:11:42.700 In the corner

06:11:43.360 Yeah but do you guys

06:11:45.500 I mean they are saying

06:11:46.760 You have a collective

06:11:47.400 Group IQ of 20

06:11:48.300 You feel like you

06:11:49.640 Want to defend yourself

06:11:50.560 Mine is 19

06:11:52.320 And they all have

06:11:53.180 A half a point each

06:11:54.140 That's so sweet

06:11:54.880 Because mine

06:11:55.480 That didn't prove

06:11:56.880 Your point very well

06:11:57.700 That's so sweet

06:11:58.660 Mine is negative 200

06:12:00.400 And so you guys

06:12:01.400 Are actually

06:12:01.840 I'm pulling it up

06:12:02.900 Geniuses

06:12:03.540 Yeah yeah yeah

06:12:04.160 That's crazy

06:12:04.760 Mine's

06:12:05.320 Mine's

06:12:06.040 You guys are not

06:12:07.420 Helping your case

06:12:08.480 But are you guys

06:12:09.440 Cool with that

06:12:09.940 Like if a girl

06:12:10.880 Switches up

06:12:11.600 Previously

06:12:12.580 Super promiscuous

06:12:13.680 Fucked 800 guys

06:12:14.700 In Europe

06:12:15.100 That's fine

06:12:15.200 He's still

06:12:16.000 And then

06:12:17.100 You know

06:12:18.260 And then

06:12:18.660 Oh I'm gonna

06:12:19.260 I'm waiting for love

06:12:20.260 I'm waiting for connection

06:12:21.340 That seems fine

06:12:22.360 Her body

06:12:22.840 Her choice

06:12:23.460 Period

06:12:24.340 I don't care for me

06:12:25.040 I don't want to decide

06:12:25.940 What if she makes

06:12:26.900 A mistake

06:12:27.540 With a guy

06:12:29.100 Viewing that

06:12:30.440 As like an unfair

06:12:31.460 Situation

06:12:32.080 And he's

06:12:33.040 Choosing not to date her

06:12:34.980 Based solely on

06:12:35.920 That criteria

06:12:36.480 Is that valid too

06:12:37.480 Yes

06:12:37.840 100% valid

06:12:39.260 Yes

06:12:40.220 That's totally fine

06:12:42.200 Not wrong

06:12:43.060 No

06:12:43.900 It's fine

06:12:44.780 I brought this up

06:12:45.640 Before you

06:12:46.880 You went to the bathroom

06:12:47.620 It's like kind of

06:12:48.280 The same thing

06:12:49.840 As like born against

06:12:50.600 Right

06:12:50.840 It's like

06:12:51.520 Yeah

06:12:52.300 In a sense

06:12:53.360 No

06:12:53.780 Yeah

06:12:54.440 True

06:12:56.360 True

06:12:56.980 He's had people

06:12:58.400 Come on

06:12:58.900 Who were like

06:12:59.460 Born against

06:12:59.940 And it's like

06:13:00.420 Similar

06:13:00.740 You're like

06:13:01.420 Hiding behind

06:13:01.960 The microphone

06:13:02.460 Just FYI

06:13:03.580 Sorry

06:13:04.260 I would like you

06:13:05.880 To share that opinion

06:13:06.900 When a born again

06:13:08.700 Like Christian man

06:13:09.600 Comes on

06:13:10.280 That's literally

06:13:11.100 What I said

06:13:11.840 Earlier

06:13:12.520 No they've done that

06:13:13.200 You already

06:13:13.640 Men have come in

06:13:14.620 On

06:13:14.860 I was like

06:13:16.240 Hey

06:13:16.540 Because that one

06:13:17.700 Particular episode

06:13:18.700 I was on

06:13:19.440 Yeah

06:13:20.300 You did not

06:13:21.580 Like go after him

06:13:23.700 Was it Chase

06:13:24.880 I think Chase

06:13:25.480 Is the only one

06:13:26.420 I've seen

06:13:26.780 I think it depends

06:13:27.440 On their views

06:13:28.060 But yeah

06:13:28.480 You've gone after

06:13:29.360 Men on this show

06:13:30.120 Before

06:13:30.240 It's because men

06:13:30.920 And women are different

06:13:31.600 Men want sex

06:13:32.480 Women want relationships

06:13:33.000 No not your opinion

06:13:33.920 Brian's opinion

06:13:34.820 I think men want

06:13:35.900 Relationships as well

06:13:36.580 What do you want me to do

06:13:37.380 I'm not following

06:13:38.220 Because you said that

06:13:39.040 For like a girl

06:13:39.980 You don't think it's cool

06:13:41.800 For her to do that

06:13:42.840 Do what

06:13:43.640 If she's promiscuous

06:13:44.780 Yeah

06:13:45.180 Like it's too far gone

06:13:46.320 I'm gonna save myself

06:13:47.340 From marriage

06:13:47.920 What's your opinion

06:13:48.520 On a guy

06:13:49.220 It's not

06:13:49.840 Okay here's

06:13:51.340 I guess the difference

06:13:52.160 From the guy's perspective

06:13:54.440 You as a woman

06:13:55.500 You can do whatever you want

06:13:56.440 You fucked a hundred guys

06:13:57.500 In a week

06:13:57.940 And then at the end

06:13:58.820 Of the week

06:13:59.240 I'm waiting until marriage

06:14:00.460 You can do it

06:14:01.800 I'm prescriptively

06:14:03.400 Telling men

06:14:04.140 That's a terrible

06:14:06.200 That's a terrible deal

06:14:09.020 Would you prescriptively

06:14:10.440 Tell a woman

06:14:11.060 That's a terrible deal

06:14:12.240 Sure

06:14:12.840 Okay

06:14:13.380 That was my question

06:14:14.560 If the woman

06:14:17.640 In the situation

06:14:18.480 Is desirous

06:14:19.360 Of a sexual relationship

06:14:20.480 It's a terrible deal

06:14:22.640 If the woman

06:14:23.380 Accepts it

06:14:24.180 Sure

06:14:24.680 I mean

06:14:25.380 There is a difference

06:14:28.380 Here a little bit

06:14:29.120 Between men and women

06:14:29.940 But

06:14:30.360 Yeah

06:14:32.380 Does anyone here

06:14:34.260 Think that anyone

06:14:35.100 Like should just

06:14:36.060 Sleep with a bunch

06:14:36.600 Of people

06:14:36.820 Before getting married

06:14:37.700 Does anyone think

06:14:39.420 Like I

06:14:39.740 You know

06:14:40.000 I should rack up

06:14:40.640 A body count

06:14:41.160 Of 80

06:14:41.820 Before I get married

06:14:42.660 Does anyone

06:14:43.380 Believe that

06:14:44.080 No

06:14:44.480 Like test drive

06:14:45.100 The cars

06:14:45.480 Yeah

06:14:46.000 That's what I'm saying

06:14:46.640 Does anyone

06:14:47.360 I'm thinking more

06:14:48.280 Like 90

06:14:49.020 I'm thinking more

06:14:50.440 200

06:14:50.840 Like 100

06:14:52.280 It's just weird

06:14:53.560 Because like

06:14:54.100 This girl

06:14:54.680 She's gonna reward

06:14:56.080 Those guys

06:14:56.700 Who meant nothing

06:14:57.880 To her

06:14:58.300 The fuck boys

06:14:59.060 Assholes

06:14:59.620 Jerks

06:15:00.060 Whatever

06:15:00.420 You gave him

06:15:02.240 The guy who's worthy

06:15:04.640 You can't learn

06:15:05.980 From your mistakes

06:15:06.700 Or like be better

06:15:07.660 And like

06:15:08.120 Not do what you used to do

06:15:09.880 But the problem is

06:15:10.080 I think

06:15:10.340 That's like being perfect

06:15:11.280 And you didn't get it right

06:15:12.120 No he's not saying

06:15:13.240 She can't do that

06:15:14.700 He's saying it's a terrible deal

06:15:16.060 On the man's side

06:15:16.860 It's a bad deal

06:15:17.500 It's in their right

06:15:18.860 To not be into that

06:15:19.960 That's totally within their right

06:15:21.380 That's a bad deal

06:15:22.040 And she seems like

06:15:23.300 She matured a lot

06:15:24.260 And

06:15:24.480 Well she may also think

06:15:25.820 That those guys are worthy

06:15:26.980 Or it might be a great deal

06:15:28.780 For him

06:15:29.240 Because she has lots of experience

06:15:30.240 Oh yeah

06:15:31.800 And when they do

06:15:32.740 Finally bang

06:15:33.720 It's gonna be great

06:15:33.920 And a full frontal lobe

06:15:35.520 And a full frontal lobe

06:15:37.440 I need a full frontal

06:15:38.860 And I need a step

06:15:39.100 Brian I'm sorry to interrupt

06:15:40.100 I actually have to get going

06:15:41.020 And Nick told me to say bye on camera

06:15:42.400 Or you could just stay

06:15:43.940 Until the end of the show

06:15:44.760 What time is that?

06:15:47.060 I don't know

06:15:47.600 I'm going like another

06:15:48.340 30-40 minutes probably

06:15:49.600 Am I ever gonna see you again?

06:15:52.420 I have such a long drive

06:15:53.480 Am I ever gonna see you baby?

06:15:54.460 Don't worry you'll be fine

06:15:55.140 He said no you're good

06:15:57.340 Damn you're right

06:15:58.820 You got this

06:16:01.100 Where are you driving to?

06:16:02.160 Patriarchy wins again

06:16:02.980 Okay anyways

06:16:05.260 So

06:16:05.820 What was I gonna say?

06:16:07.720 I don't know

06:16:08.100 It's just

06:16:08.480 It's a bad deal

06:16:09.940 Bad deal for the guys

06:16:11.380 Say no if you want to say no

06:16:12.980 It's mean

06:16:13.260 Yeah

06:16:13.760 I mean you don't have to accept it

06:16:14.880 You don't have to do her

06:16:15.380 You can say like

06:16:15.880 She's full of crap

06:16:16.600 And whatever

06:16:17.000 That's

06:16:17.480 Person's choice

06:16:18.580 But as far as like

06:16:19.400 The girl's perspective

06:16:20.100 If she really does have

06:16:20.960 A change of heart

06:16:21.540 It's really unfair to be like

06:16:22.600 Well you did this already

06:16:23.800 You already made this mistake

06:16:25.300 You're stuck in this

06:16:26.660 No if someone

06:16:27.320 I don't think there's anything

06:16:27.900 Any such thing as too far gone

06:16:29.500 If someone was like

06:16:30.360 No I don't want to

06:16:31.200 Because you did that

06:16:31.820 And she gave them a hard time

06:16:32.940 Then she's a shitty person

06:16:34.020 Like it's in their right

06:16:35.580 To say no

06:16:36.180 She did what she did

06:16:37.420 Okay

06:16:38.000 Perfect

06:16:38.460 It's in her right to change her mind

06:16:39.300 She'll find someone

06:16:40.240 That'll like her

06:16:40.860 I don't know

06:16:42.260 Yeah

06:16:43.540 Still a raw deal

06:16:45.820 For the man though

06:16:47.400 Like assuming

06:16:48.180 Like assuming the guy

06:16:49.920 Is desirous of a sexual relationship

06:16:53.240 It's a raw deal for the guy

06:16:56.020 Then he should find somebody else

06:16:57.460 Exactly

06:16:57.840 100%

06:16:58.660 I agree

06:16:59.360 Move on

06:17:00.060 I'm also saying that

06:17:01.580 Like if he's like

06:17:02.380 No this is a dumb deal

06:17:03.540 Like walk away

06:17:04.720 No one's like forcing you

06:17:05.700 To be in this

06:17:06.300 True

06:17:07.520 Yeah

06:17:08.100 I think everyone's allowed

06:17:09.460 To have their preferences

06:17:10.340 You can have crappy

06:17:11.880 And whatever preferences you want

06:17:14.040 They don't have to be great

06:17:14.960 Or moral

06:17:15.500 You can have them

06:17:16.480 Find someone else

06:17:17.420 Who aligns with them

06:17:18.820 Lol paladins donated $69

06:17:22.420 Weird that brown shirt

06:17:24.640 Is against the feral European girl

06:17:26.680 When she herself

06:17:27.560 Hasn't learned her lesson

06:17:28.780 She hasn't had a change of heart

06:17:30.560 She is too far gone

06:17:32.400 She can't follow her own advice

06:17:34.800 Everybody with a person

06:17:35.900 Your response

06:17:38.000 That's what I see

06:17:38.860 Your response

06:17:39.240 I should go with a better response

06:17:42.860 But

06:17:43.720 I'm really tired right now

06:17:45.680 I mean you're not really

06:17:46.980 Contributing to my life

06:17:47.940 In any way

06:17:48.520 And

06:17:49.260 I don't really care

06:17:50.260 You're not paying my bills

06:17:51.080 You don't really have to say

06:17:52.540 In my life

06:17:53.140 But

06:17:53.500 The better answer

06:17:55.220 I should have given

06:17:55.660 Is like

06:17:56.020 There's no condemnation

06:17:56.940 In those in Christ Jesus

06:17:58.040 He's the only one

06:17:58.620 Who can judge me

06:17:59.240 And

06:17:59.560 He's saying like

06:18:00.920 Hey

06:18:01.240 Do what I told you to do

06:18:03.060 And just be better

06:18:04.000 That's okay

06:18:05.240 Can you read this one

06:18:07.100 Thank you Robert

06:18:08.280 You're all beautiful people

06:18:10.340 I've been having a tough time

06:18:12.500 I am alone

06:18:13.240 And work 20 hours daily

06:18:14.580 Just resting

06:18:15.520 I have a dying sister

06:18:16.880 And a sick mother

06:18:17.680 Father dead

06:18:18.380 Keep up discussing the hard topics

06:18:20.380 And I will continue contributing

06:18:21.780 God bless all

06:18:23.380 Robert Tanner

06:18:24.100 Yo

06:18:25.040 Robert Tanner

06:18:26.120 Happy for Robert

06:18:27.420 Thank you man

06:18:28.220 Really appreciate the super chat

06:18:29.380 Sorry to hear that you're going through

06:18:30.500 A tough time now

06:18:32.300 20 hours a day

06:18:33.200 Dude that's

06:18:34.120 That's crazy

06:18:35.740 Get some rest man

06:18:36.760 Get some sleep

06:18:37.520 But also thank you for listening

06:18:39.760 To the whatever podcast

06:18:40.760 You listening to it during the work?

06:18:42.740 Yeah during work

06:18:43.300 Okay there you go man

06:18:44.040 Thank you

06:18:44.360 Appreciate it

06:18:44.860 Robert Tanner

06:18:46.160 I think

06:18:47.640 I mean they all kind of agree with me

06:18:51.020 So I don't know what

06:18:51.600 I can really argue with the whole

06:18:53.020 Waiting for sex thing

06:18:54.080 They're all like

06:18:58.440 Yeah if the guy doesn't want to date her

06:18:59.580 That's fine

06:19:00.320 I'm out

06:19:00.940 That's valid

06:19:02.740 Maybe I can give one last analogy

06:19:05.680 The picture of your boss

06:19:06.140 No I didn't

06:19:07.320 You just kind of agree

06:19:09.000 No

06:19:09.660 Wait what?

06:19:11.020 She's leaving

06:19:11.660 Oh

06:19:12.140 Uh

06:19:13.280 Just stay for the rest of the show

06:19:15.860 I'm so tired

06:19:16.940 I have such a lot

06:19:19.080 He works 20 hour days

06:19:20.680 No that's not me

06:19:21.900 That can never be me

06:19:23.220 I'm not that

06:19:24.560 I'm not that guy

06:19:25.320 Would you have the roast session?

06:19:26.500 Yeah you have to stay for the roast session

06:19:28.200 No what does that mean?

06:19:29.220 I don't have roasts in the comments

06:19:30.220 You gotta stay

06:19:31.220 You gotta stay

06:19:32.320 Does that mean we get roasted?

06:19:32.860 I might want to roast it

06:19:34.280 As your father

06:19:35.240 You need to sit down

06:19:36.460 As your father

06:19:36.860 As your daddy

06:19:37.780 Whoa

06:19:38.680 Okay

06:19:39.560 Oh we had to do tweets

06:19:41.840 You gotta definitely hear

06:19:42.640 You gotta see her tweets

06:19:43.580 Her tweets

06:19:43.900 My tweets are great

06:19:44.620 Julie's tweets

06:19:45.420 Thank you

06:19:46.120 We knew that you were gonna go through my tweets

06:19:47.980 My tweets are great

06:19:49.000 That's all I wanted

06:19:50.060 We're all gonna love them

06:19:51.600 We're gonna have such a good time

06:19:52.920 Nick just double check

06:19:53.800 Make sure there's nothing like TOS

06:19:55.100 Oh I'm excited

06:19:56.020 It is

06:19:56.500 My Twitter is fantastic

06:19:58.020 And we all had a good time

06:19:59.520 What?

06:20:00.720 Skeletor

06:20:01.120 Pull up Skeletor real quick

06:20:02.560 Skeletor really quick

06:20:03.460 Yeah what's up baby

06:20:03.900 We're all about to look at

06:20:04.800 Skeletor's tweets

06:20:05.820 Put me up beside that

06:20:06.840 What do you mean?

06:20:07.380 Close it on my face

06:20:08.360 And pull me up beside it

06:20:09.240 No close it on my face

06:20:10.400 Purple and everything

06:20:11.460 Yeah you don't know how to work this shit

06:20:12.780 You don't know how to work this shit dog

06:20:14.900 That's an L

06:20:15.540 Yeah the tweeters

06:20:16.540 Tweeters are good

06:20:17.980 Are the tweets good?

06:20:19.460 Are they safe Nick?

06:20:20.280 Oh what do you say?

06:20:21.260 My tweets are amazing

06:20:22.100 Like now that it's X

06:20:22.200 Do you still say tweets?

06:20:23.540 Yeah we all say tweets

06:20:24.820 Check it

06:20:25.360 The cool kids still say tweets

06:20:26.620 Check it

06:20:27.560 Okay pull up the first one then

06:20:29.220 Is it funny or sad

06:20:30.740 That no man has ever made me come before

06:20:32.700 April 13th 2024

06:20:34.000 No man's ever made me come

06:20:35.700 Oh this was recent

06:20:36.120 Wait really?

06:20:36.900 That's sad

06:20:37.260 No man's ever made me come

06:20:38.220 Really?

06:20:39.520 No man's ever made me come

06:20:40.220 This is like two months ago

06:20:41.340 No man's ever made me come

06:20:43.040 Even

06:20:43.600 Oh my gosh

06:20:44.360 The

06:20:44.800 I don't

06:20:45.680 Five year

06:20:46.220 Wait hold on

06:20:47.040 Five

06:20:47.500 Yeah he never did

06:20:48.740 No

06:20:48.980 I would do it for myself

06:20:50.780 You're able to make yourself?

06:20:52.660 Yeah I can do it myself

06:20:53.540 In a minute

06:20:54.500 But he never made me come

06:20:56.740 No man's ever made me come

06:20:57.800 How many

06:20:58.120 And you said body count like six was it?

06:21:00.080 Yeah

06:21:00.260 Or was it eight?

06:21:02.020 What do you mean?

06:21:02.760 Or was it

06:21:03.360 Twelve, eighteen

06:21:04.320 Multiply it by three

06:21:05.340 What?

06:21:05.520 That's the real number

06:21:06.100 You can multiply by three all you want

06:21:07.960 But still no one's made me come

06:21:09.480 So you're all taking L's

06:21:11.420 Okay

06:21:11.940 And

06:21:12.720 But you're able to make yourself?

06:21:14.400 Easily

06:21:14.720 Yeah

06:21:14.980 Not even a big deal

06:21:15.960 Easily?

06:21:16.740 Yeah

06:21:17.160 Like how

06:21:17.440 Like in a minute

06:21:18.400 In a minute?

06:21:19.180 Just hands?

06:21:20.140 Or using toys?

06:21:21.080 Wiki wiki

06:21:21.460 You're double clicking your mouse

06:21:24.800 Not even an issue dog

06:21:25.980 What do you mean?

06:21:27.060 All right

06:21:27.820 And like have they tried?

06:21:31.360 Yeah it just doesn't

06:21:32.200 It just

06:21:32.560 It's just never worked

06:21:33.480 I don't know

06:21:34.480 They just never hit the right spot

06:21:35.860 They're just hitting it weird

06:21:37.320 There's a little too much pressure

06:21:38.420 There's not enough pressure

06:21:39.300 They're off to the left

06:21:40.920 It's tilted weird

06:21:42.240 I don't like that

06:21:43.680 Uh wow okay

06:21:46.140 And you haven't tried to guide them at all?

06:21:49.040 No I have

06:21:49.740 And they still can't do it?

06:21:50.840 I think men don't know how to listen

06:21:52.220 And women don't know how to listen to men

06:21:54.060 You know it's like back and forth

06:21:55.320 It's like we give you bad hand jobs

06:21:58.620 And you can't make a scum

06:21:59.620 True

06:22:00.540 Wait so you're saying

06:22:02.880 Hold on

06:22:03.420 Just to be clear

06:22:04.120 Just out of curiosity

06:22:05.680 And it's too much

06:22:06.540 TMI whatever

06:22:07.260 I don't care

06:22:07.800 Is it like clit or internal?

06:22:10.200 Like how do you make yourself scum?

06:22:11.240 Or is it both?

06:22:11.620 Clit

06:22:11.880 And they can't do it?

06:22:13.960 No

06:22:14.280 Amateur hour over here

06:22:17.580 Wiki wiki

06:22:18.440 Oh he's talking to himself

06:22:19.900 Maybe you can try

06:22:20.420 Where's my DJ?

06:22:22.020 Where's my DJ?

06:22:23.320 Challenge accepted

06:22:24.260 Couldn't be me

06:22:25.480 Challenge accepted

06:22:26.520 Challenge accepted

06:22:27.740 What the fuck?

06:22:28.140 I'm just curious though

06:22:28.840 I have heard this from a lot of women

06:22:30.540 That they struggle to climax

06:22:31.780 When it comes to

06:22:32.860 It's a little more awkward

06:22:33.940 When you're with men

06:22:34.680 Like it's hard to

06:22:35.380 It's hard to relax

06:22:36.660 It's hard to just like

06:22:37.960 Be with yourself

06:22:38.640 You know you have someone

06:22:39.640 Watching you

06:22:40.280 Like getting off

06:22:40.840 And just looking at you

06:22:42.040 So you like

06:22:42.700 You can't just

06:22:43.340 It's just different

06:22:44.120 Have you encountered

06:22:44.840 This problem with men?

06:22:47.580 Who hasn't?

06:22:48.700 Yeah

06:22:48.920 I said who hasn't

06:22:50.740 But has anybody never

06:22:53.420 Come from a guy?

06:22:57.000 Well

06:22:57.400 Wait you too?

06:22:58.840 I have to rephrase

06:23:00.020 What is going on in Canada?

06:23:00.980 I have to rephrase

06:23:01.980 And what is going on in Canada?

06:23:03.640 Okay Canada is amazing

06:23:04.920 Shut your mouth

06:23:05.840 We love Canada

06:23:06.660 We love Canada

06:23:07.800 I have to rephrase

06:23:08.300 I've come with a dude

06:23:09.580 I've just never had a dude

06:23:10.460 Make me come

06:23:11.380 Huh?

06:23:13.220 Oh but that's not

06:23:14.160 Wait wait wait

06:23:14.580 That's actually

06:23:15.160 You brought yourself there

06:23:16.300 Yeah yeah yeah

06:23:17.020 That doesn't count

06:23:18.140 That doesn't

06:23:19.440 That doesn't count

06:23:19.900 That's what I'm saying

06:23:20.520 It doesn't count

06:23:21.160 It doesn't count

06:23:21.700 That doesn't count

06:23:23.120 E-sex?

06:23:23.900 What's that?

06:23:24.280 I've never heard of that

06:23:25.560 You have had sex right?

06:23:27.580 No

06:23:27.880 She's giggling

06:23:28.920 Never done sex

06:23:30.860 So you've

06:23:31.660 A guy who's never married you?

06:23:32.960 Keep going

06:23:33.520 Keep going

06:23:35.320 I feel weird

06:23:36.180 Damn bro

06:23:37.840 That's

06:23:38.540 What about you?

06:23:42.240 Um

06:23:42.640 It's complicated

06:23:44.820 It really is

06:23:47.040 Yeah

06:23:47.340 I can't

06:23:48.700 In what?

06:23:49.340 That was her final straw

06:23:52.040 I miss you already

06:23:53.720 Just sit

06:23:54.300 Oh my god

06:23:54.920 Stay

06:23:55.700 Just stay

06:23:56.340 She isn't going to answer this

06:23:57.300 I gotta go

06:23:57.860 That was funny though

06:23:58.780 I think she likes her husband too much

06:24:00.280 Can I take it?

06:24:02.220 No

06:24:02.500 Uh

06:24:03.220 No

06:24:03.940 I'm just kidding

06:24:04.720 No Madison's going to take it

06:24:06.500 Oh okay

06:24:06.940 Okay

06:24:07.220 Do you want to answer the question?

06:24:09.920 I think I did

06:24:10.660 No you didn't

06:24:12.120 I totally did

06:24:14.060 That was an answer

06:24:15.260 What was the answer?

06:24:17.860 It's complicated

06:24:18.800 Okay well here

06:24:20.460 Tell us how it's complicated

06:24:21.740 Cause like

06:24:22.960 I made it happen

06:24:24.640 With the

06:24:26.040 Help of their

06:24:27.420 Appendage

06:24:28.140 But like

06:24:30.140 I was doing it

06:24:31.040 Like I made it

06:24:32.260 Like you know

06:24:33.220 So you were like

06:24:34.740 On top?

06:24:35.480 Yes

06:24:35.800 I think that counts

06:24:38.540 Doing everything

06:24:39.160 I think that counts

06:24:40.120 Okay

06:24:40.880 Right?

06:24:41.680 Did somebody fuck you?

06:24:42.180 I don't know

06:24:42.980 Yeah she did

06:24:44.300 Oh it's the

06:24:45.080 It's a fabric

06:24:46.080 She doesn't want to admit it

06:24:47.380 But she did

06:24:47.920 Wow

06:24:48.660 Throwing Maddie under the house

06:24:50.100 And so you're saying

06:24:53.340 Like from

06:24:54.080 So it was like a

06:24:55.940 You came from sex

06:24:59.100 But you were writing

06:25:01.240 Yes

06:25:02.420 Okay

06:25:03.440 Alright

06:25:04.260 That's yeah

06:25:05.020 That's

06:25:05.400 I can't wait till we get to you

06:25:07.340 I'm gonna ask you

06:25:08.240 How many have you

06:25:09.380 How many ladies have you

06:25:11.640 Yeah

06:25:11.900 Okay

06:25:12.540 I'll answer

06:25:13.320 I will answer

06:25:13.880 Any question

06:25:14.560 Any question you want

06:25:15.580 Sure

06:25:15.880 Related to that

06:25:16.500 I'll answer

06:25:16.900 Sure

06:25:17.200 Nicolette what's up?

06:25:19.380 I've definitely

06:25:20.420 Had a man make me

06:25:22.520 Come before

06:25:22.960 Good for you

06:25:23.420 Good for you

06:25:23.960 Not all of them

06:25:24.740 Not all of them

06:25:25.340 But yeah

06:25:25.900 What percentage?

06:25:27.580 Probably like

06:25:28.440 One third

06:25:29.860 Okay

06:25:31.500 Alright

06:25:32.080 Madison?

06:25:38.900 Only one has been able to

06:25:40.640 And it's my boyfriend

06:25:41.460 Okay

06:25:42.200 I'd be coming

06:25:43.820 Yeah

06:25:44.360 Come in round about

06:25:46.720 Good for you

06:25:48.700 It's easier for some women

06:25:51.020 Okay

06:25:51.380 I'm not gonna answer that

06:25:53.320 But obviously

06:25:54.740 My husband

06:25:55.280 Yeah

06:25:56.620 Natalie?

06:25:59.180 Yeah

06:25:59.400 I've never had new shoes

06:26:00.580 Okay

06:26:01.120 Alright

06:26:01.500 So how many

06:26:02.120 How many women?

06:26:03.220 You tell me

06:26:03.840 How many women?

06:26:05.040 Okay so I won't say

06:26:05.960 No you just said

06:26:06.740 How many women?

06:26:08.260 How do you know

06:26:09.300 They weren't lying to you?

06:26:10.780 How do you know?

06:26:11.400 I will

06:26:11.640 Oh I know

06:26:12.700 Trust me

06:26:13.360 He knows

06:26:14.320 I know

06:26:15.020 Okay so granted

06:26:17.480 There's a massive difference

06:26:19.900 In orgasm response

06:26:21.100 Between women

06:26:22.200 Sure

06:26:23.020 Like some women

06:26:23.560 Literally within seconds

06:26:26.160 Sure

06:26:26.580 And I'm not like

06:26:28.340 Trying to get

06:26:28.720 Like there are just

06:26:29.320 Some women

06:26:29.780 Any

06:26:30.200 Like it could have been

06:26:31.000 Any

06:26:31.200 It wasn't necessarily

06:26:32.680 Even me

06:26:33.200 Honestly my success rate

06:26:37.020 Four out of five

06:26:38.200 Probably

06:26:39.180 Hold on

06:26:40.080 It's higher

06:26:40.540 Hold on

06:26:41.160 It's higher

06:26:41.500 Does that mean

06:26:43.980 Your body count's five?

06:26:45.460 No

06:26:45.820 Nine out of ten

06:26:46.500 Wait no

06:26:47.120 Times three

06:26:47.760 Shit you're a whore

06:26:49.820 Actually

06:26:50.500 I'd have to like

06:26:52.460 Oh god

06:26:52.800 Think about it

06:26:54.100 It's more

06:26:55.580 It's a majority

06:26:56.500 So I have a question

06:26:58.080 Has the girl

06:26:59.300 Never been able

06:27:00.320 To like make you

06:27:01.000 Come before?

06:27:02.780 Oh my gosh

06:27:03.840 She was awful

06:27:04.600 That would make me cry

06:27:05.760 That would make me cry

06:27:07.700 I mean I can usually

06:27:09.600 Get myself there

06:27:10.680 No but like

06:27:11.860 The girl

06:27:12.460 On her own

06:27:13.360 And you're just like

06:27:15.860 Oh it's just like

06:27:16.400 Not gonna happen

06:27:17.180 I mean I've had

06:27:18.640 Encounters where I

06:27:19.580 Didn't

06:27:21.400 But

06:27:21.760 Was it because

06:27:22.500 She couldn't

06:27:23.120 Or you're just like

06:27:24.080 Moving on

06:27:25.060 Oh shit

06:27:25.680 I'm sober

06:27:26.340 And this bitch

06:27:26.900 Might be uglier

06:27:27.640 Than I thought

06:27:28.360 The lights turn on

06:27:31.160 Oh god

06:27:32.280 Or maybe the blowjob

06:27:33.460 Was too fear

06:27:34.540 Yeah that

06:27:35.520 Okay

06:27:35.980 Did I blow a job?

06:27:37.200 Julie

06:27:37.380 Julie what'd you say?

06:27:42.240 That's crazy though

06:27:43.460 That's

06:27:45.040 That's wild

06:27:45.560 He looked at me

06:27:46.500 And you

06:27:46.940 And he said

06:27:47.380 That's crazy though

06:27:48.580 I mean her too

06:27:49.660 Kind of I guess

06:27:50.740 I hear it a lot

06:27:51.820 It's not that crazy

06:27:52.560 I hear it a lot

06:27:53.060 We've had a lot of girls

06:27:53.760 On the show

06:27:54.100 Say they've like

06:27:54.640 Never

06:27:55.100 They've never even come

06:27:56.500 Period but also

06:27:57.180 Just like a guy's

06:27:57.840 Never been able to

06:27:58.560 Oh I feel like

06:27:58.580 That's crazy for my own

06:27:59.780 I could see it

06:28:00.660 If it's like

06:28:01.100 One offs

06:28:01.800 Yeah

06:28:02.180 But for

06:28:02.660 I feel like a lot of

06:28:04.040 Even in relationships

06:28:05.780 Well I feel like

06:28:06.840 A lot of the time

06:28:07.420 That I've had

06:28:07.820 Sexual encounters

06:28:08.840 With men

06:28:09.320 It's this

06:28:09.720 They're more concerned

06:28:10.840 With like

06:28:11.380 Okay she's wet enough

06:28:12.540 For me to just

06:28:13.060 Start fucking her

06:28:13.820 Like it's not

06:28:14.360 Necessarily about like

06:28:15.340 No you gotta make her

06:28:16.200 Come before

06:28:17.100 No no I agree

06:28:18.620 Before

06:28:18.720 I agree with you

06:28:19.520 But I feel like

06:28:20.540 I feel like

06:28:21.100 I'm just so sexy

06:28:22.660 They can't help

06:28:23.340 Them so much

06:28:24.300 Shut your fucking mouth

06:28:27.840 Okay

06:28:29.080 She's like

06:28:29.540 Having a panic

06:28:30.520 I was crying on the balcony

06:28:33.400 An hour earlier

06:28:34.200 Having anxiety

06:28:34.980 I'm like

06:28:35.460 Just too sexy

06:28:36.660 That's what you were

06:28:41.380 Thinking out on the balcony

06:28:42.300 Yeah

06:28:42.760 That's why she got anxiety

06:28:44.760 She was too sexy

06:28:45.900 I'm too fucking hot

06:28:46.840 Okay

06:28:47.200 Balling my eyes up

06:28:48.240 The people

06:28:48.820 They can't handle me

06:28:49.940 She can't exist

06:28:51.620 I actually

06:28:52.140 Although I did date

06:28:53.480 I did date two women

06:28:54.900 That

06:28:55.640 If I recall correctly

06:28:57.440 They couldn't even

06:28:58.440 Make themselves

06:28:59.440 Come

06:29:00.440 Sad

06:29:00.580 I hope they fix that

06:29:02.420 Were you successful

06:29:03.340 On those

06:29:03.840 No

06:29:04.640 No

06:29:05.800 It's not without trying

06:29:07.200 But they weren't even

06:29:08.220 Able to do it

06:29:08.860 Themselves

06:29:09.740 And we tried

06:29:11.520 Can you

06:29:11.860 Can I have the number

06:29:12.740 I'll fix that

06:29:13.720 What

06:29:15.380 Oh

06:29:15.760 Cause you're

06:29:16.880 She's gonna make

06:29:17.700 Them comments

06:29:18.420 Apparently

06:29:19.420 We need to

06:29:20.640 End

06:29:20.840 To the

06:29:21.220 We need to go home

06:29:24.100 Anyways

06:29:24.660 Where were

06:29:25.580 Tweets

06:29:26.700 Oh right

06:29:27.160 Oh my tweets

06:29:27.900 We only got to

06:29:28.840 The first one

06:29:29.320 Wait go back

06:29:30.680 To the original

06:29:31.200 I wanted to see

06:29:32.300 The poll

06:29:32.640 W

06:29:33.180 I got 21 likes

06:29:34.520 On that

06:29:34.940 Is it funny

06:29:35.940 Or sad

06:29:36.820 That no man

06:29:37.340 Has ever made me

06:29:37.960 You have 500 votes

06:29:38.780 On this

06:29:39.200 Everyone's saying sad

06:29:40.380 And I have

06:29:40.800 40,000 viewers

06:29:41.620 I mean subscriber

06:29:42.880 I mean followers

06:29:43.360 Okay next

06:29:44.180 Sorry but teasing

06:29:46.400 Oh read it

06:29:47.060 Why don't you read it

06:29:47.820 Sorry but teasing men

06:29:49.140 And not letting them

06:29:50.000 Have what they want

06:29:50.740 Is so much more fun

06:29:51.880 Than giving it in

06:29:52.880 Right away

06:29:53.300 Than giving in right away

06:29:54.260 Giving in right away

06:29:55.920 You mean

06:29:56.200 Not it in

06:29:57.100 You've never heard of a tease

06:29:58.240 What the fuck's wrong with you

06:30:00.580 You ain't never heard of a tease

06:30:02.320 That was June 28th

06:30:03.340 I'm a changed person

06:30:04.200 Well are you gonna

06:30:05.160 2022

06:30:05.760 2022

06:30:06.260 Are you gonna give in eventually

06:30:08.400 Or are you just teasing

06:30:09.560 And never giving in

06:30:10.340 Nah I like fucking with them

06:30:11.580 Respect

06:30:12.020 Well she just

06:30:12.340 Her tweet

06:30:12.760 Her tweet like a day ago

06:30:14.060 Was like

06:30:14.300 Toxic

06:30:14.660 I like edging

06:30:15.380 Toxic

06:30:15.980 It's been two years

06:30:18.160 I'm different now

06:30:19.040 Respect

06:30:19.460 It's been two years

06:30:20.240 I'm different now

06:30:20.840 Like two days ago

06:30:21.540 Where did you get this accent from

06:30:23.220 I'm from Canada

06:30:24.460 Okay

06:30:25.600 What do you mean

06:30:26.580 Coover

06:30:26.980 Coover

06:30:28.040 Coover

06:30:28.740 Coover

06:30:30.140 Coover

06:30:31.240 Make me some

06:30:32.420 What's the

06:30:33.200 Grat

06:30:33.660 Or no

06:30:34.160 It's

06:30:34.500 Poutine

06:30:35.080 Poutine

06:30:35.740 Poutine

06:30:36.620 Poutine

06:30:37.280 Poutine

06:30:37.820 Well in Quebec

06:30:38.780 They call it

06:30:39.180 Poutine

06:30:39.580 Okay cool

06:30:40.780 But the Albertans

06:30:41.960 Call it

06:30:42.240 Let's do the next tweet

06:30:44.500 Next tweet

06:30:45.180 I gotta spoil

06:30:45.980 I gotta stop spoiling

06:30:47.080 I sent too many

06:30:49.060 Feet pics out that day

06:30:50.280 Yikes

06:30:50.840 Good times

06:30:52.600 How many

06:30:53.680 Did you send out

06:30:54.460 Too many feet pics

06:30:55.360 That day

06:30:55.880 Oh

06:30:57.520 Can you read this one

06:30:58.960 Me

06:30:59.600 Oh god

06:31:00.380 Here we go

06:31:01.040 My experience

06:31:02.100 It's the girls problem

06:31:03.140 They don't climax

06:31:03.960 They get too much

06:31:05.460 In their own head

06:31:06.220 Ex-wife

06:31:07.220 Was the most difficult

06:31:08.540 Person I've

06:31:09.100 Ever been with

06:31:09.820 But my recent

06:31:10.820 GF

06:31:11.340 I could make

06:31:12.160 Come

06:31:13.540 Three times

06:31:14.260 Before I'm inside

06:31:15.640 It's

06:31:16.320 Some girls are

06:31:17.300 Crazy son

06:31:18.580 It's crazy

06:31:19.660 It's their fault

06:31:20.760 Obviously

06:31:21.480 It's crazy

06:31:22.000 Women are the problem

06:31:22.840 Every time

06:31:23.460 Bro

06:31:23.800 Like

06:31:24.620 Thirty times

06:31:25.720 In like

06:31:26.240 Ten minutes

06:31:26.860 That's how good

06:31:28.640 You are

06:31:29.080 No it's not

06:31:29.820 It's just them

06:31:31.060 I don't know

06:31:32.120 Something

06:31:32.380 Something's going on

06:31:33.360 With the pussy

06:31:33.680 I don't know

06:31:34.100 Uh oh

06:31:34.860 I'm not gonna comment

06:31:36.540 Magical pussy

06:31:37.160 I don't know

06:31:37.660 I'm not gonna comment

06:31:38.480 That's why

06:31:39.200 That's why

06:31:39.220 That's why

06:31:39.720 It's actually

06:31:40.140 I think it's actually

06:31:40.780 Bad for guys

06:31:41.560 To have a high body count

06:31:42.380 Cause like

06:31:43.040 As a guy

06:31:43.980 Once you stumble over

06:31:45.140 It's a magical pussy

06:31:47.680 It's a wrap

06:31:49.320 It's done

06:31:50.240 Us real Canadians

06:31:52.200 Disavow this strumpet

06:31:53.700 She's for East Hastings

06:31:55.640 Oh shit

06:31:56.260 That's fine

06:31:56.700 East Hastings

06:31:57.460 Have you been to East Hastings

06:31:58.880 It's kind of spooky icky

06:32:00.020 Spooky icky

06:32:01.600 Last time I went to East Hastings

06:32:03.920 I bought them a pack of cigarettes

06:32:05.180 And I got some McDonald's for them

06:32:06.600 We hung out

06:32:07.120 And the guy beside me

06:32:07.980 Spoke some meth

06:32:08.600 And it was kind of crazy

06:32:09.360 There's no way

06:32:10.620 This is your real voice

06:32:11.600 That's real

06:32:12.300 This is not your real voice

06:32:13.320 What do you mean?

06:32:14.060 I went to East Hastings

06:32:15.160 Tuesdays

06:32:17.460 On Tuesdays

06:32:18.220 We go to East Hastings

06:32:19.300 I can confirm

06:32:19.400 Was you from fucking Boston?

06:32:20.840 No this is

06:32:21.440 It's Canadian

06:32:22.300 Okay

06:32:22.860 I'm from Canada

06:32:24.060 Yeah

06:32:24.580 What the fuck

06:32:27.020 Oh what the fuck

06:32:29.100 Yeah turn this shit off

06:32:30.560 What the fuck

06:32:31.100 He's playing back your voice

06:32:33.060 It's your own fucking stream

06:32:34.360 You can't even get that locked in

06:32:35.640 What the fuck

06:32:36.540 What the frick

06:32:37.420 Okay guys

06:32:37.980 We're loading the TTS to 25

06:32:39.540 We're gonna do the roast session

06:32:40.560 We have one more tweet

06:32:41.360 Nick if you could pull it up

06:32:42.300 I'm so excited

06:32:43.100 Read it

06:32:44.020 Oh no

06:32:44.480 I love when a man does

06:32:45.520 Physical labor for me

06:32:46.600 And then as a reward

06:32:48.700 To him

06:32:49.440 I get my own back blown out

06:32:50.700 I'm gonna go to the bathroom

06:32:51.500 That's funny as fuck

06:32:54.880 Is that hilarious?

06:32:55.980 But hold on

06:32:56.400 Have you really ever

06:32:58.720 Got your back blown out?

06:33:00.740 No

06:33:01.020 My back just hurts anyways

06:33:02.900 I guess you could

06:33:03.680 Not come

06:33:04.800 But have your

06:33:05.980 Still have your back

06:33:07.780 That sounds so much worse

06:33:09.120 I got my oil changed

06:33:10.280 By my ex

06:33:10.780 But my back still hurts anyways

06:33:12.280 But it's not his fault

06:33:13.480 Oh

06:33:14.140 Charlie Tanner donated $50

06:33:16.700 Yeah thank you Charlie

06:33:17.640 Talking to a few people in the chat

06:33:19.540 A lot of grievances

06:33:21.300 IT seems unless someone can give money

06:33:24.300 Their voice are not heard

06:33:25.660 I hope I am wrong

06:33:27.260 What a time we are living in

06:33:29.340 Oh what a time we are living in

06:33:31.800 That's

06:33:32.120 Thank you Charlie Tanner

06:33:33.340 That's beautiful

06:33:34.120 You are a

06:33:35.240 True Shakespearean

06:33:36.980 Poet

06:33:38.260 TTS is now 25 guys

06:33:39.720 Was that the last tweet?

06:33:41.580 Yeah

06:33:41.780 All of my tweets are fantastic

06:33:43.680 I feel like you guys

06:33:44.980 Were trying to clock me more

06:33:45.780 Than you could have

06:33:46.420 Hmm

06:33:47.300 Are they just gonna actually roast us?

06:33:50.340 Maybe

06:33:50.740 Who knows?

06:33:51.080 You don't like the roasting?

06:33:52.300 While we're waiting for some of those

06:33:53.640 To come through

06:33:54.100 Does anybody have any final thoughts

06:33:55.540 That you'd like to

06:33:56.180 Get out there

06:33:57.060 Natalie do you want to say anything to

06:33:58.260 Her?

06:33:59.760 Me?

06:34:00.020 Or Abigail do you want to say anything to her?

06:34:01.640 Me?

06:34:02.180 To who?

06:34:02.480 Yeah to

06:34:02.880 These two right here

06:34:04.480 What's up?

06:34:05.840 I can't

06:34:06.600 No go

06:34:08.480 All you

06:34:09.600 I don't have anything to say

06:34:12.300 Come on Abigail you got it

06:34:14.740 She's not there

06:34:15.460 She's not sitting

06:34:16.420 She's the one

06:34:17.400 We can come together with our differences

06:34:19.020 It's fine

06:34:19.980 You guys are cool

06:34:21.860 Ron underscore Briggs donated $25

06:34:25.660 Brian

06:34:27.080 I'm hooked

06:34:27.980 I discovered whatever like

06:34:29.540 Three weeks ago

06:34:30.460 And have gotten through

06:34:31.380 About half of the dating talks

06:34:33.340 I haven't even watched

06:34:34.900 Thank you Ron

06:34:35.240 Thank you Ron

06:34:35.260 Cody's 2 EP 1 yet

06:34:36.760 Because I'm watching

06:34:37.720 Whatever non-stop

06:34:38.600 I watched it

06:34:39.140 Keep it up

06:34:40.220 Hot D

06:34:41.820 Did anybody here at the panel

06:34:43.260 Watch House of the Dragon

06:34:44.220 Season 2 episode 1?

06:34:45.300 No I haven't seen it yet

06:34:46.120 Nobody?

06:34:46.780 I only watched the first

06:34:47.820 Only Curb a Fiend back there

06:34:49.200 Only Curb a Fiend

06:34:50.300 I'm excited to watch it

06:34:51.340 I know there was a season 2

06:34:52.060 We're going to put it on

06:34:52.700 And play WoW tonight

06:34:53.420 I'm so excited

06:34:54.060 Yeah

06:34:54.600 As soon as we get home

06:34:55.760 I'm going to sleep

06:34:57.020 Damn these girls missed out on

06:34:58.160 What?

06:34:59.660 No we're going to watch it

06:35:00.440 While we play WoW

06:35:01.040 I've got to get to level 20

06:35:02.100 What's it called?

06:35:03.080 It was

06:35:03.480 Yo Ron first off

06:35:04.860 Thank you for going back

06:35:05.800 Watching all the episodes

06:35:06.680 Thank you for the patronage

06:35:08.660 Appreciate it man

06:35:09.400 Glad you're enjoying the show

06:35:11.000 And watching everything

06:35:11.800 And

06:35:12.780 I can't give spoilers

06:35:15.780 What did you think of it?

06:35:18.080 It was good

06:35:18.680 I liked it

06:35:19.680 Before the episode started

06:35:21.640 I was already like

06:35:22.580 Hey she's fucking him

06:35:23.820 Isn't she?

06:35:24.400 And then

06:35:24.600 Oh

06:35:24.800 Don't

06:35:25.960 There's no spoilers

06:35:26.580 You're ruining it

06:35:27.440 There's no spoilers there

06:35:28.440 Alright that's fair

06:35:29.220 It's not really spoilers

06:35:30.020 You know the context

06:35:31.120 I know what you're talking about

06:35:31.980 You ruined it

06:35:32.720 I can't watch it now

06:35:34.160 He's a munch

06:35:35.700 There's no

06:35:36.420 Wait what's up

06:35:37.100 You ruined it

06:35:37.380 There's no spoilers

06:35:38.060 Nickelodeon donated $25

06:35:40.320 Brixon

06:35:41.800 I'm not fusing French

06:35:43.520 If I were

06:35:44.720 I wouldn't have roasted Jojo

06:35:46.700 I'd have told you

06:35:48.020 Your mother was a hamster

06:35:49.320 And your father smelt of elderberries

06:35:51.620 Elderberries

06:35:52.920 Elderberries

06:35:53.980 I like that roast

06:35:55.640 Okay

06:35:56.600 Hold on

06:35:57.560 I feel like it was a compliment

06:35:58.720 I thought it was a hamster

06:35:59.500 That's true

06:36:01.080 My mom is a hamster

06:36:02.460 Wait hold on guys

06:36:03.160 Tell you a little girl

06:36:03.680 Wait shit what was I

06:36:04.580 I still needed to change something

06:36:06.240 Oh wait

06:36:07.080 One sec guys

06:36:07.980 I'm just fixing a couple things here

06:36:09.460 In the

06:36:10.660 Okay

06:36:12.620 It should

06:36:13.180 Everything should be properly

06:36:14.520 Fully set to $25 TTS

06:36:16.380 So any final thoughts from anybody

06:36:18.340 Is this like the roast session

06:36:19.740 Is that some final thoughts for you

06:36:22.120 Oh she does

06:36:22.700 Who's finaling thoughting

06:36:24.580 As I was being

06:36:25.760 You have a final thought

06:36:27.720 I don't have anything super deep

06:36:29.020 But uh

06:36:29.880 I don't think any of us are really truly angry at each other

06:36:31.980 Yeah I don't think there's any animosity on this panel

06:36:34.260 We're way too chill

06:36:35.260 Also I didn't really understand what you were saying

06:36:37.980 It's valid

06:36:40.040 Nobody knows what she's saying

06:36:42.180 Well it says this one

06:36:45.040 Yo what's up

06:36:46.160 It's crazy

06:36:46.640 I'm always on point

06:36:47.640 No that's disgusting

06:36:48.560 Yeah that is

06:36:49.220 That is

06:36:49.880 Atrocious

06:36:51.040 I think so

06:36:51.900 Pineapple on pizza

06:36:52.860 Is that ever

06:36:53.360 $25

06:36:54.640 Pineapple on pizza is amazing

06:36:55.880 Maddie is queen

06:36:56.980 This is actually been a decent panel

06:36:59.660 Second chair was bad faith a few times

06:37:02.660 But I really enjoyed this one

06:37:04.560 Bricks and you demand holding your own

06:37:07.040 The patriarchy lives

06:37:08.720 Are we gonna get a rating

06:37:09.740 Cause last time I was here

06:37:10.860 They gave me Canadian A cups

06:37:12.320 But they didn't give me a number

06:37:13.360 So

06:37:14.380 Okay guys

06:37:15.140 She wants you to rate her

06:37:16.240 So I'll tell her she's a 10

06:37:18.040 We need

06:37:18.460 We need Maddie Roasts

06:37:19.880 We need

06:37:21.160 Yeah sure

06:37:22.000 We need Maddie Roasts

06:37:23.200 And then we need

06:37:24.280 Sprink

06:37:25.080 We need at least one sprinkler

06:37:26.240 Just throwing it out there boys

06:37:27.660 Excuse me boys

06:37:29.560 Shniko04 donated $25

06:37:32.220 Disappointed with Natalie's lack of engagement all night

06:37:36.340 Just sitting there deer in headlights

06:37:38.620 All night

06:37:39.440 Share some of your strong morals

06:37:41.580 And engage with these strumpets

06:37:43.700 She held her own

06:37:45.380 Tom Jones donated $25

06:37:47.300 Drizzle drizzle

06:37:49.020 I agree with Brian

06:37:50.580 Not only should you pay for the first date

06:37:53.200 But also all dates

06:37:54.820 Drizzle drizzle

06:37:55.900 True true

06:37:56.440 So true

06:37:57.600 Thank you Tom Jones

06:37:58.640 Well put

06:37:59.480 I think women should pay for all dates

06:38:01.860 Natalie you would have been very good on Sunday's episode

06:38:05.320 Illinois boy donated $25

06:38:07.440 No it's okay

06:38:08.400 I know brown shirt left

06:38:09.860 But this Christians can't judge thing is insanity

06:38:12.580 It was just a much more like

06:38:13.380 In Matthew 7 5

06:38:14.660 Jesus says to check your own sin before confronting others

06:38:17.840 Yeah you guys are too nice

06:38:18.760 Christians can judge righteously

06:38:20.800 And we had

06:38:21.720 Seeking the truth

06:38:23.180 Oh my god

06:38:23.440 Donated $25

06:38:24.680 Nicolette I get $1k for dinner

06:38:27.660 Right

06:38:28.540 Oh

06:38:28.860 I have a bridge to sell you

06:38:30.560 There's no fucking way that even the simp of all simps would pay you $1k to have dinner

06:38:35.600 Enough with the TikTok sugar baby crap

06:38:38.760 More $85 donated $25

06:38:42.180 Ronald Reagan was said soldiers when they'd either give up two lives

06:38:46.800 One they lived and the one they could have had

06:38:49.000 Becoming husbands, fathers, and grandfathers

06:38:52.740 Alright thank you Jamie

06:38:54.820 Lol paladins donated $25

06:38:56.940 The money I contributed is money I would have spent on $304 in person

06:39:02.800 Thanks for keeping me free of SDDS Brickson

06:39:05.980 I'm saving lives okay

06:39:07.580 I am saving lives

06:39:09.600 These men you know

06:39:11.080 You could spend it

06:39:12.540 On a stripper

06:39:13.900 Dial 110430 donated $25

06:39:16.680 I'm saving lives

06:39:17.740 The women that come on this show need to stop saying they don't gaff about whether or not a man is genitally mutilated or not

06:39:24.400 You should care

06:39:25.720 Especially with the standards you'll expect from men

06:39:29.260 Wait so do you mean they should care

06:39:31.940 About circumcision?

06:39:33.360 Did anyone here

06:39:33.920 Brain underscore has underscore that underscore fat underscore dumpy donated $25

06:39:38.960 I got it

06:39:40.040 I got it

06:39:41.280 Do you have a dumpy?

06:39:42.500 We can confirm we've seen him

06:39:43.720 And my sprinkler goes like this

06:39:45.360 There you go

06:39:46.660 Well done

06:39:47.120 Can you show us the dumpy while we wait?

06:39:50.980 After the day

06:39:51.500 Do a spin

06:39:53.000 OOTD

06:39:54.000 That was good

06:39:56.020 Oh nobody did the

06:39:56.900 Okay sorry we missed it boys

06:39:58.520 They were trying to

06:39:59.480 They were sexually harassing me

06:40:01.360 Sorry sorry sorry

06:40:02.380 Trying to

06:40:03.220 Catch peep

06:40:04.620 My

06:40:05.060 Badonk donk

06:40:07.720 Trying to

06:40:09.020 Trying to get up all the thing

06:40:10.880 They said that you had it

06:40:12.900 I was just confirming

06:40:13.960 Output of the day

06:40:15.380 Word

06:40:15.640 No they said

06:40:17.360 It said Brian has a dumpy

06:40:18.720 That was the name

06:40:19.500 Ah yeah

06:40:19.980 I don't know what's going on with that

06:40:21.160 That's kind of crazy

06:40:22.260 I just wanted to make sure

06:40:23.340 I don't know

06:40:24.080 Wait somebody sent me a message that I was supposed to read

06:40:27.080 And uh

06:40:28.480 Hold on guys

06:40:29.060 I'm trying to find it

06:40:30.220 Somebody sent me like a DM

06:40:32.540 Wait one sec

06:40:33.880 Wait what

06:40:42.280 Should be good

06:40:44.660 I think we're good

06:40:45.480 I think we're good

06:40:46.640 I think we're good

06:40:48.620 Right

06:40:49.280 Big lady matters

06:40:51.320 Don't show that dumpy for free

06:40:52.540 Yo hashtag big lady matters

06:40:54.620 It's really unfortunate

06:40:57.520 Boy donated twenty five dollars

06:40:59.640 Brian

06:41:00.520 How much dollar do Gustavo's kidnappers want

06:41:03.640 I'll pay his ransom

06:41:05.140 If it means we can get his critical and deep-sighted wisdom and advice back on the show

06:41:09.980 Yeah

06:41:10.340 Huge right

06:41:11.400 Up here

06:41:12.400 Aquatic donated twenty five dollars

06:41:15.140 For the panel

06:41:16.260 Do you think you will look better in ten years

06:41:18.720 No

06:41:21.100 Do you think you'll look better in ten years

06:41:22.800 No

06:41:23.140 I do

06:41:24.060 I think women peak in their thirties

06:41:26.640 Solstall Fliberty donated twenty five dollars

06:41:29.920 Natalie

06:41:30.800 Steve is a martyr of a tyrannical abuse of power

06:41:33.900 Trump as well

06:41:35.280 Supremes must intercede

06:41:37.580 The house sergeant to Tom's needs to arrest Garland

06:41:40.920 Keep up the fight

06:41:42.440 Yes

06:41:44.340 Hmm

06:41:45.740 Read it Madison

06:41:50.320 Madison OF proves to me that women are never happy

06:41:54.220 No matter what a man does or earns

06:41:55.860 It is never enough for any woman

06:41:57.600 I don't have an OnlyFans

06:41:59.380 I was about to ask her

06:42:00.360 Give me the link

06:42:03.280 That's crazy

06:42:05.600 I need the link

06:42:06.620 That's crazy son

06:42:07.660 What was the other thing

06:42:10.700 There was one other

06:42:11.500 Oh the Bumble segment

06:42:12.460 Yeah let's do the Bumble segment

06:42:13.860 And then we're gonna wrap

06:42:14.980 I know it's late Natalie

06:42:15.960 I know it's late here

06:42:16.660 Let's get Natalie some applesauce

06:42:19.020 No

06:42:19.560 Get her some applesauce

06:42:21.520 Are we swiping on men ourselves?

06:42:23.240 It's okay it's organic

06:42:24.100 Yeah

06:42:24.660 Oh fuck

06:42:25.380 This is it and then we're wrapping

06:42:27.520 Okay

06:42:27.900 So everyone gets twenty swipes

06:42:29.240 You get twenty swipes

06:42:29.880 Just say yes or no

06:42:31.160 If you would go on

06:42:32.040 Oh we need age ranges

06:42:33.020 The R Aquatic donated twenty five dollars

06:42:35.240 Oh you have hers?

06:42:35.900 Nicolette you are already melting in AC

06:42:37.860 So I don't if you will

06:42:39.180 But okay keep be delusional

06:42:40.940 Wait so

06:42:42.460 That's actually an interesting question

06:42:44.140 I'll let these chats come through

06:42:45.300 But like do you think

06:42:46.200 You'll be better looking

06:42:46.960 Trad catholic spot

06:42:48.280 Donated twenty five dollars

06:42:50.100 This is one of the least

06:42:51.740 Brain hemorrhaging panels

06:42:53.160 I've witnessed

06:42:53.940 Great job

06:42:55.460 Natalie

06:42:56.360 How dare you not

06:42:57.480 Destroyed them

06:42:58.220 Better than Ben Shapiro

06:42:59.560 Destroy his college freshman

06:43:01.260 Have a great night

06:43:02.820 You know

06:43:03.220 Ave Maria

06:43:04.060 People call me

06:43:04.840 Fanboy Ben Shapiro

06:43:05.800 Six thousand nine hundred and sixty nine

06:43:08.160 Blah blah blah

06:43:08.980 Sixty nine

06:43:09.760 Donated twenty five dollars

06:43:11.500 Brian you fat fuck

06:43:13.320 You never eat my donno

06:43:14.660 Last episode

06:43:15.620 How dare you not

06:43:17.240 Respect the sixty nine

06:43:18.520 I made it on the top donno list

06:43:20.380 Yeah thank you bro

06:43:21.060 Get your dumpy fat fucking arse

06:43:22.800 In shape teeter boy

06:43:24.100 And shave your damn arms

06:43:26.080 I'm working on it boys

06:43:27.240 Anonymous donated twenty five dollars

06:43:30.020 I can't tell you how much

06:43:31.960 I truly grew because of this podcast

06:43:34.200 Feminism is truly poisoning

06:43:36.460 And I'm glad that I woke up

06:43:38.060 And saw that before it was too late

06:43:39.980 Thank you Brian

06:43:41.060 Cartman donated twenty five dollars

06:43:45.140 I wish I had no idea

06:43:47.060 Where my money came from

06:43:48.720 It's just there

06:43:50.140 I need to stop pretending

06:43:51.960 That no guy paid attention

06:43:53.480 To me in high school

06:43:54.840 Gingers have no souls

06:43:57.040 I have proof

06:43:58.160 Hey bro that's crazy

06:43:59.300 How are you gonna throw

06:43:59.820 Ryan Calloway donated twenty five dollars

06:44:02.680 Abigail I hope you realized

06:44:05.000 Brickson apologized

06:44:06.040 To you earlier

06:44:07.340 I hope to see more of you

06:44:09.220 On whatever

06:44:09.900 You're the most solid

06:44:11.160 And based Christian woman

06:44:12.560 On the show

06:44:13.280 Great panel tonight

06:44:14.820 You rocked Brickson

06:44:16.440 But thank you

06:44:17.160 I appreciate the rest

06:44:17.880 Me and Abigail

06:44:18.440 I don't think had any beef

06:44:19.660 Or anything so

06:44:20.340 We're cooling

06:44:20.680 Yeah we're

06:44:21.380 Yeah

06:44:21.800 Unless there's

06:44:23.340 Dead ass

06:44:24.400 Dead ass

06:44:25.660 Dead ass

06:44:26.540 Are you

06:44:27.220 Dad

06:44:27.680 Dad ass

06:44:28.400 No that's what

06:44:29.200 Oh that's what they're saying outside

06:44:30.620 Dead ass

06:44:31.200 Are you gonna ask us

06:44:32.040 When the world wars were

06:44:33.200 Oh yes I will

06:44:34.020 Skyray donated twenty five dollars

06:44:36.020 Oh

06:44:36.760 Soaking is real

06:44:37.880 I saw it on the hub

06:44:39.200 Girl to the right of Brian

06:44:41.140 Is a fuking queen

06:44:42.200 Brian if you loved Jesus

06:44:43.800 You'd be the perfect husband

06:44:45.700 Heart

06:44:46.360 I love you so much

06:44:47.780 Also not gay

06:44:49.060 I'm a girl lol

06:44:50.600 Wait

06:44:51.200 To the right

06:44:51.980 Ron underscore

06:44:52.640 Donated twenty five dollars

06:44:55.000 Where was Andrew tonight though

06:44:57.260 I feel like he would have had a blast

06:44:59.460 With a few of these panelists

06:45:01.000 I wonder who

06:45:01.560 The only roast for Maddie

06:45:03.020 Is how happy she was playing

06:45:04.700 With the electric orb

06:45:05.880 Ha ha ha

06:45:06.720 It's really cool

06:45:08.520 Dialed in 0430

06:45:09.820 Donated twenty five dollars

06:45:11.760 Yes

06:45:12.660 Brian

06:45:13.440 Especially if they've never had a mad

06:45:15.760 That could make them

06:45:16.580 More likely to climax

06:45:17.940 From an uncut man

06:45:19.440 They also need to stop

06:45:21.140 With the what about men

06:45:22.340 When women are being held to account

06:45:24.800 I'm gonna temporarily pause the TTS

06:45:27.120 They will come through eventually

06:45:28.460 I just want to pause it

06:45:29.200 Just to get through

06:45:29.620 A couple segments here

06:45:30.440 So Andrew's actually

06:45:32.280 Squared off with you twice right

06:45:33.860 Or just once

06:45:34.820 Oh just one time

06:45:35.920 Okay

06:45:36.140 Yeah so they

06:45:37.200 You can go back

06:45:38.520 Watch the

06:45:39.240 Was it the first time

06:45:40.380 Or second time you were on

06:45:41.300 First

06:45:42.500 First time you squared up

06:45:44.200 With the Andrew

06:45:44.620 You wanna know

06:45:44.940 The most memorable moment

06:45:46.040 I was gonna bring it up

06:45:47.600 Was what

06:45:48.060 He said

06:45:48.800 You deserve a treat

06:45:49.680 Cause you're a good girl

06:45:50.600 You should

06:45:52.900 You should clip that

06:45:54.260 No people should

06:45:55.500 People watch back

06:45:56.580 To find it

06:45:56.680 Did you get excited

06:45:57.400 No I thought

06:45:58.320 That was weird as shit

06:45:59.140 I was like whoa

06:45:59.940 Is that

06:46:01.120 I live

06:46:02.180 He's like

06:46:02.760 Go complain

06:46:03.440 To your feminist friends

06:46:04.340 He said right after

06:46:05.340 I was like whoa

06:46:06.100 And she did

06:46:06.740 I don't even remember

06:46:07.980 I don't even remember

06:46:08.820 At the very end

06:46:10.080 At the very end

06:46:11.160 As we were walking

06:46:11.920 As they were walking

06:46:12.920 Off and everything

06:46:13.580 He was like

06:46:14.280 You know what

06:46:14.800 You deserve a treat

06:46:15.780 For being a good girl

06:46:16.540 Wait so

06:46:17.300 Natalie really wants me

06:46:19.260 To ask this question

06:46:20.040 When was World War I

06:46:22.800 1914 to 1918

06:46:24.600 Oh she did a research

06:46:25.840 When was

06:46:26.380 World War II

06:46:27.880 September 1st

06:46:29.120 1939

06:46:29.940 Can you tell us

06:46:30.600 September 2nd

06:46:31.320 1945

06:46:31.960 She started

06:46:32.760 Over here

06:46:33.520 Some shit

06:46:34.040 Hold on

06:46:34.460 Can you tell us

06:46:35.040 My dates for World War I

06:46:36.280 Wait of the actual

06:46:37.480 You want the actual days

06:46:38.320 Yeah the actual dates

06:46:39.440 Oh I already got the years

06:46:41.260 I don't know the dates

06:46:42.940 Maybe Axe and Allied Powers

06:46:45.300 Sure

06:46:46.020 You want Axe

06:46:47.060 But the dates for World War I

06:46:48.660 She

06:46:49.020 Can you do the dates first

06:46:51.460 So we know

06:46:52.180 Give us

06:46:52.880 Give me the year

06:46:54.280 Of the Vietnam War

06:46:55.700 Yeah

06:46:56.180 Well it's July 28th

06:46:57.460 And November 11th

06:46:58.800 For the Vietnam War

06:46:59.040 What years?

06:46:59.660 I'm talking World War I

06:47:02.860 Well Vietnamese War

06:47:03.540 Can you do Vietnam though

06:47:04.800 Vietnamese War

06:47:05.660 Can you do the 100 Years War?

06:47:07.040 No Vietnam War

06:47:07.920 What dates?

06:47:09.060 Can you do the 100 Years War?

06:47:10.040 Yeah I can

06:47:10.900 When US

06:47:12.420 Was in Vietnam

06:47:14.080 What years is that?

06:47:15.560 I was in the 70s

06:47:16.960 I don't know

06:47:17.600 1955 to the 1970s

06:47:19.880 Yeah

06:47:21.060 1975

06:47:21.560 20 Years

06:47:22.700 Listen we may have been

06:47:23.660 On WoW all night

06:47:24.320 But we were also

06:47:25.020 On the internet all night

06:47:25.860 Hey WoW was also

06:47:26.780 Released 2004

06:47:27.680 Thank you

06:47:28.280 World of Warcraft

06:47:29.980 2004

06:47:30.780 I'm proud of you

06:47:31.580 I'm proud of you

06:47:32.380 Well done

06:47:33.420 Jeez

06:47:34.020 Don't let these two come in

06:47:36.600 Up here

06:47:37.120 Aquatic donated

06:47:38.420 25 dollars

06:47:39.840 The girl next to Jojo

06:47:41.940 Do you use a credit card

06:47:43.620 To pay for everything

06:47:44.680 Like dates

06:47:45.600 And your Mercedes SUV?

06:47:48.520 Uh no

06:47:49.600 Hell yeah

06:47:51.120 Okay

06:47:51.680 Old Man Marine

06:47:52.720 Donated 25 dollars

06:47:54.620 How dare you

06:47:55.400 Missed most of the show

06:47:56.320 My apologies Brian

06:47:57.900 Trying to date again

06:47:59.400 I'll go back

06:48:00.520 And try and watch it though

06:48:02.040 Okay

06:48:02.400 Hoping Natalie

06:48:03.280 Spits some fire tonight

06:48:04.860 Alright Old Man Marine

06:48:07.420 Thank you man

06:48:07.840 Alright let's get through

06:48:08.620 This Bumble section

06:48:09.340 And then we're gonna

06:48:10.060 Wrap up the show

06:48:10.620 I paused the TTS

06:48:11.420 Just for us to get

06:48:12.320 Through the Bumble segment

06:48:13.080 And then we'll wrap up

06:48:14.580 The show

06:48:14.840 So go ahead Nick

06:48:15.520 So you get 20 swipes

06:48:17.440 You ready?

06:48:18.480 Oh god

06:48:18.920 Uh no

06:48:20.400 No

06:48:23.080 Look at that cake though

06:48:24.620 No

06:48:24.960 No

06:48:26.800 No

06:48:28.500 No

06:48:30.120 No

06:48:31.900 No

06:48:33.720 No

06:48:34.180 No

06:48:35.540 No

06:48:37.580 No

06:48:39.320 No

06:48:40.960 No

06:48:42.860 No

06:48:44.360 No

06:48:46.040 No

06:48:47.040 No

06:48:47.600 No

06:48:49.180 What

06:48:50.100 No

06:48:50.740 Come here

06:48:51.240 No

06:48:52.360 No

06:48:53.900 No

06:48:54.080 No

06:48:55.580 No

06:48:57.260 You should just go

06:48:58.260 Until she says yes

06:48:59.360 No I think we should

06:49:00.740 Just stop at 20

06:49:01.700 Can we not see their profiles

06:49:02.660 Though we're just seeing pictures

06:49:03.660 No

06:49:03.960 What if their profile pulls you in

06:49:05.420 No

06:49:05.540 No

06:49:06.040 No

06:49:07.460 How many is that

06:49:09.780 Are we keeping

06:49:10.380 Thank god

06:49:11.820 Okay

06:49:12.200 No you're

06:49:12.780 Keep going

06:49:13.220 Oh my god

06:49:13.700 She's not gonna say yes

06:49:14.860 No

06:49:15.200 No

06:49:16.220 Really

06:49:16.520 No

06:49:18.140 Are you just saying no

06:49:19.940 To say no

06:49:20.480 No no no

06:49:21.220 She's actually

06:49:21.960 She's being serious

06:49:22.700 For sure

06:49:23.100 We'll go to 50

06:49:24.720 And then

06:49:25.040 No

06:49:25.300 No

06:49:25.680 No

06:49:26.820 No

06:49:26.920 No

06:49:28.920 No

06:49:30.920 No

06:49:32.500 No

06:49:34.040 No

06:49:34.420 No

06:49:35.040 Isn't that the guy

06:49:36.080 That's in like

06:49:36.760 David Dobrik's box

06:49:38.220 No

06:49:38.520 That's what I thought

06:49:39.540 No

06:49:40.180 No

06:49:41.840 Kirby

06:49:42.600 No

06:49:43.300 One of them

06:49:44.240 No

06:49:44.640 Just one

06:49:45.360 I feel like you're saying no

06:49:46.620 Before it even shows up

06:49:47.840 No

06:49:48.120 No she's

06:49:48.500 Yeah we're only gonna have

06:49:50.320 Ugly guys to choose from now

06:49:51.840 She got all the good ones

06:49:53.060 She skipped through all the good ones

06:49:54.140 That's 0.50

06:49:54.820 So she finds less than 1% of men

06:49:57.000 That's not

06:49:57.500 Okay

06:49:58.040 Some of them were like

06:49:59.040 Covering their faces and stuff

06:50:00.260 And they were in group pictures

06:50:01.640 We didn't know who was who

06:50:03.260 You know what I mean

06:50:03.820 Alright

06:50:04.380 You're way too picky

06:50:05.240 Go ahead

06:50:05.780 We're gonna do you next

06:50:06.800 We need our age range

06:50:08.340 Yeah

06:50:08.760 Oh age range of guys you would date

06:50:10.640 And what was yours too

06:50:12.920 I said 21 to 30 but

06:50:15.420 Okay

06:50:15.840 Yeah

06:50:16.400 Go ahead

06:50:16.880 Age range

06:50:17.580 We'll stick with that

06:50:18.200 That's what mine is now I think

06:50:19.640 Okay

06:50:19.860 Go ahead Nick

06:50:20.460 Oh I guess we just keep it

06:50:21.880 As is yeah

06:50:22.460 No

06:50:23.580 Whoa

06:50:24.360 Yes

06:50:26.580 Ew

06:50:27.220 No

06:50:28.320 No

06:50:30.080 I don't even know who that is

06:50:32.960 No

06:50:33.360 Duh

06:50:34.740 No

06:50:34.960 Yes

06:50:37.340 Yeah we know her type

06:50:39.040 Um

06:50:39.960 Yes

06:50:40.720 Yep

06:50:41.300 No

06:50:42.740 No

06:50:44.800 He looks kind of pretty

06:50:46.100 Yes

06:50:46.840 Whoa

06:50:48.000 Um

06:50:48.680 Yeah

06:50:49.000 No

06:50:49.640 She's like save that one for later

06:50:51.720 No

06:50:52.200 Find me that guy

06:50:53.800 No

06:50:54.460 Someone send me the screenshot of that profile

06:50:55.960 No

06:50:56.540 No

06:50:59.000 No

06:51:01.020 Wow

06:51:02.220 No

06:51:02.800 Um unfortunately yeah

06:51:06.180 Yeah

06:51:06.720 You can't say yes to those

06:51:08.260 Cause they don't even face it

06:51:09.800 She said no

06:51:10.740 That's big

06:51:11.480 That's 20

06:51:12.320 Nicolette

06:51:12.980 That's a decent amount

06:51:13.880 Uh 26 to 45

06:51:16.720 Uh 26 to 45

06:51:16.800 No

06:51:25.520 No

06:51:25.700 No

06:51:27.520 Yes

06:51:29.640 No

06:51:31.740 No

06:51:33.600 No

06:51:35.360 No

06:51:38.240 No

06:51:38.740 No

06:51:40.860 No

06:51:42.860 Sure

06:51:45.580 No

06:51:48.540 No

06:51:48.620 No

06:51:50.420 No

06:51:52.040 No

06:51:54.040 No

06:51:55.800 Yes

06:51:57.680 Whoa

06:51:58.760 No

06:51:59.700 No

06:52:01.300 What

06:52:02.080 That looked like essay

06:52:06.740 No

06:52:07.400 Um

06:52:15.080 Like 25 to 30

06:52:16.680 I don't know who he is

06:52:26.880 Just pick the hottest guy

06:52:28.080 In any picture

06:52:29.120 Where there's multiple

06:52:29.620 Both no

06:52:30.100 No

06:52:30.920 No

06:52:32.740 Yeah

06:52:35.240 Damn it

06:52:36.520 No

06:52:37.260 No

06:52:39.180 Yeah

06:52:41.880 No

06:52:43.180 No

06:52:43.800 That's tantrum

06:52:45.020 That's

06:52:45.860 Shut up

06:52:46.440 No

06:52:46.960 No

06:52:48.620 No

06:52:48.680 No

06:52:50.520 No

06:52:52.320 I can't even see him

06:52:55.300 Dog what the hell is this question

06:52:56.760 No

06:52:57.120 No

06:52:58.920 I can see too much of him

06:53:00.960 No

06:53:01.120 No

06:53:03.620 Oh my god

06:53:04.260 It's a yes for me

06:53:05.160 No

06:53:05.540 No

06:53:07.360 No

06:53:09.240 That's funny

06:53:09.840 I'm gonna skip

06:53:12.940 But yeah

06:53:13.600 We'll go to you

06:53:14.120 Um

06:53:14.600 Let's go 23 to 40

06:53:16.180 Is that too big

06:53:18.520 Well

06:53:19.660 That's what she said

06:53:20.540 39 year olds

06:53:22.180 Would you date

06:53:22.660 Like a 40 girl

06:53:23.520 Yeah

06:53:24.220 Maybe

06:53:24.260 Yeah then that's fine

06:53:24.940 Um

06:53:26.180 No I can't see him

06:53:27.180 Yeah

06:53:28.500 Ew

06:53:29.260 Sorry

06:53:29.920 No

06:53:30.320 Yeah

06:53:32.320 Yeah

06:53:34.440 Really

06:53:35.380 No

06:53:36.160 Uh no

06:53:38.680 No

06:53:40.480 No

06:53:42.360 No

06:53:44.100 No

06:53:46.040 No

06:53:48.880 No

06:53:51.140 No

06:53:53.140 No

06:53:53.720 No

06:53:53.820 No

06:53:54.840 Yes

06:53:57.080 No

06:53:58.760 Yes

06:54:00.900 No

06:54:02.180 Yes

06:54:04.460 Do you two wanna do it

06:54:09.000 Uh out of respect for my husband

06:54:10.300 I'm gonna have to pass

06:54:11.400 So Natalie

06:54:12.060 Last with you

06:54:13.080 Uh like 30 to 45

06:54:16.340 45 you said

06:54:19.540 Yeah

06:54:20.320 She said 30, 45

06:54:21.420 Yeah

06:54:22.180 Damn

06:54:22.780 No

06:54:25.220 No

06:54:27.620 No

06:54:29.620 No

06:54:31.520 No

06:54:34.320 Ew no

06:54:36.620 Ew

06:54:37.120 Oh

06:54:38.060 Got a stray

06:54:38.960 No

06:54:39.220 I thought that was kind of attractive

06:54:42.060 No

06:54:43.160 Definitely not

06:54:45.480 Oh

06:54:46.160 It's Jesus

06:54:46.920 Jesus

06:54:47.540 That's Jesus

06:54:48.520 What the hell

06:54:49.360 No

06:54:49.880 Uh yeah

06:54:52.540 No

06:54:55.200 Ew

06:54:56.920 Ew

06:54:56.940 No

06:54:57.300 No

06:54:59.300 No

06:55:01.300 No

06:55:03.000 No

06:55:05.300 No

06:55:07.100 Was that all no's

06:55:09.600 No there was a yes

06:55:10.640 There was a couple yeses

06:55:11.640 There was one or two

06:55:12.540 There was two

06:55:13.100 You think any of these guys watch the pod and they're like

06:55:16.140 Damn

06:55:16.820 It's possible

06:55:17.480 It's possible

06:55:18.480 It always gets back to you

06:55:20.260 Damn

06:55:20.600 Dang

06:55:21.000 Pinky over here

06:55:22.880 No it's just that's why I don't date you know

06:55:24.480 I just get anxious

06:55:25.740 What does that have to do with anything

06:55:28.220 It has to do with everything

06:55:29.660 Don't worry about it

06:55:30.320 You can't pick them if you don't like them

06:55:31.740 You're too anxious to meet up with them

06:55:33.300 Cause I

06:55:33.720 I'll think about it for like three seconds

06:55:35.280 And I'm like

06:55:35.640 Didn't we review her dating app

06:55:36.600 Don't you have a dating app

06:55:37.580 Yeah I don't go on it

06:55:38.120 So is that

06:55:38.420 Is that what you do on your dating app

06:55:39.960 No

06:55:40.220 No

06:55:40.540 No

06:55:40.820 No

06:55:40.920 No

06:55:41.140 I don't go on it

06:55:42.080 Oh that's my favorite drinking game

06:55:43.260 No

06:55:43.300 No

06:55:43.580 No

06:55:43.880 My favorite drinking game is to swap you

06:55:46.160 I don't go on it

06:55:46.780 I had

06:55:47.360 I downloaded it for a day

06:55:48.420 Way too picky

06:55:49.060 For a day

06:55:49.540 And then I just

06:55:50.360 Way too picky

06:55:51.200 Well I don't go on it

06:55:52.060 I don't go on it

06:55:52.800 I don't go on it

06:55:53.740 Y'all way too picky

06:55:55.660 How am I picky if I don't go on it

06:55:56.920 That's necessarily true

06:55:57.740 You showed us 20 men

06:55:58.800 Way too picky

06:55:59.100 Like you can swipe all day long

06:56:00.260 Way too picky

06:56:00.720 Okay so

06:56:01.260 Final question

06:56:02.240 Going around the table

06:56:03.200 Do you think you'll be better looking

06:56:04.260 Or do you think you're better looking now

06:56:06.060 Or will you be better looking in 10 years time

06:56:08.400 Depends where technology goes

06:56:10.880 Let's assume

06:56:12.200 How much Botox can I get

06:56:13.760 How much Botox can I get

06:56:15.240 Yeah

06:56:15.580 I hope so

06:56:17.060 Okay

06:56:18.060 But that doesn't answer the question

06:56:19.340 Then yes

06:56:20.380 So at 31 you'll be better looking

06:56:22.660 Than you are now at 21

06:56:24.180 31's cool

06:56:24.780 I think it's gonna make more sense for me

06:56:26.660 Yeah

06:56:26.920 I think it'll get better looking

06:56:28.700 That doesn't make sense

06:56:29.420 It makes sense to me

06:56:30.440 Okay let's go

06:56:31.200 What about 41

06:56:32.460 No

06:56:33.760 Not 41

06:56:34.420 I think so yes

06:56:36.200 So you're 24

06:56:36.980 You'll be better looking at 34

06:56:38.160 Than you are now at 24

06:56:39.040 Yes

06:56:39.760 Okay what about 44

06:56:40.680 No

06:56:41.480 Okay

06:56:41.900 What about you

06:56:42.580 Right now for me

06:56:43.660 Yeah

06:56:44.540 Yeah

06:56:45.060 Right now for sure

06:56:46.220 Okay

06:56:46.740 I'm already wrinkly as hell

06:56:47.900 Madison

06:56:47.920 Yeah no

06:56:49.040 No

06:56:50.020 I think

06:56:50.760 So better looking now

06:56:52.520 Yeah

06:56:53.340 Okay

06:56:53.800 Better looking now

06:56:54.940 Better looking now

06:56:56.320 No

06:56:56.780 Alright cool

06:56:57.740 Alright guys we're gonna let these last few messages come through

06:57:00.180 And then we're gonna wrap up the show

06:57:01.860 I'll do a twitch rate

06:57:02.640 Natalie wins donated $25

06:57:04.520 Natalie will handle Steve's podcast just fine

06:57:08.500 Send my regards to Steve

06:57:10.820 Thank you

06:57:11.300 Total bullshit

06:57:12.120 We only have a few more months till this shit ends

06:57:15.800 Illinois boy donated $25

06:57:19.820 My rofellacopter goes

06:57:22.320 Soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soi soo soi soi soi soi soi soi soi

06:57:28.100 Thank you Illinois boy

06:57:30.640 I appreciate it

06:57:31.660 Up here, Aquatic donated $25

06:57:35.420 Brian, do a poll in chat

06:57:37.920 To see if your viewers actually want to see the Bumble section

06:57:41.480 Because most of them seem like they don't want to see it

06:57:44.880 Start

06:57:45.960 I think it's interesting, but

06:57:47.500 Old Man Marine donated $25

06:57:50.140 Starting from Blue Top with really nice cleavage

06:57:53.900 Thank BTW

06:57:55.260 Yes, no, heck no, nah, yes, eh yes, no, yes

06:58:01.420 Yes, and sure why not

06:58:04.160 Luke Warm donated $25

06:58:07.740 Brian with beard equals Hagrid from Harry Potter

06:58:11.880 Brian without beard equals year one Harry Potter

06:58:15.260 From Harry Potter Wingardium Levi Rogstia

06:58:18.100 I have no idea what that means, but

06:58:20.820 I think I should be offended

06:58:23.180 Any plans for Chase in the future, Brian?

06:58:26.580 Natalie, fuck the haters, I loved your presence here

06:58:29.400 Keep fighting the good fight

06:58:31.400 If he wants to come back on, he can come back on

06:58:36.140 A burning bush donated $25

06:58:37.780 What's up, Brian?

06:58:40.500 First time chatting

06:58:41.900 Thank you, burning bush

06:58:42.540 Been a huge fan for the last year

06:58:44.520 Keep killing it

06:58:45.800 BTW, I'm the one who said I'd die for Jojo

06:58:49.440 I'd literally get on my knees and bark like a dog for you

06:58:52.980 Mail sign

06:58:54.200 Bucky Larson donated $40

06:58:57.580 Thank you, thank you, thank you

06:58:58.580 Brian, I come home from working in a 100-degree auto factory

06:59:02.460 And I see Nicolette the Strumpet

06:59:04.340 Also let me know if you want me to send you a drug test kit for the Canadian

06:59:09.080 Dialedin0430 donated $25

06:59:13.760 Sex and Circumcision

06:59:16.140 An American love story by Eric Klopper is a bulletproof case against

06:59:20.580 Two hours long and available on YouTube RN

06:59:23.980 Educate yourselves and make sure you never essay your future male infants

06:59:29.080 Yeah, I'm against circumcision

06:59:32.540 So, yeah

06:59:33.700 Bad

06:59:35.700 Bad

06:59:36.440 So, also, Sean Erickson, you sent in

06:59:39.380 Here's what I'm going to do

06:59:40.860 I'm going to put that on pause

06:59:42.480 I'll get through the outro

06:59:43.340 Sean Erickson, you did send me a message

06:59:45.220 I did want to read it because it was interesting

06:59:46.620 Directed to the brunette in the blue

06:59:48.280 Who will not give up her indoctrination

06:59:50.360 He says, I can tell you having spent 13 straight hours in heavy combat

06:59:54.640 There's not one woman dead on the battlefield or in this village

06:59:57.880 I lost a few friends

06:59:59.280 And about 130 enemy combatants scattered around

07:00:01.940 Either blown up by explosives

07:00:03.680 Almost cut in half

07:00:04.760 By machine gun

07:00:05.900 Fire

07:00:06.620 Heads

07:00:07.140 Blowing off limbs

07:00:08.160 Blowing off

07:00:09.220 L

07:00:11.720 You live in the first world and have no idea what a bear or what a combat would look like

07:00:15.520 Where does he live?

07:00:18.840 Hmm?

07:00:19.220 Where does he live?

07:00:20.160 I have no idea

07:00:20.960 I'm assuming the United States

07:00:22.060 But he was overseas somewhere for combat things

07:00:25.280 So, boom

07:00:27.700 Roasted

07:00:28.160 Checkmate

07:00:28.680 Owned

07:00:29.580 Destroyed

07:00:30.180 Wrecked

07:00:30.940 Okay, cool

07:00:33.100 We're going to do

07:00:34.020 Nick, we're going to do Raid

07:00:34.960 Thank you guys, everybody for watching

07:00:36.720 Be sure to

07:00:38.700 Hold on one sec

07:00:39.940 Let me get that pulled up

07:00:40.840 GG

07:00:42.100 Well played to the panel

07:00:43.220 Last call

07:00:43.660 Hit the like button please

07:00:44.480 On your way out

07:00:45.200 Thank you for tuning in tonight

07:00:46.240 You could have been anywhere in the world

07:00:47.140 But you're here with me

07:00:47.920 I appreciate that

07:00:48.980 Thank you to everyone who soup chats

07:00:49.980 Donates, supports the show

07:00:51.060 Really appreciate it

07:00:52.120 We'll be live again Sunday

07:00:53.880 Unless we do a test stream on Twitch

07:00:56.860 Speaking of which

07:00:57.560 Nick, could you pull up Twitch really quick

07:00:58.640 Guys, go to twitch.tv slash whatever

07:01:01.000 Drop us a follow in a Prime sub

07:01:02.940 If you have one

07:01:03.600 Twitch.tv slash whatever

07:01:04.720 Drop us a follow in a Prime sub

07:01:06.060 If you have one

07:01:06.480 Guys, it's been

07:01:06.960 It's been almost an hour

07:01:09.040 Since Prime sub's come in

07:01:10.120 I think it's broken

07:01:11.240 I think our Twitch account

07:01:13.720 It's bugged

07:01:14.660 It's broken

07:01:15.140 Can you get somebody

07:01:16.200 Just check and see

07:01:17.100 If like a Prime can come in

07:01:18.920 And also guys

07:01:19.720 Drop us a follow in a Prime sub

07:01:20.600 Maddie's going to be doing

07:01:21.380 Exclusive streams

07:01:22.560 We're going to be starting

07:01:23.360 Doing IRL stuff

07:01:24.460 On Twitch

07:01:25.100 Exclusive

07:01:25.800 Bringing the whatever podcast

07:01:27.460 To the street

07:01:28.340 So we need you guys

07:01:28.980 To go over there

07:01:29.520 And follow Sage

07:01:30.340 Thanks for the Prime

07:01:30.940 Appreciate it

07:01:31.600 Lastly

07:01:33.200 Okay

07:01:35.020 Any girls who want to be on the show

07:01:36.080 DM out whatever

07:01:36.640 On Instagram

07:01:37.100 If you can make it to Santa Barbara

07:01:38.360 I'm going to do a Twitch raid

07:01:39.900 Give me just a moment

07:01:41.260 To do that

07:01:41.820 Nick, if you can get

07:01:42.560 Who are we going to raid on Twitch

07:01:44.260 We could do

07:01:46.060 Whoa, Grandma

07:01:46.740 She's online

07:01:47.540 S fan

07:01:48.700 We've been doing

07:01:53.000 Whoa, Grandma

07:01:53.540 A lot

07:01:54.300 Let's just do

07:01:59.520 Let's do Whoa, Grandma

07:02:00.420 Alright guys

07:02:02.800 She's like 82

07:02:03.480 She plays World of Warcraft

07:02:05.120 She's playing

07:02:05.560 World of Warcraft

07:02:06.480 Retail

07:02:07.380 We're going to do a raid

07:02:08.380 Be nice to her

07:02:09.360 And Nick

07:02:11.320 Just get that pulled up

07:02:12.140 And then we'll do a raid

07:02:13.520 Over there on Twitch

07:02:15.400 Yes

07:02:17.400 And give us one sec

07:02:20.020 Guys

07:02:20.380 We're going to send you guys

07:02:21.480 Over to her

07:02:22.420 In just a moment

07:02:24.040 I love her

07:02:25.280 82

07:02:26.460 Still going strong

07:02:28.120 Alright

07:02:28.420 Thank you guys for watching

07:02:29.340 On Twitch

07:02:29.700 Really appreciate it

07:02:30.500 I'm sending out the raid

07:02:32.180 To her now

07:02:33.380 Thank you guys for tuning in

07:02:34.660 On Twitch

07:02:35.220 Drop us a follow

07:02:35.960 In a Prime sub

07:02:37.000 Before I send you guys over

07:02:38.140 But yeah

07:02:38.440 Thank you guys for watching

07:02:39.200 On Twitch

07:02:39.580 Hope you guys enjoy

07:02:41.020 The rest of your night

07:02:42.740 Thank you guys

07:02:43.340 Alright

07:02:44.600 That should be sent

07:02:45.480 What is she

07:02:46.060 She's playing

07:02:46.580 She's flying around

07:02:47.660 Look at this

07:02:48.540 I can't wait to get him out

07:02:49.980 She's playing retail

07:02:51.520 I'm so excited to get him out

07:02:53.260 I don't

07:02:54.080 Honestly

07:02:54.640 I'm more of a classic Andy

07:02:55.920 I'm playing

07:02:56.360 We're playing

07:02:56.740 We're playing classic

07:02:57.520 Cata right now

07:02:58.160 I don't even fuck with

07:02:59.540 Cata

07:03:00.340 What

07:03:01.860 Why not

07:03:02.900 Era

07:03:03.380 All day

07:03:04.280 Every day

07:03:04.900 Whatever

07:03:05.520 Whatever

07:03:06.100 Is raiding

07:03:07.560 Yo

07:03:08.040 What's up

07:03:08.860 Whoa grandma

07:03:09.280 Welcome again

07:03:10.280 Whatever

07:03:10.760 Thank you

07:03:11.760 Thank you

07:03:12.120 Thank you

07:03:12.640 That's sweet

07:03:13.860 Thank you

07:03:14.400 Whoa grandma

07:03:14.840 That's cute

07:03:15.900 I like her mouse

07:03:16.380 Thank you

07:03:16.640 Whoa grandma

07:03:17.080 Her mouse

07:03:17.860 Yeah you see

07:03:18.460 There's like a trail

07:03:19.440 She's cooking

07:03:21.040 Right now

07:03:21.720 Oh yeah

07:03:22.380 That's cool

07:03:22.840 That's cool

07:03:23.360 Anyways

07:03:24.040 So cool

07:03:25.020 We got that raid

07:03:25.880 Going off

07:03:27.120 You can exile that

07:03:28.840 There's

07:03:29.300 One chat that came in

07:03:30.920 And then we'll wrap

07:03:31.680 Charlie Tanner

07:03:33.000 Donated $50

07:03:34.020 I would like to help

07:03:35.920 If I can beyond donations

07:03:37.420 This is Robert Charlie Tanner

07:03:39.900 Let me know

07:03:41.220 Let me know

07:03:42.260 If I could reach out

07:03:43.600 This is the guy

07:03:44.940 Working 20 hours

07:03:46.160 So still on

07:03:47.520 What do you do for work man

07:03:48.380 You're welcome to shoot

07:03:49.080 The whatever

07:03:49.620 Instagram a DM

07:03:50.440 And you know

07:03:52.000 We can see

07:03:52.480 But

07:03:53.220 Let me see

07:03:54.460 If there's anything else

07:03:55.600 I think we're all

07:03:57.020 All good

07:03:59.220 I think we got through

07:04:00.440 Pretty much everything

07:04:01.640 Call to action

07:04:03.220 Here at the end of the show

07:04:04.100 Are you willing to stop

07:04:05.160 Your OnlyFans

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07:04:17.820 But you still

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07:04:19.060 Anyway

07:04:19.300 Captain 501 SD

07:04:21.340 Donated $25

07:04:22.800 It's now my bidet

07:04:24.940 But I wanted to donate

07:04:26.100 For the first time

07:04:27.160 To the podcast

07:04:27.640 Thank you man

07:04:27.920 Appreciate the first time

07:04:28.700 Donation

07:04:29.080 Great panel

07:04:29.500 Keep up the great stuff

07:04:31.180 Are you willing to stop

07:04:32.860 Your OnlyFans

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07:04:36.860 Yeah

07:04:37.640 What is that

07:04:39.160 That thing

07:04:39.700 No

07:04:41.040 Okay

07:04:41.580 Well with that said

07:04:42.500 I tried boys

07:04:43.080 I tried

07:04:43.540 I tried to

07:04:44.340 You know

07:04:45.240 Call to action

07:04:46.880 Whatever

07:04:47.220 Whatever

07:04:47.620 It was a token attempt

07:04:48.880 Anyways

07:04:49.300 Thank you guys for tuning in

07:04:50.820 07's in the chat

07:04:52.500 07's in the chat

07:04:54.000 I hope you guys have a great night

07:04:55.120 Thank you for tuning in

07:04:56.220 And we will see you guys Sunday

07:04:59.400 Thank you guys

Whatever Podcast - June 19, 2024

ONLY 1% Of Men Attractive？! She ONLY Dates Narcissists？! Men Are LAZY？! E-GIRLS! ｜ Dating Talk #171

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